Yeah, because she's gotten it so well at home thus far, in spite of your superhuman efforts.

Have to tell you, hardest thing we ever did, but best thing we ever did for thank you was *not* let him come home at 18 when he lost funding for TLP. The Real World promoted more change in him than 14 years of therapy and 9 years of placements. He is still a delight 99.9% of the time, after 1-1/2 years back under our roof. Not saying he's necessarily got his act together, but... baby steps.