For now we are here for the long haul. I would like to be in the US but it would be very hard to do.

Now he has a job in offenlicherdienst for the state of Baden Wurrtemburg so we are better of here.

To move to the US he would need work lined up in advance and an employer willing to cover the move. Otherwise we would be coming with no income, no health insurance, and just hope with no resources to fall back on.