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What to Do When Your Girlfriend Leaves You: 3 Critical Tips to Surviving a Breakup

After a breakup, you may find yourself vulnerable and unsure of what to do after your girlfriend leaves. You might even find yourself thinking of begging her to take you back with the hope that if she says yes, the pain will go away. The truth is, she has no power to determine when you get back together, or not, instead you have the power to determine the course of your relationship. If you follow the right steps, you can have her chasing after you. Try using the following three tips and you will survive the breakup, no matter how hard it maybe.

1. Take Control by Cutting Any Form of Communication

The moment your girlfriend decides to call it quits with you, you are left powerless since the relationship was halted despite your desire to stay together instead of nagging her with unending calls, texts, and emails, cut any form of communication. If you always find yourself discussing her with your friends, refrain from doing so. Moreover, avoid things that might remind you of her. Although it might be hard as getting over a drug addiction, it is the best thing you can do to yourself. Avoiding your ex will make them miss you and want to have you back. However, you have to stay strong even if she contacts you. Do not respond, as this will break the no contact rule.

2. Involve in Physical Activities

Trying to be happier on your own might seem a little difficult and especially because you were used to sharing all fun moments with your ex. To achieve this happiness, you need to start getting physically active instead of sleeping and brooding over the breakup all day. Engaging in physical exercises will help you get your body in good shape, and consequently, you will feel good about yourself. You do not have to exercise all day, but you can spare some minutes or hours each day to involve in your favorite activity.

3. Mingle with Friends and Make New Ones

After a breakup, it is easy to indulge in self-pity and resentment trying to figure out what you did wrong. Instead of doing this, go out and start reconnecting with your old friends and visit the relatives that you have not been able to talk to for a while. You can also start developing new hobbies and making new friends. When around other people, try to live the moment by freely connecting with them. You can also try going out on a date to help boost your flattened ego, but in no way should you get into a rebound relationship.

Showing you ex that you have friends who are willing to take her place will make her realise her mistake and hate to imagine the idea of you with someone else. This gives her the desperation to want to connect again with you

You can read Brad Browning’s Ex Factor Guide to learn more about how to maintain the “No Contact” rule. It can be hard, but if you play your cards right, you will have her pleading with you to take her back.