I think that your focus on one particular online vendor suggested, rightly or wrongly, that you were touting that site and its products. There are countless products on many other sites that will fit people who wear XL sized jackets that can be paired with a scarf. How is it that this was the only site that had products that fit you and you liked?

You be better off telling people what you are looking for, your budget and other specifics so you can be provided with a variety of suggestions