Amandari.

Have you and your fiance travelled anywhere exotic and memorable? One couple I'd worked with had gone to Bali and fallen in love not only with each other, but with the Balinese phrase "amandari," which means "kindred spirits." So I used this phrase in a blessing I offered them for their marriage. It ended with this wish: "May you always live as amandari -- kindred spirits."

Now as they reflect on their wedding ceremony, they will be reminded of the romance they kindled in Bali -- a touchstone for rekindling their romance time and again as the years go by.