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Wednesday, 19 October 2016

Do You Have A Breakup Plan? When You’re Dating Someone.

I
don’t know why I started thinking about this, I just see so many failed
relationships around me and it got me thinking, did any of them ever had a
breakup plan? Were they ever prepared for something like this? Did they think
it would last forever?

Have
y’all noticed that the relationships which last these days are the ones which
started almost a decade ago, or 8-7-5 years ago before the massive hype and
invent of different social media? It’s like the more the world and technology
evolves the harder it is to find true love anyway everyone needs to have a
breakup plan.

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Credit: Sonicgogirl - DevianArt

I
am not trying to discourage anyone from loving or being steadfast in their
relationships but the way things are now, y’all need to have a breakup plan, y’all
need to realize that happily ever after might not be for everyone, you might
date him for just six months and he takes you to the alter, you might date him
for 15 years and one day you wake up and he’s gone, PUFF! Married to another
lady vice versa.

What
should a breakup plan look like, it’s simple

1.Never be too
dependent on a partner

2.Always have
it in mind not all relationships lead to marriage

3.Before you
take him/her to mama, be sure he/she is the one

4.Don’t live
together until you’re married

5.Getting pregnant
won’t make him stay or love you any harder

6.What are you
future plans? Do they involve him or her?

7.When was the
last time you were happy together?

These
are perfect breakup plans, you take plans like these into every relationship,
you add, subtract, multiply and divide and see if you’re relationship has
gotten to the place where you begin to ask yourself these questions.

If
you’re too dependent on a partner, your breakup plan will backfire

You
have already started making wedding plans even when he/she doesn’t seem ready;
your breakup plan is failing already.

How
many potential fiancé/fiancée do you want to take home to mama?

Living
together is one sure way to finish the sweetness before marriage.

Do
you see him/her in your future, if no time to review your breakup plans

When
was the last time he/she made you soulfully happy?

These
might seem like guides to a happy/not so happy relationship but they are
breakup guide, excuses to leave before it gets worse, always have it in mind
that while you’re there making future plans, your partner might be dusting out
his/her breakup manual.