Metro sex column: My boyfriend is suffering from sex problems like ex

This week Metro’s sex and relationship experts help a woman who keeps on experiencing the same problems with sex.

A woman wants sex to be more spontaneous (Picture: Neil Webb)

I split up with my last long-term boyfriend after we started having problems with sexual intercourse. We both dealt with it badly. I met someone else, the sex was great, but it was short-lived.

I am now with a wonderful man but he’s having the same problem. He says it’s not that I don’t turn him on. Our sex isn’t very spontaneous – we both live with our parents and have gone to motels before.

Is it me? Is it a coincidence? I’m confused and sad. I don’t want this relationship to end like the former one, but I can’t pretend that sex isn’t important.

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