Crushes: Help and advice

29 November 2016 (M) -
So in my Art History class there is this girl I find very attractive. Before class we usually have good small talk. Now the semester is coming close to an end and our final exam is coming up. I was thinking of asking her to study so I can spend more ...

29 November 2016 (M) -
Looking for advice on a woman I just met recently and really like. Text her last night and she replied a few times but didn't reply since last night then. How long should I wait to text her again or should I not text her at all if she doesn't text ...

27 November 2016 (M) -
Recently I broke up with my girlfriend and now I'm single. I know it's too early to hang out with other women but there is this girl she's 09/10 rating hot brunette, younger, she used to be my coworker but she got pregnant, got married and now she's ...

27 November 2016 (F) -
Hello. First of all, I have a friend and she is a lesbian. We still hang out with each other. I kind of like her but I didn't show it to her cause I don't want to break our friendship. One day, when she surprisingly visited me in my house, we hang ...

27 November 2016 (F) -
I really like this guy. We've only met twice but we speak practically every day. Lately, he's not spoken as much and I feel we are drifting apart. He knows how I feel and he says he likes me too. I don't want to rush things but I feel I'm pu...

26 November 2016 (F) -
I have a crush on a guy a year older than me but I can't get his attention, so I found out a lot of info about him like his full name, birthday, classes, siblings, previous schools and his Facebook, despite the fact that we've only talked once. I ...

26 November 2016 (F) -
How to make a white guy understand you are interested in him? Asking him out surely didn't help. We Indians are so culturally different from the west I wonder what would be the right way to send some cues for the guy that I want us to be more tha...

25 November 2016 (F) -
Hi I'm Rach, 19. This post is probably one of the most cliché crush circumstances ever and it's SUPER long, but I've been struggling with it since June so here goes -- I've (sort of? Maybe just a little bit) been into this particular guy, B, for ...

23 November 2016 (F) -
I'm a 17-year-old Asian international student. And I'm having a crush on a guy for a few months who is 20 right now. Actually he already had done some sexual stuffs with me although we're not in a relationship. Days ago I confessed to him...

23 November 2016 (F) -
So I've been single for over a year, not been near anyone since and have been working on myself. My last breakup I realised was an entire lie... A lie which ended in a court case for me ex for assault... He should of got ABH if not attempted murder ...

22 November 2016 (F) -
Hey all . Ive started online dating a month ago and been talking to a guy at the beginning he took his time getting to know me but suddenly he seems to want to meet fast like the world is going to end and he has to cram it in . Im careful and take...

20 November 2016 (F) -
I am very confused; this is going to sound like a film but im in love with my best friend and I don't know what to do! So we've been friends since January and we've spoken everyday for the past nine/ten months but in September I told him how I f...

20 November 2016 (F) -
He was in a long term relationship which broke down maybe 4-5 months ago. we have started talking online these past few weeks, but have been on each others social media pages since before the break-up ( just as friends or support) He knows i am her...

20 November 2016 (M) -
Dear All, First time writer and I'm really needing some desperate help. My story. About 6 years ago I met a girl. We went out and nothing ever come of it. I guess I wasn't really in that place at that time. But she held a candle for me...

20 November 2016 (M) -
I've posted about this female in questions a few times before. Basically I'm having a really hard time getting over her and I'm questioning my sanity and what else I can do to get over how I'm feeling. To cut a long story short, a FWB that didn't ...

19 November 2016 (M) -
To cut a long story short, I had sex with my female housemate. I am not super attracted to her but yeah, it happened. I suspect she has been trying to seduce me for a while because she has asked to 'spoon' a couple of times after a night out. After ...

19 November 2016 (F) -
Hello! In a complicated situation. Help me out ! I really like this friend who lives in a different city. We have been on a couple of dates but we don't get to meet because of distance. I asked him out on a date recently but his response was " I ...

18 November 2016 (F) -
Modnote: two almost identical questions combined. ................................... dear cupid, ok so there is this guy that I really like he is a grade bigger than me, he used to like me at the beginning of the year (I could tell from the cle...

17 November 2016 (F) -
So there is this man at my church and he is a single dad. We've started to casually talk here and there. Two weeks ago he was saying to me how he would love to have more kids. Then last week he asks he personally if I ever wanted kids. This might ...

16 November 2016 (M) -
Me and this girl in my class have been friends. I have always liked her but never told her. A few days ago we decided to go for a movie. I wanted to go out with her a few times before I told her. Yesterday she read my status which was "Sometimes I ...

15 November 2016 (F) -
My friend of 20 plus years has a plan to come and visit me. We have been crushing on each other for years now that we have come in contact with one another on Facebook we really want to see each other. We talked about being in a relationship but...

15 November 2016 (F) -
Dear cupid I was talking on text. we were getting along good and we were planning to go out our first date But he had work over time so when we start text again. So yet it again another date we set place to meet and this time he didn't sho...

15 November 2016 (M) -
Ok so let me start from the beginning. About four months ago I separated from a 10 year marriage where it was not a good place and my ex was not a nice person to be around. Then about a month later I started with online dating apps and met a f...

14 November 2016 (F) -
You heard of the phrase "If a guy likes a girl, he'll go out of his way to be mean to her", but I'm not sure if that's all that true. I'm having an experience with a guy who I personally am torn with what he thinks of me. I'll call him Jay for priv...

13 November 2016 (F) -
At the moment, I have feelings for someone who has basically led me on a bit and messed me about and obviously doesn't reciprocate. I have to see him every day at work and I am trying to simultaneously stay away from him and act civilly if I have ...

13 November 2016 (F) -
I moved into my new house in March on a new-build park. On the day of moving in a guy walked past with his dog and stopped to chat to my Dad who was stood outside at the time. My dad called me from the house to come and say hello. I said Hi and ...

13 November 2016 (M) -
Alright there's the same girl from my last question and I've been chasing her for the past two months now. I asked her if she liked me the same way I liked her or not because I couldn't tell and not even her friends at school knew if she liked me...

12 November 2016 (F) -
I've liked a guy for 7 years but I don't know how he feels. We used to be classmates but now we live in different cities so we can't meet. We communicate via text. I have kinda dropped hints but I don't know if he knowingly ignores or just doesn't ...

12 November 2016 (F) -
so ive been friends with this guy for about 4 years now and we were kind of interested in each other at the start but i started dating his friend and since then we've both been in and out of relationships but we've become best friends. i guess i...

12 November 2016 (M) -
I suffer from severe depression and anxiety and I started seeing a therapist yesterday. And she's absolutely beautiful. I would've found it a little easier to talk to some middle aged woman or even an old person, but she's the same age as me, and ...

7 November 2016 (F) -
Should I tell her or Not? I'm 19, and it's sad to say, but I'm in love with my step mom. It's a bad thing because I'm also a female. Every time that I'm around her, I stutter, smile a lot,etc. It's getting to the point to where I can't even hug...

4 November 2016 (M) -
My wife and I are generally very open with eachother about our fantasies. They usually just come out during intimacy. Lately, however, I've been having a fantasy that I want to be a bit more subtle when I tell her about it. My new fantasies have ...

3 November 2016 (F) -
Hello im a freshman in high school and I am having some problems with 3 guys... I know it seems like a lot but I really need help because it is taking over my head every single day. (Ill use Boy A, B, and C for their names). Boy A is a sophomore...

2 November 2016 (F) -
Hey, I'm 20 years old and have a sister that is nine years older than me. We both have the same mother but different father's. We didn't really grow up together because my mother had her so young so essentially she was raised by my grandma. We've ...

1 November 2016 (F) -
Dear Aunts/Unclesr Cutting a long story short. I met a guy at work. He started flirting. It was a while before I noticed him. I started flirting back then he went cold. I think because I was coming on to him too quickly as I was starting to fanc...

1 November 2016 (F) -
I know this guy who studies in another university in the same country. I met him on a casual occation when i went to visit my friend in that city. We did not talk a lot. I do not even have his phone number. He never showed any flirty moves on me and ...