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I'm sure I wasn't planned, I was the last of 4 kids. My mom had a daughter, and then 2 twin sons. I wouldn't say I was unwanted, but I know my father loved my sister the most out of all of us. I read about it in court reports.

My two older siblings were planned by my parents. I was planned by my mom, lol. She wanted another at the time and she just didn't really discuss it. Just made sure they had sex when the time was right and it worked first try. They had planned to have four total so my dad wasn't upset or anything; he was happy. But with three traditional c sections I ended up having to be the last.

My mom and dad were both married to other people when they started their relationship, and they were very off and on when I was conceived. On my 16th birthday my mom came to me and told me she'd had a few abortions both before and after me, but for whatever reason decided to keep me and that I was lucky I wasn't aborted too. Isn't she a sweet lady?

They had to work all the time to put food on the table. My mom was never happy when she found out she was pregnant. (I remember walking in on her crying with a pregnancy test once I think it was my youngest brother). and family members would say stuff about it

Honestly if my mom had planned to have 6 kids while working barely minimum wage jobs I'd wonder about her

Planned and unwanted are 2 very different things. I was just asking because you stated that they never told you, nor showed it.