They will look beautiful on my altar.
And all the way from Jerusalem. I love house imagery. House + light = Cancer heaven 🙂

And this morning I woke up thinking about the North Node in Libra, about cooperation and seeing the other side.
How I need to learn these lessons. NEED TO.
And maybe you do too.

And how a steady diet of guidance and meditation can help get me there. And daily mindfulness.
But MORE THAN THAT sometimes a breakthrough is needed. To hit bottom.
Often if we don’t hit bottom, we just keep going on and on and on and on and on and on with our crap.

And honestly if you don’t start to learn these North Node in Libra lessons, seeing the other person’s point of view, you will wind up alone in absolutely every sense of the word. Sound scary? Because it IS scary.

Libra is also quite a strategic sign, ruled by Venus. She’s no dummy! You won’t get what you want by stomping around. You get what you want by slinking around 😉 learning and observing.

I remember my landlady once telling me about an interaction with her husband. How she had techniques to make him feel like her ideas were his ideas.

Interesting because Venus is in Aries now and will oppose Mars in Libra and what we need to do with oppositions is find the middle ground and extra interesting here because of the reversal. Mars “belongs” in Aries. Venus belongs in Libra. Or so we are taught 😉

In other news, I had a quick chat with an old friend last night and we were talking about relationships and she uttered this very simple wisdom. How an unkind spouse was harder to fix or deal with than many other problems i.e. whatever your complaint is about your marriage or your relationship, if you are involved with a heart-person, a kind person, you are way ahead of the game.

I’ve got a reading to start so I’m going to stop here.
Happy Sunday 🙂

What are you learning about North Node in Libra so far?

Love, MP

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5 thoughts on “North Node in Libra Doesn’t Have To Make You Mental!”

Aliza: Thanks so much for posting the link to the love house candles. You are right! They are wonderful and speak to me as well. I especially like the one with the opened and askew shutters. cheers, Pamela

Marry a kind spouse 🙂 Thanks for the tip! It seems so simple that it should need to be spelled out, but it really does. Someone who loves from their heart not their ego will work with you, not against you.

Idk what is in the air/water (lol astro pun!) but I’m soooo baby and marriage crazy today. Moon in Cancer? Idk. I just liked probably 100 baby and wedding photos on facebook. Being bonded and super connected especially to babies is all I want right now. Is this Libra? Because the corresponding aries energy would explain my new obsession with UFC.

Coming to terms with the fact that my Venus in Aries friend doesn’t really get that attached in the way I want her to. She’s not sentimental about how we met, or being besties. She’s utlitarian in a way like, she’s there, we’re friends, its understood. No need to fuss over it. But lately I want to fuss. I want a small parade of love. I got her flowers, candy, and a pretty french pastry for her birthday. She was happy and that was enough for me.

I’m with Charlotte.
This is holy grail advice: “… an unkind spouse [was] is harder to deal with…”
So simple, but this knowledge just dropped into my lap at the right time. I read this blog post after a week of soul searching questions about partnership and after years of chasing “the bad boy”

That what we’re looking for is a “heart-person” (if you can find them or are lucky enough to come across one), that even though it doesn’t make your problems disappear, but those problems diffuse with greater ease when you’re interacting with a kind person.

My big challenge right now is not running away from “the kind person”. Re-wiring my programming that chases the “bad boy”, the one who is unconcerned with my feelings and my well-being, thus feeding into the “he doesn’t want me, so now i want him EVEN MORE’ syndrome. Relationships can’t last if you’re ensnared into that “story”. So hard to turn over the page and start a new story 🙂 But we/I must.