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is this weird?

I am 37, happily married with one DS. Except for the lack of money, lol, i have a great life.
I just found out the guy I had a super crush on from 7th grade until almost all of high school just passed away. I don't know any details. The obit says he passed at home, no wife, no kids.
What is weird is how bummed i feel about it. I know that will pass. That literally was my teen years, my crush on him. Such a shame, he was too young 37. Last time i think i even saw him was back in 1994.
Weird how you can be so bummed about someone you haven't seen in many years.
This was just really a vent. Just odd i an so bothered over it. :(

My sincere condolences. I went through the same thing 2 years ago. DH and I went to my HS sweethearts memorial service together. He said it was weird at first, but that he did understand why I would feel the need to attend. He even made friends and I've been reacquainted with so many of my HS friends. I still miss him on occasion, but it isn't the relationship so much as realizing that people I know within MY generation have passed, and it brings closer to home that reality of your time will come.

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