You can't allow those to always find that reason to make you react in a harsh way. You can't allow those that prefer to do or say something that make you react. We are all in control of our own actions, but always remember that a reaction to something, no matter what it is, is the control that moment no matter what it is. Don't allow those to be in your energy when the energy they cary is harming you. We all have our faults in our lives and we all have situations that become stressful. I for one am a person that has been through hell and back in my own way. My situations is not worse than anyone elses, nor is anyone elses worse than mine. It is not a competition but it is a reality. You can love someone and understand them. You can love someone that may upset you in many ways, but when it comes down to both people not understanding each other, it will always be contaminated. I have learned so much in my life, but I will honestly say that in the past 7 to 8 months, I have learned to really focus on my heart, and how a person makes me react, feel, and if I am even heard. It's moments when I feel as if I don't exist to someone, no matter how many wonderful things they do for you. It's not what a person does for you, it is about how a person listens. How a person understands, allows you to be, allows you to be heard, allows you to be remembered, and most important, allows you to give to them by showing love, emotion, compassion, and honesty. If none of that is allowed, it will always be a battle of he said / she said and it will always be a tit for tat. Trust me I know. I have removed my self from, "The Energy", and now I am grounded to my own. I do love, I do believe, I do admire. This is in no way a bash on anyone, and if it came across that way, I really do apologize. I am just wording my feelings because as a person with faults just like everyone else, I thank those who have listened, heard, and remembered. I am in the process of creating a small video / movie if you want to call it that, and I am expressing a feeling that is not only true, but also tiring. I really do look forward to sharing it with everyone when I am done with it. I really wish sometimes people could actually look in to my eyes and be honest about looking into them, they would really get an understanding of who I am. Maybe not completely, but you would know.