1) they tend to prefer older men. Sometimes a few years older and sometimes way older (like 23/50).

=> I don't get it, "they" prefer older men, isn't "older men" asian also ? Or you mean they prefer "older white men" ?If so, I can tell. Most younger white guys aren't interested in asians, some older men is, if an asian wants a white guys , they have no choice but older men I guess.

2) they tend to be addicted to grindr, jack'd and hookups in general. => I don't think this is a racial problem.

Karl said 1) they tend to prefer older men. Sometimes a few years older and sometimes way older (like 23/50).

=> I don't get it, "they" prefer older men, isn't "older men" asian also ? Or you mean they prefer "older white men" ?If so, I can tell. Most younger white guys aren't interested in asians, some older men is, if an asian wants a white guys , they have no choice but older men I guess.

2) they tend to be addicted to grindr, jack'd and hookups in general. => I don't think this is a racial problem.

I don't work out so I have no idea about the question 3.

cheers.

For 3) I would think it's because food portions in Asia are much, much smaller. So people tend to be skinnier and your abs show through more easily when you work out. When I go back to Asia, I eat double or triple what people there eat because I'm used to American food portion.

bj87nyc saidSo I have been hanging out with a lot of Asian's recently (especially those who moved here from China recently) and I've noticed a few trends:

1) they tend to prefer older men. Sometimes a few years older and sometimes way older (like 23/50).

2) they tend to be addicted to grindr, jack'd and hookups in general.

3) they seem to have an easier time developing a six pack (smaller internal organs? diet? workout regimen? not sure).

Just saying. Anyone have a similar experience? Or can you explain these?

Thanks for your insights.

I am going to comment on 3) only, because I don't think 1) and 2) are worth my efforts.

My guess is you probably hang out with the slim guys. Slim guys can get 6 packs easier because they are slim. However, it doesn't mean they have more muscle mass in the stomach area. Gym goers are welcome to comment on this.

If you hang out with some not-so-slim guys, I bet they will tell you they also have a very difficult time to develop a six pack.

Lol, now now don't let that one Chinese guy in the dating forum ruining your experiences with gay Asian men.

1/ Gay men generally prefer older men on and off. You can say this to white guys too. Lol, I had several 19 and 20 years old hit on me in the past. Daddy issues, Older guys complex. Lol, endless threads on Older guys/younger guys on here. I don't think his race is an issue, singling out his Race is a little unfair to me.

2/ Well, some gay men who are newly out seem to be addicted to hook up apps. It's basically meat-market shopping.

3/ Asians don't eat a lot of Fat. (Generally speaking, I don't recall the last time I've seen a Fat asian guy, strg or homo). It's about diet essentially. Rice, Chicken, Brocoli, meat, juice. I don't think you can get fat with that recipe.

Maybe you should hang out with Asian-Americans who are 1st, 2nd or 3rd generations who live here longer. The Asians who just arrived, they usually have a different mentality, not mastered the English language yet and not accustom to the *American's culture. Just saying, but yeah whatever float your boat and don't stereotype them.

socalx10 saidLol, now now don't let that one Chinese guy in the dating forum ruining your experiences with gay Asian men. 1/ Gay men generally prefer older men on and off. You can say this to white guys too. Lol, I had several 19 and 20 years old hit on me in the past. Daddy issues, Older guys complex. Lol, endless threads on Older guys/younger guys on here. I don't think his race is an issue, singling out his Race is a little unfair to me. 2/ Well, some gay men who are newly out seem to be addicted to hook up apps. It's basically meat-market shopping. 3/ Asians don't eat a lot of Fat. (Generally speaking, I don't recall the last time I've seen a Fat asian guy, strg or homo). It's about diet essentially. Rice, Chicken, Brocoli, meat, juice. I don't think you can get fat with that recipe. 4/ Judging from some of the replies here, Y'all watch too many Wu-Xia Kung Fu, Ang Lee, Bruce Lee movies. (Which is fine, I watch Chinese Martial arts films too btw.) Maybe you should hang out with Asian-Americans who are 1st, 2nd or 3rd generations who live here longer. The Asians who just arrived, they usually have a different mentality, not mastered the English language yet and not accustom to the *American's culture. Just saying, but yeah whatever float your boat and don't stereotype them.

I can't speak for others but I was just goofing around with movie portrayals. I certainly don't think Asians can walk on walls when they fight (but you don't see that in Westerns).I thought that was obvious but I apologize if I upset anyone.I've had Korean and Chinese work out partners I've been very close to and none of them acted like the "Asians" we're describing here.

bj87nyc saidSo I have been hanging out with a lot of Asian's recently (especially those who moved here from China recently) and I've noticed a few trends:

1) they tend to prefer older men. Sometimes a few years older and sometimes way older (like 23/50).

2) they tend to be addicted to grindr, jack'd and hookups in general.

3) they seem to have an easier time developing a six pack (smaller internal organs? diet? workout regimen? not sure).

Just saying. Anyone have a similar experience? Or can you explain these?

Thanks for your insights.

1) I'm pretty sure young/old is in gay world as much as it is in straight world2) they're probably addicted to technology just like everyone3) if you mean like a skinny/slim six pack, sure. they're less likely to have the bodybuilder kind of six packs, though.