about love

‘Liebe Sich Wer Kann’ is a german adage and has a lot of different
meanings which depends on your own understanding.

what exactly does that mean? a sentence of immense importance in every
imaginable direction.

in terms of self-love we are
talking about strengths and weaknesses. on a physical as well as psychic basis, usually also connected with aesthetics. Loving oneself is easier said than done, that is not for the
debate.

but if we learn to respect our weaknesses or learn to love the mistake,
we build a foundation for our strengths. one cannot exist without the other, resulting in moments of strength, weakness reaches out to us or strengthens

us and helps us to recover when our weak side pulls us down. that
completes our mind.

why do we want something that so obviously belongs together, separates
and pushes away from us?

maybe we should learn to love the process because our bodies and
minds are changing with every passing day we grow older.

self-love. with everything included: emotions such as anger,
aggression, grief or joy, love and warmth. at first glance, a good and a bad side. positive and negative emotions. pain and joy. but here, too, there is no love without hate and no joy without pain,
and vice versa.

gernerosity is the result.

all of this requires a lot of courage, in a society that often shows us
the opposite.

furthermore, this sentence can also excellently refer to the generation
'relationship-incompatible'*. at a time when we can take everything easy and enjoy our sexuality without any stress or mystery, i'm not sure if we have lost ourselves in a new standard or in an
outdated form of the standardized image of a regularly functioning relationship. how does it look?

dates followed by regular contact and physical closeness. only without
higher emotions. everything just "friendly". it seems to me that today we sign an imaginary contract when we confess our feelings to another person who is important to our lives.

but above all, my feeling is that the hardest task is to let go of
ourselves and admit that there is someone who could be dangerous to us.

why? because there is someone in our lives who underpins and reinforces
the foundation of our strengths?

are we afraid that it breaks down, should the paths part or don't we
want to lose the opportunity to further options?

but whom, who always keeps all doors open, will spend their life in the
corridor?

i would like to see, hear and feel more love. live the moment. do we
feel it? why do not we say it and live it? these experiences do not provide for a much more valuable experience and memory treasure, which would give us a much greater willingness to make us and
others happier. at least for the moment. who knows how many moments will follow. and come what may, but we have experienced it!

casual love and the freedom that we truly enjoy in the 21st century are
of paramount importance, but maybe we should take care that it does not become a permanent state from the phrase that we can do it.

and finally, on my list, the love for the other. if two people love
each other, how can a third one be disturbed by them?

why don’t we let others love how and who they
want, and look forward to their happiness?