Nope I wasn't and I don't know of any who were kicked out either. If anything they chose when to get out... ]]>
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Author: newdiva1Subject: 353125Posted: Jan 08 2013 at 2:46pm

iGotSunshine wrote:

newdiva1 wrote:

nycdiva357 wrote:

I've seen it happenAnd if you are in my house past 18 u need a reason

this. school don't count.

damn lol

you wouldnt let your kid stay if they were in school?

my brothers had it made.

both full ride scholarships, stayed at home and graduated with no debt

that's the best gift a parent can give you lol

the only thing my mom made them do was keep the yard together and pay the cable bill.

I would but what I was saying that in my fams and from what i've seen in some fams is that you can stay....going to school and errything but u better have a job too to pay rent and buy your own food and personal items.

I had a family member get engaged and move across the country with some ragged ninja because her mom made it impossible for her. Would jack her for half her meager check for rent (and she had to purchase her own personal items and food) and would constantly be on her talmbout so when u moving out?

I know it's not like that with all AA fams but...in some fams...they don't kick u out per se but they make it so u don't want to stay. They not tryna give u a leg up.

IA...that is the best give a parent can give u but some are not tryna help you like that.

No- as long as I was going to school and/or working. It was the same for all of my friends.]]>
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Author: Over_allSubject: 353125Posted: Jan 08 2013 at 11:42am

Positive K wrote:

Over_all wrote:

My mom always says i can come back but she's crazy.. Living with her is like walking on egg shells. You never know what going to set her off.. Plus she's horrible with money.. She likes to let things go off b4 paying them.. I left the house at 17 and joined the military.. There was nothing there for me.. In fact all my bros left the house before 18..

My mom always says i can come back but she's crazy.. Living with her is like walking on egg shells. You never know what going to set her off.. Plus she's horrible with money.. She likes to let things go off b4 paying them.. I left the house at 17 and joined the military.. There was nothing there for me.. In fact all my bros left the house before 18..]]>
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Author: EasterBellSubject: 353125Posted: Jan 08 2013 at 10:09am

Mine didn't.. However, they really didn't have to though..

They still trying to get me to come back down to they area, which I refuse.

Did you have womenzzz in the house while mama was at work?? That's the only thing I could think of that would get young boys kicked out. Unless you tried to flex on your mama and she didn't wanna split your head open so she gently asked you to vacate.

oh wait. i take that back. my ex hubbies mother lost her mind for a split second when she got with the embezzler. smh.]]>
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Author: sugabananaSubject: 353125Posted: Jan 08 2013 at 9:59am

I moved when I got married and my mom and pop were almost in tears.... African parents just like Indian parents want the whole family to live together forever like a utopia. ]]>
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Author: ThoughtCoutureSubject: 353125Posted: Jan 08 2013 at 9:59am

Did you have womenzzz in the house while mama was at work?? That's the only thing I could think of that would get young boys kicked out. Unless you tried to flex on your mama and she didn't wanna split your head open so she gently asked you to vacate. ]]>
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Author: el_bandidoSubject: 353125Posted: Jan 08 2013 at 9:58am

when i was young me and my mama had beef17 yrs old got kicked out on the streets]]>
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Author: BeatriceBeanSubject: 353125Posted: Jan 08 2013 at 9:41am

I've never heard of it either...But ppl swear AA's kick their kids out at 18.

Have not seen it

I see it all the time, especially with girls.]]>
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Author: iGotSunshineSubject: 353125Posted: Jan 08 2013 at 9:28am

newdiva1 wrote:

nycdiva357 wrote:

I've seen it happenAnd if you are in my house past 18 u need a reason

this. school don't count.

damn lol

you wouldnt let your kid stay if they were in school?

my brothers had it made.

both full ride scholarships, stayed at home and graduated with no debt

that's the best gift a parent can give you lol

the only thing my mom made them do was keep the yard together and pay the cable bill.

It is culture. When I left home at 18, my mom cried. My sister still lives at home at 25, and my mother loves her being there. I think in African culture, they expect women to stay at home until they get married, even if they have a job (which my sister does).

It is culture. When I left home at 18, my mom cried. My sister still lives at home at 25, and my mother loves her being there. I think in African culture, they expect women to stay at home until they get married, even if they have a job (which my sister does).]]>
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Author: *Belle*Femme*Subject: 353125Posted: Jan 08 2013 at 8:28am

PRnena wrote:

Have those grown men who don't so sh*t but smoke , buy jays , and watch PICS in their moms basements been mentioned yet?

i think this has everything to do with culture. We don't kick our kids out at 18. They are still considered kids. ]]>
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Author: LimaladySubject: 353125Posted: Jan 08 2013 at 7:58am

Not in my mother's house, even though I left at 18 (by choice) to join the military.]]>
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Author: Junior JrSubject: 353125Posted: Jan 08 2013 at 6:40am