I saw guys of all types, sizes, races, ages being asked out. Each were attractive in their own way, physically. Maybe the problem isn't that they're too hot. Maybe it's just that you don't think you're hot enough. Self confidence is more beautiful than you could ever imagine.

Yeah I do think so too that the tall asian guy is hot, who apparently has a girl, he admits, and would willingly give out his phone number. I wanna know his name and I would ask him out too on a date. Haha ;) :)

how sad, a "man" is tolerant of all, insecurties is another way of saying closet queen, if you are secure in your own sexuality you would not be bothered by straights or gays. I'm a heterosexual male who has many gay friends. I have fended off many gay advances simply saying, "I am not into guys dude", no animosity not mistreatment and no anti gay statements. I am actually flattered that someone thinks I am attractive, just my luck its usually another man.

I don't enjoy this kind of random asking prank. But it's great to see the truth that most of those who react with bigotry, hostility, and hate, are ugly and unattractive. And most attractive and thus confident men are open, friendly, or very light hearted. If you are gay/lesbian, we all know it's flattering to hear compliments from heterosexuals. And it's those who RARELY get sexually compliments or advances tend to react in hostile ways.

Oh, do you mean the same kind of "bigotry, hostility and hate" you're showing toward the "ugly and unattractive"? I agree no one should respond with hate language like the guy from Africa or the dude on the scooter did, but most of the older, wider or less attractive (by GQ standards) guys reacted much as I might if approached out of the blue by a younger woman for a date. By the time you're in your forties (like me) and have plenty of emotional and physical baggage, you just don't expect to be asked out by a total stranger of either sex. When you're straight in a predominantly heterosexual society, and the person who hits on you is of the same sex, it throws you for even more of a loop. So cut the guys who don't look like strippers a little slack. This may have been the first proposition of any kind they'd had in years, and many of their awkward or amused reactions seemed more about surprise or lack of self-esteem than homophobia. Also there's definitely a generation gap to bear in mind. Although I never believed homosexuality was wrong or bad, I was raised in a time when it was either not mentioned at all, buried in innuendo, ridiculed or condemned. Elton John, Paul Lynde, Jodie Foster and Lily Tomlin were among my favorite celebrities, but NONE of them were out publicly. Even stars as flamboyant as Liberace and Charles Nelson Reilly could maintain a certain "don't ask, don't tell" sort of assumed heterosexuality. Yeah, it was weird, but that's how it was. So is it any wonder people my age or older aren't always completely suave or comfortable about same-sex come ons? Most of us have made a lot of progress in a fairly short amount of time, so please forgive us our sagging skin, flabby physiques, gray hair and lingering social gaffes.

Hahaha its funny that one of the straight guys said he was a little bit Curious haha i think he ask to blur his face hey May be married or taken I hooked up with some guys n i found out that they r married orbtaien so i dumped their two timing asses

Apparently it's not only these straight men that are insecure (justin). It's this kind of attitude that leads to constant barrage of insults and lil man thinking. Im sure your also the type to think you can "turn" a straight man. You don't see them seeking us out hoping to turn us. Here's a thought for you, get on with your life and learn how to have effective adult debates. Maybe your to busy tweezing your brow or washing your ass. Can't we all just get along? Some are to busy playing bitchy school girls! #smh 'douches'.

the problem is you presume they are straight based on their appearance alone... I get mistaken for straight all the time.. there is no rule that says we have to wear pink and act like a helpless damsil in distress. I actually get hit on by more women than men and I just think its because they would not expect me to be gay or openly gay as I am.

Obviously not seriously trying to solicit a 'yes' response. I have one HELL of a great ratio of success with STRAIGHT men and it's all about selection. Now, might dictate to go for the ugly guy because, "surely he gettin' no play elsewhere", but that is completely the wrong approach. See, nature done fucked that man all up, being ugly, he's already turned to religion or is exceeding defensive about his tiny peter.
Now the really good looking guy, alone? He will follow you home and do the NASTIEST things to your body...I kid you not! The better looking, the more muscles, the finer the clothes? That modderfucker WILL say, "Mmmm...alright."
Here's another 'tip'. Say the most over-the-top compliments with sincerity. "Dude, man, you've got like THE most beautiful eyes and lips. I'm serious! When I look at you {dramatic pause} DAMN! Like that! So gorgeous. Please? I know it's not your thing, right? But listen, hey...you'll be straight when we're done. C'mon. I would be so honored to {blip blip blip}." IT WORKS. TRY IT.

brett... i dont understand why someone should have to declare their preference in order to accept or decline a date, what if one of the guys he asked out was in fact gay, but disinterested, would he have to come up with some other reason other than sexual preference?