Hello my kinky (hopefully healthy!) lovelies!! It goes without saying that we are in the midst of an unprecedented and insane time at the moment. I wanted to start by saying that I hope you and all of your families and loved ones are safe and healthy, and that you stay that way until this mess ends! I have to hand it to you guys – even in the midst of this crazy pandemic, you wonderful folk have been emailing in droves wondering how we can connect, how you can serve me, and how we can make your fantasies a reality. In light of that fact, and to hopefully address some of your questions (and maybe give you some filthy ideas!) I have written a rather lengthy blog on the subject. Let me start by saying I have received some interesting, wild and, what some of you have referred to proudly as “utterly indecent” requests in the midst of a quarantine. Allow me to say this: I ALWAYS welcome your emails and requests, as I would never want to shame anyone for wanting anything. I take every request on an email-by-email basis, and will do everything in my power to […]
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Hello lovelies, So many clients inquire about sessions and then we go back and forth working out a time that works, enjoy the session, and look forward to booking again. For some subs, it’s once a month. For some, it’s once every few days. As much as I can appreciate a good routine, one of my favourite client relationships is when a sub asks to be at my beck and call. What does this mean? It means a client provides me with a generous tribute at the beginning of a month, and then they’re on the clock so to speak. I can contact them at any time and demand their presence, and they need to accommodate my desire, or suffer the consequences. Now, I do need to point out that it’s not something I do with new clients – it requires trust (both mine and the client’s) and comfort. Additionally, it is well discussed beforehand to ensure it’s within reason for the sub. For example, if there are family obligations on the weekend that must be considered, obviously I won’t demand his/her presence at that time. One of my favourite subs, C, has offered this testimonial to describe November of […]
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Hi again lovelies! I thought I’d dedicate this blog to a service that is surprisingly popular with my subs – and that is Dominatrix Lifestyle Coaching! Whether you need help staying on track with homework, getting your ass to the gym, watching what you eat, keeping your house clean, quitting smoking, or anything else, I have a very particular brand of motivation that can bring you in line quite quickly. I’ll give you an example to show you what I mean. I have been helping a number of teachers who are just beginning their careers. The transition from student to teacher can be very difficult for them. Some of them have slipped into the habit of arriving at classes unprepared or without lesson plans, taking far too long to grade and hand back assignments, throwing on movies in class instead of teaching a lesson, using their phone inappropriately during class, and basically acting unprofessionally towards the staff, parents, and students. Strict supervision and after class accountability has been shown to improve these issues and their overall productivity at work and in their personal lives. You see, some of you will remember a time when teachers had more authority in the […]
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This is an interesting side of kink I haven’t really discussed on the blog, and yet I’ve gotten many inquiries about it. There is a large portion of the BDSM community who absolutely loathe so-called “Fin Dommes” (financial Dommes). There are also quite a few profiles that exist solely to exploit the kink scene for financial gain. These two facts make financial domination a very tricky subject to address – and I’d imagine even tricker to navigate for those who have a legitimate fetish for it. Believe me, they do exist! There are several different fantasies that seem to be popular in the financial Domination scene. The most common fetish is probably blackmail. I get a LOT of requests for this particular kink. People interested in financial blackmail want to be forced to hand over their online banking details, and have a Domme threaten to expose and humiliate them either personally or professionally if they don’t hand over the information and money the Domme demands. A popular form of financial blackmail occurs from a distance – using tools like TeamViewer, a Domme can remotely access a sub’s computer and can gain access to sensitive information. This is dangerous unless you […]
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The other day I was looking through my Google Analytics, and I found that I’m receiving a lot of visitors from around the world. Out of 196 countries, I’ve received visitors from 138 countries. I must say, this is very flattering! So first of all, thank you to everyone who visits my site, whether you’re around the corner or around the globe. Sadly, I can only do in-person sessions with those who travel to me, or those who pay my travel costs to come to them. I’ve received countless emails along the lines of “I can’t come to Toronto to see you, and I can’t afford to bring you here, and there are no great dommes where I live”, followed by expressions of sadness and frustration. Luckily, thanks to high speed internet providers, built in cameras in laptops and phones, and innovations in general, Online Domination is a service I am able and happy to provide! How does online domination work, you ask? It’s simple – we engage in a video chat, and for the duration of the session, you follow my instructions as though we were together in person. The only difference is, instead of me doing things, I’m ordering […]
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