A writer-mom's life is filled with a million and two distractions; sometimes she finds herself at the park, WRITING ON THE SIDEWALK

I Get By With a Little Help From My Friends

For me writing is a pretty solitary activity. Some writers like to work with others in the room, it motivates them to stay on track. I personally have an easier time writing in a fairly silent room, without the distraction of video games or kids playing in the background. In the movies, writers are usually portrayed as loners, sitting in some remote mountain cabin tapping away at their keyboard. When I am faced with a deadline, I can see the beauty in this, and then I realize that I would probably wish my family was there to enjoy the mountains with me. What’s a writer mom to do? Sigh.

I also know that while that solitary mountain cabin might sound like a great idea, I also need others to help me process ideas, or help fill plot holes. I have a small group of people who help me by reading my stories, make plot suggestions and catch my many spelling and grammar errors. While I don’t always follow all of their ideas, I know I couldn’t write without them.

In a recent post I mentioned that I have entered into “Marketing Phase I” for my book. Part of this included asking others for their opinion of my story. This was a very uncomfortable experience for me because I was putting myself out there, but with a little help from my friends, I was able to compile a list of testimonials that my editor was very pleased with.

So this is a little shout out to my friends and family. Thanks for the help, I really appreciate it, and I know I couldn’t do it without you.

You also my want to check out this great site- www.inkygirl.com. She has great comics and articles for writers.