Incontinence

I just had vaginal birth #4, and am surprised by the incontinence (of urine)!!!
With my first I had no issue, with DS2 I pushed for an hour & was incontinent for 2 weeks. DS3 was 9.5 lbs & I pushed for 20 min and no incontinence.

Thurs I had DD4 and she was small & I pushed twice, yet I'm totally incontinent. So embarrassing!
We have to take her for a bilirubin check at the hospital tomorrow & I'm terrified I'll pee myself!!!!!

I can't remember being incontinent with my first, but this time around I have peed myself a few times. I'm not waiting till the last minute or sneezing. It's awful. It hasn't happened the last 2 days, just the first 4

Congrats on your baby!! Like others have mentioned, focus on doing your kegels and make sure to do them consistently and correctly! You can also try using vaginal weights to help you with them. Here's a great blog post that describes way you can improve/decrease bladder problems after pregnancy. And here's another page that describes behavioral changes you can make in more detail. Good luck, it's usually only temporary!