Most Helpful Girl

Love is patientlove is kindlove is being honest even when you know it might hurt that personlove is being content with the little or big things you have or are givenlove is doing things like watching that romance movie or soccer when you just hate itlove is being there for someone when they most need you, whether physically or spiritually love is trying to understand even when you just dont understandlove is being able to trust someone with your heart even when in doubt LOVE IS JUST BEING DOWN WITH SOMEONE WHO REALLY MATTER THE MOST TO ME NO MATTER WHAT!!!

For me i prefer love because love motivates me to do whatever i want , keeps me positive , having a person who loves you makes ones life amazing

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Sex is when I see a pretty girl and think about having sex with her.Love is when I get to talk with her and see that she cares about me and I open myself up to her.

Sex is when I hear that every woman wants to bang me because I'm hot but nothing further than that.Love is when I hear that someone wants me for who I am and not just my body.

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But how do you show her you care? What is like knowing that you'll forever be sleeping with only one girl? Would you rather have a different girl every night or would you rather come home to one girl every night?

At this point in my life I'd rather have one girl to come home to every night because sometimes guy's struggle with self-esteem too and having a woman you can turn to to love you for who you are is really something. As opposed to one-night stands you can never build a relationship and connection with them. I don't think casual sex is bad or anything but having loving relationship is just more fulfilling for me overall...

And I don't think perfect sex is all that important, as long as it's good enough sleeping with one girl for the rest of my life is ok with me. To show her that I'd care I'd try and notice what she's wearing and compliment on it. You know try to think of small things like that...However I should add that I'm single right now and am considering casual sex until I get my life in order to really setlle down...

Oh God well every guy was different. Personally at twenty-two I was too young to settle down and I'mstill kind of am but a lot of my friends got married and have kids at 22 or 23. Those guys matured quicker than me and now have babies I don't think they want to be single anymore. Everyone wants to settle down sometime but some people sooner than others. For me I'm not super ready yet but I'm getting closer everyday...

Thank you! I really appreciate it! I guess it just happened so fast that I feel like he's not ready and this isn't what he wants. He's very mature more mature than any other man I've meet at his age. But for some reason I can't help but feel like he wants to be single that he wishes he was? You know? Thanks again so much!