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My DH got his when I was 8 mos. preg. with out 2nd. I kinda wished he would have waited until after our son was born and everything was fine but that is when he was able to do it so......I agree with mompam and if it would have been up to me I would have had him wait until the baby was 6mos or so.

Personally I would wait at least a few months after the baby is born... I wouldn't do it during pregancy just in case (hopefully not but it sometimes happens) there isn't a happy outcome with a healthy baby. And I would give yourself some time after the birth just to make sure you still feel the same. My dh and I swore when I was pg with number two that we were DONE.... we changed our minds later on and had a third. Thank goodness we didn't get fixed!