I only like the idea of him?

So I ve started to like this guy, I guess. Except I don't really feel like I like HIM. I feel like I like the idea of him. He is really cute and funny and nice. I don't know why I wouldn't like him. I'm just really confused. How do I start liking HIM as a person and not just the thought of him or the imaginary version of him I've created in my head.

Have you ever talked to him? I feel the same way towards a girl; but im ready to give it a try with her. Who knows? maybe we'll fall for each other in the end

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Anonymous

You probably like the idea of him because in your imagination he adores you, whereas realistically this might not be so tru. So you create a world with the most ideal outcome. A perfectly normal escape mechanism.