Category: Life

Ok, we’re about to get really close and personal here. Some of you know that I am a single woman with two children. I have a full time job, a part time side hustle, this blog life and many other things.
I am a woman with hidden talents and talents I realize I don’t have that I sure could use….
…..like being patient and understanding <—That’s an example of talents I wish I had, 🤣.
Alas…I don’t have those particular qualities; so, instead, we’re stuck with trying to keep our mouth shut…or full with food or a drink, so as to not become disrespectful without at least giving the thinking thing a try.

A few weeks ago I went to one of my favorite corners of the book store, the Metaphysical section. A woman turns to me after a few moments and starts spilling her entire life story. She clearly needed some guidance…I’m not always sure if I’m the one who’s supposed to help them, but this one was all too clear….I didn’t have to read her aura, I didn’t need to hear anymore of her life and I didn’t really want to be in my favorite corner of that bookstore anymore. She had some karmic energy (I imagine still does), that needed to fulfill its course. She seemed somewhat desperate to help herself and had a handful of books of many subjects resting in her arms.

Sometimes reminding people of their own faith seems to help move things along. Discussing things people aren’t familiar with can be very scary to some people, so staying within a comfortable boundary is a big deal with me. Some people think their problems are going to be solved overnight and others don’t think they deserve anything that comes to them. We’ve all heard it growing up, “be careful of the consequences”, “don’t forget the three fold law”. No matter what language or religion you talk about, hear about or ask about, there’s always something to be warned about, especially what to expect when you are purposefully harmful or cause trouble to others.

The young lady said she was Christian. It’s too easy to slap our hands together, look up at the sky and ask for courage to get through a situation….but we forget about the person or persons who are doing the un-doing. I asked her to think about the person who is causing her harm…maybe he needs some help remembering his humanity. Her prayer should be about him to find his way again, not about her to be safe.(It was mostly word bashing going on, so no physical harm to the young lady–we all know the number to the PoPo!)

She didn’t seem interested in what I had to say, so she pulls out a crystal quarts from her wallet. She said she was given this stone and she didn’t know how to use it. After asking her what she knew about the stone (which was nothing), I went into detail about it’s metaphysical properties. I then realized that perhaps someone had given it to her with ill intentions.

Upon receiving a stone as a gift, it’s important to ask if the stone was charged with any specific energy. Anyone can cleanse a stone upon it’s receipt. Wash it with some faucet water, or ocean water–depending on your personal preferences and then let it sit in the moon light, ready to receive its next intention.

Had the young woman done this right away, she may not have endured as much as she had. The stone may have had ill intentions.

1*This stone can literally transform pressure or heat into electromagnetic energy, and vice versa. Its ability to focus, amplify, store and transform energy is used throughout the technology world in ultrasound devices, watches, microphones, radio transmitters and receivers, memory chips in computers and other electronic circuitry.

1*The same properties of energy amplification, programmability and memory also make the Clear Quartz the most versatile and multidimensional stone in the mineral kingdom for healing, meditation, expansion of consciousness, communication with guides, past-life recall, attracting love or prosperity, or virtually any purpose. However, with this power comes responsibility. To benefit from Rock Crystal’s blessings, one must feel in harmony with it and deserve its gifts. Intent other than good inevitably brings harm back to oneself.

So, as mentioned above, the crystal quartz can be anything you want it to be. The young lady had this stone in her possession for months and didn’t know what she had.

Being highly intuitive isn’t exactly a dream come true, but I have been able to help many people along my journey. Listening is one of my gifts. Listening offers an ability to see beyond the words, beyond the emotion, and into a world that belongs to you. Sometimes it is physically painful and sometimes it is so blissful, I wonder if it’s real.

Yesterday I listened to a man talk about his church and how he came upon it. His love for his faith was so overwhelming I saw him covered in his own happiness. It was only an instant, but it was beautiful.

Some time before that I had a dream vision of someone who was completely ignorant to the distrust of a loved one. I felt it for him, and I couldn’t tell him, no matter what I did. When I awoke, I immediately sent him a message and the images I saw, the pain I felt, had come to pass. The guidance I gave was meant for him, and only him.

Before that it was an aura I saw of a future healer…the brightest blue I have ever seen. He must learn to stop looking for labels and accept what is.

Having an open mind about where guidance can come from is how it comes from someone like me. I don’t have to know you, I don’t have to be close to you….I just receive the message and I know when to give it to you.

How does this all tie in to Self-Love? Self Love is an acceptance of who you are and what you are. It’s about releasing those monsters from your past and inviting them to finish their business without defeating you so you can move forward. It’s about not being afraid of what is coming and allowing yourself to be happy. This does not happen overnight, not for any one of us. But it can happen!

As soon as self-love is achieved, so much can be accomplished. I embrace a teacher role in this matter, but will always be a student. Spiritual guidance is sometimes needed, a third party to see what can be improved upon…even from a distance.

Man or Woman–you can feel beautiful by yourself, without needing someone to confirm what you already know.
The Self-Love journey always includes a journal. All kits are designed specifically for the individual seeking self love. We talk about what is through message or email and then we move forward with your first package.

If you or someone you know can benefit from learning a little Self-Love and have questions, email me or visit my Charmed Charms on Etsy to read more.

Over the last few weeks I have made it mandatory to meditate daily. Finding your Zen isn’t easy. It’s not always about finding answers. I think a lot about my daughters and their personalities. I think a lot about the decisions they will come to make and how those decisions will affect their lives….and mine–ha.
Lately, I have been thinking about not thinking at all. I find it difficult to clear my thoughts and let my mind just be…do you find it difficult?

This morning I had an epiphany, more-so, remembered something I read about someone’s final words (all while driving my little 15 minute to work). We work so hard to achieve monetary wealth; this physical life with physical problems.
Why are we born naked, in such a primitive, dirty way? Why then, are we meant to suck our mother’s breast for food, made to get warm with skin to skin contact and suck poison with our mouths when the bee stings?