Has anyone here ever been caught in the act of spanking or sex by someone (or kids) and how did you handle the situation? How fast did you have to think of a good excuse? And how believable was it?To live life without pulling your hair out, you must find humor in the day somewhere. Without humor we would all just go crazy.

Well - I haven't ever really been caught....unless you count the weird looks from people in the hallways or lobbies of hotels - looking at you funny, whispering "there's those people." Of course, people in our house have heard us too. So, I guess the answer is yes...we've been caught

I am new here so will add my "got caught" story. This was several years ago, we were parked on a quiet country road, windows down, me otk, heard a noise, turned around to see a COW with his head inside the window! It is really bad when farm animals catch you!!!

Ha ha.si seņora!Once on a trip tu the jungle with my girlfriend we climbed to a mirador a scenic lookout in the jungle.It was a 10 mile climb and from the top you could see a lake and hundreds of mile of pure forest.On the way up we met nobody it was deserted. Well I was horny and sat her on the railing and started making out and eventually little by little taking off her clothes.When she was naked Iwas kissing her all over her body and as she climaxed a guy walked out of the jungle.When he saw us he gaped I of course saw nothing my vision being impaired a little but she saw him at the same time that he saw us.He ran back into the jungle and we rapidly got dressed and we hurried down the path and never saw hide nor hair of him again.

LOL -- Well, are we discussing getting caught in the spanking act, or the act of sex?

Spanking, no. We are still too new to everything to be doing that anywhere that we could get caught.

The sex however, I am fairly certain his father caught us once. I try not to think about it too much. We were young and fooling around at his father's house, and I was a little loud.... Then we heard his father calling us. I guess we hadn't heard him come in over my, uhm, exclamations. It took days for me to stop blushing.

During the first few months of our marriage we had to live with my inlaws, his parents and sister in their 3bdrm apartment. We were in the guest room which is placed between the other bedrooms. Our bed was up against the wall facing his parents room. During the first 2wks, although his parents are getting harder at hearing, his father would constantly make remarks about the wall shaking during the night, simply because he loved watching me blush. One night I guess we were making too much noise because his sister's dog came barking at the door. Later his sister commented on our loud "pillow fight/tickling match" with a wink. We ended up taking off the headboard and the frame (and put them temporarily in storage with the rest of our stuff) and slept with the mattresses on the floor to muffle the sounds so that I would feel more comfortable having sex in our bedroom in their house. At that point we hadnt experimented with spanking yet, because I cant imagine the kind of remarks that the sounds from that behaviour would have gotten!

I am already getting nervous about explaining certain noises to our children once they get older!

my fiance and I have only recently been experimenting with spanking. It took a while because first I had to realize that I liked it, and then I had to find a way to ask for it. Semi-recently, we were experimenting with the belt. I live with my parents still, and we were in my bedroom. My little sister was passing by (we hadn't heard her come in) and I guess she could hear us (damn thin walls) because all of a sudden we heard "WHATEVER YOU'RE DOING, I CAN HEAR YOU! STOP!"

We've never been caught. We don't have kids (too old) and live by ourselves in a semi detatched house. Only one we have to look out for is my dog who gets all bent out of shape if she thinks he is hurting me. So we have to put her out of the room and then she barks and barks and whines and barks which doesn't do much for the ambiance of the situation.

Outside is out of the question! (no pun intended) My hubby is a brit thru and thru and just would NOT consider anything that risque.

BTW Zin...your little sister yelling at you made me laugh out loud.Take my heart and soul. But please don't step on it, it breaks easily.

well I guess we haven't been quiet enough, because today my older sister decided to do a fairly loud imitation of sounds she heard coming out of my bedroom in front of my cousin who's visiting from Greece, and with my parents and God parents not ten feet away in the other room. Of course, I blame encountering this topic for jinxing me.

One day hubby and i thought both kids were outside playing. We were just palying around fully dressed (thank goodness) and i was getting a few swats with our hairbrush and we didn't hear our 7 year old daughter come in the house. She comes bounding in our room, jumps on the bed laughing and says "MY TURN" ........ NO, I am not kidding..........Can ya say "Future Spankee"Once a princess always a princess

Before I found this thread I tried to start one in the twist section on "Witnesses" to the spanking, I wondered why no one respond, guess now I know. But my thread included willful witnessing too. If any of you have witness stories that are more fit for that thread I would love to hear them.

Any how, a few years outta school I dated a girl from a University in Jackson TN, her dorm was kind a U shape and her window was open, leaving plenty of potential eyes to catch us. We had cut a deal, since I was working and she was going to school, I would give her a small allowance for spending money. But as part of the game, when I would visit weekly she would get DD for misbehavior or at least a spanking to keep her from gettin too spoiled. During a spanking one night I looked up and 2 girls were watching us through the window! Call me a monster but I did not tell her! So...on with the show! My GF caught on afterwards seeing that I my eyes cut to the window several times (I was watching the priceless expressions!), the girls smiled and waved! My GF huffed a little but I think it turned her on. She was the one who left the window open knowing what was coming and she liked risky spanking locations any way.

BUT I also think the idea of being caught or watched very sexy...........Now, that being said, i would NEVER want to be seen by anyone I knew ........... but by strangers I would never see again..........very sexy!!Once a princess always a princess

Yeah, that is how I felt about it. Had it been some one we knew it would have been bad. She only huffed a little bit for like 30 seconds so I think she was into it. I felt a little guilty, but turned on! ;)

It reminds me of a girl I grew up with who covered every inch of her body with prudish conservative clothing, but one day a friend showed me a picture from a vacation to Floridia pointing out all the sexy girls in bikinis and guess who was on spring break?! Amoung strangers we can be the person we want to be!

I am the same way myself, if you all knew who you were really talking to you would be shocked!

But it is funny I now catch myself looking at other people picking who I think are spankees and spankers in strangers and people I know. Trust Me....I'm not a person most people would expect to be a spankee much less a bottom.Once a princess always a princess

I once read the average spankee is a female in her 30s in the upper middle class. Also, that her lifestyle is quite opposite behind closed doors.

As for me I know mine is! My occupation(s) is the main thing, I am like the last occupation you would expect to be a spanko, but hey, some people dream, we dare to live our dreams!A good spanking changes things!

I'm going to go off-topic for a moment here. I want to caution everyone who posts here to be careful about how much information they share here. This is a public forum which means anyone can view what you post. Please be careful that you do not give out too much information.

When you filled out your profile for the Den, you might have noticed that specific info about you is not shown on your public profile. That's so you can keep your private info hidden and secure. That gives you a certain amount of anonymity on this public board. Anything you don't want made readily available like your occupation and location, I'd keep private. That's also why we have a PM system, so you can share with your friends info you don't want shared on the world wide web.

That's the deal, folks, we are visible to the world here. I don't want to scare you, I just want you to be aware of the situation. We have over 1500 registered members and hundreds to thousands more who come by on a regular basis just to read the posts. I see the numbers so I know how big our traffic really is. I'd hate to see anyone get "outed" unintentionally.

Thanks for the reminder Bethie, I think I could blend in amoungst the many in my field, but just as a precaution why don't you zap my post into cyber dust at the end of the day.A good spanking changes things!

Hey Priss, I have caught a few post on here that indicated such. Of course there are many angles to spanking sub/dom, stimulation, forbidden-ness, and a ton more, but I can see where religion and conviction would make a DD more appealing, cleansing the mind of guilt. I think my GFs got a big release from the spankings, like a huge weight lifted off of them, plus they enjoyed it!A good spanking changes things!

Sorry Shylah, i was just trying to say that most people here are just your everyday run of the mill average person. Let me reword it...."you would be suprised how many of us are tv watchin, pizza eatin all americans" Once a princess always a princess

Clash of life style is what makes spanking so erotic I think. There is some thing about it. There is nothing erotic about walk to the expectations of the world. That is for puppets. Thus, all the fantasy outfits that sell well. When the clash is real it is way better. Some people dream, others do. I am happy for us, we could be living a boring life, while we secretly and patheticly waste away our life, dreaming we had another.A good spanking changes things!

yes i got busted by a female flatmate, she had gone shopping so i decided to go to my room and self-spank with a belt,she came back early heard the noise walked thru the bedroom door to see me naked,swinging the belt with a red backside.she did'nt know i was into spanking.

Many years ago my wife told her mother that she would leave a book that she wanted to borrow on the kitchen table. My mother in law has a key to our house to water the plants and feed the cats when we are away. We were playing on this afternoon and my wife was getting her bottom paddled when my mother in law let herself in and took the book off the kitchen table. Later that evening my wife noticed the book gone. She called her mom and asked when did you get the book and her mom told her when you were getting your ass spanked this afternoon. I didn't dare want to stop you from getting a good paddling. My wife just said thanks mom.

Her mother also caught us having oral sex before we were married but that is another story.

well it wasn't the actual act of spanking I got caught at, ....I was trying to introduce my vanilla boyfriend to the idea of spanking me and being a very shy person about the topic (at least until fairly recently !) and it's always been easier for me to write something down than to actually TELL someone face to face.......so I wrote this long and VERY detailed letter about how to spank a woman.........I thought it was brilliant, but I never did get him to spank me.....however, he DID keep the letter.....in his van....where of course one of his friends found it and wanted to be introduced!.... the jerk actually told the other guy who wrote the letter......pleh....never could look that other guy in the face again.....I would find something very interesting across the street to go look at when he was around!what a long strange trip it's been

Yes, we tarvel a lot - esp with friends and family and he makes no bones about punishing me even on trips. I got a serious behind blistering one night even though his brother was around. I was mortified at first but both his brothers undersatnd out lifestyle so it is not big major thing now.

I was with a spanko who loved the idea of almost getting caught. When we were on a trip to Canada he pulled me behind a sign board one night thinking noone was around and gave me a few quick swats, telling me it was a reminder to behave that evening. Anyway when he let me up a women was walking her dog and was just standing there staring. C laughed and told her he was ure I would behave now. Wished her good night and off we went. Me with a bright red face.

Not long ago we frequented a hotel. You know, nice quiet weekend away...no kids...just the two of us...

We are in our room and the door opens. A woman takes about two steps into the room. Of course this can't be the type of hotel room that you walk into a little entryway before you get to the bed. Oh no, this is one very big square room where you can see the whole room from the doorway.

We were on the bed...right in the middle of....well...I'm not going to paint a picture, but lets just say that a picture of us would leave NOTHING to the imagination.

They had rekeyed our room to someone else.

She yelled OH MY GOD and RAN out of the room.

When I went to the desk to get new keys, as ours no longer worked! The desk clerk said "so YOUR the one" and then laughed...a lot. She said the woman came into the lobby having a fit. The clerk could not understand why the woman was so upset. Clerk said "It's all natural!" I'm pretty sure there was nothing natural looking about us in that position.

It seems having a spanking witnessed is a male fantasy. I know that I have fantasised about a role play spanking where my partner had a lady friend visiting when I came calling, and never asks her to leave.

My mom and dad walked in when my wife and I were settling up what was in our "spanking book". they just stood there and watched, nothing said nothing done! we went out to eat afterwards with them and nothing was said

During the Spring Break of Which We Do Not Speak, my friend and I (both of us female) went to visit a male friend of hers.

So, there I am, bent over the kitchen table, with my friend behind me wielding a cutting board, the guy just watching, when...nothing happens. So I turn around and find my friend looking really embarrassed, and the cutting board hidden behind the guy...

And his mother standing in the doorway holding a bag of groceries and looking completely nonchalant.

i was at C's house once, a year or so ago, and we were just starting to experiment with. . . things. Well, my ankles were tied together and i believed my wrists were tied together and then to the collar on my neck, so that my bare butt was sticking up in the air. It wasn't long until we got a surprise. . . his mom knocked once and then opened the door. i scrambled to get under the covers but, given my. . . situation, it was hard to move. Needless to say, my face was so red. i don't even remember why she came into the room, or when she left, but she knocks and waits a bit now.

I got caught spanking myself once by my neighbor. She had come in and walked in on me. She was shocked and walked out. After words we spoke about it and she basically said whatever floats your boat. Actually she has expressed some interest in being spanked but says she is not ready yet. So fingers crossed for getting a spanking partner soon!

Caught no, overheard yes. once we were into a spanking session, we always have the music on even though our room is at the far end of the house.Everything was going smoothly when the power went out. I stopped immediately , She was in her own little world ,from the spanking and didnt notice, and yelled "Please dont stop,please spank me.Not one to disappoint her I continued on.

Reading this blog, this very thread, just now, kinda saved me from a little embarrassment. I was sitting on my patio enjoying the sunshine and contemplating taking my pajamas off, or at least pulling them down to soak up a little of the sun on my bare bottom. But I decided to finish reading this thread before I did. As I read the next story, my neighbor came walking over the peak of his roof with a perfect view of all that is in my back yard. Good thing I kept my pants on, and thanks for the good stories to occupy me for that extra few moments! * Really like the story of being caught by the cow - very funny, Oftenred!

I like dealing with business on the spot when possible, and yes I have been caught, a former girl friend and I pulled into a rest stop around 2am away from other vehicles and was in the process of giving her a good bare bottom spanking when I see a flashlight peer into the window..attached to that flashlight was a state trooper. After verifying our ID and being assured that our activity was consensual and not any type of assault he suggested we find a less public place and left us be. Gave him something to talk about to his comrades I'm sure. I do agree with Fanny, as long as I don't know who is around, I really don't care who hears or sees for that matter, it adds a bit to the excitement just knowing you might get caught, even if the probability is small.The Brat Tamer...changing brats attitudes one smack at a time

Sir told me yesterday that he's going to spank me in the forest next week. Now he did this a couple of weeks ago but it was dark and a light spanking....didn't stop me panicing when a cyclist rode past tho! This time he has said 2pm, intends to tie me up and promised to turn my bottom red. The thought of being caught is bothering me more than the looming spanking! I think I may be steering us deeper into the forest this time....

Probably the same thoughts that the cashier at Home Depot had when she whispered to me that I had a dusty hand print on my bottom. I turned to him and said "you put there, so you rub it off" Home Depot is a way too dusty. Queen of Innocence

Son came home for holidays from college my wife decided good time to brat. I disiplined her in our bedroom that night the next morning our son asked me about spanking I looked at him and. He said the heating ducts carry sound from one room to another. I told him,dont tell your mother

On our wedding night. My wife caught me coming out of the shower, grabbed me by my handle leading me over to the holel bed, sat down and turned me over her knee and started spanking. A moment later their was a knock at the door and my wife asked who it was. Housekeeping with your extra towels. Come in. WHAT ? In walked this women in her 50's or 60's and stopped in her tracks as she took in the scene before her. I tried getting up but my new wife was having none of that saying it's too late she has already seen me giving you your wedding night spanking and proceeded to spank again. I'll just leave the towels here for you. No. Can you put them in the bathroom for me? I'm a little busy at the moment. The women witnessed my spanking for 2-3 minutes.

Only by hearing us mostly and that's on vacations. The only time anyone walked in on us was when we were at a friends home who lives as we do and I smarted off enough to earn a few licks in the bedroom. She walked in and excused herself quickly when she saw my hands on the floor and bottom in the air. Her husband accused her of just wanting to look so she stood in the corner the rest of dinner. So joke was on her haha and her husband is strict I'm sure he blistered her when we left

I was caught Spanking a girl at a rest stop once. We were in my car and I had her over the console laying into her with a paddle. I forget what she had done but I was really giving it to her. A car pulled up and parked next to us. I never let up I gave them a nod and kept roasting her bottom. I don't really care if people catch me. It's consensual so there's no issue. I have spanked girls many times in family restrooms it's obvious when we walk out cause I don't stop till there are tears flowing

I was caught embarrassingly enough getting spanked by my mom. A friend had spent the night the weekend before and forgot some of her clothes. She stopped by to get them and I didn't know she was coming. I forgot what I had done but I was over my moms knee being blistered when she knocked. I stood facing the wall pants down crying while she got her clothes and as she left mom had to throw in " hate to rush you but I have a Spanking to finish"

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