Why Life Sometimes Doesn't Turn Out The Way You Want It To...

It be so easy to take out what you want and leave all the troubles, challenges in that suit case.

Then look at those thoughts, programs in my mind and just leave them in that suit case and take the ones that will help us succeed.

Sometimes, an idea you thought would take one month becomes five. Even, when you outsource it. I had many of those days, weeks, months.

My friends say, "You're mad. It's just impossible Adam."

But the thing is, I don't know what that word means. I've never known what this words mean. I only heard that word when I came to England and suddenly, everything is impossible.

That, "you need money, you need this and you need that."

You know, for a world with buildings, business in front of us all, to dreams that have happened, technology, it is weird to hear people say, "it's impossible," and "what if.."

And how they don't see - people built these and there's people around is. That's the real power.

So what do you do?

I learnt in life that sometimes, not everything goes to plan. That not everyone will agree and see eye to eye.

Sometimes the friend is a jerk. Sometimes the promise of "for better and worse" doesn't turn out the way you think and it turns out as, "I'm outta here because I really didn't mean this kind of worse."

Sometimes the one who promised he'd have videos ready for you in a week, turns out five weeks and later - you find he hasn't done them. He/she didn't fulfill the promise.

And you wonder why they ever bother be in business if that's how they treat people and the honour of their word.

Then the business you started didn't start the way you want to and the team doesn't do what you expected them to do.

Well, I found out years ago, that being miserable, jumping up and down like a kid, crying over sweets no one will give us, doesn't really do much good.

There is one thing we can change..

That we got a choice.

The choice to be mad, angry and hate or forgive.

The choice to think about the problem and focus on the badness all the time or the solution.

The choice to blame the people who don't build or change me, and attract those who do.

The choice of not arguing with the landlord and just be successful and buy my own house.

The choice to get good at financial literacy and know, the banks, credit card companies are never going to tell me about special offers, or how to reduce rate. They want to make MORE money.

So we learn the secrets they try to hide from us customers and get the offers.

The choice of not complaining about neighbours and friends, and just move out and associate with people who don't say..

"It's impossible.."

The choice of optin in with a different email address or unsubscribe instead of complaining about spam, and emails we don't like.