The Battle Of Asking Her Out

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Though this ought to become less stressful the older you get, it sure doesn’t feel like it. The opportunity for rejection is always nerve-wracking, and it’s even worse in this instance because it can feel like she’s specifically rejecting your offer of love and affection.

Try this exercise to boost your confidence: Before you ever approach her, take a cue from those sleazy pickup-artist types -- they remind themselves that a woman can’t reject “them,” because she doesn’t yet know “them.” She can only reject the approach. Applied correctly, that’s powerful stuff.