I've been thinkig about this exact same thing. I especially notice it when I'm cleaning like a madwoman because company's coming. Why don't I keep it that way for hubby? Definitely a goal for this year.

I just spent nearly 2 weeks away from my husband, and when I got back I was so appreciative for everything he does for me. One of my goals is to treat him at least as good as I would treat someone who was a guest in my home. Great goals!

I was in Williams and Sonoma not too long ago and I saw cookie cutters that had a slice taken out of the shape so you could make cookies that would hang on the edge of a cup of hot chocolate. this picture reminded me of that...just a different season:)-Heidi Eliason

I probably haven't said it clearly enough - but you are the most gracious, generous, and kind hostess EVER. Thank you for including me in several events that have allowed me to get to know others in the area.

My grandparents traveled often in their later years, in a Winnebago. When they were parked in my driveway, I looked inside and saw that they were using their sterling silverware. My grandmother told me that she decided that saving them for special was silly, since her husband WAS special. That stuck with me. Lisa

I love it! And I totally agree. We now use a set of fine china as everyday dishes. (I put them in the dishwasher. It was that or never use them, so I opted to treat them roughly, and they've been fine so far.)

I had our middle school girls over for dinner one time, and I served them on fine china and crystal, cloth napkins, tableclothes. They loved it! I think kids like being treated like grown-ups and shown that you trust them with your best. And besides, it's just stuff. If something breaks, it's not the end of the world. That's my philosophy, at least.

Hi Meredith~This is a good rule to follow, your family is in for a special treat!BTW, Nancy and Susanna from Rosemary's Sampler have tagged you for the 6th Picture Meme. Hope you will be able to find some free time and join the fun!Rosemary

Meredith, I think this is soo important. Like others have mentioned, I, too, have been thinking about how I have been lacking in this area. I have gotten so invovled in various ministries around our church and Christian school, that my family often has had to just get the "leftovers" of my time and energy. Don't get me wrong, I think it is very important to serve the Lord in any way that I can both out of the home as well as in the home. But I am first and foremost a wife and mother, and if I don't do my absolute best in those capacities first, well, then my priorities are probably wrong. Great post! Laurie in FL