3. Purposefulness.

Now that you have yourself on the right path, it is time to start being purposeful about every interaction you have.

Over the next 30 days, build the habit of always clearly knowing your “what's” and “whys.” Before you go to the grocery store, write the email, post that picture know without a shadow of a doubt what you are doing and why you are doing it.

Know what outcomes, connections, relationships you want to be spurred from these individual actions.

Track your “whats,” “whys,” intentions and outcomes. See if your actions are getting you the results you want.

4. The Outside You.

Yes your outside appearance matters. From your personal style, to your body language, to your hair, to how you hold yourself. It all matters.

I know we would like to believe that as human beings we are advanced, but we aren't.

It takes about 1 second for us to make our opinion about someone and another 2 seconds for our brain to process what we think.

So yes, within 3 seconds of someone SEEING you from across the room, seeing your profile picture, website, or video an opinion about who you are and what type of person you are like had been made. And statistically it is 89% more difficult to change a negative first impression into a positive one.