Hi everyone, I'm new here. I just love how open this site is. I'm a little embarrassed to ask this but I am happily married woman who is very satisfied sexually with my man, but I still LOVE masturbating. Is this normal? Most of my friends say no, but I can't keep my hands off myself at times. I need your input ladies.

omg, this is SO normal! i mean, i'm not married, but i AM in a long term relationship, and yep, we both masturbate, sometimes together, often apart, and sometimes my partner is the star of my fantasies, but as often, she's not, and visa versa, and really, it's all part of a healthy sex drive. i'd be more worried if you DIDN'T masturbate, to be honest. hope this helps. Live, love, laugh.

and anyways, i imagine your husband masturbates from time to time, i mean really, all healthy males do, even if they are embarrassed to talk about it! it's normal! this is why porn/smut/erotica exist - i mean, really, people read the stories here for any other reason? :DLive, love, laugh.

omg, this is SO normal! i mean, i'm not married, but i AM in a long term relationship, and yep, we both masturbate, sometimes together, often apart, and sometimes my partner is the star of my fantasies, but as often, she's not, and visa versa, and really, it's all part of a healthy sex drive. i'd be more worried if you DIDN'T masturbate, to be honest. hope this helps.

omg, this is SO normal! i mean, i'm not married, but i AM in a long term relationship, and yep, we both masturbate, sometimes together, often apart, and sometimes my partner is the star of my fantasies, but as often, she's not, and visa versa, and really, it's all part of a healthy sex drive. i'd be more worried if you DIDN'T masturbate, to be honest. hope this helps.

Ditto, ditto, ditto and DITTO

What Sprite said for all of it! And I have been married for 25 years!

Love yourself enough to make yourself feel good. <3

All our Ladies are spot on right!!

Loving ourselves is important. And, what's good for the boys (and most men I know masturbate regularly regardless of being in a relationship or not) ... is good for us!!

Coming from a married male, it's perfectly normal! My partner knows it turns me on and we often do it together. In fact we were in a long-distance relationship for quite sometime and often masturbated over the phone. Again, I think it is perfectly fine and normal. On the other hand I do know of people who believe that because you are in a relationship or married that you shouldn't/or don't have to because you can have intercourse.

Coming from a married male, it's perfectly normal! My partner knows it turns me on and we often do it together. In fact we were in a long-distance relationship for quite sometime and often masturbated over the phone. Again, I think it is perfectly fine and normal. On the other hand I do know of people who believe that because you are in a relationship or married that you shouldn't/or don't have to because you can have intercourse.

Coming from a married male, it's perfectly normal! My partner knows it turns me on and we often do it together. In fact we were in a long-distance relationship for quite sometime and often masturbated over the phone. Again, I think it is perfectly fine and normal. On the other hand I do know of people who believe that because you are in a relationship or married that you shouldn't/or don't have to because you can have intercourse.

Coming from a married male, it's perfectly normal! My partner knows it turns me on and we often do it together. In fact we were in a long-distance relationship for quite sometime and often masturbated over the phone. Again, I think it is perfectly fine and normal. On the other hand I do know of people who believe that because you are in a relationship or married that you shouldn't/or don't have to because you can have intercourse.

I actually know a couple who think masturbation is cheating. LOL

I know someone very very well that thinks masturbation is cheating. It's really a dumb notion.

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Hi everyone, I'm new here. I just love how open this site is. I'm a little embarrassed to ask this but I am happily married woman who is very satisfied sexually with my man, but I still LOVE masturbating. Is this normal? Most of my friends say no, but I can't keep my hands off myself at times. I need your input ladies.

your new ha ha with 55,000 forum post - hee hee that was a good laugh!

I recall a memory when I was married, I turned myself on in bed while my hubby was sleeping ha ha. I nearly had a heart-attack everytime I thought he was gonna wake up LOL. I didn't want sex; I needed to get off on my own fingers that night.

Judging by the responses - I guess you see the general idea that it is totally normal

But anyway, just to add to the majority - it is normal to do that :)

And good fun too :p

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And even more fun when done with a willing partner!

Mutual masterbation...EVEN MORE FUN.. ;) ....and normal...not cheating...I do not understand that one at all.

Mutual mastubation with someone OTHER than your partner - now that in my eyes would constitute cheating. Otherwise, I agree, not cheating, and normal."I can resist everything except temptation." - Oscar Wilde

I recall a memory when I was married, I turned myself on in bed while my hubby was sleeping ha ha. I nearly had a heart-attack everytime I thought he was gonna wake up LOL. I didn't want sex; I needed to get off on my own fingers that night.

I remember a few moments like HoneyBee's .... very erotic in some ways.

The sounds of wetness in a quiet room, hearing him breathing and having NO idea!!

I am married and have a super sexual relationship with my man. I think it is super other may not. No way does this relationship eliminate the need and desire to explore and know my body. As that smart Nikki703 says.

I do not masturbate every day, but certainly most days and then there are days when it seems like I spend most of the day pleasuring myself. Not true but a good part of the day anyhow. My guy has no problem with it infact he rather enjoys watching me masturbate.

Why would anyone who loves you want to take this pleasure away from the woman in his/her life?

I have been married 10 years and still masturbate on a regular basis. My husband encourages me to explore my body. In my case I find it helps me greatly with staying comfortable in my own skin and knowing myself sexually. Getting lost within ones body while fantasizing is also a great tension and stress reliever.

Very normal! Before I came to Lush I never understood why my husband would masturbate all the time and not just come to me to fulfill his needs, it use to stir up some terrible fights between the two of us. Now that I've become more open to understanding his need to masturbate, I'm also comfortable fulfilling my own needs and desires and love the freedom of not feeling ashamed or guilty about pleasing myself. Now we discuss masturbation often, he even took me to purchase a new toy this week, something he has never done! Now, I just need to get him to be comfortable masturbating together. One step at a time!

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