It may be possible to solve this problem by using package.mask to
prevent one of those packages from being selected. However, it is also
possible that conflicting dependencies exist such that they are
impossible to satisfy simultaneously. If such a conflict exists in the
dependencies of two different packages, then those packages can not be
installed simultaneously.

For more information, see MASKED PACKAGES section in the emerge man page
or refer to the Gentoo Handbook.

!!! Depgraph creation failed.

after trying to solve the first one on the list there myself kdm(both 3.5 and 4.1) stopped working and when i use another greeter app(xdm,gdm,etc) and select kde 4.1 it starts to load fine then it says the desktop and plasma have crashed. after that a blank screen.

Try to individually update the qt-4.4.1 packages. This may be related to bug 234628._________________"Those who deny freedom to others deserve it not for themselves." - Abraham Lincoln
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