i give the guy props cause he is a college professor and by default that DESERVES respect..

but sometimes he reminds me of a gay friend i have that hangs at the same bars as i do whose is constantly trying to tell me that " every guy is gay ...its just that they dont know it yet"

one of these days this dood is gonna push the envelope conversation wise with someone like my brother and get the bloody crap beaten out of him..just cause us bbing types are laid back and cool about it dosen't mean everyone is..

i've had to pull me brother off of gay guys in DC while he ws trying to stomp on their throats ..face...nuts..what eva ws convenient at the moment..

i give the guy props cause he is a college professor and by default that DESERVES respect..

but sometimes he reminds me of a gay friend i have that hangs at the same bars as i do whose is constantly trying to tell me that " every guy is gay ...its just that they dont know it yet"

one of these days this dood is gonna push the envelope conversation wise with someone like my brother and get the bloody crap beaten out of him..just cause us bbing types are laid back and cool about it dosen't mean everyone is..

i've had to pull me brother off of gay guys in DC while he ws trying to stomp on their throats ..face...nuts..what eva ws convenient at the moment..

Wow, ...with a violent reaction like that, ...your brother must be waaaaay far into the closet huh?Does light even penetrate in that far?

you have to hang out in DC jag where guys WILL GRAB YER ASS OR CROTCH...in a club...

when it happens to me...i just smile it off..buuuut my brother isn't as forgiving..

would you be ok if a random guy grabbed your crotch out of the blue??

YES..THAT DOES HAPPEN in DC...i happen to be laid back enough to just grin and push the dood away and politely tell him no..

my brother will beat you half to death...

funny how women like you have double standards about dat...i expected more onfidence out of you and a secure responce..

..i'm dissapointed..

No, it wouldn't be alright for a random guy to grab at a woman's breast or crotch. He would be slapped for sure. But it's doubtful that he would get his throat or nuts stomped for it. A straight guy (especially one who is phobic of gay men) would probably go that route because they do not want to in any way shape or form be viewed as gay.

you have to hang out in DC jag where guys WILL GRAB YER ASS OR CROTCH...in a club...

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when it happens to me...i just smile it off..buuuut my brother isn't as forgiving..

would you be ok if a random guy grabbed your crotch out of the blue??

As long as he's OK with a random stiletto heel to the temple or the scrotum, ...no problem.

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YES..THAT DOES HAPPEN in DC...i happen to be laid back enough to just grin and push the dood away and politely tell him no..

my brother will beat you half to death...

how can you be polite to someone who has just sexually assaulted you? You must be on E when it happens.

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funny how women like you have double standards about dat...i expected more onfidence out of you and a secure responce..

..i'm dissapointed..

No double standard here. You didn't tell the whole story. I was left with the impression your brother lays down a beating for a man simply assuming he's gay or hitting on him. Inappropriate touching is a whole nother story.

Other Women also pay plenty of interest to my wife. Not as bad as guys.In the mall She'll often have a parade of Dogs behind her when I meet up. We laugh it up over them.Ive never seen women get (Try) quite that aggressive. Casual sex added to a marriage is a problem in the making IMO. But more than 1 wife is very common in her country, and she gots a lot of good lookin Girl Friends.

Other Women also pay plenty of interest to my wife. Not as bad as guys.In the mall She'll often have a parade of Dogs behind her when I meet up. We laugh it up over them.Ive never seen women get (Try) quite that aggressive. Casual sex added to a marriage is a problem in the making IMO. But more than 1 wife is very common in her country, and she gots a lot of good lookin Girl Friends.

I appricate your answer I was just curious if it was just a guy doing it that it would upset you. There are many people myself included that have a double standard, but the bottom line is really respect. I would not take kindly to some guy grabing my wife but I can see myself getting upset if some aggressive girl did the same thing. I think the response would be different though, I doubt I would hit the aggressive girl.