Need to vent

My husband's parents just moved in with us about a month ago but about 2 werks ago my mother in law started sleeping at my sisters in law house to watch her lo and my father in law is staying at our home... Every morning i cook breakfast for my husband
Today dh (dear husband) (dear husband) call me mad asking how come i didnt make breakfast for his dad so i told him that i didnt know that he wanted eggs since he usually eats cereal in the morning then he started to tell me that his dad did complain about me not making breakfast for him

None of them have ever asked me to make breakfast for him plus when i get out of the room to make breakfast for dh (dear husband) (dear husband) his dad is already eating cereal or he's in the room

You do need to ask a question and I also think there might be context missing.
Based on what you stated and my limited knowledge:
You and DH (dear husband) need to talk about boundaries and expectations within your home, including him saying "my spouse is not a mind reading servant".
DH (dear husband) then needs to present the rules and protocols to your parents.

Example: My husband is the primary cook. My parents know that he doesn't like having other people in the kitchen while he is cooking. My parents stay out of the way for the most part and politely ask for things as visitors. If my parents treated my husband like that, they know they would not be welcome back in our home. He is not a mind reader and he is not a servant.

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