So am I the only one..

I said before I sleep with someone I'd totally make them go get checked.. I know that ruins the hot and heavy moment, but honestly.. I have to much to risk losing if I were to sleep with the wrong person. I honestly was way to careless in the past and I got lucky that I never got anything.

I know that's an akward thing to ask of someone, but I guess since I'm at the 3 & 1/2 year mark, I feel like I have reasons to want to know things before giving it up.

Do any of you do this?

I know I'll probably hear the 'thats what condoms are for', but coming from a nurse: that doesn't always work.