IN MEMORIAM VERNON BROOKS

The voice on the other end of the phone was
soft and sad. “He was found lying on
the sofa, all dressed in a suite ready to travel, his bags packed. Classical music was playing.”

“How like him”, I said.

My friend of 30 years had gone on his final
trip. “Bon Voyage” I whispered to him
and immediately could hear him say his half-scolding “Now Nomi…” in that
twinkling drawn out drawl with a slight hint of a giggle at the end -- and I
realized how very, very much I would miss him.

Still on the telephone I said, “I think the
word ‘gentlemen’ in its literal and figurative meaning was made especially for
Vernon Brooks. I have never known such a compassionate and considerate person.”

Wisdom of heart describes Vernon; yes?

Our first meeting flashes before me. It was 1967 and he was the editor at the
Jung Foundation for the Publications Department. “Department” meant one little room in a drab office suite of
three rooms. I had just been hired to
be his secretary and walked into his office full of eager efficiency and a
steno pad. I saw a conservative man in
grey suite and tie, neat and sharp-edged in appearance. I sat on the wooden straight chair adjacent
to his desk where he was seated.

He looked at me as if my presence were a
surprise to him, raised his eyebrows slightly and said perkily, “Oh! Am I to
have a secretary? Well yes, here you
are, sitting with your legs crossed and holding a notepad and pencil. My.
I guess I’ll have to think of something to say.” And then pondering for a minute he announced
to himself and to the room, “Oh Good!
I’ve always wanted a secretary!

This elfin imp jumping out of the conservative,
somewhat southern, well suited man delighted me and I knew then we’d be great
friends.

We giggled a lot and often, and just as often
shared serious, even sacred, thoughts.
One thought would easily follow on the heels of the other making it all
to appear as it truly is; a totality of being.
An illustration: One night
walking on the streets of New York, after attending a film that had us both
deep in serious mood and conversation, we suddenly began playing hopscotch on
the sidewalk. We continued the
conversation while hopping. A very
natural player Vernon was. Lively.

Another reminiscence of his humor (for it’s
easier to write of that): The
Foundation was re-publishing Esther Harding’s “Women’s Mysteries” and
everything was abuzz for some long, labor-filled weeks. One morning as I arrived in Vernon’s office
with pad and efficiency, he looked at me with frozen blue eyes. “Nomi.
You know Esther’s proofs that we’ve been working on and that need to be
sent out to the printer?” (Of course I
did) “Well, I’ve looked everywhere but
pages 15 to 36 are not to be found so I want you to write them.”

I was speechless, frozen momentarily in fear,
but finally blurted out, “Vernon! What
are you talking about!? I can’t write
Esther’s book!!”

Cooley and rather disdainfully he drawled, “Why
not? You’re a woman aren’t you? Isn’t this Women’s Mysteries? Surely you don’t expect me to write
it!” His face remained severe while his
ice blue eyes melted into twinkles.

We happily have left to us his loving
imp-irreverence as he poked fun at the Jungian community of 1968 in his written
contribution to the Festschrift for Esther Harding’s 80th birthday,
“The You and The Not-You, or, Das Du Und Das Nicht Du”.

Vernon, dear friend, others will talk about
your good deeds and interesting life that continued to the end to be so
full. I know that like me they will
remember how these events were given grace by that combination, so gracefully
mingled in you, of serious devotion, deep dedication, and the gift of
play. A soul as good as yours will
surely find its rightful place in paradise.