I don't know how it is for you, but for me, I can be attracted to whatever I want.

Maybe you are capable of willing/brainwashing yourself to go contrary to your inclinations, but why would you, or anyone else want to?

Regardless, the vast majority of people are not able to turn attractions, cravings, preferences, fears, or other instinctive responses on or off like a switch. Most people can control and direct them, but very few can remove them or twist them into a 180.Edited by Blameless - 3/25/11 at 11:23am

Maybe you are capable of willing/brainwashing yourself to go contrary to your inclinations, but why would you, or anyone else want to?

Regardless, the vast majority of people are not able to turn attractions, cravings, preferences, fears, or other instinctive responses on or off like a switch. Most people can control and direct them, but very few can remove them or twist them into a 180.

So was I born preferring blonde hair blue eyed women? So how come I'm in such a bigger majority? Is it because of society? Probably.

What about tan women? Men and society as a whole came from preferring pale women then Coco Chanel got a tan and tan women became the desire of men.

You can't choose. If you are attracted to both, bisexual. That's IT. Bisexuals are the lucky ones. Most people to choose from...

Anyhow... Most people can't choose. Not straight or gay people. That's it. Leave it there. If you believe that gayness can be "Cured", you've obviously got the wrong information.

You're right that you may not be able to choose what you're attracted to. But you're more than capable of deciding not to participate in "sword fighting" and other asspiracy. Same as it is for pedophiles. The "curing" happens in the heart/soul.