I just saw a great clip by thread and I realized something. I have always been attracted to "sexual sadists". The kind of lady that gets off on inflicting pain on others.
But it's quite rare on the net and in real life. It's ok if the guys/slaves have an orgasm but somehow the Ladies think it's not done to have an orgasm themselves? Especially the ProDommes seem to think that they should be iron ladies without feelings. Is that really true or am I not looking hard enough?

Of course there is one problem with sexual arousal. The lady in question might lose "control" and really go too far. In other words, chances are that the victim gets hurt like marcus told in his thread about responsibilities.

Yeah, they don't exist or if they do they are extremely ugly girls or something. :P

Well, first of all you should check out the clip made by thread. She is definitely not ugly.
To be honest I don't care that much if she's pretty or not. Sometimes not so pretty Ladies have better facial expressions. It makes their smiles so much more evil

Well one certainly has to be responsible. I actually just read that thread by marcus and reading the responses as well, especially the last one, I may be posting on that subject again.
The same should apply to guys? get a little more detailed on your question burgie, then I may be able to respond better

Thanks in advance!

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Mistress Sara

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Well one certainly has to be responsible. I actually just read that thread by marcus and reading the responses as well, especially the last one, I may be posting on that subject again.
The same should apply to guys? get a little more detailed on your question burgie, then I may be able to respond better

Thanks in advance!

Always Above...
Mistress Sara

Well, Moxi pointed out that an orgasm is a personal thing. I agree that an orgasm is indeed a personal thing. But it's just as personal for men as for women. That doesn't explain why you see some guys getting off in clips and almost none of the women.

When you look at Vanilla porn, it is very common to see both the male and the female have orgasms, either real or faked. The women's reaction is just as important, if not more important, than the men. Certainly people have certain preferences; if it's the guy's reaction you want, then the cum shot videos are maybe what you want, while for the female, woman who make lots of noises and facial expressions are big. The Japanese take female orgasm noises to anther level, all high pitched. In these films, orgasms from both genders are very public.

But in this D&S in general and trample in particular, the women rarely have sex with the men, and rarely show if they are stimulated on camera. It is quite a switch from vanilla media. I think it is partly the role they play of being in control, so they don't show their enjoyment as some kind of vulnerability. In trample in particular, there is the seeming distance between the Mistress and the sub, she is "way up there." To be honest, I think there are a number of cases where women become dommes mainly because they can make good money without taking their clothes off or having sex. They can just act the role, and keep their private parts for private life (perhaps present company excluded!).

Some of the old Anaconda videos are exceptions to this rule. They made a point of show that they were "turned on" by what they were doing. I personally enjoy have the woman enjoy the event and don't care if the guy likes it on film. The less cock I see, the better.

well I can tell you that I refrain from doing this on camera for my own personal reasons and the fact that most men usually dont beleive that it actually happened in the first place. "oh it's fake" or they don't exist. It kind of boggles my mind a bit. How close minded can some men be.....do they actually think they are the only ones who enjoy getting off on woman trampling them, and that there arent any womwn out there who don't enjoy having an orgasm with the sight of her rug being underfoot?

I have had many men ask me this, whether they beleive it or not, i really don't care..i've never once questioned the fact that they get turned on by trampling, because I know they do. It just seems that they always have to question or doubt the woman who is doing the trampling. Yes some woman do it just for the money..but there are those select gals, I being one of them, that love what I do. I just thought i'd clarify this to some of you who are disbeleivers. Just my 2 cents.

Burgie- LOL well you have a point there! yes it is personal for men too, and I'm sure there are some men who are uncomfortable with doing that on camera, BUT NOT MANY!!! Most tramplees are very submissive when underfoot and don't mind showing their "vunerable" side. I think flapjak hit it on the head when he said that we dominants are the ones in control, so losing control would maybe be a sign of weakness. I'm not speaking for all woman here, but I certainly have a problem letting myself "lose control" when I get extremely aroused. I feel I have to keep it in check..if you know what I mean. LOL

Yeah... but what do you think? If you ask a guy what he would rather watch, a guy getting off or girl. What would he choose, would you think? I know I would definitely go for the girl.

Can it really be commerce that has put a stop to Femdom orgasms?

I personally do not like seeing a guy in 'all his glory' so to speak. I understand what you are saying, that most guys, because they are such visible creatures...would love to see a Woman enjoying herself. I guess it depends on the Woman. But you have to think, just because she does not advertise that she's had an orgasm, doesn't mean she hasn't.

I recall at at a kink club years ago, I was standing on one slave, while I had another tied to the St. Andrews cross as I was flogging him. The experience was awesome and yes...I had Myself a mighty orgasm because I got into the scene so much. I did mention this to kenrug after the fact, because he was there, it was him that I was standing on! After I told him about it, he wondered why I didn't tell him about it right then! So I get what you are saying, but I think it just depends on the Woman.

Always Above...
Mistress Sara

__________________Live everyday to the fullest, you never know who is around the corner...

You only have one life, if you value it, go home" - Connor McCloud

Love is giving someone the ability to destroy you and trusting them not to.- Anonymous

You don't love a woman because she is beautiful; she is beautiful because you love her. -Anonymous

I was being tongue in cheek with my previous post, yeah there is hot girls who get off on physical abusing and degrading a man. Sexual sadists. They are a rarity though, and I think some chicks 'act' and play a role because they know many sub guys dig it, so it is a positive attention thing or for whatever reason.