Below, Jenni lets it be known (for anyone who naively thought otherwise) that she wants what she wants when she wants it, and that’s just how it is. “I’ve become very selfish,” she shares, with the assertion that she’s just like any other girl. (We plead the 5th.) She does point the finger at Roger for being more stubborn, though, explaining that it comes down to his competitive nature: “He always says he’ll never lose, so if I can go five days without talking to him, he’ll make sure he goes six.”

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