Pls recommend the best home style rather than gourmet restaurants in SF/Napa/Sonoma/Carmel/Monterey/Big Sur. Thx!

We are taking a trip to SF in July with stops in wine country, the Carmel/Monterey/Big Sur area and Yosemite. I am having a hard time gathering dining options. Price is no object but a picky husband is...Dh is a picky eater in the sense that he likes to recognize all the ingredients mentioned on a menu, he's not into veggies and he likes generous portions. I am finding that I cannot even consider taking him to some of what sound like the best restaurants in the area (French Laundry, for example, which I would love to try) because I've seen the menu and he won't eat anything. Please help me find the best of the best in terms of home style restaurants or a wonderful place where I can get something special and he can get a burger. (Myth for example has a burger and fries on the menu so I've added that to our list of possibilities.)