(Say you remember when that song was new.) Say you’re part of the biggest, yet least-discussed, burgeoning singles scene in town: the over-40, possibly never-married but, statistically speaking, probably divorced contingent, looking for a relationship.

There’s the fleet of online options: Match, OKCupid, e Harmony, Plenty of Fish, How About We.

You could meet someone in what we call the real world — at work or at school, lock eyes across that crowded bar, reach for the same book at Politics and Prose, fall in love with someone from your kickball team, or your skeeball team, or your competitive karaoke team.