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<!--fonto:Century Gothic--><span style="font-family:Century Gothic"><!--/fonto--><!--sizeo:2--><span style="font-size:10pt;line-height:100%"><!--/sizeo-->"And which driver is not tempted, merely by the power of his engine, to wipe out the vermin of the street, pedestrians, children and cyclists?" --Theodor Adorno<!--sizec--></span><!--/sizec--><!--fontc--></span><!--/fontc-->

i'm going to stand up for Kurt, the 14 year old.what on earth makes anyone else's experiences more valid than his? (age is FAR less important than what most have been brainwashed to believe.)

the fact remains: life is as miserable as you make it.if all hell is breaking out on you, if your life is going to hell in a handbasket, what's stopping you from writing a poem (or whatever) about it? five minutes away from your pc or your cellular phone or your friends to write a poem will not kill you. conflict is pregnant change. if i spent as much time as i wanted bemoaning the emo drama of my life, i'd never accomplish a productive thing evar.one's creativity cannot be lost. it can be overshadowed by preoccupations and drama, but never lost. it's merely a matter of putting things in perspective.

give Kurt a break, it's not like he's the only one who's been 14 in his life.

if you feel you have "lost" your creativity, i suggest you take pashy's advice----find a new medium, branch out to something you can do, don't dwell in the fecal matter of life (it is an endless stream, believe me) but carry on! there are jillions of avenues for creative expression.

and just for a reference point, as a psychotherapist when people tell me how much their life sucks i challenge it. if i were to just sit passively and say: "oh dear, tell me how much your life sucks" am i doing them any favours? no, that's simply reinforcing their helplessness and hopelessness.is it SO wrong to challenge thoughts of undoing?