THE HAND JOB

I saw a current thread asking about BJs & rimming for novices. Here's one to get started on the art of the hand job, inviting additional contributions and comments.

Some of this can apply to one's own masturbation, as well as to performing on another guy. It's assumed a slick lube will be used, unless the man prefers otherwise. I like lubes with glycerin, from brands like ID and Wet, which are safe with latex condoms.

1. Use a continuous twisting motion of the hand while stroking, both up & down, like turning a motorcycle handgrip. It increases the sensation for most men.

2. Rock & rub the palm across the head (glans), as if polishing it. Moderate the pressure as needed, as this contact can be very intense for some men, especially the uncut. For this reason use the palm only, not the joined fingers.

3. Take a similar "up & over" swipe of the palm across the head to complete each upward stroke of the shaft. Combined with the twisting stroke, it can be very enjoyable.

4. Use the 2-handed "conveyor belt" stroke. You alternate hands, pulling up from the root of the shaft toward the glans. As one hand reaches the head, the other hand is staring from the root again, in a non-stop, 1-way stroking. Your are not jerking back & forth, it's all in the same direction. It's almost like climbing a rope hand-over-hand, or something like milking a cow. With practice you can combine twisting with the up & over swipe, as well.

5. Some men will prefer you "conveyor belt" them in the opposite direction, from top down to root. They may especially want this if they are uncut, since doing all upward strokes may draw the foreskin over their glans, even when erect, reducing sensitivity. Or you may just want to reverse direction periodically for a surprising variety.

twisting doesn't work without lube, being uncut I don't need lube to wank

again no lube, doesn't happen

Yep, as I said: "It's assumed a slick lube will be used, unless the man prefers otherwise." And you introduce a good point, that we should always be attentive to our partner, and what HE wants done to him. These are suggestions to try, as starting points. You go from there...

6. One of my own favorites is the double jerk. One guy lies on his back while the other kneels facing him, straddling him at the hips. The top guy grasps both their stiff dicks together, holding them between his clasped hands, fingers interlocked, thumbs overlapping.

He strokes both lubed cocks as one, co-joined along their length, as they're pressed against each other. This works best if both hard-ons are roughly the same size. Simultaneous orgasms are a special bonus, as the guy on his back takes a double load on his chest & stomach.