Control of Life

“Do not let lose the control of your Life

Slowly it shall be controlled by Something else and/or Someone else”

Over a period of time, in life at a certain point of time, we may start losing the control of our lives. In the process it may so happen that slowly somebody or something will crop up and conquer us and start controlling our life. So, Check. Beware. Take Decision Now. Before it is too late.

64 thoughts on “Control of Life”

Miss! Nice to have your comment. As my observation and study goes it is a fact.
For confirmation and endorsement of this Amazing Control😂 you can refer Osho’s book “The Book of Woman” .
You shall find more amazing facts. There is also a book “The Book of Man”by him.

Great words of inspiration, Shiva and the last part was awesome, see so much power women have towards men that they take away all their happiness and make them uncontrol their lives. You said it so rightly, one has to not give in but see what is happening or it will ruin them. That is the power of the Ego. A lovely post.

In the final analysis God is in control. An old saying, Man proposes. God disposes. Yes all problems have answers but to quote a Bible Scripture. Sometimes the answers/solutions are not found on this earth but in the next world whatever you may believe that world will be.

1 Corinthians 13:12
King James Version (KJV)

12 For now we see through a glass, darkly; but then face to face: now I know in part; but then shall I know even as also I am known.

😃 My Dear Ma’am! Without the grace of God we cannot move an inch. But at the same time He has given us the Free Will to act in this Free World. Most times that is freely misused and taken undue advantage. That is why such a lot of chaos in this World, you see.
Thanks for contributing your valued comment.🙏

My Dear Ben! Thanks
So, Coelho maybe, interprets at a wrong point of time saying it as fate.
Without opening another chapter of fate, I too do not believe it as the free will shall lose its creteria.
All your posts that preach of self development and self confidence shall go in vain. Isn’t? 😃

This Life itself is an Illusion. The ‘Vedanta’ too tells that.In the Illusion is the this Controlling factor…
In a way you are right, we are not always in control and cannot be…
Most times we forget that we are in control of that Some….
Amazing….
Cornelia Thumbs Up…

Reading the quote and your explanation made me really see the truth in there..it is indeed everyone’s delima (if not all) ….sometimes we loss control of our lives..we allow other people or circumstances and event take part in our lives…

I think we can often have a tendency to let people get to us. But, ultimately we can’t let others control us unless we let them. We give away our own power once we allow people to hurt us. Eventually, we have to let it go and not take it personally.

Whenever people lash out at us, it’s their baggage that they are dealing with and it’s up to us to not pick up their baggage and carry it with us. We can give their baggage back to them and let them carry it around. We don’t need to accept their negativity. It’s easier said than done, because after all we are only human.

But, with practice I believe anything is possible and can be conquered even learning to deal with challenging personalities.

Sonyo I do not know how I missed reading this beautiful comment.
You are right in every respect. A self-analysis and a thorough retrospection of oneself is the need.😄
All the Best to YOU.
Fond Regards
Shiva🎶

Thanks for this reblog. I went over to see it through the link you have given above, it appears there. But I could not see it in your home page, have you put it in some other menu. I wanted to comment over that on your blog. Please check and inform me..
You blog seems to catch the Versatility path…😃
All the Best to YOU my friend…
By the way I couldn’t get your name..
Fond Regards
Shiva

In the present context and sequence the same thing is happening here with my
own daughter Wendy.
I have seen in my life of so many people being victimized by the someone and somethings which I have discussed above.
Life is much greater than what undue importance we give to….
Every relation has a horizon. Mixing of things creates hell. Control to be seen and performed in broad sense.
Thanks for contributing your experience and thoughts here.
Regards
Shiva

This is so well written! I couldn’t have put it in better words!
Thank you for an Amazing read 😁
And I got to say this, my life’s a mess right now (to say the least) Lol. I really needed this. So thank you. 😊
Ps, love the humour at the end 😂

Oooh Batwoman! I liked the way you put it. Rather I am delighted…
Only because of your admittance I can assure you things will streamline for You. You need not think over much… it is getting to be common…
Take a matured decision.😄
The humor is getting popular… hahaha😂
Shiva

Such great advice Shiva. The one I like best is to laugh at it!! I had let my job take control and rule my day! No longer, I have taken myself back and now even though I still have to go to work I am approaching it with a new outlook. I am not letting it consume me and I am not letting dictate my feelings. It’s not always easy and I still have that occasional day when I feel overwhelmed, but I am controlling my thoughts and pointing them in the direction I want!! Only 90%?? We women will have to work on that…hehe
Deb
xo

Ahhh! DEB! Great to get to know about your job fists loosening and you let it, “No longer”… take you for granted…. that’s news and I am so happy Dear.
So, you liked to laugh at it…. hahaha.
Oooh you Women folk still not satisfied having achieved 90% on that… God help the Man…. hehehe.
There is a book on “The Book of Woman” by Osho. In it he says 99% Men are Hen-pecked. Are you Women satisfied…😂
Hugs
Shiva🎶

Yes isn’t it good news about my job, yes i laugh at it now when it tries to wear me down.
Awe hen-pecked…nah now that I’m older and wiser, no more hen-pecking for me!! I’m a perfectionist so I’ll accept nothing less than 100% hehe
Deb
(just kidding) 🙂

Wow Deb! Its definitely good news. So the turning point comes somewhere and sometime, and for you it has come. I am so very, very happy about it. So you are older and wiser see it never turns back here too.
Not to have the confusion that am I in the 1% or in the 99% I now sanction 100% for you all Women. Hehehe
This is my Kidding!😂
Shiva🎶

Yes this is no good…
I tend to let others overwhelm ….
So everything is coming from you and so everything cannot happen also….
Immediately stop, be serious do not respond…. it is the first step…. they shall know you do not require them…. why should you anyway….. do not mingle freely….. no much talk at all.
Slowly you will become strong.
Remove that feeling of fragile completely, even the roots are not to be seen, eradicate. I hope you understand My Dear!
That should be enough to control your Life.
Let me know the first results. It should not take time, maybe a week is enough. Hahaha
Shiva🎶

True i have seen leople become controlled and not know it, because it happens slowly over time. I think we have to daily challenge ourself and look at our life and ask daily did i do good today? Did i use my own decision making or did i go against my own grain because it was easy?