Dear Dish-It: Should I Give My Friends A Second Chance?

I had two friends but they went off with each other and left me. Should I ever talk to them again? They still try to get my attention.

QueenBubblegum

Dear QueenBubblegum,

It doesn’t sound like these girls are very good friends to you – but maybe I don’t know the whole story? If the three of you had a fight or argument over something, then maybe it’s worth talking to them again and seeing what they have to say. But if they dumped you as a friend for absolutely no reason, then I’m not sure why you’d even want to be friends with them anymore?

Friendship is a very delicate and complicated relationship – sometimes it can be even more complex than a romantic relationship with someone you love. And that means that there are no hard and fast rules when it comes to friendship. You should ask yourself whether you’re willing to give your friends another chance or not – only you know the answer to that question.

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