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So I've never had sex but have done oral several times over the years.

Here's my issue. Sometimes, I get off crazy fast; like 10 seconds! But other times, I can last for as long as I want and have to jack off to cum. What's the deal? The thing I don't like is that I tend to get off prematurely more often than lasting. But I can't figure out what the difference is. Is it because I'm new to sexual stuff?

I don't know if this is related, but after I pee, for about 30 seconds or so it drips out like a tea pot haha. Probably 6-8 times before it stops. Is this a sign of some related symptom?

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Hydration has a lot to do with it. If I'm well hydrated and turned on enough, I can cum in seconds if I want to(or control it). If I'm a little dehydrated, I last 10+ minutes without effort. If I'm really dehydrated, I'll go 30 minutes plus if I can even cum at all.

As far as peeing goes, just watch what the guy at the urinal next to you does. ;D Just kidding, don't do that. Squirt it out, don't let it drip out.

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You know, the times I did get off quickly I was really nervous and stressed. I bet that had a big factor in it. The situation wasn't exactly ideal (car fun anyone? lol) and I was nervous about getting off too soon.

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Sometimes when I'm nervous this happens to me too. But, here's a fun way to flip this to your advantage......if you pop too quickly, turn to your girl/guy and tell him "now that I came once, I can devote all my energy to making you feel really good" then eat her/him out for a few mins wile ur dick recovers and then on round 2 you will be able to fuck him/her until they can't even remember how it started. After you cum once, ur nice and desensitized.
Happened to me once with a super got french boy (less than a minute)......I did just that and we kept going for almost two hours, really rough and energetic, he kept having to dup for water breaks cause it was like a workout, but I was able to keep going until he was satisfied.

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Sometimes when I'm nervous this happens to me too. But, here's a fun way to flip this to your advantage......if you pop too quickly, turn to your girl/guy and tell him "now that I came once, I can devote all my energy to making you feel really good" then eat her/him out for a few mins wile ur dick recovers and then on round 2 you will be able to fuck him/her until they can't even remember how it started. After you cum once, ur nice and desensitized.
Happened to me once with a super got french boy (less than a minute)......I did just that and we kept going for almost two hours, really rough and energetic, he kept having to dup for water breaks cause it was like a workout, but I was able to keep going until he was satisfied.

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Damn! Thanks foe the tip man. I think that makes sense. If I pop early for whatever reason, time to please them and then when I'm back in business, go for it. I'll let you guys know how that works out for me.