i was actually talking about the people who used swear words to reply to Me when refering to the moral high ground not to you Elizabeth and i totally agree with you that swearing should not be used on this board i did not mean to offend youI posted because i dislike bullying and the tone of the other posters was becoming very spiteful especially since a few of them have been guilty of using offensive language when it suits them (White trash Stripper and a lot worse)my point is that while Me is crude and at times offencive she is being used as a scapegoatI agree with your posting to Mike but i think that it is wrong for the other posters to conduct a witch hunt and only attack Me