Medium help?

Am not sure if this is the place to get the answer but I need some direction and help with some stuff that has been bothering me. As I child I saw ghosts all the time! I had dreams all the time of a ghost my whole family saw years before I was even born and they named her the lady in blue! I told my mother when I was a teenager and I described things that I would have never known or seen! It freaked my family out and I later could not dream of her or see ghost as I grew older! However lately I have had a dream of a old friend of mine that I never talk to she was really in a car wreck that made her unable to walk I had a dream that she learned to walk again and the very next day when I woke up she had a facebook update stating she was told by the doctors that her spine repaired itself enough she could start threpy to walk! I havnt talked to her in years! Then the other day i had dream of a some what friend to me child died it went threw all the horrible emotions the family went threw his still alive but it's freaking me out I don't talk to them and there not close enough to me for me to dreaming of them! I have dreams like these all the time and then it happens soo. After! If I don't have a dream like this then I don't remember my dream at all! What is wrong with me and what should I do!!! Any help if you had any would help!

I have the ability to see ghosts too, a few years ago I had a dream that my grandad was going to get bad news and it turned out it was right, the news was that he had bowel cancer. I have been able to control my dreams but spraying lavender on my pillow or casting a protective spell on my bed.