Dependency

Now a days i feel we all are becoming so much dependant on so many things which creates lot of disturbance in our life and its also making us very weak. A day without a cell drives us mad. We get angry because of which we get disturbed and then we shout at people and so on. Why are we so dependent; why cant we reduce the degree of dependency so that we dont become weak. Dependency doesnt mean love its our weakness. When we say people that we are not dependent on you they feel we dont love them which is not true.Love makes us strong and dependency makes us weak then how can we relate love with dependancy. Why not be independent. Dependency makes things very complicated and by reducing the degree of dependency things become simpler. We get hurt easily today because we are dependant on our relationships. Why cant we give everyone space. We were making things complicated by having dependency on many things. So lets make our life simple and not to be completely independant but as i said before lets reduce out degree of dependency