Filmed during our tantric retreat and film shoot at Easton Mountain, the models in this video aren’t professional porn stars. They’re men who felt compelled and inspired to bare all – figuratively and literally – and to share their sex and sexuality in a world that so desperately needs it.

The video opens with each man sharing an intention. And as the men connect in this ecstatic and delicious orgy, they direct their sexual energy into these intentions. It’s a powerful and transforming practice.

Also powerful is the visual of seeing such varied, diverse men coming together for a shared erotic experience. Indeed, mainstream porn tends to depict a very exclusive aesthetic. Over and over again, we see a very specific version of sexiness – big dick, hard muscles, young body – at the exclusion of everyone else. After a while, some of us even come to believe that this is the only version of sexiness.

In regards to Underwear Play Party, I hesitate to call these men brave; doing so would frame this video in the narrative that we hope to disrupt. Gay culture tells us that if you want to be confident, celebrated and sexy, then you need to look like the Adonises on most gay porn sites. Calling someone brave for seeing the truth is a reminder that society thinks otherwise.

And yet, it does take bravery to do something new and be a sexual revolutionary. It takes courage to be a pioneer that moves our culture forward. It takes guts to change the conversation. And so, in that way, these men are as brave, courageous and gutsy as they are beautiful.

And it’s my hope that the ability of these models to see sexiness in themselves and each other can serve as a gentle but loving nudge for each of us to love and celebrate who we are, however we are.

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