This was so good! I agree - all those pieces are very necessary. I was dying laughing at "every girls needs some stank lingerie." Hahaha! It is true though!!! Al the lace and frills and pretty things are cool, but there's a time and a place for the "other" kind of lingerie too! ;-)

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