The goal is to practice servant leadership, givefirst, pay-it-forward business networking. You do that by asking someone, "how can I help you?" "Who is a good referral for you?" "What does a homerun client look like?" But you can also do that by asking "What are you passionate about?" The focus is on the other you are talking to and the best outcome is that you know someone in the room that they need to meet and you drag them across the room to meet them then and there.