How does one find a male disciplinarian who is willing to discipline another male? Growing up a Dad has no problem administering discipline to his son, yet as adults many men will not discipline other men. Since discipline is not generally a sexual thing why won't men administer Spanking Therapy or Discipline to other men? In my life severe discipline wss always given by a male, be it a teacher, coach, principal or my father. Discipline from a female was always less severe and less effective. Dreading a disciplinary spanking from a male is all part of it for me. So I do not care if the man is Straight, Gay or Bi just need a man to effectively discipline me.

How does one find a male disciplinarian who is willing to discipline another male? Growing up a Dad has no problem administering discipline to his son, yet as adults many men will not discipline other men. Since discipline is not generally a sexual thing why won't men administer Spanking Therapy or Discipline to other men? In my life severe discipline wss always given by a male, be it a teacher, coach, principal or my father. Discipline from a female was always less severe and less effective. Dreading a disciplinary spanking from a male is all part of it for me. So I do not care if the man is Straight, Gay or Bi just need a man to effectively discipline me.

This site is great, but for straight, gay or Bisexual M/m spanking, you need to try www.spankthishookups.com . Create a profile, then do a search in you city and state. This site has contacts all over the globe. Check the site's Events page for a spanking party in your area! I found a great spanko top through this site in Los Angeles meets my needs well. I'm fortunate that L.A. also has a monthly spanking party, where 50-60 males show up, with a good mix of tops and bottoms.

Hi, I have an answer for you. There's a group in Dallas called Discipline Corp. There's a meeting tomorrow evening and I'm going. Message me if you need more details or just Google the group name. They've been around a long time and the play space is very nice.

This site is great, but for straight, gay or Bisexual M/m spanking, you need to try www.spankthishookups.com .

I have to disagree about that site being good for straights. It is WAY too gay and too sexual for me. If you do a search for spankers expect to see lots of pictures of naked, older men with a lot of them showing you some hard evidence of what it is all about. I was out of there in a hurry. Makes me really appreciate this site.

I have to disagree about that site being good for straights. It is WAY too gay and too sexual for me. If you do a search for spankers expect to see lots of pictures of naked, older men with a lot of them showing you some hard evidence of what it is all about. I was out of there in a hurry. Makes me really appreciate this site.

Interesting...I've always found it easier to find older males who are into spanking younger males.

If there are straight female spankers in NorCal, they're hiding from me!

Spankthishookups is a great site--the profiles list whether people want just spanking or additional things, and you can filter according to age, etc. People of all sexualities who aren't homophobic use and enjoy the site--much better than wading through millions of f/ ads in my opinion.

How does one find a male disciplinarian who is willing to discipline another male? Growing up a Dad has no problem administering discipline to his son, yet as adults many men will not discipline other men. Since discipline is not generally a sexual thing why won't men administer Spanking Therapy or Discipline to other men? In my life severe discipline wss always given by a male, be it a teacher, coach, principal or my father. Discipline from a female was always less severe and less effective. Dreading a disciplinary spanking from a male is all part of it for me. So I do not care if the man is Straight, Gay or Bi just need a man to effectively discipline me.

Disciplineneeded,
You do a very good concise posting of where I come from as a STR8 male who has a huge need for M-M Discipline from another male. Females spanking me were ineffective: I laughed at my stepmom at aged 6 when I inherited her & 2 little ruler paddlings from a teacher in grade school didn't sway my behavior at all. But, when my father unbuckled his belt, I was crying before he started & I knew immediately that I didn't want another spanking anytime soon! Also, a male teacher or principal only had to threaten or show me a paddle to make me behave instantly.

As an adult, when I had life issues come up & I knew that only M-M real C.P. would work for me, it took me several years, & a lot of posting to find males who I could identify with & they, me. Now, I have several real friends who are male spankers. I'm in the process of relocating to live nearer one of these friends. This person is younger than I would have sought, but it just works. I encourage those looking, to be openly honest, & to frequently post your needs.

....Brent Belt_Needed

P.S.: I have met several friends on Spankthishookups, but it is very graphic & certainly not for everyone.

I recently started a topic in which I expected discussion similar to some of what has been posted here. The topic is Gender Preferences in Mentoring. People are avoiding it like the plague. It's been up all day and not a single view. Did I hit some sort of sensitive nerve? Is the title scary in some way I'm not catching onto? Do Ya'll have any Ideas. Please give me some feedback. It's a discussion I'd really like to have.

Michael

Michael

You should never criticize a man until you've walked a mile in his shoes.That way, your a mile away, and you have his shoes.