Pursue, Pursue, Pursue.

I keep mentioning to you through my books and blogs the importance of finding your Soulmate, Your-One-and Only, Your Half apple… etc..

Some of you do not listen to me and you keep making the same or related mistakes. Others may listen but do not follow my formula and the result is at best a relationship that last for a few months or a year and then goes into oblivion. All this will leave dust in its wake and the people involved (both of them) will accumulate more distrust in their minds for future relationships, or enough distrust to completely want to stop relating to future partners.

Trust is very important, and without trust life becomes hard and difficult.

I hurt my foot and didn’t want to get to a doctor because I did not like one doctor in the past, I did not pursue to find a doctor of my choice and then I felt distrust for doctors in general. Victoria insisted that I should go to a doctor to x-ray my foot so I got into the motion of finding a doctor of my choice. So, after screening prospects (doctors) and dealing with the ones that accepted my insurance etc.. I decided to visit the one that I thought may be to my idea of a healer.

I was reluctant at first but the lady at the reception desk was very nice, professional and attentive. The lady taking my blood pressure and getting my information in the computer was also very professional and knowledgeable. The lady at the x-ray machine was so nice and professional that I end up giving her my formula for free. And the doctor looking at my x-rays was kind enough to explain to me about blood pressure and symptoms that I should watch out at my age.

In short I am telling you that my faith on doctors has return and although I will not trust everyone that I come in contact with, I will be open minded enough to let them show their colors to me.

It is the same in relationships, you should be open enough to let some candidates to show their colors to you, and you should be brave enough to give them the benefit of the doubt, rather than closing yourself and not taking advantage of the opportunity.

In short the answer to most of our dilemmas and specially about finding your Soulmate is, pursue, pursue, pursue…. Until you get what you need and not what you want.

About admin

Vincent Sylvan was born in Lerida, Spain on the foot hills of the Pyrenees Mountains of Northern Spain in June 3rd, 1947.
An avid chess player and philosophical thinker since early childhood, he had his plans to emigrate around the world in search of “the meaning of life” at the age of his fifteenth birthday. It was after he did his military service seven years later that he felt free to take his journey. In 1970 Vincent Sylvan immigrated to North America, first Canada, later on to the USA where he now resides with his family on beautiful Lake Lanier in Gainesville, GA.
Vincent is true believer on the family and its values, realizing the damage of the divorce epidemic for young children and spouses alike, he discovers a “Formula” to tell people who they have to look for, so they can stay married for life. He tested his discovery in order to find the woman of his dreams “Victoria”.
Vincent and Victoria got married six months after their first date. She was as much in love as he was, and since the Soul-Mates had found each other, the time flew by at warp speed. The cultures are different and many people had divorced from those differences alone, but eleven years later the honeymoon is greater than the first day.
Convinced this formula can help many folks around the world, he writes his masterpiece book Find Your Soulmate Through Astrology, now available at Amazon, Barns & Nobel, Borders and book stores around the USA.
Vincent added a second book in early 2010 Imprisoned in the North Pole. This time he writes about the torture and despair of living by yourself in a desolated environment, with no one to talk to, the main character struggles to keep sane from the loneliness that overtakes him.
Vincent Sylvan is a messenger of truth, his goal to get the readers realize their true potential, happiness and to help them bring their dreams to reality.
His humble writing style is often decorated of poetry and prose, a dying art which brings the beauty of the soul in tune with us. He motivates the reader to take action to get to his true destiny, like all masters he makes us all realize how simple it is to live a wonderful life.