is there something like a succubus but not a demon (if that makes sense...) basically I'm just asking what would be a non- demonic succubus and are there any creatures that are similar to the succubi but not demonic?

I do believe all succubi and incubi are demons, however, some say they are evil, some say they are not, they drain energy, where some people believe it will kill you, if they drain you too much, I honestly wouldn't invoke one, but if you want to, then go ahead, but just know some are hard to banish and I would advice you not to summon one. You also have to know, succubi and incubi, drain energy by having "intercourse" with you..

It all depends in what you believe, evil or not.

I don't know much about succubi and incubi, so I hoped this helped some.

Reading your profile, I highly doubt you know what succubi and incubi are capable of, also you claim to be a half dark elf half neko, just know roleplaying is against the rules, abd you are human, always will be human, you cannot change into a werewolf, a neko, a vampire, a dark elf, or any mythical/fantasy creature/s.

I suggest you read The Basics, What Magick Can and Cannot Do, Different Types of Magick, and checking out the Newbie Central.

Sorry if this came out as rude, but you need to learn what Magick is before casting any spell or anything. :)