Being French for male readers: A key to heavens’ door?

Okay, let me say first that I’m really addressing men in this article, even if I already and a little sadly know that women will be the main audience.

Yesterday, I had my first online interview about Being French with Chloe Jeffreys from Generation Fabulous, and it brought back this recurrent topic of a big gender difference about the appetite or simple interest in reading self helping books about life style, marriages and romance or even sex life. We know that men generally don’t read these books, and sincerely, even if I really wrote Being French for both genders, I still had to mentally integrate that my audience would be massively feminine, and that’s exactly what happened.

About that, I share in the interview something that I always knew: While you can always talk any sentimental issue with a woman, and trust that she will sense the feeling you’re sharing with her, you surely cannot await the same, anytime, from a man. I’ve personally met a lot of these men, and I was happy to hear Chloe confirming that she has met them too. They just don’t have a clue of what you are talking about. Tender obsession, tears of joy, heart skipping a beat, none of these are even remotely ringing a bell for them. So, no surprise that all these books mainly written by women, and addressing seduction, love, romance and other matters of the heart, are not often seen on their bedside table, assuming of course that you had a chance to see any book in that place!

Now if I may address a stage whisper to my brothers, may I say that Being French is not really the same kind of book. Being French is not a book about Love and Romance, Being French is a book about Sex – a book about having a sensual life really worthy of the name. Hey, are we not, suddenly, on something more universally desirable there? A good sex life is what millions and millions of Western people need and are obviously craving but are still massively deprived of. In Being French I give insights and even keys to make that happen. And the good news is that, now that I have readers and positive feed back from them, I can even claim that it works! But okay, saying that to women I know that I’m already preaching to the choir. So let me tell men how they can benefit from reading Being French in the goal of improving their sex life.

First I’d like to take advantage of Chloe’s words in the interview, because of the wish she expressed that her husband would read Being French, I’ve heard it so many times. And it sounds a little like “Omg! If my husband could understand this and be more like that, it would be so wonderful!” So why not taking the hunch, go see what’s desirable for them inside the book, and share some happy epiphanies with your wives or partners?

And what about knowing more about seduction? So many men fail or have poor results in that department because they just are aliens to what a feminine world is. Being French gives precious insights about that. Some of my readers may be ignoring that some of the women they really wanted, escaped, not because they were not enough appealing to them, but because their clumsiness made them behave like a bull in a China shop. Shocking them, hurting their feelings, having real “turn off” attitudes, provided you learn how to dodge all of these, different outcomes may occur.

Now, gentlemen, what if, in Being French, I was simply giving you the keys to heaven’s doors, no less! If you love women the way I do, I don’t think we’ll disagree on where heaven’s doors can be found here on Earth. On my own end, I could never imagine any better earthly paradise than what happens when a beautiful woman indulges, at last, in our wildest erotic dreams to make them come true. I know that many men believe that certain dreamy erotic behaviors only belong to specialized books and films – having this sense that real women don’t indulge in these very naughty moves that would blow their minds. But it’s simply false, they do! Or should I say, they want to do so. What do you believe? Women have the exact same appetite for naughtiness that you have! Some of you could even find them a little bit outrageous in their fantasies. The question is: What makes you stand behind the doors of this erotic promise land, and so rarely see what can be unleashed once you’d be allowed passed the threshold of women’s unbridled naughty fantasies? Is it possible to be admitted there? Yes it is! And Being French delivers precious experiences, confidences and insights about that.

Now, if I told you the ins and outs right now, what a terrible seller I would be. Sorry gentlemen, you’ll have to read it to know.