Thanks to everyone else too, we love Suffolk the most I think out of the counties and so will head there, spent ages looking and yet Bucks Farm never came up so perhaps they need to improve their search terms.

Sedgeford Hall in Norfolk used to have a nice pool and parkland to walk in . Also near north Norfolk beaches, we stayed there when ds3 was 3 months.that was some time ago now.It was self catering cottages in grounds .

We would like to go away outside of school holidays in late April/early May for three nights/four days.

Two adults, one toddler. I'd like to be near a beach and have access to a heated indoor swimming pool (toddler benefits from impromptu swimming lessons and I'll be eight months pregnant!). Anywhere with outdoors to play in would be great as toddler needs a lot of exercise and likes little walks out and about.

Usually do self catering and thats pretty much the brief but we're struggling to find anywhere. Can you help?