Dude, I look at it this way. You are who you are. If your that fun loving guy who doesn't give a shit, then be that guy. If you're the person who is more of a deep thinker, than be that guy. But the fact is, if you're trying to figure out who/what you should be for a chick, then she isn't the chick you need to give your attention to. Don't change or comprimise yourself for a girl who isn't willing to even give you the same respect to do the same for you. That will always end with you stuck in the situation you find yourself in. If you are more of the "emotional" type, then it might actually come down to you avoiding being around the chick anymore. But always remember, her happiness doesn't mean more than yours. If it's not a mutual respect, you are going to end up miserable, listening to bad music, and wondering why she didn't like you for you (when in all honesty, she didn't like you trying to bend over backwards to impress her, which is the "fake" you).

That's my take at least

I agree with this. Be who you are. If you are a sensitive, caring, vulnerable type of person, that's ok. But DRG is right, if the girl YOU like doesn't like that part of YOU - it's time to decide which means more to you - the chick or who you are. It's your choice but you need to jettison the idea of at least one of those things.

Remember, women are mostly looking for one thing in a man: someone they can respect. It's the same with their fathers. Which is why girls with daddy issues become sluts and strippers

I agree with this. Be who you are. If you are a sensitive, caring, vulnerable type of person, that's ok. But DRG is right, if the girl YOU like doesn't like that part of YOU - it's time to decide which means more to you - the chick or who you are. It's your choice but you need to jettison the idea of at least one of those things.

Remember, women are mostly looking for one thing in a man: someone they can respect. It's the same with their fathers. Which is why girls with daddy issues become sluts and strippers