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Although deep connection is great, rapport is strong and stable. Loads of chemistry, I would think that girl B would be much more adventurous in the sense that we feel that 'spark' when those kinds of feelings are the things that really ignite my passion and I & I think some awesome sh*t can happen when the passion is on fire.

I also like those thrills, mysterious feelings and cautious thoughts during my time with this particular girl. Like i said, it can be a roller-coaster adventure that i think should be experienced at least once if not a few times. Over time however, girl B is just going to be like a girl A because you have gotten used to her.

The only difference between those options as you have described is not the genuine characterstics of the girls, but the time you had met them and how that has affected your relationship and connection with them. In the end you would still settle with girl B as a girl A when you're together and married.

Nobody here into threesomes then? :-) (Seriously, I do have a friend in England who is part of a three way relationship... "triad" I think they call it? Seems like a good setup if everyone likes that...)

The spark is nice, but "makes you feel anxious about yourself the majority of the time" is a red flag. Could you really love somebody like that at all?

I chose spark because that implies attraction physically, I need physical attraction in my girl and typically I'm never best friends territory with many girls let alone attractive ones, and no a friend that's a girl never gets more attractive despite time together, I have a physical attraction for a girl or I don't period.

Definitely girl B. Having excitement makes everything great and that's what I really look for in a girl because of the relationship is going to be uninteresting and boring then there is no point in having one! Does that answer it alright? 😜

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It's a great answer! But I'm hoping for option A as I feel that's the situation im in... I'm dating this guy for a year, great sex, we laugh and can be 100% ourselves with each other. It's easy and relaxed in our busy lives. But I feel he wants more excitement and spark and I don't know how to do that :( any ideas?