It goes without saying that no one is born with an innate capacity for great sex and when you look back at your very first sex experience, you’d realize that it was different from what you experience today. You may wonder how but the truth is that sex is learned. In your daily life, you may happen to meet couples who enjoy fabulous sex lives regardless of the fact that they have a couple of kids and getting older. The secret is the tricks they use to make each other satisfied in bed and if you are wondering what these could be, relax as we tell you what they are.

Great sex begins with good communication

It is true that people cannot read each other’s mind and that’s why it is important to share what you like and what you don’t with your partner. It doesn’t necessarily mean that you must wait until you get in bed to express your feelings, as you can do it anywhere at any time. However, when you do get down to business, don’t feel shy to talk to your partner. For instance, tell your partner where you feel great when touched and where you don’t like to be touched. When close to orgasm, talk to each other and let your partner know. For instance, a woman should tell her spouse when she is close to orgasm as this can prepare the man’s mind to get to climax together.

Avoid routine

Doing the same thing over and over again leads to boredom and when adults get into a sexual routine and have sex in the same position, same time and place, sex becomes lackluster. However, you can make your sex life great again by making out spontaneously such as in the morning before heading to work and in the evening before supper; do it in different parts of the house such as on the couch, in the kitchen or bathroom; try different positions and this will spice your sex lives.

Focus on foreplay

It goes without saying that men and women are different and so are their sexual needs. Whereas men switch into sex mode immediately, women need more time to get into the sex mode. If you’d like both of you to get satisfied, concentrate on foreplay. For instance, you can send text messages to each other before getting home and prepare each other’s mind for sex. Buy her chocolate and tell her to wear her best nightdress. When you get home, kiss her and after dinner take a warm shower together. Take her to bed and focus on foreplay. Start with deep kissing and let each other’s hands and tongue do their job effectively. When a man is on top licking the nipples, the woman’s hands should careless his balls and buttocks. Change positions from time to time and let her give you a blowjob as you careless her boobs.

Experience another adventure using sex toys

With technology at its best, any adult has never been happier like he or she is today and if both of you are determined to take your sex life at a higher level, introduce sex toys in your bedroom. There are a variety of toys available in the market today and both of you should look them together online and decide which one to try out first. When this is done together, both of you understand each other’s preferences as well as what to buy to enhance your orgasm.