Wednesday, August 24, 2011

Now if you are my friend on Facebook you know that I used to post different guidelines from time to time just to help folks out a little bit with some street knowledge. Well now I will post them on my website since Facebook is full of freaking spam for no good reason. These are just a few guidelines to follow when searching for that fall/ winter boo because as we all know the fall/ winter time makes for those great "romantic" evenings.

#1 - Please understand that you are just the BOO which means this could and probably will be just a temporary thing. Do yourself a favor and try not to get too attached.

#2 - Don't call them your boo if you have multiple. Boo is singular not plural. Last thing you want is to have boos and then have to try and manage them like a little league team.

#3 - Your boo is NOT a cutty buddy or a booty call. Those are different because you use them primarily for sexual favors and not just hanging out/ cuddling.

#4 - They not your boo if you don't spend some quality time with them. If you not spending time with them what is the point in calling them your boo in the first place?

#5 - (Ladies) Please do not NAG during Football games. Football does not come on every single day like Baseball so please fall back and let us watch our games. You do not see us asking y'all to do stuff while Lifetime or Oxygen is showing a movie do you?

#6 - (Fellas) Do NOT take her out on crazy shopping sprees... Keep in mind she is not your actual woman. She might not even be around come "Judgement Day" which I will address later.

#7 - It's getting COLD out so that means you & the boo will be cuddling... make sure you have some movies or something y'all can watch. Ladies if you really want to take it up a notch learn how to play Madden or even Call of Duty. Being able to play those two games on either XBOX 360 or Playstation 3 will greatly improve your chances if getting some extra time in with the boo. Fellas if you have a fireplace use the darn thing. Go ahead and get it cleaned out first to make sure it don't smoke up the house when the boo is over. They also make stuff you can sit in the fireplace to make your place smell good. I won't give that hint away because I like to do that myself.

#8 - DO NOT call them your boo if you meet them that night or even that week. Boo refers to someone you're with on a regular basis. So for all you party goers, just because you meet someone there and then hit up a place to eat after then head back to the crib together does not make them your boo. Don't get it twisted and start catching feelings all quick.

#9 - Please don't assume you getting a Christmas gift just because you're the boo. You better slide some hints in during November or even late October to see if y'all are on that level. But more importantly DO NOT invite the boo to be around the family. Meeting the family means something is actually serious or you plan on being with them for an extended period of time.

#10 - Feb. 14th is "Judgement Day". This is when either you will become the Spring/ Summer boo, the b/f or g/f, or back to being friends. As we all know Ladies tend to take Valentine's Day more serious than males. There is no need to go all out for the boo if you don't like them by this time. It is too close to Spring which means it's time for that Spring Fling.

#11 - DO NOT take the boo to family gatherings. Doing so may lead to the assumption of more than it really is. Why would you take someone you just been coolin it with to see your parents for Sunday dinner? Now if the boo is someone your folks have met before that could be a little different.

#12 - Just because you're the boo doesn't give you the right to spend every second of the day with me. Yea we kicking it, coolin it, chilling, whatever you may call it but if I don't have my "ME" time or time with my own folks there becomes a problem. Ladies make sure you have a "Girl's Night" and Fellas make sure you have a "Fellas Night." But here is the thing... DO NOT GO TO THE SAME DAMN PLACE!!!!

#13 - You may be the boo but I'm not paying your bills, pay them ya damn self we not married. Last time I checked when I filed my taxes I checked SINGLEEEEEEE!

#14 - To be the Fall/ Winter Boo you need to be LOCAL! It defeats the purpose for the boo to be more than an hour away.

#15 - You are just a boo, you better SIT THE F*CK DOWN with all that DRAMA, you can EASILY be DISMISSED & REPLACED! This includes Twitter & Facebook drama. You are only the boo why the hell are you stalking their page in the first place? Get the hell out of here with that mess.

#16 - You are just the boo, please don't think you have the right to question who someone else is. Why should I have to tell you who someone is just because I go out with them? Mind your business and know your role. If you don't like it just leave. Keep in mind you are the boo which means there are probably still others that I talk to. You can't be a jealous boo smh.

#17 - It is OK to have sex with the boo. After all y'all are spending plenty of time together so yes, there will be those moments when you just get a little horny. Handle that need/ want with each other because if not that is when they just might call the cutty buddy or just hit up a booty call.

#18 - Ladies you do not have to get all dressed up just to see the boo. Sometimes a t-shirt and sweats while laying around the house is just fine. I mean if you want to wear lingerie then by all means do so but just know that could led to a lil adventure.

#19 - There is no such thing as cheating on the boo. If you see the boo out with someone else just say hey and keep it moving. No need to sit there and cock block (applies to male & female). Like I said earlier there is no need for jealousy.

#20 - MAKE SURE THE BOO IS SOMEONE YOU ACTUALLY WANT TO GET TO KNOW BETTER! The whole point of a boo is to get to know that person better. Yes boo is a term that is informal but at the same time both of you should have a clear understanding of the limits of the title. There are no real guidelines as to what a boo can and can not do.

Pyro's Last Thoughts:

I personally think having a Fall/ Winter Boo isn't a bad idea if you want to try and get to know someone. I think one of the bigger issues is when both parties don't have that clear understanding upfront of what to expect and what not to expect from each other. Ladies if the dude says he doesn't want to be in a relationship don't think that you can change him. Fellas if she say she isn't looking for a man then stop trying to convince her she needs to be with you.

To the SINGLE LADIES: Just FYI I' single too lol. Now accepting applications for a Fall/ Winter Boo! So if you looking for someone that knows how to treat a lady and can make you laugh and smile on a daily basis hit me up sometime. Twitter @TheRealDjPyro or on Facebook at Dj-Pyro. I'm always open to getting to know new people and having a good time. If you ever just want to go on a date and be able to have a good time I'm right here for you. If you ever just hungry and want to eat holla at me, I like to cook every now and then. If you like Football even better, we can watch the game together. Just don't come talking about you like the Redskins, the Eagles, the Giants, or the Panthers. Of course if you live in Charlotte, NC that would help seeing as how I live in and work in Charlotte.

Sunday, August 21, 2011

Ok so if you haven't figured out by now I have an issue with the Wobble. I absolutely can't stand the song and it's not because it is a bad song. Here are some of the issues I have with the Wobble. First of all party goers request the song non stop and ask questions like "Do you have the Wobble?" "Can you play the Wobble next?" "When you going to play the Wobble?" Here is a little heads up next time you go to a party. Of course I have the Wobble I've had the darn song for a LONG time and when I say LONG I don't mean a few months I mean as in over a freaking YEAR. The song itself is OLD, y'all just now really listening to it because folks decided they wanted to make a line dance to it. NO, I will not play it next because odds are it does not mix with the current song I am playing or I have already cued up another track to play. Stop asking me when I plan on playing it because honestly I never plan on playing any songs. As a DJ I read the crowd to determine what track I want to play next. Only JUKEBOXES play songs when you want them to.

One of the main reasons I can't stand the song is because people wait all night just to hear it so they can start dancing. If you go to a party just to do a line dance you might as well keep your ass at home. I don't understand why anyone would go to a party especially if they paying for the party to go and only want to hear that one song. You can purchase the song on iTunes or Amazon at any time or you can listen to it on the radio.

I don't put all the blame on party goers. Some of the blame goes to DJs as well. DJs have to stop leaning on the Wobble to get the party started. There are wayyyyyyyy better songs for that and there are various club classics that will out run the Wobble any day of the week. My other issue with the DJs is that some of them feel like they have to play the song twice. The damn song is the same thing over and over no need to play it twice. If people don't hear it the first time it is not the end of the world. There is no reason on God's green Earth that a DJ should have to play a song twice in a night to keep a party going.

Lastly LISTEN TO THE LYRICS! I hate the fact dudes even do the dance because when you listen to the lyrics it is clearly talking about a female backing it up and vibrating smh. It is sad that when I do weddings they say they don't want explicit lyrics/ content but yet the Wobble is nothing but explicit content. Then you have those people that say "I just like the beat!" Ok well just like the beat to the other songs that have similar content duhhhh.

Sunday, August 14, 2011

I was born and raised all over New Jersey. I started modeling and acting when I was nine years old. Going to and from New York City was strenuous on my mother so she decided to put my career on hold. In my time off from modeling and acting, I enrolled myself in every sport and dance program that I could fit into my schedule.After graduating high school I attended the Univ. of Miami, in Coral Gables, Florida. During my stay in Miami, I linked up with well-known modeling agent LaShawnna Stanley of Ethnicity Models. LaShawnna gave me great advice on my career as well as booked me for several leading roles in music videos that showed my acting capability; such as Urban Mystic's "Where Were You" and Juvenile’s “Way I be leanin.” I noticed my career was rapidly taking off when music video directors such as G Visuals, Gil Green, Erick White and Dr. Teeth were calling me to be featured in their videos from the most popular artists in the industry. My appearances between the pages of the most widely read publications are just as impressive. I’ve done fashion spreads in XXL Magazine, Black Men Magazine, and Hype Hair.Aside from modeling and acting I also love to dance. I decided to try- out for a prestigious spot on the Miami Dolphins cheerleading squad. Out of 400 girls spanning across the United States 40 girls made the squad and I was one of them. Recently, I preformed during a Dolphins game during their half- time for a Miami Dolphin’s Cheerleader reunion.After moving from Miami I transferred to the University of North Carolina at Charlotte majoring in Communications and minored in Journalism. I interned at WBTV News 3 as well as Creative Loafing and recently got my Bachelors of Arts degree.

I currently can be seen in Black Men's Magazine with Nicki Minaj on the cover and the 2011 Women of Seagram's Calendar! You can keep up with me through my twitter account www.twitter.com/Alexislovesme

Sunday, August 7, 2011

So one of my followers on Twitter and friends on Facebook asked me for a mix she could listen to as she cleaned up. Since I had to get some practice in for the MAZ Entertainment Frolic party I figured I'd just record the first hour of my practice. Hope you enjoy this mix. Be Blessed YAK!

Text “FROLIC” to 313131 to gain FREE entry BEFORE 11:30pmIts summer time & it's HOT as (BLEEP) in Charlotte! But instead of trying to cool things off MAZ has "foolishly" decided to make things worse by heating things up! Yes, we have deemed it the appropriate time to get a LITTLE naked! Between the mechanical bull riding, bikini contest, and hot body parade, there will be eye candy for everyone once MAZ invades Center Stage @NoDa for a little late-night FROLIC!Bikini Competition::Ladies, we still have room for ONE more contestant.Email anthony@mazentertainment.net for details.Hot Body Competition::Gentlemen, are you SCARED? We need more courageous men to sign up for the battle! Email anthony@mazentertainment.net for details.Mechanical Bull Riding::This may be the best idea that MAZ has ever had!!!Advance tickets are available @http://www.mazentertainment.net/Space is LIMITED so ONLY people with ADVANCE TIX are GUARANTEED Entry!Please visithttp://www.mazentertainment.net/and click on the "ANNIVERSARY" button to enter the contests for FREE TICKETS to an upcoming MAZ event!

Well I guess I should start a blog to highlight some of the crazy things that go on in my life and in my head. Anyone that knows me personally will tell you that A LOT goes on in my life. From DJing, to work, to Massage Therapy, to facebook, to twitter, to Alpha Phi Alpha, even to relationships my life is full of adventures. Hopefully you will enjoy a few of the post that I have and maybe you can even relate to some of the things that go on in my life. Til the next post Stay Up & Be Blessed!