to not want DH to go away for a lad's weekend instead of spoiling me?

Will have DC2 in Sept. Really wanted to go away for a romantic weekend before baby comes. He wants to go away (to Europe) to see friends and I'll be left with DD or doing something with friends if I can arrange child care for DD.

Just want to have some quality time with him before baby comes and he has not been terribly "engaged" during this pg, mostly due to work pressures. Then again he is mostly very good at weekends and helpful, always gets up with DD so I can have a lie in, and takes her for walks so I can rest/mn .

"Spoiling me" is a horrible expression btw. Why should he be spoiling you? It wouldn't sound very appealing if someone said to you "this weekend you must spoil me". Why not think of it as doing something nice together?