cheated and now pregnant..

I cheated on my boyfriend and found out I was pregnant shortly later, the time I conceived is between the days my boyfriend and I had sex and the other man.. My boyfriends was unprotected and he would cum in me regularly the other guy lasted very very short and he claims to not of came at all. I'm scared gutless my boyfriend has been the most amazing thing and I took advantage of it during the first half of our relationship. It's now 6 months later and I have never been so in love but I have not been able to be honest and tell him about the occurance. That happens our baby will be here in November and I am scared ****less I wake up crying because of the nightmares my baby is not his. I need to tell him but I don't want to destroy what has been the most amazing relationship. I should have told him as soon as I found out but now I've waited way to long we are settled into our house and I'm miserable

I cheated on my boyfriend and found out I was pregnant shortly later, the time I conceived is between the days my boyfriend and I had sex and the other man.. My boyfriends was unprotected and he would cum in me regularly the other guy lasted very very short and he claims to not of came at all. I'm scared gutless my boyfriend has been the most amazing thing and I took advantage of it during the first half of our relationship. It's now 6 months later and I have never been so in love but I have not been able to be honest and tell him about the occurance. That happens our baby will be here in November and I am scared ****less I wake up crying because of the nightmares my baby is not his. I need to tell him but I don't want to destroy what has been the most amazing relationship. I should have told him as soon as I found out but now I've waited way to long we are settled into our house and I'm miserable

I am now 24w pregnant :(.. I'm extremely embarrassed I've got to know his family recently because they love far away and my parents love my boyfriend to death. My mom and dad are going thru a divorce I have no where to go if he leaves me :( ...

I am now 24w pregnant :(.. I'm extremely embarrassed I've got to know his family recently because they love far away and my parents love my boyfriend to death. My mom and dad are going thru a divorce I have no where to go if he leaves me :( ...

Tell him exactly how things went down, tell him how you feel about him and that you don't want to lose him. He will be hurt and be ready to give him plenty of time to process things and work on your relationship if he is willing. Then be ready to do a paternity test, and go from there. If you can afford a prenatal paternity, that might move things faster, on all counts.

Tell him exactly how things went down, tell him how you feel about him and that you don't want to lose him. He will be hurt and be ready to give him plenty of time to process things and work on your relationship if he is willing. Then be ready to do a paternity test, and go from there. If you can afford a prenatal paternity, that might move things faster, on all counts.

You told the other guy but not your boyfriend? You know he will hear about it eventually anyway, right? Men gossip just as much as women. I'm sure tons of people already know that your baby may be the other guy's.

You told the other guy but not your boyfriend? You know he will hear about it eventually anyway, right? Men gossip just as much as women. I'm sure tons of people already know that your baby may be the other guy's.

Sit him down and tell him like an adult. It's not going to be easy. Be sweet, and I wouldn't expect him to process that right then and there. Do not beg for him back during this Convo. It will make it seem like you're super worried its not his. Also, I would stay somewhere else until he text or calls you again. It could be one day or a week but he will. Once the shock aspect wears off he will talk to you when he's ready. Obviously he isn't going to be happy about this news . Be confident that its not the other guys and you will arrange for a paternity test asap. That is what I would do. Good luck.

Sit him down and tell him like an adult. It's not going to be easy. Be sweet, and I wouldn't expect him to process that right then and there. Do not beg for him back during this Convo. It will make it seem like you're super worried its not his. Also, I would stay somewhere else until he text or calls you again. It could be one day or a week but he will. Once the shock aspect wears off he will talk to you when he's ready. Obviously he isn't going to be happy about this news . Be confident that its not the other guys and you will arrange for a paternity test asap. That is what I would do. Good luck.

I do not believe this guy would have told a bunch of people we do not talk and barely even know each other it was a screw up while drunk. He wants nothing to do with the kid He already has one he's not involved with at all its sad. he agreed to a paternity test for my peace of mind he says theres no way its his and i truly hope so. i think i keep having feelings its his although, i do not believe it is. I believe I've been feeling like this because I feel disgusting and guilty of what i did and i regret it terribly.

I do not believe this guy would have told a bunch of people we do not talk and barely even know each other it was a screw up while drunk. He wants nothing to do with the kid He already has one he's not involved with at all its sad. he agreed to a paternity test for my peace of mind he says theres no way its his and i truly hope so. i think i keep having feelings its his although, i do not believe it is. I believe I've been feeling like this because I feel disgusting and guilty of what i did and i regret it terribly.

I feel like that might be the best thing sadly :(.. Some say tell him to get this guilt to go away and relieve stress off myself an the baby but if he freaked and broke up with me it would be alot worse I'd have no where to go and be discriminated by all of his and my own family and friends

I feel like that might be the best thing sadly :(.. Some say tell him to get this guilt to go away and relieve stress off myself an the baby but if he freaked and broke up with me it would be alot worse I'd have no where to go and be discriminated by all of his and my own family and friends

I agree you just gotta tell him- this is funny cuz I've read that when a women is with more than one man shes more likely to get pregnant cuz the men can sense that she has another mans sperm and therefore the sperm will turn into super warrior sperm to make sure they kill the other mans and get to the egg- hope that made sense- anyway tell you bf sweets- we've all made mistakes- maybe not this one exactly but now you need to take care if it- actually I'd look it up and talk to a dr about DNA testing before your baby is here- if they can do that- and I'd do that-without your bf knowing take some hair or something - then If its his- you don't have to tell him anything!! It was an accident and just once- but if its the other guys then you'd have to tell him.. I don't think they do early paternity tests though

I agree you just gotta tell him- this is funny cuz I've read that when a women is with more than one man shes more likely to get pregnant cuz the men can sense that she has another mans sperm and therefore the sperm will turn into super warrior sperm to make sure they kill the other mans and get to the egg- hope that made sense- anyway tell you bf sweets- we've all made mistakes- maybe not this one exactly but now you need to take care if it- actually I'd look it up and talk to a dr about DNA testing before your baby is here- if they can do that- and I'd do that-without your bf knowing take some hair or something - then If its his- you don't have to tell him anything!! It was an accident and just once- but if its the other guys then you'd have to tell him.. I don't think they do early paternity tests though

Me and my boyfriend are both darker skinned with brown hair the guy I slept with was blonde blue eye. I'm scared if I don't tell him and its the other guys baby it will come out not looking like him at all! And everyone in the room will notice right away

Me and my boyfriend are both darker skinned with brown hair the guy I slept with was blonde blue eye. I'm scared if I don't tell him and its the other guys baby it will come out not looking like him at all! And everyone in the room will notice right away

He has a right to know that you betrayed his trust so that he can make an informed decision about staying with you (or not). Wouldn't you want to know if he cheated on you and impregnated her? You have a small window of opportunity to do the right and selfless thing.

He has a right to know that you betrayed his trust so that he can make an informed decision about staying with you (or not). Wouldn't you want to know if he cheated on you and impregnated her? You have a small window of opportunity to do the right and selfless thing.

If you want to tell him so you won't feel guilty any more then that's wrong! If your telling him him so he you can do DNA and give him a choice in weather or not he wants raise another mans child, then that's a different matter? Be clear about you own motives and be prepared to deal with the fall out and possibly being a lone parent? Even if the baby is his, it's one hell of a deception he may or may not recover from?

If you want to tell him so you won't feel guilty any more then that's wrong! If your telling him him so he you can do DNA and give him a choice in weather or not he wants raise another mans child, then that's a different matter? Be clear about you own motives and be prepared to deal with the fall out and possibly being a lone parent? Even if the baby is his, it's one hell of a deception he may or may not recover from?

not twlling him is not even close to a solution or good idea. put yourself in his position! how dare u lie to him and let him believe that's his child without knowing. u made a mistake u have to deal with the consequences. I'm sure he will be livid, but in time if its his child u may be able to mend the relationship.

not twlling him is not even close to a solution or good idea. put yourself in his position! how dare u lie to him and let him believe that's his child without knowing. u made a mistake u have to deal with the consequences. I'm sure he will be livid, but in time if its his child u may be able to mend the relationship.

Telling him just so you don't feel guilty anymore is ridiculous. You should feel guilty and You should tell him because it's the right thing to do. You screwed up, end of story. You don't get to take away his right to decide if he still wants to be with you or not.

Telling him just so you don't feel guilty anymore is ridiculous. You should feel guilty and You should tell him because it's the right thing to do. You screwed up, end of story. You don't get to take away his right to decide if he still wants to be with you or not.

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