Serving in wartime, can someone tell me

I was recently told by a freind that if you have a son serving in a war zone you are supposed to fly your flag at half staff. I would liketo know because I have two sons serving in Iraq and certainly want to honor them

I was recently told by a freind that if you have a son serving in a war zone you are supposed to fly your flag at half staff.

Your friend is confused. Flying a flag at half-staff is a universal symbol of mourning -- we fervently hope that it will never apply to you!

Your friend may have been thinking about the "blue star" flags that have, since 1917, been the classic way to show family pride in a serviceman. Grantham University has a special program to offer free blue-star flags to service members, veterans and families. More details are available here:

Yes. The custom half-staffing the flag for the death of a prominent person is observed in wartime as well as peacetime. A well-known example was the death of President Franklin D. Roosevelt in April 1945.

The paragraph of the flag code dealing with half-staffing makes no special provisions for wartime. Of course, the USA has not been officially "at war" since the end of World War II.