Why??

I miscarried my baby July 29th, 2016. I am so devasted. All I can say is "why? why did this happen? what did I do wrong?" I was so excited for baby #2. I could imagine my daughter and the baby running around playing around, being bestfriends. I just want to scream and cry. I am so mad. So mad at myself. What did I do wrong? Why couldn't I have my baby? Why? I am so lost. Will this ever get better? Will I ever be ok? This really hurts. I am so sad.

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Sorry for your loss. You did absolutely nothing wrong. I can unfortunately relate as I have miscarried what would've been baby #2... twice. Do whatever you need to do to grieve. It does get easier, and life does get back to somewhat "normal" over time. Take whatever time you need for yourself and if you feel like it's just too much don't hesitate to reach out for help. There is no right or wrong way to get through this. ❤️

I just lost my baby yesterday 30/07/16 at 12 weeks .. I'm sorry for your loss it's so hard not to blame ourselves we did nothing wrong.. these things sadly happen n there is nothing we can do. Stay strong n take your time for yourself x

Sorry for your loss. You did nothing wrong. Its been a month for me and Im still hurting. However, I am better than I was a mth ago. The pain doesnt go away. We just have to try our best to grieve in our own way and somehow get through it. *hugs* 💓💓

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