Some of it is such a deeply ingrained thing it's hard to let go of. I mean, I don't believe that what I child plays with has anything to do with their sexuality, but I still find myself stopping -- or wanting to stop -- my son from doing something "girly". Stuff that when I really think about it, I don't have a problem with, but because it is so much in society that boys play with "boy toys" I sometimes don't realize what I'm doing.