Your home is your own personal haven for sleeping in on Saturdays (ahem, when possible) and drinking a glass of red wine while doing the laundry, if you so choose. In other words, it’s a place for you to focus on your own self care.

But as the holidays approach, your space can also become a place to gather—which means it’s time to get your hostess situation together. To learn how to dial up the welcoming, luxe vibes, Samantha Wennerstrom—style blogger and founder of Could I Have That, a blog all about elevating your everyday life—invited us into her modern Santa Barbara home.

First on the list? Transforming her office into a cozy guest bedroom, where she spritzes Caldrea Basil Blue Sage Linen and Room Spray, the sensory equivalent of wrapping yourself in a cashmere blanket. “It’s refined, but generous, and it just gives the room a really nice touch,” she says.

Because what says “elevated adult hostess” better than greeting your friends by a scent that smells great and is based in natural essential oils?

Watch the video above for a complete look inside her chic abode, and shop her essentials for sprucing up her place below.