9. A video tape made up of high school boys answering questions on the things girls really want to know. Interview guys who say they know Christ. Ask them what they're looking for in life and in a dating relationhip.

10. No judging. All girls are welcome no matter what.

11. Have the girls plan the food.

12. The girls will make up fliers and invite their friends.

13. A female police officer to teach the signs of abusive relationships.

14. The goal? To show that there's a safe place to come and people who care.

Those are all great ideas! I used to work full-time as a Minister to Female Students for 4 years at a local church. One time we had a panel of 20 something women who answered questions from the girls. 3 out of 4 women were single and in different careers. I always think it is great for girls to see that God has big plans for them!

Thanks for the great tips Erin and Sarah. I met the girls' minister from Belleview Baptist in Nashville at the youth leaders' conference. Really neat lady!

Dear Charlie, it made me so sad to hear about Anna Nicole's tragic death. Some have speculated that drugs might been involved. There is drug addiction in my own family. I'm praying God will comfort her family through their grief. Thanks for writing about her.

Have you every heard of the 30 hour famine? You could get a group of girls together to do the famine. Our church usually does this with the Middle School Kids, and the High School Youth Group runs it, but it could be a great service project.