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Topic: sooooo...horny... (Read 33322 times)

I tested poz a month and a half ago. Since then, I've endured my longest spell without sex in my adult life. I actually just broke past the 5 weeks I endured after briefly moving back in with my parents after graduating college. Hand jobs and sex toys aren't cutting it. I find my mind wandering to sex. I get erections all the time. I masturbate like 5-10X a day, and i still can't stop thinking about sex. My eyes wander to coworkers, the landscapers at work, random strangers. Its becoming a distraction. Does anyone have any suggestions to deal with a horrific case of the hornies?

"I have tried hard--but life is difficult, and I am a very useless person. I can hardly be said to have an independent existence. I was just a screw or a cog in the great machine I called life, and when I dropped out of it I found I was of no use anywhere else."

I tested poz a month and a half ago. Since then, I've endured my longest spell without sex in my adult life. I actually just broke past the 5 weeks I endured after briefly moving back in with my parents after graduating college.

"...health will finally be seen not as a blessing to be wished for, but as a human right to be fought for." Kofi Annan

Nymphomaniac: a woman as obsessed with sex as an average man. Mignon McLaughlin

HIV is certainly character-building. It's made me see all of the shallow things we cling to, like ego and vanity. Of course, I'd rather have a few more T-cells and a little less character. Randy Shilts

"...health will finally be seen not as a blessing to be wished for, but as a human right to be fought for." Kofi Annan

Nymphomaniac: a woman as obsessed with sex as an average man. Mignon McLaughlin

HIV is certainly character-building. It's made me see all of the shallow things we cling to, like ego and vanity. Of course, I'd rather have a few more T-cells and a little less character. Randy Shilts

nothing wrong with that. I'm 48, think about sex a lot and usually masturbate several times a day.(though 10x a day actually sounds a bit painful to be honest, it also sounds a little disingenuous. Ten times a day means you're beating off approx every hour and a half.)

I tested poz a month and a half ago. Since then, I've endured my longest spell without sex in my adult life. I actually just broke past the 5 weeks I endured after briefly moving back in with my parents after graduating college.

I used to have actual sex much more frequently and just went through my longest spell without sex (about 2 yrs). But that was because of some extraordinary issues. During that time my partner got terribly ill (his sex drive dried up about 6 months before we realized how ill he was), he was hospitalized and then passed away. Of course, I spent a lot of time after that not having sex as I was dealing with depression and working hard on putting my life back together (not to mention my sex partner was now gone). Living at my mom's house now, I've been having sex again; but in other places and certainly not here.

I masturbate like 5-10X a day, and i still can't stop thinking about sex. My eyes wander to coworkers, the landscapers at work, random strangers.

But now to the actual matter at hand, so to speak. I mentioned earlier that 10x a day sounds like quite a bit and equals masturbating nearly every hour and a half. Are you taking time out of your work day then to whack off? Perhaps you should ask your boss for more duties, so you don't waste company time while you're in the john beating off in the stalls. Back home then you could spend more time helping your parents with odd-jobs around the house. In general what I'm suggesting, since you asked for suggestions to help you in this situation, is that you should get rid of that idle time (and excess stamina) doing something constructive to keep your hands, and mind, busy on something else rather than playing with yourself.

Nobody masturbates ten times a day. That doesn't pass the sniff test, sorry.

Once in junior high and I haven't come anywhere near to that since then. On a daily basis however is a totally different story. I too don't believe that, but there are a lot of things I don't believe on here.

And Ann, I was going to quote both of those and say "Do you feel a draft over your head?" but the site was acting funny and I was tired so I let it go.

"...health will finally be seen not as a blessing to be wished for, but as a human right to be fought for." Kofi Annan

Nymphomaniac: a woman as obsessed with sex as an average man. Mignon McLaughlin

HIV is certainly character-building. It's made me see all of the shallow things we cling to, like ego and vanity. Of course, I'd rather have a few more T-cells and a little less character. Randy Shilts

Nobody masturbates ten times a day. That doesn't pass the sniff test, sorry.

This thread inspired me. I tried to break whatthefawk's record. Got bored by the third time so I went jogging instead.

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"I have tried hard--but life is difficult, and I am a very useless person. I can hardly be said to have an independent existence. I was just a screw or a cog in the great machine I called life, and when I dropped out of it I found I was of no use anywhere else."

"...health will finally be seen not as a blessing to be wished for, but as a human right to be fought for." Kofi Annan

Nymphomaniac: a woman as obsessed with sex as an average man. Mignon McLaughlin

HIV is certainly character-building. It's made me see all of the shallow things we cling to, like ego and vanity. Of course, I'd rather have a few more T-cells and a little less character. Randy Shilts

"...health will finally be seen not as a blessing to be wished for, but as a human right to be fought for." Kofi Annan

Nymphomaniac: a woman as obsessed with sex as an average man. Mignon McLaughlin

HIV is certainly character-building. It's made me see all of the shallow things we cling to, like ego and vanity. Of course, I'd rather have a few more T-cells and a little less character. Randy Shilts

Yes. You need to come to San Antonio ASAP. I am a self trained Sex therapist and I am certain I can help you with your problem.

And what if he turns out to be butt ugly? Last week you decided to marry greasy Jesus; this week you're offering sex therapy to strangers. My my my, your standards are dropping, wumpie.

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"I have tried hard--but life is difficult, and I am a very useless person. I can hardly be said to have an independent existence. I was just a screw or a cog in the great machine I called life, and when I dropped out of it I found I was of no use anywhere else."

well, i'm glad to hear that your capacity as 'pussy whisperer' is effective...

Whutdafuk,

Now there's your solution. I'm sure that all this talk about pussy will make the hornies go away.

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"I have tried hard--but life is difficult, and I am a very useless person. I can hardly be said to have an independent existence. I was just a screw or a cog in the great machine I called life, and when I dropped out of it I found I was of no use anywhere else."