Many people are in careers and lives they feel they never completely chose for themselves. Suddenly, they see that many of the decisions they’ve made over the years were done in an effort to fit in or gain approval. Some made choices based upon what they believed their parents or society had told them were appropriate or worthy. Somewhere along the line, they stopped following their own hearts. They thought that by putting themselves first they were acting selfishly. Somewhere deep down, they now battle with the insidious feeling that they are not as happy or fulfilled as they could be.

You must know why you want to change before you can commit yourself to the necessary steps. Your desire for change, which will ultimately determine your commitment to change, requires that you eliminate all self-defeating assumptions from your consciousness

Happy Valentine’s Day! if you are celebrating, I hope you are spending the day with someone absolutely amazing and WORTHY of receiving your love.. if you’re not yet ready for new love, I encourage you to celebrate today as a day of self-love!