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The perfect first date!

The perfect first date!

So you’ve browsed Click Meets and found what seems like the perfect date, but there are so many things to be concerned about before heading out there: where to go, what to talk about, what not to talk about, etc. And yet, the number one question from people who are about to meet someone for the first time is "What do I wear?"

It may seem shallow, but how you dress on a first date is actually pretty important. The reality is, if your date isn't into the way you look, you might not get the chance to get beyond initial attractions to show how truly great you are. To make sure you present yourself in the best light, follow these tips for the perfect, knock-'em-dead first date outfit:

Tip #1

The most important tip I can offer women is to wear a dress or skirt on a first date. For many of us, it's become almost awkward to put these on for an everyday occasion—we feel like we're "too dressed up." But through a man's eyes, a dress or skirt shows off our sexy and feminine side. Don't believe me? Try wearing a dress the next time you go out at night. You will notice a big difference in the reactions you get from men. Should You Kiss On A First Date?

Tip #2

Wear a stunning pair of heels. I realize your back, knees and toes may not thank you, but with ballerina flats and riding boots overwhelming the shoe racks, I must make this point. You will look and feel more feminine the second you slip them on. Plus, heels flatter your lower half—something your date will definitely notice. Make sure to find a pair that are comfortable to walk in, preferably with an open toe and a slight platform for the perfect effect.

Tip #3

Choose colour! Professional women love to dress in black, brown and grey because these colours are understated and slimming. But men aren't looking for a boardroom buddy on a first date! They're not hiring you, and this isn't a job interview. They're searching for a feminine compliment to their masculine energy—someone they can treat like a lady so they can feel like a man. Pastels may not be a good part of a decorating plan, but they'll do a lot for your feminine look. Turquoise and coral seem to be particular favourites for many men, but choose a colour that looks best with your complexion.

Tip #4

Men could care less about labels. In fact, if you're dripping head to toe in Prada or Gucci, it's likely to even be a turn-off. For instance, once at a charity event at the Playboy Mansion, I witnessed a group of men walk away from beautiful women who kept talking about how their designer shoes were hurting their feet! Your body is not a hanger to display high fashion, and the only clothes you should be concerned with wearing are the ones that show off your best features.

Tip #5

Show a little skin. No, your breasts should not be flopping out of your top, but men do need to be able to see your physique in order to gauge their attraction. So pick a dress or skirt that shows off your great legs and arms, but isn't so low cut or short that your date will have a hard time concentrating. Women are beautiful in all sizes, and men are attracted to all different types. In fact, the same man is often attracted to different sized women equally, because they possess that killer combination of confidence, kindness and femininity.

With these tips, you should be ready to wow him in your first date outfit. When you get dressed, you'll feel your attitude transform into the fun and flirty woman who deserves a great man. You never know if your next first date may be your last, so make sure your first impression is a great one every time.