When you’re kinda-sorta secretly dating and you kinda-sorta get skewered by the media, where do you go? BALI! Just ask Mila Kunis and Ashton Kutcher!

Kutcher, 34 (who in November split from wife of 6 years, Demi Moore, you may know of her), and Kunis, 28, are taking a break from the woes (hah!) of Hollywood to spend some one-on-one time at a resort on Bali’s southern peninsula. Sounds like a good four month anniversary, no? Four months of kinda-sorta dating, 14 years since they met on the set of That 70’s Show…

Life is so weird sometimes!

Only last month, the two were kinda-sorta giving each other some PDA at Kutcher’s Jobs movie wrap party in Los Angeles. They “appeared to be lighthearted and in good spirits, and hardly left each other’s side,” an onlooker told PEOPLE. “They stayed within five feet of each other practically the entire evening. It looked like young love.”

Hmm…to many kinda-sortas for me in this post. OUT WITH IT, you two! Then I can get over my disappointment that someone as adorable as Mila Kunis is dating a dude like Kutcher.