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It’s crazy that as children we seem to have our whole lives planned out in extraordinary detail:

The exact car we’ll drive

The college we’ll graduate from

When, where and how we meet the man we’ll marry

Our dream career that will be handed to us on a platter

The gated community we’ll live in

The dog

The number of children we’ll have and their gender

We have this great life planned and it’s all supposed to happen by the age of 25. BUT what happens when 25 hits and you have only accomplished one or two things on that list and the rest hasn’t fallen into place and you don’t see it happening anytime soon, what do you do?

I’ll tell you what not to do… Don’t get down on yourself and feel like you’ve failed because as long as you’re alive there’s time to do everything you’ve every wanted to. Why let the dreams you had as a child die because you’ve reached a certain age? There’s no reason to. Some of the most successful people in the world have failed time after time and no matter how many times they took a loss they didn’t give up until they won and then won again.

If I based my success off my current age I wouldn’t be considered successful to most people:

I got the chance to be a guest blogger on Sasha Ravae‘s Blog Talk. Sasha is an author/editor as well as the Founder & CEO of Black Eden Publications. Her blog focuses on giving tips to up & coming and established writers.

Go check out my article and you may want to pick up a few books for yourself well you’re looking around.

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SHE has become than a blog to me. SHE is a way of life. SHE is so much more than who I was, who I am and who I'm becoming. SHE is YOU and all of those who've found it hard to express the pain in their life, the joy and the millions of different voices floating around in your head. SHE is the woman who has become sexually liberated and not afraid of the opinions of other women and men. SHE is for all of us who have been through hell and back but still managed to move forward. SHE is all of US...