I'm new to calguns and new to gun-guns too, and I completely understand the fear element. I can't recommend any classes or specific models, so I'll simply tell you what has been told to me: shoot a lot of different guns until you find one (or more) that "fits" -and then practice and enjoy. Target shooting really is fun, and I think it's great that you're willing to dive in and share this sport with your husband. From one newbie to another, Welcome!