“He picked up the tab, of course, but he thought it was entitled and rude,” Di Angelis says. An attorney in his 30s, with whom she was having lunch at the Upper East Side’s Patsy’s Pizzeria, loudly asked: “You do anal, don’t you? Later, an equally young software engineer claimed that “all professional women are whores” and harassed her with calls and texts condemning her for staying out too late.