Truly interactive memery

The general run of question-answering memes are pretty much only interesting to the people writing them, I believe. However, when Harriet posted this one, it seemed more interesting to me because it was more personalized. The rules follow the question-and-answer session.

1. Your house is on fire. All the people and pets are already out and safe. You can take only one thing with you. What will it be and why?

My artsy-fartsy ego would like me to say I would grab a painting, but knowing myself the way I do, I’m afraid I would probably grab my laptop. We only do local backup, y’see, and my MacBook has all of my schoolwork, finances, photography, personal writing – a lot of the stuff I value.

2. A benefactor has agreed to fund you for a year. There are no strings attached – you can do whatever you’d like for 12 months, practical or frivolous, and have it all paid for by this person. What will you do?

This is a really hard one, I have to say. At this point, I can only think about it in pieces, and those pieces seem to be: Europe, art, knitting, eating.

I guess I would fund a pan-European trip involving learning language(s), lots of train travel (knitting time), museums, and cuisine. Not very inventive, and certainly not practical, but it sounds lovely. If I could manage to wangle a tour with Rick Steves along the way, that would be fun.

3. Tell me about your favorite place (you can take this any way you like it — a cozy chair, an interesting continent). Why is it your favorite? When did you first go there? When did you last go there? What is your favorite memory there? Is there someone you would especially like to take there?

Wow – I don’t really do absolute “favorite” because so many things appeal for very different reasons. But one of my favorite places is actually our den at home. It’s cozy in a slightly cluttered way, it has a fireplace, and it has a tendency to contain my favorite people and animals. Some of our favorite art is also on the walls there.

4. Of all the things that you have made or done in your life so far, what are you most proud of? Why does the thing you picked mean the most to you?

I think I’m proudest of being smart enough to seek John out after a breakup and absence of over six years (see #1 and #2 here for a brief explanation). I was pretty sure he was The One, but our initial timing wasn’t right for a bunch of reasons (we first dated when I was in law school and John didn’t really know what he wanted to do with his life). It was scary to try to find him again (I feared he would be happily married with 2.7 children, a Volvo, and a golden retriever), but it was definitely a gamble that paid off.

5. What made you decide to go back to school? Was it a gradual realization of wanting to change directions or more of an epiphany? Was there someone who inspired you?

It was sort of a gradually sudden epiphany. At first, I think I subconsciously ignored the idea because it seemed like I was “copying” John instead of paving my own way. But when I consciously confronted that notion, it seemed absurd. There’s plenty of room in library science, and me taking this degree enables us to contemplate a lot more geographical possibilities down the road. John inspired me, as did Marie – I envied the fact that they liked what they did and it seemed like something I would like also. Actually making the decision to go to school now was one of those spooky instances of a bunch of things independently clicking into place: my job got outsourced, Maryland started a program at the campus closest to me, and they also waived the application deadline. I don’t go in for the phrase “it was meant to be,” but if I did, this would be an instance of it.

Thanks, Harriet – that was fun!

If you want to play along, leave a comment and ask to be interviewed and I’ll think of 5 questions to ask you. After I email you your questions, post your answers on your blog, then link back to this post.

Comments

Thanks for answering! Mr. Spy and I also dated and broke up and then eventually got back together. I’m always interested to hear when other people did that too. It seems to be more common than one might think.