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Re: The MangaHelpers Confessional Thread - Part 1

I confess that in the last few days I had what I think was a nervous breakdown. It was less to do with anything going on in my social life (I'm never really stressed or depressed in that aspect for some reason), but more to do with my academic/professional life. I left my apartment in Lisbon to go back to my family home, not even presenting my final project of the semester, and worse, not even telling any of my friends but one. I ignored my phone and facebook for some time, only having to courage to check it today. I in a strange place at the moment, between feelings of guilt for not having told anybody that I was leaving and all the worry I caused, and the feelings of joy for having so many great friends that care so much about me. Thankfully I'm feeling a bit better now and plan on returning soon, and yes, I have given everyone a status update concerning what happened, with everybody being so thoughtful. I really am blessed to know and be friends with so many great people

Re: The MangaHelpers Confessional Thread - Part 1

Originally Posted by CrudeCross

I confess that in the last few days I had what I think was a nervous breakdown. It was less to do with anything going on in my social life (I'm never really stressed or depressed in that aspect for some reason), but more to do with my academic/professional life. I left my apartment in Lisbon to go back to my family home, not even presenting my final project of the semester, and worse, not even telling any of my friends but one. I ignored my phone and facebook for some time, only having to courage to check it today. I in a strange place at the moment, between feelings of guilt for not having told anybody that I was leaving and all the worry I caused, and the feelings of joy for having so many great friends that care so much about me. Thankfully I'm feeling a bit better now and plan on returning soon, and yes, I have given everyone a status update concerning what happened, with everybody being so thoughtful. I really am blessed to know and be friends with so many great people

Yes, its a blessing for sure and I'm glad you have people like that around you.
It's important to acknowledge the issue facing you and work on it rather than avoid it.
So even if you have to take time away from everything and everyone for a period, do it.
I'm glad to see you're working things out and taking the time for yourself to work on your issues.
Add me as another friend wishing you the best and getting back to where you want to be!!

Re: The MangaHelpers Confessional Thread - Part 1

Originally Posted by CrudeCross

I confess that in the last few days I had what I think was a nervous breakdown. It was less to do with anything going on in my social life (I'm never really stressed or depressed in that aspect for some reason), but more to do with my academic/professional life. I left my apartment in Lisbon to go back to my family home, not even presenting my final project of the semester, and worse, not even telling any of my friends but one. I ignored my phone and facebook for some time, only having to courage to check it today. I in a strange place at the moment, between feelings of guilt for not having told anybody that I was leaving and all the worry I caused, and the feelings of joy for having so many great friends that care so much about me. Thankfully I'm feeling a bit better now and plan on returning soon, and yes, I have given everyone a status update concerning what happened, with everybody being so thoughtful. I really am blessed to know and be friends with so many great people

I understand how this or something from that sort feels.
I went into a similar seclusion in the past and apparently, nobody even realized I wasn't around anymore or maybe they didn't care
In one of the last messages I got, a friend's friend messaged me in Facebook, asking for news of the friend, worried about not having contacted him in two days or so

Re: The MangaHelpers Confessional Thread - Part 1

I confess earlier today a girl told me she loved me and wanted to get married.
This kind of freaked me out a bit because she took things to a really deep level with mentioned marriage and living together in our own house and I was not expecting it all.

Re: The MangaHelpers Confessional Thread - Part 1

Originally Posted by Charlie

I confess earlier today a girl told me she loved me and wanted to get married.
This kind of freaked me out a bit because she took things to a really deep level with mentioned marriage and living together in our own house and I was not expecting it all.

Re: The MangaHelpers Confessional Thread - Part 1

Now they are married and live a happy fulfilled life.

Seems like she was a random girl/woman, so you rejected nicely? Anybody marrying before they lived together for a couple of years is out of their mind, sooo much can go wrong. Seeing how orthodox Jews(and lot's of other societies) still do the ''meet three times than marry'' thing, what is wrong with those people? Oo Best Friend is marrying next year without even have slept with her, lol. :'( After getting into trouble for falling in love with a slut before.

Despite having grown apart a bit because I was in my teenage years(no asshole mode) , the death of my grandma when I was away hurt a lot, haven't shed so many tears since. Should have been a nicer when she was rehabilitating from a broken bone. :-(

Re: The MangaHelpers Confessional Thread - Part 1

I confess I'm pissed at this dumbshit "friend" because he never listens to us, he's an idiot, and he's naive. It's pretty much obvious he shouldn't listen to himself ever and start listening to advice of those he can trust. No wonder why his parents refuse to support him... I have no sympathy for him whatsoever, it's his fault.