Chinese ‘gay wives’ struggle to break free

She has no regrets, but for Qing Feng divorcing her husband, a gay man, and losing her son and money, was not an easy process.

Qing, from southwest China’s Guizhou Province, ended her sexless, loveless marriage months ago, after an arduous negotiation with the man who had constantly belittled her throughout their 13-year relationship.

“He said I wouldn’t get a penny or the custody of my son because I asked for a divorce without evidence to show he was wrong,” said Qing who is in her forties.

“He was well prepared for the day of the divorce. He had transferred all our assets to his parents.”