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Friday, February 25, 2011

The "Safe" Atheist

I frequently find myself in the role of explaining non-belief to the believers.

Good, nice people who are simply SHOCKED to discover that I don't follow their particular brand of mythology. (GASP! They will say. "But...you are so...nice..." Yes, I will answer, perhaps it is your assumptions that are incorrect here.")

For the kind-hearted believer, I don't mind being their project. I don't mind having them question me and, hopefully learn from me. Doing this, I have had some wonderful conversations AND I have had the pleasure of seeing believers become more accepting of people who don't share their flavor of belief.

I am in the middle of one of these experiences now. It's still early. I don't know the fellow very well. (My sister does, though.)

What gets me is his face! The few conversations "in real life" we have had have been fairly time-limited and opportunity-limited. But the funny thing is HIS FACE! It always looks so far away and confused... I can't figure out if he is going to attempt to convert me or what. I don't continue conversations such as these when the person begins proselytizing. But honest and polite and curious questioning is always okay with me. But this gentleman just seems so perplexed by me. I'm not sure he has ever actually conversed in this way with an atheist.

But I can't figure this one out yet...time will tell.
In the meantime, have I mentioned that he is a minister?

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I am a Midwestern American, very open atheist, secular humanist, science lover, cohost of The Secular Parents on the SecularTv channel on Youtube, and I'm mum to two amazing human beings (ages 20 and 17).

We homeschooled for over twelve years. Now I'm entering into my "empty nest" years...

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