Most the time I have to move my leg or shake my head abruptly and very quick to easier up but if my fiancée is with me then I just shake my head against her or, I've gotten to were I can move my arms ...

Sweet I can't wait to Try that 10th one. But just in case my fiancée knows to wake me I've gotten to were I can move my arm then tap on her or shake my head and she'll feel it and wake me. But to wake ...