Anyone who has been in a relationship can tell you that relationships are never easy. They all have highs and lows. Before getting into a relationship it's important to know what is required for a relationship on both sides. Theresa E. DiDonato Ph.D., a contributor writer for Psychology Today, has some guidelines that could help you find love.

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