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Wife watching

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I really need to know if anyone else feels this way, or am I just losing my mind? I have been asking my wife to be with someone else while I watch, it really turns me on, and I am not sure if this normal or do I need help? she did it once about 15yrs ago for me I watched from the closet. We were in our 20's then. we used to go out to bars and I would dress her up real sexy and sit across the bar and watch guys hit on her. it was exhilerating. she still gets dressed up and goes out, but now its alone while I stay home with our son, I tell her everytime to find someone to bring home, but she just comes home and tells me about the guys. she did bring her security guard home from work last yr, but nothing happened because he got sick, and left. Is there something wrong with this, I am just trying to spice up our sex lives, please tell me if this is something everyone thinks about or I am nuts?? I dont think its "normal" but is there something wrong with it?

Nothing turns me on more than the thought of "watching" my wife with another man. I can't honestly say that if the time actually cme, I would go through with it, but I think I might. We always discuss it when we "play" and she plays right along with me telling me what she wants to do to the other man while I watch her.

It really is an incredible turn on and we both like the fantasy. I also like having her tell me stories of her times when she actually "was" with other men.

well I think it is normal. I love seeing you that she take on another guys cock if he eats her out first, especially in front of me. She likes it and she does a great blow job on me while getting another man to cum in side her. Love to make her happy.

I want to try this soo bad with my wife. she finally agreed and we are currently looking for the right candidate on craigslist. be carefull on c.l. a lot of pic collectors, but to answer your question I have read a lot on the topic and I encourage anyone wanting to try this do your homework. a solid marriage is a first and have complete trust in your wife. if she says no tell her how you feel about it later and why you want to try it. show her the forums which are many so she wont think your strange. this kind of fantasy is huge amoung men. although we haven't done it yet we have 2 candidates ready and the date is set, we are both excited and said we would talk about it after the deed is done.

About a year ago I had fantasies about my wife fucking other guys. After I had them recurringly I told her about them and she thought about it. Eventually she agreed to give it a try. She's since met up with a few guys by herself and we've also had some MFM threesomes (I'm straight, so guy-on-guy) and we all had fun. When she's seen a guy by herself I've had her record the audio - with the guy's consent of course - (MP3 recorders are great!) so I can then enjoy (and re-enjoy) hearing all her moans and screams, the bed creaking as she's being fucked and their conversations when they're having sex. My wife is quite loud.. I'm convinced she sounds better than porn actresses! :D

'Is it normal?' .. who cares.. 'Is it fun for all involved' is more the question. My wife has since found things a little lacking with these other guys and is seeking someone that is someone that she can be more 'friends' with and have sex with, than some guy that just fucks her and then doesn't bother chatting until he wants sex again. Quite a lot of guys either want a girlfriend or they just don't like the fact she's married and can't/won't get to being actual 'friends w/sex benefits'.

One thing to point out is that I did not force my wife into doing this.. I suggested it and let her know I was open to her seeing what she wanted, and let her take it from there. I'm not my wife's 'keeper' and I let her know that.

I have always enjoyed seeing my woman enjoying other men and them enjoying her. I discovered this fetish when we joined a swingers club. I found that I enjoyed watching my wife as much as being with her or any other woman. I can't tell you the reasons why I enjoy this. I have tried to figure out why, to no avail. I just gave up trying to figure out why and just enjoy it now. Afterwards my wife and I make love to each. We are happily married and feel fulfilled sexually with this lifestyle.

My take on why is simple; we love our wives so much that we want to see them so sexually charged that they cannot resist sex with another man. We want to see them "out of control" with sexual energy because making them happy makes us happy. To me, this is the ultimate expression of love. And while my wife was playing with others, she loved it and became quite the sex addict. Events stopped us from playing, but it was one of the happiest times of our lives.

I couldn't have said it any better. To watch my wife masturbate, or preferably with another man just turns me on something fierce. I've done it, but not as often as I would like. What I'd really love is to be able to watch without either of them knowing I'm watching. That way my wife could unwind and let it rip.

to jimbeam4men - congratulations on your success at being able to experience your fantasies together in the raw and experience it making your marriage even more exciting. I know it's possible. Been there, but only for brief time periods. You're fortunate to have a wife who shares equally in your fantasies, desires, loving-marriage goals.

Watching my wife fuck other guys is the biggest turn on that I can imagine. We've done it a few times and the best was when I fucked her immediately after the other guy had cum in her. The next best was after another guy had cum in her for the second time and I got to her before she cleaned up. I went down on her and though I don't like the taste or smell of cum really, the fact that I could smell his cum still in her was also a huge turn on.

This was pre-aids, so it's been a while, but I'd love to see it happen again. Normal? Not sure about that, but it sure is fun!

Use to just think aboit it. Now a friend does her and I do her next. I use to do it that way, but now let him do her first and then I do her. Iike the look on her face when he enters her and then the reacton while the act goes on. Love her reacton to it all

I am a woman and I had to write. There is nothing better than fucking someone whiles your other half watches. My hubby is very jealous so I knew he would not go for it so I set it up that he would come home and catch me with a girlfriend. I was hoping to engage him to fucking my friend. He came in the room while my friend had her strap on and was fucking me in the ass. She was telling me to call her by my hubbys name. I have to say that was not as great but she could eat some pussy. I still fantasize about her fingers in my ass and her sucking my clit. Geez, the best pussy eating I have ever got. Back to story, he would not fuck her. He seemed mad at first till she started blowing him and then she had invited her boyfriend and his sister to come over(knew nothing about that)They walked right in. This guy was hung like a fucking stallion. I have never seen a dick that big. He walks in grabs my clit and sticks a finger in and says just right. My hubby said nothing just watched. He lubes up and sits in the chair in our room , sits me on his dick. My ass has never felt like that. I could not gto the bathroom for a month I think. He then sister starps on and strts fucking my pussy and then my girlfriend who was now sitting on my hubbys face had her fingers shoved up her boyfriends sister ass. My hubby said that the neighbors heard me. I have never had a ass and pussy orgasm at the same time. Now I am a anal freak. begg for some dick there and beg my hubby to let me watch him or vice versa. He says I am to into. I think about and literally cum wanting it so fucking bad. Anyone have a wife like me. oh and I am have huge breast and a firm little body with long black hair. My hubby tells me I am hot but doesnt have the sexual interst anymore. What I am to do. THose fucking huge dildos only go so far. I think I might call my firend to see if she can stop by for a taste just to get me off. I need something. he ignores me know.Help

I really, really want to go through with this soon. I love my wife to bits and she is a very good looker...genuinely stunning and shy.I am the opposite very plain but very outgoing...this is not a problem, just stating a fact!I have a couple of rules to let us go through with this, namely.....there must be absolutely no kissing (can't explain why....but I really have a problem with that),total safe sex with condom on throughout. This is not only to be safe but also to exclude intimacy ( again this I can't explain, but I envisage my wife having sex with another guy as physical but not intimate) and after the sexual act is finished l want him to leave us more or less immediately, or within 5 mins max as I see this as a special event for myself and my wife.....but not the 3rd person. Does this make sense ??? Help!!

Your missing out on the best part. Let her fuck a guy bare back, as long as he's ben fixed, and his fixed. The thrill is in seeing a cock go into you wife uncovered, getting screw by a cock in the flesh. Otherwise, use a dilldo.

i wanted to ask:I've been married to a very pretty woman for about 8 years now. I never let her know that I had a fantasy about seeing/watching her with another man (well hung) giving her pleasure. I told her about it a few months back and have been telling her what I want while we have sex it really turns me on and makes me so excited that I can hardly stand it. If I think about it when she is not around I get so turned on that I can't wait for her to get back to me. Also I like to see her wear clothing that will show her nipples thru as she has really big nipples. She tells me during sex that she will do this for me and it seems to really make her wet. looking for some advise does she really want this as much as me or is she just getting me off. I love her so much I don't want to hurt or releationship but I really want to see her ride a well hung man while I watch am I loosing my mind.

I'm not sure if it's normal or not, but I use to partake in that activity as well. I think it was just a voyeur fetish with me. It was awesome seeing my partners facial expressions, body movements..etc while getting pounded by some other stud, from a birds eye view.

I grew tired of it, and haven't done it in years. If it bothers you and you think it's not normal...then simply stop.

I'm convinced that as many husbands have fantasies about watching their wife have sex with other men as Wives have fantasies about sex with a different man. In other words, it's perfectly normal.Lots of us do it, for various reasons, In my case it was discovering (in detail) that my wife had spent a night with a perfect stranger when she found herself staying alone in a hotel for one night. I didn't tell her I knew about her night of adventurous sex.Ever since then I have fantasized about watching her have sex with another man again. Eventually I did tell her, (the idea was driving me crazy), and that led to us first role playing the idea, then finaly making the real thing happen... Everything GFUTERNICK says about the experience of watching his wife was true for me too... an incredibly rewarding experience... not least because she did things with him she won't do with me!! That was an experience!

Recently my wife was on a business trip and she met some bad boy with a big cock. She didn't tell me, but they fucked in her hotel room and had been chatting for a 2 weeks before I secretly found out. I shouldn't have said anything so that I could see if they hook up the next time she's got business over there, but I did and she tried to deny anything happening. I finally got her to admit it and she knows that it's wrong, but at the same time she knows it also turns me on big time. She cheated on me one time before we got married and I found her used panties stuffed in her hand bag. I was so turned on I would smell them and jerk off, cumming harder than I've ever cum. Supposedly this guy that recently fucked her used a condom and had such a big dick that it didn't really work for her. She says it was off rythm and she didn't cum at all or really enjoy. She said he had to stop fucking her and jerk off as she watched. Should I really believe that? I thought women loved big cocks. If it wasn't very good, why were they texting, emailing, and calling each other for 2 weeks till I found out and confronted her? One email wrote, "Why is it that I'm still thinking of you?" And he writes back, "Am I that amazing, lol?". She then writes, "are you counting the days until I visit again?" I would love someone's opinion. I don't mind my wife fucking some stranger as long as she's honest with me about it. If she likes to fuck other guys, I'd love to try to get her comfortable with telling me about it. I have brought it up, but it hasn't really excited her as I think she prefers the high of cheating when I don't know about it. Thoughts?

This a great forum. I stumbled across it and i am extremely excited. I have always worried about the fantasy of sharing my wife. I am very happy to see that there are plenty of others who enjoy the same thing. My wife and i are new to this and would like to find someone who has experienced our favorite fantasy and could point us in the right direction so we can eventually enjoy ourselves with out the guilt.

If you are seriously thinking about adding a sexual partner you need to talk about it .... over lunch. Its always a good idea when you are hot and bothered... but it may not be as exciting over lunch.

If you decide that it is something you guys really want to explore then you need rules.

It will make you talk about everything. Every sexual act is YEAH BABY when you are in the mood but when you are talking over lunch you need to think about the following:

Will you be jealous if she does things with him that she normally doesn't do for you?

Will seeing her kiss or flirt bother you? Kissing was difficult for me watch... go figure.

You will need your NO signals and set the rule that if either one of you says NO it is NO. Its never too late to say NO. Even if the partner is traveling to see you. Its a risk that they are taking.

Pay for the room if you are meeting in a hotel. You guys check in first and get settled. You need to pay for the room so there is no feeling of obligation. He can buy dinner or drinks but the partner should NOT pay for the room.

These are just some guidlines for you to consider. Things we learned from our experiences.

i to fantasy about watching my wife being served by another man ,i think i would want it to be with a stranger not a close friend,the very idea of seeing it happen turns me on, i talk about it when we are having sex but but nothing ever comes of it,maybe hopefully it will one day,i am quite sure i wll be able to go though with it if my wife ever agrees to it.

I married a woman 12 years younger than me. She was 18 when we married. I had been married once before and divorced because she cheated on me one time to many. Some how this changed my view of a woman's sexual needs. I am about 7" long and slightly thicker than average. I went for looks and youth the second time around. Rachel is short, slinder, very well built, and a passion that made me realize she would be more than I could handle not long after we started dating. I married her anyway and not long after we married I began to develop ED. She was only 19 1/2 years of age when I bought her a dildo. She liked it but made the statement she liked the real thing better. A month later I brought home a friend I had known since high school football days. He was outcast by the majority of the girls in school because of his 10" length and very thick shaft. I had called ahead to tell Rachel to doll up in a pair of heels and a tiny outfit. I told her I was bringing home a stud to please her. She laughed and didn't take me serious. When my friend entered the bedroom where my sexy little wife was waiting she was surprised. 20 minutes later and some foreplay my friend got out of a 69 position with my wife and allowed Rachel to control the positions and rhythms. I was totally shocked at his and her stamina that night. They went at it for well over an hour. Rachel had her first ever multiple orgasm sets and several singles. I was ashamed, and jealous at first. Rachel and I still love each other as best friends but every other night or so my male friend and Rachel put on a show for me. I think Rachel had always wanted a well hung stud with stamina and didn't even realize it. I came to believe Rachel was a true nymphet.

Wow, interesting reads. I fantasize all the time about watching my wife having sex with another man in front of me, but not really too sure what I would feel like afterwards. In the heat of the moment it would be great, but afterwards? I'm not so sure.

I don't think either of us would feel comfortable with anybody we know or in our neighbourhood, but maybe on holiday in a different place I was thinking of hiring a male stud to sort the wife out?

the thought may be nice but the reality is something very different, we have spoken about this many times and the thought of my wife getting fucked by someone else excites me, she says that she doesnt want it to happen really, i think i would like it to happen just once but would have to be there and she would have to be totally into it, it would be because we both wanted it to happen

Frankly, I love it. I am 62 and my wife is a very young looking 55. I have watched and photographed her with 3 different men so far and I loved every minute of it. She is extremely multi-orgasmic and has cum numerous times with each man. Just to see her cumming over and over with another man is enough to send me into orgasmic bliss. I relive it over and over looking at the photos I've taken. I go even further in that I love making oral love to her after she's been with another man. Are there any other men that enjoy this activity as well?

I enjoy the fantasy of my wife being fucked hard by a stud while I watch. It is such a turn-on listening to her describe in detail what he is doing to her while I am having her. It never fails to make me hard and I feel so excited. She loves knowing that she can turn me on this way. We have been talking about making it real and letting her fuck a guy who has been pursuing her a couple of years. She always tells me there is nothing in this for her but if I am sure it is what I want then she will let him fuck her. She is attending a conference next month and he will be there. It will involve an overnight stay and she is confident he will beg her to let him into her room and watch her undress. I ask her if she will let him wank over her tits and she says she will. Just the thought of this happening turns me on. She suggested calling me on her mobile and asking for permission before letting him fuck her and even thought of leaving the phone on so I can hear her cum. We have been planning this for months now and I can't wait! It seems I am not alone in moving their wife from fantasy to reality. She knows I love her and that I will be grateful to her afterwards so she feels safe to play.

I love that too. We have have a threesome every couple of months with another man.He is much more well endowed than me and can last for ages. I really get turned from the moaning my wife makes. I like to think of myself as sraight but one one occassion I could not prevent myself from grabbing the base of his cock while the rest of it was all the way up my wifes pussy. He carried on pumping away and then I could feel him starting to cum explosively. There was a lovey wet warm feeling over my hand. He withdrew his enourmous cock and my wifes slit was dripping with thick creamy cum. She was so wet. I went down on her and gave her a good licking. The smell of his cum and her well fucked pussy made me very hard. I then got the fellow to hold my wifes legs up as I started to fuck her. The sensation of entering her well lubricated hole was esquisite - it was one of the best fucks I ever had because she has always been a bit dry with me alone. I shot my load and looked down and there was cum - mine and his running out off her pussy like a river. Bloody great. Can't wait for the next time - I really want to see her that big piece of meant up her arse.

1. Go to wifelovers.com and place an ad for the type of guy you want. It's free.2. Meet the guy. Be sure he's willing to give you some traceable info, like his home phone number or whatever to be sure you are as safe as possible. Look at his ID. Then discuss the scenario and details.3. Take your wife to a hotel bar and let her get loosened up a bit with a drink.4. Have the guy send over a drink for your wife from a "secret admirer".5. Have the guy come over, introduce himself and explain how beautiful he thinks your wife is. Then he says, "Mind if I join you?"6. The guy sits by your wife. After a bit, he starts to fool around a little with your wife (hand on her leg, etc) and it escalates till he says, "How'd y'all like to come up to my room and have a drink up there before you go?" He should have your wife's favorite drink up there, chilled and ready to go. (Alternative: if you don't want to spend money on a hotel room before you are sure you are going to need it, the guy or hubby can go arrange it on a "trip to the restroom". Being in a hotel bar facilitates that. Have a small bag and a cooler ready to go (behind the hotel front desk) with the beverages ready to go)7. Once in the room and everyone has enjoyed a drink, Husband says, "You know what I've always wanted to see?" When they say, "What?", Hubby says, "I know this is going to sound weird, but I've always wanted to see a guy come up from behind my wife and squeeze her tits."8. The guy does it, then kisses her neck. Then one thing leads to another.

Not so hard, hunh?

Some details that the guy can throw in that will help the wife go along are:

1. The guy mentions that he hasn't been with a woman in over a year. (gets the wife's pity)2. The guy mentions that his wife died about a year ago and he hasn't been with anyone since. (more pity)3. The guy says that he is an amateur masseur and suggest a free massage. (a massage gets a woman in the mood more than any thing else)4. The guy mentions that he travels the world over and that he might be able to help them go on a trip (women love adventure and travel)

I can understand a man who enjoys having extramarital sex while wanting his wife to be faithful. I do not approve of that, but it does not seem strange. Wife watching is not something I would ever enjoy.

In June 25, 2009 a Gallup Poll indicated that 92%% of Americans think adultery is morally wrong. My guess is that fewer than 5%% practice wife watching.

I think it's a huge turn on as well. I think my wife is pretty hot and I'd love to just sit back and watch her please another man as much as she does me. It is a really odd feeling because I'm a very jealous person.

I've half mentioned it but she seemed like she wouldn't have anything to do with it so I didn't push it too hard.

I think these fantasies all started when I found out she sent some nude pictures to someone. I'm kind of old fashioned and it really hurt me and pissed me off. But then I started thinking about the guy that just got those pictures... He was looking at my wife, the one I get to wake up to every morning, and rub his cock and fantasize about whatever he wanted to do to her or have do to him.

I had confronted her in anger...it happened a few other times as well over the years. Felt the same each time. Like I get hit with a ton of bricks...but also end up jacking off haha

Now I really like to have guys cum on a picture I send them and have them email it back to me. Or I do some photoshop and try and add another guy to pictures of my wife etc....

I once had a tall, blond girlfriend who was way wild and crazy and had a "ready for anything" personality that was wildly attractive to me and to other men. We used to do a lot of disco dancing in those days (long ago) and black guys in the discos would salivate over her; she in turn, appreciated their interest.

I noticed one day when I was looking for something outside our house at night that she couldn't see me standing right outside the bedroom window when the light was on inside, so I suggested that she go out to the disco alone a see if she couldn't pick up a guy to bring home and fuck for her and my delectation. She went out for some hours while I waited in anticipation. About 11:00PM she came home with a handsome young black man, and I played like I was her "room mate" while she took him in the bedroom.

By the time I got outside and peeped in the window, he had her down to her panties,. He was pretty hung and I had an excellent view of his big cock fucking into her. In his lust he just pulled the crotch of her panties to the side and stuck it in her. I was two feet away from them, but they couldn't see me. I stood there jerking off for hours as they went at it six kinds of ways from Sunday. He finger-fucked her a lot as he checked out her blond, short-lipped pussy, and they fucked a few times more. After he left in the early morning hours, I crawled into bed with her and got my sloppy seconds, or thirds, or fourths. She really enjoyed the idea that I was standing right there next to them checking out every detail of their fucking.

We did it one more time later on, and she brought home a really big guy, moderately hung, who didn't wait a minute to get her out of her clothes and fuck her. More finger fucking and stuff ensued until early in the morning when she got on her knees and he stuck his cock into her asshole, pumping into it until he blew a load of cum up her ass. Once again, after he left, I got to get my seconds.

Neither of these guys had a clue that I was just outside the window checking it all out ... the way the bed was positioned, I could see every wet fold and wrinkle of her pussy and watch their dicks dive into her and check out how her cunt clung to them as they pulled out their dicks for another stoke. She really got off on the idea that I was right there checking it all out.

She was a red hot number and was six feet tall (I'm only 5'6") so she has a six-foot wingspread on her. Really impressive when you saw her legs opened up lying before you!

I have recently let my OH watch me with another man. From when we first started dating we have talking about our fantasies. He liked the thought of watching me, and I had a thing about doing it with an energetic teenager. But I wasn't keen on actually doing anything about it in RL. Then on holiday last year, when we both had a bit too much to drink, I started flirting with a young guy and then let my OH half talk me into having sex with him. My OH watched and played with himself, and TBH I found it a really great turn-on seeing how excited he got and how excited the young guy was. My OH wants to repeat the experience, but I am unsure as I fear it may become addictive and eventually adversely impact our marriage.

The sight of another man's cock and how different it is from that strange to see that differance enter my wife is a thrill to me. I sure like seeing that differance enter her, cum in her, see it drip its cum as he pulls out of her. I'm alway like when she takes back in with her mouth as if she wanted to taste his sperm. At thyat point I know she is a born cocksucker.