Please help

Hi all I'm new to hear, my dd took an overdose 14 at the time (last year) since this we was alicated a s/w we have 2 younger children. My oldest daughter will not engage with the services. Me and my husband totally forgot about the child in need meeting yesterday. We got an update for them to say the professionals involved want the children to be placed on child protection? What are we meant to do if she does not want to engage with cams and the s/w and other professionals? I don't want my children put on this?? PLEASE HELP