You are not my cup of tea – Precept of a woman

“Don’t enter into my comfort zone. Don’t try to intrude through my vulnerability. As I have learned to win over it already. If you are still trying to enter into my comfort zone without my will, be ready to face the hardest hit in the world. Beware..”

Okay, are you ready, it was the summer holidays in my school and I was in 3rd class. My cousins invited me to their house which was in other city. I started asking my mother to go to their house. After doing everything she didn’t agree. So I went on a strike and stopped eating food and stopped replying to her. She was unmoved. Then one day I got angry and yelled at her. The last thing I remember after this was I had placed my hand on my cheek. The hit was hard, very hard. After that day, I maintain proper distance from my mother when asking for things. :-D:-D

When I see my daughter sticking to her will, the mother inside me reminds me that I should not confuse her strong will with another tantrum. I have often heard that it is too early to say but I disagree. This world needs women to be strong for herself and for her family.

I am here with you..infact i was reading something in the similar lines, i.e..why should we impose restrictions on kids..let them learn on their own…let them realuse tje good and bad…let us boost their energy and confidence even while keeping a protective eye on them