Need your thoughts on something

This doesn't have to do with my lo but I know we can vent here and talk about things. Something has been bothering me and I want to see what you ladies think. The other day my husband and I were out doing some shopping well he asked me if I would look up a phone number on the white pages. Well before he gave me his phone he deleted his call history , his text messages and Internet history. To me I feel like he is hiding something or possibly cheating. Why would you clear that out if you had nothing to hide. What do you think? He's been spending a lot of time on his phone he also takes it to the bathroom with him. He has also started locking our bedroom door when he goes to take a shower . Plus he isn't interested in me sexually anymore . He sleeps on the couch most nights

This doesn't have to do with my lo but I know we can vent here and talk about things. Something has been bothering me and I want to see what you ladies think. The other day my husband and I were out doing some shopping well he asked me if I would look up a phone number on the white pages. Well before he gave me his phone he deleted his call history , his text messages and Internet history. To me I feel like he is hiding something or possibly cheating. Why would you clear that out if you had nothing to hide. What do you think? He's been spending a lot of time on his phone he also takes it to the bathroom with him. He has also started locking our bedroom door when he goes to take a shower . Plus he isn't interested in me sexually anymore . He sleeps on the couch most nights

I would ask him about it. I just went through something similar. Turns out it was just a friend from school an he was worried I would be upset. Of course I was still upset he hid it and didn't trust me enough to tell me. But I would have never known if I hadn't asked! He let me talk to the other woman and assured me nothing was going on, I was still leery and kept an eye on the situation. But I guess it's better to know!

I would ask him about it. I just went through something similar. Turns out it was just a friend from school an he was worried I would be upset. Of course I was still upset he hid it and didn't trust me enough to tell me. But I would have never known if I hadn't asked! He let me talk to the other woman and assured me nothing was going on, I was still leery and kept an eye on the situation. But I guess it's better to know!

It does sound like he's hiding something but I agree w pp, just ask him. The worst that can happen is that he confirms your suspicions but at least you will know for sure. Or he will lie about it but you will probably be able to tell if he's lying. Just tell him to be honest with you. Maybe it's nothing, but you won't know unless you ask.

It does sound like he's hiding something but I agree w pp, just ask him. The worst that can happen is that he confirms your suspicions but at least you will know for sure. Or he will lie about it but you will probably be able to tell if he's lying. Just tell him to be honest with you. Maybe it's nothing, but you won't know unless you ask.

He could be cheating or just talking to a female friend and afraid you might mistaken it for cheating. I make sure my dh can't read anything I say to my guy friends because what if he sees a part of something and takes it the wrong way. Also my ex read a whole conversation I had with a friend while I went I shower and started questioning every detail even though I wasn't doing anything wrong. Sometimes it's easier to just avoid the whole thing.

He could be cheating or just talking to a female friend and afraid you might mistaken it for cheating. I make sure my dh can't read anything I say to my guy friends because what if he sees a part of something and takes it the wrong way. Also my ex read a whole conversation I had with a friend while I went I shower and started questioning every detail even though I wasn't doing anything wrong. Sometimes it's easier to just avoid the whole thing.

I hope I'm wrong, but IMO if its just a friend and their conversations are just friendly, then there's no need to delete them. Even if you'd be upset or jealous to see that he's talking to another girl, if he has nothing to hide then he wouldn't hide it! From his reaction it sounds like he does :( Like I said though, I hope I'm wrong and he was just clearing space on his phone, or is planning a Christmas surprise or something innocent.

I hope I'm wrong, but IMO if its just a friend and their conversations are just friendly, then there's no need to delete them. Even if you'd be upset or jealous to see that he's talking to another girl, if he has nothing to hide then he wouldn't hide it! From his reaction it sounds like he does :( Like I said though, I hope I'm wrong and he was just clearing space on his phone, or is planning a Christmas surprise or something innocent.

Couple things, are you interested in sex or is it kind of mutual? I ask because if he has a smartphone he may be looking at porn in the bathroom to help himself out and that's why the door is locked. If you cosleep he's on the couch cuz there's no baby to roll on, and I delete my history, call log, and texts, once every couple weeks to clear it up because the mess bothers me. Talking to him about it, you have to pick your phrasing super super careful when you do cuz your just going to put him on the defense. If you've not had problems before then let it go. Otherwise, if you're concerned, become the woman he can't stop thinking about. Cook him his fav meal, when the baby goes down for the night put on some sexy lingerie and jump his bones. Everyone has a million valid excuses why we're too tired for sex, but men equate sex with love so show him you love him and don't crucify him over this one odd incidence :) gl

Couple things, are you interested in sex or is it kind of mutual? I ask because if he has a smartphone he may be looking at porn in the bathroom to help himself out and that's why the door is locked. If you cosleep he's on the couch cuz there's no baby to roll on, and I delete my history, call log, and texts, once every couple weeks to clear it up because the mess bothers me. Talking to him about it, you have to pick your phrasing super super careful when you do cuz your just going to put him on the defense. If you've not had problems before then let it go. Otherwise, if you're concerned, become the woman he can't stop thinking about. Cook him his fav meal, when the baby goes down for the night put on some sexy lingerie and jump his bones. Everyone has a million valid excuses why we're too tired for sex, but men equate sex with love so show him you love him and don't crucify him over this one odd incidence :) gl

Sounds like hes cheating, to me! I went through same thing. Horrible douchebag pos babydaddy. Hope its innocent in your case. I know on my phone (samsung fascinate- which i hate), if you click on contacts, then at the top if the screen click on history. It will show every phone call and partial of every text, even if its deleted! Try to get ahold of his phone again!

Sounds like hes cheating, to me! I went through same thing. Horrible douchebag pos babydaddy. Hope its innocent in your case. I know on my phone (samsung fascinate- which i hate), if you click on contacts, then at the top if the screen click on history. It will show every phone call and partial of every text, even if its deleted! Try to get ahold of his phone again!

Yeah, it does sound suspicious, but why is your first thought that he's cheating? Have you had issues with this before? I agree with pp, could be that he is planning a surprise and if you saw anything in his deleted history, you would be able to figure or out. Hope it's nothing serious, but definitely keep an eye on the situation. GL!

Yeah, it does sound suspicious, but why is your first thought that he's cheating? Have you had issues with this before? I agree with pp, could be that he is planning a surprise and if you saw anything in his deleted history, you would be able to figure or out. Hope it's nothing serious, but definitely keep an eye on the situation. GL!

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