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...because I'm too antisocial to actually get off my ass and look in the real world for pussyAnd it's been less than a week and I forgot I actually signed up to the damn place until I got an email yesterday from an interested girl..I'm thinking wow, that was easy.

Thing is, she's quite large. And I don't find fat particularly attractive,but I'm not the shallow type so I'm gonna give this a try still anyway.

But I haven't actually made any effort yet to look and pm people myself which is pathetic I know.

So what would growery do? Opt for the easy option and take this larger than life gal on a date? Or give desperate tri-harding a go? Anyone try dating sites? Had any luck?

Oh and there's this section which asks if you do drugs...I obviously entered 'No.' (for obvious reasons ) turns out the majority of girls on there are massively opposed to drug use but alcohol and cigarettes aren't apparently 'drugs' and thus, are acceptable duhhh

I am getting sushi with some bia with big tits from one of those sites. She is pretty fine. Just message a shit ton of them till one bites the bait and then move on out soldier. I would skip the fatty unless that is the best you can do.

Dating websites are for people who were dropped on their heads as a baby or were sucking on the tit of a crack addict

Just have a friend hook you up with someone, it's not that hard.

I tried a dating website once after a friend of mine had met his gf on there (he's a ginger) but after looking around it 70% of the girls were fattys. I cant even talk to fat girls, they are repulsive to me. I also noticed an unusual amount of lesbians, dont know if you have noticed that or not.

I will talk shit now, but I am sure there will come a day, after college or something when I get desperate and have to resort to a dating website

I don't think they're as bad as what you're saying KP, I mean not everyone on there is bad looking and it makes things a lot easier for lazy peeps like myself who have had in the past just a handful of gf's and are inexperienced with chatting up wimminz I still totally get what your saying...suppose it's different strokes for different folks.

I didn't even consider it until someone at work told me she had loads of luck using it, she literally had a different man every week! So I just guessed that if it was that effective, why not give it a bash? I'm not into the whole 'clubbing' scene anyway & don't frequent enough house parties to actually have a chance (maybe because they're so rare). But trust me, if I had the opportunity to meet a girl irl, I'd take that any day over internet.

I hate those sites. The men on there are so...ugh. And usually the girls are sluts. But the legit ones like eharmony, that cost are, well, legit. But I dont need dating sites, id rather just talk in person

As far as your problem, how fat is fat? Id go for it if shes proportional. How tall? Pretty face? Most importantly, is she nice? Does she have a good personality? There are a lot of thing that outshine a subjectively unattracrive appearance.

but clearly fat because they eat too much greasy food and dont work out and are letting themself go is another. that shows a general lack of care. it goes beyond the surface of just being fat.

--------------------niteowl said:See, that term pedo gets thrown around a lot.
Is a 16 year old guy having sex w/a 16 year old girl a pedophile?
If not, then how is a 30 year old considered a pedophile for doing the same thing?
I think y'all need to look up the definition for pedophile.

Couldn't date a fat girl. Would make me puke in my mouth just trying to touch her.

But seriously, I've been curious about dating sites. I don't have any problems meeting girls in real life, but there are so many idiots and sluts to sort through before you find a nice girl with some common interests it gets fucking old. I'd like to try something like eHarmony or Match.com just to see if they could take some of the bullshit out of the mix. Maybe when I'm feeling ready to settle down it would be a ncie way to find someone who's a great match for me, ya know?

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The only requirement for membership is a desire to stop drinking. There are no dues or fees for A.A. membership; we are self-supporting through our own contributions. A.A. is not allied with any sect, denomination, politics, organization or institution; does not wish to engage in any controversy; neither endorses nor opposes any causes. Our primary purpose is to stay sober and help other alcoholics to achieve sobriety.

--------------------Alcoholics Anonymous is a fellowship of men and women who share their experience, strength and hope with each other that they may solve their common problem and help others to recover from alcoholism.

The only requirement for membership is a desire to stop drinking. There are no dues or fees for A.A. membership; we are self-supporting through our own contributions. A.A. is not allied with any sect, denomination, politics, organization or institution; does not wish to engage in any controversy; neither endorses nor opposes any causes. Our primary purpose is to stay sober and help other alcoholics to achieve sobriety.