Wednesday, August 27, 2014

14 THINGS TO DO THAT WILL KEEP YOUR WOMAN HAPPY

Here are a list of things that have been shown to make even the most composed woman smile with glee.
• Let her know if she does something well, and thank her! Everyone possesses these little hidden and not-so-hidden talents. Whenever your wife or girlfriend displays those talents, be sure you let her know that her efforts matter and that you appreciate what she does.

•Make her laugh as often as possible. They say looks fade, but a sense of humor sticks around. Laughter is a great medicine, and it’s a good idea to give your lady a hearty dose whenever you can. Even if you’re not a born comedian, you can still try to master a couple of jokes or antics that are sure to tickle her funny bone. See → Make her Happy, please.

•Cook for her sometimes. Whether you’re a master chef or just a guy who can barely fry an egg, your efforts won’t go unappreciated. It feels nice every once in a while to not worry about whipping up a quick meal.

•Shower her with affection whenever you can. This doesn’t mean you have to get your hands all over her whenever you’re together. Affection can be as subtle as a random kiss on the cheek or a quick back rub when she looks tired. These tiny things you do can pick up her mood or even make her day a whole lot better!

•Offer to do chores she hates. "Any man who’d pick up the slack and do some of the chores we hate would be an angel in our eyes!" Quoted from a lady. You can easily tell which chores she hates by the look on her face when she’s doing it. So go up to her, take the brush, the sponge or the trash, and tell her to relax while you do it for her.

•Fix what needs fixing. There’s bound to be one thing you can fix for your girl. It can be as tough as taking a look under the hood of her car or as simple as getting rid of viruses on her computer. Women like men who can fix things, so she’s bound to like you twenty times over!

•Play games or sports together. Games aren’t just for kids. Adults play games all the time to stimulate the mind and body. If you’re tired of going to the same old restaurants for your date, take your date outdoors with some sports like, running or swimming. For those who aren’t athletic, video games are another great option. Pick a game she might like and teach her how to play.

•Pamper her when she’s down. Sometimes, women try to look better to feel better. In times like this, offer to pay for her pamper session or accompany her when she’s trying to relax.

•Give her little gifts. You don’t always have to whip out hundreds of dollars to impress your girl. Even the smallest gifts can have a huge impact. If you’re good with your hands, create something that shows you care about her. The effort almost always matters more than the price tag.

•Listen to what she has to say. Some girls are capable of talking your ears off. But instead of just brushing off what she has to say to you, try to actually listen and respond. You don’t always need to solve her problems or give suggestions, because sometimes all she needs is someone who would just listen.

•Involve her in your activities. Show her that she’s an important part of your life by letting her in on activities you enjoy. If you’re into working out, invite her to join you. If you’re a soccer player, invite her to watch you play. Even if it’s not her thing, simply asking already makes her feel more involved.

•Let her know that her opinions matter. Women often have an opinion about everything and anything under the sun. Heed her opinions, whether they’re about small matters or big decisions. It shows her that what she thinks matters enough to affect your choices. If she’s the one you want to spend the rest of your life with *or if she already is*, then you have to make her feel that she has a say in things that matter to you.

•Value what she values. Whether she’s into art, music, pets or sports, you have to make her feel that you also value these things because they’re important to her. Show her how important she is to you by showing her that you do your best to care about the things she cares about.
See also → 7 things that Women look for in a MAN

•Give her space when she needs it. When everything’s crumbling down around her, your first instinct may be to come to her rescue. But when she asks you to give her space to figure things out, respect her decision and give her the space she needs. Just remind her that you’re there for her if she needs a helping hand.