Like any other art, you need to practice the art of lovemaking in order to become really good at it.

Lovemaking with someone special to you would have to be one of the most enjoyable human experiences. Not only does it have a wonderful bonding effect, but it provides intimacy, comfort and intense enjoyment. In this article, we will consider three important things you need to remember, to enjoy lovemaking and make it a memorable experience.

Set a Romantic Mood

While men seem to be the kind of creatures that are happy to “do it anywhere” a woman operates differently. She likes to be aroused by the mood and ambience of the occasion, so it is important for a man to create that for her. Women love romance, so you need to romance her toward sexual fulfilment. First, set the mood with romantic music and appropriate lighting, especially candles. Make sure the bedsheets are clean and smell nice, even using a little perfume or scent.

If you can afford to pay for it, renting a nice room or romantic getaway for the night will achieve most of this without having to go to too much trouble. This might be appropriate if it is your ‘first time’ together, but financially impractical of course, once you have become regular lovers.

Once the ambience has been set, the candles and the music creating the perfect mood, you then start undressing one another. This creates anticipation. Don’t rush! Do it slowly, gently and deliberately. Remember, you’re not in some passionate movie scene.

Prolonged Foreplay

Once you are both naked, the last thing a man should do is try and rush it. You want to let her know that she means something to you and it’s not just about your gratification. So you start by enjoying one another’s body warmth and smells by cuddling and caressing, running your hands over each other while kissing passionately – not just on the lips, but start heading for the erogenous zones – the neck, ears, nipples, belly button and of course, the most sensitive part of all, the clitorus.

A man should do all this in a way that tells a woman that he is really enjoying her, that he is sensitive to her needs and wants to please and arouse her. You should communicate with one another about any particular little things that really turn you on, such as when the woman gently strokes the man’s testicles with her fingertips, or perhaps the way a man might suck her breasts and use his tongue on the woman’s nipples, or nibble her neck etc. If you work these things carefully, when the times arrives for penetration, you should both be well lubricated naturally.

How to Last Longer

A man should be sensitive to the way he enters the woman. He does not want to hurt her. It is best to gently work your way in there, penetrating further with each thrust until you can smoothly go all the way without dryness. A woman likes to feel a man’s body pressing upon her, as this feels like intimacy and closeness, so don’t be afraid to put your weight on her. You will hear her sighs of enjoyment when you do. Once that happens, withdraw yourself and continue the foreplay again. You don’t want to ‘come’ too quickly.

After that, you both need to do what’s natural. A man will last longer if he is lying on his back with the woman ‘doing all the work’. The thrusting action tends to accelerate ejaculation. So work your way into this position where the woman has more control over what pleases her. If you try and relax at this point, she will come before you do and you will make her very happy.