Ive been best friends with this girl since we were 5 she moved from Austin to Murfreesboro Tennessee. she's been there for about 9 years maybe I'm not sure. Anyway we were really close for a long time but then she got a bunch of new friends and stopped calling me and stuff. We would talk literally once every few months and we used to talk every single day. She got a new bf named Andrew and then it's like all of a sudden we went from talking every few months to not at all. I went up there for thanksgiving because her family had been inviting mine for a few years now. When i got there it was as if i didn't exist. She invited her bf over and then we barely talked for a whole week. He was always there and they would leave and i would be stuck at home with her parents. I didn't like being the third wheel so i wouldn't go cuz the one time i did I was left out of everything. When they broke up we were close again for like a week.
My point is i haven't felt like she cared about me that much since she moved up there. Its always been about her i cnt remember the last time she asked me about me or asked how i was doing or about anything in my life yet i feel like im always the one trying to keep the relationship going but im tired of feeling like im doing everything i can for her and me to stay friends but i don't get it back. Like i feel like no matter what i do its unimportant to her. I know she cares about me cuz shes not the type of person to just stop caring sly together but i feel like she doesn't even have time for me anymore and ow shes getting married to this kid and idk if i even want to go to the wedding. Number one i don't have the money, 2 i don't wanna be third wheel again like last time when i went up there, 3 it seems like a waste of my time. I know we've known each other since kinder but am i wrong if i don't go?

Personally, I wouldn't go. It sounds like you are going to be feeling upset and hurt the whole time. And I doubt you guys would be getting much time to hang out.
If you guys aren't close anymore it just doesn't seem worth the time or effort.

Personally, I wouldn't go. It sounds like you are going to be feeling upset and hurt the whole time. And I doubt you guys would be getting much time to hang out.
If you guys aren't close anymore it just doesn't seem worth the time or effort.

Exacty how i feel. I just don't think its worth me feeling non existent