Dating a married man who is jealous

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/ 01-Mar-2015 10:48

To some people, Jealousy is a sign of Love because you won't be jealous at some extent if you don't love a person. If you love and trusted the person,there's no way to be Jealous, hmmm a bit confusing isn't it? @poster Seriously, jealousy is perhaps the only genuine and reliable sign that someone truly truly loves you and wants u all to himself or herslf.When your supposed 'partner' doesn't care what you do or who you roll with, and you mistake that for trust or 'security' then you're getting it totally wrong. Perhaps thats why girls that I don't love one bit and only fool around with tend to fall more easily and cheaply than the few ones that I genuinely feel love for and let it show.The woman on the other hand, would be the object of my rage - and God help her if a gun is in sight.My husband is uhmmmm what the word I want to use, let me get back to you on that one, However, I deal with it by not bring up any subject of men approaching me or make sure that I am neutral in aspect of his friends other words do not be alone with his friends or male associates because they always making comments like I want a woman like you, do you have a friend like you, and I can see my husband getting swole (warriorish) so I just make sure I am by the husband side and thangs, My husband wants to be the one to praise me, give me attentions, and be the one that I look up to, I guess that not a bad thing, but LAWD HAVE MURCEEE, he be ready to fight somebody if they cross the line,aca77: But isn't it rude and disrespectful for a man to 'approach' some other guy's gf or wife in his presence?There is a fine line between the two, and the latter is not such a good thing.

They always tell me that their guys are jealous and so they can't hang out anytime they want.

Black men in America get jealous as well, BUT NOTHING TOP AFRICAN MEN JEALOUSY, whooooweee, you can feel some HEAT in their jealousy and be ready to take cover, They say if your man doesn't show jealousy then he doesn't love you, I THINK THAT BULLCHIT, I THINK African men just want to control and dominant and when they see other men APPROACHING THEIR TROPHY they get ignant, But isn't it rude and disrespectful for a man to 'approach' some other guy's gf or wife in his presence?

Thats seems like an act of war to me; not that I would fight him though.

Either he or she doesnt love you (enough), or he or she has alternative lover(s) elsewhere. I certainly wouldnt marry a woman that doesnt care who the lady that just called me is, or who doesnt worry about my female friends.

It means she either doesn't love me enough, or she is up to her own dirt somewhere else.aca77:@poster Seriously, jealousy is perhaps the only genuine and reliable sign that someone truly truly loves you and wants u all to himself or herslf.

Either he or she doesnt love you (enough), or he or she has alternative lover(s) elsewhere. I certainly wouldnt marry a woman that doesnt care who the lady that just called me is, or who doesnt worry about my female friends. Any playboy worth his salt knows how to pamper his would-be 'victim' with fake show of attention, care and generosity until he decides he has had enough, dumps her, and moves on to the next 'victim'. Trust me, when someone freely gives you 'trust' that you've not earned, or acts all 'secure' about who you hang out with or what you do, its usually because he or she isn't so crazy about you, or because he or she has got other sweet affairs/alternatives on the side.