My boyf told me about a 1-night stand he had. I said I’d forgive him but it’s niggling away @ me. What shd I do?

It’s a big thing to get over so it’s no surprise it’s niggling away at you. You’ve been ­terribly hurt by what he did, so it’s not just a question of clicking your fingers and expecting everything to be fine.

He needs to build your trust back up again if you’re going to stay together and you need to understand why he cheated.

I think it is possible to move on after infidelity but it can take a lot of work ­from both sides.