Be on guard, protect kids from sex abuse

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Posted Feb. 9, 2014 at 12:01 AM

Posted Feb. 9, 2014 at 12:01 AM

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Editor, the Record:

Many of our children move about on a daily basis with images in their minds of experiences involving inappropriate conversations or behaviors toward them from trusted peers, adults or family members. They struggle to find the words to express what they are feeling, or to have a full understanding of what has happened to them. Sometimes, they may even begin to believe that the incidents may have happened through some fault of their own. As a result, they keep silent.

While it is not easy for many children to initiate conversations about their experiences, it is important that, as parents and guardians, we create the kind of atmosphere in which our children can feel comfortable in opening up about what might be constantly in their thoughts. This can be done by making time each day to check in with our children about what has been happening with them, in and out of school.

We should also observe and explore any change in behaviors in our children's interactions with their peers, family members, trusted neighbors, friends or adults in positions of authority. It is also important for us to regularly discuss with our children what inappropriate contact looks like and to encourage them to report any instance where this occurs.

If your child reports an incident of inappropriate sexual contact, it is imperative that there be no judgment, criticism or blame. It is also important that we remain supportive and available, so that the victim of any such act of abuse or assault can know that you are interested in, and willing to provide them with the help he or she needs.

We must take the information given seriously and be willing to take action, no matter how uncomfortable we may feel.