listen, i'm looking for a relationship, but when the night ends and i'm empty handed, what's wrong with having this booty call? We've been hanging out too much for my liking, but her roommate told me it's because she misses her ex and having someone. so i stuck my dick in crazy, but don't have a relationship with crazy. I'm not doing anything with her on valentine's day. not giving out any wrong hint. also, it's time with her i could be out meeting new girls. I don't see the problem here with what i'm doing at all

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BTW, if it's 3rd and 97... I'm throwing a screen pass to Brian Leonard and he will convert.

listen, i'm looking for a relationship, but when the night ends and i'm empty handed, what's wrong with having this booty call? We've been hanging out too much for my liking, but her roommate told me it's because she misses her ex and having someone. so i stuck my dick in crazy, but don't have a relationship with crazy. I'm not doing anything with her on valentine's day. not giving out any wrong hint. also, it's time with her i could be out meeting new girls. I don't see the problem here with what i'm doing at all

There are three potential issues with this that I see:

1. Are you really looking for a relationship? Because the fact that you have something to fall back on if the date doesn't go well is already setting yourself up for failure. It could cause you to half ass everything because no matter what, you have something to go home to.

2. I've never met a woman okay with being a booty call. Sure, they might go along with it for a while. but eventually, it either ends or she is going to want more. you obviously don't want more, so eventually, you're back at square one and you've wasted a lot of time.

3. Like R4L said, women are crazy. If you do end up finding a girl you want to get serious with, booy call girl might be pissed that you are cutting off the scotty loving.

Brilliant letting one of Scott Pioli's henchmen have his own team to ruin. One of the premier GM jobs in the NFL and it gets handed to a stupid **** who makes three facepalm moves for every good one. Awesome. Just like handing a new Mercedes to a 16 year old girl who's already been in three wrecks.

listen, i'm looking for a relationship, but when the night ends and i'm empty handed, what's wrong with having this booty call? We've been hanging out too much for my liking, but her roommate told me it's because she misses her ex and having someone. so i stuck my dick in crazy, but don't have a relationship with crazy. I'm not doing anything with her on valentine's day. not giving out any wrong hint. also, it's time with her i could be out meeting new girls. I don't see the problem here with what i'm doing at all

I wasn't saying I agree with a lot of what Forenci says because he said you was being douchey, it was more of just a general comment. The only kind of douchey thing I could get from what you first said was that you want to continue hooking up and for her not to like you. Not sure if you are actually planning on continuing, but if you think she's starting to want more, i'd say the right thing to do would be to get out of there before it gets worse and she establishes more feelings, or at least speak to her and make sure she knows.

1. Are you really looking for a relationship? Because the fact that you have something to fall back on if the date doesn't go well is already setting yourself up for failure. It could cause you to half ass everything because no matter what, you have something to go home to.

2. I've never met a woman okay with being a booty call. Sure, they might go along with it for a while. but eventually, it either ends or she is going to want more. you obviously don't want more, so eventually, you're back at square one and you've wasted a lot of time.

3. Like R4L said, women are crazy. If you do end up finding a girl you want to get serious with, booy call girl might be pissed that you are cutting off the scotty loving.

Number one is my main issue, but when I go out, I'm looking for someone I actually like and connect with. this girl's far from my mind when i'm out. if the night ends poorly, i give her a call (or she calls me, and when i answer her calls, that's when i half-ass it or leave the bar early). I'm trying to lessen it and ease out of it eventually though so as to not lose anymore time or anything

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BTW, if it's 3rd and 97... I'm throwing a screen pass to Brian Leonard and he will convert.

I'm in a similar boat to scotty, been fooling around with this girl who it's been purely sexual with while talking with my ex again. Now that me and her are getting ready to see each other again, I'm breaking up with the **** buddy.

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Just be careful crazy doesn't chop yo dick off while you sleep when you get a good girl.

I knew about John and Lorena Bobbitt, but I couldn't remember their names so I googled "cut off husbands dick." Holy ****, this is surprisingly common. Apparently in Thailand, there's even an "epidemic" of involuntary "penile amputations."

This is pretty much exactly how I feel. Forcing it will just lead to a lot of situations that don't work out. Just because you have a **** buddy doesn't mean you can't meet new girls and do the same exact stuff you would do if you were just looking for a girlfriend. Once you find a girl that it really clicks with it shouldn't be hard to brush off the **** buddy so long as they really are just a **** buddy. The key is that if you can tell a **** buddy is getting feelings or attached (and you don't feel the same way) to drop it because that will just lead to a lot of drama that isn't worth the sex.

This **** is the truth. Couldn't have said it better myself....I agree with you too much, especially considering you dig on the bRUINS and the celtics.

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I wouldn't be sir prized if he passed McCoy on the depth chart. I think he might have a better arm and accurate arm then him from the highlights I thought. He also got some wheels too help us prepare for QB's as Wilson , RG3 and other runners etc.

This is just wrong. Having a **** buddy until you find someone who you might have a serious relationship makes it better, girls like guys that are getting laid, so if you're getting laid on the reg you're more likely to attract that girl you could get serious with when you find her.

What a bunch of horse ****. I'm sorry but this is absurd and makes no sense whatsoever. I hope you're not being serious.

Oh good forenci's getting her panties in a bunch. It's human nature, someone regularly having sex release smells and an aura that makes them more appealing to the opposite gender. It's science.

You mean your panties are in a bunch anytime I break up your brofest? And holy ****, you're gross generalizations and application of science to this situation is egregious. I'd love to see a scientific study that says having a sex buddy readily increases your ability to commit to a long-term relationship. I'm sure if there was such a study, psychology studies would shred it to pieces for any number of reasons. I mean, because, what girl who is looking for a serious long-term relationship doesn't love her potential partner having meaningless sex with somebody before them?

Like I said, I guess I should know better than to post in here. Anything that contradicts the non-stop bro fest gets shot down and is followed by ad hominem attacks and subtle shots at a persons sexuality. I don't know why it surprises me, though. Guess I just expected better out of you of all people, Rosebud.

You mean your panties are in a bunch anytime I break up your brofest? And holy ****, you're gross generalizations and application of science to this situation is egregious. I'd love to see a scientific study that says having a sex buddy readily increases your ability to commit to a long-term relationship. I'm sure if there was such a study, psychology studies would shred it to pieces for any number of reasons. I mean, because, what girl who is looking for a serious long-term relationship doesn't love her potential partner having meaningless sex with somebody before them?

Like I said, I guess I should know better than to post in here. Anything that contradicts the non-stop bro fest gets shot down and is followed by ad hominem attacks and subtle shots at a persons sexuality. I don't know why it surprises me, though. Guess I just expected better out of you of all people, Rosebud.

Whoa man, I'm 23 years old now...and would like to find a chick I could settle down with if possible. Always been more of a relationship guy anyways, but I am also a guy....and I enjoy sex. There are some girls that I find attractive and would like to sleep with regularly but those girls aren't always girls I'm interested in trying to "wifey" up. So we are a piece of **** because we like to have sex when we don't have a girl we want to slow down with? Like what the hell...like everyone has mentioned, when you find the one you want to go exclusive with you aren't just trying to sleep with her...you think more of her and want to go slower...but can't just pick any random broad out of a hat. Of course you end the hook up once you find that girl, but until then....**** the **** out of your hook up buddies.

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I wouldn't be sir prized if he passed McCoy on the depth chart. I think he might have a better arm and accurate arm then him from the highlights I thought. He also got some wheels too help us prepare for QB's as Wilson , RG3 and other runners etc.

You can feel free to try and fight evolution as much as you want, but woman are attracting to men who are getting laid more than men who are celebate, all else being equal. That's biology bro.

This has nothing to do with evolution. You're vague references to science are hilariously off. Like I said, I'd love to see a study that connects having sex on a regular basis with finding a long-term, committed relationship with another women. I'm well aware of the biological effects of having sex regularly, including the release of pheromones, but again, that doesn't answer AT ALL the question above. The fact that you're trying to draw comparisons to it is laughable at best.

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Whoa man, I'm 23 years old now...and would like to find a chick I could settle down with if possible. Always been more of a relationship guy anyways, but I am also a guy....and I enjoy sex. There are some girls that I find attractive and would like to sleep with regularly but those girls aren't always girls I'm interested in trying to "wifey" up. So we are a piece of **** because we like to have sex when we don't have a girl we want to slow down with? Like what the hell...like everyone has mentioned, when you find the one you want to go exclusive with you aren't just trying to sleep with her...you think more of her and want to go slower...but can't just pick any random broad out of a hat. Of course you end the hook up once you find that girl, but until then....**** the **** out of your hook up buddies.

First of all, you're putting a lot of words in my mouth. When did I ever categorize you as all being "pieces of ****" as you say? I never once said that. I was getting on Rosebud for two reasons: his continual veiled attacks using sexuality as a means of dismissal of the aforementioned argument, and his completely nonsensical argument that "DURR HAVING A HOOK UP BUDDY MAKES YOU MORE LIKELY TO GET A LONG TERM, SERIOUS RELATIONSHIP."

You're free to do whatever you want. I have no qualms if you want to have a hook up buddy. I too enjoy sex. I too talk differently around my buddies who are male compared to my girlfriend or girls who are friends.

I was more calling Scotty douche-ish for A) having a hook up buddy who he refers to as dumb (because, what does that make you?), B) having a hook up buddy who he is willing to dump at a moments notice if a better girl comes along, and C) making it seem like the girl was an issue because she wanted something more but he wanted to just be a hook up buddy (while at the same time being someone who wants something more with someone ELSE). Does anyone not see the irony and douchery in it?

Like I said, I should know better than attempt to break up the bro fest. Still, it's funny how I get attacked as being "female" or just straight up ad hominem attacks if I do so (not from yourself, though). I come from a big family with a lot of women in it so I acknowledge my views tend to be a bit outside of the norms among guys.

It is comical Rosebud mentions evolution as a means to back himself up. Humans are constantly evolving. As is our cultural understanding.

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You expected better out of Rosebud of all people?

I suppose you're right there. I guess I expected more out of him because he's a reasonably intelligent guy and he is a fellow Giants fan. Perhaps that is my mistake then.

This has nothing to do with evolution. You're vague references to science are hilariously off. Like I said, I'd love to see a study that connects having sex on a regular basis with finding a long-term, committed relationship with another women. I'm well aware of the biological effects of having sex regularly, including the release of pheromones, but again, that doesn't answer AT ALL the question above. The fact that you're trying to draw comparisons to it is laughable at best.

I never said it made you more likely to find a long term relationship. All I ever said was that it makes you more attractive to women, which is generally helpful when trying to find one.

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Is Shaun Hill a top 10 QB? Definitely not. Is he a top 20 one? Almost certainly.