Friday, May 25, 2012

UPDATE: As time permits, I will continue to add to this post as I'm sure much of what I've said can be clarified or better expressed.I
recently read a blog post entitled “Heterosexual
Bypass Surgery” written by columnist and author Melinda Selmys. While reading Melinda’s post, several
thoughts popped into my head and it’s taken me a little while to organize those
thoughts and write them down.

First,
I believe context is important to a proper understanding of Father Harvey’s
statements. I asked Melinda for the
sources she used for her blogpost, and she graciously supplied them: In a 2006
Zenit interview, Fr. Harvey is quoted as saying, "The fact of the matter is that there is only one orientation, the
heterosexual orientation. The homosexual tendency is an objective disorder, and
if a person has this objective disorder, it is because other things have
happened." Later in the same
interview, Father says "Dr. Joseph
Nicolosi, founder of the National Association for Research and Therapy of
Homosexuality, in Encino, California, says it best when he says that there are
no homosexuals, just heterosexuals with a homosexual tendency."

In
the Zenit interview,
Father Harvey was asked to respond to a document issued by the United States Conference
of Catholic Bishops on November 14, 2006 entitled “Ministry to Persons with a Homosexual Inclination: Guidelines for
Pastoral Care.” Father Harvey
explained that he views that document as a distinct improvement over an earlier
document entitled “Always Our Children.” Fr. Harvey had written detailed responses to
both the original and revised versions of “Always
Our Children.” Instead of attempting
to summarize Father’s concerns and observations about that document, I will
simply refer the reader to both of Father’s responses – they can be found here and here.

It
is necessary to read both those responses to understand Father’s statement that
"there is only one orientation, the
heterosexual orientation," and his agreement with Joseph Nicolosi’s
statement that “there are no homosexuals,
just heterosexuals with a homosexual tendency.”

Melinda says “Unless you happen to be talking to a very
committed gay philosopher who believes that his homosexuality forms the
ontological matrix of his personhood, this argument [Fr. Harvey’s statement
above] commits a category error.”

I don’t believe Fr. Harvey has committed a category error
because he is in fact addressing those who hold that homosexuality ontologically
defines their personhood when he makes the statements above. One of Father’s concerns about the wording of
“Always Our Children” was that it was
vulnerable to misuse by activists who wish to promote homosexuality as a) a necessarily
permanent and central part of one’s identity, and b) as being equivalent to
heterosexuality, as though the term objective disorder no longer applied.

Father
Harvey would absolutely agree with Melinda’s observation that each person’s
fundamental purpose is to be eternally united with Christ and, in doing so, to
find a joy that completely satisfies all human desire and surpasses all human
pleasures; however, the fact that a person is created for complete union with
Christ doesn’t negate the original intended complementarity of man and woman. Adam and Eve were created for companionship
and a union that reflects divine love. Eros
was not absent from their union, but it was rightly ordered before the Fall.

Since
the Fall, all human beings suffer from the effects of original sin. It manifests itself in a host of ways. Some human beings are drawn to seek sexual
genital pleasure with their own gender. A
plethora of interwoven factors which vary from person to person can lead up to
such temptations. The inclination towards
same-sex genital activity is objectively disordered because the sexual acts
that one is tempted to engage in can never, under any circumstance lead to the
creation of new life. At the same time,
the attractions themselves are often psychologically understandable when one
looks at the various factors that can influence one’s psychosexual development.

Father
Harvey has always stated that a person who experiences same-sex erotic attraction
is under no moral obligation to seek to develop heterosexual erotic desire or affectivity. What is obligatory is chastity, and the best
way to develop interior chastity is through union with Christ and prayer of the
heart.

Father
Harvey also refused to identify any human being by his or her temptations because
he held that a human being is so much more than his temptations. He had also stated that he wished he could
rename his first book The Homosexual
Person to The Person with Same-Sex
Attractions so asto put even
further emphasis on one’s personhood.

Father
believed, as the scriptures tell us, that humanity has been created male and
female for a reason.These male and
female signifiers are not merely incidental, but essential to our
personhood.To be a human male or a
human female is to be heterosexual, ontologically speaking. By that I simply mean that male-female complementarity is part of the original plan and remains fundamental to each human being's true identity.This is objectively true, even when one’s
subjective desires and erotic attractions may persistently be towards the same
sex. This is why Father Harvey says, “There is only one orientation, the
heterosexual orientation,” and it’s also why he agrees with Joseph Nicolosi’s
observation that“there are no homosexuals, just heterosexuals
with a homosexual tendency.” For Fr.
Harvey, what is ontologically true is what is essential in defining personhood.Again, this does not mean that a same-sex attracted person is morally required to try to move towards heterosexual desire. As Melinda says, "Instead of trying to reorient homosexual desire towards heterosexual desire, it is possible to simply bypass heterosexuality [heterosexual erotic desire] and move directly towards Goodness, Beauty, Truth."

Fr.
Harvey also recognized that our weaknesses can be a huge source of grace,
because it is usually our own weaknesses that humble us and bring us to our
knees. Father believed that the person
who experiences same-sex attractions could lead a chaste and holy life in union
with Christ, and he encouraged us to say with St. Paul, “Most gladly, therefore, I will rather boast about my weaknesses, so
that the power of Christ may dwell in me.”
Not every same-sex attracted person who is living chastely is
necessarily in a position to publicly boast about his/her weaknesses, but those
who are can be a great witness and example to others.

I
should also mention that Father Harvey would not encourage the use of the terms
“gay” and “lesbian” for a variety of pastoral and philosophical reasons which I’ll
have to address in another post. Certainly, there are those who choose to publicly
self-identify as “gay” or “lesbian” who have also publicly made known their
commitment to chastity, and I have no doubt they are serious in their
commitment - but there are other implications and possible consequences of the
use of those terms which I think need to be considered; one example is the pressure
upon teenagers to identify themselves as “gay” or “lesbian” when they are still
in a very formative stage of their psychosexual development. Again, this will have to wait for another
post.

What
I’ve written so far is a very incomplete analysis of Father Harvey’s thought as
well as Melinda’s post, and there are several points which could be better
expressed. This is just my attempt to contribute
in some small way to the discussion at hand before another month goes by!

Sunday, September 19, 2010

Today, the Holy Father gave the title of "Blessed" to Cardinal John Henry Newman. Here's a poem by Blessed Cardinal Newman entitled "A Voice from Afar", reminding us of the joy and rest he has in God's presence:

Weep not for me;— Be blithe as wont, nor tinge with gloom The stream of love that circles home, Light hearts and free! Joy in the gifts Heaven’s bounty lends; Nor miss my face, dear friends!I still am near;— Watching the smiles I prized on earth, Your converse mild, your blameless mirth; Now too I hear Of whisper’d sounds the tale complete, Low prayers, and musings sweet. A sea before The Throne is spread;—its pure still glass Pictures all earth-scenes as they pass. We, on its shore, Share, in the bosom of our rest, God's knowledge, and are blest.

Friday, September 17, 2010

Sunday, September 12, 2010

This morning, I re-read sections 3 - 11 of Pope Benedict's first encyclical, Deus Caritas Est - God is Love. I'm currently reading St. Teresa of Avila's autobigraphy and I find that St. Teresa's description of the relationship between her soul and God is written in the language of eros - at least that's what it sounds like to me. Recently, someone reminded me that Pope Benedict wrote about eros in his first encyclical. I re-read the relevant sections of the encyclical this morning - beautiful stuff in there. Here are just a few short excerpts:

"True, eros tends to rise 'in ecstasy' towards the Divine, to lead us beyond ourselves; yet for this very reason it calls for a path of ascent, renunciation, purification and healing."

"The one God in whom Israel believes...loves with a personal love. His love, moreover, is an elective love: among all the nations he chooses Israel and loves her—but he does so precisely with a view to healing the whole human race. God loves, and his love may certainly be called eros, yet it is also totally agape."

"God is the absolute and ultimate source of all being; but this universal principle of creation—the Logos, primordial reason—is at the same time a lover with all the passion of a true love. Eros is thus supremely ennobled, yet at the same time it is so purified as to become one with agape."

I'm grateful for these reminders that God is not opposed to eros; rather, it is His gift to us, a means of drawing closer to Him through purification, and growth in maturity.