... You need a right partner who can deal with your problem, the one who would untie your insecurities. The one that you would put the trust to him, in the end, because he's worth for it.
This man would never get tired to understand what your problem is, he would listen when everytime you need to be listened to, he is the one that would pour you with the greatest love he has.
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... ou join in the fun. Sounds mean to me. I would totally be butt hurt. Our lives are lived together and shared, communication is part of that and he needs to be man enough to get this out in the open. ... (7 replies)

... Men who are in relationships still masterbate because even when they are having regular sex with a woman, they still use it as a tool to relax or to release or just to relieve some stress. ... (7 replies)

... Why do women masturbate if they have a man?
Possibly because masturbation allows them to be totally selfish, get right to the desired result, and not have to worry about the partner. And sometimes their partner might not feel like it. (6 replies)

... yeah i also have to say i masterbate on a regular basis my boyf doesnt know as im worried that he would be upset as sometimes i just dont want sex i just want a quick 'release' if he asks i say i dont(even though he would be stupid if he believed me) but we do masterbate together so we arent denying anything (22 replies)

... I agree,
sometimes if I think I may hurt my g/f feelings by doing something that I know will hurt her feelings then I don't, or not let her know if I do or I don't.
So if I have a fantasy about another woman I don't tell her I do, and yeah if I masterbate about another woman then thats my private time to satisfiy myself/and altho she satisfies me and theres no problems... (22 replies)

... If he is masturbating to men-on-men then it sounds like that's the sex that is appealing to him. MANY men get married, and live lives as a straight man, but are "in the closet" the whole time.... never being true to those in their lives, and (almost more importantly) never being true to themselves.
If he is attracted to men, this would without a doubt explain the lack of... (8 replies)

... I think you already know what the problem is. I know it will be hard to face, but if your man is interested in homosexual sex, there is pretty much nothing you can do to compete with that. ... (8 replies)

... We we got engaged it was like a switch turned it off. He never wanted to have sex. IF we did it was once a month if I was luckly. I have never in my life had a man say no so many times. He had a headace, tummy ace, felt fat, etc etc. I started giving up on even trying to get him to. ... (8 replies)

... masterbation is normal no matter how attractive your partner is or how often you have intercourse.. it doesnt matter! sometimes a man or a women needs to do it, cant someone have sometime to themselves? ... (22 replies)

... I've done my reserch on why men masterbate and now I have a better understanding why they do. However, I'm still jealous when my man isolates himself away from me to please himself. I think... no, I know I'm a sexy women with deadly curves in the right place. ... (22 replies)

... Could it be possible that you are "addicted" to sex? You probably want to laugh, but i have an addictive personality-----also a recovering addict. I think about sex 24/7.........masterbate several times a day to porn as well, and my husband has a very low sex drive!!!! Our sex life drives me insane!! I have been like this since a very young age, and really im not sure what... (13 replies)

... n pretty infrequent lately but I don't think it's over, end of discussion. For the record, I'm 53 and think of sex pretty often. I just can't imagine a healthy man of my age or younger to only want to masterbate. Sure, it's convenient and no one loves you like yourself but that's honestly not enough for most folks. ... (4 replies)

... That's really sad. I'd probably leave, because being wanted is more important to me than sex. And now that I'm 48, I've suddenly stopped wanting sex much at all. You might only have a few years left. My gyno says it's very common for women to stop wanting it as they get older. I wish I'd know this when I was younger! (6 replies)

... I'm 22 and only had sex with one man in my life. we where both virgins the first time we had sex and we never saw any one else the whole time we were together for 5 years on and off. ... (1 replies)