Newbie with several matches under his belt for promission/submission with or without gutpunching. No formal training here, but guys I've met have told me that I have decent instincts, though I still have trouble transitioning between holds. Erotic is great if attraction is mutual, but I'm most turned on by competitive matches with equally sized guys, or by squashes where I'm trying to take down a bigger, more experienced guy. Enjoy a range of gear, and rip/strip matches where a piece is taken off with each submission. Stakes withing safe/sane limits are negotiable.