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Re: i just broke up with my boyfriend

you should probably take the time to work on yourself before trying to persue somebody else. just a thought. you sound like you have issues with yourself that you think will go away if you get a boyfriend.

one thing about the closet/you don't have to hurry/it will be bad tomorrow/so brother, don't you worry

Re: i just broke up with my boyfriend

Sorry to hear the relationship didn't work out. Breaking up is never pleasant, no matter how brief the relationship. You'll both get over it in time. For now, I think Fuji's on to something. You should probably take a breather from dating and such and work on figuring yourself out and what you really want and need in a relationship.

Re: i just broke up with my boyfriend

Originally Posted by borg69unimatrix

You didn't break up because you were missing your Ex that treated you like crap, did you !?!?!?

no dont worry! i deleted my ex off of facebook because of course he pulled the "but i still wanna be friends" -- i tried contacting him once or twice and he never replied so basically, fuck him, thats what i think.

my recent ex was very kind and considerate but i felt kinda closed in and rushed :/

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Originally Posted by refujiunderground

you should probably take the time to work on yourself before trying to persue somebody else. just a thought. you sound like you have issues with yourself that you think will go away if you get a boyfriend.

you know i have given this thought. i dont think i have a problem where i think getting a boyfriend will help. i think i just need to figure out what i want.

Re: i just broke up with my boyfriend

now go slap yourself with reality and if you're really looking for a relationship then get your ass out there and find one.

I know! exactly my point! but he wanted to label it as such like right off the bat and initially, i agreed. but then i just felt almost claustrophobic in the situation because after just meetin each other, he wanted me all to himself.

Re: i just broke up with my boyfriend

^ exactly. i view it as a learning experience. basically, from this, i think ive learned more about what i want currently, what im looking for with a guy. i am most definitely not one to take things fast... i want everything nice and slow. why label everything so damn quickly??

Re: i just broke up with my boyfriend

Better that you did it now, than later. Would have been a lot worse for both of you if you let it drag out and pretend things were OK.

As has already been said, but just to reiterate - Next time, don't rush into it. Take the time to feel things out and make sure it's what both of you want.

Honestly can say, a couple of weeks is not going to be enough time to make such a decision to commit. Learned that the hard way myself.

But it's good that you still have an open line of communication and that you're willing to be friends. THAT is very important and will help you both get through the difficulties of calling it quits so suddenly.

Re: i just broke up with my boyfriend

yea i totally get it. i thought we were rushing from the beginning really but since im still fairly new to all of this (dating and stuff) i just thought id go along with it and see what happens. well, i found out i wasnt comfortable haha