18VL! More Reasons He Must Suck Your Breast During Sex

We get that guys are into our boobs. We want them to be into them — that’s why we spend all that money on fancy lingerie and dresses that show them off.

But sometimes they are a bit too into them. Ever notice the guys that stare for a really long time? Or like to jiggle them? Or think they are pillows? Or are way too fixated on the impact on your boobs after you gain or lose weight? It’s kind of freaky.

And lets be real, while we want our boobs to get attention, sometimes there’s a bit of divide between what we want them to do and what they actually do. Even if they are doing what we want them to do (which we hope is the case in ANY sexual situation), they may not be very good at it.

Boobs are curious in that men seem to be fixated in them for all sorts of reasons. It could be mommy issues — is that sucking starting to feel a little bit more like he’s breastfeeding? Or is it just so rough that it hurts or is awkward and uncomfortable instead of sexy? Or does it feel so good that unexpected things are happening from your body on your own end?

All these things are very possible, and there’s more that can be going on that you never even imagined. And some of it is pretty WEIRD. Here are TK strange things that can happen when he sucks on your boobs.

1. He’s just not good at it.

“When a guy sucks your boobs, and he’s into it and romantic, it can be pleasurable. But when he’s doing it just because he thinks it will turn you on and he adds some awkward twists to your nipples, it can be a real turnoff,” says Carole Lieberman M.D.

2. You orgasm unexpectedly.

One unexpected thing that can happen is orgasm. It’s not disgusting, but it might freak some people out. Nipple-sucking can lead to this response in some people, says sexologist Carol Queen.

3. You lactate.

If suction is strong enough, a bit of fluid can be emitted, says Queen. If you’re lactating, a partner sucking your nipples will make them emit milk.

4. He could be regressing to childhood.

“Some people might consider the response of a partner who gets into total breast-sucking to be kinda over the top… seeming regression to babyhood can happen for some people,” says Queen.

We’ve all been on a hot subway or running around between appointments and noticed our boobs are experiencing some sweat. It’s natural and happens, but you really don’t want him to start tonguing that area and experience sweaty nipples. GROSS.