Trump’s Only Weakness

His motormouth. (Which is a stand-in for his narcissism, not necessarily a bad thing in a man gunning for the grandest of thrones.)

I’ve know quite a few socially savvy, silver-tongued men who, like Trump, were skilled in the art of the dealpickup persuasion. These men knew they had a rare talent, and exploited their advantages ruthlessly. But that talent was also, sometimes, their undoing. A man in love with his voice and the effect it has on people will find it hard to resist the temptation to use it to excess.

If CH were Trump’s campaign adviser, this is what I would tell him. “Don’t second-guess yourself, but equally don’t become too publicly enamored of yourself. You’ll get sloppy. Keep it tight and quietly, to yourself, check your pride on occasion. And cut back on the late night Tweets.”

Giving Trump the benefit of the doubt (and why not? he’s earned it), he may be rightly calculating that it’s crucial to make a big splash in the early rounds, pick up momentum, and later, when his frontrunner status is secure, dispense his fighting words more sparingly, and delegate more of his broadsides to subordinates he can trust not to fold like weepy vaginas, because a King — or a King-in-waiting — doesn’t get into the mud with his yapping toy dog antagonists.

You have to peak early because the Iowa and New Hampshire primaries are 5 months away. Generally, winning those gets you the rest of the states. The losers of those early primaries run out of money and drop out fast.

I’m amazed and thrilled to see Jeb at single digits. I hope somehow Hillary’s legal troubles sink her, like the bloated cow she is.

Trump already said he would tone it down once he becomes prez. He addressed this very issue on a CNN interview 2 weeks ago. But he was very clear that if someone attacks him, or is just “not nice”, he’s coming back guns blazing and no apologies.

Stick to what’s working until it doesn’t. CH — as campaign advisor… YOUR FIRED. Go game some women.

Several foreign owners of residential property across Australia have been ordered to sell as the government intensifies its crackdown on the abuse of homeownership laws by buyers from China and elsewhere.

IF Australia stays strong maybe that can become the start of a true white ethnostate…

Chinese investors have been illegally buying established properties/houses in Australia, particularly Melbourne and Sydney for a years.
It is only now that this activity is common knowledge that the authorities and politicians are starting to appear to be making an effort to curb the illegal activity.

One reason for the delay is that there were and are too many people making money from selling to the Chinese.

No smart candidate is going to say that publically because it would be stupid to do so (easier to be labeled racist by the huge portion of ignorant people in this country). At this point in history smarter to argue for closed (or almost closed) borders on the basis of stopping foreigners from taking American’s jobs. That’s something every avg American can understand.

“Taking American jobs” is an out of context assertion. What is “taking” American jobs is regulatory burden, tax burden, government caused inflation of a socialist currency, wage rate restrictions, and the 1001 other acts of government interference into the economy.

Yes, in the current political context, the Left is using non-white immigration to solidify political control and thus implement their totalitarian agenda. And that does warrant action. But understand if some right-wing politician did nothing but just close the border without any other de-control and deregulation, then a bag of lettuce would be $40 dollars.

Wages are primarily lower in nominal rates but in real purchasing power even a debased dollar today can buy more actual things than it could in 1965 because there has been tremendous increase in wealth creation. And the reason for that is that the costs of production has been lowered by many factors one of them being increased wage earners bidding down wages. The flip side of that is lower costs of productions thus lower real prices thus more affluence. There were no cell phones or laptops or interwebz or uber car service in 1965. We have these things because of lower costs of production and increased capital goods.

What 99% of alt-right wingers don’t realize is that economics is a real thing. Trump may have balls but he’s a protectionist which is not sound economics. Yes, stop Hispanic immigration and deport the illegals but do so with corresponding free market measures or you will do nothing but lower the standard of living for Americans including whites.

there has been tremendous increase in wealth creation. And the reason for that is that the costs of production has been lowered by many factors one of them being increased wage earners bidding down wages.

Bull. It is because of White science and technology. Mass immigration of Third Worlders brings FAR MORE costs than it helps production. No country benefits from adding Mestizos and Blacks.

There were no cell phones or laptops or interwebz or uber car service in 1965. We have these things because of lower costs of production and increased capital goods.

What 99% of alt-right wingers don’t realize is that economics is a real thing.

Yawn.

Trump may have balls but he’s a protectionist which is not sound economics.

Trade with other Western countries, and with other countries that you benefit from trading with, and with countries who you need to throw a bone because you currently need them as allies – that’s sound economics. Yelling “Free trade!” as if it’s a thing is not sound economics. Trade with the whole world and you lose your manufacturing base to Third World hellholes that have an endless supply of new, dirt-cheap labor. What happens then is that they have political control over you. The West needs autarchy, independence. This has been understood in all times, until socialists came along.

And most libertarians being low-tax socialists, accepting their egalitarian nonsense, I see where you’re coming from. “More trade and more immigration increases the numbers on the screen! That’s good!” Try again.

@larazablanca
Even gun grabbers and anti-free speech leftists know better than to just outright state their ultimate goal in the beginning. It takes time. ‘Let’s just kick ’em all the hell out of our country’ may be the goal, but you have to pick a starting/stopping point. C’mon.

Donald trumps strength is his control of his arrogance. He’s not stupid, most arrogant people are. He correctly pointed out that Mexican business people are cunning and very smart and very underrated. Just proud of my country heh

He is political Batman. Many people despise him but he’s taking a stand where it desperately needs to be taken and no one wants to answer the call.

In fact all the cuckservatives want to ruin the country while lining their own pockets because they see the writing on the wall simply want to be on the right side of the favela fence.

Look at your average American and tell me does this guy really even deserve to have an alpha male leader? Would he even respond to it? It might end of being a case of washing mud off a pig. The pig would be ‘WTF man? I was enjoying that’. This applies doubly so for millennials.

I can foresee four years of whining that the President is a racist bigot that is an evil evil man by 90 percent of the people in my area non fucking stop.

Beta men hate Trump. Beta’s wives love Trump. I know several Beta husbands and can vouch for this now. It is freaking crazy when the wife says she loves him and I know she does not like her beta husband. Serious!

That sucks because women in the US are so hot and so thin that when you see them feeling attracted to another man it’s really painful. They’re all walking around with those tight asses, long, thin legs, skinny arms and massive naturals. All that long, flowing hair and the way American women have those squeaky, high-pitched super feminine voices and you just want to fuck them so bad, the way they wiggle around on their high heels, giggling and acting so girly all the time. So hot. When they’re into another guy, it’s really threatening. You don’t want to lose that kind of top shelf tail that is JUST ALL OVER THE PLACE in the USA.

“That sucks because women in the US are so hot and so thin that when you see them feeling attracted to another man it’s really painful. They’re all walking around with those tight asses, long, thin legs, skinny arms and massive naturals. All that long, flowing hair and the way American women have those squeaky, high-pitched super feminine voices and you just want to fuck them so bad, the way they wiggle around on their high heels, giggling and acting so girly all the time. So hot. When they’re into another guy, it’s really threatening. You don’t want to lose that kind of top shelf tail that is JUST ALL OVER THE PLACE in the USA.”

Something that men of the West sense they don’t have, haven’t had on the last several decades, is an informal network of support, should they resist. One English father could, I suppose, deliver baseball bat justice in Rotherham. But he doesn’t because he thinks he’s alone. That is why there was no uprising in the wake of the persecution of Emma West or the Rotherham revelations.

Today, I took a small but hopefully meaningful stand toward showing my fellow men that they indeed do have an informal and potentially effective network of support.

Driving around my SWPL’ish suburbs today, in my SWPL’ish SUV, I saw a pickup truck with a giant Rebel flag unfurled in the back as they drove from traffic light to traffic light. I negotiated the traffic to catch up to them, expecting to nod approvingly to a grizzled older man. I made it so I pulled up next to the pickup at a light and unrolledy window. I turned to look at the driver, with a wink and a grin, and a big thumbs-up, hand out the window so others could also see.

I expected an old reb, but instead saw two young men in the cab. They nodded genially and returned my thumbs-up. The light turned green.

There is no freedom of association for white males. Start up the Association of Black Trial Lawyers and see how fast you get the IRS up your fundament.

Having said that, every white male needs to join a gang. A man alone can’t defend himself.

You got some guys hanging around the corner of your street that aren’t suitable? It probably needs to be explained that it’s time they moved on and didn’t come back. You need friends to do that. And so you don’t shit in your own nest, it’s better your friends visit from another suburb to explain it, suddenly and clearly.

The flag is the signal. Am seeing more and more of them in Yankee territory. I recently had a similar experience and actively cheered the driver. I can’t tell you how glad I am to have been on summer vacation when all of this started. I don’t know how I’m going to teach this year. I stopped airing a student t.v. news program we were sort of required to show last year after the biased reporting on Ferguson. I could not in good conscience contribute to that. I gently discussed some of the deeper issues with the Civil War historical novel I teach.

A school is such a repressive environment in so many ways: the opposite of the learning that is supposed to go on there. It’s why you read all these stories of female teachers going off the rails. There is almost as much scrutiny being a public school teacher as there is being an elected official. Maybe more. Now we’re all being fingerprinted. The funny thing is, I don’t think the crimes happen before people become teachers. I think they happen after.

That was a long time ago. Everyone played with the idea that women ‘were smarter’ and ‘tougher’ than men. That was just a silly ironic way to get attention. It was a fad and little more. By now, most men are sick of women and their bullshit. I’m sure Donald is too.

There was a short-lived era in which I think men got some tingles of their own with the idea of women emerging from their centuries of oppression and flourishing past us into these supreme, dominant, ethereal, feminine super beings. It was supposed to be like a combination of Rhonda Rousey, Cindy Crawford, Fiorina, maybe a touch of Tori Amos, all wrapped up into one superbeing of awesomeness, bringing us to our knees and forcing us to quiver in supplication to their awesomeness. But that era of post male-oppression awe was short-lived.

SHORT-LIVED, I said. SHORT-LIVED. They actually could have pulled it off if they would have gone in the direction of becoming more feminine with the same gusto they had for becoming more masculine. Wrong turn.

“I love that little girl and I just can’t get enough…..It’s a hell of a show….”

Went to the HP on Friday. Walked in and saw the Arabic gal walking toward me while carrying a drink holder full of drinks. I stare at her and finally say “I thought you were Spain?” She says no. I look at her and she turns and walks toward a table. I leave the place and go outside to sit on a bench. Look up a minute later and see her walking down the sidewalk toward me. I say “hey, come sit with me”. She says, in a nice way, “they are waiting for me in the car”, talking about her business partners. She says she is leaving tomorrow but will be at HP in morning. I say “so we can’t go on a date tomorrow?. She says that “I am still sick, virus”. I laugh. She says text me. I say I don’t have your number as she is walking away.(I deleted it. You reading this Benson?) I say text me your number and I will text you. She mumbles something and I say “Have a good trip”.

@PA
Maybe so. Additionally, I just don’t know why the right bothers courting the black vote. Seems that the right can win without any black votes. On election day, what percentage of the votes cast will be from (legal) blacks? And if Hitlery gets the nomination (I have never believed this and it feels like a misdirection) would black men vote for her? Black women? Hell, most white women? Again, I don’t think the black vote matters.

It’s been explained that the GOP, going back to the ignominious Bob Dole campaign, sucks up to blax mainly to avoid alienating middle class women who allegedly don’t like edgier political postures. Maybe that was true during the fake-wealth Clinton years but we know better now…

I met Dole on his concession speech night. Connected friends, got tix to the event. A very impressive man face to face. Shame about how he let himself be the butt of a sad joke.

..and by “late night tweets,” maybe you’re wittingly or unwittingly meaning “DRUNK tweets” , as his inflating belly and tense demeanor tend to indicate.
All that money for the best coaching and medical care can buy, and he can’t stay fit?

Alcohol is the accepted manly salve for those with anxiety and no means to control it. Valium?! For the weak. But the calories, the expanding belly leaks the secret.

One of the problems he has is there has been no one in his life for maybe decades that can tell him to STFU.

That is NOT good for even someone who is an Alpha gunning to be uber-Alpha. You just start to get sloppy (belly) and don’t question your own whims.

Without meaning to, you come off as geniunely contemptuous and believing your own publicity.

When you’re president, you’re not just president of Billionaire Boy’s Club. You’re over all those, you know, losers. People with disgusting regular jobs and such.

You assume much and I don’t think you’ve maybe been around an apex alpha much.

“Getting sloppy” for an apex isn’t the psychological indicator of mental unfitness that Game teaches us signals beta psych failures or unfitness.

It can, at the top, be simply boredom of your dominance. When you can do it all, have it all, a sort of complacency of actions kicks in. Think of it like this: It’s MUCH better to have the ability to have or acquire or do something than actually do it. Having things requires you to think about and maintain them which is bring and a waste of time and brainpower. Always being able to achieve allows you the freedom to just relax a bit and enjoy, stretch your thoughts. Lion model dude.

It’s as hard to understand looking up at an apex as it is for an apex to fathom your inability to relate to simple truths (for him).

You might be on to something. I have spent time around life – long drunks. They talk in a certain gibberish ; confusing verb tense being one of the main indicators. Repeating themselves unnecessarily being another. Like English is a second language them .

Alpha is a mindset that emanates from within. It is not a code of words. Careful if you are constantly running into roadblocks and being told it is because you did not use the right combination of words.

I will let you in a on a powerful line which will blow even 9’s and 10’s hamsters out of the water. Here it is. Walk up, put your hand out and say “Hi, I am ____, what;s your name.” Many women love to be engaged by a confident man who is not trying to say clever things.

An hour after my interlude with the Arabic gal last Friday a hard 9 walks by and goes into the HP to get some drinks in a cup holder. She looks at me from the corner of her eye as she goes into the place. She comes out and I chicken out at the last second because of her beauty and the fact she was holding a bunch of drinks. She ends up coming back(forgot a drink) goes in and when she comes out this time I stand up and introduce myself. She shakes my hand ans says her name. I use my go to line “are you Arabic?” She says “well yes Persian”. I say well that is a little different then say well let me get your number. She says sure and takes my phone. Spends a minute putting her name and number in there, I say thanks and will call her, Chemical rush.

The big mistake I notice most guys make is viewing women through a PUA filter which leads to failure, at least from an ownership point of view.

Women want to test a man and see what he is made of. A women’s weakness is a strong man who can take or leave her. When you ask a gal to go out with you and she makes an excuse then drop her from your world. Period. Most guys are too weak to do this. When she sees you didn’t blink then she will come back into your world and make it clear you are a man and she wants to be with you.

SENTIENT – The 800lb Gorilla in the corner of the room is the iPhag. The chicks around here simply cannot put them down. Literally. Completely addicted to them. EvoPsych doesn’t have any analogy for the iPhag. Now you can wield the iPhag to your advantage, if you can get her number, and get her to answer your txts. But, increasingly, Classical Game [and especially Day Game] is becoming a great big FAIL. In particular, in Day Game, ANY AND ALL [EVEN MILDLY] CLEVER LINES WILL SOAR RIGHT OVER HER HEAD!!!!!

SENTIENT – The 800lb Gorilla in the corner of the room is the iPhag. The chicks around here simply cannot put them down. Literally. Completely addicted to them. EvoPsych doesn’t have any analogy for the iPhag.

It does: the explanation is that the iPhone makes you feel connected to other people, the group. Women crave that much more than men, as women have always survived through the group only.

But Arbiter, it was one woman talking to another woman in the market, or in the cathedral, or down at the river washing clothes – at least then they had the attention spans necessary to engage in a quality conversation, or practice the piano, or read e.g. a Jane Austen novel. Nowadays, it’s ALL WOMEN SIMULTANEOUSLY AND INCESSANTLY SCREAMING AT ALL OTHER WOMEN. Like frigging noise drowning out any possibly coherent signal. And – I hate to quote Glenn Beck – but the woman now have shorter attention spans than goldfish. Nothing even remotely clever or elegant or sophisticated works on them anymore – not even on the ostensibly High IQ untenured Professorette chicks – either you scream in exactly the precise dialect of noise within which she is accustomed to being screamed at, or else she can’t even understand you.

“Nothing even remotely clever or elegant or sophisticated works on them anymore”

If you run into a retarded chick in the morning, you ran into a retarded chick. If you run into retarded chicks all day, YOU’RE the retard.

There’s a point where you fail enough that you have to consider you’re not running the level of game you think you’re running. But tell us again how they’re all simultaneously staring at their iPhone screens and watching our socio-evolutionary-subsignals or whatever your overdramatic catchphrase was lol

Sentient, we all have different goals. Without asking you what yours are there is ONS, number close, ownership/concubine, LTR/marriage, etc…
Each one of these dictates a different type of strategy.
I can’t comment on YaReally as I have not read enough of his stuff to make a judgement. What little I did read seemed knowledgeable.

Personally I will never be doing the the ONS thing as it does not fit into my goals. I do cold approaches with number closes. My success rate with those are respectable.
The definition of ownership can be found under “Alpha Assessment” in a post written by James Harmon. Ownership takes weeks/months to create. There has to be strategic push/pull which always is consummated with an emotional connection. In fact there is an Arabic gal I started gaming recently. When I first reported on her the consensus was that she definitely does not like me. The problem is that the judgement was made through a PUA verbal filter and concluded that too many “beta” things were said and done. There was no room for subcomms in this judgement. Well as of now there is strong evidence of interest from her with potential for ownership. We will see. As you well know I am one of the few men that is willing to be transparent in not only my success but in my failures also. This is still ongoing. She may be in Spain now. Have an update in mod.

CO – i like where your hearts at man… but it’s not over. The FIRST neg you can throw when presented with the iphone shit test is along the lines of “so what’s going on in social media today that so captivating”… Boom. Try it.

And segue into ” there was a time when people would go out to be social with each other in public” this is another good line…

Iphone is just a shit test. Beta blocker.

“You swiping right or left?” etc. etc. Just a shit test you can certainly overcome…

nd – I hate to quote Glenn Beck – but the woman now have shorter attention spans than goldfish. Nothing even remotely clever or elegant or sophisticated works on them anymore – not even on the ostensibly High IQ untenured Professorette chicks

I understand what you are saying, but I don’t think it’s that bad. Women don’t use cellphones all the time.

Btw, isn’t it funny how in the past when almost only guys played computer games it was nerdy, but when women now play the very simple game Angry Birds on their cellphones it’s chic?

YAREALLY – Actual Day Game conversation between me and an HB7.5 University Professorette in Geography, PhD in Geography from Cal-Berkeley, sitting next to one another at the edge of the swimming pool, about to get in and start swimming. SHE: “I’m a professor of Geography.” ME: “Okay, what’s the capital of Gondwanaland?” SHE: “I dunno.” ME: “Okay, what’s the difference between Budapest and Bucharest?” SHE: “I dunno.” PROFESSORETTE. PHD FROM CAL-BERKELEY. COMPLETE FRIGGING MORONIC RETARD IDIOT WASTE OF A SKIN SUIT. She’s so G0d-d@mned stupid [and so absorbed in the manifest gibberish and nonsense of the Gramscian Cocoon of Anti-Reality] that she’s incapable of realizing that she’s being neg’ed – it’s all soaring right over her head. I’m having to explain to her what the frigging questions mean. LIKE TALKING TO BRAIN DEAD ZOMBIES.

I can’t even DHV [my massive IQ] because she only speaks a highly specialized dialect of noise, filled with buzzwords and catch-phrases which are repeated ad nauseam in her highly cloistered corner of the Gramscian Cocoon of Anti-Reality, and I have no idea how to translate standard English into that particular dialect of noise. I’m talking Geography to her [a Professorette of Geography with a PhD in Geography], whereas apparently what goes on inside her mind consists of complete gibberish and nonsense.

Arbiter – I’m walking into Walgreens yesterday – in the parking lot, I come up behind a big Amazonian chick, getting out of her car, she takes a towel off her hindquarters [revealing her bathing-suited @ss to me], and then she slaps on some shorts to cover her @ss. Turns out we’re both going to the photo department – me to drop off some stuff, her to pick up some stuff. Of course the 300 lb kneegrow who’s supposed to be working photo isn’t there [doubtless cause it’s off in the backroom trading blowjobs with another 300 lb kneegrow], and she and I are sitting there, staring, behind the counter, and there’s a huge rack of plastic tubs, filled with finished photos, and each tub has a letter on it: “A”, “B”, “C”, etc – “A” for customer Adams, “B” for customer Bailey, “C” for customer Church, etc – on through the entire alphabet. And so I say to her, “You know, if you could remember how to spell your last name, then you could just walk right back there and grab your photos and go pay for them at the front register.” And she says, “But but but they sent me a message saying that my photos were ready.” And then she proceeds to check her iPhag again to make sure that the message is really there. And I’m thinking to myself, “No, you Amazonian [nice D-Cups] moron, you’re supposed to at least SMIRK AT ME and ROLL YOUR EYES for being such a jerk as to imply that you’re so stupid that you don’t even know how to spell your own last name, but now I realize that YOU’RE EVEN STUPIDER THAN THAT!!!”

I’m thinking about how the f*ck can you even get through to these morons – how many standard deviations of IQ do you have to subtract to get through to them [Gondwanaland wisecrack == IQ 130; Budapest/Bucharest wisecrack == IQ 115, Spell Your Last Name wisecrack == IQ 100]. And I’m thinking, okay, for the Geography Phd from Berkeley Professorette, she probably has had to memorize tens of thousands of pages of politically correct gibberish about how evil the Patriarchy is, especially in the Turd World, where it suppresses all the poor struggling You Go Grrrrlllll peasant chicks, so maybe I’m supposed to say: “If your father pays me a sufficiently large dowry, then I’ll slap your t!tties until you beg me not to stop.” And for moron Amazonian chick at Walgreens, maybe: “So, are you more of a tampon kinduva gal, or a sanitary napkin kinduva gal?” Actually, here’s one that might work on Geography Moron from Berkeley: “You know, if only you’d use single ply toilet paper instead of double ply toilet paper, then you’d significantly reduce your carbon footprint. But I’m still gonna slap your t!tties til they’re bright red.”

If CH were Trump’s campaign adviser, this is what I would tell him. “Don’t second-guess yourself, but equally don’t become too publicly enamored of yourself. You’ll get sloppy. Keep it tight and quietly, to yourself, check your pride on occasion. And cut back on the late night Tweets.”

This is just solid game advise. For a while I started djing on a monthly basis. I quickly developed a loyal following. My mistake was to start talking about what I was doing, the music to be played, the unique songs I’d uncovered. BIG MISTAKE. It didn’t take long before a few of my “rivals” were spreading the word that my music was “boring”…nearly lost a gig. Regained my footing and now it’s all behind the scenes, getting people to come out, letting fans know of my next gig in as few words as possible, letting others spread the word for me.

It’s really the same with girls. I’ve stopped sending texts of more than one sentence unless it’s to confirm logistics or it’s with someone with whom I have an established relationship and they want to chat about something.

I also now regard all my texts to girls as potential “tweets” because they all share this stuff. I have to chose my words carefully knowing that a girl will show it to her friends who will quickly jump all over them to try to sabotage a good thing for her.

In one case, a girl i’m now banging showed me the opening “greeting” I send out to girls on OKC. I guess i’d unwittingly sent it to one of her friends as well. That friend went to the girl I’m banging and said “Check this out, this guy sounds really cool.” My girl asked me about it…I just laughed and said “Well, what it’s important is you’re here now. Make the most of it.” She banged me hard that night. It was then I realized that girls really don’t care if other girls slag me off. In many cases it just stokes their curiousity even more if the interaction has been neutral or positive up to that point.

On a date last night and I get several texts in rapid succession. After the third one, I reach over and open my SMS app to clear the notification. “God damn it, quit texting me,” I utter as I tap the screen, because I was honestly enjoying myself.

Girl: “All your girls texting you?”

Me: “Ha. Anyway…” (back to whatever I was talking about)

Her: “Well you ignored my question, so I’ll take that as a yes.”

None of the texts were from other girls, but it was amusing to watch her fill in the gaps when I didn’t say anything.

B!tch better have some natural D-Cups and a cl!toris the size of my pinky if I’m gonna put up with that snark.

Step back and take a look at the forest, friend. She assumed I was pre-selected because she was having a good time and I didn’t tell her who the texts were from. The snark, such as it was, isn’t a bad thing. Tingles are born in a defensive crouch, I think is how you phrase it in PUA parlance.

…the best answer many times is a no answer, or one in which you play it off. This allows the women’s imagination to run wild.

That was most of the night, really. I sipped my drink and let her talk, which allowed me to gauge her personality. I’d interject every once in a while with a story or to tease her about something she said.

She’s not relationship material, but I kissed her and got a “we should do this again” comment while walking her to her car. She’s shit tested me several times via text since the date, too, so she’s interested. I’ll invite her out again probably tomorrow or Tuesday.

A great answer is better than no answer, no answer is better than a bad answer… There are levels to game. Letting her imagination “run wild” is not leading the interaction TOWARD the conclusion that YOU seek…

Which is why you get a peck and had a nice time instead of anal… Game is a continuum and brutal in showing you where you are on that continuum…

It’s not hopeless at all Benson, just not super tight game. I agree, no answer is better than a bad answer – but do you really think a great answer in worse than no answer?

Consider the entire purpose of carrying an egg… It’s men who fuck up thinking they are “allowed” to impregnate it. The purpose of an egg is to receive sperm. How you get there – well that’s the game, isn’t it?

“That was most of the night, really. I sipped my drink and let her talk, which allowed me to gauge her personality. I’d interject every once in a while with a story or to tease her about something she said.”

THIS ^^^ is the rest of the story… It’s not just one sentence, it’s the entire interaction. What could YOU have done to increase attraction, comfort and rapport? i.e. if she WOULD fuck you on the third date, what could you have done on the first date to achieve the same result?

It’s all the same… don’t you see? This is why HABD says push every interaction as hard as you can.

and it’s nothing to feel bad about because it takes 3 or 5 dates, it’s just not super tight game. So the point is, do you want to develop super tight game or not? It doesn’t matter if you don’t, IF you are happy and enjoying the process, that’s great. BUT if you DO want to try and push every interaction, what’s holding you back? Right?

THIS ^^^ is the rest of the story… It’s not just one sentence, it’s the entire interaction. What could YOU have done to increase attraction, comfort and rapport?

I felt great about the interaction. There was kino throughout the date, the conversation turned sexual easily and she made reference to having me over to her place. She was playing with her hair, laughing and slapping my shoulder constantly. The only reason I didn’t feel the need to do more is because things were moving forward.

The logistics sucked, I’ll admit. The sun was still up and we were 10 minutes from my apartment by car. Given better circumstances, I think I could have closed.

She’s jealous. Sipping your drink was the move…even better with an amused smile or a chuckle. Even a “Don’t you start…”

In these cases you have to calibrate. I got this snark from a variety of girls.

A response is based on the wider interaction. One line doesn’t define the date or define you. It’s how you handle the wider interaction.

Letting a girl’s imagination go wild would mean one of two things: 1) pre-selection so she feels she now has to step up 2) she feels you’re out of her league and not worth the investment.

In my experience it rarely hurts to have a girl think you’re a player. I’ve ploughed through these shit tests and ended up banging the girl in the end. Often though, it disintegrates because these girls are so insecure that eventually her imagination overwhelms her.

After a while you get a gut feeling about how this interaction went.

“we should do this again…” I usually say “We’ll do this again” or “Let’s do this again…”

Often i’ll send a text after: “Good connection.” Which also goes towards reassuring the girl I took I’m interested but more sexual than “Had a great time”.

Benson – couple of things for you to consider… not knocking your game so don’t bother getting butt hurt LOL.

But this “I didn’t feel the need to do more is because things were moving forward.” sounds like you started off playing don’t fuck up game and set yourself up for a mandatory day 2-3. Is “moving forward” to another date the optimal outcome you had in mind before the date started or is this a limiting belief, i.e.. you never believed you could do more than set up day 2?

Did you think about compliance tests, changing venues etc? Or stick to banter and non-sexual kino? Compliance tests are a good judge of how much she trusts you, beyond her just finding you attractive and amusing.

And this “The logistics sucked, I’ll admit.” Who set up the logistics? If her, her frame, if you WHY didn’t you set them up optimized to pull her back?

Like what if you ran your game, did some compliance tests she passed, amped up attraction and kino and pulled her to check out your place? What if you did all that but she declined the pull to your place? Would that then pre-empt the day 2? No right? You just calibrate it down “it’s cool” and continue the longer game…

Some stuff to think about pushing your game forward.

Another thing – if you are getting a lot of shit tests, well that means you aren’t passing some of them and she needs to keep pinging to see if you are the real deal. So shit tests in the beginning are good signals, but consistent shit tests and low compliance mean you are missing something.

@Benson my game is getting more solid but there are times for a variety of reasons I just don’t feel like moving things forward. I was at a party. This girl I’ve gamed comes and sits beside me…starts giving me major IOI’s. I could have escalated. But there were so many other things going on that night and I was truly having an “off” night that I didn’t bother. Fact was she was kind of below par for me, maybe I was too choosy. I continued gaming, just didn’t move it forward. Then there was another hotter one giving me IOI’s that I didn’t pursue because I didn’t want to feel rejected in case it didn’t pan out because I’d been shut out once this past week.

So this is becoming a bit like golf, you try to beat you own last best score.

I’m trying to figure out how to move it forward with the hottie who flaked, then came out, then flaked again. That set me off…thinking too much about it rather than moving on to the next target.

There’s so much to work with in this line. It’s pure shit-test demanding a clever reply.

However, this girl seems a handful already. This push-pull she’s doing with the “take that as a yes”.

I can already feel this is moving towards her getting more comfortable with you. If I was in that situation, I’d move for another meet up.

Not everything works out for me. I met a girl at a party who came to my city for a week’s holiday. We spent an entire day together and it went absolutely no where. I gamed that girl who gave me her number, was keen to meet up, then suddenly threw out her friend. Then came out to my party. Then….nothing. Then sometimes after weeks of seeing these girls and continually gaming them: teasing, kino, dancing, etc, they just suddenly respond with an IOI or series of them.

The thing that threw me off this weekend was my crazy ex was deliberately parading some white knight orbiter around in front of me. It was all I could do to ignore, to move away, to look away. That took up way too much of my time and energy and threw off my game. No one would have noticed. But internally I could feel my energy levels sagging and there wasn’t enough positive push to make any “close” on a girl credible. So I didn’t escalate.

Going to break these up to hopefully avoid moderation. By the way, not offended at all, Sentient. The feedback is useful.

Did you think about compliance tests, changing venues etc?

Yes. At one point I said, “let’s go for a walk. I need to sober up.” There’s a water fountain around the corner from the bar, secluded with a cool view of the downtown area, which I’ve used previously to go for the kiss and escalate further. But she turned it down. “Let’s just talk here and sip some water,” which I translated as, “I think you’re trying to fingerbang me on a first date, and I’m not ready for that.” So I backed down.

if you are getting a lot of shit tests, well that means you aren’t passing some of them and she needs to keep pinging to see if you are the real deal.

She’s kept the shit testing to a minimum, I think. I’ve counted five over the course of a week and a few days. I’ll go over them in a later comment.

No, but that’s the low-end of the range that I’ll hit on right now. As I alluded to earlier, I need more experience passing shit tests, developing outcome independence and just generally being more confident. I’ll tighten up my standards as I begin to get consistently positive results.

Still, she’s cute. Long brown hair, brown eyes, massive tits. And judging by our conversation, I’m guessing she’s a slut and pretty good in bed as a result. I need to get better at that, too.

I can already feel this is moving towards her getting more comfortable with you. If I was in that situation, I’d move for another meet up.

I called her last night to do that. She picked up and told me she was just finishing up a movie and would call me back in 20 minutes, then never called. Shit test, perhaps? Or maybe she’s no longer interested. I suppose I just go to radio silence now.

overall you did just fine (especially considering where you are in the process), and you should definitely be able to bang her (even if it’s on a day 3)…BUT, where you see ons/fb, she sees bf…and that’s where a lot of drama comes from…lol…

her main shit test was when you wanted to go for a walk and she said ‘no, let’s stay here’…that’s her frame all the way…do the analysis and walk back through your interaction to find out WHY you are stuck in her frame (and subsequently can’t pull for a SNL…even with bad logistics…)

She says ‘no’ to the walk, which was her frame, so you got there somehow…that was bc she was leading the interaction, with you chiming in and ‘being charming’…that’s not necessarily bad, bc that’s her ‘chasing’ you and ‘investing’ in you, but it’s the same as her ‘investing’ in a beta orbiter/bf (bc that’s what she’s doing…). BUT, the investing that counts for AF (and her sexual tingles/snl), is that she is giving in to compliance tests, bc that’s her investing on YOUR terms, not HER terms…

if you had been leading her in the conversation, you could have just continued that ‘leading’ right out the door to that fountain…and she would have been totally up for public sex (and not just a finger bang)…

when she invited you to her place, did you AT LEAST have the thought that you could/should have smirked at her, given her solid eye contact, held out your hand and said, ‘great idea. let’s go…’? bc that’s the calibration frame that you want to develop. seeing windows of opportunity is one of your goals…then you can just walk through…and BANG…lol…just like that…another notch…whether and how you want to use that super power is then up to you…

just a note – you really should at least try gaming without drinking a couple times…it really is harder to do if you’re drunk…

So I just need to pull the trigger at the right moments. I didn’t think to suggest going to her or my place in the middle of the date. I just filed her comment away as evidence that she’s thinking of sleeping with me.

I am concerned that I’ll try to close at the wrong moment though, which will bring things to a halt quickly.

just a note – you really should at least try gaming without drinking a couple times…it really is harder to do if you’re drunk…

I usually am sober, and I wasn’t drunk that night. “I need to sobe up” was just an excuse to isolate her.

This here “I am concerned that I’ll try to close at the wrong moment though, which will bring things to a halt quickly.”

well you are in sales, but your NOT one of those sales guys whose afraid to hear No early are you? Not one of those guys that just needs to have something “in progress” right? In GGGR it’s “fuck or walk pal” you close or you hit the bricks… LOL

Seriously, think about this – it’s a scarcity mindset, that shit will undue a lot of game. Better to blow out early and calibrate back than to frog boil along… But try it and see how it works.

“I need to sobe up” was just an excuse to isolate her.”

Just a poor choice of words, weak IMO but worse it’s too much of a test. Try leading up to a big compliance test with little ones “hey let’s move over there” and kino lead to other seat “Here show me your X” “what’s that your drinking, let me taste it” and kino her hand when you touch the glass… “this place is XYZ, let’s hit this cool place around the corner” and lead, bounce to new place… THEN you go for the pull to check out/do something at your place…

And all this goes back to who set up the meet and why? What are the logistics because none of it should be random in a pre-arranged date. Your first spot should be well worn where you are highly social proofed, staff bartenders all know you “Hey Benson” and bat their eyes, and you have good spots to first meet, then kino, then bounce within the venue to another spot. Your bounce to places (quick food, another bar or coffee depending on times and moods) all should be nearby so you can walk easily to. And this should lead to your place being nearby – the sex location in RSD speak – or your cleverly parked car. Leave little to chance.

Try leading up to a big compliance test with little ones “hey let’s move over there” and kino lead to other seat “Here show me your X” “what’s that your drinking, let me taste it” and kino her hand when you touch the glass…

I did this kind of stuff: traced her tattoos with my finger, rested my leg against hers, asked about her necklace then grazed her neck when I picked it up for a closer look, touched her hand when I asked about the color of her fingernails.

I think you’re right about the phrasing, though. She was initially open to leaving the bar, until I told her were we were going and why. She knew what I was doing.

It’s funny, I’ve done this stuff successfully before. But coming off a string of bad rejections has knocked me off balance a little. Just gotta push through it.

When she would not go on the walk with you to the fountain it was not a shit test it was THE shit test. I would not call that compliant. It should of been dealt with like a non compliant child or dog. In a non butthurt way you should of called it a night and dropped her off. Then waited until she realized you were a man.

Inner game and subcomm’s are the key. You can say beta things till the cows come in as long as you have inner confidence when THE test comes. A women’s weakness is a confident man who can take her or leave her.

Look at my archives for the last 4 weeks. I delete numbers when I don’t get compliance. I think you know the history? It is not about micro managing. It is about macro managing. The only thing you needed to focus on was inner confidence and the one macro compliance tests. All the rest was water under the bridge.

Benson, post in mod, sorry if it is too harsh. That compliance test was a big one. Look for the pattern. Radio silence after the fact on all your situations? When she would not comply to take a walk then you should take her home in a non butthurt way and go radio silence. All women test men to see if they are real men. Seems you are not passing the most important test. Compliance.

“traced her tattoos with my finger, rested my leg against hers, asked about her necklace then grazed her neck when I picked it up for a closer look, touched her hand when I asked about the color of her fingernails.”

Not compliance testing and ergo not compliance, unless you are thinking – and this is a very common way of thinking – that her ALLOWING you to touch her was compliance. That’s a very limiting belief about self worth.

Compliance test is very different. Compliance is “I want X” and she reciprocates. No matter how small X is.

@Benson the tattoos, the whole interaction says she’s in. It’s easier to see from an outside perspective than when I’m in it myself. I think you’ve gone as far as possible at this point. Leave it and focus on something else for a bit and see what happens. From the way you’ve built this up, after a few days or a week, she’ll likely wonder what happened and reach out to you with some ping text. That often happens to me when I’m full on, then disappear. They start to wonder what happened—more to the point—they start to miss the attention and banter.

In collaboration with U2, Johnny Cash recorded this prophetic song in 1993. One can’t help but tie the wanderer to the sixth century Old English poem by the same name, with a similar theme.

The artist is a passive conduit to the higher truth. Bono, a bona fide artist himself, showed himself to also be a pussy and a faggot. Performing the song as tribute to Cash in 2005, he changed the lyrics from “I went out walking / With a Bible and a gun” to “… with a Bible in the sun.”

Thing about the Donald is that finally somebody (he) has made it not just ok but the preferred behavior to call a slack jawed leftist or uber-christian faggot just that….and with impunity and respect for his authenticity.

How long until the lists start and things get all Pinochet-y? Hell, the left gets weaker by the year (literally and figuratively)and they are fracturing before our very eyes. Cohesion for the feel good crow is waning, and this “battle” is lost.

Whites in America are like the proverbial frog in a pot of heating water. By the time the Goodwhites(tm) realize what’s happening and become racially aware it will be too late.

The Eskimos are extremely racially aware, ingroup/outgroup focused. But they work night and day to stigmatize and prevent whites from developing a similar mentality. And we fall for it. Goddamn brilliant, really. Whites have only ourselves to blame.

Same. I don’t know how you can make the read that the Left is weakening with the massive millenial generation coming along in addition to what you’ve said. They’re 90% Lefty by my estimation. The ‘apex victim’ battles between blacks and feminists or between Muslims and gays are entertaining, but it doesn’t matter. The left learns nothing from that and gains no self awareness. That’s why they are who they are. A bunch of black idiots disrupting a Sanders rally isn’t the end of anything at all, just a bit of entertainment for us. Victimhood rolls on. It’s a massive steamroller and you can either jump on board (another victim) or get steamrolled by it (another victim) either way it adds people every day.

WW2 Germany showed Eskimos that white nationalism was dangerous for Eskimos. They began a concerted effort to weaken any white sense of ingroup/outgroup in white nations.

Eskimos were instrumental in the passage of the 1965 Immigration Act. Prior to its passage, foreigners of European heritage were favored for US immigration. The 1965 act threw the doors open for third world “chain” immigration. Once an immigrant got a foothold in America, the law favored immigration of his family members. And so on and so forth. You can see the results today.

Destroying and preventing formation of white ingroup/outgroup belief systems means that whites should never be allowed to develop pride in their accomplishments. In fact, it should never be acknowledged that whites *as a group* accomplished anything good. Hence it is verboten even to acknowledge that the founding ideals of America are rooted in European (aka white) culture. On the other hand it’s quite excellent and encouraged to talk endlessly about the terrible things whites have done.

This strategy has been amazingly successful. Several generations of whites have been raised to be ashamed of their race. Look no further than your nearest SWPL neighbor.

It’s the equivalent of back-door hacking an entire nation. An amazing accomplishment.

You, like them, discount basal human behavior at your peril. People will ALWAYS act in their interest and once the very real fear of grandkids not looking like you supersedes the pain of “shame” by being called racist/homophobe/etc….

Imagine the Holocaust meets Rwanda.

Interestingly, it will likely be Americas women that foment the change too.

The other huge problem we have is that the Aleutian Federal Reserve has been inventing $1TRILLION in fake money every year since 2008 [and arguably since 1986, when Reagan foolishly installed Greenspan], and just handing that fake money directly to its cousins in The Aleutian Tribe. As long as we honor the fake money, that gives the Eskimos an almost insurmountable advantage over us. Trump has a warchest of $10Billion, whereas, by 2016, the Eskimos will have a warchest more like $10TRILLION.

“White men can be real ass-kickers, once somebody gives ’em permission”

This is true of every human male with an IQ above that of a functioning retard. And even dullards for the most part. Old South blacks tipped their hats to white teenagers who called them “boy.”

Men stick their necks out when they feel like they have a formal or informal leadership and support network. The rub and upside is, there is no strict rule about WHO is the permission-dispensing authority.

There are White men who fight without permission: drunks. In that gloriously disabled prefrontal lobes state they are temporarily like the free and wild nogs that rush convenience stores.

The vulnerability is that the Left isn’t paying for their own shit. So drop out. Minimalize. Go abroad. Stop paying for it. That’s one solution.

You will still pay taxes. And moving to another country to avoid paying taxes hurts your country, as it has lost a nationalist. That’s what the establishment wants you to do.

What Americans need to do is organize. Join Trump’s campaign for one thing. I see many “solutions” in internet discussions that all actually amount to doing nothing. Organize in whatever way. Join an organization with a chapter close to you. Stop the atomization.

Then what? We can’t stop what is happening by organizing alone, but that way we create an infrastructure where people can go for answers and company in a future economic downturn. An infrastructure that can be part of organizing demonstrations when things change. And don’t laugh at demonstrations, people take them seriously. They are the first step to a revolution. The police overreact and start shooting at demonstrators, which validates the demonstrators and increases their ranks, and gives them an excuse to take over local administration, etc.

Viable organizations are also a PR in themselves. If people see that anti-immigrant organizations are growing in ranks, they will be emboldened to think in that direction.

But this is a slow, methodical progress, and that is what people need to get used to. You won’t have a flashy solution. Nothing that could fit in a 90-minute movie.

You make good points but at the same time there is an awful lot of collective sentiment in your post.

Also;

“And moving to another country to avoid paying taxes hurts your country, as it has lost a nationalist”

Who gives a shit? See? You’ve allowed them to trick you. You’ve equated paying taxes with being an American. I could easily accept this argument;

–Moving abroad to avoid taxes actually benefits your country more than working full time and producing well yet paying for the expansion of degenerative entitlement programs. (Of course most cannot move abroad nor do they want to. That’s understandable. That’s a different discussion anyway.)

You want to be an American? Then learn what it means. Go back to Jefferson, Emerson, Franklin and the boys. Resurrect them and see what they think of working 50 weeks a year (way too much) to pay off rape-culture theatrics or to rebuild Baltimore even though they live in Spokane. (I’m not claiming that Jefferson would choose Spokane.)

Learn what America was founded on (or relearn). It should have very little to do with paying taxes, outside of your road tax that you easily cover via gas tax. Paying for L’Qwantrelle’s ninth child, D’Kwinash’uzu, does not make you an American. I hate that equation between taxes and patriotism. Even the most right wing people that I know will make that equation. Fuck that equation. You can move to a sleepy, mountain village in Peru for the rest of your life and be as much of a red-blooded American as any decorated Army general who spends all of his time volunteering in Topeka. Wake up and read your Emerson while you have your matte tea in the morning. Then get to work and live well. Fly your red, white and blue all you want way down there. Because if you’re living with self-reliance and doing what you want then you are an American. Some sad sack who pays his taxes and bitches his whole life about welfare queens and gives his daily ‘Fuck Yeahs’ to Limbaugh on his way to work, yet is bitter and exhausted by his killed dreams is far less of an American than the drifter down in Peru who has a smile on his face because he’s doing what the fuck he wants to do. It’s a set of values, not an organized tax racket. ‘American’ means having aggressive, fair-minded self-interest. Pursuit of happiness. That’s it. It ends there. You do what you want. America is a SELFISH gig. I know you weren’t really talking about that kind of thing but I wanted to say that anyway.

But that might be the Achilles Heel of The Gramscian Cocoon of Anti-Reality: The Cocoon can’t ignore him, because The Cocoon must always stamp out the brushfire of Reality lest it become a full-fledged conflagration which leaves the Cocoon in cinders and ashes.

“I love that little girl and I just can’t get enough…..It’s a hell of a show….”

Went to the HP on Friday. Walked in and saw the Arabic gal walking toward me while carrying a drink holder full of drinks. I stare at her and finally say “I thought you were Spain?” She says no. I look at her and she turns and walks toward a table. I leave the place and go outside to sit on a bench. Look up a minute later and see her walking down the sidewalk toward me. I say “hey, come sit with me”. She says, in a nice way, “they are waiting for me in the car”, talking about her business partners. She says she is leaving tomorrow but will be at HP in morning. I say “so we can’t go on a date tomorrow?. She says that “I am still sick, virus”. I laugh. She says text me. I say I don’t have your number as she is walking away.(I deleted it. You reading this Benson?) I say text me your number and I will text you. She mumbles something and I say “Have a good trip”.

The presidency is not the grandest of thrones, it is the assembly line of marionettes working for the Rockefellers and the other oligarchs. At best, Trump is being built up as the next Ross-Perot-third-party-vote-siphoner in case they need him, in case their rigged voting machines don’t do the task the oligarchs want done.
You guys are getting JEB.
The Vatican and the Bildebergers already declared it.
The rest is carnival barking. Have fun being distracted by it all.

In short, Bernie Sanders has a rally shut down after shrieking Black Lives Matter activists storm the stage and demand that they be given a platform to speak. Rather than tell them to fuck off (like The Donald would have), Bernie and his people actually submit to people who are DEFINITIONALLY thugs. This is fundamentally who he is as a person and how he would govern.

Seriously, you should watch the videos. Bernie actually commends the Seattle crowd for being so progressive and then immediately afterward he and his group are swarmed and overtaken. The progressive crowd does nothing. The thugs win. Bernie and progressives lose. If this isn’t total proof on a small scale for the world Bernie, Hillary, and, yes, Jeb want for us, I don’t know what is.

The GOP is knowingly* shunning what is easily their most popular candidate since Reagan essentially because he’s too conservative for them!?

Re-read that line. Let it sink in real good.

To put this into perspective try and imagine a black version of Rossie ODonell running for office that recently said something that alluded to the idea that all white male children should be castrated at birth and their balls used to make beauty cream who didn’t apologize or backtrack and who THEN stood out in the polls from their other candidates as their best chance for the Whitehouse and they SHUN HER?!?!?!?!.

This
country
is
OWNED.

It is the only explanation that makes any sense.

*Yes knowingly! They’re not stupid. They know darn well the internet is the closest thing to a scientific poll you’re gonna get.

That and the fact that his entire life he has been a liberal democrat now pretending to be a conservative republican. Look back at every republican primary ever and you will see a donald trump type who failed to keep the party behind him. Thiniking mostly of Buchanan who went third party and was never heard from again. Trump doesn’t even have a plan on policy. You can’t tell me one position he has on anything other than building a wall which is what all the Republicans talk about.

Trump is a egomaniac, flip-flopping liberal who belongs in the other party’s debates. But the Republicans have no men so Trump knows he can have a ball in the media and get his ego jerked off constantly.

Not that my opinion matters here, but I can’t stand people like Trump. The constant need to be the center of attention and do nothing but talk about themselves is mind numbing. The man says absolutely nothing that is in the least bit interesting. Me, me, me, I, I, I, for God’s sake he’s worse than Obama. That’s saying something.