The international community is "sleep walking" into the greatest refugee crisis of our lifetime, with up to three million likely to have fled Syria by the end of the year.

Kristalina Georgieva, Commissioner for the Humanitarian Aid and Civil Protection department of the European Commission, compared the Syrian crisis to Afghanistan, currently the source of the world's largest refugee crisis with an estimated 2.5 million Afghans having fled conflict over 22 years.

But the UN estimates that figure will be topped by Syria after more that two years of civil war.

"This is undoubtedly the world's worst refugee crisis in decades and if we don't get off this slippery slope it will soon become the largest in our lifetime in front of our eyes," Ms Georgeiva told The Daily Telegraph.

She said Washington's decision to arm rebel groups was a poor substitute to forging a peace plan that the United Nations Security Council will unite behind.

"I haven't seem a situation where more arms leads to more opportunities for negotiations [towards a resolution]. Not to mention what this might mean for the rise of extremism?"

While the European Commission will continue its unprecedented aid effort, global humanitarian resources are finite. A political resolution must be reached before Lebanon or Jordan or both are stretched to breaking point and the crisis deepens exponentially, Ms Georgeiva said.

"It is so disappointing to see the international community sleepwalking into this disaster," she said. "Any time there is a new eruption of fighting we hope it will be the wake-up call. But obviously this hasn't happened yet."

Syrian children sleeping inside their family's tent in the Bekaa Valley, Lebanon

The G8 leaders failed to advance the chances of peace this week. The deepening division between Russian and Western allegiances within the Security Council means an international peace conference on Syria that was due to take place in Geneva this month has now been delayed until August at the earliest.

To date, at least 1.66 million Syrians have fled the bloodshed to neighbouring countries, with Jordan, Lebanon, Turkey and Iraq bearing the brunt. The EC has led an unprecedented aid efforts to provide material and strategic support to the governments buckling under the weight of their swelling refugee populations. But as the conflict continues and the numbers of refugees continues rises with each week, the gap between humanitarian capacity and need grows ever greater, Ms Georgeiva has warned.

Prior to the Syrian conflict, Jordan already host to a vast community of Palestinian and Iraqi refugees, and suffered from chronic water shortages. In the past two years, it has accommodated an estimated 450,000 Syrian refugees. At least half a million more are waiting to be registered in Lebanon, where sectarian tensions simmer perilously close to civil unrest.

Stressing that half of the refugees fleeing Syria are children, many of whom have now been out of school for two years, Ms Georgieva warned that it may already be too late to avert the future dangers to regional security of a generation of children "with no jobs but with guns in their hands".

"We are now looking at more than 100 self proclaimed rebels groups who want to be part of a negotiating party. The longer we postpone, the more detrimental the delay will become," she added.

9-year-old Rania (right), sits on a swing inside her extended family's home in East Amman, an area where many Syrian refugees have rented apartments

Meanwhile on the ground in Syria, government forces reinforced with Iranian-led Hizbollah fighters surged on Aleppo and the suburbs of the capital Damascus attempting to build upon their recent successes in the country's south. Activists reported fierce gun battles in the alleyways of the Old City.

The British-based Syrian Observatory for Human Rights also reported clashes in Homs, Hama, Deraa and Damascus.

Opposition groups responded with an operation to seize control of a major highway running from Aleppo to the Turkish border – an effort bolstered by the arrival of a shipment of Konkurs anti-tank missiles in Aleppo.