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Thursday, July 11, 2013

To Mend a Jagged Spirit

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Had Distressed Actor DA kept his emotions in check, had he not allowed his pains to get the better of him, had he realized that grieving for so long over a lost cause would terribly hurt his career, had he been professionally counseled early on -- perhaps DA wouldn’t be as miserable as he is now.

Maybe he would have leveled up at this point. Being one of the most talented among his batch, it was not a surprise that DA gained respectability as an artist and was given lead roles that reinforced the artist in him. However, DA’s brilliance seems to work only on professional level – not on matters of the heart – as it proved to be his biggest weakness.

When he lost The Girl TG of his life in the middle of his thriving career, DA lost himself, too. Slowly, he was losing his equilibrium. He disengaged himself from the world – preferring to self-destruct. Amid the bright opportunities any star can ever dream of, DA went on a self-imposed hiatus.

DA fell so madly and wrongly in love with TG that his world crumbled when he lost her.

There were several reasons for the split, one of them TG’s Elder EL who allegedly couldn’t seem to approve of DA for TG and would prefer someone more privileged. Others said that DA was on a controlled substance abuse. TG was powerless, no guts to go against the domineering EL who wanted her to make intelligent choices. Needless to say, EL prevailed. DA grieved.

Thus began the sad and losing streak of DA. Soon, he gave up on himself and everything around him. He felt useless, defeated - and acted like one. Until his handlers gave up on him, too. Alcohol became his bestfriend 24/7, further worsening his depression.

Months after, rumors were rife that DA’s condition became alarming such that he was allegedly seen roaming aimlessly with his guitar - unkempt, dirty and disheveled.

His very disheartened father FR could only do so much. There were reports that the seriousness of his condition made FR so helpless to turn him around. FR reportedly went to TG’s place and confronted and blamed her for the misery that befell DA.

Meanwhile, the latest from his camp was that DA was put in a rehabilitation center. It was the best that FR can do to keep DA's dignity. DA’s fans and followers are hoping that with their and his family’s love and collective prayers, DA would be able to bounce back and reclaim that big star that once belonged to him.

“To the world you may be the one person, but to one person you may be the world.” ~ Heather Cortez

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Oh no!!!!!! may God send more "angels" to protect you from your demons. And may His Spirit heal your heart and help you come back to your senses. Yes the girl is pretty... pero i bet marami pang darating na prettier, smarter and will certainly love and make u happy. So sad. :(

i dont mean to be heartless/insensitive...but good for TG, nakinig sya sa mom nya..mahirap pag may partner kang emotionally unstable...how can you give love to another person when you dont love yourself first...haay..

i agree. nakakatakot ang may partner na emotionally weak. it will waste so much of your energy and time. if i were TG i'd even thank my mom. truly, mother knows best. this actor should be matured and focused because this is the age when one is already starting to build his own life.

No one is to blame here other than J himself. Besides he has a history of being a "DD" na din naman kaya if I were M I'd choose to stay away from him din coz it seems like they're not going anywhere naman..

waaahhhh i can relate!! i almost had a breakdown when the man i love left me ng walang pasabi!! muntik na ako bumigay i can not eat, sleep, work it was very hard for me. i feel u j sana maka recover ka pa just like i did.

What TG did to DA was wrong, but that doesn't give DA the delusion that everything in his life was meant to crumble and blame TG at all cost. He should have thought that the best revenge is success, and make this girl realize that he's the best thing she almost had for keeps, only if she didn't play fire with him. I hope this YOUNG actor will put himself up, and strive harder to reach what's meant for him: His own SHINING STAR.

iAgree!Perfect cya sa role.ung amo ng mukha,his built,his skin color.this could b his biggest break esp that S is very special to Filipinos not only here in the Philippines but to Filipinos all over the world.well,we can only pray for his total&fast recovery.iAdmire his father,very loving&understanding.

We should commend him or the people around him for taking the necessary steps to get better. Substance abuse is an illness that needs proper care. I hope the stigma regarding people going to rehab goes away. It is better for those suffering from addiction to be on rehab for proper care than being on the streets and destroying themselves and the people around them. I wish you well. And hopefully your star will shine bright anew when you come back.

I hope people will stop blaming the girl. We all experience being broken hearted. It's up to us how to cope with the situation. He chose to self-destruct. It is his own doing and not the girl's fault. Besides one of the reasons they broke up is because he is into illegal substance. It means he is already hooked even before they broke up. No girl in her right mind would want to be with someone who is unstable. SO pls. STOP blaming her. His family should have intervened earlier before it got worse. And for his fans, just pray for him. He needs it more than you bashing the girl.

I hope DA get a grip of himself and try to be a better actor as he is already a promising one. After attaining a certain status in showbiz, he can try to win back TG if money is really the issue. That is, if DA still want her when that time comes. Sayang he could be a man of privilege just like TG's mom want, if only he could help himself now.

Obviously the guy is not emotionally stable. Everyone falls in love and get hurt, no one is spared from that experience. I guess he is not mentally strong enough to handle such strong emotions. He is mentally weak.

The problem is within himself and only he can fix it. What about when he falls in love again and another women will do the same thing??? Will he kill himself?

Sayang naman siya...He's a good actor but self destruction is not an option...Think, find solution and grow man..His parents should have counseled him at the start of his depression so not to worsen the situation..Grow up man, perhaps, she's not the right girl for you..

he had fell in love w the wrong one..maybe j really loved her but true colors of material things prevails..i knew this girl has an attitude..she's so matapang sa set flaunting she got the mari mercedez role during paradise pa.in mayabang way..to u da my sincerely wish u well and fast recovery.do it straight your healing process and eventually we can see u bouncing back..reclaiming what's your.may God be with u.

Why blame the girl or her mother? If you are the girl, would you stay in a relationship where your partner does not want to stop his vice? If you are the girl's mother, would you be happy that your daughter is in a destructive relationship? If your answer to either question is yes, then there is something wrong with the way you think. I don't think money or material things motivated the girl and her mother to make this decision. No one pushed him to abuse himself. He alone did it. It is unfair to blame others for the things by which they have no control of.

stop with the blame game. hindi nakakaawa ang mga taong nag seself destruct dahil sa heartbreak. the guy obviously has issues with or without her. he let himself go and he also lost his self respect by abusing your body with narcotics and alcohol. sh*t happens, heart break happens. Its up to you how you want to deal with it. unfortunately he dealt with it the wrong way. so there's no one to blame here but himself. he needs to get his sh*t together and accept that life goes on with or without her. i hope the guy realizes that there's more for him out there and hopefully he gets better. as for the girl, you keep going, keep working hard, keep smiling, the world ur oyster :) much love.

I hope he gets back on his feet. He's still young and promising. Instead of self-destructing, he should prove to her and everyone that he's a better stronger man now. I don't like the girl J for what she did to him; she vehemently denied their relationship so the guy J was forced to retract his statement about them. But when the girl J was linked to her leading man M, wow, all praises and PDA pa sila. I understand because M is well-off but money isn't everything. Look what happened to J and M, karma indeed for J who is still bitter. I won't watch her show simply because she's using her ex J just to be talked about. Why admit the relationship now? Kung di mo matulungan ex mo, wag mo na lang gamitin. Parang awa mo naman.

Late comment na 'to, but i can't help but wish J would bounce back and recover. He's such an amazing talent, at bata pa, so sayang naman kung hindi na sya makakabangon. Goodluck, and my prayers are with you.