Ask her!
Ask her!
Ask her!
That is the best thing to do...just ask, "What can I do that will make you feel most supported?" I'm sure she has some ideas. My guess is she just wants a little help around the house with laundry, meals, and cleaning. Maybe some down town, even for 30 minutes, where you watch the baby and don't go to her for help. Most women will nod when someone says, "The most romantic thing a husband can do is CLEAN!" LOL Good luck, Julio, it is wonderful that you are trying to find out.