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A teen site and community for teenage girlsSun, 02 Aug 2015 19:00:01 +0000en-UShourly1http://wordpress.org/?v=3.8.1Is Hayley Good At Flirting? She Takes Gurl’s Quiz To Find Out!http://www.gurl.com/videos/2013/05/08/whats-up-with-hayley/good-at-flirting-quiz/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=good-at-flirting-quiz
http://www.gurl.com/videos/2013/05/08/whats-up-with-hayley/good-at-flirting-quiz/#commentsWed, 08 May 2013 20:00:25 +0000http://www.gurl.com/?post_type=video&p=109828/We talk a lot about flirting here at Gurl, so when Hayley wanted to know if she’s a good at flirting, there was no better place to turn to for answers than Gurl’s “Are You A Good Flirt?” quiz. She’s ready to get real about her flirt style – and she’s sharing her answers with … Read More

We talk a lot about flirtinghere at Gurl, so when Hayley wanted to know if she’s a good at flirting, there was no better place to turn to for answers than Gurl’s “Are You A Good Flirt?” quiz. She’s ready to get real about her flirt style – and she’s sharing her answers with you!

What will Hayley’s quiz result reveal about her flirting skills? You have to watch the video now to find out if Hayley is a master flirt or if she might need a little bit of work to boost her flirting skills. Of course, be back here again tomorrow at 4 p.m. for another new episode of What’s Up With Hayley!

]]>http://www.gurl.com/videos/2013/05/08/whats-up-with-hayley/good-at-flirting-quiz/feed/0Are You Good At Playing Hard To Get?http://www.gurl.com/2013/01/16/playing-hard-to-get-quiz/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=playing-hard-to-get-quiz
http://www.gurl.com/2013/01/16/playing-hard-to-get-quiz/#commentsWed, 16 Jan 2013 23:00:45 +0000http://www.gurl.com/?p=94452Some info has surfaced recently that playing hard to get could actually work in some scenarios. Hmmmm… Do you know if you’re in fact playing hard to get (or not) with your crush? Our latest quiz will clue you on if you’ve nailed down the art of playing hard to get with that certain someone. … Read More

Some info has surfaced recently that playing hard to get could actually work in some scenarios. Hmmmm… Do you know if you’re in fact playing hard to get (or not) with your crush? Our latest quiz will clue you on if you’ve nailed down the art of playing hard to get with that certain someone.

Get started right here!

Do you think playing hard to get works? Have you ever had success playing hard to get? Has someone you liked ever played hard to get? Tell us in the comments!

]]>http://www.gurl.com/2013/01/16/playing-hard-to-get-quiz/feed/1This Guy Is Terrible At Flirting; Great At Making Songshttp://www.gurl.com/videos/2012/12/07/funny-videos/bad-flirt-song/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=bad-flirt-song
http://www.gurl.com/videos/2012/12/07/funny-videos/bad-flirt-song/#commentsFri, 07 Dec 2012 20:00:34 +0000http://www.gurl.com/?post_type=video&p=89445/We’ve all been in contact with at least one person who is truly terrible at flirting. I don’t mean like just a little awkward… I mean someone who makes you just a teensy bit uncomfortable. Well, this guy in this video is that person. But while he may be awful at flirting and getting a … Read More

]]>We’ve all been in contact with at least one person who is truly terrible at flirting. I don’t mean like just a little awkward… I mean someone who makes you just a teensy bit uncomfortable. Well, this guy in this video is that person. But while he may be awful at flirting and getting a girl’s attention, he is pretty great at creating a ridiculous, yet catchy, song. This video is super weird and super funny and I love it. Check it out for yourself:

]]>http://www.gurl.com/videos/2012/12/07/funny-videos/bad-flirt-song/feed/0Ask A Guy: What’s The Best Way To Flirt With A Guy?http://www.gurl.com/2012/06/28/how-to-flirt-with-a-guy/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=how-to-flirt-with-a-guy
http://www.gurl.com/2012/06/28/how-to-flirt-with-a-guy/#commentsThu, 28 Jun 2012 22:00:45 +0000http://www.gurl.com/?p=71021Dear Ethan, What’s the best way to flirt with a boy? There’s this guy I really like, and I want to show him through flirting. So what’s the best way to flirt? Biting your lip? Playfully punching him? Help! In what has proven to be one of the most popular “Ask A Guy” posts, I … Read More

What’s the best way to flirt with a boy? There’s this guy I really like, and I want to show him through flirting. So what’s the best way to flirt? Biting your lip? Playfully punching him? Help!

In what has proven to be one of the most popular “Ask A Guy” posts, I outlined how to tell if a guy likes you – and guess what? Those same techniques he uses to flirt with you will also work to grab his attention!

But obviously, guys are very different from ladies in a myriad of ways, so here are some more specific methods to send the right message to the dude of your dreams:

Get physical
Go ahead: touch! Physical contact is not only a sign that you’re interested — if he feels the same way, it’ll also shoot a mini jolt of romantic electricity through his body. So the next time he makes a funny joke, give him a little tap, squeeze, or even one of those playful punches of yours! (Just don’t knock him out.)

Engage
Ask questions; keep conversation flowing; suggest plans. The younger or less mature the guy, the more direct you might need to be (e.g. “Want to get coffee some time?”), as a lack of experience can translate to a lack of assertiveness. But a more self-assured dude who’s already into you will pick up on even the most subtle of prompts (e.g. “Cool sneakers.”) and flirt right back.

Maintain distance
However, it’s important not to get too aggressive. You need to periodically give your interactions some breathing room, and allow him to make some of the moves. As I’ve pointed out before, guys do value “the chase,” making a “hard-to-get” (though not “impossible-to-get”) girl that much more desirable.

I wouldn’t worry about vague signals such as “biting your lip,” which can be ignored — or worse, misinterpreted (“Did you burn your mouth?”). Eye contact and smiles are great to start with, but guys can be pretty thickheaded, often not as attuned to social or emotional cues as women are. Don’t hesitate to ramp up the obviousness if your crush doesn’t pick up on a simple visual hint!

]]>http://www.gurl.com/2012/06/28/how-to-flirt-with-a-guy/feed/8Debate Club: Is It Okay To Flirt With A Guy Who Has A Girlfriend?http://www.gurl.com/2012/03/22/is-flirting-cheating/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=is-flirting-cheating
http://www.gurl.com/2012/03/22/is-flirting-cheating/#commentsThu, 22 Mar 2012 17:00:09 +0000http://www.gurl.com/?p=57830Flirting with an attached dude: inappropriate or no big deal? Read More

Melanie Says: No Way Because Of Karma
Flirting with someone who is obviously attached is just not cool. It’s disrespectful to that person’s relationship, puts them in an awkward position (of not wanting to be a jerk to you, but also not wanting to screw up things with their girlfriend or boyfriend), and makes you look a bit desperate (I mean, can’t you find your own cuddle buddy?!). I know girls who do this all the time, and they wonder why people get annoyed at them. I think the answer is pretty obvious!

Jessica Says: It’s Usually Not A Big Deal
I don’t think innocent flirting is that serious, no matter if the dude is married or what. I mean, let’s face it, we all flirt! I’ll admit to flirting with guys who are in relationships, but it’s never been over-the-top or anything touchy-feely. However, I wouldn’t do it if I knew it was making my own boyfriend super uncomfortable, and I would never do it to my friends’ boyfriends. There’s definitely a fine line, and while I usually don’t think it’s serious, I’ll definitely admit that sometimes it’s wrong.

Julie Says: Go For It
Flirting is just that: flirting. A coy smile or a funny e-mail or even a little shoulder squeeze doesn’t make anyone a cheater. Being a cheater makes you a cheater. So, I feel totally fine being a little flirty with a guy in a relationship…just like I’d be totally fine with my guy flirting with someone. Relationships are about trust, not about avoiding eye contact with anyone who could possibly wink at you. I say flirt away. As long as your intentions are fine and you’re just having fun, it’s really no big deal.

]]>http://www.gurl.com/2012/03/22/is-flirting-cheating/feed/24My BF Is A Huge Flirt. How Do I Deal?http://www.gurl.com/2012/02/06/relationship-advice-boyfriend-flirting/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=relationship-advice-boyfriend-flirting
http://www.gurl.com/2012/02/06/relationship-advice-boyfriend-flirting/#commentsMon, 06 Feb 2012 19:00:20 +0000http://www.gurl.com/?p=50724What do you do about a boyfriend who can't stop flirting with other girls? Read More

Dear Heather, I’m dating this guy who really likes me and I really like him. He says things that give me butterflies and he goes to my school. But he flirts a lot. He called my friend hot and amazing, and it makes me worry if he is going to cheat on me. Especially when it comes to Facebook. He flirts with every girl in the world and that makes me really jealous! Please help, what should I do?

Here’s the tricky thing about flirting: it can seem so innocent to one person and so not innocent to another person. It can be really hard to reach a balance between what’s okay and what’s totally inappropriate, especially when you’re in a relationship. Most of the time, I would say that a little flirting is harmless and natural, and not something that you should be too stressed about. But if it’s over-the-top, happening all the time and making you feel super uncomfortable? You need to speak up.

I don’t know your BF, so I don’t really know exactly why he’s acting like this. If he just has a naturally flirty personality, then he might not even realize what he’s doing could be hurting you. But if he’s flirting with these girls for some other reason, like to get attention from them or to make you jealous, then that’s definitely not cool. Either way, you have a right to be a little jealous. Most people would be in your position.

Ugh, FB flirting is the worst | Source: Bokt

If this is totally bumming you out, and it sounds like it kind of is, just say something to him. At first, you can try doing it casually, maybe make a joke about it. If that doesn’t spark a conversation, then just tell him you don’t feel comfortable with him flirting with other girls. Explain that it makes you feel bad, and you’d appreciate if he had enough respect for you to not be that way with other girls, especially your BFFs (that’s just awkward!). Try to do this calmly without starting a fight. Like I said before, he might not even realize it’s bothering you. You can put it this way: ask him to think about how he wants you to act around other guys, and that’s the way he should be acting around other girls. Figure out what’s a good balance for you guys and work on it.

Keep in mind that a little flirting is normal for anyone – I’m sure you do it and sometimes don’t even realize it! If you know your BF really cares about you, then don’t stress over him calling another girl hot. Just make sure he doesn’t cross any lines and be honest with him. And if he refuses to stop? Maybe it’s time to move on.

take care, heather

What’s on your mind? Heather can help! Send her your question at heather@gurl.com

]]>http://www.gurl.com/2012/02/06/relationship-advice-boyfriend-flirting/feed/20Are You A Good Flirt?http://www.gurl.com/2011/11/16/are-you-a-good-flirt-quiz/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=are-you-a-good-flirt-quiz
http://www.gurl.com/2011/11/16/are-you-a-good-flirt-quiz/#commentsWed, 16 Nov 2011 23:00:03 +0000http://www.gurl.com/?p=38238Does flirting come naturally to you, or do you find yourself tripping over your own feet? Quiz it to find out if you're a good flirt, or if you could use a little work. Read More

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If you’re one of those gURLs who gets super awkward around her crush, don’t stress ? flirting doesn’t comes easily to everyone. Oh, sure, there are some gURLs who can flip their hair and giggle like a pro, but then there are those of us who trip over our own shoes. Thankfully? Some guys and gURLs actually prefer awkward flirting. Take this quiz to find out if you?re a master flirt or if you could use a little help in that department.

]]>http://www.gurl.com/2011/11/16/are-you-a-good-flirt-quiz/feed/5Are You a Flirt?http://www.gurl.com/2011/08/09/flirt/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=flirt
http://www.gurl.com/2011/08/09/flirt/#commentsTue, 09 Aug 2011 20:25:18 +0000http://www.gurl.com/?p=32092Are you a natural born flirt?