QUEEN Latifah likes to party down with the girls — but she also likes her privacy. The rapper-turned-actress recently sashayed with five stunning women into Country Club’s weekly Wednesday night lesbian party, “Eden,” on West 14th Street. “She chilled for several hours, ordering bottle service for her friends and chatting up promoter Maggie Collier,” our spy said. She also showed up again this week. Latifah has always declined to discuss her sexuality and told the Times last year, “I don’t care if people think I’m gay or not.” She’s living on Greenwich Street while shooting her new movie, “Just Wright.” Her reps didn’t get back to us.