1NS- would you ever date a girl u slept w/ 4 hours after meeting?

i did and i fell for her would you ever date a girl u had a one night stand with (or that started as a 1ns i should say)?

i was alpha when i first met her, then i turned into the biggest pussy b/c i had all these feelings for her once i realized how awesome she was outside of that one issue... she wasnt even overly hot, but her personality made her close to perfect in my eyes... i screwed it up tho b/c i got insecure and pushed her away ugh

if you are the type of person who has sex with someone 4 hours in (which you'd have to be in order to find yourself in this situation), it would be hypocritical to not date someone because they have sex with you 4 hours in

if you are the type of person who has sex with someone 4 hours in (which you'd have to be in order to find yourself in this situation), it would be hypocritical to not date someone because they have sex with you 4 hours in

Absolutely not. Sex should only happen after I know for sure that the person respects themselves, respects me, has not had too many partners, has health insurance, shares the same blood type and we've performed a mating dance. Anything less is immoral and frankly, nauseating.

I dated a guy I had sex with the first time we hung out. It didn't end well. our entire relationship from that point on was based on sex. And being the young and immature thing I was I wasn't able to disassociate love and sex.

I wouldn't date any of the people I had one night stands with and the person I am now, there is no way I would have sex with someone I have only known for 4 hours.

those kinds of girls usually get you spinning, though, so unless you've got your feet on the ground, they'll take you for a ride and you'll end up all twisted around and do weird shit like you did with this one

When I say, "those kinds of girls," I don't mean sluts or anything... I mean the passionate girls who can get you going enough to sleep with them that soon and leave you wanting more.

if you are the type of person who has sex with someone 4 hours in (which you'd have to be in order to find yourself in this situation), it would be hypocritical to not date someone because they have sex with you 4 hours in

I met him through a mutual friend on a trip to vegas, it wasn't anything but a simple introduction. I was visiting from L.A., he was a local. We didn't kick it or anything until I went to a club that night and he happened to be there too. So, club atmosphere, I'm havin fun and find myself dancin with him most of the night. He buys me a couple drinks, we're diggin each other, we enjoy what drunk conversation we had (lol), and woopty woop I go back to his place that night.

Keep in mind that I made this trip to Vegas to "do what stays in Vegas"... i.e. I wasn't lookin for anythin serious and just wanted to have fun. Well, the next day I wake up and we actually have decent conversation. I see a chess board and challenge him to a game of chess. We talk shit and end up kickin it like old friends, no weirdness at all. We exchange numbers, but neither of us really expect anything since 1) I was visitin Vegas tryin to have fun with no strings attached, and 2) I had already found out by then that he pulls tail all the time with no strings attached. Perfect!

Fast forward ONE year. We are a couple happier than ever, we have since moved in together because we didn't want the long distance relationship thing anymore, plan on getting married, and I'm pregnant with our first child!! Shit is crazy...

We find ourselves talkin about our first encounter. How we didn't expect anything from it. He later told me that I stood out from the rest because I played chess (showed intelligence) and was able to kick it off the bat with no weirdness (no expectations). After I went back to L.A., we spoke on the phone and found out we had similar interests, morals, and we couldn't get enough of each other. We saw each other every weekend since then and finally decided to move in with each other last December (in a mutually new place - Phoenix) just to be with each other.

Our first sexual encounter was bangin (no pun intended ) and we have a great sex life up to this day. At the same time, we have great conversation, understanding and respect for one another, and enjoy each other's company. We both have a past and are open-minded enough to look forward to a great future together and start a family!

This turned out longer than I thought it would...

Cliffs: I met a guy in Vegas, thought it was going to be a 1NS, further conversation and the luck of the universe have brought us to this point: Happy, living together, expecting our first child. Who knew??

Well I wouldn't be interested in having sex that soon. (I feel more comfortable getting to know the person.) However, if I was, I wouldn't want to date the guy anyway if he was going to be judging me from that same thing he just did. You're about right though, unfortunately.