I'm a gay female(fem) and I'm looking for a relationship. I live in Birmingham and I've been struggling so much. Even if I just get a friend that I can talk to about these things. That's a the thing I don't have that. What people's advice on this. I need help😔

Go to the club, make friends who you can really talk to. If somebody tries to bully you, take all the channels available to you - publicly out them as a homophobe, report them to whatever kind of authority is around, and if they so much as touch you with homophobic intent, report it as a hate-fuelled assault. It's the truth, and they can't bully you from inside a cell for six months (that's the sentence for assault).