In part one of a two-part Dr. Phil, which aired Thursday, CJ claimed Kaylie is too permissive, allowing their daughter to smoke marijuana, drink alcohol and be sexually active. He acknowledged sending the teenager to live with her mother because he said he wanted her to “snap out of it” and see she was better off in his care than with her mom.

Kaylie, who says she became a professional dominatrix after she and CJ separated, claims he’s “old-fashioned” and a “square.” She admits, she condones her daughter’s behaviors, and even smokes “weed” with her. Claiming CJ told her she is being a friend to Gabrielle and not a mother, Kaylie responded, “In my mind, I’m definitely both. I am first her friend.”

Gabrielle, who claims her father was always “nitpicking” her, claims Kaylie is her “best friend” and the only one who understands her. She says she wants to continue living with her mom.