Hi, I'm a 55 year-old thrice married female. I never say I have great judgement! I am the eldest of 7 children. I was born in NC and raised in Cali. I grew up in Riverside, but I have lived all over the place. Surprisingly, I'm pretty well adjusted. I'm easy going and don't expect too much. I don't like to argue and I hate confrontations. I like to be around easy going people that go with the flow. I really would like to be involved with a man that is confident in himself. I've never had it so I'm writing a wish list... right????? So I'm going to say what my friends say... I should have and that is... someone to WANT to take care of me and love me soooo much! I am nearsighted, so I wear glasses. I have two adult children and 2 grandsons, little angels!. I have a wonderful job in a field that helps people recover from substance abuse . Because of my job I am on a wack schedule sometimes. I would to meet someone who has their life somewhat together and would like to hang out and talk and laugh and watch movies and stuff. I like to cook, but I don't very much because I don't have too like I did when my kids were kids! I like to camp. I love football, the Seahawks are my fav, but I will watch any and all games. I like baseball, too, but don't follow it as closely as football. My son is really into hockey, and I like to watch that too. My daughter and my grandkids live in PA. I miss being around them. I've lived in Alaska and I love being outside in cool/cold weather. It's raining now and I'm very happy! I like cats a lot... I have two, Mitten and Ashley. I read Ann Rice and James Patterson books. I listen to alternative/punk rock music/X103.9 (I never grew up as far as my musical tastes go and that's fine with me... "bring back Boingo"). I like to have one cup of good coffee in the morning. That's me in a nutshell... Lou!!! PS I don't like guys who are "know it all's".. I like men who shower and smell nice. I like guys who can do stuff... like have hobbies. I don't like weird and icky men that only think about porno and strippers and crap... I know call me old-fashioned, but I think it's exploitive and de-grading to my sisters so that's my opinion. This does not mean I'm a prude... My ideas on the subject of sex will be discussed in due time. I'll just say I like it, I've had lots of it, and I'm open-minded and like to try new things.

First Date

Not feel nervous and go with the flow. I would hope we'd have dinner someplace medium nice and go to a movie or whatever, I haven't been on a date in a long time. I get too nervous and I hate that part. I'd rather meet someone at a friend's house and go from there.

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