Do You Feel Insecure In Your Relationship? How to Know He Is Not Ready To Let You Go

At times, a lot of things or situations make you feel as if your boyfriend wants to break up with you. These things may make you feel insecure in your relationship resulting in your losing sight of what is important in your relationship.

Your feelings of insecurity can make you lose trust in your partner and may make you send wrong signals which will not be good for your relationship.

It is therefore necessary you know those signs that show that your partner is still into you so you do not jump to unnecessary and irrelevant conclusions.

If you can identify them, you would no longer feel insecure in your relationship.

He still shows you how much he loves you:

If you feel insecure in your relationship; answer this question. Does your boyfriend still express how much he loves you? If the answer is yes then there is no reason for you to feel insecure.

As long as that aspect of him has not changed, he is certainly not ready to let you go so relax.

He still cares:

When your boyfriend is always there for you, giving you what you need and always wanting to know about your wellbeing, does that denote he wants to do away with you?

The fact that he still has an iota of care for you shows he still cherishes you. If he is no longer interested in you, he will not be that caring anymore.

He still keeps in touch:

Communication is very important in any relationship and a lack of it sometimes makes that relationship crumble so if your boyfriend still keeps in touch the way he usually does then he is still into you.

If he limits how he calls you or stops completely then you have a reason to be concerned.

He hasn’t told you about it:

It is very easy to assume what is not in any circumstance. There are certain times relationships break up and no party talks about it but somehow the relationship just dissolves.

But if your partner has not revealed his intention to you or done anything specific to make you feel insecure in your relationship, you should not think otherwise.

He spends on you:

One of the ways a guy can show he cares for you is by buying you things and so if your partner buys you gifts from time to time then he still likes you but if he withholds them from you, you can feel insecure in your relationship.

He spends time with you:

If he takes out time to spend quality time with you then he is not ready to let you go. If he is no longer into you, he would rather do something else with the spare time he has than spend it with you.

Therefore appreciate the time he spends with you because this shows he still cares for you.

He keeps you informed:

Why should you feel insecure in your relationship if your partner always informs you of his activities and the things he does? If he is ready to let you go, he will not even waste his time letting you know.

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