Gist of the email was she had a great time, she was rude to me (wtf?), but I was so kind to her. She will quit her job next month and maybe go travelling in August. If I want to have a serious relationship, then we shouldn't meet again. If she falls in love with me, it will be too hard for her to say goodbye. If I see her in the local pub we both like, please say hi.

A couple of hours later, I replied saying I didn't want a serious relationship (semi lie), and I just wanted to hang out with her in the summer.

She has already made up her mind it seems, so it can't hurt replying in that fashion, imo. #nothingtolose

Anyway, at least I got a reply and I didn't seem to do anything wrong. The issues seem to be at her end.

Thanks for all the feedback.

Sounds like a headcase. But if you do just want to have fun don't take her out anymore and just invite her to yours for dinner. A 'yes' basically means all parties know what is going down.

Right, basically, there's this girl I've known for five years or so. On January 8th 2004 she asked me how my Christmas was and we chatted for a bit about how drunk she got on New Years, and how much me and my parents enjoyed watching Jool's Holland's Hootenany the same night.

On August 17th 2006 I served her in my local shop and she told me to keep the 5p change from the Mars bar she bought. I've still got it and have managed to get it really clean.
On May 1st 2007 she added me on facebook, but didn't write anything on my wall even though I poked her 6 and a half times. I'm not sure if the last one went through cos I got nervous, so that's why it's a half.

And now the other day, she FINALLY wrote on my wall to wish me a happy birthday and gave me THREE kisses! What the hell does this mean? Is she in love with me? She's really good looking, and she's all I've thought about since November 9th 2003. But I've also got this other girl on the go at the moment. I've seen her four times on the bus already and reckon she'll be there tomorrow as well.

So yeah... should I go for it? I'm thinking a single rose and a mix CD of my favourite Rage Against The Machie songs left on her doorstep. Advice appreciated.

Was searching this thread for a best/funniest post (yes, it's been a lazy dog-dangling day so far), and decided that this has to be the winner. Some of the responses are priceless.

I'm assuming weed, acid, eccies, maybe mushies? That stuff is all 'fine' in moderation, for lack of a better word. Just be glad she hasn't got onto heroin or coke tho man, that **** can be brutal. Don't wanna be messin with that too often. Amphetamines tho, the one drug I would never touch in my life. I know people who've done it, apparantly it's an amazing buzz, but they wouldn't do it again and I see why.

MDMA is the main thing for eccies eh? (Google says yes. haha). Well I mean, I know plenty of people that've done that and they're still 'good' people, but again, it's just a case of in moderation, like anything, whether it be illegal drugs or booze or whatever. It's my belief that anything is okay in moderation.

in the future where we're all social justice-y Cribb can ride down the street to pick up some raw milk from Coles on a motorised esky while smoking meth, firing an RPG into the air, and carrying the case of British-import Stella he's polygamously (and privately) married alongside a genderfluid Zambian businessperson and a coke-snorting 18-year-old cyborg girl.

It would have been a brilliant response had his tongue been in his cheek at the time, but the fact that I don't suppose it was makes it somewhat disturbing on a number of levels, and may indeed explain Mr Dickinson's current absence