So a number of people have asked if I would create a Facebook page for this blog seeing as I’m kind of weird about letting hundreds of people friend my personal account. At first that seemed like a weird(er) thing to do, but I realize now that tons of bloggers … Continue Reading →

I spend a lot more time micro-blogging on [ Tumblr ] than I do concocting large, interesting entries for LJ. Things are always so busy and I still haven’t mastered the organizational skills necessary for being able to multi-task to the degree I want to. It’s probably a good thing … Continue Reading →

Last week while Curtis was at a work party, after the kids were quiet I picked up a book I'd ordered from the library and read it – all of it – in one sitting. That's the first time I've done that in nine years, and the first time I've … Continue Reading →

I had a dream last night that T, a woman from my grief group, showed up at my door. I was surprised to see her; I didn’t even think she remembered where I lived. When I opened the door she was crying, and holding a small baby. She screamed at … Continue Reading →

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This blog contains lots of swear words and nudity; as well as open discussion of sex, birth, institutional abuse, trauma, child loss and the like. Most intense posts are tagged or cut with warnings about the content, but some (particularly older ones) aren't.