op wrote: "I'm the kind of guy that, once an argument is done, likes to just move on.

She clings to every single bad thing that happens forever."

Then be thankful you are through with her. Even though it hurts now, just imagine all the pain and suffering in the future you have been saved from now.

How is physical therapy coming along from the surgery? Maybe time to focus hard on that. Through hard work, and getting in better shape, you will be doing your mental, physical, and spiritual being some good.

Thanks. I don't have money for a lawyer, she's brought a lot of debt upon me. Being military, I think I can get a JAG lawyer. I'm not sure though, I never expected it to come to this, so I never looked into it.

You can call me insensitive, but the bitch sounds like she's doing you a favor man...A year from now you'll be saying "Thank God"!

Just got the word. By e-mail no less. She couldn't say half as many hateful things to my face.
I don't even know what I'm doing. Can't call anyone to vent, it's too late at night. Came here to get my mind off of it, now I'm babbling private information to the world.
Never thought it would happen.

i hope you get through this ok man. Im sure youll find a great white woman who is interested in a family someday soon!