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Tuesday, January 19, 2010

Q & A, Part 2

And so it continues...

*Angela*1-Do you speak spanish?

Si. Yo hablo espanol. =)

2-Who are your favorite authors?

Hmm, this may be never ending so I'll just mention my top 5: J.K. Rowlings, Stephenie Meyers, Dan Brown, Nicholas Sparks, and Sophie Kinsella. *Ashley*-Do you have any body art? Piercings, tattos? Or are you a goody2shoes? You look 2 innocent lol

I do happen to be a goody2shoe. But with a twist of the wicked. I have 7 piercings: 2 on my left ear, 4 on my right ear (2 on the top and 2 on the bottom), and a belly button ring, though God knows I'm not showing anyone that one for a while. And I'm a chronic toe ring wearer, even in pointy shoes. It takes dedication and numbness, after a while you don't feel a thing.AndOne tattoo on my lower back. A simple tribal design with butterflies. *MODG*1-I don't know if this question is insensitive, but have you thought about adopting? Just curious.

Well Miss curious, I have actually thought about adopting. We haven't really discussed it because we are hoping we don't get to that point, we are selfish and we want our own, you know how it goes. Don't get me wrong, I know its a beautiful thing and I would do it in a heartbeat even if I do get pregnant but financially its not quite possible for us. Insurance doesn't cover that, so until we are done squeezing out as much as we can from Aetna, we are not stressing about having to adopt.

*Risley*I know everyone just wants a healthy baby.... but if you could pick... boy or girl?

Honestly? With all the expenses and struggles and treatments that I am going through, I selfishly want one of each and call it a day. It's such a tough question and I know its wrong to want one over the other because either one would be a huge blessing for us, but I dream of putting pigtails on my lil girl. Whether or not that happens we will see. And if I have a boy then he will be my lil man and I'll be just as happy. I'll just have to put pigtails on myself that's all, besides it used to be a great look on me once upon a time.

I'll have you know that I don't discriminate against adult beverages but have a strong connection with a Margarita. I've been missing her very much lately, but its for a good cause and she understands that. I'm also a wine lover =)

2-Why doesn't Jeff start a blog of his own? Men need to read this stuff too!!!

I think he is intimidated by my blog! In his heart he knows he can't do better than me, bless him. I kid, I kid. Jeff could be a great blogger if he wanted to do it but he is just plain lazy. His words, not mine. But if you guys want, feel free to request him to be a guest poster here to see how he does. Maybe you can send some questions his way. Just make sure he believes it was your idea. Though, I'm sure he'll be game!

15 comments:

You wicked girl Shanny lolI don't know what I'm most curious to see a pic of your tatto or one of you in pigtails? And don't worry it's not (too) wrong to want a girl over a boy, it's natural to have a preference. I hope it's one of each though!

Oh and Jeff we want you as a guest poster!I would like to know how you deal with these struggles? Miscarriages and infertility, I mean. What's a MAN's take on it? :)and is Shanny as strong as she comes across or does she breakdown more than she let's on?

I'll cheer to a margarita anytime, anywhere! Squeeze the juice out of your insurance girl, squeeze it, you and Jeff have the right to be selfish and want your own kids. Maybe some day adoption might still be possible and you can give your kids a brother or sister :)

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I've been married to Jeff for 9 years now, and I'm head over heels in love with him. I couldn't ask for a better husband, richer? Yes, but not better. After working on project baby for YEARS (lots of work :D ) and 2 losses under our belts this is what I learned: infertility sucks monkey balls. BUT if you keep trying you can kick its sorry arse! We are now proud parents of Boy/Girl IVF twins =)