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Fort Worth Singles Dating | How to Spark His Interest in You

May 22, 2018Dating AdviceComments Off on Fort Worth Singles Dating | How to Spark His Interest in You

The Fort Worth singles dating scene is about to get easier! Every woman has been in this position at some point in her life: You’ve just met someone, and you’re starting to fall for him. You seem perfect together on paper. As you get more emotionally invested in him, you want nothing more than for things to work out for the best. You want to stop dating and get serious with him. You want a committed relationship. All you need is a connection to spark and to create a bond between the two of you. You need to find ways to spark a connection.

Luckily, there a few proven ways to make this happen. You can’t ever force chemistry, but if it has a potential to blossom anyway, there are things you can do to give chemistry a little push. Too many people believe that this sort of thing is all about how you look, but lighting a spark with your new love interest has a lot to do with your actions and personality.

Today, our Dallas matchmakers are going to show you how to spark his interest in you.

Don’t be afraid to make a move.

Traditionally, society has taught us that men are the ones that make the first move. You’ve heard it all before: men are hunters, they are the chasers, they need something to chase after or they get bored. While from a biological perspective some of those things are true, the fact is we’ve adapted beyond animal instincts and are no longer living in a jungle.

Making the first move might be scary, so imagine how hard it is for guys who are expected to do it all the time. If you actually start talking to him first when you catch his eyes looking at yours, or text him first after exchanging phone numbers, or even add him on social media, he might feel like you’re a confident woman who isn’t afraid to go after what she wants. Obviously, you don’t want to start chasing him when he’s clearly not interested in you, but don’t be afraid to go after a guy who is showing interest in you.

Wear something sexy and red.

When it comes to getting a guy interested in you, nine out of ten times, your actions matter more than how you look. But it would be naïve to think that men don’t care about visuals at all. The good news is there are actually things you can do to make yourself more attractive to men and thus make someone more likely to want to get to know you better. One of them, and this something that every woman can do, is wearing something sexy – something red.

The color red particularly enhances a male’s attraction to females. There are endless ways to add red to your daily look, and the most obvious is a classic red dress to make him melt for you. It doesn’t have to be a grand and obvious thing, though. You can also try your luck with red skirts or tops. Red lipstick and red accessories are also great.

Make yourself happy when you’re with him.

Being positive and being happy are closely linked to each other, and in the same way that positive people are more attractive, happy people also tend to lure in more interest.

One of the worst things you can do while trying to get a guy interested in you is act like a damsel in distress and let him know that you are unhappy and need him to save you.

This might attract a certain type of guy, but in most cases, men don’t want to date a woman who’s unhappy with her life because they’ll think she has a lot of baggage.

Happiness is infectious, so if you’re genuinely happy around him, he’s more likely to want to get to know you better, if for no other reason than to feel happier himself. Making yourself happy isn’t that hard, especially if you have many wonderful things going in your life. Focus on being grateful for all your blessings and remember that no one in the world is perfect.

So what are you waiting for? Get out there and make this new man fall for you!

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