[quote]thats not fair everyone makes mistakes. im a wonderful father i just had some things in my life that would come up and i couldnt afford to go see her. But i called and emailed my ex to ask for pictures and to videos. [/quote]

You don't think the judge will think it's odd that you had the time and money to woo a new woman into marriage and you had NO time or money to visit the child that you helped create ?