Prudence is joined this week by Harron Walker, a staff writer at Out magazine, whose work has appeared on Jezebel, BuzzFeed, Vulture, Vice, and Them.

Together, they tackle letters about how to create a safe space for a child who is showing signs of being transgender, whether you should worry that your girlfriend has been in therapy for nine years, what to do when you find out your twin sister has been talking trash about you to anyone who will listen, what actions to take when your boyfriend accidentally sends you an amateur porno of him with another woman, and what to do when your “split all costs” plan with your girlfriend isn’t really happening.

Slate Plus members will hear Prudie and Walker discuss a letter writer who is wondering if she should let her LGBTQ+ clients know that she’s queer, even though she’s married to a straight cis man.

The full Dear Prudence podcast is available exclusively to Slate Plus members. Access all of Prudie’s podcasts and columns here.

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