Men and women on nairaland who have had a failed marriage or, as the case might be, failed marriages, tell us what went wrong. How did it end? Was it your fault or your spouse's fault? Do you have any regrets? What were the red flags you saw in your spouse? What would you have done differently? Get in here and tell us.

Finally, from your experience, drop your advice for those that are thinking of getting married.

NB: this is a serious thread, no derailing. We are here to learn as others here are about to marry or enter a relationship. We are not here to judge anyone and there is no need to feel ashamed. It's better to have many failed marriages than to remain with a bad spouse forever. Besides, failed marriages can happen to anyone as you are not a mind reader and you are not in charge of your spouse actions.

I am not yet married, but I envision a blissful home , a marriage filled with joy and God's peace....a marriage of wealth, abundance, children (I love children), a marriage of sound mind and all God envisions for his children to have........I believe this is my lot, I anticipate it!!!!!!!! Glory!!!!!!!!!!!! #YouAreWhatYouThink#

People should just understand that marriage is serious work before entering it. It's even hard work between the couple. Marriage is different from Nollywood where you see things work magically. A couple must be ready to sit down from time to time to discuss, review and readjust where there is need. Sweet home doesn't happen by itself; it is purposeful decision and labour of those who who have a goal of putting their marriage to work. Never enter into marriage with Nollywood and social media credentials. Any marriage can work so also can any marriage crash, it all depends on the players. Divorce is not the panacea or an option for peace; it always produces victims for the society.Reposition your business today-get your website/blog/software at affordable price.Check my signature for contacts.

Wife's parent are d one controlling her. after several attempts to severe her relationship with them was unsuccessful. divorce was successful. shez back with her parents now, and she's d one doing d cooking and washing for them.

She was constantly chatting on the Internet. Kept her phone with her all the time, was going to the bathroom to answer her calls. It all ended the day I saw her send her snapping herself Unclad. I struggled with her and took her phone and saw that she's been bleeping around.... I had to walk out of the marriage.....