Homosexuality

Not a Homophobe at all , in fact I have 3 Homosexual friends. All I want to know though is if you choose to be Homosexual why is it you feel the need to have a “male” and a “female” in the relationship. The reason you choose to be gay is because you want to be with the same gender as you are so why then act like a girl if you aren’t attracted to girls , why not both act like men or both act like woman because that’s the reason you chose your sexuality in the first place. Because you like your own gender . Not hating at all , just curious 🙂