Do you have a back-up already in mind?

so, of course if your significant other is going to see this, you are unlikely to have a forthcoming answer...but i will ask anyway. do you have a person in mind should your current relationship not work out so well? this is for men and women...thoughts? and, if so, are you keeping that person on the hook?

Nope. That would basically being saying that you know your relationship is going to fail. I mean, securing a back up for something like a relationship seems to make it so it's doomed to fail. It doesn't sound like a smart move at all.

so, of course if your significant other is going to see this, you are unlikely to have a forthcoming answer...but i will ask anyway. do you have a person in mind should your current relationship not work out so well? this is for men and
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so, of course if your significant other is going to see this, you are unlikely to have a forthcoming answer...but i will ask anyway. do you have a person in mind should your current relationship not work out so well? this is for men and women...thoughts? and, if so, are you keeping that person on the hook?

Absolutely not. I am extremely happy in the relationship I am in, and I wouldn't want another man or this marriage to fail. This man I have now has made me so happy I don't know how I had all that bottled up growing up.