Sunday, July 15, 2012

Steps to Follow

relationship help

Learning
to get a man to commit to a relationship can be one of the most difficult and
confusing tasks a woman can undertake. Men and women are completely different
creatures, and one will never completely understand the other. But just by
learning a few simple things, you can get your man to commit to your
relationship and finally take the next step.

First, stop playing hard to get. If you think
manipulation is the key to winning a man’s heart, you are in for a lifetime of
heartache. Despite what you might read, a man wants to know that his woman will
be loyal to him and will be at his side no matter what happens. He wants to
know that she loves him and he doesn't want to have to worry about what she's
doing at all times.

Next, every man feels that he has some kind of
purpose or destiny, even though he may not know what it is yet. If he feels
that someone is keeping him from reaching this purpose, he will develop
negative feelings towards this person and begin to pull away from them. It is
important to note that many times this happens subconsciously and the man has
no idea why he feels this way. He simply follows his gut. So in order to get a
man to commit to you and your relationship, support him in his decisions and
help him reach his destiny!

Finally, a man wants to know that he can be loved
for who he REALLY is. He wants to know that he can be himself and completely
let his guard down around you. If you want to know the quickest way to not get
a man to commit, just try to change him and watch how fast he runs for the
hills. And when a woman nags a man about things he does or doesn't do, this is,
in a sense, an attempt to change him. He can’t help that he forgets to hang up
his towel or pick up his clothes sometimes. That is just the way his brain
works. So stop all of the nagging and complaining about the little things he
does that annoy you and let him know that it's OK to be who he is! This is the
absolute quickest way to win a man’s complete devotion. Do everything possible
to make him feel completely comfortable around you and you will achieve more
than you ever thought possible.