Parental Alienation

My View on Parental Alienation

Parental Alienation is probably something you don't believe could happen until it happens to you or the people you love. I'm glad I'm childless. Every time I think of those poor alienated souls I'm immensely sad and that is followed by anger. Anger that people allow this child abuse to continue. When I think of my niece and nephews I feel helpless that I understand full well what is going on but I can't protect them when the system of "professionals" fails to protect them.

I wish I had a magic wand to make Parental Alienation go away. I personally know of 4 men, good fathers who have been denied access to their children by controlling and I would argue, mentally unwell women. I am only emotionally attached to one of these men. 3 have gone through the court process. Each tell similar stories of false accusations and a lack of action by the courts to acknowledge and deal with worrying behaviour by the alienating parent. 1 father having gone through the court process gave up on seeing his children when his life was threatened. As a result his children were left in the hands of an abusive mother who was later found to have put the children through horrific abuse. 2 of these fathers gave up on seeing their children hoping that their children would come and find them when they were older. This so far hasn't happened.

We must not forget that women may also be targeted by male alienators who are most likely narcissists. Their experience as targeted parents is no less painful or distressing than that of a man who is targeted by a female alienator.

If you are affected by Parental Alienation, man, woman, child, extended family member or other I wish you the very best of luck and the greatest of love with the child in the future.