this is going to be the stupidest post ever
I've just got out of a very long term relationship which was long distance for the past year when I went to uni, but we decided to end it.
Towards the end of the relationship my sex drive was pretty much dead, but now we're over it's like I have a one track mind. I
I can't tell if this is a phase and I really don't want it to become a coping mechanism because I'm still hurting a lot about my relationship.
I'm so out of practice with flirting and I've never pulled in a club or anything because I was in a relationship long before I was able to go clubbing. So I don't really know how to go about pulling guys.
I'm an ok looking girl and I do get a little attention in clubs but I don't know where to go from there
and before anyone says to get tinder, I did. Got a bunch of matches, messaged a few. No replies and nobody's messaged me, so clearly that's not working for me (plus my flirting game is tragic)
Advice please?

(Original post by Anonymous)
Got a bunch of matches, messaged a few. No replies and nobody's messaged me, so clearly that's not working for me (plus my flirting game is tragic)
Advice please?

I do not believe there is a female alive who cannot get laid on Tinder.

sounds to me like perhaps the guys you matched with were not that interested and probably swiped you through mass-swiping every girl they come across. A increasingly common Tinder tactic amongst males.....

If guys you are matching with are not replying then this tells me you are aiming too high and need to lower standards. Stop going for guys miles above you and you'll be fine.........

(Original post by ANM775)
I do not believe there is a female alive who cannot get laid on Tinder.

sounds to me like perhaps the guys you matched with were not that interested and probably swiped you through mass-swiping every girl they come across. A increasingly common Tinder tactic amongst males.....

If guys you are matching with are not replying then this tells me you are aiming too high and need to lower standards. Stop going for guys miles above you and you'll be fine.........

I mean a girl without some concept of standards maybe. I don't have high expectations looks wise but if the first message is 'wanna ****' then I'm not feeling it. There's no charm there.

(Original post by Anonymous)
I mean a girl without some concept of standards maybe. I don't have high expectations looks wise but if the first message is 'wanna ****' then I'm not feeling it. There's no charm there.