Exuding, Empowerment & Confidence - BBW Style

Saturday, October 2, 2010

Black Skinny Pants- A must have for this season. Its feminine, tailored. Paired with some kitten heels, or pumps for a night out, great for the fall. Throw on a fitted casual blazer and a cute A-line simple colored top. So sophisticated, chic and trendy! It’s nice to wear a top underneath the blazer that pops! I love this look!!

Jeggings- another MUST have for this season. Very versatile, sexy and chic. Paired with some cute booties, a long boyfriend cardi, and fresh simple makeup, hair pulled back. So cute. and cozy..Or Rock it for a night out, with some pumps, and a sexy top! Try to wear A line if you have a tummy, to hide that pooch! lol Gives the outfit a nice balance too.

Boyfriend Jeans- I love these!!! I have yet to buy my own pair, because I need to make a trip to the states as I find some things need to be bought across the line..for me. a better fit and more variety. But these jeans are super cute, you can’t NOT love the boyfriend jean. A easy fit, distressed jean with cuffs is a great wardrobe addition. They are casual, but doesn’t mean you can’t Rock em for a night out ! I feel like these jeans look best with a loose simple Tee, flats , a brown belt even a cute little sweater. An effortless look that’s oh so cute! Ooo even a little scarf layered loosely makes you look warm and stylish ;)

Fitting.

Listen BBW's, do not be intimidated by these clothes. If you are going to wear them make sure you ROCK IT, do not let the clothes wear you. If you need some help shopping invite a good friend. or EMAIL ME! We will find something that fits, is comfortable and looks fabulous! Many plus-size clothing stores will carry up to size 26-28 in the "trendy" stuff. Unfortunately they don’t go any larger then that. You can always try across the line. Torrid is my fave big girl shopping place. here’s a link. http://www.torrid.com , honestly that is one of my FAVE stores in the world. And one of my best kept secrets.

More Tips:

1.Do not dress all ONE TONE because you think you look smaller. If your big your big right? Just make sure your clothes FIT, and all your goodies are tucked in your clothes lol!

2.Wear clothes that are the right size! Saggy, baggy clothing looks a bit messy and sometimes makes you look bigger then you are. Too tight will wrinkle and hike up when you move..and just NOT look good.

3.Good fitting intimates. Nothing like a great bra and some great control panties to make an outfit look your best !

4.Practice your posture!! Standing up right and straight makes a huge difference, instead of slouching!

5.They say big people can’t wear stripes. I LOVE THEM! And they surprisingly like me. IF your going to rock stripes, find a stripe that suites your body. I like chunky stripes , vertical. It really depends on the style of the top and your own body.

6.BBW's please Don’t buy over-tight clothes. Accept that you may need a size up. Because it doesn’t matter what size you are , as long as it fits!! and fits well. Trust me you will look a billion times better, and won’t have random women snickering about you because they can see your camel toe or your tire! I'm just being real!

7.SMILE!! Find something you love about yourself and FLAUNT IT! Show those legs, unbutton that cleavage, let down your hair and focus on something that makes you feel great about yourself! A fabulous smile makes the outfit!

Friday, October 1, 2010

“I firmly believe that what makes you sexy and beautiful is not the size of your body or the colour lipstick you have on. What really makes you sexy is what you project, your confidence, and your self awareness, having a great sense of humour and being really smart.”

I love that.It is so true...I cant stress it enough. Confidence is HUGE along with the others! Exuding, Empowerment & Confidence !!!

Thursday, September 30, 2010

I don't know about you guys, but I've always had a problem with the stereotype that over-weight people are LAZY eat fast food all day and do nothing to try and lose it. ITS NOT TRUE!!!!

I have struggled with my weight since I was a child. I was born into a culture where food is a big deal and the center of many celebrations( like many cultures) . My family did not have much money growing up, therefore we ate a lot of white carb's, fatty meats and quick food. Not all the time, but alot of the time. I also come from a big family ,when I say big I mean BIG. Most of the people in my family are overweight. Both of my parents were overweight. We have the "fat gene" lol Being around all this well I was young. was tough. But I never felt that it was wrong or bad to be fat...cause I was surrounded by big people... And alot of love.

Then I grew up. Began to learn that being a fat woman or teenager was not accepted in society as a good thing. I had people in school call me fat, of course what fat person didn't? I was popular, had wonderful friends and a great family who loved me. I never felt alone and fat. I just knew that people did not accept big people . I didn't really give a shit?

I became a woman. It stopped being about LOOKS and more so about my health. My heart, my blood pressure, diabetes , heart disease etc. I want to lose weight and I need to lose weight to be healthy to live a longer life,be around longer for my son. I am not getting any younger. I am not a lazy pig. I love to exercise I love to swim and I love good nutritious food!! But like every other person in this WORLD, skinny, tall , fat short ... we all have a tough time doing this. There are NO excuses for not maintaining a healthy lifestyle..none. Time is the WORST one Ive heard of in my life. We all say it.. " i have no time" BULLSHIT ! You make time. Yes its ALOT of work juggling a family, children's homework, husbands , 2 jobs etc. But if you want it bad enough and you make it a priority in your life, you will make time. So simple....we just have to DO IT. ( putting my money where my mouth is , as we speak!! lol)

I believe that we all should try our best to maintain healthy lifestyles. Its NOT about physical appearances, it really isn't. Its about your LIFE , your quality of life, the longevity of your life. and for the little people who want us around for awhile. Start slow, find a "chubby buddy" to take classes with, go swimming with, go for walks with ! Make it fun.

Most of all be around people who support you , love you and truly want the best for you. That is the best push that a person can get. Don't surround yourself with selfish, ignorant and negative people.

I will be starting back at swimming on Monday! Anyone want to join me, let me know! Eat lots of greens, a healthy amount of carbs, and lean meats! And have that chocolate bar once in awhile!! It's okay. Don't worry about the number on the scale !! Its about how you FEEL , how your clothes fit, how strong you feel and how EMPOWERED you feel! Do not set your mind on a goal weight in the beginning , just get going ! Don't worry about that till later!

So do it ladies, find a chubby buddy, get healthy don't EVER be embarrassed, DO YOU! Don't let your weight stop you from doing ANYTHING! xoxo

Just wanted to let everyone in the greater Vancouver area know, that there is going to be a REALLY good Bra sale on @ Pennington's from Oct.1st - Oct.5th Like 40 % off on 50 dollar bras! Now is the time to buy some new bras. They have a range of sizes from a 38d to a 46/48 ddd . And if needing bigger around the waist, they also have bra extensions, they work like a charm! Don't be afraid to ask the ladies working there to measure your waist and bust line. Having a fitting and supportive bra makes a HUGE difference in comfort and the way clothes look on your body. Good luck bra shopping!!

Wednesday, September 29, 2010

My name is Odette. I am 26 years young and struggling to be the best me. I am a certified "BBW". My main goal with this blog is to Empower women of all ages, colors and sizes. Give them confidence that many of us need ! Give them somone to relate to and get support from. Its not easy being a Big woman in todays cruel world. This world is filled with ignorant human beings. I want to give Big Women the tools to build a better YOU, be the best you can be at any size. I want women out there to know that life is not over after 200lbs!! You are beautiful, strong and intelligent women. I just want to bring it out in you women out there who struggle more then others do. I will be giving tips on fashion, hair, sales, trends etc All targeted towards my beautiful big sistas! Enjoy my Blog. Dont be shy to comment and ask questions!

Who's Odette?

If anyone knows about being a BBW its me. Ive struggled with my weight all my life, and still do till this day. But having come from a great family and a few good solid friends, I've become a somewhat confident woman. My goal here is to address the stereotypes, relate to women, support them, give them the confidence to be who they want to be. :)