tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6745858358148875233.post3125150625856739157..comments2017-06-03T19:27:00.995-07:00Comments on TooMuchCoffee: How to Live "Miserably Ever After"TooMuchCoffeehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10293283402673574754noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6745858358148875233.post-74861965488722557252011-02-14T16:02:33.496-08:002011-02-14T16:02:33.496-08:00TM - I know it&#39;s really quite cruel how we&#39...TM - I know it&#39;s really quite cruel how we&#39;re raised to believe in the fairy tale of a prince who will take care of us, complete with a tux and limo on the big day. But even in today&#39;s society as far as everyone thinks we&#39;ve progressed, once the wedding is over women are still subjected to the reality that they&#39;re supposed to shoulder the load in marriage.<br /><br />Did the counselor help you get an idea of what you needed to be happy?<br /><br />A note about conflict: I&#39;ve never avoided it all that much, now that I think about it. My real problem has been that I never do anything afterwards. Nothing changes and I accept it. Well at least I finally decided I&#39;d had enough of it and did something about it this time. But, cripes, I wasted almost 13 years of my life first.<br /><br />I have got to learn from my mistakes or I&#39;m doomed to repeat them. Ugh.TooMuchCoffeehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10293283402673574754noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6745858358148875233.post-70784786441091034882011-02-14T08:40:20.249-08:002011-02-14T08:40:20.249-08:00I&#39;ve already tried a number of these at home. ...I&#39;ve already tried a number of these at home. Are we (women) really supposed to have needs other than keeping the peace &amp; taking care of our better half??? I always avoid conflict.<br /><br />Can you believe I was sent to counseling when hubby wanted to know what he/we needed to do to make ME happy &amp; I had no idea.TwitardedMomhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12274806654090641479noreply@blogger.com