This 2017 release from Brene Brown focuses on helping to understand the need to belong versus fitting in. There are 4 main focuses (which also create the main chapters):

People are hard to hate close up. Move in

Speak truth to bullshit. Be civil

Hold hands with strangers

Strong back. Soft Front. Wild heart

Having read the book, I’d encourage you to consider joining the “Wild Heart Club” and know that it’s ok to stand out and not be moved; to discover that the wilderness is you – and you have the choice to simply be yourself and accept all that this means – the joy and the pain.