1. “When she comes home after a workout and her little front pieces of hair are curled around her face from her sweat, she looks like a little hot mess and I love it.” – Ron, 29

2. “I absolutely love watching my girlfriend brush her teeth, I have no idea why but it always turns me on a little. Maybe because she’s got something so innocent in and out of her mouth and I wish it was something else. Either way, it turns me on.” – Hamish, 26

3. “I get turned on watching her pick her wedgie, is that weird?” – Jason, 24

4. “She turns me on when she cooks me breakfast, especially when it’s the weekend and she just rolled out of bed in a t-shirt. She has no idea how sexy she makes bed head look.” – Lincoln, 30

5. “I love watching her read, it’s so fascinating watching her eyes move back in forth under glasses. She’s like watching a hot nerd at the library.” – Garrett, 27

6. “I love when she finally stops stressing out about everything and just has fun, it reminds me why I fell in love with her before all the realities of life hit us in the face.” – George, 31

7. “When were laying in bed talking and she starts tracing my arm, it’s an amazing sensation and it never fails to turn me on.” – Brad, 23

10. “I love the way she gets so excited about things, she just lights up with the biggest smile on her face and seeing her happy is enough to turn me on.” – Matt, 25

11. “When my girlfriend is having a conversation with someone else and I catch her looking at me out the corner of her eyes and flash a smile, that’s such a turn on and it reassures me that she’s all mine.” – Shawn, 24

12. “When she begs, everyone gets turned on by a girl that begs.” – Paul, 27

13. “I love when my girlfriend gets embarrassed, I think it’s so funny because she thinks it’s a huge deal but it never really is and I still love her despite it.” – Jarred, 29

You look back and you just feel stupid.
You can’t forgive yourself for falling
or believing all the lies.
You reread every text.
You relive every memory.
And it all starts making sense —he never wanted love.
He only wanted attention.
He only wanted validation.

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