Having some feelings like something isn't right here lately. Please pray for me and my family. If there is something going on I pray it will come to light now.

Oldest son is in a battle for his 3 y/o daughter. The xso is causing misery and stress with her lies. He has gone back to college and is struggling with all of this going on.

Your prayers and good thoughts are deeply needed and greatly appreciated.

I will remember each of you in my prayers.

Blessings all.

~~"You can't run away from yourself"!!! Me to my H when he descended into adultery insanity.
~~Prov.15:13 "By sorrow of the heart the spirit is broken"
~~"The day breaks-your mind aches"
~STRENGTH~PEACE~HOPE~FAITH

Posts: 10020 | Registered: Feb 2005 | From: Texas

crushed again♀ MemberMember # 26138

Posted: 8:59 PM, September 28th (Tuesday), 2010

HPrynne-

A big Thank-you! Your prayers are working. A much better week than last week.
Also I finally got up the strength to go to the DR.- I just started on AD's this week. DS is having a better week too- he just got off the phone w/WH. They were making plans for a snack/movie date! Seemed to cheer DS up
Again, I pray that the Lord would lovingly wrap his arms around everyone here on SI...

Posts: 391 | Registered: May 2010 | From: on the edge of a sunset feet in the water

urwyfe♀ MemberMember # 29856

Posted: 11:30 AM, October 24th (Sunday), 2010

@NEWT SEE INBOX
(HUGS FOR EVERONE)
PSALM 37
Never stop praying. Things may seem to go in slow motion, but God will deliver us.

BW 48/WH 48 Married 8+ years
together 18+ years
DD#1 9/08, Reconciled 9/09
Cheating always ends in disaster! We were able to survive the aftermath!

Posts: 192 | Registered: Oct 2010 | From: NY

hitbyatruck♀ MemberMember # 23769

Posted: 7:30 PM, November 7th (Sunday), 2010

just asking for some prayers to get past something.

Married 1998, 2 kids
D-day3/27/09,he left 5/23/09
WH wants to rebuild 3/21/10
He moved back in 9/25/10,
Dec, 2011-finally putting it all together, H had multiple affairs.
Possible porn addict for 15 yrs.
01/2014- in house separation

Posts: 3283 | Registered: Apr 2009

notagainplease♀ New MemberMember # 27812

Posted: 11:51 PM, November 11th (Thursday), 2010

I have been separated from WH for 8 months now. After 45 years of marriage, I discovered H had been in LTA for years. Needless to say, I have gone through the various stages of grief.
So glad there is a prayer support forum here. I thought someone out there might benefit from a prayer my sister recently sent me. It made all the difference in the world for me!
Prayer of Release by Roy Lessin:
"I know the one in whom I trust, and I am sure that He is able to guard what I have entrusted to Him until the day of His return." II Tim. 1:12 "Heavenly Father,
I release to You the burdens that I have been carrying..burdens that You never intended for me to carry. I cast all my cares upon You, all my worries, all my fears.
Father, calm my restless spirit, quiet my anxious heart. Still my troubling thoughts with the assurance that You are in control. I let go of my grip upon the things I have been hanging onto. With open hands I come to You.
I thank You for Your promise to sustain me, preserve me, and guard all that I have entrusted to Your keeping. Protect my heart and mind with Your peace..the peace that passes all understanding. Father, may Your will be done in my life, in Your time and in Your way."
God bless all of you hurting hearts out there.

Posts: 14 | Registered: Mar 2010

looking forward♀ MemberMember # 25238

Posted: 9:26 PM, November 26th (Friday), 2010

I just found this thread!
I am so glad that we have this support through prayer.
I recently completed a three-part theological course called Living the Questions. One lesson was titled: Prayer: Intimacy With God. Its focus was the idea of prayer as the primary method of intereaction with God is best thought of as a way of life rather than an activity reserved for specific times, places, and formulas. Much of prayer's real power is in changing us. When we are changed, we may be able to see things in a new way or find the strength to live faithfully with what we cannot change.
This 21 part course contains many wonderful prayers, and if anyone reading would like to know more, please feel free to PM me.
So in parting,

O God,
thank you for people who nurture
childhood faith and teach,
in loving ways,
that your word is a light unto our path.
Thank you for all
the people who open our hearts and minds
to learn and grow.
Thank you for friends
in the faith,
people with whom
we can share
our struggles,
hunches, and joys.
Give us the courage
to not only study
the scriptures,
but also live your grace. In Christ's name.
Amen(Cynthia Langston Kirk)

Memory and hope; one looks backward, and the other forward; one is of today, the other of tomorrow.
Together almost 48 years.
"Find a place inside where there's joy, and the joy will burn out the pain." (Joseph Campbell)

Posts: 2994 | Registered: Aug 2009 | From: Where a river runs through it

looking forward♀ MemberMember # 25238

Posted: 6:40 PM, December 30th (Thursday), 2010

A New Year’s PrayerMay God make your year a happy one!
Not by shielding you from all sorrows and pain,
But by strengthening you to bear it, as it comes;
Not by making your path easy,
But by making you sturdy to travel any path;
Not by taking hardships from you,
But by taking fear from your heart;
Not by granting you unbroken sunshine,
But by keeping your face bright, even in the shadows;
Not by making your life always pleasant,
But by showing you when people and their causes need you most, and by making you anxious to be there to help.
God’s love, peace, hope and joy to you for the year ahead.

Memory and hope; one looks backward, and the other forward; one is of today, the other of tomorrow.
Together almost 48 years.
"Find a place inside where there's joy, and the joy will burn out the pain." (Joseph Campbell)

Posts: 2994 | Registered: Aug 2009 | From: Where a river runs through it

Lynn52♀ New MemberMember # 26510

Posted: 3:01 PM, January 10th (Monday), 2011

Asking for prayer for myself,WH and our children. 1st Dday was April 2009. It was a long road to R. It didn't really start until about Aug.2010. It's been up and down but getting better I thought, even a week vac. just the two of us over our wedding anniversary. Well big fight yesterday, worse than its been in a while. I said mean things to him like in the beginning. So today he tells me its just too much, he's done.Our youngest son is special needs he's going to have an extra hard time with a S.

Please pray that my family stays together and heals and grows. Prayers for my children that they end up with their parents together, happy and in love.

If anyone is willing to pray for my family I would appreciate it so much.

praying Lynn.
Please Pray for my wh and I also. Beenn living seperately for 2 months, NC with him. I keep praying for him, I just don't know what God is doing with him, but I am NOt encouraged. He filed for D but I contested...and so I am letting it sit for its time right now...No quick decision...Praying Satan releases him and God brings him back to repentance and R so we can be a stronger and more effective ministry for HIM!..I love him, inspite od his "sins". Well, God loves me inspite of my imperfections, how can I bestow less than that on MY HUSBAND? I'm trying to be strong, courageous, and not lose Hope.
My family is also very angry. There are a lot of hearts that need mended and filled with love and forgiveness over this mess.
Oh and He is living with His ow, because he says he can't stay at our house...too many ghosts..NO DUH??!!

Posts: 9 | Registered: Dec 2010 | From: pittsburgh,pa

Beat up♂ MemberMember # 30445

Posted: 1:10 PM, January 16th (Sunday), 2011

Hi,

Can I request to be mentioned for strength for both me and my 2 boys?

I will mention all in my prayers also.

Thanks.

Mike

Posts: 59 | Registered: Dec 2010

Crushed1♀ MemberMember # 6449

Posted: 1:35 PM, January 17th (Monday), 2011

(((((everyone))))) Keeping you all in prayer...asking our Father to give strength, courage, and wisdom to each of us to face what comes our way each day.

God bless you all and please keep me and my family in your prayers. The Lord does hear us.

~~"You can't run away from yourself"!!! Me to my H when he descended into adultery insanity.
~~Prov.15:13 "By sorrow of the heart the spirit is broken"
~~"The day breaks-your mind aches"
~STRENGTH~PEACE~HOPE~FAITH

Posts: 10020 | Registered: Feb 2005 | From: Texas

APRIL2008♀ MemberMember # 19690

Posted: 2:53 PM, January 19th (Wednesday), 2011

Please pray for me and my family need all the strength I can get to continue on with my journey. I am confused and need direction. Need to free my head from conflict so that I can see what god has to show me and hear what he has to tell me. thank you in advance.

Me BGF28
XBF 29
DD 10
DS 7

“Was it hard?" I ask.
Letting go?"
Not as hard as holding on to something that wasn't real.”
― Lisa Schroeder

Posts: 527 | Registered: May 2008 | From: Arizona

jilteddad1♂ New MemberMember # 29864

Posted: 5:46 PM, January 24th (Monday), 2011

Beat up - I'm with you brother. I need prayer as well, we have 2 boys 17, 14 that my WW left along with me after 21 years of M in Oct saying she was in love with another man she met on face book 2 months prior. They hooked up for a weekend and I guess he got his because he seems to be out of the picture. After the holidays I thought she would be ready to come home. but not yet. I asked her is she has found someone new, she said no but it sure feels like it did before. Can anyone relate? I pray for everyone caught in this bear trap. I can't tell what my WW wants, I pray that she would hit bottom and realize what she's done.

[This message edited by jilteddad1 at 5:49 PM, January 24th (Monday)]

Posts: 42 | Registered: Oct 2010 | From: Texas

crushed again♀ MemberMember # 26138

Posted: 12:00 AM, January 26th (Wednesday), 2011

Hugs & prayers to EVERYONE on this thread and to everyone on SI as well. jilteddad1, APRIL2008, and everyone else with foggy spouses praying especially for you all. Asking the Lord to please open the eyes & hearts of those who still do not see pain and heartache they are causing with their sinful actions. May God bless &
Heal each & everyone one of us on this painful journey called infidelity. I ask this in Jesus' precious name. Amen.

I haven't posted in this thread in a long, long time, in part because I suspect wh knows my username and this site and I couldn't post what was really going on, for my own protection. But now he knows I've filed.

He acted very conciliatory last night, played the poor me, I know I've been a jerk routine, and I have no idea if it's true or not. He's seeing a laywer this morning. This is one of the little things that galls me. As a full time employee of a huge company, he has benefits like employee assistance to connect him up with a laywer in a heartbeat, something not quite so simple for a part time employee/ stay at home mom. But that's probably just a vent and frustration.

Please pray that he would genuinely move forward civilly with concern for the kids and be fair in alimony as I've given up 22 years of full time work which I can never recoup, please pray he wouldn't turn this into an ugly legal battle. Please pray for our children, who don't yet know. Please pray for me to have strength, as I not only have this to deal with, but an alcoholic, dysfunctional family and a mother who's already telling people I'm 'imagining' things regarding wh. It's likely their tongues will be wagging overtime about how stupid and awful I'm being and how I'm ruining all my children's lives.

Thank you.

Me: free of the secrets and lies!!!
Divorced 10/2011

Posts: 4483 | Registered: Jun 2007

bumbed♀ MemberMember # 31024

Posted: 9:10 AM, March 6th (Sunday), 2011

Please pray for me and my wayward. Pray that God opens our hearts and minds to each other so that we can see, feel and talk about his plan for us and our future.

Pray for strength, wisdom, comfort, peace and faith as we face this very difficult path for me and my SI family.

I rather suspect like all the worst things in life, making sense of it will not happen.

25 year relationship D day 1/28/11
The we door is closed but the ME doors are opening

Posts: 471 | Registered: Jan 2011 | From: a better place in Michiagn

capri♀ MemberMember # 14940

Posted: 9:48 PM, March 19th (Saturday), 2011

I met someone recently who very much needs prayer. She is living in a nightmare similar to many here, with an extremely emotionally abusive, controlling, and arrogant husband. She has been getting counseling and is slowly getting stronger, but sounds like she feels she has a long way to go. Please pray for her to overcome all his belittling and abuse, and to be able to take care of herself. He's threatening what he'll do if she divorces him, at the same time he insults her and tells her she's nothing and he doesn't like anything about her. My heart is breaking for her tonight.