3 Secrets to becoming a Multi-Orgasmic woman !

Okay ladies, are you ready to discover how to become multi-orgasmic? Any woman can learn to experience multiple orgasms with training, practice, and of course, surrendering to pleasure and her own body.

First of all, in order for a woman to become multi-orgasmic, she must feel comfortable having an orgasm. If, as a woman, you are not there yet, don’t worry! Please go read my article “Top 3 Reasons why some women don’t have orgasms! How that can change!” There are some great tips and tricks to beginning your orgasmic pleasure. As women, once we learn how to be multi-orgasmic then there is no limit on the types (stay tuned for that article) or amount of orgasms our body is capable of expressing.

Women and the lovers who want to support multi-orgasmic bliss…let’s get started!

1. Oversensitivity: For many women, once they have had a clitoris orgasm their clit, vagina and sometimes their whole body can be soooo super sensitive that if you continue to touch her, she might want to punch you in the head…not sexy and not a great way to end the sexual experience with non-consensual violence. Here is a little trick my Tantra teachers taught me: Don’t break contact with the clit after orgasm. Don’t keep moving, or applying pressure but instead be very, very still while maintaining contact with her clit. It doesn’t matter if you are using your tongue, finger, hand, toy, penis, or something else, stay still for 10-20 seconds giving the nervous system and nerve ends time to relax and not be in hypersensitive mode. After you wait 10-20 seconds, very slowly and gently try to move. If she still wants to kick you, stop and be still for another 10-20 seconds and then try again. Once her nerve endings have calmed down enough that she can start to receive touch without pain or major discomfort, then start to build her arousal level again and watch her go… and goooooo and goooooooooooo.

2. Surrender: This is the hardest part, but you have to let go of control of your body, mind and sometimes spirit. It is all about understanding that it is safe to let go! Realize that you need to trust and surrender to your partner’s touch and fully allow yourself and your body to receive pleasure from your partner. It is a matter of surrendering to pleasure and fully allowing your body to express that through sounds, movements, and words. This also means trusting that your partner is not passing judgement on what your face and body might look like or the primal sounds that will come from you. Orgasm is NOT LADY LIKE!! It is primal, and raw, intense, and fuckin’ awesome!!! Lovers note: It is important to encourage your lover to let go!! Tell her how sexy you find it when she lets out her wild primal orgasmic beast! Tell her it is okay for her to scream, bite, writhe, and claw. The more you encourage her, the safer she will feel expressing her multi-orgasmic bliss with you!

3. Orgasm Boot Camp: It is important to train your mind, body and spirit to become multi- orgasmic. Just like you wouldn’t sign up for a marathon without training first, you can’t expect to be able to stay in the multi-orgasmic state for long periods of time without training either. I have been training for 25 years, so I can stay in that multi-orgasmic state for 3-5 hours having 100s of orgasms, so it is possible! You want to start small. If you’ve never had more than one orgasm in a sexual experience, first work up to two or three. I have found that once your body and mind are capable of having four orgasms in one sexual session, then it’s really just a matter of training your body and your lover’s endurance. It’s a great full body workout!! The best way to start your training is alone while you are masturbating. Use what you learned in tip 1 (oversensitivity), and keep repeating it, increasing your self-love each time you self- pleasure. Also, try using different strokes, pressures, toys, and positions. This will expand your orgasmic patterning and make it easier for you to experience orgasmic pleasure in many different ways. While you are exploring by yourself, this is a fabulous time to practice surrendering in a safe environment. Once you feel comfortable, ask your lover to help. Tell him or her about the “staying still” technique and let the exploration and bonding begin.

It is important to understand that there are many types of orgasms and many are intense, so you really just want to allow your body to express the waves of pleasure. Don’t start to focus on how many orgasms you are having or counting your lover’s orgasms. The minute that it becomes a goal or chore you will stop the orgasmic pleasure from happening. Let me know if you have any questions or need any support. I am always here for you, for your healing, awakening, education and exploration!

13 Comments

Jaime Ava Jones
on October 6, 2014 at 2:24 pm

This is awesome 🙂 LUV IT!!! Makes perfect sense. In my whole life it has happened to me once that I had 3 clitoral orgasms in a sex session as you say. I have come a long way to get to a point where I can let go of many things things to truly be in the moment and the fact that my partner was using the techniques you spoke of helped a lot. I still think I can experience more in the sense of orgasmic pleasure on a mind body and soul level and I will definetly keep exploring and practicing 🙂 Thank you 🙂

I have come so far in my healing and want to THANK YOU for your continued support. The things you spoke of the first time me met didn’t seem possible to me. Now, I put into practice what you have taught me and it is so fun to report back to you all the wonderful ,new experiences I am having.
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I became multi orgasmic after coming off antidepressants!! My libido sky rocketed and I became a highly sexual being!! I also discovered that I could ejaculate with or without orgasming!! The highest I have gone is 20 experiences of bliss!! From frigidity to freedom never ceases to floor me!!

Hi Martin here I love to please a Lady I am a Married Man. My wife and myself used to have a wild sex life and I mean wild. Then just over 11 years ago she just said no one evening I asked her why and she said she no longer wanted sex. I have tried everything sex councerlers Drs then they found a tumour on her brain it was not in her Brain but a perturity gland that was the size. Of an egg pressing on her Brain. The Dr said once it had been drained our sex life would return to normal again. But things have got worce and now she does not even kiss me the most I get is a peck on the cheak I love to make a lady have multiple orgasams it gives me more pleasure than sex itself but my wife just won’t play at all. I have tried everything I can think of Meals out Buying her clothes everything. She has now told me if I want sex I can go out and find someone else. She still wants to stay Married but without any sexual contact she said before Christmas she was moving out of our Bedroom because she does not want my arm around her while she is sleeping. All I want is someone to share my sexual experience with. But I don’t go to Pubs or Clubs I have nowhere to meet someone and must admit that I feel very very lonely. Do you have any ideas of what I can do. I know that I am a good lover as I used to make my wife orgasam multiple times. But now I can’t even get a kiss on the lips from her. Please can you help me in any way any suggestions welcome. Yours Martin from the UK.

Good Morning Martin
Thank you for your honest sharing. It sounds like you could use some support to figure this out. Can you please email me directly so I can share some ideas with you. gaia@succulentliving.com
Looking forward to helping you out
Until then have a happy sensual bum wiggling day!!
Gaia

I sent you an email, but my predicament is I have met a man who is challenging me to completely let go and allow myself to be trained to have multiple orgasms I’m a little hesitant but it sounds very desirable. Once you’ve been with this type of lover are you ever satisfied within normal man again? Or do you always have the need to train and be freaky?

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