I think if there was one thing I could have changed it would have been my diet, I have always been overweight, and not one day of it pleasant. I think if I had taken care of those few extra pounds when they be came apparent I would never have had the low self esteem that I have.I love myself but find it hard to believe that any one else could love me. and there in lies the problem. I see very large women with total confidence in them selves and I am almost sick with envy I have never been proud of myself in my appearance and that is what I would change if I can't change my size then let me change my self worth image in my mind

Robin J I would also like to change my weight it is very hard though. One thing I have tried that is very easy and does make a big difference within a couple of months is to drink as much water as you can at least 8 glasses a day. Pounds literally slide off you...give it a try.

The one thing i would like to change would be the people's attitude towards life,now either they are concerned more about making money or about how to curtail others growth and let him stepover others.I would wzant them to think more freely,live in cooperation rather than competition and make them understand that there is only one life ,live it to the fullest by not selfishness,but by helping others and thus augmenting ones reputation,money comes and goes,but love and intimacy doesnt come so often once u kick it off

Very true varunkrishna. My husband and i have a saying...you only go around once. This means to us while we may not have as much money as if we worked 60 hours a week we try to work jobs that make us reasonably happy and make enough money to pay the bills in the shortest amount of time so that we can spend most of our time together. Also there are always sites like this where you can make a little extra while spending time together.

Not just one LeighA, but there are lots that I would want to change in my life. To be honest, I believe everybody has the same feeling about this also. But we cannot really change them, so I treat my past as a lesson to learn for me to have a better future.