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With a Chinese horoscope defining me as a sheep and western zodiac sign backing it up with a similar animal- bull, I find much cohesion in it and to my heart’s content the personality traits match as well. But the prospect of choosing a partner, which already is scary for the indecisive bull, gets more detailed and time consuming yet interesting with the Chinese zodiac signs adding to the information of horoscope compatibility and the idea of a perfect to worst match and every level in between.

Chinese zodiac year starts in the name of an animal out of the twelve ones marked for each Chinese zodiac sign representative of a distinctive set of characteristics. However, these zodiac signs, ruled by lunar positions, collide at certain positions and that creates the combination of zodiac signs that either create a perfect blend of Chinese zodiac match or defines the signs that are more likely to have a rift among them if they come together.

The Chinese year does not start at the exact same dates every year, rather lies between January and February and is a time of great celebration in China and countries like Japan, Vietnam and Korea- considering it is the new lunar year and the beginning of spring when the nature is benign and so it is the time for new beginnings.

Why Do They Matter?

Over time and with the advancement in the field of astrological research, the results have been surprising and have become matters of firm beliefs for some when it comes to courtship and marriage. When choosing partners, many individuals are likely to go for zodiac matches and find it a matter of immense satisfaction if they find the one compatible to their own zodiac sign, who according to them would be the perfect one for them.

So the next time someone asks your birth year, it might not just be to calculate your age but to identify which animal you are according to the complex Chinese zodiac system – and who knows they might be considering you a prospective partner.

How Chinese Zodiac Helps in Choosing a Partner

Rat works well with dragon, tiger with dog, horse with sheep, and the best match for a monkey would be a snake (to name a few). And the left out signs shall not feel so left out since there’s a detailed listing for the best, good, average and poor matches to search through and of course volumes of various studies that back it.

Chinese horoscopes impact the choice of partners mainly for the fact that it defines your emotional needs and those of other signs thus making it easy for individuals to see for themselves how would their requirements meet in the major disciplines, what personality traits would be most suitable to them, what are the factors they can or cannot compromise on under any circumstances. Not that it means people would be entirely dependent on their partners for their happiness and well being, however to a great extent the personality traits and the blend of different characteristics form a combination that may or may not be suitable for a certain sign.

Astrologers insist on the fact that in order to ensure romantic harmony and a blissful relationship it is imperative to go through the zodiac matches and figure out the best ones for you. So the bull comes in full swing at this and finds that the personality traits that go well are of the zodiac signs doing well with humility, financial stability and strength- any horse galloping around the green pastures.

Ever wondered what keeps lovelorn damsels glued to their beaus? The questions are simple and answers may be simpler depending on the depth one is ready to go for in order to understand the magic of love. Do you possess what it takes to carry out long term relationships with ear wide grins in every selfie? Do you feel obliged to drag a relationship or is it because you can’t change partners (it would require you to get out of your comfort zone). Is online relationship taking its toll on your social life and you’re ambiguous about it being real love or just a fling that extended to years? Being a better person with relationships takes time and efforts to have that same intent gaze and to look into the same direction together. There would be roadblocks and obstacles, but strong relationships build bridges over them and reach out for one another no matter what.

Magic Trick# 1: Let them cast A Spell on You

Out of all the tips you have been searching for on how to make an impact on your partner, let them have an impact on you. Be their fan and the biggest one, let them be open to you and make you fall for them. This is an amazing idea for couples who are either dating virtually or into somehow sensitive relationships- when you tend to focus on the brighter side of your partner, there’s little room left to see their shortcomings- and when you do, it’s easy to accept them. Know them inside out and you’d see where they stand in your heart and mind.

Magic trick #2: Create Magic Together by Introducing Rituals

Building a life together is as amazing as it sounds, but it takes a lot of time. Bringing the spark in your relationship back to life is a great way to improve your relationship with your partner/ spouse.- Be it a date night every Friday or visiting the favorite vacation spot to relive the memories- make it happen and make it a habit. Creativity should never leave the field when it comes to initiating new activities to make them become a ritual in your lives for long.

Magic Trick #3: Communicate, happen what may!

No matter what calamity befalls your relationship, never cease to communicate. The major killer to a relationship, no matter how strong, is lack of communication. There would be times testing your patience and perseverance- go through it with holding one another’s hand and let them know you’re there for them. Instead of worsening fights, give yourself some space and to your partner as well- however, do not let go of communication at all.

Magic Trick #4: The ability to apologize is the best of superpowers!

A sincere apology is a heartfelt one and it definitely does not follow the repetition of hurtful behavior. Being a better lover/ spouse takes a lot of effort in the area of apology more than other relationships. It’s important to know what has hurt your partner and go ahead with a sincere apology in any form. Don’t let your ego spoil the wonderful relationship you share.

Magic Trick #5: Don’t forget the milestones you achieved together

Remember the first kiss? – The first love note? – The first date? Never in your wildest dreams make the mistake of forgetting the first time they blew love on you and you froze into the beautiful being you are today. Recalling the initial period of your relationship (the honeymoon period) helps develop the relationship in a positive manner. Also it helps couples to look at things in a similar direction as they did when planning out the course of their life together- from curtains to pets, everything.

Improve your relationship by availing the package of magic tricks and of course, be cautious, love needs careful handling. However, it is the solution to many of the relationships- so just increase the dose of care and love mixed with respect and empathy to become a better person for your better half.