Weâ??re almost at the 19 month mark with him and it has indeed been the worst and best thing. I know some people may not like me saying worst thing but itâ??s trueâ?¦for me. Itâ??s also been the best thing so donâ??t get your undies in a twist. Iâ??m learning that deep breaths, saying no to the outside world, and being in the moment are helpful to having more happy days than bad ones.