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What is "hot"? I have to ask because I am confused. I have never posted a picture of myself here, but I am all the time hearing how "hot" I am by the gents and ladies that PM me. I suppose I should be flattered, but I'm just perlexed.

I even asked a guy how he could think I am "hot" when he has never seem a picture of me. He said he could tell by my writing. Now, I found that odd, as I make it a point to almost never use words to describe myself physically in any of my anecdotes, in fact, I don't even do that with the characters in the stories I post here.

I always thought "hot" meant, good looking, but I guess I was wrong. What does "hot" mean to you?

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Sex appeal can be either visual, and/or mental.
Whoever coined the phrase "Your mind is your most powerful sex organ" wasn't joking; a sexually like minded, or person who is passionate about and enjoys sex freely can be incredibly "hot" (sexually appealing) without involving their appearance. :brow

I would agree with you. To me 'hot' would describe someones looks
But, if someone is described as 'sexy' this can ecompass many things, looks, attitude etc and so i guess this is the context that they are using. I would imagine they are saying you have the kind of attitude etc that they would associate with someone that is 'hot'. :shrug
Is still a compliment however they mean it!

Hot is funny. A man with a great sense of humor and a quick wit is hot, regardless of his physical attributes. That is what I like in a poster.
On our forums the funniest guys are my favorites. My other half has a quick wit and that is the first thing that stole my heart. He just happens to look good too.

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I think "HOT" indicates one's ability to be in total touch with their own sexuality. Being good looking is definitely a 'plus', but is not always necessary, if one's confidence in their own body and self-image is strong. A person's mental strength, I believe, makes them seriously intoxicating.... hence, HOT!

CowboyLover - you are fucking HOT! Are you allowed to say FUCK on this forum! :lol

Sex appeal can be either visual, and/or mental.
Whoever coined the phrase "Your mind is your most powerful sex organ" wasn't joking; a sexually like minded, or person who is passionate about and enjoys sex freely can be incredibly "hot" (sexually appealing) without involving their appearance. :brow

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I think NaughtyKnickers hit it right on the money. Your mind is your most powerful sex organ! Man!!! I must have one hell of a huge Mind!! LOL

Sex appeal can be either visual, and/or mental.
Whoever coined the phrase "Your mind is your most powerful sex organ" wasn't joking; a sexually like minded, or person who is passionate about and enjoys sex freely can be incredibly "hot" (sexually appealing) without involving their appearance. :brow

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Or for that matter it doesn't even have to involve you in
person. You can convey the feeling of being hot just by the way you write.
And I would assume thats what they are talking about. Not being a teen
I rarely use the term hot, Other than describe your sexuality.

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For a macho man with brains in their pants, a barbie type woman with plastic boobs and zero personality may be hot......

To me "hot" is a guy with magnetism, a sharp wit and a way with words.....an intellectual....

cant stand thickos.....or male chauvenists or guys that just think about fucking all the time.....its gotta be a LOT more than that...he has to be clever...very clever and telepathic.....now thats really hot..!!!

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"if i was to meet you woman, I would just sit opposite for you for at least half an hour...just staring at you....to see what you are about....and to see if you understand the meaning behind my eyes"...

Ooooohhh yeah......now doesnt that make a difference from.....okay love get yer kit off....