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Bridesmaids Tips

12 WAYS TO MAKE YOUR BRIDESMAIDS FEEL SPECIAL

First things first, its wonderful you're taking the time
out of your busy wedding planning schedule to find ways you can
show your appreciation and love for your bridesmaids. Your
bridesmaids are your go-to girls, and that's a fact. Not only are
they there to give you a helping hand during the planning process
but also on the big day. Today, we'll show you how to make your
bridesmaids feel special.

1. Ask them in a unique way

You remember the feeling you got when your other half popped the
question, the tingles of excitement, and the utter joy of the
moment. Imagine how your girls will feel if you asked them in a
unique and personal way; if you propose to them, so to speak. It's
the perfect way to start your wedding planning process, you don't
have to spend a fortune, simply put together a box of all the
essentials they will need, along with a small "Will you be my…"
message and you're done. Our DIY proposal box is the perfect
starting point.

2. Introduce them to one another

Bridesmaids' all knowing one another before the wedding is very
rare, to avoid the awkward silences take the time out to introduce
them to each other before the wedding. As soon as you've picked
your maids you will want to get them talking, if they can't do this
face to face due to distance use social media or smart phone apps
to create a bridesmaids group and invite them all to it. If your
maids live near each other organise a meal or a night out, make the
evening about them. With your maids all acquainted it will make
them feel special and will be one less thing for you to worry
about.

3. Listen to their opinions

Weddings bring out the wedding planner in all of us. We all have
ideas of what will work and what won't, this also includes your
bridesmaids. Get them involved in the planning process, ask them
for their opinion but don't dismiss them straight away. Take in to
consideration what they have suggested, shooting them down straight
away will dishearten them and may even make them feel they aren't
appreciated. Ultimately, the decision making will be left to you
and your partner, but a few ideas from others won't go a miss.

4. Take them shopping

When it comes to your wedding, you've probably envisioned how
everything will look from start to finish, including the
bridesmaids dresses. When you go dress shopping with the girls,
show them exactly what your vision is, show them what it is you
want, but give them the choice. Not every woman is the same, we all
come in different shapes, sizes and colours, your bridesmaids will
appreciate you letting them have an input in the attire they will
wear. By allowing the girls to contribute, you are more likely to
come to a solution that suits you all.

5. Offer to help cover costs

Money can be a touchy subject, but if you suspect one or more of
your bridesmaids are struggling financially you may want to offer
to help cover the cost; whether that's covering the travel cost or
paying towards the dress. A contribution, no matter how big or
small, will show your girls just how much it means to you to have
them by your side.

6. Pamper them

Taking your girls on a spa break or even staying at home with a
few face masks and a bottle of wine is a win, win situation for you
all. Not only will your maids appreciate you taking the timeout to
relax and spoil them; you'll also have your favourite girls looking
and feeling like goddess on your big day.

7. Give them the details

Once you've planned you wedding exactly how you want it,
planning an evening with your girls so you can share your schedule.
Talk them through the details, let them know what you want them to
do and highlight the aspects of the day they will play a crucial
role. Your girls will appreciate knowing what the plans are so they
can make the necessary arrangements, book time off or even arrange
a baby sitter.

8. Give them a day off

The weeks and days leading up to your wedding can become
overwhelming for many involved, especially for those who will play
a crucial role on your day. Give your girls a day off, a day where
they can relax and get back to their own lives. The time out will
guarantee they will be refreshed and ready to tackle any wedding
dilemmas you may be facing.

9. Communicate with them

Weddings can put a lot of strain on you, with a million and one
things to organise it's easy for the pressure to get to you. If you
feel overwhelmed talk to your bridesmaids, tell them how you feel.
Your bridesmaids will be sympathetic towards you and your
situation.

10. Have fun

When planning what pictures you want on the day, don't forget to
include a fun shot with your favourite girls. Not only will a few
silly poses be fun on the day, but will make the perfect thank you
gift wonderful keepsake.

11. Say thank you

Before the night is over, you will want to thank your
bridesmaids personally. Taking the time out to tell them how much
you appreciate their help and show them your love is a moment they
will look back on and cherish.

12. Personalised gifts

Gifts are traditional and a wonderful way to show someone how
much you appreciate their hep, but personalised gifts makes the
receiver feel extra special. When you decided to give your
bridesmaids their gift is entirely up to you, if it's something
they can wear to the wedding, present it to them in the morning.
Or, plan an evening out or a meal where you can all reminisce on
your favourite part of the wedding and present them with their than
you gifts.