for some...as I've always maintained..they are not asexual and have mental,physical, relationship, or interaction issues and so have aligned with asexuality until they believe they will find a way forward

but even those at some point will think..yes or no

don't get me wrong..I'm not in " o wo is me" land but I am approaching a certian age where you spend so much time alone that you seem to manage perfectly well and my asexuality seems to have more positives than negative so I've often wondered do people have a eureka momment or drift into what seems to be?