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Monday, May 8, 2017

The Red Sox and Racism: Say It Ain't So....

“Not everything that is faced can be changed, but nothing can be changed until it is faced." --James Baldwin

Say it ain’t so Sox fans.

Last week while the Red Sox were battling the Baltimore
Orioles baseball team on the field, things got really ugly off the field, in
the stands, on a blustery and chilly Monday night.Orioles’ center fielder Adam Jones was the
target of racial slurs hurled from the bleachers by lughead Boston fans. To the Sox credit, the team
responded quickly and forcefully, decrying the incident and instituting a new
fan behavior policy. Future similar racist incidents will now result in immediate
ejection and a lifetime ban from the park.Fans even stepped up the next day by giving Jones a standing ovation on
his first at bat.

End of story? Afraid not.

Because that would mean the end of the ancient and stubborn
human sins of racism and bias.Now I
believe that most humans in society and the world do hope and pray for that
great day, when, in the words of the Reverend Doctor Martin Luther King Jr.,
all will be judged, not by the color of their skin, but by the contents of
their character.That’s the good news. That’s
the dream of the majority of humankind. Of God, absolutely.

But the truth? We’ve got a long, long way to go yet.

Especially when we are still unwilling, as a society and
individually, to confess to and to own our inherent bias and prejudice, as
human beings.The truth that all, ALL OF
US, carry within, the seeds of prejudice. Of looking at another and seeing a “them”
or “those people” and not a flesh and blood child of God, just like us. Our species seems hard wired for racism, for “–isms”
of all kinds. I know I am. My clergy collar does not exempt me from primordial
feelings of fear or threat or anger or judgment towards those I perceive to be
different than me.Race. Gender.
Religion. Sexual orientation. Culture. Class. Politics.

What I have come to
learn is this: until I face into that truth for me, own that reality, nothing
will change in terms of how I live in
this world.

Let’s be clear. To face this truth is really, really
hard.As a lifelong Sox fan, I don’t want
to face into the often ugly racial history of our beloved hometown team.The fact the Sox were the absolute last team in
major league baseball to integrate, thirteen years after Jackie Robinson broke
into the big leagues in 1946 with the Brooklyn Dodgers. The fact that beloved
African-American players in Boston through the years, like Jim Rice; they were
subject to racism, and not just on the field or from the stands, but in the community
too, the local places they chose to live and to raise a family.

I get that no one wants to be labeled prejudice.Not me.Not any of us. I get the reluctance and fear to look at ourselves so
clearly, so without bias, when it comes to our bias. But here’s my truth: until
I can admit to having a problem, the problem itself can’t and won’t change.Until I can confess that I, in fact, at times,
actually benefit in this world: because
of my skin color and how I choose to worship and who I choose to love; until I
lean into this, things won’t change. I won’t change. The world won’t change.

I have to face the truth. Hear the truth too.

“Want to come to a Red Sox game with me?” Thirty years ago I
was a first year divinity student at Boston
University, a five minute walk down Commonwealth Avenue
to Fenway Park.I offered this innocent invite to an African-American classmate of mine
who’d told me she’d never seen a game.

“John: have you ever really looked around at the crowd at a
game?Do you see a lot of folks who look
like me?”

I thought about it
for a moment. “No.” I confessed, confused and sad at this truth.

She said, “I just don’t feel safe or welcomed there, or in a
lot of other parts of Boston
either. But thanks for the invitation.”

When it comes to bias, we as a people, a city, a nation and
a world: we’ve come a long, long way.But…we’ve
still got a long, long way to go.That’s
the truth.Just ask Adam Jones.

1 comment:

Thanks, John. I concur with every word you wrote and do, as well, wull continue to do, what I can. If I can't do anything to better the situation, wherever it raises its ugly head, at least, I will not add to the problem. Phyllis