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Saturday, November 14, 2015

Unlabeled

From a reader:

I'm an 18 year old female and I just wanted to thank you for your book. I brought it when out with my boyfriend one day as it caught my eye, but as I started at the beginning of your story, I couldn't help but notice so many traits that I associate with my own personality. I'm not sure that I would 100% label myself as a sociopath, some of the emotions I experience feel too real and even from a young age I have been quite compassionate, or at least I have come across that way. I did however find myself relating to a lot of the manipulation and self interest and appreciation that you speak of, surprising since I can be so caring and thoughtful when I want to be. Since reading your book, I've come to acknowledge and accept parts of me that I was unsure or wary of previously, and it has helped me to understand that although I may not be a classic 'sociopath' that I do have a lot of the traits which are associated with the label. Your honesty has helped me address issues with friends and family, in particular with my boyfriend, that I previously had no idea how to go about. I'm not expecting a reply or for you to tell me your identity, I just wanted to let you know how you've helped me and probably many other people who are not as normal as they make out to be. Thank you.

My response: Thanks for this, I sometimes feel that people get hung up over the label and whether or not they fit exactly in the diagnosis of sociopath, when the label seems to hardly matter in terms of people understanding who they or other people are. I think labels and descriptions can be really helpful, but particularly since there is no real consensus on what makes a sociopath, are sociopath and psychopath the same thing, are they separate or related to antisocial personality disorder, are they a disorder at all or a personality type a la machiavellianism, etc., along with the tendency that people have to conform to what the believe to be the expectations of them, people might take care with how much they identify with or rely upon a label for their self-knowledge.

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BRAVO!!! I was wondering if anyone would address the "challenge" placed on the previous blog. If sociopaths are looking for identity, a reason to connect, and enjoy a challenge and to win-it appears you have just been given an opportunity. When attacks occur, like the recent Paris attack, I am disconcerted. Disconcerted for the damage and destruction to life, structures, cities, countries, etc. I have had the privilege of visiting "The City of Lights", and seeing the Eiffel Tower. I would like to visit it again someday, along with The Louvre, which I was unable to see during my first trip. I can only hope those historic structures are still there, when I make it back. I remember hearing in recent years, that there was damage to the pyramids in Egypt, as well. I have yet to visit the pyramids, and hope to do so someday. My hope is that those historic structures remain as intact as they are today, by the time I am able to visit. These are just a few examples of many, across the world...

PS-Has anyone tried to solve "the riddle" post, that was given on the blog yesterday? I only listened to the song once, and heard Baltimore, Mississippi, and Houston mentioned, as well as a reference to night, as the time. I would need to listen to it again, though...

PS-The band is called "Starbuck", which I was not previously familiar with. I love the Starbucks Corporation, though, as I am a coffee lover!!! I wonder if that is where they got the idea for the name? Has anyone read Howard Schultz's book?

The song you refer to above was written 40 years ago.On the surface, it is just as it appears. A Sociopath male, attempting to getinto the pants of a female, and using all avaible tricks.The writer's didn't consciously know at the time was that they were subliminallypredicting a future event. Time is fluid. The men lived in the geographicvacinity of the coming event, and got the unconsious urge to write the song.This is simular to a novel that was written prior to the sinking of the Titanic,where the ship is named the "Titan." The description was almost identical tothe actual event. It's kind of like Jules Vern predicting the Moon shot 100years previously, and that Florida would be the location the rocket would blastoff from.

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!!! it used to be connected to this blog but was disconnected over a year ago. We need fresh blood and lots of interesting things have happened recently (relates to kiwifar.ms drama: https://archive.is/M2tXa) that will go down in the forum's history! Be sure to check out http://www.psychforums.com/antisocial-personality/ too, as some of its regulars are regulars on SC too!

Goddamn ME refused to reconnect the blog to the forum so we SC goers will just have to spam advertisements for the forum in the comments section. ;)

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Of course, my default is still to intuitively analyze every outcome and situation and achieve the best result, but it's more interesting to let people remain a variable and go in their own direction, rather than nudging them in the direction I prefer. Interacting with people WITHOUT trying to control them is a new paradigm for me.