Have you dreamt about previous boyfriends or partners?

On occasion I do dream about a previous partner, and usually it’s a pretty powerful experience that I can recall vividly. My dreams are usually positive in nature and although not always sexual they always leave me thinking about that person for the rest of the day……

I’m curious to see how many other guys have had dreams about previous boyfriends or partners?

Yes it happened once and it was very disturbing because it was so real. I tend to over analyze dreams and spent a few days panicking wondering if it meant anything, but I realized it didn't and that sometimes dreams are just dreams.

Yep, sometimes about my late partner, and a couple of times about an ex-BF, but never anything sexual, just us doing ordinary things together. But mostly I dream about my current partner, just like I regularly dreamt about my late partner when we were together. I find it all normal and have no concerns regarding my dreams.

For many years, I had the same dream that somebody was chasing me. Then, one night when I was having that dream, I said, "Shoot him ! Shoot him !" Whomever it was that I was talking to, handed the gun to me, and I shot him. And, I never had that dream again.

These days, my recurring dream is that I am going to Hawaii, it's time to board the plane, and i haven't got my ticket, yet.

A while ago, there was a mutual attraction between a good friend and I. We were almost on and off for a few times before he figured out that he didn't feel enough for me romantically, and we decided to remain good friends.

Just a couple weeks ago, when I thought that I was finally over him, having not thought about him for some time, I had dreams about the one intimate night we spent together. For a few days afterward, I was very distraught as I really wanted to get over him and thought I hadn't.

The dreams subsided, and I hope they wouldn't resurface again, but I'm starting to think that a part of me will always feel something for him, and maybe my mind is just trying to get me to be at peace with that.

I have not and could not imagine dreaming of my ex-. Although he is a wonderful man and remains a good friend to this day, he does not occupy my dreams. Even though he was my first relationship with a man, first time, and such ... I think when it ended, there was closure for me; I understood the break-up for what it was - a break-up.

One of my unforgetable partner is this American guy I meet during college when I was 19.I was young. Sex is new and exciting. He was 35, tall, muscular, strong, extremely experience in love making. I been with so many guys after him, but I have never have sex as good as with him. The fact that he was a white men and different from other Asian I been with , make the sexual experience so erotic, unforgetable and good .

He usually, come and see me about once a month (since he was living with someone else). I remember getting all excited and get myself ready whenever he call me his on his way.

Now, 25 years latter I still think about the sex and the memory I share with him. He in 56 years old by now.

Joel, if you reading this...thank you for all the good times and fun we have together. I never have it as good as when I am with you.