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“Lately, in order to want to sleep with someone, I actually have to them as a person.” He said this as if it were a mind-blowing revelation.I told him that, at 31, the realization was probably a bit overdue, but I knew what he meant: As one gets older, it becomes harder and harder to be attracted to someone simply because of the way they look.

While some people clearly feel proud to have a hottie on their arm, others are more comfortable having the upper hand in the beauty department.

If you’ve ever had someone look at you during sex with this completely euphoric expression, like, “I ,” you understand that “dating down” in terms of attractiveness can be a confidence boost in its own right.

Popular culture tells us that it’s normal for average-looking or even unattractive men to date beautiful women, as long as the men are successful—the trollish tycoon with the supermodel wife is a classic archetype—but that the reverse is somehow remarkable.

In sociology, this is called the “beauty-status exchange”—an attractive person pairs with a wealthy or powerful person, and both win. But according to new research by University of Notre Dame sociologist Elizabeth Mc Clintock, despite outliers like Anna Nicole Smith and J.

I hated myself for having such superficial impulses, but I couldn’t help it: I want to be able to show my partners off to the world for both what they do how they look. In the past, when a friend has introduced me to a new partner who’s superhot, but clearly an idiot, I’ve judged them for it.

On the other hand, whenever a girlfriend of mine starts dating a middling, out-of-shape guy, all I can think is: This isn’t feminism.

At certain times that can be a confidence boost, but it’s hard to deal with on a daily basis, especially when you don’t 100 percent trust the person you’re dating.” And this doesn’t just go for models, Millie says, but hot people in general.

“When you have so many people throwing themselves at you, you’re spoiled for choice, so there’s less incentive to be faithful.

Or, more simply, have we just realized that dating freakishly beautiful people isn’t all it's cracked up to be?

A female friend once told me, “It’s always best to date attractive men, but not attractive that everyone’s constantly trying to jump on their dick, because that’s just stressful.” The sentiment actually made a lot of sense to me.

“It wasn’t that I was specifically attracted to ,” Millie clarified recently.