Archive for Let’s Talk About SEX! – Page 2

Most recently, I have been humbled by how I made a few decisions totally dishonoring my moral code, my truth, my knowing.

I’m going to go vulnerable heart open revealing in my next book The Reluctant MILF… decisions I made that led to me hiding and punishing myself for having gone against my truth, sentencing myself with a life of hell in a prison… with a Pollyanna happy face on to stay above water, all the time denying this painful truth… why? Because I didn’t believe I could change it.

Wrong.

We are limitless beings. We can change anything we damn well choose.

And the KEY to changing anything is to honor yourself no matter what. Honoring yourself is taking the time to hear your truth, follow your truth, take actions aligned with your truth, a willingness to go against the crowd and be the leader of One if necessary… to honor yourself as the most important person in your world, for you ARE. Read More →

What is a girl supposed to do when his sex drive is more robust than yours? Do you have to keep up or should he slow down?

Neither. Or both. It’s a dance. Notice the most amazing dance performances with couples… they both don’t do the same thing all the time, right? One has a solo, then the other. Sometimes it’s intense, other times slow and sweet.

The first thing is to destroy the judgment that something is wrong… nothing’s wrong! You’re just doing a new dance! For me, if I think I have to perform, reach orgasm and he wants that and wants sex all the time, it’s a lot of pressure! Yet what if he wants to devour me, please me, pleasure me, and all I have to do is receive? And whatever happens …happens? Be willing to create what works for you here. Read More →

One night stands. Such shame around them. Such a deep topic rich with insights and possibilities…

With the clients I have who were single, not dating and had a one night stand and feel ashamed… I ask why? Was it fun? Great! Were you honored? Great! Did you grow, expand and learn about yourself? Great! Were they grateful for you, your body, your beauty, your self expression? Great!

The one night stands only seemed to hurt when people were NOT honored, didn’t have fun, the other wasn’t grateful for them, it was passionately unconscious and addictive, not joyously a CHOICE on both parties. Read More →

That’s why the more you adore your body, the more turned on you get. The more you dissolve your shame of your sexual nature, the more sex appeal you ooze! The more you erase guilt for having pleasure, the more pleasure you attract and enjoy! Read More →

I highly doubt any of us have gotten away with NEVER being rejected, put down or looked at weird for asking for what we want in bed. In fact a man literally ran OUT of my HOUSE once! (No I’m not going to tell you why… at least not yet…)

In fact all you have to do to discover your flavor of sexuality is too much or not enough is read the cover of Cosmo. I think I’m pretty good at felacio having hosted all those Sinclair Education Institute Videos… and yet I don’t know 17 ways to please him orally before noon! Read More →

Hands down the best advice I give my female clients to talk sexy without sounding stupid, which has resulted in getting the best seat in the restaurant when they were fully booked for the night or making a man pop the question who used to be a player… is to talk with her other set of lips. Yes, down there. Not a ventriloquist trick… just source your words from down there, notice how your voice will be lower, you’ll drop into this temptress energy, you’ll feel a little naughty and he won’t know what hit him. Read More →