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For years, women have “been told that we won’t—or shouldn’t—be turned on by porn,” but that can, and should, change, writes Violet Blue for Oprah.com. If you just can’t get into the “hokeyness—the ridiculous costumes, the awful cinematography, the ludicrous story lines, the terrible acting,” fear not: As more women enjoy adult entertainment, “we’ve demanded better porn—and lo, it is being made.”

“Science is finally buying into the idea that women are at least as stimulated by porn as men,” but it’s time for our emotions to catch up with our bodies. “Not every woman feels empowered to enjoy the show,” Blue writes. Why not loosen up and give it a shot? After all, “if Shaving Ryan’s Privates winds up giving you more giggles than orgasms, then the only casualty is … Ryan’s privates.”

truth is, and no one wants to air it : EVERYBODY needs to cum.... white, black, asian, gay or straight. Jesus, get over it ppl, only in AMERICA , oh, and the MIDDLE EAST; do we have this social stigma over sex and what women think of it. My wife is dirtier than any man I ever knew.....get a grip....literally.

Jes

Jul 28, 2009 4:36 AM CDT

I've never really watched porn; it just doesn't do much for me. I think porn really is made by men for men, not that female focused porn couldn't happen. But I do read erotica, and have been known to read slash sometimes, so maybe I should check out gay porn, lol.