Sunday, 23 December 2012

We
wake up in the morning and, with enthusiasm, pick up the news paper
to know what's going on in our surroundings? Almost every alternate
day we see some very disappointing news and those are about Rape.
Some time we feel sad and some time we fill up with anger. We talk
about capital punishment for the rapist.

Tough
I my self advocate the capital punishment for the rapist but at the
same time I feel that there is a need to think that what is the root
cause behind this. Why a man turns into a mean,
into a monster. Why he become so ungrateful towards a woman. Why he
forgets that he is committing such a heinous crime against the one
who brought him into this world and who raised and loved him like she
had never before to anyone.

In
India, our society is closed, sex ratio is so unbalanced and sex and
talking about sex is a taboo. So perhaps these may be the reason
behind this but at the same time we see such type of crimes are being
committed in America and many other country which are like America. I
mean where society is so open and sex ratio is quite balanced and sex
and talking about sex is not a taboo at all. So where is the reason.
So if you compare the situation then you will find that social
conditions may not be the reason. So where our society is failing. Why
women are facing such crimes. Why men are so crippled mentally.

The
time has come for our society to think that how we can make our “men
to realize that women are to care, to love and to protect. They are
not to rape. How we can keep them from mental perversion.

I
myself really don't know that what are the reasons but I want
everybody to thing on individual level that how we can overcome thins
problem. How we can kill the monster which feeds itself on our moral
values. How???????

Friday, 30 November 2012

This is a dialogue from a movie Samsara. It is the most meaningful dialogue I have ever heard. you are the tiniest part of mighty God. you came on this and the whole purpose of your life is to get back to its source, in the same way as the drop of water separates from ocean. Then it follow the whole cycle and returns to its source after a long journey in the form of river.

If a drop don't follow a path towards the ocean and instead of going into the river it falls elsewhere on earth, it dries that very moment. Likewise there is no other way to feel alive if you are not on the path towards God.

So if you are looking for happiness then be with God. For me The whole existence is my god. Where ever there is life like Human, trees, animal everything have his essence. Till now, The whole existence cumulatively is god for me. Because we are Atma (soul), and when we accumulate all the Atmaas (souls) it will become Parmatma (God). For you God may be something else but the thing i said above will remain the same.

Monday, 1 October 2012

A) One who don't believe in God or question his existence. or
B) One who don't believe in God or question his existence but try to know the truth.

What is your ans. A) or B) or Both.

Well I think that answer is A). the one who does not believe in god or question his existence. This type of person is atheist for sure.

But the one who despite questioning the existence of God try to know the truth. The first type of person is just living in ignorance and by not believing in god simply justifying his inability to search or to know the truth.

But the one who, though, question the existence but try to know the truth is not an atheist. In reality he is a real seeker. somehow better then those who have no concern with humanity and chant God every time.

Friday, 14 September 2012

Feeling have their source in "heart", in other words they originates from heart. Feelings have no reason or logic behind them. If your feelings have reasons or logic then they aren't true. In that case you have judgement not feelings. Judgement will always be based on reasons or logic.

Sometime judgment may be wrong but feeling wont. Also, feelings are connected to heart so they make you humble and more kind. As these don't have logic or reason, so they give more space to develop a close relationship.

So, don't always be judgmental some time just feel for someone who is close to you .. life will be more beautiful..

Wednesday, 27 June 2012

Earlier I read it in books and
listened from people, but what I learned from my past experience of last some
year that we should not be judgemental about people in our life. Because when
we judge them and make an opinion about we make a mistake. Later they surprise
us by strange change in their behaviour. Hence, if you are judgemental about
peoples then one thing I can predict about with surety that people around you surprises
you very often. Sometime these surprise make you happy but most of the times
they make you sad.

So it is better to accept that
change is the rule of existence and only constant thing, and humans are not
exception for it. Also, nobody have signed a contract to not to change. Sometime
people change because of changing nature of circumstances around them. While some
change because they keep their face behind a mascot until they get some
position or until they realize that now you are of no use for them, and the
later reason of change disappoint us. This disappointment happens specially
when see this change from our loving ones.

So if we can make ourselves ready
for such type of situations by not being judgemental or by not expecting
anything from others, we can save ourselves for unnecessary disappointments. It
will also give us an advantage over the situation and some sense of wisdom.

So what are you going to do? You will
take notice of my words or wait till self-enlightenment?????? Choice is yours.

Thursday, 31 May 2012

Love is very positive and strong emotion, but it remains as
long as there is freedom and acceptance for each other. I read somewhere that
LOVE IS LIKE WATER ON YOUR PALM. It will stay there as long as your palm is
open. The moment you try to grab the water it will slip from there and you will
remain empty handed. So you can say that love is just the extension of these
two. When there is freedom for each other and the acceptance for each other penetrates
deep into the heart the love evolves. And long as these things remain the love
remains and also grows to the infinity. The more you give freedom closer you
will be and stronger will be the bond. It gives you energy, satisfaction and
happiness. And when your love becomes divine you find yourself in the bliss.

And on the contrary hate and anger are lack of acceptance
and freedom. Lower will be the level of acceptance higher will be the level of
hate and anger. So things are so relative. But the line is very thin so we
forget the individuality of each other so easily and finally that love
disappears. We left with empty hand.

Therefore we should respect the freedom of others. We should
expand our hearts so that we can grow the level of acceptance. After that the
world will be better place to live…..

Friday, 27 April 2012

I read this story and felt that it will be worth to share with you. Its really great.

"Why We Shout In Anger"

A Hindu saint who was visiting river Ganges to take bath found a group of family members on the banks, shouting in anger at each other. He turned to his disciples smiled 'n asked.

'Why do people shout in anger shout at each other?'Disciples thought for a while, one of them said, 'Because we lose our calm, we shout.'

'But, why should you shout when the other person is just next to you? You can as well tell him what you have to say in a soft manner.' asked the saint

Disciples gave some other answers but none satisfied the other disciples.Finally the saint explained, .

'When two people are angry at each other, their hearts distance a lot. To cover that distance they must shout to be able to hear each other. The angrier they are, the stronger they will have to shout to hear each other to cover that great distance.

What happens when two people fall in love? They don't shout at each other but talk softly, Because their hearts are very close. The distance between them is either nonexistent or very small...'

The saint continued, 'When they love each other even more, what happens? They do not speak, only whisper 'n they get even closer to each other in their love. Finally they even need not whisper, they only look at each other 'n that's all. That is how close two people are when they love each other.'

He looked at his disciples 'n said.

'So when you argue do not let your hearts get distant, Do not say words that distance each other more, Or else there will come a day when the distance is so great that you will not find the path to return.'

Sunday, 19 February 2012

“Pleasure”.
Everybody is running behind pleasure. There are so many means to get the
pleasure viz. alcohol, drugs etc. . . . But they don’t last
long, because these means or ways are temporary. These means are not permanent.
Then they repeat them to turn the temporary into permanent, to elude you and
finally it ends with misery. You return empty hand. You can prolong the
temporary but you cannot make them permanent.

I am also in the search of pleasure,
but I don’t want to resort to temporary means. It is ironical to say but I had
a very temporary glimpse of permanent. And what my experience says is that the
source of permanent pleasure lies within. All you need to introspect; you need
to dig “in”, in the very deep of your own inside. Once you get the source you
are never empty. You are always full, full of joy, full of happiness. That will
be ultimate. This ultimate pleasure is called BLISS.

Monday, 6 February 2012

Different persons have different answers for this question and they practice it, follow it for different reasons. For
some philosophy is the way towards the God, for some it consist of thoughts to realise
the human inside and to be careful towards the same. For some philosophy is the
way to fool others and make money earn name and fame. I also have my definition
of philosophy.

For me philosophy is the like “spectacles” which corrects the vision which
has been blurred because the man has forgot his soul and his ultimate reason of
being in this fragile material world.

We are here at the will of the Supreme
and one fine day we are destined to unite with the same. But our
materialistic approach has made us to forget about our ultimate purpose of being
here and has made our vision SPIRITUALLY BLURRED. We cannot see the truth
because of this. We are continuously making our life more complex and full of misery.
And here comes the philosophy. Philosophy teaches us that what we are. Sorry…
teach will not be the correct word here actually philosophy REMINDS us that what
we are and why we are here? It corrects our vision or the short shortsightedness. It
makes us able to see the truth and to walk on the path towards the supreme. Until we understand the real meaning of our life we are just animal. Philosophy makes us human, it distinguish us from animals.......

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Thursday, 19 January 2012

What is right and what is wrong? Everyone
has his/her definition. Like what is written as good in holy books is good and
what is written as bad is bad. Like what is human is good and vice-versa. But
in the current scenario the most appropriate definition will be that if the
number of people considering something good is higher than the number of people
who is considering something bad then that is good and vice-versa. It depends
upon country, place and society. Sounds like the democracy.

But What I have realised is that
nobody bother about what is good or what is bad when they do anything. They just
do things and after that they find reasons to justify themselves. If their acts
are acceptable by majority then they are considered as good or vice-versa. If their
acts are not justifiable then they do everything for justifying themselves. They
will explain holy book in their own peculiar way or, if they cannot do so then,
they can change their religion, region, and society. They can leave their
family and friends. They do everything what they have to do for justifying themselves.

I myself don’t think that there
is anything wrong in it. Because who I am to judge others. If I’m considering
anyone as wrong then he might be thinking same about me. Because if I think
that something is wrong by my point of view then perhaps the same thing may be
good for the others.

But at the same time if you are doing something which your
consciousness is not allowing and still knowingly you are continuing to do the
same then that is wrong. You might prefer to do that for momentary pleasure or
for short term gain. In future those will definitely going to harm you. And
this will really be considered as bad or wrong.

So in short “NEVER GO AGAINST YOUR CONSCIOUSNESS OR AGAINST THE VOICE
OF YOUR SOUL. That will really be wrong or bad, and on the contrary to work
according to the consciousness and the voice of your soul is really good.

Monday, 2 January 2012

At the night of 29th Dec
I was watching IBN broadcasting discussion on Lokpal Bill. It seemed that I’m
watching the high drama movie; I was enjoying it too with the expectation of
happy ending like any film ends generally. But that entertainment cost too much
and nothing happened as it was expected from a movie.

The cost was breach of trust and
faith which we vested in govt., death of emotion and democracy. After all this
cost the end was disappointment. It was nothing like a movie. We chose politicians
to represent ourselves and to take decisions on our behalf and for our welfare.
But that night all the politicians were acting. They were actor not leaders. All
were acting on a pre-written script. They were not acting for us they were
doing drama to save themselves by delaying the passing of Lokpal Bill. Congress
was the script writer and RJD, BSP and SP were the pawns. It was live on the
channel that a correspondent sends the SMS to the office that there will be drama
in the parliament to delay the Lokpal Bill and it happened in front of the eyes
of all. Even if that SMS would have not been sent it was obvious by their
behaviour.

And finally the ball came in the court
of honourable Speaker. If he would have wished to continue the parliament then
there was no provision to prevent him from doing so. But he also chooses to
work according to the script. We were cheated. Their all efforts are not to serve
the nation or to serve the public. Their efforts are to rule.

It true not only for India it is true for any democracy that politicians
take advantage of non-awareness and negative attitude of the public. We think
that we cannot do anything. But we can. We need to come out of Facebook. I’m
not saying that you stop using it but I mean to say as much as time we spent on
Facebook for doing nothing, if we could use only 25% time of Facebook for make
ourselves aware about what happening in our country, we will be able to take
right decision regarding who to vote for? We can also share useful information
on social networking websites. We should also make others aware about this type
of things. We should not let these things go just like that. They are
answerable for us. We will show them power of our vote and our own. Jan Lokpal
Bill will be passed or the government will be no more in power. Jai Hind Jai
Bharat. Democracy will win…