I understand exactly where you're coming from, Tx. I have had several blowjobs in which said individual probably tried to imitate that porn trick, and I turned to instant jitters. It's like we discussed in a related thread; it's good to stimulate the head, but it's almost vital to have that stimulation spread out over the whole of the cock, or else it would be too sensitive to enjoy.

But, of course, if I keep getting sucked after the fact, I'll do everything in my power to separate myself from the action. It makes the glans tingle to the point of discomfort; you can see it in the way my body "lurches."

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sammygirly:THIS I understand....same principle with the clit...there IS such a thing as overstimulation and after I've orgasmed, and I mean immediately after - I will jump 12 feet if you touch my clit again and probably try to crawl away.

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aussiechick63: I'm with you Sammy. Back off as soon as I orgasm or its painful. My leg also can get the twitches, and you're likely to be kicked in.. well whatever is close by.
I guess there are some similarities between guys and girls in some things.

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rainfletcher: General agreement all around on this topic. After I cum, I can't even really be touched for several minutes. Around the based of the shaft can be OK, but mostly, I just want to savor the moment and enjoy the ecstasy.

I should note that my girlfriend is very sensitive, too. In fact, I have to mix it up when I'm going down on her. She is so sensitive (or I'm so good ), that she cums very easily this way. If I want to go down on her for more than about 3 minutes (which I DO), I have to stop every so often and kiss the inside of her thighs or her breasts or her ass or whatever. This is also a turn on, and when I go back to going down on her, it's usually more intense than before. But, and this is to the point, sometimes when I go back to going down on her, she's just too sensitive and I can't. Major buzz-kill.

I am same way as is my wife. I believe what happens is chemicals are released during ejaculation that make you tired, establish the refractory period, and take away your desire for sex. I have been learning tantra, where i separate orgasm from ejaculation. Orgasm without ejaculation only releases pleasure chemicals into my body and I have no refractory period, tiredness or lack of interest in sex--my horniness increases!