I'm looking for someone special for friendship first. I'm honest, fun, charismatic, spiritual, well-mannered, romantic, and tastefully unpredictable. I believe that true love, "fun love, " stress-free love, develops and continues to grow best when both agree to, and forever practice trust, honesty, personal freedom, good times, respect, and courtship. Courtship, especially on the part of the man, should continue through the entire relationship, and not just during the early stages. I believe that we should not judge a book by its cover, but let's face it, most humans look for "physical chemistry. " I'm 6ƈ", 238, ex-football player, and handsome, but to what degree is a personal call. I'm looking for a woman who thrives on optimism and laughter, who believes in the principles I mentioned, who can openly discuss her feelings, and is mature enough to work towards MUTUAL personal growth and a successful long-term relationship/friendship.

I always get asked: "If he's all that, why is he still single?" (Should I address this valid point with evasive and colorful wit, or would "dry and honest" be okay?) I was engaged last year, and out of respect for her feelings and our friendship, I waited until she began dating. Maybe this ad will minimize time lost. Also, I prefer to create an opportunity rather than wait for one. Know what I mean? If you're shy, be sure to respond. Shyness in a woman, to me, is as equally charming as sureness.