Tag: Lachen

I love life and all of its facets, its surprises and challenges. I view the fate as the author of my life’s script – a comedy – a really creative and humorous author. The book is extremely colorful and beautiful in its own way. Some of its chapters are incredibly happy, some are less, yet each of it is a challenge in a sense. A challenge to find the beauty in each line, to make each part of the script as good as possible even though it might seem impossible sometimes. I must say that my author is an imaginative one. He has some sort of ideas I would never have thought of, he creates situations I would never had imagined and sometimes this makes me go crazy. But these ideas in particular have been really important to me over the last couple of months since they made me understand something.
It’s not about reading each line and putting it into reality. No, it’s about changing and emerging my perspective while reading as well as reading beyond the lines. I asked myself: Is the description of the situation really as bad as it seems or is it me who turns it into a more negative version simply because I don’t try to read it differently? Therefore I decided not to just focus on the scene of my script that I’m reading, but to focus on the entire movie and all its viewers also. Viewers who laugh about all of my miserable circumstances. Viewers who know that the end of the movie will be a good one, even if some parts of the comedy include dramatic and sad moments.
This changed me. Whenever something bad takes place or whenever I lose ground now, my very first reaction is to start laughing; about my author’s humor (“You’re not serious, are you?!”), about the irony of the situation, when something turned out differently than I expected. It feels soooo good to laugh about all these things. Life becomes so much easier once you start to take it a little less serious and once you realize that each scene of the script “Life” only describes the circumstances yet the realization is up to you.

When I’m thinking of happiness the smile is the very first thing that comes to my mind. I looooove seeing laughing people and smiling at persons, even if I just use it to say “hi” to them. It’s such an easy way to make someone’s day and to create unforgettable moments – especially if you make others happy just by being it yourself (:

One of the first things I do in the morning is to grin at myself in the mirror, believe me it makes everything better! You feel so much more joyful and it also helps to build up self-confidence. And if you’re sad it can aid you to change that a bit.

In my opinion it gives you the ability to have a new view on yourself and especially on the whole world, because everything beautiful around you seems to blossom. Happiness won’t wait for you nor will someone give it to you. (For most of us) It’s a choice you make, something you live for. It’s a choice of acting and viewing life differently, which can start with a little smile. The most wonderful thing is that everyone can decide to be happy, everyone should be happy (: So if you have the chance to make someone smile today – do it ♥