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Plus, the more insecure he became, the less time she seemed to want to spend with him. He called her three times a day for almost a week before reaching her. Over the following months, the man tried desperately to understand what went wrong... In this particular situation I think there is a solution. And that secret comes down to the reality that if a woman isn't ATTRACTED to a man, all of his attempts to confess his love, convince her to like him, and court her BACKFIRE.

After spending many days and nights obsessing over this girl, the man finally arrived at the conclusion that if she only knew how HE FELT, that she would feel the same way. He confessed that he was in love, and that he would do anything to be with her. you're too important to me..." This only confused the man more. He finally decided that he couldn't go on like this anymore... He had to make sure that she knew just how much he wanted to be with her... She made an excuse about being very busy, and said "I'll try to give you a call soon, I have to go"... In other words, they not only DON'T WORK, they actually make things WORSE.

So often we think that because we WANT to communicate a message that others are going to NATURALLY understand what we're trying to say.

Have you ever seen a guy in a foreign car that has wheels on it that cost more than the car itself... and a muffler that somehow AMPLIFIES the raw sound of the 4-cylinder motor...?

Have you ever thought to yourself "I don't think that car is communicating the message to women that he thinks it is"...? Well here's the deal: If you do something to "let a woman know how you feel"...

It's a story that you might find strangely familiar. Once upon a time, there was a man who was very attracted to a particular woman. but the more he got to know her, the more he began to feel attracted to her...

and the more time he spent with her, the more that attraction grew into a deep emotional attachment and affection for her. As his emotional attachment grew stronger and stronger, he also grew more and more insecure. Because he couldn't tell whether or not she felt the same way towards him.

Sometimes she would say things like "You are so important to me" and "I'm glad that you're in my life"...

but nothing ever progressed past the "friendship" stage. I'm talking about a story that rings true for a great majority of men. A story that resonates at a deep level because you can IDENTIFY with it.

There was an occasional hug, an occasional kiss on the cheek from her... And why does this particular story resonate for most men? Another thing that gives this particular story a lot of power is the powerful negative emotions that it stirs...

and once she even held his hand for a long time while he talked about an emotional issue. I know, I should keep my day job, and not take up writing romance novels... Because we've all been there in one way or another... as a result of the powerful negative experiences that it reminds us of...