I am looking to share experiences with someone fun, outgoing, adventurous, and more than anything in this world, simple and good natured. That is the kind of the person I want to be myself. When I fail, I miss having that someone special near me to lift me up. When you fail, you can trust I will be the man that will lift you up.I am quite traveled and believe that I have a couple of good stories to share. I have sailed the world but am ready to settle now. Getting into middle age crisis I guess. I love it. It is so balanced. I'm easy going and am looking for someone caring and who is very easy going as well. I'm not an ambitious guy but life has been kind to me and I've done pretty well. I like to be successful in what I do, but I'm not obsessed with it I am a free spirit, and I look for free spirit women who love life and are passionate about life.I studied in the US and moved back to my country Spain some years back. 4 years ago I was asked by a corporation to join them in Silicon valley, and here I am. I'm looking for a stable relationship and not really interested in fishing around.I studied liberal arts in college, so I am very much into the humanities. I then went into business school to pay the rent in the years to come. I have to add than I'm not into plans. I am quite spontaneous. Also, I love acting, it is my true passion. I do plays in San Francisco. Sam Shepard and a little of Shakespeare, believe it or not. Btw, I am Spanish by nature, so have s slight accent when I speak English. The funny part is that I am a US citizen as my father is from Boston.Regarding you,I would love to share sport activities (snowboarding, or sailing), good conversation, walks, sharing Literature, and watching good movies. I am quite busy during the weekdays I have to say. In essence, I'm just looking for that wonderful 'other" that when we meet for the first time, will know, as I will know, that we are one. We will look at each other, and we will feel the flame, straight from the heart. From then on, we will just need to look at each other for days, and that is all we will need in the world for days or even months: Looking at each other eyes to be happy. Pure. That will be the beginning of at least a couple of years of pure bliss. The rest, only God knows.

What I’m doing with my life

this is an oximiron. We live life. We don't do anything with it. We are not muppet masters. At least I'm not.

I’m really good at

Parenthood. It's the only thing I know I'm good at.

The first things people usually notice about me

my hair I guess...my accent perhaps. I dont know. I don't usually ask....Well I do know, my eyes perhaps.

Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food

books....so many of them. Its my undergraduate focus, so I have a big library. Hemingway, 19th century European/russian.Movies, hmmmm, Paul Thomas Anderson and Christopher Nolan are my current obsessions: The Master, Inception. Last movie I loved was Silver Linings Notebook and of course...Her

Music... joy division lately. Lennon always. Lou Reed when I'm so pissed off I know he will make the grotesque beautiful and inspire me to do the same

Six things I could never do without

a book, a pair of snickers, my iphone, good sun glasses.....basic clothes, a good friend, my family, a good night sleep, wind, snow, the big sun, and more than anything in this world...my son

I spend a lot of time thinking about

meaning

On a typical Friday night I am

I go to Zoetrope with a good book and I drink a wonderful glass of wine- coppola merlotLately I like to travel outside of San Francisco.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit

If I could, I'd go to Colorado. Buy a ranch, some chickens maybe. Raise a family. Progressive society bores me to death.I love the movie Shane. A guy that fights to keep a family together in the middle of the Rockies. It's not as glamorous as the lonely ranger that arrives in the house at the beginning of the film and messes all up. But it's much more authentic. Unfortunately, I am that lonely ranger

You should message me if

you are curious, and you are willing to meet someone curious as well.Please don't write If you have a 5 year plan regarding your future.