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My partner and I have been together for 2 and a half years. Most of our problems are to do with my mental health - I struggle with depression and anxiety. However, I feel like I’m alone in this, when I ask my partner to be there for me or to help me when I’m in these low states he always has an excuse not to be or just doesn’t turn up. Is this healthy or I just being paranoid?