My first husband cheated and I never gave it a second thought on wheter I wanted to try to work through it...no way! No matter how much I did love him ,he obviously didn't love me enough. My opinion only, I don't give second chances for cheating. I have been married for 32 years now and he's pretty clear on what would go down if that happened.

To me, it depends on the man
humans have flaws I understand and I believe that man are under a tremendous amount of temptation
its the old garden of eden thing you know
However, some people are just plain old selfish, and disrespectful..
My husband had been after me since we were teenagers. I lived in a small community and the ratio of women to men was sickening, so I tried to abstain from sex until after puberty and I moved away
Meanwhile he sowed his oats and had a bad reputation
His beef with me was I was one of the few women that said no to him
His revenge
he waited till I came home from the military,was rehabilitating from a car crash and started writing me ove letters, sending his little cousins over to check on me, dropping by, and introducing me to his folks.
all these gestures was cute and romantic, all caught up in childhood infatuation. I married him three years later
He honey mooned me for a week
and then left me and went back to sleeping around
all of that was revenge, his ego not to mention he been in trouble with the police and my dad was a cop
not to mention he converted to Islam and my dad was a preacher
I had it all coming to me just for being born
we are like the montagues and capulets
family klans that attack each other, marrying one another is just another form of attack
Trust isn't even an option for me, because I know my soon to be ex is my enemy
By taking out all doubt, I know how to get out
Now my boyfriend on the other hand is the sweetest man I ever met, he doesn't aggravate me for the heck of it.

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