Former Friend posted a diatribe to this group yesterday, which my boyfriend screencapped and sent to me. He is so far beyond logic that not even a devil's advocate would be able to justify his thought process. I hesitate to post any of it because I don't want it indexed by search engines. It's about me, but doesn't call me by name, instead referring to a "Bad Actor," who he calls a sadistic misanthrope. He goes on to say that he tried to save his good friend from the Bad Actor, but was too late, for the Bad Actor already has him in her crosshairs. The whole thing is 11 paragraphs long.

He has not mentioned my boyfriend by name. It's ridiculous. He accuses the "Bad Actor" of being passive-aggressive, yet goes on to post a diatribe about specific people and specific situations that he won't name. It is still not clear where I wronged him, but apparently he now sees through the "Bad Actor's" facade.

I am positive it is about me. The details (or, at least, his interpretation of the details) match up too closely.

So, this guy was a friend of yours for a decade (as per OP), and didn't realize you were Evil Incarnate until you - oh, the horror! - started dating a friend of his?

Seriously weird.

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My cousin's memoir of love and loneliness while raising a child with multiple disabilities will be out on Amazon soon! Know the Night, by Maria Mutch, has been called "full of hope, light, and companionship for surviving the small hours of the night."

What will probably be the most annoying response to this is... Nothing. He may be expecting bf to suddenly see the light. If bf instead just blocks him and ends communication, that will rob him of the chance to have the last word.

He has not mentioned my boyfriend by name. It's ridiculous. He accuses the "Bad Actor" of being passive-aggressive, yet goes on to post a diatribe about specific people and specific situations that he won't name. It is still not clear where I wronged him, but apparently he now sees through the "Bad Actor's" facade.

I am positive it is about me. The details (or, at least, his interpretation of the details) match up too closely.

Its really time for you BF to say something out loud. This sucks.

BTW, I find it interesting that he is finding the most passive-agressive way imaginable to accuse someone-else of being passive-agressive.