“My heart has joined The Thousand, for my friend stopped running today” — Watership Down
My beloved King Louis will be waiting across the rainbow bridge to show him where all the comfy cushions and tasty treats are.

As a person that has lost animals in his lifetime, I know that it’s never an easy thing to go through. My heart goes out to you and I know you’ll cherish the memories you have of him. The video says as much =)

This video is priceless and made me smile. Posey is so patient with you bouncing her around. And hello? That song is about a ZOMBIE CAT!

Very very sorry for your loss. We lost two fur friends in the last year and I realized how hard it is to share your grief with others over the loss of pets. Not that people aren’t sympathetic, but that there’s a feeling that you can only share so much of your grief about your “non-human” losses.

People who don’t love animals don’t understand how much love they give us or how much it hurts when they go. They are members of our families. I’m sorry about Posey and cozy the crap out of Ferris Mewler.

Awww…..so sorry to read this. If you’ve never picked up the children’s book, Cat Heaven, you should at some point –maybe not right now–it’s really sweet and it’s how I like to imagine my kitties that are no longer with me–all sleeping on God’s bed & head after a big bowl of milk. Hang in there.

Hugged tightly. My ‘Posey’ is 20, blind, hypertensive, and has failing kidneys: in short, probably not far behind actual Posey. I’ve been resentful lately of all the extra care she needs. Thanks for the reminder.

Oh Jenny… i’m so sorry. I’ve been following you since stumbleupon days. remember those days?
it’s such a delight seeing you now. sounds like you had one crapper of a day though.
much love to you. *hugs*

So sorry to hear about your cat. 😦 Pets are definitely members of the family. But something that may (or may not, if you hate Disney) cheer you up: you have the voice of a Disney Princess. For realz. You should contact Disney and offer voice-over services. You’d be rollin’ all up in dat dough.

I’m sorry, sweetheart. Your video broke my heart… what an awesome sedative cat–the kind that just touching is a sedative, and soothing to the soul. I’ll go scratch my Steve on the ass until she passes out now–we don’t have to tell the furry bint why.

So sorry to hear about Posey. I know all too well how hard it is to lose a furry friend. My thoughts are with you and your family, and I’ll give my Trixie and Bailey extra cuddles tonight in Posey’s honor.

So very sorry for your loss – we lost our Oakley girl (Black Lab – Annie Oakley) recently, so I feel your pain. It’s so hard to say goodbye to a cherished pet, no matter how prepared you may be that the time is coming. You will be in my thoughts.

Such a sad day. We love them so fiercely, then they leave us. Hoping that when the tears subside, you’ll remember with laughter and smiles how wonderful it was to love Posey for all the years you had. He stuck around for a reason – he loved you too!

I know how much that suck. Last year our dog Bob had to be put down, we had him as long as you’ve had Posey. I know no amount of kind words will make the hurt less. But I am so sorry for your loss and I know how truly sad you are. I’m actually tearing up thinking about how awful it must feel. I will keep you in my thoughts in the comming days since I’m sure you will need the happy thoughts to override the sad ones.

Hi,
I have angel cats. Their mother was a pregnant stray who showed up the day my carpool partner collapsed in her front yard and feel into a coma. (Complications of high-dose chemo for cancer.) She died five days later.
And that mother cat’s kittens helped me and my kids and her kids laugh, especially in the first year after she died, so they are truly angel cats, as I’m sure your beautiful baby was.

A friend of mine swears that if you ask your lost babies to come back to you, in new bodies, they will. Just ask, like you’re saying a prayer. And watch and wait and be open to the signs. They will come back.

Oh Jenny, I’m so very very sorry. It’s always hard to lose a member of our family. I know how much it hurts. Be kind to yourself and let yourself mourn how you need to. Grief is different for everyone. Consider yourself hugged (even though you don’t know me…hugs are still being sent over the intertubes).

I am so very sorry, Jenny.
Losing a furry member of the family sucks. They give us so much and ask so little in return(cats I mean, dogs are needy little fuckers that I want my friends to own so I can pet and play with and give back…sort of like how I feel about children…except for the petting…don’t get the wrong idea…ack…you freakin’ perve!)

So sorry, I know it’s really hard to lose a furry friend who has been such a big part of your heart for so long. Hugging my dogs. (read- it’s thundering and they are holding me hostage) I’ll give them an extra treat in Posey’s honor.

I’m so sorry, Jenny. I’ve got tears in my eyes as I write this, because I know how hard it is to say goodbye to a pet. A friend that never questioned your love and you never had to question theirs. A friend that would never betray you and was always there when you needed him. I’ll give my two kitties extra hugs and kisses tonight for you.

I am so sorry! We recently lost our 12 year old english mastiff (slideshow of her here http://stilliamlearning.wordpress.com/2012/06/19/loss/). I am not more than a little paranoid about my oldest cat, she is 17 years old. I know she may have a few years left but I can’t help but worry. HUGS for you and I will will Hug all of my cats for you!

i know how much this can hurt, i had a poodle for 20 years, she was the love of my pet life, my rock in a hard place, my replacement for God before God showed up, and it actually hurt more when she died than it did when my parents died, that may sound weird, but it’s true, hard to admit, but true none the less

Oh man, I almost made it through that video without crying. Then you said “say goodbye Posey” & I lost it. Not saying it’s any easier for those of us left behind, but going to sleep & not waking up sounds like the way every cat would want to & should go. May Posey find all the sunbeams.

I am so sorry for your loss. I had to put my 18 year old cat (love of my life) down in October so I can attest to how much it hurts. I like to think they get reincarnated and find us again later in life. My heart goes out to you and your family!

I have lurked religiously but haven’t posted before because I haven’t felt like I could say anything that hasn’t been said. Even though this has been said and will be said I am so sorry for your loss. My Maine Coon Gizmo is 14 and when I see her struggling to make the bed I reminded that our days are fleeting. Watched the video – what an amazing cat. I drink a toast to Posey – May the days in kitty heaven be filled with warm sunshine, lots of purrs and catnip.

RIP Posie. “And it wasn’t very merry, going to the cemetery” Truer words were never spoken. Just know Jenny, that we’re all standing by that little kitty grave with you. Be strong. And if you’re not, it’s okay- cause we’re here.

I am so, so sorry to hear it. There’s never a good time to lose a furry loved one, and it sounds like this was the worst ending to a horrible day. It hurts to say goodbye after such a short time shared together.

(Interestingly, I’ve just had to delete two of my kitten’s contributions, because he climbed across the keyboard as I was typing this. He has no idea why I just picked him up to hug him, but he’s convinced it’s time to play, now that that foolishness is done.)

Jenny, I am so sorry. 😦 My Penny is 17 and it’s day by day and it’s so hard to say goodbye to a beloved friend. Your video with Posey was so sweet – its obvious how much you loved him. Sending you much love. Give Ferris a snuggle from me and I promise to give extra hugs tonight to my feline friends in Posey’s memory.

Jenny, I’m so sorry. It’s heartbreaking to lose a loved one who has been in your life so long. Posey looks like a real sweetheart — one of those cats who just puts up with all our silly antics. Take good care.

Jenny, so very sorry for your loss. I hope you did not opt for another attempt at backyard burial… I figure that whole trauma is probably fresh enough in your mind that you didn’t because although it would make for another horrifying/amusing blog post, I am thinking that maybe you could, perhaps, have Posey’s ashes turned into a kickass gemstone and then get it mounted in a tiara. Just a thought.

I don’t presume to speak for the rest of the internet, but if you need to vent/talk/whatever, I am sure there are many of us who are more than willing to listen. I know I am. Be well, Sweet Lady.

If you have not read Cynthia Rylant’s picture book, “Cat Heaven”, please do. It is what I (a school librarian) recommend when families ask me if they know anything that might help when they lose a cat friend. [She also did “Dog Heaven” which I got for my daughter when our Golden Retriever died.} It will make you cry, but in a good way. Not just for Hailey, but for you all.

I’m so sorry. I’m crying, because I got 2 furry babies 2 years ago, and my heart expanded. It got big and full of fur and laughter, and the warm feeling of being a mother for the first time. But Obi Wan Catnobi has been missing for 2 and a half weeks and I have been feeling really lost. So I’m crying, for you, for Posey, for Obi that I miss so and that I hope I will get to see again. Because it’s way too early to say goodbye.

I’m so sorry to hear about Posey! I just started reading your blog about a year and a half ago – right around the time I took in a friend’s 15 year old cat, Oliver. I read about all the old posts about Posey (him making everyone think he was dead by sleeping with his eyes open, being nothing but fur and sinew, etc) and I thought – this is my new cat! I didn’t think I’d come to love him very much. It was going to be more like running kitty hospice care, right? Oh wow, not at all. This wheezy, sinewy, sweet old man has wormed his way into my heart like I never would have believed. I have to pick my way through fresh gifts of vomit and hairballs every morning, but…well, ick, sorry. Every time I read a new Posey post, I just loved my old cat a little more. And when Oliver does die, I’m going to go and read all those Posey posts AGAIN and laugh and cry and be happy for the time I had with him. Love and good thoughts to you!

I am so very sorry, Jenny. Posey stories have always been great; he’s such an interesting little guy. I lost the dog who’d been with me half my life last January and it’s still hard to accept some days. Big hugs to you, and I will definitely snuggle my own kitties a bit longer tonight.

Am so very sorry 😦
Your loss made me cry….I lost my beautiful 16 year old baby girl this March and I still grieve for her every day. Treasure every photo, video and memory. Ignore insensitive people who don’t even try to understand and take solace from those who do – grieving for the loss of a beloved pet is very real and very painful. If you need further support, the association for pet loss and bereavement ( http://aplb.org/index.php) have been of great help to me when I needed it.
*hugs*

Jenny I am so sorry for your loss. I know you had a crappy day and I can’t believe this was what greeted you at the end. The only thing I can say is that you gave him a wonderful and long life full of love and caring and that is the best that any cat can hope for. My sympathies to you and your family.

I am so sorry – as the mom of a special-needs kitty (17, diabetic, toothless, in renal failure, deaf…) I know the extra love that goes into taking care of them (and how totally worth it is) – you did an amazing job keeping Posey kickin’ loooong after others would have bought into all that “she’s a goner” nonsense, and I hope she’s purring somewhere up in that big kitty heaven in the sky. Hug to you and your family (and I am going to give Quato some extra belly rubs).

Sitting next to my ugly snoring dog right now and sending you my love. I’m sorry for your loss.

I like my furry children better than I like my own most of the time, and we just had to put one of ours down last month. Then the vet gave me a little ceramic disc with her paw print when I went to pick up her ashes, which I found a little morbid.

Side note: You have a lovely singing voice. It’s clear from the video that Posey agreed.

I am so sorry. I was just thinking about posey because my cat Samantha died last Thursday. It is so hard to let the furry ones go. I just feel so sad because I miss petting her so. I still here her humm. She rarely meowed. I will hug my dog just for you. You are in my prayers.

I just had a really good day ,and then I saw your post and remembered just how you would be feeling, as I lost my Myaggi 2 years ago. He was with us for 15 years and I still expect him to come galloping in at mealtimes and purring around my feet. Hopefully he will be up there somewhere to welcome Posey. Big hugs from me and my family to you and yours at this sad time.

I’m a long time fan who just adores everything you do and tells people you’re my secret best friend. I never comment but I just had to step in and say how sorry I am for your loss. I have 12 (yes, 12!) kitties of my own and some of them are getting to the age where I know they probably don’t have a lot of time left. Your Posey had a good life, was loved and doted on. Take time to be unashamedly sad but then make a point of remembering his long happy life and not this one brief moment of sadness. ::hugs::

Bitty (the First) kept us as pets for 17.5 years and I said “never again.” That was on a Saturday. It took until Tuesday to be adopted by Bitty (the Second), who kept us for another 17.5 years. Both were Maine Coons. Both rescue kittens. Both enriched our lives and those of our children for more than half our married lives. I held both as they went to sleep. I still miss them. I have no words for your sad. But will be thinking of you.

I watched the video and started crying. It’s like I knew him. but as I sat siffling at my computer, my 18 year old Willow cat came running to make me feel better, which made me cry harder. He’s not always going to be there for me.

Gods Jenny, I’m so sorry!! *hugs* and meaningless drivel about the Rainbow bridge and how Posey’s happy and healthy again.

It’s so hard to have the gentle furkids who so willingly and carefully and lovingly carry our damaged and fragile hearts on their four furry paws through this world sigh their last sigh and tiptoe right on out.

Posey knew only love from you, Jenny. I’m pretty certain he also knew all your secrets and kept all of them close to his heart. Be very gentle with yourself. Extra special gentle. There are extra treats and scratches and hugs for all the furry animals here at Chez Naked tonight.

My mrow, Chubbs, cannot figure out why I won’t let him off my lap and I keep hugging and kissing him. My heart aches for you, Jenny, and for all of us who’ve lost special furbabies. Chubbs and I send hugs….

So sorry and thinking of you on this sad day. I would hug my cat Phoebe for you but she would probably tear my face off. So instead I will hug the hell out of my dog (and she will want a cookie for having to endure my hugs….).

I am so very, very sorry. RIP Posey. I will try to hug my cat, but she may rip my face right off. She is not quite so cuddly as Posey, bless his heart.
I lost my dog a couple of months ago, and I still cry every day for his loss. They leave such big empty spaces when they go.
Hugs to you.

I’m so sorry for you and your whole family. It’s heartbreaking. When my dog, Callie died in March
it was a very rough time. I cried a lot. I ended up adopting another rescue dog and while she
will never be like Callie, I love her. But differently. Love, Laurie F.

I’m so sorry, Jenny! When I lost my beloved kitty, my best friend comforted me by telling me that my kitty went to be with her real kitty mommy who would take care of her until I got there. I know it hurts now but it gets easier day by day. Many hugs!

Oh, Jenny… I am so sorry. We had a cat who lived 22 years. I thought she was immortal. She died when I was 30. She was pure love covered in fur. It’s hard to say goodbye. Have a large sippy cup of wine and a big bag of Hershey kisses.

So sorry about Posey 😦 That video made me tear up a little…my 17 year old cat, Lucky, died recently and it’s so much harder then you think it’s going to be…even when you think you’re prepared because they’re old.
And, for the record, that song was my favorite song in elementary school choir. I still sing it sometimes when it pops into my head…but I thought I was crazy because no one else remembered it. Thanks for making me feel not so crazy.

Oh Jenny, I’m so very sorry. I’ll light a candle for Posey tonight. You’ll be in my thoughts and I’m send lots of love and hugs for you and your family. I’ll also make sure I give my kitty, Meekoli Catsvinski, lots and lots of cuddles…and I’ll tell him they are all from you.

i’m so sorry Jenny 😦 Having lost more than my share of four foots in my life… i know how hard it is. Those little fuzzy feet leave gaping holes in our hearts.

i did hug my fuzzy baby very tightly after reading this… and she thumped her tail very angrily against my legs, but she put up with it. Then when i started to let her go, she pretty much launched herself across the room and gave me this glare of DOOM. And my face and shirt were *covered* in long fine grey Maine Coon Boo-hair. But i wouldn’t have it any other way, really.

i know it’s cold comfort right now… but Posey had a lovely life, and that long life is a testament to your love and care you took of him. Remember those good times.

Must read Jon Katz’s book about dealing with a pet’s death. It’s remarkable and will make you feel better. I lost my two beloved dogs, Ming, the pug and Hannah the retriever this year and I am still heart broken, but Jon showed me how to deal. Check it out. It will make you feel better. Hugs, Rose

I’m so sorry! It’s so hard when you lose a furry family member! We haven’t had any animals since we had to put down our dog four years ago- it was just too sad…hope you get some comfort from your people!

I loved him too. We all loved him very very very much. And you know what? He knew it. He knew that you loved him with every fiber of your being. And he probably thought, “That’s right, bitch, I OWN you. I am the KING.”

So, what I am trying to say is, you loved each other, and he was a happy little man and you treated him so so well, and he’s looking down on you from kitty heaven going, “I totally won at life.”

Just today I finished reading your archives, with (among the heaping piles of awesome) all the Posey-Love therein. I am SO sorry for your loss; he was a very very special kitty who had a terrific life, and he’ll be missed by many. Sending you, Hailey and Victor lots of love and positive thoughts. {{{{{}}}}}

So sorry to hear about Posey! What a sweet kitty he was to sit through ALL of “Senor Don Gato”. That was one of my favorites when I was a kid, too, and my son used to love to hear it at bed time. (I used to lose my place, too.) Hugs to you.

I’ve been through your pain more times than I wish to remember. So sad when we lose a fur-person. And I JUST finished reading the chapter in your book about your bunny-forehead pug, to. It gets a little easier each day, Jenny.

Oh, Jenny… I am so, so very sorry. I froze when I read he wouldn’t wake up. Posey was very special and he had such a good life with you…. I will hug every single one of my cats a little tighter tonight (even the ones who don’t like it) And I send you virtual hugs across the miles (even if you don’t like it)

My boyfriend just asked me why I was upset, and I said “My friend’s cat died.” And then I remembered that we’ve never met. Anyway .. I’m very sorry about your cat. Hopefully he’s getting a good ear scratching from Andy Griffith right now.

My favorite little fur friend died in December. He was the BEST cat. Pets love unconditionally and ask for nothing in return. Losing them is like losing a family member. I’m so sorry for your loss. My heart breaks for you 😦

Big hugs. I lost my own ancient baby, Silhouette, who lived with us for twenty years, so he had to be closing up on 22 years old. We let him go in April, when he started to bleed — we couldn’t keep holding onto him. I miss him all the time.

My Miss Kittty passed, more than 6 years ago, and I still miss her every day. My heart goes out to you and the family. Rest in Peace, Posey. I’ll ask Miss Kitty to meet him at the Rainbow Bridge, too. Posey will be one of the most well met kitties there.

Jenny, I’m so sorry for your loss. I learned that song when I was in fourth grade, and I have sung it many times since then, but none of my kitties would join me in the performance. You and Posey were lucky to have each other.

I’m so sorry, Jenny. My heart aches for you. Most people don’t understand how special cats are. I was never a proponent of cats but my Baby Kitty changed my heart and mind. I lost him earlier this year. It’s hard. And unexpected. Buck up, cupcake. We’ll survive this.

I’m so sorry and my heart is breaking with yours. Cats are the embodiment of joy, pleasure, and love. Posey was loved and he knew it, and he’ll send another cat your way when you’re ready. Cats always know what’s best for their people.

So, so sorry Jenny. Losing a pet, especially one you’ve had for a long time, is just as devastating as losing a human family member – particularly if you tend to turn to your pets for comfort. Who will comfort you, when the one you usually turn to is gone? I hope your human family and Ferris Mewler give you lots of love and support to help you through the worst of it. *Hugs*

I’m so sorry for your loss :(. At least you have lots of great memories with Posey and shared so many of them with all of us, thank you for that. My kitties, Shyla, Orko, Cringer, and Noah send their purrs and kitty kisses to you.

Am going to go hug furry friend.
Can’t decide if it will be my cat or creepy neighbor (who never met a razor) down the road.
Either way may come back missing an eye but in respect for Posey I will risk it.
I’m not a hugger so I won’t send one but maybe a salute to Posey and all other furry soldiers will suffice.

My 10-week old kitten is probably going to claw the shit out my face for this, but I’m going to give her all the lovin’s today. And it will be worth it, because any cat-cuddlin’ time is worth it, clawed-face or no clawed-face. I really hope there’s no clawed-face, though.

I went to give my cats their bedtime snack, and I remembered Posey again. So each time I dropped a (bigger than usual) spoonful in a dish, I said, “A big bedtime snack in honor of Posey Lawson.” My cats are extra happy tonight, thanks to Posey.

I am so sorry. The loss of a furry person is so painful. Many virtual hugs. I truly believe in kitty heaven, where St. Francis takes them to frolic in a giant sunny meadow filled with birds to chase or mice to hunt.

Also, I know of only one other person on the planet that knows the Don Gato song. I learned it in elementary school (we had a Mexico Program one year… which was even more hilarious since we didn’t have a single hispanic person in our entire school – elite white kids!). It’s like you know the secret handshake of awesome people.

Oh Jenny I actually cried when I read the tweet, I’m devastated for you. I’m terrified of loosing my little dog Lola, it was so hard when my first dog died I said I would never have another pet again. They become your family, it’s so hard to say goodbye. It was obvious how much you adore posey in your posts. I really hope you are ok, what a horrible end to a shitty day! I’ll be thinking of you and cuddling my Lola to bits tonight! xoxo

Sorry for your loss. I would definately encourage 2 things for you. 1. make a remembrance at Rainbow Bridge 2. join us all in an at home candle-light vigil each monday evening at sunset. It can be very theraputic. Take care, morn at your own speed. And for christs sake, don’t even taxidermy Posey.

I’m so sorry for your loss, Jenny. I know exactly how difficult it is to lose your pet soul mate. I lost my Peaches last December after 16 wonderful years together and still think of her every day. I know that it will be difficult for a while, but the sense of loss will recede in time. Before you know it, you’ll be smiling instead of crying each time you think of your beautiful little Posey.

I’m so sorry for your loss Jenny. Loosing a pet is so hard. We lost our life long friend Daphne a year and a half ago. Since then we’ve filled the house with two kittens that are a joy, but I till miss Daphne. ((HUGS)) to you!

So very sorry that your fur baby has passed over. Worse possible aspect about being owned by an animal is that they leave you way too soon. Huge hugs of comfort and healing to you ❤ See ya at the bridge Posey!

When an animal dies that has been especially close to someone here, that pet goes to Rainbow Bridge.
There are meadows and hills for all of our special friends so they can run and play together.
There is plenty of food, water and sunshine, and our friends are warm and comfortable.

All the animals who had been ill and old are restored to health and vigor; those who were hurt or maimed are made whole and strong again, just as we remember them in our dreams of days and times gone by.
The animals are happy and content, except for one small thing; they each miss someone very special to them, who had to be left behind.

They all run and play together, but the day comes when one suddenly stops and looks into the distance. His bright eyes are intent; His eager body quivers. Suddenly he begins to run from the group, flying over the green grass, his legs carrying him faster and faster.

You have been spotted, and when you and your special friend finally meet, you cling together in joyous reunion, never to be parted again. The happy kisses rain upon your face; your hands again caress the beloved head, and you look once more into the trusting eyes of your pet, so long gone from your life but never absent from your heart.

Sending thoughts of peace and comfort your way. I liked reading about Posey and his loving family. Losing our furry little family members is a hard, hard thing to go through. Today, my kitty’s vet said we need to prepare ourselves for the idea that he isn’t going to walk again and we’d have to make some hard decisions.
Hugs and prayers to you and your family.

I am so sorry for your loss. It’s so difficult to lose a furry friend. Our beloved cat, Jack, died suddenly last fall and I still find myself looking for him some days. Many hugs from me and loving murples from Abi and Oliver, current kitties in residence.

I am so, so sorry for your loss. The video made me cry because it’s evident how much you love Posey and i can only imagine how your heart aches. It makes my heart ache. All our love to you, Victor and Hailey.

I’m so sorry Jenny! I know the pain that you are going through from past experiences and I can’t even imagine going through it again even though I know that one day I will! Big hugs from up here in Dallas

Oh, dear Posey, you are a much loved cat and fulfilled your kitty destiny. I picture you in kitty heaven, with a never-ending supply of cat treats and still sleeping with your eyes open. Rest in peace, Posey-gal.

When I saw the title of this post I was afraid that he had passed away. Many hugs and much love to you all. Loving a pet is so rewarding but having them leave is possibly one of the most difficult things to bear. I lost my best friend of 18 years almost 2 years ago now and there are still times I cry because I miss her spotted little whisker face. He and Barnaby Jones Pickles are totally kickin’ it across the rainbow bridge.

Oh honey, I am so sorry. I am currently owned by 4 furbabies myself, and have lost several others over my life. It hurts like hell when they die. Allow yourself to grieve and tell anyone who says you are being silly about an animal to get bent.

I’m so sorry. He seemed to be a very special boy, indeed. I loved the way he looked at you in the film. And the way you gave him such ongoing love. What a terrible pain it is to lose someone so dear. I truly am sorry.

Awww! I’m so sorry for your loss. My first dog , Barney, passed away suddenly, last year, after only having him for 3 years. I still get teary eyed when I think about it, even now. Passing along a BIG cyber hug to you today.

Sorry to hear about the cat-sized hole in your heart, Jenny. We have lost two crack puppies in the last 3 years and the 14 yr old Moosedawg is about out of gas. Sigh. Easy to love them. Way hard to let them go. Hugs.

Am a ling time reader and big fan, but have never commented before. I am terribly sorry for the loss of your beloved Posey. Our four legged family members are so very important. My sincerest condolences to you and your entire family.

I’m so sorry. We lost our big, psychotic orange tabby a year and a half ago and it still hurts. Sometimes me and The Bastard will start reminiscing, like I’ll say, “Hey, remember when Andy took a flying leap at your mom’s curtains? That was HILARIOUS once she wasn’t mad anymore!” or he’ll go, “Remember when Andy stole that plastic grocery bag when we weren’t looking and got the handle stuck around his waist? That thing was in SHREDS when he finally stopped running around the house!” Then we’ll look at each other and get all sad and change the subject. So yeah… big hugs from us! Maybe Posey and Andy can start their own shenanigans together.

I’m so sorry for your loss, Jenny. My friend lost her beloved dog a few years ago and in coping with his death create dthe website http://www.letterstopushkin.com, as a place where you can write a letter to you furry companion to cope with the grief. Once you get to a point you can write again, you might want to consider posting a letter to Posey. Hugs.

I’m so sorry Jenny. My 19 year old cat, Annie, died last September. So hard to lose part of your family, be they furred or otherwise. Much love and happy Posey memories to help you through this rough time.

Oh bless your heart. It is always so hard to let go of those you love. I’m all emotional just sitting here and watching this video. These are the memories you want to treasure that you had with your wonderful little pal. I’m thinking of you, dear, and wishing that you get some peace tonight because I know it’s been an extra difficult day for you.

I’m sorry.
Dear, dear pets.
They absorb our
tears and sorrows,
and throw up hairballs
to show us how to overcome,
and laugh.
Dear, dear pets… they purr
and endure, and make us
better people.
God blessed dear Posey,
and you.

Oh, Jenny, I’m so sorry. I lost one of my cats in April and I still think I see him out of the corner of my eye from time to time. It’s hard, even when they’ve had a good long life and you’ve loved them to pieces, it’s still hard.

Hang in there. We’ll be here to listen when you feel like writing again.

Oh hon, I’m SO sorry for your loss. :o( What a horrible thing to come back to after a fun weekend. I’m so sad for you right now. He lived such an amazing and long life with you. He was a lucky kitty to have someone who loves him so much. He’ll be waiting over the Rainbow Bridge for you, Jenny dear. And you’ll always have your Don Gato video (this may be highly inappropriate at the moment but, you have a very nice singing voice… I loved the song) with him. Thank the stars for that. R.I.P Posey. We’ll miss you.

I had a cat that my sister brought home when I was only days old. The kitten was small enough to fit in her palm. The two of us grew up together, played together, she slept with me every night. Until I was 15. That year she died and when she left, a part of me left with her.

My heart goes out to you and your family. I watched part of the video, but then I almost started crying so I had to stop. All I could think was how I would feel if it was one of my two babies. So now, as you’ve suggested, I’m going to go and hold them and hug them and tell them how I’ll love them forever.

I love my little furry child Wolfie (an orange tabby) with my whole heart…I cannot even imagine the pain you are suffering through right now. I am so very sorry for your loss, and hope your other furry children will help you get through this difficult time.

On a completely different note, I remember singing that song in elementary chorus, and being struck by the many emotions it contained. I was delighted to hear it again, and you have a delightful, natural singing voice (I’m a music teacher,btw)!

There are no words to express the sadness that you and your family must be feeling. I am so sorry for your loss. The worst part of having a pet is having to say goodbye when they leave us. Just know that Posey is in a better place now.

Just sad probably does not begin to cover the feelings of losing Posey. Half your life and all of Posey’s. All of us (out here in cyber world) are feeling our own versions of losing Posey today. When you are ready, we do want to hear your version, funny or not.
We all love you, A LOT. (some of us a little too much . . . )

Jenny, I am so sorry to read about Posey. What is so wonderful about the video is everyone of us feel the soul of Posey and how much you two loved each another. Take care of yourself. I really am sorry.

Jenny, I am so sorry about Posey. It is so hard when they go, I’ve been there. Consider my kitties hugged harder in honour of Posey today. And I will ask my late, great Oscar Mercury to show Posey where the sushi grade tuna and Pellagrino water are in kitty heaven tonight. {{{HUGS}}}

I did just as you said and gave my kitten Jade a good long pet today. I know in my heart that all fur babies go to heaven, and Posey is in a better place with all the catnip he could ever want. Sending you strength in your time of grief. I bet he lived a more interesting and exciting life as your kitten than most, lucky little guy 🙂

I’m so sorry for your loss. I’ve been there before an it’s alway hard. Thanks for sharing the video, Posey was a good sport. I remember the Senior Don Gato song fondly from when I was a kid, and I haven’t heard it anywhere since 3rd grade (and that was in 1970)!

That video was one of the sweetest things I’ve seen & a perfect tribute to Possey. I’m so sorry for your loss! I will definately hug my fur babies a little tighter tonight & we will say a prayer for Possey & your family.

So sorry for your loss. People don’t realize how hard it is to lose a pet. I lost my cat Eek last year and my beautiful dog Kellie this year. I was a mess. I know Eek and Kellie will be looking after Posey where ever they may be.
BIG hugs for you xoxo
And I’ll give my 5 angels a hug too.

Went through this earlier in the year with my old tomcat Boris. Your song sent me over the edge, I’m afraid. It’s partly your very sweet singing voice (it’s exceptionally good) and the poignant verse, but mostly it was the idea that the cat came back to life, and how much I wish that was possible. I miss my Boris so much it’s still painful to remember him, even months later. Sorry for your loss, truly.

Dear Jenny,
I’m so sorry to hear about Posey. My cat of 17 years died in May of just being damn old. He had the same thyroid problem your kitty had. My cat’s name was Baby Kitty. My brother named him when he was 3 or 4. My family identified so much with you and your love for Posey. We even called him Posey as a nickname sometimes. The pain does go away. And the sadness that you feel is probably mixed with relief that he’s no longer suffering and the sadness that no cat will ever take his place. I’m terribly sorry to hear of his passing. I’m just very happy for you that you have videos to remember him by
We are all thinking of you today.
-Mel

I’m so sorry to hear this. When my cat died almost seven years ago, I cried almost everyday for a week. I still cry sometimes and I’m crying now, as a matter of fact. I know that there aren’t any words to fill this void, but I hope that all these comments help you feel better. Mourn him like the family member that he was and know that he’ll be in your heart forever. Hugs.

I’ve been following for some time now and the first sentence of this post hit me immediately. My kitty Stinky is old(er) and I often think of him when you write about Posey. I’m so sorry, but I know you made each others lives better and I like to think those things mean we’re doing something right in life.

I’m very sorry to hear about Posey. I enjoyed reading about his adventures. Your love for him and your magnificent sense of humor will carry you through this dark time. I offer this for that humor: My friend’s father recently passed away and his obituary is hilarious (http://www.legacy.com/obituaries/courierpress/obituary.aspx?n=emil-becker&pid=158270266). I hope it gives you comfort to know that we all loved Posey because YOU loved him first. Today sucks. Tomorrow holds hope.

So sorry for your sad news. I know that he had an excellent life and we should all be focusing on that happy fact, but it doesn’t keep it from sucking for you. My cat was two months short of her 21st birthday when she died – I’d had her since sixth grade. That’s a loss that just sucks. SUCKS.

Oliver and Obi and The Boy and I send our condolences. And the fuzzies send some long distance purr therapy, just for you.

I’m so sorry. If I lived anywhere near you I’d be over in an instant with a casserole. My dog passed away last year and it broke my heart. We had decided to go ahead and put her to sleep though, she was in pain after having a surgery and was only getting worse. She passed away on her own right before I walked in the door to say goodbye. I hated that I hadn’t been there when it happened. I hugged her and cried and cried. I was shaking and sobbing… She’d been there through so much.

You’ve got this stranger’s sympathies. Your song made me have to pause it cause I’m hormonal, tired and a wuss when it comes to dead cats. Had to say goodbye to my miracle lazarus cat last fall (seriously, he’d had diabetes for almost a decade, was almost 20 and kept trying and failing to die from other things throughout the past decade.) I’m sorry. I knew it was coming, so the initial shock was muted, but it hurt all the same. I still miss his rib-butts. I like to think (though I don’t really believe it) that he made sure I got my next cat before he went so that I and his buddy would have a distraction. She’s sure proven to be that! The freakin’ crazy little girl keeps us all busy.

Oh, Jenny, I am so sad for you and your sweet Posey. The video you made makes a nice tribute (and you have a lovely voice) to this gallant cat. Oh, that the smell of fish could reanimate your Posey. This is why I don’t have pets. If they only lived longer. . . .

That was the cutest song, you have a BEAUTIFUL voice. So very sorry to hear about Posey, what a CUTIEPIE and that video is such a happy memory. Hold it near and dear. You deserve your mourning time. We’ll wait…

Oh no! I’m so sorry. I know it’s tough when we lose our little fuzzy babies. My Speck and Ibsen will both get extra cuddles tonight. Speck hates cuddles and Ibsen tries to eat me half the time, but I hope they’ll understand this time around.

I’m very sorry for your loss. Our little furry friends really come to mean a lot over the years. They have been there through ALL the crap, and they never love us less. You’re in my thoughts and prayers.

Jenny I am so sorry. And I am sure it is too soon to think of anything else right now but when you are ready, please take a moment to realize your amazing song is about a zombie cat. Nicely played. You also have a beautiful voice. Be in peace Posey.

I’m so sorry – I had a wonderful cat, Max, who I had for all of my adult life. He died about 5 years ago, but it was at least 2 years before I could think or speak of it without crying. Hugs and a few tears with you tonight. Tess

1- You have the most lovely singing voice I have heard in a long time. 2 – I loved Don Gato as a kid, too, and was singing along with you. 3 – I remember when I lost my Madison three years ago and it still can make me cry. Our fur-kids are our babies, too. I’m sorry you lost Posey today.

😦 Today was a terrible day for you on so many levels (Re: your twitter account)! My heart goes out to you, Haley and Victor…I lost my cat of 19 years recently and it was one of the hardest things to imagine life without him. I hope that you find peace in the memories of the times you spent with such a wonderful cat! I’ll miss the stories of your Posey too :(!!

I am so sorry for your loss. Every time a pet passes over to the other side I swear I will stop giving my heart to creatures with shorter life spans than me. But I never do – another fur person comes along and I love them with a different part of my heart. Just like I can be too full to eat but still have room in my ” dessert tummy” my heart can be owned by a fur person who is no longer here – only to discover that when another comes along, somehow there is room for them. NOT replacing the other but different in some way.

wow. I haven’t been on the computer much lately and specifically went looking for your blog today..and saw this. I’m SO sorry. Words aren’t enough. I had one like Posey. It’s been 10 years and I still miss him. Sending you hugs and love and good juju… ❤

Condolences on the loss of your furry friend. 😦 On a brighter note, your video transported me back to elementary school where I remember singing that song in music class. (What a lovely singing voice you have, BTW!)

I felt like Posey was my cat too. I am so sad to hear that he passed away. The video seemed very appropriate since it ended with you having us all tell Posey goodbye. Goodbye sweet Posey you were loved by millions and now we will all mourn your passing.

My deepest condolences to you and your family. It’s always too soon when our four legged friends leave us. I keep thinking I don’t want anymore but then some fur face shows up needing help and they end up joining the crowd.

I keep telling God if he’s going to keep sending these blessing he has to 1)Make sure I have the money to care for them and 2)Make my heart a little tougher when it’s their time to join him. So far I manage to get everyone what they need (human and fur faces) but I’m still waiting for the tougher heart.

I’m really sorry to hear about Posey. I am an ardent cat-lover and one of my favorite things about your blog (aside from the incredible and touching humor) is that you include your kitty-cats. I’m gonna go hug Huxley extra tight now and be thankful for the time I have with him. Again, I am so sorry for the loss in your family. I know how hard it is.

Jenny I am so very sorry. He was such a good cat and I know that you all loved him very much as did we. Just take comfort in knowing that he is happy and healthy and waiting for you on the Rainbow Bridge. He’s only gone from your sight…not from your heart.

Ohh- such a lovely tribute to your beloved cat. I’m so sorry and I am totally learning that song for my cat!! 7888888888888888888888888888888888888t That was from my cat. I am so very sorry for your loss.

I’m in a holding pattern for my 18-19 yr old cat (lost the other one last year) who is failing step by step and every day I come home and she’s not dead yet, I take a deep breath and hug her. As I know you did with Posey – you had a bunch of the same ‘false starts’ as we have. The best I can do, which you did as well, is let these furry little monsters know that they are loved and that they are welcome. And to thank them for how warm, loving and furry they made our lives.

And at the same time, remind yourself how rich and wonderful you made Posey’s life compared to so many wild, un’owned’ and shelter cats and take solace in how happy you made him.

I know it sucks. But he was lucky to have you and you to have him. So when the pain fades a bit, let the love and joy shine through.

I’m so sorry to hear that. Our Bijou is 16 and we know our time with him is almost up.
Your song was wonderful, and your singing voice is excellent. I’m sure Posey appreciates it. The only song I sing to Bijou is the “Soft Kitty” song from Big Bang Theory. He’s not a fan.

::hugs:: It’s rough, but it’ll get better. It took months before I could stop crying about my cat, who was 18.5. It’s been a little less than a year now, and I can think of him and mention him without crying now, even though I miss him. Posey was awesome, we’ll miss him, too.

I am so sorry to hear this! Your Posey always reminded me of my 19 year old cat Tissi. She even has the same thyroid issues and all. I feel like a lost a part of Posey as well, as I can empathize with losing a kitty you’ve had for so long. No need to try and talk about Posey right now. Just go and grieve and cuddle Ferris. I will always love your Don Gato duet.

I’m so sorry Jenny, I’m sending lots of love your way. It’s so hard to lose someone who has been in your life for so long. I lost my 15 yr old cat 2 years ago – she was my buddy since highschool. I wish I had such an awesome video of her like you have if Posey! xoxo

Cry, yell, go scarily quiet, hide in a closet, punch things that deserve it like any type of diet food, run outside without shoes and find a green, shaded spot alone and keen and shake until you exhaust yourself. Wash, rinse, repeat as needed. For as long as it takes. Then watch as Ferris starts to insinuate himself more into your orbit, because he will. Cats hate vacuums- all kinds. They fill any available space, and soon, or whenever it happens, you will have available emotional space, and he will be happy to claim it. And the Posey shaped part of your heart is there for good. You need a special place for pictures, memories, stories and all things Posey. That’s where they go. I lost my Ginger on Friday and this strategy seems to be helping me. I ache for your loss and send love.

Oh Jen you poor thing! I had my Chloe for 18 years and when she passed I felt so lost and empty. She was in my life longer than any friend or sibling. It’s terribly hard, as these little fur babies seem to be cleaved from our very being and soul. It is simply the worst feeling. I have a pumpkin sized lump in my throat reading your post and all the comments. Will go look through all the pooch pics of my dear departed and think of all the good times. I’m sure all our little ones are playing and causing mischief together. Love and hugs to you and everyone who is missing their babies.

I am deeply sorry for your loss. Hug Ferris, and I’m going to go hug my lovely dog, Emma. The time we have with our animals is precious and often all-together too brief in our minds, and I know you embraced every day with Posey. Take comfort in that.

Horribly sad for you. Saying goodbye to an old friend and member of the family is heartbreaking. They leave an awfully large furry hole in your life. Sending huge sympathy vibes across the ocean to you.

I am so sorry to hear that your heavenly vacation has been followed by a day from hell. The kidney stone shall pass, the car can be repaired but I am sure your heart is going to take a while to recover. Just remember, it too will heal and soon you will again be able to say… “I don’t know what’s up the ass of the universe lately but I’ve HAD IT. I AM GOING TO BE FURIOUSLY HAPPY, OUT OF SHEER SPITE.” And your almost a quarter of a million followers, fans and friends will be right here for you the whole time. You help us feel less alone and see the rainbows behind the clouds, know that each of us wants to do the same for you.

I’m so sorry for your loss. Our little furries are part of our families and are loved and missed just the same. Posey looked like a very lovey and happy cat. He’ll be watching over you at night protecting you from Copernicus.
I’m going to give my two furries extra hugs and treats tonight.
I hope Ferris Mewler is doing well.

The one sucky thing about having pets (totalty typed kids at first, but no) and it actually stoped me from having any for years. Eventually I just said ‘fuck it’ and got a cat. When we eventually had to put her to sleep I ceried for two days straight because she was just awsome and my baby. Now I can totalty type about this though without getting all weepy.
Really sorry for your loss. Hugs, K

Oh Sweetness. So sorry. I know what you are going through, I lost my little black girl (a cat, in case that wasn’t obvious;) late last year. It doesn’t matter how old they are, it just ain’t fair that you can’t hug them every day.
Be comforted by the fact that you were special to him, that you gave him a fantastic existence and all the pats and snacks a cat can want.
*hugs*

We’ve lost one of my cats a year ago, unexpectedly through a heart attack. We still miss her fiercely and can’t even watch her pics without crying. Some days, we still expect to see her walking down the stairs. 😥

I am SO sorry for your loss, cats can be closer to us than any human being and their loss can leave you heartbroken.
But in time, the tears will slowly turn to smiles, when you remember their weird habits, their cuddles, their miauws, and most of all their devotion to you.

And now I’m gonna cuddle my cats until they start protesting, and then cuddle them some more…