No special tricks used or gadgets bought, just a dumb fiance. I just took her phone from her desk while she was taking a shower. I nearly broke my foot kicking the door open. I have a short fuse, but I did NOT HIT HER.

I saw her texts and confronted her a.s.a.p. Seems her meddling friend, who I have always hated, has been introducing guys to her whenever they have there girls night outs and this one guy replied “send me more pictures shaved”, that’s one of the many dirty texts i found on her inbox. That’s all it took for me to loose my temper. I kicked the door open and started yelling my head off and she just cried and said “nothing happened” until she finally told me it was Macy’s f****** idea to get her more “options”. f*** right nothing happened. I was wondering why she started trimming down there again – but would not even let me touch her, and I thought it was for me. F****** b**** kept begging for forgiveness. Thank GOD we weren’t married yet and had kids. I would have lost my mind and could have beat her for ruining our marriage and our kids lives.

I was considering marriage counseling, but I don’t have the time or effort to devote to this stupid lying c***. I thought I loved her, but it turns out she’s just like any other gold digging b****. At first I felt I needed to know everything so I can attempt to salvage our relationship, but in the midst of it all i just said f*** it, and decided she wasn’t worth any of this and doesn’t deserve a free ride. Oh yeah- she has never worked in the past 6 years- she just hung on like a parasite. I was the one paying for her “girls night outs” I was the one paying for her food, clothing, and shelter, I was the one who defended her against her father calling her a lazy good for nothing bum. I did all that and this is how I get repaid. bulls***. who knows how long this has been going on and with HOW MANY people. I should take some tests for STDs that low life could have given me. I feel so god damn disappointed…in myself.

You women cry about your men cheating on you and blame the whole thing on men and their psychology when you yourselves are lying conniving cheaters.

Too many women act like the cheating thing is always the man doing it.

It isn’t. And when they do cheat they come up with the great excuses why it wasn’t their fault.

When the trust is gone so it the relationship and so is the marriage.

My advice to any guy out there wondering what to do after finding out their wife is cheating is to get out of the marriage. End it. It’s already done anyways. Stinks real bad if there are kids involved but it isn’t ever going to get better. And yea – once a cheater, always a cheater.

It takes a dirtbag and a liar and a sneak to have an affair. You really want to stay married to THAT?

Man or woman, your spouse cheats. End the marriage because it is already done.

Men don’t have a monopoly on cheating.

And if my ‘devoted’ spouse reads this….You are a liar, dirtbag and a sneak and I don’t trust you anymore.

Too many women act like the cheating thing is always the man doing it.

I agree, this is what the media has painted and is considered truth by majority.

It isn’t. And when they do cheat they come up with the great excuses why it wasn’t their fault.

This is true for both sexes, cheaters always come up with excuses.

When the trust is gone so it the relationship and so is the marriage.

I agree a hundred percent.

My advice to any guy out there wondering what to do after finding out their wife is cheating is to get out of the marriage. End it. It’s already done anyways. Stinks real bad if there are kids involved but it isn’t ever going to get better. And yea – once a cheater, always a cheater.

There’s always chance for change, and I disagree that once a cheater always a cheater. Sometimes people cheat because they are either physically, or emotionally deprived by their spouses. Do I think it justifies cheating? Of course not, a decent human being would end the relationship before moving on. But I do agree that you should leave an un-salvageable relationship, whether or not you have kids. It’s much better for the kids to know the truth, then making them believe everything is fine and them finding out in the future they were living a lie, especially if both parents are miserable with each other. The negativity will get passed down on to the children one way or another.

It takes a dirtbag and a liar and a sneak to have an affair. You really want to stay married to THAT?

Man or woman, your spouse cheats. End the marriage because it is already done.

Men don’t have a monopoly on cheating.

And if my ‘devoted’ spouse reads this….You are a liar, dirtbag and a sneak and I don’t trust you anymore.