Aural Arousal: The Art of Phone Sex! Do You Have The Power Of…The Voice?

We’d all like to think that our game is tight when it comes to sex, but if you had to really think about it, are there any areas that could use improvement?

For example, my phone sex skills might be a little rusty. Okay, forget rusty…try non-existent. I’ve had men tell me that I have a nice, even sensual, voice, but I’m no Girl 6. I feel like the man has to really bring it out of me in order for me to go there. I usually feel silly if a sex call is initiated by someone else and if you catch me off guard, I might even start giggling. I’m just not an sensual chatterbox. I used to think phone sex was limited to those who were in long distance relationships or who were celibate and needed a release. But it shouldn’t be limited to those extreme circumstances; phone sex should be spontaneous and fun, not a daunting task or obligation.

If the thought of having phone sex has you a bit freaked out but you still want to give it a go, there are some things you can try to make it more enjoyable. Since I’m no expert, I decided to take some initiative and research ways I could improve my dirty talk skills if the occasion for me to use them ever…uh…”arises.” Here we go.