What do you do on days when you’re too lazy or sleep-deprived to get cosy, but your man isn’t? Follow our guide to getting intimate without the extra effort.

Have mirror sexLean up your bedroom mirror opposite the bed and let him get on top of you. The moment he starts getting into the mood, turn his attention to your reflection in the mirror. It’s an easy trick to turn him on without having you breaking into a sweat.

Mutual masturbationPropose a joint shag session to your partner. Say that it turns you on to watch him pleasure himself. Position your bodies at such an angle that you both can see each other but your hands are free to go solo. If he’s feeling neglected, touch his body at intervals. Watching each other’s reactions while getting off is a sure-fire turn-on.

Side-by-side positionWith the side-by-side position, you both can have relaxed sex while lying down next to each other. One variation of this position is to lie flat on your back and lift one leg to let him enter from the side while. He enters you from the side and slightly behind you while straddling your leg. You don’t need to do much here!

Don’t go all the wayGet an adrenaline rush with an intense make-out the way teenagers do without actually having intercourse. Lay down next to him, tease him, French kiss and nuzzle his neck. It doesn’t require too much energy, but builds anticipation and hence arousal.

Shower togetherNot only is taking a bath together a pleasurable experience, it’s a great way for lazy girls to get clean. Soap up each other’s erogenous zones and gently massage them under warm water for a sensual rendezvous. Rest your back against the bathroom wall and let him sit between your legs for a relaxing soap massage.

Comfort sexAsk him to enter you from the back while he spoons you, so you can feel the warmth of his entire body while getting it on at the same time.

Keep the clothes onIndulge in intimate foreplay through some sultry rubbing, with your clothes on. Use his penis like a vibrator; let him get on top of you so that it stimulates your clitoris. There’s more good news: rubbing without intercourse is known to give women orgasms!

Hand-gigsA hand job is a good old-fashioned solution for the times you’re not quite in the mood but your partner is. For assistance, use a water-based lubricant that won’t irritate his skin.

Mutual masturbationPropose a joint shag session to your partner. Say that it turns you on to watch him pleasure himself. Position your bodies at such an angle that you both can see each other but your hands are free to go solo. If he’s feeling neglected, touch his body at intervals. Watching each other’s reactions while getting off is a sure-fire turn-on.