Question: Is fingering urself (anal) gay? I once fingered myself because I thought how would a woman feeling like getting fucked in the anal? then I thought of my own and it kinda felt Good'. So I fingered myself (in the anal) and tbh I don't think so I liked it & it hurted. Maybe it was me being curious about it or what?

Another question: I'm actually a BIG thinker. So I thought how does it feel like being woman and I thought " if I was a woman, that man would be okay for me.". Then this thing came that I started calling men cute LOL but I don't think so I'm sexually attracted to them..... Does that mean i'm gay/bisexual now? I am sexually attracted to women tbh

Your sexual orientation is determined by what gender you would prefer to have sex with if there were no other factors influencing your decision, like family or peer pressure, etc. If the sex you prefer is the same as your own then you are homosexual but if you are attracted to the opposite sex then you're not. Also, it's perfectly possible to have sex with a person of any sex or gender without it affecting your sexual orientation.It's not what you do that matters - it's what you PREFER to do.