MAN, if i had a dollar for every female who said they were a GOOD WOMAN, id be able to buy myself more nice xmas presents. LOL

Nice ones are out there, just have to pray and honestly get lucky....We as a society have one issue which prevents us from opening up and doing whats right....TRUST.

Next time you find someone, figure out why it just doesnt feel quite right...i can almost promise you, something w/regard to trusting or loyality will surface! If you want to find a nice female, lay back and let it all come to you....It happens, sometimes....more than one nice girl comes along..then you run into whos the right choice...

Nice females are a dime a dozen, find one who happens to be real nice and honest to YOU, thats the one you want! And to take offense to that statement means you missed the meaning in the wording. Have a good one people, cant wait to see more postings!

When you look deep into my being, I think I'm a good woman! Just waiting patiently for the right man to come along. The trick is, the ones you wink/email, are you taking the time to make sure you are what they want?

There R alot of good women still out there. As well as men we just have to find the 1 that is rt for us. Don't give up! It take's time to find ur soul mate. Hey U may make some really life long friends while U R looking!!
Keep Smiling:)

I think that women say that they just want to be friends because they don't want to admit that they are lonely and really want to meet someone. I know it sounds silly, but I have hid behind the "friends" thing, too. When a person goes to a dating site and says that they just want to meet people and make friends, she is really saying that she IS HOPING to meet a man who wants to date her and that she wants to date also. If her attempts fall short of that, then meeting friends will do. Unfortunately, men who are on a dating site to meet a woman to date, don't read it that way. They take her at her word and work at being friends, and don't expect to get more out of the exchange than that.

As that great prolific author, what's his name, who made appearances on Oprah, Sally Jesse, and other talk shows a few years ago titled his best selling book wrote: Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus! And that is one reason why many women say that they just want to meet friends here instead of looking for THE ONE.

Here is a good example as to what I belive. As I read the comments, I agree with many of the ladies but as you can see they say that starting with friendship is the right thing to do, but as you see I became transparent in the posting. I got a wink and three e-mails and after that I became invisible. So where are the GOOD LADIES THAT SAY FRIENDSHIP FIRST HUUUUUUUUUM???????

I admit, the comments seem to imply that, however, I think the truth is a little more complicated.

I am an optimist. Besically, I think most people are "good". However, not everyone is a good click with each other. As well, certain personality types bring out the best in me, some bring out the worst.

Are the ones I react badly with all "bad"? No way. Just not good for me personally.

I think you have it right. Things happen when we least expect it, and getting discouraged kinda makes you less likely to recognize it.

So in other words, based on your comments, there are good women. It's just that we (men) don't know what are we looking for, or how to recognize when we have a good woman in front of (or next to) us. Did I miss anything? The good thing about this is that we are not all alike. Sometimes, somewhere, when we less expected we see the beauty and greatness in you ladies, we might not say, exactly like that, but we know it and feel it, exactly like that. Just understand us and don?t stop on loving us.

There are good women everywhere just me and many of the ones i know wont settle for anything less than a man with a certain set of values.

Im not gonna be with a guy trolling the internet for babes when he already has one or two. Not to say that all men on here do that, ive met men from the internet and one or two actually turned out to be real and honest and sweet. Just the "there" wasnt there.

Hello everyone. I am fairly new to the dating scene, and I just started reading the forums and I agree that many of the women in here are good and have good intentions but THEY ALL CRY FRIENSHIP,FRIENDSHIP AND YET WHRN YOU TRY TO CONTACT THEM THEY MIGHT E-MAIL ONCE AND THEN THEY FORGET YOU EXIST. How can a person get to know each other when nobody takes the time to get to know them. "Where are all the good women that want a good friendship and a good relation?" Are guilty??????