A Fear Of Speaking In Public: Five Practical Ways To Overcome It

Posted at 00:47am on 18th July 2009

You’ve been asked to do some public speaking for the
Gardening Club, or Mums & Toddlers and frankly, you’re
terrified. In fact your fear of speaking in public is enough to
make you want to hang up your trowel and green wellies forever. And
as for mums and toddlers, well your two-year-old is going to have
to grow up fast!

Consequently, you are not going to believe me when I tell you
that public speaking, as a means of increasing your confidence,
cannot be surpassed! It’s all a matter of knowing what to do
and how to do it.

The issues that need to be addressed are:

Public speaking ideas: knowing your subject and sorting it into
a coherent talk.

Preparing for, and giving, a visual presentation.

Dress code – what to wear.

Delivering your talk.

Follow up.

KNOWING YOUR SUBJECT AND SORTING IT INTO A COHERENT
TALK

If you are a member of a Club and have been asked to address
fellow-members, then chances are that you have been asked to speak
on a topic near and dear to your heart. You will probably, thus, be
free to choose a particular aspect of the subject with which you
are familiar, or in which you have some expertise.

However, if you are to address the Mums’ &
Toddlers’ Group (where membership is broader and lifestyles
may be very different from one another) that may not be so. In that
case, you will need to think about the issues that interest you
– because the one thing you must try to do, as a
speaker, is to inspire others with the passion you feel for your
subject.

PUBLIC SPEAKING IDEAS

Your topic may fall into one of three categories:

a) An item of common interest.

b) Sharing a secret.

c) An esoteric subject.

a)A common interest would be
one that defines the raison d’etre of the club. So
for the Gardening Club, you might plan a talk which encompasses a
widespread problem - experienced by all members - and offers some
solutions. Let’s say you decide to speak on Ten Ways To
Slug Pests, you could then outline the organic answers to the
problem: the scattering of crumpled egg shells or coffee grounds
(which are impossible for molluscs to negotiate); a beaker of beer
dregs to drown snails; or spraying plants with a weak solution of
detergent to deter whitefly or greenfly. What you’re aiming
for is to provide facts and information which are of interest to
all.

b)Sharing a secret is not as
difficult as it sounds. You may, for instance, have insider
knowledge on the lifestory of a well-known personality, who happens
to be a relative of yours. And though you may not wish to share
intimate details, simply making the connection will be enough to
interest most people. Perhaps, like the
London Mayor, Boris Johnson, you may even be distantly descended
from the British Royal family. Or perhaps, more mundanely, the
secret you are willing to share with your audience, is in soap or
candle-making. For we authors, of course, it is always about
creative writing projects, how to craft a novel, or writing good
dialogue.

c) An esoteric subject, as its name implies,
would be something obscure: some intriguing topic – perhaps
previously unknown even to you. So, instead of bombarding your
Mums’ & Toddlers’ Group with yet more information
on how they are failing as parents, or how little Jonnie might be
groomed to be the next Richard Branson, entrepreneur and
adventurer, you could lift their spirits by telling them something
completely and utterly outside their normal experience. Like, for
instance, the fascinating fact of nature I came across recently on
my Google news bar, which is about a
lizard that is so small and light that when it leaps, it floats
like a feather.

Which brings me to research. The World Wide Web makes this so
easy! But be sure that your source is reliable. The very fact that
it is so easy means that the internet is inundated with material
which is unsubstantiated and unedited. Use the websites of real
world sources, like the World Health Organisation, or top quality
newspapers or broadcasters, to be sure of your facts.

WRITING A GOOD DIALOGUE

Writing for publication and writing for a talk are two entirely
different things. Creative writing projects do, however, have one
thing in common with a talk: both require you to think in terms of
writing a good dialogue. Unless you are delivering a lecture which
depends upon its own specific language (i.e. scientific, technical,
medical or historical) the vocabulary and grammar you use for
publication will be quite different to that for a talk. Think of
your address as being a conversation with one person. And use the
easy, informal expressions and structure that you would use when
speaking to a friend.

As for how to structure your talk, here the same principle
applies as for writing an article. That is:

Tell your audience what you are going to tell them.

Tell them.

Tell them what you have told them.

More of this next time when we’ll look at other ways to
deal with that fear of speaking in public.

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