Things you should never say to your partner in a fight

Believe it or not, fights are good for your relationship. You know what they say, couples who fight the most, love each other the most. But sometimes, anger makes you lose control, and you say things you didn’t mean to. Here are some things you should definitely keep to yourself the next time the two of you fight.

“Whatever, it’s fine.” Clearly it isn’t, and blowing it over doesn’t help either. Some breathing space may be better.

“You never…” Whatever comes after that statement immediately makes the other person defensive, and the blame game goes on.

“You’re just like your father.” Ouch. Low blow, girl. Never bring family in.

“My ex never did this.” As if fighting isn’t bad enough, now you want to drag your ex into this as well?

“Why can’t you be more like xyz’s boyfriend or husband?” Comparison only hurts and can never be the solution to a fight.

“Calm down.” Most annoying and irrelevant statement ever, since calming down isn't like turning on a switch. Instead, give them some space to cool off.

“It shouldn’t be this hard.” When you’re in a fight, you only look at the bad things, and saying so will make your partner think like you don’t care about the good parts at all.

“Have you ever seen yourself in a mirror?” Or any variation of this that comments on his looks. Nope, nope, nope. Big NO.

“Loving you was the biggest mistake of my life.” Gasp. Make this statement and you can never take it back again, no matter how much you didn’t mean it.

“Let’s part ways.” Hold your horses! A decision like this should never be made when your anger is running at a solid 500 degrees.