Use a red candle(symbolises passion) and push your desires into the astral plane through the candles flame. Complete the ritual with an incantation you created in order to seal the spell. This is a very well known technique and is highly effective.

I'd just like to say that I found it a good idea to project that you want the best possible match for you both; you may have an idea of what you want, but there's nothing better than asking for the best, and it leaves room to be surprised :)