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MARRIAGE PREPARATION, FEBRUARY 199 6 - mj^M~~.W»+*f~^
1. USE THE SAME INTRO AS 95, AND STRESS THAT TQflgSTHER^yiHEY ARE f»»~*~*
p|-)7S)C/)Z. BETTER THgN^QSBS, HELPING EACH OTHER GROW. „ IA t$ A>~'1>
l^^VCvM2 • x USE STORIES TO INTRODUCE EACH OF THE SECTIONS AND DREW OUT , ,+1 ■
-fv*.f*-^ LESSONS INCORPORATING A FEW THEOLOGICAL PERSPECTIVES . ,X ' ."v,
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3. (^YSJCAIASTORY OF(D;AVTn ANU-J2EBBj]b, INSTANT CHEMISTRY, A LOT *~^
J/^l»it..|^M«A„/Qp AFFECTION, NO INTERCOURSE, GREAT SEX AFTER MARRIAGE (THEY Aj^Jj
i) f^c.^c,« ^c WERE GLAD THEY WAITED) THEY FELT COMFORTED, LIBERATED. *>«*> -£V,
utt-JJhh'S TREASURED. AFTER A COUPLE OF YEARS THEY HAD A BABY, SHE WAS Z^jfr^l
a!jw! NOT INTERESTED IN SEX AFTERWARDS, GAINED A LOT OF WEIGHT, HE fMT1H $
^^m££^ QUITE TRYING TO INITIATE BECAUSE <HjP WAS FRUSTRATED AND ^j££f*
^H.Ahf^T_L DISAPPOINTED AND HIMSELF OFTENFATI3UED, OUT OF SHAPE. BIG * T^£^
etVe-u^,,\\ntsi POINT WAS THEY BETGAN TO TALK^ ABOUT IT AND SAW THEY HAD A < yu
^t^U.xU^U^ PROBLEM. THEY TOLD EACH OTHER ABOUT THEIR TRUE FEELINGS AND 5i*^jl«f
-''^f'"9 REAL NEEDS, HE WANTED HER TO LOSJE.JKEIGHT, SHE WANTED HIM TO P^J^l
_ o h** i REMEMBER THAT FOREPLAY BEGAN . AT ,-BREAKEAST. THEY BEGAN TO W-^
tf.j^\^rJ^x EXERCISE REGULARLY TOGETHER. THE BIG POINT IS AT FIRST THE I&<Zh$,)
SEXUAL ^CHEMISTRY AND ACTIVITY FLOWED NICELY BUT LATER THEY <*
i * NEEDED CAREFUL PLANNING TO MAKE IT WORK. ^ifi^ ^JTkit
4. I SKIPPED THE WHOLE IMAGINATIVE GROWTH AND PROBABLY WILL SKIP *i*r^i%^
£<i».^, . bU«>, IT AGAIN. THE COMPOSITE STORY GOES TOO MUCH INTO FAMILY .on-"
'E/yoT/tHAL- ORIGIN MATERIAL THAT IS DEAL WITH OTHERWISE. *£3£ZZp~-^. qU*£ f^*
5. EMOTIONAL GROWTH, I USED THE STORY OF ^ARTIN AND jyjlCJHEII^' HE ' tij^r"
°^'K" HAD A TERRIBLE TEMPER BUT KEPT IT UNDER CQHTBOL DURING ,, . j
COURTSHIP. AFTER MARRIAGE, HE WASN'T SO CAREFUL OR ^.M**
,^jM"M CONTROLLING, SHE PiVT TTP WTTH T.T FOR A COUPLE OF YEARS THEN
;T>^ WHEN TO A COIfflSELOR, HE SAID HE COULDN'T HELP HER UNLESS HE j^
/ t»~» + »»«■» p-***
, " (t TALKED TO HIM. COUNSELOR USED THE OPPORTUNITY TO GET HIM TO
.},<►« >*hK V.,v~< DEAL WITHjHlH^ ALONE AND DEAL WITH HIS ANGER. TURNS OUT HE WAS
wc^r. .>> <qeU~&~REPRESSED, ANGRY AT LIFE. GOD^ FAMILY, FACT THAT HE MADE LESS
MONEY THEN HIS FRIENDS AND HAD TO WORK HARDER. HE WAS MOSTLY
ANGRY THAT HIS_JiIF_E DIDN'T SEEM TO RESPECT 'HIM. PROBABLY
f^.y.i . o.« BECAUSE HE WAS NQT A SUCCESS IN LIFE. COUNSELOR SUGGESTED
f\ U *,(-, THAT HE TRY TO CONTROL HIS TEMPER AROUND HER, THAT HE STOP IN
j.Lc.r^ CHURCJL_AND SAY A PRAYER ON THE WAY_HOME, THAT HE MAKE USE OF
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^ytflftoi^VlSAXi Jtfwqvw)^^/V ^^^^-/w-^/*-^
NOTES TO MYSELF ,W \ ,. ,7; /^ ^. „ . . y
MARRIAGE PREPARATION, FEBRUARY 199 6 - mj^M~~.W»+*f~^
1. USE THE SAME INTRO AS 95, AND STRESS THAT TQflgSTHER^yiHEY ARE f»»~*~*
p|-)7S)C/)Z. BETTER THgN^QSBS, HELPING EACH OTHER GROW. „ IA t$ A>~'1>
l^^VCvM2 • x USE STORIES TO INTRODUCE EACH OF THE SECTIONS AND DREW OUT , ,+1 ■
-fv*.f*-^ LESSONS INCORPORATING A FEW THEOLOGICAL PERSPECTIVES . ,X ' ."v,
i*# __ .. /— —„ p,l. rt>t»au, A'h*tX"
3. (^YSJCAIASTORY OF(D;AVTn ANU-J2EBBj]b, INSTANT CHEMISTRY, A LOT *~^
J/^l»it..|^M«A„/Qp AFFECTION, NO INTERCOURSE, GREAT SEX AFTER MARRIAGE (THEY Aj^Jj
i) f^c.^c,« ^c WERE GLAD THEY WAITED) THEY FELT COMFORTED, LIBERATED. *>«*> -£V,
utt-JJhh'S TREASURED. AFTER A COUPLE OF YEARS THEY HAD A BABY, SHE WAS Z^jfr^l
a!jw! NOT INTERESTED IN SEX AFTERWARDS, GAINED A LOT OF WEIGHT, HE fMT1H $
^^m££^ QUITE TRYING TO INITIATE BECAUSE , IT AGAIN. THE COMPOSITE STORY GOES TOO MUCH INTO FAMILY .on-"
'E/yoT/tHAL- ORIGIN MATERIAL THAT IS DEAL WITH OTHERWISE. *£3£ZZp~-^. qU*£ f^*
5. EMOTIONAL GROWTH, I USED THE STORY OF ^ARTIN AND jyjlCJHEII^' HE ' tij^r"
°^'K" HAD A TERRIBLE TEMPER BUT KEPT IT UNDER CQHTBOL DURING ,, . j
COURTSHIP. AFTER MARRIAGE, HE WASN'T SO CAREFUL OR ^.M**
,^jM"M CONTROLLING, SHE PiVT TTP WTTH T.T FOR A COUPLE OF YEARS THEN
;T>^ WHEN TO A COIfflSELOR, HE SAID HE COULDN'T HELP HER UNLESS HE j^
/ t»~» + »»«■» p-***
, " (t TALKED TO HIM. COUNSELOR USED THE OPPORTUNITY TO GET HIM TO
.},*hK V.,v~< DEAL WITHjHlH^ ALONE AND DEAL WITH HIS ANGER. TURNS OUT HE WAS
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