7 Signs that She’s Horny and Wants You to Make a Move

Editor’s note: CMQ here. This article is regarding CONSENSUAL sex which is ONLY what I condone and have ever advocated on this blog. How are you reading this right now? Because your Mother and Father had sex. Sex is great and it’s crystal clear that this is regarding consensual sex, so if you read this and you think otherwise, then you might be a dumbfuck. My readers aren’t dumb, but for the lurkers who love to read my blog and think differently, this note is for you. This is a guest post by Dave Perrotta, the founder of PostGradCasanova.com.

“I have to go home,” she tells you.

You had a fun time hanging out with her, but you never made a move. It just never seemed like the “right” moment. You were never 100% sure that she was down. You thought that moment would come, but then she hits you with this line and you know that moment has passed you by.

Sucks, right? We’ve all been there.

As a general rule, you should err on the side of making a move versus not. But this is easier said than done.

What can help, though, is to be able to spot the signs that a girl is horny and wants you to make a move. Some of these signs are obvious, while others are much more subtle.

But once you know these signs, you can make your moves with confidence and increase the chances that they’ll actually work.

And so, you’ll stop missing opportunities with girls who want to go home and sleep with you, and start making your move before the “hook up” window closes.

Here are 7 signs she’s horny and wants you to make a move…

1. She Checks You Out

You notice her eyes drift a bit to your body. Maybe she sneaks a glance at your bicep, or takes a quick look at your lips. Whatever the case, she’s subtly (or, perhaps, not so subtlety) checking you out.

Women are good at sneaking these glances, so it takes some awareness to notice them. But if you do catch her, then you’ve got a clear sign that she’s horny.

2. She Plays With Her Hair More Than Usual

Most women play with their hair occasionally, so just a few hair touches doesn’t mean much. What’s more, some flirty women will play with their hair intentionally in order to tease you, because it allows them to seize a bit of control over you. By intentionally showing you this sign and seeing your reaction, they feel like they have you wrapped around their finger.

So, how can you tell if this is a legitimate sign or just a random occurrence (or an intentional play by a girl in order to tease you)?

The way to tell is if she’s playing with her hair a lot more than normal, almost to the point where it’d be awkward if it’s intentional.

3. She’s Receptive to Your Touch and Touches You Back

Physical touch is one of the most important parts of connecting with a woman. If you know how to touch her during conversation, you can turn her on and get her thinking of sex.

Here are some tips for touching her the right way:

– The best places to touch her are her elbow, upper arm, and the small of her back.

– Touch her early in the conversation (you can do something simple like a handshake introduction).

– Touch her at high points (like when the two of you are laughing or when she’s agreeing with you).

Now, if she’s receptive to your touch (e.g. she welcomes it and doesn’t tense up), then she probably feels comfortable with you. If she starts touching you back, then she’s probably sexually attracted to you.

It’s a clear sign that she’s open to the idea of you making a move, and maybe even going home with you.

(Note: You can test her receptiveness by holding her hand when walking between venues. Does she hold on and even squeeze your hand back?)

4. She Complies With Your Requests

This is another tell-tale sign that she’s horny, willing to follow your lead, and open to the idea of going home with you.

When she complies with your requests, it shows that she’s interested in you and trusts that you can lead her to a fun and satisfying night. Of course, there are different levels of compliance, and you can start slow when you test these out.

For example, if you meet her on the dance floor, you can take her hand and say, “Let’s go hang by the bar.” Then, once you’ve hung out for a little bit, you can say, “Let’s go outside for a minute and get some fresh air.”

And finally, you can say, “I live closeby, let’s go back to my place for a drink.”

The more she complies, the bigger the requests that she complies to, the hornier she is and the more open she is for sex with you.

5. She Asks About Your Living Situation

“Do you have roommates?”

Whenever she asks a question like this, a bell should go off in your head.

Even if she doesn’t realize it, this is a sign that she’s subconsciously thinking about going home with you. The question is an attempt to get a feel for your living situation and see if she’d have to deal with anybody else if she goes with you.

6. She Gets in Your Personal Space (And is Comfortable With You In Her’s)

If you’re in her “bubble” and she’s okay with it, that’s a sign that she either doesn’t have many personal boundaries, or she’s really interested in you (let’s assume the latter).

The same goes for if she gets in your personal bubble. She probably won’t do it unless she’s interested in you.

When you get in each other’s personal bubbles, the sexual tension skyrockets. However, if you don’t make your move, it will eventually dissipate. So, be aware of this one and be prepared to invite her home.

7. The Two of You are Alone in Private

This one seems obvious – but when you’re in private with a girl and she’s not giving you any of the other signals we’ve talked about, it can still seem like the wrong time to make a move.

But in this case, the setting itself is the biggest signal of all. Odds are, she won’t allow the two of you to be alone in private unless she’s comfortable with the idea of hooking up with you.

She might not be down to have sex just yet, but at the very least, she’s aware that that is a possibility when she goes home with you.

So if the two of you are alone in private, keep this in mind. Even if it seems like it’s “not the right time,” you might as well go for it. She wouldn’t be there if she wasn’t at least somewhat interested in you.

(As a general rule, you should make a move within ten to twenty minutes of being in private with a girl.)

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