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April 1, 2014 at 12:57 am

You mean an easy way out? Maybe. But I also made the experience that it won’t help you in the long term. The issues will come back, if you just take another option… Sometimes you have to fight hard until you are where you wanted to be.

Don’t set yourself under pressure and let things go their way. Sometimes it can help to change the subject for a while and look at it a bit later. You will be in a different mood, you will maybe have a different view. Maybe you won’t recognize a difference in your behavior, but sometimes that helps and sometimes things go easy that seemed to be impossible earlier.

@if you mind…stated simply- the age old question of should I try to save something that maybe the other doesn’t care to save? The confusing internal dialogue of “am I just going to regret having tried and basically giving them the ‘power’ to hurt me again”?

I decided to just go ahead and do what I want regardless and accept what follows. Which most probably will be nothing. I need to work on not having expectations and just “do” because it feels right for me.