I have finally reached a point in my life where I am no longer a shamed of what I want sexually, feel quilty about my thoughts or desires and want to have great, passionate, erotic, and some times nasty sex with my mate. She has no desire for sex and I'm becoming so frustrated that I now look at every woman I meet as a potential sex partner. I have not strayed yet, but I can honestly say I'm ready to find a NSA sex partner.