My new GP is my lesbian one-night stand

Seeing her again has affected my relationship with my husband

Years ago, I shared a house with four other girls and one night I ended up falling into bed with one of my housemates after a few too many.

After that, things became really awkward so I moved out.

I’ve never forgotten that night, though. It was one of the best sexual experiences I’ve ever had.

So imagine my shock when I turned up at my doctor’s surgery to find a new GP had started – and it was her!

Since I saw her my mind has been all over the place and it’s affecting my relationship with my husband.

How can I handle it?

Coleen says..

Most of us have those experiences in our lives – a brief fling or a one-night stand – that we can look back on and think, “Wow, that was amazing”.

But I think it’s dangerous to start having romantic ideas about rekindling that relationship years later and trying to make more of it than it was.

Usually, it’s best to hold on to the memory and keep it as an erotic fantasy. It was probably one of the best sexual experiences of your life because it was new, naughty, exciting, forbidden – and a one-off.

Can you honestly imagine leaving your husband for this woman?

Furthermore, I think if you really did have major feelings for this woman, you’d have tried to stay in touch over the years. And it seems to me like this was very much a one-off for her too.

However, if this has made you question your sexuality and you think you may have suppressed the fact that you’re gay, then that’s something you have to address because it’s not fair on your hubby and staying with him would be wrong for both of you.