with Carol Look

Energetic Invitations

October 4, 2010

What if we viewed every conflict that came into our livesas an “energetic invitation” to clear our own energy?I wonder how much abundance would flow in…

This newsletter is an energetic invitation to clear blocks and conflicts that show up through other people and situations that come into our lives. Instead of being bothered by, frustrated with, or blaming others for what has happened, what if we used these instances as opportunities or invitations to clear something that has been blocking us?

These opportunities may include conflicts with family members or co-workers, traffic jams, long lines, and anything that typically ruffles our feathers during the day – anything and everything that shows up for us could be treated as an opportunity for clearing… if we chose to approach our lives this way.

Looking at any situation as an energetic invitation clears negative energy immediately since it changes our focus and “come from” to a positive opportunity rather than a negative problem.

This doesn’t feel very inviting to you? That’s my point, these problematic situations don’t feel inviting either, and yet we react in the same ways we always have, and nothing ever changes! I believe we can change our perspective and truly improve our energy by how we approach life’s little annoyances.

It takes some effort to change our perspective and be open to release “our part” in the energetic interaction or equation with everyone and everything around us. Think about why you might not want to look at bothersome situations as invitations or tappable issues with EFT.

(1) What’s the “downside” to viewing conflicts as invitations?

(2) What’s the “upside” to remaining in a stance of blame against others?

(3) Are you more comfortable in the energy of “it’s their fault” rather than looking for opportunities to clear your own energy?

(4) How does it serve you to ignore these opportunities?

These are all powerful questions that I recommend you answer as best you are able… once you know the upside of making others wrong, or being frustrated by the little annoyances of life, you can tap on the blocks and change your energy to enjoy more peace and quiet in your life.

Imagine that you could actually feel grateful for these opportunities that have showed up in your life rather than resentfultowards others and life in general.

Why not choose to enjoythese energetic invitations today?

When we approach these situations as invitations, then it is only a matter of time before the abundance starts flowing into our lives. Let’s get energetically ready for all the available opportunities and invitations in our lives so that we can enjoy an incredible day full of gratitude and abundance!

You may want to review some recent newsletters, Fall in Love TodayandExpect an Exceptional Day. Combine their messages with this week’s topic, Energetic Invitations, and make a profound shift in each day you get to experience in this lifetime.

Every possible reason you might have to avoiding viewing situations as opportunities or invitations is a “tappable issue” with EFT. So what may be your block to taking this stance?

Here’s what I know… People whoview negative situations as opportunitiesattract more success and abundance!

So it’s time for the yes, but section of my newsletter to help identify what we need to clear out of our energy systems with EFT. Here are some typical yes, buts that surface when I ask workshop participants to accept energetic invitations:

(1) Yes, but… These problems aren’t my fault, why do I have to clear any energy?

You may not view them as your fault, however, they have shown up in your life. Wouldn’t you like to feel and actually be more empowered by using them to your advantage? “Even though it’s not my fault, so I don’t want to work on them…”

(2) Yes, but… the last thing these conflicts feel like are “opportunities” – they just feel like daily hassles to me.

That’s my point – take these daily hassles and turn them into opportunities to improve your vibration. “Even though I’m upset by what just happened at work…”

(3) Yes, but… I don’t feel safe when I’m not reacting or defending myself against these problems/situations. I don’t feel like being open to these “invitations.”

Why not? This sounds like an old habit to me – why don’t you feel safe when you’re not reacting? Why don’t you feel safe being open to these invitations? “Even though I don’t feel safe being open to these new invitations…”

(4) Yes, but… I don’t have the time to turn these situations around. I have other issues to tap on in my life…

It takes so little time to turn these situations around, and I know the process will raise your vibration and make you feel empowered by tapping to clear your energy. “Even though I don’t have the time to accept these invitations…”

The good news is that you can treat whichever yes, buts you have with basic EFT tapping! Are you holding yourself back in your life because of any of these yes, buts or layers of resistance? If so, the yes, buts can all be formed into tappable issues with EFT/Meridian Tapping.

In my newsletters, I like to include the benefits I have found to what I am proposing to my readers. Below are my favorite benefits of accepting energetic invitations…

(1)Seeing conflicts as energetic invitations will instantly raise your vibration and allow you to feel calmer during each and every day. Yes, the point is to raise your vibration… just taking the stance that you will start viewing daily conflicts as opportunities for change will raise your vibration.

(2) Viewing these conflicts as opportunities to improve your vibration will allow you to be more open to new resolutions to the situations. Remember, the Law of Attraction “hears” your vibration, not your words, so imagine what it will “hear” when you turn the situation around and instead of reacting negatively, you view these scenarios as possible advantages.

(3) Approaching everything that crosses your path as an invitation to clear energy will influence others to be more open to you – they will “feel” your openness and calm down their own tendency to overeact. This is a huge benefit to approaching daily conflicts as energetic invitations!

(4)Being open to these daily opportunities will communicate to the Universe that you are open to new channels through which abundance can flow. When we are open to a variety of channels through which we receive abundance, the Universe presents us with these new channels!

As Law of Attraction teachers say — it’s all energy. So change your energy by being inspired to accept these daily energetic invitations. It will automatically invite the Universe to help you create more abundance right now.

Remember, the Law of Attraction sends you situations that have the same energy of the vibration you are putting out… so when you are feeling open to invitations, empowered by a new approach to your daily life, and encouraged by an influx of new opportunities, the Universe will bring you more avenues for abundance.

Below you will find EFT/ Meridian Tapping setup phrases to help you be inspired to accept these energetic invitations.

While tapping the karate chop spot on either hand, repeat these phrases out loud, (or change the words to fit your exact situation).

“Even though I’ve never seen conflicts as opportunities, I accept that I might be able to change my outlook.”

“Even though a part of me feels too tired to do anything about these situations except react to them, I accept how I feel.”

“Even though it doesn’t feel safe to accept these conflicts as invitations, I accept all of me and my feelings now.”

I have indicated where to tap while saying each of the phrases below. You may repeat the positive round more than once if you wish. (Those of you who are new to EFT may view a chart of the spots on my web site under the EFT pages.)

***Now for the phrases that focus on the problem***

Eyebrow: “I don’t want to accept these invitations.”Side of Eye: “I don’t see them as opportunities.”Under Eye: “I don’t feel safe being open to them as opportunities.”Nose: “I feel anxious when I think of changing my energy.”Chin: “I don’t know how to be open to these invitations.”Collarbone: “I’d rather blame others than shift my energy.”Under Arm: “These conflicts don’t feel very inviting…” Head: “I don’t feel like tapping on these invitations.”

***Now for the positive focus on the solution***

Eyebrow: “What if I used these conflicts as opportunities to change?”Side of Eye: “I wonder how my vibration would improve…”Under Eye: “I’m willing to consider these invitations to change.”Nose: “I intend to be open to release blocked energy.”Chin: “I choose to accept these invitations.”Collarbone: “I’m ready to look at every angle.”Under Arm: “I appreciate new opportunities to change my energy.”Head: “I choose to feel joy as I accept these energetic invitations.”

Access more positive vibrations with the Law of Attraction by repeating the following phrases (while tapping or not):

Thank You, Universe for showing me how to accept these invitations to change my vibration.

Thank You, Universe for allowing me to feel safe when I accept these energetic opportunities to clear more energy.

Thank You, Universe for inspiring me to accept these invitations to look at and change my own vibration!

Keep tapping, and enjoy using the Law of Attraction to bring more of what you want into your life!

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