Have you lived in the dark?
have you lived in the light?
have you been in both places?
if one was in the dark would they stay or look for the light.....once in the light would one stay or fall back into darkness
if one was teetering on the brink of both which way would they fall??
Both run deep and I'm sure most have been in one place or the other or even both ...if in the dark would it hold tight and blind the light?? could the light shine through and rescue one...so many people have fallen and had the strength to pick themselves back up, brushed themselves off and continued on...but what about those who can't or won't....if a friend fell and you extended a hand and they refused it what would you do? could you stand and watch them struggle....since no one can force you to do anything and they are so deep in the dark they can't find the light and you know that no one can help them but them for it starts with them; they need to see that they are in need before they can be helped ....for help starts with the one in need....again could you stand by and watch them fall further or struggle against the tide and drown yes I hknow someone in this position and have extended a hand but it was refused and it's not easy watching from the sidelines as they fall deeper ...they have been there before and evidently didn't learn anything, so all I can do is sit and wait to see if they extend that hand for help, but being one who has a very good and deep heart I find my heart breaking over this whole thing and may have to walk away before I get drawn in too deep

Have you lived in the dark? have you lived in the light? have you been in both places? if one was in the dark would they stay or look for the light.....once in the light would one stay or fall back into darkness if one was teetering on the brink of both which way would they fall?? Both run deep and I'm sure most have been in one place or the other or even both ...if in the dark would it hold tight and blind the light?? could the light shine through and rescue one...so many people have fallen and had the strength to pick themselves back up, brushed themselves off and continued on...but what about those who can't or won't....if a friend fell and you extended a hand and they refused it what would you do? could you stand and watch them struggle....since no one can force you to do anything and they are so deep in the dark they can't find the light and you know that no one can help them but them for it starts with them; they need to see that they are in need before they can be helped ....for help starts with the one in need....again could you stand by and watch them fall further or struggle against the tide and drown yes I hknow someone in this position and have extended a hand but it was refused and it's not easy watching from the sidelines as they fall deeper ...they have been there before and evidently didn't learn anything, so all I can do is sit and wait to see if they extend that hand for help, but being one who has a very good and deep heart I find my heart breaking over this whole thing and may have to walk away before I get drawn in too deep

It is heartbreaking Angels. The most important thing is that you have tried to show her the light. Whether she chooses to fly towards it is up to her.You have done your bit and even though it is painful to watch,you must allow her to make her own choices. Only hope that if God forbid it ever happens to you there is someone there who cares enought to help. Just like you.

It is heartbreaking Angels. The most important thing is that you have tried to show her the light. Whether she chooses to fly towards it is up to her.You have done your bit and even though it is painful to watch,you must allow her to make her own choices. Only hope that if God forbid it ever happens to you there is someone there who cares enought to help. Just like you.

iwanttobehugged thanks but I've learned you can't make some get help or talk if they don't want too
I know cause I've been there also that's why I'm trying to help...they have listened to me some and sought out my help but decided to go it alone..so all I can do is wait

iwanttobehugged thanks but I've learned you can't make some get help or talk if they don't want too I know cause I've been there also that's why I'm trying to help...they have listened to me some and sought out my help but decided to go it alone..so all I can do is wait