I'll never be first in his life.

Whether it's his friends, job, parents or favorite sport, you might feel like you’re sitting on the sidelines. Don’t dismiss that, says Dr. Tessina. “If you feel you're not getting enough of his time and attention, present that to him as a problem to solve.” Try: "I miss you and would like us to spend more time together."If he’s caring for an ailing mother or working on a critical project, though, show some patience and understanding, just as you’d expect him to do for you.

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