There's a lot of so called techniques out there, but it comes down to trying to slow down and relax. I know that for myself, and probably other guys as well, it's the mental stimulation that works a lot faster than the physical stimulation. If all else fails, just make sure that the guy takes care of his lady first with whatever she needs to cum, then it's kind of irrelevant how long he can last.

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08/07/2011

ud328

I'm not familiar with The Beautiful Kind but was a little quick on the draw a couple months ago so I looked around the net to see what I could do. Male kegels during the day allow me to squeeze without have to physically squeeze the base of my penis (it distracts from the moment).

I've had surprising success with this and it allows me to last longer and longer. And not just constantly squeezing either. Every time I use that method the time it takes me to get back to climax seems to lengthen.

More importantly, and to echo what N&M said, there's a lot to be said for understanding the mental aspect of sexual excitement. When I'm paying attention to what's happening, and not just "oh my god pussy!", I can control what stage of climax I'm in and decide when I want to release.

I use the ball pulling trick on my hubby and it works pretty well. My husband is re-training himself through masturbation to last longer. It is a habit that men jack-off quickly mostly to keep from getting caught in puberty.
This is helping him in the bedroom lots he has tacked on about 3 minutes to penetration and is generally in control.