OP I'd have to disagree with your assumption that Lance Bass is a top....I think bottom.

Top Man

NPH claims that he and David are versatile together.
Sort of the way a lot of gay relationships are, people who have strict top and bottom roles seems like they are boring sex lives.

Ellen - definite top

I heard Lance Bass was a self-described power bottom.

[quote]Ellen - definite top
*snickers* I bet old Ellie is a real pillow princess and a screamer.

butch%20in%20the%20streets..femme%20in%20the%20sheets.

R3 do you also require that one vote both Democratic and Republican to not be boring?
I hate control queens who decide how others must live their lives.

The thought of nph over me getting ready to cum is too much. Ugh! seems like he would be a better bottom with that voice.

Lance Bass was a top when he was with Reichen.
He had to be, as Reichen is the bottom to end all bottoms.

Lance Bass dated Reichen Rehmkuhl, who's definitely a bottom. So that means that Lance Bass is a top, or else the two played around with a two-headed dildo.

Prony

Johnny Weir said while being interviewed by Howard Stern, "I like to try whatever happens... [but] in general [a bottom]." Notable not due to being surprising but because he is the only celeb I have actually heard comment on and confirm whether they are a top or bottom.

R3, when did NPH discuss whether he was top or bottom? I want to see/read/hear this interview.
Also, I don't know much about lesbian sex. How does the top/bottom paradigm apply to them? Don't they just scissor or lick each other's pussies?

No way is Quinto a top. He's versatile at best.

Adam Lambert joked around about bunk beds and Kris Allen in a way that made it clear he's a top.

Someone on here fucked Quinto and said he was a top.

R15, just because Quinto was a top that time doesn't mean he's a top all the time.

Geez, how about some of these guys being versatile? I bet Cheyenne Jackson is.

I've heard Quinto is more of a top also, not that excludes him being versatile.
I mean how do you draw the line? Being versatile doesn't mean you are a 50/50 split.
[quote]when did NPH discuss whether he was top or bottom? I want to see/read/hear this interview.
It was his appearance on the Howard Stern show. The interview itself is fairly long but you can easily find it if you want, here is a summation of it from AfterElton.

George Takei is a top, as he explained to Howard Stern. Brad his husband is a bottom.

Neil Patrick Harris told Howard Stern he is vers

George Takei a top... Oh MYYYYYYYYY!!!!! LOL

Where in the OP's post are we to infer "officially certified gays only please"
It's a gossip site, speculate and post away, bitches!

Rula Bender

well no arguement over David Lance Black ....

[quote]AC is a notorious bareback bottom dating from his pre-Twilo days.
Kind of reckless isn't it?

"I heard Lance Bass was a self-described power bottom."
Really? When I read his book I thought he talked about having a colonoscopy and being complimented by the doctors on how tight his hole was.

Dustin, R35.

Reichen be VEBY, VEBY gay!

Rodiney (in subtitles)

[quote]How can you sleep with that many women but admit to being gay? I haven't slept with any women...[/quote]
One...NPH was famous and wealthy. He had women throwing himself at him. Most people can't comprehend the position celebrities are in when so many people you meet of either gender want to have sex with you.
Two, (many) people can and have done sex acts outside of their sexuality.

Like I said, if I could fuck Buck Angel, that would be the only way I'm going near a pussy.

R40, did NPH say whether he had sex with women in order to hide the fact that he was gay, or just because he wanted to try it out?

R40 i'm gay and don't want sex with women... having sex with both sexes is bisexuality.... seems like he just chose to STOP sleeping with women, not he didn't want to, like me a gay man.

That was before he accepted he was gay R42.
I am just saying the number is higher than most still-closeted gay dudes because...well, we weren't a young NPH coming off an incredibly popular TV show.

oh ok R42....

I want to buy R30 a drink as a thank-you for being so savvy.
And also to have the chance to say, "Bottoms up!"

Lesbians:
Fiona Shaw: Top... ? Or is she too catholic to do anything but vanilla?
Rachel Maddow: Switch.

Off-topic but Sex acts do not determine sexuality. There are plenty of hetero-men who like it up the ass vis a female and some toys.

A few, R48, but probably not that many.
And obviously that is not what we are talking about. If a man is doing anal with a woman, we are assuming he is straight unless that's all he does.

Clay Aiken is a top.

Anonymous

Again, could someone explain to me how top/bottom applies to women if all they do is lick and bump pussies?

r51 are you really that dense? I'm going to bypass the obvious trolling and go ahead and answer this cause I think some men really are that ignorant about female sexuality.
Some lesbians like to be penetrated and some don't.
Some wear strap-ons be on "top" and some like to be penetrated by other women with said strap-ons.
All toys aside, generally speaking, some lesbians are more active and dominating in bed, some like to be more passive.
The street wear doesn't always match the lingerie, either. There are plenty of butch-appearing women who will giggle and squeal with delight at the thought of being pumped by an aggressive top and vice versa. I'm met some very femmey women who want to top and almost always do.
Most, enjoy it both ways - as you should know many gay men do as well.
This is sex, not rocket science.

R52, I'm not trolling. I was under the impression that real lesbians didn't do the strap-on thing; that it was just something women did in porn because that's how men envision lesbian sex.

Again, r53 It's not the sex act that determines the orientation- it's the gender of who you want to do it with.
Is a gay man who doesn't like anal any less gay? No.

Tops and Bottoms = an eldergay concept, no?

Young%20%27un%20who%20doesnt%20care%20about%20these%20things

And..while we're at it. No, not all lesbians like to use toys, many don't go near them. Many do.
A piece of vinyl or rubber, or plastic in a phallic shape =/= and sweaty man's dick or the man it might be attached to. :) (no offense.)

I agree r55. Younger people are much more open to either expression- or no anal at all. A lot of gay men I know don't even like anal.
But there will always be those who are more passive and those who are more aggressive, no matter what the gender or the sex act involved.

Every young man I know calls himself a bottom, nice try with the eldergay insult.

Wow - that really got to you, huh?

I honestly don't get the stigma against bottoms. I'm rather amazed at how often the word "bottom" , "nelly bottom" etc. is thrown around in the community as a slur. It's ridiculous, it's self-loathing and it's rooted in misogyny.
1) Enjoying receiving anal sex is not a bad thing and it doesn't not mean the man is weak or "feminine".
2) "Feminine" is not a bad thing either and it is not "weak".
People should enjoy sex any way they can get it. The more positions, the more possibilities the better. Get creative. Don't let anyone tell you what's better or deserves more status.

This thread seems to have evolved from discussing which celebrities are tops or bottoms to a debate on the whole issue of whether the categories are appropriate to begin with.
While such a discussion is an acceptable sidetrack to take, please also return to listing celebrity names, please.

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How abou Thomas Roberts???

George Takei said he used to be vers but as he has gotten older, it is difficult to bottom but he said he liked being on the bottom

Any gay celebs mention that they are just into oral and not anal?

[quote]Neil Patrick Harris told Howard Stern he is vers
As in bisexual.

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No one asks more detailed questions about celebrity sex lives than Howard Stern.

Neil Patrick Harris-Vers top
David Burtka- Vers bottom
Elton John- Top
George Michael-bottom
Ricky Martin-bottom
Adam Lambert-top
Freddie Mercury-bottom
John Travolta-confirmed in a tabloid that he's a bottom
Hugh Jackman-Top hinted by NPH at the tonys

Interesting about George Takei. I would've thought it would get more difficult to top as you get older. It's not that easy to do to begin with - you have to be able to get really hard and stay that way to fuck someone up the ass...unless the bottom is really loose.

I'm with you, R60. I think y'all need to check out some old Steve Regis porn movies where he bottoms. No way could you ever call him nelly.

r68
Do you see Richard Simmons as the opposite of Cheyenne Jackson?

[quote]Zachary Quinto - allegedly a top
Um, no.

Trust%20me

r55 = never gets laid.

Chris Meloni?

I think Ricky is a top too, and very good one since he started as a bottom!

[quote]"I heard Lance Bass was a self-described power bottom."
[quote]Really? When I read his book I thought he talked about having a colonoscopy and being complimented by the doctors on how tight his hole was.
That is the bottom's equivalent to "I have a huge dick"

R77, I think Lance implied in the book that he was a top, and that the doctors just assumed he was a bottom

WHAT is going on with George Takei's rectum that he finds it "hard to bottom due to age"?
Do I even want to know?
And WHY would a doctor doing a colonoscopy be "complimenting Lance Bass on his tight hole"? And just how did he work this into his BIOGRAPHY.

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Haha R81, I was wondering the same thing about the unprofessional doctor. Lance Bass obviously made that up so he could brag about his tight hole.

Lance Bass is a top. He seems to prefer dating men who bottom. In addition, years back when 'Karem Malick' posted gossip, he wrote that Bass was a hot top.
IIRC the power bottom thing was a blind item about a guy in a third tier boyband that had a reality show on MTV.

The Christmas Mouse - surprisingly, a top.

R83-the power bototm thing was about a guy in that long-forgotten reality show boy band called O Town. He was thing dark haired twink. When they made their appearance up here in Toronto on a live dance music show, the "obviously" gay power bottom dude commandeered the mike away from the other band members and embarrassed them with his over-the-top queeniness.

Why do some people think Wentworth Miller is a top when all stories and experiences posted here say he is a bottom?

Whoever has the hole......... is in control.

Truth%20Be%20Told

[quote]Any gay celebs mention that they are just into oral and not anal?
It was said that Anderson Cooper only did anal in LTR's, otherwise he was only into oral.

R86, so was Wentworth a bottom for Luke M ?

Cheyenne Jackson is definitely a bottom, or on the bottom side of versatile.
If NPH was partnered with anyone else, I would say he's a bottom too. Something about him just says bottom to me.

Johnny Mathis?
Anyone?

Anyone know anything about Jeff Lewis from 'Flipping Out'?
Just wondering, as I'm more curious about what position his boyfriend Gage would be.

[quote]Whoever has the hole......... is in control.
There are exceptions

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[quote]Johnny Mathis?
According to some posters here, we cannot discuss him because he's not "officially out"
*(But I'm going with versatile top)*

Barry Manilow, versatile safe-sex -only bottom

Luke Macfarlane is a top,
Matt Bomer is a bottom
Other than that, I would say most gay men are probably vers, so I'm guessing so are most gay celebs.

You must be joking, R90. He was previously partnered with Max von Essen, who's even bottomier than Burtka.

R20/R42, Neil's interview with Howard Stern is on YouTube. I'm too lazy to link to the section where he discusses his sex life with women, but he basically says he knew he recognized gay feelings in himself from age 13/14 but, because he was famous, couldn't just walk into a gay bar or experiment discreetly. He made it sound like he had sex with women because it was more easily available to him but he could never commit himself fully to it, and once he got into the Rent tour and started doing theatre, he had an outlet for gay sex/experimenting that he felt comfortable with, and he never looked back after he started.
Makes sense to me, although I'm sure if he really wanted to experiment in 80s/90s L.A., he could have.

[quote]Johnny Mathis?
He came out in the 1980's (kinda, but also in '06) and was quite the athlete in high school so I would go with bottom.
Read the Wiki about how he came out. It is under the personal life section and is rather sad if anything.

Elton John and Adam Lambert are TOPS. Both revealed it in interviews. Elton was asked if he liked to give or receive and he said give. Adam was asked a similar question.

Does anyone know what Lee Pace is?

Was Christopher Isherwood a bottom? or top? I'm not trying to divert the topic,but dose anyone think he was kind of a pedo? His boyfriend was very good looking when he matured but gosh, Christopher dated his boyfriend when his boyfriend was 16 and he was in his late 30s. That makes me cringe and feel very uncomfortable,yikes!!
R108, I thought give means as in giving a BJ?
BTW, Elton John is a TOP!!?whaaa? I thought he was like a major queen bottom?
NO! I'M NOT A FRAU!!

r110
Did you see Elton try to stuff the microphone up Channing Tatum's ass during that event? His face. He's a top.
It's being said before but man, if you guys weren't so narrow minded about what a top actually is, you would get a brain cell and we could have some good gossip.
I'm guessing 99.99999% of people on this site are American because damn, you would think every single guy in Europe was gay!!
Chill and look at the personalities and behaviors.
Quinto, Elton John, Lambert have not only spoken about being tops but they have that control/domineering thing about them as well. We can argue about Quinto though as I think due to his personality it's also a control thing but lets be more analytic then typical.
And in no world is Cheyenne Jackson a top. I have never seen anyone who loves being objectified like him. He also loves to play/act the supportive and docile image. His husband who is taller then him and a doctor, is always made out by Cheyenne to being the 'Daddy' and he calls himself 'mummy' to their dog.
Trust, go on his insta etc....guy isn't a top and he is proud of it too!

DUH

Agree r111, I can also read a guy's energy to tell top/bottom. I think many guys can tell even if they don't realize it - it's a matter of instinct. For me the best way to tell a top is he's a good looking gay guy but I'm not attracted to him.

Shy Anne's hubby is a physicist who works in a bank, not a doctor.

But doesn't he have a PhD, r113? That makes him a doctor.

Dr.%20R114%2C%20PhD.

Anderson is very definitely into oral, and he's very good at it.

r114
No, he only has an MA

Thanks, r116. Not sure how I got that bit of info stuck in my head.
Regardless, he seems like a smart cookie. I always what sorts of conversations he and Cheyenne have. They seem so mismatched.

114

Clay Aiken - Top
I shit you not.

Most gay men are versatile.

r118
He was dating a chorus boy, so it's not that much of a surprise.

R119 survey after survey, personal ad after personal ad has shown you wrong, why continue with this fictional meme?

I don't claim "all gay men are..." anything (except of course, gay), but personal ads are often misleading. I've fucked quite a few guys who identify as "top only", for example.

R122 as versatiles always say...I love your sex fiction.

Harry - bottom
Louis - top

R124, Louis us a top with that ass? What a waste.

Zachary Quinto is a top

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I can't stop laughing at the image of a doctor complimenting Lance Bass on his "tight hole". Too funny.

Well, to be fair, I've seen that scenario happen. In porn, of course.

I have a very good friend from Miami, that went out with Ricky Martin, before Ricky got engaged with his partner Carlos Gonzalez, and he told me that Ricky has a beautiful big dick, that Ricky is a top, and a very passionate lover. My friend still mentioned that Ricky was the best lover he ever had.

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What about pretty boy Bomer?
Does being into daddies make it obvious?

I wonder if people like R111 have ever even done it. My experience has been there is really no way to tell from a man's personality. And thank goodness for that - makes it all the more fun out there.

Michelle Obama - top

R130 Supposedly Bomer is versatile.
One of DL posters claimed that he had sex with him and that Bomer was versatile.
There was also another poster that claimed to have sex with him and that Bomer was top. But the poster himself was an exclusive bottom, so Bomer still could be bottom or versatile with someone else.
On the other hand his ex Mike White supposedly is an exclusive top, as is Halls.
Maybe he is versatile and "adjusts" to whoever he is with at the moment.

Most gay dudes are versatile to some extent. A top or bottom thing is more about your preference, what you would rather do most of the time.
There are those who strictly identify themselves by one sex act and refuse do otherwise but it isn't the norm.

Kerry Rhodes - top!

Jake Shears is a pushy bottom.

Pantsy

I know someone who gave Ricky Martin a massage. Ricky wanted somene who spoke Spanish. My friend was surprised when he went to the Beverly Hills Hotel, and it was Ricky. Ricky is a bottom, according to him, and his dick isn't that big, and he wanted my friend to put some ice in his mouth and suck him. He likes kink. Somebody posted on here that he is a top and has a big dick. Don't know about that,but I've seen his dick, if it really is his dick, posted on other websites, and it's just average at best.

Lambert is definitely a top, and definitely a tease. I can't think of any
other out gay man who loves to tease and play with women the way he does (here in Miami last week where he loves up a girl and then moves on when she tries to kiss him).

I think Enrique loves to tease and kiss his fangirls. But then he's not Out.

Anyone else sick and tired of hearing all the intimate details of the Harris-Burtka union?
Why do these two miserable queens feel like they need to share the most personal details?
These two put the whore in famewhoring.

No one really knows who Harris-Burtka are outside the gay community.
Tom Daley & Dustin Lance Black are now more famous.

[quote]Tom Daley & Dustin Lance Black are now more famous.
R146, that's if they're actually dating. We still don't know for sure, do we?

R139 is wrong, Luke is an exclusive top.

How do you know, R153?

R153 it's been well established on DL for a long time.

Tom Daley and DLB- Double ended dildo

[quote]it's been well established on DL for a long time.
It can't be "well established" unless someone here knows Luke personally.
Now does one of you bitches know him or not?

Luke is a total bro! There was a whole thread here about it.

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When it was posted here a long time ago it was clear the person with the info had reason to know it.

For once and for all, Luke is a top. Believe me. I know.

Wenty

R153=total bottom who likes to fantasize about Luke being a "total top" so he must be.

R161=bottom who can't deal with the fact that some men are exclusive tops

Girls, girls! You're both versatile!

[quote]Zachary Quinto - allegedly a top

Allow%20me%20to%20refute.

The problem with posts like this is it is rare that guys only do one position 100% of the time. There can always be some example to the contrary where you heard some "top" bottomed or you heard some "bottom" topped. Because that is reality, most guys are versatile to some extent.

R165, some people really are one or the other. And some people don't like anal at all.

Andrew garfield-pushy bottom

Jeremy "Loose-Asshole" Renner

Mariska seems like a top.

R164 how do you know?

Anytime anyone says anything on this thread someone asks "How do you know?"
Well what do you think? They know either because they know the person, or they know someone who knows the person. There is no other possibility, other than flat out lying.

JC Chasez - top

So glad to hear David Burtka is a bottom. I saw GYPSY 3 times just to see his glorious butt in the 'All I Need is the Girl' number. Nice that someone is plowing that heavenly tush.
I'm a non-versatile bottom but for him I'd learn to be a top

Mr%20Goldstone

Adam Lambert posed with porn star Justin Dean at the Wowies, social media awards last night. But then he posed with almost everyone who was there, including Sirius host Frank De Caro.

[quote]Well what do you think? They know either because they know the person, or they know someone who knows the person. There is no other possibility, other than flat out lying.
And 99.99% of the time here they are simply lying and revealing their own fantasies.

R177 some people must be telling the truth.

r177 and 97.463% of those posting messages like that are PR hacks & shills attempting to deflect gossip for their sorry ass clients.

Is there a definitive answer on what zac efron prefers?

I'm saying that while Luke Macfarlane can top expertly well, he prefers bottom. Very few men have had the pleasure. Right, Luke?

R181 That's so hot.

R180 he's straight.

R181 is Wentworth Miller's publicist

[quote]The problem with posts like this is it is rare that guys only do one position 100% of the time. There can always be some example to the contrary where you heard some "top" bottomed or you heard some "bottom" topped. Because that is reality, most guys are versatile to some extent.
All polls and studies show you are full of shit but keep repeating it you dreaded versatile.

Any info on Richard Dean Anderson? When he was young and hot not old and fat.

Such as R185? I quickly looked here and the poll I found with 400+ responses showed much more people are versatile so some extent rather than exclusively one position. That also matches my own real life experience.

Didn't NPH said in some interview (with Howard Stern I think) that he is versatile?
According to rumours Matt Bomer is versatile, but he can adjust to whomever he is with in the moment, so he can be an exclusive bottom if he is in a relationship with an exclusive top, or he can be a top with an exclusive bottom.

If Burtka has a huge cock...well, wait, he would hardly be the first waste of a big cock raging bottom.

R189 it's 95% delusion.

R101 Interesting pic and if I didn't know any better I would say Elvis is asking Mathis to suck his cock since the King is intentionally or probably unintentionally pointing to his own dick.

Anonymous

John Travolta definitely not gay (cough) bottom.

Anonymous

Jay Leno -- bottom

r188
They are call straight men.

I always thought Burkta had BDF

Quinto has to be a top. Jonathan Groff is absolutely a bottom and Quinto's current (and ugly) boyfriend looks like a lady and MUST be a bottom.

Sometimes bottoms couple.

Luke Macfarlane is an exclusive top.

R187 a fucking Datalounge poll.
Look up your local STD clinic for men who have sex with men (don't say gay) and get the stats for how men identify.
The dreaded versatiles are the big disease spreaders.

Find out which ones have AIDS. Those are the bottoms.

What does that have to do with anything R185/R202? You made a specific claim, that most gay men are exclusively one position for which you cited no evidence. I argued the opposite and gave some data for it. So you get upset and go on some tangent about AIDs?
You have issues.