What Women Want During Sex

What moves do girls crave in bed, but are too shy to ask? Real, sexy women gave us 15 ideas on what women want out during sex.

Jan 16, 2013

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"Lengthy foreplay please! Sex is always better (for both of us) when he takes the time to make out and get me really aroused beforehand."—Gillian S.

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"I want to be treated really passionately and aggressively. Like, throw me against a wall and grab me forcefully a la Ryan Gosling and Rachel McAdams post-canoe ride in The Notebook."—Madison E.

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Stroke Her...Ego

"I just want my man to tell me that I am a very bright, very special woman (a la Richard Gere in Pretty Woman). I feel like most guys aren't so great with the compliments, and after you're naked with someone, that's all you really want."—Christine B.

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Take a Trip

"I would love to be whisked away on a last minute trip somewhere chic, have a lovely, innocent, romantic dinner...then on a walk back to our hotel, sneak off in an alley for an illicit, highly-charged tryst!"—Liz F.

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Light Her Up

"Totally cliche, but I would love to be wooed in my bedroom with tons of candles lit everywhere. I just think candlelight makes me look better (which makes me feel sexy) and I think it's uber romantic and sweet."—Elizabeth G.

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Get Hands On

"Get your fingers involved with the oral, boys! It takes things to a whole new level."—
Jill G.

"The thing I die for is a sneak attack when I'm asleep, and I wake up to my man "doing things" to me. Kiss of the neck from the spooning position (as I sleep on my side) and then full blown fun is the best."—Melissa F.

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"Tell me to take my time. Women worry that it takes them too long to orgasm and that can lead to totally not enjoying the experience. When your man says he's down for marathon sex, you stop worrying and enjoy it more."—Courtney A.

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"Gotta say, I really like being picked up and carried to bed; it somehow manages to seem both romantic and manly at the same time."—Sarah C.

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"Set the mood—sexy music, pour us some drinks, touch my leg under the table at dinner. Just do something to change the mood from a normal one to a hot one."—Leah H.

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Get Bootylicious

"I like it when a dude kisses my butt. I mean literally, but figuratively is also nice."—Kaitlin S.

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"I like a vocal guy—a little bit of dirty talk goes a long way."—Jess B.

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"I like a guy to take all of his clothes off BEFORE we get in bed. Just seeing his excited penis turns me on."—Joanna O.

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Give Her A Buzz

"I love when my man encourages me to bring my vibrator to bed with us. It's a really wonderful addition to a long term relationship... after being together for a few years, things can get repetitive... spice it up with a toy!"—Maria L.