I decided to go with John's suggestion of using a smaller stand and extending it. I hadn't even considered that as an option.

I ended up with a Lollipod Tripod / Stand ...

Weight: 320gm

Closed Length: 320mm

Extended Length: 1130mm

Max Load: 420gm

... and have added an Pocket XShot Camera Extender, which very handily comes with a tripod socket at the base of its handle ...

Weight: 142gm

Closed Length: 165mm

Extended Length: 775mm

Max Load: 570 gm

It has a combined weight of 462gm, and gives a max height of 1905mm. With my camera being 95gm, the total load of 237gm is well within the Lollipod's Max Load.

When fully extended, it takes a few seconds to stop wobbling, and I wouldn't be keen on using it in a lot of wind, but the Lollipod does comes with a stabilizing net to which you can add weight to help secure it.

Going down the extender route obviously adds a few seconds to setting it up, but at 32cm closed length, it fits really well in my bag, and it's nice to have the XShot extender in the toolkit too.