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Still, it's good, too, to appreciate and make the most of our time with those we have with us. I've never been able to adopt the "everything happens for a reason" mentality, but I do think you can bring meaning and honor to loss by how you cope with it.

Very touching. You have a God given writing ability. James and Jake left a lasting impression on so many people. I will remember them in a special way today. I am glad you and Beth have a special friendship.

I went to bed thinking abouot those sweet boys and woke up this morning doing the same thing. This was a beautiful post. Beth is so lucky to have so many wonderful friends like you. I'll be praying for strength and comfort for Beth and her family today.

You said so beautifully what I have been thinking about James and Jake. If it weren't for them, I would only know Beth in passing by her blog name. I have been honored and moved in a powerful way to walk alongside Beth in this past year. I echo your beautiful words here wholeheartedly.

Steph this was so wonderfully written and so touching. I had a hard time holding it together while I read this post. What a testament of a great friend you are to Beth. She's a lucky girl to have you in her life.

My thoughts are with Beth. What a sad thing to go through. Yesterday a friend of mine went into labor at 19weeks that they aren't stopping because there is an infection that could kill her if she stays pg. My heart is broken for her. I don't know why things like this happen to good people.

Tha is so beautiful. I am in tears. I hadn't "met" Beth yet a year ago but I too carried a baby in my belly then. Something I never thought I would do. I had a few miscarriage scares. I am just so sorry. And now I must go kiss all over Baby Sister....

Thank you for these words, Steph. I also have a baby in heaven I loved but never got to hold. It's amazing how from the very first moment they have a place in your heart...and no matter how few moments you have with them they stay there always.We were together at Blissdom and I didn't get to officially meet you but Shannon from Rocks in My Dryer sent me your way and I'm so glad to be here. Comfort and peace to you and Beth.

Two and a half years ago my beautiful 15 yr. old son took his own life. He had been bullied at school and beaten up in the boys bathroom the day before. I will never understand it but it helps me to read posts like yours so that I know he will never be forgotten by all the many people who loved him.