How do you get a guy to love you without driving him away? Are you ready to move into a long term relationship but aren’t sure how to get there? Do you know what drives men away and how to avoid it? If you want to finally find a long term loving relationship, you will need to avoid these three common mistakes that women make.

Don’t try too hard

So many women go overboard in order to get a man to love them. If only they knew that this actually turns men off! If you are trying too hard to get him to love you, he will think you desperate and cheap. Instead, be independent and be yourself!

Don’t push

Men develop much slower than women when it comes to love. As a result, many women get impatient. They resort to nagging, pressuring, and threats in order to get a guy to start making an emotional investment. However, this is only driving him away. If instead, you give him space and time to develop at his own pace, you will find that he will naturally start to love you because he feels safe to do so.

Don’t let him be your world

It is easy, once you fall in love, to want to spend every waking moment with your guy. This is also a normal feeling. However, by doing this, men tend to get turned off. They want to know that you can still be yourself when you are around them. This crazy over the top feeling will fade eventually. Sure, you will still want to be around him. However, it won’t be so overwhelmingly strong. So, instead of letting yourself get lovesick and ultimately driving him away, remember that you are a great person with a great life. Allow the two of you some time to be individuals. Take time for yourself and your friends. This will communicate that you can be happy without him but that you want to share your life with him. This will attract him instead of making him want to run.

Are you having problems in avoiding your favorite food? Do you feel helpless when you are around them? Do you always end up eating too much? Well, here are some ways to assist you in getting your eating habit under control.

Dump your diet.

If you are on a diet, you would often deprive yourself of junk foods and other delicious foods, and what it does is it increases your hunger pangs for those foods even more. Once you get tempted and give in, you will not be able to stop eating, so rather than going on a diet, slowly build a healthy eating routine. You can start by slowly eating less and less of those junk foods, but do not completely remove them from your diet.

Arrange a helpful environment.

If you cannot avoid eating your favorite foods, then it would be a good thing to not buy and store them in your home because you may be tempted to eat those once you see them. However, do not completely deprive yourself of junk foods because this can cause you problems. Not only will it enhance your hunger pangs or cravings, you will also eat a lot once you get hold of a bag of chips. Try to eat junk foods in moderation, say two small-sized bags of potato chips, and resist the temptation of eating more.

Look after yourself.

Be superficial, vain, and spend plenty of time looking after yourself. Look after your body figure, workout on a daily basis, go tanning, buy some nice-looking clothes, get a good massage, or go on a vacation. If you look after yourself more, you will appreciate your body and general health more and you will not be tempted to eat junk foods because you have already invested in your health and look and will not want to waste it on some silly junk foods.