Once you do this, then you’ll get a win in this category. You’ll feel that you can make progress in your business and money efforts because you’ve seen some success.

Women

If you’ve never fucked a girl, then make a goal to get a phone number at the club, or a date from tinder.

If you’ve fucked 10-20 girls but have trouble closing on the first date, then try to get a fuck on the first date.

Make a goal that’s just out of reach of what you’ve done but is definitely doable.

Then accomplish that.

Body and health

Body goals can also differ depending on what level you are. If you’re overweight, make a goal to cut out junk food. This alone will help you to lose weight.

If you’re already lean, then make a goal to get a slightly bigger pr on bench press or squats.

3. Celebrating your small wins

Now it’s time to celebrate.

No, you’re not going to get lazy and drink for a week straight.

You still have a lot of work to do.

But a big part of learning how to be confident is actually enjoying your wins.

Confidence is your belief in your ability to do something. However, you need to actually celebrate your wins so that you realize you can do it.

Playboy / player example

A few of my friends were players like myself.

One of them would always celebrate his success, talking about girls he fucked years ago. It was annoying, but he always reminded himself of his wins. He kept girls around like a player would. He had consistent pussy that reminded him of the original conquest.

However, my other friend wasn’t always confident.

He was quick to forget the wins he had with women a month or two ago. A lot of that had to do with he was more of a playboy vs player, and was always having to find new pussy.

But his lack of abundance caused him to lose a bit of his confidence form time to time. Many times I had to remind him of the other wins he had with women, when he was tripping over one particular girl.

So it’s important to remind yourself of the small wins you get. Realize you’ve made some progress.

4. Continuing to get slightly bigger wins

You’ve made goals, gotten small wins, and have cerated your success.

Now it’s time to use the momentum you’ve begun to create to get bigger wins.

Success breeds success.

And you’re starting to believe your own affirmations. Say them with more conviction.

Women

After getting laid on the first date a few times, see if you can keep the girls around. From there, you can see them on a regular basis. And then you can see if one of them if a good fit for your relationship criteria.