Monday, April 27, 2015

HELP! (Did that get your attention?) My book “Bring Down the Rain” is up for a RONE award. It’s done well enough that the book has moved to the next phase: public voting! It is in the **Young Adult: General** category.Please, oh please, go to this link and cast a vote for “Bring Down the Rain.”http://indtale.com/2015-rone-awards-week-threeVoting ends May 3rd, so please vote soon.Thanks!

Thursday, April 2, 2015

I find it disturbing, and frankly sad, when people use
powerful words incorrectly. As a writer and an English teacher, I appreciate
the power of words. Perhaps that is why it bothers me when people misuse them
to try to promote their cause.

A controversial topic in the news right now is about how
states are passing religion freedom acts.

One aspect of these laws, to keep it simple, is to protect
business owners who refuse to provide services if those services are in
conflict with their religious beliefs. As an example, if a gay couple wants a
wedding cake maker to create a cake for them, the cake maker can refuse their
business without fear of legal repercussions under these laws.

From what I’ve seen, the media is having a field day with
this. Aside from calling these laws as “anti-gay”, another word keeps coming up:
“discrimination.” But it isn’t.

“WHAT?!?!?!” some of you may say.

Just hear me out.

Discrimination is “the practice of unfairly treating a
person or group of people differently from other people or groups of people.”
Notice the key word: unfairly. Most
people who use the word incorrectly forget (or would like to ignore) that part
of the definition. But the most important part of the definition is that the treatment
is based on who you are as a person.

The law in the USA says it is illegal to discriminate
against the following groups: Age, Disability, Ethnicity, Gender, Marital
status, National origin, Race, Religion, and Sexual orientation.

“But, wait!” you might say. “It says right there people cannot
discriminate, or treat someone unfairly, based on their sexual orientation.”
(It also says “religion” in case you glossed over that.)

Here is the major point a lot of people are missing: there
is a difference between refusing services to someone based on their sexual
orientation and refusing the service because the action is in conflict with a
belief.

In other words, it is discrimination to refuse service
because of who someone is, but it is NOT discrimination to refuse services
based on what they are doing.

Am I splitting hairs? No, I’m not.

If, as a member of the LDS faith, I were to go to an atheist
tailor and request he make a baptismal outfit, the tailor could not refuse my
business because I am a Mormon. That’s discrimination; you can’t refuse service
based on who the person is.

However, if the tailor refused to create the outfit because
he did not want to support an action which he disagreed with—that is NOT
discrimination.

Another example: my first job was at McDonald’s. I was 16.
One day, a woman came in and started screaming that the French Fries she got in
the drive through were cold. I watched as the manager was called every name in
the book. He then told the customer, “I’m sorry you had a bad experience. Let
me refund your money.” After giving her back her money, she started yelling
that she wanted her order done right this time. What did the manager do? He
asked her to leave.

What happened next taught me a big lesson.

The lady then yelled, “You are only treating me this way
because I’m a woman.”

And he was right. Businesses should have the right to refuse
services to anyone unless the reason is based on the proper definition of discrimination.

In the case of the baker and the wedding cake for a gay
couple, the owner cannot refuse service based on the fact that the customer is
gay. However, if the gay person is getting married (which is legal in a number
of states), that is an action. If the owner does not want to support that
action, for any reason, including religious, that is not discrimination.

As a writer, I am contacted now and again to write for
others. I will do so, as long as what I’m writing is not in conflict with my
beliefs. For example, if a person who is eighty-eight years old wants to get
back at his ex-wife by paying me to write a book about how she is a horrible person,
I would refuse. He could claim I was discriminating against him due to his age.
He would be wrong. My refusal has nothing to do with him as a person. It has
everything to do with an action.

So, am I calling for the specific right for those who have
religious beliefs to be able to refuse services based on the actions of people,
including gay people? No. No, I am not.

I am stating that anyone should have the right to refuse
service based on the specific actions of another person.