Stillbirth Support Group

It's happened.

So ladies I went to by OB and found out that I am 6 weeks 5 days pregnant. I'm so scared words can't explain it. There are so many emotions that I am going through but I don't want to show it. I haven't told no one but my mom and sister because they were there for me when my angel passed away. My husband is more scared than me. Losing our baby girl was the hardest thing that we had been through. My four year old understand that his sister is an angel and he talks to her every night. I pray to God that this rainbow is going to be fine. I don't want to think nothing negative but it is so hard. I was told that I won't go the whole 40weeks, it will be about 37 weeks. These are going to be the longest 9 months of my life.

My husband and I gave birth to our angel in may 2013 I just found out I'm pregnant 4 wks 4 days and I am right there with you I am terrified and excited all in one. My husband is away at training and I have only told my mom ad sister as well I am waiting to tell him till thanksgiving because I don't want him worried. He took the passing of our little boy hard and I am nervous enough on my own I dont want to stress him while he is away. If u ever need someone to talk to just lmk I know what your going through and it's hard to find ppl who understand

Congratulations!!!! As parents losing a child is the hardest thing ever. At this moment all I do is thinks about my lil angel and how I miss her so much. At the same time I am excited for my baby that's in my tummy. There is so many emotions it's like I can not handle it. All I can do is tell myself everything is going to be fine and have faith. I know that my angel is watching down on us and making sure things are going to be fine. I must admit, my angel I want her in my arms so bad. :(

I completely understand how you feel! After losing my baby girl last year, I became pregnant with twins. I was absolutely terrified the entire pregnancy. Knowing that it was twins made it even more nerve racking. Just take it day by day..literally. Don't think about next week or next month. Just praise the milestones & try to think positive. Trust me, I know it's hard. I now have 3 month old twin girls and it is all a memory now. Good luck!

Congrats. Rainbow pregnancies are so stressful. You really need to be able to talk to your DH about it too. I know mine would be excited to find out but very upset I didn't tell him, especially if other people knew. You know your DH best. But a guy who would be worried sounds like a guy who would want to know.

You'll come to realize you can be simultaneously joyful and broken. It's really hard to experience both emotions but with time you get better at it. The preg with my rainbow was much harder emotionally than I anticipated. I attended a support group for subsequent pregnancies. It was really really helpful.

One day at a time. My mantra was "Today you're pregnant with a healthy baby. No one knows what tomorrow will hold so there's no sense fretting over it."

I lost my angel in April and just found out I'm barely 4 weeks preg....nervous and sooo hesitant but also hopeful and ecstatic as well!! Can't help but get my hopes up even though I am scared!!! Longest 9 months is right :/ when are you guys due?? I'm due June 19....anyone on June babies???

Congrats!!!! I am due May 13 2014 and I lost my angel on May 20 2013 . My ob told me that I will not go the 40 weeks so most likely I will delivery before my due that. I was told I will go til I am at 37 weeks. Right now it is stressful and even though I try not to be I can't help it. I just take it one day at a time and be very careful at the things that I do and the thingS that I eat. I'm am just really careful with everything when it comes to this pregnancy.

Hello, I have posted on her a couple times about my 35 week daughter that we lost in April 2013 and I am currently 7w6d pregnant due May 18th which is one day after my angels original due date. I am also scared out of my mind and I worry every day. This is my 4th pregnancy and I only have a dd who is 3. I am currently seeing my doctor every 2 weeks with a sono and I am buying a Doppler soon so I can hear the heart beat at home. I pray for all of us that we have healthy and happy pregnancies. We all deserve as little happiness in our lives!!

We just purchased a Doppler as well. My dr said I could go into office everyday if I wanted to hear heartbeat but I figured of I had one at home that would decrease from me going sometimes ;) I want to enjoy every second of this pregnancy but also just can't wait to have the baby safe and sound!!! Congrats and here's to h&h 9 months!!!

That's good your dr won't let you go past 37 weeks. I just want the baby safe and healthy in my arms this time!! So nerve racking!!! I have been the same way with watching everything I eat or even do. I'm taking my vitamins everyday. Don't want any blame that I didn't try my hardest to keep this baby safe!!! :/

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