Agreed! Why doesn't the manual match the buttons in the car??? By the way, I had the same problem with my car. What I did was to make sure the OFF button was not illuminated. Then I set the button on my key fob to unlock all the doors of the car with one push and not two. Dome lights have been working since then. Saw it posted on another thread and it worked.

I have a 7/12 build SEL sedan. My dome light works as expected with the off button not lighted. every time a door is opened or the fob is pushed the dome light comes on.

on a side note.... how doyou set it up so only 1 remote button push is required to unlock all doors instead of 2?