I propose that we annually (or anally) pay tribute to her by ceremoniously posting pictures of a sextoy, a balloon knot, and some substance of slippery value.

I am very disturbed at you guys for making fun of the young lady who posted the picture of her sex-toys in a thread titled show of your toy collection

I deleted the thread in question and the banner that was made to promote that thread. I also gave her instructions on what to do if she found other references to her pictures, etc...

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Originally Posted by gf_of_boy

hi. i was wondering if you are able to edit out any post that has the picture of the banner that was made without my consent with my picture on it? i had an email escalated to the owner of this site by Matt Cohn so i could get the thread i started that was recently vaulted deleted, and the banner deleted also. but i am also seeing a copy of this banner floating around in posts too. can you see to it that these are edited out? or do i need to escalate an email to the owner once again? thanks for your time.

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Originally Posted by sanjay

Right click on the banners you find and ask the site hosting them to take them off. If they are hosted on genmay.com or .net then just email me the link. I do not have the time for all of your silly requests and I am not worried about legal threats, especially since you posted your dildo collection to start this mess off. I felt bad for you and got rid of one thread and the banner, but you're on your own right now. There are no laws being broken and the burden is upon you to find every instance that your real name is being used and email it to us. As for pictures- if they are not hosted on genmay then you have to contact the host.

I assure you if you just go away for a while- nobody will care. If we keep editing/moving they will make a thousand threads about you.

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Originally Posted by gf_of_boy

My requests are not silly when it comes to obeying the law. I’m sorry I keep bothering you about this, as I really don’t care what anyone on this forum thinks of me or if they will forget it or not. What I do care about however is the false accusations on the forums that are public and can be seen by my family, friends, and my employer. I have no problem with what goes on at your forum and what the trends are. It’s all fun and games and guy stuff and that’s greats. But there is one huge difference between what goes on on this site and what happened in those two threads. It is one thing to be silly and mean to one another on a frequent basis when everyone involved is knowing of this and do not feel threatened, but it is quite another when it turns into harassment in every sense of the word. At one point someone even said “oh look she lives in [city], its rape time!” You may not think that this is serious but as a victim of sexual assault I take this very seriously. The fact that your moderators and members took the time to make a 100+ thread about me, when that one was locked made ANOTHER thread about unlocking the old thread, and then made a banner about me, shows that they could very well come to my city and find me easily. I don’t know what type of sick people are on your forums. Your moderators should have been doing their job and seen that this jumped the line from being harmless to harassment, instead they decided to be a part of it. That is disturbing and sickening when the people who you trust to obey all laws and conditions of the internet and your site itself jump over that boundary. It doesn’t matter if you are the most open minded forum in the world; you still have to obey laws. I would think that someone who is of such high esteem at this forum and around the internet would understand something like this. Perhaps all the authority figures on your site should be prepped on internet laws. Honestly, forget about it. It’s not worth my time or yours if you won’t even admit to something like this being a problem. Thank you for your time and for deleting that first thread.

pic for reference

Why would you guys proceed to make fun of her using that picture and other public information that either she or her boyfriend disclosed? Shameful.

summary of your idiocy-

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Kabn's CliffsToying with Disaster
2007-09-18
1530 CDT

gf_of_boy (mercifully refered to as "OP" from now on) posts a thread featuring a pic of various sexual toys on a bed and text leading us to believe they are hers and inviting us to post our own.

boyfriend comes back to say that, because we found and posted personal details and picturs, OP had an anxiety attack and had to be taken to the hospital. [Ed note: this is the first time i have heard of someone being hospitalized as a direct result of GenMay's collective action.]

not bagging on you Sanjay, but I thought the rules stated as long as you didn't post private information that it was fair game. I only posted twice in that thread, and all I saw were people that found her public pages with pictures.

Should we add to the forum rules "No making people feel bad"? I'm just trying to understand where "the line" is around here. It seems to be getting shorter.

That is disturbing and sickening when the people who you trust to obey all laws and conditions of the internet and your site itself jump over that boundary. It doesn’t matter if you are the most open minded forum in the world; you still have to obey laws.