If you could see who comes to me crying, sad, depressed, and asking for a private consultation…

If you could see who emails me pouring their heart out at 3am in the morning while breaking down…

If you could see the grown men who can’t walk up 5 stairs without being out of breath and sweating profusely to secretly vent, shed tears, and ask me for guidance…

If you could see the women heavily medicated on anti-depressants, cholesterol meds, and high blood pressure meds sad about how they’ve let themselves go…

If you could see the parents who secretly bring their young son or daughter with Diabetes and weight problems to ask for help from me…

If you could see the pain and distress in a man’s eyes who is on multiple medications battling weight related issues which are all contradicting each other causing an internal disaster within his body, mind, and heart…

If you could see the sad parents too out of shape and ashamed to get outside and play with their kids…

If you could see the tears…

If you could see the saddening pleas for help in texts, emails, and messages…

If you could hear the stories no one wants you to hear…

If you could feel their shame they truly feel…

Then you’d understand…

…then you’d understand the effects of just that one extra doughnut…

…then you’d understand the effects of that extra dessert…

…then you’d understand the effects of that extra soda…

…then you’d understand the effects of that extra bit of inactivity…

…then you’d understand the effects of video games…

…then you’d understand the effects of being too busy to take care of yourself…

…then you’d understand the effects of that extra piece of fried food…

…then you’d understand the effects of laziness…

If you’ve seen the sadness, suffering, and heart break of Obesity that I have and do everyday…then you’d understand why I take my Work and Career so serious. I feel blessed to be in the position I am. Stop enabling yourself or others around you. Stop making excuses that cause more sadness. Stop buying larger clothes to mask your pain. My work is serious and most importantly…my work is Prevention. For nearly 20 years I’ve been led to help people overcome sadness and re-build confidence…