Such Improvement! The Presence of a SKILLED Empath, Part 1

Today, let’s learn about the presence of an empath who has an altogether different quality of life. Your presence improves along with everything else. Simply because you have developed an effortless little set of skills.

Oh yes… scroll to the bottom of today’s article to understand a very important thing about that I will not be writing about here.

Empath Talent #1. Physical Intuition

As a skilled empath, expect a very calming shift to your aura and energy presence. You’re less jumpy, more centered and grounded. (And without, ugh!, constantly trying to fix yourself and inadvertently do extra “Technique Time” all day long.)

Socially, your life won’t have to include observing things about people’s physical health. Not unless that’s your job. Or you really, really, really like to talk in detail about every bit of blood, sweat, saltiness of tears, color of mucus, etc.

Meanwhile, freedom from inner worry about your own health may be a pleasant surprise to discover, one improvement-filled day at a time.

Empath Talent #2. Physical Oneness

Energetically, a skilled empath with Physical Oneness has a naturally soothing physical presence. People may notice they feel better, calmer, more alive when around you — and just as a result of hanging out with you. No work needed!

Hello, you’re not giving away free unskilled services. 🙂

What explains that shift in presence? You’re no longer gathering Imported STUFF energetically, as every unskilled empath does, whether consciously aware of doing this or not.

Note: With every type of empath gift, there will be loads of Imported STUFF that the unskilled empath can’t possibly know about consciously.

Why not? Because the whole process is energetic subconscious.

What unskilled empaths do notice consciously, if they notice much at all, is only a tiny fraction of the energetic mess.

As DAVID BUCKLAND wrote in a recent, insightful article about being an empath: “Not gaining proper skills, we leave them on much of the time, pick up others’ junk, and are confused by the internal vacillations that result. Yet the dynamics remain subconscious so the process and thus solutions are unclear.”

But no repining…

As you learn the skills of Empath Empowerment, you will be able to help people with the knowledge you receive. Plus… you won’t be either suffering or confused about what you feel in your body.

Empath Talent #3. Intellectual Empath Ability

Energetically what changes about your presence? Can you instantly speak Ancient Greek?

Not without studying. Besides, whichever languages you speak do not show in your aura.

What can you expect to show in your energy presence? You may seem smarter than ever.

In your social presence as well, your speech and actions may impress others more. It’s hard to be as persuasive or coherent or effective as you could be if, subconsciously, your mind is constantly being pulled in different directions.

It’s not overstating things to consider that as a skilled empath with Intellectual Empath Ability you are a natural leader, intellectually. And you’ve got the energy presence to match.

Empath Talent #4. Emotional Intuition

As this type of empath, do you ever have great expectations when a skilled empath!

Energetically your sense of self becomes more coherent. People are more likely to respect that kind of spontaneous auric modeling. While before, your presence has suffered. Through no fault of your own, you may have brought immense complication to every conversation with every other human being.

Socially your interactions can really improve, and that includes rapid learning of social skills that — despite your best effotrts, you weren’t able to learn well.

Your former disadvantage, not described in terms of presence alone? To put it bluntly.

Socially, unskilled empaths (especially those with Emotional Intuition) do not fare as well as non-empaths.

Or even as well as empaths who don’t happen to be this same type of empath as you, an empath with Emotional Intuition.

But as a skilled empath? Those with Emotional Intuition may well develop more authentic social finesse than non-empaths, and other empaths who don’t have this fine gift of yours, Emotional Intuition.

Empath Talent #5. Emotional Oneness

When you have been born as this type of empath, it makes a night-and-day difference, comparing life before and after gaining Empath Empowerment.

Energetically your presence becomes more relatable, more likeable. All those inner ups and downs that you’re used to experiencing, at random, day after day? When the cause is gone, your auric modeling becomes so much easier to take.

Before — pardon my saying — your aura was a bit like the Peanuts character Pig-Pen, a whirl of fascinating chaos. Emotional chaos in your case.

None of this was your fault. It was just part of the price you paid for incarnating as this type of empath.

Remember, the skill part IS up to you. And all empath gifts impact your energy presence, your auric modeling.

Until you get skilled, this particular one is a doozy. After skills? A delight.

What improvement can you expect with your social presence? You may well become more popular.

Let’s face it. Before becoming a skilled empath, you may have burned out close friends at an alarming rate.

If it’s any consolation, this Empath Coach thinks you showed awesome courage when you chose to incarnate as this type of empath. Emotions are very important here at Earth School, and people vary enormously in how emotionally sensitive they are, how emotionally honest, how committed to emotional growth.

By incarnating with the most emotionally intense empath gift, you showed such courage.

And now I’m here to tell you that as you gain more and more skill as an empath, both your ease at living and your social skills… are going to be so greatly improved.

Blog-Buddies with this empath gift, you who have already gained Empath Empowerment, would any of you like to comment (or even guest post) about the difference?

Because becoming a skilled empath with Emotional Oneness is a major, majorly major life transformation.

All of you skilled empaths are invited to comment, actually.

Talk about human interest stories! Presence. Energetic presence and/or social presence. Then social life. Then career. Even how you look.

So much can have changed for you, and so naturally.

Important about All Skilled Empaths.

Omitted in This Article, Though

What’s the great thing about being an empath, regardless of which type of empath you are? Once you become a skilled empath…

You are eligible to learn Skilled Empath Merge.

Yes, you’re the only kind of person who can do Skilled Empath Merge, a way to travel in consciousness and gain such useful evolution, with so many benefits to you. That’s what.

And you can even become a Master Empath, somebody who has developed a complete set of different skills for doing Skilled Empath Merge.

This Empath Coach offers you a full training program through some inexpensive how-to books:

Easily resolved during a 55-min. session, with plenty of time available for supporting an intention for Aura Reading Research to help you understand you life now (and past experiences in this lifetime) far better.

Assuming that some of you skilled empaths do share stories, which would be good for you and I’d love ’em and other skilled empaths would adore, and this would also appeal to newish-ly empaths who are on their right track for gaining everyday, effortless Empath Empowerment…

Whoa! Pause for a moment before you read. I mean you.

You Blog-Buddies who would be tempted to read in order to gain more skill.

Don’t you dare try to imagine how it feels to be that empath, having whatever result is described.

This, too, would be a huge waste of your time.

Living today we can have TMI galore. And the “Support Group” route to helping empaths just… drives this Empath Coach wild. Results can often be distracting (at best), and (at worst) downright destructive to the process of actually gaining skills as an empath.

The night-and-day difference of being an unskilled empath with Emotional Oneness and being a skilled empath with Emotional Oneness didn’t happen all at once for me, so it’s kind of difficult to track the changes over the years.

However, I have plenty of poems and journal entries from when it was a big problem for me, so I can piece together some of it!

Here’s the gist: Unskilled—able to go from ecstatic to depressed in 0 seconds flat for no obvious reason, or more likely, for what seemed to be insufficient reasons (because they weren’t the real reason, but I was trying to make sense of it). Lots of “What is WRONG with me?!”.

Skilled—able to go from ecstatic to depressed (and anywhere in between) at whatever rate life calls for (for ordinary and understandable reasons), or when paying attention to art that elicits emotions (again, for understandable reasons).

No worry whatsoever that whatever emotions I’m having mean something is wrong with me.

If I had been able to read Rose’s Empath Empowerment books back in high school or college, I would have gotten there a lot sooner!

So I’m curious as to whether I created workarounds or somehow managed to figure out some form of empath empowerment on my own (certainly not the same techniques as Rose teaches, which is why I didn’t capitalize that!), or perhaps some of both, but only because I’m curious about my own capabilities.

Rose’s way certainly works faster and better than whatever I came up with!

One philosophy professor complained that most of the class successfully explained the position of the philosopher we were studying (Kant) but didn’t put enough of their own opinions in the assigned paper; but one student (yeah, me) went the other direction and didn’t put enough explanation of Kant’s position.

His comment to me was the old saying about standing on the shoulders of giants in order to see farther.

The giant would be Rose, in this context. Learning her Empath Empowerment system earlier would have made my progress *so much* easier.

I used to take pride in figuring out something for myself that could have been readily taught to me, but (especially with Empath Empowerment) what awesome things could I have accomplished if I hadn’t spent so much time trying to “fix” myself, even if I eventually succeeded to some degree?

(Mind you, I don’t know to what degree I did succeed; I just know that life got easier even before I discovered Rose and Empath Empowerment.)

“Skilledable to go from ecstatic to depressed (and anywhere in between) at whatever rate life calls for (for ordinary and understandable reasons), or when paying attention to art that elicits emotions (again, for understandable reasons). “

Interesting. I haven’t noticed many of the specifics mentioned in this post. Maybe because I’m still hazy on what my gifts are (anxiously waiting until Empath Empowerment level #1 is next on my mentoring schedule 😉 ) Though I’m pretty sure emotional oneness hits the list.

I’m also not sure what is a result of learning empath skills specifically and what is because of the spiritual growth that’s also happened.

I’m not holding up a shield of “back-off” or hiding behind a wall of numbness from the overwhelm and yo-yo effect of not being entirely sure who was actually me.

Lilian, I totally hear you re #30. I had a lot of workarounds to try to approximate what “normal” social reactions would be, but it involved a lot of extra work observing others and trying to match it. I was too overwhelmed and numb to be able to actually react.

In general I just feel more present in my life. I’m available to my kids in a way that I have not been.

Don’t get me wrong, as a stay at home dad I’m always available to my kids, but this new way of really being with them, not wanting them to be different (most of the time), just appreciating our time together in the small everyday moments.

I feel I am learning quickly and making changes steadily as I do the Coming Home technique and others from The Empowered Empath as well as the Healing techniques from Use Your Power of Command for Spiritual Cleansing and Protection.

Irene: I understand… You can get started with building skills before you know what your gifts are exactly.

I’m going to wait on clarity about that when I focus more on doing skilled empath merges. It’s nice just to have it all switched OFF and just to experience the world from within the bubble of my own energy.

Hello friends!
I got interested in this thread and was inspired by the comments. I’m an empath. For a very long time I thought I was mental. That there was something wrong with me. Why was I so happy one moment then suddenly sad? I’d ponder that (after recognizing the pattern) and I could not find an answer no matter where I looked.

Years later I recognized that alot of what I experienced was environmental. In places with good vibes and upbeat atmospheres. Around people with the intent to be happy or attempt to be positive, I too felt that way.

Then I experienced the contrast of that happiness my marriage. Although I would bring that positivity with me when I got home it would be taken from me. I say taken because I would be criticized, yelled at, made to feel inferior- though my wife would gain the happiness that I’d bring home.

These contrasts lasted a long time. During that period I lost myself. I really think that I experienced an awakening during that period. I was laid off from work and for a short time I travelled. While I was away my own energy grew. I became happier. Without my wife around I started to heal.

Fast forward about a year. Still married, new job. I would go to work and I could sense peoples negative or positive emotions. I saw their faces and I just knew something was wrong or very right in some instances. I learned compassion. Compassion is key when sensing things. Yet by helping (and Rose may disagree) with sympathy I realized that I was approving of their plite. Their plite would then either wholly or partially transfer to me.
I learned how to ground myself. I also studied the difference between compassion and wisdom. I know it sounds like there is no relationship between the 2 but one leads to the route one should take when you feel someones negative energy and as an empath you feel or they feel drawn to you. I’ll not go into the process because to learn you must search. To search you need to know or understand what you are seeking.

I began meditation (if you don’t do this I would suggest you start asap.) Make it a habit. Everyday. Just do it.

Empaths by nature often feel the energy or emotions of others. I discovered that I neglected my own. So much that I didn’t really know what it was. Meditation has brought me that. Meditation allowed me to find the oneness.

I’m by no means a “skilled empath”. I am an empath though and I walk the same path as you folks. Just like in normal life thete is work, intent, and effort required. Sitting depressed and hoping only leads to more of the same. You will relive circumstances in different ways until you handle them appropriately. The awareness of this is when the journey can become interesting.

I’d like yo know more about an “empath merge” if someone could share with me. I also would like to inquire about something called a “projective empath” does anyone identify or know anything about that?

Wall of text, lol. You have to climb walls to get to the otherside if thete are no doors. Maybe Rose’s books is that door.
Thanks for letting me share.

Meaning well, you’ve described loads of things that you have believed and done… that are simply not helpful.

Your wall of text that you’ve just gifted us with happens to include a huge number of them. So yes, if you are willing to listen and learn, I think you can gain a great deal from what is offered here and through the series of books I have written for you and other empaths.

Experience is a teacher. Sharing experiences can create wonder and often guidance if the recipients are open to the message or are perhaps living some sort of similar situation. To say that alot of things I shared aren’t helpful is subjective. It may not be helpful to you but others read the forum and may or may not think differently.

This is my personal blog, where I share trademarked, distinctive knowledge, with practical skills that go with them. In that context people share experience. All of us are learning together, as we advance the field of knowledge called “RES” for short.

You are welcome to participate on that basis. Otherwise you might prefer other forums for empaths.

You’ll find so many who will welcome your stories, your teachings, and poetic ideas like “Maybe Rose’s books is that door [and they might actually help me]” as if this were merely an interesting topic to debate.

Help me solve a mystery, please, Blog-Buddies. Sometimes I respond to a proposed blog post by sending a personal email. You know, off blog. As a courtesy.

Three times in the last two days I attempted to do this to communicate with somebody who was new to posting here. I sent a short but thoughtful email, only to have it bounce because a fake email account had been used to post a comment.

Rose, I’m not really sure as this isn’t something that I do. It might be a typo, or it might be a fear of receiving spam. (No matter how much reassurance is offered, some people remain quite concerned about that. And don’t simply create a secondary email account to use for such sites.)

It may also be a reluctance to stand behind their words without the full anonymity of being entirely unreachable except in that particular way.

Very few online community leaders are as thoughtful and willing to spend time communicating directly as you are, Rose. Some people may assume that the email address isn’t important.

It’s possible that you could set up something to verify emails before the post is submitted and/or have an account with a verified email that people use to post. You’d need a tech expert to explore that though, as I’m not familiar with what’s possible there, and how much it would cost.

Maybe adding some of this information more explicitly to the Ground Rules section of the blog might help – or at least be something you could point people towards. Though that’s difficult without a valid email address.

I have met people who believe their email address should be kept as guarded and hidden as their (hmm you guys don’t have PIN numbers or national insurance numbers so I’m going to go with) social security number.

I guess for all practical purposes its their loss. You tried to do something nice and they weren’t receptive to the blog from their initial interaction. They probably didn’t expect a direct email either. No way of knowing.

Thanks so much to all of you who have contributed ideas here, STEVEL KNOCHE, EMILY T, and IRENE.

No worries. I’m still not going to require that folks sign up in some elaborate way just to post a comment.

I can respect a person’s right to NOT divulge something that could result in spam from a scary blog monitor, etc. Just never thought about these possibilities before. This blog isn’t just about learning for YOU, you know!

So I’ve been perusing your website and there seems to be some good information here. What I’m interested in is learning. I understand that there is information via books, consultation, etc that help with that.

Rose- lol- good question. I think I’m still getting my feet wet with the blogging system. First timer. Naturally I assume theres discussion and I didn’t want to presume that only you were capable of answering.

I’m also new too you. I’d heard of one of your books (Become The Most Important Person in the Room) some time ago but I didn’t know it was you who authored it. Like I said. I stumbled onto your blog.
I’m feeling kind of unwelcome though. Not trying to be a pest. I’ve got no ulterior motives.

RES works really, really well in my experience. And the skills are specific, and they need to be learned in an effective way so that they can work well for you.

I’ve found that Rose is very dedicated to making sure each individual really gets those skills, and fully understands the material. This means that the community here functions differently that many others you might come across.

Being helped to (even want to try to) put into words some of the changes Im living, after less than a month of applying Roses lessons.. well, its a far cry from having reached a point of wanting to retreat from the world.

Communication, which Ive always deeply valued, had become quite painful.

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