You Complete Me

Hmmm…so today’s message may not be liked by some of us. We have all heard the phrase “You complete me.” It is so romantic. It is the ultimate complement to someone. However, it is not true. At least it shouldn’t be true.

Certainly, partners, family and friends impact our lives and who we are. But no person can complete another. Indeed, we are never complete. We are perpetual works in progress.

Should we seek out people who positively add to our lives? Of course. But should we hand over our power and be dependent on another person to make our lives happy. Absolutely not. It is up to us to make/allow ourselves to be happy. It is up to us to continue to grow into all that we can be. No one can do it for us. And we can not do it for someone else. The task…life purpose…is ours alone.