Sorry did not mean to create so soon! I'm annoyed at this and said surely it's normal in these circumstances to say sorry rather than shhh? So then I get a long drawn out sooooorryy which clearly is insincere and sarcastic.

This happened In front of teen dd but pretty much went unnoticed, and I first of all ignored, but then it escalated and all of a sudden I'm at fault and I'm the one having to leave the room to save drama and my sanity