Tony Lalama could best be described as a simple man with a formal style. He was a family man, a businessman, and an everyman who got great enjoyment in simple conversations with his friends and clients.

Tony had become a fixture in the Garden Grove business community. The tailor shop he ran for more than 40 years was not just a place to make a living, but a calling in which he took great pride. Some of his clients called him an artist when it came to repairing and altering clothes.

On Oct. 10, as Tony got ready for another day of work he collapsed in his home and died. He left behind a wife and four adult children and four grandchildren. He also left behind a clientele shocked and saddened by the news that the tailor they considered a friend was gone so suddenly.

Tony was born in Pacentro, Italy in 1939. He immigrated to the United States in 1955 with his parents and three brothers. His fourth and youngest brother would be born in the U.S. His family settled in Youngstown, Ohio where Tony attended high school before joining the U.S. Army in 1963. Tony would serve six years as an enlisted soldier and reservist, stationed mostly in Waco Texas. During his time in the reserves he relocated to Westminster, California, where he met his wife Billie Jean Kincheloe. The two were married on Nov. 12, 1966. By 1977, they had four kids and had moved into the Fountain Valley home they shared until his death.

Tony loved his work. He loved his family and his friends and clients. He didn’t need a lot, as his work and family filled his life. When his children were young, Tony would take them bowling on weekends at Fountain Bowl near their home. When they lived in Westminster, his kids would get weekend trips for lunch at Pup & Taco.

Even after his kids moved out of the house, Friday night dinners at his home were a regular tradition. Later, his children would bring his grandchildren to the house for Friday night pasta. Tony was essentially a quiet man, but he could chew the fat with anyone. Many of his clients would stop by the tailor shop just to chat.

He would talk about business, Italy, sports or any number of topics. Having spent some of his teen years in Ohio, Tony had become a long-time and often suffering Cleveland Browns fan. And Tony enjoyed telling jokes. Often they were on the corny side, but the enthusiastic way with which he told them usually got a laugh. Tony had an infectious smile when he talked and joked.

Tony had gotten his start in tailoring as an apprentice in Italy, at the age of 11. After moving to Youngstown, he got another apprenticeship before joining the Army. After his stint in the Army, Tony went back into the business, eventually taking over ownership of B&C Tailors in the Pavilion Plaza at Brookhurst and Chapman.

His long tenure in Garden Grove earned him the city’s Spotlight Business Award in 2009. In recent years Tony had toyed with retirement, but couldn’t bring himself to give up the business he loved. When his children were young, Tony enjoyed traveling with his family, but prior to the death of his parents, Carl and Anna, his only vacations were back to Ohio to visit them.