You Are Not What Has Happened To You…

The Journey Begins

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No one ever dressed life up through rose tinted glasses and said it was going to be easy but nothing could have ever prepared me for how damn hard it was going to be at times either! I learnt for myself, most of the time the hard way, that life can be difficult and at times cruel. Life isn’t fair and life doesn’t care whether you win or lose. We can sit around waiting and hoping, expecting something to change, but unless we change our thinking how do we expect to change the outcome? As Einstein said “We can’t solve problems by using the same kind of thinking we used when we created them”

This blog about some of life’s lessons I learnt the hard way, the traumas, the trials and the realisation that, yes, life is hard at times and no, life isn’t fair but hey, we can either bitch about it and remain stagnant or we can step out of victim mode and boss up.

Life is not what has happened to you, life is fundamentally what you make of it…

“The woman who follows the crowd will usually go no further than the crowd. The woman who walks alone is likely to find herself in places no-one has ever been before” – Albert Einstein