Wednesday, April 21, 2010

It is with great sadness that I share this, but I wanted you all to know why I won't be posting for some time.

After struggling for 15 years with extreme pain, and multiple chronic conditions, my wife, Cat, could bear the burden no longer and took her own life Monday, April 19th.

We are all still reeling from the shock and loss. None of this seems real...she appeared to all of us to be doing better, little by little. But something in her fragile body was changed dramatically after her surgery in January. She was trying to be so strong for all the rest of our sakes, but only Cat knew how insurmountable it felt inside. But she is at peace now, and is with her Lord Jesus in her "Gardens of Heaven".

Please know how much Cat's online community meant to her. It gave her great joy to hear that you appreciated her beautiful photography. As her "real world" grew smaller with the pain, you all gave her sweet spirit freedom as she took images to share on her blog and Etsy store.

The photo above was taken at Easter, on one of her "good days" as we enjoyed some wonderful family time together. That is how we can remember her.

Funeral arrangements are still being made at this time, and you will understand that I cannot respond to emails for a long while. If you wish to inquire for the most current information, you can call:DW Newcomer's Sons Funeral Home913-451-186011200 MetcalfShawnee Mission, KS 66210

Warren, your tribute to your wife is beautiful, just as she is in her Easter photo. Hold those warm memories close to your heart always. My thoughts and prayers are with you today and in the time to come. -E

Warren,My condolences to you and your family and Cat's family. May God give you the strength to help the family at this time and to continue to be the very talented and creative person you have been. Sorry I didn't know Cat personally but I so admired her and the work she did on her blog. May the love and support of your friends and family help you through this difficult time.Terry , a friend of Dee's

Warren, you once told me that when you first met Cathy, she asked for a bite of your ice cream cone. When you said okay, she took a bite off the bottom of the cone. That story really made me laugh. I still smile when I think about it. Thank you for your sharing and your thoughtfulness of your post. I'm deeply sorry for your loss.

My friend....I am so sorry to have been out of town and miss Cat's memorial service on Friday. I simply don't have the words to express what is in my heart for you, the girls and your family. My prayers and thoughts are with you.....