Wednesday, January 8, 2014

The Rebel Series: PJ Parsons - PJ Parsons Presents

I began
the Rebel Series to highlight fabulous creative individuals who have diverged
from the mainstream and forged their own path to success. Perhaps they
spent years working in the hell-mouth until they couldn’t take it anymore.
Perhaps they followed their heart from the very beginning. Whatever their
path looks like, they have chosen not to conform to what society deems the
‘norm’. And they are making the world a much more delicious place by
doing so.

I have been an entertainer since I was young.
I actually was a professional clown from 1989-2001. I retired from clowning,
but continued doing the event coordinating and then started DJ-ing and realized
I liked it and was pretty good at it. I love being a part of making someone
feel special, whether for their birthday or wedding day.

"You will never work a day in your life if you are doing what you love. Life is too short to sit in a cubicle. Remember to adjust your needs and wants to the income you can make so that you don’t feel the need to give up on your dreams just to pay the bills."

What did you do before you decided to
pursue the dream?

I’ve actually had a lot of different jobs. Some I really
loved and others I really didn’t. I have realized that I am not very good at
being an employee. I take too much ownership in the success of whatever I am
involved with.

Can you describe the moment you knew that
it was time to make the change?

When I got serious about really making this
work as a full-time ‘job’ was when I was working in an office, in a cubicle,
and realized I had no joy. Nylons are not my thing.

How long did it take you after that
epiphany to get your business up and running?What were some hurdles along the way?

I had the epiphany about my company
about 6 years after opening it. I had not committed 100%, and the cubicle is what finally made me take myself and my skills seriously.

The hurdles have been the change in marketing from when I had an entertainment
company from 1989-2001. I have had to learn about websites, FB, twitter,
instagram and that the age of the couples looking for me only want to text or
email. I have to keep learning technology, and I'm a people person, so it is a
challenge.

How many events do you average per year?

30-40

You in 5 words.

Loud, hyper, fun,
passionate and whatever the opposite of tactful is.

Where do you call home?

Everett, WA with my
husband, teenage daughter and my dog. My other kids and their spouses live
nearby, so home is when they are all here, with grandkid and grand dogs in tow!

What inspires you? Is there something grand
that inspires your life and work?

The smiles of my clients at the end of an
event. The gratitude of parents of my couples. Being able to be available when
my family and friends need me, and since I set my own schedule, I can be there
when they need me.

Something grand? Babysitting grandkids, and being in my
hammock on a sunny Wednesday afternoon.

Beautiful couple, beautiful sunset!

What website or blog do you stalk the most?

Yours!

Awwww.... :)

What band/artist is making you shake that
booty today?

Pitbull, Bob Marley, Jimmy Buffett, DMB

If you could live anywhere in the world,
where would it be?

At the beach, with my dog, and frequent visits from
grandkids :)

What is the most hilarious or shocking
thing that has happened during an event? Shocking: I got to see that not
everyone wears undies at a wedding, and they forget that a lot when they are on
the dance floor (ick).

Hilarious? Some of the toasts I’ve heard are pretty
funny. I had one best man who was WASTED and he kept saying “fuckin’“ after
every word. Pretty awkward when dad and gramma are in the front row.

What is one thing you would say to
encourage other aspiring Rebels?

You will never work a day in your life if you
are doing what you love. Life is too short to sit in a cubicle. Remember to
adjust your needs and wants to the income you can make so that you don’t feel
the need to give up on your dreams just to pay the bills.

Failure - which would mean working for someone else. I don’t allow that to
be an option.

Favorite place you’ve traveled?

Australia!

What
about Australia did you love so?

I loved the Murray River in Australia. I loved
who I was there. The weather, food, beer, interesting people. I also thought I
was going to spend my life travelling, but that has not happened yet :). It is
still a goal.

Where would you like PJ Parsons Presents to
be 5 years from now?

In a groove with marketing, social media and expanding
with at least one DJ and a Coordinator working for me. I also see awesome beach
vacations with my family, and a home I love.

What is the coolest thing a client has ever
said to you?

That I made their day exactly what they wanted. I also had a Mom
of the Bride say I was PHENOMENAL! Which made me happy.

Yet another happy couple!

What do YOU love about your work?

That I am
there on such an important day that could go wrong, and I do my best to make it
what these couples want. Seeing happy people makes me happy.

What is your favorite part about being a
Rebel?

Waking up and knowing that I am in control of what happens today. Also,
irritating my siblings, who don’t understand why I won’t “get a job” even
though I have a degree.

Living life on my terms.

Anything else you would like to share with
the world?

Do what you love, and the money will take care of itself. Have faith
in yourself.

Where can all these lovely readers stalk
you and your work?

I guess they'd have to come to a wedding! They can read my
stuff on FB too.