We both have great ideas but I'm the one who researches products and orders things. Sometimes we just forget about certain things, though. We bought a bondage rope a year ago and still haven't used it! We're too horny to plan ahead

We are both creative... I have more time on my hands to plan things, but he does when he can and when he does, O-M-G is all I can say, lol... I think that's why we always did have such sexual chemistry b/c we think so much alike...

I'd like to believe it's 50/50, but probably more like 60/40. He's more apt to talk about it and then do it and I just think about it and do it. We're both pretty vocal compared to a lot of other couples I have met in life.

For us it's about even. We both have different things that push our buttons and different fantasies, so we each have our own ideas of things to try. What I like so much is that we're both open to talking about any idea, and even if the other person's idea isn't our personal fantasy we're pretty much both up to trying it, at least for the other person's enjoyment.