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"The most beautiful thing we can experience is the mysterious. It is the source of all true art and all science. He to whom this emotion is a stranger, who can no longer pause to wonder and stand rapt in awe, is as good as dead: his eyes are closed." Albert Einstein

This is really serious. My parents aren't speaking now, and my mother's packed up all her stuff.

It's actually because we were supposed to move, but my dad doesn't want to, somehow. He doesn't "like change", I guess. He didn't lift a finger to help my mother get everything organised and ready to move and kept finding fault with her for the smallest of reasons. She told him that if he thinks whatever she's doing is wrong, he should pitch in and help her, or organize it himself. (Anyway, he prides himself at being good at stuff like that.)

Anyway, it's not like moving is going to be inconvenient for him, in fact it won't make a difference, and it will actually be good for my mother because she won't have such a long commute everyday.

He heard that the nearest stores are much farther away from the other house than it is from here, and he usually does the shopping- he told her that if we move he will not do these things and "you must do everything without making a fuss about it". She was like "How can you say that?" and then he said "Fine, I'm not coming. Do what you want."

That started the whole thing off and they brought up all their past arguments and what not...

Originally made by LM:

~ I have said nothing because there is nothing I can say that would describe how I feel as perfectly as you deserve it. -- Kyle Schmidt ~

~Silence is one of the hardest arguments to refute. -- Josh Billings ~

I have to go with my mother when she leaves, and both of them aren't relenting at all, so it looks like my family will never be as it was before.

I've always been a daddy's girl too- but this time my mother's in the right. I would never let my husband say something like that to me either. I find it hard to believe my dad is capable of saying all that, I don't know if I can forgive him.

I'm going to miss my dad

Originally made by LM:

~ I have said nothing because there is nothing I can say that would describe how I feel as perfectly as you deserve it. -- Kyle Schmidt ~

~Silence is one of the hardest arguments to refute. -- Josh Billings ~

Well telling your mom to do all the work isn't the worst thing he could say. Most men say it as a matter of fact. Is the money down on the new house already. And Trixie, I think it'll cool over in a little while, I mean, do you think your dad is gonna be willing to find another piece of ass like your mom? He'll go with he flow eventually or be out a woman. That being said, IF they do have to part at least you are an only child and they'll spoil you for their love. There's an anime convention in America coming up....hmmmm haha

Your an absolutely wonderful man, any girl that is yours is lucky and I know that from personal experience. ~KMT

He's just angry and saying stupid things. Obviously you aren't a problem to them. Albeit you have a somewhat sick, although kinky, obsession with posting on Pokemon messages boards, but I doubt they know your net life well enough to blame their marital problems on that. You're a nice smart woman Trixie, why in the world would he not care and love you? The answer is he does and is just saying stupid stuff.

Your an absolutely wonderful man, any girl that is yours is lucky and I know that from personal experience. ~KMT

Hang in there, Trix. Hopefully it's just another argument that'll get patched up double-quick.

"The most beautiful thing we can experience is the mysterious. It is the source of all true art and all science. He to whom this emotion is a stranger, who can no longer pause to wonder and stand rapt in awe, is as good as dead: his eyes are closed." Albert Einstein

Well, it was a long long time ago, but considering my mum went through post-natal depression, got back up on her feet, only to have dad leave her a couple of years later and take everything but the house and the car, it leaves an impact on everyone. At least I was so young when it happened (four years old) that I obviously didn't comprehend most of it, but I did understand and felt his absence.

"The most beautiful thing we can experience is the mysterious. It is the source of all true art and all science. He to whom this emotion is a stranger, who can no longer pause to wonder and stand rapt in awe, is as good as dead: his eyes are closed." Albert Einstein

I guess I'm old enough now to deal with it- but things like this have never happened to me before.

I hope it gets resolved soon, or I learn to deal with it better, because I hate my life right now.

Seeing your parents go through emotional stuff like this, regardless of age, is always hard. It's a wave in an aspect of your life that, ideally, should be a calm sea. Like the ocean, there is little you can do to control situations like these---in the end, you must ride it out and hope that the waters will become clearer eventually. We're all here for you Trixie and we all love you. <3

Your an absolutely wonderful man, any girl that is yours is lucky and I know that from personal experience. ~KMT

Seeing your parents go through emotional stuff like this, regardless of age, is always hard. It's a wave in an aspect of your life that, ideally, should be a calm sea. Like the ocean, there is little you can do to control situations like these---in the end, you must ride it out and hope that waters will become clear eventually. We're all here for you Trixie and we all love you. <3

I don't know why that would make me tear up, but it did. Damn.

Originally made by LM:

~ I have said nothing because there is nothing I can say that would describe how I feel as perfectly as you deserve it. -- Kyle Schmidt ~

~Silence is one of the hardest arguments to refute. -- Josh Billings ~