Why do we hide?

Okay World, I am back. For real this time. I loved blogging when I was going through my infertility journey and while I am still passionate about telling the World about my struggles in an effort to help others there are many others things I am passionate about as well. Hence this new blog. I want something that I speak about everything and anything that I am feeling and following. I hope you enjoy going through this journey with me, here we go!

Something I have been thinking about a lot is why do people hide? Why do people suffer things in silence? I’m vocal. I’m vocal about everything in my life. Why? Because I want to HELP others who may be going through similar things in their lives, I want to be a support system, and source of information. I feel I have to much to share and have experienced so much, how can I keep it all in?

I have PCOS and this year was also diagnosed with Endometriosis. I suffered through infertility treatments. I was blessed enough to have IVF treatments which resulted in a twin pregnancy. My sweet boys we born at 31 weeks and had to spend 5 weeks in the NICU. Michael had a PDA which required two heart surgeries to have to closed which also resulted in a tear in his heart that is now a constant source of concern. Patrick had Torticollis, and a wedged L2 vertebrae. This past January he was also dianogsosed with Sensory Processing Disorder with Autistic Tendencies. This is just a small snapshot. I am also passionate about child nutrition & hunger, real food, natural living, I’m also a book nerd, history geek, and so so much more.

Do I share these things for pity or sympathy? Absolutely not. I suppose some may think so. I share these things so others know they are not alone. To inspire others to share their struggles, their triumphs, their lives. We live in an amazing age in which we are connected to the WORLD through social media and the internet. We have at our disposal a wealth of knowledge. An infinite support system.

Why would we not let people know they are not alone? Why do we allow ourselves to suffer and struggle in silence? Have we created such a stigma in our society that we feel the need to create a persona of perfection and not let others know that our child has a learning disability? That we can not get pregnant? That we struggle with weight loss because of a disease called PCOS? Why!?!? I want to shout it from the rooftops that you are not alone! I am here! We all are here! I don’t judge. Do you? Perhaps this is why people are so afraid to share their hurts, their struggles. But why are we so afraid of being judged? I have always lived by the policy (since I was very very young) that I do not care what others things of me. I am living my life for me, not anyone else. I so wish that we lived in a World that promoted this. I do think we are moving that way. I can easily see my children’s generation being very accepting and understanding of all differences and opinions. Or perhaps this is just my hope.

All I know is I will continue to share. I will continue to fight. Even for those who suffer in silence. But I know that people are watching and listening. I absolutely love that I often get a message out of the blue from someone regarding one of the many things I talk about, whether it’s infertility, Autisim, PCOS, you name it. And if I can be there to listen, to champion, to help, to care, then my heart is happy. I love nothing more than helping people and striving to make a difference, if just a sliver, in this oh-so-crazy World.