“When we think of a Sumo Wrestler nowhere a female comes in our mind. But breaking the stereotype,Hetal Dave(22) has become the first and only female Sumo Wrestler in India. Going by her looks, one can’t put her in the category of Sumo wrestlers but she does the job well internationally. She may be a bit heavy for the average Indian body, but is nowhere near obese or even fat. She shared her journey, struggle and success with The Logical Indian.

You are the first and only sumo female wrestler in India, tell us about your journey how did it all start?

I started early at 5. I have never been like a stereotypical girl in India, never liked playing with Barbie or listening to Cinderella story etc. I always loved the fight related movies as a child. I would watch Jackie Chan, Bruce Lee movies and use those tricks on my brother. My father noticed my inclination towards wrestling so he looked for a martial art classes and took me there. Maybe it was my destiny that day they were training on JUDO, and I got into it.

What are your major contributions or achievements to the sports and to India?
I started with JUDO and represented India, and have played Asian Championship twice. I have played world championship and was 5th in the ranking in 2010. I am a sole wrestler and have to play alone, I believe if I had someone to guide when I am in the ring, I could do a lot better because I miss small pointers and feedback on my game.

How did the switch from JUDO to SUMO wrestling happen?
We had SUMO male wrestler from India who represented India, so I used to watch them as women were not allowed to play in India, and there is no professional SUMO wrestling in India. We have men from all across India coming for SUMO practice, so I did practice with them and sometimes defeated them as well. And it was a moral boost and I got a hang of it.

What were the challenges as India’s sole female SUMO wrestler?

SUMO wrestling is not recognized by Government, it is not in Olympics, and there are no professional tournaments happening officially. So I was all alone, my coach said you can do it, but you need to fetch your own sponsors. So I had to do everything my own.

What is the road ahead for future female SUMO wrestlers in India and the world, will the tribe grow?
Women usually don’t take chances for SUMO wrestling, as there are so many challenges, no awareness about the sport, no sponsors, no government support, and no official wrestling tournaments. But international level numbers are on the rise. If Government supports and sponsors come up, the numbers will definitely grow in India too.

What were the biggest challenges you faced?
The biggest challenge is I am still unemployed. I am not able to support my family when it is my time to give back to my family and it affects me in many ways.

Have you faced any discrimination as women?
I have always been training with men so I did not feel anything negative coming to me as a sports person. But people comment on you for being different but being in this sport and being in wrestling that you need to take easily. I get comments like “Ye ladki SUMO pahalwan hai isake sath kon rahega, kon isase shadi karega, isako to ghar ka kuch kam bhi nahi aata hoga”. They see only one aspect of me whether I can cook or can do house chores or not, and people stereotyped me.

What keeps you going despite so many challenges?
When I go for world tournament, they are so proud of seeing an Indian girl there. “Jab me Ring me jati hu to pura Stadium Khada ho jata hai sab log sath me India-India kar ke encourage karte hai” . That is the vibration I get from the world, I feel so proud, that keeps me moving and I forget what happens to me in India.

Tell us about your family and their contribution to your success?
I give 100% credit to my family. I am not from a well to do family, my father hardly could give my school fee. But seeing my interest, he always encouraged me to do things I like. Even today he will not say no to anything I wish to do, so he is my backbone. In India as a cultural norm, a girl’s father has to save money for her marriage, so my father had also done some, but he spent all those savings for sending me to the tournaments. That is why I feel bad that I am not able to support him now when it is my turn so something for my family. People don’t understand it and say, “Agar tere ko Naukari karana tha to Wrestling kyo kiya padhai karane ka tha na”. But I am hopeful one day when this sports becomes well known in Indian people will know why I doing this.

Why are other girls not coming forward for this sport?
There are various reasons, as the sport is not seen as something for girls. There is no family support, governments support and social support. When you play in school, teachers say, “Tum jao khelo tumko padai se kya lena-dena hai, tum to khel ke hi duniya jeet loge” and it brings your moral down.

What can we do to make India sports-friendly country?
We need to encourage kids to pursue their interest. Even if they are not good at studies, let them pursue sports. In my personal experience, I have seen my students when they took up sports their morals get boosted and they started doing good in studies as well. You have to persue your interest and everything around will turn positive.

Any message to The Logical Indian Community?
The Logical Indian is doing an amazing job, you have a great community of concern people, keep up the work. To everyone “Go for what your heart says, you may have to find ways around it but ultimately everything around you will turn positive and help you achieve what you want”

The Logical Indian hopes Hetal gets the support and the sponsors she needs and many join her tribe and represent India.

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Women empowerment is one of the most important words of the present times. It is not a mere phrase but it rather represents a movement, which has been pending for the longest time. However, many have a misconception that educating women, “letting” them work, etc. is all that women empowerment is all about. However, the concept of women empowerment is more of an umbrella term. It intends to involve society as a whole, including men.

We always encourage and applaud a woman who successfully balances both work life and her household. But won’t it be easy for that woman if the load of the work is shared? We see that in our society a woman’s primary role is seen as that of a homemaker. At the same time, her personal likes, aspirations, and dreams are forced to be put on the backburner because of the undue expectation that she has to single handedly manage the household while balancing her career. To give credit where it is due, the times are changing. Men and women of the house are increasingly sharing the workload. However, one can also not turn a blind to the fact that a lot more still needs to be done.

Driving home the same concept, popular brand Ariel has come up with brilliant communication.

The video shows a mother speaking to her married daughter over the phone, all whilst cleaning the mess her son has created. She is absolutely heartbroken when her daughter says that she plans to quit her job since juggling both a demanding job and her household has become too overwhelming. It is during this time that she realises that while she and her husband as parents left no stone unturned to give an all-round upbringing to their daughter, they somewhere forgot to teach their son some basic life skills like cooking and doing laundry so that they grow out to be equally responsible in doing household chores. This is not a story of just one family, but of families across the country. These are some things which everyone must know, not for any other reason, but simply because these are basic tasks which are absolutely essential to survive. And, they make you capable to be equal partners tomorrow!

As Ariel raises an important question-is household work only a woman’s job? We need to ask ourselves the same question. A recent study revealed that the unpaid work done by women around the world amounted to 43 times the annual turnover of Apple Inc. It is high time we share the load and change the narrative that household work is the “duty” of a woman. As the video shows, contributing to the household work is not only a daughter’s work, but the son must contribute his bit too. It is also important for the parents to instil a sense of responsibility in their children, irrespective of their gender so that at any juncture of their lives, they are not completely dependent on another person for basic tasks like these. Ariel has been consistently driving this message and addressing the inequality within households since 2015. The Logical Indian applauds Ariel for coming up with such a brilliant video for depicting such an important concept.