Sniff about for a few minutes, let the hate sink in for a few hours, ignore them the best I can for a few days, bust their locker in after a few weeks, and forgive them. But all in my head, I haveLalalalalalalalalalalalalalalalalalalalalaaaaaaaaa And zone out from the rumors for a couple of months.

What do you do when you go though a breakup? What do you do when you dont want to breakup and want to keep the relationship going but your bf/gf wants to breakup with you? What was the worse breakup for you? How do you handle the breakup?

The same way you handle dirty dishes after a distasteful dinner, you wash them up and let them dry or rinse them, then you make a better dinner next day. If you leave them be for too long they dry up and will be hard to deal with.
But really, the best way to handle it is to start going out and meet new people, fall in love or get a crush, just do not be alone.

Action is the antidote to despair. ~Joan Baez

From you own profile...

I Will Never give up and Never stop fighting I will Keep on going to the end of time.

There is not much you can do to hold on to the person that wish to breakup, because it is probably something that you have done (or did not do) that has caused him to break up in the first place. If you know what has caused it and you understand how attraction work for males, you will know how to fix it but I doubt you can fix how he feels right away. Try giving him some time, find something about yourself that you are not satisfied with and change it for the better. Perhaps next time you meet him, you will make him fall in love with you all over again.
Then again, waiting for the train that might never come and keeping your hopes up might take more energy than getting over a broken relationship.http://www.lovepanky.com/love-couch/broken-heart/how-to-fall-out-of-love

Thank you and right now been talking and he still wants to be friends so maybe there still some hope left we did just plan on seeing each other again but have to wait for Feb only b/c he does live far so can only see each other ever few months. So maybe this time we can work it out this might be my last shot so its make it or break it this time. If it dont work out this time in Feb then have to move on.

What do you do when you go though a breakup? What do you do when you dont want to breakup and want to keep the relationship going but your bf/gf wants to breakup with you? What was the worse breakup for you? How do you handle the breakup?

The same way you handle dirty dishes after a distasteful dinner, you wash them up and let them dry or rinse them, then you make a better dinner next day. If you leave them be for too long they dry up and will be hard to deal with.
But really, the best way to handle it is to start going out and meet new people, fall in love or get a crush, just do not be alone.

Action is the antidote to despair. ~Joan Baez

From you own profile...

I Will Never give up and Never stop fighting I will Keep on going to the end of time.

There is not much you can do to hold on to the person that wish to breakup, because it is probably something that you have done (or did not do) that has caused him to break up in the first place. If you know what has caused it and you understand how attraction work for males, you will know how to fix it but I doubt you can fix how he feels right away. Try giving him some time, find something about yourself that you are not satisfied with and change it for the better. Perhaps next time you meet him, you will make him fall in love with you all over again.
Then again, waiting for the train that might never come and keeping your hopes up might take more energy than getting over a broken relationship.http://www.lovepanky.com/love-couch/broken-heart/how-to-fall-out-of-love

Thank you and right now been talking and he still wants to be friends so maybe there still some hope left we did just plan on seeing each other again but have to wait for Feb only b/c he does live far so can only see each other ever few months. So maybe this time we can work it out this might be my last shot so its make it or break it this time. If it dont work out this time in Feb then have to move on.

Sorry to hear about your situation. Holidays are rough when you break up or lose someone. i know you didnt ask for advice but im gonna give it anyway.

Now this can backfire so user beware.

If I had to wait around for someone to realize their feelings for me I would let them have their space and let them do what they need to do. it looks like you cant do much but wait which sucks, but I wouldnt talk to him. Now what i mean is dont go out of your way to not talk to him or see him but imo its best to have him miss you and want to see you. If you are always around he cant realize how much he misses you or wants you around. But beware it could backfire. Also another way to look at it is, granted this is a cold way of looking at it, you have 6 months invested. Not a lot of time. Think about it from a logistical point of view. But no one can tell you what is right or wrong, the heart will always do what the heart wants.

Thanks and no its not easy it sux and hurts a lot, the more I talk with him the more it seems like he dont want to wait and rather just move on, it be to painful for us both if we just wait and he said that he really thought it over and this is for the best and that its b/c we have our differences and he dont see it working out anymore b/c of it. If we did not have our differences then it would of work out better so rather wait and make it more painful he want us to start doing the move on part. He still wants us to be friends just not dating as bf/gf. This is going to be the painful part for me is moving on from him mostly b/c its been a long time that I found a guy that I cared this much for, all my other exs was not like this and when I broke up with them I was not as sad or hurtful like I am now. Its going to take lot of time for me to move on and before I can start looking again.

It does hurt A LOT. I’ve been there more than once. With each person, you seem able to become closer…you love them more. And when it ends, it can be devastating. I always go through these stages of a break-up. 1) You get so mad at them and then you think you’re better off without them “screw them!” And then that feeling eventually wears off and you become depressed again. 2) You’re in denial, keep texting them daily (sometimes they respond and sometimes they won’t) I think the stages 3-5 don’t really have descriptions. You feel numb, wake up with that heart sinking feeling every morning. BUT when you don’t wake up with that feeling, that’s when it’s getting better.

One of the people I was subscribed to on YouTube, saying how this dude left her for someone else and that it’d be a long time before they would pursue another relationship. I told her if she was going to do that fine, but while you’re there picking up all your pieces, he’s more than happy with that person.

If you do happen to break up for good, I wouldn’t wait an absurd amount of time until you find someone new.

With my ex-boyfriend, the one before the dude who I had a complex with his ex, he did the dumbing. I made all the rookie mistakes, texting them too much, etc. He finally responded via facebook with a message “Hey, I’m not moving on, just trying to heal, I’ll eventually talk to you”. He very well had moved on. As he was seeing a girl a twelve days after he sent me that message.

By that time I was more pissed off at being lied to. I was also kind of dating a boy that later would become my boyfriend.

So the point of the story is…don’t close your heart completely, because once they’ve moved on, YOU’RE the one hurting, not them.

I like to write and play a lot of music to keep myself productive while at the same time getting out some built up emotions. It's hard, especially with the loneliness that comes with the initial feeling of the breakup. But I like to try and remind myself that her and I weren't really working out, and we weren't essentially what I was looking for. So I try to keep my head up.

Also, go hang out with friends. They do a great job of cheering me up and getting my mind off of it and onto other things.

First, depends on what kind of relationship I had with him but if it's a long-lasting and serious one, I'd prolly go out with my buddies. Invite them to go to a karaoke bar, get drunk, then sing my heart out. Get wasted for a day. The next day, be an awesome-er me and act as if nothing happened. Crying and sulking my heart wouldn't get us back together so the best way for me to move on is to make myself waaay awesome-er than I was before and make him regret that he broke up with me.

Second, Fvck it. What's the point of keeping the relationship going if he already gave you up right? Whatever reasons, if he truly loves you, he wouldn't give you up like that,

And lastly, the worst break-up for me would be with my first boyfriend. We lasted for almost 3 effin harmonious years during high school then he broke up with me on the night of our graduation ball without giving me an effing reason. He even asked me if we can be friends instead. Geez seriously? A year after, I found it he's dating my bestie. Now they're already engaged. FML!