The actress drove from Los Angeles to Santa Barbara to see Asher perform at a concert at the University of California, Santa Barbara, on Saturday, May 16. But the “I Love College” rapper just wasn’t that into her, according to the New York Daily News.

“Lindsay was bugging both Asher and his management team to get onstage during ‘She Don’t Wanna Man,’ but Asher was so annoyed by her requests that he actually skipped performing the single,” says an insider.

Lindsay tweeted about the incident, but later removed the post. “Wow,” she remarked. “Asher was cocky to all my friends and not that nice.”