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5 ways to make casual sex work for you

BE IN CONTROLDon’t get into situations that are unsafe and from where you cannot walk away. You should be clear that the guy you are with understands consent and will stop if you say so. Worrying about getting coerced into something you are not ready for does not make for a great casual sexual encounter. Also, don’t indulge in drunken sex, wherein you aren’t aware of your surroundings or what is happening to you.

USE PRECAUTIONSCasual sex is all about no-strings-attached sex, so the last thing you want to do is be tied down with is an unwanted pregnancy or a dangerous STD. If the guy shows the slightest hesitation about using a condom, walk away.

DO NOT FALL IN LOVEThe stupidest thing to do after a one-night-stand is to fall in love with the guy you were with. The deal was unambiguous—no commitments and no real emotions—so don’t renege on your deal by showering him with unwanted affection the next day.

DON’T DO IT WITH A FRIENDStop yourself from making that booty call to your good guy friend. Even if he is willing, having sex with him even once will make your friendship super-awkward. Besides, it’ll be easier for you to be uninhibited and have more fun with a guy you are not likely to see again or often.

SET YOUR STANDARDS HIGHThere is no need to be kind to a guy who does not turn you on! You aren’t marrying him, so go for the sexy guy who does set your pulse racing.