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Yep all the time. I hang out withyself the most. I lost the friends I had grown up with, though I saw them tonight at one of their stags, was invited a few weeks ago. They seem the same, but have these lives that seem to go forward and are doing well, me on the other hand am not. But anyways.

When I stopped talking to them, I was kind of fed up with the way they were, they weren't callinge, and I wanted them to change, but they wouldn't. So I left. Took em off social media whih was basically Facebook at he time. And I tried to forget about them, slowely and surely I started to. But I was friendless, and I wasn't reallyaking friends at work, they were just nice people in the work zone.

So then one day I saw a concert coming up that I wanted to go to. I didn't have anyone to go with, but I knew the venue, it was an outdoor venue, with seats close to the stage, then an separate grass area. it's pretty nice wherever you sit, but I picked the grass and bought a single ticket. I was really nervous to so it by myself, so I started to try movies by myself, then bars, and eventually the concert came along and it was amazing. I knewany of the songs, and then it started thunderstorm, but didn't last long

I understand the concerns/reservations that girls might have about going out alone. Even more so as the night comes. Going to bars might not be fun and you might get hit on by dirty bastards. Usually if I go to a bar, I bring my cell phone and just sit there, aybe watch the sports game if it's on, though I barely pay attentio, in or out of the bar.

I have conversed with some bartenders, but I've always been shy so I don't know what to talk about. Girls do t talk to me there, but girls don't talk to me anywhere. It's still good though, I have a beer or two, eat food, pay and go. The only thing I need is to win a decent lottary since the world won't give me work in my feild

Almost always. I found I generally did better with women on my own than with a wing-man or being in a group. Actually I never managed to pick up a girl from a club except when I was on my own. Hanging out with groups of guys also pisses me off since I might be chatting up a girl but then they want to bounce to the next bar or club.

That said, my clubbing days were in Tokyo so probably clubs few would recognize: Atom, Pure, Rock West, 911 Black, Jumanji, Quest, ageHa.

@redeyemindtricks I actually didn't run into U. S. military in Jumanji so much at the time I was going -- this was early 2000s. Might be a different crowd now. I did run into those a whole lot in Pure though (though they were kind of popular there).

@redeyemindtricks Actually I think almost all of those were flocking to Pure in Shibuya at that time. The main appeal for Pure to me even though it had the big and aggressive American military guys was that I met the staff at a bar and befriended them, they started letting me in with a discount every time and letting me hang out in the VIP lounge upstairs. Plus it had the whole all-you-can-drink thing.

@redeyemindtricks Pure I think was not around, since I came there on opening day. It was an all-you-can-drink (nomihoudai), normal entry fee was 3000 yen for guys and 1500 for girls. They played hip-hop and reggae and you could truly drink as many drinks as you wanted -- and not just normal nomihoudai drinks like beer and shochu and whisky, but you could order Jack & Coke, Jagermeister shots, tequila shots, etc. -- all free. I don't know how they made any profit.

@redeyemindtricks Yeah, I don't know why they charge so much for soft drinks! Sometimes there were nights where I wanted to cut down on the alcohol, but I'd see that tomato juice costs almost as much as a Bloody Mary, e. g., and end up getting alcohol.

Very rarely, but i do go out to a bar or club sometimes for a drink and some conversation. Only when the girlfriend is out of town though - I get so bored sitting at home in silence that i'd rather go and be bored with a drink and maybe meet new people.

Between friends, family and video games, its indeed very rare i find myself in that situation. I usually offer to babysit my nieces and nephews and let my sisters go out instead.

When I was young I went out alone, in pursuit of females. After six visits to bars and nightclubs I realised that I was wasting my time and money.It also ripped my guts out when I saw couples happy together. It forced me to confront an awareness of how alone I was and how I had been a spectacular failure with women.These days I stay at home and enjoy my animal friends.

No ha. I run errands by myself all the time but I'd never get dressed up and just hit up a club where I know nobody. I have worked security at a lot of local clubs and bars around here so I could get away with it because I know all the staff and the regulars there. If I didn't know those people I would never do that though. I'd just hit a up bro to go with me.

Nights like tonight. Girl is with her friends and sleeping. I'm outside starting a fire with just my dog. Some friends might stop buy but this is heaven to me. Me the woods and fire cracking and blazing. Thats going out alone for. me lol

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Arghhh 😳🙄 that is not my type of going out.. Lately It's been getting dressed up in motorbike gear and riding up Arthur's Seat, where there is beautiful scenic views of the beach and houses. There is a tower I'd go to but I have to jump over a fence and climb that, which I can't be bothered going to that extreme to "enjoy a night out by myself lol"