I'm Owen Cook (aka RSD Tyler) the co-founder / executive producer of Real Social Dynamics, and the author of "The Blueprint Decoded" -- I was born in Ottawa Canada (1979) and majored in philosophy at Queens University. Now live and work in Los Angeles California -- My life consists of managing Real Social Dynamics, running Bootcamp and Hot Seat, going to the gym, reading everything under the sun, and a twice a week surfing habit.

(Before getting started: I’m putting on a Free Event in Phoenix this Thursday June 10th, from 6:00PM to 8:30PM at the W Scottsdale. IE: The most pimp ass hotel in Phoenix, next to all the badass clubs. If you’re remotely within driving distance, be absolutely sure to check it out and meet me in person.)

So I think this is pretty cool…

If you read my recent article about the work binge to prepare Hot Seat last month (the article I posted before this one), and how I did talks in NYC and D.C. despite being allllll f**ked up (ie: on days of little / no sleep), then you’ll now get to see it on video.

That’s right: the article will now “come to life.” :)

This week I’ll be posting videos of the Free Tour event in NYC, and then next week I’ll post up DC, and finally I’ll post up Las Vegas.

In NYC I’m basically all jacked up in adrenaline from staying up like two days straight to finish the Hot Seat launch, flying directly to NYC immediately afterwards, and doing the talk the same day on no sleep. I get in there and thinking it’ll be 80 people or so, and lo and behold, it’s 330 people!!

(Papa and Brad have literally spent the whole day getting them to give us a room three times the size.)

I see it and I’m like, “Well, FUCK IT. Let’s have fun!!” Then I basically GO OFF for the next three hours. It was great.

Then in DC I’m past the point of exhaustion and basically out of my mind, sort of speaking in a chilled out half-daze (I think it’s pretty cool).

Finally in Vegas I’ve had a few days off to recover, so I look more normal again. I think the two clips I chose from that talk are pretty valuable as well. If you enjoy them, I’ll post up clips from my upcoming events in Phoenix, Miami, Chicago, Honolulu, and Seattle.

(Go to www.rsdfreetour.com to check the times and dates on these – they’re all coming up soon.)

Anyway here’s the three three clips from NYC. Be sure to watch ALL THREE as the content is unique and important. Have fun!!

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Anyway hope that was fun!! Let me know what you learned, and more importantly, how these ideas relate to your own experiences.

Tyler

PS: Both Jeffy and I are in Phoenix for Free Tour, Hot Seat, and Bootcamp. The bootcamp is a rare situation where BOTH Jeffy and I will be teaching, and there is a seat remaining if you want to attend.

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Awesome. soon there will be bona fide playas all around the world, motivation for keep getting better hehe.
If you look back at the videos of back in the day from DYD, you seem like the cool brother ofTD haha.

Gotta question, these days. Let's say if you encounter the same scenario with the 6ft 2 swedish super hot girl and some guys around, do you still feel like "no way im aproaching that", and because of your wishy washy approach probably get blown out inmediatley?.

You gotta still "WARM UP" to get in state?. Or are you already in state (feeling confident cool), and you only need to warm up to get into a social headspace?.

Dude your teaching some Blueprint stuff in these videos but communicating the ideas even better than in The Blueprint, it seems so much more streamlined but your still getting the key info in about things like Intent.

Maybe it's just because I've watched and studied Blueprint alot but I definatley see a ''less is more'' kind of thing going on with your speaking, it's really cool and easier to undrstand, good job man.

One of my buddies and I are gonna take a bootcamp with Ozzie next year, but these free events look fuckin awesome.

I just got fired from my job, and the money that i gonna get I will spent all in an cultural exchange ( here in Brazil to one city near of those events ) to make some money and pay for awesome events like that! I just think that it is unfair for those ones who doesn't live near in cities and you guys dont even will make an release with dvd series??

WFT ARE U PEOPLE DOING?

I just need to finish my studies here to finally travel after my destiny of glory!

and i really want to do something that back in 2004 I dont think that was possible: meet you in person!

I'll be to a Hotseat, but first I am biking to Montreal to see a metal band play with some old friends, then I will bike to Toronto where I will get to see Papa. Then after that I might go to a university to upgrade my education.
Great article Tyler.

Actualy, and on the first term of that it doesn't matter. While it is true that my own opinions matter to myself and some things just don't relate not even THIS, also I am quite angry right now lol, everybody gets angry. While the iconicity of what I first said could be considered 'ironic' but its just not. I have things to do.. also could be my own asumption, I can see the paradox within myself but it doesn't matter. 'Biking' to Hotseat, I should be fine. On second thought, if anyone where to go against that I will be biking to wherever that I want to go, what is a form of projection, they can use thier own 'opinion' for themselves. But I will be doing what I am legally allowed to do. Well enough about myself I am sure nobody cares, and if they do then well thats all I can do.

Actually I will forget about the notion of the paradox, and just try to be direct even though that there is misinterpretations. Papa doesn't have to like me but I will be minding my own business there. Regardless of misinterpretations, I am human after all, and I will try to be present for the time being, and at hotseat.

I think people actually become funnier when sleep deprived.
On several occasions I've had friends say things such as, "Wow, you should never sleep, you're actually cool right now."
Never really thought too hard about it until I started to learn about reaction seeking behavior, expressiveness, and pinging.
Any thoughts Owen?
Here, for example, I notice you're less polished than I'm used to, but your range of expression seems amped up and you are going from one character voice or affectation to another mid-sentence without (seemingly) thinking as associations seem to strike you.
Did you feel more present during this talk than typical talks where you're rested?

I don't like clips though - you should make a product that's a compilation DVD of all the free tour footage. or edited to hell and back to extract the best info so no overlapping persists.... I'd pay for that the day it launches and know lots of others who would as well.

Just rewatched the whatever your resist persists. My boss is not doing much of being a boss and I got caught up in the situation and forgot that I just moved to China and was getting laid like crazy having a blast with new people and his impact is minimal on me. But i will do my best to change the situation for but need to understand where the fuck I am, look around and enjoy, rather than get stuck up about how bad something is. What is right in this moment?