Breakups & Divorce Support Group

Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.

Be careful what you wish for

I wrote a blog yesterday with the above title, and I am so very sorry that I did. I was wrong in posting that garbage, and I apologize to everyone that I offended, and anyone who read it. I can't go back and delete it, but I learned not to do it again. So please forgive me for using poor judgement.
There are good men out there, and I am so sorry to all of you. It won't happen again I promise.

I didn't read it, but we're all going through divorces and breakups, so I hope people will cut you some slack. There were times when I generalized my feelings about my ex to all women, times when I thought all women were shallow, etc. because you have to find a way to express the anger and frustration when going through something like this. If it helps to be mad at us (men) to get better, I say go ahead - we've got some real bottom feeders among us, but you're right - there are some good ones in the group, too. :)

You don't need to apologize for venting here. I responded to the post with a little bit of humour because it was obviously not a personal attack. This forum shouldn't force people to self-censor themselves.

sometimes we are filled with anger and bitterness, i think it's a trigger to protect your heart from truly breaking apart at that moment. there are good men out there and most of us know when there is bashing going on, it's not truly directed to them, but to the one who truly hurt you. we understand. and it was really nice to see you apologize in the event you hurt someone here, not everyone has that courage. so don't be too hard on yourself. your in pain, as most of us here are.

I read it dianee...and yes it sounds EXACTLY like my stbx! And that is how I took it...not as a personal attack on any of the fine gentlemen on this board. When I read things like that...I apply it to the @ssholes that have hurt me directly, that's just the way it is. :)

everyone needs to vent sometimes and typically if you find a situation that your charged with personally, it is easy to get on defensive of say an entire gender, etc. That's like saying you had bad service at a Cracker Barrel restaurant, doesn't make all them bad. no apology necessary, I hope you're doing better today.
There aer plenty of good people out there, both genders. sometimes we get mixed up with the wrong ones that cause us much grief and strife.

Don't hesitate to let it out. It read like it was written by someone who had been seriously wounded. That's most of us. Don't loose your prespective and don't stop venting. If you're not understood here, you won't be understood anywhere.

Why be sorry about something that you felt that you needed to get off your chest. Thats what this web site is for. Say what you want if it makes you feel better, thats the whole reason for all of this.

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