Should I date this 'separated' guy?

He told me he is separated and doesn't want to divorce his wife now because his child is young. I don't buy this, but I like that he told me now even if he could hide it easily (we don't live in same city). He seems a great guy, but I can't be in the life of a man in this situation. I told him so and he asked me to think.

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It's not a good long term situation. If things are bad enough that they've seperated it doesn't matter if they're only staying together for the kid. They're only delaying the inevitable and making things messier in the interim. If you stay with him you could get dragged into their mess and become a sticking point.

Nah. Seems like a shady, problematic situation that will ultimately take a toll on your happiness and peace. This is one of those romances that will end up draining you and causing trouble. Your future self most likely won't thank you for doing that.