A Top's Eye VIew.
I hope this will be fun, funny, complicated, opinionated and occasionally irritating. Say what you will. Agree, disagree, complain, rant, rave. It's fine. If I say something that offends you, go somewhere else. If you agree with me or any of my musings, please share this with your lifestyle compatriots.

Sunday, June 30, 2013

I just had to note that after four years of starting my blog I've received a quarter of a million hits. To think that 250,000 perverts, Fellow Kinksters and others (mostly folks who likely searched for "50 Shades of Gray" and were appalled when then got here) for the most part intentionally came to read my musings, my opinons, my observations, my life changes, my humor, my discoveries, my photos and my ripoffs really is rewarding.I don't know how a quarter of a million hits relates to other blogs out there and I don't really care. To me, 65,000 hits a year is nothing short of amazing. Thank you everyone for following me, for reading my struggles, travails, experiences, fun, sadness and awe.I hope you continue to stick with it. I'll keep trying too.

Saturday, June 22, 2013

I've kinda been drawing a blank the last few weeks, I hate to say. Is it the heat of the summer? Is it because I've been traveling so much? Is it because I've been so busy I can't spare a few spare moments to think about the blog? Yes, yes, and yes, most likely.So today, so you don't think I've utterly abandoned the blog and forgotten about you all, Fellow Kinksers, I've assembled a short yet very special photo album for you to enjoy.I was going through my entire archive of Lizzie photos recently to pull together some material for a project we're doing and as I did that, I came across a few very special photos that have significance to me for various reasons. Some of these are from play parties long before we became a couple, some are special for other reasons. I hope you enjoy.

This was a cold winter day. You can tell, yes?

I love this one. The lens, camera angle and lighting make Lizzie's already long, slender legs look even longer and more slender.

I like this one. I spent a lot of time getting the sheets artfully tussled. I love how she looks simultaneously asleep and freshly fucked at the same time. Both of which may have been true at one point or another during this particular photo shoot.

Another fantastic leg photo. Unlike all the others, this one Lizzie took herself, sitting in her window seat. I love her farm house in the middle of nowhere in Kansas. Such a respite from Los Angeles. I know she loves her custom-built window seat, too. So getting a chance to share it with her makes me feel really "at home" with her, even as I was at home with her.

This sexy little anime outfit just does it for me. Look at those beautiful asscheeks peeking out from under that ludicrously short skirt. Fan-fucking-tastic.

I took this one party weekend. I hadn't intended for it to be this artful (IMHO) silhouette. I love it.

I always feel, when I look at this one, that it reminds me of those famous Hugh Hefner photos of Marilyn Monroe. Hot.

About Me

Motto: Conversio Virium (latin for "exchange of forces")
I am a MDHL (Male Dominant Het Leather) and am a proud member of the Monarchs. I am a Master and daddy to Lizzie.
I believe discipline, caring attention, focused instruction and mastery of myself and my sub are the first steps in a meaningful D/s relationship. I'm enjoy bondage, impact play, spanking, erotic humiliation, humiliation & debasing, and scenes mixing sex and delivery of pain. I feel true protocol comes from respect, trust, communication and understanding.
Because of my work and family I live the lifestyle 24/7 as best I can and am happy to have the balance I have.
I enjoy not just finding play partners but meeting new people, making new friends and appreciating the connections that come from that. The serendipity I discover in meeting great people in the scene has been a pleasant surprise.