The goal is not to bend or change ourselves so we fit the norm; the goal is to find the group in which we are the norm. No matter who we are, no matter what our values or beliefs, our tastes or proclivities, there is an entire culture or subculture out there just like us. I learned that, instead of expending energy to fit into the group, it’s better to expend energy to find the group in which you fit.

One person left some thoughts on “On fitting in”

Hi, I stumbled upon your blog by chance when I googled Denise Ho.
Like you, I am awed by her ‘radicalness’ and I was (once) a hardcore fan of Faye too ;)
Wondered if you would like to make more friends?
Love your writing.

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She feels her thoughts are severely fragmented – hence the need to defragment, and hopes that somehow, some way, with a touch of serendipity, the blog would benefit some souls, just like how she was inspired by the words of many before. more

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