Is There Anything Wrong With a Well-Endowed Man?

We all hope that there will be magic and fireworks when we finally have sex with someone we've been dating, but what if you get a surprise? A big surprise? More to the point, I'm wondering if you've ever been with a guy who was well endowed? That is, someone who definitely has more going on below the waist than your average man. Were you pleasantly surprised and excited, or did it make you a little scared and nervous? What about after you slept together: Is there anything wrong with a well-endowed man? Tell me in the comments below!

I think there are a few myths going on here. One is that having a baby, DOES NOT change the size of a woman's vagina. The vagina returns to normal size after childbirth. Ask any gynecologist, and she or he will confirm that for you. In reality, the baby is only in the birth canal for a short time. It's the UTERUS that is stretched where the baby is carried for 9 months. I have two children, and have taken a well-endowed penis the same as before I had them, and years since, after having them. I've been told that my vagina is tight by men of different sizes. Secondly, the size of a woman's body, does not tell you about the size of her vagina. Verify this with a doctor as well if you don't believe me. There are very small women who can accept huge penises, and large women with small ones. If you look at porn, I would argue that the most popular females tend to be small, and they are taking men who are huge. It's just as you can't look at a man's body and tell about his penis size either. My bf is not a large man at all, and he's very large(too my surprise the first time I saw it!) Thirdly, to those who don't believe the number of well endowed lovers some of the women on this posts said they have had, sorry, but some of us are just lucky. Online dating, also permits women to find out a lot about a man before meeting face to face. Also we women these days are just more selective. I used to ask that question when I was dating before I would meet a guy because size is important to me. Some men date only busty women, and no one gets offended by that. It's just personal preference. My boyfriend of one year is large(9-10 inches when erect), and he satisfies me completely because he's gentle, and always takes his time, as well as pleases me orally first much of the time. A larger man should always take his time, and never bang his partner, or of course he WILL hurt her insides. Women, you should be very excited and looking forward to having him enter. If you're afraid or nervous, and tighten up, it WILL hurt. Relax, and enjoy because in my opinion, you'll have much more pleasure, and many more orgasms than with a smaller man. Of course if you love and trust your partner, that's critical to enjoyment.

4 years

This thread is hilarious. Almost every post claims experience with multiple 8", 9" or 10" penises. It's really seriously unlikely!!! The most scientific stats out there, the result of a condom manufacturer's study, are on wikipedia under 'human penis size'. They suggest only 4% or 5% of men are as big as 7", and only 1% at most are 8", above that the percentages are meaninglessly small. So the chances of finding several guys 8"+ is thousands to one... even if you've had yourself a decent sample size!!
Frustratingly, this kind of nonsense is exactly the scenario I find myself in with my current, older, girlfriend. I'm 32, she's 45. She claims that I am only her 8th lover and that her husband of 20yrs was only 5", which says clearly size isn't everything to her. But she claims one 9-10" lover at 17yrs old, and an afair with an 8.5" too thick to get her grip around. I'm frustrated because I'm almost 8" long and almost 6" in girth... which would make me almost that one in a hundred well-endowed guy... but it is clear my girlfriend sees me as pretty ordinary. I struggle to believe her claims, and think her memory is skewed by years of living with a small man. She says my penis is her favourite, her largest in an ongoing capacity, and third largest overall. And yet somehow she claims I have the largest head. It is huge, but I struggle to see how those larger ones were capped off with anything smaller than my head. They'd look ridiculous. I have become aware that whenever she has complimented my size, it has always been specifically to my head, rather than my penis as a whole.
Most incredibly, when we have talked about compliments paid by former lovers (we can talk to each other about anything) she has genuinely been amused by the words I have said previous women used. I was always content with my size, but what man wouldn't always like an extra inch. However, I was routinely treated like i was quite a special find size-wise. My girlfriends reaction to all this is to say they must have been young, inexperienced and not had many men at the point of meeting me.
So what's my point? Show a woman a couple of big dicks in her life, she'll probably remember them in an even more flattering light they don't require, and she'll be of the belief they're to be found everywhere!

4 years

before I met my husband I had only seen 3 other penis. The first 2 were slightly above average and the 3rd one was huge. I ended up losing my virginity to him and it felt like I was being split in 2. The sex did get better over time, and i did enjoy him. My husband is barely average and does not compare to the other 3, however he is the only guy to ever give me multiple orgasms.

5 years

I think size matter a lot for a girl..the bigger the better..it's like the age of a woman for a man...the youngest the better..
well not too big and of course not too young...

being a 52 year old woman I have experienced many sizes of men. I always preferred a more well endowed man. I am petite and little plump and can handle at least 9 hard inches
without any problems. I do think that oral needs to come first so you can get lots of lubrication in order for it to just slide in easier. It is amazing how a woman can take something that size. I also noticed that a more endowed man makes me orgasm quicker and more intensely especially if oral was great. I personally don't like a small penis I dated a man once who was barely 5 inches and I just had a hard time enjoying sex with him. Big penises will spoil you.

being a 52 year old woman I have experienced many sizes of men. I always preferred a more well endowed man. I am petite and little plump and can handle at least 9 hard inches without any problems. I do think that oral needs to come first so you can get lots of lubrication in order for it to just slide in easier. It is amazing how a woman can take something that size. I also noticed that a more endowed man makes me orgasm quicker and more intensely especially if oral was great. I personally don't like a small penis I dated a man once who was barely 5 inches and I just had a hard time enjoying sex with him. Big penises will spoil you.

5 years

So GLAD I found this site. I just broke up with my boyfriend of 6 months, because he was SO well endowed it HURT and sex was always uncomfortable. It litteraly took me a week or two to heal so we couldn't have sex inbetween. He was one of the worst lovers I had ever been with. I was with two other guys that were larger than average and the same thing, sex sucked! Foreplay was the worst they were more interested in showing off their package.

I'm only about 7''x 5.5'' but that's too large for one of my girlfriends and I suspect, not large enough for the other. Maybe it is because one of them has had children. I used to go out with a Chinese girl who thought I was 'enormous' so I'm pretty confused. Definitely too small for some of the ladies here. As for online dating I reckon men should give their vital stats to avoid any problems.

5 years

I'm an average guy (5") and I hate to admit this but I've been with the same woman a long time and when we first started dating, she mentioned that her ex(es) were all bigger but it didn't matter. After a few years she decided to "explore her horizons" and we broke it off while she did just that. I'm not sure whether or not the grass was greener on the other side but she found me again and decided to keep me. When I bring this up to her she tells me: "I don't want to talk about it." - I just wanted to know if she was looking and couldn't find what she was looking for or in fact did find it and simply used this guy until she had her fill so-to-speak. Mind you, we were separated a little over a year while she "explored" and if we didn't get married... I wouldn't dare mention this to her but I don't think I would have taken her back.
-R. Stephans

5 years

My partner of 10 yrs is fairly big (needs to use the Magnum XL condoms) and while there isn't anything wrong, it was annoying at the beginning to hurt so much after sex, peeing burned and it felt raw there. We couldn't do it two nights in a row, I needed one night off to heal. Since we had a child, I've stretched a bit down there, and I no longer hurt when we have sex. What irks me though, is that we have an open relationship and I can have sex with other men, and other men aren't as well endowed, and I feel like I'm a cave to whoever else I have sex with. And I'm sorry, but Chandra Miss Pure and Virginal, had me practically in tears laughing. Yeah, I bet her husband and other husbands want to keep their wifes pure and virginal by not having vaginal with them. Those are the ones who just go get it elsewhere, like from me.

It's gotta be just as embarrassing for a woman to ask' "is it in yet?" as it is for a guy to hear it. Those guys get my sympathy. I knew a fellow who was distinctly under the average size and his wife's first husband was literally twice his size. (4.75" vs 9.5")
His wife once admitted (probably during a fight) that she missed her first husband's size. I don't think it ever stopped tormenting him even though they've been married for years and he said he had a good sex life with her. Still, he actually tried talking me into being with his wife just so she could re-experience a large guy (I'm about 9.75"). But he wanted to watch.
I declined. It's a strange world.

It's gotta be just as embarrassing for a woman to ask' "is it in yet?" as it is for a guy to hear it. Those guys get my sympathy. I knew a fellow who was distinctly under the average size and his wife's first husband was literally twice his size. (4.75" vs 9.5")His wife once admitted (probably during a fight) that she missed her first husband's size. I don't think it ever stopped tormenting him even though they've been married for years and he said he had a good sex life with her. Still, he actually tried talking me into being with his wife just so she could re-experience a large guy (I'm about 9.75"). But he wanted to watch.I declined. It's a strange world.

5 years

mmmm some good comments , esp from the lady that mentioned if thats all your going out with them for and how would you feel being dumped for not having the right colour hair etc. After all , once your past it what then ? you going to dump him and get a younger model ? for some if you keep changing lanes one day you will crash . If your man makes you feel happy then stick with him . ps . my boyfriend is greatfully above normal and i tease him badly when we are out and about just to see him squirm.

5 years

To the previous, anonymous poster: I'm 7.5 long and 6 thick, and every woman I've been with has said I have a "big, thick dick." The average length is estimated at 6 inches, and I know your boyfriend's girth is above average from my previous experience. From the women I've been with as well as the opinions I've read online and in men's magazines (I even remember GQ once had a "perfect penis" size chart), your BF is just about perfect for MOST women. There are petite women who want a smaller girth, and there are size queens who won't tolerate anything under 9 inches, but about 80% of women find your BF's size to be the ideal (or at least very close to it). Too long and the man can hit the cervix. Too wide and he can tear the vagina. But I've also never met a woman who said size doesn't matter.
In short, I can't speak for the previous posters as to what they consider large (and how many of them have actually gotten a ruler out? Much less a string to measure the girth?) Your boyfriend is above average in both length and girth. He's not a giant, but the majority of women don't seem to want that. I hope that answers your question.

5 years

I love all these comments. I would just like to know what you guys consider to be above average. I have heard that anything above 6" is above but not sure if its true. My BF is 7" in length and 6" in gerth and wanted to know if that was average or above average to you guys?

5 years

A few years back, I had my first experience with a very well endowed man who I met on a casual dating website. At first it was very painful, however after a few penetrations that night, I was good. Oral sex was tricky where I couldn`t take him as deeply as I`d liked. We met a few times after. I am currently on various dating websites and I have found that guys I meet who are average or smaller just do not hold the same interest or sensation for me. As a result, I have changed my profile to read well endowed men only and found myself being more satisfied with these men.
so in short, it`s personal preference.

5 years

This comment, is in response to BlackHawk13,I have to agree with big mistake. I'm not sure about your circustances if you had children with your wife within the last 13 years. If so, this may change her a little, but if you didn't notice anything different until now, it could be that she is using sex toys as well, except the part where you mentioned that you found her sending nude pictures to her boss. Unfortunately, it would be almost 100% accurate that she has adjusted to a new equipment behind your back. My spouce cheated when I was pregnant with our son 20 years ago, and now he is re-marrying another woman. When we were married I was a virgin, and he made fun of me because I was virginal and pure. He also called me a beached whale when I was pregnant with our son. Needless to say when I found out he cheated when I was pregnant with our son, I Divorced him right away. We were only married for less than two years. Even today I still keep myself virginal, and am proud to be pure and honest. I can't say the same for him, because he has dated way to many woman since our divorce. I just wonder how his future wife will love him if she knows he is a cheater. Just my two cents, but my friends both male and female admit that a woman adjusts to her husbands size after marriage, and unless she is using toys or veggies like some married woman do, and is not very respectable to her beloved husband, then she is definitely cheating. Hiding a camera in the bed room when your at work or keeping a close watch on e-mails will confirm your suspicions. From personal experience most men prefer woman who keep themselves virginal and pure in the marriage bed, and not using toys or cheating with other men is the best way to keep a marriage honest and fulfilling forever. Once again I remind all woman married or not that keeping yourself virginal and pure is best. Most men cheat on their wives in their 4o's, and 50's with teenagers or woman in their early 20's, because they miss the duck tight virgin that they married twenty years ago, and cheating or using toys will destroy any good marriage. Keeping pure, honest and viginal and loving only their husband and not cheating is the best policy for a successful marriage!
Thanks for your post BlackHawk13, it was excellent.
I really enjoyed reading all your comments.
Thanks to everyone, and sorry for my last entry made a few spelling errors. I was rushing, as I had a few errands, but the word ove, should have been Love!!!
I guess I enjoyed this post tremendously, so I made a few typo's. Thanks for keeping in touch!
Have a nice day everyone, and good luck!
Chandra VallesdesMars

5 years

Hi, my name is Chandra VallesdesMars, and I really enjoy this blog and your interesting comments. So here is my two cents from both male and female friends, hope this helps!
It is nice to read blogs that explain the truth about how relationships can last forever or not. Many of my female friends have mentioned that it's not the size that counts, but the way a man uses his equipment. How True!!!
The sad fact about marriage or long-term relationships is that once a woman has many children that is when the problems start. Woman's equipment don't require a huge man's part, average is perfect for most honest pure woman like myself. Very proud to be pure, honest, and virginal.
When a woman marries she is a virgin. When she has children she gets a bit bigger. If a man is very small 3-4 inches, the man may cheat after his wife gives birth to his children. Most woman won't cheat, but sadly some do, but not often, if they respect their husbands.
It is better to be with an average Joe, like 5-6.5 inches. If a man is to small or to big it may end a good relationship after children are born.
If a man is bigger than average, like 8 - 10 inches, it is good if they are planning on a big family, because a bigger man can penetrate deeper, to ensure a good pregnancy.
And once the children are born he is less likely to stray. For his wife will change a little after the birthing process.
For a only one child birth, an average size man is good. I have spoken to many male friends and sorry girls, but this is the truth.
A woman who repsects her man and keeps herself virginal and pure before and after having children, have the best long-term marriages. Those who don't keep themselves pure and sleep with men behind their spouces back, they will get caught, and a man can tell when a woman cheats.
Average men are best, because small men will cheat once their partner has one or more children. This is unfortunate for all the good hearted wives who bring children into the world, because their husbands want children.
I am a pure virginal woman, and always treat my husband with respect and we enjoy lots of hugging, sex toys, and oral, but we don't do vaginal often, because keeping yourself virginal and pure it very important to almost every man that walks this planet. And that is why men in their 40's to 50's stare at young teenagers or woman in their early 20's, because your man is missing the duck tight vagina that he once married 20 years ago.
Anymore questions? I got this information from a scientist who lost his cheating spouce to a well endowed 9" man. And now he is with me, a tiny virginal woman who loves her man for not making her feel bad for having one child 25 years ago. And yes he is average size, but he enjoys oral and vaginal occassionaly. Hugging and kissing, and oral is best for those who want to remain virginal and pure. Occasional vaginal is o.k, but keep it simple and pleasure pleasing, and he will ove you forever!!!
Good Luck!!!

5 years

Having split up with my husband, who I might add was an average size. I've now met another man, and OMG!! Can I add that we are both black, & the myth about black men suddenly became true for me! My new man is not very big in body, which is definately not what I'm usually attracted to because my ex partners have all been six foot or more, but he has a fantastic personality, and that's more important. Anyway when I first saw his penis, I was absolutely shocked by the size of it. He also has size eleven feet, so the myth for me has suddenly taken on a whole new meaning. I have to admit that when we first made love, I felt discomfort, but the next time I plied myself with alchohol, just to get some dutch courage! He kindly purchased some lube, which I'd never used before, and the next time we made love was more enjoyable. I find myself thinking about him all the time, and I can't get enough of him. Love you hunnybun xxxxxxx

5 years

Thats kinda what I was thinking. After reading this blog, I am never EVER going to listen to girls complaining about how much weight guys give the size of their chests.

5 years

You're all so full of it. The average penis size is 5-6 inches. It's just as rare to see 8 as it is 4. Shallow. I wonder how many of you are actually women and the ones that are; I wonder how many would be pissed off if this was a bunch of guys saying; "I'd toss her out because she has a fat ass/stomach...small breasts...etc..." Hmmm.

5 years

ok I just met a guy who is totally in love with me, he is nice and everything....BUT we went to bed and he is SMALL,for me its a dealbreaker, I feel terrible cause I dont want to hurt him, but its freaking me out. I know its also an optical illusion, cause he is fat, but it sucks...now the question is if Im able to overcome that and have a guy who is totally in love with me and would do anything for me or I need a big boy...

6 years

BlackHawk13 It seems that your wife has adjusted to a Large Penis.... This happened after having on going relationship with an endowed man and then going with someone small or average size. I lost the love of my life because of that reason after getting with a big endowed Jerk, My Fiance notice me looser and I couldn't tight his penis anymore as he was used to..... I had to confess my other relationship and finally he came to the conclusion that I had STRETCHED to the point I couldn't go back for average guy anymore...... So ladies make sure that if you update to a larger size keep in that category forever.. The BIGGER the LOOSER you may get!!!!!! HAPPY Humping