Keeping Her Interested in You in Order to Build a Long-Term Relationship

bySingles Dating RevieweronNovember 29, 2012

If you’ve been fortunate enough to meet a woman online and get beyond a first date with her, pat yourself on the back. Most guys fail to get this far. So at least you can say you’re better than most. But now it’s time to focus on building the relationship. Hopefully you’re thinking long-term with your girl. Assuming you are, I have some excellent advice to help you keep her interested in you after the early romance. Follow these steps and she’ll keep coming back for more. And, who knows, maybe she’ll stick around beyond “I do”…

Keep her satisfied in the bedroom

Relationships cannot exist without a healthy sexual connection. Don’t give her some good sex early on just to impress her. Give her continuous mind-blowing sexual experiences. Sex should become a regular part of your life. But it shouldn’t just be a quickie. Foreplay is a big part of truly pleasing a woman. Oh, and make sure you cuddle with her afterwards. Real men cuddle.

Sexual experiences

Find time for her, but give her plenty of space

Nothing kills a relationship more than spending too much time together. You’re not married yet, so there’s no reason to spend every waking hour together. However, you do need to find plenty of time for her. If you’re always going out with your friends and leaving her by herself, the relationship won’t last. Find time for a weekly date night and invite her to come hangout with you and your friends every once in a while. And, again, make sure you’re finding time for sex!

Finding time for sex!

Don’t ever neglect her

If she’s going through a stressful situation, be there for her. Be willing to stop what you’re doing to come to her side. Early on in a relationship, it’s not your job to listen to her let out her frustrations. As time goes on, it becomes your job to be her ears. Both people in a relationship should be willing to help each other out during tough times.

Take a random road trip with her

The best way to keep a relationship going is to do random activities together. Be spontaneous. Women love that. Pick a weekend and take her for a drive to some random city where you can both have a good time. Don’t get into a routine of doing the same things over and over again. That will kill the relationship because she’ll get bored of you. Instead, be spontaneous and willing to take completely random road trips or try new things.

Become friends with her friends and family

It’s very important to be cool with her friends and family. She cares about what her friends and family think of you. If you don’t get along with them, they’ll constantly be in her ear to get rid of you. Eventually, she probably will. You might not enjoy being around them, but at least be friendly to them.