Been pretty rough though, looking forward to the next step of my self-improvement plan. WORKING OUT AGAIN! One of my old swim team buddies just moved back to the city, we're gonna start swimming together in the afternoons.

Huh, and I thought he was using "it" because the last time, his child was mooning them and therefore, he couldn't see if said child was male or female. And this time, "his" came in because they finally got a sideview. "Oh look, honey, a dangling bit!"

Fetzie wrote:The Defias Brotherhood is back, and this time they are acting as racketeers in Goldshire. Anybody wishing to dance for money must now pay them protection money or be charged triple the normal amount when repairing.

Fetzie wrote:The Defias Brotherhood is back, and this time they are acting as racketeers in Goldshire. Anybody wishing to dance for money must now pay them protection money or be charged triple the normal amount when repairing.

Brekkie:Tanks are like shitty DPS. And healers are like REALLY distracted DPSAmirya:Why yes, your penis is longer than his because you hit 30k dps in the first 10 seconds. But guess what? That raid boss has a dick bigger than your ego. Flex:I don't make mistakes. I execute carefully planned strategic group wipes.Levie:(in /g) It's weird, I have a collar and I dont know where I got it from, Worgen are kinky!Levie:Drunk Lev goes and does what he pleases just to annoy sober Lev.Sagara:You see, you need to *spread* the bun before you insert the hot dog.

Brekkie:Tanks are like shitty DPS. And healers are like REALLY distracted DPSAmirya:Why yes, your penis is longer than his because you hit 30k dps in the first 10 seconds. But guess what? That raid boss has a dick bigger than your ego. Flex:I don't make mistakes. I execute carefully planned strategic group wipes.Levie:(in /g) It's weird, I have a collar and I dont know where I got it from, Worgen are kinky!Levie:Drunk Lev goes and does what he pleases just to annoy sober Lev.Sagara:You see, you need to *spread* the bun before you insert the hot dog.

firstamendme wrote:Papers filed. I had her move out, and she immediately went to this guy's place to stay and started sending him romantic e-cards about cuddling in his bed. Man did I ever make the right call.

Sounds like you did the right thing! Good on you for being strong.

could you blame her if you had her move out? Not sure what the main problem was but feels like might had been your fault too

firstamendme wrote:Papers filed. I had her move out, and she immediately went to this guy's place to stay and started sending him romantic e-cards about cuddling in his bed. Man did I ever make the right call.

Sounds like you did the right thing! Good on you for being strong.

could you blame her if you had her move out? Not sure what the main problem was but feels like might had been your fault too

firstamendme wrote:Papers filed. I had her move out, and she immediately went to this guy's place to stay and started sending him romantic e-cards about cuddling in his bed. Man did I ever make the right call.

Sounds like you did the right thing! Good on you for being strong.

could you blame her if you had her move out? Not sure what the main problem was but feels like might had been your fault too

The main problem was -

firstamendme wrote:Trying to decide what to do when your wife of about 5 years messes around behind your back, lies to your face about it, then continues to see him (but not necessarily do anything provable) 4 more times and deny it each time is fun

So I'm going to go with not his fault. As for blaming her on moving in straight away with the guy she cheated with I don't think anyone is. It just confirmed that the divorce and asking her to move out was the right thing to do.

Also, I am a graduate student in university housing. I could not have been the one to move out as she is ineligible to have that housing otherwise.

Furthermore, after she moved in with that guy she told me she still wanted to make us work. There were other housing options, albeit difficult ones, but it would appear her choice was clear.

edit: Also, I never stated that the deterioration of the relationship was entirely her fault. I was not fulfilling her emotional needs in addition to other issues we both were having. However, her course of action was not to tell me and work through it, but instead to just find it from someone else, vehemently deny it even after irrefutable proof was obtained, and repeat the action again and again after swearing up and down it would stop. The problems were not her fault alone, but I can say the ending of it was.

firstamendme wrote:Papers filed. I had her move out, and she immediately went to this guy's place to stay and started sending him romantic e-cards about cuddling in his bed. Man did I ever make the right call.

Sounds like you did the right thing! Good on you for being strong.

could you blame her if you had her move out? Not sure what the main problem was but feels like might had been your fault too

Brekkie:Tanks are like shitty DPS. And healers are like REALLY distracted DPSAmirya:Why yes, your penis is longer than his because you hit 30k dps in the first 10 seconds. But guess what? That raid boss has a dick bigger than your ego. Flex:I don't make mistakes. I execute carefully planned strategic group wipes.Levie:(in /g) It's weird, I have a collar and I dont know where I got it from, Worgen are kinky!Levie:Drunk Lev goes and does what he pleases just to annoy sober Lev.Sagara:You see, you need to *spread* the bun before you insert the hot dog.

Brekkie:Tanks are like shitty DPS. And healers are like REALLY distracted DPSAmirya:Why yes, your penis is longer than his because you hit 30k dps in the first 10 seconds. But guess what? That raid boss has a dick bigger than your ego. Flex:I don't make mistakes. I execute carefully planned strategic group wipes.Levie:(in /g) It's weird, I have a collar and I dont know where I got it from, Worgen are kinky!Levie:Drunk Lev goes and does what he pleases just to annoy sober Lev.Sagara:You see, you need to *spread* the bun before you insert the hot dog.

I had to do a double take at the post count (which is actually just 1 due to a double post), and then wonder who the fuck is stupid enough to make that sort of comment while simultaneously admitting to not knowing anything about the situation in question and still placing blame.

"I don't really know what's going on, but dude, it's your fault too!"

I mean, seriously? If someone is that incapable of reading back a few pages, then either ask for clarification, or just shut the hell up.

Fetzie wrote:The Defias Brotherhood is back, and this time they are acting as racketeers in Goldshire. Anybody wishing to dance for money must now pay them protection money or be charged triple the normal amount when repairing.

That's true, I was just hoping for a stupid person and not a stupid female to make me angry for being a female.

I hate females who make the rest of us look stupid and needy and emotionally stunted (if you have to be any of those, just make yourself look that like, ffs)

Fetzie wrote:The Defias Brotherhood is back, and this time they are acting as racketeers in Goldshire. Anybody wishing to dance for money must now pay them protection money or be charged triple the normal amount when repairing.