Get back in the sack with these solutions for reigniting your man's libido

Get More Sex in Your Marriage

Get More Sex in Your Marriage

Has your husband been saying “not tonight, dear” a little too often? It’s hard not to feel rejected, but it doesn’t necessarily mean he’s lost that lovin’ feelin’ for you. Learn about the most common reasons he may not be in the mood and what you can do about it.

1. He wants to relax after a long day.

1. He wants to relax after a long day.

If he’s retreating to his man cave each night, that could create a pattern of disconnection, says Debra Castaldo, PhD, a relationship expert and director of the Center for Couples and Family Solutions in Midland Park, NJ. He may not realize you’re missing him, though, so tell him. Try: “It seems like we’re spending most of our evening time apart. I know you want to chill out, but I miss being with you. Maybe we can do something relaxing together,” suggests Dr. Castaldo. Find something soothing you both enjoy, whether it’s drinking wine, reading side by side in bed or finding a new favorite TV show. Once there’s togetherness, there’s an opportunity for intimacy, says Dr. Castaldo.