Honestly, the Internet is full of beautiful people (of course who knows if people are really posting their own pics). Put the Internet (and porn) away for a few weeks and get out and just enjoy real life. You need to reset your perspective on what average and real life looks like.

Yep. I understood that. But you said you thought she was average looking. I'd say she was definitely above average. So you need to recalibrate your internal definition of average. And staying off of the Internet can help with that.

I do see them that way. Me being so insecure about myself prevents me to loosen up and ask them out.

What I meant was talk to them without meaning to ask them out. Loosen up in general while talking to various women you meet just going thru daily life. Then when you do meet one you want to ask out, it won't be as scary because your used to talking to women.

Good evening everyone. Hope you all had a good hump day. I spent the day scrubbing window frames and cleaning the windows. Apparently the previous owners had never heard of Windex. And there was a huge gray buildup on the vinyl window frames. Magic Erasers to the rescue. Window frame are white again and glass is clear.