But as they went from a 'friendship' culture to a heterosexual dating culture it caused conflct as they went from....

Idealised feminine identity - loyalty to their female peers, no competition and get along.

A Sexualised identity - Competing for boys in dating culture.

But then they need to balance this as...

If they get too stuck up and think they're better than their friends they will be **** shaming labels.

If they don't compete for boyfriends they will be frigid shaming labels.

Shaming is a policing device.

Boffin Identity = Girls wanted educational success and conform to school rules of an ideal female pupil, they then show lack of interest in boys. They were excluded from girls and boys. They see W.Class girls as chavs.