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OT: Lord of War

My Son gave me some movies to watch last night. One was Lord of War with Nicholas Gage. I watch everything he has made and somehow I missed this one. He was an illegal gun seller to war torn third world countries after the fall of communism in Europe. The movie has some pretty graphic stuff in it about killing and genocide.

Lately I have been watching our Presidential Primaries on TV. I am concerned about many conflicting things for our country. National health care vs. private insurance, True Fair trade vs. good jobs for Americans, bringing our troops home from Iraq and Afghanistan vs. random killing godless terrorists, global warming vs. life as we know it, American products vs. slave labor products, and many more like gas prices, abortion, welfare as a lifestyle choice vs. corporate greed and profits, failing home prices, increased taxes, recession, and inflation.

I sat drinking my morning coffee with the movie and politics on my mind today. God forbid there is ever a breakdown in our economy like in third world countries. Senseless killing and greed running rampant. I imagine it could happen but I hope it dont.

I was thinking how good things really are. I live better than Kings did in Jesus day. I have hot and cold running water, excess food, temperature controlled housing, flush toilets, easy transportation, and much more.

Then I thought how pitiful it is that my dog and cat are living better than some people here on earth are living right now.

My mind shifted to pointless divorce and the pain that comes with it. Some of the cheaters and leavers are like the horrible things that I see in life. The ones dumped and in pain are like the good that I see in life.

I see that life isnt fair and we all must carry on. We make things as good as we can all the while there are those tearing it down.

Good point, life is not fair, who ever said it was point blank lied. Yes some here are the Dumped, it's kinda like having to pick up the pieces how and if you can, alone or at times it may seem as though we are, but the cuts run real real deep when they are inflicted by the ones we have put so much trust in, the ones in our minds we were going to grow old with

Sorry for the last post, I might need another cup of coffee myself. I have to say that finally after so many years coming to terms with ...what's gonna happen is gonna happen no matter what period. Having that in my heart and mind gives me peace

This is a good reminder that our standard of living affords us the luxury to complain about frivolous things. My ex used to make a big deal about designer crap like handbags - how does that make the world any better? People go to club med and think they've seen Jamaica or they go to the beach in Thailand and think they understand their poverty. Large percentages of the population will accept kooky theories about the World Trade Center yet refuse to believe that the Apollo landings were real. Hollywood movies have substituted for genuine reading and the result is predictable. People have become afraid of their own shadow and seek their own version of &quot;sugar candy mountain&quot;. Divorce as a path to personal fulfillment is just another trend as people become more selfish and inward-looking.

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