Description

I'm a down-to-earth professional guy who loves to workout and kid around a lot. I have a number of good friends who I really like to hang out with, but I don't have that one special guy yet---and that's okay. I'm pretty comfortable in my own skin most of the time, but I can be shy around new people, especially when I'm meeting someone I'm attracted to for the first time.

I like science fiction a lot: books, movies and TV shows. I particularly like the concept of time travel, so anything to do with that fascinates me.

I'm a spiritual guy but not religious. I have absolutely nothing against organized religion and always try to keep an open mind, but so far it's not been for me. I try my hand at meditation, but I'm not that good at it yet. Everyone keeps telling me to try yoga, but so far I haven't because I'm embarrassed I'll be bad at it. I don't like to be bad at things. That's something I'm trying to work on.

All that said, fitness and bodybuilding is obviously very important to me as well. Of late, I've been training to play rugby and to return to the natural bodybuilding stage in fall of 2014 in New York City. I am lifetime natural.

I work for a large publisher here in New York to produce educational Websites for college students.

Guys I'm Looking To Meet

I usually like big muscular guys who are my height or taller - shorter can sometimes be nice as well though. Hairy guys turn me on especially, and I'm a dead ringer for a beard. Though it's great to meet people from out of town, I'm really looking to meet guys in and around New York. Labels are boring, but if I have to go there, for the most part I like guys who are really versatile because that's what I am. That said, what really matters is the person and the chemistry. I like to grow. My tastes are always changing.

At this point in my life, sex isn't the most important thing to me, but I do feel like an ongoing sexual attraction is necessary for a long-term relationship. I'm looking to settle down with one special guy. I'm not into the idea of open relationships, though I don't judge people who are. It's just not for me. When I like a guy, I really like to focus on him and what makes both of us happy. I'm looking for a best friend with whom I can share my life--from romantic candlelight dinners to adventurous vacations to curling up together on the couch to watch a good movie then have super hot sex. I guess you could call me a romantic--not a hopeless one though.

I don't really like bars because it's hard for me to connect and really communicate in them. I don't drink but don't mind if other people do. I don't do drugs and don't hang out with people who do. I can be kind of awkward and shy when I first meet people, so bear with me. Coffee dates seem contrived at times, but they are usually a pretty good way to see if there's going to be some chemistry.

I wish I could find a place where I could slow dance with a man who means the world to me.