I recently watched the movie Tootsie with Dustin Hoffman. I actually thought, "Wouldn't it be sweet to have a president who can speak Tootsie-style?" She fearlessly ripped open the curtain to reveal the dysfunction all around her/him. It woke everyone up in a painful, yet positive way.

I told her that none of us want to be overweight, but that it seems like she thinks the judgments are helping us. I said, "You can't heal that which creates the weight in an environment of hate. You need an environment of love to heal."