Yes, exploration and taking it day to day seems right, maintaining lines of communication while we figure things out. I've muchly enjoyed my time with Jai, and then I come home and reconnect with Liam -- not because he necessarily needs it, but it feels right. Not to diminish us as adults, but it's not unlike having a second child sometime after having a first, and wanting to make sure the first doesn't feel neglected just because you're occupied with a newborn.