There are many reason and these children generally grow up with some background information. Niles is our grandson and we adopted him. He speaks with his parents all the time and has no gaps in his life. He knows his background and history. There are no missing pieces. We have another grandson who was adopted. He knew how to find his biological father and contacted him for medical information, He has made it clear that he wants nothing to do with his biological family. Not all endings are happy but he is secure in his adoptive family and we only wish him the best.

This was not true for Gary. His whole life was a lie. Lydia Mary Gaulthair had 13 children and abandoned them all. This is Gary's story.