Sorry Sweetheart, You Can’t Tame The Beast Who Is A Narcissist

You think you can
change the man you’re dating, don’t you? Despite everything he has done to you
and continues doing you still think you can bring back the man he showed you
when you first met.

The thing is that
man doesn’t really exist. The man you met was just an illusion. He made himself
out to be all you have hoped and wished for, and once he had you then his true
face was revealed.

You may not even be
aware what a narcissist is, many don’t until it’s is too late. It isn’t until
you find yourself with a narcissist that questions begin to fill your mind and
you go looking for answers and they are the answers you wish you had never
found.

Once you find the
answers and see all the red flags and warnings in the numerous articles
available online you find yourself literally sitting there in disbelief and
can’t believe you have been taken in by this man.

Those thoughts and
emotions are ones that everyone who has been involved with a narcissist goes
through and even knowing all this there have been many of us that still think
we can change them back to the man we fell in love with.

You can’t
sweetheart, and you need to face that reality, as heart-breaking as the truth
is, it is one you must face.

I hate to tell you
this, but you must get up and walk away because if you don’t the way your life
is now that made you seek answers is going to get much worse.

You were never his
Queen a title he gave you, you were/are his plaything for him to use as, when
and how he likes. He will never consider your thoughts or feelings unless they
feed his needs.

You are his trophy
and like a trophy won he will display you for all to see. But don’t make the
mistake of thinking because of this he treasures you, he doesn’t, in his mind,
he owns you and can, therefore, do whatever he likes to you and even those you
love.

Often, narcissists
are mistaken for an alpha man, he is not, far from it. A true alpha-man would
never treat the woman in his life this way, nor are they devious and out to
hurt those that you love.

We all like to
believe that we are the ‘special woman’ oh we are special but not in the way we
like to think. We are his special chosen subject as we have something he wants
and once he gets what he wants he will toss us aside and move on to the next
victim.

Their entire being
is all about feeding their own needs, the beast within is a dark hateful soul
and there is no cure for someone this dark despite what medical professionals
may claim, as to get the help they need to admit there is an issue and they
will never do that.

It hurts like hell
to find you have given so much of yourself to him, you have fallen deeply in
love, but that love is not returned. Whatever displays of affection they have
given you is 100% fake, they are incapable of loving anyone but themselves.

Do yourself the
biggest favor anyone can bestow on themselves and walk away, it will be hard
and painful but you will thank yourself in the long run.

Take time to
yourself and heal, love yourself and know none of this was your fault.