Thursday, April 12, 2012

Toya's Mom Says She Used Her

While Toya Wright is busy going hard for her husband Memphitz [click here if you missed that] reports from New Orleans is that her mom could use a little help...

According to Tamera Tattles, Toya's mom was in a local store asking every patron for spare change so she could buy a pound of crawfish and was telling anyone who would listen that she had no place to stay and needed to get into a shelter.

"Everyone was basically ignoring her and after a few minutes of her ranting about how no one loves her and how her daughter just used her (ppl were saying she should call up toya and wayne for money) she started begging everyone for spare change to pay for a shelter for the night."

She is on drugs. I have a relative on drugs. You can only help them so much until they begin to drag you down with them and become toxic. You have to wait until an addict really wants to change, which toyas mom doesnt. Toya is doing right.

I thought shelters were free? Sooo am I wrong or is this a bullshit story? Maybe the story is true but she was lying about wanting the money for a shelter. Anyhoo, all I know is in my opinion Toya has always looked shady. She looks so untrustworthy. I don't know what it is about her...maybe her eyes. :-/ *shrugs*

I don't like to talk about people's moms but from my little time watching the show it didn't seem to me that mama was sincere about getting off the drugs. I'm pretty sure Toya loves this woman to death.

I never did like that I'll girl with all that fake ass crying on t.v. No wonder t.i. Didn't want that girl around tiny anymore. Regardless if her mother is a crackhead that's still her mother and should never displayed her dysfunctional family on t.v. Like that. It just goes to show what a bitch will do for some change. Not real money some damn change.

^^11:20,that never actually happened...Toya just did that for TV. Her brother Rudy twittered that they all got a small salary and that the business never took off because Mom is back on the stuff after her rehab. Mom is blaming Toya for setting them up then leaving them to fend for themselves. IE ,Wayne putting his foot down and TI pulling out his bird. So the brothers had no way to support themselves but crime stuff....Rudy stealing cars and the other dude back slinging on corners. Toya apparently left after the cameras left. Hence her mother saying she was used.

Toya tried to help all of them. She tried to tell her brothers to make a plan and have some goals. She seems to be the only one with some ambition in the fam. She wasn't trying to exploit anyone, they had a choice on whether or not to be in the show. And her daughter seems to be well mannered. Don't hate on her cuz she's trying.

11:32 - Yeah she SEEMS to be well mannered. My friend's kids used to go to school with Reginae and they said she was a major bitch...always name dropping and making sure everybody knew she was Wayne's daughter. She said Toya rarely picked her up and when she did her attitude would be turned up to stank too. Wayne's mom, on the other hand, and lil bro (who was also at the school), were sweet she said and would always speak and had no sense of superiority.

So the brothers had no way to support themselves but crime stuff....Rudy stealing cars and the other dude back slinging on corners. Toya apparently left after the cameras left. Hence her mother saying she was used. *********************@ 11:26 Are YOU on crack? They had not way to support themselves other than stealing? How about getting LEGIT JOB LIKE EVERYONE ELSE???

They just seem like bitter ass family mad that wayne and toya not putting them up in a mansion and expensive cars.

I have family EXACTLY like that. Just because me& my hubby actually worked hard are successful, they expect me to foot the bills for their lives, buying them houses putting their kids in private school and shit hell no.

I feel bad for all celebrities, im sure they have to deal with that shit too from relatives,who act like their famous celeb is their personal ATM.

First of all, anyone from N.O. knows that if you are hungry, a pound of Crawfish will not fill your stomach. Secondly, the only way to deal with a drug addict sometimes is to let them hit rock bottom and stay out, until THEY are ready for real help, which starts with them honestly wanting it. It's almost always impossible to help anyone who doesn't want to be helped.Just because she is her mother doesn't mean she has to be an enabler and help her mother kill herself.

Toya is a kept woman so how is she going to take care of anyone else. She needs to save her change; once reginea is over age for child support toyas ass will be cut off. Her mom is on drugs so if anyone is using her its her own self.

So her brothers are blaming her for leaving them to fend for themselves. Well then I guess every adult child in the world should have that complaint. Newsflash,normal people get left to fend for themselves also.In the real world it's called growing up taking care of yourselve.

Why should she give her mom money? So Moms can go blow it up her nose? I watched the show long enough to know thatToya's mom is clearly a crackhead. My ex stepdad is too and that mofo live better than plenty of people u know. There are programs out there for people like that - free or subsidized housing, job programs, etc. His ass just got a brand new apartment with views of the Pacific Ocean (we live in California) for next to nothing. He hasnt held a job in over 20 years but he stays with a roof, a full belly, a pack of cigarettes and some beer. Living the life off the backs of taxpayers.The government stay footing the bills for drug addicts who can't do for themselves so Toya's mom can kick rocks with all the bullsh*t.

This story is a little suspect, if you click the link there is a photo, assuming it's in the crawfish shack...restaurant.

Toya's mom Nita in the photo is holding a child, which led me to think she may have just been joking with the patrons. I can't see anybody leaving their baby with a crackhead. I don't think this story is legit.

Toya don't owe that lady nothing...she didn't even raise Toya over those damn drugs...IF ANYTHING its obvious that Toya loves this woman with all her heart cause she forgave her and she still tried to save her despite all the grief she caused that lil girl growing up. Hell its a good thing she did meet up with wayne, that was obviously her way out of an awful life. Now she can be who she truly is instead of being stuck in the NO singing the same ol song about having a fukked up life, Im proud of Toya...regardless of who money it took to help her take off, SHE MADE THAT SHYT HAPPEN FOR HERSELF ON HER OWN. She took a chance at showing the world that she was more valuable than the labels she was given as an ex wife baby mama and WHO WOULDN'T TAKE THE OPPORTUNITY AND FULL ADVANTAGE OF DOING THE SAME. Her mama didn't do a damn thing for her except PUSH!!!!

@12:36, now that is the truth. There are decent paying jobs that are specifically for former drug addicts. A highly skilled regular person cannot even apply for these jobs because they are subsided for addicts. When a drug addict decides to get their life together they will have better paying jobs and housing than your average Joe.

Toya is not responsible for grown people who don't want to help themselves. She got them on tv and they got paid for that. Her mom was/is a crackhead so what is Toya to do. She had her put in rehab twice. Toya moved her to ATL and the mom left, what was that girl supposed to do. Her mom never really raised any of her kids other people did. So to say that Toya did something or could do something she has and has gone beyond the call of duty as a child should go. Toya has her own family and she needs to stay focused on them. I'm Just Saying!!!

I wonder what happen with that show, I couldn't watch it without an interpreter , for it to have ratings Bet dropped them after the wedding. I think that was the focus of the show but nobody told her family. BawaaaThat's sad about Mom on drugs but mental illness is no joke, which I think Tiya has a touch of.

@11:19 i totally agree with you, but Toya doesn't have to take care of her family, but i do believe she used her mama for the reality show. she saw Keyshia Cole reality show about her family and decided to copy and say "oh my mama is on drugs, i will do a reality show surrounded around helping my mama", i never thought she was sincere like Keyshia Cole, but Toya still doesn't owe them anything.

How could she not be sincere...thats that girls MAMA ON CRACK not a bytch she met and paid to act the part off the street.

There is NO WAY, NO WAY, somebody can separate their real emotions from the memories of the life they've had dealing with parents who weren't properly in their life...WHO CAN EVER FAKE THE EMOTIONS OF HAVING no REAL MOTHER AND FATHER in their life...THERE IS NO FUKKIN WAY!

Toya is 29 years old she did the best she could for her family. The ones being carried NEVER realize how heavy the load is. They need to go to school Stop buying weed clean their systems and get a job while time is still on their side. As for her mom addicts quit when they are ready. Toya gave her the tools to push forward but her addiction is the primary focus. Hopefully she can get clean and pick herself up. This is not Toya's fault her mom been on drugs since she was a little girl that's she was moved around from house to house. She did what she could do for them.

I just want to clarify, Toya is not some ex-hoe groupie, she was Lil Waynes high school sweetheart, and wife. Toya is the real thing, Wayne married her for love, she was with him when he had nothing, they married, had their one daughter only. You didn't see Toya just having babies for a meal ticket.

As far as the family, if her mother is no good, her brothers are no good, Toya is doing the right thing because when you deal with heartless ass people or family, they will do nothing but destroy you and bring you down and not show one damn feeling of compassion because they don't give a shit about you, just users!

OK first off who the fuck cares about TOYA she has done absolutely nothing!!!!!!!!!!!!! Except fuck lil wanye and have his kid so why the fuck did this sotry get put on here. Thanks for wasting my time.

^^11:45....nowhere in my post from 11:26 did you hear me justify anything thats happening to her family. I mearly was giving backround information because when last seen these people had a show and seemed to be trying to change. Ignorant ass mofo.