My brother will likely go and sort out the financial crap. Everything was in her bag. He and I know her system well so I can help remotely with that. My parents will go back if needed. She has an excellent network of friends that have been through this with her in the past. They all know it is better if she agrees to help rather than forcing the issue. She responds better to treatment if she goes on her pen rather than be committed which is difficult to get done on the weekend. Sigh.....just a mess.