Break Up

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Break-up is not easy to accept. It hurts! | Source

Break Up

“I love you. I will never make you cry.You're my present and my future".These are few of the sweetest promises for people who are in a relationship but the most painful words for people who are on the opposite status. People suffering from heartaches perceive these vows and anything else about love are curse, joke and lies. At this point of our lives, we find Nazareth’s song “Love Hurts” as sympathizing. Even though this is grief-stricken, we find relief as we sing these lines “I know it isn’t true. Love is just a lie made to make you blue. Love hurts. Love hurts."

Sing your heartache

Darkness is the light for broken-hearted. | Source

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Break Up Blues

Indeed, love is painful especially if we have given everything and expected future with them. All the aspects of our lives are affected. We become easily irritated. Our pick of colors changes from bright to dark. Our perspective about make-up and grooming are waste of time.

Certainly, our lives become edgy and gloomy. Some of us think that it’s the end the world and living alone has no sense. Some of us think of terrible ways to skip this misery. Alcohol, cigarettes and other vices are worst solutions for some people.But the most dreadful thing they do is to end their lives. These are awful and absurd remedies.These are not the right and just solutions.

Mirror shows how breaking-up greatly affect us. | Source

Cure the Heartache

Break up blues for a long period of time is tiring and dangerous. So we have to wake up from our own spell and check ourselves in front of the mirror. How do we look like? Are we older than our age? Do we look like we just lost a game? Off course, we do not want to appear older than our grandparents. And most importantly, we do not want to be defeated by the bitterness of breaking up.

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Breaking Up Advantages and Disadvantages

Aspects

Advantages

Disadvantages

Example: Time

This table weighs the advantages and disadvantages of breaking-up.
This will also help you to embrace and enjoy your single status.

Chatting with long time friend helps you release stress and cope up with your relationship status. | Source

It's his loss not yours. Making yourself beautiful declares that you're the winner. | Source

Break Up Remedies

Indeed, loving comes along with pain. There is no perfect relationship in the first place. Relationships have depths to make the bond stronger or weaker until its finally over.

Truly, acceptance of breaking up is easy to tell but hard to do. Below are some tips to remedy our break-up blues and embrace the happiness of being single. After all, loving starts from oneself. Love yourself first!

1. Get a pen and a paper. Write and draw all your heartaches. You can also list down the advantages of being single.

2. Smash, spank and even punch a pillow to manage your anger. In this manner you will not be charged of physical injuries.

3. Meet your friends for chatting and strolling.

4. Do some exercise.

5. Eat healthy diet.

6. Visit a salon for self-pampering and make over.

7. Choose light or colorful dress. Colors reflect one's feeling.

8. Go for a solo trip. Just be safe.

9. Move on, Love yourself and be happy!

Recovering from this heart dilemma is better far from relief but a euphoric feeling of victory. Hence, we do not have to detain ourselves in our past. We have to remember that future is impossible to envision unless we moved on from our history. Let us enjoy and love ourselves!

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Let's talk about your break-up blues. How did you handle it?

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Oscar Jones

3 years agofrom Monroeville, Alabama

LoV deeply love stronG and TRue. never give up. its coming back to you!

Scott S Bateman

3 years ago

Breaking up is painful. A betrayal that causes the breakup is even worse. They say time heals all wounds, but I don't think so when betrayal is involved. It will hurt less over time, but it never seems to go away.

AUTHOR

Pinky de Garcia

4 years ago

Dear ladyguitarpicker,

Thanks for the visit and comment.

Enjoy your day.

Dear Kenneth,

Happy holidays!

Sweetpikez

Kenneth Avery

4 years agofrom Hamilton, Alabama

sweetpikez and ladyguitarpicker,

You both have the BEST Thanksgiving and Christmas . . . EVER!

stella vadakin

4 years agofrom 3460NW 50 St Bell, Fl32619

Hi, Some really good tips. Have a good Thanksgiving.

AUTHOR

Pinky de Garcia

4 years ago

Dear Kenneth,

Thanks and enjoy the holidays!

Kenneth Avery

4 years agofrom Hamilton, Alabama

Hi, sweetpikez,

You are welcome, but I am the blessed one by your kind words and wishes.

You have a future on HP and with your gift of writing, you should go far.

Happy Thanksgiving and Merry Christmas to you and yours.

AUTHOR

Pinky de Garcia

4 years ago

Dear savvydating,

Thanks for your visit. You have a substantial insight about this.I agree with all your thoughts.

Thanks for sharing and have a good day.

Yves

4 years ago

Wise words. Something interesting: Men take longer to get over break-ups than women. This is because men tend to isolate themselves and not talk about their feelings. On the other hand, women usually speak openly about their feelings with their close friends. My point is that you are correct in saying that it is helpful to meet with friends. In fact, I would say it is imperative that we talk things out with our closest friends. On the other hand, there is something to be said for mourning the relationship for a time. Sometimes being alone to have a good cry isn't such a bad thing, as long as we pick ourselves up the next day and go through the little, tiny steps that will ultimately bring us back to a place of joy and healing.

AUTHOR

Pinky de Garcia

4 years ago

Dear Kenneth,

No, I'm not kidding with those words. You've been here longer than I am. So I think you would be a good model hubber here.

Happy holidays,

Sweetpikez

Kenneth Avery

4 years agofrom Hamilton, Alabama

sweetpikez,

I DID enjoy your piece. And as for great and experienced, are you kidding me? I am probably the most-underrated and obscure hubber on here, but thank you for the sweet words.

I do invite you to follow me so I can get some tips from you on how to do a better hub.

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