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Let’s be honest. Being confident and happy with who you are can sometimes be a bit of a challenge. In today’s society you are constantly reminded of what is accepted and who isn’t. Sort of makes you feel like this world isn’t big enough for all of us! The sad part about it, we are starting to believe the hype.

Regardless of who you are, there will always be someone who isn’t on your team! Yes, we all want to be loved and likable, because we are human beings filled with emotions but first try loving yourself a little more. Spend more time celebrating you than noticing your flaws. We constantly beat ourselves up over the little things than embracing our accomplishments. I know it isn’t easy, but at the end of the day you need to be confident with what you see before you because if you don’t how can you expect someone else to?

You don’t need acceptance, you need assurance from self knowing that when you look in the mirror that you are content, happy and loving the skin that you are in.

Think of it like this, when you are confident your attitude changes you gain the mindset of a conqueror. You start to fully come to terms with accepting who you are, and realizing that you have just as much to offer as the next person. Everyday you need to encourage yourself. Never let anything or anyone make you feel that you don’t equal up to the image that is displayed.

Listen, the truth of the matter is you need to know that there is nothing that you can’t accomplish. Whether it is self-esteem issues, careers/goals, etc you have to learn that you are the only one who can change these settings, but the only way to do that is to believe in yourself. Never let anyone persuade you to think differently it’s your duty to build your confidence not to allow someone to tear it down.