How it works

We'll assign you a personal matchmaker that will be in touch within 48 hours.

Get matched

Once we've met you in person, if we think you're a fit with our premium members, we'll match you for free.

Get started with a free membership!

Should I Join for Free or Become a Client?

You have two options: free and paid. In either option, the first step is to fill out our quick private profile. This will take less than five minutes, but you can add more depth later on. Signing up puts you in our free database and lets our matchmakers search for you as a potential match for their clients. You must meet with a matchmaker in-person to be eligible to be matched. And remember, as a free member, our matchmakers aren’t actively searching for you. They’ll only reach out if they have a client who is a potential match.

If you would like to explore the option of becoming a TDR paid client, sign up and set up time with your matchmaker. She’ll sit down with you over coffee, get to know about you and your match preferences, and show you first-hand how we carefully vet your matches. The initial meeting is free and no obligation - we’re never sales-y or pushy, because we want all of our clients to approach the process with an open mind and heart.

Why is TDR different?

When Talia, our CEO, founded Three Day Rule, her mission was to create a much more enjoyable, stress-free dating experience for both men and women. We train every matchmaker to ensure they are positive, empowering, and personalized in their approach to finding you a committed relationship. Here’s how we do it:

We are real people who meet you and all of your matches in person.

We find potential dates and ask them the hard questions, face-to-face.

We only introduce you to the most compatible matches, saving you from bad first dates.

You go on dates and give us feedback, so we get even better over time.

What types of singles do you work with?

We work with quality singles of all ages, but most of our clients are between the ages of 25-70. Should you decide to work with one of our Matchmakers, they will go to great lengths to ensure that they find amazing matches that are within the specific age range you are looking for.

Does Three Day Rule offer LGBTQ+ Matchmaking?

We have officially launched LGBTQ+ matchmaking in Los Angeles and are continuing to grow, with plans to be in more cities soon. Tell your friends to sign up at Three Day Rule now and we’ll let you know when we’ve launched in your city. We can't wait to match you!

What cities are you located in?

We are currently located in Los Angeles, Orange County, San Francisco, Silicon Valley, Chicago, New York, Boston, Washington DC, and Philadelphia. If you are not currently in any of these metropolitan areas, you can still sign up for our database and we will reach out to you as soon as we launch in your city!

When will you come to my city?

We launch new cities each year, depending on the demand. If you are interested in working with a TDR matchmaker, but we are not yet in your city, please sign up for our database and we will reach out to you as soon as we launch in your city!

What are the costs for your services?

We have a number of different packages for both matchmaking and dating strategy sessions. Prices vary depending on the package you choose, so please reach out to your matchmaker to set up time to discuss options in person.

We’re never sales-y or pushy, as we want all of our clients to approach the process with an open heart and open mind, so you can be sure your meeting with a matchmaker will be fun, insightful, and confidential.