So heres the total, deal my best friend and I are in different school and different time zones. This is not an issue, the issue is whenever we chat, wheter its AIM or on the phone, he ALWAYS tells me what his friend James thinks about what I am doing/say/whatever. and I really don't care what this guy thinks cause its never important. I've told him many times I don't care what James has to say. how do i get him to shut about it.

Chris

Hi Chris!

It is obvious that your friend and this James character are dating. Stop being so judgemental. Let their relationship blossom, despite whether or not they'll be able to get married.

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