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Love Life vs Career?

So my CO says "You still want that shot at FAST Co(Fleet Anti Terrorism Team)?" It would open so many doors for me after I leave the Corp. I've been waiting for this for quite sometime now but, recently I've been dating this girl I met off base and we've been getting along so well and it's like.. Eh, the right girl for me. It's hard too explain. I'm not 100% sure she is the one but I'm getting to that point. Things are getting a little serious between us and she's talking about moving in, and making commitments.

So it seems I'm in a bit predicament, would you choose your career and future career or the girl?

Re: Love Life vs Career?

It would all depend on how I felt for that person. If I felt that the person I was dating was marriage material, it's possible I would give up the job. After all, there are other things you can do in life.

All in all, it comes down to you. Only you can choose which path is the right one your life because you know yourself and how you feel better than anyone else.

Re: Love Life vs Career?

I actually agree with BluA.

If she's willing to make a commitment, then you might still have a chance with her, even after you transfer. You don't have to choose just one. There are other means of communication if you can't drag her along.

Re: Love Life vs Career?

this thread reminds me of an episode of diamond day dreams where this guy gave up his wife and kid to fallow his dream of playing the saxophone for some reason. he gave up everything he loved to fallow a dream he didn't know he would ever get. now what kind of a person would chose a chase to do something they wanted even if it means saying goodbye to a wife and kid