Cultural Comparisons 4

Daily Life in the USA vs. Germany

In the charts below you’ll find a simplified comparison of various customs and everyday culture in the United States and Germany (Deutschland). For more details, click on any linked topic. See the bottom of this page for a complete list of topics.

The fork is held in the right hand. When using a knife, it replaces the fork, which is switched to the left hand during cutting. Emily Post called this the “zig-zag” style.

The fork is held in the left hand, the knife in the right hand. Both remain in your hands except when drinking or passing items. This is the European style.

Americans like to eat many foods, including pizza, with their hands. Except for formal dining, there are many “finger foods.” Eating with your hands is considered efficient and proper.

Germans rarely eat food with their hands. Even pizza is eaten with a knife and fork! Hands are used only at a BBQ, a fastfood restaurant, or for hors d’oeuvres/canapes. Otherwise, eating with your hands is considered barbaric.

Many Americans say grace before a meal. Someone might say “Bon appetit!” or “Enjoy!,” but it is not very common to do so.

Few Germans say grace, but they almost always say “Guten Appetit!” before everyone at the table begins eating.

A common toast with beer or wine is “Cheers!” or “To your health!”

A common toast with beer or wine is “Prost!” or “Zum Wohl!”

Americans keep their hands under the table or in their lap. No elbows on the table!

Seasoning: In both countries, you should not apply seasoning (salt, pepper, etc.) before tasting your food. Ketchup is very common and often Tabasco sauce as well.

If they need to leave the table for some reason, some people place their napkin on the seat of their chair. It is better to place it left of your plate.

If you need to leave the table for some reason, place your napkin to the left of your plate – never on the seat of your chair.

Soft-boiled eggs are rarely served for breakfast.

Soft-boiled eggs are part of a continental breakfast. Place the egg in an egg cup before tapping the top with your knife or egg spoon and peeling the shell. Some Germans frown on cutting off the tip, but it’s OK to do so.

Good Manners: In the US, the name Emily Post (1872-1960) is synonymous with good manners. Her work continues today with the Emily Post Institute. In Germany, the name Knigge is associated with good manners and books on etiquette, although Adolph Freiherr Knigge (1752-1796) never wrote an actual etiquette book. Today, Der große Knigge is one of the most popular manners guides in German.
More information about this topic: Table Manners in Germany
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