6 psychologist-approved tips that could help your fear of flying

Summer holidays are one of the biggest highlights of the year, with the nation spending billions on the quest for some R&R. However, many of us don't share the excitement of holidaying abroad due to anxiety related to flying, with some experiencing symptoms so uncomfortable that it prevents them from even setting foot in an airport.

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When the fear of flying is so severe that it impedes a person's ability to behave in a way that they want, it can be classified as 'aviophobia' or 'aerophobia' - a specific phobia of flying that affects approximately one in 10 of the general population.

Dr Nick Mooney, Consultant Clinical Psychologist at Re:Cognition Health shares his insight into dealing with anxiety associated with flying and offers his top tips to help face the fear of flying...

1. Seek help

"Psychological therapy has been proven to help people effectively manage their anxiety when flying. However, one-size-does-not-fit-all and the specific techniques used for one person may not be the most useful for another. It is recommended that people experiencing moderate to severe levels of anxiety when flying seek support from a qualified therapist with experience of working with anxiety conditions.

"For mild levels of anxiety, skills and information provided by common forms of talking therapy, such as Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT) and Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) are able to help people to better manage their discomfort and make flying a more enjoyable experience."

"It is best to practise these in advance so these skills can be put into practice effectively on the fight. Remember to also be kind and compassionate to yourself. Even though you might recognise the thoughts as irrational, the anxiety you are experiencing is certainly real and valid. It is okay to be anxious and the feelings will pass quicker if you don't try to avoid or struggle with them."

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3. Intensive therapy programmes...

"...Such as those offered by 'fear of flying' courses provide some additional advantages, particularly for those with moderate to severe levels of anxiety. These courses are offered by a number of airline operators and most are based on CBT principles. Many 'fear of flying' courses offer the opportunity for immersive exposure to the anxiety by providing an aeroplane flight as part of the programme. These courses are also usually run in a group format which can be validating to people with a fear of flying, as they are able to share and normalise their anxiety with other sufferers.

"Many 'fear of flying' courses also use former pilots or aircrew in addition to therapists who specialise in aviophobia. This can instil an extra sense of confidence in the information being provided."

4. Knowledge is Power

"Understand your triggers. Try to identify what your biggest fears are. Worrying that the plane will crash or be hijacked may play on some people's minds while others may be more concerned about the potential catastrophic consequences of having a panic attack in an enclosed space at 30,000 feet. By pinpointing your fear, you will be able to better understand the steps needed to help combat your phobia."

5. Inform the flight crew

"Some people find it helpful to inform the flight crew and even neighbouring passengers of your fear of flying. This can help by 'naming the elephant in the room' when and if you start to exhibit signs of anxiety. You won't be so worried about what others might be thinking and you are likely to receive genuine expressions of sympathy and validation. The flight crew will be well aware of some useful tips and tricks to manage flight anxiety so may be able to offer additional support or assistance if needed."

6. Be familiar with the facts

"Do your research on statistics relating to your phobia. For example, if your phobia surrounds the plane crashing, research how many planes have crashed recently and what the likelihood of this happening is. Whilst it won't eliminate your fear, it will put it into context and help you to rationalise these unhelpful beliefs."

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