Really concerned

My wife and I have been together for awhile now however in our first year she'seen spending time with her ex they've kissed but that's all the proof I have. I forgave but deep down down it still hurts and I can't trust her anymore. And now that we're having our child I'm trying to make it work. But it's really hard. Should I give up or keep trying?

My wife and I have been together for awhile now however in our first year she'seen spending time with her ex they've kissed but that's all the proof I have. I forgave but deep down down it still hurts and I can't trust her anymore. And now that we're having our child I'm trying to make it work. But it's really hard. Should I give up or keep trying?

She needs to completely cut off contact with him, just as a sign of respect to you. (Unless they have kids together, which will make this more complicated). And you two need to go to counseling. You need the opportunity to express and work through your feelings about this. One conversation is not going to do it.

The fact that she is still communicating with him says a lot in my opinion. 100% inappropriate! You need to tell her to cut ties completely with him or you will walk. Otherwise, you will never be able to fully trust her and she will be tempted to kiss this man again or worse. She should be proving her faithfulness to you. The fact that she is still talking to her ex makes me think she is not serious about ending things with him and building trust with you.

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