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The Iron Is Hot

Lately, whenever the topic of race and racism comes up, someone from the Ayn Rand, personal responsibility set pipes up, “Yes, but things are better now for the Black man than they have ever been. Everyone has the same opportunity, and we can all make of our lives what we want, if only we stop blaming each other and work hard.”

I have already taken on this myth once and won’t go into much detail about it. Suffice it to say that your parents’ lifetime wealth strongly predicts your lifetime wealth, and their education status predicts yours. Hard work cannot get you out of the ‘hood or the ghetto. Moreover, if there are opportunities, they tend to be invisible, undreamed of by people who struggle from day to day to meet their basic needs. Your dreams might be of an athletic scholarship—because school is for white kids, and the school you go to reinforces that point every day. Poor schools with poor teachers, graduation rates in the toilet, and battlefield mentalities produce students whose best option is to drop out, or learn to play basketball, or mix music. And for every kid who makes it out into the NBA, ten thousand are never drafted. For every kid with a recording contract, ten thousand live in obscurity.

Social mobility has not been lower in our country in many decades. The wealth level into which you are born is the one, in most cases, in which you will die. Out of 12 countries measured, the United States is tenth, even according to Forbes magazine. This article, though, fails to mention how many countries were measured, and how few fell behind us in social mobility—Forbes is a well-known bastion of bootstrap-mentality people.

Poverty is endemic to many Black communities in the United States. And if you are born poor, it is almost guaranteed you are going to stay that way. There are no bootstraps to pull yourself up by. You can’t borrow $20,000 from your parents and open a business, and even if you could, nobody in your neighborhood can afford to buy anything from you, and most small businesses fail in any case.

Personal responsibility has another problem. The fundamental attribution error is our tendency to judge others’ actions as based on their traits but our own as circumstantial (this latter half being called self-serving bias). So, you fail a test, and I think you are stupid, lazy, or didn’t study. I fail a test, and I think the test was too hard or I didn’t have coffee this morning.

The statistics for over-representation of Blacks and others of color in our prison system tell a grave story, and I interpreted this before, too. The thing is, we can look at all these Black men in prison and blame them—and people do! They say, I grew up poor and I’m not in jail. I have had some very heated discussions about this in classes. People really want to believe race and poverty are not factors, which would mean all these young Black men are really criminals, that something about Black itself leads to criminal behavior. This means we can blame Black people, feel justified in fearing them, and not notice the inherently racist messages we are sending on the subject day by day.

But remember, this is an inherent bias in how we judge people. The system is rigged against Black men. First, we systematically deny them the American Dream. We value only their entertainment and sports contributions, and don’t take them seriously as statesmen, businessmen, leaders, or even presidents. We never asked any other president for their birth certificate, ever.

Next, we create and enforce poverty in their neighborhoods. NIMBY projects get voted out of White neighborhoods and into Black ones, jobs move away, and take all the White folk with them, whole industries collapse, and Black men are not invited into their replacements. Goodbye, Detroit. Third, we stop and frisk, arrest, try, convict, and incarcerate Black men at higher levels than others for the same crimes. Even supposing Black men commit these crimes at these higher levels, we cannot account for the number of Black men in prison because so much of the bias goes on following arrest.

Finally, we rob Black communities of their political power—by imprisoning their voting-age men, denying them voting rights following their release, targeting impoverished voters with new voter ID laws and other impediments (such as changing times and voting locations on short notice), and redistrict White voices in to Black neighborhoods to finally cement the fact that Black men will not have representation in our government in significant numbers. We have had eight African-American senators. Ever. It isn’t too easy to find out how many Congressmen are Black, but the number seems to be around 42—out of 435. That’s less than 10% with Black people accounting for some 14% of the population.

If you are Black, you are more likely to be poor, and more likely, very poor. You are more likely to have a prison record, to have been out of the workforce for longer, to be unemployed. You are less likely to qualify for student loans or to be able to repay them later, less likely to be qualified for college based on your high school performance, less likely to be accepted for college, less likely to complete college once you enroll. You are more likely to be shot reaching for your wallet than a White person reaching for a gun. You are more likely to be arrested at gunpoint. You are more likely to experience death by homicide than any other cause, and more likely to be shot by a Black person than anyone else. You are just as likely as any other American to view Black people in a negative light compared to people with lighter skin. You are less likely to vote overall and more likely to vote Democrat.

Black male unemployment is nearly twice White male unemployment. Networking only substantially helps White people: unadvertised positions tend to go to friends of people with the jobs you want, White people who tend to have White friends.

Overt racism may have gone away (and I’m going to be careful with this assertion), but the numbers do not lie. Racism is alive and well, at least covertly. From unemployment to environmental injustice, our country discriminates every day.

Saying things like opportunity is everywhere, we all have the same two hours in our day, and I grew up poor and didn’t go to jail, these things are all racist comments. Ignorant, unintentionally racist comments, but racist comments. They are racist because we have not taken the time to understand the person in front of us, have judged them without fully knowing them or their situation.

Mortality

Death is the great certainty of life -- and a subject we almost never talk about. How we live in its shadow, and the choices we make about the best way to live a life where time is the only non-renewable resource, is a key element of existential thought.