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Not a story of a Manolo Blahnik obsessed autosycophant and her 3 friends going to different nightly Manhattan spots. I am a thirtysomething black man on Chicago's southside who rarely has more than $50 in the bank after bills, shops at H&M, and realizes that in order to have great sex and fun encounters, you don't have to be rich, athletic, or even that cute--just be available.
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Sunday, 19 November 2017

Over a decade ago, I was fortunate enough to write a blog for two years that chronicled my life of love and sex in the great city of Chicago. While I have decided that I will probably never write another blog like Sex and the Second City, I will tell these stories in a new medium. My inspiration Carrie Bradshaw wrote her book on the series. It is time that I write mine. Look forward to great news in 2018.

Wednesday, 01 December 2004

I am a thirtysomething black brotha who has had a lot of sex in my young life--but I want to have more. This blog is my attempt to document that quest, and all of the silly shit that goes along with it. But the quest is not just for sex, and its not just my quest. It is the search for love, happiness, and satisfaction by my friends and people that I encounter in Chicago.

Even though my tales are largely (though not entirely) about sex with men, this blog is for everyone--heterosexual, bisexual, gay, DL, lesbian. It's for anyone that's sexual. Because sex is one of those human things that binds all of us. And a lot of the shit that happens to me is sure to happen (or has happened to many of you). So sit back, get a chuckle, and you might learn something to help you in life.

And if not, you can always stand to learn more about the greatest city in the world, Chicago.

Monday, 29 November 2004

Over the next few years I hope that you enjoy this BLOG about me and the emotional (and sexual) lives of me and my friends--and the greatest city in the world, CHICAGO!!! Hopefully, they will make you laugh and help you reflect on your own lives. Before we get started, why don't I tell you a little bit about myself--or at least show you how most people see me on the Internet.

But more than anything, hopefully we can learn about relationships and love and sex--and get to learn a lot more about Chicago in the meanwhile. So with that said, LET THE BLOGGING BEGIN!

It might help to get started by letting folks know that I am what you call, an Internet whore. My primary means of meeting men--and finding sexual partners, is to meet them through web sites, chat rooms--you name it. If I've met a guy, there's usually been some electricity between us--and I don't mean sparks, I mean like a computer screen or a DSL connection. So it might help you to learn a little bit more about me, if you see what other people see when I am on the Internet:

Hobbies & Interests: thirtysomething 6'1 200lbs 34w Blk/brn Bright smile & supple lips. Masculine voice. Great legs. I am a man, not into roles (can be versatile).. I have a high (sex) drive, and I like to use it. Good sense of humor.

I sip virgin coladas not cosmopolitans, wear Zegna not Blahnik. My vice is milkshakes not cigarettes.

Occupation: Writer and Ethnographer. Part-time sex coach (smile).

Personal Quote: Someone asked me once, "Is sex the only thing you are looking for this evening?" And I responded, "Sex is NEVER the only thing I am looking for...But I AM always looking for it."------------------------------------------------------------------------------------

Ok so you know a little bit about me. Also, know that I have a best friend, his name is Darnell (Ill be refering to him as Dee), and while we are from the same city, we don't get to see each other that often. He has an Italian boyfriend--and I mean from the country--who has an accent that brings all the boys to the yard (well all the white boys, and those black boys that are into that sort of thing). His name is Alberto, and if he weren't so fucking nice and sweet to me, I'd probably have to kill him, as he is a definite attention magnet (or so I could tell from the few times we've gone out together).

But as for me, I am currently in the search for the best sex of my life. And I want you to tune in and join me as I go looking for Mr. Goodbar.

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