Is Experience Necessary?

I’m often approached by newcomers, who ask if lack of experience is important, so I thought I would set down a few thoughts on the subject. FIrstly, doesn’t matter if you are inexperienced – what matters more is a willingness to learn. A respectful attitude is all that’s needed to begin with – the rest can be taught.

There is no need for nervousness – whilst you will be asked to relinquish control, this won’t be until your limits and expectations have been discussed. When it comes to newbies, my policy is to take things slowly – to build up sensation and intensity.

A new submissive is like a piece of clay, malleable and ready to be shaped as I wish, and I enjoy the experience of initiation.