Tuesday, June 12, 2012

On Getting a Haircut and Social Networking

Author's note: an updated version of this article was recently published on Catholic Exchange, so I've replaced the old version here with the new version.

Once in a blue moon, I get my hair cut at a hair salon, and
last week afforded me one of those rare occasions. The lady who cut my hair was
a thin middle-aged woman with a stiff dark bob and arms heavily splattered with
a rainbow of tattoos. She was efficient and excellent at her job; she also was
sensitive to the fact that I, unlike many of her customers, was not a “talker,”
so she resorted to talking to the other stylists as she combed and cut my
hair.

“I had a dream last night that I was pregnant again,” she
laughed, turning to the woman on her right.

“Oh, Lord . . .” groaned her companion, shaking her head.

“I know, isn’t that nuts,” my stylist replied. Glancing at
me in the mirror, she explained that she had sterilized herself years
previously. “So it’s like not even possible,” she said.

I squirmed uncomfortably as the conversation swiftly moved
on to other topics. Somehow I felt guilty at having missed an opportunity. There
sat I, a Catholic young adult with a solid Catholic education under my belt, one
of the John Paul II generation that was supposed to change the world and restore
all things in Christ. And I couldn’t even bring up morality in front of my
hairdresser as she casually dismissed the sacred, life-giving powers of human
sexuality. I just sat there, shrinking behind my big black cape and trying to
melt into the salon chair.

As much as I failed to do so, I did desperately want to
plant a seed, ask a question, open up an opportunity. That’s the way personal
evangelization starts—or so I’m told, because, as you probably have guessed,
I’m awfully bad at it. When face-to-face with a chance to speak the truth to
one who thinks differently, I always seem to utterly flub it. I miss the cue
and fail to speak before the topic changes, or I cannot think of what to say
until hours later.

If that sort of evangelization was the only kind out there,
I would be, to put it mildly, sunk. But fortunately for people like me, in our
day and age, when every faithful Catholic is called upon to be a witness for
Christ in a world that has rejected Him, there is a multitude of other chances,
in many different fields and through many approaches. In particular, in these
times there is an immeasurably vast new ground to be won for Christ, and Pope
Benedict XVI has been particularly vocal in urging young Catholics to use the
new tools at their disposal to evangelize that new world.

I’m speaking, of course, of the internet. There is
incredible potential for evangelization in social networking like Facebook, in
YouTube, in the blogging world, in Twitter. Those of us who can use these tools, who maybe even are skilled at using them, have an
increasingly important responsibility to use them well, to use them for the
greater glory of God. Although they are most often used to transmit secular
messages, these sites can and should be used to actively proclaim the
truth.As our contemporaries,
dissatisfied and longing for happiness, wander about the cyber-world seeking
not only entertainment but fulfillment, we should be out there letting them
know where that abiding fulfillment can be found: in Christ.

Take Facebook, for instance. It’s a social networking stream
that, if not heavily polluted, can at least be pretty pointless—a hub of
mindless procrastination. But precisely because it can reach so many people,
it’s a perfect outlet for Christians to witness to the truth—to post about it,
talk about it, proclaim it in that very public world by showing that they’re
not afraid to identify themselves with their Faith and show the world what
living the Christian life looks like. Catholics on Facebook can share their
faith experiences with those who otherwise may never come into contact with faithful
Christianity. Moreover, because social
networking is exactly that—a network—when someone connects with one person who
lives the Faith to the fullest, he often quickly comes into contact with a
whole group of others who are doing the same. For that reason, Catholics can
use the same outlet to actively spread the Catholic position on key issues. For
instance, I know an actively pro-life young woman who frequently posts pro-life
images and news to her Facebook feed—and all of her “friends,” and her “friends
of friends,” Christian, agnostic, or whatever, pro-life and pro-choice alike, will
stumble across that taste of the truth as they browse their Facebook Newsfeed
over their morning coffee—and even more people will see it if it has “likes” or
comments.

That’s just one small example; but there are many other avenues
of using new media for Christ that are rapidly rising in importance and
influence. Catholic bloggers have in recent years dramatically increased the volume
of the Catholic voice on the web on political issues, pro-life and pro-family
topics. Catholic magazines and news
sites that have moved online in recent years are now reaching a much larger
audience. Young adults gifted with video-editing skills have also taken huge
strides in promulgating the faith to an image-and-sound-byte driven world. Such
tools and opportunities are available for free to everyone with internet access;
so virtually every Catholic has the chance to make the best of them. On the
web, we can also expand our ability to evangelize in new media by connecting
with and supporting other Catholics across the world in ways we were never able
to do previously, so that together we can speak about Christ to a generation
that is giving Him the cold shoulder.

St. Paul in Athens

It’s not my charism to argue apologetics over the fence with
my Baptist neighbor or catechize my hairdresser on sexual morality as she evens
out my bangs. There are gifted individuals that can do that, and it’s a special
responsibility they are called to exercise prudently; I hope that maybe it’s a
skill I can pick up with time. But right now, for those of us who aren’t so
adept at being vocal in those situations but still want to be Christian
witnesses, there are thousands of less time-sensitive opportunities right at
our fingertips. Across the internet, young adult Catholics who understand this
new world have a special opportunity to proclaim Christ, to speak the truth, and
to get the message of the Gospel “out there” where our secular counterparts can
find it.