it looks pretty good to me thee... you can send me the biggest scan you have if you want. i'm not the best either, but i'll give it a whack. you know my email. send your snail mail addy too. i have a kodak 1400 pro dye sub. if i get some good copies of it, i'll mail em.

Sorry for the fly by postings and not returning to take up your very kind offers. I managed to sort it out myself. (didnt get any photos of her actual birthday though, silly of me to hope I might be sent some)

Is she angry at you and using your kid to try to hurt you? Am I understanding that correctly? That's really sad when people try to do that ****. Using the kids and putting em in the middle of everything. That sucks! Really sorry to hear the bad news, Thee.

If that is what she's doing, I kinda know how you feel. My ex used to try to do that kind of thing to me all the time. What a f()@&3d up situation. I feel ya, man. :(

A friend of mine that I've known for 12 years is going through the same thing right now.

Note: this is Jason BTW. Had to change the nick cause r_ ran to the FCA and snitched me out for posting stuff on how to download torrents. Said I was telling everyone 'how to pirate photoshop'. It seems one of the mods decided to set my account for R/O permanently and didn't say anything (I think it's permanent, checked it recently and still no go).

yep that's exactly it, to be honest I dont even know if she is in this country, I phoned Joans cousin in the Philippines last night and asked her to pass a message onto Joans mother. I just hope she can make Joan see how wrong what it is she is doing.

> r_ ran to the FCA and snitched me out for posting stuff on how to download torrents.

Torrents are not illegal, there is nothing wrong with teaching people how to use torrents, its up to the user to be responsible about what they upload and download. r_ is a complete ******* ***** we no life or friends and feels the need to interfere and try to look Superior in his lonely little world, most people know that, why dont you report him for hacking, thats a much more serious issue?

Not to discourage you or anything but my ex's mom tried all she could to tell my ex how wrong she was, but she. would. not. listen!

If she did run off to another country, she's going to regret it when your child is old enough to know better and finds out the truth. She's likely to resent mom for what she did to you guys. That's just selfish and wrong on so many levels!!

For a little while, my ex brainwashed our kid to the point that he turned against me. I kinda let things go and didn't say much directly to him about it. Eventually her evil plans backfired on her. THAT'S when I really showed him what she was all about. A lying narcissistic user and a vindictive *****! Well, not in those words but...

Man, I went through so much hurt I couldn't sleep at night sometimes. Thought I'd never see the light of day. I was just a huge mess. Anyway, you probably don't believe in God or anything like that, (I don't remember) but I'll be praying for ya anyway, man! Can't hurt.

>there is nothing wrong with teaching people how to use torrents, its up to the user to be responsible about what they upload and download.

I don't remember the exact words I said in my
tutorial, but I do remember that at some point I was joking around with Phos about downloading CS4 or something like that. I said something about using Peerguardian and stuff like that as an added layer of security... that was about the time when r_ went to the FCA to post a link with some crap like 'how to steal photoshop'.

>why dont you report him for hacking, thats a much more serious issue?

Meh! Waste of time.

Anyway, back to Willow. You will see her again. You have rights as a father. You just have to find some way to fight for your rights. She can't just take your daughter away from you forever because she's bitter about some sh!t that happened between you two. That's dumb!

GAD! I'm not even going through what you're going through anymore, but I'm
still very irritated just knowing that you are going through that! >:(

Philippino family lore is a little different than most, thats why I have gone down this route.

>If she did run off to another country, she's going to regret it when your child is old enough to know better and finds out the truth.

Joan is a habitual liar, she even believes her own lies im sure. She will lie to willow, but if I ever get contact I will not ever bad mouth Joan or talk about the **** she put me through or some of my friends in this forum, I want my relationship with Willow to be about Willow and I and nothing else. If Joan has or does go back to the Philippines im afraid Willow will be lost to me forever. :-(