Going No Contact, for the most part, is a revolutionary move when dealing with disordered individuals. But, as with so many things in life… Every situation is different and has to be approached with due care and attention. Sometimes total No Contact isn’t even possible; you may have kids with the dude and have shared […]

I didn’t realize I had started a whole series of these “Enabler” installments on the old blog, so I thought, what the heck. All in one place. The Enablers The Enablers – Part 1 – The Forgiveness Myth The Enablers – Part 2 – Denial, Denial, Denial Two and a half years into No Contact, […]

This TED video came up on the radar yesterday (I just discovered the TED channel recently, and I think it is SO the cat’s bum). Anyway, in a nutshell, an 11-year-old boy in Kenya, whose family raised cattle near Nairobi National Park, had a huge problem with lions jumping their fences and attacking their animals. […]

I reblog a lot of things from Aunt Alex – and I’ve got to credit her for a lot of my own emotional healing (which is still a work in progress, of course). She’s a blunt, take-no-prisoners, kind of a gal, and I love her. If you haven’t checked out her blog and her ebooks […]

Holy shit… I couldn’t believe it. For a long while tonight I could not remember my first psychopath’s last name. He came into my life six and a half years ago, and tore it apart. The world does not know this (not much of the world, anyway), but I do. I went No Contact just […]