“Previous research has shown in the week near ovulation women become attracted to sexy, rebellious and handsome men like George Clooney or James Bond [...] Under the hormonal influence of ovulation, women delude themselves into thinking that the sexy bad boys will become devoted partners and better dads,” Durante said. “When looking at the sexy cad through ovulation goggles, Mr. Wrong looked exactly like Mr. Right.”

No. Idiot. You’re rationalizing bad boy attraction, so you can keep the comfortable lie that nice guys trigger any attraction at all, that women are “thinking long term” when it comes to attraction, and that all women want is to find a good husband… but they pick bad boys who are unsuitable for marriage, every time their body wants to procreate, by mistake!

That, and that whenever women do something that is morally wrong, it’s because somehow they have been tricked into it, and therefore they are except of responsibility – and the responsibility goes to the nearest man we can dump the blame on.

On this episode, the poor girls have been tricked, abused and manipulated by their own hormones! Bad, bad hormonal cycle! Leave women alone! These poor girls without any agency nor intelligence nor accountability!

How dare you? You evil, evil biology! Leave women alone! I warn you!

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“oh hi… I know I only met you a few hours ago and Im already sucking your cock… but it’s ONLY because… I thought you were going to marry me? oh no? my body has fooled me yet again! … I was only horny and lonely and went to some party and got drunk and flirted with some guys, bounced out boring guys and ended with you… all confident and hot and dominant and you only wanted to FUCK me ohh yes yes fuck me good good…. Im so naive!! I totally thought I was fucking with a nicer guy!!”

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On a similar note, I dont think we’re going to see a scientific study rationalizing that when a man gets a hard on in presence of a hot girl, he’s really thinking long term and picturing her as a nurturing caring mom, and that men’s drives are in sync with morality and virtue, and that any “mistake” is just the result of some evil external force that… produces erections and makes us do stupid shit.

We’re not going to see it because men are expected to be pigs.

It’s the fact that women are pigs, too, what needs to be hidden and rationalized away in this culture.

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“that women are “thinking long term” when it comes to attraction, and that all women want is to find a good husband”

As time has gone by in the scene, I’ve become less and less patient with the idea touted by some that women aren’t playing in the hookup culture because they enjoy it in some way, they are just trying to get a boyfriend and think that providing sex is the way to do it, and despite being intelligent and well-educated they make this same mistake over and over and over and over again.

The “she just wants a nice boyfriend and somehow keeps ending up with all these jerks” meme is just so laughably off base.

The girls who always go to the bad guy gets always beaten, at the end she go with the nice guy.

Why? because girls have no brain when their are young (nor later some) and they think about sex and having fun, not commitment. Unless the girl grew up in a very nice family and is in peace with the world. But as almost every family is divorced, you wont find that many amount of girls.

Still, everybody (girls and guys) are pretty fuckup until they turn 30. In their 20’s is when all the childhood traumas develop and is when you start to face them and hopefully… you resolve them by early 30’s. In your mid 20’s is when you become a drug addict or not, suicide or not, hooker or not.

So, lets not expect much from anybody in their 20’s. No wonder there are so many single mothers or divorces at the 30’s.

returning to the topic, girls like guys with integrity, probably the bad guy shows that by looking as a rebel. Still the paradigm is right, happy guys have integrity as well. Or… again… probably the girl does not want a commitment but just being fuck and they now the bad guy is going to be for a while any way.

If you want a career you do not go and work selling burgers at Mc Donald’s, you work in a bank or some corporation like Procter & Gamble. If girls choose the looser is for a reason.

Some of us actually do want nice guys, but deep inside do not feel we deserve it. and its because we dont come from a very loving, close family. we were treated like shit by our moms and didnt have dad there to show us the way. so I agree with the childhood trauma theory. The trauma always reveals itself but we dont start to see it until mid 20s. thats when we wake the fuck up. I’ve had my fair share of bad boys, but I cheated on the good one . Oh well, I was eighteen.

Some of us actually do want nice guys, but deep inside do not feel we deserve it. and its because we dont come from a very loving, close family. we were treated like shit by our moms and didnt have dad there to show us the way. so I agree with the childhood trauma theory. The trauma always reveals itself but we dont start to see it until mid 20s. thats when we wake the fuck up. I’ve had my fair share of bad boys, but I cheated on the good one . Oh well, I was eighteen.