tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9133558552627369533.post2322840612992246028..comments2020-04-27T17:50:12.148-07:00Comments on Tomato's Vine: I Just Want It To Be OverTomatohttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14874825476590035544noreply@blogger.comBlogger9125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9133558552627369533.post-35926049093427609362015-08-27T16:40:49.359-07:002015-08-27T16:40:49.359-07:00This resonates so much with me. I was just telling...This resonates so much with me. I was just telling my mom I wished for menopause if I couldn&#39;t get pregnant so the never ending limbo would just be over. We&#39;re living a piece of our purgatory right now. Prayers for your discernment. Anneryhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04954066811992919236noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9133558552627369533.post-86230053421326521432015-08-24T09:57:01.680-07:002015-08-24T09:57:01.680-07:00I&#39;m sorry if this sounds harsh, but sometimes ...I&#39;m sorry if this sounds harsh, but sometimes you just have to decide that it is over. When the trying takes too much of a toll on you physically, mentally, emotionally, on your marriage, on your relationships, on your finances, etc., perhaps it is time to say &quot;enough!&quot;. It&#39;s hard. It&#39;s painful. But in some ways there is great relief. And you decide to be happy. Not that it won&#39;t ever hurt again (or still), it does. But a certain freedom comes from letting the dream fly away and not being tied to &quot;what next&quot;. Praying for you in whatever you decide!Donnahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09098975442897816678noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9133558552627369533.post-79606345182227449452015-08-13T20:34:46.889-07:002015-08-13T20:34:46.889-07:00It does feel like an exhausting merry go round. :...It does feel like an exhausting merry go round. :( so tiring. Grace of Adoptionhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04225796683927986930noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9133558552627369533.post-90713415671872255962015-08-13T20:34:36.749-07:002015-08-13T20:34:36.749-07:00It does feel like an exhausting merry go round. :...It does feel like an exhausting merry go round. :( so tiring. Grace of Adoptionhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04225796683927986930noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9133558552627369533.post-12275470904727380412015-08-13T16:52:41.250-07:002015-08-13T16:52:41.250-07:00Prayers for you and your husband to make the right...Prayers for you and your husband to make the right decision for you!Catholic Mutthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10254315970336710941noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9133558552627369533.post-80829111494298687462015-08-13T16:43:10.344-07:002015-08-13T16:43:10.344-07:00Praying for your discernment. It is tough to know ...Praying for your discernment. It is tough to know when to stop and when to take a break. We have been on and off the medical roller coaster too. After our very long break last year we felt more at piece as we have dipped our toe back in the water a bit. We aren&#39;t on cycle plans or anything just trying to maintain good hormone levels. When I feel overwhelmed I defer to JJ to take the reins. So having your husband make the decisions for awhile might be a good idea. Prayers and hugs! Kathttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13670331855264293102noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9133558552627369533.post-41424237223755818362015-08-13T11:38:14.686-07:002015-08-13T11:38:14.686-07:00I find myself wishing for early menopause thanks t...I find myself wishing for early menopause thanks to IF and secondary IF and the emotional pain it has brought. I find myself considering not renewing our home study at the end of this year and being done with the endless wait for an adopted baby. But I know these thoughts are just my desire to be in control of my future and to run from the pain. Even when I try to run, I always end up turning around and coming back. Praying for you.Lyndahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12098641342923439602noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9133558552627369533.post-46773508813675729872015-08-13T09:03:34.901-07:002015-08-13T09:03:34.901-07:00I understand and am going through the same thing. ...I understand and am going through the same thing. Although I don&#39;t have the awful side effects of you (that is super hard) I have strict diet, no alcohol, no exercise, pills, appointments, etc. and it just makes the disappointment each month harder especially when you can&#39;t run and have a piece of chocolate cake to console you! We took one month off and I ate what I wanted, ran, drank, etc. and was so happy and carefree. It makes me ready to just quit all together. I understand what you are going through and will pray for you. I know it seems hard to understand what God is doing but I try to offer it to him as a sacrifice for him to do good with. I know in the end, somehow, good will come from it all and it&#39;s my job to trust even in the darkness. God bless!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9133558552627369533.post-39186894001441263242015-08-13T06:03:02.589-07:002015-08-13T06:03:02.589-07:00((Hugs)) ((Hugs)) Lucky as Sunshinehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02303329791458313858noreply@blogger.com