The best thing about being a woman Is the prerogative to have a little fun

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The best thing about being a woman Is the prerogative to have a little fun

Some songs seem to be written for t-girls. This one is one of my favorites. There are lots of (young?) people who have to find their identity and the way crossdressing fits into that. That may be a difficult period. But once you've found your own color, your own style and your own way to express yourself, you can only be very happy with your feminin part. I know I do! The combination of crossdressing and music is magical for me. I've recorded this song because in my opinion it's not just about natural born women, but especially for girls like us:

"The best thing about being a woman
Is the prerogative to have a little fun and
Oh, oh, oh, go totally crazy, forget I'm a lady
Men's shirts, short skirts
Oh, oh, oh, really go wild-yeah, doin' it in style
Oh, oh, oh, get in the action, feel the attraction
Color my hair, do what I dare
Oh, oh, oh, I want to be free yeah, to feel the way I feel
Man! I feel like a woman!"

I think there is a good deal of truth in those lyrics. Superficially women appear to be rather reserved in behavior, but underneath there is an experimenter and explorer. Men like to present an image of a fun fellow, but underneath they don't usually have a lot of nerve. That is definitely the case when it comes to gender expression. Women will often try most anything; men tend occupy a rather narrow range on the gender expression spectrum. Men tend to be more "conservative" while women are more "liberal" in expression. Men don't want to appear too emotional; women love to express emotion. Masculine gender has been described as Instrumental while feminine gender is described as Expressive.

250 T girls tearing up the Strip! Never been to T parties like theirs!

U can't keep doing the same things over and over and expect to enjoy life to the max. When u try new things, even if they r out of your comfort zone, u may experience new excitement and growth that u never expected.

Challenge yourself and pursue your passions! When your life clock runs out, you'll have few or NO REGRETS!

I think the fun she's referring to in the song, is limited to particular social situations such as dancing or playing around with their boyfriend/husband's clothes.

Originally Posted by GretchenM

Men like to present an image of a fun fellow, but underneath they don't usually have a lot of nerve. That is definitely the case when it comes to gender expression.

Gee, maybe men are usually able to have fun, explore and experiment without gender having anything to do with it? Virtually every exploration and experimenting of new things, has been done by men. Perhaps with so many other interests, crossing the gender lines simply isn't something that most men find enticing at all. Women historically envy all the freedoms & opportunities that men have, not the reverse (except of course on crossdresser forums!). What percentage of women are ski or snowboard aficionados that go to the tops of mountains in order to get the thrill of danger, sliding down areas at terrific speeds, where there are no paths? How many rock and cliff free climbers are women? Deep sea divers? Cliff divers? Hang gliders? Skydivers? Builders and pilots of ultralights? Sport motorcycle riders? Dirt bike riders?
All past times that are great fun, of which few women take part.
So there you go. Plenty of ways that men have fun, which had no prerequisites necessary of crossing gender lines at all.

Some causes of crossdressing you've probably never even considered: My TG biography at:http://www.crossdressers.com/forums/...=1#post1490560
There's an addendum at post # 82 on that thread, too. It's about a ten minute read.Why don't we understand our desire to dress, behave and feel like a girl? Because from childhood, boys are told that the worst possible thing we can be, is a sissy. This feeling is so ingrained into our psyche, that we will suppress any thoughts that connect us to being or wanting to be feminine, even to the point of creating separate personalities to assign those female feelings into.

The crossdressing community is one that needs to stick together and continue to be there for each other for whatever one needs. We are always trying to improve the forum to better serve the crossdresser in all of us.