Speaking to TshisaLIVE last year, Thuli Thabethe made it clear that they had made peace with Tbo Touch, whose real name is Thabo Molefe. They had made a “conscious” decision to put everything else aside for Ruri’s sake.

“We are eight years into this arrangement, we didn’t always know how to work it out. But as soon as we realised that it is not about us, rather its all about the child we raising, we got over the bullsh*t and made it work,” she said in an interview.