Tampa, Florida -- The Tampa socialite whose emails ultimately led to the downfall of CIA director David Petraeus visited the White House at least 3 times this year. But it's still unclear who Jill Kelley may have met with and the purpose of her visits.

While inviting the mayor to her daughter's birthday party last week, Kelley name drops: "And some guys (Harward)... aren't even bringing their kids....the DJ and 'open Bar' seem to be attracting the 'Big' Kids! Lol! :- )"

Harward is a reference to CENTCOM Vice Admiral Robert Harward.

But Kelley closes by writing: "ps I was at the WH with my friends in the Administration this weekend- the stress was surreal! But glad POTUS has been re-elected!"

A check of campaign contributions also shows Kelley giving $500 to the Republican Party of Florida in 2010. While her husband and sister gave $250 each to Republican Todd Marks in 2009 and money to Paula Dockery in 2004.

10 News has also confirmed Kelley's sister volunteered on Charlie Crist's gubernatorial campaign in 2006 when he ran as a Republican.