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The Woods Are Lovely, Dark and Deep

Originally Posted by yukihime03

Well... there were other people who said more outrageous things so...

Yeah, I'm bad at it, that's one of my phlegmatic sides. But I'm also the no-bs and straightforward type when my choleric side is talking. Just the day before yesterday, that someone whom I said disliked me exploded and got mad at me. It's a bit terrifying for me. What makes me even more terrified is that I could handle it calmly, using reasons and logic to calm her, even though in the inside I was practically trembling in fear. It's as if someone has taken over my body, but that someone is still me.

Oh, thanks, though I actually don't reblog much anymore. Lately, there aren't many interesting things in Tumblr... Of course, there are a lot of interesting stuffs, or I won't reblog them..

Oh really, any that you can share here?

When someone explodes in your face like that, you have to firstly try to handle it calmly( which in your case your instincts to do so were correct), to avoid it getting further out of hand, then or either walking away should you not succeed in calming them. When someone does that, I try to make them see how stupid and irrational they're behaving. I think the being scared part is normal, some of it has to do with lack of experience/dealings with situations like that. You become better at handling them, the more you come across them...as with many things in life. Just don't let someone make you tremble in fear

Yeah the date/post numbers ratio is quite low but the quality is still there to be admired

Originally Posted by Iceiphoenix

Father! You totally just ignored me!

Ahhhh I thought it was meant for Xad. So you wanted me to stop at 12,345? sorry I was just replying and posting to clear my CP that I didn't notice.

Happy Chinese New Year~

Originally Posted by Xadyu

They are the treasures of my room. Standing tall on the movie case, with a lamp pointed towards to highlight it's awesomeness.. I'll miss it.

Re: The Woods Are Lovely, Dark and Deep

Originally Posted by goldb

Oh really, any that you can share here?

When someone explodes in your face like that, you have to firstly try to handle it calmly( which in your case your instincts to do so were correct), to avoid it getting further out of hand, then or either walking away should you not succeed in calming them. When someone does that, I try to make them see how stupid and irrational they're behaving. I think the being scared part is normal, some of it has to do with lack of experience/dealings with situations like that. You become better at handling them, the more you come across them...as with many things in life. Just don't let someone make you tremble in fear

Yeah the date/post numbers ratio is quite low but the quality is still there to be admired

Nah, it's too outrageous.

I know all the tricks, I've read about it so many times but I didn't actually have the confidence that I could do it... That I actually could kinda surprised me. She's not being irrational, just mad, with the right reasons. Since it's part of my mistake too, I apologized to her even if she wouldn't apologize for her behaviour. At least, I did the right thing. The trembling in fear part is unavoidable though... That phlegmatic side of mine that dislikes confrontation will always be there...

Re: The Woods Are Lovely, Dark and Deep - Part 1

Originally Posted by FrostyMouse

Second part, awesome. Congrats, Bob.

So, about Arsenal. Do you want to see Wenger fired?

Cheers, Frosty.

Yes, very much so. But who could replace him? that's my main concern...and can they do a better job than he? he's established a system at the club beyond what happens on the pitch that I dunno if his replacement can maintain or improve upon. :/

What do you think?

Originally Posted by Iceiphoenix

Congrats, father!

Yes, I did want you to stop at 12,345, but oh well.

Thanksh

To be honest, I was avoiding checking this thread because of long replies; had I checked earlier, I would've stopped at that number and taken a screenshot .

I know all the tricks, I've read about it so many times but I didn't actually have the confidence that I could do it... That I actually could kinda surprised me. She's not being irrational, just mad, with the right reasons. Since it's part of my mistake too, I apologized to her even if she wouldn't apologize for her behaviour. At least, I did the right thing. The trembling in fear part is unavoidable though... That phlegmatic side of mine that dislikes confrontation will always be there...

Haha, thanks.

I still wanna know. Message me

So you know what you're doing then, that's fine. If you've apologised for your part in the incident, then the right thing would be for her to do so too. And you're right, I also have a dislike of confrontation; I avoid it at all costs, be it walking away, telling the person "whatever" "do what you want", unless I think they are really wrong and something needs to be said.

Re: The Woods Are Lovely, Dark and Deep - Part 1

Originally Posted by goldb

Cheers, Frosty.

Yes, very much so. But who could replace him? that's my main concern...and can they do a better job than he? he's established a system at the club beyond what happens on the pitch that I dunno if his replacement can maintain or improve upon. :/

What do you think?

Well, a younger guy with new ideas and stuff could help. Jurgen Klopp might be good, for example. If you're unsure, he's Dortmund's manager.