Wow! Seems like you are in a coimapclted situation. I do not think that you should kiss her and see her reaction. I agree with the person above me that she has already explained her feelings to you. Probably remaining friends is the best option because at least that way, you guys would still be able to hang out with each other. Also, its college so you still have plenty of time to meet other people. Try joining a gay club on campus if you have one. You can meet people there.