Over 44 profiles are posted on three different sites by couples in our immediate area (within 40 miles). But every one that even bothered to answer an email, said they were too scared to have local friends and playmates! Yet we have met some of them at clubs in Louisville and Owensboro- and two local couples that we know attended a house party that we were invited to. They spent a great deal of time enjoying themselves, but ended up begging us not to tell anybody we knew that they were there-- as if they were afraid we'd actually do that! It just seems to us that having local friends who are trustworthy would be the best of all possible situations, since nobody would have to travel more than a few minutes to meet other like-minded friends who enjoy sharing sensuous pleasures. We'd be interested in knowing what other REAL lifestylers think about local friends and playmates.

Interesting. We just completed moving down to Lexington and we're hoping the swinging scene is good. We were there in November for a few days, with the exception of one couple that we couldn't meet up with, we were pretty disappointed.

I hope folks are not afraid to meet other locals. it would just be so convenient not having to drive for over an hour to play.

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Over 44 profiles are posted on three different sites by couples in our immediate area (within 40 miles). But every one that even bothered to answer an email, said they were too scared to have local friends and playmates! Yet we have met some of them at clubs in Louisville and Owensboro- and two local couples that we know attended a house party that we were invited to. They spent a great deal of time enjoying themselves, but ended up begging us not to tell anybody we knew that they were there-- as if they were afraid we'd actually do that! It just seems to us that having local friends who are trustworthy would be the best of all possible situations, since nobody would have to travel more than a few minutes to meet other like-minded friends who enjoy sharing sensuous pleasures. We'd be interested in knowing what other REAL lifestylers think about local friends and playmates.