i’m the supervisor at work after 160…..4pm. it’s me, one other tech, and a kid that watches the front desk (he’s low rank). well, i was busy in CT with a patient and i guess the other tech was with a patient. when i was finished i went back to the front desk and the kid was a tad miffed. he told me a nurse from the ER came in and was pressing him for a time-line for when we were going to be able scan patients they had waiting. well….there’s only 2 of us to shoot and the other tech was busy. by the time i found out the whole issue was resolved but i was still pissed because the nurse was kind of being rude about getting the patients over. i found out who the nurse was and went to the ER. well, the woman was a civilian, i approached her and told her i wanted to talk with her in private.

“i’m HM1 ********, and right now in charge over at X-ray and i wanted to explain something to you. if you EVER have an issue with radiology DO NOT harass my staff, you find me and tell me the problem. but the next time you harass my front desk staff i will report you.” the nurse looked at me for a second and tried to give an excuse about them being busy and i cut her off.

“you have a problem with radiology, come see me. PERIOD.don’t press my HN about it”

i went back to radiology and told the guy that it was handled it and the next time someone talks to him like that to cut them off and send them my way. he thanked me and went back to work.

see, i’m “old-school” navy. when i joined, boot-camp was segregated and i was in one of the last all male companies. i literally didn’t see a woman for over 2 months while in boot-camp. i learned VERY early on “take care of your people. they have to KNOW you’ll stand up for them.” once i had to take care of my girl so-so when a guy was flirting with her and she felt uncomfortable. so this was a no-brainer for me. i HAD to let kid know i wasn’t going to let anyone disrespect him because he was low rank. i guarantee this kid will break his back when i task him with something now. that’s how it’s SUPPOSED to be in the military. shame most leader’s today don’t really take the time to look after their people.

we’d been dating for 3 months and i knew i wanted out. the girls i worked with were friends with the gf and pulled a quasi-intervention. long-story short, my co-worker ladies told the gf i wasn’t happy. the gf was VERY surprised.

“but…why isn’t he happy, he’s getting laid.” smh. of course my girls are TOP-NOTCH and saw red-flags immediately and told her my getting laid was NOT going to keep me around. the gf was thoroughly and honestly confused. i have to admit, from my point…..it was over. i ended it maybe a week or two later.

fast forward to her wanting to have “the talk”. now….this girl was VERY into me. but…she didn’t have much guy experience. i shoulder some responsibility there because i KNEW that going in, but after 3 months…i had ZERO attraction to her. so i ended it.

and she.was.crushed. i learned this from the guys in her shop. she was a fucking zombie. one of my girls in medical MADE me tell her why i ended it. and she was right. the ex deserved to know the truth. so….i made arrangements to give her my perspective about the relationship. there were quite a few issues, but she dropped this BOMB on me. she mentioned she didn’t get why i wasn’t happy when she was putting out.

i went into the red IMMEDIATELY!!!!! i fired off, “DO YOU THINK I CAN FUCK YOU 24 HOURS A DAY???!!!!” her face dropped and i could see she knew she made a misstep. i continued…..”dammit, we’ll spend what…..1-2 hours a day having sex, 8-9 hours sleeping, what the fuck do i do with you for the other 13-14 hours a day. because it WON’T be spent having sex. i’m not with you because i just want to fuck you; i LIKE you. i wanted to have you around me. now i DON’T want you around….and i’m SOOO not even thinking about sex with you.”

that’s enough. basically she left the exchange abruptly, and she was crying. the point of this post is that soooo many women are worried about being hot and sexy, BUT….a good man can fuck a hot and sexy woman easily. he just won’t keep her around. but he WILL keep a cool, fun, and giving woman around. the ex took took took took took and i eventually got tired of her. but the woman who’ll win my affection will be a decent woman that puts the same effort into me that i put into her. because if she’s a good woman, i WILL put the effort in. as the saying goes…..

if the sex is good, it’s 10% of the relationship. if the sex is bad, it’s 90% of the relationship. i’d love nothing more than the ladies reading here to work on being great woman, not vixens. i’ll totally fuck a vixen, but i’ll KEEP and fight for a great woman. but being knee-deep in the SMP, i can tell you….most women aren’t concerned with being “great woman”. hell….most of them already thing they ARE great women, yet, have the same mentality the ex had.

i’d seen this commercial a LOOOONG time ago and have been waiting for it to be on youtube. when i first saw it i wanted to slap the phone out the kids hand, then beat the piss out of the dad while yelling, “YER SON’S A FUCKING PUSSY YOU FAILURE!!!!!!” seriously…..if this is what boys are being raised into……we’re fucking doomed.

this weekend i headed south to visit the sister (i had some stuff to drop off and my mom flew in). well, yesterday my sis had a TON of homework to do, mom needed a nap, and the brudduh-in-law went to the gym. that meant one thing: someone had to look after my niece. i scooped her little ass up and headed to the local wing place the fam frequents. now my niece is a ROCK-STAR in this place. ALL the girls that work there know her and love her. all my nieces and nephews rock…seriously. well, my sister’s kid is a special needs child. she’s autistic and has recently began an upswing from lifelong development prohibiting epilepsy. she’s 8 but mentally she’s about 4. we sat down and i ordered for us and the waitress IMMEDIATELY went on to chatting up the niece. after about 15 seconds she finally looked at me and said, “and who are you?” i answered, “ask her who she danced with at disney.” she looked ar my niece and asked and the little-one prattled on about chip-and-dale and the camel that spit on her. all the while the waitress would look back at a smiling uncle. after a few minutes the waitress looked at me and i said, i’m j********’s brother, Danny. the waitress shook my hand and asked, where is she?” i replied, “she has homework, mi-mi needs a nap, k****** is at the gym, and i’m taking my girl out for lunch.” i looked at my niece, “who am i bi-bi?” my niece coo’d, “Ko-Ko- Danny (uncle Danny)”. the waitress let out a, “aaaaaaaaaaw. that’s so cute. very sweet of you to look after her for j*******.” i laughed, “why wouldn’t i, who WOULDN’T want to take this girl out for chicken tenders?” the waitress laughed and agreed. this was TOO easy. wanna see uncle game…….

now, apply this scenario with 5 other waitresses. they talk to my niece then want to know i am and give the EXACT same reaction. the second the waitress asked about me, i reframed it back to the niece. THEN, i told them who i was. it went smooth as silk. i didn’t even really escalate. my sister will do that for me next time she heads in. see, my sis and her hubster are regular’s there, and ALL the waitress love my niece. i’m heading back to Jax in a few hours so i didn’t really hit on the waitress’ but i had them eating out of Ko-Ko Danny’s hand. if i lived out here, i’d clean up. lol. and get this, my niece eat’s food spicier than most of you reading this site. i LOVE it. definitely my family. and she ate her whole plate and 3 of my SPICY jerk wings. sis calls her “moose. lol. don’t believe me……

MUH GIRL. lol. i forgot i uploaded this so…..have some fun watching the finest english staffordshire bull terrier do his thing.

all in all it was a fun weekend. saw the fam, chilled my niece. got lit with the brudduh-in-law (when he and i get together we CARPET BOMB my sis with neg’s. lol) and watched swamp people. today, i’ll take the sis to the air force base so she could look at easter dresses for her child. having a blast, too bad i have to head back north in a few hours. BUT…..spring turkey season starts up in about 10 days, i need to get back in the forest. lol. to be continued…….

today i will be going to 2 extremes with the books. i will be showing my geek side and my romantical/refined side as well. let’s start with the geek shit first.

Alien Vs. Predator: Prey- by Steve Perry.(I SHOULDA BEEN GOOOOOOONE!!!!!!!) and Stephenani Perry. i always dug the alien just kidding, only like the first 2 and predator movies. when the nerd rumor-mill started to speak of a possible AVP film i learned about the books. this one is pretty much the basis for the first AVP movie, but the book is BOSS!!!!! a woman takes a job providing security for a colony on a remote planet. the group finds themselves in the middle of the predator’s (yautja) hunting the aliens. it’s a really good story.

Memories of my Melancholy Whores- Gabriel Marquez’. fuck “Love in the Time of Cholera”, this is a GREAT book. the unnamed protagonist is an un-named journalist and life-long bachelor. he writes for a paper and is isn’t really anything special. on the eve of his 90th birthday he decides to give himself the gift of a night of love with a young virgin. he’s ALWAYS solicited prostitutes. a local madam buys a young, beautiful woman for him. what occurs is him reliving past memories. i’m not going to ruin this for you, but it’s a for over a year he simply watches the young girl sleep. He says, “This was something new for me. I was ignorant of the arts of seduction and had always chosen my brides for a night at random, more for their price than their charms, and we had made love without love, half-dressed most of the time and always in the dark, so we could imagine ourselves as better than we were … That night I discovered the improbably pleasure of contemplating the body of a sleeping woman without the urgencies of desire or the obstacles of modesty.”

DAY-UM!!!!! it’s a good book, and it’s relatively short.

tonight’s music will not feature a band but a subgenre of music: POST-PUNK. post-punk came about…..well, just after the punk scene broke out in the late 1970’s. it found root in the indie scene and spawned: goth, industrial, and alternative music. the last 3 video’s are for…..well, she knows. lol. and yes, i own every album that i’m posting here.

i saw this today and i laughed my ass off. watch the video and we’ll discuss below. oh, this went down in Canada.

anyone care to chime in about what you noticed about her.

what a fucking abomination. that CAN’T be a skirt. good for dad stepping up and telling this walking “fuck me” sign to exercise a little decency. notice how nonchalantly she responds, “stop yelling.” she seems oblivious to the fact that her ass is hanging out. even worse, she’s probably DOESN’T CARE that she has to pull her skirt down every 10 seconds. she circles the pole (probably getting ready for work) which makes her skirt go up which is her non-verbally saying, “LOOK AT ME!!!!! LOOK AT ME!!!!! LOOK AT ME!!!!!” if only her daddy had bought her a pony. what’s funny is if i opened her and made a sexual comment, i’d almost BET she’d act offended “what, do you take me for some kinda canadian slut??!!!” to which i’d have to answer, “why NO, i certainly would pin you to a location. i think in terms of slut-dom….you have INTERNATIONAL potential.”

THIS is what’s become of young women these days. Badger ran a good post about women not wanting to be pretty, but now aiming for “hot”. well, hot is SLUTTY. i’ll fuck a hot girl, but i wouldn’t date her. i’d def bend her savage ass over and give her the business, then she’d never see me again. smh. i don’t know why i’m linking this since he get’s 10 times my traffic and you all have probably already read it. but he’s my boy so here’s some link love buddaaaay.

it’s officially Lent and that means i have to quit chewing my nails for Lent that i can no longer eat meat on fridays. see, i AM a good catholic boy. so i’ll be posting food porn based on non-meat meals. tonight i feature, BBQ Shrimp. now BBQ shrimp is AMAZING!!!! i should also point out fellah’s that it’s a VERY sexy dish to make for a date. you have to eat it with your hands and it’s messy. food+messy+using your hands=TINGLE CRACK. you can cook this in a relatively short time and it can even be ladled over pasta (i prefer linguine or angel hair). i’d recommend making it once with a 1/2 lb of shrimp and 1/4 of the ingredients listed. adjust the worchestershire sauce and seasonings to suit you. then when you cook for her it’ll be battle-ready. you’ll be surprised at how easy it is to make.so….let’s get to it. you need:

2 lbs unpeeled shrimp

1/4 cup Worcestershire sauce

juice of 2 lemons

2-4 teaspoons cajun seasoning (or seasoning salt)

3-6 cloves of chopped garlic (i use 3 TBS of garlic paste….i’m lazy)

2 1/2 sticks os butter, cubed

2-4 TBS cayenne pepper (more or less to taste)

French bread (or a baguette, cut in half…..then cut into 3-4″ slices)

place all the ingredients in a roasting pan (3 qt works fine). you basically want a layer 2 shrimp deep. place the rack in the center of your oven, and place the shrimp under the broiler. cook in 4 minute intervals, remove from oven, stir and place back in the oven for another 4 minutes. it’s usually done after 4 passes in the oven. plate and serve with the french bread slices.

the players

ready for the oven

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this will also be featured on http://chefinjeans.com/ . in case you didn’t know, i’ll be guest posting on this site as well, so check it out and get your cook on.