I seriously LOLed at Barbarella. I bet there are some poor unfortunate souls out there with the name though. And I understand your deep hatred for Tammy - nms at all. FIL suggested Teddy & Tammy as the names if Ivy had been twins and I almost puked - SO GLAD they never had twins!

I had a thought that came to me when I saw that you liked Meredith. What about Edith? I think she could work very well stylistically, and Edie is super cute. Or even Eddie or Itty if you want something more unisex.

I am in the same boat. Looking for a non-girly name but I am not sure I am in LOVE with anything. Here are some names we are considering. Hopefully this helps! Note, I have an 18 month old daughter named Tessa (but I find myself calling her Tess half the time).