ENFJ or Outgoing INFJ

This is a discussion on ENFJ or Outgoing INFJ within the What's my personality type? forums, part of the Personality Cafe category; so i have no doubt than i am Ni-Fe or Fe-Ni
my problem is than i dont know if i ...

ENFJ or Outgoing INFJ

so i have no doubt than i am Ni-Fe or Fe-Ni
my problem is than i dont know if i am a INFJ or a ENFJ because I look too Outspoken for being a INFJ, so here are some details.

-i am always concerned with what people are thinking and feeling and I know what words to use to make them feel better,analyze people and know their personality or tastes just by looking at their faces, appearance and expressions.

-my girlfriend is an INFJ (just for having taken the test, even though she looks more like an INFP because she always complains about having lack of freedom from their parents when she was a kid)and I usually take control of conversations and interactions completely, I just say and do thousands of things and she just listens and spectate.

-I am very expressive and usually have thousands of things to say, many times I end up revealing my secrets and private things of my personal life without realizing

-I love meeting new people who share my ideas, the more I talk to them the better I feel On the other hand, people who do not share my ideas displease me and exhausted me and they make me want to get away from them

-persuaded a great vision, I seek to know the symbolic, the abstract, I obsess a lot with a single theme,for years and even for decades

-I'm clueless and I'm always thinking, my head is always somewhere but in the present moment, im bad with sports, hands on action or body coordination and in a way I admire the ESTP / ISTP for being so good at those things

Here is my Achilles heel, it's very easy to use impartial logic, introverted Thinking, it's easy for me to analyze stories, people, situations or systems from an impartial point of view, but I only do it when it's completely necessary

so i have no doubt than i am Ni-Fe or Fe-Ni
my problem is than i dont know if i am a INFJ or a ENFJ because I look too Outspoken for being a INFJ, so here are some details/

Introverts can be very outspoken, just like extroverts can be less exuberant. I'm much more talkative in social situations than my ESFP father and brother, if you can believe it. The main difference between me and them, introvert vs extroverts, is that I will get drained very, very fast, and by the time I have to tap out and go have some alone time to recharge my batteries, they're just getting started.

This article might help you; the asker is in a similar situation. From what you describe you seem slightly more ENFJ to me (especially the part about oversharing and feeling better the more you talk to people who share your ideas) but I wouldn't rule INFJ out yet, especially since the information you've provided isn't enough for me to decide for sure.