my screen name is singledad247.its not that i cant afford a membership.its just that the money i would spend on it could go towards other things like basketball camp or new clothes etc,for my daughter.im not some poor bum by any means.i am a union ironworker,i make $24.50 per hour.i mean dont get me wrong i am a single parent so its not like i have money coming out of my ears but we do o.k..i just would not feel right about blowing money that i could spend on my daughter on some dating site in order to make some friends.sounds kinda pathetic huh.