When I went to college the first time before I dropped out I was really involved with the Christian groups on campus, so sexual exploration really didn't happen for me until after that. When I went back to college a few years later at a community college it didn't seem like the same amount of opportunities were there for that as they were at the university when I was 18 or 19.

I think the things I studied and people I hung out with validated my experiences and helped me have new ones. I also met many people and got out of my small town and high school relationship that weren't the best for sex.