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Re: People who got arrested and family found out comment!

I got arrested years and years ago for not flashing but 'mental health' related. I know that will surprise and shock some of you. I had been going into a downward spiral due to my family being so fucking crazy. It rubbed off on me to the point they knew I was getting ready to seriously go off and were probably glad when I skipped bail and left the state to become someon'e else's headache.

Pretty much everyone in my family tree was ten pounds of shit in a five pound sack for most of my life growing up. They were only too quick to point fingers at me and make my life even harder. Its like a way for them to validate their own 'normalcy'. So I cut off every single one of them. I haven't talked to anyone I'm related to in over twenty years and never will. I keep a very low profile on FB and other social media sources just so they can't show up in my life and start tweaking old triggers and make me lose twenty years of working on myself and trying to get my life back together.

Ironically the hardest part has been nosy people always opening their fucking mouths about a situation they know nothing about. Volunteering unwanted and stupid advice to deal with a situation that is long, long, long in my past.

Its a pretty alien concept for most people to live without family. Oddly enough it seems I gravitated towards work which would help me look at other people's lives and how they lived to see if my experience was really that different. And from what I can see most people hate their families so to this day I'm like why even bother going back down that road?

Look at any old age home and how these people get abandoned by the children they put so much effort into to raise and save and sacrifice for. I used to do a lot of handyman work and ninety percent of the jobs I did could have been done by the elderly persons' kids but they were always MIA.

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I started flashing when I was about 7, sneaking out my bedroom window and running around the neighborhood naked. No one ever saw me, but it was such a turn on; I didn't know what drove me to it. I started getting arrested when I was about 11 or so. Went into juvenile system, referred to Psychologists; I didn't cooperate, didn't feel the need or want to talk about my perversion. Found Heroin at the age of 15 and found out it killed my sex drive. I hung on to it for over 20 years. I finally got clean in 1993. Started getting arrested for indecent exposure in 1995; my old behavior had returned with a vengeance. Most of my arrests have stemmed from flashing from a car. I am a convicted sex offender, and have to register for life. I have done 8 years in prison; the cases made worse when minors were involved. Haven't been arrested since 2010. Got out of prison in 2014. Have found other ways to deal with my exhibitionistic drive. My current car is still virgin to flashing and I plan to keep it that way. I like this sight; it lets me know of all the others out there. Upon my last release I was mandated by State Law while on parole to participate in a sex offender program. Since so few sex offenders are just exhibitionists, I had a private therapist instead of group therapy. This mandate also included periodic Lie Detector tests to check on violations of the law and parole conditions. My Therapist's specialty is Hyper-Sexuality in men. I have been off parole for a couple of months now. I am still seeing my therapist once a month. I get a good rate as it is a sliding fee scale and I don't work any longer. I figure it can't hurt. And since she knows all about my history, I can talk freely to her about most anything. By the way, I live in the San Jose area of California. If I had lived and been arrested in San Francisco I am sure I would have spent a hell of a lot less time in jail. But that's not my story. Thanks for all your stories and sharing your experiences.

Re: People who got arrested and family found out comment!

flashguy40 wrote:

By the way, I live in the San Jose area of California. If I had lived and been arrested in San Francisco I am sure I would have spent a hell of a lot less time in jail. But that's not my story. Thanks for all your stories and sharing your experiences.

Is it really that much better in SFCA? Since the big deal about the ban on public nudity, I got the impression that SF was becoming a little less open and freethinking. My friend moved there in 2005 and he says 2017 finds him in a city that has seriously changed in those 12 years and not all for the better.

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damn, that was a boner killer..sorry bud...

flashguy40 wrote:

I started flashing when I was about 7, sneaking out my bedroom window and running around the neighborhood naked. No one ever saw me, but it was such a turn on; I didn't know what drove me to it. I started getting arrested when I was about 11 or so. Went into juvenile system, referred to Psychologists; I didn't cooperate, didn't feel the need or want to talk about my perversion. Found Heroin at the age of 15 and found out it killed my sex drive. I hung on to it for over 20 years. I finally got clean in 1993. Started getting arrested for indecent exposure in 1995; my old behavior had returned with a vengeance. Most of my arrests have stemmed from flashing from a car. I am a convicted sex offender, and have to register for life. I have done 8 years in prison; the cases made worse when minors were involved. Haven't been arrested since 2010. Got out of prison in 2014. Have found other ways to deal with my exhibitionistic drive. My current car is still virgin to flashing and I plan to keep it that way. I like this sight; it lets me know of all the others out there. Upon my last release I was mandated by State Law while on parole to participate in a sex offender program. Since so few sex offenders are just exhibitionists, I had a private therapist instead of group therapy. This mandate also included periodic Lie Detector tests to check on violations of the law and parole conditions. My Therapist's specialty is Hyper-Sexuality in men. I have been off parole for a couple of months now. I am still seeing my therapist once a month. I get a good rate as it is a sliding fee scale and I don't work any longer. I figure it can't hurt. And since she knows all about my history, I can talk freely to her about most anything. By the way, I live in the San Jose area of California. If I had lived and been arrested in San Francisco I am sure I would have spent a hell of a lot less time in jail. But that's not my story. Thanks for all your stories and sharing your experiences.

Re: People who got arrested and family found out comment!

flashguy40 wrote:

I started flashing when I was about 7, sneaking out my bedroom window and running around the neighborhood naked. No one ever saw me, but it was such a turn on; I didn't know what drove me to it. I started getting arrested when I was about 11 or so. Went into juvenile system, referred to Psychologists; I didn't cooperate, didn't feel the need or want to talk about my perversion. Found Heroin at the age of 15 and found out it killed my sex drive. I hung on to it for over 20 years. I finally got clean in 1993. Started getting arrested for indecent exposure in 1995; my old behavior had returned with a vengeance. Most of my arrests have stemmed from flashing from a car. I am a convicted sex offender, and have to register for life. I have done 8 years in prison; the cases made worse when minors were involved. Haven't been arrested since 2010. Got out of prison in 2014. Have found other ways to deal with my exhibitionistic drive. My current car is still virgin to flashing and I plan to keep it that way. I like this sight; it lets me know of all the others out there. Upon my last release I was mandated by State Law while on parole to participate in a sex offender program. Since so few sex offenders are just exhibitionists, I had a private therapist instead of group therapy. This mandate also included periodic Lie Detector tests to check on violations of the law and parole conditions. My Therapist's specialty is Hyper-Sexuality in men. I have been off parole for a couple of months now. I am still seeing my therapist once a month. I get a good rate as it is a sliding fee scale and I don't work any longer. I figure it can't hurt. And since she knows all about my history, I can talk freely to her about most anything. By the way, I live in the San Jose area of California. If I had lived and been arrested in San Francisco I am sure I would have spent a hell of a lot less time in jail. But that's not my story. Thanks for all your stories and sharing your experiences.

Re: People who got arrested and family found out comment!

Milo wrote:

well fuck, i got nailed in a small country town for public urination, if that counts, Im pretty sure my snoopy sister let everyone know...oh fucking well

When I was in the Army one of my buddies got busted by Maryland State Police for public urination not far from Andrews Air Force Base. He was drunk, outside of a bar, and went outside because he could not get in the fucking bathroom. They took him to jail, and the MPs at Ft Meade came and picked him up. Long story short the civilian court did not do that much to him, but the Army hung him out to dry. He got an other than honorable discharge, busted in rank, and it took them weeks to process him out, and he spent his time cutting grass, scrubbing latrines, and painting, before they took his uniforms and ID and escorted him to the gate.

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