He is just not that into you (P2)

love cures commitment phobia
don’t spend your time on and give your heart to any guy who makes you wonder about anything related to his feelings for you
if you don’t feel like you’re rushing, why are you waiting?
there’s a guy out there who wants to marry you

Chapter 8 He’s Just Not That Into You If He’s Breaking Up With You

“i don’t want to go out with you” means just that
always be classy. Never be crazy
a breakup is a definitive action, not a democratic one
breakup sex means you’re still broken up
cut him off. Let him miss you

Chapter 9 He’s Just Not That Into You If He’s Disapppeared On You

sometimes you have to get closure all by yourself
there’s nothing worse than hving no answer. No answer is your answer.
don’t give him the chance to reject you again
there’s no mystery-he’s gone and he wasn’t good enough for you

Chapter 10 He’s Just Not That Into You If He’s Married (And Other Insane Variations Of Being Unavailable)

if you’re not able to love fully, it’s not really love
he’s married
unless he’s all yours, he’s still hers
don’t be that girl

Chapter 11 He’s Just Not That Into You If He’s A Selfish Jerk, A Bully, Or A Really Big Freak

if you really love someone, you want to do things to make that person happy
you are the catch
life is hard enough as it is without choosing someone difficult to share it with

“If you can find him, then he can find you. If he wants to find you, he will.”

“Men don’t forget how much they like you, so put down the phone.”

“Calling when you say you’re going to call is the very first brick in the house you are building of love and trust. If he can’t lay this one stupid brick down, you ain’t never gonna have a house, baby. And it’s cold outside.”

“A man who wants to make a relationship work will move mountains to keep the woman he loves. If he’s not calling you to tell you he loves you and wants you back, it should only be because he’s showing up at your new residence to do it in person… if he’s not doing any of that, he may love you, he may miss you, but ultimately he’s just not that into you. Stop taking his calls and let him know what it’s like to live without you.”