You know, 'That Couple' that have their shit together, talk through all their problems rationally, consult and problem solve together.

I didn't last.

In seriousness, a few of our couple friends are having a hard time right now. kellygirl426 is a new member, and my closest friend. Another FOM, stopped by last night and dumped all kinds of awfulness into our laps (not A related) but M related.

And FWH and I felt like a serious team. Not that we had all the answers, but that were on the same page with our insight. And I realized how much insight FWH now has. It was something he worked very hard on during IC. IC mentioned he was not 'reflective' and unable to learn from past mistakes.

Yesterday was FWH birthday and I make (ok, mostly pre-prepared as I dont' cook) a really romantic dinner party for two. I pulled out the stops. Flowers, good china, crystal, silver. I served a multi-course meal and we shared a bottle of wine. We are child free for the next week.

It was just no normal and nice, and it felt really good.

“Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter, and those who matter don't mind.”