Can this bleeding be normal?

Bleeding during intercourse is not likely to be caused by anything sinister. But you were right to get it checked out because it could indicate a problem in the vagina that needs attention.

It is essential that you are examined internally, so if your GP did not do this I suggest you return and ask him or her to undertake an internal examination to ensure there are no obvious problems.

Some common causes of bleeding after intercourse are: small abrasions in the vagina that bleed during the friction of intercourse, an infection that causes bleeding because the vagina is sore, or a problem with the tissue that forms the hymen (although this is quite rare). In some cases, this is not completely removed by intercourse and bleeds each time your partner's penis enters you.

In the meantime, use a lubricant during intercourse as this will help while you are waiting for an examination, or stimulate each other to climax without going on to have intercourse until you know the reason for the bleeding.

If your GP does not seem very helpful in this matter, consult a doctor at your local Family Planning Clinic (in Yellow Pages) for further help.