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Welcome to

The Playground

of Possibilities!

Imagine.

What would be possible for you if you let go of
your old, limiting thoughts, beliefs and stories about yourself?

And what if you chose more useful ones?

Maybe life’s going pretty well for you and, like me, you LOVE reading self-help books; you’re a workshop junkie; you watch videos about healing, personal development and spiritual growth; you meditate; you consult your deck of angel cards; you have regular sessions with your coach and all kinds of interesting healers and bodyworkers; you trust in a higher power…

Great!

So doesn’t it drive you nuts when things don’t go the way you’d hoped and planned, as quickly as you wanted?

I’m Kay Ross, an Australian living in Hong Kong, and I know that frustration. It sucks!

Maybe, like me, you sometimes go through phases of feeling stuck, fearful, hopeless and powerless. Your work and your relationships don’t make your heart sing anymore. You wonder why everyone else is having all the fun and love and success that you want. And you slip into blaming other people and your circumstances for your problems.

Or maybe you sabotage yourself by believing that nagging voice in your head – you know, the one that constantly says “Not good enough.” Sometimes you just don’t love yourself. And you worry that maybe it’s too late or it’s going to be too hard, or even impossible, for you to change.

Here’s the good news

There really is a fun, quick and easy way for you to:

examine and transform your thoughts, beliefs and stories about yourself and the world,

That’s good news too if you’re a coach, healer, therapist or bodyworker who’s looking for a tool and some ideas to help your clients heal and thrive.

Life is a Playground of Possibilities!

Yes, I believe that LIFE is a playground of possibilities – in every moment, the Universe offers us abundant opportunities and asks us to decide what we want, trust that it’s possible to have it, let it in, and be happy.

When you live as if your life is a playground of possibilities, you’ll start to:

become more aware of your thoughts, beliefs and stories,

notice how they’ve created your current reality, and

see that you really do have the choice and the power to change.

And when you approach life with a mindset of being open to new possibilities, being willing to experiment playfully and courageously with new ways of thinking and being, and paying attention to the Universe’s taps on your shoulder, then you’ll see delightful opportunities everywhere.

Best of all, when you trust, ask for help and surrender to the safety of the loving embrace of a Universe that’s conspiring on your behalf, things will unfold even better than you could have imagined.

Pick a card, any card…

The first fun resource I’m creating in The Playground of Possibilities is a card deck, with 52 questions designed to prompt you to examine and transform your thoughts, beliefs and stories about yourself and the world. They’ll also invite you to experiment playfully with new ways of being.

Thanks to my successful crowdFUNding campaign, the printed deck will be available in early 2018. Stay tuned for news about how and where to buy one. I’ll also be offering one-on-one Skype calls.

Here are some of the cards from my hand-made prototype deck (the finished deck might not look exactly the same). Can you guess what my favourite colour is?

I’ve received some great feedback so far:

My friend Kirk Nugent, an inspirational poet, speaker and author, said:
“I believe that the world will welcome the Playground of Possibilities with open arms.”

My niece Omanisa Ross in Darwin, Australia, who’s a gifted naturopath, healer, writer and artist, said:“I love the sound of your new project. Fantastic questions! Very powerful. I’d love to use your cards with my clients. They would love them. So would many of my colleagues.”

Aurora Corpus, who enjoys the daily questions that I post on Facebook, commented:
“…it’s working…attracting…better…stuff I love…fabulous…enjoying life more…awesome feeling…confidence and self-esteem booster…what a ride…”

Dennis Tae Wook Kim came to see me for a bodywork/healing session to deal with his uncertainty about which career path to choose. At the end of our session, I invited him to pick a “Playground of Possibilities” card. A week later, he wrote this comment (and happily gave me permission to publish his comment and his name):
“Perhaps the biggest change I’ve seen is regards to the card I picked from your “Playground of Possibilities”. I remember it asked me what would be possible if I allowed myself to be vulnerable. That question really manifested itself this past weekend, and it indirectly helped me make my career decision. I feel more confident with the career path I have chosen, even if it’s different to what I initially decided. Funny enough, allowing myself to be vulnerable has lifted a lot of the stiffness and tightness off my back. I feel a lot lighter! It made me think a lot about how the emotional and mental baggage we carry emerges as physical symptoms.”

Let’s play (and heal)!

I occasionally present a public workshop called “Life is a Playground of Possibilities – Improvising More Resourceful, Joyful Ways of Being”. Participants do some bodily awareness/healing processes, play some improv games (no experience required!) and play with my prototype card deck.

I presented this workshop (twice) at the conference of the international Applied Improvisation Network (AIN) in Montreal, Canada, in September 2015. One participant commented on Facebook: “Collective magic, under your careful guidance, at work! What a lovely thing to participate in!”

I’ve presented it in Hong Kong (April 23, 2016 and November 4, 2017), and one in Darwin, Australia (May 9, 2016). One of the participants in the workshop in Hong Kong commented:
“Thanks for making the experience meaningful and fun. Now, when I have some limiting beliefs trying to surface, I try the ‘New Choice’ method. I hope it will help me to deal with some drab and dreary situations. As a facilitator, you are fun, engaging and able to get your point across, without imposing your views. I enjoyed every part of the session and am now putting what I learned into practice.”
- Mukta Arya

My niece Omanisa Ross in Darwin, who helped me to organise and promote the workshop there, interviewed me and wrote a terrific blog post about the workshop and the ideas behind it: “The Playground of Possibilities”.

Contact me if you’d like me to come and lead a workshop for your organisation or community.

Keep in touch

If you’d like to keep in touch and hear news about the launch of the card deck, skip on down to the sign-up form at the bottom of this page and say “Yes please!”To say thanks for signing up, I’ll send you a collection of 120 inspiring, thought-provoking quotes I love, by Abraham, Brené Brown, Deepak Chopra, Albert Einstein, Louise Hay, Byron Katie, Rumi, Thich Nhat Hanh, Zig Ziglar and many others.