There's a guy I just met asked me, am I still a virgin or not? Well I'm still a virgin, thank you very much for asking.

Then he kept asking me about when will I lose it? When will I try making love? Who's the guy? Any plan doing it now? Did I ever want to do it? He ALSO said that making love is great. Something that made you happy, satisfied, yadda yadda yadda...

So I told him, I'm not into that. I don't want to do it now. I got much things to do right now besides thinking about who will be my first man on bed. I rather keep my virginity until I get married. Not because of the culture or for my future husband happiness, but it's for my own life that I am thinking about. Then he said, "oh you are labil. You aren't stabil."

I don't know. Am I that naive or this conversation starts really boring? If he kept telling me that sex is a paradise or whatever, then what? I'm not interested anyway. Or maybe NOT YET. Don't get me wrong, I'm not that kind of person who againts sex before marrige tho. The thing is, it is not my priority. Right now my priorities are focusing on my study, my work, and my experience for my life later. So it's annoying if someone keep pushing me, saying that I have to feel the desire of making love even I'm not into that. Because once again, that's not my priority. Much things are more urgent than that.

So please man, don't judge me like Im a little girl who doesn't know anything like you do. Because that would pissed me off.