Grandmother Stops Her Granddaughter From Taking Back Her Cheating Ex With Some Excellent Words Of Wisdom

By Nadine /
mercredi 7 mars 2018 10:00

FML for anyone who doesn't have family members this cool. You go, grandma.

Everyone knows that It can be hard to see things clearly when you're heartbroken. If you haven't taken the proper time to heal, you might think it's a good idea to take back, say, a cheater- simply because you miss them. Everyone knows that as someone without emotional invesment in the issue, it's easier for an outsider to see what the right choice to make is.

Like most, Imgur User NoCapes has had this exact situation happen to her. Luckily for her, her grandma was there to shut things down before she could make a decision she would probably later regret.

Nana spoke the truth, and the people of the internet were quick to back her up (and, well, also include some funny commentary.)

Why the hell would you want to be with someone who hurt you? If someone cheats on you, they clearly don't care about you as much as you think, or they wouldn't do it. And that should be enough of a reason for you to stop caring about them, as well. Consensual polygamy is one thing, but going behind your partner's back in order to screw someone else is an outright betrayal. Ignore the cheat, and find someone who will treat you the same way you treat them.

Why the hell would you want to be with someone who hurt you? If someone cheats on you, they clearly don't care about you as much as you think, or they wouldn't do it. And that should be enough of a reason for you to stop caring about them, as well. Consensual polygamy is one thing, but going behind your partner's back in order to screw someone else is an outright betrayal. Ignore the cheat, and find someone who will treat you the same way you treat them.

It baffles me why people get into relationships when they just go behind their partner’s back like some common stray dog to jump anything that looks humpable. Why get into commitment’s when you just want a good time and an easy ride? Why latch down to someone who wants something more when it’s obvious you don’t want that?

As for what that grandmother said, though it’s definitely unique it’s really true. If you buy something expecting it to be made of diamonds and gold and it turns your skin green and breaks when dropped, that’s a lesson learned. If you go back to that same dealer and buy the same ring twice, you probably were hit on the head with the stupid stick a few times.