My gf and I have been together nearly 3 years. We made the promises to each other that we will always be together and I took it to heart. Started taking her for granted and being mean and pushing her away because of insecurities. Shit hit the fan recently. I have pushed her to far without realizing it.

We are still together. I made my apologies and have worked on everything I need to. I will not go back to the way I was. She says she wants to work through it and still loves me. But she isn't sure it will.

The uncertainty is killing me I hate having to sit...Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.

jesus christ, why? why are straight cis men so obsessed with disney princess movies? this is the only explanation i could find for why someone would truly believe that they will be together with someone forever when they've known them less than any of their friends.

You need to take some time away, and get a little bit of clarity. Take the day, go somewhere where you can be completely alone, outside of the house, and think some shit through. If she says she wants to make it work, it means she's not ready to let you go and its really just up to you to do some soul searching and be there for your relationship. You can repair things, just take a little break for a day and remember why you fell in love with each other in the first place. do something really special for her and for each other.

>>17161253This is basically where it is at. Agreeing to work through it. But that uncertainty kills me and eats me alive. It especially hurts when I ask if it's going to work out and she says she isn't sure.

we are using a texting app (I suggested her this app), I thought we were talking exclusively here but then 2 days ago this happened:

>me: Waiting for bug spray to wear off so I can go back home>her: 2 hours?>me: Something like that>her: I think I have a headache because I got wet this morning>me: Really>her: your cousin?>me: what about my cousin?Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.

>her: I may sleep early tonight, I have a headache>me: Okay, good night>her: Are you angry?>me: No just joking :)>her: I care about you, please don't be mad at me>me: that's fine, what are you up to?>her: taking a shower, you?>me: not much

depends on the woman. men seem to care more about dick size than women do in my experience.

if you are talking inchest, 6.5 is decent. mine is 6.5 and all i ever get told is how big it is or how beautiful it is (though mines really perfectly shaped) so you should be fine.

>should i shave down there

shaving it bald might be some womens preferences, but the majority of women will find it weird. even if they did find it attrative they'd think you are gay....Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.

I have had a problem my whole life with letting my guard down enough to let someone else in.It appears after many years I've figured it out and my fiance proposed to me last year. A big issue in our relationship is still that I have not been able to get off when we have sex/sexual contact. I'm talking hands, mouth, toys, penis, nothing works. I've had a total of 7 sexual partners and nothing has worked.I am aware that I am very absorbed in my fetish and having a vanilla partner makes it hard for me to even fantasize about them doing what I want to...Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.

>>171611733 large glasses of wine and a promise to do whatever he wants once if he does the pee thing.I have this conversation with all gf's at one point and if she said pee fetish I'd be well excited. Not because the pee fetish - i don't get that at all, but i figure after that anything goes

My 4 year old cat died today after having been hit by a car this morning. The driver who killed her just placed her on the grass next to the road and didn't even bother to check her ear for the registration number. Now some people are calling me silly for crying over a cat. But this cat was just every bit as much a part of my family as my brother. I saved her life when she was born and we were inseparable. She'd sleep next to me and she truly had a special personality. She'd let you know when she was unhappy with something.

But is it really silly? Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.

Sup /adv/,I come here occasionally (Read: twice a year) seeking, well, advice. This go around i have two things to discuss. One being stereo typical so i will start there.

I have been single for nearly 18 months now, overall my life has improved a lot since i broke up with my ex (whom I dated for 4 years starting in highschool, she was also an untreated bipolar psychopath). My social life has gotten a lot better since, I have reached many of life goals, at least the ones that are realistic for a 22 y/o, and am overall a happier person. But, I'm getting to the...Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.

My second question being, i was planning on getting a new car, I have three right now, a truck, my beater daily driver and my jeep. The truck and jeep get fuck all MPG and the car is beat as fuck and was only meant to be a temporary car, bought it for $800 and its paid for itself since it gets 28 mpg, and ive had it two years.

My plan was to go finance a 350z, which i can do, payments were like 1/8 of what i put into the jeep per month. But when i talked to my insurance agent it is going to cost me an ass load...Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.

Well I missed 3 weeks of uni straight and haven't returned any calls from friends/family asking for my wellbeing.

I don't know what happened, each day feels worse than the next. I signed up for a doctors appointment tomorrow but I really don't want to be prescribed meds for depression or anything.

I guess I just gave up. Not sure what to do because the motivation to try has just faded away and I'm not sure what will bring it back. I just don't have any physical or mental energy anymore and everything I do feels like it won't be enough...Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.

Fuck off. Give your friends and family some sort of sign! Not knowing, wondering, not even getting an answer is horrible. Lie if you have to. Although you are clearly past the point where saying everything is fine is an option.

Like >>17161103 says, this seems to go beyond depression. Hard to give advice on this level of self sabotage. Or perhaps you're a downright moron.

No, really. Your problem is that you want to stop being afraid, but this never works. It's an inherently scary thing to do, and so you will always be scared. Courage isn't when you aren't scared: it's when you are scared, but you do it anyway. And that is what you need to do: stop worrying about not being scared, and instead fight THROUGH the fear. Nothing else works.

i pretty much wanna die. this whole month has been shit. i dated this girl for three years and when I left she said we weren't dating but we were still fucking and spending all our timr together while I was gone she met a guy and made out with him and didnt tell me until the day after and I talked to her the same day it happened and she says she likes him and wants a break from me, says she loves me and when I got back I stayed at her house last night and we fucked. she said she would fuck him if he did anything and I don't know what to do now, she said she didn't...Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.

OK, you're young, dumb and full of cum, I know. I was once, too. You're being used, however nice she may be about it. You're a stunt dick, a placeholder while she waits for anyone but you to express sufficient desire to fuck her. Seriously, she prefers to fuck other people. And you're still there, waiting? Holy shit, where the hell is your ego, son? That's some messed up, extremely unhealthy shit.

OK, from her perspective, you're an object to be pitied at this point, because you won't...Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.

You need to accept that she is not for you. You WILL do better, because you can't possibly do worse. Seriously. You're at the bottom of the barrel now.

I'm sure you used to love this girl, in a childish, obsessive sort of way. No way in hell her behavior changed out of the blue. People DO grow and change, and it sounds like she grew and changed into an absolute dumpster fire of a girl.

Ultimately, I guess you need to decide on what you want. Do you want to continue...Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.

When my partner and I started up, it was long distance... and a shit storm. They were feigning to be male on the internet, I was desperate to have a "safe" boyfriend because I was heckled about being a lesbo at school despite being bisexual as far more accurate.

Turns out they were female-bodied anyway, and I vehemently denied (deny) my attraction to men to try and make my partner - lets call them Andy - more comfortable. Since I just wanted them to stop accusing me of cheating on them with at least half the human population.

So time and an emotionally volatile relationship goes on... I realize I'm trans, Andy doesn't like this but Andy also insists on only having rp/phonesex in the guise of mutually male characters... they have even said vaginas are disgusting and during in-person visits wanted nothing to do with mine. One sided sex sucks.

I'm post-op now, nearly 5 years into a marriage that has not been consummated... in-school after delays from immigration and transition and unfortunately financially reliant on Andy. Andy, who was abused as a child and has severe PTSD, is verbally abusive, would sooner jab me in the ribs than hug me, who gets snappish and cruel if I look at them "wrong"... or seemingly at all.

I'm nearly 20hours drive from family, and so starved for human contact that my wires fritz out whenever someone is just a touchy-feely sort of friend. I feel like a mess...

First off, you're confused, not trans. That's a bunch of shit. You need to be single for a little while, figure out some shit, and grow up. You also need a spine. It sounds like your dungeon master or whatever the fuck you call it is really renting out space in your head, making you worse. If you're an easily manipulated person with ego and self image problems (and year, sweetie, you are), a strong personality with their own issues can really, really mess with you. That's why I suggest...Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.

Pheromones. What you consider good smell is chemistry, not just 'taste'. Girls think manly sweat smells good, not because it's consider 'nice', but because pheromones trigger something on a deeper level.

They might think you smell good, even if you don't think so yourself.

Just wash regularly and you'll be fine.Also cologne isn't the only product to choose from. I never wear it, but I got a long beard, so I use beard oil with a pleasant, masculine scent.

So, my sister is suicidal, she took 30 aspirin of 500mg a few hours ago, she says she just feels dizzy. Sis weighs 112 lbs. Should i be worried? i've been searching all over the internet about the lethal dose, but i only found stories about people who did the same and they're fine.

>>17160941Take her to urgent care or the local ER.Call your local emergency health services and get an ambulance if you can't drive her there quickly.

That dose likely won't kill her, but if it causes respiratory arrest, you may not be able to bring her out of it with CPR fast enough. So get her to the ER, they'll be able to immediately resuscitate her if she stops breathing.

I recently learned my boyfriend of 3 years has an okcupid account, which he previously told me he deleted. For about a month last fall he was talking to a girl he met on okcupid and had been lying to me about it; told me multiple times he wasn't speaking to her because I requested it. He finally admitted to it but maintained that it was fully platonic. He let me read some of the texts, many if which upset me greatly, i.e. texts calling her "babydoll" and saying "your smiles make my day". I broke up with him and moved out. He spent the night pursuing...Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.

I'm not perfect but I do get attention from men and I don't take them up on it just because it's there. I'm working, in school, I cook, do basically anything he wants sex-wise. I feel like he's crushed my self esteem to a point where I can take infinite abuse from him and there are no boundaries because it's "his" apartment, car, pets, etc., technically.

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