I have this problem too. When I first went to the urologist, they found a urethral diverticlum. I had it surgically removed but the frequency persisted. I was in the bathroom 23 - 28 times a day and 6-7 times a night. It was very disruptive. I went back to the urologist and I was diagnosed with Interstitial Cystitis. I take 50 mg of amitriptyiline nightly and I am down to about 16 times a day and 0 to 2 time nightly. It was great finely getting a full night's sleep. See a urologist as you may have Interstitial Cystitis or an overactive bladder both conditions are treatable!

I have all those symptoms, too. My urologist said my uterus is pushing on my bladder and the only solution is a hysterectomy. So, from everyone's experiences, it could be any number of things. Hope you can get your insurance soon and see a specialist.