My ongoing theme is always the truth, as I see it, and the exposure of lies, deception and manipulation wherever they exist. I remain firmly convinced that the world can no longer resist its innate urge to unite and co-operate with one another and we are very close to the point where war can no longer be an option if this transformation is to occur. Website: allenroland.com Email: allen@allenroland.com

Wednesday, October 23, 2013

PTSD IS REALLY POST TRAUMATIC HEART DISORDER ~ ONLY LOVE HEALS

It is
obvious that the symptoms of PTSD are very similar to the symptoms of people
being seemingly separated from love whereas deep psychic pain as well as
feelings of guilt and unworthiness override the ability to give and receive
love ~ thus supporting a heart centered approach to recovery: Allen L Roland,
PhD.

In March 2005, PBS aired A SOLDIERS HEART where a physician on that show
reported that every soldier in Iraq is forever emotionally changed after
serving in combat.

This
can actually become a hardening of the heart whereas the soldier eventually
becomes seemingly incapable of giving and receiving love and retreats into a
lonely and impenetrable shell.

I
have proved this in my work as a heart centered counselor for 38 years and working with combat
veterans with PTSD for the past four years.

I’m proud of being a Navy veteran and serving five years on active duty as well
as two additional years as a weekend warrior. I believed in what I was doing at
that time and I served in the lull between the Korean conflict and VietnamWar 1957 - 1964. Although I was trained to kill
with my sidewinder and Sparrow missiles ~ I never had to fire them in anger
although I most certainly would have fired if directed.

The
highlight of those five years was my 10 month tour on the USS Ranger which was
patrolling the South China Sea and the Sea of Japan. I flew an all-weather
supersonic single place interceptor (F3H Demon) and most of my 135 carrier
landings were at night or in severe weather conditions. There was no room for
laxity under those conditions ~ it was all about intention, hand eye
coordination and especiallyfocus.

The
carrier was my eternal mother who embraced me every night by not only catching
me in her three deck wires (often at a low fuel state) but later lulling me to
sleep with her gentle rolling and the musical hum of her giant turbines.

Everyone
on the carrier was part of a coordinated team and the common effort was to
safely launch and land its large complement of fighter and attack planes. I
felt blessed and totally supported in my mission from deck hands to landing
signal officers. There was a tremendous feeling of being an integral part of
something far greater than myself~ literally a family.

I’ll
never forget one early dawn launch on the South China Sea. I was sitting on the
number one catapult waiting for the carrier to turn into the wind, my aircraft
canopy was open and I began to cry tears of joy. I was living my dream and
suddenly I realized it and I also realized that there was nothing I couldn’t
accomplish if I set my mind and heart to it ~ as I had in becoming a Navy
Carrier pilot.

I
have never forgotten that moment but that insight was just a prelude to
eventuallyliving my ultimate dream offully opening my heart, going through my deep
fears of loss and personally proving and owning my Unified Fieldmany years later.

The
journey of the heart is much like flying in all weather conditions in that you
must conquer fear and your heart centered self-belief is your needle ball
instrument ( the one aircraft instrument that tells you if you are straight
and level or upside down in a vertigo episode ~ which I harrowingly experienced
many times).

Now
I’m living my ultimate dream which is sharing my gift of seeing through the
heart with all my clients but especiallyveterans
of Vietnam, Iraq and Afghanistan (with PTSD) and helping them to a place of
another choiceof behavior by jump starting
their hearts and reawakening their desire to love, be loved and toheal themselves in the process. As I watch a
light go on within these soul damagedwarriors
who are living in the grey zone of PTSD ~ I realize I’ve come full circle and
once again I’m in service from a place of celebration and joy.

My
recent newsletter on Band of Brothers # 11 summarized
my work with five more Iraq and Afghanistan veterans, all with PTSD, who faced
their fears and not only opened their hearts but found and began to heal
themselves in only eight weeks. See article ~

Every
day at least 22 U.S. veterans attempt suicide, more than four times the
national average.
Of the 30,000 suicides each year in the U.S., 20 percent are committed by
veterans, though veterans make up only 7.6 percent of the population.
Obviously, there is a deep need for a heart centered approach to these
emotionallywounded warriors and the
success of my ongoing healing the wounded heart workshops prove that they are
more than receptive to it.

In
many ways, PTSD is really PTHD (Post Traumatic Heart Disorder) for there is
no permanent healing until the heart opens through gratefulness ~ for only then
does the desire for true self-healing occur.

So, in essence, PTSD
is a form ofPost Traumatic Heart Disorder
and many people suffer the same symptoms when they have been rejected,
abandoned or hurt in a love relationship.

Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder, or PTSD, is a psychiatric disorder that can
occur following the experience or witnessing of life-threatening events such as
military combat, natural disasters, terrorist incidents, serious accidents, or
violent personal assaults like rape. People who suffer from PTSD often relive
the experience through nightmares and flashbacks, have difficulty sleeping, and
feel detached or estranged, and these symptoms can be severe enough and last
long enough to significantly impair the person's daily life. But, I would
argue, people can suffer these very same symptoms when they are seemingly
separated from love.

As such, Post Traumatic Stress Disorder is actually a Heart disorder
where psychic pain, fear and guilt often override their deepest joy and ability
to love.

To many, suicide becomes the only choice, as Dr Gary Kohls wrote ~ It is
often said that 200,000 Vietnam vets have committed suicide since they came
home from the war, although, with 30% of the huge US homeless population being
nameless and homeless Vietnam veterans, the precise number is unknown and
actually may be larger!

In my experience as a practicing therapist ~ A person will take their own life
only if they feel that the dark loveless tunnel of aloneness they exist in is
their ONLY CHOICE. My role, as a therapist, is to help bring them to another
life enhancing choice ~ and I maintain that cannot be accomplished without
awakening their hearts through gratefulness andlove.
Only then will they begin to see through clearer eyes and realize that they
indeed have ANOTHER CHOICE.

The previously
mentionedPBS film, A Soldiers Heart,
depicts a Marine Sergeant who opened fire on and killed an Iraqi civilian woman
who was reaching onto her bag for a white flag as she approached their
checkpoint. When he realized his mistake he broke down crying and was
emotionally unable thereafter to carry out his duties. This is not an
unusual incident and is a clear indication of spiritual or soul damage.

For
too many combat veterans, war is a living hell they can never completely
forget, as this 4 minute video of the all too common killing of innocent civilianssomberly
and musicallydepicts ~

P.T.S.D is occurring
now at an alarming rate in Iraq and Afghanistan and the military can no longer
sweep it under the rug bynot recognizing
the validity of soul damage or loss.

There is only one
logical explanation for this phenomenon and it is this ~ deepest in our hearts
we have a need to love and be loved and it extends to all our brothers and sisters
throughout the world. Longfellow called it the thread of all sustaining
beauty that runs through all and doth all unite.

I call it a Unified Field of love and soul
consciousness that exists not only beyond time and space but also deepest
within us all ~ and most certainly beneath our deepest fears and pain.

When we take someone's life in combat ~ we destroy a part of our own
heart in the process and we may never psychically recover from this incident on
a soul level.

The same things happens when we consciously hurt someone we love or consciously
withhold love from someone we love. We, in essence, are saying NO to our heart
in the process and we can suffer significant psychic damage on a soul level.

But when we kill someone ~ our heart becomes hardened with guilt and it is
almost impossible to accept or give love carrying this burden ~ which many of
our Vietnam, Iraq and Afghanistan combat veterans now bear.

When we close our heart we enter a dark prison cell where our own bars of fear
and unworthiness keep us from fully experiencing ourselves as well as others. Each
of us can free ourselves from that self-imposed lock down of the heart and the
magic key is gratitude ~ beginning withthe
people who have always been there for us and eventually ourselves.

In my work, as a therapist, with clients with PTSD or PTHD ~ I concentrate,
with great success, on opening their hearts ~ initially through gratefulness to
the people and friends who have been there for them and finally to giving and
acceptinglovethemselves. They eventually forgive themselves in the
processof opening their hearts. This
self-healing can happen rapidly as itdidin the elevenHealing
the Wounded Heart Band of Brothers 8 week workshops I have facilitated over the
past three years ~ with over a 60% average improvement in all symptoms of
PTSD and in particular the ability to love and be loved as well as a greatly
increased sense of self-worth and gratefulness. See my article ~ http://www.veteranstoday.com/2013/02/12/miracle-of-heart-centered-counseling-is-self-healing/

I experienced
something similar after a nine month cruise as an all-weather Navy fighter
pilot on the USS Ranger in the early 1960's.

I was never in combat but I was trained to kill on command and would have fired
my lethal missiles at a Chinese MIG if ordered to ~ probably without
hesitation.

When I returned I had lost much of my innocence, my heart had hardened to some
degree and my loved ones noted it.

Eventually my heart opened ~ but it may have been much more difficult if I
had taken someone's life.

Perhaps we have reached the point in our evolution where we will begin to see
all men as our brothers and realize that nonviolence must be a universal
spiritual practice ~ if we are to further evolve.

Martin Luther King Jr said it best;Nonviolence means avoiding not only external physical violence but also
internal violence of the spirit . You not only refuse to shoot a man, but you
refuse to hate him .

I am now increasingly concentrating on healing these wounded members of our
torn society ~ so please do not hesitate to call or email meif you know of someone who not only needs this
help but sincerely wants to find a heart centered choice of behavior and escape
the dark prison of fear and guilt based ego consciousness where we oftenpunish the people closest to us by withholding
love.

Allen
L Roland is a practicing psychotherapist, author and
lecturer who also shares a daily political and social commentary on hisweb logand websiteallenroland.comHe also guest hosts a
monthly national radio show TRUTHTALK onwww.conscioustalk.net

3 comments:

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I just want share with the world what some one has actually done for me. I have been down for 5 years with PSTD post traumutic stress. i have done everything necessary, i have run a lot of tests and even became addicted to drugs, until i came across a post of Dr olumba the great spell caster and how he has been helping and curing people of such problem i quickly contacted him in the address the person left behind i got in touch with him and told him all i have been facing.He told me what to do and how to do them and after that he help me cast the spell and that was the end of my PSTD problem today am living fine all because of him. So if are mentally challenge or you have the same problem as mine pstd just get in touch with him okay. here is his contacts Olumbamentalspellhome@gmail.com

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About Me

I'm a disabled active duty Navy veteran who was born in Boston, Massachusetts, survived a dysfunctional family, pursued and lived my dreams, including being a Navy carrier fighter pilot. I found myself by fully opening my heart, wrote three books, sired four children and I'm still living my ultimate dream by making a difference from a place of celebration and service. My 1998 PhD dissertation on the UNIFIED FIELD was chosen by Noetic Science and Common Boundary as one of the top three world finalists on combining psychology and spirituality. I retired from my private practice in 2014, because of my service connected asbestosis related lung disease, and live in Antioch, California but still remain involved as a featured columnist on Veterans Today and heart centered spiritual consultant and advisor ~ particularly with combat veterans with PTSD as well as others with PTHD ( Post Traumatic Heart Disorder).