We been in the life for about 2 years...unicorns are so hard to come by..but worth the wait..and the chase is fun...my wife is bi and loves women and loves to watch me with women...what's frustrating is the unicorns who don't follow up..basically talk a good game but are not for real..so if you are out there please reach out..and stop playing games..james n Cathie..

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......NOt seek to experiment on me......

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@OP: To sum it up in one word: Rare as well as some of the definitions below that made me smile. I am so happy to be one though like anything else, being a unicorn is not exempt for its own set of issues. However, it is my choice.

The bi-curious woman is not a unicorn. She is a headache...LOL...as are the "situational" bi-curious ones. I am totally bi-sexual and don't put on a show for a man; come for the woman and although the woman may be only bi-curious and won't, can't or don't reciprocate on oral sex, if I find her hot, that's not a deal breaker for me. As I've said many times, I prefer that they admit that and seek to experiment on me....LOL...I am so pass the teaching mode.

Funny story: After having gone down on this woman and while in the afterglow or whatever, she admits that "supposedly" she has never gone down on a female -- I wasn't about to be her first as I wasn't feeling her like that. Assuming she liked dick so much, I offered her my strap-on which she declined....LOL...on reflection, now that I am writing about it, I should have made her suck it...LMAO...hmm....to be continued.

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hello there, I am a single bi UNICORN. playing with woman is awesome, yet playing with a couple is twice as sweet.

YET being single is a bit challenging as we ( Unicorns) need to be safe and smart.

looking for fwb and a natural woman that is not into drama and couples who are not pretentious . Sexy is in the brain for Me….

come and see me Oh yes I am real and a UNICORN.. xxxx

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Heh, found ourselves asking the same question. But the answers we see here do not seem to answer the question imo and we find it a pretty fun subject to talk about. To us the correct definition should be:

Unicorn a rare and mythical creature. So to qualify, you yourself must be a rare and mythical creature in your community of choice (in this case, thats swinging which means prostitutes/pornstars, etc dont count lol)

To us, single bi females do not seem to be rare or mythical in the lifestyle AT ALL. It actually seems to be "the norm". But what (to us anyway) does not seem to be the norm are STRAIGHT females. Single or otherwise. Thus to us, we've come to the conclusion that we've never met a single solitary unicorn. EVER and probably never will considering we live in one of the least populated areas in the country hehe.

Our definition: True Unicorn: Single straight female that likes to play with the male half of a COUPLE (any lady would play with a single male, thats like, normal and stuff, its different when there is another woman present). This is the rarest of the species and we've never actually seen or even heard of one such animal. Some have tried to prove us wrong by introducing us to some great people that they considered to be "unicorns". But they always turn out to either be Bi or at least Bi-C.

Couples Unicorn: That is the female (again MUST be straight to qualify for our version of the definition hehe)of the couple plays while the male does not. There is another term for this, but it sounds weird and we personally dont like it (cuckold). We prefer couples unicorn instead rofl. They are indeed very rare.

So I think it's a "your milage may vary" type of definition. For others, the definition may include single females of any sexual orientation but to us, thats just not rare enough to qualify for such an amazing title lol.

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Thank you. You've got a pretty good profile, yourself.

One of the unicorns I met lately had explicitly stated on her profile that she was not looking for SM at this time. On a whim, I decided to contact her anyway. We ended up talking via email and later texted and then spoke on the phone. It turned out she had a lot of bad experiences with creepy SMs and that's why she had changed her profile. Well, we hit it off and she asked if she could come over. She ended up staying the entire night and left there for work the next morning. She ended up staying over at least two more times that week while I was in town. We still keep in touch at least every other day.

The other unicorn I met by advertising a hotel party for couples and SFs. She basically made up her mind that she wanted to go just a few hours before the party. We welcomed her with open arms. She ended up playing with pretty much everyone. She was a delight and I hope to get the opportunity to see her again when I am in the area.

Yeah, there are some unicorns out there who take full advantage of their scarcity. But there are a few who are grounded, friendly, and extremely open to meeting like minded people.

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Maybe I'm just lucky, but I've found unicorns are that rare. I've had the pleasure of meeting a couple in the last few months.

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Welcome.

Probably just missed the definition being new to the forums.

A unicorn is a truly single or playing alone bi female that swings with no man in tow.

Youre a couple with a bi female. Thats pretty common.

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Bi females are easy to find. Theyre not unicorns.

Bi females who are single, play alone, and are active in this lifestyle on the other hand are extremely rare and thats the unicorn label.

I think most of the "bi" women in this lifestyle are just like most of the "secret bi men" Its more situational than anything else. I wonder how many truly "crave" it and how many just enjoy it as a part of play.

I wonder how many enjoy what it does for their men more than what they are actually doing.

My wife enjoys playing with females when we play as a couple. And thats on her own free will so to speak. Im one of the rare men that doesnt go wild over seeing 2 girls. I like it, but its not on the top of my list. But at the same time, she has never sat home saying "I wish I had a pussy here right now"

I dont think she would actively seek out another female to play one on one with.

Same as how I enjoy light bi play myself. I dont sit home saying, I wish I had a dick here right now. But in the middle of playing, its an added kink to what we are already doing.

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Unicorns Rule!!!! I am part of a swinging couple however, before this I was an unicorn before I even knew the term!!! I love to experience pleasure from both parties and either with a partner or solo, I love couples! Hail to the Unicorns!!!