tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-63888775338656300242014-10-06T20:21:47.229-07:00NotesContained in this blog are observations, rants and opinions from a reluctant cat lady professional volunteer livng in a very foreign country.
The above-mentioned observations, rants and opinions in no way reflect those ofthe US Peace Corps, the government of the United States of America, the Republic of Moldova, or any other entity or person who might mistakenly believe I speak for them.The Waygukinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16659443709660010673noreply@blogger.comBlogger13125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6388877533865630024.post-54788000262905726922011-12-13T18:51:00.001-08:002011-12-28T11:06:51.246-08:00Why I’m going (or coming) homeI have been living abroad for the past fifteen years. I have obviously not loved every minute of it, but there are only a few I might trade. There were some bad experiences with taxi drivers, some out-houses I’d rather forget and many moments which have left the building already. Overall though, I learned a lot, taught a lot, laughed and cried a lot, made friends and generally had a ball. I’d do it over again in a hometown minute. So, why am I here on the cusp of leaving Europe and the East to go back to California? Simple. I need time to think and I spend too much time “living” abroad to spare what I need to process the last fifteen years. Living in a foreign country uses up a lot more “free time” than living in the land of the free and the home of the brave. Here’s good example. About a month ago, I forgot to pay my gas bill. I had the money; I just kept not paying it, because it meant going to the post office or a local bank, standing in line with the other pensioners and actually giving money to a person who stamps your bill and returns it to you. This can take upwards of an hour, depending on the time of day and month. Near the end of the month when due dates are looming usually means half an afternoon. When I got the shut-off notice, my woeful language skills allowed me to get the message: pay in five days or we cut you off. So I went to the ATM for cash and freed an afternoon to go pay the bills. I had gotten a tip that the main post office was always less crowded, so I hopped on the rute and went downtown, about a 20 minute journey plus or minus 10 minutes waiting for the bus. The main PO was indeed, not crowded. I got in line and prepared my stack of “notele” and cash and waited. When my turn came, after about 10 minutes, I greeted the clerk and handed her my bills and money. She took them, paid one and gave the over-due gas bill back. I should say she threw it back, with none of the minimal politeness Americans have come to expect from a civil servant. I asked why I couldn’t pay it and she snarled, “Veche!” This literally means “old”. Because I’ve lived here for three years and could hear the nuances, I understood her to mean that because the bill was a shut-off notice, I had to pay it at the gas company, and just how stupid could I be , even for a foreigner, not to know this little bit of information about my (foster) country. Using another one of my paltry supply of useful Romanian adverbs, I asked where the gas company was located. She didn’t answer, of course, because she’d gotten a call from her bf or bff and was ignoring all the patrons. At least I didn’t feel singled out. I did, however, spend several hours doing a task which takes about three minutes to do in the US. And if I’m ever going to figure out why I haven’t stayed in one place, why the question, “Where are you from?” always makes me hesitate while I run through the possible answers to find the most appropriate, or at least the one which causes the least discomfort to the questioner; while most people I know can say a simple place designator and I have to give a suitably brief version of my life story; I know I have to do it in my native tongue. See yaThe Waygukinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16659443709660010673noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6388877533865630024.post-52038826369119016862011-05-31T13:21:00.000-07:002011-05-31T13:21:27.370-07:00<a href='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-dWHDLFEoc2k/TeVNxiZQeQI/AAAAAAAAACQ/8w4OEfAFji0/s1600/228100_10100410072702819_814870_57561301_3671267_n.jpg'><img src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-dWHDLFEoc2k/TeVNxiZQeQI/AAAAAAAAACQ/8w4OEfAFji0/s320/228100_10100410072702819_814870_57561301_3671267_n.jpg' border='0' alt=''style='clear:both;float:right; margin:0 0 10px 10px;' /></a>&nbsp;<div style='clear:both; text-align:RIGHT'><a href='http://picasa.google.com/blogger/' target='ext'><img src='http://photos1.blogger.com/pbp.gif' alt='Posted by Picasa' style='border: 0px none ; padding: 0px; background: transparent none repeat scroll 0% 50%; -moz-background-clip: initial; -moz-background-origin: initial; -moz-background-inline-policy: initial;' align='middle' border='0' /></a></div>The Waygukinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16659443709660010673noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6388877533865630024.post-59617922963385116392011-05-25T23:11:00.001-07:002011-06-06T02:49:50.219-07:00Chișinău, Orașul MeuLiving in the capital during my three years in Moldova has sometimes made me feel that I was missing something of the "Peace Corps Experience." I'm not in a remote village, carrying my water, riding in horse-drawn carts and pitching in with the grape harvest and wine-making. Integrating into the community for me has meant learning to navigate the public transportation system and smiling at my neighbors in the elevator. I don't get invited to weddings or baptisms and I've never celebrated Easter by going to the cemetery and having a picnic with departed relatives. However, as I begin my last three months in-country, I realize that I've been able to share something important with my Moldovan community: their love for their city and their pleasure in living in the greenest city in Europe.<br /><br />Chișinău is not a large city, 750,000 or so, but every one of the five districts has a huge park, with lakes and forests. All are easily accessible on foot or public transportation. There isn't an "old town" because the city was heavily bombed during WWII, but there are old trees and a botanical garden where couples come to take wedding photographs.<br /><br />Like most post-soviet countries, there are huge blocks of apartments built for utility rather than beauty, but there are always trees. Children play on monkey bars, but they also climb trees and jump in pile of leaves in the fall. The city is hot in the summer, but in Chișinău, people leave their apartments and sit outside under ancient shade trees. <br /><br />In my area of the city, in addition to the regular sidewalks, there are broad parallel walkways lined with trees and meadow grass which drown out the noise of the busy street 20 meters away. <br /><br />In each huge block of adjoining flats, there are convenience stores and small service businesses, a kindergarten and several cafes and restaurants. All the things people want from a neighborhood. <br /><br />I have a small apartment without many of the accessories we take for granted in more developed countries (like hot water in the kitchen), but the view from my window is of tree tops and the hills. <br /><br />So, I may have missed a few things not living in a village, but I've gained honorary citizenship in Chișinău and can say honestly, Chișinău e Orașul Meu: Chișinău is my city.The Waygukinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16659443709660010673noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6388877533865630024.post-65636663010243471292011-03-12T22:50:00.000-08:002011-03-12T23:46:48.644-08:00Me and the VeepOK, so here's what actually happened. I did get my 15 minutes, although very late in the day and totally not because of anything I did or was. Except in the right place at the right time.<br /><br />I got to the monument a few minutes after nine, as requested. Most of Group A was there, and we did the usual things that people do when waiting for instructions: talk, make jokes, ask questions no one can answer, complain, smoke, and mill around aimlessly, passing on rumors and hoping that something would happen soon. <br /><br />That didn't happen. However, eventually we were all assigned tasks and moved across the street to the square. Our task was to help with "crowd control" at the metal detectors. You know, tell people to take everything out of their pockets, repeat what they could and couldn't take in with them (liquids, food, sharp objects. And umbrellas. Don't bring an umbrella on this beautiful spring day after a horrendous winter. <br /><br />This would have worked out quite well, except for one small problem: They started letting people through the metal detectors before they got us crowd controllers in<br />place. <br /><br />Piss poor planning, I would say. And the Universe would respond, "What makes you think it was planned?"<br /><br />So I stood in a corner next to a young Moldovan holding a sign which reiterated in three languages everything they could and couldn't bring. It wasn't that bad, although it could hardly be considered helping much. Mostly, I joked with the secret service guys and enjoyed being with American men who got my jokes. <br /><br />Finally, I had enough "helping" and left to wander around and observe. There was hot water for coffee and tea in the press section, and chairs. There was a kind of warm up show going on, mostly Moldovan pop and folk music. Very festive and Moldovan. I hung out and smoked until the Veep arrived and the speeches began.<br /><br />Good speech, good guy, over soon. The Veep left to have more conversations with Moldovan politicians and we waited for the next thing to happen, which was a "meet and greet" for Embassy staff, the Peace Corps and mothers and children. We didn't find out until later who the mothers and children were supposed to be, but they were a diverse and photogenic group. Of course. So are we, for that matter. There were several pictures with the kids and the Veep, sitting on the stage and enjoying one of those warm, cuddly political moments.<br /><br />After he ran the rope of the Embassy staff, we were told that we would have a picture taken, all of the Peace Corps Moldova, with his Veepness. We dutifully climbed on the risers and arranged ourselves, taller in back, shorter in front, which of course leaves me front and center, wishing I were taller, remembering to stand up straight.<br /><br />The Veep arrived, posed, and then instead of leaving, talked to us about what he thought was the most important thing we could be doing in this world to effect change and work through the geopolitical changes that are happening around us. <br /><br />He also stroked us, thanked us for our sacrifices, the usual thing we've come to expect as our due. He said something about his generation, and I piped up from behind him and added, "My generation, too."<br /><br />He turned around and hugged me and agreed, and then stood for the rest of the time with his arm around me. When he finished, he hugged me and kissed me on the cheek.<br /><br />Wow! Me, Ms.Feminist-we-are-all-the same-egalitarian-socialist-pinko-bleeding-heart liberal-world-traveler-this doesn't impress-me, with the Veep's arm around me, loving every minute of it!<br /><br />So that's my fifteen minutes, undoubtedly one of the coolest things that ever happened to me.<br /><br />See ya.The Waygukinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16659443709660010673noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6388877533865630024.post-28648701235746483472011-03-10T00:57:00.000-08:002011-03-10T01:29:55.854-08:00Saving Myself for the Veep.US Vice-president Biden is coming to Moldova and I'm going to meet him. He is delivering a speech to the public and having a "meet and greet" with Peace Corps.Last Sunday, our PTO called me and asked if I would help with the event. Although she had zero information about what "help" meant, I agreed.<br /><br />Perhaps if I hadn't had a fever, I would have thought better of it. I had caught a cold over the weekend and was wiped out on viruses, medication and decongestants. But, trusting in medical science with a dose of folk medicine, I assumed I'd be fine by Friday.<br /><br />Today is Thursday and the universe is smiling on me. I feel a lot better, have no fever and a little more energy. I'm sure I'm going to be able to help tomorrow and am anticipating the meeting this afternoon when I will find out what shape that help will take.<br /><br />I've been thinking about two aspects of this visit: one is the possibility that yours truly will be seen on TV(local? national? international?)and will get another 15 minutes; and two is the security precautions I'll encounter or perhaps be a part of.<br /><br />I normally operate on the premise that I'm not a terrorist and that no one I know is a terrorist so this (whatever security measures I'm undergoing) is just another irritation in my life, the pea under my mattress, which must be borne with princess-y grace. <br /><br />Then the evil brain, the part that over-thinks everything and prepares for the worst, pipes up and says things like "Gabby Gifford" and "remember the bomb at Hram and the guy that strapped explosives to himself in front of the justice building", and I realize that meeting and greeting the veep might involve more than my shiny face on TV again saying something inane about worldpeaceandfriendship like some boomer Miss America. <br /><br />The laws of probability say no, and I'm going with the rule of law.<br /><br />See yaThe Waygukinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16659443709660010673noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6388877533865630024.post-56809815867634822772010-12-19T06:17:00.001-08:002010-12-19T06:17:34.450-08:00The Waygukinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16659443709660010673noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6388877533865630024.post-36675643924332798872010-12-16T22:36:00.000-08:002010-12-16T22:43:36.050-08:00The obligatory birthday blog66 today. Doesn't have the same pop-song melancholy/hope as the old Dan Hill song, "17 today" , but it will have to do.<br /><br />The last entry I made was in June, so clearly, it hasn't been a priority. Maybe being without a computer has made me appreciate it more? Doesn't that sound like some kind of hippy new agey thing? Something someone could pick out a tune for on the hammered dulcimer maybe?<br /><br />Anyway, I'm on my way to remedy that situation with the help of a student. One of the most fun perks of teaching EFL: help from bright college kids.<br /><br />Love MarionThe Waygukinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16659443709660010673noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6388877533865630024.post-51460868684883276402010-06-06T08:36:00.001-07:002010-06-06T08:56:43.871-07:00A cultural aha moment<span xmlns=""> <p>Today, I started watching Easy Rider as a memorial to Dennis Hopper who died last week. I have been missing California a lot, and really enjoyed the scenery as they ride east from LA. While they're at the commune, they walk to a hot spring, an abandoned spa that I have visited. It was way cool to see a place I've been in a movie.</p><p>Several years ago, I was on my way to Death Valley with three other Sierra Club members for a week of hiking and sightseeing in the lowest place in the US. Our driver knew of a hot spring we could stop at on our way south from the SF Bay area. Of course we all agreed to make the stop. We arrived at a small turnoff from a dirt road, and left the van there. We clambered down a woodsy slope and at the bottom found an old limestone tub built into the side of the hill, with a sulphur spring filling it. Many meters below, we could hear the water of a stream crashing over the rocks. It was a clear night, we were far from city lights and the sky was filled with stars we never get to see on the coast. It was a wonderful sensual experience and one I know I'll never forget. However, as my friends and I were enjoying the pure California-ness of soaking in a sulphur tub in a 19<sup>th</sup> century resort, our van was being robbed and all of our equipment for the following week's trip through Death Valley was stolen.<br /></p><p>We had no real choice but to return home and blow off that trip. There was an up-side to my return, though. I got to walk across the Bay Bridge, a once in a life time experience, with a new lover.</p></span>The Waygukinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16659443709660010673noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6388877533865630024.post-50536604273964094322010-06-06T03:24:00.000-07:002010-06-06T03:27:37.163-07:00WTF?More problems related to my computer illiteracy or the user-non-friendliness of this site.<br /><br />I lost the last four pararaphs or so of the ruteria post, and it's too nice a day to stay inside and rewrite it. Suffice it to say, it was witty, erudite and one of my better efforts. Take my word for it, and I'll take questions.The Waygukinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16659443709660010673noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6388877533865630024.post-29493368641455673142010-06-06T01:18:00.000-07:002010-06-06T03:22:53.177-07:00The Obligatory Post about RutierasThis is the 3rd foreign country I've lived in during the past 15+ years, and it holds the distinction of having a form of transportation which defies the rules of customer service and any and all rules of running a small business and making enough profit to support oneself and possibly one's family. At least I think it does, not that I really know any of those rules.<br /><br />A <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_0" class="blsp-spelling-error">ruteria</span>, and yes, dear readers, I do know that "<span id="SPELLING_ERROR_1" class="blsp-spelling-error">rutiera</span>" is actually an adjective not a noun, is a 12-16 passenger <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_2" class="blsp-spelling-corrected">microbus</span>, usually a Mercedes, usually white although there are red, blue and yellow specimens, as well as ones wildly decorated with advertising. These vans travel on defined and designated routes all over large cities and villages alike. There are inter- and <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_3" class="blsp-spelling-error">intra</span>-<span id="SPELLING_ERROR_4" class="blsp-spelling-error">city</span>routes, as well as international routes to the three surrounding countries. The fares are reasonable by local standards and downright cheap by western ones. They stop pretty much anywhere along their designated routes, and you flag them down with your arm outstretched perpendicular to your body. Mostly they stop; sometimes they don't.<br /><br />In the capital, where I have lived for all but ten weeks of my time here, I can usually go anywhere in the city with one <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_5" class="blsp-spelling-error">microbus</span>, at most, with two. Their schedules are flexible but fairly predictable once you use the same one regularly. They are faster than the trolley <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_6" class="blsp-spelling-corrected">buses</span> and can avoid traffic by using a different route, something not possible for the trolley <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_7" class="blsp-spelling-error">busses</span> with their dependence on the overhead electrical connection.<br /><br />So, what's not to like? I refer you to the definition of <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_8" class="blsp-spelling-error">ruteria</span> in the second paragraph. These are 12-16 passenger vehicles which usually carry a <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_9" class="blsp-spelling-corrected">minimum</span> of twenty or so passengers, and sometimes as many as 35. I have not actually counted riders on the most crowded rides. When you can't see beyond the body part of the traveler leaning (being pushed?) into one or more of your body parts, it's difficult to do the math. One T-shirt created by a local youth <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_10" class="blsp-spelling-error">NGO</span> says, "How many people can fit in a <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_11" class="blsp-spelling-error">ruteria</span>? Always room for one more!"<br /><br />This country has a temperate climate with summer temperatures in the 30's (80's F) with relative humidity that reminds me of <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_12" class="blsp-spelling-corrected">Bangkok</span> in the rainy season, even if it's not raining. Imagine being in the rute, as they are not so affectionally known, with 30-40 odd people standing and sitting and holding their stuff in this barely breathable air, body parts covered or not, meeting your body parts, and none of the windows open. And air conditioning a distant memory of a country you inhabbitted long ago and far away.The Waygukinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16659443709660010673noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6388877533865630024.post-17188423366718996792010-05-29T12:27:00.000-07:002010-05-29T12:37:14.193-07:00pitaWho knew blogging could be such a pain in the ass. Can't figure out how to copy and paste from word docs. I hate to write things over when the computer is supposed to do it for me.<br /><br />I finallly have time to sit down and write, and can't do a simple thing that would make it easier. Fuggit.<br /><br />I wrote about Amsterdam and the garbage strike, and how very Dutch the whole thing was. If they can respond to a crisis with a little grace and style, why can't other cities. I know, money is always an issue, but some responses don't cost anything. Smile. Be kind. Laugh. It could make your city more fun and the experience of living here more than bearable.The Waygukinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16659443709660010673noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6388877533865630024.post-90774108311575544212010-03-15T06:13:00.000-07:002010-03-15T06:16:03.800-07:00Oh, probably should have thought this through before I started writing. Can't figure out how to continue with a previous post, so planning is definitely on.The Waygukinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16659443709660010673noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6388877533865630024.post-81742043030417278432010-03-15T06:03:00.000-07:002010-03-15T06:12:11.945-07:00<div>My first thought after seeing the previous page with its cheery note urging me to START BLOGGING was an omg. Is this going to be crafty, like scrapbooking ? What am I doing here? I'm so not good with my hands! </div>The Waygukinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16659443709660010673noreply@blogger.com0