What is with this friggin marriage shit? Everyone wants to get married, for christ sake. Knock it off already! Marriage is a sexist scam and exists only so the government can control who you spend your life with. Why would anyone of intelligence want to be legally bound to another person and go groveling to a court if you suddenly decide you want out? Marriage is held up as this be-all end-all of relationships as if some piece of paper makes you love someone more than you already do or guarantee that someone won't cheat on you. Wise up, people! If you love someone, it's already legitimate.