The one problem with big data is that it removes the human element – and dating is very much about human connection. I think the attraction to 20 year olds is in large part biological.

But the same way I try to lay out best practices for dating and relationships while allowing for many exceptions to the rules, I think we’d all be well served to pay attention to how people really act when no one’s looking instead of taking their word for it. Men are attracted to women who are at their most fertile.

Of course, when you flip the data around and look at what age men find women most physically appealing, you get an appalling answer. It’s shocking to see on paper, but not so surprising if you’ve ever talked to an actual man, read a men’s magazine or looked at porn intended for men.

To tell men NOT to feel this way would be akin to telling them not to breathe.Now, I don’t always agree with all of the conclusions that Rudder draws from his Ok Cupid data.Jake Fenske Hutto High School, Hutto Fenske, who is listed as a football and track coach and science teacher on the school's website, was charged with improper relationship between educator and student on June 3, 2016.Fenske told police in May that he was in love with a 16-year-old student and the two had oral sex in his classroom and sex in his apartment and truck.Once upon a time, he was trying to illustrate why free dating sites were “better” than paid dating sites, but it was clear that he was advocating for Ok Cupid.

Regardless, big data is often very revealing about people’s real preferences – height, weight, age, income, sex, and so on.

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He allegedly performed oral sex on a 15-year-old female student at a playground and had sex twice with a second student.

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