Personalized Support for the College Application Process

The sordid college admissions scandal has caught the public's attention and brought attention to just how far some families will go to get into the "right" college. There are many parties to blame for this appalling crime: the high-stakes private consultant, the cheating doctors and test proctors, the desperate parents, greedy college coaches, athletic directors, and (in some cases) the students. There have been a number of articles written about high priced college counselors and their role in stacking the deck in favor of certain applicants - their wealthy and well-connected clients who seem to be willing to pay almost any price for insider information, influence, and guarantees. As a proud and professional member of both the Higher Education Consultants Association and the Independent Educational Consultants Association, I would like to provide some tips to help you discern between the bad actors and the ethical and professional Educational Consultants I know and with whom I collaborate.My role as a Professional Independent Educational Consultant is:

Encourage a thoughtful exploration of the student's best fit college (academically, socially, and financially)

Support students in building a realistic and balanced college list based on those factors

Identify and share authentic avenues for exploring a student's academic and extracurricular interests

Facilitate the process for students with genuine learning disabilities to receive legitimate accommodations on testing and in the classroom

Meet with Educational Psychologists, test prep, and tutoring providers to ensure that they are qualified professionals acting in a student's best interest

Brainstorm and act as an editor (not a writer!) on essays, activities, and other application materials

Visit colleges throughout the country and build relationships with other admissions professionals to understand the culture and environment on those campuses

Promote a mindset where the outcome of the (unpredictable and sometimes unfair) college admissions process does not determine your self-worth as a parent or student

Fabricate extracurricular or academic accomplishments on behalf of a student

Accede to the parent's wishes about the perfect college without working directly with the student to discern the student's best fit

Draft, complete, or submit essays or applications that are not the student's own work

Lie to, cheat, or bribe high school counselors, test proctors, or admissions professionals

The college search and application process is filled with uncertainty and anxiety. As someone who has worked with hundreds of students and their families, I assure you that the ultimate prize is not getting in to a top college. It is the growth and self-awareness gained from how you address those challenges. A student's potential and future successes are not defined by their parents, test scores, GPA, or the colleges they get into, but rather by their own efforts and willingness to do difficult and challenging things. And, while the outcome of admissions decisions can be different from what students and parents hoped for, those decisions are not the final chapter. Our role is to support them in that journey, not to complete it for them.