Orgasm October is over and Naked November has come and past. Now, Dick & Dildo December is in full swing! We posted some time ago about how to have multiple orgasms for men that raised a good question among our readers. Specifically, one reader noted [of the article], "Seems they just redefine what an orgasm is for men, and go on just to talk about control." Actually, no. Ejaculation and orgasm aren't the same. Today, we're talking about how they're different.

Brendan debunks any misconceptions you appreciated readers may have about about male orgasms and ejaculation! With lots of research, we have some answers to your perplexing question. This is just part two in our series of the male orgasm, so stay tuned for more articles to come. GetLusty's Brendan White reports.

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For many men, orgasms and ejaculation are inextricably combined because ejaculation and orgasms seem to happen at the same time. While this is the often the case, ejaculation and orgasms don't necessarily have to happen at the same time - and don't with a great deal of men. Both words refer to two separate events that have some associated causes and effects. Think of a Venn diagram - there are aspects of each category that are mutual and aspects that are completely separate.

Fleshing out the difference

Before we can dive headlong into the nitty gritty details of male orgasms and ejaculation, it's critical to define the two terms. The exact definition of an orgasm is heavily contested. Some clinical definitions are limited to physiology while others extend into the realms of psychology and neurology. There are rigid definitions that see an orgasm as predominantly physiological: muscular contractions involved during sexual activity, along with changes in heart rate, blood pressure and other factors. I've also encountered sources that claim orgasms are completely mental while ejaculation is the physical end of things. While nicely compartmentalizing the two terms, this claim is false!

Orgasm

I believe the most useful definition of an orgasm is somewhere out there in orgasm no-man's land - as a mental state, as a series of physiological and also neurological events. During an orgasm, brain waves change and certain hormones are released. Scientific American reports: "Achieving orgasm, brain imaging studies show, involves more than heightened arousal.

It requires a release of inhibitions engineered by shutdown of the brain’s center of vigilance in both sexes and a widespread neural power failure in females." Orgasms are controlled by the autonomic nervous system, which operates below the level of consciousness and is responsible for other things like heart rate, digestion, respiratory rate, sexual arousal, and more. This system, when stimulated enough, triggers an orgasm, which in turn queues ejaculation.

Ejaculation

The definition of ejaculation, on the other hand, is far less ambiguous. Ejaculation is the strictly physical process of ejecting semen from the male reproductory tract. If you're still skeptical consider this: some men ejaculate before orgasms, some after. Some men may not ejaculate at all when they orgasm. It is not uncommon for orgasms from prostate stimulation to be dry and ejaculate-less. There are also retrograde ejaculations which occur when semen is redirected to the urinary bladder. Retrograde ejaculations can be one symptom of a larger medical problem so if you think you are having retrograde ejaculations, do yourself a favor and talk to your doctor.

Conclusion

So lets go over what we uncovered today! Orgasms are total body responses while ejaculations are more isolated physical events. While the two can in some cases be mutually exclusive, typically an ejaculation follows an orgasm. Don't be confused - they are different from each other! Don't you let anyone tell you differently, just point them to GetLusty for Couples for some proper sex indoctrination.

This is an article by our newly titled Business Outreach intern, Brendan White. Brendan is a Boston University graduate with a passion for all things historical and also all things sex. A recent Boston transplant to Chicago, Brendan has a musical mind and at one point toured the country. When he's not thinking about conquering feudal Japan, chances are he's playing loud Rock N' Roll somewhere with other like minded individuals. When he is not thinking about GetLusty, he's spending time with his exceptionally lovely girlfriend.