Look, she responded to me again. Seriously, why does she keep explaining herself when she feels like she did nothing wrong? She knows she was trying to get pregnant all this time with her crazy ass. Not only is she desperate to be pregnant, she's desperate for us to all believe that this was an accident. SUREEE IT WAS DEAR!

Quoting Jas ♥:" Look, she responded to me again. Seriously, why does she keep explaining herself when she feels like ... [snip!] ... Not only is she desperate to be pregnant, she's desperate for us to all believe that this was an accident. SUREEE IT WAS DEAR!"

Probably because it does NOT feel good for people to make accusations like that! I would explain myself too, over anything! I can't believe how mean some of you people are, geez get a life... If she is having another baby that is her and her family's perrogative it is NOT anyone's place to judge. It is perfectly normal to like to be pregnant! I loved being pregnant and would be if certain circumstances were different. It takes 2 to get pregnant..her SO is aware of that Im sure.

OP, congratulations on your 4th baby! I hope everything goes well. I see your point, but Ive seen a lot of people regret getting some kind of permanent birth control done... even though a vasectomy is reversible. You could try the one they put in your arm that lasts like 5 years? Idk what its called lol

<blockquote><b>Quoting Jas ♥:</b>" Look, she responded to me again. Seriously, why does she keep explaining herself when she feels like ... [snip!] ... Not only is she desperate to be pregnant, she's desperate for us to all believe that this was an accident. SUREEE IT WAS DEAR!"</blockquote>

I know ridiculous!

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19th Nov '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Kristen Parris:</b>" Probably because it does NOT feel good for people to make accusations like that! I would explain myself ... [snip!] ... though a vasectomy is reversible. You could try the one they put in your arm that lasts like 5 years? Idk what its called lol"</blockquote>

I honestly don't know what in the hell everyone's problem is with you Hannah but they are completely wrong. I can't believe some of the horribly mean shit I was just reading!!!! Like, really????? Where did all of that nonsense even come from????!

I've already answered but I'll answer again :) I think you're making a valid point. I agree and also would want my DH to wait to have the vasectomy, at least until after I had the baby.

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19th Nov '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Landon's Mommy *37wks*:</b>" I honestly don't know what in the hell everyone's problem is with you Hannah but they are completely ... [snip!] ... making a valid point. I agree and also would want my DH to wait to have the vasectomy, at least until after I had the baby."</blockquote>

Quoting Monkey Nuts:" One or two pregnancy "scares" but she's had more than 10 i think I'm pregnant posts. MORE THAN 10. ... [snip!] ... THAN 10. And it's every excuse under the sun. She acts like its a big surprise. If she did it on purpose or not, who cares."

You seriously care way too much about what this chick posts lol... Did you go COUNT or something?? This girl and I are friends and I couldn't even give you rough estimate of how many "pregnancy scares" she has had. No f**king idea. Could be 1, could be 100. No idea. Yet for some reason you, who apparently hates her, knows an exact number? I don't think she's the one with the issue here. Paranoid? Maybe. But her paranoia is understandable considering she's fertile as f**k and isn't on birth control (with her husband's knowledge - BY THE WAY).

honestly anyone that reads any of your posts will think that you are obsessed with being pregnant and you have been trying to get pregnant with another couples baby but since it hasn't hapenned you must have taken matters into your own hands. i am only saying this because like i said anyone that reads what you write about will think like i do and its not our fault. i say he should do what he wants now you got your 4 kids wether he wanted them now or not...

But what is wrong with being a surrogate mother???? It's not like her plan was to become a surrogate, get pregnant with someone elses baby & then "steal" their baby or something. She would be doing a good deed for another family who is unable to become pregnant. I don't see the problem with that?

Then..... they have sex. Condom didn't work, as they are not always 100% as we all know, and she gets pregnant. It isn't like she tricked her man. HE buys her the tests when she has had previous pregnancy scares. And many people have pregnancy scares.

I just don't see why everyone needs to be bashing her. I don't get it, at all.

Quoting Landon's Mommy *37wks*:" But what is wrong with being a surrogate mother???? It's not like her plan was to become a surrogate, ... [snip!] ... scares. And many people have pregnancy scares. I just don't see why everyone needs to be bashing her. I don't get it, at all."

who the f**k said anything about her stealing the baby? and what everyone is saying is she is obsessed with being pregnant and obviously her husband doesn't trust her so he wants to get snipped before the 5th child pops out because those 6 months she wants after this baby is enough to make baby #5 and he wouldn't be telling her he wants to get snipped now if he wanted that.

Quoting Crazy one:" who the f**k said anything about her stealing the baby? and what everyone is saying is she is obsessed ... [snip!] ... wants after this baby is enough to make baby #5 and he wouldn't be telling her he wants to get snipped now if he wanted that."

I'm not saying she'd do that, I'm saying by the way everyone is talking it sounds as though she'd be THAT "psycho" to steal the baby or something crazy like that. For gods sake, she likes to be pregnant. She can financially afford another baby so what the hell is the big deal? THAT is what I'M saying... because I don't get it. And also, no, he is wanting to get snipped because they are both done after 4 babies. That's enough for them. HER concern is if she were to miscarry (god forbid) she'd want to try again for a 4th, as would he (as she's mentioned previously). There for, it would only make sense NOT to go ahead with the surgery until after baby #4 is already here. There shouldn't be a rush on it.

I just think everyone needs to chill out. Leave her alone. Damn.

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20th Nov '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Crazy one:</b>" who the f**k said anything about her stealing the baby? and what everyone is saying is she is obsessed ... [snip!] ... wants after this baby is enough to make baby #5 and he wouldn't be telling her he wants to get snipped now if he wanted that."</blockquote>

It isnt about lack of trust. He trusts me. He mentioned getting it done so we DONT have another one right away, i just said id rather wait till the baby is bornl and he agreed with me. I didnt ahve to hold him down witha. Knife to his balls ands get him to agree with me.. Lol

I just love being pregnant..and by the way i dont scares. There is always a small chance for me to be pregnant apsince we ddidnt always use condoms or BC and you would test all the time. Cuz i wanted to. I didnt pot every test i peed on. Then i really WOULD be crazy. But one time i went back to find a thread and there was like no joke 10 line spotter htreads in a row and i was like wtf was i thinking! Lol

I'm just glad pregnancy comes easy for some people, lol. I had a shitty pregnancy, hints as to why I'm getting my tubes tied since I don't think my body can handle it again (It seriously fucked me up).
If pregnancy agrees with you, who cares. Be a surrogate, have 20 more kids if you want to, be the Michelle Duggar of the surrogacy world.
I don't see why people care so much...I mean if you were TNTC all four pregnancies like people said and I was your husband, I'd get a little suspicious after the second, but obviously there's not a problem there.
Good luck with this pregnancy and any that may result later from surrogacy, and an easy labor and delivery your way.