So, I was just thinking about how petty people can be and I got curious and want to ask you guys something. If your friend hangs out with someone you dislike will you not talk to your "friend" until he/she stops talking to that person, will you never hang out with your friend if that person is there? Or will you still be cool with your friend?

So, I was just thinking about how petty people can be and I got curious and want to ask you guys something. If your friend hangs out with someone you dislike will you not talk to your "friend" until he/she stops talking to that person, will you never hang out with your friend if that person is there? Or will you still be cool with your friend?

So, I was just thinking about how petty people can be and I got curious and want to ask you guys something. If your friend hangs out with someone you dislike will you not talk to your "friend" until he/she stops talking to that person, will you never hang out with your friend if that person is there? Or will you still be cool with your friend?

So, I was just thinking about how petty people can be and I got curious and want to ask you guys something. If your friend hangs out with someone you dislike will you not talk to your "friend" until he/she stops talking to that person, will you never hang out with your friend if that person is there? Or will you still be cool with your friend?

Honestly, I don't care who my friends hang out with as long as I am not overly neglected myself. It is their lives after all and I have no say in who they can and can not be friends with. I might give them warnings about said person if I know they could drag them into something shady or lead to my friends feelings being hurt..., but ultimitly it is my friends life, up to them what they do with it.

I'm extremely content if I only hear from a friend once a week. I've had a few friends I might only hear from once a month and other people still I consider good friends who I have not talked to in over a year but know soon as they come back things will feel like they never left. Though..., it took a while for me to get to this point, lots of insecurities and stuff to go through.

So, I was just thinking about how petty people can be and I got curious and want to ask you guys something. If your friend hangs out with someone you dislike will you not talk to your "friend" until he/she stops talking to that person, will you never hang out with your friend if that person is there? Or will you still be cool with your friend?

Honestly, I don't care who my friends hang out with as long as I am not overly neglected myself. It is their lives after all and I have no say in who they can and can not be friends with. I might give them warnings about said person if I know they could drag them into something shady or lead to my friends feelings being hurt..., but ultimitly it is my friends life, up to them what they do with it.

I'm extremely content if I only hear from a friend once a week. I've had a few friends I might only hear from once a month and other people still I consider good friends who I have not talked to in over a year but know soon as they come back things will feel like they never left. Though..., it took a while for me to get to this point, lots of insecurities and stuff to go through.

I'm the same way, I don't have any control over the life of a friend, nor do I want to control their lives. I too will warn them about the person I dislike if that person has done some pretty shady or traitorous shit, I've actually dealt with a situation like that late last year/early this year. Again, I agree with you on every point.

I'm content as long as I know we're truly friends, there's been times where someone and I haven't interacted in years, but when we did it didn't take long to feel like that gap of time didn't exist at all, it's good to have friends like that. Though my main group of friends and I usually talk a couple times a week.

If the relationship between myself and the person I dislike is particularly volatile, I would avoid "hanging out" while said person is in the vicinity. This is to help curb senseless drama that would catch the mutual friend in the middle, not as an expression of pettiness.

I would just avoid them when they are hanging out with someone that I dislike. I don't see it as petty, more like keeping the peace. I wouldn't totally give up the friend though unless they are hanging out with someone who killed my dog or something.