Guys, would you think you got used for sex?

If a girl you have a crush on agrees to have sex with you but leaves almost immediately after you two have sex and you don't really think she has feelings for you or likes you back. She almost acts like a stranger when she sees you. She doesn't bother talking to you unless necessary. Would you think you got used for sex?

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I wouldn't sleep with a girl unless we were in a committed relationship, so if we did have sex and then this happened, we would certainly have a much bigger issue than just her using me for sex. To me, sex is great, but it isn't everything in a relationship. Women, and men, are not just things to satisfy our lusts, then thrown away. Men are usually culprits of these acts, but not uncommon among women. Have respect for yourself and your body. And only share that most sacred and most vulnerable part of yourself with someone you can truly love and express yourself freely and completely. 'You see, there are still faint glimmers of civilization left in this barbaric slaughterhouse that was once known as humanity.'

She sounds like a professional woman who thinks getting emotionally involved with a man is a weakness thus she tries to act like a male "player" in order to seem tough. I suspect she would not be happy though.

No, I would think my sex game must have been immensely disappointing to her.

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B. I wouldn't mind being used as a piece of meat. Sounds like fun. After all, I'm using her as well aren't I

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Anonymous

I definitely would feel I got used for sex, but I mean I really don't crush that much. If I have a crush on a girl it's out of sexual desire. Not that I want to actually be GF/BF with her. I might feel bad if we don't interact anymore, because I'd want to fuck her again probably.

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Anonymous

Ya I would think she's a slit

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Anonymous

I would conclude that sex was all she was all she wanted from me, but I wouldn't 'feel used' knowing that. Sure I'd prefer to cuddle afterwards and maybe go again, but I'd still enjoy having just sex as described. I wouldn't think less of her for that, I just might be disappointed that she doesn't fancy me for more than sex.