However, I want to bring the attention of the reader to a relationships supplement which is not consumed orally: Indonesian sirih leaves.

Sirih leaves are boiled and then used as a genital wash, not by men, but by women. Indonesian women use it widely after giving birth, and they do so explicitly to make their husbands happier.

Sirih leaves cause genital shrinkage in women, as well as genital dryness. Western medicine of course deals with vaginal dryness - as a problem of post-menopausal women.

However, for women in their late twenties and thirties, the problem is not so much vaginal dryness but vaginal wetness - not for their own pleasure but for the pleasure of their partners. Many women in their twenties and thirties, when they are properly aroused, get rather flooded.

Now, this may be OK for their own pleasure. But a lack of friction reduces both the physical pleasure of the male partner, and, even more so, impacts negatively on his psychological excitement.

I think that Asians, by and large, have a more mature approach to relationships pleasure. Asian men greatly value relationships conduct with women who have no or little relationships experience. Western men are largely ignorant about the pleasure one can have with a woman who had no or little relationships experience, because Western culture dictates that the male and the female partner be of approximately the same age.

However, boys in their late teens cannot value a female relationships partner who has had no or little relationships experience. Boys in their late teens typically ejaculate too fast. They are also too nervous, or too excited, to enjoy the finer points of a relationships encounter. It has long been my opinion that the best partners for boys in their late teens are women around 30 who take the initiative.

The relationships which mature men can have with virgins or women with very little relationships experience is different. It is slow-paced. There is no need to hurry. Such relationships is very gentle, even careful, so that the girl is not hurt.

However, such relationships is only possible if there is proper vaginal tightness, and even a certain degree of vaginal dryness. That mature men so easily fall deeply in love with virgins or women who had very little relationships experience has a lot to do with the physical constellation of the vagina of such relationships partners.

No mature woman, with a long history of relationships conduct, can give a man this explicit pleasure of reaching orgasm with almost no movement, caused by a female partner's vaginal tightness and dryness.

Unless she uses sirih leaves.

What sirih leaves can achieve is simply magnificent. In women who respond well, it practically reinstates virginity… not through the presence of a hymen, but because the vaginal canal just feels and reacts as if the woman were a virgin (inclusive the pain).

How are sirih leaves used? Some 10 to 20 leaves are brought to a short boil. The water is then left to cool down. This water can then be used to simply wash the female genitals. However, more effective is to have the water in a small basin, and then to sit inside for 15 to 30 minutes.

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