Telling someone they are wrong for who they are is bashing them, whether justly or no......... If you choose to be proud to be a gay basher thats up to you and I am not saying you can't have your opinion or be that way. Just own your truth!

In debate, telling someone you disagree with them or believe they are wrong is not bashing. Here's a quick definition of the term bashing, in the context you're using it:
Bashing-Informal-To criticize (another) harshly, accusatorially, and threateningly; v.intr. Informal- To engage in harsh, accusatory, threatening criticism.

Not a proud basher. Just enjoy a good debate now and then.... And yeah; I usually do own it.