tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15935045.post114477435496637752..comments2017-06-30T21:06:57.600-05:00Comments on Journal Wunelle: Bless Me Sister...William Stachourhttps://plus.google.com/104146351241936478650noreply@blogger.comBlogger9125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15935045.post-1145049060971367812006-04-14T16:11:00.000-05:002006-04-14T16:11:00.000-05:00Absolutely! Like putting "Abercrombie" or "Hollis...Absolutely! Like putting "Abercrombie" or "Hollister" or whatever right on one's ass. (I could put the Declaration of Independence on mine!) At least in that case I don't feel so bad about look at a woman's ass, though I still have the <I>imagining the ass naked</I> part to feel bad about<BR/><BR/>;-)wunellehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12447198404608861357noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15935045.post-1144998154113653502006-04-14T02:02:00.000-05:002006-04-14T02:02:00.000-05:00My question is, How come T-shirts have stuff for u...My question is, How come T-shirts have stuff for us to see that is located in a place where we are not supposed to look (but we really, really want to)?<BR/><BR/>-- JeffyAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15935045.post-1144943485426473502006-04-13T10:51:00.000-05:002006-04-13T10:51:00.000-05:00Your comment plays a bit to the mystical nether-re...Your comment plays a bit to the mystical nether-regions of my post. I also could never be serious about someone with whom I have only a physical attraction, however defined. But I think few people admit to having NO interest in physical attributes.<BR/><BR/>And yet those attributes contribute nothing to a person's ability to flourish in the minefield of relationships. On the contrary, I think a case (of whatever strength) could be made that people for whom the doors of life have always opened because of their looks are less likely to be skilled in the psychological drudgery of relationship work, for reasons of practice if nothing else.<BR/><BR/>How we look seems to be a mechanism for setting the hook, an introductory device.wunellehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12447198404608861357noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15935045.post-1144932493926055942006-04-13T07:48:00.000-05:002006-04-13T07:48:00.000-05:00Hmm ...On the one hand, I don't think you're in an...Hmm ...<BR/><BR/>On the one hand, I don't think you're in any danger of falling into the camp of body-part-obessesed, self-centred sterotypical man humanity. So the worrying? Unfounded.<BR/><BR/>On the other hand, I don't get it. I must be the most un-physically-motivated woman on the face of this planet. Yes, I can appreciate beautiful men, and enjoy them, but there's no way I'm attracted to anyone in any way unless they've got some sort of mental connection. Which can be a bit of a bugger sometimes, but oh well ...Dzesikahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04152238257528930570noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15935045.post-1144930206142615992006-04-13T07:10:00.000-05:002006-04-13T07:10:00.000-05:00You ARE an ass, man!anonymously yours,Alex RandomYou <B>ARE</B> an ass, man!<BR/><BR/>anonymously yours,<BR/><BR/>Alex RandomAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15935045.post-1144858254645822422006-04-12T11:10:00.000-05:002006-04-12T11:10:00.000-05:00Oh, I agree entirely. No relationship--no healthy...Oh, I agree entirely. No relationship--no healthy relationship--is based on a fetishistic attraction to a physical feature. And I really believe that we come to find beautiful that which we love. I have never chosen or refused a date based on this, and I would feel only contempt for someone who did. (And if my dates had done so I would have had... no dates.)<BR/><BR/>But be that as it may, at times it takes an act of will on my part to keep my head from spinning like Linda Blair. Would that it were not so.<BR/><BR/>Well, kinda. ;-)wunellehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12447198404608861357noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15935045.post-1144857650024426362006-04-12T11:00:00.000-05:002006-04-12T11:00:00.000-05:00I think a lot of times it depends on what you DO a...I think a lot of times it depends on what you DO about those attractions rather than THINK--if you can understand that. An uncle of mine once said that the whole reason he asked my aunt out that first time was because she had a tight sweater on and generous breasts--and he's a very liberated kind of guy. They've also been married around 40 years now--so I imagine his initial interest grew past her bosom. If someone sticks with someone merely because of his or her looks, I figure they'll eventually be very sad (because we all sag eventually, unless we get "enhanced" or botoxed) or they are extremely hollow.woolfhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08194894608204263734noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15935045.post-1144790753118289812006-04-11T16:25:00.000-05:002006-04-11T16:25:00.000-05:00Haha! I'll enable profile pics if you model THAT ...Haha! I'll enable profile pics if you model THAT shirt instead! ;-)wunellehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12447198404608861357noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15935045.post-1144789667905224692006-04-11T16:07:00.000-05:002006-04-11T16:07:00.000-05:00Of course you're not beyond redemption. There is ...Of course you're not beyond redemption. There is nothing in the feminist code of conduct that prohibits appreciation of the female form. (Or is there? Well, there certainly shouldn't be.) You are right though that there really is no equivalent for women. I mean, I know what physical attribute I tend to like in men, but I think in general women's tastes in that regard are far more varied and subtle.<BR/><BR/>p.s. How ironic that you've disabled profile pics! (Although, I'd find it even more deliciously ironic if I could get myself one of those t-shirts included in your post and use that instead of the Yankees t-shirt in my profile pic. Get it? hehe)Lizziehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01717543599652299242noreply@blogger.com