Laurie, If you had asked me if I would ever be divorced I would have laughed! Never in a million years did I think it would happen to me. You certainly need time to digest this.

If he is talking about it to others, it is time to stay calm, privately, get a lawyer on board. Discuss the situation fully with him or her, they can best advise you. They are best at seeing to it matters of the children and money are done right. I also think a counselor for both of you or just for you, would be something to look in to.

I am so sorry you are going through this. He certainly has come out with quite the story line of information. It has to hurt so very much. (((HUGS))))

You are a lovely lady, going through a crummy thing. You sound very strong.