Dating at 30

"You have to decide how much time you can give to each of your priorities, and how much of you want to give to each priority," says Carpenter.

"As professional opportunities start to arise, you'll have to make decisions.

I find that whatever we put our focus on is what we draw in. A few times.) These relationships usually do not leave you better than they found you. Now, when I see the red flags early on, I don't move forward with the guy, You recognize your worth and value.

So, we're much more likely to draw in the type of relationship we are looking for because we're a lot clearer on what we want. Raise your hand if you ended up investing months or years of your life in a completely dead-end relationship because you either rationalized all the red flags away or completely ignored them. The reason so many women ignore or rationalize away the red flags is because they feel desperate to be in a relationship.

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