How many dates did you go on before becoming official, exclusive? I'm sure it varies for everyone, for those who currently have a bf/gf?

And for those who have had their share of past relationships, how many dates did you go on before the relationship became official, before becoming boyfriend/girlfriend? And how does it typically happen? Does it happen when you kiss each-other for the first time or does it happen when someone (I'm sure it's usually the guy) says "do you want to be my boyfriend/girlfriend?"

During the 2 months we where just dating, as in going out for lunch or dinner or breakfast or cinema to get to know each other, we DID kiss in the mean time but we didn't go any further, then after 2 months we made it official, he asked me if i want to be his girlfriend and YEAH, now after 3 years we are still rocking each other ;)

Oh thanks for MHO and sorry that I didn't really see you asked me another question, well basically we kinda knew each other but we never talked, until one day he just approached me in a bar I was sitting alone :) and it started all from there :)

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We were exclusive since our first date really. Knew her some time before. After 5/6 dates we were together "offically" but that was mostly due parental permission (different culture) I asked her on the 5th, she declined due I should've asked her dad first. Been there done that, still going :)

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My current boyfriend asked me to be exclusive after a couple weeks and after a couple months I asked him to be my boyfriend. We made out on the first date and slept together on the second. It's been over 3 years now and still going strong!

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So after a couple of weeks, he asked you first but you declined first, then you returned the favor by asking him?

No, he asked to be exclusive so we dated only each other and stopped seeing anyone else. He was the only one I was sleeping with but I was still going on dates and talking to other people before that. So a couple months of dating exclusively but not bf/gf. I tend to reserve that only for serious relationships. I've dated people for months before and would never consider calling them my boyfriend. I know some people think that's odd but it's the way I work. I know people who consider any person they are dating exclusively their bf/gf but I'm simply not comfortable with that.