Johnny is right. Let me add that some men put up with this abuse (and it IS abuse) because they think they have no other options. They know theiy’re putting up with shit and they shouldn’t have to, but they’ve got it in their heads that for whatever reason, no other woman will love them or have sex with them. Mostly it’s because they’ve lost perspective and have no game.

That’s what I did.

I put up with endless fitness testing and crap from a woman for four years – complaining about everything, making unlreasonable demands on my time, demanding that I spend money I didn’t have on her, withholding sex. And I put up with it because I thought I had no other options. I was a young guy losing my hair to male pattern baldness and thought no other woman would love me.

That’s one of the blessings of game – perspective and self-reliance. Leave one woman, there’ll always be another one. If one woman doesn’t respond to you, another one will. A hard and fast rule in today’s SMP for men is:

If this one doesn’t work out, there will always be another one.

(Of course, that rule doesn’t apply for women so much, unless they are sexually attractive.)

Knowing what I know now, I would have kicked Entitled Princess to the curb in four weeks or less. .

I know it sounds like tough talk, but now, with my wife? She pulls this on me, I push back. Hard.

When you are in the testosterone haze, many will put up with just about anything, even justifying female bad behavior with moral relativism, which is what the feminists want. That’s what I did, unfortunately.

What happened to me is that I, receiving a good SWPL education, was imbued with the idea of moral relativism, and, in this context, I I was brainwashed into accepting female bad behavior because to not do so would be judgmental, because I never walked in her shoes. I was not strong enough to stand up to it at the time for this reason. I think there are a few men who are like this.

Although rare, there are actually women – precious few – who are mature, giving, responsible and fun. Trouble is, if you want all that and sexy too, it’s a virtual impossibility. Like the old saw ‘power corrupts and absolute power corrupts absolutely’, a sexually attractive woman is imbued with too much power.

I agree, Bb. Men and women need to understand what is sexy in one other and no matter how superficial it seems, do it, even if it means that a man act confident/cocky beyond reason and a woman keeps in shape and wears wigs.

I read through all the stories on mycrazygirlfriend.com. I noticed a few themes that ran though the posts: drunkenness, bad tempers, abuse of Facebook, a general lack of basic civility, obsesssive behavior, spite, cheating, and unfounded jealousy. Men should avoid any women who exhibit these behaviors. Men help themselves by avoiding these same bad habits. I apologize for sounding moralistic, but we should not let women and our desire for sex drag us down as women continue to explore the depths of depravity.

Don’t apologize for sounding moralistic. That’s the big problem in our society. People are ashamed to have morals and are shamed by others for having them. Stick to your morals, stick them in other people’s faces whenever you can and help them figure out that their moral relativism isn’t based in reality and is ultimately destructive.