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Shane. He had me wrapped around his little finger. I trusted him, and wanted nothing but to please him. Then he slept with a girl behind my back on my birthday. I was shattered. I couldn't eat for days, barely slept and cried randomly. It was horrible.

Oh yes. I have dated quite a bit. This one just seemed really genuine and kind. But he had another side I didn't pick up on for a while. You live and learn. And it was easy to move on when I realized "eww" haha

Posted this in a similar thread, but it's relevant so anyways... The first girl I fell in love with moved into a different house with the people I had lived with for the past couple years. Although we had been broken up for a while at this point we still occasionally hooked up and I still had feelings for her. Not long after moving in with my old roommates she came over one day to hang out and told me she started seeing one of my old roommates. They're still together, I'm still single, and I'd still love to see them get run over by a bus.

The tough thing for me is that you feel like that person is the only one that gets it. It feels like that for a while. Then I realize there's a girl out there who will like everything about me. And doesn't play any of those stupid games. I'm always slightly jealous when I read these threads and redditors have these amazing relationships with their partners.

Exactly a year ago today I started liking a boy in one of my clubs. We got pretty close, to the point where were were not official, but we were going out. He knew how much I liked him. And he decided to cut off all contact with me. Couldn't be a man and just tell me it is over and make a clean break. The asshole. And yet I still want him a year later. It is a problem.