0 YOU who have attained to faith! Do not enter the Prophet's
dwellings unless you are given leave; [and when invited] to a
meal, do not come [so early as] to wait for it to be readied: but
whenever you are invited, enter [at the proper time]; and when
you have partaken of the meal, disperse without lingering for the
sake of mere talk: that, behold, might give offence to the
Prophet, and yet he might feel shy of [asking] you [to leave]:
but God is not shy of [teaching you] what is right.68
And [as for the Prophet's wives,] whenever you ask them for
anything that you need, ask them from behind a screen:69
this will but deepen the purity of your hearts and theirs.
Moreover, it does not behove you to give offence to God's Apostle
- just as it would not behove you ever to marry his widows after
he has passed away:70 that. verily, would be an enormity
in the sight of God.

O believers! Do not enter the houses of the Prophet without
permission, nor stay waiting for meal time: but if you are
invited to a meal, enter, and when you have eaten disperse and do
not seek long conversation. Such behavior annoys the Prophet, he
feels shy in asking you to leave, but Allah does not feel shy in
telling the truth. If you have to ask his wives for anything,
speak to them from behind a curtain. This is more chaste for your
hearts and for theirs. It is not proper for you to annoy the
Rasool of Allah, nor ever to marry his wives after him; this
would be a grievous offence in the sight of Allah.

O ye who believe! Enter not the dwellings of the Prophet for a
meal without waiting for the proper time, unless permission be
granted you. But if ye are invited, enter, and, when your meal is
ended, then disperse. Linger not for conversation. Lo! that would
cause annoyance to the Prophet, and he would be shy of (asking)
you (to go); but Allah is not shy of the truth. And when ye ask
of them (the wives of the Prophet) anything, ask it of them from
behind a curtain. That is purer for your hearts and for their
hearts. And it is not for you to cause annoyance to the messenger
of Allah, nor that ye should ever marry his wives after him. Lo!
that in Allah's sight would be an enormity.

O ye who Believe! enter not the Prophet's houses until leave is
given you for a meal (and then) not (so early as) to wait for its
preparation: but when ye are invited enter; and when ye have
taken your meal disperse without seeking familiar talk. Such
(behavior) annoys the Prophet: He is ashamed to dismiss you but
Allah is not ashamed (to tell you) the truth. And when ye ask
(his ladies) for anything ye want ask them from before a screen:
that makes for greater purity for your hearts and for theirs.
Nor is it right for you that ye should annoy Allah's Apostle or
that ye should marry his widows after him at any time. Truly
such a thing is in Allah's sight an enormity. 3755375637573758

Note - 68

Connecting with the reference, in verses {45-48}, to the
Prophet's mission, the above passage is meant to stress
his unique position among his contemporaries; but as is
so often the case with Qur'anic references to historical
events and situations, the ethical principle enunciated
here is not restricted to a particular time or
environment. By exhorting the Prophet's Companions to
revere his person, the Qur'an reminds all believers, at
all times, of his exalted status (cf. note [85] on
2:104); beyond that, it teaches them certain rules of
behaviour bearing on the life of the community as such:
rules which, however insignificant they may appear at
first glance, are of psychological value in a society
that is to be governed by a genuine feeling of
brotherhood, mutual consideration, and respect for the
sanctity of each other's personality and privacy.

Note - 69

The term hijab denotes anything that intervenes between
two things, or conceals, shelters or protects the one
from the other; it may be rendered, according to the
context, as "barrier", "obstacle", "partition", "screen",
"curtain", "veil", etc., in both the concrete and
abstract connotations of these words. The prohibition to
approach the Prophet's wives otherwise than "from behind
a screen" or "curtain" may be taken literally - as indeed
it was taken by most of the Companions of the Prophet -
or metaphorically, indicating the exceptional reverence
due to these "mothers of the faithful".

Note - 70

Lit., "to marry his wives after him".

Note - 3755

The rules of refined social ethics is as necessary to
teach to-day as it was with the rude Arabs whom the holy
Prophet had to teach in his day. Those mentioned in this
verse may be briefly recapitulated thus: (1) Enter not a
friend's house without permission; (2) if invited to
dine, don't go too early; you are asked to dine, not to
wait for the preparation of the food; (3) be there at the
time appointed, so that you enter when you are expected
and invited; (4) after the meal, don't get familiar with
your host, especially if there is a great distance
between him and you; (5) don't waste time in
tittle-tattle, causing inconvenience and perhaps
annoyance to your host; (6) understand what is proper
behaviour for you: he may be too polite to ask to depart.
All this has a social bearng: respect and delicate
consideration for others are among the highest virtues.

Note - 3756

The actual manner of showing respect to ladies may be
different in different circumstances. But it is an
essential principle of good society to show the greatest
deference to them. To the "Mothers of the Believers" this
respect was due in an exceptional degree.

Note - 3757

Considering his position, the holy Prophet deserved to be
respected before all other men and nothing should be done
to cause him the least harm and annoyance. This applied
not only during his life-time, but it applies now,
because his teaching and personality are alive to us. It
was not fitting that his widows, both for their own
position and for the position of the Prophet, should be
married by other men after him. And this mark of respect
was duly observed in history.

Note - 3758

"Annoy": Aza (IV) may equally mean: to vex, to cause hurt
or injury, to insult, to ill-treat by slander or unseemly
conduct, or hurt the feelings of (some one). The Prophet
came with a divine mission to teach and reclaim the
world, and he is entitied to the respect of all, even of
those who do not consciously acknowledge his mission, for
his mission works constantly like the forces of nature.
In a minor degree the "Mothers of the Believers" are also
entitied to respect.

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Asad 68Connecting with the reference, in verses {45-48}, to the
Prophet's mission, the above passage is meant to stress
his unique position among his contemporaries; but as is
so often the case with Qur'anic references to historical
events and situations, the ethical principle enunciated
here is not restricted to a particular time or
environment. By exhorting the Prophet's Companions to
revere his person, the Qur'an reminds all believers, at
all times, of his exalted status (cf. note [85] on
2:104); beyond that, it teaches them certain rules of
behaviour bearing on the life of the community as such:
rules which, however insignificant they may appear at
first glance, are of psychological value in a society
that is to be governed by a genuine feeling of
brotherhood, mutual consideration, and respect for the
sanctity of each other's personality and privacy.

Asad

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Asad 69The term hijab denotes anything that intervenes between
two things, or conceals, shelters or protects the one
from the other; it may be rendered, according to the
context, as "barrier", "obstacle", "partition", "screen",
"curtain", "veil", etc., in both the concrete and
abstract connotations of these words. The prohibition to
approach the Prophet's wives otherwise than "from behind
a screen" or "curtain" may be taken literally - as indeed
it was taken by most of the Companions of the Prophet -
or metaphorically, indicating the exceptional reverence
due to these "mothers of the faithful".

Asad

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Asad 70Lit., "to marry his wives after him".

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Yusuf Ali 3755The rules of refined social ethics is as necessary to
teach to-day as it was with the rude Arabs whom the holy
Prophet had to teach in his day. Those mentioned in this
verse may be briefly recapitulated thus: (1) Enter not a
friend's house without permission; (2) if invited to
dine, don't go too early; you are asked to dine, not to
wait for the preparation of the food; (3) be there at the
time appointed, so that you enter when you are expected
and invited; (4) after the meal, don't get familiar with
your host, especially if there is a great distance
between him and you; (5) don't waste time in
tittle-tattle, causing inconvenience and perhaps
annoyance to your host; (6) understand what is proper
behaviour for you: he may be too polite to ask to depart.
All this has a social bearng: respect and delicate
consideration for others are among the highest virtues.

Yusuf Ali

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Yusuf Ali 3756The actual manner of showing respect to ladies may be
different in different circumstances. But it is an
essential principle of good society to show the greatest
deference to them. To the "Mothers of the Believers" this
respect was due in an exceptional degree.

Yusuf Ali

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Yusuf Ali 3757Considering his position, the holy Prophet deserved to be
respected before all other men and nothing should be done
to cause him the least harm and annoyance. This applied
not only during his life-time, but it applies now,
because his teaching and personality are alive to us. It
was not fitting that his widows, both for their own
position and for the position of the Prophet, should be
married by other men after him. And this mark of respect
was duly observed in history.

Yusuf Ali

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Yusuf Ali 3758"Annoy": Aza (IV) may equally mean: to vex, to cause hurt
or injury, to insult, to ill-treat by slander or unseemly
conduct, or hurt the feelings of (some one). The Prophet
came with a divine mission to teach and reclaim the
world, and he is entitied to the respect of all, even of
those who do not consciously acknowledge his mission, for
his mission works constantly like the forces of nature.
In a minor degree the "Mothers of the Believers" are also
entitied to respect.