My BDSM Journey

Ask Me

Wicked Wednesday #28 and Word for Wednesday #29

The prompt for Wicked Wednesday this week is:

Questions- Are there something you want to ask, or someone you want to ask something? Or maybe someone has asked you a question and you want to answer it? This is the week to share your questions… and answers.

I decided to use it for my Word for Wednesday this week. I like being able to combine memes 😀

Question – A sentence, phrase, or word that asks for information or is used to test someone’s knowledge, a matter or problem that is being discussed: a subject or topic, doubt or uncertainty about something.

I seem to have spent my whole life questioning everything, that’s one of the reasons I read so much. Never stop questioning and never stop learning.

The one area I have problems with is asking other people questions. General day to day stuff and even some personal things are OK if it’s someone I know well, but there are certain things I don’t like to ask about. Mostly it’s because I just feel uncomfortable about prying into someone’s life or feelings, sometimes it’s because I may not want to hear what they have to say. Instead I keep the questions in my head, which really doesn’t help because then I start thinking all sorts of ridiculous things.

I generally don’t have much problem answering questions now, although again there are certain areas I’m not so comfortable talking about. I like to think I’m getting better at it.

And I may come to regret this but if there is anything you’d like to ask me feel free. You can leave a comment, Tweet or DM me on Twitter @cherrytartblog or you can e-mail me at cherrytartblog@gmail.com.

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14 thoughts on “Ask Me”

I am an endless and relentless questioner too! I usually ask way too many questions.
I can assure you that if you ever want to ask me something you can feel free to do so and I will answer as honestly as I can.
Now… I’m off to think up some questions for you!

Okay! When did you first get into being tied up? BDSM. I’ve always been curious but never followed through. But I think there’s a difference between curiosity and need. Do you need it? Do you know why? Is it offensive that i ask you that Does it go back to something? Am I a prude?????

The first time I asked someone to tie me up I was about 19. But he had no idea what he was doing, neither did I really 🙂
I’ve always been curious about kink, but it’s really only over the last maybe ten years I’ve gotten to do anything slightly kinky – different positions and anal – such a rebel! 😀 This year was when I really got the chance to explore. I don’t think there’s anything I ‘need’ as such. There are things I really enjoy and add to the experience, especially being ‘made’ to do something. It’s the sense of danger, but also knowing it’s safe. I wouldn’t like for it to really happen. I don’t think that it’s because of anything that happened before. Like I said, it’s always been there, I just didn’t know exactly what it was that I liked.
And no it’s not offensive, I think we need so much more openness around kink. A lot of people don’t understand why. I don’t really understand why, it just makes me feel good. It’s something I enjoy.
I don’t think you’re a prude, I’ve read some of your stories 😀
It’s just one of those things that’s still seen as weird or wrong by some people, especially if they don’t know anything about it.

Thanks for your question 🙂
That would depend on the situation 😀
Dressed, I like a nice ass.
Undressed, you can’t beat (bad choice of word) a nice hard cock. I never used to find them very appealing to look at, but I’ve changed my mind about that. Although some butts look good naked too 🙂

No problem 🙂
I don’t watch it very often, it often takes too long to find something I want to watch. Most of it is too fake and I can’t connect with it. I prefer to read something filthy, it’s much easier to imagine myself in the scene. I do see quite a lot of porn gifs on Twitter which I prefer 😀

I never asked people questions either, also because I don’t want them thinking I am prying. Then I met my best friend and she was always asking questions, always interested in my life. I started forcing myself to ask her questions too. It was a learning curve for me, but now I can ask people questions without feeling that I am prying, but it still depends on who the person is 🙂