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Talking to girls.

I've decided I must start talking to the girls out in public I find attractive. There's been plenty of girls that start conversations with me usually just by being interested in what I'm drawing but I've never tried being the one to start the conversation.

It shale be like everything else I'm afraid of, ill do it and ill feel good that I did.

I never had a problem talking to girls. But as soon as I liked one of them, I was unable to talk normally anymore. Everything I said sounded stupid and I would look back on those conversations afterwards and cringe.

A couple of years ago I had a rep come see me in my office from some employment agency. She gave me a calender. She was super hot, I got so flustered and nervous talking to her that she actually asked me if I was in pain.

I'm married now so all that sexual tension with strange girls has dissipated. If there's anything that I want to talk to my wife about which makes me shy, I skype her at her work.

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I just get drunk and dance at them or just jump into the middle of a conversation that I have been eves dropping on. The best place to meet the ladies is at fastfood joints after the bars start to close.

Talking to girls - hell, I just talk to every girl I see, attractive or no. Simply put, the more girls you talk to the better you get at it. Using your art as a conversation starter isn't too bad an idea, I tend to just use a couple of jokes to break the ice and go from there.

As for where to meet girls, life itself, outside. When you're waiting at a bus stop, shopping, in the line for a movie at the cinema - nothing wrong with just starting conversations most of the time, so long as the subject is more or less relevant to the situation. Hell, I even talk to girls all over the internet itself. That's more or less the most interesting place because you know that you've at least got something to talk about if you're on the same site.

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Hey, girls are people too, you know. I don't think there's anything special in talking to girls. Okay, I really can't say that as I'm a girl myself. BUT I find it just normal that guys come to talk to me as most of my friends are male. How to act with ladies then? Well, be polite and don't do anything stupid but don't change your personality on purpose as they will probably notice and start thinking what the heck is wrong with your real self if you have to act un-naturally. So be yourself and do it without thinking it as a big deal. If it doesn't work, remember there are other girls and most of people don't even notice if a person talking to them does something slightly silly. And online talking is even easier.

Well, you certainly won't find womens on the internet.
Especially not on conceptArt.

On a more serious note,
Girl's aren't /THAT/ different, you know.

But If you're going to dart around and talk to attractive girls just make sure your actions won't be seen as suspicious.
If A strange lad started following me I'd be silently wondering if they're going to shank me and run away with my money.