Grabbing their balls when talking to you

Today some guys came to install a door in my condo. One guy was particularly hot. Now I don't gawk or flirt with these guys but I do take notice when their hot. After the installation I went to a neighboring condo to ask him a question. I almost didn't notice him grab his balls when I spoke to him because I wasn't expecting it. This has happened to me a few times before. The guy is almost always Latin. One use to raise his shirt too. I never really react but it does make me wonder if they are sending me a message. I don't need to be told how bisexual Latin men can be but I'm not sure if they do this kind of thing all the time and there is no message at all. I'd like you guys to speculate if this means anything.

friendormate saidI'd like you guys to speculate if this means anything.

It means they are classless trailer trash, of whatever ethnic background. A man doesn't grab himself and scratch in front of strangers. In front of his gay partner, naturally (who might help him with the scratching), and sometimes in a gym locker room, and there are those questionable occasions when a baseball player publicly adjusts his cup.

But to someone who comes to your door? Either he's extending a crude invitation, or he's a pig. Take your pick.

friendormate saidI'd like you guys to speculate if this means anything.

It means they are classless trailer trash, Latino or whatever. A man doesn't grab himself and scratch in front of strangers. In front of his gay partner, naturally (who might help him with the scratching), and sometimes in a gym locker room, and there are those questionable occasions when a baseball player publicly adjusts his cup.

But to someone who comes to your door? Either he's extending a crude invitation, or he's a pig. Take your pick.

5ebastian saidWhen ur rich and young you don't really give a damn wot others think. I'm being a diva but it's annoying that gay guys are stuck on such stupid shit.

My dear, either you have class, or you don't. Money really isn't the issue. I know millionaires who are pigs, and poor guys who are the most elegant of gentlemen. So which are you?

A gentleman always cares what others think, as a matter of courtesy. In a social setting only a complete lout wouldn't give a damn what others think.

Perhaps you've heard of manners? Think what you like in private, but in public you conduct yourself with grace & class. And if you haven't yet learned that, then none of this will make any sense to you.

[quote][cite]5ebastian said...If my balls are itchy I'm gonna scratch them, anyone that thinks I'm indignified can kiss it. It's not about class, I just feel it's much adieu about nothing. I have problems with my briefs and I usually readjust it in public. So what?[/quote]

5ebastian saidIf my balls are itchy I'm gonna scratch them, anyone that thinks I'm indignified can kiss it. It's not about class, I just feel it's much adieu about nothing. I have problems with my briefs and I usually readjust it in public. So what?

Well, that's your privilege. Though if you ever did that openly as my guest at a function, or at something hosted by one of our gay friends, it would be the last invite you'd ever get.

You may try to reply that you'd be happy not to be my guest, but the point is that locker room behavior belongs in the locker room. I also assume that you wipe your ass, pick your nose, and maybe spit on occasion, but I don't expect to see that in my living room, either. Nor do my other guests. A gentleman is defined by his self-restraint, not by his self-indulgence.