Background: Married 3 years, TTC for ~10 cycles now (I have lost track as I wasn’t charting temps or cm for many many cycles.

Tracking method if any? Currenting charting temps and CM on FF

Are you TTC? Yes!

Days Past Ovulation? I have no idea…FF has changed my O date twice this month. This morning, when I was finally 9 DPO of the first revised date, it changed AGAIN. I’m going nuts because my TWW keeps getting extended.

When is AF due? If I’m going by my body’s typical rhythm, I’m due next Tuesday (CD31), according to FF’s revised O date, I’m now due for AF the following week.

When are you going to test? I have no idea.

How do you or are you dealing with the TWW? I’m trying to stay calm and involved in social activities, work, etc….but my O date jumping twice this month (according to FF), is making me a little crazy.

Any help or advice any of you other bees have would be amazing. Thank you!!

Background: Married a year and a half and finalizing the purchase of our first home in December. I found out about my mmc (missed miscarriage) end of August after having gotten pregnant in June on our 2nd cycle TTC after BC. Had a D&C in the beginning of September and had to wait one cycle afterwards.

Tracking method if any? Just keeping track of dates for now. Wasn’t planning on TTC again so soon.

Are you TTC? No, not per se. We had decided to wait until January so we could be settled in our new home and reevaluate our emotions. But using condoms made me sad and made me feel like we were preventing the one thing we truly want, so we allowed ourselves to get a bit carried away a few times without protection. We’re kind of in the mode of whatever happens, happens and if I’m not pregnant by the new year we’ll actively TTC.

Days past ovulation? Based on my typical O pains, I’d say 7 but not sure, I’ve heard cycles after miscarriages are a bit wonky.

When is AF due? Based on my typical cycle length, Nov 3-7, but again, it’s unpredictable at this point.

When are you going to test? Since I’m not sure how good our chances are this month based on timing, and I’m still a bit emotional, I’m going to try to put it out of my mind until at least Nov 8 and go from there.

Dealing with the TWW? Packing to move and telling myself it probably won’t happen since we weren’t really “trying” and I’m not ready to get too consumed by this!