Are you carrying around all of the past failures in relationships and all of the bad things that have happened to you in the past? Sometimes we don’t realize the weight that we carry around. When people say “all men are jerks” or “all women are b*tches” that means that they are bringing with them all of the hurts from their past relationships and they are expecting everyone they meet from here on out are going to be the same way or treat them the same way. It is not true. If you are doing this unconsciously, STOP! Forgive and forget the bad things that have happened in the past. Everything that happened in the past was either a lesson for you or a lesson for the other person. Always take the good from every situation and then learn something. Even if the past was ugly for you, it served you in some way. Start fresh today with a clean slate.