(Closed) Oral on Uncircumsized … Would you? Do you?

I can’t bring myself to do this with Fiance. He has never really asked for it before, I basically told him from the beggining that I really don’t like giving oral and he has been fine with it. I had noproblem giving oral to Ex’s that were circumcised…it was more spontaneous where as with Fiance I worry that he hasn’t showered and I really just find that the foreskin makes me gag…I just don’t enjoy it. It’s a personal preference. More lately he has been asking all the time. What’s your experience with this?

I just can’t…. All the loose skin….blah… We tried a bit last night and it was awful.

My husband is uncircumsized and giving oral is totally fine. As long as your guy practices good hygiene, it shouldnt really be that different. Since its something that he really wants, I think you should at least make an effort to try it. Start off with giving him oral in the shower or just after he gets out. You will probably get used to it over time.

I give my Fiance oral all the time and I’ve never thought a thing about it. I’ve had experience with both but Fiance is uncircumcised. I don’t understand the prejudice. Fiance has impeccable hygiene and is just beautiful.

i agree with pp. my fi is uncircumsized and i don’t even notice the foreskin when he is hard. it just goes back naturally. my fi is very hygenic when it comes to his penis so i never have a problem with oral. if he wasn’t, i could totally see your point. i would suggest having a shower with your fi and washing his penis yourself to ensure that it is clean. it’s good foreplay too. wait until he is hard and pull back the skin tight before performing oral. do it in the shower or as soon as you get out, or both!! i am sure he will really appreciate your efforts….maybe even reciprocate 🙂

@AlexaN: I think you just have major issues with your Fiance being uncircumcised, you seem to be fixating on this based on your past posts. Have you talked to him about this yet? You shouldn’t be disgusted by your FI’s penis. My Fiance is uncircumcised and we have no issues… I think this is a HUGE issue you need to deal with, you sound miserable.

I’m not saying I would not TRY but, its one of those things that if i am not comfortable doing it, it is not happening, and I do not think that anyone should make you feel bad for being uncomfortable/grossed out.

i agree with the other bees….you seem to have an issue with this part of him, and i think it is something you need to put some serious thought and discussion into. they say the three biggest things people fight over are kids, money, and sex. and you seem to have a big problem with the sex part already….can you imagine it in ten plus years?? i can only imagine how this makes him feel…what if he gagged looking at parts of you? i dont know, maybe you need to educate yourself and become familiar with uncircumcision. it is happening more and more these days and gone are the stigmas it used to have.

“I give my Fiance oral all the time and I’ve never thought a thing about it. I’ve had experience with both but Fiance is uncircumcised. I don’t understand the prejudice. Fiance has impeccable hygiene and is just beautiful. ~pccl”

100% Agreed! This is really a problem. Honestly, there is very little difference between a circumsized and uncircumsized penis when it’s erect, and it shouldn’t make any difference when it comes to oral. Do you expect him to give you oral regularly when you won’t reciprocate?

@AlexaN: I feel PPs are being a bit harsh. If you are grossed out and uncomfortable, that’s obviously not something you can control! I don’t blame you, though. I’ve heard stories from my friends who have hooked up with uncircumcized guys. They also disliked all that loose skin. It’s not something I would be interested in either. Fortunately, SO is circumcized.

What a question… If you’d grown up in pretty much anywhere else in the world, aside from amongst Jewish and Muslim populations, you wouldn’t think twice about this. Uncircumcised erect penises look pretty much the same as circumcised erect penises. Imagine if removing outer labia were the norm in another culture, and men said it would “make them vomit” to perform oral on an intact woman. Pretty sad.

Men are born with foreskin. If they’re generally clean otherwise, you have nothing to fear (and if they aren’t generally clean, it’s icky whether they’re circumcised or not!).