Mirror, Mirror, on the Wall

I asked my Upstairs Business Team (aka Guides) if there was a message I could share with you all, and this is what I’ve received.

This is strong (some of my Guides are very direct) and you may feel resistance to it, but please know it’s delivered with so much love. This is meant to serve those of you who need to hear it. Read on, take what you can use & leave the rest…

If there’s someone in your life who is driving you crazy – stop complaining about it.

I mean it. Stop it.

Get radically honest with yourself about your part, but don’t blame or shame yourself.

This person is a mirror for you, just like everyone in our life is a mirror for us.

Sometimes we get mirrored back to us our greatness, our light, our compassion.

And sometimes what we see in that mirror they are holding up is the darker part of ourselves – what we haven’t been willing to face.

The crazier that “other” person is – the louder the wake-up call is for us.

When you get confronted with your shadow, let it come to the surface and love it as best you can.

Don’t get stuck in an endless bad dream.

Where are you playing the victim? Is it with your bank account, your partner, a business deal, technology, a friend, your clients?

It’s time to step out of the victim role and grow yourself up.

If something is happening in your life that isn’t working for you – own it.

Be willing to look at the ways you’ve contributed to this situation.

Ask… how is the situation actually serving you?

Ask… what higher part of you is being called forth?

What do you know you need to do that’s scaring the pants off you?

Love,

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Thanks for sharing Lee!
Yes I take this onboard and I instantly saw myself in the mirror with a reflection on an interesting situation that occurred on Friday of last week.
My message was to think very carefully when communicating by email.
Your words can often be read in so many different ways and in turn project a different tone which can either please or offend if not put into context or explained in a simple way.
I experienced a harsh phone call from a colleague who clearly had been steered by another influence to take my words as being someone upset, when that was not the case at all.
Following the call made to me, Yes the situation was changed with a person speaking some harsh words which clearly in my mind were uncalled for and indeed when the situation was explained and calmed down the other person did see what had occurred and in their reflection over the weekend after hearing a different explanation brought harmony and a fresh set of eyes to. The whole situation.
So for me a strong lesson and for the other party involved too another strong lesson too. I expect othershave had similar experiences, so again I thank you for your opportunity to remind everyone to think twice about communicating by email and if you have the opportunity pick up the phone and call them before you follow up with an email!

Hi, Julie! You really taught yourself a LOT in this encounter, Julie!
Congratulations for paying attention.
I believe we have the opportunity to be teach-learning and learn-teaching in every encounter.

Thanks for the timely reminder that voice or face-to-face communication is so much richer than email or text. We’re wired to pick up on facial expressions, tone of voice and subtle cues. These are absent when we resort to the temptation to take the “easy out” and email a quick reply.