Well, it's her clitoris at the end of the day, and chastity is my kink, not hers.

My hope is that she'll wait until I'm around to help because as my orgasms have become rare events (1 in August, two on consecutive days in October and one perhaps happening after Xmas) I take ever-greater pleasure in hers. But she's in charge, which is also a turn-on.

On this topic, My KH did something absolutely amazing the other day. It was probably one of the sexiest things she has done since we started chastity.

It was supposed to be just a regular teasing session for me, but it turned out being so much more. We laid on the bed and she took me out of my cage. I laid on my back, and she laid on her side, facing me so we were looking eye to eye. She started to tease me with her magic wand vibrating massager thing. If your Keyholders dont have one, i highly recommend getting them one.

As usual, she had edged me to withing seconds of coming before she took the wand away. I was looking into her eyes, begging her to allow me to come (which she really seems to enjoy). As i was begging her, i noticed that she started to moan and bite her lip. I didnt even notice it at first, but she had turned the magic wand on herself and gave herself an orgasm with it!

Not only was this super hot in and of itself, but it was the first time i have ever been there when she masturbated. She has told me before that she has masturbated, and she has had me use the wand on her, but she had never used it on herself while i watched. Just thought i would share.

braddogg4345 wrote:... My KH did ... one of the sexiest things she has done since we started chastity.

... we were looking eye to eye. She started to tease me with her magic wand ...

... she ... edged me to withing seconds of coming .... I was looking into her eyes, begging her to allow me to come .... As i was begging her, ...she started to moan and bite her lip ... she had turned the magic wand on herself and gave herself an orgasm with it! ...

My wife uses her vibrator by herself 2 - 3 times by herself for each time she does it with me next to her. Sometimes its when Im at work and I get a fireworks emoji. Other times she,ll tell me to go shower as she oulls it out.

i,d rather she let me stay, but it is an incredible turn on knowing what she,s doing.

Been married 20+ years and I remember a few times when we were new together she would play with herself while in the hot tub using one of the jets. She'd usually be holding on and stroking my cock while she did.....and of course it really turned me on watching. There was a few times where she didn't finish me off after her fireworks, more as a got lost in the jumble and didn't realize as opposed to doing it on purpose. Of course that left me wild with desire until I could take care of it myself, or we got a chance to do it. Young and pre-kids with more free time on our hands so it rarely went more than a day or two. Edit, this was also years before I/we discovered T&D as a fun play activity to be done on purpose .

Flash forward some years and I got a Magic Wand for an injury I gave myself on my shin. Of course I also had plans to show my wife it could be a fun toy for her too.....and while embarrassed and reluctant at first, she has come to embrace it. Still blushes a lot when I suspect she's used it and ask (if she has). Of course it just turns me on.....and while I've told her that it's still embarrassing for her.

All that to say that it turns me on. Probably shouldn't admit this, but also get worked up with thoughts of cuckolding or hotwife.

GoodOlBoy wrote:All that to say that it turns me on. Probably shouldn't admit this, but also get worked up with thoughts of cuckolding or hotwife.

Why not? Makes my pecker stiff too, Mrs. Twisted goes there in her dreams and has teased me about it, and she knows it. She really likes the idea of making me watch her getting one or more good stiff ones while *my* cock is locked in the cage, making me 'help' and sitting on my face after...LOL, and that one fellow was worried that his thoughts were too 'far out' for us here...

There are at least two members here who have gone down the hotwife/cuckold path.

TwistedMister wrote:There are at least two members here who have gone down the hotwife/cuckold path.

*Raises hand*

I would be one of those members. Happy to entertain any questions about such experiences. Bottom line is that we were surprised how much it boosted her self esteem, except when she got flaked on. For me, the reality was more intense than the fantasy and I never had any feelings of jealousy (although, sometimes some "angst" more about whether she was safe). She always played without me, so fits the title of this thread =S

sirmebane wrote:My own wife's drive isn't frequent so when she wants sex, I'm excited and one of the things that happened in chastity that never happened before was she used a vibrator on herself and left me locked. I did get a little attention but it was all about her that night and I was so amazed that she was willing to make that step all I could feel was...

aroused.

I just got this last night- after we got into bed, Mrs. Twisted mentioned that tomorrow (today, now) we were going to go for a repeat of last Sunday, staying in bed late and drinking champagne and OJ (a New Year's Day tradition that we missed this year)and getting frisky...except that I was going to stay locked and would be eating at the Y, because she felt that she didn't get enough of that 'attention' last week.

Well, within a minute or so of her saying that, she remarked that she was getting turned on, and shortly after that she started frigging herself beside me...but that didn't go on for long- after less than a minute she asked where her 'little' vibrator was (a kind of expensive Lelo that I got her a few years ago and that she had only used once or twice), and if it was clean and charged (yes and yes).

The Lelo was in the top drawer of the dresser in easy reach of the bed, and plugged in, so I got it for her. She started going to town with that, and then suddenly her tits were out and she demanded that I start sucking. After a bit she asked me if I was as hard as I could get in the cage and, of course, I was. Then she asked me if I wanted to fuck her- of course I did, she said "Tell me" and I did. "Well, too bad, you can't." She went for a while until I hit on the combination of licking, sucking and flicking that helped push her over the edge, jerking and gasping for breath.

This is a sudden and notable change for her, like a switch has been flipped, and it got me so hard that the CB3k was getting *very* uncomfortable. When she was finished she handed me back the Lelo and told me that I needed to clean it for her. I re-lit my cigarette that had gone out after I put it down to suck on her tits, and she remarked that this was 'inconvenient' for her because now she wanted me to 'spoon' her, after a couple of quick drags she got what she wanted.

Fuck! It's incredibly 'hot' to see this change in her, wanting to 'use' me and seeming to really *enjoy* doing so while my cock is locked in the cage. Who is this woman, and what did she do with my wife? It's almost like someone has been 'coaching' her, but she has never liked to go out on the 'net looking for porn or sex info, so I don't think that has happened...but, whatever it is, it *really* turns me on to see her so eager and *wanting* to do this, apparently all on her own and with no input or suggestion from me...and apparently really enjoying the power to torture my cock by keeping it caged and horny. To see her wanting to do it and enjoying doing it, for herself, was something that I had wished for...is it a wish come true? How long will it last? Has she decided that she wants to take as much advantage as possible, take it as far as possible? I don't know, but it sure has got me horny as hell...