IN-LAW RANT !!!! >:(

So basically I am LIVID. In a nutshell, my dh told his parents we did not.want visitors for first 2-3 days as I am a ftm and want that special bonding time.with baby just me and dh. So as soon as dh tells MIL that she says "well u just bursted ur daddys bubble" all stupid !! Well I'm thinking, tough sh** ! So they said ok. We will drive down a week or so after baby is born. Well, its Oct. 31 and I am due today. The in laws called dh the other night and basically made up their own schedule and said WE ARE COMING NOV. 8TH.. umm ok what if I don't have the baby until the 9th or.10th ?!?!? So I got on the phone with them and explained how we don't know when the baby will be here.and would like them to wait untill we know when I am going into labor. Ok they said. Well, they called dh last night and.told him THEY ARE STILL COMING ON THE 8TH !!!! how rude and inconsiderate without even asking.us, we have a 1 bedroom apt. And i am just livid they did not respect my.wishes and are stomping all over our boundaries and not respecting my wishes! Worst of all dh is such a.WIMP and won't tell them anyhing !!!!! What should I do I am so upset :( sorry its rly long

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Hello all, goodmorning! I cant believe all of the support i am getting from you guys, you have no idea how much i appreciate it. Im feeling alright today, pretty sad but trying not to let me get too down. Im not really expecting too much because i dont want to be disappointed.. again. DuH never texted or called last night, not even once. To throw in a curveball all of a sudden this morning I wake up and my phone is a complete dud all of a sudden and wont turn on or even hold a charge (oh the irony) .. So not sure if dumbass has tried to call or message. Probably not. Needless to say with me being due at any time now I need to have a phone so I am running over to sprint store to see if they can help me. Hopefully its just the charger or battery. Will update u guys when I get back.

Inam so sorry you are going thru this when it is supposed to be a wonderful time in your life. My question for you is since dumbass won't call mommy and daddy why don't you? At this point he is already pissed I would make sure you are comfortable and they are not.

for going to your moms. It's harder than it sounds walking out on your DuH like that, but you're a rockstar for following through with it!

GL on getting your phone back up and running, btw. Also, even if DuH caves to your very reasonable conditions, I think counseling is in order. It astonishes me that he has so little respect for you that he chose not to fix the situation and, quite frankly, pushed you out the door.

Your duh needs to stop being a baby if he wants to raise one. Not all hope is lost though. It sounds like you came out of left field with this, he may well have been shocked, and needed time to process what happened. Guys can be slow like that.

If he doesnt wake up, if he doesnt come around, then you dont need him anyways. You dont need the burden of raising him and lo. You dont need the heartache.

Oh, and going back to the earlier parts of the thread... I didnt even leave the hospital until 3 days after giving birth. That first week, I couldn't sit. I could stand or lay down. A simple pee was a half hour long, painful undertaking. I lived in fear of pooing. (Yes. Pooing) Its worth it, for LO, but the weeks after were miserable as hell.