Should I ask for a second date at the end of the first?

I asked a girl out for coffee and she said yes! This'll be my first date ever - I've taken girls to coffee or lunch before but in every other case it was clear beforehand that it was only as friends. This time, there might be more!

So I was wondering, ladies, would you rather the guy asks you out to a second date at the end of the first date or calls in the next day or two instead? All, of course, assuming that the irst date goes well.

This particular girl is a co-worker of mine at Chick-fil-A who I've known for a little under a year. We get along great at work, but I've never done anything with her outside of work.

I also was interested to ask whether it is appropriate to ask her for a hug at the end of the date? I mean, rather than just going for it without asking.

Thanks, everyone!

Updates:

I am also interested to know - I definitely think of this as a date but does she? Would you consider it a date if a guy asked you "would you like to get coffee with me Wednesday afternoon?"

What Girls Said 4

If you want to hug or kiss her, do not ask for permission first. Just wait for when the time is right and if things go well suggest that you two should do something together again another time. You don't want to wait a few days because then she might not think you were interested.

You could casually ask her if she'd like to do something again sometime and see what she says. You don't have to completely plan out a second date right then and there. That part can wait for a day or two.