He is very lucky she did not die from the trauma of the rape given her age, sick b'stard.]]>
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Author: LilMissSunshineSubject: 369312Posted: Mar 19 2014 at 6:18pm

Disgusting. He should have been sent to the mental unit. Flirting does not give someone permission to rape someone. NO means NO!]]>
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Author: f8dagrateSubject: 369312Posted: Mar 19 2014 at 5:52pm

sugabanana wrote:

Nursing homes are the worst. I volunteered at one as my 1st job and there was this nasty old guy Pueblo. He was like 100 still grabbing all the old ladies tiddays and snookums. He used to sneak in their rooms at night. I'm like DUDE your 100

I knew of a nurse who used to flash an old man who had expressive aphasia.

Nursing homes are the worst. I volunteered at one as my 1st job and there was this nasty old guy Pueblo. He was like 100 still grabbing all the old ladies tiddays and snookums. He used to sneak in their rooms at night. I'm like DUDE your 100

Yeah I thought it was going to be an old guy but this is much much worse.

Nursing homes are the worst. I volunteered at one as my 1st job and there was this nasty old guy Pueblo. He was like 100 still grabbing all the old ladies tiddays and snookums. He used to sneak in their rooms at night. I'm like DUDE your 100]]>
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Author: liesnalibisSubject: 369312Posted: Mar 19 2014 at 5:17pm

Barely 4 years for rape?! Since the courts aren't doing much to punish him for brutally raping that woman, I hope that male gets sued by her and her family for whatever bit of change he has left.]]>
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Author: ModelessDivaSubject: 369312Posted: Mar 19 2014 at 5:05pm

how messed up do you have to be to be a 30 year old man and rape an almost 90 year old woman?

Minnesota nursing home defends rapist: 89-year-old victim was a ‘flirt’

An elderly woman in Minnesota is seeking punitive damages against a nursing home that placed her in a mental health facility and protected her attacker after she was raped.

According to court documents obtained by the Star Tribune, Edgewood Vista senior living facility forced the 89-year-old woman to spend 72 hours in the mental health unit of St. Luke’s Hospital near Duluth after she reported that 30-year-old Andrew Scott Merzwski had raped her in her bed at the senior home.

The woman said that Merzwski had entered her room as she preparing for bed. After she invited him to watch a movie, he started taking off his clothes.

“It’s not right, this wouldn’t be right,” the woman reportedly told Merzwski, pointing to a photo of her husband.

After the victim’s daughter notified police, Merzwski admitted that he had sex with the 89-year-old woman.

About that same time, the nursing home transferred the woman to a psychiatric ward at St. Luke’s Hospital for nearly three days.

“The room she was in was dark and cold … and they locked her in at night and all she had was a blanket,” nurse examiner Theresa Flesvig said in the court documents.

When Flesvig was finally able to examine the victim, she found the “biggest tear” as a result of rape that she had ever seen in her career.

Testimony filed with the court said that the nursing home’s clinical services director, Marilyn Moore, tried to defend that rapist after he had confessed to police.

“Did she tell you that this was consensual?” Moore asked Flesvig. “Did she tell you that she flirts with this boy mercilessly?”

Moore later allegedly told sexual assault advocate Mary Salisbury that the victim was “was making it up,” and described her as a “flirt.”

“I was just shocked that somebody was so blatantly putting the blame on this woman,” Flesvig noted.

Merzwski was sentenced to 53 months in prison ordered to register as a sex offender for a period of 10 years. The Health Department cited the nursing home for failing to immediately report the rape, but concluded that the Merzwski was solely responsible for the victim’s maltreatment.