63. Well, thanks for the lecture on judging, but honestly, it's pretty condescending.

Blood isn't as relevant as past behavior in this case, and unless he repents and asks for contact, the OP is under absolutely no obligation to somehow prove to him that she's the bigger person, or whatever. If she wants to do that, fine. But it's a pretty low blow to try to guilt trip her into it by telling her that it's spirtual and if she can't figure that out, you can't explain it to her. That was really very patronizing.

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