1. "I get turned on by listening to my girlfriend tell me about a dirty sexual experience she had with someone else and how good she is at pleasing other people." —Balthazar, 32, Madison, Wis.__2. "My fantasy is to have a typical evening—__dinner and a movie—then head to a dive bar and get it on in the ladies' room." —Peter, 42, New York

3. "I want her to use a riding crop on my back and make a pattern with the strikes." —David, 29, Asheville, N.C.

4. "I've always wanted to masturbate while she gives me a countdown for when she wants to see me finish." —William, 24, New Haven, Conn.