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Topic: Date. Saturday Night. Help. (Read 24994 times)

yli, when I was on my first real date, I'd left home and was Nursing at the other end of Australia in Darwin. What an eye opener! I grew up with male friends since I had six brothers. I remember though, that girls who allowed themselves to be "mauled" by males, were known as the "town bikes". In a small Country town, everyone knew your business, so I guess the majority of us behaved as if our parents were watching us. (which they were) Even if you were engaged to be married, public displays of affection were limited. A motel room or sex, particularly on a first date, would have had the town talking for weeks and the girl and boy on the "rubbish" list. I do know that things have changed a lot, but I would rather that my Grandsons got to know a lot more about the girl before having sexual relations with her. Perhaps it is all too easy and casual now, which may account for the large number of divorces and second, third and fourth etc marriages. With the amount of casual sex now, I'd be terrified of catching a disease, particularly after I see so many not washing their hands after going to the toilets. I'd hate to imagine what is going on in their pants personal hygene. I am trying to give you an idea about when I was young yli, not lecture you, so I hope you understand.

I know you said that your place was a real mess but your new girlfriend may want to come and clean it for you. Sounds great right? Just be careful that she doesn't come to clean and then never leave (unless you want that). I had a roommate before and he would hook up with a girl and bring her home. Four days later she hasn't once left the house. She finally leaves on the fourth day only to return with a big bag of her things.

I find with Chinese girls, there are really two types. The more traditional girls and the more open, modern ones (I usually term them bar girls). The modern ones are fun but I'd say about 90% more prone to crazy behaviour and drama. Not trying to knock anyone, just a small warning as I've sat with many a guy friend complaining.

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