One of my favorite things about Halloween is sneaking candy from my kids’ trick-or-treating stash. I already have visions of mini KitKat bars dancing in my head. Those bite-sized treats are tasty on their own, but indulge by spreading a little candy love right on your bare skin. Double your fun by adding some sugary goodness to your foreplay (just keep the candy above the waist since no good comes from getting sugary stuff in your vag).

For twelve years Thien-Kim Lam has been doling out relationship advice and sex tips while simultaneously hawking edible body powders and vibrators at in home toy parties. Now she’s trying to follow her own advice by keeping her buzzy devices hidden from her two young kids.She blogs about the fusion of Asian, African American, and southern culture in parenting and food at I’m Not the Nanny. She is the founder of Bawdy Bookworms, a subscription box meets virtual book club that pairs a sexy romance book with sensual bedroom accessories. Every woman deserves a happy ending.