The Weeknd didn’t take long to move on after their split in November of 2016, and Bella came clean about how difficult it was to watch her ex’s relationship with pop star Selena Gomez unfold.

“It was my first breakup — and so public. As an outsider, you might think I handled it so well, but it’s always in your heart, and you always feel it very heavily,” she told Teen Vogue. “It’ll be hard for a while. Love hurts, but you have to pull through.”

Well, it definitely looks like she’s finding her footing in the dating world again!