how do i get my gf in the game??

ive been with my girl for awhile now . . . . but it seems like she hates sundays witch means she hates pb. i just cant get her to go out and play. i have a tournament once a month and practices here and there. But i offer her to go play some rec ball once and a while and she just refuses to go! idk if shes afraid to get hit or what? any help to get her out on the field?

I understand you want to bond with your girlfriend, but if she doesn't want to play, then she can miss out all she wants. Sooner or later, she is going to get curious. Whether she hears it from other people or you.

If she doesn't want to play, then let it be. You can lead a horse to water, but you can't make it drink.

ive been with my girl for awhile now . . . . but it seems like she hates sundays witch means she hates pb. i just cant get her to go out and play. i have a tournament once a month and practices here and there. But i offer her to go play some rec ball once and a while and she just refuses to go! idk if shes afraid to get hit or what? any help to get her out on the field?

It might not be her thing. Do you like and participate in her hobbies and activities? If so she owes it to you to at least come along and support you every now and then. If you don't then let it be. Forcing it on her will only drive her away from it. Do what you like and let her do what she likes...

Or you could always just hand her a mask and marker and start shooting her till she shoots back. Up to you.

Go in your backyard and let your girlfriend shoot you a couple times while you run in circles. If she enjoyed shooting you then tell her she'll obviously enjoy shooting random strangers all day and not get in trouble.

Go in your backyard and let your girlfriend shoot you a couple times while you run in circles. If she enjoyed shooting you then tell her she'll obviously enjoyed shooting random strangers all day and not get in trouble.

Go in your backyard and let your girlfriend shoot you a couple times while you run in circles. If she enjoyed shooting you then tell her she'll obviously enjoy shooting random strangers all day and not get in trouble.

I just recently got my GF to come to play some paintball with me this past weekend. The first thing that I did was take all of my guns and a couple of my buddies guns and a case of paint and let her shoot. We went in the backyard and I let her shoot all of the guns to see what she liked the most. She ended up having a blast just running around and shooting things and trying out the guns. We then went to the local field on black Friday and I made sure she had all the gear she needed. The field wasn't that busy luckily, so the owners let us play against each other for awhile since we were the only players there. I broke out my old pump and she had fun playing for the morning. After lunch, she was done for the day so I would suggest making sure that she knows its ok to not play the whole day (although I find that not right at all, if I'm playing I'm playing all day!). She went home for the afternoon and I continued to play with other people that showed up.

I found that once she got to start shooting stuff without repercussion, the addiction began. Good Luck!

how long have you two been together? I think its a matter of how she wants to spend her time with you. My girlfriend and i both work alot so we spend our time together doing anything we can. That sometimes means playing Gears of War 3 for a few hours, or maybe going out to the paintball field. She enjoys those things but probably not as much as i do (shes actually even a better pb player than me lol)

On the flipside i went with her to every god awful twilight movie except the most recent one, I go shopping with her etc.

if we had tons more time together and she didnt want to go play paintball with me, i wouldnt mind one bit