Female and male decisions implicating on intimate relationships and dynamics

Sunday, 20 July 2014

Female feelings towards male tattoos

“You haven’t
won or lost a penny until you sell the stock itself.”

I
suspect a regular unspoken thought within modern day minds is with reference to
the projected sexual attraction that men’s tattoos have on the eyes female
onlookers. Tattoos have become a
commonplace in our lives of today, almost to a point where, in certain social
environments, you are in the minority if you do not sport one or two ink
patterns on your arms, legs or back.
It’s pointless in a man asking a woman for her view on the appeal that
tattoos bring to the table, because the female voice will tell him what her ego
tells her. More often than not, the
voice will be speaking words along the lines of a nice, clean man to take care
of her, yet she is later walking alongside someone who portrays the opposite to
what she says. Once more, watch rather
than listen.

Some
people can go overboard with tattoos, in my opinion. I am told that they become addictive, almost
like a drug, after you have incorporated the first one onto the body. Call it a tattoo epidemic, if you like. But in a similar way, a purist cannot simply
dismiss their attraction onto women and state they are only an emblem that a
low-life man would sign up for. This is
certainly not the case, and it can be backed up in the real world when you see
certain women alongside tattooed men.

In
terms of male tattoos in the sexual market, it is an easy and perhaps idle
assumption to split the groups in two.
That is; beta males do not have any tattoos whilst alpha males are the
men seen with them. This is a lazy and
inaccurate view. For starters, I do not
have one tattoo to my name. I’m not
totally against them, and I would never rule out having just one to represent
my late father’s country of origin and his birth to deceased dates. However, despite no current exploitation, I
would confidently say that I, similar to other men without tattoos, portray far
greater charisma, confidence, attitude, good body language and swagger – traits
associated with alpha males - than the vast majority of men with tattoos who
appear to walk with their heads down and shoulders slouched. Simply put, a tattoo on a man cannot make up
for a demeanour that represents someone who knows he is the shit in an environment.

But
certain aspects to a tattoo can conceal, to an extent, the lack of inner
confidence in a man. More than half the
guys between the ages of 20 to 45 in the gym I attend will have at least one
tattoo that can be seen by female members.
Much more than half of these men (with tattoos) are walking around with
a look that construes the world’s problems on their heads. There is no upright posture or confident walk
to be seen. I know this by the number of
times I walk past them to acknowledge, only for them to have no belief in their
veins to do the same. Then again, I do
tend to make most women and men appear uncomfortable in this respect. I wonder why…

Nevertheless,
despite this lack of internal belief and confidence, in addition to poor body
language and presence, men with tattoos can positively elevate a woman’s
perception of him in comparison to him acting the same way without a
tattoo. A woman’s innate character is to
seek what is forbidden and challenging.
Movies, novels and fantasy thoughts only further compound this already
formed female mindset. A man
representing this portrait is known as a bad boy. Bad boys, by and large, are accustomed to be
seen with a tattoo or two (or three, four….).
So in spite of his apparent shortcomings, these patterns, words and
pictures seen on his body will leverage her attraction and increase his
mystique. This factor alone is a huge
benefit for a man to have a tattoo engraved.

Segmenting
the female market

Of
course, whilst tattoos will, in today’s world, enhance projected female sexual
attraction onto a man in the vast majority of occasions, this isn’t to say all
women will be further forthcoming in picking out the same men as boyfriend and
husband material. There are crossovers,
but this will be a decent rule of thumb to go by:

The more “common”, deprived, poor
(in wealth terms), low social class, drama seeking, low confident,
insecure, uneducated, unintelligent and naïve a woman is, the more likely
she is to choose a man with tattoos for both sexual endeavours and
boyfriend choice.

The more affluent, self-entitled,
self-indulged, high social class, confident, self-assured, content with
everyday events in life, educated, intelligent and astute a woman is, the
more likely she is to stray away from a man with tattoos, and only seek
him out on sporadic occasions for better sexual fantasy and enjoyment.

To
reiterate, this isn’t absolute, but you wouldn’t go far wrong with this train
of thought. I would expect that you know
far more women who sit to the side of the first group of females as explained,
and if this is the case, more women would be attracted to a man with tattoos
than repelled from him.

The
hotness level of a woman also isn’t relative to whether you should be looking
at a tattoo seeker or not. Hot and cute
women can belong to wealthy, average income and poor backgrounds, so don’t go
looking for tell-tale signs that way prior to knowing something about her
daddy’s profession. Because whilst a hot
girl from a poorer family will be more inclined with association for jerks (who
just so happen to have tattoos), a woman from rich parentage may be a little
more resistant of this type of man for the longer haul.

Separating
the male candidates

Ugly men will receive neither
very little benefit or detriment in displaying tattoos. As women worth having will already be
repulsed by him, the tattoo in its form of attention onto her eyes is pretty
much an oblivious signature. All the advantages
that tattoos can produce are negated on an ugly man.

Average looking men will receive
the largest scope of potential leveraged attention from women by showing off
tattoos. Although an average man will
not strike an unknown woman’s eyes on first glance without high social profile,
he is likewise not causing her any discomfort, jealous or repulsive
emotions. As he sits firmly in the middle
ground of her disposition towards his existence, an average man in physical
attractiveness terms can make her ask that few more questions in her mind if
she sees a tattoo. With the right level
of positive attitude to combine with his tattoo, a woman’s indifferent feelings
can soon be transformed to desires in knowing more about him. As alluded to on various occasions within
this blog, the vast majority of women want to find an average man attractive,
but he cannot just stand still and hope she pro-acts due a good self-centred rush
derived from his comparative lesser looks.
He still has to do something to catch her interest.

Good looking men can also
benefit from tattoos in the eyes of women.
Unlike his impressive facial image, toned body and good clothing style –
that put most women’s noses out of joint – tattoos have no such negative
effect. Along with the intrigue and bad
boy reputation they bring, tattoos on a good looking man also take him further
along the “edgy” curve of good looks, and away from the irritable feelings she
has of his admirable features. You could
argue it toughens him up concurrent to blemishing his all so glamorous
existence.

And
as a tiny anecdote, let me elaborate on the last point above.I recently severed a 4 inch scar sustained
from my ex-girlfriend (then girlfriend of 2 ½ years - albeit on/off) on our “romantic” vacation
in Italy.It wasn’t pre-determined, but
let me just say that she was filing her nails at the same time I directed one
or two smart comments her way as the hamster wheel picked up speed.One minute my right arm was unblemished, the
next minute I was pouring with blood.When I arrived back to England, the pink line of skin could not be
hidden from the glowing tan I had developed, and naturally many people asked me
what had happened.When I told them
about the incident, in addition to the stand out mark, intrigue and defect that
a scar brings out, I couldn’t help but notice an air of extra attraction in my
vision of women’s all so obvious expressions.The only woman who came across as genuinely upset and disappointed was
my mother.I think this tells its own
story.

As
a man, you need to be very careful if you are one of those more idealistic folk
who are prepared to listen, and believe, what women tell you when their
emotions, egos and agendas are to be put on the firing line. Tattoos are a prime example. My step-sister had always stated that she
didn’t find men with tattoos attractive or appealing. When her options became more limited, and she
bumped into a man who fits her sexual predilections (despite him being a
low-life, dense and poor earning man with a child from a previous
relationship), she ended up dating someone who has ink designs on most parts of
his anatomy. This also included tacky
engraving of his daughter’s and ex-girlfriend’s (the mother of his child)
names.

This
is where any naïve man has to stand up and take responsibility for his world of
ideology. Women will fib until the cows
come home, they will not always be totally sure what they truly desire, and
they will tell you things that attempt to maintain their integrity and
morals. These habits will, on more cases
than not, be adverse to how they actually choose to live their lives and make
the choices they proceed with. Do you
want to be that guy who scratches his head for the rest of his life, or would
you prefer to live the life of least resistance and maximum reward?

Q-tip
(for women!):

Tattoos on women, in
greater form, have the opposite effect on positive male projected
attraction. The odd one on the foot,
ankle or back may make a man want to bang you that bit more than before, and it
won’t affect your prospective relationship portfolio one way or the other, but
if you think that excessive displays on shoulders, arms or the neck are going
to make more men see you as girlfriend material, then think again. Only low calibre male “chavs” will be
prepared to take you on if you choose this road ahead. Fundamentally, women sporting too many tattoos
will be perceived as slags, and as a ramification, they will be ruled out as
girlfriend material. So if you feel the
need for numerous or enlarged tattoos in order to feel better about yourself
and to seek external attention, then let this be your decision, but then don’t
go crying or moaning that there are no decent men out there or they are
intimidated by you. In nothing more than
honest words, we are put off by your unappealing tattoos.

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