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Most guys know what it is like to get turned down by that one special girl that they have a huge crush on. And whether you get flat out rejected or just gently blown off, it is always a frustrating experience, no matter how many times it happens!

This is one of the main reasons for a new men’s resource called Unlock Her Legs by Bobby Rio and Rob Judge the NYC dating gurus. In their new book Bobby and Rob present men with a system that they say will help to get that “hard to get” girl to feel attracted to you and to indeed actually start to chase you and pursue you rather than the other way around. You can read all the details on Puabooks.net where they have posted an in depth review.

Surely many men will be a bit skeptical as to whether it is in fact possible to get a highly attractive woman to pursue you, considering the fact that sexy women usually have no trouble getting lots of male attention and therefore are not inclined to take on the role of the chaser. However the fact is that this course is full of methods and tactics that you can use to improve your situation by adjusting the way that you interact with the woman you are attempting to win over, so I would not be surprised if this system ended up getting a lot of guys the opportunity to finally date their dream women.

One thing to bear in mind is that this program uses an understanding of how women think to change her thinking, which could be seen as a bit on the sneaky side. In fact, in the video on Bobby’s website he freely states that his patented “scrambler” method messed with a woman’s mind, and that therefore men who are against using sneaky tricks to attract women should exit the website. Still, one could argue that women are indeed the master manipulators, and that they often use sneaky tricks themselves to get the men that they want.

In the end I suppose it all comes down to what you are willing to do to win the affection of the woman you yearn for. I would guess that any man who has seriously been bitten by the love bug, would be eager to learn Rio and Judge’s “tricks” no matter how sneaky they may be.

Have you ever met a woman you really liked only to get discouraged in the middle just because you think she’s just not that into you, even though you have a badass car? If this happened to you once or many times, perhaps you have a problem when it comes to keeping a woman’s attention. Don’t fret, bro. The key to get it back is to make her curious. Women like intrigue and mystery. If she can read you easily, the chase is over. The challenge is finished.

So how do you keep a woman’s attention? Simple. Make yourself interesting. If you think of yourself as dull or boring, then the game is already lost. But if you know how to present yourself well in front of the ladies, then you might have a better chance than the others. Dress to impress, make small talk memorable and show her that you’re worth her time. When you’ve got her attention, make sure that you say and do things that are worth keeping it. If you offend or bore her to death, then there’s surely some work to do. Sometimes women like men who are not afraid to be funny or smart. So speak your mind. She might like what she hears from you.

Another trick is to be interested in what she’s saying. Of course, you must have noticed her because she’s interesting. However, the look of interest isn’t always visible in men’s faces. Assure her that you’re listening to her and that you’re hanging on to every word she says. It takes two to tango. If she shows interest then you must reciprocate. The dating game is about making a connection and if you really think that she’s a beautiful, smart and nice woman, then make sure you communicate it well. Ladies also like to see signs that they’re doing well in dating. Compliment her. Tell her that she’s great at what she does. These things won’t definitely hurt your chances.

Here’s another thought: Are you interested in what you do? If the answer is yes, good for you. But if you don’t see how you could be interesting, maybe it’s time to build yourself up to become a man you would like to hang out with. Work hard to be someone women would like to date. Do things that you would be proud of and you can talk about with someone new. Be interesting and grab their attention. My dating guru is a guy named Jason Capital, and one of the things he always talks about is staying on your path, and actually DOMINATING your path in life, and I think this is crucially important for attracting women. Here’s Deepak on the subject…

Post-recession, the job market is bouncing up and there are many good positions up for grabs. But these days, it’s not enough to pat yourself on the back for scoring a job many other men covet. It’s also important for you to learn how to advance in your career, how to keep growing, and how to make yourself a cut above the rest.

And of course you want to make sure that you aren’t sexually harassing your co-workers (male or female) by trying tolook up their skirts, patting their asses, etc…

In a competitive job market, almost everyone will start out having similar qualifications. Your competitors may have graduated from the same course or college as you did, or somewhere similar. You both may have had the same internship experience, the same curricular and extra-curricular accomplishments to brag about. In the end, you both may get hired for the same position. But start early on with working to advance your career, and promotion may happen within the year, or even shorter.

There is no shortcut to working hard. Make yourself visible and heard; make sure you’re on the radar and your boss can easily see the accomplishments you’ve done, so you can be more on top of his mind when he considers promotion. Do be careful about treading the line between unnecessary bragging and showing off your accomplishments. You can do so with civility and humility.

Be aware of your teammates, and strive to work well with them. No one likes an office jerk, and no one wants to be with a competitive officemate who only wants to get ahead of everyone else. Bring them on your side and you’ll have a smoother time at the office.
Many hot careers in the market these days need good teammate interaction, regardless of the competitive nature of jobs like financial and market analysts, software developers, physicians, auditors, and accountants. While these are highly individual jobs, you would do well to know how to communicate and collaborate with the rest of the team.

Remember that in this modern era, collaboration is key to great ideas and flawless execution — which is the formula for success for any business.

Finally, when it comes to making a good impression, don’t forget that personal looks and style also matter — and it’s not just a female thing. Many respond nicely to a well-groomed and smartly-dressed man. Dress simply but elegantly, stick to patterns and styles that make you look polished and groomed. Go light on the accessories — you won’t need much — just a few carefully chosen items, like a good watch and of course, well polished shoes.

Work hard, look smart, play nice: the key things you need to remember as you pursue the career of your dreams.