OT sex aids

I went anonymous for this post because I’m somewhat ashamed asking this question. I recently asked my husband what he was thinking about spicing things up in bed and maybe getting a personal massager (like the one that can be used on shoulders, back, but not limited to those areas 😉 ). He said that using s things like that is weird and changed the topic. I was wondering if I AM weird asking about it or if it’s normal and many couples use things in bed to make it more fun.

Since this might be a very personal question and not many will want to post here I added a poll because it’s anonimous but would let me see the picture. TIA!

As of right now we don’t use them however we have talked in depth about the subject. It’s definitely something we plan to introduce in the future. Sex right now is amazing so I don’t what to introduce something different until I feel it’s needed, if that makes sense. I guess our only complaint is we don’t get it often enough now that we have 3 cock blockers. I swear they take shifts

A personal massager I feel like is very soft core. Did you also call it a “sex aid” when you brought the topic up to your husband? Because that may have insulted his gynormous ability in the sack. 😉 some men and women are insecure or shy and don’t like talking about or using those types of things. Normal is different from person to person. Now what I’d want to know is why my partner won’t discuss a topic with me. Or why are they so against even talking about the topic or trying out something small or simple like a massager.

Maybe next time just skip the discussion and come into the bedroom wearing nothing but a spandex body suit and boots and a giant strap on and a whip. He may find the massager more appealing.

A personal massager I feel like is very soft core. Did you also call it a “...

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12/04/2018

A personal massager I feel like is very soft core. Did you also call it a “sex aid” when you brought the topic up to your husband? Because that may have insulted his gynormous ability in the sack. 😉 some men and women are insecure or shy and don’t like talking about or using those types of things. Normal is different from person to person. Now what I’d want to know is why my partner won’t discuss a topic with me. Or why are they so against even talking about the topic or trying out something small or simple like a massager.

Maybe next time just skip the discussion and come into the bedroom wearing nothing but a spandex body suit and boots and a giant strap on and a whip. He may find the massager more appealing.

What the actual fuck. That needs a trigger. I snorted so loud woke up the little human.

A personal massager I feel like is very soft core. Did you also call it a “...

Last edited
12/04/2018

A personal massager I feel like is very soft core. Did you also call it a “sex aid” when you brought the topic up to your husband? Because that may have insulted his gynormous ability in the sack. 😉 some men and women are insecure or shy and don’t like talking about or using those types of things. Normal is different from person to person. Now what I’d want to know is why my partner won’t discuss a topic with me. Or why are they so against even talking about the topic or trying out something small or simple like a massager.

Maybe next time just skip the discussion and come into the bedroom wearing nothing but a spandex body suit and boots and a giant strap on and a whip. He may find the massager more appealing.

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