Not being skilled in flirtation is a sign of character, nothing to be ashamed of.

I have to disagree. Why settle for being inadequate in an aspect that could be important to your social interactions. It may not come naturally to our types, but I always like to identify ways I can improve and they work on them.

I really don't find flirting to be that hard. Usually it's the guy or girl that approaches me, since apparently acting detached and 'hard to get' is very attractive to a lot of people.

If I want to be with someone and they don't know me or aren't pursuing me yet, I can turn on the charm. It's a learned skill, just like anything else. My current boyfriend I found on Facebook. He was hot and had similar interests, so I emailed him for a while and we began dating a few weeks later.

SO - flirting and meeting people shouldn't be difficult for us. Just approach it as a sociological project that you can learn from and perfect your technique.

I think you guys are underestimating your seduction powers ; You might be cold, but you're all soft and SQUISHY inside.

Hah, how did that make you feel? That's right. SQUISHY! (Fun to play with*)

Though really, I don't think you need to promise yourself to flirt once a day. That's like telling an ENFP to follow their schedule once a day. Not going to happen. Usually better results are yielded when you're just you!

I've been told before that I'm flirty, but I never do it intentionally except with my guy. I'm pretty playful by nature, though. To those who don't know me well, my playfulness can come across sometimes as mean-spirited, but I'm not that at all.

With my guy, sometimes I like to say something deliberately shocking. The reaction is fun.