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Omg i need out of this

So my fiance and I have been together for almost four years now and I just cannot take it anymore, all we do is fight because he thinks he is gods gift to the world and I dont think so, and than we are always braking up and he always takes my engagement ring from me and than will take the cords to all the electronics in the house so that I cannot use them. he will refuse to help me with our child and than calls me names through out the whole process which really hurts my feelings. i just need to get out of this he is emotionally abusive and i really do not deserve it ;(

So then leave. You dont even have to give a hint anything is wrong. I pretended all was right in the world, then went to do laundry and never went back in my first marriage. He was abusive, mean and I really just wanted to punch his face in every time I saw him. I made an escape plan. I told no one. Not even my mom.

I definitely agree you need to get out of that... But all the cords to all the electronics?? What does he want you to sit in the corner?? Do you know where this emotional abuse is coming from?? And i know you say you've been together for 4 years but how long have you been living together??

Take it from me, I was with my sons father for 4 years as well, he was physically and verbally abusive towards me in front of my son. I was to the point I was like the women on tv lying to my family saying my wrist was snapped because I'd fallen. NO man is worth you or your sons happiness and safety. And the things he is doing are very childish. I used the excuse for a year and and a half that my son 'needeed' his dad. But he wasn't even being a dad to him, that was just my excuse to stay. Walk away while you still can sweetheart. I left, it was hard, but I survived and now my son has a real father and I have a real man who stands by my side and I know would never do or say anything to hurt me.