Monday, March 9, 2009

Learning How to Flirt in Dating and Why

Here in this article we will talk about the conception of "flirting", and why it's SO important that you comprehend exactly what it is and how to do it with women. To begin with, women are acquainted with what flirting is, and they respond VERY differently to flirting communication than they do to emblematic social communication.

If you recognize flirting and sexual nervousness, you can begin conversations with women and have them INSTANTLY feeling ATTRACTION for you. If you DON'T know how flirting and sexual tension work, then you're either going to have to become famous or make a LOT of money to be flourishing with women.

I'm going to put forward that you learn how to flirt well, and then do it RIGHT FROM THE BEGINNING in your communications with women to SET THE RIGHT TONE. Think of flirting like playing. Remember when you were a kid and you used to "play fight" with your other friends?

What's the variation between "play" wrestling and "real" wrestling?

And how do you identify the difference when it's happening... when your friend runs up and pushes you down, then jumps on you and tries to pin you?

The answer is YOU JUST KNOW. It's understandable to humans (and other animals, by the way) when someone is "playing" and when they're staid.

Flirting is similar to that.

If you start talking to a woman and say "Hi, you're very pretty. You probably have a boyfriend, right?" in a normal tone of accent, you're NOT flirting.

On the other side, if you say "Hi, I realize that you're probably shy because you get no attention from men... so I thought I'd come over here and pay attention to you..." it's OBVIOUS that you're not being serious. This is called flirting.

By in the simple way, flirting IS NOT simply telling jokes, or trying to be "cute".

The concept of Cocky & Funny is simply a powerful, concentrated way of flirting and creating sexual tension with a specific kind of humor.

It's so humorous to me how some guys write in because they "can't see themselves being Cocky & Funny around women" because they don't want to come across as jerk.

This really cracks me up... because it's observable to me that these guys JUST DON'T GET IT.

So let me explain this whole thing in a different way...

If you know how to exchange a few words the right way, women will respond to you RIGHT FROM THE BEGINNING with a HIGH LEVEL of sexual attention and ATTRACTION.

When you know how to integrate flirting in a Cocky & Funny way, which is really a form of "adult verbal play", you tune in to a certain rate of recurrence in a woman's mind, and cause her to go into a very special kind of emotional state.

One of the keys to efficient flirting is to "get it". In other words, you have to in point of fact get out there and practice so you get a "feel" for how it works.

I think a lot of guys give up when they try a cute line or modus operandi and a woman responds by saying "You're a loser." Instead of just realizing that they need more practice or that the woman might have just been in a bad mood or even one of those horrifying "I don't have a sense of humor" cases, they take it personally and decide to just have it mean that they're a failure.

But take my word for it... once you gain knowledge of how to flirt in actual fact and communicate in the language of "adult play" you WILL SIMPLY NOT BELIEVE how women will act in response to you.