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It is now the Time of Subtle Awakenings. For Twin Flames in waiting, this means there is an undeniable stirring in your Divine Counterpart.

This “jolt” is prompting them to make time, to clear the Way for a New Season and a New Life with only you, their Beloved. They will then seek you out, immediately after cleaning house and Heart.

Your part is to stay focused and firm in your resolve. Make plans for your very near future together. Be expectant, clear, and plan things with them, from the biggest wishes, down to the littlest desires of your Heart.

Be Ready TO RECEIVE your Beloved in ALL Ways. THIS IS THE START of your Reunions!

By August, you will be months into your New Lives Together. You may look back at these last separate moments with vague memory, if at all.

Such Sweet and Pure Satisfaction, Joy, Completion, Healing, and Wholeness, that ONLY UNION with Your Beloved can bring!

A new and exciting video by Patricia McNeilly, described by her as follows:

“Hello, in this video I speak about the Energies of this Full Moon, in April 2014, which is also an eclipse. This is a Moon, and cosmic energies that put the spotlight upon Twin Flames, Twin Flame FULL Reunions and Merge. This energy was opened in March 2014 and will be an open portal for Encounters and Re-Unions. While others may lose their focus, upon “conspiracy theories” Twins are getting UNIVERSAL attention and support from the unseen Realms to BRING the Love and Passion, back to them, and to Merge their Full Source Love here into this level. Many people who have been waiting indeed from the last Ascension Cycle and the time of Atlantis will be Reunited to merge. The Full Sacred Sexual Merge to be finally realized for the first time by many in thousands of years. Keep your focus on your Beloved and expect your new to begin showing up in front of you! My website: http://www.twinflamesmerge.com. Please enjoy! Patricia.”

“I COULD NOT GET TO SLEEP LAST NIGHT! And then when I got up for a snack (might as well eat as I had been awake for so long I got hungry), the clock read 3:33!” “I have been feeling so peaceful and serene of late. Boy, did I need this!” “The people around me are acting so different now. So much more open and full of love.” “I felt so unplugged and disconnected the other day. Everything just stopped. Nothing happening. Nada. And so isolated and alone!” “I tried to join a new group and was completely ignored. Like I was invisible or something!” “Everything was rolling along with new connections and then suddenly, Wham! Everything simply evaporated.” “I feel like crap. My body is still struggling with these energies.” “Something magical is going on. I can feel it.”

Last night many of us lay awake as we hovered above the threshhold of a very new space. But by this morning we had successfully crossed over and into the new, and now, there is much more reality at our fingertips and things are moving once again. To backtrack:

The equinox opened a new vista with a much more wide expanse for the taking. We anchored in on the 22nd, but only for a brief time because almost immediately, our new arrival created a huge, sweeping clearing in order to make room for the new. This clearing moved a tremendous amount of the old around and out. Immediately following was a period of tranquility (thank goodness) while things were being repositioned. And then, immediately prior to our landing in the now cleared out new, we of course experienced a disconnect and the usual insomnia which occurs when we are about to land somewhere new.

These are all manifestations of going through the portal of the March 20 equinox. The lower rungs of the new hierarchy also began to manifest amazing things during this time, and in this, they are strengthening even more . . . . . a much needed requirement if we are to maintain this very new reality and keep it afloat for a very long time. The lower rungs are getting stronger and stronger with manifestations of the new and their new space is coming in stages as they begin to build upon themselves.

For those poised on the higher rungs, manifestations can occur, but because these rungs are still dependent upon the lower rungs (the higher rungs are the last to fully connect), the manifestations that these souls experience are rarely a good fit as they are temporary and belong somewhere else entirely. Because whatever is currently available is what the higher rungs have to connect to, the fit is not a good one and will dry up very quickly. What is occurring is that all of us are experiencing the manifestations at once as we begin connecting to the new grid. The closer a soul is to their new home, so to speak, the more their manifestations will permanently take hold. Even so, all of us are inching forward and more fully into the new reality no matter how this is unfolding. In this way, for some, they are getting strong messages and new connections about their new lives and what they will involve, while others are still hovering in the land of the in-between, waiting for the lower rungs to establish themselves more fully.

So even though things are moving right along, and the grid is greatly strengthening, we are still in a state of progression. We are also quickly moving into states of nonjudgment and unconditional love. This is what is necessary to really unite the vibrational rungs on the new hierarchy. If you are one who is observing exciting and thrilling experiences of others, know that your time will indeed come. In addition, our hearts are doing the creating, and in this, our new scenarios can change on a whim. The heart is dictating what our new lives will look like. Our lives, then, are going in the direction of what we feel passionate about, where we come alive, and what opens our hearts.

We are still bee-lining towards the Grand Cross alignment beginning on April 20th and commensing on April 3, along with following eclipses on April 15 and April 28. This event will herald the cross-roads from the old to the new and will serve to push us even further into the new reailty, along with, ahem. . . . more squeezing. But we have been preparing for quite some time, going through many mini and repetitious Grand Cross experiences, and this will greatly serve to ease the process.

For now, for those experiencing manifestations that seem to line up quickly and just as quickly evaporate, we can know that these connections were never meant to be. Attempting to push them along and round them up once again will only serve to create very unpleasant experiences as we are being blocked for very good reason. Not a good fit. Not yet time. Those souls inhabiting the higher rungs of the new vibrational hierarchy will be manifesting things of a very high vibratory order, and their manifestations then, are much more intricate and require things that have yet to be experienced in our most recent earthly incarnations. Thus, the longer delay as these souls require more than “the ususal.”

But all this is acomin’. And we are making great and quick progress as we are moving along much more rapidly now than in times past as we have reached a much higher frequency and are embodying it like never before.My heart to yours,

Imagine meeting them.. Your “other half”, your ultimate mirror. The only way is to know it in your heart, and the heart is ecstatic, like true love. Twin Flame love is the most intense and highest achievable kind of love, and it gives you all necessary tools to develop yourself personally. It is a love that is both disorganizing and grand at the same time.

Twin Flames are ‘Universal’ female souls, and ‘Universal’ male souls. When these energies merge, there is an extreme amount of magnetic and spiritual harmony. The Universal Twin Flame love-energy flows sensibly in every cell, they are each other’s ultimate mirror. The pressure of Universal faith brings them together. The Higher Consciousness reconnects them again, and again, sensible in all seven chakra’s. And sensible in the very cosmic energy of the Universe.

The Twin Flame love-energy causes vibrations that allow you to experience unity. It is the energy of the integration from inner polarities, of every individual. Creating and manifesting. The love-vibration between Twin Flames gives mankind a boost, and this will be both visible and sensible. It is time to wake up. It is time for the new Gold Earth.

After meeting your Twin Flame, you awaken spiritually and you learn to love unconditionally. You can be presented with unexplainable, physical discomforts and changes, like an accelerated heart frequency. Also clair-sentience, clair-cognizance and clair-voyance will develop rapidly. Aside from all this, you often experience shifts in your emotional mood that can affect you tremendously: you can go from complete faith and inner knowing, to despair and doubt within minutes. One moment you have complete and utter faith, and the next you don’t believe any of it at all anymore!

Twin Flame-love is not something you can comprehend with your normal intelligence, it expands far beyond any kind of “regular” love and it just happens to you. It is strengthened and guided by the Universe, you cannot choose it, and you are going to have to deal with it. So, no matter how tempting it may sound at times: do not fight it. Receive this intense love and embrace it with a thousand arms. Keep believing in it. Even when you reach the emotional roller coaster. All has been decided prior to incarnating here. Know that you are supposed to do something together, have faith in the promise of reunion and remember that you are dealing with the most intense, highest achievable kind of love that little of us get to experience. The only thing that is important to remember, is that Twin Flame hearts are the tools of love, and only, only the ego can make you believe that you are separated. The brain is ego’s tool.

Twin Flame-love offers you ultimate and optimal personal development, and it is the way of transformation of the heart, and letting go of ego. It is an intense experience, feels undeniably deep and regularly gets you stuck in your emotional world. Misunderstanding, denial, distance and repelling behavior are inherent. To your surroundings you seem enigmatic, the people around you cannot comprehend why you have “suddenly changed all that much”. However, a soul love as huge and intense as this cannot be described with our deficient Earthly vocabulary, and can be incredibly difficult to carry. It touches the core of your soul.

After meeting your Twin you can feel hopelessly lonely and not understood at all. Anything you believed in regarding ‘normal’ love gets crumbled full throttle. The love you know from romantic movies and books requires new insights. You cannot associate yourself with it anymore, and you are no longer able to continue as an individual. You and your Twin are one: a unity, two flames of the fire of life. You are so close, that you seem to be one being. Forever the perfect “double strength” of life. You have been ‘renewed’ in this, forever, again and again. And this is -to say the least- incredibly difficult.

Furthermore, you are to learn to love unconditionally. Unconditional love is the kind of love you experience when you have children. The secret to loving unconditionally, is to try and dismiss ‘if’: you say “I love you.”, and not “I love you, if..” Twin Flame-love goes beyond this, because pure love merely gives, and does not expect anything in return.

We are in the middle of the Aquarius Era. In every ‘now’ new meetings and recognitions occur due to this lightning bolt. To create new love, to expand it. When you experience the truth of your heart, there is no doubt you are half of a Twin Flame couple, that another person exists with you, heartbeat to heartbeat. It is written in your heart, and it moves deeply within your being, far away from any words or concepts.

Twin Flames are the lightworkers in the rhythm on a heart level. They are united to make the cosmic energy dance once again, and burn within the hearts of mankind. Know that reunion will occur. The only reason why the outer world thinks this will not happen, is because they are listening from the wrong frequency, from the wrong station. They are listening to the channel of division.

Are you having doubts of your own? Ask your heart, and listen. Silence your mind, and feel your heart presenting you with the answer. When you are making up answers, thinking them, you are in the wrong place. When you feel the answers, you are right.

During your journey towards your Twin Flame you can get lost in doubt. However, your ‘team’ is always present to confirm again and again that you are on the right track, that you are not crazy. You can experience situations that cannot be caused by mere coincidence. There are many symbolisms connected to this love, from running into their name constantly to intuitive paintings that seem to pass on messages. Twin Flames are rising, whirling and pulsating symbolisms of life.

In the beginning, we had a perfect connection and were perfectly attuned to each other. Together we are returning slowly but steadily, to this wonderful state of unity.

Physical attraction
When you are truly Twin Flames, your entire body knows. It is imbued with this knowing. A fountain of light is what you experience when your bodies merge: the mental body is imbued with this ecstatic energy. Twin Flames have an enormous sense of attraction towards each other: you are left with no choice but to merge. This merge is nothing but the merging of your souls, connecting through your bodies. It is a bundling of energy, of forces, attracting each other through the genitalia.

The sexuality between Twin Flames is -aside from primary, raw- also highly spiritual and therefor ‘divine’. During love making you can experience the sense of acting fully and completely out of instinct: there is a complete surrender. You can sense each other perfectly, and the rhythm of your sacred hearts beats equally. Every sense of barrier, blockage and shame is completely dismissed. Because of this physical merging there is no need to exchange words, as words would bring down this intense experience. Basically, this is a sexual, sacred merge you have never experienced this way before.

In case of merging, in love and complete acceptance, you may also experience staring into each other’s eyes until everything around you fades away. This is a form of osmosis, in which energie is transferred from one to the other, and vice versa. This is why, at first, you communicate through the eyes, and not through other body parts. The eyes are the windows of the soul..

Twin Flames are one, and have always been one, but when they merge they become one soul (again). This may cause losing track of who is who. The individuality ceases to exist: you are one with your Twin, and you can feel this unity.

When this infinite love is connected to the heart, and when lower instincts are overcome, a transformation from the consciousness will occur.

The ‘honeymoon phase’After the very first (physical) ‘reunion’, a short silence between the Twin Flames follows. Often, this is meant as preparation for the ‘honeymoon-phase’: the phase of extreme amorousness, fully and completely getting lost in each other, discovering each other on a physical (and sexual) level. The honeymoon-phase is an intense, torrid period in which one completely surrenders to the other, because they feel like they ‘came home’. As half of a Twin Flame couple, deep inside you know ‘finally, I have found him / her.” However, you do not completely understand what has truly happened to you.

Unfortunately the honeymoon-phase for each Twin -especially the one who is aware of the connection- lasts way too short: the “newly rendez-vous” lasts roughly between two and six months. After this period, the first cracks start to show, and the Twin Flame couple falls back into pulling and pushing: a phase that can lasts for months, if not years.

Pulling and pushingIn the pulling and pushing phase, you will mainly have to deal with sensations of homesickness, the feeling of being amputated, and you cannot understand why the love between you seems to have ‘ended’ so suddenly. An ‘ending’ is, of course, a creation of the brain, because the brain constantly tries to find ‘reasons and understanding’. You simply cannot explain with your logically reasoning brain. And that is, certainly, perfectly human. However, it will not work. And the fact that this will not work is the complete and utter truth, because Twins are energetically one, on a soul level.

When you (seemingly) are hurt by your Twin, this can cause the well-known pulling and pushing, also known as the ‘runner and chaser’ dynamic. We are programmed for this phase of ‘running and chasing’, and of course this does serve a purpose. But at a certain point, the perfect Universal moment, the phase of pulling and pushing stops. After this, if concluded in your blueprint, you go into the bridging period. If this bridging period occurs after the pulling and pushing phase, it means you are not ready to commit to a relationship on a human level: a ‘journey inwards’ is an absolute necessity.

Before you incarnated on earth, you have decided together which roads you would walk. Especially this often causes misunderstanding, tension and confusion. Try to remain centered, in your own power and observe intuitively. It is a fallacy to think of your Twin as someone who could hurt you. Try to look at the incomplete, not-healed parts of yourself. Those are your main lessons! The integration process will take time. Rome was not built in a day either, you see? Open yourself up, undergo, experience.

Many Twin Flames are convinced that it is the other, or the connection itself causing so much pain, but what they do not realize is that it’s really themselves. So, when you attract each other, and then push away again, you experience over and over the ‘conditional’ love brings the incomplete, not-healed parts of yourself to the surface. Even though you do not see each other (a lot) in this phase.

To eventually achieve unity (on a physical level) basically, the awakening of both the male and female consciousness and your own wholeness is necessary. Everything deep within you is connected to emotional pain, not feeling loved or accepted. Therefore, you are presented with a chance to heal this. Also, you ‘learn’ how to function separately from your Twin, to feel just as good and whole alone as with them. When you can cherish your Twin from joy, love them unconditionally and are able to naturally allow them to walk their own paths, you have gained another Universal diploma.

Never forget the energetic exchange from that very first moment, the very first time you locked eyes. The moment you felt yourself coming home. You cannot rationalize this away. Always remain centered, within your own energy. It already requires enough of you to remain standing to begin with: a lot is being expected from you. You are to renew the image of love, and aside from that you are expected to show this love. You will be left with many question marks, but turn these question marks into exclamation marks. In short: keep having faith and surrender. You cannot influence the process, and you cannot influence your Twin.

You are to lift the veil of illusion, and the veil of separation because you are always one with your Twin Flame. The connection of the soul is the actual truth of this bond.

The bridging period
After the pulling and pushing phase, you sense distance is being created between the two of you, and that you seem to have ‘lost’ each other (energetically). This bridging period is meant to unite each other’s polarities. You know who your other half is, you have sensed him (or her) and you have seen right through them. Make sure you stay true to yourself in this period, and always remember you are one: one split soul divided over two different bodies. Should we have been together with our Twin Flame from day one, we would not have been able to look inside ourselves this deeply, to find our own being, our own consciousness. This temporary separation is necessary, because it is the only way we will be able to reunite with our other half. The souls are already entangled, and living together from pure love.

In this bridging period, or ‘silent’ period, you have to make sure that love for yourself dominates at all time. If you sense this is not the case yet, you are to work on your self-love. This could also very well be the way to self-love and self-respect. We have been programmed to grow as an individual during this time of separation.

This transformation occurs separately, individually, so that all can be clarified and united. Remember you are never cut off from your Twin. Remember your individuality has served a purpose, and was never the core of this love. Remember you are meant to reunite, if this has been concluded in your blueprint.

The ego of your soul love is not in any way stronger that the will of the cosmos. Or, differently phrased; the will of the ego is not in any way stronger than the will of the soul! The soul desires love and harmony. If you had been ready for each other now, you would have already been together. So, there are still parts of you that require healing.

No, you will not lose each other: you are one, a two-unity. Your connection will never end, it is constant. You are dealing with a sacred contract, a sacred marriage, it has been prenatally decided to meet your other half in this incarnation. Complaints can be turned in in triple at the gates of heaven. However, due to your soul love, you will commit to a most wonderful relationship with yourself!

Due to your (limited) ‘free choice’ not a single psychic or medium can tell you when you will reunite. This is up to you, and up to your other half, and also depends on dealing with other matters beneath the surface. You can -just as your soul love- commit to your soul path. Remember: “the goal is not your learning school, it is the road towards it that manifests the greatest lessons of all: it causes you to grow, and growing hurts.” Should you know when exactly you would reunite with your Twin, you would lean back, sit, and wait until this moment arrives. But then, you simply would not grow. So, we are to eliminate all these conditionings, expectations, and the desire to know how it will ‘end’, because we would stand in our own way and dismiss what still needs to go through our souls.

All these difficulties are in facts tests for our indigence, therefore we are to return to this connection on a soul level. If you do this and acknowledge this, you will elevate yourself to a higher vibration: the preparation of our own growth, and experiencing unity with your Twin Flame and your soul family.

Twin Flames will fully reunite when pure love is reflected. Only then, they will come together, through mutual love. They have to be open from the heart to be able to love, and not block this, or deny it.

To clarify: transforming is a long and slow process, especially for the ‘crowd outside’, no matter how close they are to you. Waiting to complete this transformation would not be a wise thing to do. Waiting also means influencing, and in general has a very delaying effect on the transformation process. One who waits, does not live in the moment, but wants something from it: especially something the moment is not offering. In fact, you are telling this moment: “you better hurry up, and be where I want you to be as quickly as possible”. By doing this, you are throwing dirt in your own eyes. Patience and faith are your only rocks to hold onto.

The Twin Flame journey really is about constant surrender to every now-moment, keeping in touch with the vision and emotion from the inside, of what is developing and will be in this life. Everything is unfolding in utter perfection, and it really is our own perception that wants to see this otherwise.

“And when one of them shall meet their other half, the true half of themselves, the pair shall be lost in an astonishment of love, friendship and intimacy, and one shall no longer be able to disappear from each other’s view, not even for a moment.”

Plato

2500 years ago.The birth of Twin Flames

The Eastern spiritual philosophies, as established in the Bhagavad Gita, the Veda’s from the Hinduism and many other writings of the ancient wise, teach us that the soul was created as one: a unity of both male and female. The idea that the soul has split itself in two sexes has been formulated throughout the centuries by philosophers, poets and spiritual teachers. An understandable image of the Twin Flame was created twenty-five years ago, in a legend that has always triggered the imagination of the Western world: in Plato’s “Symposium”, Aristophanes compliments love, as he describes how Zeus has split the soul into two opposite halves which both wander the Earth, in an eternal search for each other.

Throughout the entire Universe, Twin Flames will be drawn towards each other by the cord of memory that connects them. They recognize each other with an absolute certainty, and can never leave each other’s sides. It is a search through many lifetimes, en during all these lifetimes the two of them will have certainly met before. However, each time –previously- their connection was not complete.

Perhaps the Twin Flame concept can only now, in the Aquarius Era, gain knowledge, and we have not been ready for the ultimate completion until today.

Two human souls, born from one and the same soul, and therefore known to each other during many incarnations on earth. They complement each other, and help each other through their process of development. Twin Flames are both each other’s opposites, and the perfection of themselves. They experience the sense of perfect unity.

Their love is unconditional. Twin Flames are destined for each other, they are meant for each other. Their connection is immensely strong: physically, emotionally, mentally and spiritually. After meeting your Twin Flame, your life changes forever, and the attraction you feel towards this person will be beyond this world: something you have never felt before.

By now we know that “the meeting” is linked to an immense transformation process: an enormous amount of pulling and pushing, letting go of many old fears, old patterns, old beliefs and expectations, and learning to love unconditionally.

When the fear has subsided, and both Twin Flames are connected to their Higher Selves, the love will draw them towards each other like magnets. However, as soon as the slightest amount of fear comes back, it will cause the Twin to create distance and walk away from love by pushing the other half off, by running.

In only a short amount of time, Twin Flames can take a huge leap on their spiritual journey. Many things get clarified, and insights that had been lingering deep within will surface.

The ‘character’ of the Twin Flame connection

telepathic contact

picking up physical distortions of your other half

emotional blockage (like a young child)

finding everything about your Twin wonderful: you feel enormously (sexually) attracted to them, while they may not even be your type

spiritual development within one of the Twins, while the other (often) still lives in their ego.

letting go from, or losing certain people around you because they no longer “match” with you.

excruciating Soul pain (when physically separated from each other, or when your Twin pushes you away)

your patience is put through an enormous test which can take years

there simply aren’t any words to describe the deep, intense feelings you have for your Twin

disability to be intimate with another person (even willing to remain alone when your Twin is too afraid to come into your life)

polarities (huge differences in character)

most Twin Flames chose a career in social service (at least one of the two): many Twins are doctors, nurses, lawyers, judges, therapists, coaches, ER-employees, fire fighters, etc.

your surroundings don’t understand you (anymore). Usually you are being told to “let them go”. Well meant advices, but obviously impossible!

Synchronicities (for example: you see your Twin’s name everywhere). You receive confirmations from the Universe again, and again

Three types of Twin Flame situations:

1. one of the two is ‘stuck’ in a marriage
2. one of the two is not ready to commit, does not believe in love (anymore) or looks for appreciation with countless others.
3. you are being separated by religion

Twin Flame versus Soul Mate

The Twin Flame is often confused with the Soul Mate. The main difference between them is that Twin Flames are one: they are a unity, they came from one and the same soul. The Soul Mate came from many other souls (soul family).

Souls usually incarnate in groups near each other, and have -aside from an individual purpose- a collective purpose as a group. Within such a group each individual can take their own place, usually as a consequence from many previous incarnations. One soul has often had the same role in a long range of incarnations. During all these lifetimes one has created many strong bonds with other members of their “soul family”, of which there were often love relationships as well. These related souls are called Soul Mates. The recognition of a Soul Mate is experienced by many people as wondrous. The similarities in feelings are just as intense as when meeting your Twin Flame; nearly identical, even. So basically, the difference is hardly noticeable at first. Later on, this will become more and clearer.

Soul Mates will walk the path towards healing (emotional maturing, self-love and self-respect) together: next to each other, in a friendship and / or love relationship. Twin Flames, however, walk this path of transformation separately, individually. This is also called the “bridge over” or separation.

Twin Flames share something very special together. As soon as they first meet, first lock eyes, the love between them is extremely intense. This feeling dismisses all logic and everything “normal”. However, one is never higher, better, or more beautiful than another. Creating distinction is a tool of the brain; the ego. Twin Flames have been linked together since the moment of creation, but the feeling of recognition and the intense love nearly always resembles meeting a Soul Mate. However, Twin Flames are two parts of one union, so there is no discussing their unity: it is an unbreakable bond. One Twin has usually followed a majority of male incarnations, while the other has gone through a majority of female incarnations. Nevertheless, both souls will gain experience incarnating as the other sex as well, to fully experience mankind in all its aspects. Before birth, a “blueprint” is known, in which is described what the incarnation will look like, should everything go according to plan. So before incarnating on earth, it has already been set in stone whether or not you will meet your Twin Flame in this life. Sometimes both Twins will not incarnate at the same time, but one will function as the guide of their other half.

Twin Flames are walking the journey towards awareness, individually. Soul Mates will go through this process together. Twins usually experience a (physical) separation during this difficult path of healing. Usually this occurs after the “pulling and pushing” phase (the phase in which one often speaks of ‘the runner’ and ‘the stayer’). The agony of temporary separation can go immensely deep, you can even become ill. However, this excruciating (traumatic) pain has been experienced before, during the splitting of the soul many light-years ago. So basically, this is a déja-vu.

Twin Flames mirror each other. They are meant for each other in every aspect. It is destined, a two-unity.

Karmic relationships

You can recognize a karmic meeting by immediately having the feeling you ‘already know’ the other, or getting a sensation of trust. Often there is also a mutual sense of attraction, something forcing in the air, causing you to want to be together and discover each other. When the opportunity arises for both partners, this strong attraction can grow into a love relationship, or a serious case of being in love. These feelings can be so intense that you think you have met your Twin Flame or a Soul Mate. Yet, there is a difference in experiencing these relationships regarding Karmic connection. This considers relationships of people who have met in previous lives, in which they have experienced intense emotions towards each other. There was something unresolved about these emotions: guilt, fear, co-dependence, infidelity, harm, etc. Because of this unresolved emotional load, these people attract each other again in another incarnation. The goal of these renewed meetings is that the unresolved emotions can be resolved after all. This manifests by reviving the old ways of treating each other for a short while (repetition of the old situation), and then presenting both partners with the choice to act differently now. The spiritual goal of the renewed meeting, is making different choices in this lifetime than in the previous.

Twin Flames have little (or no) karma to resolve. They meet -first and foremost- to begin their own individual and spiritual journey inwards, towards themselves, so that they can rediscover each other again later on, from equality and wholeness. The romance between Twin Flames is of course, present, but eventually they will attract each other again to serve mankind, to spread love.

Recognition

Is the recognition between Twin Flames mutual? It is, on soul level. However, there can be practical and emotional circumstances which cause one of the Twins to resist recognizing their other half.

So how do you know you have met your Twin Flame? There is a deep, overpowering inner knowing. It is a love, so big and disorganizing, that you can hardly get around it. It touches you in the core of your very soul. Naturally, you can have this confirmed by a Twin Flame coach, or a medium specialized in soul love. Longing to meet your Twin creates nothing but confusion. Not everyone will meet their Twin Flame in this life. Twin Flame love is unique, and the most ultimate and intense kind of love in existence. It happens to you, it comes over you. Looking for it has no use whatsoever.

Pulling and pushing

Twin Flames experience an (eternal) pulling and pushing. We are all under a telepathic connection from the moon. Even though this is no planet, you are most definitely involved with it. The moon regulates the pulling and pushing. You can compare it with the Yin and Yang symbol: Yin symbolizes the pulling, while Yang symbolizes the pushing, like day and night, man and woman, positive and negative. The Twin Flame connection is intensified during the pulling and pushing process.

Because Twin Flames symbolize Yin and Yang, the pulling and pushing can eternally continue, you cannot change ones character. A human being cannot be fixed. The transformation process goes a lot deeper that we can imagine. It has nothing to do with changing your personality (your character, which is formed starting at three years of age). Basically it is about striving for wholeness, from the inside. It is the way to self-love and self-respect on a tremendously high level.

Twin Flames can be heavily tested by any imaginable conflict. Eventually, the magnetic attraction between Twin Flames will be so strong that every obstacle shall be overcome.

Aspects of a Soul Connection (Soul Mate / Twin Flame)

the love for each other seems to erupt ‘magnetically’, there is nothing you have to do.

you feel a tremendously strong sense of unity

you feel unconditional love towards each other

you have never experienced this intense kind of love before

it feels like ‘coming home’

you know this is the ultimate love

anything besides love in your life becomes less important and more relative

you understand aspects of life you had never understood before

it feels like you have known each other forever

you feel completed

you are each other’s ultimate mirror

you know exactly how the other is feeling

you know things about each other that are actually impossible for you to know

you don’t have to say a word to be able to communicate

you have a strong sense of recognition

you feel energy ‘dancing’ between the two of you

you sense you have a mission together in this life

you know something very, very special is going on

everything ‘falls into place’in your life, and you see more links and connections

it can be an entrance, see-through of sneak-preview to the non-material life

you have always had the feeling something was ‘missing’ in your life, and you finally know what it was

it’s a key that opens the door towards yourself

you pick up on each other’s thoughts and moods

your characters are complimentory (two opposites of one being) but your values and attitude in life are similar, and your professions may even be alike

before meeting each other, you have both gone through a period of loneliness, or a period of coming back to your senses

every phone call or ‘date’ with the other seems like the first, and each time creates butterflies again

you are drawn to each other like magnets, want to touch each other continuously or want to be together constantly

telepathic contact

meeting each other in dreams

you can strongly sense each other’s mood, when together and from a distance

what you share with your Twin Flame cannot be compared to any other relationship or friendship. The feeling you experience towards each other will not occur with anybody else

pulling and pushing

being buddies through thick and thin, and forgiving each other despite of the difficult times that arise during the pulling and pushing. Like a parent-child relationship, there is an unconditional love from the very start

the unconditional aspect only disappears when the ego becomes too strong, and starts acting and thinking from fear

an enormous amount of conflicts, which can drive you apart. However, Twin Flames always return to each other

every meeting, kisss, touch, look, etc., feels like the first: it will always be fun and exciting

often, without knowing, you have been close to each other (your house, school, etc.)

no matter how hard one pulls, or the other pushes; Twin Flames are always connected, and nothing can come in between

you can miss each other terribly, feeling like you have been amputated

Twin Flames always cross each other’s path again once the fear subsides, and the missing surfaces

you can feel misunderstood, your surroundings will not understand you (anymore)

Many of you probably think about the well known movie trilogy when the Matrix is mentioned. In fact, this theory is actually based on it. You see, this movie is often used to clarify the current situation in the world, for it carries a huge spiritual message. We live in a world ruled by the “Matrix”: ego, materialism, fear, conditioning. In this world, we all learn to follow society: not to ask questions, obey. However, more and more people are waking up, and are willing to step out of this Matrix because they sense there is much, much more. Now, the main character in the movie is Neo. Neo is offered a choice, by means of two pills: one will take him back to the Matrix, back to ego, the “comfort zone”. The other will bring him to enlightenment, shows him his true Self and opens doors (the awakening). However, choosing this pill might be fearful at first: you have to give up your reality and all you believed in, and accept that there’s a much bigger picture than you thought.

In the movie, Neo is attacked by “agents”. The agents represent low density vibrations, negative energies like fear, insecurity, sorrow, pain, doubt. They would do anything to prevent Neo from beating the Matrix, and reclaiming his power.

Eventually, Neo does beat the Matrix and regains control over himself. He is free now, he can do anything he wants and nobody can stop him: he is called “the One”. The trigger that caused him to achieve this state, was his own personal awakening process, his healing, facing his fears, fully believing and knowing that nobody could control him but himself. However, the other major trigger was Trinity’s (his Twin Flame) love for him. She told him she trusts him, and loves him. He was dead (while in the Matrix) but got back up (during his awakening) and confronted the agents.

The agents tried to attack him once more, full throttle this time, by firing a rain of bullets at him. These bullets symbolize all the bad things the Matrix sends your way: fear, insecurity, doubt, confusion, unresolved issues from the past, trauma, conditioning. Actually, everything that harms us. However, Neo turns around, faces the bullets and says loud and clear: NO.

The bullets stop touching him at once. They cannot hurt him anymore, because he doesn’t let them. This is because he is awakened now. He realizes he’s the one who has the control: he decides, he chooses, and no one else. This counts for every aspect in his life. This counts for everyone. As soon as you wake up, and release yourself from conditioning and the manipulation of the Matrix, you realize that YOU call the shots. You realize the agents are in fact powerless, unless you allow them to attack you: you decide whether or not you allow the agents to send these low density energies at you: you decide whether or not you choose to accept sorrow, pain, doubt, insecurity, or anything else that lowers your vibration. You decide whether or not you also turn around and say NO, like Neo did.

After Neo has stopped the agents’ bullets in the movie, he -in turn- attacks them and the agents are beaten. Comparing this to our current Earthly life, it is assumed that after beating the agents (the low density energies) you are to find and cure the root of these attacks. Usually this root can be found in childhood trauma, self esteem issues, fear of abandonment. Once we find and heal these roots, we become invincible.

Can you see how Neo says “NO” in the movie, and the agents can no longer influence him? No matter how hard they try, scream and shout, they have lost control. They are powerless.

Just like in the movie, many people have not yet awakened. Those who have started their awakening, are continuously under the attack of the agents, who want to bring them back to the Matrix and regain control. People who have not yet awakened, can be used and manipulated by the agents to attack the ones who have. At the hand of this example, we see that the people who are still “asleep” (the ones still living in the ego, and still being controlled by the Matrix like puppets) generate huge challenges for the awakened ones. These challenges can manifest in misunderstanding, rejection, resistance, confrontations, unexpected setbacks, fill in the blanks. In fact, these are all challenges that make you look even deeper inside yourself, and grow.

We have to consider that many running Twins (mostly the males) have started their Awakening process, but they are not there yet. Many of their actions will not make sense. Many of their actions may even sound rude or confrontational, or purposely meant to hurt you. But this is because they are still under mind control, they still live in their ego. They are not ready. They are not there yet to understand, so they are just doing what they think they have to do: which is run, and push away and hurt you because they are in the Awakening process and it is confusing. Very confusing. Taking their actions and words at heart is like taking the actions and words of a toddler at heart. Would you still be mad at someone who did something bad when he was a child, or 20 years later when he is mature and grown up, and realizes things?

So, I guess this is an individual path that is triggered by a soul connection. We can only work on our own process, we cannot push others to do so. We can be the trigger, but each person will eventually get there. The purpose of this is re-empowerment, healing and connecting to the true Divine, with ourselves and with others. No matter the outcome of the connection, it is always about us, about waking up, about not letting the Matrix control us.

Once the Matrix (and ego) in this world collapses and cannot control us, I guess this is when Ascension will happen in mass. We have our personal Ascension and we have the planet’s Ascension. The more awakened ones, the better.

I do think that a soul love like a Twin Flame or soul connection, or whatever you want to call it has that purpose. It tells us: “I believe in you. Now wake up!”