Cool Mom Slips Note Under Door After Walking In On Son Having Sex With Boyfriend

Marc is one lucky 19-year-old gay. If my mom had walked in on me during sex with my boyfriend as a teen, she would've quickly executed a sign of the cross before backing out slowly, mouth agape. She'd then be the happy guarantor on years-worth of therapy bills.

But not Marc's mom.

Marc's mom walked in during an amorous moment and slipped a "hey, I'm a Cool Mom" kind of note under the door minutes later.

My boyfriend an I were staying at my parents home for a weekend a few years ago. It was early morning when mom came into the room we shared to tell me they were leaving to the store. When I heard the car leave the driveway we both seemed to have the same idea to take the opportunity to do it before they got back. We were deeply involved when the door came open and mom started in asking about breakfast- SHE HAD STAYED BEHIND! Too late to cover but mom only said "Oops! So that's the way boys do it!", laughed and closed the door behind her. Nothing was ever said about it but the grins and winks were loud enough. I love my mom =)

He is Gay...not broken. He can still be a doctor or join the circus. Mom being buzzed is a pretty good excuse.....maybe she really didn't know what to say. Any mom walking in on her son having sex can be un-nerving for any mom.

Dylan funny how much you "hate" gays, yet you are trolling a gay website. Does it make your hardon go away when you right hateful things about the men who get your cock hard. Have some BALLS USE YOUR REAL NAME!

Dylan funny how much you "hate" gays, yet you are trolling a gay website. Does it make your hardon go away when you right hateful things about the men who get your cock hard. Have some BALLS USE YOUR REAL NAME!

MITT ROMNEY WAS RIGHT. " MARRIAGE IS BETWEEN A MAN AND A WOMAN. OBAMA AND BIDEN ARE A GAY COUPLE. YUCK. I SALUTE THE RUSSIAN AUTHORITIES. THEY KICKED SOME FILTHY HOMOSEXUAL BUTT DURING THE THE OLYMPICS. WE NEED A NEW PRESIDENT WHO'S A REAL MAN . NOT A FAGGOT LOVIN MORON. DISGUSTING

Correct me if I'm wrong but are you religious by any chance?
If so, doesn't your religion preach tolerance? How about you practice homosexuality seeing as how you are that against it you are obviously questioning your own sexuality 24/7 giving you the need to try and show others that you are not gay by slandering a population that you know nothing about.
And please, pick up a thesaurus and go back to school you un-educated child.

For this reason God gave them up to dishonorable passions. For their women exchanged natural relations for those that are contrary to nature; and the men likewise gave up natural relations with women and were consumed with passion for one another, men committing shameless acts with men and receiving in themselves the due penalty for their error. And since they did not see fit to acknowledge God, God gave them up to a debased mind to do what ought not to be done.

But nowhere in that passage does it say death to them or that they are going to hell this passahe has neen taken out of context so many times it sickning there are also two passages i like they state " no sin is greater than any other" and " for all have fallen and come short to the glory of god" in other words clean your own shoes befor you talk about the shit somebody else stepped in o and by the way im a gay theology major

OMG! Even my very conservative Christian family, parents included, do not wish that homosexuals would die. They love me for who I am. They may not understand me, or agree with my stance, but they have made it very clear that they will ALWAYS love me. They also don't hide their gay son/brother from their conservative friends. They have told/shown me that true Christians act like Christ who loved EVERYONE! Maybe you should go back to the Bible and ask yourself, would Christ want us to die, or did he die for us?

Tom, I commend your noble effort to appeal to a Christian's sensibilities but as is self apparent, Dylan is *not* a real Christian. He is only pretending to be one by copying and pasting talking points he read somewhere to prop up his unnatural hatred toward gay man. He has a real dilemma; he has a same sex attraction himself, hates that part of himself and the only way he knows how to deal with it is to bash happy innocent and normal gay people. Jealousy and self-loathing are classic traits of homophobics as they obsess about gay men and seek out places they can anonymously confront gay mean without disclosure or repercussion.... such as he has done here. I suppose we should pity him but the fight or flight part of me wants to attack him. However that would be giving him the very thing he desires so much- contact with a gay man ;-)

Dylan, since you are obviously searching in the wrong place for gay related articles to read allow me to direct you to the correct web site where you can read all the gay porn that you desire. nifty dot org. Now, go away and read your porn and do what it is that you toad people do when you crawl out from under your rocks.

That's only what your bedtime story book sais.
That is all it is, a story book.
How about you read up and learn about the lost scriptures (the text that was left out of the original copy of the bible you have in your hand), only then you will see the true form of your lord and saviour. It also mentions in Leviticus that you should not alter your body in any of its forms, this includes cutting hair and getting tattoos, why don't you read it all instead of just picking out the sections that suit your in-bred armada of hate.

Dylan - there is nothing Holy or Christian about your language in this forum and the venomous way your are spewing it. You are the epitome of the "stereotypical hate mongering so-called" Christian and you make everyone of Faith look horrible. I recommend you pull out the New Testament and start finding the true meaning of Grace, for everyone around you and for yourself. As a Mother, I do not necessarily agree with this Mother's position, simply because I do not want to be that close to my son and daughter's private physical life and I have more interest in helping them make good decisions, than being "cool"... but, regardless of what you believe in or do not believe in... Love does not sound anything like the things you wrote here... neither do some of their responses, but I can certainly understand how your words drew them out. PEACE!

Back on the subject of this article I applaud this guy's mother for her support?!? While my mother didn't slip a note under the door when this happened to me nearly 30 years ago when I was a teen however it made telling my parents that I'm gay a moot subject! LOL. Although my Mom's reaction wasn't one of laughter but that of disbelieve. She thought is was just a phase but after my first boyfriend was living with me a couple years later when I was living on my own I think she got the message that it wasn't just a phase.

I watched a program on the History Channel that researched the Bible. Sodom and Ghomorrah were never linked to homosexuality. It's the other way around; bible thumpers started calling homosexuals sodomites because of the perceived immorality of those two cities. Also, they weren't amoral because of homosexuality, they were immoral because no one invited (moses? I forget.) and his family into their homes and they treated them like outsiders instead of the standard form of human respect which the Bible teaches.

On a seperate note, scientists have been anylizing the destruction of those two cities, as well as others that have happend. For example, in Egypt when the sea went red, it was more than likely a huge algae bloom. Look at the North East of America and Canada, it happens there too. The whole event with everyone's first born son dying and then the cattle happened because the food wasn't taken care of properly and started growing mold, like what happened in Salem during the witch trials. The first born son was culturally the first to eat, and the mold sat on TOP of the grain so everyone that ate after him didn't get the mold. The same food was also used to feed the cattle which is why THEY died.

As for the destruction itself of Soddom and Ghomorrah (however you spell it), there is a good amount of evidence based of recorded events in the middle east that show a small asteroid impact occured around Austria. When that happened, using science, they were able to deduce the weather patterns and the fact that the debris from the impact is what rained down upon that general area of the planet. It was a random event from an asteroid that probably came from another collision between two larger asteroids in our asteroid belt. One similar incidence happened in Russia around 1908, and the asteroid was only a couple hundred feet big. It caused so much damage because the asteroid or comet exploded just before reaching the ground, flattening hundreds of square miles of forest. It had the explosive force 1000 times greater than the bomb that destroyed Hiroshima, roughly equivilant to about 13-20 megatons of TNT exploding at one time.

Also, a monogomous gay relationship isn't a perversion, it's the expression of the human desire and need for companionship. In addition, there is lots of scientific evidence that supports that a human being's sexuality is determined by genetic markers in DNA, which is created before birth, meaning it is NOT a choice. As far as I understand religion, that's God's work right? So it stands to reason that God probably created Gay people as a natural form of birth control so we don't OVER populate the planet. It hasn't worked though because Gays have been forced into hiding for hundreds upon thousands of years thanks to ignornat interpretaion of religion.

God created the Earth, it's solar system, and the Universe. Therefore God ALSO created the science that governs all things, from physics to genetics. That said, denying the science behind these things is like denying God him/herself. If you do choose to deny it, that's okay; the great thing about science is that you don't have to like or agree, or even believe it, but it is ALWAYS there and right no matter what your opinion.

Also to point out, Jesus never condemned gays or even said anything about them in his original teachings. Leviticus, a HUMAN, wrote that into the bible after it had ALREADY been rewritten by more humans. A lot of religious and educated scholars have interpreted his passage about a man lying with another man as more about property rights, as women were treated as property like cattle were. He also states that you may not wear fabric woven from different cloths and eating shellfish as a sin, right before that particular passage bible thumpers love to tote. Hope you've never bought any clothes from Old Navy, Gap, etc, and have never eaten a shrimp, clam, or lobster.

You cannot literally interperate something written in a dead language thousands of years ago, then rewritten by humans and rewritten again. Look how different just the English language is from what it was 400 years ago, words to do not mean the same things a lot of the time. It is ludicris to imagine an exact translation from a language like Arameic to English and have it be perfect. That is often impossible today with languages like Spanish, Russian, etc. Words we have in English simply do not exist. Sentence structure is different, as is grammmar, in a lot of cases. If you are going to interperate the bible you can't just simply read it once, you have to take things in context and study it for years. And if you don't do that and simply translate its message literally, you are not really learning your religion, you're blindly following it. I'm sure that's NOT what Jesus would have wanted. And religious people wonder why he hasn't returned.

Close! But I challenge you to read sermons and commentaries from pastors on these subjects. Open your eyes to the wonderful glories of God and hopefully you'll realize what you have written is misinformed.

"Sermons and commentaries" my arse- HA! That is the LAST place you will find a correct interpretation of the Bible. Those people are agenda driven to make it say whatever they want to get the most money in that offering plate. A REAL God would not NEED that money.

haha again! you simply don't understand... sermons and commentaries from pastors are their own interpretations of the scripture... and you know what else pastors and priests have interpreted from the scriptures??? 'send the children to fight the Muslims, for they are pure of heart and god will surely not let them be harmed' and do you know what happened to those children who were sent to war against the muslims??? they were SLAUGHTERED! Speaking as one who is educated and trained in translating scripture and in forms of preaching, and as one who spent at least 2 decades of life listening to pastors interpret scripture.... i can tell you, they're doing it wrong. Most pastors, not all, but most, use scripture to emphasize or legitimize a point that they want to teach their congregation, not teaching them the bible, as it was taught when the church first formed.

I listen to quite a few different sides of commentaries and sermons. I also try to listen to preachers who are just teaching the bible and not using it to manipulate their audience in any way. Personally I'm against homosexuality. I don't hate gay people, and I try hard not to judge them. I'm a sinner, they're sinners, we are all sinners. We were called to love one another, and if we are to rebuke, we are to do it with love and we also should also be trying to teach others and show God's love while we are doing it.

Hooray for his mom! I bring my beautiful gay son to the sex shop to buy him toys, clothes and whatever he wants to spice up his sex life. Love is love and I cannot understand all these "good christians" spewing so much hate. Gays will not hurt you, you idiots! And I bet some of the things that go on behind your bedroom doors might be considered perverted by society. You just don't talk about it! And I am a straight 54 y/o woman!

Great comments, responses. Love is our salvation. Hate and fear condemn one and many to great suffering. These understandings may be arrived at through common sense, and a little awareness, and observation. No politically charged "Holy" book necessary. Of course, all the good bits of any scripture, even the Christian one, will point to the same thing : choose to act from love, not fear. Thou Shalt not kill... remember that one in the rules list? @ Kathleen - you're awesome. The world wants more cool mom's like you, modeling kindness, nuturing, and understanding. You allow healthy families to come into existence in the world. Kudos!

So donkey is blaming Africa for aids ?!? How retarded is that. We all know, well apart from you clearly , how AIDS began. Saying African tribes had sex with monkeys. Dear lord maybe you should be in the lake that burns with fire

H.I.V (aids) has only been discovered by modern science since the very early 1900'. It was created from a mutation of S.I.V (the 'S' stands for simian (monkey/ape)) believed to have formed from a bite wound sustained from the very early travelers to the continent from a member of the ape family and spread through the human population due to it being unknown for hundreds of years, allowing it to mutate and evolve within the human body.

The latest theory on the HIV virus comes out of the labs of none other than Jonas Salk and his SARS research while seeking a cure for polio. Most researchers reject the "monkey" theory as a precursor to HIV.

I LOVE HOW SUPPOSE TO BE CHRISTIANS BAD MOUTH US AND WANT TO SAY HOW MUCH OF A SIN IT IS. WELL LET ME SAY SOMETHING TO YOU THE BIBLE DOES SAY JUDGE UNTO OTHERS AS U WANT TO BE JUDGED... AND ALSO SAYS LOVE THY NEIGHBOR AND LOVE THY ENEMY AND YOU WANT TO THROW BIBLE QUOTES AT US... OH YES THE BIBLE DOES SAY THAT LOVE ALL AND NO SIN IS BIGGER OR SMALLER THAN ANY OTHER..... SO I GUESS YOU ALL NEED REPENT IN SUNDAY SERVICE CAUSE YALL JUST A BIG HIPPICRIT AS I SEE IT........

Jude 7
And don't forget sodom and gomorrah and their neighboring towns, which were filled with immorality and every kind of sexual perversion. Those cities were destroyed by fire and serve as a warning of the eternal fire of God's judgment. amen

I watched a program on the History Channel that researched the Bible. Sodom and Ghomorrah were never linked to homosexuality. It's the other way around; bible thumpers started calling homosexuals sodomites because of the perceived immorality of those two cities. Also, they weren't amoral because of homosexuality, they were immoral because no one invited (moses? I forget.) and his family into their homes and they treated them like outsiders instead of the standard form of human respect which the Bible teaches.

On a seperate note, scientists have been anylizing the destruction of those two cities, as well as others that have happend. For example, in Egypt when the sea went red, it was more than likely a huge algae bloom. Look at the North East of America and Canada, it happens there too. The whole event with everyone's first born son dying and then the cattle happened because the food wasn't taken care of properly and started growing mold, like what happened in Salem during the witch trials. The first born son was culturally the first to eat, and the mold sat on TOP of the grain so everyone that ate after him didn't get the mold. The same food was also used to feed the cattle which is why THEY died.

As for the destruction itself of Soddom and Ghomorrah (however you spell it), there is a good amount of evidence based of recorded events in the middle east that show a small asteroid impact occured around Austria. When that happened, using science, they were able to deduce the weather patterns and the fact that the debris from the impact is what rained down upon that general area of the planet. It was a random event from an asteroid that probably came from another collision between two larger asteroids in our asteroid belt. One similar incidence happened in Russia around 1908, and the asteroid was only a couple hundred feet big. It caused so much damage because the asteroid or comet exploded just before reaching the ground, flattening hundreds of square miles of forest. It had the explosive force 1000 times greater than the bomb that destroyed Hiroshima, roughly equivilant to about 13-20 megatons of TNT exploding at one time.

Also, a monogomous gay relationship isn't a perversion, it's the expression of the human desire and need for companionship. In addition, there is lots of scientific evidence that supports that a human being's sexuality is determined by genetic markers in DNA, which is created before birth, meaning it is NOT a choice. As far as I understand religion, that's God's work right? So it stands to reason that God probably created Gay people as a natural form of birth control so we don't OVER populate the planet. It hasn't worked though because Gays have been forced into hiding for hundreds upon thousands of years thanks to ignornat interpretaion of religion.

God created the Earth, it's solar system, and the Universe. Therefore God ALSO created the science that governs all things, from physics to genetics. That said, denying the science behind these things is like denying God him/herself. If you do choose to deny it, that's okay; the great thing about science is that you don't have to like or agree, or even believe it, but it is ALWAYS there and right no matter what your opinion.

Also to point out, Jesus never condemned gays or even said anything about them in his original teachings. Leviticus, a HUMAN, wrote that into the bible after it had ALREADY been rewritten by more humans. A lot of religious and educated scholars have interpreted his passage about a man lying with another man as more about property rights, as women were treated as property like cattle were. He also states that you may not wear fabric woven from different cloths and eating shellfish as a sin, right before that particular passage bible thumpers love to tote. Hope you've never bought any clothes from Old Navy, Gap, etc, and have never eaten a shrimp, clam, or lobster.

You cannot literally interperate something written in a dead language thousands of years ago, then rewritten by humans and rewritten again. Look how different just the English language is from what it was 400 years ago, words to do not mean the same things a lot of the time. It is ludicris to imagine an exact translation from a language like Arameic to English and have it be perfect. That is often impossible today with languages like Spanish, Russian, etc. Words we have in English simply do not exist. Sentence structure is different, as is grammmar, in a lot of cases. If you are going to interperate the bible you can't just simply read it once, you have to take things in context and study it for years. And if you don't do that and simply translate its message literally, you are not really learning your religion, you're blindly following it. I'm sure that's NOT what Jesus would have wanted. And religious people wonder why he hasn't returned.

Don't forget, there are only six admonishments against gays in the Bible and over 350 against straights...this doesn't mean God hates straight people...it's just that they need a hell of a lot more SUPERVISION! And isn't divorce prohibited as well?? Hmmmmm...you're a hypocrite just like your bigot friends, moron. Bye now. Be gone, before someone drops a house on YOU!

Seems Dylan can't get a date. He also forgot about Jesus saving us from sins, God giving us free will, and he who is without sin shall cast the first stone. Besides, the Bible has one instance where being gay is considered a sin. There are over 300 instances where the Bible talks about straight people being sinful. It doesn't mean God hates straight people, it just means they need supervision... and someone who can accessorize and dress a straight man so women will take interest. And sorry Dylan, no hugo boss suit can fix an ugly hateful heart.

As soon as my son finally acknowledged the thing I'd been suggesting he acknowledge for several years before that, and as soon as I knew he was going to start to meet other boys, I went out to make up a basket of supplies, sort of a "Welcome to the Life," kind of thing. I ended up turning tail and ran out of Walmart, because even Walmart had too many choices for someone like me, whose approach to shopping is "I'll take one in every color (texture, size, scent and flavor, as well). I would have needed a truck to carry the merchandise out of the store.

So I sent my husband, and he did the honors. I guess I was lucky when I became a parent someone forgot to give me that amnesia pill that makes some parents forget what they were like when they were younger, and substitute the holier than thou attitude that sends kids off to do the same thing somewhere else, in a less safe setting, with less attention to safety. And anyone who thinks their kids won't be doing the same thing, not matter what their parents say...I have some magic beans I might be able to sell them. There are just as many unplanned pregnancies in the Bible Belt as there are in Sin Cities.

The only difference between a parent who plays ostrich and one who plays it safe is that only one of them is forcing their child to lie. I decided to go with honesty, if for no other reason than the fact that my son is such a poor liar that he insults my intelligence. If I'm going to be lied to, I want him to at least challenge me.

If anyone were ever to suggest that I was going to Hell for this, all I can say is give me a call when you arrive, and we can compare pitchforks and do lunch.

Knocking and waiting for a response would be appropriate if mom KNEW the son was at home. Maybe the son and his boyfriend "snuck" into his room and were particularly quiet, hoping mom would not venture in. By her own admission she was "buzzed", so perhaps she either forgot, or didn't realize he was in the residence. Maybe she was just delivering clean laundry to his room, or maybe even wanted to join in! Don't condemn the mom before knowing all the circumstances.

Personally, I'm not sure I buy that it actually happened, and if it did it is too much information, but I do agree with the pervious poster who mentioned that mentioned all those demanding he move out are misguided. For one thing, he's just 19 and he could very well be in school. Also, this kind of situation does happen. All that needs to happen is that ground rules and boundaries need to be set, something parents of college age students do all the time, unless of course he owns the house or pays the rent and has his name on the lease. This is basic Dear Abby 101.

That being said, if I were 19 again and at my peak, was as good looking as the guy in the photo and had as cute a boyfriend, I'd probably not check to see if the door was locked.

I think this mom is awesome! She dealt with it in a mature thoughtful way! Now to some of the critics you all need to grow up! Wanting your child to move out over being caught having sex is stupid. Whether parents like to admit to it or not sexuality is a part of growing up. Some of the comments left on this page sound like something out of a Christian fundamentalist childcare handbook. You know deny, deny, deny that your child is a sexual being. Even though you and your husband are hitting the sheets regularly! It seems to me that those with issues with sex in general are the first to say "harm" a child over sex issues. Sex is natural and it is time to stop demonizing those who enjoy it! Your own children included!

Sex is natural but we have the ability to control ourselves and act appropriate. We aren't animals. I'm gay and this story is completely ridiculous! If my partner or I caught our daughter then we would have not dealt with it like this! I'm appalled that so many people are patting this woman on the back as a "great parent". So sad.

You may be gay but that does not mean you are by any reach open minded. Nor does that mean you are by association a great parent. The only thing sad is when adults demonize sexuality to the point sex becomes a taboo topic. I am sorry but your grand parents had sex, your parents had sex, you have sex, and one day your daughter will have sex! Just because you don't like the fact people are sexual beings doesn't mean that the risks disappear. I applaud this woman because she respected her child enough to see A) He is a sexual being. B) She should have knocked. C) She made sure that it wouldn't happen again by accident with the door knob which locks. You know the only thing sad to me is that in this day and time when homosexuality is just now being normalized in view that backwards views like yours come along. Your view is right at home with the views that gays can exist but lets just keep quiet in our closets. Because may be if we don't talk about sex then all the risks will disappear, the acceptance of sex as a vital part of "healthy" lives will also disappear making it a out of site and out of mind issue, and in general the morality police won't be able to "slut shame" individuals who enjoy it or who end up being abused by it.

Everyone seems hung up on the fact that "Mom" walked in on her gay son and how cool she was about it. Its a dilemma every parent dreads, not your child having sex, we get that, hell we did that before you. My daughters boyfriend stays over regularly in her room and I would be very embarrassed if I walked in on them doing what I know they do. What is nice about this rather un unique story is the way she dealt with it. She's just a good parent. And as for the rest of you prudes not wanting sex in your parents house, guess what! they did the nasty all over the place before you were there.... think about that for a moment.

My Mom was cool with me but she never let me tell my Dad. It had to be a secret around him. She was afraid of what he would do. Well, I guess not that cool. She'll still say 'don't say that' despite the fact that she did her best to hook me up. Then again she still blushes at the mention of sex and will turn the TV channel if there is even heavy kissing. She's 81, tho.

Gay or straight this isn't cool. It's disrespectful. The Mom is a wonderful Mom, but the son should have known better than to be messing around with Mom at home without a lock on the door. If your old enough to have sex under those situations you clearly need your own space. Move out! If it were my boyfriend and I, I would have been embarrassed and sorry, not taking to the magazines to further embarrass my mother.

PRUDE!!! Shame on you! What have you done in your house that you would be ashamed of your children seeing? It is not a matter of respect it is a matter of HUMAN nature. We are not Gods or even Godly, we are only born in his image. We are sinners! I wonder if it is a big deal that your son is masterbating while you write your response to this post, ruining his bedroom sheets with his DNA permanently, or jacking off to underage internet porn is that okay with you? Is that respectful? I hope they don't grow up and kill you in your sleep like the Hernandez brothers, respectfully. Come on, take it a little lighter people, it is not that big a deal. If you make it a big deal it will be a big deal for years to come. If you don't, it won't. think of the platinum rule not golden. Treat people the way they would like to be treated, not the way you would like to be treated. It works however you have to talk to them, not make assumptions!

Well, that escalated quickly.
I want to be treated like the supreme master of the universe wheee everyone shuts up and just does what I say without any lip...EVER!!!! (sarcasm for a point).
Do you note the rediculousness of the "platinum" rule? Treat everyone with kindness, compassion, respect and dignety...its really not that difficult. You don't have to agree with everyone on everyrhing, just don't be a jerk about it. Smile, agree to disagree then move on to another topic...like favorite flags of the world.
Much love to you my friend. ♥♥

Great Mom and priceless note, very well handled. I wish every young person could have this. But the truth is we still live in a world where people are very closed minded and would rather ruin their lives with their kids than to accept that they are different from themselves. It is sad really, I have been told I'm dead by my parents once I married my boyfriend. It is funny they were okay I was gay until I told they I was getting married and my world with them ended. I haven't spoken to my parents or little brother for over six years now.They even changed their phone #'s and all letters and cards are returned.

It was hard to pick up the pieces and move forward and try to forgive them, I will never forget but I have forgiven them even though they don't know it. Once I did forgave them My life has better better It still hurt and always will.

I wish I could say I had a happy story to share like these two young men have.

You have no idea how painful it is to have your parents and love ones turn on you unless it has happened to you. so for those of you who have said negative things, stop and think of how you would feel to be treated with no respect, unlike what this mother has done for her son she showed total respect. I'll take that any day.

Michael, you have touched the lives of people you don't know and will most likely never meet, please know that you are loved. Thank you for being beautiful, strong, and wonderful. You now have a tiny place in my heart where I will love you to pieces!!!

it's disturbing how these younger guys feel the need to put themselves and their business out there with NO shame in front of the whole entire world. folks don't even try to make an effort to distance themselves. they show their faces along with their business. then they wonder why folks from Winnipeg to colorado is talking about them or why they can't get any damn jobs.

So you're saying we should be ashamed because we are having sex? It's not like they went into detail. It was a funny story... That's it. We are all human, and we all have sex. Pretending like we don't doesn't do a damn thing.

no, what i'm saying is that why does he feel the need to tell the whole internet about what his mom did as if it's OUR business where he's posting himself holding the note that his mom wrote. he wants attention just like a lot of people his age do. attention has these folks doing this bs all the time and then they have the nerve to cry about NSA mining information from their computers and cell phones. it's dumb. he wouldn't be doing that if it wouldn't give him damn tumblr any hits. i hate this kind of shit.

I know a lot of people that post on social media to update friends and family on their lives.

If something like this were to happen to me, I'd probably post about it too. It's funny, gives people a laugh. A story to tell. I think you need to reexamine what you think peoples agendas are for posting stuff. Not everyone on theses sites is attention hungry. And you are absolutely right, if you feel like it's none of anyone's business... Don't read it and don't comment about it. You are the one on here bitching. That sounds like a need or a cry for attention, just as much as any post on Facebook, Twitter, tumblr, etc. does.

I used to write songs and one a little competition and my mother found my lyric notebook. The next page a letter to my then boyfriend. What did she do? Kept the notebook for two weeks not to my knowledge. Then after school soon there after she said we needed to talk...

she plopped the notebook on the table and said "I can't say I was always straight and your father can't say the either. I love you.And walked out of the room

Though my mom has never walked in on me having sex with a boyfriend I'm sure she's heard the noises coming from my room. She's always been very cool and open minded like this mother, and I could ask for a better mom! Glad to see more parents accepting their children for who they are. I've had friends parents freak out over a love note before and couldn't imagine how that would feel my heart goes out to them.

Oh dear lord someone call the Jesus squad of morality and have him arrested for having the sex in his family home; because the moral fiber of this home has now been tainted and corrupted by his indecent behavior. /sarcasm

So to everyone who seems to think that you can not have sex in your parents house/need to move out at 19 if you want to have sex. Are ANY of you willing to pay for all the bills and rent on an apartment on top of food, gas, money for laundry services, and any other items that might be needed to survive on your own in this economy?

I am guessing every single one of you are saying no at this point.

He's 19, possibly in college and working as well and living at home to have less of a strain on his financial situation. And maybe just maybe it's not so disrespectful as you all say to want to have a perfectly normal human action such as sex.

I love I'm sorry, but I love how your name is "Not a Typical Gay Guy". Sorry special snowflake, are you better then him because you're not a slut who has sex in his parent's house (sarcasm)? I literally don't understand what you feel is so grotesque about being a normal person. Is it male femininity that makes you feel so uncomfortable deep deep down?

My mom would have wanted me to introduce him to her. She's 79 now, but she doesn't care that I'm gay now, nor back when I was a teen. She's always been totally cool with it. I got lucky in the Mom Dept. as far as that goes...

At that age my mom wouldn't have been happy but now that I'm older, recently out of the military, and going bacck to school I talk to her about everything. That includes my boyfriend, who's still a Marine, and I having sex in the house when he visits :) she's cool with it now and understands. It's made us so close that I can be so open to her.

Are we being serious? It's fine that a mom is fine with her son being gay, but if you're 19, gay or straight and want to have sex on your parents' house ... move out! Be respectful. I'm never going to be ok with my kids having sex in my house - especially unmarried. I think we're missing the point here. Good job mom- loving your kid but I think that's not the way to teach our kids to respect us. Parent first. Then friend.

Sex while unmarried shouldn't be the norm. Sex isn't just about getting off, it SHOULD be about love, intimacy, exploration and adventure beteeen two RESPONSIBLE ADULTS (as I'm sure therlse young men are...hopefully). Because we have devalued intimacy, love, and genuine concern for our lovers the age of sexual activity is getting lower and lower, which is unacceptable. Is it ok for a child to have sexual exposure? No. Why? Because it is inappropriate.
I don't want my kids, my mom, my friends or ANYONE knowing what goes on in my bedroom for the simple fact that it is none of their business.

I agree and disagree. There is scientific evidence that shows that having sex improves overall health, including that of your cardio vascular system. Not having sex for extended period's time can lead to depression, high testosterone, and chemical imbalances. I agree that sex should be treated with respect and used to explore intimacy inside of a relationship, however respectfully disagree that sex isn't about just getting off. Sometimes it is, and there is biological and scientific proof to back that up. As far as sex in the house of your parents...that's a fine line and a personal choice of the parent. it's not wrong or right, and if a parent has a no sex rule it isn't automatically about admonishing their kids sexuality, it's probably more to do with the awkward factor.