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Let's see, it's 9:02 now, and I finished mopping up jizz at about 8:45. so that would be about 17 minutes ago. Give or take a few either way. Capt.Carl. (who is going out for french toast with a big smile on his face)

"Life in Lubbock, Texas, taught me two things: One is that God loves you and you're going to burn in hell. The other is that sex is the most awful, filthy thing on earth and you should save it for someone you love." - Butch Hancock, Musician, The Flatlanders

It's been way too long, though if I get too desparate, I could go for the sleazy ER doc who has made it very clear he wouldn't mind doing more. He's already had a thing with at least EMT, rumoured another nurse. He isn't a George Clooney or McDreamy either. I don't know if it is worth it just to say I got to have sex in the on-call room..........

Surprising to read many others have been without sex for a longer time...But then, I did have my share.......2000 dates ( well, dates euhmmm) or more ?? I really don't remember.

My excessive sex and maybe my sex addiction stopped when I was diagnosed 20 years ago..

I can't say that I really miss sex. It is more the affection and feeling your loved one laying close to you that satisfies me... not that I hate sex....not at all....My soldier still salutes me every morning...

hermie

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Diagnosed in 1987 and still kickingKivexa (Epzicom),Tivicay once daily

1) What do we mean (since we haven't answered this yet and need this thread to continue a long time) by having sex? Again, by yourself or only if another person was involved? 2) I don't remember, it was so long ago (if we mean another person was involved,) but 3) having been a bodyworker in NYC, (a/k/a Will Bottom of 'connect with your butt') I had reached the point before arriving in MA that I was SO over it. Win

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Winthrop Smith has published three collections of poetry: Ghetto: From The First Five; The Weigh-In: Collected Poems; Skin Check: New York Poems. The last was published in December 2006. He has a work-in-progress underway titled Starting Positions.

LIFE is not a race to the grave with the intention of arriving safelyin a pretty and well-preserved body, but, rather to skid in broadside,thoroughly used up, totally worn out, and loudly proclaiming--WOW! WHAT ARIDE!!!

Well if it means by myself, then it was 2 days ago. With another person, it has been 2 yrs. For me, I think it is by choice because I have raised my standards. No more young bucks unless they got their own crib and money cause I am done raising kids, no one who drinks too damn much and becomes an sloppy drunk, no one who does drugs other than weed, and no one who wants to spend more than one night! Since making those rules, there is no one in my area who qualifies.

not really. but only about a few days. if i don't, um...do it myself, it tends to happen in my sleep a lot. i never had so many wet dreams when i was a teen. didn't get my first one til 18, i think. have had them bunches ever since.

not really. but only about a few days. if i don't, um...do it myself, it tends to happen in my sleep a lot. i never had so many wet dreams when i was a teen. didn't get my first one til 18, i think. have had them bunches ever since.

file under: more info than you ever needed to know.

I've never had a wet dream.

Masturbating three to four times a day might have something to do with that.

I believe that it was December 12th if I remember correctly. I was visiting my partner in Thailand for the first time. We've been together now for almost 2 years but we had never met face to face before l visited in November this past year. We met online just after I had sero-converted in 2005 and talked about the monogamy thing. I decided the insane sex that I'd had up until then needed to be put back into perspective for me and this relationship even with it's distance has been just the ticket.

I do find I miss the sex but I think I miss the intimacy so much more.