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I would never be with a someone still in the military, personally, but for none of the reasons they listed. It's a personal thing- I like bigger guys. My guy would come home too skinny and I would be afraid of breaking him :)

I scanned it pretty fast, but it seems like a lot of facts followed by a lot of editorializing. For example, yes, military families get transferred a lot. The writer seems to think that is bad, but others might not agree. Military men get PTSD - yeah, that's true. However there are some very effective treatments, like EFT. So while the writer might see that as a reason not to marry, another person might feel it is worth working through the PTSD with a spouse.

I'm sorry, I couldn't read it. From the responses here, and from the tiny bit I read...I'm already in a pretty pissy mood thx to my oldest not doing her chores. I can tell it'll put me in even worse mood.

Fuck whoever wrote that. I love my soldier and would never give him up.