Saturday, June 28, 2014

Living Death to the Fullest

Assisted suicide was in the news this week. In Britain,
the highest court has thrown out challenges to laws that forbid assisted suicide in that country. In making the decision, the court explained that it is up to
the British Parliament to decide on the legality of assisted suicide. Meantime,
here in Canada Globe columnist Gary Mason came out in favour of assisted suicide,
writing movingly about his brother’s terrible death from cancer. It reminded me
of a column I wrote in 2012 about Washingtonian Dandelion B. Treecraft, and how
he took advantage of that state’s law allowing assisted suicide.

Dandelion B. Treecraft

It was one of the best obituaries I ever read.

Even the name of the deceased was intriguing -- Dandelion
B. Treecraft, also known as Dan.

The 62 year-old Spokane, Wash., arborist was
better known in that Pacific Northwest community as a social and political
activist and avid writer of letters to the editor.

Known locally for railing against establishment politics
and corporations, and for his outspoken opposition to war, Treecraft lived his
life the way he wanted.

He ended it that way, too.

Treecraft -- born Daniel Bryan Whipple in California --
wrote his obituary before he died of cancer on August 4, 2011.

After moving to Spokane in 1980, he worked at a couple of
jobs before working for six years at a transformer manufacturing plant -- a job
that "failed to lead to tenure, as the company moved its facility to North
Carolina to take advantage of a lower-wage environment."

He worked briefly as a nurse's aide after that.
Unfortunately, he noted, "this proved not to be a good fit," as Treecraft
felt compelled to take half of his charges home "to provide more adequate
personal nurturance," while the remainder, he felt, "should be taken out
overnight and shot."

In 1991, Treecraft found his "true calling" as
an arborist, changing his legal name to reflect his new line of employment. As
an arborist, he "attempted to make an honest living providing ethical tree
care."

But, he added, "anyone who's attempted to make a
living -- ethically -- can attest that it is no small feat."

His scorecard
on that matter looked fairly good, he thought, "if graded on a
curve."

In 1999, he married Jan, and "the next nine years
passed in what appeared to be sublime, flawless bliss," he wrote.

"Both Treecrafts were generally satisfied to let
that appearance prevail. It was a period of considerable inner growth,
especially for Jan. For Dan, it was a time of great inner testing. The result
was, after all, a passably agreeable relationship for a near-decade. No small
feat in this day."

He noted that some fuss has been made of his social and
political activism. This aspect of his life has been significantly exaggerated, he thought, although he was "exceedingly proud of being ousted from several dozen
Spokane City Council meetings."

In 2010, after experiencing a mild, chronic sore throat
and some difficulty swallowing for some time, a medical examination and biopsy
revealed a tumour of "some advanced development."

Treecraft decided on a course of no treatment. Jan stood
by him throughout the winding-down process, walking all the way with him.

All the way for Treecraft meant taking his own life --
something that is possible in Washington state through its Physician Assisted
Suicide law.

Modelled after neighbouring Oregon's Death With Dignity Act, it
allows a resident who has been diagnosed by a physician with a terminal illness
to request a lethal dose of medication for the purpose of ending his or her
life.

Treecraft chose breathing from a cylinder of nitrogen gas, a decision he made after his cancer symptoms made breathing and eating difficult and painful.

A few days
before he died, he wrote a last post on his blog, Dead Man Talking, about the
decision to die.

"Today is Monday, August 1, 2011 . . . I feel some
familiar dismay -- at the thought that summer is on its way out, fall is
readying to move in and winter will be here all-too-soon for a thin-skinned boy
like me. And . . . I feel a mixture of both relief and uneasiness, to think that I
can't expect to have that season-turning experience again."

He went on to say it was going to be "a short week,
for me. I've decided that I want to have my funeral-burial next Saturday. That
means I have to be ready for burial; I have to get dead . . . I have two days to
get myself ready for Wednesday's big transition."

He admitted to some mixed feelings about dying -- the
burdens left for his wife, wishing he could spend many more years getting to
know the new minister from his Unitarian church, and not wanting to say a final
goodbye to old friends and family who were coming for a last visit.

"I feel not-so-resolute about shutting myself off
two days from now," he wrote of those upcoming visits.

"My resolve to carry on as planned is rattled a bit
by this little change in the environment around me."

Near the end of the post, he suggested he might write one
more time to share at least a few more thoughts. It
didn't happen.

On Aug. 4, 2011, he ended his own
life.

Treecraft's obituary concluded by noting that he had no
children of his own but, if he did, "not one of them ever called or
wrote."

Friends were invited to the burial, but were warned to
expect to provide "funereal talent, shovels, sweat, cheer, graveside
manners. Eulogizers of quick-witted brevity are welcome to speak. Long-winded
droners may be stoned and used as backfill."Following his death, Jan told the Spokane
Spokesman-Review that "Dan was a blessing... as I look ahead, I think,
'Gee, life may not be as interesting.'"