I've decided to ignore the email. Mainly because I am not vested enough to care about whatever she wants to talk about. I certainly would never have gone to "their place" and never, ever would have invited them to mine. Amber and I were never close so the invitation was jinky to me and made me think he was behind it all.

If Amber comes back to the Saturday volunteer work, I can speak with her then.

I'm rather relieved you are not going to meet her/them. OP, but kind of sorry for myself. (So nosy!) But I hope you see her again on Saturday just so you can see that she is okay. If so, then whatever is going on is not worth knowing because if she really wanted to talk with you she has had lots of opportunities to do so.

I've decided to ignore the email. Mainly because I am not vested enough to care about whatever she wants to talk about. I certainly would never have gone to "their place" and never, ever would have invited them to mine. Amber and I were never close so the invitation was jinky to me and made me think he was behind it all.

If Amber comes back to the Saturday volunteer work, I can speak with her then.

Thanks again!

I think you made a wise decision!

POD

I'd rather get my drama fix from TV or a good book. No need to involve oneself with hinky-acting people!

I've decided to ignore the email. Mainly because I am not vested enough to care about whatever she wants to talk about. I certainly would never have gone to "their place" and never, ever would have invited them to mine. Amber and I were never close so the invitation was jinky to me and made me think he was behind it all.

If Amber comes back to the Saturday volunteer work, I can speak with her then.

Thanks again!

I think you made a wise decision!

POD

I'd rather get my drama fix from TV or a good book. No need to involve oneself with hinky-acting people!

another pod. .as much as I would like to know what is going on, I wouldn't' want the OP to put themselves in harm's way

1) She wanted to show you how "in love" they are, to prove you wrong (as some PPs suggested)2) It's really the guy, and he wants to tear a strip off you3) It's really the guy, and he's hoping for Scrabble with three players4) She's found herself in a bad situation, realized the OP was the one who had tried to warn her, and now wants to find out more, but is afraid to say anything revealing over email as the guy is reading all her emails.

Sounds like she's gone down the rabbit hole with this guy. The reasoning part of her is aware that things are going screwy but the emotional part wants to prove you wrong. Maybe her reaching out is both a plea for help and the wish to rub your nose in it. Lots of people are split like that.

Either way, not your responsibility. You fulfilled your duty to warn her. Good on you for not replying.