Brandon Foster is basically one of the most crush-worthy dudes on TV right now. He's cute in that laid-back, sweatshirt-y, close-with-his-mom kind of way and can write you your own love song on the piano. Callie (Maia Mitchell) may be taking a break from him (despite said amazing piano ballad), but that doesn't mean the duo are over forever, even if they are about to become brother and sister (awk). We sat down with David Lambert who told us what he looks for in a relationship, but be prepared—you're about to fall even more.

1. He appreciates your girl power. "I'm a big fan of independent girls who are strong-willed, vocal in their opinions, and have a sense of humor," he told us. "Do your own thing and I will respect that." So whether it's owning the fact that you'll never miss a dance class, or making sure to spend time with your girls, you don't have to worry that you'll lose out with him—he'll love you even more!

2. His fave date? One where you can chat! This guy wants to find all about who you are. "I feel like it's always a good sign when you find yourself talking for hours about every topic ever," he said. "It's best when you just find the person interesting for no apparent reason." Ummm, a guy who will talk to you about your Divergent obsession and then segue right into a convo about the greater meaning of life?! Seriously sold.

3. He knows it's all about trust. Although David hasn't been in a situation like Callie and Brandon's (again: awk), he does know from experiencing long-distance relationships that when things get tough, the only thing you can do is trust in it. "It's easier said than done, but you have to be comfortable enough that even when you're not with the person every day, things are still good," he shared.

David promises that tonight's season finale of The Fosters is going to be very intense. "It's the culmination of all the mistakes that Brandon's been making throughout the season," he revealed. Don't miss out—tune in tonight at 9/8c on ABC Family!

Will you be checking out tonight's season finale? What do you think will happen with Brandon and Callie? Comment below!