When it comes to men they decide whether they like you mostly based on your looks. So it's likely that your standards are too high. The guys you are interested in may find you attractive, but aren't interested in a relationship with you because they have options and can pull hotter girls. I am sure there are guys who are interested in you that you haven't considered-- you need to expand your horizons.

There is outer game stuff, but it gets downvoted. My comment is going to get downvoted for the same reason, but those of you have been reading this subreddit closely for a while will know what's going on: this sub has been infected by "white knights."

Let's face it, PUA doesn't have the best reputation among the general population, and naturally this sub has a bad rep on reddit. But when we say people hate PUA, what they hate the most are the "techniques"-- all the outer game stuff. Inner game stuff (confidence, etc.) is, for lack of a better word, more "politically correct." And since a lot of the haters have apparently subscribed to the sub, the outer game stuff gets downvoted because they find it offensive, so you end up seeing only one side of the coin.

It looks like xianoth is getting the short end of the stick compared to the other two guys. If I read your diagram correctly, he is in a sexual relationship with only one girl in the group, while the other two guys both have three girls to have sex with (including xianoth's wife). Doesn't he get really jealous of the other two guys? How does he cope with having such an inferior position, sex-wise?