Sunday, April 22, 2012

The Default Winner

Four years ago, I took up the
game of golf. I only did it because I love my husband. I only did it because I
did not want to become a golf widow. It turns out it was a great endeavor. You
see, I instantly knew that my boyfriend who soon after became my husband was an avid golfer or in plain terms, a golf addict.
I knew that if I ever wanted to see him and spend time with him, I would have
to hit the course. Over the years, we have played together in several scrambles
and because of my honey’s prowess on the course, we have managed to win. Upon
moving to El Dorado, we joined the local country club and have been playing in
the Tuesday night couples scramble organized by the Club.

Recently, my honey and I decided to
ditch the gym in exchange for walking 9 holes every day after work. So, I was
not at all surprised this past Tuesday when he proudly announced that he had registered
me for a one Lady scramble. Immediately, I saw a montage of the Rocky training
scenes. Then I was gripped by the thought that I was not ready. As the week
progressed, I was encouraged. My confidence was boosted by the fact that we won
the couples scramble this past Tuesday. On Friday night, I could not sleep. I
tossed and turned worrying about the Michelle Wies and the Natalie Gublis that were
waiting for me on the golf course on Saturday morning. I have to admit, I was
freaking out!!!!!

Early Saturday morning (after a
night of intense wine drinking), I stumbled out of the bed wishing I had the
foresight to cancel on Friday afternoon. After a quick run to Shipley’s donuts
( breakfast of the champions), I was ready to ball (or drive) on my
opponents. I was ready to play! I got dressed in my nice khakis and my husband’s
official looking golf jacket (it was dreary and cold). I got to the golf course
with my husband/caddy ready to dominate. Then I received the devastating (ahemm,
awesome) news. Five contestants canceled and one individual was a no show. I am
the only one who showed up! Really? Was it dedication or madness? I showed up
and therefore was victorious over those who did not. I take my victories where
I can find them, and I was particularly thankful for this one.

Can I truly and in good conscience count this as a win? Have
you ever won by default or had similar experience?

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