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Thursday, September 06, 2012

He Stood Her Up And No Longer Answer Her Calls. What Should She Do??

Dear Beloved, I Really Appreciate Your Approach To Handling Issues And I Need Some Help . I Have A Friend Who Is In A Dilemma And Wants A Way Out. She Got A Call From Someone Who Was Interested In Her And Even Though They Had Never Met, They Seem To Like Each Other. They Finally Met Briefly And They Fixed A Another Meeting But On The Proposed Day, She Called To Let Him Know She's On The Way And The Guy Told Her That He Was Busy But Will Call Her Back. He Did Not Call Her Back And He Stood Her Up. She Does Not Know How To Handle It; He’s Not Picking Her Calls And He’s Not Calling Her Back And It’s More Than 2 Days Now. He’s Not Replying Her Text Messages Either. What Do You Think She Should Do?
ANSWER:
Thanks Dear. I'll Simply Advise Her Not To Bother The Guy Again Because A Lady Is Meant To Be Pursued And Not The Other Way Round. I Say This Because God Saw That Adam Was Alone And Created A Woman (Eve) For Him – It Wasn’t Eve That Went To Look For Adam Or Told Him That His Being Alone Wasn’t Good. It Was God!

Ladies Do Not Know Or Maybe They Always Forget The Stuff They’re Made Of – We’re Priceless In God’s Eyes. A Godly Woman Waits For A Man To Woo/Court Her And Also Propose To Her, But Once A Woman Starts Doing The Chasing, It Shows Desperation Within Her And This Can Make A Man Take Her For Granted.

When A Lady Begins To Do The Chasing – Calling And Sending Text Messages All The Time – What Do You Expect The Guy To Do? Calling And Texting Your Guy Is Not Bad But It Must Come As A Form Of Reciprocation. I Have Not Seen In The Bible Where A Woman Does The Wooing/Courting In A Relationship.

Since They Only Met Once, I Pray She’ll Quickly Get Over Him And Move On With Her Life. I Also Believe This Has Taught Her A Lesson So That Next Time, Before Going Out With A Man, She Will Seek God’s Consent First Because Seeking God’s Face First Prevents Confusions And Heart-Breaks Like This.

2 comments:

SO BEAUTIFULLY PUT. IT IS SOOOOOOO TRUEWE ARE SUPPOSED TO BE WOOED/COURTED. IF THE GUYS THINKS WE ARE WORTH IT, HE WILL MAKE IT A POINT TO WIN US OVER. OTHERWISE, WE ARE JUST WASTING OUT TIME WITH PEOPLE WHO ONLY LOOK AFTER THEIR OWN NEEDS. WE DON'T ALWAYS UNDERSTAND WHY THINGS HAPPEN THE WAY THEY DO, BUT GOD DOES.

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I'm Very Passionate About Helping People - Especially Those Who Want To Please The Lord Even In Their Relationships - Find The Right Balance In Handling Their Love And Relationship Issues. Feel Free To Drop Your Love Issues Here And With God's Help And Wisdom, The Right Answer And Direction Will Be Made Known To You. God Bless You..