When DD1 was that little, I would stack up a wall of pillows so if she did wake up, she couldn't see anything.
Oh, lets see. The floor, closet, shower, spare room, basement, garage...
We actually DTD in our own room yesterday because DD1 wanted to sleep in her room and DD2 was in the co-sleeper. It was crazy wierd.

James was conceived on the floor in the "office" while DJ slept in our bed. Now that the boys are old enough to play alone for a little while at a time, we've been able to get "quickies" while they are playing (we have a baby gate that blocks off the back half of the house so no chance of them walking in although I guess I'll always have fond memories of dtd while DJ's in the other room yelling "Mommy..what are y'all doing? I wanna help!"

Honestly, if you've got that many people living in the house, they should understand the need for a little grownup time and maybe they can entertain your dd in another room while you and dh have a little playtime in your room or even better, maybe they can take her out to the grocery store or something and give you free run of the house for a couple of hours so you can try out all the possibilities!

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When DD1 was that little, I would stack up a wall of pillows so if she did wake up, she couldn't see anything.
Oh, lets see. The floor, closet, shower, spare room, basement, garage...
We actually DTD in our own room yesterday because DD1 wanted to sleep in her room and DD2 was in the co-sleeper. It was crazy wierd.