K.C. wrote: “The guy I’ve been seeing for a couple months has been acting more distant lately. He doesn’t initiate seeing each other anymore and doesn’t respond to my texts or calls as quickly as he used to. We used to have really hot sex and talk all night, spending the whole weekend together, but …

I dumped a boyfriend right before Valentine’s Day once. He had already ruined the previous year’s V Day by not noticing my new hair. I had gotten my hair freshly cut and colored that week in an effort to modernize my languishing hairstyle, and thought ‘What better time to surprise him with my new look …