Online date, not what you expected, would you leave/be mean?

You guys meet at a coffee shop/restaurant. Their only difference is appearance, everything else is the same ( personality, financial success ). Would you leave, be friends, continue on the date romantically, be extremely disrespectful then leave..

For ladies, the guy looks like this online. For guys the lady looks like this online.

Most Helpful Girl

That is so messed up, disrespectful and dishonest that I would be disgusted by their character to the point that I would not want to be there anymore. I wouldn't insult them beyond saying: "I'm very sad for you, for the fact that you had to lie to me when I gave you my confidence. Enjoy your lunch." And I would leave.

What Girls Said 15

I would probably stay just to be polite. But I would definitely be turned off by the dishonestly and deception, so the date likely wouldn't go very far. I might even let them know that lying about their appearance (or anything else) won't help them, and tell them that if things don't continue between us, that's the reason on my end. It makes no sense to deceive someone that way. It's not like they won't know you did it the very second they meet you. The deception would be a way bigger deal to me than the fact that they're not as traditionally attractive as I expected.

i would stay but definitely never want to go out again. i also think it's super rude. like really, no one likes someone who lies about their appearance. i went on one date with a guy who had super outdated pictures and had gained probably about 40 lbs since the pictures were taken, not to mention he spent a large portion of the date talking about his strategies and healthy lifestyle. biggest turnoff ever. stop. no second date for him and definitely no kiss. don't try to be someone you're not.

Now I would not curse but I would tell them to get their act together and not lie about their physical appearance. Maybe that makes me vain but that could mean that they are lying about other things too.

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Anonymous

I would leave because he lied to me and because I don't find him attractive

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Anonymous

I would honestly leave.. Why lie you know. You never know if they'll like you back if you show them the real you.