The duo dated from 2004-2006, and just months later, it was confirmed that the actress was more than three months pregnant with the NFL star’s child (now 6-year-old Jack). Right after the split, though, Tom began dating Gisele Bundchen, whom he went on to marry and have two more kids with.

“No one is allowed to even whisper Tom’s name in Bridget’s home,” a family insider tells Star. “Anyone who works for her has to sign an agreement prohibiting them from ever mentioning his name. She once even fired someone on the spot when they asked Jack about his dad.”

Unfortunately, the 43-year-old is going to have to deal with her ex for the rest of her life — they share custody!