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Topic: Please help my christians friends :) (Read 2319 times)

How do my help my friends x?Basically i had a part in setting my good friend up with this guy from church. He is the sweetest guy and even opens the car door for this gal.This gal after seven months broke up with and her x is now calling me and my partner saying he is devasted and loves her and he is crying every single day.The thing is when i asked her why she broke up their isnt a real reason-he treats her like a queen and she even said she is so so happy with him.He always saids he wants 2 marry her and now when i asked her why she broke up with him she went all quiet. This girl isnt use to having someone maybe in her life-she sometimes feel unworhty of love and this guy shows it 24/7.It is a shock to our group of friends and she always said she would never hurt this guy but out of nowhere she broke up Dont understand it.How can someone say to a guy they love them one week at a restuarant and than one week later break up/This gal has abit of a low self esteem...I said if u had issues their are other ways of sorting out problems but she cant really give him an answer-she just sent me a message saying they are jst friends and its her own life and she wants to live it the way she wants to live itI am hurt by my friend because she even once was scared that he would hurt her and started crying but in the end she hurt him?She shows no emotion....now.Is she confused-or cant u not accept love?Why would someone break up from someone that has nothing but right by them?She even said he did nothing wrong.

"For, by its immensity, the divine substance surpasses every form that our intellect reaches. Thus we are unable to apprehend it by knowing what it is. Yet we are able to have some knowledge of it by knowing what it is not." - St. Thomas Aquinas, Summa contra gentiles, I, 14.

Maybe this gal is scared of committing or not quite ready for that? Some people react by just bailing out of the situation. There is a chance that maybe she doesn't feel the same as he (the ex) does for her. Nevertheless, you should do what you can to comfort your friend. He has to see that it isn't the end of the world, it really isn't. It's easier said than done when we fall head over heels for someone. Times like these are the ones that really put our faith to the test.

It seems like it is now in God's hands, but he can use you to console him. Pary for him

Most Holy Mother of God, pray for us.

Lord, have mercy.

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