My First Hormone Breakdown...anyone else?

Well i guess it would have started last night. I was sitting on the couch with DH feeling alittle tired even though I had just woken up from a nap. He started to bother me by doing things I don't like. I know most people like getting their ears nibbled and blown into but I HATE IT! Well thats what he did to me not to mention and i'm sorry if this graphic but started to put his hand down my pants to play with my butt. (Which by the way is another this I HATE and DON'T allow). Now if you've ever seen any of my comments I am in major war with hemroids so the only thing around near my butt is some Preparation H. So after I told him to stop he starting complaining that this was going to be " a long 8 months" (he said this joking please don't think he was being mean) Well that just sent me off my rocker. I got up and went upstairs I was completely done with him for the rest of the night. So I wake up this morning to the silent treatment. sweet. Won't answer me won't look at me nothing so I broke out into tears and started slamming things and thowing things (thank god my stepkids are with their mother this weekend and my daughter was in her room.) I'm better now that I got it all out but i think i scared the crap out of him lol when I made coffee for us (dont worry I only have half a cup a day and i make sure that half of it is milk) he thanked me then he started cleaning the living room. So have any of you ladies had any breakdowns yet?

Well i guess it would have started last night. I was sitting on the couch with DH feeling alittle tired even though I had just woken up from a nap. He started to bother me by doing things I don't like. I know most people like getting their ears nibbled and blown into but I HATE IT! Well thats what he did to me not to mention and i'm sorry if this graphic but started to put his hand down my pants to play with my butt. (Which by the way is another this I HATE and DON'T allow). Now if you've ever seen any of my comments I am in major war with hemroids so the only thing around near my butt is some Preparation H. So after I told him to stop he starting complaining that this was going to be " a long 8 months" (he said this joking please don't think he was being mean) Well that just sent me off my rocker. I got up and went upstairs I was completely done with him for the rest of the night. So I wake up this morning to the silent treatment. sweet. Won't answer me won't look at me nothing so I broke out into tears and started slamming things and thowing things (thank god my stepkids are with their mother this weekend and my daughter was in her room.) I'm better now that I got it all out but i think i scared the crap out of him lol when I made coffee for us (dont worry I only have half a cup a day and i make sure that half of it is milk) he thanked me then he started cleaning the living room. So have any of you ladies had any breakdowns yet?

All sympathies go out to you and your wavering moods. Luckily for all of us we've got someone to talk to and vent about it to! Other than significant others; because lets face it.....the breakdowns are usually because of them! LOL

Mine was a week ago. But wonderful, strong, silent BF of mine chose to not take much to heart, but rather seemed to brush it off. Which actually made me much angrier and spazier (is that a word?)

He is completely clueless, and as terrible as this sounds I am actually seriously considering going this alone-again- ( short synopsis: DS1 was born when I was just finishing high school, I was on my own. Partially by my choice, partially by his choice. I was actually happy to be going it alone. DS2 came along and my ex really wasn't around much. DS3 ex still wasn't around much. DD is a little bit of a longer story-not one for public sharing-PM if you want to know details. So anyway, I have kinda gotten used to being sole parent. Solo during pregnancy etc.)BF and I have been together for just over 2 yrs. He's the one. I knew it from day one. He's helpful, amazing father to my children etc......I love him to death but if he stares at my breasts one more time I might gauge his eyes out! Â Or comments on how it's been "Ages" since we slept together....or makes any remark about how his neck hurts from sleeping on the couch since we found out we're expecting (I like my space, may seem weird to some ladies but seriously we sleep in separate rooms usually.)

I found myself slamming cupboards and drawers this morning while looking for a spoon that I could have sworn he said he put them all away last night....well why can't I find one!!!! immediately after my spaz attacks I end up in tears apologizing. And he just say's it's ok. And goes on. Â He won't fight back if I yell either, and that is driving me MAD!

I'm ordinarily a bit of a *****. But as of late I think I may be hormonally upgrading to Queen. Â Although the thought crosses my mind very quickly that I should go this alone, I really don't want to! I'm just concerned he won't make it another 7.5 mths with me and will run screaming one of these times my hormones gets the better of me.

All sympathies go out to you and your wavering moods. Luckily for all of us we've got someone to talk to and vent about it to! Other than significant others; because lets face it.....the breakdowns are usually because of them! LOL

Mine was a week ago. But wonderful, strong, silent BF of mine chose to not take much to heart, but rather seemed to brush it off. Which actually made me much angrier and spazier (is that a word?)

He is completely clueless, and as terrible as this sounds I am actually seriously considering going this alone-again- ( short synopsis: DS1 was born when I was just finishing high school, I was on my own. Partially by my choice, partially by his choice. I was actually happy to be going it alone. DS2 came along and my ex really wasn't around much. DS3 ex still wasn't around much. DD is a little bit of a longer story-not one for public sharing-PM if you want to know details. So anyway, I have kinda gotten used to being sole parent. Solo during pregnancy etc.)BF and I have been together for just over 2 yrs. He's the one. I knew it from day one. He's helpful, amazing father to my children etc......I love him to death but if he stares at my breasts one more time I might gauge his eyes out! Â Or comments on how it's been "Ages" since we slept together....or makes any remark about how his neck hurts from sleeping on the couch since we found out we're expecting (I like my space, may seem weird to some ladies but seriously we sleep in separate rooms usually.)

I found myself slamming cupboards and drawers this morning while looking for a spoon that I could have sworn he said he put them all away last night....well why can't I find one!!!! immediately after my spaz attacks I end up in tears apologizing. And he just say's it's ok. And goes on. Â He won't fight back if I yell either, and that is driving me MAD!

I'm ordinarily a bit of a *****. But as of late I think I may be hormonally upgrading to Queen. Â Although the thought crosses my mind very quickly that I should go this alone, I really don't want to! I'm just concerned he won't make it another 7.5 mths with me and will run screaming one of these times my hormones gets the better of me.

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