It’s not your fault either. Hardly anybody in the world has studied this common situation where a married couple’s sex life crawls to a standstill. But I made it my life’s work and in the next 10 minutes I will tell you how you can turn your wife back on again sexually and lead her into more passion and more new kinds of sexual experiences with you than you can even imagine now.

Don’t believe me, believe Brian, Ken, Roger and the thousands of other men who were smart enough to believe it might be possible to rekindle their sex life and were willing to try.

These men were gutted, depressed, angry, upset and felt guilty for their desire.

Many of them tried begging or demanding sex.

They tried to please their wives by doing extra chores in the hopes they’d be rewarded with a little nookie.

They walked on eggshells, praying she’d toss them a bone every week, then every month…

Until sex was almost non-existent and they wondered if the should get divorced, have an affair or simply resign themselves to cohabitating as “friends.”

When a red-blooded man is not getting sexual release from a woman who loves to be intimate with him, who gets turned on by him, who actually wants him and shows

When a man’s wife rejects him for initiating sex, he is the saddest, most gutted man in the world. There’s no rejection more damning, no rejection more personally insulting, no rejection more shaming than a wife who won’t gladly and lovingly screw her own husband.

First I share my email with my wife!
Premature aging and sick more hit home.
She’s sick today.
She vowed no sex with me until I walk straight no limping after surgery. I’m going back for a second surgery since I’m not straight.I probaly will never pass her standards. No sex with a cripple just makes me depressed.
You didn’t say what do does that come later?

I answered all of those questions with a YES!!! We had great sex AND love making BEFORE we got married 15 years ago, but one bite of that dreaded wedding cake, and she shut down sexually. When we were dating, I thought that I had died and gone to heaven, what with making love with the woman that I loved, everywhere. We tried different positions, toys, places, both inside and outside (nothing like making love outside on a mountain top, with the cool mountain air blowing gently across your back, under a full moon), but now NOTHING. We stopped making love within a week after we got married, and stopped having “pity sex” about three years ago. Whenever I try and talk to her about it, she gets pizzed off, and she won’t talk with any one about it and she doesn’t want me talking to anyone either. I won’t have an affair, because I respect her and our wedding vows too much. I tried the ‘Revive Her Drive’ material, but nothing. I guess I’ll just have to become a monk in my own home.
Any ideas?

A lot of the circumstances reported in the above comments apply to my relationship (or lack of one) with my wife of 6 years. There is no romance, no joy, no zest for living a sexually fulfilling life. The irony is that the less she participates on any level sexually or otherwise them more I want to have the kind of marriage and relationship that Susan describes that she has. I know it’s possible. Something to be said for listening to and following the suggestions of someone who had already been there and done that.