Dr. Jan Holmes

In our society, love is most often described as a feeling. Because we believe that’s all love is, we often run from relationship to relationship, looking to renew that feeling. While love may be just an emotion at first, it is not consistent. Just like our thoughts, beliefs, and bodies, love changes over time. If we run from one relationship to another looking for the same feeling, then we lose the true beauty of mature and lasting love. Consequently, we miss the opportunities to grow and improve the relationships that we maintain with ourselves and with others.

Dr. Jan Holmes

The Inner Relationship

Humans are naturally inclined to question why, yet we rarely take time to consider why we feel the way we do. Instead, we focus on the substance of our emotions and what we believe we need to appease them. The inner relationship is the first, most important relationship we develop, and it dictates our inner dialogue, which is a driving force behind our emotional development. The more clouded our inner relationship/dialogue, the more complicated and unsatisfying our relationships with others become. The goal of counseling should be to help strengthen this relationship, and thereby allow lasting love to grow individually, as a couple, and as a family.

The Beauty of Growing Love

Connections with others teach us about ourselves, and the power and complexities of our inner relationships. When the feeling of love changes, becomes tainted by animosity, or worse yet, disappears, we may think a relationship is over. However, the change is often just a sign that it’s time to grow. Through counseling, we can learn to recognize opportunities to improve our relationships with others while remaining true to our inner selves.

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My specialty is helping couples, families, step-families, children, teens, and individuals resolve the complications within that hinder the growth of their relationships. Please know that, throughout your counseling, you are the leader and I am your resource. I want you to take full responsibility for what you want to change and work at a pace that is truly your own. If you’d like to set an appointment, call my office in Trophy Club, TX, today at 817-729-7807, or select a service by visiting our online appointment scheduler.

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My passion is helping people resolve the issues that hinder their self-growth and the growth of their relationships. Please know that, throughout your counseling, you are the leader and I am your resource. I want you to take full responsibility for what you want to change and work at a pace that is truly your own. If you’re ready to explore these issues and would like to set an appointment, then call my office in Trophy Club, TX, today at 817-729-7807, or select a service by visiting my online appointment scheduler.