Hi I'm Monica :) I like to play piano and hang out with anyone who can play a good acoustic guitar and sing. I sing so it's always a fun time doing a cover or two. I'm not really into clubs but the occasional saddle rack or a bar doesn't hurt. I'm a laid back person who just likes to kick back and relax. Im the kind of person who is ok with sitting in silence, but at the same time I can talk a lot too! Im nerdy and clumsy, definitely goofy and I get along with the guys better than girls because im such a smart ass. Im a little bit of a tomboy. I dont pay too much attention to the players in sports, but I do get caught up in the hype. (Go Sharks!) If i HAD to pick teams, they would be : Sharks, Giants, and Niners. Typical Bay Area fan.

I have a three year old daughter with whom I spend the majority of my time with and she always comes above any person in my life.

I like going to movies, laying on the beach, playing a little pool (which i REALLY suck at but it's all good fun), boating, and cooking. I'm pretty crappy with the domestic stuff like laundry, but im sure anyone who's a single parent working 50hr work weeks and has no nanny is.

Im really close with my family and plan on keeping it that way. They are a huge part of my life and definitely my support. There are lots of things I haven't had a chance to do and i'm always up for new adventures. Oh yeah, I'm half Portuguese (from the Azores!) and half mexican in case you were wondering... nobody can ever guess for some odd reason :)

Just so you know, I'm married but have been separated and not in contact for over two years now. Still working on divorce proceedings but thought it was something that shouldn't be hidden. :)

First Date

Let's go somewhere fun! nothing fancy an no pressure. Laid back and somewhere we can be ourselves. not into the club scene, but lets go to a live music bar or just spend a day hanging out on the beach. Lets skip the awkward formalities because i hate small talk. I'm easy going and the last thing I want is anything or anyone with drama.