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I communicate in Thai just fine, thank you. But it's very noble of you to spend your time on here giving us a glimpse into the world of the upper crust.

That is excellent. My Thai will I hope improve enough for day to day interactions, but I know it will never be fluent.

I didn't say anything about the world of the upper crust. What I was trying to get across is that if you want to date someone, then it makes sense that you choose someone you can communicate with perfectly.

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Well if the girl doesn't speak English, then that becomes a moot point. You were the one who mentioned the overseas educated Thai girl, not me. All I was referring to are the Thai women over whom the rich Thais drool and don't need to be a go-go dancer to get noticed.

And you all can write about how many Sumatran wives but the number I always heard when I was there was 3.

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Definitely only need or want one. But it gets a bit depressing when you start being told that the overseas educated, English speaking hotties your Hi-so friends are introducing you to won't date anyone older than 35.

But why should they?

Hi so Overseas educated , English speaking hotties can have any guy they want...

They don't care about the money because they probably have their own anyway

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Any middle class girl, not even hi so, is not looking for a guy over 35. I wonder why this is a surprise to people. Middle to upper class obviously have an education, which usually translates into a half decent career (or in the case of hi so, money coming out of their ears). They have countless rich Thai guys knocking at their door. They don't need to seek a farang unless it is for love, so yes, usually (not saying always) someone near their own age.

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Any middle class girl, not even hi so, is not looking for a guy over 35. I wonder why this is a surprise to people. Middle to upper class obviously have an education, which usually translates into a half decent career (or in the case of hi so, money coming out of their ears). They have countless rich Thai guys knocking at their door. They don't need to seek a farang unless it is for love, so yes, usually (not saying always) someone near their own age.

There are some amusing posts here... Have to give them credit lol

A hiso foreign educated girl will more than likely end up with a hiso rich young man her own age with the familys approval ... + Probably with a 6pack instead of a beer belly...

Almost no chance she will end up with a fat old farang twice her age because whether she works or not after uni she will never need to care about money...

You might get a cute young hooker, but it's not really the same thing... Is it?

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Any middle class girl, not even hi so, is not looking for a guy over 35. I wonder why this is a surprise to people. Middle to upper class obviously have an education, which usually translates into a half decent career (or in the case of hi so, money coming out of their ears). They have countless rich Thai guys knocking at their door. They don't need to seek a farang unless it is for love, so yes, usually (not saying always) someone near their own age.

Yes and some of them have had countless rich Thai guys knocking at their door since they were 15 years old and they are bored with the whole thing especially if they don't speak English and meet a reasonably well-off farang who speaks sufficient Thai.

A hiso foreign educated girl will more than likely end up with a hiso rich young man her own age with the familys approval ... + Probably with a 6pack instead of a beer belly...

Almost no chance she will end up with a fat old farang twice her age because whether she works or not after uni she will never need to care about money...

You might get a cute young hooker, but it's not really the same thing... Is it?

I would say my Mrs is middle class - but moving through the ranks pretty quick so will end up with a reasonable salary (plus many benefits) and a pension probably bigger than if she married an old farang anyway. However, I am 2 years younger than her (28 vs 30).

She is obviously very polite and friendly to all ages, but a romantic relationship with someone near her dads age is a bit off in her eyes. Each to their own of course, but many guys seem a little bit arrogant when they come to Thai thinking they are God's gift to Thai women. It is 2017 now, Thai girls have more opportunities now to, one, get an education good enough to survive Thai life, and two, with advances in technology find young farang lol.

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Yes and some of them have had countless rich Thai guys knocking at their door since they were 15 years old and they are bored with the whole thing especially if they don't speak English and meet a reasonably well-off farang who speaks sufficient Thai.

That is true. However, with a half decent career, or in the case of being a hi so, they have a lot of options under 35.