There are five stages of dreams

Stages three and four are the deepest. At this time, our brain is only using delta brain waves, which are the slowest.

The fifth stage is REM sleep. Many physiological changes occur at this stage. We experience increased heartrate, heightened blood pressure, our bodies are paralysed, and we have increased amounts of alpha brain waves. If you are like me and have sleep paralysis, your brain will wake-up before REM sleep is finished, at which point good luck because oh hell is it awful. It’s also at REM sleep that you dream of people dying. (Dreams can occur at any stage of sleep. But they are most common at the REM stage).

We then wake up.

When we wake up, we forget half of what we dreamed about and this very quickly increases until we can hardly remember any of our dream.

We then remember parts of our dreams but (importantly) we distort those memories.

So when you remember a dream of someone dying, your memory is actually not the dream you had.

Why Do We Dream What We Dream?

The cause of dreams are found in the events of the day before the dream. This he called “day residue”.

So the dreams we have are a response to the day before, and are intended as wish fulfilment, so goes Freud’s theory.

Actually consciously interpreting a dream is always very challenging because we only ever remember a small percentage of the dream, and what we remember is often distorted and inaccurate.

How does Dream Interpretation Work?

Freud argued that there are four stages used to interpret dreams:

Condensation: This is the idea that one single element of a dream can represent several things. For instance, in the dream about someone dying, the person dying may actually represent a group of people.

Displacement: This is the idea that the emotionally important event in the dream may happen to a substitute instead of the real, intended person / object. In our dream about someone dying, the person who dies could be a stand-in for someone else entirely.

Visualization: This is simply the idea that thoughts in dreams are communicated visually.

Symbolism: Just as in poetry, dreams use symbolism to replace people, objects, actions and ideas.

When we apply these concepts to the dream about someone dying, we can start to see what’s going on.

What your dream of someone dying actually means

When you’re dreaming of someone dying, it could mean a variety of things. All of which are to do with endings and beginnings.

1. A relationship is over

The most obvious interpretation of a dream in which someone dies. The relationship is over.

Heck. This doesn’t even require explanation. It’s like poetry 101 to symbolise the end of a relationship with a funeral.

2. A pattern / bad habit is over

The person who dies in your dream might not actually represent a person at all.

Surprised?

Truth is, the death of a person could represent the end of a pattern or a habit. And that could be a very good thing, depending on the habit.

So take heart and feel reassured. Death might not literally mean death in the way we think of it.

3. You’re about to start a new chapter

Is it time to start a new chapter in your life?

If so, your dreams might be trying to tell you. And one way they would tell you is with the death dream.

So smile. Because in this instance death actually means rebirth.

4. You need to move home or are about to

Homes represent our connection to a lot of different people.

Moving home can feel like the death of a lot of relationships in our lives.

In order to emotionally prepare us to move home, our dreams may show many people dying. This is an emotional prelude to a huge change in our real-life relationships.

5. If lots of people die in your dream, you might need a new social circle

If lots of people die in your dreams (or even just a few people) it could be a sign that your social circle isn’t doing you any favors.

Is it time to find new friends? Or perhaps you need to drop your old work colleagues in favor of new ones. Heck, if you’re self employed this could be a sign to start networking with a different group.

So that is what the dream of someone dying means.

Now that you know what the dream of someone dying means, you cant rest easy.

Why not make use of your dreams?

Our dreams offer a unique and powerful way to train the mind and to develop.

Our dreams are a way for the deeper parts of our minds to guide our consciousness.

We can all make use of that guidance. The key is using Dreamworking.

Dreamworking is a practical way to connect to your dreams, to understand them, and to make use of the messages they send you.

Christopher Sowton RP ND has written an excellent guide to Dreamworking in his book Dreamworking: How to Listen to the Inner Guidance of Your Dreams [AMAZON].

In the book, Sowton shares five steps to making use of your dreams.

I was gawping at the pages of this book. I found it fascinating. Totally unlike anything else I’ve read. It’s a truly original take on dreamwork. Definitely worthy of a read. Plus, the guidance is easy to follow even for those who have never tried dreamworking.

Dreams. They’re an amazing, deep, and often misunderstood aspect of the human mind

As we’ve seen, dreams work like poetry. They use allusions, symbolism, emotion, and even story to communicate with you.

That’s the brilliant thing about dreams: they can mean so many different things.

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Paul Harrison is a meditation teacher, author and journalist based in Hamilton, Ontario, Canada. Paul has helped thousands of people to discover their true potential. Don’t miss Paul’s inspirational and enlightening book Journey To The Buddha Within You.

2 Comments

Your articles are motivating me. I have a strange weird problem regarding my dreams and also life. In my dream all the time most of the time I see myself in India, although am in the united States. I don’t like to be there than also my dreams take me there, also I fight with my parents in these very dream. Some of the dreams have no relations even with my life, even in 100 of my lives. Now there is a problem going on alone with me. I just want freedom, actually they think I should stay with them. Should care for them. I love them they also do. It’s look like may be my bad deeds in previous life or may be sometime’s I think that I shall be lost in the cosmos to get rid of these hellish life. Stucked in the present physical body. Mentally since my childhood am not feeling free. I have never love myself. I always care about others and took care of their needs. I always has ignored myself. I remember when I was child I was knowing my mental condition. I always thought of feeling inferior than others. Was hiding myself from others. When there was some society function celebration I always told my parents that am not coming because personally I was feeling that if I will go then people will think of me like hey see that stupid comes. In reality some of the people were ragging me. Always making fun of me. I was also like that, don’t care for myself. I was very mischievous. Was saying people. I would love to die for the people caring for them or doing some good works or fighting for the country instead of eating my life. I do believe in the soreness Lord. That means in short am not able to concentrate on 1 thing of what I want. I don’t know what shall I do or what is my target. Right now am taking antidepressant called Lexapro. Always I was and I am negative, now if I want to get the hell outta my life and wants to be free, I can’t because I also think that parents contributed in my life, they spend their life with me they loved me and I am fleeing away. Now they are 60 and 53 respectively. I think if I will flew away, these thoughts will haunts my mind that what they will do, what r they doing right now kinda lots of questions. In one of my dream I was fighting moguls. I killed 2 moguls and threw away their bodies in the lake or may be River or sea. Than they got to know about it, army of moguls is coming after me. Am standing in front of them than also they can’t see me and I am witnessing these stupid dream. Now I don’t know where and how to start my new life? Just thinking to join some ashrams, may be sometime’s I think to flew away to Tibet convert myself to Buddhism. Sometimes I think to flew away to Himalayas. I know by these way never ever am gonna attain an enlightenment. Thanks sir.