i just know that where i live, using the term "fucker" in reference to anything is grounds for suspension in any school, from elementary to senior high (and i know this because i am a teacher). and yes, i find it to be a crude, trashy, and offensive word. while you're certainly not required to respect that feeling in any way, i just think that it's silly and ridiculous to assume that a huge amount of other people (much less, children) will think in such offensive terms.

I think it a crude and trashy word too, but I immediately thought of it when I read Tucker.
Kids cuss and whisper and tease and do plenty of things that might be grounds for punishment - doesnt stop them from doing it.
Op, even if you only make rough and tough "cool" kids (eye roll) I promise you that as soon as kids figure out what his name rhymes with he will hear it. Maybe it won't be in a teasing way, maybe it will. But he WILL hear about it.
I dont love the name regardless of the tease issue, but its up to you how much it would bug you for kids to rhyme your boys name with a pretty serious cuss word.

i just know that where i live, using the term "fucker" in reference to anything is grounds for suspension in any school, from elementary to senior high (and i know this because i am a teacher). and yes, i find it to be a crude, trashy, and offensive word. while you're certainly not required to respect that feeling in any way, i just think that it's silly and ridiculous to assume that a huge amount of other people (much less, children) will think in such offensive terms.

It must be nice living in your safe little world. OP' son, however, will likely live in the real world where people say bad words and think naughty things (gasp!), and getting suspended isn't the worst thing anyone can think of that might happen to a person.

it is crude and trashy..i am agreeing with you but you do not hear everything kids say and its naive to think older school age kids dont use the f word especially if it rhymes with something. seriously..