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I think everyone experiences love on some level. It may not be exactly what you expect or it may be more than you ever imagined. Think about the overwhelming joy you felt the first time you held your baby. What about those butterflies you feel when your significant other brushes by you.....it's there - on some level - everyone feels it. It might not be deep, passionate, rip your clothes off, lustful love - it can generosity, kindness, compassion, empathy - it's all fueled by a basic human instinct - to love.

I think in the long run humans need and want love so they search for love, in some way ,be it kids , friends , family or a mate ,isn't that what we where put on earth for to experience love in all aspects ,from love to hurt .? Human contact ?

Love is a good feeling. It's a different feeling depending of the age. So, Love has ages and as it ages, it gets more solid, stronger, calm, secure and smarter. Love makes you do good things for the people you love, even if you don't consciously admit you love them. Love make you feel alive and makes you do things you wouldn't do otherwise. Some women get convinced, and can believe they are inlove just to justify a dependency but that is not love, it is just a way to get something that makes then feel secure in some ways. Sadly, that is not going to work, and it woud only hurts them more soon than later. I've been there too, but thanks God I am good for now, and I hope for ever.