What girl hasn't, really? HAHA. My first REAL boyfriend was a very sweet guy who had actually been crushing on me for over a year. I was aware that he liked me...a lot, but the attraction on my side just wasn't there. One day, I decided to give this guy a try and decided to start going out with him. Since he was like 4 years my senior, I thought he'd be a little bit more "suave" with his kissing but, OMG. The first time he kissed me, which was around 15 minutes, he left my mouth all blotchy and purple! He was literally sucking the circulation out of me. He was way too passionate and slobbery. Since he was also pretty much the first guy I really kissed (I had only "pecked" before him) I was really horrified with kissing. I thought it wasn't that fun. We only lasted about a month. He was a really sweet guy but, to top it all off, he even had the nerve to say that I "didn't know how to kiss." Yes, I didn't have much experience but even then I could definitely tell his kissing wasn't normal!

4 years

He kept always biting my lip then trying to suck on my tongue. If kissing is an indication of how he is in bed, I got out of that real quickly. GROOSSS!!!!!

4 years

Yes and it was terrible and it was so sad because we had already kissed with a hello peck on the lips and it was nice and soft but then when we actually had our first make out session his breath was totally horrid and he didn't know how to use his lips because they overpowered my smaller lips and his saliva was all over my mouth and when we pulled away I made a mistake by licking my lips (which was my way of trying to get rid of the saliva without making it so obvious) and he took that as I liked it and went at it again! A relationship never actually came to be so that was my last make out session with him!

I feel so bad for everyone!! haha. I've only kissed one bad kisser so I think I'm pretty lucky. But, my best friend on the other hand had a guy completely open his mouth as wide as he could to try to kiss her. Awkward!!!

Nah, kissing is too important to me. Must be good, or at the least mildly retrainable. Had a few guys overdo it (tongue, spit, the works), had one guy who liked to bite WAY too hard (leaving bruises and other dubious marks), and then one AMAZING kisser who turned out to be a complete ass. Can't really win. Oh, also can't stand it if he tastes of old coffee/cigarettes/beer, on top of being a bad kisser. It's gross, and if you KNOW you taste like that, DON'T try to kiss me.

My very first boyfriend was a horrible kisser ... and even later in life when we tried to get back together he was still horrific. I think it was one of the reasons why I didn't feel so bad about not being able to rekindle the romance.

I had a few encounters with an older guy... we're talking 16 years my senior... and wow, what a terrible kisser! I was kind of infatuated with him though, so I almost thought it was 'cute' but of course when the fling ended I was relieved I didn't have to put up with his terrible smooches anymore.
He would just open his mouth really wide, and would kind of keep it open over my mouth. It's hard to explain, but there was no tongue action really, not even kissing really, just like an open mouth... bizarre.

One guy literally made me gag and covered me with spit. I dated a guy who kissed like a goldfish and another one who couldn't stand even a tiny bit of tongue. One was too tonguey but he toned it down a lot as our relationship progressed. One was too tonguey and actually made a comment about the way I was kissing. Best kisser ever in the history of kissing turned out to be the lamest in bed. I think most can be taught but some are just lost causes.

He sucked on my lips so hard, and were biting them almost constantly. Basically he was doing everything that is sexy to do once in a while he did all the time. It was so bad, my lip started bleeding. What a turn off!

The last guy I dated (same time I just started dating my husband too at that time). He basically gave me tongue bath all over my face, then he actually preferred kissing that way to the point, HE was the one giving me instruction to do the same thing. Well, I quit dating him after that, because who gave direction for a facial tongue bath...plus my hub-then potential guy-asked me to stop seeing other men.

Yikes, yeah. But in my opinion kissing its not so much matter of technique as its emotion. One of the first guys i dated injected about a pound of saliva into my mouth, it wasn't so sensual experience.

Yikes, yeah. But in my opinion kissing its not so much matter of technique as its emotion. One of the first guys i dated injected about a pound of saliva into my mouth, it wasn't so sensual experience.

Yeah, what lucky girl hasn't? I think there is always hope. If you are together long enough you can teach him by saying exactly what you want, "I like when you lightly kiss my bottom lip." If he is a real winner (personality and sex wise) I don't think bad kissing would stop me from being with him. After being together for a while make outs happen less often anyways.

Haha, yeah...but he was such a boring dude, his bad kissing just made it that much easier to break it off with him...

4 years

yes, i dated a bad kisser!! but even if he was great and sex was great, i couldn't really stand the fact he wasn't able to kiss..i tried to teach him, but with non results..i was so sorry, but i think kissing is one of the most important things in a relationship!!