Oh you poor soul! Did you meet a half term deadline for resigning? If you need to go still, then maybe someone more knowledgable could confirm, but perhaps you could simply reinstate your resignation.

If you do decide to stay, then those who put the pressure on, had jolly well better deliver the support. They owe you practical support and listening time. Any criticisms need to be turned round on them. I resigned because I didn't think we could change things. You persuaded me otherwise. So what do you have in mind to improve this situation.

Practically draw up a list of things that management could realistically do to help you. Try to avoid the totally impossible - free flight to the Seychelles at Easter - but go for a varied list: everything from a half day supply cover per week/ an hour a week from management supporting you/ down to more pencils/a cupboard door that doesn't jam shut. Make it a thorough list and be prepared to bring up items off your list whenever you can. They have a very short time to win you over, or a new letter of resignation can easily follow. You have made that decision once, not easily, I'm sure. It is up to them now to persuade you that this school want to keep you.

tribpot yes I stayed out of pure funk.The list is a good idea. I wrote that I'd reconsidered on the understanding issues would be addressed but I think I better be specific on paper as well as verbally.Tricky jobshare situation, ill thought management initiatives and random change for sake of change dragging down results. Verbally I've been very frank. I feel I have just made a terrible decision and management mainly care that another resignation now on top of all the others looks bad.

Is it realistic to think it will get sorted? It doesn't sound like it is.

I understand you feel guilt for the children but this is your job. It sounds like the management have achieved their goal - avoiding the bad publicity of another resignation. They are unlikely to be motivated to address anything if that really was all they cared about.

I think Branching's idea is a good one - you will feel very differently about things if you know it's a temporary arrangement, it gets them out of the hole of finding someone for the summer term and makes it easier on the kids.

No. Don't hope. Say they have 3 mths to fix your issues or you will leave. The clearing of the issues results in staying. Now, if they aren't serious they will just say don't give us ultimatums, there's the door. If they are serious they will attempt to complete it. Win win!

It must be difficult as the children would undoubtedly suffer more without you. I would outline your main issues that need resolving quickly and give them a stated time - say half a term. Then more minor ones say that they need sorting by the end of that full term, otherwise you will then need to resign. Polite but professional, and make sure they know that you are staying for the children's sake as much as yours.

NinahI was on the other thread with you and I also handed my notice in without a job to go to.

I was offered a deal to stay and although I declined, it was re- offered two days before I was due to leave last week. A lot of pressure was put on me , the disruption to students was thrown in which made me feel very guilty. However, watching what was going on around me during the notice period and realising how unlikely things are going to change in the near future, I declined again. I also realised I was only considering staying for a group of students who will leave in May anyway.

Today is my first day of 'freedom' and already I feel both mentally and physically better. I would agree with previous posters; draw up a clear plan or list with a completion date and if the issues you raised have still not been addressed then you will know that you gave it your best shot and it is perhaps time for you to move on--as the children will eventually.

Oh well done loriens, good for you, really pleased you were braver than I was and stuck by your decision, which was clearly the right one.Children are incredibly resilient. Congratulations on your freedom and hope I will be out soon too!