Name: unknwn
I m a 20 yr old girl nd have been married for 2 yrs.recently my husband's interest in sex has deteriorated.previously we used to do it twice daily.even after 4-5 days he doesnt show inclination towards doing it.now i have to approach him for it.plz help!!!

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2006-12-29

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Name: VipinSubject: You are not the only one.

It is very difficult to manage twice daily for long. Soon you get tired and bored of it.Its normal. Try pranayam, give him a lot of bananas and Non veg food. Also, give him Ashwaganda and Makardhwaj medicines. And NEVER fight with him.
tell me when you succeed.
wishing you a happy sex life.

2006-10-29

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Name: AvinashSubject: Disscuss with your husbands

Dear ladies,
Disscuss the matter with your husbands first, may be the reason that they are expecting your relationships with family members in husbands family, do you have good relations with mother in law or you always quarrel with them may be the relation of family memebres mentally affects men sexual life.

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2006-04-10

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Name: leenaSubject: try to look good always!!!!

As the rule of nature...men are always attracted towards outer beauty(though they always say.beauty doesnt matter...but heart does..crapppppp!!!!...lol) so try to always look good and attractive...give urself a new look..wear the kindof clothes as ur husband likes...in short ..just be the way ur husband wanted to see u !!!i am sure this is gonna work out!!cheers

2005-12-21

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Name: sathyakumar1@yahoo.co.inSubject: dont worry

its just a question of time when ur hubby will get back his original style....well be sexy and ensure u dont loose interest......i have been married for 6 years and i enjoy envery time i have sex with my wife.i try new positions....tips.mail me

2005-09-19

#5

Name: poojaSubject: me too

Well u should be happy that atleast you used to have it twice before.
As for me we never have had twice before...one time itself is a big deal from my husband.
Even after marriage I mastrubate to satisfy myself(Never have told him that).....which I thought would never happen as I hear men want sex all the time.Here its the other way around.....
Well I guess thats life...we are perfect in every other way...So I should just love him as he is & live with it......
Its just that I get upset & feel I am not attractive enough or something is wrong with me.....
I am thinking of going to India & asking a ayurveda doc to give my hubby something to increase his drive & for me to decrease.
Till we have kids I will let my drive be as it is...may be after that.

2006-10-09

#6

Name: priyaSubject: sailing in the same boat

the 20 year old girl,pooja and myself are sailing in the same boat.my husband is 10 years older than i,that probably cud b the reason 4 me having a much higher sex drive than him..i dont masturbate though.u guys r still better...i had sex only once a week.i am in a love marriage,staying alone. pooja, i also feel,though i am sorry to say,,ayurveda may or may not work and in case it does,,,dont forget to let me know....am in mumbai....ok bye

2005-09-17

#7

Name: feathertouchSubject: JUST CHILL

hay miss talk with ur husband , why he is not getting interested in having sex with u ... Madam u know what u r only 20 every girl has it own beautiful physic .. were silk transparent nighty with top open so that ur husband can see ur pop up breast donot were bra or panty just tease him after few days u will b finding that he will be having the same type of sexual desire that u want from ur husband but 1 st try to read his mind , talk with him and show him that u care for him and u love him too much .....BEST OF LUCK

2005-05-17

#8

Name: LauraM.Subject: discuss

You need to sit down and talk to your husband. Ask him why he has lost interest, It may be stress. Remember, just because he doesn't have sex with you all the time, doesn't mean he doesn't love you. Communication is absolutely essential.

2005-05-29

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Name: unknwnSubject: thnx

thnx for yr reply,i think tht suggestion was worth trying out.

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