Unsure about my boyfriend's feelings/behavior

This is a tough one - I feel like you are physically very attracted to this man but not to his emotional side. You want him to change from what he is - moody at times, withdrawn, overly emotional, and always connected to his family whether they are in the past or present. But that is his nature and he cannot change it so you either have to accept that or find someone with whom you are more emotionally compatible. I feel this has happened to you before - you only get half of the love 'package' you need but you tend to settle for it - and then end up unhappy with your choice. the greater compatibility you have with someone, the longer the relationship is likely to be good and lasting. Are you just impatient or afraid of being alone?