Monday, 25 November 2013

Alhamdulillah!!! I have had an amazing weekend, with the most amazing family and wonderful man. Actually, what I call a fun weekend is more like a weekly weekend routine, but the fact that I woke up alive, I had the strength to do all that was required of me, and I radiated with happyness was enough to make the weekend very enjoyable for me.

Last week, I made a decision to challenge my friends. I decided to test their writing skills and at the same time, encourage them to do what a lot of them don't think about doing:- write for no reason. Although I have contacted some people I am most interested in challenging, I would love more people to participate. This exercise is meant to be fun and educative; it should help improve your vocabulary, literature, and mindset about writing

You are hereby challenged by LadyAries, to write on any topic of your choice (ranging from politics, religion, relationship, music, fashion, personal experience to your choice of profession) : ANYTHING at all. I will read and edit your write ups and post them on my blog through the first and second weeks of December.
All interested persons should send their write ups to sexyteeze.88@gmail.com by December 2nd, 2013.

Welcome to my world... I am a girl with no degree in writing but with a strong passion. Writing is my way of expressing myself so, I hope you have a wonderful time reading my posts. Do sit back, get a soda, and enjoy!

Sunday, 17 November 2013

You will have to pardon me for having strong views for some topics but
most especially against the abuse of women! You will come across a lot about
abuse in my blog because I can't seem to emphasize it enough! Abuse against
women is wrong!!!
Maybe I have a future as an activist fighting for the right of women or maybe
it is from this medium (i.e blog) that I will be able to reach out across men
all over the world. Either way, the importance of respecting our women, wives,
daughters, mothers can never be undermined. True!, men also get abused in
different ways but the most common/popular is being inflicted by the men on us
and more in the institution of marriage. If as a man you have known abuse and
you have experienced pain, I would think that your conscience (and common
sense) will prevent you from inflicting the same abuse (in some cases, worse) on
your woman. Have you no empathy for her feelings? If you hate women so much,
why then do you need one in your home? to warm your bed and make your meals? If
you loathe the sight of her so much, why not set her free? Must you turn her
into a slave to prove your manliness?..... A man that hits his woman isn't a man, but a coward!

You marry her to love and
to cherish; to protect and honour; for
better or worse; in riches and in wealth; till death pulls you apart. Why then
will you marry her and go back on your promise? Is it love to turn your woman
into a maid in her own home? Hitting your wife and mother of your child is not
an honourable act, and is not how to protect her! You married
her to be your partner, confidant, lover, mother, sister and best friend. How
can a man use a weapon to hit his wife? Have you no sense of right and wrong?!
If you're so good at beating people up, then hit the gym to work off your steam
or better still, be a professional boxer! Is it a thing of joy to know that your wife fears you? that she fears being killed or wasted by you? Does it thrill you, to know that she can't look into your eyes and voice out her opinion? Do you get pleasure out of abusing her in bed when she is least interested? Do you look in the mirror after hitting her and feel proud of yourself?

We really should lay importance in educating our women. It is not normal to be in an abusive relationship. The men that abuse women are MONSTERS in guise of men! Our women should be taught to love themselves, and not depend on a man. A woman that knows her right and her place in the world; a woman that is self sufficient cannot be intimidated by any man! No man can have any power over you if you do not give him the liberty. We need to teach our girls that an abusive relationship is not to be managed, it is to be left! We need to let them know that there are better and more caring men out there that would be lucky to have them. Respect but DON'T fear your man, he isn't your GOD!
I don't know what the holy books say about violence against women, but I know
what I would want it to say! A man that hits his wife indirectly hits his
mother, and he that disrespects his wife disrespects God.

Welcome to my world... I am a girl with no degree in writing but with a strong passion. Writing is my way of expressing myself so, I hope you have a wonderful time reading my posts. Do sit back, get a soda, and enjoy!

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Welcome to my world... I am a girl with no degree in writing but with a strong passion. Writing is my way of expressing myself so, I hope you have a wonderful time reading my posts. Do sit back, get a soda, and enjoy!