Affliction or not, he'd be quite a catch

It’s an insight into the man that he’s approaching his woman-problem head on. Instead of splashing about in the rejection pool, he says: “I think I would make a great boyfriend and a great husband, but I really wish somebody would give me a chance. We all have our challenges. Mine are more obvious than others, but it doesn’t make me any less of a person.”

We all know that some rejections are earned, some are reasonable and some are unfair and even cruel. I have observed that unhappiness is inflicted on worthy people simply because they fit too easily into one of our nasty prejudice boxes.

A little advice to Stamper in his search:

Sometimes when you walk, you’re smart. Sometimes when she walks, you’re lucky.

You’re vulnerable, Kevin. Don’t get in a situation where you yearn for the good old days when you were just lonely.

I decided to list Stamper’s email in this column, as he had asked, and my wife said: “What? You’re now a matchmaker?”