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You’re invited to a birthday party and show up with a gift, but then you’re expected to pay for your own food! Has this ever happened to you?

One woman is so fed up that she’s started a social media protest about this very issue!

“Guests don’t want to feel as if they are being charged to attend an event they have been invited to. The protocol, when inviting someone to a function, is the host generally invites, covers the cost of the meal and also the gratuity. Whether it’s a small dinner party, an evening meal or a large event, it is most polite for the host to cover the cost unless it has been discussed in advance.”

Gottsman adds that at a friend’s birthday party, it’s a custom for the friends to pick up the cost of the birthday person’s meal. But if the birthday girl or guy throws the party, they’re the host and should cover the costs. The attendees would bring a gift.

“Unless the guests have prior knowledge, there should be no surprises. As for the guest, if they are uncomfortable attending for whatever reason, they should politely decline. No in-depth explanation is necessary,” Gottsman said.

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