Richard Bach

You are led through your lifetime by the inner learning creature, the playful spiritual being that is your real self.Don't turn away from possible futures before you're certain you don't have anything to learn from them.

And [the Messiah] said unto them, "If a man told God that he wanted most of all to help the suffering world, no matter the price to himself, and God answered and told him what he must do, should the man do as he is told?"

That's what learning is, after all; not whether we lose the game, but how we lose and how we've changed because of it and what we take away from it that we never had before, to apply to other games. Losing, in a curious way, is winning.