My best reply to this is no, but some people are just like this. Its different for certain people when they are hurt. Some people confront and others refuse to acknowledge the situation. It could have a lot to do with how the person deals with things. life is hard and so many things can bring you down. I think its best to keep an open mind and try hard to understand both the person and situation. Don't assume stuff without confirming it. this adds more bs in the long run. talk. whether that person wants to or not, it is their choice. its also up to the both of you to fix things.