I am partial to JenKitty's comments. The older you get, looks are important but stability, intelligence, communication, empathy and trust usually move to the top of the list.
Everyone, no matter what age, wants attraction to be part of their relationship. However, time will soon remove the beauty of youth...and there must be something more to sustain the relationship for the long haul.
Most professional guys, especially the type all of you describe and are looking for, usually want the same things in a woman (if they are worth building a quality relationship with).
I told my daughters as they grew into adulthood..."If you want Mr. Right, you have to be Ms. Right!" Don't expect something you are not willing to bring to the table too!
Guys don't want to be loved for their balance sheet or liquidity. To me there is nothing more attractive and magnetic than a stunning woman with the intelligence and Emotional IQ to match her looks.
Here are my 5 top items for women.
(They are not in order of priority)
1. Magnetic smile...well kept appearance (fit at any age)
2. Intelligent...and someone who is a great conversationalist
3. Empathic nature and great sense of humor...
4. An attitude of gratitude
5. Someone who brings something to the table in a relationship
(including knowledge, skills and a desire to contribute to a win-win, mutually beneficial relationship).
E Richards
P.S. Since these sites are so superficial placing photos first, I do not put the picture first. I will gladly email you one if you reply to me)

I am partial to JenKitty's comments. The older you get, looks are important but stability, intelligence, communication, empathy and trust usually move to the top of the list. Everyone, no matter what age, wants attraction to be part of their relationship. However, time will soon remove the beauty of youth...and there must be something more to sustain the relationship for the long haul. Most professional guys, especially the type all of you describe and are looking for, usually want the same things in a woman (if they are worth building a quality relationship with). I told my daughters as they grew into adulthood..."If you want Mr. Right, you have to be Ms. Right!" Don't expect something you are not willing to bring to the table too! Guys don't want to be loved for their balance sheet or liquidity. To me there is nothing more attractive and magnetic than a stunning woman with the intelligence and Emotional IQ to match her looks. Here are my 5 top items for women. (They are not in order of priority) 1. Magnetic smile...well kept appearance (fit at any age) 2. Intelligent...and someone who is a great conversationalist 3. Empathic nature and great sense of humor... 4. An attitude of gratitude 5. Someone who brings something to the table in a relationship (including knowledge, skills and a desire to contribute to a win-win, mutually beneficial relationship). E Richards P.S. Since these sites are so superficial placing photos first, I do not put the picture first. I will gladly email you one if you reply to me)

Hmmmmm....
1. Happy with himself and his life - I believe this could prevent a lot of marital issues;
2. Good sense of humor - if all else fails, we'll just laugh;
3. Charm - well, what else needs said about this;
4. Resourceful - if he doesn't have it, he can find IT and if he can't find it, he can build it, and if...
5. Empathetic - if he can REALLY put himself in my shoes, he'll be a pretty damn understanding man...wearing a size 35.5 Louboutin with 4 inch heel! ;)

Hmmmmm.... 1. Happy with himself and his life - I believe this could prevent a lot of marital issues; 2. Good sense of humor - if all else fails, we'll just laugh; 3. Charm - well, what else needs said about this; 4. Resourceful - if he doesn't have it, he can find IT and if he can't find it, he can build it, and if... 5. Empathetic - if he can REALLY put himself in my shoes, he'll be a pretty damn understanding man...wearing a size 35.5 Louboutin with 4 inch heel! ;)