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I still don't understand why people fear 'small gods' more than the Almighty God, people conviniently swear this oath of fidelity at church weddings without any fear, not because they plan to be faithful but because they don't even take God serious, some even cheat on that wedding night. Anyway the Christian God is a merciful God. U dare not try that with amadioha.

It's not a lie! Especially if the man is from Kogi state,and Ogugu community in Olamaboro LG. They don't marry promiscuous women.this is not about the lady swearing. Besides I can never swear such. Even a community in Benue state does that too.But Oath or not, the general culture still stands on her if she cheats or do contrary to her husbands wish/ego. Atimes #loveisnotenough!

@Diamond MumParis,you are very right.In Kogi n Benue,no oath but that is the tradition.Anybody from that Local Government knows,if u cheat u die,unless u confess early n some sort of cleansing is done.Its their tradition,U can't change it

@Mrs R, the word you should use should not be superior. Please do not teach your daughters RUBBISH so they do not end up having low self esteem and take all sorts of trash from men. Sometimes you talk like an illiterate sorry to say.

Tradition! Tradition!! Tradition!!!. Na wa. Make all this our elders they free all these younger generations from all this dem nonsense of all times. Na even dem dey force the couples to be to take the oat sef. Hiss

It is not nonsense please, the same thing applies in ur churches, couples swear an oath of fidelity and exchange rings as a symbol of the oath. The only difference is dt people don't fear God like they fear traditional gods.

It is just so disheartening. What happened to TRUST that so many men throw in to the bin.

Most Nigerian men have turned women in to vampires because bad company corrupts good manner. Even if your wife is of good character and you as a husband you are an unrepentant cheat, it is only a matter of time she will begin to act like you. True story.

The best way to Enjoy a Nigerian man in marriage is to not ask him any questions.If he goes out, don't ask him where he's going or when he will be backIf he comes back late or doesn't come home at all, don't ask him questions.If he's whispering on his fone at 2am don't ask him who is calling him.

Mscheewww Nigerians men call u good and non nagging wife. That marriage will last 100yrs. kikikikikikikikikikikiki

I don't believe this particular story,but that tradition exist in many states in Nigeria.Eg,Benue,Kogi,a part of Enugu n even some parts of Edo.I know of the Kogi and Benue own very well,you dont take any oath but if u cheat as a wife,the wife of the male child will die.

So the man doesn't want to die huh. If that's how it goes on in real life. Mehn chai a lot of beautiful babies will be motherless. Most married women for the die like insect See who like banana. Lemme come and be going. This world is not my own.