I love March Madness! I love the game of basketball, but you’ll rarely see me taking the time to watch any games unless it’s my kid’s games or it’s officially March Madness! March Madness is when the phrase “Game On!” truly incarnates into the 10 young men that step on the NCAA basketball floors all over the USA. It is the time of year when the Elite players gather in 5’s and live out other vital phrases such as, “Give it your all!” — “No Regrets!” — “No Retreat!” — “Bring it!” — “No do-overs!” — “Go Big or Go Home!” — “Do or Die!”.

With that…it seems Basketball and life have a lot of parallels. Here are 7. I’m sure there are more. If you have another one, write it in the comments section!

Here you go…7 things about March Madness Basketball that relate to real life…

1. I play better relaxed.

In life, when I’m frustrated, I live horribly. When relaxed I focus on wise and pro-active choices. When frustrated I tend to argue and fight and that just rarely ends in productivity.

2. The measure between in-bounds and out-of-bounds is the difference between ASSERTIVE and AGGRESSIVE.

Assertive actions are focused on what is necessary towards what you want. Aggression clouds my focus and causes fouls from a heavy hand. Assertive behavior leads to goals achieved. Aggressive behavior causes pain and harm.

3. Practice does = Permanent.

Work hard and smart because we all know it will be worth it. Find what works and repeat until it doesn’t work anymore. Practice…a lot.

4. Good Self Esteem = Good Performance. Performance does NOT = Self Esteem.

5. It’s a TEAM game.

You can’t win basketball or life on your own. Many Christians mistake the passage of Philippians 4:13 as a passage that means you can do everything on your own. “I can do all things through Christ who strengthen me.”Most people stop with that verse…but verse 14 says,“yet it was good of you to help me.”

There’s a lot of arguing going on about this in our culture from prominent people such as Barack Obama, Michael Jordan and others. Somebody told Michael Jordan that there is no “I” in team…His reply was, “But there is in “Win.” 🙂 Makes me smile, but it’s just not true. Some have discovered that there is actually an “i” found in the word “team.” See pic below to figure it out yourself.

My spiritual gift of immaturity causes me to laugh and shake my head at that pictorial proof that there is on occasion “i” in team.

6. You have to score to win.

Basketball is like life because it is vital to set goals and be assertive in pursuing them. It is important to understand that great goal achievement in basketball is at between the 50% – 60% success rate. And…basketball is like life in the fact…The tougher the shot/goal the more satisfaction there is in attempting it and scoring it! Man…some goals can just make the crowd go crazy!!

7. You cannot hold on to your mistakes for long…

So…you gave the ball away. You missed a crucial shot. You tripped and looked silly in the moment. LET IT GO! The game of basketball and life is fast. It moves on with or without you. Dropping our heads to pout will only be another error. The best players in the world miss 50% of their 2 pointers and nearly 70% of their 3 pointers.

Philippians 3:13 says, “But one thing I do…forget (let it go) the past and strain (assertive) to what lies ahead.”

Basketball and Life do have a lot of similarities. There are others…I’ll leave it up to you to add them to the comments section if you’d like. We could brainstorm many other parallels with basketball and life… Boundaries. Refs. Coaches. Racing the Clock. Strategic plays. Momentum. There’s always a crowd watching. Retaliators get called for the foul. Locker Room talk. Having the right shoes. Dunking! Having the right players on the team. Making the Cut. Rest and Recovery. Shirts and Skins…etc. etc.