Letting Her Play With Your Backside

I know. I know. It can be downright terrifying to see the words "men" and "anal" used in the same sentence. And although some men will definitely never be comfortable with the idea, it's a very normal, acceptable sexual practice to stimulate the male G-spot, or prostate, during sex.

In fact, any guy who's ever had the pleasure of experiencing the sensation knows that having a woman play with his G-spot can increase the intensity of his orgasms tenfold.

Many women welcome this act and are quite into it. You should be talking openly about sex with your woman as it is, so mentioning that you're up for the idea of some anal play can definitely work in your, and her, favor. Just as you enjoy giving her powerful orgasms, surely your girl would like nothing more than to intensify yours.

Why It Feels So Good

A man's prostate gland is responsible for manufacturing some of the contents of seminal fluid in ejaculation. It's a walnut-sized and somewhat rigid mound of flesh located between your testicles and your anus, right next to your rectum. When stroked, it can give you an extra-intense orgasm.

In fact, it's possible to have an orgasm through nothing but prostate stimulation. Placing a finger or a curved toy inside the rectum is the best direct way to get to it.

But enough technical talk. Let's find out how your lady can play with this special organ.

Finger Action

Before you get started, you obviously need to clean up, so opt to take a shower together. Cleanliness is key. In fact, you can even perform this act in the shower because it's warm and relaxing.

She can start things off by moving her tongue around your anus or even stick it in a little bit — this is called rimming. It feels exceptionally good to masturbate while she's doing this. It's a matter of preference, however, so perhaps she can alternate between oral sex and anal play.

Once you feel comfortable and aroused, she can apply some lube to her index finger. Absolutely, definitely, always use water-based lubrication. It allows for easier entry.

Once you're sexually stimulated, your muscles will relax fully. The best way to ensure that you do so (relax, that is) is to lie down and let your girl have her way with you.

She should rub around your anus with some lube then slowly slide her finger up there about three inches (almost her whole finger), palm facing up. This may feel strange at first, but it shouldn't hurt. Once in, she should bend her finger in a "come hither" motion to stroke your prostate repeatedly. If it feels good, let her know with a moan.

If she's able to either perform oral sex or manually stimulate your penis simultaneously, that'd be awesome.

Use A Toy

For the anal veteran of sorts, a dildo or butt plug works wonders for stimulation. Such toys serve to stimulate your anus and prostate, and leave her hands free to stimulate other parts of your body.

Sex shops sell anal toys that are smaller and curved for such occasions. So be aware of your entire panorama of sexual options and experiment if you feel like it. You'll never know how good something may or may not feel until you try it.

Before inserting any sex toy, you need to feel relaxed. You wouldn't penetrate your girl without foreplay (at least most of the time), so inserting anything into your body before you're ready to is not a good idea.

From licking and stroking to kissing and using fingers, your lady needs to relax all of you, including your anus. The secret here is to take things slowly. After your muscles are sufficiently relaxed, she can begin to manipulate the toy to stimulate your prostate.

Anal play can be a very fulfilling kinky experience. So take it on back and have a good time.