Romance scams often begin on social media and online dating sites and involve a fraudster gaining the trust and affection of a victim only to eventually steal their money and personal information.

The BBB says con artists often create compelling back stories and fool victims into falling for someone who doesn’t even exist.

“If they are looking for you to come off that dating site and communicate personally through email or another message service, it’s a red flag,” Davis said.

“If you sense they are rushing the dating process as well, things are moving really fast, that’s a red flag as well because they are getting you to trust as quickly as possible and then they start asking you those money questions,” she said. “If they are asking you for money, walk away.”

According to the Canadian Anti-Fraud Centre in 2018, the reported loss from romance scams was $24,949,073.04. Compare that to 2017, at $21,099,187.63.

Better Business Bureau tips to avoid romance scams:

Scammers offer up good-looking photos along with tales of financial success. Be honest with yourself about who would be genuinely interested. If they seem “too perfect,” your alarm bells should ring.

Catfishers will try to quickly get you to move to communicating through email, messenger, or phone.

A catfisher will begin speaking of a future together and tell you they love you quickly. They often say they’ve never felt this way before.

Catfishers will start manipulating you with talk about trust and how important it is. This will often be a first step to asking you for money.

Be wary of someone who always has an excuse to postpone meeting because they say they are travelling or live overseas or are in the military.

If the person you are communicating with claims to be from your hometown but has poor spelling or grammar, uses overly flowery language, or uses phrases that don’t make sense, that’s a red flag.

. Before moving on to asking you for money, the scammer may hint at financial troubles like having their heat cut off or car stolen, or they may share a sad story from their past (death of parents or spouse, etc.).

If you do end up falling victim to a romance scam and have shared financial information or sent money, the Canadian Anti-Fraud agency recommends reporting it to the financial institution you used, contacting police to file a report, and calling the Canadian Anti-fraud Centre and the BBB so it can be properly investigated.

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