This post is originally written by our member Rian, which is firstly published in Chnmate.com

My name is Rian and I’m from Canada. Like most of you single guys out there, I had been through the loneliness and emptiness of being SINGLE. But now my life is full of joy and laughs since I met Maria, my gorgeous Thai lady! We met via the so-called thailand wife finder online services. To be honest, I once doubted this online dating stuff and had heard a lot about dating scams. So when I decided to find my life partner, I never thought she would be the one I met online.

Blind Dates Don’t Work.

As I said, online dating sounded not right for me at the first beginning. But blind dates seemed to be a correct choice for a fourty-five guy. So my friends and colleagues introduced girls to me and I did develop a close relationship with some of them, but all could not last more than four months. It really made me frustrated. How could it be? Ok, probably I am not a rich, handsome guy and kind of old-fashioned, but still I’ve got merits, like a good listener. Obviously, my merits seemed not to be appreciated by my ex-girlfriends.

Match.com or eHamony?

Since the blind dates in real life could not work out, I had to try a new way out. So I spent nights on facebook and twitter in the hope of finding the special one in my life from these popular social networks. But nobody can guarantee that these new friends on facebook are girls, guys, cats or robots. It’s hard to find a serious relationship on these social networks. What to do next? Well, Google always helps! When I searched “online dating”, “online matchmakers”and relative words, it showed Match.com and eHarmony. I signed up in both of them and got many emails every day, but none of the girls on these sites could be connected if I did not pay to be a member. The cost of these big brand sites was a little high, which I did not think it’s worthy to be tried. Therefore, neither Match.com nor eHarmony was my way!

iDateAsia Helps Me Find Love.

After match.com and eHarmony, I also registered in a few of online dating sites including iDateAsia. Compared with other sites, I should say that iDateAsia offers relative good services. It’s a Thai dating site and girls on it are mostly from Thailand, Vietnam, Philippine and Taiwan, China. You know, Asian girls are hot and get popular around, besides, my dating world opens for all races. It took me less than one minute to fill the register form and I could browse its single Thai ladies profiles without paying money. There are many free services on this Thai dating site; For example, Cupid Note allows you to send your first email to your favourite Asian lady, telling her you’re interested in her. Apart from that, it also provides charged services like EMF correspondence, Love call and Live Chat since it’s profit organization. However, it’s services are worthy of the price when compared to other dating sites including those I mentioned above. Their customer team always reply your emails quickly. Members reviews and comments on this Asian dating site are good. And I’m also a live proof. I met my Asian love here and ended my lonely single life with the help of this Thai dating platform. So if you’re still single and hate being alone, why not try to have some fun here? Thai girls for dating! Try iDateAsia!

Every woman craves romance, so do the Asian ladies dating online. If you want to successfully get a girl, you should touch her with romance. But some guys may think that it must cost a lot to be romantic. In fact, you don’t need to spend much money buying her an expensive gift or holding a luxury party for her. Occasionally sending her small gifts or showing your caring by saying considerate words also can grow her love for you.

IDateAsia.com Reviews: Does It Cost A Lot To Be Romantic?

Ask Asian Lady How’s Her Day!

Send her a different friendly or love note every day through the online dating platform, and tell her you’re missing her and hoping she can be with you at that time. Ask her how is her day. If she has a job, you can also listen to her complaining about her work or boss and share your opinion. Meanwhile, you can tell her your day and what’s going on in your community or country recently. You don’t have to spend hours talking with her online. It can be only thirty to forty minutes a day for online communication with your Asian lady through Live Chat or occasionally Love Call. Besides, write her love letters ( called EMF Mail on IDateAsia.com ) should be also a great way to share emotions and grow affections.

Exchange Opinions on Culture and Traditions!

Since you’re online dating an Asian girl from different country, you should be aware that the culture and traditions are really different. Some people may think these differences cause a lot of troubles to the dating. However, seen from different point, the differences actually bring more fresh and interest topics to online-dating single western men and Asian women. Ask her about the Thailand Buddhism, traditional crafts, festivals, customs and so on. Let her feel your super interest in her country and her. In this way, she won’t feel bored and meanwhile you can learn more about her culture. Conversely, you can tell her the interesting stuffs happened in your homeland. Movies, songs, hobbies can be good topics for dating too.

Small Gifts for Memorable Days!

No need to buy her an expensive gift or hold a big party for her. Since you’re online dating, relative services are supplied for your convenience. On her birthday, Valentine’s Day, Songkran festival ( Thai New year festival ) and other memorable days for your Thai girl, you can send her gadgets like beautiful but not expensive necklaces, furry toy bears, chocolates, cakes or flowers. Apart from the reasonable price, what’s more, it’s very convenient to send the gifts. Only one click then you can send your love to your Asian girlfriend. And for the safety and preventing scam on IDateAsia.com, you’ll receive a notification telling you that she’s got your gifts and you can make sure with your Thai lady through Live Chat or phonecall. Romance is not based on money. Simple considerate words and small gifts can always win the love of Thaimatches online.

May 8, 2012

Mother’s Day is coming around the corner. It is the most memorable day for all the women all over the world, which emphasizes the importance and unselfishness as a mother. Being a single mother or a future mother, Thai women deserve a good compliment from her children, husband and the male people. If you are looking for a long-term relationship with a Thai lady, you should seize this great chance and show her your love and support. Here are my advice for you to buy the right gift for Thai matches.

Search the on-line stores and buy her a gift for Mother’s Day.

little black dress is good gift for Thai girls

There are many on-line stores that ship to Thailand. You can search the net and buy a gift from one of these shops that are with high quality and reputation. Girls like shoes, clothes and handbags. There is a saying going like that women always lack a cloth in the closet. So why not buy her a piece of clothes? You know, there are so many Internet shops selling clothes. And little black dress should be a good choice because it is the essential clothing item to almost every girl. If you are not so sure whether she like the black color dress or not, then you may review her profile photos, and find out what color and style of clothes she is keen on. Besides, buy her a surprise dinner through the internet website. This is a creative and refreshing idea. Som famous Thai restaurants carrying on promotional activities on its official website. You can order a special Mother’s Day dinner for your elegant Thai single mother and her child, or for your beautiful Thai girlfriend and her friends. And it is not expensive. Mostly a Thailand meal for two costs about $20 and better ones like the hotel restaurant may be a little higher in the price. I am sure that should be a very impressive dinner and special Mother’s Day for her.

If you are so busy that you have no time to search and find an appropriate gift for her, there is still another choice for you. The internet dating site. You can click the Gifts & Flowers in your Asian dating site and choose one for her. Then the Asian dating platform will send the gift to her on time according to your requirement. Generally speaking, women in the world almost love the same things. So beautiful flowers must be on the list. Rose, lily, tulip, jasmine, sunflower or carnation is all good gifts for Thai women. They like any kind of flowers, because it is not the flower itself they care about, it is the intention and love that the flowers represent touching her heart. But of course pink carnation is always the best gift for the Mother’s Day.

After sending your Mother’s Day gift that is filled with your deep love to your lovely Thai girlfriend, make love call to her. This is another sweet and considerate action, which can make you a better man in the girl’s eyes. It is kinda like a call after a dinner date. So you know the necessity of that love call.
I hope you can have a nice happy Mother’s Day with your Thai lady.

April 28, 2012

Hot Thai girls, beautiful sceneries, characteristic architectures and its unique traditions make Thailand a very famous tourist attraction to people around the world. Either dating Thai women or travelling to Thailand becomes popular. If you are going to have an Asian dating tour to meet your Thai girl in her country, here is my recommendation for your trip. Go get a Thai massage! You will never know that you could have been that relaxed and comfortable.

It is really worthwhile experiencing at least one massage when travelling in Thailand since this Asian country is famous for massages of all types. Thai massage originated in India and is based on ayurveda and yoga. It combines techniques with yoga-like positions in the massage. And there is difference between Thai northern and southern massages. The northern style emphasizes stretching while the southern style emphasizes acupressure.
There are many benefits of massage, such as pain relief, reducing anxiety and depression, and temporarily lowering blood pressure and heart rate.

Different Massage with different benefits

1. Typical Thai Massage

This kind of massage is usually carried on in legal shops or locations where you can see the massage in progress and obviously nothing is involved with sexual activities.The typical Thai massage tends to deal with a lot of jerking and stretching, and most of the time it flexes joints, which is a little bit against their natural movement. For those who never experience it even for a time, this style of massage is quite painful. However, some people love it so much and admittedly this can be quite soothing and helpful if you have minor problems with your joints.

Thai massage

2. Foot Massage

It is conducted out in the open, often in shopping centres and shop fronts all over town. I have never tried foot massage before I came to Thailand, because I did not believe this thing could do any goods. But I was completely wrong. I was convinced by my friend to have my first foot massage in this overseas magical Asian land. Oh, dear, it is great! Very relaxing and comfortable. I love it. You will never know unless you try it.
By the way, it is quite easy to find a foot massage shop. There is always a large foot sign displayed on the front door.

foot massage

3. Oil Massag

It usually takes place in a curtained booth, after you take a shower. You will be asked to lie down on the stomach. Scented oils are dropped on your skin and the attentive masseurs will keep rubbing all muscle groups for about one to two hours. This type of massage can relax the whole body completely and the cost is quite reasonable, which is around 600-800 Bahts for a time.
However, there is something you need to be careful. Some oil massage shops offer special sex services instead of real oil massage. To avoid these dirty illegal things, you should pick the shop with a glass front, where you can see people doing massage inside. Don’t go places where a gaggle of ladies hang around outside the shop. Actually the best idea is that you search the net beforehand and find out the right shop to go. If you can bring along someone who is local citizen, that’s better.

Thai-Oil-Massage

4. Soapy Massage

It can also be referred to be “sexy massage”. People going for this style of massage mostly want a sex with Thai lady. These soapy massages tend to be very large high-class places, often quite brightly lit outside and the shopfronts are closed. And many taxis and tuk-tuk touts are trying to tempt tourists into this type of massage, because they can get some extra gains from the boss of these shops. If you do not want to get into troubles, you should be far away from this soapy massage.

Soapy Massage

In addition, it is usual to tip the masseur with 50 to 100 Bahts. And after the physical relaxing activity, you can go to see your Asian girl and impress her with the refreshing good look, which can help to develop a good relationship. A good beginning for a Thai date.