Is my sisters friend interested?

My sister invited her friend over for 4th of July. So my sis, her boyfriend, her friend and I were enjoying the night smoking and drinking playing games... By the time I joined them I was already fucked up.. Anywho, I say "whats up" and stuff. Then there were at times when she would ask me questions, in a really gentle way. "Do you like this song" "What kind of music do you like". Naturally, Im a pretty laid back, chilled guy..(She even said that). She even proposed a song which I might like. During the night, I noticed she would look at me (saw it through peripheral vision), so I go ahead and look back. She would give these really gentle looks at me, or even try and take a peek while sipping her drink. My question is, could she be interested? She seems like a nice girls with a good head on her shoulder. But I dont date my sisters friends, never have, never will.

To give a clearer picture of myself: Im laid back (so I appear cold/harsh/mysterious), decent looking (enough to get girls turning their heads in public), reserved but can easily communicate, able to stand my ground, really patient

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Why bother asking and wondering if you're never ever gonna date her anyway? By the way, I don't see the problem in dating your sister's friend; if she's a nice girl, then go for it.

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Well because I've been attracted to her old friends before because they seemed like nice girls. But I stayed away.. But seeing as im not meeting the right girls atm, maybe I should drop that rule and broaden my search pool. If thats the case, are these any signs she's interested is my question?

Well I am currently dating my friend's brother (similar to your situation) and that is turning out quite well.. That's why I would definitely recommend you broadening your search pool because honestly, whether a girl is right for you or not is not defined by her relationship to your sister. Anyhow, regarding the specific signs, that is hard to say without knowing whether the girl is pretty outgoing or much more shy (and whether she lacks confidence or not). I know for myself, I am pretty outgoing and confident, so whenever I like a guy I will let him know by telling him straight in the face or just making out with him. For the shy girls, they will arguably be a lot more subtle in their hints, such as looking at you quite often, laughing about each and every joke you make, blushes whenever you're near her/make a compliment, become sad whenever you're flirting with other girls, etc.

Fair enough I will think about it. The only clear signs she gave me were sneaky looks at me when she was sipping her drink as well as asking questions about what kind of music I liked. Also, the morning after she said "good morning" with a nice smile to which i replied if she had slept alright... She even wished me a happy birthday coz its coming up in a week. Not sure if any of these constitute in her being attracted to me in some way

Fair enough. Well I won't chase her seeing as thats just tiring to me. I've gone off girls and people in general, so now I just keep things to myself without caring about what other think. Although, id really like to know what signs to look for if she's interested ( I thought sneak peeks were considered some form of attraction because thats what she did). She did laugh at some of my jokes too