Oh no! Hope you feel better soon. It hurts, I know. He’s a douche. When I’ve gone through this, I wrote about it in a diary and once my emotions weren’t involved, I re-read it and was like…”what was I thinking??? Did my common sense go on vacation and leave me behind???” LOL 1YOS-Cheer up, chin up and smile so the right guy who comes along next sees your happy face 🙂

I am a big fan of the Secret too….changing your format could be helpful in the healing process. Recovering from a shattered heart takes time, so drink some wine….have a bowl of ice cream, take a nice long bubble bath, watch a movie where the woman kicks ass and buy yourself a killer outfit 🙂

The other thing I was considering is going a lot more positive. After reading and watching “The Secret,” and after witnessing it myself, I actually do believe being positive helps. And constantly motivated to vent here wasn’t my initial intention. I’m thinking about changing the focus of this blog from venting to refocusing.

The best way to heal is by writing…..it can be quite helpful. Don’t retreat because of a man who wasn’t even worthy of your heart….he showed his true colors and saved you years and years of sadness and regret.