What Nigerian husbands expect of their wives

In no particular order, this is what some Nigerian men say they expect of their wives…

Slim down. Don’t let people take you for my mother when, indeed, you are my wife. I love to see you exercise and eat less.

Don’t disrespect me. I want to feel respected even with my imperfections. Correct me with respect.

Don’t always claim your right. Be quick to say, “I am sorry.”

Don’t delay me when we have to go out together. Start getting ready well ahead of time and don’t ever keep me waiting.

I love good food. If you have to attend catering school to make me eat well, please do.

I hate nagging. When you make your request, believe in me to do it in my own time. No amount of nagging can change me.

Don’t belittle or gossip about me to anyone. If there are issues that need be to addressed, find a quiet time when we can talk, just the two of us; not necessarily in the middle of the night when you’re most likely going to disturb my sleep.