Speaking of doing, I can't do Nole or...if it's the other way. He doesn't strike me as a man with substance. I am never attracted to a guy just because he's very handsome. I have to know him first and know that he's great at carrying on conversation and that he posses great qualities - only then I'll be interested.

I can't look at men the way men look at women...as sexual objects most of the time.

Man and why is he a sympathetic figure? He is one of the best professional tennis players, has loads of cash, has a supportive (over supportive) mother/coach....and I thought poor children in africa were sympathetic figures