Do you have a desire to be the best that you, you can be?

Once you realise that 'this is your life, only you can make of it what you will, you, have to go out & get it because it will never come to you, never allow yourself to lose control to another, ALWAYS BE INDEPENDENT even if you are in a relationship or married, you decide to follow your gut feeling & you will just know to act upon your well structured planned out thought, or even, your instinct, & take action, you only get one chance per lifetime so enjoy it'

So basically, you have to make that decision & to make it work you have to take action & just go for it.

In a word, absolutely! I believe that to being less than my best is failing to live up to my potential. I realize that my "best" may not equate to someone else's "best", but I have no interest in living to please other people.