As they say, ‘We make our own bed, so we should be prepared
to sleep in it too’. But we want only comfortable, peaceful and happy life;
free of problems. And how much do we contribute towards it? We don’t want to
ask ourselves. We are always complaining, nagging and are never satisfied. Good
and evil (or negative and positive), keep the balance of life, and at the same time
bring some excitement. In the end, it is our own effort that counts.

There is a positive lesson in everything negative experience
of life. Sweet are the fruits of adversity. All it needs is a little patience,
cool and an honest effort to get through. It is called

‘striving’, or struggle, or Jihad. We should not forget that
there will be trials and tests in life. Nothing comes for free. We need to stay
on course with patience. Allah says:

وَلَنَبْلُوَنَّكُمْ
بِشَيْءٍ مِّنَ ٱلْخَوفْ وَٱلْجُوعِ

وَنَقْصٍ مِّنَ
ٱلأَمَوَالِ وَٱلأَنفُسِ وَٱلثَّمَرَاتِ

وَبَشِّرِ
ٱلصَّابِرِينَ

“And surely We shall
try you with

something of fear and
hunger, and

loss of wealth and
lives and crops;

but give glad tidings
to the steadfast.”

(Quran 2:155)

يَآأَيُّهَا
ٱلَّذِينَ آمَنُواْ ٱسْتَعِينُواْ بِٱلصَّبْرِ وَٱلصَّلاَةِ

إِنَّ
ٱللَّهَ مَعَ ٱلصَّابِرِينَ

“O you who believe!
Seek help

in steadfastness and
prayer. Lo,

Allah is with the
steadfast.”

(al-Quran 2:153)

That’s the secret – the patient perseverance! Allah gave the
good news to the steadfast.

If God told you that you could ask Him for one (and only
one) thing and you will be granted; then what would you ask Him for? Huh … hundred
and one things to ask, so many
needs, so many desires and
ambitions, so many essentials of modern & comfortable life… a tough choice!

If you ask Allah for strength, He will give you difficulties
and hurdles to go through. At the end, you would come out strong. But you don’t
want difficulties and hurdles!

If you ask for wisdom, God will give you problems to
solve. You always deal with problems trying
to find solutions. In the process, you turn grey and become wise. Do you want
that?

If you ask God for prosperity, He will give you extra brain
and brawn to work. You will be working hard, day and night to achieve your
goals. Oh, you don’t want to work hard?

If you ask for courage, God will give you ‘danger’ to overcome.
You’ll be scared to death every now and then, but you’ll become courageous.
Want that?

If you ask for love … oh, yes! Love! God will give you all
the troubled people of the world – les miserable, the destitute, victims of floods
& quakes – to help them, take care of them and love them. And you would become love personified. A
tough choice indeed!

If you ask for favors, God will give you opportunities but
you should be able to recognize them and grab them. Before that, you need to be
humble and grateful to Him.

And here is the best alternative:

If you ask God for nothing – no wants, no needs, no desires

– just be thankful to Him for whatever you have and do good
work, He will give you everything you need.
The success is guaranteed. He has promised:

And last but not the least: Ask God for His forgiveness.
That forgiveness contains everything you need in this world as well as in the
Hereafter. In the Holy Quran, Allah tells you to do just that:

وَٱسْتَغْفِرِ ٱللَّهَ
إِنَّ ٱللَّهَ كَانَ غَفُوراً رَّحِيماً

“And seek forgiveness
of Allah. Lo!

Allah is ever
Forgiving, Merciful.”

(al-Quran 4:106)

Now, you know what to ask for and how to ask. But, as the
saying goes: First deserve, then desire. The promise of success is there and
there is absolutely no doubt in that. We need to make some effort on our part.
There is no escape from pains and hurts in life. It’s a ‘must’ of life.
Therefore, we should prepare ourselves, mentally and physically, so that we
don’t feel frustrated. The best way to do it is to bring God into our lives.

The One who brought us in this world, will take care of us
too, provided we do what HE tells us to do. Be grateful to Him under all circumstances.
Every calamity comes from Him and HE is the One who can get us out of it. Show
some perseverance and stay on course. Don’t chase your wild desires in vain,
and don’t ever get greedy. Greed is the basis of all evil. Try to learn to be
content with whatever Allah has blessed you with.

Don’t ever forget that Allah is going to question you about
everything you possessed in this world; and what you did with it. He blessed
you with so many things in this world and He will ask you how you used those
things to help mankind? Therefore, seek His forgiveness. Invoke Him with all
His beautiful names and ask Him alone for help!

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Don’t ask Allah
for ‘maal’ (wealth) or

material gains as
they are not going to

last! They come in
a package full of

troubles that you
cannot handle alone.

Ask for the Contentment,
His Mercy

and His
Forgiveness to live happily!

Recite
‘astaghfir-ullah’ in abundance!

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Remember one thing! If things are going your way, you are a
very lucky man in the world. But if things are not going your way, you are even
luckier, because then they are going God’s way. And His way is the best way, as
He knows how to run the world efficiently.

Don’t look at others who are better off and richer than you.
Look at those who are less fortunate than you, and I guarantee you that there are
millions of them in this world. Don’t settle for a ‘bad’ bargain! If you are striving for a comfortable,
nice and luxury life, with all the pomp and show, in this world,

Allah might give you that. But that is the bad bargain I am
referring to. For a comfortable life of this world, you are trading the life of
the Hereafter. Allah warns you:

مَن كَانَ يُرِيدُ
ٱلْحَيَاةَ ٱلدُّنْيَا وَزِينَتَهَا نُوَفِّ

إِلَيْهِمْ
أَعْمَالَهُمْ فِيهَا وَهُمْ فِيهَا لاَ يُبْخَسُونَ

أُوْلَـٰئِكَ
ٱلَّذِينَ لَيْسَ لَهُمْ فِى ٱلآخِرَةِ إِلاَّ ٱلنَّارُ

وَحَبِطَ مَا
صَنَعُواْ فِيهَا وَبَاطِلٌ مَّا كَانُواْ يَعْمَلُونَ

“Whoso desires the
life of the world

and its pomp, We
shall repay them their

deeds herein, and
therein they will not

be wronged. Those are
they for whom

is naught in the
Hereafter save the Fire.

All that they
contrive here is vain and

all that they are wont
to do is fruitless.”

(al-Quran 11:15-16)

Imagine those people in the Philippines, in Africa,
especially in Somalia and Ethiopia, who have nothing to eat, no clean water to
drink, no nice clothes to wear, no refrigerators when the temperature hits 50c
degrees or more, no air-conditioners, not even electricity, no cars, no
vacations, no birthday parties, no cakes and cookies! Most of them are
surviving on corn and muddy water. Everyday they wait for somebody to bring
them some good news – some food of any kind.

They look up to people like you and me to help them get out
of that misery. They look up to us to give them life. They can really say that
life is harsh and they are going through rough and tough times. Thank Allah
that you are not one of them! You are the blessed one!

As Muslims, we should ask ourselves: What are we doing for
our fellow human beings? Can’t we see the command of the Almighty God in the
Holy Quran? He says:

All our lives we struggle and try hard to accumulate as much
wealth as possible because we believe that it is the wealth that will solve all
our problems. Wealth can solve only economic problems temporarily, but, at the
same time, it can create many social and physical ills. According to one Hadith, Prophet Muhammad
(s.a.w.) said:

“Man is always
worried about his wealth

and says: ‘My wealth,
my wealth’, but in

fact he can benefit
from his wealth only

for three little
things: Whatever he ate from

it (food); whatever
he wore from it (clothing);

and whatever he sent
for the Hereafter (charity).

Whatever is in excess
(beyond his basic needs)

is not his, and he
leaves it behind for others.”

Now, there is a good lesson in it for us. Your basic needs are
fulfilled here in this world but they cannot bring anything for you to the next
world – the Hereafter. The only thing that goes with you to the next world, is
your good deeds. And among those good deeds, charity is number one (the best).

Charity brings prosperity!

During the times of Prophet Muhammad (s.a.w.) and his
blessed companions, most of the Muslims gave away in charity whatever was
surplus or beyond their needs. In the era of Caliph Othman (Usman) bin Affan, a
companion of the Prophet (s.a.w.) had a garden of date-palm trees. It was high
season and the crop of dates was getting ripe for harvesting. One day that companion
was offering prayer (Salaat) and during the Salaat the thought of ripe and
profitable crop of dates came to his mind. He regretted it and repented so much
that soon after the Salaat he went to see the Caliph Uthman bin Affan and
offered him his date-palm garden in charity. Caliph Uthman sold that garden for
50 thousand Dirhams and used the money for religious projects.

Here is another beautiful story. The rich Muslim traders
used to send gifts to the Prophet (s.a.w.) so that they could earn Allah’s blessings.
The mother of the believers, and wife of Prophet Muhammad (s.a.w.), Ayesha
Siddiqah (r.a.a.) once received two sacks of money. There was more than one hundred thousand
Dirhams in those bags. She had instructions from the Prophet (s.a.w.) what to
do with those gifts. So, she opened the bags and, with the help of a maid,
started distributing money among the poor and needy of the area, till it was
finished.

The maid said to Ayesha (r.a.a.):

“You are fasting and you did not keep any money for yourself
to buy something for dinner.”

In the evening, at the time of breaking the fast, the maid
complained that if she had bought meat for one Dirham from that money, they
could have enjoyed a good meal. Ayesha (r.a.a.) said: “Don’t regret now. If you
had asked me while I was giving that money away, I would have given you one
Dirham for meat.”

True Muslims never accumulated
wealth. After meeting their basic needs, they gave away in charity whatever was
extra. Most of them regarded wealth as Fire from Hell and nobody wanted to keep
it in the house even for one extra night. They did not ask God for wealth or
material gains. They asked God for His forgiveness and mercy. Even the Prophet
(s.a.w.) himself begged for Allah’s mercy all day long.

Abu Huraira narrated:

I heard Allah’s Apostle saying:
‘By Allah! I ask for forgiveness from Allah and turn to Him in repentance more
than seventy times a day.’

(Bukhari, Book 75, No. 319,
repeated in Book 80, No. 4)

If that was the way of the
Prophet (s.a.w.), where do we stand with Allah?

Anas bin Malik narrated:

Allah’s Apostle (s.a.w.) said:
‘Allah is more pleased with the repentance of His slave than anyone of you is
pleased with finding his camel which was lost in the desert.’

(Bukhari, Book 75, No. 321)

Istaghfaar (‘Astaghfir-ullah’):

Here’s a well-known supplication (Dua) of all prophets and
their followers. It’s also the best means of ‘Istaghfaar’. It is the last Verse
of Surah al-Baqara. It was suggested by Allah to the believers. Allah said that
many prophets and their followers have supplicated with this Dua:

Adam & Eve
disobeyed Allah and, being under the influence of the Satan (Devil), ate the
fruit from the forbidden tree. As a result, they were expelled from Paradise. They repented immediately and sought
forgiveness from Allah with this prayer (Dua):

Once, people were sitting in the company of a saint and
listening to his wise words when a man came and asked the saint what he should
do to escape draught and get crops in abundance. The saint told him to do
‘Istaghfaar’ in abundance.

Later on, another man came and asked similar question for
prosperity, increase in provision (‘rizq’) and success. The saint told him to
recite ‘Astaghfir-ullah’ in abundance.

A short time later, a third person came and asked for the
saint’s advice to get a baby boy (a son) and noble offspring. The saint told
him to do ‘Istaghfaar’ in abundance.

Somebody from the gathering (‘majlis’) asked the saint:
‘Sheikh! I don’t understand this. When somebody asked you about rain and increase
in crops, you told him to do ‘Istaghfaar’ in abundance. When a second person
asked you about prosperity and provision (‘rizq’) you suggested ‘Istaghfaar’.
And when a third person came to ask you about his offspring, a baby-boy, you
told him the same thing – to do ‘Istaghfaar’. Does that mean that ‘Istaghfaar’
is the solution of every problem?

The saint smiled and said:

‘I didn’t make anything up. I didn’t create the solution.
It’s Allah’s promise in the Quran. He says:

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M. Javed Naseem

M. Javed Naseem (Jay Max) is a well-known journalist and broadcaster from Lahore (Pakistan). He is the author of six books. He has worked as a reporter and then sub-editor for daily Nawa-i-Waqt, Lahore; as sub-editor with the Pakistan Times, Lahore; and as editor of the weekly Community News, New York, NY, among others.He was an international broadcaster for radio Deutsche Welle (The Voice of Germany), Cologne, Germany; news editor and newscaster for Third World Broadcasting TV in New York; was producer & director of ‘Mabuhay’, an English language TV show for the Filipino community in New York. He had been an announcer at Radio Pakistan, Lahore; and Punjabi newscaster for Pakistan Television, Lahore. Before entering the field of professional journalism, he was a Lecturer/Instructor at the Govt. Commercial Training Institute, Lahore. He knows English, French, German, Urdu, Punjabi, Hindi, Persian and some Arabic. He writes for Islamic websites. He is a Pakistani-American and now lives in retirement in Morocco, North Africa.Publications: The Way (Sunnah) of The Prophet (s.a.w.); God's Prescription - Al-Quran; A Wake-up Call; You Are Special; Stories of Prophets.