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Monday, April 21, 2014

Cannes and Canines

The Rover. Midnight Screening! We also got the trailer. Amazing is all I have to say.

Camp X Ray screening at Cannes Film Market May 16 ? Looking for International distributor?

So that makes 4 count em 4 movies at Cannes for Rob and Kristen!

Yeah! So proud of our babies! All that hard work paying off.

So a lot of people keep saying don't get your hopes up for this happening again at Cannes 2.0.

Really? Why not?

They are still together and a sweet pea is on the way. So yes it is very possible. Unless sweet pea makes an entrance close to Cannes time

Nine Months. Hilarious movie!

Kristen supporting Rob.

Rob supporting Kristen.

Why is it so hard to believe they would go to each others screenings? They SUPPORT each other. Always.

Yes it could happen. So could this. AGAIN.

We got a pic of Bernie ! (Some people think this isn't Bernie. I have no clue. Maybe were being doggie played.) Panic ensued of course.

"Why isn't Rob taking care of Bernie while he is in LA!"

Uhm because this picture was from last weekend when Rob (and Kristen) was at Coachella.

This pic of Bear (Is it Bear? Some people aren't sure.) caused all kinds of havoc too of course. First off it is from over 3 weeks ago when Rob and Kristen were both out of town filming movies.

A big deal was made out of the person that posted the pic saying that this was their dog Bear.

"Kristen gave Bear away!"

"Rob gave Bear away!"

The dipshidiots can't keep their dog doo straight.

Oh wait he left HIS dogs behind when he moved back to England. So now he gave Bear away to one of Kristen's friends? Their dog doo keeps unraveling. First he broke up with her and took the dogs because he couldn't stand leaving the dogs with her. Then when we got the pics in October it was convenient for the dipshidiots to say they were discussing and sharing the dogs. (Much easier for the dipshidiots to face then what was really going on lol.) We also have the people that seem to think that Bernie is Kristen's and Bear is Rob's. No Bear and Bernie are THEIR dogs.

And NO neither Rob or Kristen is giving the dogs away.

We got a couple of fan pics of Rob at a Sam Smith concert on April 15th.

I have my own opinion of these pictures. I don't think they are Rob. A very good Not Rob. No problem from me if it is him. Just not feeling it.

Side by side comparison. Sorry still not feeling it. Somethings off and I can't put my finger on it.

Rob and Kristen were both ninja over the Easter holiday weekend. Kristen has been off since Friday. Where oh where could she be. LA perhaps? Or did Rob go to Nola to see her? (Funny how he still hasn't made his way to England like the dipshidiots claimed a couple of weeks ago. Guess he wasn't in a hurry after those interviews or was it a christening with his parents?)

Either way her going to him or him going to her some of this was going on.

WOOT WOOT!! Thanks for the new post, HKN! I'm cautiously optimistic about seeing them at Cannes. Yes it would be fantastic, but if we don't get a repeat of 2012, then some people will have a fit. Trust me, I'd love to see more of that, but R&K are ninjas. Plus, there might be another reason for neither one of them to be present. And that is the greatest blessing of them all. Have a great night you all! Much love!! XXOO

Hi everyone! Again, I am actually leaving here. Because I take it anymore. I am sorry HKN. This with the haters and trolls keep coming here. Its getting out of hand. And arguing each other. One say this and one with that. Its needs to change here. I love you all. Like MC, Vernier, Gigi, Mama Nails, and the good ones. This is more like a show that I really hate. The Jerry Spring show that he allows letting people fight with the enemy. I love you all. But its needs to stop. I don't want to lose any of you. I already lost some people on my twitter because of some conflict. Which I pray that one day they will come back to me because we are all sisters here. We say things that we don't mean. We have been through some much together. Birthdays, death in the family which I am greatful you grieving with me, holidays, and so many things that we have been thru so much together. I know I said I was staying. But I will have to break promise. And same for HKN. You are still a good friend. But I will keep looking at your blog. Because I love it. Because I believe in my heart and prayer that they are together. That is all that matters. We all agree the same thing. We don't believe in bs. Well, I got to go now. If you any want to talk to me. You can talk to me on twitter and on my google. But in privately. Like on Hangout part or/and dm on twitter. Included you HKN. But please don't blocked like the others do. But like I told others that I am keeping to those that blocked me. I have kept it unblock. And that one we all can make up. I will keeping on comment too. Just to check on you so see how you doing. If those trouble makers are gone. And if we all can get along. Then great. Like I told others I am the most forgiving person.

Because I love you all. But for now I am also taking a break for now. Til its all peace. No I am not a trolls, haters, or the rest of the trouble makers. And I don't like bullies. Right now got to go now. Or also talk to me on DIDY and RPI. But please don't pick on them. They are like the rest of us. We all agree the same thing. We do love RK right? We all don't believe in bs, and all three blogs comments deleted those idiots. You wonder why I don't comments to those idiots. I am ignoring those bullies. Its not worth it. Well, I better go. I love you all. You all will be in prayers. Later. By the way I always love your blog HKN! You always do a great job. I hope you and I can keep in touch on twitter and on my googles.

I'm sorry you feel this way. I do my best to keep the trolls at bay. I cannot stress enough that the best strategy is to ignore the trolls. Unfortunately they keep going until they get somebody to respond.

One more things before I go I am leaving this open for me. Just to check on you. Right take care. I hate tearing. I was also going to say you are ignoring over the weekend. I understand you were having trouble with those idiots. I know you don't mean it to ignore me. If I were you ignore the bully. Just talk to each other let HKN deleted or whatever you do with those idiots. If its all clear then I will change my mind. But its up to you. Well I will talk to you later on those two places. Take care for now.

HKN brilliant as always!!! I love it and I hope we get it all and more. They were at Coachella together and they are together now. To bad folks don't want to see happy and in love. Their lives are so miserable they want R and K down there too. Not gonna happen. They are one and that's that on that!!!!! Love it HKN!!!!

I think I have it about the pic HKN. The one that is supposedly with the fan has a shadow of a double chin. His right eye facing us is super imposed. Looked at it from the side. I leaned to the left to look at the eye on my right it doesn't quite fit. There is more if you wanna hear.

HknCute post! I love how you celebrated rob and kristens movies at Cannes! The dog stuff was hilarious. Dont know about bear but that photo of maybe Bernie? His muzzle is way to long compared to known pics of bernie imo. Rob lookalike? Hmmm the first pic not feeling it but second pic? I can see where you coming from. But in the end it doesn't matter.

Arleen*shrugs* why cant you skip the comments you dont like? Theres plenty of fun ones to read. Have fun at the other two blogs and twitter though.

VerniI really liked the stuff you reblogged on ur tumblr tonight. Im gonna have to change my workout routine because im in love with that ass on there lol.

Hey ladiesHope u all are having a lovely evening.

Mama nailsUr quiet. Are you busy? What are you doing? Using the F word on trolls? Looking at pretty RK pics? Huh...watcha doin? ; )

Firsr im not going to let anyone push me off a blog that I was welcomed to with open arms and loved and respected for my thoughts and observations. I have fun here and I am not going to let bitter haters spoil my fun. Ananni bragged today that people here are doubting themselfs. I dont know if that true but im not. I know k iis pg and they together. They want us to doubt. Dont listen to them. They are scared. Hkn love this post especially the dog. I got dis! Lol. Hkn let me add that if its bernie. It makes sense their friend watching dogs because r is out of town in nola with his pg wife. Thinkabout it rob has been mia all of april. We only have two pix of him.one during k birthday weekend when she was in la so naturally he would be there. And from sam smith concert that following Tuesday. Other than that hes been mia. No pap pix of him in la! Rolondo must be on vacay. No fan pix other than k birthday weekend when she was also in la! No legit sightings of r in la all april. Why ? Because hes been in nola all this time. Him and k are on DL due to baby so rob is not going to go sight seeing in nola knowing the inly reason he could be there is to see k. Do u really believe r is going to stay in la, not working away from k . When he doesnt have to. No. I dont think so.

HKN- Its not how I feel. Its how I see it. Look what happen to me on twitter. I am sure you have seen it. I have lost alot of good people because of one conflict. And I hope you don't do that to me either. Because I am not like that. I have kept them unblock. Like I am also keeping here open too. You are a great friend too. And I hope you can talk to me on twitter. I miss talking to you on there too. But don't do what they did. I know you are doing the best as you can. You all are still in my prayers. Well later. Now I have said my peace.

Look at the neck on the right side facing us. See the shadow? That or Rob has a fat neck that is blurry and has no structure. Check out the ears. Rob's ears are closer to his head. Look at the height. Unless tubby is tall, which I doubt based on his look next to the other dude, Rob has shrunk.

ArleenAre you projecting your twitter problems onto us here at hkn? I have no idea what ur talking about. I think we have a blast here and im with teresa. I would never let a nasty ass troll run me anywhere. But if you want to take a break becuz of your twitter problems it sounds like you need to quit twitter. Just my opinion and goodluck.

Teresa as far as I can see no one here that I know is having any doubts about R/K or little sweetpea.

Sure the trolls would like us to shut our mouths so they can continue with their vile insults of Kristen or Rob or both..when they visit hater blogs and most of the time contrary to popular belief we do ignore them and allow HKN to hit the delete button.

It's kind of hard to do when each of her posts gets close to 500 hits...people get lost in the shuffle...and each of us has a button that once pushed ...well you know what I mean.

So dont' worry no doubters here...with the exception of the uninvited and unwelcomed.

Far too many get their noses out of joint too easily these days. it's really a damn shame because HKN certainly has done nothing to warrant the hatred and insults that are constantly aimed at her.

For that matter neither do MamaN or Tempest. I feel hurt for them. However I know they are made out of good stuff and are tough ladies.

There are tons of haters and naysayers that don't want to see, hear or recognize the truth in any shape or form. Their loss, definitely not mine.

Nicely done, hkn. So proud of our bb's.@arleen, your loss. Ou will never get a reply from me at RPI, i am never going there, because i hate fake people. You're going over there, is you're decision...telling for me, js. And, there are people with a rl, who don't have the time to be here all the time... i, for one, simply had nothing to say to you. And, don't tell hkn how to run HER blog. You won't believe it, she also has a life, apart from here, she can't bs here 24/7. Have fun elsewhere.

Sorrry, havenettes, i'm slightly pissed right now. Hkn, if you want, you can delete my comment, but i've needed to get that off my chest, i've had enough.

Tracybell, No I think we are fine on twitter. I am still there. I think in my heart they are trying. I am sure we can work it out. Just like you and Felicity. You may say means things to each other. Or to each other. Don't care who started. But I know in my heart they are sorry. That will be up to them. Over the weekend, I can tell we are not angry anymore. I am sure they will come back and patch things up. HKN, don't talk to them. Let them decided. I have a feeling I will come back. Just give me time. What I am saying by unblock means I am keeping my doors open for them. And I am keeping my doors open with you too. My doors is always open. I always have a good heart.

HKN jsut looked real close at the side by side...the guy on the right has a broken nose part was down it veers to the right...the tip of Robs nose is not far from upper lip unlike guy on right...Guy on right also has no adams apple.

You and Verni both correct not Rob but a damn convincing lookalike on first glance.

Felicity, I am not fake. Now that really hurt my feelings. I am just waiting for this to die down. I love you all. Waiting for those trouble makers go away. Eventually, I will come back. Please no more hurting each other. You are really missing the point. HKN, knows what I am talking about. If you all don't want me here. Then I guess I not wanted. Thanks! One more thing I don't choose sides because I love all three. Well I got to go. Sorry, HKN! I guess I am not wanted here. Take care.

Arleen bow out gracefully please. If you are leaving it is your choice. You will be missed but you have said you were leaving at least five times. You have insulted good people on the sly and now invented something about Tracy and felicity. Please stop. We all care about you but what you're doing now is not making sense. Have a good time over on the other sites....

I apologize too. I went raw. I broke a promise I made. But so many of us cared about her and she was stabbing us in the back the entire time. Then a melt down cause we didn't respond? I saw a lot respond and ask about her. I do apologize to you HKN. You don't deserve anymore of this type drama. I am so sorry. I know sorry comes to late when the deed is done but I truly am.

HKN - thank you for the new post. I couldn't tell if those pups were Bear or Bernie if a gun were held to my head - which apparently you do, to brainwash us about Rob & Kristen - LOL!! Where do these crazies and haters come from? So sad, these individuals.

Mama Nails. - OMG - you were up to your backside in lunacy today. What is in the air? Does Spring bring out the crazies?

Sooooo happy that R&K now have 4, count 'em 4, films at Cannes. A feat of no small means!

Isn't it incredible how quiet Rob & Kris' friends have been on Twitter and Instagram? Nary a peep. Happy to hear they were at Coachella. I was reading about the costs of the tickets there compared to Jazzfest. No wonder people get all dolled up for Coachella. Jazzfest fashion is tank tops, shorts, comfy shoes, hats, and sunscreen - and the tickets are $55.

Arleen - take care. Sometimes taking a break is a good idea.Tina and Gigi - great luck with the doc appts! MC - was it your hubby that has to return to the doctor? Thanks for your daily words of wisdom.

Pookie, I fell off my sofa laughing about Chris Owens. My hubby simply GOES OFF when anyone says her name around him - she gives him the heebie jeebies big time! There were 3 Easter parades in the Quarter yesterday. There's the one Chris Owens is in, there's a gay Easter parade, and then there was one more. One of my friends went to see them all! Hubby and I went out to dinner Saturday night and then went to visit our grand-nieces and grand-nephew. Sunday we kept a low profile, but the Easter Bunny managed to stop by. How's your son doing? Love you girl!

Now that I've pulled the knife out of my back. I wasn't born yesterday. Don't take me for a fool. As for no one talking to you for 3 days. There are a lot of people in here and it is easy to get lost in the shuffle. Doesn't mean people were ignoring you.

I'm sorry HKN. I don't know you personally but I do know what I read from you and about you. You are a woman of her word. You start with respect and good vibes. If you are wrong you own it and if you are right you own it. More right than wrong. JS. You don't deserve backstabbing and drama. You speak from the heart with facts and fun. You let us know what you know and you let us know if it's what you think. You don't force anything on anyone. I am truly sad that someone continues to attack you when you have been nothing but good to them.

Nola girl I never made it to bed yet as you can see...Yes it is my husband the dr's office called back,

He had what we had been thinking was a wart removed about a week ago from along side his knee...it had it for years...Then it all of a sudden grew and he went to have it checked. Biopsy back and Doc wants a new visit so he's a nervous wreck and he is making me nervous with him.

I feel really bad about Arleeens remarks both here and on rose's blog. I know that I don't comment much but I want HKN and all of the havenettes know that I love it here. You get many comments here and there is no way everyone can be responded to. I think everyone here has been very nice to Arleen and caring. Thank you HKN and all of the people who post here for being here. You always brighten my days.

HKN, HAVENETTES, I am sort of really sure that I was not aware of any of the tweeting misbehavior, but keep telling myself, consider the source of the problem. I think it is called manipulation of a simple person, and it is rather sad, but I was expecting this. I do not think the dogs are necessarily Rob and Kristen's dogs, but what the heck do I know? I believe maybe one of those pictures at Coachella is Rob, and rest are kind of unreal. Rob has got an unmistakable smile, not there on the other pictures, am sure he would be grinning large with Sam . I enjoy reading all the blogs, only post on two or three, never worry about folks answering every little quirky question I have because they may not have been able to read every comment as this is a busy post, lots of nice people, visitors we enjoy a lot, and some people have only posted their first post here , so the point is this, we do this because it makes us happy, and it is a really friendly place! HKN - thanks for a really good post, I think we should be just super happy about the four movies going to be shown and hopefully they both will poke their noses out to say hello to us, as in the puppy saying pretty please! I just do not want to see anymore nightmare drama with the French paparazzi. Just a quickie zip in and zip out so we can see they made it, if nothing pops out to greet them right then. Gracious, what a happening! I$ made some cream cheese stuffed jalapenos, very fresh peppers with shrimp and fresh garlic, and it was heavenly. Also stuffed celery with cheddar and cream cheese mix with a bit of smoked salmon on top. Going to try to stuff larger peppers with cream cheese and artichoke hearts, because Mary and her daughter have one heck of a spicy artichoke recipe. I really love good snacks and hope to find more recipes! Hint. Hitting the pillows! Bye Arlene, love you a lot, see you soon maybe. Goodnight HAVENETTS, I GET UP AT 5 a.m. tomorrow. ARRGH!

Oh, by the way I kind of feel the way others do about twitters. I am easily misunderstood because I am not too swift about tweeting, just had problems entering my code type entries. And I kind of know how Rob feels when people twitter about his whereabouts. it is rather invasive stuff at times. I am kind of shy of using it and prefer the simple posting right here, right in front of everybody. Hope you all understand why. I really do love you all! Nola Girl, I am so hungry to go to EDY'S. I want the everything platter! I love seafood!

ANANI, ANNY, AND WHATEVER THE HECK YOUR NEXT NAME IS--MOVE ALONG LITTLE DOGGIE, MOVE ALONG WITH ALL THOSE FAT LITTLE HEIFERS YOU HAVE WITH YOU. This is not your friendly poster here, this is the FUZZBUSTER, labeled so by me MATIES. YOU ARE CORDIALLY ASKED TO DETACH, DERAIL YOUR SIMPLY INSANE SELF OFF THE POST ASAP BEFORE WE COME TO CARRY YOU AWAY , WITH THE GUYS IN WHITE COATS. THEY ARE COMING TO CARRY YOU AWAY MY DEAR, COMING TO CARRY YOU AWAY TO THE FUNNY FARM !

@hkn.. i want to say something. the comparison of the promo-pic with the fan pics is wrong. sorry. rob had fuller cheeks and a slight double chin in the last set pics we have from LIFE. to compare the 'now' rob to the rob from the bd2 promo is wrong. he was really, really slim at bd2 promo time. i have seen him, his legs were so thin in those grey suit pants. so, for me, there is no doubt that this is rob in the fan pictures of the concert. you just can see the slight double chin and the fuller cheeks more due to his white shirt.

@pirouette.. since you say that i am horrible.. i will tell you something.. arleen is blocked on my twitter tl for something she did months ago!! it has nothing to do with her recent trouble on twitter!

and, when i say fake people, i am talking about rose. i have my reasons for that, too.

we all know that arleen has some issues, don't go there and say we don't care about it.. we all have told her several times, that we do care about her. but, we can't always take the time to talk to her here.

like i've said before.. my rl is very demanding right now.. and i won't be here for a while again.

It was the night after Easter and all through the house we had several cheerful comments and some sour apple twits. It would be good to remember this HKN's post full of happy news for Rob and Kristen, so only the selfish and childish would attempt to chide others on a new and happy post. Time for the post to be cleaned of all the sad sacks and hateful hats that are just rats that are intent on being hateful hacks and hags, intent on harm, but doing in themselves as so many posts delete them.

good morning,brilliant post HKN, I love this site because you can learn a lot of new here, and possibly open questions to be answered.Even if it's hard, all the troublemakers ignore until they are removed with a push of a button.HKN keep it up, and we have to wait and see.And I still hope for a tiny photo of Kristen and Rob, maybe this would cheer up the tense atmosphere somewhat.Have a nice Tuesday all

Havenetts... I believe there is a need to reassess matters right now and take a breath...

There is much debate on dogs and pics and who believes what... which currently is taking away the emphasis from the positives of this blog.

The infighting happening right now is a direct result of the constant fly by sniper attacks of those with different beliefs...

They do seem to have gotten under the skins of some and the retaliatory posts show this... please ladies... I implore you all .... ignore the nasty and concentrate on the positive!!

Normally it is the very differences we all have which makes us interesting... but if those differences are poles apart then it needs to be said that a blog which is more in line with more negative beliefs is the place to be if you are of a negative mind set... not this blog, which is pro all things R&K.

I totally enjoy HKN's posts personally... there are the odd things I don't necessarily agree with...

Ultimately though, I am very capable of making my own mind up on the issues under discussion and do so... I see no need to sweat the small stuff... it is just not important in the big picture of things...

What is important is the general tone of HKN's reports, which is all about the positive factor... and it is this which keeps me reading... and I am sure most of the Havenettes.

I see no point in getting into arguments with faceless strangers (and I do not speak of the regulars here).

Having a difference of opinion is fine... but trying to negate the opinions of others or make them believe as you do is not the way to go.

The people here are generally birds of a similar feather and if you happen to be a bird of a different feather... then you need to find your own kind!

All this injecting of negativity, does however beg the question of those who constantly come here to be negative... of.... WHY??

I have seen other regulars ask this very question repeatedly in one form or another and not one of the "fly by negative posters" ever answer the question... which leads me to believe they have no answer... other than... their need to be argumentative!

I'm not on Twitter, nor do I go to any other site but SRWN, but I share some of the concerns here and I think it was good of Arleen to make the decision to leave. I found her comments to be less about the subject matter and more about sharing her personal life and then being upset if people didn't respond. As many have said, RL can just get crazy at times and we can't always respond and have full blown conversations in a blog commentary section. Perhaps she was putting too much emphasis on the social interaction she received here. As for the other comments - wow - I'm missing stuff at the other sites hahaha!!! I will do a little shout out to Vernier because I continue to respect your honesty. A couple months back we had a misunderstanding of words and I still appreciate that you apologized. You are unique in that respect - so many others will not do that. I'm still your fan - as well as the other kick a** women on here who are not ruled by the tabloids and truly are fans. Haters to the left.

Morning to the Havenettes,Hkn,Mama Nails hope you all had a lovely eastyer, HKN what a great post was looking at your pics of Rob know what you mean something is off im with you on that, well love you all take care have a great day.

Desperation and Machination are sad words......I was not here last night but was wide away when i started reading last night's comments this morning........Every attempt has been made to discredit this blog. the blog owner and the people who comment here but it's an all out low when one does so at a seemingly innocent person's expense.The people here have been nothing but kind to Arleen wishing her well at every turn.....To those who come here and say the people who post here have been mean to her, how dare you!

I came back from a week long holiday vacation for Passover (Thanks NOLA girl for the kind words a few days ago!) - I missed this place! I'm just now reading back and trying to see what I missed these 8 days. I hope those here celebrating Easter had a great holiday!

I LOVE the awesome Cannes news (thanks HKN) and am so happy and proud of our couple!!

I'll try writing something a bit later after I finish with my kids today and reading the hundreds of messages I missed :)Hugs to all here, regulars and lurkers.

Nikola6: Really?The tabloids have painted themselves into a hard as ass corner when it comes to Robert Pattinson and Kristen Stewart or maybe Rob and Kristen have allowed them to write their bullshit stories to force them into the position they and others now find themselves.

i find it amusing you are so dogged in your attempts to discredit this blog.....Sad but amusing.

nikola:In all fairness, lets be truthful. I looked at the "datalounge" posts, and not only is everyone one here made fun of but you say that Arleen is loved there. Well perhaps you need to go back and check some posts because there were some not so nice things said there about her as well as Tempest and the other one.You brought that info here to stir things up. Good luck with that.

@nikola6 - 1. one name for you - Laura Linney - yes, celebs can be pregnant and give birth without press interference 2. Arleen chose to leave - that's her business. At the end of the day, its not really that important. 3. This is still HKNs blog - open or not (which we respect her for doing), she is presenting her opinion on things - why do people like you that do not believe her invest so much energy into reading her blog and tearing it apart? That just makes no sense to me. I do not go on blogs that say KS is a lesbian because I don't believe it - and I don't waste my time reading them. Its called being an adult. With the billions of people in this world, I highly doubt that this fun little blog is really impacting that many lives. And surprisingly, we are all adult women who are HAVING FUN and quite capable of going on with our lives whether we are right or not. This is fun - quit turning it into such drama. That is just so immature and truly a waste of your time. Do you not have better things to do? I'm sure you do. You are obviously a passionate person - I would highly recommend turning that towards something positive that you believe in. You will probably feel better at the end of the day. If other blogs are laughing at us, pretty happy that this is entertaining for them- sounds like they need a hobby or something more productive to do with their day.

@ nikola6... You appear to be well informed for someone who (if you are to be believed) does not go to GC, and as for Datalounge... I for one have never heard of it... however you seem to be once more well informed.

Since you have to taken the time to try to answer my question... (for which I thank you).

I would further like ask... Why is it important to you and others of your ilk to be the Judge and Jury on who is perpetrating lies??

From where I sit... I see two opposing opinions and not one shred of evidence that your opinion is any more right or believable than those on this blog.

Further the posters on this blog do not generally make a game of going to the likes of GC or other negative blogs with one purpose in mind, i.e. to disrespect the opinions copied & pasted from this blog, which cannot be said of the posters on GC if your statements are to be believed!!

No instead we keep ourselves to ourselves here on this blog!

People here believe what they want to believe, and surprisingly not every word HKN posts is taken as gospel by everyone... however HKN posts in a positive vein and spreads good cheer and there is nothing wrong with that!

I guess ultimately there would be no debate at all if folk would stay within their own house and quit invading the house of others!

Amen to what you have said in response to @nikola6 ladies....@nikola6 thank you for your unsolicited, opinionated opinion. If they are talking about all of us on another blog thank them for us please. They are helping to spread what they say is not true. they carry the oh so true pregnancy word not us. I saw the little site and how vicious and maligning they are there. Not a big "Whoop Whoop" for me. Just a bunch of people having fun by degrading others. Not saying positive things but hateful maligning things. "Yeah we are so impressed with that!!" Our little haven of ladies, who don't bother others is "oh so the root of all evil." Sounds good but not here and damn sure not true!! Thank you for all that!!!

hi to all! Thanks HKN for a new post..I agree with @felicity and also think that on the fan pic is Rob ,just he a little gained weight. Following the movie him is the MBL,so it must be in very good physical shape ..... Kristen him very well feeds ;-)

JANE, I for one agree. Because stupidity comes in many forms. So, the ignore and hop,twist and jump, twirl and whirl girl is back. Last night I was ready for the long jump. I think total disgust about covers it. I am always amazed at the complete ignorance of those haters who enjoy the sound of their voices repeating the same thing over and over. Doing the Peppermint Twist with Chubby Checkers. Bye you all.

HKN about the photo of Rob/Not Rob,I have been noticing this for a while now. There's also one of him in sunglasses holding a cup but his hands look too small. That photo is two or three weeks old. Call me nuts if you like. But like you every now and then I'm just not seeing it either.

I think N6 is from one of the two posts discussed by Arlene, starting trouble where she can. Our little ray of sunshine, negativity in its purest form. I would certainly skip or hop over this , she is selling, I am not buying.

OMG nikola6 - enough with the histrionics. We won't come out unscathed? I seriously almost fell from my chair laughing at that one. You are taking this all WAY TOO SERIOUSLY. This is a fun blog - and because its not yours and not mine - HKN can control it however she wants. I strongly recommend starting your own blog and putting your opinions out there and see how you like the attacking that goes on. If you honestly think that anything said about one of us here on another blog matters.............oh honey, you are so misinformed. We couldn't care at all about what is said. You see, we are actually quite anonymous on here and if someone doesn't like my opinion....

crickets......

See - I couldn't care less.

Stay away from blogs and places you don't like. I know you will not respond because rationale comments to your propensity to stir up drama are pretty much ignored by you. But guess what -- I don't care. My day will be just fine. As will everyone else here who is - and again I use this word carefully - having FUN.

And the fact that 4 (!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!) the movies starring Robert and Kristen are going to Cannes-this,I think,through the recognition of their creativity,their talent,finally,among colleagues. They got what they wanted-recognition. Happy year for them-in all senses :-))))

@HKN - looks like I set off a firestorm in regards to the side by side pic. ;) Yikes! Didn't mean to get the hater brigade going on Twitter.

I could care less if it is or isn't Rob. But, there are a few things that just look strange about the "new" Rob. (cheeks fuller, neck thicker, distance between his eyebrow / eyelid, eyebrows really thick, left ear sticks out (our right)). BUT…We could argue until the cows come home, right?

The big thing here is we all believe they are together, happy and there is a little sweet pea. Oh, and, they share the dogs and have four films going to Cannes. :)

Hugs to all for a wonderful day! I come here to escape RL. I enjoy the company. I think we are good peeps. Let's not let the haters take us down.

N6You are full of shit. First you try and educate us on insurance and hollywood and that didn't fly so now its this? You wont win here either. If you didn't know it you're kind of joke in the RK fandom. I see people chatting about it all the time. You're labeled as a troll and a hater.

FishyoneCompletely headed nodded through your comment.

AnnieWhat kind of coffee and muffin are we having this morning while we fangirl over rob and kristen? : ]

Ladies first let me say splendid comments by all stand up and take a bow...

nicola6 remain seated...your comments are not relevant.

As for how a person could give birth anonymously without leaks?

Non disclosure forms are used for famous in the spotlight people all the time. If details are exposed it leaves the hospital open for huge law suits and the staff the leaked info lose their job post haste.

RKfaith : Lovely to see you back again and happy that you had a wonderful passover.

We stopped by here to wish each other Happy Easter/Passover and lo and behold even at the most sacred time of the year the haters had to come by to spoil that.

But then of course they hold nothing sacred beside themselves and their opinions.

Ladies thank you for the good thoughts and praayers Dr. said it was another skin cancer, but since it had gone deep he wanted another peek at it. Also told us what to watch for. So crisis averted.Thanks be to God.

Need to get some chores done and then lots of work the rest of day.

Before I go one more thing...

No one on this blog or anywhere else has ever treated Arleen unkind. She has been supported, laughed with , cried with ..cheered on in her endeavors, congratulated on her achievements and worried about when she has been sick.

What Arleen did was to say the least not nice. She chose to remove herself..no one asked her to go. It's just as well there really is no room for palying both sides against the middle around here.

As for what others say about us, no great shakes...none of us really care.

Nikola6: Again.....Really?Your desperation is at it's height right now.....Stop just stop.I wrote sad and amusing earlier re: your comments. Right now it's just sad.Postpartum occurs after a woman has given birth....Are you so desperate to be proven right that you are pulling any and everything out of nothing?

Kate Winslet went to work on the Hunger Games within six weeks of giving birth.....Breastfed and bonded with her new baby on set.

It's just past 8:30 in LA.....Get some rest. You started this shit way too early LA time this morning.

AnnieThank you sweetheart ♡ I send salads everyday to school with my daughter. She loves homemade vinegrettes and this will be a great addition to the menu.

MCSorry I've been a little mia lately. Rl and other pressing fandom shit has been keeping me mostly lurking and drive by posting lol. Trying to get educated on tumblr ;) I've def been keeping up with the emails and know everything and believe me...am gonna use the info to my advantage lol.

N6Dude? Get ur head out of your ass. You can talk all politically correct as much as you like and I dont follow or give a shit about other sites, all I know is what you are doing right this second is trolling. You are the problem, not the solution. And you are no fan of either imo. Stop wasting your time inflicting your unwanted bullshit upon this whole fandom and why dont you actually enjoy something. Ive read your posts on disqus. Negativity follows you to all the sites you visit.

Question:Do you ever wonder why you are always involved in negative conversations?

Answer:A. You're a trollB. You're a trollC. You're a trollD. All the above

It was made public in November 2013 that Kristen was doing American Ultra. How do we know she didn't sign up for that movie months before November. No one knows when Kristen signed the contract. For all we know she could have signed up for it in January of 2013. No one knows anything. Kristen is one of the top young actresses. I'm sure they would take her knowing she was pregnant. You people are acting so juvenile. Let it go. If you don't believe that's fine just don't come here trying to prove you are right.

I'm tired of you speaking about poor Arleen. She left because no one would hold her hand. Not everyone here gets answered all the time. We post then go on. If she wanted to be answered all the time she was right to go somewhere they will hold her hand. It's ok. It's done with now leave it alone please.

Hey nikola666..... I stand by what I said before...I will say it again ...you are a spawn of old beelzebub himself... Look how you used god's name in vain in your post above.... why come here and belly ache about the way you are percieved here..You should take your comedy act on the road...waaah. waah. Waah.....ROF....you reap what you sew

Well...hello you all. I had the feeling that something big was coming soon. The closer we get to may/June, the more insanity will be present. I'm simply ignoring the bull and focusing on the bright side. They have 4 movies that will be a part of Cannes! That's wonderful news. Kristen is glowing in every picture I've seen of her for the past few months. Rob has looked happy in the recent pictures we have seen (the ones that are not questionable). Hope that makes sense. Great things are coming their way. Love you all and is it Friday yet?

Paula and everyone else wondering how Ks pregnancy is not being leaked out with birthing classes and medical staff being aware...1 thing and one thing only... HIPPA laws in the US forbid the sharing of ANYONES personal medical information without consent.

Anyone found to have leaked this information would be fired and a penalty could be imposed as well as opening up the leaker and the employer to a civil lawsuit.

Due to my health insurance license, and continuing education courses, I know that insurance companies and doctors offices take these laws very seriously and I'm sure any doctor that works with celebrity patients adhere to an even more stringent enforcement than your average primary care physician.

N6.. I don't know exactly how everyone else feels about others mocking us on the Internet...but I can tell you how I feel.

Thank GOD! It means I've made a difference. I've done something, I've provoked something. The first hate mail I got on my blog was the happiest day I had since I had started my blog. It meant to me that I was doing something right.

If what I had to say, was enough to irritate someone to the point that they had to call me out for it, than what I have to say matters.

So ladies/Gents, just know that we and our opinions matter. We know they matter to N6 and our other visitors and now we know that they matter to a whole host of others all over the world!

N6 one more thing...especially since you bought it up before...IF and that's a huge IF Kristen were to go into labor during production and they would have to stop until she had recovered sufficiently and when all the players would be available to work again...the money that would cost production...yeah...that's what the fucking insurance is for that they put on every actor. RME!!

What was your point of even bring up the insurance if you had no fucking idea what it was for?!

You come here like you have all the answers when really you know little to nothing about anything.

I noticed the hate is heating up, so called R&K fans are the worst haters out there. For some reason it’s HKN they hate with a passion! She said she thought Kristen was pregnant and it’s just become a war because she said her cousin works for K. It doesn’t matter how much her belly grows or that she gained weight, all they can see is that HKN said it. I wonder why so called R&K fans are fighting this pregnancy so much; from the beginning they wanted the so called golden child? I just don’t get it; even if they are not together you do know people sleep with the ex’s all the time. If they don’t believe why is it bothering some people so much?

Mama nails ...you are 100% correct about the hippa laws.. A few yrs ago a bunch of hospital employees at a hospital in LA were fired for accessing private records on Brittany Spears when she was admitted during her breakdown... I work in the medical field and the hippa laws are extremely strict. Firing Is minor ...you can also be levied a 10,000 fine and have to serve a few months in prison....

That is an excellent idea!I personally would love to see Kris with a bob haircut. Goatees don't really get to me, but I (heavy sigh)miss his sex hair. I know he has to have it all cut off for MBL, so I'll have to wait for it to grow out (when/if that movie ever starts).How is this for an idea...what movie roles would you love for them to have?I wold be tickled pink if Kris were to play Diane Von Furstenburg on day. They have similar features in my opinion. And can Rob please get a movie role where he is a detective? Now that would be all kinds of awesome for me. But my ultimate dream is for both of them to be in another remake of The Thomas Crown Affair. I would be at every screening in the front row!

Mn and stargazer I think rob looked sexy in that goatee. He had it before during bd 1 promo with ashley green. K would totally rock bangs. I hope she changes her hair after she has the baby like most young moms do.Stargazzer no divide and conquer getting in here. Yes! Lets close ranks ladies. United kingdom front!

Gigi I would love to see rob play a psycho like in kiss the girls or silence of the lambs. To play a bad character. I would loooove for kristen to be a bond girl.but maintain her fiestyness and low key appeal.

Teresa, I would love to see Rob co-star with Harry Connick in a suspense movie! Those two men are fabulous, and I could see them acting together. In 2004, my husband and I were lucky enough to see him in concert. His talent floors me. Kris would make a cool Bond girl, and that would be a super cool role.

Actually the idea of the hair came to me when I was researching Cleopatra. Every generation has their own and I think Angelina Jolie is too old for the role,IMO.

Cleopatra is supposed to be a young queen when we meet her.So my choice for that iconic role will be Kris but I wondered if she could pull of the Egyptian look. I think she can and those green eyes will look mesmerizing on the make up.

Rob playing an evil guy with a goatee will be so much fun. I will like Rob to get into something sci-fi, maybe a role in the new Star Wars sequels.

DEAR LADIES, It has been my experience that the ones who howl the loudest and the longest using 50 dollar words where 1 dollar words would do are always the troublemakers. To show up on another post and shout four letter words is supposed to cause great anxiety. For me and anyone else that heard brow beater #1 and #2, it was a head ache, so I decided to say something to you all. I did not call out anyone, nor mention poor little Arleen, except to say, the loud responses were coming from Gossip Cop, PROBABLY and these are simple persons with simple minds repeating simply hate over and over. If Arleen was unhappy she did what she needed to do. I was not referring to Arlene. We have folks who come here to fuss and bother the locals a lot. To me, they are simpletons, not able to think for themselves but enjoy bullying others, i.e. ANANI. What a lot of melt-downs with regard to Kristen and Rob. They come from other posts swinging away to batter and beat down a small blog that is happy that Rob and Kristen are having children. This seems just way over the top for any bully type to do, but many do not believe Rob and Kris are together and have been for five years, nor can be expecting, and we do. I believe we are correct and I do not see any harm or foul here. I do not think Kristen is worried about this, we would have heard about it. I am sincerely happy for two nice people the world has yet to give proper appreciation to, and good things will happen for them, they already are. I only hope and pray for their safety. I think they have that covered. you really have to smile because they certainly can disappear when they want to and pop up when needed. Seriously a cool move. Well, that's my story and I am sticking to it. Nobody wanted Arleen to leave this post except possibly another post. Time to feed my little dog, Sugar, who loves tuna fish, and must have been a kitty in another life. Bye. Meow. Mama Nails, your kittens knock me out!!

Okay...I'm not sure what role I want for Rob...but for Kristen I've got two ideas.

1st I want her to play someone bad..evil...just not a nice character. She's always been so nice for the most part in all her movies...so there's that.

I know that J.Lawrence is currently cast as Kate in East of Eden..but we all know that things happen..and my wish is that J has to step aside (ideally for her because of something better)...and that they give that part to Kristen. She would rock that character!

And I really can't see Kristen as a bond girl, they're usually just a prop for Bond...but after I saw the last Bond movie and they killed off Judie Dench as M...I thought yeah...Kristen when she's bit older would make a kick ass M! So if she's gonna be in a Bond movie that's the part I want for her. (or a bad guy..lol)

Oh..and I actually like mountain man rob...I prefer him either clean shaven, or full on beard...LOL

Hmmmm...loved Kristens runaway hair during new moon promo...very sexy look imo. But my guess is rob likes it long, as well as kristen, and its more versatile.

My forever fave rob hair is RomeRob. Messy, scruffy and wrinkled. Its what made us fall in love with him lol. But I also love black tuxedo, black bow tie clean cut with a little bit of shawdow rob. Not particular am I? Lol.

Have to also say I loved Kristens hair smooth and styled during BD2 promo. And robs blackbook photo shoot hair and clothes and fake tattoos were pretty amazeballs.

OH GOSH! Rob in longer hair and Kristen in her normal color, reddish brown, light. They are beautiful, whatever color, but Rob's natural color is similar to his lady's. I would love to see them in a recreation of LADYHAWKE, a favorite of mine, romance of lovers separated by an evil Pope to live as hawk during day and black wolf at night, but never together as humans until a special day that is not day or night. Original was beautiful, actors were fantastic. I am off to get dinner, homemade pintos and ham with cornbread. I love Jiffy cornbread mix! You all be good.

Hi everyone. Speaking of movie roles what do you think of Kristen working with Angelina Jole in a Tomb Raiders movie. I was thinking of Kristen playing Angelina's younger unknown sister who head out together and kick some bad guys arses.

hallooo mah fabulous havenettes!! pookie here loving you all and the new post by our wonderful beloved HKN!!

omg Cannes is going to be fantastic! 4 films from our lovely ones-- even if they can't one or both be there physically, the fact that their work is so well represented there is a powerful statement in regards to the respect and admiration in which the film world holds them, which at the very least will translate outwardly into the world at large in such a positive fashion allowing our lovely ones to continue on from strength to strength in their lives!(byw saphire1231 i do actually take everything HKN says as gospel and her sentiments run completely concurrent with my own, which is why i choose to post my thoughts and poetry from here and from srwn exclusively)

felicity i just have to say you are so loved by me. i just think you're quite wonderful, and you are someone who makes substantial, meaty, useful, solid, posts. posts that truly benefit the sum of our information here. you are a diamond in the crown of the haven. i bless you, dear felicity!vernier-- i adore you as well! i think the world of both you and darling tracybell-- you ladies delight and inspire me!Morning Coffee, you are dear dear friend. your support means the world to meand NOLAgirl i laughed so hard when you said your husband agrees with me about the rather scary Chris Owens-- god bless you guys!! you know, that *woman* is so weird and mysterious-- i think there might be a really cool movie there-- and it just might be a bit of a horror movie! Chris Owens reminds me of one other strange and possibly alien creature-- the very pink Angelique from L. A. billboard pseudo-fame. another mysteriously questionable character who seems much at home in the semi-darkness... *insert twilight zone music here*

okay. i made a humble little tune, no big deal, but heartfelt-- about "friends". it's part of a little children's musical i've been working on, just a rough demo-- but it's the way i feel about you all, my darling, positive, havenettes-- here's the simple lyrics

A Friend Like Youlyrics, music by pookie

Finding a friendLike youSomeone so easy toTalk toI don’t know whyI didn’t tryTo know you beforeBut that makes you so much morePrecious to meCause I used to beLone-ly

The first time we metI knewHere was someone I couldRun toWhen things go wrongWe’ll get a-longBecause we will knowWe’ve got a loving and safe place to go Where friendship is shownOn-ly

Life’s like a package that one hasn’t openedIt sometimes takes courage to see what’s insideBut a friend can make magicThat turns any packageInto a nice presentWith happiness wrappingAnd ribbons of laughterWith each day excitingThis and so much more, a friend can provide....

When I at last Found youYou who can turn each day In-toJoy and a song, we’ll sing alongIn sweet harmony, a song sounds much better sungBy you and meWho’ll never beLone-ly.

end

well, sue morris, felicity, annie, morning coffee, tracybell, jane, vernier, andreana, a stargazzer, mamanails, gigi cullen, intothesun74, RK Faith, nolagirl, tina wotherspoon, tempest, and any other dear ones i don't know very well yet, i just want to sayi appreciate you so very, very much and i'm so grateful for finding a friend like you...--your **friend**,pookie

Guys my vote for Rob is clean shaven hair longish messy and dressed in a dark suit or tux... me likey.....My favorite kristen was the short sassy yellow leather looking dress she wore in BD2 press tour...her hair in a side braid...I loved her in that dress.... As for the movie I would like to see them in a remake of A Star is Born... the old one starred kris kristofferson and barbara striesand..... Rob would be a singer in it........yeah mama would love that....LOL

andreana, i thank you so much darling for your constant kindness and your lively posts!i forgot to mention i posted the actual song 'a friend like you' on my tumblrpookielewis.tumblr.complease use the message or submit button my darling peeps and let me know any emails i could communicate with you on-- it's private and the info doesn't appear anywhere publicly-- click on the 4 small parallel lines at the top left corner of the page and it takes you to a private message boxlove continually,pookiefriend

There are two more versions of A Star Is Born. Judy Garland and James Mason in 1954 and Janet Gaynor and Frederick March in 1937. I would like to see Rob and Kristen do a remake of Splendor In The Grass. Originally done with Natalie Wood and Warren Beatty.

Since I adore old Hollywood movies, I would love to see a remake of Charade, MC. That would be fantastic. Or Woman of the Year would be another great choice. The way Rob looks in Life just makes me swoon. Pookie, your newest piece of art is beautiful I love it when you share them with us. Another movie I wish they would do together is Houseboat. Can you all imagine that? Swooning over here!

Oh yeah you are right..I knew about the Judy Garland movie but not the one before that.. Splendor in the grass would be good with R/K...I saw that recently ... Warren Beatty was so young in that...and so great looking!

one i mentioned to mamanails that i thought would be fantastic for them to come out together with was a remake of "The Postman Always Rings Twice".THey could both strap on their badboy and badgirl shoes for that one!--noirpookie

omg Gigi i love Charade! That would be out of sight! i NEVER get tired of Charade! i think i know the dialogue to that film by heart! i know mark wahlberg did one remake already, and it was okay-- but i think it could have been better. it was really stylized as though the producers were afraid it wouldn't be different enough from the classic Grant/Hepburn flick--"well-- come on!" *winkwinkthank you for your sweet words of encouragement dear dear Gigi! you're always so uplifting--pook

Well----you know they used "Last Tango in Paris" for their take on the relationship for Edward and Bella(Brando was the male lead)-- I can see them making that picture when they are older. I can also see them in Streetcar named Desire, without any problems. Kristine as Blanche. Scarlett O'HARA in GONE WITH THE WIND. So many possibilities with both. Hitting the pillows!

Breakfast at Tiffany's is one of my all time favs..... I think they would be splendid..... Rebel without a cause, Penelope starring Natalie Wood and Ian Bannen, or Love with the Proper Stranger with Natalie Wood and Steve McQueen. Can you tell I am a Natalie Wood fan? lol lol. Always have been. Was devastated when she died. Kristen reminds me of her and Rob would be awesome in the Lead actor's rolls.

Girls I'm back to say goodnight once more...my eyes are so tired from all the reading.

Pookie: lstened to your new song, and then of course I had to stay and istent o the rest yet again. I love your lyrics, you can tell they come straight from your heart.

Your vocal ranges change to accomodate the changing tempo and lend a different dimension to the lyrics...you are gifted.

Gigi: that was my earlier choice charade...I could so see them playing off each other in that one.

Vern: Love with the proper stranger was one of my all time favorites. love both Natalie and Steve...I never could see him with mcGraw..no chemistry or fire.

paula Bain; They hate on Kristen because she has Rob...They hate on Rob because they believe the tabs that say he is a womanizer and an alcoholic...Rational...they don't ever think rational thought s or use their God given brains to think about what they are seeing or reading..everything is face value.

Here we love them both...we love their character and integrity as people first. We love their devotion to each other their families and their lifelong friends. What's not to admire about them?

oops 'cuse me MC my buddy, i see it was you who brought up Charade-- yep, that's a good one

yes and Vernie, how about 'Brainstorm'? with today's effects and new brain/mind research that could be rewritten and updated into a really scary flick, with Kristen of course in the Natalie role and Rob in the Chris Walken role

i too was so so so bummed when Natalie passed away... i always felt that whole thing was as fishy as the boat she 'fell' out of--mysterypook

oh! i just saw that MC you posted something so lovely about my music while i was posting that other thing just then-- thank you dear dear friendi hope someday i get to read hat you're writing!you have sweet dreams and rest those eyes!--your friend the pook

TRACEY, MORNING COFFEE, I feel like crying and throwing up at the same time. I see that someone is really dividing all the pro-Kristen and Rob posts and there is nothing to be done. I understand so well what Tempest meant now and HKN, that the members were so vicious that the real fans were leaving, disgusted because they could not get along. I have never seen anything quite like this. I just enjoy posting cheerful news and kidding with you all. Hope the hateful posters run out of electricity. Have a good night. Dreaming about Rob as 007 and Kristen as his boss.(in a white bikini) Ah, well!

POOKIE, YOU ARE TRULY A SWEET PERSON. THANK YOU FOR BEING YOU. I HAVE NOT SLEPT FOR THREE NIGHTS, READING THE POOP THAT HATERS POST TO EACH OTHER ON SEVERAL POSTS. THE WORD IS MIND-BENDING. WHY AM I ALWAYS DISAPPOINTED IN THE INTEGRITY OF OTHERS. ARLEEN WAS A SURPRISE BECAUSE EVERYONE TRIED TO MAKE HER FEEL WELCOME. YOU JUST NEVER KNOW PEOPLE I SUPPOSE. Susie

'be my baby now' was what they played on moonlighting M Cdue morris-- you sound like you don't feel well honey-- i'm so sorry maybe after a good night's sleep you'll feel betterR and K's fans will always be just that-- and nothing any bunch of po' lil old misguided hatery persons could say will ever change it they will continue to inspire love and admiration as long as they live and love--pookie

HI ALL!! It appears we've had some drama here. As most of you know, I work ALL THE TIME ... AND have elderly parents in my home ... so, yea, I barely have time to post anywhere much less read each & every comment although I really wish I could.

I love old movies. "It Happened One Night", "Rebecca", "All About Eve", "Some Like It Hot", "Days of Wine and Roses", "Rear Window", "Magnificient Obsession", "Now Voyager"."Gaslight", and "A Place in the Sun" are some of my favorites. Clouds of Sils Maria has an element of All About Eve in it. I could see Rob & Kris in a remake of Rear Window or A Place in the Sun - I'd be interested in seeing them in It Happened One Night - very funny!

RKFaith - hope last week was lovely for you and your family - missed you!

a stargazer - hmmm, Rob with shorter hair, 5 o'clock shadow, and a suit. Kristen with long deep auburn hair and a designer gown. Thanks for taking things in a different direction!

Saphire1231 - well said!

Pookster - what's even more scary is Chris has a boyfriend!!! LOL!!! Hubby is still laughing about your agreeing with him. Love your lyrics, and you are my friend :)

Debbie - hope you are feeling better, and Gigi, great luck at the doc's appt.

Ya'll know when it comes to social media, I am ignorant, which is by choice. Life is difficult enough without more garbage added to it. I try to keep as much of it out of my life as possible - don't want/need it.

HKN and MN, I know you have to navigate through all of it and I don't envy you one bit. I couldn't deal with the ludicrous and insane "experts" on all things Rob & Kris. Both your blogs are enough for me - they make me happy and have great peeps that are "regulars".

ALL Havenettes, HKN, and MN - sweet dreams and a big hug! Stay away from the asshats :D

Maybe our official logo should be the guy with his head up his ass and the symbol for NO...

Hi, ladies. I lurk constantly but I have been away for two days and just caught up with this new post. I was really saddened to see the fallout with Arleen. I have no idea what she may have said on twitter or at other blogs, or even here, to upset people so much, and if she has said nasty things then I am certainly not supporting it. But I do remember her posting on RPI about two years ago when she first started commenting there, that she has an intellectual disability. So maybe some compassion and understanding is needed if she does chose to come back.

Morning.Caroline: I think if Arleen chose to comeback she would be welcomed.

I don't understand what happened either, the people here always greeted her warmly, anyone can read through the previous posts and comments to see that.

There are so many nefarious forces at work in this fandom and it's a really a low blow if Arleen's intellectual disability was exploited......If that is what was done then this fandom has truly lost it's way.

StargazzerI have to completely agree with Nola, the reminiscing and dreaming we did was so much fun to do and read. What a nice evening *smooches*

MCso glad to hear about the hubs. As are men get older they really rely on us non? Last week I was wanting him to hurry and get back to work and now really wanting him home lol. Some things dont change no matter age! Love ya lady. Read your sweet comments to V last night and thought what amazing friends we've all come to know. The support boggles my mind.

GigiFinally figuring out tumblr a litte and got ur message and agree. I love ur tumblr! You have the most amazing pics! And I agree with you...it is nice to be able to share this experience with each other.

Well getting my hair done this morning and going to see son and dil new house. They just became home owners and first baby due in a few weeks! Exciting stuff!

Afternoon to the lovely Havenettes hope you are all well i was meant to get my CT scan results today but unfortunately they are not back and my doctors ill so 2 disappoints already today but on the other hand no news is good news i say, well love and hugs to you all take care have a great day

Morning you all. I totally agree with Moonlighting, in fact I wrote a fic called Twilighting that was based on the show. Here is the link if anyone is interested.https://www.fanfiction.net/s/9783443/1/TwilightingIt was one of my favorite shows when I was younger. I have a doctor's appointment so I'll be back later on. Love you all.

My going to bed early last night was side lined by a couple of very sad messages from our susie. They started me thinking and then I couldn't shut my head off.

I see what is happening and what an easy target was made out of someone who's mental capacity is being manipulated against the entire fandom in a way...divide and conquer.

Arleen made a choice to leave...I think we were all surprised not by her taking a break here with all the bickering going on, but the manner she chose to do it with I'm sure more than a little encouragement from other sources.

Arleen was treated for years with kindness and good will by everyone here...we understood her need for more attention than most people require. Any one who doesn't believe this can go back through any of HKN posts going back as far as they wish to see the truth of that statement. I defy anyone to say she was treated as less than the others.

We have allowed people to come in here and cause absolute chaos with their hatred.

But we each contributed to it by answering them back and allowing ourselves to get caught up in their ugliness and hateful ways. No one here is innocent of that, myself included.

From here on out I vow...to never acknowledge or answer another troll, they can post as many comments as they wish they will be completely ignored by me.

If you all continue to answer them , we will only keep dragging this wonderful place through the mud and maybe eventually doing what they could not...destroying it.

Think before you write...walk away for a while till you cool down, say a small prayer for each of them and give them to a higher power to deal with. Do anything you need to do...except answer them, do not curse them out, argue with them, try to reason with them....It won't work.

Ignore them toatally and completely. That will bother them more then anything you could possibly say to them. let's concentrate on Rob and Kristen..and then each other.

Please I am begging you all...leave the trolls to themselves. They will go elsewhere eventually even if they say they won't...they don't like being ignored.

Sue from HollandHow cool you are from a different country. I haven't been to Holland yet. I am going to Germany, Switzerland and Austria in the fall. You are so right about getting answers here. Sometimes you do and sometimes you don't.

STARGAZER I think you are very wise and rather brilliant. I also think dividing this post up is virtually impossible. Last night I was very tired and disgusted, but I am wide awake now and was wondering, what do you think about Rob and Kristen in a political thriller like White House Down with Tom Cruise as the bad guy and Chris Rock as the hero? Chris is always saying he need a good job! Combine in a little Air Force One storyline and you have an interesting movie that you really need a comic like Chris to handle and of course you need Bruce and Sylvester and the rest of the guys to save the day. Do we need a few vampires or WEREWOLVES for spicing things up ? Maybe some mutants or the living dead! Just kidding.

I agree with you MC. I am one that spoke hastily out of anger. I do apologize again. I had seen how she would say things here and totally different things elsewhere and always said "poor Arleen she doesn't know any better." Some days she wrote with complete clarity. When I saw how she talked about us on RPI I lost it. I knew how everyone, and I mean everyone was overly protective of her and her needs. For her to do that went all over me. I typed my response so fast I didn't even read it. I have a very very low tolerance for people being low down and dirty. After I read what I had written. I was sad I went there. I still felt it to be honest but I was sad I went there here. I do apologize again for that. when I read the post on the other site I saw how she was manipulated and lead into her actions. if and when she comes back I will bow down and apologize. she deserves that from me for how I struck out. out of anger. I vow with mc that I will ignore. this is a haven not hell. we should all treat it as such. if HKN took the time to start, build and include us in her haven we should honor it and be thankful someone cares as much as we do about R and K to do this. Oh and Good Morning Havenettes! I hope you all have a great day!!!!

MORNING COFFEE--LOVE YOU SO MUCH AND LOVE THIS POST. Hooray for Rob and Kristen! By the way, has anyone seen Rob and Kristen? HUM. HUM, HUM. HUM. Well my imagination is going bonkers. Be still, my heart! What is happening? Maybe they are at work? Good grief, you have to be part psychic to know anything anymore!

I have a long memory and people here are very, very welcoming to everyone with good intentions. I saw dozens of very kind comments to Arleen, THAT is the norm here. When there is a misunderstanding, there are even apologies— on what other blog does that happen these days???

Have a great day everyone, please don't take the hate bait, MC has the right idea...

Mc and verni I love u guys. I dont need any other sites. This is my house. This is my home. I also. Vow to never answer the trolls again. Everyone who wants to pledge please do so. An excellent way is when uSee their name skip over the complete comment. Not a word to them. Who cares what they think. Only follow certain ones on Twitter if u must.

I don't think Arleen her husband or daughter would appreciate the fact that you are telling the world that she is mentally handicapped. Shame on you. What kind of friend does that?

Pretty sad you hoard others comments to post on other boards.

You say this is not about Kris being pregnant. It's about you liking them separately but not together. Because if they were together and having a baby then your theory of them having broken up is all BS. And you certainly wouldn't have a chance with Kristen. Sorry to break it to you but only in your dreams could you have Kristen to yourself.

Seriously i am at a loss why so many people seem threatened by HKN and her blog and no I do not mean poor Arlene who has been manipulated by some truly despicable individuals whom I am sure intend to mock her unhappiness over these unfortunate skirmishes.

If this is a blog full of crazy people why don't you ignore it and let it drift into obscurity? instead your machinations have made it 'infamous' and more worthy of attention.The comments made by these women on this blog have been re-posted on many other blogs, How obsessed are you? what is your problem you say Kristen's pregnancy does not matter but the treatment of poor Arlene but where was your concern 5 years ago when the haters or two years ago when the robsessed joined the hater campaign to take down Kristen with their smear campaigns and drug rumors, where were those 'tiger tiger eyes burning bright' nowhere to be found I am sure, probably somewhere sniggering in a corner in delight over those matters, the same as those hypocrites who used Arlene as a sacrificial lamb as a means of denigrating this board and the posters here..Are u happy? did u achieve your aim? someone's feelings were hurt and u want to use it as ammunition in some stupid war, that is one sided because the HKN posters only strive to believe in the best and most positive aspects of this fandom and yet the most shit and hatred are flung at them - they are not making up nasty rumors about R and K and sending it to gossip sites, nor are they visiting other sites contrary to their opinion to stir up trouble, that's your department and you have the nerve to attempt to pretend to do this out of concern for Arlene - So now you feel this is your trump card - will it stop Rob and Kristen from loving each other, having a family and prevent HKN and DIDY and Mama N from celebrating their love no? so why you sit congratulating yourself and patting yourself on the back, consider you are and insignificant speck in cyberspace, as indeed we all are who have no bearing on those two individuals future albeit together or not - in short get a life and leave these posters at the Haven to spend their time in whatever matter they choose, your opinion will never dictate that..Sorry for the long post I have not visited for some time and was truly angered by the antics of the idiots, will proceed to ignore and hop and skip once again..Cheers, Sunny.

M.C.- I love the fact that we are really family here. We are here to call our the terrific work of Rob and Kristen and enjoy each other, and do not expect a response each time. sending out caring thoughts and understanding each other is a haven from hateful speeches from sick people. So, a big thank you to all HAVENETTES, most of which are well aware of WHY we have been nipped at for more than six months

Thank you for taking my suggestion at heart.I know I don't post as much (I'm SAHM writer with a toddler and one in the way, my time is very limited) but I do read it daily and this is the only blog about R/K that I visit in a regular basis and I hate to see the trolls taking it over.I'm a nerd too and sadly I had lost very cool sites and blogs because of similar strategies. So I will do my darn best to help to keep them away to the best of my abilities.

Back on topic.

HKNI haven't seen a haircut or facial hair choice that I haven't loved in Rob I even liked the half hair thingy. I'm such a fangirl :p

SueA thriller seems like a very intense choice for them. The casting you mention sound superb.

I love the idea of remakes:It happened one night is my favorite it will be hard to pull off given the plot is about taking the bus when we have so many planes available, but I think both R/K have the right chemistry to make it work.

Another remake I could sell my house to fund if it was enough would be Pride and Prejudice. Can you imagine Rob as Mr Darcy? *Swoon!*And K playing Lizzie Bennet will be like a dream come true.I would like Jennifer Lawrence as Jane and Nicholas Hoult as Bingley just to have two iconic couples together and also break the box office :DI know I'm crazy!

Jane I know dear girl how tough it is...I have literally made my own tongue bleed by biting down not to respond...

but realizing what their tactics were aimed at thanks to a stargazzer I know we are all made out of tougher stuff then they are. Ignoring them makes them go away.

Yes they are despicable in what they have done to Arleen..the poor sweet woman doesn't realize that she is being used.

Any response to them is one more day we have to put up with them and in turn HKN.

This is her blog..her way of showing the world that neither she nor us will give up on Rob or Kristen. We can't allow ourselves to make her job more difficult.

We have something so good here and it shines so bright it draws others in...most of them good people who think like we do when it comes to R/K and the love they share..Their talent and achievements and how unfairly they have been mistreated at every opportunity.

But that shining light also brings the darkness...Wherever good is you will find evil lurks to extinguish the light...The devil has yet to undrstand he has alredy lost the war...but he is determined to take as many as he can before then.

There are so many wonderful old movies that I could actually see them in a remake of..another one I was thinking of for them is His girl Friday don't think it has ever been done again since Cary Grant and Rosalind Russell.

I am proud that they choose their roles wisely...I honestly would not be surprised to see them with their own production company one day.

shout out to the wise words of my friend sunny! awesome! and of jane! yo, jane!

vernier darling don't be too upset with recent events-- as in all things, natural energy-flows play out.there are valid reasons for your reactions, valid reasons. you are one of our most beloved champions. you keep that beautiful chin up dearest! i notice that one of the admitted 'lurkers', who but post occasionally, very occasionally, was one of the first ones to start the hand wringing-- may i ask where were her responses to the subject at hand when relevant?? all the rest of you consistently over the years responded to the expressed needs of the person involved with patience and love. it was not yourselves that initiated this little tempest in a teapot.

all of you are wonderful people reacted with absolute understandable responses to a ridiculously trivial and manipulated situation-- and should not be maneuvered into guilt over legitimate reactions. jmho.

Movie remakes - this is a bit more obscure, but how about "Somewhere in Time" original cast of Christopher Reeve and Jane Seymoure. Beautiful and heartbreaking movie. Fabulous movie with Rachmaninoff......

I haven't read the above new comments so sorry if this has been mentioned -

There's a new interview from today with Drake Doremus, the Equals director, he mentions filming with Kristen this year. The interesting part was when he mentioned filming will be in TOKYO!How exciting! They are in pre-production.