Please I need ur audience AdviceI have been dating my bf for 2 good years now,he is 30yrs old and I'm 22. just like every normal relationship we hv our ups and downSo recently my bf just started living on his own (he got his own apartment) before he was staying with family members tho it was a big house where u kinda hv ur own privacySo back to the main issuesWeeks back I gave my bf a surprise visit to his house, tho on a normal day he comes to pick me every weekend like he always comes to pick me whenever he wants me around. He wasn't happy about the surprise visit and told me not to come to 'his house without informing him,I asked him y he would tell me not to come to his house without informing him if I was his gf then he apologised and said it was wrong to give surprise visit that it's like I don't trust him.that phrase endedBack to last week. I told him I wanted an access to his house probably he drops d key somewhere for me or he should give me a spare key because I would like to come whenever I like or when d gen goes bad in my apartment, my bf got really upset and said NoThat I can't have access if I wouldn't be informing him before coming. This has become a big issue and I'm beginning to think of all sort he kept saying I don't trust him that's y I'm asking for a spare key that I should give him benefit of doubtBut really if he has got nothing to hide y should it be so difficult for him to give me a spare key???Please I would love to know what u guys think and what u think I should do,I will be reading every comment thanks.