Send me email updates about messages I've received
on the site and the latest news from The CafeMom Team.By signing up, you certify that
you are female and accept the Terms of Service and have read the
Privacy Policy.

Im a little down please help I just dont understand

Okay heres the deal I have a 3 year old (in may) me and my husband are and have been tryin to have another... Well a year later after meme was born i got pregnant I was 6 weeks and lost the baby had a miscarrige.that was 2 years ago. we have been tryin since then well I was 25 days late kept taking test and neg neg neg then i started.. I just want to know whats wrong with me why cant i get pregnant meme she was easy. to get pregnant with ...Any tips on gettin pregnant ??? please help me im starting to get depressed!

Many things can be going on, for instance, endometriosis can be triggered by prengancy and make it more difficult later on. I'd see a doctor for a work up, maybe it's a matter of getting yuor hormones stablized.

You've had one, which is more than I or many can say, dont' give up hope.

Are you familiar with natural family planning? I used charting my basal (first thing in the morning) body temp and cervical mucous to know when I ovulated and it was four days off of the standard 'day 14' of your cycle that people often assume is when ovulation occurs. While a medical work-up might be a good idea, once you read a book or two (or a few websites) you would be able to chart your body's cycle for free and know your own pattern--I even downloaded the charts I use for free. Maybe you ovulate early or late. Good luck!

I stopped my bc after many years & figured it would take a couple months. 6, 7, 8, 9, 10 months went by & it really sucked. You think: what's wrong with me, with him, with us?

I thought I would go to the doctor & ask for a referral to a fertility specialist cause my husband & I are young, healthy adults & there must be something wrong.

I went to the doctor in June. He told me they don't refer women to fs until they've been trying for at least a year. He told me to come back in August & he would give me a referral. The fs would contact me a week or 2 after that to schedule an appt..

Well sweetie, my husband is in the military & was deploying to Iraq in September. When the doctor told me all of this I cried and cried. I told my husband and we decided to stop "trying" and start "trying" when he came back.

I was pregnant a couple weeks later!

Easier said than done but don't think about it...just relax sweetie...