might i add that dancingbears simply forwarded a myspace posting with kind intentions. IF there is any hoax, it would be on myspace. I think Orchid's flame to me touched on some personal issue, I realise my take on life & death are simply mine. I'm sorry if I offended him (or others) and I apologise.(if he ever reads this post).

Well, I think we have all apologized enough here. Going forward it should be kept in mind that this is a free forum and as long as the attacks are not personal (don't worry, I don't take being called a "sarcastic asshole" as a personal attack...much) no one should be offended. All posters here, myself included, are subject to any and all forms of comments from the reader, be they positive or negative; I only get upset when the comments are demeaning on a personal level and there is no obvious light heartedness behind it. To each his own.

I was talking to a lady friend this morning about an old boyfriend and a very good friend of mine that had passed away on 12/18. She cracked a joke that she bet he was good and stiff now...and i laughed!
Bob had a great(and sick) sense of humor and I believe he laughted with us. Does that make me a sick bastard? Oh well! (I'll be dying to see him....ka-boom!)