I grew up rough, and have lived in poor neighborhoods as a child. I grew up around Mexicans, and blacks and was exposed to a lot of things that white people never see.

I want to be honest possibly I can help you.

Most men are driven by sexuality. A man looks at your body first. It's just the way we are wired. Sex and food are VERY important to men.

Then a man notices your personality.

Men can love you, most men don't fall in love, I mean the kind of love that grabs you, and won't let you go, the kind of love that has her always on your mind, you can't live without her...That kind of love is rare, and sometimes unwanted, it can scare some people.

OK so now onto the black issue...

Some white men will not even look at a black girl. Some of it has to do with the racial tension, a lot of people perceive blacks as angry and hateful towards whites and with good reason. I know this may not apply to you, but it is a factor.

Most white men know if they choose you, they are going to get lots of sh-t from other black folks. Unless you live in Europe.

Most men try to avoid hassles and HATE being nagged, and bitched at. White men DO NOT think black women are cute, when they get all loud and demonstrative.

IF you can convince a white man non of this comes with a relationship with YOU then it might work...

Lastly, and I know I've just skimmed the surface...You must look inside and ask why YOU are searching for a white man...

I grew up rough, and have lived in poor neighborhoods as a child. I grew up around Mexicans, and blacks and was exposed to a lot of things that white people never see.

I want to be honest possibly I can help you.

Most men are driven by sexuality. A man looks at your body first. It's just the way we are wired. Sex and food are VERY important to men.

Then a man notices your personality.

Men can love you, most men don't fall in love, I mean the kind of love that grabs you, and won't let you go, the kind of love that has her always on your mind, you can't live without her...That kind of love is rare, and sometimes unwanted, it can scare some people.

OK so now onto the black issue...

Some white men will not even look at a black girl. Some of it has to do with the racial tension, a lot of people perceive blacks as angry and hateful towards whites and with good reason. I know this may not apply to you, but it is a factor.

Most white men know if they choose you, they are going to get lots of sh-t from other black folks. Unless you live in Europe.

Most men try to avoid hassles and HATE being nagged, and bitched at. White men DO NOT think black women are cute, when they get all loud and demonstrative.

IF you can convince a white man non of this comes with a relationship with YOU then it might work...

Lastly, and I know I've just skimmed the surface...You must look inside and ask why YOU are searching for a white man...

Good luck.

Quoting: Anonymous Coward 8407446

I'm not searching for a white guy. I find them very attractive. Ever since I was a kid actually lol. I don't know why. Maybe I am weird . Maybe it's the white in my blood. I don't know :/ . And I know a man falling in love must be rare! But not impossible,

You look like a sweet girl. I am a much older man (54) and married. I want to bang you bleh bleh bleh...

Good luck.

Quoting: Anonymous Coward 8407446

I'm not searching for a white guy. I find them very attractive. Ever since I was a kid actually lol. I don't know why. Maybe I am weird . Maybe it's the white in my blood. I don't know :/ . And I know a man falling in love must be rare! But not impossible,

You look like a sweet girl. I am a much older man (54) and married. I want to bang you bleh bleh bleh...

Good luck.

Quoting: Anonymous Coward 8407446

I'm not searching for a white guy. I find them very attractive. Ever since I was a kid actually lol. I don't know why. Maybe I am weird . Maybe it's the white in my blood. I don't know :/ . And I know a man falling in love must be rare! But not impossible,

Quoting: CigarTigher

Men fall in love just like women do.

Quoting: Chip

I'm not a man so I don't know. I am sure they do. Maybe they have a hard time showing it? Women are emotional creatures that's why they express themselves better. But I think it's cute if a guy expresses himself. Love itself is cute. I may not ever fall in love , but seeing other people in love brings a smile to my face.

You look like a sweet girl. I am a much older man (54) and married. I want to bang you bleh bleh bleh...

Good luck.

Quoting: Anonymous Coward 8407446

I'm not searching for a white guy. I find them very attractive. Ever since I was a kid actually lol. I don't know why. Maybe I am weird . Maybe it's the white in my blood. I don't know :/ . And I know a man falling in love must be rare! But not impossible,

Quoting: CigarTigher

Men fall in love just like women do.

Quoting: Chip

I'm not a man so I don't know. I am sure they do. Maybe they have a hard time showing it? Women are emotional creatures that's why they express themselves better. But I think it's cute if a guy expresses himself. Love itself is cute. I may not ever fall in love , but seeing other people in love brings a smile to my face.

Quoting: CigarTigher

Some advice...never lose that sweetness...the innocence is key to a terrific woman/wife/partner. Sure some of it will shave off because of pitfalls and bullshit. But jagged women with a rough edge are rarely really loved.

I'm not searching for a white guy. I find them very attractive. Ever since I was a kid actually lol. I don't know why. Maybe I am weird . Maybe it's the white in my blood. I don't know :/ . And I know a man falling in love must be rare! But not impossible,

Quoting: CigarTigher

Men fall in love just like women do.

Quoting: Chip

I'm not a man so I don't know. I am sure they do. Maybe they have a hard time showing it? Women are emotional creatures that's why they express themselves better. But I think it's cute if a guy expresses himself. Love itself is cute. I may not ever fall in love , but seeing other people in love brings a smile to my face.

Quoting: CigarTigher

Some advice...never lose that sweetness...the innocence is key to a terrific woman/wife/partner. Sure some of it will shave off because of pitfalls and bullshit. But jagged women with a rough edge are rarely really loved.

Quoting: Chip

Thanks, and I won't. I been through a lot growing up. It made me a better and stronger person. Although I am very sensitive lol. I have never been in a fight! Lol

To have a meaningful relationship, one has to be able to adapt and accept the "family" environment so if they become serious then the Mixed family dynamic at holidays, get togethers etc. can many times be too overwhelming for a White dude to want to deal with. It's hard to be truly comfortable at a picnic if you're the only white dude with a bunch of macho getto thugs with a completely different upbringing and outlook on life. I couldn't do it, and it's not because I'm racist, but rather I cannot pretend to be something that I'm not in order to fit in. It's not worth it and I'd never be happy. but that's just me.

I dont care about black or white I dont categorize. All I know OP is such an attention whore and i believe you just need a dick and some loving to get you out of here. Youre just bored out of youre panties and you need a man in youre life.

To have a meaningful relationship, one has to be able to adapt and accept the "family" environment so if they become serious then the Mixed family dynamic at holidays, get togethers etc. can many times be too overwhelming for a White dude to want to deal with. It's hard to be truly comfortable at a picnic if you're the only white dude with a bunch of macho getto thugs with a completely different upbringing and outlook on life. I couldn't do it, and it's not because I'm racist, but rather I cannot pretend to be something that I'm not in order to fit in. It's not worth it and I'd never be happy. but that's just me.

Quoting: Anonymous Coward 5196800

I'm glad I don't have thugs in my immediate family. I have country folks and regular folks. Now, on the side that is from New Orleans... The females are younger than me and one is my age. They have kids and the one my age has 2! 2 out of 3 girls have kids. Sad :/ I know people make mistakes, but you have to be responsible.

I dont care about black or white I dont categorize. All I know OP is such an attention whore and i believe you just need a dick and some loving to get you out of here. Youre just bored out of youre panties and you need a man in youre life.

Quoting: Anonymous Coward 27178693

lol even on the internet with just a picture and flirty atitude you have dozen's of guys figuring your easy..

i think we all know why you get hit on

Quoting: Anonymous Coward 26102818

I'm not easy, I have never had sex. I do not want a boyfriend anytime soon. Yes I am bored. And the picture is from vacation. It is not a bra. Also, how a, I easy if I have never dated anyone ? I am FAR from easy. I am VERY picky. And I much rather see other people in a relationship than me.

Also, I don't really get hit on in person. And I am not trying to bring this thread around me. I hate the unnecessary attention. Lol

I dont care about black or white I dont categorize. All I know OP is such an attention whore and i believe you just need a dick and some loving to get you out of here. Youre just bored out of youre panties and you need a man in youre life.

The reason white women go with black men, and Asian women with white men is this: cranial capacity.

The larger the cranial capacity the larger the pelvic birth canal required. And the more danger associated with birth.

So it is safer for a woman to mate with a man with a smaller cranial capacity when it comes to child birth.

The only thing stopping this is the resident male's resistance to being cuckold. And in the name of diversity that has been eroded away to nothing.

So this trend will continue until there is a sufficient small cranial capacity individuals that it overwhelms the cuckold males to support them.

Society collapses, and we do it all over again.

So to answer the question, small cranial females have the least pelvic space to birth larger cranial capacity offspring.

This is the standard of beauty. Its the hip to waist ratio that attracts men. Why waste your time on someone unlikely to bear a child with cranial capacity too large to fit through the pelvis?

Quoting: Anonymous Coward 9527842

Horse shit asshole.

Baby's shoulders are the widest point. The skull is soft and conforms to the birth canal.

But black males definitely have small brains. Especially considering their skull thickness takes up most of the space.

Quoting: Anonymous Coward 26924440

Its true adults have the widest point at the shoulders. That's why the big snakes have a hard time swallowing adult humans. However, a baby's skull is the largest part to exit the womb. And all the bones are soft with lots of cartilage.

As far as Homo is concerned, its all about the give and take of cranial capacity versus the cost of its gain. Nothing comes without sacrifice.

OP,I've read through this thread and I have to say you are very sweet and very tolerant. Some of the comments have been horrible and rude and I give you alot of credit for putting that question out there knowing how some of the answers could be offensive.

Here in New England there are plenty of white men and black women; mixed couples (of all different races) almost seem the norm.

I dont care about black or white I dont categorize. All I know OP is such an attention whore and i believe you just need a dick and some loving to get you out of here. Youre just bored out of youre panties and you need a man in youre life.

Quoting: Anonymous Coward 27178693

lol even on the internet with just a picture and flirty atitude you have dozen's of guys figuring your easy..

i think we all know why you get hit on

Quoting: Anonymous Coward 26102818

I'm not easy, I have never had sex. I do not want a boyfriend anytime soon. Yes I am bored. And the picture is from vacation. It is not a bra. Also, how a, I easy if I have never dated anyone ? I am FAR from easy. I am VERY picky. And I much rather see other people in a relationship than me.

Also, I don't really get hit on in person. And I am not trying to bring this thread around me. I hate the unnecessary attention. Lol

Quoting: CigarTigher

Well, youre missing out, still a virgin at 21. You need to get laid imo. Go out and date and instead of trolling GLP you can actually have some fun in youre freetime. Just do it safe and atleast put some effort in a man you like to make sure its not a douchebag.

And nobody believes the 'oh its just a photo, from a photoshoot(its obviously self made picture)in youre bikini or 'bra'. Saddest part is the majority here are old and lonely guys youre giving some hope to its sad.