Beat Breakfast Panel: My Boyfriend Is Spending Too Much Time With His Baby Momma!

I have been dating my boyfriend for two years now. He has a 3 year old son with his ex and they co parent pretty well- but I’ve noticed that maybe it’s a little TOO WELL lately. His son was acting up at school a while back, so he’d go over to his ex’s house to help out a little more often thinking that having regular father figure would help.

Well now I question what’s going on here. He’s been secretive of his phone and spending A LOT of time at her house. Sometimes he’ll say he’s just going to drop his son back home and won’t be back for a few HOURS. He also doesn’t let me drop his son of with him.

Oh- and he even insisted on being with his son on VALENTINE’S DAY. Saying he wanted to help him go through his cards. How do I find out what’s going on? Anytime I question him, he gets SO defensive.