Your First Time With Her

Here's How To Make Sure She Has A Great Experience The First Time You're Together

You should be patient and make it your utmost concern to please her and let her know how much pleasure she’s giving you. This can be done by your very vocal appreciation of her movements, her body and your moans and groans. This isn’t the time for over-sentimentality, professions of undying love or crying jags. If you shed tears, she’ll wonder who the real woman is — her or you.

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Be warm and generous

There’s something nice about staying the night. And whether you like to admit it, there should be cuddling. Many women do enjoy this, and most men do as well.

However, if you prefer your space, learn to read the signs, or give some indication that your intentions are to please her immensely. If she invites you to her place and she mentions how she will need to get up early in the morning or that she is a troubled sleeper, she’s telling you that it’s more than OK with her for you to leave after both of you are glistening with sweat and smiling like loons.

If she tells you about this great coffee place down the street that she visits every morning, she may be telling you that she would like you to stay for breakfast. Your response should be honest. Women can and will interpret much more than they ought to.

If she suspects that you’re dissembling she will probably resent you. Your best play is to be gently upfront with her. Let her know what your intentions are. Work, appointments and life keep revolving and sometimes have to take priority. Just make sure she knows that you want to see her again, and make sure your words follow through with action.

first but not the last

A great first experience will invite a second, third and fourth.You can help to insure your success by following the guidelines above. Don’t forget about the little things. If she winds up staying the night, get her a glass of water and place it next to the bed. Leave the bathroom light on and the door slightly ajar so she can find her way in the middle of the night. Keep a soft, clean bath towel for her to use and offer her a T-shirt to sleep in. These details will help her see that you care enough to want to see her again. She won’t feel like a one-night stand, especially when you want her to come again.