We didn't find out lol! we hardly even saw the baby!! We managed to get her to write it down in a card for us though! Was a bit upset after the scan as once again I didn't get to see my baby properly! She wouldn't let us see the screen and then at the end she went...yeah everything looks ok...then showed us the screen and went... thats the head, 2 arms, 2 legs and a heartbeat, if you go and wait in the waiting room I'll be with you in a minute...so as she was ushering us out of the door we where like... erm can we have a photo please and she said oh yeah go in the waiting room and I'll bring one out!! so while we where waiting I got J to go back and see if she saw the sex and she said she did so he was like can you write it down for us... so she took the card and wrote it in the room while we waited.

We are going to look into maybe having a private scan if we can find one really really cheap... as in almost free lol can't afford one really though!

My photo is a bit rubbish too lol I can just about make it out lol

but baby is healthy which is all that matters

Kept looking at the clock saying to J... ooo Abby will be going for hers soon, he thinks Abby is having a boy and i am undecided lol

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Fri Dec 28, 2007 1:12 pm

beccaboots

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cool you now goona wait for the birth to find out. ? x

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Fri Dec 28, 2007 1:14 pm

SamBuchanan

Joined: Mon Jul 31, 2006 8:09 pmPosts: 0Location: Rainy Nottingham

Ah hun im osrry you had a nasty sonographer. Some of them dont realise what a special time the scans are.
I looked into private scan when i was pregant with Benjamin i think the cheapest we found was for like £60-70. I guess it depends on your area

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Fri Dec 28, 2007 1:15 pm

PinkiPops

Joined: Fri Sep 07, 2007 4:34 pmPosts: 0Location: Lancashire

not sure... at least this way we can find out if we definitely want to at some point without the pressure of now or never hanging over us!

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Fri Dec 28, 2007 1:16 pm

starry1982

Joined: Sat Sep 22, 2007 1:50 pmPosts: 0

Sorry you didn't get to see your LO for long hun, but at least all is well and LO is healthy.
We're looking into having a private scan with this LO, at least you would be able to get to see your LO for longer than you just have...
xx

Fri Dec 28, 2007 1:21 pm

PinkiPops

Joined: Fri Sep 07, 2007 4:34 pmPosts: 0Location: Lancashire

aww thank you ladies!

I know its not pleasure scan so to speak and its for medical reasons but I would of thought that she would of at least let us look at the baby instead of just pointing to the still image and naming the parts like a list before kicking us out

A couple of my scans were like that hun - at the first one I had to ask the sonographer if I could see the screen, and she just grunted when I said 'Sorry, I just want to see my baby as the last time I had one of these I'd lost the baby' At least baba is well and healthy hunni xx

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Fri Dec 28, 2007 1:47 pm

Liyah123

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Stupid Women!!(sonographer)

Glad you didnt find out tho hun

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its sealed in an envelope now... I keep asking J if he wants to open it and see but he has changed his mind again... for the millionth time in 24 hours

so glad I made him go back and ask though as at least we have the chance now!

I have done my scan pic...you know where if anyone has the desire to see a fuzzy blur lol

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Fri Dec 28, 2007 2:55 pm

sugarhunnyuk

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ahh i see now i thought she wrote it down but didnt give it to u lol!

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Fri Dec 28, 2007 2:56 pm

frankie1

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if i had my mw to write it down for me i would have to have had a peek

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Fri Dec 28, 2007 3:02 pm

Moon and stars

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Sorry it didnt go as planned, but as long as baby is safe and healthy

How long do you think it will be till you want to open the envelope

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Fri Dec 28, 2007 3:05 pm

PinkiPops

Joined: Fri Sep 07, 2007 4:34 pmPosts: 0Location: Lancashire

I am not sure lol J thinks I am the one who will open it... i was the one who didn't want to find out lol he was the one who kept changing his mind and saying yeah he did lol... last night he said he definitely wanted to find out day even if it meant just him knowing... then he changed his mind again and I just asked him and he said nope he doesn't want to know now!! I swear sometimes I could throttle him lol

we got a nice card... it has a little picture of Eeyore on the front and it just says "Hello" on the front and inside he is standing on his head saying "Nice to meet you" so I thought that was a very appropriate card