Really. I'm having a tough time with this snake. There's been a communication breakdown. No fighting or anything. One day, I called him over, and told him that sometimes to get my job done I have to be bit abrupt with my subordinates but to trust that Read more

For a soulmate connection you need to look at the entire chart. Including your north and south nodes. And your eastern astrology. Checking this out beforehand will save you a lot of invested feelings in phonies.

From what understand your south node is where you've been and your north node is what you need to learn. It would make sense that your soulmate would have the same signs in reverse order, at least id imagine;

I hear North & South nodes have to do with identifying soulmates to a mush stronger than lesser degree. North & south nodes are always opposite signs. Does this mean that since my north is virgo and south is pisces, that my perfect soulmate will Read more

Posted by BrookeDavisCompatibility is insanely perfect on so many levels. Omg!But we’re both laying low. If he can’t see what’s in front of him and doesn’t make a move I don’t think anything will change if I pursue him.

Posted by BrookeDavisHey guys, need your advice on how to proceed with my current situation.I found my Pisces man on tinder (I’m Aquarius) while he was visiting my country, we met in a bar with friends (his buddy and my girl friend) and hit it off immediately. I felt instant connection, we were deeply engaged in conversation but I called it a night pretty early leaving him hanging there. He texted me the next day before leaving back home admitting he’d want to hang more with me. We stayed in touch for 2 months texting and doing video calls. Things got flirty and hot. He suggested for us to meet, we picked a date, he was about to book his ticket and then disappeared. I didn’t want to come off as needy/clingy so I didn’t reach out. 2 months later he got back like nothing happened, we rekindled out flirtationship and all of a sudden he booked a ticket to come visit me (9 hour direct flight btw just for 3 days). It was a magical weekend. We’ve had insanely beautiful (both physical and mental) connection. Couldn’t stop talking and staring at one another, he pressed all the right buttons, connected on so many levels (shared interests, similar beliefs). Unbelievable chemistry and profound intellectual match. He seemed confused as he was leaving cause none of us expected this rendezvous to be this bloody good. He was totally smitten, gentle, caring, couldn’t keep his hands off me, showered me with kisses and etc. We didn’t make any specific plans cause he’s visiting his family for winter holidays, then got a schedule full of business trips so we couldn’t find any time slot to plan something special for the two of us. Which now leaves me questioning this entire situation. He keeps in touch (in his usual manner like sometimes we text in a witty and funny way then he may disappear for a few days but always responds if I reach out first) but I’m very impatient and I wanna know what’s coming next. I’ve never felt such intense emotional connection before, he feels like a soul mate (we would gaze into each other’s eyes for hours smiling and not speaking and even this felt divine) so I would really love to give this a chance. What should I do? Let things fall into place by itself or I can influence the situation somehow?

First, know for sure if the connection's genuine or, if it's just one of those compatibilities where it starts off all wonderful. Find out his birthday and compare his natal chart to yours. Also, look uphill eastern astrology animal to yours. **If his chart proves very compatible to your own, then the connection is pure and could carry through for the long term with effort on boths' part **and, he's worth pursuing. If the charts look bad--hit Tindr and start over.

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Check your charts out. Also check out your north and south nodes. Even if it is a soulmate connection, so many things cold stop the two people from coming together. timing, a fear of becoming increasingly intimate and raw with someone else, etc. Sometimes we settle for someone with less of a connection just to avoid opening up.

Posted by LethalFantasiaI will never truly understand people who can "genuinely" be in love with someone and then are still able to go and have sex with another person, even if the relationship ended. If you still truly love someone else then how do you even end up in a situation like that? How does your SOUL go through with it? I don't get it. I mean, unless there's lots of alcohol involved and there is absolutely no hope for reconciliation. But still. I am low-key judging all of you who do this.

You may not get anything from my chart because my planets or whatever don't necessarily match how I feel about personal relationships.... Maybe it's from my mom's side of the family or I don't know what. But I did have my "first love" or whatever you want to call it at 16. And it took us quite a while to make things "official" because of the circumstances and the situation. And throughout that entire time, before we even got together officially, I did not sleep with anyone. And years after the relationship ended, I did not sleep with anyone, because I loved this person so much that even while I was intoxicated, I couldn't even flirt with another person.So maybe everyone has a different way of grieving, expressing their love or whatever. But last night I was thinking back to these awful times, and I felt kind of triggered. Because I remember going through the break up and thinking the last thing I want to do is have sex with another person but obviously he didn't feel the same.

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Also, you're born under the year of the Rooster; roosters can be very monogomous and set and maintain high standards for love as well as everything else.

Posted by LethalFantasiaI will never truly understand people who can "genuinely" be in love with someone and then are still able to go and have sex with another person, even if the relationship ended. If you still truly love someone else then how do you even end up in a situation like that? How does your SOUL go through with it? I don't get it. I mean, unless there's lots of alcohol involved and there is absolutely no hope for reconciliation. But still. I am low-key judging all of you who do this.

You may not get anything from my chart because my planets or whatever don't necessarily match how I feel about personal relationships.... Maybe it's from my mom's side of the family or I don't know what. But I did have my "first love" or whatever you want to call it at 16. And it took us quite a while to make things "official" because of the circumstances and the situation. And throughout that entire time, before we even got together officially, I did not sleep with anyone. And years after the relationship ended, I did not sleep with anyone, because I loved this person so much that even while I was intoxicated, I couldn't even flirt with another person.So maybe everyone has a different way of grieving, expressing their love or whatever. But last night I was thinking back to these awful times, and I felt kind of triggered. Because I remember going through the break up and thinking the last thing I want to do is have sex with another person but obviously he didn't feel the same.

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What day are you born in Gemini? Year as well for eastern astrological understanding. Wow. Gemini sun and Sag moon, Mars Leo, Venus Aries and Pluto Scorpio..you are a beautiful case study to preserve such a healthy respect for intimacy. Studies show people in love have better sex and can better focus on other areas of life because they have the underestimated benefits that come from a healthy, monogamous relationship. Best thing to tell you is preserve that. Don't try to understand crazy because that means you're one hairsplit away from actually being crazy. People are the way they are because sexissoeasily accessible by online platforms. Studies show that only a handful of millennial (born btw1980-2004) are actually married (27-30% ). Weaker people acknowledge so many options nowadays that they keep experimenting with side relationships, to pursue "something better" behind door no. 2. In reality, they're just cheating on one flawed person to explore another flawed individual.

Posted by LethalFantasiaDidn't want to post this in the Astrology section of the forum because I feel like it would in a way hinder people's input? I don't know? Just a thought.

But yes, how do you deal with your emotions? Do you have heavy emotions? Are you able to be in super control of your emotions?

For me, I'm not sure. When I was a kid I had a poker face better then a 70 year old priest child molester. You could not get anything out of me if I did not want to show it. Now I almost feel like I get so emotional sometimes that I become impulsive and react, sometimes it's not so bad because it's always good to be genuine and not be so afraid to show how you really feel, but sometimes it can be embarrassing or just not good behavior.

I'm trying to understand the eastern zodiac animal Snake from personal experiences. Do they get bored easily? Do you guys really cheat as much as I read up that you do? If so, what would keep you faithful? (I'm not looking to change who I am, as much a Read more

Posted by BrookeDavisHey guys, need your advice on how to proceed with my current situation.I found my Pisces man on tinder (I’m Aquarius) while he was visiting my country, we met in a bar with friends (his buddy and my girl friend) and hit it off immediately. I felt instant connection, we were deeply engaged in conversation but I called it a night pretty early leaving him hanging there. He texted me the next day before leaving back home admitting he’d want to hang more with me. We stayed in touch for 2 months texting and doing video calls. Things got flirty and hot. He suggested for us to meet, we picked a date, he was about to book his ticket and then disappeared. I didn’t want to come off as needy/clingy so I didn’t reach out. 2 months later he got back like nothing happened, we rekindled out flirtationship and all of a sudden he booked a ticket to come visit me (9 hour direct flight btw just for 3 days). It was a magical weekend. We’ve had insanely beautiful (both physical and mental) connection. Couldn’t stop talking and staring at one another, he pressed all the right buttons, connected on so many levels (shared interests, similar beliefs). Unbelievable chemistry and profound intellectual match. He seemed confused as he was leaving cause none of us expected this rendezvous to be this bloody good. He was totally smitten, gentle, caring, couldn’t keep his hands off me, showered me with kisses and etc. We didn’t make any specific plans cause he’s visiting his family for winter holidays, then got a schedule full of business trips so we couldn’t find any time slot to plan something special for the two of us. Which now leaves me questioning this entire situation. He keeps in touch (in his usual manner like sometimes we text in a witty and funny way then he may disappear for a few days but always responds if I reach out first) but I’m very impatient and I wanna know what’s coming next. I’ve never felt such intense emotional connection before, he feels like a soul mate (we would gaze into each other’s eyes for hours smiling and not speaking and even this felt divine) so I would really love to give this a chance. What should I do? Let things fall into place by itself or I can influence the situation somehow?

First, know for sure if the connection's genuine or, if it's just one of those compatibilities where it starts off all wonderful. Find out his birthday and compare his natal chart to yours. Also, look uphill eastern astrology animal to yours. **If his chart proves very compatible to your own, then the connection is pure and could carry through for the long term with effort on boths' part **and, he's worth pursuing. If the charts look bad--hit Tindr and start over.

Posted by LethalFantasiaI will never truly understand people who can "genuinely" be in love with someone and then are still able to go and have sex with another person, even if the relationship ended. If you still truly love someone else then how do you even end up in a situation like that? How does your SOUL go through with it? I don't get it. I mean, unless there's lots of alcohol involved and there is absolutely no hope for reconciliation. But still. I am low-key judging all of you who do this.