The Expat’s Guide to Etiquette in Beijing

Don’t point your chopsticks. Hold your business card with two hands. Even once you’ve mastered the basics, do you know how to behave like a local? A longtime resident shares his wisdom.

Getting to Know You

On your first encounter with a Beijinger, don’t be surprised if you’re quizzed about your salary, age and marital status—often in that order.

How Low Can You Go?

When saying “cheers,” Beijingers show deference by clinking the rim of their glass lower than the rim of their host’s. This can get ridiculous when both parties are attempting to out-respect the other.

Awaken the Palate

When dining on Peking duck at its source, it’s traditional to dip your first bite of crisp, lacquered skin (no meat) into a tiny bowl of sugar to stir the palate.

Shout For Your Supper

Need to catch the waiter’s attention? A nod or raised eyebrow is too subtle for Beijingers, who bellow like drunken pirates. Cries of “Fuwuyuan!” (service person) and “Mai dan!” (check please) are the soundtrack of the city’s restaurants.

Navel Gazing

Why are all those Chinese men walking around on a hot day with their shirts hiked up just under the nipples like an ‘80s crop top? Exposing the belly is considered the most efficient way to cool down. No six packs either: here, the more bountiful the better.