Think this way - So what ever suffering you (as a guy or girl) will have after your married life. You start to worry about them right now. Very small exampleExample 1 - If you and a girl are friend and girl ask you to help in her resume - You have a choice of yes or no. But if that girl is your girlfriend, you dont have a choice and she won't ask for "help" in a resume .. It will more be of a order - "do my resume", even when you have a final to write the next day...

example 2 - I have a buddy and he has a gf but they dont own a car as both are undergrads. When ever the girl has to go to work .. The guy accompany her in the bus for back and forth; and each side is like 30-45 mins bus ride.... I look at them and like seriously that is causing urself trouble at the age you dont want

example 3 - if your gf flats a tyre on the highway, you are the first one to get a call and make sure you get it fixed it early or you in trouble ... Now these things should be after marriage.. why you kids wanna suffer now with love relationship

.....and the list goes on

So basically if you are in going into love marriage let say 5 years from now. Your suffering already started 5 years ahead,

Well good about love marriage - ya may be you found someone of your choice (so a one young kid choosing); but if you get into arrange 20 people will find you someone who match perfect for you - Now you be the judge

second good - Ya you dont feel lonely and stuff.. But the company comes with a big price..

example 3 - if your gf flats a tyre on the highway, you are the first one to get a call and make sure you get it fixed it early or you in trouble ... Now these things should be after marriage.. why you kids wanna suffer now with love relationship

and the list goes on

Hahahaha this is so true .. just last week ..early 7 AM... my close fren while driving to office decided to roll off the road into the snow. Her car wouldnt move anymore. Now normally you would call 911 or AAA ... but she calls her boyfrend... and when he doesnot pick up the call (poor guy is sleeping) she calls me up and asks me to walk up to his apartment and wake him and ask him to come to the spot.

And guess what he did after going there .... Call 911. There was just so much he could do...

But yeah I would expect my boyfriend to be there when I have a flat tire.... and he better be there fast

Hahahaha this is so true .. just last week ..early 7 AM... my close fren while driving to office decided to roll off the road into the snow. Her car wouldnt move anymore. Now normally you would call 911 or AAA ... but she calls her boyfrend... and when he doesnot pick up the call (poor guy is sleeping) she calls me up and asks me to walk up to his apartment and wake him and ask him to come to the spot.

And guess what he did after going there .... Call 911. There was just so much he could do...

But yeah I would expect my boyfriend to be there when I have a flat tire.... and he better be there fast

Both have ups and downs to it ...just like any other relationship how can there be a relationship where there aren't any ups n downs nothing comes easy

but being Indian myself and maybe from seeing so many arranged marriages work out ...there definitly is something that makes it work out ...maybe that the elders dont ONLY look at the "love between two people" but the other things that come along with marriage (possibly rest of the family and so many new relations) again your just not marrying one person it is the whole family.. everyone is affected not just the couple that are getting married

@ Title - For the first time.. I seen an american chick doing punjabi when asked by a user. All hail Title :worship: .. Usually we have a fight after that. You want examples ask Jatti California de or _Kamli_

@ Title - For the first time.. I seen an american chick doing punjabi when asked by a user. All hail Title :worship: .. Usually we have a fight after that. You want examples ask Jatti California de or _Kamli_