I’ve read so many stories from women asking the same question ‘Is my man gay?’ and conducting lists of reasons, suspicions, signs. These lists are usually quite similar to one another and I’m always able to spot more than a few signs that I recognize from my own experience. For now I’m just going to make a list and then later I’ll elaborate on each one individually.1. Lack of intimacy/No sex2. Inability to maintain erection/Blaming it on ED/Viagra prescription3. Porn stashed in home (involving more men than women)4. Questionable internet activity (late night, multiple email accounts, live webcam)5. Spending a lot of time with young, male friends6. Disappearing for unexplained hours, sometimes a whole day7. Buying magazines for men (Fitness etc)8. Buying sex toys (anal beads, dildos)9. Wanting a threesome with another man10. Talking about friends penis size11. Commenting on how handsome certain men are12. Wanting me to dress like a tomboy, hated sexy lingerie13. Overly flirtatious with women (overcompensating)14. Drug use, alcoholism (an escape from reality)15. Constant state of depression (good way to avoid intimacy, confrontation)16. Frequenting gay bars (just for fun, apparently)17. Increased personal hygiene when going out alone18. No eye contact during sex, covering face. Wanting anal sex.19. Vacations in places with separate beds20. Anxiety, irritability, anger at being touched