An affair with a view to NSA longer relationship?

Yes that's right I'm looking to have an affair and then hopefully turn that into a longer term NAS relationship . This is a Genuine search for my lover with a view to a LTR in due course

Some basics:
Initially at least you will need to be able to host during the day (some evenings)
You should live within 30 mins drive or similar to me - I'm in Chiswick

If thats OK read on

Im a 55yro married man. White 6'1" (185 cm), I'm generally fit, no Adonis but not the back of a London bus either. I have short salt and pepper hair. I am reasonably well educated and have a dry sense of humour.

I'm tied to a home caring situation. Despite many years unhappily married I cannot neglect my duty as a husband . I do not relish the prospect of the rest of my life without a woman. So I'm looking for a friend, companion and lover. If we work then that could turn into a longer term NSA relationship. I'm human and 55yro not dead! Intimacy is important to me. I am passionate, with a strong sexual side and have long since learned that the best intimacy is born out of being unselfish, and considering my partners pleasure. Beside it is so exhilarating to be the one who caused that pleasure and to see her enjoy.

At the risk of being rude I best just say what I like. I I'm very tactile and I love giving oral, find anal light bondage (I'm a learner) exciting. I am very open, do not judge and would be more than happy to exploring if you have other likes - Age colour creed un-important.. prefer slim to a little extra padding not into very large ladies sorry.