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It occurred to me the other day that…https://theproudmale.wordpress.com/2017/01/26/it-occurred-to-me-the-other-day-that/
https://theproudmale.wordpress.com/2017/01/26/it-occurred-to-me-the-other-day-that/#respondThu, 26 Jan 2017 17:10:46 +0000http://theproudmale.wordpress.com/2017/01/26/it-occurred-to-me-the-other-day-that/It occurred to me the other day that in the ‘fight’ for truly equal footing in the realm of civil rights, it pays to be mindful of where we men place our attention.

If all we’re doing is reacting to the latest insane antics of the feminized cultural marxist Left, then we can miss out on creating those things we most want to see come to fruition in our own life.

Stuff like getting that business finally up off the ground or spending more quality time with people that really matter. I guess for me it’s all about balance.

We must never tire in our quest to eradicate the plague known as feminism, but the good news there is; feminism is quite wonderfully on its way out. The recent million pu$$y march proved that.

A more disturbing parade of genuinely unhinged people can only be found in the confines of a mental health facility, or daycare center – where many of these protestors belong.

If you want proof of the effectiveness of cultural marxism, it’s on full display amid the women (and men?!) wearing pink pu$$y hats and spewing childish hateful rhetoric against whites and conservatives. The only thing missing were pacifiers and baby bibs.

Looking forward, the Trump Years are already bringing much needed change to this once great Nation. With President Trump (ah, that feels GOOD to say), ALREADY making good on all those campaign promises only a few DAYS in office, it’s feeling great to be an American again.

One of the changes I believe we’ll see is the return to a much less feminized America, where men will be ‘allowed’ to be MEN again! Yes, we have some 60+ million brainwashed citizens to de-program, but at least now we have a fighting chance to regain what was decimated over the past several years by way of the traitors in DC – at the hands of Democrats on both sides.

We Patriots have prevailed during some of the darkest years in our country. To all the men who stood tall and stayed strong in the face of overwhelming opposition, I salute you. Stay focused and continue showing others what it is to be a real man in 2017 and beyond. The future is bright and we have much to be proud of!

Consider the tedious yack-fest of female talking heads on brain trusts like The Talk. Nothing gets the gals more giddy than when a man suffers bodily harm, especially when it’s the vengeful act of a woman cuttinghis penis off.

The ladies just can’t hold it in, snorting and choking back laughter even before the main host is able to get her first sentence out. Neither panties nor depends escaped spotting in the cackling depravity that ensued – each woman spewing the usual daft commentary as seen in this video.

It’s just another example of female-perpetrated-abuse-as-comedy. And it demonstrates the low bar of emotional intelligence that too many women have little difficulty reaching. Indeed, why should women even care about developing a moral code of conduct, when crude behavior in females is not only excused, but applauded.

But how can this be, when society teaches us that women possess superior empathy over men?

Likewise, don’t expect to see anytime ever a group of men on a nationally televised show laughing about a woman having her clit cut off. The public outrage from feminists, manginas, and white knights would be deafening. Inevitably the show gets axed, and each man would be viewed like a criminal.

That’s a best case scenario of course; assuming each man employs attorneys and public relations firms to battle feminist smear campaigns and legal terrorism.

Why do so many women find harm against men so funny?

Because men are expendable.

At least that’s what feminist ideology would have you believe. Even now, it’s hammered relentlessly into public consciousness to the point where media messaging demands that a man’s pain be met with laughter, mockery, and scorn.

But people remain too busy to notice and too indoctrinated to care.

Ask any male Vet waiting in line at a VA hospital for treatment that never arrives and he’ll tell you.

If he was still alive.

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https://theproudmale.wordpress.com/2016/02/07/women-laugh-at-man-getting-penis-cut-off/feed/0theproudmalePopular YouTuber Goes Public With Shocking Story of Abusive Girlfriendhttps://theproudmale.wordpress.com/2016/01/30/popular-youtuber-goes-public-with-shocking-story-of-abusive-girlfriend/
https://theproudmale.wordpress.com/2016/01/30/popular-youtuber-goes-public-with-shocking-story-of-abusive-girlfriend/#respondSat, 30 Jan 2016 20:07:35 +0000http://theproudmale.wordpress.com/?p=1553I was wondering when it would happen.

I’m not happy that yet another man has been added to the growing number of victims subjected to female perpetrated abuse. But I am excited at the prospect that now, because of this man’s popularity as a YouTube content creator, it has launched an explosion of awareness throwing the spotlight onto women who used to get away with this invisible crime against men.

Invisible, because so few men report being physically hit, cut, and in some cases nearly beaten to death by a woman who might also be their intimate partner.

Contemptible females commit crimes all over the world that rarely get the attention in the media they deserve. As was a casein Houston, where a woman stabbed her victim to death multiple times in the head…with her stiletto heels. It’s believed she was possibly his girlfriend. If so, the murder weapons were more than likely bought with his own hard-earned money.

An increasing number of men have their lives destroyed by these indictable wenches. To the outside world, scheming women like these work hard to project a clear image of the weak and timid type that we see portrayed so much in the lamestream media.

But on the inside, these women are cold-hearted calculating predators out to control their male partners. They do so with a dizzying array of psychological attacks involving fear (of harm threatened upon herself, the target, his loved ones, co-workers, etc.), gas-lighting, and continued abuse if he steps out of line and does not conform to her demands.

There are horror stories of men who tried to get free from these female psychopaths, and paid the price for not getting far enough away or not performing the extraction process properly. Psychologists and professionals in the field recommend specific methodsbe strictly adhered to when leaving unstable women of this nature.

I have read Dr. Tara Palmatier. I’ve found her research and advice highly effective for men looking to kick that female monster to the curb and move on with their life.

Statistics show that nearly 1 in 25 people are said to be sociopathic, so yes, the odds are good that you already have a nutty chick lurking somewhere near you. One that could do you serious harm. It’s why more men are exercising greater caution in their interactions with females, especially online where a friendly relationship can turn really bad really quick.

Ending a relationship with a crazy woman takes some planning. Experts recommend contacting loved ones well in advance, and set in place specific steps to successfully make a clean break from their abuser. Likewise, female criminals who would have gotten away with things like false rape allegations, and murder in the past, are now apprehended thanks to that little record button on smartphones.

Let’s unpack the rest of this story. The YouTuber is Matthew Santoro, an internet darling and well-loved celebrity on the platform. Matt’s revelation shocked millions of fans who’ve vowed retribution against the perp for her obvious cruelty to one of the world’s good guys.

It is completely sad he had to go through this.

There’s just some guys who are so naturally kind, I never want to see them changed for the worse by the worse sorts of people lurking right out in the open. We have enough jaded people in society.

After you watch a few of his vlogs and the content on his main channel you’ll begin to see – here’s a lad who’s led a fairly charmed and safe life.

Until now.

Matthew fell prey to a pretty young thing that was just another female predator wrapped in flattery, pink bows and lots of make-up. As with most narcissists, she moved quickly to attach herself to her host, gradually insinuating herself into his own videos, leaching off his fame and position, in order to bolster her own social standing.

Some people would just call that being a typical woman, the inevitable gold-digger. I still hold out hope for the NAWALT. Hey, pink unicorns could exist…somewhere.

His ex-girlfriend’s rebuttal video unveils a measured malice and spiteful attitude at work. Likewise with her appearance on The View – an attempt to save face from an earlier self-inflicted wound brought about by her viral video shaming fat people.

Matthew’s amazing video is entitled: My Abuse Story, and it’s lit a firestorm on the internet by exposing a well-kept secret among intimate partners.

A bit more about Matt.

Santoro’s bubbly presentation and editing style has driven his subscription numbers into the millions. Fans feel a deep connection to this man and have come to see him as a part of their family. I dig the guy too.

It’s taking some time for those watching this story, to process the impact a revelation of this magnitude holds for the community. Invariably, Matthew’s bravery is an inspiration to suffering men everywhere.

Having also survived female psychopaths, I’m reminded how grateful I am to still be intact and yes, alive. Especially in those moments when I catch a glimpse of my scars.

The combination of shock and alarm among his millions of fans in the comment section is palpable. It’s easy to see why, as Matthew breaks down multiple times on camera, sobbing and trying to gather himself, searching for a way to explain how his once happy life became the hell he survived for nearly a year.

In the video, Santoro’s usual perky self is nowhere to be found. All that melts away into tears of sorrow as he recalls surviving physical and emotional abuse at the hands of someone he trusted, and genuinely had deep feelings for.

The man is visibly upset as he relives the memories – the descent into that in-house penitentiary of abuser vs. target. The girlfriend was extremely jealous, an effortlessly callous woman who took pleasure in inflicting harm and exerting control over every area of his life.

The pattern is the familiar behavior of what some define as a malignant narcissist; isolating their target, violating trust, exploiting weaknesses, and feeding off the never-ending drama that always revolves around the abuser. Just like a ‘good’ little psychopath.

What makes his video so hard to watch is knowing what a positive guy Matthew Santoro really is. His productions are a bright spot on the internet, and Lord knows we could use more bright! His cheerful and colorful educational pieces are genuinely fun to watch, no matter what age you are.

I’m always in a good mood after watching, and viewers are made to feel they’ve just hung out with a great friend.

Sure, this is an intentional part of his schtick, but underneath the impossibly white teeth and perfect smile, I perceive an authenticity that comes through, telling me he’s not the cookie-cutter manufactured personality who’s doing what he does for the views alone.

The added value of the man drawing that negative encounter into his life, is that he has now learned a life lesson not all people experience, but one we all need to learn from and take to heart.

Thousands of fans suffering abuse are coming forward with their own stories. People who would have never shared intimate experiences are now making solid progress and getting free from their own self-imposed prisons. I have to say, I love it when Good wins out.

Please do watch Matthew’s video.

Especially if you count yourself among those men still not convinced that women can be every bit as angry and destructive as men. And in many cases, more so.

I contend that women have always been abusive, it’s just that now we have instant video at our fingertips, and it’s proving what millions of men have already known and been living with for some time: women are violent, women lie, women cheat, and women kill.

Some studies show that men suffer domestic violence (DV) nearly as much as women. When you take into account the code of silence; that men just do not discuss being hit or abused by the women in their lives, the percentage inevitably climbs to disturbing numbers.

The only way we can bring justice to male victims of female violence is by reporting these women and holding them legally accountable for their actions. No more slaps on the wrist from feminist judges! No more reduced sentences because she has a child!

My research shows that many men suffer in silence for years – in their effort to protect their kids from a mommy only upbringing.

If you are one such man suffering female perpetrated abuse, I implore you to reach out to a trusted loved one or a professional and ask for help. You deserve to be happy and pursuing a life of your own choosing, not one walking on eggshells in a home that’s turned into a prison.

There are good people out there.

Don’t betray yourself another day by sacrificing your life for another. Especially for a toxic woman who is simply not worthy of your love.

]]>https://theproudmale.wordpress.com/2016/01/30/popular-youtuber-goes-public-with-shocking-story-of-abusive-girlfriend/feed/0theproudmale5 Reasons to Remain Intolerant in a PC Worldhttps://theproudmale.wordpress.com/2016/01/27/5-reasons-to-remain-intolerant-in-a-pc-world/
https://theproudmale.wordpress.com/2016/01/27/5-reasons-to-remain-intolerant-in-a-pc-world/#respondWed, 27 Jan 2016 02:57:30 +0000http://theproudmale.wordpress.com/?p=849Contrary to current social mores, it’s imperative we retain our right to exercise intolerance. As citizens of an independent nation, it’s how we rock the free world.

Try being like good ol’ Arch’ in the feminized world of today, and you might soon feel you’ve backed into a hornet’s nest, as angry male-bashing wimmins storm the front steps of your business. But not after first contacting the local liberal media.

Humans have an innate desire to explore. As infants we crawled, kicked and screamed our way out of situations we had no intention of tolerating. We did that with toys, babysitters, and that nasty baby-poop colored pea soup we threw against the wall.

I’m told I was known for belting out one helluva sonic scream no adult handler could deny when expressing said intolerance.

2 – Freedom of Speech depends on it.

We can no longer sit idly by as men’s rights and free speech are annihilated.

My strident displeasure with feminists doesn’t end with their bizarre grasp of reality, allergic reaction to facts, or their immense disrespect towards men.

It’s the appropriation of male-only spaces that really blows my shit up. And what about men who simply want to attend a men’s rights conference but are met with a blockade of block-headed feminists refusing admittance and committing acts of violence against men that goes unchallenged, and unpunished.

As I consider the unprecedented deployment of feminist thought police on the internet and in universities across America, it becomes obvious who the real threat to cultural progress is.

University is the last bastion of hope for seekers of knowledge. That used to count for something. Now, the feminization of the education system has destroyed any semblance of academia as it was intended.

Now, colleges have become a hotbed of pampered cry-babieswho are more concerned with safe spaces. They brow-beat teachers into submission demanding they are made to feel comfy and safe.

Not unlike a newborn in swaddling clothes.

Somewhere along the way, these students didn’t get the memo that college is not a land of sparkling rainbow-shitting unicorns. But more on that in a future video and blog post.

To pursue higher knowledge and follow our dreams! How can we do that, if we don’t exercise our right to indulge our personal preferences?

Your preferences are in no way an indication of the type of misogynistic intolerance feminists accuse us of. When a man says he doesn’t dig fat chicks, or conveys a choice about anything, he is placed under the most terrible scrutiny by trigger-happy SJW’s who never need a reason to go full retard and launch a Twitter War or character assassinating distortion campaign.

Thus unravels another tenet of feminist dogma that insists choice is a woman-only option.

Even in dating a man can be legally punished for invoking his intolerance of an abusive woman, refusing to be another uncounted male statistic of domestic violence.

After he breaks off the relationship with said whackadoo, feminist laws now give female students the benefit of the doubt.

This bestows upon women the legal right to claim any number of imagined crimes against the man who’s prevented from even addressing his accuser. He’s guilty because he’s male.

It’s the premise behind such movements as MGTOW, and it begs the question: since when are men not allowed to freely express themselves? Oh yeah, since feminism. Since a group of misinformed man-hating females successfully lobbied governments to legalize grievance culture and outlaw male behavior.

Ya know,we men are told there is never a reason to hit a woman.

Sure there is, and feminism gives us so many to choose from.

I’m not advocating the hitting of women, (unless she hits first, then all bets are off), but the fact is the Western world is a total mess. We’ve lost our way. The inmates not only run the asylum, they’re building new ones.

What are some additional ways we can show intolerance for feminism? How can we defend against a virus that’s infected so much of the cultural landscape, when the mere effort of affirming a man’s right to be human too, is seen an an act of aggression by the brainwashed masses?

]]>https://theproudmale.wordpress.com/2016/01/27/5-reasons-to-remain-intolerant-in-a-pc-world/feed/0theproudmaleFeminist Social Reform Endorsed By Hitlerhttps://theproudmale.wordpress.com/2016/01/22/feminist-social-reform-endorsed-by-hitler/
https://theproudmale.wordpress.com/2016/01/22/feminist-social-reform-endorsed-by-hitler/#respondFri, 22 Jan 2016 02:03:29 +0000http://theproudmale.wordpress.com/?p=4Men and boys are in crisis. In fact – you, me and everyone in Western society is affected. One needn’t consult irrefutable research of renowned educator Warren Farrell Ph.D. to make this claim. The targeting of males is seen all around us in social media on the daily. Consider current tweets heralding such atrocities as International Castration Day, and hashtags like #KillAllWhiteMen, #MaleTears, #BanMen and of course feminist favorite #ShirtGate. With all this attention given to white males, I’m beginning to feel a bit like a celebrity.

Then there’s The First Church of Feminism’s call for 90% population reduction of men. Now this is social reform even Hitler could get behind. We’ve come to see the word ‘Feminazi’ as not so much a derogatory term, as it is a wholly accurate descriptive in a western world now heavily influenced by man-hating feminist ideology that seeks to further lionize women and girls, while devaluing men and boys.

I have yet to mention the yes means yes law which automagically makes all men who have the misfortune of speaking to a woman, rapists! Men are the clear targets in this latest power grab by elitist feminists in the education system. On any given day, good men going about their business can have their entire lives ruined in a flash by lying females with an axe to grind. These sociopathic females make false rape allegations in efforts to inflict harm on an ex or simply for the satisfaction of exerting power over a man who did not conform to their expectations.

Sadly, the female perpetrators of this crime are rarely held accountable and go on with their lives as if they never sabotaged an innocent life. And that’s what character assassination is: the maiming of someone’s online and offline reputation…their life as they know it, never to be fully restored again.

These male victims are left out in the cold; sometimes literally, expelled from school, fired from jobs, oftentimes incarcerated, saddled with a ruined reputation, and left to find a way to somehow repay extensive legal fees. Assuming they get out of jail anytime soon, that is.

Men and their families are fed up with the double standards and the pandering of government agencies to women and the absolute dearth of support for men. Enough is enough!

Men are used to feminist groups advocating for only one half of the population, but we are done paying for the privilege females enjoy to act at will, with no fear of reprisal or personal culpability. It’s well past time for female perpetrated abuse of this nature to be taken seriously and the criminal women held accountable for these atrocious acts of brutality against men.

Our very freedoms have been hijacked by feminist special interest groups claiming a desire for equality when their real agenda provides for females only,at the expense of males. The laws of the land now dictate that rights to free speech only apply to those women as we witness men’s civil rights violated without remedy.

How can we sit idly by and let feminists make a continual mockery of men and of a Constitution that America’s forefathers gave their very lives for? And a Bill of Rights effectively inked in their blood. To continue this destructive path of white male genocide means the inevitable collapse of a civilization built and maintained by the very same men feminists seek to exterminate. Without men to counter government abuse, there is no one left to protect anyone asserting personal freedoms.

Placing trust in a government to do the will of the people without citizens retaining power to sanction presidential overreach (are you listening Mr. Obama), is to knowingly sacrifice your right to life.

Feminists lobby and procure government funds adding to an already bloated cash cow of tax-payer dollars intended to ensure gender equality to the detriment of males everywhere. The results are anything but equal as reflected in the homelessness and suicide rate for men subjected to government enforced feminist quotas and ideals.

Or hasn’t history provided enough clear evidence of turncoat politicians who act out of self-interest instead of protecting the sanctity and quality of life for their constituents.

But feminists see their unabashed misandry as a humanitarianeffort, even calling themselves Egalitarians, Humanitarians, Philanthropists. To those of us who understand the concepts of reality vs. fantasy, these are two different things. It’s easy to discern the tenets of feminism and call it for what it is: a piss stain on the progress of a society in desperate need of healing and cohesion.

But the feminist indoctrination of Feelz Over Facts begins early. They get ’em young. It all comes courtesy from a left-leaning authoritarian education system that redefines critical thinking in terms of ‘micro-aggressions’ and illogical analysis that treats feelings as fact. Instead of that which can be objectively quantified and proven truth.

The horrific truth is, a female student on a college campus can walk up to school authorities, point to any male student, say she feels threatened by him, or he was sexually abusive in some way, and the burden of proof falls on the male. Within moments his entire academic and personal life comes crumbling down around his ears.

This unsuspecting student is utterly destroyed on nothing but the word of yet another disney princess who decided her delicate sensibilities (translation: shitty man-hating attitude) entitled the weak specimen of humanity to violate the rights of a fellow human being…just because he’s a man.

And the government supports her fully, in a society that lately more resembles a gulag than the Land of The Free.

With more females seeking degrees and fewer male students in our universities, we face an increasingly uncertain world of new challenges especially in the areas of high tech that will need the male perspective and gifted intellect of both sexes to help guide it through wars, intensifying pollution, and never before seen advances in things like trans-humanism, robotics and 3D printing.

Since invention drives the progress of civilization, I have grave concern for the future of mankind when achievements made by men are routinely marred and discredited by hostile feminists and card carrying social justice warriors – as was the case with #ShirtGate, when feminism reached nuclear level toxicity and destroyed yet another man’s moment of glory and proud accomplishment.

If we don’t soon disable the spreading misandry so prevalent in Western society, the men of tomorrow could possibly become permanently incarcerated denizens, or living the outlaw life feminists portray them as today. Men will be flourishing in underground communities, unaffected by damsels in distress and immune to a public policy dedicated to punishing male behavior.

Much like leading-edge MGTOW and some MRA’s do now.

Then as now, men will be essential to the security of a nation. It’s men who provide the strong hand of stability, and most advances in civilization are rightly accredited to men. The general public is ill equipped to manage the continued stripping of our freedoms by feminist grievance culture. Men are the only force that stands between a gynocratic dictatorship and any semblance of a free world.

With each micro-aggression brought to the public discourse and each imagined offense manufactured by feminists, new stress is placed upon an already structurally compromised social grid.

Something’s gotta give. As feminists and SJW’s stare down logic and common sense, it won’t be men who blink first.