Frequently Asked Questions

Are you looking for an alternative to the usual bars, clubs and social media?

Could you use a weekend in nature, filled with play, exploration and discovery?

Is your spiritual life worth investing in?

Do you want to create life-long friends?

Do you want to experience being present?

Are you a gay man living in the 21st century?

If you can answer yes to any of the above questions, then Rowe is for you.

What is the food like?The meals have often been cited as one of the highlights of the weekend. There is an emphasis on organic, local and vegetarian offerings; although meat is served at most meals. . If you have special dietary needs please contact Rowe ahead of time to be accommodated, 413.339.4954.What are the accommodations like?Rowe Camp and Conference Center is nestled in the side of a mountain. You will be surrounded by gorgeous trees, flowering meadows and fresh air throughout your stay. Your accommodation choices are to share a cabin with your fellow Rowe members, which can be a fun community building experience. Other options are to camp, stay in a dorm style room, or a private room in one of the guest houses. The private rooms book quickly, so register now to ensure you get to stay in one. Please see the Meals and Housing page.

Is alcohol served at the Rowe Labor Day Weekend?No. The weekend is a drug and alcohol free event. We want people to be present for the experience. We don't have judgement about a person's choice to use alcohol or drugs in their lives outside of Rowe, we just feel strongly that the event should be enjoyed without substances.

Will I be forced to do anything I don't want to?No. We encourage you to participate as much as possible. The goal of the weekend, is for it to be a creative and transformative experience - FOR YOU. You will only get out of it what you put in, so participation is strongly advised. Nothing is mandatory, with the exception of a brief kitchen clean-up, which we do as a community practice.

What should I bring?A complete list of items to bring with you will be sent upon registration. We don't allow people to bring pets, firearms or weapons, drugs or alcohol.

Will I find a life partner at the Rowe Labor Day Weekend?You might. You might not. Who knows? The beauty of Labor Day is that we are creating a community of men, from all walks of life, who are joining together to share a unique and wonderful experience. We hope that you will find transformation and love for yourself first, and anything else is a fantastic addition.

I have a special skill. Can I help out in anyway?Of course. We often have needs for volunteers on all levels. Please let contact us with your interests and skills and we might be able to put your services to use. We always appreciate any volunteer services offered to us. Thanks in advance!