Talking to Your Doctor About Melanoma

You have a unique medical history. Therefore, it is essential to talk with your doctor about your personal risk factors and/or experience with melanoma. By talking openly and regularly with your doctor, you can take an active role in your care.

Here are some tips that will make it easier for you to talk to your doctor:

Bring someone else with you. It helps to have another person hear what is said and think of questions to ask.

Write out your questions ahead of time, so you don't forget them.

Write down the answers you get, and make sure you understand what you are hearing. Ask for clarification, if necessary.

Don't be afraid to ask your questions or ask where you can find more information about what you are discussing. You have a right to know.

What is the stage of my melanoma?

Was it caught early or has it spread?

Based on my medical history, lifestyle, and family background, am I at risk for melanoma?

How do I best treat melanoma?

What other options are there?

What are the risks and benefits associated with this treatment plan?

How long will the treatment last?

What side effects can I expect?

What will I need to change in my daily routine?

How will I feel during treatment?

What will I need to do to take care of myself during the treatment period?

What will we do if the treatment does not succeed?

Do I need to stay out of the sun?

Do I have to give up swimming and other outdoor recreation?

How can I protect myself if I work outdoors?

How likely is it that my treatments will kill all the cancer cells?

How will I know if my treatment program is effective?

Should I consider participating in a clinical trial?

Do you know of any other patients I can talk with or support groups I can join?

Revision Information

This content is reviewed regularly and is updated when new and relevant evidence is made available. This information is neither intended nor implied to be a substitute for professional medical advice. Always seek the advice of your physician or other qualified health provider prior to starting any new treatment or with questions regarding a medical condition.

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