Anal Sex Techniques and
Positions

We describe the most
enjoyable anal sex techniques and
show you the best anal sex
positions.

This is the most comprehensive,
non-pornographic anal sex site on the internet. We have the advice and reliable
information you need to make exploring anal sex safe and fun, and we have great
quality pictures of a real life, attractive male and female couple, who both
enjoy anal sex as a regular part of their sex lives, showing you all the
variations of anal sex positions you can use.

And because this site is frank and
open, but non-pornographic, couples who wish to explore anal sex as part of
their sex lives can view the pictures together without fear of any offence. (We
believe that the usual depiction of anal sex is as an act of sexual aggression
against women.)

Our images all show anal sex as it
ought to be enjoyed - as a part of a healthy sexual diet between two members of
a loving couple.

The potential of the anus to arouse
men during sexual play was brought home to me quite recently when I was
receiving prostate massage, internally, in response to the suggestion that
prostate massage might help the symptoms of benign prostate hyperplasia or BPH.

The therapist who was administering
this treatment was male, and I was lying on my back naked on the table. Even
though he was massaging in very intimate areas, I experienced no sexual arousal
of any kind - at least, that is, until he started massaging my anus in
preparation for finger penetration.

At this point my penis immediately
began to grow erect, even though I was not feeling any emotional or
psychological arousal: the simple fact is, that even a pseudo-medical touch my
anus triggered an erection.

The fact that this can happen
strongly suggests that those who wish to achieve a higher level of sexual
pleasure, or investigate new ways of arousing their partners, be they men or
women, should explore the erotic possibilities of the anus, a sensitive and
erogenous area.

It also occurs to me that this might
represent a very good treatment for men with delayed ejaculation, who it may
help to get naturally to orgasm
faster because they are more aroused.

One of the big problems that such
men experience is that they are not actually aroused during sexual activity, or
lease not aroused enough to bring them to the point of orgasm and ejaculation.
You can find more information on
foreplay and sex here, in the unlikely event you don't know how to arouse
your partner.

It may be that by applying
stimulation to the anus in the form of gentle massage, and perhaps even moving
forward into anal penetration and prostate massage, their partners can offer
them an extra route to higher arousal that will allow them to ejaculate more
easily during intercourse.

If this were so, then one option for
the man who experiences delayed ejaculation might be to find a small
battery-operated vibrator on a cable, which he can insert into his anus, using
plenty of lubrication, before sex begins.

Vibration of the machine
against his prostate and through the anal region might provide a high
enough level of stimulation to allow him to become more erotically aroused, and
experience orgasm more easily.

Do men enjoy anal penetration?

And by that we do not mean, "do men enjoy
penetrating a woman anally?" We mean: do men enjoy the sensation of being
penetrated anally by a finger, a vibrator, or a sex toy? Get away for a moment,
if you will, from the association of anal penetration with homosexuality.

(A false connection in any case, since many gay
men never attempt anal penetration.) Think instead of the simple erotic pleasure
that a man or woman may feel when an area of the body richly endowed with nerve
endings and closely associated with sexual pleasure, receives stimulation from a
loved and loving partner.

And then think a step further - a step which
takes you inside the man's anus and into his rectum, where his highly sensitive
prostate gland lies within reach of his partner's finger......and with that
simple fact comes the possibility of a whole range of pleasure which a man may
receive from having his prostate gland stimulated in the right way. Is this anal
sex? Certainly! Is it homosexual? Indeed not!

Since we all have a right to take sexual pleasure
from our bodies, this seems to us to be a legitimate way of getting sexual
satisfaction. We'll come back to this idea later.....

For the moment, though, we have some essential
warnings to offer you about anal sex. Clearly, the anus is potentially a route
to infection, if shit happens to come into contact with the urethra or vagina -
and the first of those applies equally to men and women.

So if you use a finger, or a sex toy, or a penis,
to penetrate an anus, be it your own or someone else's, then you must avoid
using the same object to penetrate either your partner's anus or vagina.

You can use a small douche, easily available
on-line from sex stores, to wash out any small particles of shit which may be
residing in the rectum - or you can just ignore this and accept you may connect
with some shit, and wash it off later. Obviously, latex gloves are another
alterative.

The chief reason, in our view, to use a douche is
to avoid the rather unpleasant smell that comes from feces when it meets semen.

There is also the possibility that penetrating
your partner may trigger a reflex reaction that causes them to need to evacuate
their bowel: this is simply a matter of getting accustomed to having something
go up the rectum instead of down. Nature really designed the anus as a one way
street, but you can introduce two-way traffic if you do it slowly and gently.

A great way to get comfortable with the whole
idea of anal sex is to wash in the shower before you play - as you do so, run
your finger around the inside of your anus to make sure it's clean. After that,
be relaxed, and avoid any cross contamination or mouth or vaginal contact, and
you'll be fine.

So here, for the sake of our conscience and
completeness, is the standard warning you see about anal sex: don't put anything
in the vagina or the mouth that you have inserted into the anus, so that you can
avoid transferring any bacteria or hepatitis viruses. If you're a man and you
enjoy anal sex without a condom - and please do that only when you genuinely
know your partner's sexual history, and you know they have not got HIV or and
STD - then piss as soon as you can after sex to help avoid any urethral
infections.

An unexpected benefit of anal sex is that anal
stimulation can be so intense that it may add enough excitement to sex for a man
who has delayed ejaculation that he is actually able to reach orgasm and
ejaculate.

Although this is a rather new and different
approach to dealing with delayed ejaculation, I have heard from several men for
whom it has worked! If you want to try it, just get your partner to stimulate
you with a finger on or inside the anus as you get more aroused. Try and find
the type of stimulation which turns you on the most, so it will help you reach
orgasm and ejaculate - this might even include prostate massage.

Anal sex - the sexual positions best suited for anal
penetration

There's no big deal to anal penetration. Like
vaginal sex, you simply have to find the position that makes it all possible!
Some variation of the missionary or conventional man on top sex position may
well be the easiest position to start, although rear entry sex is another
possibility.

If you try rear entry sex, then you need to make
sure that you are at the right height to enter your partner's anus, and also
that you are positioned at the right angle for penetration.

However, we are moving ahead too fast. Very few
novices who are trying anal sex for the first time will be able to enjoy penile
penetration the first time they try it. You need to experiment with finger
penetration of your partner's anus first before you do anything else, so that
you can get comfortable with the new sensations and learn to enjoy them.

It has already been observed that in side-Iying
postures of this kind, the man's penis is within reach of the woman's nearer
hand, and she is able to masturbate him while he pleasures her, and to press or
lightly claw with her fingertips under his testicles ("spider-clawing"), to
titillate his perineum, or insert her finger or thumb into his anus - the
so-called "postillioning" - to massage his prostate gland, or in any other
way to excite his genitals, to the point of his orgasm or not, as may be
desired.

The man, meanwhile, aside from giving cunnilingus
to the woman, which should in general be done without long pauses, is able at
the same time to lift her near thigh over his arm or shoulder, and to reach up
around it to caress her closest breast and nipple while he rests his weight on
his other forearm.

Of this, the hand will simultaneously fall in
perfect position to titillate the woman both vaginally or anally, while his
tongue and mouth press against the upper part of her vulva; or to reach past his
own face, or all the way around the woman's far thigh, to excite her clitoris.

It is not hard to understand that the
simultaneity of all these approaches to, and titillations of the woman's erotic
body by the man, bring her to a great deal higher pitch of excitement, or
quality of orgasm ultimately, than simple and uncombined cunnilingus can do.

Such an alternative to ordinary sex is a great
opportunity for men who cannot stop premature ejaculation to avoid the
difficulty of rapid ejaculation. Because of the many oral and manual excitations
possible to each of the partners simultaneously in these kneeling and side-lying
cunnilingus postures, they are favorites of many men and women who are much
given to cunnilingus.

They have also the advantage - and it is for this
reason that they have been described at this point and at such length - of being
very easy to move or progress from, into the ordinary sex positions for
lovemaking.

Anal sex needs lots of lubrication

Lubrication is very necessary for anal sex.
Whether you are playing inside your partner's body or outside, you need
lubrication. When you're outside, for example when you're massaging your
partner's anus, you can just use saliva.

But as soon as you start to play around with
penetration, you need a good quality lube such as olive oil or massage oil, or a
commercial sex lube, for example Probe or Astroglide.

Unfortunately, oil,
despite its enjoyable slippery properties, will quickly render a latex condom
useless, so you can only use oil as a lube for any kind of sex if you know your
partner well and you're in a relationship where there is no possibility of HIV
or STI transmission.

Water-based lubricants such as Astroglide or
Probe can be restored to full slipperiness when they dry out by the addition of
a little water. Always, always, when you're going into the anus, where there is
no natural lube, use as much artificial lube as you need to be comfortable -
anal sex should not be painful or even uncomfortable if you're both going to
enjoy it.

Add a generous dose of lube and then some more -
and always be ready to use more if your partner expresses discomfort. Having
said that, as you may already know, too much lube reduces friction to the point
where there can be no sensation, and in my experience some lubes actually numb
sensation anyway, so you may need to experiment to find the ideal solution for
you and your partner.

Warning - if you do not use plenty of lube, you
risk
anal fissures. This is painful, to say the least. In addition, if you do not
observe the most stringent hygiene precautions, you risk bacterial vaginitis of
yeast infections. This is especially likely if material from a woman's rectum is
transferred to her vagina. You could check out his comprehensively designed new
site to find out about these issues and how to alleviate yeast infection -
click here.

The first step - playing around outside your partner's anus with a
finger

This is something that almost all couples will
have tried at some point, but if you haven't yet, then it is certainly going to
be your first step on the road to anal pleasure. Most people can do this without
finding it in any way offensive.

You should wash before anal sex play so as to
ensure that both your anus and your partner's is clean - after that, you're
pretty much free to enjoy finger play and even anal-oral contact (analingus)
without any danger of unpleasant smells or tastes.

Besides which a woman's anus is close enough to
her vagina means that most men have probably seen it and even played with it
during sex already. This means it's only a small increment to your sex life to
add anal play.

If you still find the idea of anal sex difficult,
you may find it best to wait until you are both sexually aroused before
approaching the anus: some of the more unusual sexual practices - in which I
suppose we must include anal sex - can be much easier to enjoy when you are
aroused than when you are contemplating them in the cold light of day, so to
speak!

If your ability to enjoy sex is limited by erection
problems, or you cannot get an erection at all during sex, you may have
erectile
dysfunction. This problem, thought of as intractable, can be addressed with
the right treatments: indeed, no matter what kind of
erection problem you
have there is always something you can do to resolve the problem or at least
lessen its severity.

For men (and women doing it to their man)

Men do tend to find the idea, if not the
actuality, of anal sex very exciting. so you need to respect your partner's
reservations. Being penetrated up the ass can be exciting, but it must be done
gently, and if she really doesn't want to try it, you'd be best advised to let
the matter drop - there are plenty of other sexual pleasures you can enjoy
together.

That said, if she is willing, start your finger
play by moving your well-lubed finger tip around her anal sphincter (the ring of
muscle surrounding her anus) in gentle circles before you move gently into the
the center of her anus.

Try to use different pressures and vary the
direction of the strokes so that you give her a variety of exciting feelings -
if you use a gentle touch, it will feel much more erotic and exciting.

To ensure that the recipient of this anal
pleasure does not get bored, keep varying the movements, using both fast and
slow movements as well as gentle and more firm pressure. Your partner's anus
will respond to touch in various ways - it will either relax and open slightly
at the center, or it will respond by tightening up.

If the latter happens, you may want to ask your
partner to relax and accept the feelings she (or he!) is having, and perhaps
also to consciously decide that they are going to let go and relax and enjoy
what happens.

They may well be worrying about penetration and
fearing that it will be painful, so you may want to reassure them that you won't
force your way into them, and they can stop the process at any time.

Massaging the area around your partner's anus, or
the anus itself, without trying to penetrate them, is a great way of increasing
confidence and enjoying anal pleasure.

A lot of men and women have a great deal of
tension in this area of the body; and a relaxed anus is a sign of a relaxed
body, so this kind of play can be very therapeutic in unexpected ways (it can
help you relax)! Deep breathing is also a good way to relax.

And of course a very good way to get used to anal
pleasure is to massage your own anus! You can use a finger tip to do this, in
the bath or shower if you have worries about hygiene, or you can pleasure
yourself with a little anal contact as you masturbate. You can even clench and
relax your anus to get used to the various states of tension it expresses - and
this will also help you learn to consciously relax it when it is being
penetrated.

Try inserting a finger up your ass so that you
know how it feels - and relax into the experience, so that you can enjoy it for
the erotic pleasure it offers.

There should be no discomfort or pain during anal sex

Or indeed during any other kind of sex. So if you
are having problems during sex due to some kind of physical ailment, please get
the right sort of attention. The most likely culprits include yeast infections,
anal warts, bacterial infection of the vagina (vaginitis) or some other kind of
problem.

You can find solutions for most of these problems fairly easily - for
example, there is plenty of information about yeast infection home remedies on the internet. See, as only one example of this information,
the following yeast infection home remedy website.
www.curethisproblemnow.com Alternatively, professional medical treatment
may be needed - and hopefully you can obtain some treatment which is designed specifically for the ailment
from which you are suffering: for example,
www.realgerdremedies.com.

Anal sex must not be painful if you or your
partner are to enjoy it. More to the point, feeling pain means something is not
right. When the anus is relaxed, it will admit a finger and even a penis quite
easily. Both the internal and external anal muscles will relax and allow
penetration, even if the natural design of the body is for one way traffic.

So if there is pain, just pause and work out what
is going wrong. Try to ensure the receptive or passive partner knows they can
stop your lovemaking at any point by using a safe word like "STOP" if things get
distressing for them. To avoid any discomfort, take it slowly, and in the
initial penetration, ensure the passive (receiving) partner can relax and open
up as you move your finger or penis gently inside them.

There may be a reflex reaction which feels to the
receiving partner like they need to shit. This is possible: if so, stop, and let
nature take its course. That will be the end of your anal pleasure for the day,
but you can practice penetration with a finger on subsequent occasions so that
the reflex reaction becomes less quick to fire off, and the receiving partner
learns that penetration does not equal the need to shit.

The bigger the object entering the body, the more
likely the receiver is to feel a need to defecate, but as with all sexual
pleasures, practice makes perfect!

Bear in mind that the lining of the rectum is
pretty sensitive, and thinner than
the muscular walls of the vagina. So if you enter the anus with a finger, use the
soft fleshy part to massage inside your partner's body, and ensure you have
trimmed your nails!

Finger penetration - the first step to anal
intercourse

Ok, if you want to penetrate with
a finger, you could use latex gloves for hygiene, although in my mind these
remove some of the intimacy between partners. If these things really bother you,
just have some wet wipes ready to clean up - if there is any shit on your finger
when you come out - or use a small douche bag before enjoying anal pleasure, as
we described above.

A cloth is useful anyway, since
you may want to wipe up excess lube which you have used to massage your
partner's anus and liberally spread over your finger or penis before you start
your play. (Lube your penis when you get to the stage of trying anal penetration
with your cock). Now, how do you penetrate the anus?

There are two muscles rings
around the anal canal, one on the outside of the body and one inside (the
internal and external sphincters - see the diagram for the whereabouts of these).
The anal canal is, of course, the short passage that
connects your anus to your rectum.

These two sphincters
are only a half inch or so apart, but you both need to be relaxed before you can
enter the rectum, and they can - as you may already know - clamp tightly shut.
The external muscle will relax more easily than the internal one, which often
clamps shut if you are feeling anxious or fearful about penetration.

This is why physical and mental relaxation is the key to successful anal sex.

The best way for anyone to insert a finger
into their partner's anus

When your partner is getting aroused, begin to
gently probe their anal opening with a finger tip - bear in mind that you should
have already lubed everything. Make sure you ask your partner if they are
enjoying it, and if they are OK with what you are doing as you progress.

Opening up for anal penetration can be a very
intimate act, so respect the fact that you are being given the opportunity to
enter someone's body in this way. Stroke and massage around the anal opening,
giving your partner time to relax into the feelings. When you both are ready,
find the center of the anus and press gently into it with your fingertip, while
your partner relaxes and allows your finger into their body.

This is usually best done as a conscious choice -
an act of decision to allow the finger to enter. You may wish to gently move
your finger back and forth - you should find that your finger goes further into
your partner's body each time and then easily slides through into their rectum.

I'm inside my partner's anus! What do I do now?

Well, let's look at this from two points of view:

Man in woman

Use your tongue to stimulate
her clitoris and vulva at the same time as you gently massage the G spot and
other sensitive areas inside her vagina with one finger. At the same time, play
with her anus, her anal canal and gently on the wall of her rectum with another
of your fingers.

If you massage the wall of her rectum closest to her vagina, you may find
that you can convey exciting feelings through to her vagina. Of course, we need
to re-emphasize the warning not to put a finger that has been up her anus into
her vagina.

Woman in man

Well, the best thing a woman can
do for a man (see here for sex
advice for gay men) is to massage the prostate gland. This can produce
exquisite sensations, though it may take a man a few sessions of anal
penetration to get used to the idea and actually enjoy the sensations.

(This is
rather like the way women have to get used to the sensation of having their G
spot massaged.) The diagram below shows you where all the parts are!

If a man is lying on his back, the best way to
massage his prostate is to hook a finger slightly upwards when you have
penetrated his anus, and massage it with a fingertip.

Be careful, though, because the exact amount of
pressure you need to use to give a man maximum pleasure is something you can
only establish by experience, so start gently and work harder as he expresses
his pleasure. Try different movements of your fingertip: circles, strokes,
pressure - be adventurous, and enjoy what you are doing!

Male sacred spot massage, something you may have
come across in Tantric sex, is about massage
of the prostate through the wall of the rectum. It can produce greatly extended
feelings of sexual pleasure and massive rolling orgasms without ejaculation in
some men. If you're into this, try massaging different spots on the wall of the
rectum and see how it feels, with and without an erection.

Move your finger over as large an area of the
rectal wall as you can until you've located the best spot for him. Moans of
sexual pleasure are a good clue that you've found the right spot!

As you may know, much of the semen that a man
produces is made in the prostate gland. When you massage a man's prostate you
will encourage the production of more semen, adding greatly to the power and
force of his eventual ejaculation.

A man's ejaculate may taste different and be much
more runny after prostate massage - so it may make oral sex to orgasm (with a
finger on the man's prostate at the same time) a more pleasant experience,
perhaps enabling you to swallow his semen if you normally find the taste
unpleasant.

Oral play during anal sex - called analingus

You either like the idea of analingus or you
don't. But then again, when you are sexually aroused, and you have your
partner's butt in your face, you may find that your inhibitions go out of the
window, and you can enjoy anal-oral contact without worrying about it.

Great! So if you approach your partner's anus
gently, and lick from the outside to the centre of the anal muscles, you may get
a response ranging from a sigh to greater whole body relaxation as she (or he)
moves into a place of acceptance and enjoyment.

There's no doubt that the hot moistness of a
tongue on one's anus can feel good, and a substantial number of couples will
enjoy this form of sexual contact on a regular basis. It's naughty, it's
intimate, it's loving and arousing - a most intimate sexual act - and, more than
anything else, it feels good!

You can employ a light flicking motion of your
tongue, or you can use a more forceful probing action with your tongue to enter
into your partner's anus.

Another nice possibility is to press the whole of
your tongue against the whole area of the anus, or to lick and nibble on your
partner's perineum.

For men, a general piece of advice is to pay
attention to your partner's clitoris at the same time, so that her sexual
arousal continues to grow as you stimulate her.

Anal intercourse - the man enjoys anal sex with the woman

The easiest anal
sexual intercourse
position is either rear entry or a variation of the missionary, man on top sex
position. Have the woman lying on her back, legs spread and knees up towards her
chest so that her man can reach her anus easily.

A pillow under her bottom may help considerably
to let the man enter her easily. If you decide to try rear entry sex, have the
woman supported on her chest so she doesn't get tired, and have her extend her
legs outwards and backwards so that her anus is easy to get to.

For your first attempts at anal sex, another good
position to start with is the side by side
sex position: the woman's legs should
in what is called the scissors position - you can see all these
positions illustrated in the anal
sex pictures. For more general advice on the female orgasm, you may find the
information on this website about the G spot and
female orgasm to be very helpful.

And finally, if you like the sense of dominance
and being taken which can come from this powerful form of sexual intercourse,
have the woman lying face down with her legs apart while the man lies on top of
her and takes her from above and behind.

It's a good idea to enjoy your first attempts at
anal intercourse when you are sexually aroused and sexually excited. Keep a cool
head, though, around matters such as condoms, lube and hygiene!

Start with a finger in the way we described
above, and move onto anal sex with your penis only when you are both happy and
relaxed with digital penetration. Being relaxed, enjoying what you are doing,
and having a light-hearted attitude will all help enormously in having
successful anal sex.

So begin by having a look at your target! You
need to know exactly where you are going in, since approaching at even a slight
angle off to one side will probably prevent successful penetration. If you try
and get the angle of penetration right by just pushing your penis in the general
direction of your partner's anus, you may well end up missing altogether.

Whether or not your partner helps you find the
way in, you must also use your own hand to direct your penis towards its target.
Have her say this out loud as you press the end of your penis into her anal
opening: "I welcome your penis/cock into my ass/body. My body is open to you,
relaxed and allows you to enter easily."

A good indication of how much
resistance you can expect as you enter your partner is the force you needed to
push your finger into her anus. This is because her anus
will be able to accommodate your penis as easily as it accommodated your finger
- if she is relaxed. The fact that this is so is demonstrated by the pictures of
anal sex, some of which show a relaxed anus, gaping open even after the penis has
been withdrawn.

A great way to ease your entry into your
partner's anus is to use a slight pumping or thrusting motion - a slight back
and forth movement of the penis, pressing forward, then retreating, pressing
forward, then retreating.....and so on, all using lots of lube. The sensation as
your cock enters your partner may be unusual - after all, this is not like
vaginal sex! - but hopefully it will be erotic and enjoyable.

To be fully
enjoyable, though, your partner has to be relaxed and you have to be well-lubed.
A man who has a small, acorn-like cock head, rather than a bulbous one, stands a
better chance of getting into his partner's ass more easily. (Descriptions and
pictures of penis shape and size can be found here.)

Insignificant cuts and tears in the tissues of
the anal area are not unusual when you have anal sex - don't panic! But this is
a good reason to use a strong condom, unless you are 100% certain of your
partner's sexual history. Even then, you may still wish to use a condom,
since it prevents contact with fecal matter. Use a non-pre-lubricated condom and
apply lots of artificial lubricant.

Before we go any further, let's talk for a moment
about sexual dysfunctions. They can happen with anal intercourse just as much as
with any other form of sexual activity. Should
you happen to suffer from premature ejaculation, you can learn how to
stop coming so quickly and control your rapid ejaculation
here.

So - assuming you have gone slowly, and gently,
you will probably now be deep inside your lover, connected in a very special
way.

Anal sex is a privilege for a man - I think it
demands a lot of a woman, and it can be a real test of trust. Having said that,
many women do enjoy it, and it can become a regular feature of a couple's sex
life.

So once you've both got used to it, and she is
able to relax sufficiently to let her anus admit you and accommodate your
thrusting, what do you do next? I guess you try other positions that will allow
you to kiss, fondle and hold each other while you are inside her.

One example would be to have the woman on top
while she straddles you. And a position where the man can thrust gently and
intermittently so as to extend the time before he comes, while he can reach her
vagina and massage her G spot and clit with his fingers.

This could be helpful in allowing a couple to reach
simultaneous orgasm - it's certainly worth a try. We actually promote the view
that all women should know how to have
an orgasm during
sex, regardless of whether or not they have ever had an orgasm before: we
also believe that simultaneous orgasm is well within all couples' sexual
aspirations.

There's little doubt that simultaneous orgasm can
greatly increase sexual pleasure and satisfaction, although it is probably
stretching things too far to say that this is a route to the best sex you ever
had!

What of anal sex positions? After you have tried
the doggy style (aka rear entry), the more relaxing but perhaps less raunchy
side by side sex positions, the exciting and empowering woman lying on her back
with the man above, you can try a whole variety of variations on the theme
- just about all the anal sex positions you could ever imagine are illustrated
in the photos on this website.

In fact, the positions for anal sex are not very
different to those you would employ for normal vaginal sex: they need slight
adjustments like having the woman's legs further apart.

Anal intercourse - woman penetrates her male partner
anally

If you're feeling really
adventurous, why not try some role reversal? A woman can penetrate her male
lover with a dildo, a strap-on penis.

Now, should you still be reading
this page, the major point of anal penetration with a dildo for men (just as
with a finger) is the stimulation of the prostate, which can feel great!

There is much more to it, of
course, not least the fact that it provides the opportunity to experiment with
role reversal and power play in a relationship. But even if you're not into
that, the sensitive area of tissue that represents the prostate is conveniently
located so that you can enjoy some anal thrusting, albeit with a dildo, and
experience the pleasure of erotic sensations around the whole pelvic area.

This may even bring you to the
edge of orgasm, and if not, it may at least make your orgasm much more powerful
when it does occur, whether through masturbation or fellatio.

You may also have observed that
allowing your lover to fuck you up the ass is a pretty clear statement that you
are a real man - one who is secure enough to allow the idea of role reversal and
anal thrusting by your partner.

It can also be very exciting for
a woman who wishes to know what it feels like to thrust into her lover. You may
even get some new ideas about relationships, power and the roles of men and
women.

What's more, if you get a dildo
with the right kind of construction, you may find that a woman can fuck her man
while stimulating her own clitoris, which can lead to big orgasms for both
partners! if you want to try this, go to a sex shop online and buy the
equipment: a slim silicon dildo and a strap-on harness for the female partner to
wear.

Also make sure you get hold of
the DVD or video of Bend Over Boyfriend - this entertaining romp through the
realms of sex play will provide all the information and sex advice you need to
have a great time butt fucking each other!

If you want to know more about anal sex, with man
or woman as penetrator, then some amusing and frank accounts can be found here:
10 bad sex experiences There are many great places to get sex information on the web.

All kinds of sexual information for
couples can be found on Sex In Human Loving, which features essays on many
aspects of human sexuality and sexual relationships.

Male sexual dysfunction includes premature ejaculation,
which you can get help for from Lloyd Lester's excellent web program -
Ejaculation By Command - which is
reviewed here - as you
most likely know, the most common male sexual problem, and one which occurs in
about one man in three in the average population.

The second most widespread male sexual dysfunction
is believed to be erectile dysfunction, which can do more to strike at the heart
of a man's self-esteem than almost anything else in the arena of human
sexuality.