Setting up an email account on a new iPad 4

Please can anyone help me restore my sanity? My wife has treated herself to an iPad and I have the job of setting up her email account (currently on a PC). I have tried till I'm at screaming point but the iPad won't listen! I should say at this stage I've never touched an Apple computer before in my life so I'm a complete beginner. Everyone tells me they're intuitive but I'm not convinced! Anyway, this is what I've tried:

I tap Mail at the bottom of the main screen to get to the Welcome screen showing iCloud, Gmail, etc. I choose Other, then Add Mail Account. Sometimes, I'm offered the choice of POP or IMAP, other times it just goes straight to New Account. I haven't been able to work out what triggers the POP/IMAP choice; it seems to be random. When I am offered the choice, I select POP which I know to be the correct one (according to my Windows email software it's a POP3 server but I'm not sure whether that's significant). The details I then enter are:

Bingo!! I tried psionic's link first and it worked first time but thanks to both of you (psionic and Bagsbunny) for your help - it's appreciated.

In reply to TheBigM, I should have said in my original post that I wasn't interested in using Gmail. My wife and I have very compelling reasons for sticking with our legacy ntlworld.com addresses. But thanks anyway to all 3 of you for responding to my plea for help.