for the time Swinging advice first

You order a bottle of wine, wait for your appetizers and flirt with one another seductively under the table.

I still wouldn't call us "swingers" but we have experimented quite a bit. Not the other way around. But there is also a swinger proverb that states " women get dragged kicking and screaming INTO swinging and have to be dragged OUT of swinging kicking and screaming".

Things that may help you.

John says:. I was NOT knocked down and drug by my hair to a secret back room nor was I made to perform any sex acts. Why not try focusing on all the wonderful opportunities that can come from stepping outside the box and into a swingers club. My partner and I ended up not working out, which wasn't a huge shock.