Baby showers are kind of odd things, aren't they? I always think it's wonderful to gather the community, and help give new parents the things they might need, but they have kind of a staged effect, the pantomime quality which comes from collecting strangers together. "You know," I said to someone I went to high school with, "I don't think I know anyone else here."

"I was just thinking the same!" She said, "It's so strange - I know Jenn so well, and yet - " she gestured to the crowd.

And there was a crowd, which was wonderful to see, all the people who care deeply about this child, and are looking forward to welcoming it into this world.

It was wonderful to see the children at the party as well, and know the child is coming into a community where young ones are valued and loved.