My boyfriend constantly asks to have sex in public places. I feel like he needs other people in the mix to get off  even if no one actually sees us. Should I let him know that the exhibitionist thing makes me feel like I'm not enough?

For now, stop having sex in public if it makes you feel that way  sex shouldn't bum you out.

That said, I think you may misunderstand your boyfriend's public displays of erection. His desire for public sex doesn't mean he lacks desire for you. A lot of men  and women  get turned on by the danger of it: They view it as an enhancement of their sex lives.

So tell him that you're not okay with doing it in public...but add that you're eager to explore new things that he'd be into and which you would be comfortable with.