I have a cool BF who is always there for me. This particular
feeling I have won’t leave, and it seems to get stronger and stronger. Could I
really have a first love? What is love anyway?

Dear In Love?,

You’ll probably spend years trying to define the
indefinable, and you may be in love several times in your life. Love means
different things to different people at different stages, and it’s wonderful—as
long as you keep your balance. Relish the good feeling and try not to worry
about labeling it or pushing it forward. Just enjoy.