Reading the interview 20-year-old actor Ansel Elgort gave Elle magazine is a little bit like a car crash — despite it being kind of horrifying, it's pretty hard to look away.

Someone should give the Fault in Our Stars actor some media training, but until then, here's some of his most cringey comments.

On the perfect girlfriend:

But if you can find a girl who you can go to an EDM concert with, have a conversation with, who will sit on the couch and watch you play GTA for three hours — and then you go to bed and have amazing sex? That should be your girlfriend.

On his dad, photographer Arthur Elgort, photographing nude models:

On how co-star Shailene Woodley isn't like other women:

Shailene is very different. I wouldn't use her as an example of what most women are like. She hates people-pleasing. She wishes the world could be a place where we could be really honest and true to our emotions.