wow... i have something better than crossbows to teach boyfriends that sorta thing... ready?WITHHOLDING!!!!!!you'd be suprised how fast they can truely learn"All things done easier when done willingly" and all

he actually shot him with a crossbow? Kinda on a wall on this one cause i dont know the details but i am a firm believer that Stupid and weapons should never mix. ( Explanitory note: when i say stupid i mean ideas, because smart people can be subject to stupid ideas taking over ever once in a while.)

Even I think that crossbow shooting is a little extreme, but that's probably just because crossbows are potentially lethal. I suggest teaching him through less extreme methods like hitting him upside the head with with a golf club.