Social Question

NSFW- Women, have you ever asked a partner to wear a particular outfit to bed?

I was talking in a friendly manner with a female about the outfits she had worn to bed to make a lover happy. I realized, I had never worn anything or even inquired as to a preference as to what my partners would want me to wear to bed.

Not really but I’m not opposed to it. I don’t however wear ‘outfits’ to bed either, unless he would too. The idea that a group of people (based on gender and sexuality) should ‘dress themselves up sexy’ and the other group should not, by default, is bs.

@Imadethisupwithnoforethought My preference is for a well dresssed man of course. Someone who puts care into his appearance and knows how to put an attractive outfit together. I happen to love suits, but they need to fit well and be cut right and be stylish.But no particular clothing item is a turn on per se. More like, there are bad clothes that are a turn off, like, for instance big ugly galumphy shoes. I’m not a big fan of running shoes or big cloddy looking shoes.
And most every woman will tell you that certain uniforms are incredibly sexy.

No, I love my boyfriend’s naked body so I would rather he just wore his birthday suit for sexy time. I once bought a sexy outfit to wear for him but I ended up naked so quickly that it wasn’t really worth what I paid for it. Turns out, he would just rather I was naked too, no need for sexy outfits.

That relationship did not last. Although, now that I think about it, perhaps I should have been more adventurous. I mean, think about it? What would you do when stripping someone out of a Barney costume?

@Imadethisupwithnoforethought Ok, look at all my sexual encounters, I’ve been requested to wear certain things more than I’ve requested it of my partner. But, again, that has more to do with the fact that I just don’t need that kind of stuff as much…it’s like, I know all about lots of kinky things and I have lots of sex toys and strap ons and butt plugs and know what to do but I’ll rarely do any of it because I’m a minimalist in bed and because I’m good on my own and so is my partner. Finally, though many have requested, few have received what they requested.

Let’s face it, I’m not sure what the OP means by “outfit” but any sort of dress up options existing for men just make them look ridiculous and undignified and that is far from sexy to me and to most women. I am not visually turned on by mens bodies for the most part(s),lol. There is one exceptionally sexy part and it doesn’t show when he’s wearing an “outfit” unless that “outfit” consists of a cock ring.

I do appreciate a tasteful looking robe and attractive underwear. I don’t like big baggy boxers or tightie whities. The sight of a man coming to bed and sliding his robe open to the nakedness beneath might be a mild turn on, but not nearly as sexy as the sight of him untying his necktie and unbuttoning his dress shirt while gazing deeply into my eyes…..mmm…like I said, I like suits and uniforms and the only thing that comes close to being as sexy as that is a white linen shirt. That is as close as it comes to a menswear fetish item for me.