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Dating not serious

Source: Shutter Stock Kimbenn: With my current relationship, I knew things were serious when we could do opposite things in the same room, without talking, and still be content with being with each other.As college students one of us might be studying while the other is goofing off or both of us are studying, yet we still enjoy the presence of the other. You know you're really comfortable with each other when you can hang out while he's doing his homework and you're watching your favorite show, and you go a while without talking... mudra311: I remember dating someone for a month or even a few weeks and its like pulling teeth finding a schedule that works.

When you start dating someone and things are going really well, there is usually shift towards being super casual with each other and becoming more serious. So how do you know if you’re on the road to becoming a real couple, or if things are going to stay casual forever?

This shift typically starts happening before you’re comfortable enough to speak up and be like, “Hey, what are we doing? A bunch of real dudes talked about in an Ask Reddit thread, and I’m sharing the responses.

If you're really casual, you're pretty careful not to talk about plans in the future, whether it's a month or year away.

When you feel like you'll still be together in the future, you talk about it with ease.

Source: Shutter Stockmrsmeltingcrayons Female: When you're comfortable sending them pictures of you with weird faces that are really, really unflattering.If it's casual then people return messages when it's convenient for them. Source: Shutter Stock Work-After Male: I would never introduce someone to my family if we weren't somewhat serious.When you live with your parents, it's almost impossible for you not to meet your BF's parents or for him to meet yours.I realized then that others saw we were getting serious, and they approved of him being around.When things are casual, no one expects you to bring the person around all the time.But when you start to introducing him to grandparents, aunts, uncles, and cousins, that's when you know things are getting to a different level. There is a sense of longevity, the idea that you will see each other in a week, a month.You begin to plan ahead, to discuss multi-tiered outings.But when things are more serious, people ask where your SO is when you show up to things alone, because they just assume you'll be together.Vicious Naked Mole Rat: You poop, while she's at your place.When I realized I was seeing him every other day, I knew things were getting to a pretty serious level.Source: Shutter Stock Kudhos: I'd say when she starts making plans and include you in them.