Thursday, 18 June 2015

Hi everyone!Hope you're all doing well and enjoying this temperamental summer weather! The weather in Wales is starting to heat up a bit now so when Fat Face got in touch to do a collaboration for their new arrivals as well as summer and beach collections, I was beyond excited because I just love all of their items! I could actually pick the pieces I liked and so I've got a few pictures to follow of the items I was lucky enough to be sent (thank you, Fat Face!)

Look 1

The top is called Pretty Broderie T-Shirtand the bottoms are called Printed Pineapple Trousers. I got this top in white but they do sell it in navy too! I love this look because it's so casual yet smart! The top is so pretty and sometimes a plainer top looks better when you've got patterned trousers on! I thought I'd tuck this top into the trousers so you could see how high the trousers actually are and also just because I like it tucked in - but you could totally wear it whichever way you'd like! There are no rules! The top's detail is cotton with a lace embroidery detail all over the front and plain on the back - extremely comfortable yet gives you that put together look I often lack! The trousers have an elasticated waist (perfect) with adjustable drawstrings and are a super light and flexible material (very soft!)Here's me being super relaxed and comfy lounging on the grass (with one of the cute neighbourhood cats also lounging in the background!)

Look 2

So I decided to pick a top and bottoms to match together (as seen previously) or wear separately, so in the picture above, I'm wearing the bottoms from Fat Face and matched it with a top I already own. These trousers are the comfiest trousers I own - honestly. I'm going to Florida in August and I'm planning to wear these travelling as they're so comfy, I'd happily do a 10 hour flight in them. As well as wearing them travelling, I'll be wearing them out to meals with a nice floaty vest top for that boho look paired with some nice big hoop earrings! You can also really dress these trousers up with a top like the one I'm wearing above or keep it casual like the top from Fat Face in the first picture! The colours in these trousers are so pretty; navy, blue, aqua and a peach colour too so you can get lots of different tops to go with these. I 100% recommend them for style and comfort reasons. I also love these because I'm the type of person to stick to jeans 99.9% of the time so to have something different, makes me want to wear them all the time (they also do other patterns and colours so check them out!)

Thank you all for reading and thank you to Fat Face for these lovely items - I'm obsessed!

Friday, 5 June 2015

Hi everyone!

Now that my university life is over, I'm back working as hard as ever on my Take Back What's Yours Campaign. Over the last few months, I've been in complete awe at how many people have gotten involved and taken the time to spread the word about it. It honestly means so much and I'm forever grateful to you all!

To kick things off again, I've got a great interview here with fellow blogger, Florence from the blog 'Love from, Florence Grace'. I hope you all enjoy this interview as much as I did... I'm sure you'll all find it inspiring and will help any of you who are going through body confidence/self-esteem issues.

HiFlorence, tell
me a bit about yourself!

Hi!
I'm a student, studying Creative Business, I work part time at a charity shop
and I am a radio presenter, columnist and blogging extraordinaire! I'm a very
busy bee and am working hard to create a media-based career for myself.

What do you blog about?

I blog mostly about 'lifestyle'-esque topics, usually current issues
with a spin of my own opinion...I am a very opinionated person and I am not
afraid to speak my mind. Sometimes it gets me caught up in some debates, but
that's all part of the fun of being a writer!

What
inspires you in life?

In life, I inspire myself! It may
sound big headed or vain, but I have overcome so many obstacles in my life to
get to where I am right now, and I have achieved so many things in the last
year that about four years ago I never would have even dreamed about doing! I'm
also inspired by Vanessa Sanyauke, founder of Girls Talk London, who strives to
work hard for and represent women of all ages from all over the world.

What keeps you motivated?

My blog keeps me motivated! Every
time I see my views go up or receive a nice message about my posts, I feel
happy that people are actually reading my posts and that it makes all the time
spent working on my blog seem worthwhile...this motivates me to write more and
to improve my writing as one day, I want to be a voice for people worldwide!

What is
your proudest achievement either in life or the blogging world?

My proudest achievement is finally gaining independence at the age of
18. I was always so co-dependent on my friends or my boyfriend and then one
day, something just clicked and I started to do all these exciting things by
myself! I started travelling to media events at London, alone, doing courses,
alone, and of course branching out into a brand new world of blogging
completely new to everything and everyone! Gaining independence has been a
massive confidence boost and I'm so happy it happened for me.

What is
your experience with low confidence and self-esteem?

I suffered very badly at the hands of online bullies for 4 years of my
life during secondary school. I was mocked for absolutely anything and
everything I did, given endless abuse and lost all of my friends for doing
nothing- or nothing that I was ever aware of anyway!

How has
it changed and impacted your life?

Being bullied completely destroyed my self-esteem, and to this day I am
still an incredibly self-conscious person- from my looks, to my weight, to
feeling like I'm always being stared at by people and laughed at. It was a very
bad time for me and unfortunately still has an impact on me today. I hope one
day this will change.

When did
you realise your low confidence and self-esteem was impacting your life and how
did you feel about it? Was there a trigger that set it off?

I realised it was impacting my life when I was about 17 and my boyfriend
noticed I was increasingly more and more sad and keeping myself to myself. My
parents then went through a divorce around this time, so I think this probably
made everything feel that much worse. I could feel myself getting sadder, but
felt I could do nothing about it, which only made me feel worse!

What
happens when you're feeling at your lowest? Is there anything you do to make
you feel a bit better?

When I'm at my lowest I comfort eat and I cry. Both of these are
incredibly bad for me, especially when I am already very self-conscious about
my weight, and as for the crying, well, it just leaves me with a pounding
headache! Usually to feel better I will get in my pj's and watch a good film,
or if I can, I will see my boyfriend, who has been with me through highs and
lows for almost 5 years and usually knows how to make me feel a bit better.
It's important to remember to breathe deeply and remember that it's not the end
of the world, just a small rut. I have to frequently remind myself of
this!

How are
you coping with it?

I'm coping much better now! Whilst I am still a very self-conscious
person, I am much happier in myself compared to me about a year and a half
ago!

What kind
of support did you seek or did you keep it to yourself?

I just had support from my close friends and family. Fortunately, my
problems were nothing serious, and I think it was just a lot of bad things
happening all at once, on top of the bullying. Like I said, when I feel bad, I
tend to comfort eat and this made my weight problems worse! The Take Back
What's Yours campaign is hopefully going to change that around!

Thank you, I hope so too! Do you
feel like the media is doing enough to help people who suffer from low
self-esteem?

No. Definitely not. It’s definitely one of my pet hates when a magazine
splashes a size 6 (or smaller) celebrity female on the front of a magazine with
the title "So and so feels comfortable in her body...and tells you how you
can to" or words to that effect. Of course you feel comfortable, you're
tiny and made up every day by professionals! I think we need a more realistic
and serious approach to the issue of low self-esteem. It may not always be
something seen as a serious problem, but it can be tough to deal with.

What are
your top tips for anyone living with low self-esteem?

Put up little messages with positive, sunny quotes on for you to find in
random places, such as in your sock drawer, on your mirror, next to your toothbrush.

Remind yourself of all the great things about you- keep these written
down in a list if it helps!

TALK to someone. Even if it's only your cat, or your stuffed bear.
Sometimes you just need to let it all out!

I just want to say thank you to Florence for getting involved with Take Back What's Yours! I know your honesty and openness will help people understand they aren't alone in what they are going through. If you want to check out Florence's blog, you can here.

If you're interested in the Take Back What's Yours campaign, there are so many ways to get involved!

If you want to take part in the Take Back What's Yours Challenge, head over to the website here!

If you'd like to be interviewed on topics such as Chichi's or anxiety, bullying, health issues or anything at all you feel could be inspiring to readers, send me an email and I'll get back to you ASAP!

Monday, 1 June 2015

Hi everyone!I have another review for you all today on the Bourjois Bronzing Primer. As you might know, if you read my review on the Sigma F80 Flat Kabuki brush, I've recently tried this bronzing primer as my cousin bought me it for my birthday last month.For contour, I really prefer to use a cream based bronzer as I feel it's easier to work with and blend with. It also doesn't leave that dreaded muddy mark we all freak out about when we've just finished our makeup routine and then spend 20 minutes trying to repair the damage...or is that just me?Anyway, I've tried SEVENTEEN's Instant Glow Tan bronzing cream which I really love and Sonia Kashuk's bronzing cream which is so lovely however I do like to try new things where makeup is concerned and so I thought I'd give this a bash.When I opened it, it's less like a cream and more like a whipped mousse...think Dream Matte Mousse formula but a bit more whipped and you'll get the right idea.

They only sell it in one shade which made me wonder if it would be too dark for my pale skin, but it's not. If you're a bit on the pale side, simply use less. I spoke in a previous post about using it with my new Sigma F80 so I really recommend pairing them both up and trying that out - both used together makes the application process a very speedy one, which is great if you're in a rush! I also love applying this with a beauty blender as it gives a very natural look and blends in super well.Also, as this is bronzing "primer", the idea is that you can apply this under your foundation so that when you put a light layer of foundation on, the bronzed glow will come through, looking ultra natural, which is lovely if you want to create that defined cheekbone without it looking heavy or too made up! I usually just use it over my foundation but in the summer, I'll definitely be using it under instead!A little perk to this product before I go is that as Bourjois is owned by Chanel, this product is highly compared to Chanel's Soleil Tan De Chanel bronzing cream! I haven't tried that product, but I've seen a lot of reviews saying it's a great dupe and some even say it's better than the Chanel one, but I can't vouch for that!

Thank you all for reading and I hope you like it as much as I do if you decide to try it!