The Mother Circle

Most Read

"You didn't get ME jewels!" Samantha cries. She feels shafted because she wants the heart necklace we bought Bobby's mom for Mother's Day. (Leave it to Samantha to make Mother's Day about her.) But Samantha's outburst got me thinking—who is Mother's Day about?

Bobby and I love our moms dearly, and we share the day with them, but as we settle into this blooming month of May, I think of the nurturing role other moms play in our kids' lives.

I look at the circle of dynamic women I know who happen to be moms, and I'm in awe of their beauty, smarts, warmth and strength. I'm grateful to the mothers who give love, attention and guidance to my children. The logistics alone can be tricky when raising three kids. It truly takes a village.

Through playdates, car rides and visits, my children have a circle of mothers around them whom they don't hesitate to turn to if they need something. If Josh walks into your kitchen and opens the cupboards himself to look for a snack, he doesn't mean to be disrespectful. He's just comfortable in your home. You've made him feel that way. If Samantha asks you to polish her nails or wants to hold your hand, understand that she enjoys being around you. My children know they can run into the arms of my friends—happy or sad.

Yes, my kids are safe and fed when they are with my mommy friends. But I also believe that they are loved. I share the same love with my friends' kids. And the village thrives.—Julie Weingarden Dubin

How have your mom friends been there for you or your children? Do you feel motherhood would be more difficult if you didn't have friends experiencing it with you? Share your thoughts in Comments.