Monday, February 17, 2014

In Spain, St. Martin's Day is the traditional day for slaughtering fattened pigs for the winter. This tradition has given way to the popular saying "A cada cerdo le llega su San Martín", which translates as "Every pig has its St. Martin's day" in English. The phrase is used to indicate that ‘wrongdoers’ eventually get their “punishment”. And, that’s exactly what is happening at the Los Angeles County Sheriff’s Department. The “pigs” are finally getting their comeuppance! ;-) Between 2003 and 2005, I remember being at a gathering with my ex-husband Javier’s family. Javier’s brother, Sergio Tiscareno, who is also a LA county deputy sheriff working at the Men’s Central Jail at the time; was talking about how him and two other deputies had gathered a few days before to discuss and get “their” stories straight about an inmate who “they” (the 3 deputies) had beaten and consequently broken his back while in custody. The deputies were in the middle of an investigation about the inmate’s beating; so, they gathered before to make sure their lies would match when testifying in court. Are you disgusted yet? I was!

This conversation happened while I was still married to Javier. I was disgusted with Sergio’s story and after that gathering; I asked Javier to never talk to me about anything that had to do with the LA County Sheriff’s Department. Something that Javier held against me every single time we had an argument because he used to say that he couldn’t even talk to me about his job! Well, I didn’t want to hear about inmates getting beaten at the jail by asshole deputies! During the years that I was married to Javier, he told me enough! I know about the “CJ-10’s”, “salty deputies”, “deputies watching ‘porn’ during their shift” (people from Los Angeles county: you pay your taxes, so these “pigs” can “jerk off” while on duty), and the one that I like the most, “deputies hiding in closets or different rooms at the Men’s Central Jail to have sex with other deputies” ha! “Deputies committing suicide”, “deputies shooting each other”, etc., I honestly can’t wait to start blogging about all of this shit!

Now, let’s get back to the jail probe scandal and the FBI criminal investigation against the Sheriff’s department. Currently, “20” Los Angeles County deputies have been indicted for various criminal acts including, corruption, torture, cover-ups and intimidation of an “FBI agent”. Just in case you didn’t know, male deputies went to intimidate a “female” FBI agent! LASD-bullying at its finest! It doesn’t get any lower than that! But, that means that the Sheriff’s Department is really “shitting” in their pants with the current FBI investigation! They are “shitting” in their pants so much, that due to the shame this scandal has brought to the LA County Sheriff’s Department, the Sheriff, Lee Baca (71), announced in a press conference January 7th that he won’t be seeking re-election for a 5th term (5th term? What a greedy faggot!) He also announced that he was going to retire at the end of January. That meant that he wasn’t even going to finish his current term! WOW! Ladies and Gentlemen, that’s a sign that the “shit” is starting to hit the fan, just saying! Hahahahahaha!!

Lee Baca knows that the other LASD candidates are going to be “squealing” and “betraying” one another during the Sheriff’s race for the next few months. The “heat” was going to get too “intense” for the 71 year old grandpa to handle! Especially since the FBI is on their asses! How embarrassing! During the press conference, Baca was asked if he was afraid of facing criminal indictment as well. Lee Baca responded by saying, "I'm not afraid of reality. I'm only afraid of people who don't tell the truth." Ha! Welcome to the club, motherfucker! You only know that the deputies who have been already indicted during this corruption probe would be “singing” like “little birds” and “lying” to try to make a deal with the Feds! That means that there’s going to be name dropping and shit splattered all over the place at the sheriff’s department! What a fiasco! I LOVE IT!!! I’m just going to get my popcorn and enjoy the show for the next few months! 2014 is turning out to be pretty awesome for me! LOL! Once again, thank you FBI! ;-)

Leroy D. Baca

During the press conference, Baca also said, “I think an oversight commission is important. We’re in the 21st century, and we want ‘transparency’; we want to be able to have the public’s ‘trust’” hahahahaha!!! What the fuck is this old timer smoking? He’s just now realizing he wants “transparency” and “trust”, on the day he announces his retirement? Uggghhh! Somebody slap this dude for me, please?! LOL! Douche bag! And talking about the 21st century, I did notice that Chief Dave Fender wore a tie at this press conference. Good to know he’s reading my blog! LOL! But, it looks like this dude is stuck in the 70’s!!! What the fuck is he wearing?! Come on dude? Get at our level, man! LOL! Can someone at the sheriff’s department, please give me an address? So, I can send Chief Fender a “21st century tie”; I would be delighted to do that! Hahahahaha!!! He makes so much fucking money and can’t even buy a descent tie!

Can someone at the sheriff’s department, please give me an address? So, I can send Chief Fender a “21st century tie”, thank you!

Fuck this shit!

The Sheriff Lee Baca ended the press conference by reciting the LASD Core Values, “As a leader in the Los Angeles County Sheriff's Department, I commit myself to honorablyperform my duties with respect for the dignity of all people, integrity to do right and fight wrongs, wisdom to apply common sense and fairness in all I do and courage to stand against racism, sexism, anti-Semitism, homophobia and bigotry in all its forms.”This is the biggest bullshit I’ve ever heard! I guess it doesn’t say anything about “deputies” lying and sending their wives to jail, right? I tell you right now, my ex-husband Deputy Javier Tiscareno is NOT a “leader”, he’s not “honorable”, he doesn’t know the meaning of “respect”, he has not “integrity”, he lacks “wisdom”, he has no idea what “common sense” is; he’s not “fair” and he definitely has "NO COURAGE!"And the LA county sheriff’s department "stands” 100% behind this bastard! Ha! I think at this point we can all wipe our asses with these stupid “core values”

Dep. Javier Tiscareno

The primary Sheriff election is set for June 3 with a potential general election on Nov. 4. Currently there are 5 candidates from the LASD and one dude from Long Beach PD, and another one from LAPD. I personally think that the Los Angeles Sheriff’s Department needs to reach OUTSIDE of their own to find a new Sheriff! If they continue to keep hiring within, they will go on with the same corrupt way of thinking for years to come! I mean, how can you trust anyone at the Sheriff’s Department at this point? Who’s a good cop and who’s a bad cop? I think that the voters from Los Angeles County have the ability now to clean house once and for all! Remember, “The power of the people is stronger than the people in power” ;-) Mr. Baca left the LA county sheriff’s department “on his terms” January 30, 2014. It’s too bad for Mr. Baca because instead of leaving his department with his head up high and proud, after years of service, he left quietly in “shame”! And I would “humbly” like to add, “That’ll do ‘PIG’, that’ll do” ;-)

I would like to apologize to Chloe for putting shit on top of her! I'm sorry Chloe!

Monday, February 10, 2014

Just waking up in the morningAnd to be well,Quite honest with ya,I ain't really sleep wellYa ever feel like your train of thought's been derailed?That's when you press on - Lee nailsHalf the population's just waitin to see me failYeah right, you're better off trying to freeze hellSome of us do it for the femalesAnd others do it for the retailBut I do it for the kids, life threw the towel in onEvery time you fall it's only making your chin strongAnd I'll be in your corner like Mick, baby, 'til the endOr when you hear a song from that big lady[Bridge]Until the referee rings the bellUntil both your eyes start to swellUntil the crowd goes homeWhat we gonna do ya'll?[Chorus - Ryan Tedder]Give em hell, turn their headsGonna live life 'til we're dead.Give me scars, give me painThen they'll say to me, say to me, say to meThere goes the fighter, there goes the fighterHere comes the fighterThat's what they'll say to me, say to me, say to me,This one's a fighter[Verse 2]And if I can last thirty roundsThere's no reason you should ever have your head downSix foot five, two hundred and twenty poundsHailing from rock bottom, loserville, nothing townText book version of a kid going nowhere fastAnd now I'm yelling, "Kiss my ass"It's gonna take a couple right hooks, a few left jabsFor you to recognize you really ain't got it bad[Bridge]Until the referee rings the bellUntil both your eyes start to swellUntil the crowd goes homeWhat we gonna do ya'll?[Chorus - Ryan Tedder]Give em hell, turn their headsGonna live life 'til we're dead.Give me scars, give me painThen they'll say to me, say to me, say to meThere goes the fighter, there goes the fighterHere comes the fighterThat's what they'll say to me, say to me, say to me,This one's a fighterEverybody put yo hands upWhat we gonna do (hey!) [x4] y'all?What we gonna do (hey!) [x3] y'all?If you fall pick yourself up off the floor (get up)And when your bones can't take no more (c'mon)Just remember what you're here forCuz I know Imma damn sure

Monday, February 3, 2014

I get asked the same question at least once a
day, “Nancy,
Why aren’t you married yet?”Or people who know I’ve been single for a
while would say to me, “Any boyfriend yet?” It fascinates
me to see how many are interested in my relationship status; so, I decided to
write about it. ;-)

I would say that out of all the men who
approached me and asked me out on a date, around 80% of them are “police
officers!” It blows my mind every single
time a cop approaches me and asks me out on a date because I’m very outspoken
about how much I dislike cops! My friend Kelli told me a while ago, “Nancy,
you have to be open to the possibility that perhaps you can meet a ‘nice’ cop
out there; and, you might want to get to know him”. I think it has been
very hard for me to get over all the betrayal, backstabbing and lies my
ex-husband Javier (a police officer) was able to pulled off during our divorce
just to hurt me. I associate every single police officer with Javier’s actions
towards me; and, that makes me walk away from any man wearing a cop uniform.

I know what you’re thinking, “But
Nancy, just take a chance!” I have! I dated a LAPD officer in 2010;
but, he was definitely not for me. And you’ll be surprised to find out, that I
actually went out on a date with a deputy sheriff from Pitchess Detention
Center. That means I went out with a LASD deputy!!! Uugghh! INSANE!!!! I can’t
believe I did that! I hate the Los
Angeles Sheriffs Department!!!! But, you know what? The LASD deputies ask me
out on dates all the time! I always tell them no, because I can’t trust anyone
at the sheriffs department! I think at this point, it would be so embarrassing
for me to show up at a family gathering or any other event, with a date or a boyfriend
who’s a police officer. That’s why the whole Bail Bond Industry here in
Southern California should be telling me “Thank
You Nancy” because I’m not a “Badge
Bunny” (female that goes out only with cops). Can you imagine how many bail
bonds I’ll be writing if I dated cops? I’ll be the richest lady in town; and, a
lot of bail bond companies would be out of business, that’s for sure! So, tell
me: “Thank you!” ;-)

“But Nancy, you must be lonely?!” Uughh!
Seriously! This question really pisses me off! Sometimes I don’t even have time
to go to the bathroom; even less time to “think” about loneliness! The more
time that I spend on my own; the more creative I get! Every single time that
I’ve been in a relationship I neglect my projects because I’m spending time
with the new person in my life. But, that means that I’m wasting valuable time
for me or for my business in somebody else’s agenda! That’s another reason why I
turn down almost 95% of the invitations for a date!

“When are you getting married? You’re not
getting any younger!” What the fuck?! Hahahahahaha! Some people,
man! If you don’t have anything nice to say, don’t say anything at all! But,
since they keep asking me this question, I’m going to answer it! I’m not in a
rush to get married! I really enjoy my single life. I was married for over 13
years and I have no desire to go back and being “someone’s wife” and share my
thunder, I don’t think so! LOL! I enjoy
my freedom! I do whatever I want, whenever I want, with whoever I want! I don’t
have to compromise with anyone; I don’t have to gather with someone else’s
family for the holidays or special occasions. I don’t have to call anyone to
check in. I’m completely free! Plus, I don’t have to put up with a dude,
farting or snoring in my bed at night! LOL!

Then, I get all the “extremist Christian”
people telling me, “You’ll get married Nancy; the ‘Lord’ has a plan for you” Yeah,
your “Lord’s” plan is for me, NOT to get married! Uughh! When are they going to
understand this? If the “Lord” was in control, I would be married by now; but,
“He” is not! I control my own life!

A friend of mine told me just recently, “Nancy,
You haven’t met a nice man because you’re not looking” And she’s right,
I don’t go and “look” for a man! As if “looking for a man” is like going “car
shopping” or “shoe shopping” I don’t want to settle with a “nice man”. I want
to be with my soul mate! I believe in the energy of the Universe and that some
souls have planned on meeting even before the actual people get to meet
physically. It’s like a magic encounter; two people meeting serendipitously! Your
whole senses go crazy! It’s happened to me twice already since I’ve been
divorce. And those encounters have been so wonderful; I could even describe
them to you!

The first time this “magical encounter” happened to me, was in
early 2011. I had just arrived at a retail store; I was walking in, when a man
in line ready to pay looked at me and then he smiled with joy! His expression
on his face was as if he was telling me, “There you are! I’m so happy I get to
see you again!” His smile was captivating and I stood like a dumbass just
staring at him! Hahahahahaha!!! My whole body was on fire! I’d never
experienced something like it before! The heat between us was so intense as if
both our bodies were connecting and communicating with energy! It was amazing!

I then grabbed a shopping cart and began
walking towards the furniture side of the store. I wasn’t staring at him
anymore, LOL! But, I could still feel our energy! I began to sweat! My hands
started shaking! And at the time, I asked myself, “What the fuck is going on with
me?” I’m sure there were more people inside the store, but at the
moment, it was only “him and I”. It was like in a movie scene, with chaos,
noise and people around the store when all of the sudden the camera focuses on
one thing that you were not expecting to see and you’re like WOW!!!! Yeah, just like that, but in real life! LOL!

I kept on walking, but I couldn’t resist the
temptation and I wanted to see if he was still looking at me. So, I looked back
at the same area where he was at, and sure enough, he was still smiling at me!
But this time, I could tell that he wanted to run towards me and hug me! And
honestly, I wanted to run to him too!

I walked into the furniture area and I began
to composed myself! Hahahahaha!!! I was like, “Wow! That was intense!” I was
looking for a small table to put in my new office. I grabbed the price tag of
an outrageously expensive table, when I heard a man’s voice saying, “Is that
the real price?” I turned to see who had spoken to me, and it was him!!! The
man with the gorgeous smile! His eyes were so clear and beautiful that I was
able to see right through to his heart! Such a gentle and kind soul! I smiled
at him and I think I was talking to him; but, all I remember from that moment is
that I was thinking about Jim Carey in the movie Dumb and Dumber and the scene
where he says, “I like you alot!” hahahahaha!!! Because that’s exactly what I
wanted to say to this guy! LOL! :-P

We introduced ourselves and at some point, we
exchanged business cards. He invited me to an event the following day at his
store and I told him that I might show up. We said goodbye and he left. I
immediately sent a text to my friend Gildy and I wrote, “I just met the man of my
dreams!” ;-)

My relationship with Allen was one of the
best relationships I’ve ever been in! Maybe the best! I was actually so
surprised how quickly I felt in love with him! I wasn’t holding back and I
wasn’t afraid of getting hurt either. It was so natural for me to say “I love
you” and I didn’t freak out every time Allen said it to me! But, unfortunately
we both wanted different things out of our relationship; and, we had to end it.
At that time, I wanted to get married and have kids; and, Allen didn’t. Allen
and I are still good friends today; and, we call each other once in a while
just to catch up and see how we’re doing. And you’re probably wondering; yes, Allen
is still single. He calls me “Darling”; I call him “Honey”

The second time this crazy energizing
connection happened to me was in 2012 on a flight from Los Angeles to New York.
Once again, two people meeting serendipitously! I met someone who had a lot of
potential; but, turned out to be a jerk at the end! Otherwise, it would have
been a really awesome story to tell, about the way we met. (Blog worthy, you
know). He could have been my co-pilot in my crazy “spaceship” I call life! LOL!
I gave him so many chances because I never wanted to say, “What if” But, finally
in early 2013, I gave up on him! His loss, not mine! The only thing I have left
to say is: ((((NEEEEEEEEEEEEXT!!!!))))

“What about sex? You must have ‘needs’” Fucking guys
at the bar! They’ll say anything to get into my pants! Well first of all, my
“needs” are none of your business! The fact that I’m not married or I’m not in
a relationship doesn’t mean that I’m not having sex! Please! Sex is the
easiest, fastest thing for me to get! I’m at a point in my life where I can approach
a man, I tell him what I want to do with him; and at that point, who’s going to
tell “me” no?

The next question is a bit weird for me still,
I guess because I haven’t gotten used to it but, “Nancy, Are you gay?” Well, not “yet” Hahahahaha!!! … Let’s just say
that, “I’ve kissed a few women” and just as Katy Perry would sing, “I think I liked it” ;-)

"You must be a good loner!" I’m actually
an AWESOME loner! LOL! I’m not intimidated to show up at a party, event or place
by myself. I have gone on vacations completely by myself. Dinner, movies,
activities, concerts, plays, I do all those things by myself. I remember back
in 2008, my favorite baseball team, “Dodgers” won their division series. The
series was almost sold out, but I was still able to buy tickets. I was so
excited and I called my sister and said, “I
just got tickets for the first two Dodgers home games!” My sister asked, “That’s cool! Who are you going with?” I said to her, “I’ll be going with 55 thousand other
Dodgers fans!” ;-)

“Do you think you’ll ever get married?” Some people
need to get a life! Seriously! In 2011, I went to court to file my DBA (Doing
Business As) for Super Bond Girl. I was in a rush and I remember running from
the parking lot to the court building. Once inside the court, I saw a couple
about to get married. She was wearing a white wedding gown and the groom a
black suit. I waited in line until I was able to speak to the clerk. She gave
me a number and told me to wait until they would call my name. As I was sitting
in the lobby waiting, I saw two more couples coming in with their families,
ready to get married too! I thought, “Wow, everybody wants to get married
today!” I immediately checked the date on my phone and it read, “February 14”
No wonder so many couples were getting married, it was Valentine’s Day!

I thought, “That’s so sweet, they are getting
married on Valentine’s Day”; and then, I looked at the folder where I had all
my paperwork for my DBA. I opened it and I saw the forms with my name on it;
and I began to think, “These couples are committing to themselves today. They
are excited about their love and the journey they’ll be embarking on together.
And here I am, on Valentine’s Day, ready to commit and ‘marry’ my business” By
the time I was in front of the county clerk, ready to sign my forms. I began to
recite in my head, the last part of the wedding vows “for better, for worse, in
sickness and in health, until death do us part” and then, I signed it!!! I
celebrate every Valentines’ Day with joy and excitement! I think this year, I
going to send myself flowers! ;-)

“Nancy, what do you want?” Honestly, I
just want to be happy! And I’m happy being single. Recently, during a
conversation with my friend Wendy, I told her, “I don’t think I’ll ever get married again! I can’t do that! And even
if I became engaged to someone; I know I’ll be a ‘Run Away Bride’” hahahahaha!!!
I can totally picture it! Someone announcing to the guests at my wedding, “Nancy
thanks you for attending; but, she decided to skip the ceremony and she’s
already on her way to her Honeymoon all by herself!” hahahahahahaha!!!! Can you
imagine the poor groom?! LOL!!! :-P

The only reason that I considered marriage previously;
was because I wanted to have more children and start a brand new family before
I turned 40. I’m old fashion when it comes down to raising children. Kids
should be raised by both parents (heterosexual or same sex) who are married and
committed to each other. I think raising children is the only thing that I’m “conservative”
about. LOL! But, I just turned 40, and I don’t have more children nor did I
start a new family. So, what’s the point to get married now? I’ll get married;
so, I can lose my “Freedom?” I don’t think so!!! Being married doesn’t “benefit”
me at all!

So, there you have it! Hopefully people stop
asking me, “Why aren’t you married, yet?”As if getting married is the “’one’
and ‘ultimate’ goal in someone’s life” There are so many things that I need to
accomplish in this life time! And obviously, I don’t need a husband for that! ;-)