Caffyn, Thank you so much for opening your world, your temple and your whole being. I felt you sincerely teach in your entirety

CobinaIntimacy Educator Training

2018-07-25T06:01:12+00:00

CobinaIntimacy Educator Training

Caffyn, Thank you so much for opening your world, your temple and your whole being. I felt you sincerely teach in your entirety

https://www.erospirit.ca/testimonials/cobina/

Caffyn Jesse is one of the most profoundly gifted and learned somatic sex educators of our time.

Christiane Pelmas

2018-07-25T11:47:24+00:00

Christiane Pelmas

Caffyn Jesse is one of the most profoundly gifted and learned somatic sex educators of our time.

https://www.erospirit.ca/testimonials/christiane-pelmas/

Thank you for your open-hearted and wise teaching…. I'm so glad I did the training, having come away with more knowledge than I thought possible, calmly resting in my bones as the days pass.

Max
Trauma Training for Bodywork Professionals

2018-07-25T11:48:53+00:00

Max
Trauma Training for Bodywork Professionals

Thank you for your open-hearted and wise teaching…. I'm so glad I did the training, having come away with more knowledge than I thought possible, calmly resting in my bones as the days pass.

https://www.erospirit.ca/testimonials/max/

I am forever held in gratitude for your work in this field. I was in awe of the training; a decadent holiday, intense therapy, and embodied schooling, all at one time. It was an experience that changed me on a cellular level.

Caitlin Roberts
Somatic Sex Educator

2018-07-25T11:49:26+00:00

Caitlin Roberts
Somatic Sex Educator

I am forever held in gratitude for your work in this field. I was in awe of the training; a decadent holiday, intense therapy, and embodied schooling, all at one time. It was an experience that changed me on a cellular level.

https://www.erospirit.ca/testimonials/caitlin-roberts/

I am so deeply grateful for the week. It awakened in me a new and ancient knowing of my own erotic freedom. Thank you for offering this profound work!

2018-07-25T11:49:52+00:00

I am so deeply grateful for the week. It awakened in me a new and ancient knowing of my own erotic freedom. Thank you for offering this profound work!

https://www.erospirit.ca/testimonials/141/

Thank you for being such a potent and precious part of birthing my calling for this highest of tasks!!!

2018-07-25T11:50:27+00:00

Thank you for being such a potent and precious part of birthing my calling for this highest of tasks!!!

Online Learning

Sexual Healing

In staggering numbers, we are sexually, physically and emotionally abused as children – betrayed by the adults we rely on to survive. In later years, many of us experience unwanted sex, rape, and sexual violence. We hurt other people. We frighten ourselves. We are hated and punished for our sexual choices. And when people don’t have sex by the rules (and that means almost everyone), the punishments are real and they are terrible. Simply living in a sex-negative culture – where desire is so often shamed – profoundly wounds this most sacred, secret part of us.

We can become numb, psychically and physically. We can disassociate from our erotic capacities. Some people experience chronic pelvic constriction and pain. Some have little or no feeling in their genitals. Some respond to arousal by “shutting down” emotionally or physically. Some of us become hypersexual. Some feel we can only be aroused by extreme experiences or violent fantasies that cut through the numbness and allow our erotic feelings to unfold. Shame about our histories, bodies, (dis)abilities, desires and needs keep us isolated and untouched. So often, eroticism becomes entwined with self-hatred. Our lives and loves are distorted by self-defeating behaviors, obsessions, compulsions, and painful attachments.

Jack Morin describes what happens when negative core beliefs distort erotic experiences. They disrupt our ability to accept sexual pleasure. They draw us into self-defeating situations. They can create overwhelming, intense compulsions and obsessions that we feel unable to resist. And they restrain us from developing our full potential – not just sexually, but in other areas as well (The Erotic Mind, p. 226).

Sexual healing begins with acceptance – both self-acceptance, and the unconditional positive regard of another person. With self-acceptance and loving touch, we can become re-embodied, and allow the fullness of our erotic capacities to unfold. Compassion and self-affirmation expand as we make small and large decisions that promote our own best interests and nourish our respect for self and others.

Morin invites us to ask “What would my eroticism be without self-deprecation and fear as guiding principles?” The answers may be astounding!

Sex is a matrix of body, mind, spirit and emotions. Somatic Sex Education can be a shamanic tool for journeying into this matrix and healing the disconnects.

If you are over 18, watch this explicit FREE video on how Somatic Sex Education can be used for sexual healing.

Words cannot describe
what my eyes can see....
what my body can feel....

How could talk therapy ever counter the "conversation" rape had with my BODY....
I will never forget the feeling of Caffyn's hands so respectfully over my yoni and my heart...
my ears hearing her tell me that my body was mine....
This was a healing "conversation" with my body.

2018-07-25T05:57:19+00:00

Words cannot describe what my eyes can see.... what my body can feel.... How could talk therapy ever counter the "conversation" rape had with my BODY.... I will never forget the feeling of Caffyn's hands so respectfully over my yoni and my heart... my ears hearing her tell me that my body was mine.... This was a healing "conversation" with my body.

https://www.erospirit.ca/testimonials/erin/

Since the massage, I have been way more in my power, much more at home with myself and the world…. I feel more connected to myself, other people, and the Universe/God. It’s so powerful and incredible….

2018-07-25T07:16:39+00:00

Since the massage, I have been way more in my power, much more at home with myself and the world…. I feel more connected to myself, other people, and the Universe/God. It’s so powerful and incredible….

https://www.erospirit.ca/testimonials/carla/

Dear Caffyn, it is rare for a day or two to go by since, that I don’t think of you, invoke you and even mention you, your book and your extraordinary contribution to the realm of being human. Thank you for feeding my expanding map of aliveness and eroticism.

2018-07-25T11:57:49+00:00

Dear Caffyn, it is rare for a day or two to go by since, that I don’t think of you, invoke you and even mention you, your book and your extraordinary contribution to the realm of being human. Thank you for feeding my expanding map of aliveness and eroticism.

https://www.erospirit.ca/testimonials/dear-caffyn-it-is-rare/

Thank you so much for your soft, compassionate being, the space you held for me was so healing

2018-07-25T11:58:08+00:00

Thank you so much for your soft, compassionate being, the space you held for me was so healing

https://www.erospirit.ca/testimonials/joseph/

After our sessions I had this amazing feeling of connectedness with Life, like an energetic wall I’d put up between myself and Life had almost completely fallen away along with those fears I’d let go of – it was incredible to literally breathe Life in like this, through my body/skin, and to still feel I had my own energetic space.

2018-07-25T11:58:24+00:00

After our sessions I had this amazing feeling of connectedness with Life, like an energetic wall I’d put up between myself and Life had almost completely fallen away along with those fears I’d let go of – it was incredible to literally breathe Life in like this, through my body/skin, and to still feel I had my own energetic space.

https://www.erospirit.ca/testimonials/after-our-sessions/

It was a big realization for me that I really DO know what my body, what I need, in any given moment…. Using my voice and connecting it to my awareness was really powerful for me. I feel like a lot integrity has been restored.

2018-07-25T11:58:41+00:00

It was a big realization for me that I really DO know what my body, what I need, in any given moment…. Using my voice and connecting it to my awareness was really powerful for me. I feel like a lot integrity has been restored.

https://www.erospirit.ca/testimonials/az/

I felt beautiful and perfectly myself. Relaxed and joyful. Happy. Loved. I took in your words and began to understand how spirit is love, and how genital stimulation can be an avenue through which love can flow.

2018-07-25T11:58:54+00:00

I felt beautiful and perfectly myself. Relaxed and joyful. Happy. Loved. I took in your words and began to understand how spirit is love, and how genital stimulation can be an avenue through which love can flow.

The methods that Caffyn is using to relieve the pain and discomfort of the adhesions of scar tissue are effective physically and, in my experience and process, emotionally freeing and deeply healing to my soul.

2018-07-25T12:04:43+00:00

The methods that Caffyn is using to relieve the pain and discomfort of the adhesions of scar tissue are effective physically and, in my experience and process, emotionally freeing and deeply healing to my soul.