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Sex and Sexuality Question

Guys?! (Ha or girls) Sexual things to do with your boyfriend?!

Ok well me and my bf have decided to get more intimate in our relationship. But the thing is i have absolutely no idea what he wants me to do. I mean he could finger me, i could give him a blow job but what else is there?! Just name a few and that'd be really helpful!!
Thx!

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First of all, I'm going to stamp on the standard disclaimer that if you are under the age of 18, be very very careful and discerning in your decision to have sex. If you decide to have sex, have it safely and smartly. Also, do not have sex with anyone OLDER than 18. Because then things can get really messy.

Also: There are other ways of taking relationships to the next level that do NOT involve physical intimacy. However, I think that in this case you used "intimate" as a euphemism for sexual activity, in which case you probably don't want to hear about all the other non-physical intimacy things.

So, there are several things to do. If either you or your boyfriend performs oral sex, make sure that there is the appropriate protection against STDs (IE, use a condom/dental dam). I don't care if you're both virgins (or both claim to be)-- do it anyway.

He could finger you, as you say, or you can give him a handjob. These are both relatively low-risk sexual activities, but remember to wash your hands before and after the act.

Other low-risk activities include body rubbing and/or sensual massage. Turn the lights down low, buy some massage oil, and rub it on each other.

Sandwiching my disclaimers: Only do what you are comfortable with. Do not break any state or national laws. Don't let anyone pressure you or tell you what to do. Be smart, be safe, and use this information WISELY. Like any good sex-ed teacher, I advise you to wait until you are ready. Youth is shortsighted, so remember you have the rest of your life ahead of you. Don't rush into anything. Don't make this decision lightly. And once again, BE SMART. Be informed. Know what you're doing, and how to do it safely.

Well I never had a boyfriends so I wouldnt know.. but I know what most guys like since I am one, rofl. Um..first off if your going to do anything make sure you wear a condom thats first off. Secondly you could just make out for a while and then see were it leads or something.

Well me and my boyfriend enjoy a great sex life, and we ALWAYS try new things.. here's some things you could try..

body massage using oil, a vibrating durex ring, flavoured lube during oral, ribbed and dotted condoms AND my personal favourite.. taking turns of being dominant towards each other, telling each other what to do, men love it!

1: Don't Have Sex With Anyone Over 18, As It Would Be Classed As Rape Sometimes. (It Could Make You Pregnant)

2: Hand-Jobs And Blowjobs, They Are One Of The Best Methods xD
3: Use Dildos, Vibrators, Etc,. (When Pleasuring Your Partner.) Use Them Wisely.
4: Learn More Sex Positions. There Are More Than Missionary And Doggy Style. Or Cowgirl (Normal/Reverse)

5: And..Massage Each Other, Fingering Would Be Good, But DO WASH The Fingers You Used When Doing It.

I am trying to gather what this next level is by what has been said (and I know this is now an older question anyway) -people kept repeating the two things you asked if there were "other" things besides those, *facepalm*

My advice to anyone is to BE CREATIVE
If you are a creative-type of person then put it to use.
Everything can be a sexy new level and experience everyday... from ice cream to popsickle licking, tastey treats drizzled or brushed with a finger, silky fabrics danced, costumes, roleplay, personas, BS&M-handcuffs or silk ties... and I am not talking about sex if you are not at that point but if you want foreplay and hand or fingers you can get creative, you can tease and tempt and play and find all sorts of things from clothes on to half-off, from ice cubes to hot massage oils someone mentioned. Massages are great. So are getting creative with your dates in where and what you do~ the list is really endless, not to mention toys if you are into that, or you can "watch" each other masturbate, if you might like that.