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What do you think of opportunity? I know it can mean different thing for different people, but what does it means personally to you? Do we create opportunity or do we wait for the opportunity to come to us? Some say we should create opportunities, while some others say we should wait.

In the case of creating opportunity, we have to have the right resources or a least enough of it; if not how can we create the opportunity? Resources in this context can be money or knowledge. On the other hand, if we wait for the opportunity, how certain can we be that it will arrive? It isn’t easy to predict if we don’t know the way. Waiting is like gambling and that is not a wise way of getting or achieving something. …

I have been trying so much to ensure that I post at least one article daily in this blog, but sometimes I do lack inspiration or creativity to write. Is this what they call writer’s block? Some writers consider it such. Perhaps it is just lack of ideas.

As a blog writer we can write and post anything on our blog, especially if our blog is a personal blog but this is a niche blog. In this blog I focus on giving useful life improvement advice. So whatever I write must be relevant to the goal of this blog. I cannot simply write on any subject unless it is related to improving one’s life.

If you are in the same shoe as me writing a niche blog, probably you have experienced similar situation. What do you do when you experience this lack of idea to write? Do you wait for the idea to flow or you do something to get the idea flowing? Can we create ideas? If yes, how do we create ideas? Perhaps, we don’t create ideas but we find ideas. …

This is the most important message you are ever going to hear in your life. You are not a weak person. Yes, you read that correctly. You don’t need self improvement but you need self recognition. You are a soul. You are a perfect creation of God. Being perfect being why do you need to improve yourself?

If you perceive yourself to be weak that is because you are not seeing yourself as soul. Imperfection exists only in the human state of consciousness not in the soul. Instead of putting your effort on improving your human weaknesses, why not put your attention on finding ways to fully function as a conscious soul?

Self improvement programs should be focused on educating individuals recognizing their divinity and showing them how to be conscious at soul level instead of the human level of consciousness. Sure, improving our physical, mental and emotional weakness does some good to us, but why waste time, why not go direct to the source of everything now? …

Why are people unhappy with themselves and their life? Perhaps they are being like that because they are unable to see clearly the causes behind their life conditions. Perhaps they are unable to accept themselves. Perhaps they have not realized their true potential. Do you find yourself in the same situation as these people?

Think about this for awhile; who is the cause of all these feeling you are going through? …

Why do people feel like want to commit suicide? It is because of the extreme pain that they believe they can no longer tolerate.

Suicidal tendency comes to those who feel terrible hurt. The pain of the hurt can be because of getting cheated such as by the loved one, feeling pangs of loneliness due to the loss of loved one or it could be simply because of depression.

Whatever the case might be suicidal tendency is something wrong. It is wrong because it will never solve the problem we have. It is also wrong because it prevents us from successfully completing the purpose we are born to this world.

However, people who have suicidal thinking are not bad people. They are just lack love in their life. If we know someone having such thinking we should not make the condition worst by further injuring their soul. Instead we should love them and show them that they are very important for us.

When we are able to create the feelings of importance within them, they will feel they are loved. When they feel loved, they will become happy. So, the medicine to heal the heart of these souls is through filling their heart with happiness.

All the man made drug in this world can never truly heal the heart of a wounded soul. The only cure for the lonely heart is love. Do you honestly believe when you are sad and alone those pills given by the doctors, can really help you? You know the answer. So, it is love and love alone the magic healer. It’s heals us from all kind of disease and problems.

If you ever felt like you want to suicide, please fill yourself with love. Talk to someone. Get a professional help some how. Of course it is easy for someone to tell us what to do. Only those who have gone through what are we going through can really understand us.

You may not believe this, but I know, some where out there, some one needs you as much as you need someone to go through this testing times. Spend time with those less fortunate such as the homeless. Perhaps you can see, how lucky you are. Maybe you are homeless, well, think about those without food and dying in starvation in the 3rd world countries or war torn countries.

You are lucky. Don’t waste your life. Make the best out of it and live your life to the fullest. You can do better than now. .

Just believe in yourself and be patience. Everything will fall into its place.

One effective way to eliminate worry and fear over the long term is to meditation. Meditation creates a sense of self-mastery, inner stillness, and stability. Research even shows that meditation actually changes your mind’s inclination to feel negative emotions like hope, optimism, and gratitude. …

You can play the good sailor and float through life, being pulled here and there by others who will use you to fulfill their own dreams. Or you can decide what YOUR dreams are, and start figuring out what YOU must do to make them come true. Try being the master of your own destiny by exercising some control over what you work at in life. Later, when you look upon your accomplishments with pride, you will be glad that you exerted yourself.

Behavioral scientists say you will never let yourself have more health, happiness, or success than you feel you deserve. Wow! This means that right this minute you are attracting what you feel worthy of having. Chew on that awhile! So the common denominator for getting all the good stuff in life – health, wealth, good relationships, and even longevity – is self-esteem.

Self-esteem fluctuates over time. You and I are constantly measuring ourselves against our past successes and achievements. If there is a discrepancy between what we’re already done and what we still want to do, or if we don’t continue to achieve our goals, then our self-esteem may falter. Happily, if we learn to talk lovingly to ourselves and surround ourselves with people who truly love and support us, their words and acts of encouragement eventually will sink into our brains and boost our self-esteem. …

My fear of failure was one of the biggest obstacles I had to overcome to achieve something worthwhile with my life. By being so afraid of failing, I did everything on the safe side. I followed as a consequences, my first business were crashing failures. I ran my business like I had been taught to back in school, thinking that would guarantee my success. Boy I was wrong! I followed the book instead of following my instincts, and it took failed business to unlearn everything I had been taught. …

Forgiveness is not for the person who offended you but it is for you. Often, in our anger toward another, we come to realize that the person we most need to forgive is ourselves. It is much harder mentally forgiving yourself than on anyone else.

Forgiveness doesn’t mean you have to deny what happened. You certainly don’t have to condone or forget the wrong. Rather, forgiveness is choosing to stop your vengeance from diminishing you by continuing to drag you down to someone else’s level. …

So many of us grow up with the statement of self sacrifice and putting others first, that we don’t know where to draw the line in our own lives. This may sound like heretical Me Generation propaganda, but it is true. Just because you help yourself doesn’t mean you forget everyone else – you just put yourself in the pictures, too.

I believe ion helping others, but I also know there are times when trying to please others hurts you and indirectly them, in the long run. It is like a boomerang. You have to throw it, it won’t throw itself. You have to be the nicest to yourself first in order to be nice to others. If I am not happy in what I am doing, I cannot be joyful and helpful to others around me. …