: Last night immediately after sex I had a bruise. Above my clitoris was very swollen and very purple. The bruising has gone downa little but its still very bruised. This has never happened to me and this is the third time having sex with my current boyfriend. So I guess my question is what caused this and how can it not happen again because its really sore. The sex didn't seem any different.

Julie

Are dating a cowboy and did he wear his belt and big old belt buckle to bed ? :)

You didn't mention whether this was a slow and quiet or wild and crazy sexual encounter. My hunch is it was the latter. If it happens again I would modify your sexual positions.

You might consider using the same technique that porcupine use to make love.