Amanda, I read your post
regarding the attacks on your son and yourself.

Dr. Karl Payne has a book,
Spiritual Warfare, (ISBN 978-193648833-9) which
is powerful in the practical
understanding of what is happening
and how to deal with it. I and family can witness that
what he writes is true!

Page 90 in the book has
this prayer. It is based on Psalm 27:

"Lord, if that is a
demon telling me (fill in the accusation), and that
You haven't forgiven my sin, please torment the one
who is tormenting me, destroy the destroyer,
undermine the one who is attempting right now to
undermine me. Contend against the one that is
contending against me and catch it in its own traps.
Thank You! I pray this in the Name of the Lord Jesus
Christ."

Christians CAN be
demonized! Dr. Payne compares it to our "houses", which
God owns and of which we are the landlords, having bad
destructive tenants moving into our vacant "rooms" and
then trying to taking over even more! Different
reasons for this: generational curses, not letting
Jesus into all our "rooms", unrepented sin, their
assignment to destroy us. Anything not filled
with the spirit of God will be filled with the spirit
of darkness.

I have personally gone
through demonization. It is real! Your son and you, 1)
in the authority you have because of JESUS'
VICTORY over satan and his, have the right to throw these
things out of your minds and lives. 2) The Holy
Spirit stands ready with power to enforce the
eviction when you ask! And these things cannot hide
and lie about themselves when you remind them 3)
they will come before the White Throne of God!

Another issue in dealing
with these things is the ground rules of their
leaving. From Dr. Payne's book (page 130): "The
statement, 'In the Name of the Lord Jesus Christ'
precedes all the ground rules. The Lord Jesus Christ
is our authority, not a rabbit's foot. The purpose
of repeating His Name is to make it clear to the
demons involved that we understand the Lord Jesus
Christ is the reason the Christian will win this
conflict."

I came out of a Lutheran
tradition where it was believed real Christians could
never experience real demonic attacks. Wrong! That's why when I experienced
the demonization I didn't known how to fight and get
them to leave. It was only the Holy Spirit actually
tutoring my husband and me in real time as to how to
deal with the demons and get me free of them! Lacking
this knowledge Christians are wide open to their
attacks.

May our Father
send to you believers who will stand with you in
this battle!