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ok thankssss for the advice one more question on the same topic. my bgf doesnt really want to break up with our friend and i dont think he ever would, just the person he is. in the mean time, theres another guy i like who im pretty good friends with and i have a guy friend who is close to him, so i think if i wanted to i could date the guy i like. i was wondering if i should wait around for my bgf to be single again and go for him (theres always a chance he doesnt like me or that it could take a really long time, but i deff like him wayyy more then this other guy) or go for the guy who is single that i sorta like??? im getting tired of being single (ive dated before) and im looking for someone with more experience, like my bgf has, but would dating this other guy or trying to help me be distracted from liking my bgf or just a bad idea in general???

Hey girlie! I definitely don't think you should date someone just because you're bored and waiting around for another "better" guy...that's not fair to either one of you. If you truly like him, that's another story! But you really shouldn't start being with this other guy just to stay distracted and because you're tired of being single. Hope this helps!

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im in love with my bgf, but he is dating a mutual friend or ours. they love each other and have been on and off a few times, and she uses him just to have a bf (she hasnt said it but evry1 says she does and knowing her, its extremely likely) and doesnt treat him very well sometimes. this is recently coming out and he is thinking a lot abt it and ppl r encouraging him to end the relationship. my bgf knows i like him and weve talked abt it, he didnt say he doesnt like me but at the time he was getting back with our mutual friend again. the prob is, ik he loves her but he always flirts with me, and very noticably too. like we were at a party with a photo booth and he told me so tht 4 of us could fit i should double up and sit on his lap, and he was acting as a bodyguard 4 me tht night (he offered) cuz of some other guy bothering me. even 2 teachers of ours have commented and said its obvoius he likes me and is flirting!! whats going on???

Hey girlie! It sounds like this guy does like you, but you def shouldn't make any moves until this other friend he likes is out of the picture. If you still like him when they break up (which it sounds like might happen soon) then you need to talk to him and figure out his feelings. Good luck!

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Ok, so hi!! Um so I need some advice. Me & my ex broke up like a year ago, but I think he still likes me cause he keeps staring at me & keeps talking about me, in a nice way. And he's a bit shorter than me though..so what should I do?? But I dont really know if I should go out with him again...

Hey girlie!! Only you know if you should go out with him again -- if you still have feelings for him and he treated you well the last time you went out then go for it! Good luck!

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i use deoderant every morning before school and when i have gym class but my armpits still get sweaty. why is this happening? thnks!

Hey girlie! This is completely normal -- sometimes deodorant can wear off after even a short period of time.Try keeping a spare deodorant in your gym locker so you can reapply right before you exercise!