The Messenger (2009)

Directed by Oren Moverman, this romantic drama stars Ben Foster as Staff Sergeant Will Montgomery, a war hero who is re-assigned to serve in the Army's Casualty Notification service. As Will learns the full importance of his new role, he becomes aware that the true scars of war are not wrought on the battlefield, but on the homefront. But when Will finds himself drawn to Olivia, a widow of a fallen officer, Will's emotional detachment begins to dissolve.