Carefully Choose Friends

I love photographing flowers. This is a favorite from my collection.

Carefully choose friends is a powerful life lesson I gained the hard way. I’m very, very, very careful about who I allow in my personal space. Enemies disguised as friends can do serious damage up close. I know for sure fake friends are dangerous.

It is mandatory to trust our instincts, deep gut feelings about people, places, and situations. I remember a season in life when I did not trust mine… or didn’t know I should.

In my younger years, I had a circle of friends who were extreme mockers. They belittled everything concerning me. Deep in my heart, I knew they were wicked and jealous. One day, I decided enough was enough. When I confronted them, they got angry. I severed ties. BEST thing I ever did.

After much prayer, my poor self-esteem healed. I grew strong. My circle is small on purpose. I surround myself with people who love God, are quick to pray and always talk positive!

Negativity NOT allowed in my mind nor in my circle. The first time anyone makes a mean spirited remark as if they’re joking, watch out. They meant every word. That is one way to spot a hater. Never ignore it!