Visitors' Questions during September 2003

This page will be revised at the beginning of each month.

The following are Hai's and other spirits' responses to miscellaneous
questions recently posed by visitors to this web site or by personal visitors to our home.
If you would like to ask a general question please complete the Question Form
or post it in one of the Web Board's forums. If you have a question of a more personal
nature please see the Consultations Page.

Magic Seal of Solomon

Q: I have heard that the inscriptions of the Magic Seal of Solomon can bring about
events in the physical world. How is it set in movement?

Hai: People are kidding themselves most of the time, so what is there to set in
movement? There are some instances where those who practice what you would call the "dark arts"
can bring about some change within the physical world. But in most instances, as in the case of
these inscriptions of which you speak, they were a magical formula, a ritual in which those
who made them had faith, had their trust in them. They put their effort and energies into them
that they may achieve their ends, or so they thought. But we would say that in most instances
this was without merit, this was without effect. For the effect which they hoped for, wished
for, did not come about, would not come about, could not come about.

There are many superstitions in your world. There are many superstitious people in your
world who think all kinds of things. Some people think that they must do things in certain
order or in certain way or some terrible thing will happen to them; some terrible thing will
come about. This is a disease of the mind, an obsession of the mind, a ritual that must be
performed in order for things to be ok. Likewise, if turn this around on its head, there are
those who are equally superstitious, but they believe by doing things they can bring about
change in the world, they can bring about a great effect in the world. Yet if we look at these
two things they are not that dissimilar; for if we think in the first case I mentioned to you:
the formula, the ritual, the ordered sequence of events, is performed in order that the world
will not impose upon the person; but it is a superstition, an unnecessary superstition. But in
the second event when the person performs things in a magical sequence the wished for effect
is that they will bring about change on the earth, in the physical events of the earth, yes?
But if we think about it are these things necessarily so different? For both depend upon the
belief, the feeling, that if we do things in a certain way, a certain order, either we can
protect ourselves from the earth, the physical forces of the earth, the events that may
oppress us on the one hand or we may be able to affect all these things, all these events
on the earth by following some magical formula, yes? So both, we would say, are superstition
leading to different consequences, different manifestations, but nevertheless are
superstitions.

In the case of the magical person of course, also there is a presence of ego, yes? An over-aggrandizement of ego, that they think they can and should be able to affect the world in this
way. But yet, likewise, even with the person who is oppressed, who feels oppressed by the
possibilities of earth, earthly forces, physical forces which may drown him, which may bear
down upon him, he also is attaching too much importance to his own ego, as if he is a target of
something. So we would say that in a fundamental way there is a problem of ego in most cases.

Q: Would it be right to think then that people who try to follow this path for
their personal development are in a way either kidding themselves or are mistaken?

Hai: Well you speak of magical formulas before yet what you speak of now in the
present moment is about development. So we must ask ourselves what is your concern, what is
your interest in this. Is it development, or is it some other issue?

Q: It was just general curiosity. Leading on from my first question, I am going on
to development now.

Hai: Well development is a different matter all together. But we would say that if
you wish to link these in some way we would say, as we have said before, that all formulae, all
rigid ways of doing things are not necessary to our development. We have explained to Eileen
in the past that sometimes some rituals may be harmless, maybe ok, for the particular person
involved, if this helps the person to attune to the energies, to find their way forward, yes.
But the formulas, the rituals, the sequence in itself is not important. Whether it is performed
or not is not important. The development will take place if the people are concerned, if they
are committed and wish to develop. But the ritual, the sequence of action may assist them,
may facilitate their minds to become open, to attune, to adjust to that which they need to do.
If this is the case there is no harm in this, provided they do not become compulsory things
that the person must do and in this case they would take over the person.

Money and Abundance in Life

Q: If you live purely within the Universal Law and concentrate, is it possible
to bring unlimited money and abundance into your life?

Hai: Yes if you reach out with honest intent it may be that you will bring to you,
draw to yourself the means of accomplishing that which you seek. But it does not have to be
purely mental, ethereal, ephemeral. It may be the intent can also impress itself in more
concrete actions of your daily life, yes. So you give out signals, in other words, of your
need, of your hope, of your intent and others may respond if they are kindly disposed (smiling).
They may respond to you to help you in your need. Not that I say that you are needy in the
sense of someone who is in great need, but that you have a need to accomplish something for
the good of all, the good of others and therefore you may attract to yourself in various ways
people who may be of some assistance and help to you.

Q: Is there is a need to keep what we need secret?

Hai: No, if you keep it secret you may find it harder to achieve.

Question of the Month

Divine Love

Q: If in your life there are people who you genuinely donít want to hurt and you
care about but make you cross, how does this affect us?

Hai: Then you look deep into their heart so that you loose your agitation with them.

Q: Is this something that I particularly have to learn this time?

Hai: It is something we all must learn. It takes a long time sometimes to learn this
lesson. For this lesson goes against human nature to an extent, yes? It is unnatural, not
expected of us to like, to love everyone. And yet to love everyone is our destiny, is our
divine mission. Therefore as unnatural as it is, as much as it goes against the grain, yes we
must try to strive to do this. But I do not say it is about accepting everything that everyone
does, condoning everything everyone does, for this would be not be correct. But we must learn
to love the person beyond their actions.

Q: Wouldnít you still get irritated with the action? For example, we love our
children, but their actions often irritate us.

Hai: Yes this is natural. This is human.

Q: Are we allowed to be irritated, if our inner core really cares?

Hai: But you ask me deeper question, you see. For you ask me ultimately: "What is Divine
Love?" You do not ask me: "What is human love?" (Laughing). You are asking me: "What is Divine
Love?" And so I tell you what is Divine Love. Divine Love reaches down to the depths of person
and does not see irritation, does not perform irritation.

Q: Well we havenít learnt Divine Love then.

Hai: But you have deep love, but your love is not to perfection because you say to me:
"Well, I love this person deeply but Iím going to punch them next time because they irritate
me." (Laughter). This is creating duality. This is creating a split between your love and your
feeling. So I say to you this is ok, (smiling). Not that I want you to punch anyone, but this
is ok. For we are all pilgrims; we are all journeying along the road. But you point me to
Divine Love so I give you my answer.

Q: Is it possible to experience Divine Love while in the physical body?

Hai: You are Divine Love. You are made of Divine Love. You are Divine Love.

Q: Is that possible in our physical body with our physical mind?

Hai: I have told you, physical body, physical mind, is neither here nor there. It is
the instrument for you, the tool for you. It behaves itself according to your need.

Q: Well if we are Divine Love, why canít we be like that?

Hai: Because you are a grain of sand which attaches too much importance to itself. Yet
if it could only learn the lesson that it is not important it would discover that it is all
important. Yes, another riddle for you.

Q: The problem is that the irritation comes so fast, almost before we are aware
of it.

Hai: Irritation, yes, but why do you get irritated? You get irritated because you go
into your daughterís room (laughing) and you have concept of what her room should look like.
And when you go into the chaos which is her room you are, (laughing), you are bowled over,
over ridden by the chaos which is her room. If you go into the room with concept of total
chaos, greater chaos, untidiness, muck, dirt and so on, then when you next go into chaos that
is your daughterís room you are pleasantly pleased; you are not ruffled.

So these things are
relative, they are comparable, they are comparative, and it is our mind, which creates this
agitation. For someone used to doing things in a long-winded way, in a way which takes much
time, they feel comfortable with this. But for someone who is in a hurry all the time, who
does things speedily and quickly, they encounter this person who is slow in their movements,
in their doings, in their actions. They become mighty frustrated with this person, yes, but,
it is the contrast with their own self, their own being, their own actions, their own
temperament and persona that is the source of this agitation. We must recognise these
differences between ourselves. We must accept these differences between ourselves for they
are the richness of human tapestry, yes, and are important.

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spirit friends. Ask about life in the spirit world and get their perspective
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