I'm a polyamorous guy looking to make friends and maybe go on some dates with interesting people (who are comfortable with me seeing other people).

I live in Oxford (for a few years now) and am excited to meet new people in this lovely city.

I currently have four partners who I adore and who are happy for me to see other people (and who have partners of their own - ethical non-monogamy, it's a thing!). This does rather limit my time though (to steal someone's glorious pun, I'm a bit 'poly-saturated), so I'm looking more for new friends and casual loves.

I love language, people, friendship and uncertainty.

What I’m doing with my life

I work in a theatre, I'm also a spoken word performer/poet, and occasional playwright/actor/stand-up comic.

I dream of someday being a professional writer, and in the meantime I'm enjoying my work and writing in my spare time.

Also: being aggressively liberal and feminist on the intertubes - who could forget that timesink.

I’m really good at

Well, I'm pretty ok with words.

I'm fairly good at listening.

And I make a mean Manhattan.

The first things people usually notice about me

Um, I don't really know.

If there's something people tend to notice, then they're not telling me.

Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food

Books: I like a bit of everything really. At the moment I'm quite into my speculative fiction, urban fantasy and sci-fi, but I've always loved the classics.