Heather Dubrow Reveals Why She Almost *Didn't* Date Terry Back in the Day

Heather Dubrow and Terry Dubrow didn't hold back when they stopped by Kocktails with Khloe on Wednesday. And, yes, that includes opening up about their philosophies on cheating. The subject came up when The Real Housewives of Orange Countycouple sat down with fellow guests burlesque performer Dita Von Teese and actress Missi Pyle. "First of all, people have challenges because of the options that are presented to them, particularly if you're a guy because to a guy a sex act is sometimes equivalent to blowing your nose," Terry shared. "But for a woman, potentially, it's a much more serous thing. So if a guy were to cheat — and, of course, I would never — [a guy might think] just as along as I get away with it, no big deal."

Heather mirrored her hubby's sentiments. "First off, I believe that women decide sex. When it's a heterosexual couple, I believe women decide sex and so if you're married or you're in a relationship and you're committed, you're not going to do it because to women it is more than just blowing your nose. But I think, for men, I think a guy who's a really good guy can be put in a bad situation," she said. "And, to them, it's not such an emotional thing. They get in a bad situation, there's an extra drink, some woman's coming on. I think good guys can get into a bad situation... I'm talking about someone in a committed relationship, not in general."

In addition to that candid discussion on affairs, Heather revealed why she almost didn't want to date Terry when she met him nearly two decades ago. "This is why we almost didn't get together because when I met him I was like, 'This is not going to work out because you're never seeing me naked cause it's all real,'" she said of her plastic surgeon husband. "He's used to seeing it all perfect."

Of course, the conversation wasn't always super deep. Heather and Terry also dished about one of the most unusual beauty treatments they've ever tried together — as inspired by GOOP queen, Gwyneth Paltrow. "Gwyneth Paltrow came out and said she had this vaginal steaming," Heather recalled. "And I'm like, 'If Gwynie gets her vagina steamed, maybe we need to.' So they put you in these rooms, you sit on this toilet thing and it shoots hot air up you. There's levels. I kept turning it down and turning it down."