I want everyone to be happy. It sounds cheesy, I know. But nothing ruins a good Christmas like some a friend or family member who suddenly gets all mopey and depressed. Everyone tries to cheer them up. "C'mon! It's Christmas!" We say. Nope. No amount of hugs, kind words and genuine kindness can get someone who is so crippled by self-loathing to enjoy the holiday and not drag everyone down with their depressing behavior.