13 Anal Sex Positions That Make Butt Play Way Hotter

Let's get one thing out of the way: Men aren't the only ones who enjoy anal sex. I'm a sex educator, and I've come across plenty of women who love anal play. Of course, not every woman is going to be into it (I can't think of any sex act that's a universal turn-on). But many women are here for it, and some can even have full-on anal orgasms. With the right position and a few helpful pointers, you could be one of them.

If it's your first time, check out my anal sex guide for some solid tips. The tl;dr version: You can warm up with your fingers, lube is your absolute best friend, and it's important not to forget about aftercare (hygiene is key, people!).

Also, worth noting: For consistency's sake, all of the instructions assume you're being penetrated by your partner. But that doesn't mean you can't try a strap-on and reverse roles.

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Lap Dance

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How to: Have your partner sit on a chair. With your back to him, slide down.

Why it's great: This position is perfect for people who are relatively new to anal sex because it's easy to pull off (but still hot).

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Lifted Spoon

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Try it: Take two pillows, and place them under your hips for extra lift—this will help position your body to make penetration a bit more comfortable. Have your partner enter you from behind, either on his knees or side—whichever feels best.

Why it's great: Spooning was basically made for anal sex—it gives the person in the big spoon position total control over the depth and intensity of thrusting. And, if it's your first time, lying calmly in your partner's embrace will help you feel more relaxed.

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Flat Doggy

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Try it: Lie on your stomach, and have your partner lie directly on top on of you, entering from behind. Have him balance on his elbows for optimal comfort.

Why it's great: This is perfect for shallow penetration—which you should definitely try if you haven't already. Most of the nerves in the anus are in the first two inches of the opening, so this is a great way to get that stimulation even if you're an anal sex beginner.

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Resistance Missionary

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Try it: Have your partner enter you from the missionary position. Keep your knees pressed against his side to control how deep he goes, putting your hands on his chest for extra resistance. You can also add a pillow underneath your hips, to get the pelvis in the perfect place for penetration.

Why it's great: Anal sex positions are often a face-away-from-each-other kind of deal, but this one allows you and your partner to get some eye-contact in during sex.

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Back It Up

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How to: Have your partner kneel against the bed and you do the same. Lean back into his penis. Swivel your hips to control the speed and motion.

Why it's great: If you’re interested in standing anal sex positions, this is a great choice. It is ideal for shallow penetration, giving your nerve-rich anal opening plenty of attention. The skin-to-skin contact is also super romantic and sexy. Who says anal can’t be passionate?

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Lean-In Cowgirl

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Try it: Straddle your partner, and slowly slide yourself down at your own pace. Lean forward, placing both hands on your partner's shoulder—and you can even lean in to make out if you're feeling it.

Why it's great: Anal sex in the cowgirl position is especially hot because it gives the person on top all of the control.

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Reverse Cowgirl’n’Lean

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Try it: Have your partner lie on his back. Straddle him backward and slide down at your leisure. Have your partner stimulate your clit, while you offer them a ultra-sexy view of your backside.

How to: Reverse cowgirl is basically the most overrated vaginal sex position ever. In the anal sex world, however, this position is amazing because the person on top gets to control depth and thrusting pattern with relative ease.

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Backsided Lotus

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How to: Have your partner sit on the bed or couch. Climb on top of his lap. Slide down so you’re face-to-face.

Why it's great: Lotus is touted as one of the most intimate and romantic positions there is. Here, you're as close to your partner as possible, and get some eye-contact time that can be oh-so-hot.

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Tilted Doggy Style

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How to: Get on all fours, and have your partner enter you from behind. From here, your partner can easily stroke your nipples or clitoris, too.

Why it's great: Doggy style is the classic anal sex position for a reason: It's perfect for deep penetration, and you can arch your back for even deeper thrusts, which can help target that infamous A-spot.

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Standing Straight Doggy

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How to: Stand with your back to your partner, pressing yourself entirely against his body. Have him enter you from behind. For added romance, have him wrap his arms around you—caressing your breasts. You can also mix things up by bending over into a forward fold.

Why it's great: From here, you can have your partner kiss (bite?) your neck and shoulders during doggy. This is also a great time to break out that trusty vibe for some added clit simulation.

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Upside Down Pretzel

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Try it: While on your back, bring your legs up to both shoulders, hooking your hands behind your knees. Have your partner enter you from above, using his hands to balance above you.

Why it's great: Calling all anal veterans! If you’re a gal who loves deep penetration, this is a must-try.

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Chest-Down Doggy

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How to: While on your knees, lean forward and place your chest on the bed. Have your partner enter you from behind. For deeper penetration, have your partner lean back and hold your hips to pull you in.

Why it's great: If you’re someone who regularly engages in anal sex, this is a great position. Plus, from here, you can reach between your legs and use either a toy or your fingers to stimulate your clit.

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Pile Driver

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How to: Lie on your back and bring your legs up over your head. The more flexible you are the better. Try to get your butt as high in the air as possible.Have your partner lower himself onto you. He should have great access to lean down and stimulate your clitoris.

Why it's great: Sometimes there is nothing hotter than having your partner control your body, especially during anal sex. This position works best for more advanced anal-lovers.

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