i downloaded pcsx2 from this site and i tried the binary DL and the installer DL and i still each time get an error saying

plugin load failure: plugins\GSsoftdx.dll
SysLibError Message: <NULL>

and idk what to do i tried setting every setting but then i always get a message after, and its always the same, i dont even get the window with the Pcsx2 logo on it u know the blue one? >.> please help me

That isnt the PCSX2 package downloaded from here, the PCSX2 0.9.6 package doesnt come with those very old Plugins. I'd suggest you backup your bios and get the installer, then delete your current PCSX2 folder and install the 0.9.6 one.

Oh also the other errors are caused by not running PCSX2 as admin (right click) or not having permission to that folder in which case try to move it to your Documents folder for example.