Here’s a new years resolution that anyone can keep. Give the people you love, starting with yourself, the benefit of the doubt. Generally speaking and almost without exception most of us are doing the best that we can at any given moment. We are being as loving as we can be, as … [Read more...]

When a woman falls in love with a man, he makes her feel safe, protected, and cherished. She makes him feel seen and respected. These gifts we give each other satisfy ancient longings housed in our biology. They are why we trust each other so quickly, connect so deeply, and start planning for the … [Read more...]

I always find it fascinating to hear people discuss infidelity and what could have prevented it or what the cheater ‘should have’ done before stepping outside of their relationship.
Are couples really supposed to think about how to KEEP their partner from cheating or how NOT to cheat?
Do We Really … [Read more...]

Ever wondered what it would be like to make a career out of sex? Showtime's new show “Secret Diary of a Call Girl” plays to just such curiosity. It is based on the book which was based on the blog of an English call girl who sells her body to strangers because she loves sex and money. As … [Read more...]

An unfaithful husband, cheating wife, any kind of disloyal partner, is an ugly prospect. And that feeling of being betrayed by someone we thought we could trust more than anyone else is one of the worst.
People who discover their partners have been unfaithful to them go through a hurricane of … [Read more...]