note to self ....(do not flirt with ladies you haven't met on LJ! Do not flirt with ladies you haven't met on lj.Do not flirt with ladies you haven't met on LJ! Do not flirt with ladies you haven't met on lj.do not flirt with ladies you haven't met on LJ! Do not flirt with ladies you haven't met on lj.Do not flirt with ladies you haven't met on LJ! Do not flirt with ladies you haven't met on lj.)