Being rude/whiny is one thing, I'm guilty of it sometimes too, but language abusive to race/gender etc is a bit different I think. After this I had to wait for the crybaby to timeout, big waste of time on top of his childishness.

I think dominion should have an official player reporting feature, since after all these comments should be logged on a server somewhere. It would do a lot to weed out people who intentionally make the game unpleasant.

The only problem with a reporting system is that abusive players would constantly be reporting the non-abusive players, just to be jerks.

The system they have in play actually works quite well. If you're abusive to people, they'll simply blacklist you and you won't be playing them again. Get blacklisted often enough, and the only people you'll be playing with is other abusive folks, or nobody at all.