Q: I met a guy online five months ago. We’ve gone out on dates and had sex once. While he’s a gentleman, he’s still online and won’t commit. I can’t understand how he feels and I’m not sure what to do or say to him.

-Tina W.A: Hi Tina,

It always does my heart good to hear about two people finding each other. It’s not at all uncommon for true romance and real love to blossom online. However, it seems like you both aren’t on the same page with this relationship. You are obviously interested in a commitment and he’s not.

If you haven’t done so yet, you need to sit down and have an honest heart-to-heart discussion with him and see what he says. He may be a nice guy and a gentleman who’s simply not interested in commitment at this time. If that’s true and it’s a committed man you want, then it’s time to continue looking. No one is in the wrong here. It may simply be that, in the book of life, you and he are in different chapters.