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Monday, 21 January 2013

Monday Motivation

Why is it that when something good happens in peoples live
they sometimes feel that they have to down play their happiness or their
excitement as it may make others feel uncomfortable and sad and as a result
prevents them from being themselves?

Gloaters are not my kind of people and there is a difference
between those who like to rub their success in people faces and those that
humbly express with happiness and excitement the good things in their life. But
when good things happen in your life why should you ever have to feel that you
cannot talk about it of express it to those around you who you hold nearest and
dearest?

Sometimes when good things happen to us which can be
anything from a promotion at work, love, marriage or even children it can also
signify change, not only for those of us that it’s directly happening to, but
also to the people around us who we have close relationships with.
Unfortunately some people do not deal with change as well as other and can
cause a negative effect on your happiness… but only if you let it. If this has
ever happened to you, is happening to you or may happen to you, remember this,
you are entitled to your happiness and success, you were not put on this earth
to solely to please others and never allow others to make you feel like you are
not entitled to feel or be happy! If there are people in your life who make you
feel this way, no matter how much you despise confrontation tell them how you
feel and that it’s not on! If they simply cannot understand at the time or
thereafter, leave them to it and go and enjoy your happiness and if this person
genuinely cares about you and wants what’s best for you, eventually they’ll
come around, and if not, what’s one less person in your life who won’t support
you through the good times as well as the bad.

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Have a great week, put yourself first and let go of those
that suppress your happiness.