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enIs something wrong with me because I like BDSM? Can I like it and still be a feminist?http://www.scarleteen.com/article/advice/is_something_wrong_with_me_because_i_like_bdsm_can_i_like_it_and_still_be_a_feminist
<div class="question"><div class="question-question"> <p>For as long as I can remember, I have been turned on my imagining my own pain and humiliation. I am going out with someone for the first time now, and we've been together for almost eight months. Recently we've started experimenting with very mild SM-type things--tying each other up, biting, spanking. I love it, and so does he. But is this normal? Should I be worried that this turns me on more than anything else we've done together? Is there something wrong with me? (I've never been abused). And can I still be a feminist if I get off on being dominated by men?</p>
</div></div><div class="more-link"><a href="/article/advice/is_something_wrong_with_me_because_i_like_bdsm_can_i_like_it_and_still_be_a_feminist">read The answer</a> | <a href="/question/">ask your own</a></div> GenderPoliticsSexualitySexual IdentityAdviceEtcabuseBDSMcommunicationcultureD/sdesiredominationfeminismfeministhealthyhumiliationmennegotiationnormalpainpleasurerelationshipsrisksrolessafetysexSMsubmissionwomenWed, 10 Jun 2009 14:14:09 +0000Heather Corinna2515 at http://www.scarleteen.com