We definitely use toys. I have a hard time finishing without clitoral stiumlation. So we use toys before and then I use one during so I can finish during sex...it helps me get to the finish line faster than my DH so that we can do other things and enjoy other positions, etc.

Well..... all of this is so interesting to me....I have not been married or lived with a man and don't have the first clue as to what it's like to be with a man everyday or to even have sex every night..I have never had sex more than 5 times in a month ...ever....so I haven't had any of these problems in a relationship....I don't even own a adult toy....I'm taking notes though......

Thanks for the tip.....I'm sure if I do decide to come off of my lengthy hiatus from sexual activity and get involved in a relationship....and that man wants sex everyday....I'd probably be in tears....and probably in need of some counseling.........asking the therapist...."what is wrong with him?".....lol....

Thanks for the tip.....I'm sure if I do decide to come off of my lengthy hiatus from sexual activity and get involved in a relationship....and that man wants sex everyday....I'd probably be in tears....and probably in need of some counseling.........asking the therapist...."what is wrong with him?".....lol....

@Moniker....Well....I'm saying that I have been celibate for quite a while...(10yrs)....and just imaginig being in that situation of living with a man for the first time in my life....would be difficult to adjust to...at first....I might think that there is something wrong with him....lol...because I 've never had sex everyday....(my personal post is under Celibacy here at WOW...it may shed a little light on my point of view about this topic)......but about the right man....sex would be nice...but I have a few concerns when it comes to a relationship....and trust is a big issue for me......