Can rage cause a crack in one’s floor? Yes. Yes it can.

Warning: this post has nothing to do with poetry and everything to do with real life.

Yesterday my son and I went to the Department of Motor Vehicles (DMV) (aka: the seventh circle of hell) to get my son a learner’s permit (driving). It took two hours to get there because of construction traffic. Then we waited in line for two and a half hours. A person who smelled like smoked salami sat next to me for most of this time. When we finally got to the counter, Jeremy easily passed the test, BUT:

They said his birth certificate isn’t valid, even though I used it to get him an official state photo id last year with it. Even though he got a passport with it years ago. Even though I registered him for school with it. Even though it has a raised seal and all the pertinent information and was issued to me by the state of NJ.

Naturally, I argued. Demanded to see a supervisor. Three DMV workers insisted the certificate was wrong. Fine.

NJ (his birth state) requires a valid state photo id (or driver’s license) to get a valid birth certificate. Theoretically, my son could get his valid birth certificate with his existing photo id (obtained with the non-valid birth certificate), but he can’t get a driver’s permit.

*bangs head on wall*

To get a valid birth certificate online, one must upload identity documents. The system won’t upload even though I already paid. The system has no phone number so I can call a human. I sent complaint via email. No answer.

To get a valid birth certificate via writing, it will take 10 WEEKS. Yes, weeks.

*bangs head on wall harder*

We have only one option left: drive to Trenton, NJ to get it in person. I know that probably won’t go well. We’ll hit more construction. When we get there they will insist that I, his mother, present a valid birth certificate as proof of identity. That certificate will be invalid (I’d bet money on this).

We have 30 days before he has to retake the learner’s permit test. And before you ask the obvious, I already did: we can’t use his passport because it’s too old.

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I didn't mean to laugh at this post, but I did. Last year, when we moved back to PA, we went through the same thing with Anthony's birth certificate — he was born in Brooklyn, New York. He got a passport, no problem, but getting a driver's license was a nightmare. The DMV didn't believe his birth certificate was real. However, unlike what you are going through, our DMV caved in and we got our PA licenses.Good Luck!