#3. Ignoring everything but s e’xualised parts Genitals are great, no doubt, but you should definitely pay attention to other parts of your lover’s body and focus for some time on their entire body – knees, wrists, back and stomach are highly erogenous zones for men as well as women.

Gently caressing these areas will help excite your partner further; in turn, increasing the chances of them pleasuring you back.