Why Women Cheat

Why Women Cheat

Top Ten Reasons why Women Cheat

10. Not Enough Sex

Women want to feel that constant spark in the relationship. They want the romance and just want to feel wanted. Men, If you feel like you have let the spark fizzle out of your marriage or relationship, it's time to start rekindling that flame. Start taking her out on dates and romantic walks around the city or at the beach. A simple picnic at the park will start to make her smile again and will get that attention back on you instead of the hunky guy next door or some maleco-worker.

9. Feeling ignored or neglected

Women need attention from their mates. They need a friend as well as a lover. Trust me, if you canopen your manly self up and get the balls to go out with her to some garage sales, shopping malls, nail salons, hair salons, and actually have a genuinely good time simply because you're with her, then I guarantee you, you will have a wife for life.

8. Your emotional withdraw

I believe women are to be the most emotional creatures on this planet. They have to have the evenbalance of both emotional and physical connection with their mate. So, if a woman sees the man start to emotionally detach himself from the relationship, she will begin to cheat as she sees it as you are through with the relationship. Here is the deal on that, she does not see it as cheating. Shesees it as moving on just as she thinks you have.

7. Revenge

She will most likely cheat as a revenge on you if she has found you to be cheating. When a mancheats on a woman, you leave that woman scorned and looking for vengeance. She will want to give you a taste of your own medicine. If you cheat on your wife or girlfriend, the best thing for you to do is be honest and assure her that it will not happen again. Hope and pray that she believes you and time will only tell after that. She will either choose to get back at you or choose to give you a second chance with her heart.

6. Exit Strategy

Some women cheat as a way out of the relationship. She will choose to cheat instead having to fix abroken marriage. She will look at the affair as an easy way out. This is why it is important for us men to always communicate with our mates to ensure open and mutual communication.

5. Bedroom boredom

Women need the "new" to never get old. They need constant excitement to keep them interested and content. When a man starts lacking imagination and adventure, the woman will start to get bored. Who wouldn't? Imagine doing the same ole positions and same ole routine%u2026night after night. Your mate needs you to sweep her off her feet. Kick it up a notch and show her that you still think she is as sexy as the first day you two met.

4. Bad Girl Tendencies

Sometimes, a woman just wants to be a bad girl she starts to develop these tendencies which growinto fantasies. Some women start to let their freak side off the leash when there is a life changing moment like major weight loss, new job, new friends (THE SINGLE FRIENDS), and even divorce. Yes, when a woman and man separate, she unleashes the bad girl from within and starts to cheat. So start communicating with your wife more and let her know that it is ok to tell you anything. Justmaybe you will enjoy her as the "bad girl." in your bedroom and not a stranger in the night.

3. Lack of Intimacy

Intimacy is the act of kissing, hugging, touching, and communicating. Intimacy is what women want and crave. When there is no intimacy, the woman will tend to fill the void with another man. You and your mate have to have a close special bond that will keep the intimacy alive in the relationship.

2. Self Esteem

Sex can be an instant self- esteem booster that makes women feel sexier, more beautiful and moreloved. If your wife or girlfriend has self- esteem issues, it doesn't mean she's automatically going to cheat, and it's certainly not your fault if she does. But there are ways to make her feel secure in the relationship that could help her from straying. Pay attention to her. Show her that you are interested in her. You would be surprised how many women these days, even the most beautifuland richest women, have terrible self- esteem issues.

1. Outside peer pressure

When a man and woman are married, I believe that they should only have other married couples asfriends or buddies. When married women or men have single friends that leaves the door wide open for outside influence to allow those friends to pressure your wife into going outside of her marriage and start flirting or worst, cheating.

Comments

Feb 9, 2012 5:11pm

SamJones
Good article - I think you forgot one reason why women cheat though - men are ba$%^&ds (and that's speaking as a man). Though sseriously some things to pay attention to in our relationships so thanks ;)

Feb 15, 2012 8:35pm

hillloyd
Statistically speaking, only 22% of men engage in continuous, sexual relationships with women other than their spouses whereas 27% of women do. What are the ramifications for hetero man-woman interactions? Get out without your apouse at least once a week.

Mar 30, 2012 2:14am

Misskate
Good article, i think number 10 then 4, 3 and 5 would be the most common reasons why women would cheat. I once read that no one is "always" to tired for sex, and unfortunately sometimes when not satisfied does lead to cheating.

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