Ideally a lady should lose her virginity to her husband after they get officially married. That is what both the Bible and Koran teach. All other occasions are considered to be fornication. Virginity is one of the best gifts a woman can give her husband. The very first sexual contact may involve little pain on the woman’s side. Most of it depends on the man and his kindness and love for his woman. If he loves you he won’t go fast and would let you time to get through the process enjoyably. So, pick the man wisely. READ ALSO: Sign of disvirgin – true virginity concept for Nigerians here https://ask.naij.com/love-and-relations/sign-of-disvirgin-true-virginity-concept-for-nigerians-i23619.html.