Imagine what it is like to be them, how they make money at work, support their family, their concerns and worriers for their children. Become them for a moment and walk in their shoes.

Work or be around them, you'll see most aren't different from yourself. They want a decent job and to support their families etc.

Once you can imagine walking in another shoes, you gain a whole new insight or perspective. This is one of the many ways we learn to understand and grow spiritually.

Granted who you pick to empathize with or be around will make a huge difference in how you perceive them. If you're picking low lives, you will get a low life perception, go for hard working types you can relate with.

Through will of thought we control our emotions and thoughts are often no more difficult to control then we make them to be.

Hang out with me. I'll change your mind about blacks. Ask me any question relating to blacks or stereotype about blacks.

Quoting: CigarTigher

Why do black males abandon their responsibilities as a father and typically have multiple children with different women and then end up in jail?

Quoting: BRIEF

Why do they abandon their kids and have multiple baby mommas?Believe it or not, I think it has a lot to do with the music that they listen to. A lot of black males listen to music with a lot of violence and sex. The guy picks up the " hood " mentality. Black males are also makes which means that they are very sexual. They may abandon their kids because of financial reasons or they have the mindset of" I don't like that woman, so I don't like the kid." Some feel like they are not mature enough, or responsible enough. I actually see more black women with multiple baby than black men with baby mommas. And with the music theory and violence. I'll give you an example: I know a guy who plays guitar an is black and does not listen to hip hop . He is no thug. I know a guy who listens to hip hop and is black and he acts like a thug. Although, he is not in the environment . It has a lot to do with a father figure too. :)

I am about to work out and I will respond to more questions whenever I am finish.

Grew up in a racist household and now work in an all black ghetto day in and day out ... Mostly drug dealers,low life,criminals. Real pillars to society... That being said how can I become a non-racist. I would like help

Quoting: Anonymous Coward 17116676

Just judge/like/hate people based on their personal actions/choices instead of making assumptions solely based on their skin colour?

Grew up in a racist household and now work in an all black ghetto day in and day out ... Mostly drug dealers,low life,criminals. Real pillars to society... That being said how can I become a non-racist. I would like help

Quoting: Anonymous Coward 17116676

Just judge/like/hate people based on their personal actions/choices instead of making assumptions solely based on their skin colour?

Just saying....

Quoting: Anonymous Coward 22089462

You completely miss the point. How is what you describe ever going to help you predict someone's behaviour in advance? Racism, or any learned prejudice is simply learning from experience. Seeing patterns and learning from them. It is intelligence at it's most basic level.

Hang out with me. I'll change your mind about blacks. Ask me any question relating to blacks or stereotype about blacks.

Quoting: CigarTigher

Why do black males abandon their responsibilities as a father and typically have multiple children with different women and then end up in jail?

Quoting: BRIEF

Why do they abandon their kids and have multiple baby mommas?Believe it or not, I think it has a lot to do with the music that they listen to. A lot of black males listen to music with a lot of violence and sex. The guy picks up the " hood " mentality. Black males are also makes which means that they are very sexual. They may abandon their kids because of financial reasons or they have the mindset of" I don't like that woman, so I don't like the kid." Some feel like they are not mature enough, or responsible enough. I actually see more black women with multiple baby than black men with baby mommas. And with the music theory and violence. I'll give you an example: I know a guy who plays guitar an is black and does not listen to hip hop . He is no thug. I know a guy who listens to hip hop and is black and he acts like a thug. Although, he is not in the environment . It has a lot to do with a father figure too. :)

I am about to work out and I will respond to more questions whenever I am finish.

Quoting: CigarTigher

All I was really wanting from you was validation of the stereotype being correct...thank you.

Yes, at the very end you identified the root cause: lack of fathers, because black males go to jail and don't raise their children...those that stay out of trouble and raise their kids generally have well behaved and intelligent offspring...all three or four of them.

Imagine what it is like to be them, how they make money at work, support their family, their concerns and worriers for their children. Become them for a moment and walk in their shoes.

Work or be around them, you'll see most aren't different from yourself. They want a decent job and to support their families etc.

Once you can imagine walking in another shoes, you gain a whole new insight or perspective. This is one of the many ways we learn to understand and grow spiritually.

Granted who you pick to empathize with or be around will make a huge difference in how you perceive them. If you're picking low lives, you will get a low life perception, go for hard working types you can relate with.

Quoting: Coma Patient #7

Quite; emergency and social service workers often develop a rather jaded view of the humanity that they have to deal with; consider a change of direction-perhaps take a job that deals with fucked-up, neglected middle class white kids and their robot parents; then go find healthy examples of both once you're thoroughly disgusted with humanity in general.

Grew up in a racist household and now work in an all black ghetto day in and day out ... Mostly drug dealers,low life,criminals. Real pillars to society... That being said how can I become a non-racist. I would like help

Quoting: Anonymous Coward 17116676

Just judge/like/hate people based on their personal actions/choices instead of making assumptions solely based on their skin colour?

Just saying....

Quoting: Anonymous Coward 22089462

You completely miss the point. How is what you describe ever going to help you predict someone's behaviour in advance? Racism, or any learned prejudice is simply learning from experience. Seeing patterns and learning from them. It is intelligence at it's most basic level.

Grew up in a racist household and now work in an all black ghetto day in and day out ... Mostly drug dealers,low life,criminals. Real pillars to society... That being said how can I become a non-racist. I would like help

Quoting: Anonymous Coward 17116676

Just judge/like/hate people based on their personal actions/choices instead of making assumptions solely based on their skin colour?

Just saying....

Quoting: Anonymous Coward 22089462

You completely miss the point. How is what you describe ever going to help you predict someone's behaviour in advance? Racism, or any learned prejudice is simply learning from experience. Seeing patterns and learning from them. It is intelligence at it's most basic level.

Grew up in a racist household and now work in an all black ghetto day in and day out ... Mostly drug dealers,low life,criminals. Real pillars to society... That being said how can I become a non-racist. I would like help

Quoting: Anonymous Coward 17116676

well i never used to be racist and now im like hitler after seeing he hatred to my people from blacks . how do you deal with it .

you tell me . im living by god's rule's and iff i also meet anyone else who does the same weather they are black , asain , white , or green .

they are like a brother to me , i dont see color tbh .

But iff they act like monkey's and are full of attitude then i hate them , and that goes for white wigger's , asain wigger's , ghetto black's . just thug's then i hate them , they have no respect , morals , and dont live by god's law's what so ever .

If you were programed your entire life from birth with the same garbage placed in their brains throughout their lives, you would be no different then them. Have compassion for those who know not what they do, why they are here, and what they are suppose to do while here. Life is a challenge, and their lives are more challenging then yours.

Oh and music is powerful. It has a spirit to it. It can control people.

Quoting: CigarTigher

No, it can control low IQ types...it can soothe the savage beast, but has no effect on intelligent people, unless they allow it.

Quoting: BRIEF

Classical music is statistically proven to raise IQ. Classical music is linked to logic skills. It also helps te brain when studying. I listen to classical music all the time. I played the violin when I was 10 and clarinet for 8 years.