XPost - What would you do?

After 2+ years ttc, we underwent IUI in 1/12, 2/12 and 3/12 with no luck. We proceeded to IVF in May, transferred two and got our BFP with a singleton. In early July, I miscarried - just a random thing, the fetus was chromosomally normal, no polyps, no clots. We tried IUI #4 this month and things are not looking good - POAS this morning CD24 and got a negative - no symptoms at all.

We are thinking IVF #2 in October and here is where I am looking for opinions.

We have two frozen embryos of excellent qualiity. We'd like to have more than one child. I am 35 and DH is 34.

Do I go for a fresh cycle? Bank some embryos so that:

-if the IVF is unsuccessful/ I miscarry we can try again and have the retrieval over with?

- if the IVF is successful with a healthy pregnancy, and we decide to have another child, the embryos are already there? (I'd be at least 37 by then.)

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We just went through IVF and had 1 embryo frozen. If things don't work out I will do another fresh cycle since we want several children and I would rather count on good quality eggs now (and hopefully getting a few more to bank) rather than chancing quality issues later.