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Dating Site Claims Chicago Women Think 20 Is the Best Age to Lose Virginity.

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One dating site claims Chicago women think age 20 is the sweet spot for losing one’s virginity.
A “virginity survey” was conducted of female members nationwide to find out what the “ideal” age is to have sex for the first time, “sugar daddy” dating site SeekingArrangement.com said Wednesday.

Out of the 6,148 Chicago members who responded, 42 percent said 20 is the ideal age for sex, according to SeekingArrangement. That’s above the national average of 17.4, according to the Kinsey Institute.
But it’s in line with the responses the site received in other large cities, SeekingArrangement spokesman Leroy Velasquez said. Cities such as Pittsburgh, Tampa, Baltimore, Sacramento and others said holding out until age 20 or thereabouts is ideal.

The number one reason to abstain? Turns out, about 74 percent of Chicago women who responded said the multitude of options offered by online dating, social networking and the like have helped make them more selective in finding “the one,” according to the sugar daddy site.

“Waiting until marriage” was the second most popular reason for responders, according to the survey, with 18 percent. “Personal beliefs (religion),” came next with 6 percent, then Upbringing (culture) at 1 percent and “Other” with less than 1 percent, according to the site.

The site also claims that one of nine Chicago women who responded are still virgins, similar to responses the site received in other cities, Velasquez said.
There’s no word what Chicago men think. They weren’t given the “virginity survey,” Velasquez said.SeekingArrangement bills itself as the “premier sugar daddy dating website.”

The ruling said Massachusetts courts can determine whether a couple is in a substantive dating relationship by considering the nature, frequency and length of their communications and if either person has ended the relationship.

“Clearly the court took the case … on its own initiative because, I think, they wanted to address this issue of electronic dating and whether, under the statute, electronic communication could form the basis of a substantive dating relationship — which is one of the basis under the statute which gives the court the authority to issue an abuse order,” said lawyer Mark Engel, who represented Compton in the lower court.

Robert Peck, an attorney for the girl’s father, said in a telephone interview from Salem that the decision recognizes that more people are using various forms of social media to communicate and establish relationships in real time.

What the Supreme Judicial Court “has done is to bring the reality of today into clear focus” for applications under domestic abuse laws to relationships formed by previously nontraditional means such as the Internet, Skype, Facebook, and instant messaging, Peck said.

The girl’s parents discovered the communication and her father secured the restraining order, which was served to Compton after he arrived at an inn near the family home in November.

The Supreme Judicial Court ruled that the man’s conduct did not rise to the level of abuse because he did not harm or try to harm her physically, and did not cause the girl to engage in a sexual relationship by force, threat or duress. Those standards are set under a state’s domestic abuse law that enables adults, children and others living in a home to secure a restraining order directing someone to refrain from abuse or contact.

The court also found that the teen was capable of agreeing to sex because she is older than the state consent age of 16.

“The defendant’s passing references in his electronic communications with the daughter implying that he might furnish her with alcohol, while understandably reprehensible to the father, is not evidence suggesting physical abuse or evidence that the defendant planned to give alcohol to her in order to have involuntary sexual relations with her, certainly a form of physical abuse,” the court said. “We conclude that this conduct does not meet the definition of ‘abuse'” under the state domestic abuse law.

CRAVE ONLINE: Where’s the line between pursuing women and “douchebaggery?”
Eric Rogell: Here’s a good litmus test: A douche bag sees a woman as an enemy to be conquered, while a man who pursues women sees them as a worthy adversary who may end up becoming a valued ally if he handles the situation with diplomacy and finesse.

And it’s not as fine a line as you would think. While doing my research for the book, and talking to guys all over the country, I was surprised to learn that the vast majority weren’t looking for a quick way to trick women into bed or to sleep with hundreds of chicks. They just wanted a realistic, useful, proven strategy to meet that ONE great woman they could have a relationship with. So the douche bag potential was low.

Still douchebaggery exists everywhere. Women have developed pretty keen Douche-dar. That’s not to say the techniques and strategies in the book can’t be used for evil. But so can lasers…

CRAVE ONLINE: If there was one lesson to take from your book — one thing with which to leave the reader — what would like it to be?
Eric Rogell: The hidden “ah-ha!” of the book, and the real way to get the women you desire, is simply by being a better man… Being the kind of man the women you’re after WANT to date, WANT to have fun with, WANT to spend time with. It’s not about pickup lines and canned routines. Those simply help you break the ice, get over your fears, and get in the game. It’s really all about the art of attraction and being “attractive,” not in the sense of looks or physicality, but in the sense of how you carry yourself, your attitude, your strength—the things that women are truly attracted to in men. And, yeah, that takes more work than just learning a few indirect openers.