I put the list up and it's already working! My husband actually even made a middle name suggestion, Helen to honour his Grandma who's name was GraceHelen. There are too many Grace's in our families for us to even consider using Grace but Helen could work. I'm not sure if we will use it but attest he's thinking about names and we're not arguing. He also un-vitoed Geneveive, it's like seeing the names written down made things easier for him. I feel like we are finally getting somewhere.