These signals are seriously subtle, but they can give you real insight into what's going through your husband's mind.

You’re telling them that?

You’re telling them that?

You know your friends will think that story about the time your husband fell asleep during sex is hilarious—but even if your guy is laughing along with the group, if he has both hands in his pockets, it’s a good sign he wishes you’d keep that info under wraps, says body language expert Blanca Cobb. In that case, end the story quickly, and later, have a discussion in private about what topics should remain between the two of you.

I want you now!

I want you now!

His hands are giving a major clue into what he’s thinking while in this stance, says body language expert Traci Brown, author of Body Language Confidential. “This is a clear sex gesture. It says, I’m thinking about it and I want it.” If you see your husband doing it from across the room at a friend’s party, consider going over there and whispering something that lets him know you’re on to him. It’s a way of kicking off foreplay so that you’re both in the mood when you get home.