12 Times Mindy Kaling And B.J. Novak’s “Weird As Hell” Relationship Was Perfect

Whether or not they’re an actual couple, we are absolutely obsessed with Mindy Kaling and B.J. Novak. The pair, who first met on the set of The Office, has admittedly dated in the past, but are now not boyfriend and girlfriend…but they’re not necessarily friends either. In a recent interview with InStyle, cover star Mindy had this to say about where her and B.J. are at now:

I will freely admit: My relationship with B.J. Novak is weird as hell. He’s is not my boyfriend, but he is not my best friend. I guess you could describe our relationship as “romantically charged camaraderie with loud arguments,” but I don’t think Facebook would accept this as a new status.

And let’s face it: we’ve all experienced that at some point in our lives, right? Like a friends with benefits, but without using that strange and dumb term. Anyway, we’re not judging because “romantically charged camaraderie with loud arguments” can describe many of our own relationships.