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Samantha KIt's so hard being me
[SIGPIC][/SIGPIC][SIZE="1"]Now I shout it from the highest hill,
Even told the golden daffodil.
At last my hearts an open door,
And my secret love's no secret anymore.[/SIZE]

Yvonne, Being from the US I'm not familiar with 21 stone but my youngest daughter is 6-2 and 170lbs with a size 11 shoe. She passes quite well as a girl.lol I stand 6-2 also (shrinking) and I have been tolod numerous times I look well. I would love to be shorter but then I would have to drop my weight and my feet would be to big. lol I guess with the different sizes and body shapes it is just a matter of finding what works for you and then flaunt it. giggles

I guess I would agree with you. If I could change one thing it would be the fact that I'm 6'2" tall too. I can change just about everything else but that I'll have to live with forever.

But that said, I wouldn't say that being tall means that you can't be a very attractive woman. It just means that you'll never "blend in".

I think being passable and being invisible are two different things. Girls that are as tall as we are just have to work harder at being "passable" because no matter what we do we are going to stick out in a crowd. Personally, I never want to be invisible. I enjoy being the center of attention and getting looks.

When I go out I usually still wear 4-5" heels. I get a lot of looks but they aren't all bad looks.

I want my hair back. Where'd it go? Back in the day I had hair down past my shoulder blades. Now it's more like Telly Savalas.

And height, I'm 6' but wouldn't mind being, oh say, 5'10". I'd like to be tall for a girl, but not quite so tall as now.

And many other things too numerous and intimate to mention.

Hugs...Joni Mari

Last edited by Joni Marie Cruz; 08-10-2009 at 01:59 PM.

"Because equality is not a concept. It's not something we should be striving for. It's a necessity. Equality is like gravity. We need it to stand on this earth as men and women. And the misogyny that is in every culture is not a true part of the human condition. It is life out of balance, and that imbalance is sucking something out of the soul of every man and woman who's confronted with it."

--Joss Whedon, to a reporter who asked, "So why do you create these strong women characters?"

I only daydream about things I can actually fix: it would be nice to bob my nose a little, electrolysis on my face would help a lot, oh and how about a hairweave so I'd never have to put on a wig again?

I don't mind being tall (6'0"), but I would like a little different distribution of my weight (more in the hips and butt), bustier (a nice, full C cup), no facial hair except eyebrows and lashes, a little bit higher pitched, lovely voice, and smaller feet (10 would be nice).
That's all--LOL!
A beautiful head of natural hair would be nice too.

At age 4 I had polio which now later in life means that I have a slight limp and my shoe sizes are 1 1/2 sizes different. This means buying shoes in 2 sizes. I would love to have slim sexy legs and feet that many of you enjoy. Appreciate what you have!

The crossdressing community is one that needs to stick together and continue to be there for each other for whatever one needs. We are always trying to improve the forum to better serve the crossdresser in all of us.