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I really struggled for a subject there. Anyway. For those of you that enjoy a bit of hanky panky [I love my nan even more every time she refers to it as that] did your parents find out in some awful way? Or was it just assumed once you reached a certain age that you were having sex? Has it never been discussed?! For those of you who HAVEN'T had sex, do you think your parents think you are having sex? Are there any of you who are lucky enough and can discuss it openly without embarrassment?! Is this even possible?

It doesn't stay that funny :( They took my mobile off me and I went to bed. My mum kept coming in during the night and telling me what she thought of me. I barely slept and the next morning was dragged off to the doc's for a pregnancy test, then to my nan's to tell her "what I'd done" which was awful :( Was then told I was going out with my mum and tried to refuse but it was forced. We got out the car and stood outside a cinema, when my grandad appeared. I had no overnight stuff, nothing, and was sent off to theirs. Went home next day or day after though for NY. They'd been to see my then boyfriend's parents and before term started went into school to tell school we weren't allowed to see each other.

Not knowing anything about alchofrolic leaves little ability to judge. They might be big-time Catholics who take that sort of thing very seriously.

Given my mum swears and always has, (not in a 'fack this, fack that, where are my fackin' fags' way but in a 'oh shit' when she drops something that breaks way), I always found it weird enough that people had parents that didn't swear and didn't allow their kids to swear at home at all. Even into uni it was still verboten.

Or religious in the slightest... There were various issues, one being it was "under their roof" which they disliked. The second was that I hadn't got myself on the pill or anything like that so in my mother's eyes was just asking to be knocked up at 16, and finally, my relationship with the guy concerned wasn't healthy, though that was in their eyes and I've only realised looking back, bizarre as it might seem.

Worse part was them finding a letter he'd written to me that detailed some naughty stuff that had happened. Haha. Oh it's easy to look back and laugh...

Me and my mum have always been semi-comfortable talking about that kind of stuff. We don't talk an awful lot other than chit chat, but since she told me all about sex and all the rest of it when I was about eight, the subject isn't completely tabboo like it is in some families.

when he called my at-the-time-girlfriends mum and asked that when i stayed over i slept in a different bed to said girlfried. her mum, bless her, was really liberal and told my dad that shed "heard us doing it" loads of times already.

dad not impressed. me incredibly embarassed. does the kind of dad who would have congratulated me in this situation actually exist?

i completely denied anything ever happened. It was the first time i had a girl over to my house and we both slept in my room. Also we were both super quiet. He was just saying stuff like "so...tell me what happened last night" and to ever response i gave he was like "...really?" until eventually he gave up and was said something like "whatever you say"

He was drunk at the time though and was being a bit of a prick to be honest.

My mum said nothing, other than the fact she thought she was very pretty and would like to see her again.

Other than that i've never discussed my sex life with my parents. I've only introduced them to 2 girlfriends, and in both cases i split from said girls a few weeks later.

I doubt they think about it - devout Catholics, see. They probably think the only time my sister had sex was when she fell pregnant. I think they think like that. My dad certainly does, because he's rather naive. My mum is probably more aware of that stuff but chooses to not think about it.