While most everyone experiences some level of anxiety, panic attacks can make you feel out of control.

Panic attacks are typically unexpected, intense bursts of fear and anxiety. You may feel like you're losing control in the moment and are unable to avoid future attacks.[1] You may suddenly feel as though you can't function, are being smothered, or even think you're having a heart attack. These episodes can be debilitating and keep you from enjoying your life. Simply knowing more about what panic attacks are and how they can affect your life can be a great first step in learning to cope with them.[2] Once you understand the nature of your panic attacks, learn coping mechanisms to help you regain control of your life.

Steps

Part 1

Handling Panic Attacks in the Moment

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Do some grounding exercises. When you're panicking, you may feel like you don't have control of your body or mind, or you may feel detached from reality. The first thing you need to do is use grounding exercises to orient yourself to the present. Try one or more of the following grounding exercises:

Trace your hand on a sheet of paper and label the fingers with each of the five senses.

Breathe deeply. When in the middle of a panic attack, it’s likely you will struggle to breathe naturally. The best way to work through a panic attack is to turn your attention to your breathing. Focusing on your breath and learning to deepen it will help you relax and work through the panic attack. Breath awareness can end a panic attack and decrease their frequency overall.[4]

Take a moment to notice the sensation of your breath entering your nostrils or mouth as it travels down your airway into your lungs. After a few breaths, try to notice any other sensations that might accompany your breathing. Becoming more aware of the subtle sensations in your body can help you influence how your body responds to emotional spikes.

First, practice deep breathing exercises when you are calm and not in panic. By practicing in safe and calm environments, you can be more prepared when experiencing a panic attack or intense anxiety. Practicing deep breathing will help you relax and can help you work through any future panic attacks.[5]

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Stay present. Whatever you are doing, focus on that. If you are driving your car, focus on the sensation of your hands on the steering wheel and your body making contact with the seat.[6] Tune in to your senses and listen to what noises you hear. If you are alone, sit down. Feel the coolness of the tile against your skin or the softness of carpet. Focus on what sensations your body feels: the fabric of your clothing, the heaviness of shoes on your feet, if you’re leaning your head against something.

Return to your rational mind. Allow yourself to think clearly. Don’t go immediately to judgments (“I can’t believe this happened, this is embarrassing”) but allow yourself to recognize that you are okay and that nothing is happening that is life-threatening.

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Pinpoint the physical symptoms of panic attacks. Panic attacks can happen unexpectedly: one moment you are fine, and the next moment you are convinced you are about to die. Since symptoms of panic attacks can mirror some of the main indicators of a heart attack or stroke, some people fear they are experiencing a heart attack when it is actually a panic attack. You won’t actually pass out or have a heart attack from having a panic attack.[7] Symptoms of a panic attack can include:[8]

Shortness of breath, difficulty breathing

Pounding heart

Intense cold or hot flashes

Shaking or trembling

Blurred vision

Feeling like you’re choking

Strong stomach pains

Headaches

Chest pain

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Look for stress triggers. Panic attacks occur more often with stressful life events, like the loss of a loved one, a major life event such as going to university, getting married or having a baby, or psychological trauma like being robbed.[9] If you’ve experienced stress recently and tend to be more of an anxious person, this can heighten your vulnerability to experience a panic attack.

If you’ve had a panic attack in the past and are experiencing current stressful events, know that you may be at higher risk to experience another panic attack. Spend extra time taking care of yourself.

Part 2

Managing Anxiety

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Manage your stress. Don’t let stress pile up in your life. Manage your stress by engaging in activities each day that help you relieve stress.[10] This can include yoga, meditation, exercise, writing, drawing, or anything that you find helpful in relieving stress.

One excellent way to manage stress is to get plenty of sleep, around 7 to 8 hours. This can help you handle the stresses of daily life.[11]

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Practice progressive muscle relaxation. Practicing relaxation helps you cope with stress and anxiety on a daily basis and can help prevent anxiety over the long-term.[12] To practice muscle relaxation, lie down and relax your body. Tense and then release one muscle group at a time. Start with your right hand and forearm by making a fist, and then relaxing. Move to your upper right arm, left arm, then your face, jaw, neck, shoulders, chest, hips, right and left legs and feet. Take your time and feel yourself let go of any tension within your body.[13]

3

Expose yourself to panic symptoms. After experiencing a panic attack, some people develop a fear of panic attacks themselves. This can lead to avoiding situations that might induce panic. You can lessen the fear the more you expose yourself to symptoms.[14] If you have persistent panic attacks, you might try to recognize the unique body signals related to your panic attacks, such a tightness in the throat or shortness of breath. When you notice these signs, remind yourself that no physical danger will actually come from a panic attack.[15]

Practice holding your breath, shallow breathing, or shaking your head from side to side. Mimic the symptoms you experience and do them in your own control. Recognize that you are okay and no harm will come to you.

Do this in a controlled setting, so that if it happens uncontrolled, it won’t be as fearful.

4

Get plenty of exercise. While exercise helps your overall health, it is closely related to helping you handle panic attacks.[16] Since panic attacks are tied to physiological effects related to heart function-- like a rise in blood pressure or decreased oxygen-- working on your cardiovascular health can reduce the effects panic attacks have on your body.

Go for a run or a hike, take a dance class, or try martial arts. Do things that you find fun and get you moving!

5

Avoid stimulants. Try not to use nicotine products or caffeine, especially in situations where you have had panic attacks in the past.[17] Stimulants speed up many of your physiological processes, which could make a panic attack more likely. They may also make it harder to calm down from a panic attack.[18]

For example, if you’ve had panic attacks before and are someone who is typically anxious meeting new people, think about skipping that cup of coffee before going on a blind date.

6

Consider an herbal treatment or supplement. If you're experiencing mild anxiety (not a full blown panic attack) the herbal supplements chamomile and valerian root have been shown to relieve mild anxiety to some degree.[19] Be sure to check for any medication interactions before taking them and always follow the packaged instructions. There are also other supplements available that can reduce the effects of stress and anxiety. These include:

Magnesium. Check with your doctor to see if you have a magnesium deficiency, which may be making it harder for your body to deal with past stresses.[20]

Omega-3 fatty acids. You can take a supplement, like flax seed oil. Omega-3s have been shown to reduce anxiety.[21]

Gamma-aminobutyric acid (GABA). If you're deficient in this acid, which is a neurotransmitter, you may have trouble calming your nerves, get headaches, and experience palpitations, among other things. Take 500 to 1000mg of GABA a day or eat more broccoli, citrus, bananas, or nuts.[22]

Part 3

Getting Help

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Engage in Cognitive-Behavior Therapy (CBT). When seeking out treatment, find a mental health professional that practices CBT. Your therapist will help you identify unproductive thinking patterns, which might lead to anxiety or dysfunctional responses, as well as possible triggers for your panic attacks. Gradually, you'll be exposed to the specific conditions you may be afraid of or uncomfortable around.[23] This can desensitize your anxiety. CBT functions to train your thoughts and behaviors to support you and not to cause you problems.

Practicing CBT along with breathing techniques can be helpful tools for calming your panic and focusing on whatever else is happening in the present moment.

2

Identify situations that trigger your panic attacks. You may want to make a list of the kinds of situations in which panic attacks happen for you. This can also help you identify when panic attacks seem to happen. This way, you'll be prepared to use coping techniques like gradual exposure (CBT) and awareness/breathing techniques.

Being proactive towards panic attacks can make you feel more in control and buffer the effect panic attacks will have on your mood and behavior.

3

Let people who are close to you know about your panic attacks. Explain your situation as clearly as possible. If you're struggling to describe attacks, print off information about panic attacks for them to read. This can be helpful for people who don't get panic attacks, who may have a hard time understanding what they are. People that care about you will appreciate knowing how you're actually feeling. You may be surprised at how supportive they will be, and how helpful their support might feel.

Strong social support systems have been shown to be essential in dealing with stress, especially in cases of anxiety disorders.[24]

4

Talk with your doctor about prescription medications. Prescription medications such as tricyclic antidepressants, beta blockers, benzodiazepines, monoamine oxidase inhibitors (MAOIs) and selective serotonin reuptake inhibitors (SSRI’s) can significantly lower the likelihood of panic attack episodes.[25] Check with your doctor to see if one of these types of medications might be right for you.

5

Reflect on your family history. Panic attacks and anxiety disorders can be traced through families.[26] By understanding your family history, you may get a better understanding of what triggers anxiety in your family members, how they cope, and what you can learn from their experiences.

Don’t be afraid to ask your family members about their experiences with anxiety. Reach out and have honest conversations with your family about anxiety so you can better understand what is going on within yourself.

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Realize that you are not alone. Keep in mind how many people experience panic attacks every day. Some estimates suggest that six million people in America alone have panic attacks, with women suffering from them almost twice as often as men.[27] But, the number of people who have had a single panic attack at some point in their lives is probably much higher. Many of these people get help from various types of support groups.[28]

If you want to speak face to face with other people who have had panic attacks, don’t be afraid to attend a meeting and share your story with them.

How can I stop getting panic attacks whenever I'm confronted by people I don't like?

wikiHow Contributor

If you can, let a friend know that you get panic attacks, especially when confronted by these people. Sometimes your speech is hindered when having a panic attack, so they can speak up for you or take you somewhere else to help calm down. If these certain people are the main cause for a lot of your panic attacks, it may be best to steer clear of them.

You may not be able to stop one once it's started, but if you're able to slow your breathing down, you'll feel a little better. If you're having panic attacks regularly, talk to your doctor about possible counseling or medication.

What should I do if I'm having a panic attack at work? Ask to go to the bathroom?

wikiHow Contributor

Removing yourself from the situation and taking the time to take a few deep breaths and splash water on your face doesn't hurt. It's okay to want to go to the bathroom and be alone for a few minutes. Try to ground yourself. But keep in mind that giving in to the fight or flight response by going to the bathroom may not help in the long term. Try to practice deep breathing exercises right where you are. It's difficult but you are stronger than you think. You can do this.

Panic attacks are brief periods of time where an individual can feel completely overwhelmed by anxiety. Panic attacks can produce symptoms like shaking, rapid heartbeat, dizziness, or a feeling of suffocation.

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