but hey hey we are talkin about under-age ! haba wetin be this! for civilised world he will be locked up for real ! its all good people being so stupid by the way they talk sometimes! if age doesnt matter then as yall said rite why dnt u let this guy row with your 12 years old sister!

15 yrs!!! to start with, first, u still dey young to start a relationship, how about doing ur home work and reading ur books after skool instead of thinking of a man at ur age, 2morrow u be preganant and then u be looking 4 some one to blame, na belly u dey go carri so oooo,

HONESTLY,am DUMPFOUNDED about this SCENARIO, i mean a girl of 15 dating a boy of 20, and still asking, if they are COMPATIBLE,or if that is WRONG OR RIGHTforgeting that as at this AGE, they need to FACE their STUDIES.THIS WORLD DON SPOIL!!!!!!!!!!!.

Girl, deep down, you know there's something not just right bout it. The age difference is okay but not in your case, girl, you really are too young for the intricacies of a relationship. You need friends and not a relationship at this age.

@naija4lifeshe came here for advice, n yeah, she's gon get it. you cant talk about age difference in isolation. a 25 yr old girl has the right to date a 30 yr old man. but a 15yr old girl with a 20 yr old man? there's a lot of maturity difference. as said ealier, the guy's been places while the girl's a juvy (if she wasnt, she wouldnt be askin).

Well, I think there are two issues here: age difference and your age. To me the fact that you are still a minor means that you should not even be contemplating having a relationship with a guy. However, if you love this guy so much, you should have to wait until you become an adult (age of consent in most countries is 18). The age difference would not have mattered much if you were say about 25 and the guy is 30. Most guys are married to girls they are older than with more than 5years age difference. My sincere advise is that you should concentrate on your studies first. Man no de run!!!

U re all behaving as though una no dey 4 dis world As long as that Girl Don reach 15 she no be innocenty am a teen my self and know my mates well enough they all pretend to thier unlce and aunts as though they are angels but for real they no and infact done do wetin thier uncle and aunt use born thier cousins

, Anyways

A guy of 17 knows what he wants self, not to talk of a guy of 20, what does he want with you, Agbaya

it is better u stick to a 16-18 guy oooooooooooooocause they are still more forgiving and understanding than 20 years old baba that knows nothing else than ****

Why is it the latest fad to post either sob stories or stories of the 'readers, what do you think' variety? Apart from the fact that it's dumbing down nairaland, if y'all want stuff like this you know where they sell Hints, Hearts, better lover or even the 'Dear Aun't Rebecca' column in vanguard. Sheesh!

Girl easy oo!! Thats cradle snatching in some traditions, while in some its a mark of womanhood There's a 5 year age difference btw my Boyfriend and I, thats understandable I'm above 24. But 15-20, thats really scary. Its ok to have a Boyfriend, but just a little older than you are.16 maybe even 17(where both of you are minors) and when you are through, move on with the rest of your lives(which is still plenty ahead)If you have crush an older guy at your age, its a different thing (we all had crushes), but to date him as in boyfriend?!! Haba!! what are you findin?I know we all shouldnt be Dam slapping you about it, but if you didnt think something was wrong with it, you wouldnt ask peole's opinion,right?

girl, this is jus what I gatta say. for the mere fact that u wanted peoples's opinion about your 'ISSUE' means that u think it is wrong but u jus don't want to admit and your lookin for someone to tell u to continue. i wont tell u what u want 2 hear because i think you know the answer deep inside you. jus search yourself and make a choice. BE GOOD.

What is the age of consensual sex in Nigeria. Iam assuming that having a boy friend will entail being intimate sexually.If you are below the age of consent then sexual realations will be illegal between you. Or is that not an issue of concern?

You are 15 and you have a boyfriend, personally i think it is wrong. Ask yourself "AM I READY FOR THE RESPONSIBILITIED THEREIN".

If you think your relationship is heading for courtship and eventually marriage, then you are a little bit on track, but if you entered the relationship cause you din't want to be mocked by your friends, then you have missd it.

What is your purpose for entering the relatioship in the first place. When the purpose of a thig is not known, abuse is inevitable, a life of purpose is the purpose of life & without purpose, nothing should be done. That is, without a clearly defined purpose, you are not permitte to forge ahead with any ungodly relationship.

too bad! i whent through the comments you guys posted, quite unfortunate a girl of 15 years in a relationship? it would have been better if you waited till 18years, it ok but what do you think a 15year old girl know about relationship.