Some of the guys here are disturbingly negative. It seems like every negative experience they have with another guy, they like to link it to the fact that he is Homosexual, rather than that it is just one person and one experience.Yet they don't see how that attitude may reflect poorly on them.

DodgedBullet saidSome of the guys here are disturbingly negative. It seems like every negative experience they have with another guy, they like to link it to the fact that he is Homosexual, rather than that it is just one person and one experience.Yet they don't see how that attitude may reflect poorly on them.

Anduru saidThey like, have the same flaws as normal people. What's the deal with that?

But if I can't blame my problems on being gay - something which I have no control over and can not be changed - what am I supposed to do? Try to improve myself as a human being and expand my knowledge of the world beyond my mom's church group and the one gay bar I went to? That doesn't make sense to me. If I am lonely or bored it probably is because gay men are alive. It just stands to reason. If gay guys would stop going to Pride Parades and creating HIV with Lady GaGa and talk the way my dad does - I would be REALLY popular and happy.