We aren’t doing one – they are fine if done with class.. A guy i am friends on fb with just got married on the weekend and he literally did a strip tease before going in for the garter. He took his shirt AND pants off, and was rubbing his new wifes hands all up on him and gyrating and his thrusting all over her. and the video was posted on facebook! wow just wow. At a wedding! With parents and grand parents and kids!!

I definitely didn’t do it. I find it really freakin’ weird, sorry. My husband sure as hell isn’t sticking his head up my dress in public! lol. Nor do I really want someone catching an item that has been on my upper thigh all day… (I also didn’t throw my bouquet, both because I didn’t want to ruin my bouquet, although people use stand-ins, and because many people say it makes all the single females very uncomfortable)

@loving_life: I would just die if my husband put his head up my dress. Seriously it would be awful. I would definitely put a second throw garter on right before… I just feel like it’s such a tradition, but eesh. I’m not so sure about it. Plus, there will be like 3 maybe 4 single guys? Maybe his friends would get into it… I don’t know.

…I can’t think of but one or two …no three single girls. Surely that isn’t enough to do a toss lol!

@lolita39: Haha yea we had alotta girls and guys ready to catch the toss bouquet/ garter! I think if there’s even as little as 6 ppl then it’s a go for me! I think it’s cute & fun 🙂 Have the dj call up ppl a few times, plus ppl always push the single ppl to the floor lol