Friday, July 27, 2012

Holy Moly. I can't believe it's been 3 months since I posted last. My world has been a whirlwind, in a great way, truly. I've been working a lot and I'm absolutely loving my non-profit job. Still trying to figure out how to save the world, but I think the answer is getting closer - it lies within lots of meditation, little sleep and a great many scoops of humble pie. I'm going to post an old blog because I'm also trying to do 47 things at once (typical), and I love this clip. I just didn't post it earlier because I didn't want to offend anyone. But I think it's ok now. And I swear that I'll write some fresh content for you (all 4 of you - thanks for humoring me ;)) soon.

This post is dedicated to all single men: I've come to the conclusion that my dating life is ultimately for the sole purpose of giving me good material to facilitate my writing career. So thanks to you.

And now, Buckethead:

I had a “date” tonight. Concerts are typically not the first
thing I spend my money on (usually that would be canned goods, toilet paper and
the occasional $1 movie theatre night when my zany, gentile side takes over). But
when the chance comes around once every six years, you figure out how to
rearrange your schedule to accommodate an invitation – even a last-minute one. And
the dude said these musicians were an amazing percussionist and a prodigious
guitar player. Sweet.

I realized immediately that we weren’t on the same page
about the evening when I showed up looking spunky yet sophisticated in a
thoughtfully coordinated outfit and he gave me a high five. My stature
approached just around his nipple – a height difference that allowed me the
subtle opportunity to read his t-shirt: “Outside of a dog, a book is a man’s
best friend. Inside of a dog, it’s too dark to read.” Thank you, Groucho Marx,
for starting the evening off classy. By
the way, the cute guy that asked me to a concert will henceforth be referred to
as “homeboy” to protect his dignity…

We got a beer and immersed ourselves in the sound waves emerging
from a large man playing synthesized tuba. It sounded like a techno didgeridoo
and was actually pretty cool. But all I could think about was how his mother
felt about his success after so many years of listening to him scream into his
tuba in the basement.

As the next act came on – what I can best describe as Mel
Brooks on speed beating on a fake harp to pre-recorded electronica – Homeboy
finished his beer and offered to get us another round. When I politely explained
that I was still hung over from St. Patrick’s Day, he responded, “Well, I’m
gonna get boozed up.” And lo, it came to
pass.

We enjoyed the rest of Mel Brooks’s performance (the
highlight of which was the screeching sock puppet) and bantered back and forth
a bit, with profound questions like “What percentage of the audience do you
think is stoned?” (I low-balled at 50%.) Finally, the man of the hour:
Buckethead. Buckethead, the master guitar guru; Buckethead, whose fingers are
so long and nimble he was destined to
become a world-famous a musician and a most dexterous lover; Buckethead, the
man whose title is a symbolic exploration of our minds’ isolation from
reality….well, perhaps it had more to do with the perfectly contoured KFC
bucket he wore upon his dome. We’ll never know because the true artist was
hidden behind a white mask, which probably is symbolic of his isolation
from…oh, whatever. For the next three hours he proceeded to violate the guitar with
truly impressive adroitness and entertaining compositions. Homeboy would
intermittently lean down to scream sweetly in my ear: “This shit is blowing my
mind!!”

When his digits became fatigued, Buckethead placed foam
replacements upon his hands and busted robot moves that would have made Michael
Jackson swoon. When he got bored with that, he swung a chainsaw around (powered-off,
obviously) and a pair of nunchaku that
he clearly had been practicing with for more than 3 weeks. Maybe he and tuba
dude practiced in the basement together in middle school. He chucked the nunchaku and proceeded to toss
toys from a sack into the front rows.

Meanwhile, Homeboy was getting progressively more
intoxicated and asked if it’d be cool for me to drive him home. I mean, we were
headed to the same neighborhood, and he smelled good. So I agreed. As the show was wrapping up, he asked me to
borrow a $1.50 to round out his cash for a CD.
I pulled a 20 out of my bra and handed it to him (which apparently was a
magical trick to a tall drunk man with a great angle on a low-cut shirt). In
exchange, he tossed me his entire wallet.

I had flash visions of encountering passport-sized
pornographic photos and raisins: “Um, I don’t know what to do with this. Do you
really want me to dig through your wallet?”

“Oh. Um, here” – he handed me a $5 bill and said “we’ll work
the rest out later.” I sighed and headed for the door, pausing once more so he
could trace prospective traffic routes on the plaid sweatshirt of an equally
inebriated Buckethead enthusiast.

He spent a portion of the ride home explaining how he was
hoping to meet up the next day with all of the people who had bailed on him for
the concert. Oh….so, you mean, I probably
could have spent a little less time on my hair then, huh? We finally got
back to the place where he was crashing for the weekend (I forgot to mention he
was an out-of-towner), and he leaned in closely to me, looking deeply into my
eyes. It was not romantic – he was simply trying to focus. “This was awesome.
Thanks for coming with me” (a sentiment he would reiterate via text hours later
- sogreatweshoulddothisagainsometime).
He raised his hand for one final high-five as we parted ways and I drove off
into the night with sock puppet screeches still ringing in my ears.

About Me

My name is Rachel Winner. In January 2012, a woman I truly admire looked me in the eye and called me an adventurer. Not wanting to be disrespectful, I didn’t argue or tell her that I am terrified of kayaking , I think camping is stupid (probably because my friends keep inviting me to go in December) and that I’d rather do laundry than cling to the side of a cliff. She explained that last year, I came to her saying “I’m moving to Mexico. I have no idea what I’m doing and if I can do it, but that’s my plan.” And I did. Nearly a year later, we are having the same conversation about my new writing business in North Carolina, WinnersWords. And yet, here I go. I started this blog when I moved to Mexico, and I’m keeping it up with life lessons, musings and observations – all of which make up my grand adventure.