Opinion | Kathleen Parker: Turkey strutting on the Potomac

We're reminded of this nearly every day, but Donald Trump outdid himself Thanksgiving Day when a reporter asked the president what he's most grateful for. In a nutshell, with only a tiny bit of editing: himself. OK, he mentioned his family first but then went on to extol his own virtues.

Of course he did. Thanksgiving, after all, is really about Trump, n'est-ce-pas ? One can hardly wait for Christmas when we'll learn, oh joy, that unto the world a Trump was born.

Meanwhile, we have a few weeks to digest his self-appraisal. Elaborating upon his gratitude, Trump told a press gaggle at Mar-a-Lago: "This country is so much stronger now than it was when I took office that you wouldn't believe it."

Correct. You wouldn't believe it.

He also said, "I've made a tremendous difference in the country."

Indeed. (See midterm elections 2018.)

And when it comes to foreign policy and America's status in the world, not that anyone asked, he said: " When I see foreign leaders, they say, 'We cannot believe the difference in strength between the United States now and the United States two years ago.'"

If true, he surely was referring to Saudi Arabia's Crown Prince Mohammed bin Salman, commonly referred to as MBS, and not the nations of NATO, many of which have lost faith in the U.S. since Trump took office.

He can't have been referring to Germany, which recently canceled arms sales to Saudi Arabia given MBS' apparent responsibility for last month's murder of Saudi dissident journalist Jamal Khashoggi. German Chancellor Angela Merkel did the thinkable — cut off all arms sales to Saudi Arabia — while Trump has done the unthinkable: Dismiss the Central Intelligence Agency's conclusion finding that MBS ordered the Washington Post columnist's killing and dismemberment.

Give the president credit where due: He tells it like it is, which is that we're going to pretend the CIA report is wrong and continue as before. Maybe MBS knew about it, maybe he didn't, says Trump. Sure, and maybe some Mexicans are nice people, maybe not. Yes, sure, sure, that awful slaughter and dismemberment thing was bad, really bad, but let's not allow an over-there thing interfere with arms sales and, who knows, perhaps some future Trump developments.

Merkel earlier had said Germany would cancel future arms sales pending the investigation into Khashoggi's death. She has now ended current sales, and Denmark and Finland have followed suit. But the U.S., England and France, as of this writing, failed to take such measures. Obviously, geopolitical considerations are complex, but there are surely other options to suspending arms sales, though such a move by the U.S. would doubtless be welcome in other parts of the Arab world. Yemen comes to mind.

Since 2015, when Saudi Arabia and other Middle Eastern countries formed a coalition to combat Yemen's Houthi insurgency, the civilian cost has been devastating. The situation is beyond dire, with hundreds of thousands dislocated and tens of thousands killed, including nearly a generation of children. The London-based Save the Children organization estimates that 85,000 children may have died of hunger and disease since the conflict began.

This is no mere sidebar to U.S. strength, as Trump measures it, but is paramount to his flawed argument that we can't afford to criticize MBS lest we blow a big, big deal. Apparently, he'd rather implicitly condone the murder of a journalist (and U.S. resident) and turn a blind eye to what some have termed genocide in Yemen, assisted by the U.S.

Unsurprisingly, the White House refuses any suggestion that taking a moral stance is appropriate or necessary. But if strength is what Trump wants to convey, he should do exactly that. He could say that America is committed to the First Amendment of the U.S. Constitution and considers a free press essential to a free society. Therefore, either the arms deal is dead or MBS is no longer our negotiating partner.

Trump might further add that America won't play a role in a war made worse by the coalition's involvement — and hold Saudi Arabia to account for any war crimes it has committed. For real strength is about taking a moral hardline even when it hurts. As improbable as these scenarios are, they'd at least give Trump something to strut about.

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Kathleen Parker writes for the Washington Post Writers Group. Her columns include her own opinions and do not necessarily reflect the views, opinion or editorial position of The Southern. Her email address is kathleenparker@washpost.com.

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I have to agree with Kathleen on both points. We should have cancelled our arms sale agreement with the Saudis and; by all indications, Trump may well suffer from narcissistic personality disorder. Parker stops short of claiming Trump is a narcissist but this is her likely objective with penning the article. I believe many politicians have narcissistic traits. Of course the severity varies. Obama has narcissistic traits but they fall short of Trump’s; though both men appear to have an exaggerated sense of self-importance. I find both men pompous and arrogant. Former and soon-to-be former governors Rod Blagojevich and Bruce Rauner respectively, are “touched” as well. The former is far worse than the latter. Bill Clinton and Richard Nixon both exhibited narcissist traits; one for a desperate desire to be liked and the other for his paranoia.

Successful politicians voice their accomplishments. It’s how things are done in the political arena. Some like Trump are much more comfortable at boasting. Humbleness is a trait not often expressed by the afflicted. While it’s important to sell yourself let’s say during a job interview, the narcissist is arrogant and pretentious about his or her accomplishments, often overinflating successes. And in some instances the subject’s recognition of success can be overshadowed by his narcissistic leaning behavior.

Think about this: The economy is chugging along nicely under Trump. The economic growth in the second quarter was 4.2 percent. The unemployment rate reached 3.7 percent; a 50 year low. Yet Trump’s approval rating on the eve of the 2018 election was 39 percent, the worst for any president since before Dwight Eisenhower. Why? I believe the longer Trump is in office, the more exposure we have to his traits that point in the direction of a narcissistic personality. And the more exposure, the more voters are turned off. It was suburban women in 2018; by 2020 the ranks will swell if Trump’s tone and demeanor remain the same.

While I recognize that one having narcissist traits doesn't mean he or she has a disorder and it’s not fair to label behavior I don’t like as being a disorder, but the longer I watch him the more I’m incline to think so. Yet, I must also recognize that he seems to be void all the significant distress or impairment normally associated with NPD.

Whether Trump suffers from narcissistic personality disorder or he is simply a cunning, charismatic and arrogant leader, his conduct in office is turning off more and more voters. If his tenor isn’t toned downed he’ll be a one-term president. I’m not wishing for this, just stating my observations.

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