This could make all the difference in your social life – and how you communicate.

Ask yourself these questions. Take a moment to really think how you’d answer them:

Do you know how to talk to large groups so that your ideas are heard, your influence is felt, and your power and authority is understood and accepted?

Do you want to be funnier and develop your sense of humor so that people think of you as fun to be around?

Do you feel like you know how conversations really work from the inside out? Do you understand how people are motivated and why they say the things they do?

Do you know how to know how to write emails more effectively to get women interested when you’re dating online?

Do you know how to use personality reading techniques to get faster understanding of people and build rapport in minutes instead of HOURS?

Do you know which topics that are guaranteed to start a good, long conversation?

Do you know how to be memorable to anyone you meet within the first 30 seconds?

These are the essential skills that some guys got naturally, and maybe you once had and lost.

Or maybe you never had them at all.

“Imagine If You Could Talk To Any Woman – or ANYBODY – And Know That You Could Get Them Talking, Laughing, and Liking You in Just a Few Minutes…”

The most amazing realization of the last 20 years is that conversation and social skills can be built up from scratch. You don’t have to be a “natural” to be good in conversation and persuasion.

And in fact, it’s better if you’re , because you will understand the principles that “naturals” take for granted. AND you’ll be able to improve your skills beyond even their ability.

When I was a kid growing up in upstate New York, I remember that I felt very awkward in a lot of conversations with people. I was usually afraid of:

Saying something dumb and having everyone think I was an idiot…

Saying something wrong and having everyone think I was clueless…

Not knowing what to say when someone was insulting me or giving me a hard time…

Feeling weird, embarrassed, and inferior when I was talking in a group of people…

Or sometimes I’d just be afraid that everyone in my group would just forget me or push me into the background.

And a lot of the time, that really did happen. I had certain friends that would grab the biggest share of the conversation and then proceed to hog it all when they could. And I would feel like I was just another spectator.

After a while, though, I learned some techniques that helped me build up my ability to talk with people, and handle any situation they threw at me. Fast-forward a few years and you would see a very different guy than the one who couldn’t even get a word in on the side without looking like a complete dork.

MISTAKE 1: Not seeing or noticing the right “vibe” in the conversation.

I’m REALLY guilty of this one.

I once walked up to a group of people in the break room at work that looked really serious. As I got some water from the cooler I said, “Hey, you guys need to lighten up. Who died?” And one of them said, “Uh, my brother.”

Ooooof. I’m cringing now as I type this. That was a very embarrassing moment.

And the fact is that I could have saved myself the pain of that experience by just by noticing that they all did look serious, and it was probably for a reason. It was not a time to be clever and funny.

There’s a lot of times that we overlook these signals and cues, especially when we’re making conversation with women. Many times, a guy will not calibrate or adjust his approach to a woman when he’s talking to her. As a result she brushes him off.

It’s not hard to avoid these mistakes in your conversations. Simply listening for how a woman chooses certain words will usually help you figure out what you should be talking about with her.

If she’s asking you questions about you, that’s not just a sign of interest. Usually it’s also an indication that she needs more facts and information about you to help develop her TRUST.

A lot of guys deflect a woman’s questions, or challenge her too much – thinking that she’s just “testing” him. As a result, they miss out on a connection with her that she was actually HELPING him to make.

The next mistake guys make is…

MISTAKE 2: Holding back on revealing your personality.

This might seem a little obvious, but when you hide your personality from a woman, she can sense that you’re not being open. In fact, the ability to project your personality from the inside out is a very attractive thing.

I’ve gotten in conversations with women numerous times, talking about the “dorky” or even “geeky” things that I enjoy, and they’re still interested because of the energy that I’m putting out. (I sometimes try to talk about a computer game with a woman as a challenge to myself to see if I can still keep her interest.)

The interesting thing about people that are holding themselves back is that they appear to be playing the social game of life with “scared money.” This means that just like a gambler at the poker table, they can’t afford to be playing the game as if every dollar was their last.

That’s a sure-fire recipe for disaster. Ask anyone who knows how to play poker about this. If you’re scared to lose, you’ll be an easy target for everyone else who can sense it from your hesitant manner.

When you hesitate to show yourself to others, they think you’re scared about life and don’t have the reserves to put yourself out there.

“Hmmm, this guy is closed off. Guarded. He must be sensitive or insecure about something.”

And that energy pushes people away. We want people in our lives that have a natural giving energy. We’re drawn to it.

Which is why you must not be afraid to reveal your personality to other people. I’m not talking about “opening your robe” and showing it all. You need to use discretion to decide what will be best for you to reveal.

Certain facts will attract women (and other people in general) to you, and certain other facts will push them away. The key is in knowing which is which.

Another mistake most guys make is…

MISTAKE 3: Trying too hard to be noticed or “important” in the conversation.

It’s been said that we are often more scared of losing something than we are of not getting something. This is VERY true when it comes to attention.

In our desperate attempts to not be “forgotten” and pushed to the back of a conversation, we sometimes say anything to make sure that we’re not left out.

It’s a painfulfeeling when you realize that other people are not paying attention to you. Feeling ignored just sucks, no matter how you look at it.

So it’s no surprise that many guys will go to extreme lengths to avoid this happening to them.

Some of the ways that guys try too hard are:

Bragging

Talking out of turn, or interrupting

Being too obnoxious or abrasive

Using humor inappropriately – such as telling a dirty joke

It’s essential that you don’t fall victim to this urge to jump around and wave your hands – saying “Look at me! Look at me!” the way we did when we were kids. You might not be doing that with your hands, but we often do it with the tiny body language signals and our choice of words – and probably without realizing it.

Attention must be shared in conversation. And when it’s appropriate, there are strategies to regain the attention and the focus within a group.

The next mistake is…

MISTAKE 4: Being sarcastic and negative.

This one is a killer.

It doesn’t just kill the vibe – it kills any chance of a healthy conversation or relationship between you and a group.

Very often, we fall back on a negative or cynical sense of humor to cover up our sore spots or areas of insecurity. It’s easy to do, and yes, I used to do this ALL the time.

Sarcasm can be funny – in small amounts. The problem is that sly comments with a little bit of scorn make us look very petty. And even though we all want to get “in” with a group of people, a bad way to do this is by insulting or taking sides with someone just to get the group’s approval.

All of these strategies seem to work in the short term, but they really just paint us into a box as being a bit angry and insecure.

Negativity is so tempting to fall into, because it’s all around us. It’s in the headlines, and the top news stories, and your neighbor’s complaining. It’s in the long traffic delays and the bad weather.

The people that bitch and moan are the people we avoid like the plague after a while because they just drag us down.

But the people we know that don’t indulge our self-pity or complaints, the people that elevate our spirits and give us hope are the ones we come back to again and again…

In order to keep your conversation alive with the kind of energy that people want to come back to again and again, you must keep yourself from becoming too negative or sarcastic.

And finally, the fifth mistake guys make in conversation all the time is…

MISTAKE 5: Not having the ability to steer the conversation to a meaningful goal…

This is the probably the most important of the five errors that guys make, and it usually comes up in something that I call “Power Conversations.”

A Power Conversation is when you are talking to someone, and whether or not you realize it, there is something important that will come out of it. There’s something at stake to be gained or lost in the conversation.

Maybe it’s a job offer. Maybe it’s a date with an attractive woman. Maybe it’s even something as small as your pride on the line when you make a bet with your friend as to which Die Hard movie has the most explosions.

When you have a conversation like this, it’s no longer about just shooting the breeze. Now you have something to be won or lost, which means it changes the whole context of things.

I’ll give you a tip here that deals with this particular mistake…

I often get guys asking me “How long should I talk to a woman? Won’t I lose her interest after a while?” Let me tell you something VERY important:

Conversations are never “long” or “short;” they’re either interesting … or boring.

And you can control that.

It’s never about wearing out your welcome when you’re keeping a person’s interest. I’ve gladly run late for meetings or missed appointments because I was talking to someone about something so cool that I didn’t want to leave.

I’m sure you’ve experienced this as well.

You’re so into this heart-to-heart talk, mostly because the other person seems to genuinely hear you, not just waiting for their turn to talk. They seem thrilled to know more about you, and as a result you feel a connection that is so REAL.

THAT, my friend, is the goal you’re trying to go after in conversations with people. You’re trying to create a gabfest that no one in their right mind would want to walk away from.

Can you imagine the magnetic quality this will have for you with women?

With everyone you come in contact with?

These are the unforgettable people in our lives, the ones we remember talking to long after their gone, and we long to talk to them again.

Conversation & Persuasion Skills Will Improve Your Quality of Life and Your Successes on Every Level…

Of all the skills that guys want to develop with women, this one is the easiest to work on because of the sheer volume of information available to help you.

Some of the benefits you’ll enjoy when you have better conversational skills are:

Better relationships with your family

Faster attraction and intimacy with women

More deeper and meaningful communication

Increased sense of independence and personal power

More effective social skills and influence

Better relationships and results at work

The fact is, you CANNOT afford to neglect your conversation and communication skills. It is the single most important determinant of your future success in life in almost every area.

Yes, even more than your grades in school and the number of degrees you get in college. NOTHING determines your success in life more than applied social communications skills.

A Quick Exercise to Determine How Socially Skilled You Feel

Read these questions, and take a second to reflect on your own experience. See how many of them you relate to.

When you’re in a conversation, do you ever feel like you’re being poked fun at – and the second you try to point out what they’re doing, they manage to “get nice” again and avoid any blame? Do you have a method to avoid this kind of treatment?

When you’re talking to a woman, do you ever find yourself in a situation where you know you’ve met a high-quality woman and you don’t want to mess it up, but you can’t find the words to form a real connection between you and her? And the more you try, the more you sense she starts to pull away, as if you’re just coming at it from the wrong direction?

You’re in an intense conversation with your boss over a project, and you know you’re right. Then he pulls out his Wild Card excuse on you and says you should just do what he says to avoid making waves. Do you give in and go along, or do you know how to turn him around and get him to see that your wayis the right way?

You’re talking to your mom, and you’re doing your best to pay attention and appear sincerely interested. After just ten seconds of talking, your mind starts to wander, and instantly she says: “You’re not listening to me!” What were the secret signals you gave off that told her you weren’t paying attention?

You’re in a group of friendsand you crack a joke that’s a little edgy. A few people laugh, but most of them appear uncomfortable. Do you let the moment pass and try to explain it to them later one-on-one, or is there something you can say right now that would be smooth things over and fix the situation?

Your girlfriend takes offense to something you saidand blows up like a grenade. Should you A) push back with just as much yelling and anger to put her in her place, or B) let her get her way now, and then hope she relaxes later and comes around? Obviously neither one is the optimum strategy, but do you know how to read her and recognize the conflict so that you can avoid it in the first place…?

All of these situations require slightly different conversation skills to manage, yet most of us just use the same old reactions we’ve used since we were kids, and we only manage to succeed the way we wanted in a few of these situations instead of almost every time.

We discover that we really don’t have the level of control and persuasive influence in conversations that we want.

After all, women grew up talking to each other and feeling out the social “vibe,” so they have an edge. Guys rarely get this kind of experience until later in life, and then we’re much less prepared to use it effectively.

But there are ways to learn this vital skill.

I was one of those kids who played in his room a lot, watched a lot of TV, and generally had no clue about what was actually happening in social situations.

I remember a particular time when I was out with a group of my friends, and there were a couple of girls in the group with us. I remember how crappy it felt to be forced to the “background” of the conversation because I really had no clue as to what to say to the girls without feeling like a loser in front of the other guys.

But I also saw that the guys I was with didn’t really know, either. They were talking about sports and video games, and the girls were talking about friends and the drama that was going on between them. I could see that there was a major difference in what guys and girls found interesting to talk about, but I couldn’t figure out HOW to talk about this stuff.

Fast forward a few years, and Carlos grew up. (Well, a little bit.)

But I still didn’t have the kind of social awareness that I wanted. It wasn’t until I took a few personality tests, and then started reading a TON of books on the topic that I found I had a lot of theory, but nothing really practical for understanding these social situations.

Still, I kept reading, and discovered that there were some basics to understanding how to start and keep a social conversation going, and that it could be learned. I made a lot of notes on what worked, what didn’t, and which skills were helpful.

Imagine How You’ll Feel When You Can :· Keep any conversation going without effort, and without all those “routines” and memorized scripts…

· Talk to anyone, anywhere, anytime – and make a friend, a business contact, or a possible date…

· Know exactly how to calibrate to a woman’s state…

· Handle any guy that tries to tool you or put you down in a conversation…

· Handle any coworker that gives you a hard time…

· De-fuse anyone in your family that tries to emotionally manipulate you with one sentence…

Imagine: You’ve got an ally in this battle. An arsenal of weapons that you could use at any time to get you in or out of any conversation.

I’ve exhausted all my best stuff to put together this definitive 14 CD set (yes that’s fourteen audio compact discs) that will put you light years ahead of anyone out there.

Don’t freak out over the size of this program. It’s got a lot of information, but it’s easy to jump in and just learn the parts you need. You can pick and choose, and take your time with it. Once you get started, it’s hard to stop learning all the great techniques and tips I’ve got in here.

Take a look at the concepts and practical skills you’re going to learn and be able to use in just a few hours with this program:

DISC 1: Concepts – Inner Game

The most important advantage in conversation – and how you can seize it to have the upper hand…

Your single biggest obstacle in conversation – and how you can overcome it and be free of this “anchor” that’s dragging you down…

What you MUST know about using pre-rehearsed “scripts” and “patterns” to assist you with your ability in conversation with women…

The #1 rule of conversation – and why you must obey it if you ever want to succeed in developing rapport and trust in your social circle…

The difference between good and bad conversations – and how you stay out of the “bad”ones once and for all…

How to destroy effective communication – and chances are you are already making these mistakes…!

The complete Architecture and Structure of conversations so that you can know how to talk to anyone in the right way…

The most important taks you have to perform in a conversation so that the other person pays attention – and you get the results you want…

The secret factor you must manage when you’re in a conversation with someone so that they trust you and relate to you – almost as if they’ve known you forever…

The first big question of all communication that you must answer – or the other person will lose their interest in a matter of minutes…

The 5 Positive Traits you need for flexibility in conversation so that you are not caught off guard and can “flow” with the talk…

The key to developing massive confidence in conversation so that the other people respect and listen to you…

The “That’s Great” strategy for re-framing and keeping a positive attitude – for REAL – and being much more optimistic no matter what life throws at you…

The one reason most guys cannot stay positive and – and you can change this in just 10 minutes…!

The 8 Golden Rules of Communication

The fastest method to make a new friend – in just minutes…

3 critical skills for opening conversations the right way so that you can look your best and impress anyone…

How to use your “emergency chute” in a conversation to manage anxiety, stay relaxed, and not lose your confidence…

The question you must answer in every communication of persuasion to be a success…

How to ask any woman out so she will not only WANT to go out with you, SHE will make it easy for you and put up ZERO resistance…

How to talk to your boss to get what you want – from a raise, to a better project, to a promotion…

Examples of woman’s tests in conversation – and how most guys fail them miserably…

How a woman uses “absolutes” and the mistake you must avoid making when she does this to you…

Anatomy of an Alpha Conversation with a woman – dissecting a conversation so you know what works and what doesn’t…

How to use the power of “rhetoric” to get a discount in sales situations…

The single factor most important to your financial success in life, and how to use it…

How to take control of words instead of letting them control you…

The Alpha Man Conversation Strategy that any man can put into practice right away for more powerful and effective conversation with anyone, anywhere…

Examples of powerful communication words you should use to maximize your impact in conversation and trigger the subconscious emotions that motivate us…

And much more…

DISC 2: STT – Core Skills & Tactics 1

The cycle of self-confidence and how it works in communication to either help you or cripple your conversations…

How to “manage results” to win in any interaction with someone…

How to demonstrate powerful Charisma in communication so that your personality stands out and sticks in their mind…

The 5 essential qualities of charisma you need to have…

The most important ingredient for communicating with Charisma with other people…

What all men and women want to get from conversations that you must provide to stick out in their minds…

The 6 Secret Traits of a good conversationalist that you must use in every exchange…

8 Power People skills – these are essential if you’re going to have any lasting success in life…

Understanding people through Meyers-Briggs and character typing – and know what their personality is like so that you can build faster trust & rapport…

Understanding the 4 basic personality types in depth so that you can know their secret motivations and know how to talk to them in their own emotional “language…”

The number one skill for distinguishing yourself as an Alpha Leader – and how you use this skill in any conversation to stay

“untouchable”…

The number one indicator of longevity in relationships – and how you can use this to make the kind of relationship you desire…

The 4 Hidden Communication Zones – and why you must excel in ALL of them if you’re going to persuade and influence others…

The 14 Human motivators in conversation – these are the secret “hot buttons” we all have that you must understand and use, or others will use yours…!

Using the power of a “Unique Experience” for a powerful conversation that the other person will never forget…

How to set yourself apart from others and be different – in the right way – and be memorable…

The types of people that will stifle your creative identity – and how to identify them before they impact your life…

How to remove anxiety from conversations and relax – creating a bubble of comfortable space that releases your thoughts to be creative and fun – and make fun conversations…

How to Fall into a “Safe Zone” in all conversations so that you remain cool and collected – no matter what is going on around you…

The 10 Minute Process to control your thinking and stop all the crazy static in your head…

How to use storytelling effectively to communicate your personality and your accomplishments to others…

How to distribute your attention in groups conversations so that no one is neglected and everyone is paying attention to you…

The Single Biggest mistake most guys make in storytelling – and how you can avoid this fatal error…

How people criticize you through “dissociation” – and get away with it every time without you noticing it – but never again…

The “Spotlight Question” that throws your credibility into doubt in a conversation, and how you can duck this fatal shotgun blast attack…

The Cheap Shot technique – the Conversational grenade men and women use to get you emotional and irrational in a conversation…

Learn my specific Delay Tacticsto use to give you time to think – you’ll never have that experience of walking away and suddenly coming up with what you SHOULD have said… Now you’ll have it when you need it…

Question the Question Strategyto stay slippery and avoid anyone from making you look foolish…

The hypothetical insult for lowering anyone’s status or handling those aggressive guys in bars that try to make you look bad…

The complimentary insult attack– how people make you look dumb and get away with it…

Learn how to use the Distorted Listening defensefor any verbal assault thrown at you – this one works so well, it’s the one strategy I teach every one of my individual clients…

The “I Know Better” Tactic for keeping yourself out of the conversational traps that the clever guys will use on you…

How people manipulate and train you to respond the way they want, and how you can see them coming a mile away…

The Art of the Flawed Comparison Ploy that gets you to change your mind – and how to spot it and destroy it…

The two primary forms of questioning and how to use them when talking in social situations wherever you go for maximum influence and power…

The 3 Things you should tease a woman about – and what you should NEVER tease her about…

Creating an “arsenal” of humor so that you never have to find yourself “dry” and unable to come up with the right thing to say at the right time…

Using the role-reversal – the sure-fire method to get a woman to laugh AND build massive attraction with her…

The 9 Don’ts of humor – the rules of how and what you should never joke about in public…

Power Conversations – the strategies for handling conversations that matter to you – and when they come along, you will be prepared to make the most of them…

The 3 ways to handle intense conversations to avoid embarrassment, keep people from feeling awkward, and keep you on top…

The top reasons why most people don’t get the results they want from power conversations…

The 3 “patterns” for managing emotionally intense communication – a blueprint for handling those conversations with strong emotions and potential for hurt feelings and anger…

The 3 signals to watch for in emotional conversations to read the situation and know what’s coming…

The 3 forms of avoidance in conversations – how these take a powerful conversation and turn it into a let-down – or leave you walking away empty handed…

The 3 forms of attack in conversations – how people will try to game you and blitz you with hidden – and sometimes savage – tactics…

Determining your Power Conversation Style – how to leverage your strengths to figure your most comfortable and effective route to resolving power conversations…

How to create “safe” conversations where everyone feels open and relaxed instead of closed-off and defensive…

How to handle apologies to get to solutions with people – and never feel guilted out of what you want…

The 2-step process for re-connecting with a woman when things go bad on you and you lose that connection with her…

How to handle arguments with women so that you don’t get beaten down, and you don’t have to be humiliated in front of others. Yes, you can ‘wear the pants’ and not have to worry about confrontations with her…

How to manage your internal power conversations – the inner dialogue that you’re having with yourself that will determine your ultimate successes and failures…

The 3 most common inner stories we tell ourselves that create limiting beliefs for us that stop us from reaching our goals – or going after what we want…

The 3 steps to handling the 2 primary reactions from emotional people – never get caught off-guard by someone else’s emotional explosion again…

What you must understand about arguments that will help you resolve them in record time and with happy endings…

The 3 most common Power conversations we get into and how to recognize them and handle them when they come…

Rules about Power conversations every man must know to ensure that he is empowered when the time comes…

The first thing you must avoid in power conversations that will sink your ship if you’re not careful…

The 4 ways we translate our feelings in conversations and how you can avoid miscommunicating yourself in tense situations…

The 3 Essential “Identities” we bring to our power conversations and what we need to understand about each to leverage our strengths and influence with maximum power…

How to redirect the conversation to topics you want to talk about – without being a “conversation hog”…

My “Random Reading Exercise”: How to prepare your voice and mindset to go out and make electrical conversations…

How to use your televisionas a learning lab for social skills development…

How to use my Conversational Bridging techniqueto keep conversation moving forward and never run out of things to talk about…

The Endless Supply of Conversations Exercise– Get over your fears of talking to strangers and practice your conversation skills…

The Mirror Exercise for developing emotional projection skills that will create radical attraction in women…

SPECIAL BONUS: Example REAL LIVE phone conversation– I’ve got a recording of me talking with a woman I haven’t even met – ratcheting up the attraction with her for you to hear how it’s done – with an analysis and breakdown of the techniques I used in the conversation…

My rules and advice for building a social network in no time flat…

And much more…

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And you’ll be able to get started RIGHT NOW! You don’t have to wait for the CDs to arrive because you’ll be getting my exclusive pre-coaching bonus as soon as you place your order.

That’s right. You’re going to get over 270 minutes of my best material from the Advanced Coaching on Conversational Techniques. That’s over 4 and a half hours of training you can start with right NOW.

I’m including the following bonus audio segments on talking with women: