Nobody can speak for her, or Aries. They can only speak for themselves and right or wrong, who's to decide that? The whole Playboy argument was ridiculous, right up there with "she deserved to get raped, dressed like that". If they were to turn around and put Hemme in pigtails and bobby sicks and played up the innocent little girl angle - despite giving Hobert a massive heart attack - that would be completely wrong. I would love to know how she really felt and, as I questioned, did she feel sexually harassed or just humiliated?

I agree with you. I don't per say think it was sexual harassment though I'm not an expert on the issue... but pretending like it's ok to put your junk into a girls face because she posed for playboy is probably one of the more inane argumentation I have heard in quite some time.