"But Torie... He doesn't deserve you. What if he doesn't sober up, and he's drunk around the child? Not only that, but your child could grow up seeing their father treat their mother poorly, and they might believe that's normal and carry that into their future relationships. Hell, he might not even be around much for your child, and you'll have to raise it almost like a single mother. You child is one reason that you shouldn't be with him."