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Why do people like brunettes over blondes? Tall over short? Thin over fat? Or vice-versa?

Unless you want to sit down with a psychoanalyst, it's going to be hard to define exactly *why* it is that a certain race turns you on...

The best guess I can give, is that there are certain stereotypes that you may hold to be true (even if only on a subconscious level)... maybe it's something you were exposed to as a child, a certain individual perhaps who formed the "template" you now associate with that entire race... could be any number of things.

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Why do people like brunettes over blondes? Tall over short? Thin over fat? Or vice-versa?

Unless you want to sit down with a psychoanalyst, it's going to be hard to define exactly *why* it is that a certain race turns you on...

The best guess I can give, is that there are certain stereotypes that you may hold to be true (even if only on a subconscious level)... maybe it's something you were exposed to as a child, a certain individual perhaps who formed the "template" you now associate with that entire race... could be any number of things.

good point, i wonder why im not attracted to blond guys !!!

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I hate to make generalizations but most Asian fetish guys I meet have low self-esteems and it kinda links to the "template" theory...but then it's kind of different then being attracted to someone just because they have this color hair or this color eyes or what-not. With a race fetish it has more to do with the person and their views about themselves than people who like a certain physical feature on another person.

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Well... yes and no.... I mean, there are certain physical characteristics that tend to be associated with different races... ie, one might like spanish women because they like badonka booty, Swedes b/c they like blondes... that sort of thing.

I take it you're Asian? Related to your observations on low self-esteem... there's always the stereotype that Asian women are subservient... so maybe these guys you've met are looking for a women they think won't be able to dominate them.

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Well... yes and no.... I mean, there are certain physical characteristics that tend to be associated with different races... ie, one might like spanish women because they like badonka booty, Swedes b/c they like blondes... that sort of thing.

I take it you're Asian? Related to your observations on low self-esteem... there's always the stereotype that Asian women are subservient... so maybe these guys you've met are looking for a women they think won't be able to dominate them.

badonka booty... :laugh:

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Yeah I am asian but it literally makes me sick to my stomach to know that I'm getting hit on because they think I might be subservient-- this is all stuff that people have rehashed again and again...But, most asian girls I know are just the opposite of subservient, if anything they're outright dominating and some guys with "asian fetish" find that appealing.

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Yeah I am asian but it literally makes me sick to my stomach to know that I'm getting hit on because they think I might be subservient-- this is all stuff that people have rehashed again and again...But, most asian girls I know are just the opposite of subservient, if anything they're outright dominating and some guys with "asian fetish" find that appealing.

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this doesn't apply just to Asians but what makes a particular race more desireable for a person than another race? Just wanted to read people's thoughts on this--

i think it has to do with there first sexual experience or sexual identification... (not neccassarily intercourse or etc.) what i mean by that is, when going through puberty certain things at different moments stimulated different ppl, and whatever it was for that individual at that time was permenantley pressed into their brain... or similar to pavlovs dogs where theyre just conditioned to certain items... for example possibly if the first time a person masturbates and their in the shower and they see their moms bra or sisters bra etc... they have a lingerie/tittie fetish... or if their first porno was asians and they beat off to then asians are their fetish.. etc. and so on... just my opinion dont know if theres any scientific proof on it however it sounds good...

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for example possibly if the first time a person masturbates and their in the shower and they see their moms bra or sisters bra etc... they have a lingerie/tittie fetish... or if their first porno was asians and they beat off to then asians are their fetish.. etc. and so on... just my opinion dont know if theres any scientific proof on it however it sounds good...

hahh.. that makes sense..but how would u explain guys who are into school girls, and ones with foot fetishes?