How to Approach Girls

A Story About Approaching Girls

Here’s a story of an approach I saw one night. I hadn’t really thought about it until I started writing this article, but it was really interesting to see. I was out with a bunch of guys and we had been drinking before we went out. We were teasing one of our friends to go talk to a hot woman, and then all of a sudden, he just got up and went up to a girl and said: “Hey, let’s get together tonight and make something special”.

I never thought that an approach like that had a chance of working, but to everyone’s surprise, she smiled and seemed quite happy with his approach. I know it takes a lot of guts to try such a move, but the results were quite surprising. Simply showing up with a very direct approach showed raw honesty, desire and confidence.

A little later on he came back to our table and reported back that she thought he had a little too much to drink to do anything. However, he did have her number and she asked for him to call her when he was sober. She thought his approach was “funny and goofy”. If I wasn’t there, then I wouldn’t have believed it.

Does this work all the time?

Well, in short… no.

We were bar hoping that night and he did try the exact same approach a few more times that night. He got some numbers and there are 2 girls that slapped him in the face, one of them did so REALLY hard. If anything, it was funny to watch, he came back laughing with a big red finger prints on the left cheek.

So near the end of our night, at around 2am, we were on our 3rd bar. Finally, he got a girl’s attention, went up to her and told her: “I really want you tonight”. That was all it took. You could tell she was intrigued. She asked: “Is this how you pick up women?” He looked at her and simply said: “Yes” and paused. Then she laughed….

They talked for a while, and that night they stumbled back to her apartment.

That’s a night I’ll never forget, because I saw the possibilities. I learned that there are no limits, only self imposed ones. Approaching women is really all in your head and there’s no real wrong way to do it. Even if you go in with the worse approach possible, if you’re genuine and honest about your intentions, then you’ll eventually succeed.

I definitely agree with the Law of Averages, however, I feel the chances of having the girl say yes are little more than 1 out of 100. Of course, a few factors come into play (which I won’t get into right now).

That being said…more guys have just got to face the music, realize that there is always going to be a slight fear of approaching women, and JUST DO IT! Approaching gets easier and easier. I promise you.

April 9, 2010

tobiano

It’s cool and am going to try it even if i get slapped in the process.

November 19, 2010

jonah

those tips do work in most fo times, dont feel dicourage whenever you see them.