Hi. It's been a while since I posted and the reason I post is because I went to a wedding with my sister on Saturday. Anyway in the party after a few drinks I was feeling relaxed but I still felt alone because most people there had a partner with them(I'd gone with my sister because her boyfriend couldn't make it) and I get feelings of jealousy when I see couples. Anyway the drink soon made me forget the feelings and I got on the dance floor. One of the bridesmaids was also dancing and she was with her brother, so I put out my hand in a gesture to invite her to dance with me, she just said ''no, no!'', walked off the dance floor and ignored me through the rest of the evening. What did I do wrong? Did she think I was ugly, creepy o'r whatever? What harm was there that I just wanted a dance with a girl? Anyway I spent the rest of the night sitting in a corner alone feeling sorry for myself, and I still feel sorry for myself now

I am sorry Therag. The best we can do is reach out to others and if they don't reach back we have to take this decision of theirs as a choice that they made for whatever reason. I hope you can get to the point where you will be strong enough to just move on when others make these decisions that are rightfully theirs. Good job reaching out though!!!!!!!

Maybe she did have a reason, but I can't help feeling depressed about it because it takes me back to college when no one wanted to be my partner in a drawing excercise, so the lecturer had to be my partner

Hi. It's been a while since I posted and the reason I post is because I went to a wedding with my sister on Saturday. Anyway in the party after a few drinks I was feeling relaxed but I still felt alone because most people there had a partner with them(I'd gone with my sister because her boyfriend couldn't make it) and I get feelings of jealousy when I see couples. Anyway the drink soon made me forget the feelings and I got on the dance floor. One of the bridesmaids was also dancing and she was with her brother, so I put out my hand in a gesture to invite her to dance with me, she just said ''no, no!'', walked off the dance floor and ignored me through the rest of the evening. What did I do wrong? Did she think I was ugly, creepy o'r whatever? What harm was there that I just wanted a dance with a girl? Anyway I spent the rest of the night sitting in a corner alone feeling sorry for myself, and I still feel sorry for myself now

Whatever her reason may be.....this does not say anything bad about you.

Sounds to me like she was just being rude. I can see how you felt rejected and lonely. When I am feeling even MORE sensitive than usual, even a strange look or someone ignoring me can make me feel down.

Definitely she had the problem and not you! Sorry that happened to you. Unfortunately there are a lot of rude and inconsiderate people in this world and we have to live with them along with everyone else.