When my closest friend died...she used phone ringing when we were talking about her...as if to join up and say hi.
With my sister she used her cell phone sms ... loudly in middle of night coming from out there.... and god awful electeonic noise on my landline and alarms....which hurt my ear... because she knows i need insistant indicators! And at her funeral i aksed her for iindicator of presence with noise.... whch she gave me! When i am really missing her and because i feel those feelings when near the areas we lived, shops, roads, etc....she makes my car searbelt alarm go off and it goes on and on until it breaks through my sad mood to trll me she is there and i acknowledge ...then peace returns!

I had not thought or prepared for how much i would miss chatting. I was prepared for everything but not that. I miss our discussions... she was such a great companion and i so miss that company!