Thursday, March 1, 2012

Him: Are you familiar with the Myers-Briggs personality assessment?M: Yes.Him: Might I ask what your results were?M: INTJ.Him: That's what I surmised. :)M: Haha...why?Him: I noticed in class that your lower jaw is slack during class, and INTJs typically have underdeveloped facial muscles.

The Analysis

K: I’m just going to very quickly grab a butcher knife. I’ve seen like six episodes of CSI that start this way.M: I know. I’m SO glad I know karate. I mean … it’s probably fine, I just think he’s never actually interacted with another human being before, ever in his life.K: No kidding. He sounds like C-3PO.M: I don’t know what that is, but I’m going to assume it’s a robot.K: Sometimes it is hard for me to accept you as my friend.M: Whatever. Why is he noticing things about my lower jaw? My face IS developed!K: Mmm ...M: WHAT?K: I can sort of see what he means.M: Shut up. No you can’t.K: Look, don’t be mad at me about this. Maybe if you spent a little more time developing your facial muscles and a little less time arguing with me, you wouldn’t be in this mess.

The Texts

Him: Its nice and cool down there.Him: I have been through a lot of baby powder thoB: Haha...Him: Also, my manhood is in your bottom file cabinet...B: What do you mean by that?Him: Its all in a bag...

The Analysis

K: I don’t get it??B: Don’t make me say it out loud.K: OH MY GOD! … Wait … ahhh I’m sorry, I still don’t get it.B: He shaved his … nether areas, before these texts were sent. “Manhood” ??K: Get out of my house.B: This is my house! And anyway I’m not the one who said it.K: Ugh, I kind of wish you were never born, for your own sake.B: Me too pretty much. I mean he was just kidding, because obviously I don’t have a file cabinet. But still.K: I feel like that’s worse somehow. Pubic hair in a file cabinet is no laughing matter.B: The WORST worst part is thatI pretended to think it was funny because I DIDN’T KNOW WHAT ELSE TO DO.K: I don’t blame you. I think we should travel to the nearest Middle Earth volcano and throw your phone in. It’s only allowing evil forces to know where you are.B: There needs to be an emoticon that is like a smiley face, but the teeth are clenched and you’re only laughing to keep from crying.

The Texts

Him: Hey, I was wondering if we could get coffee sometime. There’s something I wanted to talk to you about.R: Um, ok sure, what did you need to talk to me about?Him: I can't tell you that.R: Well, I don't really like surprises, so could you give me a general idea?Him: If I wanted to tell you through texts, I would ... can you just meet me for coffee?

The Analysis

K: Well there are two options. He’s either in love with you, or he’s afraid that his long-lost evil twin has returned to steal his fortune, and he needs your help to seduce and trap him.R: Ugh, I think he’s probably in love with me.K: You do seem to give off a lot of pheromones.R: I can’t help it. It doesn’t make sense because I barely even shower.K: I know. You are probably the grossest sex goddess I know.R: Look, just because YOU don’t own any screen-printed animal sweatshirts ...K: …R: I guess there isn’t a point to that, I just was thinking fondly about my sweatshirts.K: I have nothing against your sweatshirts. I’m just saying, I’m impressed by how much your raw sexuality seeps through them. They’re so thick.R: Maybe they remind boys of biology, and they’re like, “I should be thinking about my natural instinct to spread my seed.”K: Ewww, you’re probably right. How are you going to get out of this?R: I have one really good idea. Do you still have any of that white face paint from Halloween? … And some gauze.K: Oh, your solution is a lot more mummy-seeming than mine would have been.R: Just trust me.

The Texts

Him: Do you have any time this week to meet up? There’s something I need to talk to you about.K: Can you tell me what’s going on?Him: No, I can’t. Sorry. So do you have any time?K: I don’t understand why you can’t just tell me.Him: Well, I don’t understand why you can’t make the time for me to get something off my chest.

The Analysis

R: NOT THIS AGAIN. What’s happening?? I’m like actually scared.K: I mean, this pretty much qualifies as an epidemic, don’t you think?R: I would say so. Two episodes are generally all that you really need for something to be considered an outbreak.K: This IS an X-Files episode, pretty much. It’s called “Love Bug,” and in it these men eat cakes from this bakery and become so consumed with lust that they have to harass their prey and eat them alive, and the owner of the bakery is a witch who wants vengeance because her lover cheated on her. Mulder would be like, “You know what they say, Scully. Hell hath no fury like a wicked witch scorned.” And Scully would just give him a look, and you’d be like, “You guyyys. Love each other!”R: Uh,technically mine didn’t end up being lust-based so much as it was salvation-based.K: True. I can’t decide if I’d rather have him tell me he loves me or have him tell me that Jesus loves me.R: At least with the latter you wouldn’t end up pity-making-out with anyone. Probably??K: What I don’t understand, besides EVERYTHING, is why they think that it’s appropriate to basically guilt-trip a person into meeting up? Like isn’t that sort of a bad way to go about getting someone to love you? OR Jesus.R: I think they’re, like, volcano people. Lava feelings. They can’t help but erupt and destroy.K: Ugh. That’s why I prefer a nice, slow-rising feelings flood. That way, by the time you drown to death you’re kind of like, well, I did see this coming.

I can't even get past that first one. Was this drawn directly from Negging for Sociapaths?

Sidebar: Am I the only person who has never been out for coffee with a dude (please insert your own sexual preference to fit question)? I have coffee with friends but with guys it's drinks or dinner. I don't know. Am I missing some step?

@JessicaLovejoy I've had guys suggest coffee for a first date from OKcupid. I think it's terrible. Why would you want to meet some stranger on the internet WITHOUT alcohol? Those dates never go well. I should probably just consider it a dealbreaker if they suggest coffee in the first place.

@JessicaLovejoy I haven't ever been, but that's probably because I've only ever been on one "date" date where the guy asked me out (we went and saw Once! It was lovely! Too bad he was a juicebox), and my long-term boyfriend hates coffee. So I'm probably not the person to ask, even though I butted in here anyway.

@JessicaLovejoy My experiences in undergrad indicate that asking another lady out for coffee is lesbian for "let's go have some sex." What on earth does it mean when a dude asks a lady for coffee, does someone know?

@JessicaLovejoy I go on coffee dates all the time. I have a painfully low tolerance, so if I go out for drinks, it's bound to be embarrassing for me. I also really like coffee. A lot. I like the environment of a good cafe, and I've become extremely comfortable talking over a good coffee or latte or whatever.

I've also had this bizarre pattern of drinking people who LOVE coffee but not so much booze, so going out for coffee works for them.

I also go out for dinner about as equally as I do coffee. No preference for me there.

@JessicaLovejoy Well, my experience of coffee dates have always gone extremely well. I met my bf of almost 6 years at a coffee shop! We went and still go to coffee all the time! But granted, he's epileptic, so he can't drink alcohol, and we met when I was 20, so I wouldn't be served anyway. But even after I turned 21, I didn't like being the only one getting tipsy on a date. Coffee dates can work out!

@Lenora Jane Possibly! That's why I always end up going for the coffee instead of being like 'we're meeting at night why don't we just go to a bar?' Because then I think I'll sound suspicious. But I can't even drink coffee at nighttime or I'll be up all night! THIS IS WHY I'M NOT DATING RIGHT NOW TOO MUCH BEVERAGE-RELATED STRESS.

@JessicaLovejoy I hate coffee dates. Coffee makes me jittery and farty and it makes my breath smell bad! Me drinking coffee is me at my absolute worst, no one should have to see that, at least not during the very beginning stages of a relationship.

@JessicaLovejoy I am not a Coffee Drinker so I may be biased, but coffee breath. Coffee. Breath. Why would you even consider getting sexy with someone with coffee breath? The thought of it makes me shudder.

@JessicaLovejoy I always do coffee first-dates with online dating people. I like to schedule it in the afternoon so if it's going badly I have an excuse to bow out after half an hour "to get back to work".

@MilesofMountains: Seriously, I don't see why this is a thing. You can get tea, or water. It's a 'coffee' date in name only; you meet in a public place, sit and chat, and if it's a dud you walk away in 15 minutes. If it rocks you go 'Hey let's grab dinner' and then do whatever.

@ilikemints I am also epileptic, but I can drink (everyone has different triggers, of course). Thank goodness! I can't drive because of it though, so I can basically drink however much I want wherever, whenever ;)

I'd much prefer getting to know someone in a coffee shop than a bar (seems like it'd be quieter, more in depth people watching, better snacks) but coffee makes me poooooop like whoah.
I dunno I guess I just wanted to see if anyone else poops immediately from coffee.
I don't go on many dates okay.

I just have to interject: I believe showering too much washes away pheromones or something, so maybe showering more would decrease the texts about Jesus' love? I am not too sure, but I feel like there should be a study done about this.

@lil_bobbytables The rare times I get hit on by randos is when I feel "gross" (ie, haven't showered or shaved or whatever). So I would agree with your hypothesis that showering more would decrease such texts from conversion-happy juiceboxes. (SOCIAL) SCIENCE!

@BuffyBot lmao! YESSS...why is this? It never fails...leave the house is sweatpants, unwashed hair and no makeup and the DUDES are OUT...leave the house looking PUT. TO. GETHER....NOTHING! i seriously hate it!

@lil_bobbytables i know it's stupid, but a lot of us dudes can get a bit intimidated by a PUT. TO. GETHER. woman, even if we agree she looks amazing. Plus, girls without makeup and with messy hair and super cute.

@thebestjasmine Let me start by saying, yes, this terminology is fucking TERRIBLE. But on the other hand, I used to work with a large number of young black men from Boston's inner city, and they ALL said that, and I can't say they were all juiceboxes. There was a lot of latent unexamined misogyny, no doubt, but...it was just a word they all knew and used. Even the girls said it. It was just the word.

It was a battle I knew there was no point trying to fight, unfortunately. But anyway, not all of them were juiceboxes.

@miwome Well, naturally, not every guy who uses the expression "females" is a douchebag, and it's interesting that it also came up in that context. But there is a *very* high correlation between the term's usage and college-aged young men who are in love with approaching life "logically" (say, by randomly texting a lady to confirm a personal hypothesis on her Myers-Briggs assessment).

@TheBourneApproximation Yeah, no, I agree that that term when used by the demographic of "males" most likely to be dated by Pinners is a near-universal sign of douchery. I just got all weirdly nostalgic.

@bonnbee I flip between INTJ and INTP, depending on how anxious I am at the time. Just took it again and got J. Might need to do something about that... but thinking about that makes me annnxxiiioouusssss.

@atipofthehat You don't even need to build another personality if you know how the test "works". It's so easy to trick/sway (says the person whose mother was a comm professor and has been taking it and the Keirsey tests since she was 12).

@Poubelle Bahahahaha! YES! SO TRUE!!! Here's how that conversation should have gone:
Him: Are you familiar with the Myers-Briggs personality assessment?
M: Yes. It has low predictive validity and has been all but abandoned by serious personality researchers.

Confession: I've done this. I was in ninth grade! She was not in love with me back. It was very, very, very awkward. My palms were this sweaty: (making gesture representing sweatiness). I was very conscious of my face. It felt like I was making all kinds of weird expressions and then I would try really hard to control them and then it would feel like I was imitating a mannequin. I had written down everything I would say first, like a Choose Your Own Adventure (and then I memorized it so I wouldn't have to refer to my notes). "If her response is 'I have some feelings for you too, but not all of them,' turn to page 10 for a totally suave response to that." But she immediately threw me off the script by saying something I hadn't thought of at all (I can't remember what, but it wasn't "I love you"), which was Insensitive Thing #2, the first being not being in love with me.

THIS is the best thing I've read online in weeks:
"I think they’re, like, volcano people. Lava feelings. They can’t help but erupt and destroy.
K: Ugh. That’s why I prefer a nice, slow-rising feelings flood. That way, by the time you drown to death you’re kind of like, well, I did see this coming."

@isavedlatin INFP too! It's definitely not rare at my stupid customer service job, though. I think the service world attracts people who are willing to bend over backwards to avoid all that stomach-churning conflict.

@lighter fluid also INFJ. Sad story of my life: when I was younger (Jr. High, HS) I would always get INTJ. The description of that is basically like, you are a genius whose sheer brainpower and insight will save the world. And then once I started emotionally maturing (not a knock on INTJs for life, I just happened to also be emotionally immature!) I started forever getting INFJ. The description of which is pretty much like, you are weak and flighty and not really good for anything practical or perhaps anything at all. This is one of the larger grievances of my (obviously sheltered) life.

@isavedlatin INFP here too! I think we're more prevalent on the internet than in real life, because it's easier to socialize this way. That's my theory, anyway, because half my internet friends seem to be INFP/INTP.

@lighter fluid @megan patterson@facebook
MAYBE WE'RE NOT SO RARE? Or we all congregate on The Hairpin
@thejcar I didn't get the impression that INFJs aren't good for anything... If anything, it reinforced how I feel awesome about myself (or, I guess, it allows me to examine why I'm not feeling awesome at a particular moment?). You gotta own it. Also maybe retake the test...

BECAUSE YOU GUYS, I took this friggin Myers Briggs test in bed one morning with a (now-ex) boyfriend because he wanted to "see what I was" (if we were compatible? GUESS NOT). ????

@isavedlatin As an INTJ, I can inform you that we're all rare. There are 16 different possible results for the Myers-Briggs test. So the average percentage of the population with any given Myers-Briggs result is just 6.25%.

@sophi It's not that weird, actually! Our E/I and J/P values often shift over our lifetimes, but the core combination (NT, for you) usually stays the same. I can't remember the reason, now, but it's A Thing.

@isavedlatin INTJ all the way. I like the one test where it tells me that my career should be a dictator. And I have well-developed facial muscles from grinding my teeth at the stupidity of some people.

@isavedlatin I can never remember what I am, so I have to keep retaking it, and I suspect I get a different thing every time. I got an ISTJ this time, which from the descriptions sounds like the most boring personality type in the world. I was also borderline ISTP, which is slightly less boring. Either way, neither sounds at all like me.

@MilesofMountains I can only remember that I am an "E" something, but that I was literally 51% 'E', '49%' I. Which makes a lot of sense, because I find social interactions really draining, but start bouncing off walls if I'm alone for too long.

@lighter fluid I always ride the INTJ/INFJ line when I take these tests, which means I am a hypersensitive genius robot who loves you. That's like, the worst kind of robot. You can't fight in a robot war like that.

@isavedlatin INFP over here too! I've taken it at three different times in my life and always gotten that, so I'm finding it hard to argue with the assessment. Another personality test: gauging your reaction as you read the description of your personality type. Mine is a potent mixture of eye-rolling and deep-seated satisfaction that I am, in this small way, like Audrey Hepburn.

@isavedlatin INFP!!! Totally unabashadly INFP here! Take the near missive I wrote on last Friday's open thread as evidence. UGH and that totally blew up in my face. I could go on, but am wary to drag my issues into this thread. Anyone interested in a sad update? :(

@wee_ramekin Yeah, mine is always 'needs alone time, finds people draining', but I shift between P and J depending on how good I rate myself at small talk, etc. And how nuanced the test is on that area. I mean, I will forever put that I prefer a book to a party, but if the question is do you prefer a small dinner party to being alone all weekend, I'll pick the former. And if they ask me if I find people relaxing, I say NO, but if they ask if I'm good at meeting people, when I am anxious I'll say no, otherwise it's a big yes. I'm amazing at small talk, it just makes me want to DIEEEE.

True story, at my last job I had to do some last minute photocopying for a manager's meeting, and part of it was myers-briggs at work. Mine was all 'don't give them busy work, or repeat instructions, do explain things so they understand, then they will work hard for you. Don't expect them to follow flighty or unreasoned instructions'. It was all 100% true about how I like to work. I ran myself off an extra copy, realised that I was never going to be happy where I was for those very reasons ('I've JUST had this brilliant idea!' NO YOU HAVEN'T) and started looking for a new job.

@cuminafterall I'm basing my information solely on the embarrassingly titled book "Please Understand Me" (aka the Keirsey Temperament Sorter). INFPs are less than 1% of the population, so they say. WE DON'T EVEN GO HERE. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RUFT35S7Jb4

@isavedlatin INFP! I feel like a lot of my responses were mood based, and the personality description seems a lot nicer/more caring than I usually feel, but I know I have gotten INFP before (I remember you from college, Healer description).

@isavedlatin I'm an INFP too! I don't really remember what that means, except that most of my friends are INTPs and there's been some mild insinuation that having an F instead of a T means that I'm dumber than they are.

@isavedlatin I am also an INFP! I have never met one in real life, but also I am not very social so that might be why. And I remember reading the "INFP as a child" section in Please Understand Me and feeling like it was practically a biography.

@itmakesmewonder YES thank you! I was immediately thinking "This strange gentleman has clearly managed to mix up INTJ and TMJ, because I actually study personality assessments for a living, and there is definitely no research indicating any particular personality type is associated with slackjaw."

Also the Myers-Briggs is the bane of my existence. If I answer one question I'm on the fence about in the first place one way, I'm an INTP, if I answer it the other way, I'm an ENTP. That alone means you don't have a good test. And other science ladies will understand what I mean when I say it is a very very bad test because they've done absolutely no criterion-related validity studies on it. So it's about as good as those Cosmo quizzes that tell you whether you're a bohemian-hipster, preppy-mod, classic-romantic, or vampire-werewitch person. /rant

Once, on a first date with a consultant, just out of the blue, he guessed that I was an ENFJ. It totally freaked me out. I felt a little like he could read my mind. There was no date 2. Dating advice for men: don't ever employ the, "hey, what's your myers-briggs personality type?" line. I'd rather tell you I'm a Taurus.

@bean1 When my college advisor went over the test with me we both kept going, "Yeeeahhh...that doesn't really sound like me at all does it?" I don't know why, but for whatever reason (probably my extreme indecisiveness) my results were way off. HOWEVER, every time I go over my horoscope I feel like there's no way the stars aren't controlling my destiny because my astrological sign describes me eerily well.

So yes, basically let's all just talk about astrology now. It is superior.

@pterodactgirl and @franceschances and @megan patterson@facebook: first of all, I am sorry if I am not responding to comments the right way. New to this. Anyway, I assume people who are caught up in personality tests (for dating reasons or otherwise) are really, really one dimensional. I hope I'm not massively offending anyone, but really, I hope we're all more than a basic profile. Also, astrology, so fun! Tauruses rule.

I'm sitting down and doing this Briggs-Meyers thing right now, and some of the questions! They need an area for explanation! Like for, "You are inclined to rely more on improvisation than on careful planning," I would need the space to write, "well, I always write lists and plan very carefully but then get to the grocery store and realize I forgot my shopping list at home so I inevitably just buy three pounds of mushrooms and some pastrami."

@figwiggin Dude, I have taken it so many times and I can never remember what I get because I concluded long ago that it's all hokum. Or maybe I concluded it was hokum because I can never remember what I got.

@figwiggin good cuz i'm sitting here thinking who are these people who actually know their briggs-meyers assessments off the top of their head?! I considered taking the test but then i remembered how long it was.

@Dancersize I had the juiciest of juicebox exes who became a born-again Christian at the same time that he was cheating on me with a born-again Christian (yay irony) and tried really hard to convert me by sending me loads of those texts/ emails. what?

@The Lady of Shalott "Hello. Thank you for going out on a date with me. Before we start, can you fill out this form, take this exam, and then tell me your receptivity to being a housewife for the rest of your life? Serious applicants only, please." *folds hands*

I have always kind of wanted to do "I have something to tell you. I know you think we are just friends, and have been basing our interactions around that, but guess what? I'M ACTUALLY MADLY IN LOVE WITH YOU."

And then, ideally, I would give a speech about how we are perfect for each other and it's right there, and DUH, why don't we just start making out now.

Except...maybe it's just me, but I feel like that's really weird? Like, it's one thing to develop little passing crushes on platonic buddies (which I feel like it's okay to admit to a single friend "You know what's weird? I'm actually kind of crushin' on you a little this week!" - am I weird for thinking that?) but I don't know how people decide they fall in love with someone with, you know, being with them in a relationshippy way first?

Like, their are mad people I love as friends, who are also physically attractive to me...but I can't even fathom how I'd just "Fall in romantic love" with one of them without like, already having them as someone I make out and hold hands w/ (and the sex, and watching tv all night without the sex, and etc) first.

@leon.saintjean Yes, this has never happened to me. I have never suddenly, or even not-so-suddenly, realized I was in love with someone who has been a platonic friend for years or decades. Then again, I consider sex with every single dude I meet or know, so I don't see how I could miss the potential upon first meeting a guy.

@leon.saintjean I feel like it is ok to admit crushes even to non-single friends, if you accept that crushes are things that are little and pass. I have definitely admitted crushing on various single/nonsingle friends in the last 4 years of not-being-single myself

@rocknrollunicorn This has happened to me, but it was with a guy friend from high school who I had known back before either of us had sex drives.

I hadn't seen him in a while, and I came back from college to see him perform in The Laramie Project, and that particular production started with a guy with his back to the audience. I'm in the crowd, all lusting after this dude's super hot, super cut back, and he turns around. My first reaction was "Daaaaaaaaayyyyyyyyyyyum, that guy is hoooooooot..." followed quickly by "Shit shit SHIT *THAT IS YOUR BEST GUY FRIEND* FUCK SHIT". Which then spurred me to admit to myself that maybe I was actually in the deep, deep love with him (I was) and not just really good friends.

I doubt that this could happen to me now with my fully developed (and, at present, severely understimulated) sex-drive. Back then, I was sort of just discovering sexy feelings (I was a late bloomer).

@leon.saintjean I feel like 1) that kind of Deep Love feeling is almost guaranteed to be not about the actual person, and therefore creepy. (As opposed to crushing on a friend, or transitioning a friend to a cuddle buddy and then falling in love) and

2) that 'hey! I have an emotion about you! Carry my emotional burden!' conversation is kinda gross. A part of me really really loves it a lot, because of ROMANCE and DRAMA! But most of me is like 'woah, we are grownups now, if you have feelings for a friend the polite thing to do is to have a casual, no pressure conversation about it, not make a huge drama so that they feel bad if they don't reciprocate!'

@figwiggin Don't be sorry -- that's my favorite plot line in romance novels too! I love the best friends who "suddenly" fall for each other, because in general, the "we met two weeks ago and now we have a Love That Transcends Time" aspect of most romance novels is really unbelievable to me (...although apparently stories about Scottish lairds and spirited lassies are like, totally realistic in my mind?).

Now that we're dissecting it in this thread though, I realize that this probably won't ever happen to me again. I am (fully) aware of my sex drive now, so if I meet someone I'm attracted to, I know that right from the start. There's no "big reveal" at some sudden point after we've become friends*.

(*Although, this did actually happen the first time I fell in love with a female-bodied person. But, in my defense, I had been humming along happily thinking I was straight for 24 years, so that one was understandable, I think.)

Hahahaha I am a lady who is trying to pull what those dudes in the last two are pulling. Not to express love or to convert him, but to give him the old what-for. And it's failing. Stupid dudes and their 6th sense that I want to tell the things they don't want to hear.

@Katie Heaney @all ALSO I realized literally just now that I listed the price way wrong originally?? And obviously never wanted anyone to pay $26 for these things??? Agh I don't get Etsy. The price has been updated and now it's $10 for a mug.

Ugh, volcano people! May they stay far away from you and your fur babies.

I'm INFJ. I didn't remember what the thingy said about me when I took the test a couple years ago, so I just looked up a description and it's so accurate that I started welling up a li'l bit. Is it real? Is it like astrology? Am I just seeing what I want to see? Is astrology real?

@You'll be sorry Jo March
Just wait until you take it from a trained M-B test giver/career counselor at my college who is also INFJ, and he tells you that INFJs are a super rare personality, and that you'll always feel different, but that your differences are vital to the world. Then you'll start welling up for sure...
Also, yeah I imagine it's pretty scientific but there's wiggle room based on mood and things.

@redheaded&crazy Last weekend I told my partner that I was a special snowflake and he said 'you know, there aren't actually that many different snowflakes. There are a few basic structures, with flaws and variations that make them sort of different.'

Is it bad that the first thing I think re: the last two is he wants to tell her he has an STD? Because the one time I got that from a guy that was what I thought.

But it turned out he just wanted to make a really big deal out of how his roommate could NEVER KNOW we'd hooked up, because his roommate was my mopey-jealous ex-boyfriend. And my mopey-jealous ex had just found out I'd slept with one of his OTHER friends a while back (after we broke up! After!) and apparently hit the roof.

But the bright side: the conversation was not as bad as I thought it would be.

@miwome Whenever I get those can-we-talk-in-person texts, I always text back some variation of "okay but should I be worried? you know, WORRIED?" And if they don't get it, then it's just "this isn't about a sore on your gentials, right??"

@miwome Yeah, I know a guy who assumes any "we need to talk. IN PERSON." requests mean pregnancy or an STD. He says it's made it easier when it wasn't either of those things--"I just got dumped, but at least I don't have to worry about AIDS!"

OKCupid and it's progenitor, SparkMatch, both use modified M-B personality tests for romantic sorting. I liked taking them because I thought their questions were extremely interesting, as many of them I felt I could not divine which axis I was being placed on when I answered them.

Two questions I remember specifically:

Do you think the 1950's were a romantic period? y/n
If you were forced to kill either a puppy or a kitty, which would it be?

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