Wednesday, June 25, 2008

Or, should we say, have you ever actually wanted to feel that way? It's a new side of S&M you may not know about, but thanks to this week's show on Sex Files, consider yourself informed!Our three fantastic guests this week—Rachel Kramer Bussel as well as Rob and Vittoria from www.humiliationpov.com—gave us a crash course in one of the unique ways to get your rocks off: through humiliation.

Vittoria gave us a sexy sampling of how she likes to feed a man's fetish of being put men down—and man, it was like nothing we've heard before, to say the least! She explained how she and the other dominating women on her site do it:-by telling men they have small packages-by telling men they're pathetic, lame, and losers-by blackmailing men and threatening to tell a man's secrets to his wife or girlfriend, and more.

Vittoria and Rachel and the gang also explained how you can try a little S&M like this at home: Introduce the "tease and denial" element into your sex life. In other words, tease your partner by telling them what you want to do to them, but then pull back, deny them the pleasure, and then make them work for it.

A final special treat this week online:

Our Sex Tip of the Week: The Big BlowTurn blowing into a fun job for the night—and we mean actually blow. Your breath, in a concentrated stream of air, is actually quite a unique tool similar to a light, sensitive touch, but able to create feelings your finger or tongue simply can't. Try it now on yourself to see: Lightly blow on your shoulder or forearm (wherever you're showing some skin). You can blow circles or straight lines; softer and more intense. Put that blow to use tonight when you're with the woman you love (or the woman you love for now). Blow along her most sensitive areas: behind her ears, under her chin, along her neck, down the spine of her back, then across the front to her belly. We'll let you take it from there, but just know that your light breath will send shivers down her body in all sorts of ways.

Tune into Sex Files live on Sirius Maxim Channel 108, Wednesday at 2 p.m. EST (11 a.m. Pacific). The show replays at 11 p.m. EST (8 p.m. Pacific), throughout the weekend, and again at 2 and 11 p.m. EST (11 a.m. and 8 p.m. Pacific) on the following Monday.

Monday, June 23, 2008

Maybe you've been a little curious about spanking, blindfolds, whips and chains.

Maybe not.

Either way, you best tune in this Wednesday when our guests Rob and Vittoria, founders of the website humiliationpov.com, tell us all about what goes on when you throw a little S&M into the mix.

Tune into Sex Files live on Sirius Maxim Channel 108, Wednesday at 2 p.m. EST (11 a.m. Pacific). The show replays at 11 p.m. EST (8 p.m. Pacific), throughout the weekend, and again at 2 and 11 p.m. EST (11 a.m. and 8 p.m. Pacific) on the following Monday.

Monday, June 16, 2008

It's that time of year when girls' clothes start to come off—because of the season, of course. But why not take advantage of it and heat up your sex life along with the weather?

This week, our guest will be expert Whitney Casey, relationship columnist, TV personality and author of, The MAN Plan (Penguin, Feb. '09). She'll tell us some tricks to bring hot love back into any relationship—even the loooooong-term ones—and explain the science behind why these tricks work.

Also joining us, comedian Lesley Wolff, who can help us shed some light on the, well, lighter side of summer love.

If you want to heat up your sex life (uh, who doesn't), tune in and find out how!

Tune into Sex Files live on Sirius Maxim Channel 108, Wednesday at 2 p.m. EST (11 a.m. Pacific). The show replays at 11 p.m. EST (8 p.m. Pacific), throughout the weekend, and again at 2 and 11 p.m. EST (11 a.m. and 8 p.m. Pacific) on the following Monday.

Friday, June 13, 2008

...mistakes in dating, that is. Trust us, we know we women make them, too, but since it's our job to help you guys do everything right to get and keep the girl, we went over a few that some of you could use help with.

They helped us go over some of the most basic mistakes and what we wish you would do instead:

1. Women wish you would initiate asking a girl out and making the date plans—the more detailed the better!

2. Women wish you would be chivalrous. That means opening the door of the restaurant for her, offering to hang her coat. And one suggestion wwe talked about for a while: Please pay for the first date. If you have to make it a cheap date, so be it. But a woman really likes for you to take control there.)

3. Women wish you wouldn't lavish too much praise on her.

4. Women say, "Don't try to impress her too much." If you have a great job or cool car or a skill you think will impress her, let it come up naturally in conversation; otherwise, she'll feel like you're

Of course we talked about many, many other great tips to help you seal the deal. Lucky for you, if you missed the live show, you can catch the show again Monday.

Tune into Sex Files live on Sirius Maxim Channel 108, Wednesday at 2 p.m. EST (11 a.m. Pacific). The show replays at 11 p.m. EST (8 p.m. Pacific), throughout the weekend, and again at 2 and 11 p.m. EST (11 a.m. and 8 p.m. Pacific) on the following Monday.

Sunday, June 8, 2008

But sometimes we make mistakes in dating and those blunders have a way of making us feel somehow less than human.

Want to avoid the crucial ones? Well, you'd best tune into Wednesday's show, where two guests -- life coach and relationship expert Andrea Syrtash and sex writer and hot mama-about-town Laura Leu -- will clue us in on what men can and will do that sends them directly to jail without passing go.

Tune into Sex Files live on Sirius Maxim Channel 108, Wednesday at 2 p.m. EST (11 a.m. Pacific). The show replays at 11 p.m. EST (8 p.m. Pacific), throughout the weekend, and again on the following Monday.

Wednesday, June 4, 2008

You have to hand it to us, we really know to give you practical tips. This week, they came from the co-author of Red Hot Touch, who told us all about the well known womanly "hot spots" -- including the clitoris and g-spot -- but also the a-spot and the u-spot (which can, um, get a mini-erection). We learned about "jilling off," how to essentially give a girl's vulva a yoga class, and moves like "The Wave" and the "Clitoris Sandwich."

If you missed it, what in God's name were you thinking?! Lucikly, the show re-plays at 11 p.m. EST (8 p.m. Pacific), throughout the weekend, and again on Monday, so there still may be time to repent for past sins.

It will be, hands down, one of the most practical shows we've done in a while to help better your bedroom technique...forever. Don't miss it!

Tune into Sex Files live on Sirius Maxim Channel 108, Wednesday at 2 p.m. EST (11 a.m. Pacific). The show replays at 11 p.m. EST (8 p.m. Pacific), throughout the weekend, and again on the following Monday.