Many young adults become laborers and drivers while they are young until they grow old. Then you hear them regretting their fortune and wonder if they could have had a better life.

Young adults are energetic so they are tolerable to physical work. They are happy enough to earn their keep, which they only consume all with beer. The next day, they will work for a couple of bucks enough for two bottles of beer and they are satisfied. They never learned to save because they have money at will. When they get married, they are stucked paying rent and complaining about the harshness of life. Rather than getting solutions on how to solve their problems, they turn to drinking more beer.

"If you deliberately plan on being less than you are capable of being then I warn you that you'll be unhappy for the rest of your life."-- Abraham H. Maslow

You will be unhappy when you are satisfied where you are and don't seek better future. Then you will be asking why you are not promoted when you know you have the capability. But people never saw you perform better than where you are. How can you be promoted when they see you as someone who is suited to your work. How will they know you are capable as a supervisor or manager.

"If one advances confidently in the direction of his dreams, and endeavors to live the life which he has imagined, he will meet with a success unexpected in common hours." -by Henry David Thoreau

This is a man who is moving forward to his dream and jumping swiftly through the hurdles that he encounters. He is the man who invested in himself by reading about his goal and making strategies how to be there.

If you are a business man, attend seminars and conferences on management so that you acquire the knowledge and skill. Read more on management books and about your business.

If you are an educator, attend seminars and workshop for you to offer the best education and curriculum from your school.

“Count your age by friends, not years. Count your life by smiles, not tears.” –by John Lennon

Stay positive that’s it. Do not dwell from the past because it is done. If you regret/failed something about your past, remember it only to learn from it and not to dwindle on it. When you are a positive person, nothing will hinder you forward.

“It’s my life. And it’s now or never I ain’t gonna live forever I just want to live while I’m alive My heart is like an open highway Like Frankie said I did it my way I just want to live while I’m alive ‘cause its my life

This always happens, many people look at celebrities andthey compare it with theirs. And they want life. That would be the life of afamous person and not from an office worker working eight hours a day in acubicle. But lesser do they realize that the life they want is of another whichthey can always emulate and even go through vulgar acts like what somecelebrities are doing.

Nonetheless, you have to accept yourself because you arealso living a life, your life, where you are now. To enjoy it, you have to makethe most of it. It doesn’t have to be controversial as you wanted it to be butit can be exciting and fun without glitch.