Detachment And Attachment

Ivan walked down the street and pondering. Recently, he argued with his friend and now nervous. It seemed to him that he had said some hurtful words, now one would be offended, and their relationship sours. But a friend and he is good – led himself so provocatively, raising his voice it was possible, however, remain silent and to respond calmly but did not have enough self-control. Thus, Mr. Smith suffered doubly – for themselves and for each other. He blamed himself and his. And yet it was unbearably aware of all this suffering, and ask a nonsensical question: why did it happen? After all, they might just fun to talk like before, and did not start this argument in vain But what if the question is not so meaningless? And the reason – in his character, as well as in the character of another? And now – not necessarily so upset because of what happened? But perhaps it is he attaches too much importance to this dispute? Maybe all of this trinkets, and one does not even think to be offended? And even if so – does it make sense now to suffer? Maybe it's better just to calm down, pull yourself together and then just look into this story? True, can start a new argument.

Each heat of the moment may say something extra, and they quarrel. But even if so, at least he tries. Importantly – be yourself, so to speak flawless. Then at least you can be sure that he tried to rectify the situation and made everything I could