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Thursday, February 16, 2012

Fucking Whore

To crush your enemies, to see them driven before you, and to hear the lamentations of their women. - Conan

I am so pissed. I was not seriously running from the summons but expected she was going to stop it like she said.. well, got served today which pissed me off. So I am like "I need a lawyer" and she is like "no, we can work this out"... and then I start reading the complaint and it has wording like "Husband's threatened actions jeopardize the health, safety, and well being of the parties two children".. all because I wanted a checking account of my own... Like an adult or something? I even backed off of that with her and she still files those words with the court? I am BEYOND pissed off.

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Also, it would probably be wise if you stopped interacting with her very much for a while because of the way she is going about this. You are not in a good situation and it is going to be word against word and she has started by filing the paperwork first against you which sadly probably gives her a little bit of an advantage here.

If possible I would even stop residing in the house until the situation is resolved. A budget sweets or local cheap hotel or something.You need to protect yourself here and if she has filed paperwork with that time of wording your best bet is to remove yourself from the situation. (However, if it were true then why does she continue to allow herself and the kids to live in that type of environment - that is a strike against her imo)

I don't know if I'd move out of the house without first consulting a lawyer. I've had friends that were divorcing that were advised not to move out because it could be seen as giving up their claim to the property (the house and its contents).

It seems clear though that she is telling you what you want to hear while doing what she thinks is best for one person...herself. Protect yourself. Get a lawyer today.

Everyone here is rooting for you but if there's anyone you should be mad at, it's yourself.

People have been telling you for YEARS now to get a lawyer and protect yourself. YEARS.

Yet there you sit, with no lawyer, posting things like this titled "Fucking Whore" and nice quotes about crushing enemies while your wife is holding absolutely all of the cards and has outplayed you every step of the way.

If you want to be part of you kids' lives GET A FUCKING LAWYER IMMEDIATELY and stop posting angry blustery shit like this immediately. We all know it's empty bluster signifying nothing but a judge won't know that.

I have been a divorce lawyer for 25 years. GET A LAWYER. NOW. Make sure you have COPIES of all personal finance records, including balances and account numbers stored somewhere offsite. Make sure she has access to same documents. GET A LAWYER. NOW.

Late post, good luck on getting through this with as little damage to you and your kids as possible.

It seems that you aren't going to delete this blog or go private, which you probably should.

But even if you don't, make sure you tell your own lawyer about this blog, it allows her to see it and prepare as your advocate in case your wife's lawyer tries to use it against you. The worst thing you can do to yourself in this situation is leave your own lawyer in the dark.