OK, here's how it's goin' down.....I can't believe someone has such anger issues.....That they have turned it around and blamed me.

It started with my comment to a blog:

Me: Well, I don't know about this:

Haven't you noticed all the women not wanting guys anymore?

Maybe cuz I'm not a guy?

I dunno, but I've been on here 9 years. I've met tons of people and made alot of friends. Just play around in the blogs and forums and it will get the ladies talkin' to ya!

His reply: Oh I don't really have any problems getting ladies to talk to me. But I've noticed, many do not go out of their way to make any first moves, nor do they hold the conversation for long. I guess I feel there is a great lack of personal interest on here at times. It's all sexual, without feeling. Manners, politeness and compassion has long disappeared here. Not all, but many have forgotten that. Mmm, playing around in the blogs might mean trouble for me. lol! As I'm very outspoken as you have obviously noticed and I always say what's on my mind. Anyhow, as I said, it's not the chatting or talking that I had any problems with. It's the lack of single women at times on here. Sometimes, there are nothing but Bi women on here, the next minute or next day, all the straight single women are on here. It's like all the Bi's have a certain time that their on here. Or maybe I'm just on here at the wrong time? :-) I give up

Me: Well, there are 2 other places you can go....

www. something .com (lot's more people there locally)

Or your local Craigslist (Google Craigslist of Your Town)

I've enjoyed myself here....alot. Sorry it's not working out for you.

As I said, stay in the blogs, comment others and it wil put you out there to make friends. Being honest isn't a bad thing, ya know? As long as your being yourself, who cares what others think? Fuck them!

His Reply: Check out (So & So's) headline. That's exactly where I'm coming from. Her choice to want only women, not call all men assholes.

(After I checked out this person's profile)

Me: Here's my view.

How can you get mad about that?

1. She is married to a MAN (therefore, they are looking for another WOMAN)If you were married and wanted 1 more person in the bedroom, I can bet you would rather have a woman, huh?2. I can see why she titled it that way, her profile says she is looking for WOMEN, but of course, some men gotta be jerks and STILL contact her after she has listed HER and her HUSBANDS preference. Is that a bad thing? How would you like for a bunch of men to be contacting you, especially when you specifically say your looking for women. I think you need to put yourself in other people's shoes sometimes, ya know?

His last 2 replies: Yes, and I acknowledged all that before in my reply to your comment a few days ago. Didn't you read it at all? Let me re-cap what I said. Quote: If your Bi, Good for you! More power to ya. But to hate men because of a few assholes is pure stupidity. And to be vicious about it is just too far over the edge. I don't need you to tell me she has a man, explain to me about her troubles, or whatever. I read her profile. I know exactly what she's looking for & I have no problem with it. It's the way she has her headline that's way too offensive for all the good men on this site when they see it.

I don't have to put myself in anyone's shoes, I know what some go through with the one's who are bothering her. But hey! she doesn't have to read their mails either does she. I read her profile thoroughly, I know what they are wanting.

You really need to read my letters & postings better. You seem to continually put words in my mouth that I haven't said. I've never bothered this woman. I respect her wishes. I wish her well in her search. But her headline is vicious. Simple as that. If you can't see that, there's something wrong in your thinking. Maybe you hate guys as well? Would you put that headline in your profile? Even if guys were bothering you or not? Get a life and quit bothering me when your wrong. Your rude, and you need to pull your head out of your ass.

I don't think you remembered anything that I stated in my blog or letters to you. You need to be more careful in what you say if you did not remember what I spoke of. And I wasn't mad about anything, just pointing out how she had her headline. The normal joe, (of course) would be pretty angered. Even if he did not read her profile. Wasn't the headline enough? You bet your damn ass it was. It is out of line, especially when there are good men out here. Her headline does not say just the ones who are bothering her, The way she has it, looks like she's relating it to all men if you ask me. Here it is: Quote (NO MEN ASSHOLES MEANS NO MEN) jury adjourned.

AND

I actually wanted to be your friend. Sorry I had to block you. Your keeping me in having to self-justify myself. Your saying things that I haven't even said. I work too many hours to keep going round & round with you when it's very clear you do not remember anything I said.

Not my fault you had to keep giving me your two cents worth. I even told you that you were beautiful.

And then I saw your comment on how I should leave the sight & that no women would talk to me weeks before. All over a simple blog post? That was really underhanded of you. I felt like a fool to give you that compliment after I read that. Us men are not all the same. I'm a good guy. I never go out of my way to ridicule anyone unless I see something way overboard.

And I liked you. Go figure that one.

I have a handful who talk to me. I'm not wanting to block you. But I just don't have the time to keep self justifying myself to you when it's obvious you did not fully understand my point of views, what I really said, and what my 1st post was all about.

I did nothing wrong to you did I?

Your a prime example of why a man & a woman haven't a chance on here.What's up your ass anyways except all your toys?

Umm....did I put words in his mouth? I don't think so. Dude, you got issues. What do you mean you liked me, bullshit. 1st off I'm taken, 2nd you've never had any rapport with me to like me.....3rd I've never been mean or rude to anyone on here. Take it how you want, I was nothing but nice, gave you advice, gave you my HUMBLE opinion & pointed you in the right direction, but in your twisted little head, you made me out to be a pitbull. I think it's you that needs to get the toys outta your ass!! Gimme your address and I'll gladly send you a cock to put in your mouth.....sounds like you need it more than me!

Well being that I'm bi and on this site...I get crap like this a lot. The usual, "hey you are married so why are you here?" get asked a lot and then I get the "hate mail" from guys because I'm here and looking for women instead of men. I think it's VERY RUDE that men are like this and treat women like this. Do the men on here looking for women want to be contacted by men? I didn't think so! I don't mind if a guy contacts me if he wants to chat and be friends....and I have male friends on here who I very much enjoy talking to, but I think the guys that act like this guy on here are pissed off because they are sexually frustrated and take it out on other people

I'm pretty sure I know what profile this guy is talking about. Everyone has a right to put whatever the hell they want to on their profile. If you don't like it, move on.....why get all pissed off about words on a screen?? Why? Why is everyone pissed off about stuff lately and words on a fucking screen? My God...isn't there other things to be pissed off about that is so much more important than something so petty as this??

Can't we all just get along? Can't we stop worrying about why someone is here and what they put in their profile or blog? People like this have issues and need to concern themselves with what they are doing...not what everyone else is doing!!!

sounds like this guy has some serious issues,maybe he doubts his masculinity,,who gives a shit on how a person headlines their profile,its their profile,,and obviously she has had asshole like this guy to email her and thats why she headlined it the way she did,,I think this guy needs to pull HIS head out of his ass

as for you sunshine,you and all the other woman on this site on a regular basis have been extra nice as far as Im concerned,at least to me you have,,

Can't we all just get along? Can't we stop worrying about why someone is here and what they put in their profile or blog? People like this have issues and need to concern themselves with what they are doing...not what everyone else is doing!!!

You said it all Sweety! ummmm, Yall ladies .... Wanna fuck? Just asking.....

bigman9624

Nov 25 @ 12:53PM

Miss Sunshine...have you run out of "asshole repellant" again????Silly girlYou need to be a little more "on the ball".........

Like her, I had my headline as "Need a little Sunshine?" and I changed it a while back to "READ BEFORE CONTACTING!"

Why?? Umm.....because jerks like him, contacting me asking me for things that I clearly state in my PROFILE that I don't want.

Get over yourself dude. Every message I wrote you is posted in this blog. None of them from me being rude.....I find it quite hilarious that you can turn it around like I did something wrong, when all I did was be nice and try to help you out.

Personally, I think you have a control issue. Men do that to their women all the time. Try and turn a situation around and blame it on their woman. It's not gonna happen here buddy.....

EVERYONE is on here for their own reasons...no one should have to justify those reasons to any one...ANY ONE...but themselves. If we want to quit being judged for our reasons for being here then we might also want to quit judging others.

I haven't read all the blogs involved (nor do I really want to) but, from what little I've read, simply asking WHY someone would have that sort of message in the profile vs. saying they are wrong for having it in their profile (we are ALL entitled to put what we want in our profiles without having to justify/defend what we put) might have made a world of difference.

I think we could all learn to take a step back and re-read our blogs and responses a bit more carefully to make sure they are not coming across as attacking someone else's preferences/choices. I know most of us expect it from others. We should be willing to extend others the same courtesy.

dookiestain

Nov 25 @ 4:14PM

i was dropping a loaf, one of those hard knotty ones. well...one link was so heavy it caused significant water displacement, enough that the recoil washed it right outta the bowl and onto my shoe. i been hittin the smack of late, so i went on a short nod, forgettin about the log on my reebok. when i came around, the ceramic heater had done softened and melted said log. as my religion prevents me from desecrating any type of poo poo, i left it on there.

Sunshine, don't let the asshole bother you, you have always seemed nice to me, and he's not worth the time of day. just read what the others have said, and realize you got something he will not have here. People who care about you as a person.

Ok Sunshine you know I like you bunches right? But yes, in this case you were out of line. His blog post was maybe not completely kosher but ridiculing him for it? that was worse.

Actually your email exchange sounds pretty level and not really nasty on either side. I'm sorry that your feelings got hurt.. I'm sorry that his got hurt.. but let me tell ya.. he's NOT a bad guy..frustrated sure.. have you never been frustrated over the way people treat you? I kinda remember that you have.

I won't say now go shake hands like good people.. it's fine with me if you two agree to disagree.. but let's drop the badmouthing please.

Ok Sunshine you know I like you bunches right? But yes, in this case you were out of line. His blog post was maybe not completely kosher but ridiculing him for it? that was worse.

Actually your email exchange sounds pretty level and not really nasty on either side. I'm sorry that your feelings got hurt.. I'm sorry that his got hurt.. but let me tell ya.. he's NOT a bad guy..frustrated sure.. have you never been frustrated over the way people treat you? I kinda remember that you have.

I won't say now go shake hands like good people.. it's fine with me if you two agree to disagree.. but let's drop the badmouthing please.

That's the thing. Go back to his original blog. Wasn't ridiculing him. Was pure sarcasm. Neither comment on either one of his blogs was ridiculing him. They were funny, sarcastic. It was humor. I'm not one to go around talking shit to people. It's not me. I have no reason too. I saw someone new in the blogs and was being funny. Apparently, my funny isn't everyone else's bag of funny. And now I see that.

He went off on me.

You seem to continually put words in my mouth that I haven't said.

Show me where, because all my messages to him are posted.

Maybe you hate guys as well?

Assumption, show me where I said that

Get a life and quit bothering me when your wrong.

I commented to his blogs. I've never contacted him thru a message. He did to me. I just responded and the responses are posted.

Not my fault you had to keep giving me your two cents worth.

Umm, hello...who came to who askin' a question??

Haven't you noticed all the women not wanting guys anymore?

And now, because I responded and was nothing but nice in the responses, I'm the ass?? No way.