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Family Law Destroys the Family

​Child Support must be reformed today.

Millions of fathers -and some mothers- are being rendered slaves by the oppressive beast known as the “Family Court System”.

Fathers, mothers and children have been swindled and enslaved by the oppressive courts for too long. You will discover, by what is outlined on this website, that the Family Court System as it exists today is deceitful and has willfully destroyed countless lives belonging to men, women and children for far too long. Probably more than any other group known to man. This is perhaps too bold a statement, but it is true. The Family Court, which enables (mostly) women, to create slaves of men, is urgently in need of reform, right now.

Problem Number One: The Best Interest of the Child

The mantra of the corrupt court judge is, "The Best Interest of the Child."

This is the greatest LIE ever told by our judicial system. Children almost never benefit from the judgement passed down by the Family Court, because, in the first place, the children are merely used as leverage for extortion and control.

Second; the children never get what they want.

Third; the Family Court System is engineered to keep Men and Women, in conflict with one another so as to rack up billable hours they must pay toward lawyers and psychiatrists. Everyone gets a cut, except the children and the losing parent. “The Best Interest of the Child” is used frequently by the judge as a blanket defense for the dismissal of any logical and fair solution presented by the defendant. A man can be forced to pay up to 60% of his paycheck to the mother in child support and when he attempts to explain to the judge that he will not be able to survive, why, the answer is, “tough… best interest of the child.”

The aftermath of divorce, or unwed child support/custody hearings, have regularly driven children into traumatic states of depression and anxiety. They worry that they are the cause of the hostility between parents and they become riddled sick with sadness because of the ensuing parental alienation. See Statistics

Problem Number Two: Mommy (and some Daddies) and the Family Courts make A LOT of money.

The crooked family court system is made up of Lawyers, Judges, Guardian Ad Litems (those who investigate what is "in the best interest of the child"), Psychiatrists, Social Workers and others. These are the tainted agents for the State and they work very hard at ensuring their own job security.They MUST justify their existence in the same way politicians and police must create and find criminals to keep the prisons full. A world without criminals would mean no police, no prisons, no wardens, no cheap labor for corporations etc. etc. Therefore, criminality must never decline. Same goes for the Family Courts. It's all about job security. The best way for all of these fraudsters to "keep the money flowing in" is to keep parents in conflict, separate children from (usually fathers) and order excessive alimony and child support penalties. (Which holds the benefit of creating more criminals, as men who do not pay, go to jail.)

As a way to promote this diabolical scheme, politicians grandstand in front of news cameras about the open war against "DEADBEAT DADS!" (A total myth as a matter of fact, because only 6% of fathers do not pay child support willfully) It is a vile loop which has befallen us and it stands to destroy what is most precious in America, the Family Unit. Something has to be done to stop this madness.

Solution:REMOVE THE FINANCIAL INCENTIVE.

TITLE IV-D Section 458 allows the US Federal Government to give back “Incentive Payments” to US states for performance based child support collection, paternity establishment, and administrative costs.In other words, the more "Child Support Money" that is collected, the more money the State will be reimbursed via the Federal Government to add to its treasure chest.

THAT IS YOUR AMERICAN TAX DOLLARS FUNDING CORRUPTION.

This is why Child Support is excessively high. Most men cannot afford to live after child support is taken out of their checks. It's also why children are being torn away from their fathers and given solely to the mothers.The argument by the courts is that the "Child Support Calculator" operates on what a noncustodial parent is "Capable" of paying. Nothing, could be further from the truth.

What is not said is that the "biological donor" only makes $15.00/hour and brings home between $2400 and $2600/month. With that, he's supposed to pay his own bills too, such as:

Rent: $1,000+ (because he needs at least a two bedroom for his time with his child)Electric $115.00Food: $350+Car Payment: $250Car Insurance: $100Credit Cards: $100.00+Cell Phone: 115.00Misc: $100

Never mind if this man has student loans, another wife, with other children etc.

What if he loses his job?What if he gets hurt or sick?

​Child support modifications almost never work in favor of reducing child support, but always work in increasing it.

Yet, if he doesn’t pay it…o Loses his driver's licenseo Loses his passporto Loses his special work related licenseo Accumulates large Child Support debt with interesto Goes to jailo Eventually goes to prison as a felon

How can a man take care of his child from jail or prison? How can a man keep his job if his driver's license is revoked? Does that seem right?

Imagine not paying your rent and being sent to prison. This is by definition, “Debtor’s Prison” which was abolished in America in 1833. This man… has become an indentured servant. He cannot, NOT work… He must work or go to jail, thus he is a slave. This is the main problem and it could happen to anybody.

What makes no sense about this dire situation is the fact that, a married couple, who live together and raise their kids together can limit the amount of money spent on their children without the same penalties. If a father loses his job in a married household, he places a strict budget on spending, he might sell the house and move the family into a smaller house etc. The children will not be able to buy iPhones and go the movies, but the Daddy won't be going to jail either. The family may end up lighting candles, sitting on their living room floor with no electricity, eating ramen noodles and telling ghost stories for a few months, but they will get by. It will also strengthen them.

Therefore, the sense of entitlement for non-stop cash from the custodial parent is ridiculous.

Yet, the current judicial system allows and encourages this madness.

Wealthy men are victims as well. Yes, they can afford to pay, but because child support is based on income percentage and not what it costs to actually raise a child, they end up paying insanely high amounts. David Foley for instance, pays $17,000/month which was calculated at the peak of his success, but unfortunately, he hasn't had any solid work in some time. He's said it himself, he cannot pay it.

Let’s not forget that there are women out there who hunt men like prey… These women manipulate men to impregnate them and then abandon the men, all the while screaming that the men have “abandoned the child!" in family court. The judge -who's taken thousands of dollars in campaign donations from the mother's lawyer) shakes his head in feigned anger at the man and forces him to PAY!” Insanity!

It is totally NOT okay that we live in a society where, any vindictive and/or greed driven female, may fraudulently become pregnant (ie. claim to be on the pill, when actually not) and use the system to render the father of her child, a slave, whether he consented or not. What is especially maddening about this circumstance is that the female has options. She may abort, place the child up for adoption or legally abandon the child if she decides she doesn't want to be a mother, but a man, has no choice at all. He is FORCED to finance her decision, regardless of his unwillingness to be a parent.

Nor should we live in a society where married women, who are bored with their husbands, have unbelievable incentive to force a divorce. Alimony + Child Support = Abundant Survival (especially since she'll probably remarry)

It's almost too far-fetched to believe, but it's true...

A very sly lawyer once said, “If we make the idea of child support so horrible and so arduous for men to live with, then maybe we’ll see a reduction in irresponsible baby making.”

He was dead wrong. Instead, what we got was a system where custodial parents, and the family court, could make a lot of money and thereby, have INCREASED the number of babies, DECREASED marriages, INCREASED divorce, INCREASED male suicide and INCREASED incarceration rates in jails and prisons. It’s all about the money.

Therefore, the resolution to the problem, is to remove the financial incentive.These are other questions about the child support laws:

o Why is child support tax-free income? There are women who collect child support from multiple fathers who essentially do not pay taxes, yet receive major tax breaks because of the children they “own.”

o Why doesn't the payer of child support get any child tax credit? Men -and some women- must pay up to 40% in child support out of their pre-taxed income, and at the end of the year, the custodial parent receives the tax credit.

o How does removing the driver's license, or imprisoning the payer of child support help him/her pay child support?

o Why do the courts award custody to women 80%+ of the time? It is proven that fatherless children DO NOT DO WELL in life.

o Where is the accountability for how the money is spent by the custodial parent? Some women receive thousands of dollars per month for one child, and when you see this child, they’re wearing old shoes, hand-me-down clothes and have unkempt appearances. Yet the mother, and her new boyfriend, or husband, have a brand new car, new clothes and a weekend drinking budget for the bar.

o Why is there no statute of limitations on the amount of time that passes before child support can be ordered? i.e. Mother has child, doesn't tell father for 11 years, but wants child support. Imagine how surprised the father would be and he's had zero time to bond with the child, who's a complete stranger...

Why should you care?

Honestly, because it could happen to you… Also, it’s completely unconstitutional and this is America, land of the free. The problem is that in the court of public opinion, there is a misnomer that men who don’t, or don’t want to pay child support, do not love their children. This is false. Most men, do want to pay, but they can’t afford to. Most men are kept from seeing their children, which the court does not care about and these men go crazy. They commit homicide, suicide and generally lose their minds because of parental alienation. This could happen to you, man or women, but mostly if you’re a man.

The problem is that people have been conditioned to believe in a lie. The child support racket has been very cleverly disguised. Politicians and bureaucrats -and greedy mothers- understand that if the "general public" (someone unaware of the corruption) is led to believe in the illusion that all "fathers" want nothing to do with their kids, and don't want to pay child support out of spite, then the easier it is for the corrupt system to remain in place. The mere illusion of the deadbeat dad is so powerful, that nobody will bother to listen to any man who raises his fist and declares injustice.

This creates a situation where, we see a man on the brink of homelessness and insanity, shouting injustice for having been robbed of his dignity and basic human rights (not to mention money), and the typical citizen conjures up the image of "an innocent child abandoned by the father" (as he's been programmed by the media) and that citizen's heart turns cold against the apparently delusional deadbeat.​The family courts, (and child support collecting parent) laugh when this happens.This could happen to you… because it’s happened to us, millions of fathers and children, (whom are also trying to reform the system because they love and miss their Dads.) Please help us by sharing this knowledge with others.