Oh poor you Debbie, we do manage to see them once a year and on Skype at the weekends but our grandson is 3 and growing so fast and another due in November.
I know about costly medicals bill, steve had a massive heart attack when we were over last October, ended up having a triple heart bypass, spent two weeks of our holiday in hospital, and the other two recovering, lucky we had insurance as the bill was over two million dollars, he is lucky that he is recovering slowly and can drive and get about again now but the journey back home was awful.