I think it depends. If you’re really hairy then yes, get rid of some of the hair. If you’re normal then don’t mess with it. Guys who are too clean can come off as metrosexual and I personally am not attracted to that.

If no one can’t see your leg for all the hair, then by all means, yes, I’d want you to do something! But that’s merely a preference. Some women may be turned on by really hairy legs. You never know.

Are you happy with it? And if you are, but your gf likes it otherwise, is a woman not liking your body hair a dealbreaker for you? Are you willing to deal with it to keep her? Is she willing to let you stay the way you are to keep you? So many questions

I don’t think anyone I’m interested should do anything to themselves that they don’t want to – shaved or not shaved, men, women or otherwise gendered people, I won’t think any less of them for keeping their body natural

I like a little chest hair. Guys with a small amount should keep it. If you look like you’re wearing a fur shirt when you’re naked, then take it off. Pit hair, arm hair, and leg hair should be left alone. Eyebrows should be slightly groomed if they’re naturally really bushy. But not so much that it looks like you get your brows waxed- that’s unattractive. Ear and nose hair should be removed. Pubes should be groomed, but not completely gone. Just enough to look neat.

Gosh no! Natural and manly is the better. I just tend to laugh and feel awkward if a guy shaves or waxes – it means that they care more about apperance than i do! (in having said that, im not a wilderbeast, i do my womanly maintenance)
Its really not important – its a small part of the overall image, and thats not something – i am assuming – of how you ultimatly would want to project yourself onto the oppsite sex?
Then again, in having said both of the above, everyone is different and some things are more important to others – i just brush this one off as being superficial.

Trimming is a constant with me. I keep my nose ,ears ,eyebrows trimmed and shave daily.I have a lot of body hair . I lift weights and keep my chest hair trimmed shorter to show more detail. I have my back shaved so I can take my shirt off without scaring children away at the beach. And I also shave my pubic area. Cuz I like it.I hate when I see guys with rabbit tails sticking out of their nose and ears. Or the hairy guy that has a fur collar sticking out of his shirt.And girls you just keep shaving all you can

@cwilbur – Mucho lurve! You just put into words my whole feeling about the issue (women, beauty standards, excessive time primping & making up). (”and I’d much rather a woman spent her time on things she enjoys than on making herself conform to other people’s beauty standards.”)

You’re asking a group of women a question and expecting an answer? Come on. Every answer here is different.

Here’s the basic answer. The older woman, the more likely she is to be ok or down with body hair. I say likely because women are all over the place on everything. Older women grew up in a time when people were hair and didn’t do much about it. There was no lasers, neat and bodybuilding was new. They didn’t see pictures of guys with no hair at the time when their brains were forming pathways related to sexuality. They saw guys with hair, so they are ok with it.

Younger women have grown up with the bodybuilder/hairless type. That’s what they see. They’re sexually active earlier than their mothers ever were and thus are more prone to be with a guy who hasn’t developed a lot of body hair at that point.

In the end, some women will hate it and some will love it. If you’re overly hair, dealing with it isn’t a bad idea. Backs, unibrows, nose/ear hair and downstairs are always ok to deal with. Beyond that, do what you want. If it’s an issue in your dating life, I’m sure you’ll pick up on it.

In the future, don’t ask such a question to women. You’ll get a different answer from each one. :)