PANDEMOS BLOG

By Pandemos, Jul 4 2017 06:49PM

Greetings lovers and losers!

Paris, votre nouvelle reine est arrivée !

Its been a tumultuous couple of months, but the dust has finally started to settle. After three glorious years at Chez Bellatrix in Buckinghamshire, it was time to pack it all up and start the next chapter of My life – in Paris.

I have been visiting the French capital on Domme Tour since 2013, however, I have been travelling to Paris for a lot longer. I have always dreamed of living in this fine city so now I have decided to make it a reality. However, touring a city and living there are two different things.

It will take some time for Me to truly establish Myself here, however I am pleased to report that I am now operating out of a fully equipped private dungeon in the 10th arrondisement. The dungeon features a bondage bed, whipping bench and gynae-chair and also has a large selection of toys for all sorts of Femdom scenarios.

I will be in Paris for all of May and June. I am looking forward to seeing My long suffering Parisian slaves. But I also welcome new slaves to come forward and visit Me.

I already have an established crew of photographers in and around Paris and I'll be having My first shoot at the new premises soon. I'll be sure to include new content in My next update. But in the meantime, if you're a film slave living in Paris, I may be recruiting soon (tribute applies).

By Pandemos, Jun 2 2017 08:48PM

Greetings lovers and losers!

Paris, votre nouvelle reine est arrivée !

Its been a tumultuous couple of months, but the dust has finally started to settle. After three glorious years at Chez Bellatrix in Buckinghamshire, it was time to pack it all up and start the next chapter of My life – in Paris.

I have been visiting the French capital on Domme Tour since 2013, however, I have been travelling to Paris for a lot longer. I have always dreamed of living in this fine city so now I have decided to make it a reality. However, touring a city and living there are two different things.

It will take some time for Me to truly establish Myself here, however I am pleased to report that I am now operating out of a fully equipped private dungeon in the 10th arrondisement. The dungeon features a bondage bed, whipping bench and gynae-chair and also has a large selection of toys for all sorts of Femdom scenarios.

I will be in Paris for all of May and June. I am looking forward to seeing My long suffering Parisian slaves. But I also welcome new slaves to come forward and visit Me.

I already have an established crew of photographers in and around Paris and I'll be having My first shoot at the new premises soon. I'll be sure to include new content in My next update. But in the meantime, if you're a film slave living in Paris, I may be recruiting soon (tribute applies).

By Pandemos, Apr 28 2017 10:00AM

It was the first time I done a one – one bdsm session with a real professional domme … This needed for me long time to decide to “try” this in real , as I only limited myself to online experiences and sessions cam to cam till now … I live with the feeling to submit in this lifestyle since I’m really young , but due to family issues , I never was able to “pass the door” to real time and kept all for my mind only … This way , I always stayed close to this world using the net , knowing many mistress’s website and I think I turned to be able to recognize who seem to be serious and who can be less … Domina M was someone I classified as a real pro since long time , without thinking I will do my first real meeting with her one day …

Then , it was this april month , after I discovered Domina M created a new space play in the center of Paris … I though about some days , and decided to write her an email … Mistress answered me clearly and we planned my first rendez vous quickly …

I don’t want to describe here how we proceed to organize our first meeting , I will not describe the session too , as I think all these details are personal and not interesting for you … What is more I think , is a review about the clean , the serious , the way to be attentive Mistress was with me , and how I felt and lived my first real time experience …

I arrived to the Mistress’s dungeon, excited and frightened and Mistress M received me with kindness and attention … Mistress knows perfectly how to manage myself for this first meeting , considerating me as I was (a little shy I guess, and impressed), really sweet asking to me , and explaining clearly how the session will works … Mistress was attentive to my desires (that im really not sure I was able to explain clearly in my bad English and with the fact I was really impressed again …) and worked naturally to distress and relax me before the start of the session …

In my head, I had some other ideas about rules for this sort of session …

Never watch a mistress directly in her eyes. Always keep my head down. Never stop the work asking for something special. Don’t forget to ask before the start about an eventual “safeword” … What I forgot to do …

The dungeon was perfectly clean , not too big but well equipped with heavy material of good quality …

And Mistress M was beautiful, dressed as I dreamed to discover her ( we shared about it before by mail as I have a strong fetish for latex ) and showed a strict way to demonstrate power , control , all with attention and ability to “read” you and put you in a sort of mix between trust and fear …

Then the session started … Again I will not describe all in details , but what’s important to know is I planned with Mistress M a 5 hours session that turned to be done in 3 main works perfectly managed by her …

To start was a sort of important “protocol” , being collared on knees , then a little work to “present” who is who and how it will works …

The first part of the session was mixing ropes bondage and a long beautiful work around hits starting by hand to finish with a cane … My back and ass still remember this beautiful time , slowly progressing from light to heave , to pain , alternating with nails works to make my body react under the ropes … A real great time under the hits , always done with precision , clearly showing changes of power , and the constant pressure of Mistress M working around …

Then , Mistress M worked on my nipples for almost the same amount of time , mixing the level of pain , pleasure and body reactions in a constant progress to finish at a level I never though I could be able to endure … Mistress M offering a beautiful time ordering me to watch her in her eyes , and I could discover how she seemed to have a real pleasure making me suffering with her smile ( I would never forgot this moment …).

After these intense times , Mistress M offering me a little break to relax in her clean bathroom, asking to use well this time to be ready for more … And an heavy bondage …

This was the third part of the session , totally immobilized and again really progressive , first in the bondage as I was totally immobilized in a leather bag when Mistress M added some elaborated rope works on my head , to immobilize it , limit my ability to cry and increase my fear … It was an other way to work around me , limiting my ability to admire her and eventually react … Again , her work was progressive , from light work around my nipples to more heavy like sounds and needles done with precision and without hesitation … Mistress M kept my attention all the time , managing time I didn’t saw her with works on my nipples , really close to me and really pleasant … The end was done progressively too , with the liberation of my head , and when I though it will be the end , Mistress surprised me applying a gasmask and staying close to my head , managing to lock my breathe till I react … A delicious time …

When the session stopped , Mistress M stayed with me and we shared a little time about my first impressions … What’s important to have in mind is that I cant stop to think about this beautiful time offered to us , for us , in a total trust , that I would definitely do again , more and more and progress in my ability to endure and submit , and in my way to please to Mistress M (that is a real strong motivation) …

I would like to sign again for a long time in the hands of Domina M , but what I can ask as feedback about this session is :

I felt a real progression in all the works done … 3 stages during five hours could seem to be long for someone new in this world , but I never felt any boring time , and even some disappointment when any stages of the session turned to the end … I think the progression is done to let the work operate well , and offer the possibility for the Mistress to read our reactions and manage about it …

Mistress M was perfect to read me , my ability to endure and feel her work … Her presence was permanent even when I wasn’t able to see her , and all the work was done in clean and trustful environment , managing perfectly pleasure and pain alternatively, and even fear when Mistress interact surprising you …

Mistress M stayed attentive to my feedback just after the session , and by mails too , after the sweet time you need to recover your though in casual life … Yes , this session was a real turn on for me , and a real time offered to me to live a dream , and stay long time in a sort of “subspace” particularly sweet …

Definitely I would like to do again ! I felt Domina M like a real professional Mistress , clean , attentive , seductive and perfectly knowing his job , able to instinctively “read” her slaves and manage the work around … I felt secured in an exciting environment, and beautifully drived into this world so full of mystery for me … I still dream again for a new time in his hands , dream to discover more and more and dream about Mistress M as my mentor to do …

I hope this feedback about my first time session with Mistress M in Paris will help you to go and discover her

By Pandemos, Jan 22 2017 01:30PM

Before I "dive-in" and tell you what's happened, let Me say hello, happy New Year and I hope this finds you well!

For privacy reasons, It's rare for Me to send out mailings. Please know that I'm doing so now, because I feel the matter at hand, is important. Notwithstanding, this would be a good time, to check-in & update your preferences (below).

If you haven't heard already...backpage has shut down...which is a pretty big deal. Backpage had become one of the most widely used, advertising source for providers & clients. Although Myself & other Mistresses saw this coming...many did not. We are all, still working through this.

The purpose of this email is to let you know where Our ads are migrating to. You can still, locate providers in your area. Please see the following links;

• Read this to understand "why it happened" & the economic ramification that may occur

For Myself, I was undoubtedly one of "longest running" & "heaviest advertisers" on backpage. Many had been following My ads on that platform for years...not to worry however..for you & others...thankfully a simple keyword, "Google Search" will find Me. My website(s) rankings are good and I'm easily locatable.