Relationship Red Flags

Also, when he spends more time on the phone talking to his female friend from work instead of spending time with me.

He has lunch with her and does not invite me and then when he does invite me for some reason she never is able to show up due to an emergency or something but spend the rest of the evening talking to him on the phone while he is eating dinner with me.

I also have people calling my house and hanging up but when he answers the phone the phone never hangs up.

All of my red flags starting appearing at the end of my relationship.

I figured if he could not invest as much time with me as he could his co-worker then I needed to excuse myself out of the equation and allow him to continue in his relationship with her.