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On Instagram I recently explained my grief like a blanket. One that has gotten so comfortable that as it slips off I reach back for it. Because Joy means life is going on, and it is an acceptance that Fareed... Continue reading →

(This photo is 4 months old but I love it!) Early in my grief I read about the concept of “the waiting room.” I don’t think I fully understood it at the time. As I reflected this week, I realized... Continue reading →

(Part of my tribe on my birthday. Photo credit: Sarah) There is something to say for the people who stick by you when things get hard. My entire world was shattered, I had nothing to give, and many needs.... Continue reading →

Part of me went with Fareed the day he passed away. So much of who I am today is because of him. I spent months up until now just surviving. Losing my husband shattered everything. I spent 100’s (no exaggeration)... Continue reading →

I’ve been thinking a lot lately on who I am becoming as a person. When you are shattered into a million pieces you are bound to be glued back together and look completely different. When I chose my blog... Continue reading →

Why do I plan to leave Facebook? Mainly for the fact that I have to answer that question for people in the first place. Facebook has become a way of life. After losing my husband, I have struggled with living... Continue reading →

Some find it strange I haven’t been angry with God about Fareeds death. Honestly, their are days I find it strange too. In the midst of the biggest tragedy and let down I have ever endured, all that sang true... Continue reading →

The hardest part of Fareeds death for me is watching our children grow up without a dad. He was the best partner and most amazing man. I was so excited for a family with him. He wanted his own family... Continue reading →

Where am I at these days? I am present. Present in the grief, the sadness, the hope, the love for life. I am not cut out for this Widow thing. I don’t think anyone really is. For me, I am a... Continue reading →

Love well. These words have become my motto over the last couple months. With every action, I want to live with purpose and impact. I want to absorb life’s tiny treasures. I want to be fully present with the... Continue reading →

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Hey There! My name is Shelly. I'm a Young Widow learning to navigate "life after loss" with my two little boys. The Lord has put us on one roller coaster and I invite you along for the ride. Here you will find stories of our love, loss, grief, and redemption.