What Should A responsible Friend Do To Other Friends?

What Should A responsible Friend Do To Other Friends?

FRIENDS are important in our life. Friends make our life comfortable. I feel it because I lost many friends in life and the broken friendships not only hurt me, I believe that hurt my friends too. A good and healthy friendship should have the following elements that took me years to understand.

Don’t Hurt Your Friends

Don’t say or do the things that hurt your friends. Don’t say bad words behind them. Don’t refuse to do the things that your friends will do for you in the same situation. You should make your friends’ feeling better and treat them as you want to be treated.

Don’t Ignore Your Friends

Don’t say such things that embarrass your friend before other people or hurts them. Our friends don’t want anything except our sensible accompany that gives them a better feeling. But when your friends hurt you intentionally, either talk with them directly or cut the friendship.

Don’t Lend Money To Them

If you don’t want to ruin your friendship, you should never lend to your friends. If you can give money as a bequest, this will make your friendship stronger. If you don’t have much money or time to spend with your friends, stand beside them at least when they need you.

Don’t Disclose Their Secret

Secrets are secret whatever yours or your friends’. You can’t share the secret with anyone even the close ones. But don’t follow this in an emergency situation, for example, may one of your friends is planning to commit suicide. You must share such situations with someone who can help you and your friend.

Don’t Lie To Your Friends

Don’t lie to your friend, if you are uncomfortable with your friends’ queries just refuse to answer. Don’t forget your friends expect the same thing as you want from her/him. Don’t stay in such friendships that hurt you or you are the reason that hurts your friends.

Don’t Try To Control Them

Don’t try to push your opinions on your friend. You can guide your friend but can’t control. Your friends are individuals like you. You still can’t control your friend, if not she/he is going to do a murder.

Don’t put limits on yourself, and never hurt yourself because of a bad friend. There are seven billion people on earth with whom you can make new friendships.