I have the following two cds, both have Win98 SE upgrade but none has this icsapi32.dll so I cannot install ICS ... I need to know "what is the exact wording on the CD" which has this icsapi32.dll ...

First CD : (as printed on the CD)Microsoft Windows98 Second Edition Updates - including system updates, Internet Connection Sharing, and more - Second CD :The box information indicated it is a Windows 98 Second Edition "updated and Improved" upgrade. It is a blue box. It says on the box : "Microsoft Windows 98 Upgrade for users of Windows 3.1x and Windows 95".

The first one appears to be the $9.95 (or whatever) update without ICS. The second might be the Windows 98 Upgrade, not the Windows 98 Second Edition upgrade. The Win 98 SE box clearly says Second Edition on a red background in the upper right-hand corner (see http://www.hitmall.com/home/hitmark/software/os/graphic/win98se_j.jpg, Iím not sure if that is the full or upgrade version). I donít know where on the CD ICS is located, but it could be in a .cab file, which is a compressed collection of files. Larry