Instant Confidence Formula

“Talk To Her” Technique

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In less than 10 seconds, you can overcome crippling anxiety and have the natural confidence to put down your coffee, get off your butt and go and talk to her even if you SHY AF.

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Getting Over Shyness. I Know You Are But What Am I?

You Are Shy AND Awesome-Sauce Amazing, Sir!

If you don’t believe me, you’re in the right place! Especially if you’ve suffered from shyness. But instead of getting over shyness, I assure you that the benefits of shyness are in your favour.

Remember when you were a kid and called someone a snot bucket or a dirty rotten fibber or whatever, and they replied with “I know you are but what am?”

*Satisfied sigh* Ah, the good old days.

Wait—except back then I was the super shy kid getting picked on, bullied and teased—all of which, I’m pretty sure, mean the same thing but felt like an arsenal of awfulness. So maybe those days weren’t so great. Or were they …?

Here’s the dealio: being picked on sucked. It sucked bad. But now I can look back and think, “Hey, you know what? All that shit I went through made me who I am today, and I’m fucking awesome.”

We don’t have to be everyone’s cup of kombucha, and in fact, if we’re being totally authentic, we ain’t gonna be everyone’s cup of anything. And that’s a good thing.

Authenticity is so fucking sexy that it ain’t even a wee little bit funny. Well, unless the authentic you is a comedian, then yeah, okay, it’s (you are) funny. Kudos.

But it doesn’t matter if you’re a Chuckling Carlos or a Serious Sam, whatever the hell happened to you in your life to make you who you are today, be thankful for it. I’m serious. You are you, and you are unique and cool in your own way.

Of all the shy guys I’ve met, none have given themselves credit for getting through all that crap. Nor have they given themselves credit for the positive traits that shyness brings to the table.