Dr. Rhoberta Shaler | Hijackal Help

Do you have a partner, ex, or parent who makes you question your sanity and second guess yourself? You may be with a Hijackal.

I don't like folks using psychological labels for other people in their lives. They don't help unless you're well-versed in what they actually mean outside of the public ideas about them. That's why I created the term, Hijackals. I help their partners, exes, and adult children name, see, and recover from what has been--and is--crazy-making behavior and interaction. That's why I removed the psychological labels and made clear the pool of traits from which Hijackals drink!

Don't worry! Being with a Hijackal is something that is very hard to see when you're in the relationship. There are reasons why you were attracted to your partner--not all of them so good. There are many reasons why your Hijackal saw you as likely prey, and will continue to treat you that way until you get the help you need to stop the game!

I can help you, and I want to. I am uniquely qualified to do that, not only because of my PhD in psychology. Even with that, I was still susceptible to Hijackals. It wasn't until I figured it all out and did my own work to understand how I became "Hijackal Bait", why I attracted them in droves, and what I needed to do internally to stop the madness, and see myself and Hijackals differently. Then, life changed. That's why I know I can help you.

For those ready to work with me, I like to start with a $97 Introductory Sessionto really understand where you're at, and see if we're a good fit. This will get us on the road to some powerful work.

Let's talk soon if you're ready to make those changes. In the meantime, your free ebook is on its way to you and click the button below to continue.

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In this program, the information shared was very enlightening. The Personal Weather Report(TM) is a great tool to use everyday and I get in touch with my thoughts, feelings, needs, ad wants. Dr. Rhoberta Shaler really knows the dynamics of relationships.

Kathy

Dr. Shaler, you have just described my previous life!!! I was married to a hijackal for almost 20 years and left 10 years ago. It has taken me 10 years to recover, but I did. Where were you 10 years ago??? I so hope you can help others who feel trapped and crazy as I did. Thank you!

Christa DavisYoutube viewer

I’m so relieved. I’ve been to several [sic:counselors] who sided with my crazy-making partner. Finally, someone who gets it, knows the feeling, sees the problem, and has helped me take positive steps.

Cindi

My partner offered me your video.. however, I am mind boggled that it is her that is the Hijackal.. it all makes sense to me right now… I always knew that she doesn’t take responsibility for her actions and I am always to blame.. and eventually I started to believe her as I love her .. Oh my god! your video is incredible and enlightening.. I feel secure again within myself.

incredible and enlightening

I want to thank you for your work – I have come across it on Youtube while searching for how to respond to PA behaviour.

I have ordered and read your “Stop – that’s crazy making”, “Escaping the Hijackal trap”, “The Hijackal trap” and now I am reading “Kaizen for couples”.

Your work has really helped me see what is going on in my relationship with my partner.

I can’t afford individual therapy at the moment (I plan to do it), but I am in Al-Anon which also helps a lot.

I have set some boundries –…

V.Eastern Europe

All I can say is OMG. 29 years. I cried with relief and understanding and validate I am not crazy or hard of hearing.

Marie

Please meet my dear friend Dr. Rhoberta Shaler who is highly health aware and a master at navigating people through relationship dynamics like no other I know and from a very unique and empowering perspective. She is especially gifted at working with spouses, partners, exes and colleagues of relentlessly difficult people. You can see her accomplishments at http://forrelationshiphelp.com.