I remember the previous discussion on here from a year or two back. I think it involved duct tape to make something to duct (haha) the pee to the appropriate position to represent the female anatomy.
A couple of times I’ve wanted to simulate a female peeing out of curiosity and i just wore some tight speedos and pushed my equipment down and back between my legs as far as possible, with skinny jeans over it to help hold it all in the right place.

I love peeing in cold weather. Not usually below freezing, as that gets uncomfortable.
First the best thing about the winter months is the early evenings, hence being able to wet relatively discreetly under cover of darkness.
The cold weather really accentuates the feeling of the warm flood in your clothes. Then the visual of the gently steaming puddle spreading on the ground and the steam rising from your soaked legs is nice.
Then you get that delicious sensation of the warmth gradually cooling and then the cold wet fabric clinging to your legs.
It’s best done in tight but thick denim jeans for the optimum sensation.

Artificial fabrics are usually like this as they repel water. New clothes are usually like this too, I think because of chemicals used in the manufacture.
When I've bought new jeans for wetting I’ve had to wear and wash a few times before they will wet properly.

Not orgasm denial as such, but as in @PrincessPeeach comment above i love being made to cum in my pants.
I guess it’s kind of related to omo in that i end up having an embarrassing involuntary release into my clothes.

Thank you for this considered and nice reply. I don’t think I should really let things go further though as I’m a married man and this relationship is sitting right on the boundary of what is acceptable for a married man. A lot of people at work thought we were having an affair, although we weren’t. I see less of her now as we work in different locations, though we remain in touch and I am quite fond of her. I actually gave the guy she asked me about my approval - not just because I thought he was a decent guy but I also thought he was right for her, and she had a long track record of choosing the wrong sort of men for her. They are still together after several years so I’m really happy about that.

I don’t know. She said a few times that I was her “work dad” although I was only 9-10 years older. In the same vein she once asked my opinion of a guy she was starting a relationship with, like she wanted my approval like I was her father or brother. But against that we did once kiss on a night out (naughty of me I know) and on another work night out told me she wasn’t wearing underwear under her dress (also a turn on). Another time she brought up pee fetish in conversation, in the context of another couple’s relationship.

At work I used to go out for a cigarette with a female colleague regularly. A couple of times she told me while we were smoking “I’m desperate for a piss”.
I don’t think she realised just how much it turned me on. I hope.

The privacy thing seems to be a recent phenomenon too.
At the swimming pool I go to the mens’ changing rooms a communal, there are no changing cubicles. I notice that it’s us older guys 40+ that aren’t bothered by nudity and will quite happily shower and stand around chatting undressed while the younger guys go to great effort to change using their towels to cover themselves as best they can.

I’m straight, but like male desperation and wetting and am aroused by it.
I note the comments about us all lying on a spectrum, and I guess that’s part of it. I’d put myself at about 80-90% straight.
However i think it’s more that desperation and wetting is in itself a turn on. I prefer female to male (although I like both) and I think that’s because with female wetting I can enjoy both the wetting and as a bonus also the delightful appearance of the female form.

Well done - you’re managing more than double what I can hold.
You may not have lost as much as you think. A small amount of pee can make a lot of wetness in clothes - try measuring day 50ml water and pouring it in your clothes - you’d be surprised just how much wetness it makes.

I’ve just checked my printers, since I was thinking of having some made for my business as giveaways anyway (though with my product pictures, not omo!) A4 size, 120gsm, 13 pages and backboard, wire spiral bound works out at £4.25 each for 100, A3 size about £7.50. It’s not much more even for much smaller runs of 10 or 25. This is with one’s own artwork. The challenge would be getting high quality pictures - @TVGuy might be the best guy for this having both decent photographic gear and access to models and probably already has a library of quality pictures of wet and desperate ladies already, although I don’t know how much he’d want paying for them.
I do have decent cameras - large-format 4x5 film - but without hiring 12 models at significant expense I can’t do much myself.
It would be really nice, and my favourite option, to do a selection of site member’s own pictures with a few lines of background info on them, one person per month, but the pictures would need to be a cut above the average selfie to look good printed big on a calendar. If there’s enough interest, and enough members willing to supply good enough pictures, I’d be happy to get a small run printed at my expense to be them sold on at cost price to members.

It even happens in office jobs due to long meetings - I’ve heard people ask if we can have a five minute break, then be told that we will be finishing soon anyway (which is rarely true) so to wait.
I heard one man say that if he didn’t go right now that he’d wet himself, and just hurried off without waiting for permission.
Also on business trips by car - those of us with small bladders can have a big struggle as often the driver would prefer to just press on with the journey.