White Woman Speaks Out And Puts Black Women On Blast For Their Dysfunctional Behaviour!

First and foremost let me say this, black folks who still believe that non blacks cannot see our shortfalls are living in a land of delusion and make-believe. This business about “not airing dirty laundry” is a statement too little too late when the laundry basket is already broken and the dirty clothes are scattered across the floor. Many blacks have been living in this fantasy world believing that they are somehow hiding the defections of black society from outsiders. Well, the comment above ought to serve as a wake up call.

I’ve mentioned before on my site about the fact that the dysfunctional behaviour of modern-day black women is pushing black men into the hands of non black women. To be honest black women as a group don’t seem to be concerned at all with the daily fallout resulting from their degenerate and irresponsible activities, the impression they are giving is that black men can go to whomever they please. Ok then, we black men will do just that. This is one of the reasons why I wrote my recent article demonstrating 12 good reasons why black men should abandon black women, as black men black women simply don’t want us anymore.

This white woman recognises the dysfunction in black women constantly making the claim that they do not need a man and that they can play the role of both mother and father to their children. Only black women will roll along with such stupidity, hence why the card maker Hallmark some years ago introduced Fathers day cards for black mothers. White women would never accept such nonsense, the fact that this white woman is calling out this rubbish for what it is, is a clear indication that this type of rhetoric is totally unacceptable within white society.

She also talked about the fact that black women purposely avoid choosing intelligent black men with their heads screwed on simply because black women cannot manipulate and control these types of males, black women much prefer the Tyrones, Dey Deys, Lug Heads, Meat Heads, Dequans and Jamals of black society as these characters can indeed be more easily controlled, programmed, brainwashed and indoctrinated by them. We black men have been saying the same thing for the longest while now, obviously through further research we know additionally that the drug dealers and the thugs are easier for black women to funnel into the judicial system and thereafter the prison system at the behest of their white father. Never forget “the deal” that black women have signed onto with the state, I talked about the deal black women have created with government at length in my book Negro Wars.

This white woman is indeed correct when she talks about black women being irresponsible with their reproductive systems and constantly churning out child after child, we know that this is done in order to jump on the government payroll aswell as to hold black fathers to ransom by using the children as a weapon against them. She is spot on yet again when she talks about black women being afraid to be called out on their “bs”. Black women love carnal attention, however they hate attention and being placed in the spotlight when they are held to account for their bad decisions and foul actions.

The last part of her comment is quite frankly the most damaging to black women, where she talks about white women snatching up all of the real, educated black men and looking after them while black women are left crying and hating. It is indeed true that non black women are the opposite of black women in that when choosing black men they will home in on the intelligent, forward thinking, progressive, smart black man. This is why I stated in Negro Wars how black men do not have to put on an act when dealing with non black women, we are allowed to be ourselves, we are free to exercise our true personalities, interests and hobbies without the fear of being ridiculed and mocked.

This comment shows you just how far black women have fallen, white women now have the power to march into black circles, declare that they will be snatching up the best black men and that there is nothing black women can do about it. Of course black women have brought this present day calamity upon themselves, 50 years ago they decided to join the feminist movement aswell as accept fatherless home welfare policies from the state, what is happening to them today are the results and the fallout from those past reckless decisions.

Lastly, she brasenly called black women nappy and bald-headed. To be honest black women refer to other black women who sport their natural hair as “nappy heads”. They also label their children who have natural hair as “nappy heads” all the time, this is part of their ritual to squash the child’s self-esteem and self-confidence, remember, black women as a group hate children, hence why mistreatment of the young is so prevalent in black society, especially in single mother households. This last comment also shows us that it isn’t only black men who recognise that black women through the degenerate practice of wearing weaves and wigs are going bald.

When you go out of your way to emulate another group of women, those women now have the right to set or condemn your standards. Since most black women are so desperately trying to resemble Becky, through them elevating Becky as the standard, Becky now has the right to make or break the emulator. The solution for black women is simple, stop walking around trying to look like white women, strive to look like yourselves, set your own unique standards and white women will no longer have any power over you. Remember, by copying white women you automatically give them authority over you.

This is yet another reason why black men are flocking to non black women in droves, after all, who would want to deal with a woman who has no real hair upon her head? Another huge L for black women and the losses will continue to mount up for them until the modern-day black woman is but a footnote in the annuls of history.

Much appreciated for the exposure brother. We must continue to push forward. Black women are on the ropes bleeding heavily without anybody to throw in the towel for them. Their fun in the sun is at an end.

I’m so confused.. at what moment was it ok for black men and women to become enemies.. in public. We are the only race fighting and degrading each other. No race is perfect but others don’t down their own. This is so sickening.

It is mind boggling to me how anyone can support this white woman’s comment. Stop putting all black women as a group! There are bad seeds in every society. I bet you my wife whom is a beautiful black woman (and I’m Filipino by the way…) is more highly educated than this bitch. If you have to blame someone, then you have to blame the men for not being there for their family. A lot of black or mix race kids are being born without a father in their life. This cycle has to stop!

Why do you think these black women you mentioned are acting the way they are? It’s because of they don’t a strong family structure. Usually the fathers are not in the picture to give guidance when they needed the most. My wife’s niece has no father figure in her life, but I took the responsibility to ensure she has good role model and be there to give guidance. I’ll be damn if I let her be another statistic.

‘The CDC has already debunked the deadbeat dad propaganda that black women have been pushing for the last 40 years, you’re behind the times’

I am aware of the CDC study, but are you aware of the study that 67% of African American are Single-parent family? I never said anything about deadbeat dad. Just because a man is paying child support (probably mandated by court system) doesn’t mean he is around to be a father.

It’s funny how you put all black women as one group, but when it comes to black men you separate them as two groups (good black men and the bad ones). Instead of putting all black women down, how about you write something that will lift their confidence.

I only mentioned my wife’s educational achievement because of that white bitch comment.

Black women are the ones who initiated this cycle of destruction within black society 50 years ago when they decided to abandon the black family unit for feminism and government handouts. She is the one responsible for the weak family structure within black society we see today.

Fathers typically are not in the lives of the children because most black women deliberately choose to open their legs to the unproductive, low dregs of black male society, in others words black men who are not fatherhood material. Black women themselves admit that they love the thugs and the criminal types over classic black men, their words not mine and I have written articles on this.

Black women choose to be single mothers in the overwhelming majority of cases, this is why I don’t feel sorry for them, they do it to themselves. The words “black women” used together automatically form a general statement. It’s doesn’t mean all, however most folks read into the literature how they please. So no, I am not putting ALL black women down, just the scum of black female society which regrettably is the vast majority of black women today.

At this late stage black women need to be completely broken down before they can be uplifted. They first must receive the recompense for their past sins.

First of all this white botch don’t have her facts together you have more white bitches on welfare get your fActs and all black women doesn’t get on welfare I raised four kids worked two jobs , hair isnt nappy yes black men come to you all but they half of the time beat your ass I choose not to have a man also half of the time they make a damn fool of white women. Also half of the black men are intimidated because sisters not going to put up with the bs. Thank u

I’m not sure I totally agree with her being “all inclusive” because ALL black #QUEENS are not a part of the stereotype that she is referencing…..but I will say this I have I have an educated intelligent providing BLACK KING that NO WHITE woman will I ALLOW to SNATCH UP to have.😉

I have one thing to say: Black men continue to find ways to justify your behavior , Adam blamed eve for his short coming when God said I told you Adam before Eve was ever created! So go to the race that in the end will leave you for dead yes I said it , my dad had left my mom for a white woman abandoned his four children and wife for a white Woman who wanted the same the black woman wanted and when he fell ill and couldn’t work the white woman abandoned him and threatened to harm his children . They were together 30!years but to no avail the black woman birthed these black bald headed women nappy and all but you lust after a black man as a tool and you don’t care about nothing but his money and physical labor ( slave masters mistress lover has placed chains back on you . I will not allow anyone to abuse the black woman who have to watch her children be murdered by the white woman sons and now she slaying our sons with her crab infested dog smelling wrinkled bound flesh. Leprous is our brother Cain and his offsprings so Black men Black Momma has spoken … stop finding ways to blame your Black Queens for these wicked Canaanite woman . You will regret allowing them to dishonor your Black Woman…every race of men prefer your Black woman over white. That’s why the white man rejected her and our black girls are being kidnapped !!!! Wake up Black Man

Indeed, black women from the US are looked down upon because of their slack, amoral and degenerate disposition. The overwhelming majority of them are not fit for anything past sex. Mind you, this is how they advertise themselves.

This gentleman can’t be serious not all black women act like this……I feel very insulated. It doesn’t matter who you love just treat them right. Also don’t let a few bad experiences run your view on a type of people. This is just wrong.

This is THE MOST ignorant, hypocritical, misogynistic, ill-informed example of self hatred I have ever seen. You cast your mother, grandmother, and great grandmother in this light as well? Will you cast your daughters in this light? Will you teach them to not love their blackness, as they would be black women as well. I am a well educateded black woman who adores the intellectual potential in a man of color. A man who against all the barriers placed before him can rise above. For those who fall victim to the expectations and stereotypes placed on them by society I still see their potential as well and carry hope for them. Women have been the strength and backbone of PEOPLE, not just black men, since the beginning. Black women have done so while being abused, criticized, and degraded the entire journey. How dare you judge us by shortcomings some of us are unable to rectify or box us into a definition equilivant to brokenness. You sir, and your peanut gallery, are part of the reason SOME black women feel they no longer need a black man. You abandon your melanin kissed female counterparts no different then the “dead beat dads” within our community and believe we are the ones who need to be “fixed”. While I do not appreciate the blatant outburst of ignorance from the white female, I don’t expect her to understand our battles, our scars, or our journey. You, you I expect to RESPECT who you are and to be a part of a solution instead of further exacerbating what may be truth for some but far from the majority. I am not against interracial dating, how else would we create so many beautiful shades of Brown? I can’t understand why someone would put down a race, one to which they belong no less, and write them off as damaged goods. Meanwhile, these white women are praised for being what? They should be offended that they are viewed as easily managed! To bad they dont realize they arent getting the “real” or strong black men, they get many of the cowards who desire a front row seat to white privilege they will never fully be able to take part in. Learn to love your self and appreciate your heritage. Love who you love but understand true love will never be built on the back of ignorance and hate. It’s all pink in the middle. Get the FUCK out of your sunken place.

I guess you see your blog as throwing in a towel for black women. Haha, well it’s not. It is putting down black women, while embarrassingly lifting white women up. You are a disgrace to the black race, and any white woman is free to have you. You sound very ignorant supporting and promoting racism from this obviously scorned and jealous of black women troll. This stereotype of a few black women’s behavior exist with white women as well. I don’t see you talking about their white trash behavior. Its sad. Statistically, there are more white women on welfare than black women! I currently know more white women trying to trap black men with having babies than black women. So please don’t ever mistake a few people’s action for an entire race, because I am a black women, married to a black king that no white woman could ever have, I am educated, I have 3 children, a full time job/career, run 3 businesses, and most of all embrace my lovely curly hair. So on behalf of every black woman and every true black king you and this white troll can kick rocks.

Everyone is bewildered and wondering how this black man could be degrading his own race like this . It is very obvious to me that he is talking about his MOTHER. He has mother issues against his black mother, so he has no respect for black women. He could not wait to get old enough to express his hatred of black women. Taking a guess here, but it was probably a white woman that took in the poor little black boy and raised and nurtured him. DOESN’T IT ALL MAKE SINCE NOW?!

It is shameful that you see us black women who has had more than one child as a person who did so to recieve hand outs from this thing we call a government. Some of us were simply living life too damn fast for our own good. Some of us never pushed our men away. Some of our men left seeking excitement. Some of us never claimed to be fathers on fathers day because we too feel like it is nonsense. Some times from being under exposed to life outside the hood you dont meet men who are not like pookie and them. Every black womens goal is not to tear down the black man. So how dare you compare everyone of us to the baby momma that hurt YOU? It is not fair to us that you try to publicly humiliate us as a whole. And MY BROTHER you are helping them and their agenda. Btw you are making yourself look as bad as we look for putting us down including the women who gave you life. Do better

That is the most ridiculous bs I ever heard. I am very much a proud black woman that has never ever chose a good for nothing drug dealing thug and I resent the self loathing white whore who wrote that snippet of trash. Thank you for taking care of the plethora of many black men that have been in your good for nothing trash box vagina. I hope you take care of him well and push out many black babies. The little girls that you have will be the black women you talk about. I’m not to offended because I know that your behavior and actions will eliminate your destructive genetically screwed up race and make the whole world black. So please by all means keep throwing it back and watch yourselves disappear. Congrats Rat!

This has to be the single most disappointing piece of reading material I have seen in my life. The statement from the white woman is filled with outdated stereotypes, misinformation, and just plain old stupidity. Last I checked, non black women are also getting knocked up by the no good Tyrones of the world, standing in the welfare line waiting on a handout, and raising babies by multiple daddies by themselves. And let’s not get on the topic of who is trying to look like whom… again, last I checked, white women are also wearing weaves/ wigs, getting body enhancements to mimic those typically associated with a black female’s body, and tanning their skin. If there are black women who are ashamed of their natural hair/ features and wear wigs or weaves to cover it up, it likely has something to do with the countless years they’ve spent hearing their hair was not good or nice enough to be worn in its natural state by white people and unfortunately our black brothers alike. Really though, most of the black women i know wear wigs and weaves for convenience and versatility, not because they are “bald” or “nappy headed”. Black women as a whole are not content being on the bottom rung of any situation and the ones who I know personally were quick to pull themselves up when they are slacking. Most of the black women i know are well educated, making over six figures a year,
myself included. This is all just silly propaganda put out there by the insecure black men who refuse to date black women because they hate themselves and they’ve bought into this anglo-saxon idea of beauty. In my opinion, white women ending up with successful black men has far less you do with them knowing how to pick a good black man and far more to do with these men viewing non black women as some prize they can now claim because they are successful and have money. Date who you want to date, but spreading this nonsense has further reaching implications than I think people realize.

So what, the article is dealing with the fact that other people see the dysfunctional behaviour of black women for what it is. The article has nothing to do with white women, black men and the longevity of their relationships

Although I agree with some of the things that Edomite woman is saying, she still should not be disrespectful towards Black women. She should be worshipping Black women since she came from a Black woman. Black women are the greatest women on the face of the earth, and when they wake up and realize it, and stop trying to be like these trashy Edomite so-called white (pink) 😈 devil’s.

Number one the woman that wrote this is calling black women nappy, bald head what do he think she is going to call her black man when she gets mad at him. I have no problem with love between races at all. But this woman seems to have some issues with black women and not looking for love but revenge. Maybe a sister that was on welfare took a man of hers. Any kind of love make sure you are in that person’s arms for all the right reason. She just plain out called every black woman in the world lazy and hopeless which is a stereotype for one Oprah Winfrey one of the richest women in the USA is black, The ex-first lady of the USA was black come be real. From what I read you are one sick ass woman and need to see a head doctor for those problems you got going on. When I look at people I see a person, not a color. All races got those lazy ones in it, seems you put all your facts on sex and if all you want to be is a piece of meat to a man..GOD bless you on the jourany journey.

A black man still going to love a black queen so there isn’t no one race of women better then the other cause I seen some white women that are more of a definition of a hood rat so dont boost y’all head up 💯💯💯

My opinion I feel that it’s not the older ones the older generation but it’s the younger ones the new generation they always have a chip on their shoulder and as a black man I can never understand why no black man wants to deal with that even when you try to do something nice or kind for them they automatically assume that you want something not that you can just be kind and nice

For one thing a black woman has been struggling from day one and you white bitches was born with a silver spoon in your mouths, so just because us black women and gonna go and rob a bank just to be with a black man, y’all are dumb just like some of our black men’s are, so talk about doing dumb shit for some black dick, dumb ass bitch!

I’ve been with my black man for 24yrs and we love each other, sweetie white women’s are not better than us, because we don’t have to do all that bs that y’all do just to get a black man, we know how to work, provide for our family, take care of our children and love our husband’s, so don’t put us in y’all category cause y’all are desperate!

Exactly. I can’t believe this coin ads nights sitting supporting this white birch after she just racially profiled black women. She just talked about your mother and any other women in your family, you asshole! And for the record black women have to be strong cause a lot of black men abandon their responsibilities fool…… duck you and that white bitch!! Tell that hoe to walk a mile in a black woman shoes…..

Youre just one ignorant UNCLE TOM NEGRO, that dont the Beautiful Black Woman’s Worth. Your mother is a Black Queen and so therefore, you show much ignorance because when you degrade Queens , you have put her in that category. Non- black women will never take the place of a black Queen. She’s mot qualified. And after your Non- black woman gets mad and let you know that you’re only a NIGGER to her than maybe you’ll wake up. Most black men that choose non- black women , most of the time choose the scrap the white men don’t want. Yes men like you can’t handle a Black Queen because shes strong, independent, and wont take you s…. But a non- black woman you can dog them out as you like. Good rittens weak, Uncle Tom thinking BLACK JOKE !!!!

That’s the issue. He clearly hates his mother. That’s the only possible reason for the repeated hateful articles about black women. He is incapable of expressing his hate for his mother for some reason and he projects that hate on other black women. Poor thing…he needs counseling.

Can we please stop using the term uncle Tom it was created by white people to chastise him for what he did if you read about or watch hidden colors you’ll see what I mean and also I don’t support what the white woman said but some things she say have truth in it but it’s the younger generation that’s making black people in general look bad

Ok white queen lol lesson # 1 the only reason why black men mess you pink stints is only because they are not real enough to handle a black women.white is more passive and submissive making it easier for black to walk all over and to be used as a door mat , also due to past experiences of shit men taking our belonging black men to today’s times would rather treat the white mans women like peasants which is like a black hand on a door knob. So the reality of the matter is you could never be a queen because you just don’t got the body for it . It may be a white mans world but is a black mans penis lol .for more info visit sexyblackgirls.com

Having rode a black penis don’t make no one an expert on something they can never be, black. “So what” to all that stereotypes of a black women that’s why we are breaking barriers in every field on earth. We love the black men that love us back. Shame on the white women & black men who are being unappreciative of the breast that nursed them. We black women taught y’all how to appreciate yourselves. So don’t try to flip it we want y’all to take comfort in each other. Keep assessing a dead argument while we Michelles keep our Baracks. We winning while the real bottom feeders are whining about an issue Baby Brown settled “Its my prerogative” however we choose to live.

Now what i think why the black man is going to the white girls. Is because they is easy in both ways… First all of they are scared of the black man. And their man have smaller dick. They do whatever the black man tell them. With us black woman it not just because how he is or whether we think we can be both parents to our children. We know we can’t. But how yall think black man running to white woman no that is not the case… Some black man is wrong and not right. I say some not all. We dont want a dumb partner either. Just a black man… And for them white woman leave our man alone and get a white man just like yall

This is the biggest fail ever. If you all are going to try and make it APPEAR as if your assertions about black women are co-signed by white females, at least try using THEIR jargon. This post was created with a fake picture of some random image from google and written by a negro male. It really is that simple folks.

That’s where you are a dummy because I personally know the woman who wrote that and I saw the original post without the censoring of the name. If you are going to hypothesis then at least don’t be an idiot doing it.

WW? and like they arent among the dyfunctional? porn queens ,bestiality afficiadaoes, lesbians who are the highest demographic in domestic abuse???teachers raping students…???..I would laugh but Im nausueous already grow up… the interracial BMWW denographic is not even ten percent…what a lane excuse for an article

INSTEAD OF TRYING TO TEAR DOWN THE BLACK WOMEN, HOW ABOUT U AS A BLACK MEN TRY TO BUILD THEM UP… HOW COULD U AS A BLACK MEN STAND WITH SOMEONE WHO BELITTLES U AT THE END OF THE DAY!!!! U MAY THANK THAT IS ALL PEACHES AND CREAM BUT IM QUITE SURE BEHIND CLOSE DOORS U R THE TOPIC OF THEIR BAD SUBJECTS… DONT THINK FOR A SECOND THAT THEM WHITE FOLKS UR STANDING UP WIT IS GOIN TO PUT U ON A HIGH PEDESTAL BECAUSE DAT WILL NEVER HAPPEN!!! U NEED TO WAKE UP BOY!!!! TO HER UR REALLY JUST A GOOD FUCK!!!

Building up black women is now the responsibility of the state, not black men. You forget that there was a transfer of ownership once black women decided to take on board feminism and fatherless home welfare policies back in the 1960s. If black women require uplifting I would be glad to point them to their nearest police station or government building.

“She also talked about the fact that black women purposely avoid choosing intelligent black men with their heads screwed on simply because black women cannot manipulate and control these types of males, black women much prefer the Tyrones, Dey Deys, Lug Heads, Meat Heads, Dequans and Jamals of black society as these characters can indeed be more easily controlled, programmed, brainwashed and indoctrinated by them.”

This is one of the most uninformed pieces I’ve ever read. Not only is it a severe generalization of “black women” – its foundation is based on an uneducated, bitter sounding facebook status.

Her opinion is hers and she can absolutely have it – but to generalize an entire group is pathetic. This also reveals the need for validation that black men have. Black men have painted themselves as victims not realizing that it only weakens them. You will always come last to your oppressor with this mentality.

Even if “black women” were the problem – you run? Or do you cultivate the ability to truly see her at her core and heal with her.

Black men are the most damaged group of men. This is pure weakness.

It’s a crying shame that the desire to be coddled by a “white woman/non-black woman” overrides the desire to understand and heal your own.

Again, this is the epitome of weakness. Our people are severely damaged and need healing.

Hey you. Im going to first addresses that piece of white trash. How dare you think you have the queens of our your world figured out bitch because you don’t have a clue. I am a proud educated respectful single mother. White trash if your daddy , uncle, grandpa, and greatgranpa didn’t start stealing shit early in life you ass would not be in any position to as you say take our blackmen. Why do you think white women hate black women so much? Because the white man wanted black juices and berries. Sneaking down to those slave quaters leaving yall white ass in the bed alone. The only reason white women start goung after black men because their white men didnt want them. This is history and this is whete the shit all stated. Dumb bitch from day one white woman have been used by black men. Starting from college when white woman just had to have the athlete of the school. Dummy they want you to do their assignments, wash their clothes, suck they nasty dick, oh yea its nasty because they fucking you Sally, Marsha, Jan and Kiesha bitch because they always going to want that sweet chocolate. Bitch you can’t classify every black woman under the same umbrella. Because in the hood when we see a white trash with a coon nigga we usually see a heroin addict walking in a duck line with a bunch of half breed confused ass kids. So thank you for taking the handful of coons that have eliminated themselves from our kingdom to cross over to white side. Talking about if it ain’t white it ain’t right, lies!

Now for the coon who hates his mother. How dare you speak negatively and siding with this trash. I am a black women who wears my own nappy beautiful blonde coils. Yes blonde ! Why because I like the color. I have never wanted to look or be like Becky dumb walk over ass. You fault the because they want manageable hair to mske life simpler for them thats actually smart.
White women willl never let me repeat never have power over black women!!! They dont even habe power over their own 2 year old. I hate you is what they scream. Even the kids at an early age kniw they aint shit and for damn sure powerless. So you and her can just get the fuck out of here with that dumb shit. When clearly the caucasian wants to be black. She sits in the sun or a machine for hours to do what make her black. She dresses just like us. Omg if white women don’t try to steal our hairstyles then why do they wear braids and continously inquire about what our hair can and can not do. And lastly they want our black men. Why because white aint shit.
What have i just done i classified an entire race of women as white trash! The same thing you too are doing in this long dumb ass article. Which is wrong and you sir are displaying reverse racism. Her against black women and you against your own moma beause lets face it you are black right?

If you are a low self esteem black man who needs Becky to take excellent care of you because your moma is tired of your loser coon ass then go find you a future heorin head to make u a bunch of confused children to take over your trailer homes. The ones that stay you are the intelligent ones because sooner or later those that went to the white side will be wanting to GET OUT!

I dont understand why you black men keep sharing those shilly post about A WHITE women putting a Black Women on blast about a black man. UNTIL YOUR WHITE Woman can live the life that a black woman have to live; or live with a black man she can shut the hell up. Always trying to dog the sisters in those one side post from some hurt sad ass Black man crying cause he was dealing with some childish little black girl. This is from a real black mature woman. In if they feel like they doing so much better cause the dont deal with black girls no more i rise my glass to you in say cheers cause we can do without you soft cry baby black boys…

Sounds like jealousy of “Black Women” to me. All this lure to make us black women defensive. Long as ya happy with whom you are with nothing else matters. Yall cmtfu when you feel ignored though cause I would never take the time to do what the white girl has done cause IDGAF!!! Only weak ninjas keep hiding behind this bs.

This black coon who wrote the article doesn’t deserve the time of day. I only date back men and never had a problem its some black.men who need to get their act together and stop trying to live off us educated black women! They say nobody fall in love quicker than a man needing a place to stay!

More shame on you for allowing a low life bum to lodge in your abode. You talk about black men getting their act together, yet you are the ones who put these guys up because they provide you with convenient sex.

Greetings All
I find this article so far off base and stereotypes with bogus myths. You should never judge a people without understanding the history properly and connecting it to current deprivation of a people. You cannot separate the condition of the African men from the women we are all together in our struggle as a people. Apart of the disrespect and fallacy is not acknowledging the forces and issues that systematic impacting black people wholisticly daily. It’s easy to quickly say inflammatory statements or partially truths but not the whole truth. This does not help or explain the anything why African men or women marry, date, or have children outside of African men or women consciously or unconsciously. This just pours gas on the flames to racism and sexism or classism. This further underscore the abundant of ignorance individuals across socioeconomic and cultural boundaries

Wow again it’s sad for a black man to think like this the white man raped the black man and women and child where was the white women then! I’m a Queen I’ve been married 17 years to a black man the women who say they don’t need a man is a lie and I have white friends and they say the same thing so with that being said i pray for everybody with this way of thinking

My brother it is so sad don’t you see what they’re doing to our people. they are using us to turn us against each other. not all of us black women are what they portray us to be. And it shouldn’t be about race
it should be about two people in love and understanding each other wishes. ignorance is a bliss to whomever wrote that article. Im happily married to an Caucasian man we both run are own business. He respect me and I respect him but you don’t see me writing a article stating that black men are all uneducated don’t know how to treat a woman so I went outside my race to an white men because they treat their women better. Sound ignorant right? We shouldn’t help put down our own race we should embrace the beauty the good that’s within our race

Black society is already broken, we are already against one another, we don’t get on as a people because of it. Nowhere in the article have all black women been implicated, you’re using that “not all” red herring as a distraction to stall the conversation. The descriptions apply to the black women who fit the demographic. The problem is as I explained in my book Negro Wars is black women interpret the data how they see fit, in this case in order for them to be able to invoke the spirit of victimhood.

Again, you raise a straw man argument as nobody said all, however the overwhelming majority of black women fit the demographic which is a sad situation. Deal with the members of your sisterhood first as they are the ones who hate being black and are doing everything in their power to climb the mountain of whiteness. Even white men are calling out black women on their dysfunctional behaviour:

Yes very true black society is already broken and yes we are against one another but that doesn’t mean that we can’t stop and come together United as one that’s like using a scenario of there’s a house that is torn down so let’s all disrespected and destroy the rest of the remains of the house instead of fixing it back up to par

Unite with the same scum who have brought black society into ruin and disrepair? That is not a good idea. What do you think they would do within a newly united front, of course, get to work destroying it.

Whenever you have a dysfunctional society division is the best thing you can have, that way you see who is who and what individuals really stand for.

Unification will only work when a society is majority functional. Black society is too far gone, it’s a wrap, save yourself and move on.

How In the actual fucking Fuck is no upset she couldn’t make her point without being so damn insulting, “nappy/bald heads”? Are you Fucking serious? Is that bitch forgetting the nigga she sleepin w gotta nappy bald ass head too? Of you’re happy without your white boys and love black men then fuck yeah do you but don’t Fucking slander other WOMEN we are all still the same fucking gender that needs to be building eachother the Fuck up not DOWN. This post makes me wanna throw up, especially all you niggas sittin up here thinking that shits cool, y’all need to respect woman more too. Make a point without being a goddamn insulting Bitch and ur message may actually be received

PICNICS: One lesson my students will more than likely NEVER forget is on the origins of the word PICNIC, which derives from the expression “pick a nigger” from the lynching era in United States history (late 1800s to the mid-1900s) in which whole communities of whites would would gather in festive and even carnival type atmospheres at parks and other public places to lynch Black men (and in many cases Black women). It is estimated that at its height (between the 1890s and 1920s), a Black man was murdered through mob hanging, burning, drowning or through other means once every other day. There are many cases in which Mexicans and Indigenous people were lynched as well throughout the country. Reported incidents of Blacks being lynched historically are over 3,500. More accurate numbers may be in the tens of thousands.

I told my students that as other groups advocate to NEVER FORGET the atrocities that have been commited towards them, so we should NEVER FORGET the atrocities that have been committed towards our people.

Ever since slavery it was divide conquer which continues to this day. People have every right to date who they want but there is no right to put any body down.Which group enslaved us tore us from homeland are people are language are culture. How many years did years did our ancestors know sharp end of a whip. Who was there to comfort to love each another black women and man.The first terrorist group in America was klu klaz Klan.
Who cried when we were being lynched, beaten to death in the streets. Another black man and women.Ask question who shooting black men and women like dogs in the street to this very day? Wake up we have preal battles.

the police came to my door looking for a dysfunctional white woman yesterday.I just moved in a week ago, away from another dysfunctional WW. Or I would have had to draw up an order of protection on her. the place I moved from earlier one of these advice experts blacked out on my terrace found her sleeping on my porch.
but hey.

Funny…not one black woman in my circle fits any of this. It is also funny how someone who isn’t a black woman thinks they can speak to black women’s thought processes. Not even really worth the time it took to respond.

Signed,
Educated black woman with a black fine husband and one child delivered in my 30s in a home where everyone has and loves natural hair…that’s your TRUE threat.

Any black man who falls for this kind of ignorance is indeed under the spell of ignorance themseves!

Statistics tell us that the African American woman is the most college educated person on the planet..dont believe me check it out! White women talk badly about black women out of sheer jealousy.

I do not know the kind of black women that she describes. The media is against us at all fronts and will do anything at depicting us as a race in a negative light and the ignorant and gullible amongst us fall for the bs!

Black women Andre beautiful in every way and more than 75% of black men know this the reason they are married to black women.

White women are delusional and think that every black man desires them. This lady needs to present her facts because
she is only coming from an emotional state.

Intelligent people research information, gather the facts, and of course present the facts.

There are ratchets in every race, she should talk about the white trailer trash ratchets.

Let’s not talk about hair, black ppl have hair and white ppl have fur. We are 100% human, the reason we don’t make war with people but come to them in love, peace n diginity. I cannot make those claims for white race since your history on the planet is written in blood, nothing to be proud of!

Everything that I presented on this post you can check it out. I come with facts and the truth! You need to do the same.

I’ll have you know that “educated” black women are typically some of the worst individuals on the planet because they believe that their academic qualifications somehow equate to intelligence and infallibility. The problem here is that the dysfunctional behaviours black women were called out on cannot be defended at all.

As I have stated numerous times before, black women through their dysfunctional antics consistently leave themselves open to criticism. Black women who don’t fit the dysfunctional demographic are practically non existent. Since black women are trying their best to emulate white women, white women therefore now have the right to dictate the standard.

If black women truly loved themselves and stood by themselves then this wouldn’t have been a problem.

Oh God you r so ignorant and uneducated. Surely the inner workings of a black woman should not be the conversation of whites. Especially if it is biased and without merit.
I cannot phantom this argument we r jealous of white women. As they r tanning. They r wearing clip-in and extensions. They r filling lips, azz, and chest. Braiding their hair, wearing ‘ethnic’ clothing. Rapping, dating the most grilled up black rappers. Crossing the tracks to party n the hood. eager to have a roken black friend post up in their crib. And they r wanting the black educated man and his beautiful curly haired babies. It would seem it is the white man who is jealous. Afterall, the adage is ‘tall, dark, and handsome’.
But allow me, one of the many educated black women, to explore what u failed to acknowledge. Ur attitude is quite suspect and the sarcasm may be why u have been met with ignorance. Also, if u seek a Keisha in the hood whose upbringing was less than stellar, no father figure to teach her how to treat a man, and a mother who is a generational public assistance recipient, then u get what u expect. ‘4 if u suffer ur ppl to be ill-educated, and their manners to be corrupted from their infancy and then punish them for the crimes for which their first education disposed them. What else it to be concluded….but that u 1st make thieves and then punish them’ Utopia.
Next, educated women who may have been disposed to the same life but also had no father figure. Again, a lack of trust for the male gender and anger. But what of those such as me? Parents have been married for 52yrs, daddy’s girl, and spoil my brothas. But there is the struggle to break through that ‘the Man’ mentality. White women r a leg up whereas sistas are still struggling to be respected. In business, in society, in our relationships. The young chicks are a new breed. They hear a song, see hits and likes and think it’s the end all be all. No man necessary. Or the militant educated young ones who still can’t understand why a woman should be president and march just for the Facebook hashtag.
Then, again, there’s me. The mere limited edition yet a mass of us out there. Hungry for more info. Willing to go the distance for my man. Believe He is to be pampered, but so am I. 50/50.
Study African Royalty. Queen Sheba, Makeda. Learn about Ase and the rituals which have been stripped from a proud ppl. Read avout Igbo Landing mass suicide of enslaved blacks then read The Making of a Slave by Willie Lynch. He instructed slave owners in Virginia in the 1700’s how to break the will of the ‘female nigger’ and remove the black males as to take that feel of protection away. His words were to be reveled and lived centuries later, he felt. And they have in the sense of governmental slavery. Sarah Bartman who was paraded around naked due to her bodily features the white woman appeals so for nowadays. She was raped and used the her body put on display when she died due to diseased white men.
Learn something about the ppl u debase then have an educated conversation. Such as any creature, u take away their worth and they either fight or submit. I have been called a nigger to my face. I have seen nooses. Monkey, small brain. I have a 135 IQ. My brother was 160. I have been jeered at by white women when I wear my hair down and natural. Asked by them if my breasts r real. I stood in line the other day, and a white lady was tanned so, she was almost dark as Al Sharpton. We r not jealous. Paris Hilton. No. Miley. No. All of the Armenian Kardashians. Hell no.
Get the facts and develop a bit of empathy. Cuz with the direction this nation is heading, we will kill each other before another country has the chance.

P.S. There’s nothing wrong with being bald or nappy. But a bad attitude is unacceptable and trifling.
Cheerio!!!

It’s great how you can be so very critical of black women because it allows us to be critical of you as a black man. I find it comical how little black men think about themselves that they happily allow white women to say things like this as though it applies to all black women. There are dysfunctions on both sides of the coin because I know and see numerous black men who are wastes of oxygen, living in the past and trying to relive the days when they were somewhat respected. Black men on the whole are less respected by everyone which is why you feel the need to denounce black women to get white women who you believe will elevate your status. One white woman on the internet getting above herself and somehow we as black women must stand up and pay attention?? Lol. If you want white women, then date white women but date them because they are who you want and not because you’re not getting your ass licked by black women. This type of thinking is beyond pathetic and laughable.

So usually i do not respond to white people ignorance but for you i will make a exception. First let me say no black woman want to emulate nor imitated a white woman. ALL YOU SEE IN THE MEDIA IS WHITE WOMEN GETTING BUTT IMPLANTS,LIP INJECTIONS, TANNING TO MAKE YOUR SKIN DARKER TO MATCH OURS . It’s actually quite funny I came across this article because I just watch a video of a white girl plumping her lips to look black. White women aren’t queens to black men the’re concubine’s. Lol black men who date white women are simply mentally and emotionally weak because either they can’t keep a black because real queens need to kept or the weak white woman that they choose to be with is very submissive and they know they can do as they please with them hoes! Haha or whore as you all will say. But let me not carry this on because Its not worth any further energy. My black man was disgusted at that post and this article because he love his natural black queens. Who come from royalty as far as you white women who are so ignorant to even come out of pocket to post this nonsense you should be ashamed and grow up, stop stereotyping black women. Because at the end of the day when you took us from our natural environment it was our breast that your family feed off your welcome . You should be ashamed of yourself ! HAVE A GOOD DAY!

I’m curious to know how you really feel? What is it that you need or looking for? Instead of attacking black women…why don’t you find a way to encourage what you’d like to see more of? We all know by now negative reinforcement doesn’t work…but positive reinforcement does. I’m not sure who you’ve been around, but in my circle of friends, every one of my educated & beautiful black friends are married to a black man…and my handsome educated black male friends are married to a black women. I’m talking about doctors, entrepreneurs, sales managers, fashion designers, attorneys, barbers, teachers etc …all successful all married black women & men. You’ve got to get out more dear. Stop jumping on the bandwagon of the white womens ploy & just speak to black women how you would want to be spoken to…with love & respect. We will listen then.

White women have been trying to “act black” for years and years…its funny how we look as if we’re copying or emulating them but we aren’t… Beautiful str8 hair have been available for black woman since the Egyptian era with the use of pressing combs. Some black woman do it solely for the purpose of satisfying our black Kings… Fulfilling any and all fantasies. Another thing we the black woman chooses thugs or whatever but we choose was in our surroundings. When black men approach black woman…are they looking for an intelligent god fearing… Living for her king type of woman or is he looking for that eye candy,…so the choosing is based on both sides. I’m not sure what and or who your battle is with young brother of mine whom I love dearly…but it’s not with your own kind…manipulation is real and we have been manipulated for quite a while now…things do not get better with war…or tearing down and ridicule but it does make a change in unity and education of ourselves…does it not bother you that our perception of one another is starting to look like the self hatred that promoted amongst the house slaves and field slaves..why must we at this time allow the same segregation occur that has kept us distance. We are the ONLY group of people who doesn’t have our own of anything….maybe that is where you should place your anger….how we live is what we have been taught by our surroundings and by the media(may I add is a brainwashing programming problem and places a stigma on our culture…the little we have left). I do pray that a good change of awakening for all of us.

First of all, the black woman IS and will ALWAYS be the backbone of society. This fact is in our history and simply can’t be refuted. Black women were routinely raped by white masters, forced to suckle, care and raise the master’s children (before her own), ran and coordinated the “big houses” and still managed to find love, time and energy for her children. Through adversity she never failed.

Black women definitely have flaws and unfortunately not all are on the same level from a educational, economical and/or moral compass perspective. However, that is not limited to the black race. All races have this dilemma.

I am unbothered by this particular white woman’s post because I don’t personally fall into the category that this woman has described. However, I find it most interesting that she feels the need to degrade the black woman that she isn’t intimidated by. When you “think” you are above someone or something, what’s the point in publicly putting them down….UNLESS somehow, some way it makes you feel better? If that is her reasoning for putting the black woman (or anyone for that matter) down, she is obviously threatened by the black woman’s very being regardless of how pitiful she “says” they are. How sad for her to be or feel lower than what she has described 😜.

What is lower though? Any black man who agrees with her. Black man…..get out of your sunken place. Why are you exacerbating the situation instead of being part of the solution? If no one else, I expect you (the black man) to RESPECT your heritage, your history, the strength of what the black woman has endured, to DEFLECT the stereotypes, the degradation, the criticisms, to PROTECT your black woman from abuse and the ignorant, hypocritical, misogynistic, ill-informed and BUILD up the black woman so they can not only improve their shortcomings but strive to be examples of what any woman should be (regardless of race). Any less of an action by the black man is a form of self hatred. You do realize that you are still black – right? Regardless of your successes, accomplishments in life and/or status economically……YOU ARE STILL BLACK. By failing to uplift the black woman, you cast a negative perspective on your mother, grandmother, your great grandmothers, your sisters, your aunts, your cousins and any other black female model that has helped shape or mold you. And what about your daughters? Is this truly the reflection you want for them in this dog world…..that their blackness isn’t worthy and that they are lower than dirt based upon what “some” black women do or how they act? How about your sons? Will you teach them to not love their blackness and to carry on the disrespect of black women?

Feminism, independence and accepting government assistance were brought up as causes for the state that black women are in today. For every action there is a re-action and that re-action has a downstream effect. Those downstream effects can be good or they can be bad. For example…..if all women were treated fairly and with respect….would there have been a need for feminism rights at all? If fathers were upstanding and responsible in caring and providing for their families, would there have been a need for that black woman (and other women) to accept government assistance or develop mindsets that men are not needed? What I am saying is quit blaming others for what inevitably is a downstream effect from black men’s (and other men’s) failures. Black man – YOU are accountable just as the black woman is for the current state that black society is.
Be the man who against all the barriers placed before him can rise above. How about you take on the responsibility of being the backbone? 🤔

I am a strong black educated woman and I still see and have hope for my black people’s potential. I refuse to fall victim to society’s unrealistic expectations and stereotypes. I will admit that I prefer my kinky hair to be straight but never for the reasoning that I am trying to look white. Ummm, it is more manageable. It really is as simple as that. I LOVE my full lips, round eyes and voluptuous body….and honestly, I just LOVE me, the melanin kissed skin I wear and my attitude about life. Because I am confident in myself there is no need for me to try to be anyone else. I am really stubborn and there are things I just won’t put up with….that’s my personality in part because of my race but also because I am uniquely me. 💯

I am not “broken” and I go above and beyond to promote self esteem and encourage others (especially young black kids) to be the best that they can be. The sky is the limit and no one should let anyone tell them what they can not do. Through hard work and dedication, anything is possible.

I also am not against interracial or mixed dating/marriage. I believe that love is unconditional and people should love who they want to love. With that said, that also means that there is absolutely no need to breed hate and ignorance. ALL people should embrace who they are, their heritage, their history and promote positivity into the future for ALL.

You got a lot of things backward, white women tend to emulate black women, big butts, fuller lips, tanning, and educated white women can be so snobbish and act superior to everybody else, there are educated black women who dont act that way especially if they are cultural and conscious

Any black man who falls for this kind of ignorance is indeed under the spell of ignorance themseves!

Statistics tell us that the African American woman is the most college educated person on the planet..dont believe me check it out! White women talk badly about black women out of sheer jealousy.

I do not know the kind of black women that she describes. The media is against us at all fronts and will do anything at depicting us as a race in a negative light and the ignorant and gullible amongst us fall for the bs!

Black women Andre beautiful in every way and more than 75% of black men know this the reason they are married to black women.

White women are delusional and think that every black man desires them. This lady needs to present her facts because
she is only coming from an emotional state.

Intelligent people research information, gather the facts, and of course present the facts.

There are ratchets in every race, she should talk about the white trailer trash ratchets.

Let’s not talk about hair, black ppl have hair and white ppl have fur. We are 100% human, the reason we don’t make war with people but come to them in love, peace n diginity. I cannot make those claims for white race since your history on the planet is written in blood, nothing to be proud of!

Everything that I presented on this post you can check it out. I come with facts and the truth! You need to do the same.

The problem is not the black women. It’s the black man that don’t stand up for their black women. You claimed that all the black women want thugs and drug dealers! Wrong! You claim that black women want to be like white women! Wrong. If that’s true than why do they go to tan booth to get melanin color they will never have? Why do they go to the surgeon to get our cheek bones, lips, and ass’s? I’m confused on how some of or black men think of us when we have been here being their back bones and making them stronger. Truth is a lot of black men are weak. They would rather have a white women with no mind who they can run over and will submit to them. Going to submitting! Black women have no problem submitting to a black men, the problem is that black men worth submitting too. A lot of black men don’t know how to pay the bills let alone be the men of the house! You claiming that black women don’t know how to raise their childern, come on now. I don’t know how your mother raised you but that may be a inner problem your dealing with from your past…. your putting us on a boat like white kids don’t go on murder sprees and disrespect their parents to no avail! And that’s with both parents or not. You claim that black women put the idea that white are superior to us… again wrong! SOCIETY, MAGAZINES, AND OWN BLACK MAN HAVE! I’m a 27yr old black woman with no children who works hard for mine, I don’t depend on the system, I love the skin I’m in natural hair and all and yes i don’t depend on a man. Now would i appreciate one that I could build with of course! But not only do we have the drug dealers and so called thugs (which some are honestly trying to build a life in a world that was meant to be against them) we have snooty, disheartening, don’t want to do nothing but bring their woman down man like you! Again go talk to your mother about your inner demons because obviously she failed some where for you to be one minded on all black Women/beautiful queens like that.

I would tell you one of few things I known about black women, I live in bed-stuy, Brooklyn NY, I sed things that Young black women (ages 18-32) do they rather date thugs, drug dealers who got swag, players whos a pretty boy with swag and nice car with rims, after when these unproductive black men knock them up or they ran through by these men they pick to date, and she have baggage such as bastard kids, her good looks start fading and massive weight again, and now all of sudden she wants a good black man with no kids and good job. And I see some good black men are still dating these chicks so sad.

Now let me get this straight, Black women are the dysfunctional ones and have been for decades back all the way to the feminist movement. Let’s get real, who is dealing drugs on the street corner? Who is shooting up neighborhoods nationwide? Who is filling up the local jails and prisons? Nobody but Black men. You don’t see Black women on the street corner dealing drugs, shooting up neighborhoods or filling up the local lock-up. Black men have single handedly turned Chicago into a dangerous city, that should be in a third-world country, not the United States. Black men will sit and justify shooting another person because they wore a blue shirt in a red neighborhood, which is complete, total dysfunction. Black men cry about paying child support but unless you get someone pregnant, then you don’t pay. Don’t want to be hounded for child support, then don’t get a woman knocked up because it takes 2 people to create a child. No Black woman spontaneously combusted and became pregnant on her own. If a Black man is a real man, no one is going to put him out of a home that he has worked to provide for his wife and kids. Too many times the Black woman is renting or paying mortgage on a home and her Black boyfriend, baby daddy or husband is just there to lie around and doing nothing, contributing nothing, while she feeds, clothes and shelters everyone. The entire country knows that Black men are a problem, which is why the police are killing them on sight. It’s almost hunting season, where every cop wants to bag a Black man. Maybe if Black men did not have such a horrible reputation, every person in law enforcement would not see him as an instant criminal. So if White and Non-Black women want an overgrown Black man-child to care for in her home, she is welcomed to him.

U sound dumb as hell. Is your momblack. Did u say white queen. The same race of women who wouldn’t even want u for u but wat u have. Shut up. How could u down a whole race of your own. I dont think a black woman would like u any ways. Go to Becky. U not shit at all

You black women are still using these old wives tales and fables about white women and the reasons they want black men? Then on top of this you use the “your momma black” retort. Those responses alone are confirmation that black women have nothing logical to present as to why black men should still deal with them.

“Your mom black”, really woman? Who on earth thinks about their mother when choosing a potential mate? Sorry, I don’t deal with incest.

Firstly you cannot have a single black mother without a waste of space black father.

Secondly we as black women do stick up for black men, way more than black men stick up for us. This post proves it, this ‘white queen’ is talking about your opposite kin and your happy to lick her toes for it. You’re the type of black man that black women don’t have time for which is why you’re caping.
Thirdly, we throw you under the bus?? Black men say this as you do the exact same thing you’re moaning about; the word, hypocrite comes to mind.

What I don’t understand is how you are going to make generalizations saying that every black single mother raise black boys to be drug dealers. That makes zero sense, it’s illogical. Where are your references to back up this claim? Studies show us they may be AT RISK for some things but it’s not 100% guaranteed. And if you want to keep assuming every single black woman throw yall understand the bus that’s a damn shame is all I have to say. It’s not true at all. I LOVE black men and defend them every single chance against certain type of white people who believe all they do is sell drugs, smoke weed and kill people. As far as what annabeth said yes Chicago numbers show us that they are in HIGH NEED for some order and activities that promote prosocial behavior and protective factors. There are black people who are traveling to other cities where their kind need some help to achieve these goals. Some of them are there to help not cause destruction. And we must not put our black boys and men into a box that assumes every single one of them are engaging in these activities that fuck up the community because it is simply not true.

I guess nobody heard of the Willy Lynch Letter. This was all a set up over 400 years ago to control the slaves. The first tactic was to turn the male and the female slaves against each other. I swear yall some simple Negros Woke tf up its 2017 and nobody doing research depending on the white man to educate you damn fools. look up the Willy Lynch Letter Brother. #therealjewareblack #Israelwakeup

Stop trying to invoke the victimhood spirit, deal with the current issues in black society instead of constantly referring to events from the past and using them as your excuse as to why you cannot remedy present problems.

Your ignorant as fuck and I said it. Yes I’m strong and I like my man Black and stronger both my parents were addicts and I don’t do drugs nor do I date dealers or addicts. And guess what Im only attract what I like with that being said those black females that are dating Ray Rays choose to because there type. That’s not why your mad though your mad at Melissa for choosing a Ray ray and he’s using her by the way I’m Italian and black but look more black. This is by no means a racist your talking to a group of ppl and forgetting y your really mad. It’s not a whole races fault it’s a choice and you sound scorned like your white wife made u watch her fuck bbc

For you black witches above talking about drug dealers: who raised them, harpy?!!!

You keep mentioning that the men aren’t there, which goes to show how awful black women are. You raise your boys around nothing but women, yet they become the most “misogynistic” men alive. Your daughters are also raised by nothing but women, but are the least feminine group of women on the planet. Black men will always lose as long as we stick with you!

You right…but backwards…you’re lost without the black woman and Vica versa….we are in need, want and have to have our own black Kings.. Segregation amongst isn’t needed…point blank period…for millions of years we have been sleep and lied to. Black men and woman are both awakened. War against one another is too late, actually it has been a war since the importation of black men and women…due to slavery and the hate for such a beauty we hold as a people…we should be tired of not being united.

What even more funny is when a white women lay with and have a child with a black man their children by law are considered 100% black. So while their hating black women and the strength they wish they had all while trying to us in dress hair you name it. They giving birth to black children but hating the root of where their children come from. This is another form of slavery. Gather the black man white women to posses their power to weaken their culture. Your talking about a white man playing us but has playing u as well having u lay with their women. When it’s all said and done and trump begins to divide those white women will go where its safer leaving u with your black children cause half white is not white.

If you weren’t treating black men like complete and utter trash then we wouldn’t need to seek out love and companionship outside. This is the problem with the overwhelming majority of black women today, they feel as though they have a right to treat black men like garbage and that black men are obligated to accept such treatment just because the person dishing it out is a black woman(because “yo momma black”). I don’t think so.

Black women are attempting to lay down with white men in their efforts to escape the huge mess that they have created within black society, black men on the other hand are laying down with white and other non black females in our efforts to escape the horrible and hostile treatment being given to us by black women, there is a big difference.

I really don’t feel like entertaining YOU; FOLLOWERS LIKE YOU ARE WHO CONTINUOUSLY FUCK UP BLACK CULTURE, PAST,FUTURE, ETC…YOUR BIASE ASS BELIEFS AND STATEMENTS ARE JUST SIGNS OF PSYCHIATRIC EVALUATIONS BEING IN NEED OF YOUR KIND, THE KIND WHO ARE ALWAYS IN DENIAL, AND BLAME OTHERS FOR THEIR MISTAKES AND FOR BEING WEAK, EASY, AND, REALLY MAD AT SELF FOR NOT BEING STRONG WHEN YOU WERE SUPPOSE TO.

I wonder if you made the same speech on Serena Williams’ page or Instagram? She too is producing a biracial child with her white knight whom America will consider 100% black. Oh, that’s right, you only go to a black mens’ blog and try to Dick Police them. Your double standards don’t work here, homegirl. Get lost.

Umm this is pathetic, shes delusional and needs to realize that many times black men run to white woman is because they tend to put up their bullshit. Meaning weak!. If ur running to a white woman for any other reason than love..because u assume the grass is greener it boils down to self hatred towards u and ur black mother. The audacity to assume the treatment of black men from black women makes ur run into the arms of a white woman whos ancestors hated u, u really have mommy issues

The problem with most black women today is they believe that behaving like a violent, rebellious, masculine brute is being a woman. White and non black females by and large behave like women ought to, black women behave in an abnormal fashion and somehow believe that black men are obligated to tolerate their dysfunctional nonsense.

On the contrary, because I love myself I won’t put up with dysfunctional behaviour that the overwhelming majority of black females bring to the table, if I despised myself I would do the complete opposite.

1. Don’t metaphorically speak of ALL black women saying that we don’t appreciate black men.
2. Ill tell you more about MY black men than any white woman on this Earth could say about em.

My husband dated whites, mexicans, mixed and two black women. He even married a half white woman. He ran over her so much. He felt like she never had a problem with at all until she up and left him for another man. He also did give her everything she wanted. He provided her safety, protection, comfort and a roof. More than to be exact. They had a little girl together, but she ended up leaving all of that behind for HER happiness. He told me that she was a lustful beauty with an ugly heart and I believe him. My Husband fell out of love so quickly when he got with me. I gave him happiness. I gave him love and comfort. I gave him counselling sessions. I gave him his freedom to have his fun and let him do what he pleased. I gave him a son. I gave him various of various of reasons to marry me. I let him be a damn MAN. I never manipulated a man. I never brainwashed him into changing his whole mindset to another. I shaped into the man he is today. My black man left that white society to get with someone who he can absolutely trust and cherish. I am his kryptonite. I have that ability to get into his heart and his mind. My husband is a very, very intelligent man. Very resourceful and he respects me for who I am. I am a black woman. Now tell me how to keep a black man…. ONE. MORE. TIME

Exceptions to the rule do not buck the general trend. You cannot use you exceptional case to override the fact that black women as a collective cannot keep men and treat black men like absolute trash, sorry.

Anyone who puts A whole category of people into one little box is unintelligent. Period. Look it up. Its a fact. Your brain can’t work hard enough to understand that the choices people make depend on a multitude of things like upbringing, environment, genetics, etc. Its okay though, there’s someone for everyone, even unintelligent, angry, small-minded people like yourself.

HAHAHAHA listen sir I am so sorry that you are either too ugly or too uneducated for black women to want you and that it’s made you angry. I completely understand why too. We are a catch and non-black women aren’t as great but none of these lies that you are perpetuating are affecting us you know that? Any black man adhereing to this thinking can go ahead and get himself a non-black woman cause we sure as hell don’t want him. You are doing a great job of weeding out those who aren’t suited to handle us, even though it’s makes me sad that you are so dumb and so lost. Continue living your life in the sunken place 🙂
Best, all black women.

Black women are a catch, really woman??? 80% of black women are overweight, 50% of black women carry the herpes virus, in 2017 most black women come pre-packaged with children, most black women are masculine, violent, belligerent, argumentative, cold hearted, you hate yourselves hence why you sport weaves all day and bleach your skin. Its funny how you say non black women aren’t as great yet black women are trying their hardest to emulate those who “aren’t as great”, make that make sense.

I am not obligated to handle rabid, rebellious, violent, masculine looking black female scum, this is the problem with most black women today, you honestly believe your negative behaviour is a treasure that black men should embrace. As if we have to tolerate garbage like this:

By the way, I already weeded myself out years ago because I have standards and self respect, I don’t deal with trash women. Keep wallowing in your own filth and enjoy a lonely life with 40 cats in a 2 bedroom apartment.

You sound worser than a diehard klansman, so what if 2 black women got into a fight, people like you have been dehumanzing and demoralizing black women since the inception of this country, you are probably more trash than anybody, if you ever look at essence, ebony magazines you will find intelligent outstanding black women, I use to hear stories of my grandmother and those she use to talk of my great grandmother and the things they went through with, you couldnt image because it was your ancestors (if you are white) who did these things to them, which is things too choatic and castrophic to mention

Verbs2015,
I agreed with brother that a lots of black women are backwards when it comes to picking a date, attitude problems and decisions that they make and specially when they’re between 18-34. I even had one black female friend tells me back in 2013 when i was 28 years and she said to me “You’re a good blackman with no kids, you’re a nice guys, got a job and has never have been in jail” then she says “you’re better off dating a white woman, hispanic women or even Indian women because of the average black women don’t want you because you’re too nice and not swag enough and plus lots of black women tainted with problems like nasty ass attitudes after she been ran through, comes preloaded with kids from thugs/bad guys”. This what she said to me.

At least she was being honest which is very rare with most black women. They do indeed waste their prime years on the worst black men but then want the decent, hard working black man to step in a pick up the pieces after their lives have completely fallen apart. This is why SYSBM is vitally important for the thinking black man, as we are indeed better off dealing with women of other ethnicities. As I have stated before, black men and black women at this stage are incompatible.

Everyone in the comments I’ve read so far needs to get out more. The second you phrase your points using plurals and a collective “all”, you’re assuming something that logically isn’t true. Not all white or black women or men adhere to the stereotypes I’ve noticed have been used as a foundation for every post or rebuttal. I was raised by my African American mother and father who were both raised by sets of African American parents, who both graduated from high school and college with a combined total of 3 Bachelor’s and 1 Master’s degree. I’m an African American female, high school and college graduate, currently teaching with my Secondary English degree. I’m in a relationship with an African American man whose name is Jamal, but who has never been a part of the judicial system for violence, drugs, or any of the other stereotypical activities mentioned in comments above mine.

Not all white women want black men.
Not all black women want black men.
Not all black men want white women.
Not all black men want black women.

Our society has engrained these stereotypical messages into almost every facet of life. Magazines, music, literature, TV shows, movies – etc. are perpetuating negative ideas to EVERYONE. To white women, it’s more desireable to have bigger lips and butts because that is the message you are subconsciously consuming by idolizing the Kardashians and laughing at your own jokes about how bony your butt is. Black women, its more desirable to either meet European beauty standards by getting weaves and colored contacts or “ghetto” fabulous like any of the ratchets on reality TV.

Because PEOPLE keep spreading these messages, we now have girls who hate their bodies, skin, and hair as early as the age of 5 or 6; girls who know how to contour their face at 11; girls who are obsessed with calorie counting and going to the gym in HIGH SCHOOL while their bodies are still developing. You have black men, brought into the world by black men and women, hating parts of their own identity and demonizing what they can’t control in black women.

A relationship isn’t about control. It’s about nurturing one another to better yourselves while still loving each other for who you are. The second you speak in terms of submission or power, you aren’t talking about a relationship.

I’m only 22 and I think it’s sad that people really have these fixed mindsets. Stop assuming and speaking for people you will never meet or truly know or understand because of your own bias.

So after this whole article all you see on the comment section are black men and black women degrading/fighting each other! Both sides are controlled and too stupid to realize it. But y’all have fun downing each other and feeding into the white mans agenda!

This is such a strange article. It sounds so personal, like the writer had some bad experiences and is talking from a personal point of view. I’m married to a black man, and I have a very large family filled with educated, married, BLACK couples. Even my inlaws. I don’t understand how people can be so small minded to think EVERY black woman is the same. That’s like saying, every black man is a drug dealer. Or Evey white person is racist. I mean its sad really that this author would put all black women in this horrible stereotype. Does he not know ANY positive black women??? Makes me think, its clearly the author that has some real insecurities. I would never gather ANY group under one category, because I’m intelligent and mature enough to understand that every person is different. Hopefully, when he’s raising a BLACK DAUGHTER, he’ll speak life into her, instead of this horrible negative, oppressive garbage.

Hell, if anything, you’re proving that it might be all who are that dumb and belligerent, because of your lack of reading comprehension as well as your finding issue in his actions as oppoosed to the JACKASSES HE’S TALKING ABOUT.

Noticed my comment was deleted so here it goes again! I see nothing but black men and women in this comment section berating each other. Personally no one is more responsible for the failure of black and black relations than BLACK MEN AND WOMEN!

Who gives asf what these white broads got to say. Majority of y’all Black men are the problem in this ignorant bs. Black Women can also say the same about Bkack men but hey black women is the problem right 😂😂😂😂foh with that bs. I love y’all but I’m not with the bs rather it’s a white Woman who don’t know shit or a black man who want to put blame black Women for everything. I’m so disgusted with white women like her and black men who agree with this bs.

This is compeletely false on so many levels. Let’s just call a spade a spade, black men don’t want black women. And black men are intimidated by black women. And black men don’t like a person to make them be who they are supposed to be. A man. And then when a black women expects them to step up to the plate then we are bitter, or angry. Then y’all run to the passive white women, who tbh only look at y’all as a fantasy. This white woman is speaking on something she knows nothing about. She has never lived to a black woman. And she being not only clueless, but rude and racist as well. And for you to praise this type of antic shows your lack of respect for black women. And the fact that black women say that we don’t need black men is because we were raised to be independent and do for ourselves. Unlike white women who have had everything handed to them on a silver platter. What we mean is, if you’re not gonna step up to the he plate then leave.

There are a lot of generalizations being made here in this. Not all black women are bad, not all require you to be someone else, not all are looking for dumb dudes. These men who are calling black women these things are afraid to step up to a challenge, but instead create assumptions without seeing the whole spectrum. Also, the comment of which this whole segment originated from is also a problem. No one is at war with anyone. At the end of the day, love is, and never will be, solely based on race. It’s only based on who treats you the right way and who you have the stronger connection with. Rather than track to another race without paying attention to the race of our heritage, why don’t we help liberate our sisters and grow together?? If black men keep putting down black women like this, then we will never be able to move from this. This makes this argument a very weak one as well, since black women are saying they don’t need a man, because of thier experiences. Show them that there is something different, and they will show you why this argument, again, is very weak. However, we live in a system designed to see us fail and until we will have the patience and strength to see all sides, there will be no getting away from this ignorance.

I think this is the most disrespectful bull I have ever read in my life and if I were ever to entertain such foolery I would read you and this young woman like a book…. a big ass encyclopedia! Smh you sir should be whole heartedly ashamed to ever speak on black women again!

For one, that comment that she made was ridiculous. Second, for you to group “all” Black women in the same category of dysfunctional is like saying “All” white people are racist. Which neither of those statements are true. White women are taking Black Men? HAHA, that statement is laughable. So white women don’t wear wigs, weaves, clip ins, etc? So white women do not tan to make their skin darker? So, white women don’t get their butts, lips, & cheeks injected? Hummm, who wants to be who? Who’s pretending to be who? Black men can LOVE & Be with whomever they choose! White, yellow, hell ALIENS… Black women are over producing??? Who’s laying down with them to produce? This article, blog, whatever is a JOKE.. White women are taking Black men? Have them! Especially if the think anything less of the women who sacrificed for them, birthed them, etc…

Please show me the sentence or the paragraph where I have implicated “all” black women, I’ll wait. Black women are taking major L’s in the dating and marriage department. I actually wrote an article yesterday dealing with the common claims black women make concerning white women trying to look like them:

You black women cannot help but open your legs to unproductive black men, then have the audacity to step to hard working, free thinking black men when the times get tough ie you have 2-3 children en tow.

Black women talk all day about not having an issue with whom black men choose to date until they see a black man with a non black women, then its a different story.

You did not have to use the word all. Your statement ” you black women” if you don’t know is implying the same thing as all, and to that statement let me correct you not all” you black women cannot help but opening our legs to unproductive black men”. I am a black woman that has no children and have no problem meeting and talking too hard working free thinking black men without having my hand out. Personally I have no problem with you dating or marrying anyone you want. My problem as a black woman with black men that date white women is with the attitude you take with me when you do. This article is a prime example of what my problem is. If you want to date non-black women fine, just say that is you preference but please do not go into everything that is wrong with black women and lump us all together. There are too many images on T.V and real life of trifling, multiple baby daddy having black women but just acknowledge that not all of us out here are like that.

Well I am sorry to burst y’all bubble but I am a black woman who is married to an educated black brother and I have two kids by one educated black man. I for one don’t look for thugs I love my black men period educated or not. Now I can’t speak for all black women but I know this black woman here is the opposite of what these white girls and black men are talking about. I can’t stand for a woman to think she can do what a man can do. So to all of you black men and white women putting all black women in the same group is not kool at all. I am a black woman with a bachelor’s degree in business and my black King owns his own business so no not all black women have issues with black men. I can’t do shit with out my king next to me

Aren’t you amazed at how black women like yourself use the same redundant, defunct talking points in your effort to prove a position? You are an exception, exceptions do not change the general trend, I cannot recall how many times I have to remind black women of this. Most black women fit the demographic I described. Functional black women are now in a minority, you are living in the past if you believe that most black women today are like those of the 1940s 1950s etc. And as per usual you talked about me putting “all” black women in the same group when the words “all black women” appear nowhere in the article.

You’re a black man and you’re basically dissing your own race. I wonder how your black mother feels about this.

Please get out of your sunken place my dear, we al clearly know that black men tend to go for a white woman because one they’re easy. Two they will allow you to do anything to them and submit always!

Black queens are independent. We don’t take no bull and are extremely expressive when it comes to our feelings. You can just run over us like the MASSA tried to and still is

Let me remind you that 500 years ago you were considered to be that nigger in the field. BOY is what they would’ve called you and all of a sudden society has brainwashed you into believing that the black woman isn’t shit basically ? Serves no value ? Lmao wow. You’re an idiot brother.

The problem is black women as a collective are on the bottom of the dating food chain, you cannot get the white men to begin with because white men simply aren’t interested in black women en mass. The other issue here is the fact that white men and black women have been working together for the last 50 years to keep black men in the gutter, therefore it doesn’t surprise me that white men/black women relationships outlast the opposite.

The fact of the matter is black women as a group overall are still going down the toilet despite minor successes scattered here and there.

what did you say we cant get white men in masse, because white men think he is superior, and especially to f—heads like you, and white woman getting black men, they go after these black men, when unarm black men were getting shot down in the streets like dogs by the police (mainly white) it was black women up in arms protesting, if white women were there it was for a show

“Marriages between a black husband and white wife were twice as likely to divorce as marriages involving a white husband and white wife. When adjusted for background aspects such as age at marriage and educational level, differences between black male/white female marriages and white male/white female marriages virtually disappeared in some cases. This suggests that, contrary to prior findings, the higher rate of interracial divorce between black male/white female marriages is not due to background factors.”

Again, the problem black women have is obtaining a white man to begin with, once black women get past that hurdle then it is plain sailing for them, however very few black women actually manage to snag themselves a white man.

Black men have far more reach and power in the interracial dating market than black women, hence why black women are so quick to call black men coons and sellouts whenever they see us with non black females.

So where I acknowledge that relationships between black women and white men are quite successful, that doesn’t help black women at all when it comes down to the initial process of getting their swirl on.

Lol… Totally didn’t answer the question… The problem with your theory is, majority black men marry black women… And most black women are married by 36… So you saying we’re most desirable is pointless in my question to you… Black men are at the bottom of the totem pole throughout the world, yet black women still have your back… By all means, marry white… You’ll be divorced I’m 10 years!!! I’m marrying my black man next week! Signed Mrs. Undesirable… Lol

I answered your question, go back and read my comments. “Most black women are married by 36”, in what world does this happen, not in this one. Black women have a single rate which is now around 80%(it was previously at 70%).

Black women are the last choice of companion on the lists of all non black men, whereas black men are the second most desired men on the planet. Sorry to disappoint you but we are not where you are(though you wish this was the case).

This was my point from before, you can flash all of the statistics on how successful marriages between white men and black women are, however as I stated before, most white men aren’t interested in black women, so the stats aren’t helping you at all.

Black men have always been “Wanted, Desired and Envied” by all…. Cause you are an assets….most people of “power” love possessing great artifacts and collecting things they can not have or make. Know your worth and teacher our people of theirs. Spread unity!!!

Marriages between black men and black women in the US are now on the decrease. Just because 86% of black men marry black women that doesn’t mean that the marriage numbers themselves are high, as I have stated before they are going down not up.

Mainly because black men/white women relationships experience the most racial hostility from guess who, racist white men and their partners in crime, black women.

White men do not like seeing their women under the authority of a black male and black women are jealous to the hilt of white women, therefore both parties will work together to sabotage black men/white women unions.

Bengo brother, its true I known black men who had the same problem with non black women’s family members such as her father, brother and grandpa or simpy any white male will sabotage the relationships its so sad man. I also see the aftermath some black men continue to date out again and some go with black women again its like that in Brooklyn NY.

Its funny tho cuz most of our “disfunction” is a direct result of their oppression…
Dueteronomy 7:3 NEITHER shalt thou make MARRIAGES with THEM; thy daughter thou shalt NOT give unto his son, NOR his daughter shalt thou take unto thy son. #GetOut 👇🏾👇🏾👇🏾
Ezra 9:12 – Now therefore GIVE NOT your daughters unto their sons, NEITHER take their daughters unto your sons, NOR seek their peace OR THEIR WEALTH for ever: that ye may be strong, and eat the good of the land, and leave it for an inheritance to your children for ever. #GetOut👇🏾
Joshua 23:12 – Else if ye do in any wise go back, and CLEAVE UNTO the remnant of THESE NATIONS, even these that remain among you, and shall make marriages with them, and go in unto them, and they to you: #GetOut 👇🏾👇🏾👇🏾
Joshua 23:13 – KNOW FOR A CERTAINTY that the LORD your God will NO MORE drive out any of these nations from before you; but they shall be SNARES and TRAPS UNTO YOU, and SCOURGES in your sides, and THORNS in your eyes, until ye PERISH from off this good land which the LORD your God hath given you. #GetOut 👇🏾👇🏾👇🏾
MEANING INTERRACIAL MARRIAGE, DATING, SEX, INTEGRATION AS WHOLE IS A SIN AND FORBIDDEN THUS SAITH THE LORD!!! PERIOD!!! THERE ARE CONSEQUENCES AND REPERCUSSIONS BEHIND THESE ACTS!!!

Put on your listening ears, BLACK ON BLACK MARRIAGES are on the decrease. Marriages between black men and non black women are on the increase. Nope, sorry, once again you wish black men were in the same boat as yourselves in terms of dating period but it simply isn’t going to happen.

Ok, you still haven’t answered my question. I understand black women are the least desired… But why do interracial relationships bm/we almost never work out compared to white men/white women? Answer the darn question you keep avoiding… Forget black women exist… We’re out the picture… Why doesn’t this type of relationship work compared to only white?

Black women and racist white men are the main reasons why interracial relationships between black men and white women fail so often, I’ve said this so many times before. Actually it’s two people to blame, not just one.

The white man had enough power and influence to persuade black women to give black men the middle finger in favour of feminism and welfare.

Black women couldn’t wait to get under the wing of their white father thinking that white society would eventually accept them. Guess that hasn’t worked out too well has it.

you are the definition of a boy. I work VERY hard and I don’t receive a free dime from anyone. Im also not a feminist. As I say again an again feminism is a white woman’s struggle. It was their men who oppressed them not ours… black woman and men got their rights at the same time. You are so stupidly uninformed! You use your few poor selections of black women do group us all in a box to justify your broken preferences for the white devil.. We all know you are only with her because your feel low as a black person… How do you feel being grouped in a box??? When the world assumes you are a thug and you get shot in the streets its black women who are out there fighting for you.

And your data reflects that race has declined amongst AA as a whole. Do where are all the white wives of these black men that should make up for the lack of l desirable black women? You would think there would be an increase in white women marriages, but nope, looks like black men are just as unmarried as black women are?

This amazes me.. lets get to the root of the issue. Black men have selfishly abandoned the homes YEARS ago. YOU yourself OF COURSE blame the black woman (which is bs because we have had your back from day 1) so WHY haven’t you still raised your CHILDREN? The children grow up with ONE parent because the black man abandoned them too.. We were FORCED to become INDEPENDENT. We were forced to make a way by OURSELVES. Forced to work 3 jobs to make ends meet while the STREETS help raise them. now its a VICIOUS cycle. I been raised in the church and we were taught to ALWAYS submit to our husband and respect them. We LIVE by that. The men were taught to care and provide for their families. So to say black women treat yall like crap is a FLAT OUT LIE AND EXCUSE. Our men are no longer providers and they run when things get hard. You allowed this little white girl to belittle us while you kiss her ass. Did you forget that we are the ONLY ones fighting this fight with you? We stand behind you when the world cast you out. We stood by you when you allowed the slave masters rape us and take our children. We stood by you while the system incarcerated you. There is no unity. No support. Our race is weakened because our foundation has been DESTROYED. Step up and provide for your HOUSEHOLD. Help with raising your children and and stop this madness. A women will never loose repect for a man who takes care of their families and PROVIDE for their homes. Your self hatred is showing brotha. The black women have RISEN. We have went from being slaves to the system to successful, well educated business owners, entrepreneurs, college grads and so force. But unfortunately your one of the few black men who cant keep up. Smh. Get your mind right uncle Rukkus. Rise up like the KING your are meant to be, and LEAD the way so we can follow you.
And one more thing.. im a license cosmetologist and 50% of my clients that i make wigs for, and apply extensions to are WHITE WOMEN.

WTH does that video prove. As I’ve stated, how can white men persuade something that white women created… Take a look at the leaders at the forefront of feminism… They’re talking about black people as a whole in that video, not black women… You’re really reaching. Do you even know when feminism began and why it originated?

You’ve gone off on a tangent, this is why I stopped responding. What does any of this have to do with the dysfunctions of black women this white woman called them out on, nothing. Statistics don’t change the fact that black women as a whole are rapidly heading down the toilet. Statistics also don’t change the fact that because of this more black men are opting for non black women.

Point. Blank. Period. White women and black men don’t last… You can promote it, but the facts don’t change. Love conquers all. If ANY MAN OR WOMAN can get between love, it was never real. Stop with the excuses.

average WM had nothing to do with women liberation. Not if the powers that be the “1%” had anything to do with it who knows for sure??? That is all speculation and conspiracy… Women’s liberation had mostly to do with the white man treating their women like crap….

Y does everything have to b about race. People say all type of stereotypes about black women but what about the white women. It’s not just the black men who is with white women, there is also a lot of white men with black women… so please someone come up with an excuse for that second part………..

Self loathing and hatred runs deep to the point of denial. Consequently, yours appear to run deeper then most. Yes black women have flaws as does all other women, but to single out black women is egregious. Other then Jewish women what other race of women was raped, mutilated, denied basic human rights, treated with utter disdain, identity strip and stolen. Watch as their daughters were raped even their husbands and son be sodomized and sold as cattle. You sir are delusional, fact white women degraded black slaves because their husband and sons raped and impregnated them often choosing the black woman over the white. Please sir do not speak about something you know nothing about. Let’s talk about the collagen injections and breast implants and butt implants majority of white woman get… who are the assimilating The Beautiful Black Woman. For the black men the intelligent and educated a white woman is a token in their minds that they have arrived. Just like the poor black man who dates a trail park white woman both men are looking to be justified and accepted by the majority who will let them know they are still nothing to them. So take your self loathing self hatred uninformed self on be with Becky…. Please let us know how that works out for you. Trust and believe a beautiful black woman like myself and countless of others want miss you. #BYE

Present evidence that doesn’t go in your favour and you reject it. This is why my conversations with black women are rare, you stay being dishonest. And stop believing that statistics are the only form of evidence available. This is a common trick many black women play, attempt to dictate how the evidence against them is to be presented, however you black women are the ones on trial, not me. You cannot be the judge and the criminal at the same time.

From all your comments, you sound like a brainwash uncle tom who hate himself to be talking all this nonsense you are saying, the reason alot of black men go to white woman they have been programmed that way, and white women didnt have to go through what black women went through, alot of so call black traits you bestow upon black women are the effects of colonialism, and dont tell me it was a long time ago, the effects are still there, until black women (some) are reprogrammed, the way you talk no other race of men talk about their women like that en masse like you do, it true we are a damage race of people, what make you think the way you talk you are going to get respect from any other non white. The original black woman before she was brought to these shores, and those already here in this country before europeans came, did not act that that way, you need to study yourself and your history, because you know nothinG!!!!!!

Do not be intimidate by this jabroni!!!!!!! White women cannot compete with you all so they sit around here and try to slander you all. #BlackGirlMagic is real…..You wanna know why because every time black women do something great, a lot of your haters get mad and disappear..POOF! MAGIC…BLACK GIRL MAGIC THAT IS. As a black man, i will not sit back and allow some fifty cent, clearance sale, buy two, get one free, anybody have change for a nickel white woman to come here and slander black women. We as black men need to put an end to this because a lot of these white women today are getting too comfortable putting down our black queens. If white women like this (not all white women but this chump with this mindset) hate black women so much, why do they try and look like them every single day???? Don’t let the statistics fool ya….88% of black men are still marrying black women….Tell this woman go GOOGLE that, and while she is at it….GO GOOGLE THE PART WHERE IT SAYS SHE NEEDS TO SHUT WHAT THEY CALL THE HELL UP!!!!!!! In conclusion, black men, if you sit around allowing a white woman to put down a black woman, she is also talking about your moms, sisters, and daughters…..Oh and let me know when this white woman making these comments will be at the next black lives matter march…i’ll wait because she probably won’t be there…But those black queens will be there marching for black men……GET THIS NONSENSE OUTTA HERE! (DROPS MIC)

The typical black male simp, always willing to drop his standards and stand up for trash black female scum, where is your self respect bruh? If black women were so great then they wouldn’t be wearing the hair of the same women they claim they are greater than upon their heads. Nor would they be bleaching their skin in their efforts to look lighter. #Blackgirlmagic in reality is simply channelling the white women’s looks and beauty.

It’s never about race because even them white bitches still wear fake hair and call it extensions. They stand in the sun to go a lil’ darker and they too plastic as they weren’t born with full lips, ass, boobs to mention a few

the reason black women bleach their skins (some) because this is a white dominated society, whereas white and light skin is consider the norm, If this was a black dominated society, and if you felt you could get ahead more by being black, you be tanning and bleaching yourself black

I would just like to say after reading through the comments and story there are amazing points and that my husband and I are a interracial marriage and my beautiful sister in law, husband nor fit any of these and if you do not fit the description do not let it bother you love is love no matter what color or gender as long they respect one another people we have been divided by race far too long we need to all come together to show this generation a better world god created us all we bleed the same #spreadthelove

I don’t agree with your opinion/beliefs. But what I would like you to do is stop over generalizing black women as a whole. When you are doing this you are basically implying your mother is the same way. Black men need to own up to their part of the bs as to why the Black woman, as you describe her, is how she is today.

Patrick, quit simping for these hoes. I didn’t make hateful, dysfunctional black females the way they are, so don’t lay that trip on me. Wondering if you’re got a black wife or girlfriend? Hope your e-simping is paying off for you.

There is one woman that have slept with every culture of man on our planet earth, the white woman. As young girls, they are raised to prostitute themselves into marriage for money and status and when they are tired of you black men and yell, “niggar raped me, niggar raped me”, you’re gonna get the same ole lynching treatment as the rest. Good luck!

I normally don’t comment on blog posts, but this is to other commenters. STOP READING HIS SITE. DON’T CLICK.

This might be damaging – if he’s convincing, but he’s not. He sounds like the bitter, bully he accuses us of being.

I don’t care who dates and marries whom.

The article doesn’t even make me mad. I have no feelings about the author deluding himself into generalizing the plight of blackness and black women in particular. He subscribes to intraracial prejudice. It’s o.k., he clearly isn’t the only one, to keep the cycle moving in the opposite direction to get clicks and likes. I, will follow and tell my sphere of professional people of color to steer clear of this site and everything slayingevil.com stand for. It’s pathetic and reinforces the opinion of how much we hate our own. He calls some of the commenters here “unintelligent” but posts the message from a white woman who can’t put together coherent thoughts, use proper punctuation or grammar. She sounds as “ghetto” as the black women he hates so much. You are the definition of glorification of white simply because it white, not right. Then he has the nerve to slap us in the face with “Stay Individual” and “Most High Bless”, which made me laugh out loud since he labels and lumps all black women as “bullies, whores/hoes(message that he praised uses these words), envious, trash, scum and the list goes on.

There is NOTHING he’s going to do for US. He’s too self centered.

Who is he? Nobody.

I care about his mother because she’s black, if this is the best she could do with him-sorry for her.

Let’s move on from this spill of repugnant male.

Let’s not patronize this site. Is this the support of the black community we speak of?

Can’t dispute numbers and statistics, but when your evidence is a YouTube video of a person you have no credentials on, personal opinion and self hate, I’d say your basis of argument needs to be put to rest. You obviously have been rejected by many black women and bitter.

I told you before, you don’t get to decide how the evidence is presented, evidence is evidence regardless of its format or the source. You won’t run that credential Kansas City shuffle up in here either. I responding to you simply to show other black men what kind of pestilence they would dealing with if they decided to take on board a black female.

This guy is Uncle Ruckus in the flesh drowning in self hate. If you dislike black women so much, why take time writing an article or responses. Let the bitterness go and focus in things that make you happy

Black women who are worth a damn aren’t the problem, the scumbags of black female society are the issue. They represent the overwhelming majority of black women today, I don’t need to wish malice upon them, they bring it upon themselves. Disparage the person but still return to their website to communicate with them, the mental insanity of the modern day black female on display right here.

Yawn. As a black man who has dated roughly equal shares of white and black women, I’ve grown bored with this kind of mindless misogyny directed at black women. In my experience, black women are much more likely than black men to bend over backwards to date within their race. But you don’t have to go by my anecdotal experience. Just google the OKCupid study on the topic. I think much of the problem is that many educated, well-employed black men think they’re somehow entitled to a black woman. So if they’re not a dozen banging on their door, they’re overcome with resentment. But the truth is that dating is hard, no matter what your race or gender. It is difficult to find someone you connect with romantically, and if you happen to find that connection with someone outside your race, then so be it. But let’s not pretend that we are entitled to the love of a black woman just because we’re a black man and have our shit together.

This is completely incorrect!!! There is a difference between needing a man and wanting a man. As a woman despite color or race you should not NEED a man. The only things that you should need in life are the bare necessities to keep you alive. Everything else is a want and desire so with that being said when we as women of color say “we don’t need a man” we aren’t trying to degrade or put down our black men we are simply letting them know that we do not need you to take care of us, we do not need you to provide for us, we do not need you for sex, and we do not need you in order to be a strong black independent woman. Instead we want a man to build with, to grow with, to talk with, to share our flaws and imperfections with, to be that shoulder to cry on, to make us feel loved and appreciated when maybe we don’t, to have our back when things get tough, to rub our back after a long day at work, to build a family and foundation with. That’s what we mean when we say we don’t need a man. If men internalize that as we don’t want them and would rather go be with a white woman then go for it. A real black man would get to understand the reason why a woman is saying that and understand what she truly means instead of run away because they don’t understand. So as black women continue to be strong, proud and independent and wait for that strong , proud and independent black man to sweep you off your feet. Only insecure coward black men would turn to another race to find a woman. No white woman will ever compare to us, they will never be us or ever amount to anything we possess. We are the creators of life and the anchors of our families. To any black man that thinks otherwise you were sadly mistaken and most likely turned down by too many strong black women. Be better men and stop degrading your own women. Do better black men do better!!

Any woman that says she doesn’t need s man is an idiot, when everything in this world damn near is made and ran by men.

That’s like me saying I don’t need modern technology to do what I do. Maybe not if I want to be a caveman, but I doubt very highly that most want that. Conversely, women could abandon everything given to them by men. They won’t be left with much though.

I’m sorry but who gives this woman any right to degrade yet form her own opinion about any or all black woman. Yes there are black women that may fit into those categories but not every black woman is uneducated and foolish. There are way to many powerful and influential black women who have made the strides and contributions to society as a whole, take Michelle Obama for one. Taraji Henson is another and so many others that I can name. Many of these white women manipulate themselves into the lives of some black men and then turn around and place them in handcuffs. So wait there aren’t any low down and low class White, Hispanic, Asian women besides a black woman? Look stop putting down sisters and making it seem that we fit this category as a whole. I know I sure don’t.

Also, it’s apparently wrong for this woman to form her own opinion of you black female rodents, yet you can form a seemingly positive one of that hoodrat (participation) “trophy wife” Michae-…..err, Michelle Obama?

“negative image is causing us to be isolated” from who? many Black men are dating other black men… On the low. I guess the white and black women were coming up short. Let’s talk about the shortage of black men to single black women because they’re gay, down low or in jail

From all men, especially non black men. Black women are being replaced. On the downlow issue it was only a matter of time till you pulled this common card. Sorry, I’ve already written an article that went viral exposing black women as the biggest homosexuals, supporters and pushers of the lifestyle within black society. There is no shortage, the problem is black women are not attracted to upstanding black men, they prefer the scum of black male society and I have written articles on this aswell.

I dont know where you get your facts from, I live around black people all my life, the environment that these women(some) comes from may b a factor, such as getting certain type of men,(like from the hood) I seem well intelligent black women who prefer intelligent educated black men, LOL, you aint been around them enough, what you have and saying is alot of negative stereotypes, you DAMN sure got issues

First and foremost, I am a 30 year old guy and with my little experience in life I will not totally agree with the black guys reply.
To some extent the guy is right but also wrong. Now here’s why:

DISCLAIMER:
(Before I begin, this is my opinion and Im entitled to it. One thing Ive realized about us blacks is our tendency to throw insults at everything that goes contrary to our views. If you dont agree with me, just walk away- theres no need insulting me or anyone who agrees with me. I’m totally for the white ladies and NOT for black ladies. SOME of my reasons are as elaborated below)

#1. As he had fore said ‘back in the day’ our black women were conscious about their virginity, when and who they lost it to. Question: is it the same today? Dont EVER use church as an allabi. Going to church does not make u chaste or christian, its your lifestyle.

#2. No need to go back to the era of slavery. Let’s talk about NOW!
If black is more beautiful and superior than white, then why are many of our women today not maintaining their natural beauty and rather copying the dressing of the westerners and even trying to speak like them? Tell me. Take a look at our media today.why is nearly every motion picture using fair coloured people all the time?

3#. Black women or blacks are in general more materialistic than whites. We tend to look down on each other and thus always strive to acquire material things unnecessarily. Do you have any idea of how many of our black ladies loose their virginity in a year esp to guys with Cars?
Now if anyone here will be very sincere, u will agree. No matter how loving u are u can loose your black woman simply because u don’t own a ride. Its happened to me and many of my colleagues. You cannot flex white ladies with cars – unless its a super expensive one, but our women? Mo Asem pa.

I don’t even want to talk about the craze for phones. I’ve witnessed many circumstances where black ladies choose guys based on the phones they possess and mock those who don’t own flashy ones as well.

#4. Look at the dressing of the wealthy westerners and that of blacks. What do u see in common. How do these whites dress when u see them in town? SIMPLE. but take a look at our people…enough said.

#5. Like it or not, white women can be far more down to earth than our ladies, and this goes down the very issue of materiality. Our ladies are never their true selves. Most of them try to assume a wealthy lifestyle when they can’t even afford simple call credits.
Most our guys cannot even approach them due to the rudeness they will show them.
If you like just dress up very simple and decent and just approach any Ghanaian lady in town especially those on campuses – You will get the shock of your life. Yes NOT all, but to find those who will be nice to you will be a great hassle. Trust me.

#.6 White ladies try their best to be very independent and very helpful at the same time.
The black girl today gives you responsibility that even extends to her entire family.
For the white lady – all you need is to love and win their trust and they won’t mind sharing anything in their arsenal with you.
They are more romantic because by nature they are very emotional. But the black woman today fakes nearly everything; most especially when they are desperate for marriage.

Being MEAN doesn’t make you strong and being DOCILE doesn’t make you weak.

I see we all need prayer….but I do wonder where were you at when you came across these types of ladies and was it the eye candy or did she have a great personality and smile and wonderful confidence?….if you chose eye candy then you’re no better than a blk woman who chooses the man with a really nice car. Plus you say white woman do it but that’s okay because the car was “expensive”… Gold digger is a gold digger and its sad that even for them if you didn’t have anything to catch their attention…you most likely wouldn’t be there chose or your white woman would be considered white trash and ratchet like the ones round…just cause its white doesn’t mean it’s right!!

Afrofuturism… I guess the same could be said for the need of white people with that logic. You need white people because they invented the majority of the things you use today with that logic, right? The white man and the “powers that be” are white and run this country, correct? In conclusion, and based off your logic… You NEED WHITE PEOPLE!!! Without them you wouldn’t be left with much in America.

Samuel… Who said black is more beautiful? You guys want to bring up extensions, as if white women don’t permenantly go get plastic surgery to assimilate the features of black women. Lol so much praise towards the white women, but your relationships are the most likely to end in divorce which debunks your theory if the conclusion was failure. I guess all that matters is the goddess white races beloved trophy gave you darkies a chance.

There is good and bad in all races. This same white women will throw boiling water on you, take your money, claim abuse, etc.
It takes all of us black people to fix our community. There have to be some good black women out here. This BS puts all black women in a group and makes it easier for black men to “have a reason” to leave us and date outside their race. These white … should never have room to speak about us like this and no one stand up for black women because part of the reason why our community is this way is because of our lack of identity which that same white women helped to take from us. Our issues run so deep, that white woman can’t possibly know what it’s like to live as a black woman or man in AmeriKKKa.
It’s kinda hard to erase 500 years of mental and physical slavery of our people in 70, especially if our people are giving up already.

This article was horrible. There are a barrage of actually comments about black women that have some sort of true substance that you could’ve commented on. For one, you are not taking into account the YEARS of neglect and hatred that BLACK WOMEN HAD TO ENDURE and that we still do. Let’s go back a few decades, once upon a time the black woman had a sense and dignity among her OWN kind, black men actually wanted their women when we were able to stand up with them against the white men, when they’re black men were coming home to the loving, strong, yet graceful and stern hands of a black women, beaten and exhausted from the fields they understand that they could not do it without their colored women. As time went on and society continued to weaken our image and foundation so did our men! You talk about black women having babies just for welfare but how does that account for the majority, when over 40% of the receipents of SNAP aka FOODSTAMPS are WHITE in comparison to the 25.7% that are black? Let’s not take a look at the idea of uneducated vs. educated in the eyes of a white person. A white man who is EDUCATED is more likely to go for a woman whom is uneducated without regard to her education but do educated black men do the same? Or they are more worried about the “burden” of someone not being able to provide as muchc as they do? Next, with the floooood of #BlackGirlMagic #IamNotmyHair and the Natural movement has sparked tons of black women to express their natural hair! Weave is not only used to enhance looks and length but there is also a thing called protective styling! Also, just because our texture is not ocean wave or bleach blonde straight does not mean we do not have “good” hair or because it doesn’t touch our back we are bald headed! I can on and on but you my friend. You are not worth It.

First and foremost white women emulate black women all the time, the want our skin color, our lips, our butts our hair style i.e. box braids no they are bantu knots, our black men to have their mix race babies. I live in Trump Country, NV . There are only 64 blacks in this county, 40 which are mixed race children. Becky left Trump Country, Nv went to the big city got herself and black men when it didn’t work out she brought her and her mixed race kids back to Trump Country, NV. My husband and I are the only married black couple here. There are two black women married to white men, and 20 black men all married, dating or living with a white woman. There are also plenty of white women her who have several children by different white men and are on welfare here also. They don’t have jobs either and see no reason to get one when they can stay home and get money and food stamps. These white also have no problem approaching you in the store and asking can they buy your food and you give them the money. There is a part of town here that the sheriff departments calls Methside, there ain’t no blacks that live in Methside. The white teenagers here use the word nigga all the time in public. Here in Trump Country whites trying very hard to emulate black culture at every turn. Why is it black women are the only race of women who may be interested in a black man only to be told I don’t do black women. SMH. My family is multicultural so I believe love who you want to love, but damm stop downing black women because you love something different.. IN 2017 BLACK WOMEN ARE THE MOST EDUCATED WOMEN IN AMERICA.

It is so sad when a black person can find comfort in his or her oppressor instead of their Kings and Queens. Sorry white woman, you are not a queen and lying up with a black man do not make you one. Black people are the originals, so please do try to take that title away, like everything else your people have stolen from mine, because it would be an impossible task to do. Also, black woman are the back bone to the black man. Any black man who cannot comprehend this is not a man I would want to be with anyway. i love my blackness! I love my black people! I love my black men. There are none made like us. What I do not appreciate is a black man or woman who can’t see the beauty in his or her own people. I consider this type of black; weak and insecure. Furthermore; I don’t believe for a second your family could ever love or accept him as one of your own. So don’t flatter yourself. Your weakness is our strength and it has always been that way. Sorry I must go now, the O.J. Simpson trail is coming on.

Since slavery black men have been lusting after white women. Have degraded the black woman for being strong and intelligent. It is bad enough that the black woman has to work twice as hard and be gawked at by white society as someone to be pitted because the black man in her life has failed to be a man. You have the nerve to not only put her down but step on her because she has stepped up to the plate and you have even benefited from her actions. I have nothing against the white woman. only the ignorant white woman who wrote the bullshit I just read. No educated black man and may I add white man would have written this mess. If a man is educated or not does not decree that he is a good man. The problem here is black women have evolved and we can recognize bullshit when we see it, hear it, and speak to it. We just do not want any parts of it. Having a man does not define any woman! If you want to be treated like a King then you must be first worthy to wear the crown. The majority of white women who actively seek black men do so Ms. want to be white queen is because no white man wants you. The black man was denied access to white women so long that they see you as a status not a person. The best advice I can give the black man who wrote this foolishness is. Stop self hating and please stop disrespecting black woman. Since you have never heard this saying before. Your money does not make you look good enough to be with! Money does not buy love! My favorite! There is not enough money in the world to make me be with you! The point of it all money can buy many things except manners, morale’s, integrity, respect, grace, happiness, and love.
Now you and that white bitch that wrote that shit kiss every black woman ass in the world.

you’re right about some of those facts: most white women who sleep with black men are no longer wanted by white men. Paul Mooney said it best: “white men don’t give a fck about white men. Look at how they treat them. White men are the only group of women who will depict their women as sleeping with animals and say that it’s okay. And since niggas is considered animals to white folk, it’s okay for them white bitches o sleep with niggas too. You just can’t come back.” That was a paraphrase but you kinda get it. Lol

Hell, You rarely see corporate white women sleeping with black men. Hell, you rarely see white women remain in the same circles that they were in before PRIOR TO dating black men. Lol. I know a couple of white women who are married to black men, left their lives in the hills, and been in the hood ever since–not doing any better than the black/black relationships. No elevation or anything. 🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️🤷🏾‍♀️ But these male bitches on this blog thing that since black is whack and white is right, they’re winning. Okay. Do you, boo boo. I won’t miss sleep.

I have no intellectual rebuttal, debate, or any of the sort to offer as the topic is fckin beyond old and I don’t have as much energy to waste.

But You niggas sound like bitches. You sound like the very bitches that you despise. Over here crying about how some Black women treat you, how is that any different from the “ghetto black woman” crying about the “Rays Rays” that you claim she loves so much? Lol!

Straight simps. Bitches. Say exactly what it is that you really want to say: you LOVE white women. Don’t make excuses, be real about it, you love white pu$$y. There’s nothing wrong with that. I believe one of Fredrick Douglas’ wives was white (she was one of many white women who he pleaded with to help abolish slavery, btw) so black men needing or wanting white women is nothing new. So, as someone said, your issue isn’t with Black women–per se–it’s that you simply seek validation. And since you can’t get it from most white men (Asians too) then you seek it from white women. Cause that’s also who you’re really mad at–white men. You have to prove that you can take their women. Cause once you’ve taken their women, then you’ve “made it.” Otherwise, why else would you be THIS bitter?! Why else would you care?! Why else would you date non-black women AND still shit on black women?! I never heard Taye Diggs do this, not even Quincy Jones, not even Harry Belefonte.
They took their white women and still stood against the wrong doings of Black people including Black women. BUT, you?! Ha! You want your white bitch and want to rub it in as some sort of prize? Ha. As I’ve stated, say exactly what it is that you want, and then go on about your day.

Because I can promise you that if these types of women are all you see in YOUR personal life then there is something wrong with you? Or are you purposefully paying attention to these types of women while ignoring the Janelle Monaes, Solanges, Ava Duvernys of the world just to prove your point?! If so, even more pathetic. If you are truly sitting up here and saying that you can’t find a healthy balance, or surround yourself around Black women who ARE the Clair Huxtable type rather than the Cardi B type then there is something wrong with you! And I want to know what is it?!!

Lol and you have the nerve to write a book about US? And most likely without any input FROM us. That’s foolish. WHOSE buying the doo doo?! Not this heavy supporter of Black businesses. That’s like Stephen King trying to write a book on why Black Chicago is the way it is. How can it be done without input from us?! Or did you just write it FROM your PERSONAL and emotional mindstate to fit YOUR narrative, and to please your audience?! The other black male bitches in here?! Maybe you should take a note from Hill Harper. Lol. Smh.

I’m really just trying to find out why you’re mad? Now, if it were a white man saying Black men are thugs with no education, no credit, are only good for robberies, all they talk about is killing each other and snorting coke then your little panties would be in a bunch and then you’d break your neck (would probably be damn near in tears) to disprove it, huh?! Actually, they already say that on FOX, CNN, HOWARD STERN, etc and I bet you’re quiet huh?! Lol. Who am I kidding, you’re probably the type that said Trayvon Martin and Mike Brown deserved what they got. If you hate black women this much then I’m wondering how you felt about Sandra Bland? I’m just trying to figure out, why are you mad? I’m trying to figure out why SHIT on all Black women if you have ZERO interest in ever touching or getting with them again?! Lol. You’re the type to get quiet when Marc Lamont or D.L. School you on some shit huh?!

Lol. Better yet, you’re probably the type to quote Muhammad Ali, wear an X (Malcolm) tee, and try to explain what “we” (as in Black men) go through knowing damn well that you haven’t been through shit, and if you have, you’ve turned your back on it a while ago (*hint hint the white bitch on your arm). See, that’s you needing acceptance again. Lol. Or, are you the type to call Serena Williams a sell out for all of the white men she’s dated?! I’m just trying to figure out where you’re coming from, AND WHY you have only experienced the Cardi Bs of the Black community?! WHAT is wrong with YOU?! I’m also trying to figure out why YOURE pushing this narrative so hard when there’s a plethora of BLACK women especially in the PUBLIC eye to disprov this, and have announced their love and support for Black men ?!

Lol. This is WHY I thank GOD every day for the STRONG and educated BLACK men in my life like my Daddy who KNOWS what’s up and educated me on SUCKAS like you a long time ago. AND my BLACK fiancé who also knows what’s up and does not need bullshit blogs like this (like these other boy bitches) for validation in their choices. My fiancé has dated white women before me (because he genuinely liked them and not because he’s a bitter bitch crying over other bitter bitches who might have done him wrong) and I have not a care in the world. 🤷🏾‍♀️ I got the 💍 plus I’ve dated a little Asian and a Latino myself 😜

Just like this blog seems like it’s dedicated to shitting on black women, there’s blogs ran by black women that’s solely dedicated to shitting on black men. 🤷🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️ Fckin dumbasses and crabs.

You won’t get much more energy from me. This is the only dime that I’ll put into your evil, sell out ass pocket (and I’m definitely not calling you a sell out call you love white pussy). Is she at least the Jane Elliot type?!!

I am deeply saddened that one of our own Black males has taken the time to promote the Willie Lynch letter: The Making of a Slave, and use it against his own Black mother, sisters, aunts and every other Black female in this society. Brother, I desperately need you to read the Willie Lynch letter and you will understand just how you came to think the way you do about us. I am highly disappointed in your support of this white woman who totally disrespects us the way she has in this little, ignorant so-called blast of her’s. What are you doing to assist in the rebuilding of our family system and teaching our younger Black men to become men who will take responsibility for their families: Instead, you are using your voice to aid in perpetuating the problems between our Black males and our Black females. I know you mean well, but you need to do something more constructive with your gifts. We don’t need you to pour more fuel on the fire and the war that has been raged against us by the Whites for generations. What do you expect us to do when our males have been conditioned to believe that white women are more desirable than their own Beautiful, Black women? For years, the media and the Hollywood industry have flaunted their white women before the screen, convincing our young Black male children that these are the women you should desire more than any other. Thus, our young females grow up to believe the same and try to find ways to emulate these images that have been imprinted in their minds at a very early age. You are a product of this conditioning, mind control by the Whites. I feel sorry for you, son!

This is the most blatant disrespect from you, my Black brother to allow this white trashy, woman to spew this sort of rhetoric degrading Black women, and you didn’t have any better sense than to repost her crap! I can honestly say, that I am a single mother; however, it wasn’t by choice, but I did a heck of a good job in raising my 3 children to become productive members of society. I went back to school and received a Master Degree while working and raising my children, all at the same time. It’s not because I didn’t want a Black man, it’s because I wanted my children to grow up without all the negative drama that sometimes come with relationships, especially unhealthy relationships. I refuse to allow you and that low-classed white woman to put Black women who are struggling to raise their kids to define who we are as women. If it wasn’t for a Black woman giving birth to you, you wouldn’t be here on this earth to write mess like this. I can only believe that your mother and the other women in your family are deeply ashamed of you for the way you perceives your own women of color.

I will not use this platform to degrade our Black men for choosing white women over us, but I be darn if I will allow you to blame us for those choices. Honestly, you are not helping the situation by planting more negative seeds into the minds of our men and children. Why am I wasting my time responding to this mess? Well, it’s because my heart is broken, not over what that classless woman wrote, but what you have written, which may have some ring of truth in some ways, but it’s filled with perpetuated, stereotypical, generalizations and BS. What’s wrong with you, my Black brother?

We are God’ chosen people, why do you think the whites fights so hard to cause devastation and division in our lives, pitting our Black males against our Black females. You can play their blame game, but we all share in the responsibility for the break-up of our family system. Some white women envy our God-given beauty. Why do you think they go through the extreme of plastic surgery to enhance their lips, butts, breasts, face and baking themselves in the sun or tanning beds to become more like us. They envy us and desire to take our Black men in an effort to become even more like us. Get a grip, look around you and see how high the divorce rates are between those high profiles, celebrity, Black men leaving their Black wives to marry those white women. They take them for as much money as they can get and take it back to their white men; live happily ever after on the sweat of the brows of the superstar, Black males. Some are left with nothing to offer a Black queen when that white woman gets done with him. Take a look at OJ, Tiger Woods, etc.; they’re broken men, wounded by their lives with the white woman because they bought into the lies that the Willie Lynch Letter and the Media purposed to them. Sad, indeed! Read the Willie Lynch letter and then you are welcome to get back to me with whatever ignorant response you many conjure up, okay? May God bless you, Brother and open your eyes to see what’s hidden in plain view. God said, His people perish for like of knowledge, and so I see exactly what He is talking about.

Can we just draw a line here. When you talk about blacks like that you need to specify that you’re talking about BLACK AMERICANS. The rest of us blacks around the world are nothing like the stereostereotypes you mention. Male or female. We don’t walk like you, talk like you or act like you. And we don’t like being dragged into your cesspool and being compared and grouped with you. We’re not like you. We don’t have your inferiority complexes and we don’t think getting a white partner makes us more respected in the community. Best of all we don’t bash our women.

This is an international problem, it isn’t only black American women who are dysfunctional, many black women from non westernised countries are following her lead, women who come from Nigeria are a prime example.

In case anyone reading this, is only exposed to ONE type of woman and isn’t aware that women are diverse and as such these gross generalizations make no sense, here are some examples of the different types of black women out there https://un-ruly.com/features/working-girl/

Happy Malcolm X and Lorraine Hansberry day. Know your history and you won’t fall for this GARBAGE. The author is ignorant of actual facts or she is a racist, probably both. I suspect she coaches her racism as disdain for Black women. Every single assertion in the piece is either false or misleading. I’ll just make a few brief points: First, the overwhelming majority of Black people marry Black people. Second, the author ignores the fact that her racial group, white people, are responsible for the decimation of Black families. Black men were frequently lynched and/or mutilated. Black women were frequently raped.

Recall, for example, the first chapter of Malcolm X. His grandmother was raped by a white man, his father and four uncles were killed by white men, his family was destroyed by the white-controlled state. Third, the idea that women dont need men is a white feminist idea. A subset of white feminists believe the men are the enemy, that marraige enslaves women, etc.

Fourth, the US is a white male patriarchal-supremacist nation that is butressed by the intimate partners of white men–the white woman. The white male patriarchal system deems Black men are a perpetual threat to white male power. Thus, and this is key, Black men are attacked and oppressed in specific ways *because of their gender*. This vital point often gets lost in our discussions of “intersectionality” wherein we dont theorize how Black men are victims of intersectional oppression. Black men, for example, are criminalized as youth and ensnared in what’s called the “school-to-prison pipeline.” Consequently, one million Black men are “missing”:

Black man, love the Black woman. Black woman, love the Black man. The racist white system wants to divide us to destroy us.

Well, im gonna write the article about why it’s just fine that white women are “snatching up” black men titled “You Can Have His Sorry Ass”. Because that same dysfunction will someday surface in that same black man you want so bad. You see, he was BORN from a black woman & most likely RAISED by her too. So the black woman you hold yourselves so superior over, will be the same black woman you’ll have to interact with as a result of loving her black man. Oh, & dont forget his sisters, cousins, etc. They are also the same black women you refer to as bottom-feeder degenerates. Good luck fostering a functional & productive relationship with a man who is a direct sum of all of this so-called “dysfunction”. She did a good enough job for you to desire her son. So…. you cant love a black man & hate the women in his life who made him that awesome coveted man you so proudly claim as your own. This is contradiction & ignorance at its FINEST. THANK YOU AGAIN FOR PAYING ATTENTION TO US. WE KNOW HOW INTERESTING & INTRIGUING WE CAN BE. YOU WHITE WOMEN HAVE ALWAYS GOTTEN YOUR KICKS OUT OF DOWNPLAYING A BLACK WOMENS BEAUTY, PURPOSE & AMBITIONS BECAUSE WE ARE A THREAT. NON-WHITE MEN LOVE US TOO. THEY PAY ATTENTION JUST LIKE YOU. SO THE EMPTY SPACE YOU LEAVE CHASING AFTER THAT BLACK MAN, NON-BLACK MEN ARE EAGER TO FILL WITH THE STRENGTH & GRACEFUL BEAUTY OF THAT SAME BLACK WOMAN YOU DESPISE.

This White Queen’s sure got the bitter, black sistahood in formation. B*tches writing multiple long-winded essays and sh*t. “Educated” black queens writing run-on, misspelled sentences! LOL! I visited this topic back in March and it’s still going. The snow bunny struck a nerve with these heathens! GOOD! They deserve it!

I also love the Captain Save-a-Hoe simp brigade who’s posting as well. They never refer to a wife or girlfriend, which tells me they get nothing in return from black women for their blind simping and pandering.

Note how the white girl stands up for “real, educated” black men while the women who are supposed to be our counterparts do nothing but drag us. Pulling stats out of their asses like their racist, white daddy taught them to do. That tells you all you need to know.

Jasmine, I made no mistakes in what I wrote, but nice try! By all means, keep playing Grammar Nazi (somehow making writing mistakes while so-called pointing out mine, hahaha) while your black men are being snatched up by beautiful, appreciative white women.

Notice how these black women who are supposed to be so great and a cut above the rest are jumping in so quickly to defend those scum black females who fit the demographic. Why would they defend such malevolent characters unless some of these degenerate character traits reside within them aswell. Out of so many so called “queens” maybe one or two have been honest enough to admit that these types of women are very common within black female society.

This goes back to what I talked about in Negro Wars, how black women much like racist white men will defend decadent members of the black sisterhood no matter what. When black society was ran by black men they instructed us to steer clear of the scum and the trash of the black community, now that these communities are run by black women, they do the opposite and instruct black folks to embrace, uplift and exalt the bad apples.

This is why my conversations with black women are very rare as black women stay dishonest. Have you noticed that not one of them has stated that the white woman was lying, they know themselves that they treat decent black men like garbage, most of these women commenting no doubt are single and have children. It’s exactly what you said bro, non black women seek out the best black men to have as companions whereas black women will seek out the trash to open their legs to.

They can quote stats all they want, this doesn’t change the grim fate that awaits them coming to an area near you very soon. The reprobate sisterhood strikes again, the fact that so many of these black women came out and called her a white bitch speaks volumes. They love claiming that whites are racist but then are the first to call white folks honkies, crackers, white bitches etc. Do you see how immaturely the overwhelming majority of them approached the subject matter, what does this tell us about the quality of character they possess?

This is why black women as a collective stay losing, they believed that they could treat black men like garbage forever and that we would equally tolerate such bad behaviour. Not anymore, thinking black men are moving onwards and upwards realising that they can do much better for themselves. Let the simps fight among themselves for these leftovers. #SYSBMFORLIFE.

Have you seen where black actress Aisha Tyler’s white husband of 20 years is divorcing her and getting a $3 Million dollar spousal support payout as well as half of all community property? When bedwenching goes wrong. Black women are taking full-on body blows in 2017. They brought it on themselves, and it’s a beautiful thing to behold.

Laughing at this article (which I did read to the end) hate letters are not my thing! I feel so sorry for you. I could care less for your analogy of my race … this is part and parcel of the BS propaganda that the world continues to use to keep us afraid and obviously angry so we will “act up and lash out” and give truth to your words. I wonder, is your mother included in the group of unworthy black women?!?

The comment from the “white” woman I can care less about. Walk a mile in my shoes and then judge me her opinion is just that HER opinion and holds no weight in my life and the other black women I know … your article does not represent me! Black women have been and continue to be at the bottom of the totem pole for generations nothing good is rarely said about us … and you wonder why we mad. Bruh come on … seriously??? I find this indicative of our culture bash along with every other race so you would stand out and not be “perceived” as one of those blacks!

I know who I am and refuse to let the opinion, words and actions of others tell me who I am! I am a woman 1st and foremost the color of my skin does represent me nor dictate my actions. It is so sad that we are always under a microscope and made to feel unworthy and everyone seems to think that it is okay.

Just like the Phoenix we “black” women will rise from the ashes of your bigotry and hate. You will see our beauty and acknowledge our strength … it will radiate from every pore in our wonderfully made bodies and coated in our dark sun kissed skin for all to behold.

Don’t sleep on the black woman we possess a strength that you know nothing about!

There is an overwhelming disturbance and turmoil in the mind of the man who wrote this piece. Let us join hands and ask for some kind of divine intervention to strike him with some semblance of self love so he learns how to stop humiliating and dishonouring his black mother (and all of the sistas).
Then let us leave him on the naughty step (a minute for each year of his life) to think about the pain he has caused, not just to black women, but to himself.
I’m not even mad at him, just very disappointed and feeling sorry for him.

Lets stop acting like these white bitches dont wear tracks in their lice infested ass scalps. Stop acting lile white bitches dont have kids bu no nothing ass white men. This post was made by a nigga who dont even date black women because he was to fucking weak and needed a bitch to control nigga foh coon ass nigga

So Verbs, if he is black, has severe mommy issues. I read this article and was stunned that someone really took the time out to write this nonsense. Like why would you degrade any woman like that? Black white brown purple. When you degrade the black woman you just degrade all of the human race and that’s sad. There were no facts stated in this article. I even scrolled down the thread and I commend all my sister for their insightful discourse. Some of yall were ratchet but said the same thing as the other sisters. Thank you to the brothers who came in our defense as well.. Why so angry? Why so hateful. Like I imagine you now as one of the characters from an SVU episode who go on raping sprees because they have trouble getting it up in a regular healthy relationship. No one cares if you like Becky over Raquel like seriously but don’t put what you attract on the entire populous. We birthed this entire world and you should at least respect us for this. It is from the womb of a black woman that all man came from. The oldest fossils ever found are female and African. Subsaharan Africans have no DNA that matches the Neandrathal and yet their DNA sequence is found through out all nations and groups of people. Yet you have the nerve to say you are uncovering truths? No my dear sweet child. It’s time to leave Never Never Land and grow up. You can not be the leader of the lost boys forever. I pray you that become sterile and never have children of any woman of any race. No one needs to be exposed to this type of ignorance. This type of behavior is what murderers and rapists and sociopaths are made of. It’s sick that a child would come on here talking like that. Please stop while you’re ahead. What you put out into the world you will get back 10 fold in one way or other. You keep putting this kind of ugliness out and you will die from it. I can promise you that.

My problems. I get married on the 28th… Shocking, huh??? A black man marrying a black woman and adding to the 86% who have already married a fellow black woman. So broken, I am not… But you dear, you may need to get a REALITY check in how black men are actually viewed in this world. You’re the target for the war in drugs and mass incarceration and high unemployment, yet you want to gain another enemy. The black woman… by all means carry on bashing, when we jump in and bash you and it stand at the forefront of BLM, I guess Becky and Mary Ann are going to take our place.lol NEGATIVE!!!

This whole movement has to be a joke right? What in the coonNation is going here? What in tha boule back stabbing, bedwenching, Uncle Tom, and mental illness is going on here. Have you all carefully studied genetics and systematic oppression? Apparently not. To be a “Soular Being” is the greatest gift known to man if you live in a Soul/Solar system…get it? Apparently you don’t. We are who we are and making comments on people that’s not spiritually awake/aware isn’t fair at all. I tell you what…lets hit the “reset button”. Take away all money and privilege. Then…let’s see your comments then. Hopefully Ashton Kutcher made this article up as a joke because that’s what it is. A horrible nightmare of a joke. Smh.

For every black woman who reports a rape, at least 15 do not report (Bureau of Justice Statistics, 2009)

Beyond these facts are our personal narratives on the issues of pedophilia and sexual violence (which also go hand-in-hand) in the black community. If you gather 10 black women in a room, it is likely that at least nine have been victims of pedophilia, street harassment, and/or sexual assault; or they have a friend, cousin, sister, aunt, mother, or grandmother who has been victimized.”

Okay, so a teen or adolescent girl being raped by a grown man is a result of what? What have these victims done (all 60% of them) as a child t deserve rape. And if the majority of black women suffered this abuse at a young age, wouldn’t this “dysfunctional behavior” be the cause and result you speak of/claim? When will you write an article on the dysfunctional behavior of black men and address these facts to help AA as a whole?

Its really, really heartbreaking to see our black brothers and sister arguing, name calling, and fighting in this thread. Rather than settle our differences, and come to a solution. Stop perpetuating, and come together family…

I can attest as a black man, this is the most uninformed, mindless, immature and ignorant post I’ve seen in a while. You are either a white supremacist in disguise or a black man who was too stuipid to realize he was chasing the wrong black women and now because he was hurt and bitter feels like he needs to generalize all of them as a whole. Oh I’m a simp now right? News flash, the same way i am defending black women, you are praising this white woman meaning you are the real simp to white women. Almost everything you mentioned is easily identifiable in other races of women especially white women contrary to what this whores post will tell you. White men will gladly tell You how a lot of their women are hoes, look terrible without makeup, have emotional problems, or treat them like crap I am talking from experience from what they tell me. You think black women’s attitudes are driving us away and our women at the worst? White men are PISSED with white women rn because of feminism. MGTOW and the alt right is evidence of this. White men are now chasing after Asian women because they feel as if they are more submissive because their women are too aggressive now because of feminism. But here you are acting like everything with white people is fine and dandy and trying to promote this the grass is greener on the other side bullshit. You gonna mention the heroine epidemic killing large amounts of white parents leaving the kids with no role model? No, because you have been properly conditioned to hate your own and think white people are the standard and you will ignore every wrong white women or people do. You are no better than a white supremacist. You are a weak sorry excuse for a man consigning this hateful racist piece of garbage. How will your sisters and mothers feel if they know you say some ignorant crap like this? And you over here acting like black men have collectively all decided to abandon black women. BULLSHIT it is only you weak ass brainwashed ones that are pushing this. Most successful black men and black men in general still settle down with black women look it up instead of basing it off of Hollywood and entertainers who do not live the same lives as the rest of us so they are not the standard. I’m so sick of seeing this crap and now i and many other black men in great relationships with black women gotta convince our sister’s, daughters etc. who don’t fit any of the stereotypes you mentioned that they are loved. Yes there are terrible black women out there who do brothers wrong. But you are generalizing all black women while not doing the same for other races of women and even us black men. You ever stop and think that maybe YOU are the problem? If you have bad experiences with all these black women the common denominator is you, you probably need to check what kinds of black women you are chasing after and even how you are treating them. Stop believing what you see on housewives of atlanta and love and hip hop and the media that paints black women in a negative light and actually learn how to seek out a proper mate and how to properly treat her.

This BLACK and WHITE thing has to STOP! These White women look DUMB as hell DOING this. Either get with a MAN of ANY color and be HAPPY. Otherwise SHUT the F up! They do know MANY BLACK women are with BLACK as hell men………?

Verbs12 is doing a new serious victim blaming!!! Girls, 18 and under which have been victims of rape (60% of black women) are to blame for their assault. And the women who are victims of domestic violence are to blame because of their deaths as a result of black women’s behavior. Yes, u are a sad individual.

Typical black female behaviour, always evading accountability and responsibility. This is one of the main reasons why black women will have to drink down their cup of judgement undiluted at full strength. Most of you black women stay making excuses from the fallout of the skullduggery you yourselves created.

Verb12… Please help your fellow black men with their desires to rape, beat and sexually abuse children and women. How can an individual defend rape? You have the highest statistics in rape, domestic violence, murder and robbery, yet have the nerve to call us scumbags. Lol

Lies on the domestic violence and rape, most domestic violence and rape cases are lead by whites, this is why I rarely converse with black women, you stay dishonest and you still don’t want to deal with the causes.

Okay, so a teen or adolescent girl being raped by a grown man is a result of what? What have these victims done (all 60% of them) as a child t deserve rape. And if the majority of black women suffered this abuse at a young age, wouldn’t this “dysfunctional behavior” be the cause and result you speak of/claim? When will you write an article on the dysfunctional behavior of black men and address these facts to help AA as a whole?

Made by black women or the lack of fathers in the black community that neglected to help raise their sons and helped create the dysfunctional behavior that the majority of black men have. We all know the stereotypes on how black men abandon their kids.

No you are wrong about that, dyfunctional black men are the product of white supremacist system, incarceration, discrimination, hate,etc all plays a part with that, I seem black women raise up outstanding black men, you got some deep stereotypes coming from the colonial days

“The sculldugorey we created ourselves”.. so we forced men to forcefully shove their genitalia in us without consent? Black men’s behavior towards​ rape is an example of the servant repeating the actions if his former Master. The slave owners raped and bear us just like our men do.

The victimhood card doesn’t work here, sista. Black women decided that they didn’t need no man. Maybe if your no-good babymamas hadn’t run off the fathers, one would have been there to protect you from rape. As somebody who’s not a rapist, your trauma isn’t my responsibility to fix, and none of your deflections negate what the White Queen said in her original post. Ya’ll hoes ain’t shit and even the white girls can see it.

I’ll be married in a week… The last thing I’d want, if I wasn’t, is a person of your character… If you ever were a victim of police brutality, I wonder if Becky would jump right on the next black genitalia or be at the forefront of BLM. I DOUBT IT!!!

this is the dumbest shyt i’ve ever read. you must not be in America. here is the good ole US of A black women are the most educated group;as i sit here and write with my Master’s degree in hand. ughhhhh is all i can really say about this article.

The CAUSES of black women reflection of any kind of “negative” behavior is a result of childhood abuse and the neglect of a decent Father in our lives… If that’s not a logical cause and you deal with “cause”. What’s the cause of black women’s​ dysfunctional behavior and how does their childhood NOT play a part. And based on that cause, how are you helping the situation by calling people scumbags? What does that say about your character?

If 1 in 4 black women will be a victim of sexual assault and for every 1 rape reported 15 more occur towards a black woman that go unreported, and according to you, no other race wants us, who d you think is raping the majority of black women. You are the leaders of rape is black women are raped disproportionately to whites. Don’t play dumb!

“The Department of Justice estimates that for every white woman that reports her rape, at least 5 white women do not report theirs; and yet, for every African-American woman that reports her rape, at least 15 African-American women do not report theirs.

There are many reasons why Black women may choose not to report incidences of sexual assault. Survivors of all races often fear that they will not be believed or will be blamed for their attack, but Black women face unique challenges.

Historically, law enforcement has been used to control African-American communities through brutality and racial profiling. It may be difficult for a Black woman to seek help if she feels it could be at the expense of African-American men or her community. The history of racial injustice (particularly the stereotype of the Black male as a sexual predator) and the need to protect her community from further attack might persuade a survivor to remain silent.”

“African-American women are raped at a higher rate than White women, and are less likely to report it. We have suffered in silence far too long,” she says.

Notice the last sentence in the third paragraph, no matter how much ridicule and hurt we endure from black men, it’s still our nature to protect.

I promote facts whether it’s an adult male or female. He’s aware of my pass, time while he’s celebrating his bachelor party. I update him on the foolishness I read when he calls to check-in. Crazy, his perception of black women vastly differs from yours and he said he would NEVER date a white woman. Your agenda to turn black men and women against one another only works in the weak minded with a false perception if reality, limited logical thinking, close minded, hate rejection and anger easily when majority black women don’t find them attractive. You chuckle at the fact white men don’t find us attractive… Funny thing is, they don’t even find the white women that have dated black men attractive. Once they go black, it’s not that they don’t go back, it’s they can’t go back and they’re stuck dating black men forever by default. White men view black men as animals and shun them from the dating pool once they’ve dated you black men.. so don’t think you’re they’re preference, you’re their only option after they’ve dabbed in the coffee!!! White men don’t want them either after you!!!

Well I’ve been married to my wonderful well educated black man for 21 years now. I’m black too by the way. He was 21 and I was 20 when we got married. I also know many other black couples that have been married for over 10 plus years. I grew up without a father, was molested and then in high school I was gang raped. I have a right to be angry. That doesn’t define me and it doesn’t for a lot of us. It saddens me to know that this is how some of our own men see us. Those with strong delusions will never have a change of heart or see their own delusion. Good luck and may The Most High give you wisdom.

The Female is the weaker sex as stated in the KJB….But the only weakness that a female has is in emotion’s. Everything else they are strong in, just like a man…A man identifies with a woman by what he SEE’S….A woman identifies by what he say’s to her. Very complex creature indeed…..however, it’s not in the black or white, or any other race. It’s about what makes you happy, and who is willing to put up with a man’s dumb shit without retaliation. Not all white men have small dicks, and mostly all men penis’s are about the same size. So don’t think that play’s a part in anything. All this to say VERB….why didn’t you give 12 good reasons to keep a black woman, and how we as black men can turn this thing around…..We’ve always had hoe’s, of all colors, some just are not afraid to show it. But, in my opinion doesn’t make her any less a black queen. All she does is fuck more than others, and she may like variety…Truthfully, those hoes are the ones that teaches all the other women what needs to be done in bed, and how it needs to be done. I see your point from a black man’s point of view, but, we will never obtain unity by putting down, the one that put us all here. Education……well, true, you need someone that is on your level. Conversation is tough when, your partner can’t effectively communicate. And your right, when a black women gets a degree, for some reason, they consider themselves a strong black woman….when all the while, (with the ones I’ve dealt with) they are dumb as hell in bed, in common sense, and the only thing that sustains them is the hole between their legs. But, you don’t treat them less then the queen they are, you just know what level she is on…..You can make C- in every subject and still graduate, it doesn’t make you smarter, nor does it develop common sense. Hope this Helps Ya’ll

I was almost with you lol. Education doesn’t make you a strong black anything, what you want through to get that education can contribute to or be an expression of that strength. While I’ve never been a hoe, I’m sure my husband would agree that we don’t lack skills in that area. The chicks with education and no commonsense didn’t have commonsense b4 they got their degree. Lol in reading your response you started to defend us and then insulted us… Thanks for trying?

Why does it matter what our men are doing, it’s not her responsibility to speak for the misinformation she gets from the social media, she can mind her business, never ever put down your brothers and sisters in front of a white man/woman or enemy, you’ll look foolish. I’m not giving up on my brother I love my black man, the most hated but loved, feared and envied and copied of all time she and whoever agrees with her can kick rocks. Lol why is this even being argued or agreed upon she’s irrelevant.

Are we talking about NORTH AMERICAN black women, or ALL black women in the world…please specify. Not all black women can identify with this mess. I am sick of American black women being used to measure black women everywhere…please stop.

Yes in your book…..Somebody damn sure did a number on you, self hate is what you got, and this is coming back from back in the day..and dont tell me it was in the past , alot of those traits how black people were taught by your ever loving white supremacy is still there

Lying charlatan, I cleared that up right from the beginning, in the introduction 2 paragraph I stated that this doesn’t apply to “all black women” but to those who fit the demographic. This is why my conversations with black women are very rare, you black females stay lying your mouths off and making up stuff that simply isn’t there. Keep it moving with the self hate nonsense, you can’t redefine terms.

It is crazy that any educated Black man would want an ignorant white woman who can’t even use correct grammar or sentence structure, which shows she lack a proper education. Educated white women are less likely to write such degrading and ignorant comments. It’s no secret that white women desire our Black men, even during slavery; they would have sexual relations with our men and the master who do the same to the Black women. White men still love Black women and here’s proof:

I’m so appalled by this. Really blaming the black woman? I am 30 years old and let me just say this, most black, white, Mexican people I know had no male role models. Men are quick to jump ship for a better ass or bigger tits or because they don’t care about structure that woman try to make. Stop blaming us because you are weak. We are broken as a community and instead of pointing broken fingers be a mentor and teach the younger generation that black men are not all drug dealers or rappers. That woman’s post is horrible and sharing it as a person of color you sir should be ashamed. Stop being bitter and build black up. Couldn’t be slavery or segregation that destroyed our families it was feminism? I guess only men should have freedom.

I don’t know who it was or what it was, but someone hurt you. Deeply. My heart hurts reading the pain, anger and disappointment illustrated in this article. I am sorry for what you have experienced. Nonetheless, you are still mine – my son, brother, husband, father, relative, neighbor. I will never disown, degrade or abandon you. We will never give up on you. And we love you. ❤️

This is not entirely true. You have good black women that support educated well mannered and goal achieving black men. It’s not fair all black women get categorized when it all black women are the same. Have you ever once stopped to think that most white women do the same thing to white guys? Did you notice I said most and not all. I am 20 years old and even I can tell you that what you wrote and what that white girl wrote is complete bullshit. Don’t shame all black women because it’s still very many good ones out there. Anybody can say a man is no good but just because one female says it doesn’t mean the next one will. Stop with the one way thinking. This goes for every race not just black women.

Scrolling through my tl and here we go with the fuckery. Do any of my nappy headed, bald headed, baby making, man hating black queens have anything to say about this??? I’ll start… *clears throat* first off black women aren’t talking about needing babies to add on to their already high stress levels. Of you’re going to talk mess make sure you don’t include the black queens that refuse to just settle with any black men. I can see your white so how about this little tid bit. There are also immature white girls that believe “acting black” makes more black boys want to get with them and pick up the”black girl” mentality. Now I’d appreciate it if you addressed the half naked women in general (referring to all the ethnicities that do it) that post twerk videos of themselves “fucking it up” and leave us real black queens alone. Because it’s not JUST a BLACK WOMAN thing. There’s ignorance in all shades. *whispers* even the white community too. Thank you😘 bye bye💯🐸☕

Wow.. Author of this post is sytematically lulled and unintelligent to make a blatant blanket statement generalizing black women.. I could rebuttal several statements, but no time at moment..one day maybe.. I know that some of the statements made as far as black women being attacked in negative light by white women, if you are a black man as you claim, then you should have stood up against that. If you feel that black women have problems with y9u being yourself, maybe that is your insecurity feeling unmanly because you yourself also believe the stereotype that some black women believe and use as a crutch when they are unfortunately left alone or may have been scarred by men in their life so now have made decision to rule the household as well as run it. It is just sad to see that there are weak black men who are blind to their own weakness and in denial about wanting to be like the white man.. How ’bout that?… Hmmmmmmm

You sound ridiculous, that’s like a criminal in the dock rejecting all of the evidence presented again him/her and feeling that he/she somehow has the right to determine how the proof is presented and in what format. Don’t you see how stupid you sound and look?

Element came to comment that she can’t comment, yet makes a comment nevertheless. I only come on this site to talk about things that concern both black men and women. As this is predominantly a man’s blog I tend to keep out.

This is why black women are perpetually in a state of confusion. They refuse to know their place. Black Women, PLEASE DO what God designed you to do and leave the men to do what God designed them to do. After all, women were created FOR the man and to be his HELP MEET. Yet black women are NEVER be happy to just do just that………………..bare problems from life till death…………………….it’s too much……..STOP FULFILLING WILLIE LYNCH’ES WET DREAM FRO GOD’S SAKE……………….

This is an interesting take on Why Black Men date outside of their race. Some points are very valid and some are not. As an intelligent Black woman, who would love to share her life with an intelligent Black man, it has been my experience that our Black intelligent men do not want an equally intelligent and empowered black woman that knows who she is and her purpose in life. I don’t wear weave or try to emulate Becky with the good hair. However, like millions of intelligent, strong, independent Black women around the world, it is our intelligence, strength and independence that serves as a weakness when it comes to being in a long-loving relationship with a Black Man. Black Men in general want more docile, passive, co-depenent women that will not speak up, stand-up or be opinionated like most of our Black women are. Other cultures and races, Caucasian, Asian, Hispanic, Europeans, and Africans teach and treat their women to be sub-serviant to men ( like second class citizens). Yet, Black women raised in America, have had to be strong and independent since Slavery when the Slave-Master would beat, whip and kill our black men and then literally Rape us of not only our dignity, but mentally, spiritually and sexually against our will. Black women had to become strong to endure the pain and suffering of Slavery in order to hold our families together and keep our children alive, healthy and protected from the White man’s Curse to destroy the Black Family!

What we are witnessing today with our Black men Flocking to the arms of non-Black women is the residual effects the that White man’s Curse to destroy the Black Family, and Black men in their weakness has succumbed to it without everything realizing that they are being targeted by a Generational Curse that started over 400 years ago – Genocide. Black Men are giving white men exactly what they want when they love and marry outside of their race!

So, while Black men continue to flock to Becky with the good hair, you are being played in a chess game to destroy the future of your culture and disrespect your ancestors and the plight that they had to endure so that you could be free!

This is your average black woman today, a reprobate who believes that this type of behaviour is acceptable. In black women’s daily efforts to emulate white women its a pity that they haven’t taken onboard their femininity. This type of behaviour IS NOT NORMAL, no black man is obligated to tolerate such degeneracy, hence the reason why many more of us are heading in the direction of white and other non black females:

The article has been up since September 2016, the article was written for thinking black men, I don’t reach out to black women since they have made it clear that they enjoy wallowing in their own filth and that they are not interested in changing for the better. We thinking black men moved on years ago and we haven’t looked back since.

I don’t like fake ass women, whether black, or white. Personally, i’m not a fan of the weave, or strangely unnaturally colored hair. Not a fan of women who think they have to shout their independence from the rooftops. Not a fan of women, whom when you call out their controlling ways, they automatically say you’re just not strong enough for them, as if strength means taking someone else’s shit. We all have a long way to go, but worrying about who someone else is dating serves no real purpose. If I see a black woman with a white man, it does not phase me one way, or the other. I say God speed, and more power to them. because i’m not insecure. Let’s all stop contradicting ourselves. If you really strong, and independent, stop worrying about what someone else is doing.

Black women know that black men are the only individuals who will date and marry them en mass, this is why they are forever sticking their noses into our dating and marriage affairs believing they have a right to meddle in our preferences. Black women are not strong at all, they are the weakest women on the planet. All they have left are guilt tripping and shaming tactics in trying to persuade black men not to abandon them, however it’s now too late. The ball got rolling a long time ago and it is only gathering more speed as each day passes.

Lol. I think you have an obsession with black women!!! You repeat the same rhetoric over and over.. we sure to use a lot of your energy for someone who doesn’t even date us.. so angry and so pressed. Like Ella would say, “let it go”!!!

As a black woman it breaks my heart to see that your experiences with a small group of black women has made you come to the negative conclusion about black women. Sometimes our negative experiences are due to a repeat of chasing the wrong people. I can easily say black men are nothing but liars, cheaters, lazy, no good men because of negative experiences I personally have had. However, despite my experiences i still believe there are good black men in this world and I would never label all simply because of a few bad apples. I had to take a step back and say maybe I’m the reason I’m not finding the right black man. By taking a step back I discovered my error in finding the right one. Myself and my circle of black women have never fixed our mouths to say we do not need a man. We are all loving, educated, black women looking for love from our black men but we often find ourselves scratching our heads about why black men don’t want us. I’m insulted by this article because this false representation of what black women are about will only continue to make the black woman undesirable. Before you give up on us take a step back and look at yourself and then look at how you go about choosing your women and maybe then you will figure out why you haven’t found your black queen.

Well let’s look at the statistics black women and white men has the highest numbers of marriage to actually last black men and white women has the least numbers of lasting with anyone including their own and together they have the worst statistic’s so the problem is not the black women it is the black man they need to get their shit and the white women might want to stfu because she can’t make it work with no one both them are the issues in failing marriages and relationships so don’t blame the black women blame your thirsty self and that is statistically speaking

This woman (who happens to be white) is dumb, and this author (who happens to know how to write) is dumber. As a black woman: Empress of the Earth, I couldn’t read through one-fifth of this nonsense. My superior mind couldn’t absorb this garbage – which is what she and the author are promoting. Put simply, to regard the “Original Woman” as anything less than Divine, they must be envious, jealous, and haters of all good.

Original woman, yet here black women are walking into abortion clinics and killing on average 1876 unborn children per day, what kind of killer empresses are you lot and how does the assassination of the unborn fit in with your supposed title of “mother earth”?

No, its simply a case of you being unable to refute the contents just like everybody else, so you feel that you can have some sort of minor victory if you attack the messenger instead, lame.

Oh, it’s been refuted, and the response was a bunch of bs generalizations by a scorned black man who is obsessed with rhetoric about black women! What the hell is a “black thinking man” anyway? Because you’re giving the impression that most black men aren’t thinkers with that statement

This woman (who happens to be white) is dumb, and this author (who happens to know how to write) is dumber. As a black woman: Empress of the Earth, I couldn’t read through one-fifth of this nonsense. My superior mind couldn’t absorb this garbage – which is what she and the author are promoting. Put simply, to regard the “Original Woman” as anything less than Divine, they must be envious, jealous, and haters of all good.

this article is infuriating smh it groups ALL black women together as if we’re all the same and it paints an ugly picture…I’m sure there are women out there like he described but I don’t think they make up the majority of black women smh what hurts the most is that these ignorant words and opinions come from the mouth of a black man 😢 black men and women have been judged, talked about and looked down on for generations because of the color of our skin and at some point we ourselves began to believe the negative stereotypes and this article exemplifies that. it’s heartbreaking

What a waist of time… you don’t have more important things to do but focus on putting black women down. You’re out of line and you have no idea what’s it’s like to be a BEAUTIFUL BLACK WOMEN and neither does your white girl. Grow the fuck up!!! Stop being a problem in society and be the solution. There’s always a reason why people are the way they are, so stereotyping shit. You are the problem!!

I find it appalling that you so called black men, who feel this way about your black women is sicking.Then, on top of that you agree with these, let be nice; white women. I say that being that your mother I am sure in most cases gave birth to your ignorant butt. We as black women have it hard enough just being black. Also, their are black women who educated, smart, and beautiful inside and out. Beauty is more than just how someone looks. I love my black men and always have all of them. Yes, you white women take care of our black men and that is the problem. Also, if you are going to be speaking so harshly you should “recognize.” how to spell. I hope you are not one of our educated brothers.

I highly doubt the house nigga that wrote this is black apparently he hasn’t been in the real world for a while and considering he dont date black women i mean black women dont date him i know that he dont know what hes talking about…

Small groups of black women yet most black women are single, who are you trying to fool? Before the internet you could run with that “small groups of black women” garbage, not anymore pal. It’s shines like you who’ll call me a coon yet you won’t call out the multitude of pastors or other simp/pimps like Derrick Jaxn, Ebrahim Aseem, Jacob Michael Mason, Angel Ramirez Jordan etc who are openly pimping black women as we speak. Typical weak black male behaviour.

i would just like to know, what BLACK woman didn’t choose you?..a totally legitimate question. i say that because to take a negative inquisition from your stand point i assume, on a very generalized group of people (black women) seems to come from a personal perspective. Now granted who you choose to spend your life with, fulfill you, complete you, understand you…is totally up to you. But to characterize Black Women as a whole is a stigma that will not be accepted.Not today, not ever! See the problem is no one likes to own up to any mistake or problem that they have caused or contributed to , that doesn’t make them less than or more of. However to rant on as if you’ve been with every BLACK woman under the sun is not only a short lived statement but a very ignorant one at that. Every strong Black woman that i know, has supported a strong Black man in one way or the other. Not only supported Him but gracefully stood beside her King in all mannerism and form of life. Now i don’t know what experience you had to give you such a negative view of who we are as Black Women, but let me just give you a few of who we are as women black or white, especially when we team up with a strong black man or any man! We are fearless, we are over comers, we strive for greatness in our own way at all cost, we don’t give up or settle for degrading and senseless connotation that life (people) sometimes categorize us in! We are optimistic for our future and the future of our children! we are nurturers, we care for life and the beautifully flawed paintings it will create on a broken canvas. So again what degrees you to even perpetuate such a fabricated consensus of who you think we are or what we deserve?!.

Part of is thinking ‘bitch get in your lane and stay there’ the other part is nodding her head in agreement with whoever wrote “… black women refer to other black women who sport their natural hair as “nappy heads”. They also label their children who have natural hair as “nappy heads” all the time…”

This article exposes a lot of biases some that we (black women as a race) face and some that are projected onto us. Black women do spend an exorbitant amount on weaves but I know more than a couple weave wearing, black dope dealer loving, child abusing ‘Beckies’ too…

well all I have to say when that black man get mad at the white woman and she call him the n word and he just push her down she call the police and said rape he gone black women have moral and not going to take alots of mess off them they can be poor and be with that black woman who encrougae him but as soon he get on his feet and make that money he go get him a white women but if he become broke she gone. they not with because he a black man they with them cause their finance.

After reading this, I am quite disturbed. The fact that you are bashing all “black” women in general is so wrong. I am a black woman, never have I ever been attracted to a man that sells drugs. For one I don’t like trouble at my door yet along be with someone that does drugs. I prefer an educated black man because that shows me that he wants to do something in his life. I definitely do not want to having babies and collecting money from the government. I have always been the woman who works for her things, not for them to be given. The comment about nappy heads is so out of line. I personally have not heard that term used. You talk about black women wanting to be like white women. But doesn’t non black women try to be like black women? How many non black women has gotten tans to have darker skin. Or butt implants or go to get bigger lips. So I will say it goes both ways. I love my black men, as a matter of fact I love all men. But some black men are no angels themselves, they need to own up to what they lack as well. Yes some black women does do some of them things. But not every black woman is like that. Just like all black men is not like that. Before you can bash black women; you should check your self because I know you are not perfect either.

First of all, a white woman did not write the statement pertaining to the article. Others can identify pure true writing when they see it. This writer wants attention, something like the movie “Dear White People” that was nothing like what it sounds. It was the opposite written to praise white men. So, getting back to the writer, he must be a dysfunctional poor excuse failure of a Black man who gets off on insulting Black women. His mother must have beat his Ass to much and he turned Gay and against Black women. So Black women don’t get to upset about this clown remarks because he left out a whole lot of information. Like white men are better than black men in bed 89% of the time. Black men brag about having a large *****, but that just a myth. LOL

Differences in flaws between white and black women. I’ll start with a generalized consensus of black cultured women. 1. Less friendly. 2. Overly independent. 3. Enormous pride therefore miss out on opportunities due to their “wall” being up. White women 1. Less emotionally stable. 2. Tend to have a capitalist “you scratch my back and I’ll scratch yours” mindset. 3. Less likely to thrive during adversity. Now black men you choose what flaw you want. It seems to me that you don’t mind the little white chick who goes off the deep end after you break up with them. That’s fine. It reflects your worth. Now it’s in white culture to have a mate of any kind whether if they truly want you or not. Now once the craze of white women fetishizing black men goes away you will see an increase infidelity amongst white women in interracial relationships. And I believe a lot of you prefer white women because of either what they can provide for you and because they’re most likely deal with you ur selfish ways. In today’s society most black men and women have switched roles and y’all can’t accept it. Black men are so much more dependent or just not established enough to really take care of a women. Meanwhile a black women is independent, more likely to be educated and is even pulling the stops of taking the role of “father” after y’all skip out of a child’s life. There is no way in hell you can literally blame a black women or bm for why you abandoned a child. No way.

Black women are not independent, they have simply switched from depending on black men to depending on the state. Secondly, why is it that whenever black men talk about dating out black women immediately home in on white women as the preferred candidates? Are you aware of how many non black women there are in the world? Not every black man who dates interracial prefers white women, I hope you understand that. It seems to me that black women have white women on the brain more than they say us black men do. If you aren’t saying “white women do it too” you are sewing or gluing their hair on top of your heads.

Black men are still better off dealing with white women over black because most white women come from a two parent household, thus typically the woman has been given a blueprint of how to relate to men from her father. Most black women don’t have that, hence why the only way they understand how to communicate with black men is through arguing and violence.

On the issue of independence, the black woman’s so called “independent” position has been the main catalyst behind her continued failure as an individual. Being an independent woman is a mockery, a disgrace, a position of shame and a failure, not a badge of honour to be worn and to be proud of. On the issue of black men skipping out on a child’s life, that wouldn’t happen if black women choose to open their legs to black men who were of fatherhood material. Instead you choose to get knocked up by Ray Ray and Skeet from the block, then you complain when he doesn’t change his ways and further proceed to lump good black men in with the scum.

Most black women choose to be single mothers, as many black women have already admitted, they are turned on by the low dregs of black male society, they are not attracted to the “educated lames” as they themselves refer to them as. On the subject of education, so what, black society has been under the black female’s watch for the past 50 years. Despite her social, economic and academic progression, black communities are still going down the toilet. Your so called educational achievements do not positively reflect upon black society, take a look for yourself.

This post is sickening, especially coming from a black man. Why would you want to glorify that white women snatch up all the educated brothers? What about the black men whose trying to find their way? The ones who ran into a few obstacles. Yeah! White women don’t want those. Black women put their ass on the line to support and protect you all … EVERY DAY OF OUR LIVES. And every time we turn around we’re disrespected, neglected, and unprotected by most of you so called “men”. When y’all are attacked … where are these white women that y’all glorify?! When you don’t have shit (you’re chasing your dream in school or building a business) where are these white women? No! Black women are the only ones who go to bat for y’all regardless of the situation. Lose it all and see whose still standing by your side. Next time you have something negative to say about Black women … u should call up your BLACK MOTHER and tell her!

Remember, black women don’t want the educated brothers, they refer to them as “educated lames” amongst other names, therefore why wouldn’t I encourage them to be snapped up by non black women? White women are cut from a different cloth, unlike black women they don’t expect a man to be ready made and they are willing to stand by their man through hard times.

Black women put their backsides on the line to ensure black men are run through the system, you talk about white supremacy all day yet you are the first ones to use the enforcement arm of it whenever a black man say or does something you don’t agree with.

Black women are fully protected by the state, it is your new husband and has been so for the past 50 years. Since you desired to give black men the boot in exchange for feminism and government welfare, now that you have what you wanted I don’t see what the problem is.

The black woman’s allegiance is to the state, not to the black man. Save the usual “your mother’s black” talk, those guilt tripping and shaming tactics will not work over here, nor will you be receiving a victimhood card.

its 2017 people need to start doing for them selves. so what the father is not around or your man. these mothers need to stop going out to the club every damn weekend like its there real drop. they can teach there kid to ride a bike, or read to them instead. they can teach them how a man should act and treat women. google it seriously. i don’t believe in that child support shit i hate it. get up and get a better job or go back to school. These mothers dont need to hold on to the child support either. they never do good with it. i am a black women and i am married to a black man. he works hard when we had are twin boys back in 2011 i told him all i want you to worry about is breathing he didn’t have to do a damn thing but but go to work and come home. all 3 of his meals are cooked from scratch. kids would be sleep when he got home at 10pm and i would call him to see if he was staying late his so when he got home his dinner was hot. i hated to reheat his food. im like that till this day it has to be hot. no reheating. house was clean he made the money ill pay the bills. in 2015 i got a job because i wanted to get out the house i worked 60 hours or more most of the time. i enjoyed my family and i enjoyed work. i loved that i could keep the kids in line and the house and my man and work at the same time and help bring money into our home. i didn’t want to be one of those women that just sit around and get. i like to be involved. i like to ask him about his day. i like to be interested in what he is interested in and if i dont understand i look it up read and educate myself, so we can have something to talk about that he likes. i do a lot for him. i make sure his clothes are ready and ironed at night for the next day according to his activities for the day i like to think i am a good wife mother and business partner. i’m 10 toes down. im willing to go into the dark not knowing what is on the other side. but now i am needed more at home the kids are getting bigger they will be 6 june 2017 and even tho he didn’t want me to work. i decided after 3 years i will only work one day so i can put all my time and energy into my kids and my husband. i am happy and when i talk to other women about it they feel i do to much. i feel what else can i do. i make sure i keep myself up. i am not materialistic we started from the bottom together. i bought him a fairly new bmw cash with my money he deserved it he has worked so hard and the other car was acting up. i loved working because i could buy him things. when i was just at home i couldn’t buy him things and i didn’t want to ask him for his money either. he is a Libra i am a Scorpio. we work well together personal and business i am by his side no matter what. whenever we argue its about money and what we will invest in. other than that we set aside time to talk to each other morning and night about our plans for the day what we did that day talk about money and at night we usually talk about the same thing and if there is anything bothering us. if we are mad at each other we hold it in until we are calm and talk about it at night when we are calm it works out for us,.

WHY IN GODS NAME DID YOU PUT AN AMEN ON THIS TRASH? WHY WOULD YOU, ANY OF YOU TAKE PART IN TEARING DOWN BLACK WOMEN?! WHITE PEOPLE DON’T NEED ANY HELP FROM YOU TO DO THAT, BUT THANKS FOR HELPING THEM KEEP THE TREND GOING! YOU SHOULD BE ASHAMED OF YOURSELVES! DATE WHOMEVER YOU WANT BUT DON’T BLAME AN ENTIRE RACE OF WOMEN BECAUSE OF YOUR PREFERENCE! HOW VERY SAD FOR YOU!

Just read this and I have to disagree . First all people, black and white living below poverty level in ghettos or what ever poverty stricken areas have less resources and make uneducated decisions thus resorting to the system and of coarse unplanned pregnancies this is not a black woman thing. . Second fatherless homes, already raised in fatherless homes themselves they leave not knowing how to except the pressure, real life responsibility of holding a family down. After they get done killing each other and selling drugs they end up dead or in jail, this contributes to the fatherless homes. Child support is here as a result of the rolling stone father (where ever he lays his hat is is home) Third. More black woman are being educated at this point then any other demographic group. The reason why is because they have been left to fend for them selves more than any other group.. So these woman are strong because they have to be . Look at all the cards dealt against us and u will see for your self. The person who wrote this article is out of touch with society and wants an excuse for himself to date out side his race. The hand full of educated black men that date these woman in my opinion is for status or because it was the only choice at the college they attended.. No excuse is needed, we should all be allowed to date who ever we please, with out putting black woman down. He should damn well know why they are so strong & Gold diggers come in every color this article is sick what a way to be stereo typed by your own.

To every African American woman who’s offended by what’s written in this post I ask the following question: “why are you offended?” If you aren’t conducting yourselves in this manner why on earth do you care?! let alone why comment?

Perhaps it’s because that there’s some truth to what this white female is saying. As a stable, responsible, world educated African American male I have watched from abroad the decline of the relationship between African American men and women. What I’ve seen is mostly the African American women and their often dysfunctional behavior as a collective.

Before living abroad I witnessed how African American men have had to endure 40 years of bashing via every media format available in America ranging from movies, television, magazines and to a varying degree the internet.

To make matters worse whatever magazine, movie, TV show or talk show host stated and or displayed about African American men the African American woman took as gospel (I.E. Oprah, Terry McMillan, Wendy Jones, Real Housewives of Atlanta, Love and Hip Hop) and visited it upon African American men who by any stretch of the imagination fit the stereotypes of the African American men they vehemently bashed on a daily, weekly and monthly basis.

An African American man who was well spoken, educated or was hard working I.E. a blue collar worker constantly found themselves overlooked by African American women. And due to this attitude the African American man was often lumped in with the pimps, playas and hustlers that as a collective many of you fell for.

The result was the meteoric rise in interracial dating between African American men and every ethnicity but their own. The African American women then resorted to shaming tactics in an effort to keep them from going elsewhere

Then came the cry about the shortage of eligible African American men. Really?! we were here staring you in the face but none of you recognized us until after you saw us with a woman who wasn’t African American.

However with the advent of the internet and in particular Facebook and YouTube African American men began to return fire only their words began to strike nerves and hurt feelings. resulting in the current defensive posture that each and every one of you seem to have taken on this thread.

As a collective African American women are directly responsible for their men abandoning them in record numbers. You bought into the bullshit, you made your beds now it’s time to lie in them.

Lol this is stupid. The offensive nature of the post comes not from the pure ignorance and clear detachment with reality, but the pure lack of respect for the journey behind every shade of brown that came before you and him. Furthermore, the insinuation that anyone besides the individual can be responsible for the degradation and outward display of hatred of women of color. The historical inaccuracies are completely annoying as well. I believe he made reference to women’s fight for rights…..the woman’s suffrage movement was started by Susan B. Anthony and Elizabeth Stanton…white women….they wouldn’t even let black women participate until we fought for that. The posts in general are more sad than anything. It gives the impression that while women have fought and become stronger, our men, our Adams, our ribs have in some instances have become weaker. Some choose to look for ehat they see as an easy way out.There are good people and bad people in every race. If you see qualities that are unfavorable to you I promise you those qualities exist in ever color, not just black women.

Well laid out and explained, exactly what I talked about in Negro Wars. Black women refuse to acknowledge their faults, this is one of the main reasons why I advise black men to start dealing with non black women. The truth is in 2017 as a black man in the west you simply cannot build with the overwhelming majority of black women, as I have stated before on numerous occasions, for the most part they are broken beyond repair.

Sounds like you are broken beyond repair, the same concept use against black people, divide and conquer, you really hate black women with all the sh__ you say, it is something pyschological with you. and also to put down a whole race of people like you do,is something to be look at, when I was growing up and now, I dont hear of black people low rating, downing, dissing white people like white always have done black people

This is the most ignorant post and article I’ve ever read. White, latinos, Asians, and Persians wear hair extensions as well. Look at The Kardashians, most intellects know that they all wear fake hair.

And do you not think that white men are sick of white women’s crap as well? Men and women think differently so they will forever be at each other’s throats.

And to the white female who wrote the post. Your white men date and marry African American women as well. So we don’t care if you take the black men, because the non black men are taking black women. Just look at the famous black celebrity women that are all married to white men..

This entire article is a nonstarter. It’s based on an untraceable comment by a supposed white woman. It even shows her face but not her name. I personally saw this letter several years ago with the same untraceable info. Could have been written by anyone for any reason. That unverified fake comment is the premise for this entire post. Don’t get up in arms about what someone thinks or someone’s opinion. That statement was not fact. It was just used to elicit a negative response based on a untrue stereotype. Stop falling for the okedope….ijs…

By your logic if a tramp on the streets shared the same sentiments we wouldn’t be allowed to take his/her words seriously due to not being able to identify the individual aswell as the fact that the person has no fixed abode. Is this the logic that you are rolling around with? I love how you black men who think like women always initiate micro contentions of insignificance instead of just dealing with the points raised.

well, I must say she had a lot to say when it came to why black men date and marriage some white women, having two brothers who dated white women and marriage them, I find it interesting in that both of my brothers cheated on their white girlfriend and wife with black women. One of my brothers had his black woman for over 14 years and the another brother just get out of the Army and got out of that marriage with a white girl get his house and marriage, black women both brother are very well off. I think white women go looking for black men. And for some reason, white people think that all black people live in poverty. We know for facts that they are more whites on welfare them blacks But when they talk about poverty they give the image of black women and children to make it seem like we are the ones.I think the reasons why this white woman wrote this and the book is to get more people to read and buy her book.

Exactly and notice if a black man is with a white woman you better believe theh have some financially to give, and once rhat runs out then the black man is gone. Notice how you NEVER see a black man with a white woman. And they forgot the fact that there are more white people in jail for committing welfare fraud. A crying shame

Funny because EVERY OLDER WHITE woman that is married to a black man got left for a black woman in the end. As soon as they get old, fat, wrinkle, and their credit got jacked up they come right back to us napppy/bald head black women with the car, sometimes house, and money they have been taking/stealing from you all these years. And most of the young white women are the ones stuck with the uneducated dope dealing thugs here in Minnesota. So him and the author of this article can kick bricks. BECAUSE NOT ALL OF US BLACK WOMEN ARE UNEDUCATED AND IGNORANT WE JUST KNOW OUR WORTH AND DON’T ACCEPT JUST ANYTHING OFF OF ANY MAN LIKE WHITE WOMEN DO, we heal, move on, and take care of what we need to do for children and our future because a man DO NOT make or break a BLACK WOMAN

Hello,
I read your article and would actually like to invite you to join my FB group Dialogue on black women…separating fact from fiction…it’s a group focused on dispelling the myths where needed and solutions when required.

The problem is black women for the most part do not want solutions, this is why I have redirected my efforts primarily towards thinking black men. Then there is the case of joining the group and certain members from the angry and bitter black sisterhood flagging and reporting comments out of malice, spite and hatred, to which I will spend 3, 7, 14, 21 and even 30 days in Facebook jail. I’ve been down this route before which is why I don’t post to Facebook anymore or I stick to groups where women and black male simps are excluded.

Most black women love social media because there they can flag and report you all day, however they cannot do that at Slaying Evil, hence why I stick to posting here and linking the articles to Facebook And Twitter.

Just a thought…historically the black culture, our religion, our language, our beliefs and morals were stipped away (deconstructed) in order to reconstruct us to be subservient. We were denied access to education, our families were destroyed, we had no rights and our wombs and the love we had for our black kings were belittled down to tools of breeding.

The modern day black MAN is being painted as a threat to society. The deconstructed mindset and perspective still runs wild in the back family and in how they are seen in the world today. We have gone from beatings and lynchings to handcuffs and bullets. But still they push on with a goal of diluting the curse of our past. We invaded at the collegiate level in record breaking numbers, we are getting better we are remembering who we were before our men were broken.

The mindset behind the man who created this post and those who support him, is just another tool of deconstruction designed to keep black women stuck in a subservient role. You want us to serve what society has paints us to be because of the color of our skin. You are comparing us to women that your ancestors could not even look at without being hung or beaten. The same race of women that has always held the standard of beauty and prestige. Truth is, we have fought to level the playing field and now we are leading this country as the highest rated college graduates and entrepreneurs to date. We are the rebirth of the black family. We are leaving your fake news and your desire to see us fail in our past. The reconstruction has begun.

So you can stop now, because black women have not held the top spot for government assistance since back in the 70’s. You can stop now because the average black women isn’t having children till she is in her 30’s, she is married, she too busy building a career and starting businesses. You can stop now because we have no less or no more attitude than any other cultures (check the divorce stats in the white community..ijs).You can stop now because black men are still marrying black women across the globe. So just…stop.

Your words will not stop us, your foolishness has failed to distract us. We have the bloodline of queens and kings, and we are no longer diluted. The attacks on our family and culture, our men and now our women, has done nothing but fuel our desire to reconstruct our communities.

To the black women that have made it this far, don’t let them see your pain. This is not your story. I see you winning sis. But don’t give them the pleasure of getting you in your feelings. This perception is designed to distract you and devalue your voice, so make your next move count. You are a women of quality. Just keep winning.

This “white woman” pointing out the short falls of “black women.” Clearly she don’t pay attention to facts, she need to check herself because how are we uneducated when we are the most educated group of people in America? She shows her lack of research and education so I can’t with this propaganda! As far as the author holding this up it seems to me he need to sit down and have several seats. Divide and conquer! I don’t know any woman that says she don’t need a man, but I do know women who don’t want a weak man. Sorry Sir you can’t lead me if you can’t lead yourself.

Oh and even though personally I don’t fit the stereotypes the “white woman” stated I still get offended, because even with all the education, loving black relationships, forward strides to bring our people together there are still some out there who only view us as “Mammy.” Also the statements in both are opinion based and are not supported by facts. Its funny to me that anytime black women start recognizing their worth and love the skin they are in there is always some “white woman” or “black man” to dispel the positive and set us back 400 years. Making sure to scream to the masses how messed up black women are instead of uplifting and supporting us. I will not say all white women or all black men, what I will say is these 2.

What kind of a joke statement is that, “forward strides to bring our people together”? Black women are systematically destroying black society at the behest of their white liberal slave master, exactly what are they doing to bring black people together, I’ll wait?

Black women have destroyed their own image and reputation through their own wrong doings, at least in the past white folks had to make stuff up about them, nowadays black women simply throw the evidence into people’s laps for confirmation.

Of course you are offended, because black women as a collective love defending the scum and the lower dregs of black society.

So educated yet black communities are still going down the toilet. If your education as black women is so great then why doesn’t it reflect upon black society? By the way black people are already divided, you’re late on the ball.

It does reflect upon black society, it’s just not newsworthy. Historically, reconstruction of any society starts with education. So if black women are educating themselves, anyone that values the black community not “going down the toilet” should appreciate that black women are taking this step and becoming productive members of their communities.

the reason we are going down the tubes is because we are not united like other peoples are, everybody unites (nationalities) but the American blacks, we have been taught to systematically to hate ourselves, like people like you, I dont know where you been, but I have seem many sisters out there trying to help the community, maybe not where you come from. yes we are already divided and that comes from 400 years of slavery, oppression, discrimination, you name it, everything been throw at us, but we have manage to survive, the next thing is to get the chains (mental slavery) off our brains

First of all I’m an educated black woman. I don’t know where this “man” get off agreeing with that simpleton. This is a free society. You are free to date, love, marry, screw whomever you choose. We don’t really care. If you want a white woman, go ahead. You seem to take more concern about it than we do. Maybe it’s your guilty conscience. At any rate, you don’t have to be or feel guilty for whom you choose to love or make love to. Not all black women resent your choice. So to lump all black women in this light is offensive, especially coming from a “brother.” What that simpleton has to say about black women means absolutely nothing to me. The path of lease resistant is always the easy route. The results of the easy route isn’t always the best path to take. It’s not that we don’t need or desire a good man; that’s simply not true. All the responsibility for the plight of black families and children is shared between black men & women & a prejudice society. So don’t try to put all the responsibility on the black women. You can keep your “self” where it belongs, too. The black women has had to bear up under the pressure of life, a lot of times alone & she has done an excellent job, all things considered. Try to come back from slavery, oppression, and the hardships that life has thrown the black woman, and see if you can hold up. The black woman had no choice but to go it alone. She was forced to & she never went anywhere, still standing. The black man abandoned her. So now that we are starting to rise out of the dung that life has thrown us, you choose to put us down as a whole; be careful. The same ladder you climbed up on, maybe necessary for you descent. So let me see a white woman who has had the trial of life that black women has had to endure raise your black a__ to be a successful. There aren’t any…

Strange reading. While it is true black millionaires find status in having white wives, it is also true and documented that white BILLIONAIRES are throwing rocks at white women for BEAUTIFUL BLACK QUEENS. Can any of you men who were bore by a BLACK woman explain this anomaly? I’m waiting…

Black men are dating and marrying out at 3 times the rate of black women, yet black women have had much longer access to white men than black men have to white women, can you explain that anomaly, I’ll wait?

lol It’s actually the other way around. Most of these black men cannot handle real black woman, black woman that ain’t afraid to put them in they place, black woman that aren’t slaves. So they get bitter and latch onto the white woman that they can get over on. 💁

Men hate tough woman. It’s a natural instinct that they’ll mooch off of someone weaker.

You don’t handle wild, uncontrollable, rebellious, violent women, you leave them alone as dealing with them as they ought to be dealt with will end up with a man catching a case. Black women will never hear anything good and wholesome, therefore instead they must feel. Keep believing that being difficult is normal behaviour, you’ll be staying by yourself for life.

We are living in the golden age of the Coon. Sojourner, Harriette, Martin and Malcolm are rolling in their graves. As you read this illustration of unresolved mental illness, please remember that you are not an example of this sick cartoon this damaged being (and others like it) have spread over the internet. They are cowards with mommy issues, they feel powerless in a white supremacist system and instead of being a productive member of society, instead of looking at ways to improve and remake society, they turn to the most vulnerable target, their own kind, and spew their venom at this soft target because that’s what a mentally ill, broken coward does. The unfortunate fallout from these psychotic rants is that it drives a wedge between less confident women and men of color who believe these broad strokes of poison are reality. Coons like this are the true tools of white supremacy and racism in general. The self-hating black has always been integral to the destruction of people of color. It was a thing deliberately created for just that purpose. Turn your back on these dead creatures and continue to build, live and thrive. There are good black men and women all around you, don’t be swayed by propaganda and sick coons like this trying to wreck their own people because they couldn’t find their place in their tribe. Some folks literally need to be left behind so that the healthy and the strong can actually survive.

The true coons are those black people like yourself who seek to keep black society in disorder, cooning by definition is about making white folks feel comfortable, white folks feel comfortable with a disorganised black society ie black women running black communities into the toilet.

White people feel uncomfortable with people like myself calling out the dysfunction for what it is. This is why the so called black community is a piece of trash and why intelligent, thinking black folks distance themselves from it, because there are too many Negroes within the fold ie folks such as yourself who go out of their way to hamper any restoration efforts embarked upon.

The real coons are those within black society who attempt to shame others for calling out unruly, degenerate and dysfunctional behaviours. If Malcolm X and Martin Luther King were alive today, black folks such as yourself would have exiled them a long time ago as they would have been doing the same thing that I am.

Deal with the wedge that black women created 60 years ago when they decided to take on board feminism and fatherless home welfare policies from the state. It’s a little late for you to be talking about wedges and division, you’re over half a century too late.

you will never hear a black woman say she is grooming her daughter to be a good woman and possibly someone’s wife . just once I’d like to hear a female admit her black mama failed her . How can a young woman be a wife when she has never been around a wife , all she knows is drama and booty tootin . Morality was never taught to her . Black women want all the attention and glory even when they fucked up . Who the hell makes sure their weave is tight and shop for a new outfit before speaking about her dead son . Black women will purposely sabotage their daughter’s future simply because they hate to see someone succeed where they failed , I’ve seen all this I don’t have to lie

I read nothing but hate against us white women over this article. ok black queens as you call yourself. I’m a educated beautiful white woman. I am married to a educated very handsome black man. we also have 3 beautiful kids. I have endured a lot of racist things from his family since day one. Its funny because we are more in love today and we been married 15 years. Its funny because all 4 sisters that have tried to bully me and have been very racist,not one can keep a man and not one are married. I’m sorry i forgot that they have been married but divorced. One got left for a very sweet white woman and they have been married 10 years longer than the marriage he had with my sister n law. Black women are the most racist i have came across in my whole life. I asked my husband why he never had a long relationship with a black woman.My response was they always wanted drama of some kind.They wanted to boss me and tell me what i could and couldn’t do.So yes when i read this i thought to myself,wow black women really do hurt themselves with their controlling ways. I get ugly looks from black women from time to time when my husband and i are out. I smile and lean over and snuggle closer to my very handsome black man. I hear some black women call us bad names and put us down. Sweetie i bathe daily and i don’t stink and i take care of myself just as i take care of black husband. (wink) Keep on being angry and bitter at us white women because honestly we laugh at your ignorance and we will continue to take care of a black king as he knows we love him genuinely. We are not in slavery days so STOP trying to keep everyone there. It’s 2017 and you have just as much rights as we do in this world. You can go to college and have a career just like all us white people. It’s your personality in this world that is your downfall. I’m sure some of you black women will try to put me down and try to shred my words apart. Go ahead and make yourself feel better being the hater that you are. Our mixed daughters have no problem dating educated black men. We raised them to not be controlling bossy women. They also respect themselves and respect other people in this world. Were actually planning our oldest daughter’s wedding to a educated handsom black man. Our daughters learn from us,we are their role models. I didn’t just say i want a black man one day. We fell in love because we respected each other for one. We complimented each other and we are best friends. Oh by the way,my family has never been racist towards him and never treated him as a outcast. That is why we go to more family get together’s with my side of the family. It’s crazy because his sisters always complain and ask why we don’t come lol

Your comments are most welcome here, now you understand why at this site I advise black men to date interracially. I have written many, many articles about the fact that black women not only are dysfunction as a group but also in relation to their incessant jealousy of white women, this is why your husband’s sisters go out of their way to bully you, they want to be you.

What’s funny is black women are forever telling black men that “dem white women are gonna get ya”, yet if you ask your husband I’m sure that he will confirm that any trouble from women he has received has been mostly from black women, the same women that claim to have the black man’s back. You’re also right about black women not being able to keep their men, this is why most of them remain chronically single.

What’s funny even more is when you talked about getting dirty stares when you’re out in public, black women as you already know don’t value good black men until we decide to date out, it’s then and only then that we are seen as valuable in the black woman’s eyes. I fully understand the fact that white women aren’t worried about black women, is more of the reverse.

I was smiling when you mentioned how you both have been married for 15 years and have three children together, may your marriage, you and your family stay blessed. I will continue to do what I can here to warn black men about the perils of dealing with modern day black women and how they ought to expand on their dating and marriage options.

Sure… there are reprobates in the black community… JUST LIKE every community.

White women are anything but immune to hurling on black men. White women do this shit all the time to black men. False rape… cleaning out a black man’s bank account… having a black man killed. White women originated this bullshit.

Yes… there are reprobate black women.

However… you fail to see this because you are miseducated by the white supremacist just like every one of your sycophantic fans of your misogynoir self-hating blog.