Just Jane: Kiss & tell idiot blabs down pub

Just Jane: Kiss & tell idiot blabs down pub

ACTION REPLAY: She’s angry that he shares their intimate moments with his football mates

I can’t trust him to keep his gob shut and I’m getting increasingly angry.

Every Thursday night he goes to football training and then out to the pub with his mates. He drinks too much, gets carried away with himself and then shoots his mouth off.

He brags that he’s having the best sex of his life and that I’m the rudest girl he’s ever known. All very flattering, perhaps, but do I really want the clientele of the Rose and Crown to hear about my screaming orgasms and love of sex toys?

No, I don’t. He’s even shown films of us in action and pictures he’s taken of me modelling just for him.

How do I know this? Because my best friend is his cousin. He sees and hears everything and then reports back to me. I’m a strong, modern woman and I am not ashamed of anything we do, but it’s not for public consumption. If I wanted my naked body spread out for all to see, then I’d try and make myself some money on the internet. The reason I don’t is that I like to keep things private.

The other thing is that it’s really embarrassing when we all go out in a group because I’m aware that everyone has been talking about us. There is a really unpleasant woman (the wife of the football team captain) who considers herself the Queen Bee.

She’s always looking down her nose at me and making sarcastic comments about my “raging libido”. My guy maintains that I should be proud of myself and that he’s not going to play down the good times we enjoy for anyone.

But I don’t like it. Maybe I am uptight, but I don’t approve of kiss and tells. How do I get him to understand that he needs to respect my position and start being more discreet?

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JANE SAYS: It worries me that you’ve asked your man to stop blabbing, yet he continues to take no notice of you. Doesn’t he hear what you’re saying?

Doesn’t he respect your position? Or does he simply not care? You have made it abundantly clear that you don’t like him talking about your sex life. You find it humiliating and plain wrong.

Yet he still doesn’t take you seriously. Obviously, he is very chuffed that he’s managed to nab such a great girl. But there have got to be some things that aren’t for public consumption.

He has to be told, one final time, that you don’t want him discussing your sex life with anyone. Sit him down and tell him that this is a serious, make or break moment.

Explain that you have to be able to trust him. Insist that he stops blabbing. Now.

Warn him that if you hear one more piece of gossip, then it’s over for good.

Sadly, if he disappoints you one last time, then he will have to be shown the door, because you cannot continue to be intimate with someone who is not supporting you.