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Nisha is the Transgender Program Manager at the Pink Triangle Foundation (PT Foundation). Each week she leads support groups or counsels individuals who are going through extremely difficult times due to their gender and sexual identity, as she did in recent years.

Nisha is confident and beautiful, and she is open to speaking about her own painful personal experiences as a Mak Nyah, or male-to-female transsexual, if it helps others find the strength to accept themselves and live their lives fully. Before she begins to recount how she came to PT Foundation, she adjusts her long hair so the curls cascade down her back. Even though she looks glamorous for any office setting, she still hopes that our photographer won’t take any candid photos.

Nisha

Nisha was arrested in her hometown of Melaka for cross-dressing while spending the day out with a group of friends. Cross-dressing is against sharia (Islamic) law, and a religious officer apprehended her. Subsequently, she was sentenced to a two-month prison term.

“The doors were like Jurassic Park,” Nisha recalls of the intimidating entryway to the prison.

Prison was an even more dangerous and traumatic experience than Nisha could have ever imagined. Sex change operations are banned in Malaysia, but in the months before she was arrested in Melaka, Nisha had gotten breast implants to help her look the way she always felt – like a woman. In prison, her long hair was cut off and she was forced to strip naked and walk in front of the inmates as they made vulgar remarks.

“I will never forget the rows of cells. I was asked to show my breasts to each one. I tried to remain calm, but I was crying on the inside.”

Just for trying to be herself, Nisha was persecuted and sexually abused.

“I kept asking ‘why is this happening to me?’”

A warden offered to guard Nisha from other inmates, but he demanded sexual favors in return. Without other options, Nisha fulfilled his desires in exchange for physical protection.

The only ray of light Nisha felt was when her mother came to visit her in prison and they experienced a breakthrough in their relationship. Seeing the torment Nisha had been put through, her mother finally understood that her child was not choosing this lifestyle, but really felt like a woman on the inside. She accepted Nisha for whom she is and even fulfilled her request to bring a wig for her to wear on the day of her release.

After spending two hellish months in jail, Nisha started working in the nightlife industry. While this work provided her with money to pay her bills and more, Nisha still felt deeply unhappy and knew that she wanted other options. She came to PT Foundation to gain a sense of empowerment and to find inspiration from others who had been through similar situations.

PT Foundation influenced her life in such a positive way that she started to volunteer with the organization. Now, six years later, Nisha is the Transgender Program Manager. In her new role, Nisha is able to shape programming and advocacy strategies to combat gender and sexual identity misconceptions. With the rise of boot camps in Malaysia to “correct” effeminate schoolboys, Nisha’s work is essential.

“In Malaysia, transgender people are not recognized. Society doesn’t know about it. They think they can change (effeminate) kids, but they can’t. It just lowers their self-esteem or they run away from home.”

Fortunately, these boys have a support system waiting for them in Kuala Lumpur. They can always turn to Nisha and the PT Foundation for guidance and understanding.

With 5 drop-in centers providing food, temporary shelter, showers, counseling and other important HIV/AIDS information, PT Foundation provides services to over 40,000 people each year. Trained counselors tailor their services to suit the individual’s needs and concerns.

The Foundation strives to create awareness on safer sex, provide a safe place for individuals to share their concerns and ask questions, empower community members with information on their legal rights, disseminate healthcare information, reduce the stigmas felt by their clients, and educate the public on the issues related to sexuality to help put an end to discrimination.

Jeremy, PT’s In House Program Manager, has been with the Foundation for four years. Among his many responsibilities, he helps organize a coffee talk series where gay men can talk openly about issues in their daily lives and seek advice from others.

Jeremy

PT takes a proactive approach to spreading the word about their care services. Outreach workers are sent to seek out men who might be interested in the Foundation’s resources but are unaware that they exist.

“There are similarities between the disenfranchised groups we help like stigmas and a lack of information. We go where the men like to hangout and we educate them on different issues, like HIV and AIDS.”

Jeremy Showing me PT Safe Sex Kits

Working with the media is another one of PT’s most challenging tasks.

“We try to change media perceptions and portrayals. We educate them on ‘what a sex worker is’ and other terms they may confuse, like transsexual and transvestite.”

Through educating the public and the media, every day Jeremy and the staff at PT Foundation are paving the way towards a more tolerant and accepting society.

PT Aids Campaign

PT Foundation is one of the community organizations collaborating with eHomemakers on a new communications system. The system will enable organizations to reach out to their clients, volunteers, members, and employees with free and discounted rates on mass text messages sent online.

Fellow: Maria Skouras

eHomemakers in Malaysia

Maria Skouras will be working in Kuala Lumpur, Malaysia this spring as Peace Fellow with eHomemakers. Maria’s primary responsibility will be working on the Salaam Wanita project to empower women from marginalized communities in the Klang Valley and Ipoh who support their families by creating eco-baskets from old magazines and newspapers. Maria will be sharing their stories through blog posts and videos as well as building partnerships with businesses to market and sell the eco-baskets.

Maria comes to eHomemakers with seven years of experience developing communications strategies, event planning, and community building from working as the Senior Policy Analyst in NYU’s Office of Government and Community Affairs.

Since 2006 Maria has also been an active board member of The Posterus Foundation, a nonprofit based in New York City that raises funds for educational initiatives in developing countries. To date, the Posterus Foundation has funded schools and educational projects in Bangladesh, Paraguay, Zambia, and the Democratic Republic of Congo.