In a letter she wrote for Teen Vogue a few months ago addressed to her teenage self, Solange admitted that, like so many high-schoolers, she dove “head first without looking” into phases without being certain of who she really was. And one of those phases was “Rasta-vegan-thrifter-who-is-determined-to-marry-Brandon-Boyd phase.”

This was well documented before her Teen Vogue letter. You can actually catch an Incubus poster in the video for her 2002 song “Feelin You,” of which she has said “I may or may have not have written this song about Brandon Boyd.”

And it turns out that maybe Solange crushing on the band was more than a phase! Last night in New Orleans Solange got on stage with Incubus and performed “Aqueous Transmission” with Brandon Boyd himself.

It’s important to note that Boyd appears to be shirtless in these Instagram posts taken at the show. Congrats, Solange.