why do some men press such an emphasis of having a male child? why is it that when some Men father daughters, some type of animosity is developed (even though Male child and their fathers develope these animosities as well)?

I know some females who can't have a lasting positive relationship with their father. these females have daughters for guys, who blatantly tell them that:
1. the child isn't theirs.
2. they didn't want a daughter.

I understand a few of the surface stuff about this, but is their a moral primal reason for this phenomena?/Enigma?

but their is still a reason why Males like to Have Male seeds. a child is a part of the parent no matter what, but does having a son give a belief that we created a perfect copy of yourself

That's essentially what procreation is, isn't it?.

_________________"Simply put, you being in her life is a BLESSING. Her wronging you in any way is her own self-inflicted CURSE, and if she does wrong you, then let the punishment fit the crime. Her life will absolutely SUCK without you."

Most people I have spoken to who have answered honestly and not from the matrix view have told me the exact opposite. When they have really opened up and been honest from their core, unafraid of my reaction to what they were going to say.

Women really want sons.
Men really want daughters.

Then you add the matrix, society, peer pressure, advertising and it flips around.
Men are taught to think they should want sons.
Women are taught to think they should want daughters.

Again, another aberration of nature.

I have spoken to many women about their sons, their bond is totally different from the daughters.. The daughters end up more like sisters, the sons do not end up like brothers.

The same is true of my discussions with men about their daughters and their sons.

Personally if I have any offspring, I would want daughters, at least that way there will be some women who when they grow up know how things are meant to be.
I can honestly say I have ZERO desire to have a son. I have felt that way as long as I can remember and have been met with incredulity when telling people it over the years.

_________________In building a statue, a sculptor doesn't keep adding clay to his subject.He keeps chiseling away at the inessentials until the truth of its creation is revealed without obstructions. Perfection is not when there is no more to add,but no more to take away.

now here is the kicker. probably it was anticipated. isn't there the thought that your daughter is going to have to submit to some man one day ( Women submit to us and we sometime do to them).

I heard one famous New York Radio Show host say that when he gets children, he wants about 5 girls. for a financial reason though. his reason is that his daughters can bring him wealth ( makes a shit load of sense if you ask me , coming from a right point of view though).

it is surprising hearing that come from you though Kidd ( not in a Misogynistic way).

not saying I won't be happy with the gender of my Children, but I would like Sons.

@ Pere'G,I also notice that Some Men have GREAT relationships with their daughters, and Moms do with their Sons.
(what is the psychology behind it, is it their way of protecting the inverse of themselves?)

_________________"I'd rather have no bitch than a half a bitch" Iceberg Slim

Boils down to the elektra/oedipus complex...hence why you rarely hear of 'Daddy's little boy" or "Mama's girl"...but you ALWAYS hear vice versa. I feel the same way as 'Grinus...truth be told I was rather disappointed that I had a boy. Please understand...I love my son, and women will never get the best of him by virtue of me being his father, but I really, REALLY wanted a girl. But, I can almost guarantee going forward that I will definitely be having some baby girls in the future...and for that I am EXCITED!

I actually have a rather simple yet complex theory about what determines child gender...maybe I'll share it one day.

why do some men press such an emphasis of having a male child? why is it that when some Men father daughters, some type of animosity is developed (even though Male child and their fathers develope these animosities as well)?

I know some females who can't have a lasting positive relationship with their father. these females have daughters for guys, who blatantly tell them that:
1. the child isn't theirs.
2. they didn't want a daughter.

I understand a few of the surface stuff about this, but is their a moral primal reason for this phenomena?/Enigma?

_________________A truly powerful Man jealously guards his most precious resources; his independence and his ability to maneuver. True power isn’t controlling others, but the degree to which you control the course of your own life and your own choices. -Rational Male

_________________A truly powerful Man jealously guards his most precious resources; his independence and his ability to maneuver. True power isn’t controlling others, but the degree to which you control the course of your own life and your own choices. -Rational Male

_________________In building a statue, a sculptor doesn't keep adding clay to his subject.He keeps chiseling away at the inessentials until the truth of its creation is revealed without obstructions. Perfection is not when there is no more to add,but no more to take away.

Why do you think so many men end up with someone like their mother.
Or so many women end up with someone like their father.

I was telling a co worker about the above yesterday.
Pere'G, I meant to ask you this question before based on a post you had made above.

here is the quote,

Quote:

Personally if I have any offspring, I would want daughters, at least that way there will be some women who when they grow up know how things are meant to be.
I can honestly say I have ZERO desire to have a son. I have felt that way as long as I can remember and have been met with incredulity when telling people it over the years.

when you get the time, do you mind explaining the parts I have highlighted?

_________________"I'd rather have no bitch than a half a bitch" Iceberg Slim

I would want daughters, at least that way there will be some women who when they grow up know how things are meant to be.

when you get the time, do you mind explaining the parts I have highlighted?

I presume this is the bit you meant.

I would have thought it was self evident.

What effect do you think having a myself as a father figure would have influence wise on a girl growing up?

_________________In building a statue, a sculptor doesn't keep adding clay to his subject.He keeps chiseling away at the inessentials until the truth of its creation is revealed without obstructions. Perfection is not when there is no more to add,but no more to take away.

_________________A truly powerful Man jealously guards his most precious resources; his independence and his ability to maneuver. True power isn’t controlling others, but the degree to which you control the course of your own life and your own choices. -Rational Male

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