What Is The Montessori Method?

Developed in the early 20th century by Dr. Maria Montessori, an Italian physician and educator, the Montessori Method is a child-centered way of thinking about education and childcare. The Montessori Method stresses independence, freedom for the child (within limits), and respect for the child’s development.

Applying the Montessori Method At Home – The Montessori Nursery

The Montessori Method focuses largely on education. However, many Montessori principles can be applied to childcare in general, and to any setting in which a child spends time — including home. For example, the Montessori Method urges teachers and caregivers to encourage independence by putting everything that a child needs at the child’s level. Children should be able to get to their clothes, their toys, their snacks, etc. without help from an adult.

This principle applies to a child’s own bedroom as well — since it’s their room, everything should be within the child’s reach, and on the child’s level. This includes all furniture, clothing, books, toys, and artwork.

The Montessori Floor Bed

The biggest difference between a traditional nursery and a Montessori nursery (aside from all the pint-sized furniture!) is the fact that a Montessori nursery does not contain a crib. In a Montessori-style nursery, the child sleeps on a floor bed. Now, you can buy expensive floor bed frames; you can also do a cheap, D-I-Y version by simply laying a mattress directly on the floor. Both work!

The idea behind a Montessori floor bed is in line with the general principles of the Montessori Method: a child should have freedom of movement, and should be able to move independently around his (carefully childproofed!) room. For this reason, a floor bed is preferable to a crib, since a crib restricts movement and limits independence. Montessori parents typically keep their babies in a bassinet or Moses basket during the newborn stage, but starting as early as 2 months or so, they transition to a floor bed.

Do Montessori Floor Beds Really Work?

If you aren’t familiar with the Montessori Method, the idea of a floor bed might seem surprising. Most of us who live in the West have been so conditioned to understand that babies need to sleep in cribs, and are not ready for a bed until they are toddlers. So the notion of putting a baby on a mattress on the floor may be hard to understand at first.

It may also raise questions, like “Is a floor bed safe?” or “Do babies and toddlers actually stay in bed, or do they constantly get up?”

We should point out here that, if you use a floor bed, it’s critical that you carefully childproof your baby or toddler’s room first. This means getting down on your child’s level (i.e. on your hands and knees) and carefully checking for any hazards that may harm your child. Only when you’ve childproofed can you put your child in his or her floor bed.

As for whether or not floor beds are conducive to sleep…that’s a different question altogether.

Montessori Floor Beds Work Well For Some Children, But Not For Others

As with so many other things, the question of whether or not a floor bed will work for your child depends on…your child. 🙂 Some parents have huge success with using a Montessori-style floor bed; their children stay in bed without issue. But other parents find that their babies and toddlers end up playing jack-in-the-box all night long and during naps, popping up out of bed every few minutes.

A child who is naturally a “good” sleeper, who settles into a nice sleep and feeding schedule fairly quickly, and who is relaxed and cooperative by nature may do quite well with a floor bed, from a very early age. Children like this will probably be less affected by the fact that there are not physical boundaries keeping them in bed (the way there are with a crib), and they may be more willing to get in bed (and stay in bed) when they feel sleepy.

However, a child who struggles with nighttime waking and poor naps, who is intense and persistent and easily distracted and full of energy, may not do as well with a floor bed. Remember, babies and young toddlers are concrete thinkers; they do not understand abstract concepts yet. So the abstract boundaries of the floor bed are tough to understand — unlike the physical boundaries of the crib. Again, some children are able to understand and obey the ‘stay in bed concept’ very early, but others are not – much of that is based on temperament and development.

Switch to a crib for awhile. We usually recommend transitioning to a bed somewhere between 2 and 3 years, so if your child is younger than 2, and if the floor bed is simply not working, consider moving to a crib.

Stick with the floor bed, and be patient. Some families are committed to a Montessori-style nursery, and just don’t want to use a crib — and we understand that! Parenting philosophies are deeply personal and unique, and at The Baby Sleep Site®, we make a practice of respecting every family’s unique approach. In these cases, we advise parents to be patient, and to understand that sleep coaching may be tougher (and will probably take longer), since the child can get in and out of bed at will. Sleep can improve; it may just take a longer to get there.

Nicole’s Note:
“Creativity can take you far with a ‘non-traditional’ (so far) concept. If you are open-minded, you may find a different solution is ‘fine for now.’ Perhaps it means your baby starts in her room and then you co-sleep the rest of the night after you go to bed. Or, perhaps you set up the Montessori bed in your room, so you are each in your own sleep spaces but in the same room. Once sleep has improved, you can try moving the bed to your child’s room. There are a number of different arrangements when you don’t have a rigid picture about what ‘success’ looks like.”

Any Montessori parents out there? Tell us about your experiences using a Montessori floor bed!

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Yvettesays

My 15 month old began to struggle to settle in his crib. His sleep deteriorated to get ups and screaming every 10-15 minutes through the night. He began to dismantle by yanking the bars (he’s a strong boy -95th Centile) He would only sleep in our bed and he developed strabismus (lazy eye).

I just felt he needed to be in his own bed, so we transitioned him to his own room and toddler bed, Childproofed his room and he sleeps all the way through the night!!!! Two of the nights he played with toys in the middle of the night, on other nights following I’ve found him fast asleep half climed out of his bed and on the floor. After just over a week
– he no longer has strabismus
– sleeps all the way through
– He is so much more energetic and able to learn.

As a first time mum I felt guilty but just knew it was the right time for him.

Hi @Yvette, amazing! No need to feel guilty for transitioning your baby to a floor bed at 15 months. Great job to you for finding what worked for him. So glad he is safe (climbing out of his crib in the middle of the night is scary) and that you are all sleeping better!