Book Categories

Healing from Betrayal—books specfically written to women in relationship with a man who struggles with sexual addictionPsychological—books that discuss psychological issues that strongly relate to spouses of addictsRelational Books—books for spouses that take a mostly relational and spiritual approach to healingRelated Topics—books that are highly relevant to issues spouses of addicts face

Excellent first book for women to read after shortly after discovering their husband's betrayal. Written in a conversation/story style, first-hand account. From a Christian perspective and in line with our teachings.

When husbands are ensnared by sexual sin, wives suffer the most. In Every Heart Restored, Fred and Brenda Stoeker tell how they survived the sin of betrayal and rebuilt a solid, intimate, and joyful marriage. Learn how trust can be restored if a husband chooses purity and his wife chooses mercy. Includes a workbook for individuals or groups.

Writing from personal experience, Laaser shares practical tools to help you make empowering decisions; emotional resources to develop greater intimacy in your life; and spiritual secrets to transform your suffering. An overview of issues related to sexual betrayal and healing for wives.

Great book on codependency, much better than Bondage to Bonding. Easy to read. Not specific to sexual betrayal, but is relevant to many who have experienced it. Quotes Search for Significance a few times. Very in line with our curriculum.

Marital boundaries are very frequently problematic in couples where one struggles with sexual addiction. Excellent resource for betrayed women to find sanity in marriage. The workbook is "long and hard" so we recommend groups just read the book and do a "what did you learn/note" discussion each week.

Escaping Codependency, Embracing Biblical Love. Excellent codependency resource. Biblical perspective, written by someone who has been there. In this book, the husband’s issue was alcohol not sex addiction, but same principles apply.

The author uses Scripture, case histories, and dialogue to impart timeless principles that can heal damaged relationships, strengthen everyday communication, and help people avoid the traps of manipulation that often disrupt the free flow of honest discussion. Builds on prior book. Strong, positive feedback from groups who have used it.

Not an easy read but some say worth it. Mostly related to boundaries and co-dependency issues. One group who used this book did struggle with it. Far from helping you "get along" with others, Bold Love introduces the outlandish possibility of making a significant and life-changing impact on family, friends, coworkers, even your enemies.

For all women who know and love a survivor of sexual assault, author Cecil Murphey helps women understand the continuing problems that abuse survivors may encounter, including hurtful memories, issues of self worth, and the need to feel in control. Informative and highly practical, Murphey explains what women can do to help bring about healing and forgiveness.

Probably the most thorough Christian book on the causes of and recovery from sexual addiction. This book was written by the leading Christian expert in sexual addiction. While it focuses mainly on the addict's issues, it also has an excellent chapter on restoration for couples. An excellent book to begin to understand a partner's struggle.

Liked by past groups who used it. Of our topics this book most closely relates to boundaries. Cloud and Townsend identify traits of untrustworthy people, offer practical strategies for forming healthy associations, and reveal things about yourself that jeopardize relationships.