Facts about dating men

Fact #6: Women cheat just as much as men, and their affairs are more dangerous.

Fact #8: A couple will never work it out when the husband is in the midst of an affair. According to a Rutgers University study, 56% of men who have affairs claim to be happy in their marriages.Fact #1: Most men are still in love with their wives when they cheat."At one level, I knew, but my denial was so strong," says Lily* from Toronto, Canada."The pain, had I accepted it at that time, would have been too horrendous, so I had to process it slowly." According to Dr.How could Tiger Woods's ex, Elin Nordegren, and Arnold Schwarzenegger's ex, Maria Shriver, not have known what their high-profile husbands were up to?

They probably did, but couldn't bear to acknowledge it.

"He's got such positivity happening, without all the drama that exists in the established relationship," says Orlando. Although a new relationship is exciting, "an affair can rekindle the marriage," says Orlando.

The marriage will likely fail, unless he decides on his own accord that life isn't better with the other woman. Continue to be the woman he first fell for throughout your marriage. "Men realize who they want for the rest of their lives and that the new relationship isn't as perfect as they thought." But think hard before returning to a cheater.

But "the reasons the sexes cheat are different," says Orlando.

He explains women are more likely to cheat for emotional satisfaction.

The relationships are usually friendships first." In fact, more than 60% of affairs start at work, according to Focus on the Family.