There's end DADT, and actually, instead of marriage, there is seemingly more desire (although so far of the Facebook flash mob sort than by the people who actually affect change) to just get sexual orientation added to the Equal Right Amendment, which would seemingly legalize marriage nationwide, and a bunch of other things, rather than having to fight every single thing in all 50 states, and bankrupting both sides in the process (the right gets hit worse, because then they're financially AND morally bankrupt)

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"People who are happy are slugs... They do not move the human race forward."
-- Camille Paglia, on Oasis