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Mark wrote: “Hi Liz, I’ve been watching your YouTube videos and reading some material on your site. I really like your take on a lot of things. With that said, I have a couple questions. I’m a straight male who enjoys wearing men’s thongs. I think they are the sexiest thing and I love how …

Liz: “I’m happy we connected over Twitter a couple of years ago! I enjoy reading your balanced, reasonable, experienced answers to the letters you receive on your website TheTaoOfIndifference.com” Demetrius: “Thanks Liz! I’m glad we connected on Twitter all those years back as well. I think you take a very balanced and reasonable approach to …

Anon wrote: “Hey Liz, I saw your YouTube video about ball busting fetishes and I wanted to weigh in and seek advice on the topic. I don’t know what it is. I stumbled upon ball busting on the Internet and ever since then I’ve been obsessed or just intrigued by the act. I have once …

Itachi310 wrote: “Hey Liz, I just came across your channel and you have a lot of useful advice I can use daily, especially in relationships. I wanted to know if you ever touched on the topic of some men still being a virgin past a certain age like 19-20 (there are A LOT who are …

William wrote: “I am in high school, just finishing my freshman year. l am attending a very prestigious, all boys school. I am very bad at talking to girls in general. I am in ‘The Freshman Drama’ (a parody of Law and Order) and there is this girl I sort of like but I can’t …

“David” wrote: “So I met this girl in college, I sat next to her talked and flirted she seemed cool with it. I asked for her phone number and she gave it to me. The problem is she doesn’t text me back regularly. I text her she replies the next day sometimes longer but she …

Boot Lover wrote: “When I was about 16 years old I realised I had a “thing” for women wearing knee high boots. There was one girl at school who did, and it’s not as if she was someone I lusted after or the one that every guy wanted. She was nice, and I realised that …

J.G. wrote: “Hi. I’m a 28 year-old disabled guy. I’m not good looking and never had sex or been in a relationship. I am becoming more self-conscious about this, as most people I know have had several partners by my age. I’m too shy to even act interested in women for fear of being humiliated …

C.S. wrote: “Hey Liz, great blog, it really helps a lot. My question is does testicle size really matter to a girl? I am 6’4, a good size and my gf and a few exes always stated that my balls are very small compared to the rest of me and that semen amount matters when …

“Allen” asked: “Until very recently, I was a 22 year old virgin, who is so painfully shy I can barely talk to women without getting flustered and nervous. I am in decent shape and not hideous, although a little nerdy. I recently met a girl in a coffee shop near my college who shared my …