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Hi all, newbie here. This is something I just wanted to gather some thoughts on, from the perspective of those within the bdsm lifestyle.

One thing I've noticed about much bdsm themed porn of late, is the prevalence of male doms viciously throat fucking female subs, it seemingly has become somewhat of a staple of a lot of otherwise hands-off kind of routines. Whereas, it seems in the past there was not really much emphasis on oral at all, and it's always been my understanding that sessions usually did not involve much "sex sex" in general.

I remember reading somewhere, about how some of the more seasoned veterans to the lifestyle were not too keen on it's implementation from the dominant perspective. Suggesting that it wasn't "proper" bdsm practice, that it was simply derivative of porn trends. I don't recall exactly what it was they said, but I found it curious.

So I'm wondering, does anyone here share that opinion? What do you think about throat fucking as a practice in bdsm sessions? Does it not belong? Or is it a must, as many videos online seem to suggest? In my opinion, I think it is something more well suited for the bdsm lifestyle than anywhere else, really. Seems par for the course.

Perhaps the popularity of the act in mainstream pornography has influenced this as a trend amongst the kink community?

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Well, I can't speak for how it has been practiced in the community at large, but I enjoy it. My cock is curved too much to make it really integral to my play, but I usually do at least a little bit of it when I play.

"We hurt the ones we love the most. It's a subtle form of compliment."

I dont know why I like the things I that give me pleasure., especially BDSM. I love my wife ,we have been married 50yrs, and she is my whole world, but I love to face fuck her, rubbing it into her face. I love it when she does it to me. It seems almost any kind of forced degradation/humiliation is a turn on...but I dont know why. I love it when she is naked in front of others, and have for many many years, but do not want her to have sex with others. Go figure, who knows why.