I'm pro-choice...

But I've spent part of tonight crying and scared that someday, my son will want a baby more than anything and the mother won't and he has no say... I am pro-choice, but who's choice?

I understand that he would not have to go through pregnancy like she would. He would not get the public's stares and ugly looks. I got pregnant at 17. I had a really hard pregnancy and was in and out of the hospital. It takes so much strength to be pregnant. No woman shpuld be forced to CTT. But I can't help but hate the fact that my son could face this reality.

If a man tells a woman that he isnt ready to be a father and that he wants her to abort the baby, he is immediately called heartless and is told that it takes two to make a baby and he should own up to it... But if a mother says the same thing its a different story. The same can be said about adoption. He could want that but she doesn't. She wins. She could want it but he doesn't. She wins.

Sorry for this pointless post. I just needed to get this out there. He's only 10 weeks old (tomorrow) and I'm already terrified of when this world will hurt him. :( I'm just heartbroken that this is a reality for my son..