Every year I select one book that I
designate as the best book that I read that year. This year that book will be Forgive the Moon by Maryanne Stahl. This
book has touched me and moved me in ways, few books ever do. It made me laugh
and cry and ponder the direction of my own life. I read a lot of books,
personally and professionally, this level of praise is rare, but a book like
this is rare.

Forgive
the Moon is set at the Laughing Gull Cottages, a beachside resort in
Montauk, Long Island, NY. The Sinclair family clan has gathered for its annual
week at the beach. This year, however, a few family members are conspicuously
missing. Barbara Sinclair, the former matriarch, was killed in a car crash one
week after last year’s vacation. The impact of her absence on the vacation is a
concern for everyone this year. Isabella Kincaid, Barbara’s granddaughter, is a
college freshman in Boston and has opted to take an internship in hopes of
gaining a senior intern’s heart. While Isabella’s absence is not unexpected,
the absence of her father, Keith Kincaid, is highly suspicious. No one is more
aware of his absence than his wife, Amanda Kincaid, Barbara’s eldest child and
Isabella’s mom, who has been placed in the hot seat to explain why he is not
present, but how can she tell her children and her family that Keith has asked
to use the week as a trial separation? Or that he has quit his prestigious job
at the insurance company to go into business with a much younger single woman?
Or that she may be pregnant and history may be repeating itself just like when
he began to pull away from her in college? Or, that she finds the almost divorced
doctor-musician to be too sexy to keep her hands off of? Amanda has a lot of
explaining to do not only to her family, but also to herself, if only her
extended family will give her the time and space to think about the answers.

What makes this novel so extraordinary
is its ordinariness. The characters are real, their lifestyles are real, and
their dilemmas are also very real. These are not millionaire jetsetters. Their
crises are not earth shattering or life threatening. In fact, the issues at
hand, a death of a parent, a collapsing marriage, an untimely pregnancy, and
sexual temptations are just the fodder of daily life. Amanda just needs the
time and space to make sense of it all out. As a product of her era, Amanda
married because she got pregnant, gave up her hopes of a career as a musician
to care for her family, and now may have gotten pregnant to “save the
marriage”. Unfortunately, she is not sure she wants to save her marriage, or be
pregnant again at forty, or if her husband does leave her, if she can support
herself and her family. Michael Burns is also a man of his era who is going
through his own period of searching. He is a well-respected doctor, but he
finds greater pleasure as an amateur musician and jeweler. He is all but
divorced, all that is left is the financial package, but that might include the
loss of his beloved beach house to his soon-to-be ex-wife. He is lonely for a
woman’s touch and Amanda is everything his wife was not. Barbara, the dear
departed, but not gone mother is a major presence in this story. Barbara
developed schizophrenia, after the birth of Lizzy, her third and final child.
Though out the story, she is depicted as sitting quietly smoking a cigarette.
Amanda remembers her mother before her illness as an alive but emotionally
fragile woman, but Lizzy has never known her mother without her mental illness
or the effects of the drugs used to treat it. It is Amanda, however, who feels
bitter for being robbed of what Lizzie never even knew. She is also angry that
she never took the chance to be closer to her mother. She is especially aware
how she squandered those opportunities during last summer’s vacation. Amanda
cannot forgive her mother for her illness or herself for not reaching out more.
Athena, the owner of the Laughing Gull Cottages, is an enigmatic character that
casts her spell over the characters in this novel. Like an earth mother
goddess, she floats through the story in her gauze dresses and Birkenstocks
talking about the healing qualities of gems and herbal teas. She seems to be
able to read Amanda’s mind and to make the most improbable things happen. If
she is not an earthbound spirit then at least for those who know her, she has
achieved a reputation of mythic proportions.

Maryanne Stahl is a professor of
literature and creative writing at Kennesaw State University in Atlanta, GA.
She is, however, a native New Yorker. Forgive
the Moon is her first novel and she is currently writing her second novel
set on Shelter Island, NY.

Forgive
the Moon by Maryanne Stahl is an exquisite novel. The characters and
setting are as beautiful as they are real. Like the light of the moon dancing
on the ocean waves at night, this novel is liberally sprinkled with nature’s
own brilliant gems. This is a book to read again and again. Buy two copies –
one to share and one to keep, because like true love this book is a treasure
that will never be far from your heart. Need I say it? I HIGHLY recommend this
book.

Su Terry: Education:
B.A. in History from Sacred Heart University, M.L.S. in Library Science from
Southern Connecticut State College, M.R.S. in Religious Studies/Pastoral
Counseling from Fairfield University, a M.Div. in Professional Ministry from
New Brunswick Theological Seminary, a Certificate in Spirituality/Spiritual
Direction from Sacred Heart University. She is a Licensed Minister of the
United Church of Christ and an Assistant Professor in Library Science at
Dowling College, Long Island, NY. Interests in Mental Health: She is interested
in the interplay between psychology, biology, and mysticism. Her current area
of research is in the impact of hormonal fluctuation in female Christian
mystics.

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