In a talk that's by turns heartbreaking and hilarious, writer and podcaster Nora McInerny shares her hard-earned wisdom about life and death. Her candid approach to something that will, let's face it, affect us all, is as liberating as it is gut-wrenching. Most powerfully, she encourages us to shift how we approach grief. "A grieving person is going to laugh again and smile again," she says. "They're going to move forward. But that doesn't mean that they've moved on."
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views:421960

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Artist: GRIEF
Song: Burial
Album: Single (2019)
Hometown: Manchester, United Kingdom
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Contact: griefbanduk@gmail.com
________________________________
Lyrics:
So I could be lost
So I could be insane
Well I am morose
Well I am not safe
So I could be death
Or I was the rope
Wrapped around my neck
I wish I was hope
And I sleep for days
In hope that I can fade
Cause I can hear your name
But it's something I can't place
So I could be lost
So I could be insane
Well I am morose
Well I am not safe
So I could be death
Or I was the rope
Wrapped around my neck
I wish I was hope
So I could be wrong
So could be to blame
Or I'm just a ghost
And you won't call my name
I know that you're misplaced
Cause you were death
Coursing through my veins
(I should’ve buried you)
I wish you never left
And maybe I would stop wanting to kill myself
If your apathy had left, then maybe it would help
And I could find some sleep in this place called hell
In a bed we reside, darling I can tell
Our love will never bloom
Only rot in the wake
In an obituary of moments that you would then take
And burn as you did with my hearts remains
It was never meant to break
________________________________
Credits:
Written by
Reece Banks (vocals): https://www.instagram.com/reecebanks_
Andrew Norton (guitarist): https://www.instagram.com/andrew_norton98
Produced, mixed and mastered by
Mike Bennett @Foxhound Studios

published:30 May 2019

views:569052

“Grief” taken from Earl Sweatshirt’s new album I DON’T LIKE SHIT, I DON’T GO OUTSIDE. Download the album on iTunes here: http://smarturl.it/IDLSIDGO
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published:17 Mar 2015

views:11220817

The important thing to know about grief, is that while it can feel awful, it is a healthy adaptive process of healing. It’s just your brain’s way of making sense of the loss and it helps us to learn what we value and leads us to reach out for comfort and relationship. So in a way grief is really just a helpful tool for processing the loss.
Complicated grief on the other hand, can feel similar to grief, but it is in fact, very different from it. While grief is an adaptive process of making sense of a loss, complicated grief is actually a disruption of the grief process - it keeps you from processing a loss (it’s like a road block). Grief involves positive feelings and memories, and complicated grief generally makes it tough to be able to access the memory or loss in a way that enables you to have positive and honoring feelings. Also, grief is a reaction to losing something you value, complicated grief is a reaction to a negative narrative or cognition you have that has been surfaced by some element of the loss. Meaning that complicated grief is born out of a negative belief or experience that’s attached to the loss. It could be a negative belief we have about ourselves, or possibly the relationship we had with the person who has passed away or is no longer in our lives. Instead of processing the loss, Complicated Grief keeps us stuck in the process, unable to do the healing work of grieving.
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published:04 Mar 2019

views:63958

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published:07 Mar 2013

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In her brutally honest, ironically funny and widely read meditation on death, "You May Want to Marry My Husband," the late author and filmmaker Amy Krouse Rosenthal gave her husband Jason very public permission to move on and find happiness. A year after her death, Jason offers candid insights on the often excruciating process of moving through and with loss -- as well as some quiet wisdom for anyone else experiencing life-changing grief.
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published:03 Jul 2018

views:141117

Her proudest accomplishment continues to be when she was blocked on Twitter by President Donald Trump. Lynn has a B.F.A. in Theatre from Adelphi University, where she went on to teach courses in acting and stand-up comedy for the past 16 years. You can see more of her work at ripthelifeiknew.com.
Stand-up comedian, actor and writer Kelley Lynn has performed in the same lineups with Amy Schumer, Jim Gaffigan and Elayne Boosler. Lynn is probably best known for her comedy videos on YouTube; her most recent video, “I’ve McFallen,” has been viewed over 50 million times worldwide. She’s also known for her scathingly funny TV reviews of shows like “The Bachelor” and “Dancing with the Stars.” The latter show’s host, Tom Bergeron, tweeted that Lynn was “witty and wonderfully snarky.”
Lynn is also a regular presenter at the “Soaring Spirits International” annual events called “Camp Widow,” a three-day conference held in the U.S. and Canada for widowed men and women. She is currently writing her first book, My Husband Is Not a Rainbow: The Brutally Awful, Hilarious Truth About Life, Love, Grief, and Loss, with a tentative release date of winter 2017. Her proudest accomplishment continues to be when she was blocked on Twitter by President Donald Trump. Lynn has a B.F.A. in Theatre from Adelphi University, where she went on to teach courses in acting and stand-up comedy for the past 16 years. You can see more of her work at ripthelifeiknew.com.
Follow Kelley at @kelleyiskelley
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published:05 May 2017

views:938700

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It's so hard to know what to do when your friends are hurting. The thing is, you can't cheer someone up by telling them to look on the bright side, or by giving them advice. It just doesn't work. Watch this video to learn the one thing that will improve all of your "I'm here for you" intentions, and be that supportive friend you most want to be.
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¿Cuál es la mejor manera de ayudar a un amigo afligido? ¿Darles consejos? Anímalos? ¿Recordarles que la vida es para los vivos?
¡Ay! ¡No!
Es muy difícil saber qué hacer cuando sufren tus amigos. De hecho, no se puede animar a alguien diciéndole que mire el lado bueno o dándoles consejos. Simplemente no funciona. Mire este video para aprender una cosa que mejorará todas sus intenciones de "Estoy aquí para usted" y ser ese amigo de apoyo que más quiere ser.
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published:19 Jul 2018

views:468535

Understanding grief is an important part of healing after a loved one dies.
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published:14 Jun 2018

views:23672

Grief is something that nearly all of us will experience but it's something that most of us find difficult to talk about. This week on Like Minds, we find out what grief is, that it's very individual for all of us and why you don't have to "get over" it.
Produced by Rob Brown and India Rakusen
If you, or someone you know, have been affected by mental health issues, the following organisations may be able to help. http://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/articles/1NGvFrTqWChr03LrYlw2Hkk/information-and-support-mental-health

published:01 Mar 2018

views:25648

Learn how to get over death of a loved one & deal with grief.
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Death & loss of a loved one is something we will all experience at some point in our lives. Learning to let go of someone close to you, and dealing with grief, sadness and loss is tough.
How do you do it? Especially when your emotions are so intense?
It's not something school ever really teaches you is it?
Maybe you've even heard of the 7 stages of grief. But you still feel sad and angry and hurt.
What do you do?
1.) 2:41 - Tuesdays With Morrie
Morrie Schwartz talks about allowing yourself to completely feel the emotion, instead of pushing it away, and then after exhausting it, learning to let it go.
The truth is there is no step by step process here. Grief is going to be different for all of us, and won't be the same each time we experience it. Instead of seeing it like a step by step tick box exercise, imagine its like a clockface.
You will cycle through the emotions revolving around them and over time you will get better at dealing with these emotions.
2.) 4:15 - Emotional pain is like physical pain
Emotional loss and pain triggers the same pain receptors in your brain as breaking your leg or losing a limb
So if you lost your leg - how long would it take to heal? Imagine the same process, but for your emotional pain. You're going to need to take things a bit slower, and put your energy into healing properly and dealing with the new challenges you face day to day.
3.) 5:23 - You Can't Control Your Emotions, Only Manage Them
Your feelings are going to come and go, and trying to ignore or suppress them through willpower won't work. Work by Psychologist Steve Peters shows that the part of the brain responsible for emotions is more powerful than the one for logic & rationality.
Imagine your emotions are like a little chimp. And it's angry and upset. You can't defeat it because it's stronger than you and less intelligent. So when you feel sad, imagine you're dealing with a baby chimp that's sad. How would you deal with it then? Ignoring it won't work. It will just scream louder.
You have to acknowledge it, and express it and be patient with it. So that part of your brain feels heard and cared for.
4.) 7:03 - Learn Your Own Mortality
Use this experience to learn how precious life is and how fragile it is. Being mindful of the fact that its all going to end, helps you be more focused on what's really important.
When we experience death, that's the deeper truth we're facing. The lesson of impermanence. Things are uncertain, random, and not permanent.
Can we learn to be fully present, not hold back and still be able to be detached and free from our own need for certainty? Balance is key.
5.) Become Their Legacy
When a person dies, they leave behind all their dreams and aims for the future. And we can use this experience to learn from the way they lived their lives and the example they set to follow.
What did they stand for? What was there to learn from them?
Use these lessons and become their legacy.
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published:17 May 2016

views:168639

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Cast: Dwiki R. Oktava and Grief.
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Director & Editor: Bimantara Septianto
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Director of Photography: Rizky Mahen
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Art Director: Welle Pewe
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Recorded at Depthbase Studio & Septian Yusuf Studio
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Mixed & Mastered by Hamzah Ir
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__________________________________________________________________
"Blight" Lyrics:
Lay me off in the silence
Watch through despair that I have finally let you go
Found balance in ruins, but not enough to bring us through
Buried in resent, but I have finally learnt to let go
A blight on my happiness, you were dead the entire time
Disappointed by our own intentions
Unable to find a purpose and roaming aimlessly
Steer me not towards into uncertain things
Illuminate this room so I can feel your presence
Carried on only to find myself more lost than ever
Force me to make peace with the fact that it happened and grow
Direction always misunderstood, we were keep circling the same drain
Never let me in again, because once you do I always ask for more
Found balance in ruins, but not enough to bring us through
Buried in resent, but I have finally learnt to let go

Grief

Grief is a multifaceted response to loss, particularly to the loss of someone or something that has died, to which a bond or affection was formed. Although conventionally focused on the emotional response to loss, it also has physical, cognitive, behavioral, social, and philosophical dimensions. While the terms are often used interchangeably, bereavement refers to the state of loss, and grief is the reaction to loss.

Grief is a natural response to loss. It is the emotional suffering one feels when something or someone the individual loves is taken away. Grief is also a reaction to any loss. The grief associated with death is familiar to most people, but individuals grieve in connection with a variety of losses throughout their lives, such as unemployment, ill health or the end of a relationship. Loss can be categorized as either physical or abstract, the physical loss being related to something that the individual can touch or measure, such as losing a spouse through death, while other types of loss are abstract, and relate to aspects of a person’s social interactions.

Grief (band)

Biography

Grief was founded in 1991 by Disrupt guitarist Terry Savastano and drummer Randy Odierno (who later switched to bass and later again left to join Bane of Existence). They broke up in 2001 mainly due to drummer problems - something that was an ongoing problem for the band from the start. They also cited what they called a "hostile environment for doom metal bands". They reunited briefly in July 2005 to play a cluster of reunion shows.

The band had several 7"s including one with Dystopia and Corrupted each. A compilation album called Turbulent Times appeared in 2002 through Southern Lord. The group reunited for one show at the first annual New England Grind And Doom Fest on July 17, 2005 at The Middle East Cafe in Cambridge, MA. They were so excited by the response to this show that they began booking others, and they toured intermittently throughout 2005 and 2006.

In 2005, the band played shows through in venues including The Ace of Clubs and The Knitting Factory in New York, The Khyber in Philadelphia, O'Brien's in Allston/Brighton, MA, The Living Room in Providence, RI, and Cherry St. Station in CT.

We don't "move on" from grief. We move forward with it | Nora McInerny

We don't "move on" from grief. We move forward with it | Nora McInerny

We don't "move on" from grief. We move forward with it | Nora McInerny

In a talk that's by turns heartbreaking and hilarious, writer and podcaster Nora McInerny shares her hard-earned wisdom about life and death. Her candid approach to something that will, let's face it, affect us all, is as liberating as it is gut-wrenching. Most powerfully, she encourages us to shift how we approach grief. "A grieving person is going to laugh again and smile again," she says. "They're going to move forward. But that doesn't mean that they've moved on."
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3:51

GRIEF - Burial (OFFICIAL MUSIC VIDEO)

GRIEF - Burial (OFFICIAL MUSIC VIDEO)

GRIEF - Burial (OFFICIAL MUSIC VIDEO)

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Song: Burial
Album: Single (2019)
Hometown: Manchester, United Kingdom
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________________________________
Lyrics:
So I could be lost
So I could be insane
Well I am morose
Well I am not safe
So I could be death
Or I was the rope
Wrapped around my neck
I wish I was hope
And I sleep for days
In hope that I can fade
Cause I can hear your name
But it's something I can't place
So I could be lost
So I could be insane
Well I am morose
Well I am not safe
So I could be death
Or I was the rope
Wrapped around my neck
I wish I was hope
So I could be wrong
So could be to blame
Or I'm just a ghost
And you won't call my name
I know that you're misplaced
Cause you were death
Coursing through my veins
(I should’ve buried you)
I wish you never left
And maybe I would stop wanting to kill myself
If your apathy had left, then maybe it would help
And I could find some sleep in this place called hell
In a bed we reside, darling I can tell
Our love will never bloom
Only rot in the wake
In an obituary of moments that you would then take
And burn as you did with my hearts remains
It was never meant to break
________________________________
Credits:
Written by
Reece Banks (vocals): https://www.instagram.com/reecebanks_
Andrew Norton (guitarist): https://www.instagram.com/andrew_norton98
Produced, mixed and mastered by
Mike Bennett @Foxhound Studios

4:31

Earl Sweatshirt - Grief (Video)

Earl Sweatshirt - Grief (Video)

Earl Sweatshirt - Grief (Video)

“Grief” taken from Earl Sweatshirt’s new album I DON’T LIKE SHIT, I DON’T GO OUTSIDE. Download the album on iTunes here: http://smarturl.it/IDLSIDGO
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Music video by Earl Sweatshirt performing Grief. (C) 2015 Tan Cressida, under exclusive license to Columbia Records, a Division of Sony Music Entertainment

14:55

This is Complicated Grief | Kati Morton

This is Complicated Grief | Kati Morton

This is Complicated Grief | Kati Morton

The important thing to know about grief, is that while it can feel awful, it is a healthy adaptive process of healing. It’s just your brain’s way of making sense of the loss and it helps us to learn what we value and leads us to reach out for comfort and relationship. So in a way grief is really just a helpful tool for processing the loss.
Complicated grief on the other hand, can feel similar to grief, but it is in fact, very different from it. While grief is an adaptive process of making sense of a loss, complicated grief is actually a disruption of the grief process - it keeps you from processing a loss (it’s like a road block). Grief involves positive feelings and memories, and complicated grief generally makes it tough to be able to access the memory or loss in a way that enables you to have positive and honoring feelings. Also, grief is a reaction to losing something you value, complicated grief is a reaction to a negative narrative or cognition you have that has been surfaced by some element of the loss. Meaning that complicated grief is born out of a negative belief or experience that’s attached to the loss. It could be a negative belief we have about ourselves, or possibly the relationship we had with the person who has passed away or is no longer in our lives. Instead of processing the loss, Complicated Grief keeps us stuck in the process, unable to do the healing work of grieving.
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I do not currently offer online therapy, but I have partnered with BetterHelp who can connect you with a licensed, online counselor in your area: https://tryonlinetherapy.com/katimorton
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4:14

The Grieving Process: Coping with Death

The Grieving Process: Coping with Death

The Grieving Process: Coping with Death

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14:09

The journey through loss and grief | Jason B. Rosenthal

The journey through loss and grief | Jason B. Rosenthal

The journey through loss and grief | Jason B. Rosenthal

In her brutally honest, ironically funny and widely read meditation on death, "You May Want to Marry My Husband," the late author and filmmaker Amy Krouse Rosenthal gave her husband Jason very public permission to move on and find happiness. A year after her death, Jason offers candid insights on the often excruciating process of moving through and with loss -- as well as some quiet wisdom for anyone else experiencing life-changing grief.
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16:44

When Someone You Love Dies,There Is No Such Thing as Moving On | Kelley Lynn | TEDxAdelphiUniversity

When Someone You Love Dies,There Is No Such Thing as Moving On | Kelley Lynn | TEDxAdelphiUniversity

When Someone You Love Dies,There Is No Such Thing as Moving On | Kelley Lynn | TEDxAdelphiUniversity

Her proudest accomplishment continues to be when she was blocked on Twitter by President Donald Trump. Lynn has a B.F.A. in Theatre from Adelphi University, where she went on to teach courses in acting and stand-up comedy for the past 16 years. You can see more of her work at ripthelifeiknew.com.
Stand-up comedian, actor and writer Kelley Lynn has performed in the same lineups with Amy Schumer, Jim Gaffigan and Elayne Boosler. Lynn is probably best known for her comedy videos on YouTube; her most recent video, “I’ve McFallen,” has been viewed over 50 million times worldwide. She’s also known for her scathingly funny TV reviews of shows like “The Bachelor” and “Dancing with the Stars.” The latter show’s host, Tom Bergeron, tweeted that Lynn was “witty and wonderfully snarky.”
Lynn is also a regular presenter at the “Soaring Spirits International” annual events called “Camp Widow,” a three-day conference held in the U.S. and Canada for widowed men and women. She is currently writing her first book, My Husband Is Not a Rainbow: The Brutally Awful, Hilarious Truth About Life, Love, Grief, and Loss, with a tentative release date of winter 2017. Her proudest accomplishment continues to be when she was blocked on Twitter by President Donald Trump. Lynn has a B.F.A. in Theatre from Adelphi University, where she went on to teach courses in acting and stand-up comedy for the past 16 years. You can see more of her work at ripthelifeiknew.com.
Follow Kelley at @kelleyiskelley
This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at http://ted.com/tedx

3:59

How do you help a grieving friend?

How do you help a grieving friend?

How do you help a grieving friend?

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It's so hard to know what to do when your friends are hurting. The thing is, you can't cheer someone up by telling them to look on the bright side, or by giving them advice. It just doesn't work. Watch this video to learn the one thing that will improve all of your "I'm here for you" intentions, and be that supportive friend you most want to be.
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¿Cuál es la mejor manera de ayudar a un amigo afligido? ¿Darles consejos? Anímalos? ¿Recordarles que la vida es para los vivos?
¡Ay! ¡No!
Es muy difícil saber qué hacer cuando sufren tus amigos. De hecho, no se puede animar a alguien diciéndole que mire el lado bueno o dándoles consejos. Simplemente no funciona. Mire este video para aprender una cosa que mejorará todas sus intenciones de "Estoy aquí para usted" y ser ese amigo de apoyo que más quiere ser.
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3:23

How Grief Affects Your Brain And What To Do About It | Better | NBC News

How Grief Affects Your Brain And What To Do About It | Better | NBC News

How Grief Affects Your Brain And What To Do About It | Better | NBC News

Understanding grief is an important part of healing after a loved one dies.
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How Grief Affects Your Brain And What To Do About It | Better | NBC News

Grief is something that nearly all of us will experience but it's something that most of us find difficult to talk about. This week on Like Minds, we find out what grief is, that it's very individual for all of us and why you don't have to "get over" it.
Produced by Rob Brown and India Rakusen
If you, or someone you know, have been affected by mental health issues, the following organisations may be able to help. http://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/articles/1NGvFrTqWChr03LrYlw2Hkk/information-and-support-mental-health

10:24

5 Powerful Ways To Deal With Death, Grief & Loss

5 Powerful Ways To Deal With Death, Grief & Loss

5 Powerful Ways To Deal With Death, Grief & Loss

Learn how to get over death of a loved one & deal with grief.
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Death & loss of a loved one is something we will all experience at some point in our lives. Learning to let go of someone close to you, and dealing with grief, sadness and loss is tough.
How do you do it? Especially when your emotions are so intense?
It's not something school ever really teaches you is it?
Maybe you've even heard of the 7 stages of grief. But you still feel sad and angry and hurt.
What do you do?
1.) 2:41 - Tuesdays With Morrie
Morrie Schwartz talks about allowing yourself to completely feel the emotion, instead of pushing it away, and then after exhausting it, learning to let it go.
The truth is there is no step by step process here. Grief is going to be different for all of us, and won't be the same each time we experience it. Instead of seeing it like a step by step tick box exercise, imagine its like a clockface.
You will cycle through the emotions revolving around them and over time you will get better at dealing with these emotions.
2.) 4:15 - Emotional pain is like physical pain
Emotional loss and pain triggers the same pain receptors in your brain as breaking your leg or losing a limb
So if you lost your leg - how long would it take to heal? Imagine the same process, but for your emotional pain. You're going to need to take things a bit slower, and put your energy into healing properly and dealing with the new challenges you face day to day.
3.) 5:23 - You Can't Control Your Emotions, Only Manage Them
Your feelings are going to come and go, and trying to ignore or suppress them through willpower won't work. Work by Psychologist Steve Peters shows that the part of the brain responsible for emotions is more powerful than the one for logic & rationality.
Imagine your emotions are like a little chimp. And it's angry and upset. You can't defeat it because it's stronger than you and less intelligent. So when you feel sad, imagine you're dealing with a baby chimp that's sad. How would you deal with it then? Ignoring it won't work. It will just scream louder.
You have to acknowledge it, and express it and be patient with it. So that part of your brain feels heard and cared for.
4.) 7:03 - Learn Your Own Mortality
Use this experience to learn how precious life is and how fragile it is. Being mindful of the fact that its all going to end, helps you be more focused on what's really important.
When we experience death, that's the deeper truth we're facing. The lesson of impermanence. Things are uncertain, random, and not permanent.
Can we learn to be fully present, not hold back and still be able to be detached and free from our own need for certainty? Balance is key.
5.) Become Their Legacy
When a person dies, they leave behind all their dreams and aims for the future. And we can use this experience to learn from the way they lived their lives and the example they set to follow.
What did they stand for? What was there to learn from them?
Use these lessons and become their legacy.
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3:26

Grief. - Blight (Official Music Video)

Grief. - Blight (Official Music Video)

Grief. - Blight (Official Music Video)

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Cast: Dwiki R. Oktava and Grief.
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Director & Editor: Bimantara Septianto
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Director of Photography: Rizky Mahen
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Art Director: Welle Pewe
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Recorded at Depthbase Studio & Septian Yusuf Studio
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https://instagram.com/septianysf
Mixed & Mastered by Hamzah Ir
https://instagram.com/hamzah_ir
__________________________________________________________________
"Blight" Lyrics:
Lay me off in the silence
Watch through despair that I have finally let you go
Found balance in ruins, but not enough to bring us through
Buried in resent, but I have finally learnt to let go
A blight on my happiness, you were dead the entire time
Disappointed by our own intentions
Unable to find a purpose and roaming aimlessly
Steer me not towards into uncertain things
Illuminate this room so I can feel your presence
Carried on only to find myself more lost than ever
Force me to make peace with the fact that it happened and grow
Direction always misunderstood, we were keep circling the same drain
Never let me in again, because once you do I always ask for more
Found balance in ruins, but not enough to bring us through
Buried in resent, but I have finally learnt to let go

15:56

Rob Delaney on grief and the loss of his son Henry - The Russell Howard Hour

Rob Delaney on grief and the loss of his son Henry - The Russell Howard Hour

Rob Delaney on grief and the loss of his son Henry - The Russell Howard Hour

Russell sits down to chat with the BAFTA winning star of Catastrophe, comedian and actor Rob Delaney about grief and the loss of his son Henry.
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10:23

Lost in Loss: A Window into the Grieving Brain | Zoe Donaldson | TEDxBoulder

Lost in Loss: A Window into the Grieving Brain | Zoe Donaldson | TEDxBoulder

Lost in Loss: A Window into the Grieving Brain | Zoe Donaldson | TEDxBoulder

When faced with the loss of a loved one, most of us grieve normally and reach a point where we can reengage with life. However, for 1 in 10 bereaved people, this process goes awry, and their mourning is stalled. Dr. Zoe Donaldson asks: How does your brain heal itself when you lose someone? And how can we help those who are lost in their loss? Dr. Zoe Donaldson is an Assistant Professor at the University of Colorado Boulder. She joined the faculty after completing a Ph.D. in Neuroscience from Emory University and pursuing post-doctoral training at Columbia University. She studies how close social bonds, such as those that mediate friendships and romantic love, are encoded in the brain. In order to understand the cells and molecules that make bonding possible, her lab uses monogamous prairie voles. Unlike rats and mice, these rodents forms lifelong pair bonds between mates akin to human romantic partnerships. By examining the neurobiology underlying these bonds and what happens when they are lost, she hopes to identify novel treatments for psychiatric and neurodevelopmental disorders. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at https://www.ted.com/tedx

We don't "move on" from grief. We move forward with it | Nora McInerny

In a talk that's by turns heartbreaking and hilarious, writer and podcaster Nora McInerny shares her hard-earned wisdom about life and death. Her candid approach to something that will, let's face it, affect us all, is as liberating as it is gut-wrenching. Most powerfully, she encourages us to shift how we approach grief. "A grieving person is going to laugh again and smile again," she says. "They're going to move forward. But that doesn't mean that they've moved on."
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published: 25 Apr 2019

GRIEF - Burial (OFFICIAL MUSIC VIDEO)

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Lyrics:
So I could be lost
So I could be insane
Well I am morose
Well I am not safe
So I could be death
Or I was the rope
Wrapped around my neck
I wish I was hope
And I sleep fo...

published: 30 May 2019

Earl Sweatshirt - Grief (Video)

“Grief” taken from Earl Sweatshirt’s new album I DON’T LIKE SHIT, I DON’T GO OUTSIDE. Download the album on iTunes here: http://smarturl.it/IDLSIDGO
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published: 17 Mar 2015

This is Complicated Grief | Kati Morton

The important thing to know about grief, is that while it can feel awful, it is a healthy adaptive process of healing. It’s just your brain’s way of making sense of the loss and it helps us to learn what we value and leads us to reach out for comfort and relationship. So in a way grief is really just a helpful tool for processing the loss.
Complicated grief on the other hand, can feel similar to grief, but it is in fact, very different from it. While grief is an adaptive process of making sense of a loss, complicated grief is actually a disruption of the grief process - it keeps you from processing a loss (it’s like a road block). Grief involves positive feelings and memories, and complicated grief generally makes it tough to be able to access the memory or loss in a way that enables you...

published: 04 Mar 2019

The Grieving Process: Coping with Death

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There is no right or wrong way to deal with the loss of a loved one. The grieving process is rough—and it's different for everyone. It's not just a matter of coping with a loss, but coping with change—and that takes time.
Today on WellCast, we're dealing with a very difficult subject. How do you deal with the death of a loved one? How do you live your life in the face of a life-changing event? We don't have all the answers. Honestly, you'll need to work through your through the stages of grieving in a way that works for you. But we do have some advice to help you heal.
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published: 07 Mar 2013

The journey through loss and grief | Jason B. Rosenthal

In her brutally honest, ironically funny and widely read meditation on death, "You May Want to Marry My Husband," the late author and filmmaker Amy Krouse Rosenthal gave her husband Jason very public permission to move on and find happiness. A year after her death, Jason offers candid insights on the often excruciating process of moving through and with loss -- as well as some quiet wisdom for anyone else experiencing life-changing grief.
Check out more TED Talks: http://www.ted.com
The TED Talks channel features the best talks and performances from the TED Conference, where the world's leading thinkers and doers give the talk of their lives in 18 minutes (or less). Look for talks on Technology, Entertainment and Design -- plus science, business, global issues, the arts and more.
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published: 03 Jul 2018

When Someone You Love Dies,There Is No Such Thing as Moving On | Kelley Lynn | TEDxAdelphiUniversity

Her proudest accomplishment continues to be when she was blocked on Twitter by President Donald Trump. Lynn has a B.F.A. in Theatre from Adelphi University, where she went on to teach courses in acting and stand-up comedy for the past 16 years. You can see more of her work at ripthelifeiknew.com.
Stand-up comedian, actor and writer Kelley Lynn has performed in the same lineups with Amy Schumer, Jim Gaffigan and Elayne Boosler. Lynn is probably best known for her comedy videos on YouTube; her most recent video, “I’ve McFallen,” has been viewed over 50 million times worldwide. She’s also known for her scathingly funny TV reviews of shows like “The Bachelor” and “Dancing with the Stars.” The latter show’s host, Tom Bergeron, tweeted that Lynn was “witty and wonderfully snarky.”
Lynn is al...

published: 05 May 2017

How do you help a grieving friend?

(sharing this video? using it in a training! Great! Tag or email us and let us know, and be sure to give proper attribution.)
It's so hard to know what to do when your friends are hurting. The thing is, you can't cheer someone up by telling them to look on the bright side, or by giving them advice. It just doesn't work. Watch this video to learn the one thing that will improve all of your "I'm here for you" intentions, and be that supportive friend you most want to be.
NOTE: you must give proper attribution when you share this piece. It is copyright Megan Devine and Refuge in Grief. Using it for a training? Awesome. Give proper attribution (and drop us a note to let us know how you've used it!). In no circumstance is it legal to copy this video, or the script, and use it in your own wor...

published: 19 Jul 2018

How Grief Affects Your Brain And What To Do About It | Better | NBC News

Grief is something that nearly all of us will experience but it's something that most of us find difficult to talk about. This week on Like Minds, we find out what grief is, that it's very individual for all of us and why you don't have to "get over" it.
Produced by Rob Brown and India Rakusen
If you, or someone you know, have been affected by mental health issues, the following organisations may be able to help. http://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/articles/1NGvFrTqWChr03LrYlw2Hkk/information-and-support-mental-health

published: 01 Mar 2018

5 Powerful Ways To Deal With Death, Grief & Loss

Learn how to get over death of a loved one & deal with grief.
Click here to subscribe for more useful videos like this: http://bit.ly/2kKvbSH
More inspiration & resources: https://www.keshavbhatt.com
Death & loss of a loved one is something we will all experience at some point in our lives. Learning to let go of someone close to you, and dealing with grief, sadness and loss is tough.
How do you do it? Especially when your emotions are so intense?
It's not something school ever really teaches you is it?
Maybe you've even heard of the 7 stages of grief. But you still feel sad and angry and hurt.
What do you do?
1.) 2:41 - Tuesdays With Morrie
Morrie Schwartz talks about allowing yourself to completely feel the emotion, instead of pushing it away, and then after exhausting it, learni...

published: 17 May 2016

Grief. - Blight (Official Music Video)

https://instagram.com/grief.hardcore
https://twitter.com/griefhardcore
Cast: Dwiki R. Oktava and Grief.
https://instagram.com/droktava
Director & Editor: Bimantara Septianto
https://bimantaraseptian.wixsite.com/adjustthelight
Director of Photography: Rizky Mahen
https://instagram.com/rizkymahen
Art Director: Welle Pewe
https://instagram.com/internetcyber
Recorded at Depthbase Studio & Septian Yusuf Studio
https://instagram.com/depthbase
https://instagram.com/septianysf
Mixed & Mastered by Hamzah Ir
https://instagram.com/hamzah_ir
__________________________________________________________________
"Blight" Lyrics:
Lay me off in the silence
Watch through despair that I have finally let you go
Found balance in ruins, but not enough to bring us through
Buried in resent, but I have fin...

published: 26 Feb 2019

Rob Delaney on grief and the loss of his son Henry - The Russell Howard Hour

Russell sits down to chat with the BAFTA winning star of Catastrophe, comedian and actor Rob Delaney about grief and the loss of his son Henry.
Follow the show on Twitter at http://www.twitter.com/howardhour
Follow Russell on Twitter at http://www.twitter.com/russellhoward
Become a fan on Facebook at https://www.facebook.com/OfficialRuss...
SUBSCRIBE NOW. Watch new episodes every Thursday at 10pm on Sky1
#RussellHoward #SkyOne #RobDelaney

published: 18 Jan 2019

Lost in Loss: A Window into the Grieving Brain | Zoe Donaldson | TEDxBoulder

When faced with the loss of a loved one, most of us grieve normally and reach a point where we can reengage with life. However, for 1 in 10 bereaved people, this process goes awry, and their mourning is stalled. Dr. Zoe Donaldson asks: How does your brain heal itself when you lose someone? And how can we help those who are lost in their loss? Dr. Zoe Donaldson is an Assistant Professor at the University of Colorado Boulder. She joined the faculty after completing a Ph.D. in Neuroscience from Emory University and pursuing post-doctoral training at Columbia University. She studies how close social bonds, such as those that mediate friendships and romantic love, are encoded in the brain. In order to understand the cells and molecules that make bonding possible, her lab uses monogamous prairi...

We don't "move on" from grief. We move forward with it | Nora McInerny

In a talk that's by turns heartbreaking and hilarious, writer and podcaster Nora McInerny shares her hard-earned wisdom about life and death. Her candid approac...

In a talk that's by turns heartbreaking and hilarious, writer and podcaster Nora McInerny shares her hard-earned wisdom about life and death. Her candid approach to something that will, let's face it, affect us all, is as liberating as it is gut-wrenching. Most powerfully, she encourages us to shift how we approach grief. "A grieving person is going to laugh again and smile again," she says. "They're going to move forward. But that doesn't mean that they've moved on."
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In a talk that's by turns heartbreaking and hilarious, writer and podcaster Nora McInerny shares her hard-earned wisdom about life and death. Her candid approach to something that will, let's face it, affect us all, is as liberating as it is gut-wrenching. Most powerfully, she encourages us to shift how we approach grief. "A grieving person is going to laugh again and smile again," she says. "They're going to move forward. But that doesn't mean that they've moved on."
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Artist: GRIEF
Song: Burial
Album: Single (2019)
Hometown: Manchester, United Kingdom
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/griefofficialuk
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/griefofficialuk/
Twitter: https://www.twitter.com/griefofficialuk
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Contact: griefbanduk@gmail.com
________________________________
Lyrics:
So I could be lost
So I could be insane
Well I am morose
Well I am not safe
So I could be death
Or I was the rope
Wrapped around my neck
I wish I was hope
And I sleep for days
In hope that I can fade
Cause I can hear your name
But it's something I can't place
So I could be lost
So I could be insane
Well I am morose
Well I am not safe
So I could be death
Or I was the rope
Wrapped around my neck
I wish I was hope
So I could be wrong
So could be to blame
Or I'm just a ghost
And you won't call my name
I know that you're misplaced
Cause you were death
Coursing through my veins
(I should’ve buried you)
I wish you never left
And maybe I would stop wanting to kill myself
If your apathy had left, then maybe it would help
And I could find some sleep in this place called hell
In a bed we reside, darling I can tell
Our love will never bloom
Only rot in the wake
In an obituary of moments that you would then take
And burn as you did with my hearts remains
It was never meant to break
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Credits:
Written by
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Andrew Norton (guitarist): https://www.instagram.com/andrew_norton98
Produced, mixed and mastered by
Mike Bennett @Foxhound Studios

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________________________________
Artist: GRIEF
Song: Burial
Album: Single (2019)
Hometown: Manchester, United Kingdom
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/griefofficialuk
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/griefofficialuk/
Twitter: https://www.twitter.com/griefofficialuk
Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/artist/7xB7gGAHzeauNfWgYIJkiH?si=eqdCjYvHRNG8PWdg8scF1Q
Contact: griefbanduk@gmail.com
________________________________
Lyrics:
So I could be lost
So I could be insane
Well I am morose
Well I am not safe
So I could be death
Or I was the rope
Wrapped around my neck
I wish I was hope
And I sleep for days
In hope that I can fade
Cause I can hear your name
But it's something I can't place
So I could be lost
So I could be insane
Well I am morose
Well I am not safe
So I could be death
Or I was the rope
Wrapped around my neck
I wish I was hope
So I could be wrong
So could be to blame
Or I'm just a ghost
And you won't call my name
I know that you're misplaced
Cause you were death
Coursing through my veins
(I should’ve buried you)
I wish you never left
And maybe I would stop wanting to kill myself
If your apathy had left, then maybe it would help
And I could find some sleep in this place called hell
In a bed we reside, darling I can tell
Our love will never bloom
Only rot in the wake
In an obituary of moments that you would then take
And burn as you did with my hearts remains
It was never meant to break
________________________________
Credits:
Written by
Reece Banks (vocals): https://www.instagram.com/reecebanks_
Andrew Norton (guitarist): https://www.instagram.com/andrew_norton98
Produced, mixed and mastered by
Mike Bennett @Foxhound Studios

Earl Sweatshirt - Grief (Video)

“Grief” taken from Earl Sweatshirt’s new album I DON’T LIKE SHIT, I DON’T GO OUTSIDE. Download the album on iTunes here: http://smarturl.it/IDLSIDGO
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“Grief” taken from Earl Sweatshirt’s new album I DON’T LIKE SHIT, I DON’T GO OUTSIDE. Download the album on iTunes here: http://smarturl.it/IDLSIDGO
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This is Complicated Grief | Kati Morton

The important thing to know about grief, is that while it can feel awful, it is a healthy adaptive process of healing. It’s just your brain’s way of making sens...

The important thing to know about grief, is that while it can feel awful, it is a healthy adaptive process of healing. It’s just your brain’s way of making sense of the loss and it helps us to learn what we value and leads us to reach out for comfort and relationship. So in a way grief is really just a helpful tool for processing the loss.
Complicated grief on the other hand, can feel similar to grief, but it is in fact, very different from it. While grief is an adaptive process of making sense of a loss, complicated grief is actually a disruption of the grief process - it keeps you from processing a loss (it’s like a road block). Grief involves positive feelings and memories, and complicated grief generally makes it tough to be able to access the memory or loss in a way that enables you to have positive and honoring feelings. Also, grief is a reaction to losing something you value, complicated grief is a reaction to a negative narrative or cognition you have that has been surfaced by some element of the loss. Meaning that complicated grief is born out of a negative belief or experience that’s attached to the loss. It could be a negative belief we have about ourselves, or possibly the relationship we had with the person who has passed away or is no longer in our lives. Instead of processing the loss, Complicated Grief keeps us stuck in the process, unable to do the healing work of grieving.
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The important thing to know about grief, is that while it can feel awful, it is a healthy adaptive process of healing. It’s just your brain’s way of making sense of the loss and it helps us to learn what we value and leads us to reach out for comfort and relationship. So in a way grief is really just a helpful tool for processing the loss.
Complicated grief on the other hand, can feel similar to grief, but it is in fact, very different from it. While grief is an adaptive process of making sense of a loss, complicated grief is actually a disruption of the grief process - it keeps you from processing a loss (it’s like a road block). Grief involves positive feelings and memories, and complicated grief generally makes it tough to be able to access the memory or loss in a way that enables you to have positive and honoring feelings. Also, grief is a reaction to losing something you value, complicated grief is a reaction to a negative narrative or cognition you have that has been surfaced by some element of the loss. Meaning that complicated grief is born out of a negative belief or experience that’s attached to the loss. It could be a negative belief we have about ourselves, or possibly the relationship we had with the person who has passed away or is no longer in our lives. Instead of processing the loss, Complicated Grief keeps us stuck in the process, unable to do the healing work of grieving.
I'm Kati Morton, a licensed therapist making Mental Health videos!
JOURNALING CLUB!
Every Tuesday & Friday I post a journal prompt to help keep you motivated and working on yourself! https://www.youtube.com/katimorton/join
Ordering my book
Are u ok?
http://bit.ly/2s0mULy
ONLINE THERAPY
I do not currently offer online therapy, but I have partnered with BetterHelp who can connect you with a licensed, online counselor in your area: https://tryonlinetherapy.com/katimorton
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The Grieving Process: Coping with Death

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There is no right or wrong way to deal with the loss of a loved one. The grieving process is rough—and it's different for everyone. It's not just a matter of coping with a loss, but coping with change—and that takes time.
Today on WellCast, we're dealing with a very difficult subject. How do you deal with the death of a loved one? How do you live your life in the face of a life-changing event? We don't have all the answers. Honestly, you'll need to work through your through the stages of grieving in a way that works for you. But we do have some advice to help you heal.
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The journey through loss and grief | Jason B. Rosenthal

In her brutally honest, ironically funny and widely read meditation on death, "You May Want to Marry My Husband," the late author and filmmaker Amy Krouse Rosen...

In her brutally honest, ironically funny and widely read meditation on death, "You May Want to Marry My Husband," the late author and filmmaker Amy Krouse Rosenthal gave her husband Jason very public permission to move on and find happiness. A year after her death, Jason offers candid insights on the often excruciating process of moving through and with loss -- as well as some quiet wisdom for anyone else experiencing life-changing grief.
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In her brutally honest, ironically funny and widely read meditation on death, "You May Want to Marry My Husband," the late author and filmmaker Amy Krouse Rosenthal gave her husband Jason very public permission to move on and find happiness. A year after her death, Jason offers candid insights on the often excruciating process of moving through and with loss -- as well as some quiet wisdom for anyone else experiencing life-changing grief.
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The TED Talks channel features the best talks and performances from the TED Conference, where the world's leading thinkers and doers give the talk of their lives in 18 minutes (or less). Look for talks on Technology, Entertainment and Design -- plus science, business, global issues, the arts and more.
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When Someone You Love Dies,There Is No Such Thing as Moving On | Kelley Lynn | TEDxAdelphiUniversity

Her proudest accomplishment continues to be when she was blocked on Twitter by President Donald Trump. Lynn has a B.F.A. in Theatre from Adelphi University, whe...

Her proudest accomplishment continues to be when she was blocked on Twitter by President Donald Trump. Lynn has a B.F.A. in Theatre from Adelphi University, where she went on to teach courses in acting and stand-up comedy for the past 16 years. You can see more of her work at ripthelifeiknew.com.
Stand-up comedian, actor and writer Kelley Lynn has performed in the same lineups with Amy Schumer, Jim Gaffigan and Elayne Boosler. Lynn is probably best known for her comedy videos on YouTube; her most recent video, “I’ve McFallen,” has been viewed over 50 million times worldwide. She’s also known for her scathingly funny TV reviews of shows like “The Bachelor” and “Dancing with the Stars.” The latter show’s host, Tom Bergeron, tweeted that Lynn was “witty and wonderfully snarky.”
Lynn is also a regular presenter at the “Soaring Spirits International” annual events called “Camp Widow,” a three-day conference held in the U.S. and Canada for widowed men and women. She is currently writing her first book, My Husband Is Not a Rainbow: The Brutally Awful, Hilarious Truth About Life, Love, Grief, and Loss, with a tentative release date of winter 2017. Her proudest accomplishment continues to be when she was blocked on Twitter by President Donald Trump. Lynn has a B.F.A. in Theatre from Adelphi University, where she went on to teach courses in acting and stand-up comedy for the past 16 years. You can see more of her work at ripthelifeiknew.com.
Follow Kelley at @kelleyiskelley
This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at http://ted.com/tedx

Her proudest accomplishment continues to be when she was blocked on Twitter by President Donald Trump. Lynn has a B.F.A. in Theatre from Adelphi University, where she went on to teach courses in acting and stand-up comedy for the past 16 years. You can see more of her work at ripthelifeiknew.com.
Stand-up comedian, actor and writer Kelley Lynn has performed in the same lineups with Amy Schumer, Jim Gaffigan and Elayne Boosler. Lynn is probably best known for her comedy videos on YouTube; her most recent video, “I’ve McFallen,” has been viewed over 50 million times worldwide. She’s also known for her scathingly funny TV reviews of shows like “The Bachelor” and “Dancing with the Stars.” The latter show’s host, Tom Bergeron, tweeted that Lynn was “witty and wonderfully snarky.”
Lynn is also a regular presenter at the “Soaring Spirits International” annual events called “Camp Widow,” a three-day conference held in the U.S. and Canada for widowed men and women. She is currently writing her first book, My Husband Is Not a Rainbow: The Brutally Awful, Hilarious Truth About Life, Love, Grief, and Loss, with a tentative release date of winter 2017. Her proudest accomplishment continues to be when she was blocked on Twitter by President Donald Trump. Lynn has a B.F.A. in Theatre from Adelphi University, where she went on to teach courses in acting and stand-up comedy for the past 16 years. You can see more of her work at ripthelifeiknew.com.
Follow Kelley at @kelleyiskelley
This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at http://ted.com/tedx

How do you help a grieving friend?

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It's so hard to know what to do when your friends are hurting. The thing is, you can't cheer someone up by telling them to look on the bright side, or by giving them advice. It just doesn't work. Watch this video to learn the one thing that will improve all of your "I'm here for you" intentions, and be that supportive friend you most want to be.
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¿Cuál es la mejor manera de ayudar a un amigo afligido? ¿Darles consejos? Anímalos? ¿Recordarles que la vida es para los vivos?
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Es muy difícil saber qué hacer cuando sufren tus amigos. De hecho, no se puede animar a alguien diciéndole que mire el lado bueno o dándoles consejos. Simplemente no funciona. Mire este video para aprender una cosa que mejorará todas sus intenciones de "Estoy aquí para usted" y ser ese amigo de apoyo que más quiere ser.
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It's so hard to know what to do when your friends are hurting. The thing is, you can't cheer someone up by telling them to look on the bright side, or by giving them advice. It just doesn't work. Watch this video to learn the one thing that will improve all of your "I'm here for you" intentions, and be that supportive friend you most want to be.
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¿Cuál es la mejor manera de ayudar a un amigo afligido? ¿Darles consejos? Anímalos? ¿Recordarles que la vida es para los vivos?
¡Ay! ¡No!
Es muy difícil saber qué hacer cuando sufren tus amigos. De hecho, no se puede animar a alguien diciéndole que mire el lado bueno o dándoles consejos. Simplemente no funciona. Mire este video para aprender una cosa que mejorará todas sus intenciones de "Estoy aquí para usted" y ser ese amigo de apoyo que más quiere ser.
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#itsokthatyourenotok #grief #empathy

Grief is something that nearly all of us will experience but it's something that most of us find difficult to talk about. This week on Like Minds, we find out w...

Grief is something that nearly all of us will experience but it's something that most of us find difficult to talk about. This week on Like Minds, we find out what grief is, that it's very individual for all of us and why you don't have to "get over" it.
Produced by Rob Brown and India Rakusen
If you, or someone you know, have been affected by mental health issues, the following organisations may be able to help. http://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/articles/1NGvFrTqWChr03LrYlw2Hkk/information-and-support-mental-health

Grief is something that nearly all of us will experience but it's something that most of us find difficult to talk about. This week on Like Minds, we find out what grief is, that it's very individual for all of us and why you don't have to "get over" it.
Produced by Rob Brown and India Rakusen
If you, or someone you know, have been affected by mental health issues, the following organisations may be able to help. http://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/articles/1NGvFrTqWChr03LrYlw2Hkk/information-and-support-mental-health

5 Powerful Ways To Deal With Death, Grief & Loss

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Learn how to get over death of a loved one & deal with grief.
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More inspiration & resources: https://www.keshavbhatt.com
Death & loss of a loved one is something we will all experience at some point in our lives. Learning to let go of someone close to you, and dealing with grief, sadness and loss is tough.
How do you do it? Especially when your emotions are so intense?
It's not something school ever really teaches you is it?
Maybe you've even heard of the 7 stages of grief. But you still feel sad and angry and hurt.
What do you do?
1.) 2:41 - Tuesdays With Morrie
Morrie Schwartz talks about allowing yourself to completely feel the emotion, instead of pushing it away, and then after exhausting it, learning to let it go.
The truth is there is no step by step process here. Grief is going to be different for all of us, and won't be the same each time we experience it. Instead of seeing it like a step by step tick box exercise, imagine its like a clockface.
You will cycle through the emotions revolving around them and over time you will get better at dealing with these emotions.
2.) 4:15 - Emotional pain is like physical pain
Emotional loss and pain triggers the same pain receptors in your brain as breaking your leg or losing a limb
So if you lost your leg - how long would it take to heal? Imagine the same process, but for your emotional pain. You're going to need to take things a bit slower, and put your energy into healing properly and dealing with the new challenges you face day to day.
3.) 5:23 - You Can't Control Your Emotions, Only Manage Them
Your feelings are going to come and go, and trying to ignore or suppress them through willpower won't work. Work by Psychologist Steve Peters shows that the part of the brain responsible for emotions is more powerful than the one for logic & rationality.
Imagine your emotions are like a little chimp. And it's angry and upset. You can't defeat it because it's stronger than you and less intelligent. So when you feel sad, imagine you're dealing with a baby chimp that's sad. How would you deal with it then? Ignoring it won't work. It will just scream louder.
You have to acknowledge it, and express it and be patient with it. So that part of your brain feels heard and cared for.
4.) 7:03 - Learn Your Own Mortality
Use this experience to learn how precious life is and how fragile it is. Being mindful of the fact that its all going to end, helps you be more focused on what's really important.
When we experience death, that's the deeper truth we're facing. The lesson of impermanence. Things are uncertain, random, and not permanent.
Can we learn to be fully present, not hold back and still be able to be detached and free from our own need for certainty? Balance is key.
5.) Become Their Legacy
When a person dies, they leave behind all their dreams and aims for the future. And we can use this experience to learn from the way they lived their lives and the example they set to follow.
What did they stand for? What was there to learn from them?
Use these lessons and become their legacy.
Hope you guys enjoyed this one. Let me know your thoughts in the comments below!
- Keshav
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Credits
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Naruto: The Last Movie OST - no copyright infringement is intended. Used purely for educational/transformative purposes. If you want it taken down/any issues please get in touch at support@keshavbhatt.com!
Outro - Evil Twin Records - Wild Thing
CC-A licence used for all other clips.

Learn how to get over death of a loved one & deal with grief.
Click here to subscribe for more useful videos like this: http://bit.ly/2kKvbSH
More inspiration & resources: https://www.keshavbhatt.com
Death & loss of a loved one is something we will all experience at some point in our lives. Learning to let go of someone close to you, and dealing with grief, sadness and loss is tough.
How do you do it? Especially when your emotions are so intense?
It's not something school ever really teaches you is it?
Maybe you've even heard of the 7 stages of grief. But you still feel sad and angry and hurt.
What do you do?
1.) 2:41 - Tuesdays With Morrie
Morrie Schwartz talks about allowing yourself to completely feel the emotion, instead of pushing it away, and then after exhausting it, learning to let it go.
The truth is there is no step by step process here. Grief is going to be different for all of us, and won't be the same each time we experience it. Instead of seeing it like a step by step tick box exercise, imagine its like a clockface.
You will cycle through the emotions revolving around them and over time you will get better at dealing with these emotions.
2.) 4:15 - Emotional pain is like physical pain
Emotional loss and pain triggers the same pain receptors in your brain as breaking your leg or losing a limb
So if you lost your leg - how long would it take to heal? Imagine the same process, but for your emotional pain. You're going to need to take things a bit slower, and put your energy into healing properly and dealing with the new challenges you face day to day.
3.) 5:23 - You Can't Control Your Emotions, Only Manage Them
Your feelings are going to come and go, and trying to ignore or suppress them through willpower won't work. Work by Psychologist Steve Peters shows that the part of the brain responsible for emotions is more powerful than the one for logic & rationality.
Imagine your emotions are like a little chimp. And it's angry and upset. You can't defeat it because it's stronger than you and less intelligent. So when you feel sad, imagine you're dealing with a baby chimp that's sad. How would you deal with it then? Ignoring it won't work. It will just scream louder.
You have to acknowledge it, and express it and be patient with it. So that part of your brain feels heard and cared for.
4.) 7:03 - Learn Your Own Mortality
Use this experience to learn how precious life is and how fragile it is. Being mindful of the fact that its all going to end, helps you be more focused on what's really important.
When we experience death, that's the deeper truth we're facing. The lesson of impermanence. Things are uncertain, random, and not permanent.
Can we learn to be fully present, not hold back and still be able to be detached and free from our own need for certainty? Balance is key.
5.) Become Their Legacy
When a person dies, they leave behind all their dreams and aims for the future. And we can use this experience to learn from the way they lived their lives and the example they set to follow.
What did they stand for? What was there to learn from them?
Use these lessons and become their legacy.
Hope you guys enjoyed this one. Let me know your thoughts in the comments below!
- Keshav
Get In Touch
Credits
---
Naruto: The Last Movie OST - no copyright infringement is intended. Used purely for educational/transformative purposes. If you want it taken down/any issues please get in touch at support@keshavbhatt.com!
Outro - Evil Twin Records - Wild Thing
CC-A licence used for all other clips.

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Cast: Dwiki R. Oktava and Grief.
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Director & Editor: Bimantara Septianto
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Director of Photography: Rizky Mahen
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Art Director: Welle Pewe
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Recorded at Depthbase Studio & Septian Yusuf Studio
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Mixed & Mastered by Hamzah Ir
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"Blight" Lyrics:
Lay me off in the silence
Watch through despair that I have finally let you go
Found balance in ruins, but not enough to bring us through
Buried in resent, but I have finally learnt to let go
A blight on my happiness, you were dead the entire time
Disappointed by our own intentions
Unable to find a purpose and roaming aimlessly
Steer me not towards into uncertain things
Illuminate this room so I can feel your presence
Carried on only to find myself more lost than ever
Force me to make peace with the fact that it happened and grow
Direction always misunderstood, we were keep circling the same drain
Never let me in again, because once you do I always ask for more
Found balance in ruins, but not enough to bring us through
Buried in resent, but I have finally learnt to let go

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Director of Photography: Rizky Mahen
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"Blight" Lyrics:
Lay me off in the silence
Watch through despair that I have finally let you go
Found balance in ruins, but not enough to bring us through
Buried in resent, but I have finally learnt to let go
A blight on my happiness, you were dead the entire time
Disappointed by our own intentions
Unable to find a purpose and roaming aimlessly
Steer me not towards into uncertain things
Illuminate this room so I can feel your presence
Carried on only to find myself more lost than ever
Force me to make peace with the fact that it happened and grow
Direction always misunderstood, we were keep circling the same drain
Never let me in again, because once you do I always ask for more
Found balance in ruins, but not enough to bring us through
Buried in resent, but I have finally learnt to let go

Rob Delaney on grief and the loss of his son Henry - The Russell Howard Hour

Russell sits down to chat with the BAFTA winning star of Catastrophe, comedian and actor Rob Delaney about grief and the loss of his son Henry.
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Russell sits down to chat with the BAFTA winning star of Catastrophe, comedian and actor Rob Delaney about grief and the loss of his son Henry.
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Lost in Loss: A Window into the Grieving Brain | Zoe Donaldson | TEDxBoulder

When faced with the loss of a loved one, most of us grieve normally and reach a point where we can reengage with life. However, for 1 in 10 bereaved people, thi...

When faced with the loss of a loved one, most of us grieve normally and reach a point where we can reengage with life. However, for 1 in 10 bereaved people, this process goes awry, and their mourning is stalled. Dr. Zoe Donaldson asks: How does your brain heal itself when you lose someone? And how can we help those who are lost in their loss? Dr. Zoe Donaldson is an Assistant Professor at the University of Colorado Boulder. She joined the faculty after completing a Ph.D. in Neuroscience from Emory University and pursuing post-doctoral training at Columbia University. She studies how close social bonds, such as those that mediate friendships and romantic love, are encoded in the brain. In order to understand the cells and molecules that make bonding possible, her lab uses monogamous prairie voles. Unlike rats and mice, these rodents forms lifelong pair bonds between mates akin to human romantic partnerships. By examining the neurobiology underlying these bonds and what happens when they are lost, she hopes to identify novel treatments for psychiatric and neurodevelopmental disorders. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at https://www.ted.com/tedx

When faced with the loss of a loved one, most of us grieve normally and reach a point where we can reengage with life. However, for 1 in 10 bereaved people, this process goes awry, and their mourning is stalled. Dr. Zoe Donaldson asks: How does your brain heal itself when you lose someone? And how can we help those who are lost in their loss? Dr. Zoe Donaldson is an Assistant Professor at the University of Colorado Boulder. She joined the faculty after completing a Ph.D. in Neuroscience from Emory University and pursuing post-doctoral training at Columbia University. She studies how close social bonds, such as those that mediate friendships and romantic love, are encoded in the brain. In order to understand the cells and molecules that make bonding possible, her lab uses monogamous prairie voles. Unlike rats and mice, these rodents forms lifelong pair bonds between mates akin to human romantic partnerships. By examining the neurobiology underlying these bonds and what happens when they are lost, she hopes to identify novel treatments for psychiatric and neurodevelopmental disorders. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at https://www.ted.com/tedx

We don't "move on" from grief. We move forward with it | Nora McInerny

In a talk that's by turns heartbreaking and hilarious, writer and podcaster Nora McInerny shares her hard-earned wisdom about life and death. Her candid approach to something that will, let's face it, affect us all, is as liberating as it is gut-wrenching. Most powerfully, she encourages us to shift how we approach grief. "A grieving person is going to laugh again and smile again," she says. "They're going to move forward. But that doesn't mean that they've moved on."
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GRIEF - Burial (OFFICIAL MUSIC VIDEO)

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Song: Burial
Album: Single (2019)
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Lyrics:
So I could be lost
So I could be insane
Well I am morose
Well I am not safe
So I could be death
Or I was the rope
Wrapped around my neck
I wish I was hope
And I sleep for days
In hope that I can fade
Cause I can hear your name
But it's something I can't place
So I could be lost
So I could be insane
Well I am morose
Well I am not safe
So I could be death
Or I was the rope
Wrapped around my neck
I wish I was hope
So I could be wrong
So could be to blame
Or I'm just a ghost
And you won't call my name
I know that you're misplaced
Cause you were death
Coursing through my veins
(I should’ve buried you)
I wish you never left
And maybe I would stop wanting to kill myself
If your apathy had left, then maybe it would help
And I could find some sleep in this place called hell
In a bed we reside, darling I can tell
Our love will never bloom
Only rot in the wake
In an obituary of moments that you would then take
And burn as you did with my hearts remains
It was never meant to break
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Produced, mixed and mastered by
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Earl Sweatshirt - Grief (Video)

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This is Complicated Grief | Kati Morton

The important thing to know about grief, is that while it can feel awful, it is a healthy adaptive process of healing. It’s just your brain’s way of making sense of the loss and it helps us to learn what we value and leads us to reach out for comfort and relationship. So in a way grief is really just a helpful tool for processing the loss.
Complicated grief on the other hand, can feel similar to grief, but it is in fact, very different from it. While grief is an adaptive process of making sense of a loss, complicated grief is actually a disruption of the grief process - it keeps you from processing a loss (it’s like a road block). Grief involves positive feelings and memories, and complicated grief generally makes it tough to be able to access the memory or loss in a way that enables you to have positive and honoring feelings. Also, grief is a reaction to losing something you value, complicated grief is a reaction to a negative narrative or cognition you have that has been surfaced by some element of the loss. Meaning that complicated grief is born out of a negative belief or experience that’s attached to the loss. It could be a negative belief we have about ourselves, or possibly the relationship we had with the person who has passed away or is no longer in our lives. Instead of processing the loss, Complicated Grief keeps us stuck in the process, unable to do the healing work of grieving.
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The Grieving Process: Coping with Death

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The journey through loss and grief | Jason B. Rosenthal

In her brutally honest, ironically funny and widely read meditation on death, "You May Want to Marry My Husband," the late author and filmmaker Amy Krouse Rosenthal gave her husband Jason very public permission to move on and find happiness. A year after her death, Jason offers candid insights on the often excruciating process of moving through and with loss -- as well as some quiet wisdom for anyone else experiencing life-changing grief.
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When Someone You Love Dies,There Is No Such Thing as Moving On | Kelley Lynn | TEDxAdelphiUniversity

Her proudest accomplishment continues to be when she was blocked on Twitter by President Donald Trump. Lynn has a B.F.A. in Theatre from Adelphi University, where she went on to teach courses in acting and stand-up comedy for the past 16 years. You can see more of her work at ripthelifeiknew.com.
Stand-up comedian, actor and writer Kelley Lynn has performed in the same lineups with Amy Schumer, Jim Gaffigan and Elayne Boosler. Lynn is probably best known for her comedy videos on YouTube; her most recent video, “I’ve McFallen,” has been viewed over 50 million times worldwide. She’s also known for her scathingly funny TV reviews of shows like “The Bachelor” and “Dancing with the Stars.” The latter show’s host, Tom Bergeron, tweeted that Lynn was “witty and wonderfully snarky.”
Lynn is also a regular presenter at the “Soaring Spirits International” annual events called “Camp Widow,” a three-day conference held in the U.S. and Canada for widowed men and women. She is currently writing her first book, My Husband Is Not a Rainbow: The Brutally Awful, Hilarious Truth About Life, Love, Grief, and Loss, with a tentative release date of winter 2017. Her proudest accomplishment continues to be when she was blocked on Twitter by President Donald Trump. Lynn has a B.F.A. in Theatre from Adelphi University, where she went on to teach courses in acting and stand-up comedy for the past 16 years. You can see more of her work at ripthelifeiknew.com.
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How do you help a grieving friend?

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It's so hard to know what to do when your friends are hurting. The thing is, you can't cheer someone up by telling them to look on the bright side, or by giving them advice. It just doesn't work. Watch this video to learn the one thing that will improve all of your "I'm here for you" intentions, and be that supportive friend you most want to be.
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Grief is something that nearly all of us will experience but it's something that most of us find difficult to talk about. This week on Like Minds, we find out what grief is, that it's very individual for all of us and why you don't have to "get over" it.
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5 Powerful Ways To Deal With Death, Grief & Loss

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Death & loss of a loved one is something we will all experience at some point in our lives. Learning to let go of someone close to you, and dealing with grief, sadness and loss is tough.
How do you do it? Especially when your emotions are so intense?
It's not something school ever really teaches you is it?
Maybe you've even heard of the 7 stages of grief. But you still feel sad and angry and hurt.
What do you do?
1.) 2:41 - Tuesdays With Morrie
Morrie Schwartz talks about allowing yourself to completely feel the emotion, instead of pushing it away, and then after exhausting it, learning to let it go.
The truth is there is no step by step process here. Grief is going to be different for all of us, and won't be the same each time we experience it. Instead of seeing it like a step by step tick box exercise, imagine its like a clockface.
You will cycle through the emotions revolving around them and over time you will get better at dealing with these emotions.
2.) 4:15 - Emotional pain is like physical pain
Emotional loss and pain triggers the same pain receptors in your brain as breaking your leg or losing a limb
So if you lost your leg - how long would it take to heal? Imagine the same process, but for your emotional pain. You're going to need to take things a bit slower, and put your energy into healing properly and dealing with the new challenges you face day to day.
3.) 5:23 - You Can't Control Your Emotions, Only Manage Them
Your feelings are going to come and go, and trying to ignore or suppress them through willpower won't work. Work by Psychologist Steve Peters shows that the part of the brain responsible for emotions is more powerful than the one for logic & rationality.
Imagine your emotions are like a little chimp. And it's angry and upset. You can't defeat it because it's stronger than you and less intelligent. So when you feel sad, imagine you're dealing with a baby chimp that's sad. How would you deal with it then? Ignoring it won't work. It will just scream louder.
You have to acknowledge it, and express it and be patient with it. So that part of your brain feels heard and cared for.
4.) 7:03 - Learn Your Own Mortality
Use this experience to learn how precious life is and how fragile it is. Being mindful of the fact that its all going to end, helps you be more focused on what's really important.
When we experience death, that's the deeper truth we're facing. The lesson of impermanence. Things are uncertain, random, and not permanent.
Can we learn to be fully present, not hold back and still be able to be detached and free from our own need for certainty? Balance is key.
5.) Become Their Legacy
When a person dies, they leave behind all their dreams and aims for the future. And we can use this experience to learn from the way they lived their lives and the example they set to follow.
What did they stand for? What was there to learn from them?
Use these lessons and become their legacy.
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Grief. - Blight (Official Music Video)

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Cast: Dwiki R. Oktava and Grief.
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Director & Editor: Bimantara Septianto
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Director of Photography: Rizky Mahen
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Art Director: Welle Pewe
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Recorded at Depthbase Studio & Septian Yusuf Studio
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https://instagram.com/septianysf
Mixed & Mastered by Hamzah Ir
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__________________________________________________________________
"Blight" Lyrics:
Lay me off in the silence
Watch through despair that I have finally let you go
Found balance in ruins, but not enough to bring us through
Buried in resent, but I have finally learnt to let go
A blight on my happiness, you were dead the entire time
Disappointed by our own intentions
Unable to find a purpose and roaming aimlessly
Steer me not towards into uncertain things
Illuminate this room so I can feel your presence
Carried on only to find myself more lost than ever
Force me to make peace with the fact that it happened and grow
Direction always misunderstood, we were keep circling the same drain
Never let me in again, because once you do I always ask for more
Found balance in ruins, but not enough to bring us through
Buried in resent, but I have finally learnt to let go

Rob Delaney on grief and the loss of his son Henry - The Russell Howard Hour

Russell sits down to chat with the BAFTA winning star of Catastrophe, comedian and actor Rob Delaney about grief and the loss of his son Henry.
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Lost in Loss: A Window into the Grieving Brain | Zoe Donaldson | TEDxBoulder

When faced with the loss of a loved one, most of us grieve normally and reach a point where we can reengage with life. However, for 1 in 10 bereaved people, this process goes awry, and their mourning is stalled. Dr. Zoe Donaldson asks: How does your brain heal itself when you lose someone? And how can we help those who are lost in their loss? Dr. Zoe Donaldson is an Assistant Professor at the University of Colorado Boulder. She joined the faculty after completing a Ph.D. in Neuroscience from Emory University and pursuing post-doctoral training at Columbia University. She studies how close social bonds, such as those that mediate friendships and romantic love, are encoded in the brain. In order to understand the cells and molecules that make bonding possible, her lab uses monogamous prairie voles. Unlike rats and mice, these rodents forms lifelong pair bonds between mates akin to human romantic partnerships. By examining the neurobiology underlying these bonds and what happens when they are lost, she hopes to identify novel treatments for psychiatric and neurodevelopmental disorders. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at https://www.ted.com/tedx

Grief

Grief is a multifaceted response to loss, particularly to the loss of someone or something that has died, to which a bond or affection was formed. Although conventionally focused on the emotional response to loss, it also has physical, cognitive, behavioral, social, and philosophical dimensions. While the terms are often used interchangeably, bereavement refers to the state of loss, and grief is the reaction to loss.

Grief is a natural response to loss. It is the emotional suffering one feels when something or someone the individual loves is taken away. Grief is also a reaction to any loss. The grief associated with death is familiar to most people, but individuals grieve in connection with a variety of losses throughout their lives, such as unemployment, ill health or the end of a relationship. Loss can be categorized as either physical or abstract, the physical loss being related to something that the individual can touch or measure, such as losing a spouse through death, while other types of loss are abstract, and relate to aspects of a person’s social interactions.

William has in the past described his grief as “pain like no other pain.''. The prince appeared in a program meant to start a discussion on mental health using soccer as the vehicle for discussion ... of the rawest forms of grief because you’re left with so many unanswered questions....

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