Create another profile with no text and no photos except private pics of extreme closeups of your dick and ass. Unlock those pics for whoever you find hot on RJ. Send a followup message limited to one can't-miss word: "'sup." They'll come running. Guaranteed. Works every time.

eagermuscle saidCreate another profile with text and no photos except private pics of extreme closeups of your dick and ass. Unlock those pics for whoever you find hot on RJ. Send a followup message limited to one can't-miss word: "'sup." They'll come running. Guaranteed. Works every time.

Damn - I have tried all of this, and it didn't work Something must be wrong with me... *cry more* Seriously, this one made me laugh out loud!

In my experience you take a look at their profile, then find that they are 35 years on one side or the other of your age and live in someplace like Idaho or Barcelona and speak only Swahili. If this is not a deterrent you will find, after writing them, that the profile is fake and that they actually live in Nigeria where they were recently bequeathed a large sum. They are HIV negative, but ave stomach worms.

brokeNYCartist saidare u allowed to just email them or is that kinda creepy?...do you just hot list them and hope they email you? i have no idea what to do. teach me.

I think you should send them YouTube videos titled "The Dance Before the Daylight" and "We Have Seen Empires Rise and Fall." Make sure to include some message about death and the filthy and repentance. I've been doing this for weeks and it works like a charm. Good luck!

LJay saidIn my experience you take a look at their profile, then find that they are 35 years on one side or the other of your age and live in someplace like Idaho or Barcelona and speak only Swahili. If this is not a deterrent you will find, after writing them, that the profile is fake and that they actually live in Nigeria where they were recently bequeathed a large sum. They are HIV negative, but ave stomach worms.

Now for the negative examples...

lol =)) oh come one seriously..

ON TOPIC:...god last guy i wanted from realjock was a jerk ...so yea ...some of them (the hotties) will just end up leaving you a bad taste in your mouth....but try ...as my anatomy teacher said you will never learn from advice's till you live the moments on your own skin then you will take them in consideration

Say hello. Then begin a long, drawn-out online relationship, culminating to an actual meeting maybe a year later. A physical and emotional attraction develops, you date, but then one day you eventually break-up, never to talk again. This has actually happened to me. So I avoid the hotlist button.

You're allowed to follow up in whatever way you want. You can hot list then email him. Or you could hot list him and hope he emails you. Or you could just stalk his profile until he emails you to ask why you're always under the "SEE ALL MEMBERS WHO HAVE VIEWED YOU" section.

If you're interested in starting a conversation, though, it would be best to just send that message. Whether or not you hotlist him is your call. Sending the message will at least lets him know you're interested in...talking