Sometimes, all it takes is a seed, a small thought, implanted in someone’s mind, that creates a blossoming, negative thought. I’ll admit, it’s happen to me before. And according to Real Housewives of Kandi Burruss, that’s exactly what happened to her mother. One teeny, tiny, comment made about her fiance (Todd Tucker), has Mama Joyce up in arms about their relationship. In an interview with ABC News Radio, Kandi shares that the reason her mother doesn’t like her fiance, is because of comments made by talk show host, Wendy Williams.

On why Mama Joyce Hates Todd:

I can tell you when it started. Last year when Wendy Williams was commenting on our show every week and she was like, ‘[Todd’s] an opportunist. I think he’s an opportunist.’ Next thing I know, my momma comes back and is like, ‘Wendy said that he was an opportunist.’

On how Mama Joyce has halted wedding planning:

I haven’t decided yet if I want something that’s small and just us or if we wanted to do something bigger and invite people. What was stopping me from even planning is the fact that my mom is not being supportive. It’s like, okay do I really want to have a wedding and my mom may not show up or if she does show up she’s going to be mean and negative? You know, you don’t want the bad energy either.

On why she still loves Todd despite the family rift:

I just love everything about him…He’s very smart. He’s very intelligent. He’s a leader. He’s not the type that’s going to try and tell me what to do, but he’s great at helping guide me in a way. And I think that I need a man that’s just as strong so he can deal with me because…I can be a little strong.

Check out a teaser of the new season, where Mama Joyce let’s loose on Mr. Tucker.

Every since I first seen Kandi on the HWOA I thought she was a bad judge of character.She just seems to give the wrong people the benefit of the doubt.And I don’t even know her personally.Her mother has known her all her life.Maybe her mother has reasons to question her choices in men.Kandi I don’t think you can blame this one on Wendy.I think Kandi picks guys that seem to be not on her level financially.I know your not suppose to chose someone because of their finances,but she has to be careful.She has to much to lose.And their are people out there looking to take advantage of you.But, when it’s all said and done,Kandi is a grown woman and her mother is going to have to step back and let her daughter make her own decisions.Just be there if she needs you.

DIVA

Agree

Maxine

Kandi you are a beautiful woman and I wish the best for you and Todd. Mama Joyce needs to step back and let you make your own decisions. You are in love and wants to get married. I do not believe Todd is an opportunist and I also do not believe he is cheating with your best friend. Just have faith and trust in the lord and everything will work out.