Q. I found out that my husband has been looking at porn
for the past 6 months. I am extremely upset. Does anyone have advice how to
deal with it? How should I view the issue? Should we get divorced?

A.
Divorce is not a proper solution. Try seeking rabbinic counseling or a
marriage counselor. Try to understand that the temptations are so great, it
is easy for a man to get hooked. The pain of your discovery is real, but it
is wrong to take it as a personal rejection or as a betrayal. Like all
addictions, your husband is not in control. He is like a sick person. Try
having him read over the advice on this site. But don't be afraid of
encouraging to seek outside help. As the Talmud teaches, a prisoner can not
free himself from prison.

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