DON'T: ASK QUESTIONS

“‘Did you like that? Was that right? Is this OK?’ No. No. No. No,” says Bekka Bowling. “Asking for mid-session feedback is the worst thing a man can do in the bedroom, aside from erotically dancing with Star Wars memorabilia, which actually happened to me.”

DO: USE YOUR EYES

“Watch her body language and take your direction from that,” advises sex coach Amy Levine. “If she’s making faces out of discomfort or pushing you away, then adjust what you’re doing, but if she’s letting herself go and pulling you in, keep doing what you’re doing.” And if you simply must ask? “Say something like, ‘This feels amazing, how can I make you feel as great?’” says Levine.

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