I feel like it isn't something you should get concerned with. Often that kind of relationship occurs naturally, if its meant to, when you're working with a deity. You don't even need to have labels like that, if you don't want them- it's not something everyone has. Kind of like the people that think you have to have a singular patron deity, etc. I wouldn't worry about it.

It truly is your own personal and special relationship with your diety, I feel like mines as close to me as my husband if not more.. My comment is that Loki is also a Mother, and as fierce as Angola is Loki.. He loves His children and sees them as beautiful, not as monsters.... I feel like Loki is as good a mother as father.... To each His own though....