NLP looks very thoroughly at the way we speak and the way we do things. We’ve already looked at how the language we use shapes our beliefs and behavior in the meta-model guide and how we can find how a person thinks about a specific problem if we ask them certain questions. Today we’re going

Bad things happen in life all the time. From something as insignificant as having a fight or losing a flight, to more dramatic events like losing your home, your job, having a friend or family member die, getting in a car accident and so on – everybody has had at least one event that has more or

Put simply, what NLP wants to know is how a person becomes what he becomes. What are his beliefs and behaviors that define him. This information helps us achieve higher degrees of proficiency, gives us more options in life and ultimately more freedom. Freedom ultimately means having the power to choose.

People perceive the world using three different representational systems: visual (pictures), auditory (sound) and kinesthetic (body feelings). Everybody has these systems but they all have a different preferred system. When we’re interacting with someone, we often drop hints about our preferred system. Talking to another person using his preferred system will lead to greater rapport and compliance

Walt Disney was one of the most influential people to shape the entertainment industry of the 20th century. From cartoons that became an integral part of millions of children worldwide to Disneyland, the world’s most famous amusement park, Disney was both a prolific dreamer and a savvy businessman who knew how to turn his vision into

I began “making money online” back in 2009 by writing articles for a guy who had a network of sites monetized with Adsense – a popular and profitable option at the time. But what I was doing really wasn’t writing. It was rewriting other crappy articles written by guys who were just as motivated as

Suppose you’ve got a problem and you’re at your wits end on how to go about solving it. Perhaps it’s a conflict with a close person or maybe you’re feeling stuck in a certain area of your life like your love life or your career. You feel helpless, without a clue on how to proceed and every thought you

The first association people usually have when they hear the word “addiction” is a negative one. A nicotine addiction for example gives you certain high but it also wrecks havoc on your health, not to mention that you also need money to sustain it. In this sense an addiction is something negative. But what if you

I hated that stupid job. I remember it like it was yesterday, my boss yanked me into his office before I could even get to my desk. Without any warning, he blasted into me with just a few short breaths… You’re fired! That was the turning point, the nail in the coffin for me. Fair