Can a girl live?! Jana Duggar is the oldest of the Duggar girls — yet, she’s still single, even though many of her younger siblings (five — but who’s counting?!) have tied the knot. And there have been countless theories about why she still lives at home, and tends to her younger siblings. But now, Radar reports that a Duggar insider has a simple explanation — watch the video to see what it is!

Being 27 and single is unusual in the Duggar’s ultra-conservative religion. Even Jana has opened up about how it can be difficult to remain single while her younger sisters pair off and start families. “I know how it feels to wait for ‘Prince Charming’ to come along. I’m still waiting. Waiting is not always easy,” she previously said in a recent interview. “Especially when all the married siblings are getting together and you can’t go along because you’re not party of ‘that’ group.”

Jana has previously been linked to Lawson Bates, Johnathon Hartono, and even Tim Tibow — and has been said to “enjoy the company of women.” Hey — there’s nothing wrong with having high standards! We hope your prince or princess charming comes along soon, Jana!