Attracted to women other than my wife

I find my self repeatedly attracted to other women at work and elsewhere. And then I start spending more time with them, lying to my wife, even holding hands with them sometimes. They know I am married and sometimes they are as well. I don’t know if this means I am cheating on my wife. I have never slept with any of these women, though I have fantasized about them

It all begins with the thought. Action simply makes it concrete. Being attracted to women is one thing, and being attracted to the point of all the time thinking about them is another thing,which equals to cheating. So you might want to check yourself on that note.

Would you be fine with your wife doing the same? If she got close to other men in a similar way, would that be unfaithful in your books? If it is not, then tell her. Why hide if you don’t think you are doing anything wrong

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