The objective of this study is to research the consistency between answers given by teenagers and their parents regarding their time together, connectedness, rules and supervision.This was carried out with two separate questionnaires, a written one that was given to 13 – 14 year olds during class and an online questionnaire for their parents. The answers of the teenagers were matched with their corresponding parent, leaving a total of 113 pairs that could be matched, 79 teenager/mother pairs and 34 teenager/father pairs. Only the teenager/mother pairs were used for the purpose of this study.Like other similar studies, this one indicates some inconsistency between the teenagers‘ answers and their parents‘. The inconsistency was greater in subjective matters like questions about relationships, than with more tangible things like meal times.There is a significant correlation between answers regarding a) the time teenagers and parents spend together during week days, b) how often they share meals, c) conversations about personal matters, d) advice on matters other than home work, e) obeying rules, f) whether rules are in place on curfew and parent supervision. The correlation, however, was in no case high. Key words: shared time, teenager, parent, connectedness, rule, supervision.