tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6834596026525717264.post6932093754464614796..comments2015-07-20T19:37:02.045-07:00Comments on This Gay Relationship: Self-LoathingRick Modienhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02157314737543591048noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6834596026525717264.post-13268323399983622672010-01-29T09:37:36.412-08:002010-01-29T09:37:36.412-08:00Thanks for giving me important perspective on this...Thanks for giving me important perspective on this, Wendy. <br />Of course, you&#39;re absolutely right. Everyone has to deal with negativity that leads to self-loathing, and then we spend the rest of our lives trying to unravel and make peace with it. Maybe that&#39;s supposed to be the way of the world, the challenge God puts before us, because, otherwise, how would we ever grow and change and improve and become all we can be? I get so caught up in what it&#39;s like to be gay that, often, I don&#39;t see the pain we&#39;re all in. Something else we all have in common, huh? Gays and straights are even more alike after all.<br />Thanks again.Rick Modienhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02157314737543591048noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6834596026525717264.post-65006138655223276142010-01-27T16:45:14.489-08:002010-01-27T16:45:14.489-08:00I think this is true of many, many straight people...I think this is true of many, many straight people as well. We all have stuff that has been hard-wired into us - some of it positive and some negative - and it&#39;s darn near impossible to wipe the slate clean, so to speak. I know I&#39;ve asked myself many of the same questions you&#39;re asking here.Canwdnhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03361076209603565742noreply@blogger.com