So, when I had yet another disappointing day of serious self-doubt where I started looking for jobs again and thinking that I just don’t have what it takes to be a writer, I remembered that piece of advice from Ira.

I woke up early today and decided things were going to be different, starting now.

I’m rearranging my schedule and my attitude to make writing and learning about writing my main goal.

I want to be a successful writer.

I want to write the best novels that I can possibly write.

I want to share stories that let people know they aren’t alone.

I want to feel proud of my work.

When I die, I want to die knowing that I did what I wanted to do.

Over the coming months, I’m putting into practice a routine for myself that includes regular exercise, healthy food, reading, writing, and even time to socialize. I’ve realized over the last two months that trying to be a writing monk doesn’t work for me. I have to balance the solitary nature of writing with my extroverted need to talk with people.

I have the time and resources this year to delve deep into my writing and to improve my craft. It’s time to take advantage of this gift.

Future blog posts will be about the new habits, practices, and techniques I’ve put into place and how it’s working out.

No more excuses.

No more whining.

Time to solider up and do it.

Photo by Paul Abell / AP Images for U.S. Army Reserve of U.S. Army Reserve Major Lisa Jaster, center, the third woman to graduate from the U.S. Army’s elite Ranger School, October 16, 2015, in Fort Benning, Georgia. Jaster, 37, joins just two other women, Capt. Kristen Griest, 26, left, and 1st Lt. Shaye Haver, 25, right, in gaining the coveted Ranger tab.

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Writing requires some of the skills of soldiering! It takes discipline, on-going training, and practice, practice, practice! It helps to have a support group of fellow soldiers working toward the same goals.
I love this post.