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The term kink refers to anything that is considered “out of the norm” sexually, or to any unconventional or unusual sexual preference. Kinks can vary dramatically from person to person. For some, anything more than a “missionary style” position is considered kink, while for others the out of the norm spectrum is

Edgeplay is A form of BDSM that seeks to challenge the boundaries of SSC (safe, sane and consensual), by engaging in activities that involve the risk of harm. Edgeplay is a subjective term, as what constitutes risky behavior can change from partner to partner. For example, erotic asphyxiation could be

Breath Play, also known as erotic asphyxiation, scarfing, and asphyxiophilia. A practice when breathing is hampered during sexual activity, by strangulation or suffocation. Breathing can be partially restricted (for example, by applying pressure on the throat) or completely blocked (for example, by tying a bag over a person’s head). Erotic

Erotic Asphyxiation, also known as breath play, scarfing, and asphyxiophilia. A practice when breathing is hampered during sexual activity, by strangulation or suffocation. Breathing can be partially restricted (for example, by applying pressure on the throat) or completely blocked (for example, by tying a bag over a person’s head). Erotic

Endorphin Rush refers to the sensation caused by the overflooding of brain chemicals as a result of intense experience. Many describe this feeling as a sort of “high” – a mix of euphoria and energy. Endorphin rushes can regularly trigger in the body when participating in activities such as sex or

Etiquette refers to rules of conduct you should follow while visiting dungeons or taking part in a fetish scene. These places are meant to allow people to explore their sexuality, and one person misbehaving can turn what should be an eye-opening experience into an awful one. Touching or taking pictures without

Traffic Light is a system of safewords designed to facilitate a greater range of communication during a scene. “Red” may be used to stop any activity immediately, while “yellow” means either “slow down” or “not so rough,” depending on context. If a dominant is unsure whether or not their partner

Vanilla is a term that refers to people, behaviors or sexual activities that are perceived as lacking in kink, conventional or even a little bit boring. Though the definition might change from person to person, usually sexual activities that include only vaginal and oral sex are considered The term is not

Masochism is the other half of the coin that is sadomasochism. Masochists feel sexual pleasure from pain or suffering, and many also harbor fantasies of being beaten, tortured, captured or even raped. Much in the way that a sadist doesn’t simply enjoy any activity that causes pain, a masochist will

The term Sadism derives from the name of 18th-century French writer Marquis de Sade, who wrote about violent sexual fantasies and spent time in prison for the mistreatment of prostitutes. Sadism is the tendency to obtain pleasure from inflicting physical or emotional pain on others. In the BDSM community, a