2009-05-11

I remember one day a few years ago, I was at my mother-in-law's house. Sitting on her desk was a flyer for an upcoming training seminar she was required to attend. "Learn How to Communicate With Tact and Finesse". Interesting. My mother-in-law is a pretty darn good communicator and I'm confident she didn't need this class, but one of the things most employees can expect over the course of a job is required training.

Generally speaking, employers don't want their employees to stay at the same level of competence and skill forever. They expect to see growth!

Here's my question for you today: Are you growing in skill and competence as a homemaker?

Girls, we are definitely all at different places as homemakers. Different seasons of life, different circumstances, different levels of skill. But one thing is the same for all of us. There is always room for growth! That growth will look different for the baby stepping beginner than for the seasoned homemaker. But there is always, always somewhere to go with this job! (I figure this will either excite you or intimidate you. Let it excite you!)

Here are five ways you can become a better home manager no matter what stage or season you're in:

1. Know God's Word better.The riches of His Word--you can delve into them till you're 93 and still have more to learn! He will always teach us more. More about Himself. More about ourselves. More about our world. More about His kingdom. As we grow in knowledge of God's Word, we'll become more like Him. As a result, our homes will reflect His character and glory more and more.

3. Boost your weak areas.I don't know about you, but it's a lot easier for me to think of my weaknesses than my strengths. Let's see. Inconsistency. Lack of discipline. Pride. Believe me--there is plenty of material to work on in my life. With God's help, I've been trying to focus on small areas of change in positive ways. In the past, I would decide (in my own strength) to just change completely all at once. You can probably guess how well that went. Yeah. So, spend some time asking God what He wants to focus on and where He wants you to start.

And may I remind you--weakness can be a very good thing. (I don't mean sinful rebellion can be a good thing, by the way.) But acknowledging our weaknesses sends us to the feet of our Savior. It forces us to rely on Him--and that's they way it should be.

4. Branch into a new area.Is there a new skill you'd like to learn? Would you like to learn how to sew, cook, upholster, paint, write, organize, plan, garden, use medicinal herbs, decorate... There is no end to the things a homemaker can learn about! If you're anything like me, this may be an area in which you need to exercise caution. It's easy for an information gatherer like myself to spend an inordinate amount of time flitting from one new idea to the next. But if it's controlled and well-managed, learning a new skill can be fun and functional!

5. Get training from good sources.In my Embrace the Process post, I mentioned some good sources for training. The best place to find good training is from a woman who's gone before you.This is the way God designed training to work! On the whole, we women aren't doing a very good job of teaching the next generation and it can be hard to find a mentor. Ask God to provide you with a woman who can give you instruction, insight and encouragement. He knows what you need and will provide it.

There are also plenty of excellent books for learning more about homemaking as well as some top notch blogs on the subject. A word of caution again! (Coming from this total information junkie!) It's easy to waste time on books and definitely on the internet. Don't let these things steal you away from your responsibilities! (As I wag my finger at my very own self.)

I'd love to hear from you! In what ways are you improving and expanding your skills?

"Ask God to provide you with a woman who can give you instruction." When I read this statement it reminded me of what recently happened in my life.

Through reading blogs, I have seen several ladies posting pictures of incredible amounts of money they've saved using coupons. Although I used coupons here and there, I did not know how to get these kinds of deals.

I decided I desperately wanted to learn how so I could be an even better money manager for my family and more frugal. The problem: I didn't know how to learn or who could teach me. God knew this also.

Exactly two days later my neighbor came over to let me know she had just got certified as an educator for BeCentsAble and was going to be teaching people how to use coupons effectively.

Here's the best part - she wanted to practice her teaching skills on me. God sent the answer I needed right to my front door. I didn't know she knew how to use coupons, and she didn't know I wanted to learn. But God knew!!

I have already bought $176 worth of groceries for $57. Amazing! Thank you Lord for sending someone!