One:I post a lot of random things. Everything I post is done by custom groups, so if there's something you don't want to have clogging up your f-list (i.e. memes or secret posts.) comment to this post and let me know. I'll remove you from that group~

Edit: The above is not so much true anymore, but feel free to comment that entry regardless, in case I pick the habit up again in the future.

Two:I'm a lurker by nature, so if you only keep people on your f-list who comment frequently, I'm probably not a wise choice

Three: When friending me, pleasecomment here with two colors from the Friend Add page, for me to add you with.First color will be the username, second color the background - i.e. yellow on black - if I can pull that off without going blind.

If you don't respond with two colors I will be slow to add you back.

Four:On de-friending, please leave a comment here letting me know (preferably with why) if you remove me. No hard feelings, I like to just be aware of what's going on, and if the remove was intentional or accidental.It would just be really helpful, okay~? <3

Five:Last, because it is particularly important this matter stands out and is remembered. I value honesty, trust and respectabove all else.

If you feel the need to snoop around behind my back, instead of coming to me and talking about a concern.If you feel that you can manipulate me or that you need to corner me for any reason.If you can't respect me as a person, and trust me as a friend enough to communicate with me.If you feel that you have the right to order me around because you're not happy with something that I've said.

If any or all of these apply to you... Please refrain from wasting your time, and mine, in advance by not adding me to your f-list.Thank you.

Additional matters:

Please comment to the birthday post, with your birthday (year not required.)Also, if anyone has any questions about why your comments are screened, please take a look at this or this.

So I want you to ask me something you think you should know about me, something that should be obvious, but you have no idea about, or something you've always been curious about but have never asked, or something completely silly that you'd like me to answer for kicks. No limits on the range of questions, either: ask me anything you want to know about, whether it's a fannish opinion or a question about a fic of mine or trivia about my real life or my thoughts on events in the offline world.

Ask away. Then post this in your LJ and find out what people don't know about you!

Anon on/IP Off - all that good stuff. I do have to unlock the entry after I post it - but once that's done, it'll be public for anons. Screened, as always, and I may be rescreening them.

I reserve the right to politely refuse a question if I feel that it is of a personal nature. (i.e. if you don't already know my real name, please don't ask.)

Anyone that knows me would find it hard to believe that I keep so much to myself. I'm generally honest, forward and blunt- to the point of being offensive and hurting feelings. But I've reached a breaking point, and I'm ... done.

Warning: Between sensitive topics, blunt thoughtless complaining and triggering subject matter - you might not want to read this post.

I originally planned to stop posting to my journal, because I just- can not motivate myself to be here anymore. Most people on here get to see my freak outs in real time anyway, it makes Live Journal practically obsolete in my life, outside of checking up on the friends list of people I don't speak to so often.

Honestly there hasn't been much to update. I'm not really doing much outside of the usual, working and spending time online. The usual business. Only recently has anything remotely important happened in my life, and it's not a good change - so I've put off talking about it here.