So guys and gals , how many times have you looked at a profile and picture of a person but wanted to ,but dident contact that person ., Is it your afraid of rejection ?? Or maybe something else? We'll maybe that's why you are still single., yea I know I have to say that I'm guilty of the same thing. I think for me .. Being a woman I was always brought up that the man makes the first move , and yes being afraid of being rejected sits in the back of my mind . So lets all think hey we are all here to find friends , lovers , soul mates why don't we just say hi ...and if you like that person keep in touch. Have a happy week .. Andrea

So guys and gals , how many times have you looked at a profile and picture of a person but wanted to ,but dident contact that person ., Is it your afraid of rejection ?? Or maybe something else? We'll maybe that's why you are still single., yea I know I have to say that I'm guilty of the same thing. I think for me .. Being a woman I was always brought up that the man makes the first move , and yes being afraid of being rejected sits in the back of my mind . So lets all think hey we are all here to find friends , lovers , soul mates why don't we just say hi ...and if you like that person keep in touch. Have a happy week .. Andrea

I don’t fear rejection, it’s just that I trust that women know what they like. The fairer sex is much more cerebral then we are. Personally, I’m never going to write something like “you’re hot” or “hey” to say hello to someone. It just seems like an exercise in futility to write a thoughtful note to someone who might take one look at your mug-shot and think “not my type.” I think winking at a girl just says you’re too lazy, or incapable of writing proper letter… or just not very interested. If it were up to me they would take the winker away from men completely. Girls shouldn’t be afraid to wink at guys they like. Women seem to think that by just viewing us, we should magically spring into action and fire off a witty and fabulous introduction. You misunderstand the depths of male cluelessness. Guys are cavemen. We’re not complicated like you. “Me Grog… come naked… bring food.” That’s our mentality. We can barely chew gum and walk, and that’s why we need a hint that you might actually like us. If a fair maiden views my profile, and doesn’t wink in my general direction, or at least “like” something… why Rocko just figure you no likey. Besides, if a Dude has even a faint pulse, he can’t possibly write to everyone that takes a look. So I just figure I’ll save myself time and heartache and just write to people that already find me appealing in some way. Am I out of my mind here?

I don’t fear rejection, it’s just that I trust that women know what they like. The fairer sex is much more cerebral then we are. Personally, I’m never going to write something like “you’re hot” or “hey” to say hello to someone. It just seems like an exercise in futility to write a thoughtful note to someone who might take one look at your mug-shot and think “not my type.” I think winking at a girl just says you’re too lazy, or incapable of writing proper letter… or just not very interested. If it were up to me they would take the winker away from men completely. Girls shouldn’t be afraid to wink at guys they like. Women seem to think that by just viewing us, we should magically spring into action and fire off a witty and fabulous introduction. You misunderstand the depths of male cluelessness. Guys are cavemen. We’re not complicated like you. “Me Grog… come naked… bring food.” That’s our mentality. We can barely chew gum and walk, and that’s why we need a hint that you might actually like us. If a fair maiden views my profile, and doesn’t wink in my general direction, or at least “like” something… why Rocko just figure you no likey. Besides, if a Dude has even a faint pulse, he can’t possibly write to everyone that takes a look. So I just figure I’ll save myself time and heartache and just write to people that already find me appealing in some way. Am I out of my mind here?