Trust is earned, respect is given, & loyalty is demonstrated. Betrayal of any one is to loose all three.

Posts: 439 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: SF Bay Area/NorCal

Holly-Isis♀ 13447Member # 13447

Posted: 7:04 PM, August 1st (Friday), 2014

Wonder if you could write the info for SI on a sign or two.

Thought about doing so,etching similar at the new condo xOw2 bought right before d-day. Like a pic of MrH and one of her and a note saying "If you've met xOw2, your newest neighbor in 1234B, know that her 'BF' is a married man and she's "thankful for the time [he] takes away from his children to be with her." So welcome "Harlot" if you want but be cautious around her.

What actually held me back was a few things:
The drive- 45 mins or worse in traffic.
Nobody to watch the kids as I did that.
Knowing that xOw2 is a vindictive and litigious b!tch.

[This message edited by Holly-Isis at 7:05 PM, August 1st (Friday)]

"Being in love" first moved them to promise fidelity: this quieter love enables them to keep the promise. *CS Lewis*

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Amazonia♀ 32810Member # 32810

Posted: 2:39 AM, August 2nd (Saturday), 2014

He comes up right away on Pipl. Anyone with a Spokeo account could easily get contact info for his relatives. Four women on his facebook profile with the same last name - could easily be a wife and three relatives, or Been Verified has a woman with a different last name listed as his spouse.

The internet. Remarkable.

[This message edited by Amazonia at 2:42 AM, August 2nd (Saturday)]

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HFSSC♀ 33338Member # 33338

Posted: 8:44 AM, August 2nd (Saturday), 2014

Dang, Ama. I didn't even think of that. Something to think about. Thanks!

Me, 49
Him, 41 (JMSSC)
married 19 years. In R. We are making it. The past does not define who we are today.

Posts: 3709 | Registered: Sep 2011 | From: South Carolina

Amazonia♀ 32810Member # 32810

Posted: 9:43 AM, August 2nd (Saturday), 2014

ps - if you open those pics in Microsoft Paint you can easily black out his name and face, since this is the internet... you would just need to save them to your photobucket again.

ETA: or if you're on a Mac without Paint, download Skitch, you'll find it very useful.

[This message edited by Amazonia at 9:44 AM, August 2nd (Saturday)]

"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ