Tameka Foster Raymond was spotted chill-axin and showing off her beach body in the French Riviera Caribbean during her Thanksgiving holiday.

This year marks the first year that single mother is without her kids, for as you know she recently honored the court order to turn her sons over to their “primary” caretaker, Usher Raymond by November 20, 2012.

It’s great to see Tameka finally smiling and going forward with her life but I can’t help but notice the pain behind that smile.

[Sidebar: You may not recall, but she was actually in the same locale (Anguilla) when she received that horrible call that her 11 year-old son, Kile Glover, had been critically injured by a jet ski accident. ]

Tameka held a party to celebrate Cinco’s 5th birthday last week (click HERE for pics), and then apparently hopped on a plane to deal with her first Thanksgiving without Kile and without the presence of her two youngest sons.

Meanwhile… back at the ranch, Usher honored his newfound parental duties by hosting his own 5th birthday bash for Lil Cinco over the weekend.

The photo above was posted on Twitter by some attendees of the celebration, but I also received the following tip on Saturday:

Hey ATLien, I just spotted Usher at SkyZone in Atlanta! He’s here with about 75/80 people throwing a birthday party for his son. He has reserved the whole top floor for the party and the cake even has his son’s face on it.

I would send some pictures but I couldn’t get close enough and didn’t want to be too obvious LOL LOL

A lil digging turned up a picture of the cake and a few more commando type “sneak” tweets on twitter…

We all knew Cinco was gonna have another party. It’s not uncommon with divorced parents.

I just wish these two could get along for at least an hour so that the boys could have both parents at the same dayum time, but whatEV… I guess it works.

And yeah… I saw that Tameka tried to put me on blast, but ain’t nobody got time for that. I send her nothing but positive energy and well-wishes and pray that things turn around for her.

Lol @ATLien…Let go & let have! (Phaedra voice) "Everybody knows" that Tameka FOSTER is NUTTIER THAN THE SHEETS AT A WHORE HOUSE! That’s right Michelle keep it moving, Tameka is messy & a drama FEIN, she probably looking for a new SUCKER…I meant Sponser, since she ain’t got her kids with her, she needs to take a sip of that water in the background and stop with the THURRRSTY instagram pics…she too old for that!

NewMeKnowYou

Ewwwww funny tho’ ,lol

honey tea

lol

Melli Mel

I saw where Tameka posted a picture on her Instagram of Michelle (ATLien)and Bob Whitfield at the same vacation spot. Tameka said she got a picture of the paps before they got her.

B. Collier

Thats funny, I don’t blame her!! People pry into the personal lives of these people and when the tables are turned they get mad. Oh wells! She looks happy and relaxed. Maybe she should make her Instagram private.

honey

she posted pics of her(michelle) on her twitter…..anywayz michelle i thought she was being playful and nice

@hmmm Yeah… I’m not good at that type of stuff. I admit it. Thanks for the correction.

honey tea

LMAO.

Kimi-Choco

I love her style in these pics – esp the cut off jean shorts and the off the shoulder tee. I’d say she’s had a rough year…she needs some R & R…but I would also say twitter and instagram don’t need to be a part of it. She should have just unplugged totally and went off the grid for a bit.

Maybe this is for the benefit of Usher and the haters but girl, who cares what people think? The people who mind don’t matter and the people who matter don’t mind.

And yeah ATLien…how’d she try to blast you?

Reesie

I’m really over this woman. Why is she doing photo shoots on the beach and alerting the media about her every move. Please stop reporting on her. She is about as interesting as the lint in my dryer.

lockstress

Now that was cold. lol

NewMeKnowYou

Hell that shit can cause a fire…I’m very interested, but I do agree with you.

Sharpe

You are so mad. Jealousy is a disease. She must be interesting, because you logged in to comment on a post about her. She’s got your panties in a bunch somehow. Your comment shows that she must get a rise outta you somewhat. Haters come in all shapes, post your pics so we can see yours. Jealousy is a weak emotion you gotta overcome it like Jay Z said. Green must be your shade. Keep em busy Meka!!!

Reesie

This must be Tameka or her cousin.

Basil

@ Reesie Instagram is a public forum, if the media has interest thats not her fault. I doubt anyone would call a blog and say look im on vacay, use my camera phone shots! I agree with Sharpe you must be very frigging interested to take time to type that you aren’t and we all are hence reading about her and leaving comments. Good or bad. Girl bye.

Kim

Yeah…who is Tameka Raymond anyway???

On another note…I hope she get some D while there.

Saida

I dont see any sand, maybe her boo took the pictures? Just saying she does look mildly happy here. Im so happy for her, and mad that youre not. You should enter H.A <Haters Anonymous>. Let Ms Raymond live!! She aint here caring about you or your whack ass opinion of her, shes on an island living her life, not thinking about you. So go clean your dryer lint boo. Ain’t nobody studying you.

lockstress

I truly hope she finds peace of mind and spirit after her tragic loss. It’ll take some time but she’s a black woman…we’re used to being down and coming RISING UP through it all.

USHER IS A PUNK! HE IS ACTING JUST LIKE A LITTLE BOY!HE NEEDS TO LIVE WITH HIS MAMA!

YT

Usher izzz a punk. He is really a jerk off, his Mama really did him in. U can tell she is the culprit. I saw their off energy on Oprah. He looked like he wanted to say "Just shut up" , She bred him into being a punk, so hoe like wayzz is what you"ll get.
Good luck to them, she has a uphill battle with his pussy ass.

Smh. I don’t even be on Usher’s attitude but his mom doesn’t control his thoughts. Attractive guys are a different world.He too must have style if he’s paying high prices. He is very meticulous and hie started changing when Tameka surfaced. DON’T ASK ME HOW I KNOW.

Holla

IM GOING TO AKS YOU ANYWAY!! …ready???? HOW DO YOU KNOW! Do you know usher NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO! I Prolonged the no for it to sink in. His mother is just as hateful as he is, influence or none what they did on Oprah was ridiculous and spiteful. Usher really should have kept his mouth quite it would have been better. from that interview he made himself known of who he truly was. Which is a boy who does not no how to be a man and take RESPONSIBILITY in any shape and form.

Nobody has to honestly conform. Saying grow up? Being mature and responsible has no age.

Holla

Why I’m still around
———
Are you kidding me?? O Hunny, I don’t know if you got the memo, BUT YOU ARE NOT AND NEVER WAS HIS WIFE! So please do yourself a good ol fashion favour and stop the madness. For a man to throw shade at someone you would at least think he would OWN up to some of the mess he did. Ok lets change the wording a little here not a boy but and man who tries his best to play VICTIM. That is what usher is doing. and you still haven’t answered my question, HOW DO YOU KNOW!!!

Vay

I do hope they can get it together for these kids. A party and material things can only distract them for so long. Hopefully people will stay out of their ears and they will get over themselves and just make being parents a priority TOGETHER!

As far as her trying to put you on blast my eyes are still rolling lol. Kudos to you for taking the high road!

Usher’s level of messy is too much for me. Period. That’s all I have to say about him.

I’m happy Tameka didn’t end up sitting somewhere sad and alone for Thanksgiving.

Divaish

Funny..doesn’t she have OTHER kids??? Why wasn’t she with them for thanksgiving? Hmmm if I lost a son to death and two to their father, NOTHING could keep me from spending time with the ones I have left…but she’d rather frolick on the beach and take twit pics…and y’all feeling sorry for this attention whore…

Holla

@divaish thats harsh, correct she is not you, so you have no idea how is she is deciding to deal with her grief. so please take a seat. who are you to dictate how someone grieves in their life. that is not your place to dish.

stlchick

Not all people grieve the same. Just because you don’t see it don’t mean it’s not happening.

celig

I’m with you on this one where are the other kids they experienced lose also…I am just wondering also how much is 2 years of marriage and 2 kids worth in a settlement…..Do she get to keep the 8,000 month child support payment??? Just asking?!

Noneya

She didn’t really put her on blast! All she did was posted a pic of Michelle on vacation. And she didn’t even show her face.

Kasster

If that is indeed what Michelle is referring to, I wouldn’t really call that "blast" either.

ALM

If anyone deserves a vacation to get away from it all, it’s this lady. There are too many distractions and reminders in Atlanta for her to get any type of lasting peace.

Side note: Michelle, where/how did she put you on blast?

Michelle- All you can do is apologize and extend an olive branch. If she chooses not to take the olive branch, then so be it. To say that this year has been rough for her is a huge understatement. On top of that, she had a close friend of hers completely betray her in court. At this point, I’m sure that she doesn’t trust anyone. Everyone appears fake with underlying motives. So if there is an issue between her and you, it is more than likely due to the fact that she feels attacked overall by the world, not necessarily a specific issue with you.

Great point. I have no ill will at all towards Ms. Foster Glover Raymond. Like I said in my post, "I send her nothing but positive energy and well-wishes and pray that things turn around for her."

And I mean it.

Bari

Well hot dayyyuummm Usher Raymond must be blind or retarded this woman is fiyahhhh, she’s smoking hot in these pics, I just I’m finally seeing what he saw years ago. She really pretty and shiiiid if I had her face anhow it off too! Haters gonna hate but she’s single and looks great to be 40 with kids. She’s had an awful year and I wish her continued strength. Usher is silly for the extra birthday party, they need to come together for their 2 sons. They both seem quite immature to me. Michelle you weren’t put on blast just mentioned. LOL.

Ok, sorry fellow blog chasers I have a problem with this. It’s deadline to turn your children over and you go on vacay…. I would have been doing some serious soul searching and Nam-Myoho-Renge-Kyo’s during this time. Not posing for random fanpixs.
"Put you on blast" Atlien? Where they do that at? You’ve been a constant literary companion during her hard times please let this be a ruse.

Holla

You can’t pin point how people are going to deal with there grief, that is no ones place. Why does she have to be the stereotypical ‘ O NO IM SAD FACE’ everyone is different and people have no idea on how she had planned to deal with what she has been thru. You can’t put all of what has happened on a picture and say she is not grieving the way you want her to. and lol to the Tina Turner reference but I think Tameka is Christian.

I don’t think she should sit home a cry or meditate. The kids are taken care of and they are ok, they just can’t live with her full time so she should use this time to find herself and explore a little. Have fun. Don’t take life for granted because I’m sure if anyone knows this its her. She has to live a little.

Yoshi

Agreed. She may cry daily and enjoy her life after. No one can tell her how, where, when to grieve her loss.

Queenissac

I agree Kita

NewMeKnowYou

I see what you saying everyone grieve/ deal with situations differently but even with preparedness It would have been difficult for me to actually transfer guardianship in any form if not equal unto someone else (even the father) therefore I can’t grasp her sense of vacationing?, posing for pix smiling or facebooking,instergramming or twittering.

Holla

I see what your saying, but maybe its her way if trying to move past it and keep what she had going before than just stopping. its crazy cause many people find it weird when she is not talking or posting pics some ask if she is alright or its not like her to not post something on twitter lol

stlchick

Agreed, Holla. The fact that she did go alone says she’s soul searching. At least she’s not sitting outside Usher’s house with a loaded gun. Let her heal her way.

NewMeKnowYou

Helllooo McFly, I always spoke in first person I and Me not She or Her.

@Holla no offense taken but according to Wiki… a "celebrity" is a person who has a prominent profile and commands a great degree of public fascination and influence in day-to-day media. << I ain’t about that life.

A celebs entire being is dependent upon YOU, ME and the MEDIA talking about them. Good or bad. So no I don’t think they should be warned when I write about them… only afterwards because they should thank me.

Holla

@atlien lol I see what your saying its the business that you are in, either way their name is known. So you have done your job. and I also agree with some of the things @vay has said.

Vay

lol she wasn’t joking at all. I ride with Tameka all day long on the Usher/kids situation but wrong is wrong I dont care who she is her intent behind it was to do just what she did…she threw shade then tried to snatch it back when folks started asking questions. The whole "#stalker" and "Michelle was mean to me in the past" would have never been a part of her conversation had she just been joking. The reality is it is YOU Michelle out of most bloggers that gave her a voice to even consider her side of things. You have been called everything but a child of GOD for supporting her and never let that stopped you from giving your opinion on the matter. You should never bite the hand that typed the very words that got some people to see that there was more to the Usher situation. She said you all were "cool" well great be cool and go get some sit down. lol

I think this trip helped her feel closer to Kile and I am sure she needed that your presence didn’t add to or take away from that so why even go there…

Now that I have gotten that off my chest I will go have a seat! lol

Suthernhummingbyrd

Yep..what Vay said!

Interesting picture

This is still a weird pic. First of all, a grieving mom doesn’t pose half-naked. Looks like she’s ready to move on to the next. The picture is a snapshot of what they can expect. Sorry, but she’s thirsty. Cover up and move on.

SHE LOOKS GOOD EVERYBODY STOP HATING IT’S HARD BEING IN THE LIMELIGHT PEOPLE GOING TO ALWAYS HAVE SOMETHING TO SAY SOME PEOPLE GRIEVE DIFFERENTLY THEN OTHERS AND IF YOU GOT IT WHY NOT FLAUNT IT YOU GO TAMEKA. HEY IS SHE STILL WEARING HER WEDDING BANDS?

•
Be preoccupied with fantasies of success, power, beauty, intelligence, or ideal love

•
Have unreasonable expectations of favorable treatment

•
Need constant attention and admiration

•
Disregard the feelings of others, and have little ability to feel empathy

•
Have obsessive self-interest

•
Pursue mainly selfish goals

Holla

lol some of these sound like usher too, both in the same boat…Did you watch Oprah!? You can deffos tell he has some of these traits…

stlchick

HOLLA, GET OUT OF MY HEAD! LOL

Holla

@stlchick hahaha it had to be said lol this dude is just as bad, but the only difference is that usher got away with it.

honey

LMAAAAAAAAOOOOOOOOO @holla me too,pls get out of my head hahahahahahahaha

B. Collier

For you to take the time to break down the meaning of "Narcissist" on a blog, tells us that you

* Have too much time on your hands
* Know Usher personally, you described how he seems so well
* Are a psychologist with no clientele
* Oh.. are likely in a psych with computer access

Otherwise WHY do you care to tell us the blog readers this?? I think Tameka is lovely, she has a nice toned body and most of all a beautiful back drop and friends that probably wanted to see her pictures. Simple as that. I’m sure that she didn’t send the photos to this blog. Millions of people have Instagram accounts, are all of their customers narcissists?? Is that the general consensus? I post on mine daily so what, its her life and her perogative and free will. She isn’t bothering nobody, except a bunch of mad, enraged, out of shape, sloppy bitches, that likely dont have a life, a vacation OR an Instagram account. Get yo life, Tameka is doing the damn thang. Making the envious more envious!!!

stlchick

LMAO. Dayum, B. Tell us how you REALLY feel lol.

CHICAGO

That is All….. #POW lol

CHICAGO

That is All….. #POW lol It doesnt matter how many pictures Tameka takes …..URIV does not want her anymore….Thats all she is doing is trying to seduce him..Like remember this..No,actually he doesn’t want to..Ok, BYE

stlchick

Tameka has more on her plate that manboy, I’m sure. She’s trying to feel good about herself, which after this hellish year she should.
Can’t understand why people are begrudging her that.

LadyBugJ

How do you know what that man wants? Grace? Did they let you play with the computer again?

Arbs

That boy secretly wants his mama. Grace is a stand-in. I saw her bug-eyed self at Whole foods with him, aint nuthing cute about her, shes got thick legs and saggy boobies. I was shocked at his choice, but he looked homeless so I thinking now that they make sense together. yea in hindsight.

kandylipps

this chick is FUGGGLY. please no more pics of her especially in a bikini. I’m glad Usher also give his son a party he Loves his boys. He always at my gym with them swimming. I feel bad that she lost her son Kyle. but everything else I believe she knew was coming. And you get what you ask for Ms.Saks card. She through. you a little shade I read some comments but not that bad. And for fact Usher kicked her out cause she been selling furniture on Craigslist. But her in and Usher been divorced for like 4yrs he ain’t coming back so I ask can we stop making relevant. She does nothing.

Holla

This chick is fugggly
you get what you ask for Ms.Saks.Card
——-

Really,?!? Really!?! thats how low your going to go just because you’ve seen usher at the pool?! Many of the things you said doesn’t even make any sense.

kandylipps

My opinion. Fuck yours she grimy and if you rock with this tranny than your a grimmy cunt to. she a non factor. Usher could careless he got what he wants. I Neva seen her with her kids until she lost them he always with them. the bitch is bi polar he treat her so bad but yet she still got on her wedding and has his last name yeah I pitty her. Fuck outta here. she ain’t for kids she fought for money and BS yes a Saks card so she got what she wanted. Now its a dead issues. She qucik to point out Usher demons why not be honest and confess to some of wrong doing. She will Neva do that so I have respect for a grown ass women who plays a victim for attention.
Thank you and my

Jacobi

Selling her furniture on Craigslist? That sounds so stupid. How would you know? We’re you at her house? Is she in the pictures? You hate her and its deeper than seeing her kids at some gym. You’ve left 3 hate filled comments and at different times. She’s taking HOURS out of your evening. Lol.
Get Help quick! Cyber punks kill me forgetting how to appear as strangers.

stlchick

Yeah, but I bet Tameka can spell.

Suthernhummingbyrd

Just for future reference, when you are going to go in about sum shyt you know nothing about, at least attempt to SOUND&SPELL like you graduated high school. Damn, a mind is terrible thing to waste.

LadyBugJ

You should borrow Sheree Witfield’s speak and spell

Holla

@kandylipps Everyone has said what I am thinking so Im not even going to waste my time on your ignorance. Deuces

kandylipps

typo I meant no respect

Jacobi

And your dumb ass can’t spell. She should be proud to able to get complete "strangers" SO very mad. Kudos Meka!! Keep up the good work.

kandylipps

My opinion ass hole you can defend the golddigging tranny all you want but the facts are facts look it up jackass before for quick to comment shitstain this a blog not English class go be proper some where else.

kandylipps

And it was 2 now its ffor cause your donkey ass I read write to. so fuck you

stlchick

You know Michelle, I get you respect freedom of speech, because given your line of work you thrive on it. I do wish, however, you would exercise your right to block the profanely ignorant. Someone posted on another thread that a mind incapable of expressing intelligent thought resort to profane vocabulary. Anyways…
I see no problem w/ them having separate parties right now, but if they’re still having separate parties when they turn 10 and 14, they both will need an ass kicking. Glad Tameka is taking time to herself. Maybe she posted the pics for affirmation because at this time, she feels like shit. Only behind the anonymity of a computer can people have the gall to kick a person while they’re down. When did society start routing for the destruction of others, simply because they don’t like them?

Now here I go throwing salt in the sugar: Did anyone else notice that light-skinned woman peering at Usher over the white man’s shoulder? What’s up w/ that look? Where you at, Grace? lol

2bme

I had to sneak in to say Amen to what you wrote ..lol

Holla

lol grace was there she posted pictures on her Instagram over Thanksgiving. she was in the ATL spending it with usher and being at the birthday party a day ago and her daughter was posting pics as well but then soon deleted them.

Holla

UPDATE! The light skinned woman glaring at usher is Grace’s sister she is on Instagram also her name is @ckarshan

can y’all stop responding to my comment damn. my email keep buzzing. I happy for her. OK. there. 3 baby daddy’s. 2 failed marriages. and custody of none of her kids yeah she deserve a break. I make sure I spell check for asswipes I mean you low life motherfather who take me serious. IT’S AFUCKING BLOGGG PEOPLE. Yeah you must be her sister or cousins.

Suthernhummingbyrd

"I make sure I spell check for asswipes I mean you low life motherfather who take me serious."
Your school system has failed you terribly. Please exit left to an adult Education class.

kandylipps

Your mother failed life because she had you.

Holla

THAT IS BEYOND WORNG RUDE AND JUST A DISGUSTING THING TO SAY. YOU ARE A PERSON FILLED WITH HATE AND THE ONLY THING ANYONE CAN DO FOR YOU IS PRAY THAT YOU SEE LIGHT AND CHANGE YOUR HEART!!

Suthernhummingbyrd

Just keep scrolling down and read Benni’s statement-He said it all and that’s better than any response I can give you.

Vay

Chile if you are going to hate someone at least have your facts straight! Now go to bed so you can go to school and learn something.

stlchick

Perhaps if we had nothing to respond to….

Benni

@ KandyLipps wit yo dumb, remedial ass >>>> Tameka Raymond maintains joint custody with Usher. He was awarded "primary" physical custody which means he has final decision making. Not Full or Sole custody which he tried to get. Her other sons have always been shared or joint custody. Speak on what you KNOW not assume or have conjured up in your feeble brain matter.

You are the stupidest kind of "nigga broad", filled with self hate, jealousy, anger toward a person you don’t even know, why because you are hoping that you can get an autograph at the gym? Girl grow up and stop trying to tear another sista down, that "nigga" sh** and ignorance. I just had to respond because we have enough resistance from white people and you are just as bad with your racist self. You hate her because of who she married and nothing more. Jealousy is a mind eating disease, stay in the gym I’m sure you need it based on your sloppy comment, the physical likely matches. Hurt people try to hurt people. End of discussion.

Holla

And on that note… BOOM!!! WOW you had me when you said ‘Ninja Broad’ LMBO!!!!

Suthernhummingbyrd

"Jealousy is a mind eating disease, stay in the gym I’m sure you need it based on your sloppy comment, the physical likely matches. Hurt people try to hurt people. End of discussion"….*waves my church fan, PREACH!

Kasster

Prrrrreach, honey. Let go & let have!

me lipps you no

Bennie I mean Tameka stop wasting your time on me. Go pack. homeless ass monster. I hate bitches like you. Attention seeking goofy gold diggin cumm [email protected] I mean Tameka I no that’s you to you not a celebrity. I see all ten of your fan club member were reppin for you I mean all your other personality. and guess what you still ain’t sh** I hate personally you no that check my email address and you’ll no who I am forget these bums. I no you read these thing all day to see if you and a Usher are mentioned. Crazy lady.And for all of you I will Never write anything properly for some damn blogger. so stay of my nut. Im glad you wasted your time commenting on something i wrote I feel so important thank you all.

stlchick

To quote Florida Evans, "DAMN, DAMN, DAMN!"

to quote Forrest Gump, "That’s all I got to say about that."

hotdogsonthegrill

@ kandylipps, No because you sound like a belligerent idiot. I’m willing to bet everyone that kandylipps is Darshelle Jones Rakestraw. Girl go head and have a seat with your restraining order.

Holla

hahahahahahaha IM DONE! thats what I thought lol I think she is back with a vengeance

hotdogsonthegrill

Yes, she’s running rampant! LOL Her comments are hilarious because they make absolutely no sense.

Holla

hahaha, i think she is also another user on here as well but she put her name as Darshelle Jones Raymond.

Leslie Shields

Is it me or is Tameka gorgeous now. Love her style. epic.com

Wired

I always knew that she was very pretty. Not just now, people hated and labeled her ugly because she was married to their idol. Gorgeous lady, lovely skin and smile.

Marlin

@Atlien ohh stop she didnt put you on blast, she just said there was a blogger there with her boo, she took a pic but didnt show your face,,she was just joking …

Marlin

some of you riding Ushers tip like he care about, if Usher past you in the street he wouldnt even look at you

When Usher Raymond IV founded Usher’s New Look in 1999, He sought to fill the gap in positive role models for youth who struggle beyond their current circumstances; recognizing that the foundation can maximize its impact by working with others who share a common vision to support the development of young leaders. New Look believes in the power of young people to provide solutions to today’s most pressing social and economic problems.
If able to afford, please make a donation to Usher’s New
Look Foundation. Your contribution will impact and change the lives of future New Look moguls of Tomorrow.

Benefit of Contributing
-An annual spring luncheon featuring leading global executives.
-Exclusive networking and volunteer opportunities; additional benefits are associated with your associated contribution level.
Also included a section to give what you can option listed as other.

Presidents Circle
Partner society-(1,000-2,499)
-An invitation to the Presidents inner circle reception at the annual World Leadership conference
-Recognition on New Look foundations Website and the annual publication

It’s too damn early in the week for this shyt, Darshelle..got me cussing, Lawdamercy.

Holla

@suthernhummingbird did you see the long essay she posted about ushers new look lol if you click on her name it links right to usher facebook page this chick needs some serious help.!

Suthernhummingbyrd

So you know when I clicked her name and it lead to the damn fb page, I HOLLERED!Lmaaaooo!Darshelle, I’m yet praying for you.

third

Just Wondering ….. where were her OTHER Boys for Thanksgiving while she was enjoying the Sun and Surf?

Hmmmm no problem being away from them?

Holla

DONT BE STUPID, thats all I’m going to say to you.

Arbs

THIRD dummy of the day.. 1 of Tameka’s sons is grown and away at school I believe, the small kids went to Usher’s as this story has pointed out and I’m sure you know that one of them has passed this year.
Your question is stupid.

Holla

Your question is stupid.
——
Agreed, some people don’t think before they comment on these blogs.

That was an issue with me. She needed to get away? Meaning that trip was planned so she is walking the tight rope. As far as any serious dealings with Usher,she should ON. What remains is feelings only because of need. If I had lost my son it would make a little more sense to share the memory of your lost child with the younger ones who will grow and forget.

Saida

Arent you the crazy stalker that is obsessed over a man that wishes you were never born? *Insert name* You are bat shit crazy, using his last name as yours. Last I checked this is a thread about a woman that he ACTUALLY married and has kids with. How are visiting your own daughter from the crazy ward? You are a supreme nut, the kind I’m allergic to. Usher filed an order to keep you away, I guess that makes the "marriage" hard eh?. Go play in your blue eye shadow, Usher fan pics, and hair gel before lock down Sybil.
Why do they let you have computer access looney bird???

Number one I have been with my daughter all day;Since she has been out of school.Number two I don’t speak to anyone else like you are trying to speak to me and number three he divorced her and went to court on HER because of how she made HIM FEEL. HE WIFED Because she was pregnant. WE never fell out until MAY.I still concern myself with someone that I care about you dont have to ever like it. What everyone else has to say has caused problems and I wont fall.Ask me anything.

Suthernhummingbyrd

"Go play in your blue eye shadow, Usher fan pics, and hair gel before lock down Sybil." And this is when I died a slow death. Too funny!

NEW2daA

I know a lot of people say that many people grieve differently, but I wonder if these are the same people that were saying that the reason she cannot move out of Usher’s home was because she was too grief stricken to enter Kyle’s room…I mean, oh how times have changed. Sorry, the fact that she could even go back to the island she was at when her son got injured in the first place is a bit weird for me…I would never want to visit that place again. And I agree with the poster that asked about her kid without Usher that is still alive, I would fight to spend the holidays with the one kid I have left.

Arbs

Kile as his name was spelled was in Atlanta with his dad, when the accident at the lake occurred. I don’t know where she was while he was visiting with his father. What does any of this have to do with the island where she spent her vacation??? Very dumb conclusion. Perhaps this was the fathers year to have her other son???? Who knows? But I’m sure that she didn’t just say screw her other son. Your negative mind would only come up with the most negative scenarios. Think objectively not automatically negative. it’ll help you draw the correct or better conclusions

To insinuate that I have a very negative mind by a post on a blog site is quite negative of you darling, so pot, meet kettle. In the story above, it states that the island where she was spotted over the thanksgiving holiday was the same island she was on when her son was injured. Soo…unless this blogger got it wrong, that is where I came to that conclusion. As I stated in my comment, many people grieve differently and to me, going to the very spot I was when I found out that my son was suffering from life threatening injuries would be a little difficult for me, definitely over the holidays. To post pictures on twitter opened the window for a flood of comments from the public, good bad or indifferent….my comment would be indifferent….meanwhile, I am not here to make friends so agree or disagree, that’s your business.

Kim

Two children….don’t forget her oldest son.

Saida

He’s a grown college age student, I think from her pictures.

Kim

I have two college age students…but they are still MY children and they were with me on Thanksgiving. They spent time with the father’s side the day after.

stlchick

And also, this is the 1st holiday with a child in the ground. Maybe she felt if she went somewhere alone, she would be able to open up spiritually and connect on that level to the child she just lost.
Why ask why?

If you’ll don’t see anything wrong, with a "Grieving" mother glorifying, swimsuit pictures on a beach, trying to seduce who ever she thinks gives a F*ck.. Not even 6 months after her 11 year old childs tragic death.. Then You’ll is as crazy as she is..No, Im not saying how a person should grieve, but this is just TACKY and tasteless.. How and Why does she think this is appropriate. This is a time she needs to connecting to her son’s soul..Not trying to get Usher or whoevers attention.. This is just disgusting in everyway ..

BBW

She doesnt seem to be on a beach babe, hence the lack of sand. Maybe her man was taking her pictures. Theyre greaaaat *Tony the Tiger voice* You’re just a mad bish that likely can’t fit into a picture frame to pose. Hell somebody took the pictures, she sure didn’t. She posing for you haters Id bet! Grieving or not you still have to have fun and happy times asswipe. Thats the stupidest sh** ever, youre supposed to cry for 100 days straight? Never smile, go to a pool, wear a swimsuit, never smile, never be happy again in life???? That is stupid and you need to just get in shape to join her or go to bed mad. She killed you inside. Bhahahawhahaha! She seduced you into a fit of keyboard rage. LOLLOLOOLOL . Dont get mad get FIT bishes, #TeamMeka

Lord Knows

Tameka I know this is your silly, crazy, ass.. You need help if you think those pictures are fly…They look like a desperate, middle -age woman, who should be grieving her son, but is more concern about proving the people who call her old, ugly, unflatting, and destroyed Usher’s imagine Wrong, but instead you stay proving them right… Ur Crazy A$$, get a life, some Dic …KKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKK

Holla

You can not call yourself LORD KNOWS and be stupid with your comment. That lord is not stupid, this comment is. arggg teenage girls like you bug me, always thrown shade at somebody and have nothing better to do with your life. Go read a book and stay in school hun. KKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKK!

stlchick

Just because she’s dressed like that doesn’t mean she’s looking for a sponsor. Where yo mind at?
I think her being away ALONE is her way of connecting to her son’s soul.

She looks hard and old in the face. Needs to sit down and act like she’s about to be 50.

LadybugJ

What do YOU look like? I bet you couldn’t wear a two-piece bikini and you skin is probably not as clear either.

Show us a picture of what you, aka someone not "hard and old in the face" looks like. Please

BBW

But you can bounce a nickel off that ass!!! That bish is built for blooood and her face is pretty as well. You hating in the worst way. On a beach, chilling, make up free?? Post your pictures Dollface. LOL

Tameka is cold stuntin on you mad, flabby hoes. Get yo life. Usher loved that old, hardbodied, bad bishhh he wifed her fa real and not in the slang term way. He really wifed and had his only two with her. I’m never mad and would love to see another do it like her!! Go head Meka #TeamMeka

getyourhandouttamypocket

Logged on just to tell you to shut the hell uuuuup! Either you’re tameka or a tameka fan that needs therapy. Either way….calm down. Yes, she looks good. There….now gon’ somewhere.

Holla

@getyourhandouttamypocket, Hey Grace how ya doin boo, lol you think tameka got in ushers pocket hahahahaha hunny its all in your name 🙂

getyourhandouttamypocket

@holla
Grace? Child please….BBQ just keeps going on and on about tameka….lol

In their divorce decree did Usher grant her permission to keep his last name? Why does she keep his last name? Did she ask? Or assuming that he still wants her to have it?

Vay

The real question is when did he give YOU permission to carry his name?

In a divorce it’s not up to the man if the lady keeps "his" last name…she decides and clearly she decided to STAY a RAYMOND…nothing fake about that as I am sure her social security card says RAYMOND…what about you boo?

Brandy

Chile @Vay you sure told her. I’m sure she keeps his last because of their small boys. Not to mention that she’s earned it at the least . Usher has done the most, he slept with her best girlfriend, took her to court , is taking her house and kids. This ninja is the worst. He’s pretty low and he has the nerve to be with a lady friend older and much uglier. I’d also keep this ninjas name. It isn’t up to him that’s right Vay.

Suthernhummingbyrd

Vay, go in and let have on this crazy brood, plz and ty. Brandy, say that-she earned the hell outta that name and still is-I cannot imagine having to put up with this ninja’s mess.

My social security information has a Raymond involved lol. Because of my HIPPA i do not discuss.Usher Raymond IV has been over the social security situation since 2009 lol. But someone stated that she can choose to keep the last name? He can petition the courts if he feels that by a her using IT that he is subject to abuse.That is a form of mental abuse and a financial diversion method.

stlchick

HIPAA, Darshelle. That is all.

2bme

"The real question is when did he give YOU permission to carry his name?"

See I said I wasn’t going to comment anymore and here you come with this shyt! I couldn’t agree more, girl stop before you end up in the looney bin with this nut!LMFAO

"My social security information has a Raymond involved lol. Because of my HIPPA i do not discuss."

Honey the only thing that you need to do involving social security is make SURE they send you a check every month…and as far as HIPPA that is the law that keeps your doctor from coming to this site and disclosing just how much you need that check!! Whomever you are you need to stop it. lol

Suthernhummingbyrd

DYING [email protected], Vay…Just like Tameka earned that name, she earning that check.

Missing birthdays and humans a career a life. PEACE. THE DOG????????????????????????? I care way too much about this Usher Situation. I should have made them HONOR THE DECISION. Cool let that have been me:///////////// EI will find the way OUT

stlchick

The real question is when did he give YOU permission to carry his name?
———————–
You need to send me your address so my family can mail you my obituary, because another comment like that and I’ll be dead forreal lol.

WHO ME? WITH THE BAG OF CHIPS YOU? I carry my name. THE OTHER BRINGING Money. YEAH I AM ESPECIALLY THE FACT THAT I CUT OFF MY PHONE MY 2

WHITE I-Phones 4 real. PULEEZ The only reason is to keep fighting and THEY are dy know. I hope that you SIT and TAKE IT ALL IN. MERRY CHRISTMAS TODAY. SHID HE AINT CLAIMIN and aint tried to so who are you REFERRING TO? pff.

I wonder what he’s going through and dragging himself. I try to show her. smh. Im just saying at least i could have the dog since the bistro believe they own shit.They dont own my money and they will have pictures from christmas. I will enjoy mine alone yet again trying to figure out where they all came from and is that really a little baby? The dog.

me lipps you no

Darshelle you entitled to your opinion andlike who you want they hating because there all old and bitter and mad there golddigging BFF is losing. most of them are Tameka using names and emails the rest is her family and friends nobody likes that Twerk out her she went from Saks to Target ha ha broke witch