Anal for beginners

I would say when your really turn on let him your selfPlay with your bum it’s a gradual think hunny and you need to feel relaxed so you can enjoy it shouldn’t be that painful so if hurting maybe need to still be gradually broken in hunny I would try with very small toys and just playing when your really turn on I say this as your be relax and also is your bum . I really enjoy anal now but was a gradual think over time for me like most people X