LINK: http://ift.tt/1qw1PU1“I’ve sent you keys,” Tony said. “I’ve emailed, I’ve texted, I’ve called. Pepper called. There is an entire floor of Stark Tower waiting for you to move in. And instead here you are living in a two-bedroom shack out in the open with your — extremely hot, by the way, nice job there — boyfriend. The paparazzi are going to eat you alive, Rogers.”!fic, site:archiveofourown, fandom:captainamerica, fandom:theavengers, fandom:marvelcinematicuniverse, rating:explicit, pairing:steve.rogers/sam.wilson, ~author:astolat, awesome, entertaining, note:series, series/universe:marvel:maybehomeissomewherei’mgoing, trope:outside!pov, character:tony.stark

*unfortunately several of these gifs do refer to fangirls rather than fans, which is sad because it excludes male/genderqueer/nonbinary/agender fans who might otherwise want to use it!

**yes, (creative) fandom is undeniably a female space, and I think recognizing and celebrating that is super-awesome and important, but that doesn’t mean that the fan=fangirl assumption isn’t an issue and uncool.

LINK: http://ift.tt/1sbM54ZVampire!Blaine/human!Kurt. Early!Klaine. Rachel convinces Kurt to join the Vampire Hunting Club their senior year because it’s the only one they haven’t joined. Blaine transfers to McKinley and decides to join the club in order to try and hide in plain sight.!fic, site:archiveofourown, fandom:glee, rating:explicit, pairing:blaine.anderson/kurt.hummel, ~author:missbeizy, genre:au, trope:vampire!fic, kink:blood!play, warning:other/unspecified

LINK: http://ift.tt/XsqVap“My boyfriend is a cuddle whore.” Kurt’s back from New York and has to deal with a clingy Blaine. <blockquote>“Uh…is everything all right in here?” Burt asked, his hand fiddling with the keys he held. Kurt shrugged helplessly at his father before looking down at Blaine. “I don’t know. Is everything all right, Blaine?” If possible, Blaine’s grip tightened even more around him. “Everything’s swell,” he sighed as if without a care in the world. Kurt eyed him for a moment before mouthing the words to his dad in outright bewilderment.</blockquote>!fic, site:archiveofourown, fandom:glee, rating:generalaudiences, pairing:blaine.anderson/kurt.hummel, ~author:mikarin, adorable, sweet, heartbreaking, .shouldalreadybetagged

“WARNING. This site contains adult content. By continuing you are confirming you are comfortable with the content of this site.” *confirms* *it is actually a web page of taxes and bills. I see things about the stock market that I don’t understand. This is a truly adult site and I was not prepared*

bonus! at the end I have included my favorite gifs for when I can’t words, most of which I cannot actually put into words the full meaning of what I feel they convey, which is why I wish we could use gifs in real life it would make things so much easier >.<

warning: some of the gifs are a little flashy; I didn’t think they needed an epilepsy warning but if you’re really sensitive, proceed with caution, okay?

uh. this started out as a post of gifs directly applicable to conversations about fic and then I started being unable to discriminate and it got really messy??? but they’re basically all gifs you can use as part of a direct dialogue with someone. that’s the theme here. it. may not quite apply to all of them tho.

Yes, in the photo I posted pet is holding a yellow stress ball. Considering he was gagged and had earphones in, it was acting as his safe word. He was instructed to drop the ball signalling something was wrong.

Safe Play: these folks are doing it right.

I can’t emphasize enough how important it is to have an easy to use/understand/recognize, non-verbal safeword system in place when playing in a way that your s-type is gagged, bound, and/or otherwise unable to speak/verbally convey a safeword or any desire to pause, check in and/or stop. <3

This made me smile. We always play safe, but please yes, always play safe.

I’ve been wanting to try this myself, but haven’t due to not being able to find a way of communicating distress to the other person.So simple, an useful

A bell is another option, but pet moves far too much. Or the sub/bottom can use a snap. Or can hit something 3 times. There are several safe signals to use instead of words - choose one that works best for the situation and the sub.

In the past I’ve used hand waves, foot stomps, furniture thumps, and even chain rattles! (take a chain or hell, keys, and hold onto them. bells will make noise if you really move at all, but a chain or keys you can get more control over the sound.)

I’d also just like to encourage people to always incorporate a safe signal of some kind into their play as a backup for the safeword (particularly with a new partner!), because things happen and sometimes safewords don’t get heard or the sub goes non-verbal or is too out of breath/too sobbity to understand - there’s all kinds of unforseen things that can happen, and personally I’m a member of the belt AND suspenders school of safety.

Hey! Do you know any positive, lovely, sp0iler free glee blogs to follow?

Hmm, sure! Obviously I can make no guarantees for what anyone else chooses to post, or where individuals draw their own lines on sp0ilers, BTS pics, and the like.

Personally? If I see something that even remotely references an episode that has not yet aired, I will not reblog it, even if it’s just a random context-free BTS photo. If I’m not sure where it’s from, I will err on the side of caution and not post it. That’s me, anyways.

Anyways, here are some of the people I follow whom I believe to be sp0iler-free:

flamingmuse

alianne

lishashisha

magnificentlyobsessed

hidden-hermione

heresluck

functionaloptimist

undefinedkosmos

whisperyvoices

Anyone I missed, feel free to reblog or comment and add yourself to the list if you are SP0ILER-FREE for Glee and generally free of wank and/or hate.

FWIW, my line about what I want to see and what I reblog is the same as Liz’s. I always err on the side of not reblogging, including any bts pictures from unaired episodes. I don’t want to see them, and I will not reblog them if something slips through my blacklists.

And I’m always positive about Glee. :) The show is not perfect, but I love it and the characters it has given us beyond all reason, and I’m always going to approach it from a place of love. <3

I am sp0iler-free, like 98%,* and am pretty positive about glee whenever I post (sometimes there is some rage or tears in my liveblogs), so. you know. feel free to check me out!

but. uh. be aware that this is not a glee-only blog and that here be feminism, nail art, adorable animals, miscellaneous fandoms, and a whole fuckton of kink. srsly nsfw.

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*for the 2% of sp0ilers that might come through, they’re usually vagueblogging bemoaning something that slipped through my bls and are tagged.

Robin Hood was questioning his decision to steal from the rich and give to the poor. Sure, it helped on the local level, but what was he really doing to promote equality on a national level. Or on a global level?

After thinking for a while, he determined that even though the work he did was very small, there was a ripple effect, so it was still a valuable endeavor. Plus the ladies loved it.

I had a lovely lunch with my mom today to celebrate her birthday (a week late) and it was for the most part wonderful and good but I still came away from it feeling a little awful about my self because she and my dad worry about me reading untrue shit on the internet and just taking it at face value and not being critical of it and you know, they’re probably right? they ~sound~ right. but so do the people who say that people just aren’t paying attention and that this is what has happened and what is happening.

I am so fucking persuadable and I hate it. I will tie myself up in knots trying to rationalize myself into agreeing with your opinion if I like you and care about you, because I feel like you’ll think I’m stupid or awful if I continue to disagree and there are very few things I am sure enough about to withstand that kind of internal pressure, but fuck if I will ever back down on those things because no okay human rights are not a matter of opinion they are objectively true needs that are not being met

and when it comes to other, less important things, well. there are very few people I can keep my opinion with and even then sometimes it can be hard to not just give in because I don’t want them mad at me or disappointed so I’m still trying to rationalize their opinion but am just managing to keep hold of my convictions anyway.

and like. I am pretty sure that being terrified of someone thinking worse of me because of my opinions on such varied things as gun control or the plot of iron man three is not actually normal or reasonable but I can’t help it okay I hate being wrong I hate being stupid I hate being a disappointment.

and the worst part is that even when I ~am~ firm in my beliefs/opinions, if you challenge me on them, put me on the spot, I can’t properly articulate them and it all comes out wrong and I can’t remember sources so I look like some gulliable idiot crackpot and it’s even worse when it’s a hot button issue and I get upset because then it gets even harder to say aything properly and so I just keep putting things badly or mixing up my words or even just breaking down into tears and god, that right there pretty much destroys any chance at credibility you might have had, okay?