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Men Like Bitches: So Learn To Be One

There, I said it. We’ve all been thinking it for years and I think it’s finally time someone said it out loud. I’m not just talking about the art of seduction either, but since we’re on the topic, yes, men do seem to love bad bitches.

But why is it that being a bitch attracts men? It’s because men want a woman that is strong and secure with her own identity. Therefore sometimes you just need to be a ‘diva’ NOT a doormat to get exactly what you want from the man in your life.

Cue the cliche; so by treating him mean you’ll be keeping him keen! Not convinced? Why not? It seems to work so well for all the other bitches.

Here are five points to keep in mind for your next love affair (that I guarantee will have you noticing the difference). This isn’t exactly a guide to walking on the bitchier side of life, more like some behavior changes that will help you convince the next man that he wants you and not the other way around.

1. Play it cool

Just behave as if you like him but you’re not too interested in making him commit. This will give him the time to let his guard down and pursue you. Next thing you’ll be moving in together. Joke.

2. Show him you have other options

If he thinks you could be gone at anytime then he will appreciate the relationship so much more and not take you for granted. Simple as this sounds, it’s important to make a man realize what he’s got before it’s too late.

So if your boyfriend or husband is not being attentive, dress up and hit the nearest bar with your girlfriends. Show him what he’s got to lose! And what others could have to gain. Sounds mean but sometimes, being too nice doesn’t get you very far. Right?

3. Love your life as it is

Nothing is more attractive to a man then a positive person that enjoys every day. It is so easy to get wrapped up in your relationship that you forgot to do things that only YOU enjoy. So do your thang (people still say that right?) and he will come running to you every-time. Trust me.

4. Ask for space, even when you don’t need it.

Giving each other time to really engage in your own life goals and activities is refreshing for you both. Plus, you can’t miss someone who you are always with and since they’ve been throwing that “absence makes the heart grow fonder” crap in our faces for years now, I figure there must be some truth to it.

Better take some time apart, just in case.

5. Show other bitches who the bigger bitch is…

If men see other women walking all over you, they’ll assume they can do the same. So if you really want to learn to be a bit of a bitch, you’ve got to do it, even when you think no one might be looking.

I’ve kept the ‘diva’ tips brief and simple. Actually try it out, if you practice at least one tip, you will see the difference. If not in any men, then at the very least in yourself.