Re: What kids need from us?

Basically every child will seek the love & caring. The parents should give both love and care to their child first.

Secondly, all kids need recognition and appreciation, even for a very small activity. Just clapping - for a toddler tries to stand a fraction of second - is a motivation. It will certainly increase the self confidence of the kid.

Re: What kids need from us?

Basically every child will seek the love & caring. The parents should give both love and care to their child first.

Secondly, all kids need recognition and appreciation, even for a very small activity. Just clapping - for a toddler tries to stand a fraction of second - is a motivation. It will certainly increase the self confidence of the kid.

Re: What kids need from us?

Hi Kartiiii

Very interesting thread.

According to my knowledge we should never under estimate any child. We should give some response to them. We should ask their suggestion also.... and we should not force them for anything. Then they will feel secure and their mind also will be free.

First give your kid trust.... if they trust us.... they will share everything with us. Once they started to share everything with us.... then which one they can share with us only they will do... they won't think beyond that.

Re: What kids need from us?

Good as usual Ramm! Yeah, Agreed with your Last Statement..

Originally Posted by ramyaraj

Hi Kartiiii

Very interesting thread.

According to my knowledge we should never under estimate any child. We should give some response to them. We should ask their suggestion also.... and we should not force them for anything. Then they will feel secure and their mind also will be free.

First give your kid trust.... if they trust us.... they will share everything with us. Once they started to share everything with us.... then which one they can share with us only they will do... they won't think beyond that.

Re: What kids need from us?

according to me first they need an appreciation....whatever things they do ,we have to appreciate them like clap or a small hug .....appreciation not only makes them happy its like a boost to do their work in a right way...

And they need a complete care from us....we have to spend some time to play,to chat with them then only they can share their views and suggestions ...we should not underestimate them...we should not compare them with other kids based ontheir activities.....not force to do the things if they are not interested ....we should be friendly always and we have to trust them...

Re: What kids need from us?

Well Said Dugg.. Comparing kids with other children is a Recipe for Disaster. And As you Said, Compelling Kids to do things they don't want to do is highly awful.. Atharkku, We can try to encourage them to be active in general. BTW THanks Durgg

according to me first they need an appreciation....whatever things they do ,we have to appreciate them like clap or a small hug .....appreciation not only makes them happy its like a boost to do their work in a right way...

And they need a complete care from us....we have to spend some time to play,to chat with them then only they can share their views and suggestions ...we should not underestimate them...we should not compare them with other kids based ontheir activities.....not force to do the things if they are not interested ....we should be friendly always and we have to trust them...