How to tell if you are in a failing relationship?

The best way I can describe it is when you can easily see yourself living without the person. It might even make you feel happy to think that way.

I'm not saying anyone should run out and leave their significant other if they feel this way. Just because a relationship is failing doesn't mean it's beyond salvageable.

That said, every person should have personal boundaries that are a hill to die on. If someone hits me, my children or my pets then that relationship hasn't only failed, but there's no way it can be redeemed.

Interesting question. One I haven't really dwelt on much, since I haven't dated much and have been married nearly 20 years. I guess our motto is we are in in for the long haul and we are to work out whatever issues come up. If he started to drink, if he hit me or the children then those are a couple of things that would be deal breakers.

I am a single mom of two fantastic kiddos that I love to pieces. Currently in school working towards my teaching degree. You can find me most days on www.mommathoughts.com when I am not here chit chatting! :)