WEBVTT WMUR'S ANDY HERSHBERGER THERE AS THE FAMILY CONFRONTED THE MAN RESPONSIBLE FOR HER DEATH. THE EMOTIONS SPILLED OVER IN A DOVER COURTROOM TODAY, AS THE FAMILY OF A WOMAN KILLED BY A DRUNK DRIVER GOT A CHANCE TO SPEAK TO HIM FACE TO FACE. HOW DO YOU LIVE WITH YOURSELF? HOW DO YOU LIVE WITH THE KNOWLEDGE THAT YOU TOOK A LIFE? IT WAS A HORRIFIC CRASH THAT KILLED ONE PERSON, SERIOUSLY HURT ANOTHER, AND WOUNDED TWO FAMILIES WHO WILL NEVER BE THE SAME. BRIAN AND LEA WERE NEWLYWEDS FROM MINNESOTA, TRAVELING THROUGH NEW ENGLAND, WHEN A CAR DRIVEN BY MATTHEW SOPAS CROSSED THE CENTER LINE ON ROUTE 4 IN ROLLINSFORD AND HIT THEM HEAD ON. MY FAMILY WILL ALWAYS SUFFER THE DEVASTATING LOSS OF LEAH. AND YOU WILL ALWAYS BE KNOWN AS THE DRUNK DRIVER WHO KILLED A WOMAN ON HER HONEYMOON. SHE DIED IN THE CRASH, AND HE SUFFERED FRACTURES AND BROKEN BONES. ON FRIDAY SOPAS PLEADED GUILTY TO 14 CHARGES INCLUDING ONE COUNT OF MANSLAUGHTER. I LOOK BACK TO THAT DAY AND I DON'T KNOW WHO THAT PERSON WAS, I CAN'T, AND I CAN'T DEFEND MYSELF. YOU KNOW, IT HAPPENED AND I TAKE RESPONSIBILITY FOR IT. SOPAS HAD A BLOOD ALCOHOL LEVEL TWICE THE LEGAL LIMIT AND HAD BEEN TAKING A HOST OF PRESCRIPTION PILLS AT THE TIME. AT SENTENCING HE APOLOGIZE FORWARD THE PAIN HE CAUSED EVERYONE INVOLVED AND WAS GIVEN A MINIMUM OF 10 YEARS IN PRISON. I WANT YOU TO KNOW THAT FORGIVENESS IS NOT AN OPTION. BECAUSE YOU TOOK AWAY SOMEONE VERY SPECIAL AND IMPORTANT TO ME. IF AT SOME POINT I CHOOSE TO FORGIVE YOU IT WILL BE SOLELY FOR MY BENEFIT AND NOT YOURS. NOTHING, NO AMOUNT OF PRISON TIME WILL BRING BACK LEAH. AND I GUESS I'M PLEASED WITH WHAT THE JUDGE DID, AS MUCH AS I CAN BE. THE JUDGE ALSO SUGGESTED THAT SOPAS COME UP WITH A PROGRAM TO