Anniversary or Valentine's Day?

Which is more special to your relationship, a significant date (anniversary of marriage, dating, first meeting, whichever!) or Valentine's Day? An anniversary is specific to your relationship and unique. But Valentine's is kind of traditional! Which one and why?

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The anniversary. It marks the day that we first became a couple. While I don't mind Valentine's day either (any excuse to spend time with my partner is fine by me) I think if I had to choose our anniversary would probably win.

Which is more special to your relationship, a significant date (anniversary of marriage, dating, first meeting, whichever!) or Valentine's Day? An anniversary is specific to your relationship and unique. But Valentine's is kind of
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Which is more special to your relationship, a significant date (anniversary of marriage, dating, first meeting, whichever!) or Valentine's Day? An anniversary is specific to your relationship and unique. But Valentine's is kind of traditional! Which one and why?

I voted for both, we celebrate valentines day and anniversaries the same way.

Which is more special to your relationship, a significant date (anniversary of marriage, dating, first meeting, whichever!) or Valentine's Day? An anniversary is specific to your relationship and unique. But Valentine's is kind of
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Which is more special to your relationship, a significant date (anniversary of marriage, dating, first meeting, whichever!) or Valentine's Day? An anniversary is specific to your relationship and unique. But Valentine's is kind of traditional! Which one and why?

Which is more special to your relationship, a significant date (anniversary of marriage, dating, first meeting, whichever!) or Valentine's Day? An anniversary is specific to your relationship and unique. But Valentine's is kind of
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Which is more special to your relationship, a significant date (anniversary of marriage, dating, first meeting, whichever!) or Valentine's Day? An anniversary is specific to your relationship and unique. But Valentine's is kind of traditional! Which one and why?

my anniversary is very special to me with my Husband/Master. I became His TPE on that day too so it's a double anniversary for us.

Which is more special to your relationship, a significant date (anniversary of marriage, dating, first meeting, whichever!) or Valentine's Day? An anniversary is specific to your relationship and unique. But Valentine's is kind of
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Which is more special to your relationship, a significant date (anniversary of marriage, dating, first meeting, whichever!) or Valentine's Day? An anniversary is specific to your relationship and unique. But Valentine's is kind of traditional! Which one and why?

While we have been happily married for over 30 years, the truth is, we also find Valentines Day a very special day for us. We always make it an excuse to be extra sickly sweet and romantic towards each other. It's great.

Neither, they're both the same as the remainder 363 days.... Uneventful

If you want either of them...or any of the other days, to be "eventful", you have to choose to make them so!!! We choose to make special days "burst forth" from the calendar. Seems to us, life is too short not too!

Anniversary. I'm mean, that's a no-brainer. Valentine's Day is such a bullshit holiday.

I just cannot feel that way. Valentines Day, while an "invented" commercial holiday (as opposed to the religious holiday it was in days of old), is still about Love, Romance, Mushy cards, Chocolates, Flowers, Lingerie, Sex Toys, having sex, and oh...did I mention Chocolate. Also....in case I forgot...Chocolate. So....all my favorite things, all celebrated on one day. Who cares if it's "invented". It is ALL good.