---I'm very sorry, but I'm not online here a lot these days. Being
a lunatic nerd as I am, I don't generally have much time for that
kind of things. I might visit about once in two or three months but
even then I usually don't have time to reply. It doesn't mean that
I have decided to ignore you or smth and for even my own surprise I
usually remember who the writer is. There are many people here that
I'm actually very interested in talking to. So, I'm not saying you
can't write me, you can. But my reply might come very late. I
usually reply a little quicker in summer, still not quickly,
though.---

It might be weird to bring that kind of stuff up in the first (or
second) paragraph, but since this is a dating site, I will make
some things clear. I've romantically liked multiple people at the
same time most of my life, which combined with some research has
resulted in me identifying as polyamorous. I'm willingly in a mono
relationship, though. My new life guideline is that I should just
do what makes me happy, not giving shit about how unconventional it
is or what other people think. Also, I used to worry irrationally
much about possible future problems, but now I'm focusing on just
enjoying the moment. And I've found this loving and very
open-minded guy who makes me feel almost free even when in a mono
relationship. At the moment I'm enjoying being with him and so
that's what I'll do, even if it means acting relatively mono.
Whatever I might want later, comes later and I won't worry about
that now.

So, my point is, I'm not available and therefore
not interested in any relationships/sex/dates or the like
regardless of the fact that I'm poly. Besides that kind of stuff,
I'm free to do about whatever I want. That includes talking to
people about _whatever_ I feel like, dragging foreigners around
town and so on. (Not that I was any good at the latter) My bf knows
full well how open I am with people about all kinds of things and
is okay with it. Yay, I'm really-really happy about it.

I still have a huge interest in poly and plan to be very active
about the topic. Meeting the poly community and reading "The
Ethical Slut" has been one of the best things that ever happened to
me in terms of self-development and living the life I enjoy. I'm
highly interested in connecting poly and poly-curious people in
Estonia, so please do let me know if you live in Estonia and have
any interest in the topic.

Music and love are the most important things in my life. I learned
the piano for about
10 years, the flute for some years, have sung in choirs from the
4th grade and graduated music school with the piano and on a lower
level with the flute. I left music school in high school due to
having no time. I also used to compose my own small piano pieces
and I listen to music all the time. Not only for entertainment, but
also because it makes me see the world very differently and is the
only thing that surely helps me when I'm nervous, upset or anything
like that. So you can say I'm addicted to music, it sometimes really works like a
drug for me. Recently I mostly listen to choir music and metal,
often mixed up. So no point in talking to me about music if you
think people only listen to metal when they're angry and want to
eat someone. In my case it's more like the opposite - I tend to be
almost bouncing-up-and-down-cheerful after listening to it.

I'm friendly, liberal and extremely tolerant and open-minded. I
don't only tolerate gay people, for some reason I like them. I
don't know why. For myself, one of the tests here told me that I'm
"Bi with a straight
preference". Which seems to hold true. Statistically most of the
people I like are male, but there have been a few women also, which
is why my profile says I'm bisexual. I just want to keep my options
open.

I would hope that they notice my smile, eyes or intelligence, but
mostly it's still my boobs. And maybe that I am shy at first and
seem weird for some people, because I don't daily put effort into
looking feminine. There are days when I go to school in dress,
shoes and make-up, but normally I wear sneakers, glasses, no
make-up at all and I kinda like it that way. I have naturally dark
eyelashes and so on, so I don't see a problem. I also like that my
current glasses are electric blue. As well as some of my recent
jeans. I also have yellow ones, for example. Not into punk looks,
though. If I happen to dye my hair blue some day (a dream, kind
of), it will certainly still be long.

Books: The Little Prince by Saint-Exupery.
The Picture of Dorian Gray by Oscar Wilde. Also the HP series, and
"Role play" by Hans Olsson. For some reason. Dunno. I also like
things by Jules Verne, Peter Hoeg, Sofi Oksanen, John Fowles, Jaan
Kross, William Golding. And I did like Twilight, even though the
plot was quite easy to foresee.

Food: Potato salad, cocoa, pear juice, junk food, ice-cream,
fruits. I'm addicted to all kinds of sour things, I can eat lemons
without any additions, for example. And I can eat lots of cabbage,
almost in any form you can imagine.

Well, maybe not studying all the time anymore. Resting from the
week, playing the piano (if I happen to have access to any), in
choir camp? There's also some chance to find me in messenger that
time. Maybe, on some very rare occasion out having fun, meeting
friends. Or meeting strange foreign and Estonian people.

There's quite a big chance that I'll tell anything you ask. But I
won't guarantee it. Especially if you're a 40-year-old perv looking
for young girls.

Oh, and I just realized that I'm afraid of small holes. Ok, maybe I
shouldn't call it being afraid. I just terribly dislike them. I
can't even think before looking away or doing something like that
when I see them. And I don't loathe all of them, but some kinds of.
Mostly just small holes in paper or weird stones. But they can be
seen in lots of places. Weird, huh?

-You are able to write bearably. I'm not constantly looking for
grammar mistakes and I'm sure I make some too, but I terribly hate
people who can't write at all. Especially if they're too
self-confident.

-And I'm definitely interested in people who have managed to read
all of my profile. I know how long my profile is, so reading the
whole damn thing must mean you're really interested.

Don't message me if:

-You strongly believe that your religion or way of life is the one
that everyone should live by.

-You're a 40-year-old perverse bastard trying to seduce young
girls. Don't get me wrong, I can't say I'm not a perv myself and
love doesn't ask how old you are, but I hate older people who go
exclusively for young girls.

-You think you're the man of my dreams and I am going to fall for
you right away. I hate overly self-confident people. I really do.
Even if you were otherwise perfect, I wouldn't get over it.