Pregnancy and Weight Gain

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I am six months pregnant. Lately, several of my coworkers have been saying things like "Look, she's eating again!" and "Are you sure you're not having twins?" I know I'm sensitive right now, but these jokes about my weight are really getting to me. What should I say?

You're not being sensitive; those comments really are rude. It's possible that your colleagues think their remarks don't bother you. Find an ally within the group and tell her how you feel. Having her speak up on your behalf may squelch the snide words. If not, you'll have to fend off these folks yourself. You could take the direct route, calmly saying, "I can't believe you're being so thoughtless." Then again, if you're feeling a little feisty, you might breezily remark: "I guess you've never had a child, or you'd realize just how happy -- and hungry -- I am!" And remember, no matter how inconsiderate your coworkers are, don't let them keep you from savoring your pregnancy -- and your food!