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Recap Of 3rd august Family Session

Narayan NarayanDidi explains the beauty of this August . There is Raksha bhandhan, Independence Day, Gokulashrami in this month.Didi stats her session with experience of Raghav. Raghav is travelling from Delhi to Mumbai in train. He has planned all the tasks he has to complete during the journey. So he decides that he will not converse with his fellow passengers. But his eyes falls upon a foreigner who is sitting Opp to him. Her aura is such that he wants to strike a conversation with her. A station comes by and he asks her if she wants him to get her anything from the station. Conversation begins and the lady starts appreciating India and Indians. Raghav is Gappy about the fact that she is appreciating his country but at the same time thoughts dwell I'm his mind about the corruption, in disciple, lack of sincerity in the country. Raghav is reminiscing about this when the foreigner pops a question as to why Indians do not appreciate their country and are not proud of it. Raghav is astounded. Before he thinks of an answer the foreigner again highlights the beautiful rich culture we have, the trust the devotion the care in the people of India. The rich heritage and the attachment to our heritage and culture. As Raghav hears the foreigner rattling the positive highlights of this country he wants to lift his head high but is ashamed of his negative thoughts about his country. He realizes his mistakes and takes a oath to highlight the positivity in our country. Mother Theresa says, to keep the country clean all each of us have to do is to keep our homes and it's surrounding clean. If each and every citizen of this country performs his duty and role in the right manner then our country will definetly be the best.Raghav says that now the thought in him mind is how he can make his country beautiful and what can he give to his country . If you focus on Good then good and only good will come your way.The second sharing Is of SudhaMoorthy and it too has a beautiful message.Sudha Moorthy's office runs a school for the poor children and in this connection they buy stationery from mr Sheikh who has a small stationary shop near their office. Every month Mr Sheikh used to come to collect the cheque due to him from their office. Once when Mr Sheikh had come to their office their was celebration going on and he too was offered sweets. He takes two prices of sweets and wraps them in a paper for his children at home. Mrs Moorthy Is inquisitive and asks him about his family. He replies that he has one girl child and his sister who is a widow is also staying with them also has a girl. So he had taken two sweets to give to the two children. Mrs Moorhy further enquiries how he manages his expense to which he replies that his wife and his sister together run a tailoring unit and they all manage to live peacefully.Mrs Moorhy is impressed with mr Sheikh. Some days later Sheikh telephones to Mrs moorthy to release his dues early and on enquiring the reason he discloses that his sister was suffering from cancer and he had make arrangement for the operation . When Mrs Moorthy offers to help Sheikh he refuses telling he would make arrangement of the obey by selling the ornaments of his wife and sister but there may be those more unfortunate than him who would require her charity. Mrs Moorthy is impressed and she gives Rs 50000/- to Sheikh for the treatment .A few days later as Mrs Moorthy is entering the office she finds Sheikh along with a cute little girl sitting in the reception. On enquiring Mr Sheikh tells Mrs Moorthy that his sister was no more and he hands a small envelope to Mrs Moorthy . On opening the envelope mrs Moorthy finds that it contains Rs 3000/-. Mr Sheikh explains that this was the amount left after the treatment of his sister Zubeda. Her last wish was the amount reach Mrs Moorth so that it could be utilised to help someone else. Didi says it is people like Zubeda who make this county a wonderful prosperous and a beautiful country. The summary of these story is 1) we should feel proud of our country and highlight only the positive features of this country .2)We learn from Zubeda that we should always believe in helping others even till our last breath. Compassion and love should be a part and parcel of our lives.Both these stories installed such positive vibrations in all those who heard the stories that all had a Feeling Good feel. Also in today's season didi explained that if someone owes you money and you have not received the payment even after the due day you should be positive towards the person. This will be beneficial in two ways 1) the money we have will be safe and multiply and 2)our package of tan , man and dhan will be best. The same thing applies when we owe money to someone. Our thoughts should be to return the money and nature will make that provision if we are positive.Narayan NarayanDidi Also added that in the festival ofRaksha Bandhan the sister ties the Rakhi in her brother's hand not because he should safe guard her but she is giving him a Raksha Sutra to protect him from all negativity.Narayan Narayan

Recap of 10th November 2013 session

Narayan Narayan

Wishing all those who are present a very Happy Deepawali and
a very Prosperous New Year Didi shares a story

1) A thirteen year old Ajay, loved his friends and they
meant a world for him. One afternoon all his friends had come over to his place
and they were all enjoying themselves in his huge bedroom laughing teasing each
other and Pillow fights. All of a Sudden some moment near the window made Ajay
go near the window and he was hurt and surprised to see his father overhearing
their conversation. He was furious with his father’s attitude
and concluded that his parents did not trust him and that is why they spied on
him. His friends left for their respective homes in evening but Ajay did not
budge out of his room. He did not go to meet his parents because he was
very furious. He did not go to meet
his parents because he was very furious with them. As usual texting and wishing
his friends good night he got ready for bed. The door of his bedroom opened
softly and he knew it was his father. He braced himself for one long lecture,
but instead his father came to his bed where he was quietly pretending to
sleep, took his head in lap and softly whispered. “Children can be the reason
for two types of tears. One is of joy and happiness and the other pain and
despair. The decision is in the child’s
hand.’

बच्चे अपने माता पिता के आखों में दो प्रकार के आँसू लाते है।

एक ख़ुशी,आंनद, और गर्व और

दूसरा दुःख और दर्द का |

Saying this Ajay’s father left the room.

Ajay was so stunned and moved by these words that he did not
even hear the beep of messages from his friends on his mobile nor did the
thought come to his mind to check his mobile. The only thought in his mind were
the soothing words of his father and the peace of his father’s lap. That night
Ajay slept well.

From then on all his actions were weighed on the fact that
what kind of tears would it bring in his parent’s eyes.

Swami Vivekananda says:

We have to build a good society and a strong nation, but if we ourselves become
good the society and the nation as a whole becomes good automatically.

Mother Theresa adds, to keep your country clean if every house and its
surroundings are kept clean the country automatically becomes clean.

Spiritual guru Mr Raghav says

The story of Ajay is applicable to each and every individual. All our
actions affects our near and dears and it up to us as to which kind of tears we
would like to bring in their eyes.

Story 2

Mr Keshav shares

Mr Keshav had reached his office as usual on time. There was a flurry of
activity in the next cabin with the carpenters getting the cabin ready for his
new boss. Work in the office had practically stopped with all the staff
discussing the new cabin and the boss. Since there was no productive output
Keshav decided to call it a day and headed back home. At home since he was
early he and his wife decided to go for a stroll in Juhu Beach which was near
his house. Juhu beach was a maze of activity. There were hawkers selling their
wares, food stalls and children playing cricket. The noise was immense. After a
long walk I and my wife decided to have something to drink and we went to a
milk stall. The stall was being managed by a young boy of around 14 years of
age. First we decided to have water and as an afterthought they changed the
order to Masala milk. This brought a little irritation in the boy’s face but he
did serve Mr Keshav, Masala milk and then went back to his pen and paper. While
they were having their masala milk Mr Keshav was wondering as what the boy was
so dedicatedly scribbling in his pad. Curiosity got the better of Mr. Keshav
and after he had finished with his drink he went back to the child and asked
him what he was so importantly doing in all that noise. The boy replied that he
was practicing his math’s as he had an exam the next day. Mr Keshav was
shocked. A slight noise in his office had deterred him from his work but this
small child had taught him how to focus. The child had hundred reasons not to
Focus but he just ignored those reasons and focused on his studies. Mr Keshav had learnt a lesson from the child.

The next day when Mr Keshav reached the office once again work was going
on. He chose to ignore the noise and continued with his work. Seeing him all
the other staff members also followed suit.

Story 3

Mr Raghav shares that when he was small he used to stay with his parents
and brothers and sisters in a rented house because his father did not own a
house. Every two years they had to shift to a new house and Raghav and his
brothers disliked this process. But every time they had to shift I, Raghav
father would go to the owners house, thank him for allowing them to stay in his
house with a smile give him a flower bouquet. This was a ritual Raghav’s father never missed
doing. Raghav could never understand why his father used to do this.

After the completion of his education Raghav joined work. He was still
staying with his parents and once again it was time to shift. That day had been
a hard day in office and when he came home and heard they had to shift Raghav
got very angry with his father. In his
anger he vented out his frustration to his father saying that had his father
invested in a house he and his brothers could have stayed peacefully in one
place. All his friends were having a place of their own to live. In his anger
he uttered a lot of more than required. His father heard him out completely and
without a word came and took his hand and guided him to a seat. There he sat
down besides Mr Raghav and taking his hand in his hand he told Raghav that with
his limited salary he could only afford to give Raghav, his brother and sister
good education and good values. He believed that education is only wealth which
brings respect to a human being. Now after acquiring a good education Raghav
could do well in his life and acquire not only one but many more properties.
Hearing his father that day, Raghav gained a new respect for him. He felt
ashamed at his outburst. That day Raghav realized what his parents had done for
him and his siblings. He decided to work hard and then buy a house of his own.

Summary

1) Our words and actions should be such that it brings tears of joy,
happiness in the eyes of all those who care for us.

2) From Mr Keshav we learnt that we should be focused in our work and do it
sincerely.

3) From Mr Raghav we learnt that education is the biggest wealth our
parents have given us. Using this wealth judiciously we can acquire properties
or whatever we want.

Narayan Narayan

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Recap of 13th January’s
New Year Session.

Narayan
Narayan…………………..

The
Narayan Reiki Parivar’s Dream:-

Health,
Wealth, Peace, Prosperity and Happiness and Harmonious relations in the lives
of everyone.

Our
Motto; In Giving we Believe.

Didi wishes
all the Narayan Reiki Parivar a Healthy, Wealthy, Happy and Prosperous New
Year. She recalls the mission of the Narayan Reiki Parivar i.e. Health, Wealth,
Peace, Harmony in the lives of all. To bring this about she requests the
support of each and every member of the Narayan Reiki Parivar.

Didi starts
her session with the sharing of Radhika..

It is New Year’s
Eve and as is tradition Radhika too makes a resolution to stay fit. On 1st
January she puts on her walking shoes and goes for a walk. She sees a rose in
conversation with a tree. The rose is swaying in Happiness and the tree is
saying to the rose not to sway so much because her life span is very short. By
evening the tree says to the rose that she will wilt away and the gardener will
rip it away. In reply to the tree the rose says that she agrees her life span
is short but she would live it to the fullest. The rose further adds that it
her duty to spread happiness to all around. So with the help of her colors and
perfume she is spreading happiness which is the aim of her short span of life.
The rose says your life should not be quantitative but qualitative. Saying this
rose starts swaying again.

Radhika is
mightily impressed with the thoughts of the rose and determines to be happy and
spread Happiness.

Story 2

Mr. Morris
shares a story about a small child who leaves his home in search of happiness.
Walking for sometime he notices some spirits following him. He asks the spirits
who they were and why they were following him. The spirits tell him that they
are the spirits of Happiness and they resided in his house. The child is
surprised and says that he had never found happiness in his house. The spirits
tell him that happiness was all around him and he never acknowledged. The beautiful sunrise, the gentle breeze, the
dew on the flower, the warmth of the sun on a cold morning, Mother’s love and
her warm words, to give love and to get love
and many more countless small happiness we choose not to recognize and
accept and we crib we are unhappy.

If only
Happiness could speak it would say these words…

Extend your
arms, feel me

Open your eyes
see my smiling face

Open your
ears and listen to my sweet nothings.

Look around
and you will only find me…

Radhika
comes home after the walk with a new determination and shares her experiences
with Madhav her husband. Madhav then share his experience.

He tells Radhika over a cup of tea his
experience. One evening when he was sitting in the society garden in a very
positive mood he saw an earthworm a few feet away. He smiled at the earthworm
and the earthworm started moving towards him. He extended his hand in a
friendly gesture and the earthworm moved towards him further. Then a thought
struck him about his school days when his teacher had told him that if an
earthworm is cut in half both the halves will continue to twitch. As soon as
the thought struck him he found that the earthworm had retreated into a leaf to
hide itself. It is when Madhav realized how our thoughts affect others. If an
organism like an earthworm could respond to his thoughts then how would our
thoughts effect humans who are far more sensitive and intelligent.

One
conclusion was we are all connected. We should always be filled with
positivity, love, joy, Happiness and these we should try to spread to all those
around us. And this is the best gift we can give anyone.

That day Mr
Madhav says he thanked the earthworm and took a resolution to spread
positivity, Joy, happiness to all.

Recap of
the Year

Our lives
have been empowered by Didi’s words.

The lord has
given us one ocean,

Some take
out fish, some pearl, some come out with muddy feet;

Life is one;
let’s get the best from life.

Together we
can realize Didi’s and Narayan Reiki Parivar’s Dream.

Recap of Didi’s
messages which all Narayan reiki followers should follow.

In the
beginning of the year we all took an oath

1)
Appreciation

2) To remain
calm and positive at all times

Last year we
had taken an oath that

We will not
Gossip i.e. at all times we will only talk positive statements and also we will
seek positivity in the statement of others.

Didi also
taught us the Narayan circle of Life which if followed regularly will give us
immense benefits.

We were also
told to follow Two Reiki rules one compulsory i.e.

Thanks to
God and at least five persons in our lives, first thing in the morning.

Among the
other four rules i.e.

1) Today I
will remain calm and speak positive words

2) Today I
will be Happy and be positive.

3) Today I
will live the present moment honestly.

4) Today I
will see Narayan in every living being.

We were
asked to choose any one of the above rules and follow them honestly.

This Diwali
session Didi taught us to be UNIQUE.

She taught
us some techniques for being Unique.

1) Precious
16

2) She
opened the Care A/c for each one of us.

3) The
Narayan Samadhan visiting minutes of 17.5 min.

4) The
Narayan Happy Formula

5) The
Narayan Magic Mantras.

Nature also
gave us a message through Didi

1) When is
god nearest to us? God is nearest to us
when we are angry.

2) The
importance of thanks, when you receive 7 Thanks God says “I am proud of you my
child”

Didi says
when you help anyone, do not say and show and always give your Best.

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Recap of June 10th Session

M adhav a
20 year old boy and his two friends Ram and Shiv were going on a long drive.
Ram was driving and singing the Oscar winning song “Jai HO!”Shiv asked Ram, as
to why “Jai Ho!” is such a popular song and the reason why it was acclaimed all
over the world. He asked Shiv,”what was so special about A.R Rehman’s character?”Shiv
explained that A.R Rehman’s ideals, his hard work and perseverance made him
successful.

Shiv
further added, A.R Rehman was a keyboard player in a small band. He was a very
hardworking boy. While practicing when people took breaks, he would utilize the
breaks for further practice.

Acclaim
was bestowed upon him by numerous National and international Awards. When he
went to collect his Oscar, his humility was defined by his speech. He said
“This award is because of my Father’s prayers, Mother’s hard work and the
blessings of god”.He came
back home to lots of fanfare and galore .But he was grounded. His words were:

”मै इश्वर की कटपुतली हू.
वो बजाता है मै उसी तरह बजता हू” Shiv was
impressed and says he would also like to have a character like that of Rehman.
The three friends drive their way singing the song”Jai Ho! Jai Ho!”…….

SharingA member
shared his thoughts with Didi. He said when he went home from the May 12th Satsang, the discussion regarding relationship was in his mind.
His parents reside in the village and he used to call them once a week. He was
so impressed with Didi’s thoughts on relationship that he started calling his
parents every day .The conversation would begin with ‘Narayan Narayan’ and end
the call with ‘Narayan Narayan’. An unseen strong bond of Narayan thoughts have
developed between us and his relationship with his parents have become
stronger.”Small actions make life more meaningful.”He
further shares that when he was a young he came to Mumbai to realize his dreams
of being successful. He had a decently good job which paid him well and he used
to share an apartment with two of his friends. He used to write letters to his
parents every day. One Saturday evening as he was just sitting to write a
letter to his parents, his friends invite him for a drink. He refuses them. As
he was all alone he started reminiscing about his childhood days. When he was a
teenager he used to love cricket, eat out in hotels, and see movies. His father
was a disciplinary and the life he led was much disciplined .At that age his
mind used to revolt against his father’s strict regime and he used to think
that, the day he would earn he would do whatever he liked. Today he
was all alone in Mumbai, He could do whatever he wished but the discipline
instilled in him in his younger days still controlled his actions and kept him
in on the right path. That day he wrote a letter of thanks to his parents.He also
thanked God for his upbringing.

Sharing: Mr Ravi Emailed to Didi.

Mr Ravi did not follow any
religious practices. He would never attend any Satsang or Religious gathering.
Ravi wife was a very ill natured woman. Ravi’s mother stayed close by to his residence,
but Ravi could not take care of his mother because his wife did not approve of
it. About a year ago Ravi’s wife joined Didi’s Wednesday Satsang. Satsang
changed his world. She started respecting her Mother in law and started taking
care of her .Positive words, Calmness and Appreciation became her nature. Ravi
was so impressed by her change towards positivity that he joined the Sunday
session of Didi and took the commitment of Appreciation and calmness.

He shared that, once he had
been invited to attend a religious function in the house of his boss. There a
Swamiji was giving a discourse. The Swamiji questioned “Your driver does not
come for duty and the reason was he was drunk. Will you trust him? Your
accountant makes a grave error in your tax calculation, will you approve of
such an accountant? You put a shirt a to waash with a fifty Rupee note and your
maid says she has not aware of the money, Will you trust her again? We have
Character expectation and analysis on others. At that moment Mr Ravi realized
that.”What behavior you cannot endure in others, you should have the same
standard for yourself. He says he tries to follow Didi’s Narayan circle of life
and nature also helps him.

For the younger
generation….A 30 year old boy came to
Didi and shared that he used to stay in a joint family. His wife was a working
woman and she used to disown home responsibilities. His mother and his
brother’s wife had to share all responsibilities on the home front. So he took
a transfer to another place so that his wife would improve. Thus he helped his
motherA couple came to Didi and
shared that, after 10 years of marriage they had a child who had health issues.
Being working couple they were finding it difficult to give so much time and
money on the child. On enquiring about their life Didi realized that that the
mother in law was old and the couple would neither support her with money nor
time. Didi explained the Narayan Circle of life. They mended their ways
and the child’s health improved.A 22 year old boy came to
Didi and shared that he had lots of work pressures in the office. He had two
bosses and apart from doing his work he also had to finish the task given to
his bosses’ .The boy was stressed out, as he had to continuously work. While
sharing he explained that he would not help his folks at home. He used to make
his mother do all his work. Didi once again explained the Narayan circle of
life. The boy changed his ways, the bosses changed theirs.A marketing company
launched a new ‘fish ‘Product .They achieved lots of success initially but
after a month sales dipped .On enquiring the reason they found that the fishes
did not like the taste of their product. They had to change the taste as per
the requirement of the fishes.You are sitting in your
balcony and having tea and biscuits and you want to attract the attention of
parrot. You offer tea or biscuits it will not come to you .You have to offer bird
food….i.e. green chilly and guava.Didi says while you build
relations you should keep in mind the likes of those whom you want to have a
relationship and try to speak their language. Only then your relationship will
be strong.We repair materialistic
things which do not work e.g. the same importance should be given to
relationship. There is a marked difference between“You love me” and “I know
you Love me.”“You know me “and” I trust
that you know me well.”

Summary:1) From A.R Rehman we learn
the importance of perseverance, hard work, and character.

2) Mr Ravi taught us the
importance of Narayan circle of life.

3) The younger generation
sharing taught us the importance of caring.

4) We also learnt to how
to build relationship.(you have to understand the people’s likes and act
accordingly.)