Hello
marry Christmas to you .
i wish we could be
friendly in good lovely
relationship,if you could
be sincere and lovely,well i
do cherish your profile,with whom
i shall be delighted to build a long
lasting relationship with.age and distance
no problem,privately send me a reply to my email
address(rebecadesmond4love@yahoo.com)while i get back
at you including my picture. I shall hopefully wait for
your reply.Yours,
Rebeca
rebecadesmond4love@yahoo.com

Im sorry online in txt its hard to always understand what is being said. I just have experienced this with other friends. I did not mean to make you uncomfortable. I wish you luck on your path.

lynneta,
3/11/2007 2:02:13 PM

hey jess. we all make slip ups were only human. the important thing is to pick yourself up and start again. besides a piece of cake is ok as long as you do it in moderation. I have lost over 165 pounds and Im still working on teh rest now. it takes time, but the worst thing you can do is keep berating yourself. your human you will make mistakes we all do. remember noone is perfect. instead of a lazy day.. maybe a long walk will give you time to think and reflect on your goals and how you can achive them.

as far as your roommate being more popular.. maybe you need to put yourself out there a bit more and get to know some people. make some new friends so you wont envy him so much. just a few thoughts..

good luck on your journey. be well

lynneta,
3/11/2007 10:27:53 AM

Hey Jessica!
Where did you go?! Hope you come back to the confidence builders II group soon! ;-) We can make it "private" so that it won't boot you out....

irissvb,
2/21/2007 12:18:53 PM

HI Jessica,
Hey, I'm back again in the group.
Sorry I've been away a lot. Work has kept me incredibly busy (in a good way!)

irissvb,
11/22/2006 4:43:47 PM

BTW--sorry to hear about the loss of your friend-- depression can totally take its toll on your mental and physical well-being-- Allow yourself to cry if you need to, and if your family isn't supportive, then seek out friends who will let you lean on them. If all else fails, get some grief counseling-- trust me, It will help to make you feel better. When my hubby & I turned 30, we lost his brother, mother & grandmother in a span of 3 months. The prior 6 months, I lost my grandmother....

We were a mess for a while because we didn't do the grief counseling. It wasn't until we attended a Marriage Encounter retreat where we bared our souls to each other that we mended the inner wounds that we had.... If we had gone to grief counseling, I'm sure we would have healed up much more quickly....