5 Sensual Sex Positions for Longer Love-Making

Run of the mill penetrative thrusting
is good in all kinds of ways. It's time-tested, and feels reliably good
for most people. But you can make your partner last longer (plus up your
orgasmic potential) if you move beyond the old in and out. Here's how.

1The Knocker Rocker

Lie on your sides facing each other.
Wrap your upper leg and arm around your partner and rock him back and
forth. This makes the stimulation a little less intense for him, plus
you get to control the rhythm. He's in charge of playing with your boobs
and assisting you with your favorite vibrator. Super intimate and feels
amazing.

2Missionary Impossible

If you crave a traditional
missionary experience with all of the eye-gazing and whatnot, go ahead
and do it. Just use a thicker condom (look for words like “extra
strength” or “extended pleasure”) and use a grinding motion instead of a
thrust. If he's still finishing too quickly (because of the sheer power
of your sexiness, natch), try a condom with a numbing lubricant like
benzocaine inside. Just beware about mouth-stuff afterwards because that stuff really does numb you up.

3The Ball Monitor

Katie Buckleitner/Rachel Johnson

You
kneel over his lap facing his feet. Grind, rub, and thrust as you
please. When it seems like he's about to orgasm, gently tug on his
balls, pulling them away from his body slightly. (Gently!!) Repeat the
sequence long as y'all can take it.

4The Measuring Spoons

You're the inner spoon, he's the
outer. Open your legs wide and wrap your top leg back around his
legs/butt to pull him closer. The thrusting motion tells a dude's brain
and/or penis that he should have an orgasm right away, so curb the
full-on banging. Try a rhythm of, say, eight shallow thrusts to one deep
hard one, with him thrusting in and up. He can maximize the slow burn
by cupping your vag with a well-lubed hand as he moves.

5Dog, Interrupted

Switching positions works as a reset button on Masters and Johnson's stages to climax.
A good way to transition without a body part slipping out and everyone
getting grouchy is starting in an all-fours position with your knees
spread wide. When he feels himself getting close, he sits back on his
heels, pulling you down by your hips onto his lap. Use the opportunity
to touch yourself, him to cool down, and to start back up again in a
super sexy position that hits all the right spots.