I'm sure you'd get your email reading sorted out. From there you'd have a better idea about what to do, or your worker can work with you. For now, don't panic.

There're situations that are essentially out of grasp, like I've done a love spell on a man that simply failed, or a job spell that didn't come through because I wasn't meant to get the job. Right now you don't know if your case is one of these, so take a deep breath and try not to worry so much.

I'm going to schedule an appointment tomorrow for a reading, should have done this a long time ago.

I should do my best to calm down, but its something thats important to me and I'm a person who panics a lot and needs to know for sure asap , maybe I should get a candle lit for myself to get some self control

Something I am going to look into doing once I get the reading back, can't go on living this way

I am hoping its going to be a case where I am exaggerating the problem, I don't know how she is thinking or how she feels, so here is hoping its a case of me being able to use the Candle service.

Just out of curiosity, I know love spells etc are hit and miss because of their nature, but would a friendship spell yield better results if all you wanted was for the person to be friends with you again?

Love spells are not necessarily hot or miss - they can yield results that are half-way, like you get back together but things are shaky, or they come back and get closer again but kick you, any number of possibilities.

You want your woman back, as your woman and not as a friend, so don't confuse your intent before you get your reading or start your spell for now =)

Hey I've had mentioned and saw a few people post this site on the forum http://www.readersandrootworkers.org/ I'm reading through it. Anyone have any actual experance with the readers on this site? And if so can you recommend which is the best for Love readings? BTW this regards bringing an ex back that I'm talking to again and it will most liking have to be over the phone. Thanks

Shadow, you'll need to look at each reader's page. Some won't do certain types of conjures and spells. Anyone one of them, however, can give you a good reading, no matter the topic. But if you're looking for someone to do work on your behalf after the reading, you'll need to see what each one does and does not do. For example, Dr. E., whom I have been getting readings with will not do break up work nor will he do reconciliation work if the parties are not speaking to one another. Read each person's page and then go with whomever you have the strongest initial connection to.

Thanks and Praise to Dr. Hernandez, St. Jude and St. Anthony for all you have done, and continue to do on my behalf. My eternal thanks to you for your many blessings!

No, it's not that you were promoting AIRR - which is run by Miss Cat, so it's ok to talk about it. It's just that the LM forum is not meant to discussing who we think is a "best" worker for anything. There are several testimonial threads here on the forum for different workers, and then on the AIRR pages for each worker there are usually testimonials. Those are what you should be looking at for the info you want.

Well I read through them and got an appointment over the phone with one... It's odd bc all the work I've done myself seemed to be going great now she suddenly isn't contacting me or answering my calls for the past few days? Is it possible to over do it with hoodoo?

I have been in a difficult situation with my ex-fiance for 8 years now. He never knew I went to have readings done un til recently. His "wife" which was a fix from family, and also a greencard marriege is doing things to keep him and to separate and block him from me. So for example, if he sees me, he may crash his car, or he may be held down when he gets home by a spirit, etc. he is having difficulty eating and sleeping also, for years. Medically, nothing is wrong with him. He has experiences things happening with him and now he is willing to go for a reading. He says he wants to go by himself, so i gave him my reader's information. Will she know it is him, and will I come up in that reading? I did not do anything, and any work I did was reversable,, but I would like her to know it is him so she can give him a good, thorough reading.

If she's very skilled, then yes she would be able to pin-point you if you were the source of something that comes up in the reading, just as she should be able to pin-point any other person who was a source.

Well if you want her to know its him you should tell her I have many clients who start out getting readings for themselves, then they get a reading for their partner, and their moms and...in some cases I have entire families!
Just let her know he is your boyfriend. That was there is transparency and clarity from the start. If he wants to go to someone who has not read for you-ask you reader to recommend a reader that she trusts.
Blessings,
Bri

Thanks so much for your replies! Now I have a better understanding and I did call her to let her know that he is coming and he is my boyfriend. I do not know if she will remember, but I believe she will be able to "pinpoint" me. She has also done spiritual work for me, so I pray she will. I am not sure if he will want to go to someone else, being as though he has never had a reading done before. I also think he wants to go to the person I went to because he trusts my instincts, but you never know. I just do not see him doing the research or even knowing where to go.

I was a bit worried and I have no clue when he is planning on going. This coul dbe a major breakthrough for me, and I hope this is it and this will all be over and he will learn the truth so we can re-start our lives together and rebuild. It will not be easy but it is worth it for true love.

I am fully aware of the AIRR site with all of the suggested root workers but I want some suggestions on who to work with for love and fidelity work.

I have had so many bad experiences with psychics in the past who try to control through fear, always telling me I need more money to have other work before reconciliation and it becomes so ridiculous with prices prices and never ending work that needs to be done that I decided to do everything through God and the Lucky Mojo products.

I did my own reconciliation work and we are back together.

I was thinking of having some one from the AIRR site assist me in the fidelity part...

You can find customer testimonials for many of the AIRR workers on their individual pages on the AIRR site &/or on their personal website which will be linked on their AIRR page. There is also a section here on the forum for testimonials, and many of the AIRR workers have threads there that various clients have started and contributed to. You can look through them there:

-- you will fine in the box at top right and also in the list at the bottom of the page, the names of all of the AIIRR workers who will perform love spells for clients. You can click their names to see their pictures, read more about them, see the testimonials on their pages, and learn what kinds of love works they will do (some will find new love but will not do reconciliations, some will do reconciliations but not love-binding fidelity spells, some will do whatever kind of love spell you ask for, etc.).

I've been browsing the listings of the AIRR rootworkers and I've noticed that almost all of them refuse to do revenge or reconciliation work. I was kind of surprised by this since I thought there was not a fear of this kind of thing in the hoodoo tradition. Can anyone tell me why this kind of work seems to be an issue among so many practitioners?
Thanks for any replies.

It is not fear that makes workers reluctant to take on reconciliations. This type of work requires both parties to forgive the past and change how they relate to each other. Clients often expect to bring back lovers/spouses/partners without working on healing whatever caused the separation in the first place.

I don't think that workers have ''issues'' with reconciliation work, but it is touchy work to do for a number of reasons:

1 - it is some of the work with the lowest success rate
2 - even if reconciliation is possible and does come about as a result of conjure, very often the same issues which caused the rupture in the first place will once again rear their ugly head in the relationship so unless a client is willing to do a lot of personal growth work, the rootwork may well be done for nothing
3 - it's intense work and often involves simultaneous break-up work which some workers won't do
4 - it's intense work and often invoves simultaneous break-up work which makes it quite expensive
5 - keep in mind that even Conjures who ''don't do reconciliation'' may still take your case if their reading/Spirit indicates that they are able to help you and that the cause is justified, it's just not part of their usual case-load.

Perhaps some of the AIRR workers on the Forum can add their 2c to help further clarify the issue.

You question made me smile. I have never yet met a professional root doctor who has a "fear" around doing revenge spells or reconciliation spells. I have never yet met one who has "issues" (meaning unresolved emotional issues) around these types of spells, either.

Mama Micki and Aura gave great reasons both including the question of ethics and reaching beyond ethics, for why certain root doctors don't like to handle Reconciliation or Revenge work. I will add a couple more ideas.

First, you need to understand that obsessed and/or deranged clients are a problem that each rootworker must handle.

Obsessed and/or deranged clients tend to run from reader to reader and from worker to worker hoping against hope that someone will fix their issue. These people won't take "no" for an answer, and if you are the one who gives them a time-line for the work or who honestly tells them "this work won't succeed," they may bad-mouth you and say you are "not strong enough" or they may keep running from worker to worker until their money runs out and then start bad-mouthing rootwork or magic in general, saying "it's all a scam."

This is not true of ALL rootwork clients, but we have all noticed the phenomenon, and some of us don't like dealing with obsessed and/or deranged clients.

Now, here's the difficult thing:

Reconciliation and Revenge work attract a higher percentage of obsessed and/or deranged clients than, say, career-growth work or new-love work do.

This is not to say that any given Reconciliation or Revenge client is "obsessed and/or deranged," but it is a well-known to professionals that a HIGHER PERCENTAGE of clients seeking those particular services are "obsessed and/or deranged."

Obsessed and/or deranged Reconciliation clients have a MUCH higher than average tendency to promise that they will not do something (like, for instance, not start an argument with their ex, or not stalk their ex's girlfriend on Face Book) and then to turn around and do exactly what they promised not to do. In other words, they are not honest with their spiritual adviser. This is not true of ALL Reconciliation clients, but we have all noticed the phenomenon of the promise-breaking obsessed and/or deranged Reconciliation client, and some of us don't like dealing with these clients because, by their own actions, they undercut the work they have hired us to do. We want to succeed, and sometimes we can't, because they are non-compliant or they engage in outright sabotage of our best efforts on their behalf.

Obsessed and/or deranged Revenge clients who want to hire a "killer" root doctor are another category of problem for professional root doctors. People who ask us to curse or kill on their behalf are more likely than other clients to be
* lying or fabricating a fake justification for the revenge or cursing work,
* clinically insane,
* difficult to deal with,
* affected by alcoholism or drug addiction,
* of the opinion that throwing money at us will overcome our dislike of their personalities
* engaged in illegal lines of employment
Some of us do not want to deal socially with people of this type at all, regardless of whether they may be clients.

It may seem like "throwing out the baby with the bathwater" to refuse to serve Revenge or Reconciliation clients just because there are more "obsessed and/or deranged" clients seeking those forms of work -- but some workers set their boundaries to limit their clientele, just the way that some restaurants require that patrons wear shoes or formal clothing or they will not be served. And not every restaurant serves the same menu. Throwing money into a Thai restaurant will not convince the owners to serve you pizza.

Finally, as Aura noted, even those who, in public, say they won't do Reconciliation or Revenge spells, may actually do so for clients whom they know, trust, support, and like.

Thanks so much for all of the replies. I guess I misspoke when I said "fear" - I probably meant something more like judgment or ethical beliefs. In any case, I hadn't thought about the possibility of concern about the clientele rather than the work itself. It makes sense.
Thanks again for all the replies!

And then there's concern for the rootworker's own gifts. I do very little cursing work, partly because I'm lady-hearted, but also because I suck at it. It's dishonest to take a client's money for work that is beyond your gifts.

For me, I do both revenge and reconciliation, but I only take on cases that I feel are given the green light from Spirit. But I found the question a bit misleading as it seems to imply that the majority of AIRR doesn't do this work which is simply not true.

I think AIRR is a perfect representation of the balance between justified workers and lady-hearted workers. In fact I would say it is evenly balanced. Off the top of my head the workers who do both of these works are myself (ConjureMan Ali), Dr. E, Miss cat, Deacon Millet, Khi Armand, Brother Vanderson, Dr. Johannes, Miss Bri, Momma Starr, Ms. Robin and the list goes on. As you can see there are plenty of members of AIRR who do the both revenge and reconciliation so I don't know where you get the idea that almost all of us don't do this work...

I am not a member of AIRR (yet), but I would be reluctant to do cursing/crossing/revenge work for someone I don't know. However, there are cases where it is justified, such as an attack by an abusive or violent person. There are also some public figures that I would gladly do Stop Gossip work on just to get them to shut up.

I have never ran into the issue with a worker through AIRR who is scared to do this type of work or not do it if justified. I have an AIRR worker that I prefer and like to work with when I need help above my own. this person has done break up jars, hot foots, rec candles, moving candles all for me. but we also have a good working relationship. Iv used this persons services, including magic, readings, candle setting, mojos, oils. To me its like finding the perfect doctor whom you click with and know you can come to them and ask anything. But of course that takes time and energy in fining the one and building the relationship.

If i were working a complex love situation with a man who did not show his feelings, which is what i understood from the original query, i would get a reading and try to see what possibilities the future held for success, then, if the reading turned out well, i would light a series of love candles, either one per week or each one lit on the day the previous one came to an end or one per month, depending on financial considerations.

Meanwhile, i would order a honey jar, mojo hand, or the ingredients to craft a potted plant container spell for use in the home, and dress the area with some love oils.

This kind of work succeeds best, in my experience, when it is being double-teamed by a reader/rootworker or the folks at the church and by the client himself or herself, in the home, with each party backing up the other's work.

My wife and I have been separated for close to a year now. I've become both mom and dad with our 2 kids.

Please don’t get me wrong, for years she was always a great wife and a great mother. Nothing to suggest this behavior. After 9 years, she decided to lead a reckless party life with some new friends she met at work.

I let it go at the time thinking it was just a reckless phase she was going through and she would get over it soon. For the past year so much has gone wrong in her life, yet she feels that she made the decision to take this path and it’s the path she will continue on (a very hard headed woman).

I went to AIRR, Readers and Rootworkers, but I am confused as to which one to choose from.

1) I am in the Los Angeles area and I was wondering could someone please recommend the best one in marriage reconciliation and control work?

2) Does anyone know if a well performed control root work or Doll Baby spell will work on such a super stubborn person?

3) What can I do to help control and reconcile until I get my reading and my work started?

Good Evening, Imnewatthis,
All the AIRR members are terrific.
My suggestion is to go directly to the main page http://readersandrootworkers.org Then, read what each practitioner's specialty is.
You will most likely get a reading first and then the two of you, together, can decide what specifically to do (as far as rootwork is concerned).
And, your question about the doll baby will be explained to you, in detail, once the reading has been performed.
Good luck to you. Wishing you the very best

One thing that I often recommend to my clients while they wait for a reading is to have a vigil candle lit with Missionary Independent Spiritual Church-candles for reconciliation, healing, or road opening are all good ideas in reconciliation work!http://www.missionary-independent.org/c ... vices.html
Blessings,
Bri

Thank you Mama Micki for your reply. The other day it hit me how far my wife and I are growing apart and I realize now that I should have done this from the start and not just let it go. Please understand that I am completely new at this and all I know about it is just from reading the Lucky Mojo forum. I don't know how the reading works. Do I ask for what I want and tell them I am going to want work done? Or do I say nothing and the reading will tell me everything?
The good thing is that I had a wad of her hair I took off her hair bush that only she has used, a hat she put away that still has her sent on it and the last time we talked I picked up her cigarette butt that has her saliva on it.

Greetings to all, I recently decided to help a young lady with a reconciliation issue. I was hesitant when she called because i think too much time has passed and she has no personal concerns.

I did a reading for her that showed that at this time he is focusing on his career and is no longer with this other woman. She confirmed my reading by letting me know he is an accountant (its busy season for them now) the reading also showed that someone had been doing some work on him. She confirmed that it was her.

Now this is a red flag for me but i am easygoing and you get two. She revealed that the work before was break up work that had gone well and reconciliation work that had not worked.

I let her know that her chances were not good but i would help her under some conditions. They were as follows: first she had to set a time limit, second i would help her get the supplies she needed but she had to do the work herself and last if there was any mention of the intranquil spirit spell our dealings would be done.

She agreed to my terms and is working a couple of things on him now. I feel like no matter the outcome she has learned some things and if she reaches her time limit and has no contact she will be ready to look for a new love.

For me things are case by case, i need to really talk to the person and look at the cards. I am then led by Spirit.

Just curious to find out if anyone had readings where the reader said the success is almost impossible but went ahead with work and managed to change the outcome in a positive way? That's my situation actually. Not sure if I should proceed because I know the purpose of rootwork is to change the outcome of readings. Appreciate some feedbacks, thank you!

If a rootworker is willing to take on the case then I would assume that there is some chance for success, however it is not in any way guaranteed. If you go to the AIRR website (www.readersandrootworkers.com) you can click on the love drawing topic and see what workers work in that area.

It's indeed very emotional and I'm having a hard time. It's difficult to come to terms with the low success when all we ever want is for it to work out in our favor. I guess I'm looking for encouragement to proceed.

I need help.. i used the vinegar jar to separate the father of my child from his other baby mother but it did not work. During the time when i was working the jar it was as if he was growing apart from me instead of her. Maybe because i used glass from my broken car window. Anyways, i need someone to do it for me. I need this woman to disappear from his life for good and I need the father of my child to fall deeply in love with me. Please someone help me. Is there a rootworker I can go to? Also, i think the father of my child do hoodoo as well because he go to the saints a lot. He wear santeria beads around his neck but he say he dont do hoodoo. He say he just go to the saints for protection. So maybe this is why it did not work. However, lately he hasnt been wearing the beads because he been jail for three months. But before then he wasnt wearing them for awhile. Now as far as his other baby mother i do not know her well. But she is very evil towards me. She even tried to kill me and lied to detectives to keep from going in. I need her to get out of our baby father life and she need to go turn herself in. Can i make her go tell the truth?

I recommend that before you hire a rootworker, you get a simple reading to see if what you want seems feasible or possible. You can sign up for a free reading on the Lucky Mojo Hoodoo Rootwork Hour or pay a small fee at either Hoodoo psychics or the Association of Independent Readers and Rootworkers for a reading. Ask your reader, "Is it possible to use magic to get my ex back to my child and me? If the answer is yes, ask for a recommendation for a dedicated love specialist.

I would like a rootworker to perform a spell for me. I am not able to do it myself due to my job. I travel a lot and it would be impossible for me to do it myself. I would like to use one of the root worker listen on the AIRR website.

Do I first have to contact them or I can order of their website?

Also if anyone did order spells, please share your experience and the rootworker used.

The rootworkers on the AIRR web site are all independent contractors. You cannot just "order a spell" from them. They have to want to take the job. Some will not perform love spells. Others perform love spells all the time. Most will require that you have a short reading first, because they want to know what your situation really is, and what your chance of success may be.

You can't just walk into a hospital and say, "I'd like to book heart surgery now." You have to see a doctor first, and the doctor has to decide whether or not there is a need for heart surgery and whether or not you are a good candidate for surgery of this type.

I did get a reading and was told that magic would help thats why I wasent sure if I can just order one from a worker I feel comfortable with. Not sure if I need another one from the reader that will perform work.

To find an AIRR reader or worker specializing in a particular area of interest, first go to AIRR's website, then click on the area of interst. In this case, your area of interest is love, so you would go to the AIRR love page, which is here:

At the upper right of the page is a box with a lavender header area that reads:

AIRR Readers
and Rootworkers
Who Perform
Love & Romance
Work for Clients

Beneath that is a long list of readers. Click each link, read about and look at that person and, if you like, make a note or two, including their stated prices. When you decide, go back to that worker's bio page and clivk the link under his or her name and you will be taken to his or her booking page, to book a reading, consultation, or root work.

I've been trying to find a thread to give feedback for a root worker. I have had the pleasure of working with Co Meadows and I'm beyond happy with our sessions. I reached out to him as suggested by most of the moderators when I was having questions and confusion about movement/signs, and whether the work I was doing at home was actually working. I wish more people would utilize the root workers backed by Cat and AIRR.