I was wondering who many did update to 1.3.5.1, lately since yesterday I've been getting these notifications letting me know that there's an update avail and that it's going to update on the next charge. Can I avoid this? Im happy with the 1.3.5 update and dont see the reason to update my phone but of course your always recommended to have your phone up to the latest software update. So who has and who hasnt??

There is no reason not to update your phone. This update is so small that it literally took me 5 minutes to download and install. Just to be safe, uninstall themes before updating; Patches should be fine. Besides, you will have to update anyway. The update will be forced to your phone the next time you put it on the charger. There is a way to stop automatic updates, but it doesn't make sense to do this for this one.

There is no reason not to update your phone. This update is so small that it literally took me 5 minutes to download and install. Just to be safe, uninstall themes before updating; Patches should be fine. Besides, you will have to update anyway. The update will be forced to your phone the next time you put it on the charger. There is a way to stop automatic updates, but it doesn't make sense to do this for this one.

I've charged mine for 2 nights now and it hasn't downloaded or installed yet. Still have the message on Updates that it's available.

Except for those who intend to add tweaks..
Every update we have to remove tweaks nstall update and then reinstall tweaks.

You do not need to remove tweaks to update to 1.3.5.1 from 1.3.5. Just remove tweaks related to the calender just in case. I have a heavily modified Pre and had no issue. There are a few threads here that talk about this issue. Most people didnt bother removing tweaks and patches. Do remove a theme tho, just in case lol.

Give searching (or even just scrolling down to look at other threads) a try - many posts already aswered the question.

Bottom line, you don't have a choice, it will update you eventually like it or not.

Unless you kill the update service and prevent it from running again (you can search for that here too) That's one of the things I love about this phone. It's easy to see how it does things, and straightforward to change things you don't like about it. Let's hope they keep it that way.