Sex Fetishes

How To Reveal Your Sexual Quirks To Your Partner

Then, if any of your sex fetishes are a little strange, like masturbating while staring at her feet, or playing He-Man/She-Ra dress-up, I suggest you bring that in slowly. Start off by giving her a foot massage and telling her how sexy you think her feet are. Start nibbling on her toes a bit during sex. When she confesses her things and she feels really safe with you — super safe with you and your fetishes — you'll be able to confess your fetishes to her.

If some of your fetishes are really odd, like bringing in a love doll for a three-way or wanting her to fart during sex, you’re going to have to proceed with more caution. The point is not to shock her. The point is not to scare her away. The point is to confess things to her ever so slowly, have her tell you her turn-ons, experience those with her, and that way you'll get her to participate in your sex fetishes as well.

If you have some really serious fetishes — and you know what I mean by “really serious fetishes” — then I strongly suggest you make sure that you're with a woman who is sexually open and adventurous and who can handle those harder fetishes. Make sure you're with a woman who likes to push the boundaries and the social norms of sex, and make sure that she is into the same thing you're into. If you’re into hardcore latex bondage, and it took her seven times after sleeping with you to get up the courage to give you a blow job, you’ve got a long way to go. You may not be sexually compatible with this woman. It depends how deep your fetishes go, guys.