You are a joy to be around. You’re extroverted, have a full social calendar, and see your life as a big adventure. You surf, hike, do yoga, eat salads, go to Burning Man, and genuinely feel like you’re an expression of pure love and joy.

But there’s this side of you that others don’t’ see. You’re really hard on yourself. You’re hard on yourself for being as emotional as you are. You're hard on yourself for not taking the steps you want to take in your dating life because you're also hard on yourself for not being completely over your ex from one year ago.

You also have a vision for your business and creative pursuits and you have things you know you need to do for their success, but you can’t bring yourself to stay committed to them. You think that because you haven't done it yet, you'll never do it.