Vaheguru ji Ka Khalsa
Vaheguru ji Ki Fateh, ji
First of all, Im sorry that he is experiencing that. I would suggest to reccomend him to do seva at the gurdwara ji as a daily routine (like washing bhartans, jodheyan di seva etc). Im sure it will help. Tell him to practice Sri Sukhmani Sahib ji and Sri Nitnem Sahib ji daily.. Tell him to try at least, & make sure he does Ardas ji at the end of reading paath. Make sure he practices daya, satya, (full) sucham, bhakti. Bhull chuk maaf kijye!

Vaheguru ji Ka Khalsa
Vaheguru ji Ki Fateh
Either way, smoke is smoke. In the older era, most homes were more open.. Unlike homes in the west withglass windows. Just use normal stick toof and open the window. Even one toof stick seems like so much for me during Canadian winters. I keep my rooms window open a bit no matter how cold it is outside, for fresh air. Just compare the indoor smell with outdoors. Whichever room I light a toof in, I open the window.

Vaheguru ji Ka Khalsa
Vaheguru ji Ki Fateh, jio
Dhanyavaad for this topic ji. Insults can be done with good words too, and that behaviour is wrong too. I agree that this website is no place for profanity as well. Lets keep it clean.

Vaheguru ji Ka Khalsa
Vaheguru ji Ki Fateh, ji
I think its wrong that he's marrying a non amritdhari. When I was initiated into amrit, they told us to marry amritdhari(s) only. Ive heard if a married couple wants to become initiated into amrit, both have to go and get initiated and not just one. Think about the jhootha perspective too, Ive heard jhootha-ness of peoples can influence themselves. From which angle is she a Sikh anyways? Ive heard from someone that even Anand Karaj is only for amritdharis only too, since amritdhari(s) pledged to be faithful to Sikh Dharam.
What is a sehajdhari Sikh anyways? I thought sehajdharis are Sikhs who have not been blessed with amrit, but also do not do the four maha bujjar kurehits. If someone does bujjar kurehits, then how are they sehajdhari?