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"I've been fantasizing . . . "

"I've been fantasizing about making you feel good."

Here's a shocker: When it comes to sexual fantasies, women are more selfish than men. In a University of California at Santa Cruz survey of 85 men and 77 women ages 21 to 45, more than two-thirds of the men said they fantasized about pleasing their partners, while more than half of the women fantasized about their own pleasure.

"Women focus on themselves in fantasy because in real life the man's pleasure is prioritized," says study author Eileen Zubriggan, Ph.D. Key in to her fantasy; let her know her wish is your command.