Well, I sent him a wink first and then he tracked me down via twitter and facebook. We exchanged numbers and communicated through text and phone calls every day for over a month. We finally met in a destination between where we both lived. Before we met, we discussed everything that we want from a relationship, deal-breakers, and 5 year plans. Once we met, we didn't have anything planned we just "flew by the seat of our pants." He is moving to where I now live. The end. :)