no matter what i post in my essays i seem to be getting tons of junk mail from people that i will never meet, not interested in meeting or just are plain out rude. what part about local only or no cyberers don't people understand. i do believe if people respected other's people 's wishes they'd find they had more fun and met alot more people. i mean why would you put yourself through unnecessary rejection? i question some people's mental state. i'm not, let me repeat NOT looking for cyber. i have enough people on an instant message list to cyber with. if you're not looking to meet for real don't bother me. and if you read my essay and you don't fit the requirements move on and find someone who you have something in common with. somethings you consider flattering, i consider rude and disrespectful. respect is given where respect is due

I completely agree - Granted i dont have much of that problem, but it seems the only women who want to message me are from Russia lol

Romantic_Fool

Nov 7 @ 12:55PM

RESPECT is a word not used too often here... it's a pity. Good luck in your search.

Georgia4U

Nov 8 @ 3:14AM

I asked this same question not long ago and sadly it is because too many think they can play the ods not realizing that in some cases they are shooting themselves in the foot in my oppinion as when it is obvious that one has not read what I have to say I tend to delete and go on.