Feeling depressed I need some real help HB.

I'm sad as fuck right now, I know my past posts said I don't have many problems, but honestly ain't shit going right in life right now.

My mom hurt her back so she can't work, my mom depressed and that's making me sad too cause I hate seeing my mom like this. My grades slipping hard, my self esteem is at an all-time low, I think most of the people outside my group of friends hates me. Very few girls will even give me the time of day. My grandma just got out of one surgery, she gotta go back for another one, I'm scared cause I know her body weak, I don't know if she can handle all this shit. My grandpa been handling shit by himself, he's dealing with cancer now.

On top of all that, I just found out one of my niggas died, that's 12 of the people I considered friends dead in 3 months. At this point I really can't handle life. I don't have shit going for me at the moment, honestly not a damn thing is looking up right now.

You ever find a room full of money then realize it ain't your money but still take it cause its money?

I can hear my mom crying every night, I don't want my mom sad at all. She's made it this far in life, stressing herself out just to make sure I'm alright, she took me and we left my dad when I was young so we could live a life without bullshit. Its like everything we've been avoiding for so long finally caught up to us.

You ever find a room full of money then realize it ain't your money but still take it cause its money?

Bruh you gotta man up man and be strong for ya fam if your having trouble in school get help and you shouldn't give a fuck if some bitches don't give you the time of day after high school you will never see them again you have to pick youself up and belive in yourself trust me this isn't the worst your life can be do things that make you feel good man whenever I feel down I listen to music on some inspirational shit like through the wire but forreal belive in yourself I hope everything works out man.. ima leave you with this quote. "No one can cheat you out of success but yourself " -Emerson

I'm sad as fuck right now, I know my past posts said I don't have many problems, but honestly ain't shit going right in life right now.

My mom hurt her back so she can't work, my mom depressed and that's making me sad too cause I hate seeing my mom like this. My grades slipping hard, my self esteem is at an all-time low, I think most of the people outside my group of friends hates me. Very few girls will even give me the time of day. My grandma just got out of one surgery, she gotta go back for another one, I'm scared cause I know her body weak, I don't know if she can handle all this shit. My grandpa been handling shit by himself, he's dealing with cancer now.

On top of all that, I just found out one of my niggas died, that's 12 of the people I considered friends dead in 3 months. At this point I really can't handle life. I don't have shit going for me at the moment, honestly not a damn thing is looking up right now.

Welcome to my world bruh, can't shit save you but a scholarship. Let your guidance counselors and whatnot know your situation so they can help you get prepared. Cuz truth be told its either school, streets or the army if your looking to help your fam out....jobs are low as fuck out here. Focus on gettin your grades back up, i swear to god i wish i had someone help me out when I was down bad and fucked up in high school.

like chopzz said, think positive and make yourself busy to get your mind off of things. Hang out with your friends some more, or maybe spending some more time on school could do just that. do you think there's anything you can help your mom with her depression?

like chopzz said, think positive and make yourself busy to get your mind off of things. Hang out with your friends some more, or maybe spending some more time on school could do just that. do you think there's anything you can help your mom with her depression?

Idk man, I've tried to help my mom but she's one of those people who just hates help.

You ever find a room full of money then realize it ain't your money but still take it cause its money?

You gotta be the engine of the fam dog. Regardless of shit falling down around you gotta keep pushin and handle biz. Life's a bitch sometimes, tough times don't last but tough people do. And whatever you do, don't turn to drugs for temporary relief

I'm sad as fuck right now, I know my past posts said I don't have many problems, but honestly ain't shit going right in life right now.

My mom hurt her back so she can't work, my mom depressed and that's making me sad too cause I hate seeing my mom like this. My grades slipping hard, my self esteem is at an all-time low, I think most of the people outside my group of friends hates me. Very few girls will even give me the time of day. My grandma just got out of one surgery, she gotta go back for another one, I'm scared cause I know her body weak, I don't know if she can handle all this shit. My grandpa been handling shit by himself, he's dealing with cancer now.

On top of all that, I just found out one of my niggas died, that's 12 of the people I considered friends dead in 3 months. At this point I really can't handle life. I don't have shit going for me at the moment, honestly not a damn thing is looking up right now.

On some real shit bruh, I been there. I know how you feelin right now but what you gotta do is be strong for your family. Your mom has been strong for you for so long, now you're old enough that you gotta return the favor. Help each other get outta the slump and work together to make a better live for yourselves. Use your situation as motivation, strive to get out of a shitty situation and make something of yourself. Great things have come from people in struggle. Just remember theres other people out there going through similar stuff, so you're not alone. Stay up my guy, you were put on this earth for a purpose.

Don't worry about people not liking you cause in a couple years those people will be a distant memory. Find some good loyal friends who are successful in school and who will motivate you, don't settle success is contagious. As for your mom and her situation all I can really say is spend time with her talking going to the park just hanging out and to help her out get a job or join the military.

I'm sad as fuck right now, I know my past posts said I don't have many problems, but honestly ain't shit going right in life right now.

My mom hurt her back so she can't work, my mom depressed and that's making me sad too cause I hate seeing my mom like this. My grades slipping hard, my self esteem is at an all-time low, I think most of the people outside my group of friends hates me. Very few girls will even give me the time of day. My grandma just got out of one surgery, she gotta go back for another one, I'm scared cause I know her body weak, I don't know if she can handle all this shit. My grandpa been handling shit by himself, he's dealing with cancer now.

On top of all that, I just found out one of my niggas died, that's 12 of the people I considered friends dead in 3 months. At this point I really can't handle life. I don't have shit going for me at the moment, honestly not a damn thing is looking up right now.

if your local maybe we can all pitch in and buy you an escort for an hour

Op u gunna make it, nust remember god, and all those whove suffered more than you did and still prospered...read books about philosophy, read some zen budaism, make ur mind strong...I went thru depression myself and it made my situation worse.

@OP, just got to keep your head up and keep strong for your family. Don't get yourself down, keep yourself busy so you don't focus on the negativity in your life. I've had family die of cancer, and friends die in car crashes, and as hard as it is to accept, I just believe it was their turn. Trust me, it's so hard, almost impossible to stay positive in awful situations, which is what you seem to be in. But sooner or later, everything will fall in to place. Don't let yourself down at school, otherwise it'll be a never ending cycle of mediocrity and not reaching your targets. There's only one person that can make a difference to your life, and that's you.

Op u gunna make it, nust remember god, and all those whove suffered more than you did and still prospered...read books about philosophy, read some zen budaism, make ur mind strong...I went thru depression myself and it made my situation worse.

That's never helped anyone dealing with depression. Hey stage 1 cancer guy, think about dying aids guy to make you feel better. It doesn't make sense. Sure people have it worse, but it doesn't take away the pain that he's dealing with now.

Also, your mom probably hates help because she's used to being strong and independent. Getting help makes her face the fact that right now she's weak. But here's where you come in. You gotta let her know that it's ok for her to let her guard down and let you be strong. Show her you mean it by focusing better in school. Help her find some coupon deals for common expenses. Have her shop around for a new car insurance company to try and reduce that expense as well. Look for a job or a side hustle. Mow some lawns on the weekends. Or shovel snow depending on where you're at. Lotta dudes say sell weed. It's not worth the risk if your state is strict. A safer bet is selling weed brownies. But don't sell on school grounds. That's just dumb. And if you're in highschool, don't sell at all. Think of another good or service to sell. If you're near a sneaker shop that sells hyped items that you would never wear, buy and resell. If your area doesn't require you to bundle your cable and internet, then just go 100% internet. Any TV show you like you can still catch online. That'll help you save some dough. I'm just throwing out ideas man. I really hope things work out.

Remember this though: most problems have solutions. Your life is currently a puzzle that you have to solve. It's probably the biggest challenge you've had to face, but I feel like you got the heart to solve it.

yea i'm all for weed smoking but don't use it as a crutch, it only perpetuates depression. its best to do productive activities involving shit you like/love to help you feel positive and keep your mind straight and away from dark thoughts. forget about these young females b, they don't know what they want yet, you sound like a good guy and they're missing out b. and plus you still got your whole life ahead to find the right woman. life is testing you, if you get weak at a moment like this when strength is needed to persevere and move forward, your going to fall deeper into the hole of depression. its hard to stay strong, specially in your situation, and it seems sort of redundant to tell you to do it but regardless, you have to step up and stay strong, not just for you but for your mom, and everyone around you.

Honestly bro just do shit that takes your mind off your life. Play a video game. Go to the gym. Lock yourself in your room and study. Understand that other people problems in life shouldn't put you down. I know she your mom and all but do you think she likes the fact that what happened to her is effecting you in a negative way. Be concerned for her but don't be a whiny ass bitch. If you don't like how your life is going do something about it. Change your outlook on life. Nomatter how hard shit hits the fan. The only thing that matters is your attitude about it.

Also, your mom probably hates help because she's used to being strong and independent. Getting help makes her face the fact that right now she's weak. But here's where you come in. You gotta let her know that it's ok for her to let her guard down and let you be strong. Show her you mean it by focusing better in school. Help her find some coupon deals for common expenses. Have her shop around for a new car insurance company to try and reduce that expense as well. Look for a job or a side hustle. Mow some lawns on the weekends. Or shovel snow depending on where you're at. Lotta dudes say sell weed. It's not worth the risk if your state is strict. A safer bet is selling weed brownies. But don't sell on school grounds. That's just dumb. And if you're in highschool, don't sell at all. Think of another good or service to sell. If you're near a sneaker shop that sells hyped items that you would never wear, buy and resell. If your area doesn't require you to bundle your cable and internet, then just go 100% internet. Any TV show you like you can still catch online. That'll help you save some dough. I'm just throwing out ideas man. I really hope things work out.

Remember this though: most problems have solutions. Your life is currently a puzzle that you have to solve. It's probably the biggest challenge you've had to face, but I feel like you got the heart to solve it.

Keep your head up. Stay out of trouble. Help your moms.

great advice.

Also, like a few others have mentioned .. just because life is going bad atm, don't use that as an excuse to start fuckin around with drugs. It only makes things worse!! I've seen it happen to so many people that used to say the same things you posted. . .trust me duke, it's not worth it.

only thing you can do is stay in school and do better in school, and if you can, find a side job to help out.I wouldnt recommend taking your mind off of anything to be honest, because this is a part of growing up, and you need to observe and learn from it.. oh yea and bitches should be the last thing on your mind, dont even know why you brought that up, they aint nothing but distractions.

keep ur head up bruh. thats the only advice i can give you. ive been through some shit, i swear my demons will never leave me, but i face them head on. Thats all you can do really. keep ur head up and be ready for every challenge that comes your way.