DO YOU REALLY CARE?

If you show people how much you care and ask questions in a non-threatening way, you will be amazed by how much they will teach you. One of the basic decisions we need to make in our life, is the decision to be concerned about SELF OR OTHERS. Now I believe it is important to love yourself, like yourself and to really feel good about yourself. However we all need to realize that the world does not revolve around us. We count but we are not the main thing. There is a world out there that needs to know that SOMEONE CARES. Do you care? I mean do you really care?Listening to people is a way to show them that you care about what is happening in their life. Do you care what is happening in their life or are we only concerned with what is going on in our life? People are drawn to you if they know you care for them and really care what is happening in their life.You should make an appointment with the most important person in your life and plan to spend an hour together just communicating with them. Give that person your undivided attention and spend the time talking about them and not yourself. See what a difference it makes in the relationship you have with them. Ask them questions about what is going on in their life instead of telling them all the things in your life. If you will do this your relationship will grow and you will have more influence with them that you ever have. TRY IT AND SEE IF DOESN’T MAKE A DIFFERENCE.