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Saturday, December 31, 2016

There have been a few things around the house that are in need of my wife's focused attention. Over the years I've discovered that when I merely hint that something needs to get done, and she knows it's something she's been putting off, she starts getting it done.

She has a strong desire to get things done but allows other things to get in the way to distract her. Soon there's this little thing that didn't get done and then that thing that gets put off because this other thing happened.

Over the years I've watched her add things to her schedule, or routine, that gives her an excuse for not getting something else done. She has a way of putting things off and it takes putting her across my lap, baring her bottom and making her wish that she hadn't put things off in the first place.

She hates getting spanked but she also agrees that she needs the spanking. Spankings are the great motivators for wives and that's not just my opinion it's hers too.

After giving her bottom a nice red glow Ron stops for awhile and
allows Jamie to settle down a bit while she is bent over the dinning
room table. Then he goes back to her, grabs her tightly and finishes
her spanking with a very hard ending.

Monday, October 31, 2016

There is a Romance to spanking that few people understand unless you are into spanking. I think the idea that people have is that spanking is violent and that the person spanking is angry and taking out their anger on the one they are spanking. Logically they would assume that the spankee is abused because of the "harm" being done to them. I don't doubt there are those who spank out of anger and that there are spankees who submit to it out of fear. But that kind of spanking is NOT what I'm referring to.

The Romance of it all is the willing submission the spankee gives or acknowledges to me. I never spank on a whim and my wife always knows, either in the back of her mind or because it's obvious, that she deserves the spanking. There is a TRUST between a Spanker and spankee that can't be duplicated in a "Vanilla" relationship. It's an intimacy shared that few couples share.

My wife trusts that I'll spank her just enough and not go too far. I trust her that when I say she needs a spanking she will submit to it. There's a bond there that's deeper than anyone can understand unless they are in that kind of relationship.

The other day I was outside in the backyard when my wife came out, walked up to me and gave me a huge hug. It was the kind of hug that said, "I'm glad you're in my life." It was a huge that I will never forget because it was a direct line. She made a direct line from the sliding glass door to me. It was as though, for that moment, I was the only thing on her mind and she had to get to me and let me know.

Like every couple we have our ups and downs but unlike every couple,..we have more!

Sunday, September 4, 2016

My wife has had some health issues so I've let a lot of things pass that she would have otherwise been spanked for.

But the time has come for things to get back to normal.

Normal for us is her accepting that she needs to be spanked from time to time and that it's been awhile. Normal is her accepting the fact that there have been many things she's gotten away with and that things need to get back to the way they should be.

I think I've been more than patient and I think she would agree.

I'm going to start giving her that look again. The look that tells her it's time for a trip to the bedroom with her across my lap!