Why did he want to 69 our first time together?

So I'm in my 30s and have plenty of sexual experience, but I recently met a guy who is younger than me (he's 24) and he's from Korea (so cultural difference) and we met on vacation and hung around for a few days and then hooked up.

When we hooked up, we went from kissing to a little petting and then straight to 69'ing and while I've done that before, I was surprised he wanted to do that our first time together. Not only that, but he was on top...which was also unusual for me. He came in about 5 minutes, but kept working on me until I finished 15 minutes later (poor guy LOL) so we did not have intercourse. Due to the fact I had to leave the next morning, I was only able to hook up with him the one time.

My question is, why 69 the first time you're with someone?

and why was he on top!?

(I am about 4 inches shorter than him)

Thank you in advance for any input ~

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Edit: I guess I should revise my question a little. I want to know why a guy would want to go down on a girl the first time they hook up? It's a pretty intimate act.

Plenty of foreplay is oral, just not on the first time being sexual with someone. In all my years, I've honestly never had a guy go down on me the first time we hooked up. And this foreplay did not lead to sex, it was just that one thing and it was over.

I don't think it was wrong, just an odd choice, especially when he got on top. A guy being on top isn't exactly the best position for that due to the angles and what not. We both enjoyed it, so I'm not complaining, I'm more so trying to understand why he would want to go for that right after kissing rather than using hands or something. When I say after kissing, I mean like 3 minutes after we started kissing we were 69ing... it just seemed like a lot and fast.

Yeah, there was some petting, but only during the 3 min of kissing & only above the waist. To me oral is mouth only and that is all we did after kissing, which prompted my question. Foreplay is everything and anything with hands, kissing, oral, etc that leads to sex (by my definition). I guess I didn't expect that position (and for that to be all we did) after knowing someone for a few days. I more so expected sex than that.

So you said you have gotten on top before because the girl might be shy... well I kissed him first, so I'm not shy nor did I act shy... so what other reason would there be for the guy to be on top? Do you think maybe he thought he was being polite by doing all the work? LOL

Guys have gone down on me before when I was expecting sex, yes, just not the very first time we hooked up sexually ~ if I had hooked up with him before he did that, I wouldn't be wondering why. I was just surprised the very first thing he wanted to do was straddle my face ~ LOL I guess I would have liked more face to face time before doing that.

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What hot blooded guy no matter what the race doesn't want to taste the p**** of a first date girl. Probably hadn't had sex in awhile would be a reason for him popping so quickly and you might be very good doing your part. Was a gentleman though to keep going to finish you off.

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Well that's the thing, I've been with plenty of guys and none of them have gone down on me the first time out ~ so my experience is that guys shy away from that until they feel more comfortable or know the girl better. And yes, he was a total gentleman :)

Take the view that he knew going in that he wanted to be sure you were pleasured before the date was over and he knew from experience that oral was the only way that was happening. Again showing the gentleman side of him.