You don't see many meaningful, honest and non-sexual friendships between men and women depicted on screen. Usually, they'll hook up, break up or some combination thereof. But not in Spike Jonze's Golden Globe-nominated Her , which stars Amy Adams and Joaquin Phoenix as two college buds who both become involved in the most impactful relationships of their lives: with computer operating systems. And while they act as each other's supports, nothing romantic ever passes between the two humans.