Hmm, describing myself. I'm kind of athletic. I like to go to the rec center to swim and shoot baskets. I've worked in my house painting business for over 30 years. I like to kayak. I've done some sailing and might get back into it. I have a moderate disposition. I see life as being a mix of what you are born with, chance, self direction and things we will probably never know about. I am independent and create meaning with life. The right match could spice things up. My life is open to creating new pathways.

--I am agnostic in a way that I know there is structure to things but I do not understand the big picture. I suspect what we are experiencing is so fantastic that it can not be fathomed. I find this incredible, scary and wonderful all at the same time.

WYNETTE is a 48 year old, spiritualfemale.
Living in Stillwater, Oklahoma Vegetarian diet.

Trying to live a healthier lifesytle and looking for someoone with similar interest.

Karen is a 69 year old, spiritualfemale.
Living in Tahlequah, Oklahoma Vegan diet.

I have lived in Tulsa, Dallas, Houston, BA, Tulsa again, now Tenkiller Lake. Married twice, 27 yrs & 6yrs. Single since 2012. Would thoughtfully consider marriage. Children and grandchildren all in Tulsa. I do not wish to relocate.

Yes, Life is Good, would be even better shared. Finishing my LPN this year. FYI: Voted for Trump.

My diet has evolved as I experiment with what works best for energy and joints, etc. Eating intelligently slows the aging clock, balances hormones, keeps us upright .. and out of a medical facility. If you are not rolling your eyes, and still reading :-) I’d like to meet this very active, healthy man .. who also loves being outdoors and on the water.

Musical taste is varied. Love most live music, country music when boot scootin’. I describe myself as spiritual rather than religious. Love to cook .. awesome, healthy food. I prefer that you have your real teeth, because I do. I enjoy time outdoors .. getting up on a dance floor occasionally .. fresh flowers .. reading with a cup of great coffee .. merlot or fresh squeezed margarita .. live music. .. holding hands.

And here we are .. optimistically checking each other out.

Karen

questionmarke is a 42 year old, Agnostic / not religious male.
Living in Oklahoma City, Oklahoma Veggie/vegan diet.

The Basics. I'm a silly human being. Which is to say I like to laugh and don't take myself too seriously. But I'm also intelligent, sensitive, grounded, and sincere. I make things with my hands, usually out of wood. Free time is infinitely more important to me than a lavish lifestyle. I like to listen, observe, ask questions. I'm 38, frequently mistaken for 28-32, and often feel younger than that. I'm generally a vegan, consistently a life-long learner, and oftentimes a walking contradiction. I'm better one-on-one than I am in a group. At home or when the weather is nice I enjoy being out of clothes. According to Myers Briggs personality theory I am an INFP (Healer/Idealist); according to Enneagram personality theory I am a Type 9 (Peacemaker). Besides quality time with people I care about, my favorite things are music, movies, books, and exploration.

Lifestyle. I'm in favor of minimalism, a DIY ethic, re-purposing found items, and non-consumption when possible. I like the idea of having a smaller space and fewer things and thus not having to work so hard and so long to acquire and maintain them. It doesn't make sense to me to own a grand home that sits unused most of the day because I'm out working to try to pay for it.

Love. I'm a very devoted person, a very loyal person, a very caring person. I find active ways to serve the people who are important to me. I believe in being genuine, sincere, trusting, open, truthful. I am quite empathic, a wonderful listener, and exceedingly patient. I want to follow as much as I want to lead and I don't have to be right. Mostly all I want is quality time, intimacy, and friendship with the person I am sharing my life with. Is this what it means to love someone? If so, I love well. If not, I'm open to learning better...

Food. I've followed a primarily vegan diet since the beginning of 2004. Every once in a while I add a few things back in on an experimental basis, if I feel good about where those things come from and how they were raised. I've never been a "Food Nazi" about any of this and am not the type to be preachy or cast judgement on what other people are choosing to eat. However, since food is such a big part of life, a partner who follows a similar regimen would certainly make the practicalities of day to day life a lot easier! Still, you never know...

Belief. I grew up in a conservative, evangelical environment. It molded and shaped me into the person I am. It set me on my course and informed my values. That said, I never really fit into the categories they emphasized and today I find myself actively asking LOTS of questions about all of that. My world is not as black and white as it once was. I don't feel I have many answers. Only questions. At the moment I'm leaning more away from that background than toward it.

Sex. I took to heart much of what I was taught when I was young. This included beliefs about sexuality and faithfulness: not sleeping around; not playing around; waiting for marriage. In recent months and years I have been reconsidering those positions and am currently more in tune with my own sexuality and not someone else's opinion of what my sexuality should be.

Choices. It can be hard for me to make a decision or take a particular stance on an issue. This is because of my capacity to see things from multiple points of view; to understand and relate to all sides of an argument. It's one of my greatest strengths and also one of my greatest weaknesses. I consider myself a generalist, I rarely speak in absolutes, and I try not to get pinned down. You may find this frustrating.

Career. I'm both competent and artistic. I'm good at working with my hands and I generally like to work alone. I fix things. I build things. I help people make their living spaces (and sometimes their working spaces) better. But I keep it casual. I'm not a driven, ambitious person. It's all word of mouth. I'm not good at selling myself. Still, I've got more work than I can keep up with, so I guess that's a good thing; but it could be turned into a much more efficient, effective operation and I like the idea of a partner who could be a good balance to me in that context.

Likes (in a partner). Kind eyes. An easy smile. Honesty. Happiness. Playfulness. Sensuality. Long, dark hair. Height. Natural features. Direct communication (the practice of saying what you mean rather than "hinting" at it or "beating around the bush" and just hoping or assuming that I'll get it; there's a good chance I won't). Someone I can play and sing music with and for.

organicfrmr is a 62 year old, spiritualfemale.
Living in oklahoma city, Oklahoma Veggie/vegan diet.

♥....jus lookin' for a friend to hang with. I like to read, make things, and enjoy pets. Home~body at heart, like my garden. I do ride my beach~cruizer alot.

Aki is a 51 year old, Christianfemale.
Living in Oklahoma City, Oklahoma Vegan diet.

I am glad I find this site. I've been vegetarian and vegan for over 13 years. I am now 50% raw vegan and eating 100% raw vegan is my last goal. It has been a lonly jorny being a vegan in Okc but other than that I have been enjoying it.

Luckily, I get to know a few vegan friends today but I have yet to find a special someone who is a vegan/vegetarian with the same value. It has been awkward eating separate foods in the dinner table. there is not much to share about. I hope these days are over and I can meet him through this site one day soon.

Kris is a 41 year old, Agnostic / not religious male.
Living in Oklahoma City, Oklahoma Vegan diet.

I'm a vegan ultrarunner that loves cats and craft beer. Looking for a partner in crime to help save the world with!

Brittny is a 34 year old, Agnostic / not religiousfemale.
Living in Del City, Oklahoma Vegan diet.

Hi, I'm Brittny, I'm a nurse and work at a hospital for disabled children. I'm also in school, working toward being a better paid nurse ;) I'm a new vegan, and a sucker for homeless animals. I have 3 dogs, a bird, and a turtle. Looking to date, and find something that could turn serious. I don't have kids, would love to have some one day and I don't mind if you have kids. If you are interstellar in learning more, let me know.

Kirk is a 49 year old, Agnostic / not religious male.
Living in Oklahoma City, Oklahoma Almost veg diet.

I am a 47 year old multicultural male from New Orleans, Louisiana, currently residing in Oklahoma City, Oklahoma.

I am in the pre stages of converting to a raw/live food lifestyle and wish to be 100% this year. I have recently acquired an extremely strong desire to become vegan and wish to learn and soon teach others about ultra healthy living. I have become a huge fan of the now late Dr. Sebi and others like him and wish to follow thei lead.

I stand approximately 5'11" and weigh in at approximately 197 lbs. I am an adrenaline junkie who loves racing of any kind. I am honest to a fault and I demand honesty from others. I am a former Marine and police officer therefore at times I can appear very militant in how I approach things. (My bark is worse than my bite) I don't know how this is but somehow I'm free spirited yet I require structure. I am family oriented and come from a family that marriage is forever. I wish to continue that trend. Honesty, communication, understanding and patience is key.

I'm first for fun and am the biggest kid in the bunch but am very serious when I need to be.

I am currently training and looking forward to one day teaching street-styled martial arts to women and children. I believe that it will assist in the development of high self esteem, confidence and physical fitness.