suntifosi write: I am new too, only about a week. I already PO'ed a couple of people on another thread, even though that was not my intent. I really do not think I deserved to get trashed like that, but, hey, who am I to judge? ______________________

Welcome suntifosi...I think that is probably what some feel is the initiation test here on this site. Just be thick skinned, fight your battle or ignore their comments if u don't like what they say..after all i guess that is what freedom of speech is interpreted by some, tho I feel freedom of speech is defined and confined by those u have hurt inadvertently or otherwise..but enjoy the process of debate , discussion and sharing..given time u will be used to the different threads and the different ways people respond here, it is a corner of the real world too..

I am new too, only about a week. I already PO'ed a couple of people on another thread, even though that was not my intent. I really do not think I deserved to get trashed like that, but, hey, who am I to judge? It almost made me decide to leave MM. Then I decided that I was not going to let it bother me. They just did not take the time to get to know me first! I, of course, did not take the time to realize how touchy some people are either. So, I guess I am here for a while.

DANIELPC write: hello iam a newbie iam also new to the dating site world i thought this site would have a quality of ladies that would be of intrest to me but it seem most but NOT ALL are just looking for a sugar daddy iam i doing something wrong???? suggestion would be welcome thanks daniel

Hi Daniel, welcome to the forum.there are some really nice people here, and a good place to start.
good Luck!

YourDiversion write: HAS ANYONE TOLD YOU WHAT THE INITIATION PROCESS IS YET ??LOL!!

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Welcome Diversion...u are a great looking girl..the initiation is that u go onto IM and send out messages to welcome more men to join us on this forum..I think I have managed to convince a few to at least check into forum, some don't even know it exists...so that is your first initiation task my girl..we want a list of at least 10 eligible nice guys..to come on board..you know it is like pyramid selling here..the last one in the pecking order does the selling then she passes on to the next unsuspecting newbie..got it ??

but it seem most but NOT ALL are just looking for a sugar daddy
iam i doing something wrong????
suggestion would be welcome
thanks daniel

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welcome Daniel..I think there are some fine ladies here who would love to meet you and we are not all golddiggers..some of us are afraid of male gold-diggers too.
What I like about Forum is you get a chance to know people whom you might have overlooked when u are scrolling thru the thousands of possible candidates and just judge them on their profile, whereas here u get a taste of what their personality is like and hear their views..so jump right in at the deep end..

DANIELPC write: hello iam a newbie iam also new to the dating site world i thought this site would have a quality of ladies that would be of intrest to me but it seem most but NOT ALL are just looking for a sugar daddy iam i doing something wrong???? suggestion would be welcome thanks daniel

hello iam a newbie
iam also new to the dating site world
i thought this site would have a quality of ladies that would be of intrest to me
but it seem most but NOT ALL are just looking for a sugar daddy
iam i doing something wrong????
suggestion would be welcome
thanks daniel

z71 i understand your plight. I have a very dear friend who is pursuing an acting career also on here. He is one of those who will one day be in "lights" He was in the "Elvis" film just shown. And many more. He is going in several directions and will one day be a big success in one of those. Right now he will even tell you that pursuing this is not the best outlet for trying to start a relationship so he is just making many friends. One day he will find a lady whom he will be ready for but now is not the time. So if this is not the time for you to find your mate this site will also make you many friends along the way. Who knows one of those "friends" could in the future turn into your lifelong partner. Good luck in your pursuit of an acting career it is a very challenging one.......S4U

My son wants to go to film school and is quite a thespian at school but I fear I will have to support a down and out director/actor son for the rest of my life.
In my recent project which has to do with orchstras and performances , I have seen how hard the show biz world is, unless you are passionate about it , you could be disillusioned very quickly. So how long have u been in the business?