SRS In love with my best friend.

So. I've known this girl for almost 4 years now and shes one of the best friends. Last weekend we had this amazing talk about life and everything. Whenever we hang out I can tell her anything. The problem is she has a boyfriend and she tell me that they are really getting serious and considering marrige. I really dont know what to do because I have really strong feelings for her. Any help?

Try your hardest not to fall for her man. I did the samething and fell for my best friend badly. It's all an up and down rollercoaster of emotion, seeing her going through a break up, wanting her to fall for you, shit like that. You'll meet new girls and have new and better times.

Don't fall into the trap cuz it never seems to work out (expecially when they already have a serious boyfriend)

Like stated above, great friends are hard to find - no point in throwing it away. Trust fate for a bit, if it happens - it happens. If she can't realize how great you are then she ain't the girl for you and isn't worth the emotions (speaking from experience )

As everyone else said, don't do it. I was just thinking about when this happened to me a while ago and how it failed horribly right before I saw this thread. I feel its my duty to tell you to abort now

As everyone else said, don't do it. I was just thinking about when this happened to me a while ago and how it failed horribly right before I saw this thread. I feel its my duty to tell you to abort now

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you cant win right now. If you want any chance at all you must wait till her and her BF break up(if ever). Dont go throwing yourself out there now.

*shrug* i fell for my best friend, got over her painfully on my own (she moved away for 6 months), and then told her i used to be crazy about her...and we talked about it...and now we're just much closer friends. she is very happy with her life and i wouldn't have it any other way. i love being her friend, even if i do have feelings for her in the back of my head, because her happiness is more important than my selfish desire to be more than a friend by far.

i went through the same thing with my best female friend but then found an amazing girl (we broke up though cause i moved away and long distance just doesn't work ). ever since then I have really only thought of the original girl as a really good friend, i view her more like a little sister now than anything