We've all heard it from guys, "Swallow my semen." But why? Why do guys want us to do it?

"We will be more deeply together. I will be in you while we have to be apart. You want to have me in you all the time."

But now we might be the ones asking, "I want you to cum in my mouth. I want to swallow your sperm."

"Swallowing his semen after he comes in your mouth is good for your health." Well as long as he is healthy first.

If you just meet a guy then you won't know if he is healthy yet, get to know first.

But if you do go ahead and give him a blow job (suck on his penis) then you are already exposed to any STIs
so you can swallow when he cums in your mouth, it wont make it worse and you at least get one load of semen out of it.

And hey, it's better than giving up intercourse and getting it in your vagina anyway.

And if you do want him as a boyfriend then he will come again for more.

Most girls are nervous about asking a man you just met if you can "go down of him" ("give him head" or "suck him off")

We don't get a chance to be with a penis (up close enough to get relaxed and use to it) until it time to suck one.

Some girls are worried about all the saliva that builds up, or the harsh noises we are going to make or that our eyes water and can ruin our makeup.

Carry tissue with you and get it out when you start. (Also a hair band to get it out of the way.)

If you are not somewhere you can spit (not in a bathroom, or outside or something) you can swallow your saliva as it builds up by taking
quick breaks while just kissing the underside of the head of his cock.

If you don't want to make any noises then you won't be able to practice deep-throating (getting his penis further than the back of your throat). Practice on a dildo until you can
do it comfortably and silently. "Chicken-necking" is loud but guys like it. You keep your shoulders still and move your whole head back and forward really quickly
jamming the head of his cock at the back of your throat. You will make involuntary gagging sounds that kinda sound like a chicken squawking. Also you build up a lot of saliva
and the throat mucus from choking, but most guys cum really fast from this and they like it lots.

Watering eyes is different for everyone. My bestie never cries, but tears flow for me when I get into the "throat fucking." That is where you hold still and he moves his hips
like he does when he is "fucking." I want him to do this to me because it is like he is "making love" to me. He is just using my throat instead of my vagina. The men I have
don't his for have always treated me very nicely afterward. I met my last two boyfriends this way.

"Throat-fucking" does make my eyes water. I know that I like this, so I use a waterproof eyeliner now. I also use tissue to dab away my tears. When he has had his orgasm
I just smooth out my foundation and it's okay. I do a touch up later.

If you are going to give him a blow job in his car ("a goodnight kiss") be sure to open his pants really well and lift his shirt. He won't want any tears, or spit, or his cum
to dribble on his clothes. Keep that tissue handy. This is not the time to experiment with deep-throating.

If he is not your boyfriend and he pushes your head down. Push back to let him know you will decide when to go deeper. If he uses his strength to push you down anyway it's
best not to fight it. Relax your throat and accept his cock down it. You are going to be deep-throating anyway, the best chance of succeeding at it is to go limp. If he is grinding
you nose into his pubic hair, or his testicles, get the deepest breath you can and hold it. Down't worry about it, he knows you have to breath sometime, he will let you up. Don't
worry about gagging or spitting now. He pushed your head down, he will have to accept an consequences. At least your deep-throating right? So it's practice anyway.

Pull your head all the way off his cock and look him in the eye. He will have to decide what kind of blowjob he wants. If you really hated it look at him as angry as you are.
If he is apologetic, maybe puts his hands in the air, go down and keep sucking, he will cum soon now. If as you are staring at him, he puts his hands on your head and
pushes you down to suck him again, take a very deep breath because he is going to do it again. As you fight to get off his cock he is going to buck his hips and your
struggle up will help him "fuck your face."

This can be very uncomfortable. It is also one of the most satisfying blow jobs you can get involved in. He may call you unkind names and say mean things to you. He'll use all his
strength and force to keep his cock in your mouth and throat. If you cooperate he'll let you breath and swallow. You will experience a truly overwhelming sexual frenzy and
his orgasm will be amazing, tumultuous lots of sperm, strong and hot exploding in you.

He will be spent and satisfied afterward. His cock may hurt so he pull it away from you very quickly after cuming. He will expect you to be hostile but to secretly have loved it.
So if you do love it and want him as your boyfriend you will have to straight up say it, otherwise he won't believe you. If you do not want to give him a blowjob again then don't
bother saying anything (he'll twist it anyway). Just get yourself cleaned up, listen to his bullshit and go. Remember, he had the orgasm so he liked it like that.
And just know that you got a load of hot semen that must be bursting with testosterone.