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True to form, I apologized for it... and then in order to stave off any potential criticism, I started screaming and slurring, "Thasss right, m*****f***er! I puked on your cock cause I'm all punk rock n' sh*t!"

My favorite way to engage in 'oral' is the kiss. Long, deep and slow passionate kissing. Playful, little nibbly kissing. Silly, fun and smacking kisses showered all over. Lips locked while in a long embrace, perhaps even barely moving for some time. Any way you want it for as long as you wish.

Here I was about to write a flame-baiting diatribe about your filthy deviant habits and thunter posts my thoughts almost exactly (what about tongue, tim? -- give me a fresh armpit to kiss/lick any day!). If a guy isn't into kissing and lingual intimacy we usually won't hit it off too well, unless I was only looking for a quickie (if I could remember that far back).

The rest of you are preverts. Flaccid penises and visual contact and tumescence... disgusting!

Boo

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String up every aristocrat!Out with the priests and let them live on their fat!

Yes, Boo....long tongue explorations all up and over and in between. the main thing i like is to nuzzle and nurture. yes, i can do the 'fuck like i owe you rent' thing (and love it, too...oh yes), but where i shine the most is to treat a boy with pampering...to rub it, scratch it, tickle it, nuzzle it, kiss it, cuddle it, nibble it, suck it...you get the idea. usually, when i am allowed to have free reign to do my thing this way that i want to, the 'rent past due' and 'we might just get scratched and bruised a bit' fucking manages to take care of itself along the way.

More advice to the Queen (btw, Helen Mirren is super in the movie) but it's not really of the practical, um, hands-on kind.

I once had sexual relations of the oral kind with a lad named Steve -- Steve, who is still, in my book (yes, I keep a journal, to be published posthumously of course), the best fellator I have ever experienced. I asked him what his secret was -- and he knew that I wasn't really asking about keeping the saliva flow going or suppressing the gag reflex or tonguing the frenulum etc.

He said, "I just love doing it." And he went on to explain that it wasn't just enthusiasm -- tackling the task with gusto -- but a real love of having a penis in his mouth.

I think that's true. Sure, enthusiasm or love isn't sufficient to ensure a great blowjob, but it sure is necessary.

I think this is the dirtiest/purest sex post I've written.

J.

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Her finely-touched spirit had still its fine issues, though they were not widely visible. Her full nature, like that river of which Cyrus broke the strength, spent itself in channels which had no great name on the earth. But the effect of her being on those around her was incalculably diffusive: for the growing good of the world is partly dependent on unhistoric acts; and that things are not so ill with you and me as they might have been, is half owing to the number who lived faithfully a hidden life, and rest in unvisited tombs.

There's an episode of Sex and the City in which Miranda is freaked out that a guy (they're training for the New York marathon together) rims her during sex. And the guy is offended when she doesn't return the favor. The girls are on her side -- except, surprisingly, Charlotte.

Yep, next to kissing, rimming is my favorite oral activity. So my question again to the heteros reading this filthy thread: is this something that you guys don't do?

J.

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Her finely-touched spirit had still its fine issues, though they were not widely visible. Her full nature, like that river of which Cyrus broke the strength, spent itself in channels which had no great name on the earth. But the effect of her being on those around her was incalculably diffusive: for the growing good of the world is partly dependent on unhistoric acts; and that things are not so ill with you and me as they might have been, is half owing to the number who lived faithfully a hidden life, and rest in unvisited tombs.

Minor point of disagreement -- there is such a thing as a bad bj. Think of teeth scraping, a completely dry mouth, and complaints that the jaw is tired after three minutes. Masturbation is certainly preferable to that.

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Her finely-touched spirit had still its fine issues, though they were not widely visible. Her full nature, like that river of which Cyrus broke the strength, spent itself in channels which had no great name on the earth. But the effect of her being on those around her was incalculably diffusive: for the growing good of the world is partly dependent on unhistoric acts; and that things are not so ill with you and me as they might have been, is half owing to the number who lived faithfully a hidden life, and rest in unvisited tombs.

I liked her in Elizabeth 1, I have yet to see the other. What is rimming? Sorry, I am not up on the slang...I enjoy trying to do it but I have been known to scrap a dick with my teeth or else the jaw locks up on me.

Her finely-touched spirit had still its fine issues, though they were not widely visible. Her full nature, like that river of which Cyrus broke the strength, spent itself in channels which had no great name on the earth. But the effect of her being on those around her was incalculably diffusive: for the growing good of the world is partly dependent on unhistoric acts; and that things are not so ill with you and me as they might have been, is half owing to the number who lived faithfully a hidden life, and rest in unvisited tombs.

Ha,ha. Funny Javicho! That made me think about my partner when he visits because when I'm in the shower and yell "I'll be right out!" the next thing I know is this 6 foot tall (I'm 5'7") man is naked and rubbing himself against my soapy back. He's going to kill me of a heart attack because I'm usually getting the shampoo out of my hair with my eyes closed and I never can tell when he sneaks himself into the shower. I have discovered he likes it in the shower!

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Catman

Meow to the birdsMeow to the tree'sMeow to the endof this dreadful disease...

My favorite way to engage in 'oral' is the kiss. Long, deep and slow passionate kissing. Playful, little nibbly kissing. Silly, fun and smacking kisses showered all over. Lips locked while in a long embrace, perhaps even barely moving for some time. Any way you want it for as long as you wish.

I've never quite understood that image either, though I vaguely understand some connection with the alimentary canal. Funny how this sort of slang tranlsates, loosely (and perhaps independently) across cultures. In Bombay rimming is known, in Hindi, as "eating biryani" -- biryani being a spiced rice dish, usually containing some vegetables and some meat, often brown in color. Now that food image I understand a lot better.

Jay

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Her finely-touched spirit had still its fine issues, though they were not widely visible. Her full nature, like that river of which Cyrus broke the strength, spent itself in channels which had no great name on the earth. But the effect of her being on those around her was incalculably diffusive: for the growing good of the world is partly dependent on unhistoric acts; and that things are not so ill with you and me as they might have been, is half owing to the number who lived faithfully a hidden life, and rest in unvisited tombs.

Jack, your previous two contributions were "don't stop now" and "that's more like it." Sounds like you were getting an excellent blowjob while you typed that... Let's hear from you now, what makes Jack (formerly Jake) orally tick?

Jay

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Her finely-touched spirit had still its fine issues, though they were not widely visible. Her full nature, like that river of which Cyrus broke the strength, spent itself in channels which had no great name on the earth. But the effect of her being on those around her was incalculably diffusive: for the growing good of the world is partly dependent on unhistoric acts; and that things are not so ill with you and me as they might have been, is half owing to the number who lived faithfully a hidden life, and rest in unvisited tombs.

OK, now that's a provocative statement if ever there was one. (Thank you.)

Boys, pick up the gauntlet?

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Her finely-touched spirit had still its fine issues, though they were not widely visible. Her full nature, like that river of which Cyrus broke the strength, spent itself in channels which had no great name on the earth. But the effect of her being on those around her was incalculably diffusive: for the growing good of the world is partly dependent on unhistoric acts; and that things are not so ill with you and me as they might have been, is half owing to the number who lived faithfully a hidden life, and rest in unvisited tombs.

OK... because there are so many variations in the beautifully eclectic activity that is oral sex... I don't think a poll is possible.

Open-ended question then... what is your favorite way to engage in oral?

I need to think about this and then I'll get back to you...

I can't believe it's taken me this long to reply to a post about oral sex! I just like it. 69 is great, espec. with me on top. I just like having (giving / getting) oral sex. After all, it is a form of sexual activity, of which I'm a great fan! The best part is that it often leads to other, more fun activities!

Which leads me to my next, er, question. With many guys that I've been with, oral sex is it. That's it, that's all we're doing. Not because of safe sex issues (I think) but cuz that's all they were "into." Cock. Mouth. Mmmm.

With other guys, however, it's the opposite: oral is just a prelude, and the "real" point of the encounter is to proceed to fucking. It ain't sex if there isn't anal/vaginal penetration involved.

Homos and heteros: Oral sex -- means unto an end or an end unto itself? (Yeah, I know it depends, but I'm still curious.)

Jay

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Her finely-touched spirit had still its fine issues, though they were not widely visible. Her full nature, like that river of which Cyrus broke the strength, spent itself in channels which had no great name on the earth. But the effect of her being on those around her was incalculably diffusive: for the growing good of the world is partly dependent on unhistoric acts; and that things are not so ill with you and me as they might have been, is half owing to the number who lived faithfully a hidden life, and rest in unvisited tombs.

Her finely-touched spirit had still its fine issues, though they were not widely visible. Her full nature, like that river of which Cyrus broke the strength, spent itself in channels which had no great name on the earth. But the effect of her being on those around her was incalculably diffusive: for the growing good of the world is partly dependent on unhistoric acts; and that things are not so ill with you and me as they might have been, is half owing to the number who lived faithfully a hidden life, and rest in unvisited tombs.