Re: "I am too old to love someone again"

One of my foreign friends talked with me today that he can only find someone to be a lover, but cannot be committed as a wife or girlfriend, and he confirmed that he is too old to love someone. What do you think of it?

Love alway joints with responsibility,that means when you love one person, you are going to care about her feeling, her future,etc. what your friend looks for , it is not one lover, or gf,only are some one to stay togther sometimes, without take any responsibilty of her. this is not love, we should call it one night stay or something else. But nothing do with the word of love.

ivoryho: Sure he can with his good position there, and I am happy that he can find someone who could be like the counterpart, who just has the same wish as him

To be honest, Many man use this as excuse to persude themself that they hold the right to be not serious with girls. of course, there are also many girls playing these kind of "games"too.. everyone holds the right to choose their lifestyle. The important things is "if they are the same birds of the same feather, they can flock together without problmes, if not, it will be a tragedy.