If you talk to people enough before you meet then you should be able to work it out. chat on the phone.

However, saying that, you need to take a chance or you'll never know. I would much rather take that leap because the outcome could be potentially a million times better than what I have at the moment. :)

If you talk to people enough before you meet then you should be able to work it out. chat on the phone.

However, saying that, you need to take a chance or you'll never know. I would much rather take that leap because the outcome could be potentially a million times better than what I have at the moment. :)

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I agree we do not feel comfortable all the time probably because when there is a compliment or two its followed by.."can we sleep at your place or mine?". Maybe those who claim to like BBW's do not show the same PDA's to us like they would a skinny woman. No we hear words like "strong" "independant" words that seperate us from feeling like a real woman. No Im not saying we cant be those things, but whats wrong with being those things as well as soft, sweet, needs protecting, etc.. You may not be able to sweep us off our feet (literally lololol) but it still can be done figuratively. We get so many men who just dont come clean with the real reasons for liking us. For some its a fantasy, its a fetish, its a taboo(I dont get that one), whatever the reason, its usually not because we are just women, there is a hidden agenda. Most are married and feel dating a big girl means she will be more willing to do what his skinny wife wont. Or he doesnt have to be married, he just thinks big women do what skinny girls dont...well I say big girls can get broken hearts just like skinny girls can. I guess it just takes a little more effort on the guys part to convince. No saying its fair but its how it is.

I agree we do not feel comfortable all the time probably because when there is a compliment or two its followed by.."can we sleep at your place or mine?". Maybe those who claim to like BBW's do not show the same PDA's to us like they would a skinny woman. No we hear words like "strong" "independant" words that seperate us from feeling like a real woman. No Im not saying we cant be those things, but whats wrong with being those things as well as soft, sweet, needs protecting, etc.. You may not be able to sweep us off our feet (literally lololol) but it still can be done figuratively. We get so many men who just dont come clean with the real reasons for liking us. For some its a fantasy, its a fetish, its a taboo(I dont get that one), whatever the reason, its usually not because we are just women, there is a hidden agenda. Most are married and feel dating a big girl means she will be more willing to do what his skinny wife wont. Or he doesnt have to be married, he just thinks big women do what skinny girls dont...well I say big girls can get broken hearts just like skinny girls can. I guess it just takes a little more effort on the guys part to convince. No saying its fair but its how it is.

I am not generally bashful at all, but it is hard to meet the BBW of my dreams. It's hard to find the right person, and ironically BBW sometimes seem to be embarrassed to have my attention. Not all BBW feel comfortable being appreciated by a man who finds them particularly and compellingly beautiful.

I am not generally bashful at all, but it is hard to meet the BBW of my dreams. It's hard to find the right person, and ironically BBW sometimes seem to be embarrassed to have my attention. Not all BBW feel comfortable being appreciated by a man who finds them particularly and compellingly beautiful.