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what would you do, how would you feel, what would you say ? ect ...

you knew a guy a very good guy , and he was dating not married but dating a girl who has one son already he'd been dating her for 4 years but found out after 2 years and having his son that she was a registered sex offender not only that but she had raped a young boy at hence the reason she's on the list.

would you try to get him to leave her ( knowing he's afraid she'll take the child and neglect him or sexually abuse him )

would you say nothing and let him just deal with everything ?

would you stand by and watch his heart break daily because he can't be with his child ( he's over seas)

would you help him in anyway you can even if your miles away from the girlfriend and him?

(PS. he's in love with another girl and not his girlfriend but that has nothing to do with this....... but the neglect accusation comes from her never taking the children to the doctors and she rarely sees them because they are almost always at your friend's aunt's house... hell one of the kids had to have his tonsils out and the mother never once called to check on him while he stayed at the aunt's house while he recovered)

Oh, my. I would just be a support for your friend, a shoulder to lean on, an ear to listen. You can't do anything unless you know specifically of her abusing, then you report it. Otherwise, I think your friend has to get up the courage to do what he needs to do. Good luck.