I'd love to join but is it going to be a private or secret group? This is my third pregnancy this year and the others m/ced so I don't want anyone on facebook (and family who hasn't been told) knowing I'm pregnant yet. My kids don't even know yet.

I wanted it to br private as well but you wont be able to join that way. you'll have to add me as a friend and i invite you to join if we set it as private or join and then ill set it as private. Either way just let me know. I don't think anyone would know you joined unless they specifically knew about the group and went to it and looked thru the members.

It doesn't post on your wall or anything saying you've joined a group and their is nothing saying which groups you are apart of. But I will change the privacy settings back to secret and you guys can just add me as a friend and I will add you to the group.

I wanted it to br private as well but you wont be able to join that way. you'll have to add me as a friend and i invite you to join if we set it as private or join and then ill set it as private. Either way just let me know. I don't think anyone would know you joined unless they specifically knew about the group and went to it and looked thru the members.

I'm sorry I'm such a pain in the butt. I am ultra paranoid about people finding right now. =-/

I'm sorry I'm such a pain in the butt. I am ultra paranoid about people finding right now. =-/

NOOOOOO! I understand believe me! We are "in hiding" as well. I had actually added my sister(who is the only person outside my husband and I who know) to the group to be sure it doesn't publicly announce that you've joined the group. But I have set the group as secret so nobody other then members can see that your a member. Please feel free to add me, or one of the current members and we can add you to the secret group. LOL!

NOOOOOO! I understand believe me! We are "in hiding" as well. I had actually added my sister(who is the only person outside my husband and I who know) to the group to be sure it doesn't publicly announce that you've joined the group. But I have set the group as secret so nobody other then members can see that your a member. Please feel free to add me, or one of the current members and we can add you to the secret group. LOL!

I sent you a message because it didn't seem like there was an add button. I might have gone into the others folder! lol