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Thursday, December 15, 2011

Nathan is doing very well in school but is definitely struggling lately to maintain friendships. I know this problem is common in kids with Aspergers but it doesn't mean I have to like it or even accept it! We talk with Nathan and try to explain what a friend is and how to keep friends and how to be kind and flexible and so forth but not all of it sinks in.

I know he has a tendency to overreact when other kids are not doing things "the right way" or "the way you are supposed to" and that can push kids away. He also doesn't understand when someone says, "I don't want to be your friend anymore." He finds it an odd statement since nearly everyone is his friend. It just plain doesn't make sense to him.

But overall he is doing better than we expected and his teacher says he is participating more and more in group activities and playing with a wider range of playground equipment, colors, etc.

Little Miss Emma has decided she should be in school and ask everyday when she will get to go. But I also think she doesn't mind too much being home with mommy and cooking and even getting a bath in the middle of the day! Not too shabby I say!

I will be 32 weeks pregnant tomorrow! Hard to believe. I am very uncomfortable at this point but it will all be worth it!

Wednesday, December 7, 2011

Just a quick update. Nathan's school finally hired a physical therapist which means as soon as this busy momma gets a chance I can go to Nathan's doctor to pick up his prescription for therapy and then he can start therapy at school. He already does Occupational Therapy OT, and has made remarkable improvements but his balance and coordination still need work as well as some muscle weakness still present.

This morning Nathan was in a terrible mood and crying and whining over everything and yelling at his sister and me! He is supposed to have a play date today after school and I told him if he couldn't control himself I was cancelling. Just before he got out of the van to go into school he blew me a kiss! Very unusual for him. I was just saying the other day how it's a shame he never seems excited to see me after school and doesn't seem to miss me so a blown kiss was special!

Nathan does not like the weekends because he said he would rather just stay at school. We are happy he loves school so much but we also want him to understand that time with family is important.