According to quantum physics and metaphysics, Sexual Energy is the energy that plants the seeds of your dreams and visions for the Future, into the Present. As a regenerative force, sexual energy uses death and rebirth to create new life. Now that could be really useful stuff.When Sexual Fusion is involved, your new life can manifest as a change in your character, a change in your lifestyle and (at its pinnacle) you completely change into someone who expresses your greatness.

The 7 Steps

1. Heal any denial of the beauty of Sexual Energy in your life. Treat Sexual Energy with great respect and care (like you would nuclear energy)

3. Take responsibility for your Sexuality by owning it

4. Celebrate your desire to renew your life

5. Express your passion for and enjoyment of being alive

6. Desire to live your deepest dreams and visions

7. Grow, change and evolve

The first 3 steps are accepting you are a sexual person who is powerful and responsible. That leads to true sexual freedom which you celebrate in step 4.

Steps 5, 6 and 7 are how to take your sexuality out into your world.

Doing this in the 1960’s and 70’s was like handing nuclear energy over to teenagers. A lot of us got burned, while we learned.

How to Safely handle your Sexual Energy

If you don’t take your time while doing anything, including sex, then you won’t do well at it. It is like jumping out of an airplane. First you need to make sure that your parachute will work. So before you practice Sexual Fusion take your time to do the 7 steps above. They will tune you into your sexual power.

Over a 7 day period take one day to work with each of the 7 stages of accessing your full Sexual Energy. You are inviting your Sexual Energy to be fully and authentically available to you in your life.On day 1, explore how to heal any sexual denial you experience. On day 2, discover how you can treat sexual energy with greater respect. On day 4, you can host a fresh start to your life celebration.

At first do them in order. They build upon each other. Later mix them up so they flow together.

Record your experiences. You can journal or use any method that appeals to you i.e. a song, a drawing, a conversation with a friend or lover, etc. Be both creative and disciplined, like an artist. If you are a song writer, poet, etc, this can lead to some amazing breakthroughs.

Remember it has to work for you. What you know will work, is what will work. You can repeat this 7 day cycle as often as you wish.

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When an Atomic Bomb goes off there is a massive explosion. That’s a fission reaction where two atoms split apart. It makes for wild and exciting explosions, but fission reactions have many toxic side effects (like radiation). In short, it’s NOT what nature prefers and it’s NOT the healthiest kind of sex.

Fusion reactions, on the other hand, generate vast amounts of energy in nuclear reactors and stars. It occurs when two atoms fuse together. Fusion reactions create far greater amounts of energy and have healthy side effects, like creating photons and neutrinos.

Sexual Fission (Good Ol’ Regular Sex)

With Sexual Fission you can feel better after sex, even great, because of the stress relief. But over time it becomes repetitive and boring. There is no deep renewal or feeling of sharing a spiritual experience together. When you are emotionally in survival mode, the following unfolds.

1. You and “your target” are attracted. Biology helps you and gives you initial access to the energy between you.

2. You manufacture (through pickup, acting cute, etc) or get a glimpse of “attraction” or “falling in love” and begin to relate.

3. At some point you decide … or slip into … “let’s do it” and you have sex

4. Little or no energy flows from the energy between you. The result is you become self absorbed or lost in the other person. And now you have to work off your own energy reserves.

5. As you experience sex (once or over time) you have some interesting experiences till your batteries run down.

6. Then there is a noticeable shift. You both begin to battle over energy by arguing, holding back, etc, or you go seeking it from others. This further depletes your energy. The outcome is you struggle to sustain “the intimacy” … or you give up.

7. This is the point where the potential for fusion dissipates and becomes the energy of fission (you break up or falling apart). Or nothing happens and the intimacy collapses.

Sexual Fusion (The Ultimate Connection):

When you handle your survival issues and are emotionally in love, the following unfolds.

1. You and “your potential partner” are attracted. Again biology helps and gives you initial access to the energy between you.

2. You choose to be open with your thoughts and feelings (the energy within you). And you look for and enjoy the other person’s differences (the energy between you). This gives you full access to the energy between you.

3. As you share your differences, you decide this is right for you … or not … out of preference and love. This is best done from your Authority (see Human Design).

4. Then you establish a Fusion Relationship. And at some stage you decide to have sex.

5. You give and receive 100%, without depleting yourselves, creating a high energy environment of “Deep Intimacy.”

6. This brings you “close enough” for the energies within you to merge together. This creates a new expanding energy around you as a couple.

7. The energy released in your fusion marinates you both. It transforms you and you experience profound love and caring.

8. You stay fused for as long as you decide to, then let go and return to your relationship. It is natural to feel renewed after sexual fusion. It never gets boring, only better over time.

Hey, this seems straight forward at first. Yeah of course you want to have sex … so next!

Well step back for a moment.

Let’s look at the First Step of The 9 Steps for Sexual Fusion (see Chapter 6 in the eBook)

Step#1: Make a Conscious Choice

Make the decision that you want to have sex together. The more consciously you do this, the more your mind is prepared to experience the Energy Together. Don’t base your decision on guilt or fear. When your choice is honest then your mind works with you. Your objective at this stage is to increase the quality of your mental energy.

OK so let’s get practical.

You know you have the freedom to choose, especially these days. But your choices are made by your mind. Your mind can be affected by your conditioning, other’s opinions, hormones, etc. And your mind does not live in your physical reality.

So how do you know if your choice to have sex, at that time or with this person … is a GOOD DECISION for you?
This is why I love Human Design. Human Design specializes in showing you how to make great decisions. It forces your mind to check in with you, your body and reality. It helps you learn how to make choices that are good decisions for you.

Here are the steps:

Make a choice to have or not have sex. Be as conscious as you can at the time.

Then use your Human Design Strategy and Authority to check that this is a good decision for you. (For more help here see the Consultations page)

If the answer is yes, go for it.

If the answer is no, make new choices and check them out.

Keep doing this till you are clear what is right for you at that time.

Following your strategy and authority takes you to your best or better options. This is how you become the authority in your life and guide yourself to great sexual experiences.

With Sexual Fusion this is important.

In Step#1: Make a Conscious Choice; you both do this separately and together.
Remember, with Sexual Fusion, you are choosing to create a Star together in your bedroom … NOT an explosion. Making the right decisions, getting the timing right, etc, makes all the difference.

And they have warned (actually threatened) that any other expression of sexuality will get you in BIG trouble with GOD! Sound ancient? No, this attitude is still prevalent in many parts of the world, developed and undeveloped.

So is sex that dangerous to you? No. However sex is very powerful. And with all things that are very powerful it takes freedom AND responsibility to handle it well.

Why is sex so powerful? Sex is so powerful because of what it connects you to. Sex is the easiest way to have an authentic experience of the spiritual dimension of your life. Sex is not necessarily the best, or most appropriate, or most elegant way – but it is the easiest and most available.

When you experience the truth of your spirituality, it is very authentic and gives you powerful feedback. And it looks something like this…

So, what is spirituality?

Your spirituality is “how YOU relate to your Creator”. People relate to their Creator in many ways. They relate to their Creator as God, the Divine, Great Spirit, Goddess, Infinite Intelligence, Energy, Nature, Nothing, You don’t exist, I don’t know, I don’t care, I’ll show you, etc. Your relationship can be based in intellect, emotion, instinct, art, science, etc, etc and involve any combination of the above.

What sex does is reveal the true nature of your current relationship with your Creator. Not what you think your relationship is, but “where it is at” at that place in time. Sex is the easiest way for anyone to experience, acknowledge and grow their relationship with The Divine.

Most pain around sexuality is rooted in your sense of separation from, and longing for, an authentic and vibrant relationship with the Divine.

Honestly facing that pain and healing it takes courage. Yet for thousands of years human beings, in general, have been able to avoid doing this.

Now we can’t avoid this issue any longer. Living in a global culture, with all its challenges and opportunities, you have come to the point where sex has to be restored to its true role. Sex will still include conceiving children, but will also open the door to so much more.

To heal and release this pain you need to appreciate and experience sexuality in new fulfilling ways.

You now have the opportunity to go beyond raw technique and performance into the magnificent experience of sexuality that I call Sexual Fusion. This begins by understanding the importance of sexual energy and the physics and art of great sex.

Sexual Fusion is designed to take you to the next level of sexuality… where you have great sex by enjoying the beauty of your physical, energy and spiritual lives coming together.