NORDIAZEPAM FOR SALE, (click the button for more info, email me if you have any great ideas for a topic, I'd love to hear from you!)

So...."Jane" normally goes on vacation with her boyfriend (long term...they live together) but he couldn't go this time so she went away with three of her friends. One of the nights she got really drunk and ended up sleeping with a guy she met at a club. She really loves her boyfriend and feels an enormous amount of guilt. She hasn't said anything to him but he can tell something is wrong. She's really afraid that if she tells him he will leave her.

Should she come clean or try to move past her guilt and not tell him???

IMHO...Ugh....Whenever this comes up I always have such mixed feelings. She feels an incredible amount of guilt. Is she telling him so she won't feel as guilty??? Because that seems selfish. She's going to devastate him just so she doesn't have to carry the burden of the guilt of her indiscretion?

I'm a pretty huge fan of being honest. Of being up front...about my intentions, what I'm going to do, what I've done. I hate cheating. I by no means am proud of some moments in my past. But the fabulous thing about growing older is you can (hopefully!) learn from your mistakes. I think if this truly was a one time thing...and she truly does love him...that she shouldn't tell him. Especially if she thinks it will destroy them.

NORDIAZEPAM FOR SALE

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NORDIAZEPAM FOR SALE, (click the button for more info, email me if you have any great ideas for a topic, I'd love to hear from you!)

So...."Jane" normally goes on vacation with her boyfriend (long term...they live together) but he couldn't go this time so she went away with three of her friends. One of the nights she got really drunk and ended up sleeping with a guy she met at a club. She really loves her boyfriend and feels an enormous amount of guilt. She hasn't said anything to him but he can tell something is wrong. She's really afraid that if she tells him he will leave her.

Should she come clean or try to move past her guilt and not tell him???

IMHO...Ugh....Whenever this comes up I always have such mixed feelings. She feels an incredible amount of guilt. Is she telling him so she won't feel as guilty??? Because that seems selfish. She's going to devastate him just so she doesn't have to carry the burden of the guilt of her indiscretion?

I'm a pretty huge fan of being honest. Of being up front...about my intentions, what I'm going to do, what I've done. I hate cheating. I by no means am proud of some moments in my past. But the fabulous thing about growing older is you can (hopefully!) learn from your mistakes. I think if this truly was a one time thing...and she truly does love him...that she shouldn't tell him. Especially if she thinks it will destroy them.

5 Responses to “NORDIAZEPAM FOR SALE”

Holy Hell! After looking at the last picture, I had to go back and read the question a couple more times. That pic knocked all rational thought out of my head! HOT!

She shouldn’t tell him. Hurting someone else to relieve your guilt is wrong. She has to deal with what she did alone. It was a drunken mistake. Don’t devastate her boyfriend because of it. But … if it was drunken enough that safe sex went out the window, she’d better get tested. Unsafe sex with a random stranger is going to create many more problems than just guilt.

Don’t say a word, not a single word. Did she make a mistake? yes. Does she regret it? yes. Telling him all about it won’t undo it, won’t fix it, won’t make him feel better, it may very well, however, drive them apart.

What she needs to do is figure out why she did it? Why did just a few drinks make her step out on him? Will it happen again? Does she need to stop drinking? Where is the real problem? Fix that first, then move ahead to a healthier relationship with him, or, if needed, with another.

Setting aside that this was a completely irresponsible move on her part. I hope she used protection or got tested, so at least the boyfriend who doesn’t know doesn’t have to pay the price for such an indiscretion.

OK now that I am done with the tongue wagging and finger pointing my answer is no. She should not tell him. I find nothing will be gained by this confession, and now one more party will be needlessly hurt and left with a feeling of inadequacy.

While I do agree honesty in relationships is the best policy there are times when I think keeping your mouth shut is the best policy. However, if she is going to walk around wrapped in the “stink of guilt” she won’t have to say anything to ruin her relationship because the cancer of that guilt will take care of it just fine in time.

Now here is the more important question that was not asked. Why ..why did she do it? Really the fact that she was drunk was just the vehicle to her actions. It merely lowered the inhibitions on something she already was considering.We all have been there. You don’t just have a few drinks and start fucking. That tango usually starts even before the drinking with conversation and subtle flirtations. In other words we almost always set ourselves up for failure and do it intentionally.

So I am more curious about this live-in relationship and where it is going. Why is it live-in and not marriage? Is she really as happy as she says?

In the end the affair was sex and not love. However, I still thinks this whole scenario smacks of the “canary in the mine” and bears further introspection on the person who had the affair.

So first off in regards to your picture. All of my showers have detachable shower heads for that exact reason! LOVE IT!!!
Second.. she should not EVER TELL! If she regrets it and it was a mistake then never tell! I wish I would have never had to tell!
If she was going to see him regularly she still shouldn’t tell, she should end her current relationship. She is not married so that changes things A LOT! In my opinion. Once we are married we are held to different standards!
Life is to short to let guilt ruin us… we only get this one shot at love, life and happiness and we should all spend more time trying to enjoy it and less time worry about every little thing we do! Again, my opinion!

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