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1. Quality over quantity. What kind of girls do players pull? Girls who give it up to anyone. Do you really want a relationship with that? I know I don't. They have girls left and right, but again, these are broken, immature women. They don't know what they want in life. I know that would turn me off from a guy, no matter how sexy he is. What's more important, to jump from bedroom to bedroom? Or to have a strong, stable women to love you, care for you, always be there for you when you need someone? Think about.Do you wanna be a player or do you wanna win the game?2. Success rate. These bad boy guys only tell or show the women they did get. I can guarantee you they asked a lot of women and were rejected before they finally got a yes. The ratio of women asked out vs women who they got would be very unbalanced. Sure, they seem to have a lot of women, but that's because they ask out and get rejected a lot. If you ask 100 women out at a time, eventually like 8 or 9 will say yes. This is the badboy strategy. Good guy strategy, ask out maybe 1 woman at a time, and she could say yes or no. So assuming she says yes, that means the good guy had a 100% success rate. But he only had 1 girl, the bad boy had 8 or 9 girls, but 8 or 9 out of 100 is a 8-9% success rate. See the difference?

You need to ask people who are married or in long term relationships how they got it. Not players.Let's pretend your goal is to find a good stable job. Would you ask a person who's had many jobs, but short term and jumps from job to job or would you ask the person who's stuck with their job for a long time and was even promoted for advice? Check the sources of your advice and you determine what's more reliable. Also, as cliche as this sounds, look within yourself."If she's worth it, she won't be easy. If she's easy, she won't be worth it."

this is why you can't ask a girl advice on bad boys, because what you are saying is false on a many levels. What you wrote is based on assumptions you have or experiece from people you've been with. But that doesn't define everyone. Bad boy's can be as simple as just a personality that someone has. I know I'm like that and I've been faith full to my girl, haven't been with many women, told her who i've been with, devote my affection to her more than ever, shower her with kisses and all the likes... doesn't make me a player with std's etc.. unfaithful etc.. whatever you wrote. just saying, Don't make assumptions on what you think to be true

@Lefrancais, meh. I guess it is based on my personal experiences and obsversations. This is MY opinion after all. And yes, there are "badboy" personalities and behaviors. But one of the things I've noticed about "nice" guys, is that they tend to severely lack self confidence. And I mean SEVERELY lack self confidence. Badboys are usually confident, even to the point where they're full of themselves, but radiate more self confidence. And it's not just what they say. Everything, the way they walk, the way they stand, the way they carry themselves. So yes, there is a difference in badboy personality, and badboy behavior.It seems what this guy may want is the "badboy personailty", but in reality he wants the confidence. Most nice guys confuse badboy personality=confidence. Not really, confidence is just part of the badboy personality. Girls like the confidence, but we don't necessarily want the rest of the badboy personality. And of course some badboys will make good mates, like some

"Sluts"/promiscuous women would still make good mates.@LefrancaisWhat I'm saying applies to me and women like me. Not every woman is like me. So yes, I am giving from my experiences because I'm stating my own opinions and views.

@BuchitaBuchys yeah i totally gotcha don't worry. I didn't take offense to what you wrote, just clearly saw an oppurtunity to retorque to what you said. But based on the OP's reactions to some things I wrote below... the whole persona doesn't fit him one bit. I highly advise he stick to staying a good guy. And I mean in the end, we're all good guys at heart, just the way we go about things is different. its just a different set of skills and grown behaviors. I think you shouldn't try to BE anything, you should simply BE who you are and your personality will express itself and someone will learn to appreciate that. (advice to op)

What Girls Said 5

You should want to have a dick personality if you're actually a gentleman, because believe me, there's not enough of them in the world. But it's all about style. Think leather jacket, tattoos (don't do anything you'll regret!), beard, maybe earpiercings, boots and beanies. Nothing's more sexy than someone who looks like a badboy but is a sweetheart

I'll tell u what I'd like. I like dirty humor in bed. I like the guy bossing over me and treating me like his possession. I like him not caring about be too much sometimes, coz that means he's focusing on his work. I'll let u know if i think of some more...

Would you rather have an immature girl who's likely to cheat on you then? The bad boy phase is something young girls go through at that time their dumb, plain and simple. Be yourself and find someone that deserves you.

What Guys Said 6

Bro, you don't become a bad boy, you just are by nature. I guess you could call me one... and I had a friend litterally copy me on everything in high school, god.. it was pathetic... but what is that makes us different?

We're social as %$#%# =) We go out and make friends in a snap. We embrace everyone we know, we stand tall, we give firm hand shakes, we smile nice and wide at girls. We tease girls. We don't shower them with compliments every two seconds. We let them want more.. we make them chase us. not the other way around. We don't need a nice car or money, hell, i drive my mom's mini van still because i''m in college and don't need a car right now. And i'm far from rich. FARRR..

But that doesn't stop the fact that I have an energetic attitude, i am daring, and ready to try new things, I will grab a girl by the hand tell her, "come over here, check this out !!!" I will be a little rough with her, give her strong hugs. Tell her she's beautiful out of random. Dress well, and walk with confidence. Address everyone with confidence and have a presence in a crowd. Not all sitting on my phone in the corner of a party.

for what part? the hand grabbing, i'm talking about a girl you are talking to and like you see something cool and you say, "hey sarah (grab hand) come check this out !!" not like... a random ass person -_-

well you took it way too much out of context.. I just meant a casual encounter with a girl you're friends with and trying to spark interest with.. and you're walking by a pond and see a little duck somewhere.. that's an example of a situation that would apply. If the first thing you thought of was directly assault.. I don't know that you should look into the bad boy persona, because there are many things we do, some more daring... that just blows girls away because of how much confidence we exude in our actions. One example, kissing a girl you've wanted to kiss at random moment after telling her something, and then she's like heart melting... if your instant thought is, that's sexual harassment, then, don't look into the bad boy persona.. because you will find to many barriers thats prevent you from stepping into that zone. It's all about.. really.. just being an overall badass in everything you do.. not letting anyone step on your toes and owning up to your actions

which is why you're not a risk taker and therefore, no offense, are not suited to be a bad boy. I mean being bad,... the word says it itself, its about risks and confidence in yourself.. you can't stack up the cards properly then they're all just gonna fall mate. Sorry mate but you seem like you're better at being the nice guy. In the mean time, don't then complain that the bad boys are over stepping you and you're trailing behind them...

you want to take advise from someone whos nose is bigger then his penis, check his nose, during 1939-1945 he would be put on a train for a nose like that. if i ll ever have a daughter, and i see a dirty rat like that hitting on my daughter, i would assault him on the spot. you see what he is telling you right now is, to sexually herrass girls, by just pulling them by their hands, putting his body tight to hers, be your happy self dude, be that person women like, not the braindead chimpansee he is stelling you to be. you can be confident, and walk up to woman without being an asshole. be fun, be sincere and be yourself. a real lady would only respect you for it, when you walk up to her, and give her a compliment, and trust me, even if you get rejected or not direcly the answer you want, making a woman feel good about herself , makes you also a better person. you dont need to listen to any of the bullshit this guy types.

good for you, i bet she doesn't mind about big noses then:D crap i thought my comment was anonymous, does this make me a bad boy to:D gl with trolling me, because i couldnt give a flying fuck about what you have to say:)

why do you want to be a loser, I've seen plenty of bad boys, trust me, if i put a loaded 9mm pistol against their head, they will cry and beg me not to pull the trigger. guys acting like that are the lowest lifeforms you can imagine. Any decent man would respect his women, treat her with dignity and will always put himself behind her. trust me, when i tell you that these decent nice guys are far more dangerous then these low lifes, because if these decent guys get angry, you will experience shit you have never seen before. you want to be a retard? one advise here for you, go jump of a building, head first. MORON! do you want to find a woman who respect you, and loves you for who you are, or a women who has borderline and hole bunch of other mental problems because she is used to guys being abusive. you should feel sorry for these women and try to help them. Im gonna tell you a little personal story, i was following a bad boy around arcross town, i didnnt make it a secret that i was, and im telling you, he was lucky that the street were crowded and it was durring daytime, because if i ever cross his path during night hours, and the streets are quiet, im gonna let him experience some real pain. you see i may not strike you as the bad boy, but i can be a very unpleasant and nasty person if you trigger me. i dont go looking for you when the streets are full ill take you when no one sees it.

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