This is the first time ever that I am forced to come up with a decent media noche menu for the family, since last year and all the years before that, my mom was tasked to do it. Now that I have my own family, I find that dealing with the responsibilities this time of the year is not easy. I mean, I don't even know how to cook extra special food for the holidays, for chrissake. We survived the Christmas because the relatives were here and they mercifully saved me from the horrors of cooking but they already left yesterday. Not that I am sad. I think I'll be cleaning my way until the New Year's eve with all the mess that they made. LOL. *Sigh*

Anyway, so the first order of business would be to make a list of what to include in the menu. My criteria is that I SHOULD know how to cook it reasonably well or it is bought ready-to-eat. Th first criterion pretty much narrows down the choices to like ten recipes. Hee hee. So far, I have:

Spaghetti - Svet's favorite, because of the hotdog, mainly.

Fried chicken - hubby's request. When he sees chicken, he never thinks to cook it any other way. Just jollibee-ish fried chicken.

Hotdogs and mallows on stick - My youngest sister's favorite. She ate like thirty of those last Christmas. It's a wonder why she's still not sick of it.

That's about it at the moment. Nothing fancy, as my mom is in charge of that department so we will be counting on her for that. Of course we'll have lots of round fruits at the table, as it is also tradition, plus lots of bread. Svet'll be dressed in all sorts of polka dots you can imagine, because my mom insists on it (it is for good luck, I suppose). I'm considering queso de bola (small, spherical Edam cheese) since it is also a traditional media noche food, but no one in the family is too fond of cheese so I think it'll be a last choice.

Care to share what's on your media noche menu? Maybe I'll decide to cook something outside my comfort zone for once. I don't know. I hope the mood strikes. But either way, I am ready for all the delicious food that will be served on our tables so I say, bring it on!

I have always wondered how the greeting is translated in other languages. In our country (the Philippines), "Merry Christmas" is Maligayang Pasko. A quick Google search has come up with these translations:

Okay, not exactly baptism of fire. Just plain boring (and rather hasty) baptism. Last December 21, 2008, Svet became a Christian formally. Now I don't know if that's a good thing. Hehe. Anyways, it was over and done with in a jiffy because there were many other parents who decided that their own children should be christened that day. I haven't much to say, as it is a deathly boring morning in the church, but I guess it was worth putting up with. You can perhaps deduce from this post that I am not a religious person. At all. Here are three shots from the event, one of Svet holding the candle and the other two taken after the whirlwind of a ceremony.

I'll be uploading the rest of the pictures at my Friendster account. I fear this blog will be in hiatus until after the first weeks of next year. I still have Christmas, New Year, my dad's and my mom's birthdays to deal with. I'm gonna be swamped with chores and slaving for relatives for the next two weeks. *Sigh* But all the delish food will be worth it. Yum! I'll try my hardest to update this site with the usual useless stuff, I don't wanna lose my few precious followers. Hehe. ☺

When I accessed my BPI account online today, it was out of habit from checking it for the past month, wishing, hoping, praying for my damn money to come. If you have been a fan of my blog (fan. yer.), you would know how much I HATE MY OLD BANK for DENYING that a remittance was made to my account even after all the hard evidence I slapped in their faces. Uh, figuratively speaking.

As I was saying, I checked my account online without expecting anything. Imagine my surprise, shock, astonishment, amazement, astoundment, bewilderment, wonderment (okay. enough adjectives. thank you thesaurus.com.) when I looked at the balance, and BAM! I feasted my eyes on the most lovely sight of all. Right under that Credit column is a captivating five-digit amount that my bank account balance hasn't seen in a month.

Do you expect a thank you from me, BPI? The only thing I am willing to say to you right now is that four-letter word followed by a YOU that mommy told you never to say. Yes, the one starting with an F and ending with a K with the UC in between. Yeah. You got it right. I will never, and I DO MEAN NEVER, ever do business with you again. To Mr. John Kimberly Sarmiento of the BPI Baguio-Malcolm branch, you sir, are a good man. I hope your filthy bank treats you well. Thank you for your honest efforts to track my money for me. I really appreciate that.

As my friend, Caesar says, I should just let it go and charge it to experience. And what a grueling banking experience it has been. I learned a lot from it, but the most important thing I learned is that when you hate a bank, your friends hate that bank too. And I know I have just taken at least five other BPI clients away from them, clients who, like me, value a dependable and trustworthy remittance system that BPI OBVIOUSLY does not have. It's an evilly comforting thought. Is "evilly" a word? Darn.

The initial question here would be, "Is it even possible?" Well, I wouldn't be writing about it here if it wasn't, right? And I would certainly not be the first one to blog about it. Living here in this country and working for U.S., U.K. or any other foreign country-based firm is something I have been doing for the past year, and I thought I'd share some of my experiences so far.

First off, I do not know many people who work from home like me. Okay, I do, but they're not from the Philippines so that makes a huge difference. They seem to have more opportunities there (especially U.S. and U.K.) than here. I often get referred to this and that opportunity only to read from the FAQ that the requirement is that "the individual must be living in the U.S. or Canada", or wherever, just not in the Philippines. So it's kind of frustrating to know that yes, there are a lot of opportunities out there, but only some of them are available to someone from the Philippines like me.

Second, some people envy me for having this type of job. Yes, the pay is way better than what is paid by local jobs, but it has its fair share of disadvantages. I believe I already discussed that earlier but I have to add some things. Being thousands of miles away from the source of income, it's hard to get your money on time, unlike with a regular job. Errm. My mom has a regular job but does not always get her money on time because the LGU she works for has an incredibly corrupt mayor. Hehe. Intermediaries often screw up and my salary is almost always late in coming, so the bills pile up once in a while. Okay. Always pile up. I know I seriously need a crash course on budgeting. Filipinos have yet to find the best way to send money from there to here. May I live to see that day. *Sigh*

Third, and this is what most people here do not understand, sitting in front of the computer is not an easy task. Writing IS NOT an easy task. Working from home IS NOT EASY. People hear about my job and think, she must have it pretty easy. Well, dummies. I DON'T. It takes a lot of thinking, incredible hard work and a lot of cussing to get a decent income off the Internet. Cussing might be easy to do for anyone, but thinking and hard work? I don't think so. Hehe.

Now what's great about it? I've already discussed this as well, I know, but here are additional benefits. Aside from being near my child everyday, the currency which I am paid with, when converted to our own currency amounts to a tidy sum of money. Most foreigners wonder and/or derogate me because I put up with payment as low as $3 a page. They do that without even doing the math, without even knowing that what I am paid for everyday sitting here in front of my computer doing three-four hours of work is more than what most companies here in our country pay the average manager for eight hours of grueling work. More often than not, foreigners do not have a grasp of how different our currency is, how large a money $1 is to us.

If there is one recurring theme in this blog, you would notice that it is my dislike of the remittance services of BPI. Come to think of it, dislike is too cute a word for what I feel for BPI. I hate, abhor, abominate, despise, detest, loathe BPI. Take that damn thesaurus away from me.

I am using a Metrobank savings account right now (courtesy of my mom). If you are doing freelancing work for companies based in the U.S. and have a Metrobank savings account and would like to use it, you might find information in this post this useful. The SWIFT/BIC code for Metrobank is MBTCPHMM.

For those of you who are wondering if Metrobank has correspondent banks or intermediary banks in the U.S., wonder no more. I found the list of such banks in their website, and I took the liberty of posting it here, so whoever Googles the info and lands here may thank me dearly for it. Haha! Anyway, here's the list of Metrobank's correspondent/intermediary banks in the U.S.:

Oh wow. I think I just posted my first ever useful post. Anyway, I hope I can start posting more useful things here for Filipino WAHMs or WAHDs in the future. I am losing ideas for useless posts to write anyway. Tee hee. Comment if you find anything amiss here, or if you want to ask stuff. Just don't ask what the SWIFT/BIC code for BPI is, or what BPI's correspondent/intermediary banks are, if you don't like me inflicting physical pain on you.

A gift for myself came today in the form of a package. Ordered a Dan Brown book from Amazon midway November and arrived at our doorstep today. Was two days late from the estimated date of delivery but what the hell. Amazon support was very polite and apologetic. I wish all support people are like that.

Can't wait to actually have the time to read the whole of it. While I was busy with reading the first few pages and hubby went out to buy stuff for lunch, Svet got down to working too. You know one of the most hated part of being a parent? It's cleaning up after the mess that your kids make. And doing it every day of their early years until they learn to clean up after themselves. Here's the path of Svet's destruction:

With the temperature dropping three degrees since I last checked (which was the other day), I am smacked in the face by the realization that the holidays are just around the corner, and I haven't done anything to prepare myself for the chaos of the season. Okay, I have prepared my stomach for pigging out but other than that, I have not felt the holiday rush that I felt the previous year and the years before that. It is largely attributed to the fact that BPI (my oh-so-incompetent bank. I'd call it my-bank-no-more next year) had the gall to say to me that MY MONEY did not went through them, even after having proven to them that they indeed received money from my employer A MONTH AGO. Money that I was planning to spend for Christmas and New Year. Money that I doubt I will be seeing anytime soon, because BPI is still "investigating" my claim. I love that word, investigating. So convenient.

Now what fresh hell is that.

So, in order to force myself to feel the spirit of Christmas,I decided to change my desktop wallpaper. So this is what it's all about? A goddamn desktop wallpaper?, you say to yourself. Well, yeah. A lot of you were complaining about my lack of posts, so this ups the number. You didn't say meaningful posts, did you? No, I don't think you didn't. Anyways, here's a screen shot, I hope it gets you in the holiday mood, too.

Oh, I know you like it. You can download the wallpaper here, if you want the same glowy feeling that it gives me every time I look at my desktop. I know. How kind of me to share. Be thankful I just found it on the web while looking for a wallpaper to replace my old one. If I made it myself, I would've charged each and every one of you who dares to use it. LOL. So enjoy. And include in your daily prayers that I do not learn how to make such gorgeous wallpapers, so you can all get them for free. Hee hee.

Somebody please, please clobber me with anything hard you have within your reach right now. I deserve it, after being so stupidly unaware that Criminal Minds (the TV Series, and if have not heard of it, let me bludgeon you as well) is a greeaaat watch, worth every second of salivating after the boy genius Dr. Reid (played by Matthew Gray Gubler) and Morgan (played by Shemar Moore).

Reid's character is so sexy because of his brilliant mind, his humor and his constant need to correct people. he develops from this skinny boy to this gorgeous character that I soo love. In case you don't know, he is my spiritual husband. Morgan, on the other hand, is an absolute charmer. I love it when he calls Garcia (the computer geek of the show) all sorts of cute names (doll and baby, to name a couple). I'm a sucker for terms of endearment, and Morgan saying those is just pure bliss to hear.

Thank your lucky stars today since I'll be keeping this post super short, because hubby is already bugging me to watch the show with him. Okay, not really. It's just me who wants to watch the damn thing. I can't get enough of it.

Books do not go to waste where I am concerned. Blame my mom. She must have given me books to play with when I was a little girl. Reason why I have allowed Svetlana to munch on a couple of books already, thinking that she might grow up to be a book lover too, if she ate enough books now. Haha! Yes, she loves eating them at this point, no sense telling her "That's not for consumption, you little pig. Books are for reading!" because she will not understand anyway. I think she must have eaten her way through half of the Winnie-the-Pooh storybook my sister gave her, to the delight of my mom. Grandmas can be so permissive. *rolls eyes*.

Anyway, as I was saying when I was rudely interrupted by myself, I love books. Especially those given to me as gifts *hint, hint*. Never been one to say no, thank you to a book. So when free e-books mushroomed all over the net, I was ecstatic. Imagine having all the world's books sitting in your computer, just waiting for you to read it. The best part is, they're free! Much as I would like to contribute to the author's wealth as my own simple way of expressing my gratitude, my bank account would not allow it. I have spent enough money on books to feed a family of three for a year when I was in college, so I think I'd stop at that.

Having been a WAHM for sometime now (yes, eight months is already some time for me) gave me the privilege of reading all those lovely e-books to my heart's desire (I am actually starting to read all of the 9 Sophie Kinsella e-books right now),

It's all freeif you know where to look.

and much to the chagrin of publishers. I'm sorry dear authors and publishers, but I'd rather spend my money now on a pack of diapers or food than for a piece of book that I'd eventually lose anyway (as I like to share my stuff. Problem is, borrowers don't like to give it back). I think all WAHMs can agree. With all prices going up, will you spend it on something only you (and not the rest of your family) will enjoy? I thought so. The internet is a paradise for book lovers, trust me. As one of my favorite authors said, if you can get it for free, why buy it? It's all free if you know where to look. Well, okay, so I made that one up. I am actually my favorite author. eherm.

I know, I know. You've read this far and you still don't know why I have this love-hate relationship with e-books. I'll quit my rambling now and get to the point not because I want to, but because it's way past beddy-time. I think I have pointed out how much I love e-books already (say, "yes, you have" for the love of God, or I will repeat the whole thing all over again). What I hate about them, and it's the only thing I hate about e-books, mind you, is that they are harder to read than on print. The monitor makes me dizzy if I look at it too long, which is why much as I hate to pry my eyes away from what I reading, I must, because I love my perfect sense of sight too much.

I think it's about time I post this award given to me by bhoyet, who I know gave me this out of lack of choice. Haha! Anyways, thanks for giving this award to me (even though you damn well know that I AM NOT CUTE. Cute is for puppies. I am GORGEOUS. Or at least, that's what hubby tells me. Sweet liar.) But Roger, you gave me another reason to reflect on why I do not have at least ten friends to give this to. So I hate you for that. Next time give me an award that I can keep to myself. And yes, I am a demanding little bitch.

The rules to be followed by lucky/unlucky recipients of this award (like me) are as follows:

1. Each blogger must post these rules.

2. Each blogger starts with ten random facts/habits about themselves.

3. Bloggers that are tagged, need to write ten facts about themselves. You need to choose ten people to tag and list their names.

Okay, since I already posted the rules, I must state ten random facts about me. Do I really need to bore you with this stuff? Well, rules are rules. Unless I have to break them. And anyway, I WANT to annoy you by revealing stuff about me. So brace yourself.

1. I'll begin with what is already written in my blog header (so as to bore you to the maximum extent). I do not stick to one blog design, as I am constantly finding newer designs that I think will make my blog a better place to visit. My posts are blah so I'll need all the visual backup I can get my hands on.

2. I am a moron magnet. Getting accosted by morons on a daily basis has been my way of life. Lately, I think I have been attracting jerks too. I am guessing I emit this aura which makes them come to me like flies on shit.

3. I cannot speak English as well as I write it. I think I have been writing for far too long which resulted to my lack of practice in that area. My speech is normally interjected with umm..., ermm..., errr..., and other such wonderful sounds that are made to fill up vast empty spaces of not knowing what to say.

4.I used to be a proofreader, so I am usually keen about details. Grammatical errors and anything out of place is unacceptable for me, but I make typos and make grammarians groan more than the average person. Which explains why I gave up being a proofreader. Now, I just pretend to be one.

5. I hate spiders. The best way to get into my nerves is to surprise me with one. There are only two consequences for those who are brave/stupid enough to do that: their ears are assailed by my imitation of a crying banshee or they are physically abused by me (after they disposed of the spider a mile away).

6. I have a metabolism rate to die for. I can be an absolute pig and not gain enough weight to be noticed by anyone. Which is why the wealth of articles coming out this time of the year about dieting is trash to me.

7. The book I am reading right now is "The Devil Wears Prada". I have started reading it two weeks back and there is no hope in sight for me to ever reach the last page of that book. I am a fast reader, don't get me wrong. It's just that nowadays, time and I are not very good friends.

8. I am stupid at mathematics. The mere mention of it make me sick, and childhood dreams of solving the hardest mathematical equation ever has long vanished into thin air. I don't even know if there is such a thing as the hardest mathematical equation. For me, they're all frigging hard.

9. I am on the verge of breakdown because of my bank. So please expect me to go mental in about a week time. If you are a friend, do not dare report me to the authorities about possible bank bombings happening in our area.

10. I already ran out of things to write about myself. So you fill in the blank. But I'm not that hard to figure out. Mental is my middle name. You can start from there.

Since it is imperative that this award is passed to ten other people, I am now giving it to J.D., melanie, aria,sterndal, emerald, pey, allysa, lizzie, claire, and may. What do you know. I've completed all ten! Haha! But some of you in the list got two in a row from me. I just love you so much. Hee hee. Oh well, you guys deserve this award, so have fun with it! :)

Let me say that again. My child is an achiever. I knew it the moment I saw her in that nursery room a few hours after I gave birth. How did I know? Well, I am her mom. So. I mean it's a pretty normal for a mom to assume that her child/children will take the world by storm someday. Svetlana is one child who will do many great things as she grows older. In fact, she's starting to show potential at such a young age. Lemme share to you what she has managed to do so far:

She can open and close her hands upon request. And at a fast forward pace, too, that you wouldn't be able to keep up with your command. Impressed? Oh, I am just starting. Wait till you read the others.

She has already eaten most food that only one-year-old children are allowed to eat. Like hotdogs. And spaghetti (yes, the pasta and the sauce). And bread. And cup cakes. And rice. And everything else that happens to be on the menu. Remarkable, eh?

She has already ripped apart three lovely story books and ate some of the pages. Simply precious.

She has already tasted all the slippers inside the house. She's developed a fetish at six months already. How extraordinary is that?

She has already crawled all corners of the house (under the bed, too. yes.) and developed intimate friendship with the floor with her face constantly smacking on it. Exceptional? Yes.

She and her shadow are already best friends. They have come to know each other so well that Svet would stare at her shadow and talk to it for a full ten minutes. Now that in itself is an achievement. Everything else holds her attention for not more than two seconds. It's just wonderful.

I don't want to say more, lest a talent scout or an agent from the Guinness Book of World Records come knocking at our door to introduce Svet to the world as the latest child wonder. She is still too young for show business. I'll wait it out till she's 14. I told here she is destined to rule the world one day. She was shocked.

First, let me just say that I am greatly amazed as to why no one seems to be openly whining about BPI's remittance problems for the last week except for my friend Mighty here (and me, as you will read in the next paragraph), because I Googled it and I came up empty. What, is there some kind of major shushing that's happening? Who makes you shush? BPI? But then again, maybe it's just me and my bright mind at work. Maybe I just typed in the wrong keywords because I have a royal headache and I haven't eaten lunch yet but here I am yapping about my unfortunate experience with BPI. Anyway.

Like Mighty here, I should already have a tidy amount on my account ready to be spent by this time. Actually, my fellow freelance writers who had BDO for accounts got them LAST WEDNESDAY. Which left me and my buddies with BPI accounts still wishing for our money to please, please come. Okay so this just came in. I AM THE ONLY ONE LEFT WHO HAS NOT RECEIVED MY FREAKING MONEY! Now is it always me who comes last, huh? Because we don't have a phone?! Yes, we don't have a landline because we live in the woods. But I have managed to get someone to talk to BPI even without a phone. How resourceful of me.

So Caesar (the friend who made the effort to call BPI for me) called the renowned phone banking services of BPI. Guess what they told him. In summary, it would be "Here's a reference number. We will check it next week". Well, F YOU. Next week? I will be dead by next week so I will not need your freaking reference number by then. Thank you very much. You were way too helpful. I am so humbled. Now what is the use of boasting about phone banker-assisted transactions being available 24 hours a day, 7 days a week if you can't help me during my direst moment of need and only have a reference number to give me (which I obviously can't use to buy my baby diapers) and an offer to find out about my inquiries next week?!?Virg says they should totally sue their brains for non-support, and I SO agree.

Just so everyone knows, I am applying for a new bank account AT ANOTHER BANK because I don't want to maintain bank relations with my current one who cannot even admit that something is wrong with their system. Why do I always end up with companies with poor services? First Xoom, then BPI. I must be so lucky. The gods have chosen me to be the one to experience all this. You say shit happens? Yeah, well, to me it happens all the time. So brighten up. Lemme take all the crap.

If anything, this is a rant of a pissed off customer who is about to go wacko. Do not put on your faith in everything I posted here, because I am seeing red and that doesn't exactly spell objectivity.

What does Christmas smell like, for you? When I was still working, I know that Christmas is near when I can smell my 13th month bonus in the air. The smell of new money inside that envelope handed almost always late. Mmmmm. It's one of the most anticipated times in an employee's life, to be given that lovely bonus during this time of the year. But I don't smell it now. Poor me. Literally.

I should have mentioned this in my earlier post regarding disadvantages of working at home. WAHMs (or WAHDs, for that matter), DO NOT HAVE CHRISTMAS BONUS. Sad? Yeah. Am I regretting my decision to be a WAHM now? Nope. Not ever. As much as I would love to be given that, I'd pass the chance up for what I have now. Which made me realize, I'm not as money hungry as I think I am. I mean, come on. I would not trade measly cash that only comes once in a year for the opportunity to spend all the time that I want with this piglet.

Before I end up, noticed the cute banner on the upper right hand corner of my blog? Makes me feel the Christmas spirit even here in my blog, courtesy of the great Amanda Fazani who writes Blogger Buster, my blog bible. Hey, spread the spirit. Grab your own now :)

I actually didn't do any real work today, so I don't know what's with the title. It's all I can think of writing in the title box. Just wrote a couple of papers and spent half of the day playing with my daughter who can crawl very fast now. *beams* Some I spent in tinkering with my blog. Yes. I know your eyes are rolling upwards. You can roll it back now. Since starting this blog, I have changed layouts like five times already. This editing my layout thing has been eating most of the time I spend in front of the computer lately.

Yet you say, "But I can't see any improvements on your site!". Well I can't either. So shut up and deal with it. I'm still on the stage of planning to ram my brains with HTML knowledge. I don't know when I'll actually get there, but I will one day. Just thank your lucky stars that I'd be sticking with this layout for a while since I'm really loving the four columns and the shade of blue. You won't have to adjust to what you're seeing for some time, will stop you from wondering "is this the same page I viewed a couple of days ago?" for a little while.

Took a picture of Svet today while eating her favorite hotdog.

Just to see if she looked any different than she did two weeks ago. I honestly can't see the difference. *me inside my head* It's because you see her everyday, dummy. Big cheeks. Check. Big eyes. Check. Small lips. Check. Yep. That's my daughter alright. Enjoyed spending most of the day with her today. Best day ever.

I love Gin! No. Not the local liquor that supposed to cause blindness with too much drinking (gin bulag). I was referring to Gin E, a fellow mommy blogger, for giving me my very first blog award. I am sooo humbled. See, this being my first time, I'm half afraid I might not do this right, being the overly bright person that I am. I should have followed my mum's advice and ate lots of food for brain development when I was younger.

Okay. So here goes. So this award given to me by Gin is called the Proximidade Award, given to blogs that, and I quote Gin,

invests and believes, in ‘proximity’ [meaning, that blogging makes us ‘close’ - being close through proxy]. These blogs are all charming and they aim to show the marvels of friendship. Let’s give more attention to them! So with this prize we must deliver it to eight bloggers that in turn must make the same thing and put this text.

Nicey, nice, especially for a first. makes me wonder if I was worth it. Haha! Anyways, Gin said she enjoys reading what she sees here, (or what little she can see here. harhar.) I'm just glad that she appreciates my twisted sense of humor. Hehehe. So as a recipient, I am honored to give this award to:

enday, for never failing to make me laugh with her posts. You are a jewel. I love your sense of humor.

sexychiicq, for being my avid commenter. Thanks for taking time to react to my posts. It seems you are the only one. Haha!

Super Gulaman, for teaching me how to tinker with my RSS feed. Harr! I am so stupid.

penstalker, for the super informative movie peeks on his blog. I can stay on top of film happenings because of you, Mights.

emz, another fellow mommy blogger, for insightful contents that I can very much relate to. Thanks for being you.

N, for that wonderful site review on LinkReferral. Here's hoping we forged a new friendship.

ms arah, for always updating her site. Because of you I never miss out on a soap opera. Hehehe.

pehpot, for your wonderful blog photos. I wish you all the best in your journey towards buying the camera of your dreams. Hehe.

Hmmm.. I guess that's it. That was fun! And another post to my blog. Yesss! Hey, Gin, thanks again for this. Off to eat dinner now.

It is not what you might be thinking. I am not about to cry SCAM! because I actually find LinkReferral a good way to boost my page views (something that I direly need since I just started blogging and my site is still short of many things. Additional posts, for instance. Harhar.) Besides, I am just a basic member so I am able to use their services for free. So what did I find out, you ask.

I was at the site earlier this day and I decided to use the search function that they have been informing me about through email notification. I first searched for the keywords which listed my site in the results. Then I got curious and decided to search for fellow Filipinos who might also be LinkReferral members like me.

I typed in Pinay, since I am one and would like to find other Pinays in the site. I'm thinking to maybe check out their sites and make friends with them. Guess what came out in the results list. There were eight search results, and out of those eight, two are broken links, only one is active, and get this, the remaining five sites are porn.

Now imagine how demeaning that is for a Pinay like me. I was really pissed. I couldn't do anything about it. All I could do is change my site description to include the word Pinay or Filipina, so that I can at least decrease the ratio of porn sites against clean ones.

What a crying shame. Here I am thinking that Pinays are treated as conservative women and respected everywhere, and there they are debasing our dignity. Bunch of lowly scumbags. *expletive deleted*

Since it's that time of the month when my sidelines' payment come in bulk, please put up with me for a while as I bore you to death with yet another post of how I fared in one of them. Don't you worry your mind so much, this will only happen twice or thrice in a month. If you're in luck, maybe it'll only happen once. Anyway.

So this time around it's Ciao, the community that pays you per review. I don't go there much now. Reason? They used to pay $1 per review. Until I came. Haha! They must have sensed I was only there for the money and immediately changed their payment system, changing it to only $.25 per review. Hee hee. But even if that's the case, it's still better paying than myLot, so if you are crazy about making reviews (I am not), then Ciao is for you. myLot is funner, but Ciao pays better. Oh when will fun and high pay be found together in one place? I pray and wait for that heavenly day. *sighs*

As I mentioned in passing above, Ciao pays way better than myLot, although if making reviews is not your favorite pastime, then you'd not last a second in that place. You'll puke from the adjectives spewing on every Ciao corner. Here's payment proof non-believers. I got this from three-four days of being there one or two hours a day. Not bad considering this amount in myLot will take anyone almost half a month to reach.