However, I think the best thing about Black Friday and Cyber Monday, especially for plus size nerds like us, is that you know every store will have deals on the same day. That makes comparison shopping a gazillion times easier, right? You're not juggling different dates and sales and wondering who will have your favorite LBD at a cheaper price a month from now. You can check out all the stores on the same day and see all the sales.

With that in mind, I put together a rundown of the best deals from online stores for plus size women I could find. These are affiliate links, so I earn a small commission, at no extra cost to you, when you buy using these links. Of course, I wouldn't be an affiliate of a store that I didn't believe in, so you can trust these shops. (P.S. I didn't include listings from Amazon. That store is way too big and has way too many deals for me to even try. Just know that by going to Amazon this weekend, you'll find a deal on something.)

If you find an especially juicy deal, will you tell us in the comments? We'd all love to know!

Torrid

Torrid isn't having a Black Friday sale, per se. At least, not one they're advertising to affiliates. So I went to their website to see what was going on — I mean, biggest shopping day of the year, right? Turns out, if you're signed up for their Torrid Insider program (which I am) you get “early access” to their Black Friday deals. My guess is that means they're going to email their Insiders the Black Friday specials instead of putting them on the site for the world to use. That is a fantastic marketing strategy to get plus size women to sign up for their emails. (Although, I don't see a downside because I frickin' love Torrid and they have frickin' awesome sales that I love to hear about in their emails.)

That doesn't mean that Torrid isn't having any sales at all. They've got some great deals on clothes and accessories for the holidays. Check 'em out here.

ThinkGeek

Ah, ThinkGeek. What don't they have? Not only are they chockablock of, well, geek gear, they also have items that you can't find anywhere else. They're usually pretty generous with sales and discounts, too. Here's good news: They lowered their threshold for free shipping from $75 (or $65?) to $35! All the time, not just for the holidays! Pretty sweet. Here are their other Black Friday and Cyber Monday deals.

TeeTurtle

TeeTurtle has just the cutest, cleverest t-shirts for plus size nerds. (Check out my plus size video game t-shirts for a good look at their gamer designs.) I love how they pair a cute unicorn or bunny with a caption like “I'll cut you.” They have a ton of stuff for Star Wars, Disney, Steven Universe, Marvel, Adventure Time and plenty more. They're not advertising a Black Friday or Cyber Monday deal to affiliate, but there's a big Black Friday countdown clock on their website, so they're obviously planning something.

Warner Bros. (Harry Potter, Wonder Woman)

The official Warner Bros. Shop always has a sale of some kind going on. Here's what they're advertising for this week.

LootCrate

LootCrate is the original mystery box subscription for geeks. And lucky for us, there's a LootWear subscription that fits plus size women. I totally love getting mystery boxes in the mail. So fun! It's like having a birthday every month. For Black Friday and Cyber Monday, LootCrate has a few ah-mazing deals. If you've been wanting to try out the service, now is the time! (And did you know you can buy just 1 box? Yup, it's true.)

Etsy

Etsy is hosting a whopper of a Black Friday and Cyber Monday sale. Literally hundreds of sellers have marked down merchandise at 10% off and up. If there's a gift you've been thinking of getting, or you have a favorite Etsy store, this is the week to shop on Etsy.

Dylan's Candy Bar

Dylan's Candy Bar is the U.S. version of Honeydukes. It's flagship store is in New York City. I've been there and it's unbelievable. Three floors of candy and a floor of ice cream and fro yo. Just typing this up is giving me a sugar rush! They don't always have geeky stuff, but right now, for a limited time, they have a cool line of Harry Potter stuff.

Dia&Co.

I love love love Dia&Co. But that's because I don't like shopping. I don't like trying on clothes and I never know what's going to fit and what won't. To me, it's just a giant waste of time. (Unless I'm in Torrid, where I always find something I want.) But after trying out Dia&Co. I was amazed! They sent me plus size clothes that I wouldn't have thought to choose for myself, but they looked fantastic. (If you missed my Dia&Co. unboxing, you can still watch it inside our private Facebook group. Ask to join, and after I approve you, click Videos to find it.) They only have one holiday deal, but it's worth $20. Might be time to give them a try!

Spirit Halloween

Okay, this seems totally crazy, but Spirit Halloween is having a Black Friday sale. Of course, you don't have to buy costumes just for Halloween. If you're into cosplay, you can get an item you've had your eye on at a discount. Here are their November and Black Friday deals.

Fandango

DressLily

DressLily seems like one of those sketchy Chinese shopping sites. But I've ordered tops from there and they've been really nice. They aren't advertising a Black Friday or Cyber Monday sale, but they do have a big discount on family jammies for Christmas.

Where did you find Black Friday or Cyber Monday deals? Tell us in the comments!