Friday, 22 July 2016

The Dating Game

Over the years I have known many people date in SL, a few have met and even married. The odd few have even stuck together. What I do find strange is people being attracted to the avi. Now I know we have a personal connection to our own avatar. With our choices of how we dress, skin etc... we make it very personal and that does reflect a part of us. We do need to remember that it could be anyone sitting at the keyboard. It is the real person we connect with when chatting. Each of us sign into SL for a reason. Some to hangout, others to work. Some are single parents and need to just talk to a grown-up. I am a full time carer, on call 24/7 for two family members so SL is my escape. To that friend who has a 'boyfriend' being rude and dismissive to her until she makes her avatar hotter, you need to dump his ass. I don't care what he looks like in SL, he is a pig in RL to behave like this.top - T-Shirt Dress - by Kaithleen's @ Shiny Shabbyhttp://maps.secondlife.com/secondlife/Shiny%20Shabby/113/117/22cello - Rosed - by Six o'Clock @ Shiny Shabbyhttp://maps.secondlife.com/secondlife/Shiny%20Shabby/176/151/21skybox - Pinetree Aroma Room (gacha) - by Toiz @ Shiny Shabbyhttp://maps.secondlife.com/secondlife/Shiny%20Shabby/176/151/21arrow wall decor - Flee Market Treasures - by Hate This @ Shiny Shabbyhttp://maps.secondlife.com/secondlife/Shiny%20Shabby/112/181/21ottoman - - Flee Market Treasures - by Hate This @ Shiny Shabbyhttp://maps.secondlife.com/secondlife/Shiny%20Shabby/112/181/21armoir - Boho by DRD @ Shiny Shabbyhttp://maps.secondlife.com/secondlife/Shiny%20Shabby/154/71/21table - Boho by DRD @ Shiny Shabbyhttp://maps.secondlife.com/secondlife/Shiny%20Shabby/154/71/21chair - Boho by DRD @ Shiny Shabbyhttp://maps.secondlife.com/secondlife/Shiny%20Shabby/154/71/21mirror - Dharma @ Little Llamahttp://maps.secondlife.com/secondlife/Never%20Never%20Land/86/131/73lamps - Pineapple - by Little Llama @ Genrehttp://maps.secondlife.com/secondlife/Analog%20Dog%20Hair/32/200/3192pose - The Daria Series by An Lar Poses @ Shiny Shabbyhttp://maps.secondlife.com/secondlife/Shiny%20Shabby/167/161/22hair - Yuka - by Elua @ Hair Fairhttp://maps.secondlife.com/secondlife/Rhodium/156/136/23