I finally have hit that point in my life I have been waiting for.. the "aha" moment. I am so done with drama, bull crap, and people that do not add quality to my life. I deleted more people off my Facebook and it felt good. Oh and I will not settle for drama with my family either. Just because people are family does not mean I can lose myself for their comfort. Allow me to elaborate, one of my aunts who I strongly already dislike has political posts I hate. My first idea is that I can argue with her. I am done justifying everything and defending myself. Done!! She is one of those family members you have to see once a year at a family gather type. I do not owe her anything. I also stopped talked my cousin in law because she is full of drama and BS. I know all of this may be mean but, I just don't care anymore. The only people who I want to make happy is James, Cody, Sophia, and our kitties. I no longer will be pushing myself to care about what others think. I am done. I have been a people pleaser far too long. Dang it feels good to say NO to drama!!!

i hid a drama queen from my fb viewing and now that i am not seeing her sad sob drama crap i feel good about hiding her. i have a mostly drama free life (except for when dh acts up)i got a taste of my sils drama and i am soooo glad that i am free from it!