tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4328456982150681334.post1427735703510350510..comments2010-10-21T04:36:10.643-07:00Comments on Am I There Yet?: Got Guilt?Nataliehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05539341758066089952noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4328456982150681334.post-26895904924718973022009-02-18T10:04:00.000-08:002009-02-18T10:04:00.000-08:00It is just so hard to give up the guilt! Thanks fo...It is just so hard to give up the guilt! Thanks for the comment - it's so helpful to talk to other mom's who have gone through this before me.Nataliehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05539341758066089952noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4328456982150681334.post-58650681791600774562009-02-18T06:57:00.000-08:002009-02-18T06:57:00.000-08:00The one thing my therapist always told me was that...The one thing my therapist always told me was that I had to look after myself first. I wasn't doing my daughter or husband any good if I didn't take care of myself. I often felt like I didn't deserve the breaks, and that I must be incompetent because I couldn't cope. Everytime I felt this way, I had to try to remind myself that the best thing I could do is to take a break and take care of myself. Very hard to believe at first, but if you keep telling yourself that, soon you will believe it and the guilt will start to fade. Not sure if it ever totally disappears though.Pinkyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17682309972448107855noreply@blogger.com