On Monday, November 04, 2002 4:39:00 PM – I wrote a Feature Story titled “When God Steps In” – This was one of my favorite topics to discuss for a variety of reasons. One, religion is an order to control people; two, who told anyone there was a God, maybe it’s a Goddess (but why would anyone think that way); three, No one controls your destiny but you.

Christian Mingle site is a perfect example. God is waiting for you to find your perfect match. So…let’s say a woman meets a man that beats the crap out of her, is that still God’s match? Because God told you so?

I wrote this article because at the time certain past tense celebrities were coming out of the wood work to discuss their religious ideology due to past life “regressions”. Willie Aames, Tawny Kitaen, Vanity and Kirk Cameron (which oddly I thought it was Kurt).

One of the things I wrote in my article was this, “These bible thumping people come to this way of life as a form of running away from whom they truly are, and that is the difference between people who are kinks and accept and embrace their fetishes instead of running away from it. Kirk Cameron, from what I see on television is in absolute denial about himself. If he turned gay tomorrow, I would not be surprised. Running to God doesn’t mysteriously take away who you are and what you like and what turns you on.”, Marabelle Blue 2002 aka Miss Kink

With that being said….

Dear Kirk,

Once again, you have appeared to create your own spotlight to disparage Gay people in how they live and the choices they make. When I wrote that paragraph about you above, I think and almost ten years later I still believe that you are a Gay man.

There is nothing wrong with that.

However, there is something wrong when you stand there in a righteous manner, with religion as your salvation and the authority to deny the privilege of happiness to other people’s life choices.

Show me where there is this punishing God that will damn people to hell for choosing the one they love that just happens to be the same sex as they are. Show me where it say that being Gay is “unnatural” as you stated. Is there a stone it’s written on? Is there a scroll somewhere? Oh wait, don’t tell me the Bible. Kirk, are you aware that the bible was written by man and that no where it states any of its accuracies about Jesus and who he was.

Believe me when I tell you, if I raised my child to believe he was the son of God, he would believe that shit too.

How can you be surprised of the backlash of your comments about how people choose to live? What right does it give you? The Bible? Again let’s revisit comment up above.

Society today has taken things out of context to adhere to their own accord of what they believe to clear their conscience and then want to take those distorted sense of beliefs and hurt other people with it.

Kirk, let me remind you of someone. His name was Matthew Shepard. Does that name ring a bell? Let me refresh your memory. Matthew Shepard was tortured by two, sick, sadistic assholes who didn’t allow Matthew to be the person he was because it didn’t adhere to their “code of ethics” on how human beings should live.

It is people like YOU Mr. Kirk Cameron, that believes that in spreading your religious ideology will correct any behavior that YOU think is wrong.

What YOU think and what other people think or how they live doesn’t make them wrong. Murder is wrong, hate is wrong (on any fucking level), knocking on people’s door, spreading the “good word” is wrong. People need to learn how to mind their own damn business and spread something else, like being good to Mother Earth and mankind. That means RESPECTING other people’s values and judgments that doesn’t harm or intentionally hurt other people.

Do you think that’s what you’re doing? Do you think that by calling Gay people “unnatural” because YOUR religion tells you it’s wrong? Isn’t what you’re doing wrong? Oh wait it’s because you’re Christian so it makes it right? I keep forgetting that….amazing how one man name Jesus had a spiritual awakening oh so long along suddenly manifested into something out of control *cough cough tax free living cough cough*

I have a friend who is a lesbian and a mother. She is one of the greatest people I know and the best mother her daughter has. For many years she took abuse from an employer who praised her one day and treated the next day treated her like garbage, yelling and going off because he was in a bad mood. One day on one his bad moods, in the midst of his yelling, she got up and walked out. To everyone’s surprise, because she was such a passive person.

But…the day she walked out of that job was the day her life began and I am so proud of her.

Why am I so passionate about this?

Because one day I was that person who sat back and watched everyone be popular, speak their minds, laugh and be confident within their own skin. I was not like that. Instead I resorted to a life of drugs because I didn’t like myself. Thankfully through MY own accord, I made a choice to stop (20 years now my friend).

Long story short, I found myself, I found my voice, and I founded a magazine, Kink~E Magazine that celebrates all walks of life.

No I’m not a lesbian; however I am a human, who has compassion and empathy and respect for how other people live. I don’t live on the ideology of punishments from a God because of the way I live. I love Fetish, I love being kinky and in my world KinkE. Those are MY choices.

Mr. Cameron, here is my piece of advice. Go back under the rock you crawled out of. You had a nice stint on Growing Pains. No one cares about your journey, clearly you have issues you haven’t grown out of yet. Now…grow the fuck up on out of here!