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should I wait Or leave

I dont know what to do 2 weeks before cristmas my fiance tells me she doesnt love me anymore and doesnt want me after 7 years and a 4 year old daughter now she says shes confuesd then that she doesnt want to fix things but each time i try to move my things out she fights me not to then she told me that there is this guy that she hooked up with she says they never had sex but that they made out a few times and he claims that she is his girlfriend but she tells me that she knows that he is no good for her and he has nothing to offer her because he apparently is involved in a gang and she says she wants to tell him that she doesnt want to see him anymore but she is afraid that he would some people after her then she tells me that if he found out I was still staying the house with my daughter that he would try to come after me I realy dont care if he tries something with me but i do worrie about her and my daughter where it gets weird is that her own freind keeps telling me to stay and stick it out that she is just mixed up and doesnt know what she wants I need some advice or insight help pleas

Get your daughter out of that situation-She does not want to break up with him-she sounds like she is making excuses-As far as&quot;not having sex just making out&quot; If you are married aor in a committed relationship-that is cheating.Good luck to you.

jeffj
first off, dude, us some punctuation:) A period and comma here and there helps a bunch with the clarity.
Second, you have a child to think about, and you not being in the scene to look after your daughter is not an option. See to it that she is safe, and then figure out the rest.

My friends told me that I knew what I wanted to do, I was just not ready to do it. It sounds like you're there to. You know you need to get out, but mistyj is right. If there is reason to believe your daughter is not safe, you should take her with you. Her friend wants you to stay and take care of her friend. I don't think her advice is with your best interest in mind.

I agree. Take your daughter and leave. If she would like to follow in the future maybe you two can work out the fact that she cheated, but if this guy is in a gang, your first priority needs to be your daughter.

After reading your journals, it appears your ex-fiance wants her cake and eat it too. She wants out but isnt in a hurry to leave the comfort zone she has. Your daughter is the most important thing right now so do what you need to to take care of her and yourself. Your fiance made her bed, let her lie in it.

I know that sounds harsh but it just doesnt sound like she is anywhere near as vested in the relationship as you are. Her friends tell you to stay yet they dont like you so it just doesnt add up. Good luck.

I am sorry for what you are going through. I'm going through almost the same thing. He left last week but before he left he said him and the other girl only made out. But then the bills come in and the hotels are on there. I afraid to say thatI don't think that is all they were doing. I can't give you any advice as I don't know what to do but you are not alone.

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