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Significant others sleeping over

My daughter is 22 years old she has been with her boyfriend two years. She has been begging me to let her boyfriend spend the night I told her I do not approve of that and there will be no guys spending the night in my home. I told her that if she wants that they need to get their own place....opinions...suggestions?

At 22 I'd be a bit less of a prude and flat out say He can sleep over but no sex. Let's be honest they're already sleeping together but if you can respect her choices as an adult she will respect your choices as to the house rules.

your house, your rules. I started dating my dh when I was 18, moved out and married him when I was 22 and there was no way my parents would allow it. I never asked though. I think you're doing the right thing. she can do like I used to if she wants a sleepover, get a hotel room lol