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Some believe that it’s the most POWERFUL
emotion.

Generally speaking, if a woman knows that
you’re seeing other women, it will make you more
attractive.

But you must be careful.

Jealousy can make people crazy… and it can
lead otherwise normal people to do all kinds of
insane things. If you make the wrong person
jealous, they can turn into a stalker…

That said, my perspective is that you need to
live your life and not worry about what others
think of you.

This trait will lead to women finding you more
attractive in and of itself.

If you’re always worrying about whether a woman
will be upset because she sees you out with
another woman, then you’ll be acting like a wussy
all night because you’re scared.

On the other hand, if you could care less what
others think of you, then it will project into all
other areas of your behavior, and will lead to
other good things.

You “don’t mind going out to clubs,” but you’d
“far rather find a FEW GOOD GIRLS that don’t mind
chilling at home or enjoying a walk on the beach,
stargazing or hell, just WRESTLING AROUND ON THE
BED.”

With each other, I’m assuming…

Hey, sounds good to me.

Maybe while they’re wrestling they’d let you
videotape…and you could start an internet
company based on the concept.

Cut me in for a percentage.

And ya know, I like the way you think.

Well, I hate to break the news to you…but if
you want to meet women, you’re going to have to do
SOMETHING.

The internet-bed-wrestling-make-money idea was
a pretty good one…hey, kill two birds with one
stone.

Other than that, you might try out a few of
those magical activities that are interesting,
enjoyable, and (BIG AND) also draw intelligent,
gorgeous women like a magnet.

Try an art history class.

Or go to a classy “food fair” or restaurant
opening.

Hit a yoga class or a kickboxing aerobics
class.

Dance classes are also a big winner.

In other words, there are some great places you
can go to meet women…AND have fun…AND become a
more interesting, classy guy.

I was amazed when I first realized that you
could actually find a girl on fuckbook, turn the tables around, pretend
that you’re trying to “resist her advances,” and
make fun of her for trying to “put the moves on
you”… and wind up having the woman you’re
talking to actually start feeling attracted to you
as a result.

It really is amazing.

Now, I know that a lot of guys hear this
approach and think, “Yeah, right. There’s no way
that just pretending that a woman is pursuing you
will MAKE her pursue you”…

But this isn’t just any old common way of
“pretending.”

What you’re doing here is a very special, Cocky
& Funny, flirty, engaging way of pretending.

I’m sure you’ve watched the Discovery Channel,
and seen animals “play-fighting.” It’s common
among young animals in particular.

Now, how do animals know that it’s only “play,”
as opposed to “real” fighting?

I mean, have you ever seen the way some
animals, like lion cubs and wolf pups jump on and
bite each other?

It certainly LOOKS like real fighting.

But it’s not… it’s play.

Well there’s a very similar thing that happens
when you flirt with a woman using the Cocky &
Funny technique… and when you use this further
to pretend that she’s trying to “pick you up” and
you’re “resisting her advances.”

You have to use just a LITTLE EXTRA drama.

You have to be a little “overly suspicious”
with your tone.

You have to act just a little too serious and
offended.

These little cues, along with a good sense of
humor and timing are the hints and triggers that
make a woman instantly switch into “Oh, this is
play” mode, instead of behaving as if you’re a
loser who has no imagination.

There are some other key benefits as well, as
you mentioned above, when you’re using this
approach.

One is that you don’t come across as nervous or
intimidated. The fact that you’re turning the
tables around, having fun, and acting like you’re
something special sends the message that you’re
totally cool, calm, and comfortable in your own
skin… and, in fact, you’re SO comfortable that
you’re going to go immediately to “play” mode.

Another is that it gives you a “character role”
to play that is the OPPOSITE of being a WUSS. This
is handy, as most guys switch quickly into Wuss
mode when they start talking to an attractive
woman.

Finally, it gives you all kinds of great ways
to end the interaction…

You can say:

“OK, well I’m not going to give you my number,
but you can write down your email for me, and
maybe I’ll get back to you sometime…” etc.

It even makes taking things to the next level
easy and charming, because you’re “resisting
forward.”

A quick personal story:

I was at Hooters Restaurant yesterday afternoon
with a friend, and the waitress approached us to
get our order.

She walked over and said something like, “Hi,
can I get you something to drink?” etc.

I pretended not to notice her, and kept talking
to my friend.

Then, as she finished asking the question, I
turned to her with a surprised and “fake offended”
look on my face and said, “Oh, that’s OK, I was
just TALKING” (as if she had interrupted me).

She opened her mouth with the “Oh, no you
didn’t! I can’t believe you just said that” look.

I shook my head at her.

Then my friend looked at her and said, “Wow,
you’re very forward. Next thing she’s going to be
asking for your phone number.”

I shook my head at her again, and rolled my
eyes.

We gave her the drink order, and she went away.

She came back a few minutes later to tell me
that my drink was going to be delayed, because
they were making some kind of change in the
kitchen.

Of course, I threw up my hands in despair,
rolled my eyes at her, and shook my head (as if
she was disappointing me horribly).

She laughed and said, “Hey, you’d better watch
out, I might have to ask you for your phone
number”…

THAT FAST.

We had talked for a grand total of about a
minute, and she was already joking around about
asking me for my number.

Keep in mind, this is a HOOTERS waitress (and a
cute one, at that). She works in an environment
where hundreds of guys try to pick up on her, one
after the other…

Now, as you can imagine, this kind of thing
happens all the time when I interact with
waitresses, etc. I’ve found that it’s no harder to
get a waitress to give you her email/number than
it is to get any other girl’s info, by the way.

What’s the secret?

Being playful, fun, different, Cocky & Funny,
and not acting like a Wuss who wants to call her
100 times a day and tell her how pretty she is.

Here’s your question again:

“…SOMETIMES when I throw out a cocky+funny
response, they will say “Oh whatever!” or roll
their eyes or say you’re mean, get mad, or
something like that and walk away. This happens
not often but on rare occasions. These women are
probably uptight anyways and not worth getting
know. When they say “whatever” or “You’re so mean”
and they’re laughing or smiling, and they still
keep talking to me, then I know it’s working.
Also, when you say something like: “…Oh quit
lying, you were just walking near me because you
want me” and they say “No, I don’t want you” or
“No
I wasn’t, I was just doing _ _ _ _ _” in a semi-
serious tone, how do you respond to that to keep
the cocky+funny going? In other words, what do you
do when they act as if they ARENT picking you
up?…”

What I’m about to tell you is sometimes hard
for guys to accept, so get ready.

SOME PEOPLE DON’T HAVE A SENSE OF HUMOR.

No, really.

My guess is that something like 60%-80% of the
population just plain aren’t very interesting or
fun to talk to.

Some people are actually ARROGANT about their
lack of a sense of humor.

These are my personal favorites.

I remember meeting a girl at a bar a couple of
years ago.

I was in Hollywood, CA at a fancy bar, and she
was one of these “I’m a beautiful actress, and I
know it” types.

I was ordering a drink, and she bumped into me.

I turned and said, “Don’t touch me!”

She just looked at me with a “You’re a jerk”
look, and leaned away from me.

I smiled at her and said, “It was a joke, it’s
OK” (with kind of a slightly sarcastic “you didn’t
get it” tone of voice).

She said something like, “Well, it wasn’t
funny. You seem like an arrogant jerk.”

LOL!

I couldn’t help myself… I burst into
laughter.

She, of course, got even more annoyed.

Now, most guys would have gotten all upset,
thought that they must have done something majorly
wrong, and tried to apologize and get the woman to
like them.

I immediately recognized this girl as a person
who just plain doesn’t have a sharp sense of
humor, and who is probably a HUGE pain in the ass
to deal with in real life… so I laughed at her.

You’ll notice that a lot of guys write in to
the Mailbags with questions like, “I’m dating four
women right now, and they’re all wonderful, but
there’s this ONE girl that I just can’t get… how
do I make the one that isn’t interested LIKE me?”

This is a curious thing.

We humans always want the approval of the
person who doesn’t want to give it to us.

Instead of just walking away and saying, “your
loss,” we often chase after them, begging and
pleading for their approval… and thinking that
we must have done something wrong.

Remember, some people actually ENJOY making
other people feel bad. Some women actually ENJOY
rejecting men. It gives them a feeling of power.

There are MANY women who will spend all week
shopping, two hours putting on their clothing and
makeup (and doing their hair), just to go out and
get attention from men… so they can reject those
men, and complain to their friends about what
“losers” and “pigs” men are, and how they hate it
when men look at them like a “piece of meat.”

Go figure.

Let me give you a little “tough love.”

Part of growing up, becoming a REAL MAN, and
getting this area of your life handled is
realizing that not all women are nice people, and
not letting those that aren’t nice AFFECT YOU.

You can reach a point in your life where your
attitude should become “I do not give anyone
permission to take my joy, happiness, and good
mood away from me.”

When you get to this point, then IT DOESN’T
MATTER if a woman doesn’t respond positively to
your approach.

It doesn’t matter if she rejects you.

It doesn’t matter if she doesn’t have a sense
of humor.

None of this matters when you don’t give anyone
permission to TAKE YOUR JOY AWAY FROM YOU.

My advice: Learn to walk away. Learn to blow it
off. Learn how to IMMEDIATELY disconnect and
detach from these types of situations, and NOT let
them affect you.

The “numbers game” goes both ways.

If you start meeting a lot of women, you will,
by nature of meeting a LOT of women, meet quite a
few that don’t have a sense of humor, aren’t
friendly, aren’t available, etc.

You need to learn the skill of keeping your
power and joy for yourself, and NEVER giving it to
someone you don’t even know.

Make a decision right now that your joy is your
own, and that you’ll never allow another person to
take it away from you.

Have you ever noticed that “funny guys” tend to
fall into two categories:

1) Dorky Funny – The type of guy that a woman
laughs AT (not WITH)

2) Confident Funny – The type of guy that not only
makes women laugh, but makes women laugh in a way
that ATTRACTS them

…?

So what’s the DIFFERENCE between these two
types of guys?

Why is it that women find some guys “dorky”
even though they’re LAUGHING?

What causes that “key difference”… where a
woman is laughing WITH you and not AT you?

More importantly, how can you actually USE
humor to create ATTRACTION?

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Did you know that MOST laughter is NOT in
response to something that’s funny?

It’s true.

Think about most of the things that people
laugh at… things like the weather… or like a
common experience… or a million other things…
NONE of which are FUNNY.

Laughter is not about humor. Not USUALLY, at
least.

Laughter is about TENSION and RELEASING
tension.

And I’d like to teach you how to create and
release tension… in a way that is both CHARMING
and FUNNY to women… and how to do this in a way
that makes conversations easy and natural… and
that ultimately creates a POWERFUL attraction.