Meet Amaka

Hello, My name is Amaka. I formerly worked as a sales rep for a pharmaceutical. I have also interned with a couple of inspirational speakers learning how to reach people with the power of words. I really hope I can leverage on the traffic madivas has to reach girls out there positively. Feel free to reach me at [email protected]

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True love does not only entail finding an ideal partner in love or someone you can plan your day to day activities with, it is not only doing things together. True love is much more, it is about growing as a person with someone and discovering yourself with your partner…

We all know that men do not joke with money, food or $3x and for them losing money to a ponzi scheme must be frustrating. Many men have lost millions to this ponzi scheme and have been confused as to how they will spend their Christmas. The only way a…

All guys are the same and always want the same things irrespective of whether they are rich, poor, old, saints or sinners. I have listened to many guys talk about the kind of woman they want and this top three things have never been missing from the list of things….

We all fight with our significant other and sometimes over irrelevant issues, though, couples fight are normal and a fact of life but the most important thing is not taking it to be a big deal. Truth be told, it is sometimes good to argue with your partner because it…

It is a fact that ladies are always tensed and scared to meet their man’s family, it does happen because the lady does not have a clue of the kind of people she is going to meet. She is unaware of their norms, beliefs or values and any fault from…

Many relationships go through breakup at some point and the tendency for some couples to get back together are positive, though, it sometimes depends on the cause of the breakup. Most people do not analyse the situation before going back to their ex, they go back and get hurt the…

It is advice-able to put so many things into consideration before taking that bold step of marriage. Marriage is not a joke despite the whole excitement that comes with it, it has it’s own flaws and weaknesses and unless you give it a good thought, you might start on the…

We all sleep, but do you know that the way a woman sleeps speaks so much about her as an individual? How do you sleep? On your side, back or belly? Believe it or not it says a lot about who you are when you are awake. I know this…

Not all abusers are physical when you say or do something they don’t like, there are other ways abusers use to manipulate people and they do it in a way that you will not be able to apprehend until it is too late. Most abusive partners in a relationship are not…

There are levels of things we should tolerate in a relationship, things we can bear and not things you think you need to change. We often confuse everything and then we either end up suffering ourselves or our partner. Either way, here are the things we need to draw lines to…

You don’t have to be in two different relationships to know the difference between mature and immature relationships, your relationship can actually progress from immaturity to maturity. This is also the basic difference between this two, a mature relationship takes time to develop which requires time and it’s not even…

Relationships can’t be as perfect as we want it to really be because perfection does not exist. Most times, we fail at some point and we succeed at a few but either way, we come out of the experience with a new lesson. It’s alright to have a fair share…

The best thing any girl or guy can do for his/herself is to end a toxic relationship but you need to end the relationship peacefully so that it won’t leave you emotionally drained and negative. It’s likely that your relationship would not have a happy ending if you and your…

Cheating is not gender biased and both men and women tend to keep partners hooked up for fun. Though you might think your relationship is real and not for $3x only, but most people had such thought and they later discovered that their partner used them for $3x and not for…

Turning towards your partner when they are asking for your attention is one of the fundamental keys for relationship success, it makes a difference between demonstrating care for your spouse by giving them your attention and regarding them. Your partners internal emotional state is at stake when it’s your turn…

Do you have that friend that does not need an excuse to pick a fight with you or other women in her deficiency setting? This friend seems to be at war with the world and you are one of the few that actually knows her good side and you are…

This might be so confusing especially when you always try to keep your record clean and straight, but sometimes you could be guilty of cheating on your boyfriend unconsciously. You might have tried to figure out what i’m trying to say but we cannot deny the fact that we do…

It is very hard to cope with difficult in-laws that you are not in good terms with and the fact is you cannot remove them from your life because they are part of your family. You need a whole lot of tolerance, patience and understanding to live with difficult in-laws…

In most cases, we think we understand our friends quite well but what if the feelings of love begin to surface? Things can get a little trickier in this case. A friend might just think of you in a way that is more serious than mere friendship, this happens when there…

We all know that cell phones are now a need and it has become difficult for us to function without a phone. But truthfully, cell phones damages relationships that we might not even know or noice on time not until the damages is done. There are ways in which your…

Codependent relationship signifies a degree of unhealthy clingy-ness where one person doesn’t have self-sufficiency or autonomy. Codependent adults often start out as children who grew up with the negative pattern of trying to take care for others at the expense of themselves, the key sign is your sense of purpose…

Most people are so in love with themselves that there is no more space left for any other person, they are so self-centered that anything that will not be profitable to them will never be part of their agenda. This kind of people will never wake up one morning and…

Every girls dream is to be with a guy who can make her feel like she is in a fairy tale just like she sees in the movies. But the truth is the reality is quite contrary to that, in most cases you have to face lot of guys who…

Most times, it is good to go all out and buy extravagant gifts for your partner, you can plan a trip or surprise them with some other romantic gesture but it can’t be the only thing a relationship requires to thrive on. You need to pay attention to little things…

Trust issues is one of the things that affects a relationship negatively, it is so important to trust your partner when you are in a committed relationship. Your partner should be your closest friend, someone you can tell anything to without worrying about judgment and your partner should be able…

There are certain behaviors we use to sabotage our desires when it comes to relationships. Though, you might think you are ready for love and can go to any extent to keep your relationship but have you thought of your behavior? Is it possible that your own behavior is stopping…

Introverts make an average of 50% in our society which means we all have one introvert in our life. Most people have misunderstood introverts to being aloof or shy without realising that they have many desirable qualities that makes them unique, introverts love people but they do not love spending…

Being in love is one of the most magical experiences in life, though, questions if to stay or not to stay will arise when you just meet someone new. You will start to think if she/he is the one or not, you will have doubts whether you are both compatible,…

It hurts a lot when the one person you love cheats on you, it is sure the worst way to be heart broken. It might seem like someone stabbed you at your back and you feel like laughing because you were so stupid to not see it coming. As humans,…

Everything gets old at some point in life and so does love, though, love is worth fighting for but when your relationship is at the breaking point and you are prolonging it with hopes to rescue the lost cause when deep inside our hearts we know there is no love…

Ladies gets different reactions from people around them when they announce their relationship to the world. Some friends will act like they are more happier than you about your relationship while some will act indifferent, there will be a handful of girlfriends that won’t be able to cover their jealousy…

Psychological manipulation can be intentional or otherwise and the sole aim is to make the victim doubt their own sanity. There are signs that determines whether your partner is manipulating you or not and without further ado, here are the signs that shows your partner is manipulating you; 1. Always Apologizing…

Relationships are formed between two people that are attracted to each other in a romantic way. The first thing in any relationship is attraction, it might be emotional or physical attraction which other feelings such as loyalty and commitment might develop later or not. Most people do not really know…

There is need for utmost honesty in every relationship, but many men have claimed that women prefers lies rather than telling them the truth. Well, they might not be far from the truth as telling women the truth will hurt them and they can as well question your loyalty to…

Though, forever is a long time but when you find the right partner that is exactly how long you want to be in love. Study have shows that out of a hundred percent couples who were married for more than ten years, 45% reported that they were still very much…

There might come a time in your relationship when things will stop feeling right irrespective of how you both are in love. The uneasiness and discomfort you feel at this time could be as a result of the usual restlessness couples tend to feel sometimes or it could be a…

We have all been through breakup at some point in time in our relationship and the thought of should I quit or stick with the hope that things will improve eventually will have to creep in. It has always come down to asking ourselves few questions before making a firm…

This is a message we received in our inbox. We have given advice and set up a poll to seek public opinion. If you have an issue bothering you, feel free to send a mail to [email protected] Being afraid to be in a romantic relationship happens and it is quite understandable….

Selfish behaviour is one of the reasons a relationship can be imbalanced. We all can be selfish at some point in our lives especially when we are in need of something badly, but you have to notice and make a decision when being selfish is a constant occurrence in your…

Communication is important in a relationship and it can either make or break your relationship. We have our choices on the words we speak to our partner and anyhow we want to speak, our words either hurt or help our relationship. You should always remember that we all have a…

This is a message we received in our inbox. We have given advice and set up a poll to seek public opinion. If you have an issue bothering you, feel free to send amailto [email protected] What most ladies should realize is that, if a man does not end up marrying you…

Relationship often starts with hearts and butterflies, everything will be fine and marvelous. You will always agree with each other and also compromise but as the relationship matures past the honeymoon stage, opinions, differences and individual personalities will start to surface. It is then you start to experience the variation…

Guys aren’t always pronounced when they want to kiss their partner, especially when it is the first kiss. First kiss can be difficult to initiate especially when he is shy or scared of being rejected or hoping you would make the first move. It is traditionally up to a guy…

Sometimes we look at couples who seem to have it all but I have come to realise the common notion of not judging a book by it’s cover since you don’t know what lies in the pages. However, some people just have a genuinely amazing relationship. Relationships are where two…

This is a message we received in our inbox. We have given advice and set up a poll to seek public opinion. If you have an issue bothering you, feel free to send a mailto [email protected] Most ladies have been pressured to have $3x and most of them give in to…

This is a message we received in our inbox. We have given advice and set up a poll to seek public opinion. If you have an issue bothering you, feel free to send a mailto [email protected] Breakup is horrible and sometimes it takes a whole lot of things for us to…

You just met a nice guy, he starts telling you about his long term relationship that recently ended then you realize you are his first date after the breakup. There would be so much doubt in your mind, you will wonder if you will end up getting heart broken if…

Guys are much pickier than you expect them to be and keeping them can be quite challenging. what guys like seems to change every minute and that is enough reason to start losing interest because girls are always confused on how to keep their guy interested. However, all hope is…

Starting off a new relationship can be really cute and amazing, to see the miracle of love with silly and loving gestures is simply adorable. However the cute gestures can easily turn into annoying habits, though, it is only irritating for the on lookers and not in the least for the…

This is a message we received in our inbox. We have given advice and set up a poll to seek public opinion. If you have an issue bothering you, feel free to send a mail to [email protected] Most women have the same problem of suffering in silence hoping that one day…

The phrase “I love you” have been habitually used frequently that it doesn’t have effect anymore on partners as many have used it to be one of the most deceptive phrase. Though, there is nothing wrong with it but it would be great to mix it up a bit. You…

Life is not always rosy, we all have days that things will not seem right it might be for days, weeks or even months. All our plans and efforts get completely destroyed and hopelessness is the only thing we feel. It is important to remember that in times like this,…

This is a message we received in our inbox. We have given advice and set up a poll to seek public opinion. If you have an issue bothering you, feel free to send a mail to [email protected] Most ladies with violent spouse always look for a way to fix it without…

This is a message we received in our inbox. We have given advice and set up a poll to seek public opinion. If you have an issue bothering you, feel free to send a mail to [email protected] Life does not come with the convenience of letting us know the path to happiness and…

It’s easy to fall in love but staying in love takes a lot of real courage, strength and determination. It entails going through ups and downs, the good times and the bad, both happiness and pain. Not all men are equipped to display all these qualities even if they have…

Women always invest so much in a relationship, they put their heart and soul, trust blindly, care immensely and love recklessly. They don’t put themselves first when they are in love, they trust and give their partner everything they have. Men want to be selected by a strong and independent woman,…

This is a message we received in our inbox. We have given advice and set up a poll to seek public opinion. If you have an issue bothering you, feel free to send a mail to [email protected] Being left for someone else can make you feel abandoned and with feelings of…

A broken relationship is like a deep wound that is a result of constant blows to your soul and heart unintentionally and at times intentionally. It is a hard decision but you don’t have to give up unless you have tried to make it work from every possible angle because…

This is a message we received in our inbox. We have given advice and set up a poll to seek public opinion. If you have an issue bothering you, feel free to send a mail to [email protected] Partners mismatch has separated countless couples and is still destroying relationships. There is no…

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