i know some of you may think its a stupid question, but i need to know.

i'm not trying to be offensive either.

my parents and my family always used to tell me, "if you shave your facial hair then you will look gay."

how do you look gay anyway?

i guess i do have a babyface when i'm clean shaven, but does black guy with babyface = gay looking?

right now i have a moustache and some chin scruff (neatly trimmed!). sometimes i just want to cut it all off, to be different i guess. the only thing that worries me is hair bumps...... and being called gay......not that there is anything wrong with that.

Is it gay for a black guy to be clean shaven? :
my family always used to tell me, "if you shave your facial hair then you will look gay."
right now i have a moustache and some chin scruff (neatly trimmed!). sometimes i just want to cut it all off, the only thing that worries me is being called gay...

I'm assuming you are black galaxus. Whether a man is hairy or lacks hair is a genetic variation unrelated to skin color. To shave your face or not is a personal choice and nothing to do with sexual orientation.

In my retail profession I prefer to look clean shaven as it looks better than having a face full of graying stubble.

Most American black men, IMHO, are flattered by a moustache but do not do themselves a favor with a beard. The babyface thing is extraordinarily irritating: how dare you black people age so much better than white people do?? ;-)

i vote for babyface followed by moustache.

as for which is gayer....full beard is a more "i got something to prove" sort of tonsure than is just the moustache. So - full beard is gayer.

Galaxus: Enjoy that baby face while you have it. Use it to your advantage. None of us stay young forever no matter how hard we try. I look pretty good for my age, but I'll never get carded in a liquor store!