Thursday, November 14, 2013

Todd Christensen, a five-time Pro Bowl tight end with the
Oakland/Los Angeles Raiders from 1978-1988,
died Wednesday at a hospital near his home in Alpine, Utah, from
complications during liver transplant surgery. He was 57 years old.

Christensen, a devout Mormon, did not drink. His family
believed the liver problems began 25 years ago after a "botched" gall
bladder operation.

Christensen came out of BYU as a running back, but late
Raiders owner Al Davis saw something else. "He was a hybrid tight end, an
H-back before it came a football term," says former Raiders coach Tom
Flores.

Playing at 6-3, 230 in the NFL, Christensen finished with
461 receptions for 5,872 yards and 41 touchdowns in the regular season,
including 92 catches for 1,247 yards and 12 touchdowns in 1983.

"He brought a lot to table as a person and a
personality, and also on the football field he could catch everything thrown
his way basically," says Jim Plunkett, the former quarterback who teamed
with Christensen on two Super Bowl runs. "He was a big, barrel-chested guy
at one time, and he had knack for getting between the ball and the
defender."

Nicknamed The Renaissance Man for his varied interests,
Christensen left football for broadcasting, including at NBC Sports, ESPN and
the CBS Sports Network.

"I remember Todd always using big words and quotes from
famous authors and poets," Flores says. "He was comical at times
because no one knew what he was talking about."

Wednesday, November 6, 2013

Richie Incognito once bullied a teammate so badly that the
teammate suddenly got up from the ground and stomped out of football practice.

It was early 2002 — long before Incognito was accused of
similar behavior with the Miami Dolphins. Incognito was just a freshman at
Nebraska, but that didn't stop him from picking fights or harassing teammates,
in this case plowing into a teammate's back during practice, knocking him to
the ground for no apparent reason. The teammate responded by getting up,
grabbing his equipment and walking out.

Incognito's promising college career at the University of Nebraska
ended as a result of anger (fights with teammates, opponents and random
students led to suspension).

As a member of the Rams from 2006 to 2009, Incognito
committed 38 penalties, drawing more flags for unnecessary roughness (seven)
than anyone else in that span. The St. Louis Rams gave up on him after he
head-butted two opponents in 2009, the latest of the 38 penalties he committed
with the Rams in four seasons. The Buffalo Bills claimed him, but dumped him
after three games.

Incognito was voted the league’s dirtiest player in a 2009
Sporting News survey of 99 NFL players.

How one can be voted to this honor and have no action taken
against him by the league is beyond me.

Allegations this week that Incognito bullied a younger
teammate, Jonathan Martin, who left the Dolphins, may be the last straw.

After all this, one might wonder why is he still employed in
the NFL?

One word: Talent. In football, mean streaks can be assets as
long as they stay under control. But that has always been the issue for
Incognito: Can he control it this time after not being able to control it
previously?

The answer appears to be no. Since his freshman year at
Nebraska, all of his college and pro teams have ended up suspending him,
cutting ties with him or both.

In previous interviews with reporters, Incognito and his
father indicated other students ridiculed him for being overweight as a child. His
father told NFL.com that he gave his son advice: "If you let anyone give
you (expletive) now, you're going to take (expletive) your entire life."

"When somebody is bullied or there's any type of abuse
in their life, we see the cycle of abuse repeated in many different ways,"
said Shana Alexander, a psychologist in California who has worked with sports
teams. "They act out sometimes all the way through their lives. Unless
that person can recognize they have issues and want to change that pattern, it
tends to want to repeat itself."

I would counter to Ms. Alexander that the senior Incognito’s
advice was similar to advice my own father gave me, but my father followed it
up with strong words about never wanting to see me be a bully.

But when I was being bullied as a child and ran into the
house, he made me go back out into the street and stand my ground. I took a
beating that day….but made enough of a show that the bully looked for sport elsewhere
the next day.

I do not condone Incognito’s behavior, but I wonder why
Martin put up with it?

After all, it is not like Martin is a cheerleader-he
plays on the line as well, and looks like he can handle himself.

While I think Incognito will deserve whatever
punishment the league hands out, I have a problem with a three hundred pound
man who cannot stand up for himself and crying "bully."

And where were the other linemen during all this? Isn’t the
offensive line supposed to function as a unit?

Many of Martin's teammates seem to side with Incognito. Apparently, the two were inseparable off the field. Said one teammate, "If Richie was terrorizing him, he had a funny way of showing it."

People face bullies throughout their life. Usually as an
adult, it is non-physical, but the willingness to stand one’s ground is (in my opinion), an integral part of the conflict resolution skill set.

There may come a day when Martin will have no league official to fight his battle for him. I hope he is prepared.

And for Incognito? Sadly, some team will probably be desparate enough for a lineman that he will play again. I just hope he is faced with a rookie who hits him over the head with a chair. He needs to learn a lesson that he should have been taught a long time ago.