I dont care about the reddit points, if he would have just posted MY youtube video I would have <3 him for the attention. but I don't get any of the subs/views on my youtube or twitch account. He is trying to monetize MY content by stealing my video and uploading it to his youtube.

Yep, stream privacy will not work without windows Aero disabled. Most streaming apps disable it automatically by default when the application loads up. OBS does not have it auto disable by default. You can enable it by going to settings > video and checking the box. Or you can just disable it in windows. Just tested and stream privacy works as usual.