the mom is 56 and is already done with her life like that?i agree, rickys, if he wants to take care of mom, it is fine, but he needs to increase his income... by a tenfold; momma likes to spend $$$$$$$$$$$$$$$

the girlfriend should not be burdened by mom though. that's why i say he is a mama's boy, he is catering to mom and making the gf pay the bills at home this month AND pay for mom to go. I would have said if I am paying for your mom, you are paying for mine, fvck that.

actually, just cancel the trip. but i see op didn't come to the thread mmmmmmmm

The bf should get his money up to a point where he can take care of his family and his mama

Mama is 56, she isn't going to do much more than she's doing and the bf can't say no (which is admirable)... he just needs to up his providing game

Another unpopular post, but you could have paid too. I know that isn't a cool thing to say, but if it was that serious, just pay and be done with it. Based on that experience, don't invite her next time. It's a lesson learned, you know?

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