(Closed) Freaking out about the bachelorette party…

Ok, so the bachelorette has been a hot topic for me lately as it is just plain awkward.

I don’t have close friends, and this was up in the air for a while. But I’m having a bachelorette with my sister, my fiance’s sister (whom has been nothing but a huge problem) and also having two of my fiance’s close friend’s girlfriends. So a small awkward group…

And my sister is wanting to get a limo, but she’s telling me how much to tell the two other girls the limo is– But, only the bridal party pays for that stuff I thought?? And my mother keeps saying “no, no, they get a free ride? No, no. They need to pay. No.” Then I don’t want a limo! There’s just some things non-bridal party people don’t pay for, am I right or wrong here? But I think if this is true, that all pay, then it’s just awkward to even ask… I am not close with them… it’s weird…

And the whole thing is so weird anyway… I can’t even get my fiance’s sister on the phone, nor do I want to talk to her unless I absolutely have to because of everything that’s gone on. I sort of wonder if she will even GO to the bachelorette party. It will be… so embarrassing. I will feel like such a fool.

I am trying to think of other things to do that don’t involve needing a limo (or in other words, a ride for all)

I was thinking going out to dinner and drinks and that is it, but does anyone ever do just that? I was out to dinner at my favorite restaurant this weekend and there was a girl at one of the huge tables with a veil on and I could tell it was her bachelorette. I just wonder what else they did that night.

I am SO NERVOUS I feel so embarrassed and shy, like everyone will know I have no friends … and that it will be awkward. It felt awkward at my shower too with these people, I feel like a circus act that is supposed to perform and if I don’t then everyone is bored and wondering what happens next. I don’t feel like I really “sit back and let things happen” as the bride to be in these situations like everyone tells me!

So awkward feeling… thanks for any advice. I am so sick of the anxiety over these situations because they are really embarrassing for me!!

while im not really in your situation per se, i also do not wish to have a traditional bachelorette party. my mom suggested we all get a hotel suite and have a big sleep over type party. I’m leaving it up to my girls to plan it though, and we have lots of time before i get that close

another suggestion might be having a “spa day” and you gals can get mani-pedi’s/massages/facials etc..

my FI is also not the bar hopping/wild night type. So he’s been talking about maybe going to a comedy club, or piano bar.