boisecrazyGoldie

Anjalidi Badi Sayani is really a badi sayani girl...Blackmailing chotey for every minute.."ekele rehne dijiye...dawai nehi khayenge...What rubbish! She should not forget when she was mad at the snake for not coming on time, he carried her around in front of everyone...did the fake promising wedding ceremony, showing off affections and stuff...So how come the family and especially Anjiaby is upset if Chotey is trying to show a little romanticism towards his wife, or paying a little more attention to his wife..A girl who has sufferred a lot for the family.....My god I do not understand how we are all tolerating this!!!!! I am so ready for snakewa as I know that he is a mean, bad man...If Angie is jealous of her brother...next time she will be jealous of her baby!!!!!!!

God save us...Maybe we should start watching the other serial that Arnav and Khushi were promoting!

-DKS-IF-Sizzlerz

A bit of a rant - it's long, at times perhaps incoherent, but I was revelling in some awesome ASR moments and then bam! what the Anjali...

All indications were given that this was a love story. I didn't see Anjali lurking in between ASR
and Kh in any of the show promos, I did not see Anjali in any promo touting her
incredible bond with her brother. I did
see her as a side character from day 1 when she came onto the stage with ASR
and it was evident that ASR loved his Di and she cared for him immensely,
worried about him being HAPPY and letting go of the pain of the past. That has been Anjali from June 6th
2011.

Anjali has always been the unstable Raizada ' not only an
insecurity arising from her disability but also from her broken wedding, but even in her bubble she recognized her
brother's feelings. She is the one who
reached out to La even though the family didn't like her, she called him out on
his rude behavior with Khushi, she recognized that he fell in love with her and
she was the mature one in the family who put aside his shotgun wedding and
welcomed Khushi into the house. If she
was shown to remain the one who understood her brother, then I would have
oodles of sympathy for what is a plight that can break any woman. Pregnant with your adultering, kidnapping and
attempted murdering husband's child, who you pinned your entire self-worth and
being on. I am supposed to be crying for
this woman. But I ain't.

Anjali has gone off the deep end. I tried for two weeks. For two weeks I said, come on Anu, she is a
pathetic creature right now in the midst of an emotional breakdown, she's
pregnant, never worked a day in her life, mooches off her bro'wait focus, her
husband got kicked out of the house. She's
delicate, she deserves the benefit of the doubt. I am supposed to sympathize with her. But no
dice. What I see is a woman who shuts
everyone out, who goes off to abort her child and kill herself in the process because
THE FATHER gets no respect, then comes back and wants to keep baby and have baby
look like said father who deceived her and her family for 3 years (sach kya
hain nani, somebody just tell her to call the Guptas and Happyji), who tells
her brother who saved her life he is of no help to her, who cries at the sight
of flowers for her sister in law, who cries at the sight of her brother having
alone time with his wife, who cries at the sight of her brother having a moment
with his wife, who cries that her brother forgot her after he lets her keep
said flowers, hauls her butt to bed, that's in a room, in a house, that had the
snake who got the allowance in the Shantivan that ASR built. She is coming off as self absorbed and she is
coming off as begrudging her brother's happiness which goes against the essence
of this character.

There is no other way to take it. She stood in the living room today and called
her brother ASR a liar. How convenient and how unimaginative CVs that you have Khushi
maligned by Mami without a single shut up and extreme tepid retort from Nani and
then you have Anjali the little delicate flower call her brother a liar, pout,
cry at the display of affection for her sister in law and waltz off. How sad was ASR today left alone in the
living room with his wife and sister going off in different directions. Why is this injustice visited upon this
couple time and time again just when the audience feels that they are due for
some time to just love. So ASR goes off
in the direction of Anjali (obviously because we have to have equal air time
now, he hugged his wife, her screentime quota met, am I being cynical, yes
because the story is ridiculous as is Anjali's characterization at the
moment). And this is where Anjali and
any glimmer of sympathy left and I wanted ASR to pack her off to her Shyam
heaven haveli that has been under construction for a year.

She says marriage changed Chotte the day he got
married. So why are you whining about it NOW????? Why were you not whining about
it when you made Bali in Delhi, why weren't you whining about during Holi,
where was this boohoo Chotte why isn't Di numero uno when you made Khushi
repair his button?? What has changed
between then and now is that Anjali is devastated and lost her husband, which
leads me to believe that she now begrudges the time with his wife because
CHOTTE IS HAPPY and she is not and wants attention NOW (insert pout and mote mote ansoo). And
now, what will she do, try to get back the man her entire household despises
and alienate Kh (this is how soch nayi works on SP right). How much more emotionally manipulative can
someone get. How much more self
centered? CVs this is the reason why the
audience cannot relate to her. While she
was happy with Shyam, she was all for her brother being in love. Now, she is not. If her issue is that it is Khushi he is happy
with, then find a better way to display it because right now, Anjali is no
better than any other manipulative saas.

I signed up for a love story. Today I got a couple finally acknowledging
and succumbing to each other (Barun and
Sanaya thank you for the most awesome 7 mins) and then got lambasted with a
saas/bahu drama with Akash showing absolutely no spine and Payal thinking just
a spoonful of bhindi makes the ghussa go down.
Manorama becoming that "saas" again, insulting the bahu and trying to
feed her son a bottle. I use my remote to avoid those shows (yes I
know exactly what to do with them thank you!) Add some phantom calls from the
character no one wants to see return any time soon and we have a recipe for
disaster. The show needs the main lead
couple to have some time ' uninterrupted time.
Make parallel tracks, but don't do it at the cost of the central story
and don't do it while destroying the characters. Today's episode was a stale regressive kitchen
drama with a half baked love story stuck in.
For shame.

(note - I have not seen Dolly's interview with Rangmunch, so don't know what she said, and quite frankly don't have any interest now)

I have written a mail on the promotion part but yet to receive a revert. Hope they have something to say

dillidikudiGoldie

Actually if they would have shown that she is directing all her anger and frustration at Khushi, then I would have understood. It is an extremely natural reaction to resent the other woman that your husband was after. It is very unnatural to be expected to live with her and see her face everyday. Even though I know Khushi is innocent and Anjali should understand that, but NO ONE would have blamed her if she felt some resentment towards Khushi as it is a natural reaction. It is the most common self preservation technique. It is very hard for Anjali to accept that her husband did not love her, so in her denial phase, it would be natural for her to somehow blame Khushi.

Yes she should feel a bit of alienation from her brother since Khushi is his wife and he supported her, but her main anger/frustration should have been directed at Khushi and not Arnav.

I think if CVs would have chosen this route, audience would have been able to relate to Anjali better. No woman wants to see the face of the woman who reminds me of my husband's betrayal. It takes time before someone can come in terms with this and accept the other woman whole heartedly. Arnav would have been rightfully torn between his wife and sister then. He would have to sacrifice his relation with Khushi for Anjali's happiness and recovery (here comes his famous dialogue... Di main aapki Khushi ke liye apni Khushi kurbaan ka doonga). He would have to choose between them, and audience would understand why he chose Anjali. Then after Shyam's revelation in front of Anjali and her recovery, she would bring Arhi back together.

Why did they not go this route?? Why are the Anjali-Arnav-Khushi scenes being shown in a way that is leaving a bad taste in our mouths?

Do you agree with me? I am trying to make sense of all the mess.

You are so right...the problem lies with the execution! The execution is bipolar...usually at the south end but we do get moments of brilliance. But they are far and too few in between.

It is totally unconvincing the way Anjali is behaving right now...The CVs need to fix this part asap

sree07IF-Rockerz

I watched the first 10 minutes and forwarded the rest of the episode. I heard Sanaya wasn't even shown for the rest of the episode but this is depriving me of seeing Barun too. That's the extent to which Anjali's character annoys me now...I just can't bear to see her on-screen.

The vibe of the show is so negative all because of this ONE person. This was supposed to be the high point of this show. TRPs had jumped to 3.4. They could have used that momentum to focus on the love story and I bet it would go over 4.0 easily as that's what the audience has been waiting to see for over a year.

Rather, they took a step back by showing inconsistencies in both Arnav and Khushi's behavior just to fit in the Didi Ki Saut storyline. Disgusting. Please remember that it is the lead pair who made this show a superhit. Don't compromise their relationship for one that should be on the sidelines. Today was one of the lowest moments in the show's history.

geetmaanluvIF-Dazzler

"I signed up for a love story. Today I got a couple finally acknowledging and succumbing to each other (Barun and Sanaya thank you for the most awesome 7 mins) and then got lambasted with a saas/bahu drama "

spot on ! arhi scene was beautiful.. what followed i was like am i still watching the same show? if it wasnt for sarun .. who would watch this show. poor sanaya whose is the female lead of the show yet the cv's are hell bent on making it anjali.

hkhb17Goldie

I just want to say one thing if this track is to make daljeet happyjust replace herI don't care because this track is a headache if i wanted to watch saas bahu drama there are many i am not interested in watching didi ki saut for me sanaya and barun make this show a hit not anjali.

Lastlya message for gul,daljeet,gh

CUT IT

Very well said

And excellent starting post.

This issue about Anjali is bordering about ridiculousness. I for one agree the importance of other parallel tracks but I think not at the expense of Arnav-Khushi story!!!

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