Instant Confidence Formula

“Talk To Her” Technique

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In less than 10 seconds, you can overcome crippling anxiety and have the natural confidence to put down your coffee, get off your butt and go and talk to her even if you SHY AF.

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Who puts men into the friend zone?

Think about it. The aforementioned woman said, “He acted as a friend all this while,” which clearly depicts that the way a man shows up in a woman’s life is the way that she’ll respond and follow his lead.

The primary reason men end up in the friend zone is because they lack respect and appreciation for themselves as a man.

A man is a sexual creature, and he has sexual energy, which is a gift. But society at large has ingrained in men that they must hide their sexual desires, otherwise women will be offended.

That is why when a man goes on a date with a woman, he barely even touches her. He goes out of the way to be so-called “respectful.”

How to avoid the friend zone?

A man needs to come to comfort and not be ashamed of his sexual desires.

He must move towards expressing his sexual desires with respect and empathy.

The more a man expresses his desires, the more this expression becomes a part of who he is rather than turning it on after he gains enough brownie points as a friend.

On a practical side, whenever a man is in the company of a woman, be it date or just hanging out, he should do these few things:

Touch her slightly on her forearms, triceps and, if she seems receptive to the first two, then touch her on back of her neck if there’s an appropriate opportunity. On a date, a tap on her wrist does wonders.

Don’t hesitate to notice other women as an appreciation of feminine energy. But then own it, and don’t disrespect your lady by staring.

If a man finds a woman genuinely sexy, then express it verbally; if you want to explore her physically, express it verbally. (If you are at that stage of the relationship.) Never pull back on what you say as long as it is respectful. But keep in mind that her response is her prerogative.

A man will gain respect from a woman if he adopts both a philosophical and practical application of the tips in this post.

And remember, for a woman to be sexually aroused, she needs to respect the man. So men must earn that respect.