7 Things You Should Never Do If You Need to Fall Back Asleep Fast

Find out what middle-of-the-night mistakes are holding you back from a good night’s sleep
- byCassie Shortsleeve

04 Oct
2016

At 10pm, you were tired, ready for bed and dozed off just fine.

But now it’s 3am and things are different: You’re tossing and turning, staring at the ceiling and crawling out of your skin.

What should – and what shouldn’t – you do to drift off?

Start by eliminating these bad habits from your middle-of-the-night routine.

1. YOU GO TO THE BATHROOM WHEN YOU REALLY DON’T NEED TO

If you need to go, your body will likely wake you up.

But heading to the bathroom unnecessarily (out of boredom, or perhaps because you think you maybe need to go) hinders your body’s ability to find sleep again, says Michael Breus, a sleep specialist and author of The Power of When.

For one, getting up and moving about increases your heart rate, which needs to be lowered to enter into a state of unconsciousness, he says.

Flip on the light and you’re also tricking your brain into thinking it’s morning, throwing off your circadian clock, he says.

If you need to empty your bladder, get up slowly and calmly and avoid turning on any unnecessary lights.

2. YOU LIGHT UP A SCREEN TO CHECK THE TIME—OR YOUR EMAIL

Any device that emits light along the blue light spectrum (your phone, tablet or laptop) will stop the melatonin tap in your brain, says Breus.

And since melatonin is your body’s sleep hormone, promoting a state of tiredness, it’s practically impossible to sleep without it flowing strong, says Breus.

Apps like f.lux can tint your screen to mimic the actual time of the day (blocking the sleep-obstructing blue light), but devices are engaging even without light – too engaging for a brain that needs to be calm to sleep.

3. YOU START STRESSING YOURSELF OUT

When you look at your laptop, check your emails or start to think through your next day – all during the middle of the night – you’re causing autonomic arousal, says Breus.

“Your brain is up and going,” he says.

If you start to stress, remember: “Waking up in the middle of the night from time to time is totally normal,” says Dr Raj Dasgupta, a sleep expert and an assistant professor at USC’s Keck School of Medicine.

“It’s in our DNA to wake up during the middle of the night – our ancestors used to wake up to make sure there were no lions or tigers around,” says Dasgupta.

A few missed minutes of shuteye won’t throw your day—or your health.

4. YOU STAY IN BED, EVEN IF YOU CAN’T FALL ASLEEP

It’s time to think about your bed a new way: it’s only meant for sleeping.

If you can’t fall back asleep within 15 minutes of waking up, relocate somewhere else – like the living room or kitchen – and do something quiet and calming, says Dasgupta.

Try reading a book in dim lighting or meditating. “The worst place you want to worry or stress is in bed,” he says. “Then you condition your body to start thinking, ‘Oh, we’re going to bed? Time to stress.’”

5. YOU POP MELATONIN

It’s convenient to reach for natural sleep remedies like melatonin if sleep isn’t coming easy at 2am. But think twice.

“The dietary supplement melatonin is not a potent sleeping aid,” says Dasgupta. “It’s good for shifting your circadian rhythm. Usually, we suggest people take it two hours before their desired sleep time.”

Take it right before bed or (worse) in the middle of the night? You could throw your body’s internal clock out of rhythm, making it even harder to fall asleep or wake up when you need to, he says.

6. YOU EAT A MIDNIGHT SNACK

“It is simply never a good idea in the middle of the night to eat,” says Breus.