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First lady is here for college-bound students — she knows the struggle

First Lady Michelle Obama hosts the 3rd Annual ‘Beating the Odds’ event, welcoming more than 130 college-bound students representing urban, rural, foster, homeless, special needs, and under-represented youth, in the East Room at White House on July 19, 2016 in Washington, DC. Photo by Leigh Vogel/Getty Images

First lady Michelle Obama has your back if you’re a high school student even just thinking about going to college.

The Princeton University graduate knows the importance of education in today’s culture. She also realizes that many high school students aspire to go to college, but often face obstacles that prevent them from enrolling and attending.

“My parents didn’t go to college, and I was one of those kids who was not picked out by my counselors to go to some of the top schools,” Obama said. “In fact, when I applied to my alma mater, Princeton, when I was in high school, my counselor told me I was reaching too high.”

As part of the first lady’s initiatives on higher education, she hosted the third annual “Beating the Odds” Summit for the students who have overcome great odds to get into college. More than 130 college-bound students flooded the White House on Tuesday, where it was all about higher education.

According to the U.S. Bureau of Labor Statistics, 2.2 million freshman students (68.6 percent of all 2008 high school graduates) were enrolled in college as of October 2008.

“We started all these wonderful initiatives because we wanted to make sure that kids like you, who are like me, got all the support that you needed to achieve your dreams,” Obama said. “And having you here at the White House is one of the greatest honors that we have, because we want to show you just how special you are by giving you a day here with a lot of people and a lot of resources.”

The students came from a vast array of life experiences. They traveled from across the country, representing urban and rural areas, foster children, homeless, special needs, and under-represented youth. The commonality between the groups was that they have overcome substantial obstacles to persist through high school and make it to a postsecondary institution.

The opening panel was televised. Reach Higher’s executive director Eric Waldo delivered opening remarks and introduced a panel led by author and BridgeEdU chief executive officer Wes Moore with current college students and recent college grads about best practices for success.

She was joined by U.S. Secretary of Education John B. King Jr., current Washington State University student Rachel McKenzie Scott, who is in Washington State’s Foster Until 21 program, and musical artist Jidenna, who joined Obama this spring at her College Signing Day event in Harlem, New York.

YouTube personality Tyler Oakley moderates the third Annual Beating the Odds event, welcoming more than 130 college-bound students representing urban, rural, foster, homeless, special needs, and under-represented youth, in the East Room of the White House on July 19 in Washington, D.C.

Photo by Leigh Vogel/Getty Images

“I entered foster care when I was 12 years old, after the death of my mother and the abandonment by my father,” Scott said. “I’m currently studying oceanography and marine biology.”

Jidenna attended Stanford University and his parents were immigrants from Nigeria.

“When I originally came to the U.S., my mother came with a couple hundred dollars to her name. I didn’t know we were struggling, because she hid that from me. But it was definitely a struggle to get through life and get through school. And the thing that got me to where I am now, though, is not just talent, it’s not just a hit record, but it actually was my education.”

The first lady dished out four pieces of advice to the students.

The first was to research if their college offered a summer program to help them become acclimated to the campus environment before the start of their freshman semester.

The next is to go to class and be fairly organized.

“When you think about cutting or sleeping in or skipping, nobody is going to be paying any attention to you,” Obama said. “Nobody is going to wake you up. Nobody is going to tell you that you missed anything. You’re going to feel really free.”

The next piece of advice for the students was to take financial aid seriously. “Get to know your financial aid counselors and keep track,” she stressed. “I was an associate dean at the University of Chicago, and so many first-generation students couldn’t finish a semester because they ran out of money. You’re going to get a big fat check, and somebody is going to hand it to you, and you’re going to put it in the bank. And that doesn’t mean you can pay mom’s electricity bill or send money home. Because when you spend that money, it’s gone. The financial aid folks are not going to give you more money because you misspent it.”

The last piece of sage advice from the first lady was not to be afraid to ask for help.

Throughout the day, the students, who are sponsored by 66 nonprofit organizations, participated in workshops and panels. The sessions focused on sharing tools and strategies students can use to successfully transition to college and the resources they will need to complete the next level of their education.

The day concluded with an afternoon performance by Jidenna.

On July 19 in the East Room of the White House, as part of first lady Michelle Obama’s Reach Higher initiative and Better Make Room campaign, musical artist Jidenna performed for over 130 college-bound students.

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Kelley Evans is a general editor at The Undefeated. She is a food passionista, helicopter mom and an unapologetic southerner who spends every night with the cast of The Young and the Restless by way of her couch.