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May 26, 2006

It's
all about relationships

As
hundreds visit their lawmakers in a lobbying effort, there are surprises
on both sides

by Eric Resnick

Columbus--“It’s been a long time since many of us felt at home
in Ohio,” Equality Ohio director Lynne Bowman told a ballroom full of
people preparing to speak with their legislators, “and we’re here to change
that.”

Hundreds of lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender Ohioans, allies, family
members, and roughly three dozen children ranging in age from a few months
to teens descended on the Statehouse May 17 for the state’s largest-ever
lobbying event for LGBT rights.

The event was larger than the previous LGBT lobbying efforts in 1994,
1997, and 1999 combined, and was one of the largest non-corporate legislative
events of the year.

Coincidentally, it was held on the International Day Against Homophobia,
commemorating the World Health Organization’s 1990 removal of homosexuality
from its list of mental disorders.

Bowman kicked off the event from the Governor’s Ballroom of the Hyatt
hotel across the street from the Statehouse. She began the morning sendoff
by recalling November 2, 2004, the day voters passed the anti-marriage
amendment to the Ohio constitution.

She was joined by Equality Ohio board chair Jeannette Birkhoff, Terry
Penrod of the Human Rights Campaign and Equality Ohio staffer Bo Shuff.

Republican State Sen. David Goodman of Columbus and Democratic State
Sen. Dale Miller of Cleveland addressed the political visionaries, as
did State Rep. and Ohio Democratic Party chair Chris Redfern.

Miller introduced Ohio’s first LGBT non-discrimination bill as a member
of the House in April 2003 and again last year. His first legislative
act after being appointed to fill a vacant Senate seat was to introduced
its companion on May 16.

He was greeted with a long standing ovation before declaring it a “new
day” for LGBT Ohioans.

“It’s time to stop the exploitation of LGBT people by the political right
for political advancement,” said Miller. “And it’s time to begin the repeal
of the marriage language in Ohio’s Constitution. It’s a disgrace that
discrimination has been put into our fundamental document.”

Redfern and Goodman talked about the importance of building relationships
with legislators--a message the lobbyists would hear again and again before
the day ended.

The event cost $20,000 to accomplish, according to Bowman, with half
paid by its sponsors the Human Rights Campaign, the National Gay and Lesbian
Task Force, the Log Cabin Republicans and the Central Ohio Stonewall Democrats.
Most other costs were covered by contributions on the day of the event.

Equality Ohio sponsored seven training sessions around the state in the
last month to brief participants on the issues and protocol.

Cleveland’s Fairmount Temple chartered a bus which carried people to
the event.

“Today is the beginning of change in Ohio,” said Bowman, as she listed
Ohio’s “gay agenda”: equal civil rights and protections, employment non-discrimination,
equality in adoption and foster parenting, LGBT inclusive safe schools
legislation, LGBT inclusive hate crimes protection, and the right to correct
one’s birth certificate following sex reassignment.

Equality Ohio identified three bills in the legislature to be discussed
with lawmakers and their staffs. These were Miller’s employment non-discrimination
bills, Rep. Jimmy Stewart’s safe schools, anti-bully bill, and the defeat
of Rep. Ron Hood’s anti-gay adoption and foster parenting ban.

The 485 citizen lobbyists went to lawmakers’ offices ready to share family
photos, personal stories, and discuss how previous actions by the legislature
have affected their lives.

The groups were organized by the 33 Ohio Senate districts. They visited
their senator and the representatives of the three House districts in
each Senate one.

Prior to the day-long event, only six of 132 lawmakers had declined appointments
with the LGBT groups. Once it started, committee business prevented a
few more from having visits. The rest got 20 to 30 minutes with legislators,
their staff or both.

‘Your work doesn’t end today’

Republicans, Democrats, LGBT friends and foes alike told the citizen
lobbyists that the most important thing to do to influence lawmakers is
to develop relationships, and communicate often.

“Your work does not end at the end of today,” Redfern told them.

“Talk about what is personal to you,” said team leader Kevin Sullivan
of Columbus. “That’s what’s going to have the most impact.”

Sullivan is an experienced lobbyist on HIV matters in Columbus and Washington.

“One time is not going to do it,” said a conservative Republican House
member who asked not to be identified. “It’s a start, though.”

“There are some issues like adoption we are never going to see eye-to-eye
on, but that relationship allows us to talk about things where we can.”

Legislators open lobbyists’ eyes

Some groups that visited all LGBT friendly lawmakers joked about their
visits being a “love fest.” Others had it more difficult.

Judy Maruszan of Cleveland, who led a “love fest” group, said, “Even
they were totally surprised at the depth of the harm to partners and families
due to the loss of insurance and inheritance rights.”

“It’s the stories,” said Maruszan. “We have to keep telling our stories.”

Some legislators said surprising things.

Rep. Tom Brinkman, the Cincinnati Republican suing Miami University to
stop their domestic partner benefits, told his visitors, led by Ted Jackson
of Cincinnati, that he would drop the suit if the university would make
it possible for unmarried heterosexuals to get the benefits, too.

Currently, the policy extends the benefits only to same-sex couples.
They are similar to the ones married couples get.

In a later interview, Brinkman explained the statement further.

He said the University of Toledo is considering a plan that would cover
same-sex and opposite-sex unmarried couples. He sees that as an attempt
to expand health coverage, which he says there is a public interest in
doing.

“It is in no way trying to mimic marriage,” said Brinkman, “and I don’t
have a problem with that.”

Brinkman said the biggest supporters of his lawsuit are unmarried heterosexuals
who feel excluded.

Brinkman is also a co-sponsor of the adoption ban bill, but he told the
group that he would oppose the measure if it becomes a ballot initiative
or constitutional amendment.

“I’d be against it,” Brinkman later clarified. “I think it should be
legislation [not a constitutional amendment].”

Brinkman said he has heard of no plans to take the adoption ban to the
voters.

“The people who would do that are the same people who are backing the
Miami suit,” said Brinkman, “and their next project is strip clubs, not
this.”

The ban’s sponsor, Ron Hood of Ashville, was defeated in the Republican
primary earlier this month. Asked if any of the co-sponsors would be bringing
it back next session, Brinkman said he could only speak for himself.

Advocating broader adoption reform, Brinkman said, “I could see something
like [the gay adoption ban] being part of a larger bill.”

Senator Jay Hottinger and an aide met with eight lobbyists, including
a couple with their four year old son in tow.

Hottinger, a Republican from Newark, was the first sponsor of “defense
of marriage” legislation when he was a member of the House in 1997.

“It’s unfortunate that many in people in your community felt like second-class
citizens because of that legislation and I apologize for that,” said Hottinger.
“My intent was never to do any gay bashing or demagoguing. It was a states’
rights issue for me. I am a traditionalist when it comes to those things.”

Hottinger said without hesitation that he would not vote for the anti-adoption
bill if it appeared in the Senate. “I would not support that bill.”

He acknowledged that LGBT people make up about ten percent of his district
and said, “We might not see eye to eye on all issues, but you deserve
representation, and I hope you always feel you can contact me.”

Democratic Senator Eric Kearney of Cincinnati has only been seated since
December.

“Because you are new, we wanted to bring you on board with Democrats
and moderate Republicans on our issues,” said John Farina of Lakewood,
who led a group of nine people.

Kearney took an interest in what the legislature can do to improve the
situation for people with HIV.

“My best friend in college was gay and died of AIDS,” said Kearney.

Staffer came out to visitors

An aide to a Republican House member reportedly came out to the lobbyists
visiting his boss.

According to those who were there, the House member is not friendly to
LGBT people and claims not to know any.

Equality Ohio lobbyists reportedly took issue with the unnamed staffer
for allowing his boss to claim this.

Visits took place in senators’ Statehouse offices and in the Vern Riffe
House office building across the street.

Connie Grossman of Athens told Rep. Bill Coley’s aide Mitch Alderson
that she left a job at Miami University when Brinkman filed his suit.

Jamie Ryan of Columbus, who lobbied with her three young children by
her side, told House Democratic Leader Joyce Beatty’s aide Molly Parsons
that “When my [gay] brother is stable, I’m stable.”

Ryan, who is not gay, said protecting LGBT families reaches beyond the
gay person and maybe a partner, into the lives of those who love them.

“Right now, Ohio seems really mean!” Ryan said.

Equality Toledo director Kim Welter said the group she led visited with
a staffer who was a member of World Harvest Church, led by anti-gay political
activist Rod Parsley.

Welter said the staffer was there the day Parsley asked his congregation
to stand if they agree with him on the sinfulness of gay people.

“She hasn’t been there since,” said Welter.

Paul Schwitzgebel, who led a group from the Canton area, said Rep. Scott
Oelslager’s aide was aware of the difficulties transgender Ohioans have
getting accurate drivers licenses, but the Oelslager was not.

“He seemed genuinely interested in knowing more,” said Schwitzgebel.

Equality Ohio board co-chair Tom Grote noted the number of LGBT and non-LGBT
clergy who came out to meet legislators, and the number of children.

“You know you’re going to win when you have kids and clergy,” he said.

Brynna Fish of Cleveland said she introduced herself to Governor Bob
Taft on the Statehouse lawn.

Taft was observing an athletic exhibition promoting health, and Fish
walked up to him and shook his hand.

“He said, ‘I’m here working for a healthier Ohio’,” said Fish, “and I
said, ‘I’m here working for non-discrimination for lesbian, gay, bisexual
and transgender people.’ ”

At that, Fish said, Taft “just looked at me and left.”

Husted wouldn’t say ‘gay’

The lobbying ended about 5 pm. Afterward, there was a $50 per person
reception for legislators. About 80 lobbyists and two dozen legislators
attended.

It was there that Equality Ohio recognized House Speaker Jon Husted,
a Republican from Kettering, for stopping any movement of the anti-gay
adoption bill.

Husted told the group he was adopted himself, and opposes any attempt
to deny children good homes.

However, his remarks were noticeably devoid of the word “gay” or anything
related to LGBT equality.

Husted was not a co-sponsor of the “defense of marriage act” passed by
the House in 2003, but he voted for it, and is not generally thought of
as friendly to LGBT causes.

“We have not done a good job in the past of thanking people who do things
for us,” said Bowman, “and that makes people hesitant and less comfortable
stepping out.”

“It doesn’t bother me that he didn’t say “gay,” Bowman continued, adding
that the thanks were for what Husted has done.

Bowman said that participants who filled out the event evaluation often
wrote about what she called a “tribal feeling,” connecting them to the
rest of the LGBT family.

“It wasn’t just a rally, although rallies are important,” said Bowman.

“And it wasn’t just a parade, although parades are important. And it
wasn’t just sending e-mails, although sending e-mails is important.”

“People who have never met a legislator are now empowered to move us
forward into the future as a community,” said Bowman. “And we did it together!”