Do I something wrong?and after, if somebody could write a micro guide (or link) to start neoloader in daemon version and which file i must edit for configure it.
At last: after install and launch the daemon on ubuntu server, for use GUI from windows, I open Neoloader I go on Neo tab => Connection Manager => Strop and put ip address, port, password (of coure what I must configure before on daemon) and click on connect.
Is it right?

It would be really great to use neoloader on sever because now I use amule for ed2k link (of course) and fatrat for torrent html and host (host not too much!!! just rapid...), but for to have no problems I don't start together the 2 program.
The server is a download station, dlna server, samba and ftp server. It's very very good and if I can use Neoloader will be more

I never tested it on a installation that did not head any GUI components installed,

I think there is a mistake in the installation scriptit starts ./NeoSetup -select NeoLoader MediaPlayer.so.1 -download -install -startthis should be./NeoSetup -embedded -select NeoLoader MediaPlayer.so.1 -download -install -startthe -embedded switch tells the setup to instantiate a APP object from the QT framework that does not require any GUI component.

Please try running the setup manually with the -embedded switch added

as for how to connectit pretty much works as you already said the default password for a unconfirmed NeoLoader core will be just '*'a Neo with a GUI would setup a random password on first Start of the GUI object, but a Neo run only as command line will not do that and require the user to change it.

I installed in this way:
dpkg-deb -x neoloader_2014.0_amd64.deb $HOME for extract deb packet in home directory, cd opt/NeoLoader for go inside new directory and
./NeoSetup -embedded -select NeoLoader MediaPlayer.so.1 -download -install -start as you wrote, and I had this:

but nothing
I don't know very good linux I start using it 8 month ago when I tried to set up my server and by google I always managed to find what I need and I learned all the little things that I know now; so I am sorry to steal your time, but if you can help me on this problem I would be really grateful of you (of course if all this is possible!)

To start NeoLoader without a GUI you need to use the switch -core or -daemon

if you use the switch -core it will start in the current terminal session and the session will need to remain open as long as neo runs,you can bypass this restriction by setting the ini setting Config/NeoLoader.ini -> Integration/NoHUP to true this will make NeoLoader ignore the hand up signal when the terminal closes

or you can use the -daemon switch than NeoLoader will start a new instance of itself in a way that the new instance will also ignore the hand up signal. all console output of the second NeoLoader will be redirected to the first one and displayed in the starting console, but here you can now close the console or kill the process with Ctrl-C and the second NeoLoader will remain running.

things that I know now; so I am sorry to steal your time, but if you can help me on this problem I would be really grateful of you (of course if all this is possible!)

@DavidXanatos: first... thanks for your hard work (to you and to the other developer, ofcourse!). Second... the project is yours and you only dicide what to do and how to develop but as far I can see It would be great if NeoLoader could run as an headless daemon with an internal web-server (like transmission-daemon). I never saw something more easy to manage/control as the transmission-daemon web-gui (and I know you want to keep it simple). I'm not a coder (the last time I wrote something in assembler the dinos were ruling over Earth! ) but I think in that way it would be more "architecture/so indipendent" and easier to maintain. Anyway thanks again! ;-)

Now I must return to my Debian VM to test! ;-)

(Sorry for my very bad English but It isn't my native language... is my fourth language! ;-))

[UPDATE]

I tried to install NeoLoader on a Debian Wheezy 64bit environment but It failed due to the libc6 version: NeoLoader requires a newer one.I'll try with a Debian Jessie environment.