But anyway, I have source code to draw a gradient in the title bar (ala Office 95, Norton Utils, etc.) and in it you can choose what font you want to use, can't do anything about the size, as that would mean changing the dimensions of the title bar (need to change windows settings). This code is probally what you want, and you get the very stylish gradient title bar effect.

Send me your e-mail address (chrisvidler@geociites.com) and I'll send you what you need.