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Talking about your exs

Last night my boyfriend and i had a double date with my best friend and her boyfriend..the evening is going great and out of no where my best friends boyfriend said "i use to bring my ex to this place" which isn't bad but he kept bring her up "my ex bought one of those" "my ex and i use to go there and do that" etc... This popped up red flags for me, i talked to my best friend about whether shes sure he really is over his ex. She said yes and pretty much left it at that.

Am i the only one who thinks that is a sign of him not being over his ex?? Maybe its my crazy way of thinking but i just dont think you should bring up ur ex all the time while you're on a date with someone else.

The few examples i gave wasn't even no where near all he said. At one point my boyfriend started cracking jokes about it because he kept going on about her. He told us a 5 minute story about going purse shopping with his ex. If it were me i would have said a smartass remark and left.

Quoting km1970:

I agree with you...your best friend needs to find someone else to date.

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