sad :(

My so and I have been together for 11 years. We have 3 kids (including the one on the way) With our first son he was so freaked out..stopped talking to me ..our relationship went to shit. Needless to say our 1st son wasnt planned. Well once he was born he woke up and we worked through our issues. When our son passed I was dead set on having another babyand he eventually agreed. We had our son and he is a good dad. My son loves his dad (sometimes i think more then me!!) Well now we are expecting #3. He says that i pushed this one but I honestly dont feel that i did. He knew i was off the pill ..yes i wanted to have another baby and we talked about it..he says he is super stressed and that i am the cause bc i should have taken my pill. Personally I dont know what to say to him. The baby is coming soon...i understand its scary but we always have been able to deal with things ..I dont know what to say to him but i dont feel like he should be upset with me.

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DH was really mad when he found out I was pregnant this time. It takes two to make it baby and he was there when it happened! He knew I wasn't on birth control- never have been and most likely never will be- and he refuses to use condoms. Not sure what he thought would happen! It takes us awhile to get pregnant, but without any prevention he should have known it would happen eventually lol! He is super excited about the baby now- it just took him some time to get used to the idea.