Wednesday, December 4, 2013

Fringe Benefits

I shared with you guys my state of mind early last month. I figured why not again. Honestly, I didn't have a topic lined up today, just a clever little post title. So, chatting about feelings seemed like an easy route for post content, plus it is Random Wednesday after all.

Heart Broken -Logan admitted that she doesn't believe in our Elf on the Shelf anymore. She said she knew last year, but played along with the "game". I wanted to continue the magical lies, but I didn't have the heart to keep the story going. She is on the fence about Santa Claus, but I think we have her believing one more year. I know this is not what Christmas is all about, but it rips me up inside knowing that Santa will most likely not exist to her this time next year. They grow up too fast. At least she is keeping her lips sealed for Landry and all her friends at school. I may or may not have threatened her if she spilled the beans.

Stressed - Hmmmm, where should I begin? Holiday gift buying, Christmas cards need to be addressed and mailed, Ross's birthday is tomorrow, hosting company Christmas party at our house Saturday, need oil change, car registration and inspection two months expired (Dad, I swear I am doing it this week), no food in the fridge, laundry overflowing, dishwasher broken and Landry's fish bit the dust (total meltdown in our house). I won't go any further. Just SO much going on right now I need a brown paper sack.

Beyonce-ful - In brighter news, I am going to see Beyonce in Dallas on Monday with two of my best gals. We bought our tickets months ago and have been counting down the days. I love this woman, possibly obsessed...her voice, music, choreography, legs and just her in general. I am sure I will be blowing up Instagram all day Monday. Just warning you.

Joyful -
All the stress at the end of the day is worth all the joy that this
time of year brings. Yes, I am running around like a chicken with my
head cut off. I am sure most of us are, but isn't this the most magical
time? At this very moment I am soaking it all in; Christmas movies on
every night, Peppermint Twist candle aroma filling my home, twinkling lights sprinkled around the house, the kids
being on their best behavior because Santa is making his list, random
acts of kindness from strangers, the hustle and bustle at the stores,
peppermint chocolate chip milkshakes at Chic-fil-A, spiked apple cider by the fire, burlap bows, Mariah Carey's All I Want for Christmas
on repeat and the list goes on. I just need to remind myself that this
is the season of giving, joy, love and celebrating my Savior. All the
other "stuff" really is just icing on the cake...thick, homemade,
vanilla icing with lots of sprinkles.

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Bummer that Logan is doesn't believe in Elf on the Shelf anymore. My son is starting to question things and I am so not ready for him to not believe yet. He is already not wanting to kiss me goodbye when I drop him off at school and he is only 5!!!

I would love to see Beyonce in concert - she is just awesome all around. I am sure she will put on an awesome show!

Cute fringe! Kids do grow up fast. My girls still believe and are fearful of black coal in their stockings. ;) I have barely done any holiday shopping... yikes! We did get our lights up on the house and trees this week and it definitely feels festive. :)

You always put together the cutest outfits! I get so many great ideas from you! I have a denim vest that I purchased 20 years ago and I still have it in my closet! Now I need a southwestern sweater! As for Santa, my kiddo is almost a teen, and he still comes to my house. We leave cookies and milk and write him letters. Because if you don't believe, you get socks underwear;) Susan

I think I found out in second grade about Santa and I was seriously devastated. AND I told my cousin and got grounded until Christmas. Bad girl... Love that look by the way and trust me, I totally feel you on the stress!

I can totally relate to the holiday stress though it is my favorite time of year! The calendar is overflowing and so much to get done. Hope you find some time to de-stress and have a few moments to breathe!

Last year, after Christmas, my girls and I had a talk about Santa and all other "legendary figures." However, they are still talking up Santa this year, so that their brother is none the wiser. My hubby's birthday is this week too...along with two Christmas programs, etc. Busy, but joyful times!! :)

Your bag is so lovely! Oh the bitter sweet holiday season, it comes with the territory you will survive. So jealous of your Beyonce concert, trust me cant wait to see the updates on instagram.DeeMs Dee Kay

Hi Shanna! Thank you so much for the link up!! You look beautiful, I love the outfit!! Thank you for this post- I needed to see a dose of reality this holiday. I have stresses up the wazoo too and its very nice to know i'm not the only one!! Thanks so much again for sharing!! XOXO

We have almost the exact same stresses. Finally got the Christmas cards out this morning, Christmas parties all around, got car inspected yesterday, but didn't have time for the oil change, we have no food in our house and no clothes either because I refuse to spend the few moments of peace I get every night doing laundry!!

omg you'll be in dallas!! i would say we should meet up but you're going to see beyonce. dangit i want to go! im sorry about logan and elf on the shelf, that would make me sad too! i also want to tell you- if you link something and i want to buy it i always try to go back through your site and buy it there since i know that benefits you :)

Love this sweater! I had considered buying it but it was short on me:-( I have been eyeing ur necklace too for some time!BTW, I ordered the brown houndstooth jacket from F21 and I hope it looks half as good on me as it did on you in ur insta pics:-)Hope you are having a wonderful day!-JyotiStyle-Delights Blog

First, I'm dying over that fringe top, I need! Second, I agree with the stress of Christmas (gift buying, ugh!) and the joys (Xmas music, shows and treats!) It's such love/hate holiday for me, but having the kids makes it worth it. I think we have a couple of years left of Santa for my daughter, I can see how that is weird when they don't believe anymore, bittersweet, right?

I love love LOVE the fringe!! I seriously need to get me some! Love the denim vest over it too. It's never the same after they discover Santa's not real :( At least that's how it was for me as a kid (I don't have any of my own yet) Jessihttp://haircutandgeneralattitude.blogspot.com

You did it again. Another amazing outfit. I love the fringe and denim vest, such a cute combo. Holidays always stress me out and I don't have half as many things to do as you. Maybe do the holiday cards while waiting for your car to be inspected... there I helped. :)

You look like a rockstar! Love the knee high boots! I'm hoping the holidays become less stressful for you and that you can just enjoy everything! I'm sure your kids and family appreciate all the hard work you put into making this time of the year special!~JessicaJeans and a Teacup

My nephew is 2 and they live with my parents - we have an elf on the shelf and we're all so excited to have a kid who believes in santa in the house again! So, i can understand your heartbreak/disappointment!! LOOOOVE this outfit and have a blast at Beyonce!!

Let me tell you, I am 30 years old and I have NEVER stopped believing in Santa. It makes me sad when kids do, but hopefully she will keep her ideas to herself for a while. And how have I not heard of Chick-fil-a's peppermint chocolate chip shakes?!?!? MUST. TRY. NOW!

Although this outfir isn't really my style, I DO like the way you've put it together. It looks comfy! We have had "Santa" in the house for years. With my niece just being a little over a year and a half now, Santa is back!

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