The most likely is you have several checkmarks in more than just one category.

Special new year resolutions

My last customer yesterday told me about his very personal resolutions list. This is why I decided to write this post.

And it did make sense to me. Big time!

Focusing more on my partner

Spending more quality time together

Learning some new sexual techniques

Exploring complicity with my partner

Opening up my mind to his unspoken wishes

Setting new goals for us to achieve together

I found them all astounding. I guess I can remember them all because I share many of these goals.

Giving up new year resolutions

We usually give up before starting to try. We might think:

I won’t make it

It needs to much effort

I don’t have the time to do it

I will have to quit something else

Sacrifice is too hard

Reward is doubtful

Or any other excuses. Because excuses are easily found. Especially for stuff we never tried before. Being new to a specific experience is sometimes involving the fear of frustration.

Once you start you will feel much better!

Selfish new year resolutions

“I also wish to explore my own body. And my reactions to sensuality and erotic touch. I never touched another man”.

Many bisexual men —and also gay men— have some curiosity for exploring the world of sensual intimacy. A Tantra massage like the ones I can offer you are one more new year expectations you can easily fulfil. In your own local massage parlours. Or in Barcelona during your business trip.

New year resolutions for couples

Exploring your complicity as a couple is also feasible. It is a very special erotic massage therapy. I am also serving couples. The erotic massage you can have as a kind of three-some is much more than just a gay bodywork. Your emotional lives are also involved. This experience can help you in many a way:

Explore your complicity

Watch your partner being honest in his sexual preferences

Discover and test new roles

Don’t hurt each other —this is not sex!

Join each other in a new landscape

Use the tricks for your intimate encounters at home

New stuff is always constructive and positive if you make it the right way. Experiments can be dangerous. Be safe and test it as a game in the safe environment of a gay Tantra massage.

Take the first step

It’s time to make your own resolutions list now. Be brave, think big and go for it!