Sad News on Aithley's behalf

Tuesday, November 27, 2012

Not sure if i am doing this correctly. But i think it is how Aithley explained it to me. I am her brother Adrian she said she mentioned me a few times so you would know somewhat about me. I never thought i would have to actually write a note on her page, My parents got a phone call from a hospital in Cape Town.

Not sure if she mentioned about going to Johannesburg with her roommate. I forget her name. For the weekend, The girls were beaten and lets not get into details. But their bodies were sent back to Cape town, Aithley and her friend were in coma. They were in life supports, They were doing some tests on the girls to see if it was worthwhile to keep them on life support, Aithley condition she was brain dead and showed no life, so they took her off the machine, and my poor baby sister gone just like that. The room mate still has a chance she showed some life, so there is still some hope for her. Aithley body is planned to be shipped to England tomorrow evening.

She was telling me how great it was working in South Africa, alot better than other places, she has worked, She told me about how she fancied David. I never knew someone like her, she was one of those people that was a light in my meaning, she never had any enemies, there were those who judged her on the outside, but she didn't care she made easily friends, and i see even the time she has been on this site, she has made a ton of friends too. That was my sister, she had a big heart, and now she is taken away from me, She was so happy to be a bridesmaid at my wedding, now she gets no chance, no chance of actual love, or to build a family of her own. My kids would never know how special their aunt was, this news has come to us such a shock, we just don't know how to deal with it, tomorrow when viewing her i believe it will hit us really hard.

KOMAL53
I'm so very sorry to read this Blog--unfortunately I never knew Aithley and never interacted with her---but I can understand the Pain and Grief you and your parents must be going through.Losing a family member is never easy and one so young and in such a manner--is extremely distressing.Sending you all my Prayers and hope that The Almighty grants you the courage and fortitude to weather this terrible news and period in your lives.Take Care and God Bless----May Aithley's soul Rest in Peace!! 1471 days ago

CHANGINGSEASONS
This is horrible. I unfortunately didn't know her here on spark..i'm sure we would have crossed paths at some point...but she was taken way to young. What a tragedy. My heart and prayers go out to you and your family and to the other girl who was beaten. This is all so very sad. Hugs.1471 days ago

KEEPITSIMPLE_
I'm so sorry for you loss. My prayers are with you, your family and her roommate. I hope you can find comfort in the good in her. I didn't know her personally, but it sure sounds like she is very special.

SARALEE11
This breaks my heart!! Aithley was SUCH an encouragement to SO many - even Spark Guy himself noticed, and thanked her himself. I am so so sorry for the loss of your dear sister and our friend.1471 days ago

PUDLECRAZY
Adrian, I am so sad to hear of such a tragic loss for your family. This is beyond horrific. I know your suffering is deep. Please accept my heartfelt condolences. Love and prayers to you and your family.

MARGOMANIAC
Adrian, Mom, Dad and Sister-in-law:I am very sad and shocked to hear that Aithley has died and that the circumstances were horrible.I am the leader of the Wave Runners and Aithley was a new addition to the team in October and a considerable asset for us. She fit in well and made friends with all of us and encouraged and cheered on the others. I and all the Wave Runners will miss her greatly.Again, I wish to convey my condolences to you and your family and friends on the loss of your sister, daughter and friend.May God grant her eternal peace.Sincerely,MargoR> 1471 days ago

LADYANDREA2012
Adrian, this is just so, so sad. I am so sorry for your lost. I will be praying for you and for your family and, please, as Don said, I hope you can stop by, from time to time, to let us know how is it going and to celebrate her life.

RADIANT888
I've just read this shocking news. So sad at the loss of such a beautiful young girl with so much to live for - and broken hearted for you that the end should have some in such a way. She will live on in the hearts of many people. God bless.1471 days ago