- I'm still thinking about Christopher West and the video lecture in which he compares 'theology of the body' sex to the playing of a concert pianist ... he averred that one can't make 'beautiful music' without prior training. I think he's wrong and it reminded me of an episode of Babylon 5 in which neophyte Vir asks Ivanova's advice about sex. She responds ... All I can say is that enthusiasm, sincerity, genuine compassion, and humor can carry you through any lack of prior experience ... :)