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They rally their courage and their resources and they leave. Women leave men with whom they have children, homes and lives. Women leave because their man is not present. They support their family. But they take their wife for granted. You can get as angry or hurt or indignant as you want. Your wife is not your property.

She does not owe you her soul. Day by day, moment to moment. You earn her first and foremost with your presence, your aliveness. She needs to feel it. She wants to talk to you about what matters to her and to feel you hearing her. She wants you to feel her. She wants to feel your passion. Can you feel your passion? Can you show her? Not just your passion for her or for sex; your passion for being alive.

Do you have it? Where did it go? If you never discovered it you are living on borrowed time. Does your mind wander? When you look at her, how deeply do you see her? Look again, look deeper. Meet her gaze and keep it for longer than usual, longer than comfortable. I want to see you deeply. After all these years I still want to know who you are every day. Touch her with your full attention. Before you lay your hand on her, notice the sensation in your hand.

Notice what happens the moment you make contact. What happens in your body? What do you feel? Notice the most subtle sensations and emotions. This is sometimes called mindfulness. How about five minutes? Five minutes each day. Will you commit to that? To be completely open — hearing and seeing without judgement. Will you do that? Trying to grow, fix, change, understand or save your marriage?

I love this and agree wholeheartedly. I am sorry but this is in contradiction with the entire rest of the article. Not just my passion for her, my passion for being alive? Gaming, sports, working with passion and conviction, for some people this is being alive. I find your article truly heartbreaking, sincere, and with passionate beauty in it the subject of the article I mean. But know that passion is selfish. It IS by very definition, a very selfish reason to break your man and family.

Because your man also needs you. Try enjoying it with her instead of living two separate lives, or just express it and have her there sometimes to support you so that she can feel inclusive to your life hobbies.

She should push you and encourage you. For the most part women would only have a problem with your hobbies if your selfish about it. One thing that might help is if the wife tried to show some interest in what her husband enjoys. She might actually grow to like it more then he does. I think you should look at the quote you placed above once more. The article is talking about passion. Having passion for our lives, our selves, and the people around us. It is a personal task that we all must do each day.

People write books about this all the time. Seminars are held all over the world. Many go to counseling to find this passion. Gaming, sports, and work can be taken from you. What is it that keeps you going in life? What makes you get up each day?

Someone could steal your games. You can hurt yourself and not be able to play the sports you love. You can get laid off from you job and not be able to buy games. These questions also apply to me…all of us. What are we passionate about? When we find out, we will be passionate not only with ourselves, but the people we care about. It is not a contradiction. I understand what the author is saying, because I resonate with it.

Having a passion for life is much different to a hobby. My hubby is a keen surfer. Read a surfing mag? Or talk about surfing? Or watch it online?

We all need our vices and space to do our own thing; but when one has a passion for life, the genuinely important stuff becomes a priority and everything else falls away. Sarah, you put that so beautifully. I would love to find a man who can also feel that passion for life, and stay strong with me to keep that going in a very superficial world.

Sarah, you strike me as someone who thinks they have a passion but is just grasping at straws. Look at the things you listed. None of them are actual things you participate with in life. Okay sure you keep breathing air and watching sunrises while your husband travels to find the best surf he can find and lives his life to the fullest. Hobbies definitely ARE passions. Work can be a passion. Poker can be a passion. Building can be a passion.

But so can your children. The animals you take care of at your house or at a shelter you volunteer at can be a passion. The time you volunteered at a soup kitchen and it made you feel passionate. The passion you share with your significant other.

It is truly disturbing to read an article like this and also the comments to see how close minded some people are. Also how selfish they are too. Absolutely, the best comment.. I have it, my husband does not, how do I help him find it? Oh yes Sarah absolutely agree — mine would not miss a beat if I had to die. He has our son, rugby, newspapers, tv and his radio. The end — now what is that? Empty box otherwise but at 56 to start all over again … most of my girlfriends live their own lives and the husbands are not even vaguely aware.

And most importantly the biggest gift of all fathers can give their children is to love their mother — vice versa applies to mothers. Thank you for your brilliant article Justice Schanfarber.

Love the spreading of your first-hand word!! Drink a coffee with her not because u should but because and only if u feel like sitting with her… Not just for the sake of doing it. Sorry if i offended u At the begning of the relationship stop and think how anxious you were to see each other. I bet there was no me time that time.

Justaman, you missed the message. And it is certainly not patronizing you personally, or men generally. And I sense that nothing I could say here would help. We get busy, we have so many responsibilities.

Passion is not selfish in and of itself. It is only when a human polarizes it in their actions to an extreme when it can become selfish. I am passionate about playing the piano. So I dole it out in small parcels when I feel the strong desire to do it. Its a selfish place to be. This article was written by someone who has worked with enough failed relationships with decent people, to want to share it with others who want to not end up a statistic. Unless she actually matters to you.

Just remember though, that this article is not gender specific. The author clearly states that at the bottom of it. My wife has often mention such things as described in the article and I take full responsibility for not fulfilling such simple things required of me. She mentions my lost sense of adventure which she craves and I have had to work hard at bringing back the things that attracted her to me.

I failed time and again and she engaged in affairs which broke me and almost broke us altogether. See her always as the object of your attraction and tell her often what you think of her and be appreciative of her and who she is to you and mostly, show her.

That is, if you want to keep her. Wow your comment actually blew my mind, to think that anyone is so self involved that they would argue this point is astounding. I like my video games, time with the boys, and a drink now and then, but i appreciate my wife and only feel fully alive when our connection is expressed. The love of a companion, a family, is the most fullfilling feeling in the world. Maybe you feel alive when tending to your hobbies because they fill the hole that your wife should be filling.

Maybe you dont love her as much as you trick yourself into thinking you do. This piece is beautifully written, the point is not to abandon your passions, but to make each other, one of them.

When I feel seen, heard and connected I have no problem with being seperated from my partner as we pursue our individual interests. There lays the irony. And what if your man is never present is that ok? My sister was with a man for 7 years, and while yes women and men do need their own hobbies and interests, this guy was plain and simply not there for her.

Never present unless hd wanted something from her, never there unless the purpose served him and his needs. Never there when she needed him the most. Allowed other people to come into their home and attack her emotionally and mentally. Now tell me is that ok. I think that was only one part of it. This was about exploring yiur partner which should in no way hinder you job, friends time alone or respect. Loving life makes for a happier demeanour which women pick up on.

I find your response truly heartbreaking! Telling men to be alive is exactly the advice I would want my husband to hear. You can have the golfing, gaming, fishing, or whatever likes and hobbies you enjoy doing. If you want a good wife as well, I believe you need to be alive and passionate! I mean think about it…. My husband has a game he likes to play on his phone. Serious game happens often in our house with an 8 and 12 year old boys too!

I want my husband and my boys to do things let LOVE to do! All I ask of my husband and boys is for they same attention. In our case, wanting to to the best we can for our boys and to just be happy with all the good and bad that life throws at us! We want to feel like you are proud of the person you chose to spend this precious life with, not a burden or someone you settled for!

But I think a man owes it to either show up and do work for your girl, or pick that sack up and go be a man without her. My man is very much happier if left to his own devices like games, renos and watching sports. Plus one aspect might involve including your wife in your passion if it takes a large chunk of your time.

I occasionally attend board game nights with my husband if they are not doing an rpg campaign. My passion is hiking and the outdoors. I think this article is great. Not to criticize you or anything but I feel you are only hung up on one sentence of the article and missed the whole point.

Both in the fitness industry and he owned a small gym. I KNEW she liked this guy more than a friend. But my mind KNEW she was testing this guy as my replacement. And I was working a terrible job with a womanizer, whom I butted heads with, full time. So at this time I needed MY partner to be there for me.

If I spoke at all negatively about my life then she would scold and lecture me how I am distancing us. That I am no longer on her level. Mind you, just 10 months prior I got a vasectomy for us, 2 years earlier we adopted a dog together, she always told her family and friends how amazing I was to her and how I am very patient and giving. This quickly spiraled after the new guy started working his money and mind magic on her.

He was at a higher financial level but was known for using women I spoke to his ex, whom he left RIGHT after meeting my girlfriend. And he knew of our history but she would confide in him how I was worrying her due to my sudden unhappiness. I was unhappy because SHE was not a partner anymore! Once she found the next best thing she abandoned me and went full time to worrying about she could do for HERSELF, her finances, her new business, and his gym.

Needless to say, 5 months later I was gone. She flew him up to meet him a mere 2 months after me leaving her sight. The issue NOW is that people are extreeeeemly self-absorbed. Everyone is out for themselves and too few love for LOVE. It is starting to be a dying art and it is sad. This new guy leaving his girlfriend and steeping into swoon mine, knowing our loving history, to then go meet her family only 2 months later also shows he is just like her.

He only cares about himself. He gets what he wants, at all costs. And she will learn this the hard way. She ruined any love I have for her and she may never be loved as much as I loved her. And that is too bad for her. We are all entitled to be passionate about our interests. She deserves to feel wanted, listened to, interesting.

Forget marriage — make it an eternal date. No one wants to feel like they are taken for granted. What a fabulous article. It was a very clear flag for men to pay attention to the ONE thing that seems to come up time and time again. As for finding passion… do the opposite of what you did to lose it.

Likely you both got comfortable. She is doing her comfort zone thing and you yours and poof.. But challenge, adversity, adventure are the things that can pull together even the most bored and restless souls. Get in the car and agree to find a city miles away without a map. Land in a new country with a different language and do it without hotel reservations. We do this at least every two years rather than buying new TVs and toys and dammit.. We have stories … memories that we constantly work to build together.

Yup I do less tinkering than the average girl with my hobbies and he his… way less golf and TV Sports.. When we tell our stories to friends we laugh and hold hands..

I agree with Andrea. Because you never know what pushes the women into that mode. For example I know of a friend who built a safety technology, single handedly, for a high accident rate zone for a particular kind of industry.

It became a moral obligation for him to deliver it to as many companies as possible. He know she missed her dad and he decided no child should ever undergo the pain of losing its dad to some accident at the factory. Obviously, his GF missed the whole point of his maneuver to deliver it to as many factories as possible.

She failed to see every good thing the guy did. She failed to see that he wont be getting anymore salary than what his contract said. She pushed him to decisions, and then made him go with them. Asked him to stand with her on those decisions, in the process guy lost all his personal powers and freedom to practice.

The guy is still alone at the factories and traveling across cities delivering things to those factories. His GF is still kind of under the same mode. I agree with this article but I think that there is a paradox involved with domestic life. You eat a safe, responsible, adult partner who comes home every night but then at the same time you want Don Juan Demarco to sweep you off your feet.

Men believe they show their love through being responsible men that take care of year families. If you let someone else sweep you off your feet, when your in a committed relationship, you are a total jerk face. I am independant and can provide for myself. The article urges men to make at least 5 minutes a day to really see their wife.

The author understands life gets us in a rut but we need to work with what we got to get through it. Yes, i agree with you that communication is key.

He asks me this from time to time- In a different kind of way but I get it. Thats actually an interesting article. I fear I may be guilty of this. We are always together, I am a rather sensative man althoug she would disagree but I do sometimes take for granted her presence.

I truly do love my wife but we have this disconnect when it comes to our emotions entangled on the same level. She gets hurt, which sometimes I can be an ass but also sometimes I have no clue. She is really hurt and we have been rounds and rounds and the hurt is deep sometimes both ways. Am I just totally lost here!!??? I have a similar scenario. In my case the mismatch was that she was overly emotional while I would bottle things up. The key is to identify this discrepancy clearly and make both parties aware of it as a dynamic.

Then you both work to meet in the middle. Being compatible with someone means that you actually get along well on a day to day basis and have similar goals which allow you to align your lives and future plans in an harmonious way.

It can be extremely confusing and endlessly hurtful for both parties to be in a relationship that is loving but essentially incompatible.

Always being together is also a problem: Women are often insecure compared with men within a relationship. Your response is very rational and analytical. I tire at these simplistic views of women as givers, emotional nurturers, etc. This article seems to be based on that simplistic premise. They can shell out the hurt and the selfishness every bit as much as men. To the women who came forward and owned your part of your own selfishness in this conversation I thank you, and I admire you.

Or am I wrong? Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus. Can we also get an article why men leave women they love? I believe this works both ways. Women who do this are not meant to be married, yet they like the concept of being married to avoid being lonely. Emotionally stunted women have been habituated to Disney like stories and relationships.

Men work to provide for the women, but women leave men for not being a provider; they also leave men for working too much too. Hammerman you hit the nail right on the head. And yes avoid them like the plague they will only damage you. I find that narcissistic people.. For my part, and I sense this is true of most men…, when she left me, then I realized that I had not LED in a way that she could get behind.

Yes…, we men are scared. You women area scary to lead. One day it appears you want one thing, the next day another. I swat myself figuratively on the back of the head because I missed it! Sure, I had and have, zest for life. She's closed her bubble even further. It is heartbreaking to see because she is such a FINE person inside.

Few will ever know her like I do and did…, yet she can't see that for the broken-heartedness. I love and miss her so…. Don't be afraid to show her your weakness. THEN realize it is not a 'flaw' per se! No…, it is the condition of mankind. THAT is sexy as hell to a man! She's there…, and she'll bend heaven-and-hell for you, if you securely bring HER to the fore.

You are 'up' for the 'hunt'. It is IN you to do so. Compete with yourself instead of at the golf game! Selfishness, in its' many iterations, has no place in a love relationship. Nice try on the 'these-are-my-likes, my-hobbies-and-you-should-respect-them'. That couldn't be more self-focused. I'm sorry my response was so long…. What I need is a partner, someone to walk beside me and treat me as an equal, someone who respects me, not someone who expects me to get behind them.

There are so many assumptions in your speech, about others that you just assume share your religious beliefs for one, but also a multitude of assumptions about your wife. How could you be married to someone for nearly 30 years and know so little about her? I think you spent years ignoring what she was trying to tell you, and if you were truly being honest with yourself, you would admit you know exactly why she left. I wish every man felt this way — thanks for the hope.

So sorry , it saddens me that people give up after 30 years. I still believe true love always come back you, even if I cant see it right now.

We are definitely a product of our upbringing, and so many people have so many of their own fears and demons to overcome, most people are too afraid of themselves to go there with another person, but eventually it all comes out. Easy to say these things, very different to do them. A relationship is a two-way street. No one is going to be your mommy and devote their whole heart to you again.

Learn to be a little independent and manage your own emotional needs before committing to another person, step 1. My family is near eastern and we have many arranged marriages within my family, including my happily married parents of over 30 years.

Has it been easy for them? A little weakness, neediness and co-dependence all well-disguised at sale of course is what keeps people together. Truly strongly independent people are a little intimidating to the rest of the world. The trouble is not sex gender but human. We tend to take for granted. All too often, we may live with people we initially loved but after a while we treat them as part of the furniture. Another fair comment is that we again, all humans are highly prone to believe in the Fairy Tale, whether it is the Ken-and-Barbie fantasy of the young girl or the whatever of the man.

Easier said than done, but try to see your partner as he really is, not as you want him to be. Are you hoping to change someone?

Very few are born with silver spoon now where they have money given from family to not have to work to jobs just for basics of living. I bet the men who quit there jobs to be with their woman more often have just as many break ups because then the woman says he does nothing even if it is with her all the time. No winning in relationships unless both people know their roles……….. Whether lonley, bored, no hobbies. So long as your unhappy your man will be as well. So many people look to this article to excuse the inexcusable.

They lack discipline, morality and common decency. Life is not about having everything all the time and expecting others to do all the work. Working at something for reward further down the line and taking good times with the bad.

Todays society does actibely discourages this. Before you cheat show your spouse the respect they deserve by facing them and airing the issues. For either a man or a woman to leave a person they love is a character flaw, a failure, and a mistake. But there is never an excuse for a woman or a man to leave someone they love, without any danger or threat or harm, just out of feeling wanderlust or grumpy or the glass is half full or the grass might be greener somewhere else.

The attitude of treating people like styrofoam cups — crumple it up and throw it away whenever it suits your convenience — is a deep, deep, deep profound moral cess pool, a severe character flaw. After 15 years, I confronted my husband with the problems and with what I needed. The same conversation that we had over and over again. But this time, I gave him an ultimatum. I began to fall out of love that day.

I began to go in to myself and, I believe, emotionally left the marriage, piece by piece, step by step, starting that day. Eventually, several years later, I was swept off my feet by another man and physically left the marriage. The day that I decided to leave physically, my husband promised change. He promised all of those things that I had been asking for years from him. The tragedy was that it was too late. The love was gone. Never in my life did I think that I had the capacity to be unfaithful.

Several people have said that same thing that you say: This is trying to live. What alot of you people never seem to do before you get married is talk about your view on marraige.

Cheating on a spouse leaving a spouse is never validated. Your not in love with him or nor do you love him because of you did you would have never left him for another man regardless his flaws. People need to understand that no one is perfect and every piece of satisfaction we want from our spouses may not come. Not mistakes, not arguments but death.

We expect to much out of people rather than recognizing what they already do. We all as people need to be ready to accept imperfect people before we marry them and that was your mistake not his. Instead you were deceitful and cowardice. You accepted his terms, you took him and accepted him. You went behind his back and betrayed him. Your comment discounts abusive relationships.

There are intractable people out there. Sometimes leaving a person you love is exactly the right thing to do.