Profound images of loss surround us. We can turn the TV off but the loss remains. Rather than face loss, we deny it or euphem-ize it. Just like Jesus’ friends of old. Yes, denial and euphemism temporarily dull pain, but ultimately they are a stumbling block to depth, growth and healing. There’s no life without loss! Into this comes Jesus, the gift. In his suffering and loss we find strength to face our own. Because of him we understand the cadence of life is life, death and life again. Be not afraid, beloved God can be trusted in our loss.