Thats terrible.....write everything down before you phone, so u got to hand what your gonna say

Tue Oct 16, 2007 12:09 pm

lisamummy

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omg thats terrible hun glad ur leaving at the end of the month

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Tue Oct 16, 2007 12:09 pm

joey_freak

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Baby No. 3 wrote:

My son used to attend a nursery that provided nappies in with the price and I found that he quite often had a dirty nappy on when I collected him, I'm sure that once they know you are coming for the children they leave them. But you cant expect a baby to sit in a dirty nappy all the way home.

They never know when I am going to pick izzie up. Cos a lot of the time I will stay after college to get some work done or leave early cos a lesson has been cancelled. Once when I asked them to change her the woman said "I'm not qualified sorry" so I had to go and find someone else to change her. Its rediculous I would have changed her if they had shown me where the changing stuff was

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Tue Oct 16, 2007 12:09 pm

lenga01

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omg that's terrible!!! Kumani's nursery is really good and she love going there. Im shocked that this is happening! Definately call ofsted!!!

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Tue Oct 16, 2007 12:10 pm

leelee79

Joined: Mon Apr 30, 2007 4:31 pmPosts: 0Location: montrose

report them hun, not sure who too but i would also tell local paper about them, as i'm sure other mums with kids there deserve to know about the neglect.

also can you cancil payment on them they are not doing there job. its easy for me to tell you to do these things as i have never been in your position but i could not let her go through that again. xxx

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Tue Oct 16, 2007 12:12 pm

bump050507

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thats not on. glad you're taking her out

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Tue Oct 16, 2007 12:35 pm

k16ward

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id complain too, some nurseries are ridiculous these days, my friends boy cam home filthy the other day they had been plying outside in the rain in the sand pit, had fallen off a chair outside on the concrete and had a bump on his head, they told parent s to get outdoor shoes and they wear indoor for both, and they dont even use the change of clothes she sends toi nursery with him x

Tue Oct 16, 2007 1:10 pm

nettiexuk

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i work at a nursery and if a child doesnt come with outdoor shoes the parents know that they will still be playing outside despite the weather. we ask for wellies but not all parents bring them

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Tue Oct 16, 2007 1:19 pm

trevina

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That all sounds bad. I also can't believe that you have to pay. My partner earns 19, 000 a year and we get it all paid for while I study. In fact anyone on an income of less than 21,000 gets full funding. Mind you I do live in a depreived area and go to college in the worst town in britain Middlesbrough lol. I hope that you get it all sorted and are able to continue with your studies. My daughter is always clean with a clean nappy when I pick her up and your dd should be the same xx

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Tue Oct 16, 2007 3:15 pm

nettiexuk

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i was just thinking... why dont you get nursery free if your a student? i know loads of parents who are at college and there children have been to our nursery for free i think its a government thing.... i dont think it matters where you live

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Tue Oct 16, 2007 4:13 pm

Niki5592

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That really is terrible. The nursery my friend uses now she has gone back to work charts absolutely everything that has happened for each childe.
Times of nappy changes, if he had done a poo, the amount of fluid he drinks, what food they have offered him and a percentage stated for how much he has eaten. I cant believe that you had to identify your own child to take her home...that is dangerous. They would be in proper trouble if OFSTED knew that was happening.
It really does sound like that place isnt great for Izzie. The info that Nettiexuk provided you with is excellent. Good luck with everything and I hope you get it sorted.

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Tue Oct 16, 2007 4:19 pm

chelle4

Joined: Wed Apr 04, 2007 12:31 pmPosts: 0

I am a trained nursery nurse and my last place of work was just like that, i was looking after babys and i was disscusted (sp) with the staff and the level of care they gave i was forever saying sorry to parents in the morning for children going home with dirty nappys/ clothes and faces. the quality of the food given to the older children was a discrace I complained to the manager as i would not even give my child the same to eat but she blamed it on funding and there was nothing she could do,

I no longer work as a nursery nurse because a lot of nurserys are of this standard.

that's terrible. I've never had any problems with Kian's nursery or Emma's when she was at nursery. Kian always has a clean bum when I pick him up. He usually poos about 4.30 in the day, and if he poos just as I pick him up the girls always go and change him. His clothes may be dirty from where he throws his lunch/dinner about but if need be the girls change him and he always has a clean face. Good luck with the complaining x

Reading your story has horrified me.
If this is how they treat your child when you are there, god only knows what they do when you're not. Some would define this as child abuse.

Personally, i would take my child out of that place and never take them back. Regardless of how difficult that makes things, you can't compromise where your childs welfare is concerned. I didn't mean that offensively to you, but i do things a certain way and this sort of thing incences me.