On Nov. 15, police arrested Tony Brent Shower Jr., 34, of the 100 block of West Jackson Street, York, and charged him with accidents involving death or personal injury, two counts of driving under the influence of a controlled substance and driving on a suspended license, according to court documents.

The day before, Hanover Borough Police Chief Chad Martin had called the Wrights to tell them there was going to be an arrest, Ginger said.

They talked about charges and court dates. They were told not to discuss the arrest until it happened. It was hard for them to keep quiet, but they understood, Ginger said.

Natalie was outside playing with her dog Thursday when she received a text from a friend asking if she was alright. She had no idea what her friend was talking about so the friend told her to look up a news article right away.

"It was surprising because I thought this was going to stay unsolved," Natalie said.

Tony Brent Shower Jr,(Photo11: Submitted)

She has been so use to not knowing anything about the case, she said now it's taking time to sink in.

She is happy, angry, sad and scared all at once.

"Nothing will compare to the pain we feel," she said.

Chief Martin declined to comment on Shower's arrest and investigation since it is still being processed in court.