Thursday, November 17, 2011

Four sons of Papua New Guinea find each other in the USA

TULSA, Oklahoma was the
meeting place, a place of destiny for four young men from different villages in
Papua New Guinea to meet for the first time.

Home away from home in the USA. (From left) Wilson Kalama, Edwin Ako,
Clement Abai and Moses Pagi.-Pictures by CRYSTAL THERIOT

Each had traveled over 10,000
miles to this place that was once just a dream in the young boys’ hearts, a
dream that had become a reality.

Each one arrived at a
different year or time for a different reason, and last Saturday, Nov 12, 2011,
they found in each other a kindred spirit and a unique bond.

Clement Abai, Wilson Kalama,
Moses Pagi, and Edwin Ako looked into each other’s faces and saw their home, family
and friends.

A strong will, a lot of
courage, and some defining moments and key people brought them all
together.

This incredible meeting began
when Wilson Kalama, whose love and passion for media and cameras seeded a dream
and desire that wouldn’t be silenced.

He left his home in Rabaul,
East New Britain province, to find his destiny in the State of Oklahoma this
past September.

Kalama applied for an
internship at a worldwide television ministry, LeSea Christian Broadcasting and
was accepted.

Crystal Theriot, Passageway
Ministries administrator, was a key player in connecting Kalama with LeSea
Broadcasting for this internship.

Theriot and Dan Smith,
general manager of LeSea Broadcasting, worked for many months to design a
specific internship that would train him in every aspect of production, from
the beginning of a show to editing and to finalising the production.

“This type of training would
normally take four to six years to learn, but is being accelerated for Kalama
to learn in about six months to one year,” Theriot explains.

Pastor Ella Coley of
Passageway Ministers of Bixby, Oklahoma, had an established friendship with him
and became his sponsor for the duration of his internship with LeaSea…and
everything fell into place for Kalama,

“He arrived in Tulsa, Oklahoma
on Sept 30, 2011, after almost three days of non-stop flying,” Theriot adds.

“His stops included a 10-hour
stay in Los Angeles, several hours in Salt Lake City and then flying into
Atlanta for a few hours before finally arriving in Tulsa.

“Wilson is now actively
involved in the Praise and Worship Team at Passageway Ministries, and is warmly
received and already loved by the people.

“Playing music is not strange
to Wilson, who is versatile on drums, bass, guitar, and keyboard.

“His father, William Kalama,
is a pastor in East New Britain and works with over 30 churches in PNG.

“A strong believer in God’s
purpose and destiny for his life, Wilson is passionately engaged in his destiny
in the States…a destiny that seems to be unfolding each and every day before
his very eyes.

“Upon completion of his
training, Wilson hopes to take his experiences, his knowledge, and his training
someday back to his homeland to assist ministries in broadcasting on
television.”

In July, Theriot found out
about Clement Abai, a former athlete from PNG who was living in Oklahoma, just
a short distance from where she lives.

She stuck up a friendship
with Abai in hopes that when Kalama arrived, he would have a friend from home
to connect with.

Soon after his arrival in
Tulsa, Kalama and Abai began corresponding through Facebook and texting.

Clement Abai came to the USA
in January 2000 on a full athletics track and field scholarship offered by
Tulane University in New Orleans, Louisiana.

At Tulane, he studied and
competed for the university throughout his college career until 2004.

As part of the team, Abai
traveled to different places in the US to compete, which gave him the
opportunity to see new places, meet new friends from all over the US and the
world, and learn new cultures.

However, being a student
athlete without the family support was tough physically and mentally at times.

He had to do everything on his own such as doing
laundry, cooking, etc, after practising six hours a day (three hours in the
morning, three hours in the afternoon) during the season, working three hours a
day on campus for extra cash and going to classes at night,
Graduating with a computer science degree in 2004, Abai was hired to work for
his alma mater (Tulane University) for a year and also decided to stop doing
the sport of track and field that he enjoyed doing.

After working for a year and
his temporary work permit expiring in 2005, he changed his status to a
dependant status under his wife’s student status to be legally here in the US.
He stayed two years at home taking care of his newly-born son while his wife
continued with her PhD programme.

In August 2005, as a result of Hurricane
Katrina, he and his family moved from New Orleans, Louisiana to Stillwater,
Oklahoma for Mrs Abai to pursue her doctorate degree at Oklahoma State
University.

In August 2007, Abai was
hired by Oklahoma State University as the assistive technology specialist and
was granted a six years work permit.

As the assistive technology specialist, 80% of
his time is spent on managing the assistive technology software; help develop
accessible websites for the four campuses of Oklahoma State University in the
state of Oklahoma and ensuring the university is in compliance with the state
and federal disability laws in regards to technology.

They plan on working here for
few more years until their work permits expire and then will pursue
opportunities in other countries, mainly Australia or New Zealand to be closer
to home (PNG) or Kenya in Africa where his wife is from.

The whole experience taught
Abai how to commit and dedicate himself to doing sports and school, scheduling
his time correctly, make realistic life decisions, controlling his emotions
physically and mentally, etc.

He says none of this would
not have been possible without the support from family and friends, his coaches,
especially Naomi Polum in Port Moresby, the PNG Athletic Union, his alma mater
(Tulane University) and most of all God for blessing him with his talent,
education and a beautiful wife and two children.

It was shortly after Kalama
arrived and began talking with Abai when another young man from Papua New
Guinea appeared on the scene.

Friends of Passageway who had
also visited Papua New Guinea (Ben and Andi Stephens) were having coffee at a
local coffee shop in Tulsa after service and stuck up a conversation with Edwin
Ako, and learned he was from Tambul Village, near Mt Hagen.They quickly invited him to Passageway
Ministries Bible Study….and he accepted.

Ako shared how he came to the
States in 2006 to attend a Pensacola Christian College in Florida for four
years.

Destiny again unfolded to Ako
when he moved to Tulsa just two months ago to attend Victory Bible Institute.

He readily acknowledges his
dependence on God and attributes his success to his faith in Christ.

His plans are to continue to
study here in the States and continue his journey of Faith as God directs.

Ako found friends with warm
hearts and outstretched hands in the Stephens’ and at Passageway Ministries.

Excited about meeting his new
found friend from his homeland, Ako then brought another young man to
Passageway, Moses Pagi, of Lae.

At the tender young age of
16, Pagi came to the States to stay with extended family in the State of Ohio.

He left his parents and
family behind in his village of Erave district, Southern Highlands province, to
pursue a dream that was bigger than the young boy dreaming it.

Fighting loneliness, he
courageously pursued the course that was set in motion by his parents who
wanted only for him to have a better life and a greater future.

Upon graduating high school, he moved to
Florida to attend the same Bible School that Edwin was attending.

It was there they became
friends.

Pagi plans to finish school
here and gain some good experiences that he can take back later to his home and
family in PNG.

He hasn’t been home since he
came to the States and he really misses his family.

Pagi has been in Tulsa for
about a year and is also attending Victory Bible Institute.

“Wanting to connect with
these friends from home, Clement drove to Tulsa on Saturday to meet and spend
time with the guys from his beloved homeland,” Theriot recalls.

“Laughing, sharing memories
and unique stories, Wilson, Clement, Moses, and Edwin have an amazing story to
tell…simply put it is this…God is a God of Divine Purpose and Destiny, and when
we submit and surrender our plans to His, anything, yes, anything is quite
possible!

“For how else could four
young men from different villages and different lives in Papua New Guinea end up
together 10,000 miles away from home in a place called Tulsa, Oklahoma, USA if
God had not ordained it to be so?”

1 comment:

A great story. Certainly PNG has talent. Compliments to the American Christian Churches that provide the opportunity to expose our young people. They are assets to PNG. Well done! Also well done to the National for covering a nice story. PNG needs for nice stories like this to generate more positive mindsets. Outstanding!

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