Romance to you

With Valentine's Day tomorrow it has me thinking of what I view as romantic gestures that are shown in relationships. We all have ideas as to what we want the opposite sex to say and/or do. What do you think is the most romantic thing that special someone can do for you? If you haven't had a relationship before what is your fantasy romantic moment. Please share:

My guy and I have been struggling with communication over the last couple months causing some issues, yet tonight I noticed I had a missed call from him which is out of the ordinary during the week, so I call him back. All he wanted was to tell me to have sweet dreams and how he missed me(we saw each other three days ago too). I know it sounds corny and a bit cheesy, but those are the things that keep me coming back. I'm so blessed❤

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I didn’t see a temple in the city because the Lord God All-Mighty and the Lamb are its Temple. The city didn’t have need for the sun or the moon to shine on it, for the Glory of God gave it light; the Lamb is the Light.

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Hmmm... the day many singles hate you decide to create a post asking about the very subject many want to forget right now, then proceed to share how well your relationship is.
Not a very well thought out post methinks.

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Originally Posted by Ugly

Hmmm... the day many singles hate you decide to create a post asking about the very subject many want to forget right now, then proceed to share how well your relationship is.
Not a very well thought out post methinks.

This is why so many people refuse to start a thread is out of fear that they will be judged as to what it's about. I will go ahead and follow in their footsteps and never do it again because I never do it right and this will probably be my last post too. For future reference, it might be a good idea for you to keep those little comments like you posted to me to yourself, they are extremely hurtful

I guess my hope is some people use this as a way of creativity and understand most people will appreciate the little things other people do for them. Thank you for people who chose to share. May God bless and keep you

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Even though I am a widower for some years 18 years now I still enjoy
the razz-a-ma-tazz of Valentine's Day.
Pleasant memories. No actually some great memories.
Romance. Falling in love. Being in love.
Family and children - these values and desires are still important.

I enjoy seeing young people or old people walking together hand-in-hand.
Life should be about love and hopes for a future together.
I am happy for my children who are in relationships as young adults.
No regrets other than I could have done it all better.
But now I have grandchildren. Another blessing.

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Originally Posted by renewed_hope

This is why so many people refuse to start a thread is out of fear that they will be judged as to what it's about. I will go ahead and follow in their footsteps and never do it again because I never do it right and this will probably be my last post too. For future reference, it might be a good idea for you to keep those little comments like you posted to me to yourself, they are extremely hurtful

I guess my hope is some people use this as a way of creativity and understand most people will appreciate the little things other people do for them. Thank you for people who chose to share. May God bless and keep you

Oh don't get all offended or down in the dumps,Ugly is just Ugly,I've had my split ways with him but he's pretty wise but yeah a bit of a blunt person often speaking his mind immediately on particularly subjects he doesn't like or feels is questionable,but well that's just "him" and I respect that,not many people do you find that will "be themselves",and as typically,he "has a point".
Like Ugly has his heart set on someone,I do too,and many single people who don't can get rather "depressed" on thinking on "what ifs" I think he's more of giving simply what he gives me often as well as others "constructive criticism" he sounds kind of "pushy" but hey he's told me before that an idea wasn't bright for a thread topic,stuck to it anyways and he didn't hinder me,like in this case I think he's genuinely "concerned" for you and the single people,because "Valentine's day" can be very good or very frustrating for some,and really I think in my humble opinion that he's just "forewarning" reactions particularly by single people because people might "get upset with you" and that's not something "anyone wants".
Me personally I don't mind either way,because well my Valentine of choice I can't say much to because she likes our friendship and I'm content with that,and she currently doesn't want mushy stuff and I agree with that because well I can't pursue her as a love interest at all for years to come,and I've already been a "complete idiot" to her so though I would like to tell her even just "I love you" again I respectfully never will until such time as "appropriations" are met and she is "comfortable" with any such words from me.
It's no hassle for me anyways to "wait" years to even see if a relationship is "possible" because well "I have noone" and "noone wants me" so really it just means years without worry of any "commitment issues" whether I get a chance to seek a relationship with her or not because with no "love life" I can "focus" on the "future" with one less obstacle out of the way in said possible future.
Though of course I know I'm just being "wishful" it's just a possibility with no real certainty of it coming true,guess that makes me a fool to some but oh well I'm a fool for God/Jesus too so I guess I'll just keep moving forward and eventually time will tell what happens if anything at all.
The only thing "certain" lately is that I'm "transforming further" my habits are changing to good ones,such as decent hygiene,(such as brushing my teeth more often)decent appearance(no wearing holed jeans from them being worn out,wearing a belt,)truth coming out from my mouth more for God/Jesus(speaking up more often on what is right particularly with relatives)even when I'm upset I don't curse but I do get aggressive in speech when speaking on God/Jesus,God's word or what is morally/biblically right as opposed to my typical less proned to speaking up demeanor,and I don't get upset or stressed or scattered brained as I use to and a clearer view on what my dreams and goals are.

God I am but your servant to command have your holy spirit have me speak truth!
If you don't believe in true love then please don't tell me not to believe in it because I believe it to be real.
Jesus your sacrifice is worth more than everyone's works.
satan ye vile tempter seek me as your target and I'll be waiting with a bible in hand,a song in my heart,and truth ringing in your ears forever.

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Originally Posted by joefizz

Oh don't get all offended or down in the dumps,Ugly is just Ugly,I've had my split ways with him but he's pretty wise but yeah a bit of a blunt person often speaking his mind immediately on particularly subjects he doesn't like or feels is questionable,but well that's just "him" and I respect that,not many people do you find that will "be themselves",and as typically,he "has a point".
Like Ugly has his heart set on someone,I do too,and many single people who don't can get rather "depressed" on thinking on "what ifs" I think he's more of giving simply what he gives me often as well as others "constructive criticism" he sounds kind of "pushy" but hey he's told me before that an idea wasn't bright for a thread topic,stuck to it anyways and he didn't hinder me,like in this case I think he's genuinely "concerned" for you and the single people,because "Valentine's day" can be very good or very frustrating for some,and really I think in my humble opinion that he's just "forewarning" reactions particularly by single people because people might "get upset with you" and that's not something "anyone wants".
Me personally I don't mind either way,because well my Valentine of choice I can't say much to because she likes our friendship and I'm content with that,and she currently doesn't want mushy stuff and I agree with that because well I can't pursue her as a love interest at all for years to come,and I've already been a "complete idiot" to her so though I would like to tell her even just "I love you" again I respectfully never will until such time as "appropriations" are met and she is "comfortable" with any such words from me.
It's no hassle for me anyways to "wait" years to even see if a relationship is "possible" because well "I have noone" and "noone wants me" so really it just means years without worry of any "commitment issues" whether I get a chance to seek a relationship with her or not because with no "love life" I can "focus" on the "future" with one less obstacle out of the way in said possible future.
Though of course I know I'm just being "wishful" it's just a possibility with no real certainty of it coming true,guess that makes me a fool to some but oh well I'm a fool for God/Jesus too so I guess I'll just keep moving forward and eventually time will tell what happens if anything at all.
The only thing "certain" lately is that I'm "transforming further" my habits are changing to good ones,such as decent hygiene,(such as brushing my teeth more often)decent appearance(no wearing holed jeans from them being worn out,wearing a belt,)truth coming out from my mouth more for God/Jesus(speaking up more often on what is right particularly with relatives)even when I'm upset I don't curse but I do get aggressive in speech when speaking on God/Jesus,God's word or what is morally/biblically right as opposed to my typical less proned to speaking up demeanor,and I don't get upset or stressed or scattered brained as I use to and a clearer view on what my dreams and goals are.

Well anyways...Happy Valentine's day everyone,gonna try to get some sleep now.

God I am but your servant to command have your holy spirit have me speak truth!
If you don't believe in true love then please don't tell me not to believe in it because I believe it to be real.
Jesus your sacrifice is worth more than everyone's works.
satan ye vile tempter seek me as your target and I'll be waiting with a bible in hand,a song in my heart,and truth ringing in your ears forever.

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Originally Posted by renewed_hope

This is why so many people refuse to start a thread is out of fear that they will be judged as to what it's about. I will go ahead and follow in their footsteps and never do it again because I never do it right and this will probably be my last post too. For future reference, it might be a good idea for you to keep those little comments like you posted to me to yourself, they are extremely hurtful

I guess my hope is some people use this as a way of creativity and understand most people will appreciate the little things other people do for them. Thank you for people who chose to share. May God bless and keep you

Hey I for one like this thread and am glad you made it. Don't let someone's negative opinion cloud your judgement. Its a thread about love... and love is always good!

Now as far as romantic fantasies... Mine would be to sing a duet with her in a crowded karaoke bar as we look into each other's eyes on stage in front of the crowd...

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Originally Posted by Ugly

Hmmm... the day many singles hate you decide to create a post asking about the very subject many want to forget right now, then proceed to share how well your relationship is.
Not a very well thought out post methinks.

Gonna have to disagree with you on this one. Often you are blunt but insightful. This time you are just blunt. By your logic we shouldn't post or talk about any pictures of any people... because I hate pictures of myself.

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Originally Posted by joefizz

The only thing "certain" lately is that I'm "transforming further" my habits are changing to good ones,such as decent hygiene,(such as brushing my teeth more often)decent appearance(no wearing holed jeans from them being worn out,wearing a belt,)

True confessions.
I see a new hot sizzling thread in the making
what to leave out will be the problem