What Side Are You Leaning While Kissing Romantic Partners?

Men about 15 times more likely than women to initiate kissing. Over two-thirds of the kiss initiators and kiss recipients turned their heads to the right.

If you lean in for a kiss on the left you may be in the minority. Humans are hardwired to favor leaning to the right while kissing romantic partners, an international team of psychologists and neuroscientists suggest in a new research.

The study, by the universities of Dhaka, Bath and Bath Spa, found that leaning to the right while kissing romantic partners, may have wider implications.

Building on previous work from Western countries, the setting for the study was significant as kissing in Bangladesh is a very private behaviour; something censored from television or films. So, whereas similar results from the Western countries could be attributed to cultural factors or having learnt how to kiss through influences on TV or film, the same cannot as easily be said for a non-Western country like Bangladesh.

Prior studies into this area have involved couples kissing in public places, such as airports, railway stations, beaches or parks.

In this first study in the world show that the kiss recipients have a tendency to match their partners’ head-leaning direction.

For the study, the researchers invited 48 married couples to kiss privately in their own homes, and after kissing they were asked to go to different rooms, open an envelope and then report on various aspects of the kiss independently of each partner.

Their results highlight a bias to turn heads to the right when kissing for both the initiator and the recipient of the kiss, and also that men were about 15 times more likely than women to initiate kissing. Over two-thirds of the kiss initiators and kiss recipients turned their heads to the right.

Handedness predicted headleaning direction in the kiss initiators, but not in the kiss recipients. In addition, the kiss initiators’ head-leaning direction strongly predicted the kiss recipients’ head-leaning direction. This suggests that the kiss recipients have a tendency to match their partners’ head-leaning direction in order to avoid the discomfort of mirroring heads.

In fact, when mirroring each other’s head movements on request for a kiss, both the kiss initiators and the kiss recipients reported that they felt discomfort kissing in that way. This further suggests the underlying cognitive mechanisms of the act of kissing and head turning. Though this action tends to be performed intuitively, a decision must be made about the direction to which the partners should lean to kiss each other.

It suggests that the act of kissing is determined by the brain splitting up tasks to its different hemispheres – similar to being either right or left-handed – specifically the functions in the left cerebral hemisphere, located in the emotion and decision-related areas of the brain.

The researchers suggest different hormone levels (such as testosterone) in each hemisphere and neurotransmitters might be unevenly distributed to each hemisphere (such as dopamine, involved in reward behaviors) as giving rise to a bias to turn right.

This may have implications if you are left handed and your partner is right-handed or vice versa. It is likely that as a kiss initiator you will alter your partner’s spontaneous head leaning to a comfortable direction or as a kiss recipient you will be affected in a similar manner by your partner’s head leaning direction.

There is a strong cultural bias against being left-handed in Bangladesh and many other non-Western societies, so it is not always clear whether one’s handedness matches his or her innate hand preference.

Lead author from the Department of Psychology at the University of Dhaka, Dr. Rezaul Karim, explained: “Head turning is one of the earliest biases seen in development – even in the womb a preference for turning the head to the right is observable before that of favoring the right hand or foot. Whether this fundamental bias is innate and extends into adulthood is a lingering question for neuroscience and psychology.

“We as humans make lots of behaviors while interacting with others every day, but almost all the time we are not aware of the biases we have in those behaviors, such as in turning the head to one side during lip kissing. Prior studies also poorly understood the phenomena as they ignored the role of kiss recipients or were unable to disentangle the impact of kiss initiators on the head turning direction in kiss recipients.

“This is the first study to show sex differences in the initiation of kissing, with males more likely being the initiator, and also that the kiss initiators’ head-turning direction tends to modulate the head-turning direction in the kiss recipients. Based on our prior theoretical work we are also able to make new hypotheses about the underlying neural basis for these behaviors. ”

Dr. Michael Proulx from the University of Bath Department of Psychology added: “This study is unique in giving us a look into a private behavior in a private culture with implications for all people. Prior works could not rule out cultural learning due to having Western samples. It turns out, we as humans are similar even if our social values differ.”