Saturday, July 30, 2011

Don't be Afraid of Getting Hurt

" Don't fall in love. You'll just get hurt in the end"

Whoever gave you this piece of advice, let me give you another, don't listen to them.It's nonsense! Not to mention, impossible! Come on people, do you expect to believe that a person will never fall in love, not even once in their lives? And again, I will say, IMPOSSIBLE!!! Nonsense! It's in our nature to love, is it not? If we don't love then the world will just be a sad place where people only hate each other and curse at one another. Can you imagine living in a world without love? The world we're living in right now is already full of hate but at least there's still enough love left. Am I right?

Love + music = peace

Some people are afraid to fall in love because they don't want to get hurt by love. Oh, please. If you're too afraid of getting hurt then you'll never find happiness in this life. Getting hurt is a part of life. It's how you learn and grow. Getting hurt helps you to be strong. Don't be afraid of getting hurt because after all the pain happiness will catch you. Then you'll look back and feel grateful that you've experienced something that made you who you are today and then you'll realize how blessed you are. It may not be easy but it's worth it.

Even a fortune cookie can give you good advice.. haha~

Yes, it's true that when you fall in love for the first time and it didn't work out with your first love, it'll hurt like hell because it's your first time but then you'll meet someone else and fall in love again or maybe you won't but you'll soon heal from those wounds but those scars will remain as scars.. yeah, it sucks if you couldn't fall in love again but that rarely happens, right? Well, I hope so. So don't worry about getting hurt. Everybody gets hurt by love. Love hurts. That's just the way it is. Always has been and always will be. You can't change it even if you want to. Think of it this way. If you don't get hurt sometimes then love will be dull and boring. No excitement at all. No growth. No lesson learned. When you get hurt or dumped by someone you love then you can look back and learn from your mistakes. What happened? Where did you go wrong? From there, you grow.

So people, here's a piece of advice from me. Never be afraid of falling in love. And one more thing just because you're in love with someone,it doesn't mean you can do things that you shouldn't do with that person. You get what I'm trying to say, right? Who says love have no boundaries? Sometimes it does. Hehehehe.. Fikir2 kan lah mksudku...