I think you should stop making such a big deal out of it. This is life, following it’s natural course. And it’s a stupid circle. You close yourself. A person (like you where before) appears into your life, putting their soul in there, and you are cold, you don’t have the courage to risk being hurt again (you have become the person that hurt you the most, that wasn’t as open as you where, that only took, didn’t give, maybe being affraid to get hurt). You might miss great people. You feel you are a great good person, but you where underappreciated. Close yourself and you will underapreciate all man kind. I just don’t understand one thing. How can there be so many idiots? Dude, STOP making one moment of your life the whole center of your life. You cannot define your whole life in that one moment. Your life is passing and happening now, you’re wasting it being stuck in a stupid moment. There are many aspects to your life, so many other, you should try seeing them, you should try to understand that bad moment (wich is a small piece of you life that will pass) and evolve. Try to understand the error. The error is not you being to open. The error is how you are behaving now. Such a giant idiot if you devolve because of one little (insignificant if you consider your whole life until the end of it) moment in your life. Accept it as life flowing normaly. You actually paused every other aspect of your life to stop and cry because of this? That’s how complex you are? I think there should be some inteligence in you. Use it. Stop being pathetic and start thinking lucid with your mind and heart. Don’t become the idiot that hurt you.

Rationality can be a fantastic thing, if there were not for those chemicals working that effect in our brain that we call “hart matters”. And its nearly impossible or dare I say absolutely impossible to fight it. So all I can say head up and all you need is time.

And maybe you are being verry subjective on this. You gave everything, you, you, you. Maybe that is/was the problem. Maybe there was something you did wrong and didn’t notice and that drove the person away. Somewhere both have their fault.

Fernandestelecaster said
I think you should stop making such a big deal out of it. This is life, following it’s natural course. And it’s a stupid circle. You close yourself. A person (like you where before) appears into your life, putting their soul in there, and you are cold, you don’t have the courage to risk being hurt again (you have become the person that hurt you the most, that wasn’t as open as you where, that only took, didn’t give, maybe being affraid to get hurt). You might miss great people. You feel you are a great good person, but you where underappreciated. Close yourself and you will underapreciate all man kind. I just don’t understand one thing. How can there be so many idiots? Dude, STOP making one moment of your life the whole center of your life. You cannot define your whole life in that one moment. Your life is passing and happening now, you’re wasting it being stuck in a stupid moment. There are many aspects to your life, so many other, you should try seeing them, you should try to understand that bad moment (wich is a small piece of you life that will pass) and evolve. Try to understand the error. The error is not you being to open. The error is how you are behaving now. Such a giant idiot if you devolve because of one little (insignificant if you consider your whole life until the end of it) moment in your life. Accept it as life flowing normaly. You actually paused every other aspect of your life to stop and cry because of this? That’s how complex you are? I think there should be some inteligence in you. Use it. Stop being pathetic and start thinking lucid with your mind and heart. Don’t become the idiot that hurt you.

You’re approach lacks compassion in my opinion. I think GP was after some comfort initially.
You are very hard

That’s called “Life on planet Earth” And if i would tell you what happened to me 3 years ago you might say noooo its impossible, i just made up this story. Thats why i am not talking about this anymore. Just moved on, and when i sometimes dreaming about it, and wake up i just say, “f*ck them” Life is’t about the good people will win at the end of the story. This is not Hollywood. But there is some good exception if you want: Have you watched the 7th Seal from Ingmar Bergman?

The best thing you can do right now is try to put yourself in his shoes and try to justify why he left. I understand what you’re going through, but I can’t blame the other person too. He placed his own self above you. That’s not entirely wrong.