5 Resolutions For Dating in 2011

Happy New Year everyone! At the beginning of 2010 I resolved to curse less and read more. I think I did very well with the former and not so well with the latter, but 2010's lack of literary prowess notwithstanding, I've decided to write down 5 dating resolutions for 2011 (while some of these are specific to me, they are really for everyone).

That makes 22 the youngest girl I can consider dating. Not a rule I followed in 2010. Note: In NYC, anyone over age 21 is socially acceptable to date, though they need to have special powers.

2. Less drinking more thinking

Too many of my dates last year involved drinks, which led to drunken makeouts, and while I regret exactly none of these, if I want a relationship this year that's going to be more than just whiskey-based, I need to work on my sober skills.

3. Creativity counts

My dating activities can pretty much be broken down into the following: restaurant, I cook dinner, you cook dinner, walk in my neighborhood, art gallery, drinks, movie….that's it! That is so pathetic. This year I will find new and exciting ways to woo women into what will hopefully result in a pants-less dance party in my apartment.

4. Back to the gym

My gym routine fell apart last year. I don't know what happened. Oh wait, yes I do: too many meals at restaurants, with drinks, followed by what no one in his right mind would consider anything close to exercise. I feel better when I'm fit. I look better when I'm fit. I spend less time drinking and eating tacos at 4 a.m. when I'm fit. Back to the gym!

5. Update the makeout music

Turned on my "Chill Out" playlist a few weeks back (it's been a while; gimme a break) and I recognized not only their songs, but the order they were played in. That is unbelievably shabby. What am I thinking? A good playlist takes maybe 30 minutes to put together. Compare that to the weeks it takes to get another chance with a girl who left thinking I didn't know how to kiss (because I was distracted).

__What are your dating resolutions for 2011? As long as they're not "to read your blog less" I want to hear em!

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