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Thursday, December 31, 2009

What I Learned in 2009

Yes, another one of THOSE posts. I've been looking through a few other blogs, and it's kind of fascinating to see what people are learning, so I figured that I'd take to my blog. My blog is pretty much where I think out loud. So here it is. Pardon me if I ramble.

* Blood doesn't make family, love makes a family* I can say all kinds of crap about my baby daddy, but I will fuck anyone up that says anything bad about him.* Motherhood is the best thing to ever happen to me.* I don't know if I'll ever get married, and I don't know if I want to.* The more die hard a Christian a person claims to be, the less I trust them.* It's dangerous to have outside people in your relationship.* I really am better off without my mother and sisters.* I love myself more and more every day.* Anybody that expects me not to love myself doesn't deserve to be near me.* Love isn't as pretty as many people think it is.* Anyone that Googles me to find my blog and yet claims to hate me and comes on here to start shit, needs pity and prayer.* My stalker can pretend all day that it is I that stalks her, but she and I both know the truth. Hopefully in the new year her balls will drop and she'll move on with her life. Anyway, I've learned how sad and lonely she truly is.* My immediate family may be fucked up, but I've got the dopest cousins, uncles and aunts.* A good haircut really can change your look and how you feel about yourself.* Lip gloss and earrings can complete the simplest outfit.* Just because you fall in love doesn't mean they'll love you back.* It doesn't matter how loyal you are, that doesn't mean you'll get it back.* Just because you have a small tiff with one of your friends, it doesn't mean you have to swear them off forever. Sometimes people are just blowing off steam.* I'm a really good writer and if I work hard at it, I can go far.* My son may not talk a lot, but he's a little genius.* Facebook isn't private, no matter what your settings are.* I may not be a traditional mother, but I'm a pretty good mother.* I'm a better mother than I had, and although she'd never admit it, I know it in my heart and I'm quite proud of that.* I'm my son's best friend, and I take that role quite seriously.* Pookie's family is actually pretty dope and I'm really glad that they're in my son's life.* My father may have all of the problems in the world, but he's still MY daddy.* Sometimes you have to accept people and their flaws. No one is perfect.* When someone gives you their best, feel honored. Never judge someone's best.* Sometimes a kiss can make everything better.* No matter what some bitter ass women will tell you, watching a son interact with his father is the greatest joy.* There is no shame in needing help.* Pookie may act hard core, but I know that he loves our son with all of his heart. And our son loves him back.* There are very few feelings better than a job well done.* College graduation is that much sweeter when your whole damned life, people called you stupid.* If Pookie was ever seriously hurt, I don't know how I'd go on.* My friends Courtney, Shaunnika and Tierinique are all I need for a successful girl's night out.* He may not say it, but I know he loves me.* Long hair is a bitch to take care of.*Poverty taught me how to survive on next to nothing. So when I do start making money, I'll be able to stretch my dollars and save the way I normally would.* It's damned near impossible for 2010 to be worse than 2009.

Happy New Year everyone! Thank you for following me and allowing me to get so much off of my chest! I love you ALL!!

2 comments:

I see you are one of the blog links on there. I was wondering if you wanted to remain a link on the blog now that it is dedicated to Michael and the Jacksons. I see you have commented quite favorably on the articles about Michael. I will leave you on there unless you tell me otherwise. I like your blog. Happy New Year!

P.S. You also need to request to b/c a follower of Safari's new domain, pjwnews.blogspot.com I think she already has you as a blog link on there.

oh yeah, i'll stick around. planetjacksonworldwide is one of the first sites i look at when i wake up. i have every intention of checking out both blogs and continuing to be a reg. and happy new year to you too!

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Malika S. Flowers is a woman from Atlanta, Georgia. She's outgoing, funny, charming, loyal, smart, and well, to be honest, she's just a fantastic person. She loves to write and if you're blessed enough to be able to spend time with her, well you must be pretty freaking special. By the way, thanks for stopping by and reading!!