Asking friends if they are swingers

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I have a long time friends/couple. Whom my friends wife hits on me often while we're playing tennis. She'll flirt with me in front of him and he will just smile. I'll say something back in a joking way. My friend will just laugh. I've never paid any real attention to this.

But as of just the other day while playing a match where my friends wife and I were paired together to compete against another team. She kept touching my arm in a very gentle way. Like with just the tips of her fingers. Then she just looks directly into my eyes when we talk.

I love that... oh let me describe her to you real quick. Five foot six. Long blonde hair. She has to be a 34 D at least. Very long legs, tanned and very tone. She is about 115-120 Lbs.

Anyway. A couple of months ago while on court with her husband. She had asked if I would give her a ride home. Because her husband was going to have to go somewhere else after we played. Her husband said it would be a help to him if I could.

So I did. On the ride to her home. She was touching my arm again. Then not to long ago. Her husband was out of town and we had a tennis party to go to and she asked me to escort her to the party. I did. Arm touching again. Her husband/ my friend also. Asked me to take care of her while he was gone.

My question is this. Are my friends secretly swingers. I would love to have a 3some with them. I don't know about seeing my friend dick. I was told he has a big one from her.

So how can I ask him/ her if there swingers. I would hate my life if I were to offend them or lose there friendship. But I'm very curious now. Please advise. Thanks in advance.

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They sound new to swinging if they are. If so, they've talked about involving you but are afraid of the same things you are. Maybe waiting for you to make a clear move so they aren't embarrassed or for fear you will tell others.

Swingers that don't involve people they know keep it away from friends so I doubt she would be flirting with you if they have other options.

Have you considered she wants to fuck you in secret? Would you be ok fucking her behind your friend's back? The friend may think it's harmless flirting from his wife not realizing she's serious.

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They sound new to swinging if they are. If so, they've talked about involving you but are afraid of the same things you are. Maybe waiting for you to make a clear move so they aren't embarrassed or for fear you will tell others.

Swingers that don't involve people they know keep it away from friends so I doubt she would be flirting with you if they have other options.

Have you considered she wants to fuck you in secret? Would you be ok fucking her behind your friend's back? The friend may think it's harmless flirting from his wife not realizing she's serious.

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You know I never though about that. Her wanting to duck in secrete. It would be tempting. But I couldn't duck her in private. I do have this terrible guilty complex thing now. It's a long story. But I've done a couple of sexual things in my life that I don't want to reenact. Ducking her has been on my mind a lot lately. But I just don't want to travel that road.

If he wanted to watch me do it to her I would love it. It would be a beautiful thing to watch her being ducked though.

OMG... auto correct is killing me. I'M on a porn site talking about ducks. Welcome to Disneyland people.

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You know I never though about that. Her wanting to duck in secrete. It would be tempting. But I couldn't duck her in private. I do have this terrible guilty complex thing now. It's a long story. But I've done a couple of sexual things in my life that I don't want to reenact. Ducking her has been on my mind a lot lately. But I just don't want to travel that road.

If he wanted to watch me do it to her I would love it. It would be a beautiful thing to watch her being ducked though.

OMG... auto correct is killing me. I'M on a porn site talking about ducks. Welcome to Disneyland people.

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Lol that damn auto correct gets us all. Don't sweat it. You mentioned not wanting to see your friend's cock. Would it bother you if he wanted to participate?

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Lol that damn auto correct gets us all. Don't sweat it. You mentioned not wanting to see your friend's cock. Would it bother you if he wanted to participate?

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No I wouldn't mind at all. I would just love to watch her in action. Seeing her suck my friend off would be awesome actually. I'll would live to have a 3some with them. Seeing my friends dick would not be a highlight in my life. She had mentioned before that he has a big one. But I'm sure I would be OK with seeing hid cocktail. If she was giving me a blow job.

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Hey man, the last thing u wanna do is betray a friend. I wouldn't make a move unless he asks regardless of what she does. That's my opinion....She's not the only woman on earth, U know....!!

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You know ive been wanting to swing for a longtime now. I have this thing about watching my gf suck big dicks. I just love that fantasy. But I agree with you. Having sex with my friend wife without him knowing and wanting it to happen would make me feel like terrible.

Just thinking about now make me feel weird. The funny thing is I just has seen him on the courts tonight. It just makes me wonder if they are singers.

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I wouldn't have sex with her, unless your friend is in in this. Do not fuck her behind his back, as someone else said, they are plenty of other women out there.
It would be hot to have a 3some with them though.
I have always fantasized watching my wife being fucked by 2 or more men. Right now, watching her masturbate with a dildo or rabbit is the closest thing to it. It makes me mega horny. Perhaps your friend shares the same fantasy as me.

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I wouldn't have sex with her, unless your friend is in in this. Do not fuck her behind his back, as someone else said, they are plenty of other women out there.
It would be hot to have a 3some with them though.
I have always fantasized watching my wife being fucked by 2 or more men. Right now, watching her masturbate with a dildo or rabbit is the closest thing to it. It makes me mega horny. Perhaps your friend shares the same fantasy as me.

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I think my friend loves his wife dearly but he is laid back as can be. He doesn't seem to mind his wife teasing me. We have so much fun. He knows his wife is hot and he knows guys would love to fuck her.

He has to know that I would love to be with her. What he probably doesn't know is that I would like to see him fuck my GF. His wife told me he has a very larger dick. It makes me want to see my GF ducking him.

My GF has no idea I'm the perv that I am. We have only gone out 5 or 6 times so far though. So we're not really a couple yet.

BTW. I have no intentions of betraying my friend. I would lose all credibility with all my friends and teammates. It just not worth it.