when you follow these suggestions. These methods work! These
methods have been used by many hundreds of people who have taken our
seminars or have worked with The Positive Way individually.
Here is our free advice on what has been shown to work time and time again
on how to find and attract your ideal mate. It may be free but it's
really worth a fortune.

How to identify your ideal mate:

List the things in
your life that are important to you. Yes, sit down and
make a list.
Review it several times over a period of time. Consider what you
have and have not liked in your relationships to date.

Identify the
characteristics of a person who shares what's important to you.
Don't just think about today; think about what you will want years from
now. Morals, principles, and values are the enduring foundation of
ourselves. These are on top of the personality characteristics that
we each have.

Evaluate your own
personality and interests. You can start here and now with our
free
Compatibility and Interest Guide
and continue, as you wish, with personality profiles such as those offered
in the book Please Understand Me.

How to find your ideal mate:

Go where people that
share your interests are. You cannot find anyone while you are
home alone. Unless you want to be a party person for the next twenty
years, don't devote all of your socializing to the bar scene. What
really matters to you? Maybe you should be playing sports, going to
adult education classes, joining church groups, or volunteering to meet
solid, upstanding people. See
Suggestions for Finding and Ideal Mate.

Network, network;
network. Over two thirds of marriages result from introductions by
someone you know. Join single's organizations. It's the safe
way to meet people who are known by someone. You're less likely to
run into a sex fiend or someone who doesn't share your sexual and life
interests when they've been checked out by your friends or family.

Remember, you have to
be with people who will share your interests. You are much more
likely to attract a like-minded person when you are sharing activities
such as sports, hobbies, cultural events, volunteering, and the like.

Confidence and
self-love also identified as self-esteem is a great magnet to attract.
The better you feel about yourself, the better you will look to others.
It has been said that "You will attract someone to you at the same level
of self-esteem that you are." Here are some great suggestions on how
to
build self-esteem.

Dress the best you
can. This means quality clothing and appropriate styles that help
you look good and feel comfortable. You don't have to spend a
fortune. There are always sales and today, consignment shops are a
very respectable way to get outfitted while you save the economy and
environment by recycling.

Now that you've found
the right person, the only way you can hang on for life is to create a
loving relationship that is built to last. Make a commitment
to each other to make your relationship a priority and to keep it that way
forever. Commitment gets lost all too often these days and the facts
are that over 50% of all marriages end in divorce, most of them within 10
years. It takes commitment to carry on even through adversity and
change.

"Love is not enough."
The first love, passion, that you share will not last. You must
replace it with a new and different love. One that you share in
everything that you do. You must learn to communicate with each
other. Studies show that it's not the similarities that you share
that makes the difference in the long run, it's how you handle your
differences. You must be able to communicate well and solve
problems. Take a look at the recommendations for
relationships for lovers.

"Love is a verb."
The future is what you make it. And that means that you have
to take action each day to keep your love alive and growing. Dr.
Erick Fromm says that love is like an art. Love takes
commitment, understanding, and practice to flourish.

Link Interpersonal Communication System. Improve Your
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Increase Your Chances With Confidence When Dating. See our
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