Well, it certainly isn't degrading if it's a woman sharing this extreme intimacy and kink with someone that she has not or does not share with many others. There is a great deal of vulnerability and trust between both partners in that the experience will not taint or tarnish but enrich the bond between you. Certainly a woman who has this view of the act isn't going to feel degraded by it...she feels empowered by the trust she has in herself and her partner.

FTR, cheap azz poking porn is not what I'm talking about.

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