why allow someone to bully u?
is it that u are scared?
weak?
or dont know how to defend yourself?
or afraid if u defend yourself you will get in trouble by elders....

i personally will smack someone if they try to bully me around..i always have this attitude..if u are surrounded by people who want to bully you, and they all want to beat you up.. you take down one person who is from that group and you really beat that person good no matter what happening around you

i never experience bulling..but i know some people who did
so be free to discuss...

the only bullies i had was in 3rd grade and I learn how society is unfair when i punch him and he run crying and i was tearing cause my fist hurt and i got punish by school and i could not play my Gameboy for 2 week xD

I remember is 5th grade everyone used to bully me a lot. That was pretty much the worst year of my life. For me, if I said something harsh back to them and told a teacher then they would tell them what I said to them and that wouldn't be good.
I didn't tell my parents or anything because I didn't want them to get involved. Basically that whole year I just let people bully me around. 6th grade was the same but not as bad as 5th. And for me, it pretty much THE WHOLE CLASS who were bulling me so I couldn't really do a thing.
I remember this one time I was sitting at my desk and these guys around me were laughing at me and I said "Screw you!" and the teacher just happened to be walking by and the guys said to her "Did you hear that?" and the teacher said "Yeah, actually you can get a white slip (referral) for that." I was so pissed. The one time I said something I got in trouble, and it pissed me off.
In 6th I just got so fed up with it and started defensing myself, of course most of the time it didn't work.
In 7th grade, some people picked on me, but not very many.. I sort of had a reputation.. one of my friends used to say "She can cut you with a chereo"
But now.. I'm almost in 9th grade and no one bullies me anymore, because I'm not a negative person anymore.. also, I'm not an easy target.

I get bullied/picked on all the time, I could even be in line just to pay for something and I could be picked on there. I don't know why it happens to me so much when I mind my own business and don't even look at anyone.

Also, not weak and I know how to defend myself extremely well. Also, I am not a small guy so I don't know why I also get picked out by people half my size.

And yes I do get scared, because you don't know if they have a weapon and are just itching to use it, or a whole group of friends waiting, and they might have weapons. Also, afraid if I screw up while defending myself and accidently kill someone, it's prison time for me... No such thing as a fair fight if you're not in a ring or on the mat. Still doesn't stop a fight from happening though, I am usually calm but one we get past a certain point I feel they need to learn a very hard lesson on their way to the sandman. Usually when a guy sees his friends body go limp and crumple onto the ground from being choked unconscious you have a few seconds to make a getaway, don't be a tough guy/girl, run away and call the cops.

But if we are talking school bullies, then yes I fought if they don't stop after my plea to just drop it and move on. Because less chance of a weapon, you are too young to get arrested unless you kill them which is highly unlikely, and they are obligated to fight "fair" because of reputations in school.

I remember is 5th grade everyone used to bully me a lot. That was pretty much the worst year of my life. For me, if I said something harsh back to them and told a teacher then they would tell them what I said to them and that wouldn't be good.
I didn't tell my parents or anything because I didn't want them to get involved. Basically that whole year I just let people bully me around. 6th grade was the same but not as bad as 5th. And for me, it pretty much THE WHOLE CLASS who were bulling me so I couldn't really do a thing.
I remember this one time I was sitting at my desk and these guys around me were laughing at me and I said "Screw you!" and the teacher just happened to be walking by and the guys said to her "Did you hear that?" and the teacher said "Yeah, actually you can get a white slip (referral) for that." I was so pissed. The one time I said something I got in trouble, and it pissed me off.
In 6th I just got so fed up with it and started defensing myself, of course most of the time it didn't work.
In 7th grade, some people picked on me, but not very many.. I sort of had a reputation.. one of my friends used to say "She can cut you with a chereo"
But now.. I'm almost in 9th grade and no one bullies me anymore, because I'm not a negative person anymore.. also, I'm not an easy target.

I remember is 5th grade everyone used to bully me a lot. That was pretty much the worst year of my life. For me, if I said something harsh back to them and told a teacher then they would tell them what I said to them and that wouldn't be good.
I didn't tell my parents or anything because I didn't want them to get involved. Basically that whole year I just let people bully me around. 6th grade was the same but not as bad as 5th. And for me, it pretty much THE WHOLE CLASS who were bulling me so I couldn't really do a thing.
I remember this one time I was sitting at my desk and these guys around me were laughing at me and I said "Screw you!" and the teacher just happened to be walking by and the guys said to her "Did you hear that?" and the teacher said "Yeah, actually you can get a white slip (referral) for that." I was so pissed. The one time I said something I got in trouble, and it pissed me off.
In 6th I just got so fed up with it and started defensing myself, of course most of the time it didn't work.
In 7th grade, some people picked on me, but not very many.. I sort of had a reputation.. one of my friends used to say "She can cut you with a chereo"
But now.. I'm almost in 9th grade and no one bullies me anymore, because I'm not a negative person anymore.. also, I'm not an easy target.

was there ever a time u cried?

Mmmm... I don't think so. I wasn't really that sensitive. But I was really depressed most of the time ):

I remember is 5th grade everyone used to bully me a lot. That was pretty much the worst year of my life. For me, if I said something harsh back to them and told a teacher then they would tell them what I said to them and that wouldn't be good.
I didn't tell my parents or anything because I didn't want them to get involved. Basically that whole year I just let people bully me around. 6th grade was the same but not as bad as 5th. And for me, it pretty much THE WHOLE CLASS who were bulling me so I couldn't really do a thing.
I remember this one time I was sitting at my desk and these guys around me were laughing at me and I said "Screw you!" and the teacher just happened to be walking by and the guys said to her "Did you hear that?" and the teacher said "Yeah, actually you can get a white slip (referral) for that." I was so pissed. The one time I said something I got in trouble, and it pissed me off.
In 6th I just got so fed up with it and started defensing myself, of course most of the time it didn't work.
In 7th grade, some people picked on me, but not very many.. I sort of had a reputation.. one of my friends used to say "She can cut you with a chereo"
But now.. I'm almost in 9th grade and no one bullies me anymore, because I'm not a negative person anymore.. also, I'm not an easy target.

was there ever a time u cried?

Mmmm... I don't think so. I wasn't really that sensitive. But I was really depressed most of the time ):

hmm that must have really sucked back then..good to know things are well now

I get bullied/picked on all the time, I could even be in line just to pay for something and I could be picked on there. I don't know why it happens to me so much when I mind my own business and don't even look at anyone.

Also, not weak and I know how to defend myself extremely well. Also, I am not a small guy so I don't know why I also get picked out by people half my size.

And yes I do get scared, because you don't know if they have a weapon and are just itching to use it, or a whole group of friends waiting, and they might have weapons. Also, afraid if I screw up while defending myself and accidently kill someone, it's prison time for me... No such thing as a fair fight if you're not in a ring or on the mat. Still doesn't stop a fight from happening though, I am usually calm but one we get past a certain point I feel they need to learn a very hard lesson on their way to the sandman. Usually when a guy sees his friends body go limp and crumple onto the ground from being choked unconscious you have a few seconds to make a getaway, don't be a tough guy/girl, run away and call the cops.

But if we are talking school bullies, then yes I fought if they don't stop after my plea to just drop it and move on. Because less chance of a weapon, you are too young to get arrested unless you kill them which is highly unlikely, and they are obligated to fight "fair" because of reputations in school.

u know that really sucks because what about the bullies who can accidently kill you...and when u accidently kill them u are in trouble..that is crap

I get bullied/picked on all the time, I could even be in line just to pay for something and I could be picked on there. I don't know why it happens to me so much when I mind my own business and don't even look at anyone.

Also, not weak and I know how to defend myself extremely well. Also, I am not a small guy so I don't know why I also get picked out by people half my size.

And yes I do get scared, because you don't know if they have a weapon and are just itching to use it, or a whole group of friends waiting, and they might have weapons. Also, afraid if I screw up while defending myself and accidently kill someone, it's prison time for me... No such thing as a fair fight if you're not in a ring or on the mat. Still doesn't stop a fight from happening though, I am usually calm but one we get past a certain point I feel they need to learn a very hard lesson on their way to the sandman. Usually when a guy sees his friends body go limp and crumple onto the ground from being choked unconscious you have a few seconds to make a getaway, don't be a tough guy/girl, run away and call the cops.

But if we are talking school bullies, then yes I fought if they don't stop after my plea to just drop it and move on. Because less chance of a weapon, you are too young to get arrested unless you kill them which is highly unlikely, and they are obligated to fight "fair" because of reputations in school.

u know that really sucks because what about the bullies who can accidently kill you...and when u accidently kill them u are in trouble..that is crap

Well they would still go to prison if they kill you. But if you are defending yourself there are no guarantees that the law and/or jury will see it that way. If they don't die and you also use what they deem too much force you could still go to jail even if you didn't start it... It is crap haha.

I get bullied/picked on all the time, I could even be in line just to pay for something and I could be picked on there. I don't know why it happens to me so much when I mind my own business and don't even look at anyone.

Also, not weak and I know how to defend myself extremely well. Also, I am not a small guy so I don't know why I also get picked out by people half my size.

And yes I do get scared, because you don't know if they have a weapon and are just itching to use it, or a whole group of friends waiting, and they might have weapons. Also, afraid if I screw up while defending myself and accidently kill someone, it's prison time for me... No such thing as a fair fight if you're not in a ring or on the mat. Still doesn't stop a fight from happening though, I am usually calm but one we get past a certain point I feel they need to learn a very hard lesson on their way to the sandman. Usually when a guy sees his friends body go limp and crumple onto the ground from being choked unconscious you have a few seconds to make a getaway, don't be a tough guy/girl, run away and call the cops.

But if we are talking school bullies, then yes I fought if they don't stop after my plea to just drop it and move on. Because less chance of a weapon, you are too young to get arrested unless you kill them which is highly unlikely, and they are obligated to fight "fair" because of reputations in school.

u know that really sucks because what about the bullies who can accidently kill you...and when u accidently kill them u are in trouble..that is crap

Well they would still go to prison if they kill you. But if you are defending yourself there are no guarantees that the law and/or jury will see it that way. If they don't die and you also use what they deem too much force you could still go to jail even if you didn't start it... It is crap haha.

so its like going to jail for defending yourself...no wonder so many innocent people are in jail...sighhhh