How often do you BD?

How often do you BD? I've been trying to do the SMEP but I have trouble doing it EOD! I want to do it more often. I've heard doing it everyday isn't good but DH (dear husband) doesn't have any sperm problems. Is that just a myth? Different sources online have different opinions. I feel like we did it too often this month and I may be out.

We usually BD (baby dance (sex)) every day Maybe take like one or 2 nights a week off. But DH (dear husband) and I have always been very physical. But last time we got BFP (big fat positive (pregnancy test)) we DTD (do the deed) 4 days straight took 2 days off and then DTD (do the deed) again 4 days straight the week I O'ed. Too bad it ended as an EP. But now were trying again!

Biology says that it takes 24 hours to for sperm to develop and another 24 hours for it to fully mature. These times are approximations, mind you, but that's where it comes from. So, yes, if you're having sex every day or multiple times a day, sperm will be lower and less potent than if you have sex every other day. For a healthy, fertile couple, that may not make much difference in conception chances.

That article that you posted has been removed. I don't know if that's because it was redacted or just a website error.

Were you having sex multiple times a day when your H's sperm was tested? Have you asked your doctor about it?

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Biology says that it takes 24 hours to for sperm to develop and another 24 ho...

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Biology says that it takes 24 hours to for sperm to develop and another 24 hours for it to fully mature. These times are approximations, mind you, but that's where it comes from. So, yes, if you're having sex every day or multiple times a day, sperm will be lower and less potent than if you have sex every other day. For a healthy, fertile couple, that may not make much difference in conception chances.

That article that you posted has been removed. I don't know if that's because it was redacted or just a website error.

Were you having sex multiple times a day when your H's sperm was tested? Have you asked your doctor about it?

Hmmm it works for me when I click on it....

Yes, the frequency has stayed the same. And we have a son together so there's no reason to believe he would be lacking in that area.

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