This is a question that people rarely seem to ask but probably should. Far too many times I see couples that are either horribly matched and destined for a failed relationship, or people who are so passively and moderately interested in one another that “settling” would seem to be an upgrade. Maybe it’s my nature […]

You may have noticed that guys communicate with one another almost exclusively through one of four different ways: sarcastic remarks, sports talk, monosyllabic grunts….and movie quotes. You may not know the movies we quote, you may not like the movies we quote, but none of that matters, because we’re still gonna do it. But for about […]

We hear you…it sucks. You put tons of time and effort into this online dating thing. You read profiles. You think of witty opening lines. And you’re a GOOD GUY. You’re just looking for your match. But it seems no matter how hard you try…NOTHING. Or maybe you’re one of the guys that got tired […]

Texts should function like conversations. Don’t send someone a giant block of text. It’s hard to read, and it ceases to be conversational. They don’t want to read your novel. My suggestion is this: think of it like Twitter. You get 140 character to make your point. You can send a maximum of three before […]

This is a tough one. There are a few examples I can think of: You have a child You’re divorced You have certain sexual preferences You’re infertile You have a chronic illness You have an STD All of these can be potential deal breakers for some people. You can either hide them and bring them out […]