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We are done TTC, Long Update

We are officially done TTC, some of you may know our story but some don't so here it goes. I'm 21 and my husband just turned 27, we got married May 2010 and started ttc in October 2010. Most of the time I was underweight, I'm now at a healthy. Anyways I kept getting ovarian cysts so I had laparoscopy and I had endometriosis and both tubes were blocked so they cleaned me out back in may 2012. After this long hard journey we have decided to not try anymore. I just got a job a month ago being a nanny and I will be starting school in January for radiography. I want to put off ttc until I graduate and get a stable job. My husband has a good job but I want to have a job to support us well also. And since we're young I want to enjoy ourselves for a few years and travel without having kids and do things that we want to do. I don't want to have kids and then regret not being able to do things that we should have in our early married lives. I think I became so baby crazy for a long time. But I'm now ok waiting til I finish school and get a stable job. I want to focus on my husband and i and on school and my new job. So that is an update on me.

Sounds like a great plan good luck .My only suggestion is when you start TTC again think about how long it can take and make sure you give your selves ample time to TTC .I had my 1st at 25 and he was a complete oops but happy surprise baby . I started TTC again at 35 and I thought it was going to be easy breazy if I had only known it might take more time I would have started yrs earlier I just didn't realize how scary or stressful it can be month after month that my age can have such an effect on TTC along with any other issues I might have .

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