Fifty Shades of Grey has shown a glimpse of some components of BDSM but did you know that there are a lot of things in Fifty Shades of Grey that hasn’t been tackled yet (and so many things they got wrong)? So here I am, I am going to discuss some of the basic facts about BDSM. BDSM is not always about sex. Wait, what? But BDSM looks like it’s mostly about sex based on what has been shown in Fifty Shades of Grey. BDSM is not always about sex. In fact more often than not, especially in the professional world, sex doesn’t play much of a factor at all. Now, I want to add a side bar to this in that I am using the term sex to men penetrative or mutually stimulated release. This is not how I define “sex” but it is the label we have to...Read More