She should see a rape counselor. I can totally understand why she is upset, but she does need to find a way to over come this. Paps smears are pretty important. Ask her what other things might change how she feels. Maybe she could go to a clinic in a different area or maybe you could go with her.

Help your GF and find the #s to rape counselors in your area.

She will only get them but only once a year or two. They want her to do it every 3 to 4 months for the patch. We are hoping to explain her situation firts and hope she only has to do it every othe issueing of the patch. She wont go to a counselor. She is okay with it except the examination.