I'm worried - I don't want to be a screamer, I really don't. I really hope that I'm a quiet one just because I don't want to scream like that. I have to be honest - one of my fears is pooping all over the place. [Laughter] Because I hear sometimes that it just h appens and I don't want it to happen. I'm sure [the midwives] have dealt with that before, but I hope that doesn't happen. It's one of my fears, it really is.

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