Win your girlfriend back!

I can't know for sure exactly what the situation is between you and
the girlfriend who broke up with you. I don't know how long it has been
since you broke up, or since you last talked to her. Is she angry at
you? Is she already seeing someone else? Do you have children together?
These are all things I don't know.

But I do know this: if you want to win your girlfriend back, you
have to approach it systematically. You have to make a plan, and stick
with it. This is what works.

What doesn't work is to keep trying the same bad methods over and
over. Texting her 100 times until she calls you back? Bad idea. Emailing
her repeatedly, saying the same thing all the time? Also a bad idea.
Knowing where she's at and showing up there? That's stalking her, man.
Not a good idea. So if you can't do that, what should you do instead?
Like I said, you need a plan. Depending on how much time you want to
spend, you can follow either the short-term or the long-term plan.

The short-term plan to win your girlfriend back goes like this:

1. Go two weeks having no contact with her.

I know you're saying, "Two weeks! That's not short term!"

But really, it is. Two weeks will allow time for your situation to
come to a resting point. Your relationship will slip into your ex girlfriend's
long term memory. The bad stuff that caused her to dump you will merge
with the good stuff from when you were together and happy.

2. After two weeks, write her a letter.

This letter has to be handwritten, and sent through the mail. That
is the most personal form of communication, the kind of communication
appropriate for what you want to say. In the letter, you want to say
two things: apologize for whatever you did that caused her to break
up with you, and also, agree with the breakup. Say that you're sorry,
that you understand why she doesn't want to be with you any more, and
that you agree separating is a good idea.

3. Wait and see if you hear back from her.

How long should you wait? Well, give her 5 days before you decide
what to do next.

If you hear from her within 5 days, that's a good sign. If she's
actually willing to spend time with you again, this soon, then you can
start to seduce her into your arms just like you would with a new girl.
But what if the signs are bad? What if she replies within 5 days but
her reply is unfriendly, or what if she doesn't reply at all?

Then, you have to wait out another full two weeks (including those
first 5 days) before you write her again. Send a second letter, also
handwritten, and tell her you miss her and you'd like to see her. In
the second letter, don't mention anything negative, like the reason
why she broke up with you. Don't bring up any old issues or arguments.
Just say "Hi," and "I've been thinking of you," and "I'd like to see
you again. Will you call me?" Because a month has gone by with no contact
except for the first letter, she will be much more receptive this time.

When you resume communication with your girlfriend, it's easy to
make mistakes. To avoid doing that, you should also explore this
list of what NOT to do, if you want to get your girlfriend back:
9 Ways to fail to get her back

And if you're truly serious about getting your girlfriend back, you
should get a complete book on the subject. I recommend a book called
The Magic of Making Up. I like it because of its focus on relationship
psychology, and particularly female psychology.

Understanding the psychology of relationships is a key factor in
getting your girlfriend back. Plus, there's the psychology of coping
with your own feelings of rejection, shame and depression -- emotions
that also need to be dealt with.

Read this
sneak peek at The Magic of Making Up to learn what's in The Magic
of Making Up that makes it worth the money, and you'll see why I say
its author has a good grasp of psychological tactics -- including separate
tactics for women and men.

You'll also want to click here to look at the author's own
Magic of Making Up home page. Read his story, and then towards the
bottom of the page be sure to click his button for downloading the book,
so you can get started on getting your girlfriend back today!

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Finally, finally finished looking over the other self-help books available for helping you get back together with your ex.
The Magic of Making Up still stands as our top choice, but here's the list of others with links to our reviews:

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