Now I know what everyone is thinking when I say this. But the problem is my boyfriend is so erratic sometimes its hard for me not to think somethings up. The last time he acted like this I had to leave. I go to my family's house every other weekend except this weekend is different because its Christmas and New Years. When I went to my familys and he was texted me saying he feels as if I am hiding something I am not telling him the truth... the last time this happened things got so bad I had to leave. HE doesn't realize the only realize I leave is because he is insecure that it really makes me scared to even visit my family. Then he turns around and act like nothing happened!?! He says he is sorry and that he loves me and knows he needs to change but it happens over and over again! So I looked at his phone when he was in the bathroom and there was this text to another woman saying "your my love but not in physical contact?" This is my question, also when is it time to walk away?

lol, any woman who would buy such a lame line is pretty pathetic. "you're my love but not in physical contact" Way to go romeo. NOT!!! Insecurity is a hard one to deal with. How he can get over his insecurity is by being completely present in each moment. He should read "The Power of Now" by Eckhart Tolle

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It's long past time to let this one go. He's paranoid because he himself isn't trustworthy. We all get that from the little bit of info you provided...so I suspect there are a lot more clues if you think about it.