About that attitude . . . positive thinking

“As you begin to tell others about your diagnosis, you may feel pressure to maintain a positive attitude, which can be especially difficult when you are scared, anxious, or not feeling well. False optimism is unrealistic, and experts say feeling that you are not ‘doing cancer right’ can be a huge burden. No compelling evidence exists that emotional outlook affects survival, yet people unaffected by cancer often expect and encourage those with the disease to exhibit a positive approach despite how they are really feeling.

(On the other hand) . . . . .”People, as well as their reactions to cancer, can differ greatly. For some, maintaining a positive attitude is their preferred method of coping.” – From Dealing With Emotion: How to recognize normal reactions at diagnosis and when you need help. Cure Magazine.