“If you act like an ass, you’ll be treated like an ass.” I first heard those words probably 12 years ago – as a new mom – from my mother-in-law. They’re likely the most influential and impactful words I’ve ever heard. Even still. Why? Because, we get what we tolerate, and we teach people how to treat us. That was the message. At the time, I was nursing my firstborn, spending the day mostly topless because I was nursing so… Read More

The biggest battle you will EVER fight is with YOURSELF. It’s the dichotomy of life – the two sides, two opposites. One side of you KNOWS you were put on this earth to make a real difference. To be outfuckingstanding… amazing… the leader of a movement… successful… wealthy beyond measure… all of that and so much more! The other side of you, though. That’s where the rubber absolutely meets the road, baby. That’s the side where you’ve operated for too… Read More

It really is that simple. It can be VERY painful, but it really IS. THAT. SIMPLE. You might think that you have to hold on so tightly or risk losing your relationships, your money, your time, your value, your “things” that mean so much to you. It may feel like everything’s in chaos and the only way to “get a grip” is to hold on even tighter to what is left. There are moments when your legs are shaking, you’re… Read More

Did you come this far to quit? Have you pushed for so long and so hard just to walk away on your dreams, your goals, your fucking legacy?!?! Did you sacrifice your time, money, your whole damn life just to walk away and let the dream die? Yes, the struggle is real, the times can be tough – nearly unbearable in some moments – and, you HAVE given up SO MUCH. It seems only logical that you would question how… Read More

We’ve questioned our strength for too long… allowed it to be covered by a candy-coated layer of fakeness where we tried to play some sweet little nice girl that everyone could love and adore, and who wouldn’t make waves. We tried to hide our light – our power – our true voices, because we were afraid of it and felt bad for those who felt threatened by our truth, our presence, our boldness, our courage, our ability to love deeply,… Read More

Oh, sweetie… go ahead. Have your little breakdown. Yes, it’s tough some days, excruciating on other days, and feels damn near impossible a good bit of the time. So go ahead, have your cry. Get pissed that no one told you how really, REALLY, R-E-A-L-L-Y frigging tough it was going to be most days. This whole thing feels pretty new to you still, huh? You’re struggling with keeping it all together while still trying to “have it all,” eh? Do… Read More