Also, PS- I’m already getting anxious that people are going to be mean to me about my ring on here… I’ve seen a big increase in people assuming rings are fake, and since I’m quite young (I’m young, fiance is 4 1/2 years older and established in his own business and successful) and I’m going to be getting a 2.70 carat diamond solitaire I’m very scared. Lol I don’t handle snarkiness very well, as in I may seem like I’m just laughing it off, but it cuts deep, silly as that may be since I don’t know anyone on here personally. I just saw the other day someone just posted a picture of their ring and because it was d color and internally flawless people started calling the person a troll. I don’t know what happened to the thread but from what I saw there was no justification whatsoever for that. It wasn’t even one of those stupid “does my ring look fake?” from a new member posts. What do you bees think the chances of everyone attacking me when I finally get it and post pictures? It’s sad people have to troll and make it expected… I’ve been reading boards for months and this is all escalating like crazy lately.

And lol, I’m always the type to panic. Maybe I should have put this as a separate board but it’s 4 am my time… 😛 Sleep deprived. ;P I’m just worried that posting on here will take away some of my joy of receiving my ring because I am sensitive to mean comments. :/

No one is forcing you to post. This is the Internet anyone could lie and many do. If you can’t handle that people may make negative comments maybe you shouldn’t post your ring when you get it…. Not trying to be mean just honest! No need to subject yourself to comments if you’re that worried about it.

@prettyinpink11: I know… :/ I wish whoever is attacking weddingbee and trolling around would stop. There should be no need for people to be insecure about posting their rings because of fakers out there that have everyone’s guards up. But, yep, it’s the internet and there’s not much to be done. :/ I guess my major insecurity is that all the sane bees would turn on me when all I’m here to do is be curious and plan my wedding! 😛

@lenabee: if your ring is real who cares what others think? Even in real life you’ll come across those that are apprehensive. Btw tread lightly when accusing someone of being a troll… That’s against the rules here. Plan your wedding and ignore people that are negative. No matter what size ring you have you could be lying and people attack for many reasons. It happens to everyone. How old are you?

@prettyinpink11: Oh, I never call anyone trolls on here. I wouldn’t ever because I don’t know for a fact if they are or aren’t. They could actually be going through something terrible or they could just be genuinely insane! 😛 I know I’d never want to be called one over something I post, so why should I call others that? Against the rules or not.

@prettyinpink11: You’ve actually pep talked me a lot. You’re right… I will probably have people in person assuming I’m a liar. I’m gonna wear my ring no matter what so I guess what difference does it make? Thank you. I’m just fairly new as a member and with all the chaos that’s been going on lately in the ring boards I’m a little scared off lol!