How do you make your vanilla wedding a little kinky? What do you do when your wife can’t stand your girlfriend? How do you find a “legit” Femdom? Are all poly people sluts? On today’s Q and A episode, Cassie and Rigel answer these questions and more. PLUS: Cassie and Rigel propose to their girlfriend, Rigel tells his partners he caught an STI, and Siri makes an unexpected appearance on the show.

What are the best products for pegging and packing? Which partners get the boot when you’re poly-saturated? WTF do you do when your girlfriend keeps having sex with your best friends? How do you tell a date what you’re into without being called a pervert? On today’s episode, Cassie and Rigel tackle these topics and more. Thanks for all the great questions, you guys rock!

Love and lust. They’re words we throw around a lot. But what do they mean? Are both necessary for a healthy relationship? And the big question: How do you keep lust from waning over time? Today we’re talking to Dr. Zhana Vrangalova about love and lust including: the differences between the two, the biggest myths surrounding love and lust, and how those myths cause problems in our relationships. We also spend a substantial portion of the interview discussing how you can keep lust and desire alive in your long-term relationships.

Can you be kinky if you don’t like it in the butt? Are there any sane poly people around? How do you approach nillas you’re interested in about kink and/or poly? What should you do when you get no matches on dating sites? On today’s episode, Cassie and Rigel will be answering these questions and more. We’ve got a ton of dating and relationship-focused questions in this episode, so don’t miss out!

How do you come out as kinky and poly? What should you do about a boss who saw your bruises? What’s the best way to turn down unwanted play? How do you fit larger toys in smaller spaces? In our first ever Q&A episode, Cassie and Rigel answer these questions and more.

You can’t be my baby, but you can be my booty call! Having sex with an ex is sometimes a taboo topic even in the kinky realm. But is it really THAT bad of an idea? In this episode we talk about everything you need to know if you are gonna start getting jiggy with your ex. We discuss how, when, and (more importantly) when NOT to have sex with an ex. But before all that, we have a story about Cassie face-fucking a mermaid. Yep, Really.

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