Whats
the secret to aging well? The recipeeat right,
save money, exercise body and mindseems too simple. As these Indiana
University faculty emeriti attest, there are other elusive ingredients in
making old age the best that is yet to be.

Henry
H. H. Remak
Professor Emeritus of Comparative Literature, Germanic Studies, and West European
StudiesRemak was born in Germany
and studied in Berlin and France before coming to IU in 1936; he has been
a faculty member at IU since 1946. Remak translated manuscripts for Alfred
Kinsey and served as dean of faculties and IUB vice chancellor during the
1970s. He retired in 1987, became director of the Institute for Advanced Study
in 1988, and retired again in 1994. He continues to teach for free and has
taught longer than any other IU Bloomington faculty member. Remak has appeared
in seven IU operas, but he was forbidden to sing in any of them.

"Lack
of stimulation and lack of company can have a terrible effect. The great
fear in aging is that you'll be forgotten."

My
philosophy of aging is that I havent thought about it much! Americans
in particular like to think theres a solution to everything. So, for
instance, they ask what are the tricks to retirement and aging?
But theres so much luck involved. Genes, for instance. Both my grandfathers
lived to be 80, which in their day was something remarkable. And my generation
went through the Depression, the Third Reich, the Second World War. After
that, you know that life and enjoyment are to be valued. Life produces this
attitude in you.

Retirement made me very apprehensive.
I never considered it, but deep down I knew some day it had to come. I still
teach, because I love teaching. My class meets at four in the afternoon, which
isnt an ideal timethe energy levels are low. Often I wonder how
Ill get through it without lying down. But something extraordinary happens.
I feel the adrenaline flowing. Afterwards, I feel much brisker.

I like to deal with people.
The idea of being cloistered depresses me. Having a stimulating environment
helps to take the tension away from your own problems. I need time alone,
too. Scholars always need that. And I still have dark hours, some introverted
moods, because being an academic I analyze all the time.

Ive noticed that some
students have a little problem with me. They see an old guy who has no business
sitting in a classroom. They dont want to ask me too blatantly how old
I am, so they ask questions like When did you graduate? I tell
them 1936. They start counting backwards on their fingers, and begin laughing
and whooping! Many of them come to my office now. Often its because
they want to see the piles of books and my collection of bottles. Then they
come because its informal, and they know Im not part of the establishment.
I dont want students with complaints. That would be too negative for
me. I have peers who work in the Student Advocates Office, and I admire them
enormously. I couldnt do it.

Committees are another matter.
Im no longer required to serve on them, but Ive been asked onto
some very interesting ones. And my experience helps sometimes. I can remember
when there was a case 30 years ago that was like this one, and so on.

My family are big walkers. We
move a lot, talk a lot, travel a lot. It gives you less time to think about
your ills. What else? I love siestas, and a glass of wine in the evening improves
the circulation. Im not that strong a spectator of sports, but I like
to move around. So my advice would be to get out of the house. Walk for the
sake of walking! Lack of stimulation and lack of company can have a terrible
effect. Professors who seem to be in good health when they retire sometimes
dont stay active, and they start to decline rather quickly. Its
a case of use it or lose it. Its good to have a lot of interests
outside your profession. One day Ill have to quit teaching, but Im
comforted by the thought that I have music.

I still get letters from former
students, which thrills me. The great fear in aging is that youll be
forgotten.

Phyllis
Klotman
Professor Emeritus of Afro-American StudiesKlotman came to IU in 1970. She was the first affirmative action director
at IU Bloomington, serving from 1974 to 1979. From 1986 to 1993, Klotman was
dean for womens affairs. She founded IUs Black Film Center/Archive
in 1981 and served as its director until 1999. Klotman retired in 1999. In
2000, Choice named her book Struggles for Representation: African American
Documentary Film and Video, co-edited with her daughter Janet Cutler, as
an outstanding academic title.

"I'm happiest when I'm
learning something and when I'm with people who feel the same way. It
gives you something to talk about besides aches and pains."

I
never liked the word retirement. Im not the retiring sort. Im
much more like Dylan ThomasI dont plan to go gently into that
good night.

A friend some 10 years younger
than I is considering retiring. She says the thing that annoys her most is
that you start being invisible to others. We dont have the tradition
of respect for our elders, as in some other cultures. Maybe we used to, but
the 60s, when tradition and anyone over 30 were suspect, changed that.
Among African cultures, theres a sense of the continuity of life: were
linked to the past, the present, and the future.

I know people who made great
plans for their retirement. Some worked out, some didnt. I plan from
project to project. I was dean for womens affairs for seven years, which
was very gratifying work, but it meant that I lost seven years of research
time. You could say that Im making up for that now. I have a big project
at the moment: producing a CD-ROM called African Americans in Cinema:
The First Half Century for the Archive. We had trouble getting private
funding, so just before I planned to retire as director, I wrote a grant to
the National Endowment for the Humanities, expecting to be refused. But we
got it! There I was, walking out the door, and the project was suddenly funded.
I hadnt written in a salary for myself, so Im doing it pro bono.

Our children live in Manhattan,
and they made me promise them that wed move there eventually. But I
need to finish this project. Then maybe well move, and Ill think
about what I want to do next.

How you handle aging depends
a lot on the culture of your family and the way you were raised and on your
personal values. Its important to stay healthy, or get healthystay
physically active, and dont let your brain atrophy. You have to do something
with your life.

When I was very young, I wanted
to be a teacher and a writer. But as things turned out, I was a mother first,
then an undergraduate when my kids were 4 and 6.

I had a passion for learning
that still drives me. Im happiest when Im learning something and
when Im with people who feel the same way. It gives you something to
talk about besides aches and pains.

I have always raged against
injustice and intolerance, and I still do. Rage is a kind of passion, isnt
it?

Elizabeth
Lion
Associate Professor Emeritus of NursingElizabeth Lion was born in Brooklyn, N.Y., and raised in Newark, N.J. She
began her nursing education at New Jersey State College and earned her bachelors
degree in 1948. She received a masters degree in public health nursing
from the University of Pittsburgh in 1966. In 1969, she was appointed to the
IU faculty. In 1990, she earned an Ed.D. from IU with a dissertation on the
sexuality of the dying. Lion was named the 2001 Woman of the Year in Bloomington
as part of Womens History Month.

"There
are many things I don't understandrock'n'roll I never gotbut
I can express an interest. I'm not young because of that; I'm old and
wise because of that."

I
think I approached retirement carefully. Im a Pisces, so I process things
in my head a lot more than Im aware of.

You really need to prepare.
I didnt prepare very well financially. I knew I would work until I was
70, and I didnt approach anything close to a mans salary until
a few years before I retired. You have to decide what youre going to
let go of. As a nurse I knew about grieving, so I knew one of my first tasks
in retiring would be to let go. I let go of my faculty involvements gradually
over three years. Ive been involved in the Affirmative Action Committee
at IU since 1975 and in the Commission on Multicultural Understanding since
1981, and I decided I wouldnt let go of the people or the work involved.

I think you need to set up activities
for retirement. I continued some of my committee work; Im one of two
emeriti on the Bloomington Faculty Council. I also serve on the Student Affairs
Committee and the Faculty Affairs Committee. I trained as a crisis liner and
rape victim advocate at Middle Way House and with Positive Link as an HIV
counselor before I retired.

Sometimes the young bother me.
They think I wont know anything about the world as it is now. But when
someone is in crisis, the age gap is a very easy thing to close. I know sexual
slang from my teaching about human sexuality. So if Im counseling someone
and they talk about dry sex, I know what they mean. That makes their eyes
widen sometimes. My nursing education taught me how important it is to listen
nonjudgmentally.

In retirement you should do
what you always have done. Do things you find essential for well-being. I
do the things that I think contribute to the inherent worth and dignity of
all people, which is the first principle of the Unitarian Universalist Church.
Do things you find entertainingI love theater and opera. I read mysteries,
not to figure out who did it, but to be with and listen to the people. I like
mysteries rich in character development and language.

Im still vain. I match
my clothes intentionally. I wear lipstick, powder, and eye shadow. I dress
for power, because it makes an impact. I rarely wear a flowered dress. But
I havent stayed young. Im an old lady, and I feel like an old
lady. And my heart isnt youngits old. But I want to stay
in touch with the current scene. There are many things I dont understandrocknroll
I never gotbut I can express an interest. Im always willing to
say Tell me about it. Im not young because of that: Im
old and wise because of that.

Frank
Banta
Professor Emeritus of Germanic StudiesBanta graduated from IU with a bachelors degree in 1939. He worked
in Army Intelligence in Germany after World War II and was awarded a Ph.D.
from the University of Berne in 1951. Banta came to IU to teach in 1964. He
retired as Professor of Germanic Studies in 1988. Banta still oversees the
Indiana farm that has been in his family since 1825.

"I
imagined retirement as a time when I would read many novels, meet friends,
take long walks. It isn't like that, and that's my fault. I have work
to do."

I
imagined retirement as a time when I would read many novels, meet friends,
and take long walks. It isnt like that at all, and thats my fault.
It could have been like that, but I have work to do. Maybe its my Presbyterian
backgroundI feel a need to be of some use.

After my retirement I began
to work as a volunteer in the Student Advocates Office. I worked in that capacity
for 11 years. Im now Assistant Director of Student Advocates. I work
20 to 25 hours a week and the occasional evening.

Im often annoyed by the
assumption that because one is old, one doesnt know anything any more.
But people in the United States, and the Western world in general, are getting
more used to having more old people around. I do see a certain
amount of resentment, particularly if were still working. Ive
had people say I ought to move aside and let someone else get the position.
But age is an advantage in this job. I know so many people herethe deans,
assistant deans, people in administration. Ive known some since they
were graduate students. I know who to call to try to resolve something for
a student. Work is a way of keeping in contact with people and making new
acquaintances.

Time is always a factor in everything
you do. With increasing age, one is increasingly conscious that one doesnt
have 50 more years. And I dont have the energy I had 50 years ago. I
have things to take care of where I live and elsewhere, and I have business
affairs. I still love to read. Spare time is therefore very important. Even
though I cant imagine living without a computer now, I very rarely surf
the WebIm afraid Id get taken over by it, and it can eat
up time.

My advice is to keep busy, keep
active, and keep interested. Keeping physically active is probably important.
I say probably because I dont do it. Im blessed with
good health. A number of years ago, a rather overweight colleague asked me
how I kept so trim and healthy. I said I eat what I want, drink what
I want, and take no exercise. He considered this for a moment, then
replied, You are disgusting.