I started dating this girl about two weeks ago. She's awesome, duh. No need to explain personal opinions about partners. What i wanted to tell about was the first time we slept together and how her cute reaction during sex made it one of my favorite nights ever.

Because of experience with other partners, getting me to cum had become a bit of a challenge from over stimulation over the years.

Fast forward to my first night with new girl. We've been going at it for a while. She knows her body and gotten her fill and is now trying to satisfy me. She starts going down on me and is doing amazing things, but I just can't cum. I pull her up because I know she's getting a sore jaw. She sits up and gives me the most adorable pout and says, "I want your jizz". Not in a sexy way but in the same playful voice she used to get some extra chocolate when we went to the movies.

Well cute is my aestetic and it always has been. I don't bother trying to fight it, I embrace what I am. It's not to say that I can't be sexy, but more that cute can be sexy. cute and sexy are not mutually exclusive.

Ahhh but there’s a whole sexy in cute.
I used to think the same (I wanna be sexy not cute) but while discovering my sexuality has made me sexier (in terms of dirty talk and that) I still understand that a lot of what’s sexy about me is the cute innocence-not so innocent that my partners have likes and now I embrace it.
Cute is the new sexy.

This statement sucks because for me the word sexy is like, wierd. I prefer cute, I like cute girls etc. Sexy just feels foreign coming from my lips. I just never feel like I mean it. However, cute IS sexy too me, like crazy so I guess it's a bit wierd.

Start adjusting to the idea of cute being a type of sexy. It's not good for girls to feel like they have to be one or the other. Try using the two words together or the idea "you are so sexy when you are cute" etc.

I've been trying because I realize it means something different to me than them, but it still feels more like an insult from my perspective still, it'll change but being used to something is hard to change :)

I’m definitely “cute”, that is always the word that is used, or sometimes adorable or sweet or w/e. My look is “cute” and I’m also sort of soft and gentle.

The thing is though, I also have a judgmental streak in my personality and sometimes that shit gets annoying. Some dude starts trying to talk to me like I’m 5 or expect me to be really girly and it is like nails on a fucking chalkboard. Just because I’m cute doesn’t mean I’m an infant lol

I couldn't agree more! Who says we can't be cute and sexy at the same time? The beauty about sex is being able to experiment and change things up. It doesn't always have to be raw and serious. There is joy in being silly and having fun with a trusty partner. :)

That's a lame objectifying stereotype. There's plenty of Asian girls that aren't cute or that are just overly sexy. "Asian girls are cute" is a really dumb generalization. It's like saying black girls are cute, white girls are cute.

Those are both extremely niche subcultures. Did you know that Asia is an entire continent? Did you know that there's like 3 billion Asian girls? You think it's part of their culture for them all to be cute?

They're all probably Asian American, right?. Am Korean and am living in Korea, and the Aegyo "subculture" is definitely not a niche thing here. I would even hazard a guess to say that the majority of girls try to act cute.

My partner and I have some pretty rough sex with a heavy emphasis on him dominating me and being forceful with me. Last weekend we were having sex and he just stops, pulls back, and honks my nose like a horn. Smiled kind of playfully and went right back at it in the smoothest transition ever.

Sex should be fun, it makes me sad when I hear people getting offended by their partner not being 100% serious, cracking jokes or laughing during sex. I fucking love being silly and so does my complete dork of a boyfriend. I love him so much and this is one of the many reasons.

I had gone down on a girl and she had just cum, I just lightly brushing against her clit and she let out a little giggle, had a cheeky little grin and said "She's hiding!" because it was too sensitive. It was so cute but so hot at the same time.

It’s my favorite thing!! Don’t get my wrong I love to orgasm myself, but honestly I’m not satisfied until he cums for me. I beg him to cum inside me (I have an IUD) or to cum all over me. He lovesss it :)

There are plenty of women who are grossed out by cum for a number of different reasons. To some extent I can understand it, I mean it's a sticky viscous fluid that comes out of the penis. Though there's definitely a double standard at play here.

I have had partners back in the day specifically ask to see when I cum only to audibly go "eeeew" and basically treating it like it was a piece of snot or phlegm. Others have been very insistent that they do not get cum on them while still (at least seemingly) trying to be as respectful about it as possible.

Overall there's just the pervasive image that cum is essentially something inherently filthy which I just find to be a shame. I'm not expecting partners to see it as some sort of nectar of the gods or anything (though I'm not gonna lie that would be really hot) but it would be nice if a partner was at least neutral about it.

I suppose you could just say that I have had some shitty partners and I suppose that is right but that was kind of my main point as well. I'm pretty sure I'm not entirely alone in this and even if you can shake it of as someone being disrespectful or that it's just wrong it still does a number on you.

Also a final note, I'm well aware that there are plenty of women who go through similar things as well and that's just as bad.

Last month (the last time we had sex before going semi long distance) he was reaaaaally going at it, because he wanted to make sure our last time in a while was amazing. So he's on top of me, and he makes this weird noise, like a "hmm". So then I stopped, made him stop, imitated his little "hmm" and we both start cracking up. And then he just kinda held me down and really started ploughing me as if he was getting back at me and then I started to make questionable noises... And we started laughing again.

It was awesome sex. It was playful and it left me sore at the same time. Be fun in bed!

I find this story ADORABLE, and also kind of confidence building. I'm not someone who is good at being traditionally sexy with partners until we've been dating a very long time. It just doesn't feel natural, and lately I've been a little insecure about it.

For example the other day I said "I would like to put your cock in my mouth now, please." the moment that phrasing left my mouth I immediately thought of a thousand ways to say that sexier. I mean it worked, and I sucked some dick, but I was embarrassed. It's really amazing to hear that even when I'm kind of dorky or say things cute rather than sexy that it can still be hot.

Try saying that as you push him off and drop to your knees (or slide down, whatever position you’re in before hand lol ) to blow him. I do it both ways lol. I’ll push him off if we’re in missionary on the couch and shove him backwards into a sitting position and kneel in front of him on the floor. If we are in doggy/prone, I’ll push up and shove him sideways off of me and make him lie on his back. Usually then he pulls my hips over his face to 69 tho.

Yeah when I get that sort of attention about my cum, and I do a lot of the times, I have found that it pushes me over the edge that much faster. I agree with the sentiments of the first commentator, for it appears that you have found yourself a keeper, and you should give her what she wants, duh!

My friend described me as “attractive but strongest in the cute category” and I’ve been self conscious that guys wouldn’t take me seriously sexually because of that. It’s a great confidence booster to know that some guys out there who enjoy sex with cute girls!

I'm only 27. My last partner had a death grip vagina. Doctors warned her about the risk of injury. Plus, we were fluid bonded, so my dick was trained by going bare in the "tightest pussy in all the land".

Girl had doctors telling her to be careful when she first started having sex because she was tight enough that she could tear her vagina with even an average sized guy. I've talked to her other partners, and they concurred. I'm just slightly above average which turned it into a death grip situation.