Are you one of those whose friends regularly have to have the “he/she does not deserve you” talk ? Be it about you beloved, your boss, a parent or a child.

But this does not ring the least true once their worried and insistant voice has wanished from your mind : a few minute, the next morning maybe, three days top ! Why ??

Does anyone ever told you that there is a reason why you can’t depart, that you might be depending on him/her to experience qualities that you deny to yourself ?

Try reflecting back to you the most familiar of their qualities and climb up the ladder to the those that you believe you could never have. Bam, here is a quality that you have denied yourself that comes back to you.