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Tuesday, May 17, 2016

Feelings

No, I am
not going to break out into song. You're welcome. However, I am going
to talk about feelings. Everyone has them. But it amazes me how many
people can't seem to express them. Especially when it counts the
most... to their spouse. Admit it. You have feeling that you are
either afraid to express, or afraid of what your spouse will think of
you if you do express them.

Well, I am
here to tell you that keeping things bottled up is NEVER a good
thing. Have you ever wanted your husband to understand certain
feelings that you have, maybe toward sex, but you just could not seem to
express them in a way that would be non-threatening? Or maybe there
was something that you wanted to do that you thought (or were taught)
would be considered too “kinky” for him?

Well, I am
here to tell you that your husband has some of those same feelings. In
fact, he is so afraid to tell you because, well, it's just not
“manly” to have those kinds of feelings. Men, you know what I am
talking about. I have a quote from a woman I respect for her work in
the area of female led relationships. Tell me, gentlemen, that this
does not strike home.

“These feelings you have had for years.
you want to be dominated, controlled, and told what to do and when.
you feel like you have to have this. you want to serve a strong,
caring, loving, consistent, firm, dominant person. You will obey,
serve, and please. Not out of fear, but because it's what you crave
to do, you live for it. Living by set rules and expectations is not
only what you desire and crave, it just seems right.

you think
these feelings are strange, you are afraid to tell anyone. you keep
it to yourself. you think you are the only one like this. you also
think people will believe you weak or unintelligent. Let Me tell you,
you are not alone. More men have these feelings and will admit it
than you know. It is very natural. Also you are probably driven,
educated, strong. you don't want to lead. you want to give yourself
over to the Mistress in your life.”

If this is
you, and you have no one in your life to tell this to, then you need
to check out “Ivey's
Keys” for yourself. You might just be surprised by what you
find there. And Ladies, if your husband has indicated that he has
these feelings and you just don't know how to handle it, You should
join him. Or maybe you want to learn more about how to handle those
feelings you know that he has. Again, join us at “Iveys' Keys”
and learn what you need to know to live a happier, more fulfilling
life with him.