I heard almost a year ago that my uncle (perp) had recently died, I knew it was inevitable as he was 78... I had hoped to get some kind of apology before the end, didn't happen. Not that I need it, it would've been nice. I had forgiven him years ago, not for his sake, but for mine. I last saw him at a wedding 18 years ago & avoided him like the plague, before that I was 13. What a lonely end it must have been for him, I told enough people in the family about him in 1999(even the cops), that everyone knew what he was, even his own kids.

My dad killed himself when I was seventeen, and my mom died from alcoholism and emphysema when I was thirty-one.

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I won the moment he hurt me, because he poisoned his soul, and I did not poison mine. I did not hurt anyone. He did. He was the perp. He tried to make me into a victim, but I became a survivor. Yes.

He lives in Fort Wayne Indiana and last I heard he sells medical supplies although I am not positive he still does it. A long while back I checked up to see if he had been brought up on any charges or suspicion of guilt related to child sex abuse but found nothing. His father was his perp and I was one of the kids he acted out upon. My fear is he never stopped.

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"Life is like this dark tunnel. You may not always see the light at the end of the tunnel, but if you keep moving, you will come to a better place." ~ General Iroh

Of my three, none have died. The only casualty was Little Me. I haven't seen #1 since my wife died...accidentally met him at the family plots... almost 10 yrs. ...#2 for approximately 20 yrs... and #3.. for over a year. But my mother did ask me to visit the #1 just two weeks ago because he has been gravely ill.... LOL... I didn't because I DON'T WANT TO...

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