Total Forgiving, Total Acceptance, Total
Compassion, leads to the result of Total Thanks for everything.

The clues to giving thanks for everything
and forgiveness and mercy is directly and indirectly in most spiritual
sources.

We need to slow down, we have all the
time we need to learn the lessons we need to learn.

We learn faster, the slower we
go.

We get more of the presents, of the present
this way.

The answers are in the presents of the
moment.

The names we use are not critical, the
spirit in which we use any names, is important.

Better to be loving, than to be
&ldquo;right&rdquo;.

Better to ask the that which is most high
what to do ourselves, than to tell the most high to do something for
us.

Better to ask
how to get what we want, than
to tell the most high to give it to us.

Better to ask what we really
want.

Better to ask what to believe to be in
the will of the most high.

Better to always pray for the will of
the most high and how to carry that out.

Everyone and everything comes from that
which is most high, and ultimately returns to that which is most high.

Note: How can I know the skill and habit of self forgiving is so important?
After 2 years in our masters university program of making it a habit to forgive
self and others, we were ready for rage work. Almost everyone found that
their unexpressed rage became a unique transcendent experience at an altar
that "altered" their life. That would not have happened without the habit
of self forgiveness for this critical time. Doing rage work, without a habit
of self forgiveness, is literally crazy and only teaches more rage. This
is why I believe that Jesus told the Jews to forgive 70 times 7 when the
Jews had a maximum of 7 times.

I found that forgiving what happened had no practical effect in any therapy,
but forgiving the names, changed everything. Forgiving our judgments of words
like lier, led to the heart of the matter. Even forgiving the opposites of
the names, often produced dramatic healing, of the issue involved. I later
found my answer to why it worked. It is because we hook our emotions on the
words we used with emotion. Self forgiveness, starts the unraveling process
towards peace.

The words are:

I am forgiving myself, for judging (myself or them or God), as (a or an)
__ Name __ (person or people).

The issue is our judging. We know we have judged, by how upset we are. When
we are totally at peace we are not judging, but then we are discerning. Like
Jesus revealed, even when we judge others, we are judging ourselves and it
is still self judgment. So, self forgiveness is always required, to clear
our self judgments. The ego [Edging God Out] will find any rational it can,
including any theology, to just not say, and mean, these words of forgiving
the names we use. That is one of the traps of the ego.

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Published since June 1996. This is past my tenth year anniversary,
since starting my web pages. I started my daily page, because
it is useful for me to look for some recovery tip or secret each day for
my spiritual growth. we and I only need one secret to work on and let it
work on us each day. They are secrets because they are usually the
opposite of what the majority of society teaches. They must be secret
because they are not commonly used. A friend of mine once said "Common
Sense is not much in Common.". Now that I have grandchildren, I am
also writing for them. I would have really liked for my grandparents
and my parents to have passed on more of what they learned. The daily
part is less frequent lately because of all the other things I
do.