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The Purple Lobster

Bizarre conversations that have been happening in our household lately…

“NO Grace! You’d better stop that! I mean it! Or I’m going to get The Lobster!”

“NO LOBSTER!!! NOOOO!!!”

“Alright then!”

“NO! I don’t like lobster. LOBSTER GONNA EAT MY EARS!!!”

In case you’re trying to figure out what that is, it is a little purple lobster wind-up-toy.

It was a present from my brother and sister-in-law for Grace at their wedding in Singapore. Supposedly as a thank you gift to her for being the flower girl. And probably something fun to keep her amused at the reception. When you wind it up, it makes a funny buzzing noise as it rolls across the table or floor.

Unfortunately Grace found the toy lobster absolutely terrifying.

She refused to touch it or let it get anywhere near her.

I kept aside and forgot about it for a while.

One afternoon a few weeks ago, Nathan came across it among a box of toys. I picked it up and wound it up just for a bit of fun.

Grace went absolutely ballistic.

She ran away screaming her head off in pure terror.

Looks like she still had not gotten over her purple-lobster-toy phobia.

So I put the lobster toy away in Nathan’s room. Grace even insisted on shutting the door (supposedly to make sure the lobster would not escape).

We all had a good laugh over it and then forgot about the toy again for a little while.

Until one morning a couple of weeks ago. Grace was being a pain. The way two-year-olds can be sometimes. I can’t remember exactly what the specific offense was. Either refusing to comply with something she was supposed to do or doing something she was forbidden to do. Whatever it was, she was just refusing to budge. Nothing I said or did would move her.

After repeated rebuking and admonitions, I finally lost it.

In that moment of absolute frustration, I called upon…

The Purple Lobster.

Yes. I hate to admit it but it’s true.

I threatened my little girl with with the ‘thing’ she feared most.

It was a shamefully low blow.

But it worked immediately like a charm….

“NOOO!!! NO LOBSTER!!! LOBSTER GONNA EAT MY EARS!!!” screamed Grace.

[Don’t ask me what the deal is with the lobster eating her ears. I have no clue what that’s about.]

So now I keep this as my secret fall back weapon. When all other threats and admonitions fail.

[Allow me to caveat this post by stating that this is in no way considered ‘proper’ parenting methods. It is way off the textbook. In fact many would say this falls under the ‘what not to do’ category of methods.]

We all have our moments of desperations as parents.

It is kind of nice to have a fool-proof trick up your sleeve.

But I expect one day eventually Grace and I might find ourselves in a situation where we are at an impasse.

And we may have to negotiate a treaty.

That might be the day when I shall have to get rid of the purple lobster for good.

We shall wait and see.

For now, I’m keeping the lobster.

[What bizarre or unorthodox parenting tricks do you keep up your sleeve?]

This past week has been all about snails.The children are always fascinated by the snails in our garden and ask endless questions about them.A couple of weeks back, one of my boys stumbled across a snail crawling along the ground.

And so Nathan’s very first day of kindergarten is over. It was a mixture of good, bad, sweet and sour. I think that so much happens throughout the day, it can be challenging for a little person to filter through it all.

These days my days are packed full to the brim. From the moment I wake up to the sound of Grace calling through the baby monitor and Nathan’s cheeky face peering at me over the edge of the bed… to the evening when I finally tuck them into bed and say goodnight.

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