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This question is about: "What is the pattern to match a pattern-definition, exactly as it is written?"
My original question is now split according to Mr.Wizards insightful answer below. This ...

I often find myself in situations where I, for example, need to build a table for some expression, but want to set the number of points rather then the step size, so the code ends up looking like this
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