We even threw out his underpants!

Recently I was buzzing from a client call where we identified her blockages around attracting her dream holiday house. So much fun – I want a beach house now!

Together we looked at all the negative consequences of owning a holiday house. Yes, the negatives. I wanted to identify absolutely everything that was holding her back from manifesting it into reality (she’s already awesome at manifesting).

We listed out a whole page of the potential downsides; the hassle, the extra expense and the obligation of having a second house. By the end, it sounded like she wasn’t too thrilled about actually owning a holiday house at all. It was a bit deflating.

Together we did a round of Emotional Freedom Technique (EFT) about all these negative feelings. We had to eliminate them and realise that most of the fears were completely unfounded and based on other “stuff” – nothing to do with the holiday house at all. We had to remove the negative charge that was keeping her back from attracting it into her life.

Only then, could we go on and list the actual positive aspects about having a holiday house and this is where we had some fun: a home away from home, a holiday whenever she wanted, being able to decorate it the exact way she wanted. Then we ended with a visualisation of her actually visiting the dream holiday house and walking through it. ABSOLUTE BLISS and I could feel the excitement and the energy. That’s how you manifest – you get really excited about it and eliminate every possible block to the Universe joyfully delivering it to you.

So, what’s this about underpants?

I’m so committed to achieving outrageous luck and success, I even made my husband throw out his favourite underpants! What’s that got to do with the Law of Attraction?

He had several pairs of the brand ‘Pants to Poverty’ (they were sold by a charity) which are nice, but I saw them peek out of his yoga pants the other day and had an epiphany!

We’re committed to attracting abundance, not poverty so we threw them out, removing any potential physical or emotional clutter around prosperity. I’d love to replace them with underpants with pictures of money on them. Every little bit counts, right?

Decluttering is SO important, it’s the very FIRST thing you should do if you want your luck to change. Everything in your mind, heart and physical environment should go if isn’t aligned with what you want. That’s a big secret of Lucky Bitches – nothing stands in their way.

Do this manifesting exercise today:

1. Think of a goal that’s really important to you:

Getting a fabulous new job or starting a business

Travelling around the world for a year

Losing 15 pounds

2. Brainstorm every possible downside or fear you have around achieving it. Get really creative and have fun with it. You can be as irrational as you like!

My friends will hate me or they’ll be jealous

My partner might leave me

I could end up in debt and be homeless

3. Set an intention to eliminate every negative self belief it represents.

Do EFT

Have an affirmation and say it every day

Have a session with a life coach (hint, hint)

4. Now, focus on the positives. Get excited about it, do a dream board and every day spend some time visualising you achieving your goal with JOY and happiness.

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Comments

Fabulous post Denise.
I was always a bit of a skeptic when it came to manifestation, but some resent events have really shown me the power of manifestation is totally real if your really believe it and if you combine it with some positive daily action. Love it!

I love EFT! I’m so happy you’re using it, too.
Will sit down to do that exercise right away – I know I want to attract my dream home in the area where I grew up, and I will celebrate my 50th birthday there next year!

Just another way to think about it – when you see “pants to poverty” you could think about how you are blessing others out of your own abundance. It might be something that is a values based issue and so please forgive me if this isn’t relevant to you as we all think differently about generosity and giving back – but to be able to buy undies that are more expensive because they contribute to charity work could be seen as a positive sign of your prosperity and something that provides a source of inspiration in your day.

I definitely attracted it into my life today. I’ve been resisting some stuff and making the excuses in the back of my mind. I was letting them lie for a while to see what would come my way to clear the path. And voila, your post arrived (and it was a very catchy title).

Time to list out those negatives!

Also, can you suggest any good EFT courses or how tos? Would love to bring it into my practice.