After almost 365 days pass, there are a lot up and downs, and of course those are a lot things that I have learnt from what have happened to me, those things are....

1. No need to care a lot of negative things , then you will be more happier
2. Stressful really breakout your skin
3. Fake it until you make it , it's true
4. Just start it , even it's embarassing sometimes, but after that you will thanks to yourself
5. Believe in yourself and others will believe in you too
6. Dead environment really kill us
7. You can create a life you want
8. You are becoming the person that you hate
9. The strongest one bleeds in silence
10. Sometimes you are your own motivation
11. Even some people we admire have their own problem
12. Everyone need space for themself to figure out things more

1. People who stay in the car longer to listen to music
2. People who are open minded and you can talk over anything
3. People who are love to see another person success
4. People who are grateful enough for their live
5. People who don't blame situation
6. People who are always willing to learn
7. People who will listening to lyric
8. People who will replay their current faves songs all over again
9. People who are love to laugh
10. People who are brave enough to say what she/he is thinking
11. People who can eat alone
12. People who can traveling alone
13. People who love to read in a silence
14. People who are willing to teach
15. People who jumps when they fill excited
16. People who can talks deeply about something
17. People who love reality show than korean drama
18. People who are more focus on what they love

True love is a mixture of care and desire. It’s wanting to know every secret the other has not dared to share with anybody else. True love is being kind for real. But true love requires for you to be ready in order to be able to recognize it when you find it. Here are 5 things you need to accept to find true love:

1. True love is healthy communication.

Communicating our feelings is the bedrock of any healthy relationship. No matter how much love there is, if communication is flawed, chances are the couple will not make it. Always express your feelings and dissatisfaction with honesty!

2. To find the right person, you have to be the right person.

Before getting into a new relationship, realize what went wrong in your previous ones. Take time to adjust some things about you if you think it’s necessary. Build your life and be content with yourself before anything else.

3. You are not a victim.

You have control over your life and the people with whom you come in contact. Sometimes we lie to ourselves about needing sympathy or pity from others, but this is a very unhealthy attitude.

4. Live with purpose.

Living a full and meaningful life will make everything align in your path, including love. When you are walking the right road and feeling happy with your choices, you are more likely to find true love.

5. True love is not supposed to hurt.

Real love is not supposed to be about constant quarreling and struggles. Of course, there will be times of disappointment or hurt, but the important thing is to overcome these issues together.

Women have become a lot more self-reliant lately. That’s because we don’t need a knight in shining armor to come along and protect us from the big bad world. We just go into the world and manage to take a really good care of ourselves. Again, because WE CAN.

And this new-attained independence gives us a sense of pride, fulfillment and joy. No longer waiting for Prince Charming to wake us up from the longest sleep (the metaphorical kind too), we take matters into our own hands. And we’re good at it.

Here are 12 habits of happy independent women who know how to run themselves. And perhaps the world too (and not just because Beyoncé says so).

1. She loves to travel alone

Traveling by herself feels like it’s everything she ever wanted.

2. She doesn’t roll with the crowd

Because crowds are boring sometimes. She’s interested in having clever conversations with individuals.

12. She knows exactly who she is and what she wants

Hi guys, happy weekend! How are you btw? It's a long time that we don't talk personally in this blog.

So, These few days I'm feeling a little bit overload, a lot of things to do and it's makes my mind blown :( But I'm also grateful for this , it's mean that I'm productive enough..

But honestly I need some refreshment and holiday, where do you think I should go ?

And yeah today I wanna share to you about the outfit I'm wearing in this picture, It's a jumpsuit from Berrybenka , Yeah I mention a lot for this brand, I'm actually doing a collaboration with them but the other side I also love their products, It's simple, fashionable and also comfortable enough for me. You can see this jumpsuit is so stylist and I am wearing my leather beret hat to complete my look. hehe

Actually sometimes I love to wear something easy and quick, and I for this time I always choose jumpsuit. Because it's so easy to wear and just need a second to be good looking . Haha

You may have gone through a series of failed relationship and don’t know where to start rebuilding yourself. But you have indeed come to the conclusion that only when you work on yourself and achieve stability, will you be able to have a relationship that lasts.

The truth is you no longer see the point in giving your time and energy to people who are below your standards. You’re done with flings and want to connect with someone on a deep level and with whom you can evolve into a solid relationship. That takes work: realizing what you truly want from a potential partner and knowing exactly what you don’t need in your life.

At the end of the day, the wait is well worth it. Here is why:

1. The right relationship will not make you feel that you have settled for something less.

And that is one of the best feelings in the world. Knowing that you didn’t settle with someone who was wrong for you, even though it was the easy path. You decided that it’s better to be on your own for a while, with everything that this implies. Because there is someone who is on the same page with you. They simply haven’t reached you yet.

2. The right relationship will bear a constant reminder of your worth.

You have become stronger, wiser and more emotionally aware and stable in the process. And you’ve even stop waiting because waiting implies you believe there is something else that can make you whole. You know you are whole. Connecting with another person would only be a bonus.

3. The right relationship will allow you to maintain your individuality and pursue your dreams.

Because it’s right. And when it’s right, the other person won’t feel the need to control you or erase what makes you unique. In fact, they will treasure this about you above all else. And they will even feel inspired by your commitment to pursue your goals and staying true to who you are on the inside.

4. The right relationship will not force you to change into someone you’re not, but will constantly push you to become better.

In other words, they will accept you, with all your flaws and quirks because they are well aware that no one is perfect. Moreover, you will strive together to become better human beings, constantly pushing each other to be kinder, love more.

And you know the right person will stay in your life, where they belong. Please share!

Being healthy is more than adopting the right diet, getting enough sleep and measuring your alcohol intake. It’s also having the right beliefs about yourself. Here are some healthy beliefs that should be the foundation of your emotional well-being.

1. I can do this

True grit is a mix of courage and perseverance. It’s a difficult thing to stay the course of your own plans and dreams when nothing goes your way. To know that your happiness depends on your own action, that you can do whatever you put your mind into is to be a truly independent person and to become the architect of your own life.

2. My mistakes don’t define me

To be emotionally healthy also means knowing that you cannot control everything. Mistakes will be made, accidents will happen, and outcomes will be disappointing, in spite of your best efforts. To know how and when to accept that you made a mistake, to learn from it and to move on is to be flexible and tolerant towards yourself.

3. Everybody is worthy of respect

You might not like everybody you meet, you may disagree with them or even don’t understand them at all, but you must respect them. There is literally nobody in the world whom you can despise in good consciousness, whom you can mistreat or insult and still consider yourself a good person.

4. I can laugh at myself

OK, you are totally responsible for what your life looks like and this can be a hard truth to accept. But this does not mean you have to be grumpy and serious all the time. Being able to laugh and most importantly laugh at yourself is an essential quality that will help you through hard times and happy moments alike.

5. I deserve love

We all want love. But sometimes is hard to see ourselves as worthy of love. Self-doubt, emotional or physical abuse, low self-esteem can really take a toll on our self-image. We can come to believe that we are not entitled to receive and give love. But you are worthy of love, just like everybody else. Please, share this!

Happy weekend all ! How is your day ? Where are you going this weekend ?

So, today I will introduce you to my weekend outfit , sometimes I love to wear something simple and casual, I prefer comfort in all way.

I'm wearing this white tee and there's "hope" word on this tee, I love wearing it because the material is just so good. And I'm pairing with short pink skirt. For shoes I'm wearing this white sneaker for perfect casual outfit.

And do you spot my bag ? Yes ! I'm using navy bohemian sling bag, because I have a lot of things to bring :p . Okay, I'm ready for my weekend now! So how bout you?

It is our second nature to be worried about various aspects in our lifetime. We keep doing things that don’t really bring value to our life. Stress is the engine that makes us do things we do not enjoy, like the job you’re working so hard for. You hate it but someone has to pay those bills. Or the inner drag that is forcing you to take a lot of things to heart that only hurt your spirit and soul.

Stop wasting your time on things that don’t matter! Here are 7 things you should definitely ignore, ‘cause in the end, they simply won’t mean anything:

1. People who don’t respect you

Pull away from negative people, there is no point in staying friends with people that have no respect for you. You’ve been close for such a long time, you forgot why you became friends in the first place. Things change, people change. Begin cutting off people from your life who only make you doubt yourself or feel sorry for yourself.

2. Impossible expectations

Find your own path in life and the purpose will follow. Don’t let silly expectations fill your life with failure and disappointment, do the best you can do and dismiss the others’ expectations of you or your own.

3. Complaining and feeling sorry for yourself

Life is too short to complain about things all the time. Weigh your priorities and stop feeling sorry for yourself, it doesn’t do you any good in the long run. Pull yourself up and take action, you can make a difference so you might as well start now. Going down the rabbit hole of self-pity may eventually be difficult to escape from.

4. Pride

Vanity, pride, narcissism and a big ego are things that don’t mean a thing when you draw the line in your life. Even if these things helped you achieve material goods throughout your existence, your true value is in who you are as a person, not how much money you have in your bank account.

5. Pleasing others

Don’t spend your life trying to please the people around you, even if you are the most magnificent, nicest person in the world, there will always be someone who doesn’t fancy your personality. Be yourself, staying true to yourself is maybe the most powerful thing you can do in this life.

6. Destructive feelings

Whatever they did and how much pain they caused you, drop the destructive emotions for the journey we have on Earth is brief. Don’t allow anger and resentment to enslave your soul. Let it go and move on.

7. Forget the past

You can’t go back and change it, that’s a fact you must keep reminding yourself at every turn. Why should you invest your spirit in something that is dead and buried? You may reconcile with your past, you can even apologize for something you did in the past but there’s nothing you can do to change it.

Try to live up to your potential and you will have no regrets when you’re old. Share this with your friends and family!

Maybe you are the one that love long dress same as me? And anything that silk and elegant? Yes me too.. I always say yes for anything elegant .

I am wearing this long silk black dress from Uma cloth and the surprise is this is a batik, yes batik :) I just so in love with the print and it's a Indonesia ethnic material and I'm so proud to wear this on my day out. So, who says batik just can be wear on Friday?

I love this dress cutting, it makes my body looks slim enough hahaha. Some of my friends always said to me that " You are slim now, so why are you still searching for some outfit that will make you looks slim more and more?", I just answer " Yeah, that's how every woman do, LOL ."

So, how bout you? What kind of dress do you love to wear in your day out? Please share and let me know :)

Recently I'm so in love with this pants from Berrybenka , I wear it at work and sometimes going to mall and for holiday outfit too! It's a perfect design for casual until formal outfit. For now I pair it with my yellow silk top from Herell and outer from Berrybenka.

Sometimes I just want to wear something light and easy in my day out, so I choose this outfit today. And for heels I pair it with my suede navy blue heels from Berrybenka. If you want a lil more casual and easy you just can wear any sandals you have and yeah you go holiday with this outfit too!

Don't forget to bring this summer hat too because it's so sunny nowdays and yeah of course small rattan bag is perfect too!

I have got this top and pants fromBerrybenka , I style it into 3 style that I love so much . Okay I will show you, let's start !

First style , I wear 1 set outfit fromBerrybenka,I love their outfit because it so stylish and affordable in the same time. For this look match it with my Atashoprattan bag and gold sandal that I bough in Thailand last year , it so suit in this summer look right?

For my second look, I still wear Berrybenka top and pair it with this boyfriend jeans that I ripped it my self , it's fromStradivariusand I also wear Eyewear Inc sunglasses with yellow colour that match my tops , yes ! Yellow is my faves colour this month :)

For the third look, I am wearing tops from This is April , I love this blue top that so comfie at this hot weather moment and I still wear Berrybenka long pants that I love the most because it so easy to mix and match with other tops :) For bag I'm using Charles and Keith Bag, brown colour is so great when you wearing this pastel colour outfit, it brings a vintage yet stylish look.

Okay , so these are all my looks for today lookbook, hope you like it and please subscribe and comment below :)

Are you working in office? Always struggling for what to wear in the morning? OK, do you love this style ? Oh me too ! I love how this navy blazer can be wear this stylish and it keeps this clean and smart look. I pair it with black long pants with ruffle in the bottom side. And one thing you need to choose material that is so good when it comes to summer, because you don't want to feel freaking hot when you are at outdoor right?

And for the bag I use this big strap half moon sling bag, I love how it so simple and can match with my today outfit and for the mules I choose this red suede mules. Yeah and of course I don't forget my wear my earrings, hat and half moon sun glasses ! Ops, yeah I think you spot 2 half moon things here ;)

How bout you? What kind of outfit you love to wear in this summer to the office but also look stylish and smart ?

Lost in love or drowned in insecurities, we sometimes put the needs of others first, forgetting to take care of our own. Ladies, you should never do these things for a man, or anyone else, for that matter. Stay in touch with your inner self and don’t let anyone in this world change you.

Take a look at the 4 things strong women should never do for a man, or anyone else.

1. Allow them to change who you are

Always be yourself and don’t try to change for anyone in the world. It’s your choice if you decide to make self-improvements, but don’t allow anyone to decide what’s good for you. Never lose track of who you really are. If they ask you to change, to enhance this and that, they may be more interested but they won’t genuinely like you for you.

2. Wait for approval

You are your own person, you don’t need to fish around for validation. You know what’s best for you and you don’t need directions to move forward.

3. Give up on your passions

No one must stand between you and your goals. If you give up on your dreams, you’ll be the first one to regret it. Giving up your passions or a job for a man may seem like the right choice to make at the moment, but let’s face it, you never know what may happen in the future. Don’t compromise your future for others.

4. Change your look

If they seem to have a problem with the way you look, maybe they don’t love you enough. No man should ask you to change your appearance for his own benefit. They must love you for who you are. If they don’t like your hair, style or how much you weigh, then maybe they are not with you for the right reasons.

You are strong, you are beautiful, you are enough! Share this and tell everyone!

Have you ever been so drain because a lot of things to do and a lot of things to care about?

Yes ! Me too ! And this morning I watch a video from Mr. Bong Chandra and he say that we no need to do a lot of things everyday, we just need to focus on the only things that really matter and have an impact. I'm so agree with him, because I feel it my self .

I have done a lot of things before but seriously, nothings go really well, because I don't focus about it and I do a lot of things together in the same time :( And it's really makes me so disappointed.

So what he said in that video, we need to care about our life margins not only margins in business but also margins in our life. Be slow down a lil bit and think about what really matters in our life.

First thing we should know is nothing is gonna be late, a lot of successful people start their passion and business in 30's or even just find their success in their 60's , so please don't be afraid, because nothings gonna be late.

Second thing is, set a priority, because if we do a lot of things in the same time, nothing will go well. You just need to focus in one or two things and be great on it. And nobody teach this to me before, even my family. So, yeah you need to search and learn a lot for yourself, because nobody will care what will you become except yourself.

Third thing is, If you are good enough then no one will stopping you. Yeah, because when you believe in yourself and you do great so supporters will come itself and no one will stop you to things that you love!

So, be better everyday and focus on what are you doing ! Keep watch out your circle because you will become who you are with the most. If you think it's a negative circle, please don't be afraid to say goodbye. Because no one will help you for reaching your desire life except yourself!

Lately those are a lot of things happen in my life. I judge more than love. And honestly it's so tired and I have been so negative last few months. I feels ungrateful for things that I have, and I hate those feelings. I easily get disappointed and mad and it takes me in a bad mood.

Until I went to Bali and have a short trip with my fams, it change my mind and see a lot of things to grateful for, I have a lovely family and I feel loved too :) I have a career that I proud of , I surround by people that love me and I love them too as well. Sometimes we just feel everything doesn't enough and it effect our mood badly without realize about it. When you feel grateful enough, definitely you will be more happy.

We just can't control everything and not everything needs to be controlled :) No one in this world is pure and perfect. If you avoid people for their mistakes, you will be alone in this world. So please judge less and love more.

Many of us have incredible traveling stories to tell. We recognize the great power that being on a journey has over our souls always seeking for adventure. Nowadays, the internet is full of such wonderful tales that inspire others to grab their backpack and get going. If you’ve always dreamed about traveling on your own but maybe didn’t dare, then this article is for you. Traveling alone can enrich your life beyond any measure and even turn it around completely. Here are 5 reasons why you should travel alone at least once.

1. You will learn to be more present.

Seeing things, landscapes and people for the first time can make you more aware of your surroundings. Being in a new place will force you to focus on the colors around you, the sounds or music you hear, how everything smells. You will look at the world actively and stop worrying about your concerns at home for a while.

2. You will gain a fresh perspective.

Being in a different environment will help you put everything in your life into perspective. This new outlook on things will be useful when you come back from your trip.

3. You will expand your soul.

Traveling by yourself can soothe your soul like few other experiences can. You will become a better human being because you have learned about other cultures and realized we are all one. At the edge of your comfort zone, you will find very soul-rewarding experiences.

4. You will find freedom.

Everyday life can become routine very easily and you will feel the need to break free every once in a while. Buying a ticket plane could turn out to be the best choice you can make. There is freedom in immersing yourself into another culture for a bit. And being alone will enhance this experience because you’ll find yourself more in touch with the environment and with yourself too.

5. You will learn to trust yourself more.

Your intuition is key in experiences of this kind. Go with your gut and you’ll only have things to gain.

Don’t forget to make the most of it! Share this to inspire others to travel alone too!

Jakarta is a lil bit hot these days, I prefer to wear something that is light, comfortable in fabric but never out of style. I wear this blue long top which I love so much because it's so light and I also love the colour, this is my first time to have this blue grey colour in my wardrobe and pair it with my white cullot pants. Since cullot pants are so in in 2017, but I think it's a never end trend.

Do you ever feel like you’re losing track of your life? Like you’re wandering with no exact purpose or objective, lost in a sea of uncertainty? Maybe all you need is some advice to keep you afloat. Here are ten questions you need to ask yourself today, and every day, so you never lose sight of what’s truly important in life.

1. Who is that one person who you can totally be yourself around? The answer to this question will reveal who is ‘your person’ and why you should never let go of them.

2. Are you living or just getting by? Life is too short to waste it on waiting for something extraordinary to happen. Do not wait for others to come and change your life for the better, do it yourself!

3. What do you see when you look in the mirror? Are you satisfied with what you see in the mirror or do you want to change a lot about yourself?

4. Which is worse, failing or never trying? Well, the answer to this question is crucial. Have you ever thought which of these is actually worse? They say you can’t fail if you don’t try. So I guess failing is far worse than not trying at all.

5. What makes your heart soar? Find that one thing which makes your soul fly and never set it free.

6. Whose day did you brighten today? Never waste a day without making someone laugh or smile. You don’t actually fathom how a smile or a kind thing said could change a person’s life.

7. If you die tomorrow, do they know you loved them? If you love somebody, let them know. That’s the least you could do, you only live once so try to make the best of it! Spend it with that one person you love the most or at least try to do so. You don’t want to be full of regrets on your deathbed, like all those other people.

8. Did you express gratitude today? Never let a day go by without practicing gratitude. Make it a daily act, think about what you’re thankful for at least once a day. If you make someone happy you will be happy also.

9. Do you feel like you’re re-living the same day over and over? Same stuff, different day? That is why you need to do something new every day, that is if you don’t want to jump into the routine wheel.

10. If not now, when? Do not wait for the perfect time, it will never come.

These are the powerful questions you must ask yourself. Every single day. Pass this on!

It's been 2 years ago since I come back to Indonesia , just wanna share to all of you how I miss Guangzhou so much, miss the street food, miss China's loud noice haha, miss night market , miss my dorm, miss shopping market , miss my school, miss the club and a lot more to miss !

I am so excited if talking about this city, I had been there for 5 years and I already fall in love with it. Expecially winter time, because it makes my skin so great !

I will come back to this city on this year or next year , hopefully this year.