I believe that women experience extreme duality when it comes to sex. I call this the classic battle of Good vs. Evil. Right vs. Wrong. Light vs. Dark. Wholesome vs. Slutty. I believe that most women feel as thou they have to classify themselves into a sexual category. This feeling of being in the " RIGHT" and " APPROVED" of category can completely shut down the sexy, fun, excited, wild, hot and expressive girl inside. She feels as thou she is not accepted for what she brings to the table so she hides in the corner not willing to break free from her cage. She expresses herself with anger, rage, sadness, depression and eating herself into numbness. I am going to identify this personality inside and call her " Slutty Sally".

Slutty Sally is inside each and everyone of us girls. She longs to be expressed and she longs to be acknowledged. Slutty Sally wants to be part of our whole self. She brings excitement, creativity, and sensuality. She awakens our sexual essence. Slutty Sally has the ability to make us feel alive. She can allow us to express our sexual wants and desires. She will open us up so we can feel , connect and express our truest diva self. Slutty Sally is here for a reason. She brings us into our beauty of embracing our sexual self. Slutty Sally is super fun. She is extremely open. She loves to receive and give pleasure. Slutty Sally loves to share her essence with her man. Slutty Sally loves to make her man crave her, long for her, devour her. She knows what she wants and she is not afraid to create sexual dynamite. Slutty Sally is confident in the bedroom. She wears exciting attire and seduces her man and herself in the most sensual of ways. Slutty Sally is a sexual woman, she is not a little girl. She walks with her hips, she licks her lips, she caresses her body and she consumes her mans attention. Slutty Sally wants to be approved of and accepted. She wants you to love her and know that she is part all of us. Slutty Sally is absolutely amazing and she will allow you to express your sexual self in the most beautiful of ways. Embrace her....Love her....Accept her. Allow her free from her cage so she can bring back that missing piece.

As a woman I know that Slutty Sally is easy to disapprove of. She can feel wild and uncontrollable. She can make us feel ashamed and dirty. Slutty Sally can bring back many sexual memories that activate feelings of guilt, shame and resentment. Slutty Sally became an enemy. She became someone we feared. Slutty Sally could not be trusted. What other choice did we have...we shut her down. We put Slutty Sally in a cage to punish her for her crimes and uncontrollable urge for sexual satisfaction. We decided that Slutty Sally could only do us harm.

Slutty Sally wants to be FREE. She is screaming at you to let her out. Slutty Sally will behave herself. The two of you can co create to awaken your sexual diva and allow your sexual essence to be felt and expressed. Allow Slutty Sally to merge with who you are. She is absolutely amazing and she deserves to be loved. Slutty Sally will bring you excitement, creativity, pleasure, laughter, sexiness and you will become the seducer. Slutty Sally will awaken your senses and activate your sexual glow!

LET HER OUT! ALLOW HER TO CO CREATE WITH YOU!LOVE HER! APPROVE OF HER! ACCEPT HER!

As I sit here .... tapping into the energy of who I am. I can feel emotions of pain, sadness, loneliness, sorrow, betrayal, abandonment, low self esteem and many others and at the exact same time I can feel emotions of love, hope, excitement, inspiration, happiness and joy. As humans we get to experience the duality of life. We get to experience the emotions of pain as well as the emotions of joy and love. We get to choose to feel these painful emotions and work through them. If we just suppress our emotions or cover them with false happiness they will show up and they will DEMAND to be felt and released. Painful emotions are amazing in the fact that they can awaken us from our slumber. They allow us to tap into our earthly experiences and feel all that we have the capacity to feel. To completely feel the painful emotions we MUST stop numbing ourselves. We must stop turning to things that just cover these emotions up. I know that painful emotions are just that...painful. When we choose to heal our emotional wounds we will experiences some of these emotions once again during the healing process. We want to feel these. We want to allow these emotions to have a voice and express how they feel and express the pain they are feeling. Think of the emotion as a person. A person who wants to be heard, accepted, felt and loved. Emotions are energy and energy can be transformed.

I SAY THIS ABOUT EMOTIONS BECAUSE SEX ACTIVATES EMOTIONS! LET ME SAY THAT ONCE AGAIN....SEX ACTIVATES EMOTIONS.

We must address the emotional body if our desire is to have spiritual, sensual, sensational SEX!

When we share ourselves sexually with another we are very vulnerable. If we do not feel safe inside our body then there is absolutely no way we are going to experience sex in a beautiful way. Our body holds these painful emotions and as soon as we are in this space of sexual vulnerability so many of these painful emotions show their pretty little faces. We then assume that sex is what is creating these emotions so we choose to create a belief that ....SEX IS EMOTIONALLY PAINFUL!

SEX IS NOT EMOTIONALLY PAINFUL AND I REPEAT SEX IS NOT CREATING THE EMOTIONAL PAIN....its the emotions that have been suppressed for so long that are awakening and being felt in this moment.Sex is extremely emotional. Sex is a ritual that is so beautiful and healing on so many levels BUT you have to feel the pain and do it anyway. STOP running from your sexual energy. Open up to the power that your sexual energy provides you. It is an amazing healing power.

Author

My name is Cameo .I have been married for 16 years and with my husband for 17.5 years. I know that the sexual connection in a marriage can create strength and happiness and I also know the lack of a sexual connection can leave you feeling empty and dissatisfied. Lets get real open and become sexually satisfied in our marriages!