Aquarius Men

Hot-hearted man who likes to do thing own his way. He can suddenly decide to do something without thinking of its outcome. He is the type of guy with an inside energizes, so if you fall in love with this type of guy be “patient”, even if you have to follow him a bit. His creative mind could create fantastic idea any time.

If you do not understand or a not follow him, you won’t be with him for long. A man in this Zodiac will less likely to have a pale skin, and if he has a scar, it would be on his face or on his head. He moves very fast and very energetic, and he has a very self-confident in himself. He is not the type to sit down and feel sorry or regret anything for long, especially with “Love”.

He loves justice. He dares to show his opinion or even argue about certain subject even he knows it might bring him problems. He is a very straight forward type of guy.He hardly lies except if he thinks it is necessary and he is not a good liar anyway. He will not lie to you about serious matter, but if he lies he will lay only a small little thing. He is gifted with the ability to be a very social person. He could talk even about subject that he has no knowledge of.

He interests only at present and look at the world positively. Many times he feels hurt because of reality, but he will not run away and he will overcome that difficulty. Even he is a high and self-confident type and centers his own thought as a focus, but at the same time he is a kind, cute and polite guy. He certainly is not a mean person.

He likes to help people who are in troubles even he is not asked to. He is the type who feels sorry if you remember bad things he said to you that he had already forgotten, but you did not. Believe him that he is very sorry and give him another chance.Once he decides to do something, he will put all his mind and energy in it either in his “Work”, or “Love”.

He is the type who gambles anything in the casino, so do not even take him there. He does not like pessimistic, low energy, and depress person, especially no brain. Strangely he likes to overpower this type of people to assure that he is more superior.He likes to be the first person to do something. You can see sparkling in his eyes, once he meets a new target or new lover.

Once he is in love, he will act as if he never has love like this before. This minute he could be real sugar sweet, and later he could also be an icy cold, but do not blame him for that will only chase him away. He could fall in love again with another girl and act again like he never has this kind of love before. He could really love someone, but not a heart-broken type for he thinks love is “excitement” and “Love goes on”.

If you date this kind of guy, do not or avoid showing your face to him with face pack, face mask, always be presentable, nice and cute. If he is quiet then it not means because he is shy, but instead he is only quietly thinking. If you have a chance to ask his X-girlfriend, she will tell you that he is not a shy or quiet type. If he is really and truly in love with you, he will never lie to you at all.

How do you know if he loves you, bet on your faith! Love him and treat him steadily and do not try to find anything to argue with him, he will be with you for sure. If you are his lover or girlfriend and need to tell him something, go and say it out loud and straight forward because he hate long boring story. He hates to play games, chasing for love or being chased, so let him call you first. He likes a confident woman who also a good follower.

If he gets mad at you, let him be for only a short time he will be normal again. You have to like and be able to get along with his friends, but he does not have to do so with all your friends.Don’t ever think you could make him jealous by flirting with other man; he will just leave instead of making a scene because he is a confident man and has to be the first in everything.

woow its excellent information about my Star and i proud be aqu, i love my star because i have single face and i don’t want to hurt anyone, but why im still single :(, & i think i am happy too i don’t why? 🙂

I love aqua men and women, I’m a Virgo. They are optimistic, spontaneous and great in bed. They pull me out of my negativity and make me sit up and wake up. I find them inspiring..ps I can never hold a relationship for too long with them 😦

I met this aquarius man when he was 28 at work when I first moved to this new city. I was only 24 when i met him. We started to hangout for lunch after a few days and in the end he asked me out for party on friday night. We got pretty drunk and kissed and started to make out in the staircases. He took me and we had a great night together. Later on we started to see each other more and more often spent the whole day in the office together working together, and even colleagues can sense the chemistry between us. However, after a few months I realized he has a gf back home in his home country and they were getting engaged. I was upset but we never stopped seeing each other and i started to live in his apartment every weekend. Sometimes I know he was talking to his gf when he sat next to me but he kept saying he had feelings for me. although he was attracted to me, the feelings were not deep ones and we were working together and he can’t imagine him dating his colleague. I was teasing him once in a while in the office to heat things up and we sometimes went home together to spend the rest of the night at his place and went to work together for another week or so. then he went for business trips for a long time and he was not behaving. He told me everything about another ex gf he had in another city here before and he slept with her when he was travelling. I was really upset and hadn’t talked to him for a long time after this. He told me he wanted to talk to someone about the mess in his life but I was not ready to listen to his story about his fiancee. So he flew his ex gf from another city here to live with him and sleep with him while he was lying about this to me and his gf back home. He told me he thought the girl (who was actually living in his apartment at that time) was dumb and maybe he shouldn’t let her stay in his apartment while he actually was living with her. He tried to cover all the lies until I showed up at his apartment catching the two coming back together… I told him that I hated him for using me and he was upset and also mad that i found out. In the end he flew this girl back to her city but tried to get his gf in his home country back.

We had several arguments in the offices before i started to ignore him in the office everyday and then he was quite busy traveling around the country for business.

A few days ago, he sat back to his original seat and asked me if we could still be friends. I was being cold to him in the beginning until he followed me the whole lunch time trying to talk to me and ask if i can still be friend with him. When I asked why, he looked really sincere and said “I never hated you and i hope you never really did hate me. I had been thinking a lot about us when I was away and I realize I still want to be friend with you. I never hated you and I like you. There is no point hating each other although I know I have done some really horrible things and hurt you so badly but I never did it on purpose…” I didn’t say much that day but we started to talk again once in a while in the office and he was really nice to help me with my work when I had problems – everything felt like back to the old days… except I know he has to get engaged to the girl in his home country. He’s been getting a lot of pressure from his family and his mother and he said he is getting old going to be 29 and his life is over. Maybe the girl is the one for him but no matter what he has to change and bring honor to the family without letting his mum down again. He can’t let the girl’s family found out what happened here and he has no choice but to marry that girl…

I was so hurt that day but last friday we went out for dinner for the first time at his favorite place where he used to go by himself alone when he was sad. We talked a lot about work and life and stuff but I was drunk because we drank too much sake and I started to tear because of him getting engaged soon. I feel so upset that his gf is coming to visit him next week for his birthday and I feel i really lost him although he still wants to be my friend after I have also done so many hurtful things to him.

I don’t know what he really wants now – why does he still want me to be his friend after we have seen each other’s worst part? Is he still attracted to me? What about his gf or his fiancee? The girl is moving to this city this summer and I think that is when I will have to leave this city probably, to avoid getting hurt more by him and her.

I don’t know what to do now and I don’t know how to go back to the old times when we chilled out at his apartment doing nothing or having bets and playing random sex games and going to the little bars nearby afterwards. I miss everything I had done with him and I miss all the good old times. But he has no choice now but to change. I know he loves her but if he loves her enough, why did he cheat for so many times and why did he still want to be friend with me. Did he still have feelings for me ? I really don’t know and this is driving me crazy at home, at work, at anywhere – I can’t get him out of my head and I cried every night again after last week’s things. I want him back but I know I shouldn’t do this because he is getting engaged soon… and this hurts so much.

Ive had the very same thing happen to me. He wants to be “Friends” to justify that he is not cheating on his soon to be wife. That way he can tell her..she is just a friend. He cheats on his soon to be wife because he does not love her. She or her family have something that benefits him greatly. He also does not love you..bottom line your his sex toy and you will never been any but. People in love have no desire for anyone but the person they are in love with ~ no excuses. Aqua Men have a way with words and they will drive you crazy. I do not agree with the original post. They do nothing but lie lie lie and hurt people all the time..they are very selfish.

they’re cold, individualistic, bad, they don’t help but they want to be helped. I helped one aqua who I fell in love when he was in Brazil, helped a lot giving everything he needs food, house without him paying. I went last year to Berlin and he just wrote he wanted to help me, but didn’t made ANY effort to it. I would not chasing him, and I was in an unknown country. I’m a Libra. Uh, i hate aquarians after this shit crossed my life. I regret having put this rotten man inside my house, and in my bed. but what goes around comes around.

Not all are the same. My boyfriend is an Aquarius. He does expect things, but he offers 10 times more in return. Most of the times, he doesn’t even want to be given things, just see the other party try. He is very family oriented and he daydreams a lot. He is cold to people sometimes, but to me he’s always sweet and warm. Also, very, VERY romantic. He loves to surprise others. He is crazy but so am I. I am also a Libra. The problem with Aquarius boys in general is that they are very easy to influence. If an Aquarius boy is in love with you, he will do whatever you want him to do as long as you show some love back. And I’ve noticed this not only with him, but also with other Aquarius boys as well. Don’t judge a certain sign just by ONE person. There are some other things that affect personality like how one is raised, their culture, their religion etc.

Don’t Judge some with one way and don’t think that if some one did something bad with them whole world will do the same with you, im agree with “Alexandra Cîrstocea” That (There are some other things that affect personality like how one is raised, their culture, their religion etc.).. so please don’t think im aqua therefore im saying this, sorry

I agree Aquarius men are cruel. My boyfriend is. When he criticizes me it would really hurt my feelings though he will saying sorry in the end. What I like about him is, he is really caring, treats me to whatever I want. He treats me like a princess. I’m a Pisces btw. We often had differences but we get along well.

Why doesn’t anyone speak of Aquarius males and Capricorn females? Like I can’t find anything on the topic but here and everywhere else I get bad signs. I think I’ve fallen in love with this Cap female and I actually feel like she’s my natural soulmate, it’s like we’re the exact same person but she’s ten times more patient haha. Her moon sign is Libra and mine is Pisces as well as her Venus is Aquarius and I believe my Venus is still Pisces (I usually detest Pisces women). I don’t know really what to do because she’s in a relationship of a month and a half but I feel like I can be patient enough. By the way THIS DOES NOT DESCRIBE MY LOVE LIFE VERY MUCH AT ALL. Thanks, peace.

I hear ya. I am a capricorn girl smitten by an aquarius male, my venus is also in aquarius and I think we think alike lol. I am usually overthinking and trying to look out for his well being and he is doing the same for mine and that sometimes holds us back from asking certain things of each other and also believing certain things of each other. we both write peotry and I feel like I get it right away, what he is trying to convey, without having to put much mental thought to it. We both can spend hours and hours in contemplative thinking mode and need tons of space, but still some kind of connection with each other. it is very strange, and hard to explain. If aquarius and capricorn are not compatible then maybe they are if the venus is also in aquarius, maybe that changes thing on the compatibility scale. I can’t get enough of my aqua man!

I am capricorn with descending virgo sign. My love is aquarius, and yes we understand that we need space. I can be vengeful though, and get real cold and distant when I am not getting what I wany. So my aquarius thinks I am leaving him or cheating. He does need attention but only when he wants it.

.i have been in relationship with two taurus girls , first was six years ago wasn’t much of relationship ,but one things there despite all uniqueness and shortcomings aquarians are honest well most off and straightforward and they follow Quakers exhortation they stick to one point but will change their stand but you have to show the logic , they are open book and you open up honestly and tell them what you want they wont haunt you , its the indifference , mystery and unfaithfulness that angers . They are mostly lost in imbroglio and soul searching themselves which makes them lonely .
Taurus as you rightfully defend yourself without revealing your guard .lemme tell you first girl i had relationship or it wasn’t much of relationship was mess , she lived in her own fantasy world ,lived in books which makes you yearn for someone imaginery , and started lying lies that can be caught easily . a total drama queen whose adrenaline was so high ,forgot to take life as it came or things slowly wanted everything all answers without giving time so quickly as if she had a target of ten relationships to complete . When you have something on Mind you have to be honest something a taurean can’t.
Second Girl the same after 6 Years exactly same things happened Came running after me when i pushed her cried , fickle minded went after another guy again came back like a bitch with a tongue out .
I’ve got another taurean is after me simply , same drama, this girl went a bit ahead messaging everyday like crazy for sex and everything .
So taureans for me are emotional wreck , Like monkeys they are wont let go of one branch till they get hold of another and also never stay on one branch the moment they are in sight of better prospect would leave , Like flowing water .they’ll make guys fucking emotional fool and leave indiferently .From ” i wont tolerate a scratch on your face to who are you ”. Better they stay single having occasional sex when they want to rather than wrecking a guys emotional and mental peace .
i Would say aquarians and taureans can never go together , aquarians need for independence and lonelyness can never be respected by taurean .

I have to add – I AM A TAURUS FEMALE who has crossed paths with AQUARIUS MALES whom have mostly deemed to be pitiful suitors.

HOWEVER, I think I may have finally met ONE AQUARIUS MALE, who seems to be perfect, and is to the ‘Tee’ of this description. Is it possible there may actually be a chance for a Taurus Female and Aquarius Male to be great lovers???? Thoughts? Experiences Anyone??? … Or, sadly, No??

I have had quite the counter experience with two “anxious” aquarius guys. we’re talking serious anxiety, family problems, deep insecurities (suicidal, for one). My thoughts: #boyneedstogrowup … did them a favor by saying #itsmenotyou , or to one (who deserved it) “i have no interest in seeing you at all”, only to leave me alone. Very kind, but somewhat a tough love.

I have 2 best friends in my life, women, both who are Aquarius Sun, both born January 21, 1987 (same month, date and year). I met them at different, individual, points in my life – one during childhood/high school, the other during adult/post-college time. Both friends deal with extreme anxiety. The friend from childhood was diagnosed as “bi-polar” and moved across the country after her IVY League graduation, as well grew up under great pressure from her parents. My other Aquarius friend, currently deals with daily levels – high and low – of anxiety. She has no personality disorder (Although i’m sure ppl who don’t know her well enough would say she is overtly opinionated and might, lol, but she definitely does not and it is all smart/wise advice). She as well deals with great pressures from her parents.

Anyways, one of the Aquarius men I mentioned before this post – an old college friend that dated briefly last year (note: he is not the suicidal-lying Aquarius, nor the “ONE AQUARIUS MALE, who seems to be perfect” for me as referenced above), he was always just “a friend” to me (TAURUS female) and never let his intimate feelings/intentions be known to me until he suddenly came into my life after 3 years later. He told me that most of his friends are Taurus’s. I related as my two best/life-long friends are Aquarius’s. As well, he suffers from daily anxiety.

I don’t know, it’s strange to me … you see, from the friend stand point, I can handle the Aquarius anxious personality. As with my best friends (female Aquarians). And I support them through it, motivate them to maintain strong positive mind-set. But after reflecting on dating 3 different Aquarius men, I have experienced great levels of their “anxiety”, or personalities, or pure insecurities while dating Me, may it be. When dating them, I saw the Aquarius male’s anxiety – if it was that – as a weakness. Maybe it is my Taurus perspective, what i seek in a partner – that he has to be strong. I do not mean physically strong, (that is to say, he’s not scrawny), but he has to be mentally strong and positive.

I think it’s so strange how Taurus and Aquarius can maintain life-long friendships, but not an intimate soul-mate level relationship, be it at the least a compatible zodiac match for dating.

I commented on your other post but not sure if it went through. I found Taurus women to be overly confident that they can win over an Aquarius male. that’s a turn-off for me. I also didn’t like how they treated others and as humanitarians, that’s important for us Aquarians. tone down the pushiness, bring some romance into the relationship and understand our need to be alone and you’ll do just fine. also, don’t ignore our intellectual interests. that’s a huge no-no

my fiancé is a tarius and i love her so much. do we clash a lot? HELL YES but if you surely love someone you would and will do anything in your power to fix it no matter the situation unless you deem it to be unbearable like cheating and not trusting. Compromise is what makes things work give and take so love him how you know how to love and i can guarantee he will do the same. i had to so trust me it’ll take time but you’ll get thru

I love my Aquarius husband, he always treats me with love and respect and I love making him happy too, I’m a Libra and he treats me like I was his first girlfriend, when we met we were both 38, and divorced from other people, first thing I noticed the night i met him was that I felt 14, he made me feel like a kid and he says that he did too. He blames himself for all of his past relationship problems but I can’t see it, I really can’t, with me he’s always made everything special. For all of you Aquarius guys who think you’re a bad date, LOL for a Libra woman. you will be her very best, no one loves an Aquarius like we do. Know all of those things everyone complains about that you do? Well we love those things…You heal us

🙂 he is lucky to have you for sure. “Libra woman. you will be her very best, no one loves an Aquarius like we do. Know all of those things everyone complains about that you do? Well we love those things…You heal us” the best thing i have ever read in any horoscope page. 🙂

But I am Capricorn and crazy over my aquarius. He is needy, and I want more security. But I am sooo stuck in and on him. I sacrifice alot for him. I am not as dreamy as he is I look at consequences before acting most of the time but at my age 30+ with teen kids, I need my aquarian because he makes me feel alive, youthful and innocent as heavenly angels in comparing.

on point sounds like ma Aquarius lover , wen he sees me is like im da most beautiful weed plant on this earth he ever seen haha not being cakey but foreal tho hes coooool tho real chil i like em like that i could be ma self w em Sagittarius & Aquarius .
are PEEERRFEEECT foreachother! :* ❤

I agree there’s a lot to be done on this article as per grammatical errors. However, it’s still a concise piece loaded with facts. I am an aquarian married to a virgoan for 11 years. She’s my perfect soulmate. I am edgy, eccentric and aloof sometimes, virgo women are patient and accommodating . This trait smoothens off my rough edges and allows me to be myself. Independent

I’m with an Aquarius and he always lies and breaks promises like its nothing which makes arguments ALL the time everyday with out fail its unreal also someone will tell him something like his ex said I told her to stay away from him I don’t want you taking him away from me and he believed it when she told him and when I found out I went nutty I cant believe someone who says they love me believes his ex over me but with everything else that i have wrote here I beginning to think does he really love me or am I just here till he finds someone else. And I’m a Libra apparently we are a good match I’m starting to think not.

Right on! I am a 48 Year old Aries male. Engaged three times and married the 3rd, I am an extremely passionate lover. Many many Friends and well liked. In all of my relationships when deeply hurt, was able to walk away colder than the Arctic region! I particularly love the line how she has to like my friends and me not hers. So True! Keep up the great work!

this is pretty accurate but to say that aquarius dont lie! They are good at it. I have many friends aquarius and they all do lie. they also trust to much and gets involve in trouble. they like to show off and loves nice sports car. They like games and sports and dont get attach.to love.

this is inaccurate but I admit I will lie to people I don’t like or want to go away. but if I truly love someone, I see lies as self-destructive to the long-term relationship that I see no logic in it. hope this helps

I am a aquarius guy. i have a dream girl inside of my heart, and i found someone who is exactly the same as i always dream about. Now guess what she is an aquarius girl.. iiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii can’ttttttttttt explain how muchhhhhhhhhh i loveeeeeee her. every time i found myself in her activities. she do the same thing as i do and even she also talks like me. whenever i see her innocent mysterious face, it make me feel that im lost in the galaxy where im flying and onlyyyy she is my oxygen <3… when her birthday was coming this year(2012) i had decided that i gotta give her something. i wasn't sure what can i give her, though i could give her a expensive gift, however i wanted to give her something that is my own creation where i can use my enthusiasm to expose how much i love her. therefore, i drawn a picture of her as far as i know it is my best drawing ever. i gave it to her and she was shocked to saw it. i sent that picture via my fake facebook account which i opened only for her. from then she is still wondering who am i !!confusion??!! lol … although i have everything that a girl normally want from a boy, but i didn't tell her anything about me. still she don't know who am i because there is a reason im still not exposing myself to her 😦 the reason is kinda different 😦 . i always wish if we could stay together. but im not a selfish person i will do that thing where everyone will be happy not only me and she 😦 . my heart always dream about her but my brain says don't do this if you are controlling yourself, is ONLY for her as well as for her FAMILY 😦 . still often i send message in her facebook, once in a blue moon she response to my message but im happyyy at least she response to my message it doesn't matter how she response it hahalol……… awwwww i dont know why i fear to share my feelings with anybody…… here nobody knows me so i shared my feelings here hehee 😀 ……. before i go .. i wanna say something, though it's little bit hard for me to speak these worlds .. A*a*na i love you sooooooo muchhh.. :')

MINES IS AN ASS HOLE VERY UNSINSIVITE TO MY FEELING ITS LIKE ALL HE WANTS IS FOR R TO SHUT UP AND LEAVE HIM ALONE AND IT BREAKS MY HEART BECAUSE I LOVE MY HUSBAND BUT DONT KNOW HOW MUCH LONGER I WILL ALLOW THIS FROM AN CANCER WOMEN

this is the Aquarius’s dark side. I’ve been there myself and it really sucks. I really suggest therapy because it could really benefit an Aquarius guy to see their destructive side from a logical point of view. it also helped that I gained a lot of humility

hallow, hi
I am a libra woman dating an aquarius man. its true love at the biginning was soooo real that we both felt we are the best match in the whole world. what is said about the aquarius is true, very confidence and full of energy, he always sticks to what he believes, that failed me whenever i wanted him to do it my way. My impatient attitudes always became the source of arguments that some time i felt braking up with him is the best solution,but still there is the other side that keeps us close together as if we never argued, when along with him especially in bed he does what i love and expect and i find myself very creative which is the most part i ever miss when he is far.
In fact i read that the perfect match for an aquarius is a libra.

I just came to realise that i want him to be with me most of the time some thing that looses my patiency and makes me feel i dont know what i realy want , which is common to libras while my aquarius man expects me to tolerate when he shifts his focus to something to suprise me with in the future. But i love him anyway

haha.. a libra girl tried to change me also. she was the only one who tried so hard. if you try to change an Aquarius guy forcefully, you’ll be kicked to the curb faster than you can say, “but we’re perfect for each other!”

I’m with an aqua man now and I’m an aries. We both love being with one another and get along much of the time very well for the past 3 years, but what I have found is that this article is right on point. He can be very compassionate, considerate and kind much of the time. However, he is also very demanding, controlling and possessive. He wants me to be submissive to his needs but very in depended, upbeat in personality.Being precise in his way of doing things like how the food is cooked, how to fold the clothes or what words I should say is your way he sees you . He’s a man who has very good ideas about things but want you there as his partner to help him see them through. He can be very time consuming but when he off on one of his “my time” kicks you are left to be understanding until he returns. This is the time for you to do what appeal to you such as be with friend and family or some event or activity. Before he was in my life I knew very much how to do my own thing and take care of my business and that attracted him to me but I notice that when I’m around him he makes me think my decisions are wrong or I need to rethink them. I can’t disagree directly with him or there will be an argument, so I learned to choose my words and time to bring up things with him. .As an aries I’m not weak by no means. I love independence and freedom as much as he do but I also love a challenge (which he is) to make things exciting and interesting (something we both love). Like one of the poster said aqua are kinky with very wild ideas he likes to try and he want his partner there to going through it with him. It keeps them faith and interested for the spontaneous explorer inside of him. Other ways to keep him engaged can be to go do all the things that appeal to him. But the best thing you can do for him is to love him unconditionally and he will always be with you.

quote ‘He hardly lies except if he thinks it is necessary and he is not a good liar anyway. He will not lie to you about serious matter, but if he lies he will lay only a small little thing. ‘

well i guess my ex is just different type of Aquarius. the guy is A BORN LIAR. the moment i caught him cheating on me he still could look into my eyes and lie to my face without a blink! turns out the man i’ve been in love with for 4 years, the one i wanted to spend the rest of my life with, has cheated on me / lied to me throughout our relationship. He lied almost about everything he said to me. even small things that he doesnt need to lie about.
he wrote me a long letter after we broke up and confessed the truth about why he always lies.
I have no a doubt about the fact he did love me, and the fact he still does. he has never had a serious relationship before he met me, never loved anyone like the way he loved me, yet he cheated. realized that he is that type of guy who can love someone enormously yet be unfaithful. this is his nature and he hates it too. he’s been meaning to change for the better. but i am just not sure if he still can be trusted.

Aquarius are really misunderstood. You need to understand that the reason they are detached is not because they are unemotional. It isn’t even that Aquarians do not want to share their feels and inner sorrow with others. It is more like, they love people and love to make them happy and be happy with them, so if they are upset they would much rather keep it to themselves. Which brings up their independence. Unlike most signs, or most people for that matter, Aquarians don’t NEED others to cheer them up when they are sad, they can usually do it themselves. So don’t feel like they are keeping you out, they just want you to be happy, and they reallly dont want you to be sad as a result of their bad day. And if they don’t seem to get involved in your emotions of personal deep feelings, they probably are afraid to get to attached. Most likely, they are interested and definitely listening, but they think if you have all these deep conversations you will get ubber serious. Serious=stuck. Understand…alittle?:)

hey scropoinlol,
first of all sorry to hear this and I wish you great strenght…

Aquarians can be cruel, and I can tell since I am one myself..

Neways, if I was you I would totally ignore him!!! First of all because he has hurt you, and I would ignore anyone who hurts me just because I wouldn’t want it to happen again.

And when an aquarian has moved on on you, it is better to tighten your shoelace and get reading to explore other horizons!

The thing you should certainly not do, is to look sad and hurt. WHat you should do on the other hand is look more attractive, but not slutty ( sorry to say, scorpions are sweetheart, but some can look quite slutty sometime..) and certainly not be openly flirty with everyone. just look descent, stunning and dignified!

When he notices you are not all over him and not trying to check out his reactions, he will start to have a more relaxed approach towards you!

And honestly, him leaving should make it easier for you to forget. At least you will not get the chance to see him messing with other girls.

ok so i definatley like this guy that is aquarius/aquarius -sun& moon. so hes fully aquarius, wich is why i probly like him alot; but its not just like that i like him like a bestfriend and boyfriend.im libra/aries and they both go really gooood w aquarius but personally i think aties vitallizes and connects w aquarius more than the other signs and im glad our moons are(aquar/aries). see areis is like aquariuses bestfriend and cn be ‘more’. so yea gettin off topic- this guy, we know each other through church and its WAYYY more complicated and frustrating than ever. ima try to simplify it. i started liking him about 3 months or more ago when i randomly texted him and asked his birthday and found hes aquarius and then he got way more intesting to me, and been reading ALOT about our signs. *[we only see each other at church and dont have alot of time to talk becuase of class, btw our parents kinda make us go] from what i can tell its amazing and i cannot wait any longer to do soething w him other than church.

He flirts w me i guess and always ‘picks; on me mostly when we go to church, but then again he makes time for himself by being funny. he makes me smile when he looks at me, its like we known each other for along time and he knows dep down inside how to make me laugh. unlike manyt people.but theres periods where he doesnt really talk to me, and im used to when he does and i begin to think he doesnt like me then the next time he picks and picks. it just depends on him, and i- i dont care sometimes, its not that big of a deal. but then he brings his friend to church-girl and idk, it hurts becuase i thought he liked me.then hell go to church again and hell pick or not. but its becomeing.. intersting sometimes i can feel him just staring at me& when i turn to look at him he is, then i feel my heart start to act up and i turn away.ha its whatever, but then again it isnt. im weird,he is too and we just make sense, and i think hes starting to kind of realize that or i dont know.i just wish we could hang ot more and do things as friends cuz honestly i just wanna talk& be around him. i just dont know what he thinks but weirdly i do sometimes and i can finish his sentenses.[in church]uhhhhhh.!
know we have church once a week and sometimes i dont go even that. i really want to know exactly what he thinks about me, and dont know what to do to make him think of me about how i think of him. i KNow we dont spend enough time together, and when we do its not in the right place and i always want to ask him to hangout but, its not that easy. my moms and real irrating ***** and wont understand if i hang out with him, shell make a big deal. i just wanna know what to do, any help ? please and i wanna know if i should text him and what should i talk about when we really have nothing to talk abotu-what should i start talking bout. how to tell or what sould i do to find out if he likes me.[btw he sometimes acts weird around me, like he doest know what to do]. but other times he just acts kinda flirty aha. what should i do? please tell me something if anyone has experience ?

hola..
Im a sag girl who fell madly in love with an aqua guy last yr..like it’s said,its true that aquas have their own way of loving..n he did throw himself entirely in the relationship which lead to something pretty serious..n lol,he always thanked me for being patient for him..aqua guys are so unpredictable,jealous and quite hot-tempered..unfortunately,me being a sag who always tell what i think loudly found myself suppressed by this strong personality and i turned out to be weak in front of him..apparently,he saw that as having a ‘weak’ gf and thought i wasn’t following him.and now,the story’s over since 1 year already..and yet,i haven’t been able to forget the aqua guy..and now seeing what’s written,i assume it may have helped me 1 year back because i always thought he was lying about the true reasons of being with me and all that..
Hoping it will help others..xx

I am currently seeing an Aquarius man. We have been ‘seeing’ each other for 2 years now. I love him dearly. But it has been a series of ups and downs. One, I feel that we are in the same place where we were 2 years ago. He moves sooooo slow. He would disappear for long periods only to pop up like its all good. UGGHHH. Y do I put up with this crap?

three things are really key when dealing with the aquarius men:patiencefaithoptimismIt may seem silly because aquarius will not give you many signs at all that he is deeply interested or serious about you, but if you give him patience, put faith in his scarcely explicit feelings, and have an optimism about the relationship, he will admire you for it. Trust me, the worst way to find out how much an aquarian cares is by losing him. my personal experience, I didn’t think that he was ready for a serious relationship, that I was just a casual feeling to him, but when I made out with another guy and told him that I did it a couple days later, he got soooo upset. I never expected him to have that reaction, and by his harsh reaction I knew just how serious he took me and how much he cared. After leaving him alone for a while and acquring the patience and faith in him, I began to understand his ways. Now that I had learned the hard way that he cared for me, I began to have more faith in what he did not outright say or show. That is key when dealing with aquarian men. They will not show their affection often, but you had better believe it is there, because if you keep the faith, his feelings will only grow.

I’ve read all of these posts with great interest. I’m a scorpio woman and I split up with an Aquarius man a couple of months ago. He persued me for 6 months whilst coming to the end of his marriage with a very sick wife. After they split up we got together and we both thought we’d finally found our soulmate. He’d said it was his wife’s decision but it became aparent later that he’d given her ultimatums either to get better or he was leaving. He had a lot of baggage indeed which I helped him to deal with. Me being very loyal I stuck with him through it all to the point of it completely draining me. When he recovered from said ‘baggage’ and found a new set of friends he started pushing me away. It was then that I realised just how draining I’d found the whole experience. Even so, I was prepared to stick with it and asked him to be patient with me while I got myself on an even keel again. I had previously suggested a few times that I would still support him as a friend if he found he needed space to get over his problems but after messing me around somewhat and not being there for me he decided we were better off apart. Sparks did fly (stubborn firey scorpio nature). I’d invested so much in this relationship on the basis that we were soulmates and going to have childrn etc. I’m still not over it. We have no contact now at all but quite soon we’re both going to be involved in a social weekend with mutual friends who (quite rightly) won’t take sides. He did offer a while back when we were still talking not to go to take part in the social weekend but I told him it was his decision. I knew I’d feel bad if I took him up on that offer. Now I really wish he wasn’t going. He has a new life now in a different country and I still see our mutual friends week in, week out.

I was just wondering if anyone has any further insights into how to handle such an aquarius man without making a complete fool of myself again! Should I get in touch with him and ask him not to go? Missing out on the gathering for me is not an option – I definitely get the impression that I need cheering up a lot more than my ex does.

It can indeed be awesome being alone – I just haven’t found that awesomeness yet after this one.

I am an Aries Woman. My Ex is an Aquarius and my Fiancee is also an Aquarius. At first, I didn’t think anything about the only two serious relationships were both the same sign, but then I realized it when I recevied a text from my ex saying thank you for the birthday email. Their birthdays are 5 days apart. Looking into it, I was definately chased by both. They were persistant in winning me over. I was single and busy in my own life. I didn’t have time to wonder why he hasn’t called. and when he did I always had something exciting going on to tell him about. With the first relationship, we dated for 1 and 6 months and the first night I stayed over I never went home. I moved in. 3 years later after finding out he cheated, I moved out. Being single agian for the next 3 years I dated and had little flings here and there at my adult independent womans discression, I then met my now fiancee where I worked. He also was persistant. I didnt want to date him because I worked with him. After he chased me for two years I finally went out with him. I slept with him after the 3rd date, and their was alot of build up. What a release! I didn’t move in with him until 6 months later. And that was 6 months ago. We are getting along great. We are great friends. I like to start and initate things and get all fired up then lose interest later and he keeps me motivated to finish what I start. We can sit and talk for hours still. We set goals together and I love how he is always thinking outside the box. I am just weary of the cheating. He did cheat on his ex wife he divorced 6 years before me. So occasioanlly I scam through his email and phone, but all I found is that it just pisses me off. So I am losing the desire to even do that. If it works, it works. If not, its awesome being alone too;)

I’m an aries woman, sounds like me! I was serious with an Aquarian male and now I’m with another Aquarius, if it works out then wonderful, if it doesn’t then I’m also fine with that. Haha I can give a lot in relationships but I can also walk away from it and never look back ;p x

:))) Aquarius men! Oh, i’ve ben in a relationship with one, or no, two! They are very emotional!:)) I liked the first one at first, but then he seemd to be way too obsseive. He was madly in love with me, it was great, until i wanted to leave him. He sweared to kill himself if i left him. He’d do anything, if i only stayed. I think i just got bored of him… I hate that about myself. Once i got that he is in love with me, he seemed so weak and i lost interest in him. I thought i loved him, but later realized that i didn’t. It hurt him a lot. It broke his heart. I could’t help it. I disappeared, so that it would be easier for him to forget. After 2 years, somehow he found me. He called me, as nothing has happened in the past. As if i never broke his heart; as if i was his best friend. It kind of freacked me, so i had to change my number and disappear again. He is a good man, but i hope he doean’t find me. lol

Another aquarian i dated was very emotional, too. I broke his heart, too. But he forgave me that. We are very good friends now.

obviously the author’s first language is not English. I say give the author a break. I can still understand it quite fine. The grammatical errors are minor. You can go on another site if you are that dissatisfied.

If it was not for us Aquarius, nothing would get invented and as a result man would not progress as fast. We need good nurturing as we need encouragement, someone who has a big hart will win us over. We make the $$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$ which all the signs like.

im currently in love with an aqua man some years younger than me. well, the things i read about an aqua man here are also true with my man. he’s a very self-confident young boy who knows how to attract me with the way he ignores my emotions. oh , damn thats the part i feel killing about him. anyway, he doesnt like me to push him to love me. he has his own way of loving and when you dont expect it he comes back to you on an unexpected scene. its true you must be patient with him and the other day when he was in one of his abnormal and unusual “alone times”, insisting on not calling or smsing him again he suddenly told me , ” hey, noone has gotten me as you do , thank you for your patience, youre really patient with me!” i was to faint. so how can i not love or how can i leave such a very hot-hearted man!!!???

im currently in love with an aqua man some years younger than me. well, the things i read about an aqua man here are also true with my man. he’s a very self-confident young boy who knows how to attract me with the way he ignores my emotions. oh , damn thats the part i feel killing about him. anyway, he doesnt like me to push him to love me. he has his own way of loving and when you dont expect it he comes back to you on an unexpected scene. its true you must be patient with him and the other day when he was in one of his abnormal and unusual “alone times”, insisting on not calling or smsing him again he suddenly told me , ” hey, noone has gotten me as you do , thank you for your patience, youre really patient with me!” i was to faint. so how can i not love or how can i leave such a very hot-hearted man!!!???

OMFGOMG OMG THAT IS ME, THATS ME ON PAPER OMG I ALMOST CRIED. FUCK WHY AM I LIKE THIS OK I READ THE OTHER ONE THAN READ THIS, WHY IS IT SO TRUE? WHERE DO YOU GET THIS STUFF FROM? ITS LIKE I WAS MEANT TO READ THIS AND KNOW HOW AND WHAT KIND OF PERSON I AM BY READING IT.

IVE ALWAYS DON THINGS MY OWN WAY AND I MUST BE FIRST TO DO ANYTHING OR I FEEL LIKE ITS NOT WORTH DOING. MY X WASN’T PATIENT WITH ME AT ALL, I WANTED HER TO FOLLOW ME, BUT FOLLOW ME IN A DIFFERENT WAY. I WANTED HER TO FOLLOW ME DURING THE HARD TIMES AND THATS WHEN SHE BROKE UP WITH ME, WHEN IT GOT AS HARD AS ITS GUNNA GET.

I DO MOVE FAST, THEY SAID I HAD ADD AS A CHILD ALWAYS MOVING. IM THE SAME WAY NOW I DRIVE EVERYWHERE. AND YES I PUT EVERYTHING INTO LOVE BECAUSE I THOUGHT THATS HOW IT WORKS NO? IM FINDING OUT THATS NOT HOW IT WORKS YOU JUST DATE THAT PERSON UNTIL YOU LOVE THEM, I CANT CHANGE THE WAY I AM THOUGH. ILL STILL FALL IN LOVE FAST AND HOPE SHELL FELL THE SAME WAY.

I DO TRY TO WORK OUT PROBLEMS EVEN THOUGH IT WILL BRING MORE THAN JUST PROBLEM, IT BRING FEAR AND EMOTIONS THAT SHOULD NEVER COME OUT OF EITHER ONE OF US. I AM SOCIAL VERY, IF YOU MEET ME WE CAN GO ON FOR DAYS ABOUT ANYTHING. THATS MY THING ;O] I SEE NO REASON TO L IE I WOULDN’T L IE UNLESS IT WAS VERY MUCH NEEDED OR DESERVED, AND OMG I CAN TALK ABOUT THINGS I HAVE NO CLUES ABOUT AND YOU WOULD THINK I WROTE A BOOK ON IT. TO BE HONEST ITS JUST IN MY HEAD, LIKE ITS ALWAYS BEEN THERE I DON’T EVEN MAKE IT UP. WHEN I TALK I DON’T THINK ITS JUST THERE EVEN IF I KNOW NOTHING ABOUT WHAT WERE TALKING ABOUT, ILL TRY TO UNDERSTAND AND ADAPT TO THE CONVERSATION.

REALITY DOES HURT ME SOMETIMES MORE THAN OTHERS, AND IM TO NICE. CAN SOMEONE REALLY BE TO NICE, OK TO NICE YES BUT SHOULD THAT PERSON BE LESS NICE TO MAKE IT EASIER ON THERE LIFE? OR BE NICE LIKE ALWAYS AND STILL CARE FOR THOSE I LOVE? MY X NEVER BELIEVED ANYTHING I SAID, EVEN IF SHE DID SHE WOULDN’T GIVE ME ANOTHER CHANCE. THERES NOTHING I CAN DO TO GET THAT OTHER CHANCE.

I DON’T LIKE PESSIMISTIC, LOW ENERGY, OR DEPRESSED PEOPLE I TRY TO STAY AWAY FROM THERE.IF I DO STAY AROUND THEM ITS ONLY TO HELP THEM TO BE MORE OF AN OPEN SPIRITED PERSON LIKE MYSELF.

” Once he is in love, he will act as if he never has love like this before. This minute he could be real sugar sweet, and later he could also be an icy cold, but do not blame him for that will only chase him away ” THATS HOW OUR RELATIONSHIP WAS, WE WERE BOTH THE SUGAR ON TOP, TO EACH OTHER BUT THAT HONEY MOON STAGE WENT AWAY AND SHE STILL WANTED IT, IT WILL BE THERE AT FIRST BUT YOU SEE REALITY AND LOVE THAT PERSON FOR WHO THEY ARE. I DID ACT AS IF I NEVER FELT LOVE BEFORE HER, AND THATS WHY I FELL FOR HER. WILL IT BE LIKE THAT FOR ALL WOMEN?