If I were married and had that conversation, we'd have to have an honest discussion about what "unfulfilled" meant to her. I can let go of sex a lot easier than emotional and intellectual attachment. How are we as a couple in the other ways that matter? If we've lost THAT connection, I'd just hug her and give her her freedom because I've failed her completely.

Being kicked out of the bedroom and sleeping in another room would be another problem for me, because there is sill cuddling and sleeping together, even without sex. If I'm out of the room during sex, I understand that. I'd prefer to watch somebody satisfy her in way I can't, but if she'd rather not have me there, I understand.

The problem with just being in another bedroom and she has all these lovers and we have no real connection other than the fact that I can provide for her is she will eventually fall in love with one of her lovers and leave me. Maybe not intentionally, but it would happen. I believe part of what draws a couple together is good sex. Some women will put up with a total a-hole if the sex is good. I've seen it enough times, and I do believe she deserved better. She just couldn't help it.

I'd be open to a "loving" cuckold relationship. Even with no lover for me other than what she lets me be involved in. Even with her teasing me a little about it. A "cold" cuckold relationship? I'd just let her go, because she would be happier that way, and so would I. Of course, it's all a fantasy anyway. Why would any normal person want to marry and let that happen, submit to chastity, clean up afterwards and just be in an FLR? I'm probably messed up in the head to even consider it or be turned on by the idea. It's a safe thought for me, because it will never happen. It makes for some great material in my erotica

_________________I'm working on the House Of Feminization blog that I hope can be of help to CD's/Sissies/T-Girls and women who want to understand them. This is just the beginning of a bigger project.

Candigurl, you've hit on a thing that a lot of horny strokers miss: the need for emotional intimacy!!! It's not just all physical, is it? We're hardwired to need and crave emotional intimacy: long talks, and sharing feelings, and just being close to loved ones can all provide us with huge positive benefits. There's a study across decades on orphans that proves that without loving touch and kindness, we just fail to become happy well adjusted adults. We even get sick more often!

I'm super pleased that you're willing to both entertain a cuckold relationship, and that you put limits around your own emotional needs. Excellent!