2. Plan spontaneity

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One of our final tips to help maintain her interest is to be spontaneous. For example, check the local listings for upcoming events, and then “just happen” to be in the area when they're happening. By keeping up to date on activities that are going on, you can try unconventional dates and keep her guessing. This shows that you are fun and that you can act on your impulses — which is always going to be exciting for her.