Wedding Gift Guide: From you to them

An integral part of the wedding, parents and attendants deserve a gift from the bride and groom to show love and appreciation.

Melissa Erickson

An integral part of the wedding, parents and attendants deserve a gift from the bride and groom to show love and appreciation.

“Gifts for your attendants are a nice thank you,” said Dena Davey, spokeswoman for the Association of Bridal Consultants. “They have shared so much of their time and also made financial commitments.”

And don’t forget a gift for your spouse-to-be.

GROOM TO BRIDE

Lingerie and sleep wear

Why wander the mall when you can shop online for a cozy gift for your honey such as hot shorts studded with Swarovski crystal, “Mrs.” sweat suits or something a little more risqué. $50, www.classybride.com
“Always Kiss Me Goodnight”

A gentle reminder brimming with an expression of love, this canvas can hang over the bed or anyplace else in the newlyweds’ house. Script letters spell out the sentiment while the bride’s and groom’s names are beneath. $30, www.personalcreations.com

Love songs

Go ahead and be romantic. Download (and pay for) the music that is special to you both as a couple. Now she’ll be able to keep you close to her heart always. $15, www.apple.com/itunes

BRIDE TO GROOM

First edition

A first edition book on a subject or from an author that your fiancé enjoys will be a memorable gift that will increase in value. $100, www.ebay.com

Personalized poker set

Raise the stakes with a personal casino in a handsome wood carrying case customized with a full-color image of your own choosing plus name and date. $120, www.americanbridal.com

Decorative tile

Creatively preserve and display a favorite photo on a decorative tile, an artistic alternative to traditional framing. Using a laser print, the tile is frescoed for an aged appearance. Looks great propped on his desk. $30, www.blissweddingsmarket.com

COUPLE TO WEDDING PARTY

Sachet (below) or handkerchief

Thank your bridesmaids with a whimsical lavender sachet in the shape of a lacey pink bra. The gift tag can read, “Thanks for your support.” For the groomsmen, a monogrammed, silk pocket square in your theme color will add a flourish to the tuxedo. $12/$15, www.cookiepots.com and www.josbank.com

Gift of the month

A monthly gift is something to appreciate. Choices range from beer or wine of the month, to chocolate, coffee, flowers, hot sauce and neckties. $30 per month, www.amazingclubs.com

Cornhole (Baggo) boards

Your attendants will enjoy hours of fun playing cornhole on boards made by you. A moderate level of carpentry skill and circular saw are needed. Personalize the frames with a sports team logo or colors. $20 to $30, www.ehow.com provides step-by-step instructions

COUPLE TO PARENTS

Reservations for dinner

After months of assisting with wedding plans, treat your parents to an evening out at their favorite restaurant with a gift card from Restaurant.com. $100, www.restaurant.com

Poem and picture frame

Tell your parents how much you appreciate them with a poem printed on textured linen paper and framed in a delicate lace and rose picture frame. Add your wedding photo for a lasting thank you gift. $50, www.poetrygift.com

Digital photo album

Special wedding memories are at your parents’ fingertips when you capture the best of the digital pictures taken at the shower, wedding and even honeymoon in an elegant hand-bound album. $50, www.snapfish.com