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To change, we need to communicate different.

Posted on 10/08/2012

When I´m writing these lines about communication… I want, by them, to set a reflection about how we communicate nowadays, and if it´s appropriate to make others receive, understand and feel what we needed to say.
That´s why I must clarify that to gesticulate, talk, write, chat, e-mailing, texting, etc. are media, sings and meanings we have to express something, but that expression may not be complete itself to communicate what we wished to.
Other times, the communication process that we set, what we say or express with our bodies is directly unrelated to our real thoughts or feelings. How many times do we feel the need to talk to a close relative or a friend just because we need to know he´s fine, and we need to make him feel loved, and however the conversation turns banal and does not express our concern or feelings at all?
How many times we disagree with something other tell us and when our opinion is requested, we nod, instead of saying we think differently or asking a time to think about it?
We can explain the “social reality” as the product of human interrelations and how each one establishes those relations.
Those interrelations merge from communicating one´s position regarding others, and if the others accept or not what it implies.
So, we can say that there is a direct relation between the modification of reality and how we communicate what we feel or think; and if we do it in an accurate and complete way to let in the other a deep impact, to avoid just being a data transistor, because this last thing does not assure understanding.

To improve the individual and social construction, we should communicate what we think and feel, and also we should stop to check if the other has really understand what was our first intention.