It just seems a lot more scary due to the larger number of people that die at the same time.

A sudden car crash I don't see coming is different than a plane going down and you know you are about to die and can't do anything about it.

I just hate flying

I used to be like you. It's a sort of phobia I guess. People always say "but it's the safest transportation blah blah" but still, a plane seems to us like a giant missile launched in the sky and ready to smash on the ground, with us inside.I am not afraid of planes anymore because now I know about them. I have been very curious and I read so many things about planes. I also watched this TV series called Mayday. They are little documentaries. Each describes a crash, why it happened etc. It's very strange, but knowing why a crash happens, and what happens exactly in those situations, made me more tranquil about planes. Now, when I fly, I relate to everything I read and I saw, and I really enjoy the planes now.

Ohno saidI am so glad you put this up, I have a flight from Brazil to the Netherlands with Air France KLM in under 2 weeks haha

LMAO.

but in all seriousness though, it's okay to be paranoid. the reality is you're going to die at some point. the bright side is that they say that people usually go through an extreme sense of peace before death as a way to cope consciously. plus you can also die at any moment. you can drop dead, die in a car wreck, have a heart attack and etc. live like it's your last day alive, appreciate your life and don't be afraid to let everyone you love know that you love them.