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My husband and I were friends for a few months before we started dating. The moment I realised I was into him was when, while visiting one afternoon for coffee, he told me about his colleague's wife and kid who drowned in the Indonesian tsumani in 2004, and he got quite tearful.

For me, that kind of emotional sensitivity is SO important in a relationship.

I think she means in the context of a bachelor party. And, I mean, it comes up on this subreddit a lot, and there are always guys saying that strip clubs are "traditional" for bachelor parties and that a woman who doesn't like that is a repressed puritan who's controlling her partner. Not everybody, sure, but definitely some of them.