Yes! YANBU my own dad thinks the sun shines out of dh's arse because he's looked after OUR children (while I went to visit sick nan) and put a singular load of washing on. Don't get me wrong, it's great he did the washing but no one sings my praises for doing multiple loads a week and if he went away I wouldn't get 'oh, aren't you so GOOD?! Isn't he so LUCKY!' for just doing normal mum stuff!

I think if the situation was reversed, DH's family would certainly enquire after the DC and me, what our plans were etc. But they would never ask how I was coping or assume DH had helped me in any way in order to ease things while he was away. YANBU.

YANBU, I hate when people ask if DH is babysitting! Erm no, he is raising his son! Constantly praised for being fairly domesticated but it's just expected of me. I never get a well done for staying at home so DH can go out

I'm a sahm , If I go out with DH I get people asking "where's the little one tonight?" Coz it's apparently so surprising I left the "little one" who's nearly 5 btw - and these comments have happened since she was a baby. I feel like saying ah she's at home playing with matches