Most Helpful Girl

Yes. Give her a A + for effort. She accepts you as you are.. You are projecting your guilt into her as to make you feel even worse. If you feel bad about your body, then make an effort to do exercise or eat better.

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Asker

she's not vain like that. She doesn't want to hurt my feeelings.. she thinks six pack abs and muscles are gross by the way

What Girls Said 3

Honestly, I am really bony so I legitimately don't mind when my man has more meat on his bones. I don't like the muscled look at all. I am not saying that because I don't want to be mean, I am saying that bc it is true. Many woman legitimately don't have an issue with a guy who's a little on the heavier side.

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Anonymous

Is it right on who's part? To her you're sexy.

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What Guys Said 3

She sees you as sexy, so you in fact are sexy to her. Don't stop working in it though. Especially how you are treating her right now as whatever you are doing it is working. Other women on here said they don't mind is a man is a overweight... One reason I guess is it makes you more powerful which they seem to like.

No, she doesn't see your flaws because she is in love. Even if she does notice it, she doesn't care. Worst case, she is also trying to keep you motivated for sex and she wants it. If you are interested then she has no way of getting relief if she is to stay faithful. All this adds up to is she is trying very hard to have fun with you so get in the game.

I have to go, but when I said get in the game, that is an expression for you to take it seriously and try hard to do you part in the relationship and that may mean relaxing and having fun, dropping weight so you feel better and that doesn't get in the way, and whatever else you think might help make it better. Goodnight now n