Kunlangeta

The Yupik Eskimos use the term kunlangeta to describe a man who repeatedly lies, cheats, steals, and takes sexual advantage of women, according to a 1976 study by Jane M. Murphy, an anthropologist then at Harvard University. She asked an Eskimo what the group would typically do with a kunlangeta, and he replied, “Somebody would have pushed him off the ice when nobody else was looking.”
John Seabrook, The New Yorker November 10, 2008

the making of a documentary film

sociopath’s revenge

X makes lists and compiles information about people. He saves anything that can later be used when he needs an alibi or “proof” for anything to get him out of trouble.

When I was at our mother’s home last year, picking up things he had taken from me which he had stored there, I retrieved a stack of steno pads that I’d purchased at Staples. Yesterday I was using one on which to make a grocery list. When I tore off the page to take with me, I found the one pictured below. X’s planned revenge against me for standing up to him. While not listed here, X has already had me in small claims court since the criminal trial.

This is a list of X's planned revenge

You’ll see that the list contains the following items:

Defamation of character

Loss of wages

Extortion $15K

Malicious Prosecution (5 counts)

Defrauding an officer

Libel

Slander

Misuse of company property

I had also found a typed/printed list that was similar, but had a few other items on it, which suggested that X wanted to subpoena my phone records to see who I’d been calling.

While I was at our mother’s house picking up my stuff, I also saw a file folder which contained personal information about one of his former girlfriends. Tax returns and a letter from her employer were there, among other things.

He had photocopied prescriptions given to him by a doctor before having them filled? Who does that? Only someone trying to make sure he’s covered when something comes up. I would venture to say that most of us don’t worry about things like that. However, most of us also don’t have a history of multiple arrests for drug and alcohol offenses.