Why would he talk shit about me but yet still be with me?

My bf has told his friends and family I smell down there? Because sometimes they will make jokes in front of me. It really pisses me off because if it was that bad why would he stay with me? He seems to be insecure since his last relationship his ex cheated on him. So is he trying to make me feel more insecure then I already am or what?

Chill out I yank on girls I like chains all the time just tell his balls smell like he has been sexing the the taco that gave birth to the teenage mutant ninja turtles or something. Or that your vag is the secret portal to Narnia and the smell is from the blood of all the evil creatures you slew. It doesn't matter just have fun with it but don't take it personally

I would reevaluate this relationship, to be honest. That is disgusting behavior and this guy is not a man you should commit to. A real man, is not going to bring that up to his friends nor talk about your insecurities or private life. He should be your protector and that is not what this behavior is displaying. He is using a form of control to make you insecure to where "he believes" you will stick around and try to please him. This isn't healthy for you in any way.