So there you have it. This person has zero social media presence (trust me, I looked really hard in the beginning), and you know when you Google yourself and find a few images? Another big fat zero.

So there’s no way I’m going to mess with that.

Which means I need to stop writing this post very soon. My heart has definitely healed from my break up with the ex, and I have been having fun times. I miss that sense of a deep creative connection though; everyone offers unique gifts of course, and there’s no doubt the Comet is a special find… I just need to wait and see how we arc across the sky together.

And I’m sorry, but I won’t be able to tell you about it. I’m grateful for the experiences so far though, and rest assured I’m happy, curious, excited, slightly vulnerable, and willing to fly.

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I hope your experience goes well!! I’ve switched to just talking about my experiences in my nail art videos because I don’t want one specific person to know about them and I know that will never happen if they are in the videos lol I hope you have lots of dating courage!! Send some my way, please! I have a first meet on Sunday

I’ve only had one guy say he didn’t want to be on my blog but that was part of his “ending things with me” speech. And it was done in a hurtful way lol it sounds like this was a very respectful conversation.

I met my husband on a dating website. I had to kiss a fair few frogs before I met him, take care not to fall into the fantasy of online dating. Make sure that the one you choose puts you first before anything else because you deserve the best. 🌹

Yes! That is a very good sum up of the best online dating attitude- I believe I do take that approach- I’ve kissed a whole bunch of frogs and frogettes- still not exactly sure who I’m looking for yet, so no wonder I haven’t quite found them… but this ‘having fun looking’ is lots of fun 😊
Thank you for your thoughtful comment, & I’m glad you found your hubby 😍

Ha ha! I so appreciate that. My partner is sort of like that, though not quite as clear cut. Well, I’m so glad that you’re having fun and healed from your other relationship. My spiritual mentor J-R has said something like how the best way to heal a relationship is to get into a new one! Anyway, blessings Gabrielle. Love to you both. Debbie

I’m so happy to hear things are still going well with Comet. And the timing is uncanny that you mention ethics and privacy: I have been thinking the same thing in writing about Logan now that things are getting more serious. I’m deliberately including less and less detail over time for various reasons… one being for his privacy (even though he doesn’t know I have a blog). Granted, mine is a private blog but it still feels a bit uncomfortable to me.

I’m happy and hopeful for you! I’m not bound to not-blog, but did move to a different platform to accommodate the interest of my heart. It’s a great exercise in remembering priorities and where real happiness comes from. You have every bit of my optimistic well wishes!

Thank you for commenting and sharing understanding 😊
I agree that real life connection is way more valuable in matters of the heart than blogging… but as a writer it’s nice to have a bit of both hey? Thanks, G 😊

Thanks Trace- yes, I have felt like that too many times- I think it’s a healthy response to having been hurt… but then somehow, a ray of sunshine can gently appear, and it takes courage to admit that yes, you’re kinda ready for love again. May that feeling revisit you one day perhaps x