My Ex is Stalking Me. Sort Of...

So yesterday I get an email: Jennifer X has added you as a friend on Facebook. Click here to confirm. Jennifer X just happens to be my Ex. The one Blossoms is the absolute most jealous of. What do you do when the Big Ex From the Past suddenly appears in your in-box?

I have no feelings for Jennifer X. We dated about a decade ago. She wanted to get married, I didn't. I was in my early 20's and in no condition for that kind of thing. Plus, though I didn't know it yet, I was waiting for Blossoms. But I've always wondered about her. And I've wanted to reach out and see how she was doing. But Blossoms has always been really weird about her. Since she was my major MAJOR ex. My question is this: do I reject the friend request? Do I talk to Blossoms about it first? Do I accept and just figure it'll work itself out?

I'm also wondering how many exes you guys have as Facebook (or real!) friends. And do you tell your current boyfriend about all your correspondence with them? What do you think the ex rule on Facebook should be?