Advice to someone quite frigid and inexperienced

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SocialBeing 12

Right, for someone who is quite shy sexually, and doesn't know what the feck to do, would you say...

a) go in there for full sex, it might feel a bit awakward and uncomfortable the first few times, but just brace yourself, take it on the chin.. it will get better and easier over time.

or

play it safe, and ease into it slowly, first doing a couple of HR + massage services, and then maybe some mature escorts (who'll be a lot more gentle, non judgemental [due to experience] and more appreciative for a younger guys interest) and then maybe go for the more attractive escorts (once you've got your confidence up).

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jackjones 9

Right, for someone who is quite shy sexually, and doesn't know what the feck to do, would you say...

a) go in there for full sex, it might feel a bit awakward and uncomfortable the first few times, but just brace yourself, take it on the chin.. it will get better and easier over time.

or

play it safe, and ease into it slowly, first doing a couple of HR + massage services, and then maybe some mature escorts (who'll be a lot more gentle, non judgemental [due to experience] and more appreciative for a younger guys interest) and then maybe go for the more attractive escorts (once you've got your confidence up).

My advice is go for B but why change WGs. Why not pick one, explain the position and have a number of sessions with a gradual build up if all goes well. Try not to fall in love tho' (those threads get a bit boring). Good luck.

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Lilly B 10

The title of your thread is "Advice to someone quite frigid and inexperienced"

So if the main problem is you feeling frigid and very unused to being touched, I would suggest start with massage and HR to ease you in to feeling confident being touched and the feelings you get when being aroused by someone. If the main problem is inexperience and shyness rather than being frigid, then jump straight in with and escort and let her show you how wonderful you can fully feel.

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Chloe Kisses 3,786

Well this advice may get boohood,but i think you should pick a lady,let her know that you want to get the business out of the way fairly quickly and then get to know her a little,otherwise whilst your chatting away your sexual frustration is going to be hanging in the air between you like a rain cloud about to burst.You can always take it slowly the next time you see her.Or better still,go somewhere that you can come more than once,quick burst ,lovely chat,round two taken a bit slower.xxx

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smiths 215

The title of your thread is "Advice to someone quite frigid and inexperienced"

So if the main problem is you feeling frigid and very unused to being touched, I would suggest start with massage and HR to ease you in to feeling confident being touched and the feelings you get when being aroused by someone. If the main problem is inexperience and shyness rather than being frigid, then jump straight in with and escort and let her show you how wonderful you can fully feel.

Good advice IMO. I would add do you research carefully to find a lady who suits what you require.

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SocialBeing 12

there's so many to choose from thayt it sometimes leaves me in a daze, went for a massage + HR before, and before that went for a soho walkup..

I didn't really enjoy, I think immediately after a punt because yuou've invested money into something you like to think you had a great time, otherwise you feel like a fool. But looking back in hindsight the experience was clinical, slight awkward and emotionless affair.. no matter how good a girl is at wanking off a guy, i don't think a girl can compete with your own hands.

anywways, im still hopeful, maybe ive had bad punts, im a bit reluctant to go outside of london for a punt though, you guys got recommendations in london that's easy to communte to from angel (where i live)