You look AWESOME. I have a 13 year old and can relate to the aging process (even though I work out, eat well and wear a size 4 pants). I would like to have two more children with my partner (am divorced from my 13 yr old’s dad). I know that I will have to be careful not to let the body go to ‘pot.’
You have worked very hard and your body looks incredible. Be proud!
Best,
M

You have worked very hard and it shows! I am feeling inspired to add some strength work and ab stuff to my cardio. Your husband may be avoiding the subject because the complement could be like a retroactive insult, or maybe men just expect women to look the same as before, like some “default setting” :)