I'm about to go to happy hour. I made my bun with the little poof in the front-atleast I tried to lol. I didn't feel like doing my hair today. I think bunning is making me lazy. Other than that I look cute lol.

I need to find me a caring man to fill the position of the ex I fired since he wasnt doing his job. he aint gotta be a "brotha" either.

I hate my hair and belly right now. Gotta find time to exercise.

I hate friends that are free loaders and who always ask every time I see them, "so are u gonna get another relaxer?" HELL NAW I aint gett no relaxer.

"How long will you simple ones love your simple ways? How long will mockers delight in mockery and fools hate knowledge? If you had responded to my rebuke, I would have poured out my heart to you and made my thoughts known to you." Proverbs 1:22-23AND PROUD!
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Second BC: 12/22/10
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Is it just me or do other people forget where in the hell they posted comments on this site? I'll ask someone a question.... and then forget all about it or to look for the reply. Rude, rude.

Originally Posted by amaralice

Ok I might be guilty of this...I don't do it to be rude, I just forget

rt: I am get sick and tired of the stares when I go out with my son. Yes, he looks nothing like me, yes I am black and he LOOKS totally white. But I'm getting tired of having to answer if he's my son 3 times when I go to walmart. I am tired of people showing obvious disbelief when I tell him that he's mine or suggesting that I adopted him (why the **** would I lie?). First of all, if I did adopt him, it's none of your damn business. Second, I'm tired of feeling like a side show when I go do groceries.

Ok that was more of a rant than a random thought lol

rt: I'm excited that I will be going back to work soon. I hope my skills aren't rusty after a year and a half.

Is it just me or do other people forget where in the hell they posted comments on this site? I'll ask someone a question.... and then forget all about it or to look for the reply. Rude, rude.

Originally Posted by amaralice

rt: I am get sick and tired of the stares when I go out with my son. Yes, he looks nothing like me, yes I am black and he LOOKS totally white. But I'm getting tired of having to answer if he's my son 3 times when I go to walmart. I am tired of people showing obvious disbelief when I tell him that he's mine or suggesting that I adopted him (why the **** would I lie?). First of all, if I did adopt him, it's none of your damn business. Second, I'm tired of feeling like a side show when I go do groceries.

Originally Posted by Kitathena

My older cousin's son is biracial, but he has blonde hair and blue eyes (he used to look like the gerber baby when he was small). Anyways, this happens to her all the time. It ticks her off too. It amazes me how people think genetics are like matching colors in the crayon box. They think oh a brown girl and a white guy= light brown. Silly people

RT: I think I'm done drinking. I didn't get sick like throwing up, but the last few times I've been sick at my stomach the next day. So, I think I'm calling it quits. No big loss, I don't drink much anyway.

I'm really sorry TL3M. What do you think about cutting it short and starting over? Look at all these fierce women on the board with short and sassy curls. You could do it too and then it would all be healthy as it grows out.

RT: This man on tv is saying he's really really happy, and I'd like to be able to say that too one day soon.

RT: I'm going home this week for the 4th. I haven't been home during that time for the last 4 years.

My **** is beat. I'm so hurt. I combed my hair out because I didn't want to be bald, and now I'm going to be just that.

I want to cry but what purpose would it serve?

Originally Posted by TLMMM

I am so sorry! The more I read about stylists on these boards, the more I want to avoid one. That is terrible what she (or he) did to your beautiful hair. I agree with HeatherNicole, I am sure you would look great with a short cut if you decided to cut the damage.

@HN-that is probably what I will have to do. *le sigh*
@Kithaena-I am going back to my old stylist on Tuesday and I know she will fix the mess. Its just the cutting that is going to break my heart. My forehead is huge.

@HN-that is probably what I will have to do. *le sigh*
@Kithaena-I am going back to my old stylist on Tuesday and I know she will fix the mess. Its just the cutting that is going to break my heart. My forehead is huge.

Originally Posted by TLMMM

Mine is too. I think of it as regal... statuesque... indicative of the size of my creativity... stately...

come up with some of your own adjectives for "big foreheads." it's fun!

Natural since '97 - 8 yrs loc'ed, free-form since then
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What would happen if social security, welfare benefits, and unemployment ended?

I want to get extension in my hair but I know the people in my family who don't support my natural hair will say I couldn't handle it. I want to prove them wrong. Is that bad?

I am scared as hell about going to graduate school.

Originally Posted by mozeke

Hi Mozeke,
It's not bad necessarily but it is stubborn...ask yourself is it really worth it?
If I can get through grad school anyone can . You had the brains and the grades to get in so that's a a vote for your future success right there!
Good luck!

rt1: i live with a crackhead. not a real bonafide one, just a person who says and does some stupid, crazy stuff all the time. i constantly want to ask her "how does that sound? did you just hear yourself?" *sigh*

rt2: i found some goody "no burn" magnetic roller clips in fry's on clearance for $0.35 per 8 pack.

rt3: on that note, why is it that goody makes hair products/accessories that i never knew i needed until i saw them? lol

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I'm really sorry TL3M. What do you think about cutting it short and starting over? Look at all these fierce women on the board with short and sassy curls. You could do it too and then it would all be healthy as it grows out.

RT: This man on tv is saying he's really really happy, and I'd like to be able to say that too one day soon.

RT: I'm going home this week for the 4th. I haven't been home during that time for the last 4 years.

Thanks Shones! I figured that out once ...and then promptly forgot it.

Is it just me or do other people forget where in the hell they posted comments on this site? I'll ask someone a question.... and then forget all about it or to look for the reply. Rude, rude.

Originally Posted by amaralice

Hi Amaralice! There's a red envelope icon on the left (see the main 4a page) everywhere you posted a response to a topic. I just figured that out this week. lol.

Also, I've started using the "private message" function (see upper right corner of the page) when I really want a response from someone. Some of us just forget or we're busy. C'est la vie.

Originally Posted by Shones

Not the only one at all.

hey heathernicole... i'm here now.. you can talk to me
mozeke: lmao!
shones: thanks for admitting that. i didn't want to be the only one. i'm still learning all the features on this site.

so another random thought:
my birthday so happens to be on a major holiday that is just around the corner and every carnivore that exists comes out to celebrate this day in full effect! so whats the problem?... I'M A VEGETARIAN! well... i do eat seafood, but still. i don't want my salmon next to some steak. and i really don't care for a bbq party. but does anyone listen to the b-day girl. nope. i told my mom i want to go for japanese this year and she gave me that: "uh, oh, okay dear. i'm having my bbq party on sunday. please see if you can come to town." ahhhh!!!!!!!!!

I love looking at all of your fotki pictures. I would love to post some of my own but... (and this will sound silly) but my hair doesn't look as pretty as all of yours (yes, I know it's not a contest) but seeing all of the lovely hair around here kind of discourages me from posting any pictures.

I love looking at all of your fotki pictures. I would love to post some of my own but... (and this will sound silly) but my hair doesn't look as pretty as all of yours (yes, I know it's not a contest) but seeing all of the lovely hair around here kind of discourages me from posting any pictures.

Originally Posted by TK*

I sorta felt like this at first... kind of hard to explain, but I felt like my hair was supposed to look like the pictures I always saw on fotkis. But now I know I just don't have that kind of hair. It's just mine and I'm growing more and more in love with it everyday.

It's bushy, it's curly, and it's mine. There will always been room for improvement, but for now I am proud of it and always will be.

i have a headache right now...
i am a constant lurker...i don't post much...i don't feel worthy
i just turned 22 yesterday...i have a hangover
i fell in love...it ended horrifically...now i am afraid to try again
i'm depressed a lot of the time...i despise how much weight i've gained
i took a semester off from school now I'm deathly afraid to go back
My life is at a stand still
I love my hair but I'm not good at styling it...
Alas...I'm a sad girl at the moment

4a/4b hair...experimenting with products...
I love Ojon Restorative Treatment and all things Oyin