Good question, Jeff. I did some searching for images I could use of Zen Buddhist monks but came up short. I also focused more on the monk aspect than the tradition of the story — plus, it's such a beautiful photo that I felt evoked some of the themes of the parable. And, to be quite honest, I was reading this book in my off-hours when this parable appeared. I wanted to share it, and so tried to publish something sooner rather than let it slip away. So, a bit of editorial license and an excuse all wrapped up into one explanation! ;)

Reminds me of the story of the monk who traveled an arduous two days and two nights to visit his brother, sister-in-law and nephew. The wise monk had been invited to reason with the boy who refused to chop wood or carry water. After spending an uneventful weekend with the family, the monk prepared to depart. As the boy was lacing his uncle's sandals for the trip home he felt a tear fall on his head. He looked up and saw the monk looking down at him. the monk's eyes were filled with tears. The boy began to chop wood and carry water again.

This reminds me of another similar parable but I can't remember it word for word, I hope someone can help me out. It goes: a monk met a samuri and the warrior said, "Monk, I could run my sword through you and not blink and eye." and the monk said "I could let you run your sword through me and not blink an eye."

Those who demand without consideration receive nothing and get angry quickly. Those who are humble, look beyond instant demands and consider everyone, cannot fail to remain in a constant state of serenity...

A very nice story! Except, a true samurai would never lose control like that. Samurais are trained in self discipline since childhood. Regardless, it gives a nice life lesson. Be in control of oneself no matter how bad the situation is.