But does all of this matter when the boys who you grew up with—who “knew you when”—give you the electronic cold shoulder on your birthday? We’re speaking, naturally, of Lance Bass, JC Chasez, Chris Kirkpatrick, and Joey Fatone, his former NSYNC bandmates. As of the time this article was published, none of them has tweeted at JT. No, not even Lance.

In their defense, Chris, Lance, and JC haven’t tweeted today. JC hasn’t tweeted since his own birthday last August. Joey, however, might have some ‘splaning to do. Peep his most recent tweet: