I had to remind my dad a couple weeks back when he was explaining to my nephew why he shouldn't be mad if someone doesn't let him use something they own, that the AC unit is technically mine

I mean, I'm 28 years old. I should not be in the position of supporting my mother at this age (considering she just turned 52 last month). Just because DH and I live comfortably does not give her the right to expect money every time she asks me. She knows I won't say no! At first it was $20 here, $50 there. Now, 3 years later - it's $50-100 every month for one reason or another, not to mention I pay for her cell phone every month. And now, a broken car that has to be fixed or else she can't get to and from work.

I mean, really? I feel bad that I'm so angry. Like it's my job to take care of my mom because she did "such a great job" with me all those years growing up. But that's not the case. And I can't just tell her no.