If she asks me not to turn on the lights or to turn them off...and it's our first time, I have no issues at all with following through with her request. On occasion I've enjoyed lights out sex myself.

I will have already known what she looks like - clothed or semi-clothed, and I'm a not bad judge of visual clues according to what I like or not.

Change of pace isn't a bad thing. Besides, it does tend (after our eyes become accustomed to the darkness) to allow us to use and enjoy our other heightened tactile senses a bit differently.

I wouldn't devote too many brain cycles into the various whys and why nots she may have in her own psyche for keeping the lights off all the time, if she and I were to constantly hook up and she desired the lights out scenario all the time.

Hell, we're still getting laid, right Plow?Obscenity is the last refuge of an inarticulate motherfucker.

Personally, there are a hundred reasons why I would opt for lights out sex or mood lighting sex as many of them have already been outlined above. That's not to say I haven't or don't enjoy lights on or daylight sex which can be equally as hot but at my age, I can use all the mood lighting I can get, lol! At the end of the day, we're still both getting laid so why over think it? Just relax and enjoy the ride.

Personally, there are a hundred reasons why I would opt for lights out sex or mood lighting sex as many of them have already been outlined above. That's not to say I haven't or don't enjoy lights on or daylight sex which can be equally as hot but at my age, I can use all the mood lighting I can get, lol! At the end of the day, we're still both getting laid so why over think it? Just relax and enjoy the ride.

Do not exaggerate your self awareness too much, (however natural), and underestimate your real physical as well as mental attributes.The expressive mind, a twinkle in the eyes, one posses so much sexual potency.Real women will always leave Barbie in the dark.

Of all our inventions for mass communication, pictures still speak the most universally understood language.

Indeed sex in daylight is quite alright.... but I too really love mood lighting. It really isn't so much about not seeing her, or us, but about making the world melt away and it is ONLY us. We can see enough to enjoy each other, but the world melts away.

If it's day, then the lights don't need to be "on" anyway, if it's night why would you go out of your way to turn them on? Unless they are already on. Though if the bed (if that is where you are) is under the light, it can glare in your eyes. I know mine does. I don't even masturbate with the light on for this reason. I usually have my eyes open, and the odds are the light will glare into my eyes. How annoying.

Sight is probably the least important sense when it comes to sex. Reducing visual stimulus can heighten the other, more important senses.

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In our house it depends on when and where. We don't turn the lights on if it's the middle of the night and we wake up horny. But if we're in the loungeroom, we don't turn them off. " I don't know the question, but sex is definitely the answer"Woody Allen

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