I never understood this either but it easier to convince a woman that doesn't have a stable father for her kids already that new daddy is going to be so much better but I don't see how any woman can rationalize that when the man already has kids that hes not taking care of.Don't let me get on these women that knew the man already had a trailer load of kids and felt the need to add on to the tribe. ]]>
Tue, 17 Jun 2014 16:08:09 +0000http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/fathers-who-support-gf-kids-not-their-own_topic371493_post10908918.html#10908918http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/fathers-who-support-gf-kids-not-their-own_topic371493_post10908641.html#10908641
Author: uppitynegroidSubject: 371493Posted: Jun 17 2014 at 1:26pm

callmeDEva wrote:

As fcuked up as it sounds, it may be easier for them to pick up somewhere else and start over. Plus they're probably bitter with the mother of the the child & taking it out on the kids. Or it's out of sight, out of mind.

No different than divorced fathers who re-marry and do more for their new children than for the old. My sons grandfather has a 100k+ job, but took his three boys he had with his ex wife to goodwill during Christmas although his three new children had gifts under the tree. True story. Some men are just pieces of sh*t like that.

From day 1 this fool always chose some girl's kids over his own. He has 3 with my friend, one with some sex buddy, and possibly another with the new girl (now wife..and he has known her for like 7 months). And the wife has some of her own. They call him daddy and she was praising him on facebook about how he's a good husband and father to her kids.

From day 1 this fool always chose some girl's kids over his own. He has 3 with my friend, one with some sex buddy, and possibly another with the new girl (now wife..and he has known her for like 7 months). And the wife has some of her own. They call him daddy and she was praising him on facebook about how he's a good husband and father to her kids.

He calls his kids maybe once a week or every 2 weeks.

She's just as sorry as him for thinking she has a good man.

Your friend get the side eye too tho.......3?

She already know..all of us keep telling her the same thing and she never listens..smh

or law students or public workers or anyone who knows the law period. my S/O has two sons beside my children. he owes a lot of back child support. not for lack of trying. but its a lot because his sons mother didnt file for child support. she stayed on Aid the entire 5 ys she could and when she got off the state went after him to pay that money back. we live in illinois. he owes a lot of money to the state of indiana. We wanna go on a bahamian cruise in november, but i read a lot online about passport revocation laws for people who are in debt of child support over 5,000. so is there any way around it? any loopholes? are we confined to vacays within the united states for years? even for our honeymoon? HELP!

Maybe off topic but everyone's definition of a good parent is dif. I've seen some folks praise their SO on social media meanwhile I'm looking like but didnt he leave you and you to starve they just doing it for the gram. ]]>
Mon, 16 Jun 2014 17:30:25 +0000http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/fathers-who-support-gf-kids-not-their-own_topic371493_post10907339.html#10907339http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/fathers-who-support-gf-kids-not-their-own_topic371493_post10907333.html#10907333
Author: ThoughtCoutureSubject: 371493Posted: Jun 16 2014 at 5:19pm

mizzsandra00 wrote:

Im not condoning the ones that say it.....at all....im just saying some niccas don't care.....I applaud the ones that stay in court deal with a bias system all to be in the kids life.....I know a guy that hasn't seen his baby in 8 months.....pays child support sends clothes and shoes and drive to a different state to see his kid.......baby momma had him drive from chicago to michigan just to have him turn around an hour away.......my sisters ex has been suing for custody of his son for 3 years.....and the kid had been with him the entire time.....he won and put his bm on child support......

ahhhh ok yes...i know there are some wretched baby mommas out there...but i'd still expect any man i'm laying with to be agonizing over it. you know?

i'm glad your ex brother in law won and put her azz (i'm assuming not your sister lol) on child support. good for him.

Yep.....I have seen some good men get jerked around and some aint shyt niccas get chased......and by the same woman.....its really sad......some women like to use these babies as pawns and you have two types of men......the ones that say fuqq it and the ones that fight for their kids.....

ok...but what are these good mens excuse when the child is roaming with a cell phone and/or the ability to speak for themselves? why aren't they reaching out and forging some sort of relationship with the child independently of the mother to find out what is going on with the child?

that's what i typically ask dead beats and they generally have no answer...i'm sorry but i can't say that i know any good men who genuinely want to contribute (financially and/or emotionally) to their childrens life and can't/don't despite baby mama drama set backs...

Im not condoning the ones that say it.....at all....im just saying some niccas don't care.....I applaud the ones that stay in court deal with a bias system all to be in the kids life.....I know a guy that hasn't seen his baby in 8 months.....pays child support sends clothes and shoes and drive to a different state to see his kid.......baby momma had him drive from chicago to michigan just to have him turn around an hour away.......my sisters ex has been suing for custody of his son for 3 years.....and the kid had been with him the entire time.....he won and put his bm on child support......

From day 1 this fool always chose some girl's kids over his own. He has 3 with my friend, one with some sex buddy, and possibly another with the new girl (now wife..and he has known her for like 7 months). And the wife has some of her own. They call him daddy and she was praising him on facebook about how he's a good husband and father to her kids.

Yep.....I have seen some good men get jerked around and some aint shyt niccas get chased......and by the same woman.....its really sad......some women like to use these babies as pawns and you have two types of men......the ones that say fuqq it and the ones that fight for their kids.....

ok...but what are these good mens excuse when the child is roaming around with a cell phone and/or the ability to speak for themselves? why aren't they reaching out and forging some sort of relationship with the child independently of the mother to find out what is going on with the child?

that's what i typically ask dead beats and they generally have no answer...i'm sorry but i can't say that i know any good men who genuinely want to contribute (financially and/or emotionally) to their childrens life and can't/don't despite baby mama drama set backs...

From day 1 this fool always chose some girl's kids over his own. He has 3 with my friend, one with some sex buddy, and possibly another with the new girl (now wife..and he has known her for like 7 months). And the wife has some of her own. They call him daddy and she was praising him on facebook about how he's a good husband and father to her kids.

or law students or public workers or anyone who knows the law period. my S/O has two sons beside my children. he owes a lot of back child support. not for lack of trying. but its a lot because his sons mother didnt file for child support. she stayed on Aid the entire 5 ys she could and when she got off the state went after him to pay that money back. we live in illinois. he owes a lot of money to the state of indiana. We wanna go on a bahamian cruise in november, but i read a lot online about passport revocation laws for people who are in debt of child support over 5,000. so is there any way around it? any loopholes? are we confined to vacays within the united states for years? even for our honeymoon? HELP!

From day 1 this fool always chose some girl's kids over his own. He has 3 with my friend, one with some sex buddy, and possibly another with the new girl (now wife..and he has known her for like 7 months). And the wife has some of her own. They call him daddy and she was praising him on facebook about how he's a good husband and father to her kids.

So call men like that are fools at any age . Better hope the adult children forgive in case something happens . My father never had children outside of marriage , but mom would have shot him . Kids tell he truth . Be careful .

I heard its illegal to sneak a woman day after pill in her drink. ]]>
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Author: mizzsandra00Subject: 371493Posted: Jun 16 2014 at 3:55pm

rell85 wrote:

It's about the woman not the kids.

Yep.....I have seen some good men get jerked around and some aint shyt niccas get chased......and by the same woman.....its really sad......some women like to use these babies as pawns and you have two types of men......the ones that say fuqq it and the ones that fight for their kids.....

A 31 year old man told me that men r animals. He said animals lay their seed and leave. Then I heard him say to his new baby mama number 7, that if she didnt want the baby, just leave it on his door step.

I said I can tell ur not a good father because u haven't seen happy feet. Male penguins care for the babies.