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Dicembre 7, 2016

Confessions of a curvy teen: “About friendship”

Hello! Today I wanna talk about friendship. Friendship at our age is, or should be, one of the most important things. Without friends life is not the same.
Friends are those special people that are always close to you, the ones that no matter what happens will always be with you, every moment. It doesn’t matter since how long you know them, the important thing is the love and care you have for them and the one they have for you.

I think that you should never say “I have TONS of friends”. Real friends are just a few, you could actually count them on the tip of your fingers. Sometimes you define someone like this even just for a commodity, maybe because you know them since forever. It may happen that when you grow up something changes, some friendship breaks. However some can stay the same, or maybe not as strong as you once believed.

I have many people among my circle of friends, but the real true friends are just a handful of them. For real true friends I mean those you don’t feel ashamed of anything, the ones you tell things to that you would have never told in front of the entire classroom.

The meaning of true friendship

Sometimes it happens to be friends, even best friends, since you are little. It may happen thought that while growing up this relationship becomes weaker or that it can sadly become an obligation, an habit. When a relationship becomes forced, it’s never a sincere one. Limits and problem creates. You are no longer free to talk about anything you want and you tend to pass beyond these problems because “you are best friends”. However, a relationship like this can’t really be called friendship.

The sex of our friends doesn’t count. My friends are mostly male, but I also have female friends that I adore. Many thing that it’s difficult to have a friendship with the opposite sex or that you should even be ashamed of it. There’s nothing to be ashamed of and nothing to be shocked about. It’s not true that a friendship between a girl and a boy can’t exist, especially at our age. I have many male friends and I feel so good with them, I’m so at ease.

True friendship is one of the most important things in life, you should never put anything before that. Nothing like love or other things, especially at our age, when we are still teenagers. What do we do with a boy/girl, that maybe doesn’t want to have anything to do with us? There will always be boys and girls that we like, it happens to me too, but my friends come before anything. Why? Because if the boy I like disappoints me, I will always have my friends cheering me up. When it happens that you make a mistake, true friends are there to correct you without judging, they forgive you and make you smile. This is true friendship.