Well, it turns out that the 47-year-old actor had been wanting to have tons of sex with his wife lately, even with their new addition of baby Finn.

Apparently, Tori had been complaining about this to her friends before she found out about the affair. A source said:

“Dean wants sex from her 24/7. Their sex life when they first hooked up was wild and kinky. Of course, they didn’t have children and were very uninhibited. Dean would always throw it in Tori’s face that their sex life wasn’t as hot as it used to be. Well how could it be? They now have four children, and Tori would stay up with Finn all night when he was fussy. The last thing Tori would want to do is have sex, and yet Dean would be ready to go! He even accused Tori of paying more attention to their children!”

While we totally get wanting to do Tori all day long, Dean has to understand how exhausting it can be taking care of their four kids!

Hopefully in the end, their love for each other will prevail because otherwise this could be a very sad breakup, especially for their children.

So dean is proving the old adage, "Once a cheater always a cheater." ….Well maybe if she gets rid of Dean, her mommy will forgive her and give her some of that pile of cash she's got stashed in the bank.

In the mythical hollywood world, women over 40 are always portrayed as "horny vixens who cant get enough sex. Sex drive in turbo mode. Insatiable horn kittens in their prime" but in the REAL world, women over 40 have lower sex drive than their healthy male peers (male prime is from 18 to 80) and according to studies have sex the least frequently of adults. So those older men end up sexually frustrated. "can we have sex?"…"no. we just had sex 2 days ago".."can we have sex, babe?" .."no. we already did it today. why do you need it twice?", So those men get frustrated and go for a younger woman who has a more compatible sex drive. And then the older women are like "dont date him, girl! He's just using you for SEX. All older men want is SEX SEX SEX SEX SEX!!!! He's just using you to satisfy his turbo lust". Fortunately they do make a "pill" for women which amps them up. She should have taken it. She'd have been less whiny and more sweaty. But thats not an excuse to cheat. Thats what porn is for. For those "no no no no no" days.

Tori doesn't give a f… she is and will be one of the richest people in LA!! she has beautiful children and i'm sure if true he can easily be replaced! I doubt he's going to give up the "good life" with Tori's $$$$