We all go to bed together at midnight. I usually stay awake studying until 1 or so (but in the bed with DS and DH). We get up between 10 and 12. lol Yes, I'm incredibly blessed with a 6 month old who will sleep 10-12 hours in a row. (although he wakes up to nurse, but that doesn't count, since neither one of us really has to "wake up" for that).

I am like you, we all go to bed between 10-12, except for Cody who goes to bed at 8:30 during the week, and gets up at 6:30, but DH, Gavin and I, go between 10-12 (DH wakes up early for work) I get up with Cody and sometimes go back to bed after, Gavin gets up between 9-11 I would like to start getting him to bed earlier and earlier but most of the time he won't sleep if I am not there lol (so any advice would be welcome )

Well, my DH works nights so we're not morning people around here and none of us have to wake up that early in the morning. So Bram usually goes bed at around 10 (sometimes later) but if he missed his afternoon nap it could be as early at 8. He'll usually sleep to around 10am regardless.

DS is just over 2 and has recently started not taking naps most days. He is asleep by 7 (sometimes earlier) and usually sleeps until at least 7 a.m. When he was still taking a nap, he went to bed a little later usually by 8 p.m. Like others here, my DH works several evenings a week and momma needs some down time in the evenings. : )

my kids are 29 months and 15 months
MY 29 month old's bed times vary a little ( DF works 12 swing shift and caden goesto bed smoothly for him so I try to keep him up) if DH is on nights (7pm-7am) he goes to bed usually by me rocking him or laying with him around 9 or so. when DF is working days he goes to bed fine with no problems at around 8:30
My 15 month old goes to bed around 7:30 or 8

I guess I take the prize for the earliest bedtime. I only have one and she MUST be in bed by 6:30 otherwise we will have a meltdown. The ideal time is between 6-6:15. Yes, this is early but if it's any later is an absolute bear.

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