If you write about what you like, it will come across better. Ultimately I like fending stuff and chastity as part of that is arousing to me. But it will only work if you find it exciting too. So do what makes you hot!! That will translate well.

I love sex in many forms with my mate, but one that is used sparingly (because it can get really intense) is to completely ravish her with pure passionate love and lust: ripping her clothes off and taking her with abandon. And I enjoy reading it, but I’ve found only a few writers that can get both the love and lust across. It’s usually just one or the other, love or lust.