The stuff I do amazes my friends. It amazes me too. This stuff is all pretty crazy considering where i was at say, 15 months ago.

It's hard to explain what I do as I've internalized the skills of a natural but what follows is a rough "structure" of how I'd do a pickup in a coffee shop or a store. I can do 5 or so in a day without ever getting blown out or anything. it always just kind of works.

Step 1: Open with a funny, relevant situational opener. NOTE: when she smiles and giggles her gaurd is let down. no need to be a comedian. just something a little funny here..no dancing monkey stuff.

Step 2: Make a positive assumption. This is huge. be like "Are you brazilian?" you have a brazillian accent..this is a compliment...or "are you an artist?"...i do this naturally..so im not sure what more there is to say but it shows genuine interest and conveys value.

Step 3: Fluff. Just vibe off of her, small talk. fluff whatever.

Step 4: Active disinterest. Now shut up. Don't say anything. Nothing. Show a little disinterest act as if you are getting bored.

Step 5: She begins the chase -->answer her sincerely, be cool, just answer her questions and have fun. be fun. people like fun

Step 6: She's your new friend, get some coffee with her.

Step 7: Open up to her and just be really fucking awesome with her. flirt a bit, maybe a little banter. you are not trying to get anything. the world is your playground. you are excited to have met a beautiful woman. share stories, opinoins, memores. Ask about her life? What's she like? Has she ever been in love? What type of guy does she fall for?

Step 8: Make it social. Guide conversation toward "what type of stuff do u do at night" and "where do you go out?".

Step 9: Make plans...tell her that you always go to such and such place and that if she gives you her number, you'll let her know the next time you're going. she's your new friend.

Step 10: Tell her you have to get going or take her back to your place. whateve.r

A note on tests: dont even buy into them. if a girl tests me i ignore it.

The stuff I do amazes my friends. It amazes me too. This stuff is all pretty crazy considering where i was at say, 15 months ago.

It's hard to explain what I do as I've internalized the skills of a natural but what follows is a rough "structure" of how I'd do a pickup in a coffee shop or a store. I can do 5 or so in a day without ever getting blown out or anything. it always just kind of works.

Step 1: Open with a funny, relevant situational opener. NOTE: when she smiles and giggles her gaurd is let down. no need to be a comedian. just something a little funny here..no dancing monkey stuff.

Step 2: Make a positive assumption. This is huge. be like "Are you brazilian?" you have a brazillian accent..this is a compliment...or "are you an artist?"...i do this naturally..so im not sure what more there is to say but it shows genuine interest and conveys value.

Step 3: Fluff. Just vibe off of her, small talk. fluff whatever.

Step 4: Active disinterest. Now shut up. Don't say anything. Nothing. Show a little disinterest act as if you are getting bored.

Step 5: She begins the chase -->answer her sincerely, be cool, just answer her questions and have fun. be fun. people like fun

Step 6: She's your new friend, get some coffee with her.

Step 7: Open up to her and just be really fucking awesome with her. flirt a bit, maybe a little banter. you are not trying to get anything. the world is your playground. you are excited to have met a beautiful woman. share stories, opinoins, memores. Ask about her life? What's she like? Has she ever been in love? What type of guy does she fall for?

Step 8: Make it social. Guide conversation toward "what type of stuff do u do at night" and "where do you go out?".

Step 9: Make plans...tell her that you always go to such and such place and that if she gives you her number, you'll let her know the next time you're going. she's your new friend.

Step 10: Tell her you have to get going or take her back to your place. whateve.r

A note on tests: dont even buy into them. if a girl tests me i ignore it.

A word on playfulness: A must

A word on sexy: just be sexy

oh and finally, never try to qualify yourself to her. ever.

Ok, hope that helps a little bit

Genius! I'm going to save this. I have been thinking particularly about a day game/retail store structure.

makes me do all the above stuff you're talking about naturally. add to that that THINKING about doing the stuff you're talking about will make you more REACTIVE so thats a step backwards. It's like faking it.