Saturday, May 20, 2017

Women all over the world are suffering by this way or another, by sharing personal story , my own experience ...

I wish to advice to help to make you the woman smarter than you are.

My journey to the spiritual was with a lot of obstacles, depressions, suffering but knowing that everything is happening for a reason and you yourself have a choice how to accept it making the difference.

I tried a lot of courses of meditations and yoga, to my experience the best way to deal with it it's the circumstances in life. Every situation that occurs on our way it's a test for us. By telling my story helping others not to trap in places that we don't want to be, will be my gift in this life, feeling that I did good deeds to humanity in my own way.

My conclusion to you all woman is first off all love yourself, respect yourself where ever you are, do something for yourself each day. True love to ourselves is the right way to be a complete soul as on earth do in heaven. As women we are educated to take care of our children, our husband, our parents, our friends - but wait a min, where is me in all this story.

Many thanks to my mom who influence, inspire me without awareness , And has a great part in this story. Many thanks to My daughter that always there for me in spite the arguments that we have from time to time. Many thanks to my older son who calls me anytime when spiritually feels when his mom is down. Thank you to my loving husband with bad and good time, without knowing grow my soul to levels that I haven't reach before. Thank you to my dad that no more with us for love you show me and made me who I am today. Thank you for my youngest son that teach me some life lessons, even though we hardly in touch, somehow I can't remove the anger that he has with me. Thank you to my Granddaughters who are showing me love unconditionally that I never experience.

Thank you God for being with me in my journey, feeling your presence from time to time, searching your hugs and comfort from this struggling life , searching for the truth.

This is a woman's story who was full with dreams and today all her dreams fad away, broken hearth and feel used.

Her story begin in a small country in the Middle East called the holy land, in a small city. Eden was her name, it was her nick name she liked so much. All her life she tried to find a true love but she never knew she had it for so many years, in her hands, in her heart, in her soul - within her.

Eden was divorced for ten years, or more trying to find someone who will love her for being her. She had some experience with some but it never succeeded, therefore she decided to be by her own. She decided to make her own journey around the world and started to travel from destination to destination, the main target was to find herself somehow and she didn't even know how. She travel sometimes with partners sometimes by herself but it was fake happiness because although traveling always felt so alone. During that time her father died and her mom ask her to come and live with her. She agreed thinking it will help both of them to recover for their lost. Eden worked as a travel agent and was very pleased either job, the only thing that disturb her it's her manager that was shouting at her and that was the main thing.

The job was fun mostly; traveling with groups, arranging for them attractions hotels, restaurants and just supervise that everything's is going smood still feeling alone.

One day she met another travel agent from another agency that offered her more, it was attractive so the negotiations started... And she got the job.

On her private life, there was no one. Just one guy she met on the facebook one year back, in one of the Lonely nights and it was as written in the stars. It starts with a very friendly conversation and boom... she fall in love with his soul.

It was going on for a while on and off, talking about their dream to meet each other, checking the option if he can come or she can get there. Furthermore nothing happen. It was silence from the other side. One day she saw a picture of him and his girlfriend it busted her heart and she said to her self no one is reliable in this world, words doesnt have any meaning. She was hurt but she continue her life as nothing happen, keep smiling, keep working and keep meeting family and friends.

One day she got a massage "you are the one" ... Wow she said to herself and it strike her straight into her heart. How come she wrote immidiatly... "Just few weeks ago you had a girlfriend? " " it's over he said it didn't last 24 hours", he said.

Tuesday, May 9, 2017

Beauty is not subjective. Contrary to popular belief, men and women generally agree on who is and who is not physically attractive, even across different cultures.

What makes someone enjoyable to look at?

High cheekbones, fuller lips, big eyes, and a thin chin are associated with sexiness in women, whereas a big jaw and broad chin are preferred in men. Smooth skin, shiny hair, and facial symmetry are also key aspects of beauty.

According to various studies, these provide measures of health, good genes, intelligence, and success. More often than not, the world rewards beauty.

Here's why it's better to be hot:

#1 Beautiful people are viewed as healthier.

Facial symmetry, considered the beacon of beauty, can be perceived as a sign of health, even if it is not related to actual health. In an Australian study, researchers morphed photographs of young adults so that their faces were perfectly symmetrical. In general, the symmetric version of each face — both male and female — received higher health ratings than the normal image. Individuals with asymmetric faces were perceived as unhealthy.

#2 Beautiful people are actually healthier.

Although the link between facial symmetry and real health is weak, there is some evidence that individuals with more distinct facial features, considered less attractive, are more susceptible to disease, parasites, and other illnesses. Specifically, in a study of 17-year-olds, researchers found that facial distinctiveness was linked to poor health in both men and women, either during childhood or adolescence. Facial averageness, on the other hand, was linked to good health. One theory is that distinctive facial traits are tied to chromosomal disorders. The preference for average faces may have evolved as a way of identifying a mate with good genes.

#3 It's easier for beautiful people to find mates.

Men seek attractive women as mates because good looks signal youth, health, and reproductive fitness.

#4 Beautiful people are more intelligent.

University of New Mexico researchers found that general intelligence is positively linked to body symmetry, a characteristic that is indicative of attractive qualities like health, social dominance, and fitness-related biological traits.

#5 Beautiful people are more persuasive.

Good-looking people can use their sex appeal to command attention and to get ahead, say in a job interview or when asking for a promotion. Attractive people are more persuasive, in part, because they also possess or develop key personality traits — like intelligence and strong social skills — that make them more effective communicators. Researchers also found that compared to unattractive speakers, attractive speakers were much more fluent talkers.

#6 Companies with good-looking executives have higher sales.

In a study of nearly 300 Dutch advertising agencies, economists found that firms with better-looking executives had higher revenues. Overall productivity, and resulting sales, were greater in companies with more attractive managers, partly because firms with more attractive workers have the competitive advantage when client interactions are involved.

#7 Beautiful people have an advantage in politics.

Beautiful people have the upper-hand in politics, according to a study in Finland which found that both male and female political candidates who look better than their competitors are more successful. A better individual beauty score was associated with an increase of 20% in the number of votes for the average non-incumbent parliamentary candidate. Perceived competence and trustworthiness had less of an effect. The study authors suggests that voters favor good-looking candidates because they enjoy watching them and they fare better in social situations.

#8 Beautiful people are perceived as more likeable and trustworthy.

Beautiful people are typically treated better by others. In a study from Harvard University, researchers found that wearing makeup, shown to enhance a woman's attractiveness, boosted people's perceptions of that subject's competence, likability, attractiveness, and trustworthiness.