Can you believe I was to take him to graduation rehearsals and since he didn't wash his clothes he argued with me because I told him to wear dirty ones for all I cared, and he went back to bed and ignored me, AFTER I lost 3 hours at work to take him?

I wish I could still ground him,with him being 18, do you think grounding would work?
Know how bad I wanted to whoop his butt??
I told him that he could shove his attitude up his butt and I left him there and came to work, do you think that was bad?
As for the pay, he got over time this week, think I should deduct my time?