An elderly man in Mumbai calls his son in New York and says,
'I hate to ruin your day son, but I have to tell you that your mother and I are getting a divorce; 35 years of marriage... and that much misery is enough!'
'Dad, what are you talking about?' the son screams.
'We can't stand the sight of each other any longer,' the old man says.
'We're sick of each other, and I'm sick of talking about this, so you call your sister in Hong Kong and tell her!'
Frantic, the son calls his sister, who explodes on the phone.
'Like heck they're getting divorced,' she shouts, 'I'll take care of this.'
She calls Mumbai immediately, and screams at the old man, 'You are not getting divorced. Don't do a single thing until I get there. I'm calling my brother back, and we'll both be there tomorrow. Until then , don't do a thing, DO YOU HEAR??' and she hangs up.
The old man hangs up his phone and turns to his wife. 'Okay', he says, 'It's all set. They're both coming for our anniversary and paying their own airfare!!'

MORAL:
No man / woman, is busy in this world all 365 days.
The sky is not going to fall down if you take few days LEAVE to make your parents or friends happy.

Always Remember Charlie Chaplin's 3 Heart touching statements:-

1st- Nothing is permanent in this world, not even our Troubles..

2nd- I like walking in the rain, because nobody can see my tears..

And

3rd MOST IMP- the most wasted day in life, is the day, in which, we have not laughed..

I’m choosing to take the 'lesson' it has served and learn from it I’m choosing to be 'the bigger' person.

I’m choosing my 'peace of mind' because that’s what I 'truly' need. I don’t need more drama. I don’t need people making me feel like I’m not good enough. I don’t need fights and arguments and 'fake' connections. I’m slowly learning that sometimes 'not' saying anything at all says everything.'

*I’m slowly learning that reacting to things that upset you gives someone else power over 'your' emotions.

You can’t control what others do but you can control how you respond, how you handle it, how you perceive it and 'how much of it' you want to take personally. I’m slowly learning that most of the time, these situations say nothing about you and a lot about the other person.

I’m slowly learning that even if I react, it won’t change anything, it won’t make people suddenly love and respect me, it won’t magically change their minds.

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Wjkk wjkf,
sangat ji, I am in the middle of taking santheya of Sri Guru Granth Sahib Ji but I did not take santheya of sri dasam granth ji except for like jaap Sahib, svaiye, etc. I would like to do a Sehaj Paath Sahib of sri dasam. I feel like reading dasmesh pita’s granth. I am doubting if it is ok to do a sehaj paath sahib without santheya.
Thank you,

From what ive heard you cant have true love untill you do not have the fear of god in you.... so how can you love maharaj? If you had the fear of god then that wouldnt happen(what your saying). Also ive heard true love only starts when you get to see god.
So how can you say you love maharaj? Im confused........

Whether anyone likes it or not, there are biological differences between men and women and millions of years of evolution and thousands of years of culture are going to be an enforcing a lot of behaviours.
Reality is yes you are correct, a cheating woman is going to be seen as expendable, there will be men that will see her as easy. A man who does cheat is not going to be the same way in this instance.
" A key that can unlock any lock is seen as a master key, however a lock that can be opened by any key is a lousy lock"
I don't want to get into your personal anecdotes but a husband and wife should complement each other, but the problem is that they are made to compete with another.
That is a big part of the problem.