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my boyfriend doesn't want the baby ,what do i do?

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im 8 weeks and my boyfriend doesn't want the baby. i dont believe in abortion and im 16. i know the struggles and hardship of it but i have to face the consuquences right? so he says im traping but im really not. not to be cruel but no one stopping him from leaving me i see single mom my age doing good with no father for there kid ,but im wont give it away nor kill it thats cruel. what do i do? help me

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look mija i say do whats best in ur heart if u want that baby then keep it ur right young mothers do it all the time i was 16 when i got pregnant to i was happy even though i knew what having a baby at 16 could do to me but i didnt care me and my baby daddy were in love and we even planed on geting pregnant but my family disowned me expected my mom she was by my side and his family took me in i got pregnant again when my oldest was only 5 months old im 22 yr old and just had my bby girl alexia june 29 2011 and get this i think im pregnant again so just be carefully and do what u want to do hell regret it later down the line trust then even then its to late congrads on ur pregnacy keep me posted

1st of all I have to say how proud of you I am that you are standing up for what you believe is right!
Do you have anyone to support you through your pregnancy? If so then talk to them about how you are feeling. You are not alone there are many women who have went through this at a young age. I had my 1st daughter at 19. Stay in touch with people on here and keep strong to what you believe. If you need to talk then contact me here on BabyCenter. I am also on a website called Cafemom. My signin name is angelt8 (search for me on there). I am praying for you!

Well this is hard because you are so young, but my advise is, not everyone gets the opportunity to be a mother and experience miracles of pregnancy so if you have a support system WHICH YOU WILL NEED i say let the boyfriend go and figure out a way to handle the situation you have been given the best you can. That would mean stay in school, give up your social life, you'll need a job, just to name a few of the things that will come your way. It will be the hardest thing you will ever do especially at your age but with a positive attitude and setting goals for your future with you and your baby you will be able to handle it. Remember you are no longer making decisions based on what is best for you, you have to put the baby first and make decisions that will benefit your family unit. Support from your family is a must, at your age they can make or break decisions like this. GOOD LUCK!!

Your right no one is stopping him just make sure that he knows that but he also has to realize that if he takes the step out the door their is a lot that can come back and bit him. like you can go after him for child support or u can refuse him visitations it all depends.. like my father im 18 now and my mom got pregnant while she was in college and my dad didnt want anything to do with me so now he dont see me and he dont pay child support. their are many ways it can go... GOOD LUCK

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