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I'd Like Some Advice...

I take medication for my bipolar disorder and in general I'm an unstable person. I don't have anger or depression issues, at least not anymore, but I don't make a lot of very good life decisions and they're mostly out of impulse, and I'm also very bad with money (noticeably better than I used to be though). Any advice?

Spend some time each day reading. I noticed that helps with focus. Also think about setting up a savings account that makes it harder to withdrawal. Basically set it and forget it. Write down a budget. Take your net income and subtract your monthly expenses. See if you can improve upon it. Try to get a decent amount of rest.

Yeah for savings, you could put your money into a CD account. Basically a glorified savings account that guarantees more back on your deposit than a regular savings account does with the expectation that you don't withdraw it for a good while (couple of years). For life decisions, just think more about what you're going to do and how that might have repercussions for yourself and others around you. Then gauge whether the benefits outweigh the cost of whatever it is you wanna do.

For life decisions, just think more about what you're going to do and how that might have repercussions for yourself and others around you. Then gauge whether the benefits outweigh the cost of whatever it is you wanna do.

Making decisions is something i have a problem with too. It's easy for me to either make one rashly without thinking or just abstain because i'm too worried about what's going to happen. And that's a good way to go about it, think carefully before you decide to do something. What's the worst thing that can happen, what benefits can it have? That's not always a easy question but weighing that helps if you have trouble making decisions.

Making decisions is something i have a problem with too. It's easy for me to either make one rashly without thinking or just abstain because i'm too worried about what's going to happen. And that's a good way to go about it, think carefully before you decide to do something. What's the worst thing that can happen, what benefits can it have? That's not always a easy question but weighing that helps if you have trouble making decisions.

It's not an easy question, true. Sometimes it's important to get outside perspectives as well, especially from people you can confide in and that aren't overly judgemental.

Since you didn't mention any sort of therapy are you only seeing a psychiatrist? If so, ask for a referral to a psychologist who might help you with some of the impulse problems you're having. Probably a Cognitive Behavioral Therapist. This could help either by identifying and/or helping you come up with ways to handle them. From there you might want to see a money manager, though with your impulses being handled better you may find your financial spending won't be so negative for you.

Your concerns (or mix of them) isn't all that rare so there are services out there to help you.

That CUNT SpiRo can get the fuck out. The act of watching graphic stuff like that is not in and of itself bad. Ive always had a fascination with snuff and disturbing films. If youre going to argue that im not a good person or whatever because of that, then i guess every single person who likes action movies, manga, sports or anything that contains physical combat and violence must also be the same. There is a distinction between having an INTEREST in something and ADVOCATING or APPROVING of it.

No swordsmen can beat Doffy. The guy can stitch his internal organs after taking a Counter Shock hit, sword wounds are a piece of cake for him. Vista's Mihawk level Haki and base stats would probably push Doffy to high-difficulty though.

DreX the "Intelligent" earned a special spot for all his remarkable claims

October 6, 2007: Chapter 473: Kuma appears and obviously uses his DF ability. September 8, 2008: Chapter 513: Sentoumaru explains Kuma's ability.April 24, 2017: DreX has a THEORY how "Repelling gotta be a part of Kuma's Devil Fruit ability" DreX the Asswiper. Is a pro who wipes asses with a Don!

No, it has nothing to do with 'imports' or whatever. Half the fault falls on the one being rapped rather than the one rapping. I mean, it's like putting a tasty pizza with mayo on it in front of the hungry you, switch on the quite music, prepare the drinks, and yet ask you no to eat it.

okey.So, Shanks is the protege of the PK? and Mihawk is the protege of the Apes king ? both of them were on the same ship idiot, not even a hint on who Roger preferred from the both in the manga, and when did i fucking say that Shanks has no potential, didn't even say that he falls to Mihawk in that aspect, i'm merely saying that we can say who.

Monkey, Mihawk said that he ain't fighting Shanks in that specific meeting of their, and it was in a sarcastic way of denying because he didn't come for fighting unlike usual, he came for showing him Luffy's poster.

Go do some extraverted things. Meet people, learn how to be social.
Try signing up at a gym and making friends there, boom, 2 birds 1 stone.

He's bad with money. A gym's just gonna make him sign some bogus contract where he pays $200 a week for a personal trainer that he doesn't need.

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Try hiking with friends or running at the park. Being healthy and fit will make you more confident and motivated. You can do push-ups/sit-ups anywhere and you don't have to be super hardcore about working out either. Just a few mins everyday for your physique and a run/hike every weekend or so makes a difference.

I take medication for my bipolar disorder and in general I'm an unstable person. I don't have anger or depression issues, at least not anymore, but I don't make a lot of very good life decisions and they're mostly out of impulse, and I'm also very bad with money (noticeably better than I used to be though). Any advice?

Cut yourself some slack. I know you might hate parts of yourself and you feel that you've been doing things wrong for long and all that and you may have been tired of accusing yourself. So, without giving you crap about how you don't need to change, because you do need to change, I'm just saying that what you should do first is relax. Go out eat some ice cream, enjoy who you are for no reason and tell yourself that you're gonna start changing, because you'd really love that.

- Meditate
- Stop fapping and watching more porn
- drink more water (srs. Drink like a litre of cold water as soon as you wake up too, you're dehydrated by that point).
- Exercise for an hour. Try something that might be fun like jumping rope.
- Read good literature. I'd recommend Michael Crichton's The Great Train Robbery and Jurassic Park as some solid page turners.

All the above will help you think more clearly. Especially meditating and the exercise.