today was a very bad day for him his night mares are getting worse and no one seems to care about it. he tells them that he is having a hard time with it and they just tell him to take a vistaril. they dont evenask him what they are about . he want to die today...said if he was out he would have tried to , thye do not provide individual councling just classes like how to deal with depression in the modern world and all it does is descuse the scientific reasons of depression and his other class is how to control impulses. they dont even have him in a support group of anykind. there is one and he tries to go when they have it anyway, but so far just the 2 classes is all they want him to go to and the rest of the day is just sitting around watching the other patients.

also i wanted to let you know that i do not look at anyother posts or messages that is not posted under the ones i post i dont want anyone to feel like i am intruding. i just want to let you guys know whats going on.

Just keep telling them the help you want...you never know, it may sink in...and you should read the other posts, you never know if there is something there you can use. I'm sorry you are in so much pain right now.

I pray that he feels better. It is good that you can relay messages to him, I wiish there was more I could say. I love everyone that comes to this site, we were all hurt as children or men. James I feel for ya.

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Jokersloose...I pray for your return to the chat, cuz that means you are home and ok. We need you, your family needs you, you are strong and courageous. I need you to go hunting for perps...remember? Be well soon.

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It is better to be Dragon Master than Dragon Slayer. Some Dragons are meant to be mastered, others meant to be slain. Odin, Great Spirit, God, grant me the wisdom to know the difference. "May the Valar guide and bless you on your path under the sky"

Show James this for me...if you can find the song on a tape or CD, play it for him when you can...

CHIQUITITAABBA(B.Andersson/B.Ulvaeus)First release 1979Chiquitita, tell me what's wrongYou're enchained by your own sorrowIn your eyes there is no hope for tomorrowHow I hate to see you like thisThere is no way you can deny itI can see that you're oh so sad, so quiet

Chiquitita, tell me the truthI'm a shoulder you can cry onYour best friend, I'm the one you must rely onYou were always sure of yourselfNow I see you've broken a featherI hope we can patch it up together

Chiquitita, you and I knowHow the heartaches come and they go and the scars they're leavingYou'll be dancing once again and the pain will endYou will have no time for grievingChiquitita, you and I cryBut the sun is still in the sky and shining above youLet me hear you sing once more like you did beforeSing a new song, ChiquititaTry once more like you did beforeSing a new song, Chiquitita

So the walls came tumbling downAnd your love's a blown out candleAll is gone and it seems too hard to handleChiquitita, tell me the truthThere is no way you can deny itI see that you're oh so sad, so quiet

Chiquitita, you and I knowHow the heartaches come and they go and the scars they're leavingYou'll be dancing once again and the pain will endYou will have no time for grievingChiquitita, you and I cryBut the sun is still in the sky and shining above youLet me hear you sing once more like you did beforeSing a new song, ChiquititaTry once more like you did beforeSing a new song, ChiquititaTry once more like you did beforeSing a new song, Chiquitita

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It is better to be Dragon Master than Dragon Slayer. Some Dragons are meant to be mastered, others meant to be slain. Odin, Great Spirit, God, grant me the wisdom to know the difference. "May the Valar guide and bless you on your path under the sky"

I am sorry to hear how hard things are for you right now. You are atrong enough to get through this also. Your brothers miss you and are praying for your healing. We want to joker back in our chat room. you have many more friends than you may realize and obviously a wife who loves you very much.

You will make it through this time because you are a survivor, we are tough and we make it. I am looking forward to chatting with you again soon.

Your friend

Ken

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Ken Followell

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