I don't play drums, but am the mother and grandmother of drummers!!!! It is a very happy house! My late mother used to let my brother's entire drum section into his bedroom to practice their paradiddles. I call that being a really good sport!
We live in Northern California and love jazz. Teach your or somebody's kids about jazz...get them early!! Support jazz in the schools. Donate any instruments you don't use to your local schools. The band director will love it!