Sunday, February 26, 2017

I recently did some boards for a seven year old self-proclaimed tomboy. She had been sharing her room with various siblings most of her life, and she was getting a room of her own for the first time.

When I first saw the space set up for her, she had star wars sheets and posters. Her furniture was odds and ends from other rooms. She wanted green walls.

Mom wanted to give her new pieces (her sister just got this makeover.) Right now she wants "boy stuff" but in a few short years, she will be a tween. (It's crazy how time flies!) She may hold on to her tomboy ways for ever, but she may find herself drawn to girlier things. So, how do you decorate for her wants now and plan for the future without replacing everything?

A neutral base.

Here's the room we decided on:

The bigger, more expensive items (rug, furniture, window treatments) are all in the same gender-neutral palette: white, navy, and a sort of greige on the headboard. The bedding, lamp, desk chair, and paint color satisfy her taste today. (She can also keep the star wars sheets in this design!)

Later, those same items can be changed out to a more feminine (and more grown up) vibe.

I went pink, because it is (for better or for worse) classic "girl," and because I happen to love pink and navy together. But lavender, yellow, coral, aqua, or chartreuse could all be employed to similar effect.

Paint and bedding have a lifespan anyway, and could use refreshers after 4 or 5 years (and I reused the quilt, which gets less skin contact and gets washed less frequently.) I added a mirror over the dresser and a pinboard, which reflect changes in how a girl might use her room. The upholstered, swivel, rolling desk chair is more comfortable for an older adolescent who may have more homework. So when it comes down to it, these are changes that would happen for practical reasons anyway. I guess the big luxury is changing out the lamp!

There are tons of great options out there these days that can work for both genders. Big retailers like PBTeen and Land of Nod unfortunately separate everything into "girls rooms" and "boys rooms," but don't be afraid to cross over! You may find the perfect rug or quilt (etc) for your girl in the "boy" category.

Wednesday, February 8, 2017

I was a creative writing major in college. I'll always remember the admonition of our Senior Seminar professor to "kill your darlings." This means you have to cut those favorite sentences (or paragraphs, or characters!) that you love and have become attached to, but aren't working or furthering your aims with the piece.

I was always terrible at that.

Last week I showed you a design board for what the office could be, but isn't. Why not? Because of this rug.

This rug is my darling.

I got it at the tender age of 24, at the ABC Carpet and Home outlet in the Bronx. It was my first major house purchase (and remains one of the more expensive things I've ever bought.) It's big, and Turkish, and I think it represented "being a grown up." Standing in the vast warehouse and watching the men flip back rug after rug in stacks was intoxicating. The palette includes colors that are still favorites (aqua! chartreuse! terra cotta! Look no further than my portfolio to know I love these colors still.) And honestly, it makes a lot of sense, stylistically, in the space I lease, which has very pretty white tin ceilings.

The other reason I based by scheme on this rug? I already had it, and rugs are expensive. I liked the idea that using this rug would stretch my budget. Then I started looking for a table to use as a desk, and realized the rug was kind of bossy, and the table I needed was pretty specific. A french farmhouse table. Not too rustic, not too chunky, light of wood tone and elegant of line. You may be shocked to know that craigslist did not offer up such a table to me, and certainly not at a bargain price. All of a sudden, I was looking at spending close to $1000 on the right table to work with the rug I already had. I also started considering splurges on other items that would complement the rug, but which I might not otherwise buy. I bought chairs to make the rug "more modern" instead of using the Ghost chairs I already own.

Wednesday, February 1, 2017

First, buying a piano displaced me from my home office. (Both my girls play and the keyboard wasn't doing it anymore.) I moved to the basement, which is unfinished but has good sized windows. I thought I would hate it but with a rug and a little decor, it wasn't so bad.

But then, I started thinking about getting an intern. I conducted some meetings with my contractor at my kitchen table. I wondered if I wanted a street level space (walk ins!) or a shared loft (photoshoots!). I fell in love with the Ivy Arts building. I continued to work from the basement, in straight view of monkey bars and a man cave. (True story.)

And then, we got a puppy.

It became both more necessary and more impossible to work from home. One day in December, I went on craigslist and found a small but charming space with tin ceilings, hardwood floors, and reasonable rent, just a few minutes (and directly on route) to my kids' school. I met the landlord, also a mother of two girls, also teetering on middle age, also in a newish career. I hemmed and hawed, but much less than usual. I signed the lease. We went to Texas for Christmas.

I forgot what trouble it is to move, even a small move, and if I am being honest (I am being honest), a month after I took possession I am still moving in.

Right now it is lovely, despite the card table I am using as a temporary desk. Lovely, realistically, because all of my mess and piles and tangles of fabric swatches are still in my home office space.

(as shared on instagram)

I spent more time than usual there today, and as I was leaving, I had this flash of what it should be.

When people say things in magazines like "I work with color all day, I want my office to be devoid of it!" Or, "I need to come home to white so I can breathe!" I may, in the past, have scoffed. But guess what? Today I felt how calm and pretty the office was, and how utterly destroyed that sensibility will be the minute I bring in the half dozen crazy colored rug samples that are currently in the back of my car.

For once in my life, I truly get the appeal of neutrals.

Maybe tomorrow (or soon) I'll talk about what it actually IS and why. And what we (or at least I) can learn from it.

About Me

Hi there.
I am a Minneapolis-based decorator and mother to two excellent girls. Though I work full time in this industry, I'm still a pretty big fangirl of all things interiors. Frankly, my family and friends can only take so much, so this is where I get into the nitty gritty to an unreasonable degree. Luckily the like-minded abound on the internet. I'm so glad you found me.