Is there a Narcissist in your life? How do you cope with a person who has a narcissistic personality disorder? Have you had a run-in with a true Narcissist? I’d love to read your insights in the comments below.

Wow, Vashti. You wrote some fabulous poetry! I think the perfect example of a narcissist is our president. I hope don’t offend anyone but when I read the description his was the first name to pop into my head. I’ve worked for some bosses, that would fit this description too. Well done!! ❤

Hello, Colleen. Thank you! I’m happy you like the Nonet. Oh, I’m sure some will be offended but you have the right to your opinion. The narcissist usually strives for a position of power because it supports their delusions of grandeur. Thanks again! ❤ xo

Hello, Olga! I think many people have small traces of narcissism but a real Narcissist is a force to be reckoned with and a really scary individual. Professionally, they tend to get higher positions. Thank you! ❤ xo

Hi, John! Some people confuse conceited, egotistical or arrogant people for a narcissist. A person with a narcissistic personality disorder is so much more and a terrifying person. If you don’t agree with everything they say and play along with their delusions they will try to destroy your life. A person with this disorder is extremely difficult to deal with. I think I may know who you’re referring to.

They are never wrong and they’ll hurt you and then act as if you’re delusional if you confront them. A true narcissist doesn’t have the capacity to love or understand anyone else’s suffering. Thank you, Miriam. I’m happy you liked the poem. 😀 xo

I always seem to have at least one or two around. Once I recognize them I can distance myself or at least ignore their games. I think these types make it into stories often. Thanks for the great poem and bringing up a topic most don’t talk about it. Have an amazing weekend, Vashti.

These are the most difficult people to cope with and they can be dangerous. I’m sorry you’ve had to deal with these people. Yes! They make great villains. I’m happy you like the poem. You have an awesome weekend! 😀 xo

Hi, Craig. Thank you. There is a “textbook” Narcissist in my life. Luckily, this person isn’t anyone close to me so I’m able to avoid this person for the most part. Unfortunately, I do have to deal with her every so often and it’s very difficult. 🙂

Hi, Debby. Yes, unfortunately, you have been the victim of one of these people. It’s difficult to cope with a narcissist as an adult I can’t imagine having to do it as a child and teen. Yes, you have several books that speak on the subject. I love your writing style. Reading your books is like talking to a friend. ❤ xo

I like the determination of your narrator.
I have definitely had bosses like this. Always tense, you could never please them.
I’ve had personal relationships with several too. I always felt they were searching for something they had not received as a child, so though I could get angry with them, I also was always trying to figure out how to penetrate that façade. But I never could, sadly. (K)