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Sexual
Positions With The Man On Top

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Anyone who's been in a long-term committed
sexual relationship  or even a short-term one  knows that having
successful sex
with your partner is about much more than just knowing every possible
sexual technique in the world and hundreds of sexual positions.

However, what is also true is
that good sex is the building block of any relationship  the foundation
stone that keeps people loving and living together, mostly because good
sex is the fastest way to true intimacy.

And to have good sex, you need
variety: which is why knowing lots of sexual positions, or at least
finding new ones to try every so often, can be really helpful in a
relationship.

Why do I say that good sex
depends on variety?

Well, the answer's simple: if
you carry on having sex in the same sexual position over and over again,
you very quickly get bored, it loses its thrill, and the physical
sensations are just not as exciting.

Then you stop making love so
often, you lose intimacy...and things head downhill.

We know that couples who try lots of
different lovemaking positions,
who experiment together, and try out lots of fun (or passionate or
different) sexual positions, love and laugh together more, as well as having
more sex, more often, and they generally have better relationships.

And that's why we've built a
site here that has lots of photographs of couples (all of whom are in
committed relationships) making love.

The photographs are tasteful,
and explicit, and very suitable for a man and woman to enjoy together.

This could be the perfect way
of breaking the ice before you go to bed - like an old Japanese pillow
book, you can look at the pictures with your partner, point out the ones
you want to try, and avoid the embarrassment of trying to describe what
you want to do without a picture to show you how to do it.

Now, you might be thinking this all sounds a bit weird!

So ask yourself what sex means
for you. The answer is probably this: it means many different things,
depending on how you're feeling and what you want from your partner.

If you're in a romantic mood,
and you want slow, gentle lovemaking, then man on top is a conventional
sexual position that is going to be very enjoyable.

With the hundreds of
variations that are possible with the man on top, you're never going to be
short of sexual excitement and inspiration.

If you want harder, raunchier
sex, then rear entry might just fit the bill. And if you want romance,
then side-by-side sex, facing each other, is definitely the sex position
for the moment.

I don't want to give the
impression that all sex needs to be thought about at length in advance:
clearly that's ridiculous!

If passion takes you, and you
have a strong urge to make love right now, right here (wherever that may
be!), then you probably don't need to give a lot of thought your choice of
sexual position - it'll just unfold naturally.

But if you're feeling romantic
and loving towards your partner, then sometimes a bit of thought can add
spice to the lovemaking.

For example, you might want to
make love in bed before you go to sleep, or you might want to have a
passionate sexual encounter in the afternoon, during which you can try
several different sexual positions.... Well, whatever your needs and
desires, this site is designed to give you lots of choice in the matter of
lovemaking positions.

But are there any other
advantages to trying different sexual positions? Yes, as you might expect
- and not just because this is a site entirely about that subject!

For one thing, a lot of
couples don't realize that if they experiment with different postures when
they make love, the angle of penetration can change dramatically, which in
turn can produce very different sensations.

If you're stuck in a rut, perhaps just using man on top sex 99% of the
time you make love, trying out something different may be a revelation for
you,
producing vastly different sensations both for the man and woman during
lovemaking.

Of course, it's all about the
angle of the man's erection, and the angle of the woman's vagina, and
perhaps also the depth of penetration.

How deep you go can be very
important for some people, but it's worth remembering that the most
sensitive part of woman's vagina is just a couple of inches inside on the
top surface as she lies on her back. (That's where the G spot is!)

Not every couple will get the same experience in the same sexual position
because not all erections poke out from the man's body at the same angle, and nor
do all vaginas have the same internal orientation.

That's perhaps the best
technical reason for experimenting with new and different sexual positions,
but the reward is the end result  greater and greater pleasure when you
find your best sex position.

Now, having said all of that,
it's also true that there are variations of technique which can make a
great deal of difference to your experience of making love.

For one thing, sex doesn't
have to be just about hard thrusting, no matter how rewarding a woman may
find this. In some sexual positions, it's possible to get a great deal of
enjoyment by simply rotating the pelvis in a circular movement; in others,
it's possible just to lie still and feel the energetic connection between
you, which in itself can be incredibly sexually arousing and fulfilling.

A lot of men, being so orgasm-oriented themselves, don't
realize that for
a woman it's not always necessary to reach orgasm during sex: that the
simple act of making such a deep physical connection
with a lover can be just as fulfilling and rewarding as orgasmic sex, and
indeed can meet all a woman's needs during sex on those occasions when she
doesn't want an orgasm.

That's a pretty good example
of why it's helpful from time to time to try and put yourself in your
partner's position and see what they might be wanting to get out of sex.

It's often said that men need
sex before they can get into contact with their feelings of love for their
partners, and while a lot of women see this as pressure for men to have
sex with them, it really is true.

By contrast, women often need
to feel loving towards their partner before they want sex.

If you understand this simple
difference between men and women, you can probably see why men so often
expect to have sex after an argument - a fact which can absolutely
astonish women, who can't conceive of making love until the emotional air
is cleared.

Another variation of sexual
technique is to enjoy different depths of thrusting. Hard, deep thrusting
will make most men reach orgasm and ejaculate very quickly.

That's particularly true where
the sexual position itself is very exciting  I'm thinking of rear entry
here.

But it's possible to last much
longer during sex if you, as the man, thrust gently and shallowly, perhaps
adding a deep thrust after every nine or 10 shallow thrusts.

You'll find this can
powerfully stimulate your partner's G spot, and give her great pleasure,
particularly if you're stimulating her clitoris with your finger at the
same time.

The point is that it's always worth trying something different: men tend
to have a rush towards orgasm, and derive great satisfaction from that,
it's true.
But this approach often doesn't suit their female partner, who may want a
slower, more romantic type of lovemaking with plenty of foreplay until
she's fully aroused.

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In the end, it's partly a
matter of self-discipline:
the discipline to know that when you do something different, even if it
takes you longer to get your orgasm, it will be more enjoyable when you
finally
get there, and both you and your partner will have a better sexual
experience.

You'll notice of course that all of the things I'm talking about
don't involve acrobatic sexual positions that stretch you to the limit. Sure,
it can be fun to try the more outrageous sexual positions that are
depicted on this website, but my point is that it isn't necessary.

You can
have
a huge amount of fun just by making small adjustments to the familiar
positions.

So to illustrate that, let's take the man on top
sexual position.

It's a very
exciting position for most men, because it allows deep penetration,
it gives them a feeling of dominance, and it permits very masculine
thrusting. (Men, I'm sure you know what I mean!)

But here's something you
may not know:
the muscular tension that it takes to hold yourself up on your arms and
possibly your legs generates a lot of tension in your body, around your
pelvis and buttocks
in particular, and this can make you ejaculate much faster.
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So it's possible that by
making even small changes to the sexual positions you use most often,
you'll be able to last much longer and perhaps even enjoy your partner's
orgasm whilst you're still inside her.

You might do that, for
example, by rolling partly onto your sides so that you're not supporting
your own weight, and thrusting more slowly whilst you stimulate your
partner's clitoris with your fingers.

As a man, once you've experienced the excitement of your partner reaching
orgasm whilst you're still making love to her, you'll probably want repeat
the experience over and over again.

Which therefore raises the
question of why man on top sex is so popular, when it can deprive both
partners of this added pleasure?

Part of the reason is
undoubtedly that man on top sexual positions fulfill very deep desires and
needs: the need of the man to feel dominant, to feel like he is "taking"
his partner, and the need of the woman to feel safe and secure, submissive
and "taken" by her man.

But I also think man on top
sex is so common simply because it's so easy to do.

It's the lovemaking position
in which most people first experience sexual intercourse; it's
comfortable, and of course you have great bodily contact and the
opportunity to look at your partner while you make love.....

But if man on top sex is
popular just because it happens to be easy and simple to enjoy, then I
think there's a pretty compelling case for getting out of this rut and
trying some different positions for intercourse.

Fortunately, there's plenty of those
to choose from on this website!

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But first, let's take a look at man on top
sexual positions.

As you almost certainly know,
unless you're a newbie at sex, the basic man on top sexual position is
with the woman lying on her back with her legs apart, flat on the bed,
while the man lies between them and supports his weight on his arms as he
penetrates her.

It's a great lovemaking
position: you can kiss, you can look at each other, your chests make
contact, and if the man arches his back he can kiss his partner's breasts
And even better, it has so many variations that it offers endless
possibilities for pleasure.

Most of variations consist of
the woman raising her legs; firstly having her knees up with her feet flat
on the bed; and then gradually bringing her knees back until they are on
her chest, with her man either between them or even lying on them.

And of course even that's not
the full story with this wonderful position for sex.

It's possible for the woman to
raise her legs vertically up in the air and place her feet or ankles on
the man's shoulders, while he kneels on the bed with his torso vertically
upright.

It's very exciting position
for couples to have sex  for one thing, he can watch himself penetrate
his partner and see his erect penis as it slides in and out between her
labia, which can be incredibly arousing.

But the one thing that man on
top sex tends not to produce is an orgasm for the woman. Now before we go
any further, it's very important to realize that female orgasm during
intercourse is an elusive goal.

Very few women reach orgasm
during intercourse, mostly I suspect, because they are not aroused enough
when the man enters the vagina, and also because most men simply can't
thrust for long enough to bring a woman to orgasm during intercourse.

A third reason, of course, is
that many women actually don't know that it's possible to reach orgasm
through G spot stimulation alone, or they haven't yet developed the
sensitivity in their G spot that will allow this to happen.

So one of the variations of
man on top sexual positions that you might want to consider is the coital alignment
technique or CAT.

It's a bit hard to understand
how it works, but basically it's about getting stimulation to the woman's
clitoris from the man's pubic region as you make love.

This means that the
man doesn't thrust, as he usually would in the man on top sexual position.
Instead, he penetrates his partner then shifts his body upwards, so that
as he rocks gently on her, and she responds to his movements by rocking in
the opposite direction, his pubic region will rhythmically press on her
clitoris, and eventually bring her to orgasm. You
can find
full instructions here, and good luck with it!

So how does the woman raising
her legs make a difference to this sexual position?

As I said before, the main
difference between sexual positions is the depth and angle of penetration,
although of course there are also big differences in how much bodily
contact you get.

When a woman raises her legs,
she dramatically alters the angle of her vagina, which profoundly changes
the sensations which both partners are getting during intercourse.

Anything that makes her vagina
tighter - which broadly speaking means any posture brings her legs closer
together - will produce much greater friction on the man's penis, which
can be delightful for him, unless for some reason his partner has some
vaginal dryness, in
which case he may experience some chafing to his penis.

Unfortunately, greater
friction will also make him come much faster, so sex tends to end a great
deal sooner when a woman brings her legs together!

Perhaps the most common and
popular variation of the man on top position is the one where the woman
puts her feet on the man's calves, with her legs and knees slightly
raised.

Another very popular variation
is for her to bring her legs together over the man's back as he makes love
to her - some men find this delightful, because it gives them a feeling of
being pulled deeper into their partner.

In general the higher a woman
brings her legs, the deeper the penetration: men with a large penis may
need to take care to avoid hitting their partner's cervix....

Many women
report that this is an unpleasant experience during sex, although others
say that if they are extremely aroused it can be highly pleasurable.

It's always very tempting for
a man to succumb to his sexual instincts  and, heaven knows, these do
take over all-too-easily during lovemaking.

That means deep thrusting,
hard and fast, and a rapid ejaculation unless the man has superb
self-control. (Not that there's anything wrong with that - unless of
course his partner wants sex to last longer....)

And so....when a woman brings
her legs back, allowing her partner deep access to her vagina through her
fully opened vulva, the temptation for him to enter, to thrust, and to
ejaculate can be almost irresistible.

That's why good communication
is essential during sex: unless a woman makes it perfectly clear what she
wants, she's not likely to get it. For a great sexual experience, women
need to be aware that they have to make it very clear to their partners
just what they want during lovemaking.

For some of the variations of
man on top sex, you do have to be rather flexible, and in the one where
the woman's legs go up on the man shoulders, it's also helpful if the man
has a long penis so that he can achieve effective penetration.

(By the way, on this website
there are plenty of pages devoted to subjects such as the best sex
positions for men with a small or large penis.)

But if you happen to be on the
shorter aside, there's no need to feel deprived: there are plenty of
variations where a short penis is a definite advantage  and that
definitely includes oral sex positions.

One of the things that makes
sex good for both partners is the woman's ability to become aroused and to
free herself from sexual inhibition. There's nothing as sexually exciting
for a man as a turned on woman - except possibly a turned on woman that
he's making love to.

Almost all men will have
experienced that extraordinary interaction of their own sexual arousal
with the arousal of their partner: it's not even clear how a man knows how
turned on his partner is, but one thing's sure  the more turned on his
partner becomes, the more turned on the man becomes.

Now, one of the factors that
determines how turned on a woman gets during sex is her ability to
overcome inhibitions from childhood such as "good girls don't do that kind
of thing" and the like.

To the extent that a woman can
open herself sexually and freely, both literally and figuratively free
herself and open herself up, the more she can enjoy sex and the more her
partner will then enjoy sex with her.

I think one way that you see
inhibitions during sex is in how willing a woman is to adopt a lovemaking
position where she literally opens her legs to her man's gaze: there's a
kind of protective urge in women to keep their genitals closed and
private, and only when she feels very trusting and safe will she be
willing to make herself vulnerable to the man in bed with her.

(And yes, of course there are
exceptions, such as sex workers: but I suspect very few sex workers really
feel intimate and emotionally open with their clients.)

If you're a woman who
constantly wants to make love in the safe, conventional, "good girl" sex
positions, then there's a lot of experimentation for you to enjoy in
throwing yourself into the downright sexuality of the rear entry position
or the feminine power of the woman on top position!

Hints for women

You may think that with
hundreds of generations of seduction skills behind them, women need no
hints on how to make sex good for a man!

But it's worth reiterating the
point that three things make sex good for a man: warmth, wetness, and
tightness..... And sure, there's the whole emotional side of it as well,
but just for the moment let's focus on the physical.

Warmth comes naturally - it's
a beautiful and exquisite sensation for a man when he enters you; wetness
may or may not come naturally, but if you're a experiencing vaginal
dryness don't hesitate to use artificial lube; and tightness  well, I
guess most women know how to tighten things up so that their man gets
greater feeling (or comes faster), but if you don't, then it's worth
researching Kegel exercises, which will allow you to squeeze your man's
erect penis when he makes love to you.

So if you ask a woman why
she likes sex with the man on top, she'll say:

the feeling of his weight on
top of her

the sense of being dominated
in a loving way

the thrill of the moment of
penetration

the ability to kiss during
lovemaking

the fact that he's fucking her
while he kisses or looks at her

the sexiness of their mutual
caresses during lovemaking

the ability of the woman to
bring her legs around her man and hold him tightly into her during the act
of love

the power that a woman has to
get a man aroused by moving her legs and altering sensations for him

the awe-inspiring sight of the
man in his male glory as he ejaculates inside her

the ease of moving from man on
top into the side-by-side position for moments of relaxation and pausing
the action during sex

the sheer number of variations
that man on top offers

the great intimacy that is
possible

And if you ask a man why he
likes man on top sex, he'll say:

the feeling of being dominant
& in charge

the ability to take great
pleasure and succumb to deep male sexual instincts

the sense of male sexual power
that comes from man on top sex

the ability to encounter the
depths of feminine power in his partner during sex in this position

the feeling of her breasts on
his chest as they hold each other close

the ability to grasp the woman
in his arms and ejaculate deep inside her

the pleasure of seeing &
kissing his partners' breasts

the thrill of the moment of
penetration, of "taking" his partner

the intimacy and love that he
feels

the sheer power of his orgasm

the fact that she can play
with his nipples as he comes, and perhaps also his testicles and anus,
both of which add immense power to his orgasm.

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As many men who have been
given SSRIs for the treatment of depression will know, delayed ejaculation is
a common side-effect of antidepressant prescription medications.

This
has led to their use as medication for a treatment to stop or prevent
premature ejaculation.

However, perhaps not unexpectedly, not one of them has been approved by the
FDA for use in this context. If prescribed to treat premature ejaculation
these drugs are being used "off label".

Attention has centered on Prozac, Zoloft, and Paxil.

Early investigations demonstrated that Paxil was the most effective drug at
controlling premature ejaculation, sometimes extending the interval between
penetration and ejaculation from one minute to ten.

However, the side effects can be troublesome, and the drug has to be taken in
a very unspontaneous way about four hours before intercourse. An alternative
is to take the drug daily so that spontaneous sex is still possible, but many
men would balk at the idea of taking a drug to treat depression on a regular
basis as a method of controlling premature ejaculation.

Even
more alarmingly it has been reported that after taking the drug for between
one and two weeks, men can then stop taking it on a daily basis and simply
take it four hours before intercourse is required.

This
raises the interesting question of what biochemical changes are taking place
in the brain, and what other effect these may be having on a man's long-term
welfare besides preventing premature ejaculation.

Intuitively it does seem strange when effective therapeutic treatments such as
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prescription medication to treat his condition, although one has to recognize
the power of the medical profession at work here.

Side effects are also a problem with SSRIs: these include
reduced libido, a dry mouth, anxiety, diarrhea, drowsiness and headache
amongst others.

If
you are following research in this field you may well have heard of
Dapoxetine, a drug similar to the SSRI which has been designed solely for the
treatment of premature ejaculation.

It
reaches its maximum concentration within an hour inside the body and is
removed from the body quite quickly which allows them to take it on demand
rather than every day: clearly this is preferable, but again there seems to me
to be a matter of principle at stake here, in that taking a prescription
medication for a treatment which is psychological in origin is rather dubious.

The
progress of Dapoxetine has been somewhat checkered in that it has been refused
a license by the FDA, although licensed by some European countries.

The
reasons for this are unclear although they may centre on the debate about
withdrawal from SSRIs and suicide that occurred in 2005 onwards.