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Friday, July 1, 2011

IT'S OK TO TAKE A BREAK AND TREAT YOURSELF WHEN YOU'VE BEEN WORKING HARD. DON'T FEEL GUILTY, THE WORK WILL BE THERE WHEN YOU GET BACK. LIFE IS TOO SHORT TO NOT TREAT YOURSELF AND ENJOY THE FRUITS OF YOUR LABOR.

The house hold income should come from the pair of you. One person shouldn't be expected to provide for the family. Eventually the sole provider will become irritated and cheated and may even use this against the person that isn't providing. There should be a stable flow of income coming in from a husband and wife.

ALWAYS TAKE TIME OUT OF YOUR BUSY SCHEDULE TO SPEND SOME TIME WITH YOUR CHILDREN. FATHER'S IF YOU HAVE A DAUGHTER ASK HER OUT TO DINNER FORMALLY, BUY HER A NICE OUTFIT TO WEAR AND TAKE HER OUT TO EAT. SHE WILL FEEL LIKE A BEAUTIFUL PRINCESS AND MOST IMPORTANTLY YOU WOULD BE SPENDING QUALITY TIME TOGETHER. MOTHER'S DO THE SAME TAKE YOUR SON OUT TO DINNER SOMEWHERE LIKE BUFFALO WILD WINGS, HOOTERS(IF YOU FIND IT APPROPRIATE) OR A RESTAURANT OF HIS CHOICE.THIS WILL HELP YOU BOND IN AN ATMOSPHERE HE'S COMFORTABLE IN.

LIFE IS FULL OF WINS AND LOSES; IT'S HOW YOU DEAL WITH IT THAT AFFECTS YOUR GROWTH IN LIFE.
IF YOU WIN BE HAPPY BUT NOT COCKY, DON'T GET LAZY BECAUSE YOU'VE WON, CONTINUE PRACTICING AND DOING WHATEVER YOU DID THAT HELPED YOU WIN AND THEN SOME. A WINNER CAN EASILY BECOME A LOOSER.

IF YOU LOOSE DON'T CRY OR BECOME ANGRY, BITTER OR EVEN JEALOUS OF THE WINNER. YOU SHOULD LEARN FROM THE LOSE, STUDY WHAT YOU DID THAT CAUSED YOU TO LOOSE. CONGRATULATE THE WINNER, PUT YOUR PRIDE ASIDE AND GET TIPS FROM THEM,

LIFE IS GOOD; YOU WIN SOME, YOU LOOSE SOME, SHAKE IT OFF AND KEEP ON LIVING.

WHEN YOU HAVE A PROBLEM IN YOUR MARRIAGE GET TOGETHER AND SOLVE THE PROBLEM WITH YOUR PARTNER. YOUR MARRIAGE ISN'T YOUR PARENT'S GRANDPARENT'S COUSIN'S UNCLE'S AUNT'S OR ANYBODY ELSE'S MARRIAGE IT'S YOURS. SO DEAL WITH IT HOW YOU NEED TO. IT'S NOT WISE TO TRY TO MAKE YOUR MARRIAGE LIKE ANYBODY ELSE'S. YOU HAVE TO GROW TOGETHER AS A COUPLE. THERE'S NO HANDBOOK TO A PERFECT MARRIAGE, ALL YOU CAN DO IS MAKE YOUR MARRIAGE PERFECT IN YOUR OWN WAY BY EXPERIENCE, MISTAKES, GOOD TIMES, BAD TIMES, AND HARD TIMES.

FACE YOUR PROBLEMS HEAD ON. LIQUOR OR DRUGS WILL NOT TAKE THE PROBLEM AWAY. AFTER THE HIGH OR THE BUZZ THE PROBLEM WILL STILL BE THERE STARING YOU IN THE FACE AND IT COULD BE BIGGER AND WORSE THAN IT WAS. IT'S YOUR LIFE; LIVE IT AND LOVE IT!!

STUCK IS A FEELING THAT SHOULD NEVER BE FELT IN A RELATIONSHIP.WHEN YOU BEGIN TO FEEL STUCK, YOU SHOULD SIMPLY REMOVE YOURSELF FROM THE RELATIONSHIP. A RELATIONSHIP SHOULD BE A SITUATION YOU WANT TO BE IN, YOU SHOULD FEEL COMFORTABLE IN A RELATIONSHIP NOT STUCK. IF YOU'VE TRIED TO LEAVE THE RELATIONSHIP TIME AFTER TIME AND YOUR SIGNIFICANT OTHER EITHER RUNS A GUILT TRIP ON YOU OR GIVES YOU REASON WHY YOU SHOULD STAY IN THE RELATIONSHIP, WHICH CAUSES YOU TO DOUBT YOUR CHOICE OF WANTING TO LEAVE; TAKE A BREAK FROM THEM. IF YOU LIVE WITH HIM/HER LEAVE FOR A WEEK OR TWO, REFLECT ON THE RELATIONSHIP. IF YOU FEEL BETTER AWAY FROM HIM/HER OR FREE, THEN YOU NEED TO STAY AWAY. YOU'VE GOTTEN YOUR ANSWER. THIS IS NOT THE RELATIONSHIP FOR YOU. LIVE YOUR LIFE YOU SHOULD NEVER LET ANYONE MAKE YOU FEEL LIKE YOU HAVE TO BE WITH THEM. TIME IS TICKING AND THERE'S NO ROOM FOR REGRETS IN LIFE.