Kojo is correct. Our secondary stats are so close together that they don't show much difference in our reforging strats. If you feel comfortable with the reforge you have now (Haste with close to hit/exp cap) then stick with it, and it will serve you well.

I'd say try and use 5cp roars as much as possible, energy>cp and refreshing roar for 40 seconds is better energy management than burning it every 20 seconds.

A full priority list, that's a bit more than I care to type out (for max level play it really is that long).I'm sure the long and short of it is posted around here, or in the cat stickied guide on the official forum site.

Refresh SR opportunistically. It is better to refresh it with 1 combo point then to let it fall off. For the rotation, You can try reading my Ovale script and/or the sim script for cat that ships with Mew.