Success Stories

Lehua and Erik

"In May of 1998, without any serious intentions, I put my personal information into this site. There were a few gentlemen who piqued my interest initially, but nothing outstanding... until my husband wrote me, that is.

I found myself laughing and wondering how someone could be so arrogant. So I wrote him back. We wrote back and forth to each other many times and soon I found out that he loved to write beautiful short stories.

Coincidentally, I love to write in the same style. We decided to meet for dinner at a beautiful restaurant in San Francisco. We had wonderful conversation and walked the beach. All in all, it was quite an amazing night and I was set. The next morning, I received this e-mail from my husband it began: "Spinning, I am spinning. You pulled the silver cord through my heart and I cannot know peace..."

Needless to say, we were engaged by October 1998 and married two months later. To this day, things are still wonderful and, quite frankly, I don't think I could have done this well on my own! Indeed it sounds like a fairy tale, but it's one that my husband and I will always love to tell!"

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Why am I asked to respond to the questions as a child?

Any woman who has more than one child can tell you how different each child is from birth. You are born with your personality intact. The Color Code is based on your natural, innate personality type. Of course, people may change over time, but your Core Color will always remain the same.

How do I respond to those questions where I don't really fit any of the four options?

Sometimes it is difficult to choose from the four options given, but there is usually one that fits better than the rest, or at least one that you could see yourself as more so than the others. If you're still unsure, try asking someone who knows you well, such as a parent or sibling. They can give clarity on areas of your personality that you may not notice.