Unity Candle Ceremony

Introduction: Just before the wedding vows, the parents of the couple come forward (or other family members, children etc.) and light a candle for each. Then the Bride and Groom light the center candle from these two outside candles. The Unity candle symbolizes the joining of their families, the merging of two individuals, the creation of a blended family etc

Officiant speaks: At this time we will have the lighting of the unity candle. I want to ask representatives of both families to light one of the Unity candles. Will you come forward and light a candle please.

Before the Bride and Groom come forward to light their wedding candle, allow me to explain the symbolism behind these candles.

The two outside candles have been lit to symbolize the union of these two young people and the two families from which they come.

The bride and groom will light the center candle from the other two. The three candles will remain lit.

One candle for each of them, one candle for the unity of their new family, and as symbols of their commitment to each other and to a lasting and loving marriage.

Officiant Reviews

From the moment of meeting Danielle (King), we felt completely comfortable and confident that we picked the right person to marry us. She gave us some great ideas and went over the entire flow for our ceremony. She arrived early so we were able to spend a bit of time going over last minute details with her. After we and our witnesses signed the register, she had my wife's girls sign her register. It was a very nice thing to do and made them feel more a part of our day beside standing with us, and made me tear up.
I would definitely recommend her to anyone looking for an awesome, laid back and professional officiant. When guests commented on how smoothly everything went, it was definitely due to her!

Tracie and Kasey

We feel so incredibly fortunate to have had Dawn Brown as our officiant. We had so much fun and are so happy to have enjoyed the ceremony so much! Your grounded, positive and enthusiastic presence was such a wonderful contribution to our special day. Our families and friends raved about how magnificent you were, long into the wedding celebration. Many of our guests told us that they wanted to thank you in person and to convey to you how moved they were by the ceremony. Words simply can't capture what a special role you played.

Lia and Steve

Roger LaRade was incredibly friendly, kind and kept everyone relaxed. Thanks a lot, Roger was the best choice we could have made. We were very happy with his flexibility and availability to meet with us prior to our wedding. He was very kind and translated everything in a fully bilingual ceremony which was so considerate as many guests did not speak English. Thanks again!

Emily and Jimmy

Mike was wonderful to work with! He was friendly, easy to work with, and had many tips and suggestions to help make our day memorable and ensure the ceremony went smoothly. We would highly recommend Mike to any couple!
Alex and Amanda

Alex and Amanda

A huge thank you to Brigitte Desormeaux! Everything went smooth, she was very reliable, organized and was a great speaker at the ceremony.

France and Michael

To say that Mike Scholte is the best officiant I have ever seen, is an understatement! We have been to countless weddings, where officiants have been, well, quite boring to say the least :) We wanted someone who was preferebly younger and wouldn't bore the crowd. Mike always maintained his professionalism; yet, was very witty - perfect combination! He is a very personable, courteous and honest man. He is the one person, everyone should use :)