He probably loves you. But let's be honest, there is like 7 billion people in the world.. He's going to see other people he finds attractive, that doesn't mean he will cheat.In the first stages of love people often have 'blinders' on and don't notice other people even if they would normally find them attractive.So he could be telling the truth as he sees it.What I'm saying is I'm sure you are beautiful and funny and smart.. Don't be so wrapped up in how often he gets a hard on or why.. Just enjoy it and try and trust him. If he's a cheater from way back I get the concern but honestly... It's ok to find other people 'nice' as long as he's not doing something behind your back

Sweetly :) he's worried he will hurt your feelings.. But he's also probably being some what honest.. If he really is into you then he definitely won't notice other people as much or won't care.. All I'm saying is if he does notice them.. That doesn't mean he doesn't love ya

Basically you have asked him a question that he can't answer right. If he says yes, you know he is lying to please you. And the only reason he is lying is the same way you can't control your dreams, or who you are attracted to! He may not have all the answers but as long as you trust him, that really is what matters.

I'm not sure if you are Amish or have ever seen television? Boys and young guys have out of control hormones, they are changing, and yes they get turned on by everything! Plus we are in a world where sex is pushed everywhere so much you can't avoid it! Basically young love usually ends in heart break and you sound extremely insecure which is probably going to ultimately be the cause of your break up because you are asking him questions like this. Focus on being a smart, sexy, strong woman yourself :)

do you believe him or not? if you do then whats the point in asking a question if you should or not, im just giving you my opinion but its really up to you, no one can tell you what to think and it sounds like you already know

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