The Latest on Birth Control Pills and Women’s Libido

Many recent studies show the Pill decreases women’s sexual desire and function.

In the U.S. in 2018, birth control pills were the most popular form of contraception, used by almost 10 million women. The Pill has consistently been the most popular method since 1982.

Oral contraceptives have been the subject of more than 44,000 research publications, but fewer than 100—less than one-half of 1 percent—have dealt with their impact on women’s libido and sexuality. Some show no effect or greater desire and improved sexual functioning, but most show diminished libido and increased risk of sex problems.

How "The Pill" Works

Most birth control pills contain the female sex hormonesestrogen and progesterone (progestin). Formulations vary and over the past 50 years dosages have diminished. But whatever the formulation, the hormones in the Pill tinker with women’s pituitary hormones to suppress ovulation.

In addition, the Pill decreases ovarian production of androgens, the female form of testosterone that ignites sexual desire. Most women produce more androgens than necessary for fully functional sexuality, so despite Pill-induced suppression, most women still synthesize enough androgens to maintain libido and sexuality. But if women have low levels to begin with, the Pill could reduce androgens to a level that might suppress women’s libido.

Sexual Effects Pro, Con, and Equivocal

The Pill has many effects that may increase erotic interest and improve sexual function. When used properly, it’s highly effective, eliminating anxieties about unintended pregnancy. The Pill also reduces premenstrual distress, menstrual cramping and bleeding, and risk of endometriosis and uterine fibroids. Family planning resources, notably Contraceptive Technology, the bible of birth control, emphasize the Pill’s pro-sexual effects, saying that at most 5 percent of Pill users report sexual difficulties. But with 10 million users, that 5 percent comes to 500,000 women with libido/sex problems. In addition, the substantial majority of recent research shows that many women experience modest-to-major declines in sexual desire and function:

• German researchers surveyed 2,612 female medical students. Among Pill users, 37 percent reported at least one sign of female sexual dysfunction, more than seven times the proportion suggested in Contraceptive Technology.

• A great deal of research shows that women who don’t take the Pill have cyclical increases in sexual desire around ovulation midway between periods. This makes evolutionary sense. Most women are more interested in sex right around the time intercourse is most likely to result in pregnancy. Belgian researchers tracked 89 couples. The Pill users showed no mid-cycle spike in libido, and less frequent intercourse.

• The news isn’t all bad. Czech researchers reviewed 36 studies from 1978-2011, involving 13,673 women. Among Pill users, 22 percent reported more desire while 15 percent reported less. But that 15 percent is three times the proportion mentioned in Contraceptive Technology.

The Upshot

What should we make of this? For women plagued by PMS, severe cramps, endometriosis, fibroids, or heavy menstrual bleeding, Pill-induced relief may well enhance lovemaking. But for many other women, a growing body of research shows deflated libido and impaired sexual function.

If you take the Pill or are considering it:

• Understand that it may produce a wide range of sexual effects.

• Be sensitive to your own reactions. Disregard friends and clinicians who say, “The Pill doesn’t do that.” Actually, almost any sexual effect is possible.

• Consult an expert. Family doctors can prescribe the Pill, but if you notice any changes in your sexual demeanor, you might consider consulting a family planning or Planned Parenthood clinician who is probably more familiar with the nuances.

• Over time, continue to focus on your reactions. In some women, the Pill’s sex-impairing effects may take a year or more to develop.

• If the Pill’s disadvantages outweigh its advantages for you, choose another contraceptive. With proper use, many are equally reliable and do not interfere with sexuality. Counselors at family planning clinics or Planned Parenthood can discuss the pros and cons of all methods.

When I was considering having a tubal ligation, my OB/GYN also recommended a uterine ablation, the destruction of the lining of the uterus. Uterine ablations can reduce or even eliminate periods and the uterus no longer becomes sufficiently lined to support embryonic growth during the menstrual cycle. On the surface, it would seem getting rid of the pesky menstrual cycle would be too good to pass up, but the endometrial lining of the uterus is an active part of the biofeedback loop. It sends messages. What happens if it's not there to do that? I asked my OBGYN if I would still have PMS. He said it would be greatly reduced or even entirely eliminated. I said no, I didn't want that. I get something from with PMS. It can change my perspective, help me see things in a new light. If one is having heightened emotional experiences during PMS and a laundry detergent commercial can elicit tears, imagine the intensity of love one could feel during an experience that's actually meaningful, like holding one's infant! But something else comes with PMS doesn't it? An increase in libido. I chose not to give that up either, not until menopause anyway. My doc never said one word about my libido. Fortunately for me, I love Elizabeth Lloyd. I dodged the ablation bullet! Seriously, I feel threatened by all this. I just read that Dr. Lloyd said 20 to 30 percent of women on the Pill experience depression so severe that they require medication to help deal with symptoms! I'm an RN and have worked in behavioral and mental health for seven years. I know about psychotropic medication. Paxil, Effexor, all those anti-anxiety and anti-psychotic medications, they prevent women from reaching orgasm, some are worse than others. The effects are worse for women than men, I mean no orgasm! So women are getting on the pill, having less interest in sex which increases the most frequent mismatch between partners, getting depressed enough to seek treatment, at least the ones that come forward for help, and then probably getting prescribed anti-depressants, because that's what we do, and then end up not being able to have an orgasm. Yes, I'm paranoid. Can you blame me?