Smooth roads never make good drivers
Smooth seas never make good sailors
Clear Skies never makes good Pilots.
Problem and hassle free Life never makes a strong person
Be Strong enough to accept the challenges of Life
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Sunday, 4 December 2011

Divorce after Effects

Your mindset and beliefs will
play a big role in how you adapt and succeed in your life after divorce. When
you are in the middle of the divorce process, it can be hard to imagine a life
after divorce. Especially a fuller and rewarding life… you will get past all
the lawful, fiscal and emotional aspects of divorce unbelievably and things
will eventually get better. Looking forward with hope during the divorce process
will help you cope with the stress of divorce.

Don't Panic! It might be natural but
it’s not productive. If you let it to control your life then it can lead
to make life so thorny after divorce.

Troubles and Tips:

The factors that mostly emerge
after divorce are:

Grief of losing a person which was once closest of
all will be really painful… However grief is a procedure not an
endpoint.

Another chief crash of divorce is losing friends.
Friends may perhaps decide sides or even left you both altogether. Finding
new friends can lead you to new experiences and a renewed sense of purpose
and enjoyment.

Married life often leads us to feel very stable &
secure and we set long term goals in place. Divorce pulls that all apart. But
it’s a part of life all goals are not meant to be met.

Divorce disrupts the whole family unit if you have
children, you may have less time with the kids or if you have custody, you
may have to adjust to the level of support you now have. Again managing a
family after divorce is a matter of being flexible and adaptable and it
can be done successfully. By making your transition and showing how life
can go on, you will show your kids a new path and help them adapt.

Divorce is costly and divorced families are often
more expensive to maintain. However keep in mind that money and happiness
are not tied together.

Divorce is a process with an end
and you can make it through and have an even better life after divorce. Divorce
can present opportunities for new careers, going back to school or
pushing your current career further. Divorce teaches us that life is disruptive
and rarely remains the same. Many divorced parents have succeeded in
raising good and productive kids under difficult circumstances and you can do
that too.

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