Guys, is it true that you find it off putting when a girl talks about how's she's feeling or is this a myth?

So girls are told when your dating (more specifically early stages pre relationship) a guy not to talk about your feelings first whether that be good or bad feelings.. it's a big no no as guys find it off putting and needy. Is this true or a myth?

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too me it's a good thing, because for example she may have lost a family member in a car accident and I happen to say something about a person and that there drinving is bad. so it's the stuff like that.