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I rarely post anything in the Love category, so I figured perhaps it was about time.

Rather than making a post about longing or the last, trainwreck of a relationship I have experienced, instead, I have something positive to share.

I am actually in a relationship with a loverly person. Many friends around here probably have had no idea I was even in a relationship. I know for a fact, other than the person I am involved with, only one friend here knows of this. It isn't a secret. It is simply that I am Extremely Private.

Despite all of that, I felt it was time to share my good fortune.

This is my love, Tiv, saving lives again, tonight, as he does Most nights.

I most certainly appreciate your approval! Not fan of selfies, but I like to surprise my girl from work time-to-time with a "selfie", just to make her smile. I didn't expect her posting it here, but well...

When I read your post, I laughed sooo hard i spit tea all over my monitor and THEN I cut and pasted it to Tiv at work because I Loved it SO MUCH!

This has to be, by faaar, the Wittest of responses to this post!! And I LOVE IT! I LOVE Dry, Wit and Humour... it is... my Favorite and i Love Shocking humour so...I was Dying when i read this!!

Thank you, too, by the way! Aside from the hearty laugh, I enjoyed the words, equally!
I always tell my friends, all I can ask for Everyday in Life to be happy is 1) To learn something new, even if it is small minutia 2) Laugh heartiliy at Least Once, more if possible! So THANK you Double Double Dragon, for the amazing laugh too boot!

Why thank you! I have been pleasantly surprised by the response this post has received. I am even more thrilled that it has all be so beautiful and positive.

At so many other sites, you just feel like you are one person lost in a sea of people, part of the Crowd. However, at a site like this one, you feel more like you are a part of a Family than you are a cog in a giant machine. It is... so much more... sublime.

Aww baby... this post is so old, don't take it the wrong way if no one notices your comment. hee hee its okay. I doubt anyone is going to see it, but we both know so thats all that truly matters, my love. xoxoxoxoxoxox

My wife is very much like you -- "private" or "withheld" and I suspect I was a total surprise to most of her friends when I eventually "surfaced". Give Tiv the space to be a bit more open if that's his thing and all will be well.

Yes, I let him decide, but he tend to follow my lead in this realm of life since he knows how much more important privacy is to me than going public is to him, if you know what i mean? Hence, he was more so indifferent, overall.

Nice to hear that you seem to be as happy as me. My lovely girlfriend (not totally official fiancee) is in my profile photo here. She's also a life-saver, working as she does as an EMT on ambulances in Dublin! Totally loved up!

Affairs of the heart do not belong in public life. It is that quiet time of joy and bliss... and we understanding what love really is knew the time you are in... keep enjoying it with your witness to your life. But keep that music coming.

@GipsyOfNewSpain WITH THE CHIHUAHUAS??!!! I WANT PICTUUUUURES! I LOOOVE CHIHUAHUA'S! as a joke, i call them "Cha-hoo-uh-hoo-uh" hahaha! I know the real name but... the alternative is muuch funnier... to me... haha

@GipsyOfNewSpain You know i can IMAGINE YOU with your BIIIIG Afro... just... groooving to Earth, Wind and Fire... on the disco checkered dance flooor... wearing your best polyester blend suit and some daper ass hat and shoes! Were you a "chain on the neck" guy or not?

@Sadoi Never been into jewels. In a fight you get grab by the chain. I am a humble guy but I will use my scholarship money while in college to buy expensive drapes... like Givenchy, Pierre Cardin, Yves St Laurent... We were all a crew all the same height and we all buy those suits and swap them around among us. We were the best dressed guys in the club... either broke or with our pockets full.... Doesn't matter if last century or this century. We dressed up for the ladies.

Thank you so much for the upbeat words and I always like to know I am not alone in my love of privacy. Sometimes I think it is mistaken for secretive when that isn't it at all. I simply have no desire to become a part of someones odd gossip and... what I do behind my closed doors is... my biz-ness! hahaha! I mean, if someone asked, I would answer, but... i go by the rule, if you don't ask, I won't tell. lol

Indeed it is!! I certainly expected it to the degree of "least" that it was practically an impossibility! hahaha!! I am just... a busy person, for the most part, and I have come to like my singleton life.

When I was a kid I could never fathom how my Mother was happy being single. Well... I finally get it! haha! There is Also Peace in having finally had a few years single.

Aww thank you! Everytime i see your photo I think, "Aww it is the adorable pixie gal!" Its funny how my brain latches on to some people because they have such a distinctive look and then it kinda... nicknames them... hee heee