hard tissue behind your nipple should be an actual gland which grows with gynecomastia... it is not fat. All adipose tissue is "soft," AFAIK. You may be feeling other kinds of tissue on your thighs and stomach... Lymph nodes perhaps? Although I don't know off the top of my head if they're in the thighs and groin or not.

but i have glandular fiborous type **** all dissolved behinde of my nips

Again, if there is glandular tissue behind your nipples, it is gyno, men are not supposed to have breast glands. But it is a common problem to mistake simple fat for gyno. If it doesn't bother you, don't worry about it.