i fluctuate often give or take 10lbsMy weight crept on me because ive been wearing leggings and sweatsI put on jeans for the first time in a couple months and my ass cannot breathe, and these are my big booty jeansAint nobody told me sh*t All my friends are like"girl you aint fat"My parents who are usually vocal about my weight been mum too.

no I don't. usually they bring it up. My family said I gained weight when I hadn't seen them in 9 mths. I basically put on the "freshman 15" after I moved since this place is so car reliant and greasy food friendly. On that same trip back I was planning on confronting my cousin for things he did to my mom and sis...while we were fighting he called me a butterball!!! I was already heated and planning on causing destruction anyway but that sent me over the edge. As I was storming through the house I noticed he had this big ass chick in his room and I went in and smashed his 60" flat screen. All of this would make more sense if I gave more background on why I was mad but it's too deep. Lol

Anyway, I got home and lost the 15 in two months, still running on the adrenaline of the trip. Say something next time, bish.

but ill tell ppl any and almost everything that i see a problem with..

its a problem that i have that i need to reel in...

tis why im always in an altercation

Why is it always the one with real issues that try and come for you? Then when you hit them with some truth you being mean??

Like when she called me patches cause my hair had fell out then I said something like well its working out fine since I dont have to worry about my hair when I workout , you still on Atkins? While she has mac & cheese, yams, rolls, and her eyes hawking that pie on the other table.

I knew I was fat, but I don't think I had a concept of how big I actually was. I look at old pics and I'm like, "Nooooo, there's no way I was THAT big!" But I was. Growing up with my dad did not help things at all Pinchin my cheeks and calling me his little chubby princess. My mom (who had visitation rights) was like, "do you want the lapband??" and "you are not eating not another bowl of cereal!" LOL. At least she tried. 50lbs down though (the natural way) they both r proud of me.

Just wanted to share, back to the OP.

I might tell someone if they ask, but I will not encourage the behavior even if they don't. Oh, you want to go to Hometown Buffet? Naw, I want Souplantation (Sweet Tomato). You think we should drive to the store that's a block away? Nah, we walking. But all this in a nice way.

no I don't. usually they bring it up. My family said I gained weight when I hadn't seen them in 9 mths. I basically put on the "freshman 15" after I moved since this place is so car reliant and greasy food friendly. On that same trip back I was planning on confronting my cousin for things he did to my mom and sis...while we were fighting he called me a butterball!!! I was already heated and planning on causing destruction anyway but that sent me over the edge. As I was storming through the house I noticed he had this big ass chick in his room and I went in and smashed his 60" flat screen. All of this would make more sense if I gave more background on why I was mad but it's too deep. Lol

Anyway, I got home and lost the 15 in two months, still running on the adrenaline of the trip. Say something next time, bish.

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