"Give yourself over to absolute pleasure. Swim the warm waters of sins of the flesh. Erotic nightmares beyond any measure, and sensual daydreams to treasure forever. Can't you just see it? Don't Dream It - Be It!" Welcome Aboard! I'm back! --Evan McCarthy

The Weekly listings can now be found on the homepage at groupsexinthecity.com

Monday, October 31, 2011

Okay, dudes, enough of this crap -- let's talk about sex. This researcher asked me to post this entry about a sex study, and clearly he knows where to find the biggest whores in New York. So, if you kiss and tell, give him a holler. Here's the info...

"Adventurous sex life? Want to share your stories?

Participate in Pillow Talk, a new study for gay and bisexual men through Hunter College. We are looking for gay and bisexual men to share their experiences. You will be paid money for completing an online sex diary, and contribute to cutting-edge research on men’s sex lives. Our research team, which is made up of LGBT community members, has been working with LGBT community for more than a decade. We are friendly, sex-positive, non-judgmental. Your participant is completely confidential.

This is a great opportunity to share your experience! If this sounds like something that’s up your ally, please visit the study website and fill out a quick survey to find out if you’re eligible. www.chestnyc.org/pillowtalk.

Sunday, October 30, 2011

Been getting great words of support from readers and other hosts. Here's one...

"Hey manI have always been a reader of your blog and when I am bored with nothing to do. I turn to your blog as a guide. I really appreciate your blog and to see that you are getting flack for informing us the truth of these party is really to me a joke. The reason why its a joke is, the host are acting like what goes on at their parties is a huge secret. Granted I do not partipate but mostly like to watch and jerk off (yes I am that guy), I have been harrased by older guys who cannot respect no. I actaully had to shove one guy in a wall one with my hand around his neck because he was so aggressive (not that I am proud of being violent) but it shows that the host dont do anything about these kind of guys. I have demanded my money back from host before (7 out of 10 I will get it back) because of how disgusting their partiers are. If voyer like myself have had these experience I can imagine how worst it is for people who participate. I ask that you still report ALL parties you know of good or bad. Because people look to you blog to know what they are in for, because the host are not doing it. And its not cool to waste $20-$25 to uncomfortable and miserable. These host need to police their parties more instead of trying to get fucked. which makes no sense because if I am paying to get in your party why should I fuck u?

Any ways please do what you do. Fuck these promoters and host who harasses you. You not here to nurse their egos and pride.

One thing I would like to know about the parties are the racial climates which is the hardest thing to report. I have to parties where its mostly white and its not receptive to black people and viceversa. Some what of a sexual racist climate. Those are most uncomfortable but that's mostly the people who attended not the fault of the party host...

But keep doing what u do. Don't lets the tacky party host win by not informing us what to expect."

AND THESE ARE COOL TOO...

"I wanted to thank you for a wonderful blog you created. I’ve used it a lot over the past year or so and want to make sure I thank you for providing sex party patrons information on parties, not only when and where, but information on who attends and throws these parties. I’m sorry you’ve had to deal with a lot of crap lately, but there are a lot of people who support you and your blogs. Thanks again, and I hope to run into you at a party soon!"

AND

"Evan, please reconsider your leaving. Are you going to let those crappy little piss ants make you fold up shop and go home? I think that you have an obligation to NYC, to your readership and to yourself to stay in there. You provide a sterling service to gay men looking for the community of shared sex and I know so many people would be horrified to see it go. Dont let them get to you, and dont back down. If you are just worn out on the blog and wish to go on to the next project than that is fine, but dont leave because of them... I know I am going to miss your writing, your insight, and your sexy wit when I read your blog. Calm down and make sure you are leaving for the right reasons. Thanks."

Thursday, October 27, 2011

Hey guys -- I started this blog because I really enjoyed attending sex parties, and I wanted to get as large crowds as possible at the parties I went. Also, guys were always asking me which parties were good and which were bad, and which were awful. Back then more hosts were discriminating, and honest about who attended. There were parties for hot guys, average guys, and open door policy parties -- totally cool by me. I attended at least a dozen parties in a regular basis.

Now -- three of the best parties closed, and with the exception about about 5 parties with I attend, most have open door policies when they say they are selective. Many times I've walked in and out of parties in less than an hour because the host had misrepresented who would be there -- or wouldn't control the gross, fat, old smelly men who were harassing everyone else.

Anyway, this blog of not fun any more for me. I'm tired or getting harassed by the lying hosts who threaten me for telling the truth, and for posting honest reviews from readers. So, fuck them. I've decided only list parties that I would actually attend.

If a party isn't listed on my site - just assume that it is filled with old, out-of-shape aggressive men. It probably is. (The only exception is CLUB HOUSE, who is always very honest about who attends).

So cheers to PITSTOP, NYJOCK, SWALLOW, PRIVATE PARTY, GOLDEN BOYS USA, MUSCLE GROUP and HARD DRIVE and a few others that I will continue to list -- the only honest, decent parties -- fuck off to the rest of you. May you wallow in the filth you created.

Wednesday, October 26, 2011

Hey guys, here's a review of SWALLOW -- which was my party of the week last week (which was canceled) and also a party of the week this week. SWALLOW is a bukkake party for young, hot dudes. Anyway guys, this is a good time to remind you -- never attend any party that you see on my site without confirming with the hosts first. Parties get canceled, move locations, times, or whatever. I keep up the best I can, but things change at the last minute. Here's the word on SWALLOW...

"During the summer, I saw a listing for the SWALLOW party on Evan's blog and decided to check it out. It was my first time with these guys, but the ad promised lots of hot dudes jerking off and then shooting on one lucky recipient, bukkake-style. In the words of the party's host, "We strip down to our underwear, jack and suck each other for a while, and then the whole gang jacks off into one guy's mouth at the end." What's not to like? The action starts fast and it's intense—there's a 45-minute window of time to enter, the goal being that everyone is in place to start dicking around at pretty much the same time. When I arrived 10 minutes into the entry time, there were already about 20 guys there sucking dick and playing around, and this quickly swelled to a total of 40 or 50. The crowd was pretty diverse in terms of age and all that, but I'd say it skewed younger—much more 20's and 30's and an overall hot, in-shape group. Lots of cute twinks in attendance too, which surprised me a little. A lot of dudes were wearing underwear but many were totally naked, and the underwear came off quickly and the jerking and sucking was fast and furious. I probably got sucked by 15 or 20 guys during the warmup. The host was handsome and a really nice guy, and the party was held in a great apartment with the action happening in two small adjoining rooms—you could feel the heat and fucking smell the testosterone, seriously! After everyone was sufficiently horned-up, the host suddenly announced, "Okay everyone, time to bust a nut." It was unreal! A circle quickly formed around the host, who'd gotten down on his knees in the center of the room, and the first guy stepped up to shoot. One by one other guys followed; sometimes two or three at a time with cum flying literally everywhere! I was with a buddy and we timed it so we'd get off simultaneously, one of us on each side of the dude's face. It's hard to explain, but there's something so incredibly hot about watching guys line up and take turns like this, and hearing the guys grunt and moan while they bust and the noise of the crowd reacting to the cumshots...it's fucking fantastic and I've got a boner thinking about it. See you there"

Here's the info on how to get in...SWALLOW (Manhattan). Oral/JO/Bukkake Party at a private loft. Usually get 40-50 guys: 20-early 40s, all races. According to the host, it goes like this: "We strip down, jack and suck each other, and then the whole group gangs up to bust a nut, bukkake style, in one guy's mouth." Usually meet about once every two or three months, Thursday or Sunday, 8-10pm. Safe sex nonly; no drugs, minimal attitude. The party is FREE (no cover), just a tip for clothes check. To get in send pics and stats to: swallow_nyc at yahoo.com, or check out http://groups.yahoo.com/group/swallow_nyc.

Tuesday, October 25, 2011

Okay dudes -- I waited until I had a news article to show you, but it's true: 38 W. 38th Street Sex Party Space was busted! Here's the story...

Cops Bust Alleged Illegal After-Hours Sex Club in Midtown

After months of complaints, police say they have busted an illegal nightclub that had been operatng in Midtown's Garment District.

MIDTOWN — Cops have closed down an allegedly illegal after-hours nightclub that hosted paid sex parties in a Midtown office building for more than a year, littering stairwells with condoms and drawing a host of raucous patrons, police and neighbors said.

After scoping the area for months, cops from the Midtown South precinct received a 911 in the early hours of Sept. 30 tipping them off to activity at the second and third floors of 38 W. 38th St., a commercial building in the heart of the Garment District, sources said.

Officers who raided the space discovered “an illegal after-hours party where alcohol was sold without a proper license” to a handful of party-goers, along with hundreds of business cards and flyers advertising after-hours parties in the space, court documents show.

The establishment, which was advertised online as La Galeria Loft, describes itself on its website as a “100% totally Private” space with a Moroccan-style tent VIP room, hookah pipe, DJ booth "with an unmatched NYC Club sound system” and “full lighting effects,” available for “before and after clubbing” as well as for anniversaries, baby showers and adult parties.

The site promised “no restrictions” on loud music and says hours are “extremely flexible.”

Neighbors said it kicked into high gear late at night with rowdy party-goers arriving from 2 a.m. to 4 a.m. and heading home as neighbors were headed to work.

Alleged club promoter Alexander Van Bousen, 43, was arrested on misdemeanor charges including the unlicensed sale of alcohol and alcohol warehousing, according to court documents.

“I charge $20 a person, all you can drink. I’m doing nothing illegal here," Van Bousen told arresting officers, according to the complaint.

"We don’t have a liquor license but I do run other night clubs."

Van Bousen has a previous misdemeanor charge for soliciting a prostitute after allegedly agreeing to pay an undercover cop $100 for sex at the corner of West 42nd Street and Eighth Avenue, according to a criminal complaint.

He could not be reached by phone and his lawyer did not immediately return a call for comment.

Messages left at other phone numbers affiliated with the lounge were not returned.

But neighbors said they were thrilled to finally be rid of the problematic space, which they said has been quiet since the police sweep.

“It was totally wild. It was totally crazy,” said Alex Taghavi, the manager at Havana NY, a restaurant directly across the street, who, like other locals, described raucous crowds screaming, swearing and leaving empty liquor bottles and other garbage outside.

“I’m definitely glad. I knew it was going to be trouble. ...It was bad for the neighborhood,” Taghavi said.

But that wasn’t all that was going on behind the club’s gold glitter-encrusted door, according to neighbors who said the venue, which sits directly below a Muslim prayer space and above a massage parlor, also allegedly hosted frequent sex nights with patrons paying for sex.

“Go out, come here, get off, go home,” read the ad, which said that “Condoms, lube, water, Gatorade and more is provided,” and outlined a “mandatory clothes check policy,” where guests were required to leave their cell phones as well as all clothing, except for their “jock, underwear, or sport shorts" at the door.

“Early in the morning we would see condoms in the stairwells. People would proposition folks going up and down the stairs,” said Stephanie Barton-Farcas, the assistant director of Nicu's Spoon Theater which used to occupy the building’s fifth floor, but vacated on Sept. 1 following a dispute with the building's landlord and warnings from cops in August that they were planning a sweep.

“We had an inkling that something was going on,” she said, adding that staff complained repeatedly to their landlord.

Residents said the problems began a year ago, first with noise complaints and then more serious disruptions.

“You’d be getting your paper at 6 a.m. and they’d be just getting out of partying,” said one local resident who’s lived in the neighborhood for more than 30 years, but asked that her name not be used for fear of retribution.

“I was concerned for my personal safety,” she said.

Reached at home, landlord Benji Faraj said he was not present on the night of the bust and insisted the activity was not commonplace. Faraj has not been charged in connection to the illegal club.

“Some guy had an event there, a party… It was a one-shot deal. It was one time,” he said, refusing to answer additional questions about the operation.

To our chagrin, a new after-hours str8 party popped up on the 2nd floor of the building a few months ago. They brought with them a whole lotta attention: loud music, crowds in the hallway and lobby, etc. Their 2nd floor space was too small for their large crowds so they moved to the whole 5th floor. Cops showed up on September 30 because of a noise complaint and the 5th floor host, amazingly, admitted that he sold alcohol but that he didn't have a liquor license. He was arrested and later released.

In the meantime, a former tenant of the building blabbed to a reporter that there were also sex parties going on in the building. The reporter combined the two separate stories into one; hence, the after-hours joint on the 5th floor was erroneously reported to also have sex parties. The fifth floor did not host sex parties; our floor was not raided/busted, we've been having parties every weekend since Alex's September 30 arrest, the arrest was not even for hosting sex parties but for selling alcohol without the proper license. (Sidebar: So when u dudes complain about us not having alcohol, now u know why!)

Considering that the building is in the media spotlight right now, our main weekend NuDukes parties are on hold right now. However, we are having our Buttnaked ND2 party this Thursday night at a new location."

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I am so fucking sick of being accused of spreading false info -- I POSTED A FUCKING NEWS ARTICLE!!! Also, you hosts who keep bitching, GIRLS: it was on Channel 11 News at 10, and the fucking front cover of METRO NY. How the fuck is that my fault?

Monday, October 24, 2011

DON'T MISS PICK OF THE WEEK: NYJOCK Halloween (Fri) and Swallow Bukkake Party (move to this Sun--OCT 30)

Monday...

MUSCLE GROUP (West Harlem) In small studio apartment. This small sex party really runs the gamut from hot guys to very average dudes. Usually have 4-10 guys attend – 20-40YOs. Have parties at random, but often on Mondays, 9pm-11pm. The best thing about this party is that it's one of the true orgies. At most parties guys are having sex one-one-one or threesomes--at MUSCLE GROUP there is more often than not a pile of guys fucking and sucking off each other. Also cool, because it's FREE. Two problems: You never know who will be there--sometimes no hot guys, sometimes no one but you and the host. A racially mixed crowd/for very hot to average guys. *Send pics & Stats to: BIHUNKGROUP@aol.com

POOL BOY EVENTS NYC (Astoria, Queens) "BANYA MONDAY" Clothing Optional - Spa For Men. Not a sex party, but a hot pool party. The spa has a pool, jacuzzi, Russian steam rooms. Monday is gay men's day: 11am-11pm, and is clothing optional. Check out this site for info on the Monday party: http://www.masseurfinder.com/members/poolboy.shtml

Tuesday… NEW YORK JACKS (Chelsea/Times Square) Safe-sex party for guys who like to jerk off. They are not selective about who gets in, so the guys run the gamut: all type of bodies, races, and ages from hot young guys to muscle guys to older guys. Tuesdays (Paddles) and Sunday (Times Square). Check out their site: http://www.nyjacks.com/

Wednesday… HARD DRIVE (Chelsea) At Paddles, Doors 8pm-1am, open until 3am. Please be height/weight proportionate and if 55 or over please BE IN GREAT SHAPE. Wear underwear or less. Gets about 60 guys. This week Rob Ordonez will be co-hosting a fabulous crowd of hot and horny dudes, and gorgeous guys with bad manners in his Bad Boy Lounge. To celebrate they will have give a-ways of fabulous high-end underwear from E-Modus Vivendi.com worth $50 dollars each. They are also giving out gorgeous COCK RINGS made of silver, gold and gems from Esculpta.com to the dude with the biggest cock at 11:00 that night. Cockrings are worth from $125 to $165! Special Guest Mr. Rawhide 2011 Jed Ryan and gorgeous porn star Jim Ferro will be modeling the cock rings.Email here hunteur1@gmail.com or check out www.CumMonkey.com or www.HardDriveMen.com

REAL MEN ONLY (RMO) PARTY (Fresh Meadows, Queens) Slurpee Coach has the parties weekly on Wed eve 7-11pm. For older/average guys. To get in, email pics/stats here: slurpeecoach@hotmail.com.

MMX Muscle (Manhattan). Skills Workshop with Thaddeus. At 7:45pm to 9:45pm. In a small group up to 8 guys - you will go deeper into learning how to give a great massage. From different ways to use your fingers, hands, elbows, body weight, various strokes, and Do's and Don'ts - Thaddeus will do live demos and then you will practice on each other as he walks you thru each part. The hosts says: "however we are a lot of horny guys and we are not going to sweep that under the rug." But no oral or anal sex below the waist. Host is a certified Massage Therapist. The party is to learn, explore, connect, and play – to learn and get into Massage. They require that all guys are in good physical shape, are clean and take care of themselves, are height/weight proportionate and work-out or are athletic - in addition to having no attitude and comfortable being almost naked (or naked) and touching and stroking muscles with boundaries.To Get in email the host: mmxnyc@gmail.com and check out www.mmxnyc.com.

JACKS OF COLOR (Chelsea) An Extra-Added J.O.C. "CHELSEA SPACE WEDNESDAY NIGHT SPECIAL!" at "Chelsea Space" -- doors 7:00 to Midnight, goes 'til 2 AM;A New York City Club For Men of Color "And Their Friends." Has HUGE parties 70-120 guys attend, all ages. Hotter guys generally show up late. An older mixed crowd/for average guys. Email here JacksOfColor@Gmail.com or check out www.jacksofcolor.com

Thursday… INDULGE (Jersey City). Men's Masquerade Hotel Party. 7pm. Group NJ is private no attitude sex group for in-shape men. Meet at various lofts, hotel rooms, houses or other spaces in Northern NJ. Parties are held on weekends & weekdays at lunchtime, after work, and evenings. Guys are prescreened through an approval process and include all types and ages. To apply for membership, check out this website: http://www.indulgegroup4men.com

ND2 (Gramercy). This party is for average African American and Latino dudes ONLY. Mandatory clothes check: boxers, no shirts or t-shirts. Condoms, lube, liquid provided. Hip hop music with a Dj. No attitude and a lot of action. Parties are Wed nights. Send pics and stats to HARLEMDUKESNYC@YAHOO.COM

Friday... THUGS 4 THUGS SEX PARTY (Brooklyn) 12:00-7:00am. Hot party for Black and Latino guys, and guys who love big black cocks. Safe sex only for in shape guys—huge space (2 huge floors), fresh towels and condoms/lube provided, (12midnight-7am). It’s a safe and clean place. lots of space. a bit dark but eyes get used to it. TO GET IN: http://thugs4thugsex.com or email bkthugparty@earthlink.net

ENCORES PARTY (Chelsea). All-men, after-hours party every Fri and Sat night at Paddles from 3AM-7AM. Often attended by restaurant and bar employees after those places shut down. The entrance fee is $20 but if you are already in the space from an earlier party you can stay for $10. The party really takes off around 4AM when many bars close. Gets 80 people on Fridays; and 130-150 on Sat. night (Sun. morning). You don't have to have an invitation or be on a list or anything. You just show up, pay your $20 and go in. It can be incredibly hot, but sometimes it is hit or miss. Check out Paddles: http://paddlesnyc.com/

Saturday… MMX Muscle (Manhattan). TOUCH YOGA: stretch your body; open your mind @ 1 pm. Yoga & Massage is the Ultimate Combination of Power & Relaxation. Led by a skilled Yoga Instructor in supported Yoga poses that will open, energize and balance your body. Not a sex party, but a yoga part. The hosts says: "however we are a lot of horny guys and we are not going to sweep that under the rug." But no oral or anal sex below the waist. The party is to learn, explore, connect, and play – to learn and get into Massage. They require that all guys are in good physical shape, are clean and take care of themselves, are height/weight proportionate and work-out or are athletic - in addition to having no attitude and comfortable being almost naked (or naked) and touching and stroking muscles with boundaries.To Get in email the host: mmxnyc@gmail.com and check out www.mmxnyc.com.

NUBIAN DUKES PARTY (Midtown). 11:30PM-6AM, This party is for HOT muscular, athletic, slim, African-American and Latino dudes ONLY. They also have a strict door policy. Mandatory clothes check: boxers, no shirts or t-shirts.Condoms, lube, liquid provided. Hip hop music with a Dj. Very HOT. Incredible bodies, no attitude and a lot of action. Parties are usually twice a month, usually on Fridays, but can be Saturdays or Sunday nights too 12am-6am. Gets 70-90+ dudes each party. Send pics and stats to nubiandukesnyc@yahoo.com

THE LOAD NYC PARTY (East Village). Underwear party held at Blue Door Video Basement for in-shape guys. 90 guys, porn, Soda/beer, condoms, play all night long. 1,500 sqft space. For average to hot crowd. To get in email pics/stats to Loadnyc@aol.com

THUGS 4 THUG SEX PARTY (Brooklyn) 9:00pm-3:00am. Hot party for Black and Latino guys, and guys who love big black cocks. Safe sex only for in shape guys—huge space (2 huge floors), fresh towels and condoms/lube provided, (12midnight-7am). It’s a safe and clean place. lots of space. a bit dark but eyes get used to it. http://thugs4thugsex.com/ or email bkthugparty@earthlink.net

ENCORES PARTY (Chelsea). All-men, after-hours party every Fri and Sat night at Paddles from 3AM-7AM. Often attended by restaurant and bar employees after those places shut down. The entrance fee is $20 but if you are already in the space from an earlier party you can stay for $10. The party really takes off around 4AM when many bars close. Gets 80 people on Fridays; and 130-150 on Sat. night (Sun. morning). You don't have to have an invitation or be on a list or anything. You just show up, pay your $20 and go in. It can be incredibly hot, but sometimes it is hit or miss. Check out Paddles: http://paddlesnyc.com/

SUBMIT PARTY (Brooklyn). 10 - 3 am (doors close at 2 am). Not a M4M party, but may interest the more adventurous of you: A SM party for the women and trans community will feed your appetite, whether you're a voyeur, experienced player, novice, or just curious, you're sure to find something to satisfy! Come use our huge collection of equipment including slings, bondage equipment, spanking bench, plenty of private cubbies, shower, tub, live sex, and and hot porn! New boot black station! Check out the parties at http://www..submitparty.com. If you have questions, please email Red@submitparty.com.

THE BEAR HUNT (West Harlem). Bear Hunt NYC - NEON BLACKOUT PARTY! NYC’S longest running weekly bear, chubs & chasers party! 10pm-3am, Run by the same people who run The Men's Party. For bears and their admirers. Bears, chubs & chasers of ALL races, ages & sizes. Sling, condoms, lube, cocktails & clothes check provided. An older mixed crowd/for average to out of shape guys. Send pic to BearHuntNYC@yahoo.com or check out www.bearhuntnyc.com

LONG ISLAND BI-SEXUAL GROUP (Long Island). Halloween Guys & Gals Party. LI-BI-do is a Bisexual social group that hold parties for Couples, women, trans, and men are all welcome. You can be Bisexual, Bi-friendly, or Bi-curious. How to join LI-BI-do: Go to Home Page: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/LI-BI-do, Send blank email to: LI-BI-do-Subscribe@yahoogroups.com or check out: http://www.li-bi-do.org.

Sunday… SWALLOW (Manhattan). Oral/JO/Bukkake Party at a private loft. Usually get 40-50 guys: 20-early 40s, all races. According to the host, it goes like this: "We strip down, jack and suck each other, and then the whole group gangs up to bust a nut, bukkake style, in one guy's mouth." Usually meet about once every two or three months, Thursday or Sunday, 8-10pm. Safe sex nonly; no drugs, minimal attitude. The party is FREE (no cover), just a tip for clothes check. To get in send pics and stats to: swallow_nyc at yahoo.com, or check out http://groups.yahoo.com/group/swallow_nyc.

NEW YORK BONDAGE CLUB (Chelsea) 7pm-1am @Paddles. Sex is no longer banned. Sucking, fucking, whatever, are all allowed now at all times. It's common to see guys tied down and fucked. Or a dom directing sex between two roped subs. Held in a straight S&M club, the party scene includes cages, restraints, bondage crosses, stocks and all sorts of devices to aid in tying people up and getting them off. They now stay open later (until at least 1 AM instead of 11 PM) and at 11 PM they turn down the lights in all areas except the bar at the front. In these darker areas, there's now a dress code of no street clothes. You have to wear no more than underwear, or you can wear fetish wear (leather, rubber, and the like). They have started promotions to get younger guys in. But for anyone who has a taste for sex with a kinky side (leather, rope, spanking, etc) it's a good place to get satisfied on a Sunday night. Check out: http://www.nybondageclub.com/

NEW YORK JACKS (Chelsea/Times Square) Safe-sex party for guys who like to jerk off. They are not selective about who gets in, so the guys run the gamut: all type of bodies, races, and ages from hot young guys to muscle guys to older guys. Tuesdays (Paddles) and Sunday (Times Square). Check out their site: http://www.nyjacks.com/

THUGS 4 THUGS SEX PARTY ( Brooklyn ) Hot party for Black and Latino guys, and guys who love big black cocks. Safe sex only for in shape guys—huge space (2 huge floors), fresh towels and condoms/lube provided, (9pm-3am). It’s a safe and clean place. lots of space. a bit dark but eyes get used to it. http://thugs4thugsex.com/ or email bkthugparty@earthlink.net

DICKPLAY PARTY (Inwood/Upper Manhattan) It's a Men OnlyMischief Night (party at Ed and Steve's), 5PM to 12AM, Held in a private apartment by an interracial gay couple -- this party meets about twice a month is a laid-back mixed crowd of mostly older in-shape guys. Most guys are naked, but not required. The hosts think of the group as being a hand selected group of guys who are into interracial sex and don't have attitudes. It's a mix of guys, white, black, Latin, occasionally Asian, not too young, not too old. Average age is 35-45+. They get about 40+ guys. Yes, the hosts provide condoms, but I hear that 75-80% of the fucking is BB. $20 donation.To get in, Email: EdAndSteve@verizon.net; or check out http://groups.yahoo.com/group/EdAndSteve.

THE NYJOCK PARTY—NYJP (Brooklyn) “NYJP Halloween.” 7pm-3am. Door closes at 4. The host is very discriminating – and because of it the party now has the hottest guys with the most attitudes (the problem, some of the hot guys are very standoff-ish. It can get annoying, and there’s not always great sex: many guys just standing around looking at each other). If you don't have a killer body and face, you may be ignored by the guys you want the most. That said the guys are amazing: mostly 20s-early 30s, and the party is usually very hot. Guys tend to show up late, and the later you go the better the sex seems to be.. Usually have 50-70 guys attend. Usually once or 2X a month. $25 donation. A safe sex party. For a younger/hot crowd.Send pics and stats to nyjockparty@yahoo.com

Friday, October 21, 2011

So, guys, not all the hosts are pissed at me. One of the hosts sent me this great survey so that guys could rate parties for the AGS site. He said that he liked that AGS provide a forum for people as a way of keeping event organizers honest. BUT (there's always a but(!) he thinks we'll get a more accurate representation of an event if you dudes use the questions below are a guide. So guys, here's an example of what a survey might look like:

1) We're looking for feedback about the ____ party, have you attended this party and when: a) yes, within the last month, b) yes, within the last three months, c) yes, within the last year, d) no, but it sounds fun, e) no, not my thing

2) Overall how did you like the party, a) had a great time, would definitely go again, b) had a good time, would probably go back, c) meh, d) I turned and ran

3) Did the party host meet expectations about the type of event and crowd, a) yes, b) sort of, c) no

4) How many people were there? a) over 100, b) 50-100, c) 25-50, d) less than 25

5) How was the crowd? a) all hot guys, b) many hot guys, a few duds, c) a mix of hot and not, d) trollville

6) How did the crowd behave? a) friendly, hot and respectful, b) mostly good, but had to slap a couple of wrists, c) I felt like an extra in a zombie movie, d) I felt like I was alone on a desert island, echo, echo echo...

7) Any other comments or observations (up to 200 words).

If you guys have some time -- and want to give me some feedback so that other dudes can know what the fuck they are getting into, I'd appreciate any feedback. I'll continue to provide my own comments too. You can comment below -- or just email your answers, thoughts, or reviews to me at evanmccarthy9999@yahoo.com.

Sunday, October 16, 2011

Monday... MMX Muscle (Manhattan). Touch Yoga, 7:30PM. Not a sex party, but a massage party…it’s about touch. The hosts says: "however we are a lot of horny guys and we are not going to sweep that under the rug." But no oral or anal sex below the waist. Limited to 20 guys. Host is a certified Massage Therapist. The party is to learn, explore, connect, and play – to learn and get into Massage. They require that all guys are in good physical shape, are clean and take care of themselves, are height/weight proportionate and work-out or are athletic - in addition to having no attitude and comfortable being almost naked (or naked) and touching and stroking muscles with boundaries.To Get in email the host: mmxnyc@gmail.com and check out www.mmxnyc.com.

JACKS OF COLOR (Chelsea) "OCTOBER MASSAGE-&-PLAY MONDAY #3!" doors 7:00 to Midnight, goes 'til 2 am; A New York City Club For Men of Color "And Their Friends." Has HUGE parties 70-120 guys attend, all ages. Hotter guys generally show up late. An older mixed crowd/for average guys. Email here JacksOfColor@Gmail.com or check out www.jacksofcolor.com

MUSCLE GROUP (West Harlem) In small studio apartment. This small sex party really runs the gamut from hot guys to very average dudes. Usually have 4-10 guys attend – 20-40YOs. Have parties at random, but often on Mondays, 9pm-11pm. The best thing about this party is that it's one of the true orgies. At most parties guys are having sex one-one-one or threesomes--at MUSCLE GROUP there is more often than not a pile of guys fucking and sucking off each other. Also cool, because it's FREE. Two problems: You never know who will be there--sometimes no hot guys, sometimes no one but you and the host. A racially mixed crowd/for very hot to average guys. *Send pics & Stats to: BIHUNKGROUP@aol.com

POOL BOY EVENTS NYC (Astoria, Queens) "BANYA MONDAY" Clothing Optional - Spa For Men. Not a sex party, but a hot pool party. The spa has a pool, jacuzzi, Russian steam rooms. Monday is gay men's day: 11am-11pm, and is clothing optional. Check out this site for info on the Monday party: http://www.masseurfinder.com/members/poolboy.shtml

Tuesday… THE CLUB HOUSE ORGIES (East Village). 6pm-2am. Tonight is PEAK party: This dude loves theme parties and has a few a week, such as ERUPTIÖN (primarily for bb); PEÄK (Safe Sex Party); NOONER (afternoon sex); FÜSION (Baseball-style wristbands to let guys know if you prefer ss or bb) – you get the idea. Held in a private apartment. The host (who sometimes participates) describes his party “this is a party for height/weight proportional men over 35. Younger guys come, but they’re usually into older guys. This is an orgy, not a stand & pose cruise party. Racially diverse. A slow night is 15 guys, a busy night is 30. Guys range from great shape to bad shape.” For middle-aged crowd (45-65) out-of-shape guys and their admirers. Check out his cool blog (which trashes me) at http://theorgyguy.blogspot.com or to get in email stats and pics to host at theclubhouseparties@gmail.com.

FOOTMENNYC and TOUCH PARTY GUYS (Gramercy). MOVED TO GRAMERCY DUPLEX STARTING TUESDAY, OCTOBER 11TH (and every Tuesday thereafter). 8pm - 1am. Every Tuesday night @new location. Now an uninhibited play party, Ask to be added to their email list: Tickl10019@aol.com or Check out the website http://www.FootMenNYC.com

NEW YORK JACKS (Chelsea/Times Square) Safe-sex party for guys who like to jerk off. They are not selective about who gets in, so the guys run the gamut: all type of bodies, races, and ages from hot young guys to muscle guys to older guys. Tuesdays (Paddles) and Sunday (Times Square). Check out their site: http://www.nyjacks.com/

Wednesday… MMX Muscle (Manhattan). MMX Wednesdays: DAY group: take some time off WED afternoon to meet sexy men and mince muscle. October 19th at 2 pm until 4:15 pm. Not a sex party, but a massage party…it’s about touch. The hosts says: "however we are a lot of horny guys and we are not going to sweep that under the rug." But no oral or anal sex below the waist. Limited to 20 guys. Host is a certified Massage Therapist. The party is to learn, explore, connect, and play – to learn and get into Massage. They require that all guys are in good physical shape, are clean and take care of themselves, are height/weight proportionate and work-out or are athletic - in addition to having no attitude and comfortable being almost naked (or naked) and touching and stroking muscles with boundaries.To Get in email the host: mmxnyc@gmail.com and check out www.mmxnyc.com.

EXECUTIVE LUNCH (Gramercy). Lunch-time (12-3pm) party. Daytime release for business men and jocks to hook up weekday afternoons, 10-20+ men attend: new added feature is a complimentary massage by our very hot in house masseur. *For Invite: MUST Send pic (shirtless from the waist up is fine) & Stats to: apollothegreek@earthlink.net or check out http://www.hotgaysexpartiesnyc.com (the site is not accurate for what's happening week to week, so check with the host before you show up).

HARD DRIVE (Chelsea) At Paddles, Doors 8pm-1am, open until 3am. Please be height/weight proportionate and if 55 or over please BE IN GREAT SHAPE. Wear underwear or less. Gets about 60 guys. Email here hunteur1@gmail.com or check out www.CumMonkey.com or www.HardDriveMen.com

JACKS OF COLOR (Chelsea) "CHELSEA SPACE WEDNESDAY NIGHT SPECIAL!" @"Chelsea Space" -- doors 7:00 to Midnight, goes 'til 2 am; A New York City Club For Men of Color "And Their Friends." Has HUGE parties 70-120 guys attend, all ages. An older mixed crowd/for average guys. Email here JacksOfColor@Gmail.com or check out www.jacksofcolor.com

THE BEAR HUNT (West Harlem). 7pm-12am, Run by the same people who run The Men's Party. For bears and their admirers. NYC's longest running weekly sex bear party. Bears, chubs & chasers of ALL races, ages & sizes. Sling, condoms, lube, cocktails & clothes check provided. An older mixed crowd/for average to out of shape guys. Send pic to BearHuntNYC@yahoo.com or check out www.bearhuntnyc.com

REAL MEN ONLY (RMO) PARTY (Fresh Meadows, Queens) Slurpee Coach has the parties weekly on Wed eve 7-11pm. For older/average guys. To get in, email pics/stats here: slurpeecoach@hotmail.com.

Thursday… EXECUTIVE LUNCH (Gramercy). Lunch-time (12-3pm) party. Daytime release for business men and jocks to hook up weekday afternoons, 10-20+ men attend: new added feature is a complimentary massage by our very hot in house masseur. *For Invite: MUST Send pic (shirtless from the waist up is fine) & Stats to: apollothegreek@earthlink.net or check out http://www.hotgaysexpartiesnyc.com (the site is not accurate for what's happening week to week, so check with the host before you show up).

MILK CHOCOLATE PARY (Gramercy). HOT BODY MEN'S "MUSCLE" PARTY, 7pm - 11pm. According to the host, they screen to invite men of all colors age 21-45. The Thursday party often draw average to hot guys. If you want to get in tell the host you found the party on his blog or on A4A – not here. To say that he HATES me is an understatement. (I hate no one. I just tell the truth (as best I can) and that’s why people hate me. LMAO.)Send stats and pics to milkchocolatenyc@gmail.com, or check out http://hotsexpartiesnyc.blogspot.com.

THE CLUB HOUSE ORGIES (East Village). 6pm-2am. Tonight is ERUPTION party: This dude loves theme parties and has a few a week, such as ERUPTIÖN (primarily for bb); PEÄK (Safe Sex Party); NOONER(afternoon sex); FÜSION (Baseball-style wristbands to let guys know if you prefer ss or bb) – you get the idea. Held in a private apartment. The host (who sometimes participates) describes his party “this is a party for height/weight proportional men over 35. Younger guys come, but they’re usually into older guys. This is an orgy, not a stand & pose cruise party. Racially diverse. A slow night is 15 guys, a busy night is 30. Guys range from great shape to bad shape.” For middle-aged crowd (45-65) out-of-shape guys and their admirers. Check out his cool blog (which trashes me) at http://theorgyguy.blogspot.com or to get in email stats and pics to host at theclubhouseparties@gmail.com.

Friday... NUBIAN DUKES PARTY (Midtown). 11:30PM-6AM, This party is for HOT muscular, athletic, slim, African-American and Latino dudes ONLY. They also have a strict door policy. Mandatory clothes check: boxers, no shirts or t-shirts.Condoms, lube, liquid provided. Hip hop music with a Dj. Very HOT. Incredible bodies, no attitude and a lot of action. Parties are usually twice a month, usually on Fridays, but can be Saturdays or Sunday nights too 12am-6am. Gets 70-90+ dudes each party. Send pics and stats to nubiandukesnyc@yahoo.com

TESTOSTERONE PARTY (Gramercy). Formerly THE OLYMPUS PARTY. 9pm-3am. Now every Friday. Held in a huge duplex. They have a laughable shirt check to make sure that no out-of-shape guys get in. LMFAO. The party is filled with old, agressive, out-of-shape guys who don't take no for an answer. Desperate for human touch? - give this party a try, otherwise stay home and masterbate. For v. out of shape/older men. *For Invite: MUST Send pic (shirtless from the waist up is fine) & Stats to: apollothegreek@earthlink.net.

THE OMEGA PARTY (Long Island City, Queens). They get 70 to 120 guys per party (Sunday being the biggest night). The parties are laid back, mix/general crowd. The age mix ranges from 20 to 60YO, all races (60% white, 40% mixed), muscle, thin, cute, bear etc. Refreshments , snacks, condoms and lube provided. Time: Fridays open from 9pm to 4am. A mixed crowd/for average guys. They says that they are getting a crowd which is mostly 30s and 40s and is a nice crowd, with a few over 50 and bears and some under 30. Anybody wanting to go to the party should email roccosly@aol.com or http://www.theomegaroom.com/.

THUGS 4 THUGS SEX PARTY (Brooklyn) 12:00-7:00am. Hot party for Black and Latino guys, and guys who love big black cocks. Safe sex only for in shape guys—huge space (2 huge floors), fresh towels and condoms/lube provided, (12midnight-7am). It’s a safe and clean place. lots of space. a bit dark but eyes get used to it. TO GET IN: http://thugs4thugsex.com or email bkthugparty@earthlink.net

ENCORES PARTY (Chelsea). All-men, after-hours party every Fri and Sat night at Paddles from 3AM-7AM. Often attended by restaurant and bar employees after those places shut down. The entrance fee is $20 but if you are already in the space from an earlier party you can stay for $10. The party really takes off around 4AM when many bars close. Gets 80 people on Fridays; and 130-150 on Sat. night (Sun. morning). You don't have to have an invitation or be on a list or anything. You just show up, pay your $20 and go in. It can be incredibly hot, but sometimes it is hit or miss. Check out Paddles: http://paddlesnyc.com/

Saturday… JACKS OF COLOR (Chelsea) Afternoon party -- "EXHIBITIONISTS & VOYEURS PARTY!" @ "Paddles" -- doors 1PM to 6PM, goes 'til 8 pm; A New York City Club For Men of Color "And Their Friends." Has HUGE parties 70-120 guys attend, all ages. An older mixed crowd/for average guys. Email here JacksOfColor@Gmail.com or check out www.jacksofcolor.com

THE NYJOCK PARTY--NYJP (Times Square) FALL FLING PARTY. 10pm-5am. The host is very discriminating – and because of it the party now has the hottest guys with the most attitudes (the problem, some of the hot guys are very standoff-ish. It can get annoying, and there’s not always great sex: many guys just standing around looking at each other). If you don't have a killer body and face, you may be ignored by the guys you want the most. That said the guys are amazing: mostly 20s-early 30s, and the party is usually very hot. Guys tend to show up late, and the later you go the better the sex seems to be. A safe sex party. For a younger/hot crowd.Send pics and stats to nyjockparty@yahoo.com

DADS'N'LADS (Gramercy). 11PM to 3AM, Held at a popular sex party space, this is a safe sex, no-drugs party for guys who are 18 years old on up. Pants check required for entry. Described by the host: "younger guys into older, and visa versa, or guys who are into the daddy/son fetish."Send stats and pice to dadsnladsnyc@gmail.com

THE LOAD NYC PARTY (East Village). Underwear party held at Blue Door Video Basement for in-shape guys. 90 guys, porn, Soda/beer, condoms, play all night long. 1,500 sqft space. For average to hot crowd. To get in email pics/stats to Loadnyc@aol.com

THUGS 4 THUG SEX PARTY (Brooklyn) 9:00pm-3:00am. Hot party for Black and Latino guys, and guys who love big black cocks. Safe sex only for in shape guys—huge space (2 huge floors), fresh towels and condoms/lube provided, (12midnight-7am). It’s a safe and clean place. lots of space. a bit dark but eyes get used to it. http://thugs4thugsex.com/ or email bkthugparty@earthlink.net

SKIN TIGHT USA (West Village). Annual Halloween Costume Party. 10PM. A party held in a club/bar for men who love to wear tight clothing, and those who love to gaze at them. Since 2003, the party has catered to those who have a fetish for wearing tight athletic gear, lycra outfits, leather, PVC, luge, wrestling singlet’s, nylon, dance wear, Speedos, cycle gear, super hero costumes and anything tight (many people do not wear underwear beneath their outfits, so erections are visible but never revealed!). While NOT a sex party, there is kinky heavy petting and making out. Although attendance has reach 100, about 50-60 guys usually attend (20-30 in costume). For more information, check out their site: http://www.skintightusa.com.

OZONE PARK SEX PARTY (Ozone Park, Queens). Held in a private apartment, Starts 8:45pm. Host 30 to 50 guys once a month (usually 35 guys per party with 30 here at a time); big on variety, so lots of different guys: breakdown of 35 guys is something like 10 guys under 30, 15 guys in their 30s and 10 guys over 40. Now only accepting new guys who are under 35 years of age (exceptions made). For a mixed age/average to hot crowd.Email pics & stats to: SexPartyQueens@gmail.com or check outtheir site: http://sexpartyqueens.com/ .

ENCORES PARTY (Chelsea). All-men, after-hours party every Fri and Sat night at Paddles from 3AM-7AM. Often attended by restaurant and bar employees after those places shut down. The entrance fee is $20 but if you are already in the space from an earlier party you can stay for $10. The party really takes off around 4AM when many bars close. Gets 80 people on Fridays; and 130-150 on Sat. night (Sun. morning). You don't have to have an invitation or be on a list or anything. You just show up, pay your $20 and go in. It can be incredibly hot, but sometimes it is hit or miss. Check out Paddles: http://paddlesnyc.com/

THE OMEGA PARTY (Long Island City, Queens). They get 70 to 120 guys per party (Sunday being the biggest night). The parties are laid back, mix/general crowd. The age mix ranges from 20 to 60YO, all races (60% white, 40% mixed), muscle, thin, cute, bear etc. Refreshments , snacks, condoms and lube provided. Time: Sundays open 6pm to 2am. A mixed crowd/for average guys. They says that they are getting a crowd which is mostly 30s and 40s and is a nice crowd, with a few over 50 and bears and some under 30. Anybody wanting to go to the party should email roccosly@aol.com or http://www.theomegaroom.com/.

Sunday… SWALLOW (Manhattan). Oral/JO/Bukkake Party at a private loft. Usually get 40-50 guys: 20-early 40s, all races. According to the host, it goes like this: "We strip down, jack and suck each other, and then the whole group gangs up to bust a nut, bukkake style, in one guy's mouth." Usually meet about once every two or three months, Thursday or Sunday, 8-10pm. Safe sex nonly; no drugs, minimal attitude. The party is FREE (no cover), just a tip for clothes check.To get in send pics and stats to: swallow_nyc at yahoo.com, or check out http://groups.yahoo.com/group/swallow_nyc.

NEW YORK BONDAGE CLUB (Chelsea) 7pm-1am @Paddles. Sex is no longer banned. Sucking, fucking, whatever, are all allowed now at all times. It's common to see guys tied down and fucked. Or a dom directing sex between two roped subs. Held in a straight S&M club, the party scene includes cages, restraints, bondage crosses, stocks and all sorts of devices to aid in tying people up and getting them off. They now stay open later (until at least 1 AM instead of 11 PM) and at 11 PM they turn down the lights in all areas except the bar at the front. In these darker areas, there's now a dress code of no street clothes. You have to wear no more than underwear, or you can wear fetish wear (leather, rubber, and the like). They have started promotions to get younger guys in. But for anyone who has a taste for sex with a kinky side (leather, rope, spanking, etc) it's a good place to get satisfied on a Sunday night. Check out: http://www.nybondageclub.com/

NEW YORK JACKS (Chelsea/Times Square) Safe-sex party for guys who like to jerk off. They are not selective about who gets in, so the guys run the gamut: all type of bodies, races, and ages from hot young guys to muscle guys to older guys. Tuesdays (Paddles) and Sunday (Times Square). Check out their site: http://www.nyjacks.com/

THUGS 4 THUGS SEX PARTY ( Brooklyn ) Hot party for Black and Latino guys, and guys who love big black cocks. Safe sex only for in shape guys—huge space (2 huge floors), fresh towels and condoms/lube provided, (9pm-3am). It’s a safe and clean place. lots of space. a bit dark but eyes get used to it. http://thugs4thugsex.com/ or email bkthugparty@earthlink.net

THE CLUB HOUSE ORGIES (East Village). 8pm-2am. Tonight is PEAK party: This dude loves theme parties and has a few a week, such as ERUPTIÖN (primarily for bb); PEÄK (Safe Sex Party); NOONER(afternoon sex); FÜSION (Baseball-style wristbands to let guys know if you prefer ss or bb) – you get the idea. Held in a private apartment. The host (who sometimes participates) describes his party “this is a party for height/weight proportional men over 35. Younger guys come, but they’re usually into older guys. This is an orgy, not a stand & pose cruise party. Racially diverse. A slow night is 15 guys, a busy night is 30. Guys range from great shape to bad shape.” For middle-aged crowd (45-65) out-of-shape guys and their admirers. Check out his cool blog (which trashes me) at http://theorgyguy.blogspot.com or to get in email stats and pics to host at theclubhouseparties@gmail.com.

The GALLERY OF MEN (Times Square). 8PM - 2AM. The crowd is mostly holdovers from GCN/Studio days. There are four rooms – a sling, some with dark areas where you can go from mild to wild and everything in between; no attitude. Condoms, water, Gatorade, lube, coat check are included. Lots of BB, smoking area within the facility. A party for older out of shape guys.admission first hour, $25 after that. Email for invite: thegallerynyc@yahoo.com

THE OMEGA PARTY (Long Island City, Queens). 6pm to 2am. you can cruise , watch porn , chill or one on ones in their many private booths - . Big Loft playground (6,000 sq ft) with different theme rooms , many private booths , darkroom , porn etc . They have clothes check on Sundays if you want to check your bags or sweaters etc. They get 70 to 120 guys per party. The parties are laid back, mix/general crowd. The age mix ranges from 20 to 60YO, all races (60% white, 40% mixed), muscle, thin, cute, bear etc. Refreshments , snacks, condoms and lube provided. A mixed crowd/for average guys. They says that they are getting a crowd which is mostly 30s and 40s and is a nice crowd, with a few over 50 and bears and some under 30. Anybody wanting to go to the party should email roccosly@aol.com or http://www.theomegaroom.com.

DICKPLAY PARTY (Inwood/Upper Manhattan) “Where The Cut and Uncut Meet” Party, 5PM to 12AM, Party at Ed and Steve's), 8PM to 2AM, Held in a private apartment by an interracial gay couple -- this party meets about twice a month is a laid-back mixed crowd of mostly older in-shape guys. Most guys are naked, but not required. The hosts think of the group as being a hand selected group of guys who are into interracial sex and don't have attitudes. It's a mix of guys, white, black, Latin, occasionally Asian, not too young, not too old. Average age is 35-45+. They get about 40+ guys. Yes, the hosts provide condoms, but I hear that 75-80% of the fucking is BB.To get in, Email: EdAndSteve@verizon.net; or check out http://groups.yahoo.com/group/EdAndSteve.

Saturday, October 15, 2011

Hey guys -- here's another review from my one my regular reviewers. He checked out the JACKS OF COLOR party at Chelsea Space -- which I guess is a very different scene from the parties they hold at Paddles. I've never checked out this party, because it always seemed to me that their door policy wasn't strict enough -- but great to hear that the hot dudes show up late at the party (better then than never!). Anyway, dudes, here's his report...

"Last night, I attended the Jacks of Color party at their Chelsea Space. I’m a regular attendee at their Monday “Massage and Play” parties at Paddles, and almost always have a great time there. The results at the Chelsea Space, despite the warm and hospitable hosting by Lidell, are a little more mixed. The party was advertised as open until 2 am, but the hot guys didn’t show up until after midnight. Before then, it was over 50% old, out-of-shape, desperate white guys: not the kind of guys I go to a Jacks of Color party to meet, to say the very least. I think the difference in Lidell’s parties at the two different spaces has to do with the back room at the Chelsea Space: basically a room with lots of beds and little lighting. The guys who don’t take no for an answer seem to think that the lack of lighting gives them license just to grope you regardless of whether you are enjoying their attentions or not. I got chewed out by one guy just because I moved away from him! And, if you should be lucky enough to find a hot guy to play with, you can be guaranteed that some really sad old guy will break in uninvited and spoil the action by being overbearing. All that changed in the last two hours, when a large group of hot men of color streamed in and brought the party to life. The last two hours were definitely worth the wait, but I think I’m going to stick to Lidell’s parties at Paddles, where the guys are much more respectful, and who actually want to play with guys who want to play with them."

Interesting review (or maybe it's just me). There is nothing worse that a party filled with aggressive out-of-shape guys who don't take no for an answer. Totally pisses me off, and always makes me want to just leave. Hosts really need to watch for this behavior and toss out the offenders. To bad, because it can ruin a party. BUT, I would have been thrilled when a large crowd of black dudes walked in -- shit I would have dropped to my knees then and there and only moved to get down on all fours.

Anyway, dudes, I guess you should hit up the Paddles party (late! hot dudes always seems to show up after midnight or 1am when they leave the bars). I've always heard that the host of JACKS OF COLOR is a cool guy -- and many other hosts consider him the father of these sex party. Not sure this is a moniker he wants, but still I know many hosts admire him. Well, guys, it's Saturday night and I need to find a few guys and get fucked. Have a good one.

Tuesday, October 11, 2011

Hey guys -- one of my blog readers tipped me of to this men's spa in Queens that has a clothing option gay men's night. Sounds like a blast -- or could be. All the best part of the gym without the weights or lifting. Anyway, dudes, another reader checked it out last week, and here's his report...

"Hi, Evan. Great blog, really helpful to find parties. thx. Here's a review of Bana Monday: Went a couple of weeks ago, was there 5pm to 10pm. 10 guys when I arrived, about 25 when I left but people came and went so maybe 30 to 40 different guys total.

Totally different scene from the selective parties, it's a men-only day at a regular spa. Bright lights, no smoking, music not too loud. It says it's not a sex party but by later evening there was plenty of mutual JO and a little sucking. Earlier just discrete JO under the jacuzzi jets -- like it's not permitted -- but by about 9pm out in the steam room and dry sauna too, which got packed 10-15 guys jacking & touching in the extreme sweaty heat. Would have been more fun earlier if there were more guys.

It's a men-only day held at a mid-range spa, not a gay sauna, and has pretty good facilities: steam room, two large dry Scandinavian style cedar saunas (one is really really hot), big jacuzzi and a small swimming pool. Everything except the pool was squeaky clean, pool was cloudy. They also have a lounge room they kept dark for people who like the back room feel but it was mostly empty. Most of the guys are out in the well lit spa areas so it's easy to strike up a conversation and be social.

All ages but mostly middle aged: 3 or 4 in their 20s, mostly 30s to 50s, and a quarter who looked like they came from a nursing home but thankfully kept to themselves. All body types too at every age: a handful who were built or lean hotties who could be at a highly selective party, the rest ranged from OK to waaaay out of shape. At least one-third bears but friendly not pushy types. People wore towels or robes around the spa, naked in the jacuzzi, and in the sauna roomsthe towels came off.

So-so for the sex but great if you like to stare at well-lit cock, enjoy hotel saunas, and have always wanted a little JO in a packed steam room."

Here's the info on how to get in...

POOL BOY EVENTS NYC (Astoria, Queens) "BANYA MONDAY" Clothing Optional - Spa For Men. Not a sex party, but a hot pool party. The spa has a pool, jacuzzi, Russian steam rooms. Monday is gay men's day: 11am-11pm, and is clothing optional. Check out this site for info on the Monday party: http://www.masseurfinder.com/members/poolboy.shtml

Hey guys -- if you haven't heard the FOOTMEN-NYC/TOUCH PARTY, which was usually held at bars (and not officially a sex party) has gone full monty with their new locale at my favorite space (LOL): The Gramercy Duplex! So starting tonight -- TUES, OCT 11, 8pm - 1am (and every Tuesday thereafter) -- the party is an uninhibited play sex party with condoms, lube and all. My favorite part of their email where all the pics of the Gramercy Duplex -- in case you guys wondered what it looked like. I'll post them below -- omitting the very indiscreet pic they provided of the front door (dudes?!?).

Here's their email

"FOOTMENNYC/TOUCH HOUSE PARTY FEATURES:

New COMPLETELY PRIVATE (Uninhibited play permitted just like Grand Space)Split level Duplex (details below)18+ Party (Join us, College Men!)FREE MANDATORY shoe checkOPTIONAL coat/bag/clothes checkBYOB (water, provided all night)Snacks provided as long as supplies lastRefrigerator available for brought beveragesMassage providers

MORE INFO:

OUR NEW HOME is an AMAZING, COMPLETELY PRIVATE and very comfortable Duplex Apartment on the 5th floor; Kitchen, lounge and mingle space on the main floor, with room for massage and casual fun. Bedroom Loft upstairs for more sexual play and privacy (Condoms & lube provided)."

Good luck guys in your new location -- I wish you all success - and have fun!

Monday, October 10, 2011

Hey dudes -- You know I really was ready to put the continued ugliness of the Gramercy Duplex behind. I seriously waited two days with no email, and was concerned -- I thought I would want to know -- so I posted the note from my blog reader. Even some of the hosts who like me complained that I was too quick to post something unsubstaniated, but I kept thinking that I would want to know. Anyway, thanks for all the positive emails (like the one below) -- which also includes a review of PRIVATE PARTY. Check out what he has to says...

"hi evan, i know that you are a very busy guy but i thought i would drop you a note to express my feelings as well as give you a review.

Recently on your blog you were beat up by your critics. I found it most unfair and unwarranted. You were only reporting info that was given to you . I highly respected the fact that you printed the whole letter and equally impressed that you did not go toe to toes with this group. Your response was perfect. Your blog gives a great service to those out there who are looking for entertainment . I ran a blog in Florida and i know how time consuming it is. You will never please everyone , so just do what you feel is right and keep up the good work. Through you i have found several good group, meet new people and have had a blast. I was invited to your party , oh well. I dont know if you you get to all or any of theses parties but he is a review of one that i recently went to last wednesday >

Private Party: Prosessional/ Social? mixer? private partyOccurance: one a monthPlace: West side 30's

Arriving you will find location and parking very easy . The host is very charming and welcomes you with a very freindly open smile. The host requires new members to go thru a interview process. Although i hestiated at this in the beginning , it really wasnt all that bad. You go thru a 7 minute phone interview first. Everthing is really explained very well so there is no confusion as to what type of party it is and why you want to go. Once arriving new members fill out a 5 question questionaire and are screened by two very handsome gentlemen. If you pass muster , you are invited to stay . Beer wine and drinks are provided. By 11:00 the party is really rippin. There were at least 125 guys at this party and because the selection process is so good there wasnt one bad looking guy there. The mix is great . Whites , Blacks ,Asians, Latinos , tops , bottoms , you name it , it was there. The orgy does slow down a bit. There are no wall flowers here. Everyone participates . Even when i was recovering , i was asked to join back in as soon as i could. WOW. The host provides everything , condoms , lube , drinks , , towel and shower and he goes out of his way to make sure everyone has a good time. Definitly the best party in the city. Please forward to him this message so that he will keep up the good work .

On a final note: Evan , continue the passion of your blog and to those who dis you , go elsewhere , the internet is big , leave Evan alone.

Sincerely, XXX"

Well, dudes -- the email says it all. Thnx for the support guys, and I'm glad you all enjoy the blog!

Sunday, October 9, 2011

Monday...JACKS OF COLOR (Chelsea) "FULL-MOON/HOLIDAY MASSAGE-&-PLAY MONDAY PARTY!" doors 7:00 to Midnight, goes 'til 2 am; A New York City Club For Men of Color "And Their Friends." Has HUGE parties 70-120 guys attend, all ages. An older mixed crowd/for average guys. Email here JacksOfColor@Gmail.com or check out www.jacksofcolor.com

MUSCLE GROUP (West Harlem) In small studio apartment. This small sex party really runs the gamut from hot guys to very average dudes. Usually have 4-10 guys attend – 20-40YOs. Have parties at random, but often on Mondays, 9pm-11pm. The best thing about this party is that it's one of the true orgies. At most parties guys are having sex one-one-one or threesomes--at MUSCLE GROUP there is more often than not a pile of guys fucking and sucking off each other. Also cool, because it's FREE. Two problems: You never know who will be there--sometimes no hot guys, sometimes no one but you and the host. A racially mixed crowd/for very hot to average guys.*Send pics & Stats to: BIHUNKGROUP@aol.com

POOL BOY EVENTS NYC (Astoria, Queens) "BANYA MONDAY" Clothing Optional - Spa For Men. Not a sex party, but a hot pool party. The spa has a pool, jacuzzi, Russian steam rooms. Monday is gay men's day: 11am-11pm, and is clothing optional.Check out this site for info on the Monday party: http://www.masseurfinder.com/members/poolboy.shtml

Tuesday…INDULGE (Secaucus). 6pm. Group NJ is private no attitude sex group for in-shape men. Meet at various lofts, hotel rooms, houses or other spaces in Northern NJ. Parties are held on weekends & weekdays at lunchtime, after work, and evenings. Guys are prescreened through an approval process and include all types and ages.To apply for membership, check out this website: http://www.indulgegroup4men.com

THE CLUB HOUSE ORGIES (East Village). 6pm-2am. Tonight is PEAK party: This dude loves theme parties and has a few a week, such as ERUPTIÖN (primarily for bb); PEÄK (Safe Sex Party); NOONER (afternoon sex); FÜSION (Baseball-style wristbands to let guys know if you prefer ss or bb) – you get the idea. Held in a private apartment. The host (who sometimes participates) describes his party “this is a party for height/weight proportional men over 35. Younger guys come, but they’re usually into older guys. This is an orgy, not a stand & pose cruise party. Racially diverse. A slow night is 15 guys, a busy night is 30. Guys range from great shape to bad shape.” For middle-aged crowd (45-65) out-of-shape guys and their admirers. Check out his cool blog (which trashes me) at http://theorgyguy.blogspot.com or to get in email stats and pics to host at theclubhouseparties@gmail.com.

FOOTMENNYC and TOUCH PARTY GUYS (Gramercy). MOVED TO GRAMERCY DUPLEX STARTING TUESDAY, OCTOBER 11TH (and every Tuesday thereafter). 8pm - 1am. Every Tuesday night @new location. Now an uninhibited play party,Ask to be added to their email list: Tickl10019@aol.com or Check out the website http://www.FootMenNYC.com

NEW YORK JACKS (Chelsea/Times Square) Safe-sex party for guys who like to jerk off. They are not selective about who gets in, so the guys run the gamut: all type of bodies, races, and ages from hot young guys to muscle guys to older guys. Tuesdays (Paddles) and Sunday (Times Square).Check out their site: http://www.nyjacks.com/

Wednesday…EXECUTIVE LUNCH (Gramercy). Lunch-time (12-3pm) party. Daytime release for business men and jocks to hook up weekday afternoons, 10-20+ men attend: new added feature is a complimentary massage by our very hot in house masseur.*For Invite: MUST Send pic (shirtless from the waist up is fine) & Stats to: apollothegreek@earthlink.net or check out http://www.hotgaysexpartiesnyc.com (the site is not accurate for what's happening week to week, so check with the host before you show up).

HARD DRIVE (Chelsea) At Paddles, Doors 8pm-1am, open until 3am. Please be height/weight proportionate and if 55 or over please BE IN GREAT SHAPE. Wear underwear or less. Gets about 60 guys.Email here hunteur1@gmail.com or check out www.CumMonkey.com or www.HardDriveMen.com

THE BEAR HUNT (West Harlem). 7pm-12am, Run by the same people who run The Men's Party. For bears and their admirers. 10pm-3. NYC's longest running weekly sex bear party. Bears, chubs & chasers of ALL races, ages & sizes. Sling, condoms, lube, cocktails & clothes check provided. An older mixed crowd/for average to out of shape guys.Send pic to BearHuntNYC@yahoo.com or check out www.bearhuntnyc.com

MMX Muscle (Manhattan). 7:45pm Arrival. Thaddeus, LMT will teach and demonstrate how to give a great massage. Learn techniques, practice those skills with multiple partners, and get a full body massage too. More focus on neck, back, shoulders. Not a sex party, but a massage party…it’s about touch. The hosts says: "however we are a lot of horny guys and we are not going to sweep that under the rug." But no oral or anal sex below the waist. Limited to 20 guys; Host is a certified Massage Therapist. The party is to learn, explore, connect, and play – to learn and get into Massage. They require that all guys are in good physical shape, are clean and take care of themselves, are height/weight proportionate and work-out or are athletic - in addition to having no attitude and comfortable being almost naked (or naked) and touching and stroking muscles with boundaries.To Get in email the host: mmxnyc@gmail.com and check out www.mmxnyc.com.

REAL MEN ONLY (RMO) PARTY (Fresh Meadows) Slurpee Coach has the parties weekly on Wed eve 7-11pm. For older/average guys. To get in, email pics/stats here: slurpeecoach@hotmail.com.

Thursday…EXECUTIVE LUNCH (Gramercy). Lunch-time (12-3pm) party. Daytime release for business men and jocks to hook up weekday afternoons, 10-20+ men attend: new added feature is a complimentary massage by our very hot in house masseur.*For Invite: MUST Send pic (shirtless from the waist up is fine) & Stats to: apollothegreek@earthlink.net or check out http://www.hotgaysexpartiesnyc.com (the site is not accurate for what's happening week to week, so check with the host before you show up).

INDULGE (Jersey City). 6pm. Group NJ is private no attitude sex group for in-shape men. Meet at various lofts, hotel rooms, houses or other spaces in Northern NJ. Parties are held on weekends & weekdays at lunchtime, after work, and evenings. Guys are prescreened through an approval process and include all types and ages.To apply for membership, check out this website: http://www.indulgegroup4men.com

THE CLUB HOUSE ORGIES (East Village). 6pm-2am. Tonight is ERUPTION party: This dude loves theme parties and has a few a week, such as ERUPTIÖN (primarily for bb); PEÄK (Safe Sex Party); NOONER(afternoon sex); FÜSION (Baseball-style wristbands to let guys know if you prefer ss or bb) – you get the idea. Held in a private apartment. The host (who sometimes participates) describes his party “this is a party for height/weight proportional men over 35. Younger guys come, but they’re usually into older guys. This is an orgy, not a stand & pose cruise party. Racially diverse. A slow night is 15 guys, a busy night is 30. Guys range from great shape to bad shape.” For middle-aged crowd (45-65) out-of-shape guys and their admirers. Check out his cool blog (which trashes me) at http://theorgyguy.blogspot.com or to get in email stats and pics to host at theclubhouseparties@gmail.com.

Friday...THE CLUB HOUSE ORGIES (East Village). 12pm-4am. Today's is NOONER party: This dude loves theme parties and has a few a week, such as ERUPTIÖN (primarily for bb); PEÄK (Safe Sex Party); NOONER(afternoon sex); FÜSION (Baseball-style wristbands to let guys know if you prefer ss or bb) – you get the idea. Held in a private apartment. The host (who sometimes participates) describes his party “this is a party for height/weight proportional men over 35. Younger guys come, but they’re usually into older guys. This is an orgy, not a stand & pose cruise party. Racially diverse. A slow night is 15 guys, a busy night is 30. Guys range from great shape to bad shape.” For middle-aged crowd (45-65) out-of-shape guys and their admirers. Check out his cool blog (which trashes me) at http://theorgyguy.blogspot.com or to get in email stats and pics to host at theclubhouseparties@gmail.com.

FOREVER FISTING PARTY (Chelsea) Open door policy, every 2nd Wednesday at "Chelsea Space" – Contact Cain at MasterCainB@yahoo.com or check outwww.ffslingers.com or http://mrcainb.wordpress.com.

TESTOSTERONE PARTY (Gramercy). Formerly THE OLYMPUS PARTY. 9pm-3am. Now every Friday. Held in a huge duplex. They have a laughable shirt check to make sure that no out-of-shape guys get in. LMFAO. The party is filled with old, agressive, out-of-shape guys who don't take no for an answer. Desperate for human touch? - give this party a try, otherwise stay home and masterbate. For v. out of shape/older men.*For Invite: MUST Send pic (shirtless from the waist up is fine) & Stats to: apollothegreek@earthlink.net.

THE OMEGA PARTY (Long Island City, Queens). They get 70 to 120 guys per party (Sunday being the biggest night). The parties are laid back, mix/general crowd. The age mix ranges from 20 to 60YO, all races (60% white, 40% mixed), muscle, thin, cute, bear etc. Refreshments , snacks, condoms and lube provided. Time: Fridays open from 9pm to 4am. A mixed crowd/for average guys. They says that they are getting a crowd which is mostly 30s and 40s and is a nice crowd, with a few over 50 and bears and some under 30.Anybody wanting to go to the party should email roccosly@aol.com or http://www.theomegaroom.com/.

THUGS 4 THUGS SEX PARTY (Brooklyn) 12:00-7:00am. Hot party for Black and Latino guys, and guys who love big black cocks. Safe sex only for in shape guys—huge space (2 huge floors), fresh towels and condoms/lube provided, (12midnight-7am). It’s a safe and clean place. lots of space. a bit dark but eyes get used to it. TO GET IN: http://thugs4thugsex.com or email bkthugparty@earthlink.net

ENCORES PARTY (Chelsea). All-men, after-hours party every Fri and Sat night at Paddles from 3AM-7AM. Often attended by restaurant and bar employees after those places shut down. The entrance fee is $20 but if you are already in the space from an earlier party you can stay for $10. The party really takes off around 4AM when many bars close. Gets 80 people on Fridays; and 130-150 on Sat. night (Sun. morning). You don't have to have an invitation or be on a list or anything. You just show up, pay your $20 and go in. It can be incredibly hot, but sometimes it is hit or miss. Check out Paddles: http://paddlesnyc.com/

Saturday…THE NYJOCK PARTY--NYJP (Gramercy) 10pm-4am. The host is very discriminating -- andbecause of it the party now has the hottest guys with the most attitudes (the problem, some of the hot guys are very standoff-ish. It can get annoying, and there’s not always great sex: many guys just standing around looking at each other). If you don't have a killer body and face, you may be ignored by the guys you want the most. That said the guys are amazing: mostly 20s-early 30s, and the party is usually very hot. Guys tend to show up late, and the later you go the better the sex seems to be.. Usually have 50-70+ guys attend. A safe sex party. For a younger/hot crowd.Send pics and stats to nyjockparty@yahoo.com

THE LOAD NYC PARTY (East Village). Underwear party held at Blue Door Video Basement for in-shape guys. 90 guys, porn, Soda/beer, condoms, play all night long. 1,500 sqft space. For average to hot crowd. To get in email pics/stats to Loadnyc@aol.com

FOREVER FISTING PARTY (Chelsea) Open door policy, every 2nd Wednesday at "Chelsea Space" – Contact Cain at MasterCainB@yahoo.com or check outwww.ffslingers.com or http://mrcainb.wordpress.com.

DICKPLAY PARTY (Inwood/Upper Manhattan) "We're Into Multiple Partners" (party at Ed and Steve's), 8PM to 2AM. Held in a private apartment by an interracial gay couple -- this party meets about twice a month is a laid-back mixed crowd of mostly older in-shape guys. Most guys are naked, but not required. The hosts think of the group as being a hand selected group of guys who are into interracial sex and don't have attitudes. It's a mix of guys, white, black, Latin, occasionally Asian, not too young, not too old. Average age is 35-45+. They get about 40+ guys. Yes, the hosts provide condoms, but I hear that 75-80% of the fucking is BB.To get in, Email: EdAndSteve@verizon.net; or check out http://groups.yahoo.com/group/EdAndSteve.

NUBIAN DUKES PARTY (Midtown). 11:30PM-6AM, This party is for HOT muscular, athletic, slim, African-American and Latino dudes ONLY. They also have a strict door policy. Mandatory clothes check: boxers, no shirts or t-shirts.Condoms, lube, liquid provided. Hip hop music with a Dj. Very HOT. Incredible bodies, no attitude and a lot of action. Gets 70-90+ dudes each party. Send pics and stats to nubiandukesnyc@yahoo.com

THUGS 4 THUG SEX PARTY (Brooklyn) 9:00pm-3:00am. Hot party for Black and Latino guys, and guys who love big black cocks. Safe sex only for in shape guys—huge space (2 huge floors), fresh towels and condoms/lube provided, (12midnight-7am). It’s a safe and clean place. lots of space. a bit dark but eyes get used to it. http://thugs4thugsex.com/ or email bkthugparty@earthlink.net

SPAM PARTY (Brooklyn). Not a M4M party, but may interest the more adventurous of you: A play party where dykes, fags, bisexuals and tansgendered folks get together for a sexually charged underwear party. 11pm-4am, Admission: $10 women/trans, $20 men, student's 18-22 w/valid id FREE! Mandatory Pants Check Down To Your Underwear.Check out the parties at http://www..submitparty.com. If you have questions, please email Red@submitparty.com.

THE BEAR HUNT (West Harlem). 10pm-2am, Run by the same people who run The Men's Party. For bears and their admirers. NYC's longest running weekly sex bear party. Bears, chubs & chasers of ALL races, ages & sizes. Sling, condoms, lube, cocktails & clothes check provided. An older mixed crowd/for average to out of shape guys.Send pic to BearHuntNYC@yahoo.com or check out www.bearhuntnyc.com

ENCORES PARTY (Chelsea). All-men, after-hours party every Fri and Sat night at Paddles from 3AM-7AM. Often attended by restaurant and bar employees after those places shut down. The entrance fee is $20 but if you are already in the space from an earlier party you can stay for $10. The party really takes off around 4AM when many bars close. Gets 80 people on Fridays; and 130-150 on Sat. night (Sun. morning). You don't have to have an invitation or be on a list or anything. You just show up, pay your $20 and go in. It can be incredibly hot, but sometimes it is hit or miss. Check out Paddles: http://paddlesnyc.com/

THE OMEGA PARTY (Long Island City, Queens). They get 70 to 120 guys per party (Sunday being the biggest night). The parties are laid back, mix/general crowd. The age mix ranges from 20 to 60YO, all races (60% white, 40% mixed), muscle, thin, cute, bear etc. Refreshments , snacks, condoms and lube provided. Time: Sundays open 6pm to 2am. A mixed crowd/for average guys. They says that they are getting a crowd which is mostly 30s and 40s and is a nice crowd, with a few over 50 and bears and some under 30.Anybody wanting to go to the party should email roccosly@aol.com or http://www.theomegaroom.com/.

Sunday…NEW YORK BONDAGE CLUB (Chelsea) 7pm-1am @Paddles. Sex is no longer banned. Sucking, fucking, whatever, are all allowed now at all times. It's common to see guys tied down and fucked. Or a dom directing sex between two roped subs. Held in a straight S&M club, the party scene includes cages, restraints, bondage crosses, stocks and all sorts of devices to aid in tying people up and getting them off. They now stay open later (until at least 1 AM instead of 11 PM) and at 11 PM they turn down the lights in all areas except the bar at the front. In these darker areas, there's now a dress code of no street clothes. You have to wear no more than underwear, or you can wear fetish wear (leather, rubber, and the like). They have started promotions to get younger guys in. But for anyone who has a taste for sex with a kinky side (leather, rope, spanking, etc) it's a good place to get satisfied on a Sunday night. Check out: http://www.nybondageclub.com/

NEW YORK JACKS (Chelsea/Times Square) Safe-sex party for guys who like to jerk off. They are not selective about who gets in, so the guys run the gamut: all type of bodies, races, and ages from hot young guys to muscle guys to older guys. Tuesdays (Paddles) and Sunday (Times Square). Check out their site: http://www.nyjacks.com/

THUGS 4 THUGS SEX PARTY ( Brooklyn ) Hot party for Black and Latino guys, and guys who love big black cocks. Safe sex only for in shape guys—huge space (2 huge floors), fresh towels and condoms/lube provided, (9pm-3am). It’s a safe and clean place. lots of space. a bit dark but eyes get used to it. http://thugs4thugsex.com/ or email bkthugparty@earthlink.net

THE CLUB HOUSE ORGIES (East Village). 8pm-2am. Tonight is ERUPTOIN party: This dude loves theme parties and has a few a week, such as ERUPTIÖN (primarily for bb); PEÄK (Safe Sex Party); NOONER(afternoon sex); FÜSION (Baseball-style wristbands to let guys know if you prefer ss or bb) – you get the idea. Held in a private apartment. The host (who sometimes participates) describes his party “this is a party for height/weight proportional men over 35. Younger guys come, but they’re usually into older guys. This is an orgy, not a stand & pose cruise party. Racially diverse. A slow night is 15 guys, a busy night is 30. Guys range from great shape to bad shape.” For middle-aged crowd (45-65) out-of-shape guys and their admirers. Check out his cool blog (which trashes me) at http://theorgyguy.blogspot.com or to get in email stats and pics to host at theclubhouseparties@gmail.com.

THE OMEGA PARTY (Long Island City, Queens). 6pm to 2am. you can cruise , watch porn , chill or one on ones in their many private booths - . Big Loft playground (6,000 sq ft) with different theme rooms , many private booths , darkroom , porn etc . They have clothes check on Sundays if you want to check your bags or sweaters etc. They get 70 to 120 guys per party. The parties are laid back, mix/general crowd. The age mix ranges from 20 to 60YO, all races (60% white, 40% mixed), muscle, thin, cute, bear etc. Refreshments , snacks, condoms and lube provided. A mixed crowd/for average guys. They says that they are getting a crowd which is mostly 30s and 40s and is a nice crowd, with a few over 50 and bears and some under 30.Anybody wanting to go to the party should email roccosly@aol.com or http://www.theomegaroom.com.