@Lovemelovemyhorses: Hi, no my husband is not okay with her verbally abusing us. He does tell my Mother-In-Law to stop acting like a child and stop behaving that way but then she becomes much worse. We don’t know how to deal with her when she becomes like that. I am honestly a non-confrontational person and hate drama which i try to stay away from. my Mother-In-Law puts him in a very difficult position and he tries to maintain the peace but my Mother-In-Law makes it very difficult.

@Astra: Thanks for the advice. I will try to do that the next time. My husband promised to let my Mother-In-Law know she needs to quit treating us like that or she not be able to see us and especially our son before me move.

Thanks everyone for your advice and support in dealing my with Mother-In-Law. I had a really good talk with my husband last night and we figured out how we will deal with my Mother-In-Law when she starts acting out badly. I will be closing this topic 🙂 Thanks everyone!