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It's really depressing. I'm in a 4 year training contract to be an accountant but I'm so busy studying and working. All I want is someone to laugh with, chat to, make happy and make love to once a week whilst we going through the stresses of everyday working life but I feel so detached and unable to change my situation at least for a few months. Maybe that's the sacrifice and it hopefully pays off one day but it would be nice to meet someone cool, our youth is our best days.

Ya I mean they did a few cool things with work sometimes but it was a mid sized company, there weren't many single people my age.And I feel exactly the same about that

It was a 6 month placement, but I'll go back in September when I'm done with college. I still had good few friends from college around so I had some kind of social life but now most of them are moving. So I really have to put in some effort into meeting new people when I start working again. Especially guys. Because you know they say get a hobby, but my interests tend to be female dominated so that's not good

Which ones would you recommend which would have a good mixture of men and women? My main hobby is watching/attending sport or going to the gym. The gym seems to be full of individuals though. You're lucky to be in college, make the most of it!

hiking or climbing could be good but that's not for everyone. I was thinking badminton or something maybe? All you need is one or two good buddies because as long you're not all introvert, you'll be able to meet people through them and expand your social circles. It's starting the engine which is the hard part. It was nice 0-18, no one moved far very often, maybe one or two pals. Then you hit 18, everyone moves for uni and then at 21, everyone moves again for their first job, then they'll move again when they've met someone and need to move somewhere affordable, again when they have kids, which is when they will settle to raise them up.

Did you find the dates awkward or was there no spark? You'll find someone soon enough, don't rush it. Develop your interests and Mr. Right will be somewhere nearby. You often find young rushing into things only to get hurt and whilst you gain nothing by never trying, you also can save a lot of hurt by knowing what you want

I feel the same sometimes but focus on yourself and the rest will come. It's not a quote for a reason. And ask anyone who found love a little later than others, they'll say the same thing. All else fails, move to Liverpool, they'll love the Irish there haha.

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If your just outside a city, there will most likely be a social/sports/activity club that has events in your area. That's usually a great way to meet people. Activities like kickball and cornhole where your in a bar or going to one after the event.

I'm not sure what you folks do on the other side of the pond that's more of a social sport where you don't care too much who wins/loses. The only sports that come to mind are rugby, football (soccer), and cricket and they are definitely not social sports for both guys/girls. We do have coed football (soccer) here, but it's usually if your very good at it and did it in high school.

As @nalaa suggested, hiking and rock/ice climbing are popular... at least where I am here in New England. If your not the sports type, there are usually events (boat rides, weekend getaways, etc.) that are organized by clubs to meet people. Personally, I like an event where I can do something just in case you don't meet anyone you don't like, it's not a total loss.