The First Time at Intercourse

We often have visitors write in with solutions to each others' problems. Here is a visitor's solution to one of our visitor's questions.

Original Visitor's Question from a 13-20 year old FemaleHow much does someone bleed when they lose their virginity for the first time?
I am 18 years old and have neva had sex before, I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for around 7 months now, and I really do feel ready to have sex with him. We have tried twice but I found it a little painful to say the least. Can you help?

User Submitted Advice from a 21-30 year old Male

if you feel ready just go for it.you cant stop it from hurting the 1st time you have sex.but be careful because you dont need a kid in your life.i hope that helps.actually wait until you get married to have sex because dont you want to tell your husband you waited for him.it is your choice.good luck.