How to Have a Threesome Without Losing Your Cool

Have you found the infamous unicorn? You know the one I’m talking about; a second girl to join you and your lover? Why does it always feel like a myth? For centuries men have fantasised about having sex with two women at one time, but for most ‘regular’ men, it’s just that – a fantasy. Something that only happens to some lucky guy someone in your crew knows through a friend of a friend. It’s never you.

The funny thing is, threesomes are actually really easy to score if you know how.While many men dream and long for the day that they have two women at once, many dismiss it as impossible and never chase the dream into reality, yet a lot of women are down with them. There are even apps specifically designed to help you find your unicorn that will get the ball rolling, all you have to do is follow my advice!

However, before you dive in, you need to understand that porn is not real life and real life is not porn – not to mention that an App is not going to get you laid, you are! While everything seems to go seamlessly into a porn, it absolutely does not in real life, especially with multiple partners. You need to prepare yourself so you don’t disappoint yourself or the sexy women who are waiting to pleasure you.

If you want to know what you’ll need to prepare for, keep reading!

How to Get Hard and Stay Hard in a Threesome

Whether you’re in a relationship and inviting a third, or a single guy who just got really lucky, I’ll save the emotional considerations for Cosmo – I’m going to keep the focus on you, your dick and staying hard long enough to please everyone involved. It doesn’t matter if you are dating, if it is a one-night stand, or if you are hooking up; the only thing women care about during a threesome is that you have enough dick to go around and keep them satisfied.

Okay, so what do you think is the number one issue that men face during a threesome? You guessed it: stage fright. So many men go into a threesome blindly. They’re caught up in the excitement of it all that they don’t even consider that they could suffer from performance anxiety! Now, trust me, you don’t want to be that guy who they laugh about; it will kill your confidence and likely deter you from ever attempting this again – if you’re even invited.

However, let’s say you can get it up. What is the number two issue you can face? Right again: coming too soon! Honestly, in many ways, that’s worse than not getting it up at all because you already gave them a little tease and now it’s gone – not to mention the embarrassment! The average American woman views 7-13 minutes of penetration as an ideal amount of time for sex. So, with two women you’re going to have to at least double that; do you have that in you, champ?

So, let’s take a look at what a threesome entails in relaity; you need to be able to penetrate each woman for at least 15-25 minutes, and you need to be able to perform on demand. If you’re one of those guys who comes at the drop of a hat, you might focus on foreplay while you set up the second round. This will help sustain momentum, but let’s be honest, it can still be awkward to start over when they are rearing to go.

If you’re looking to get rock hard and stay rock hard for as long as your two hotties will have you, then here are my Top 5 Tips to Keeping Your Cool in a Threesome:

Jerk Off. That’s right, I’m taking one straight out of ‘There’s Something About Mary’. If you jerk off about an hour before your threesome, you won’t feel anxious or worried about coming too soon; and, you have the perfect material to fantasize about!

Foreplay, foreplay, foreplay. The obvious first step in extending the total session length is foreplay. Foreplay should really be the focus of any sexual encounter, especially in a threesome. Foreplay primes the pumps and makes achieving orgasm much easier. My suggestion is that you pleasure them with hands and mouth, and don’t let anything touch your penis. Do this for about 20 minutes or until one or both of them cum. Then you can use your penis.

Condoms. Something you should probably be using for group sex anyway, condoms are perfect for desensitizing things, keeping you harder, longer. Look for a thicker condom than usual to prolong the experience.

Take your time. During penetration, do what you already do with one partner: breath, don’t rush, change positions, take it slow and steady, take a break, and think about anything but fucking two hot chicks at once. You can save that image for later!

Top Secret!Now, I’ve saved the best for last, but this is what gets consistently amazing feedback and guarantees rock hard, fuller, and longer lasting erections – perfect for your first (and second and third) threesomes – you certainly won’t be disappointed!

If you’ve already been invited to a threesome, or you are optimistic one is on your horizon, these tips will help you get hard and stay hard for a long night of hot sex. And, practice makes perfect, so if you impress them once, they might even invite you back for more!

Best of all, they also work well while you practice with some one-on-one time. All women desire a man who can go the distance, and learning how to improve your game time is a fun way to add a new dynamic to the bedroom Olympics. In the meantime, you should check out this video that I saw this week that has some dynamite advice for guys who want to boost their libido and performance tenfold!