BZ&Gloria’s deliciously spontaneous on-the-couch #realworldsex was our very first submission. I was fascinated the first time I watched it to find that no matter how hot the action (and it’s hot) I could not stop looking at Gloria’s face. She was aroused, she was loving it, she looked adorable how much she was enjoying herself, and I was utterly riveted just watching her face. You don’t see faces like that in porn.

A sense of place

We love our Italian MLNPstars, MagicLovers. I particularly enjoyed their #realworldsex weekend in Rome, watching them get turned on in the train, seeing their hotel and what they got up to in their room. We ask you to contextualize your #realworldsex, because context is HOT. A member wrote to us to tell us how fascinating she found the background glimpses of our MLNPstars’ homes, bedrooms, #realworldlives, and I wholeheartedly agree.

It’s not about length

I also loved the setting in Mr & Mrs Lau’s ferry ride from the UK to the Netherlands, in the captain’s cabin. We don’t stipulate timelength for submissions, because in #realworldsex time spent is no measurement of anything. Mr & Mrs Lau’s #realworldsex video is only 3 minutes, but what a 3 minutes!

Pegging can save the world

We don’t classify our #realworldsex videos by ‘Most Popular/Viewed’. That’s because there’s no comparison, and we don’t believe in making one. Different people respond to different things (a poll of the MLNP.tv team ourselves demonstrates that). But I will say that we’ve been pleased to see a lot of interest in our pegging videos, from the fabulous Violet & Rye, and the equally fabulous Nebbish & Goddess. Pleased for all the reasons Charlie Glickman highlights in this must-read post ‘How Pegging Can Help Save The World’

Infinite variety

I love seeing more videos from our MLNPstars that mean we get to know them better and see how their #realworldsex plays out over time in all its multi-faceted glory.The very first video Ionsquares submitted, of #realworldsex in a truck because they had nowhere else to go, had me wanting more, and their collection of videos demonstrate the full spectrum of all the things a couple can enjoy – quickies, slowies, roleplay – when you love and trust each other.

Downtown Abbey *

When ionsquares submitted a video described as ‘Here is a deliciously up-close video of me licking my lover’s pussy. I’ve always considered myself a gentleman. In my house, my lady comes first’, while I applauded the sentiment wholeheartedly, I am not a fan of extreme gynaecological close-ups (I prefer to stay away from anything overly resembling open-heart surgery, a line I can’t take credit for as it comes from Candida Royalle). Well – MIND. CHANGED. As SexNerdSandra said about going down on a woman, ‘If your eyebrows aren’t wet you’re not doing it right.’

One of our male members (heh) told us, ‘Watching porn makes me want to jerk off. Watching your videos makes me want to have sex.’ MLNP.tv plays a different role to porn. We’re not just masturbatory material; like every other social media platform, we’re about connecting people, through better communication around sex, better sexual relationships, making for better relationships, period. When I watch BiLikesScifi enjoying seven minutes in heaven, my immediate thought is, ‘I need to get me some of that!’ (Good news for every young gentleman crossing my path immediately following….:))

Smile

Many of you have written to us saying things like, ‘I watch your videos with a big smile on my face’, and, ‘Your videos are joyful in a way that porn isn’t’. #realworldsex is fun, and funny. We adore pornstar Lily Cade and her #realworldsex with her #realworldgirlfriends; here Lily and fellow pornstar Aaliyah Love share a lot of fun, a lot of laughter, a lot of hotness, a LOT of orgasms and a running commentary on how all of this differs from the way they’re expected to perform in front of the camera. As Aaliyah says, ‘I wish all porn could be like this.’

Mo’ men

As a straight woman, I enjoy watching gay porn – because it shows me more of what I’m into, ie men. I really enjoy gay #realworldsex – we want more of it but for some reason, while our gay male fans have promised submissions, they are so far spectacularly failing to deliver. Guys – REPRESENT! In the meantime, I am in love with Dale Cooper and Colby Keller. If either batted for my team, I would so do them. As it is, I’m extremely happy watching their wonderful, loving #realworldsex.

Videoing is transformative

When Havingfun submitted their sizzlingly hot video of little-black-dress-plus-sex-toys #realworldsex, the female half wrote to tell us, ‘Making the film was one of the most rewarding experiences of my life and a fabulously bonding experience with my partner.’ Even we had not realized how much the actual process of videoing your #realworldsex can open up communication, make the sex even hotter, and strengthen relationships (something we’ve heard from more of you since). We love that!

We believe #realworldsex is more innovative, more amazing, more creative, more surprising, more hot, more arousing and more wonderful than porn can ever be. This incredible video by xxxotter is a demonstration of that. This may or may not turn you on, but I promise you you will be as riveted as I was by his extraordinary ability to get hard and come purely by caressing his nipples. <le sigh> I wish I had the female capability to do that…..

I could go on and on – I want to see more of George&Babs; I love that EllaBella relaxed into feeling able to show her face and come loud and proud with us; I’m thrilled two_sybarite have been married twenty-six years and are sharing their forays into BDSM with us (we would like to help ‘de-kinkify’ the kind of sex a lot more people could be enjoying if society hadn’t impressed on so many of us that we mustn’t go there). But this post is already rather long, so I’ll have to do Part Two in due course.

I want to thank all of you for supporting us – our members and MLNPstars alike. Please, pick up a camera or cameraphone and share your #realworldsex with us. It is a privilege and a joy to be allowed to share in your intimate moments. When I view your videos, I am overwhelmed by your openness, your honesty, your love, your beauty – everyone is beautiful when they are having #realworldsex, no exceptions – your laughter, your generosity, your humanness.

Three years ago, Ridley Scott produced the film ‘Life In A Day’, crowdsourced from 80,000 clips submitted to YouTube showing life around the world on a single day, July 24 2010.

It’s a moving and inspiring movie that I highly recommend. Maybe one day, if all goes well, we’ll all be able to put together the MLNP.tv version – ‘Life In A Night’. And everyone will be able to see the varied, fascinating, equally moving and inspiring, sheer wonderfulness that is how the world has #realworldsex.

One Response to “Hump Day Special: 16 #realworldsex videos that get Cindy going”

What a devilishly wonderful picture Cindy !!! And a wonderful collection of recommendations that will have me exploring more!!!
But I also wanted to reiterate how refreshing, and inspiring, it has been to discover the likes of Violet + Rye, BZ & Gloria, Lily Cade etc here. Refreshing because (perhaps I’m old fashioned) but I haven’t really watched and enjoyed erotic videos since the days of Nina Hartley and Jeannie Pepper. Those videos somehow seemed at least fun and more real (and therefore more arousing), than all the plastic and staged deluge of videos since then. But you and #realworldsex, and the likes of your stars mentioned above, changed all that. Suddenly I realised that the “home-movies” Hubby and I had been making (and with some of my willing lovers) could perhaps be as arousing and enjoyable to other people, as they were to us. The giggling and fumbling, the just kissing and cuddling . . . suddenly I realised we weren’t alone.
You, and your contributors, have been an inspiration and given us much joy and warmth and tingles.
Thank you, thank you . . . AND huge love to you all !!!
Xxx – Katie (aka Modesty Ablaze)