Idk whether to leave or not. may you voice your opinion?

For a year I been dating and living with my boyfriend. I been always trying to get him to stop answering his ex but he continue to do so. His ex still loves him. He said she's crazy he don't want her and don't worry about her. She be calling and texting as if she's doing it on purpose because she know I'm here with him. He had her blocked but somehow she got unblocked. In August I talked him into filing a harassment report. He refuse to follow through with it. she even claim to know where he stay at and she said she been over. Now I have some of his female friends following me on Instagram, but nobody interact with me nor speak with me. He refuse to put our pictures up so his ex can see us. I'm the only one posting our relationship on the internet. he said he don't want people in our business. He post other female pictures on his social media. He will not stop answering his ex nor will he change his number. he won't give up his ex information or anything. she calls/texts as she pleases. He say he blocks the numbers she calls him from but I later found out she is only on his reject calling list. On Instagram there is nothing about us on his page. I do all the work. He don't text when I'm around but he be answering. He told me he answer her so she can stop calling him. I'm confused in all this. He said she obsessed over d*ck. I talked to him about this before. He said she crazy.

Bad timing but either way, he needs to just block her and move on. How important is your relationship to him? IMO, he doesn't think it's THAT important enough to stop this nonsense.

And yes homewrecker because she doesn't care, yet still continuing on with this.

See, I wouldn't put up with it. I'd stop dating him. A boyfriend who refuses to put up pictures and STILL texting an ex.. Hmmm.. I wouldn't doubt it if he had already fucked her a few days ago. Making her craving for his d-ick.

What Guys Said 3

yeah, he's playing you and her pretty well. I know the type, they keep a foot in two boats in their relationships. You live with him so that's complicated, but you have to leave. You don't want to be involved with people like this, they'll hurt you.

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How is he playing the both of us? She know about me and they not together at the moment

"somehow she got unblocked"? Sounds like he's probably seeing her. I'd dump him. He seems to like crazy, despite him saying otherwise. I'd be proud to post pictures of me and my girl, if we were dating. Dump him like crazy - the crazy he is!

Personally, I feel that he just wants to avoid that drama. Not sure about other guys, but I don't do crazy. That said, depending on how long this has been going on, you might have to talk to him again, nicely but firmly and ask him to make a decision.

What Girls Said 2

Omg you asked this 3 times already. If your gonna keep defending his behavior don't bother asking advice because your not gonna like what you people have to say. We see that he is allowing this and your in denial.

I think he is still seeing her, I think they are still together. That's why he won't put up pictures of you on Facebook. He probably has her added or knows his profile is public and she can see if he has another girlfriend. He does like the attention he gets from her correct. You probably do freak out on him to and it feeds his ego. He loves that girls are fighting over him. If you leave him it will only hurt his ego a little because this other girl is stupid and it feeds it like crazy

The only thing he have is a relationship status. This has been going on every since. He broke up with her and got with me. it's like he don't mind her doing that but when I'm trying to talk to her he fully protects her. He said he been asking her for 4 years to leave him alone. He even knows where she stays at but won't tell me. all he told me was she's obsessed with him and so on. He refuse to block her

Well woah woah if he broke up with her and got with you then this is a different story. That means you were talking to him knowing he was WITH HER. Then it was OK to be all the way together after he broke up with her which I doubt he did by the way you describe it. You caused this for yourself,you got with a guy knowing he was still with a girl and hadn't got over her yet if that is what happened.If not then he is still with her.You have to live with this mess now or get out.Next time think b4.

Your gonna say whatever sounds better.Look I'm telling you he still sees her.There would be no other reason she still calls or texts.If that did happen then you got with a guy who wasn't over his ex and still isn't.Because he allows it.So you make up your mind.