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southernmomma2017 wrote:

I haven't been "self lubricating" for months now.. during sex or foreplay I'm mentally turned on.. excited and ready but just not wet AT ALL. Which as you can assume- makes it extremely uncomfortable during and after. . My husband is concerned about having to use lube all the time now.. (I think it's a downer for him ).. even after an orgasm.. barely anything at all down there.

I have had the same issue! I know when we were TTC I always knew I was ovulating because it was ready to go, lol!! But since becoming pregnant, nothing at all! I am thinking hormones, because there's no need for natural lubrication when you are already pregnant right? Ugh, I completely understand though.. it's super annoying!

I told my DF there would be no more sex until he went and bought lube because the last 5 times we've had sex we've had to stop in the middle because I was literally in tears. This is never a problem I've had before and it bothers me. We've never even used lube so I have no idea what to get! I've been worried about it as well though.

I very rarely make enough of my own, so we have a nice selection of different lubes on hand for all occasions. I prefer the warming and tingling but sometimes it's nice to have scented. If it concerns him a lot, then discreetly lubricants yourself before you get started.

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