I analyze until I'm paralyzed, advice?

I'm a planner, always have been. With ever important action I take, I don't go forward until I have backup plans in the event X, Y, or Z happens. Turns out this doesn't work so well when trying to get close to someone. I spend so much time arguing with myself over the best way to maximize attraction and minimize humiliation that eventually I just get emotionally fried and end up doing nothing. Any advice on how to become less analytical? Thanks.

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In most cases I do the exact same...I tend to maximize the positive outcome for everything I do. in some situations this can be quite good, but not in the dating/flirting world. I learned, that to maximize my chances with women I have to think a lot less and just go with whatever feels right at the moment... I know it sounds hard, and I haven't quite mastered this myself, but it's a good starting tip