Infidelity Support Group

Any relationship in which one partner engages willfully in sexual relations with another outside of the partnership is considered to have experienced infidelity. This breach of trust is often traumatizing for the faithful partner as well as the relationship, and support is often needed to heal emotionally and to decide whether or not the relationship should continue after...

I used to think of suicide, homicide, but mostly GODicide! The hopes that GOd would just take me and my misery away. BUT!! like Sugahrae said, my children deserve more than that! In addition, it is my mission to learn and grow not only for me but for them as well!! History WILL repeat itself. do you want your little girls to experience what you are? Then YOU MUST CHANGE!! NOT DIE!!! THink of your beautiful babies not yourself. Suicide is very very very selfish! plus what in the world would you really gain??? GOd will never give you more than you can bare. Cry out to HIM!! When I thought I couldn't take it anymore and asked God what in the world he was doing to me...crazy things began to happen...good things...praying for you!

Yes a few times and YOU MUST look at it like this 1st!!!! If you did kill yourself...he/she will still be living doing what they do....is it worth it no!!!! if you have kids..the will SURELY SUFFER...do you wanna make them pay for somebody else's stupidity? I think not..that is how I got those thoughts out of my mind....PRAY, PRAY, PRAY..it works...it may bring alot of tears but it helps. If you commit suicide REMEMBER it is a SIN TO GOD and you shall not go to heaven..again who suffers ...YOU!! SO hun it really isn't worth it...he/she is not worth your precious life!!!Believe me I am hurting BEYOND BELIEF RIGHT NOW...I can hardly work, I'm still losing weight, I cry alot, I can't stay focused...but I'm hanging on cause GOD has something in store for us both!!!! You have got to BELIEVE that....He doesn't let things happen like this for NO REASON...it just hard for us to see under the circumstances...but there is something better for us and GOD KNOWS!!! Email me when you need to talk we can be each others BACKBONE!!! carlawirick@aol.com

You love the person that you know. That person would never hurt you. You grieve the loss of that person. Their current actions make them a stranger that it is easy to hate. Sadly, they are the same person. Have hope. Things will get better. Your life is your most precious gift. Don't squander it on a temporary situation.

Suicide is not the answer. You feel hurt by your husband's actions - imagine how hurt your little girls would be for the rest of their lives if you abandoned them in the most horrible way? Things will get better with time. It won't always feel this awful. Stay strong for the girls - they need you.

the pain and the visions have gotten so overwhelming for me that i thought if i end it i won't have to hurt anymore. but i don't have the guts to kill myself. i have also thought about homicide. i am a SAHM and my son is very attached to me, the thought of leaving him for prison or the grave-it just ain't worth it. but the pain can be very overwhelming and really make you think irrationally. if you really consider killing yourself, look at the faces of those sweet babies, and imagine-who can love them like their moma? and i will give you the answer to that-NOBODY!

Love and hate are probably the most intense emotions a human being can experience (aside from anger) - often times the line between to two can be blurred, especially if your love was hurt very deeply. It can affect your entire livelihood - make you resentful, depressed, angry all the time. You might be feeling like you are so hurt and betrayed that you want the other person so feel exactly what you feel so they KNOW HOW ITS TEARING YOU APART. But, my dear, suicide is not the answer. Sure, many of us engage in suicidal ideation - we think it would take the hurt away. You are not the only one that has thought of suicide when it feels like your world is falling apart. But you know what? Time moves forward - there will be another day ahead - and with each passing minute, your pain will begin to subside. Trust me on this one. Your heart is fully capable of healing (and it will). We human beings have incredible strength within us (that we may not always know about). I don't know if you are spiritual, but prayers or meditation to whatever God you believe in might help to give you the foundation to rebuild what was taken away from you. Have faith and take things a day at a time. Make small daily goals to give you a sense of accomplishment - even if it is little things like &quot;make the bed&quot; or &quot;take the car to the car wash&quot; - these things will engage your mind and help restore your sense of self worth and accomplishment. Also, it may help to write everything out - write it out and cry it out - share some of your writings with us because there are many on here that I AM SURE can relate. YOU ARE NOT ALONE.

I think about it every day BUT that would cause so much undeserved pain to others who love me. what was done to you wouldn't compare to the pain and confusion your daughters would feel the rest of their lives.

Ive thought about it. Moreso now than EVER before. BUT - i've also always been afraid of the idea of it --- and &quot;chicken&quot; to DO anything in relation to it....
It's something that SOUNDS so bad and IS scarry because SOME people really DO it. BUT - i think it's probably natural to feel like it / think about it. It IS about wanting the pain to stop or just losing ALL hope...

Dealing with the emotions that are driving you crazy ---- it's important to do that FIRST. That isn't about suiside...it's something that needs to be dealt with in any way possible (professional help , medication, be with friends, anything...)
THEN - there is this feeling of Exhaustion and overwhelming dispair ...like all the life has already been sucked up out of you.
At that point - i feel like i want it to just stop.
I look at it this way though....
if your already feeling SO down ---- it's the time to DO something.
Something DIFFERENT / or Productive...or even CRAZY.
Ending it is perminant - changing things can be done again and again.
If you feel so bad you want to die - then ALL those things you were afraid of doing / whatever fear held you back from going after your dreams or doing something so different or &quot;crazy&quot; ----- not sensible... whats to hold you back from doing that NOW?
Move - Pick up EVERYTHING and just Throw yourself into something different.
Confront those that hurt you - talk it out - express yourself.
Do a 360. Try something you always wanted to but felt &quot;silly&quot; or thought you would be critisized for.
Your already feel as DOWN as you think you are going to - so whats to hold you back from ANYTHING you've ever been afraid of?
Run away.
ANYTHING - first .
Ending it ALL - there is no taking it back. So WHY not do ANYTHING and EVERYTHING ELSE first - even if it's crazy. What have you got to lose at that point.
You arent going to feel any WORSE - it's already as bad as its going to get.
Your at the bottom - and you can only go up...
If you are afraid it's going to get WORSE -then you DO NOT want to kill yourself. When you want to kill yourself - your at the point where it hurts so bad / you arent afraid of ANYTHING.
SO - accept this is the worse - learn to deal with or controle the emotions - and then go out and do whatever you ALWAYS wanted to do but were afraid to.

I thought of it when I first found out about her affair. I felt like my life was over. But then I realized, it isnt. She made a choice and one day I believe she will have to answer for her choices..I wasnt going to ruin my life or my kids because of her stupidity. Life is a wonderful gift and I would never let anyone make me throw it away. I think its normal to think about suicide if you really love some one and they threw it away, but you have to let that go..I had two good friends who killed themeselves over relationships gone bad and the sad thing is they never realized how many friends they had, and how many people loved them..If your still thinking about it, please talk to a friend or a counselor. And as far as loving someone and hating them at the same time...absolutely,,I will always love my wife, but I will always hate her actions and her selfishness over the whole thing..I will leave her, but I will always love her,,if that makes sense.

When you think of suicide then you have reached your lowest point. DON&quot;T DO IT!!!! I've been there and frankly there were ONLY 2 things that stopped me...my beautiful son who brightens the darkest of days and the fact that if I did I would destroy my innocent baby more and community dick may suffer for a short period of time...but in no time be back to passing his used up penis around the community regardless. And that gave me the strength to fight those ill feelings. BE STRONG MY FRIEND...and where are your girlfriends.....you need to be with them at this time or in a church on your knees in prayer..

A friend sent this to me..As far as I can see, grief will never truly end.It may become softer overtime, more gentleand some days will feel sharp.But grief will last as long as Love does - ForeverIt's simply the way the absence of your loved onemanifests in your heart. A deep longing accompaniedby the deepest Love some days. The heavy fog mayreturn and the next day, it may recede.Once again, it's...

theatre and I are there already. I'm having a very berry tea with crackers, cheese and cherry tomatoes and she's having a joint with some beer and we're both on really comfy recliners on thick pile carpet. we need some help with the decor if anyone is around??

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