The answers are tied to the quest to discover something new, and the process of getting there reveals much more than anticipated. How you relate to problems is tied to the outcomes you generate. The key here is that it's a relationship, not static.

The next time you're seeking a solution, try giving yourself 20 minutes to ask more questions first. Maybe you'll find an answer, more importantly though, you'll literally give yourself more space to think and feel into the situation as a leader. That's something only you can cultivate.