Feeling Your Date

Do you know that a normal part of your human experience isto interpret and feel other's energy? I am not talking about auras and spirits,but actual biological processes! On a subconscious level, you can read someonemuch greater than your conscious mind is aware. If you are present to your ownfeelings, you can pick up the signals as to whether someone is interested inyou and even if they should be trusted.

Many singles go against their own inner nudging and grovelafter the guy or girl that is not right for them. The quickly dismiss their ownred flags which are right in their face and fall fast for Mr. or Ms. Wrong.Feeling fooled after the relationship doesn't work out, they wonder how theycould make a better decision in the future. The easy answer is to listen and bepresent with every date you encounter.

Each person has subtle body cues, facial expressions,tonality in their voice that give away a plethora of information about who theyare, what they want and how they feel in your presence. You are not built toprocess all of these signs on a conscious level, but you can check in withyourself as to how you feel when you are with him or her to access subconsciousclues.You may not know why or whatindicators gave you insight, but the important thing to identify is your trueinner voice telling you "yes" or "next."

The problem with internet dating is that you don't get totake advantage of your full intuitive abilities via email and texting. You cannever know if there is a connection until you are both in each other's fullpresence.Have you ever had a greatemail or text relationship until you meet in person and then everything fallsapart? You think, "What happened to that amazing guy with all that character?"What you were really feeling is your excitement about the possibility of loveand the man with the text fulfilled your fantasy. Unfortunately, it was yourover-exaggeration of who he was that created the disappointment.

I also find that it is much easier to pretend over email ortext. When meeting a person face-to-face, someone who has trouble withcommunicating will have a more uncomfortable experience. Their nervousness sendsout a feeling of distress turning off their potential partner. Electronically,that fear is disguised well with an array of emoticons. Anyone can put a smileyface or LOL in an email, but can they really express that in the flesh?

Check in with your feelings and see if the signal he or sheis sending is pleasant or unpleasant. You don't need to go to a psychic todiscover your romantic future; just access the magic subconscious crystal balldeep within you.A daily practice ofself-hypnosis visualizing your ideal mate will give you a clue as to how youwant to feel in their presence. As you familiarize yourself with that feeling,you become an expert in recognizing the right person for you and alleviatedating distractions.