My FSG recipe is:1/4 cup flax seeds2 cups water1 table spoon olive oil1 table spoon aloe gel1 tea spoon agave nectar20 drops tea tree essential oil.....I have altered it once to reduce the hold factor but it is still too stiff and makes my hair look darker in color, oily, and very curly but it does'nt give me any volume. What should I add more or less of? Should I just try plain FSG?