Kind of sucks because I would really like some male input on this, I sort of already know what the female consensus is going to be but ahhh well maybe I don't really so we'll see.

So last the the bf went oout with his friend to go hang out with "some old friends from back in the day." Which is fine by me, I really do not care if he goes out or whatever. He gets home in the middle of the night, got dropped off I guess cuz he was too drunk to drive. And man he would NOT shut up!

Somewhere in all this he starts telling me how he loves me, BUT if he gets an opportunity to have sex with a girl, then he's going to have sex with whatever and however many girls he can. some shoot about guys not having the "opportunities" that girls have. That girls can have d...ermmm...a guy whenever they want, but that for guys or at least, for him, this is a rare thing. And i'm sitting there thinking wtfunk??? yeah...so....HOW am i suppose to feel about this now??? he has cheated on me before and he KNOWS that if he where to do such a thing and i find out, which i WOULD find out because he doesn't know how to keep his mouth shut, I would be gone So fast and not turn back.

So basically I guess he's waiting on the day that I leave him? Because judging by his words and his promised actions there's just no way.He says he doesn't even know what to call me because I'm not his wife and we've been together so off and on for so long, we've know each other for 20 flippin years now! Which is nuts how time flies by.

Says he's getting old and blah blah....basically he wants to get laid by anyone and every girl he possibly can and he says how come i don't?And i'm thinking ewwwwwwww that's just gross! I don't need a man and certainly not gonna go sleeping around just because I can, that's a good nice way to end up diseased and just totally used up...I may not be perfect but I'm not THAT bad....

So what's the deal here, I'm thinking My God does this guy lack total funking respect for me or himself for that matter! I told him the only reason he think that way is because he's insecure, he thought about it and then agreed with me but maintains all his previous comments.

I'm just really disgusted and put off by these recent revelations, totally disgusted.

~Sky~

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Kind of sucks because I would really like some male input on this, I sort of already know what the female consensus is going to be but ahhh well maybe I don't really so we'll see.

So last the the bf went oout with his friend to go hang out with "some old friends from back in the day." Which is fine by me, I really do not care if he goes out or whatever. He gets home in the middle of the night, got dropped off I guess cuz he was too drunk to drive. And man he would NOT shut up!

Somewhere in all this he starts telling me how he loves me, BUT if he gets an opportunity to have sex with a girl, then he's going to have sex with whatever and however many girls he can. some shoot about guys not having the "opportunities" that girls have. That girls can have d...ermmm...a guy whenever they want, but that for guys or at least, for him, this is a rare thing. And i'm sitting there thinking wtfunk??? yeah...so....HOW am i suppose to feel about this now??? he has cheated on me before and he KNOWS that if he where to do such a thing and i find out, which i WOULD find out because he doesn't know how to keep his mouth shut, I would be gone So fast and not turn back.

So basically I guess he's waiting on the day that I leave him? Because judging by his words and his promised actions there's just no way.He says he doesn't even know what to call me because I'm not his wife and we've been together so off and on for so long, we've know each other for 20 flippin years now! Which is nuts how time flies by.

Says he's getting old and blah blah....basically he wants to get laid by anyone and every girl he possibly can and he says how come i don't?And i'm thinking ewwwwwwww that's just gross! I don't need a man and certainly not gonna go sleeping around just because I can, that's a good nice way to end up diseased and just totally used up...I may not be perfect but I'm not THAT bad....

So what's the deal here, I'm thinking My God does this guy lack total funking respect for me or himself for that matter! I told him the only reason he think that way is because he's insecure, he thought about it and then agreed with me but maintains all his previous comments.

I'm just really disgusted and put off by these recent revelations, totally disgusted.

Yea honey, your right about what us girls think and will say and your right, he does not have any respect for you.

First, you should have punched him right in his balls. Then laughed at him saying "omg, yea right, like any decent girl would want to F you *giggle*. Hell, Im decent and I dont ever want to F you. When we do finally F, I end up having to use my vibro after wards cause you cant satisfy me with your little D. BTW, do you mind if I have sex with your friends? Im sure they are much better than you". Oh girl, you need to hit him where it hurts. Cut his man hood down, not physically but mentally.

I could go on and on but I wont. The jerk your with just pissed me wayyyyyy off. ggggggggggrrrrrrrrrrrrr

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Report This| Share this:vent and adult stuffYea honey, your right about what us girls think and will say and your right, he does not have any respect for you.

First, you should have punched him right in his balls. Then laughed at him saying "omg, yea right, like any decent girl would want to F you *giggle*. Hell, Im decent and I dont ever want to F you. When we do finally F, I end up having to use my vibro after wards cause you cant satisfy me with your little D. BTW, do you mind if I have sex with your friends? Im sure they are much better than you". Oh girl, you need to hit him where it hurts. Cut his man hood down, not physically but mentally.

I could go on and on but I wont. The jerk your with just pissed me wayyyyyy off. ggggggggggrrrrrrrrrrrrr

yeah cookie, it was amazing to hear that, and not in a good way, i mean there he was basically confessing to a complete and total lack of loyalty and respect...yet the only thnig about me that seems to concern him much lately iz that i "apprear to be losing weight" yeah that happens when you're manic and only sleeping an hour a night IF that...what a piece of sh......

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Report This| Share this:vent and adult stuffyeah cookie, it was amazing to hear that, and not in a good way, i mean there he was basically confessing to a complete and total lack of loyalty and respect...yet the only thnig about me that seems to concern him much lately iz that i "apprear to be losing weight" yeah that happens when you're manic and only sleeping an hour a night IF that...what a piece of sh......

it isn't right...and i may not be in love with the guy but that doesn't mean i can't be hurt...i wonder if he even remember telling me all of this? i guess its a good thing i had already decided on preparing my emergency escape plan

~Sky~
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Report This| Share this:vent and adult stuffit isn't right...and i may not be in love with the guy but that doesn't mean i can't be hurt...i wonder if he even remember telling me all of this? i guess its a good thing i had already decided on preparing my emergency escape plan

I don't intend to be mean, but sometimes a person needs more than just "hugs and kisses" - no, I don't KNOW she won't leave, but she's been making excuses for years on this one...i wont go into more via post - she can email me if she wnats to.

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Report This| Share this:vent and adult stuffI don't intend to be mean, but sometimes a person needs more than just "hugs and kisses" - no, I don't KNOW she won't leave, but she's been making excuses for years on this one...i wont go into more via post - she can email me if she wnats to.

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