DO YOU TRUST SOMEONE IF THEY ALWAYS LIE?

FOR EXAMPLE MY COUSIN GOT MARRIED TO THIS MAN AND BEFORE THEY MARRIED HE ALWAYS CHEATED AND THEN GOT A BABY BY SOMEBODY ELSE. THEY ARE ALWAYS ARGUING AND SHE ALWAYS BRINGS UP THE PAST AND HE ALWAYS TELL HER THAT SHE WONT LET STUFF GO THATS WHY HE DO THESE THINGS. NOW THAT THEYRE MARRIED HE IS LIVING WITH ANOTHER WOMEN AND HER CHILD AND WONT GO AND SEE HIS OWN WITH HER. IS SHE IN THE WRONG OR IS HE?

They are both in the wrong but more him then her, you need to forget the past and move on with your life. They both need to move on with their lives. He seems to not want to be with her so they really need to grow up and think of the kids involved its better not to fight and argue be more grown up and move on for themselves and for the kids.

of course they BOTH are in the wrong. She is wrong for continuing to have anything to do with him. She is continuously tolerating his disrespectful behavior. How can he use such an excuse for his behavior. Seems like he needs a female as such in his life as a scape goat. One who is accepting of his foolishness and listens to the poison that exists his trap. My advice to YOU is to write him off....GOOD RIDDANCE!

Anyone would have a hard time trusting someone 'if they always lie'. I would say he's the one who's wrong - and on so many levels! He cheats, moves out, doesn't visit his child with your cousin and then BLAMES HER for not forgiving him. He's a nightmare! She probably just fell in love with the wrong man. Hope she finds the strength and support to move on to better things in life, because he really seems like bad news.

Once a cheater/liar always a cheater/liar is sadly true. Unless the person radically changes everything about him/herself and the change must come from within. The guy seems like he is never going to change - he will tell her whatever she wants to hear to get by and survive the relationship - she's in the wrong for trusting him too much.

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