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Size NEVER has mattered to me, only the ability to last all night. Long ........ play sessions are the real judge of a true man. Size, what is that anyway?

Small, excellentMedium, excellentLarge, excellentHUGE, excellent

In the end, the spirit is all that really matters, the tool is simply the focus of play. I've had all kinds of men, but the ones that really stick in your memory are the ones that made an impression on my heart.

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The Bible contains 6 admonishments to homosexuals,and 362 to heterosexuals.This doesn't mean that God doesn't love heterosexuals, It's just that they need more supervision.Lynn Lavne

Size NEVER has mattered to me, only the ability to last all night. Long ........ play sessions are the real judge of a true man. Size, what is that anyway?

Small, excellentMedium, excellentLarge, excellentHUGE, excellent

In the end, the spirit is all that really matters, the tool is simply the focus of play. I've had all kinds of men, but the ones that really stick in your memory are the ones that made an impression on my heart.

OMD Daddy Tim, where in the hell have you been all my life are you sure we haven't met before?

« Last Edit: March 18, 2010, 03:27:13 PM by denb45 »

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"it's so nice to be insane, cause no-one ask you to explain" Helen Reddy cc 1974

I've seen a couple small cocks, and by that I mean like teensy weensy tiny, and I had no clue what to do with them. I tried to be polite and all, but seriously, these weren't just 1" under average.

Oh, and one guy's cock was so frightening I had to feign sickness and leave. I know that's a really low, awful thing to do but if I can describe it's shape it was like a rat's tail. It was seriously thin and long like that. The width was 1/2 that of an index finger. I was really going to try and rough it out, figuring well I can just be the top -- but no siree... she thought she'd be sticking that in me. It would have been like someone inserting a #2 pencil in the Holland Tunnel.

If you've seen one dick, then you've seen them all, if you've seen one ass, then you seen them all, every man is different, but a dick is a dick no matter how many times you see it, suck it, play with it, and have it ....it will always remain a same ole thing , big, small, med are large , as long as a man can last, and cum does any of this really matter much at all

« Last Edit: March 18, 2010, 04:29:25 PM by denb45 »

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"it's so nice to be insane, cause no-one ask you to explain" Helen Reddy cc 1974

Size NEVER has mattered to me, only the ability to last all night. Long ........ play sessions are the real judge of a true man. Size, what is that anyway?

Small, excellentMedium, excellentLarge, excellentHUGE, excellent

In the end, the spirit is all that really matters, the tool is simply the focus of play. I've had all kinds of men, but the ones that really stick in your memory are the ones that made an impression on my heart.

TRUTH. Might seem like me prejudging because I don't feel similarly to their point of view, but I've often wondered if "size queens" have ever experienced love or if it was simply a long line of tricks.

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It's all a sham. Politics is a big game, same as the media - and same as religion. The point is to distract & control. If we're looking at what they tell us is the "big issue", we're not looking at what they are doing. In time, there will be different causes and different minorities to pick-on. All in the name of keeping the system going, and the people distracted.

I have a friend who is a size queen, and I'm so glad that is not my thing. He has literally brought guys home then asked them to leave after they have undressed, which I find just mortifying. He has all these bad theories about how to tell if a man is hung. They must bad because he is so frequently disappointed. Plus, who wants to spend a night at a bar surreptitiously analyzing finger proportions.

I have a friend who is a size queen, and I'm so glad that is not my thing. He has literally brought guys home then asked them to leave after they have undressed, which I find just mortifying. He has all these bad theories about how to tell if a man is hung. They must bad because he is so frequently disappointed. Plus, who wants to spend a night at a bar surreptitiously analyzing finger proportions.

It also sounds like he's disappointed with his whole life........don't they have medication for that I'm starting to think and feel like D does, as I'm so not a size queen, that's maybe why I don't understand any of this

« Last Edit: March 18, 2010, 05:42:36 PM by denb45 »

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"it's so nice to be insane, cause no-one ask you to explain" Helen Reddy cc 1974

If you've seen one dick, then you've seen them all, if you've seen one ass, then you seen them all, every man is different, but a dick is a dick no matter how many times you see it, suck it, play with it, and have it ....it will always remain a same ole thing , big, small, med are large , as long as a man can last, and cum does any of this really matter much at all

I disagree. I've seen some very unique cocks in my lifetime. One was even three colors.

Whatever you want to think, Large & In Charge Marge. I have a close friend that is that exact same build and svelte it is not. How does one even find clothing for this? It's like you're restricted to wearing track suits like a refugee from Cocoon.

You learn to drape, petal. I'd be happy to lend you my fat guy hat if you'd like to dim the glare from your shiny pate.

I have a friend who is a size queen, and I'm so glad that is not my thing. He has literally brought guys home then asked them to leave after they have undressed, which I find just mortifying. He has all these bad theories about how to tell if a man is hung. They must bad because he is so frequently disappointed. Plus, who wants to spend a night at a bar surreptitiously analyzing finger proportions.

He sounds pretty shallow... He must be one lonely individual!

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It's all a sham. Politics is a big game, same as the media - and same as religion. The point is to distract & control. If we're looking at what they tell us is the "big issue", we're not looking at what they are doing. In time, there will be different causes and different minorities to pick-on. All in the name of keeping the system going, and the people distracted.

For casual, no strings sex, I'm quite clearly a size queen. I have no qualms in simply walking away if what's on offer simply isn't up to scratch. I don't even bother feigning illness or anything these days. Just a simple, 'it's not working for me', dacks back up and i'm off. I try to be polite about it, but see no point in disappointment.

My other pet peeve are men who describe themselves as dominant but then fail to take control. Big FAIL from my point of view.Or rough/hard etc. who 'tap' you on the arse with their open hand and say, 'yeah, take that bitch'. If it don't scar or welt or genuinely, it ain't rough.

For casual, no strings sex, I'm quite clearly a size queen. I have no qualms in simply walking away if what's on offer simply isn't up to scratch. I don't even bother feigning illness or anything these days. Just a simple, 'it's not working for me', dacks back up and i'm off. I try to be polite about it, but see no point in disappointment.

My other pet peeve are men who describe themselves as dominant but then fail to take control. Big FAIL from my point of view.Or rough/hard etc. who 'tap' you on the arse with their open hand and say, 'yeah, take that bitch'. If it don't scar or welt or genuinely, it ain't rough.

I've heard women say they've laughed a guy out of the bedroom due to size. Man, that's got to be tough. Surprised they don't want to fight or something. The only thing I've ever been guilty of is by-passing the hotel and taking her to the park instead, along with a Big Mac Value meal of course.

It's all a sham. Politics is a big game, same as the media - and same as religion. The point is to distract & control. If we're looking at what they tell us is the "big issue", we're not looking at what they are doing. In time, there will be different causes and different minorities to pick-on. All in the name of keeping the system going, and the people distracted.

Being into size for casual sex hardly makes one shallow. Its just another fetish like any other. It would be sad if someone avoided a budding relationship because of size, however. Unless we are talking unusually small or unusually huge. I think those rare cases might give one pause, and it wouldn't be shallow either.

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ďFrom each, according to his ability; to each, according to his needĒ 1875 K Marx

"I have tried hard--but life is difficult, and I am a very useless person. I can hardly be said to have an independent existence. I was just a screw or a cog in the great machine I called life, and when I dropped out of it I found I was of no use anywhere else."

"I have tried hard--but life is difficult, and I am a very useless person. I can hardly be said to have an independent existence. I was just a screw or a cog in the great machine I called life, and when I dropped out of it I found I was of no use anywhere else."

Oh Margaret, this thread made an irreversible left turn up Vaseline Alley about 14 posts ago. If you think it's been revolting so far, you might wanna grab some air-sick bags before it's too late. MtD

D maybe you can work on the gag reflexes............

mtd , vaseline bedazzel me but who would use that even to wank off........ LOL

thank heavens i had my coffee before i read this thread otherwise I had to phone the IT department with a please explain the soaked keybord. Thinking of it i rather have a guy that is good in size than someone with a small dick who can do more damage to you thinking small means aggresive and that is a turn off big time

Gonna chime in here on the subject: When I was single and playing around, size didn't matter to me too much. It was more the person than the penis. This is not to say however, that I never got it on with someone I didn't care for just because they were nicely hung. But back in my youth, when I was a young Homo-In-Training, I had a friend whom I shall call "Auntie Mike" Auntie Mike liked 'em huge. I saw the dildo collection he had and it frightened me to think he could take one of those monsters. When he was in his late thirties, he had to have surgery to basically rebuild his sphincter muscles as they no longer functioned at all. I imagine that for him a fart was more like a breeze blowing through a cave. The thought of having to wear depends in my 30s was enough to send me in a different direction.

Another thing I have noticed is that well-hung guys tend to be a bit arrogant. A lot of them rely on their size rather than technique to impress their partners. Whereas the guy with the smaller size knows it will take more than just shoving it in there to make it pleasurable for their partner, they take the time to learn things about giving pleasure.

So let me get this straight -- seeking out monster cocks is shallow, but seeking out fat, hairy men is blessed by Jesus... or something?

::face-palm::

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It's all a sham. Politics is a big game, same as the media - and same as religion. The point is to distract & control. If we're looking at what they tell us is the "big issue", we're not looking at what they are doing. In time, there will be different causes and different minorities to pick-on. All in the name of keeping the system going, and the people distracted.