Snug. i just noticed some profiles do that and probably going to try that here

Mount Juliet TN

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How about this for members getting lots of emails that they want to filter (solo males don't have this problem) AND wanting to ENSURE the emails come from people who read their profile (which is understandable & only polite).

Seems like I've seen this idea in a Profile or two -- Somewhere deep, but certainly NOT hidden, in the Profile tell emailers that the email "Subject" line must start with or contain some word in order for the email to be read rather than deleted. ...maybe even add a heart-felt explanation for the requirement.

It's like a Bouncer at the door that speaks volumes about those who do and don't comply.

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I believe people don't respond.is for a lot of reasons other than being rude ,like The way you look, location, age, boldness, the unknown,

My husband and I are always polite, we have tried several email attemp, from let get to know you to let meet for fun at a event, but on several occasions , we get no response, or the old brush off. Now I can't go into every detail which we tried, but I know that we are a lovely black gentle couple who are not afraid to make the first move. Nevertheless, 9 out of 10 we have read the profile, and everyone want to meet they claim. Can somebody tell me something cause we are baffled,

From ellease always kind.

Sunrise FL

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We're not as arrogant as I make us sound.

I only point out the stuff to bitch about on here.

We do get nice emails and have nice exchanges and some we end up playing.

If someone outside of our desires emails and just wants to chat for whatever reason, and they are nice, we dont blow them off.

I think its just surprising how the numbers work. You would think most emails would be good, and a few bad apples.

Mount Juliet TN

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You never can tell. I recently declined (politefully) to meet a couple, and got back from them a very nice email profusely thanking me for taking the time to reply. Another couple (free members for several years, with no pics and no certs) wrote me a nastygram saying I needed psychiatric treatment because I declined their overture. You never can tell.

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I disagree.

Ive said many times on here.....If you dont "follow the directions" in our profile and email us, we either wont respond or will send a sarcastic snotty response.

We are right up front in our profile stating the types of emails we wont respond to.

So if youre a 45 year old straight traveler who sends us a one line email with no pics. (Basically summing up exactly what we say we dont want) then you wont get a response or depending on our mood a nasty one.

If you match what we say we are looking for, and "follow directions" then we will respond even if its to say we arent interested.

Mount Juliet TN

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I think not responding is rude. We liken it to a wave. If you wave at someone and you know they saw it, the least they could do is wave back.

When you mail someone, you expect some kind of reply. A simple yes or no is even good enough. But ignoring? Rude.

And if you respond and they get snotty, block em. Easy as that.

My 2 cents worth

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Babe, my comment on your new pics is that they made my cock hard as a rock. Now I just need Santa's little helper to come over here and "help."

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Babe, at least you didn't have to waste any time. I got an email from a couple once that just asked me to tell them a little about myself. I thought that strange since my profile is fairly detailed. But they had a nice profile so I wrote a couple of paragraphs and replied. No answer.

A month later, I get another email from the same couple, the exact same wording (even including a minor typo). I ignored it, and the identical email I got a few months later.

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Yeah we just got one of those emails ... they failed to read our profile came down from Canada for a month. Only a week left for them here ...they were staying 2 plus hours away from us looking for a bi female not a curious one ... we state that me the male will chat with people till we meet due to rudeness of folks ... we have enough certs to prove whom we are ... but they wanted the women only to chat , not looking for a one night stand ... first nite might be coffee ( all cool when you state in your profile you have time ) my wife and I composed email and told them hey we aren't looking for a bi female , that my wife is selectively bi re emphasized that I the male would act as pointman ... we turned them down and said we just werent interested ... they in turn sent one back saying that they wanted the women to chat since they're so many fakes out there ( WE HAVE RECENT CERTS ) that I was a CONTROL freak ???? and good luck with our search ( WHAT???? We didn't even look them up, have plenty on our plate here without running desperately across the continent much less two plus hours just for a cup of coffee ofr them to try and get a piece of ass from my wife as a one night stand ) sorry just a little bit upset using this to vent

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