Dont set input focus and send WM_TAKE_FOCUS

Patch status: merged

Patch by Tony Crisci

Long description:

If input focus is set by the window manager, it is not necessary to send
WM_TAKE_FOCUS because it has already taken focus.
http://tronche.com/gui/x/icccm/sec-4.html#s-4.1.7
> The goal is to support window managers that want to assign the input
> focus to a top-level window in such a way that the top-level window
> either can assign it to one of its subwindows or can decline the offer
> of the focus. For example, a clock or a text editor with no currently
> open frames might not want to take focus even though the window
> manager generally believes that clients should take the input focus
> after being deiconified or raised.
Both setting input focus and sending WM_TAKE_FOCUS is effectively
setting focus on the window twice which is certainly against the spirit
of the spec, if not the letter.
fixes #1167