Topic: To Marry or Not to Marry?Posted By: SteppeNomad
Subject: To Marry or Not to Marry?
Date Posted: 29 October 2010 at 2:49am

nvm

-------------Ya Allah, Bismillah, AllahuAkbar.

Replies: Posted By: Gibbs
Date Posted: 29 October 2010 at 9:11am

?

Posted By: b.rad02
Date Posted: 03 November 2010 at 12:27pm

a fair argument could be made for either case. id say religion is not a good reason. to express a commitment is. but there is never a rush in my opinion

Posted By: jwb81859
Date Posted: 05 November 2010 at 11:15am

Marriage is a union of a man and a women. It is where the 2 share a mutual life. It is a union that God has put together. Man is the one that made a ceremony out of it. Adam and Eve did not have a ceremony. God joined them together and they were 1

Posted By: jaysen
Date Posted: 06 November 2010 at 9:00am

In a marriage, firstly you need to have RESPONSIBILITY.

Posted By: Joseph
Date Posted: 10 November 2010 at 1:51am

It is necessary but you need to must have responsibility and commitment. :)

I think marriage is a wonderful thing, as long as each of you totally love each other. Not get married to just get married that most of the times will not last.

Posted By: Bakerthomas
Date Posted: 10 November 2010 at 2:07pm

I don't think it should matter what religon the couple practice if they love each other thats what matters even married couples. Everyone is allowed to have their own beliefes even married couples.

Posted By: julianq
Date Posted: 18 November 2010 at 12:31pm

I've been married for 4 years ant the life of marriage is wonderful, you do not need to face problems by yourself. You can always be happy with your soul mates.

Posted By: bianca117
Date Posted: 18 November 2010 at 7:21pm

Being married myself, I can say that marriage requires work towards compromise. A great deal of thought should go into a decision to marry as it is a sacred bond. Regardless of religious creed, as long as pure and true love is mixed with a willingness to compromise, marriage can be one of the most beautiful, rewarding unions granted to human beings.

Posted By: rudianto
Date Posted: 20 November 2010 at 4:15am

in a marriage what you have to do is accepting your partner's flaws

Posted By: addsites
Date Posted: 20 November 2010 at 8:27am

Mary

Children  (if it Please God)  Constant companion, (& friend in old age) who will feel interested in one,  object to be beloved & played with.  better than a dog anyhow.  Home, & someone to take care of house  Charms of music & female chit-chat.  These things good for one's health.  Forced to visit & receive relations but terrible loss of time. 

W My God, it is intolerable to think of spending ones whole life, like a neuter bee, working, working, & nothing after all.  No, no won't do.  Imagine living all one's day solitarily in smoky dirty London House.  Only picture to yourself a nice soft wife on a sofa with good fire, & books & music perhaps  Compare this vision with the dingy reality of Grt. Marlbro' St.

Not Mary

No children, (no second life), no one to care for one in old age. What is the use of working 'in' without sympathy from near & dear friendswho are near & dear friends to the old, except relatives

Freedom to go where one liked  choice of Society & little of it.  Conversation of clever men at clubs  Not forced to visit relatives, & to bend in every trifle.  to have the expense & anxiety of children  perhaps quarelling  Loss of time.  cannot read in the Evenings  fatness & idleness  Anxiety & responsibility  less money for books &c  if many children forced to gain one's bread.  (But then it is very bad for ones health to work too much)

Posted By: ATVCamper
Date Posted: 21 November 2010 at 6:54am

Marriage is not something one should enter into lightly. It takes a strong commitment, love and respect for your partner. Everyday one must work on strengthening the relationship, but the rewards for your commitment and respect are endless and in the end you not only gain a spouse, you gain a best friend for life.

Posted By: jeanbaker
Date Posted: 22 November 2010 at 10:24pm

Many great ideas have been shared... Marriage is one of the most wonderful experiences yet at the same time can be the most challenging. It is what you make of it. Both need to have good communication and have a desire to work at the marriage.

The best advice on marriage is that if you choose to marry, work on your marriage every day!

Not marrying can make it much easier in relationship to leave when things get tough. It truly depends on the individual and what one believes in.

Best of luck in your decision!

Posted By: iwtmmo
Date Posted: 26 November 2010 at 2:45am

Originally posted by jaysen

In a marriage, firstly you need to have RESPONSIBILITY.

I agree with you.

The best advice on marriage is that if you choose to marry, work on your marriage every day!

Posted By: sugiono
Date Posted: 26 November 2010 at 10:47pm

marry or not to marry.if I get that option I will choose to get marry.