Welcome to SabrinaSwings!

I am a happily married swinger in suburban Minneapolis. My husband and I have been married for 20+ years and exploring various aspects of consensual non-monogamy since the beginning. Sabrina Swings is the place where I share our experiences. The blog is part true erotic swinging stories, but mostly philosophical discussions of some of the lifestyle's most common questions. How do I get into swinging? How do I talk my spouse into swinging? How do I know if I should swing? Do swingers get jealous? How often do swingers have sex? Where can I find a swinging playmate? Hope you enjoy!

I haven’t yet had a chance to post here about the wonderful time I had recently meeting with the crew at the Sex is Fun podcast. Gay Rick, Laura Rad, and Coochie are the hosts of this local (to Minneapolis) podcast:

Dedicated to the rational discussion of human sexuality from the approach of fun, enjoyment and pleasure. Each episode features a different topic that will discuss how to maximize sexual enjoyment while avoiding all the dangers of sex.

We had a blast talking about life as a swinger/sexual being while trying to also be a parent. The biggest laugh probably came when we discussed needing to pay the babysitter on orgy night! I could have talked to these three all night; We just kind of got started on the topic of taking breaks in the lifestyle and how to maintain an open relationship long term. I’d love the opportunity to talk more about that specifically. One of my most popular blog posts is Can Swingers be Happily Married Long Term? Perhaps I’ll have the chance on a future podcast or at a conference sometime!