One week only: Take our boyfriend poll!

Some girls say they're curious about the other girls who read this blog. Me too. So we'll ask some questions, such as...Do you have a boyfriend?FYI, you do not need a boyfriend. But if you have one, that's OK, too. It's all part of growing up. And even though relationships don't usually last long in middle school, having a crush is a way of thinking about the kind of person you might eventually want to pair up with when you are a grownup.The poll will be up for just one week, so take it now and tell us what you think!Do you have a boyfriend?Think pink!Jemma

I am boyfriend-less and totally, completely happy with it! I had boyfriends in elementary school, and now I realize I wasn't ready for that, so I'm staying single as a pringle! I honestly thought most of the girls here had boyfriends-this polls a shocker to me!

Hi! I need some help. I'm really good friends with this guy. But he's from a rival school and stuff. Last summer, he got my email from guys at my school and like asked me out and stuff when we were at the same summer camp. I declined but we hung out the entire time still. He has little nicknames for me, and he teases me all the time. He hangs out with me whenever we're together and a ton of other stuff like that. We were at a dance recently and he danced with me the entire night. Now rumors are going around in both of our schools that we like each other and are secretly dating. We aren't and I only like him as a friend. I have a crush on a different guy. Recently, we were at a party, and he asked me if I liked my actual crush (who's like my best guy friend). I said no, cause I'm not going to tell a guy that I like another guy.

JEMMA, I HAVE AN IMPORTANT QUESTION FOR YOU,WHERE CAN I SEE MY ANSWERS TO MY QUESTIONS I SUBMITTED IN THE ASK THE PLS,please answer my question, thanks a lot, Beautyqueen, ps, i couldn't fin my quetions so???

I have a question and I really need help!I have a boyfriend and ever since we started dating, we haven't said a word to each other. Everything's awkward when we're in the same room. I have other guy friends and recently when I've been hanging around on of them, my face turns really red, my palms get clammy, I blush (and I never blush!). I think I might be in love with him.

So, here's the question. What do I do? I have a boyfriend but we never interact. I'll feel bad if I break up with him, but then again if I ask out the other guy, I don't even know if he'll like me! And worst of all, I'll feel bad about breaking my boyfriend's heart. Please help! XOXO ~Kitty

Hey anonymous!Before I help you, I want to know... are you worried about the rumors or how to stay friends with this guy? If its the first problem, I know just how you feel, cause I've often been in the same boat too! I guess the best thing is to shrug off the rumors. They eventually fade away after a while. About the 2nd problem... I'm afraid I can't really help you there. I have never been to a dance and Valentine's Day isn't even celebrated at my school. Good luck with your crush anyway : ) I have one too!

I honestly have an UBER HUGE crush on this really sweet, funny, handsome, athletic, dreamy, supportive, kind and a great friend. I literally would give up almost anything for this boy, but I honestly try my best to ignore the urge to blush when I see him (but I'm so glad I'm African American, cuz u can't see it that much when I blush) I try to resist smiling like a goofy idiot every time I see him, but it's hard. Rlly hard. I have had to learn to retrain myself to go back to who I was before I met him, a girl who worked hard, ran straight A+s and never got distracted. Now I'm a girl who works hard sometimes and runs B+s. I realized that I got distracted from my real goal in life, to get into Columbia, to impress this boy. This wonderful, amazing boy. The person who I try to convince myself is any other person. But if he were to ask me out, no matter how much he means to me, I would say no. My work will always come first from now on. I also need to work on making more real friends. I am quite popular, but I want real friends I can trust. First work, then fun, then love. I need

Well that happened to me i just didnt want to ruin our friendship just tell him that we are really good friends and i dont want to ruin that bond between us but dont say it like your shocked say it casual

Well its good to have a boyfriend but its also good to be single in my opinion i think its better to be single cause you dont have to worry about stuff and have more time with your friends but if you have a boyfriend he can comfert you but your friends can to

My bestfriend talks bad about me behind my back. Other girls have told me and I heard my self! She then always asks me if we are BFF. There is this other girl who sits beside me. She is really nice and smart. We always works together. My bf is kinds mean to her. I think she is kinds jelous. HELP!!! I really need to know what to do. : (

Well i think who cates what people think this is your relationship if ypu have thus warm feeling inside then that mean you shouldnt care what people say if people say y r u dating him say why do u cate this is my love life not yours -yvette

Well if u dream about your crush its normal happens to me sometimes it happens because thinking of him but if u have dreams aboug him a lot that means its time to tell him how you feel about him and if he doesnt like you back then its ok because you can stop waisting your time on him

for sevanladyknightssorry i thought i answered ur question but maybe not. having a boyfriend u really love is an amazing feeling. it is wonderful to no that someone loves you. my family and friends have been noticing changes in my mood because of this boy.

I've had a boyfriend for 7 months now. It's not a lot, but still. It's a lot compared to most kids at our school XD I love him, I don't know if I'm IN love with him, but I know that I love him. :) We fight and break up a lot, but take it back within a few minutes or at the most a few days. He was recently hospitalized, but right before I broke up with him but didn't mean it, and I haven't talked to him since. He's been talking to other people but not me, I've sent him a million and one messages, and attempted calling him, but he hasn't answered me once. All the messages were read too. Can anyone help me figure out what's going through his mind?

having a boyfriend is a great feeling. its awesome to no someone loves you alot. i love my bf. (infact he kissed me today) also i am alot happy now than i was without him. but you dont have to have a boyfriend to be happy. sorry it took me forever to respond i keep trying to submit my answer but it wouldnt go.

Ok so my crush finally admitted: My BFF was told BY HIM that he has had a crush on me for a long time- and he knows i like him. My only problem is tht; I thought I would be happy but I actually am bothered as to why he chose me , im not the prettiest girl yes im average, sorta skinny and my friends say im annoying in a good way, i always have some kind of scrape from dance and I tease people alot, im so confused the only good thing is i understand his pain becuz i have been through it to. Help?

I've got a questionI have a crush on this boy who's sooo cute and he's going to be playing Kenickie in our school musical, Grease and I'm playing Patty Simcox. Anyways, at the last rehearsal, we were choreographing a dance, and it was one of the dances we'd be doing at the school dance. The guys who was supposed to be my partner wasn't there, and Kenickie wasn't in that scene, so she made him my temporary partner. The entire time we where dancing, my BFF, who knows he's my crush, kept making faces at me, and making me blush. What's worse is that she realized it, pointed it out, and made other people realized it too, so I started blushing even harder! Now I'm scared that he thinks I have a crush on him, which I do, but I don't want him to know that! If something like this ever happens again, how can I keep from blushing???

Wait, so you assume that we have boyfriends! Even with my limit of 16 years is low! I have experienced a lot in my life and I definitely think that even 12 year olds are NOT smart or mature enough to do something like that. Even 18 year olds. Wow, this actually doesn't suprize me. Almost all marriages end in divorce within 2 years. People have got to teach their children. Do any of these kids have parents who know that they have boyfriends? ! You probably are going to be shocked by my age. I'm 13! And I don't even think if I am smart or mature to even have a crush. I am not saying that 12 year olds aren't smart, it's just the US is slowing down. Life used to never be like this when my parents were little! My oh my. What are we going to do...

Okay, thanks Yvette, it makes sense That is normaldreaming about him and why we dream about him and I kind of like your Idea!, sorry I am sending this kind of late, I had to go to school and come back,and I am just really busy and don't have time to look at it but anyways, Thanks again,thanks a lot! you kind of helped! by the way i had dream about him once, then not for long, thenabout him once again, and then not for long, then about him three times so basically six times,is that normal? sorry this is long!

Annonymous on march 26So maybe ur friend just doesn't understand how u feel about her talking about u behind ur back. Maybe u could pull her aside one day and tell her that you don't like or appreciate her talking about u behind her back. And if she denies it she's not ur bff anyway. And it is amazing how young girls get boyfriends at age 11 or 12 my parents didn't date till they were in their late teens. :c

Wait, so you assume that we have boyfriends!um not all marriges end in divorce after 2 years my parents have been married for i think 15 years now almost 16 years even though they were pretty young so you shouldnt assume all marriages end in 2 years. and one reason is because my parents told god that they would always love each other. another reson is becuase they have 4 kids togather.

I have a sister who's in college and she's never had a boyfriend, or even gone on a date (besides prom). Actually, I think it's perfectly normal... :PI think being in a relationship takes a lot of responsibility and time, and with the PILES of homework, tests, and projects teachers give, it's pretty hard to make room for a boyfriend. That is, a boyfriend in a serious relationship. I don't think having a boyfriend in middle school is a good idea (sorry, people who have boyfriends in middle school!) because they're usually not serious, so you're most likely going to break up. And what's the point of having a boyfriend if you know you're going to break up with them anyway? Crushes at any age are totally fine by me though. Okay, this is long, sorry... :P That's just what I think. Anyone else?

my brothers are really mad at me becuase i was tring to change profiles on little big planet to change into my buffy prophecy coustume and i delted everything, i thought i was changing profiles but i just start a new one and all our stuff was gone. i told im so sorry but they still wont forgive me, i mean they can just start it over again and get there stuff back but they say im stupid and an idoit how can i make it up to them.

This is kind of an embarrassing question but this guy guessed that I liked this other buy and he kind of told him and so the guy I liked wrote me a note and it exactly said "White girls only :| Then we'll talk" I'm Asian and I don't know if I should totally take that as an insult or just brush it off and be cool. What he said really annoys me and I don't even know if I should be friends with him anymore.

that guy is a rascist loser and needs a talking to. he isn't worth your time. if he doesn't appreciate you for who you are, then he needs a reality check. you are a beautiful awesome girl and the right guy will come along some day and he will love you for you

dear LovesMeNot,In reply to you, I will strongly and truthfully advice you to just be cool because you should like urselfno matter what other people say about your looksor race.By the way the boy could've said that for many reasons and some might not have been a big deal or have anything to do with your friendship, since he told you this its okay for youto ask him what you meant yourself, you might want to, it'l help you decide and don't worry toomuch about this!If you don't get it or need an example, you can askme, hope I help! please reply to me, I adviced so many people and no one replied to me I don't likethat so please please reply to this! Thankyou!again, hope I help

To Anonymous on March 28, 2014 at 11:20 PM Don't worry! I'm in the exact same position as u (except I stopped worrying long time ago.) It seven better that he likes you for who you are, not because u r pretty or anything

I don't know if this guy likes me, he comes up to me and he is like staring at me-so annoying, then hes like oh sorry and turns around, then he shares lunch with me, he follows me-annoying, then he says oh sorry, then he sits next to me and like protects me and then he opens a conversation with me and walks with me to our bus stop and he smiles at me all the time and always asks to sit with me and blushes hard near me! I think he likesbut i am not sure, do you guys think he likes me?, what should i do? i am not allowed to go out

sorry this might not have much to do with theblog: but I really need advice, I have had this reallyhuge crush on this boy and I really really oh my got had to talk to him, sorry I am not on the point, the point is

Sorry I accidentally hit publish, that wasn't the wholething I am so upset because so I talked to him and then he would just ignore me, what do I like do?there,thankyou so much,so upset i cant even laughreally disappointed

Anonymous on April 11 at 7:41pm:That sucks not being allowed to have a boyfriend until you're 16, but don't believe no one likes you. Boys are probably just too nervous to ask out such a beautiful girl (aka you)

Please, please, please help!!!!!My boyfriend and I broke up. Well actually he broke up with me and that makes it worse! He told my BFF he was going to break up with me and then he told her that he liked her! I am to confused to know what to do right now especially that I think that a really cute guy is crushing on me and I kind of like him back...HELP!!!!!!XOXO ~Kitty

Idk if people like shy people but I'm sure they do because everyone is special n their own way and even if I've never met u I know that u r beautiful and someone will like u whether it b now or later. God bless you!

Anonymous April 17I'm also shy and quiet and don't talk much but I'm glad you're confident in yourself and don't care what others think about u. That's how I am. Yes sometimes it bothers me a bit that I'm not so talkative but so what, everyone is unique and being yourself is lost important so if you're shy don't try to change yourself bc you're amazing just the way you are. And don't worry I'm the same way :)

Anonymous April 14, 2014 at 7:27 AM Don't worry. When I had just turned 13 (I'm almost 14 now), I had no pubic hair or period either. I had discharge, but it's normal for you not to have it yet. Some girls don't even get any discharge.

Hi everyone! I'm the girl who said that I'm quiet, but hyper around friends and at home. I just read another annoy amours who said that and it is perfectly fine! Be yourself! Also if you haven't had a period, pubic hair, or discharge yet then it is also fine. Every girl goes through puberty at a different time. However if you haven't had a period by 16 or 17 then I would tell your parents and talk to your doctor. Hope I helped anyone with all those questions!

I dont have a bf i think relationships are a waste of time wait till we are out we dont go to any school when you have freetime the rest of your life excapt when you have to work that is sonner or later

Anonymous about smoking:Just keep your head in place, don't let a petty dream change your decisions or morals. Maybe come up with a trick to stop thinking about it (like TV time would be cut by 15 minutes). hope I helped!

Well, i have like a problem, cause i had a crush on the most amazing guy, but i suddenly got moved away. I still like him and everything, but now the only time i get to talk to him is through social network, so i barely ever say anything. Should i start conversations with him , or wait for him ? What can i talk about , help !

i'm 12 and i really don't think that you should have a boy friend until high school or older. middle school dating can cause problems, like feelings for your boyfriend could end with a lot of trouble for you and him. plus how much fun is it to get your heartbroken so young. i call it MSGAD (middle school girls against dating)

I'm so angry right now. My favorite band came to my country (finally!) and performed in a city 15 minutes away from mine and I couldn't go. I get so angry and even sometimes cry when ppl i know tell me about getting to hug them and talk to them and I don't think ill ever get over it. I don't know if they'll come back to my country even cause its a small country and we're lucky if famous ppl come here. I can't believe I missed the concert and Meet And Greet and whenever I think abt it I cry. What should I do to help me feel better? I'm just so sad cause who knows if they'll ever come back? They're on a world tour now touring so many different countries. I can't believe I couldn't meet them :( I feel like everyone got to besides for me....

Aw I know how that feels! Don't worry you can do better than him! If cld be many reasons why he acted that way. It cld be he does'nt want to talk to you but at the same time it cld be he really does like you. Same thing wen a girl has a crush on a boy and the boy talks to her which he rarely does the girl gets tense and nervous. It cld be the same w/ him so don't let ur hopes down! Hope I helped and good luck!

I need someone's help! So yesterday I was at a school dance and I worked up the courage to ask my crush (who is also a friend of mine) to dance during a slow song. He sort of gaped at me, really surprised, and a little flattered. Then he smiled a litle and quickly shook his head no. So, yeah, I did not feel so good after. My question is, how do I face him at school? Do I ignore him, or pretend nothing happened, or idk. What's your advice?

I'm going into highschool next year and I'm a bit scared. I was so used to middle school but now that I'm going into high school I don't know what it will be like! Any advice? Is anyone on this website a high schooler?

Anonymous who asked about opinions on gay rightsFirst of all, this is just my opinion, and I know some people disagree.Second, I personally think LBGTQ should be treated exactally equally as straight people. I think they should have the right to marry, or whatever.

So, I want to become a lacto-ovo vegetarian, but I'm worried my parents won't approve of it, because I already have a lot less weight than other kids my age and size. How do I ask my parents to let me become a vegetarian?

Hi, about the girl that said she was overweight and that her mom compares her to other women. You shouldn't compare yourself to other people and we are all unique and different. Just tell your mom that you aren't like other girls and that you are fine with it. Hope I helped!

I have a question and please answer. I Am in junior high and have a gym class with this other boy. I used to like this boy and then I started thinking he liked me because he would sometimes talk and then look at me. Then he almost was kind of scared if me bc in gym we needed to get color pencils from our locker and he was by the door but when he saw me coming he literally ran away. Then my BFF were walking to the lunch room and the guy was coming so that we would come together and he looked and held his gaze a little longer than necessary. Next, he was getting a drink if water and I was at my locker and I looked to see who was there and he looked at me at the same time. Please tell me what this boy shows signs of.

I'm guessing he totally likes you! He's probably nervous in your presence so he runs off when you approach him. Second, gazing at you is a huge sign he likes you. Third, exchanging looks at same exact moment? Honestly, I think you have something going there :)

I have one but he moved to a different state from where I am. :( but I think having a boyfriend is like a really close guy friend u can tell them how u feel, and they help u through hard times...I think my boyfriend is a hot and amazing guy! and sweet ^_^

@soccerbunnyI empathize. You should act cool like nothing happened. I mean, guys have asked me to slow dances and even though I don't like-like that person, I still dance with him. In other words, friends can slow dance with friends. (unless u have a bf) Don't ignore him at school, just cuz he said no. You want to keep drawing him in, not pushing him away. Now that he kind of knows that u have feelings for him, he may wonder if he should like u back or something so be open and be yourself. :)

@anonymous on may 16You shouldn't ask someone just cuz other pp think u guys would look good together. Instead, try to contemplate this person and see if he would be a suitable bf. Also whether he likes u as a friend or more than a friend.

TruMU,I'm in the same situation!!Try thinking of the reasons you want to become a vegetarian. I know for me, it's because of the conditions animals are sometimes kept in. Explain these reasons to your parents, and say why it matters to you. Say that you're not trying to diet, so that they know, and perhpas suggest a compromise, like having protien-shakes to replace meat.Good luck buttercup and keep thinkin' pink!

When I first started commenting on pls posts, we would have a post like every other week or every 2 weeks. Now, our last post was about valentines day and that was a long time ago. Also, the comments aren't getting added on very quickly. Just saying.

I have a question girls, I just got my period and I feel really bad to the point where I start crying and moning and throwing up and sneezing and then in gym I fainted. I have told my doctor but he said that I am fine and so this has been happening for about three weeks

Hello girls!Summer is coming up soon so please comment or reply on my page or on here about the new hottest trends and haircuts-plus more! One thing I would like to ask everyone out here on this website is if they think girls should get nails done at salons or simply save money and do it themselves or with a friend at home. I was also wondering all the do's and don'ts about clothes hair and fashion! Please reply on this artical or websit and I hope you have a great day!

Dear PinkiePie11Just write a beautiful note about how awesome of a mom/dad they are and then at the end have it saying p.s. I got my period! This way your mom/dad will still get the message and not make the whole note kind of awkward. She/he will probably come in and talk to you, but the letter way won't make you start up a conversation in a weird way. That is what I did, and my mom read it before school so I only had to bear the weirdness for a few minutes. Hope I helped, and good luck with your journey to womanhood!

Anonymous on May 21, 2014 at 10:46 PMA friend is someone you can trust with secrets, and they can trust you with theirs. A friend is someone who worries about you when you feel down and tries to cheer you up. A friend is someone you always are kind to, and is always kind to you. There's actually as song called, "What it Means To Be A Friend" from "13 the Musical"

pinkiepie11all girls get their periods, and no one is born knowing how to use a pad, so remember that it's okay to ask. If you're feeling nervous, you can ask "hey mom, I was wondering how I can use a pad. I need to since I have my period, so can you show me?" If you don't really want to, every box of pads comes with instructions (I think) or you could look it up on google or bing or whatever search engine you use.

Why does it take soooooooo llllllllooooooooonnnnnnnnnnnggggggg to post and have comments on this website? Not to be mean but this is an actual question,= is there a complaint box on here? I posted a comment 5 days ago( when I am writing this) and it still isn't on here. I like the website and all but the comments, in my opinion, need to be added faster. I hope this gets fixed and apologize if I upset anyone with this comment, just wanted to state opinion? What do u girls think?

Hello girls. :) I have a question. My best friend has been acting really fake lately around her boyfriend and is being angry around me sometimes. :/ She fake laughs, acts like she's less than she is, but I know she's so much more capable than what she is showing. I don't know if this is something I should be worried about.

can someone help me i know this is going to be really really akward but theres this boy and he makes me feel diffrent then when i had a cruch on other boys i feel like i can be anyone around him like i don't care what i wear or what i look like and he makes me happy on the worsed of days and he moved away and i spend every night either crying in my sleep or crying when im awake my parents don't know because im sooooooo sure my dad will make fun of me like he always does and please please no one say "don't get hung up on one guy" because already tried but i feel awful i never got the chance to tell him how i feel and now i don't think i ever will it feels like my heart has been ripped in two and i don't know what to do please please please help me out

I know exactly how you feel. I had two really awesome guy friends at camp last summer, and I miss them a lot. I've never had as much fun with them as I've had with other guys. For half a year I couldn't get over them. I don't know if they are going to come back to camp or not. I don't have any contact information. The most important things to remember are the memories you had with him. The second most important thing is that there will be others. Although it might not be entirely the same feeling, there will be others. Stay strong, my friend :')

Bluerocks1001First off I know how you feel I have this guy who lives long distance and I really like him he visits during summer. Last summer though I spent my time hiding from him but I really wanted to tell him how I felt I felt so stupid at first but now I just think about him all the time. Trust me it gets easier. Make sure you pray journal or vent about it, you dont have to cry, itll be ok soon. Good luck Annonymousg

i have a pretty crazy problem, so if any of you guys would help me sort it out, i'd love it. :)

i’ve had a major crush on my best guy friend for like two years. we frequently go on long walks together, and we skate together, so he always helps me with my gear and walks me out and stuff. we also were skating partners this year (and his brother was our coach), so we spend a lot of time together even outside of school. even if we’re with a bunch of friends, he’ll sometimes pull me to the side to have a different private conversation. there’s a lot of stuff that I won’t list, but needless to say, we’re very good friends and we love hanging out with each other.

my bff broke up with her boyfriend back in december, and ever since then, she’s been really mean to me. even though we literally have known each other forever, she says she doesn’t understand me and my problems are insignificant. she suddenly like changed.

she knows that I really like my crush, but ever since she broke up with her boyfriend, she’s been really mean to us about that. like if we decide to dance together or sit together, she calls it out in front of the entire school and makes us feel really awkward. and that’s hard cause my crush and I are both really shy. then in private, she calls him ugly or makes mean remarks. like she said, “(crush’s name) is so ugly. oh well, I guess some people like that.” and like she (and every other girl) thinks he looks like captain america. yesterday, my crush gave me a huge box of chocolates to thank me for being his skating partner this year (no one ever does that though) and like she was calling me stupid for being excited. :/

but at the same time, she’s also been trying to flirt with my crush since she broke up with her boyfriend. she’s smashed cake in his face, punched him, chases him, and begs him to teach her how to dance. she normally avoids people, but once he shows up, she like runs up and grovels at his feet. my crush is a super sweet guy, so he’s really nice to her. but he like freaked out and asked me if she likes him cause of what she was doing. When I ask her, she says no, but it’s really hard seeing my best friend obviously try to ruin my friendship and steal my crush’s heart.

what should I do about this? i’ve already asked her to stop flirting with him, and she said that she didn’t care.

no, but I do have crushes!! I am 12 and 2 of the guys I like are 15!!! :) But when we are old, it won't seem like that much of a difference. There's 5 years between my mum and dad. Lots of my friends have boyfriends but they aren't real relationships. None of the boys in my class have asked me out but I hope that one of them does this year. :)

@Complaining but love websiteI agree, but you have to keep jenna in mind. There are over 100 girls probably submitting comments on this website so she does have a lot of comments to read, so we should all be patient :)

There's this one guy I have liked since the start of the school year but the thing is that I don't think he ever notices me. I know I notice him. The way his lip curls when he laughs and how he's so gentle, well, except when he talks about clash of clans, then he's a barbarian! I know I can't let this get in the way of my schoolwork. Usually, I concentrate on what I'm doing. It's the only way to maintain my grades. But whenever the teacher pairs us in a group together, I try to act annoyed and ask for a different partner, but secretly on the inside, I do a little jig. He is also soooooooo smart. It's one of the reasons why I like him, other than the fact that he's kind of cute. The thing is, I kind of like this other boy too. They are soo similar. They are even both on the same swim team. I don't know how to handle this. I know this sounds pathetic, but can you please help me.

@bluerocks1001I am in the exact same situation as you. If you can try to get his phone or email off someone else. If you know his new address you can send him letters telling him how you feel (maybe?).What I did was forget about him and I got a celebrity crush and he takes my mind of him (real person crush) not that I'll ever meet the celebrity...But maybe you can tell your parents why you're crying and say 'my friend moved away' instead of 'my crush moved away'. I personally don't think you should keep your emotions bottled up.Things can only get better.Good luck

Ok, so this isn't really a question, but it might turn into one. First of all, I have to confess that I did something bad. I accidently locked my friend out of her iPad! I was just playing a joke on her and changed her passcode because she had set a passcode on mine. She eventually told me what it was so I just took her iPad and typed the passcode on it. Then I got my iPod back and turned off the passcode. Except when I went to turn off the passcode, I couldn't open it. I tried numerous times and failed. My friend said she might be able to fix it but it would cost her $30 and even then she wasn't sure. I looked up on the Internet to see if I could fix it and I tried but it didn't work. I can pay her the thirty dollars but that requires me to tell my parents what happened. I want to avoid telling them but I don't want to lie and say I wanted the money for something else. What should I do? I know I should probably tell my parents but I'm afraid that I could get into huge trouble. Please help ASAP. -Passcode Failure.

Please help! I have had this best friend for 5years and suddenly she has been acting different. We are going into 7th grade next year and we aren't super popular and we do almost every partner stuff together. People in school even call us twins and stuff, but anyways the way she has been acting is weird. She talks in a different voice that sounds like she wants to fit in to be a super poppy (popular) girl. It is kind of annoying. She also won't tell me if she has a crush on this guy but I think she has told other friends. I started to get mad and thought she didn't want to be friends anymore, so I kind of am now trying to not being friends by just getting new ones. The only problem is that I still want to kind of be friends and I am going to miss her. The other problem is that I really don't have any other friends that go to that school and I am shy( trying to get over that) more like quiet. I don't know what to do!!! Souls we stay friends? She also doesn't really care about me anymore or what I say. Please help! Also any tips about being and getting over quietness. Such as how to raise and get comfortable on raisinging my hand. Thanks! -anonymous

JadeIt's normal for a girl to have a crush on more than one guy. I have a friend who had crushes on 3 guys at once, and one of them I had a crush on too. :)You don't have to ask either of them out. You can just enjoy your feelings for them

pandagirlyou don't have to tell your parents. I personally like to keep my home life and friend/school life separate. However, many people like to share things with their parents. It all boils down to who you are. Do you want your parents to know, or do you want this to be something you keep secret from them?

Hey Jemma!I've loved and been on this website on and off for 4 years, and have loved giving, asking for, and reading advise people give each other, and you give us!But now, we haven't had a post since mid March. It's July 2 right now, as I'm typing this. I enjoy your posts, and want to see more.Also, comments are taking forever to show up. I remember there used to be comments like, "help me! I just got my first period and my friend has a pool party tomorrow and I feel uncomfortable trying tampons! What should I do?" but now I don't see those. People have given up hope for having their questions answered in time, even when they need it.I miss being able to come to this website and see two or three new comments since a few days ago. I miss seeing and reading the new posts you make.Please Jemma. Please post more. Please let the comments through. The girls need you.

#yolo i can't get his phone number or new address or anything his friends were pretty much just me and i lost his cell phone number and if i google him it just shows some famous person and my parents don't even know why i cry so that kinda takes care of that problem and it hasn't gotten any better in fact its gotten worse i start to dream about him sweping me off my feet but those are the good dreams the bad dreams are much much worse like he comes just to tell me horrible things i know he would never say but it still feels like hes saying them im going crazy and its not geting any better so if you guys could help me more and Jemma please please help me get through this. peace out and God bless you all

ok, i'm 11, (12 in 2 weeks) what does everyone mean by discharge but no periods yet? and how do i know when i start purbety? i'm hairy 'down there"and my boobs have been growing for 1 year (only size 8aa thouth) help me!

When you get discharge it means your period is coming and to expect it any day now. It sounds like you hit puberty already so your period can come any day. Don't worry, it will come by the right time and every girl is different-some dont get theirs till their 15 so you have nothing to worry about! Good luck!!

Ok so, this website is great and all but this post says one week only! And yet it has been here for MONTHS. So can we PLEASE get a post soon? I discovered this site last year while I was still in school. And now summers almost over an it's STILL the same post! Give us a new post plz!!!!

Hi Jemma!I, like pink-a-boo, have been coming to this website for over three years. I have always loved the helpful, unselfconscious atmosphere. However, you have not been posting very much lately. This 'One Week Only' poll, has been up for several months. I realize you might just be busy too, or perhaps you're losing interest. I would like this post to help you realize how much girls like me love the PLS, to hopefully encourage you to post more. It has been a place that I can talk, and ask questions, working up courage for hours and avoiding eye contact for days after. It has been a place where I can talk to girls from all over the world about goofy, as well as serious, topics. I have gained enormous amounts of confidence from the posts and comments on the site. Part of what made this site so incredible was the speed of responses. If you needed help the next day, you got it. There were always new questions to answer. I agree with pink-a-boo, people have stopped believing they will get answers in time. I myself had a question earlier today, but I turned to yahoo answers instead of PLS, because I believed I would get no response.Please post more Jemma. Please let comments through. Girls need this site!!Thank you,Remakingabraverme/Ccmay

@AnonymousIncreased discharge can be a sign of an upcoming period. Before my first period, my underwear would be pretty well soaked. It was gross, let me tell you. I recommend panty-liners, if the discharge increases/continues.

@Anonymous with the question about a friend acting strangeHeres my advice: Don't 'dump' her. I would recommend staying friends with her, but while still trying to branch out and make other connections. It may just be a phase, but in the meantime, if she makes you feel bad, don't spend too much time with her. You could spend say, one or two lunches a week with her.

Try talking to her about the way she's been acting. She may not have realized it, there may have been a misunderstanding, ect.

Find someone with whom you share common ground. It will give you something to talk about. For example, you can talk to someone in your science class about your science teacher, the latest assignment, ect.

@Anonymous who saw a bit of dried bloodThis happened to me last year. I asked my gynecologist, and he told me that there is a thin membrane in your vagina that can break, and leave a bit of blood. I'd reccomend putting a few pads in your backpack next month in case, but I think it was probably just what happened to me, not your period.

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