Tiny Wisdom: On Asking for Help

“It’s not the load that breaks you down; it’s the way you carry it.” -Lena Horne

We often think that admitting struggle is a sign of weakness, but we all struggle sometimes. We all get overwhelmed sometimes. We all need help sometimes. Acknowledging this is not a sign of weakness, but struggling alone is a choice to grow weak.

We all need each other. No one is an island. The good news is that people really do care. Think about it. If someone you know was hurting, would you offer your support? If someone you know got into a tough situation, would you help them find a solution? You’d probably want them to come to you–to know that you care and they can trust and depend on you.

Why not give them the opportunity to do the same for you? Why push yourself to your breaking point when there are people who’d be honored to help lighten your load?

If you’re carrying more than you can handle today, choose to let some of it go by letting someone else in. You may feel vulnerable asking for help, but wouldn’t the world be a better place if we all learned to depend on each other?

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I have done that many times before because that vulnerable feeling is somewhat uncomfortable. But I know I am always able to rebound more quickly when I let other people help me. I’m glad this was helpful to you. =)

Lori

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We have been in a bad financial state recently which was very stressful it was only when we talked about it with friends and family that that burden was eased, i am so gratefull for the people who care about me

We often think that admitting struggle is a sign of weakness, but we all
struggle sometimes. We all get overwhelmed sometimes. We all need help
sometimes. Acknowledging this is not a sign of weakness, but struggling
alone is a choice to grow weak.

Christine

Dear people, HELP ME and my family!!! I am single mother of
two beautiful kids ( 3 and 2 years old). We were very happy family for few
years, but now we are in the very bad situation. I have opened my own shoe
store a year ago, but the thinks didn’t work out as I planned and now I am in
debts over 10 000. Bank wants to take our apartment and then we have nowhere to
go. I am scared till death; can not sleep at nights. This is my last chance to
save our family- Asking you for the help. If you can, please donate any amount
of money true PayPal to the e-mail mydlaren@yahoo.com. I pray to the God that
out there is some people who will believe this and help me. God Bless you
all!!!!Best regards- Christine

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