Grief & Loss: A Child's Perspective

After a death of a loved one, grownups are often unsure about how to help young children. Death is a difficult concept for adults to process, and most feel helpless in the presence of a grieving child. For children, there is an added dimension. Their capacity to make send of the loss is filtered through the lens of their developmental state. After some discussion of infants and toddlers, our young experts, ages 4-12, explain with patience and wisdom, how the grieving process has been for them and what has been comforting to them.

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Sue

Listen 2 Kids Productions•3 years ago•Filmmaker

After working with kids and their families for 35 years, I became acutely aware of the wisdom of children and believe that the world could be ever so much better, if we could just listen. To that end, I created videos that seek to give voice to the wisdom of children as they teach us about ...Read more

After working with kids and their families for 35 years, I became acutely aware of the wisdom of children and believe that the world could be ever so much better, if we could just listen. To that end, I created videos that seek to give voice to the wisdom of children as they teach us about important life topics such as autism in the family, grief and divorce. As adults we give ourselves permission to dismiss what kids say. But kids haven't learned cynicism. They haven't learned corruption. They are much closer to being pure of heart, and they are way better at getting to the heart of an issue--if you give them the chance.

A fascinating view into the minds of children suffering with the loss of a loved one. The film provides crucial ways for adults to communicate with children during grieving periods, as well as thoughtful tactics for consoling and comforting. Heart-rendering at times, the film brings ...Read more

A fascinating view into the minds of children suffering with the loss of a loved one. The film provides crucial ways for adults to communicate with children during grieving periods, as well as thoughtful tactics for consoling and comforting. Heart-rendering at times, the film brings beneficial guidance useful for all adults attempting to help their child.

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