Courage

"We must have the courage to allow a little disorder in our lives." – Ben Weininger

Creating anything new is a messy process. To create a new and better
relationship, for example, we have to uproot, disassemble, or tear
apart what we’ve had and then try to put it all together in a new way.
If we can’t deal with conflict, disorder, uncertainty, disruption, or
upset, we’ll avoid change in general, and end up stuck in a neat but
deadening rut.