Wednesday, January 6, 2010

If you have been finding yourself saying no to your man, making excuses are putting sex off for a later date or time, may be you need to evaluate your reasons why.

NO TIME - Is there really no time for sex? May be you have just gotten out of the habit of having sex on a regular basis. If so, make the time. Just do it now. Certainly you can put off that load of laundry or doing the dishes.

NO PRIVACY - This may be a little trickier, but couples all over the world find a place and a time to have sex no matter how many children or house guests they have. Certainly your children must sleep at some time. Make a point to be awake the next time they are all sleeping.

YOU JUST DON'T FEEL LIKE IT - This is a state of mind that you can get over. If you "just do it" you will get yourself back in the swing of things. You need to take control of your mind and tell yourself that you want to do it.

About Me

My paternal grandparents were both born in Cardiff, Wales, my father was born and raised on the island of Aruba and immigrated to America when he was 15. My maternal grandmother was born in America to Italian and English immigrants. My maternal grandfather's family has been in California since before the goldrush. So I am both a first generation American and native born American. My husband is part Iroquois Indian.