The couple struggled to deal with their grief after losing Ella-Jayne in 2009

"It would take the most emotionally mature people to be able to cope in that situation, and to comfort one another in the correct way.
"I can only say now, eight years later, that I’m not sure we were able to do that at the time.

"We have made mistakes and done things that don’t work for each other – and you either end up together, or you don’t.

"I think if we hadn’t created a charity, the Murray Parish Trust, in memory of our daughter, then things wouldn’t have worked out so well for us."