Older men dating women 20 years younger what makes online dating so popular

Here then are the four mistakes men most often make when trying to attract younger women.

Mistake 1: Trying To Act Younger This is the granddaddy of them all.

It fails for a very simple reason: The VYW most likely to have sex with you are the Type 2s, which are women who younger men their own age.

Mistake Number 3: Not Paying Attention To Personal Appearance I’ve already addressed this point before, including in one of the links above, so I’m just going to summarize it here.

Some older guys think they can wing it with their personal appearance and look just like a normal, every day guy just like they did back when they were 25.

All the time I’m running into guys who tell me things like “I’m 36, but I look 30, so I tell women I’m 29.” Less often, though still regularly, I see guys in their 30s and even 40s who try to dress, act, and talk like men in their 20s.

In extreme cases these guys invade the clubs or college campuses to hit on younger women where they often look woefully out of place.

Being fat, or having hair grow out of the side of your neck, or dressing in styles that were outdated 20 years ago might be perfectly okay for provider-hunting women your age, but it won’t be okay for the younger ones.