Abandonment and Borderline Personality Disorder

The unresolved abandonment wound in early childhood and subsequent abandonment trauma experienced and re-experienced by those diagnosed with Borderline Personality (BPD) disorder fuels emotional dyregulation. People with BPD re-experience this abandonment trauma, abandonment fear and depression each and every time they experience an emotional trigger that causes the dissociative experience of re-living unresolved abandonment from the past as if it is re-occuring in the here-and-now. In this audio program A.J. Mahari talks about how and why the core wound of abandonment is at the heart of the cause of Borderline Personality Disorder.

In the audio program, “BPD and Abandonment” A.J. Mahari talks about how and why abandonment is at the heart of the cause of Borderline Personality Disorder and the reality that it is also the unresolved trauma of the core wound of abandonment that leads those with BPD to be left without a known self and to abandon the very pain that could set them free from BPD. Abandonment is the major core issue that keeps those who are diagnosed and stuck in the active throes of BPD – stuck.

Mahari describes how borderlines can begin to get in touch with this abandoned pain and why it is important to get in touch with it. Reclaiming and facing the abandoned pain of BPD – pain that is the result of having been wounded to the core by the experience and/or perception of abandonment in the first two to three years of life is the path that leads to the road to recovery.

Tracks in this audio program include:

Track 1:
Introduction to the central role of abandonment in BPD – Abandonment both causes and drives BPD.

Track 2:
The Effects of abandonment on those with BPD.

Track 3:
The Abandoned Pain of Abandonment in BPD.

Track 4:
The Borderline False Self – How and why the Core Wound of Abandonment is Central to the Recovery Process

Track 5:
The Abandoned Pain of BPD Is A Choice to Continue to Suffer and What That Means

Track 6:
The Reclamation of Abandoned Pain Is The Road to Recovery from BPD.

A.J. – The Pscyhe Whisperer

Unresolved abandonment is a wide-spread reality. It effects many people's lives. Unresolved abandonment negatively impacts relationships and is one of the central reasons that people end up in abusive and toxic relationships - looking for love in all the wrong places. As a Life Coach, BPD/Mental Health and Self Improvement Coach, I work with a large number of clients who, despite other reasons for seeking out coaching, come to realize that they have unresolved abandonment wounds that are blocking their ability to meet their needs, identify and attain their goals and dreams.