Hello blended magnificence! I picture your hair is gorgeous along with your diverse ethnic background. I am Native Indian, Canadian, and Southern African, and my hair is Tremendous thick, poofy, and afro like. I’m proud to say that my hair broke many combs and even scared away hair dressers :-). Initially, congratulations on your infants! I feel that they’ll get pleasure from being so shut in age. It is like having a greatest good friend for all times. They’ll experience this world collectively at the same time, all the ups and downs it has to supply. I believe your children will actually recognize their closeness in age, each when they’re younger and as they develop older. Second, THIS DEPRESSION Needs weave to GO NOW!!!!!!!!!!!! It makes me indignant that you are not blissful. It’s extreamly tough being pregnant and dealing with changes in your body all whereas taking care of a toddler and battling depression, but I know that you’re gonna make it through this difficult time. Close to your hair: attempt using a needle. Without the needle I would have never detangled my matts. It is a wining software, and the one device that can get between strands of hair that are knotted together. Additionally, I Extremely recommend the knotty boy detangler that I mentioned in my blog put up. Start with a very SMALL part, slow and regular wins in this race. Slather some knotty boy on the the SMALL section of hair, then choose at it with the needle. Please be careful, the needle can prick you. Also, in case your hair is in a tight matt, you may need to snip off a bit of to create an how to curl short thick hair entry point. If you may. please give this technique a strive before cutting it off. When you’re working on your hair watch one thing blissful on Tv or in your computer. Make working on your hair as comfortable and as gratifying as attainable. Otherwise it is going to drive you crazy and you will quit and simply cut it out of frustration. It will not be easy, but give it a try. Simply know that whether or not you detangle or lower your hair, both choice is the best alternative. It’s all about you and what makes you blissful and what’s best on your thoughts and well being. It’s not about other people and how they feel about your hair. Their opinions do not depend and don’t matter. If someone does not accept you because of your hair LOL that individual has critical points and you’re higher off not associating with them. Don’t let others control your happiness. Dwell to please yourself. Let me tell you, there are some very sexy and beautiful short hair kinds, and there are weaves, wigs, and extensions (though I do not recommend them). There are SOOO many choices if you happen to lower your hair, and greatest part is, your hair will grow back.