OP is not seeing the whole picture, but neither are the people here who are just insulting him simply because he doesn't share their goals.

"Why do you do all this stuff? Why do you train to hit on strangers and have sex with them? Is this even necessary?"

It's necessary if one of your goals in life is consistent social success in any situation no matter what. I've said this before, I'll say it again; I'm not even into pick-up to get girls necessarily. I just want to improve my social skills. Is it necessary? Depends on your goals. If your goal is to sit at home and read or write books or something else that doesn't require social skills, then sure, this pick up stuff is ABSOLUTELY a waste of time for you. And if your goals in life DO require that you have social skills, then this stuff will help you immensely. Or, in the case of most people here, if one of your goals in life is to put your penis in as many women as you can, then, again, it's very necessary.

Don't judge people's goals. Values are subjective. So everyone has different expectations out of life. While it's absolutely idiotic and ignorant to call someone a "loser" just because they don't want to bang chicks all the time, it's also equally stupid to call someone a "manwhore" for having different goals than you.

It's simply people training to get better so they can squeeze more enjoyment and fulfillment out of life. It's self-development. And it's fun.

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The most profound lessons I found in my journey so far:
-More often than not, great men are not born, they are built.
-There are two ways to get good at becoming attractive to women: You either become a good enough liar, or you become a good enough man.-Value x Escalation = Sex. If you want more sex, simply increase your value and/or your escalations (escalate more girls, or escalate stronger)
-Self-improvement is what increases your value. Self-acceptance is what makes it easier for you to escalate.

Look at you. You're just some average insecure american guys who feel they need to insult people to feel themselves better, more smart and "masculine". You even don't feel being a man anymore as soon as you don't have sex. And you are too stupid to even listen to what I am saying, the only thing you have in mind is "YOU FAGGOT. ME A MAN. YOU FAGGOT. ME A SUPERMAN."

you are so clueless it is mind baffling.

why would you come to a forum and insult the very material that the forum is based upon? Don't you have anything better to do? no one cares if you don't like what RSD represents. just leave.

there are a large portion of people here who are out to straight up DOMINATE life. this is one resource of many that can help that be achieved. you don't seem very happy with the world. go make some friends.

all you have done is made it clear that you have some serious prejudice against americans.

It's sad that now and days people can't even talk to strangers. We go on trains airplanes etc. and tune ourselves out from the people surrounding us. It's like others are invisible and people are simply living in a little bubble. You ask why do this? Why hit on strangers? It's not only hitting on them with the intention of making a girl a one night objective. It’s about the experiences and these "experiences" give us the ability to grow and learn as an individual.
It sounds to me that you are somewhat introverted which isn’t a bad thing. But this can lead you to be more concerned exploring you're own thoughts and feelings. I think it’s just a way that you would like to live your life.

It sounds to me that you are simply not ready to have a girl in your life just yet. And until you get the feeling that this absolutely needs to change, you're not going to change your feelings and thoughts at all. But im sure the day will come.

Until you actually decide that this that hooking up with girls and meeting new people in general is something for you. Then can you begin to make claims that this is all useless talk. Because we all know we won’t meet girls on this website, it is for those who actually have the courage and the power to take actions who are talking about the different strategies of approaching women and getting to know them. Rather than looking and day dreaming about talking to another human being,

all you have done is made it clear that you have some serious prejudice against americans.

I found that part particularly entertaining.

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out of his ~5 replies 2 are directed at americans when he has no idea the nationality of the poster. he is assuming and on top of assuming the replies are coming from americans he lumps all the posters together as average insecure americans...what does either have to do with posting on RSD? he mentions americans when this thread is not about americans at all. hence revealing a prejudice.

justgowithit, how can you be and why are you so judgemental about those girls? What do you know about my goals to judge them being "lame"? Mind your own business.

S.Plissken, really on point. Thanks. I'd like to add that a lot of people here think that they are not "group thinking", or that they don't do what society tells them to do. I believe this is because of what is taught by RSD, especially in Blueprint. But when you see how sexuality is emphasized in our society (through advertisment, social pressure, being a "virgin" is a shame, and look at those damn student parties!) I guess you should think a little bit more about your choices in life. But I am absolutely not denying the usefulness of practicing social skills like you described, I totally agree.

dr manhattan, I had no prejudice about americans. But after spending some time on the internet reading what americans write gives me a little bit more insight. They leave rude or misogynic comments on YouTube, they use nice words like "FAGGOT", and for some reason a lot of those type of guys are also on rsdnation. The jlaix stereotype. Yes, I am making categorisations and I am disappointed, but this is what comes from observing the general atmosphere on this forum. Again, dudes I am talking about don't even care, they think writing a lot, or spelling words correctly is gay. They will disparage you so they can think you are weak and they are strong. They want to DOMINATE, right? They are not humans, they are dominators They have no empathy and no soul, and we should probably simply call them "jerks".

After reading rsdnation for a while, quite a lot of people give the impression of being like those guys:

justgowithit, how can you be and why are you so judgemental about those girls? What do you know about my goals to judge them being "lame"? Mind your own business.

S.Plissken, really on point. Thanks. I'd like to add that a lot of people here think that they are not "group thinking", or that they don't do what society tells them to do. I believe this is because of what is taught by RSD, especially in Blueprint. But when you see how sexuality is emphasized in our society (through advertisment, social pressure, being a "virgin" is a shame, and look at those damn student parties!) I guess you should think a little bit more about your choices in life. But I am absolutely not denying the usefulness of practicing social skills like you described, I totally agree.

dr manhattan, I had no prejudice about americans. But after spending some time on the internet reading what americans write gives me a little bit more insight. They leave rude or misogynic comments on YouTube, they use nice words like "FAGGOT", and for some reason a lot of those type of guys are also on rsdnation. The jlaix stereotype. Yes, I am making categorisations and I am disappointed, but this is what comes from observing the general atmosphere on this forum. Again, dudes I am talking about don't even care, they think writing a lot, or spelling words correctly is gay. They will disparage you so they can think you are weak and they are strong. They want to DOMINATE, right? They are not humans, they are dominators They have no empathy and no soul, and we should probably simply call them "jerks".

After reading rsdnation for a while, quite a lot of people give the impression of being like those guys:

TheOptimist, this is the kind of comment I wanted to read, but I will keep what I think of it for myself.

All I have to say is your internet sample of Americans is a joke and you should take some time to meet some good people before you pull this self-righteous garbage. Every group of civilization on earth has morons and jerks. Yours and mine are no different.

“DOMINATE” life in the context I used it was meant to be interpreted in the sense of success and absolute achievement of one’s goals. I feel sorry for you if you don’t intend to “DOMINATE” life in this regard.

What is wrong with learning how to relate as a man to a woman?
What is wrong with learning how conduct yourself in nightlife environments?
What is wrong with understanding what kind of discipline it will take to reach your goals?
What is wrong with questioning the cultural and societal beliefs that were shoved upon us as adolescents?
What is wrong with achieving everything and anything your heart desires, including women?

You pick one thing out of RSD you don’t like while ignoring all these other factors. You express extreme prejudice, self-righteousness, and inability to tolerate conflicting beliefs. You don't seem like a happy or content person. Stop worrying about how we live our lives and focus on your own, I think you will be pleased with the results.

all you have done is made it clear that you have some serious prejudice against americans.

I found that part particularly entertaining.

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out of his ~5 replies 2 are directed at americans when he has no idea the nationality of the poster. he is assuming and on top of assuming the replies are coming from americans he lumps all the posters together as average insecure americans...what does either have to do with posting on RSD? he mentions americans when this thread is not about americans at all. hence revealing a prejudice.

You pick one thing out of RSD you don’t like while ignoring all these other factors. You express extreme prejudice, self-righteousness, and inability to tolerate conflicting beliefs. You don't seem like a happy or content person. Stop worrying about how we live our lives and focus on your own, I think you will be pleased with the results.

Did you even ACTUALLY READ what I wrote, especially in answer to S.Plissken??? Or am I not expressing myself clearly enough? Don't make me say what I didn't, and I agree on a lot of points you listed, I am not saying it is wrong. Please stop distorting my sayings just to make an argument!

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