Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

31 May 2009 (F)
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okay so im 15. my boyfriend of 3 mo nths told me he loved me atleast 100 times. im begining to think that was a lie. see we have a long distance thing going on and ive been seeing him as much as i can lately but i guess that wasnt enough. i know i l ove him more than ...
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31 May 2009 (F)
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Im an college student and have been attending college for about 2 years now. This semester is the 1st time i actually attented full time and made alot of friends and met a lot of people. The question i wanted to ask is: Theres this professor in my college, she very beautif...
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31 May 2009 (M)
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been married for 10 years my wife and i watch porn and when three somes are on she gets turned on and i would ask if she likes what she sees and she always says she yes when i ask her if she wants a 3-some she always says i would never do that one time we were watching porn ...
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31 May 2009 (F)
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my boyfriend and i were chattin, and we got onto the subject and he said he often wakes up 'fully erected'. my question is, who knows why this happens? maybe its a stupid question but i realised i really dont know why. thanks for any answers!...
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31 May 2009 (F)
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ohkay so this is a little long but i need to say it all. and thru the whole thing dont think im a slut. im 13 and in 7th grade. one day on my bus i met this guy that i saw everyday and thot he was hot for along time. but i never talked to him. then i just did. i dont know why ...
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31 May 2009 (F)
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K i have three things to ask!! : 1- can i invite the guy i really like to my grade eight grad?? Or is that too weird.... I like him and want him to be there but i dont know..... He has a sister that i babysit could i invite her and then say he can come to????? 2- this has ...
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31 May 2009 (F)
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22-25 -
heyy friends well i am desprete for help. wel first thing is my best guy friens lives in Mississippi and i live in chicago and he comes to visit and well this summer he is going to stay with his hometown in Mississippi and he hasn't called me and he told me that he was g...
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31 May 2009 (M)
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I need someone's opinion who knows what's going on .... I am 20 years old and I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years, Shane. He's 19. I do love him sincerely and care enough about him to spend the rest of my life with him, as naive as that may sound. But we're not per...
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31 May 2009 (M)
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Hey, I'm a 16 year old guy and will be 17 in 2 weeks. Me and my gf both lost our V plates to each other when we were 15. My girlfriend is 3 months younger than me which makes her a year behind me in education. Thing is, even though now we are above the legal age to have sex ...
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31 May 2009 (F)
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41-50 -
My ex broke up with me. I apologized to him and was truthful to him. He made it clear that he didin't want me. there were times when he gave me mixed signals and I responed and then the next time I talk to him he would be negative again. I loved him so much I pleaded with him ...
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31 May 2009 (F)
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My boyfriend stays with another couple in a flat. He has known them for 2 years and has lived with them for that amount. They are very horrible people - confrontational, irrational, nasty, spitefull, messy, most of all jeleous... the list goes on. It all started becau...
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31 May 2009 (F)
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I have an addictive personality which means i can get addicted to anything as silly as penguin biscuits and i get addicted very easily too. Ive done well to stay away from drugs so far in my life but for my current bf they're quite a major part of his life. Ok, so hes not ...
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31 May 2009 (F)
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30-35 -
Hi, I feel like life is passing me by,im 22 sitting at home when everyone else is out having a good time, enjoying their lives, i feel like i sabotage myself by turing down invitations and making impulsive stupid decisions.I didnt go out tonight because i felt i looked ugly and ...
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31 May 2009 (M)
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41-50 -
Im a gay guy that hangs out with mostly straight guys. Im in a situation that im having feelings with one of my straight guy friends. He has a girlfriend but whenever we hang out he likes to watch porn. He knows i like him and allows me to give him body massages everytime we ...
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31 May 2009 (M)
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This is gonna be long..sry ! i need help tho.. Ok so today me and my girlfriend were alone in the house..we started taking of our clothes etc..started foreplay and stuff butshe had her panties on and i was trying to think a way to go inside her without her seeing me put th...
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31 May 2009 (F)
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26-29 -
Im seventeen, and when i was 13 i did a pretty stupid thing and its hanuted me for the rest of my life. It was they day before my mums birthday, and i was off school because it had been snowing. I went into the city with 3 other girls (my best mates) we were shopping and...
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31 May 2009 (F)
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26-29 -
okay so summers coming and im on to high school and i want to change. hears how i am now: im VERY shy, skinny and bony, unconfident, selfconscious, NOT very popular, and i fall for guys too easily. i know that the only wayt o fix all of that is by making myself what i want to ...
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31 May 2009 (F)
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51-59 -
My 16 year old daughter has decided she cannot live with our rules. As much as it is killing me to let her move out, I think for her it might be the only way to learn that our household rules were not that bad. She has always been very strong willed. What I am wondering is, are ...
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31 May 2009 (F)
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51-59 -
I'm trying to learn how to cum a lot. I'm aroused by my boyfriend, but he wants me to cum so he can actually see it flowing from me. Even though I would love to learn how to squirt, but that's out of the question right now. Please someone help....
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31 May 2009 (F)
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Well...my ex broke up with me a day after we did stuff, and went really far. It's been 2 weeks and I was crying about him because I still love him, and my best friend was like it's okay, he's a jerk , he's not worth it and everything. Then I find out that night they snogged 5 ...
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31 May 2009 (F)
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What does it mean when after a year+ relationship that your boyfriend wants to spend more time with his friends? He never does anything with me anymore other than chores and wants to go out with his friends to do fun things and go drinking and play sports, and go to the park...
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31 May 2009 (F)
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22-25 -
I am fourteen and still yet to have my period. I'd like to hear from you the age you first got your period...or a friend. Even if it was young or still yet to have gotten it... All help appreciated!...
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31 May 2009 (F)
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30-35 -
I have been dating this guy and he seems unsure of what he wants. He lives in another town so the distance makes it hard to see each other. I know he is going through a hard time because his daughter was just born a few months ago. He and his ex wife just seperated about a ...
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31 May 2009 (F)
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30-35 -
My boyfriend always seems afraid to tell me things about his past. He was married before and has two kids. He also has had felony charges for drugs. Last time we hung out I caught him smoking, but he has quit now. At the time he was down to one cigerette a day. I know he...
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31 May 2009 (F)
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Dear Cupid, I recently got out of a very bad and extremely hurtful "friends with benefits" relationship that lasted around 7 months. It ended badly and I suffered a lot of emotional abuse and got my heart broken, by an absolutely horrible person. So anyway, two weeks ago I ...
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31 May 2009 (F)
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22-25 -
I know hormones are very normal for my age but I can't cope with them. I always get upset when I am on my period; I sometimes feel aggressive. I'm one of those people that don't start fights and probably wouldn't fight back, but recently I have been in a few. They hit me first ...
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31 May 2009 (F)
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30-35 -
It seems like all the guys I date just use me. Now I have a hard time trusting guys and always think they are going to use me. How can I trust guys again and How do I know if a guy really likes me for who I am? ...
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31 May 2009 (F)
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51-59 -
I am a 42 year old woman who recenly got married (it will be a year in june) Is it normal for a husband and wife to only have sex once every 3 months? He looks at porn almost everyday..some of it that I found is a little on the weird side like looking at transgender...he says ...
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31 May 2009 (F)
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Should I ask out my doctor? I have a terrible crush on my orthopedist. Been seeing him for 6 months and just had my last appointment with him. He is supposed to call me next week with some follow up information... so I'm wondering if I should make a move of some kind? He has ...
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31 May 2009 (F)
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30-35 -
Hi me explaining my situation might take a while but i need help.so please dont get bored.im 21yr old muslim and i am also at university.my family are very respected in the community but iv brought shame to them by getting pregnant without being married.my boyfriend got carriex ...
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31 May 2009 (M)
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Im 16 and for some reason i cant stop thinking about sex i really want to have sex but im worried that im gonna lose my virginity when i am drunk, and should i retract my foreskin before erection or leave it unretracted?...
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31 May 2009 (F)
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26-29 -
Hi, my last few exes have all loved my short hair (i sometimes have a chelsea cut, then let it grow out into a sort of pixie cut) it suits me and makes me look a lot more mature than what long hair does, i prefer it on me. My last real boyfriend was the one who hinted he loved...
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31 May 2009 (M)
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How should i feel? I have 2 clear best friends in my life, and one of them is moving off to a new school in the autumn so this will be out last summer together. The one who is leaving, i have taken on holiday with me before, and we have gone on many family holidays before ...
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31 May 2009 (F)
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30-35 -
I need advice, should I leave my husband or stay with him and live in eternal pain after his affair, which happened last summer? I will never forget what he did to me and our daughter. I found a text from his tutor at work saying night babe i love you. So obviously he had told ...
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31 May 2009 (F)
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22-25 -
I dont know what to do. At school I have alwaiis been good at maths and now am failing it as i failed my first exam. I have another one coming up in a weeks time and my mum said that if I do not pass it I have to break up with my boyfriend cause she thinks he is a distraction...
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31 May 2009 (F)
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22-25 -
hiya, please help me. Well, It was my birthday party on friday night,,. and it was a joint party with my friend.. So.. I have fancied this boy for nearly 2 years now... and lately friends have said he acts differently around me. But he is a ladies man. So at this party he pi...
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31 May 2009 (F)
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22-25 -
My most recent ex boyfriend and I, started dating in November, we broke up the first week of Feb, but we had an on and off relationship into the middle of April. Since we OFFICIALLY called it quits, I have totally felt like I have moved on, but now all of a sudden,(in the p...
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31 May 2009 (F) -
Hoping people will have insight here and thank all who answer. My friend and I are about the same age. I am a little older. I lost my dad when I was in my twenties. It was horrible, awful but I had to carry on. I grieved but had to get on with life, mortgage payments, car ...
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31 May 2009 (F)
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22-25 -
I am still in love with my ex-boyfriend. He was my first high school boyfriend, my first homecoming date, and my first "love." We dated from October 13, 2008 to January 18 or 19, 2009. 3 months and 5/6 days. He was the first one to say, "I love you." He was the first one ...
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31 May 2009 (F)
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30-35 -
Hey everyone, I've been seeing a guy for about a month now and things were going great. I'd stayed over a couple of times, he was really affectionate and caring and we got on really well. Last night, I stayed over again and today all we did was watch motorsports all ...
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31 May 2009 (F)
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30-35 -
Dear all, I do not know how to act on this situation, i did something that is extremely wrong for my love, 12 days ago he found out that it was me who did it and he has not talked to me since then, he blocks my calls and doesn't reply my msgs, i tried to explain but it seems li...
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31 May 2009 (M)
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51-59 -
married. long time. beautiful home, animals, no kids. love her, really really do, just never developed much sexual chemistry, when that was something really important for both of us before we got married. felt lonely, sad. years later - last year - cheated. thought it was a ...
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31 May 2009 (F)
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26-29 -
Ok - I like this guy but I can't decide whether its a crush or something more than that. I have known him for about three years now. I know I was immediately attracted to him - but now I have got to know him better and we are fairly friendly and and still have feelings fo...
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31 May 2009 (F)
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26-29 -
hi im 17 and ive been dating my boyfriend for 8months now and the past 8 months have been amazing hes sooo nice to me and everything but i cant trust him hes sooo over protecting when it comes to me i cant text any of my guy friends on my phone cause he checks it but when i ask ...
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31 May 2009 (F)
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30-35 -
Okay, here goes..I have been with my boyfriend for almost 9 years. Three years ago we broke up for about 3 weeks..we were fighting a lot! He moved in with a friend and during this break up he slept with another girl, a girl we knew mutually (she is well known in our small town ...
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31 May 2009 (F)
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26-29 -
guy at uni: he always talks to me till silly aclock in the morning like 5am despite having work the next day. never mentions hes girl friend to me. is forever picking me up , rugby tackling me, bear hugging me, tickling poking me when we are out together. has invited me ...
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31 May 2009 (F)
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26-29 -
my bf and i have been discussing the kind of ring that i want for engagement and the kind of bands we want. Do i pay for his band or does he? He hasn't brought this up but i'm sure it would come up eventally. ...
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31 May 2009 (F)
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36-40 -
I dated a guys for 2 years he wasn't able to commit to me (wasn't ready to move in with me or get married). We broke up because I couldn't handle that anymore. After the break up I ran into an old friend from highschool and we started talking. He was living in another state ...
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31 May 2009 (F)
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26-29 -
girls help with hormones had my contraceptive jab and finding it hard to deal with the emotion/sensitivity part. anything , remedies, hot baths to make me feel better? any suggestions?...
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