We welcome Polish people to Britain!

I always thought that ppl with nicks like "rambo" are pathetic and ugly.

OH come ooooon. Will you create excuse for me to post such a **** like you created for manser? Im waiting. Dont be so biased toward brits. At least I didnt post that all brits should go to death camps.

I'm not a brit. and thanks, compared to what most girls call me, that would be a compliment. :)

I have no idea why you feel the need to call me stupid though, I'm just guessing there, not saying I knew for certain. and I'm not banging on the polish in general, but it seems you can't take any form of criticism or realism when it comes to subjects like criminality.

which is weak. because when some polish people talk like ''in almost every bar they sell drugs'' or ''all dutch are arrogant'' or ''unpleasant'' when they talked about ME and MY country..

did you see me get all offended? the answer is: no. because I do have an open mind and I do understand some bitterness. and unlike you, I know people have reasons and feelings and say things they don't really mean.

just listen to Arien he/she is bang on correct.

I'm a he by the way. just guessing mate, let's say a lot of things you've mentioned sounded awfully familiar. hope you chill out some.. things'll work out for you, sometimes

it just takes time and effort, and a lot of patience. :)

anyway, that's what I mean ola, you can't always tell what reasons, - right or wrong - someone might have for being a little ''excited''. :) we all have strong emotions sometimes. now if you'll accept manser's excuse, we might get along and even help eachother out and who knows we could even act friendly every now and then. :)

I think Arien has a point, Manser is hurt, we know he is hurt, how could we not know?He has written enough on the subject, and I do still remember what it feels like to be hurt in love, I am not that old :) The point is you do not say deeply deeply DEEPLY offensive things just because you are dissapointed in one person.

It's a good job, Aldona is a slow duck like you say and her English is poor, Manser, because if she came on here and read what you have written about her, her friends, her fellow countrymen and Poland in general I don't think her or her family would give you the time of day again. As it is you can live in hope.

Actually, I think you probably are an OK kinda guy, just immature like I said,but then you are only 20 so it kinda goes with the territory. It's just that when people read this kind of think they forget the person who wrote it is only 20 and they take it literally.

Don't forget we can all edit what we have written - don't be afraid to use that edit button now and again :)

Well, Xmas is over, so Happy New Year! Doseigo Nowego Roku!

PS. Arien, in answer to your question, yes I do have a twin, have you heard of Doda?

I have a reason for saying this. maybe you should really come and live where I live for a while. you'll get yourself stabbed in no time if you trust everyone around you. friendly polish? yeah sure they're like you and me all the same.. but in the not so fortunate neighbourhoods you'll find yourself the little less friendly polish.

Very diplomatically said Arien :), but manser isn't slaging off Polish people because he lives in a less fortunate area, but rather because he was dumped by a polish girl named Aldona. Instead of taking this rejection like a man he pity’s himself. The reason why he says all those nasty things about Poles and Poland is because, just like rafik wrote somewhere on this forum, he’s an attention seeker. He looks for sympathy, and after he gets it he says that he was wrong, but when people stop paying attention to him he starts the slaging all over again. Just like a little baby, that shouts in order to be noticed by his mother.He said many times that Aldona was very immature, but how else would you describe his behavior. I think I know what attracted these two to each other in the first place. Pathetic.

Manser, are you happen to be, by any chance, an only child? :) Just being curious.

I suppose I'll wait for the next aniah to come along then. or a magdalena. they must be out there somewhere and I never had a chance to say goodbye.

and I've never been a star in leaving without words, so maybe it's immature or silly, but unfinished bussiness really eats me. :) it's been almost two years ago now, I believe they're both 21 now. don't worry, she didn't break my heart.

yeah, some polish ladies actually do have class. :) and these two, well, if you ever come across them..

take a deep bow, trust me. they're angels. :)

Very diplomatically said Arien , but manser isn't slaging off Polish people because he lives in a less fortunate area, but rather because he was dumped by a polish girl named Aldona.

so you say. I noticed a few slang words and a way of talking you'll only find in certain areas. and like I said, I don't know the whole story, but do know people might have more reasons than meets the eye sometimes.

let's just say I'm no fan of not caring, you can seem the biggest prick in the world at first glance, but sometimes it doesn't have to be that way.

They do say you should never type when you're angry. You may say some regrettable things.

which everyone ofcourse, does sometimes? :) *cough* some more often than others. :) doesn't mean they stay that way.

some people might have more difficulties dealing with things than you have, no shame in that if you try to make up for it. it would be a shame if you never learn from it though.

so you say. I noticed a few slang words and a way of talking you'll only find in certain areas. and like I said, I don't know the whole story, but do know people might have more reasons than meets the eye sometimes.

If he really had some problems with nasty Poles before, I presume, after reading his posts, that he would have mentioned it abut zillion times already.

let's just say I'm no fan of not caring

It's nice to care, but when somebody is playing the "look at me, I'm so miserable, please comfort me and give me a big hug mommy" card it really gets on my nerves. Especially if the person talks crap about other people in order to get this attention.

It's nice to care, but when somebody is playing the "look at me, I'm so miserable, please comfort me and give me a big hug mommy" card it really gets on my nerves. Especially if the person talks crap about other people in order to get this attention.

I agree to a point, and you know, there is alot of people out there who havealot of anger, depression. were in a forum, so we cant take a look into hiseyes and say , yeah, this guy is really hurtin. were judging by his typing.

yes he said some mean stuff, but he is still growing, 20 years old , he hasnthad to many relationships to learn that Hurt goes along with them.

especially if this was his first true love. you can like many, but there is only one!

anyway, I probably make no sense.

Manser, just try to come out of that " I hate" mode, because it will eat you up!

you'll end up hurting someone you should really give a chance to, and that startsa whole viscious process. Like I said, its better to say I have loved then to neverloved at all.

Someone nice will come along and you will find your heart again.

and yes People. at times I am to soft hearted, but its Christmas and I dontfeel like being mean or stubborn! lol

Come ON Group HUG!!!! (((((((((((((((((( EVERYONE)))))))))))))))))))))))))!!

Mrs P you can be too nice at times, for me he was an attention seeking little pr*ck who thinks that because his x treated him badly, all Polish are the same and this is just simply not true, you know my feelings on people airing their dirty washing in public....its just simply not cricket! - english expression - meaning - its just not the done thing.....somethings should be kept between you and the other person...and not plastered all over the web...there are however two sides, she's probably just got on with things...

an attention seeking little pr*ck who thinks that because his x treated him badly, all Polish are the same

I am a Scot and I know many of my own people who are total scumbags! I also know English, Europeans, and Asians in a similar category. Thank God, though, that there are many, many good folk among these people. There's good and bad among all people, and I am pretty sure the good ones are a huge majority.

Mrs P you can be too nice at times, for me he was an attention seeking little pr*ck who thinks that because his x treated him badly, all Polish are the same and this is just simply not true, you know my feelings on people airing their dirty washing in public....its just simply not cricket! - english expression - meaning - its just not the done thing.....somethings should be kept between you and the other person...and not plastered all over the web...there are however two sides, she's probably just got on with things...

A He admitted it, and said he took it back, I plastered his dirty wash on the nethe was saying some really stupid stuff, but all out of anger, he is only 20 years oldprobably was his first real love, we dont know his whole story, or hers, Im notpicking sides, was just trying to get him back to his real self, anger can makeyou say things you dont mean. hes beginning life, and yes there can be Womenwho do treat you good at first then start changing, but still expect to be handedfreebies, and then when the freebies stop, they start actually calling and sayingwhats up?? <~that is an example, not saying that is what she did, but it happensand it happens alot in all cultures. just like men can do this to woman. its nota culture thing actually, but he did pick out the facts that she was polish, so hedid say (generalizing) some really stupid crap, I wont deny he didnt, but

what kind of people are we if we all jump down his throat and not let him heal.yes he told on the other forum, then I brought it here because I figured it wasanger, and it is. he identified with Arien on some of the things he posted. somaybe things will change for him, he can get some type of insight on how to dealwith what he is feeling, I know at age 20 I would continue on with things becauseI didnt understand them, why did he do this, what made him do that?then get angry and (generalize) ok, so all men are scum, but I said it out of angerand People do this.

can anyone say with truth that you never have generalized about a womansaying " I hate women all they do is take your money and run?" or dont getmarried all women are money hungry?

or for women, we say, men only want one thing?

if anyone never has said this, wow, you are one of a kind, because I hear it inalot of conversation, and when it happens to us, we say it.

I probably am to nice, I have been told this, but I do watch my own back, andtry to watch others as i go along, its a time healing thing. he will find someoneelse who he really likes, and or she will adore him, they will click, and end ofstory.

sorry if no one agrees with this, ya know, hes probably alone ( no girl) and everyone deep down wishes to have someone special in their lives at this time of year

I just think and try to be fair , and I could tell from posts it was anger, he didntjust come in and start posting bad things, so , from that observation I could tell.

and No I am not Dr Phils sidekick, but, I try to see the good in people as well.

NO Stones Please, I have worked to much overtime this week and cantthrow any back :) lol.

I plastered his dirty wash on the net

oops to calrify that, I was the one who brought this up about his GF because ofhis angry posts and the fact that I knew it was anger.

Call it an end yeh. I will see her again in the summer................................. and see how things work out, until i see her in the summe rI will be doing UNIVERSITY YEAR 1 BA APPLIED CRIMINOLOGY WITH PSYCHOLOGY. at Canterbury christ church university.

I finish in May and go borne sulinowo, Poland in may or june, early june with friend hopefully if not then thy be alone.

Hi - I'm fairly new to this forum, but thought I might a comment or two about the start of this thread.

I have a small cleaning company in the South of England. Over the last 12 months I have employed English, Germans, Czecks, Ukrainians and Polish. Currently all my staff are Polish. They are hard working, honest and loyal. I have helped them out from time to time as they are trying to start a new life here in England and have found that simple kindnesses are paid back tenfold.

Maybe I'm a bit simple, but it appears to me if you treat people well they return the favour. Those who started off as Polish employees have now become friends, irrespective of where they come from.

I am a childrens nurse who has recently nursed a few children (there parents can't speak english I can't speak polish) do you no of any flash cards that can be purchased in english and polish with pictures on.?