Bondage and the art of sensual domination

Sensual domination instead of discipline

Ask any kinky person to complete the phrase “Bondage and…” and doubtless they will reply with “Discipline.” Bondage is usually associated with discipline, but I prefer it for sensual domination as well.

Why? Well, several reasons…

A horny man, left to his own devices, will stroke his cock. He wants to masturbate. It’s what his entire mind and being is telling him to do. And if he’s not stroking his cock, he’s thinking of satisfying his partner.

Bondage takes all of that away. When I tie you up, I take all control from you. The only place you have control is in your head and you are forced to experience only what I’m allowing you to.

Male bondage coupled with sensual domination

In other words you’re not thinking “Now how can I make her cum? Should I lick her now? And where should I touch her?” That option has been taken away from you. You are forced to think ONLY of what is happening to you – what I am doing to you. And so you must live in the moment, and in the anticipation of what is next going to happen – totally beyond your control. That loss of control raises the stakes much higher. Even more so when I blindfold you, and you can not see what is coming.

Sensual domination used for edging

I prefer bondage not just for discipline but for sensual domination – to tease and deny and keep you on the edge of orgasm. To make you watch me masturbate myself, or to watch me with another woman (or man) as you are tied up, helpless, not even able to stroke yourself.

And of course you are not even able to cum, unless it’s a ruined orgasm. I and I alone have that right to decide when and how you may cum for me.

Sound interesting? Then you should call me for a fetish phone sex call – no I can’t bind you like I could in real life, but I can take control of your cock and your orgasm.