Thursday, 21 May 2015

My daughter Aaliyah Rose celebrated her 2nd birthday on Saturday with a Frozen Fever birthday party! She had so much fun on the day. She had a Princess Anna costume on, a Frozen cake, lots of yummy food cooked by her grandparents plus a BBQ and a bouncy castle in the garden! We weren't planning on throwing her a proper birthday party we just wanted a small gathering with the family, but we ended up throwing a big party anyway! Not quite sure how everyone managed to fit in our tiny house, but at least everyone still had a good time.

The Birthday Princess!

After opening all her presents and cards! She loved them all.

I was so thankful that it didn't rain on her birthday! It was still cold, but at least the sun was shining so we managed to have our bbq and the kids had fun on the bouncy castle. Not gonna lie, I had fun on it too and I wish I could've bounced for longer! Just want to say thank you to all our family and friends who came to her party and for all the lovely birthday presents and cards. She truly had a wonderful time!

Wednesday, 13 May 2015

Hello my loves! In three days time, my beautiful daughter Aaliyah Rose is going to be turning two! Time flies so quickly. It feels like it was just yesterday that I got to see her and hold her for the first time and now I can actually have a conversation with her! She is so full of character and I am incredibly proud of her. Since it's her birthday week, I thought I would share my labour/birth story.

My bump progression! The bottom right picture was taken the day before I gave birth!

Aaliyah's due date was the 15th May 2013. As soon as I became full term at 37 weeks, I tried EVERYTHING that will make her come on time or even earlier. I was just so excited to meet her! I ate a lot of pineapples, spicy food, I did a lot of squats and lunges and did a lot of walking. One of my favourite Friends episode is when Rachel wanted her baby out so I pretty much did everything she did!

When the 15th of May came, I was eager to have her out. So I asked my partner Mike and my little brother Aldred if they wanted to go for a walk around London. I thought that this would really help induce labour. So we walked for about four hours around Central London. When I got tired we decided to have late lunch at Ed's Diner and I decided to get something spicy of course! After eating we walked some more and I remember going into a Holland and Barrets shop and buying Red Raspberry Leaf Tea because I read somewhere that it can help relax your uterus which can help induce labour. I thought I would give it a try! So we got home around 9pm and I decided to drink some of the Red Raspberry Leaf Tea. I really didn't like the taste of it as I'm not a fan of hot fruit teas but I downed it anyway.

At around 2AM (16th May2013), me and Mike were still awake as I couldn't sleep as always. I felt cramps around that time and I didn't really think anything of it. But as time went on, they kept getting stronger and more frequent. I thought 'This is it!' and I suddenly got so scared! I told Mike to set the timer up on his phone so I could time the contractions. I knew Mike was really tired though so I told him to try and get some sleep first because I thought it would be awhile since I would be in active labour especially coz my waters haven't broken yet. But when it got to around 4AM I really couldn't take the pain anymore and so I decided to call the hospital. I really just wanted to walk straight to the hospital as we used to live near it but I thought it's best to call them first. The nurse asked how far apart my contractions were and told me to just relax for now and take paracetamol. I wanted to scream at her! If only she felt the pain I was experiencing!

By the time it got to 6AM, I called the hospital again. I told them I really couldn't take the contractions anymore. They asked me if my waters have broken yet and I said no. Again, they told me to just relax, take a bath and even try to have breakfast. I thought, wow do they not want me to go there? When it came to 7AM, I thought nope I've had enough time to go to the hospital! So me and Mike grabbed my hospital bag and walked to the hospital even though I was in so much pain. The two minute walk took me around 20 minutes as I had to stop every time I had a contraction! I still remember this lady who walked past us smiling at me and saying, "Good luck!"

It was already around 8AM when we finally got a bed. I had my own private room which I really liked because I was screaming so much from the pain! In my birth plan I just wanted to have a natural birth and use gas and air to help ease the pain. When the midwife finally checked me, I was already 9cm dilated! I was so shocked. I think if we didn't walk to the hospital by 7AM I would've given birth at home. The only thing is my waters didn't break til about 8:15AM. After that everything to me was a blur. I just kept pushing, screaming and squeezing Mike's hands really hard and in between taking in my gas and air. The pain was bearable but once the gas and air would run out I would just cry! Anyways at exactly 8:25 AM, my baby finally came! I can't believe it only took me 10 minutes to push her out! I've heard so much horror stories and it really scared me but I am so lucky and blessed to have such a quick and safe delivery.

Giving birth is no doubt the most painful thing I have ever experienced, but it's also the most beautiful and I would definitely do it again! Not anytime soon though ;) Maybe when Aaliyah is a few more years older. For now I just want to enjoy our time with our baby girl!

To all the mamas out there, how was your labour and your birthing experience?

Friday, 24 April 2015

Last night we took my daughter Aaliyah and my little cousin Alyza to watch Disney On Ice at Wembley and it was so much fun! We booked the tickets a couple of months back and I really wanted to get floor tickets but unfortunately they were sold out already so we settled for the higher seats. I was worried that it was too high up for the kids and that they weren't gonna be able to see properly but it was actually not bad at all! I really wanted to vlog yesterday but we were running late already. The show started at 7pm and we were in our seats 10 minutes before the show. But at least we got there on time, lol.

The view from our seats!

The characters also skated around the whole of the ice rink so we managed to see everyone! I wasn't able to take a lot of pictures during the actual show as I was too busy watching my daughter's reactions when she saw the Disney characters especially Anna and Elsa from Frozen! My daughter adores Frozen so much and she knows all the words to the songs. She even looked at her dress the first time Elsa came out. It's like she couldn't believe that Elsa was a real person! She had so much fun and we had a good time watching her dancing, clapping and singing along!

Here are some pictures of Aaliyah and Alyza from last night!

Alyza and her Elsa doll which we bought from the stalls. The merchandise were a bit pricey! But we wanted he girls to have their own souvenirs.

Queen Elsa!

After the show with their light up wands!

Aaliyah Rose and her OOTD yesterday! She loves this Elsa dress which we bought from Costco for only £8! Such a bargain.

Tuesday, 17 March 2015

Wow. I can't believe it. The worst blogger award of the year goes to... ME!

I seriously am shocked that it's nearly two years since I last updated my blog. I know it's terrible. I'm sorry. I've been busy! The last post I wrote was all about staying healthy during your pregnancy and now, I have a beautiful daughter who will be turning two in two months' time! Time really does fly. It's so random but I've decided to make a comeback to blogging! I have been feeling uninspired lately and feel like my creative juices has dried up. I refuse to let my love for blogging and social media die down so, here I am! I've always loved blogging ever since I discovered Internet and Matmice (OMG, who remembers that website?) I feel like it's the only platform where I can show my passion and love for things whether it be make up, food or a place I've been to.

Now that I am a mother, I also love sharing what me and my family has been up to especially my beautiful daughter Aaliyah Rose! I know she's nearly two and you guys have missed out on a lot, but I think now is the perfect time for me to actually start blogging about her and not just sharing her pictures and videos on instagram and facebook. My time management has certainly improved and I have finally learnt how to juggle things between motherhood, work and everything else in between so I'm sure I can fit blogging into my life now! Plus, I've given myself a project to work on too - VLOGGING! Now that Aaliyah is growing up and she's starting to talk and really show her personality, capturing it on camera just seems like the right thing to do! I don't want to do it for the views or anything, but mostly for me and my family to look back on and capture memories. I even asked my partner Mike if he thinks it's a good idea since he's not really into social media that much, but he said yes and completely supportive of what I want to do. So yes, hopefully soon enough I will have some vlogs up on my youtube channel!

It feels so good to blogging again. I'm excited for things I will be blogging about in the future! I may not blog everyday, but at least I know I've started again and will have the motivation to do it!

To end this blog post, here is a picture of me and my beautiful family from the beginning of the year. Have a nice day guys!

The Proud Mama

About

I'm Andrea, I'm 24 and I am one proud mama living in London. Follow my blog to get to know more about me, my daughter Aaliyah Rose, my partner Mike and our family adventures. I also love to blog about my fitness journey, my love for food, shopping and beauty. Enjoy!