If we decide
we'd want to work together, I will use these materials and information to design
a ceremony that is specific to your orientation,values and views, rather than
a prescribed predetermined ceremony. This allow for diversity in ceremonies,
allows me to integrate differences in religious orientation and belief, while
maintaining creativity for me, and authenticity and honesty for you.

I would e-mail you with my draft of the ceremony for your review, and would
integrate this feedback until you have a ceremony that meets your requirements
and liking. This is completed prior to the ceremony so you are not surprised
by any of the content of the ceremony.

I hope this is helpful for you in your decision making process. I'm happy to
answer any more specific questions you may have by phone at 610-667-8353.

Are there
any rituals you want included in the ceremony? ie: rings, vows, readings,
music, family acknowledgment, etc.
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Where
and when are you being married? Location, directions, time, etc.
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Are
you having a bridal party? If so, please give me the names and roles these
people will play in the ceremony.
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Are
there any particular words that you are comfortable or uncomfortable with
that I’d need to know about in designing your ceremony.
(ie: Some people want to include spiritual and religious references like the
words God. Christ or Spirit, some people want to include words such as trust,
caring, honor, etc. This can help me use language to best reflect your feelings.)
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Anything
else about your loving, your relationship, your history, your families and
the ceremony that you’d like me to know about so I can better represent your
beliefs and perspectives in the formation of the wedding ceremony?
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