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I have been a single mom since he was was born (now 2), I would have to say my favorite part would be not having to share him time wise, I was their to witness all his firsts because he did not have the every other weekend schedule with his father. However he's back in the picture now and wants visitation, losing that extra time with him will definatly be the hardest.

Let's see...doing what I want to do when I want to do it...being able to watch whatever I like on TV...Being able to give undivided attention to my girls...Not having to be tense all the time (my ex kept me on edge all the time with his moods and silent treatments)...my house isn't constantly be messed up (my kids know to pick up after themselves but my ex did not do that)...peace in my home...Ironically I no longer feel lonely like I did when I was wtih my x...I am more physcially fit and healthy cause I eat better and I make time for exercise...I realize that I might be alone for the rest of my life and I am okay with that. I would only share my life with a man whom was a great friend to me and I feel good about that.

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