Whats with the Lag?

I know about the thread that Nilly said the road was gonna be bumpy, but ehhh... its got a lot more laggier since i came on 2 days ago.
More Black Tiles
Hits not registering
Loot not Picking up when in Inventory
Taking damage when no projectiles hit me.
The Lag is getting unbearable.
Dc in places when i never used to dc such as - Udls, Sprites...

The state of Nilly's Realm.
Its dieing.
Prod miraculously ( but not really ) survived.
Pls nilly, dont let the server die like this ! :c
Nilly, Dream Crusher indeed.