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ah dun worry i often feel the same way too :) i somehow feel as though my friends hate me and don't like me and want to get rid of me but trust me just believe in your friends and stuff and it'll turn out that they don't hate you exactly...i dun really know what to say else more but can you try explaining further like what fye said? maybe i can help you more then :D

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if they hate you, talk behind your back and say bad things about you then they aren't really what you should call friends now right? i think you should have an open forum. you know, gather all your "friends", have everyone express their feelings and thoughts truthfully and hopefully you'll be able to understand each other more. otherwise, you should look for new friends who will treat you right and accept you for who you are.

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I agree with so many people here.
Good friends should never give you the feeling, without reason, that something is wrong. Disagreements happen. That's a way of life. But, true friends won't purposely do anything to hurt you. So if this person/s is doing something, saying something about you, etc...doesn't sound like a very good friend to me.

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Think about it this way, if your not entirely sure that they hate you then just be nice and don't say anything about them behind their backs.
Within my friends, we're all really bitchy because we have really bad communication and don't like being mean to each other but can't keep it in because otherwise it gets out of hand.
We see it as,
- we have one year left together and then we all split up anyway.
- as long as the things we say stay within our group then its fine because we can all figure it out
- and if we get upset by it then we can just say

I think it works for us though because we stay away from each other outside of school as we all have separate friendships outside.
I wouldn't be to bothered though unless it becomes serious. Especially if you don't have that long left.

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Well, what I usually do is not talk to them and just do the usual stuff. Then after a day or two just try and ask them why are they mad. (Since my friends are never mad at me because I'm usually the quiet one, this doesn't happen to me a lot) :)

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Well, this is a hard explanation... I know lots of friends at school that acts like they hate me, but don't. To tell you the truth, I was one of the friends that hate the other person. To sum it all up, believe in yourself... if someone hate you, let their karma destroy them. :RBblush: - may good fortune be with you always!

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uh.... something i always feel... and idk whether i already did something or not... but i'll immediately ask for an apology from them... even though they're going to give a weird look... but idc... haha as long as i say 'i'm sorry' :D

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Basically... if you have to question your friends feelings for you, or you aren't sure of their feelings, giving mixed signals, whatever -- you have to reconsider if you really want to be friends with them. If they're going from liking you to hating you to liking you to hating you back and forth.... that's playing with your emotions and trying to have power over you.

Best thing for you would be to dump them altogether. It's better to have no friends than .... well, can you really call it friendship if they behave that way?