He is obviously not marrying you and hopes (believes?) you are desperate enough to give in.

Hahaha! Desperate..... Never that!

Being that you have no kids and you're with a disrespectful dude with 4......says otherwise.....no shade he pulled yo card because he knows you clearly don't make good decisions......cause if you did you would not be with him......

Women don't realize these negros be testing us from day one.....and for him to try you like this.......you must have failed a few of said test.....

There comes a time when you really, truly, madly, deeply have to realize your worth. A time when you have to say, “Enough is enough.” You’re only treated the way you allow yourself to be treated. Your constant groveling for his love leaves you helpless, powerless. It proves that you have absolutely no concept of your own value. Groveling doesn’t have to be physically kneeling and begging. It’s in the little things like allowing him to come home at 4 a.m. when you know good and well he’s been out with other women. It’s in playing the role of the girlfriend/wife when he has made NO effort to give you the title. It’s in texting him constantly, deciphering every message he sends back, hoping there is some glimmer of affection reciprocated.

When you make the decision to walk in your worth and completely – love and its full bounty open to you. We live in the era of over-the-top reality television where relationship problems are turned into complex quadratic equations for the sake of drama and Nielsen ratings when in reality it is NOT. THAT. HARD. WE choose to complicate things. Love, itself is as uncomplicated as a river’s flow.

So, when do you stay? When do you let it go? YOU know. You know in your heart when it’s time to walk away. You know when you’re making a mountain out of a mole hill and need to put more effort into the relationship. What are you worth? What is your time worth? What is your love worth? You choose. You know what you deserve. You know your own mistakes. You know his. You know what you can forgive and forget. You know your dealbreakers. You know what is unreasonable and you know what isn’t. Make no more excuses. Quit pinning your hopes to an unstable man. Leave all half-a**ing to the reality stars. If it’s right, you know. Do the work. If it’s wrong, you know that too. Leave the jerk. You hold all the cards. Pack them up and wait on someone who plays fair. The win will be worth the wait for the both of you. I pray you think of yourself before it's to late .

He is obviously not marrying you and hopes (believes?) you are desperate enough to give in.

Hahaha! Desperate..... Never that!

Being that you have no kids and you're with a disrespectful dude with 4......says otherwise.....no shade he pulled yo card because he knows you clearly don't make good decisions......cause if you did you would not be with him......

Women don't realize these negros be testing us from day one.....and for him to try you like this.......you must have failed a few of said test.....

He is obviously not marrying you and hopes (believes?) you are desperate enough to give in.

Hahaha! Desperate..... Never that!

Being that you have no kids and you're with a disrespectful dude with 4......says otherwise.....no shade he pulled yo card because he knows you clearly don't make good decisions......cause if you did you would not be with him......

Women don't realize these negros be testing us from day one.....and for him to try you like this.......you must have failed a few of said test.....

Skirrrt! Um WRONG! STOP ASSUMING sh*t! YOU DON'T KNOW sh*t!

Smh.....can't help you heifers cause you're too busy in yo feeling to accept some good logical advice......but you right I don't know shyt.......continue getting shytted on by that L

There comes a time when you really, truly, madly, deeply have to realize your worth. A time when you have to say, “Enough is enough.” You’re only treated the way you allow yourself to be treated. Your constant groveling for his love leaves you helpless, powerless. It proves that you have absolutely no concept of your own value. Groveling doesn’t have to be physically kneeling and begging. It’s in the little things like allowing him to come home at 4 a.m. when you know good and well he’s been out with other women. It’s in playing the role of the girlfriend/wife when he has made NO effort to give you the title. It’s in texting him constantly, deciphering every message he sends back, hoping there is some glimmer of affection reciprocated.

When you make the decision to walk in your worth and completely – love and its full bounty open to you. We live in the era of over-the-top reality television where relationship problems are turned into complex quadratic equations for the sake of drama and Nielsen ratings when in reality it is NOT. THAT. HARD. WE choose to complicate things. Love, itself is as uncomplicated as a river’s flow.

So, when do you stay? When do you let it go? YOU know. You know in your heart when it’s time to walk away. You know when you’re making a mountain out of a mole hill and need to put more effort into the relationship. What are you worth? What is your time worth? What is your love worth? You choose. You know what you deserve. You know your own mistakes. You know his. You know what you can forgive and forget. You know your dealbreakers. You know what is unreasonable and you know what isn’t. Make no more excuses. Quit pinning your hopes to an unstable man. Leave all half-a**ing to the reality stars. If it’s right, you know. Do the work. If it’s wrong, you know that too. Leave the jerk. You hold all the cards. Pack them up and wait on someone who plays fair. The win will be worth the wait for the both of you. I pray you think of yourself before it's to late .

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