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Few mainstream therapists would contemplate trying to persuade a gay man or lesbian to "grow up, get real, and stop being gay." But most insist that long-term sexual monogamy is "normal," while the curiosity and novelty-seeking inherent in human sexuality are signs of pathology. Thus, couples are led to believe that waning sexual passion in enduring marriages or sexual interest in anyone but their partner portend a failed relationship, when in reality these things often signify nothing more than that we are Homo sapiens...

The Daily Beast spoke to Mad Men creator/executive producer Matthew Weiner about the aftereffects of the Drapers’ divorce, whether Betty is a terrible mother, Don’s S&M fetish, the triumphant return of Joan (Christina Hendricks), and much more.

The relationship between paying for sex and power, that is to say who holds the power in the client-provider interaction, is complicated, as is the question of who has the power when someone is being paid and carefully constructing a scenario where they get slapped. So far I don't see a lot that's revealing about the sex Don's having. He has a highly contrived and controlled fantasy he plays out (bra must be on, woman on top, slapping in the face). It's just like the rest of his life. In this way at least the sex seems to fit with his character.

But after the trial, jurors were more concerned with what wasn’t in Milk Nymphos: Violence. Rape. Bestiality. Kids. “These people were adults and they were willing. No one put a gun to their head,” Crawford said. “Had they brought a child out in pampers, then we would have been like, hell no,” Mordecai added. In opening arguments, the defense emphasized that the only entity forcing anyone to watch porn is the government. “The movies are not—and are not meant to be—distributed to these 14 strangers sitting in a federal courthouse,” defense attorney Paul Cambria said. The films feature “adults putting on a performance…for another adult, who would make that choice [to watch it] if that were his or her cup of tea.”

Celebrate TABU's 4th Annual Fundraiser for the NCSF, an amazing event for a wonderful cause taking place in Catonsville, Maryland on July 23rd. All proceeds from this event including 100% of the visit fees are being directly donated to the National Coalition of Sexual Freedom.

Everyone will have tons of sexy fun and kinkiness in club TABU for a GREAT cause! British Paul will be setting up BDSM demos and we will of course have all the fun that TABU Social Club is so well known for! Come enjoy the infamous TABU live auction featuring:

Trips to Hedo II, 1 year access passes to TABU worth over of $4,500, Redskins tickets and other amazing prizes. TABU is still taking donations so if anyone is still interested PLEASE contact Vicki at This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it..

Remember TABU membership is not required for the NCSF Fundraiser, and the club is open to various different lifestyle groups from the Swingers Lifestyle, Kinky, GLBTQ and BDSM communities. You can prepay your tickets in advance by going to:

Vicki and Rick, owners of TABU commented, “We are so excited about this year’s NCSF Annual Fundraiser at TABU. We're not sure if we are more excited about all the fun, hot, sexy and kinky stuff or just working with British Paul this year. This year’s auction is just going to be the fantastic and we have already received some wonderful donations with 2 Trips to Hedo II and of course we are tossing in several Year Visit passes to TABU. “

Said Board President Leigha Fleming, “TABU has a long history of supporting NCSF and being involved in NCSF. We are extremely grateful for their support.”

Rick and Vicki continued, “We always enjoy helping those that help us. Hope to see everyone for another unforgettable event, where consenting adults in the BDSM, Leather, Fetish, Swing, Polyamory and GLBTQ communities join for one GREAT cause and all Give Back to the NCSF for the night."

TABU is located in Catonsville, Baltimore County, with easy access right off the Baltimore Beltway at 1115 N Rolling Road, Catonsville, MD 21228.

If you join NCSF as a new or renewing member at the TABU on 7/23, your membership monies will be matched by an anonymous donor!

...Is aggressively going after Buttman going to make one of the few profitable industries left in America go away? Of course not. Even a nation founded by Puritans can never tamp down its indomitable desire to get off. But it will be interesting to see what the Obama administration does once these carryover cases from the Bush era are wrapped up. Last year, the Justice Department's move of a porn trial from Montana to New Jersey suggested a quiet push toward more free speech-friendly venues.