Swinger Clubs for Couples and Singles

The starting point for many new Swingers is the internet, and Swinger’s Dating Sites. Sometimes though you might want to be a bit more adventurous (or realise that you have a night free from the kids at short notice and decide that you want to party) – Enter the Swingers Club.

In this article we will be looking at the best ways to find Swingers Clubs near you, and what to expect at the various types of clubs. Your first step should be the SpicyMatch Map App. This awesome tool allows you to find all Swinger Clubs & Bars near you or any other location (for example a holiday destination). If you see that we’ve missed out you favorite Swingers Club please contact us with the details and we will gladly include it.

If you do not mind being known as a swinger, you will want to look for clubs as close to your location as possible. Look up the clubs listing on the map and browse their page on the SpicyMatch Social Network. Here you will be able to go through their photo gallery and see what their fans are saying about them. Check out what their themed nights are like to be sure that it is the sort of club you’d like.

If you are leading a double life (many couples do this to add to the spice), you would want to find a Swinger Club that is out of town. Be aware – this does not guarantee that you won’t bump into people you know. If you do meet friends, don’t panic. They will probably be as embarrassed as you. Don’t run away from them, rather go and chat with them – you never know, they might be you next Swinging Partners.

Soft Swing Clubs

These are often the first type of Swinger Club that new Swingers go to. They cater for those swingers that do not want, or are not ready to go all the way with other couples. You will find a boudoir or harem style ambiance, with lots of mingling, kissing, heavy petting and maybe oral (my favorite) going on in these clubs. Due to their ‘easy going’ vibe the crowds in these clubs tend to be younger, just-starting-out-in-Swinging couples. They are a great place to make new friends that are new on the scene, and get a taste of what the lifestyle has to offer. Soft Swing Clubs are a good option if you are worried about how you or your partner are going to handle the sight of your better half engaging on sexual activities with a stranger.

Couples Only Clubs

Many Swinging couples enter swinging with the intention of strictly limiting their activities to other couples. For these Swingers, our advice would be couple only clubs. This was the type of club that I had enticed Mr. L to take me to the first time we stepped into a Swinger Club and is probably the most ‘beginner friendly’.

A couple only Swinger Club will not allow single men in (with the possible exception of selected nights). The policy on single women varies from club to club. Here you will be able to meet and play with other Swingers in a friendly atmosphere where you will not be under any pressure to “put out” or perform. Expect to find an open bar area and smaller playrooms just off the dance floor. This is where most of the action happens (although compared to ‘vanilla’ clubs the dance floor action is usually pretty risque´. Couples only Swingers clubs are commonly used by Swingers to find new partners, get some cheap business cards produced with the link to your SpicyMatch profile, and feel free to hand these out to people you meet (this allows you to make contact, without giving out personal details like your mobile number or email).

Fetish Clubs

These have a tendency to be a ‘free for all’ rather than a Swinger Club per-se. Some cater for a specific niche, such a BDSM, Fem Dom, Role Playing or any other activity that might tickle the punters fancy. Again, these can vary from the hugely glamorous to back ally BDSM places. Despite what you might imagine the people here are usually well educated professional people in their daily lives – I have great memories of a high powered banker who spent a whole night sucking my toes…

Yet again they are to be approached with a degree of caution and mental preparation. Whilst most clubs have strict rules that ar closely enforced (no asphyxiation, electric play, no drawing of blood or body fluids etc.) some sights found in Fetish Clubs may cause an impression.

Swingers Spas

Also known as Swingers Saunas, these are adult only mixed gender type spas that cater for couples and singles. Don’t expect a relaxing afternoon here – There will be couples playing in the sauna, the steam room and in the pools. Due to their particular nature, spa’s are mapped out separately in the SpicyMatch Map, as the audience that attends these tends to be slightly different than your regular Swinging Couple.

Swinging Camping Sites

Geared towards naturalists, rather than Swingers these are clothing optional camping sites. It is not uncommon to find Swingers here, however the action tends to happen in private rather than out in the open. Nonetheless, should you be campers that like Swinging, or simply enjoy being your natural self whilst surrounded by nature Swinging Camping Sites can be a great option for you.

Whatever option you decide to go for, there are literally thousands of Swinging oriented venues out there. Whether this is your first step into the exciting world of swinging, or you are an experienced couple that isn’t keen on entertaining, the Swinger’s club is a great option to find and make new Swinger friends.