Many guyz in the FR forum (attn Haze) are struggling with zis although they read Tolle 300 times, so here is a short note about what Tolle has to do with your choding out in the club.

Tollaid sayz: you are not your mind, and you are not your emotions.

Context: when you are choding out in the club or in the bar, you feel bad, and because of that you judge it's better not to do anything. You decide this because you think you suck, or because you think you'll be blown out, or because you think you have more odds of being succesful by postponing your approach.

What Would Eckhart Tollaid Do?: He would say "Dude...........................................................The self-limiting strength of those emotions is an illusion. You think this is what you feel now and this is what you are. You are wrong. This is how you interpret something which is going on now. You interpret the fact of not having approached yet as "I am not in the mood", you interpret the fact of not taking action as "I'll be blown out and I suck".
This is your own YouTube channel.
Shut it down. Switch to YouTolle now.
That means move your feet now and talk to somebody now. Just move your feet and move your mouth.

IOW what you think are the REASONS why you don't do anything are in fact the CONSEQUENCES of you not doing anything.

When in field, shut down your thought processes, shut down the mental noise. Shut them down. Talk.

-But ET, I can't ! I just can't !

-Shut up little hairy animal, you can open your mouth and get blown out. It's just that you decided you can't accept the fact you'll get blown out. You are not genuine with yourself. You're lying to yourself when you think you can't.

-But ET, I am not hairy, I read a New Earth and ze Power of Now... And I just can't !

-Zis iz the way to go:
*get in the club
*say the first thing that comes into your mind to the first people you meet.
*see hottie, walk up to hottie, say what pops up in your mind
*never dwell on anything, never think, just do. Approach. Interact. Do what you're supposed to do.
*If you catch yourself thinking, just stop and approach.
Of course you won't be necessarily able to do it every time at first, but if you strive for it and keep this in mind before going out, it'll become automatic.
ie When you whine about not being in the mood to approach, you are just fooling yourself.

=NOT BEING IN THE MOOD HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH WHAT YOU ARE
=NOT BEING IN THE MOOD HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH HOW WELL YOU'LL PERFORM
=THE ONLY THING TO HAVE IN MIND IN FIELD IS "JUST DO IT"
=YOUR EMOTIONS DO NOT DICTATE YOUR BEHAVIOR, YOU ARE THE ONE WHO IS LETTING YOUR EMOTIONS DICTATE IT.
=YOU ARE CONFUSING THE REASONS WHY YOU ARE CHODING OUT AND THE CONSEQUENCES OF YOU CHODING OUT
=FIELD IS FOR FUCKING, not thinking

FFF FTW"

Tolle laid more than 423526 women on a park bench after this realization, including models and models.

Conclusion

-Your emotions should not dictate your decisions. You manage to do that through repetition, by pushing through when you feel like choding out. The only power emotions have on you is the power you give them.
-When you think your emotions can determine what you will do, it's just that you decided you can't accept the fact you'll get blown out. So now decide that you'll accept the fact you'll get blown out.
-Field is for fucking.

money post man! Approaching, or pushing yourself to it solves everything. I used to be in my head right when i do a damn approach, all that shit goes away in your head. Approach, keep it going. I've realised that what tim says after a certain amount of time and countless approaches you HIT STATE no matter what. It''s fucken amazing. Approach non stop for 15 minutes and BAM you'll be in state and not one bit in your head the entire damn night!

This is truly spot on man. I came to this realization fairly recently too. I use to think that because my emotions told me something, that must mean I can't do it. I never actually realized I had a choice and could choose to ignore that emotion and push forward.

I also resisted the emotion like the plague, doing everything in my power to try to lessen it but doing so I was simply taking an avoidance strategy against that fear. I listened to Tolle so many times just so when I hit the club I didn't have to feel fear.

I had it all wrong.

Upon doing so, I was neglecting the one thing so crucial about this game... building core confidence. The confidence to handle anything at any moment regardless of what I have or don't have or whether I feel good or totally shit.

problem has always been for me that my youtube has sucked, but has been powerful at keeping me a viewer. And youtolle is awesome, however it is hard to change it to that channel bc my youtube is also like this creepy guy that changes the channel away from youtolle and back to chodetube.

Also I can't get in the club, I get in the mall and stare at 10 minutes of ugly people, and then BAM one hot girl appears, and I gotta be on like that. Or else its another 10 minutes of ugly people.

@ rightnow911go:
Yeah, you hit state no matter what, most of the time.
When I wrote that post, I was thinking of the headspace I was in during my 2 30DC, ie I REALIZED TYLER WAZ RIGHT WHEN HE SAID IT'S ALL IN YOUR HEAD, for me I had no anxiety whatsoever, I waz at ease everywhere (at night), and I realized that this anxiety and all the shit you can think of that prevent you from being a pimp are really constructs of your own mind.

Then the mind plays another trick on you, and this is what happened during my 3rd DC in progress: you don't chode out because you're anxious, you chode out because you know that you can turn it around anytime. So you just wait for the perfect 10 to start doing your approaches, and you end up in chode hell, as I have been doing for a number of days now.

@Haze:
I wrote that after reading your journal. The situation you are stuck in is very familiar to me, I was confronted to it so many times (so many many times), that I made a point of trying to understand what was happening.
Success barriers at work.
Frankly if we could just make our 50 approaches a week during a 100 weeks ie 2 YEARS consistently, the game would be solved. Easily. That would be enough to bring the kind of success so many people are looking for.
So we decide we'll get this area handled.
Then we do everything we can NOT TO DO WHAT WE'RE SUPPOSED TO DO. We chode out, we don't approach, etc, then we get stuck in a spiral of negativity. 2 years after, not many changes.
Weird isn't it? Because if you just shut down your mind in field and follow the script, in less that 2 years IT IS SOLVED. As in DONE. We know it.
Indeed, it's weird.
Building core confidence: you're so right. As if learning PU was a magnifying glasses for failure and negative thought patterns.

@ The sword
Talk to the old ladies, joke with the cashier, etc.
But I don't do day game, so I won't say anything more.

@Handsome
What I liked about your journal when I started reading it was that it was a matter of fact account of things you DID, not things you THOUGHT OF. Like "I did 15 approaches, this and this happened, the end", EVERY NIGHT you went out.
Being action focused, not thought focused.

Anyway, I look like a big pimp wiz my big post, but I haven't found anozer superboobz yet and had to fuck ze same girl as last week. She sucked really bad (<-----JOKE !!!)

I totally agree with this and finally realised this after going out last weekend you see it it spelt out all over the forum in various points and in the blue print - i believe tyler refers to it as 'right action' regardless of what state youre in you can overcome any lack of state or approach anxiety ect ect by by simply focusing on right action forcing yourself to approach and then once in set your prior reference points and learning experiences will kick in and its on :)