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Re: Spanking?

Spanking is very hot. I enjoy being on either end of the situation.

I like being spanked occasionally because of the short, sharp "pain" and also the sound of hand and ass making contact. It's kinda about the submission too, but it turns me on much more when I know the guy is doing it cos he knows I want it rather than cos he particularly wants to do it.

However, I like to spank a guy as a prelude to more aggressive/rough sex and by spanking him it asserts my control and that on this occasion we're going to do it my way.

We never travel as far as when we don't know where we're going.
- A. de Rivarol

Re: Spanking?

I'm kind of surprised how people can take paddles, belts, and whips smack hard on their ass. I can really only take my Sir's hand. The paddle is for punishment and I am not well at taking it.

I have really started to enjoy my Sir's hand spanking my ass though. It's gotten to the point where I actually beg him for it sometimes and I love it when he goes slow and just hits it nice and hard. I do like a good flogging on my ass as well. I'm not sure why I can take a hand and flogging but not paddles and belts.

I think the more I get spankings from my Sir's hand and floggings I think the more resistant I will build up and the more I can take. I have a feeling that guys on xtube or that can take paddles and belts have had their ass smacked a lot of times and have just gotten used to it.

Re: Spanking?

Spank This, in my opinion, is the best spanking site. Bear in mind that I am specifically talking about for spanking, and not full blown S/M ... because if that is the case, I would have to say "not even close". But for just spanking, absolutely.

By far my favorite character on that site is TJ Wood. He is remarkable and hysterical at the same time, given all the different roles he plays. Although I think I personally preferred him back in the old days as simply TJ Wood of Stern, Wood, and Paddle.

Jeff Stern, who I believe runs the site, is okay as well ... but just doesn't have the personality as TJ Wood.

Anybody familiar with the site, feel free to contact me as it would be great to share some feedback.

Re: Spanking?

As I stated previously, Im not that into spank this. their vids can be good, but from a spanking viewpoint, it looks pathetic. They practically just pat them on the bum.

I prefer spanking central.com who have a wide range of vids. Unlike spank this their vids dont end in sex (which doesn't actually bother me) but they have some great spankees, and some great vids.

Having a spanking fetish for as long as I can remember (right back to the days of the beano, and getting aroused when Dennis was 'whacked') yet never actually being spanked myself, im a fan of the traditionalist domestic discipline otk spanking style, and therefore spanking central suits me.

I tried to post two vids, however I dont have enough posts so if you want to see two good spanking vids go to gay for it.com and search for davids spanking, and scally's spanked. two spanking vids, no sex. Their good tho!

Re: Spanking?

Originally Posted by grad09june

As I stated previously, Im not that into spank this. their vids can be good, but from a spanking viewpoint, it looks pathetic. They practically just pat them on the bum.

Having a spanking fetish for as long as I can remember (right back to the days of the beano, and getting aroused when Dennis was 'whacked') yet never actually being spanked myself, im a fan of the traditionalist domestic discipline otk spanking style, and therefore spanking central suits me.

I tried to post two vids, however I dont have enough posts so if you want to see two good spanking vids go to gay for it.com and search for davids spanking, and scally's spanked. two spanking vids, no sex. Their good tho!

SpankThis is generally lame....the boys are like twinky skinny teens or teen wannabes...only a few receivers that are muscular, or fit enough so that they don't look like their gettin beat for a sandwich....unless you like the skinny boy thing. Spanking Central has pretty hot models, except the pigboy excon that the site master is totally hung up on....(made the mistake of seeing his codependent forever blogs about fatboy loser model Chris and his wife and this site master' endless attempts to rescue them from themselves). Butt, the models are generally HOT (check out REX!) and the vids are pretty cool with varying scenarios -- boarding school, coach, military, barnyard). The site master should get another top....he is always the spanker and it would be good for the site to have a good lookin or at least hwp (sorry) spanker, as well as the receiver. There is no sex on Spanking Central and any junk shots are flacid and artistically necessary (yawn!). SpankThis has a few hot tops AND they have sex with the receivers sometimes, too. Their older vids tend to be more sexy and kinky and less schoolboy caught jerkin or whatever. Not sure what's up with Daddy Howard, but he has varied and often hot bottoms.....sometimes they CRY on camera....woof!!!!! Some good amateur vids on Xtube and Kinky Pigs....

I have been into gettin spanked for a long time and the vids invariably get me goin. I used to stop in SF and see Daddy Howard in person when I would travel to Asia on business. He is an excellent spanker. Like a good spanker, he starts out slow, with his hand. Graduates to different implements and increasing intensity. I was able to take ALOT from him, and loved the welts and warm feeling I carried around after. LOL: one time I had to see a doc in Australia about my shoulder. Had my shirt off, and the guy asked me about the pattern of welts on my back...OOPS..forgot that DADDY had used a metal cable on this boys back....I just told the doc that I had been bad....and he didn't ask anything else!

Daddy Howard, like a lot of spankers is a purist, and the only sex would be when I whacked off for him, or once, when there was another "boy" there we sucked each other off while takin random whacks....way HOT. The best of course, is gettin my ass fucked once its been beat red and....when my ass is hot and throbbin and literally achin for a hard cock....lettin the top that made me bend over and submit to a beating then complete his domination by fuckin me and slappin my butt at the same time...one time had a dude that had spanked me then put me on all fours, mount my hole and use a riding crop on my ass while he rode my hole completely....very fuckin HOT....

As to what I get out of bein spanked...being dominated, exposed, made to endure pain and humiliation at the hands of a REAL MAN....love showin my appreciation by pushin my bare ass out to accept the whacks...also, gettin my chest, abs, back, upper and inner thighs and -- UGH -- free hangin nut sack whacked as well....damn, that HURTS!!!!

Re: Spanking?

spanking should be erotic, not punishment. to me. the reason to spank or be spanked is to get hot as hell.
beating an flogging is ridiculous.
I lik the feeling of being submissive, with my ass up and my face in a pillow. getting a nice erotic spanking should be a prelude to having a gorgeous cock sliding into my horny ass.
punishment spankings are silly and pointless

Re: Spanking?

I love watching a masculine black daddy give discipline. I can't quite explain it, but there is something about a no-nonsense brother taking control that makes me want to submit my white arse to his firm black hand.

This site isn't free, but there are some very HOT free trailers and a few free pics:

Re: Spanking?

I've had a fascination for spanking since I was a child. I love having my bottom turned red and sore.

For me it has to hurt real bad for it to be a turn on. I love being at the mercy of someone else and also being totally vulnerable. There is nothing better than being naked and bent over about to receive the cane on my bare butt.

I have received hundreds of spanks, cane strokes, beltings, slippering.
The birch is great because it gives a very different kind of pain.

I love my bottom getting marked and bruised.

I am writing a blog on my experiences of cp which you may be interested in.