Every once in a while, you may look at someone else and think
“wow, they are messed up.”

Every once in a while, someone may look at you and think “Wow,
they are messed up."

Every once in a while, someone may look at that person and
think “Wow, they are messed up.

Possible? Agree?

Every single person can have someone else look at them and think
“Wow, they are messed up."

Do you think, if you followed this along for 10, 20, 100 or 1000
levels or more, you’d eventually get to someone who just has it all
figured out and they’re doing fantastic?

Following this path, do you think this is a progression UPWARD
in character?

Is this is character pyramid and there’s one person at the very
top who has it all figured out and is beyond the judgement of
others?

No. you’re right. The person we reach after
following this path for 1,000 occurrences probably has 10 people
who could look at certain areas of their life and think “Wow, they
are messed up."

In fact, here’s what we’d
find out.

Some of those people who are looking judgmentally at that
1,000th person were ones someone looked down at 300 people ago, or
250 people ago.

The truth is, it’s all a giant CIRCLE of
judgement.

After we’re gone through 1,000 iterations of judgement, we’re
guaranteed to have a good number of the people who were judged
earlier, back in the judgement game again.

It’s almost like a never ending game of leap frog. Once
someone jumps over you, it’s time to get back in line waiting for
your next turn to jump over someone else… and then have someone
jump over you.

It’s the Judgement Circle, inside of which we all get
trapped.

A perpetual game of
judgement.

There’s only one escape route… and that’s to refuse to get back
in line once someone has jumped over (or judged) you. Just
don’t get back in line waiting to jump over (or judge) someone
else.

When we jump out of the chain, we set ourselves apart from that
game.

BE CAREFUL! - This is a prime place to start judging in another
way. “Those fools and all their judgement games.” Ah
hah! See, there you area again, back in the game yourself.

We won’t completely eliminate the judgement others have on us,
but we will slow it down dramatically.

Continue on this path and I promise, you’ll see an EXPONENTIAL
DECREASE in the judgement you experience in your life.

By the very nature of things, you’ll find you change who you
spend time with in life and you will decrease the power of those
who are still in the chain.

Remember what I always say: Change the world around you by
changing the world within you.

It will be like avoid your greatest food temptation. Maybe
it’s a the perfect piece of chocolate or a beautiful basket of
fried onion rings (I’m more of a crunchy salty person when it comes
to temptation).

The less you taste of it, the less your craving for it becomes.
The more you see the benefits of avoiding it, the greater
your ability to resist it.

Call to
Action

Start this with baby steps, as I always say.

Today, when you are tempted to even THINK judgementally towards
someone, don’t do it.

Call yourself out and say, even out loud, if you can “I don’t
know that persons situation. I don’t know what brought them here. I
know they have strengths where I have weaknesses. I will allow them
to be them."

Something along those lines to remind yourself, you may be able
to jump over them (or judge them) in this area, but further down
the chain, in another area, they’re going to be able to jump over
you.

Just one time… and then remember it. Tomorrow try to do it
two times you’re tempted. Or even today.

Just work at it, consciously avoiding the opportunity to jump
into The Judgement Circle.

Oh, yes, you’re right… I mess this up more times than I care to
think. But, I consciously work to avoid the circle.
That’s what I’m hoping you’ll do as well.

We’re all in this together, all “failures” in some area of life,
working towards success in others. Continuously improving and
celebrating together.

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About the Podcast

This show will help you find abundant success in your personal as well as business life. You'll be lead towards greater achievement in your physical well-being, accomplishments in your business or career, and true joy in your relationships, by focusing on your attitude and mindset.
Your host, P. Desmond Adams will show you how to "change the world around you by changing the world within you." Desmond will teach you how to see all of life's experiences as beneficial to your whole being, discover how to be steady and consistent in your efforts so you can finally finish what you started, increase what you accomplish in life with the same amount of time and effort, and understand the greater purpose of your existence and how that will bring an unimagined peace within.
You'll benefit from over 30 years of study Desmond has done through the teachings of personal development and self-help teachers such as Tony Robbins, Napoleon Hill, Gregg Braden, Ralph Waldo Emerson, Dr. Wayne Dyer, Wallace Wattles, Jack Canfield, Ernest Holmes, Rhonda Byrne and the one who finally helped Desmond discover the secret to the Law of Attraction, Charles F. Haanel.