mixed signals

G.A. wrote: “Hi Liz, two years ago I told a girl I’ve known for five years that I liked her. She said that she sees me as a friend and she is not interested in me as I am for her. Since then, I had gotten over her and felt really free to hang out …

This week’s video was inspired by all the letters I’ve received in which someone writes something like, “My boyfriend is amazing and I love him but he’s never referred to me as his girlfriend” or “What do you think it means that this girl I’m seeing acts like I’m the greatest thing since Velcro when …

Chuck wrote: “First off, I’m shy and I have a hard time meeting women (people in general). Think “Raj” on ‘The Big Bang Theory’. I have a feeling about what that is due to, but it’s major and not really the point of this. (Yes, I’m trying to work on it, but…it’s a bit of …

Hello, Everyone! My family and I had a busy week moving out of our house, so I posted my latest YouTube video a day early. It’s a good thing I did, too, because our cable guy got the dates mixed up so we didn’t have internet access on Wednesday in our new place. Whew! Anyway, …

John asked: “This girl has come into my life and she’s very damaged from past relationships. I’m not as much seeking damaged women to help them, I just really like this girl and want to help her. She doesn’t trust me, right, which why would she because she doesn’t know me that well. We have …

Anonymous in IL asked: “I like this guy who sends super mixed signals. We were friends and could talk openly, but he was never serious. He says things like ‘That guy probably thinks you’re hot’, and ‘Oh you’re really sweet, you talk so sweetly’, and he touched my cheek while saying bye once. Other times …

Ducky Asks: “The guy I like says he has a crush on someone else, but won’t ask her out because he doesn’t have the time and doesn’t think he stands a chance. Meanwhile, whenever I meet him (which is twice a week) he acts SUPER flirty and I do too. The day after we meet …