When I told a man I was unloveable he said I was talking rubbish?

I've never had a man that has ever loved me, not my dad, not my kids dad. And when I told a man that I thought was into me how I felt about him and how I think I'll never have anyone love me, he told me I was talking nonsense. He dumped me few months later and then told me he never loved me or even liked me and I was just *fuckmeat* to him. he reinforced what I believed that I was nothing. I've given up on men as I've been hurt enough.

i take a day at a time and I've resigned to the fact I will be alone. I'm looking to change and do something like involve myself in charity work anything that keeps me busy because I've basically stopped pursuing love. I don't know where to start to volenteer to help others, anyone have tips or advice.

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Any causes you're interested in? You can try local homeless shelters or ask people who work at churches.

I hope you aren't really asking for verbal reassurances. People on here can tell you that you're loveable until they're blue in the face, but that won't change your experiences. Words are just words and so much weaker than actions.

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It wouldn't matter what anyone said to me I wouldn't believe them anyway.