What kind of person do you feel comfortable opening up to?

I don't mind talking to people on a real level at all but I don't know what it is about me that is so inviting for a deep ass conversation. For example if the squad goes out drinking, always get the "Broo... I fucking love you man.. we're like fucking brothers man..!" I don't come across as that inviting when it comes to this stuff but it happens. What makes YOU comfortable enough to open up to someone on a real level?

What Girls Said 17

I have no issues opening up to anybody (but my parents cause last time I did they grounded me 😐). Apart from my parents Im super comfortable talking about myself, or my past or stupid shit I've done, horrible things I've been through or done I can talk about anything. I think its because I don't really give a shit if they judge me, its just kind of my way of finding whether they accept me for me or not instead of gradually building up that trust, only to find out later that they don't feel comfortable anymore about some things about me in the past or they feel like I should've told them sooner. Fuck that. But of course only my closest friends know my absolute secrets. 💁🏽 Gotta keep some kind of mystery.

It's just a vibe I get, I suppose. If I feel I can connect and discuss real shit with someone and the other person seems to open up, we can have a deep conversation. With some people, it happens almost instantly. With others, it takes a while or just never happens and things stay superficial.

That sounds more like typical drunk talk as opposed to someone opening up to you tbh 😂 I never opened up to anyone about absolutely everything and I highly doubt I ever will but I'm still pretty open with my best friend who I've known forever.

I have trust issues and it's only with people who wouldn't ever judge me. I so rarely make friends that when I do its for the long run. I have to feel comfortable with them able to laugh and just generally be me. There's people who give me this vibe and I act a completely different way with them.

I'm a very honest person and I've noticed I *cannot* get along with people who give a shit about what others think. It being about their looks, their preferences, their personalities... there are so many fake people out there it's not even funny anymore. Anyway : I want real people. You're real? You're halfway to being my friend.

I don't trust people easily. I don't open up to people as much as I use to. The only time I do is if I like the person, if I trust the person, and if the person is honest, those are the kind of people I am comfortable talking with.

I don't open up often. There's a lot of darkness in my mind. Generally I'm either swapping stories with another veteran or law enforcement officer. It's hard to tell someone about how you had to let a guy a burn to death because you can't get the power shut off, or how it felt picking up pieces of people.