Forum posts made by master117

Your scars wouldn't matter to me in any way. In fact.. show your scars to any bj/gf early on. If they are negatively affected by them, you'll know early on how shallow and superficial they are and can move on.. if you so choose.

I agree, one of my girlfriends had scars on her arms because she used to cut herself (I know, not a great start XD) but I loved her even more for it and they actually motivated me to love her even more and to make sure she never felt the need to do anything like that again. My advice is if someone doesn't accept all of you for who you are, you're probably better off without them. If they can't take the (in your opinion) bad with the good, then they shouldn't have any of you.

I'm pretty sure that the only thing I really know is that I will never fully understand women, and I think anyone who believes they totally understand how women work has to be kidding themselves. Can women understand men? I don't know, but I guess any chance is better that nothing

I think people spend too much time worrying about what constitutes "cheating". Whatever your exact definition may be, just ask yourself "Would my significant other not want me to be doing this?" If the answer is yes, then it can be defined as cheating (if such a definition is even required). In general, most women will be opposed to having you show romantic affection to another woman, and the more affection/contact the worse it is. Think of it as a spectrum rather than a distinct cut-off point.

This is a great answer and exactly the way I feel. It all depends on what you know will piss off your partner. Some women would consider sending another woman un-flirty text messages that are meant to get that other woman's attention somehow as cheating. Everyone has different standards on this and it's up to the couple to figure that out.

Agreed. There's not much more I can add to this, but I'd never want my significant other to be kissing anyone else, so this would fall in the 'definitely cheating' category for me.

I've always wanted to try it, but also been worried that I'm gonna mess up somehow. I don't think I can *not* try it, though, it's just too appealing to me. I guess lots of practice and maybe a little demonstration might help... ;-)

Its actually quite amazing how much one can get right when you are that horny. I think mine varies from typing to stroking to typing to typing with one hand nearing the end to not saying much at orgasm time. I do however know that its a massive turn on to know the girl is enjoying herself on the other side just as much.

Pot, that's the best answer yet. Well said. But when the time comes for me to have mine, the other person can tell ... there's a bit of a lull in my typing while I take things into my own hands.

Agreed, it's not all about the physical motion, sometimes reading is a great turn-on as well. The motion doesn't have to be constant, either, that's where reading comes into play (if you'll pardon the pun). For me, I've developed my one-handed typing skills over the years, and I'm now equally good with both hands ;-)

Lingerie is definitely a turn-on, but it's not necessary by any means. Girls can definitely be sexy in just plain everyday clothes, and truth be told, it probably takes a bit more effort to be sexy in street clothes, but the fact that she puts in the effort for you gets me going any day of the week.

Honestly, I don't really think it matters how long a girl waits, it's really her choice above all else and if she wants to wait, then let her wait. I dated a girl for about a year and a half before we finally had sex, and that was fine with me.