Just Because Something Isn’t Working…

Just because something isn’t working, doesn’t mean it’s you. It’s simply part of the process.

Your worth as a person needn’t be called into question every time you’re in the creative (very human) process of getting there…

When you can separate your worth from exploits going wrong (or right!) and begin to process pain and failure in a way that trusts and says “If it didn’t work this time, well then that means I must be getting that much closer to it working” is when you’ll land on the only real process that works every time:

Believing in yourself (the self that can separate her value as a human being from anything that does or does not happen in her life).

In other words, the secret to your success will have been that you kept going.