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Focus on the Family
A site where family morals and values are discussed and observed in a Christain perspective

Pure Desire Ministries International
If you or someone you know is struggling with a sexual behavior issues, there is a way out! Pure Desire Ministries International, led by Dr.Ted Roberts, has very practical answers that deal not only with the personal shame of the struggle, but the family

Wive's Redeemed Hearts
Wives Redeemed Hearts aim is to encourage every woman whose husband has struggled with sexual integrity. It is to let you know that you are not alone.

New Life Ministries / Radio
To transform lives through God’s truth by reaching out compassionately to those who seek healing and restoration.

Recent Posts: Men of Redemption

THE LORD ALWAYS WILL HAVE OUR BACK Today’s Reading: Nehemiah 4:1-14 . . . . “But it so happened, when Sanballat heard that we were rebuilding the wall, that he was furious and very indignant, and mocked the Jews. And he spoke before his brethren and the army of Samaria, and said, “What are these […]

CHOOSE YE THIS DAY WHOM YOU WILL SERVE! Today’s Reading: Joshua 24:1-18 . . . “Then Joshua gathered all the tribes of Israel to Shechem and called for the elders of Israel, for their heads, for their judges, and for their officers; and they presented themselves before God. And Joshua said to all the people, […]

WORKING ON TAKING CARE OF YOURSELF SPIRITUALLY, PHYSICALLY, MENTALLY AND RELATIONALLY WILL HELP REGAIN TRUST You have the process written down. It’s embedded onto your heart, downloaded in your mind and you’re walking it out daily as the Lord God blesses you with life and ability. That process I’m talking about is your recovery. You […]

A Writer’s Thoughts On . . . .

My Thoughts on . . . . Character.

Who are you? What makes you the person whom you portray yourself as? Just a couple of questions I ask those I come into contact with as I extend myself to get to know you. I’m interested in your likes, your dislikes; what makes you happy and what doesn’t; just some very important concerns that I have in developing relationship on a friendship level. This helps me understand who you are and what kind of foundation you’re standing on. I’ve learned that character is developed slowly and with careful intentions centered around who you truly are.

Those of us who have struggled or are struggling with integrity issues may have a hard time trying to present themselves in a positive light to others because of the issues. I mean, we all have issues, integrity or others, but once those issues affect our character, our integrity is always under scrutiny. It becomes difficult to live a life of genuineness and sincerity because of the doubts that others may have about us. I’m not trying to justify our lack of self-control, I’m just attempting to get us to really take a look at ourselves and see what we’re doing and why we act the way we do. Our flaws doesn’t make us a bad person, or confirm our identity, it shows we’re human and we will fail at times but we don’t want to rest there and settle for that identity.

Character to me, is a continuous process of building and developing ethical qualities that are instilled through the pouring into of courage, godly perspectives and outlooks, having a sense of overcoming the obstacles of life with purpose. All of these have a lot to do with character and it’s make-up. It’s a slow process so it’s going to take some effort because of all that’s involved. So instead of trying to be someone we are not, we ought to take the time needed to develop, and understand our purpose and who we are. Once we understand who we are, the character developed in that understanding will attach itself to our person and we will become who we are. I’m not a psychologist or psychiatrist, but I believe that once our identity is discovered, our character is sure to follow. In recovery, just being transparent, honest, are the friends of recovery because of their transition to the process. Many struggle with this often, but we should attempt to change or modify our character or personality to gain acceptance or approval of those who are in our sphere of influence.

Just some thoughts from a brother who serves the Lord God Jesus Christ that prays for all people to know who they are in Christ, accept who they are in Him and live in that identity with power, victory and authority. Just saying . . . .