Ascendant square Mars

Attempts to dominate

Control could become an issue between you if you're not careful. When the initial attraction -- which is probably strong, and based on physical attributes -- has passed, that sexual energy could divert itself into something more acrimonious. You could start arguing about anything that comes up, even trivial things.

Consciously or subconsciously, your partner is attempting to use their anger to control you. They create problems where there are none; they start to think you're incompatible, even if you've actually got a lot in common! The basic problem of this aspect's influence is that it pits your egos against each other, causing your lover, especially, to be much more willful and even selfish than they really are. Everything starts to feel like it's got life-or-death importance; they stake their claim and fight for it, not realizing that in most cases, it just doesn't matter. They try their hardest to control what you do and want to do, and your attempts to resist their control only make them more determined. If this starts to happen, take it as a sign that their perception of you and of your relationship has gotten a bit warped. Disagreements about your objectives in life are an indicator that your partner is taking too much of a personal interest in where your life is leading. If you want the relationship to last in any pleasurable way, you both need to abandon any idea of controlling anyone but yourself.