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Man trouble!!! HELP!

Me and paul are now just friends. Im really happy with this as its so nice to have someone to talk to and be there for me when i need it. He has recently told be that he is also on anti depressants but for his anorexia so im not sure if all of our problems would just ruin any sort of relationship we might have, i hope not. But at the moment i think i definately see him as more of a close friend than a boyfriend.

Also i looooooove my new job its so interestng and the people im working with are all really great, especaily one guy (lets call him Fred) but i think he might already have a gf, but we've but flirting loads, nobody has noticed though. He kissed me in the lift on the way out of work and i went all weak at the knees!!!!!!! only problem is, i dont wnt to be just a dirty little secret id rather be his girl friend but i dont think that he wants that, which is poo.

Why do i go for the wrong type of man. I met paul a great guy who realy likes me and would prolly treat me right, but no i cant be happy with that ive got to go and find someone who wants just a fling, to be fair all i want is a fling, but there this huge spark between me and fred and i think it could really lead some were (from my point of veiw atleast).

Do you think i should tell Fred the way i feel or break it all off or just have a fling? im not sure what to do i need advice?

No one can really persuade you one way or another. It's your choice, I would go where my heart takes me, but I would not ignore what my head says either.
If you are single, I would have my cake and EAT it. LOL
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at 19??? Girl, you have just started your life, go out enjoy life, have fun, explore the world with friends.... men and relationships can happen later... once you settle down get married have children... you won't have time and money to do things... now is the time!!! experience life!
as far as choosing a good man, look at his family what is his father like, what is his mother like.... the nut doesn't fall far from the tree!

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