My response to Anti-Semitism

The cause of anti-Semitism is also the solution.

I'll never forget the first time I decided to put on a kippah. I was 21 years old and living in Israel. It felt so natural; I was so proud to wear it as I walked amongst the rainbow of Jewish people who had come back from so many different places to live in our land.

I'll never forget the first time I came back to America, wearing that same kippah. It felt so uncomfortable. I felt there was a flashing neon sign on my head that read, "Hey, see this skullcap? I'm Jewish! I'm Jewish! I'm Jewish!" I don't remember ever being so self-conscious as I was walking off that plane. I walked down the airport halls afraid that I was going to be the target of some anti-Semitic remark.

In retrospect there was even a deeper fear lurking in my heart, a fear I was too embarrassed even to admit to myself. "If someone did say something anti-Semitic, would I take the kippah off and walk around in a baseball hat the rest of my life?"

On more than a few occasions in those first few weeks back in America I could feel myself tense up in public, preparing myself for this dreaded moment.

It came about a month later, on the streets of Boston, watching the Boston Marathon, I heard a loud voice behind me in the crowd yell, "Hey you x#&#*!%! Jew! Why don't you go back to Jerusalem where all the money is!?" (He obviously didn't know too much about the Jerusalem economy.) I spun around, humiliated and enraged, glaring at my attacker in the midst of this crowd. He was a large anti-Semite, and not one of the more sophisticated ones. He hung out the window of his car yelling, "Jews make me sick!" just before driving off. My face was flush; I was seething with anger – and embarrassment – that I was wearing a kippah.

Clarifying My Values

I never took the kippah off, but I did learn a valuable lesson that I believe contains within it the most important response to anti-Semitism.

The reason for my fear and my embarrassment was because I wasn't really connected to the reason why I was wearing my kippah in the first place. Oh sure, I could tell you all the reasons why, but I was just mouthing words. I didn't feel the power of those words with my heart.

The best response to anti-Semitism is to bring more Jewish values into your life.

The kippah incident was like a wake-up call to me. I had to ask myself, Why did you really want to wear a kippah? Because of tradition? Because it made me feel more religious? No. I wanted to wear my kippah because I wanted to fulfill the reason that the rabbis decreed it should be put on: a constant reminder that we, as Jews, should walk humbly before God. A reminder that we should act in a way that embodies the very essence of the Torah's values – goodness, selflessness, responsibility for helping others, honesty, integrity. In this context, wearing a kippah was truly the greatest of honors, and one that brought with it great responsibility.

After I understood this, my self-consciousness changed to gratitude and a deep pride that I had the privilege of trying to live up to what Judaism represented. Instead of wanting to take my kippah off, I wanted to go out and buy a bigger one. I then realized that the cause of anti-Semitism is also the solution. The greatest way to respond to anti-Semitism is to bring more Judaism and Jewish values into your life!

If someone attacks Israel and you truly feel gratitude for what a gift Israel is, then his or her attack not only doesn't affect you, it makes you appreciate the gift even more. If someone attacked you for giving tzedaka, charity, and you understood how important tzedaka is for the world, it would only make you want to give more.

Every time Israel is attacked, we should plan our next trip to Tel Aviv.

Just think for a moment what it would do to people who were anti-Semitic and anti-Israel if they saw that each anti-Semitic or anti-Israel attack was met with only a deeper resolve, gratitude for, and commitment to Judaism and Israel! What would they do if they saw that each thing they said or did only worked to inspire us more Jewishly?

They would immediately run out of ammunition! They would see that their hatred is only making us stronger and more grateful.

Every time we hear of a synagogue being burned in Europe we should want to go to synagogue even more. Every time we read about someone attacking Israel, we should start planning our next trip to Tel Aviv. But it can't be something that is a forced response, it has to come from our hearts, from our appreciating even more how precious being a Jew truly is. If we can find this kind of response within ourselves, then anti-Semitism will become the grinding stone upon which Jewish commitment and pride is sharpened.

It's been many years since I chose to put my kippah on, and I'm happy to report that I wear it with deep gratitude and pride. What makes me even happier, though, is that my 6-year-old son is even prouder of his.

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Visitor Comments: 104

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Anonymous,
April 30, 2014 11:26 AM

I am sick of anti semitism

Maybe it is becoming time for us Jews to leave and start again on an island away from the rest of the world. if I had the money I would do just that. We would thrive as we always do. But we would also need to be armed to the teeth, just in case. If they don't want us we don't need them. We are a very talented and resourceful group.

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K M GULA,
February 8, 2013 5:43 PM

THE REVEALED KIPPAH

This is a wonderful and revealing article. As a Christian, I was never taught what the signifigance of the kippah is. My understanding was that it was to be a reminder that G-d was over you. Your article explained so clearly and wonderfully a fuller and deeper meaning. Thank you, Rabbi, for you willingness to share such a moving account from your life and the growth in your relationship to both the Law and the L-rd. May the richness of the L-rd's blessings be upon you and upon your family both now and forevermore! Shalom Shabbat! 02/08/2013

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Daniel,
January 18, 2013 5:25 PM

Wow that's inspirational that you kept the kippah on. 2 years a go when I was 18 I went to Israel and I came back wearing a kippah. I told my Rabbi I would start wearing it all the time. However I felt the same thoughts and unlike you I buckled.
However, after returning from Israel two years, I am proud to say i have started (and continued for half a year) wearing one. It's hard very hard, especially because I live in a smaller Jewish community. But it helps me stay on track because I represent the entire jewish people with my action s. plus it is an inspiration to secular Jews/allows me to do Kiruv!

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Anonymous,
January 16, 2013 4:21 AM

I blog on news sites where Israel will come up as a topic.
For some reason, that brings out the Jew bashers and away they go with lies and deceptions.
They have to be confronted; or the trolls will keep growing. But I am glad to see a good number of people who will refute their deceptions with facts.
Don't know what gets into some people. They must live miserable lives or hate life ??

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kenneth,
January 16, 2013 1:34 AM

My so called friend who I know for a very long time who claims to be a sufi muslim murid of the Naqshbandi sufi order an boasts of this mysticism had a lot to say on my facebook timeline recently on my prophile photo which is the Israeli Defence Force logo.He greeted me to as Mr idf.he is jealous.I'm not jewish but believe in Israel as the Jewish Homeland.God bless Israel.shalom

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SOCORRO SAMPÉRIO,
January 15, 2013 11:00 PM

Dont you worry for this kind of people more soon then later they will have to shout their mouth. Hashem takes good care of us.
"Let the dogs bark while we pass" said el Quijote
shalom

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Bette,
January 15, 2013 6:34 PM

Yes, get violent when confronted with violence

I say yes, when confronted with violence get violent back. It's survival of the fittest. We already saw 6 million dead only 60 yrs ago and today in France, Jews are getting beaten up. Their response? To run to the police. If a bully gets confronted, and the bully sees he can't get away with it, he'll stop

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Viola,
January 15, 2013 2:55 AM

Don't be ashamed to wear your Kippah

It is rare to see a person wearing a Kippah in my town in North Florida, most Jewish people here are not very religious. I have seen them a few times and it always makes me smile.
One time the local Rabbi showed up in the eye doctor's office wearing his Kippah and it actually helped me calm down to see him there. Doctors offices make me very nervous sometimes, maybe because I have a type of Autism called Asperger's Syndrome. The sounds, smells and lighting in those places are not exactly comforting.
I am not Jewish myself but I am supportive of Israel and have many Jewish and Israeli friends on facebook, even some from Judea and Samaria! I love them and they are a great blessing to me. I pray that they will be treated with more respect someday. They shouldn't feel ashamed to wear Jewish clothing, it is the haters that should feel ashamed from their stupidity.

Anonymous,
January 15, 2013 1:15 PM

I agree. Hatred of any kind is ugly.

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Beverly Margolis-Kurtin,
January 15, 2013 12:26 AM

Make them feel stupid

Having been a Jew for 72 years, I’ve had more than my share of Jew hatred aimed at me. Rather than give them the satisfaction of upsetting me, I do a few things that twists their little brains. No matter what they say, I just turn around; make eye contact and say, “Wow! Did you think that up all by yourself? How original!” When I get the opportunity, I add, “Are you a Christian?” If they say (and they ALWAYS say “yes,” I shake my head and say “It is fascinating that you pray to a Jew yet you hate his people. Ever hear of hypocrisy?
When I hear that we Jews own everything, I ask them if they know who owns the banks, etc. If they say “you Jews” I shake my head and ask them if they ever heard of shareholders? Personally, I get less than $20,000 a year. I cannot afford to get the teeth I lost during several grand mal seizures following a massive hemorrhagic stroke. If I was so rich, why haven’t I replaced my teeth?
When I can, I pull out my Kindle Fire HD and show anti-Israelis videos that tell the truth about Israel. I keep several videos on the machine so I can pull out the right video for the corresponding accusation about Israel. In particular, I love showing them the fact that more of us were kicked out of Arab countries than voluntarily left Israel.
I try to avoid arguing or getting upset, there is no reason to do so. When you are right, there is no possibility of denial. There are those who will hate us regardless of what we say or do, so why worry about bigots?

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Anonymous,
January 14, 2013 5:48 PM

Turn the other cheek

I disagree with getting physical unless confronted with violence We are peaceful people Lowering our values Only puts us on a level playing field of ignorance

Anonymous,
January 15, 2013 1:16 PM

I agree.

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ZivaTova,
January 14, 2013 4:41 PM

To T.C. and others...

I am a Jew-by-Choice (proper ORTHODOX conversion as NOTHING LESS IS VALID)
As I am a women, I can not wear a kippa.
I am proud to be a Jew, if I could wear a Kippa I would wear it everywhere!
I'm also a blackbelt in traditional karate, I pity the violent anti-semite that touches me.
If they are only spewing words, it makes me proud taht they are jealous, and to the core, hatred is how jealously rears it's ugly head.
They are jealous of us Jews, so just smile and walk away.

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Anthony McLean,
January 14, 2013 2:28 PM

We must introduce our belief to others because they are receiving it from those intended to destroy Israel, therefore if we do not respond or rebut, nobody will have a second taught or real knowledge of the truth. We must go to the Universities, the schools, forums, talk shows to talk Jewism to explain the Torah to tell the history. .

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Sonia,
January 14, 2013 1:01 PM

Answers to puzzles often require a correction in thinking -

I've always believed the point made in this article.
Sometimes an answer to a puzzle - why anti-Semitism exists - is to look at it from opposite perspective. As reminder: assimilation and becoming part of ideological political scams which so often become covers for anti-Semitism never works.
What seeks to bring down the Jew ends up ALWAYS bringing down what is good in the world not only for Jews but everybody!
'Disappearing' whatever the form may take ends up in separation from what is essential - ourselves
A merry-go-round for those who seek to blend
News flash - Judaism does not end.
Efforts to the contrary only assure our continuity.
Civilizations, cultures, societies playing this same old game - Its red flag anti-Semitism no matter the name!

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Anonymous,
January 14, 2013 12:36 PM

What to say to someone who is anti-semitic

I always tell people that if you are anti-Jewish...than you nust be anti-Christ. That usually stops them in their self-righteous tracks.

Anonymous,
January 28, 2013 11:56 AM

Great answer - I absulutely confirm or emphasize that ;-)!
Shalom.

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t.c.,
January 14, 2013 7:55 AM

I'm proud of my Jewish blood, and even though i'm not Jewish yet, i feel Jewish and i'm gonna convert :D and i deeply think that the more Jews in the world, the best this place is gonna be!

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Noela,
January 14, 2013 7:49 AM

Whenever I see someone wearing a yarmulke, I am so blessed, WHY, because it reminds me there IS a God who keeps His covenants. The Jewish people are the greatest testimony to this - Blessings my friend.

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Gary Katz,
January 14, 2013 5:46 AM

The best response

When I visited Spain, I as sure to attend Shabbat services. I sat there, thinking about how the Inquisition didn't prevent me sitting in a synagogue, freely and openly praying with other Jews. It was my way of spitting in the eye of the anti-Semites. It felt...good!

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Joshua,
January 14, 2013 4:41 AM

Egypt

The cruelty, that you may see, while it may only strengthen the faithful community will in turn cause you to make brick without any straw. Yet, G-d has reserved for Himself the hail in time of war...

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Anonymous,
January 14, 2013 4:13 AM

Location, Location, Vocation

Maybe as a rabbi in Boston, you can enjoy the benefits of the yarmulke, you can hide almost anywhere if things get rough.
Care to try it in any of the small towns of the south?
I don't think so.

Lori Friend,
January 14, 2013 2:44 PM

Sorry, Anonymous, but MOST small southern towns hold true to G-d as well in their own way (be they catholic, christian or just plain G-d fearing "folk") and they would never behave this way, For you to throw this out there shows your sad ignorance.

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Rafael,
January 14, 2013 4:13 AM

Bring it on!

You may not like this response, Rabbi, but it is what it is. My children were brought up to deal with 'Anti-Semitism' head on. Perhaps because their father is an Australian and fairly blunt or whether it's because my sons look, and act, more like Vikings - we have Danish, German and Russian in our ancestry - than the 'traditional' image of Jews that we ave little trouble from anti-Semites. When we have had incidents our responce has usually been "bring it on!', "You got the guts for a fight?" My youngest son, with all 6ft 10in of his construction worker's physique, accompanied us to Israel a couple of years ago and he continued to wear his kipper regardless of where we were. In East Jerusalem I suggested to him that it may be inviting trouble but his responce silenced his 'old man' - "Let them bring it on; all anti-Semites, anti-Jews are cowards, and they're stupid. Remember Grandma!" (My mother was a shoah survivorn who suffered terribly in Russia-Poland). In their respective towns and workplaces none of my children - all adults now - have ever had any problem with their Jewishness. They've found that the direct approach, even if confrontational, gains the 'respect' or is that fear, of the brainless Anti-Semites. Wasn't it once an Israeli leader who said in response to a criticism of hard action by the IDF: "Hey listen! We're not Christians, If you smack us on one cheek, we don't turn the other ... we kick your head in!" It was possibly Ariel Sharon who said that.

anthony,
January 14, 2013 2:37 PM

Yes, bring it on.

I agree with you, Bring it on! We must say it as it is, and my experience has shown me that many people are not fully aware and they usually respond with concern and openness. Make the people know the truth and the country will be saved

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Zvi Horovitz,
January 14, 2013 2:06 AM

The Irony of living a moral, Jewish life

While one should be accountable to Hashem: living according to His commandments and thus through an exemplary conduct it has the effect of making others look not so good. The more moral and ethically driven are our inclinations and actions, the more resentment Jews draw. It is as if one shoves a mirror in another's face, as if to say 'look at you! Look at your ugliness, your pervasions and obscenities!' One who leads a moral life strips naked those who do not. And those who deviate but attempt to emulate those who follow the right path, only to fail, the result of such failure is hate - hate that comes because the moral man makes an immoral one feel unworthy. It's true that it is the others' problem, but it also becomes a problem for us.

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doris,
January 13, 2013 10:56 PM

i am a grandmother and have been around for a long time

rabbi levine- i have read your column and found it very interesting. but when u are in rome you do what the romans do (as they say} or stay to yourself and dont add be a wiseguy

Sonia,
January 14, 2013 1:13 PM

Not quite sure that being a grandma automatically assures wisdom only personal experince does that

There are many ways of hiding but hiding from oneself is the worst. And the lesson we thereby teach our children - to hide - harbor consequences all of which the founding of Israel came into existence to dispel!
The preciousness of Israel to all Jews unfortunately is not so well understood by those who gravitate to ideologically driven politics ignoring the spiritual underpinning of our peoplehood - humility as an individual and proud as a nation!

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Rick,
January 13, 2013 10:17 PM

Hat's off to you Sir!!

I am not a Jewish person. But, I do read & respect everything that is Jewish. I subscribe to Aish.com and love it. You are blessed for taking a stand & I salute you sir for following through with your convictions. You are definitely a better person for it.

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Anonymous,
January 13, 2013 10:16 PM

I'm proud to be Jewish

I was born in the darkest time of our history in a very anti semitic Hungary. I wore my Morgen David proudly all my life. I'm fair haired and blue eyed (even thought I can take my heritage back to 4 generation among them famous Jewish philosophers I was told Why, you don't look Jewish My answer was it is a great pity!

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Ruth Hirt,
January 13, 2013 9:48 PM

Correct. Give it back to the spirit of anti-Semitism of satan.

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Anonymous,
January 13, 2013 7:55 PM

Surprised by the history of anti-semitism in the Christian world since they base their faith off of Hebrew literature.

I was raised Lutheran and learned from the Lord's Prayer and some other part of the service what seemed to be beautiful truths. Learning that the founder of my parent's faith was so bitter against the Jews and spoke so hatefully against them amazes me. Also, the fact that I never knew this growing up and had to come across these facts on my own still confounds me. My husband and I go to a Bible church and since 9/11 I have looked into other faiths more including Judaism. I have been surprised to learn how intricate the Jewish belief system is- I thought being a Christian and having read large sections of the Old Testament that I understood the Jewish faith better than I actually did. So my conclusion is that people live largely in ignorance. It is up to each individual to follow their own God given consciouses and stand up against wickedness wherever it comes from. I pray that you will continue to live out your faith and that God will protect you as you do.

Anonymous,
January 28, 2013 12:16 PM

You're right ... remember: there i-s a great G'D - and who will really seek with all of his or her heart - HE will answer him or her ... He will not abandon him or her in the "spiritual desert" - HE knows every heart that is seeking in honesty, as I came to understand :-).
Shalom.

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Anonymous,
January 13, 2013 6:06 PM

G-d absent

Wonderful article Rabbi Levine. G-d bless you for your courage. Saddly, the anti-semitic guy appeared to lack love and attention in his life and perhaps he saw you as his perfect target to pour his irrelevant rage. I had a similar experience a few years ago upon my return trip from Israel. Not exactly the same but, similar in some aspects. On that morning, I arrived at the building where I work and enter the elevator. I was wearing a beautiful star of David charm I had purchased during my trip. a young lady who work in the Prosecutor's office enters the elevator I was on, looked at my neck and said, "so, you don't believe in Jesus". She attempted to give me a lecture in christianity and Jesus. Being a former christian myself, I felt she was talking to the wrong person. Since she did not like my response, from that point on, when she sees me in the elevator at work, she doesn't speak to me or respond when I say good morning. We were never friend, but said either good morning or good afternoon when we bumped into each other every day in the elevator at work. I continued to wear my star of David charm which I love, and talk about Judaism without inhibition. It is what I believe in. Thank you very much for a great reminder that we do not need to acquiesce to social envy and loss of self steem and personality. What we need is to maintain our relationship with Hashem the creator and act in a way that emanate His very essence. May G-d bless and protect you and your family.

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Moishe,
January 13, 2013 6:01 PM

Good for you

I do the same.

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david,
January 13, 2013 5:58 PM

agree

That is exactly what i fear.

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Amber Cummins,
January 13, 2013 5:24 PM

JNF and our enemys

I converted 18 years ago and proudly work for the JNF, we have receives virulent attacks from "Stop the JNF" always in the name of so called Jews for justice. They recently turned their anger to a donor of ours who reported record takings at his stores and continues to give generously to our projects sometimes making donations in the names of our attackers. I salute this donor and his courage, the more they slander the more he gives!! It must be hard to have a plaque in your name in a forest in Israel as a diligent hater of the JNF and the wonderful work we do to build the State of Israel. :-)

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Steve Edelman,
January 13, 2013 5:17 PM

Proud

I began to wear it several years ago. I was probably the only Jew where I worked. Not one week went by without some effort at proselytizing before I started to wear it. This is America. The job was at a state agency, where proselytizing is frowned upon. The director of the office approached me within days of my "new attire" to ask me why I started to wear it. I explained that it was my response to employees who were presistently proselytizing. I gave her the names of all those employees, and the proselytizing stopped, with exception of a random incidents. The yarmulka/kippah had a wonderful secondary effect. I was an advertisement in our southern town, Fayetteville, North Carolina. Some people who saw me out and about town were Jews who wanted to worship. Even though the Synagogue in town was not hidden, these people did not know where it was. I told them, and they came.
We've had some converts as well. More of the men who converted wear kippot all the time than those who were born Jewish. I get some mean looks about town, but they are few and far between. A man attending a Hockey game saw me and wished me "Merry Christmas" with an angry expression on his face. I smiled and wished him the same. Would I travel overseas wearing it? Yes! I will also be carrying my American passport. I might even visit France again (the first visit was without a kippah).

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Ruthy,
January 13, 2013 5:12 PM

Comment from a very old Lady

Anti semitism is the most degrading fact in our lives,you only know it,when you are personally attact,
I had to experience personally for a long time,it gives you fear & makes you cry.Hashem took me away from these animal like people.The pain & fear that antisemitism creates is deep & painful.
Good luck with yopur Book!

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Yaakov,
January 13, 2013 4:09 PM

For Rebbeca

How are you-I am impressed by your decision and courage. I just wanted to comment on what you wrote that "I would rather be warm inside the Jewish family, than remain cold in this rancid anti-semitic world!"
While that is definitely true, please be aware that there may be Jews who are not as accepting as they could be, and that while a Ger is perhaps more Jewish than me-bec. there is no possibily anywhere down the line of anything Non-Jewish-I can't promise that when it comes to Shidduchim etc. there won't be people that are not as accepting as they should be.
In a nutshell-Judaism is the truth because it just is-G-d created the world-chose the Jewish people and gave us the Torah-not because of how sweet all Jewish are-which G-d willign we all will be soon. Please don't be surprised that we are not all "Tzadikim"
Wishing you lots of Hatzlacha and only the best,
Yaakov

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Wally Barber,
January 13, 2013 3:57 PM

I salute you sir, your yarmulka is welcome in my company anywhere, in fact it is invited.

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Theo,
January 13, 2013 3:55 PM

Jonnie Sofer anti semitism is their problem not ours British historian ,Paul Johnson says it is a disease - not racism Yes a disease Not our disease but theirs !As long as we are proud of who we are and what we stand for that is all that matters And that will attract greater respect for these values Of course thugs and out and out anti semites will never change But that is their sickness Surely you understand this ?

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Aygen,
January 13, 2013 3:54 PM

Rabbi Levine is right and wrong

January,
I agree with Rabbi Levine's practice and I admire him. However, there is the other side of the coin. He may wear his yarmukka proudly and cougeously in Israel but danger lurks even in the US. In other parts of the world it could be the kiss of death. For a Rabbi to preach wearing the yarmulka everywhere and at any time is irresponsible and may cause grave bodily harm if not death to the faithful. I know what I am talking about. Its not a danger just in the Arab world and Muslim world but even in Europe. France, for examle, is one of the most anti-semitic countries in Europe. These examples can go on and on. I've seen Jews battered, lynched and killed with my own eyes. So, Rabbi Levine, I suggest you think twice before preaching.
Aygen,
Istanbul, Turkey (I am not Jewish but a non-practicing Muslim)

Anonymous,
January 13, 2013 4:47 PM

re: anti semitism

Why is there such a difference between Jews wearing their head piece yet they despise Arabs who wear theirs? the word anti semitism is over used and abused. Calling out apartheid Israel, its brutality against Palestinans is not anti semitic, its facts.

Anonymous,
January 13, 2013 4:51 PM

Aygen is right

I am Jewish, and I want to thank Aygen for his consern.

Paula,
January 13, 2013 6:48 PM

Aygen..Rabbi Levine is right and wrong

We were stationed in Germany in 2002...there was a lot of anti-American sentiment...the military told us "do not look American!" Do not dress like an American. Of course, our cars had a USA tag on the license plate...we were told to stay out of certain cities! When we went far from the base, we rented a German car. I understand what you are saying and it's good advise.

aygen,
January 17, 2013 3:05 PM

Thanks

January 18
When in Rome so as the Romans do. There is a place and time to wear a yarmulka and a kippa .It has nothing to do with bravery or cowardice. Just common sense.
Aygen
Istanbul, Turkey

Hinda,
January 14, 2013 7:11 AM

Aygen - thank you

I as a Jewess from the U S (love that rhyme) do thank you for what you stated. I wish more Muslims would speak out before it israel too late. You have a great heart than many Jews I known have. May HaShem protect you.

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David Naas,
January 13, 2013 3:41 PM

Gentlemen's Agreement

In reading the article, my mind flashed to a scene from the movie, "Gentlemen's Agreement", where some of the 'good people' are forced to confront their unconscious assumptions and confront their own anti-Semitism when a reporter comes along who is only pretending to be Jewish.
And then, I remember t6hat at the end of the movie, he stops pretending to be Jewish, and goes away, whil the real Jews are left to deal with hate every day for the rest of their lives.
So -- who had the real courage?

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Alice,
December 1, 2005 12:00 AM

Thank you.

Dear Rebecca,
Thank you, Thank you, and bless you again and again. The Jewish people are lucky that you have become a Jew. As a blue-eyed blond, who doesn't fit the anti-semites mould of "Jew", I am continually amazed by the highly intelligent people who make anti-jewish, anti-israeli remarks in front of me, and to me. This article made me remember why we are so blessed.

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farah,
November 17, 2005 12:00 AM

I once read a story about a jewish rabbi in Russia who was send to a prison in siberia. his crime? possessing a prayer book. every morning he was forced to run in the ice and snow without shoes for several miles. imagine running in snow without shoes while fasting on Yom kippur, instead of sitting in an air conditioned synagogue. living under psychological pressure is not any easier than physical pain and maybe even harder.The ability to take any kind of suffering with humility depends on how connected you feel to God. if the spiritual conncection is not strong enough you only feel pain when insulted, and if it is strong, you will only feel joy and humility in your heart. I don't think that people who feel ashamed of wearing a yarmulke, are wrong to feel so. It has to come from the heart and it also depends on one's personality.

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Rebecca,
November 15, 2005 12:00 AM

Rude Awakening

I have always had a deep passion for the Jewish people, a passion that I though was universal, as it seemed so obvious that such a beautiful people could only be admired and revered.....

I thought it was universal until my husband and I decided to persue conversion a year ago, and WOW, out of the woodwork the anti-semites come streaming, like termites out of a rotten tree. It has been a hard slog, and as well as the obligitory 'turning away' that the Beis Din do (which are very clever, by the way, and it's not immediately obvious that they have given you a difficult obstacle!) there is the turning away of practically everyone in your past life, family and friends.

I love Judaism in the deepest parts of my soul, and I do think it will be worth it, as I would rather be warm inside the Jewish family, than remain cold in this rancid anti-semitic world!

Elana,
January 13, 2013 4:57 PM

to rebecca

Rebecca, good luck to you! It is a difficult road you choose once you decide to convert. Not only do the anti semites, family and friends may turn you away, but also many from the Jewish communities themselves. Understand that you are doing this for yourself and not for other people and that it is HARD; "a yoke around our necks" people say that for a reason. Understand also that you as a non jew also get rewarded according to the life you live, in the after life...maybe not to the same level as the person who carried the "yoke". Once you come to terms with these things and still want to, then go ahead and convert; but remember what you are getting yourself into. It is beautiful....but very difficult.

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Ann Brady,
November 15, 2005 12:00 AM

Yarmulkas Bring Joy

Shalom dear Rabbi Levine,

We live in terrible, hard times. True, there is much beauty in this world if you look with the eyes of your soul wide open; but human suffering clouds it over.

There have been occasions, recently, when I have seen young men in their teens, walking proudly down our city's streets, yarmulkas and fringes dancing with their youthful steps.

Always, I have paused to watch them pass, feeling great joy in my heart that such good should be fresh in the hearts of the young, even in this dreary world.

Thank you for your timely article.

God bless,
Ann Brady
Canada

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Jonnie Sofer (Ms.),
November 15, 2005 12:00 AM

Although Rabbi Levine's essay made several good points, I felt its basic philosophical thrust was simplistic - and even naive. I believe adopting Rabbi Levine's practices will fortify us Jews, but do little to diminish anti-Semitism.

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Avi,
November 14, 2005 12:00 AM

Why did God give us the Land of Israel?

One side point:

You wrote, "Every time we hear of a synagogue being burned in Europe we should want to go synagogue even more. Every time we read about someone attacking Israel, we should start planning our next trip to Tel Aviv."

I find the non-parallel structure of these sentence glaring. God did not give Israel to the Jewish people in order to visit there! God gave us Israel in order for us to DWELL in His land. Next time someone makes an anti-Israel remark, think about ALIYAH!!

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Robin Graham,
November 14, 2005 12:00 AM

thank you

I am currently dealing with anti-semitism in my own life. Reading "My response to Anti-Semitism " by Rabbi Chaim Levine reminded me how strong I have to be. I am being strong, and will not step down to those more ignorant and intolerant than I. Thank you for that article.

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Anonymous,
November 14, 2005 12:00 AM

wow.

i never thought of it that way.

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proud jew,
November 14, 2005 12:00 AM

what about this??

hey, i'm a proud jew. yesterday, 11/13/05 in los angeles, some guy started cutting me off in traffic, i pulled up next to him, and said "i don't have a problem, are you anti-semitic?" he said "why don't you go home and light a candle" i responded with anger and, if not for his girlfriend it wouldve been bad. two weeks ago, my little car was keyed all around because i had a orange gush katif ribbon and a hebrew pro-katif sticker in the rear window. now, i really would like to talk to you about this. why? i would love to wear my kippa all the time. but it's gonna cost me 600$ to fix the car, and i really don't want to get into any fights. also do not, repeat, do not like to take bs from antisemites. by the way, i am not a fighter, at all. (please aish. you're welcome to give my email to the author)

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Eliaou Dreifuss,
November 14, 2005 12:00 AM

Do Synagogues in Europe burn?

I agree with you that anti-Semitism must be fought. But what Synagogues in Europe which are burning are you talking about?

In Switzerland where I live there was "only" one prayer-room burning since a long time. The fire in the room was caused by a physically-ill Italian.

Shavua tov,
Eliaou

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Anonymous,
November 13, 2005 12:00 AM

The next wave

Of all the many and diferent forms that Jew hating has worn over the years they all have had this in common: to test our devotion. The Christians hated us for being different. The Nazis, may their names be erased, recognized that no amount of intermarriage could change us. Today, the international community, having adopted some of the values that we have been dying for over the centuries, has decided that we, as embodied in the State of Israel, are not Jewish enough. How dare we treat the "palestinians" so unairly? Yes, indeed, "Go back to Jerusalem." The fact that they are ignorant of the whole truth requires us to be ever more vigilant, as you have said. Like it or not, we are the reason Hashem created everything. Yes, those who hate us will get theirs from Hashem when the time is right, but our devotion to Hashem will hasten their disappearance, while building our world according to HaShem's peaceful intention.

Anonymous,
January 13, 2013 5:04 PM

What!

Maybe that is why other people hate Jews...this attitute that Hashem created everything for us...NO HE DID NOT. He created a world with people way before Jewishness was created. Yes, He created a Torah to give to Jewish people in order that we be the Role Models in His world to show His Other Children!! The world was created even for the ant that is crawling along the sidewalk! Everything and everyone has a reason and a place in Hashem's world. We don't even know really what Hashem is, our minds cannot grasp the concept.

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Judy Buehler,
November 13, 2005 12:00 AM

Very inrested in learning more!

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Juanita,
November 13, 2005 12:00 AM

I applaud you

I am a Christian American woman, but I think that the most masculine thing a Jewish man can do is to wear a yarmulka. I stand up for what I believe in, and to see them stand up for Israel and the Jews in humility before God - even in the face of persecution - is awesome.

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Shayna,
November 13, 2005 12:00 AM

Feelings about this article

I loved this article! It made me appreciate how being Jewish is something I should hold close, and not hide in fear of others crude remarks. I will take this article in my heart always.

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yehoshua halevi,
April 12, 2005 12:00 AM

need more articles like this

these kinds of articles are so important for Jewish people to have a deeper and greater understanding of what it truly means to be am yisrael(the people of israel). when we read about the true struggles of others it helps us in our own struggles. please print more of these pieces, especially where the writer really discusses the issues, feelings and experiences they have. when they go into depth, it helps the reader also go into the depth of their own heart and experience.

thanks for this valuable piece.

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Moishe Lewack,
December 9, 2003 12:00 AM

Wearing My Yarmulke in Uniform

Great Article R' Levine:

I am a Ba'al T'Shuvah in the United States Coast Guard. I became Ba'al T'Shuvah three years ago when I met my wife. Since then, I've worn a yarmulke
every day and tzitzis (most of the time), in and out of uniform, except, when it posed a perceived threat to good order and discipline or when an explicit waiver has not been granted by my chain of command.

Ever since I put on a yarmulke, I've been either praised or condemned. Praised, because other religious Jews and religious Christians, appreciate someone who defends and practices their faith without compromise. Condemned, by Jews and non-Jews alike, who feel uncomfortable with someone who doesn't conform to the accepted norm, or who feel that I am bring unwarranted (negative) attention to other Jews.

I've even been told by Jewish Chaplains that I'm either meshuggeneh or my desire to wear the yarmulke is indefensible (not a battle they choose to fight). After all, there is no halachic basis (basis in Torah for the Kippah), other than by Rabbinic decree.

They are unwilling to fight the fight, even though it (the wearing of a yarmulke) is largely accepted in the other services.

My point is with so many Jews in the military choosing to marry non-Jews and abandoning their Judaism or doing nothing to ensure that their children are raised as Jews, why is their so much negativity towards someone who wants to be observant and wants to set a correct example for his (step-)children.

Even my Rabbi (Chabad) has written a letter on my behalf and they seem to be unmoved.

Another issue is that Christmas and other Christian beliefs can be expressed openly without restriction (except the wearing of the cross) while Christians are in uniform.

Why is that I should remain silent when Christmas and other Christian music is played in my office or at other offices on my base?

Any thoughts?

Moishe Lewack, Maryland

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Anonymous,
October 10, 2002 12:00 AM

Collegiate anti-Semitism

Dear Rabbi,

Are you aware of the fact that on the campuses of many prestigious American universities, undisguised anti-Semitism is rampant, and growing?

At UCLA, one popular leaflet,(passed out by both "Pro-Palestinian" and "anti-globalist" student organizations) the world's major conflicts are described as: "THE WAR BETWEEN CIVILIZATION AND ITS PARASITES"

It is made very clear, that, the "Parasites" are lo, and behold - the Jews.

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Sharon Kass,
June 18, 2002 12:00 AM

Remember Tikkun Olam

It's good to show Jewish pride, but we should all remember that we do not exist for ourselves alone, but for the good of the world. World Jewry, even with all its contributions, has not done nearly what it has been capable of doing to further justice and prosperity in the world. Many of our efforts along the years have been more symbolic than actual. We should be empowering the poor through business development rather than all kinds of dole. We should be looking after the dysfunctional and the disabled rather than always looking to put minorities into political office. There are many more things we should do. Some of the resentment others feel for us is deserved, I'm sad to say.

Anonymous,
January 14, 2013 1:49 PM

Sharon Kass An awful lot of shoulds when you become the judge

Might I suggest you give it a rest
Political proselytizing is about idolizing
and too oft at risk is the truth -
Political correctness a language of its own
May risk Judaism to disown
May I suggest you not to be so harsh on Jews
An attitude kindred to abuse!
Our generously as a people is extraordinary
Require that anti-Semitism no matter the gage
Those who love the truth please from such hatred disengage!

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Marielle Gros,
May 13, 2002 12:00 AM

Proud

I live in a small southern town where a closeminded group of Baptists/Protestants/Catolics makes up 99.7% of the population. My parents constantly warn me about displaying my religion and/or anything against the conformity. The author of this article shares my feelings on Jewish enthusiasm inside our homes and synagogues as well as out.

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Andromida Freeman,
May 11, 2002 12:00 AM

I also felt proud the first day I wore my scarf.

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William Trenker,
May 10, 2002 12:00 AM

Anti-Semitism is Anti-SHEMitism

The world has lost touch with the understanding that the word Semite, the root word of 'anti-semitism', comes from the word 'shem' and refers to The Blessed Name; Semites are the People of The Name. All who practice anti-semitism are really practicing anti-SHEMitism; they are against The Very Name -- a very dangerous place to be.
Shalom

Anonymous,
January 13, 2013 5:07 PM

That's great

Wow, that is good to know. Thanks.

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Anonymous,
May 10, 2002 12:00 AM

Great article.

I strongly resonate with the author's experience and analysis. He put clearly into words what I have been feeling for a very long. I found his thoughts profoundly on target and very helpful.
Thank you.

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Lewis Yisrael Camacho,
May 10, 2002 12:00 AM

Inspiring Words...

Thank you Rabbi for your inspiring article. I used to wear a kippah all the time however I had stopped wearing it because I was afraid of attracting too much attention and for fear of attack. I had been thinking about starting to wear a kippah all the time again however I still had reservations. Well,... your article inspired me to make the decision and start wearing a kippah all the time instead of during study and pray only. I'm still nervous about my decision,... but I know its the right one.

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Anonymous,
May 10, 2002 12:00 AM

THANK YOU FOR THIS WONDERFUL ARTICLE.EACH AND EVERY SINGLE JEW NEED TO BE AWAKE, AWARE WHY THE ANTI SEMITISM IS HERE. AS YOU WROTE SO WELL IT IS HERE TO REMIND US HTAT WE NEED TO STRENGTHEN OURSELVES AND BECOME CLOSER TO HASHEM.
THANK YOU AGAIN!

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Josh Goldberg,
May 9, 2002 12:00 AM

my first day wearing a yarmulke

was yesterday!! (Coincidentally during the Sefirah Omer I decided to return to being an observant Jew.) When I wear my white and blue kippah in public I feel like a stronger person. I may not be able to see it on my head but I can feel it there, like I can feel Hashem all around me, and I know that everyone around me will see it on my head and know as well that Hashem is close to me.

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Eduardo Aranda,
May 9, 2002 12:00 AM

SUPER BEAUTIFULLY STATED...

All of us Judios (Jews) from what ever country we have been disperst to, should read this article and take it to heart....very inspiring...and perfectly timed...especially in these days and time...

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Zachary Kessin,
May 9, 2002 12:00 AM

Wear it with pride

I have been wearing a Kippa for about a year. After 9/11 I went out and bought a new Kippa its is Knit and multi coloured. Most of the ones I had worn to that point were black and since my hair is almost black may not always be noticed. (Though I still wear them too) I love my knit kippa as it is more visable.
Worn with pride and love
Zach
Brandeis University and Lowell Ma

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Tova Fleischer,
May 9, 2002 12:00 AM

I'm a proud Jewish

I'm not religious,but I'm very proud to be Jewish. To be a proud Jew you dont have to be religious you only have to be proud of your people, in Israel and believe in God.

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Daniella,
May 8, 2002 12:00 AM

WHY ARE WE ALWAYS AFRAID?

WHY IS OUR RESPONSE ALWAYS FEAR! I CAN'T STAND IT. WHY DON'T WE HAVE ALL THE ATTRIBUTES THAT HAVE BEEN MENTIONED WITH ONE MORE: PHYSICAL STRENGTH AND PROWESS. BEING ABLE TO STAND UP AND FIGHT. I'M SO TIRED OF JEWS RUNNING SCARED. ARABS AND BLACKS DON'T RUN SCARED.

Anonymous,
January 13, 2013 4:44 PM

I agree

I am with you. Jew hatred is a disease, you can't reason with a disease, you must fight it, with violence if necessary. Never Forget.

Anonymous,
January 13, 2013 5:13 PM

Because we are few

Daniella;
I think the root of the issue about being physical is that we are few in number as compared to other groups of people. Also, we are not fighters, we deal with more intellectual capacity. Hashem created all groups to excel in something and fighting is not something we in general are good at.
I am a minority where I work, (I'm white, as well as Jewish). Yes, I had antisemitism. When I feel that it is done out of ignorance, I correct them, teach them. If I feel it is done out of spite, I just ignore them and they usually stop. I have been working there for five years now and I think (I may be wrong), I have won them over by my character traits as well as my nature to help others. They see what a Jewish person is really like, not what they imagined.

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Anonymous,
May 8, 2002 12:00 AM

I'm the only one in my city

B''H
I´m the only jew using Kippa in my city (Rancagua, CHILE).
It is hard sometimes, but it help me to remember the law.

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Luis Carlos Ochoa,
May 7, 2002 12:00 AM

Good morning.
I think so your article is very intresting and neccesary in this moments.
But, I need this article in spanish, because many people in my country have a bad idea from us.
Thanks and good bye.
Luis Carlos

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Anonymous,
May 7, 2002 12:00 AM

I wear a Kippa and like you I am proud to do so,& I was even even proud when I read your story.

I used to be very cautious about wearing kippots in the presence of non Jews,until I went to Israel and started wearing one all the time,I still wear one and it makes me very proud especially when I read your story.

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Anonymous,
May 7, 2002 12:00 AM

It isn't always easy

When i read this article this morning I felt that Rabbi Levine is a very brave and courageous person with a great ability to restrain himself. Little did i know that later this evening sitting in the university campus(Leeds UK) I would have the anti-semitic talk - "Who let the dogs out? Bush, Bush" with the known melody and "Down, down Israel" and a few other very anti-semetic words. I just smiled back, though I have to admit i was boiling inside, and now that`s finally night I`m going to count the omer and say a few extra tehillim for the Yehudim all over the world and Israel.It isn't easy to refrain yourself and not to say anything offening yourself, your people and your country but at the end it is prefered to stay quite so to cause less Hillul HaShem and not give anyone the satisfaction that what they say goes through you. It is definatelly not easy to refrain yourself.

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arleen cassetti,
May 6, 2002 12:00 AM

A wonderful article.

This piece is a wonderful article and I enjoyed the deeper message it sends. To be set apart requires much responsibility but also much joy. I am praying for the peace of jerusalem.

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Hadassah Hoffer,
May 6, 2002 12:00 AM

Fabulous

I am nervous, when my husband goes to work in downtown Toronto. Especially after he told me about an anti-semetic run in he had. I ask him to wear a hat when he travels to work on the subway , but he refuses. I think now I understand why. Thank you Rabbi Levine.

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Steven Bogach,
May 6, 2002 12:00 AM

My black kippa

As a Jew living in rural Kentucky I decided after all that is happening in the world,that a Jewish presence is needed no matter where we live. We must stand as a people for Torah and Judaism.
I wear my kippa at work and at play. At first I felt out of place with it on. Now I never leave home without it.
May we merit only good news.

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ruth bross,
May 6, 2002 12:00 AM

wonderful example of whats in a persons heart

it is interesting that just today at Hebrew class we were discussing this very thing and the reasons for wearing not only the yarmulka but also the fringes on the outside. we decided that it was inportant and helped us to walk with the understanding that we were to be an example , and strengthen our commentment to oneanother.

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Marshall Lopez,
May 6, 2002 12:00 AM

Wearing the kipa

Shalom,
Be brave and proud. I am in the process of conversion/returning to Judaism and me as many other feel the blessing of wearing the kipa as a "sign" that there are still Jews in the world that care to show HaShem love for humanity. It is true it has to be carried with love and kindness for others.
Baruj HaShem!

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Anonymous,
May 6, 2002 12:00 AM

this piece was truly inspiring. as a girl, i will feel more like a bas yisrael - a Jewish girl - while wearing clothes that are tznius, modest, -and not just wearing it out of rote. if i will feel "different" i will remind myself that i am different.

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laslo gross,
May 5, 2002 12:00 AM

excellent

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Anonymous,
May 5, 2002 12:00 AM

yarmulka

dear Chaim Levine,
I have read your experience about wearing your yarmulka.
I am a teacher in biology in the Netherlands. Some years ago I tought at the yewish school Maimonides in Amsterdam for about half a year.I believe in the truth of the bible, both the old and the new testament. I am very much aware of the fact that we as gentiles owe everything to the Jews. Our whole society is based on the laws of Moses. Before I started my teaching job at Maimonides I read again different books about the holocaust, to be in touch with the feeling of my colleges and the pupils(the school is actually what remained of the school Ann Frank was at)
At several occasions I also was wearing
my yarmulka.(in Holland we say:kippa) This
was at Yom Kippur, when the rabbi came to share. And also during the funeralceremony of one the pupils of the school, who died at the age of 16.
I felt honoured to be allowed to to put up my yarmulka. In my heart I felt very close to the jewish people.
We as believers from the gentiles in the Netherlands pray for the Peace of Jerusalem. May the Almighty give you His grace and protection.

greetings from Dick de Vries.

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Anonymous,
May 5, 2002 12:00 AM

from a Christian

Good article. I stand with you in your struggle against anti-semitism. I pray for the peace and safety of Jerusalem, and indeed, all Israel.

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mark,
May 5, 2002 12:00 AM

Beautiful little article

I feel for all those people living in ignorance,those surrounded by darkness.
Those who profess to hate Jews, really hate themselves and their shallow lives.

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Anonymous,
May 5, 2002 12:00 AM

You are a blessing

I hope one day every one in this world will realize that Jewish people has been, are a blessing to this world and will continue to be for ever. Thank you for inspiring me and giving me determination with your positive and admirable attitude.

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Anonymous,
May 5, 2002 12:00 AM

Strengthened against ignorance + anti-Semitism

I will be proud to wear my yarmulka outside the synagogue, with you.
Thanks for your article.

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Anonymous,
May 5, 2002 12:00 AM

very true

I had the same feelings when I started wearing kippah. Nowadays, not only it doesn't embarass me, quite the opposite, i feel that wearing it shows where i come from and who i really am.

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Jacob,
May 5, 2002 12:00 AM

Amazing. The pride felt by simply putting on a Kippa is amazing. I'm a 21 year old college student in Mississippi. When I decided to wear my kippah every day, your right, it was uncomfortable at first. But its such a blessing. Everything you said is so true. For me, if anything else, its a reminder that I'm a Jew before I'm anything else.

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Anonymous,
May 5, 2002 12:00 AM

I couldn't have said it any better myself!

Rabbi Levine -- what a great article!

I have to admit that at times while living in America wearing a yarmulka may not come so easy. But for some reason while among other Jews, as in Israel -- it comes easy. We all have to get our proiorities straight! Anti-semitism is everywhere, so let's just be ourselves....everywhere!

But another important concern addressed in the article was going to the Holy Land in times of need. When we hear of great tragedies in the area we must not hide our heads in the sand. Let us all get up and get a ticket (maybe even for one-way)! Going to Israel only when things are calm is an unfortunate thing many of us Jews do. Hence, specifically when times are tough....we must go!

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Joanne Millstone,
May 5, 2002 12:00 AM

Me, Too

I don't wear a yarmulke, but I do wear a Mogen David. That started after a "friend" of mine, who didn't know I was Jewish, made some stupid remark about how ALL Jews were greedy. I was stunned for a moment, then sweetly told her that I was "one of those" before I hung up on her forever. Then I realized that I needed to show the world that I was Jewish and glad I was Jewish. Thus my Star, worn next to my heart, that I will not remove except for surgery, and reluctantly at that.

I've been striving to get more into spirituality. But it seems that every time I make some progress, I find myself slipping right back to where I started. I'm getting discouraged and feel like a failure. Can you help?

The Aish Rabbi Replies:

Spiritual slumps are a natural part of spiritual growth. There is a cycle that people go through when at times they feel closer to God and at times more distant. In the words of the Kabbalists, it is "two steps forward and one step back." So although you feel you are slipping, know that this is a natural process. The main thing is to look at your overall progress (over months or years) and be able to see how far you've come!

This is actually God's ingenious way of motivating us further. The sages compare this to teaching a baby how to walk. When the parent is holding on, the baby shrieks with delight and is under the illusion that he knows how to walk. Yet suddenly, when the parent lets go, the child panics, wobbles and may even fall.

At such times when we feel spiritually "down," that is often because God is letting go, giving us the great gift of independence. In some ways, these are the times when we can actually grow the most. For if we can move ourselves just a little bit forward, we truly acquire a level of sanctity that is ours forever.

Here is a practical tool to help pull you out of the doldrums. The Sefer HaChinuch speaks about a great principle in spiritual growth: "The external awakens the internal." This means that although we may not experience immediate feelings of closeness to God, eventually, by continuing to conduct ourselves in such a manner, this physical behavior will have an impact on our spiritual selves and will help us succeed. (A similar idea is discussed by psychologists who say: "Smile and you will feel happy.")

That is the power of Torah commandments. Even if we may not feel like giving charity or praying at this particular moment, by having a "mitzvah" obligation to do so, we are in a framework to become inspired. At that point we can infuse that act of charity or prayer with all the meaning and lift it can provide. But if we'd wait until being inspired, we might be waiting a very long time.

May the Almighty bless you with the clarity to see your progress, and may you do so with joy.

In 1940, a boatload 1,600 Jewish immigrants fleeing Hitler's ovens was denied entry into the port of Haifa; the British deported them to the island of Mauritius. At the time, the British had acceded to Arab demands and restricted Jewish immigration into Palestine. The urgent plight of European Jewry generated an "illegal" immigration movement, but the British were vigilant in denying entry. Some ships, such as the Struma, sunk and their hundreds of passengers killed.

If you seize too much, you are left with nothing. If you take less, you may retain it (Rosh Hashanah 4b).

Sometimes our appetites are insatiable; more accurately, we act as though they were insatiable. The Midrash states that a person may never be satisfied. "If he has one hundred, he wants two hundred. If he gets two hundred, he wants four hundred" (Koheles Rabbah 1:34). How often have we seen people whose insatiable desire for material wealth resulted in their losing everything, much like the gambler whose constant urge to win results in total loss.

People's bodies are finite, and their actual needs are limited. The endless pursuit for more wealth than they can use is nothing more than an elusive belief that they can live forever (Psalms 49:10).

The one part of us which is indeed infinite is our neshamah (soul), which, being of Divine origin, can crave and achieve infinity and eternity, and such craving is characteristic of spiritual growth.

How strange that we tend to give the body much more than it can possibly handle, and the neshamah so much less than it needs!