This may sound strange to some, but I have met a lot of females, the ones less afraid to be open with their sexual desires, express the desire to their boyfriend or husband to see them with another guy. This may sound sick to many (especially homophobic on insecure men) but it is just the reverse of men fantasizing about their woman with another woman.

There are men that would never do this of course, others that would like it but would not want their woman to see them in that light (emasculated), and others that kinda feel liberated cuz they get to explore their fantasy with another guy, even if mostly straight. So two questions:

A) How many of you women have fantasized about your man this way?

B) How many men would do this with/for your woman (assuming she'd do the same for you with another woman)?

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I think its totally hot. I've asked my bf to do it but he's not interested. I think it would be VERY hot to watch a guy suck his dick. I think beyond that I wouldn't really be interested (anal sex etc.) but cock sucking, yes...way hot. I love it.

I have to say that I've never fantasized about that...I have had the opportunity to have a 3 way with two guys who were bi-sexual/bi-curious...and I was hesitant. I don't judge. I support gay relationships...however, not sure how I would feel about in with me in my own bed.

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... B) How many men would do this with/for your woman (assuming she'd do the same for you with another woman)?

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I'd be more than happy to do it for my woman, if she was really into it. And I'd be happy to do so even if she had no interest in doing the same for me with another woman.

I've experienced four such encounters where I was the third party, i.e. the male participant invited to join a couple. In two of those occasions the wife was a full participant in a true ménage à trois, in the other two the women stayed fully clothed and just watched. Each case was a bit different, in its own way, but totally hot for all parties concerned. As long as everyone involved is completely comfortable with the situation it's an experience I highly recommend.

I've had this fantasy. I think it's all the gay porn I've watched, but I'd prefer to participate, too. TheBF says he'd be willing, even though he's very straight, and I asked him questions on all the specifics, "Would you do this?" "How about that?" and he answered yes to every question. He's an adventurous and open minded guy.

He wants a FMF in exchange for a MMF/MFM, though. I'm not comfortable sharing him with a woman who likes men, because I'm obviously less comfortable with the idea of him in bed with another woman than he is with the idea of me in bed with another man. I don't know why I'm so possessive, but I'm definitely very, "Mine! Hands off!" in regards to him.

I've had this fantasy. I think it's all the gay porn I've watched, but I'd prefer to participate, too. TheBF says he'd be willing, even though he's very straight, and I asked him questions on all the specifics, "Would you do this?" "How about that?" and he answered yes to every question. He's an adventurous and open minded guy.

He wants a FMF in exchange for a MMF/MFM, though. I'm not comfortable sharing him with a woman who likes men, because I'm obviously less comfortable with the idea of him in bed with another woman than he is with the idea of me in bed with another man. I don't know why I'm so possessive, but I'm definitely very, "Mine! Hands off!" in regards to him.

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Is it normal for a woman to like gay porn? or is it your acquired taste?

I have wondered if a mm couple could hook up with a mf couple in ways that might feel less threatening than a threesome. The woman could watch two guys fuck without the straight man having to go beyond his comfort zone. The oral action could be bisexual, but fucking only between partners. A voyeuristic/exhibitionist feast with everyone getting to watch fucking different from their usual fare.

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I had a gf who was really into MMF. The first time we watched bi porn she was so turned on that she DT'd me easily without gagging. Normally aroused she could take all of me, but she would gag on half of the strokes. It was the only time I came while totally in her throat and her comment afterwards was that she didn't even taste it because I was so far past her taste buds.

I am only into blowing and we did that with three different guys about 5 or 6 times and she was hot for it every time, as was I.

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I've had this fantasy. I think it's all the gay porn I've watched, but I'd prefer to participate, too. TheBF says he'd be willing, even though he's very straight, and I asked him questions on all the specifics, "Would you do this?" "How about that?" and he answered yes to every question. He's an adventurous and open minded guy.

He wants a FMF in exchange for a MMF/MFM, though. I'm not comfortable sharing him with a woman who likes men, because I'm obviously less comfortable with the idea of him in bed with another woman than he is with the idea of me in bed with another man. I don't know why I'm so possessive, but I'm definitely very, "Mine! Hands off!" in regards to him.

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You know you will have volunteers lined up around the block. He obviously thinks you are special, so I don't think you have anything to worry about.

You could always find a friend who has trouble swallowing a normal sized cock. :tongue:

I have an ex who is bi and who realized that I am too. She very much wanted to see me with another guy. Unfortunately, we were not able to find suitable partners to play with. We really were hoping for another bi couple. The other women I have been with would cringe at the thought of me with another guy.

My wife loves watching me with my buddies have sex, and I get real turned on watching her have sex with her girls friends. We have been doing this since for over 25 years.

The first time a women asked to watch me have sex with another guy was in college. I had a girl friend that fantasized about getting DPed by 2 guys. Every time I fucked her we would have anal sex and she would use a big dildo on herself as I pounded her ass. One evening a friend came back to her place with us after bar time because he had too much to drink to drive home. It was an opportunity she could not pass up; it was the first night she got DPed by 2 guys, and the beginning of a great year of groupsex.

After the two of us repeatedly DPed her for what seemed like a couple of hours she said she needed to take a break. She said that if we wanted to take her ass and puss for another spin we were going to have to give her a good guy on guy show. I had no problem with this as I had been having sex with other guys since I was high school. Our other partner said that he would do it, but that he had never messed round with another guy before.

I started by sucking his cock and fingering his ass. He followed my lead sucked on my cock and fingered my ass. He turned out to be a really good cock sucker. We finished our show by me fucking his virgin ass.

That evening was the beginning of a great school year where the three of frequently had group sex. Within a few weeks we added her best girl friend, and her old roommate & husband to our group. At the end of that year I never saw that girlfriend again, she was a bit nuts, but my buddy tries to visit us at least yearly, and his wife enjoys watching the two of us fuck as much as my wife does.

As I like to say, enjoy the moment, enjoy your partners, and enjoy the sex.