I don't usually put this kind of stuff out there but I thought since everyone is all lovey dovey today, here is what played at my wedding during our dance...and it's just in time to get you geared up for The 16th Annual Love Affair and Bridal Expo...

Ok, 44, technically, but fat, literally. I turn 45 in September, and I'm tired of being larger than I have ever been in my entire life, including when I was pregnant! This picture was taken at this year's Love Affair and Bridal Expo, and it's not bad, but it&apos…