>>19270701She tends to go more in-depth about her feelings in texts. But she always seems to think herself as in the wrong for having certain emotions, to which I tell her it isn't wrong to feel things. You may be onto something there. I think because she is an academic type, she is afraid of saying things with self editing.

>>19270707I really want to get her drunk maybe even smoke weed with her, haven't smoke in ages though. Just something to loosen her up. I'd say I'm introverted but I van be extroverted when I need to. She's the same but leaning way more on introversion. It's the sudden shifts that really bother me. She can go from smiling pinning me down and stripping me to huddled away unable to face me in a moment. I'm getting better about sensing her needing to say something though. I realize I then have to just kind of give her time and pry it out of her a bit.

>>19269912Look up the relationship between psylocibin and cluster headaches, headaches in general. That and drink more water. If you choose the mushroom route you may not even necessarily need to undergo a psyachelic trip, micro dosing may suffice

>met guy off tinder about half a month ago>gone on dates, things are going well>made a fake tinder to find out if he is still on it>he is>he matched my fake profile>I deleted it right away>he is still looking for someone>at this point I am starting to develop feelings
Basically I dont want to say anything about me knowing he is still on tinder. I want to either to be exclusive or break it off before he finds someone else.

>>19270614That’s what I’m thinking but I didn’t wanna be too early with it. I want to make sure she’s actually interested in me but her not asking about me so much kinda makes it seem she’s not. Or maybe I’m overthinikg and should take charge and assume being matched is clear enough she likes me

I'm a 16 year old white kid who goes to school with mostly colored people. like seriously, white people only take up about 10%. Anyway, I'm an avid rap writer and I really enjoy doing it at home and between classes, and I've actually gotten pretty good at it. I want to start getting my name out there, but I'm worried I'll catch flack for my skin color and end up getting my ass kicked. I'm already teased enough as is, so there's no telling what could happen if I share my work. What do you think? Pic related.

Well let's see hereSame type of situation with school, I go to a mostly black and Mexican school with maybe 15% white. Sounds like a meme but SoundCloud and YouTube are your best bet. You can post and be anonymous with your rap name or whatever. If it gets views start showing it to your black friends if you have any. If they think it's good they may share it with their black friends. Black people will always have a bias and suspect you to be a cringey school shooter if they don't know you

/r9k/ tricked me and I fell for the neet meme. Now I'm 27 y.o with no work experience. My only skills are in IT. What are the least saturated IT fields that a former neet could get a job in with no work experience?

>>19269455You're a fucking retard for letting memes take over your life. I wonder how many people have ruined their lives because of this site.I have no advice, just wanted to shit on you, but I wish you look.

>>19269455How is the field saturated? The security sector is in dire need of experienced people. You just seem pessimistic OP. And how can you be in IT if you have no experience? What the hell does that mean?

Breakup/break

My gf said that she can’t manage a relationship anymore. Her depression has gotten worse and she has to go see therapists and doctors. She said a relationship adds on to her stress. We admitted that we still care about each other. I told her that as much as I don’t want to stop this relationship, I still respect her wishes and she wants to remain friends. She doesn’t want to cut me out of her life. And to be honest, I don’t think I’ll ever want to be just friends with her. I know that sounds immature, but I’ll always see her as something more. Do you think we’ll ever get back together? Though, that may seem like wishful thinking, I’m still not over her. Our relationship only lasted for 8 months, but it still hurts

Hey man. Funnily enough, I was in same exact situation until last Valentine's day. Lasted for roughly 3 months.

Anyway, I may not know the extent and details of your situation, but I imagine you've gotten the same drivel like myself, ranging from "I can't be an adequate girlfriend for you right now" to "I don't feel comfortable being a burden upon others and especially you." etc, etc.

My sincere advice is to discern thoroughly whether her depression is merely a cover for an underlying problem, or an actual issue she is going through.

In my case, even though she'd message/call every single day of relationship, several weeks into the relationship, she grew increasingly distant to the point where we'd see one another like two times per week most. Of course, it wasn't a question of unavailability, because she'd still hang out with her friends, because in accordance to her, to them, she can pretend that she's not alright, and doesn't have an obligation/stress of being a girlfriend.

I found and it turns out she's been still keeping contact with an ex of 4 years, and has been seeing him without even saying a word about it.

Now mind you, this girl does have actual depression. She has extended periods of sleep deprivation, suicidal thoughts, abrupt loss of appetite etc, all the nasty stuff accompanying the illness. But ultimately, my point is not to allow or let depression to be used as a convenient tool to mask underlying issues.

It is also not my aim to hammer insecurity into you, but these people easily grow into the roles of pathological liars, because donning masks in everyday environment is such a commonality for them, that it becomes their instinct to pretend and deceive, even though doing harm may not be their actual, moral intent.