I can't see myself having to be like honey I'm getting xyz so look out for that purchase or vice versa

my husband isn't bad with money but I just can't see us having to let each other know when we make certain purchases

we poll some money for other reasons, but after we save and pay our bills that money right there is mine to do what I want with it

dare you to check me or question me

I agree with all of this when I think about the idea of having a joint account WITHOUT any separate ones.

Like.. if we're doing fine financially and I decide i want to spend $600 on a wig.. I rather feel like I spent/wasted my own money on this rather than thinking I took our money. I dont plan on being secretive about anything.. but just the feeling..idk

Husband and someone you dating is way different and I have my thoughts on joint accounts and whatnot. It just seems to make the breakup messy when you fighting over couches , a toaster oven and a dog. I can't!

OP in the back of your mind you already THINK his answer is NO or you would have asked, he got the hints he just aint there with you in whatever the struggle is. Ask two people for half of whatever you need, pay them back in a timely manner and dump him.

I hate the word gold digger, some women just have certain expectations same as men .

mumbles all of this glamorous costs, I can't fathom being worried about my life situations and seriously dating, in a relationship, kicking on the reg. If my life is that code 10 I dont have time to date anyway. I need to get my life in order and if you aint part of the solution then .... I gots to go

Some is the keyword. I've learned some women don't expect anything from their man other than getting laid here and there.

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