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Wired for Love: How
Understanding Your Partner's
Brain and Attachment Style Can
Help You Defuse Conflict and
Build a Secure Relationship

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""What the heck is my partner thinking?"" is a common refrain in romantic relationships, and with good
reason. Every person is wired for love differently, with different habits, needs, and reactions to conflict. The
good news is that most people's minds work in predictable ways and respond well to security, attachment,
and rituals, making it possible to actually neurologically prime the brain for greater love and fewer
conflicts.Wired for Love is a complete insider's guide to understanding a partner's brain and promoting love
and trust within a romantic relationship. Readers learn ten scientific principles they can use to avoid
triggering fear and panic in their partners, manage their partners' emotional reactions when they do become
upset, and recognize when the brain's threat response is hindering their ability to act in a loving way. By
learning to use simple gestures and words, readers can learn to put out emotional fires and help their partners
feel more safe and secure. The no-fault view of conflict in this book encourages readers to move past a
""warring brain"" mentality and toward a more cooperative ""loving brain"" understanding of the
relationship. Based in the sound science of neurobiology, attachment theory, and emotion regulation
research, this book is essential reading for couples and others interested in understanding the complex
dynamics at work behind love and trust in intimate relationships.