If only the people who worry about their liabilitieswould think about the riches they do possess,they would stop worrying.- Dale Carnegie

There is only one way... to get anybody to do anything.And that is by making the other person want to do it.- Dale Carnegie

Most of the important things in the worldhave been accomplished by peoplewho have kept on tryingwhen there seemed to be no hope at all.- Dale Carnegie

People rarely succeed unless theyhave fun in what they are doing.- Dale Carnegie

Take a chance! All life is a chance.The man who goes farthest is generallythe one who is willing to do and dare.- Dale Carnegie

Inaction breeds doubt and fear.Action breeds confidence and courage.If you want to conquer fear,do not sit home and think about it.Go out and get busy.- Dale Carnegie

You can conquer almost any fearif you will only make up your mind to do so.For remember, fear doesn't existanywhere except in the mind.- Dale Carnegie

You can make more friends in two monthsby becoming interested in other peoplethan you can in two years by tryingto get other people interested in you.- Dale Carnegie

Fear doesn't exist anywhere except in the mind.- Dale Carnegie

The only way to get the best of an argument is to avoid it.- Dale Carnegie

Do you remember the things you were worrying about a year ago?Didn't you waste a lot of fruitless energyon account of most of them?Didn't most of them turn out all right after all?- Dale Carnegie

When we hate our enemies, we aregiving them power over us:power over our sleep, our appetites,our blood pressure, our health, and our happiness.Our enemies would dance with joy if onlythey knew how they were worrying us,lacerating us, and getting even with us!Our hate is not hurting them at all,but our hate is turning our own daysand nights into a hellish turmoil.- Dale Carnegie

You can close more business in two monthsby becoming interested in other peoplethan you can in two years by tryingto get people interested in you.- Dale Carnegie

If you want to conquer fear, don't sit home and think about it.Go out and get busy.- Dale Carnegie

Develop success from failures.Discouragement and failure are two of the surest stepping stones to success.- Dale Carnegie

The successful man will profit from his mistakes andtry again in a different way.- Dale Carnegie

Flaming enthusiasm, backed up by horse sense and persistence,is the quality that most frequently makes for success.- Dale Carnegie

The essence of all art is to have pleasure in giving pleasure.- Dale Carnegie

There are always three speeches, for every one you actually gave.The one you practiced, the one you gave,and the one you wish you gave.- Dale Carnegie

If you want to gather honey, don't kick over the beehive.- Dale Carnegie

Our fatigue is often caused not by work,but by worry, frustration and resentment.- Dale Carnegie

We all have possibilities we don't know about.We can do things we don't even dream we can do.- Dale Carnegie

Most of us have far more courage than we ever dreamed we possessed.- Dale Carnegie

When fate hands you a lemon, make lemonade.- Dale Carnegie

The royal road to a man's heart is to talk to him aboutthe things he treasures most.- Dale Carnegie

You never achieve success unless you like what you are doing.- Dale Carnegie

Tell the audience what you're going to say,say it;then tell them what you've said.- Dale Carnegie

The expression a woman wears on her face is far moreimportant than the clothes she wears on her back.- Dale Carnegie

If you want to be enthusiastic, act enthusiastic.- Dale Carnegie

Speakers who talk about what life has taught them neverfail to keep the attention of their listeners.- Dale Carnegie

One of the most tragic things I know about human natureis that all of us tend to put off living.We are all dreaming of some magical rose garden overthe horizon instead of enjoying the roses that areblooming outside our windows today.- Dale Carnegie

The person who seeks all their applause from outsidehas their happiness in another's keeping .- Dale Carnegie

Do the hard jobs first.The easy jobs will take care of themselves.- Dale Carnegie

Remember happiness doesn't depend upon who you are or what you have;it depends solely on what you think.- Dale Carnegie

Your purpose is to make your audience see what you saw,hear what you heard, feel what you felt.Relevant detail, couched in concrete,colorful language, is the best wayto recreate the incident as it happenedand to picture it for the audience.- Dale Carnegie

The person who goes farthest is generally the one whois willing to do and dare.The sure-thing boat never gets far from shore.- Dale Carnegie

First ask yourself: What is the worst that can happen?Then prepare to accept it.Then proceed to improve on the worst.- Dale Carnegie

Fear not those who argue but those who dodge.- Dale Carnegie

Applause is a receipt, not a bill.- Dale Carnegie

Those convinced against their will are of the same opinion still.- Dale Carnegie

Only the prepared speaker deserves to be confident.- Dale Carnegie

Act enthusiastic and you will be enthusiastic.- Dale Carnegie

Today is life - the only life you are sure of.Make the most of today. Get interested in something.Shake yourself awake. Develop a hobby.Let the winds of enthusiasm sweep through you.Live today with gusto.- Dale Carnegie

If you can't sleep, then get up and do something instead of lying there worrying.It's the worry that gets you, not the lack of sleep.- Dale Carnegie

Don't be afraid to give your best to what seemingly are small jobs.Every time you conquer one it makes you that much stronger.If you do the little jobs well, the big ones will tendto take care of themselves.- Dale Carnegie

The ideas I stand for are not mine.I borrowed them from Socrates.I swiped them from Chesterfield.I stole them from Jesus.And I put them in a book.If you don't like their rules, whose would you use?- Dale Carnegie

If you believe in what you are doing,then let nothing hold you up in your work.Much of the best work of the world has been done against seeming impossibilities.The thing is to get the work done.- Dale Carnegie

There are four ways, and only four ways,in which we have contact with the world.We are evaluated and classified by these four contacts:what we do,how we look, what we say, and how we say it.- Dale Carnegie

Men of age object too much, consult too long,adventure too little, repent too soon,and seldom drive business home to the full period,but content themselves with a mediocrity of success.- Dale Carnegie

Are you bored with life? Then throw yourself into somework you believe in with all your heart,live for it, die for it, and you will find happinessthat you had thought could never be yours.- Dale Carnegie

Always be a first-rate version of yourself,instead of a second-rate version of somebody else.- Judy Garland

Do not follow where the path may lead.Go, instead, where there is no path and leave a trail.- Ralph Waldo Emerson

The talent for being happy is appreciating and liking what you have,instead of what you don't have.- Woody Allen

To know what you preferinstead of humbly saying Amento what the world tells you you ought to prefer,is to have kept your soul alive.- Robert Louis Stevenson

People hardly ever make use of the freedom which they have,for example, freedom of thought;instead they demand freedom of speech as a compensation.- Soren Kierkegaard

Instead of dwelling on negative thoughts,cause your mind to dwell on peace and joy.- Ernest Holmes

Instead of comparing our lot with thatof those who are more fortunate than we are,we should compare it with the lotof the great majority of our fellow men.It then appears that we are among the privileged.- Helen Keller