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Have you ever injured yourself and thought or said those words to yourself immediately following? It’s no fun. Pain that has been inflicted on us, whether intentionally or not, leaves a mark.

Here’s what Merriam Webster says about it:

MARK

-an impression (as a scratch, scar, or stain) made on something : a distinguishing trait or quality

We all know what a scratch or scar is. We’ve had them. We have them now. Everyone has experienced something in their life that has left a scar. Whether emotional or physical. But Merriam calls them a “distinguishing trait” or “quality”.

They are unique to who we are. We are the only person who has the exact scar that we have. No one else has what we do and it’s part of what makes us who we are up to this point. Like it or not. Would you agree?

Scars appear after we’ve been wounded. Time has passed allowing us to heal all that we can.

The location of that injury will always look a little different. It may feel a little different. It may react to sunlight or other outside influences a little different. But nevertheless, you carry it with you. Though it may fade, it never goes away. You will never look the same in that place as you did before your injury.

Whether emotional scars, or physical scars…

“He heals the brokenhearted

and binds up their wounds.”

Psalm 147:3

He heals and He binds. He doesn’t heal and wave a magic wand to make the mark disappear. He holds it together. He holds you together, and me, right in that very spot.

Ponder these things about scars:

They indicate survival. Whatever it is that caused that wound, whether deep or shallow, you have survived the source of that wound.

They make your story unique. No one has the exact scar that you carry. Your experience was YOUR experience, not someone else’s to tell.

They spark conversation. When you recognize someone else who is carrying a similar wound, it’s oftentimes a safe place to share stories. To encourage. To laugh at the past. To cry together. To be thankful for survival.

Perhaps the most significant truth about our scars is this…

4. They are something we have in common with our perfect savior.

Jesus has scars.

Physical scars in his hands and feet that came with tremendous emotional and mental anguish. Your scars give you a connection to Him. A very personal connection.

And although Jesus suffered on the cross and bears the physical scars of His horrific earthly death, He suffered at other times too:

*He was distressed when He announced at the last supper that one of his disciples was going to betray him (John 13:21)

*Jesus’ soul is troubled when he predicts his own death (John 12:27)

*His soul was overwhelmed with sorrow in the Garden of Gethsemane (Matthew 26:38)

*Jesus was troubled and wept when Lazarus died (John 11:33-35)

These experiences brought pain and anguish to Him. They left a mark.

Take note that despite the fact that Jesus led a perfect, sinless life, He still endured troubling times. Although our scars are sometimes an indicator of consequences from our own decisions, they aren’t always. Sometimes, they are just souvenirs we’ve picked up from our life journey.

I can’t help but think that in searching for some purpose in our scars, we are brought closer to Him. They create common ground with Him. They help us identify with His humanity.

What are the scars that you carry?

*Hurtful words that left a mark when spoken to you earlier in your life…

*Relationships broken and crumbled that once held great strength…

*Decisions made in your past that had consequences leading you down an unwanted path…

*Ever been physically abused? Ever been the abusive one?

What is it that ripped through you at one point but has healed since? What is it that is now healing but still feels fresh when bumped or when you run your hand across it?

The markings on your life, those distinguishing traits, use them as conversation starters with Jesus. Use them to explore how Jesus may want to use your life to draw others closer to Him. Use them to foster a sense of thanksgiving every time they are bumped or exposed unexpectantly.

They make up the fabric of who you are and God loves you no matter how or when you acquired those scars.

All scars carry purpose…that is truth…ask the Lord what that may be when you talk to Him.