If he’s got a little bit of a belly, sex can be more difficult than rewarding. You have to maneuver around the flab and find ways to make everything work, which isn’t always easy. Fortunately, there’s advice – there’s always advice on how to make the most of the situation. But even if you follow it, success may not be forthcoming. You may have one more problem: erectile dysfunction.

His weight directly affects his ability to perform. You see, just as extra pounds restrict blood flow to the heart, they limit circulation to the sexual organs. As a result, he can’t do a thing. He can’t participate in the one activity that’s always on his mind. Talk about punishment.

If your man has a Buddha-like belly, encourage him to lose some weight, using his bedroom dormancy as a motivator. It might be the one thing that finally inspires him to change his ways. Of course, he won’t drop the pounds overnight, and neither of you really want to wait until his weight no longer affects his ability, so until then, rely on other means of stimulation.