Saturday, September 7, 2013

How to make your wife or girlfriend interested in femdom.

If you have ever wondered how you can make your wife or girlfriend dominate you, here is a great tip how do to it right.

Many submissive males fail to make their wives interest in femdom because they introduce their fantasy wrongly.

Seven years ago, I was a vanilla regular wife. I never thought of domination as an option in life. I even never thought I would allow anyone to kiss my feet. My husband introduced his fantasy to me, and I did not like it much. One day, I came across an article of domination that describes the submissive emotional side. Once I understood this side of the femdom it unleashed the dominate side of me, and I began to enjoy my husband’s femdom fantasy. Soon it became my fantasy more than his.

If I came to love female domination, many other women can do also. They just need to be introduced to it correctly. This is the reason why I’m giving this tip. Because I believe your wife or girlfriend should get the opportunity to live as a goddess.

The below tip will help you to make your wife understand the female domination fantasy and to be comfortable and confidence to try it out and enjoy it.

Understanding female domination is the key word to success. Many submissive males focus on the technical side of the fantasy rather than the emotional or psychological side of the submission.

But first, before you make any attempt follow the below rules:

Be patient, never rush her. Lose any demanding attitude.

Never pledge her to do things she does not want to do.

Give her the time to find what she feels about domination.

For those who don’t have a partner and seeking for dominate goddess as a partner, I suggest to look for a vanilla one instead and to establish a good and strong relationship first. Once you have it, try to get her understand your fantasy. Femdom relationships that grew from vanilla relationship are better since they are based on trust and strong connection between the couple.

Warning: There is a fair chance your wife will turn from vanilla into a dominant goddess that will enslave you. Make sure this is what you want. (Well, Of course you do)

Basically, the below tip ill help you to expose the emotional side of submission in a way she will understand, be flattered and curious. You will use a blog to deliver your thoughts and feeling that will make her understand you.

Follow the below steps and make your wife or girlfriend get interested in dominating you.

1. Create a blog. You can choose any free platform you like. I recommend blogger since it very easy to use.

2. Give your blog a name such as "Serving my wife" or serving goddess “your wife’s first name” for example: Serving Goddess Rebecca ( big advantage if you use your real wife's first name, she will be very faltered to see her name)

3. Announce your wife that for the next seven days, you’ll pamper her and serve her in any way she wants (no femdom! Just serve her in any she likes). She will love that of course.

4. Announce her that you will write about this experience in your new blog. Mention that it will be discreetly without any identifying revealing details about your life such as real names. Use only your wife first name on the blog title as mentioned in step 2.

5. If she asks you for the reason, tell her that you read some blogs that do the same, and you would like to experience it. It’s fun, and you want to try it.

6. Start serving your wife :

Do all house chores and let her rest, watch TV, talk over the phone or anything she desires.

Serve her and pamper her in any way she wants.

Make her breakfast and Dinner and make it look beautiful and tasty. Serve it with a tray.

Pamper her in any way she wants.

I will write a a dedicate post with ideas how to serve your wife

7. Write about the day on your blog every night as below:

Write how much fun it is to serve her. Do it in a positive and enthusiastic way. Flatter her and praise her on your blog, mention in your blog how much you love serving her, how much you love her, that she is so beautiful and a real goddess.

Never criticize her domination.

8. Every time you publish a post let her know so she will read e written.

She will be very interested to read your blog. There is no way she will not read it. It’s about her.

Your blog will give her confidence and curiosity about female domination, and she will start to cooperate and try out new things.

It depended a lot on what you write in your blog. It may unleash her dominant side even if you both did not it existed. Your fantasy may become her fantasy.

9. Stop after one week, write your last post and say you will return with more posts soon. Furthermore, stop serving your wife.

If you'll see that, your wife is disappointed once you stopped serving her, you are on the right way, since she likes to be treated as a goddess.

Defining a time frame is very important. If you will serve her all the time she will not be interested in dominating you, since you are already doing everything for her. Time frames eventually will make her to try to take the control from you (in the future).

Phase II

10. After phase one is completed successfully. You will do it again, but this time increase it to two weeks. On the future, you can increase it more, up to 3-4 weeks.

12. Do exactly the same as phase 1, but this time start adding to your blog some soft femdom fantasies, for example “tomorrow I will ask her permission to worship her feet." Once you do it, you will write on your blog how much you like it and felt submissive when you did it.

13. Start adding femdom images to your blog to make it more interesting. However, be careful with it. Do not add naked women or any extreme images. It might scare her. Remember she is only starting to experience it. Don’t scare her away. Imply in your blog that you see your wife in the images.

14. Add links to interesting articles or stories.

Blog posting guidelines.

Write only positive posts. Write about your feelings, praise her and let her know how much you serving her and being her slave.

You can add femdom images and links to articles and stories only on phase 2.

Allow anonymous comments on your blog so you will have more comments from people who read it. Of course moderate it and delete inappropriate comments.

I will post soon some examples of posts to demonstrate the concept.

I hope you will find this tip helpful. If you try it, I would love to follow your blog and even post some encouraging comment to it.

40 comments:

I have created a blog and did as you suggested, and I think its working!My wife started to show interest on domination, she read my blog every day with a big smile on her face. She is actually waiting for my posts.

I did it for a week and then stopped, she is now waiting for next time we play.One day during this week she came and asked me to get down and kiss her feet. This was a shock to me, she never asked me to do it before. I wrote about it in my blog the same night and described what I felt. She loved it. And did the same on the next day.

I deleted the blog after the first week because I used by mistake my real name on the account. I have created a new one and soon we will start another week. We really enjoy it, both of us.We even saw some visitors coming to my blog, it was really exciting for us.

How can I send you my blog url ? I would like you to see and comment.Thank you again goddess. You are amazing.

what if i want only her to be the dominant inside the bedrooom , what if i want our bdsm realtionship inside the bedrooom and outside we just a vanilla couplescan this be happened,,,,,,,,,, at least at the beginning maybe later we can make it 24/7........... can i make her dominante in bedroom for now??

Hello Goddess. I'm 20 years old and I have a friend, she is 17 years old and she is my bestfriend, not my girlfriend but we are so close to each other. I always fantasize about her dominating me, but I don't see her everyday but we chat everyday. Would this tip work in my situation too?

A girl is deeply in love with me and she has proposed it a lot of times but I dont like her because of her so submissive attitude. I feel empathy for her and I think I can accept her if she become dominant. We live in different countries so meet rarely but do chat very often. I am 24 and she is around 23. How should I proceed further? Any advice?

I will write a dedicate post with ideas how to serve your wifeI will post soon some examples of posts to demonstrate the conceptI will publish a post soon how to recognize if your girl or wife may like femdom

A quick question: where can I find these posts, if actually written? Can't find them :-(

Thanks for your tips and suggestions. I am on a much better track with my spouse / Dom. She is a very sweet and caring individual, but she likes control. Just posting a few blog post has really helped her confidence, which is pretty awesome.

I am a male of 21. I want to be a slave of my gf. I don't know how to express my feelings towards her. I am scared of if I tell her about it than she rejects me and go away. Please help me. Give me some tips.﻿ I love her so much and I want to be her slave, her pet, her foot stool, her toilet, her spitoon, her toilet paper, her seat on which she sits confertably, her toy, her furniture an, anything she wants from me to do. I will do without any rejection. But she is vanilla and I want her to be dominant. Please give me some tips﻿