Tuesday, February 9, 2010

1. UNDERSTAND the nature of your partner. Don't try to change him/her according to your wishes. Learn to accept him/her with all their imperfections. Nobody is perfect. You should learn to overlook them. Be positive and see the good things in their nature. No one is completely bad. It's just that when we are angry, we tend to see things negatively...

2. NEVER lose trust in your partner. If you trust your partner, they will keep your trust. Specially in front of others, never taunt him/her...

3. ALWAYS give each other some space. Never suffocate each other so much that your partner can't breathe. Let them have their own friends and move in and out of their house at their own will. ..

4. ENCOURAGE each other at works. If one of the partner is not working, then encourage him/her to do something creative, so that their confidence level may increase...

5. HELP each other in both office and house-hold works. This show that you really careand respect your partner...

6. SURPRISE your partner with his/her favourite dish without any occasion or reason. Give them some gifts without any reason to make them happy and strengthen your relationship...

7. TRY to control your anger. When two people stay together, they are bound to be some disagreements between the two. Never be physical in such fights and try to be silent. When you are angry, count till ten. It's not a joke. It really works. It helps to control your anger. Otherwise you may end up saying harshly to your partner in anger which you tend to regret later.

* 7 Don'ts of a Marriage *

1. NEVER break trust of your partner. Trust is such a delicate matter, that if once broken, your partner will never be able to trust you again completely...

2. DON'T keep nagging. Try to be more understanding and helpful. Everyone is made of flesh and blood. Everyone's mood swings time to time. Sometimes, if one is going through some bad phase, the other should understand his/her condition...3. NEVER make fun of each other's talent. If a person is good in something but you are against it or don't like it, let it be the way it is. Give them some space to enjoy their hobby even if you don't approve of it...

4. BE with your partner always. Never trust others' comments on your partner. If you have any doubts, clarify it with your partner first and then think about the others. Even if the third person is one of your other family members, still trust your partner first and then others...5. NEVER stand against the career of your partner. If your partner grows in his/her career, it will positively affect you. So, be happy and support each other rather than create obstacles in his/her way...

6. IF a woman is working out of the house, then she needs the emotional support of her husband. She is working doubly for her family. If she is working out and taking care of the house as well, so don't nag her, if one small work remains undone. It can be done later on. After all, she is also a human. Be a little understanding, she wil never forget such favours...

7. NEVER buy big things without each other consent like a house or a car. Don't try to surprise your partner in such way. This might go other way. They might feel that their importantance is not accountable in such decisions. As while buying a house, one might like one location but the other might prefer another. It's the same case while purchasing a car, one might like a particular make or model, but the other might prefer another make, model or colour. So, it's always better to go around and do research on the big things and then decide on the final product together.

A caring attitude is always seen. You don't need to fake it. The reality comes out eventually. So, be what you are.