Thursday, May 24, 2012

"When did you feel totally loved?"

There are so many out there who do not know how to make their
loved one in a state of total bliss. They try to show their affection by
telling them they love them deeply. But
the partner is not impressed at all. Others try expensive presents. They do not
work either. Many of you would be
holding or touching in your own way but still the result may not be all that
encouraging.

Before you want to make your wife or husband happy you
should know their love-strategy. You can start asking him/her: ‘Can
you recall a time when you felt totally loved? What made you feel loved?’ "Telling
you something? What words have moved you greatly?’ ‘Touching you in a particular
way? Can you recall how you were touched?’ ‘Taking you out to places? Which places you
liked best?’ "Buying you something (recall the
things you loved getting)? ‘Looking at you in a particular way?’

‘Could it be that you felt totally loved when
someone said something, touched you or looked at you in a special way?’ Let the person
demonstrate how he/she should be touched, looked at and mention the words to be accompanied.
You replicate exactly what is conveyed to put your partner into that joyous state experienced before.

People can generally be classified as auditory, visual or
kinesthetic. The predominantly (all the three can be present in each one in
various degrees) auditory persons love to hear nice words more than receiving
presents or touching. The visually oriented onese may prefer presents and expensive
things and may not be moved by words like “I love you and you know that,”
stuff. Those who are kinesthetic are moved easily by emotions and they love
being touched in a special way and shown deep appreciation. We should use the appropriate strategy to
take our loved one to that ecstatic state so that the relationship becomes one
of bliss and happiness.