“Despite my moments of bravado, I struggle at industry events (and in life) with the sense that I don’t rep a certain standard of beauty and so when I show up to the Met Ball surrounded by models and swan-like actresses it’s hard not to feel like a sack of flaming garbage.”

She continued:

“This felt especially intense with a handsome athlete as my dinner companion and a bunch of women I was sure he’d rather be seated with.

“But I went ahead and projected these insecurities and made totally narcissistic assumptions about what he was thinking, then presented those assumptions as facts.

“I feel terrible about it.”

For the record, Beckham Jr. is one of the most exciting players in the NFL and may have dated Khloe Kardashian this summer.

He has not commented on the flap.

With accusations of white privilege and reverse sexism floating around the Internet, Dunham concluded as follows:

“Because after listening to lots of valid criticism, I see how unfair it is to ascribe misogynistic thoughts to someone I don’t know AT ALL. Like, we have never met, I have no idea the kind of day he’s having or what his truth is.

“But most importantly, I would never intentionally contribute to a long and often violent history of the over-sexualization of black male bodies- as well as false accusations by white women towards black men.

“I’m so sorry, particularly to OBJ, who has every right to be on his cell phone.

“The fact is I don’t know about his state of mind (I don’t know a lot of things) and I shouldn’t have acted like I did.”