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I miscarried and am pregnant again. How can I control my worries?

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I miscarried my first pregnancy. I'm now 14 weeks into my second pregnancy and I'm still very nervous about something going wrong. This pregnancy is going very well -- but I still have this nagging fear in the back of my mind. What can I do to make myself feel better?

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Relax. I too miscarried and then got pregnant two weeks after. I was nervous about it but then when the doc heard the heartbeat for the first time thru droplet he said there is very little risk of miscarriage now so it relieved my stress. Stress does also help with miscarriage to so try not to worry and if its meant to be you will have a healthy baby in no time

Like most women, I was shocked and saddened when I miscarried. Pregnant again, I console myself with the knowledge that science (not God) "made the call" on my last pregnancy and that there is rhyme to the reason. Odds are really good that there was a chromosomal abnormality with our last one and that this time our little ones will be fine. I had one scary day around 8 weeks where all my pregnancy symptoms disappeared and I had some spotting. I called my doctor's office and they were very understanding. I met with my doctor for a checkup and followed up with an ultrasound the next day. A good doctor and staff will understand what you're going through and they know that we all have "mental days." Congratulations and best of luck to you!

I miscarried the first pregnantse was 22wekes a boy hard just stop.and am pregnant again and am 11wekes and am takeng it where save I also fear but if samething feels wrong I tell myself everything is okay.my God be with you dering your pregnantse it will gou well!!

I miscarried the first pregnantse was 22wekes a boy hard just stop.and am pregnant again and am 11wekes and am takeng it where save I also fear but if samething feels wrong I tell myself everything is okay.my God be with you dering your pregnantse it will gou well!!

I missed carried at 17 weeks last year due to an incompetent cervix. Now I'm pregnant again and almost 12 weeks, i'm scheduled to have cerclage done next week but as 17 weeks creeps close I'm still terrified. I have had several ultrasounds done to keep my fears at bay but it's not helping. I don't know what else to do.

Reading all of the posts makes me more of a believer!! I thank God for this forum. I had a miscarriage late June 2012 and I am now 5 weeks pregnant!! I am so excited and a but nervous as well. My HCG level is rising and I'm ecstatic. I'm trusting and believing God for a healthy child and a full term wonderful, joyous, and fun pregnancy. Congrats to all and please keep me in prayer.

I also misscarried my first pregnancy too it is a hard and difficult thing to go through but you just have to keep being positive. I am 18 weeks into my second pregnancy and I also have wories, but you have to keep your head up. every pregnancy is different . Also try a counselor or a friend to confide in it always help[s to have a great support system. I hope that everything turns out well for you and that you can find peace and happiness in knowing that you are not alone and as mothers we are all here for you.

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