The couple have had their ups and downs. Four months after they married in 2004, Brolin was arrested for spousal battery but charges were dropped after it was referred to as a “misunderstanding.” He was also arrested for a bar fight in Louisiana in 2008.

Brolin was recently arrested in Santa Monica on New Year’s Day for public intoxication and was released without charge. People reports that the actor was in Venice, Calif. the next day without his wedding ring.

An insider told Us Weekly, “It was a mutual decision. It is very amicable. It’s not ugly, it’s just over.”