How To Dominate Your Wife Or Girlfriend For Freaky, Hot Sex – The Complete Guide!

ByJesse Charger

Women want a sexually dominant man; a woman is most excited and fulfilled when she can completely surrender herself to a sexually powerful man. The secret desire of every woman is that the man directs her in the bedroom, though generally she will do nothing to help you in that.

Do you fuck your girlfriend or wife like an animal on the bed, in the kitchen, on the table, in the shower, in parks, on the beach? Are you showing her your masculine aggression?

Women want their man insatiable for them. Women want sex where you can throw yourself into it with abandon, unfettered by fears or worries.

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Sex with her Bedroom Bull is on the walls, tables, chairs, sofas, carpets, stairways, elevators.

The Bedroom Bull is a sexual savage, the ravisher who carries her to the bed, takes what he wants from her, and indulges in his every sexual need and dominates her.

The Bull lifts her off the ground, pulls her by the back of her hair, talks sexy to her, and tells her exactly what to do.

The Bull never questions, it’s only action.

We’re talking real caveman sex, “hit her over the head with your club” and take her back to your cave and ravish her sex.

One woman told me once,

“I like it really rough. I want a guy to throw me around, push me to the ground and slap me. But I don’t want to have to tell him to do it. And I don’t want him to ask me nicely. I just want him to DO it.”

A wife or girlfriend wants a sexually expressive and dominant man that she knows is stronger than she is, stronger emotionally and stronger physically than she is, and stands up for himself, and stands up to her. A woman is most excited and fulfilled when she can completely surrender herself to a sexually powerful man – and not have to ask him for it.

The key is to show no hesitation, to show no restraint, to let yourself go, to show that you cannot control yourself, to care nothing for what she might think or her reaction.

The Bull plays by his own rules, and doesn’t offer safe or mild pleasures approved by Oprah or Dr. Phil. He touches those repressed desires in a woman that cry out for liberation. He’s a breath of fresh air in a cautious world.

Consider yourself a reality engineer. You lead and create her sexual reality. And with the right man, a woman can allow herself to let go and surrender herself completely to his will.

And because a wife or girlfriend is led and “done to” by you, she doesn’t have to feel any shame about the pleasure she’s experiencing.

Being swept away by your desire sweeps away any need for her to be an initiator to let her passions out. She can become wantonly sexual and leave out any thoughts of negative consequences. With a Bedroom Bull, she can freely enjoy sexual pleasure without feeling guilty or inhibited.

You only need to leave the “boy” behind you and become a real sexually dominant man who doesn’t react or seek reactions.

The Bedroom Bull within is right there, just below the surface. Everything you need to be sexually dominant and a leader already lies within you. Deep down in your core, as a man, you know how to act, you know what to say, you know when to escalate.

Having sexual dominance is not so much learning something new, but unlearning limiting beliefs. You have to shrug off stifling social conditioning and realign with your true self, your natural self, not the false mask that society has told you to be.

The “Wall Thump!” Dominant Sex Move To ‘Rape’ and Ravish A Woman

Let’s flesh out one of these domination moves a little. Take for instance, the Wall Thump! Move.

Grab your wife or girlfriend by her butt, and lift her up so that her legs wrap around your waist, and you push her up against the wall to make a large THUD! BANG! Noise.

So you see her there, you look at her with raw sexual aggression, you picture yourself forcefully making love to her, you walk up to her, push her back toward the wall, pick her up by the butt and legs in a swooping motion and THUD! Hit her up against the wall and make out with her OR put your lips close to hers and hold it there before pulling away to tease her.

You are physically dominating over the woman, overpowering her with your masculine strength. She’s up in your arms, off her feet, she has to surrender to your physical dominance and trust you. The loud THUMP noise on the wall adds an edge of risk and danger and bad boy. It also conveys to a woman that you take what you want, that you go for what you want. You are leading the woman, you aren’t asking. Your masculine dominant Bull allows the woman to relax into her feminine role of surrender.

You can follow the move by pulling on the back of her hair, so that her heads goes back and exposes the neck to you, placing her into a submissive position of surrender. Pulling her hair releases sexual-enhancing hormones into her bloodstream. And then speak sexy into her ear, “You smell so nice…” and smell her neck, and then tell her, “I’m going to rip all the clothes right off your body, baby.”

Again, you are physically LEADING, showing masculine aggression, dominance, that you go for what you want, that you don’t take no for an answer. That even if she’s not in the mood for sex, you don’t care, you’ll MAKE her in the mood for sex.

You’re not even doing it for her pleasure or to please her – no, you’re an animal out for blood. That you smash her body with raw abandon is what gives a woman her pleasure, not your technical proficiency.

Expressing your sexual aggression without permission in this way is a GIFT you bring to the woman, because feeling that masculinity makes a woman feel feminine, desired, ecstatic and fulfilled. It will be her greatest joy getting fucked dirty by a Bull and she’ll remember it for always.

If you want a woman to respect you, if you want a woman to follow you as an authority, if you want a woman to look up to you with awe and pleasure, you need to give her not just good sex, but you have to give her fantastic sex – treat her like a wicked Mistress and be the Bedroom Bull.

How To Make A Woman Your ‘High End Escort’ Fantasy

Here’s another way to dominate your wife or girlfriend totally and completely.

Have your wife or girlfriend dress in sexy lingerie and heels and build her up to an excited state saying stuff like, “Yeah, you’re such a slut. You’re such a whore. You love sucking dick. You love it rough don’t you,” and so on. Stack multiple verbal bits upon one another.

Then have her physically stand up out of the bed. Tell her, pointing to the bedroom door, “Now what I want you to do, is walk out that door and close it. Then I want you to reenter, and when you reenter you will now be a prostitute, an escort who has sex with men for money.”

“However, you don’t just do it for the money, you’re really horny for sex because you’re a slut. And when you reenter I’m going to take these napkins and pay you. And then I’m going to fuck you like the slut you are and you’ll be extremely excited by me.”

Give her an alter-ego name. Tell her, “And when you come through that door you will have a new escort name. The name will be hot and sexy. What’s your new escort name?”

She’ll give you a fantasy name like “Valentina”.

Allow her to choose her own alter-ego name. As long as the woman feels she has choice in her alter-ego name, she won’t put up resistance. She won’t resist because after all, it’s a name she gave to herself.

Tell her,

“When you close the door you will leave your identity behind and when you come back in you will be Valentina.”

By having a new name, she’s no longer Susan or Jennifer or Jessica… she’s now a Mindy, a Candy, or Cindy.

Names are not superficial phenomena. Naming is the social birth of a human being. In fact, our sense of identity changes with the names that we’re called. When someone calls out “Hey you”, our reaction is different than when someone uses our first name.

Names inform our identity. They carry anchors that deeply define who we are. They are our imprint, our personal stamp. So when a woman takes a new name for herself, that’s an extremely powerful environmental cue and identity change.

Next, have her leave the room and reenter. By having her make an entrance, it’s like a rebirth. By having her make an entrance, it allows her to leave her old self at the door.

Greet her like you would an escort. Ask her what her alter-ego name is.

Tell her you’ll give her $20 and pay her with some napkins or whatever you have lying around.

Now proceed to fuck her like a paid escort. Fondle her roughly. Pull down her panties but keep the rest of her lingerie and high heels on. Then bend her over and fuck her doggy-style standing up.

As you fuck her and dominate her, talk sexy to her. Ask about her profession. Talking to a woman in her role reinforces her new identity.

Tell her,

“Yeah, Valentina, you’re such a whore. How many guys have you fucked today? You like being fucked by a lots of guys don’t you… it’s exciting for you isn’t it. You’re such a slut and you like having lots of guys dicks don’t you. So what do you do it for, the money or just the sex?”

Be sure to refer to your wife or girlfriend by alter-ego new name. Then kiss her like she’s a dirty whore, nasty style, and ravish her. If you want her to get into the role, you too have to get into the role.

And next time, whenever you want her to become a prostitute or extreme slut again, simply call her be her alter-ego name and she’ll fall back into the new role even more easily and quickly than before!

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Lynn

Everybody likes it rough, just wish that more people would own it. I personally don’t need a guy to ravage me so that I don’t feel guilty. I”m ready willing and able to take what he has to give, and return it. He will meet his match.

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Anonymous

haha right. we do this too, but she will insist on me paying her first. It will make her feel like a whore and like she can;t go back. And i will excuse myself from any guilty feelings toward this whore

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2 years ago

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Anonymous

Ok. I could be led into this fantasy…but the napkins as money would kill it. Bring real cash boys.

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2 years ago

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Anonymous

First of all, most of the articles on here are fantastic and have revealed many facets of my sexual mind that I never knew were there. The dominant role has never come into play until recently when I started seeing a new partner. She was actually the one that piqued my interest after telling me that she is a bit of a submissive and masochist. So, long story short, I started watching videos, reading stories, and researching what it is to be a dom. After a few days i thought I had a pretty good understanding, a strong comfort for… Read more »

I love a coach like u and those women who comments abt rough sex bcoz i really loves to be with them whole night to pleasure them and see women satisfide in this rough level of sexual desire needs bt it seems incomplete with deepthrout to those women in comments..complete it with deepthrout or facefuck bcoz as for me it is a complete movie of beauty and the beast with that sexy deepthrout bcoz im training my life partner now to feel free just as a porno actress..

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4 years ago

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J.D.

I finally grew tired of the slow romantic “love making” with my wife. We would occasionally get kinky but resort back to typical married with a small child sex. Enough was enough, I grabbed her gently, kissed her firmly and squeezed her ass hard. She bit my lip playfully, then harder. That is when I forced her up against the wall, she moaned and bit my lip again, this time I gently, yet firmly slapped her cheek. I took over in the bedroom right then and there. She is always ready for rough sex now. She gets her ass and… Read more »

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ramez

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ramez

its good for happy life to make as dog for my wife

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4 years ago

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ron reardon

My wife is more like a nun. I don’t know if any of these good ideas would work on her!! She never refuses, but it’s more like a duty?? i’ve asked for different positions, but she only wants the missionary position, doesn’t want to change..

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4 years ago

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Anonymous

Don’t ask force her

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2 years ago

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Galactus101

‘Borderline rape’.
As good an article this is. guys better be VERY careful following this advice…!

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4 years ago

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Anonymous

Good stuff, thanks.

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4 years ago

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Anonymous

I think your advice could really upset some sexually submissive women. Slamming a woman against a wall (spinal damage) fucking like bull. I laughed so hard i near choked on my own tongue. Don’t get me wrong some women love it, but i would think you were a real dick, a total amateur. My advice to any man is ask and make suggestions if she is shy. If she’s not into BDSM and you are, leave the girl alone.

It’s called calibration. Calibrate to the girl, without being scared and needy though.

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2 years ago

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Anonymous

I choke my girlfriend a lot. I do most of all of this already. I love grabbing her by her neck and throwing her down on the bed or floor and having my way with her

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5 years ago

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Butterfly

This is my husband to a ‘t’, he gets that this is what we live for, he calls anything but this ‘vanilla’, plain and predictable. I want to know he can take me whenever, whenever. Great article!

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5 years ago

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S

Who wrote this article? Was it a man? If it was, can we meet up? I am dying for exactly that kind of natural sex! mmm mm m! 😛

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5 years ago

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Fred

Great article Jesse and completely agree 100%. It’s funny cause I do this with my girlfriend. She’ll go on and on about how hot the times where I manhandle her and treat her like a little slut, instead of the times where I take my time, give her great oral, give her other orgasms, etc. No…it’s the time where I bend her over, pull her hair, fuck her for 5 minutes, force her on her knees and make her drink my cum…that drives her sexually crazy afterwards.

My fantasy is really dirty. Initially I thought I shouldn’t be posting it here but after reading people’s comment I decided to share it with you guys. Here is it. I am in a party with 12 other girls. They are all hot and sexy, wearing revealing cloths and showing as much skin as possible. I am awkward and I wearing jeans and a plain shirt. My man walks in and he is the only man in the party. All other girls are trying to seduce him by sexy provocative gesture. But he comes to me and orderes me to… Read more »

Hi nice fantasy reading towars the end of your post actually reminds me of myslf …..im a young dude 22years ive been a year now with my partner shes 43 …yes you read right I said 43 im not immature or any sort close to that I really do know how to keep a onversation with her or anyone regardless of age ( have been with other women around the same age as her ) the sex is good we have been at it from day one and I read and watch alot videos on better and different sex styles… Read more »

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2 years ago

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Punish me

That is exactly what I want. That sounds amazing.

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19 days ago

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sj

Jesse I have to say thank you for this! I have finally met a man that is this way with me. All my life I have men that were lazy lovers. I gave so much. I don’t think everyone will agree because of emotional issues in their lives. That’s fine what matters is this post you wrote is helping many. I don’t want to be without passion any longer. I was raised Catholic and sex was supposed to be for procreation. I love, love love feeling the passion and control in the bedroom and being my mans whore in the… Read more »

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5 years ago

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LG

I think most women, myself included, will say that a man’s man is what’s sexy. A guy that knows what he wants and knows how to take over in the bedroom. However — it works best when the relationship is solid and fun outside of the bedroom. The woman can’t feel worthless (like the one poster on this page) outside the bedroom because then, this kind of sex, is very demeaning. For me, I’m a very dominant person in our household. I’m home with the kids all day, I homeschool them. I do the bills, I clean, I cook, I… Read more »

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5 years ago

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D.

This is just way too generalizing… I mean, I am into the whole BDSM thing, but doing this without talking properly together sounds like rape to me. But as long as the girl says its fine, then it is. I am a sub, but call me a whore and I will seriously make you eat your teeth.

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Anonymous

This has nothing to do with rape. He means don’t hesitate because you’re afraid of her rejecting you. If you take her in your arms, slam her against a wall, kiss her with passion, pull her hair and run your tongue along her jugular, and she still says no? Stop. You can tell when a woman says no and means yes, and when a woman says no and means no.

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Anonymous

The key to success.
Treat a Queen like a Whore, and a Whore like a Queen.

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Anonymous

Treat her like a princes, F*** her like a porn star

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5 years ago

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Steve

Hi Jesse and readers. It is 3:06 am and I can’t sleep as my wife of 10 years and friend of 20 years just informed me she has always wanted me to be dominant to her, but was always too shy to ask. For the first time ever she whispered in my ear at the dinner table that she wana me to fuck her tonight and I become incredibly flustered. I learned tonight agree our impulsive night of sex that This has been idling up in her forever and, now in her mid-30s, she is ready to be dominated by… Read more »

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Missy

Steve, My husband and I are in a parallel situation to yours. For me, wanting him to be more dominant is about a higher level of trust, pleasure, and abandon. After 10 years of marriage, I can say that I have been pleased sexually, yet am craving more. What works for us right now, is me clearly communicating what makes me hot, showing him how it pleases me, and then positively reinforcing it later (e.g., I really loved when you… or a text during work the next day telling him so). Very quickly, he has woven these dominant actions into… Read more »

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Paul

Hi all, I’ve been a dominant man for a long time and I’ve turned every “normal” girl/woman I’ve been seeing into a submissive and I’m not kidding every one of them says I’ve changed their lives! Don’t get the wrong idea I love and respect women and treat them with the respect they deserve and show them love affection etc. but then my darker side comes out and I’ll tie them up spank whipp cane gag them talk dirty spit in their face ( def ask about the spitting before hand!) not for everyone but a big humiliation turn on… Read more »

So I’m curious to those women who don’t like to be dominated. Is it a feminism or age thing? I’m a strong, fit,43 yr old woman who plays these sex games with her husband several times a week. I can’t get enough. It’s the only time i can forget everything and let go. My husband is great at this, he doesn’t need to read this article. I just looked up this stuff so i could see if we were normal lol. Are women too much control freaks to enjoy this? Too young? Have men been too emasculated by our society… Read more »

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Anonymous

Oddly enough, there are people who just aren’t into being dominated. Are you interested in dominating your husband? Is he interested in submitting to you? It doesn’t have to do with age or feminism, it’s a preference in the same way some people dislike certain foods. Neither one is right or wrong, it’s just how they are. Lots of hardcore kinksters consider kink a sexuality, and consider it to be something they don’t have any say in – they were born that way. I myself had submissive fantasies from a young age, and I know people (women as well as… Read more »

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5 years ago

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Hany

I wish I could find a guy like this.. Christian Grey type but not emotionally fckd up like him though.. Lol 😉 i haven’t experienced these but I hope I will..

i wish i could find someone who would do that to me. I love shit like that it makes things fun, just saying, i am a bisexual woman who likes to be a dom to my girl and a sub to my man. but right now i dont have a girl and im looking who can help me out.!!!

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5 years ago

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Angel

honestly im 17 (jail-bate and proud of it haha) but i found this article to be quite true. i love the rough stuff and my boyfriend does it so perfectly. i sent him this website so he can maybe get some more tips. though i will say i dont want this rough sex all the time but 99% of the time wouldnt be bad, right?;) you know what a lot of women secretly want. though most want the crazy wild rough sex because they can brag of their man’s masculinity and power in the bedroom. i know i cant keep… Read more »

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Layne

I am a woman…. And I would just like to say this article is my sexual fantasy!!! I’m always telling my boyfriend I want to be thrown around, have my hair pulled, be pinned down, role play, and overall just be dominated! I have a pretty dominate personality and in the bed room is when I feel voulnerable… Sex is my weakness, so to be dominated is one of my biggest turn ons. I want to see a mans masculinity, feel his strength, and know that he can take care of me and punish me at the same time. I… Read more »

Hi all.. Me and my bf have been together since nov last yr and iv told him that I like to be dominated even sometimes out of the bedroom.. We’ve tryed some things and we’ve both enjoyed it… We’re just getting into the lifestyle and I know more about it them him because of what iv read… He’s started to do his research on bdsm but I just can’t help think I want it to be more intense… I think it might take more time for him to understand what I want ect.. We do chat about it all the… Read more »

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Doc

I am about twelve months into an amazing relationship with a beautiful woman. Right from the start she expressed her desires of being dominated totally by a strong man. We have a very fulfilling sex life. Sometimes it can be very tender, sensual sex. Other times I will pull over in the car on a long drive and we do it in the back seat. We also engage in very rough submission type sex with plenty of physical punishment being handed out by myself to her. In all these moments, I am the dominant and the pleasure is received by… Read more »

No offense to you love, but at the same time, you need to be SAFE about the way you go about this. I mean, I love getting fucked as hard as I can take it, and I love it rough, but you need to speak to your partner to know their limits. I cannot count how many times I’ve mentioned in passing to guys I’m about to sleep with how I like getting choked when I’m sucking his cock. And almost every single time they take it upon themselves to basically break my windpipe, because they don’t really understand what… Read more »

Thanks for the common sense. For some reason, people need to be reminded of this frequently on this site. Perhaps a warning or bulletin is in order.

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5 years ago

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Alan

Hi Jesse, I literally just tried this with my wife. Initially I made a move to kiss her and she seemed totally uninterested, saying she was tired… This made me have doubts but I decided to persist, so I pushed her against the wall with my hand against her throat and kissed her again. We ended up in bed and I was very insistant following your instructions (apart from the hair pulling). Arms above the head – telling her what to do and telling her how hot she was. She actually thanked me afterwards for making her feel so attractive… Read more »

It’s different for different women. My wife wants to be my possession and, as such, she wants me to take her whenever I want – quite literally. She is not allowed to refuse. I once had a girlfriend who used to ask me to ‘rape’ her yet others have been more romantic, coy and gentle. You cannot accuse me of not knowing that I should have been more caveman … they did not want it that way. My wife simply does not like romance or romantic gestures: she wants to be loved (she is) taken by force (she is) and,… Read more »

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5 years ago

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Xandi5

This is so one sided it sad. I agree with you women do want to be dominated but on the flip side they also want control. You make such a one sided argument and it’s so sad because it doesn’t show the real picture. It’s a give and take but I guess you have some daddy issues.

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5 years ago

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Anonymous

I agree. Assuming every woman secretly wants to be dominated is such a horrible horrible assumption. There’s something called “communication,” you should use that to determine if your girl is interested first and foremost.

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5 years ago

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Anonymous

I’m sorry, but that Valentina bullshit made me laugh hysterically, NOT get turned on.. To me that is unbelievably stupid. “Yeah, Valentina, you’re such a whore, oh yeah, slut bitch suck my dick ohhhh.” That makes me think that the man probably has the intelligence of a Neanderthal, and not just the sexual tendencies of one. Also, you seem to be pretty confident that a man doesn’t have to focus on pleasing his girl because she will get off on the “experience of being dominated alone” or something like that. I call bullshit on that. I suppose that kind of… Read more »

seriously would love to be valentina. Not speaking for the others, but mmmmmm it’s hot!!!!

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Anonymous

Yeah, sure, if you’re into that. But after you orgasm, think about it again and decide if that’s how you want to be treated 24/7. I think not. But I agree, it can be hot if that’s something that pushes your buttons, but equality in a relationship is still number one, even if the woman is submissive to the man she should be the one choosing to give her submission as a gift, he shouldn’t assume that he deserves it just cause he considers himself dominant.

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5 years ago

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Anonymous

Not the same anon as the OP, btw.

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5 years ago

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Destry

What a load of horseshit. You can be dominant without being an asshole, you can play rough without being abusive. This is a recipe for getting dumped by an emotionally healthy woman or for being saddled with a dysfunctional broken one. Grow the fuck up.

No, he/she probably just read your ad for your new soul mate thing. If you cut out the first and last sentence you’d see that he/she makes good points. By presenting absolute male dominance as the end-all-be-all of female fantasy, and not taking no for an answer, you’re encouraging guys to stop caring about what girls think. And yet also saying girls should care a lot about what guys think. You’re putting male dominance on a pedestal without considering the whole consent aspect or even communication about mutual likes and dislikes sexually.

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5 years ago

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D.

Agree.

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5 years ago

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Razor

Ok so I’m a guy and I’ve met this girl – Jesse and anyone, in particular ladies, I’d love to hear your thoughts on this. I’m a 27 yr old male, I’m slim, but strong for my size. I love it when I can lift a girl up etc. up against the wall in the shower, you know… I’m not sure where to start or what I’m asking here….but basically I’ve started seeing a girl, we really like each other….and we’ve spoken a lot about sex, about what we’d love each other to do e.g. I was telling her today… Read more »

I love to do all of this but my gf is very sensitive and not interested in sex at all.

Is there any one looking for………….

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5 years ago

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meow

I loved the first part, the animal Neanderthal fuck fest. Luckily for me, that’s exactly what I’m getting. Table, wall, thumps and all!!! However, the biggest turn on, is that I allow him to do that And I love to play along with it, even cheer for him, bruises and all. The second part though, nah. It’s a different feel for a man to physically ravish me that having a man ordering me around. However, I am receptive to having things done to me, but getting me to do things requires tact and your advise just doesn’t have it. Lastly,… Read more »

Good observation on variation. The guy should always keep the woman guessing… so that there’s a slight element of surprise or fear of the unknown. Even swapping it out with tender sex, or different roleplay sex

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5 years ago

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Hello kitty

I can’t belive some people want to feel ‘raped’.
except from that it sounds great 8)
sorry for my bad english by the way 😳

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5 years ago

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meow

it’s a fantasy. It’s about putting up barriers for a man to knock down before having you. But the intent is letting him win. There needs to be a better word for it, cause “rape” just doesn’t do it.

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5 years ago

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Anonymous

Consensual nonconsent. It’s when you have a safe word (“no” and “stop” aren’t safe words, you’d do better with a green-means-go, yellow-means-back-off red-means-stop system), you set boundaries for what isn’t allowed, and you give INFORMED consent. It helps if you check in on safety, as well.

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5 years ago

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meow

*not so much win as earn.

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5 years ago

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Midora

I loved this! I want a guy to take complete control of me. Push me up against a wall, throw me to the ground, slap me around, and choke me alil. I love submissing to a guys every whim. Having a guy tie me up and callme his slut/whore gets me so hot 🙂 and i can’t help but say id love to f_ck jesse

SO i must say, me and my man have a good sex life. i often find myself masturbating after sex when he falls asleep,( enough said). i guess u can say im bored because i do come multiple times when we have sex but its never enough. we are high school sweethearts and i am his only one. (we are 22 n 23) i have multiple partners before and during our relationship. I can completely agree with this article. this is what i want from my amn now hopefully he can actually apply this

For my life walk…and as 46-yr old sexual woman, highly educated woman, I’d say this is very accurate info…I realized it accidentally by watching /noticing what was turning me on visually …yeS…I’d say listen to this guy’s advice & I can’t help but wanna f:(? him.

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5 years ago

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Champ

Do you know If desi gals love their partner doing the above stuff..

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5 years ago

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dustin

I’ve just started doing this type of sex for about a year now and every single woman I have had sex with in the past year has enjoyed it. All of them. I didn’t start doing this because of an article either(although this is a good article). I was introduced to this new rough sex by a woman on a drunk night. And I swear they love it idk why. But they do, this article speaks the truth it really does I promise. Maybe not all women want to be slapped around and what not but they do want to… Read more »

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6 years ago

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Anonymous

“Maybe not all women want to be slapped around and what not but they do want to be dominated and they do want an agressive man”
That is false. All want someone who is respectful in daily life. Only some want to be dominated. Please consider the existence of dominant women and women with low libidos.

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5 years ago

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Haha

Obviously not all women are going to want this so you need to have some idea of how your girl likes things. This type of relationship is based on trust so it’s not something that can be done without really knowing each other. To be honest, I wish my guy was more like that. I am having the hardest time getting him to be more like this. Any woman that has a guy like this I think is lucky. One of the main trick to being a good dominant is being able to read what she likes. By her surrendering… Read more »

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6 years ago

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me

And to clarify I’m a very strong mind and independant woman. This is just something fun to introduce to our sex life.

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