What can I say folks, sometimes life hurts.And my life is hurting bad right now. I think it is safe to say that I left a physical desert where I was in a mental, emotional and spiritual oasis in sunny SoCal, and now find myself surrounded by water in a mental, emotional, and spiritual desert in sunny Florida. Physically, I am back in a complete standstill.I threw out my back a few weeks ago and went from being able to do a forward bend with my nose against my knees to having to fight to barely touch my toes!I thought I was on the mend and went for a short walk a few days ago that reignited all of the pain and so I am back to gentle yoga and absolutely nothing else.My lower back and right hip are the main culprits with my right hip taking the trophy for intense sharp pain shooting around all the day long.Emotionally, I might as well be the only person in this town.Every time I think I have made a new friend they start treating me like an afterthought by routinely making plans with me and then canceling at the last second only to say something like “hey, I’m doing this now so can’t do whatever with you.”My roommate says she has experienced a lot of that herself.Who knew small town Jacksonville would have bigger and more blatantly rude flakes than that of Los Angeles.At least in LA people make up an actual excuse!Here in Jax people actually tell you what they are going to go do instead of hanging out with you!So Rude.And then there’s that job I have.There’s nothing like working with people that you know hate you.It gets even more fun when your job doesn’t even begin to fulfill, engage or excite you.I am one of those people who need to be fully engaged in my activities because if I am not, my mind rolls over to everything in the world that I should not be thinking about and so with the pain, the rude treatment from could be friends and the nothing but time to focus on all the wrong things – folks – I am mentally, emotionally and physically spent.I have no idea how long I am supposed to be in this town, but let’s just say that unlike LA, I don’t think I’m gonna feel terrible if I suddenly have to move elsewhere. The only good news is that I have finally sort of picked a church home.It is a church I just keep going back to because I really dig the pastor.I am actually going to be spread across two churches this fall – a class at one where I will be taking on a major issue in my life and a life group at the one I am calling home at the moment.The other good point is my continued involvement at a local Celebrate Recovery where I am getting my ministry feet wet.I am learning how to lead a group of ladies, learning how to connect to people and learning how to speak in front of others and hopefully slowly gaining a stage presence.It is this ministry stuff that needs to become more of my life – that is where my passion is, that is where my excitement is, that is where I come alive and activate the best version of myself. You would think year 3 would sound better wouldn’t you?I thought about that too and then it hit me – I spent 15 years in rebellion to God in an addiction that I repeatedly chose to stay in.Yes, I gave God the one thing I didn’t think I could live without, but I’ve only worked off 3 of my 15 years.Thank you Jesus that You are not that kind of God!While it is true that I am still an infant when it comes to sobriety, God is not sitting up there with a stick marking off each day waiting for me to equalize the situation before He can bless me, love me or work in my life.We humans tend to find ourselves thinking that way because it is how we were taught right from wrong.You intentionally break your little brother’s tricycle so he can’t follow you around, chances are your parents will take away your bike as punishment.It’s how they teach us to treat others the way we would like to be treated, but it is not how God deals with us, especially when we come to Him and admit what a shattered disaster we have become.I fully admit that I have absolutely no idea how I am gong to go from where I am right now to the vision of my life that has been laid out by God.The good news is God does!My job is to stay close to Him, stay in His word, abide by His word understanding that any parameters are there to protect me and not keep me from having fun, and trust that as I grow in faith, God will open the doors that I so desperately want to open right now.I guess for me, year 3 is the year of being a grown up, digging in and doing what I don’t want to, being faithful to the positions and places God has put me in until He opens another door. That door I am so desperate to open is a position under a successful and dynamic ministry where I can learn how to be a leader and grow my abilities for speaking God’s word, teaching God’s word and leading others through discipleship.Until that happens I am continuing to learn and grow in the ministry I am currently serving in and hoping for a career opportunity in the same realm.I recently heard a mega gator fan give his CR testimony and in that testimony he shared this line from Tim Tebow’s book: Use the platform you’ve been given for God’s purpose and not your own. That line made me start thinking.I know what I want out of my potential ministry involvement, but I haven’t asked God what He wants out of it.I haven’t asked God what He wants out of my life, my work, my writing, my relationships or any platform that He might bestow upon me.And that’s a question I probably should have asked at the beginning.I am currently meditating on that question with God.So far, I feel like He has told me that His purpose and Plan for any platform He gives me is to help change lives by changing habits and to promote true healing by helping people live in true alignment with Christ mentally, emotionally and physically.I really need to start making this my purpose in all of my dealings whether it is in a CR group, the grocery store or with my less than desired co-workers.I may not be living the life I wish to yet, but that doesn’t mean I shouldn’t act as if I already am that person.