This is a Sexist Thread! (Men's Rights)

Originally posted by MountainLaurel
You know I started out having empathy for the Op's feelings, he didn't even have the manners to acknowledge my post....YOU are a friggin wimp,
whinning little baby....that has NO idea of what it means to be a MAN....check into the Real World dude, and I assure you, Women take the brunt of
life...I was NEVER given a penny by my ex, and he completely messed up me and my daughters life......So you go ahead and "fight" for "Men's
rights", what a joke......go watch some porn...and tell us women that if we were not such "bitches" you would treat us better.....friggin makes me
sick......

Man! I LOVE this post! LOL! You tell him sister! LOL!

I agree...Men should toughen up! Being a Man...I would expect that another Man would confess that He made the wrong choice in Women if He is having
so much trouble. One classic example is ignoring a nice looking Woman with a Brain who cares about him...which he ignores and goes for the Heart
Breaking Beauty that HE KNOWS from the beginning is trouble...but his ego will not allow him to pass.

I am an Ultra-Alpha Male with wealth and celebrity but I have let MANY a Woman of this nature go by the wayside because I KNEW the disaster in the
waiting! Let the Woman...CHOOSE YOU! If you chase her...she has you by the balls! LOL!

To the Woman who posted this...If you said this to me...I would ENJOY IT! Why? Because I know who and what I am. The only people these words can
hurt are Men who are not up to your standard. I REAL MAN...finds this entertaining! And I so do love to be entertained! You have nothing to be
sorry for or about! The RIGHT GUY FOR YOU will see what these words are in reality...and be able to make you laugh about them! LOL!
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If you are having an issue with the person you love...DON'T WAIT IF YOU TRULY LOVE HIM! But only if you KNOW he loves you! I am lucky in that I
have never had problems with attracting Women. What I did have a problem with was finding the RIGHT ONE....and my criteria is extensive.

I started Touring Internationally in the 80's with a signed and popular Band....and I still do this but I am older so not as much. I had the
problem...and I know some guy's out there are going to thing...Oh...BOO HOOO! But it was a problem. I could get any woman I
chose...anytime...anywhere...but I was LONELY. Very Lonely and for an ALPHA-MALE of the EXTREME that I am...it took a while for my own EGO to come to
terms with this. Just to admit it was like admitting a weakness.

The main problem was..I could go with a beautiful woman every night...or even more than one....but I could not find any woman that could stimulate my
mind. As I have said before...the most erogenous zone of the Human Body is the Mind.

I also had a Third Job that was very dangerous and I could not talk about it so that make getting close to anyone difficult. I waited YEARS....but
then I found...My Girl. We were actually friends first as she had dated one of my original Guitar Players. I always liked her but I have a rule
about dating friends ex-Girlfriends. So when she chose me...I had not seen her in years and did not know who she was...she said she did not either
but I am tough to forget. She had changed her hair and she is VERY INTELLIGENT. She is also a 10 Plus and likes to work out with me as we would
Cross Country Ski, Scuba Dive, Lift, Run and practice martial Arts of which I am Highly Trained.

If you love this Man and you know he loves you then don't wait. It is not a sign of weakness to want to fix a problem. If you are fooling
yourself...you will already know this...and a True Man cares more for his mate than himself. I would DIE for Her....Gladly. This is the depth of
LOVE that is needed in a Lasting Relationship.
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One more thing about this topic...yes...Women do get perks in the Courts and they tend to have a double standard when it comes to wearing an outfit
that will force a Man to look yet some get offended by this.

It is all manageable by the way a Man reacts. I can diffuse the most Man hating seriously thinking of becoming a Lesbian Woman out there. It is a
simple thing to do and that is to not let this woman who has been slighted....get to any of you guy's by words.

She is PISSED OFF and is attempting to start a fight...she needs to fight....she does not care with whom. I want her to fight with me because I will
KILL HER with KINDNESS! I will self depreciate myself to allow her to feel that for at least a time...a 5 ft nothing tiny Woman has conquered a 6 Ft
1 Inch...200 plus lbs Muscular Man and if I can make her feel vindicated for just a while...she will realize what is going on and apologize.

I will tell her she has nothing to apologize for....this will trigger her female curiosity and diffuse her hate. It is the least I can do. Split
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Feminist like you whine on and on about the wage gap because you actively want to be paid more because of your gender!

Women are just tired of being paid less because of their gender.

Right under demanding equality. As stated in other posts, until they fight for the responsibilities, as well as the rights, and seek EQUALITY in all
areas (giving up advantages in areas they have them in, and fighting to be included in areas they have been spared from (draft etc) then it is not the
pursuit of equality, but the pursuit of gaining an advantageous position.

Question is doesnt it cut both ways? Shouldn't the same be able to be said for women. Or do you hold the mindest that they are children?

No...they are not children...they are just wounded. As I have said before...Men and Women are NOT EQUAL. There are things a Woman can do that I
cannot and things I can do that a Woman cannot. There is no true equality. But that doesn't mean there should not be respect.

Men at least most of them...are of a different mental mindset...so are women in comparison to men. Women stroke our EGO's all the time but many Men
never appreciate it. Men have the ability to take on directed Hurtful Words and shrug them off as if they never happened....this is not so with most
women.

I know what I am and have no need to prove myself or strut my feathers in front of a Lady....I also can take one for the team and not let it effect
me. The problem is...many Men now days have become too sensitive and when a Woman makes a remark...they make the mistake of reacting negatively. I
prefer to just agree and give the Lady a moment in the Sun. Split Infinity

So if I am understanding you correct you are saying that they are hurt, by the things that hapened to women before they are born? And such should
have more rights then another class?

I am sorry if you think that men who take a stand on this issue are too sensitive. And if trying to ensure that my boys, and daughter can grow up
being respected for WHO they are and not what set of chromosomes they carry and that they have the same opportunities as each other is being
sensitive, then I guess this big bad Marine is a sensitive sally.

And I can agree there needs to be respect. Along with honesty about the issues. Will that happen prolly not.

Now you know I didn't mean they were born hurt. They were hurt by a relationship or lack of one. I understand what this topic is about...and that
is a double standard that exists in Women's favor. What I am trying to state is that with a very small amount of effort by a Man...a Woman who feels
slighted can be easily made to be whole again.

I know there are Horror Stories out there where Guy's get the shaft...but they put themselves in this position by choosing that particular partner.
Deep down inside...we all know when something is amiss or wrong...it is when we ignor that instinct and allow our EGO's to rule our brains and hearts
is when we set ourselves up for the fall.

I waited a very long time to be with the right person...some people will choose even though deep inside they KNOW it is wrong. Waiting has paid off
for me. Split Infinity

I honestly did not know you meant by being hurt by a relationship, or lack of one. Regardless that doesn't matter. Its justifying bad behavior at
best and encouraging it at worst. There should be accountability for all classes, Regardless of anyone being hurt over a relationship or not. People
make mistakes all the time in who they choose to be with. That has nothing to do with keeping a father away from his children, enforcing child
support orders, while not enforcing visitation, wanting the perks but shunning the responsibilities.

Women are enjoying protections in certain areas and the groups that I personally have been involved in have worked to correct oversights like that
including women being shut out of the draft.

Rostker v. Goldberg states that drafted men are combat replacements, and since congress doesn't allow for women to fight on the front lines, the
Supreme Court has made the drafting of women illegal.

During the March for Womens Lives I attended on the National Mall, which was the
largest congregation of people to protest on the mall in US history, several speakers pointing out the draft inconsistency. Some, like myself, want
Selective Service to be abolished completely, thus eliminating the gender preference, while others want to be included in the draft laws, thus
eliminating the gender preference. However, all in attendance stated they wanted the discrimination to end.

And looking at those details, might just enlighten you as to what is really going on, instead of blindly following the dribble you have been fed. Now
if you truly are for EQUALITY, then of course you would also want to address any "injustices" that affect any "class" since it seems your not then it
seems your agenda is clear.

Oh, I have an "agenda?" Anyone and everyone on this site can play that game dude. It doesn't matter how much one gender works as opposed to the other,
since women are still paid less on the dollar than men for performing the same jobs. And there are still many jobs where women are flat-out just not
welcome. I guess since you took it there your "agenda" must be male dominance sense it's absolutely "clear" that you don't support women recieving the
same wages we do. Me and you are just gonna have to agree to disagree. I feel women are being treated unfairly and you feel that men are, and neither
of us are going to change the other's mind. Let's just leave it at that instead of accusing people who disagree with us of having
"agendas."

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