You get the idea. This is obviously a field of knowledge with applicable skills that are desperately sought after in today’s world, and there are very few books or blogs that address this need. For one, J.T. Anderson, at Saving Eve, touches on these subjects somewhat regularly under the tag “Wife Training“. Also, Chateau Heartiste covers ‘woman management’ too, but a man would have to comb through hundreds of CH’s game strategies and then pick out which ones might be successfully applied to a marriage – not a simple task.

In response to this need, I’ve put together this page to help Christian men: Men who are fighting to escape the jaws of feminism-inspired cuckoldry, frivorce, divorce theft and court sanctioned kidnapping; Men who are struggling to transform their wives into a woman worth dying for; Men who are searching for a marriage that would bring joy into their families for generations to come. Those men who continue to believe in the goodness and centrality of the home, who rise up and fight when the traditional family structure is threatened, are the final hope for a civilized, Christian society.

The purveyor of Σ Frame (SF) adopts the stance that the quality and intimacy of marriages and LTR’s are subject to the ongoing strength of Frame in the man, among other things. The female sex as a whole is implicitly solipsistic, and largely presumed to be lacking in moral agency, or at least, not prone to exercise agency on a consistent and regular basis. Woman is therefore seen as a passive respondent to the man’s socio-sexual qualifications, strength of character, and comprehensive actionable behaviors (although this praxeology does have its limits). Thus, the female needs to be taught, conditioned, and disciplined in order for her to become a higher quality woman.

“Nevertheless let each one of you in particular so love his own wife as himself, and let the wife see that she respects her husband.” ~ Ephesians 5:33

Based on this scripture, love and respect are claimed here to be an integral part of a successful Christian marriage. However, these concepts of love and respect have been adulterated with false notions and fantasies. Christian love is not a romantic, ‘tingly’ experience, but instead, love necessarily involves some form of discipline, usually on the part of one’s self, but also on the part of others, especially in the case of men for their wives and children.

Discipline and Love go hand in hand.

SF also maintains that respect is a natural and proper response to the display of benevolent power.

Power and Respect go hand in hand.

Giving a woman discipline is a heady part of giving her love. Granting a man power, and not assailing, usurping, or criticizing it, is an essential piece of giving him respect. When love and respect are expressed within a husband and wife’s socio-sexual interaction, both the man and the woman experience fulfillment and blessing in their relationship.

Although Feminism, and western society at large, and even some segments of the Manosphere, do not agree with this stance, Dr. Sig recognizes these opposing arguments to be ‘enemies’ of traditional marriage and family.*

When it comes down to the choice, there are certain preferred ways to think about things, which would prove to be more advantageous in cultivating a joyfully satisfying relationship with a woman, and raising emotionally healthy, Godly children. So if you’re a man reading this, and you know it’s your God-ordained purpose in life to marry a woman and raise a family, it will be helpful to adopt an attitude that is conducive to your calling.

The following is a list of posts on the subject of Godly Masculine Leadership Disciplines in Marriage and Family. The basic premise behind most all these posts, is that women (and children) are impressionable and pliable (prone to submission), and that the man needs to be educated and trained to take certain actions to create a dynamic interaction with the woman in his life that is the best possible. Here, the goal is for all those involved to grow in their faith in God, to develop their capability of displaying Christian love (or respect, which is love as expressed by a loyal subject), and to advance their depth of spiritual maturity. The focus is pragmatically placed on what ‘works’, and not on what is ‘wrong’ or ‘doesn’t work’.

Best wishes towards your pursuit of excellent marriage and family relationships. I pray that your faith will grow in proportion to your adeptness and responsibility in the associated habits and behaviors.

* Update (November 14, 2018): While doing this study of discipline in marriage, I realized that the Biblically conscripted ontology (i.e. the commandments to love and respect) only works for those who are spiritually regenerated. But for the vast majority of people who are operating in the Flesh, love and respect are yokes that do not fit. Since then, I have been exploring a visceral power based model which would take into consideration the effects of hypergamy. This study has shown that the Biblical model is a certain type of arrangement which very few people find. To understand how the ideal archetype is constructed, see the page about Courtship Models.