tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16273058Sun, 01 Mar 2015 19:20:47 +0000familyrandom musingslife's adventuresthe little cGrandchildrenfrustrationThe old SSBamazing thingshealth issuestrials and tribulationssadnesspuzzling thingssurgeryabsolute stupidityweathermiscscaredSimonefoolishnesshappy milestonescomputersdogsrememberingvacationcatsShadowrantbusinessfun experiencethe big cnervestv sillinesschurchembroidery adventuresinternetangermy workour tripINCOMPETENCEapprehensionbusycomputer ills.happinessnastinessdeadlineshorrible thingstrainswhinedistracted musingsdoctorssilly companiesmesses that aren't my faultcoldpainpicturesstupid internetthanksthe crudunplanned goodnessWorka cat's talefunnyhonestlyohwellMusings from Grandma's AtticI am daughter,although my parents have passed, a wife, mother and grandmother, and now another woman battling breast cancer. These are a few thoughts about my life and life in general. Some may be humorous, some serious - just like life. Come join me!http://mfga.blogspot.com/noreply@blogger.com (Grandma K)Blogger1500125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16273058.post-2041316229427946387Sat, 28 Feb 2015 20:32:00 +00002015-02-28T14:32:38.307-06:00Getting back into the swing.Today was the first of two days of serving a meal at church. &nbsp;It feels so comfortable and right to be doing this. &nbsp;I am so grateful that there is the youth director at church who make my granddaughter love going to that church so much that she insisted her parents go back - which means we also went back. &nbsp;Today just felt right.<br /><br />This was a Synod wide event, but I was amazed (appalled is more like it) that there were so few participants - about 25. &nbsp;I was expecting a large crowd. &nbsp;When we pulled in the parking lot, I really thought the event had been cancelled. &nbsp;There were fewer cars than are normally for anything! &nbsp;But we went in, set up lunch that was already pretty much in place, welcomed the folks for lunch, and cleaned up. &nbsp;Boom! That was it. &nbsp;But it felt good.<br /><br />Tonight is the monthly group outing called Guess Where We Are Going To Dinner. &nbsp;Once again it will be at a restaurant in our neighborhood. One we frequent, and now I wonder where we will eat after church tomorrow!!!<br /><br />Then on Wednesday I will be bringing food and helping serve at a funeral reception. &nbsp;This woman developed breast cancer after me. &nbsp;She has fought it tooth and nail, having it metastasized to the bones. &nbsp;She developed pneumonia, and that was the end for her. &nbsp;Bless her soul - she was quite eccentric, but her heart was huge. &nbsp;I am proud to help her family with the reception.<br /><br />And tomorrow is family dinner night. &nbsp;I have no clue who or where. &nbsp;Brian is playing at the BarBQue cook-off. &nbsp;This is a three night deal that precedes the Rodeo. &nbsp;Makes lots of money (he does - and so does the cook-off for that matter). &nbsp;Steve - who knows. &nbsp;I think he and Krissi are renting a limo to go. &nbsp;They have tickets to some tents down there. &nbsp;That's where the real fun is. &nbsp;There is general admission, but the real happenings are in the different cooker's tents - like where Brian's band is.<br /><br />I tried to hijack a video clip of Brian playing with another band recently from Facebook, but apparently it isn't something easily taken. &nbsp;I am proud of his singing. &nbsp;Wanted to share it, but you will just have to take my word. <br /><br />So - that's the news from around these parts. &nbsp; &nbsp;http://mfga.blogspot.com/2015/02/getting-back-into-swing.htmlnoreply@blogger.com (Grandma K)3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16273058.post-1574056792362604515Fri, 27 Feb 2015 16:16:00 +00002015-02-27T10:16:01.880-06:00Brrr - againI shouldn't complain about the cold. &nbsp;It is only here for a few days, &nbsp;and it's never dangerously cold. &nbsp;I know we get extra blankets to the homeless, but it's not like they are going to freeze to the ground. &nbsp;It's just annoying - and the homeless are even more miserable. &nbsp;There is a non-profit here that is wonderful about getting hats, gloves, coats, and blankets to those poor folks. Never-the-less I am just not comfortable either in these temperatures. &nbsp;I hate to have the heated come on!!!<br /><br />That nonsense being over on to today. &nbsp;I forgot to add yesterday that when we were iced over, that means my "FABULOUSLY WONDERFUL" (not) internet was out. &nbsp;Any time we eve have clouds, that thing goes out. &nbsp;I went out when the ice was gone from the deck and beat on the dish. &nbsp;It didn't help. &nbsp;I called the company. &nbsp;They said that in heavy rain (takes ours a mist), snow (didn't have it) or fog the satellite internet will go out. &nbsp;Well ours is super sensitive,<br /><br />Steve (aka SIL) has told me a friend of his (they are a multitude) &nbsp;who lives about 75 miles has internet (satellite ??) that is faster, cheaper, and more reliable. &nbsp;Of course, he still hasn't found the name of said company. &nbsp;I am still waiting for him to plug in the USB from Amazon into my TV also. &nbsp;Does that tell you anything??? &nbsp;He talks (a lot) a good story, but action is something else. <br /><br /><br />Wednesday night I slipped and fell. &nbsp;With my weak knees, shoulders that have just been injected with cortisone (probably rotator tears) and just generally being out shape coupled with my slick floors made getting up a problem. &nbsp;Something has to change here. &nbsp;I am very sore. &nbsp;My knees feel bruised. &nbsp;My muscles in my shoulders and arms are sore. &nbsp;That is telling me it &nbsp;is time to get in shape. &nbsp;I will b on the stationary bike everyday. When it is cold like this - I will probably will spend time at Krissi's. &nbsp;They have a "gym" in their garage. &nbsp;When the pool warms I will be in it. I now understand "I've fallen and can't get up."<br /><br />So today it's pretty much back to normal. &nbsp;Hair cut. &nbsp;Pharmacy (and using it to get a load of bread).<br /><br />Have a great weekend!<br /><br />http://mfga.blogspot.com/2015/02/brrr-again.htmlnoreply@blogger.com (Grandma K)4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16273058.post-1212755245095749509Thu, 26 Feb 2015 23:43:00 +00002015-02-26T17:43:22.364-06:00Remember me?After that last post that was simply steam of thoughts as they came into my head - it was probably assumed I had a stroke and that explained it.<br /><br />No - my round of doctors and PT - which will continue next week as though nothing had happened got to me!. &nbsp;Plus we spent the last week at the SSB.<br /><br />As you are aware, that is getting to be a pain for me. &nbsp;I really want to stay home!! &nbsp;But - gotta go. &nbsp;This trip was a real winner. &nbsp;We did go to Community Club on Friday night. &nbsp;Our crazy neighbor's wife seems to realize that I am not her "bestest" friend. &nbsp;She has hinted over the last year while that crazy road was being constructed that this relative and that were having babies or grands and they would love to have the baby toys I make. &nbsp;Yeah - well, I am not making them for you unless you pay me double what I charge. &nbsp;I have given her those - free. &nbsp;She didn't sit anywhere near me Friday night. &nbsp;Last month, she sat between me and my SIL. <br /><br />Beginning on Tuesday, our temperature dropped to 27 degrees and STAYED there for about 30 hours. &nbsp;I know it has been a lot worse in other parts of the nation, but this is pretty serious for us. &nbsp;Our decks were completely iced over. &nbsp;Fortunately I had gotten the stair treads installed so that there would be traction on the back steps. &nbsp;Finally yesterday the temperatures broke. &nbsp;It was a lovely afternoon - until the riding lawn mower broke.<br /><br />It is still sitting in the pasture. &nbsp;It is in gear. &nbsp;It won't start so it won't come out of gear. &nbsp;Fun. fun, fun.<br /><br />Looks like we are in for another round of cold. &nbsp;Up there it will be sleet and snow tomorrow. &nbsp;Then cold the rest of the week and into next. &nbsp;At least here it won't be as cold.<br /><br /><br />http://mfga.blogspot.com/2015/02/remember-me.htmlnoreply@blogger.com (Grandma K)2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16273058.post-3689896380702668586Wed, 18 Feb 2015 23:51:00 +00002015-02-18T17:51:26.381-06:00Memory jogI will make no bones about it - I cannot remember 4 of the birth dates of my six grandchildren. &nbsp;Katie is the first. &nbsp;I forget if it is the 16th or 17th of January. &nbsp;I can remember Karrington's and Reagan's. &nbsp;They are in July like mine and my son Brian. &nbsp;The other three I cannot remember either - all of Brian's kids. &nbsp;I know Holden's is January, William is February (like today, and believe me I wrote it down today!!!), and Delaney is in September. &nbsp;I really feel awful about that, but when talking to my best friend yesterday, I found she can't remember her grand's birthdays either!!!<br /><br />SO with that - let's move on. It has been a crowded week again. &nbsp;Yesterday was PT. &nbsp;He really worked me. &nbsp;And alas, I haven't done them today. <br /><br />And a funny (I guess) story about yesterday. &nbsp;I was supposed to call the pain doc to let them know how the injections have done. Did that - left the message and then headed out to PT. &nbsp;I got home and G told me (I THOUGHT!!) that I needed to "call Dora and Dr W's office. &nbsp;My best friend is named Dora. &nbsp;We don't talk often, but we are really close friends. &nbsp;I was afraid something had happened with one of her kids. <br /><br />So I called Dr W's office back to see what the doc had to say. &nbsp;Then I called Dora. &nbsp;She seemed to be a little surprised, but we talked for a while. &nbsp;She was still at work. &nbsp;We vowed to get together soon, and went on. She never let on that anything was amiss.<br /><br />After I got off the phone, G asked who I was talking to. &nbsp;I replied "Dora - I returned her call." &nbsp;He said, and THEN I read the note it was Dora <b><i><u>AT</u></i></b> Dr W's office. &nbsp;Oops. &nbsp;What a senior moment.<br /><br /><br /><br /><br />Today was our church group meeting. &nbsp;I do enjoy them. &nbsp;I wish they weren't every week. &nbsp;I would love them to be once a month, but... &nbsp;We were listing prayer concerns. &nbsp;One of our church member succumbed to cancer last week. &nbsp;She left two cats. &nbsp;They are looking for someone to adopt them. &nbsp;Do you know how hard it is to get cats adopted??<br /><br /><br />Tomorrow we go to the SSB - again. &nbsp;Things might slow down, but Friday is Community Club (yopee) and Wednesday is Happy Hour. &nbsp;Friday will also be going grocery shopping in Fredetricksburg. &nbsp;Perhaps the other days I can just chill!<br /><br /><br />This has been totally stream of consciousness today. &nbsp;Probably doesn't make a lot of sense. &nbsp;Really sorry about that. &nbsp;BTW - Sally so glad you are back!!!!http://mfga.blogspot.com/2015/02/memory-jog.htmlnoreply@blogger.com (Grandma K)3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16273058.post-8498761347880120783Mon, 16 Feb 2015 17:14:00 +00002015-02-16T11:14:46.533-06:00Sunday dinnerIt was a quiet evening. &nbsp;The three youngest grands were not here. &nbsp;Their mom and her mom went to Lafayette for Mardi Gras. &nbsp;They originally were going to be back, but ... &nbsp;Anyway, it was probably a good thing since Katie is still recovering from her concussion. &nbsp;She is still having some headaches, but all in all getting better. &nbsp;She went to the ODP practice because her coach wanted her to be there for at least some of the instruction even though she wouldn't be in the pool.<br /><br />Valentine's night, Steve served a great meal of sea scallops, shrimp, lobster and risotto. &nbsp;Quite tasty, but bless his heart - he has a problem with timing. &nbsp;He isn't sure how to fire things so that they are all served hot. &nbsp;The sea foods were all cold, but when it comes to those things - cold is so much better than none.<br /><br />My heart goes out to those of you who are experiencing the brutal weather. &nbsp;We are headed down to freezing tonight which isn't really a big deal, EXCEPT things are budding out. &nbsp;In the Hill Country, the wineries are worried about frost tonight. &nbsp;That will certainly be horrible for the grapes. &nbsp;The peach people don't seem to be especially worried. &nbsp;Not sure the trees have budded.<br /><br />I am not as conscientious about my PT here at home as I should be. &nbsp;I know it's an excuse, but I just don't take the time to do the exercises. &nbsp;It takes about 15 minutes - which is nothing, but there is so much I would rather be doing than those exercises. &nbsp;But they are helping. &nbsp;It may hurt <i>while</i>&nbsp; I am doing them, but I can stand longer and walk a little further. &nbsp;Gotta do them!<br /><br />It's off to Costco in a while. &nbsp;Into the rain and cold. &nbsp;I know - I don't need sympathy. &nbsp;It's not ice and snow!!http://mfga.blogspot.com/2015/02/sunday-dinner.htmlnoreply@blogger.com (Grandma K)4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16273058.post-8347362898149517032Sun, 15 Feb 2015 20:09:00 +00002015-02-15T14:09:23.746-06:00Did I ever learn a lesson!I have never subscribed to anything that Dr Oz had put out. &nbsp;I don't like his ideas, and in fact there is more and more about him coming out that the things he "preaches" about health are not correct.<br /><br />But other than not ever subscribing to anything he does, that isn't important. &nbsp;What I have found is what I have always heard about "don't unsubscribe to anything that you didn't subscribe to in the first place" is a valid rule.<br /><br />My home email will only let emails through from folks who are in my address book. &nbsp;It has a another box for those emails that may not be complete spam. &nbsp;Just suspicious because they are not in my address book. &nbsp;Somehow Dr Oz emails began showing up in the suspicious folder. <br /><br />I was tired of deleting them, so I went to where is said to "unsubscribe." &nbsp;Well now I am getting twice as many. &nbsp;Word got out apparently - she is a real living person. &nbsp;Hit the spam button.<br /><br />Lesson learned. &nbsp;I will just delete from now on.<br /><br />http://mfga.blogspot.com/2015/02/did-i-ever-learn-lesson.htmlnoreply@blogger.com (Grandma K)4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16273058.post-8764257564736026031Fri, 13 Feb 2015 23:04:00 +00002015-02-13T17:04:15.526-06:00Legal stuffAttorneys have it made!! &nbsp;They have set everything up so that they are essential for almost anything - including dying and death!<br /><br />We went to check the validity of our wills, and they are ok (thank goodness), but then we went ahead and did the advanced directives and powers of attorney (there's that word again!).<br /><br />It was all really simple - our kids determine what happens to us if we become incapacitated. &nbsp;Well - &nbsp;G will take over for me - I am sure I will go first. &nbsp;But then it goes to the kids.<br /><br />We had all the information filled out. &nbsp;All they had to do was fill in the forms that are stored with the proper names/addresses. &nbsp;This was a mere $300!<br /><br />Krissi wants to have their wills done, and they really need to. &nbsp;Steve travels so much, and he has a daughter by a previous relationship. &nbsp;I have written about her before. &nbsp;She has been and still is pretty much a witch (but change one letter please) to them both. &nbsp;They don't want any of their "stuff" to go to her. &nbsp;They want it to go to their three.<br /><br />I guess that sounds horrible, but this young woman has been really terrible to them. &nbsp;They will give her a certain amount of money from the estate, and that is all.<br /><br />******************************************************************************<br /><br />Last night, Katie got a between level 1 and 2 concussion last night. &nbsp;She was head butted in the basketball game. &nbsp;So she won't be able to participate in the ODP (olympic development program) camp for water polo this weekend, and (thank goodness) she cannot play in the next basketball game next week. <br /><br />I am still tired, tired, tired! &nbsp;I went to sleep last night at 9:30 and slept until 1 something when I had to go to the bathroom. &nbsp;Then I went back to sleep until 7:30. &nbsp;I really could stand a nap now!!<br /><br />Perhaps I will be back this weekend!! If not, have a great one!<br />http://mfga.blogspot.com/2015/02/legal-stuff.htmlnoreply@blogger.com (Grandma K)3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16273058.post-4069479323464392431Thu, 12 Feb 2015 17:23:00 +00002015-02-12T11:23:40.685-06:00Nearing the finish lineDown to the last or almost last appointments. &nbsp;The sleep study was really very easy. &nbsp;The technician was just great. &nbsp;Of course I knew how it went before I went up. &nbsp;There were three of us - actually 4 but I didn't see the 4th. &nbsp;This was the first for one of the guys. &nbsp;I think he was quite nervous.<br /><br />I thought we would be getting a sweet roll, juice and coffee this morning, but it was one of three different breakfast sandwiches, and whatever else from there - fruit, cereal and the like. &nbsp;It was good. <br />I told the tech I know she isn't supposed to diagnose, but did it look like I would qualify - especially with one visit. &nbsp;She said yes. &nbsp;So that is good news!<br /><br />I was worried about what my co-pay would be, but I will be honest - it almost didn't matter. &nbsp;It was only $10!<br /><br />I woke at 6:15 on my own. &nbsp;I had to "go" so badly! &nbsp;The technician came on and asked if I were ready to get up - well no, but... &nbsp;I had to wait for her to disconnect me, but made it!<br /><br />She then took all the leads off, ordered breakfast delivery, and after I ate - I was on my way - into the terrible traffic!!<br /><br />I wish I could have thought of something to do out there beginning at 7. &nbsp;I have to be back at 12:30 for PT. <br /><br />So I will be off for that here in a bit. &nbsp;I wonder how many sessions have been ordered. &nbsp;Next week is the SSB, although with the new polar express coming on Thursday we may not be going on that day. We'll see!!http://mfga.blogspot.com/2015/02/nearing-finish-line.htmlnoreply@blogger.com (Grandma K)4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16273058.post-557407338897339364Wed, 11 Feb 2015 20:13:00 +00002015-02-11T14:13:43.802-06:00Life is a complete whirl right nowWhen I set about making my doctors appointments, I was amaze at the speed at which my calendar filled up. &nbsp;Two weeks - almost solid of something on each date. &nbsp;Then as I began going to those visits, more was added. &nbsp;My head is in a complete whirl.<br /><br />Yesterday were the injections, and while I still am feeling a few twinges, there is some relief! &nbsp;I discovered I am still not comfortable standing for a time period. &nbsp;The back still hurts. &nbsp;And as long as I am fairly careful with the shoulders, they are better.<br /><br />I got the call yesterday from the hospital I wanted. &nbsp;Prayers were answered!! &nbsp;They sent me a 10 page packet to return today, and I go tonight at 7:30 for the sleep study. &nbsp;I am hoping I will be sleeping soundly so they wake me to put the mask on. &nbsp;This will mean only one study. &nbsp;I took one of the sleeping pills the sleep doc gave me, and it worked!!! &nbsp;So - tonight for sure.<br /><br />In the literature it said that I can watch TV or read as I normally would - - - until lights out. &nbsp;That sounds rather ominous. &nbsp; With the technician waking us (me - don't know how many there are) at 6:30 I am thinking it is going to be fairly early. &nbsp;I will bet before my usual midnight!!!<br /><br />I am glad I have had the sleep study before. &nbsp;I won't be so terribly nervous. &nbsp;But I know I still do not sleep well in a strange bed.<br /><br />So - have a great evening. &nbsp;I am sure I will be here bright and early tomorrow - and then off to PT in the afternoon. &nbsp;Money, money,money thanks to my wonderful Medicare Advantage Plan (which really isn't for me!!!!0http://mfga.blogspot.com/2015/02/life-is-complete-whirl-right-now.htmlnoreply@blogger.com (Grandma K)2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16273058.post-4350579514722976838Tue, 10 Feb 2015 17:55:00 +00002015-02-10T11:55:34.397-06:00NextI am waiting for the phone call from the hospital I prefer to set the sleep study. &nbsp;I have a terrible feeling I will be going to the other hospital. &nbsp;It used to be the one all the doctors wanted to use. &nbsp;It was the only one out this way, and the doctors flocked to it. &nbsp;It was owned by doctors. &nbsp;Then they sold it. &nbsp;The quality of care there went down into the basement. &nbsp;When I had the mastectomy, &nbsp;my surgeon said we could go there, but he really didn't want to because they would postpone surgeries for hours.<br /><br />Anyway - I have been able to have procedures from that time until now at this newer hospital (owned by the physicians that used to own the first). &nbsp;Keeping my fingers crossed!<br /><br />Had my injections this morning. &nbsp;It went well. &nbsp;I am already feeling relief. &nbsp;Hope that continues for a while - not just a couple of weeks or month.<br /><br />Krissi and Katie had their talk. &nbsp;I really do feel sorry for them. &nbsp;I want to take Katie out sometime this weekend. &nbsp;I have always been very close to her, and we seem to have an "understanding," &nbsp;I was able to quell her temper tantrums. <br /><br />I wouldn't want to be a teenager these days for all the tea in China. &nbsp;My teen years (in high school) were so great. &nbsp;I loved that time. &nbsp;In college, I changed somewhat - at least once I did (that my parents knew about.) &nbsp;I still exhibited some dangerous activities, but survived.<br /><br />I had problems with Krissi. &nbsp;It was grim. &nbsp;Really grim. &nbsp;But she has grown up to a very responsible woman - a successful woman. &nbsp;All the stuff that was driving me crazy was left behind. &nbsp;With her, it was having a phone in her room - gave a lot of privacy.<br /><br />Katie has a smart phone. &nbsp;That is Pandora's box. &nbsp;She is just in so many activities she needs one. &nbsp;Well - she at least needs a phone that texts. &nbsp;But they find ways to get in trouble these days &nbsp; &nbsp;She starts high school next year. &nbsp;That is a worry. <br /><br />Think it is time for a nap - still have drugs in my system (which is a statement that if taken out of context would look really strange,) &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp;http://mfga.blogspot.com/2015/02/next.htmlnoreply@blogger.com (Grandma K)2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16273058.post-8087336446217350029Mon, 09 Feb 2015 22:53:00 +00002015-02-09T16:53:14.612-06:00So ...I really do wish I could see better. &nbsp;I realized my title, of all things, was wrong yesterday. &nbsp;So this morning before ANYTHING else I changed it. &nbsp;Geesh!<br /><br />Went to the "sleep doctor." &nbsp;He wasn't what I expected, but that's ok. &nbsp;I wanted to tell him to just schedule the sleep test because I know I need a new machine, but I patiently (what a play on words!) listened and answered questions. &nbsp;And then he prescribed some sleeping meds and nasal spray. &nbsp;Then sent to orders to the hospital I really would like to use, but they don't take my insurance. &nbsp;Of course not! &nbsp;That's why I wish I were still just medicare not medicare advantage.<br /><br />Then finally this afternoon, I got the call for my injections tomorrow. &nbsp;I was so afraid the appointment would be in the afternoon - so I would be NPO for HOURS!! &nbsp;It's at 9:45 - not bad.<br /><br />Krissi is finding how heartbreaking a teen-aged daughter can be. &nbsp;She thought Katie was very trust worthy. &nbsp;That she had her head on straight. &nbsp;Not so much. &nbsp;The siren of social media is calling her. &nbsp;She has done some foolish things on the phone. &nbsp;Not as serious as could be, but enough.<br /><br />I try to say as little as possible. &nbsp;Krissi sent me through sheer hell as a teenager. &nbsp;When she was 18, she thought she was grown and left home. &nbsp;That was a bad, bad time - I think for her as well as me. <br /><br />My heart is so full of sadness for both of them. <br /><br />Guess it runs in the family. &nbsp;I pulled a terrible thing on my parents too. &nbsp;Wish I knew - but I am thinking my mother probably did too. &nbsp;I know not all girls do, but seems to run in my family.<br /><br />Sad times.http://mfga.blogspot.com/2015/02/so.htmlnoreply@blogger.com (Grandma K)2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16273058.post-3148810856345555571Sun, 08 Feb 2015 21:36:00 +00002015-02-09T09:36:22.688-06:00Randomness on a Sunday afternoonSo much, so much - where to start.<br /><br />I guess I will begin with late last week - Friday I believe. &nbsp;I opened my email and there was the weekly missal from Celebration. &nbsp;There is a section where the pastor or vicar or Assistant in Ministry or Worship Leader writes something. &nbsp;And Pastor did. &nbsp;I am sure he has caused quite a stir because most of the congregation didn't know this little tidbit. &nbsp;I had heard because he visited his top 10 givers, and said something to them,<br /><br />In the newsletter he announced he is stepping down as Pastor! &nbsp;The 22nd will be his last Sunday. Krissi talked to one of our friends who asked it that meant we would be coming back. &nbsp;Nope. <br /><br />But this is how that man "rolls" - all smoke and mirrors. &nbsp;<b><i><u>I</u></i></b>&nbsp;know what the plan is. &nbsp;Krissi knows the plan, and probably about 8 others do too. &nbsp;But the congregation is still like mushrooms. &nbsp;Kept in the dark and fed s*it. &nbsp;The more I learn about this man, the more I really dislike him. &nbsp;Not very Christian I guess.<br /><br />*******************************************************************************<br /><br />This weekend has had some amazing things happen. &nbsp;First, I never will claim to be a housekeeper. &nbsp;I don't like it, and if the house is clean enough to not be dangerous, I am ok. &nbsp;Secondly, (an excuse I guess) I had a whole pile of stuff happen all at once - even though it was across a number of years. &nbsp;When I retired, I began keeping grandchildren. &nbsp;That took a lot of my time - especially Katie because I kept her the most hours (another story) and the longest time. <br /><br />My aunt and uncle who were like second parents passed. &nbsp;I inherited a lot of stuff. &nbsp;Back then I had emotional ties to the stuff. &nbsp;It meant a lot to me. <br /><br />Then I had to move Step-mom and Dad here. &nbsp;She with terminal kidney/bladder cancer; he terminal Alzheimer's. &nbsp;I was trying to be super-woman. &nbsp;I felt guilty because I couldn't manage him at home, so I was trying to do his laundry. &nbsp;And since he had become incontinent - there was a lot.<br /><br />Then she got really bad and died. &nbsp;So we had to move the stuff from San Antonio. &nbsp;The house was being sold. &nbsp;Round one of the avalanche.<br /><br />My dad rocked along for about 4 years, and then he passed. &nbsp;I am still processing all the stuff from two households.<br /><br />Then the in-laws died. &nbsp;Not so much stuff, but still...<br /><br />In that time right after my dad, I was lucky enough to be tagged by cancer. &nbsp;Chemo, radiation all that. &nbsp;I was just beat down. &nbsp;Things simply piled up - more.<br /><br />Most recently the arthritis. &nbsp;Hopefully Pain Doc will help.<br /><br />So where am I going - right here! &nbsp;When I was taking chemo, I lost my wedding ring. &nbsp;I hate to wear any jewelry in the house. &nbsp;I took the ring off, and forgot where I put it. &nbsp;Lovely chemo brain. &nbsp; Add everything else and I was a mess. &nbsp;I have searched and searched. &nbsp;Could not find it.<br /><br />Yesterday, I was looking through last years tax stuff and cleaning up where the shredder vomited after getting jammed. &nbsp;I was using the hand vac. &nbsp;It wouldn't pick up something, and of course with the macular degeneration and glaucoma I couldn't see it very well. &nbsp;Lo and behold it was my ring that has been missing for 5 (!!!) years. &nbsp;Holy cow!<br /><br />Last month I lost my wig. &nbsp;It is the most expensive wig I have ever bought. &nbsp;I was just sick. &nbsp;I looked every where. &nbsp;We thought it might be in the clothes I cleaned out of my closed. &nbsp;It might have slipped in there. &nbsp;I haven't wanted to take all of those clothes out of the bag because handling all that made my arthritis in my left ring finger, and it is so swollen, I can't put my (new) wedding set on. <br /><br />I am clearing old magazines (and I only take three - and two aren't monthly, so where do they all come from???) on the coffee table. &nbsp;What is hiding there between two coffee table books. &nbsp;Yep - my little lost wig.<br /><br />Since cancer - I have started carrying a day timer again. &nbsp;I have to keep my appointments in there. &nbsp;Like so far this month, there has been something each and every day. &nbsp;We keep track of our mileage to doctors' appointments. &nbsp;Mine from last year wasn't with my other medical stuff. &nbsp;Remember - my "office" is the kitchen table and close-by corner. &nbsp;It was living with the wig!<br /><br />Now my mind is still missing. &nbsp;I am thinking there isn't much hope for it.<br /><br />So it has been an exciting and good weekend in the end. &nbsp;Hope your has been too!http://mfga.blogspot.com/2015/02/randoness-on-sunday-afternoon.htmlnoreply@blogger.com (Grandma K)1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16273058.post-4694567761281044971Fri, 06 Feb 2015 18:53:00 +00002015-02-06T12:53:27.299-06:00Results from my appointmentThat's easy - more appointments and the chance to spend a LOT of money.<br /><br />I get the steroid injection(s) on Tuesday. &nbsp;I was telling her about my shoulders, so while I am out - she will pop them too! &nbsp;Hoping for a lot of relief.<br /><br />I have a 'script to pick up that will help relieve the nerve pain from the sciatica so I can sleep. &nbsp;Looking forward to that! &nbsp;It wasn't ready until late last night, so I will get it today after the pedi.<br /><br />She also prescribed an ointment for my arthritic hands. &nbsp;Well - she said it might be too expensive, and IT IS. &nbsp;The pharmaceutical company called. &nbsp;Of course, my insurance will not cover it. &nbsp;So it would be (gasp) $300. &nbsp;They have another formulation that is similar. &nbsp; It runs $45. &nbsp;I will suffer.<br /><br />Then I will have physical therapy. &nbsp;My first will be next week. &nbsp;I know this will end up being a split thing. &nbsp;I can't get them all in before we go to the SSB.<br /><br />I filled in the pre-op registration for the injections this morning. &nbsp;I thought I would have to give a pint of blood via email for it! &nbsp;Talk about lengthy! &nbsp;But that's done.<br /><br />I am really worried about my brain. &nbsp;I thought I had the appointment with the sleep doc today. &nbsp;G reminded me that today was the pedi appointment. &nbsp;The sleep doctor's office called right after that to confirm my appointment! &nbsp;I am losing it.http://mfga.blogspot.com/2015/02/results-from-my-appointment.htmlnoreply@blogger.com (Grandma K)4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16273058.post-8033026261275550938Thu, 05 Feb 2015 16:55:00 +00002015-02-05T10:55:55.833-06:00Thoughts after mid-week - such as they areI still haven't had time to go play with the new toy (the new machine). &nbsp;It is sitting up there like a siren of the sea calling and calling. &nbsp;Every time I walk by the stairs, I hear it's song. &nbsp;But don't have the time to devote.<br /><br />I really can't remember what I did on Tuesday. &nbsp;It must not have been very important. &nbsp;I think I simply sat and played on the computer - reading emails, blogs, and the vacuum of all time - Facebook. &nbsp;(Of which I have two pages:one personal, one business).<br /><br />Yesterday was a full day. &nbsp;We went to the Life Group. &nbsp;It wasn't quite what I expected although it was the way it was described. &nbsp;Of the less that twenty people there, we knew eight. &nbsp;We had been gone about 5 years, and the church has grown considerably in that time. &nbsp;One of those we knew was because she had been at Celebration with us. &nbsp;But we also weren't really active in those last few years we were at Messiah. <br /><br />It was a comfortable group. &nbsp;It started as the small groups at Celebration - with highs and lows for the week - and G hates that!! &nbsp;I really do too. &nbsp;I don't have many highs and lows. Just getting up in the morning can be a high and a low. &nbsp;I am still here (that's a high), and the pain is still here (that's a low). My life is really quite stable. &nbsp;I am generally happy and content - no, really! &nbsp;Stop laughing. &nbsp;I know I usually find something that I write about. &nbsp;But I am pretty content.<br /><br />So that meeting went on for a little over an hour. &nbsp;The subject for these groups is to talk about the previous sermon and how it really relates to our lives. &nbsp;But it moreover gives a chance to connect with others in the church. &nbsp;I like that, and I have always liked that.<br /><br />Long ago when Messiah was getting started we participated in a "Caring and Sharing" group. &nbsp;We would meet once a month at someone's house for dinner, and just connect with one another. &nbsp;I guess highs and low were a part of it too, just not called that. &nbsp;I enjoyed it so much,<br /><br />After the group was my fav of all times - the grocery store. &nbsp;It was a task I had put off for three weeks. &nbsp;Now I did slip a trip to Costco in there, but I have avoided the grocery store. &nbsp;But that's done until there is a dire need, or another month. &nbsp;Of course in a couple of weeks I will be grocery shopping in Fredericksburg since we will be (ta-da) at the SSB again.<br /><br />Today is the pain doctor. &nbsp;I am thinking she will set a time for me to get the steroid injection in my spine. &nbsp;I am hoping she will have a magic wand that will ease the arthritis pains. &nbsp;Doubt it, but I am looking forward to pain relief in the back. <br /><br />This morning as I was reading my email, I came across one from Dr Susan Love and her Army of Women. &nbsp;She is working on breast cancer. &nbsp;Years ago I signed up with her. &nbsp;I was hoping I could be of help in research to find a cure. &nbsp;Well - the research is on the West Coast or Minnesota. &nbsp;I have yet done anything in seven years. &nbsp;Sounds self centered I guess, but with out Medical Community here - and M.D. Anderson being a top cancer research facility, I thought there would be a need. &nbsp;Since then I have discovered Anderson is rather closed. &nbsp;They don't want to help or get help from any other place. Oh, well. &nbsp;So be it.<br /><br />Tomorrow is the good day. &nbsp;Pedicure time!<br /><br />Have a great one. &nbsp;I thought I would be going to Dallas with Krissi and Katie, but it is a day trip for practice with the Zone Team for Water Polo. &nbsp;They are practicing for the big time in California in March - which I will be going to. &nbsp;Really I am glad Krissi found another mother to ride with her to Dallas. &nbsp;I really don't want to spend 8 hours on the road for a 4 hour session!!!!<br /><br /><br />http://mfga.blogspot.com/2015/02/thoughts-after-mid-week-such-as-they-are.htmlnoreply@blogger.com (Grandma K)3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16273058.post-7194781212855421552Mon, 02 Feb 2015 23:35:00 +00002015-02-02T17:35:28.066-06:00Busy, busy, and so it will be for a whileFriday evening we were to eat with the church group. &nbsp;Only when we got there, we found it was the wrong night. &nbsp;G had his usual temper tantrum, but it all ended ok. &nbsp;We went to the neighborhood Mexican restaurant. &nbsp;It was GOOD!<br /><br />So Saturday night we did have dinner with the group. &nbsp;It is the local seafood place. &nbsp;Only they have changed their menu. &nbsp;Not as good. &nbsp;There were over 30 of us. &nbsp;The restaurant assigned one poor waitress. &nbsp;Service was slow. &nbsp;One person cannot possibly handle 30. &nbsp;The kitchen had trouble. &nbsp;A couple of our group acted like horses patooties, and one couple who showed up over 30 minutes late of course ordered late. &nbsp;Their food was late. &nbsp;They wanted their meals comped. I could have just slipped under the table. &nbsp;I was flabbergasted. &nbsp;Or well those people are everywhere.<br /><br />Sunday (that's right that was last night!!!) we went to Krissi's. &nbsp;Her neighbors who were burned out had included them in a thingy where there was another meal included last night. &nbsp;The mom made tamales. &nbsp;Oh. &nbsp;My. Goodness. &nbsp;They were soo good. &nbsp;There is nothing like a homemade tamal, but she is the best of her family. &nbsp;And she is that for sure.<br /><br />This morning was cardio doc. &nbsp;Everything is good with the exception of the left carotid. &nbsp;He wants to do an ultrasound to determine if there might be a little something there. &nbsp;So next month I will do that.<br /><br />My appointment was at 9:15. &nbsp;His office is in the building that is in front of the women's and children's part of the hospital. &nbsp;Parking is horrible. &nbsp;I always try to get an early appointment - before everyone comes to see the new babies!!! &nbsp;So I was early. &nbsp;I had planned to do shopping around the area today since I was there. &nbsp;I was out of his office at 9:20!!!<br /><br />So I had to wait at the stores. &nbsp;I got a new pair of shoes. &nbsp;Sounds like a kid before school doesn't it. I &nbsp;spent my days buying shoes at P*yless, and my feet paid for that. &nbsp;So I either buy Finns (and now I try NOT to buy those because of their expense) or SAS which are getting just about as bad. &nbsp;But got a cute pair of low heeled pumps. &nbsp;Me - who used to wear HIGH, HIGH heels. &nbsp;Hump..<br /><br />Anyway. &nbsp;I went to the sewing shop and bought a new old, baby. &nbsp;But it is new to me. &nbsp;It is a second machine with a larger hoop. &nbsp;It was within my budget too. &nbsp;I was hoping for something that weighed less. &nbsp;Nope. &nbsp;This baby weighs more than the other one!<br /><br />Tomorrow is the eye injection. &nbsp;Wednesday is the Life Group at church, Thursday is the pain doc. &nbsp;Friday is pedicure! &nbsp;There goes my week. <br /><br />Hope you have good plans for the week - exciting ones, not doctors!http://mfga.blogspot.com/2015/02/busy-busy-and-so-it-will-be-for-while.htmlnoreply@blogger.com (Grandma K)4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16273058.post-2392575618586804207Fri, 30 Jan 2015 18:56:00 +00002015-01-30T12:56:38.000-06:00Of course - the weekend is nigh!That's a cryptic title! &nbsp;What I mean is that of course now since it is the weekend, my ears are filling with fluid. And by Monday, they will probably be ok. &nbsp;It's what happened last week, and I was really kind of worried because we were being accepted back into membership at Messiah. &nbsp;I could just see me having to really hear something.<br /><br />Of course, it isn't good for tonight either. &nbsp;We are going with the church group that meets once a month to go out to dinner. &nbsp;I will really enjoy conversation tonight! &nbsp;With background noises AND ears that are occluded. &nbsp;Fun, fun!<br /><br />I finally got one of the embroidered tiaras that are so popular today made yesterday. &nbsp;I will post a picture tomorrow. &nbsp;This is the item that sold immediately at the show in December, and I haven't had a chance to make more. &nbsp;But that won't be a problem soon. &nbsp;I WILL find a machine I can take with us!<br /><br />I don't know if this computer is really being ugly or what, but every time I try to move embroidery designs from it to a USB stick to go to the embroidery computer. &nbsp;I thought that the big one just sat on the table too long, so I used one that I use all the time. &nbsp;The designs went on the stick with ease. &nbsp;When I to the other computer, where it has been used a lot, I got the message that the computer was trying to find the drivers. &nbsp;If it's not one thing - it's another!!!<br /><br />So the trials of this Grandma!http://mfga.blogspot.com/2015/01/of-course-weekend-is-nigh.htmlnoreply@blogger.com (Grandma K)4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16273058.post-9096517778098005444Thu, 29 Jan 2015 16:29:00 +00002015-01-29T10:29:04.339-06:00Not so smart after allI had thought of something that I wanted to include in the blog, but I had already published. &nbsp;I didn't want to publish twice - putting you all through once a day is quite enough! &nbsp;So I wrote the post, and scheduled a time for it to be published. &nbsp;Guess what - it didn't!<br /><br />Now, do I remember the great topic I wanted to post, of course .... NOT! &nbsp; &nbsp;If I put it down, that was the end of it. &nbsp;The thought is gone. &nbsp;Vanished into the mist.<br /><br />Katie stayed home again yesterday. &nbsp;She was taken to confirmation last night however. &nbsp;She was allowed to miss last week for (gulp) water polo. &nbsp;It was the last practice for a while, and she really needs to be in the pool. &nbsp;I know Krissi wrestled with that fact, but thought she could miss once. &nbsp;Then - sickness this week. &nbsp;Katie was doing better. &nbsp;Krissi told her to take a shower, and that would be the determining factor. &nbsp;Krissi called upstairs to check. &nbsp;No answer. &nbsp;She went up, and there was Katie with ear buds in her ears, dancing. &nbsp;Enough there. &nbsp;She was ok!!<br /><br />I got to have breakfast out yesterday. &nbsp;I love to have breakfast out!!! &nbsp;The Highlander needed an oil change, so we took it to our mechanic. &nbsp;They do several checks while changing the oil, which is good preventative maintenance for us. &nbsp;G isn't handy - with anything, so this is a good way to make sure the car is in good shape.<br /><br />The restaurant is next door to the mechanic. &nbsp;I got an omelet. &nbsp;I usually don't have everything that goes in an omelet. &nbsp;So it is a real treat.<br /><br />I am really jumping around here today. &nbsp;I would fail it this were an essay!! &nbsp;Anyway - today we have nice warm temperatures. &nbsp;Sorry to all you who are suffering under the snow and all. &nbsp;But warm temperatures mean my hands don't hurt as badly. &nbsp;I don't know - it may all be in my head, but it seems that way. &nbsp;So what? &nbsp;It means I will certainly do laundry today. &nbsp;Lifting all that stuff, remaking the bed - all hurt a lot.<br /><br />And lastly - I finally got more than 5-6 hours sleep last night, at least I believe I did &nbsp;It wasn't restful. &nbsp;I woke many times. &nbsp;The first, at 11:30, I felt like I was sitting on a stove. &nbsp;It was the cat with his little hot body snuggled against my butt! &nbsp;Now this weekend when it gets colder - ok. &nbsp;Not last night. &nbsp;Anyway - I woke several times. &nbsp;Often to some strange noise. &nbsp;Gotta find what was causing that!<br /><br />And I lied about that being the last thing &nbsp;I bought some really cute machine embroidery designs. &nbsp;I can't wait to do them. &nbsp;One is little cowboy boots for babies. &nbsp;We have the rodeo coming up at the end of February/ &nbsp;Hopefully they will sell!!!<br /><br />Have a good one!<br /><br />http://mfga.blogspot.com/2015/01/not-so-smart-after-all.htmlnoreply@blogger.com (Grandma K)4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16273058.post-1956103278864785451Tue, 27 Jan 2015 20:20:00 +00002015-01-27T14:20:03.879-06:00My day, at least so farGot to go have blood drawn for my cardio doc's appointment next week. &nbsp;The earliest appointment was 10:30. &nbsp;So fasting, I slept as long as I could get away with this morning. &nbsp;I really need to NOT sleep late these days because the body is going through the old "sleep - your body doesn't need sleep - lets stay up until you finish this really good book - so what if it's 4 am- and you know the phone will ring with Krissi calling at 9 - so what!! - you don't need sleep). &nbsp;Of course then after lunch and dinner I nod off. &nbsp;Hate this.<br /><br />But blood drawn. &nbsp;Scratch that off. <br /><br />I had a route this morning for myself. &nbsp;After I left the lab, I was hungry, so there was a Jack in the Box on my right (and it would be the only thing on my right). &nbsp;So I got a breakfast sandwich and coffee. &nbsp;Then on to Jo Ann's Crafts. &nbsp; I decided I was gong to take the short cut which put me right on the street with Tuesday Morning. &nbsp;Haven't been there in centuries, so I stopped. I really wanted a new fatigue mat for the kitchen. &nbsp;Nope. &nbsp;But did buy some little zippered pouches (that I would have done on the machine - just didn't want to). &nbsp;That was all I found there.<br /><br />Then it was on to Jo Ann's. &nbsp;I had to take back a gift I had gotten for Katie for her birthday. &nbsp;I bought it before Christmas because I knew there wouldn't be any when it was time for her birthday (January 16) &nbsp;She is a Texas A&amp;M freak. &nbsp;This was a pillow pet of Revelie - the collie mascot. &nbsp;Cute, cute, cute!! I was afraid they wouldn't take it back, but they did!<br /><br />Then to my shopping. &nbsp;I always hit their remnant bin. &nbsp;Wow! &nbsp;I made a haul. &nbsp;Now if I could sell some of those blasted gloves. &nbsp;If not, Jackie - you will have a lot of lap blankets! &nbsp;I also bought netting and organza for other projects. &nbsp;As I was going through the store - I hit their $1-$5 bin. &nbsp;Cute head bands for a buck - all sparkly.<br /><br />Before I even started I had forgotten until now - they had some sparkly ribbon to put on clothes. &nbsp;Scored four different colors there. &nbsp;They had regular gloves marked to $1 as well as ear warmers. &nbsp;Great for next year.<br /><br />Found they had t-shirts so I can finish Karrington's Christmas present. &nbsp;Yea! &nbsp;And bought a new hot glue gun because I wanted LOW TEMPERATURE. &nbsp;I have one - in fact SEVERAL glue guns, I just can never remember which are high temp and low temp!<br /><br />Surprisingly with all the remnants and everything else I bought, I got out of there for $124. &nbsp;I didn't even get to use my "professional card" for 10% off. <br /><br />Last stop was Walgreen's. &nbsp;Katie went to school sick, but was brought home at 8, &nbsp;Krissi asked me to get some soup for her so I got soup and gator aid. &nbsp;Fortunately she hasn't started throwing up yet - it's still the other end. <br /><br />G has gone to get the truck washed, and NOW I can bring the stuff in!!! &nbsp;I think he saw the bags -at least some - when he had to get his water bottle off the floor of the Highlander. &nbsp; Ah well. &nbsp;I told him last night I was going to buy a new sewing machine next week! &nbsp;He was surprisingly OK. &nbsp;Yea! Can work at the SSB.<br /><br />http://mfga.blogspot.com/2015/01/my-day-at-least-so-far.htmlnoreply@blogger.com (Grandma K)4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16273058.post-7157681643488269827Mon, 26 Jan 2015 16:40:00 +00002015-01-26T10:40:31.981-06:00Once moreLast night I had a great topic to be presented here. &nbsp;That was last night. &nbsp;I didn't write it down. &nbsp;I didn't use the hours I was awake not being able to sleep (until 2:30 and then some) to write it here. &nbsp;No! &nbsp;I will remember! &nbsp;Not.<br /><br />I just hate this. &nbsp;It happens so often. &nbsp;I would worry a lot more with so much dementia in my father's family. &nbsp;Those darn Langes. &nbsp;That's where it is coming from! &nbsp;If I hadn't always been like this I would worry more. &nbsp;When I have an inspiration, if I don't act on it then it's gone. &nbsp;I plan it out. &nbsp;I work with it. &nbsp;Then my brain says - ok, job done, next?? <br /><br />So the next brings me back to the "post church move." &nbsp;Krissi posted on Facebook (and tagged me and G so all our friends would probably see it) how we are beginning a new adventure in becoming members of this church and we did it.<br /><br />Last I looked, there were over 100 likes. &nbsp;Now most of those are friends of theirs. &nbsp;There are a lot of mutual friends, and they posted. &nbsp;We were able to tell people "good-bye" and they know we are gone - and WHERE we went.<br /><br />I was surprised when one of the posts was a member of Celebration (old church) remarked they have been attending Messiah (new church) for a while. &nbsp;It isn't surprising we don't see them. &nbsp;There are three services. &nbsp;Plus they are not regular church goers anyway. &nbsp;But it did surprise me, &nbsp;Krissi feels that there are many others at Celebration that aren't happy. &nbsp;They realize how mismanaged Celebration has been, know it is going to fail, and are looking for a new church home.<br /><br />I got to thinking last night about the number who were left. &nbsp;You can't look at the membership rolls in the directory. &nbsp;No one is ever removed. &nbsp;But I believe they are down to about 16 (max) couples who are regular attendees. &nbsp;So you count in any children and that brings the number in church to about 45. &nbsp;And that is about what they have. &nbsp;Our seven meant a lot. <br /><br />I can't help but wonder what Pastor Chris is thinking. &nbsp;(Tomorrow I will drop this topic - I am pretty sure!)http://mfga.blogspot.com/2015/01/once-more.htmlnoreply@blogger.com (Grandma K)3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16273058.post-3223290143758966052Sun, 25 Jan 2015 21:31:00 +00002015-01-25T15:31:54.820-06:00Change is doneWe were received into membership at Messiah this morning. &nbsp;Quite a showing - all seven of us gathered at the altar. &nbsp;Seemed a little strange though. &nbsp;Having been a member there for over 25 years and coming back. &nbsp;Treated as if we had just come there. &nbsp;But that's ok. &nbsp;There was a feeling o comfort.<br /><br />I thought I would enjoy all the pains of growing a mission church because I did so enjoy it at Messiah. It has dawned on me that Celebration is really not going to grow and bloom. &nbsp;Not as long as a Pastor is the end all and be all of a church. &nbsp;Everything has to go through him and him alone. &nbsp;He has surrounded himself with "yes men" who won't challenge him. &nbsp; Privately I have dubbed him Pope Chris - because I really think that is who he is in his mind.<br /><br />Chris doesn't have follow through. He had ideas that are mostly great, but he doesn't follow through. &nbsp;Our "new" Pastor had a dream. &nbsp;He worked on it diligently and it is becoming a reality, and it is his passion. &nbsp;I think someday he will work with this alone. &nbsp;He has taken on adopting some schools in Africa (sorry - I don't remember which nation because this is rather new to me). &nbsp;In fact that is where he has been for two weeks delivering books to them.<br /><br />Chris would think of something like this, but he doesn't follow it through. &nbsp;Chris even has begun a "new" ministry (HA!) group of dreamers. &nbsp;Where should our church be in X number of years - don't think of money constraints - just dream of what we could do. &nbsp;What. A. Waste. Of. Time!<br /><br />I am happy. &nbsp;I look at the sanctuary that I and so many others worked so hard to get funds to build &nbsp; It was during one of the oil busts in the Houston area and money was hard to come by. &nbsp;Many of the pledges didn't come in, and the church was strapped for quite a while to pay for this beautiful building. &nbsp;Sitting there today remembering what we did, and looking at the things that have been added since, I felt to at peace.<br /><br />The entire feeling is positive. &nbsp;It is so warm and welcoming. &nbsp;I know we were coming back, and we are well known, but even the folks who don't know us were so great.<br /><br />It was a great Sunday morning!http://mfga.blogspot.com/2015/01/change-is-done.htmlnoreply@blogger.com (Grandma K)5tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16273058.post-6755110636618895954Thu, 22 Jan 2015 21:06:00 +00002015-01-22T15:06:01.038-06:00Clyde updateAnd at this very moment, what's more important?? &nbsp;Why Clyde of course.<br /><br />So m wallet is considerably lighter. &nbsp;He possibly has a gastric upset caused by (are you ready for this one?) G not mixing the new dog food with the old to gradually increase the new from the old. &nbsp;I was afraid this would be the case, and when the new food got put into the container on top of the old, I just kept my mouth shut. &nbsp;Didn't help Clyde, but it kept an argument from erupting! <br /><br />So now my wallet is thinner because of that. &nbsp;We left the vet with 4 anti-nausea pills (that's for today and tomorrow) several packets of a pro-biotic, six cans of special diet wet food.<br /><br />Gave Clyde about 1/3 of the can of food with the pro-biotic sprinkled on top. &nbsp;He inhaled that, then drank some water. &nbsp;Woo-hoo! &nbsp;Now I could have gone back to fixing chicken and rice. &nbsp;Been there, done that -I will pay the $3 per can food! &nbsp;So I put a little more in the bowl with the pills mixed in - ate that. &nbsp;He even licked the bowl as clean as if it had been in the dishwasher.<br /><br />I guess we are silly about our pets. Mine, at least, have become real babies - fur babies. &nbsp;They give me pleasure. &nbsp;I want them to be healthy and happy. &nbsp;So - that's that. <br /><br />I can't take the monies with me. &nbsp;We might as well enjoy something, and I enjoy my pets. <br /><br />One thing I forgot to mention with my addled brain. &nbsp;We are re-joining our last church on Sunday. &nbsp;I cannot believe they were so welcoming. &nbsp;G said - "well they didn't say they were sorry we were leaving&gt;" &nbsp;And it's true, they didn't/ &nbsp;But what do you say to a member who suddenly leaves your church. &nbsp;And the Pastor of this most recent knows why we are leaving him. &nbsp;He wouldn't talk out the problem with us and listen to some possible solutions since we have been Lutheran longer than he has been alive. &nbsp;He won't change. &nbsp;When I looked at the bulletin for the new/old church, they brought in more money in one Sunday than the failing church had in the bank. &nbsp;Money isn't the yardstick to judge a church, but money certainly allows the programs to move forward. &nbsp;And our new/old church is so active in the community - and in Africa, it is so wonderful. &nbsp;That pastor carries through - not just a bunch of hot air.<br /><br />so all's good in our household - right now.http://mfga.blogspot.com/2015/01/clyde-update.htmlnoreply@blogger.com (Grandma K)4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16273058.post-6701500522684772324Thu, 22 Jan 2015 15:31:00 +00002015-01-22T09:31:30.478-06:00Why?Now that's a question that could have so many answers and for so many people. &nbsp;My question is both simple and complex. &nbsp;Why in the world does it seem we adopt boxers with sensitive stomachs?<br /><br />Simone was the poster child for a sensitive stomach. &nbsp;We did everything we could short of really expensive diagnostic tests to find out why she was so prone to vomiting. &nbsp;Nothing helped. &nbsp;That poor dog had more antacids shoved down her throat with the hopes it would quell her tummy problems.<br /><br />Now Clyde seems to have a sensitive stomach. &nbsp;He has only vomited once, but he won't eat. &nbsp;How a dog can go from 65 pounds to 82 pounds in a year with the little he eats is amazing to me. &nbsp;All of our previous pets would eat morning and evening. &nbsp;Not Clyde. &nbsp;If food is put out in the morning, it just sits there/ When (and if) he eats it is in the evening. <br /><br />Sometimes he won't eat in the evening. &nbsp;He will take a few bites and walk away. &nbsp;After he goes out for the last time at night, he would come back and finish it off. <br /><br />We did change his food to what is supposed to be better, and we thought he didn't like the other food. &nbsp;We add some wet to his dry, and now we are even adding broth to the mix. &nbsp;He turned his nose up to it yesterday. <br /><br />One of his favorite treats is wieners. &nbsp; We give them for him going in the crate. &nbsp;He had to go into his crate yesterday, but he wasn't wild about getting his treat. Every morning after his outside time he gets a piece of chicken jerky (for dogs). &nbsp;This morning he didn't want it.<br /><br />So my wallet better get warmed up. &nbsp;It looks like it is going to be hit with a big bill today!http://mfga.blogspot.com/2015/01/why.htmlnoreply@blogger.com (Grandma K)3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16273058.post-2905554846856819835Wed, 21 Jan 2015 15:40:00 +00002015-01-21T09:40:48.356-06:00Yes, it's me back againI was going to try to post while we were at the SSB, but that blasted internet is so slow. &nbsp;And because I have so much extra monies floating around (my retirement $$ have been at the same rate since 2000 and the feds have ruled that Texas retired teachers should not be able to "double dip" into Social Security regardless of the fact that they held second jobs all of their career to make ends meet and that gave them all of their quarters to qualify. &nbsp;Yep - little ol' English teacher me with THAT sentence - I would have given an "f" on that one!) <br /><br />But to the point of my first paragraph - I am thinking that a new router might help - thanks&nbsp;<a href="http://martidiy.wordpress.com/">Marti</a>. &nbsp;I have installed an app that tells me what I have left each day on that service. &nbsp;But, it is so slow! &nbsp;Anyway I spent hours and hours trying to get the embroidery files filed and then organized in the files. &nbsp;Actually all I got a good deal completed was getting the downloads opened (they are zip files) and then put into the categories. Now there has to be categories within the categories. <br /><br />I thought of so many things to write about while I was there. &nbsp;Now that I am sitting here in front of the computer logged into Blogger - I must have writer's block. &nbsp;What were those clever ideas?<br /><br />Oh well - let's summarize the stay. &nbsp;On Friday we went to Community Club. &nbsp;This is a disappearing little group. &nbsp;There was an amazing thirteen folks there. &nbsp;The meal was based around chili. &nbsp;The hosts (who happen to be the blasted neighbors on the next mountain - with THE road) made the chili and the COLD cornbread. &nbsp;Everyone else brought either a side or dessert.<br /><br />We almost didn't go because they were the hosts. &nbsp;But we can't do that. &nbsp;There were 9 others there to visit - of course three of those were family. &nbsp;But it used to be there would be thirty people there. &nbsp;I know it was right after the cold we have had, and it had rained a lot. &nbsp;With the dirt roads we have to travel it makes getting places difficult.<br /><br />Now - had it been Happy Hour these same people would have WALKED through the mud. &nbsp;And Happy Hour is just that. &nbsp;People bring a snack and their favorite drink - hard or not. &nbsp;Perhaps that is where Community Club is failing.<br /><br />On Monday we had someone out to give us a bid on land clearing and bulldozing a road down a fence. &nbsp;He got quite a kick out of the double road that idiot has put it. &nbsp;I so want to ask others in CC and HH what they REALLY think about Gene. &nbsp;I can't help but think it is that he is an idiot.<br /><br />And speaking of idiots - or at least crazy. &nbsp;My younger SIL who lives there all the time has lost another dog. &nbsp;When she moved out there, she brought my In Law's poodle. &nbsp;MIL was still alive, but in the home, so to speak. &nbsp;She couldn't have the dog. &nbsp;Anyway, then TJ adopted two other dogs. &nbsp;One was a border collie pup and the other a Shitz Shu mix (don't think I spelled that correctly and spelling doesn't correct it). &nbsp;Well those dogs were allowed to run free.<br /><br />That land is just as I call it - everything either sticks, stings or bites. &nbsp;Well - the little dog was bitten by a rattle snake and died. &nbsp;She had a cat that was allowed out and (you guessed it) was bitten by a snake and died. <br /><br />So she goes and adopts another Shitz Shu. &nbsp;She called me Monday asking if we had seen him. &nbsp;She let the dogs out at 9 and by 4 he wasn't back. &nbsp;The border collie was, but not this one. &nbsp;We have coyotes, foxes, bobcats, and possibly cougars around. &nbsp;That little dog is a goner I am sure. <br /><br />The old saying "doing the same thing over and over and expecting a different outcome is being crazy" fits here.<br /><br />So today with everything else I want to do, I will clean up. &nbsp;The house looks like a tornado went through it. &nbsp;With the stuff left from the holidays still out, shredded paper on the floor around the shredder because it "broke" and lost a mass of paper while we fixed it, all the crap that has to travel from one house to another is EVERYWHERE. &nbsp;My breakfast table has that is made for six has just enough room for the two of us to eat - if we are careful. &nbsp;So the things I want and need to do for the business is put on the back burner - once again. <br /><br />I think that is why I am beginning to hate going to the SSB for 25% of my time. &nbsp;And I have made the decision to buy another embroidery machine. &nbsp;It will hopefully be used, but it will not be a combo sewing/embroidery. &nbsp;That will bring the cost down quite a bit. &nbsp;But if I can't stay here and work - I will take my work with me.<br /><br />http://mfga.blogspot.com/2015/01/yes-its-me-back-again.htmlnoreply@blogger.com (Grandma K)4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16273058.post-1870937712538241690Fri, 09 Jan 2015 16:09:00 +00002015-01-09T10:09:19.552-06:00The good, the bad, and the uglyLast night Krissi called me about the air fares. &nbsp;She told me that the trip was going to be about $500. I think that was round trip, but not sure. &nbsp;I also assured her I would be paying my own way. &nbsp;This morning (when I had just rolled to the side of the bed) she called. &nbsp;She said if we flew into LAX the tickets would be $300.<br /><br />Now - if some of you MIGHT remember the trip we took to Disneyland nine years ago, you would remember the time I shut down LAX. &nbsp;To quickly refresh: &nbsp;coming home we stopped at the curb to check luggage and to get boarding passes. &nbsp;Krissi took all six boarding passes. &nbsp;We passed the first check point. &nbsp;Little chick there approved us, so it was on to upstairs.<br /><br />We got to the line where everything was passed through the scanner. &nbsp;My whole family went through. &nbsp;I was stopped. &nbsp;I couldn't go in. &nbsp;I had no boarding pass. &nbsp;There was a mistake. &nbsp;I couldn't go in; they couldn't go out. &nbsp;All I had on my body was my ID. &nbsp;No purse - it had gone through. &nbsp;NOTHING.<br /><br />To cut to this chase, I had to go back downstairs. &nbsp;With this action - the upstairs part was shut down. &nbsp;Everything stopped. &nbsp;The airport was closed. &nbsp;And I was about in tears because I was so scared. &nbsp;How was I going to get back with the family. &nbsp;And I am the one who purchased ALL the dam*ed tickets.<br /><br />I had to go back outside to the curb. &nbsp;The man there could only find our party of FIVE. &nbsp;After several minutes - when he (smart-*ssed way) "invited" me to look at the screen, we discovered he should have rolled to the NEXT screen!<br /><br />So it ended well - finally. &nbsp;I was able to get back upstairs to the gate area. &nbsp;We all found one another. &nbsp;But for some reason (!!!) I am not in love with LAX. &nbsp;When I told G we would be flying in and out of LAX, he said he "would have to drive to LA to being me home!"<br /><br />So we are headed to LA to then drive to Riverside. &nbsp;Not far. &nbsp;We will basically be travelling with one of the coaches. &nbsp;Also we won't be coming in on Monday rather than Sunday. &nbsp;So it will be Friday to Sunday - unless I don't get a boarding pass!http://mfga.blogspot.com/2015/01/the-good-bad-and-ugly.htmlnoreply@blogger.com (Grandma K)5tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16273058.post-80059286493280430Thu, 08 Jan 2015 17:35:00 +00002015-01-08T11:35:28.717-06:00Finally did itI have been complaining about our church - the pastor in particular. &nbsp;He has driven that church into the ground. &nbsp;Last time I knew what it was, they had about $9000 in the bank - total. &nbsp;Rent was to be paid the other day, and it has gone up to about $6100 a month. &nbsp;And he has started a new "Building Fund." &nbsp;He used the other one to pay rent. &nbsp;He started this church 7 years ago with (ready for thus) $300,000 from the church that helped. &nbsp;Sad.<br /><br />Anyway - Monday I sent him an email telling him that we are leaving. &nbsp;So we will return to the church we previously attended. &nbsp;It still isn't the church I want. &nbsp;And it will never be. &nbsp;The pastor who made it so great is not only gone from the church, he is gone from the world. &nbsp;I still miss him. &nbsp;I worked so closely with him as organist for years. &nbsp;He died a couple of years from pancreatic cancer. &nbsp;We all thought he would have a massive heart attack to kill him. &nbsp;He would joke that he and his cardio doc couldn't remember how many shunts he had!<br /><br />But we are going back. &nbsp;It took until last night for the pastor to acknowledge we are gone. &nbsp;Guess we weren't as important, but he will surely miss our money!<br /><br />Wanted to share the most current picture of Katie. &nbsp;It is such a good one. &nbsp;Her personality just shines through. &nbsp;And we will be in Riverside, California March 13! &nbsp;One more step toward the national water polo team,, and perhaps the Olympics - who knows. <br /><table align="center" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto; text-align: center;"><tbody><tr><td style="text-align: center;"><a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-PIXNBYGQ_PY/VK6_b0huE9I/AAAAAAAABBQ/ESjGLqPPZ9g/s1600/10360361_10204692318501163_4787153743226392278_n.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"><img border="0" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-PIXNBYGQ_PY/VK6_b0huE9I/AAAAAAAABBQ/ESjGLqPPZ9g/s1600/10360361_10204692318501163_4787153743226392278_n.jpg" height="640" width="640" /></a></td></tr><tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">This was taken right after Christmas when she and her friend who was visiting from Singapore (!!) went to the beach with the other girl's family. &nbsp;The other girl has a story that points out how small the world really is - I will tell it timorrow.</td></tr></tbody></table>http://mfga.blogspot.com/2015/01/finally-did-it.htmlnoreply@blogger.com (Grandma K)3