Post Oconee

Post Test Oconee

Instructions: This survey is about relationships. The information you give will be used to evaluate the Relationship Education Project and to improve dating violence programs for other students.
The answers you give will be confidential. No one will know what you write. Answer the questions based on your HONEST opinions. Your feedback is used to create better programs for students!

Relationships

Instructions: The next 16 questions ask you to think about various things that might happen in a relationship, and to rate them on a scale from healthy to abusive. We are asking you for YOUR OPINIONS about relationships IN GENERAL, not about your ACTUAL experiences.
Please read each statement carefully before answering.

1. Your partner tells you how special you are and how much they care about you.*

Healthy

Somewhat Healthy

Unhealthy

Somewhat Abusive

Abusive

Unsure

2. If you have a disagreement, your partner uses the silent treatment and won’t talk to you for days.*

4. Your partner says you don’t really love them because you want to go to a movie with a friend instead of spending time alone with them.*

Healthy

Somewhat Healthy

Unhealthy

Somewhat Abusive

Abusive

Unsure

5. You always feel like your partner’s wishes and goals come first.*

Healthy

Somewhat Healthy

Unhealthy

Somewhat Abusive

Abusive

Unsure

6. Your partner threatens to tell other people about your sex life or share private pics or texts.*

Healthy

Somewhat Healthy

Unhealthy

Somewhat Abusive

Abusive

Unsure

7. You had a really good day and can’t wait to tell your partner because you know they will be excited to hear about it.*

Healthy

Somewhat Healthy

Unhealthy

Somewhat Abusive

Abusive

Unsure

8. Your partner gives you gifts but demands something in return, like money or sexual acts.*

Healthy

Somewhat Healthy

Unhealthy

Somewhat Abusive

Abusive

Unsure

9. Your partner texts you more than you want them to and gets angry if you don’t respond.*

Healthy

Somewhat Healthy

Unhealthy

Somewhat Abusive

Abusive

Unsure

10. You and your partner feel like you can share things with each other, but you also feel like you can keep some things private.*

Healthy

Somewhat Healthy

Unhealthy

Somewhat Abusive

Abusive

Unsure

11. Your partner uses physical force during an argument to stop you from leaving.*

Healthy

Somewhat Healthy

Unhealthy

Somewhat Abusive

Abusive

Unsure

12. Your partner tries to change the way you dress or express yourself.*

Healthy

Somewhat Healthy

Unhealthy

Somewhat Abusive

Abusive

Unsure

13. You’re more likely to trust your partner if you have access to their cell phone and social media accounts.*

Healthy

Somewhat Healthy

Unhealthy

Somewhat Abusive

Abusive

Unsure

14. You feel safe to voice your opinion in a disagreement.*

Healthy

Somewhat Healthy

Unhealthy

Somewhat Abusive

Abusive

Unsure

15. You and your partner disagree and argue often, but you are usually able to reach a compromise.*

Healthy

Somewhat Healthy

Unhealthy

Somewhat Abusive

Abusive

Unsure

16. Your partner becomes suspicious or jealous if you are hanging out with certain people.*

Healthy

Somewhat Healthy

Unhealthy

Somewhat Abusive

Abusive

Unsure

Dating violence prevalence

Instructions: The next questions are about dating relationships. By dating, we mean a relationship with a boy or a girl who you are "going out with," "dating," or
have had that kind of relationship with. This includes anyone who is or was your boyfriend or girlfriend, where you liked someone and they liked you back.

17. Are you currently dating someone?*

Yes

No

I don't know

18. Have you dated someone in the past year?*

Yes

No

I don't know

If you answered “yes” to QUESTION 17 OR 18, please continue answering the following questions, 19-32.
If you did not answer “yes” to QUESTION 17 OR 18, SKIP to QUESTION 33/Evaluation questions at the end of the survey.

Instructions: The next 8 questions ask you about how often things may have happened with the person you are currently dating, or with the person you dated in the past year. As a guide, use the following scale:
NEVER means this has never happened in your relationship
SELDOM means this has happened only 1-2 times in your relationship
SOMETIMES means this has happened about 3-5 times in your relationship
OFTEN means this has happened 6 times or more in your relationship

The following statements describe how safe your relationship felt. Please indicate how often you...

29. ...felt afraid of being seriously hurt by him/her?

Never

Seldom

Sometimes

Often

30. ...think that he/she felt afraid of being seriously hurt by you?

Never

Seldom

Sometimes

Often

The following questions ask about the times you have been physically hurt in your relationship. “Hurt” means you could still feel pain in your body the next day. You are also hurt when you have a bruise, a cut that bleeds, or a broken bone. Please indicate how often...

31. ...you have been physically hurt by him/her?

Never

Seldom

Sometimes

Often

32. ....you yourself physically hurt him/her?

Never

Seldom

Sometimes

Often

Evaluation Questions

You’re almost finished!
Instructions: Read the categories and circle the number for your answer.

33. Do you know a friend or peer who has been physically, emotionally, or sexually harmed by a dating partner? (If “yes,” go to Question 34. If “no,” SKIP to Question 35.)*

Yes

No

34. (SKIP if you did not answer “yes” to Question 33) Have you told a trusted adult about your friend or peer’s experiences?