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Welcome to CombatCounselor Chronicle, an E-zine dedicated to giving you the most current, pertinent information on cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT) and mindfulness-based CBT available.

Chris Sorrentino, a.k.a CombatCounselor, is a leader and expert in cognitive behavioral therapy. He combines 30 years of experience in psychology with the discipline from having served as a U.S. Air Force officer for 20 years, 4 of those in combat zones, retiring as a lieutenant colonel in 2005.

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Friday, December 21, 2012

The world really did come to an end yesterday, at least in my mind. I have a hard time believing how absurd, self-centered, ignorant, and just plain rude people have become in recent years.

As a clinician, I am supposed to be upbeat, positive, supportive, and understanding. As a human, I am trying to make sense of what I am seeing in others. Let me give you a few examples...

Recently, the tragedy at Sandy Hook in Connecticut comes to mind. Soon after 27 innocent souls were lost in Newtown, the con- artists and self-promoters took action, jumping in to get their two-cents worth and much more.

First there was the media circus that started before those 20 little bodies were even cold. Do not tell me that the media devoted 24-hour coverage for days after the tragedy because they care or because they want to provide a good product to their customers, the viewing audience, America, the World. No, they did it for the bottom line...ratings and cold, hard cash! That is the bottom line.

I personally believe that the media is a major contributor to large increase in mass murder in recent years, be it "copycat" killers or those looking for their 15 minutes of fame as they go out in a blaze, too cowardly to take their own lives, committing "suicide by cop" after ruining countless other lives along the way.

If I had the authority, and maybe it is a good thing that I do not, I would prohibit the media from anything other than a short announcement of the tragic event immediately following events like these, allowing a maximum of one hour of coverage AT LEAST two weeks after the event in order to gather the facts and provide an accurate, unbiased report. That would ensure that all of the unnecessary and many times harmful speculation and inaccurate reporting does not occur as it did at Sandy Hook and has in other mass tragedies.

The media will put as much as the public can tolerate on the air and people, unfortunately, are curious, sadistic creatures. How many traffic jams have you been in because of the rubber-neckers gawking at a horrendous accident, hoping to see a mangled corpse or charred body? Violence and death sell! If you do not believe me, look at the top-rated, top-selling movies and video games. The vast majority of them have more death, blood, and destruction than I ever saw in four combat tours and a 20 year career in the military.

"Oh, how wonderful you are" and other ass-kissing comments flooded the internet after a post of, what I and many others perceived as, a very creepy and unnecessary "poem" mimicking the flow of "The Night Before Christmas" on Facebook. Then there were the poster's groupies, making sure everyone knew how "Christian" they were, and how much they were "crying", and what a "wonderful man" this person is. Sorry, I think I just vomited a little in my mouth. The "poem" insisted that the 20 little souls from Newtown were going to heaven, which is fine, and embraced by "Jesus"! That is when I got upset.

Granted, I am a Catholic and a Christian, so I obviously have nothing against Jesus or Christian beliefs, but who the hell empowered the Facebook account holder, giving him the authority, the audacity, to suggest that everyone who died that day were Christians? How hurtful it must have felt to the families and friends of the "non-Christian" victims, and I am not even sure there were any, but how freakin' insensitive is that? Those self-proclaimed good, devoted, Christian groupies jumped all over anybody who posted any opinion opposing the poem, and apparently them, insulting, even personally attacking those individuals who had the nerve to post an alternate reaction to the poem. How self-centered and self-serving was that? Apparently, if you do not love, agree with, and shed tears for this very questionable poem, you are inherently "bad", "un-Christian", and "insensitive" to the Sandy Hook victims? What a bunch of pious, self-serving hypocrites!

Then there are the scumbags, that is the clean version of what I think of them, who created fake websites, Twitter and Facebook accounts, and bank accounts, taking advantage of the naive public by using the names of the dead children to prosper unethically, immorally, and illegally from the tragedy. The things humans are capable of sometimes appall me, how disgusting!

I could go on and on with dozens of examples of ignorance, rudeness, arrogance, selfishness, and hypocrisy in recent months. The people who park in handicap spaces or take up two or three prime parking spaces so they will not get their car "dinged", more likely "keyed". Or the ones we hold the door open for at the store while they walk by without a word, as if they expect us to wait on them...where is my tip? How about the people who cut you off while driving then yell at you and flip you the bird as if you had done something wrong. Or the bully boss who yells and screams to get what he wants, then is supported by management when we DARE TO COMPLAIN! You get the idea. I am sorry for making the Sandy Hook tragedy the main example of this post and I really did not mean to elaborate so much about that particular crisis, but it obviously struck some sensitive cords.

The world did not really end yesterday, but we are well on our way to destroying it, either through hatred and thermonuclear war or destruction of our ozone and global warming, our world will likely end before our star, the Sun, naturally extinguishes our planet and species millions of years from now.

Maybe the time has come to finally work together, to love and respect one another, Christian or otherwise, to live together in peace and harmony, thinking of others before or as much as we think of ourselves. Can we do that? Are humans capable of such kindness, compassion, empathy, and altruism? I sure hope so because the alternative is not very enticing. Hey, maybe I am an optimist after all!

If you want to learn more about how you can be more selfless and less anxious or depressed by living a value-driven life, read other posts in this blog, The CombatCounselor Chronicle, or watch my series, BMB BASIC TRAINING with CombatCounselor, on YouTube: http://www.YouTube.com/CombatCounselor

Wishing you and your loved ones Happy Holidays, I cannot name all of the different religions holy days and do not want to insult anyone, and a safe and proseprous 2013!

Saturday, December 15, 2012

U.S. Mass Shootings since Columbine:1.April 1999 - Columbine High School in Littleton, Colorado2.July 1999 -Atlanta, Georgia3.September 1999 - Fort Worth, Texas4.October 2002 - Washington DC5.August 2003 - Chicago, Illinois6.November 2004 - Birchwood, Wisconsin7.March 2005 - Brookfield, Wisconsin8.October 2006 - Nickel Mines, Pennsylvania9.April 2007 - Virginia Tech - Blacksburg, Virginia10.August 2007 - Delaware State University - Dover, Delaware11.September 2007 - Delaware State University - Dover, Delaware12.December 2007 - Omaha, Nebraska13.December 2007 - Carnation, Washington14.February 2008 - Chicago, Illinois 15.February 2008 - Northern Illinois University - DeKalb, Illinois16.July 2008 – South Mountain Community College - Phoenix, Arizona17.September 2008 - Alger, Washington18.October 2008 - University of Central Arkansas - Conway, Arkansas19.December 2008 - Covina, California 20.March 2009 - Several towns in Alabama21.March 2009 - North Carolina22.March 2009 - Santa Clara, California23.April 2009 – Hampton University, Virginia24.April 2009 - Binghamton, New York25.July 2009 - Texas Southern University - Houston, Texas26.November 2009 - Fort Hood - Killeen, Texas27.February 2010 – University of Alabama - Tuscaloosa, Alabama28.January 2011 - Tucson, Arizona (Congresswoman Gabrielle Giffords)29.July 2012 - Aurora, Colorado30.August 2012 - Oak Creek, Wisconsin31.December 2012 - Sandy Hook Elementary - Newtown, ConnecticutA friend of mine, who happens to be Italian, reminded me that mass murder seems to be an “American” phenomenon. Terrorism is rampant in other parts of the world while the U.S. remains, fortunately and relatively, untouched. Mass shootings like the one yesterday in Connecticut appear to be primarily an American phenomenon. Incidents like the horrible one that took place at Sandy Hook Elementary are not strictly an American problem, but the majority of mass murderers HAVE BEEN AMERICAN, WHITE-MALE AMERICANS. Why do mass murders happen and why have there been so many recently? Murder, in which a single person is usually killed, is normally executed by someone the victim knows and based on emotion, routinely hate, revenge, or anger. Mass murder is a different animal and, compared to murder, which is on the decline, is on the rise in the United States. White, middle-class, males are also reported to be the most frequent perpetrators demographically speaking. However, why are the vast majority of perpetrators white males? The individuals committing these horrific crimes, those who "go postal" and arbitrarily, it may seem, kill many individuals in a single incident, are sometimes "psychotic", delusional, believing the people they pursue are "out to get them". But many times, the shooter, the weapon of choice being large caliber, automatic or semi-automatic weapons, is described to be "a nice guy", "someone I would never believe could do something like this", or other after-the-fact perception by family, friends, neighbors, and co-workers. What could drive a seemly nice, normal, individual to kill indiscriminately as was apparently the case on December 14th, 2012? I believe, as does my friend, that it has to do, at least partially, with the culturally ingrained inability to show or channel emotions in a healthy manner. Many men in this country are taught from an early age "big boys don't cry" and told "shut up or I'll give you something to cry about". Sound familiar guys? The proliferation of and addiction to violent video games and movies most likely contribute to the problem. When a boy grows up watching violent movies and playing games where they indiscriminately "blow people away" with high-powered automatic weapons surely desensitizes those vulnerable young minds. I was interviewed by Kansas City's ABC News affiliate KMBC's Diane Cho last year on the subject of video game and computer addictions, telling her that ten percent of those individuals will become addicted. When an individual spends hours upon hours, day after day, in an alternate universe where people are targets and the value of life meaningless, what else could it lead to in an already vulnerable mind?Another problem we are seeing has to do with the fact the white, American, males are many times not taken seriously, unprotected against harassment, bigotry, racism, discrimination, and retaliation. There is a name for that phenomena and it is called "reverse discrimination". When a person has been exposed to injustice, be it at school, in the workplace, on the internet, and elsewhere, and NOBODY CARES - MUCH LESS LISTENS, the frustration builds and builds until, unless they are extremely RESILIENT, they almost literally explode, sometimes killing themselves and, on rare occasions, others, sometimes many others. Oddly enough, I can relate to how these individuals, mass murderers, feel, having recently experienced multiple aversive events in my own life. Having pleaded for help from administrators, state and federal regulatory agencies, state and national-level elected officials, and dozens of attorneys, not a single one cared enough to sit down with me to find out what actually happened. Sadly enough, if I was not white and male, and was a minority instead - a woman, Muslim, person from another country, homosexual, or other more well known "protected categories", I would likely have had officials and lawyers rushing to my aid. However, because I am only a disabled-veteran (both protected categories at the institution where the incidents took place) and a white male in particular, I have been ignored. You cannot imagine how demeaning and frustrating it is to not just lose a career, but to know that not a single person cares enough to assist me, likely because I happen to be both Caucasian and male.Fortunately, I am able to separate the all too common thoughts of retribution synonymous with victimization as anomalies rather than guideposts, thanks to the resilience skills I have been able to build and maintain over the years. I am human and have suffered severely at the hands of others over the past few years, and have even had fleeting bizarre thoughts involving those who have done me harm. That is normal. What is not normal is for a person to believe that thoughts such as those are true and to be acted upon. The ability to see a thought as a thought and not a directive, is a skill that a "less resilient " individual unfortunately has not developed. What it boils down to is resilience, skills inherited to a certain extent, but mostly learned over the course of life. If you have built resilience skills, the ability to see right from wrong in difficult situations, acting in accordance with societal standards, values, mores and the like instead of aggressively, you are in the majority. Rather than believing the thought "I have been wronged, I need to take action against that person", a resilient person can see the thought as just a thought and can choose to act in accordance with their and/or society's values instead. I have talked and written about resilience and values at length recently on The CombatCounselor Channel, www.YouTube.com/CombatCounselor, and elsewhere in this blog, The CombatCounselor Chronicle. Resilience skills and well-defined, positive values are core to a healthy personality and frame of mind, skills obviously lacking in many people, particularly people like the young man who killed 20 innocent children and several adult strangers yesterday in Newtown, ConnecticutI am currently researching a book on this phenomenon, a book that will follow the life of one individual as he struggles with abuse, harassment, humiliation, discrimination, and retaliation, leading to a conclusion that will surprise many readers, being fiction and based on real events. I do not want to spoil the ending, but I can tell you that I will be interviewing one or more of the very few white, male, mass murderers who have remained alive to tell their story. My thoughts and prayers are with the community, families, and friends of the victims of this senseless tragedy at Sandy Hook Elementary. I wish I could tell you something of this nature will never happen again, but unfortunately, the stresses we are facing as a nation and as individuals makes a recurrence of events like the one at Sandy Hook inevitable.There have been 40 mass shootings since the Columbine tragedy on April 20, 1999, 31 in the United States, that is an average of nearly 3 each year.

You can read my recent article on this issue elsewhere in The CombatCounselor Chronicle if you require additional information:

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Thursday, December 6, 2012

On average, one military member and 18 Veterans commit suicide each day, and post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD) is a significant factor in many of those deaths. The negative stigma surrounding PTSD and military mental health treatment exist partly because the brave men and women who make up our military are hesitant to seek mental health treatment from military practitioners. Our young men and women in the military are returning from deployments having experienced horrifying events, either directly or as an observer. PTSD incidence is reported to be as high as 20 to 30 percent of our military returning from recent combat. Until military and civilian leaders understand the connection and impact the negative military mental health stigma has on our force's mental health and morale, these needless deaths will continue. The negative stigmas regarding PTSD and Veterans are perpetuated by the media. As long as these stigmas are perpetuated in the media, young heroes, our military and veteran men and women, will continue to die. We need a positive dialogue started in this country, educating the public, our elected officials, and military leaders, about the problems in military and Veteran mental health treatment and figure out a way to fix them soon! We also need leaders willing to give our men and women in uniform the confidentiality they need when seeking treatment for their problems, be it PTSD, depressions or anxiety. We need leaders who are going to do the right thing and end the negative stigmas against PTSD and seeking mental health treatment in the military … now, today, before one more American hero dies by their own hand!

On average, one military member and 18 Veterans commit suicide each day, and post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD) is a significant factor in many of those deaths. We as a nation waste billions on political campaigns, needless government spending, and personal luxuries each year, while many of our nation's heroes go jobless, homeless, and with inadequate mental health treatment, while almost 7,000 of them choose to end their lives ... that is correct, nearly 7,000 MILITARY AND VETERANS COMMIT SUICIDE EVERY YEAR!

Being a Veteran of multiple combat operations over my 20-year career in the Air Force and a licensed professional counselor, practicing psychotherapy and treating military, Veterans, and “civilians” (everybody else) with anxiety disorders, including PTSD, and depression for nearly 30 years, I have a unique insight into the military, combat, and the effects both can have on the human psyche.

PTSD has been around as long as humans have been exposed to trauma, and as long as there has been war, having been called many things over the centuries, including exhaustion, railway spine, stress syndrome, shell shock, battle fatigue, combat fatigue, traumatic war neurosis, and, most recently, post-traumatic stress disorder or PTSD for short.

Combat stress reactions appeared as early as the 6th century BC when the Greek historian Herodotus reported one of the first descriptions of a PTSD-like incident:

During the Battle of Marathon in 490 B.C., an Athenian soldier who had suffered no combat injuries, became permanently blind after witnessing the death of a fellow soldier.

A more accurate diagnosis of this reaction would be “conversion disorder” rather than PTSD, but it is an indication of the dramatic impact a traumatic event can have on a human being nonetheless.

Many people think only of combat when they think of PTSD, but there are many causes, traumatic experiences, that can lead to PTSD symptoms, including accidents, physical and sexual assault/abuse, terrorism, as well as many others. According to Department of Veteran Affairs (VA) estimates, seventy percent of the population will experience a trauma extreme enough to qualify for a PTSD diagnosis over the lifespan. Oddly enough, also according to the VA, only 6.8% of all Americans will develop PTSD during their lifetimes, or roughly 10% of those experiencing a trauma. Recent Veterans of the Iraq and Afghanistan Wars, on the other hand, suffer an incidence rate of 13.8%, nearly twice that of the general population.

PTSD is a medical diagnosis as defined by the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual, 4th Edition, Text Revision (DSM-IV-TR, APA, 2000) and the symptoms of PTSD include 1) hyper-arousal (exaggerated startle response, difficulty sleeping or staying asleep); 2) avoidance (avoiding things previously enjoyed or that remind the individual of the trauma); and 3) re-experiencing (flashbacks, nightmares or night terrors, daydreaming about the trauma). An individual must experience a trauma so severe that the individual experienced extreme fear, helplessness or horror and the threat of death or serious injury in addition to all of the three symptom areas listed above (more than one symptom are required for diagnosis in two of those areas) in order to be officially diagnosed by a licensed clinician with “PTSD”.

Ignorance and bureaucratic processes, having needed changing for decades, if not centuries, are the cause of this stigma killing our young American heroes. A stigma, because the brave men and women who make up our military are hesitant to seek mental health treatment from military practitioners. They are hesitant and afraid, and rightly so, because their careers and/or security clearances could be at stake if they seek treatment from a military provider.

I served in the Air Force for over 20 years, retiring in 2005 as a lieutenant colonel, and experienced the stigma firsthand. I would not and did not seek help for post-deployment anxiety and depression until AFTER I pinned-on my silver oak leaf and knew I would be retiring (meaning "they" could not hurt me). I spent four years in four different combat zones during my career, including "boots on the ground" in the Middle East one month before 9/11 and during the first year of Operation ENDURING FREEDOM, and the stresses of combat took their toll, although not enough to receive a PTSD diagnosis, thankfully.

I recently returned from Fort Riley, Kansas, home of the 1st Infantry Division, better known as "The Big Red One", where I provided counseling to soldiers returning from Afghanistan and Iraq. Two of the battalions I worked with suffered high numbers of casualties, with several killed in action (KIA) and many more wounded in action (WIA). Dozens of brave young men and women received purple hearts, having lost limbs and suffering other wounds, many invisible to the naked eye.

Not all wounds are visible, with traumatic brain injury (TBI) and Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD) making up the majority of injuries to those returning home, many times caused or hastened by experiencing the effects of an improvised explosive device (IED), the current weapon of choice of Taliban and Al Qaeda terrorists. When a young man loses his leg, he is considered a hero, and rightly so. But when a man or woman "loses his or her mind", either through physical damage to the brain, as is the case in TBI, or emotional damage, as we see in those who have experienced severe trauma in combat, those coming home with PTSD, they are portrayed as weak or as malingerers by their comrades, or worse, the officers responsible for their health, safety, and well-being.

Looking down on or thinking less of those who seek help for mental health issues has been a problem in the military for centuries, but is also a problem in our modern, technologically advanced, contemporary culture here in the United States and elsewhere. Ignorance in regard to psychotherapy and counseling is nothing new, and few people are enlightened enough to understand that it is a sign of strength, not weakness, to seek help or treatment from a qualified, licensed clinician, be it a psychologist, psychiatrist, licensed professional counselor, or licensed social worker.

Unfortunately, there are many unqualified and unscrupulous individuals taking advantage of people weakened by emotional stress and the turmoil of modern life, and they have given psychotherapy a bad name. Therefore, it is no wonder that an uneducated and psychotherapy-ignorant public, so desperately in need of professional treatment, misunderstand and fear the many highly qualified, licensed, certified clinicians, helping and saving lives every day.

Our young men and women in the military are returning from deployments having experienced horrifying events, either directly or as an observer. There are estimates that as many as 50 percent of those returning from combat come home suffering from a mental health issue of one kind or another. PTSD incidence is reported to be as high as 20 to 30 percent of our military returning from recent combat. Yet many, if not most, do not seek treatment because they are afraid that doing so will damage their careers.

I have seen it firsthand in my own career, in my private practice and non-profit, and with soldiers recently returning from Iraq and Afghanistan. Their leaders, who can be squad and platoon leaders (enlisted) or company, battalion, brigade, and division commanders (officers), do not understand the devastation TBI and PTSD can cause in a person's life. Many of these individuals, both the so-called leaders and the individual suffering from a mental health issue, simply refuse to acknowledge the pain and suffering, maintaining the ridiculous macho bravado and reputation of a "real soldier" or "real man" who does not ask for help. These young men and women may even have a caring and compassionate chain-of-command currently, but do not know whether the beliefs and attitudes of their "next" unit's leadership will be as flexible and understanding.

Because mental (behavioral) health treatment in the military is not confidential and becomes a permanent part of an individual's medical record, any psychological treatment received, becomes a matter of record for future leaders to hold against an individual or a reason to deny a coveted security clearance. It is no wonder young soldiers, airmen, sailors, and Marines are afraid to step forward for treatment, and no wonder that suicide rates among military members has skyrocketed.

Until military and civilian leaders understand the connection and impact the negative military mental health stigma has on our force's mental health and morale, these needless deaths will continue. When you are anxious, depressed, sleep-deprived, and suicidal with nowhere to turn, the options are limited, particularly when you are a brave, skilled marksman with easy access to lethal weapons.

There is no reason military members cannot have the same rights and protections as the average citizen when it comes to confidentiality in psychotherapy. What does the military have to gain except complete, 100 percent control over their people, by allowing confidential communications between therapist and client in the military? The same restrictions which apply to confidentiality in the private sector could also apply in the military: danger to self or others; child, spouse, elder abuse; and criminal behavior would still need to be reported. Threats to National security and good order and discipline are two military-specific areas that may need to be added to those limits of confidentiality, and I do not believe anyone would argue against that. Nevertheless, military members would then know that anything else they say would remain confidential, allowing them to open-up, develop a trusting relationship with their therapist, and get the help they so desperately need and deserve.

The Joint Chiefs of Staff (JCS), Service Secretaries, Secretary of Defense, and President of the United States are going to have to "do the right thing" and end the negative stigma associated with military mental health care by allowing the limited confidentiality described above to be implemented across the military. It will take several years for our military men and women to trust the system and routinely seek treatment for the problems caused by the rigors and stress of military service, but WE MUST START SOMEWHERE, WE MUST START TODAY! Our American heroes deserve no less!

The negative stigmas regarding PTSD and Veterans are perpetuated by the media. The film, television, and print (hardcopy and online) industries are at least partial contributors to Veteran joblessness, homelessness, and, ultimately, suicide. With unemployment rates for Veterans hovering at least five percent higher than non-Veterans, we must ask ourselves why.

Because non-Veterans, not having had the opportunity to serve in the military, do not understand the our culture, and rightfully so. What they also do not understand is that the trash the media is spewing about Veterans and Veterans with PTSD or TBI is that we are dangerous! Veterans, particularly those with PTSD, are regularly portrayed in films, television series, TV news, magazines, newspapers, and blogs as being aggressive and threatening at the very least and homicidal maniacs on the other end of the continuum. Veterans “are nuts” and about to blow our corks at the drop of a hat and go off on innocent civilians, possibly whipping out an automatic weapon and killing dozens, as was the case in the spring of 2012 when an Army Staff Sergeant killed 17 Afghanis after multiple deployments, TBI, and PTSD, having seen his buddy’s leg blown off just the day before.

Recently having read an article entitled: "IS GETTING HELP A CAREER KILLER?" in a large weekly military magazine, I noticed that in a little more than one page, the author managed to hinder any progress we have made in recent years toward reducing the negative stigma. The article highlighted why airmen and other military members need to be afraid, very afraid, of seeking mental health treatment, or even worse, talking about it!

The article’s author wrote about an Air Force NCO (non-commissioned officer) who had sought help for alcohol abuse and depression, and educated other airmen, telling them about his battle with alcohol (which he is currently winning, by the way) and other mental health issues. His supervisor, an obvious Neanderthal, virtually ended this airman's career by making statements about his alcoholism in his enlisted performance report (EPR) and marked his rating down, both career-ending behaviors. The NCO in question, a master sergeant (E-7), appealed his "referral" EPR to his superiors and the Inspector General, but was unsuccessful. Not surprising and not promoted!

Most everyone in the Air Force, Army, Navy, and Marines have heard plenty of horror stories like the one described above and now have one more...a page and a half's worth in national weekly military publication. As long as these stigmas are perpetuated in the media, young heroes, our military and veteran men and women, will continue to die. For the first time in recorded history, more people are dying by suicide in the military than are being killed in combat!

The space taken up by that particular article could have been better utilized by providing accurate information about the PTSD and the associated stigma(s), identifying what the implications of the stigma(s) are (e.g. suicides), and analyzing realistic proposals regarding what we can do about them. We need a positive dialogue started in this country, educating the public, our elected officials, and military leaders, about the problems in military and Veteran mental health treatment and figure out a way to fix them...soon!

The stigma surrounding Veterans has affected my own life as well. Having had a disappointing experience in the private sector, I returned to a local state university on the Post-9/11 GI Bill to become a school counselor. After 4 semesters and 27 units completed with a 4.0 GPA, being inducted into the Phi Kappa Phi National Honor Society in April 2011, I was called into a meeting with my advisor, a woman of color I had only met on three other occasions. I thought that she was going to congratulate me on my honor, but that could not have been further from the truth.

When I entered the room for the meeting, my advisor was seated with another professor I had never seen before. The mood in the room and the tone of the conversation quickly enlightened me that I was not there for a “pat on the back”. My advisor stated that she felt that I was “aggressive and threatening” and that if it “didn’t stop”, my “status in the program would be in jeopardy”. Having always treated fellow students, professors, and administrators with nothing but dignity and respect, I was flabbergasted! I asked her for some concrete examples of my “aggressive and threatening behavior”, but all she could come-up with was “it’s a perception, that’s all, a perception”.

After the meeting, I filed a complaint with the university’s Office of Affirmative Action based on the fact that she threatened my status in the program based on a false “perception” of me being “aggressive and threatening”. All Veterans, anyone who would fight for their country and sometimes have to kill our enemies, must be “aggressive and threatening”, right? I filed the complaint in May 2011 and the Head of the Office of Affirmative Action only harassed and insulted me, accusing me of being bigoted and racist! The Deputy Chancellor for Diversity then refused to investigate my complaint. I filed an appeal with the President of the University of Missouri in August 2011 and was immediately promised a response from “general counsel”, but I still have not received that response. Because of the aggressive, threatening, and intimidating environment that was created, I have not returned to complete the three courses required to complete my Educational Specialist (EdS) degree and become licensed as a school counselor.

When will all of this insanity stop? When will the population, our elected officials, government agencies, even our very own Departments of Defense and Veterans Affairs and military comrades, end these negative stigmas? Stigmas against Veterans in general, and those unfortunate enough to return with PTSD and other debilitating mental health conditions, must be addressed now!

The answer to many of our problems, including how we perceive and treat PTSD, is to clarify our core values, then act on them. It sounds extremely simple, and it is. The primary problem with our world, nation, military, and selves is an alienation from our core values or not having defined any in the first place. It appears as though people, in general, have become extremely self-centered in recent time. It seems to be all about ME...ME...ME…how is this or that going to affect me? Guess what folks, there are other people in the world and last time I checked, the world did not revolve around any single person or group.

Values are signposts, directions, not something that can be attained like a goal. Without values, you cannot form goals and if you have neither values nor goals, how can you possibly act in any other way than impulsively...selfishly? Therein lies the problem. With no values, no direction, people will react emotionally when confronted with a situation, and because self-preservation is an innate human condition, that reaction will normally be of a selfish nature.

We must clearly define and understand our values if we are going to succeed as a human race. Our men and women in uniform must memorize their service’s Core Values, which, in the Air Force, are: 1) Integrity; 2) Excellence; and 3) Service before self, but do they really understand what they mean as they apply to behavior, to combat? If you clearly understand what your core values are, when confronted with a situation, difficult or otherwise, you can confidently act in accordance with those values, without even thinking...REACTION! Know your values cold, react appropriately and selflessly when required. Values lie at the core of my therapy for PTSD and other mental health problems, and this is a cursory explanation at best, so I will go on to discuss the processes in-depth in future articles about my proprietary treatment to anxiety, including PTSD, depression, and other problems: Body-Mind-Behavior Therapy (BMBT).

Our world, our society, and our military are in the state they are in because we have no direction, no values, and no real leaders leading us, teaching us, or acting as role models, mentors, for positive core values. Our leaders are perpetuating the negative stigmas I have been discussing here because many continue to reinforce and condone them, doing nothing about them. It should be rather obvious, but people comfortable seeking and receiving mental health care are far less likely to resort to suicide than those who are chastised and ridiculed for doing so.

The Army recently threw $1.5 million at a study to determine how to reduce the suicide rate in the military. We do not need to waste millions on research to know how to stop suicide or end these harmful stigmas, we need leaders who are going to stand-up and say “enough is enough!” We need leaders who will give our men and women in uniform the confidentiality they need when seeking treatment for their problems. We need leaders who will not condone the harassment and peer pressure keeping our men and women in uniform from seeking the mental health treatment they so desperately need and deserve. We need leaders who are going to do the right thing and end the negative stigmas against PTSD and seeking mental health treatment in the military … now, today, before one more American hero dies by his or her own hand! Key Words: anxiety, depression, disorder, help4vetsptsd, hero, heroes, killing, leaders, media, military, post-traumatic, ptsd, stigma, stigmas, stress, suicide, values, veterans, vets

Monday, November 26, 2012

In previous episodes, we discussed what to expect in therapy; mindfulness; the meaning of StayPresent, BeResilient, and StayTheCourse; creative hopelessness; control as the problem and not the solution; cognitive confusion; and the negative stigma of PTSD and military mental health treatment; among other things. In this episode, I discuss "RESILIENCE" as a way to live a value-driven life as opposed to being sucked-in to a life dominated by anxiety and/or depression.

Acting with selflessness, integrity, empathy, altruism, and compassion, rather than giving in to negative and unhelpful thoughts, is much more fruitful and positive. If you have practiced mindful meditation long enough and listened to the things I have taught you in previous episodes, when faced with a challenging thought or emotion, a scary or unpleasant physical sensation, or a difficult, or even traumatic situation, you can take a deep breath, focus on the present moment, see things as they really are, THEN act with selflessness, integrity, empathy, altruism, and compassion, or in accordance with your values, you have an alternative way to react to anxiety, depression, and other crippling problems.

Monday, November 5, 2012

You either do not read the comments to your posts or do not care enough to acknowledge those who take the time to do so. I am not apple polisher like many of those kissing your hind end, hoping to gain some sort of a sense of importance or belongingness to the Dyer "in" group.

We met at Mary Hoyt's retirement party early last decade, having a wonderful, intelligent conversation on the rear deck. You seemed to be kind and sincere when you told me to "keep in touch", which I tried to do, even stopping by your protests of Planned Parenthood on Colorado Avenue in Colorado Springs where you acted as if you had never seen me before. I have even written, commenting on your work and asking you to "say hello to Mary", whom I lost contact with after moving to Kansas City in 2008.

In any event, you continue to inspire me and others with your words, but your actions conflict with the words that spew so effortlessly from your mind. I am also a writer, clinician, and philosopher of sorts with several thousand followers on Twitter, a popular blog, and YouTube channel with a respectable 37,000+ visits over the past year...not viral by any stretch, but fairly popular nonetheless.

I could use a mentor to help me become a better person and author, but have found over the years that people only mentor others when there is something in it for them. As you know, humans are naturally selfish if they have no clear ideals, values to guide them. I am not saying that you are selfish or anything of the sort. I am just pointing out that you have become separated from your flock, your followers, your fans, and that is a sad. It makes your words much less powerful or inspirational.

My values are clear - selflessness...loyalty...integrity...compassion...excellence...dignity...respect - and I act in accordance with them as often as possible. When I tell someone something, like "keep in touch", I mean it and happily respond if they chose to reach out in the future. I just wanted to share my experience, emotions, feelings with you as professionally and honestly as possible. That is just the way I am.

You will not hear from me again, I have more important things and people to spend my time on. I wish you the best in life and your future.

StayPresent; BeResilient; StayTheCourse

C.T. Sorrentino
aka CombatCounselor

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Sunday, November 4, 2012

I read an article in the November 5th issue of Air Force Times. I am starting to ask myself why I pay to read this rag because the stories are becoming more and more idiotic! The story claims that "PTSD May Cause Back Pain"... as Tina Fay and Amy Poeller would say ... REALLY!

Correlation does not infer causation. Just because a large number of troops with back pain HAPPEN TO ALSO HAVE PTSD does not mean the two are connected! That is like saying that drinking water will kill you because 99.9% of those who die (everyone at some point) drank water every day of their life! A near perfect correlation, a ridiculous inference.

Military (Air Force) Times should use the space taken up by articles like that and dedicate it to a series with the goal of educating their military readers and the public on the negative stigmas associated with PTSD and seeking treatment for it and other mental health issues in the military and VA systems.

People comfortable seeking and receiving mental health care are FAR LESS LIKELY to resort to suicide. It has been said that "suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem". They should do some good and use the space in their paper for something useful...or just leave the space empty...it would do less harm than filling it with that kind of crap!

HELP END THE NEGATIVE STIGMAS ASSOCIATED WITH PTSD AND MILITARY MENTAL HEALTH TREATMENT BEFORE ONE MORE AMERICAN HERO DIES BY HIS OR HER OWN HAND!

Monday, October 22, 2012

What if I told you that I
have the key to controlling anxiety, or depression, or anger, or whatever might
be ailing you, psychologically speaking?
What if I told you that after 30 years of searching, I finally figured
it out, this “psychotherapy” business? There
are probably hundreds, if not thousands, of self-help psychology books out
there, and they all claim to have “the answer”. What if I told you that controlling anxiety is not the answer to
your troubles, but the problem? What if
I told you that the answer to controlling your anxiety is to give up the
struggle and simply accept the anxiety?
Would you think I am crazy? Yes, probably. Would you be right? Well, maybe.
But, what do you have to lose by reading a little further and finding out if
what I am saying makes sense, then deciding if you want to keep reading and,
possibly, changing your life forever? If you are looking for a quick fix, you
have come to the wrong place. If you are looking for an exciting new way of
living and are willing to do some work to get wherever you want to be,
psychologically, this is the book for you. But first, a little background about
me.

I am a combat and disabled veteran, retired military officer, and
licensed professional counselor with over 30 years of experience and education
in clinical psychology and cognitive-behavioral therapy. I was an Assistant Professor of Behavioral
Sciences and Leadership and counselor at the United States Air Force Academy
from 1988 to 1993 and am author of the
future New York Times Best Seller: You
Think, You Are…Anxious: A Journey from Avoidance to Acceptance, the first
installment in the You Think, You Are series. I will bestow my knowledge and wisdom, a proprietary
approach to cognitive-behavioral therapy known as Body-Mind-Behavior Therapy
(BMBT), in the first of the series, which follows forthwith.

The earliest cognitive-behavioral therapists lived thousands of years
ago and the origins of cognitive-behavioral psychology go back as far as Buddha
(563-483 BC) who said, “We are what we think; we are
shaped by our thoughts; we become what we think.” Actually, he said it in
Chinese, because his English was not great.
Confucius (551-479 BC) also pointed out (in Chinese, of
course) the importance of thoughts and mindfulness in behavior, when he said,
“The more man meditates upon good thoughts, the better will be his world and
the world at large.” How about that! Those two guys were pretty smart because,
here we are two thousand five hundred years later and, we have only recently
rediscovered the validity and usefulness of these profound statements.

Wait a minute; did he say he was a future New York Times bestselling
author? Bestow his knowledge and
wisdom? What? Is he nuts? Some might think so, but I prefer to think of
myself as mildly eccentric. But, think
about what Buddha said for a minute: “We are what we think” (hence, the title
of this book and series). It is so true,
but we take it for granted that sometimes, many times, in fact, that what our
minds tell us is far from reality, yet the majority of the time we believe exactly
what our thoughts tell us, even though our thoughts may not be, and probably
are not, true. Scientists say that we
have as many as 50,000 thoughts a day. If we knew how accurate our memories
actually are at remembering things correctly, we would be hesitant to believe
anything that goes through our minds. The
mind is a very funny thing as we shall see as we progress in our “Journey from Avoidance
to Acceptance”.

How many times have you been absolutely sure something was true,
but it turned out not to be the case (or vice versa)? “I’m going to get really
nervous during that upcoming presentation and forget what I’m supposed to say.” “What an idiot I am.” “Those people are laughing at me because I’m
fat.” Is what you think is reality or are
they just thoughts? What goes through
your mind could possibly be true, you could get nervous, freeze, and forget
what to say in front of a bunch of people, but it most likely would not happen,
had you not given those doubts credibility in the first place. Nevertheless, you believe the thoughts anyway,
making yourself more nervous than you probably need to be, a self-fulfilling
prophecy of sorts. Because you think you
will get nervous, you, in fact, become nervous which, in turn, negatively affects
your performance, making you even more nervous. That is what we call “meta-cognition”,
which can be defined as “thinking about thinking” (cognition originates from
the Latin verb cognoscere, literally meaning "to know") or,
in this case, getting nervous about getting nervous, and it is ruining your
life! It is also an excellent example of a vicious cycle, a cycle which, if not
interrupted or broken, can escalate out of control into severe anxiety or
full-blown panic.

So what are you going to do about it? Well, you can do nothing about it and be
miserable for the rest of your life, or, you could try to sort things out on
your own, maybe read a self-help book (like this one), or you can get some help
from a professional counselor. Cognitive
behavioral therapy (CBT) is the most widely researched mode of psychotherapy
and efficacious (that is scientist talk for “effective”), particularly when it
comes to anxiety and depression. But,
what exactly is CBT? Well, I am going to
tell you, the way I understand it, and introduce you to my approach to
cognitive behavioral therapy, what I call Body-Mind-Behavior Therapy or BMBT,
for short.

BMBT is a cognitive behavioral approach, in that we focus on
thoughts and behaviors, but is different to traditional CBT, in that with BMBT,
we focus on changing the context of
thought rather than the content. That
might not make much sense right now, but I am going to explain it to you in
simple English (not Chinese) and in “un-”scientific terms, but first we need to
know how we got here . . . a little history perhaps.

Behavior therapy got its start in the 1920s and 1930s, but really
took off in the 50s when Joseph Wolpe designed a method called systematic
desensitization. In the late 1950s and early 1960s,
Albert Ellis and Aaron Beck began what we call cognitive therapy today, a
therapy where negative automatic thoughts (aka NATS – like those annoying
little buggers that swarm around your head on a hot summer day and drive you
nuts, but spelled slightly differently) are analyzed, challenged, and tested. Because
their methods contained behavioral elements as well (exposure, activity
scheduling, and so on), the therapy has commonly become known as cognitive behavioral
therapy or CBT for short. In the 1980s, along came the "third
wave" (as Steven Hayes and others have called it) of cognitive behavioral
therapy. Dr. Marsha Linehan developed a therapy called Dialectical
Behavior Therapy (DBT) for the treatment of borderline personality disorder at
the University of Washington and Steven Hayes developed what is now known as
Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT - pronounced like the word, not as an
acronym) at the University of Nevada in Reno. Both DBT and ACT incorporate
"mindfulness" and "acceptance" into CBT, hence the tag "third
wave" which has become associated with these evolutionary and
revolutionary new treatments. MBMT (BMBT??)incorporates
the best of CBT, DBT, and ACT into a powerful, yet extremely simple package, a
package that is deceptively basic and drastically different than anything you
have ever tried before. Are you getting
excited yet?

Well, don’t get too excited just yet because here is the bad news.
People in general, and Americans in particular, spend a lot of time (and money)
being anxious and depressed. According
to the National Institute of Mental Health (NIMH), some 40 million American
adults, 18 percent (nearly two (2) out of every ten (10) people), suffer from
an anxiety disorder in any given year.
The anxiety disorders include specific phobias (like acrophobia – fear of
heights – accounting for 8.7%), social anxiety disorder (fear of people and
being evaluated – public speaking anxiety is an example - 6.8%), post-traumatic
stress disorder (PTSD – a devastating disorder, resulting from a severe trauma
– making up another 3.5%), generalized anxiety disorder (excessive worry - 3.1%),
panic disorder (strong, urgent anxiety attacks that come out of the blue - 2.7%),
obsessive-compulsive disorder (or OCD – hoarding, excessive checking, or fear
of contamination are examples - 1%), and, finally, agoraphobia (fear of open
spaces – more accurately, the fear of having a panic attack when away from home
- often found with panic disorder - coming
in at .8%). If that were not bad enough,
another 9.5 percent of the U.S. population, age 18 and older, (nearly one out
of every ten people), has a mood disorder, like depression or bi-polar disorder,
in any given year according to the NIMH.
These disorders (illnesses, problems…pick a label) cost millions, if not
billions, of dollars each year in therapy, visits to general practitioners,
medications (can you say Zoloft?), and lost productivity, including missing
work.

Now for the good news. The anxiety and mood disorders we have been
talking about can be treated quite effectively with CBT, DBT, ACT or, in this
case, BMBT. As a matter of fact, the vast majority (nine out of ten) of
the "well-established" empirically supported treatments (according to
the American Psychiatric Association) for the anxiety and mood disorders are
cognitive-behavioral. In simple terms,
CBT works very well for many problems, anxiety and depression in
particular. Over the next several chapters,
I will be describing BMBT in much more depth, taking a lot of the mystery out of
psychotherapy and dispelling many of the myths that surround it. If you have seen the show Obsessed on A&E, a show about OCD and CBT, you have a very
rough, and I do mean very rough, idea of how cognitive-behavioral therapy works,
at least for people with OCD. I will now
give you a brief glimpse of what is to come in upcoming chapters.

I will start by providing a historical overview of where cognitive
behavioral therapy has been, and where it is going, looking at some of the
philosophies and theories behind cognitive behavioral therapy as it has evolved and how
it exists today. I will briefly discuss B.F. Skinner, Albert Ellis, Aaron Beck,
Marsha Linehan, Steven Hayes and the tremendous contributions these incredibly talented
individuals have made over the past half-century as well as the theories behind
their successes. It is important to know where you have been, at times, to have
an idea of where you are going, and the people I mentioned, and their theories,
are at the forefront of psychotherapy today. Notice I did not say “cognitive behavioral”
psychotherapy, I said “psychotherapy” in general, because the cognitive behavioral
therapies are the most studied, effective, and widely used of all therapies in
existence.

I will then elaborate on mindfulness and acceptance, both of which
are the key to successful treatment, particularly for anxiety. Mindfulness has been integrated into cognitive
behavioral therapy by asking clients to focus on the here-and-now, using
techniques derived from Zen Buddhism. Mindfulness is not a spiritual process
in the sense that it is associated with any particular religion (as it is used
in DBT, ACT, and BMBT anyway ???), it is a state of mind which allows the client
to maintain contact with the present, allowing him or her to accept thoughts,
memories, and emotions as they are, without judgment. This is a powerful
method of reducing anxiety and other painful psychological problems, and is
something I strongly encourage my clients to try. Personally, I find no conflict
between mindfulness, acceptance, and my faith, but that is a judgment you will
have to make for yourself. Cognitive behavioral
therapy can work quite well without the mindfulness component, but I believe
you will be short-changing yourself if you ignore it. You can find a series of
mindfulness exercises on the accompanying CD, along with several other
resources we will be talking about later, making this an extremely
user-friendly experience and complete package, one-stop shopping for your psyche, if you will.

Next is “dialectical” thinking, the cornerstone of Linehan’s DBT
and a philosophy I embrace in BMBT. The
dialectical philosophy is too complex to explain here, but basically entails
looking at things in terms of shades of “grey”, getting away from “black and
white” or “dichotomous” (all or nothing) thinking many of us tend to gravitate
toward. The primary dialectic Linehan
teaches is “acceptance versus change”, where the therapist accepts the client (and
the client accepts her/himself) as he/she is in the here-and-now, validating any
problems and struggles, while pushing him/herself to change for the better. It is not the therapist that challenges thoughts
or makes the decisions, it is you, the client (or reader), that makes the
decisions, with expert assistance from a professional counselor, or in this
case, my book.

There are four primary factors involved in mental health (or
mental disorders), factors that can become a “vicious cycle” when they get out
of whack and left unattended. The four factors I am talking about are physiology
(BODY -biochemical imbalances, diet, sleep, exercise), cognition (MIND – like
those nasty, annoying NATS), behavior (BEHAVIOR - smoking, overeating, drinking),
and affect (or emotions, a combination of BODY, MIND, and BEHAVIOR). If any one of these domains becomes unstable,
it can throw the whole system out of balance, resulting in anxiety, depression,
or some other psychological problem.

Figure 1

As a matter of fact, the logo on the front and back covers (Figure
1), which I created for my practice in Kansas City, includes the Greek letter
"psi", representing psychology, and the circular blue arrows
surrounding the symbol represent the physiological (BODY), cognitive (MIND),
behavioral (BEHAVIOR), and emotional (BODY + MIND + BEHAVIOR) components of the
human psyche. As I alluded to earlier, those four components constantly
interact to make you sad or anxious, a “vicious cycle”, or happy and serene,
what I like to call a “precious cycle”.I will address each of these factors separately, and in detail, so you
understand how they can affect you and what you can do to help them work in
harmony.

Life skills are skills that make it easier to navigate life, even
when anxious or depressed, and are skills everyone can benefit from understanding
and practicing. We already mentioned one
of them and that is mindfulness. The
others are distress tolerance (stuff you can do when things get rough),
interpersonal effectiveness (how to get along with others and stand up for
yourself at the same time), and emotional regulation (tools you can use to feel
less stressed). These really are very
simple tools, but you will be surprised by how easy it is to forget how to use
them when you are feeling stressed, anxious, or worried. I will explain how to
recognize and use these tools, when appropriate, to help you be more effective
in life and content in the present moment.

I will then address the biggest threat to mental health in general,
and the crux of the anxiety disorders: avoidance. Avoidance takes many forms, but some of the
most common are smoking, overeating, excessive drinking, drug abuse, and sexual
(and other) addictions (can you say video games???). But are those not behaviors (you are probably
asking yourself)? Yes, they are
behaviors, avoidant behaviors, because they help you avoid the things that are
really bothering you, like those nasty NATs that are contributing to your
anxiety and/or depression. You can, and
do, also avoid thoughts, physical sensations, emotions, and other “internal”
behaviors. In short, avoiding what you
are afraid of, or find distressing is what causes and perpetuates anxiety (and
depression).

Now that we have a solid foundation, the real work begins! I will next
take you through a series of steps (chapters) using experiential techniques and
exercises while explaining the intent of those techniques and exercises in
simple terms, something Steven Hayes would probably argue against doing, but
that I believe is essential when dealing with intelligent, thoughtful human beings.

We will first review all of the things you have tried, to control
anxiety over the years, but have obviously failed at, or you would not be
reading this book. As I mentioned earlier, control is the problem, not the solution.
It seems somewhat counterintuitive and it is, because, again, as I told you
earlier, my approach is unlike anything else you have tried before. What you
have been doing does not work, so how about taking a radically different
approach? What some might call “thinking outside the box”.

We will then determine how you view yourself and offer some
alternatives, giving you a solid foundation on which we can build a totally
same you. Same? Not new? That is correct. There is nothing wrong with you,
nothing broken. You have simply learned to think the way you do, the way that
makes you anxious, and you can learn to think in a way that does not make you
anxious.

Next, we will try some things that will give you a new perspective
on anxiety and emotions. You will experience a new way of thinking about your
thoughts, sensations, behaviors, and emotions, focusing on the context rather
than the content, a deceptively complex, yet simple alternative to the way you
have been doing it for so long.

The next step in the process will be to look very hard at your
values. Not the values you think you
should have because your mother or partner wants you to be a certain way, but
the values that are important to you.
To put it simply, those which would be important to you if you knew that
nobody else would know what those values are.
Once you determine your true values, and I am not talking about hardware,
setting specific goals based on those values and committed actions, is the obvious
next step. By having a clear guide,
goals that are based on your values, and making a commitment to yourself (and
others if you wish) to live your life every day in accordance with your values,
you will find it much easier to face and conquer the fears which have become so
debilitating and disabling.

In the final chapter, I will pull it all together, giving you
step-by-step assistance in implementing this new way of living, along with some
possible pitfalls, those things we therapists call “relapse prevention”. I will also explain what a typical session
and course of treatment might look like for those of you who decide to seek
assistance from a trained professional.

Body-Mind-Behavior Therapy and cognitive behavioral therapy are
really very simple and straightforward, and all we as therapists do is teach
you and coach you along until you know how to help yourself. If you listen intently, are motivated to
change and face your fears, and work collaboratively with your therapist, you
too can live a long, happy, and fulfilling life.

Finally, I will explain everything you ever wanted to know about
psychotherapists, but were afraid to ask. Do you know the difference between a
psychologist, a life coach, a licensed professional counselor, a spiritual
healer, and a psychiatrist? Well, if you
do not know, and are planning on seeking treatment at some point, it could be
the most important information you ever learned. The differences are HUGE and the cost to you
could be enormous, not only in terms of money thrown out the window, but in
your emotional well-being as well.

Are you ready to start your journey from avoidance to acceptance?
Well hold onto your seat, because here we go....

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