Finally Revealed: Exactly What To Say To Get Him To Listen To You, Love You, And Appreciate You…

By Marni Kinrys, relationship expert and bestselling author of That’s Not How Men Work & The Wing Girl Method

Dear friend,

My name is Marni Kinrys, a.k.a. the Wing Girl…

Over the last decade, I have worked as a Wing Girl to THOUSANDS of men…

And this has allowed me to discover first-hand what turns a guy ON, what turns him OFF, and what makes him want to commit to a woman for LIFE…

And that’s why today, I am going to share with you my powerful ‘alpha code’ secrets about how to talk to men, that will change EVERY aspect of your love life - whether you are single or in a relationship…

Including the spoken (and unspoken) things that men NEED to hear from you, to feel not just intensely ATTRACTED to you, but to feel a deep emotional connection with you...

This is the secret ‘alpha code’ to opening the heart of even the most unemotional man…

And as soon as you use these secrets in your love life, your relationships with men will transform, almost overnight…

If you’re in a relationship, your man will automatically start to LISTEN to you, LOVE you, and APPRECIATE you more than you’d ever thought possible…

He will be bending over backwards to take care of you, and satisfy your every need… because he knows now that no other woman could ever really ‘GET him’ like you do…

And, if you’re single, you can use these secrets to instantly ignite chemistry with any man you meet, and make him see you as the ONE woman he’s been searching his whole life for…

If this is what you want (and I KNOW this is what you want!)…

Then I want you to pay close attention right now, because woman-to-woman, I can tell you firsthand that these secrets are going to change your relationships with men forever…

Once you unlock his “alpha code”,EVERYTHING is going to change…

You’ll have a moreexciting dating life, because now you find it easy to initiate engaging conversation with ANY man you meet…

You’ll feel more appreciated and admired by your man (or by ANY man you meet), because of the incredibly sexy way that you can now speak to him in HIS language, yet retain your femininity at the same time…

You’ll develop a closer emotional bond with your man, because now he feels that you really “get him”, and he feels safe opening up to you…

You’ll have a happier home life, because now you feel you’re on the same page with everything, and when an issue comes up you work through it together…

You’ll enjoy anexplosive sex life (think more frequent orgasms for you, and an off the charts sex life for him!)…

And the best thing is, you can use these alpha code secrets to start transforming your relationships with men as soon as tonight!

Now, before you say, ‘Marni, I’ve tried everything with men and I just don’t know if this will work for me’, let me promise you from my first-hand experience that these secrets WILL transform your love life…

EVEN if you feel like your husband or boyfriend doesn’t pay attention to you anymore…

EVEN if your man is the strong & silent type who doesn’t like to open up and talk about his feelings…

EVEN if you’re a busy Mom and you feel like your relationship is on the backburner…

And EVEN if you’re 50 and have been single for the last five years, and don’t know the first thing about how to go about attracting a man!

First, Here’s What You NEED To Know:

The truth is, the ONE thing that determines the strength of your relationship long-term…

The ONE thing that can turn a burning chemistry into lasting love…

And the ONE thing that, if done in the RIGHT way, can make a man lower his defenses and fall helplessly in love with you…

…Is how well you speak your man’s LANGUAGE.

This may not sound shocking to you… after all, we’ve all heard before about how communication is important… but seriously, do you know just HOW important it is?

I don’t want to scare you, but…

Here are 3 SHOCKINGcommunication truthsevery woman should know…

#1: A lack of effective communication is the #1 cause of divorce

Did you think that cheating or money problems were the number one reasons for marriage break ups? Think again.

Lifestyle website YourTango.com surveyed 100 therapists, counselors, psychologists, and social workers, to gain insights into the relationship behaviors which lead to divorce…

The results? A whopping 72% of therapists listed “communication problems” as the #1 reason couples seek therapy, and 65% agreed that communication problems were also the biggest underlying reason for divorce.

So, what does this mean for YOU?

As unsexy as it sounds; clear, effective communication is truly the most vital aspect of your relationship, especially if you want to have a love that LASTS.

#2: “Emotional dissatisfaction” is the #1 reason why men cheat

There’s nothing more painful than imagining your husband or boyfriend fantasizing about another woman, and worse yet, going behind your back to sleep with her.

But, do you know the #1 REASON why men cheat?

It turns out it isn’t actually about the sex.

Counselor and author of The Truth About Cheating M. Gary Newman surveyed over 100 cheating husbands to uncover the honest, unspoken TRUTH of why men cheat…

And what he found was that only 8% of men cheated because they were sexually dissatisfied in their relationship.

Instead…

The survey showed that the #1 reason why men cheat is because they are emotionally dissatisfied in their relationship.

This result may come as a shock to you… that cheating usually actually ISN’T about the sex…

But from my experience as Wing Girl this actually made total sense to me… as I know first-hand how much men NEED to feel appreciated, respected and loved by their wives -even if they aren’t always great at communicating that.

When a man isn’t feeling this level of appreciation, that’s when he can end up falling for someone else (e.g. a flirtatious coworker).
Ouch.
But if you look at it another way, this is actually GOOD news.

Because making your man feel loved and appreciated is something you can do something about (hint: it all comes down to well you understand his ‘alpha code’!)

#3. Men rate communication skills as more important than a woman’s body shape when it comes to long-term love!

We all know that physical attraction is the very first thing that makes you look at a guy and think ‘WOW, I want to get to know him’.

And this is even more true for men, who are exceptionally visual creatures.

But, when it comes to getting serious and forming a long-term relationship, it turns out that guys want a lot more than what they see on the surface.

And that’s why, when men were asked what makes them want to stay with a woman in a YourTango.com poll, communication skills were ranked as more important to men that physical traits like “body type”!

So, what does this tell us?

That just as much as you do, men want a wife or girlfriend who they can talk about their problems with, laugh with, and feel appreciated, listened to, and loved by...

…And experience that feeling of; ‘Wow, she really GETS me’.

When a man finds this kind of woman, this is what makes him think; ‘I can really picture a future with her’.

Whether you’re single or in a relationship, communication is the KEY to being (and staying) happy, passionate, fulfilled, sexually satisfied, and emotionally intimate with your man…

So, let me ask you…

Are you tired of your man looking around (instead of making eye contact with you) when you’re trying to talk to him about something important?

Are you tired of wondering if he’s serious about being in a relationship with you, or just seriously wanting to sleep with you?

Do you get sick of the miscommunications in your relationship, and want the magic formula for clear, direct, he-gets-it-communication?

Have you tried talking to your boyfriend, love interest or husband about a problem and despite your best effort to get through to him, he shuts down and emotionally withdraws?

Have you started dating someone new, and you want to know exactly how he feels about you but don’t know how to decipher his mixed messages?

Do you run into the same conflict over and over again with your husband, because he just doesn’t GET what you’re saying?

Does it drive you crazy that the guy you’re seeing watches endless hours of sports commentary, hogs the remote, or ‘fixes’ your problems when all you want him to do is listen?

If you answered “YES” to ANY of these questions, you’ve come to the right place!

So... why is it so darn HARD to communicate with MEN?

I get it, believe me. As women, we tend to be naturally in tune with our emotions, and being great communicators is our birthright…

But trying to communicate how you feel to a man you love, or trying to get HIM to open up to you, can feel like you are negotiating a minefield.

It doesn’t matter if it’s a man you’ve just met, or a man you’ve been married to for 15 years… you can STILL have painful, awkward, and frustrating misunderstandings…

So, why is this?

It’s not that men aren’t feeling all those same emotions as you are. In fact, from my experience I can tell you that most men are much more sensitive than they like to let on…

But, I guess the best way to describe it is that men see (and hear) the world through a different lens…

While we tend to use a lot of emotional expression and detail, men are very physical, visual, and straight to the point in their communication…

And when it comes to expressing how they feel, men often do this WITHOUT even speaking out loud… with little touches and gestures that are all part of their love language (you just need to know how to spot it)…

And that’s why, when men get bombarded with emotional language, they can suddenly go into ‘defense mode’… because they just don’t know how to PROCESS it.

But, here’s the thing…

If you can unlock a man’s ‘alpha code’, and communicate with him in a way that HE can understand and respond to…

You will be able to connect with him in ways you have never experienced before (not JUST emotionally, but physically and sexually, too)…

(Trust me, there is nothing more INCREDIBLE than feeling this level of connection with the man you love)…

OK, OK, Marni. I get it. Learning his love language is the KEY to having a loving, passionate, out-of-this-world relationship…

But, how do I unlock his alpha code, and start communicating with my man in a way that makes him want ME more than anything?

Well, let me start by telling you my story…

As you know, my name is Marni Kinrys. And I am a Wing Girl to tens of thousands of men all over the world(and have been for over a decade).

On top of all this, I am very happily married, and the mother of a beautiful 2 year old boy.

Being a Wing Girl For Men Has Been The Most Eye-Opening Experience of My Life…

When I first started out as a Wing Girl, I was floored at the hundreds of responses from men that immediately came FLOODING in.

So many men wanted to know how to attract, date, and seduce women… and I’m not just talking about ‘creeps’ or ‘weirdos’ here… these were actually amazing men who just had no clue about how to go about attracting women.

So, I single handedly set about helping these men to navigate the murky female waters and seduce the women they wanted - without being jerks.

I explained to them how women work and how to understand US… in a way that THEY could understand.

Being in this unique position allowed me to get inside a man’s mind, understand what turns him on, what turns him off… and ultimately what gives him the desire to love a woman for life…

And I realized that, while I was teaching these amazing, intelligent men how to understand WOMEN, I was learning SO much about how to understand MEN…

Now I could see the world through a MAN’s eyes… understand what THEY hear when they are talking to women… and see how THEY experience and communicate love…

And I realized that, deep down, men want the same things women do - to feel heard, understood and appreciated…

Gradually, I started to understand the special, unique language that MEN use to communicate their love and attraction, which I dubbed the ‘alpha code’…

Including the unique things that men NEED to hear from a woman to feel wanted and loved by her…

As a Wing Girl, I never thought that I would be the one taking on advice, BUT…

Being able to see things from a guy’s perspective was now making me think about my OWN relationship…

And I realized that at home, I wasn’t saying (or doing) enough of the things my husband NEEDED to hear from me to feel appreciated and loved by me as a MAN...

Sure, we had a good marriage, but now I could understand WHY he sometimes seemed moody and withdrawn, out of the blue…

…Because I wasn’t tuning in and communicating with him in HIS love language…

But now, that’s all changed…

Now, I make SURE to remind him of how amazing he is every day… by showing him my love in a very special way that he LOVES (I call it my ‘Sensual Seductress’ method)…

Now, I feel comfortable bringing up any relationship issues, because I know exactly how to lower my husband’s defenses (using something I call my ‘Disagreement Diffuser’)...

And now, whenever I share a problem with him, I use my ‘Mr Supportive’ phrases to show him that he IS helping me fix the problem, just by giving me his support (rather than me getting mad when he used to try and ‘fix’ everything for me)…

And the best part is, I discovered that once you start communicating with your man in the way that HE responds to, this produces an automatic response in the way HE communicates with you…

I have seriously never felt more loved, appreciated, and understood by my husband… and it is all because of the amazing insights I have learned as a Wing Girl.

So, all this got me thinking… I was helping so many men to find love and fulfilment, but…

‘What about WOMEN?’

I realized I know knew things about men that most women NEVER get to discover, simply because of my unique experience of working with SO MANY MEN…

And hearing first-hand what turns a guy ON, and what makes him want to commit to a woman for LIFE…

I knew that this information could help so many women to completely transform the way they communicate and CONNECT with men…

(Because, unfortunately, none of us were born instinctively knowing how to decipher the ‘alpha code’…)

At first, I didn’t know if it was ethical or not…

I had spent so many years as a Wing Girl to men - was it really right to start sharing what I’d learned with women? Yet, was it right NOT to share it?

After a lot of internal debate, I decided to boil down everything I knew into a simple, yet powerful step-by-step guide for women, to give them the insider help they needed, WITHOUT compromising my clients’ privacy in any way…

It was my aim that you could use this cheat-sheet to cultivate the kind of relationship with your husband, boyfriend, or love interest that other women can only DREAM of having…

So that you could unlock your man’s ‘alpha code’ and talk to him effortlessly about anything, simply by following a few simple steps…

I worked tirelessly on this for months, dredging up memory after memory of everything I’d learnt from my male clients…

And when I’d finished, I even asked my husband to check over what I’d written, to make sure that everything I was teaching was exactly what men wanted (and NEEDED) to hear…

Finally, my secret Alpha Code communication cheat-sheet was finished, bulging at the seams with secrets and insights that ALL women need to know…

Including specific examples of how to…

Ask a guy out with confidence (or get him to ask YOU out)…

Get things to progress to the next level with your boyfriend…

Communicate YOUR needs to your husband or boyfriend, and make him bend-over-backwards to fulfill them…

Tell your man how you feel about him, without freaking him out...

Bring up a sticky topic with your husband without offending him…

Tell him exactly what he NEEDS to hear, to feel wanted and needed by you in your relationship (without coming across as ‘needy’)…

Get your man to open up and tell you how he feels…

Make him feel like you’re the ONE woman he’s waited a lifetime for…

Re-spark the love, passion, and connection in your relationship, so that he never wants to leave your side…

I started out by just giving it to some of my close friends… and I was AMAZED at the response!

One of my friends, Claire, who often froze up around men and found it hard to relax and be her true self, started using my ‘Instant Intimacy’ method to flirt with the men she was dating, without coming across as needy or desperate.

Now, she’s been on five dates with a sweet, handsome man called John, and he’s already talked about her moving in!

And then there was my cousin Julia who, like me, was sick of having to nag her husband. She started using my ‘Reverse Nagging’ trick to communicate what she needed from him, in a way that he actually responded positively to.

After just two weeks of using this trick, she excitedly rang me and told me that things couldn’t be MORE different in her household… Now, things just get done without her having to ask… and she said that her hubby has been so loving and attentive lately, that it feels like a whole new relationship!

Soon, my ‘cheat sheet’ was getting passed around to more and more of the women I knew (and all of their friends, Moms, and sisters)…

And it didn’t seem to matter whether they were single, married, or in a new relationship… everyone who used it said it completely changed how they talked to men, and made a PROFOUND difference in their relationship…

Seeing the impact it had, I knew I had to make this cheat-sheet available to women everywhere who really needed it, as otherwise I would be doing them a BIG disservice…

So, I called it…

Say This To Men!

(A Cheat Sheet To Simple, Effective Communication That Gets Men To LISTEN to you, LOVE you, and APPRECIATE you)

This tell-all book PLUS audio edition was designed to bridge a big communication gap for many women…

How to talk to men in a way that makes him not just listen to you, but emotionally respond to you…

From all of my experience as a Wing Girl, I expose the truth of how men think, what they really want, and most of all… what they NEED to hear from you in order to fall helplessly in love with you, for life.

Think of me as your personal insight into the male brain, giving you attraction and communication techniques that work on men, because I work with them firsthand every single day…

In every eye-opening section of the book, you will discover specific, invaluable examples of what to say (and what NOT to say) to men in almost ANY dating or relationship situation…

The truth is, I wish I had a book like this when I was dating my husband all those years ago. It would have been just the blueprint I needed to thrive in my relationship!

And with the added audio edition you have the convenience of being able to listen to all of the Say This To Men! secrets on the go…

Simply download the files to your device and listen to the book whenever you want… In your car on your way to work, on your ipod when you’re out walking, or even in bed at night!

Here’s Just A Tiny TASTE Of The Alpha Code Secrets You Are Going To Discover In ‘Say This To Men!’…

First, you’ll discover my Instant Intimacymethod which teaches you how to flirt with that cute, funny stranger you’ve just met and let him know you’re interested…

…WITHOUT coming across as “pushy” or “desperate” (do this and you will instantly be MILES ahead of the other women competing for his attention)

And if you’ve just started dating someone, you’ll LOVE my 8 Forward MomentumPhrases for telling him what you want, WITHOUT freaking him out…

The truth is, a good man who likes you won’t get scared off easily—but he may get scared by the way you communicate…

That’s why I’ve put together specific phrases you can use to express what you want in your relationship, without freaking him out about it!

Next, you’ll discover my Clockwork Timing method, which gives you an almost supernatural ability to know exactly the right time to bring up something important with your man…

So that his defenses will be lowered, you will have his full attention, and he will LISTEN to you with understanding and love…

(No more looking away, defensiveness, or stonewalling responses)

Next, do you sometimes get frustrated when you man tries to ‘fix’ your problems when all you want him to do is listen?

You’ll love my Mr Supportivephrases to get him to listen to you and shower you with love & support when you have a problem, without always trying to “fix” it.

When you use these phrases, you satisfy his inner problem solver by making him feel that he IS still fixing your problem, just by being supportive…

So he feels needed and appreciated, and you feel listened to and loved. It’s great, right?

Next, you’ll get myDisagreement Diffuser,which shows you how to disagree with your man, while still giving him your full respect and appreciation...

Once you start using the Disagreement Diffuser, he will stop getting defensive, and now disagreements will get talked about in a healthy, caring way.

Next, I’ll teach you myNewspaper Approachfor bringing up an important topic with your boyfriend or husband…

When you use this approach, he will clearly understand what you want to talk about and why (without any ‘fluff’)…

You will have his full attention and understanding... all because you have brought up the conversation in a way HE understands.

Next, does your man ever complain about ‘nagging’?I know how frustrating this is – in fact, nothing used to get my blood boiling more than when my husband labelled me a nag!
But now, with my Reverse Naggingtrick you will learn my secret key to getting him to take care of his household and childcare responsibilities, WITHOUT being seen as a ‘nag’…

(Do THIS and he will see you as that one-in-a-million woman that every man wants – he will never want to let you go!)

You will learn how to express to your man how you feel WITHOUT any “emotional fluff” he doesn’t understand, so your REAL needs shine through…

Suddenly he will be able to see things crystal clear from YOUR point of view, and it will feel like he’s on your team again.

Next, my Budding Flowertechnique, which teaches you how to get your man to open up about how he feels, EVEN if he’s the strong, silent type.

Once you use this, you’ll be amazed at how ‘deep’ your man can really be…

Next, you’ll get my Sensual Seductresstechnique to communicate your love and appreciation for him in a VERY sensual way, without saying anything at all…

You’ll will be AMAZED at his response…

(If you are going through a rough patch in your relationship, I guarantee this will turn things around for you extremely quickly!)

Next, if you’re wanting to break it off with a man you’re dating, you’ll need my Red Light method for letting him know that you’re no longer interested in dating him… in a way that he will GET and understand…

(No more awkward, dragged-out break up speeches)…

Next, you’ll get my Adam & Evemethod for validating your man’s role in the relationship by making him feel valued as a MAN…

(This is something ALL men need to feel in a relationship)…
And at the same time, you will validate your OWN role in the relationship with your sensual and feminine energy…

(When you use this method, he will bend over backwards to please you and show you how grateful he is to be yours)…

Next, you’ll get my Smooth Sailing method for staying “on course” when you are communicating with your man, so that he never gets lost and switches off…

(Many women drift off course when they are talking to men without even realizing they are doing it…)

Next, is the guy you’re dating reluctant to commit to plans in advance?

Use my Independent Goddess technique to make him realize in a clear yet undemanding way that you are a special woman with your OWN life…

And if he wants to be a part of your life he has to WORK for it.

Next, you’ll get the key to my secret vault of 20+ Ready-to-Use Attraction Phrases you can use to instantly make a guy feel deeply, intensely attracted to you.
(You can use these phrases on your date, your boyfriend, or your husband – they work just the same!)

And SO much more, including…

The ONE thing that men need to hear from you above all else…

How to stop “rejecting” a man by mistake (many women do this without even realizing it)…

How to show the man you want that you are a catch that he can’t afford to lose…

And how to use HIS language, yet come across as feminine and sexy at the same time (you can’t miss this!)

Now, you can be confident that you always know the right thing to say (and what NOT to say) to get that special man to switch off from everything else, and focus 100% of his attention, love, and desire on YOU…

If you’re single, you’ll find that meeting and attracting men becomes a million times easier, because now you have an almost magnetic ability to ATTRACT and CONNECT with men…

And if you’re in a relationship, your husband or boyfriend will be privately jumping up and down, because now it feels like you really “get him” like no woman ever has before (no matter how good your relationship was previously!)

And the best part of all this is…

When you give a man what he wants, you open up the doorway for him to give you what YOU want…

Now, he listens to you with love and understanding in his eyes, rather than getting distracted and looking around (or interrupting you when all you want him to do is LISTEN)…

Now, he notices and appreciates all of the little things you do for him (and goes out of his way to satisfy your every need, to show you how much he loves you for it)…

Now, problems that were once fought about are lovingly talked through and resolved…

And now, men are falling all over themselves to date you, because when they are with you, the conversation just FLOWS… and they feel so understood and respected that they can’t bear to stay away…

Are you excited? I sure hope so!Keep reading – because today, I have an incredible offer for you!!

I look forward to getting an email from you, telling me about how much these communication secrets have changed your life!

I wish you all of the love and happiness you deserve.

Best,

Marni Kinrys
Founder of Say This To Men!

P.S. This WILL work for you, EVEN if you are single or you feel like your relationship is on the rocks… As soon as you start using these communication secrets in your relationships with men, you will experience immediate, life-changing results!

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