OK now I know that this first pic is a MALE not female as was sold to me, I am wondering about the girl? in the second pic, they look the same to me. Third pic I am sure is a girl, as I see a difference in the fins. But back to that second pic...if that is a male he has been happily swimming around with the sorority girls for months Top fin on top girl was like that when I got her..

I will try, not sure how to get those pic though!
**also meant to say that the 3rd pic, who I am sure is female is the one with the torn top fin**I guess I wanted you all to know if that second pic IS a male, he is not beating her up!