It's a professional situation so nothing's going to happen...but he has occassionally had to attend meetings that I have to attend...today was one of those days...Someone at the meeting asked me if it was Miss Tesla or Mrs. Tesla and I *thoroughly* enjoyed emphasizing that it was MOST definetely *Miss* Tesla!!!

And then I mentally kicked my own ass for feeling like a was 16 again.

"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear

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phmh♀ 34146Member # 34146

Posted: 7:14 PM, November 15th (Friday), 2013

Great to read! I had a two month fling with a guy I was so attracted to...I'm not sure I was ever that attracted to someone before.

I may have reached a point where I'd piss on him if he was on fire.... eventually!!

Posts: 5844 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: Australia

PurpleRose♀ 33129Member # 33129

Posted: 9:14 AM, November 16th (Saturday), 2013

So nice to get back in the game isn't it!??!

divorced the Dooosh
*****************************
even if you find your voice,
sometimes it does not matter anymore,
when you speak to a man who is deaf by choice.
~dodinsky

Posts: 3633 | Registered: Aug 2011 | From: Happyville

better4me♀ 30341Member # 30341

Posted: 9:38 AM, November 16th (Saturday), 2013

This made me smile Miss Tesla

DDay 11/17/2010 BW:53
Divorced

Posts: 3269 | Registered: Dec 2010 | From: Iowa

FaithFool♀ 20150Member # 20150

Posted: 7:20 PM, November 16th (Saturday), 2013

Well heck yes.

DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire

Posts: 18104 | Registered: Jul 2008 | From: Canada

JenniMay♀ 24595Member # 24595

Posted: 7:53 PM, November 16th (Saturday), 2013

Love this post!

I recently experienced this myself! Went on a horse-back ride up in the mountains---just me, my mom & the guide.

I haven't been able to stop thinking about the guide! My mom said we talked for 2 hours straight & she was sure he was going to ask for my number at the end of the ride. We had so much in common--most importantly, horses!

We're going back for Thanksgiving & my heart races just thinking about it!

It's good to know there's actually blood pumping through my heart & I'm not totally destroyed from what happened almost 3.5 years ago, because I was starting to think I was!

Betrayed after 13 years of marriage.
DDay & Separated - June 2009
Divorced - March 2010

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lifestoshort♀ 18442Member # 18442

Posted: 9:39 PM, November 16th (Saturday), 2013

great feeling!! makes us feel alive, and worthy. gives hope and vision for future things to happen.

6/07 EX had MANY affairs.
FALSE Reconciles. cheats again. D 5/09

Posts: 732 | Registered: Mar 2008

thebighurt♀ 34722Member # 34722

Posted: 10:10 PM, November 16th (Saturday), 2013

Great post, Tesla!!

Was he paying attention? He should definitely be kicking himself if he missed an opening like that with a beautiful woman!

Finding what life could have been....... Why didn't I see it?

Posts: 2748 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: the Other Side

fraeuken♀ 30742Member # 30742

Posted: 11:27 PM, November 16th (Saturday), 2013

It is so great when you can feel that again, whether it leads to anything or works out in the long run. Just feeling alive and all giddy and excited about somebody reminds you how it can be. I never thought butterflies where possible again - and yes, they are.

Temporarily independent with the whole world at my feet.

Posts: 1271 | Registered: Jan 2011 | From: California

Kajem♀ 36134Member # 36134

Posted: 9:26 AM, November 17th (Sunday), 2013

I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - Unknown
Relationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.

Posts: 6040 | Registered: Jul 2012 | From: Florida

traicionada♀ 10310Member # 10310

Posted: 9:37 AM, November 17th (Sunday), 2013

Enjoy every minute of it

Real love is a CHOICE, NOT a feeling...

Posts: 3392 | Registered: Apr 2006 | From: Dallas, Texas

tesla♀ 34697Member # 34697

Posted: 10:31 AM, November 17th (Sunday), 2013

That's it exactly...it made me feel alive again.

I have so many roles to play at the moment and balls to keep up in the air, I just don't have time to really even think about dating...

...but...

...I may need to ask him for his opinion on one of my troublesome students...

...over a candlelit dinner...

I'm eyeing the emergency exit at the back of the bus and wondering if I can make a break for it!

"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear

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newnormal♀ 21925Member # 21925

Posted: 11:33 AM, November 17th (Sunday), 2013

I'm eyeing the emergency exit at the back of the bus and wondering if I can make a break for it!

My new favorite quote!

BS 43 (me)
FWH 48
D-day 9/07

Dont retreat, reload.
"Pull that knife out of your back - and sever the fuel line to that bus you got thrown under" Bufffalo