No, women do not like mystery. It makes us over-analyze and become insecure which means the stalker types will stalk you harder and the ones with more self esteem will lose interest, a lose-lose proposition either way. At any rate you don't want a woman over-analyzing you because she will come up with something much, much worse that whatever mystery you're hiding, honesty is better.

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They are answering correctly if i was after a relationship, but not for a fling

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in that case you don't want her to like you,
you want her to fancy you.
so you want her to find you sexy.
in which case, the whining ''what did i doooooooo?'' tone is even worse. it's not sexy. it's desperate.

Hey good advice people! She wrote back saying she has been really busy with work n uni n she asked about the dream so i took your advice and said that i dreamed i was in the woods being chased by owls who wanted my soul and i escaped to a lodge where she was but then an owl broke in! I sound sexy now i think? Or strange? But i think she likes strange things so its good