Before I had Lily I always said that when I had a baby I would make sure to get some “me time” in. Well let’s all have one big laugh at that shall we?! Along with “I’ll make sure I exercise and lose the baby weight.” Not forgetting “We’ll have monthly date nights to spend quality time together.” Or my personal favourite “I won’t let the baby control my life, it will fit around me!” Pre-baby me was an idiot. Once that bundle of joy comes along life turns upside down, in the best way, but also in an all […]

Last week Lily had her first trip to the dentist for a check up! It went really well, and I think that’s partly because we did try to prepare her for it. It’s something I was a little nervous about as I didn’t know how Lily would react. So to help other parents I thought I would post a few tips on how to have a successful first trip to the dentist (contains affiliate links): Talking Talk to your toddler about the upcoming appointment. Speak about it as an exciting event, something that they will enjoy. I explained to Lily […]

I spoke recently about a car accident I was involved in towards the end of last year that really affected me. I’ve always been nervous in cars, but the accident increased my anxiety a lot, to the point where I avoided (and if I’m honest still avoid) long journeys. However, I know I can’t live my life being scared and letting my anxiety take over, and there are things I can do that can help ease my worries slightly. For example, to try and ensure the car itself is as safe as possible before heading off. In order to do […]

As you may have seen from my Instagram we’ve just come back from a glorious week away in Turkey. I was apprehensive about the week away as I always am about well… everything, but especially about going abroad. I worry about one of us getting ill or hurting ourselves, about the food, and if everyone will have fun. But really I had no need to this time, it was brilliant from start to finish. And I want to go straight back! The only thing with having such a fantastic time on holiday, is the massive low when you get back. […]

I don’t know who was more excited for our delivery of TOMY toys, Lily or me! I’m such a kid at heart and I love it when Lily gets a new toy to play with. We were lucky enough to receive three TOMY toys through the post to review. Here’s what we thought.. Spin and Splash Jellyfish We love a bath toy, and one that doesn’t include squirting water out as those only seem to last five minutes before they get that black water mould on them, and have to be chucked. This fun toy fills up with water and then […]

Happy belated Father’s Day! I hope you’ve all been spoiling the men in your life rotten. Or if you are a Dad yourself I hope you’ve been thoroughly spoilt! It’s often discussed how hard it is to be a woman, as I’ve spoken about in the past. But let’s not forget the men out there too, specifically the Dads. The unsung heroes they often get a bit of a hard time. Popular memes talking about Dads as the back up slightly rubbish irresponsible parent. About children walking past Dad on the sofa and going to ask mum for a drink (although […]

I’m of the opinion that nursery is fantastic for young children. Often thought of more as a childcare solution for parents, nursery is so much more than that. It is the start of their education journey. An opportunity for them to learn through play in a sociable environment. Developing both their early academic skills but more importantly their social skills. Don’t get me wrong it is convenient for us that Lily will be attending nursery on the days that I work, so childcare is a part of it. But even if I wasn’t working I would still take her. Lily […]

I’m back from a small blogging break! It’s been a mixture of lots going on, as well as a bit of writers block. For the last few days I’ve been struggling with what to write about. So instead of talking about a certain topic, I thought I’d do a catch up post on what Lily and I have been doing lately! Beach Days Isn’t it so nice that the sun has been getting its hat on a bit more! We’ve spent a lovely few afternoons at the beach lately. Lily has a great time throwing stones in to the sea, […]

Father’s Day is just around the corner, if you’re other half is anything like mine it is impossible to guess what they want. I’ve always had the same with my dad as well, so this year I’ve decided Lily and I will make a few bits. Starting with this cute little 3D card, perfect for those suited and booted dads out there! Here’s how I did it: What You Need 2 pieces of coloured paper Scissors 2 buttons/large sequins PVA glue Bits and bobs to decorate Step 1. Now bit of a disclaimer, I always pride myself on my toddler […]

Recently Lily turned 3 and I cannot believe how fast she is growing up! We threw her a small birthday party to celebrate and much to my relief it was a total success! Truth is though, I didn’t have to spend much time or effort planning it! That sounds awful, but I mean it in a good way. It was simple but effective, and stress free. In fact her birthday itself was great fun too, as we took a trip to the zoo with some of my family. With pre-school children I know some parents don’t go the whole hog with […]

Who am I?

My name's Beth, I live in East Sussex with my husband Joe and our daughter Lily-Mae. I juggle part time work alongside adventures out and about with Lily. I'm aiming to write an honest blog about the trials and triumphs of parenting. I started blogging on and off when I was pregnant with Lily, but I never stuck to it until now. This time I have found my blogging groove and can't imagine my life without it! I'm a bit of what some might call a "hippie mum", I'm a cuddler, not a cry it outer. I am a cup of tea loving, scruffy bun wearing, soft play hating, chocolate adoring, will-probably -be-at least-10-minutes-late-to-a-playdate kind of mum, but above all I just love being a mum.