I met the lady in my 100 level in the university, we have graduated and done with our one year NYSC service, I learn photography and have being surviving with it, I couldn't get any better paying job, so I decided to further my studies, and when I told her about my plans, she only said, she wish me well that she can't wait.

That was all, only for friends to start calling me telling me congratulations, was wondering what the. Celebrations until one draw my attention to her facebook wall, she was engaged last night.

Onojasteve:I met the lady in my 100 level in the university, we have graduated and done with our one year NYSC service, I learn photography and have being. Surviving with it, I couldn't get any better paying job, so I decided to further my studies, and when I told her about my plans, she only said, she wish me well that she can't wait. that was all, only for friends to start calling me telling me congratulations, was wondering what the. Celebrations until one draw my attention to her facebook wall, she was engaged last night.

Onojasteve:I met the lady in my 100 level in the university, we have graduated and done with our one year NYSC service, I learn photography and have being. Surviving with it, I couldn't get any better paying job, so I decided to further my studies, and when I told her about my plans, she only said, she wish me well that she can't wait. that was all, only for friends to start calling me telling me congratulations, was wondering what the. Celebrations until one draw my attention to her facebook wall, she was engaged last night.

Am just so pain and terrify

Its not about hustling, date girls with age gap, so by the time they get ready, you would have been prepared, don't date your age mate, date 5-7 years younger

Its not about hustling, date girls with age gap, so by the time they get ready, you would have been prepared, don't date your age mate, date 5-7 years younger

you are right but it has its disadvantages too. Let say u are 27 now and dating a girl between 19-22. This is d peak period where ladies want to explore,they want to enjoy what life has to offer. most of them don't know what they really want and belief me,if u are d type that want a woman like partner,that u can seek advise from,u haven't found one.

With its disadvantages though,I still prefer the age gap thing and I will always go for it. At least,no pressure of marriage and u can continue your hustling in peace

for those blaming the girl. I don't ooooooooo. she has no knowledge of God's plan for u,y must she wait.

what about if God's plan for u is to be okay @35,u expect her to wait till she reaches her menopause. Nigga,pls continue hustling,be focus and never see the girl as enemy,even if u are in position to help her tomorrow,pls do. She didn't really offend u but use it as a motivator

you are right but it has its disadvantages too. Let say u are 27 now and dating a girl between 19-22. This is d peak period where ladies want to explore,they want to enjoy what life has to offer. most of them don't know what they really want and belief me,if u are d type that want a woman like partner,that u can seek advise from,u haven't found one.

With its disadvantages though,I still prefer the age gap thing and I will always go for it. At least,no pressure of marriage and u can continue your hustling in peace

for those blaming the girl. I don't ooooooooo. she has no knowledge of God's plan for u,y must she wait.

what about if God's plan for u is to be okay @35,u expect her to wait till she reaches her menopause. Nigga,pls continue hustling,be focus and never see the girl as enemy,even if u are in position to help her tomorrow,pls do. She didn't really offend u but use it as a motivator

at 24 many ladies are very rational, wise and smart. I just quoted that age range randomly sir, you spoke well. More oil on your head

She left you, Yea, why?-Possibly because of her age, -Possibly she'v been seeing another man, hence capitalizing on this very opportunity and tangible reason to opt out.-Possibly she did what she did as regards to what some men are in th habit of, what do I mean?, wasting some ladies time and leaving them dumped.-Lastly, She's happy now.

And you should be happy, not sober, Why?-In a way, you were lucky she left your life to avoid much pressure on you by her in settling down while you've got plans in strengthening your career.-You should be happy that you can now pursue what you've longed for in peace without much pressure.-You should be happy for the indirect avoidance of what could have possibly befall on you in the future when you settle with her.-This is Africa, Nigeria precisely, when you choose to chase cheque over bitches, you gon have them rush your way when you succeed.-Brace up man, be strong!

at 24 many ladies are very rational, wise and smart. I just quoted that age range randomly sir, you spoke well. More oil on your head

U have spoken well too Sir,more oil on your head too,lol. Just talking from experience. At 24 isn't bad but i put mine at 25years old. Before that age,what most of them want to do is to see a movie,hang out,go to chicken republic,send them recharge card without bringing any tangible advise to the table.

Note-my conclusion is subjective. Just talking of the majority. At least i have seen a 23 years old successful entrepreneur with a poultry birds of 5000

U have spoken well too Sir,more oil on your head too,lol. Just talking from experience. At 24 isn't bad but i put mine at 25years old. Before that age,what most of them want to do is to see a movie,hang out,go to chicken republic,send them recharge card without bringing any tangible advise to the table.

Note-my conclusion is subjective. Just talking of the majority. At least i have seen a 23 years old successful entrepreneur with a poultry birds of 5000

In all honesty, 25 is the age a woman begins to know what she wants in life, I call it their age of wisdom.

Nice one @ the 23 years of chick, but doesn't mean she won't have areas she has issues with, at 23 many are still confused. Even guys self

Most of them Na cool place dem dey like put their heads ooo....ladies of nowadays most are tree break bird fly ooo. Dem no won hustle again, Na to dey enjoy with pesin wey don hustle by himself finish come rich....what they don't know is that if a lady hustle with her guy she go get the confidence to contribute to whatever that has to do with their well-being...but if u dont hustle with someone....u are just like most of our senators in the house always supporting motions....u will always be supporting without contributing anything and he will always dictate to you...wise up ooo ladies

habsydiamond:Most of them Na cool place dem dey like put their heads ooo....ladies of nowadays most are tree break bird fly ooo. Dem no won hustle again, Na to dey enjoy with pesin wey don hustle by himself finish come rich....what they don't know is that if a lady hustle with her guy she go get the confidence to contribute to whatever that has to do with their well-being...but if u dont hustle with someone....u are just like most of our senators in the house always supporting motions....u will always be supporting without contributing anything and he will always dictate to you...wise up ooo ladies

habsydiamond:Most of them Na cool place dem dey like put their heads ooo....ladies of nowadays most are tree break bird fly ooo. Dem no won hustle again, Na to dey enjoy with pesin wey don hustle by himself finish come rich....what they don't know is that if a lady hustle with her guy she go get the confidence to contribute to whatever that has to do with their well-being...but if u dont hustle with someone....u are just like most of our senators in the house always supporting motions....u will always be supporting without contributing anything and he will always dictate to you...wise up ooo ladies

Thanks guys, I appreciate every comments and contributions, it makes me feel better now.. for the. Ladies, you have a brother too, it might be him, or your future Son. Anyway, I. Appreciate everyone for their comments..