Did you know in the olden days that suitors would declare their affection through flowers and not words? The young lover sent his beloved a bouquet of red roses, tulips, or carnations. If the lady sent her gentleman friend a bouquet of lilacs in response, she was communicating to him her shared affection. Isn’t that romantic? If she sent him ivy on the other hand, it was an invitation to be “just friends.” That’s a lovely way to communicate disinterest without hurting someone’s feelings.

Today, most of the meanings behind different flowers are lost to us. We usually show up at the flower shop and pick the bouquet that looks the prettiest. Am I right? You would benefit from a few tips on which flowers to buy for what occasion. You may even be able to have a conversation with someone based only on flowers!

The Meaning of Roses

Overall meaning: love. Roses are always a declaration of affection, even if it’s just friendship. This is why red roses are so popular on anniversaries and Valentine’s Day. Depending on the color, you can convey different meanings.

Overall meaning: declaration of love. Sending a bouquet of tulips is great option for dudes who are trying to figure out what flowers to send the woman they’re interested in. They’re not as flashy as roses, but have a deep symbolic meaning.

Overall meaning: pride and beauty. You might want to watch out for yellow and striped carnations if you’re going to be sending the flowers, because they represent something you probably don’t want to convey.

Overall meaning: exotic beauty. The orchid is one of the most delicate flowers because it requires propping up and controlled environment. Send them to make a strong statement about the mystery of delicate, strong beauty.