Can you train yourself to be a TOP???

sooo my buddies and I were having a discussion last night about whether it is possible to train yourself to become a top or verse if you are a straight up bottom! Luckily I belong to the vers family and flippin roles while sex is HOT!by buddy is a power slut bottom hahaha and he brought up the topic cause he feels he doesn't get enough action being JUST a bottom

Yes you can train to be versa.. you may never be amazing at your "other" role, but unless there is a physical problem (anal fissure, erectile disorder) you can. Most of the time the problem is in the mind.

I find something in being a top that truly excites me despite the fact I love to bottom. I love watching the other guy enjoy me being inside of him. Watching him being aroused is enough to get me very excited.

Er well I'll start by staying I'm versa because I love dominanting people of my size but I also love being dominant by someone like double my size But I can't see why sex rolls have to be so black and white I say people should try both!! don't nock it before you try it!

MuchMoreThanMuscle saidI changed roles. I used to be a raging bottom and then after some life changing events I got more in touch with myself and my true(r" identity. Now I love to top.

And bottoms tell me I am very good at my game.

If a person is not happy with the role they play in bed then it is worth exploring to figure out what is going on. It could be other people's shame. For example, a lot of guys think bottoming is degrading. So this can create issues. Other people think being on top is equivalent to being in charge or in control or the "stud." I do not agree with this. Creating unions does not automatically mean that one person is dominant, in control or superior while the other one is inferior and/or less of a human being.

MuchMoreThanMuscle saidI changed roles. I used to be a raging bottom and then after some life changing events I got more in touch with myself and my true(r" identity. Now I love to top.

And bottoms tell me I am very good at my game.

If a person is not happy with the role they play in bed then it is worth exploring to figure out what is going on. It could be other people's shame. For example, a lot of guys think bottoming is degrading. So this can create issues. Other people think being on top is equivalent to being in charge or in control or the "stud." I do not agree with this. Creating unions does not automatically mean that one person is dominant, in control or superior while the other one is inferior and/or less of a human being.

interesting, i agree!

well said... not sure why there is soo much focus on who will do what and when.. and what will not be done.. come on yeah we are gay and we have dicks.. i like to use mine as well but yeah i am gay and i know i will get fucked as well.,.. just saying

MidwesternKid saidI find something in being a top that truly excites me despite the fact I love to bottom. I love watching the other guy enjoy me being inside of him. Watching him being aroused is enough to get me very excited.

Oh I totally agree with this - i'm vers and the biggest turn on is seeing that i am giving my partner absolute pleasure