How to Attract Women Online

Catch Her Eye Online

Avoid these profile pitfalls to stand out, look your best, and even make her message you

Internet dating puts a world of women at your fingertips—if only they would respond to your messages. “Make the wrong first impression and she’ll click on another profile before the page even loads,” says Julie Spira, author of The Perils of Cyber-Dating who also writes dating profiles professionally. That’s why it’s even more important to put your best (cyber) foot forward. Take this quiz to see Spira’s tips for crafting the perfect profile—so you can avoid common mistakes and date the woman of your dreams.

Which of the following best describes your profile picture?

Me out with friends.

Me with my shirt off in front of the bathroom mirror.

A solo shot of me traveling, playing a sport, or at a restaurant.

How long is your "About Me" section?

3 or 4 medium to long paragraphs. Why hold back?

2 brief paragraphs with the basics. I’d rather leave more for us to talk about in person.