How long? You can continue to support her in any/every way you can. Let her know that you love her and will wait for her. Also, be sure to take care of yourself so you can be a positive influence for her during her time in jail/prison.

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Surviving her doing a prison term will bring you closer but will also present challenges both when she is in and once she gets out.

I don't think that any two cases are the same, though we all have some similarities in terms of what we go through on our end and what they go through. But there isn't really a set guidebook or playbook beyond the things you'll read on the site (maintain contact as best you can, be patient, write a lot, answer phone calls, visit when you can, etc.)

How exactly do you feel like your relationship is changing?

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Prison will change any relationship. Surviving her doing a prison term will bring you closer but will also present challenges both when she is in and once she gets out.

Relationships have to be negotiated to take new restrictions into account. They'll be different but that doesn't mean they can't work if each partner understands and respects the other's needs and does his/her best to accommodate them.

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