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I was in a relationship 2 years ago. One day on the Internet, I met a random girl. Our conversations grew with time and we decided to meet and have sex.

From that day, I had sex almost 5 times whenever we meet. She was the one who pays all expenses at the hotel. One day I asked her to have threesome with any of girlfriends and she agreed.

But one day, I asked her family details. She told me that her father was no more and she lives with her mom. I dont know what happened to me but I felt guilty of my deeds. I cleared with her that we are not bf-gf, but just friends with benefits and there was nothing like we were cheating or hiding something. She also knew that I have a gf.

I feel guilty thst I am doing wromg and even broke my relationship with my real gf as I think I cheated her. She refused to leave me but still I am no more with here so that she can get better.

Do you think I should feel guilty? Have I done the right thing? Sometimes I miss my gf badly.

What should I do?

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In my openion u don't need to feel guilty anymore as you already compensate for the thing, try to accept that u r a guy who needs sex and don't fill guilty about that girl she must be comfortable without her father's presence in her life call her again and have sex as much as u can it will help u

You should feel guilty for cheating on your girlfriend with this random girl who you met on internet as you should have stayed loyal to your girlfriend. However, if you wanted to have sex with this random girl then you should have broke your relationship with your girlfriend before having sex with this girl.

However, here you feel guilty because you came to know that this girl’s father is no more with her so you feel petty on her and you feel that you did something wrong but one thing you should understand that she wants to have sex with her and it gives her pleasure and she has a right so you have not done anything wrong by having sex with her and you should not feel guilty for that.

Whether she has a father or not, she is a woman and women have natural desire to have sex as sex is a natural thing and all the humans want to experience it. Your guilt natural has to do with your upbringing.

Yes,you have committed mistake.Question of doing right thing,doesn't arise.It is not proper to fuck a unknown girl.Internet girls are most unreliable and of dubious character.Whenever you meet,you are fucking five times and she is paying hotel expanses....seems to be a concocted story.Where this hotel is situated? You may have to pay high price for seeking momentary pleasure.Beware of them in future.