Tamra Barney Gives Husband a Year to Decide on Baby

Tamra Barney is giving Eddie Judge one year to decide if he wants her to give birth to their baby.

Otherwise, it's surrogacy or adoption for the couple, the Real Housewives of Orange County star tells PEOPLE.

"If he really, really thinks he needs a baby, like if he wakes up [and wants a child] in the next year," Barney says. "I'm not going to be 70 years old and going to [drop the kids off] at preschool. I'm not doing it."