As Kelly Bensimon says, “Hate is in the ecosystem.” For once, we wholly agree with her! After three hours of haterade, let’s focus on the love. So, we’re going to think of one positive thing to say about each housewife before you vote on your Season 4 cast.

Alex McCord: Alex just found her voice. Let’s give her more time to use it!

Bethenny Frankel: Let’s face it, Bethenny gives good confessional interview. We can always rely on her to give much-needed snark to a scene.

Jen Gilbert: We hope she’s included in next week’s “Lost Footage” special. After all, who’s more lost at this point than Jen Gilbert? Even Sonja somehow wandered her way into Part 2 of the reunion. Jen deserves another chance to find her inner housewife.