Naturally after a usual fight my girlfriend decided to go out for a night on the town with some of her friends. I guess letting strange guys hit on you all night somehow makes you feel better or something like that. Anyway..so it gets to be like 12:00 and I am sleeping when all of a sudden my girlfriend starts calling me none stop. So I finally pick up and I get the "I miss you babe...Come and get me." Now if she was down the block chances are I would have went, but we are talking about a 35 minute drive there (one way). So I said No and told her to take the train. But the desperation calls kept coming and she starting saying how mean I was and how much I didn't care about her. There have to be limits.

As the 'girlfriend' I would like to respond to this slightly untrue version of the story.

It was 1030pm when I called NOT 12am. It was also a weekend (why is he at home?). He says it was 12am because it took an hour and a half on the phone arguing about whether he was going to pick me up or not. When I asked him to pick me up at 1030pm, I thought maybe he would want to have a drink and hang out before we head back to his house.

But regardless, its a weekend, hes not doing anything(I could understand if he was busy), Im his girlfriend, Im drunk and I want to stay the night with him. Do I really need to beg?

It's not just 35 minutes ... it's 70 minutes plus wait time! But, let her walk, maybe next time she won't be such a bitch and know that you won't be at her beck and call, SAP! All you are is a way out of a situation that she didn't want to be in in the first place and she wouldn't have been if she would have been a little decent to you.

It all depends on how strongly you feel about your girlfriend, say it wasn't really strong, you would probably not go out of your way for her, but if it was strong, you'd be hopping your lazy ass out of bed to go pick her up. I know in the past even after me and my girlfriend got into fights, when she needed me I was there for her. Sure it might be a quiet ride home but I was still there for her.

35 minutes is NOT a long time if you live in a city. If you think driving 35 minutes is a long way to go, then move to the country and marry your second cousin. His other option would be for his hot, drunk girlfriend to get a ride from some other hot, drunk guy and head over to HIS place instead.