Product Details

Overview

Reach And Teach says:

We discover some of our favorite books through reviews by Pat Tilton on her blog, Children's Books Heal. We knew that we needed to add this book to our special needs section as soon as we read Pat's review. With her permission, here's what she said:

"This is a very helpful introduction book about autism. But, not all autistic children are the same and make the progress Benjamin does. I like how it focuses on the emotional challenges siblings face when they have an autistic brother or sister. Many siblings experience anger, frustration, embarrassment, disappointment, worry, and jealousy. There is a Note from the author at the beginning of the book for parents about siblings. Since this book is written for an older age group, I think it would be helpful to include information and discussion questions for siblings to help them share their experiences and feelings. Susan Keeter’s illustrations are very colorful, expressive and match the mood of the story."

Reach And Teach Adds:

We really like the way the story shows real feelings kids will experience when they have someone on the spectrum in their lives. While most siblings would love to be heroic, generous, compassionate, and able to roll with the punches, there are few children who can live up to that 24/7. Real kids struggle, get jealous, get frustrated, angry, and sad, and this book helps explore and find healthy ways to deal with those realities.

About the Book:

Alexander’s little brother, Benjamin, doesn’t do things the way Alexander thinks he should. He would rather stare at the wall than play with Alexander. And instead of talking, he just wiggles his fingers and rocks. Alexander knows it’s wrong, but he can’t help but feel embarrassed when one of his friends calls Benjamin a “wacko.”

When Benjamin’s family learns that he has autism, they hire special teachers to teach him how to listen and talk and play. Alexander is glad—he just wants Benjamin to grow up faster. While Benjamin works with his teachers, Alexander works through his feelings of disappointment and jealousy. As time passes and each boy grows, Alexander discovers that Benjamin isn’t just his brother—he is also his friend.

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Awards:

Best Children's Books of the Year 2009, Bank Street College; International Board on Books for Young People – Outstanding Books for Young People with Disabilities 2009