Bc the patriarchy always wins. Father, uncle, brother, priest, doctor (even if female, usually play by the boys club (male dominated rules of their profession), boyfriend can almost walk away free, avoiding justice and the victim is made to turn to another part of the patriarchy for help. Abused by a priest? Go see a psychiatrist and get labeled by the hetero-sexist, white patriarchy enforcing DSM, after which big pHARMa is more than happy to re enforce notions that every thing in your life is broken, will always be broken and most importantly needs their drug.