OH. GIRL. you tore him a new one. He was just mad you tore him a new one, so he needed to argue about history so he could somehow think he was right and sooth his burns, even though you showed his ass. I hate people like that, jk let me not hate, I don't care for people like that.

OH. GIRL. you tore him a new one. He was just mad you tore him a new one, so he needed to argue about history so he could somehow think he was right and sooth his burns, even though you showed his ass. I hate people like that, jk let me not hate, I don't care for people like that.

Him calling me last night insured that I didn't sleep more than 5 hours. I woke up this morning to find that he sent me a gchat invite(I removed him), and an email on a rarely used inbox and I'm not sure if it was sent before or after he called me last night.

In his email he said he wants to talk to me to just make sure I'm alright. That he's been trying to reach me but can't since I removed and blocked him on everything.(edit:all my email in the last few days went straight to my trash.) I have every reason not to talk to him but he wants to make sure that if there is anything he can do to help or encourage me he can do it. He knows he messed up repeatedly and he's still sorry for that. He wants me to have a happy life. He only wants to help. He's begging me to contact him.

He's still sorry about hurting me he says. He wasn't sorry when he chose her over me. How can he even say that to me. As if I wasn't there. He doesn't care about me. He turned his back on me and now he cares about how I feel and how I'm doing. He didn't care last week. I hate these games. All they're doing is hurting me. Am I not hurting enough. I don't want this.

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I just found an email he sent this morning. We need to talk if I'm asking for so much money, and he wouldn't be able to send me it all one time.

Originally Posted by soleilmoncur

Not too lomg ago, you said that he said that y'all have nothing to talk about. Then you said he emailed you saying he wanted to send you the money he owes you. Now he wants you to talk to him in order to get the money and he can't send it all in one time. So that means he will want you to continue talking to him because he's giving you money.

Soleil, he's playing games. He's trying to control and manipulate you because he believes that you're vulnerable and dependent. But you can choose to not be. If he was really sorry, he would have aoologized and just sent you the money. But did he do that? No! Because he's a douche. A lying cheating controlling manipulative douche. Actions speak louder than words.

You take that money and you will be indebted to him. You will "owe" him. Because he is selfish. He doesn't really gaf about what you need. He just relishes in your needyness because he has some internal issues.

Don't take the money if you want to heal and move forward. It will show him and yourself that you don't need no bs and can be independent. You can do bad (and good) all by yourself. That's my opinion. And if you're really in a bind, is there anyone else that's close to you that can help? Family?

I just found an email he sent this morning. We need to talk if I'm asking for so much money, and he wouldn't be able to send me it all one time.

Originally Posted by soleilmoncur

Not too lomg ago, you said that he said that y'all have nothing to talk about. Then you said he emailed you saying he wanted to send you the money he owes you. Now he wants you to talk to him in order to get the money and he can't send it all in one time. So that means he will want you to continue talking to him because he's giving you money.

Soleil, he's playing games. He's trying to control and manipulate you because he believes that you're vulnerable and dependent. But you can choose to not be. If he was really sorry, he would have aoologized and just sent you the money. But did he do that? No! Because he's a douche. A lying cheating controlling manipulative douche. Actions speak louder than words.

You take that money and you will be indebted to him. You will "owe" him. Because he is selfish. He doesn't really gaf about what you need. He just relishes in your needyness because he has some internal issues.

Don't take the money if you want to heal and move forward. It will show him and yourself that you don't need no bs and can be independent. You can do bad (and good) all by yourself. That's my opinion. And if you're really in a bind, is there anyone else that's close to you that can help? Family?

Listen to MIA's bad girls. That song puts me in a crunk bad a$$ mood.

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Originally Posted by CocoT

I'm in france now because my family didn't care enough about me. They haven't sent me money basically the whole time I was here. This is my last resort. But I'm gonna hold out as long as I can. If not, then I will email. I really need the money.

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I just found an email he sent this morning. We need to talk if I'm asking for so much money, and he wouldn't be able to send me it all one time.

Originally Posted by soleilmoncur

Not too lomg ago, you said that he said that y'all have nothing to talk about. Then you said he emailed you saying he wanted to send you the money he owes you. Now he wants you to talk to him in order to get the money and he can't send it all in one time. So that means he will want you to continue talking to him because he's giving you money.

Soleil, he's playing games. He's trying to control and manipulate you because he believes that you're vulnerable and dependent. But you can choose to not be. If he was really sorry, he would have aoologized and just sent you the money. But did he do that? No! Because he's a douche. A lying cheating controlling manipulative douche. Actions speak louder than words.

You take that money and you will be indebted to him. You will "owe" him. Because he is selfish. He doesn't really gaf about what you need. He just relishes in your needyness because he has some internal issues.

Don't take the money if you want to heal and move forward. It will show him and yourself that you don't need no bs and can be independent. You can do bad (and good) all by yourself. That's my opinion. And if you're really in a bind, is there anyone else that's close to you that can help? Family?

Listen to MIA's bad girls. That song puts me in a crunk bad a$$ mood.

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Originally Posted by CocoT

I'm in france now because my family didn't care enough about me. They haven't sent me money basically the whole time I was here. This is my last resort. But I'm gonna hold out as long as I can. If not, then I will email. I really need the money.

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Originally Posted by soleilmoncur

When is the last time you spoke to your family?

Great spirits have always encountered violent opposition from mediocre minds

About every 2 weeks or so. We aren't close but we talk more now that I live outside of home. Believe me, I can't ask them for money. I put myself through school and everytime I move around its on my own. They aren't supportive. Hence why I had such a strong dependent relationship with my ex. He gave me money and support.

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Solei that dude is cray. He wants you to hear his voice so he can see if you will break down. If u can just respond thru email to get your money do that. But as far as talking to him, I wouldn't do it. Esp if you KNOW ur still healing and speaking will mess up your progress.

He still wants you to want him and having his voice in your ear will trigger feelings youre trying to forget. And since you Are healing and you ONLY need that money the tables will be turned and he will feel like he's getting used. Lol Ni****s think they slick.

On another note.... When I said I had forgot about the dude I was talking to I hadn't really forgot lol. But since I could tell he was on to the next (or whatever) I just stopped texting him etc. I dont have time for that. I'm too sexy to worry about a dude lol. So I've already learned my lesson about random azz dudes. Not happening again

Solie get that paper even if you have to talk to him to get. We arent providing for you so we cant say to not talk to him if he owe you the money and you need it. Just be smart and not fall into his web of games.

Btw you should be proud that you are independent eventhough the support of others can be useful sometimes. Are you working?

Solie get that paper even if you have to talk to him to get. We arent providing for you so we cant say to not talk to him if he owe you the money and you need it. Just be smart and not fall into his web of games.

Btw you should be proud that you are independent eventhough the support of others can be useful sometimes. Are you working?

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Originally Posted by dee-nature

I'm an au pair so I live with a family and I get a small but reasonable stipend. It's enough to get by but because of the trip I have a LARGE overdraft and an enormous phone bill since I cried to anyone who would listen while I was in the US.

I don't want to talk to him because I still have feelings for him and I know I'm going to get upset and he's not going to care and I'm just going to hurt. I'm just getting by now and this is going to push me back to where I started. I just started to eat and sleep again.

I'm going to have to figure this out by Friday when he gets paid. If I don't have anything by that afternoon I will answer his call or email.

It's disgusting but he can only find time to call during the week when he has work. On the weekend when he had "free" time I didn't hear crap from him. Just thinking about it hurts. I just wanted to move on!

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