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Sunday, May 22, 2011

GROUP Sex Parties -- Monday, May 23 to Sunday, May 29

Sex Parties -- Monday, May 23 to Sunday, May 29...

***HOT PICKS OF THE WEEK: NYJOCK (Thurs) & LOAD NYC (Sat)

Monday... JACKS OF COLOR (Chelsea) "ASIAN HERITAGE MONTH CELEBRATION" FULL-MOON MASSAGE-&-PLAY," Doors 7 PM to Midnight, goes 'til 2 AM [discount for All Our Asian, American American, Pacific Islander and South Asian Attendees] @Paddles; A New York City Club For Men of Color "And Their Friends." Has HUGE parties 70-120 guys attend, all ages. An older mixed crowd/for average guys. Email here JacksOfColor@Gmail.com or check out http://www.jacksofcolor.com/

MMX Muscle (Manhattan). HARD & BUFF 3 WAYS at 7:30pm. Not a sex party, but a massage party…it’s about touch. The hosts says: "however we are a lot of horny guys and we are not going to sweep that under the rug." But no oral or anal sex below the waist. Limited to 20 guys. Host is a certified Massage Therapist. The party is to learn, explore, connect, and play – to learn and get into Massage. They require that all guys are in good physical shape, are clean and take care of themselves, are height/weight proportionate and work-out or are athletic - in addition to having no attitude and comfortable being almost naked (or naked) and touching and stroking muscles with boundaries.To Get in email the host: mmxnyc@gmail.com and check out www.mmxnyc.com.

MUSCLE GROUP (West Harlem/w140s) Starts at 9/9:30pm (also has lunch-time parties). In small studio apartment. This small sex party really runs the gamut from hot guys to very average dudes. Usually have 4-10 guys -- some 20s- mostly 30s- some 40YOs. Have parties at random, but often on Mondays, 9pm-11pm. The best thing about this party is that it's one of the true orgies. At most parties guys are having sex one-one-one or threesomes--at MUSCLE GROUP there is more often than not a pile of guys fucking/sucking off each other. Also cool, because it's FREE. Two problems: You never know who will be there -- sometimes no hot guys, sometimes no one but you and the host; also the host is a big (out-of-shape) guy, that is a turn off to lots of guys. He's a cool dude, but with an attitude that can be too much for some. And don't believe the pictures he sends -- although those guys may have gone to a party there, they will most likely not be at the party you attend. A mixed crowd/for hot to average guys. *Send pics & Stats to: BIHUNKGROUP@aol.com.

Tuesday… EXECUTIVE LUNCH (Gramercy). Lunch-time (12-3pm) party. Daytime release for business men and jocks to hook up weekday afternoons, 10-20 men attend: new added feature is a complimentary massage by our very hot in house masseur. *For Invite: MUST Send pic (shirtless from the waist up is fine) & Stats to: apollothegreek@earthlink.net and check out http://www.hotgaysexpartiesnyc.com

FOOTMENNYC and TOUCH PARTY GUYS (Chelsea). 8pm - 2am. Not really a full-fledged sex party, but you get…Free Full-Body Massage provider all night, and Curtained play-spaces for your pleasure. Held at The Eagle (28th St., btwn 10th & 11th Aves.) $10 cover, includes drink ticket (21 years old and over). The private party is on the 2nd floor and the roof. Check out the website http://www.footmennyc.com/

THE CLUB HOUSE ORGIES (East Village). NEW LOCATION. 8pm-1am. Tonight is PEAK: This dude loves theme parties and has a few a week, such as Peak (safe sex), Fusion (wristbands for safe sex), Eruption (not exclusively safe), The XTube Party (which he films for the web), and SIR (for older men and their admirers) – you get the idea. Held in a private apartment. The host (who sometimes participates) describes his party “this is a party for height/weight proportional men over 35. Younger guys come, but they’re usually into older guys. This is an orgy, not a stand & pose cruise party. Racially diverse. A slow night is 15 guys, a busy night is 30. Guys range from great shape to bad shape.” For middle-aged crowd (45-65) out-of-shape guys and their admirers. Check out his cool blog (which trashes me) at http://theorgyguy.blogspot.com or to get in email stats and pics to host at theclubhouseparties@gmail.com.

NEW YORK JACKS (Chelsea/Times Square) Safe-sex party for guys who like to jerk off. They are not selective about who gets in, so the guys run the gamut: all type of bodies, races, and ages from hot young guys to muscle guys to older guys. Tuesdays (Paddles) and Sunday (Times Square). Check out their site: http://www.nyjacks.com/

Wednesday… EXECUTIVE LUNCH (Gramercy). Lunch-time (12-3pm) party. Daytime release for business men and jocks to hook up weekday afternoons, 40-50+ men attend: new added feature is a complimentary massage by our very hot in house masseur. *For Invite: MUST Send pic (shirtless from the waist up is fine) & Stats to: apollothegreek@earthlink.net and check out http://www.hotgaysexpartiesnyc.com

HARD DRIVE (Chelsea) Tonight...FORBIDDEN PLEASURES: a night dedicated to the aesthetics of hedonism: "Using Paddles dungeon as backdrop, male erotic artists will use the setting of the S/M club and the consenting party goers to create erotic art that will subsequently be shown in a one night exhibition at The Center on June 23rd. This event is open to the public. The party will provide the usual thrills while it also creates a dialogue about desire. Partygoers, their encounters, and the S/M club will serve as muse. The artists will create work in partitioned space but there will also be clearly defined camera-free zones." At Paddles, Doors 8pm-1am, open until 3am. Please be height/weight proportionate and if 55 or over please BE IN GREAT SHAPE. Wear underwear or less. Email here hunteur1@gmail.com or check out www.CumMonkey.com or www.HardDriveMen.com

REAL MEN ONLY (RMO) PARTY (Fresh Meadows) Slurpee Coach has the parties weekly on Wed eve 7-11pm. For older/average guys. To get in, email pics/stats here: slurpeecoach@hotmail.com.

Thursday… EXECUTIVE LUNCH (Gramercy). Lunch-time (12-3pm) party. Daytime release for business men and jocks to hook up weekday afternoons, 10-20+ men attend: new added feature is a complimentary massage by our very hot in house masseur. *For Invite: MUST Send pic (shirtless from the waist up is fine) & Stats to: apollothegreek@earthlink.net or check out http://www.hotgaysexpartiesnyc.com

THE NYJOCK PARTY--NYJP (Times Square) NYJP Early Edition. 8pm-3am. The host is very discriminating -- and because of it the party now has the hottest guys with the most attitudes: mostly 20s-early 30s, and the party is usually very hot. Guys tend to show up late, and the later you go the better the sex seems to be. Usually have 50-70 guys attend A safe sex party. For a younger/hot crowd.Sned pic and stats to nyjockparty@yahoo.com

THE CLUB HOUSE ORGIES (East Village). NEW LOCATION. 8pm-1am. Tonight is ERUPTION party: This dude loves theme parties and has a few a week, such as Peak (safe sex), Fusion (wristbands for safe sex), Eruption (not exclusively safe), The XTube Party (which he films for the web), and SIR (for older men and their admirers) – you get the idea. Held in a private apartment. The host (who sometimes participates) describes his party “this is a party for height/weight proportional men over 35. Younger guys come, but they’re usually into older guys. This is an orgy, not a stand & pose cruise party. Racially diverse. A slow night is 15 guys, a busy night is 30. Guys range from great shape to bad shape.” For middle-aged crowd (45-65) out-of-shape guys and their admirers. Check out his cool blog (which trashes me) at http://theorgyguy.blogspot.com or to get in email stats and pics to host at theclubhouseparties@gmail.com.

MUSCLE JOCK NEW YORK (Gramercy). Never been so no idea of who will be there, but this party seems to have take the spot at the Gramercy Duplex that used to belong to The Hot Jock Party, and is run by some as the same dudes. They claim that they screen for “Masculine, fun, sexy-hot MEN age 21-40... VERY STRICT DOOR: Everyone checked at the door so make sure your pics/stats match reality.” 6:30pm - 11:30pm. Email stats and pics to MuscleJockNY@gmail.com.

Friday... THE OLYMPUS PARTY(Gramercy). Held in a huge duplex. This is an umbrella for a number of different types of parties: TESTOSTERONE, RAW RORK, SQUIRT, PORN STARS and it seems like a dozen others. Mostly older, out of shape guys. *For Invite: MUST Send pic (shirtless from the waist up is fine) & Stats to: apollothegreek@earthlink.net or check out http://www.hotgaysexpartiesnyc.com.

MILK CHOCOLATE PARY (Gramercy). HOT MILK PARTY - MEMORIAL WEEKEND 2011, 10pm - 3am. According to the host, they screen to invite men of all colors age 21-45 to keep the party hot. They have a number of theme parties from Latino, to Hung Men, to Black Out.Send stats and pics to milkchocolatenyc@gmail.com

THE OMEGA PARTY (Midtown West). BACK IN MIDTOWN. They get 70 to 120 guys per party (Sunday being the biggest night). The parties are laid back, mix/general crowd. The age mix ranges from 20 to 60YO, all races (60% white, 40% mixed), muscle, thin, cute, bear etc. Refreshments , snacks, condoms and lube provided. Time: Fridays open from 9pm to 4am. An older mixed crowd/for average guys. Anybody wanting to go to the party should email roccosly@aol.com or http://www.theomegaroom.com/.

THUGS 4 THUGS SEX PARTY (Brooklyn) 12:00-7:00am. Hot party for Black and Latino guys, and guys who love big black cocks. Safe sex only for in shape guys—huge space (2 huge floors), fresh towels and condoms/lube provided, (12midnight-7am). It’s a safe and clean place. lots of space. a bit dark but eyes get used to it. TO GET IN: http://thugs4thugsex.com or email bkthugparty@earthlink.net

Saturday… JACKS OF COLOR (Chelsea) "MEMORIAL DAY HOLIDAY WEEKEND TRIPLE-DECKER, PART I" On SATURDAY AFTERNOON: doors 1:00 to 6:00, goes 'til 8 pm;@Paddles; A New York City Club For Men of Color "And Their Friends." Has HUGE parties 70-120 guys attend, all ages. An older mixed crowd/for average guys. Email here JacksOfColor@Gmail.com or check out http://www.jacksofcolor.com/

LOAD NYC (East Village). Underwear party held at Blue Door Video Basement for in-shape guys. 90 guys, porn. For hot/younger crowd. To get in email pics/stats to Loadnyc@aol.com.

NUBIAN DUKES PARTY (Midtown). 11:30PM-6AM, This party is for HOT muscular, athletic, slim, African-American and Latino dudes ONLY. They also have a strict door policy. Mandatory clothes check: boxers, no shirts or t-shirts. Condoms, lube, liquid provided. Hip hop music with a Dj. Very HOT. Incredible bodies, no attitude and a lot of action. Parties are usually twice a month, usually on Fridays, but can be Saturdays or Sunday nights too 12am-6am. Gets 70-90+ dudes each party. Send pics and stats to nubiandukesnyc@yahoo.com

THUGS 4 THUG SEX PARTY (Brooklyn) 9:00pm-3:00am. Hot party for Black and Latino guys, and guys who love big black cocks. Safe sex only for in shape guys—huge space (2 huge floors), fresh towels and condoms/lube provided, (12midnight-7am). It’s a safe and clean place. lots of space. a bit dark but eyes get used to it. http://thugs4thugsex.com/ or email bkthugparty@earthlink.net

WHITE PONY PARTY (Forest Hills) The host (White Pony) is a great guy, and def a nice no attitude party in pvt 1st fl apt. He has it on Saturday night from 8pm till 2am. Mostly older guys. Email for invite: whitepony3332@yahoo.com

THE NYJOCK PARTY--NYJP (Fire Island) Camp Wannafukme. Party starts at 11 and goes till 5. The host is very discriminating -- and because of it the party now has the hottest guys. For a younger/hot crowd.nyjockparty@yahoo.com

SUBMIT PARTY (Brooklyn). 10 - 3 am (doors close at 2 am) Not a M4M party, but may interest the more adventurous of you: a BSSM and Sex Party for woman and transgendered folk to get together for a sexually charged underwear party. Mandatory Pants Check Down To Your Underwear. Check out the parties at http://www..submitparty.com. If you have questions, please email Red@submitparty.com.

Sunday… JACKS OF COLOR (Chelsea) "MEMORIAL DAY HOLIDAY WEEKEND TRIPLE-DECKER, PART II" On SUNDAY MORNING-AFTERNOON: doors 10 am to 2:30, goes 'til 4 pm; @Paddles; A New York City Club For Men of Color "And Their Friends." Has HUGE parties 70-120 guys attend, all ages. An older mixed crowd/for average guys. Email here JacksOfColor@Gmail.com or check out http://www.jacksofcolor.com/

NEW YORK BONDAGE CLUB (Chelsea) 7pm-1am @Paddles. Sex is no longer banned. Sucking, fucking, whatever, are all allowed now at all times. It's common to see guys tied down and fucked. Or a dom directing sex between two roped subs. Held in a straight S&M club, the party scene includes cages, restraints, bondage crosses, stocks and all sorts of devices to aid in tying people up and getting them off. They now stay open later (until at least 1 AM instead of 11 PM) and at 11 PM they turn down the lights in all areas except the bar at the front. In these darker areas, there's now a dress code of no street clothes. You have to wear no more than underwear, or you can wear fetish wear (leather, rubber, and the like). They have started promotions to get younger guys in. But for anyone who has a taste for sex with a kinky side (leather, rope, spanking, etc) it's a good place to get satisfied on a Sunday night. Check out: http://www.nybondageclub.com/

NEW YORK JACKS (Chelsea/Times Square) Safe-sex party for guys who like to jerk off. They are not selective about who gets in, so the guys run the gamut: all type of bodies, races, and ages from hot young guys to muscle guys to older guys. Tuesdays (Paddles) and Sunday (Times Square). Check out their site: http://www.nyjacks.com/

THE OMEGA PARTY (Midtown West). BACK IN MIDTOWN. They get 70 to 120 guys per party (Sunday being the biggest night). The parties are laid back, mix/general crowd. The age mix ranges from 20 to 60YO, all races (60% white, 40% mixed), muscle, thin, cute, bear etc. Refreshments , snacks, condoms and lube provided. Time: Sundays open 6pm to 2am. An older mixed crowd/for average guys. Anybody wanting to go to the party should email roccosly@aol.com or http://www.theomegaroom.com/.

THUGS 4 THUGS SEX PARTY ( Brooklyn ) Hot party for Black and Latino guys, and guys who love big black cocks. Safe sex only for in shape guys—huge space (2 huge floors), fresh towels and condoms/lube provided, (9pm-3am). It’s a safe and clean place. lots of space. a bit dark but eyes get used to it. http://thugs4thugsex.com/ or email bkthugparty@earthlink.net

REAL MEN ONLY (RMO) PARTY (Fresh Meadows, Queens) Sunday afternoon 4pm-1ppm. For older/average guys. To get in, email pics/stats here: slurpeecoach@hotmail.com. Have fun and play safe guys!

ND2 (Midtown). This party is for average African American and Latino dudes ONLY. Mandatory clothes check: boxers, no shirts or t-shirts. Condoms, lube, liquid provided. Hip hop music with a Dj. No attitude and a lot of action. Send pics and stats to HARLEMDUKESNYC@YAHOO.COM

THE MEN’S PARTY (West Harlem) 9pm-2am. In big apartment in Harlem . The party is a mix from a few hot young guys to some fat old guys. The party is not strict about safe sex and lots of bb. Has sling. The host is nice, but I personally never like the party’s vibe—too sleazy for me (which is v. sleazy). Usually has about 20-40 guys attending from 30-40 YOs . NOT a safe sex party. An older mixed crowd/for average to out of shape guys. Email here: TheMensParty@yahoo.com or check out www.themensparty.com

MILK CHOCOLATE PARY (Gramercy). MEN OF COLOR FREAK PARTY, 6:30pm - 12mid. According to the host, they screen to invite men of all colors age 21-45 to keep the party hot. Guys that used fake pics/stats to get an invite & but are out of shape, have large bellys, large/average build or look much older than 45 are not be admitted to the party.Send stats and pics to milkchocolatenyc@gmail.com