As are my boyfriend and I. My cocktail of supps has been doing well so far to keep me healthy and my man and I have been having actually quite a lovely sex life... in case y'all were wondering!! I find too that the more I let go of being so concerned about H all the time, i relax and am less stressed out and happier in general which probably helps have less OBs! We abstain when we need to abstain and other then that, we've chosen not to use condoms. He's never showed any signs, and I knock on wood every time I write anything of that nature. He's sweet and understanding about it all, though. He says that the risk is worth it and our relationship is going really well.