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Our tech team has launched updates to The Nest today. As a result of these updates, members of the Nest Community will need to change their password in order to continue participating in the community. In addition, The Nest community member's avatars will be replaced with generic default avatars. If you wish to revert to your original avatar, you will need to re-upload it via The Nest.

If you have questions about this, please email help@theknot.com.

Thank you.

Note: This only affects The Nest's community members and will not affect members on The Bump or The Knot.

If you accidentally open someone else's mail...

And it looks kind of important...what are you supposed to do? Normally I notice that it's addressed to someone who doesn't live here anymore and I just write on the envelope "no longer lives here, return to sender", but yesterday I got some letter from a law firm and like an idiot just opened it without even looking at the address. I assumed it was something for DH's workers' comp and it was the company's law firm or something.

It's totally for one of the previous owners (it's a collection notice) and now I'm wondering what I should do. I don't want to get into trouble for opening it but I know it was just a mistake...should I send it back? Call the law firm? Throw it away? Am I overthinking this?