I often wonder about the grand scheme of things... where do I fit in? Am I headed in the right direction? Why am I so unlucky in love? Why do I have to work so hard to get things that others get easily? What is the purpose of me being here?......you now get a peek into the life of a fellow who feels held back by invisible chains....curious?

Monday, January 30, 2006

I've been tagged ....

This is the first time I've been tagged... so I'll actually play along ... and since I'm home nursing a cold, and too tired to do anything exciting ... I'm doing this right away! .... (In fact, if I were at the office, where the work is all piled up ... and there's no escape :) , I would have to wait till the weekend to get this tag done... and that may seem rude ... so pls bear that in mind, if anyone tags me and I'm unable to get to it right away....)-----

Firstly, thank you Lady, for tagging me... :)

The rules of the game are:1. The tagged victim has to come up with 8 different points of their perfect lover.2. Need to mention the sex of the target.3. Tag 8 victims to join this game & leave a comment on their comments saying they’ve been tagged.4. If tagged the 2nd time, there’s no need to post again.

Sex of my perfect lover: Female

The qualities should be:1. Honest: she's honest ... not just to me... but to herself ... believes in the motto - "To thine own self be true"

2. Trust: would logically follow from the honesty in the relationship.... she trusts me completely and vice versa ...

4. Committed: she's committed to the relationship and has a 'come what may, we'll fight it together' attitude ... (I told u I don't believe in divorces :)

5. Frank: she doesn't play mind games or expects me to read her mind always (sometimes is okay) ... if something bothers her, she's frank about it and addresses the issue immediately... we never leave issues unaddressed for they may simmer inside and explode one day...

6. Not a Nag: Being frank is one thing, but she must not be a nag... tell me once or maybe twice ... but no more ... perhaps she could just write it down and give it to me?

7. Not too pushy: Doesn't try to change me before I'm ready. I know all women will try to change their men and make them better. I'm okay with that. But, she's tactful and not overly pushy about it... gradually I will come around.... :)

8. Loving and affectionate: she's extremely loving and affectionate, with a warm and caring heart ... my precious angel... she reciprocates my love with loads of her own...

But, one very important quality that she absolutely must have is - a sense of humour ... life would be drab if she didn't have that! ....

And the next 8 people are:AmuKeshiAshElaineC A F F E I N E - A D D I C TMichelleStill Figuring OutThe Untrodden

(I know most of them have already been tagged... so I'm the last link of this tag ... hehe :)

I knew that ... and ur 8th requirement "Good, stable, well-to-do family background" ... also is one thing that I'll also look for ... after all, upbringing and the values instilled since childhood accounts for a lot!

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Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. 6Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. Love never fails. And now these three remain: faith, hope and love. But the greatest of these is love. ... (1 Corinthians 13) The Holy Bible