I honestly cannot believe you guys are still talking about this, I thought this thread would have been dead about 5 pages ago.

My friend's advice, stay away from her. He said she was crossing the line in her actions and that is not something you want to be involved with.

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You keep telling yourself you'll get over it. But deep down you still feel bruised, dejected, angry, sad, thirsty for some unlikely breakthrough. She "friend zoned" you right after you went all-in on your lust. It will take some time to get over that. Temptation, second-guessing, what-if, wishes about different outcome, fantasies/dreams/nightmares about her secret "garden", etc will come at some point.

If you think about it, she brought nothing to catch your interest and she brought problems that you would not want to have any part of. She didn't earn your interest and has nothing to offer you beyond her smile or fake aura. You fell for a mirage, basically. If you look at it that way, it should be easier for you to accept being a fool, but that you'll take this lesson and be wiser the next time. Good luck.