Meeting Kinky Gay Men Online

The other afternoon, I was talking to my new lover on GayBDSMdate.com. His name is Dominick and he is a very sexy guy – thin and kind of a hipster, but with a huge cock and a penchant for telling smart-ass jokes at the most inopportune times during kinky sex. I’ve always been a sucker for a nerdy guy with glasses and a goatee. He really likes doing alpha male things like camping or fixing cars too, and the aroma of engine grease on his clothes is fucking hot!

Dom also likes to read and while he doesn’t have much money, he definitely has a wealth of knowledge that comes into play during dates where I pick up the check. So, why am I writing to MaleKink and telling you all this?

I often read online reviews or comments, and it always bugs me that so many are negative. I really believe most people have positive things to say, but they don’t bother because things are already going well for them. The problem is that means the least optimistic people end up having the most to say online. And they can hide behind whatever username they give themselves.

I almost didn’t even try meeting guys online because of the negativity I saw written about online dating by people who get off on complaining about life. Thankfully I decided to try it anyway and ignore the Negative-Nancy types long enough to meet Dom and become someone who actually does find love, sex, romance and more in a community that caters to kinky en seeking like-minded partners. Hopefully me taking the time to tell you all about it will help someone else find the joy I’ve now found for myself.

If you want to meet a lover who shares your fetish or fantasy, online dating is a great place to start!

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