Wednesday, 26 October 2011

Too Few

I’ve been having this
conversation for many years now and after getting into last night with someone
I even posted it as my question of the day. The question is.

Does a guy who has
only slept with a few people (1 or 2) set off warning flags in your mind?

In my mind it does
set off warning bells. My logic is guys are horn-dogs, and it’s not like they’re
going to say no. So there must be something wrong with him because clearly no
one else wanted to sleep with him.

I mean it’s all in
the math, the average person loses their virginity at 17, so if they’ve only
slept with 2 people by the age of 30 that’s one person every 6.5 years. If you
can only convince someone to sleep with you every half a decade there is
something clearly not right there.

Some people have
brought up the point that maybe the guy has always been in serious relationships and
that’s why his number is so low. I can understand that thinking but then that
sends out a whole different set of warning signs to me and many questions.

Why did the
relationships end after so long? How long does he take to rebound? Is he clingy?
Did he cheat? A women’s mind is a scary place. Also remember you’re talking
about 2 relationships that lasted 4, 5 or 6 years. Or maybe one 10 year relationship
and a rebound shag. It leaves a lot questions that need an answer.

I think it’s only
natural for women to want their man to be more experienced then themselves. I’m
sure it goes back to caveman days. So when they find out the guy they like
is lacking in experience it’s a little unnerving.

Don’t get me wrong by
no means is it a deal breaker. It just makes the female mind start ticking over and
fault finding. If you have nothing to hide and aren't a weirdo you should be
ok....most of the time.

This is just my
opinion on the matter and I’m sure you’ll share yours with me. I’m heading off
for the night. As always stay safe.