Army Reserve sergeant is legally married while at work, but not at home

Army Reserve sergeant is legally married while at work, but not at home

"Thom Kostura and his husband take lots of road trips, and each time they cross a state line they make a game of declaring “We’re married!” or “We’re not married!” – depending on whether the state recognizes same-sex marriage.

“I wish we could register for gifts every time we cross a state line,” Kostura cracks.

A similar situation occurs every time Sgt. 1st Class Ijpe deKoe leaves the Millington, Tennessee, base where he serves in the Army Reserve. On base, his marriage to Kostura is recognized. At home in Memphis, it isn’t."

Alpha13 saidThe source of the free health care insurance for the spouse is the only thing that really matters. Right?

If it is a benefit extended to straight couples, why not to gay? Also, there are many other legal status that marriage affords couples that should not be denied gay couples - hospital visitation for one.