One of the amazing blessings I am experiencing this year is the manifestation of an intention I set over three years ago…to have a group of girlfriends who share my spiritual path and walk it with me.

In the process of learning about the Sacred Feminine, one teaching kept repeating itself…from many different people through a variety of situations. In essence, the teaching is this: The masculine goes where the feminine invites, which means the feminine must lead. Therefore, it became abundantly clear that, in order to lead, I need a support group of other leading women.

We first met on the New Moon/New Year…in a haphazard, spontaneous sort of way which was magical and innocent and perfect. After setting our intentions, I invited the other participants to pay attention to the issues that would come up between the New and Full Moons. These issues would be issues that are ready to be healed, transformed, and/or released during the Full Moon.

Not surprisingly, as I prepared for tonight’s gathering, I clearly saw a theme. This theme was heartily supported by all the members’ experiences in the last two weeks. So, I thought that perhaps others are experiencing something similar. Here are the thoughts I shared during the meditation portion of our gathering.

Tonight, the moon is in the astrological sign of Cancer and shares energy with Jupiter. Cancer, a water sign that focuses on the home and familial relationships, is ruled by the moon. The moon, at its fullness, represents the pregnant mother of the triple goddess…ready to give birth and release all that has completed. Jupiter, the ruling planet of Sagittarius, expands energies…to extremes. It has been in Cancer for quite some time now, so it’s not surprising that issues around relationships and the home are up for review…particularly because Venus is also retrograde and below the horizon, representing death and rebirth of the sensual and passionate in one’s life.

As these issues come up for review, the underlying theme is one of attachment. We may want someone to want us, or want someone to love us or treat us the way we love or treat him/her, or want someone to grow or shift or change or improve or choose, or want someone’s character to contain certain attributes, or want someone to respect us or hear us or acknowledge us or admire us or promise us or commit to us…or any of the myriad of things we desire from another.

When we experience this want…this desire…we place our energy on this other person…urging, sometimes energetically bullying, this person to do or be or say what we want. When we place our energy on another we begin to feel the feelings and sensations of the other and sometimes, over a period of time, we lose sight of where one person ends and another begins. Responsibility gets all jumbled up, and now we think that our journey, our dreams, our hopes, our desires are contingent on another…and the cycle repeats.

This situation is challenging enough in the best of relationships…even more so when one or both parties is questioning the validity or purpose of the relationship. In such situations, clarity is rarely found, mostly because one’s energy is cluttered and entwined with another’s. So…we come back into energetic integrity by doing the following protocol as often as is necessary.

We invite you to take a few deep breaths into your belly. We invite you to gather all of your energy and awareness out of the future, and out of the past into this present breath of now. We invite the Sacred Masculine, the Sacred Feminine, Ascended Masters, your guides, you from the future as an Ascended Master to gather now in this safe and sacred space around you. We invite your Higher Self, your body deva’s Higher Self, and your team’s Higher Self to actively connect and engage with your own healing source, your own spiritual power, to connect with all aspects of your being.

We call forth the appropriate sacred geometric healing holograms and mandalas that have the capacity to support you from a place of clarity, discernment, balance, empowerment, non-reactivity, personal responsibility, inner trust, inner control, the consciousness of abundance, protection, gentleness, grace, and integrity. We invite your body deva and your team to do the same.

We invite you, at the level of your Higher Self, to work with the energetic fields and the Guides to locate all places, people, situations, institutions, governments, relationships, where you have placed your energy in the form of control and attachment. We invite your Higher Self to locate this energy in all dimensions, in all lifetimes, and in all time-space continuums. We invite your Higher Self to gently lift all of your energy up and off of all these places, people, situations, institutions, governments, and relationships, and bring it back to you at the level of your Higher Self…cleansed cleaned and recalibrated to this present breath of now…anchored into your Divine Line, attaching to yourself, controlling yourself. We invite your body deva and your team to do the same.

We invite you, at the level of your Higher Self, to work with the energetic fields and the Guides to locate all energies that you are carrying that places, people, situations, institutions, governments, relationships, have placed on you in the form of control and attachment. We invite your Higher Self to locate this energy in all dimensions, in all lifetimes, and in all time-space continuums. We invite your Higher Self to gently lift all of this energy up and off of you, sending it back to its right and perfect place, along with all relevant and appropriate information, where it has the capacity to be received. We invite your body deva and your team to do the same.

We invite you, at the level of your Higher Self, to work with the energetic fields and the Guides to locate all relationships and situations that no longer serve your highest potential and greatest happiness in this lifetime and dimension. We invite you to express gratitude for these relationships and situations for manifesting in your life, for once upon a time these too were desired and asked for. We then invite you to re-lease these relationships and situations…allowing for that which has completed to fall away, making room for the new or renewed to grow. We invite you, at the level of your Higher Self, to adjust these connections and relationships and situations to reflect the intentions, alignment, and soul’s direction that was chosen at the New Moon. We invite the Full Moon, Jupiter, Ganesha the remover of obstacles, and Hestia the goddess of the hearth and home, to participate and guide these adjustments and re-leasing of the appropriate relationships and situations. We invite your body deva and team to do the same.

We ask that all reference points, all energy grids, personality grids, all ways of perceiving and being perceived in the world are updated. We ask that you are wrapped in sheets of rainbow light, gently sealing these vibrations in to whatever degree is appropriate to your spiritual evolutionary state. We are in deep gratitude to the angelic realm that has served and assisted today in every breath and in every way. We are in deep gratitude to you for all that you are and do, seen and unseen, and for the courage you carry in your heart, for as you shift, grow, release, and evolve, you shift the Universe.