Say hello to my crazy pants! My boyfriend hates pants like these – which naturally makes me even more keen on wearing them, to make sure he knows he can’t tell me what to wear! He can’t help it, though – he’s from a small town and I’m not sure he’d admit it, but I’m fairly certain he thinks all girls look best in blue jeans and a t-shirt. No shame in that, as long as he’s fine with me wearing whatever I want. (And he is. He just hates the pants. And I’m fine with that.)

Ooops, that sounded a little bit mean, I know. And it’s not like I don’t care what he thinks about my outfits – I do want him to think I look nice – it’s just that I’m so done with trying to change for someone else. I spent most of my teenage years (and then some) trying to dress the way I thought the guys I liked would prefer, and, well, that never worked out.

I bet some of you are not too surprised if I tell you I’ve written a column about this very subject, haha! What can I say – I’ve written close to two hundred columns during the last three years, which means I’ve crossed quite a few topics off my list by now.

If you care to read my freely translated version of that column, please click here!

Lol! my boyfriend does the same thing! he hates it when I wore these sort of pants and maxi skirt! he absolutely hates long skirt!! I understand that you are not trying to be mean, you just gotta wear what you want to right! Awesome writing Annika! <3