4. Raise Your General Self-Confidence

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No one disputes the incredible effect self-confidence can have on a guy. People are drawn to confident people, and when they find it in others, they buy into it. Now, there are several ways to gain self-confidence, and one of them is in presenting yourself in the most attractive manner, in part because it'll make you feel good but also because, according to published estimates, we have the occasion to see our reflections in windows, mirrors and other surfaces as many as 50 times a day. What is the effect on self-confidence and behavior if one's reflection is showing a guy who you know could be a whole lot more attractive if he just put a little extra time and effort into it?

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