I m so lonely

GOGGLEBOX’S Sandra Martin has insisted that she is going into Celebrity Big Brother after tweeting her phone number and telling followers she was “lonely” tonight.Earlier today the 55-year-old denied she was entering the all-female house next week and insisted on Twitter that bosses hadn’t even contacted her – but in a conversation with The Sun Online Sandra revealed her excitement at going in.She said: “I’m so happy right now, I’m in a great place.“I’m going into Celebrity Big Brother next week and I’m so excited.”This comes as the telly star tweeted out her phone number and encouraged fans to call her.Following a series of calls, she admitted she was “lonely”, tweeting: “THANKS XXXX APPRECIATE IT. TO ALL DAT CALL ME.AM GOING THROUGH A LONELY TIME. YOUR CALLS MEEN A LOT TO ME. AM IN BRIXTON TODAY. GOT MY FAMILY BUT STILL WANT YOU ALL IN MY LIFE XXXX BOOOOYACKAAAAA UGETME BABES”Two weeks ago … [Read more...] about Gogglebox’s Sandra insists ‘I AM going into CBB’ after tweeting her phone number to fans and telling them ‘I’m lonely’

Got a problem? Write to Deidre here. Every problem gets a personal reply, usually within 24 hours weekdays. You can also private message on the DearDeidreOfficial Facebook page. Follow me on Twitter @deardeidre or write to Deidre Sanders, The Sun, London SE1 9GF (please enclose SAE).I HAD drunken lesbian sex with an old school friend and I am so ­confused now.I have been married for ten years and I love my husband very much.I am 33, he is 35 and we have a daughter who is six.We have had our ups and downs like most marriages but neither of us has ever wanted anybody else and our sex life has generally been pretty OK.My dad disappeared when I was four and my mum worked all hours to support us.My aunt lived near us and, while my mum was working, I spent a lot of time at her house with my cousins. We were more like siblings than cousins.My aunt died two months ago and I was wracked with grief.I went back to my home town for her funeral but my husband could not get time off … [Read more...] about I had a boozy lesbian romp with an old school friend and I feel so confused — but I don’t know if I should tell my husband

I AM having sex with my mate’s ex-girlfriend.We love each other so much but my friend is furious and is accusing us of going behind his back before they split up.How can this ever work?My pal and I have worked together since we were in our teens.We are now both 20.He started a relationship with a 30-year-old woman and we arranged an evening out with her and her mate.It was a great evening but I could not take my eyes off his girlfriend.She is hot and beautiful.They were together until recently and it was agony for me because I had fallen for her.I told her how I felt but she said she would not cheat on my friend.She then finished with him last month.She texted me and told me they were over so I asked her out for a drink.She is 31 now but it was clear she fancied me, too.We had a great evening and went back to her house and spent the night together.Sex with her was just amazing, better than I have ever known.The next morning we agreed to keep it quiet for a bit for the sake of my … [Read more...] about I had sex with my friend’s ex-girlfriend and fell in love – he’s furious but I’m desperate to make it work

I’M seeing a guy who is gorgeous and brilliant in bed but he has a girlfriend.He says that the time isn’t right to leave her but it’s breaking my heart.I met him at a party three months ago but I’d seen him before in the town with his arm round some other girl.I hated the look of that girl but really I just wished that he was with me. He’s 24 and I’m 19.He was alone at the party.He came over and asked if I wanted my drink topping up.I said: “Where’s your girlfriend tonight?”“Who?” he asked.So that was his problem to worry about and I focused on flirting and looking dead cool.We went out the back for a smoke and we had a snog.It felt great.Later he walked me back home and came in for a drink.I didn’t want him to leave so much that I took him upstairs.We fell on the bed and had sex straight away.It was awesome.The good news is that we’re still meeting up for romps.The bad news is he’s still seeing that … [Read more...] about My new man is great in bed and says he has feelings for me… should I tell his girlfriend?

MY boyfriend is thrilled I’m pregnant – but he doesn’t know that my boss at work might be the baby’s father.I’m 21 and I live with my boyfriend, who is 29.I was delighted when I got a new job in a big computer store six months ago.I’ve always been a bit of a geek and I love all the new technology.My boss seemed very impressed with my knowledge of computers and cameras.He’s 32, really fit and seemed to enjoy working closely with me.My boyfriend was pleased about the job at first but got annoyed when I started working late and we started arguing.We went out for a staff party one night and my boss was flirting with me.I was flirting back and telling him I was having a hard time at home.It seemed harmless.We were all buying lots of rounds and I was having a great time.I’d run out of money by the time the taxis turned up and my boss said I could stay at his place.He promised he’d run me home in the morning so I called my boyfriend and … [Read more...] about My boyfriend is so happy I’m pregnant … but my boss could be the dad

A PARLIAMENTARY candidate has revealed he deliberately caught HIV.Adrian Hyyrylainen-Trett, 36 – who is standing for the Lib Dems in Vauxhall, South London – said years of homophobic bullying plunged him into suicidal depression and rampant drug abuse.He failed to find a caring partner and became trapped in a spiral of abusive relationships.And after numerous failed suicide attempts, Adrian decided to become infected with the virus as a “way of getting rid of myself”.He revealed: “If you don’t care about yourself any longer you then do things that will harm you and think in a way that puts you in danger. “This is what mental ill-health does. I was thinking, ‘Who can I find who’s the most dangerous person to go to, who isn’t well, who could deliver that knockout blow?”He added: “I didn’t really want HIV. I wanted annihilation of me.”Adrian, originally from Norwich, is believed to be Britain’s first … [Read more...] about MP hopeful: I caught HIV on purpose

LEE Rigby’s sister has revealed that she wants to study criminology so she can understand why his ­killers robbed her of the brother she loved so much.Courtney Rigby, 14, is determined to find the answers to why two Muslim extremists murdered soldier Lee, 25.Speaking on the third anniversary of his death, Courtney told The Sun on Sunday: “I want to understand why people want to commit a ­murder so horrible and vile.“I want to know why they wanted to do what they did that day, what led them to that, what their beliefs were, what their background was.“It’s only by understanding why they killed Lee you can finally understand it yourself.“Hopefully you can help stop other people doing it again in the future.”Lee, a soldier with the Royal Regiment of Fusiliers, was off duty when attacked near barracks in Woolwich, South East London, on May 22, 2013.Killers Michael Adebolajo, 29, and Michael Adebowale, 22, picked him out as a soldier … [Read more...] about ‘I’ll study the criminal mind so I know why that evil pair killed my brother Lee Rigby’

LIANA is having no luck with the boys on Love Island and tonight Adam upsets her by saying he "could bang her and then just choose Tina".Adam's comments about her came back to bite him during the 'Mugged Off' challenge where private conversations were revealed to the other contestants.After hearing a quote from the conversation, they had to guess who was being mugged off and throw a cold mug of tea over them.It was during this challenge that Liana heard what Adam had said about her, despite the fact that they had gotten to know each other better earlier in the episode.Liana then kicked off at him and said: "How dare you say that comment when you didn’t even know me?“What because I’m a stripper and you can say I’m going to chuck her and then have the posh girl? Lads banter? How’s that lads banter? You say you’re a gentleman, how is that gentlemanly? It makes you look like a d**k!"Adam made an attempt to apologise to her and said: "It … [Read more...] about ‘I could bang her then just choose Tina!’ Love Island’s Adam upsets stripper Liana

Max Weber* is short, a bit stout, and with his impish grin still boyish-looking for a man who is nearly 30 years old. He grew up near Berlin and trained to be an engineer, but psychological problems related to his pedophilia have made it difficult for him to hold down a job. The problem for Weber and other pedophiles is they can never have a consensual sexual relationship with the type of partner they naturally feel most attracted to - children. "I [recognized] this attraction to kids when I was around 14 or 15, but I didn't realize it was something not normal. I thought everyone feels this way, but nobody talks about it," he told DW. Weber's sexual awakening occurred during a beach holiday at the Baltic Sea, where nude sunbathing is normal. "There were three naked girls - 6, 7 and 8. I was 18 or 19. I was building sandcastles. They were interested in those castles, and we played. I started to have sexual fantasies. I realized that this is what's called pedophilia," he said. "It … [Read more...] about ‘If I’m attracted to children, I must be a monster’

Deutsche Welle: As you know, the arrival of many refugees in Germany is the main topic these days. At present you live in Switzerland, but your home is in London, since 2002. What do you think and feel about the way the refugees are treated in Great Britain and in central Europe? Guo Xiaolu: As a Chinese artist I'm exiled in Europe. I have lived in London, and then Berlin, Hamburg, Paris, and now in Zurich, because of an invitation as a writer in residence. So I am able to live in Europe, but my situation still is one of exile, which means my work cannot be published in China and I cannot really live in China now. So - if you mention refugees I'm not unfamiliar with the subject. For example, my last novel, "I am China," is really very much about this drifting along without identity - the total dislocation and desolation once you left your hometown. I think, especially now, the situation in Europe is incredibly sad but also very interesting. Only several months ago the discussions … [Read more...] about Guo Xiaolu: language, exile and her new book ‘I am China’