"I literally blossom when I feel seen. It is a precious treat
for me to be witnessed in my entirety. It helps me accept myself as I am."

"I come to Kailani’s Connection Oasis workshops to slow down, to get in touch with myself and my sanity. Being with others who are relaxed and present really helps that."

"I come to Kailani’s Connection Oasis workshops to slow down, to get in touch with myself and my sanity. Being with others who are relaxed and present really helps that."

"I need touch like air, but being a busy single woman I have found it hard to find sweet non-sexual touch in my world. So I have been coming to Connection Oasis to share safe healing touch with good people. "

"I love being held. And I haven’t had much of that in years. So when I discovered Kailani’s Oasis events, I was overjoyed to experience holding another and being held with no agenda or expectations."

"I love being held. And I haven’t had much of that in years. So when I discovered Kailani’s Oasis events, I was overjoyed to experience holding another and being held with no agenda or expectations."

"All the mindfulness, breathing and grounding practices Kailani has been teaching us have brought a sense of harmony to my everyday life. I pay more attention now to how I move through my day."

Workshops

Life Tune-up Coaching

Couples Intimacy

“When my partner and I discovered Kailani’s Connection Oasis workshops, we were in a tough place in our relationship as we were both craving intimacy and did not know how to bridge the emotional gap between us. Being in her group really helped us rediscover the closeness we lost over the years. Everyone was so warm and supportive. It was easy for us to give affection to each other. Everyone else was doing it! We stayed together as a couple in all the events, and now we are much more satisfied with our relationship. We are very grateful to have our love back.”

-Maria N.

“A friend recommended Kailani as a Couples’ Intimacy Coach, and my husband and I decided to give it a try. The changed came fast. Kailani helped us melt layers of emotional armoring we didn’t even realize we had. She was so gentle and patient in teaching us to really see and receive each other. This is no ordinary therapy. Kailani actually taught us to physically touch each other in ways we never experienced before. Our love making sky rocketed, and we are so much happier as a couple now.”

-Steve R.

“Kailani is a wise and talented counselor. Her intuition is incredible and she has helped me take action to manifest the life of my dreams. She creates a safe and loving environment for real work to be done. I am incredibly grateful to her for helping me create lasting changes that make my life better.”