I love intelligent guys and your first from Oxford is impressive, as is the fact you are training to be a cardiologist. However, I am someone who hugely values humility and modesty, and I am looking for a very deep connection which isn't based on superficiality or status. This is the main aspect that concerns me as to whether you are a potential suitor and therefore at this moment I have no option but to decline.

If you can work on these things over the next couple of months and prove to me that you are not as shallow, arrogant, and sexist as you come across then I will reconsider.

Thanks,

Ethereal

Good decision. He does come of as an arrogant little prrickk and you deserve better than someone who would probably hold you up as another one of his prizes and achievements.

(Original post by under8ed)
Good decision. He does come of as an arrogant little prrickk and you deserve better than someone who would probably hold you up as another one of his prizes and achievements.

Exactly. But if he does work hard on these things as I said I might reconsider because he is a very attractive physical specimen and also intelligent.

(Original post by Ethereal World)
Exactly. But if he does work hard on these things as I said I might reconsider because he is a very attractive physical specimen and also intelligent.

Yeah he is the 'alpha male' kind of guy. Will he change though? I highly doubt it. Consider the reasons why he wants you. He's almost selling himself more than saying why he's in love with you. Saying things like 'Look at me im rich i can take care of you' sounds like the start of a porrnno not real love.

But at the end of the day its your life so make your own decision, but i personally think there are better ppl out there

I love intelligent guys and your first from Oxford is impressive, as is the fact you are training to be a cardiologist. However, I am someone who hugely values humility and modesty, and I am looking for a very deep connection which isn't based on superficiality or status. This is the main aspect that concerns me as to whether you are a potential suitor and therefore at this moment I have no option but to decline.

If you can work on these things over the next couple of months and prove to me that you are not as shallow, arrogant, and sexist as you come across then I will reconsider.

Thanks,

Ethereal

Look ethernet ,I don't get declined for anything or by anyone. I'm Awesome Genius. I get what I want.

I'm 4 months away from having a 100k sports car, my family are worth like 2 million pounds, and I've got an IQ of like 145.

Saying no to me is like saying to claiming your lottery winnings - you've won the jackpot, now claim your prize

(Original post by Ethereal World)
We all know how unquenchable I am Diddy. Even you tried once but those 10 gems weren't enough. I need rep all the time (I've worked out the actual rate in terms of both points and individual reps). It is a very high threshold- only really satisfied by my rep shower thread, so I am constantly unsatisfied.

Always chasing your next fix. One day you will reach 10 and then you will feel that 11 is too far away and you will stop for a while. But then the reps start adding up and get closer and closer until you are back to your old way. Just chasing those last 3000 reps.

(Original post by Amazing Egghead)
Do you think he's on TSR for the agreeable badinage?

I think he's on TSR because something is missing from his life.

TSR isn't online dating. Sure, you could meet somebody here, but surely using a platform designed with that specific aim is a better approach. Somebody close to 30 shouldn't be using TSR to meet potential dates. Just as a 16 year old male shouldn't be on Mumsnet looking for his next lay.

(Original post by MountKimbie)
I think he's on TSR because something is missing from his life.

TSR isn't online dating. Sure, you could meet somebody here, but surely using a platform designed with that specific aim is a better approach. Somebody close to 30 shouldn't be using TSR to meet potential dates. Just as a 16 year old male shouldn't be on Mumsnet looking for his next lay.

I have no doubt that he is also on Mumsnet for this purpose, as well as literally every other website with a social element