Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

31 July 2015 (F)
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Hi everyone. Please give me some advice guys on this dilemma I face, I cant talk to anyone in real life about this, so you guys are my only hope. So my fiance and I are together six years, engaged four. We got engaged very young, and we were dealing with life struggles and ...
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31 July 2015 (F)
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I met a very nice man online and we've been on a few dates and have got on really well. Nothing physical has happened between us. Before we actually met we chatted a lot online and he ticked a lot of the boxes in what I'm looking for - we share the same interests, he's kind, ...
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31 July 2015 (F)
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Hi, I was on before about finding out about my ex and my friend having an affair. For months I acted normal and said nothing as I had no real proof - just a gut feeling. I was going to just cut them out of my life and move on - until I discovered that actually - the a...
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31 July 2015 (F)
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Today was my last day in work so yesterday we went out for a meal and a few drinks. The company I worked for was massive and it employed lots of others companies. I ended up going to the toilet and one of the other companies was there and one of the gentleman said “hello ...
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31 July 2015 (F)
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hi ,im planning on meeting my online date this weekend we get on and everything has been going good , the only thing thats 'doing my head in' is he messages me to say morning and then couple of messages through the day and a chat at night then its always a goodnight message . i ...
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31 July 2015 (F)
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My parents have always treated me like a child and now that I'm an adult with my own child, they've gotten even worse! When friends (the ones I have left), friends I'm trying to make (doesn't work), or guys I try to talk to see this, they laugh in my face. Either they follow ...
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31 July 2015 (F)
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1997- 1998: Was in David's school. He was my school mate. Wasn’t really his friend but just a classmate. Sept 2014: Started working at a local Retail store Pharmacy. Saw David there. We chatted and exchanged numbers but he was getting over a break up from someone at the time...
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31 July 2015 (F)
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Dear Cupid I take care of my parent I have been doing this for some years now.My mom legs are off do to diabetes I have other sibling but I get no help.In thinking of placing her in a home but I feel really bad I feel like I am abandoning my mom what can u do.In working two ...
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31 July 2015 (F)
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Help all, I was dating with this guy for 3 months and we were on and off. We were friends on fb. Evert single time I went out, I poster my pictures and he liked it and texted me how was my dinner date or Etc... He was trying to learn i guess if I was talking to someone ...
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31 July 2015 (F)
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My husband tells me he loves the 'porn sluts ' as he calls them . I am beginning to think he finds them sexier and more interesting than me I asked him what he likes and he says they look hot . I am adventurous and look after myself plus im his wife but this love of these wo...
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30 July 2015 (F)
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Hey Dear Cupid readers So today I went to visit a friend who I haven't seen for about a while. I told her that when I was out last Saturday just gone, that I'd kissed someone when I was out. She laughed and said that doesn't surprise her - it came across as if she was sayin...
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30 July 2015 (F)
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I have been divorced for 20 years, dating but without commitment. Seven months ago I met a recently widowed man (whose family I had known for years, but not him). I am 78 and he is 72. I want to know his thoughts about our future together, but afraid to ask. HOw should I a...
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30 July 2015 (F)
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22-25 -
Hi guys :) I am just wanting a bit of advice about overcoming my Craziness. Recently I have been feeling more and more upset with Some things that my boyfriend does. Little things will upset me or I ll get in my head about a certain things. At the time I am positive its his ...
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30 July 2015 (M)
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Well you may not know this but this is the 5th time I wrote here in an ever increasing attempt to turn my life around. Let me start by saying...yes i have experience with women and the only reason i 'll act the way i am now because being alone is tearing me apart. Ive been sin...
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30 July 2015 (F)
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18-21 -
I'm 15 and in love with my principal. He's around 30. I know it's not a crush; I joined this school last year and I just liked him last year; I tried to forget him, but my love for him just keeps increasing. All the other girls in my class also like him, but I don't understand ...
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30 July 2015 (F)
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41-50 -
Should I give this guy another chance? I recently met a guy on match, he is 11 yrs older than myself and is early 50s. We met at least on 5 occasions. The last time I stayed over at his place, we got a little intimate but we never went all the way. I was left a bit confused b...
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30 July 2015 (F)
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ok so my neighbor is a 28 single, bachelor, and i'm a 28 single, bachelorrette.. who both work full time...one night he came over to hang out with me, we played video games, talked and had wine..prior to that, we had gone out on one date...I really enjoyed his company when he ...
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30 July 2015 (M)
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30-35 -
About 2 years ago a friend of mine showed me the instagram of a friend. She commented on a picture of us together and inquired who I was. I could tell from her pictures that she was gorgeous and outgoing. Real life of the party type of girl. Well, around February I final...
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30 July 2015 (F)
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Can a married man in his mid 40's stay happily married if his wife doesn't want sex anymore? And I'm talking years now? Can a man live without sex in a marriage? ...
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30 July 2015 (F)
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22-25 -
My Fiancé and I have been together a year. We have always enjoyed sex and have it quite frequently, 4 to 6 times a week. The thing is though I feel as though my sex drive is going down and I don't want it as much and his is going up and always complains that we don't have it ...
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30 July 2015 (M)
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Okay so this is a short question. I do everything for my girlfriend. I cook for her, drive her, buy her things, etc and I feel she does little in return. On a few occasions she has even said I know I do nothing to contribute, does that bother you? I always kinda shrug it off ...
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30 July 2015 (F)
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22-25 -
So its been 6 months since my ex cheated on me at a party and I found out by looking at his phone he didnt regret when I said I wanted to talk about it he left and I never saw him other than at school. I went to the same school he did because I was following him now he is go...
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30 July 2015 (F)
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30-35 -
This is a question for any single mothers out there: does it ever get easier without your children's father? My problem isn't regarding financial support, but the emotional side of the situation. My son's father has been absent since his birth. For a while, he kept in touch but ...
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30 July 2015 (M)
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16-17 -
Hello, I'm 13 yrs old and I'm obsessed with a girl in my year but I'm too shy to talk to her and since its the holidays i don't have contact with her. I want to follow her on instagram but feel like everyone will find something fishy going on as i don't want anyone to know. ...
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30 July 2015 (M)
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26-29 -
I've been with this girl for 5 months -known her for 8-. I was dubious of having a real relationship with her at first because I didn't feel as much for her as I did for other girls I've been in love with, but things just happened and here I am. She knows my parents, I know ...
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29 July 2015 (F)
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26-29 -
My question: Should I be concerned about my boyfriend asking for space when everything has been going so well? Also, did I respond in a good way when he asked for space? Background information: I have been in a LDR for a few months with a man who lives about 5 hours away. We...
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29 July 2015 (F)
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Hi all. In a bit of a small situation that I'm tryin to get out of and I would appreciate a little help. I joined a dating site last week. I started chatting to this guy who is great. Exchanged numbers and been texting back and forth since. Thing is I gave him a wrong name. Not ...
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29 July 2015 (F)
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Omg there's this guy who I find very attractive. He lives two hours away from me and he's a cop at the weekend. we hit it rite off talking etc he asked would I go home with him and I said I'm not into one night stands. When he heard this he was a little surprised but a...
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29 July 2015 (F)
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22-25 -
I have a group of friends who I consider myself very close to, which consists of 2 boys, 2 girls (including me). Both boys are culprits of teasing, but one especially, let's call him Jason, tends to go way overboard. Every time I say something, it's like he wants to ...
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29 July 2015 (F)
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I hope all are enjoying summer and thank all who respond to my question. So some background.A couple of weeks ago I brought two friends and a woman I met recently to a girls night out.It was a good time and we decided to meet again last week. The new acquaintance had us ov...
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29 July 2015 (F)
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22-25 -
i'm 23 years old female, felt in love for 4 years with a cheating guy. many cupids here helped into knowing that i was in a kind of abusive relationship, and it took me a lot of courage to actually let go of my boyfriend. i had a male friend who told me he loved right afte...
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29 July 2015 (F)
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Okay.. so basically I am really awful at knowing when someone may fancy me and half the time if someone does like me.. I don't realize until they tell me years later, which is normally down to low self esteem, so I thought I would ask you guys for help on a particular guy I ...
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29 July 2015 (F)
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Dear cupid me and my boyfriend have been together for 6 years and his ex girlfriend won't leave him alone. She keeps pushing him about wanting to know if he is still in love with her. What can we do about her ...
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29 July 2015 (F)
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18-21 -
What do you guys think about sending fake messages under a pseudonym? I know you are going to think this trivial and trouble making - but I just need your answers:- I needed to get a message to this bloke on Facebook - he had blocked me (all because we had a bad fallout ov...
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29 July 2015 (F)
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Hi all. I've been single for the past 2 years because i have lost my boyfriend from suicide. Currently i'm studying on a distance learning program. As we mostly discuss our studies online and leaving our contact details for study group. So there was this guy who got my conta...
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29 July 2015 (F)
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I fell madly in love with this boy back when we were college seniors. We were really close and we spent a lot of time together. One night, I told him how I felt for him. I didn't really get a clear answer from him but I knew that he didn't love me back. We continued being ...
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29 July 2015 (M)
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A recurring situation is I'll go on a date with anothe gay guy. thing seem to go well. They'll send me a thankyou message after, and continue small talk here and there. I'm pretty direct and will try to lock off a second date, thats when they start to get flakey and non-comm...
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29 July 2015 (F)
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41-50 -
I have just found out my ex boyfriend has had an affair with my female friend. For months I suspected something was going on, and so me and my boyfriend split because of my lack of trust. My friend however, always denied it until recently - when I found out ( through anothe...
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29 July 2015 (M)
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So I am in a situation where my one and a half year old son, fiancee, and myself are living together with her mom and dad's house so we can save money. Of course it has turned into a complete disaster. My fiancee and I now argue over things like me trying to tell my son not ...
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29 July 2015 (F)
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30-35 -
There's a guy I've been into for a really long time. We always would flirt and it seems like there was something there between us. Well we complicated things by hooking up and had a baby. The damaging part is that when I found out I was pregnant I was dating my ex so he assu...
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29 July 2015 (F)
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30-35 -
Please help me!!! I caught my husband watching porn and masturbating in the middle of the night!! Early that night I wanted to have sex with my husband. I kissed and touched him, but he was too busy playing with his phone and completely ignored me. I fell asleep after tha...
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28 July 2015 (F)
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22-25 -
Okay so, i really need guys to answer this questiom, or girls due to their experience with dating. So, ive been talking to this guy for 2 weeks now, and I've met him at a party actually, and he said hi to me and tried to talk to me but he looked shy and nervous. A ...
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28 July 2015 (F)
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30-35 -
So a while ago i found out my husband was using the adult friend finder website. He addamantly denies meeting anyone he was just talking online... i am pregnant with our second child at the moment and since my mothers passing 2 years ago i have no family to turn to .... so ...
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28 July 2015 (F)
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30-35 -
Hi guys. Me and my boyfriend used to text everyday and it would be a mix of him texting first and then me. However lately the texting seems to have reduced. Should I be worried and what should I do? Any advice would be appreciated x...
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28 July 2015 (F)
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26-29 -
Dear cupid, This is more family relationship advice needed. Basically, I am really struggling to get along with my in-laws. Every single one of them are just horrible people. My husbands mother is not involved because she abandoned him when he was young, his dad is rude an...
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28 July 2015 (F)
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26-29 -
How do you stop making the same mistakes and actually be a better person? I can get so over emotional when I am angry and I literally can say the most hurtful things to the people that I care about the MOST. It's actually disgusting the things I can say and I know I deserve n...
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28 July 2015 (F)
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26-29 -
Five years ago I made a list of qualities I wanted in a man. To my surprise, he actually existed-right down to the blue-green eyes and hometown. This freaked me out a bit but hey, coincidences happen right? Anyway, I enjoy him a lot. We've been comfortable with each other from ...
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28 July 2015 (F)
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22-25 -
Okay so this is twisted and I'm stressing over it a lot. There's this guy who happens to be my aunt's husband's nephew. I met him a few months back and liked him. I hit him up and we started talking, but then I got caught and my mom and aunt were furious. (This stuff is frowned ...
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28 July 2015 (F)
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36-40 -
Hi, I'm just out of a 4 years relationship that really broke my heart. My boyfriend left me saying he was mixed up, and needed to do soul searching. It has been a week since we are separated and with no contact. I am just beginning of getting the bigger picture, so...
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28 July 2015 (F)
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22-25 -
I think I messed up with my crush. We've been in the same class for a few months and only recently he's started flirting...at least I think he's flirting...I have zero experience with that..but my bestie assures me he's flirting. Here's what he does -talks to me in class all ...
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