An interesting observation into value vs. attraction and what those mean to different girls / people There is no absolute and objective value. It is all relative. What is valuable to one girl is not valuable to the next. This is a long one, so here’s a rundown: 1. A clear distinction between, and balance of attraction and value. 2. The psychological and physiological effects of both attraction and value. 3. The difference between surface a…

…lly by Cameron Teone Context: A beautiful post written years ago by mysterious Cameron Teone about assuming high value from the very beginning If you are well indoctrinated in reading ‘seduction community’ advice, chances are you have probably read about the concept of the DHV and may have been obsessing about trying to constantly build your value in front of a woman. (Until Now, of course!) What is a “DHV?” If you don’t know what it is, you’re g…

…p to an uncomfortable buying temperature too quickly, before proceeding to game more. — OK so what’s REAL false disqualification, and what is its purpose? There exists many social SUBCOMMUNICATIONS that convey social value. -breaking rapport -neutral to rapport -trying to gain rapport This goes on in social interactions all day long. Notice that the “coolest” people in the club venue are trying to break rapport with everyo…

Quick Definition: The inherent and conveyed survival and replication value one has within a given social setting. Full Definition: While a person may have an inherent value, social value is both relative and conveyable to others. This means that a person with innately high social value (good genes, rich, strong social circle) can still experience misfortune, such as someone else dropping a glass of wine on him/her at a particular venue. Other…

…etween the HB and him. Passive Value applies to women as well. Usually, the hotter a girl is, the more passive value she has, and her margin of error when gaming a man of value is higher. Has a man ever fallen for the mediocre looking girl who has charm, wit, and a sense of humor but was a little on the chubby side? If so, it is because she has seduced the man with the right personality, despite having a relatively lower passive value. Passive…

…to how to demonstrate high value properly. In my experience, there are some guys who are attempting to be cocky and funny but are coming off insecure when doing it. In this post I will illustrate why this happens and how to avoid it and make proper use of the DHV technique. There are certain things you demonstrate and certain things you verbalize. Demonstration of high value takes many forms. Storytelling, cold reads, humor, actual “demons…

Quick Definition: A complex term in the community, that has many forms and variations. The general definition of value is the anything that another provides to improve the subject’s chance of survival and replication. Beyond this, value can mean anything that offers another person good emotions that also ultimately align with things that also increase one’s S&R success. (I.e. Taking drugs to feel ‘good’ is does not c…

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