We talk about sex and sexuality

Him: Topic #17

Safe sex is one of those things that really should be common sense at this point…but it’s not. I mean, how sad is it that there are still Abstinence ONLY Sex Education programs in schools across america? When young people don’t learn how to use contraceptives, all kinds of bad things happen.

I’m going to go down the list on my opinions of various safe sex practices and how I’ve seen people misuse them!

Masturbation is one of the few that I think, really can’t get messed up very easily, either you do it…or ya don’t.

I’m going to be totally honest, the only ways i feel that non=penetrative sex could be messed up…is if someone has an open wound on the part of the body coming in contact with any bodily fluids.

Condoms. Slip it on, then slip it in. Both male and female condoms work amazingly well, and female condoms can be used for anal sex as well as vaginal. I know this to be true from experience. At the end of the day though, there are a few things to always do when having sex with a latex condom. Always make sure you are not using an oil based lubricant, Water based is the best, otherwise the CONDOM WILL BREAK. While having sex, make sure to reach down and check that everything is in working condition, that the condom hasn’t fallen off, and of course, make sure it hasn’t broken.