macshot20 photography wrote: , she says she trusts me and wants to get it over with so should i be the one to do it or should i not?.

Do her a favor and say no.

macshot20 photography wrote: obviously im not one of those kinda guys if im asking strangers if i should do it sooooo what should i do? lmfao

Of course you're "one of those kinda guys". In fact... you're WORSE by far. Why? Because you've already stated that you don't see her like that, but you're still considering it. That makes you MORE of a dog than the guy who is honest about wanting in her pants.

Why she trusts you is beyond me. You're taking something that's personal and very private and broadcasting it all over Model Mayhem. Sure, we don't know her name, but she trusted you with the information/request.

Of course you're "one of those kinda guys". In fact... you're WORSE by far. Why? Because you've already stated that you don't see her like that, but you're still considering it. That makes you MORE of a dog than the guy who is honest about wanting in her pants.

Why she trusts you is beyond me. You're taking something that's personal and very private and broadcasting it all over llama Mayhem. Sure, we don't know her name, but she trusted you with the information/request.

macshot20 photography wrote: , she says she trusts me and wants to get it over with so should i be the one to do it or should i not?.

Do her a favor and say no.

Of course you're "one of those kinda guys". In fact... you're WORSE by far. Why? Because you've already stated that you don't see her like that, but you're still considering it. That makes you MORE of a dog than the guy who is honest about wanting in her pants.

Why she trusts you is beyond me. You're taking something that's personal and very private and broadcasting it all over Model Mayhem. Sure, we don't know her name, but she trusted you with the information/request.

Iv'e done it twice. Worked out for me and the woman just fine. Not a very big deal as long as both go in knowing what to expect during and after. People are far too uptight about such things. The friendship survived just fine after both incidents.

LitaKita wrote: ... 'just to get it over with' isn't a very good reason to do something like this either..

Bull. You are not the woman. It's as good a reason as any. She just doesn't want to be awkward her first time with someone else and wants some experience beforehand with someone she trusts. Don't speak for her. Don't speak for him.

I suggest you print off this list of comments. Since you've made a very private request into a public discussion, I have a feeling she'll see you in a somewhat different way, so you won't have this being such an oppressive issue in your life.

It was a big fucking deal to me, because it took me three years to find someone who would fuck me the first time, even though I had wanted to lose my virginity since high school. It was emotionally painful, and frustrating.

I wasn't considered "hot" as a teenager, was bullied a lot, never had a boyfriend, or even a date. I finally ended up trading some semi-decent-looking kid who lived in my dorm building a case of beer to have sex with me, because I was a college sophomore by that point, and felt like I *deserved* to know what sex was like. Prior to that time, every time I took a shine to someone, they were always like, "I just don't see you that way."

That was also the first time I'd ever actually seen a penis, and I'm not joking. So, yeah, it was a big fucking deal.

It was a big fucking deal to me, because it took me three years to find someone who would fuck me the first time, even though I had wanted to lose my virginity since high school. It was emotionally painful, and frustrating.

I wasn't considered "hot" as a teenager, was bullied a lot, never had a boyfriend, or even a date. I finally ended up trading some semi-decent-looking kid who lived in my dorm building a case of beer to have sex with me, because I was a college sophomore by that point, and felt like I *deserved* to know what sex was like. Prior to that time, every time I took a shine to someone, they were always like, "I just don't see you that way."

That was also the first time I'd ever actually seen a penis, and I'm not joking. So, yeah, it was a big fucking deal.

Oh yeah I see what you mean. Are you pulling my leg? Paid a guy a case of beer?.. where the hell was I when all this happened? Are guys today idiots passing up babes like you?

Oh yeah I see what you mean. Are you pulling my leg? Paid a guy a case of beer?.. where the hell was I when all this happened? Are guys today idiots passing up babes like you?

Not surprising. Some people bloom late. I totally ignored a girl in high school, she turned out years later smoking hot like Angela Bassett.

Then I did a photo session for a Indian woman who complained that she was 30 years old and had never been kissed. She was at that time an abused Indian wife. She put those photos on a Indian dating site, remarried later and told me she was happy.

It was a big fucking deal to me, because it took me three years to find someone who would fuck me the first time, even though I had wanted to lose my virginity since high school. It was emotionally painful, and frustrating.

I wasn't considered "hot" as a teenager, was bullied a lot, never had a boyfriend, or even a date. I finally ended up trading some semi-decent-looking kid who lived in my dorm building a case of beer to have sex with me, because I was a college sophomore by that point, and felt like I *deserved* to know what sex was like. Prior to that time, every time I took a shine to someone, they were always like, "I just don't see you that way."

That was also the first time I'd ever actually seen a penis, and I'm not joking. So, yeah, it was a big fucking deal.

It was a big fucking deal to me, because it took me three years to find someone who would fuck me the first time, even though I had wanted to lose my virginity since high school. It was emotionally painful, and frustrating.

I wasn't considered "hot" as a teenager, was bullied a lot, never had a boyfriend, or even a date. I finally ended up trading some semi-decent-looking kid who lived in my dorm building a case of beer to have sex with me, because I was a college sophomore by that point, and felt like I *deserved* to know what sex was like. Prior to that time, every time I took a shine to someone, they were always like, "I just don't see you that way."

That was also the first time I'd ever actually seen a penis, and I'm not joking. So, yeah, it was a big fucking deal.