Connecting with Spirit(A Candle)​

We all have methods of communicating with spirit, we all have ways of encouraging natural or spiritual energies to come forward and make themselves known.This is one method of connecting with spirit.(Should you so choose, light a candle now and continue to read this with the candle burning.)

Light a candle and place it to the right hand side of you at about an 80 degree angle. Place it to the right and slightly in front of you so that it can be seen in your peripheral vision, if you sit facing forward; the candle should be just to the right of your vision, so that you are aware of it but cannot actually see it.Breathe naturally and allow the ebb and flow of your breath to set the ambience’.Relax and be in the knowledge that you are safe, know that the only spirit that will come forward is one of peace, love and tranquility. Be aware of the candle flame if it is jumping, flaring, behaving erratically but only be aware of it do not turn your head to look at it. The flame can burn brightly and also dim whilst maintaining a perfect shape to its flame. The aura surrounding the flame is as perfect as the flame itself, by keeping the flame in your peripheral vision the aura surrounding the flame will also be visible to you. It is tempting to turn your head and look but avoid doing so, it will ruin the moment and the energies building.As your breathing settles to an even almost imperceivable breath and becomes so light that it requires a thought to realise that you are actually breathing, you will appreciate the naturalness of what is happening do you wonder why you have never elevated to this state of being before? at this point it would be good if you stood up stretched then sat back down and read this from the beginning…

The flame is as it was but to the right of the flame or behind the flame standing further back is a figure, a silhouette or shadow that is standing and waiting for you to be ready.Do not be alarmed as the intention has already been set. It was stated earlier. “Relax and be in the knowledge that you are safe, know that the only spirit that will come forward is one of peace, love and tranquility.”

Allow the ebb and flow of your breathing to set the pace, once your breathing is relaxed, calm almost non-existent, the in breath and the out breath are as one then once again be aware of the flame and of the energy that has been waiting for recognition.

Ask the energy to come closer so that you may see it and be aware of it as it does so. If at anytime you feel uncomfortable ask it to step back knowing that it will.If this energy is spirit and you can recognise it as such then brilliant and a very big well done, if it is a relative then even better and you have begun your journey.

With practice it is possible to choose who you want to contact and who you want to come forward, take your time to explore your newly discovered gift. As frustrating as this will become, understand that inspirers, guides, relatives, angels and gods all have freewill just because you want to talk to them does not mean that they want or can talk to you. Your vibration and their vibration need to be compatible before any communication can take place. Something as simple as having a second candle, having music playing or including aromas will all make a difference to the vibrations being set.

It is important to finish what was started or close what was opened, to stand up and just resume your day is not the greatest thing in the world to do. To let the energies know that we have finished with the session say something like. “Thank you for working with me today I am now asking all energy to step back and leave me with my energy, I look forward to working with you next time.”After saying this extinguish the candle. My preference is a snuffer or I wet my fingers and soak the flame, I personally do not like blowing candles out.

In essence:

The time and place was set, the circumstance was created.

The safety was emphasised.

Energy was encouraged.

A form of energy was recognised as spirit and worked with.

Spirit was released and your own energy sealed.

The session was closed.

People will make this as complicated as they need to, some people will include fear factor and make wild claims about only doing this under supervision and how qualified they are and how much experience they have.

I hope I have given an example of how to communicate with a loved one and I wish you every success in your endeavours.

Namaste’(The light within me, honours the light within you.)

Bruce

If you have any questions feel free to message me or contact me through facebook.Bruce