Life Lessons from Adult Entertainer Khristy Creams

I was born and partly raised in the United States. I have family in both [US and Germany]. Our family goes back to the early founding of Hamburg. Spending part of my time each year in Hamburg was obviously wonderful for me. I’ve lived in Hamburg full time since 2006 and for now, I can’t imagine living anywhere else. I don’t like to make comparisons of the United Stated and here, but there is a great deal of difference along with many similarities. Hamburg is very old. It was a city 700 years before Columbus sailed to the New World, so it was a City State 1000 years before the Pilgrims made it to North America.

When you live in Hamburg, you can’t help but be influenced by the longevity of human experience and endeavors that have, and continue to transpire here daily. Hamburg is in the top ten seaports in the world and because of that, every part of the world makes its way to Hamburg sooner or later!

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To me, social observation is studying the cognitive processes of every form of human communication. Absolutely everything is communication. How someone delivers, digests, and incorporates information into their life is a fascinating process to me. As for how anyone reacts to me, I could actually care less. I don’t act, or react based on what anyone thinks, feels, or says. This is a problem of much of humankind, the ego and it’s actual fragility. I marvel at how so much of the world operates on myths and completely false and incorrect data. The age of reason through the enlightenment was a long time ago, but yet there are political and religious preponderances to this day, which have been disproved both scientifically and mathematically, and any educated and reasonable minded person would concur, yet peoples lives are subjugated to the ignorance of myth in making so many important decisions in their lives. This happens with individuals as well as whole nations, and it happens in every aspect of human life, especially the sexual life every human has. It’s a subject that is completely endless and that is exactly why I’m captivated by it. I believe it’s what makes me the “social observer” I turned out to be, and am! For example, the vilification of sexuality and especially pornography, by certain nations, governments, conservative and otherwise, so called news organizations, ignorant politicians, and religious kooks of all persuasions, is something that defies any intelligent reasoning. It’s completely couched in the greatest ignorance and simple DUMB thinking imaginable! Yet, it’s perpetuated because of myth, fear, ignorance, and non-factual beliefs, even in the light of fairly new scientific and historical evidence to the contrary!! How can I NOT want to be an observer of such monumental idiocy!! Hopefully though, I can make a tiny little difference in the ongoing process of change that is taking place globally a little at a time. At least that’s how I view it.

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I work a lot and I have many varied business interests and activities besides [performing and modelling], but many are private and really not anyone’s business, so I don’t openly discuss those. I also don’t openly discuss my family and home life. To me that’s completely off limits to fans and the public. No offense guys. I think most people would understand and agree on my position. Now, with that said, a normal day for me is not much different than anyone else I would imagine. I do have a few hobbies and I try and actively engage in those as much as I can. I do a little collecting, I collect really odd dolls, and I love to shop, especially for shoes. I do love shoes! I have a really regimented daily workout routine, actually several and I alternate them and I have a routine designed for me by my personal trainer for when I’m traveling as well. I do count my workouts as normal daily activity since I do them daily.

I’m normally an early riser, unless I’ve had to be up really late, or all night, then I’ll naturally sleep in. I like to have some quiet alone time each morning to check email, Twitter, do a little writing and mentally prepare for the day. When I think about it, I don’t think my days and activities are much different than most people. I’m just myself and do my own thing!

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I am a big believer in metaphor and no matter what aspect of what I do that you refer to as “work” I try and express myself with the best use of metaphor I can. I like to make people think as well as feel emotion. I don’t care how I’m seen. That’s not a concern of mine at all. You either take me and my work as I am, or leave me alone. I don’t care what someone thinks. It’s not going to change my thoughts and the way I express myself. Again, this is what I despise, someone worrying about how they want to be see by others. If that’s in your mind, you’re not going to truly be yourself. You are going to be what you want others to think of you, or your work. To me, that’s not the way to be. I find that sort of action fake and unreal. It’s hard work to be original and truly unique. It just doesn’t happen! As far as how I’ll be seen or thought of, that’s out of my hands and really not my concern. All I can do is hope someone likes what I do. If not, oh well!! (laughs)

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What attracts me most to anyone, male or female, is the mind and personality they possess. I like intelligence and I like to see intelligence employed in everything. Ignorance, being boastful, or a know-it-all, is a complete turn off for me. I like people with wit, humor, emotion and a genuine humanity to them. As for physical things, I love women with defined bodies. I love breasts and nice asses. I like the way women feel, smell and taste. With guys, it’s more a primal thing. Is he tall, have a nice cock, and have some stamina, OK… lets fuck! With women it’s more cerebral and deals with emotion and a completely different type of mental and physical pleasure. For example, I prefer to kiss women and cold care less to kiss a guy. Women simply kiss the best by far! (laughing). They just do everything with their tongue and lips the best, I think!

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I’m currently on this trip in Africa, as you know, and I have a much larger fan base here than I would have ever thought. Fans are something I think you cultivate and grow like a garden over time. Take care of the garden and it feeds you. Neglect the garden and you go hungry! Reaction by fans has always amazed me. I love my fans and I’m so grateful and honored for their support and caring about me, and what I do. Without fans, none of us could do what we do, could we! So, here is a shout out to all of my fans… Love you guys!!!

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Know who you really are and don’t try and be anything you are not! I think this works both professionally and personally. If you know you’re bisexual, be bisexual. If you know you’re lesbian, be lesbian. Always be open and true with yourself. Don’t ever give up. Life is both the trip, and the struggles on the way! Dip your oars in the water and keep rowing, rowing, rowing!

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I feel [my stories and poems] are aimed at anyone that wants to interact with them. I certainly don’t write for any particular audiences, per say, I just write. I feel I write to express my feelings, and myself, and all I can do is hope others find them interesting and relatable to themselves. To me, any so called turn on people get from my writing, is purely subjective to that individual person. If it does turn them on, then that’s a great thing, but I’m not trying on purpose to turn on anyone. Now sometimes, I do write poems with a particular muse in mind.

I do have a number of girlfriends that are muses for a lot of my most sexual, erotic poems, and in many of those, I’m the turned on one! In those poems, I’m trying to express something elusive and wonderful that I’m feeling, exactly because of the muse herself.

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I find all stereotypes to be roadblocks to any real knowledge, and because of that I don’t deal in or indulge in discussion about them usually. What you assume to be strange or outlandish, others find perfectly normal. What gives someone the right to say this is strange or outlandish? See this is the very thing I try and fight against. The assumption something is some particular way because you don’t know anything about it, or you don’t prefer it, or some mythical ignorant religious belief says it’s only this way, that’s all part of this perpetual bigoted ignorance so many people and cultures suffer from. Fetishes are things people have. It’s just the way it is. Here in Germany for example, water-sports, or piss play if you will, is a big thing and it’s practiced and enjoyed a lot. Because sex is much more open here, and people are sexually better educated here as well, we don’t think it’s quite the naughty thing as say people do in the United States, even though there is more of it indulged in the United States than most people realize!

What I find is by and large, Americans are much more sexually ignorant than Europeans and especially Germans. People need to understand that sex and sexuality are very broad, complicated and in-depth aspects of every human being and it’s all totally natural. What is unnatural, is society and religious people and institutions trying to dictate what is sexually normal, and what they say isn’t normal. Fetishes are an enhancing element to a sometimes romantic, but always, sexual relationship. It is a situation of what you my dislike someone else my very well just love. We need to stop being so judgmental, but that won’t happen until everyone is much better sexually educated.

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Just being myself and engaging in my life, that’s what drives me. If I’m content, then I’m happy and if I’m happy I’m where I want to always be!

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There are a lot of things I would never do. I would however, love to eat Katy Perry’s pussy one day, but I doubt that’s going to happen, so I’ll just imagine it and be happy with that!

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The other day, a girlfriend in the USA posted something about heating up moon-pies in the microwave on her Facebook page… so I admitted to her that I used to think moon-pies were cream-pies in the butt. She and a few others thought that was quite funny.