A writer's spirit - I live in the moment, and the little things count.

In her own words

I confess: I am clean, but there is a chair in my bedroom that collects clothes, and a countertop with papers that I need to sort through.
That being said, I am not a clothes horse and I prefer not to shop, unless I have to, and I usually pay my bills on time.
I could go days without wearing make-up.
Probably a combination of laziness and (as I get older) feeling more comfortable in my own skin.
I prefer hanging out one-on-one or with small groups of friends.
Small talk bores me, and if I am subjected to it for too long, there is a high possibility that I may say something that could be taken offensively (if you don't have a sense of humor).
I am very good at communicating my feelings. There is nothing better than engaging in good conversations. THAT being said, I do have a quiet side. On road trips, especially, I can get lost in the scenery around me for hours.
I love to laugh (who doesn't?), listen to music (of just about any kind - especially, live), eat good food, and enjoy a good cocktail (these days, tends to be red wine). I prefer hole-in-the-wall, unexpected finds to fancy tablecloths or chain restaurants. My favorite meal? Blue crabs and cold beer. I love all types of food, however. Especially, ethnic cuisine - Indian, Thai, Indonesian, Korean, Vietnamese, etc.
What am I looking for? A friend to spend time with. Someone to share deep thoughts with, as well as random, absurd observations. Someone who can jump in the car on a weekend, not have a plan, and be easily pleased by wherever we end up. And, someone who, for sure, can absolutely LAUGH. Warning: I laugh at slapstick, and if you do anything clumsy (like fall off a curb or run into a sliding glass door), there is absolutely nothing that will be able to prevent me from laughing. Do not mistake that for a lack of concern - I am a very caring and compassionate person : )
The truth is that I am a very simple, easily pleased, in the moment woman, and I am open to entertaining the thought of new possibilities. Of course, there absolutely MUST be chemistry, but that is a "no-brainer", and when there is, there is nothing better!
Please do not show interest if you do not have a photo on your profile. I will not respond.

Sports & exercise

Sign

Pets

Charlie is a fancy sounding name of a breed, which I will share with you later. I prefer not to be judged, so I just call him a fancy mutt.

Political views

Liberal

Favorite hot spots

Any excuse to spend time in the Outer Banks, though I find I appreciate it much more during the off-season. Lately, my "quick" escape is just over the Bay Bridge to Kent Island for some crabs.

College

American Public University System, Charles Town, WV

Favorite things

I like all types of music. I like all types of food, especially, ethnic cuisine. Crabs and beer, in the summertime - a must! Thunderstorms, snowstorms, wildflowers, a big, bright moon, on a clear night. My kids, friends, family.

For fun

Going to the movies. Love independent films. Walks around the lake. Going for a drive, with my camera in tow. Eating out, cooking at home, or ordering carryout - as long as I am with people I love to spend time with.

Last read

Currently reading "Between Shades of Gray", which is entirely different than "50 Shades of Gray" (I have read that, too).