This video is off the chains. Listen to the video and tell me what you think. I personally think this
speaks to so many issues that you hear in the manosphere as far as frustrations with dating especially
for those that date black women.

I just wanna start off by saying all I ever dated was Black women and I dont prefer anything else. I just dont have the time to go thru a million hurdles. For men who have mediocre self-value and extra time they will gladly oblige the shit tests, but the more self value you have, the less likely you are willing to subject yourself. For example, it is highly unlikely a brother who is high status and/or "Masters of the Universe" is gonna put up with a gang of shit tests if they are dished out to him. Those cats are so inclined that they will just cut her off and move on to the next woman.

Another thing is if a woman sees you as a "Select" she will not give you those shit tests, she will fall in line immediately, because she doesnt want to risk the possibility of losing you. Women only shit test men who are "Non-select". This also gives justification to why they play hard to get with certain men. She is only playing hard to get with the guy she is not fully attracted to (physically, intellectually, etc).

Also, shit tests are sometimes the precursor to set you up to be disrespected. Women have to be extra careful with that. I know a couple chicks who thought they were testing their man only to find out they self-sabotaged themselves and ruined the relationship.

In the end he made alot of good points and the most prominent one is the fact he said there are good Black women out there. That is something I agree with whole-heartedly. I think many of us focus so much on the hoodrats and their dysfunction that we tend to negate the good Black women that are right under our noses as we speak.

(04-10-2018, 01:33 AM)jerry bogard Wrote: I just wanna start off by saying all I ever dated was Black women and I dont prefer anything else. I just dont have the time to go thru a million hurdles. For men who have mediocre self-value and extra time they will gladly oblige the shit tests, but the more self value you have, the less likely you are willing to subject yourself. For example, it is highly unlikely a brother who is high status and/or "Masters of the Universe" is gonna put up with a gang of shit tests if they are dished out to him. Those cats are so inclined that they will just cut her off and move on to the next woman.

Another thing is if a woman sees you as a "Select" she will not give you those shit tests, she will fall in line immediately, because she doesnt want to risk the possibility of losing you. Women only shit test men who are "Non-select". This also gives justification to why they play hard to get with certain men. She is only playing hard to get with the guy she is not fully attracted to (physically, intellectually, etc).

Also, shit tests are sometimes the precursor to set you up to be disrespected. Women have to be extra careful with that. I know a couple chicks who thought they were testing their man only to find out they self-sabotaged themselves and ruined the relationship.

In the end he made alot of good points and the most prominent one is the fact he said there are good Black women out there. That is something I agree with whole-heartedly. I think many of us focus so much on the hoodrats and their dysfunction that we tend to negate the good Black women that are right under our noses as we speak.

I agree with you, but I did want to clarify one point you mentioned. All women shit test men, regardless of whether they are dating them or not. Your Mom will shit test you, your daughter, your date, wife, girlfriend, friend, and etc, it doesn't matter. Now, they may not shit test you to the degree that a woman you're dating/sleeping with/etc would, but they still do it, its just done in a different manner. As for black women shit testing, I love black women. I have a video up about not being mad at black women on my YouTube channel. To me they are more challenging (along with a close second with Latino and Asians – don’t believe the submissive stereotype if they are Americanized). Black women keep my game weight up lol. White women to me are too easy, but don’t think these easy women don’t shit test you, they do, and in fact, are more sneaky about it. It’s super obvious when black women do it. White women are more cunning with their shit test (though it’s still easy to recognize this with all women). The so called “easy women” do it later on, where as black women do it up front. If you pass black women’s shit tests up front, it’s smooth sailing in my opinion. Keep in mind with all women, they will shit test you every now and then no matter how Alpha you are just to confirm you are still “the man.”

(04-10-2018, 01:33 AM)jerry bogard Wrote: I just wanna start off by saying all I ever dated was Black women and I dont prefer anything else. I just dont have the time to go thru a million hurdles. For men who have mediocre self-value and extra time they will gladly oblige the shit tests, but the more self value you have, the less likely you are willing to subject yourself. For example, it is highly unlikely a brother who is high status and/or "Masters of the Universe" is gonna put up with a gang of shit tests if they are dished out to him. Those cats are so inclined that they will just cut her off and move on to the next woman.

Another thing is if a woman sees you as a "Select" she will not give you those shit tests, she will fall in line immediately, because she doesnt want to risk the possibility of losing you. Women only shit test men who are "Non-select". This also gives justification to why they play hard to get with certain men. She is only playing hard to get with the guy she is not fully attracted to (physically, intellectually, etc).

Also, shit tests are sometimes the precursor to set you up to be disrespected. Women have to be extra careful with that. I know a couple chicks who thought they were testing their man only to find out they self-sabotaged themselves and ruined the relationship.

In the end he made alot of good points and the most prominent one is the fact he said there are good Black women out there. That is something I agree with whole-heartedly. I think many of us focus so much on the hoodrats and their dysfunction that we tend to negate the good Black women that are right under our noses as we speak.

I agree with you, but I did want to clarify one point you mentioned. All women shit test men, regardless of whether they are dating them or not. Your Mom will shit test you, your daughter, your date, wife, girlfriend, friend, and etc, it doesn't matter. Now, they may not shit test you to the degree that a woman you're dating/sleeping with/etc would, but they still do it, its just done in a different manner. As for black women shit testing, I love black women. I have a video up about not being mad at black women on my YouTube channel. To me they are more challenging (along with a close second with Latino and Asians – don’t believe the submissive stereotype if they are Americanized). Black women keep my game weight up lol. White women to me are too easy, but don’t think these easy women don’t shit test you, they do, and in fact, are more sneaky about it. It’s super obvious when black women do it. White women are more cunning with their shit test (though it’s still easy to recognize this with all women). The so called “easy women” do it later on, where as black women do it up front. If you pass black women’s shit tests up front, it’s smooth sailing in my opinion. Keep in mind with all women, they will shit test you every now and then no matter how Alpha you are just to confirm you are still “the man.”

Just like they keep men on their toes, you have to do the same. As a result, you have to test them back from time to time.... I dont know what it is, but women are attracted to men who can be a dickhead every once in a while.

You have to give her a reason to work for your validation and approval every here and there. When a man stops giving a woman a reason to work for his validation and approval, he starts becoming a simp. This usually ends up with her low key working for another man's approval because she is not incentivised at home....all while leading to her pussy getting destroyed by another man (coworker, classmate, etc).....Ultimately, it all ties into giving a woman instructions, which plays a big role in her following your lead.

Another thing to think about is the environment the Black woman was raised in. If she was raised in a mixed neighborhood, suburb with 2 parents at home, her degree of shit tests will probably be far lesser than a woman who came from the hood, single parent home, with numerous bad run ins with men as long as she can remember. Conditions dictate behavior

I agree on the topic of American non-Black women. Alot of cats generalize them like they are a viable option, but little do they they know American culture in general has brainwashed a large chunk of these women of all ethnicities. I have friends that dated Americanized Latinas and Asians only to find out they dont believe in submission and refuse to take any type of accountability like many of the women in their primary community (i.e. Black women)

As far as relationships go it depends on her level of attraction to you (physically, intellectually, etc.). There were women I dated who never shit tested me and then there were women who gave me a thousand shit tests. The reason some of them never tested me is because I was their first choice, hence the reason they didnt want to jeopardize ruining the relationship.....Now on the other hand, the other women put me through a gang of shit all because I wasnt their first choice.

If you are a woman's first choice the probability of you being tested is slim to none.......Women are smarter than we think, they know who to shit test and who not to shit test.

Shit test is a woman thing. Not just a black woman thing. Unless you have someone who is hella thirsty. If guys are asking for a desirable women to just bend over, good luck.

The problem is there are too many black men who will holla at and smash anything. When you have millionaire black athletes chasing IG hoes, its a sign. You don't see non black athletes all up in IG hollaring at these hoes.

You have rappers wifeying up hoes that have been ran through. Even if she's famous, a baby mama is a baby mama. If you are an established rapper, why are you hollaring at Ciara? or anyone with a kid? Even if the woman is famous? You have famous brothers still tryna smash Supa head even though she puts your business out in the streets.

Too many weak ass simp brothers even as celebs. So its hard for thorough brothers to get at quality sisters because we reward hoe ish behavior.