Thank you Susan! I was gonna say, before the li’l 2-minute video was over and when I thought you were just gonna say “Don’t project, period,” that that was like, aw, c’mon, no fun, we humans like to project and p;ay games with those projections sometimes, we can’t be sterile and (un-self-)righteous all the time!” And then you said it’s okay to have these thoughts and desires, we all have ’em, part of being human; just try and think about them when they occur (not, say, after you’ve been married 3 times and then divorced after 2 yrs. each time). Yayy and thank you! Really insightful on your part, and I’m glad I didn’t, er, jump the gun. (Not that I’m a track star ;+} )