Schoolgirl Fantasy: Kinky Or Creepy?

We all enjoy trying kinky things out in the bedroom, and some of us like to try the more extreme things. Whether you are into bondage, watersports, or simply a bit of role play, there is something for everyone. However, one of the more common role plays that seems to come up in conversation a lot if the sexy schoolgirl fantasy, and it seems to well and truly divide opinion.

For some, there is nothing sexier than seeing your partner dressed up as a slutty schoolgirl, chewing gum and biting their lip as you slowly edge closer to them with your cock out. However, some think that the schoolgirl fantasy is more creepy than kinky, and feel that it crosses a very fine line between what is and isn’t acceptable in bed.

Here on the Escort Scotland blog we take a look at the schoolgirl fantasy and whether it is simply a kinky dream for many or it crosses that line into creepy and unacceptable.

The uniform

For many people, the schoolgirl fantasy is simply about the uniform. They love the way that it looks on their partner, and then love even more when they work around it so that they can have the passionate and kinky sex they have been longing for.

It is also a ridiculous easy uniform to make. Yes, you can buy the packs from sex shops to use, which can make things easier, but most people seem to have the things essential for the naughty school girl uniform in their wardrobe anyway, make it one of the easiest ones to put on and try out on the spur of the moment.

For a sexy schoolgirl, you basically need a skirt, knee high white socks, a white shirt or blouse, white panties to flash, heels that show what a slutty schoolgirl you are, and hair ties to pull your hair into pigtails. Sometimes glasses are used, too, just to add to the overall effect.

When it comes down to business, the schoolgirl uniform is great. You don’t actually have to get undressed to enjoy it properly, as the skirt can be lifted up to reveal the lacy white panties and that ass, and you can bend them over your desk to show them what’s what.

More than just clothes

Of course, dressing up like a sexy school girl is easy… but it isn’t all of it. Sure, many think it is just a kinky fantasy where you simply slip into the outfit and you’re done, but there is way more to it than that!

Saying that the schoolgirl fantasy is just about the clothes is like saying all a dominatrix has to do to control is slip into some leather, or that a masseuse simply puts you in a towel and is done. It really isn’t that simple when you look at it…

The attitude is also important. It isn’t enough to simply dress up as the naughty school girl, you also need to have the behaviour of one. Flirting with the teacher, not doing your “homework”, and the little things like that really add to the experience.

Saying things like “I’ve been a bad girl Mr.” is a great way to spice things up, and you can then tell your partner exactly what you are going to do to punish them for their misdeeds. Some love hearing things like “fuck me like the dirty little slut I am”, as it tells you exactly what they want you to do to them.

Why do we love it so much?

There are a number of reasons that we love the sexy schoolgirl fantasy. For a start, it is a hot uniform. The short skirt, the low-cut shirt, and the knee-high socks all add together to create a lasting image in our minds.

It is also a taboo. Taboos are a huge turn on for us. It is like putting a big red button in front of us and saying “you cannot push the button”. The first thing we are going to do is push the button. The slutty schoolgirl works in the same way. Because it is forbidden we want to try it even more, and that makes it much more fun to do.

For some of us, it takes us back to our youth, when we were busy perving on our fellow classmates. Hormones were raging and we had plenty of naughty thoughts to go with them… but now, acting out the sexy schoolgirl fantasy, we can do that between consenting adults who actually know what they are doing in the bedroom, making it even hotter and kinkier for us.

Kinky or creepy?

And yet, for a lot of people the schoolgirl fantasy is just creepy. The question always comes up on the internet, and has been pretty heavily debated. A lot of people say that because it takes place between consenting adults who are aware that it is just a fantasy it is okay… and yet it is still questioned.

Often people follow up that by saying “well, why would someone wear a schoolgirl uniform if they didn’t have some bad desires there that they wanted to try out legally?”, and this comes back to the fact that it is between a pair of adults who are aware of what they are doing and that it is a fantasy.

How do you feel about the sexy schoolgirl fantasy? Is it just a bit of make believe fun for you to try out in the bedroom, or is it walking a little too close to the line of inappropriate for you to get behind?

Why not tell us all about it by leaving a comment in the box below, or you could join in the discussion on the Escort Scotland forum. Is there a really clear line between dressing up as something and being something, and does the schoolgirl fantasy blur that line?

Lara Mills is a writer who has four years of sex industry expertise behind her. Since she entered the adult industry, she has worked on the Escort Advertising forums, before moving into her current role three years ago.

Since then she has gained a fine reputation with her blogs on sex advice, sexual health and amusing news stories from around the globe. She is also a campaigner for the rights of sex workers from all over the world.

In her spare time, Lara keeps herself active by going running, and is something of a film buff. She also loves to go travelling.