My first consensual sex (the only kind I choose to count) was at 18. After being introduced to it in such a sucky way, I was stressingout about sex. I finally just did it with a friend on the side of a road (tacky, I know, but it was what I really needed at that time because I was afraid of it so much)

It was like a week after freshmen year ended, the night before my college sweetheart went home for the summer. We dated throughout college. He was truley a good person. Though we weren't meant to last forever, I'm really happy it was with someone who I cared for and who cared for me. It was both of our first time which made it super sweet. And even better, it was in my apt., in my bed.

It was with my now husband in high school (we were in 10th grade). It was new years 2006-2007 and we were at a party at our friends house (whose parents were out of town) and stayed there for the whole night...lol This is where our "New Years TRADITION" started haha... ;)

First time: I was 18 and a freshman in college, my ex was 19 and a sophomore at the same college, in his room when his parents weren't home. It was a horrible experience as apparently he was too...ummm...gentle(?), so the physical side effect with being with a virgin didn't happen, and he briefly accused me of lying to him.

First time with DH: When we got home from our wedding, and it was truly wonderful.