Sexual Child Abuse

Sexual Child Abuse

Sexual abuse and molestation occurs in numerous forms and affects a multitude of families and children each year. Parents trust caretakers, such as daycare workers, teachers, and others, to care for their children each and every day. Sadly, when the unthinkable happens, it can cause a lifetime of emotional, mental, and physical pain for children of all ages. No one deserves to be a victim of sexual abuse.

The following information is provided by the American Academy of Pediatrics, the National Center for Post Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD), and Darkness to Light.

WHO CONDUCTS CHILD SEX ABUSE?

Statistics show that 30% of abusers are related to the victims, 10% are strangers, and an overwhelming majority (60%) are known to the victim but are not family members. This group includes adults that the child may know, trust, and even love.

Complaining of pain while urinating or having a bowel movement, or exhibiting symptoms of genital infections, such as offensive odors, or symptoms of a sexually transmitted disease.

Having symptoms indicating evidence of physical traumas to the genital or anal area.

Beginning wetting the bed.

Experiencing a loss of appetite or other eating problems, including unexplained gagging.

Showing unusual fear of a certain place or location.

Developing frequent unexplained health problems.

Having unexplained periods of panic, which may be flashbacks from the abuse.

Regressing to behaviors too young for the stage of development they already achieved.

Initiating sophisticated sexual behaviors.

Indicating a sudden reluctance to be alone with a certain person.

Engaging in self-mutilations, such as sticking themselves with pins or cutting themselves.

Withdrawing from previously enjoyable activities, like school or school performance change.

Asking an unusual amount of questions about human sexuality.

WHO CAN BE HELD RESPONSIBLE?

Several persons and parties may be responsible for child molestation—whether they committed the abuse themselves or they knew/should have known and did nothing to stop it. Following is a list of potential defendants in a child sex abuse civil suit.

The abuser

Employers

Apartment communities

Property owners

Daycare providers

Landlords

Hotels/motels

Co-workers

Schools

Coaches

Babysitters

Parents/stepparents

Teachers

Therapists

Youth clubs

Churches

Doctors

PROSECUTING CHILD MOLESTERS IN CIVIL COURT

As is the case with many crimes, those responsible for child sex abuse can be tried in both criminal and civil court. In criminal court, they may be sentenced to jail time, prison time, or probation. In civil court, they can be sued for damages caused by their actions. Damages for sexual abuse cases may include:

Personal injury

Lost income and other financial losses

Past and future trauma and emotional distress

Past and future medical, counseling, and psychiatric bills

False imprisonment; assault, battery

Exploitation

Loss of consortium

Punitive damages

WHY SHOULD YOU COME FORWARD TODAY?

When it comes to reporting and prosecuting child sex abusers- time is of the essence. First of all- the more quickly you report abuse, the quicker it stops. Secondly- depending on what state you live in, there are deadlines for filing a lawsuit in an abuse case (statute of limitations). The following are some key reasons to come forward today:

You can stop the abuse now.

You can achieve closure (an opportunity for recovery and healing).

You have a responsibility to make the public/community aware of the perpetrator and keep this abuse from happening to someone else.

It is a way to hold perpetrators, and those who could have prevented the crime(s) accountable for their actions.