Cook together

Play a game

Dust of those board games sitting in the attic. Raise the stakes by playing for household chores (if he loses, he’s on dish duty for a whole month) or introduce a little R-rated striptease. Finish in last place and lose a piece of clothing.

Get crafty

Read to each other

Pick a story from Agent Provocateur’s "Secrets: A Collection of Erotic Fiction" and take turns reading aloud. Or, ask each other questions from "The Book of Questions: Love & Sex". Here’s a teaser: When was the last time you made love so spontaneously you couldn’t have predicted it 20 minutes before?

Rent a sexy movie

Give each other a massage

Kick off your shoes and have a couple’s spa night at home. Check your local bookstore for at-home massage tips. Don’t forget to use oils, like K-Y Touch Massage. Fragrance free and non-staining, it gently warms the skin.

Put on a (burlesque) show

Burlesque dancing is all about cheeky seduction; a wink here, a nod there. Step outside your comfort zone and have fun with it. Not sure how to start? Take a few pointers from the queen herself, Dita Von Teese, and pick up Burlesque and the Art of the Teese for inspiration.