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Would you marry a girl who you met on casual encounters?

Met a girl on casual encounters. She lost her virginity in july of 2013, i met her on nov. 26.

In those 4 months, i was the 8th guy she has slept with. She only wore condoms if the guy made her. She lost her virginity to a crush, but the other 6 guys were random strangers from craigslist until she met me, #8, and feel in love. We have been together EVERY day since that day, but her past is killing me. she is 19 and i am 23 and im the youngest guy she has ever been with?

the bad:
-she has slept with 8 guys in 4 months
-7 were complete strangers from online
-swallowed a load from a stranger(swallows mine all the time though)
-fucked 3 bareback and let them finish in her
-the other 3 wanted to wrap up
-1 was married and 3 were in a relationship

so to me, sex feels like it has no intimacy because of her past. she had casual sex with 8 people in 4 months?? and she is 19? super slut?

she said she did it because she felt like she got know attention from boys. She says she regrets it and she only wants me now, but it is SO hard to look past all of that whorish behavior. Yes, i was bad too, i was always hitting up prostitutes to come over and fucking them all the time, but i dont want to date someone like me. do as i say not as i do!!!

Is this something you could look past if it was a girl you loved and wanted to spend your life with????

yes i do.. and this was all while my ex was still in. we were fucking in our bed while she was at work...she moved in before my ex's stuff was even out....you could imagine that breakup

You're probably not emotionally mature yet to be marrying, just a spot check diagnosis from your above post, see a therapist to confirm...

Coarse edged youth, the irish pendants string from their smiles
not yet plucked as to slacken the seams
and drag down the features of age,
no folds or creases from unkempt wear
eyes of tranquilty, crystalline-beads
no sign of despair in their hair, nor their hearts
but oh they have yet to be experienced and that makes aging so very worth it...ML circa2012

You're probably not emotionally mature yet to be marrying, just a spot check diagnosis from your above post, see a therapist to confirm...

agreed. just curious on everyone own personal thoughts on how they would handle the situation. because i can really see myself spending the rest of my life with her. I would NEVER repeat what i did in my past...i learned from my mistake. I couldn't do that to her; nor want to. For me, it is hard for me to respect her and not look at her in disgust. sometimes we fuck and i pretend she is a one night stand or i fuck her while pretend she is getting fucked by some stranger(me) because i cant imagine her viewing sex any other way. STOP AND THINK FOR A SECOND... IMAGINE YOUR WIFE/GF TAKING 8 DICKS AND MOST OF THEM ALL STRANGERS AND HER LETTING THEM BLOW THEIR LOADS WHEREVER THEY PLEASE.....WOULD THIS DRIVE YOU FUCKING NUTS!?!?!! TO THE POINT YOU COULD NOT CONTINUE A RELATIONSHIP? i mean i cannot get over 8 in less than 4 months total....8 different that is. not wrapped half the time... do as i say not as i do, ya know? Knowbody want to date a girl or wife a girl with as colorful of sex life as themselves(depending on how bad).

My girlfriend had a past I did not like, although it was NOWHERE as colorful as your girls. It was driving me mad, took me 5 or 6 months to fully get over it. I guess the fact that she knew about my past and was fine with it helped the matters.

Originally Posted by stfuandliftbtch

sometimes we fuck and i pretend she is a one night stand or i fuck her while pretend she is getting fucked by some stranger(me) because i cant imagine her viewing sex any other way.

That's really fucked up. Do you think all them drugs affect you mentally?
What's in the past is in the past. Come to terms with it. Everything happens for a reason. If she wasn't into casual sex you would probably never have met her.

Dude you live where I do there is plenty of tail around here why are you Fucking bitches on craigslist?

well i had a gf at the moment and was trying to keep it deiscreet. I was doing bitches of Backpage alllll the time.. then met this inncoent(looks) little latina teen girl who can and does please me in any way..very, very hard to pass up

well i had a gf at the moment and was trying to keep it deiscreet. I was doing bitches of Backpage alllll the time.. then met this inncoent(looks) little latina teen girl who can and does please me in any way..very, very hard to pass up

how many girls have you fucked while you were living with your girlfriend before you met this girl

your not worried she thinks the same. you meet a girl on craigslist, thats were she also met you. then you question how she meets guys. and you cheated on your live in girlfriend 6 times while internet dating. and openly paid for sex. I'm surprised she is with you right now. just sayn you have no room to judge anyone

She has taken 8 different cocks and their loads in 4 months??? and you are serious about her???

Deal breaker for me man. I could see one or two but this chick is a cock slurping machine.

i mean its like saying you wouldnt fuck 8 different girls in 4 months??

yea she swallowed one load and only wrapped if they wanted too....really hard to look past all of this....i literally am going insane. my mood is changed all the time and i am constantly down. sometimes i count different objects and imagine they are guys she slept with..

i mean its like saying you wouldnt fuck 8 different girls in 4 months??

yea she swallowed one load and only wrapped if they wanted too....really hard to look past all of this....i literally am going insane. my mood is changed all the time and i am constantly down. sometimes i count different objects and imagine they are guys she slept with..

thats how i feel. she got no attention from guys in school and just has really high testosterone. im really trying to look past all this...somehow. but it keeps popping up. but then again i did the SAME things she did..so can i really judge?

i mean its like saying you wouldnt fuck 8 different girls in 4 months??

yea she swallowed one load and only wrapped if they wanted too....really hard to look past all of this....i literally am going insane. my mood is changed all the time and i am constantly down. sometimes i count different objects and imagine they are guys she slept with..

makes sex not as special..me being her bf should make it a privilege...i dont feel like i won anything when any guy could fuck her

I would sit back and think about this. You are young and she is younger, you two will change and grow and it seems like it's just lust. If you are having thoughts on what to do, it's probably an indicator it may not work in the long one. I'm not really concerned about the guys she did over her age. It's easy to sleep with that many people in that amount of time, it's the fact that she will change and may not want to be in a relationship or vise versa. I was married at 20 and I still regret it. Wait 10 yrs, sleep with a lot of woman and really think if marriage is for you and maybe later you'll meet a woman that is already accomplished in life and is ready to have a family and you are both financially ready for that huge commitment.