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@softcheeck ur man has some sexual dysfunction issues. He needs help & u shouldn't subject urself to sleeping with another man when u can be in another relationship where u can have ur sexual needs met.

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Dear LSS7, what did you do in the end? I am in the same boat. My guy thinks he has not got to make an effort at all. He suggests I go to bed with other women so he is off the hook. I truly love him but due to my ongoing sexual and emotional frustration and because he leaves me no options in bed other than to ********** before and throughout and after (he will go away as soon as he has come and refuse to stimulate me by saying he is not interested). Then i am on my own and ************. ************ always gets me there and he is not even intersted in watching it or using toys on me etc. He wont touch my breasts as he is not into boobs in general, they dont please him. Make no mistake: he has a high sex drive and will demand oral from me several times a day as well as intercourse. His ideal is that I go down on him for 15 mins and tease him, then he penetrates me, comes inside me, then he will leave me alone so I can **********. Any ideas from side, any careful attempts to seduce him into pleasuring me are refused. Then, when I get upset, he says climaxing is not important to him so why should it be to me? He comes into me about 10-12 times a week. In over a year he has NEVER tried to even participate in getting me to climax. This undermines me sexually and emotionally to such an extent that I fear I might have to end it with him. His countless attempts to get me into bed with other women make me feel less than precious to him. The satisfaction I crave from him, not from other people. I can have an ****** any time I like on my own. He cannot udnerstand how I feel and wont acknowledge there is a problem. I have understood that I cannot solve this problem alone. Unless I leave him. I have now lined up a new male lover for sex only.

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Let him know you are dissatisfied. Teach him about what does it for you. Make him work on the quick release problem. Then tell him that if he doesn't fix it, you're going to bring in a hung expert and make him watch what it takes to satisfy you...: )

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Teach him if it's a learned skill. Kick him to the curb if he can't or isn't willing to make it happen with oral or whatever you need. If he's too small try something bigger. If he's too big try something smaller.