I would suggest starting slow by asking friends or family members to introduce you to someone new every once in a while just so you can practice talking to people. Remind yourself that most people are friendly, so don’t hold back from talking to a kind stranger. Don’t throw yourself into large social situations until you know you can be at ease with them.

I talk to everybody,as long as they follow the conversation,thats a way to be less “shy”…so for new people you have new topics,also be updated about things that are relevant to the other person to make a good chat

I have a different outlook on this –
I am very picky about who I let into my life. Been hurt enough times, had too many insincere invitations to “go out sometime” etc.

You can tell pretty quick who is real or not and who is a good person and who isn’t. If someone seems genuinely good, associate with them. If it comes to be that they hang out with icky people, avoid the person.

There are introverts and extroverts. Extroverts thrive off social settings. Introverts (like me) can handle social settings only in small doses. Even after a fun day or friendly chat with someone I care about, I still need to be alone and “recharge”.

Not everyone is cut out for an intense social life. it is not a bad thing. If you have even one person you can really call a “friend” you are doing well. Quality over quantity. Besides that, if you are in a clique and piss off one of them, you could lose all those friends.

While in college it’s always a great idea to join clubs and organizations. When you join a club that interests you, you automatically know that the people who are in the club have the same interests as you. It’s a great way to make friends!

Thanks, In Fact I Am In Two Clubs. In The Fashion Related Theres Only Three People Including Myself. The Other One Is Volunteering Related And Theres Many Kids From Different Grades And Different Interests So Its Difficult. I Know How To Make I Just Want To Go Out A Lot More.