When Reza Farahan stopped by the OK! offices, we had him break it down as only he can do. In true Reza style, he explained where his friendships stand with each of his cast mates. Check out the video above to find out who he made a “huge mistake” with that he wishes he could take back, who he’s in a “calm and beautiful place” with right now and what he’s doing to keep it that way and the person he “talks to 20 times a day”!

Reza also opens up about his apology to MJ we saw at the beginning of the season and why she really deserved it. Oh, but it’s not all serious. Reza gives us a little taste of what we’ll see at his big 40th birthday bash this year and let’s just say it does not include much clothing.