No there isn't a public list. You can ask in the ODP public forum (google for these words - we may not post URLs here). They'll be able to tell you if your submission has been rejected or of it just hasn't been processed yet. Please state

- the exact URL you submitted (clickable link) - the category that you submitted it in (clickable link) - the time when you last submitted

You'd do well to read the forum's guidelines first. Submission status queries should be posted no earlier than a month after the date of last submission, followup queries no earlier than six months after that.