Anyone in Connecticut do BHLMs? If so, what's the cost/time estimate to do it? I want to get it done to my headlights but I don't trust myself enough with taking apart the housing (don't want to scratch/snap anything).

I just did my first set, like you, I was a little nervous, but it's not a big deal at all. Follow the sticky and you will be fine. It's way more of a bitch to take the lights of your truck than the BHLM is.