Newest development. We have talked about how she loves me to lick her pussy. Well of course I love it too. She has asked me to lick her after making love to her. She has said I should clean up my mess. She must be talking to somone or reading things somewhere because she has never mentioned or talked like this before. And I wonder where this will lead down the road. We have talked about threesomes with either a girl or guy but she previously said she doesn't think she could be with a girl even that it does excite her and she doesn't need another guy. But just wonder if me cleaning my own cum from her pussy is a sign she is opening up to things. If note she does like it when she pulls her dildi from her pussy and has me suck it clean. She watches so intently and had a big orgasm. Thoughts?

So an update. We went to the movies Friday night, sat all the way in the back. Had three ladies directly in front of us and one guy to my left about 10 seatd away. The movie started and she put her leg on my leg and started rubbing lightly. This continued and she eventually was rubbing my cock. Daring her, I unbuttoned and unzipped my jeans. She reached in my uderwear and found my hard cock and started stroking my cock, so I pulled my pants down to where my cock was free and she could stroke me freely. This went on for about 5 min or so. I couldn't believe she was doing this, but I loved it. She had on a dress so as she stroked me I reached over and rubbed her leg and up further until I found her panties. I pushed them aside, but she stopped stroking me and surprised me again by taking her panties off. I started to rub her bare pussy again. With the movie being loud there was no worries of being too loud. I rubbed her and fingered her until she was squirming in her seat. She had a big orgasam, she was so wet. Nothing further happened, she didn't even put her panties back on. I was so hard and horny. I was so surprised she did this, especially with folks sitting so close. She said she was trying to shock me and this she did! I do not know what made her do this but I loved it. Thoughts?

For over twenty years I was a good wife and mother. About a year ago we started exploring the sexual possibilities. It is exciting knowing that the possibilities are truly possible. I'm now a happy hot wife and my husband is ecstatic.

So what eventually caused you two to explore the sexual possibilities? His idea or yours. It seems my wife is driving the bus so to speak.

Let me explain, it all depends on the size of the person. For me, one size fits all is not applicable for breasts.

They need to be proportionate to the size of the individual. If the person is a BBW then small breasts just do not look good on her, she would need to have larger breasts. For the petite ladies they need to have smaller breasts that fit their body type......hopefully your getting the picture.

As for how firm or soft, they would need to be a mixture of both, firm but yet soft.

I have definitely thought about doing, well fantasized about doing. Have yet to do it, I lose all desire after I've cum. I think I would have no problem doing it if she asked me to lick her after I finished cumming, but she has yet to do so. We have talked about me licking her afterwards while we are having sex but nothing thus far has happened. I guess I need more encouragement from her after I've cum to do it. I just do not know if it's just dirty talk with her or if she really wants me to do it.

I have met a lot of guys and some can reload in a few minutes others take as long as 20.Don't worry about it - particularly if she didn't cum. That makes matters worse.The best way I have found is to take them in my mouth and it doesn't take long for them to get enough 'bone' to get it back in. Once it is there it behaves like normal.I assume your wife is not adverse to oral. Going down on her may work for you too.Good luck.

And speaking of going down on her, I love doing that. Just haven't worked my way up to going down on her after I've cum in her. I have always wanted to do that, but after I cum I usually lose all desire to do it.

I have met a lot of guys and some can reload in a few minutes others take as long as 20.Don't worry about it - particularly if she didn't cum. That makes matters worse.The best way I have found is to take them in my mouth and it doesn't take long for them to get enough 'bone' to get it back in. Once it is there it behaves like normal.I assume your wife is not adverse to oral. Going down on her may work for you too.Good luck.

Thanks, she is not adverse to oral and of course being a guy I love receiving oral!!

For a while it was back to normal routine sex as I previously posted. I have not come around to specifically talking to her about what happen last year and why the changes.

We now have come around to where she is opening back up again, we have watched some porn and have talked about going to a local strip club and/or adult theater. We have been a little more openly joking about each other having a boyfriend or girlfriend, nothing serious just one liners back and forth. Neither one denies anything we just play along jokingly. We definitely are having more open talk about sex, unfortunately most through texts and nothing face to face other than while between the sheets.

I guess, I need to just enjoy the moment and go with it. Its just been a roller coaster the last year or so, but I guess that's married life......right?

I'm am just curious to know what other guys or couples do. After sex with my wife and I have cum, I need to recover. I guess some guys are able to continue right away after cumming and some guys cannot. Well I'm one of the guys who cannot. After cumming, I kind of lose the moment and need something to try and get me in the mood again. All the sexual excitement is gone and I need to get it back. Any suggestions?

I have talked to my wife and she's suggested some sexual toys, watching some porn.

Please let me know what has worked for you, maybe something that works for you will work for us.

Well, this mind blowing......blowjob was from a guy. This was the first time I'd been touched by a guy and of course first blowjob from a guy, probably why this was the best one I have received to date. All the excitement, taboo about it was probably what made it the best. The fact that it was the first time anyone had swallowed my cum also added to it. It was at an adult video, in a booth in California just outside of an air force base.

I would definitely share my wife. I think it's all about her, to see her pleasured is the ultimate reward. I want everything for her, she deserves it all. If I can make her happy by sharing her then that's what will happen. Of course I'd love to participate, not just watch, but as long as she is happy and being pleasured that's what matters to me.

I would let her of course, she is her own woman and can make her own decisions. Of course the opposite side is, she would have to understand that I may have the same request of me being with another woman. This would be if she asks, demanding is another story. But my wife wouldn't demand. She probably wouldn't ask this question either.

First off, I would be extremely excited, turned on.......with that being said if we have not talked about it before hand and came to an understanding of her desires and me giving her the go ahead to try it, I would consider it cheating regardless if it's with another woman or a man.

If I were involved, as in a threesome of some sorts, I'd not mind if he wanted to play with the man too. I've always wanted to see a man suck another man's cock that wasn't from porn. I think it's kind of hot.

I think that is horny as hell! He can suck as much cock as he likes, as long as there's no pussy it's all good! For me I don't find it's cheating as I can't give him that (don't have the equipment) and he is always honest about it and tells me all about it when he gets home!

I like the way you think. I of course would want my wife with me, if I did venture out on my own it would only be with her knowledge.

What is your interpretation? My wife likes to fuck herself with her dildo and then after cumming she wants me to fuck her. While I'm fucking her she likes to lick the dildo and then she'll put the dildo up to my lips and have me suck the dildo while she watches intently, she'll feed me the dildo as if a guy is fucking my mouth. This has happened many times.

Would you interpret this as she has a fantasy of watching me suck a real cock?