Let's see how this goes. In the past, I primarily used Skype to just hop on, make a call, hop off. Having any instant messenger on while trying to work or concentrate is a bad idea. But I'm thinking I should have some open Skype time, and whoever can drop me a line if they like. I'm "sebastmarsh" on Skype. You can download Skype for free at Skype.com.

Also, feel free to drop me an email or an @message on Twitter if I can be of service sometime. Best,

I'm sorry, I really am but I am a firm non-believer in online relationships. I mean, obviously there are exceptions but seriously. You have never even met the guy and you're trying to tell me you LOVE him? You've been "dating" for like a month! You don't even know what love is. You don't trust him because you have to check every freaking social media network to see what he's doing ALL THE FREAKING TIME. This isn't a real relationship, even if you do skype, or do plan to go and meet him someday. You can't love someone you don't know. and you really don't know him. I mean, do you know if his mouth hangs open when he falls asleep? Or if he always starts with his left foot when putting his shoes on? Have you seen the place he runs to when he needs an escape because life has become too hard? Have you felt his heart beating with the same rhythmic movement of your own? Have you felt the protection that his strength promises you? If you can answer yes to these questions than fine, I'll admit maybe I'm wrong. Maybe I'm being to cynical. But honestly, I don't think you can. And its really sad that you're making all of your life decisions based on a pretend relationship. A fantasy. That's all it is.