He dumped you for a WHOLE band? OF GUYS? That's fucking gay. It sucks, but don't let it get to you. Worst things could've happened. Be more careful in the future and laugh at the fact that he's the one whose doing all the oral now, as a dick sucking roadie.

In less than two months I will be seventeen.And I'm afraid of sex already.

I was in a relationship that took us to a point in less than a month and we had sex very quickly. [Within the first week.] We spent the rest of the day together and it was amazing. He dumped me two weeks later for a band.

He swore up til a month later that he really did love me but I have embedded in my mind that he was just using me for sex and because I wouldn't do oral, dumped me.

This has caused me not to want to have sex in relationships.

Has this happened to anyone else?

You're what boys call a practice girl or a naive girl that is easily taken advantage of. I know I'm being mean here but thats what happens when you put out too soon. Even if you didn't put out, the guy you were with would have cheated on you just to vent his sexual needs. So either way you were screwed to begin with. But look that the bright side. Look at all the knowledge you have gained. Now you know which guys are douche-bags and which guys are genuine. Now you know what sex is as a stimulant. I hope that douche-bag didn't get you pregnant or give you an STD. Hey life is a learning experience. Its too bad you had to learn the hard way. If you don't want sex then don't expect anyone to want you either. Sex is one of Meslof's Hierarchy of needs. So basically people (expect the celibate) need sex. If you don't need sex then become a nun or something.