Remember every woman is different, so make sure you continue to pay attention to what your partner actually likes.

The vagina is where it’s wet, warm, and receptive to penetration. However, for most women, that’s not where the action is. The clitoris is between your partner's lips and north of the vagina. Also, her clitoris has a hood just like a man’s foreskin. The clitoris usually hides in her hood even when stimulated. This means that your best efforts are essentially being decreased by an extra layer of skin. Here are a few tips to rub her clitoris better.

4. Suck her clit

Take the whole area into your mouth and suck. This will often pull the clit out of her hiding place and expose her to your tongue, but you can use your hand as well if necessary. The suction will pull blood into the clit and make it more sensitive, just like when she sucks on you.