How do muslims know that a young girl is ready to cope with full sex? I have seen it said that it is when she has started her periods. What is the physical difference between a young girl one week not having periods and the young girl having her first period in the following week?

I have also seen it quoted that full sex is only permitted when the young girl is able to cope. How is the ability to cope with full sex determined? Is it by trial and error? Is penetration tried in order to determine if the young girl is able to cope?

Can the young girl refuse to have full sex? Does a young girl`s emotional maturity matter in these circumstances?Here is what HEDAYA (ref. 11, p. 141) writes:

One can enjoy a wife by force

But not if she be refractory.—If a wife be disobedient or refractory and go abroad without her husband’s consent, she is not entitled to any support from him, until she return and make submission, because the rejection of the matrimonial restraint in this instance originates with her; but when she returns home, she is then subject to it, for which reason she again becomes entitled to her support as before. It is otherwise where a woman, residing in the house of her husband, refuses to admit him to the conjugal embrace, as she is entitled to maintenance, notwithstanding her opposition, because being then in his power, he may, if he please, enjoys her by force.

Muslims, do you agree with Hedaya or do you agree that there actually is such a thing as rape within marriage?

QS. 4:19. O you who have believed, it is not lawful for you to inherit women by compulsion. And do not make difficulties for them in order to take [back] part of what you gave them unless they commit a clear immorality. And live with them in kindness. For if you dislike them - perhaps you dislike a thing and Allah makes therein much good.

Your quote -of course, as QS. 4:19 states, live with them in kindness!

After living with a young pre-pubertal wife, in kindness, please tell me when she is ready for full sexual intercourse. It is your own opinion that I would like and not a totally vague and unhelpful quote from the Koran.

In the light of modern medical advances, do you think that the advice from modern medical science should override Muhammad`s example of consummating his marriage to Aisha when she was only 9yrs old and he was 53yrs old?

In the light of modern medical advances, do you think that the advice from modern medical science should override Muhammad`s example of consummating his marriage to Aisha when she was only 9yrs old and he was 53yrs old?

In RT,they often show young couples in India who could have been illegal child marriages but both of same age.I still fail to understand as to what a man finds attractive in a girl so young and vice versa.Perhaps this has got more to do with my upbringing involving reading weekly magazines such as Swati,Andhra Jyothi,Andhra Prabha and Andhra Bhuumi all being laced with relatively light contented sex with descriptions of a fully grown woman.

Llinguistically Dravidian states of India watered by non-perennial rivers and with far greater chances of famine are taxed 2 to 3 times more than other states.Yet B.J.P leaders maintain that they treat all states equally.Elections with E.V.Ms=>ample scope for tampering,so ballot papers are a must

Your quote -of course, as QS. 4:19 states, live with them in kindness!

After living with a young pre-pubertal wife, in kindness, please tell me when she is ready for full sexual intercourse. It is your own opinion that I would like and not a totally vague and unhelpful quote from the Koran.

In the light of modern medical advances, do you think that the advice from modern medical science should override Muhammad`s example of consummating his marriage to Aisha when she was only 9yrs old and he was 53yrs old?