Why do men sleep immediately after sex

Many women are puzzled as to why men sleep immediately after sex. Its just how they are wired. Sex releases tension and relaxes them. Here a woman is asking why.

Why do men sleep immediately after sex? Angela

Hi Angela, like many women, I am sure you sometimes feel used and unappreciated. Especially when he does the sixty seconds. Rolls over and proceed to sleep and in some cases snore like a warthog. Don’t we all hate it! That’s when one wonders when a home cloning kit will be available.

No Scientific reason

I don’t know of any scientific reason why men snooze after sex, but there are some rather obvious facts. Like sex usually takes place on a bed, at night and its physical . Ejaculation releases sexual and physical tension. Resulting in a relaxed and satisfied man who feels loved, bathing in an afterglow of sexual bliss. With that in mind who can blame him for sleeping? Bear in mind that he is feeling all that because of you! In fact sleep is a sign of satisfaction, thus I would be very worried if he paced up and down instead.

Having said that, I must advice men. It’s not the act (sleeping) that’s offensive rather is the lack of sensitivity. It’s not like women want to discuss the weather or hear grandmother tales thereafter. All we want is to cuddle and appreciation. Being intimate after sex is a complement to her for shaking it well. I love it when he holds me tight his and we both sleep in embrace.

Women also tend to sleep right after archiving orgasm(s) and the more the better. So that is one more reason why women should climax too. Kenyan ladies we are not so worst off. A survey conducted on 10,000 English men, revealed that 48% of them actually fall asleep during sex. How rude!

My name is Getrude Mungai. I am a Lifestyle designer on sex and relationships. A wife, mother, an author/blogger, TV and radio host and a motivational speaker. This year I will celebrate my 20th year in marital bliss. Married to the same man; Peter. Whom I have been in a relationship with for 25 years. Peter and I, are blessed with two sons, Mark and Albert who are in their teens.