How to Ask for What You Want in Bed

Just about any conversation about sex can be difficult but discussing preferences and fantasies can feel particularly tricky. Many people would rather jump in the sack without planning ahead, but the trade-off for avoiding potentially awkward conversation is that they are unlikely to get their fantasies fulfilled. “If we can get over the of embarrassment of talking about our desires and what we want in bed we can have more fun in bed,” says Anka Radakovich, sex columnist and author of The Wild Girls Club, Part 2: Tales from New York to Hollywood. Here are Anka’s top tips for getting what you want in bed, whether you’re with a new partner or a long-time flame.