Ok i have missed any think
I have AUX showing in my MMI I have removed the ask and plugged the new cable in. I have changed the wiring on the plug to the correct pins. I have not sound out the aux. Also in the MMI I click on AUX and I still see my fm presets on middle screen. Could it be that my car is a 06 even thou it has a facelift the ask will not work. Any way to update the firmware on the ask?

I have checked realoem and the same part number is from 03/05 so it should work unless its software.