All I can say is YES!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Dude she probably gets off on it knowing your alseep and having to be sneaky. Again YES!!!!! Not trying to be disrespectful saying this but if it was me I would do one or both of the following. Next time she is actually sleep wake up and start doing your thing to her while she is sleeping. Yeah she will wake up eventually but she will like. After you do that what a few days or whatever and call her out on it. She will probably be turned on. Hell when my wife wants to fuck with me she will tell me when she was playing with herself and i was in the other room or sleeping. Again YES!!!!!!!

The past few nights, I have awoken to the sounds of my wife masturbating in the bed next to me. I have pretended to remain sleeping so that I could "enjoy the show" -- but I have been very turned on and would like to "awaken" so that I could join in. If it happens again, what do I do?

And, FYI, we have a very healthy sex life so the issue is not that she is otherwise "deprived."

The past few nights, I have awoken to the sounds of my wife masturbating in the bed next to me. I have pretended to remain sleeping so that I could "enjoy the show" -- but I have been very turned on and would like to "awaken" so that I could join in. If it happens again, what do I do?

And, FYI, we have a very healthy sex life so the issue is not that she is otherwise "deprived."

The past few nights, I have awoken to the sounds of my wife masturbating in the bed next to me. I have pretended to remain sleeping so that I could "enjoy the show" -- but I have been very turned on and would like to "awaken" so that I could join in. If it happens again, what do I do?

And, FYI, we have a very healthy sex life so the issue is not that she is otherwise "deprived."

OP,If shes doing herself, she might be thinking of some one else while shes doing it.Be on the alert for signs.

Sorry, its a bad sign.

Quoting: Anonymous Coward 823654

I disagree with this statement. All of my fantasies are ABOUTmy hubby! Maybe she woke up dreaming about a special time between you two and it was so real when she realized she had been dreaming she felt the need to have an orgasm. Do you work alot and sleep heavy at night? I hate waking my hubby up because I know how hard he works and he needs his sleep. Maybe she loves you and doesn't want to hurt your feelings but does need more to reach climax. Maybe it is a sensitive subject for you whether you realize it or not, and she doesn't want to hurt your feelings by telling you how she feels. Intercourse alone does not always cause a woman to reach orgasm.

Here is what you SHOULD do if you love your wife. If you catch her again, yes tell tell how sexy it is and then finish her by oral sex. I promise you, you will not regret it because then she is going to rock your world!

The past few nights, I have awoken to the sounds of my wife masturbating in the bed next to me. I have pretended to remain sleeping so that I could "enjoy the show" -- but I have been very turned on and would like to "awaken" so that I could join in. If it happens again, what do I do?

And, FYI, we have a very healthy sex life so the issue is not that she is otherwise "deprived."

OP,If shes doing herself, she might be thinking of some one else while shes doing it.Be on the alert for signs.

Sorry, its a bad sign.

Quoting: Anonymous Coward 823654

I disagree with this statement. All of my fantasies are ABOUTmy hubby! Maybe she woke up dreaming about a special time between you two and it was so real when she realized she had been dreaming she felt the need to have an orgasm. Do you work alot and sleep heavy at night? I hate waking my hubby up because I know how hard he works and he needs his sleep. Maybe she loves you and doesn't want to hurt your feelings but does need more to reach climax. Maybe it is a sensitive subject for you whether you realize it or not, and she doesn't want to hurt your feelings by telling you how she feels. Intercourse alone does not always cause a woman to reach orgasm.

Here is what you SHOULD do if you love your wife. If you catch her again, yes tell tell how sexy it is and then finish her by oral sex. I promise you, you will not regret it because then she is going to rock your world!

Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1094259

Ook first as far as her thinking about another guy....ok and do you not watch porn? its normal. Again YYYYEEESSSSS!!!! unfortunately for me ive already been through what your going through. Unfortunatley becuase i wish i could experience it again. YYYEEESSS!!!!!!

No I do not watch porn, and no it is not normal. We've been brainwashed into believing its normal, but no it's not. It was actually created to DESTROY families, or the family unit. Do a little research into that one. Also created to implant the thought that you are "missing something" in your own relationship.

WHY would I need to watch porn when I have the man of my dreaming laying next to me? I am very creative by myself, so I seriously doubt there would be something I could learn. LOL Why would I want to watch somebody else getting off? I would much rather be doing it myself, and i am not a perv or peeping tom. If I wanted another man I would not have married my hubby in the first place. I truly LOVE my hubby with all of his faults, for better or worse and we have been thru it all, probably more than 2 or 3 couples would ever experience in a single life. If I want to get off, i just access one of those special times and BAM! I'm ready to roll! LOL Maybe that is what the op's wife is doing when he is sleeping.

The past few nights, I have awoken to the sounds of my wife masturbating in the bed next to me. I have pretended to remain sleeping so that I could "enjoy the show" -- but I have been very turned on and would like to "awaken" so that I could join in. If it happens again, what do I do?

And, FYI, we have a very healthy sex life so the issue is not that she is otherwise "deprived."

The past few nights, I have awoken to the sounds of my wife masturbating in the bed next to me. I have pretended to remain sleeping so that I could "enjoy the show" -- but I have been very turned on and would like to "awaken" so that I could join in. If it happens again, what do I do?

And, FYI, we have a very healthy sex life so the issue is not that she is otherwise "deprived."

Quoting: Anonymous Coward 507342

Where do you faggot ass guys come from? I just can't even fathom ever even having to ask what to do in a situation like this. Jesus no wonder she has to masterbate so often.

to the contrary, i am very happy for her and don't fault her at all. just wondering if it's selfish on my part to "jump in,"

Quoting: Anonymous Coward 507342

join in, by all means.altough, explain to me, why she is masturbating if you are right there?ok if u were at work or travelling ....but...i do not think you can go wrong if the rule of thumb wld be that every time you are arosed by anything your wife does, you sex her up.....i think that is a very good rule...