A lot of people Like Sennheiser's who game because they are very comfortable for prolonged wear. Personally I think Grado's will give you a fuller sound, but Sennheiser's HD series is better for more neutral sounds, but if you're into high energy techno or trance (like me) then you'd appreciate the Grado's a little more. But they become uncomfortable at lan parties because they don't have the nice all-round the ear padding for comfort that the Sennheiser's do -- but since I'm a diehard fan of Grado Labs, I just deal with the red ear factor the next day because you can do whatever you want without worrying about the consequences and you'll probably end up better off than when you started.

There's no need to freak out and be paranoid. It takes some time for them to process your order. Give it a couple of more days. Its from the other side of the world. Besides, its festive season now and shipping is slower than usual this time of the year.

I am going to agree with Y&W on this one. You need to calm down and have a bit more patience. Especially ordering around the holiday season, I recommend just waiting a few more days and see what happens from there.