a) when neither of us knew someone was taking a photo of us
b) 11 (almost 12) years apart. And we never stopped looking at each other that way. I adored him and he adored me and to me, that was just so clear.

Someone sent me the second photo on the day of his memorial service for the DVD we were making. I never knew it existed until we were collecting photos and I was stunned when I saw it. It made me happy and sad at the same time, but I will always cherish it. So much.