to submitters or post creepy comments.
Unsolicited sexual overtures can be disturbing.
If you get any such private messages and would like to report the offender, you should message the mods of /r/reddit.com (the admins) with a link to the offending message--harassment is against the sitewide rules.

Replying with something nasty instead of reporting just makes more work for the mods, who will be more inclined to ban both of you instead of just the aggressor.
Spammers are posting for attention too; if you don't want to see the same picture dozens of times, don't comment and just report the post instead.

It would be good to see your hair and what it's like, but from what you can see, your face is good looking. They are smiling at you and looking at you for that reason.
Don't like the scarf though, bit la de da theatre.

Again hard to tell about the hair, pic not the clearest, but the description you gave is good, I think slightly messy hair would work well. I like messy hair on men if they can pull it off. You can!
You need to start realising that you are good looking and build that self esteem up/confidence up. I'm surprised some girls haven't made it obvious that they like you, but that could be because you're unapproachable, if you think they're acting all strange, then you are going to give vibes of 'go away, whatcha staring at!' Also, they probably do and you just don't see it because you think you're odd. You don't look odd.
I'm glad that scarf is gone, phew, but it is time for you to start approaching women, because most, if not all, will be flattered. Some could be rude but that's some people for you.
Get out there and start enjoying your life.

p.s I'm glad you went and made that bed and that you're not telling me fibs.

Motivational speaker? Far too serious for me. Although I do work with kids and i guess this has made me want people to realise that everyone needs to be appreciated or complimented and that doesn't mean lying but when you see a strength you tell them and not just think it. I have had kids aged 5/6 thinking and telling me they are ugly when they are lovely looking kids, where do they get that from at such an early age? I dunno, parents? media? or that they are rubbish at things, low confidence/esteem. It is important for them to believe in themselves and not to become the teenagers and adults that we find on here today. I have gone on my high horse, my apologies.

p.s have you considered a bed maker, they must exists on ebay or gumtree, a man/woman comes along makes the bed for ya.