She won’t get her dream apartment — a $16 million penthouse in Stockholm.

She won’t get the $1.5 million, 19th-century, diamond drop ear rings.

But beautiful Marie Douglas- David — the unhappily married Swedish countess — will get a few additional millions in nice, cold cash.

United Technologies Chairman George David will buy his hard- won freedom from his countess wife by tossing her a few extra million bucks — in the $10 million range. That’s on top of the $45 million coming to her via their bitterly dis puted 2005 postnuptial agreement, according to sources on both sides of the talks.

Both the Connecti cut-based mogul, 67, and the countess, 37, hope to sign a separa tion agreement this morning — detail ing the terms of who keeps what out of his $300 million in assets. Then they’ll take it to a Hartford divorce court, where the wedding bells will un-ring and a judge will pronounce them no longer man and wife.

Last night, David’s side described the settlement as a done deal — all over but the signing.

If the accord does blow up, it could mean back to trial. And back to mudslinging.

Throughout proceedings in March and this week, she has called him a cold, controlling bully who kept her a pauper in pearls by making her quit her $400,000-a-year job as a Wall Street analyst and never putting a single asset in her name.

He even kept title to her $190,000 engagement ring — although he explained that was to avoid paying the $100,000 in gift tax.

David, meanwhile, has called her an imperious, greedy nag for whom even too much was never enough. “She was always portraying herself as perfect, Swedish, aristocratic and beautiful,” the mogul griped during trial testimony. “And everybody around me was inadequate.”

In happier times during their seven-year, childless marriage, the couple burned through more than $200,000 a week in such luxuries as caviar and mansion maintenance.

But in divorce papers, the countess conceded that she could manage, as a single gal, on $53,000 a week.

She’s currently occupying one of their biggest marital assets — a penthouse on Park Avenue worth an estimated $39 million.

Her financial affidavit, filed with the divorce court, listed weekly expenses that included $10,000 for cash and credit cards, $4,500 for clothing and $1,570 for “horse care.”

In hopes of a bigger payday, the countess has fought bitterly to get the postnup tossed.

Another bone of contention has been the $16 million Stockholm penthouse.

She has insisted in testimony that he once promised her the penthouse would be hers forever. But the mogul vowed that he would never give her the property if she was going to threaten him with a “mud fight.”

Then there are the earrings.

She says they window-shopped for them at a London antiques shop. But when David bought them, on May 12, 2006, he never even showed them to his wife — instead tossing them in an office drawer until this year.

The countess says they’re hers. George said he bought them for himself. Really.