Am I trying to hard to get her to go out with me?

. THE QUESTION:Okay, so i made this document, where i put in different steps:1. Pick your movie ( i put a picture of 8 movies )2. Pick the time, ( i put al the time tables for all the movies in this doc.3. I checked the trains from her destination to a common location, screen printed it and put it in the doc4. Then i left the choice to go to the theatre by public transport, wich i got the time tables from too or by bike. And i put in a google maps view from the distance with the bike5. Then i gave her a choice to go home or bowling after the movie6. Again the transport part7. Then i had couple of titles8. Guaranteed:A good time, good behaviour, lame jokes, a good movie, good planned day.9. Why do it? :Because we are both awesome, no one will go though this much trouble to go out with you, etc10. Now it's up to you (her); pick an option11. So i gave her 3 options:Yes, no and raincheck12 under no i said, i'd rather she pick this if she really doesn't feel it. And i said, don't take the raincheck just not to hurt me, i rather you do it now, instead of stringin me along

ps: she took the raincheck, but was this awkward, cute or just creepy. And would you think i just want to be friends or more?

Extra infoSo I like this girl who is in some of the shared classes in college. We've been texting a lot and have a lot in common. This time i feel like this could turn into something real.

We went out once, she invited me to a party. But the friend that invited her was there too.

To get her alone for once i wanted to ask her out, but in a different way

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Well, it looks like she's scared she doesn't know you enough to go out with you, but she also doesn't wanna lose the chance. It looks good butHow well do you know this girl?How long have you guys been talking?

Okay you need to ask yourself how well you know her, like general nonsense. Her favorite color, movie, song, birthday etc.And if you know them give her a grace period of 10-14 days and ask her out again.If you dont know use that time to get to know her and ask her again.

Very important: it's not enough you alone knowing her, she should also get to know you, it should be a mutual getting to know each other.