People should be veery careful about people they leave their children with. Gods intention was for the mother to bring up her children.

Women don't like the job or they prefer to work and bring an income and pay somebody to do the job. You get an underage girl who you pay poorly and also mistreat her and then you leave her with your most precious children. Just the act of spying on your housegirl with a hidden camera shows the caliber of the relationship you have with her.

Bringing up children and being a homemaker is noble and honorable. If as a woman you cannot do it yourself you should still hold the one who does it for you in the same esteem. Invest in meaningful relationships with your mums, aunties, sisters, or even hired househelps who help bring up your children. Train and empower househelps and most of all help them feel valued.

It is unfortunate that this has had to happen to the children and while the housegirls involved are guilty of misconduct, the parents of the children and especially the mothers are not innocent victims.

....there's one I watched (uncensured on FB jana).....GOD help us!!!!!

Weka hiyo original rink jahman please.

That one can lead to userment I tell you!!!

Is it the one with the 3/4 yr old boy and a girl of ard 13yrs? Gosh, i've never seen a video so disgusting. The gal must have been watching porn a lot coz she was trying everything one can imagine on the small boy.I wonder if the person taking that video did anything to save the boy.

I think those spy cameras aren't a bad idea,just to keep one in the loop. Any tell-tale signs will be observed before all hell breaks loose.To the mothers, please please,treat those gals as human beings and friends. That way they'll feel as members of the family and won't hart our kids much.

So so painful even just daring to imagine.What do the mbochees want us parents to do??like for one the clothes to change and diapers were neatly arranged yet that baby girl was slapped for just doing the normal.

Funny enough it was my mboch who called me to watch what "evil" mboches do. Am praying she does not be come evil later.

The problem with the world is that the intelligent people are full of doubts while the stupid ones are full of confidence

....there's one I watched (uncensured on FB jana).....GOD help us!!!!!

Weka hiyo original rink jahman please.

That one can lead to userment I tell you!!!

Is it the one with the 3/4 yr old boy and a girl of ard 13yrs? Gosh, i've never seen a video so disgusting. The gal must have been watching porn a lot coz she was trying everything one can imagine on the small boy.I wonder if the person taking that video did anything to save the boy.

I think those spy cameras aren't a bad idea,just to keep one in the loop. Any tell-tale signs will be observed before all hell breaks loose.To the mothers, please please,treat those gals as human beings and friends. That way they'll feel as members of the family and won't hart our kids much.

People are sick, this I saw in my own two eyes and it will go down in record as the sickest thing I have ever seen.

Saturday, I'm bored, after a heavy lunch I decide to go sleep in Uhuru Park, the one near University way. Next to me is a couple with a small kid, a girl. They are obviously in love, coz they kept fondling, never minding the kid.

So I sleep. When I woke up, THEY WERE F*KCING!! In Uhuru Park, broad daylight with people not so far away! I was in shock! The dude busy pumping away behind the mama, glanced and looked at me, noticed I saw him, didn't seem fazed, continued away. They had placed a shuka/leso on their waists. The saddest part was that the kid was there, looking sad and quiet. The devils sexual strongholds being passed down to another generation.

Our greatest fear should not be of failure, but of succeeding at things in life that don’t really matter

....there's one I watched (uncensured on FB jana).....GOD help us!!!!!

Weka hiyo original rink jahman please.

That one can lead to userment I tell you!!!

Is it the one with the 3/4 yr old boy and a girl of ard 13yrs? Gosh, i've never seen a video so disgusting. The gal must have been watching porn a lot coz she was trying everything one can imagine on the small boy.I wonder if the person taking that video did anything to save the boy.

I think those spy cameras aren't a bad idea,just to keep one in the loop. Any tell-tale signs will be observed before all hell breaks loose.To the mothers, please please,treat those gals as human beings and friends. That way they'll feel as members of the family and won't hart our kids much.

That is the one!!!

A girl of 13 years has a serviceable airport really,ama ni kuguzisha tu?

People are sick, this I saw in my own two eyes and it will go down in record as the sickest thing I have ever seen.

Saturday, I'm bored, after a heavy lunch I decide to go sleep in Uhuru Park, the one near University way. Next to me is a couple with a small kid, a girl. They are obviously in love, coz they kept fondling, never minding the kid.

So I sleep. When I woke up, THEY WERE F*KCING!! In Uhuru Park, broad daylight with people not so far away! I was in shock! The dude busy pumping away behind the mama, glanced and looked at me, noticed I saw him, didn't seem fazed, continued away. They had placed a shuka/leso on their waists. The saddest part was that the kid was there, looking sad and quiet. The devils sexual strongholds being passed down to another generation.

Cadburys said you never know when the craving will rear (spl.) its gorgeous head!

But fact be told, the par were NOT couples,these are lovers who just arranged to go outing in UK park and decided to do the thing(the kid presence notwithstanding)since getting another chance like that was becoming anytime soon.

Couple who slept in one bed last night will not have so much LUST to land in such a place in the presence of a kid.

At what age do kids start "seeing" things? At what age do they take note of sexual encounters,between their parents?Any expert in matters psychology in this wazua house?

I don't know what we are going to do.We cannot say okay since our kids are old enough to defend themselves from these rogue mayayas. Teenage is also another stressful phase, phew!So I cannot prescribe a concortion for these yayas

Assuming you have a good househelpLet me try to answer @mkeiyd, by highlighting the teachings of Islam that might be of help to us, expecially parents.

The Prophet of Islam has said:1. When the child reaches the age of seven years, arrange a separate bed for him.2. When girls reach ten years, they must have separate individual beds. But the beds can be in same room."If a mother rubs her body against the body of her own daughter, she is doing a sort of molestation."3. When boys and girls reach ten years, they must have separate rooms and seaprate individual beds.4. A man should not kiss his six year old daughter, and a woman should not kiss her seven year old son.

Other teachings1. It is not proper that a four years old son takes a shower along with his mother. Similarly a four years old daughter should not bathe with her father.2. The children and youth should not remain alone doing nothing. They might engage in some bad habits.3. The private parts of a small boy must be kept covered, not exposed, to his other siblings. (I know most of you will ask what about those Turkanas walking naked)4. The husband and wife should not sleep on one bed in the presence of their children. They should do their private relationship without giving a hint about it to the children.

What is the consequences of not following this?- Otherwise there will be the danger of the sexual urge rising in the children and, at their age, it would be prone with horrible consequences.- We must ensure that the children don’t develop such habits.

And for those who pray, Our Lord, grant unto us wives and offspring who will be the comfort of our eyes, and give us (the grace) to lead the righteous. (Quran chapter 25:74)

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