What Women Notice When Meeting Men

eye confidence

What is the most effective way to look at a woman in a club or bar? You want her to see a sexy gleam in your eye. Look directly into her eyes, and as if you were going to hypnotize her, smile and think to yourself: "I like what I see." Although flirting with a woman should not be an obvious come-on, there is nothing wrong with thinking of her sexually when looking into her eyes.

Using your eyes effectively with a woman has a twofold purpose. First, you express your obvious interest in her. Second, you can observe and read what she is communicating through her eye contact. Looking away after establishing eye contact with a woman implies weakness. When you establish eye contact with her for the first time, let her break the look. You may be uncomfortable, but try it; it works!

Most women can tell if a man has cheating eyes, lying eyes, dishonest eyes, married eyes, wandering eyes, or sincere eyes.

If a man uses his eyes incorrectly, he may destroy his chances of successfully approaching a woman. Women are intuitive; they can sense if a man is desperate or confident by the way he looks at them.

If a man avoids eye contact, he sends a message that he lacks experience with women, is shy, or lacks confidence. If he stares too hard, he makes women uncomfortable. Men who haven't had much experience with women look at them in a lustful way. Men who have look at them in a confident way that says, "I can have you!" This is challenging to women.

Other than to see if he is wearing a wedding band, there are two other reasons women notice a man's hands. Some women equate the distance between the tip of a man's middle finger and the base of his hand, where the hand meets the wrist, with the length of his erect penis. Second, if a man's ring finger is longer than his index finger, purportedly, he has a high testosterone level. If his ring finger is equal to the length of his index finger, his testosterone level is average. If the ring finger is shorter than his index finger, his testosterone level is below average.

Men don't smile as easily and as often as women do. If a woman is happy or experiences feelings of joy, she smiles. Canvass a club on any Friday or Saturday night; you will notice very few men with smiles on their faces. Most of them look as if they really don't want to be there.

Average-looking people who smile often are more appealing than handsome men or beautiful women who don't smile.

A man's smile indicates that he is charming, optimistic, friendly, expressive with his feelings, likes what he sees, and, most importantly, that he is approachable. When we smile, our facial muscles stimulate our nervous system to produce a hormone called cerebral morphine. This hormone gives us a pleasant, calming feeling. It also has an anesthetic effect. Notice men who are always with women in a club. I'll bet you 10 to one they smile a whole lot.