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Why is it that all of my friends and relatives insist on big weddings?

My Grandmother used to take pleasure in getting everyone up early in the morning (and I'm a natural night owl) and now my Aunt (another early bird) has arranged for an early morning wedding for my cousin (but she's in New Canaan, CT. & I live in NY).
I have to be ready early for a Limo to take me to CT.

I know the wedding will be very beautiful, but with my luck I'm always a bridesmaid and never the bride

I've been to so many weddings that I wish some of my friends and relatives would just elope

I've been invited to another cousin's wedding in Napa, California (in October) but although I know it will be gorgeous, I think I'll opt out