Valentine Love Page

December 27, 2000

This page is dedicated to my dear wife of 18 years, Wendi,
and to my 12-year-old son, Joe. I love you both very much!

Valentine’s Day is all about love, right? So what more appropriate
thing could I offer here than the text of the famous “Love Chapter”
in the Bible, First Corinthians chapter 13? Here it is, from the New
International Version:

If I speak
in the tongues of men and of angels, but have not
love, I am only a resounding gong or a clanging cymbal. If I have the
gift of prophecy and can fathom all mysteries and all knowledge, and
if I have a faith that can move mountains, but have not love, I am
nothing. If I give all I possess to the poor and surrender my body
to the flames, but have not love, I gain nothing.

Love is patient,
love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast,
it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not
easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight
in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts,
always hopes, always perseveres.

Love never fails.
But where there are prophecies, they will cease;
where there are tongues, they will be stilled; where there is knowledge,
it will pass away. For we know in part and we prophesy in part, but
when perfection comes, the imperfect disappears. When I was a child,
I talked like a child, I thought like a child, I reasoned like a child.
When I became a man, I put childish ways behind me. Now we see but a
poor reflection as in a mirror; then we shall see face to face. Now I
know in part; then I shall know fully, even as I am fully known.

And now
these three remain: faith, hope and love. But the
greatest of these is love.

There is an overwhelming abundance of sites on the Internet
devoted to Valentine’s Day. Below is a sampling of sites
that deal with the history of the holiday. Most of them have
other neat stuff on them too.

On the Lighter Side…

Roses are red,
Violets are blue,
Sugar is sweet
and so are you.

We’ve all heard that one, right? But there’s a problem: violets aren’t
blue; they’re… well, violet colored, or more like purple. But
purple doesn’t rhyme with anything, as seen in the final stanza
of Roger Miller’s 1965 hit song, Dang Me:

Roses are red,
Violets are purple,
Sugar’s sweet
and so’s maple surple.
I’m the seventh out of seven sons,
My pappy was a pistol; I’m a son of a gun!

When I thought of this, I said to myself, “Self (ahem!), you
can do better than that!” So I tried a few of my own:

Roses are red, Violets are tan,
I’m glad our love wasn’t “Made in Japan.”
(No offense to the Japanese, but we were married in the good old USA!)