/var/log/messages

free -m

The top row 'used' (85) value will almost always nearly match the top row mem value (90). Since Linux likes to use any spare memory to cache disk blocks (34).The key figure to look at is the buffers/cache row used value (46). This is how much space your applications are currently using. For best performance, this number should be less than your total (90) memory. To prevent out of memory errors, it needs to be less than the total memory (90) and swap space (9).

The si (swap in) and so (swap out) columns show if you have been swapping (i.e. needing to dip into 'virtual' memory) in order to run your server's applications. The si/so numbers should be 0 (or close to it).