Just a quick one - this thread is moving really fast at the moment and I'm not keeping up!!

Del - woohoo on the vitex success... now get off bubhub and go get jiggy!

FTM - Big hugs but as others have said it's not over til the witch arrives. We've all felt exactly like you (more than once!!) it takes a big emotional toll, especially as so much of it you want/need to keep 'private' - hence why the support of the lovely ladies here is such a help. I've had quite a few bubhub breaks now as it just gets overwhelming.

Pickledpink - sorry for what you are going through. I put on at least 7kg after my loss thanks to lots of chips/choc/couch.

luey - it sounds like your body is trying to ovulate but not quite there yet. Hopefully the OPK will show a proper line for you soon.

My brain just worked again - Marttc - I didn't get my BFP with angel bub (who had good levels from the start) when I tested at 9dpo (not even a glimer of a line). Tested again 2 days later and got one. So good luck!!

AFM - Only 25hours, 4 minutes and 22 seconds until I go in for my scan. Nervous doesn't even come close to describing. Even though I've got ample preg symptoms, it's so hard to feel assured that everything is ok when I'm still bleeding so much. I just hope this scan shows a strong little heartbeat and knowing why I'm bleeding would be a nice bonus!

I would but DH is just about to walk out the door to a uni exam, he's rather stressed we have a romantic meal and night all lined up though...

Isn't it sad stretched that you, and most women that have a history of m/c can't enjoy the 1st tri, worrying, bleeding. This is the time you should be getting all excited, but instead you can't. I suspect even without bleeding I will be worried until I hit about 12 weeks

Tormy- sorry about not being able to try for another while. Hopefully the FS will have better or more hopeful news.

Pickledpink- I know what you mean. With DS if I had just "relaxed" it never would have happened. I NEEDED to be proactive and seek fertility treatment. I know people mean well but until they have gone through it they just don't know.

A big to everyone else. The tread is just moving too fast for me to remember

AFM- well the cramps have stopped but still no AF. How long did it take you ladies to get your first AF after m/c? I know it's really different for everyone, just thought I would work on averages.

I know even without the bleeding i'd still be just as stressed. Looking at the glass as half full, at least with the bleeding no medical professional will think I'm being neurotic wanting lots of scans!

I'm not normally a drinker, but my ritual on the first day of my period it to have 2 or 3 glasses of good red wine, which for me is a lot. Kind of like, might as well get tipsy I have no good reason not to drink now..

Tormy- sorry about not being able to try for another while. Hopefully the FS will have better or more hopeful news.

Pickledpink- I know what you mean. With DS if I had just "relaxed" it never would have happened. I NEEDED to be proactive and seek fertility treatment. I know people mean well but until they have gone through it they just don't know.

A big to everyone else. The tread is just moving too fast for me to remember

AFM- well the cramps have stopped but still no AF. How long did it take you ladies to get your first AF after m/c? I know it's really different for everyone, just thought I would work on averages.

Hugs!! Such a horrible time...

I normally have a 25/26 average cycle... After my miscarriage my following af arrived on CD31

Sorry in advance for lack of personals, I had intended but I forgot already who said what lol.

Pickledpink - sorry to see you here love, these ladies are lovely though

AFM - I forget who asked if I had POAS yet, but I finally caved and did it today, and as I suspected BFN. I think that because I want to so much to get a pos that my head is tricking me into thinking that I am. I am thinking of taking a break from bub hub actually, especially as we aren't trying right now, as much as I want to, DF has good reasons to wait a couple of months, so it's really hard seeing others get BFP's when I can't even try at the moment. Don't get me wrong, I am very happy for the ladies who do get theirs, just really hard seeing it. Plus I feel a bit like I shouldn't be in this thread when I'm not trying

CD don't count me with your averages but it's been 19 weeks since my d&c and still no AF.

Sorry for the downer post, just wanting to curl up in a ball and bawl my eyes out atm

FTM like the other's were saying, it's not over till AF arrives, but bear in mind, a friend told me the other day that according to an article she read, hcg levels after a m/c aren't as high and can take longer to show on the poas's.

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