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… 28 Days to Creating the Marriage You’ve Always Wanted with the Spouse You Already Have

Is an argument-free marriage possible? Fawn Weaver’s answer is yes, absolutely, even when one or both partners are strong willed, independent, and opinionated. (She admits to being all three.) In this groundbreaking book, the best-selling author and award-winning marriage blogger asks readers to invest twenty-eight days in learning how to live together without bickering, blame, angry outbursts, or silent treatments.

Fawn begins with the startling premise that, contrary to popular opinion, conflict in marriage is not necessary or inevitable. Then she leads readers on a day-by-day journey toward a more peaceful and supportive relationship. Chapter by brief chapter, she offers fresh perspectives and practical strategies for communicating effectively, building understanding, and defusing anger while at the same time nurturing honesty, vulnerability, and mutual support.

Coconut Oil Fuels Your Metabolism!
Researchers have discovered that in cultures where unrefined coconut oil is a part of the everyday diet, there is less obesity and less lifestyle-related disease.
Unfortunately, very little coconut oil is consumed in the U.S. and metabolic syndrome—along with its symptoms of obesity, diabetes and heart disease—is reaching epidemic proportions! Continue reading The Coconut Oil Secret→

The following know the answer to this question: Rick Warren, author of the bestseller Purpose Driven Life has sold over a million copies; Max Lucado also a Christian bestselling author and writer, along with Joyce Meyer a bestselling author and bible teacher have all got ministries /gifts that are reaching the world, not just Christians!

What would have happened if Edison had allowed a limited education, financial difficulty and a disability to hold him back? We’d all possibly be without electricity and using candles or lamps, oh wait those where inventions by others who decided to use their talent!

What would have happened if Bill Gates had refused to use his talent because he was too frightened or had too many knockbacks?

The bible says he gave gifts unto man – Ephesians 4: 8. Read the whole passage to learn the purpose of this. The question here is:

What is in your hands?

Matthew 25

The Parable of the Ten Virgins
Teaches us to prepare and not take our salvation or position for granted. Those 5 wise virgins who understood that PREPARED, the 5 foolish ones did not understand the need to prepare even though they were already chosen to meet the bridegroom – they took their position for granted so failed to take extra oil for their lamps.

The Parable of the TalentsThe King represents God who gave his servants (some bible translations say, stewards) talents according to their ability. The stewards who used their talents actually went out there into the market place inspite of the fear of losing their masters money. Do you think they just entered into trading ‘willy nilly’? They must have observed other traders and as loyal stewards observed their master on several occasions, if not, why would he entrust them? He knew their capabilities, the question was did they know what was in their hands?

Use Your Potential

Everyone has gifting and what a lot of people don’t realise is, because it’s a gift does not mean you shouldn’t nurture, grow or enhance it. That’s where the 5 foolish virgins got it wrong. They felt they were already qualified as potential brides so no preparation was needed? Right? Wrong!

Coming back to the parable of the talents, the steward with the lesser talent revealed his motivation for doing nothing, which was FEAR! His belief system was surrounded in fear, doubt and unbelief which spoke loud and clear in his actions or in this case inaction!

Did he have the same opportunities around him that the other two stewards had? Yes, he did, but he chose to be paralysed by fear.

He obviously didn’t know about that scripture that says:

“ …Whatsoever thy hand findeth to do, do it with thy might; for there is no work, nor device, nor knowledge, nor wisdom, in the grave, whither thou goest. I returned, and saw under the sun, that the race is not to the swift, nor the battle to the strong, neither yet bread to the wise, nor yet riches to men of understanding, nor yet favour to men of skill; but time and chance happeneth to them all” Ecclesiastes 9:10-11(KJV -Read from the beginning of the chapter, the them referred to is Christians and non Christians alike!)

The story of the talents makes reference to investing in trading or with the bank as a way to grow your income which enables you do more than you could with limited funds (Ecclesiastes 10:19), so when you use the excuse I don’t have enough money, why not invests what you have in a bank that provides the highest interest you can find and also consider day trading? With the availability of training and courses online and off we are really without excuse. Learn more here: Trade Like A Pro – practical trading alerts

The lesson here is, God has given each of us talents to use for his glory and to benefit others outside of our church community. The only limitations are the ones in our minds. If you fail to recognise your gift or nurture it, how can you glorify God or impact others for the Kingdom of God? Or how can you truly reach your grave empty like the late Pastor Myles Munroe taught. If you sit on your hands you become like the foolish virgins and fearful servant. Step out inpite of fear and do great things for God. 😀

Robert Kiyosaki best selling author of Rich Dad Poor Dad and the Cashflow Quadrant, teaches about the importance of a financial education and being alert to what you feed your mind. In his article, “Ten Decisions You Need To Make To Get Rich” he had this to say:
“One of the reasons the rich get richer is because they spend time with other rich people. Most of my best investments come from my rich friends, not from my stock brokers or real estate brokers. It is important to know if a person’s aspirations are to be rich, comfortable or simply survive.

Friends who merely want to be comfortable or survive will not understand why you want to be rich and may unconsciously pull you down. And besides, the investment tips I get from people who only want to be comfortable are often tips on investments that no one else wants.

How do you find people who are rich or want to be rich? Rich Dad had a simple answer: “It’s what you know that determines who you know. If you want to change who you know, simply change what you know.” So the most important investment you can make is in your financial education and financial experience. Invest in that first and the people you spend time with will change.”

Now, I take my financial education seriously and even set money
aside for it. This is what the wealthy do and the best way to learn to succeed is to copy what works from those who have succeeded. So, if you want to start investing in your financial freedom with the right financial education, reading Robert’s books are the best way to start.

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Press Release: Anchored Assurance (Written in late 2005 taken from my archives)

Eruvwu (full name is Eruvwuoghene) Obuaya, is indeed a busy woman, as the founder of Love Nurture, she is regularly organising its functions or editing articles for the magazine. In addition to this, Eruvwu is an employee, wife and mother. Now, Eruvwu is adding author to her list of achievements, her debut novel Anchored Assurance was published in October of 2005.

How does it feel to be a published author?
It is a wonderful sense of accomplishment and courage and I am quite pleased.

Your novel was launched on the 5th November 2005 what was that like?
Awesome! It was fantastic and such a great pleasure and a wonderful opportunity.

In what way was it a wonderful opportunity?
I was able to meet some of my niche market face to face, have a reading and sign copies of the book; it was all so new and exciting!

Why did you decide to write?
It was as a result of a conversation I had with friends years ago about the lack of good Christian novels so I decided right then that I would write a novel; mainly, I believe it is a gift from God!

How long did it take?
Not long. The story line was completed within months. It’s the editing, proofreading, finding an agent and publisher that are quite time consuming.

You’re a wife and mum of four, how do you manage to write as well as care for your family?
By doing a little at a time, a lot of support from my family, discipline and determination on my part. Like any other mum, I made the time. I took it a day at a time sometimes just doing what I could in the moment. I’m in the spot light now, but mothers world wide are doing spectacular things that may never come into print.

Who is Anchored Assurance for?
Anyone who is going through difficult times and needs encouragement, this novel will provide encouragement and hope. Anchored Assurance tells how God is a very present help in times of need, just like a ship anchored in a storm, when we call on him in trouble, he’s right there, I know, I cry HELP so often and he never fails!

What is the story about?
It’s about having the love of support of friends and family when you go through difficult times as well as faith in God. The storyline centres mainly around three friends and the tests and trials they each go through and how the combination of their friendships, family and faith in God see them through.

Are the characters based on real life?
Huge grin. Not at all, but it is said there is a little bit of the writer in every story. Those who know me best might be able to confirm this. However, I wrote Anchored Assurance from observation and pure imagination.

Why did you decide to use Nigerian names?
I was in Nigeria at the time so it was natural or inevitable, just as natural or inevitable as other writers using names from their backgrounds. It is my hope that the use of Nigerian names does not take away from the storyline or the pleasure of reading. I do however, have a glossary of Nigerian names at the back of the book to aid the reader.

Will you be writing again?
Ooh yes! I am definitely going to write again. I have at least two more in me.

When is your next book coming out and is it a sequel to Anchored Assurance?
Possibly, a year on from now. I’m still working on it. However, I have been concentrating a lot of my effort on promoting and marketing Anchored Assurance so that I have not worked on it recently. It is not a sequel to Anchored Assurance; it is completely different, but just as inspired. And, not an African name in sight! (Well maybe, one!)

Who are your target audience?
Mostly, those who love a good fiction! I did target teenagers and young adults, because they are more likely to relate to the storyline; but my 11 year old son and 6 year old daughter loved it! (at the time) So I wait to see just who will be reading it.

Did you have your target audience in mind when you named your characters?
Yes, I did think of my readers when naming the characters and in employing the style I went for. I recall when I started reading Barbara Cartland novels, I wasn’t familiar with the old English names used, like ‘Selwyn’, ‘Marques’, ‘Rowena’, ‘Llewellyn’ etc. but that didn’t stop my enjoyment. As someone recently said to me, the fact that I used Nigerian names is generic and anyone, regardless of race can still relate to what the characters go through. So, I hope my readers agree.

Any final thoughts you wish to share?
Ooh yes! It all looks so glamorous, but it has been stressful, nerve racking and extremely hard work. Not many know of the times I was proof reading edits while admitted to hospital suffering from ‘post partem pre-eclampsia’ (high blood pressure following child birth) with my baby by my side. (A big thank you however to the midwives and medical team at St. Thomas’ who took good care of me, I believe God used them to save my life!) Also, not many know of my tears and fears or what my husband and other children endured. Nor, the running around with baby in the baby carrier for appointments, come rain, wind or shine. Or the struggle to change my tights in the ladies toilet at my local supermarket with baby screaming, while rushing off to yet another appointment. I also experienced a lot of disappointments, let downs and nearly being swindled, but I persevered. As I said, a lot of mums are heroes out there, so it is nothing new, Proverbs 31 lists the attributes of a virtuous woman and frankly that’s my goal!

Where can someone purchase their copy of your novel?
From the Publisher, Publish America or me. However,as the author, I am currently aiming to raise £30,000 for charity through the sale of the novel by Mother’s Day 2009. So, for every copy of Anchored Assurance sold a £1 goes to Release International and World Vision, two great charities, the latter provide food, shelter and clothing for children and communities worldwide, while the former defend persecuted Christians worldwide.

Useful money making idea

Just by marketing online via my own link I can affords me the opportunity to give a £1 per copy sold to charity – Direct link here A minimum of 50 copies per organisation or group will help us to reach our goal faster. Making money couldn’t be easier, by taking orders from friends, clubs or group you’re affiliated with, you could raise money for charity and make some yourself. Sell the book and make Money yourself through Clickbank here: 1.xxxxx.pay.clickbank.net using your Clickbank ID (which should replace xxxxx). Obviously the more orders you can take the more you will make!

So, if you want a cost effective way of making money by fundraising for Anchored Assurance to various groups and organisations you know contact E J Obuaya for further information here, leave comments below.

Do you want to know how you can have everything you want and be super successful?

Do you want to know how you can have a great relationship and live a happy life?

Would you be surprised if I told you that you can have this success and happiness, and all you had to do was change the way you think?

Whether you’re dreaming of becoming a millionaire, obtaining your dream job, buying your dream house or having an incredible marriage, if you change the way you think, you are changing your life for the better.

Allow me to say that again; if you change the way you think, you can achieve anything you want.

Prosperity IQ Test

These questions will help to reveal some of the unconscious limiting beliefs that are keeping you stuck and poor.

Do you secretly fear that if you became wealthy your friends and family wont like you anymore

When you grew up were you ever told, “We may not be rich but at least we are honest.”

. Did your religious upbringing teach you that it is noble to sacrifice now and that you will get your reward in the afterlife?

Did you or do you feel guilty when you started to earn more than you parents?

Were you raised to fit in and not stand out?

Did you grow up liking shows like Dallas, Beverly Hill Billies, Dynasty where rich people were always presented as unscrupulous and conniving or or pretentious and bumbling?

Do you have chronic health problems that no doctor can figure out?

Do you ever get jealous of people with expensive clothes, houses and cars which may have subconsciously made you develop a “hate the rich” mentality?

On some level, do you think it is somehow noble, romantic or spiritual to be poor?

Did you ever end a negative relationship and then immediately replace it with a relationship just like the one you just ended?

Have you sometimes used judgmental expressions like, “poor as a church mouse”, “filthy rich”or “obscenely wealthy”?

Have you ever made excuses for failure by saying things like.,’ You have to have money to make money” or ” you have to know someone”?

Do you relish being the underdog and fighting against the odds all the time?

Is it possible that you are experiencing health challenges, financial challenges, or business failures in order to invoke sympathy and attention from those closest to you?

Are you in a stable relationship, have enough money to meet your needs and are basically healthy but just feel that life is just passing you by?

SCORE

No to 13-15 questions:
Strong Prosperity Consciousness and can pass this quiz along to someone else

Yes to 3 or more questions:
You likely have issues of worthiness on subconscious level
In a holding pattern afraid to leave your comfort zone, not radically unhappy, but there is no passion or excitement in your life. You know something is missing, but you may not know what it is.

Yes to 5 or more Questions:
You are likely in a stagnancy cycle and sometimes have advances but experience set backs and you are not really breaking through to the real success you desire or deserve.

Yes to 7 or more questions:
You are definitely headed on a downward track towards serious emotional, physical and financial challenges, This is the victim cycle. It is imperative that you take immediate action to break the pattern and stop the failure cycle. This will involve uncovering limiting beliefs on subconscious level and radically reprogramming them with positive ones.

How you view your marriage is important as it’s key to its success. Do you view it as a failure or success? If you do, you must realise whichever you chose, you are part of it.

“Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother and shall cleave unto his wife; and they shall be one flesh” Genesis 2:24 (Jubilee Bible 2000).

Have you left the influence of your parents and are you in harmony and unity with your wife? If not, grow up and leave your parents emotionally and physically. This applies if a wife is still tied to her parents emotionally also. When you do this you will start to experience positive changes in your home and marriage. Ask yourself, “What practical changes can I make today to turn things around in my marriage?” Then take steps to implement them. You do not have control of your spouse nor should you ever wish to, but you can control yourself. You thoughts and action are up to you, so chose life.

“This day I call the heavens and the earth as witnesses against you that I have set before you life and death, blessings and curses. Now choose life, so that you and your children may live” Deuteronomy 30:19 (NIV).“Look, today I set before you a blessing and a cursethere will be a blessing, if you obey the commands of the LORD your God I am giving you today, and a curse, if you do not obey the commands of the LORD your God and you turn aside from the path I command you today by following other gods you have not known” Deuteronomy 11:26-28 (Holman Christian Standard Bible).

God created marriage and you curse it when you go contrary to his commands, decide to do it the right way because, it’s your marriage, your choice. Click the button below to support my work:

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“Every person in the world is a proof of a harvest. A husband puts his seed into his wife and expects the ‘harvest’ of children. A farmer plants corn and never once thinks that he will not have a harvest.Work with your own faith, don’t have a parasite mentality” Mike Murdock.Don’t use manipulation to get what you want, no human being in this world is meant to supply your need, God is your source. If you believe your relationship with God has reward, you will nurture that relationship. You must beieve God is an active force moving on your behalf and not try to wheel and deal your way through life looking for alternatives to the source of your finances.“And it is impossible to please God without faith. Anyone who wants to come to him must believe that God exists and that he rewards those who sincerely seek him” Hebrew 11:6 New Living Translation.

Learn more about the source of your financial success from Mike Murdock’s book, ‘7 Laws You Must Honor To Have Uncommon Success’.

Laws You Must Honor to Have Uncommon Success Experience With God Creates A Different Reward Than The Laws of God. Every Law Contains A Different Reward. Your Love For God Does Not Guarantee A Productive Life. In This Fascinating Study, Dr. Mike Murdock Reveals The Hidden Laws That Guarantee Your Personal Success.

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At Wholesale Pages you can gain access to literally all types of wholesalers, dropshippers, suppliers, wholesale offers, bargains, and so much more that you will never buy at retail prices again. Also, what I discovered was that these wholesalers are willing to fulfill single item orders so even if you are not in a trading business you can still buy products at amazingly discounted prices and at times even up to 90% cheaper than retail prices.

Some of the resources that you can access in the Wholesale Pages members area are:

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