Privacy Settings > Apps, Games & Websites > How people bring your info to apps they use

If they aren't allowing apps to obtain information it wont get to your phone, since the integration is still considered a 3rd party app (the facebook app is considered 1st party since its the official app).

Have them check all the boxes. Kind of annoying, but maybe tell all your friends to do this.

I did it know and everything stayed the same? I just followed some guy for some reason and the guy is just a total religion troll and the last thing I want to see on my phone is those kind of eternal debates.