Why is it so difficult?

Why do we say that we want to do new things, but we don’t follow through? Is it because we don’t have any willpower?

Possibly, but I think it comes down to self-discipline. Which really isn’t the fun answer, is it? I’m known for giving the Not Fun Answer. Sorry.

So, I want to share with you guys something that has made it easier for me to develop a new habit once I decide it is a priority for me.

We’re creatures of habit.

By nature, we are creatures of HABIT. So when attempting to establish a new HABIT, we should look to the things we already do. We already, by nature, do the same things every.single.day.

Here’s an example for me. I always (in no particular order):

Drink coffee

Do my Bible time

Eat breakfast, lunch, and dinner

Wake up

Drink coffee

Go to bed

Brush my teeth

Drink coffee

If you can ATTACH a new habit to an EXISTING habit, I think you’ll find a higher success rate. It has worked that way for myself and for lots of ladies that have reached out to me.

“Motivation is what gets you started. Habit is what keeps you going.”–Jim Rohn

Establish a New Habit by attaching it to an existing one.

Want to start exercising? Attach it to a habit. Put your exercise shoes on the toilet seat (lid down, of course). Okay, there are my shoes! It’s time to exercise (after I pee, of course).

Want to remember to take your supplements? Establish a new habit by putting the supplements beside the coffee pot instead of inside the cabinet.

Want to remember to call your best friend every day? Develop a new habit by putting a sticky note on your Bible to call her when you’re done.

Can it be that easy? Maybe. Why not give it a shot.

What are some new habits you want to establish and what can you attach them to?

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Stacy is a Home Management Mentor, the author of two cookbooks, the creator of why-didn’t-I-think-of-that homemaking hacks, an expert on making real food taste lip-smacking delicious, and a Platinum Leader with Young Living Essential Oils. She loves butter, dessert, baking, organizing, and staying home with her husband and four hilarious kids. She believes if it's not easy, you won't do it - because she's lived it. She'll bring YOU the awesome so that you can get your home back into control. For tips and easy strategies, you can follow her on Facebook, YouTube, and Instagram.

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Good idea! I’m going to try this “attach” method. It’s definitely worth a try because new habits and myself don’t do very well. And on another note,.. Loving the pic of you reading the book! It’s a great pic of you. Like your own person glamour shot LOL.

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