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Is a wedding proof of love?

I am of the impression that men are getting married to some ladies so they can " get it over with". They say marriage is for ladies so in essence most men dont really want to be married! is this evidence that they are always looking elsewhere and their desire to cheat is not so pressing on their conscience when they are unmarried? Men prefer to marry older; when they have been wild and have done it all and need some "maid" to atttend to their needs! It is awful to see a lady in a relationship for years begging for that question, then when he finally asks he goes through the motions like n" now my life is ruined". i hate the perception most men have of marriage!!

I believe marriage is a sign of commitment to the love you have for that very special person. NOW I do know some people get married for all the wrong reason sometimes leading couples to cheat, divorce early, or just not be happy at all.

I agree! My dh is the one who brought up marrage. He is the one who asked me to marry him and who made it a point that we got married as fast as we did. Of course i wanted to but he talked about it before me.

I agree that it is "show" of love and the commitment that the two are making to each other. Not all men just do it to get it over with when I asked my dh he was a little offended and hurt that I would even ask him this. He wanted to marry me when we were 16 & 18. It was me that wasn't ready.

I believe marriage is a sign of commitment to the love you have for that very special person. NOW I do know some people get married for all the wrong reason sometimes leading couples to cheat, divorce early, or just not be happy at all.

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