tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6736617182137870565.post1491767907141972000..comments2012-09-12T15:55:06.713+05:30Comments on random thoughts......: Men, Women and Chauvinism!Sudersan Srinivasanhttps://plus.google.com/108517101673711776822noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6736617182137870565.post-83941723028378667832012-09-12T15:55:06.713+05:302012-09-12T15:55:06.713+05:30I do not want to get into everything you have trie...I do not want to get into everything you have tried to explain. Cos each and every example you had quoted can by itself have a long explanation and might not be relevant to the topic itself.<br />Chauvinism to me is simple n don think has such a big evolution process... <br />It is very much true that women were important and protected for their ability to reproduce long back. As the population increased, family n community system evolved, a common lifestyle was also evolving. There was segregation of job to avoid overburdening. This i guess was done also condisering the fact that men were physically more stronger and women might have security issues working outside home. Thus i guess the work for the normal living was split the way it is (Men will be the bread winner, and the women will be the home maker). Through time men started dominating as their job is paid n the woman’s is not... Their Physical strength and the woman’s dependency and helplessness helped them even more. <br />This was the norm... Every child born was thought and brought up to live life this way when they grow up... Where guys have least or no restrictions and women are controlled or overlooked in everything they want to do. Anything that goes wrong when a guy does can be ignored... but if its the girl, it affects the whole family... All this has given a sense of superiority complex in the male gene itself.<br />In the current world, when men see women as equals or even better than them, they are not able to take it. Trying to dominate comes spontaneously. Mentally or Physically. <br />(Sometimes even a sense of insecurity makes them dominate women. It is the fear of loosing the girl in a relationship. But not many realize that this way of reacting could by itself end the relationship sometime....!)<br />I find the main reason for this chauvinism to be women herself.... Every mom has put this in the guys mind with the way they have brought them up... Very much, the Society looks at men and women in their respective places a lot of times. Any change is wierd to a lot of people even today.<br />But i guess things are changing... Two three generations down the line no guy can be dominating women as they are doing now... Men have started realizing already. Women need to make their male child realize this. All the best to all the MOMs reading this...! :D<br />madhumitha chandrasekharhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10821617956681745787noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6736617182137870565.post-79388769939539310402012-01-31T12:42:02.423+05:302012-01-31T12:42:02.423+05:30um, i dont know who u are...! agame? and although ...um, i dont know who u are...! agame? and although my reply to the prev reply is still pending... i wud like to clarify that i dont imply women have the taste to choose, instead, i mean women have the need to choose!!!!pseudo-thinkerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04660745566294837797noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6736617182137870565.post-26969187024384789892012-01-31T12:30:11.399+05:302012-01-31T12:30:11.399+05:30I love the reply.. its nicely written considering ...I love the reply.. its nicely written considering your research and ur personal opinion! If u ask me, i think in many ways women have the upper hand coz we still have the taste to choose :Dagamehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12065446755353603884noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6736617182137870565.post-61717839086480814672012-01-17T21:14:28.787+05:302012-01-17T21:14:28.787+05:30&quot;But how did religion change into a male bast...&quot;But how did religion change into a male bastion and how did women lose their importance, so evident from the pagan times…?&quot;<br /><br />- dude, technically no religion debases women! (Certain men/priests may have preached so)<br /><br />&quot;Although men were important in the society, there have been lots of instances where women have played a major role behind the scene as well as upfront! I cant help but mention Cleopatra in this context! Although am not trying portray her in any bad light (am not doing her character analysis), it is a known fact that she was able to manipulate Emperors!&quot;<br /><br />- Lol, you are basing a theory on female deception based on this?<br /><br /><br />&quot;Given the considerable improvement in physical security, women no longer had to be dependent on men the way they were in stone age times! This along with varying degrees of manipulation they have inflicted on men, must have indirectly led men to think of ways to subtly dominate women.&quot;<br /><br />- I feel so bad for men, seriously, any person who forces another person to subtly dominate them is truly horrid. <br /><br />&quot;I am curious here., as to how blood makes someone impure.. If a man can probably go into a temple when he’s wounded, or even bleeding, am sure menstruation should pose no danger to the sanctity of the temple! Afterall, it’s the same!&quot;<br /><br />- Sigh! Its not the same, a cut in the hand for a man is not the same as a menstrual cycle in a girl. A cut in a man&#39;s **** plus a few kicks in the same area myt come close to the experience. <br /><br />The theory behind it is not alienation. Devotion wasnt just a visit to the temple those days, it meant hard work. Since women are subjected to some amount of pain, they are excused from the rites and work involved under a cloak of impurity. <br /><br /><br /><br />&quot;Anyways, all these reasons, coupled with the dependence during and after child-birth still helped man exert his dominance once again!&quot;<br /><br />- !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!<br /><br />&quot;Maybe, the idea to dominate has been ingrained in man’ genes like the ‘need to seek out the best man’ in ingrained in the woman’s.&quot;<br /><br />- so what youre saying is men will shag anything, whereas women have better taste??<br /><br />&quot;So, when men need sex, they need to woo the female, and she’d probably be interested if and only if he s the dominant one among the lot available for selection. Hence, I feel its only natural that the need to dominate has come so far as to try and strip women of all her rights and try keep her dependant!&quot;<br /><br />- dependability (is not equal to) dominance<br /><br />&quot; And, as for my take on why Men need sex as much as they do, while women seem to be different, I shall come back with my next post….&quot;<br /><br />- cant wait.kokohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14404976714320774277noreply@blogger.com