Jewish Wedding Traditions

The Jewish faith is one that is deeply ensconced in tradition.

A traditional Jewish wedding follows a number of beautiful traditions that date back for thousands of
years.

The traditions include the signing of the Ketubah, the use of the chuppah as well as traditional dances that are
performed at the wedding. The rings exchanged during a Jewish wedding also have traditional connotations. The
signing of the Ketubah is the traditional start to a Jewish wedding ceremony.

The Ketubah is a written agreement that not only asserts that the bride is
not already married but also outlines the expectations that the couple hold for each other in the marriage.
This ornate document can later be framed and prominently displayed in the couple’s home as a reminder of their
commitment. After the bride and groom have signed the Ketubah, the groom takes one final look at his bride
before lowering her veil and beginning the wedding procession. This tradition has biblical roots and recalls
the story of Jacob who married the wrong woman because she was veiled and he did not realize his mistake in
time.

The wedding party traditionally precedes the couple in the wedding
procession. The bride and groom then proceed down the aisle together accompanied by both of their parents to
symbolize that their union includes the union of both families and not just the bride and the groom. The
couple ends their procession under a traditional canopy called a chuppah. This canopy symbolizes that God is
present and that he is sheltering and protecting the couple. After the couple exchanges their wedding vows, a
rabbi reads 7 traditional blessings. After the blessings the groom steps on a wine glass to break the glass in
a symbol of human frailty and the suffering that members of the Jewish faith have endured and this with a
final blessing from the rabbi concludes the ceremony.

Unlike other traditional weddings, there is usually not a receiving line at the conclusion of a Jewish
wedding. Tradition holds that the couple spends a few minutes alone immediately following the wedding so
many members of the Jewish faith honor this tradition by leaving the ceremony immediately and waiting until the
reception to offer their well wishes to the couple. This togetherness time was traditionally an opportunity for the
couple to consummate the marriage but in modern times it is more of chance for the couple to reflect on their
wedding ceremony and the start of their life together before the chaos of the wedding. Even the rings that a couple
exchanges during a Jewish wedding have traditional values. Tradition holds that the couple exchange very simple
rings that are devoid of gems, engravings or other distinguishing marks. With nothing to distinguish the beginning
or the end of the ring, it is a beautiful symbol of a love that endures forever with no clear beginning or end.
This symbolizes both the couples love for each other as well as God’s love for his people.

A traditional Jewish wedding reception features many dances. An energetic
dance called the Hora is performed at many traditional Jewish weddings. In this dance the bride and groom hold a
handkerchief between them while they are seated in chairs and hoisted into the air by their guests. This dance is a
celebration of the bride and groom and recognizes the significance of their union. If this wedding represents the
last son or daughter of one of the parents to be married there are a few more traditional dances that may take
place. If the bride was the last in her family to be married, she and her sisters may honor their mother in a
tradition known as Krenzi. The mother is crowned with flowers and her daughters honor her in the form of dance.
Also, if either the bride or groom was the youngest to be married both of the parents will be honored through the
Mizinke dance. In this tradition all of the guests circle the parents and shower them with flowers and praise.

The Jewish faith is a faith that is full of history and tradition. Many couples and their guests choose to honor
these traditions by incorporating them into their wedding ceremony and reception. Many of these traditions are the
defining moments of the celebration and they lend an atmosphere of historical significance to the wedding.