How about slapping my husband so hard he remember it for eternity...in jannah...?

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Peace,

While this statement is funny, I also find it alarming. A wife slapping her husband is not a good sign, and I suspect that it will not end well.

Are you in distress? Perhaps a sister can volunteer to try and help you deal with your situation?

I do have some advise based on my experience from when my children were small:
When your baby goes down to sleep, you should also. Do not use this time to "catch up" on anything else. It is very important that you get enough sleep and rest.
A lack of sleep will impact your ability to cope with everything.

I really wish folks wouldn't talk about their spouses on open forums.Its very embarrassing,if its that bad go see an Imam or get some marriage counselling but don't gun your spouse in public,dont no body have shame no more?..

I really wish folks wouldn't talk about their spouses on open forums.Its very embarrassing,if its that bad go see an Imam or get some marriage counselling but don't gun your spouse in public,dont no body have shame no more?..

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thats Self Respect...but my mind doesn't work anymore the way it used to
so....

Salam alaykom .. I think that when you reach jannah you will drink from a fountain which will take your Sorrow and grief away..
Plus everytime you see Allahs face your face will brighten and be more beautiful then ever!!! So .. Work hard..!