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As I get older and continue on in my endeavors, I’m always shocked whenever I come across people that still think negatively. I for one don’t get the point of thinking negatively. For one it takes up a lot of energy, and two, why bother. I mean for all of the energy and thoughts that one person puts into thinking negatively, they could just as easily be using all of that energy thinking positively instead.

I remember back in college I was all about the friends with benefits. Usually I ended up becoming Wifey, but you know what, those relationships NEVER worked out. Basically the guy only ended up wifing me because he had nothing better to do, and once something better came along, he was out the door.

Every woman knows it can be hard to get over an ex. The constant thinking about all the good times, the Facebook and Twitter stalking, the constant crying, etc. And as a lot of women know, it can be hard to not be bitter, but over at Madame Noire, they had some really good realistic pointers, on how to get over a past relationship without ending up being the bitter ex-girlfriend. Check out the pointers below.

A lot of women I know won’t EVER pay for a man. And I mean EVER. I once had a friend call me and ask me if she should bring her man some food because he was hungry. The reason she was calling me was because she, and I quote, “Doesn’t like to be played,” mind you though, this is the guy she chose to make her boyfriend and have around her son, yet she didn’t know if she should bring him food or not. I don’t understand women these days. If he’s good enough to make your man and to meet your son, then he is good enough for you to bring food too, and if he’s not, then he shouldn’t be your man.

Over at Peepgame.net, they have an interesting article, 11 Tips for Getting Money from Thirsty Men, and the tips are priceless. I feel like if men are going to be thirsty, then they deserve to be taken advantage of. Let’s be real, men do it to women every day.

That apparently is still the question in 2013. I remember last year the motto amongst a lot of women was, “These Hoes Stay Winning.” As we round out 2013, I’m finding that now we are having the side chick debate. You know, the one asking which is basically is it better, to be a side chick and/or is the side chick to be blamed? Personally, I have to say the man is the one to blame. Before I get into why at the end of the day, it’s the man’s fault, let’s take a look at the side chick debate from both sides.

One of my favorite sites that I religiously read, and I sometimes even reference her posts here, is Peep Game, and it’s written by a woman named Butta Jones (I’m not sure if that’s her real name, and it’s irrelevant anyways). Well, while reading her blog the other day; I say this quote under the title “When A Man Does Something BOGUS…It’s Just That…BOGUS!!! Why Are You So Sympathetic And Understanding Of Nonsense?”