Monday, January 7, 2008

I am Capricorn, My Lover is Aries

If you are in love with an Aries, you've got a very tough road ahead, because your orientation is so different. Still, anything is possible, so let's have a look at where the trouble spots could be.

You are a traditionalist at heart, Capricorn, and do your best work within large, structured organizations. Capricorns understand chain of command, and you enjoy all the perks that having a good job in a big company brings. Aries, however, don't want to work for anyone but themselves. Their ability to walk on the razor's edge -- waiting for overdue shipments, raising venture capital, blazing through crises -- could drive you mad. You want a rather settled life -- they don't care. You will feel the outside tension at home, too. They express themselves best by creating new projects, and their role is to be innovators. Aries, by temperament, are meant to be a bit self-absorbed, and this is another trait you could find hard to take. But a Capricorn wants and needs social approval, so if your Aries makes it, no one will be prouder than you. You will shout their successes from the rooftops!

This coupling could be better suited to a business partnership than a romance because you both are such workaholics. Both of you are driven to succeed, which could hold you together, even though this is not a classic astrological love match. These two Sun signs form an aspect denoting obstacles.

In bed, both of you enjoy sex, but you are the more tactile and sensual. Aries likes anything done quickly, but in bed, this isn't always the best way to go! Just making the effort at getting in sync should show immediate results.

Your Aries is an enthusiastic dreamer, full of ideas and grand schemes. He or she isn't always realistic, but will remain firmly focused on the goal he or she has set. You may enjoy being the anchor in the relationship, offering sound financial advice and practical solutions. If you stay together you can build something substantial. This is a hard match to call, since so much of the relationship's final outcome will be up to you.