Robert Pattinson & Kristen Stewart: It’s OK To Go Public With Your Love

Robert Pattinson and Kristen Stewart, a new report claims you’re secretly holing up at top LA hotels. But why put pressure on yourselves and your relationship by being so secretive? Wouldn’t you be happier seeing each other in a “normal” way?

Robert Pattinson and Kristen Stewart— one of the things you always loved most about your three year-long romance was that you loved doing normal, everyday things together.

Robert Pattinson & Kristen Stewart: The Everyday Hollywood Couple

You rarely went to expensive LA restaurants and never took extravagant vacations. Instead, you preferred to go to comfortable local restaurants, English pubs and funky music clubs. Your down-to-earth approach also applied to the style you both had. Rob and Kristen, when you were away from red carpets and gorgeous designer outfits, you two preferred your worn-in jeans, T-shirts and baseball caps and Kristen, you loved to wear Rob’s clothes.

When you started seeing each other again in October, the first thing you did together was something normal and down-to-earth that you both missed so much — you went for a long walk with the two dogs that you two adopted together, Bear and Bernie.

My point is that your relationship was not based on loving the material trappings of celebrity. Instead, it was founded on living a very ordinary life together. You fought to have that “normal” life, no matter how big your celebrity status had become.

Robert Pattinson & Kristen Stewart: You Don’t Have To Sneak Around!

That’s why it seems like your best chance for a renewed romance to flourish is to dive into doing what you always loved doing together.

You never used to secretly meet up in expensive hotels when you were in LA before. That wasn’t your style — you’d both had enough of hotels when you both were on so many film location sets.

No, your style was to explore vintage clothing stores together, to play with your dogs, to have friends over for dinner and Kristen would cook, and to go shopping at delis and 7-11 for everything from snacks to Halloween masks.

You both loved doing all those very un-celebrity-like things together. And you missed those times that you had together. That’s why you need to just dive back into the life that you had built together and that you loved, even if it means that you might be seen in public from time to time.

Robert Pattinson: Don’t Be Afraid Of Your Kristen Stewart Love

Rob is reportedly worried about taking your romance public now because he doesn’t want people to think he’s a “punching bag” after your recent split, according to the Gossip Table report.

But you know, Rob, you have to stop worrying about what other people think about your life. It’s YOUR life!

Who cares what fans think, or what people in the entertainment community think, or even what your friends think. Only you can know what Kristen means to you and how special your connection is.

You don’t have to apologize to anyone for reigniting your relationship with her. If Kristen makes you happy and you make her happy, that’s all that matters. Especially since she’s no doubt vowed to never cheat or betray your trust gain.