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We are a young couple trying something different and we are new to this. looking for experciend other couples and how they opened up more and talk. we are boyfriend and girlfriend and sharing the same account.

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Welcome. You will see I have a lady friend. We are not a couple but we communicate.
I see a trend some women like a man to discover, which happens over a period of time as creativity and spontaneity takes place.
Then some will tell specific things. I like both.
I find it important to tell what you don't like and be open, honest. Knowing her likes from her telling me or discovering, I know what I can do.
Knowing what she's not into, I know where the boundaries and I find it easy to respect, no chance of going too far unless I do it on purpose. For us we were open at the beginning about our likes and dislikes, and it continues during.
We also talk about things in general, share each other's meals, watch movies, etc where we talk about different things about life.
Communication is stronger that way.

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Me and my wife have been very experimental over the almost six years of marriage, what works for us is first talk, springing something on her has very negative responces, and neither push the other beyond that comfort zone. You will know when the other is enjoying it and when they are not. Be gentle, and go slow. Dont try for the gold all in one bite. Most important is have fun. Its not a job or a contest. It is your sexlife and you dont have to compare it to anyone else's. Best of luck! And remember, its only weird or kinky the first time.