Happy 4! It’s been a really amazing 4 years with this man that God has blessed me with. Enjoying this day with our lovely kids running errands, going to the bank, eating kway chap with sugar cane juice and gonna end the day with a trip to Art Zoo!
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I learnt that Good parenting begins with being the best partners. This not only gives the children security to thrive and grow, it also helps them to obey when they see the parents are in good shape together. Life has never been the same but I wouldn’t want it other way.. looking forward to celebrating our 5th as a family of 5 next year!
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It is also the time of the year when you look back at your wedding day pics and reminisce those moments. Thanks @blocmemoirephotography for capturing this special day. I just realise how crazy I was to do those 625 paper cranes as backdrop decor.. plus many other DIY stuff such as baking a dessert table for my guests😅
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#blocmemoire#4thweddinganniversary

Today, on our #4thweddinganniversary, I look back on our time together with a tearful, yet contented smile. All the plans we had for our lives fell apart after my diagnosis. The #pudendalneuralgia took everything from us. And every time we foolishly believe it can't get any worse, I seem to get sicker.
But you always rise to the challenge. No matter how many pills you've had to sort or how many bed pans you've had to change, you never make me feel like the burden that I know I've become. You're my wife, my best friend, my co-parent, my co-pilot, and my constant source of strength. You learned how to perform physical therapy when I was unable to find a therapist closer to us. You make my life as gloriously normal as it possibly can be under the circumstances. You even joined my support group to learn more about the illness with me.
Few spouses can rise to the terrible challenge that the "in sickness and in health" part of marriage demands. But you do. You encourage me to rise up too. You always treat me with respect and you even crack the occasional inappropriate sex joke when I desperately need to smile.
Above all else, you make me smile.
Happy anniversary, sweetheart. You totally could have done better than me, and I'm thankful every day that you didn't.
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