You’ve landed a first date and are ready to go. Well done. Now read on for our
top ten tips on how to avoid a first-date faux pas…

So, you've joined an online dating site such as Kindred Spirits, struck up a rapport with an amazing person and after a few exchanges of emails are ready to meet. As much as we would like to say 'just be yourself', sometimes we all need a bit of help for those first date nerves - so we've compiled a guide on how to avoid those first date faux pas.

Timing is key

First things first, don't leave your date hanging around waiting for you. It will start the date off on a bad footing and may cause tension. If you're going to be late, make sure you let them know well in advance.

Dress to impress

Every girl loves a man who’s dressed to impress, so under no circumstances turn up in your work clothes or fancy dress. You may think it’s hilarious but we can guarantee your date won’t.

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Women need to be just as careful about their clothing. If you’re wearing a low-cut top then cover up your legs, or if you’re wearing a high-neck top then wear a skirt and vice versa. As for make-up, there really is no need smother yourself - the natural look is more appealing all round.

Try something new

When it comes to dining out, if you haven’t agreed a restaurant beforehand then it’s always a good idea to let the lady choose. It shows you are interested in her choice of dining and are willing to try new things. Also, never go for a beer and a take-away; it would be most women’s idea of hell.

Avoid any bad manners

When you eventually choose a restaurant, settle in and order your food, remember this; eating with your mouth open while attempting to talk is the worst possible first-date faux pas. It is bad manners and a complete turn-off.

Silent treatment

Another pet hate for most during a meal is answering phone calls. The phone should at least be on silent; ideally it should be switched off.

Two-way street

If you have chosen a restaurant beforehand you might have discussed splitting the bill. If not, it's your call. Most women and men like to pay their own way these days, so don't push the point too hard either way.

“Drink, drink, drink”

Drinking on a first date is fine - dates can be nerve-wracking and it's a good way to relieve tension. That said, the worst thing you could possibly do is to get drunk and make a fool of yourself. It's a fine line to walk, so be careful and know your limits.

Safety all the way

On the way home why not offer to walk your date back to their car, bus or train stop. This shows them that you are enjoying their company and are concerned about their safety. It does not, however, mean you can attempt a sly kiss or cuddle.

Attention to detail

If your date lives a few streets away, then why not hail them a taxi. Don't think, however, that this is an opportunity to invite yourself into the taxi for a lift home. If they don’t ask, then don’t assume.