I had the pleasure of organising a Gone With the Wind Ball last Saturday night. Pictured here is a group photo taken just after supper. If you would like to come to more of our balls, please visit our upcoming page.

We were very lucky on this occasion to have special guests from the Australian Costumers Guild in attendance, traveling from South Australia and Queensland specially for this event.

Underneath the half robe will be a round robe (or round gown) that is presented in Norah Waugh's book, The Cut of Women's Clothes. Not being a frilly sort of person, I plan to leave the frills off for now.

Monday, May 5, 2008

I had a shock yesterday. I filled in a calculator to see if it was profitable to sell my regency gowns. I found that if I wanted to earn a base wage I should be selling them for approx. $400. I couldn't believe it!I've already had to go and raise the prices on all my garments because of shipping rates getting the fabric here. I felt horrible doing this but it is not fair to my family to make these beautiful gowns for a loss. Don't worry, I'm still keeping the costs down as much as I'm able.I've re-vamped my website to reflect the new prices and am adding new gowns to the collection to include ones made using the patterns from Janet Arnold's 'Patterns of Fashion'.Last night I put a few up on ebay, for a much reduced rate than normal to see if I can catch a few sales while I have time up my sleeve.

Sunday, May 4, 2008

I managed to cut out, line and sew a bodice for another romantic era dress, using the S&S pattern, one of my favourites. I tried a different neckline and will have it close at the back. I've used the long sleeve option, as it is coming into Winter here and the days are quite chilly.This is a most flattering pattern, particularly for larger shaped bodies, and is the one garment that I receive compliments on if I'm wearing it. This time I'm using a particularly lovely fabric, and will share it with you when I have a chance.These style dresses are seen in the movie, Wives and Daughters. If you haven't seen it yet, you must! Its absolutely gorgeous and has a great storyline.

Saturday, May 3, 2008

Members from the Sense and Sensibility Forum are hosting a Week in Feminine Dress from Sunday, May 4th through Sunday May 11th.I guess that I wear feminine dress most of the time, though it really depends on your definition of feminine.Thinking that I should update my other website at In Timely Fashion I found this article on being feminine.

Follow these steps to become more feminine, but remember that this is a sometimes stereotypical view of femininity, and you should have much higher goals than just trying to look feminine!

Steps

Take care of your hair and make sure it smells good. Regular haircuts will keep it healthy and allow it to grow faster. Long hair is known to be feminine; however, short hair can look alluring as well (think Audrey Hepburn, Mia Farrow, Halle Berry, Cameron Diaz and Rhianna).

Keep make-up minimal. Mascara, lip gloss and powder will make you look great on any given day. More than that and your skin will suffer for it, which will put you in a vicious cycle of having to put more and more make-up on. we shouldn't have to spend so much time on it we are beautiful anyway.

Dress in what makes you happy, but make sure you present yourself in a positive light. Short shirts can definitely be cute, but not with torn fishnets, a crop top and a thong showing, for example. If you have trouble dressing appropriately, just think about whether you'd let your own kids out of the house that way.

Don't be obnoxious, but being outgoing and feisty is attractive in a woman. If you're quiet and happy that way, just let your inner charm out once in awhile to remind everyone how great you are. As if they could forget!

Don't fish for compliments. As a modern woman, you'll realize all the wonderful things about yourself all on your own, and compliments from others are just gravy. Enjoy those compliments when you get them, though!

Realize that famous women get a LOT of help with their looks; it's a full-time job for them. If you were to spend that much time and money on your looks, you'd be broke and have no life, and be a very shallow person to boot!

Remove any body hair that makes you feel less than confident, especially if that body part will be on display. By all means, grow that leg hair in the winter! Why not?

Try not to use profanities. A good naughty joke or expletive when you stub your toe is acceptable, but regularly peppering your conversation with swear words makes you look unintelligent.

Be aware of your posture. Good posture makes you look more alert, confident and approachable.

Be smart. More women are going to university than men right now, but we are also getting paid less in the job force. We think we're over the juvenile 'dumbing ourselves down', but when you play down your intelligence as you grow older you are affecting your own career, and the careers of women everywhere.

Tips

Follow these steps for femininity, but make sure you have a well-rounded personality. In all honesty, no one's going to refer to you as 'that feminine girl', you're more likely to get 'that boring girl'. This list is a good basis to build on though.

If you have talents such as ballet, writing, art, etc., try and make it known without bragging. Stereotypically 'masculine' talents are amazing to have too, like being good at hockey or math, but they won't help if your goal is to be feminine.

Remember these key words: intelligence, confidence, personality. Think about all the woman you admire, they will probably have these traits.

Warnings

This is a stereotypical view of femininity. Of course you can be girly and not follow a lot of these rules, but this is one way of definitely coming across as feminine.

Article provided by wikiHow, a collaborative writing project to build the world's largest, highest quality how-to manual. Please edit this article and find author credits at the original wikiHow article on How to Be Feminine. All content on wikiHow can be shared under a Creative Commons license.

I really do not recommend sewing late at night. After running around with the children all day it lures me in with its peaceful serenity, then takes a mean turn.I have my trusty sewing machine in for repairs, and an old singer on the table that wants to act up, and goodness knows how many times I've had to unpick because of tension problems.Someone told me once never to cut fabric after 10pm.

Friday, May 2, 2008

My boys are lying in bed this evening listening to Marry Poppins, a BBC Audio 4 CD set read by Sophie Thompson.This is a lovely production, well worth looking for if you have a chance. I purchased it on sale in a remaindered bookstore. The boys really look forward to bedtimes with these special treats.

Thursday, May 1, 2008

In studying the antique and comparing them with the modern fashions, there are no greater contrasts than in the styles of headdress.Women always wore flowing drapery, of course varying with fashion's freaks, but still, from the time of the most antique statue to the present day, flowing skirts are found, sometimes suffered to fall in the folds of the material, sometimes drawn gracefully(?) over three or four tiers of hoops. Now in dressing the hair there is no set style of arrangement, "on the contrary, quite the reverse," as Paddy has it. We find, first, the classic style, then the pyramid, then loosely flowing, then a la Chinois, then in bandeaux, again in braids and puffs or curls, and occasionally a slight return to the classic. Of course, with the hair arranged as it was worn some twenty-four or five years ago, it would have been absurd to wear a modern bonnet, and so these pretty head protectors must vary with the style of coiffure they cover or display.

A box of hoops has arrived and is currently residing in our lounge room. It will be such an amazing sight at our Gone With the Wind 1860s Ball on the 17 May. Everyone has been spending their spare time making sure their dresses are ready.

Yes, you can hire a hoop from me! There are plenty to go around @ $30 hire. Collection is to be on Friday 16 May, between 10.30am - 2pm.

Have you saved all of your ball tickets? I must admit to being remiss about tickets - normally I just let people pay at the door to our balls, but starting last month I've created a monster: collectible ball tickets.Now when you pre-purchase a ticket to one of our balls I am posting it out in a special folder. It seems so much nicer.

My collection of 12+ regency dresses for hire are hanging in the trees drying. Quite an amazing sight, with the sun coming through leaves tinged with autumnal gold.Making these gowns was a challenge, but seeing them put to full use during the Jane Austen Festival was an absolute delight. I have always wanted to have a collection available for those without a gown or time to make one.Our next regency-themed ball will be on the 18th October, a Pride & Prejudice Ball.