Interview with femdom Mistress Catty

A: My name is Catty Heaven and I’ve been a domme for quite some time now. I would say that I specialize in facesitting, wrestling, and cockteasing.

Q: When did all this begin for you?

A: I started in college, when I dated a guy who was into BDSM as a submissive. He told me about his fetishes and most of them really appealed to me. I think many women would be turned off by the sudden knowledge of all these “weird” kinks, but I found them fascinating and was eager to try them out. A while later, he told me I was a natural at this sort of thing.

Q: Could you pick a favorite fetish?

A: That’s really tough, but I think I would have to say that facesitting is my favorite. I’m quite proud of my round ass, and I love the way men stare at it. It makes me wonder how many average guys on the street fantasize about having their face trapped beneath it as they worship my superior ass. (laughs) Sometimes I have to keep myself from being too forward and just asking them right then and there.

Q: How much enjoyment do you get out of it?

A: Oh, I love it. I love the obvious physical pleasure as well as the rush from dominating a guy, especially having him pinned beneath my ass. It’s still work, though. Many of these guys are new and wanting to experiment, so I have to guide them through and make sure they know what they’re getting into, as well as what they’re hoping to get out of the experience. It seems very one-sided at first glance, with the woman getting all the pleasure, but it’s very much something that both parties enjoy in different ways. After all, these guys do keep coming back for more!

Q: How do you like to relax after a day of being a domme?

A: Oh wow, I think in some ways I’d enjoy more of the same! Sitting on a slave’s face as if he were just a comfy chair for me, while I drink a glass of wine and maybe read a book. I enjoy being pampered and spoiled too, so I like receiving manicures and pedicures, or maybe a long bath. I enjoy them even more when it’s one of my slaves who does all that work for me.

Q: You say that you like cockteasing too?

A: Very much! I know that there are some guys who like it to a minor degree, having their orgasm delayed and having some temporary frustration, but there are other slaves who take it much more seriously. Some of them wear chastity belts so they can’t masturbate, and they beg me to hold their keys for them, putting their orgasms under my control. One guy told me he wanted to be locked up for 6 months. He started whining and pleading after only one, but I held out, just imagining how desperate he must be to cum and how sore his balls must be. I made him wait every one of those six months before giving him back his key. After a month of freedom, he came crawling back and asked me if I could do it again for eight months! He’s about halfway through that now, and I have no plans to let him out early.

Q: What sort of advice do you have for other dommes and submissives?

A: For both, I suggest experimentation. Find safe environments or clubs where you can learn more about BDSM and meet people who can teach you even more directly. These aren’t usually things you’d want to do with someone who’s completely unfamiliar with what BDSM is like, or you could just end up scaring them off. Both sides should not only understand what they’re getting into, but also how to safely practice what they enjoy, whether it’s whipping, facesitting, or CBT (Cock and Ball Torture). Once you’ve learned this and are more confident with exploring these, you can find others who really match up with your interests to have some real fun.