How to Make a Guy Love You: 7 Strategies That Can’t Fail

So you are dating a man and things have been going well, but you haven’t really gotten him to the point where he has fallen head over heels in love with you like you have for him?

You want to move to the next step of commitment, be exclusive, and stop playing these games of cat and mouse, where one minute he is doing all the right things and the next it’s like he can care less whether you are with him or not.

I’m going to share with you 7 effective strategies to get your man to fall in love with you. If you are looking for quick tips to manipulate him into loving you, this is NOT the right place for you. But if you want to build sustaining love that stands the test of time, you have come to the right place. Be sure to read ALL 7 strategies as they work best together and you will be amazed at the wonderful results you get by using them.

How to Make Him Fall In Love

Getting a man to fall in love with you on his own accord is kind of like having a successful job interview. There are a lot of ingredients that can help you stand out from all the other candidates (other women).

Here’s the thing, a lot of women do things that cause a man to pull away instead of wanting to move towards commitment with her (I’ll discuss a few of them here), so when a man encounters a woman like you who knows the things that make him fall in love, he will be more than willing to make you his, exclusively. When it comes to attraction and making a man fall for you, it’s not all that difficult to do, if you are doing the right things.

You May Have To Unlearn Some Things

But I have to warn you, although these strategies are extremely effective and simple, you have to unlearn some things that you have thought to be effective in the past.

Once you start putting these strategies into use the correct way, you will find that not only the man who you want to fall in love with you react in a different way, but you will find you are building better relationships with other men too.

Strategy #1

This is actually the backbone of ALL the strategies, it’s like a prerequisite. If you don’t have it, you can’t use the other strategies effectively.

In fact, if you don’t possess this quality, you WILL NOT want to make him fall in love with you at all. This is because, you have probably attracted the WRONG man for you.

The first strategy is all about loving yourself. In order to use the following strategies you have to LOVE YOURSELF first. I’m not talking about the superficial type of love you see on Social Media, where people are posting a zillion selfies of themselves in different types of mirrors.

This is not what I call self love. Self love comes from a more authentic and organic place within you. It’s been ok with yourself and all your imperfections.

It’s really looking in the mirror and appreciating the person you were in the past, because you have learned so much, loving the person you are now, and being excited about your daily growth that is going to create an even better you each and everyday.

Part of loving yourself is taking care of yourself physically and mentally. You should have goals for your future that are beyond getting married and having millions of children with him. What do you want out of your life? What steps are you taking to move yourself towards that?

Are your goals authentic and truly yours? When creating these goals for yourself make sure that they are YOUR goals and not what someone else has projected upon you. What do YOU really want out of life? If you are stuck as to what you want, don’t get stressed or frustrated, you are in a great place. You should start by experimenting with different activities that catch your eye.

One way to give yourself a great mental boost is to write down your goals and write down just ONE activity you can do to move you toward that goal and start doing it now. It doesn’t take an entire month for you to get that mental boost, sometimes it just takes a day of loving yourself enough to work towards what you want.