I will see what I can find. It is rather easy to configure any script to check for valid format to ensure that the person atleast enters a properly formatted address. But for it to check if it is an actual, existing address...that could take some major work. Of course if someone signs with an address that isn't their's and they believe is made up, it could be an actual address of someone else and they would still receive the mail. And it wouldn't be checking for accounts that may be on hold or 'locked down' due to the person not checking their mail enough..in which case, the address does exist, but the mail would be bounced back. I will see what I can find however.

Without sending mail to the address and seeing whether there's a human on the other hand to answer you, you cannot determine whether a mail address is valid. Even if you apply the mail header standard, you can have problems, because there are deliverable addresses that aren't RFC-822 (the mail header standard) compliant, and addresses that aren't deliverable which are compliant.

Many are tempted to try to eliminate many frequently-invalid mail addresses with a simple regex, such as /^[\w.-]+\@([\w.-]\.)+\w+$/. It's a very bad idea. However, this also throws out many valid ones, and says nothing about potential deliverability, so is not suggested. Instead, see http://www.perl.com/CPAN/authors/Tom_Christiansen/scripts/ckaddr.gz , which actually checks against the full RFC spec (except for nested comments), looks for addresses you may not wish to accept mail to (say, Bill Clinton or your postmaster), and then makes sure that the hostname given can be looked up in the DNS MX records. It's not fast, but it works for what it tries to do.

Our best advice for verifying a person's mail address is to have them enter their address twice, just as you normally do to change a password. This usually weeds out typos. If both versions match, send mail to that address with a personal message that looks somewhat like:

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Dear someuser@host.com, Please confirm the mail address you gave us Wed May 6 09:38:41 MDT 1998 by replying to this message. Include the string "Rumpelstiltskin" in that reply, but spelled in reverse; that is, start with "Nik...". Once this is done, your confirmed address will be entered into our records.

If you get the message back and they've followed your directions, you can be reasonably assured that it's real.

A related strategy that's less open to forgery is to give them a PIN (personal ID number). Record the address and PIN (best that it be a random one) for later processing. In the mail you send, ask them to include the PIN in their reply. But if it bounces, or the message is included via a ``vacation'' script, it'll be there anyway. So it's best to ask them to mail back a slight alteration of the PIN, such as with the characters reversed, one added or subtracted to each digit, etc.