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I realized just now that most people aren't aware of why I have been scarce since July. My mom in law, whom I love very much, is dealing with a very nasty and highly lethal cancer (angiosarcoma). She's had two very major surgeries in less than six weeks and she isn't doing super well. I'm living with her, taking care of her etc. It means I miss out on most things that are not related to feeding people or medical deals or nurses or doctors or therapists or pharmacists.... yeah. So that's where I have been, and where I will be for the foreseeable future, and why I am not a sunny bunny. ^_^ IT's all me.