I developed a few practices for doing this that help me get clear, centered and aligned with my inner most self. It really keeps me on track and allows me to figure out what works for me…especially when it comes to my biz.

I’ve been thinking about the belief that there is a right way to put yourself out there and share your gifts, and it often involves becoming someone else and jumping through a bunch of hoops before you are worthy of being seen and appreciated for what you offer.

I see this pattern in the way people approach their business and their life. There is a whole persona that you need to take on in order to be taken seriously or to fit into the currant culture.

We feel like we need to become someone else in order to be good enough to share out gifts. We spend thousands of dollars in an effort to find someone to tell us what to do…to become worthy of sharing our gifts.

Here’s what I see….. We’ve had an awakening and we know what we want. And now we’re trying to replace the old patriarchal system we rejected with other people’s “hows”. You’ve replaced the system you rejected with a… read more →

Being in your Sovereignty means knowing yourself deeply, how you work and what you need to thrive. When you know what works for you, you can stop wasting your time trying to do things someone else’s way, and do them your own way instead.
Doing things your way feels like freedom. You’re in the zone where everything is flowing nicely. You feel tapped in and turned on. Powerful. Things are happening for you.
Then there are the times when you know your process, and resist it….you make it wrong because you think things should be happening differently. There is lots of struggling and doubting yourself.

We live in a society that teaches us to fit-in, follow the rules and do what is expected if we want to be accepted and loved.

If you’re a renegade like me, you certainly don’t fit in, and you have your own ideas about things, which leads to a lot of criticism, questioning, and resistance from the people around you. It certainly feels like a battle.