An affair leaves a trail of pain, hurt and guilt in its wake. There’s no escaping that.

Infidelity is the ultimate betrayal. Whether you stay together or not, an affair marks an ‘ending’ to the relationship. All of a sudden, the spell of the romantic phase is well and truly broken.

That’s because betrayal threatens your emotional safety. As a result, it shakes any sense of a secure attachment. The anger and hurt emotionally split you apart.

Inevitably, things won’t be the same again. How you relate to each other, communicate, how you trust each other and how intimate you are all change. Read more

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Tragically, the subject of loss has been very present in the collective consciousness this week. When we think of loss we usually do think of death and the loss of a loved one. It can have an overwhelming and painful effect on our lives. But, loss is an inevitable and recurring part of life and it happens in so many different ways. Loss is not just about death. Read more

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