The Summer Sexual Affair

Step 1 You have to take advantage of the first opportunity you get. There is no time to waste; move quickly and you'll be noticed. Start out by being friendly and smile at every woman that crosses your path.

Step 2 Find out about all the organized activities and join the ones that most women tend to join: my personal favorite is volleyball.

Day 2

Step 1 Now that you've smiled at every woman in and around the hotel, it's time for you to make your move on the "open-minded" woman that catches your eyes.

Step 2 Because you've already smiled at her, it's easy to approach her. Start out with a "Hi," and ask if you can join her. Then, move the conversation along and try to find out where she's from and how long she's staying.

This is crucial because you don't want to waste your time with a woman who's leaving shortly. The ideal situation is to meet a woman who'll be around for at least as long as you will.

Once you know how long she's staying and if it matches your vacation time, you can ask her whether she's having fun and what she has done so far. If she's interested in you, she will ask the same.

Step 3 Make sure she's having fun and is comfortable while you're around her. Compliment her, tell some jokes and invite her to play volleyball, or some other sport. If she's not into volleyball, you can suggest a dip in the ocean or pool.

Step 4 Ask her what she's doing at night. Invite her to eat at the same time as you (make sure you set a specific time and place to meet), and then after the buffet, you can invite her to some late-night dancing.

If she refuses because she doesn't want to leave her friends alone, then tell her to invite her friends along because the more the merrier (your friends will also appreciate and worship you — at least for the next seven days).

Step 5 Enjoy the night; party, dance and show her that you're a fun guy to be around. But don't get too sexual or sensual. Remember, it's the first night and you want her to trust you. Unless of course she makes the first move.

At the end of the night, you can walk her and her friends back to their hotel room and make plans to meet again the next day for breakfast, and for other fun activities. This is important because you don't want them to meet other cool men. You want them to enjoy your company and eventually become sexually attracted to you.

Who do you want to be?

Don't forget that you're on vacation and you can pretend to be someone else. I personally recommend the "Fireman" title. Most women have this fantasy of making mad passionate love with a firefighter. Well there's nothing wrong with telling a little white lie so that you can help women live out there fantasies - especially on a tropical island.

The rest of the vacation

Your goal is to become friends and do activities together. Eventually, you can become a little more intimate, but don't forget to remain mysterious: women love mystery. If you play your cards right (be romantic) with twilight swims and midnight walks on the beach), she'll be inviting you over to her room by the week's end.

The big mistake

Your big mistake was that you took a long siesta and woke up too late for the party. You have to make your own fun and you definitely cannot wait too long before you begin socializing.

If there is one thing you should learn from today's lesson, it's that you can't wait for things to happen. You need a plan and you must implement it quickly.

Keep in mind that sometimes the tropical heat can get to your judgment and prevent you from making the right decisions. Before packing your bags, make sure to pack some fresh condoms and keep yourself STD-free.