Monday, March 23, 2015

Forty-plus years of mass fatherlessness (created by mass
out-of-wedlock childbearing) has created mass mental illness, derangement and
depravity among modern-day African-Americans (AAs). This mass mental illness is
manifested by legions of new-school AAs being totally out of touch with human
norms.

I applaud the patience Mrs. Dee Dee Russell-Lefrak
demonstrates in the comments to THIS Facebook post, because I can’t be bothered
talking to Suffering Yet Hard-headed AA
Women anymore. These days, I simply step over and around such women.

Part of what has gone horribly wrong among the
masses of modern day (mostly fatherless) AAs is that they give pleasing names
to ugly circumstances. Such as this “Friends
With Benefits” terminology. All of which really boils down to a woman
allowing herself to be Pumped & Dumped.

{rhetorical
question} What [non-prostitute] woman in her right mind SIGNS UP to be pumped and
dumped??!!??

Some of the silly pro-FWB talk in the comments to Dee Dee's post would be comical if the consequences
and generations of AA suffering caused by this mess weren’t so severe and extreme.

I mean, really now . . . males are never confused
about THEIR interests. The typical straight male is looking to have free sex
without any commitment, accountability or responsibility. For as long as
possible, and with as many different women as possible. In other words, the
typical male is looking to pump and dump for as long as possible—unless and until
he runs across a woman that he desires enough to want to take her off the
market by marrying her.

What I notice is that throughout each historical era
since the 1960s, men never repudiate their basic “pump and dump” urges. Instead, it’s
silly women who are buying into a series of slogans that make it convenient for
men to pump and dump them. Slogans like “free love,” “sex-positive,” and “friends
with benefits.”

Silly, gullible women—and their fatherless,
out-of-wedlock children—pay the price for buying into these pro-pump & dump
slogans. Most AA social problems stem from AA women allowing themselves to be freely
pumped & dumped instead of having basic standards for engaging in physical intimacy.

Anyhoo, if you’re smart, you’ll listen to what
Dee Dee is telling you about this Friends With Benefits mess. She’s telling some of y’all things that your older BW
relatives should have told you (and had a duty to tell you) but didn’t.