7 THINGS PEOPLE OVERLOOK IN CHOOSING WHO TO MARRY, AND THEY SUFFER FOR IT!

7 THINGS PEOPLE OVERLOOK IN CHOOSING WHO TO MARRY, AND THEY SUFFER FOR IT!

I am going to go straight to the point on this one.I found myself counselling with some young people and couples on the issue of marriage and relationships, and I believe this will be a blessing to a lot of people out there. What you overlook today could be the reason for much frustration tomorrow. My dear, if you are not married, pay attention to these 7 things. You can add more to it. But many couples are just suffering and smiling because the marriage is not fun.... Not anything near peace and joy...And most times the devil is not responsible. Foolishness is responsible.7 THINGS PEOPLE OVERLOOK IN CHOOSING WHO TO MARRY AND THEY SUFFER FOR IT.1- THAT ATTRACTIVENESS.You must find the person attractive, and there must be a conviction in you that you can spend the rest of your life with the person. This is the first signal that can give you the go ahead to get into any kind of relationship talk or activities. If this is there then you can proceed to the next stage.2- THAT ADDITIONDoes he or she add to you? You don’t need to eat all the food to know how it tastes. If somebody is taking from you spiritually, being a drag on your destiny, hindering you in your academics, drawing you away from your parents and family; that certainly can’t be a partner for you. But on the other hand, if the person adds to you spiritually, socially, mentally, and in other areas then it’s worth taking a look into the possibility of marriage.3- THAT COMPLIMENTARY ABILITY What I have to say on complementary attributes is that there are definitely areas in your life where you are strong, and other areas you are weak, which borders basically on manners, attitudes, reactions, etc. e.g. if you are lazy, a wasteful spender, angry, complacent , talkative, sloppy, argumentative, moody, truant etc. you definitely need someone who is strong in the area where you are weak, or else, you will both have a miserable marriage. While we are trusting God to strengthen us, God sometimes uses partners to get the job done. There are two basic power of transformation in a man’s life; the power of the Holy Ghost, and the influence of a good partner (wife or husband).4- THAT COMPATIBILITYCompatibility is a major area where relationships are tried. This speaks of the way both of you see things and look at issues. Somebody who agrees with you on the major issues of life like religion, children, money, socials etc, will definitely be a great friend in a relationship. Compatibility can never be 100%, but it’s better to have the major areas of your life covered to avoid being derailed in your destiny. Disagreement in areas of politics and hobbies and interests can be managed with tact and wisdom in a relationship.5- THAT SINCERE LOVEIf you are able to scale through the above points, the good question to ask yourself is “Am I in love with him or her?” Avoid asking yourself this question until you have scaled through the points above to avoid being deceived and rushing into a relationship that may hurt your life and destiny. These points are what you find out during dating or friendship before you decide to move ahead into lifetime commitment. A broken friendship or engagement is much better than a broken marriage. But if you scale through these above points, and you can answer the question of love, then I guarantee you 90% success is most likely to happen in your marriage in the name of the Lord Jesus Christ.6- THAT SEXUAL CONTROL/DISCIPLINE.AVOID getting into any sexual encounter when you are in the above process of finding out . Marriage is far bigger than sex. It is about two people joining hearts,mind ,soul ,spirit and body for a life adventure and fulfillment of destinies. So many things and lives gets affected if you get it right or wrong.If you found yourself having sex already, you have simply messed up, your judgment is already beclouded, you may be making a great mistake, you may get stuck, you have put the cart before the horse and you need to get out and get some help or deliverance.7- THAT DIVINE DIRECTION FACTORFinally, if you can simply trust the Lord who knows the end from the beginning and before whom all things are naked , then you may not need to go thru the above process, the Lord's choice is always perfect . Be sure it is the LORD JESUS CHRIST who is directing you and not your own sense. May His right hand be strong to guide you as you enjoy the journey of relationships and marriage for life in Jesus Name. Amen.SPIRITUALLY SPEAKING,WHERE THERE ARE SPIRITUAL HINDRANCES THAT YOU CANNOT EXPLAIN ABOUT YOUR RELATIONSHIP OR MARRIAGE, DON'T DIE IN SILENCE. There are anti- marriage forces that fight people, both single and married. Many are suffering from spirit husband/wife problems; others are being hindered by negative family pattern. Many are having unexplained miscarriages; And many are having issues with fruit of the womb.Many are married with children, but forces beyond their understanding will not allow financial ease, so the marriage is laboring under deep financial stress.God has used His Servant, Father Okwuosa to minister to many in these areas. In Ark of Greatness, The Winning Church, the grace for practical deliverance and fruit of the womb flows excessively!Call or text Father Okwuosa directly on 08039681543.Calls are picked between 8.00am and 11.30am, and Between 3.30pm and 5.00pm, Every day of the week , except for Saturdays and Sundays.DON'T DIE IN SILENCE.THE HOLY GHOST CAN HELP YOU NOW.