Asking A Girl Out By Text

Go ahead, ask her out through text messages...

Are you considering asking a girl out by text, but your not sure exactly how to do it? If so this article is for you. I’m going to quickly run through and answer the most common questions that I get about how to as a girl out over text, and talk about how to ask a girl to go out with you without being awkward.

Many guys ask me, “is it bad to ask a girl out over text”… And a few years ago I would have told you that this was a big no-no.

I would’ve told you that you should man up and call her the old fashioned way. However, considering how popular texting has become, this is now the preffered way to ask a girl out.

So quit worrying about whether it’s okay to or not! It’s totally cool bro, I do it all the time…

Now that we’ve cleared that up let’s get into the Q and A portion of this post…

Q) How many texts should I send a girl before I ask her out?

A) There is no set number of texts that you need to send before you ask her out. However, you do want to get her out on a date with you as soon as possible so that things don’t cool off too much…

It’s a good idea to text her back soon after you meet her so that you can get her starting thinking about meeting up with you right away. I recommend trying to make plans during your first text exchange… If you already missed that opportunity then ask her out next time you text her.

Q) How should I phrase it when I ask her out in a text message?

A) It is important not to sound too formal anytime that you ask a chick out, but this is particularly true when you are asking her out in a text message. So DON’T say anything like “want to go on a date?” or “would you like to have dinner with me?” that’s corny! Instead make it fun and say something like, “happy hour on Friday… r u coming or what???”

Q) What should I text her if she says no or tells me that she has to get back to me?

A) If a girl tells you that she is busy or needs to check her schedule don’t make a big deal about it. There is still a good chance that you will be able to get her on a date with you if you play your cards right. Simply tell her that you hope she has fun with whatever else she is doing and that you hope that you can do it some other time. Then give her a while to get back to you. You will be surprised how effective playing it cool can be.