Here is a good lesson about Indoensian culture.
( if you are not interested, that's fine with me )

If an older man calls a girl (or woman) "my daughter" and in fact he's not related to the girl at all, it shows an expression of friendliness. And usually the girls will call herself by her name instead of saying I.

Here is an example :

Bambang : Dear, uncle wants to get to the post office. Could you please tell uncle the way?

Dixie : Oh sure .... First .... then ... and so on.

Bambang : Thank you dear. Btw, what's your name dear?

Dixie : My name is Dixie, uncle.

Bambang : Can Dixie drop uncle there please?

Dixie : Sorry uncle. Dixie is in a hurry.

Bambang uses uncle instead of I.

Dixie uses her name instead of I.

They try to minimise the word "you" or"I"

"You" or "I" sounds impolite when we speak to the younger or older ones.

Next time, uncle Bambang will give Dixie some lessons about Indonesian culture. (if Dixie wants)

Dear Dixie.

There are many cases here on some people who have studied/stayed abroad for a long time and then they come back to Indonesia. They sound impolite or even arrogant because they have been contaminated by English expression. And usually they need some time to re-adapt themselves to the manner of Indonesian language.

Nanning wrote:To whom it may concernFree sex is fine with me.There is nothing wrong with free sex as long as the opposite party is not your family member or your pets.Condom or no condom that is a matter of choice, the society is hard to raise you and please do not add more burden to it with your f***! Clean your mess!

Oh dear Nanning, you are so incredible.
Having sex with pets. Wooooow !!!
How do you feel about that?
Much more ehhhhemmmmm?
I have some dogs, cats, ducks, ants, bees, flies, horses, etc.

Interested ?

If the answer is yes, then psyhologically speaking, you are suuffering from a mental disorder called "sexual deviation"

Dear Bambang,
I regret that you made such a comment on me.but you seem to live in a world where there are only things you know about.
I said it is NOT a pet,note the negative!
When you grow up to some age, you will know your uncle Nanning is correct and he has kindly taught you a lot about the life.You know in English there is a word "bestiality", check it out.

Nanning wrote:Dear Bambang,I regret that you made such a comment on me.but you seem to live in a world where there are only things you know about.I said it is NOT a pet,note the negative!When you grow up to some age, you will know your uncle Nanning is correct and he has kindly taught you a lot about the life.You know in English there is a word "bestiality", check it out.

Nanning wrote:Dear Bambang,I regret that you made such a comment on me.

My dear Nanning, It was not a comment. That was a reality. It's you.

Nanning wrote:When you grow up to some age, you will know your uncle Nanning is correct and he has kindly taught you a lot about the life.

Then, we should call you great-grandpa.Pretty cool huh !!!

Nanning wrote:You know in English there is a word "bestiality", check it out.

Unfortunately, as a great-grandpa, you are too late to know who you really are. I think you just knew that word (bestiality) ten years ago after you were introduced to the internet. In fact that word has already been inherent with you great-grandpa since grandpapapa was born. It's so you grandpa.

But, it's not too late to change, grandpa.
Not too old to change.
People change, old man!!!
Kill your bestiality my dearest great-grandpapapap..

Come back to the right track, old man !

There's always a second chance in life.

Supernaturally speaking, seems this old great-grandpa knows too much about "sexual deviation"

Don't browse the porn sites too much grandpa.

This is the time.

Change, grandpa.

Change.

1 word : change.

However, if my dearest great-grandpa doesn't want any change, it's fine. I still have some cockroaches and lizards and an iguana and a mother bee here.

I am not sure who should be called to be old and out. In China, the saying goes that when one is old, he talks a lot without knowing what he is really talking about.
One with so bad reading comprehension should first refresh his grammar and reading skills. I think it is today that you know the word bestiality, but with my guidance....
Period.

Nanning wrote:Dear Bambang,I regret that you made such a comment on me.

My dear Nanning, It was not a comment. That was a reality. It's you.

Nanning wrote:When you grow up to some age, you will know your uncle Nanning is correct and he has kindly taught you a lot about the life.

Then, we should call you great-grandpa.Pretty cool huh !!!

Nanning wrote:You know in English there is a word "bestiality", check it out.

Unfortunately, as a great-grandpa, you are too late to know who you really are. I think you just knew that word (bestiality) ten years ago after you were introduced to the internet. In fact that word has already been inherent with you great-grandpa since grandpapapa was born. It's so you grandpa.

But, it's not too late to change, grandpa.Not too old to change.People change, old man!!!Kill your bestiality my dearest great-grandpapapap..

Come back to the right track, old man !

There's always a second chance in life.

Supernaturally speaking, seems this old great-grandpa knows too much about "sexual deviation"

Don't browse the porn sites too much grandpa.

This is the time.

Change, grandpa.

Change.

1 word : change.

However, if my dearest great-grandpa doesn't want any change, it's fine. I still have some cockroaches and lizards and an iguana and a mother bee here.

Nanning wrote:I am not sure who should be called to be old and out.

Psychologically speaking, this great-grandpa is suffering from a mental disorder called "a doubter". At extreme level, it's called "irresolution addict"

Nanning wrote:In China, the saying goes that when one is old, he talks a lot without knowing what he is really talking about.

Nothing wring with that saying. I agree 100 %.

But, don't be pessimistic my great-grandpa.You are not that old.Some of your ideas are still okay.But of course, most of them are not.But as a great-grandpa, that's not bad.

Nanning wrote:One with so bad reading comprehension should first refresh his grammar and reading skills. I think it is today that you know the word bestiality, but with my guidance.... Period.

Thanks for teaching us my dearest great-grandpa.
We all hope great-grandpa is just fine.

By participating in this forum, great-granda is doing a good activity. It's good to slow down the senile decay.

Psychologically speaking, this great-grandpa is being mad at someone. It's not good for your mental growth grandpa. Calm down my sweet great-grandpa.

Ginnan wrote:Recentry, the drama that a 14-year-old girl had a baby was popular in Japan. It is very rare to have a baby when we are so young in Japan. How about your country? I think it is too early. Because I can not do what I want to do with a baby. What do you think?

I agree with you,it's too early to have a baby.The truth is beyond belief.

Nanning wrote:Dear Bambang,I regret that you made such a comment on me.

My dear Nanning, It was not a comment. That was a reality. It's you.

Nanning wrote:When you grow up to some age, you will know your uncle Nanning is correct and he has kindly taught you a lot about the life.

Then, we should call you great-grandpa.Pretty cool huh !!!

Nanning wrote:You know in English there is a word "bestiality", check it out.

Unfortunately, as a great-grandpa, you are too late to know who you really are. I think you just knew that word (bestiality) ten years ago after you were introduced to the internet. In fact that word has already been inherent with you great-grandpa since grandpapapa was born. It's so you grandpa.

But, it's not too late to change, grandpa.Not too old to change.People change, old man!!!Kill your bestiality my dearest great-grandpapapap..

Come back to the right track, old man !

There's always a second chance in life.

Supernaturally speaking, seems this old great-grandpa knows too much about "sexual deviation"

Don't browse the porn sites too much grandpa.

This is the time.

Change, grandpa.

Change.

1 word : change.

However, if my dearest great-grandpa doesn't want any change, it's fine. I still have some cockroaches and lizards and an iguana and a mother bee here.

Nanning wrote:I am not sure who should be called to be old and out.

Psychologically speaking, this great-grandpa is suffering from a mental disorder called "a doubter". At extreme level, it's called "irresolution addict"

Nanning wrote:In China, the saying goes that when one is old, he talks a lot without knowing what he is really talking about.

Nothing wring with that saying. I agree 100 %.

But, don't be pessimistic my great-grandpa.You are not that old.Some of your ideas are still okay.But of course, most of them are not.But as a great-grandpa, that's not bad.

Nanning wrote:One with so bad reading comprehension should first refresh his grammar and reading skills. I think it is today that you know the word bestiality, but with my guidance.... Period.

Thanks for teaching us my dearest great-grandpa.We all hope great-grandpa is just fine.

By participating in this forum, great-granda is doing a good activity. It's good to slow down the senile decay.

Psychologically speaking, this great-grandpa is being mad at someone. It's not good for your mental growth grandpa. Calm down my sweet great-grandpa.

Bambang
You lost something. What was that? Your temper!
Can you use your head before you open your mouth?
Do not always say "...ly speaking" as if you were an expert. Try to learn from each other.
Would you listen to your grandpa, that is me, haha, just for once?

Nanning wrote:Dear Bambang,I regret that you made such a comment on me.

My dear Nanning, It was not a comment. That was a reality. It's you.

Nanning wrote:When you grow up to some age, you will know your uncle Nanning is correct and he has kindly taught you a lot about the life.

Then, we should call you great-grandpa.Pretty cool huh !!!

Nanning wrote:You know in English there is a word "bestiality", check it out.

Unfortunately, as a great-grandpa, you are too late to know who you really are. I think you just knew that word (bestiality) ten years ago after you were introduced to the internet. In fact that word has already been inherent with you great-grandpa since grandpapapa was born. It's so you grandpa.

But, it's not too late to change, grandpa.Not too old to change.People change, old man!!!Kill your bestiality my dearest great-grandpapapap..

Come back to the right track, old man !

There's always a second chance in life.

Supernaturally speaking, seems this old great-grandpa knows too much about "sexual deviation"

Don't browse the porn sites too much grandpa.

This is the time.

Change, grandpa.

Change.

1 word : change.

However, if my dearest great-grandpa doesn't want any change, it's fine. I still have some cockroaches and lizards and an iguana and a mother bee here.

Nanning wrote:I am not sure who should be called to be old and out.

Psychologically speaking, this great-grandpa is suffering from a mental disorder called "a doubter". At extreme level, it's called "irresolution addict"

Nanning wrote:In China, the saying goes that when one is old, he talks a lot without knowing what he is really talking about.

Nothing wring with that saying. I agree 100 %.

But, don't be pessimistic my great-grandpa.You are not that old.Some of your ideas are still okay.But of course, most of them are not.But as a great-grandpa, that's not bad.

Nanning wrote:One with so bad reading comprehension should first refresh his grammar and reading skills. I think it is today that you know the word bestiality, but with my guidance.... Period.

Thanks for teaching us my dearest great-grandpa.We all hope great-grandpa is just fine.

By participating in this forum, great-granda is doing a good activity. It's good to slow down the senile decay.

Psychologically speaking, this great-grandpa is being mad at someone. It's not good for your mental growth grandpa. Calm down my sweet great-grandpa.

Great-grandson, thank you, well, I don't think I deserve such respect from you.
but once again you lost something, your dignity.
OK, Let us forget about those bullshit. Peace starts at home.
Let me introduce Nanning, a southern city in China.Last year, President Susilo set his feet on it, together with 9 other leaders of ASEAN countries.It is a beautiful city and I do hope that one day you can enjoy it.
Can we not talk as family members since you have agreed to call me grandpa?Stay cool and I know it is hot out there in Jakata all the year round.

I think it all depends on the parents, how they educate and teach their children.
It never happened in our society that a girl 14 years old bears a child,
'cause here our parents teach us by principles and morality since we are just children.
We know what the right to do is, and what the wrong is.

Bambang,
I do not like to quote you and then refute you point by point.
Of course we are from the same family, as far as I know we live in the same planet, which is our mutual home.
And here the englishclub is our home, isn't it?
China-ASEAN Expo will be held in October this year in Nanning once again, you are welcome to join your country's delegation to visit Nanning.
If I have said anything (like the 4th wife,do they not have four wives in Indonesia?)that offends you, could you forgive and forget?

Nanning wrote:Bambang,I do not like to quote you and then refute you point by point.

Of course we are from the same family, as far as I know we live in the same planet, which is our mutual home.

And here the englishclub is our home, isn't it?China-ASEAN Expo will be held in October this year in Nanning once again, you are welcome to join your country's delegation to visit Nanning.If I have said anything (like the 4th wife,do they not have four wives in Indonesia?)that offends you, could you forgive and forget?

I didn't mean to refute you.It just came up to my mind spontaneously.

Since we are families, then you can call me brother, or uncle is preferable.

Welcome my friend !!!

Englishclub is our mutual home.

Nightwish wrote:It never happened in our society that a girl 14 years old bears a child,...

Really?
Or maybe you just don't know my dear.
Usually this case is covered tightly since it is considered as a shame for the family.

nightwish wrote:I think it all depends on the parents, how they educate and teach their children. It never happened in our society that a girl 14 years old bears a child, 'cause here our parents teach us by principles and morality since we are just children. We know what the right to do is, and what the wrong is.

Actually I don't like to join to this kind of discussions, I favorite to read view and opinions.But your post incited me.Even in western society some people still teach their children morality and chaste.It's a nature, but if you can't discuss this important point without defining of common point…

The discussion should depended on logic not desires, and our decision will be as a base of another concepts and results…

As it is supposed from your statement above that such an up-bringing in western families is more an exception than a rule... And soon as I consider myslef as a member of a western society let me disagree with you