36: Adventures of a Single Male in the Swinging lifestyle

Can you get into the swingers scene as a single male? Many have tried and failed (some more spectacularly than others) but we talk do Daniel, who not only lived to tell the tale, he also wrote a book about it called “swingland”.

We discuss:

How to be yourself

Creepy things to avoid

Not sending pictures of your junk (unless asked for)

Making yourself useful at parties in order to get yourself to be indispensable

Playing “Poker for pussy"

Swinging as single male versus a female

Experienced couples versus newbies

Being aware of couples with internal issues

Dangers of recently broken-up single females

Sense of humor

Swinger-based TV series are mediocre at best, so we have to make our own