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You can also show that you're interested in someone and sense if a person is interested in you without using any words at all. "The four P's":
Presenting. Present yourself in a sexy and alluring manner. For example, lick your lips, trace the outline of a scoop-neck top, or run your hand down your leg.
Preening. Show that you kno...

Touch is comforting and also stimulating. Flirt by touching yourself lightly in a nonsexual, safe way. Primp or preen yourself, smoothing your hair or stroking your own hand, neck, face, or leg. Use an interesting trick based on the psychological principle of modeling -- touch yourself wherever you would like to focus attention or where you...

The eyes are the window to the soul. When you look at someone, you are saying that you are willing to see and connect with them, and you are willing to be seen yourself. You have only to watch new lovers in a restaurant gazing across the table into each other's eyes to know how powerful eye contact can be.
But how much eye contact is too...

Dating is like a dance -- a matter of synchronizing your rhythms (but not backing someone into a corner). Sometimes you can't tell if a person is totally uninterested or just shy or reserved. Make your approach using what I call the "Flirting Flamenco." It has three steps:
The Approach. Make your boldest move to gain the other pers...

What is most people's favorite topic? Themselves. So, ask them to talk about themselves. You've got five W's to consider:
Who. Who's your favorite actor/relative/friend?
What. What's your favorite thing to do?
Where. Where is your favorite place to go?
When. When was the last time you treated yourself?
Why. Why did you come here?

Paying someone a compliment is not as easy as you might think. Simply saying, "That's a nice shirt" is not enough to spark an engaging conversation. To deliver a compliment successfully, that is, to open the door for a promising conversation, follow these steps:
1. Take note of the details. Do this by:
Picking out something she is...

Believe it or not, you can derive many benefits from flirting. For example, flirting can:
Help eliminate loneliness by enabling you to meet people.
Heighten your appreciation for what you're doing and where you are (both the specific place and in your life in general).
Boost your ego.
Exercise your technique for meeting people.
Give you....

Besides just being a fun thing to do, flirting can be an effective method for getting to know a person. Remember the following anagram -- FLIRTS -- to help you get the most out of flirting.
F is for Flattery. The fastest way to a person's heart is to find something you truly appreciate about the way that person looks or acts and then compliment....