FROM FRIENDS TO LOVERS: STOP BEING HER EMOTIONAL COOKIE MAN AUDIO

Are you an Emotional Cookie Man?Are you 'just a friend' to a woman you secretly wish would be your lover?Are you like a therapist to her?

This audio recording teaches men stuck in the 'Friend Zone' how to break free and stop being the Emotional Cookie Man!

DISCOVER::

How to turn your female friend into your lover even when she has rejected you in the past.Why would a woman rather date and have sex with a stranger, than a male friend she had known for years?What emotional needs are you violating?Why doesn't she see you as a sexually available being? Learn the difference between a real female friend, and a woman that uses men.

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Dear Frank - It's working!! In the past few weeks my social circles reached some kind of critical mass, and I am suddenly meeting more quality women than ever before without a lot of effort other than showing up to thing after thing.

Last night I had sex with a girl who had been a close platonic friend for almost a year. I was really uncomfortable pushing the relationship into that region for some reason, but remembered what happened with women I didn't make a move when it was time, and your coaching provided motivation to take the necessary actions.

This was exactly the kind of non-drunken sex I had talked about, always wanted but did not get until now and it felt great. I am really happy with the direction this is going. In 2013, I'd like to schedule more regular sessions and make sure I am keeping this momentum going.

-Samuel P. from St. Paul,Minnesota

I attended the seminar that was recorded for this program. This lecture really struck close to home, given what drove me to coaching with Frank in the first place. Frank has already discussed the emotional cookie men (henceforth ECM) in his book, "Everything Out of Her Mouth is a Test". Over the early parts of the lecture, he recaps what he had already written briefly before supplementing it by an in-depth analysis of how women only think in rigid categories, that the ECM has fallen into one of the more horrible ones, which emotional needs the ECM violates and addresses, how he does so, and what are the consequences he must face as a result. I realized that, prior to the coaching, I was a horrendous ECM; thanks to Frank, I not only renewed my resolve to never become an ECM to any woman ever again, but also how exactly not to.

One interesting thing that Frank mentioned was the ten-year-rule - that in ten years' time, chances are that the people currently in your life will no longer be there. I think this rule does different things for different people. What I got out of it is to not be too attached to anyone in my life. Once you understand the ten-year-rule, really grasp it on both an intellectual and visceral level, you will no longer fear abandonment. A real man faces the world alone, without backing down or flinching. The most valuable part, I suppose, for all of us, were the ways to turn a female 'friend' into a lover. Early in the lecture, Frank defined a female friend as either an ally or at worst an enemy.

A man must be willing to do whatever it takes to get what he wants, even if this includes killing his former self completely. Frank's discussion of this part spoke strongly to me. A huge part of my personal development is the gradual end of the person I was prior to my coaching days. I've forced myself to, adopt new preferences, and assume new values while condemning my old ones. Such was my resolve. This is what it took for me to get to where I am, and it was painful, but I have no regrets. When it is time or all your efforts will be for naught.

-Victor H., Toronto

When Men Get Friend Zoned

On this week's episode of REAL TALK with Rachael-Lea, I speak with Frank Kermit, coach, and author on why men get friend zoned and some of the things they can avoid in order to build healthy relationships. I also speak with Khalil, an ex-friend zoned guy who learned the hard way.

I attended the seminar that was recorded for this program. I was fortunate enough to have spent one-on-one consultation time with Frank on this very subject, so this lecture was a review for me. But I can tell everyone that simply put, IT WORKS. How do I know? Because I tired it and succeeded.

Before I met Frank, there was a girl that I had held a candle for, for SEVEN YEARS. I was deep in the familiar and dreaded "Friend Zone" with her, and at the time, I was starting to learn how to get this part of my life handled. I was learning some new skills that I was excited to put into practice, but I was definitely not at the skill level where I could get her, and even if I could, Frank warned that I needed the passage of time to both develop further and to create a window of opportunity for her to re-categorize me - one of Frank's principles is that women put men into categories, and I was in the friend category.

I had a coffee date with her, and it was very difficult for me to do, but I trusted Frank so I called her and cancelled it, and then stopped all contact for a year. This was not easy to do at all, in fact it was downright painful. During that time, I had a number of mentors (including Frank), top guys in the field, that I worked with on developing myself. When it came time, we re-connected, and the moment we met, she looked into my eyes, and I already knew that she had no choice but to re-categorize me. And she did, after testing me especially hard (just as Frank said she would, because she wanted to make sure this was a real change and not an act). The dynamics of how we related completely changed, there was massive sexual tension, this time not just from me but from HER as well. Simply put, I was amazed.

Just stop, for a moment, and imagine, what it would be like, to be wanted, FINALLY by someone you desire very much, and for so long, AT LAST. It's a feeling like no other, and you can feel it now. Turning a friend into a lover is a legend among men, a "Holy Grail", because every man has suffered the pain of unrequited love. Men throughout the ages have tried many ways to overcome this, and the few that succeed don't know how they did it, attributing their good fortune to divine intervention or just good old fashioned dumb luck.

Frank takes the luck out of the situation and replaces luck with the principles for success. The principles are sound, and I know because I used them and they work. Thank you Frank.

-Lee L, Toronto

I attended the seminar that was recorded for this program. I got into this because I was always "just friends" with girls so I was excited to directly address the issue and understand it using the emotional needs analysis model. The tactics to actually turn a friend into a lover, from a man who's done it himself, I think makes this one of the most valuable lectures from Frank thus far.

It is a good thing for me to listen, because the experience is different than that of reading the book. What I mean here, the way the words are spoken, sometimes histrionic, sometimes hilarious, and when the time is right, very very serious. It helps because there's another level of communication, and if we are open to go through the experience we are able to catch some subtleties of it. I imagine that being there at the lectures must quite an event...

Frank explains the traits of the Emotional Cookie Man, and then goes through the Emotional Needs of Women, and how under this scenario, the ECM scenario, some of the emotional needs are addresses, fully or partially, and how some are violated. He makes some good distinctions and gives fine points as to see the differences where some emotional needs apparently are addressed, but in reality is quite the opposite.

The change comes in two areas: Learn to address the emotional needs of women to a fine degree, and work in your self (see the Coaching Workbook for Men). At the core of the second is our real self/being.

Expect to be tested very viciously, hardcore, big time. Only then we stand a chance to accomplish the goal of turning a female friend into a lover. Make a profile and see which are the dominant emotional needs of the lady in question, because we have spent time, years maybe in her company.

Lots of valuable tips. I see myself listening to the program at least 3-4 more times this week. Thumbs up Frank!

-Czar G, Mexico

I learned a lot from listening to this program; it was like learning new material from Frank. I was surprised of the real stories that Frank talks about. It amazes me that guys (including myself in the past) do so much for a girl, and end up being her emotional cookie man (ECM). Frank also goes through each emotional need and how an ECM addresses (and not) them. Very informative. I liked it when Frank explained the emotional needs of a woman and the ECM. It makes so much sense, and it did not click to me until listening to this program. The best part of this lecture I found was the last method to stop being an ECM. It's a technique I definitely need to try with the women in my past. Overall, this program is great for anyone, whatever level of development you are.

-Rocco, Toronto

Emotional cookie man! I'm surprised to see how many guys go through this stage at some point in life including me; been there without realizing they are doing it all wrong, some stay there forever so don't be that guy! Take action and get this audio program.

I really like how Frank goes through each emotional need and explains how do they relate in turning you into a friend and get the "let's just be friends" speech. You don't want to hear this, and you'll learn the typical mistakes guys do that puts them on that path, for example, listening to her problems about other guys or making her feel like you are a nice guy, or be afraid to upset her. Stop this! On this audio program Frank explains how the emotional needs of a woman are violated or incorrectly addressed by the emotional cookie man.

Frank continues going through the rest of the emotional needs, he also goes through the 10 year rule which means that most people you deal with now won't be there in 10 years. This is key for life and something wise that he shows how can you apply to your fear of abandonment. He also goes through a 3 step simple process on how to turn her into your lover after being the emotional cookie man. It really works, I've done this before without realizing it. This is one of best Franks programs, if you really want to improve and get a better understanding of girls and how to get that one you want you must invest on this program for sure.

-Donny, Toronto

Just bought your From Friends to Lover audio prgram and the Emotional Needs of Women audio program, these two programs are absolutely amazing. You break it down in a way that shows me every mistake I've ever made with women and what were seemingly confusing reactions, now appear sensible.

-Clarence O, Unknown

This is 3rd time listening to this program. It’s definitely refreshing to hear Frank talk about his view on how man & women interact, and especially on how I’ve been interacting with the main woman I’ve been seeing lately. Falling back into ECM (emotional cookie man) behaviours definitely doesn’t help a relationship, so having a review of this program is not only helping me add to my original notes, but also allowing me to go over my original notes while listening to the program and take in the excellent advice. It’s interesting how Frank’s base philosophies come to mind when hearing me talk about a specific topic such as ECM behaviours, categorizing, etc.

More specifically, what’s opened my eyes the most this time I’ve listened to this program is in respect to upsetting a girl to address a certain emotional need, and how important that is. That is something I definitely haven’t been focusing enough of. It’s been one of my on-going issues, and while I’m slowly getting better at it, having a reminder of how important it is to focus on this has been really helpful. Wow, did I ever get some eye openers that I hadn’t noticed before, however. The biggest one that I would have to say I got with this program was that when Frank starts talking in detail about the difference between the way that men & women categorize the opposite sex, as well as how he teaches men to categorize women, it made me think about how I met my long-term partner that I’ve been with now for a year and a half.

She initially categorized me as a one night stand, and I had her re-categorize me as a long-term partner with my learning from Frank’s material. If I had acted the way I used to before I started learning Frank’s material, I would have never been able to get anywhere past one night stand with her for sure, and considering she is the most amazing woman I’ve ever met, I’m definitely grateful that I am where I am with her today.

Frank began this program with his story as to how he ended up accidentally stumbling across the method of turning a woman from a friend to a lover. He then went into describing what the emotional cookie man consists of and he described the affects of vagueness as well as the results of it depending on when it’s used. He then started going through the emotional needs of women describing in detail how they are partially addressed to get a man to qualify into the emotional cookie man category in a woman’s mind.

After listening to this program, I can see how I could be viewed at least one woman’s emotional cookie man based on my actions with her, and the way I see it, that’s not a way a high quality man acts so I must change my behaviour. This program is very inspiring in not trying to cater overly to a woman and instead focusing on addressing emotional needs (while of course calibrating accordingly, although that topic was merely touched upon in this program).

Frank went into very vast detail on the topic, and I really enjoyed his point of view on it as it made perfect sense to me. All-in-all, while this program focuses mainly on how a man who keeps falling into the “friends” category of women should go about transforming himself, all of the bits and pieces that were involved in the process were very insightful.

I especially liked how Frank finished this program, where he went back to the initial story he said at the beginning of the program, and he mentioned how he would’ve viewed her differently considering all of his post-development changes. He also made a closing statement that really made me view the power of no longer being a woman’s emotional cookie man, and how it relates to closure.

I strongly recommend this program to anyone who is always getting stuck in the “lets just be friends” category of women’s minds, as I feel that this program is essential for getting out of this type of dynamic and figuring out how to have women as lovers as opposed to only being able to hope that they’ll become lovers and never see it actually happen. It is a very inspiring program over-all, reminding me as to what I could’ve done differently in previous situations where I ended up being the emotional cookie man to a woman.