Hi. Twin flames are here to help us grow and expand in consciousness. We are here to show unconstitutional love to this 3D world. Most of that is achieved during separation. It is how you live your life during separation that determines your reunion with your twin. During this time, though it is very painful, you have to focus on your self. Love yourself unconditionally by taking care of it, i.e., eating healthy, getting in shape, body care, etc. and improving your career, growing spiritually, etc.

Separation is an illusion. If it’s your true twin, then know you are always connected in 5D. You are the same soul. When you focus on yourself and do things to raise your vibration, your twin is affected, and he is drawn towards you.

When all you do is to sit back and only focus on him, get sad, lament, etc. it repels your twin. Even if he comes into Union with you, he will run right after that.

We as twins have baggage we have carried on for several lifetimes that when we finally meet our twin in the physical, buried stuff for ages come up to the surface that needs to be purged and healed. Many techniques can be used, e.g., yoga, meditation, reiki, etc. Meeting a Twin Flame coach who has been or is on the journey too is very essential.

I am a twin flame in separation from my Divine Masculine. I am doing the work and have faith I shall come into Union in Divine timing.

The separation between twin flames is indeed a gift. That is when you get to know yourself and grow exponential while learning to love unconditionally.

Hi! I am not yet in union with my twin, but spiritually I feel I am. I have reached a sense of peace within and only have a few down moments. So I will try to help.

I met my twin 18 years ago. We clicked instantly kind of like love at first sight but despite the strong feelings fear kicked in for me straight away. I thought it would be a one night stand that he would never be interested. I then felt it was just a fling and he would find someone better. After an amazing summer, I felt he was seeing other girls, so I started a relationship with someone else.

For almost two years I went back and forth between the two until he asked me to choose and in my head, I thought he didn’t mean it, so I didn’t pick him. I hurt him, and he refused to see me again, that was the first time I realized he felt the same way. I tried to reach out a few months later, but he told me it was too late. This broke my heart. We both went on to marry other people. Reconnecting nine years later on Facebook but having minimal contact.

Last July I began to pine for him (yearn) I received a random message from him, and he sent me his number, and we began talking. He told me he felt like he was falling in love again but we were both still married and I lived 200 miles away from him. I had tried several times to move back to his area but was never able too.

I realized I felt the same and my marriage was over and his wife left him at the same time. By this point, I knew nothing about twin flames, and this was within a month of reconnecting.

This was when he became a little distant, but the way she treated him really hurt him and I was there for him. It was then I noticed that he could answer a question before I even had the chance to send it.

We met up in October, and he became a little distant. This was when he started running. I tried to give him space. I couldn’t understand why I felt such a strong connection. We met again in December, and this was when I began to awaken spiritually. Everything I had ever known made no sense I didn’t even know who I was at that point. It was a traumatic experience. I felt as if I was crazy. I also after doing research read about twin flames. I could relate to the story, but it sounded a little crazy to me. Until 11;11 showed itself. Along with lots of other weird things.

We connected via video chat a few more times and then an opportunity presented itself so that I was able to move back to his area. It all happened so fast but days before I moved the universe showed me in a very weird way that he was with a karmic. This broke my heart. I deleted him off Facebook. Called him a coward and despite this. I kept my faith and moved. I asked God if he would return and the line that jumped out the bible was “behold your king is coming” this gave me some comfort.

About two weeks after I moved. I asked God for a break from the journey, and I had drinks with a friend so reached out. He responded, and we spent the most amazing night together. We talked about everything the past, the connection. The next morning he was so sweet but as soon as he dropped me home. His attitude changed. He ignored me on Facebook and hadn’t spoken to me since. This was almost four weeks ago. I’ve reached a point where although I care. I don’t at the same time. When my ego kicks in, I feel upset, angry and I question if all this is real.

We have many synchronicities. We are both Catholic. We both moved into a place owned by his dad when we were 17 (he is 13 years older) we both saw a dead body in the space of a month together. We both lived next door to our sister. We both have family from Ireland. We both have a child with the same name. There are other things, and we are both going through a divorce at the same time. We also have the same soul number. We also have the same rising and moon sign and both earth signs.

None of this helps me at times because I still question my sanity and wonder if he thinks I’m crazy and that’s why he cut me off but his with a karmic right now. Sometimes I wonder if he cares and then other times I feel his love for me. I know in my heart his my twin but I’ve started to put the focus back on me and I’m feeling happier for it. It’s weird knowing his in the same town as me, and yet we are in separation.

I ran from him, and I loved him. He wouldn’t tell me how he felt about me last time we were together, but I see it in his eyes and smile, so it was a soul shock when he ran again.

I hope you find peace on your journey. The twin flame journey is meant to be about you, doing what you love and learning not to need anyone.

Easier said than done.

It’s taken ten months on this journey to feel like I do. I’m almost there, but I have down moments. I’ve done lots of purging.

Thank you for the advice and sharing your stories, Geraldine and Sarah. I am trying my best to work on myself right now, especially my career, I am focusing on school right now.

I shared my full story under another topic “I miss my twin flame” if you are interested in the whole story.

Deep down I know that we will be together in the end, but I don’t know if that is true logically, and maybe I should move on for good. I think to myself that if I ever do spend my life with someone else, I will always care about him either way, whether we are together in real life or not. It seems like he doesn’t care if I am in his life or not at this point so I will have to let it go for now and work on myself, which is okay.

Sometimes I have dreams that I wake up feeling fulfilled again after meeting with him like maybe the dream world has more meaning than we think. I’m sure what is meant to be will always work out in the end.

Have courage, my dear. Have faith in your journey. Keep working and focusing on your self. Don’t resist the feeling of love in your heart for him. Send him love, and he’ll feel it if it’s your real twin.

And when he finally comes back in divine timing, he will hold you in high esteem and love you more.