A large portion of the population completely misunderstands the concept of ‘introversion’. They conflate ‘introversion’ with shyness, social anxiety, low self-esteem and many other negative characteristics. Extroversion, meanwhile, is considered a synonym for emotional health and well-being. Due to this conceptual misapplication, there’s a misguided notion that introverts have trouble meeting women and getting a girlfriend while extroverts excel at it. That’s simply not the case.

A good understanding of what typifies an ‘introvert’ will make it obvious that they have no problem meeting and attracting women. In fact, they may be better at it than their extroverted counterparts, and learning how to get a girlfriend as an introvert may not be as challenging as some would have you believe.

It’s also important to keep in mind that introversion and extroversion aren’t ‘gender specific’–in other words, it’s as common among women as it is among men. That being said, there’s no reason that a successful relationship has to orient along these lines. In many cases, pairing an extrovert with an introvert works out very well since they can ‘balance out’ each others social interaction traits.

UNDERSTANDING WHAT INTROVERSION REALLY MEANS

The concept of ‘introversion’ and ‘extroversion’ first became popular through the writings of Carl Jung, who used the terms to explain how certain people interacted with the world around them. Another mistaken notion about introversion and extroversion is that the traits exist at either end of a behavior continuum. Jung and many of his colleagues felt otherwise, suggesting that all people had a blend of extroverted and introverted characteristics.

The terms essentially refer to an individual’s preferred cognitive focus. An extrovert prefers to focus on the external world. He finds being around other people energizing and might have a tendency to ‘get bored’ when alone.

By contrast, the introvert’s focus is on the internal–he finds his own thoughts and ‘inner life’ more energizing and satisfying than the external world. This focus doesn’t mean that he’s socially awkward around others. To the contrary, he is quick to get bored in social situations that are primarily superficial.

MISUSE OF THE TERMS IN POPULAR CULTURE

At some point, the terms ‘introversion’ and ‘extroversion’ began to be misused by the mainstream media and the general public. ‘Introversion’ became a synonym for shyness, social anxiety, agoraphobia, and even mild autism. ‘Extroversion’ was used to describe people that were self-confident, charismatic, poised, charming, and so forth.

Ironically, the reality of the traits is diametrically opposed from the public
perception. Extroverts are sometimes uncomfortable with themselves and can only feel validated through their relationships with others. Introverts, on the other hand, are often exceptionally self-confident preferring to spend time alone as they usually think it’s ‘superior company’.

The misunderstanding of what these terms mean is the only reason that the perception of introverts as ‘awkward around women’ exists at all. The extrovert might have a marginal advantage in meeting women due to sheer numbers. He puts himself in large groups of people on a more regular basis.

After the initial meeting, however, the extrovert can sometimes be at a disadvantage in developing intimacy with a woman. At this point, the introvert is at his best. He can introduce a woman to ‘his world’ and focus all of his charm directly on her.

BALANCE MAKES THE WORLD GO AROUND

Introverts and extroverts each have strengths and weaknesses that manifest in many areas of life. Neither personality type is inherently good or bad, and the concepts surrounding them are obviously generalizations.

When it comes to attracting, dating, and forming relationships with women, there’s nothing about either personality type that makes them better or worse than the other.
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Are you looking for ways to entice your man and make him want you even more?

You might know physical erogenous zones you can touch to turn him on, but did you know that his mind is an erogenous zone as well? It’s true, and many women unfortunately don’t realize that!

But now that you know this secret, you can learn how to tap into his mind and trigger his sexual appetite. This will likely lead to giving him an experience that will blow his mind, and make you the woman of his dreams.

1. Discover Naughty Talk

But what if you’re not comfortable or experienced with dirty talk? Don’t worry!

This is something that doesn’t have to be done to perfection; all you have to do is put in some effort. What you’re trying to do is arouse his mind, so start off by telling him something obvious, like “you’re making me hot”.

If you’re more experienced with dirty talk, then go into a description of what you want to do with him, and express your desires or how much you want him.

Ideas for what to say:

– You turn me on
– You’re incredibly handsome
– I can’t wait to get my hands on you
– I’m going to kiss you from head to toe

2. Focus On Him

Men like to know that they are appreciated, so tell him!

Let him know that he makes you feel like the most important person in the world, and that he gives you confidence that nobody else ever could. Feed him compliments, but make sure they aren’t anything to do with his looks.

Focus on how he makes you feel, and the fact that you know he sacrifices/works hard for your life together. This is going to make him feel like he’s the king of the world, and that’s going to increase your bond together and make you both feel incredibly connected.

Believe it or not this can give you more intimacy in the bedroom as well, because he’ll know that you only want him.

Ideas for what to say:

– You mean the world to me
– Thank you for working so hard
– I need you
– I appreciate how hard you work
– I feel safe in your arms

3. Express Your Pleasure

Now that you’ve tapped into your man’s mind and have shown him how much you love and need him in general, you’ll need to express how pleased you are with him in bed.

Men want to please women, and by telling him how good he makes you feel, he’ll have a LOT more confidence in between the sheets. Tell him how satisfying he is, and when he’s doing something you really like.

By validating his skills in bed, you’ll turn him on more than you ever have before.

Believe it or not, these three steps can help you have a closer, more intimate relationship with your partner. You’ll be connecting in new ways, and that is one of the keys to having a stronger relationship.

If you want to learn more about love, sex, and how to turn your man on like never before, then take advantage of the program, “Language of Desire“. It’s packed full of amazing information just like this!

While tinnitus is not life threatening, it is an ailment that so severely impacts your quality of life, there are times you feel like dying. Having that incessant ringing and buzzing in your ears all the time is like some sort of medieval torture.

I should know because I suffered with this affliction for more than three years before I found the Reverse My Tinnitus home remedy. Things got so bad for me, I ended up losing my job.

My boss didn’t actually fire me because he felt sorry for me. However, he just suggested that maybe I should quit and focus on finding a way to improve my condition.

The only thing that kept me going was my family. My wife and kids were very compassionate and understanding.

Determined to find a cure for my condition, my wife ordered special books on tinnitus through interlibrary loan. I remember the most horrible part when she did this was feeling like I wish she would just stop talking when she read to me from these books… and then feeling guilty for feeling this way.

I had always loved hearing my wife’s sweet dulcet voice but the constant echoing, whistling, and scratchy sounds in my ears when she spoke destroyed this. One day I just broke down and cried like a baby, something I had not done since my Grandfather died when I was a boy.

Both my wife and I joined online discussion groups to connect with other tinnitus sufferers, hoping they would have suggestions on how to cure tinnitus. I was so desperate I was willing to try almost anything.

One user early on suggested I try a homeopathic remedy. We had to special order it and it cost more around $155. I took it for six weeks continuously. During this time my condition got even worse!

Following the advice of others, I started taking Ginkgo biloba supplements but that didn’t seem to work either. I went off coffee and all other forms of caffeine which gave me terrible headaches and made me almost unbearable to live with.

I don’t know how my marriage survived it except to say I have an exceptionally understanding wife. I also went on a very low sodium diet which took the joy out of cooking and eating, two of my favorite pastimes.

I even tried this totally kooky method of drumming on my head. My wife and kids took turns trying this too.

It would sometimes lessen my symptoms for a short time but they would come back with full force in less than an hour and they would never completely go away. Plus, it just made me look like I belonged in the psyche ward or something.

My wife made an appointment with an ear doctor 70 miles away from our home. He professionally cleaned the wax build-up out of my ears and assured me I would see some improvement because he evidently found a lot of wax.

When I called him to let him know that it didn’t work at all, he prescribed some different antibiotics than the ones I had been given at the start of my tinnitus, telling me that these antibiotics seemed to work much better for tinnitus… they did NOT, at not least in my case!

Since the standard treatment for tinnitus didn’t seem to improve my situation even a little, my wife and I concluded that we should seek out an alternative treatment for tinnitus. However, we live in the southern United States about 70-90 miles outside an urban area. Finding an alternative medicine clinic and/or a holistic doctor isn’t easy!

We did get lucky though and one of my kids’ Mothers told us about an acupuncture clinic a couple of hours away. She claimed they had relieved her gastrointestinal issues when no doctor had been able to.

We called them and they mailed us some literature on how acupuncture can supposedly help tinnitus. However, our insurance company would not cover the treatment, and more importantly, I have always hated needles. In fact, it verges on needle phobia!

I was in the process of psyching myself up to endure the needle treatment when my wife found the website for the Reverse My Tinnitus treatment. Honestly, I was highly skeptical at first.

Yes, it sounded like a great story since the guy (Alan Watson) had gotten the idea from an actual scientist named Dr. James Phillips at Oxford University in England, but I still had reservations and I was not holding back in voicing my opinion on the subject when my sweet wife suddenly interrupted me with a hand gesture and said in an emphatic, “Enough! I can’t take this anymore. The instructions for this treatment are only $39 and we’re going to order it…. PERIOD.”

After taking this stand, she went and got her purse and entered in the credit card information. Three minutes later, we were reading through the Reverse My Tinnitus ebook report!

What jumped out at both of us was that there was absolutely zero risk in me trying this treatment.

Basically, it was a trip to the grocery store to get the supplies and then me sticking to it religiously to really test if it worked. There was nothing on the list that could in any way be harmful.

So, the worst that could happen from following the Reverse My Tinnitus treatment protocol is it wouldn’t work. And I had already been down that path many times before, so even if it didn’t work, I figured one more failure wasn’t going to break my spirit.

I have to say too that I was intrigued by the fact that it promised a PERMANENT cure, not just masking the symptoms.

Reverse My Tinnitus actually builds up antibodies in your body that go in and repair the damaged nerves in your ears that actually cause the distorted constant sounds! It has to do with the myelin sheath and some other scientific stuff that I’d probably do a really poor job of explaining if I tried. The best way to learn about it is to watch this video from authors Alan Watson and Dr. James Phillips.

Once you have the antibodies built up in your system, they are there permanently in your body. Plus, the damaged nerves are completely healed.

I admit it was tough waiting every day for this alternative tinnitus treatment to kick in. Well, the worst part was not knowing if it would actually work.

By the beginning of the second week, I had resigned myself to thinking if it just helped a little, I’d be appreciative. However, on the 12th day I began to lose hope because the guy on the website said it had worked for him on the 12th day, but for me, my ears were still ringing and crackling.

My wife gave me a kiss and a good back massage that evening and I agreed to be more patient. After all, they did say that the timing of the cure varied a bit from person to person.

Two days later, a miracle happened, at least it was a miracle for my family and I. Most of the crackling in my ears had subsided. I did still hear a slight whistling noise and a few cracks here and there but the constant overwhelming noise was gone!

After a few more days, my tinnitus was completely cured and I didn’t hear anything else but the sweet sound of my wife and kids. That night, for the first time in a very long time, I piled up on the couch with my family to watch a movie.

My tinnitus had affected the whole household so much, they almost instinctively turned the volume on very low. I looked at my oldest daughter and said, “Hey, could you turn the volume up?!”

At that moment, everyone laughed and smiled and my wife shed tears of joy. My life was normal again and I owe it all to the Reverse My Tinnitus cure. I can’t believe I only paid $39 for something that gave me my life back. I am truly thankful!

Do you want to learn some killer dating tips and techniques on how to win a woman over?

Well, as hard as this task might seem, the truth is that it’s pretty simple, provided you know what you are doing.

Check out the following 7 tips and you will learn how to make a woman like you back, go out on dates with you, and ultimately make her all yours. You may also want to read this Girlfriend Activation System V2 review for even more tips on getting a woman to commit to you fully both physically and emotionally.

1. Be a gentleman

Today, women find it hard to believe there are men who can be termed “gentlemen.” It is not easy being one.

Gentlemanly acts include being punctual and available at the appointed hour, opening and holding the doors for your woman (including car and house doors), helping your date to her chair before you sit, offering your arm when walking with her, and being prepared to pay the bills after a date’s meal.

2. Cultivate your sense of humor

Women, specifically, love to laugh. You need to show your woman that you can bring joy and fun to her life. This means learning how to make her laugh more often.

Try some clever shots, rather than cheap comments, crude jokes or suggestive comments. Find some great things to do and new avenues to explore to help you bring fun into her life. You’ll be able to appeal to her more, and she’ll be completely in love.

3. Groom like a pro

Believe it or not, women don’t like guys who look sloppy. Even that little belly fat may put her off. So, before you even start thinking of winning a woman’s heart, you’ve got to deal with your own.

4. Compliment her sincerely

Complimenting a woman is easy, but challenging. Every woman wants to feel beautiful about themselves. The problem is always how to come up with the right compliment.

Understand how she views herself and reinforce that. Always compliment her looks, including her smile, eyes, clothes, style, hair and lips. Appreciate her physical, mental, spiritual and emotional attributes.

5. Show her that you are interested

Besides being interesting, you need to show your woman that you are interested. You are not going to show up in her life to take her for a friendly test drive. And again, she’s likely to sense it and it might make her feel unsafe.

So prior to pursuing, evaluate what you need to know about her and figure out if you are really drawn to her because it is going to help her trust you more.

6. Flirt with her

Step up a notch above the talks and compliments and show your woman what your game is all about. In the process, be confident and visualize success to help you score the winning touchdown when flirting with her.

7. Touch her

This is the right time to break the touch barrier. Start touching her gently, but only on her safe, non- threatening areas. You don’t want to be a creep.

This may include touching her hand lightly when making a point, touching the top of her shoulder when you want to draw her attention, or rubbing her back quickly when reassuring her about something.

Some women often feel threatened by this gesture and may pull away – a sign that you might have brought it a little too soon. However, if she doesn’t, then consider it a great success.

Perhaps, it’s like an eon ago, but can you still remember the feeling when you and your partner first started dating? That magical time when you can never be separated and you can’t keep your hands off each other!

In fact, every time you were together, you can’t help yourself and end up making love. Likewise, when you two aren’t together, you can’t stop thinking about each other and you miss the ‘other half’ a lot. The moment you see each other again, it feels so exhilarating, your heart races, and you get butterflies in your stomach.

If you’re thinking that something is wrong with you, nothing is.

Truth be told, the rush you’re experiencing is because of the chemical hormones, such as dopamine, phenylethylamine (PEA), and norephinephrineare that are being released in your body.

This is also the reason why our hearts beat rapidly and we feel that we’re on cloud 9 whenever that special someone is around. The kind of happiness we feel isn’t that much different than what junkies feel every time they do cocaine.

The Physiology of Love

The body produces another set of chemicals, like endorphins and oxytocin. These chemicals are similar to morphine.

They could reduce our anxiety and make us feel relaxed. However, we have to admit– our everyday life is a struggle– we need to deal with stress from work, home, children, and the list goes on.

This could be some of the reasons why the relationship is not as ‘fiery’ as it used to be.

Fortunately, there’s a good news! Keep the fire burning by following these steps.

Go out on dates

Being married or getting older shouldn’t stop you from going out on dates. If you have kids, you could hire a babysitter to watch over them. Enjoy the night, just like how you used to enjoy it during the courtship stage.

Keep in mind, being a father or mother doesn’t mean that you stopped being lovers. Yes, the kids should be one of your priorities, but you should also make your partner (and yourself) feel important every now and then.

Sex should always be exciting

Physical intimacy is very essential in a relationship. Do what you want, speak up, and enjoy every moment of it. If you’re sexually satisfied and you feel that your partner needs you, this would give you a motivation to strengthen the ties.

Take a bath

According to a study made by the State of Dating in America, many relationships don’t last because of poor hygiene. Likewise, some relationships don’t even work at all because of this.

Come to think of it, would you be interested in spending the rest of your life with someone who smells bad and looks unappealing? Of course not. That’s why we spend hours preparing for our date.

Also, if you’re already married, it’s not an excuse to neglect yourself. This would make you lose your appeal, and your partner might start looking for someone else.

Be spontaneous

Every day should be filled with excitement and surprises. Find new things that both of you enjoy.

Why not sign up for cooking classes, go on a taco crawl, or a wine tasting event. These are just some of the great ways to bond.

Be fit

Don’t be a couch potato.

It’s not an excuse that you already feel steady and there’s no need to continue being ‘vain.’ Ideally, you should always look like the person your partner fell in love with.

Be as attractive as possible and actually care about keeping yourself as healthy as possible. Lose weight if you gained some.

In short, stay irresistible.

Put some creativity in your sex life

Role play, try new positions, experiment with toys, do anything! No need to feel ashamed or embarrassed, speak out and do what you want.

Show appreciation at random times

No need to wait for a special occasion. Make your partner feel special everyday.

You can do this by giving little gifts whenever you can. And just so you know, “gifts” doesn’t mean you have to go out and buy something.

You can show appreciation by doing little things like leaving them a sweet note, giving a foot massage, or even telling them you’ve got dishes this time and they should go sit down and relax.

60-second kisses

Most married couples only give each other pecks when leaving the house. Remember, you’re saying goodbye to your lover, not to your aunt.

Kiss her on the lips and show how much you love her.

Be naughty

Guys get visually aroused. Ladies, take advantage of it. Whenever you go out on a date, do something naughty.

You can excuse yourself to the bathroom and remove your panties. When you go back, hand it to your man or just flash your beautiful flower! Be discreet so you don’t let anyone else see.

As an alternative, when you excuse yourself and go to the bathroom, text your man something dirty about what you’d like to do to him after dinner. If you need dirty talk ideas, Felicity Keith’s Language of Desire is an excellent resource. You can learn more by reading this Language of Desire review.

Give what your partner needs

We saved the best for last. This is the most crucial thing in order to have a long-lasting relationship. Likewise, it’s also one of the best ways to ensure that no matter what happens, you’ll always be there for each other.

You don’t need to follow all these steps. Though, if you can, try your best to incorporate some in your daily routine. They are sure to keep the fire burning.

Text message are a very important mode of communication. These days, just about everyone communicates using texts unless you live completely off the grid.

Although texts are good modes of communication for almost all kinds of situations, they can go a long way to enhance relationships. There is no better way to communicate romantically other than using text messages.

They are fast, convenient and a fun way to flirt. It is however important to note that they can have a negative effect if you don’t proceed with care.

Before you start sending texts to a potential date, it is important to understand how to use texts effectively when flirting since a wrong approach can have a devastating effect.

One of the most important things to note is what kind of texter you are. It’s easy to discover what kind of texter you are by taking a quick look at your outbox.

Your focus should be assessing how your own texts make you feel. For instance, would you be excited to receive your own messages? Are they fun? Are they flirty? If your answer is yes to all these questions, you are in the right track.

Below are 4 common texting situations and how you can use flirty texts to get the most out of every interaction.

1. Saying hello

Hello texts are the most frequently sent texts in any language. They may take any form i.e. what’s up? Hey you, how’s it going etc.

You should try adding some gist to set yourself apart. For instance, instead of texting what’s up, send something like:

What’s up beautiful/handsome. Still turning heads everywhere you go?

Hey you! Stop pretending you don’t miss me

The aim here is to make your texts so unique, fun, and flirty at the same time that it becomes hard for your recipient to forget you.

2. Requesting a date/making plans

Another common texting reason is to ask for a date or to make plans. Most people fail in this situation by being too aggressive, eager, and plain.

You shouldn’t send plain texts if you want to set yourself apart. You should ask indirectly. You should also avoid being too aggressive since it makes you look desperate and pushy.

Don’t focus on quick confirmations. If he or she doesn’t reply immediately don’t send another text.

Good examples of flirty texts for making plans include:

Where’d you go? Aliens get you again?

Hey there, I know you miss my company. My place, 7pm?

Come over and kiss me like you mean it.

You can always include smiley faces and winks at the end of your texts to make it more obvious you are flirting.

3. Let’s get it on

Texts are perfect for increasing sexual heat. However, a poorly thought out text will have the opposite effect.

First and foremost, you need to know where your relationship stands. For instance, if you aren’t already having sex, don’t imply that you are when texting.

Be creative and play with words. Nothing too explicit or direct.

Examples include:

If you think I’m innocent, just wait until you get me behind closed doors.

Think you’re man/woman enough to handle me tonight?

I’m coming over, but don’t you dare try to cuddle with me again. I bite.

Learning how to flirt via text isn’t as difficult as it may seem. Just remember, flirting should be FUN! So infuse your messages with a little bit of personality, and you’re sure to leave a memorable and lasting impression.