I can see things changing about hiding if we all ultimately moved. Problem is, we have a business established, and 6 children betwen us to worry about uprooting. I just don't know when/if we could make such a big change.

That's what i meant; our situation doesn't have the same parameters as yours. "don't like the neighbors? Move!" is easier said than done, especially if you own a property and cannot financially afford another home unless you sell the one you are currently living in (MOST of the people i know don't have mountains of cash stacked up waiting to be spent on whatever seems like the next big idea). It is worth mentioning too - the OSO did not move because of their relationship. They leased and moved because they were tired of working 12 hours per day 7 days per week and breaking even.