What You Said About Dealing With Cheating Boyfriends

Finding out your significant other is cheating is an emotional experience. You might feel anger, betrayal, humiliation. You may wonder, “so now what?” Do you break up? Do you try to rebuild trust? Maybe right now all you have is suspicions or rumors he’s cheating, but it’s still gnawing at you.

The experience of having a partner cheat won’t be the same for everyone, but unfortunately many of us have dealt with a cheating boyfriend at some point. Look no further than the Gurl comments for proof. Readers have been sharing their experiences about cheating boyfriends, as well as advice on how to deal and what they would do if cheated on. Some have heard rumors about a boyfriend cheating and others are debating if the saying, “once a cheater, always a cheater” is true when it comes to boyfriends.

You can find discussion on all of that in the comments, so here’s a sample of what you all have been talking about when it comes to cheating boyfriends.

iv just finder out that my spouse of11 years has bn cheating with her colleague for 9mnths.mW I feel humiliated, angry and depressed. lyk how do we rebuild that trust cz I will never forgive mor forget what he did.he says he’s sorry BT I know he’s sorry and seeks forgiveness only bcs he’s sorry ass got caught. and for that he TLD hes Mistress that we brk up 2years ago..that I’m a bitch and I wasn’t worthy of being his wife anymr .that girl blvd all that crap. when he’s the 1whos Nt worthy of being my man
must I forgive or forget about us.cz nw iue kids are involved.
1acheat always a cheat.I hate him very badly

Renae

My boyfriend of three years just told me he cheated on me with his ex. I asked him to tell me the truth about everything. He told me like a month ago but I still felt he was holding something back. So I kept bringing it up till he told me that it was more than once. Now come to find out that she is pregnant with twins. I forgave him before I knew she was pregnant. What do I do now?

cassie

Please I need advice.
I’ve been dating my boyfriend for two years and never in a million years would I think he would cheat on me. Well that day is coming. I am currentlyy watching a conversation between him and his ex fiance who he tells me he hates. I have witnessed many arguments between them confirming what he to be true. But what I am reading tells another story. I love him with all my heart and I have never been happier nor more stable with another man as I am with him. But trust is a huge thing for me. What should I do?

Kay

Ive been in a relationship for the 8 months but have been with hooking up with my partner 2 years previously before that and put up with alot waiting and crap but ive found out he has tried to cheat on me 3 weeks ago i confronted hin about it there and then and let everything out and asked him how could he do that to me again but he barely said anything and just said he has become unattracted to me but i wont let him go. I know he is talking to the girl he “likes” he has even gone immature and goven her a nickname on his phone but i dont want to lose him but now i dont think i can cop with it im second best he barely talks to me but he talks to the other girl all day and im just hoping but its starting to fade. I love him and try to be a good girlfriend but nothing i do is good enough.what do i do we been through so much i dont understand why he wont grow up and fix our relationship

britbrit0911

wow just wow i have a huge feeling #10 is about my ex it completely disctibes ihm