Congats Gary,I have three grandaughters 1,2 and 3!!My first grandson will be here no later than this Friday!!! I hope to have him pulling a bow and climbing mountains by 3!!There a blast, have fun with them, discipline is not our problem!

I said the same thing a couple of weeks ago to my father, who well meaningfully growls just a little sooner than we do.

I'm not saying that Grandparents shouldn't discipline, they should it is important. Just step back and wait till you really need to. Dad was alienating himself from the kids. So rather than telling them off himself he how tells us, quietly, and we tell the kids off. He gets to be the good guy.