Beginner's Guide to Ball Gags

What is a ball gag? A gag is a type of bondage equipment designed to muffle the submissive partner during BDSM play. Although there are many different types of gags, ball gags are by far the most popular. While many couples are intimidated by gags at first, after trying it out they often find it adds an exciting edge to Dominance and submission play.

Ball gags come in several different styles and offer varying levels of restraint. It's important you choose the right gag for you as some are great for beginners, while others are best suited to advanced S&M explorers.

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Why Do People Use Ball Gags?

Introducing a ball gag to your intimate fun is a great way of enhancing role play, increasing hierarchical scenarios and silencing your lover. Depending on the style of ball gag you choose will affect your play in different ways.

For the wearer, a ball gag increases mental and physical arousal by enhancing their role as a sub or slave. Large, non-breathable gags force the sub to breath through their nose which, during heavy panting, limits oxygen for a more intense orgasm. Large ball gags also allow the wearer to really let loose as far as moans and groans are concerned. Advanced gagging often acts an an effective silencer.

A visually stimulating treat for any Dom, a ball gag reinforces a Master's dominance in any play scenario. Some gags feature rings for attaching extra leads and restraints to, which further enhances play. Lots of couple's include putting the gag on as part of foreplay.

Some gags are designed for specialised role play, such as Pony Play, but this is usually down artistic styling and most gags can be introduced to any play.

Don't forget that 'safety words' will most probably be impossible for a sub wearing a gag to say. Arrange another signal, such as a raised hand or tapping on a piece of furniture as an alternative.

How to Choose a Ball Gag

Beginner

Ball gags which are made for beginners usually feature a small ball, are made from non-intimidating materials and are easily adjusted.

First time gags are designed for maximum comfort during wear, and provide the visual stimulation of gagging, without opening the mouth or jaw too much.

Your sub should still find it easy to breath and make some sound when wearing a beginner gag.

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