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by toot

Gender: fAge: 42Location: New ZealandHighest education received: Some college (not currently in college)Occupation: BankerHow religious are you? A littleSexual orientation: HeterosexualHow many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

First

How long ago did this hookup happen? Ages ago

How would you best classify this hookup? One night stand

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I wasn’t really attracted to him. I was 20 and still a virgin. I had known him for years and briefly went out with him at high school. We met up again at a night club. We drank and he lived not far from me, so we shared a cab. I lived across from a cemetery. My first sexual experience was in a cemetery.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? In the club. Flirting. No planning. Just pissed/drunk.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? Nothing kinky. Just drunken fumbling in a cemetery, just missionary.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? Nothing, we were drunk.

What were your REASONS for having this hookup? Drunk

Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? Yes..alcohol. Lots of it.

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I felt quite proud I was no longer a virgin. Was hoping I would never see him again. I have no feelings for him.

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I’ve told a few people. I think they were shocked….especially with the location.

Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? Yes

Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? No. Not really.

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? It was the beginning of many casual hook ups. Best…lost my virginity. Worst…my first was him.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? A little positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative

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