If you're getting mixed signals from a guy you like, you don't have to stay confused forever. Our resident sexpert, Amber Madison, is figure it all out — and help you make a move!

I've been hanging with this guy from work a lot, and we've spent plenty of alone time together— but he hasn't made a move. The most we did was massage each other's backs. Since he has had plenty of opportunities, does this mean he just wants to be friends?

Sandra, 18, New York, NY

Even though guys can sometimes act like all they care about is hooking up, believe it or not, many guys are pretty shy about getting physical! He may like you but not want to scare you off by making a move—so YOU should go for it. Maybe you should hint at your feelings by asking to do something "datey," like going to a movie together. If he's into it, that means he likes you!

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