A lot of you will be disappointed but then I am sorry…. I can’t help it! Every girl has at least dated a married man in her lifetime! Yes I say this because I know and I have fallen in love and still in love and still dating a married man. Truth is, I can never stop loving him. I […]

We all get involved in a serious relationship at some point in our lives, be it falling in love with a significant other, or simply establishing an amazingly close relationship with a special someone. As soon as this relationship is in place, we must do our part to nurture it. When we fail to do so, everything begins to go […]

Why not? When we devote time in training the maids on how to cook well, how to clean the house and on good mannerisms while leaving our own daughters untrained. We overwork the maids and they adjust with equanimity because they need us to survive. The maids turn out to manage the indignation and insolence we and our children subject […]

Who can find a Virtuous woman? A virtuous woman is so expensive and has invested time, morals, principles, prayer, money and hard work in herself. Her Lover trust her because she is all there is to be in a woman, a complete package, a woman with balance, she nurtures, loves, care and is pleasant to him all her life… Kai […]

Don’t be in a hurry to move out of your parents house. Don’t wait for a man before you start living, you can live a fulfilled life as a single woman. Stay away from alcohol, it has killed others and you are not special. Don’t entertain a wrong number call, especially at night. Its not the right way to find […]

Didn’t know how to cut it short as every line is important. My thoughts. We are naturally attracted to flashy things, anything that makes a lot of noise has a certain appeal to our minds. We follow a reigning trend without even considering the implications of our choices, insofar as many other people take the same way, we feel secure. […]

The above statement is very true and a lot of people may laugh at me but they will agree it’s true. Especially with what I have seen in my marriage recently, I have been left with no choice but to believe every word of the statement that there’s nothing inside marriage, it is totally empty and I can prove it. […]

The other day a couple of my old girls came by and we ended up in a heated conversation over courtship, relationships, marriage and all the ships in between; divorce, separation, complicated, single parenting. This gave birth to my musing for today. As individuals do we seriously sit and pen down what we are looking for in a partner or […]

I earlier wrote that a woman should not be beaten by her spouse, I wanna still reiterate it. I’ve been working in the labour ward of the hospital in the last five weeks and I’ve witnessed and taken no less than 50 deliveries. In all of these, I’ve carefully observed the unique joy that greets the delivery of male children. […]

Benue: Most ladies have abused the submission by common sense that a woman is not to be hit by a man. Surprisingly this is the only time ladies evoke the theory of the weaker sex so as to ride over our intelligences as men. We must understand also that most men who hit women do so in pain, and out […]