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When it comes to women’s beautiful bottoms there is a difference between what men enjoy. I, Diane was born with a fairly large bottom. I can remember when I was younger being told I had better watch what I ate because it would go straight to my bottom. Luckily I was blessed with people around me who greatly enjoy a rather large bubble butt. I do work hard to keep it from getting out of control. I am familiar with about every squat ever invented. They are not my favorite thing to do but a girl’s gotta stay in charge of a situation. Chilly, on the other hand, has had a rather small bottom that I can cup in my hands. Her bottom keeps trying to run away. She is familiar with squats because she likes that tuck. Those of us who enjoy the graceful beauty of a woman’s behind is familiar with the tuck. Both of us enjoy the concept of having our bottoms worshiped by another person. Chilly is submissive and enjoys when I turn her into my slut for the afternoon. She is very good at rubbing that round bottom of mine. Letting her fingers trail over those soft cheeks and kissing that voluptuousness right in front of her face. Whether it is a man down underneath me or a gorgeous woman; being dominant I enjoy a slow time of kissing that bottom of mine. I like to be on top sitting down on my submissive’s face those cheeks of mine on each side of their face. This put’s the submissive’s tongue lined up perfectly with what they should be concentrating on. When it comes to ass worship slow is the best speed. Time should be well spent on rubbing those cheeks moving on to kissing all over. I do not want an inch of my bottom to missed by those eager lips. After I am very turned on that is when a tongue should be used to tease that long luxurious crack and even down to that tight little hole. I have been asked through the years if I enjoy anal and yes I do but only after enough time has been invested into really getting me worked up. Chilly enjoys being under someone else’s control though she can be a switch when caught in the right mood. She enjoys being bent over with that bottom way up in the air. The act of being exposed and teased is a huge turn on for her. Being pinned down and she would beg to have lips and tongue used to turn her on even more. A hard pounding is something that gets her wet in all the right places. How worked up do you get when it comes to a woman’s bottom? What are some of your favorite things to do or be made to do with those curves? Have you ever had a woman dominate you with her ample booty? What is your favorite shape for a woman’s behind?

Financial domination can seem odd to people who are not familiar with the fetish. This type of the fetish generally appeals to men who earn large sums of money. The man that craves this is the one who feels that his power as a person comes from his ability to maintain a level of income that is far above the women in his life. He wants to be submissive for the same core reasons that any man feels the want to be submissive. These reasons can be anything from the need for a release of stress to want of feeling broken down. When a dominant woman comes into his life he may find himself not able to reach the level of submission unless money is involved. Remember his sense of control comes from money so his desire for loss of control also needs to come from money.

There are some men that just enjoy a woman sweetly and seductively draining his wallet of every dollar. He is completely aware of what is happening to him. He enjoys watching her take more and more control over the money that he works so very hard for. When it comes to playing online there can be a number of ways of doing this. Online shopping can invoke the same feelings as being drug around all day while a woman burns through his funds on the things that she wants. He is only there for the money he can provide. His boredom is part of her appeal she wants him to be uncomfortable. Another way that is commonly used with online play is demanding a man just to give her money he knows he will have no control on how she spends it. He knows that she could use it on someone else. This type of play appeals to men that are drawn to the thought of being dismiss-able or even to some of the cuckold crowd.

Drain the wallet and financial domination is all about having someone take over control over something that society tells us to protect. The appeal of this is being unsettled beyond just the moment of play.

I am the naughty girl next door the one that teases you in a short skirt or shorts. I wear those high heels just so you turn your head I want your full attention. The one that exercises naked with her blinds open. I have no problem walking outside topless to get the mail or bends over in front of you because I know you are peeking. It is such a thrill being an exhibitionist and having everyone stare at me. I really like looking down and seeing your pants bulging knowing that I caused that and all you can do is beg. I know that you have someone in your life but I want some cunnilingus and I will get it from you. The harder you try to stay away from me the more of my domination you will feel. I don’t know why you think you can escape my Doctor tried to not give me what I wanted now he is fully under my control and takes care of me in every way. I have some nice big DD breasts that I enjoy going bra less on my morning run. I know you can not take your eyes off those boobs bouncing. A bit of a tom girl that has a great time with my friends doing a little bit of female wresting right there in the back yard. You can not take your eyes off us as we pin each other down our hands all over each others sweaty bodies. It gets you in so much trouble when you get caught us girls know that and we laugh about it all the time. The more embarrassed you get the more fun it is. Do not really care who sees me naked. I will walk out any time of day; after all what is wrong with a little bit of public nudity. We both know you want more than anything your own private lap dance my big round booty rubbing against that throbbing cock. You can try and stay away but I will get what I want a Southern Girl always gets what we want. Sassy, Sultry and Such a Tease! You can not resist.

Are you secretly a girl inside? Have you always been sneaking away and trying on soft silky girly things? Or maybe you were too scared to do that so you just played in your head. I understand your urges to be more than what you are right now. We can talk about those girly things that you like wearing so much or that you desire to feel against your skin. I will help you explore that side of you that you hide from the rest of the world. We can pick out a girly name for you one that will make you feel so special around everyone else because they will never know. You can go on your very first shopping trip and we can have so much fun with all the things that you find. I will help you pick out that perfect shade of lipstick. We can choose together that perfect first pair of panties soft and silky against your skin. Have you ever wore pantyhose? Well I will teach you how to put them on and oh heavenly they will feel against your skin. Were you a secretly into voyeurism your whole life, but you were not watching girls because they turned you on instead you were watching because you envious of the things they got to wear. You might have a secret stash of women’s magazines just so you can look at all those gorgeous corsets the ones that make the girls breast look so perky. Or even just a few pages ripped out of a catalog so you can dream about the day you get to where those stockings. Have you ever cross dressed in someone’s satin things and been so turned on by just the feel of the fabric? I bet you are that guy that always lost the Halloween bet to where a girls costume just so no one would know your little secret. Dressing up is the one thing that haunts your dreams both sleeping and during the day. You have wanted someone to just take over to be under their sweet domination so you have no other choice but to dress the way she desires. You just have to decide which type of girl you want to be a girly one or a slutty one. They both are equally fun. We both know you are trapped inside that ugly male body and just bursting to get out and feel your true feminine self.

I have been studying domination and submission for over thirty years now and the misunderstanding of the relationship between the two is astonding to me. I have only been doing phone sex, camming and amatuer movies for seven years. There is a huge adulteration of the relationship in the industry. I have been kicked out of Mistress sites because I did not follow their rules of what a Mistress should be. I am in and have always been in a loving dominate relationship that is what I crave whether it be male or female in nature. I do not live my life through a heavy hand but when I set the rules I demand that they be followed. I enjoy laughing and having a good time with the people I am with. I do not have to be in complete control all the time in fact there are a lot of times I do not honestly care. One of the major differences between my philosophy of dominate and submissive and the online version is that I am a lifestyler. I have a life that is far more encompassing than just bedroom play. I want my submissives to have happy lives and while I will push their limits I do not go beyond those limits I respect them. While a short term fantasy is a wonderful thing it should never be confused with real life. I often get men that call me saying they want to be a full time live in slave. I have no issue with that there are many people that live that way. But these men have zero understanding of the realities of that life they want a woman to take away everything their family, their friends, their money, their hole self worth. This might make for a great weekend fantasy or for a novel, however, it will not work in the real world. For those that live the life style understand that at the end of the day it is the submissive that is in control of the relationship. It is their level of desire to submit (not be controlled) which creates the wonderful dynamic of this form of relationship. While there is some fun in forced submission play people can not live a day to day life like that it becomes physically, emotionally and mentally exhausting. A submissive has to want to serve and must go out of their way to serve for them to be dominated long term.

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I have always had a big round booty as long as I can remember. The really funny thing is when I was young and being a Southern girl I was told that having a big bottom was a bad thing. When I became an adult I quickly figured out that men like round bottoms. I am not talking about having a turn sideways to get through a door thing more just round and voluptuous. I have been playing in the bdsm/cuckold world since I was 17. I didn’t start doing phone sex or camming until I was in my mid 30’s so everything I have learned of men, women and their liking of round bottoms has come from real world experience. First off women’s magazines lie there is nothing wrong with having a body that looks like a woman should look.

Through the years I have come to realize that I greatly enjoy ass worship. I like to have a man slowly kiss all over my bottom. I greatly enjoy having my ass licked and teased I find this even more enjoyable if I am sitting on a man’s face while he licking all over. The act of smothering someone with my ass is a fairly new for me. I didn’t really start playing with that until I was in my late 30’s. The older I become the more I find myself gravitating towards the dominate side of sexuality. I like the power play between myself and a submissive. I like to feel someone completely under my power because that is the exact place they desire to be. There is just something far more superior about sitting on someone’s face and controlling their breathing by using my round luscious bottom.

The games that can be played with ass worship are far more demanding than those that can be played with foot worship. The feel of those feet all over someone’s face is fun. However, when I sit down on a face like it is my personal throne and proceed to grind all over that is an almost wicked feeling. I like that I can play with a man’s testicles or a woman’s pussy while controlling everything they can and can not do. I enjoy telling someone to lick my ass more or telling them to stick their finger back in my ass hole because I never gave them permission to take it out.

Are you an ass man? Do you like a woman to control you by using her bottom? Tell me all your thoughts in the comments.

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Chilly and I are often asked this question and while we both enjoy a wide variety of things there are a few things that we enjoy a little bit more. We both really like pantyhose there is just something about them that makes a girl very feminine and also in control. I have a great liking to boots well shoes is probably a more adequate description. I adore having my feet worshipped and daunted on. Being worshipped all over my body makes me very happy. Chilly is a little bit more submissive she likes being told what to do. She likes that you tell her how to please you. I have always had a great enjoyment of sissy guys dressing them up, putting them down it is all fun. Now Chilly and I have explored a number of different fetishes so this is more what we enjoy on a regular basis not what we enjoy over all. Do you have a favorite fetish that you want to talk about. Give us a call and lets have some fun with it.

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