I used to think I didn’t have personality, that everyone was way more interesting than me. It was just HIDEN! hehe We don´t get enough support when we are small, we are weird, when expressing ourselves freely! We believe we are different from others and even less that them sometimes!So I got to the point where I didn’t know what I liked, what I didn’t like and what I had to offer. I was so “easy going” (lets say...) and a non opinion person, I didn’t have consistent personal opinions or ideas about a thing to share!

Until I sat down with myself and I could find GREAT things!!!!!!! and many others that I truly wanted to IMPROVE!I started to then focus on the things I liked the less about my personality as my shyness and creativity as I believed I wasn’t creative at all! So I wasn’t! I researched and these could be improved! And I completely transformed myself by being very pro-active. And I completely transformed myself! Could you tell I am shy now? This is soo truth story!I dont think that I am not shy anymore, as I am still shy, but I would explain now my shyness as FEARS to overcome. Nothing else! So I know that whatever you believe you are not good at but you would like to improve, YOU CAN! 100% PROVED!(Let me apologizes for the expression before, I just get very excited!! Of course I can not know what you can do or what you can not do but I truly believe so!)

If something goes “wrong” : Someone doesn´t do what we are expecting. MAKE THAT TIME WORTH IT! Find something else to do which makes that time valuable and you don´t waste it or have to worry about it anymore. As instead of thinking, oh this didnt happen as I wanted, oh he/ she didnt do it as I wanted, etc, you can say, well at least I have done this and that and if that “bad” thing would have never happened, I could not have finished, or done this or that. Is that clear? Does it make sense? THANK YOU. Be busy, have interests and if you don´t find them come to my workshops! ;) I used not to like the opportunity cost as I always had to resign to something to do something else, this is not happening anymore as I worry the most about making every single minute worth it even when things go as unexpected!

Forget about the world when I ask you this PLEASE. I used to think/ believe that to make a lot of money you needed to be very smart, clever. So what did I do to STOP BELIEVING that? Which was perhaps stopping me to go for it? I looked/ researched as crazy for not very “smart” people, “ass0ls” who were making lots of money and I found them!! So I could then do that too! :) I also heard only “bad” people could make money as they had to hire cheap stuff and so on... but it didn´d make sense for me at all! So I was in research of “good”, “beautiful” rich people and I found them! So instead of accepting things how people tell you they are, what about finding your own TRUTH and use the world to support it!I know this sounds such an amazing solution to all your “problems”. ;) I thought my English speaking level wasn’t “good” enough as to work in an Economics role (as it is my background) in the UK, but at the same time it didn´t make that much sense as most of people could actually understand me! So I found terrible English speakers working in really “good” roles! Sometimes is great to look at people who WE THINK they are in a better position that we are so that we can check what qualities&skills are required, but if this stop you to go for it, as it seems so difficult and high, why not finding people who are in the same roles but their qualities&skills are lower than the previous persons? So that your confidence can improve a bit? I am not saying that this may have happened to you, but we all have believes that don’t really make sense for us, and instead of being passive and accepting them why not supporting ourselves with the reality*? Before saying: That its true!

GO FOR IT, FIND YOUR INNER TRUTH!! *REALITY; I mean experiences, things that you have touch, live.(“”) All the comas added to these words are to highlight that they are just LABELS, as all the words we use, so when I use, good, bad, better, etc. it will depend of the person who is reading it, and I don’t mean this is the right, bad, etc. So you take it and interpret it in your way.