hi. . .. i don't do the 'chat's...but many here, do. the best way to find out who has it. . . is to go on possibly the forum buddy list. or maybe just the members list - most people have icons. . .

or post in the crisis section HELP. ! seriously. someone will be there. .

now, if you want to just pm. . . . i'm around. s.f. has saved my life, continues to do so - and we all care here. talk to any of us - or me - but please don't hurt yourself. there is nothing that cannot get better.
xxx terri