I like Avery as well and think we are going to end up using it because it seems to be the best fit with our family. I'm a little upset though because I initially thought this was a feminine name and I am slightly disappointed now that I realize it is a traditionally masculine name.

thanks for your suggestions seazun and southernbeauty. Athena, Michaela, Claire and Gemma were all on my list but were vetoed by DH. Most of the rest of the names already belong to family members or friends or are names we have crossed out already.