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At a time like this it is essential that we have a forum to support each other and exchange information about what I call Connected Living because that best describes all the many spiritually wholesome things that we most want to experience and share with others: Ideas about how we can live with each other and ourselves on our lands in a more connected way, and use that kind of healthy living to do the work we came here for.

Sex as a part of Connected Living?

I am not so sure
WHY I promised to talk about sex in my video-blog. I suppose it is part of
“Connected Living” and we better discuss it being such a big issue when it comes
to connecting: with ourselves, each other, our bodies, life per se. The longing to connect is after all
something familiar to us all.

I did try, but
being the person who knows more about sex than anyone I know this side of the
Mississippi as we say here in America, I was afraid I would just babble on. So
my husband said I had to organize myself and, obediently, I wrote something to
cue myself, as I mention in the video.

Then I also looked
at my early articles on it that Yuri and I published, and some of the others we
offered, written by very intelligent people. Clearly, what I DIDN’T say in my
video is that we are over-sexed, over-stimulated, abusing sex in all the wrong
ways and don’t even know any more WHAT it is supposed to be for and just “do it”
after a stressful day.

That counts for
sex with yourself, too, also called masturbating. WHY are we doing what we are
doing!? I think it was Christian Opitz, the German genius, who once called sex
“secondary only to cocaine” in its addictiveness. As we know, it causes a
chemical cascade in the brain that one of the authors we used to feature in the
Space of Love magazine, Marnia Robinson (actually an attorney, of all things),
had a lot to say about. Her early book: Peace Between the Sheets (Healing With
Sexual Relationships), and especially her website (www.reuniting.info) used to
address this much. Also, her newer book: Cupid’s Poisoned Arrow: From Habit To
Harmony in Sexual Relationships is very
informative.

Clearly, we have a lot to learn about this and from our Honeymoon days to
the daily grind where sex becomes a whole different thing and people don’t even
make eye-contact any more nor kiss intimately, Marnia’s and her husband’s idea
of “Karezza” is interesting as a different approach to sex and our intimacy
needs.

Clearly, you have
to study up a bit more on this, because 3 minutes of a video, much to my
disappointment, isn’t going to suffice! Ach! And I thought I was going to fix it
for you once and for all!

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Trained and licensed as a psychotherapist, physical therapist and Master Executive Coach with professional experience for over 40 years. I work as a consultant to the Media and entertainment industry and has been published widely in several languages. I am a writer and independent researcher with a commitment to "finding intelligent, expedient and joyful solutions for the predicaments we have co-created for each other on our Mother Planet".