“A lawyer, like any other person, may in his private life be a cad or a king, an inconstant lover or a rock of stability, gracious or a grouch, but in his professional life he may not overstep the bounds and abuse his position of trust as counsel, confidante, champion, and fiduciary.” -Sanders v. Rosen 159 Misc. 2d 563, 605 N.Y.S. 2d 805 (1993)