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When a woman hits the wall on the inside- My red pill realization of the day

First a story from yesterday
I go to Jersey Mikes for a sandwich, and I pull into the parking at the same time as Chad and his squeeze. Chad has a new Infinity, she is wearing a coverup over a bathing suit, both mid late 20s. In line she backs into me, and whoa, she is packing an extra 20 lbs on her hips, then she turns to say sorry, just to show saggy saggy breasts through the coverup. It must be the worst wall hit I ever seen for a 20 something. I betcha she was good at 19.
Anyways, she digging and digging through her purse for bills and coins to pay for Chads lunch, Chad offers no financial help, so she has no Credit Cards or they are maxed out. There are two empty tables, they take one, I am across the aisle.
From the conversation, I can tell she hasn't hit the wall on the inside yet. She still seems cute and fun. But I think I shamed Chad, because he saw when I gave her the yewww look when she backed into me. During lunch he looked over at a few times, but turned away when I caught him. So it was not a confrontational look. LOL, probably trying to signal me she wasn't his girlfriend, but a free lunch and a bone.

So my realization is, women aren't hitting the wall on the inside at the same time as on the outside. And they don't always hit the wall on the inside after the outside. For example: My Ex hit the wall on the inside years before the outside. My Ex went from cute and fluffy to mean and nasty when she could still pass for her 20s. I think these are the most dangerous women. Because she looked so good, I really did put up with crap I shouldnt have had to prolonging and increasing the cost of the divorcerape

Maybe a guy can gamble with a girl in her 20s, but there is NO WAY a guy should take a 30 plus no matter how good they look on the outside. Because they have already hit that wall on the inside, or soon will

Re: When a woman hits the wall on the inside- My red pill realization of the day

I don't think women ever fully hit the wall on the inside.

What I mean is, they get older, and nastier. As their notch count gets higher and their looks fade, their reckless lifestyle catches up to them. Their emotional problems, drug addiction, and whatever baggage they accumulate gets heavier and heavier. But do they ever become less entitled, or demanding? Do they ever develop realistic standards for themselves, or make any attempt whatsoever to better themselves? No they do not.

Their perception never comes back into alignment with reality; their narcissism and deceitful nature prevent that from ever happening. They cannot even be honest with themselves. They also cannot think ahead into the future, which is why they never see the wall coming, even though we all know it is inevitable.

I find it rather funny. I see all these hot little young sluts, walking around with their supermassive egos and air of entitlement...and I know exactly what's going to happen to them all. It's the most crushing, degrading, and humiliating defeat they can possibly imagine, and then some.

Re: When a woman hits the wall on the inside- My red pill realization of the day

Women start as girls, mature, but when they are young,they are at thier pinnacle. Top of thier game and looks.
Men start out as boys, still growing, still getting better, learning to be a man. It's an up hill journey.
Women, have no where to go, very shortly, after they "crest the hill" coast, gaining speed as they will soon impact reality. The wall.
Men on the other hand, are still on the up swing in life.
Those "HOT" babes of days gone by, the ones who refused to give one the time of day, are fading into oblivion, but not with out a fight. The thought of being invisible to men brings on a desperation. With desperation comes anger and nastiness.
The men, who have been invisible their whole life, don't understand why women are the way they are....just nasty.
The women may or may not realize the chances to be happy they have rejected. They just blame men for the situation that they are in now. They have never been held accountable before, not now either.
So to you "Hotties", go ahead and strut yer stuff, it won't last long. Don't come to me when it's over....I'm invisible........always have been....

As soon as she says "I do", she don't
MOLON LABE......."Come take them"

Re: When a woman hits the wall on the inside- My red pill realization of the day

In most cases, all women have is their looks. The so called 'inner wall' is developed very early on. Women think they can have the best; and they ask for it; and they usually get it.

Women will always be nasty if you are an Average Joe. They are basically saying 'don't even think you have a chance with me' I want chad and I will get chad.
It doesn't always work out but the possibility is more real somehow than the reality.

Re: When a woman hits the wall on the inside- My red pill realization of the day

I think a lot of their post-wall anger is really self-directed, because deep down inside they know virtually all of their decisions were suboptimal and even self-destructive. Self-destructive in the sense of, "Oh fuck... I totally ruined my life, pissed it away." What better way to become a nasty human being than to have to carry around that bag of shit every day.

Re: When a woman hits the wall on the inside- My red pill realization of the day

When we're in our late teens and twenties I think we all (men & women) go through a phase of believing we know how life works - I've got this shit sussed.

As we hit our thirties most blokes begin to realise that the life they've been living isn't sustainable or even desirable. Unless we wish to see a particular band we have little interest in associating with people in their teens / early twenties who dominate the nightlife or party scene.

Many women however don't get this. Perhaps due to the echo chamber they fail to realise that their "time" has come and gone. They continue to feel that they're just as attractive to the younger guys as they ever were and when they fail to attract the younger guys they used to, that's when the resentment and anger begins to kick in.

They begin to see all guys as shallow without realising that it's their own self-deception and lack of growth that's causing their frustration.

Re: When a woman hits the wall on the inside- My red pill realization of the day

They "begin" to see all guys as shallow? If that ain't the pot tellin' the kettel it's black! And a tad on the hypocritical side...….
They screwed up, plain and simple, but it ain't their fault. Just ask them.....

As soon as she says "I do", she don't
MOLON LABE......."Come take them"

Re: When a woman hits the wall on the inside- My red pill realization of the day

Originally Posted by kru-kut

I think a lot of their post-wall anger is really self-directed, because deep down inside they know virtually all of their decisions were suboptimal and even self-destructive. Self-destructive in the sense of, "Oh fuck... I totally ruined my life, pissed it away." What better way to become a nasty human being than to have to carry around that bag of shit every day.

To be honest, that's exactly what the Redpill Rage is, in my case. And we're all pretty nasty human beings for a while after the "Lifting of Veils", to tbh... Difference is, we have a much easier road out. Given that Romance is their primary weapon of extracting resources, once that's gone, they have to deal with the same "societal invisibility" that we ALWAYS have... Every guy I know, particularly the Beta's, have lived a life of romantic deprivation, borderline poverty and "Anesthesia via Consumption"... The ladies have By & Large, only dealt with the latter. All that changes when they become "single mom", or hit the wall. And it blasts them into oblivion.

We've already lived in Oblivion our entire lives, and we're drastically more optimized (mentally, physically, spiritually) for "lone" survival... That's what being the procurement wing of an Apex Scavenger species is all about. We were built for these challenges, and they absolutely aren't.

Re: When a woman hits the wall on the inside- My red pill realization of the day

From my experience when a woman hits that inner wall there is no turning back. They lose their feminine side, are angry, bitter, jaded, and not trusting. In fact, these type of women seek out alpha much harder and don't even settle for beta bux. They are basically the bar flys and club women that are still clubbing it up in their 30's. Their N count is the highest of all.

A feminine woman that hits the outer wall but still is feminine with the inner wall can still land a beta bux. Even if this women has been divorced, has a high N count or has kids because feminine women are still highly desirable by all men for all type of relationships (FWB, hangout, dating, LTR, etc).

No amount of logic, reasoning, or teaching can help guide women back from the abyss once they hit that inner wall. You extend a helping hand as a man and they view you as the key problem with all their problems in their own universe.

Basically it is a losing situation for a man to even engage such a woman in any, any capacity.

Re: When a woman hits the wall on the inside- My red pill realization of the day

I've been rethinking the concept of the wall lately. I don't think it exists anymore. As gynocenterism ramps up here at the end of days, the wall has essentially dissolved.

The sheer number of simps out there guarantees that every woman can still find a man to validate here. I have seen ham-planets the likes of which would never have been able to find a man just 30 years ago, walking around with some soy-boy, basically on a leash for all practical purposes.

The wall only exists in healthy societies. We are well passed the point of it being a useful concept for us to still use and consider.

Re: When a woman hits the wall on the inside- My red pill realization of the day

Originally Posted by pbisque

I've been rethinking the concept of the wall lately. I don't think it exists anymore. As gynocenterism ramps up here at the end of days, the wall has essentially dissolved.

The sheer number of simps out there guarantees that every woman can still find a man to validate here. I have seen ham-planets the likes of which would never have been able to find a man just 30 years ago, walking around with some soy-boy, basically on a leash for all practical purposes.

The wall only exists in healthy societies. We are well passed the point of it being a useful concept for us to still use and consider.

Technology helps hide the effects of the wall. But technology is a doubled edged sword in that it shows women with their husbands and kids in social media feeds while the career women or "single" women are forced to go through such feeds.

No wonder a lot of these career women or single women rage quit social media accounts when they are reminded daily that they passed on what they wanted in their life due to their choices.

However, the number of women that genuinely don't want kids, husband or family are very low. They exist as I know a few of them but they are outliers compared to the norm I have interacted with over many years.

Re: When a woman hits the wall on the inside- My red pill realization of the day

I think the whole concept of the wall will gradually become irrelevant with the passing of time. That's because MGTOW will become more and more common, and so whether a woman's hit the wall or not (i.e. whether she's an age-related one or ten or anything in between) will matter less and less. It simply won't be part of any relevant calculus.

Re: When a woman hits the wall on the inside- My red pill realization of the day

As children, we have a 'theme park mentality'. But as boys turn into men, the choice is either work or prison. Eventually, raw reality snaps men out of the theme park mentality (though many men stay in it).

Women never leave the 'theme park mindset'.

Men think of sex and sexuality as something distinct, a part but not all of life. To women, sex and sexuality are life and is the 'big theme park' they believe they are all entitled.

As youngsters, they cannot wait to enter this fabulous 'theme park'. Cock carousals all over the place! Their vagina is like a slot machine. Each time they put dicks inside, they get different money and prizes. It is no wonder why women refer to some 'rich men' as 'jackpot'.

What? You had consensual sex with a woman but didn't give her any money or gifts? Oh, ALL women will be angry at you! Don't you realize you just CHEATED her? Don't you know how this work? Cash and prizes are given to her... as much as you can handle.

Look at all the rides! But don't the rides become boring after time? Sure. So let's move to the next part of the theme park called 'suburbs'. Here, she gets a house and kids. What fun! What a ride! Raising children, going through those rides.

Anything that disrupts this theme park is immediately removed. MGTOWs, anyone saying anything contrary to the theme park, are all made gone.

What isn't fair is that women do not get to ride ALL the rides. At a real theme park, it says: "You must be this height to get on the ride." A kid too short knows he or she will grow taller and be able to get on the ride one day. For women, it is reverse. They shrink in this theme park. They no longer have that 'sexual height' able to get on the rides. Most of the time, it doesn't matter, as they've gotten tired of the Chad Rollercoasters and look forward to Pleasant Suburb part of the theme park.

The women hitting the wall are unhappy that parts of the theme park are no longer accessible. The park is becoming less and less fun. Worse, they see other women getting 'jackpots' that they wish they had got. I don't think it is so much that they feel they are invisible, it is that other women are getting the attention, and they are not.

To women, life is this theme park. They look back at all the rides they were on, how they were able to 'best enjoy' the theme park. There is no 'tragedy' in the woman's life, no 'comedy' either, just a selection of all the rides she went on. With other women, she talks about her experiences and which rides and attractions were more fun.

Note that all 'dates' and 'outings' with your girlfriend or spouse follows the theme park. Dinner dates are nothing more than over-spiced food in a themed environment. Vacations are trips to tourist traps. She sees her time with you as you taking her on these 'rides'.

Philosophy? Science? Engineering? "Boring," she mutters. How dare you bore her in the theme park! No, you keep that stuff when she isn't around. It is theme park time! It is time for her to have FUN. What is civilization? A theme park for women.

Gentlemen, it is time we make the world into OUR theme park. MGTOW are men choosing to pursue their own happiness!

They intentionally say what we 'ought' to do instead of what we could do. For if the lion discovers his own strength, he will become uncontrollable.