My wife ROCKS!!!

I have GOT to be the luckiest man alive. I have the absolute best wife ever. I have to admit, there are times where things seem so crazy and I just want to get away by myself for a day, but being in a relationship… ANY relationship means you work things out. However, my wife is amazingly awesome and I am still completely confounded on how I managed to marry someone as awesome as she.

As a guy, we want to believe that we are the center of the family and what we say goes, blah blah blah. It’s all hogwash. It’s the women of the world who do the REAL work. They slave away with the cooking and the cleaning, they deal with our bullshit, they are truly the ones who keep a family together. But my wife astounds me at every corner. She does all this and MORE for our tiny family and she never complains about it. In fact, she wants to do MORE and I tell her to chill out and let me do some of the things for her so she can have time to herself. Personally, I think it’s directly coded into women’s DNA to not be happy unless their plate is over filled. But that’s just a theory at this point.

My wife has not been in her best mood lately. She has been ok, but not the happy woman I was lucky to learn more about while we were dating. But the last week or so, she has been amazing. She has this light that beams from her when she is happy that is completely impossible not to become infected with. Her smile can truly light up a room… or a small city depending on how big the city is! LOL. She is very atypical. She loves oldies music and old television shows (we can prove this by the large amounts of ALL IN THE FAMILY that is currently residing on our DVR) but she is only 30 years old… yet she looks 20.

As a single man trying to find a perfect match, some people say guys look for someone who reminds them of their mother. This is NOT the case for me. I loved my mother and miss her TONS but I wanted someone who could just get me. Who would know what I was thinking or trying to say without me finishing what I am trying to say and I definitely found that woman. She puts up with my crazy ER schedule of 3p-11p 5 days a week with only every other weekend off, while she works 8:30a-5p Monday – Friday. I do what I can to be there such as come home for dinner and always spend my time with her on my weekends off, and she still is ok with everything.

We are coming up to our 1st wedding anniversary and there were some rough patches this year that made me wonder how we will get through things, but I have to say. These few weeks, I don’t think I could be happier with the wonderful woman I married and could never in a million years think of being with anyone but her.

I am the luckiest man in the world, because I have the world’s best wife!