You remember that girl you met at school the other day that everyone seems to like? Gosh, wouldn't it feel great to be kinda like her? Think about it! She's got it all, because people like her! But how does she pull it off so well?

Steps

1

Take a moment to think about things that would usually please a large group of people. This should take some time to ponder about, because a fairly-sized group of people is bound to have different interests and personalities floating through the air. But, I've listed a few common things that people like.

A guy/girl who gives other people a chance to talk and be the center of attention

Someone with good stories

One who stays on-topic, and interested in what other people are speaking of at that moment (this shows that you're willing to think about things from other points of view, and that you're flexible with whatever everyone else is doing or talking about)

2

Put some ideas to the test. The next time you're at a BBQ, party, restaurant, lunch table, date, or outing, be warm and laid-back, because that's just who enjoyable people are. Don't talk people down, but don't seem like a creepy, and, slightly naive preppy from the land of rainbows and unicorns. It's OK to talk about flaws and problems, but don't overdo it.

3

When you see someone new, don't be shy! They might feel a little weird about new people, so be gentle and thoughtful of all the possibilities of who they could be, or what they could be like.

4

Don't be a show-off. There are too many people out there who want nothing but oohs and ahhs from the crowd. They don't get attention by boasting and walking around with a head the size of the moon. They get eye rolls and irritated people they were trying to impress in the first place. Don't let yourself go from friendly new person to bragging loser. It can happen too easily.

5

If you aren't enjoying yourself, you aren't doing things right. Just do and say what you're comfortable with. It's not a good idea to lose focus and become manipulated, or to manipulate the people around you. Just do what you can to praise the crowd in your best way.