I had a questions asked of me on my last blog page.(but what happens to the sub's soul if she has given her master everything she has to give.....and then he tires of her, perhaps discarding her for another? Is she disgraced and doomed to debilitating depression? Is there anything left for her that's still worth living for?) I am going to tell you these are great questions. Thanks for asking.

Well that depends on the sub and Contract. There are diffrent levels on every thing and diffrent styles. If it was a one night stand nothing. A temp agreement she knows better than to get attached. Dating ok it migh hurt her but she or he will bounce back. Long term the sub will need a break but get over it and try again. Marriage it's unusual a Dom and Sub break at this point but it usually hurts the one being left. The Dom included. Just because a Sub is submissive to a Dom doesn't mean she hast control. She is her own person and any Dom that tells you other wise is a fake.

when they break apart nori ther side is disgraced. The community wont allow it. Harassing one of your fellow peers or a ex in the BDSM world Is a red flag and giant no no, and yes there are things for both sides to live for even if they are left. They just learn more about them selfs like most do and move On.

The best thing to remember is:

A Dowan wants to feel needed & a Sub wants to be wanted.

I had a questions asked of me on my last blog page.(but what happens to the sub's soul if she has given her master everything she has to give.....and then he tires of her, perhaps discarding her for another? Is she disgraced and doomed to debilitating depression? Is there anything left for her that's still worth living for?) I am going to tell you these are great questions. Thanks for asking.

Well that depends on the sub and Contract. There are diffrent levels on every thing and diffrent styles. If it was a one night stand nothing. A temp agreement she knows better than to get attached. Dating ok it migh hurt her but she or he will bounce back. Long term the sub will need a break but get over it and try again. Marriage it's unusual a Dom and Sub break at this point but it usually hurts the one being left. The Dom included. Just because a Sub is submissive to a Dom doesn't mean she hast control. She is her own person and any Dom that tells you other wise is a fake.

when they break apart nori ther side is disgraced. The community wont allow it. Harassing one of your fellow peers or a ex in the BDSM world Is a red flag and giant no no, and yes there are things for both sides to live for even if they are left. They just learn more about them selfs like most do and move On.

"Power tends to corrupt, and absolute power corrupts absolutely."Lord Acton

Well….I don’t know too much about the ‘life style’, nor did I read 50 shades.But it just seems to me that a woman must be prepared to survive…..not only just for her sake but for her babies too!

Fantasy is fine and so is experimentation….but just never forget that there’s very few people in this world that you can really count on.I can’t stress enough how much I believe in the necessity for a woman to have an education and career to fall back on in case things don't work out the way she planned.

I hope you are in school and preparing for your future!Choices are good….poverty is bad!Good luck and take good care.

"Power tends to corrupt, and absolute power corrupts absolutely."Lord Acton

Well….I don’t know too much about the ‘life style’, nor did I read 50 shades.But it just seems to me that a woman must be prepared to survive…..not only just for her sake but for her babies too!

Fantasy is fine and so is experimentation….but just never forget that there’s very few people in this world that you can really count on.I can’t stress enough how much I believe in the necessity for a woman to have an education and career to fall back on in case things don't work out the way she planned.

I hope you are in school and preparing for your future!Choices are good….poverty is bad!Good luck and take good care.