'My guy deserves someone better than me'

At the same time I feel he deserves someone better than me. I don’t think I am worthy of him. But at the same time, I don’t think I’ll be able to live without him. Despite what I think, he says he is interested in me.— Anaida

Illustration/ Amit Bandre

Dear Anaida, You are such a confused soul. It appears that you are insecure. What makes you think you are not worthy of him? Your low self-esteem is to blame. He has no such issues, so why are you hellbent on creating problems when there aren’t any. You seem to be playing the martyr ready to sacrifice your love. Stop your sad act and cherish the moment. It’s all in the head, so the faster you banish such thoughts, ir will be.