I'm Frank's estranged wife. Frank told me that he is in Hawaii, homeless, and unemployed. He said that he cannot get a job because of my blog. In addition, I have a letter from the child support enforcement agency in Hawaii in which they said Frank reported to them that although he has advertised teaching karate in Hawaii, he has no takers. As far as Frank and "little girls," I know nothing about that. About his "PhD," he could never produce an actual degree or transcripts, so I don't know whether this degree is legitimate or not.

Okay Ms. Carr, my suggestion would be that you learn how to go about having him served through constructive notice, which would involve notice through the newspaper with the largest cirulation in Hawaii.

Alternatively if he still has court appearances scheduled in Hawaii, you could have him served when he was supposed to appear for one of these appearances.

All of our hearings have been in Virginia. My divorce was filed in Virginia. My lawyer is looking to adverstise the divorce in the Honolulu Star Bulletin. The requirement is that it has to run once a week for four weeks. Then, whether Hargrove decides to attend or not, the divorce will be heard and finalized.

After reviewing the messages on here, I must say that I am disappointed that someone would suggest that the twins are not Frank's children. I am 100% certain that Frank Hargrove is the father of our twins. I have never cheated on the man, never even considered it. If Hargrove does indeed want to challenge the paternity, I will invite each and everyone interested to our court date to witness the results. Then you can see what a deadbeat he really is. Also, I want to clarify something. The intent of my blog is not to prohibit Hargrove from getting a job. Of course, I would love for him to get a real job and that way, child support could be withheld from his earnings.

The issue came from a counter blog to yours. To me it doesn't matter, he is the father who needs to pay child support end of story.

After reviewing the messages on here, I must say that I am disappointed that someone would suggest that the twins are not Frank's children. I am 100% certain that Frank Hargrove is the father of our twins. I have never cheated on the man, never even considered it. If Hargrove does indeed want to challenge the paternity, I will invite each and everyone interested to our court date to witness the results. Then you can see what a deadbeat he really is. Also, I want to clarify something. The intent of my blog is not to prohibit Hargrove from getting a job. Of course, I would love for him to get a real job and that way, child support could be withheld from his earnings.

Mam bloggs don't prevent people from getting jobs. Take that load off your shoulders...Frank might have you believin that, as I remember it Frank talks a good game... the man could sell fridges to eskimos.

Does he still tell the story about preventing a kidnapping and catching a bullet graze on his neck? Or about catching the ashtray someone threw at him? haha. I don't know if these yarns were true but Frank is a hell of a story teller without a doubt.

Mam bloggs don't prevent people from getting jobs. Take that load off your shoulders...Frank might have you believin that, as I remember it Frank talks a good game... the man could sell fridges to eskimos.

Does he still tell the story about preventing a kidnapping and catching a bullet graze on his neck? Or about catching the ashtray someone threw at him? haha. I don't know if these yarns were true but Frank is a hell of a story teller without a doubt.

Hadn't heard the stories about preventing a kidnapping or an ashtray. I guess I missed out...lol.

Hadn't heard the stories about preventing a kidnapping or an ashtray. I guess I missed out...lol.

Lol indeed ha! FRank was always a charmin feller. The thing that amazed me about him was how he could as a traditionalist walk into a room full of Avengers, Assasins, Champions (these were the clubs in Baltimore, their names) and.... not only walk out of there but have these guys eatin out of his hand!!!! :eusa_clap and snag Arnold Mitchell as a student!

I mean that takes some mad respect that I can't even explain to most people here. Back in those days dojo stormin was the national sport in Baltimore.