(Original post by markova21)
Is there any way you can be a bit sneaky and get a look at his phone/Facebook etc while he's asleep?

This is why relationships breakup. There's no trust anymore, it's all, "Oh girl you gotta look through his phone, Facebook and Instagram because that's your right to try and confirm a little suspicion because of your own insecurities". It's not your right to do that all all, why can't you just behave like an adult and ask the person you're with? When the boyfriend finds out the girl has invaded his privacy because she didn't trust him, who's to blame then? Is it still the guy who might not have actually done anything wrong on the first place?

(Original post by Glassapple)
This is why relationships breakup. There's no trust anymore, it's all, "Oh girl you gotta look through his phone, Facebook and Instagram because that's your right to try and confirm a little suspicion because of your own insecurities". It's not your right to do that all all, why can't you just behave like an adult and ask the person you're with? When the boyfriend finds out the girl has invaded his privacy because she didn't trust him, who's to blame then? Is it still the guy who might not have actually done anything wrong on the first place?

I agree with you, absolutely. But personally if I found a used condom belonging to my boyfriend in his bedroom and I knew nothing about it, I would want to know exactly what type of person I was in a relationship with. If it transpires it has some completely innocent explanation then fair enough. It works both ways, you know . If a man suspected his partner of infidelity and found evidence to support this I would think it perfectly acceptable to find out the truth, whatever way then can, and then proceed accordingly with more facts to confront the partner with.