I am in need of some serious help. I am 18 6'0 145lbs. and have the dick of a 12 year old. I have plenty of pubes and stuff but I seriously don't think my dick has grown since I was 12. It is the strangest thing. I have a little bit of facial hair and a lot of thigh hair but my hands and dick are smaller than anyone I know. I know this because everywhere I go I am always checking out guys hands. That may sound weird but I do it b/c A wanna find someone that has small hands like me (no luck) and B I think its a good measure to know how big a guys dick is which I'm always sorta curious in.

Anyway I really need good advice on what I can do. I feel like I need testosterone shots or something. I tried that jelquing thing but I really don't think that would work. Another reason it really is hurting me is because I have never gone far with a girl for fear itll come out and she'll like laugh or something. It just really pisses me off that tons of guys have this 7in or bigger dicks and I have this thin 5inch dick (hard).

I really would appreciate your guys help b/c I have no one else to turn to. "Don't Worry" responses won't help though. I've been trying to "not worry" since I was 12 and it just doesn't work. I think about it every day.

> It just really pisses me off that tons of guys have this 7in or bigger dicks and I have this thin 5inch dick (hard).

Holy crap, I thought you were going to say that you had a 3" erect penis. Tons of guys lie about their size. Have you seen a lot of guys with hard-ons? I don't know what your girth (circumference) is, but 5 inches is only a bit below average.

> I really would appreciate your guys help b/c I have no one else to turn to. "Don't Worry" responses won't help though. I've been trying to "not worry" since I was 12 and it just doesn't work. I think about it every day.

It sounds like an obsession to me. No matter what anyone tells you, you have what you have, so obviously you need to find a way to get past your obsession. If you just can't, then you need professional counseling, or you will have a miserable life.

All you have to go by is the (somewhat distorted) reality you've constructed inside you head. You have no idea how a woman would actually react. I'll bet that if you actually do get a woman in the sack, hopefully one you have a real relationship with, the penis size thing won't be a major issue. You won't know until you try.

<i>Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter.</i> -- MLK

Even though I'm 16, my dick hasn't grown since I was 12 either. I, too am only 5 inches in length and the only time I got a bigger measurement was when I had been aroused for a couple of hours. I know how it is thinking about it every day and it really sucks. Just be thankful that you have small hands. I have big hands and that causes some masturbation problems.

I actually have seen quite a few guys my age or younger w/ hard ones in various situations and thats why I know it and hurts my ego even more. I know a lot of guys lie and exagerate but theyre still bigger than me.

> I actually have seen quite a few guys my age or younger w/ hard ones in various situations

First of all, that's pretty curious. Secondly, as was mentioned in another thread, your perception of your own size versus the size of others is distorted by the the angle that you're viewing from; if your penis is the same size as another guy's, his will look bigger than yours. Thirdly, you have what you have and you will have to learn to deal with it. You can't get a penis transplant, and it doesn't sound like the prieshood is an option for you.

Seriously, there are people who fall in various places on the curve in a lot of different ways. Your penis size obsession, not your penis size, is destructive to your having a happy life. Your mind is absolutely made up, based on....what? Let's say you're dating someone for a while, and then you decide to have sex. What do you think will happen?

I've been to clothing optional beaches and I've noted that men of all sizes, with penises of all sizes, were with women. They didn't seem to have any major problem.

<i>Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter.</i> -- MLK

Let me try and calm you down a bit about the 'girl laughing at you' situation. 5" is a decent size, (it's not huge, but it's not tiny either) and any girl with a normal sense of reality and morality is not going to laugh at you because you CAN PLEASURE HER - that's what real sex is about: pleasure and not image. A female's vagina is only pleasure senstive only up about half-way up (ie about 3" in).....sooo do the math!

And? Let me just say this: if a girl laugh/makes fun of ur size then take it as a SURE sign that she's a materialistic bitch and leave the relationship! Someone who cares about you and ur feelings wont care! Plus if you have a 'below average' dick, then it makes deep throating easier, so lay back and enjoy :grin:

You totally missed JenJen's point. The idea of sex is to please each other, not to examine and evaluate each other's sex organs. If you get a hand job, it is for your pleasure. If you enjoy it, then you've met the requirement, no matter the size of your penis.

<i>Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter.</i> -- MLK

Hey don't even think about using testosterone unless you have hchecked this out with a doctor and they recommend it.Un-monitored use of testosterone can lead to liver and kidney damage. The other dangers of testosterone are failure of the testicles, making you sterile, and in older males rapid grow of any prostate growts. If a doctor prescribes testosterone that it is measured accurately after having a blood test done to determine pre-use testostrone levels.Most doctors and urologist will not even let you administer your own injections. It is usaully done either by a doctor or health nurse at regular intervals. Your blood is tested about every 4 to 6 months to ensure that you stay at the right levels. It also checks for kidney and liver damage.I would not worry too much about size, wory about what you can do with it. I'm 41 maried and I have close to six inches. My wife has never complained. I have had many urological problems and know what it is like to be impotent. Just be satisfied if everything works OK. It's not like that part of your body is the first thing that everyone is interested in. You are a person not just a penis. Only a few chosen people will get to see it.Don't wory about the others that might be bigger, it makes no difference at all in your capabilities. Respect yourself.

I don't wanna burst anyones bubble of knowledge here on the forum, but 7"?

Of the first 1000 guys that'll say they are 7" hard 80% or more are liars or just don't know how to measure it.

I've talked with a couple of women who said straight up they prefer a 5" penis to a 9" penis. They said having the end of a 9" penis smashing up against their uterus(SP?) is as uncomfortable as it gets and that after it has penetrated about 4 inches any more is unnecessary.

Average is between 5 and 6 inches and those of us with more are blessed to some and cursed to others.

I realize just a couple of women isn't a scientific study or anything but these women were being extremely honest.

ALL men lie about their penis size. How are you going to know for sure when someone claims they have 9"?

My motto is that if you KNOW how big one of your friends' penises is then you are obviously in a very close friendship with that person, in which case you won't get too much of a hard time, and it certainly won't be spread around the school/workplace because your friend will keep things quiet for you.

Girls worry about their breast size, men worry about their penis size. This is a fact of life. But you must ask yourself how long your tongue is when it is stretched out of your mouth. Maybe 2" maximum.

Believe me, you can still more than satisfy your partner with that tongue.

5" is under average but it isnt small bro. You can do some good w/ that. I was reading a survery one day where out of 500,000 men polled 77% had a penis 7" or smaller, and 93% had one smaller than 8".

Confidence is the biggest thing bro. I used to be like you becuase I thought mine was "thin" & I know how women always talk about girth. I'm about 6.75x4.5" (length x girth), and I've become very confident in myself. I mean it varies depending on the situation becuase I have broke 7" before & I've taped it out almost at 5" around. But on average I think I have an average-size. Penis size doesnt even really come into play until you break up. Then it seems like the exs wanna call you small & spread rumors of how bad you were. The funny thing is, my ex told all her friends how good I was in bed & then when we broke up she started sayin how bad it was. I slept with her best friend, and she told me I was one of the best she's had.

What's my point? You just haveta let things flow bro! If you really find a good woman, 5" of penis will be the last thing on her mind!

>If you really find a good woman, 5" of penis will be the last thing on her mind!

so much for one night stands though...

>You can do some good w/ that

lol some...

but don't worry man (OP) I have the same problem as you. I haven't been sexually active in over 4 years simply because I have the incling that 4.5" won't be enough for a truly satisfying sexual situation. I'm still a virgin, yes--I don't deny that, and I partially blame my body for that. It makes me angry that I have no control over that (as well as facial hair) and some girls don't seem to understand that. I would never make fun of a girl for any reason pertaining to her vaginal area, but for some reason I don't think it should be such a big deal for them. I know it may be to some girls...i've read the fem. gen. forums...the penis is a sign of verility and masculinity. Being smaller compared to your peers in undoubtedly a huge blow to confindence...especially when you're under the average for all males. I wouldn't feel so bad being 6" and knowing some 9th grader has a 7 or even 8 inch penis. But when you're 4.5 and know even guys in the middle of puberty are already far surpassed...that's just shattering.

If the cock does the job who cares about the length? This whole penis length thing is all brought about by the porn industry with guys with 12" cocks who have got that way through medication and other means. A big penis isnt everything to do with life or even sex. Just because you have a big cock doesnt make you a big man.

Ive said it before and i will say it again, it doesn't matter how big, small, thin or thick it is, for most women (not shallow ones) its who its attached to and how they use it that counts </font color>

It's all in what you do with it. For 10 years I was with a man who couldn't have been over 4.5". And for the last year and 1/2 he was under 4". Very self conscious, but it didn't bother me. He was good. The man I'm with now a little over 5".