Eugene T. Dyszlewski: Carlin's invitation to fear

Edward C. Achorn Ed_Achorn

Wednesday

Feb 27, 2013 at 6:56 AM

David Carlin's Feb. 25 Commentary piece "Intimidation and gay marriage" is a sad read. It is emblematic of the latest attempts by some opponents of same-sex marriage to increase anxiety about social change through unsubstantiated accusations.

David Carlin's Feb. 25 Commentary piece "Intimidation and gay marriage" is a sad read. It is emblematic of the latest attempts by some opponents of same-sex marriage to increase anxiety about social change through unsubstantiated accusations.

Whatever connection he imagines between advocates for marriage equality in Rhode Island with "European anarchists" and "Bohemian sympathizers" of the 19th Century is a complete and total fabrication.

As a religious leader who has been involved in the pro-marriage equality effort for many years, I am strongly in support of marriage. I stand with many other religious leaders who would like to extend access to marriage to gay and lesbian couples, because we value marriage. We believe that gay and lesbian couples should marry for the same reasons straight couples do - to demonstrate their love and commitment to each other and to protect and nurture their children. We are strengthening civilization, not ending it.

Mr. Carlin also has a concern for incivility. There are passionate people on both sides of this debate. Unfortunately, some express their anger and frustration inappropriately. I could easily match his received threats and vile messages. Victimhood is a choice; I've learned to duck when distasteful epithets are hurled at me.

Nevertheless, painting all marriage equality advocates with the broad brush of a Hitler and Stalin association is hardly consistent with a call for civility. It sounds to me more like an invitation to fear.

The Rev. Eugene T. DyszlewskiCranston

The writer is chair of the Rhode Island Religious Coalition for Marriage Equality.

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