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HELP please!

Hello,

I thought I'd post it here... Anyway, I'm a bottom and every time I have sex with my boyfriend he gets frustrated. He wants me to cum while he's fucking me, without me touching my penis. Basically he wants me to have a touchless orgasm while he's inside of me. I can't!

Re: HELP please!

You both need to relax, and he needs to learn how to fuck better, and know where to angle his cock going in.... I can cum just by being fucked as my honey knows where my spot is and uses his cock to rub the spot and he always makes me cum while being fucked....which is a amazing feeling as I can feel it building and then I shoot my loan....

You cant change the way the wind blow's, but you can change the angle of your sail to take you somewhere else!!

Re: HELP please!

I agree with the previous posts, your boyfriend is unreasonable. But you might try, if you have not, heavy foreplay in which you bring yourself closer. It is completely unreasonable for him not to want you to touch yourself.

Re: HELP please!

Originally Posted by papaduff

Hello,

I thought I'd post it here... Anyway, I'm a bottom and every time I have sex with my boyfriend he gets frustrated. He wants me to cum while he's fucking me, without me touching my penis. Basically he wants me to have a touchless orgasm while he's inside of me. I can't!

What can I do? Any tricks?

Tell him he's an asshole and not to demand things in bed that you can't do on command.

Re: HELP please!

I want to find a bag full of money under the Xmas tree, but that's probably not happening either. Not everyone is going to be able to do that, be it that body parts just don't line up for whatever reason, how you're wired, where your head's at, position, etc. It's easier to do with a finger, as it's jointed, there's more control, the one with the finger can feel what he's touch, and you both can control your positions. You don't get all that with a cock in your ass. If he keeps the pressure on to achieve this all it's going to do wreck your sex life and very possibly your relationship.