Jill Duggar and Derek Dillard communicated online for several months before they met in person and in a new clip from 19 Kids & Counting we get to see what it was like when the two finally saw each other to face.

In a word: awkward! Not only is Derek clearly uncomfortable on camera, he has to meet his longtime girlfriend and his girlfriend's dad at the same time!

So we can't blame Derek for being a bit nervous, not only is he finally seeing his future wife in the flesh, she and her dad flew all the while to Nepal to meet this dude.

To top it all off, Derek finds himself in the unique position of being an instant reality star.

Talk about pressure. Bad enough Derek has to learn the names of his 18 soon-to-be brother and sister-in-laws.

Anyone can fix him lunch, but only one person can meet that physical need of love that he has, and you always need to be available when he calls. - Michelle Duggar on saying yes (yes, and more yes) to sex