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I think it has come to this. I just stopped seeing yet another woman my age (40s) because her interests were limited to real estate, cooking, plants and money. She didn't drink and lacked a fun youthful romantic side. But she was very typical of the woman I've dated who were about my age: no spark, judgemental, insecure.

In my heart I yearn for younger (25-35?) girls with energy, not jaded, still cute, more likely to want to do active stuff like travel, hiking, and step out at night. I fear this is the only type of gal I'll be motivated to keep in my life for the duration. I could give her a comfortable, fun, but childless life (lots of pets instead).

So I think I'm basically screwed, I guess I waited too long.

But there are genres/fetishes for everything right? Can someone suggest how an older guy can find younger women who might be looking for a Sugar Daddy type? Overseas dating sites? No thanks...

I apologize in advance if this can be filed in the "well duh" "Mr Shallow" "grow up!" or "gender bashing" bucket. It is what it is...

I think it has come to this. I just stopped seeing yet another woman my age (40s) because her interests were limited to real estate, cooking, plants and money. She didn't drink and lacked a fun youthful romantic side. But she was very typical of the woman I've dated who were about my age: no spark, judgemental, insecure.

In my heart I yearn for younger (25-35?) girls with energy, not jaded, still cute, more likely to want to do active stuff like travel, hiking, and step out at night. I fear this is the only type of gal I'll be motivated to keep in my life for the duration. I could give her a comfortable, fun, but childless life (lots of pets instead).

So I think I'm basically screwed, I guess I waited too long.

But there are genres/fetishes for everything right? Can someone suggest how an older guy can find younger women who might be looking for a Sugar Daddy type? Overseas dating sites? No thanks...

I apologize in advance if this can be filed in the "well duh" "Mr Shallow" "grow up!" or "gender bashing" bucket. It is what it is...

There are plenty of 40ish gals that fit that bill so let's cut to the chase, you want someone younger and hotter to bang. Hey, I'm 40 and if I were your buddy I'd be saying the same thing to you in real life. You have to be honest with yourself about what you want and honest about that in your relationship. Then it's fair to everyone involved.

Go google seeking arrangement and see if that's something that will work for you. I know we've had a poster or two around here that has used that site.

I think it has come to this. I just stopped seeing yet another woman my age (40s) because her interests were limited to real estate, cooking, plants and money. She didn't drink and lacked a fun youthful romantic side. But she was very typical of the woman I've dated who were about my age: no spark, judgemental, insecure.

In my heart I yearn for younger (25-35?) girls with energy, not jaded, still cute, more likely to want to do active stuff like travel, hiking, and step out at night. I fear this is the only type of gal I'll be motivated to keep in my life for the duration. I could give her a comfortable, fun, but childless life (lots of pets instead).

So I think I'm basically screwed, I guess I waited too long.

But there are genres/fetishes for everything right? Can someone suggest how an older guy can find younger women who might be looking for a Sugar Daddy type? Overseas dating sites? No thanks...

I apologize in advance if this can be filed in the "well duh" "Mr Shallow" "grow up!" or "gender bashing" bucket. It is what it is...

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