Broke off 2 weeks ago, after I threaten her with nudes, now she won't talk to me?

Also found out that a guy confessed to her, but she refused him.I have asked if she stopped loving me through her friend, but she refuse to say she doesn't love me anymore.I have also asked if she can send back our engagement ring after being together since 2011.She said she will hold on to it but she will never wear it.

I need to know if i should wait for her, or should i give up.

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Does being her first boyfriend have an effect on her? That we been through 4 years and have a lot of happy times together?

Most Helpful Guy

Wow man, you really fucked up. That's like one of the worst fuck ups I have ever seen. If you were to get her back it would truly be a miracle. The question is though, do you honestly still love her unconditionally?

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Yes. i do truly love her, it was my rage that got me into this shit. id do anything to get her back.. i know i have done some fuck up shit. im just wondering if she might look back, and how do i feel not so horrible. i have not ate nor have i really slept past 2 weeks. i feel like im stuck in a hole...

What Girls Said 6

You threatened her with nudes, and like after a hella long relationship. That is really messed up, and all because you felt insecure. Like please, think about what you did, it is incredibly wrong and I would not come back after that if it were me.

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Does being her first boyfriend have an effect on her? That we been through 4 years and have a lot of happy times together?

see, you were her first ever relationship... and you chose to break her trust in the most horrible way. How can you expect her to forgive you? she needs time to heal and pick up all the pieces... if at all if she chooses to date you after this time period, maybe just "maybe" like a 1% chance that she can forgive you, i don't think a woman will ever forgive anyone who does something so immature to her, especially when she trusts him with her everything and he puts her in this kind of situation. of course, you did not really post her nudes, but you did threaten her. that is where you have been wrong. you can';t threaten someone to love you back. if they don't choose you, you just have to let them go. learn from this relationship and try not to do anything stupid with her, or yourself or with anyone. just move on!

What Guys Said 2

Well you kinda scared her off. I'm sure her friends are telling her "stay the hell away from him". If you still want to try though, keep some distance and time for now. Try again when her emotion aren't riled up. It seems she still likes you, but the trust is going to be really hard to get back.

thats what her friends are telling her... and they keep telling me to move on, and also that she doesn't want me back. i dont know... even after all that, i still have this feeling that she might return...