Anyone can be a Victorian aged prude, its very easy to deny sexual satisfaction. In fact, its easier to be a Victorian Aged prude than it is to be a "slut" because a "slut" requires the free will of another person to complete the act. If it is not the free will, then they are not a slut, but a rapist.

At the end of the day, we dont call you a Victorian aged prude because we want to insult you, but because we realize that we are men, and this is the 21st century. Just as technology has changed, so have social attitudes for these types of actions. What would once make someone a slut, instead makes them a healthy normal human being with a positive attitude towards sex.

We also realize that, while the fairy tale of waiting for prince charming is nice and all, it isnt very practical. In the days that sex outside of relationships were immoral, people got married as young as what? 13, 14? The idea that as a 24 year old man I should keep it in my pants except by getting into a relationship forces a relationship on me when I dont really want one. What it does, in actuality, is causes me to cheat another person out of what they really want, when all I want is sex. Casual sex fixes this problem, as we all know what we are getting into when we start.

The idea that sex outside of a relationship is just a "different" lifestyle choice is incorrect, it is actually the proper way to handle your life. No one should be forced to be in a relationship (barf!) to have sex. Get your sex, and save your heart and soul for your soulmate, not your penis (as everyone has one of these and your heart and soul should make you special).

MuchMoreThanMuscle saidThe need to start a thread to justify disdainful judgments against other people's way of life is a bit ironic.

What I'm reading is:

"Allow me the respect and freedom to judge you and call you a slut or a whore. There's nothing wrong with me calling you a slut or a whore."

This bullshit is haughty.

By the way, it's fine to not agree with a person's way of life. However, the use of inflammatory terms will do just that - 'inflame' those whom you deem as sluts or whatever derogatory terms you pontificate as acceptable.

There is an appropriate way to assert your position without having to resort to using such judgmental language. Anyone with average intelligence knows and appreciates this.

What is hilarious is that him and his little (huge) sidekick likewatuc will go around saying these comments than say shit like "Its my opinion, if you are going to judge me for my opinion dont come on these boards" without realizing how hypocritical they are sounding.

Stupid shit, these youngings, need to learn their place in the world.

Essentially they are saying "Its wrong for you to judge me because you feel my actions and words are judging you."

They live in this world of "me, me me me" and not in the world of "we"

Anyone can be a Victorian aged prude, its very easy to deny sexual satisfaction. In fact, its easier to be a Victorian Aged prude than it is to be a "slut" because a "slut" requires the free will of another person to complete the act. If it is not the free will, then they are not a slut, but a rapist.

At the end of the day, we dont call you a Victorian aged prude because we want to insult you, but because we realize that we are men, and this is the 21st century. Just as technology has changed, so have social attitudes for these types of actions. What would once make someone a slut, instead makes them a healthy normal human being with a positive attitude towards sex.

We also realize that, while the fairy tale of waiting for prince charming is nice and all, it isnt very practical. In the days that sex outside of relationships were immoral, people got married as young as what? 13, 14? The idea that as a 24 year old man I should keep it in my pants except by getting into a relationship forces a relationship on me when I dont really want one. What it does, in actuality, is causes me to cheat another person out of what they really want, when all I want is sex. Casual sex fixes this problem, as we all know what we are getting into when we start.

The idea that sex outside of a relationship is just a "different" lifestyle choice is incorrect, it is actually the proper way to handle your life. No one should be forced to be in a relationship (barf!) to have sex. Get your sex, and save your heart and soul for your soulmate, not your penis (as everyone has one of these and your heart and soul should make you special).

Once you grow up, child, you shall realize this.

Chainers, the difference between you and I is that I have the free will to do both... and choose the monogamous route instead because I want to retain the old fashioned values... in a society where the new "thing" is to be a slut.

Chainers, it's great and all that you want to get your hole loosened up so wide that by the age of 40, you need diapers.. it's honestly your choice... but don't say it's easier to be monogamous than a slut.

If it were the case, then there would be more monogamous couples out there than sluts..

and since there are more sluts out there... you ge the point.

and your attitude disgusts me... it really does.

The fact that all you want out of a man is sex...degrades you and the other person.

You will grow up, and realize that you wasted your life having 1000 sexual encounters with random men who don't need you anymore when you are ugly....

rather than having 1000 sexual acts with the same person and realize that it's better and that love is actually present in the relationship, so that when you do get old, you are still there for each other.

Chainers saidrather than having 1000 sexual acts with the same person and realize that it's better and that love is actually present in the relationship, so that when you do get old, you are still there for each other.

Grow up.

SO! How is that monogamy working out for you? Because apparently you are the fucking expert with your preachy threads.

It isn't right to judge others for their lifestyle, well unless they are no worth to society, beat their kids, drug addicts, etc.

So what if people want to have sex? Is that really such a crime? Some people don't want/are not ready for relationships.

Maybe you are secretly upset that you aren't getting laid and because of that, you are bitching (seriously...bitching...like a yappy dog) to people who actually get laid.

NOBODY has said they only want men for sex, except you.NOBODY has said they live only for sex (Okay, maybe Paul. Love ya, Paul!), but you have labeled those arguing against you.Having sex outside of "marriage" is not immoral, or degrading to anyone...

One day you will be comfortable in your own skin.

Have you considered asking yourself exactly what "morals" you're trying to live up to? I know you've got it in your head that you don't want sex until marriage (Committed relationship, which apparently doesn't have to be definite. Where's your 'always and forever man' now? ) - but I ask you to write down a simple pro / con list with facts and opinions from both sides of the argument.

If you can actually establish in your own head why this is such an important moral issue, then you've only enforced your own opinion... But I dare say that you have never truly examined why you hold this "old fashioned belief". What does "sex" mean to you? Like, really, I haven't noticed a religious correlation here, so tell me what is sacred about sex? I am talking about the physical act of sex here. Not the deep emotional connection to another human being that is often associated with sex, but that thing you imagine yourself doing when you jerk it a few times a week. That thing you know you crave, but choose to abstain from because it is somehow different if two people enjoy this pleasure together.

Do you feel guilty involving another person? Do you feel shame? Hell, I know you feel shame... It's very evident in how strong your negative opinion is of people that have sex.... but why?

I am not asking you to go slut-crazy. I just want you to take some time and reflect on WHY you think this way. This is healthy for people with a very strong belief...

NOBODY has said they only want men for sex, except you.NOBODY has said they live only for sex (Okay, maybe Paul. Love ya, Paul!), but you have labeled those arguing against you.Having sex outside of "marriage" is not immoral, or degrading to anyone...

One day you will be comfortable in your own skin.

Have you considered asking yourself exactly what "morals" you're trying to live up to? I know you've got it in your head that you don't want sex until marriage - but I ask you to write down a simple pro / con list with facts and opinions from both sides of the argument.

If you can actually establish in your own head why this is such an important moral issue, then you've only enforced your own opinion... But I dare say that you have never truly examined why you hold this "old fashioned belief". What does "sex" mean to you? Like, really, I haven't noticed a religious correlation here, so tell me what is sacred about sex? I am talking about the physical act of sex here. Not the deep emotional connection to another human being that is often associated with sex, but that thing you imagine yourself doing when you jerk it a few times a week. That thing you know you crave, but choose to abstain from because it is somehow different if two people enjoy this pleasure together.

Do you feel guilty involving another person? Do you feel shame? Hell, I know you feel shame... It's very evident in how strong your negative opinion is of people that have sex.... but why?

I am not asking you to go slut-crazy. I just want you to take some time and reflect on WHY you think this way. This is healthy for people with a very strong belief...

first off, I NEVER said I only want men for sex... on the contrary, I have been with a man for 1.5 years and we only had sex 6 months into the relationship... so I never wanted him just for sex... our emotional bond was strong enough to get us together in bed and enjoy LOVE-MAKING.something you guys don't know about..

SEX is different than LOVE-MAKING... LOVE-MAKING INVOLVES SEXUAL ACTS but ALSO EMOTIONS.

SEX is what PORN STARS DO... If I wanted to live for sex, I would be a porn star. But I don't want that life.

Next thing, I HATE having to spend on someone, put in effort for someone and in return they express their love towards someone else.

So, I don't want to play with risk in this case... hence why I ask all my dates to pay for most of the things, because I KNOW I CAN BE LOYAL... BUT I CANT TRUST THEM ENOUGH TO BE LOYAL TO ME.

Which is perfectly fine, IN MY EYES.

Next, when I turn 19, this is what I will do... I will go to bars, and tease people so they can feel like shit for what they want yet can't hacve.

I need to work on getting revenge towards the gay community for shunning someone like myself who believes in monogamy because you guys don't.

like you guysa re fucking contradictory in everything... you claim you are open to accepting people for who they are... yet you bash on monogamous seeking men ...... are you guys fucked in the head? oh yea probably, from all the drugs you do.

_Mohamed_first off, I NEVER said I only want men for sex... on the contrary, I have been with a man for 1.5 years and we only had sex 6 months into the relationship... so I never wanted him just for sex... our emotional bond was strong enough to get us together in bed and enjoy LOVE-MAKING.something you guys don't know about..

SEX is different than LOVE-MAKING... LOVE-MAKING INVOLVES SEXUAL ACTS but ALSO EMOTIONS.

SEX is what PORN STARS DO... If I wanted to live for sex, I would be a porn star. But I don't want that life.

Next thing, I HATE having to spend on someone, put in effort for someone and in return they express their love towards someone else.

So, I don't want to play with risk in this case... hence why I ask all my dates to pay for most of the things, because I KNOW I CAN BE LOYAL... BUT I CANT TRUST THEM ENOUGH TO BE LOYAL TO ME.

Which is perfectly fine, IN MY EYES.

Next, when I turn 19, this is what I will do... I will go to bars, and tease people so they can feel like shit for what they want yet can't hacve.

I need to work on getting revenge towards the gay community for shunning someone like myself who believes in monogamy because you guys don't.

like you guysa re fucking contradictory in everything... you claim you are open to accepting people for who they are... yet you bash on monogamous seeking men ...... are you guys fucked in the head? oh yea probably, from all the drugs you do.

You are a sociopath, a troll, and all around a sort of miserable person at this point in your life...

I am judging based on your posts alone. For your sake, I hope you're none of those things and just a liar.

ThePenIsMyTier saidYou are a sociopath, a troll, and all around a sort of miserable person at this point in your life...

I am judging based on your posts alone. For your sake, I hope you're none of those things and just a liar.

call me whatever the fuck you want to call me, calling me those names doesn't mean I am one of them.

You need to undersatnd that I am not a troll.. I am more real than you can imagine...

Trolls are people. People that have a need to stir the pot from the safety of their cave. People that seek revenge because they feel inadequate.

I posted something very neutral and direct... I didn't contradict myself - but you chose to twist everything I said and turn it toward your agenda - hate. I have no more sympathy and will furthermore not try to help guide this argument in a positive direction.

ThePenIsMyTier saidYou are a sociopath, a troll, and all around a sort of miserable person at this point in your life...

I am judging based on your posts alone. For your sake, I hope you're none of those things and just a liar.

call me whatever the fuck you want to call me, calling me those names doesn't mean I am one of them.

You need to undersatnd that I am not a troll.. I am more real than you can imagine...

Trolls are people. People that have a need to stir the pot from the safety of their cave. People that seek revenge because they feel inadequate.

I posted something very neutral and direct... I didn't contradict myself - but you chose to twist everything I said and turn it toward your agenda - hate. I have no more sympathy and will furthermore not try to help guide this argument in a positive direction.

says the guy who can apparently judge the size of someone's dick from the facial structure./.

how big is mine?actually, you will probably get it wrong.guess what? It's 7 inches and it has a HUGE HEAD.fucker.