The rants, emotions, and opinions of a southern mama to an active ginger boy and ginger baby boy. Here you will find everything from pregnancy loss, infertility, product and service reviews, adoption, Noonan Syndrome and any random thing that pops in my head.

Tuesday, January 5, 2016

HAPPY NEW YEAR!!

Happy New Year!!

This is my first holiday without Mini Ginger. We have
temporarily come to a custody agreement until Mini Ginger starts pre-k in the
fall. We are rotating every two weeks between us. Dividing the time as fairly
as possible, along with juggling the miles between us.

Many things that happened in 2015 have not been very fair
for me. The scorned woman in me wants to
say fuck all this fairness business, but deep down I know that is not the right
example for my son. We have a minimum of fifteen years to co-parent together.
Personally, I do not like unnecessary strife and stress in my life. Acting the proverbial
scorned ex-wife would do nothing but create exactly that, strife and stress.

Mini Ginger deserves the best of what we can give him as
parents from this point on. All that nonsense is not conducive of a positive environment
between his parents. Fifteen years is a long time for a kid to live in a rotten
situation.