Thursday, January 24, 2013

As an old Army infantryman, I never supported the idea of sharing
a foxhole with a woman. War is supposed to be men’s work. As Steve Martin once
joked about outdoor activities, “Manly men doing manly things in a manly way
with other manly men.”

When I became a police officer a couple of decades ago, I
also had similar feelings about women as cops. Then came a zone partner I’ll
refer to as “Bev.”

The call was a fight in progress. I arrived first to see two
black men facing off with martial arts weapons. One was armed with a bow i.e. a
long stick; the other had a pair of martial arts weapons called sai i.e. foot
and a half long steel sword-like weapons.
There was also a large crowd of about twenty people watching the
confrontation.

When I arrived, I was the only cop there. I drew my handgun
and ordered the two men to drop their weapons. The man with the bow immediately
dropped it and backed away with his hands in the air. The other man, who was
wearing only a pair of shorts, looked at me with an enraged glare, turned
toward me, and took up a fighting stance, holding the sai in each hand in front
of him. He was sweating, his neck muscles were pulsating, and every other muscle
in his body was taught.

I looked into his eyes and told him to drop the weapons. I
also said that if he took one step toward me, I was going to shoot him. He didn’t
move and only continued to stare into my eyes.

Just then, the man’s mother ran into the scene, wrapped her
arms around her son and said, “Don’t shoot my baby!” At that moment, he lowered both of his arms. I suddenly caught a flash of blue out of my left eye. “Bev” came out
of the shadows toward the man’s right side, knocking the weapons out of his
hands.

I quickly holstered my handgun and joined the fray. During
the struggle, the mother struck Bev in the face and the single fight became two
fights. After a couple of minutes, I managed to handcuff the man, and Bev
handcuffed the woman. The incident was over with no serious injuries to anyone, largely
because of Bev’s quick and fearless maneuver.

Bev’s actions that day, along with another female officer
who later helped me subdue a six foot seven inch, three hundred pound domestic
violence suspect, convinced me that a woman could handle anything in the police
world.

I still had reservations about women in combat until my service in the Iraq war and
the story of Leigh Ann Hester of the 617th Military Police Company.

On March 20, 2005, Hester was awarded the Silver Star, the
nation’s third highest award for valor, following her actions during an enemy
ambush on a supply convoy near Salman Pak, Iraq.

Hester’s MP squad was escorting a convoy when about fifty
insurgents initiated an ambush with AK 47s, machine guns, and rocket-propelled
grenades.

Hester led her fire team into a flanking position. From
there, she and her squad leader, Staff Sergeant Timothy Nein, assaulted the
enemy trench line with hand grenades, an M203 grenade launcher and M4 carbines.
Hester herself killed at least three enemy troops. At the
end of the battle, twenty-seven insurgents were killed, six were wounded and
one was captured.

Hester was later awarded the Silver Star. Squad leader Nein
eventually received the Distinguished Service Cross.

The moral of both these stories is that women are capable of
fighting in war as well as on the streets of America. Just look at the women
who serve courageously in the Israeli Army, as well as the American women who
fly Apache helicopters and F16’s into combat.

Although times have changed, I still believe that women in
the infantry will prove to be problematic. In harsh environments like the
jungle or the desert, hygiene, privacy, potential male-female relationships, and natural physical limitations will likely be significant issues. And I’m sorry, but I’ll be terribly sad if
they allow women in the Rangers, Special Forces, SEALs, or other special
operations forces.

Leon Panetta has opened the door for women to join all
military units that are subject to service in combat, and we should acknowledge that
women are hardy souls who can possess just as much courage and determination as
men – sometimes more.

But women in the infantry? Let’s just say this old soldier
is glad he’s retired….

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The above painting is titled "Dear Mr. President." It was completed by artist Ashley Lauren. The painting depicts Charles Grist as an old soldier in Iraq in 2004 and his reflection in the Vietnam wall when he was a much younger soldier in Vietnam. She presented it to Grist in 2011.

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I am a retired Army Ranger, a veteran of Vietnam and Operation Iraqi Freedom, and a retired police officer with experience in patrol operations, as a plainclothes street crimes officer, and as a criminal investigations detective.