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How many times have you walked away from an interaction and then a few minutes later thought: “I should have said _____!” In The Game, Neil Strauss uses a great analogy for guys who are great with women. You see the matrix. In the movie The Matrix, time slows down when Neo becomes a master.

Today we have another brilliant post by my good friend Robbie Kramer from Inner Confidence. Have you been approaching women but not getting the results you want because you have too much anxiety? Then read on! There is a tragic mistake men make over and over when they approach women. I did it for years

It’s 1 PM on a humid Saturday afternoon. I step onto the subway train. The air conditioning feels like a relief. I see an open seat and sit down in it. Almost immediately I notice her. She’s standing on the other side of the train. I can only see her from the back but she

I was out with a client recently and we spotted a very hot girl. I asked him what he was feeling when he thought about talking to her. “What could I possibly have to offer her?” he said to me. It is one of the biggest components of approach anxiety. You get an overwhelming feeling

It’s often been said that before you get a great woman, that you need to “have a life” of your own first. What does this mean? And how do you get a life? There are two things that will give you the foundation for ‘having a life’ and thus building a social circle. These two

I quit. It’s over. I’m done. I will never approach again. Strange words to read on a site called ApproachAnxiety.com. But it’s true. It is an approach I no longer subscribe to. It used to make me feel like I was doing something. I would gather all the courage in the world and walk up

I am walking through Union Square with a student. It is one of the coldest days of the year. The next step in the process, I tell him, is to simply ask someone for directions. There are people walking toward us. I stop a cute woman. “Hey,” I say smiling. “Can you tell me how

“80 percent of success is just showing up” — Woody Allen 7:00 AM. My alarm goes off. Time to get out of bed and go running. I don’t know why but I always seem to choose either the hottest, most humid day of the year to start running again, or the coldest, snowiest day. I

This is the worst feeling ever, I think to myself. I was feeling great yesterday, and the day before. But today, I just don’t feel like opening my mouth. I just got back from a few days vacation with my family. I was social with them, but didn’t interact with anyone else. I noticed more

It’s a Sunday afternoon and I’m riding up the escalator with Glenn. We are heading into a shoe store to approach some women. There’s a break in the conversation. He turns to a middle-aged woman on the escalator behind us. “High five!” he says. She slaps his hand and a subdued smile comes across her

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Before the Six Step Method, I couldn’t even ask someone what time it was. Now, I go out some days like a seek-and-destroy missile. When I see a beautiful woman, I’m there. I have the tools to start a conversation and be interesting, engaging, and attractive from the start.

- Jacob Pollard, Baltimore, MD

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This book is practical and concise. Everything involves a tangible step I could take to break out of my comfort zone. The most important difference between your approach and others: like any artistic pursuit, you must treat yourself with kindness.

- Jorge Miller, New York, NY

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I don’t hesitate to say that this book could be life-changing for those of us who clearly need to do something about our romantic lives and are looking for a way to do that that will make us not just better with women, but able to feel better about ourselves and to view the world as a less hostile place.

- Rich B., Los Angeles, CA

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This is a great course for guys struggling with extreme anxiety when it comes to approaching women. The bottom line: If you have real trouble approaching women, this is definitely worth checking out.