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My best lover was not the biggest.. although the skinny type with a 9incher.. My best fuck ever.. to the point that he asked me "are you ok?" after seeing me trying to regain my breath after the violent pounding lol

The biggest was "interesting".. but I prefer girth compared to length, too long and it hurts me.. give me a 7x6 over a 9.5x5

All my long term partners were "average" but not small (between 6"-7"). However, I did date a friend of mine and though it did not develop into a stable relationship, we did have sex 2-3 times. He had an 8-9 incher that I was not going to let its way between my hips. Just oral sex and jerking off was the thing for us. I would not want a guy too large because "What am I going to do with it all day! Stare at it?" Give me a guy with skillfull hands and fingers and I'm happy just with that. Oh, I just remembered that I did get a "big one" in me when I was about 20 years old. I think he was Dominican also. He was cute and short in height but had a nice 8-9 penis. It took him about an hour giving me tongue and finger before I really wanted it pushed in! He did it nicely and slowly and it did work out. That was a one time thing for me...

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Catman

Meow to the birdsMeow to the tree'sMeow to the endof this dreadful disease...

It is funny how the comment came up. I am half Sicilian, he is Puerto Rican, and said something about being a "well hung Puerto Rican". I had one tequila too many and said something like, "Well, you are half right, because I know you are Puerto Rican, but I was packin' more than that in Kindergarten, okaaaaaaaaaaay!!!" He responded with "I am well-hung, I am eight and a half inches" and I responded with "Girl, didn't they teach you about the metric system, those are centimetres you referring to, not inches..."

ever since i quit doing crystal meth (2 years ago except for 1 little blip) i havent been able to enjoy bottoming (well maybe once or twice)......it used to be BIGGER=BETTER (bring it on).....now i think any more than 7-8 inches is too much

i guess i dont know how to "relax" anymore sober hahaha...although im going to have to learn because i miss bottoming from time to time

I am half Sicilian, he is Puerto Rican, and said something about being a "well hung Puerto Rican". I had one tequila too many and said something like, "Well, you are half right, because I know you are Puerto Rican, but I was packin' more than that in Kindergarten, okaaaaaaaaaaay!!!" He responded with "I am well-hung, I am eight and a half inches" and I responded with "Girl, didn't they teach you about the metric system, those are centimetres you referring to, not inches..."

LMAO! You do know that many Latins tend to exagerate a bit. If you didn't know, you do now! Ha,ha!

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Catman

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if they sauy its 8" its really 9.5". You need to add 1.5". I guess they are humble people or they simply don't want to scare you. if you tell them you are a virgin, they will rape you quicker than you say "i was kiddin". They have a thing for tightness.

if they sauy its 8" its really 9.5". You need to add 1.5". I guess they are humble people or they simply don't want to scare you. if you tell them you are a virgin, they will rape you quicker than you say "i was kiddin". They have a thing for tightness.

I also think that smaller penises hurt more. I remember losing my rear virginity to my first boyfriend who was tiny. I kept thinking the entire time that it felt like I had an angry woodpecker going to town on my ass. It felt like the chapstick from hell, it hurt so much. How something so small could cause so much pain.

Years later when I moved onto bigger and better things I discovered that discomfort or pleasure had much to do with my state of arousal. With a larger guy it is more like "Bring it on, big daddy" or "Aye Papi, is that all for me?!" rather than "That little thing looks so red and angry".

I know, too much information............

Scott

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ImADope

The median was 7.32 but mean was 8.1 and mode was a lá.Incorrigibly foolish. A person is more than genitalia. Some people are more than one genitalia. Call them hermAphrodités, part Goddess of Love, Beauty, and Eros.Why not ask of the highest IQ or the best thighs or most adept kiss-giver?The most romantic or most wealthy or most tighter anal sphincter he can't sit for fear of sucking up the furniture?

My best was 9 inches (and yes I did measure him--this was before we slept together and somehow I talked him into dropping his pants and letting me get the tape measure out). He had a nice girth as well. Girth and skill are big things to me as well. Now much longer than 9 inches and it hurts. I had a guy who was bigger than that (he had asked me if he was the biggest I ever had and I said by eyeball I thought so. He didn't let me measure, though.), but it was painful, every thrust felt as if it were going through the cervix. Too short is not good. There was a guy who I couldn't feel when it got in and my first thought was, "Awww it's kind of cute.", so really there wasn't much of a connection there. Even though he gave the best oral I ever had, it really was disappointing. The big hands, big dick thing doesn't always hold true.....

This thread keeps making me think back to around 1996 and this incredibly hot looking Cuban/Dominican I met in a bar. He was attractive so it didn't matter really how huge he was, but on the ride home that night while he was in the back seat with me he pulled out the ONLY monster. It was just wicked... like if Michelangelo had carved it himself. Perfectly proportioned and colored too... with an amazing amount of foreskin on it. I went to town on that thing right in the car, and made my friend who was driving really gag as he watched in the rear view mirror. He couldn't believe what a haul I'd pulled in from the river! It was a good 10.5/11" for sure, but it was the thickness that was even more amazing. Like a beer bottle... thought I'd gag when it went in me but surprisingly I rode it with aplomb, and he wasn't being easy with me either. Heaven!

Thank goodness he was a top too when we got home... the whole affair was a solid "100" score. Too bad he only lasted about three dates after that. He was a bit young for me though... and lived with his mother so I didn't sweat it that much, well except his cock.

This thread keeps making me think back to around 1996 and this incredibly hot looking Cuban/Dominican I met in a bar. He was attractive so it didn't matter really how huge he was, but on the ride home that night while he was in the back seat with me he pulled out the ONLY monster. It was just wicked... like if Michelangelo had carved it himself. Perfectly proportioned and colored too... with an amazing amount of foreskin on it. I went to town on that thing right in the car, and made my friend who was driving really gag as he watched in the rear view mirror. He couldn't believe what a haul I'd pulled in from the river! It was a good 10.5/11" for sure, but it was the thickness that was even more amazing. Like a beer bottle... thought I'd gag when it went in me but surprisingly I rode it with aplomb, and he wasn't being easy with me either. Heaven!

Thank goodness he was a top too when we got home... the whole affair was a solid "100" score. Too bad he only lasted about three dates after that. He was a bit young for me though... and lived with his mother so I didn't sweat it that much, well except his cock.

Haha.....gotta laugh at this one. Acutally my BEST male lover wasn't "Big" at all, only about 4 inches. A close tie with my second best wich was about 9 or more, but very, very sweet and considerate. Just goes to show, it's not necissarily size, but HOW you use it.

8 7/16, tantalizingly wide with an enormous head. He knew it was the most beautiful cock in the world. I guess thats where the word "cocky" comes from. I just couldnt keep my hands or mind off it. Anything in the 10 to 12 range just seems so unwieldy. Now I will be thinking about it all day.

Jack I thought you're straight. Anyway I agree with Coffeechick and Puertorico that large ones can hurt a lot. I once met a guy with what seemed like more than 10" but it never seemed to get rigid & stiff (is that normal?), and even if it did.....

My best lover was my longest ever partner. He was at least 8.5", a bit larger than I am. But the biggest cock I have ever seen was this cute young brazilian boy who picked me up, ironically on my way home from meditation practice! He had a 13" cock, and it was the fattest one I have ever seen! he wanted to top me, but I prefer to top almost always, so I only gave him head - that was tough enough of a task!! (I screwed him, which was great fun). What really surprises me is how many huge ones are on small guys - and how many muscle guys are so incredibly small!

In my 50 years of sex play, I have found that the size of a penis is just about as important to a fine sexual encounter as the type of ride the man arrived in. In other words, nothing matters less than this dimension.

Love,

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The Bible contains 6 admonishments to homosexuals,and 362 to heterosexuals.This doesn't mean that God doesn't love heterosexuals, It's just that they need more supervision.Lynn Lavne

ImADope

Moffie65, you are wise. I believe same way too but learn from you about human life and habits.

When you love someone the levels of enjoyment are reaching much higher than having sex only with person you may even not like or know. I did get illness from many sexual participants but now love only one.

Look... I asked for clarification from the thread's author on how we were measuring "best lover" and he consequently said "best sex" no "best lover"... if it was "best lover" than I'd totally go with my last partner, who was a divine male specimen with skin as dark as coal, born and raised in Nigeria (no, he's not an email scammer!) but educated in London and lived there for 20 years. Incredibly smart and fun man... and he WAS a man 100%. I've never been overly into muscles, but he gave me the added bonus of being a non-steroid using bodybuilder of sorts, with a 245 lbs body on a 5'9" frame which is damn big. So, as you can imagine the motion in the ocean produced momentum and large waves, even though his cock was a slightly above normal 7"

There's a small part of me that wholly regrets that I ended this relationship. We connected on so many intense levels of a non-sexual manner that the partnership was one incredibly of equals, which is all I ever want because I have a tendency to manipulate people... I know, really bad personality trait on my part but it's been self-evident since the age of 12. I'm better with this than I used to be.