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Wednesday, January 8, 2014

Saturn and the Early Development of Child

Saturn represents integrity,
boundaries, limits, structure, discipline, responsibility and honor. Saturn is
the planet of karma, the rings around Saturn denote the limits,our karma and
result of our actions. Saturn is the planet of time, it teaches us to live in
present and in a simple way. Saturn teaches us about harsh realities of life. It
is the nature of Saturn to shatter our illusions around fear and make us grow
up. Saturn makes us mature.

Saturn's influence on
the childhood can be very challenging because Saturn is the only planet which
makes things hard to get for everyone including children. Children’s
confidence is directly related to whether or not their needs are met as unmet needs for a child translates as not being important in their family. When
these needs are severely neglected, children may feel depressed and they are
not valued. When this happens, their needs and feelings become repressed and
they stop showing their feeling to cope with the stress.

Sometimes there are many
reasons for child needs have not been met (love & care). It can be of any reason like death of
a parent, parents were troubled by hardship, illness, poverty, duties,
depression, divorce or or because parents were critical towards children. The atmosphere within the family is likely to be surrounded by
depression, guilt, difficulty, duty and burdens.

Due to these
difficulties in early life these individuals become mature and self-sufficient
at an early age and they develop habit which could be such as self-discipline,
restraint, responsible nature and a hard working. However, they suffer from a lack of
peace of mind and joy in life. As a result of their early experience, they
conclude that having needs is unacceptable and that loving and needing hurt. As
adults, these individuals have difficulty believing that anyone could love them.

Due to these problem
they develop anxiety and insecurity in relationships and they become very
unemotional and unresponsive to love. By doing this they they protect
themselves against pain. The challenge represented by Saturn in childhood may
be mild or severe. Those with lack of nourishment in childhood may not able to
recover in their lifetime.

Saturn is the materialistic
planet it preserve and secure life. The sign, house placement and aspect of Saturn
show how a child responds to discipline, responsibility and structure in their
attitude and any conjunction planet with Saturn show difficulty with that
related planet energy.

e.g : Saturn in the 4th
house with Mercury and Sun shows that person suffered from lack of confidence
due to mother and father attitude. Child feels confident when their parents
appreciate them. In this case Saturn in 4th house with Sun. Both mother and
father behave in strict way and non appreciation of child makes child
introvert, lack of confidence and feel sad all the time. Saturn also with Mercury
give speech problem and difficulty in speaking.

Although we cannot
always determine how the parents view themselves in relationship to a child,
but can gain insights into how the child is likely to view the parents. As a
conscious interaction occur between parents and kids more powerful changes can
be made in the child life. By doing this, we can begin to bridge the gaps
between parents and child.

Message from Astrologer

Namaste:This blog is expression of how I practice astrology. I personally believe that we are in a quest of understanding ourselves and what's around us. With this understanding we can have success, love, peace and happiness in life. Understanding the cosmic flow of energy, divine grace and channelizing our energy makes our life fulfilling.

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