The truth of the matter is that anyone who cheats is SELFISH and IMMATURE, whether they’re a Man or Woman. Their need for sexual gratification blatantly supersedes their desire to be in a Committed Relationship as verbally expressed (and psychotically) physically displayed through false actions that lead the other person to believe that they’re noble & respectable.

The bottomline is that they don’t care about you, or your feelings nor your emotional well being – nevertheless “LOVE You” if they’ll cheat. It’s NOT in them to love themselves enough to be true, so what makes you think they’ll live to love in truth with you? Women and Men who’re looking for something REAL need to understand that a person will NEVER love you the way you deserve to be loved, without you TEACHING them how to.

I’m not suggesting that if we’re being cheated on it’s 100% our fault, but we have to accept some of the responsibility. Why? Because a cheater exposed who is forgiven even once by us, is actually being ENABLED! When we stop making excuses for their IMMATURITY, they’ll GROW UP!

*Author of a Self-Help Relationship book entitled, “Y’all Got The Game Fu#%ed Up” is avidly outspoken about Male/Female relationships & the missing dynamic that leads most to failure these days. Visit his website listed above to explore this movement.