Recent comments from Timberlake’s old friend and ‘N Sync bandmate Lance Bass reveal something, at least, about how the now-married couple interacts with others. In an interview on Kocktails With Khloe this week, Bass discussed the time he wasn’t invited to Timberlake and Biel’s 2012 wedding.

Can you imagine, a member of ‘N Sync not being invited to Justin Timberlake’s wedding? But according to Bass, the couple didn’t invite any of them.

“We were not [invited],” he said on the show. “And a lot of people are like, ‘That is so rude,’ but I, I, if you think of it this way, you’ll understand why we didn’t go.” He continued:

“When we get together, the five of us, it is, it’s a spectacle. I mean, we rarely are all five together. You know, four of us will be together, three of us, but all five, people go nuts and it’s all about *NSYNC and it’s just taking picture after picture and, you know, he wanted that wedding to be about Jessica, you know, and he didn’t want it to be an *NSYNC reunion … But yeah, I mean, I totally understand and I respect that and I think it’s kind of romantic to make it all about her, for that day. It was very thoughtful.”