Were you ever afraid of dating someone you know will make you happy?

Have you ever been in that kind of situation? I kinda am with a certain guy. I know I make the guy happy, and he has told me I treat him better than any other girl. Yet, he seems scared. I know he has thought about trying for something more with us though. He has told me, and we flirt back and forth. I wanna try to help him believe that giving it a chance would be a good idea, but I don't want to seem like I'm pushing the issue. Got any ideas?

Most Helpful Guy

You can try, but make sure you take it slow with him. Because he might be scared of getting hurt, or him hurting you. If really likes you, and you really like him. Then go for it, But if you have to expect its going to be rough ride, and if you leave when gets too much, that might just destroy him with girls for a long time.

You have to think very carefully. If this gets too much for you? are you willing to stick with him all the way? if not? I suggest you move on, and leave him to sort out his issues.

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I will always stick with him. I'm not the type to easily abandon someone.

I'm going to, but I'm just not sure where to start. I care about him dearly, more so than I every have about any guy. But I also know he is afraid to hurt me because he has already done so once. I don't care about that though, I would put myself through it again just to help him see exactly how much he means to me.

you have go and make an effort of going to speaking to him, If you really want him, then its up to you. Prove it to him, that your the girl for him. To need first gain his trust, without that, you have nothing. trust is more powerful than love. I messed many chances with girls, because I was scared getting hurt, and I only ended up hurting them, that's because they didn't gain my trust first.

I always feel scared of being attached to people who i think will make me so happy. Because once you get used to them and you trust them too much, you get hurt even more in the eventual ending.

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He may like you but does not want a relationship. Some guys like to have their cake and eat it too. I mean he may be In a situation where he can't have a relationship. If he loves you he would make a way to be with you no matter what

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Some guys just want sex and they will use "i don't want a relationship" as an excuse. I had a close male friend who had a girlfriend here. Now his ex. But when I asked him about a relationship he said no then preceded days later to ask me for sex. You have never been a woman

No I never being with a girl, I am too shy. I am not trying to be rude to you, but you assuming those is wrong. There are guys that have problems having relationships with women, it could be extreme shyness etc. Not all of use excuses to get into bed with a women.

just because you do not like my opinion and just because you do not agree with my opinion does not give you the right to act immature intro my answer obviously you took my answer personal if you feel you have to curse and act like a child. I'm smiling because your comment is going to get deleted anyways genius. first of all I never even claimed that I knew a lot about me and I just stated my opinion. You are extremely butthurt. I guess you thought I wasn't going to defend myself and let you

insult me. Lmao. you are funny you must be used to trolling peoples answers and not getting a response I see you have met your match. I am a much better person to you I can already tell and I do not know you I'm not going to stoop down to your elementary level