I'd be surprised if this doesn't create some sort of positive backlash for her, almost as if it was an incredible pr stunt all along. Blowjob tapes galore as more celebrities giving head spring up all over the internet, all released by evil ex partners who they bravely overcame through inspiring youtube confessions.

This must be horrible for her, as far as friends and family seeing it/knowing about it. However, I think the real embarrassment should lay with the spineless little no mark that published the tape. What a cunt.

Even given that you're just a guy on a message board, I doubt you'd be happy with the idea of your mum/dad/sister(s)/brother(s)* being able to see you with a mouthful of dick / balls deep in pussay*. Now pretend for a second that you're a relatively famous pop star and/or a regular on a tv show watched by millions, then bump that embarrassment up by several orders of magnitude. I'm guessing that's the angle most people
are approaching this at, rather than the legality of oral sex.

surely a large proportion of what was intended to be private eventually makes it to the public domain. So, if you don't want everyone seeing a video of you with a cock in your mouth, don't make one in the first place.

Tulisa is a pathetic hip-hop star anyway; I read an interview around the time of her joining the X Factor that she likes scrabble and kittens.