And the Sunday sun shines down on San Francisco bayAnd you realise you can't make it anywayYou have to wash the carTake the kiddies to the parkDon't marry her, fuck me

And the Sunday sun shines down on San Francisco bayAnd you realise you can't make it anywayYou have to wash the carTake the kiddies to the parkDon't marry her, fuck me

Comments/Interpretations

by Laufearless on 5/17/2008 6:36amI love this song! My family used to sing all these songs on road trips lol

by teigan arthur on 5/30/2008 3:43ami really like this song me and my dad always listened to it and we thought of sue in manea in cambrigde xxxx

by jodie on 5/30/2008 10:54amWOW!

by Little69 on 6/5/2008 5:51pmOne of my all time favourites.

by john on 6/20/2008 11:07amit is have me not fuck me!

by tash on 6/23/2008 1:43pmit is 'fuck me' but on the radio they play the 'have me' version

by Tony on 6/23/2008 1:48pmThe original was fuck me, but had to be changed for radio play...

by D on 6/23/2008 7:35pmJohn - that's just the radio edit. In the original album version, it is fuck me.

by Jeffrey Wrobel on 7/10/2008 11:40pmGee, John, you're a sheltered soul. The Beautiful South play music that would make a yuppie stop and listen, but their words go way over their heads (John) and their phrases cut deep. Superior songsmanship. Check out Rotterdam, 36D, and Prettiest Eyes. If you're a fan, you already have.

by paula Darling on 8/16/2008 2:21pmwill be using this to walk up the isle on the 19th may

by Ads on 8/30/2008 3:54pmwow amazing

by amanda on 9/10/2008 6:45ammy boyfriend just break up with me for another girl, and this is the only song that makes me happy

by big joe glasgow on 9/28/2008 3:09amsmashin song

by John W. on 10/29/2008 9:03amI know how the guys feels, I should have fucked the first one and not married the other!

by rachel on 1/16/2009 3:20pmi love this song me n my cousin made up our own version thats really funny lol!

by will C on 1/27/2009 5:10amJeffrey Wrobel - wow - i looked up those songs you said, i wasn't a fan of BF, but i am now....

by callum on 2/16/2009 3:49pmwere it says think of me it sounds like finger me instead lol

by Ben on 5/29/2009 9:40amHaha that's right Callum!!

by Rowiie on 6/3/2009 2:00pmI love this song its amazing ox.I got it no my phone :) Verry good ox. Nice to sing as well xo.

by Paul on 7/12/2009 2:12amI've recently bumped into an ex who has been singing this to me, just found this site after looking for the lyrics. She may have a point lol

by David on 7/18/2009 4:17pmis it a lover or a prostitute?I think is the second, because of 'I'll never grow so old and flabbyThat could never be'.

by Chris on 8/11/2009 5:01amIt is 'Fuck me', not 'Have me'.

by Marie on 8/12/2009 3:26pmThis is a brilliant song, but I have one version on my mp3 and the other version on cd which I play in car with the kids.

by alex on 9/26/2009 5:04pmi always used to listen to the beautiful south with my dad when i was about 5 and i remember all the songs :) he always used to skip this one though...now i know why!!! lol x

by U on 10/27/2009 6:05amThis is my life...

by beth on 10/28/2009 11:04ami agree with callumthats why i looked up the lyrics after i heard it!

by Lorien on 4/12/2010 4:50pmFirst time Iīve listened to this song, I thought I didnīt understand it clearly, then Iīve heard it twice and understood with no doubt "fuck me".... I almost had to stop the car, īcause in this moment the cigarette I wanted to light almost felt out of my mouth, īcause my smile was to big... ;-) Really great stuff, lots of sarcasm, simply great!

by Colin on 6/7/2010 5:14pmHeard the south singin this live in Cardiff last night. Only one word....supberb!!

Is that a euphemism for a low blow or just her coming on to him? Confused face.

by Jimmy on 9/23/2010 5:59pmthe f me version has a better meaning.

by AJH on 9/30/2010 5:12amI'm lucky, in Germany you can hear F*** me in the radio.

by Al on 12/19/2010 5:56pmI disagree with David who thinks that the original version is about a prostitute singing. I think that the original is more about a woman who sees in the guy what marriage will do to him and that he has a tendency to let it destroy him whereas the independence that they both feel in a "fuck" relationship will preserve his spirit or at least not allow him to have it destroyed as convincingly. The radio edit works on another level though. The persona becomes a girl who sees her possible b/f being ruined by entering a marriage that will become stale and conservative because his partner will just see that she has caught the fish, now she can throw away the rod and cease working on their relationship and that. similarly, he will give up. She is prepared to offer more than that and to work at their relationship.

by marin on 4/8/2011 3:47amYou can hear f**k me in Croatia as well. I agree, don't merry her... you know the rest

It is pretty much a classical Missionary position manouvre that both tightens the vaginal muscles and ensures minimal fumbling around and mishit entries...just sayin :)

by Nick on 11/21/2011 4:04pmFYI it is 'Fuck me'

Source: Friend of Jacqui Abbott (once lead singer of The Beautiful South)

by sara on 2/15/2012 10:26amlove it so much good song

by jade on 7/10/2012 12:58pmlove the song

by Darren on 7/23/2012 4:30pmyou are all missing the point of "GRAB YOUR SWEATY BOLLOCKS AND SLOWLY RAISE HER KNEE", it's a reference to the wife having the husband by the bollocks, and if he steps out of line, pain will follow.. the mistress is just gtelling how it is, and it wouldn't be like that with her, if he didn't marry and just fucked her he would retain his freedom... the song is a fine advert for staying single and getting a fuck buddy :-)

by Fred on 10/10/2013 4:19pmDarren has it. It's a song sung by a (potential?) fuck buddy to a guy about to get married.

by BOB on 3/5/2014 12:23pmthe first time I listened to this song I was about 6 so yeah oh well at least I had good parents at teaching SE jk :D