2.Learn the Art of Allowing: Finding your Joy is the first step. The second is learning the Art of Allowing. This is acknowledging that everyone is attracting to themselves the life that they want, whether they realize it or not, and whether they are doing it intentionally or not. None of us can see exactly what is going on inside another person. As someone once said “Be kind, for every person is fighting their own battle.” It is only by making our own choices and learning from them, can we grow.

The Art of Allowing is allowing others the make their choices and live their consequences. It is a good way for you to detach, and not get sucked into another’s drama. The more you practice and perfect staying connected with your Source, and the Art of Allowing, the less you will be personally affected by (or attracted to) others’ personal drama.

This doesn’t mean that you can’t show compassion, support and love to people you care about in these situations. It just means that you can offer your help from your own stronghold of peace and joy – from which you will not shaken (once you learn these techniques well). If you try to help them when you are not connected to your Source, it will backfire, as you will be acting out of your own ego instead, and will not have the resources of calm and well-being with which to truly help others.

Even when a friend is simply venting – which sometimes we all want to do – what they are actually doing is strengthening the negative vibration they are already putting out and experiencing. Your friend doesn’t really want that – they want out of their negative experience and they want an improvement. But that doesn’t come from venting – venting only makes it worse or continues it. The solution is to turn to happy and joyful thoughts – think of what you WANT to be experiencing instead of what you are experiencing. The best thing you can do as a friend is to help the ventor turn to happy thoughts – to start thinking of all the things they appreciate in their situation (or in their life), of how they want this situation to be instead and how happy that will make them feel, etc.

Keep in mind that most people haven’t learned to be connected to their Source, so most people are constantly living and acting from their place of ego, which is our fallen nature. Living from their ego, some people want and attract drama – they love the attention, the adrenaline from the conflict, etc. If that’s what you want in your life, then you have the freedom to attract and live that. For those of us who don’t want that, the more we practice these techniques, the less we will attract these situations into our lives, and/or the better we’ll be able to handle them when they do appear.

There is so much more in the Abraham Hicks books, this is just a tiny taste of the treasure you will find there. I highly recommend them, when you are ready to start deliberately creating the life you truly desire.

She is going to love it!!!

“I just wanted to let you know that I received the tail today. Let me just say that my little one is going to flip!!! It is truly awesome. Thank you so much for getting that done for her and shipping it out before Wed. She is going to love it!!! 🙂 Thank you again” Deann, Wisconsin

2016-05-04T13:35:29+00:00

I just wanted to let you know that I received the tail today. Let me just say that my little one is going to flip!!!

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Oh my gosh!

“Oh my gosh! I received my fin when I got home from work today and am so in love with it! I didn’t want to take it off! I can NOT wait to try it out!! Thank you!”Cassidy, Idaho

2016-05-04T13:22:23+00:00

Oh my gosh! I received my fin when I got home from work today and am so in love with it!

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fast delivery and an amazing tail!

“Thank you very much for the fast delivery and an amazing tail! We love this piece of art, we will give it to our daughter when we go to Italy end of June.” Dr. Fabian, Austria

found AquaTails to be the best quality

“I have looked around online for swimable mermaid tails and found AquaTails to be the best quality with affordable prices. Jerilyn and her staff were very accommodating to the needs of my rush order of Grotto. I was able to work with them to have a custom bikini top made in addition to the custom fit tail with monofin and both arrived on my doorstop right on time! I’ve gotten many compliments on the tail and it fits perfectly. I’ve suggested AquaTails to a few of my friends in hopes that we can soon have more Lake Tahoe mermaids! Thanks Jerilyn and AquaTails.” Morgan, Nevada

2016-05-04T13:45:26+00:00

I have looked around online for swimable mermaid tails and found AquaTails to be the best quality with affordable prices.

They are just perfect

“Oh my god we just got the tails, they are just gorgeous the girls loved them! and they will fit for a bit! They are just perfect. My uncle has a diving school so Saturday we are going to the pool with the divers it is going to be so cool – thanks for everything!” Sonia, Quebec

2016-05-04T13:41:25+00:00

Oh my god we just got the tails, they are just gorgeous the girls loved them!

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the color is PERFECT!

“Got the tail today! That was so much faster than I thought! Wow! I love it and the color is PERFECT! Thank you SO much!” Mermaid Mandi, New Hampshire

2016-05-04T13:42:54+00:00

Got the tail today! That was so much faster than I thought! Wow!

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SHE LOVES IT!

“Got IT – THANK YOU!!!!! SHE LOVES IT! – : D ” Melissa, California

2016-05-04T13:37:01+00:00

Got IT – THANK YOU!!!!! SHE LOVES IT!

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she LOVES IT!!!

Hello! I just wanted to let you know that Julie received her tail yesterday and she LOVES IT!!! What an amazing creation! She truly feels and looks like a real mermaid. Thank you!” Amanda, Connecticut

2016-05-04T13:39:50+00:00

Hello! I just wanted to let you know that Julie received her tail yesterday and she LOVES IT!!!

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I love it!

“I finally received my tail from AquaTails and I love it! It’s the flair tail and it fits perfectly, I’m so looking forward to using it this coming summer! Thank you Jerilyn and AquaTails for making a dream I’ve had since I was a little girl come true!” MurmaidGirl, Ohio

2016-05-04T13:44:11+00:00

I finally received my tail from AquaTails and I love it! It’s the flair tail and it fits perfectly,

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I absolutely LOVE my monofin!

“Thank you so much! I absolutely LOVE my monofin! You are so creative and this was an exceptional idea to make cut monofins. My mermaid tail is on its way and couldn’t have been if it wasn’t for you! Thanks again!!!!!!!!” Magenta, Colorado

2016-05-04T13:24:56+00:00

“Thank you so much! I absolutely LOVE my monofin!

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You are AMAZING!

“You are AMAZING! We received our new tail yesterday and it is beautiful. It fits perfectly and the color is divine. I am so pleased with your work and we are both extremely thankful that you were able to send out our tail so quickly. My daughter can’t wait for the birthday party tomorrow. We will be sure to tell everyone where we got our tail and what a pleasure it has been to work with you. There is nothing more fulfilling as a parent then to see your child’s face light up with pure joy and happiness. Thank you again for all you’ve done.” Kimberly

2016-05-04T13:31:32+00:00

You are AMAZING! We received our new tail yesterday and it is beautiful. It fits perfectly and the color is divine.

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Hi Jerilyn! I’m so happy!

“Hi Jerilyn! I’m so happy! Thank you so much for making my dream come true. I already put it on, it fits perfectly. I don’t want to get it off again. I want to swim right now! You did a wonderful job on this tail, it’s so beautiful! And you’re right, the colors are unique and look great. The pictures can’t show how beautiful the Grotto Tail is in reality. Thank you so much! I will take some pictures of me in the tail when I’m in my holiday in Croatia. I’m so happy right now.” Kara, Germany

2016-05-04T13:09:43+00:00

Hi Jerilyn! I’m so happy! Thank you so much for making my dream come true. I already put it on, it fits perfectly. I don’t want to get it off again. I want to swim right now!

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THANK YOU!!!

“THANK YOU!!! Hannah wouldn’t take off her tail all day and she made me carry her around the house. My son now wants one so we will be making another purchase. I will also send pictures of Hannah in her tail. Beautiful work worth every penny!!!” Sarah

2016-05-04T13:32:49+00:00

THANK YOU!!! Hannah wouldn’t take off her tail all day and she made me carry her around the house.