Have you ever been in a relationship where you’re drawn to someone but you keep fighting and you just can’t make it work no matter what you do? If you get back together with the person after finally finding the strength to break up it’s like re-opening a wound. You can’t help but pick at it for temporary itch relief, even though you know it will hurt worse in the long run.

That’s how I see Lindsay and Sam. Sam is the one who knows better while Lindsay is such a mess she can’t see any other alternative than to be in a relationship that provides some kind of stability for her, even though she sabotages it constantly.

At the end of last week, Samantha changed her status on Facebook from “single” to “it’s complicated” after spending six hours with Lohan. The two then spent at least two nights together, Friday and Saturday:

Lohan, 22, was spotted heading into Ronson’s home later that night and didn’t leave until the next morning.
Coincidentally – or not – Ronson changed her Facebook relationship status from “single” to “it’s complicated” around the same time.

A source close to Lohan tells People magazine that the “Mean Girls” star’s alarming recent weight loss is an attempt to get attention from Ronson.

“She is a self-destructive person,” Lohan’s “friend” says. “It’s all part of her cry for attention. She wants Sam to see how bad she’s hurting and she wants Hollywood to see her as a ‘tortured artist’ who is wasting away … This is a symptom of something much bigger – a desperate need to be noticed.”

Maybe Lohan’s pleas on the cover of US Weekly and in her interview with Ellen Degeneres actually worked. She told Ellen that Samatha wasn’t around for a while and then broke up with her and that she had no idea what prompted it “I just hadn’t seen her in, like, a week. She.. disappeared. When you don’t know you’re breaking up. Really weird.” [via Huffington post]

The story was that Ronson’s family staged an intervention after being fed up by Lohan’s bad behavior and sense of entitlement. Maybe Sam’s heart wasn’t in it, because she eventually caved and gave in to Lindsay’s epic text messages and media appeals. I feel kind of sorry for both of them and it just looks like they’re postponing the inevitable and making it harder in the long run. People do get back together and make it work, but these two have too many hurdles to get over, especially considering Lindsay’s addictions. According to Mike Walker’s column in this week’s National Enquirer, Lindsay pledged to Sam that she’d go to rehab if she took her back. I hope that’s true and that she follows through, but it’s doubtful.

Lindsay is now in Hawaii and was spotted in Maui shopping at Gucci and Louis Vuitton yesterday. It doesn’t look like she’s headed to rehab anytime soon.

Lindsay and Sam are show separately outside Sam’s house on 4/25/09 after spending the night together. Credit: INFPhoto.com. Lindsay is also shown shopping in Maui yesterday. Credit: Matingas/Laurent/Bauergriffinonline

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Give me a break. Ronson needs rehab as much if not more than Lohan. They both over indulge in unhealthy lifestyles. No one or the other is any better or worse off with or without one another. Ronson owes her new found fame to Lohan and Lohan owes her recent financial stability to Ronson. I say leave them alone to enjoy their soap opera. They love this shit!!!

Well maybe Lyndsay has learned to act better when in a relationship after she felt the intense hurt of losing Sam. All couples go through ups and downs. Poor Lindsay grew up in such a dysfunctional family she has only been with creeps who treated her like shit. Here comes Sam who treats her really well and she acts crazy.. poor girl deserves someone who loves her like Sam but because of her father always cheating on her mother her whole life she never saw a healthy family.. I hope they get it together..

Sometimes people who don’t really want to do something give in to their families. Looks like this is what happened here. If Ronson really wanted to be rid of her, she could have changed her cell phone number and/or moved to New York for awhile.

Lohan is a very emotional person and has some real problems. I knew someone who was very similar. She really tried to work on this but would relapse again and again. It must be so much worse doing it in front of the public and paparazzi who make a fortune on your misfortunes.

No one is intervening for Lindsay because her parents are immature, enabling, money hungry, fame-leeches who care more about themselves than, well, anyone else, including their kids. Expect to see Ali in the same position as Lindsay in a few years with no actual career to back her up.

It’s a shame that Sam’s family doesn’t step in to try to save both of them.

There is the proof that she got breast implants, she is thin as a stick, rib cage sticking out, she is like one of those African starved ladies on discovery channel, but she has these big bags of silicone hanging from her malnourished chest..

What happened to the rumor about LL parents allegedly trying to organize a legal intervention Britney style? One of the alleged conditions was that her parents were trying to figure out a way to make money off of her intervention which is GROSS but at least somebody would be trying to step in. Has anybody else heard this rumor?

who cares. geez. why is everyone so into lohans business. she’s not even that good an actress. more important things going on in this world. i don’t think it will end good for her i’m afraid. too many bad people around her in denial.

I don’t understand this girl. She makes me feel sympathy and then she just makes me feel indifferent. I don’t think she’s reading the same headlines we are – cos she obviously isn’t aware of her train wreck status. Christ, now would be a good time to ship her off to rehab.

They both need to just go to couples counseling, most people have to deal with disfunctional family issues and past that effect their relationships, struggling to be loved, its just most people arent being examined thru a media circus microscope watching their every move