so me and my gf was having sex...

yesterday and in the middle of it her vagina started getting dry. It's happened a couple of times previously but not anything consistent. I started it off with a little foreplay to get her going. we had intercourse for about 15 minutes when her vagina started going dry. Then we lied there for a bit and her vaginal lips (labias?) were swollen and reddish.

She recently finished her period and i was wondering if that could be a culprit. Although i'm starting to think she's having an allergic reaction to the condom i was using...cuz i can't recall it happening with my usual trojans.

anyhoo, was wondering if anyone has encountered this "problem" before.

She's not turned on enough Sorry to possibly hurt your ego, but either stop at those moments (with the sex) and give her more foreplay or buy lube.

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If i want it and he is good at it i can go for 2 hrs without getting dry. I f i am bored of it or not in the mood can get dry as fast as 15 min after start. I don't know about how red and swwallen she was but it is consistent with the friction wile being dry .

If i want it and he is good at it i can go for 2 hrs without getting dry. I f i am bored of it or not in the mood can get dry as fast as 15 min after start. I don't know about how red and swwallen she was but it is consistent with the friction wile being dry .

15min of penetration is a good ammount. At the first hint of her going dry stop and apply lube or stop and do some more foreplay. If foreplay doesnt work and she feels turned on (communication, hommie) then it may be something else.

What positions do you normally use? Missionary dries up pretty quick from my experience, if you stick to missionary you may want to mix it up a bit.

My current girlfriend sometimes gets dry after about 10-15minutes... and last time she got extremely swollen, but oddly enough did not feel dry at all. Hard to say, I've been with women who were extremely turned on the entire time, my girlfriend has often been very wet, people are different and each time you have sex is different..

Def good idea to slow it down sometimes and communicate/foreplay, mix it up; keep it interesting... Jack hammering can get boring for both.

no worries about the ego, i have none when it comes to sex haha. i'm still trying to learn

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That's the aditude to take.

I had the same girl for 2 years with regular sex. I've had sex with less people than many of my peers, but I've had much more sex total than many of my peers. I can tell you that the first girl I had sex with and the first few months of having sex with the 2yr girl were a little akward and were 100% a learning experience. In fact, if it werent for my 1st being a bit more experienced than me and doing all the work she probably wouldnt have gotten anything out of it. lol

Even now I learn a new trick or two occasionally. But, once you learn it's like riding a bike. When you get a new bike it'll take you a couple runs to get a feel for it and then you are off doing all of your old tricks and maybe picking up a few more.