I have never used another woman's toys myself, even as a teenager. With that being said, I can understand some women wanting their toys only for themselves, because sex toys by their nature are very personal possessions. I, however, am a bit disappointed by the number of fellow women who think it's gross to share them because it's unsanitary. As long as you clean them with an alcohol based toy cleaner or a mild detergent, you shouldn't be concerned at all with sharing your toys (especially with a lover) over sanitary reasons. We're not afraid to lick, kiss or suck our lover's most intimate parts (namely pussies, cocks, nipples) so why should we be concerned about sharing sex toys. As a woman, I definitely don't think my pussy is gross and don't ever hesitate to touch my pussy over fear that doing so is "because my that area of my body is dirty". On another note, I suspect my younger sister may have found and used one of my toys a few years ago while i was staying at my parent's house (visiting). I never approached her about it though. I just cleaned the toy before I used it on myself and never confronted her about using my sex toy. I have a few secrets I'm keeping from her, and I'll let her think she has at least one of her own.

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I have never used another woman's toys myself, even as a teenager. With that being said, I can understand some women wanting their toys only for themselves, because sex toys by their nature are very personal possessions. I, however, am a bit disappointed by the number of fellow women who think it's gross to share them because it's unsanitary. As long as you clean them with an alcohol based toy cleaner or a mild detergent, you shouldn't be concerned at all with sharing your toys (especially with a lover) over sanitary reasons. We're not afraid to lick, kiss or suck our lover's most intimate parts (namely pussies, cocks, nipples) so why should we be concerned about sharing sex toys. As a woman, I definitely don't think my pussy is gross and don't ever hesitate to touch my pussy over fear that doing so is "because my that area of my body is dirty". On another note, I suspect my younger sister may have found and used one of my toys a few years ago while i was staying at my parent's house (visiting). I never approached her about it though. I just cleaned the toy before I used it on myself and never confronted her about using my sex toy. I have a few secrets I'm keeping from her, and I'll let her think she has at least one of her own.

The OP never said "lover" he said room mate or friend, there is a difference in levels of intimacy shared there.I don't think any woman here would refer to thier pussy as gross or dirty! That seems like a very old fashioned set of beliefs, they just don't want to share their intimate toys. To each his own, i'm still not sharing.

The OP never said "lover" he said room mate or friend, there is a difference in levels of intimacy shared there.I don't think any woman here would refer to thier pussy as gross or dirty! That seems like a very old fashioned set of beliefs, they just don't want to share their intimate toys. To each his own, i'm still not sharing.

I agree. Like I already said, when I was a teen me and my best friend took her moms dildo and tried it. We did not clean it first, were just so excited about using a dildo for the first time we didnt think of any consequences(except her mom finding out) or being sanitary. But as an adult, I wouldnt use a sex toy that belonged to someone I was not already intimate with. And its not that I would be really worried about catching something but more out of respect. They are very personal items.

I was merely suggesting that I didn't like the underlying implied connotation that toys should not be shared because of sanitary reasons as long as they're cleaned after use. Maybe I took it the wrong way but when someone says "ewww that is gross", because that is how I would interpret that. I'm not dispelling the fact they're personal items, because they are indeed VERY personal. I know the OP mentioned roomie or friend as far as using others' toys. For that matter, I won't be sharing my toys with anyone who i'm not intimate with. As crazydiamond said, to each his own. We all have the free will to do as we wish, and then either reap the rewards or consequences of our actions.

In the scenario set out by the original question I would have to go through her personal belongings without her knowledge or consent to find her toys in the first place, I would then be using her toys under the same circumstances.

Those being: Dishonest, deceitful, disrespectful and it's also borrowing something without permission which is equal to theft in my opinion

So be it sex toys or any other item of someone else’s private property my answer would be…

In the scenario set out by the original question I would have to go through her personal belongings without her knowledge or consent to find her toys in the first place, I would then be using her toys under the same circumstances.

Those being: Dishonest, deceitful, disrespectful and it's also borrowing something without permission which is equal to theft in my opinion

So be it sex toys or any other item of someone else’s private property my answer would be…

No… never

this says it perfectly. i use my wife's toys, and she uses mine, but there is consent there. Live, love, laugh.

OMG yes! I've borrowed my sisters more than once! I have always cleaned it though before returning! And no, she doesn't know or will never know! I've also caught my old flat mate at uni using one of mines! She borrowed mine so often that when it came to moving she ended up taking it! Come to think of it she never did buy me the new one she promised!!! xTry before you buy x

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