Pick-up Success – More Places and Techniques

This is different from the more advanced camera technique, in that it’s about meeting a girl using your digital camera.

There are a couple variations, and they can work just about anywhere – although bars and scenic spots are best.

The first way, you offer to take a picture of a group of ladies to take a shot of some ladies setting up for a photo and trying to figure out who to ask. You know the situation. So now you’ve got confidence and a sparkle of gallantry going for you.

Now you want to have some playful conversation – like the previous technique, you set them up a bit, move them around, perhaps slightly hands-on, but not too much, and only in a natural I-do-this-with-everyone way. After you take the first shot, make a joke about the faces they make, have them do it again. Get them laughing and enjoying themselves – this works especially well in a tourist spot with ladies just out having a good time, no schedule.

Learn a little bit about what they’re doing, find out their next plan. If they don’t have one, invite them along to join you. If they’ve got an idea, nothing works better than “Yeah, that’s a nice spot… but I know a better one which isn’t in the guide books. I’m actually heading that way soon, if you want me to show you the way.”

Or, you can take it a whole different direction, and ask THEM to guide YOU. If you’ve made them laugh enough during the photo shoot, they’ll likely invite you along. If not, say “I know (or heard about) this great place to grab a coffee and relax. I’m going there at 4 – why don’t I meet you there? Lots of good restaurants and bars for later in the evening in the area too.” Odds are they’ll be more than happy to join you and you will show your skills playing best 88 key weighted keyboard.

Second technique, same as the first, but get one of the ladies to snap your picture – then offer to do the same for them, get playful conversation going from the start.

REMEMBER, EVERYTHING hinges on having a lady you met on adultfrienedfinder enjoy her time with you. These techniques, they’re just openers to get the ice broken – your success is entirely about your banter and playful aura – creating attraction. These are great ways to open a lady or group, but you’ve got to know what you’re going to do with them BEFORE you start to have a chance to bring it further.

Ok, the third and most advanced version is to ask a girl to take a photo WITH you. This gives you an excuse to give her a squeeze, get a kiss on the cheek (girls love this, although they usually resist at first), strike a funny playful pose – and of course come up with an excuse why the first one isn’t any good and you’ve got to do it again.

NOTE: Don’t overdo the retakes – once, maybe twice, they’re fun. More than that, and you seem like a clingy guy who can’t think of a better way to hold her attention.