She keeps on telling me "i have a boyfriend... and please stop getting jealous from my bf" what does she mean?

She initiated contact with me after chasing me for 3 months when i did not even notice her... she came and sat with me in the class and we exchanged mails... and then next day she tells me that she has a boyfriend...She tells me she has a boyfriend... but at the same time says me she wants me as a friend...She says she loves her boyfriend but flirts with me aswell on chat...She has told me a MILLION times... "stop being so jealous of my bf"... even when i dont even take name of that dude...If she has a boyfriend... why did she chase me and initiated contact?

She really has a boyfriend and I should stop talking to her.

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She does't have a boyfriend but lying because she doesn't want to seem and desperate.

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I figure it's one of these:1) She might be either trying to make you or her boyfriend jealous to get one of you more into her2) she could just be really friendly/naturally flirty (see if she is like that with other people)3) she is an attention whore

Have you asked around to see if she actually does have a bf?If she is just lying to not seem desperate (which I doubt) she would chase you more if you pulled away, so you can test if she is doing that by pulling away and if she chases you, you could be right about her lying.

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Thnx for ur opinion...Now i will tell u in detail...1. We met 4 months ago in a class... She has been eying me since that day giving me eye contacts and all non verbal signs... but i did not pay attention... so finally she came herself and sat with me and we exchanged mails...2. There is another guy in class who is interested in her but she maintains her distance with him infront of me... like when im in the class she will move away from him... as if to show me that there is nothing more than friendship between her and that guy...3. so we started talking on mail and she told me she has a boyfriend... but she keeps saying "stop being so jealous of my bf"4. In past 4 months... i never saw her talking on phone or watsapping on her boyfriend... i mean if a girl has a boyfriend wouldn't she be chatting with him in the breaks?5. Wen i used to ignore her when she used to smile at me... she used to start crying in the class...what do u suggest?

Ok now it's one of 2 things:1) she is an attention whore.2) she is being a manipulative little cunt trying to get you to chase after her or just not appear desperate.3) she may have no friends (I doubt this)In either 1 or 2 I would ignore her because no matter which it is it's not worth your trouble getting involved. If she is this bad right now imagine what she would be like if you got involved with her.

If you choose to go after her anyways I would straight up tell her "hey look if you have a boyfriend stop being flirty and stop talking to me but if you don't have a boyfriend I might be interested."

Thnx a lot i said the same...I said... i like u but since u have a boyfriend i think we have to stop talking and then she becomes a drama queen saying... "how will u forget me... even if u will close ur eyes... u will see my face""u ended our friendship... u ended everything"she said "i like u too earlier"... but then she changed it too "i like u too as friends"...i dunno what she wants...last night we were chatting and i started flirting with her calling her baby...she said pls respect the face that im in a relationship... i guess we should stop talking...i said ok bye...

Haha sounds like attention whore behaviour... She probably told her friends how crazy this guy who knew she had a boyfriend was over her. Then after you said no more you just hurt her pride and then she turned around and tried regaining lost pride by telling you to back off.

Yeah just avoid her it sounds like you really don't want to be dragged into her little drama shit storm. I feel sorry for her boyfriend having to deal with her.

LOL... i just died laughing at your last sentence "I feel sorry for her boyfriend having to deal with her." hahahahahaha... i never thought about it... OMG her boyfriend would have become a crazy guy by now hahahaahahaha... :D :D :D

Even if she does have a boyfriend, he's just a decoy to lure you (even others) into her man trap. Play along and when the day comes she becomes more aggressive sexually, ask her in a coy way "what about your BF?" ... when she will reveal YOU are the one, not "him"