Don’t get all carried away, however. Kirsten Dunst is spoken for. She and actor Garrett Hedlund are a thing–a good one, too. But just in case she decides she’s going unload her current flame, you can be prepared to step in–if you have the following qualifications.

“I appreciate old-fashioned manners,” Dunst explains.

“I want a guy to pay for dinner and open the door for me,” she adds. “I love the masculine.”

Kirsten Dunst was previously linked to Jake Gyllenhaal and Johnny Borrell–but not at the same time, of course. It’s uncertain if this next comment was aimed at them.

“I’ve dated men who had more of a feminine side,” she says. “And it didn’t work.”

Kirsten Dunst and Garrett Hedland met on the set of On the Road, and have been together for four years. She wants to have kids. Will that be the deal-breaker, or is Hedlund up for parenthood, too?

“I want to continue acting, but I also want to have kids,” she says. “I think I’ll be ready to have them in two years or something.”

Be prepared, gentlemen. Brush up on those old-fashioned manners and sock away a lot of dough. You’ll be paying for dinner if you get to date Kirsten Dunst–if Garrett Hedlund doesn’t marry her or become her baby daddy first.