During their appearance on Friday (Friday 16), the 29-year-old NBA player and the 28-year-old pregnant chef revealed that they’re trying to stay surprised when it comes to figuring out if they’re going to have a boy or a girl – but Ellen really wants to know!

Stephen and Ayesha are already parents to daughters Riley, 5, and Ryan, 2.

Also during their appearance, Ayesha gives Stephen a “helping hand” while he hilariously tries to make some pretzels.