Honestly dude i would just forget about it. Sometimes it works but 98% of the time it doesnt. I was in the situation where i got close to one of my friends, it was my best friends sister. She was in a relationship when i started havin feelins for her. I acually told her last valentines day (a few months after hereakup) how i felt and told her we could take it slow that this was probably a shock. But i cared about her a lot. Basically to make a long story short all she did was take advantage of me and treat me like shit. And i had known her for 7 years now, she said that she considered me one of her really good friends, that she could always count on, and said i was the only person that was really there for her when she needed someone. We dont really talk that much anymore. And u bitches say that men are cruel.

Honestly dude i would just forget about it. Sometimes it works but 98% of the time it doesnt. I was in the situation where i got close to one of my friends, it was my best friends sister. She was in a relationship when i started havin feelins for her. I acually told her last valentines day (a few months after hereakup) how i felt and told her we could take it slow that this was probably a shock. But i cared about her a lot. Basically to make a long story short all she did was take advantage of me and treat me like shit. And i had known her for 7 years now, she said that she considered me one of her really good friends, that she could always count on, and said i was the only person that was really there for her when she needed someone. We dont really talk that much anymore. And u bitches say that men are cruel.

If you're in friendzone, and can "break thought it", it still means you are *probably* lacking skills to maintain a quality relationship with a woman who is looking for a mature adult.

Learn how to be a mature and straight forward adult, and friendzone no longer exists.

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upon further analysis and realizing the semantic differece, i have not been "friendzoned," and am merely "hanging out as friends" with this chick.

at the same time though she has a boyfriend who goes to a different school 4 hours away. so, its not so much the friend thing that's the obstacle, so much as the fact that she's trying to be loyal to a guy she never sees. i told her we should go to the pool, and we'll be doing that soon. we'll see how that goes.

anyway, there's already a thread about this shit so i'd lock this one if i could, i just dont come here all too often so i didnt realize.

If shes worth keeping as a friend do nothing.
If you really like her go for it.

If you, yourself, are already past the "friend" zone and want to be more, then most likely you won't be able to still be friends unless you find someone else. You can go for on day but you might screw up the friendship if it doesn't work.

Typicaly you can tell if a girl wants to be more then friends and if you can't she most likely doesn't. :/

I'm in a similar situation. My advice is to make her jealous. Get with her friends, or date other girls all together. Sooner or later she may confess deeper feeling to you. Just keep in touch with her while your doing your own thing, and be honest! But be careful, she may fire back with hanging out with other guys, and whatnot. But if it's there, it's there. She just wants to play.

I'm in a similar situation. My advice is to make her jealous. Get with her friends, or date other girls all together. Sooner or later she may confess deeper feeling to you. Just keep in touch with her while your doing your own thing, and be honest! But be careful, she may fire back with hanging out with other guys, and whatnot. But if it's there, it's there. She just wants to play.

I broke through, so to speak, on this past valentines day last week or whatever. I was just sitting around and my good friend of a few years asked if I was busy...so we ended up hanging out, drinking beers, smoking reefer and soon she passes out. I wake her up and she just says how she wants to go to sleep, but doesnt say anything about taking her home

So I took her into my room instead. I'm just taking it slow now but hopefully it will continute to move forward.