Stop complaining about ads and expecting free stuff. That's just stupid. If you want to enjoy this stuff someone has to pay people to do the work. You can pay with money or a millisecond of your attention. I'd rather it be this way. Don't be so entitled.

My husband is 8 1/2 years younger than me, we use to work together I was his boss we started out as good friends ... 15 years together , 11 years of marriage 1 beautiful brilliant daughter ... I asked him out were very happy ... I say go for it!!!!

Guys I'm so conflicted. there is this guy thats 2 years younger than me who i have known for about 2 years now. Every time we meet i am torn because i love him but i cannot tell him because it might ruin our friendship. He is my basketball bud and we play 1 on 1. We used to be closer. We would try to steal the ball away from each other, then fall over. We would have the best time, but since we had such a close bond full of touching and fun i kind of started to feel differently about him. I am confused. What can i do to prevent making things awkward between us. This question has been hurting me for months.

A guy in my class used to do some of these to me. Like talk to me smile at me. And look at my leggings, idk what that means, but after talking a lot in class we got in trouble and now he isn't talking to me. I don't know if he is mad or lost intrest.

Hi, I started seeing a guy from work (we'd both just come out of break ups). We called it being friends with benefits, but it's way more than just sex, he cooks dinner, we spend quite a lot of time together just hanging out etc. my problem is that this has been going on for 2 years now - I've fallen for him but he sends so many mixed signals I've no idea if he's fallen for me - any ideas anyone?!

What if he does all those things except for actually tell you those 3 little words? The closest thing he's gotten to "I love you" is sending me Youtube links to songs that have love in the title or are about love

Denise

Awww.... That's wonderful, Penny! Thank you sharing that with us.

Penny

Great advice. I love being in love what a wonderful feeling. I am truely blessed with a terrific man that came into my life 4mo ago
He is my diamond

Ahmed

@april, I rong wthe you

Anonymous

I read this not to long ago. My guy friend who I have known forever told me he loved me. Now it's just weird. It's like he read this article or somthing.

Anonymous

Muy life is just like yours. Same situation. I fell for him. I guess he didn't love me. It sucks dosent it.

Anonymous

then why did he tell you he loved you

Heather

Hi Jennifer! I don't know if that is necessarily true for every guy, a lot of guys are pretty great throughout the entire relationship. :)

Jennifer

Most guys are only good on the beginning of first few months of dating. And after that they get comfortable their real true color show .

Heather

Hey Esther! How does he act around you? Does he constantly touch you, flirt with you and really just try to be around you? Those are all signs that he likes you -- he might not love you yet though. That takes time.

Esther

Can't realy tell if its crush or real love he has for me, how do i know what he want? cos i dont wanna get hurt.

Nikki

How often do marriages end in divorce and then they marry each other again? What are the top 10 reasons that cause this type of marriage/divorce/re-marriage?

Anonymous

If really really want this guy, you need to switch things up. Say hi and be sweet. Keep conversation to a minimum- work related topics only if youre strong enough. Do NOT make time for him- like planning your breaks around when he takes his. If you seem like you like him but you're not the least but interested in doing a thing about it and carry on with your own agenda he will get out of that box and come and get you. If you successfully do this and he still doesn't come for you,move on.

Hey diane,
It does sound like he likes you more than just a friend. Maybe he didn't want to tell your friend how he felt. Maybe he's not sure how you feel. I think you need to show him how you feel and that may nudge him in the right direction. Be more flirtatious and treat him like he's more than a friend. If it seems to creep him out, back off but you'll never find out unless you try.
Thanks for stopping by!

diane

I have a guy friend who always does this things..except he doesnt say"I love you" to me. He is Chinese. He sent me a lot of gift, takes care of me while I was sick, listen to me, cook for me. then my best friend asks him if he likes me and he said " he doesnt like me" we are just friend. I guess i dont want to ask him, coz i already know the answer

anonymous

I've read this post and realized that things are definitely more complicated than this. I have been with my current boyfriend for almost a decade now, and my best friend just as long. My boyfriend and I have always had issues with our relationship including problems with trust, intimacy, and he has never been someone I could turn to for emotional support. I know these are major issues but we both feel like we've invested way too much in this relationship to end it. He is unaware and never suspected anything between my best friend and I. Now about my best friend, we talk on a daily basis about anything and everything. Sometimes I feel like I am emotionally cheating on my boyfriend with my bestest. It's just that my boyfriend lacks the patience to even listen where as my bestest is always curious and always want to know more. The thing stopping my best friend and I from progressing is that he does not want anything to do with marriage. Pretty much he has seen his parents struggle and would never want to get himself involved with marriage or any commital relationship for the matter. I, however, see myself ready and prepared for marriage in 1 or 2 years. My boyfriend also sees himself as my future husband. I am in a very complex situation...

Anonymous

I hate how they can look into our eyes and lie.

Sheila

Hey!
Welcome to All Women Stalk! Aren't mixed signals the worst?! Did his last relationship end on a bad note? Have you ever found out why he doesn't believe in dating? He may like you but I'm not sure if he's going to change his mind about dating considering he hasn't in 14 years! Having said that, I'm not sure if it's worth holding on to him simply because I don't know if it's going to lead to something substantial. Maybe you should tell him how you feel. If it's obvious to others how you feel, it probably is to him as well. Maybe he just needs to hear it.
Good luck Smurfina!

Anonymous

Am falling in love with my co-worker.....he sends me mixed signals, one day he is all over me, giving me attention, compliments etc etc....the next day he is cold as ice...he hasn`t dated anyone for 14yrs and says that he has o intention of doing so....but I get the feeling that he really does care for me, but is scared of falling in love...I know I am! I`ve subtly asked him how he feels and he only gives me mixed answers....I havent told him that am in love with him, hinted yes...and i know pple can see that I am in love with him.....damn i feel so miserable! Smurfina

Anonymous

My boyfriend of 4 years is a workaholic. He puts his job before everything and everyone. I thought after all these years he would have changed since he keeps saying that I am the one for him. Sometimes I can feel that he loves me other times I have no idea what's going on. Should I break up with him. After all this time I don't think there should be anymore doubts about where we stand in this relationship.

Anonymous

I need help. I've been with that guy for 4 years. He keeps saying he loves me. But his actions don't match his words. We met each others family and all. But I still can't tell if he really loves me.

Sheila

Hey Lauren,
Welcome to AWS! Well, I don't think you've lost your friend just yet. I'm guessing this whole situation is probably confusing for him and I think he took a good call by not coming over. Who knows what would have happened in your vulnerable state and I know you're stuck in a marriage that you probably don't want to be in but cheating wouldn't have helped the situation at all. A little space from your friend is probably good for you. You need to first figure out things with your husband. Are you guys trying to work things out or have you'll decided to go your separate ways? You can't let things continue the way they are because noone's going to be happy and that's just not what a marriage should be. When you're done figuring out what you want to do with your husband, then you can figure out your friend situation.
Good luck!

Halle

cute

Sheila

Absolutely not! That's an awful idea and you should just let him and hi fiance be. Plenty of fish in the sea!

Anonymous

Jessi
Try to prove this to your mum but just remember try not to fall out with her over it she's your mum

Anonymous

To April
April you and him haven't mown each other that long take it from someone who started dating someone not long after they met and are now broken up

Anonymous

Great advice but the boy I like is engaded he shouldn't be should I tell him

Lauren

Ok, so I have zero clue who to talk about this so I guess strangers on the Internet will do. Here is my situation. I've been married for three years and I have a kid. Recently though my husband and I have been having some of what I would call irreconcilable differences. When all this started I called up my best friend in the world, who happens to be a guy. Before we were friends we spent a week flirting with one another, but before he asked me out my husband did. Since my friend never made a move I just assumed that he was just being friendly with me, and I let it go. Well now I'm three years into my marriage and with all the problems we have been having I just had to call my friend. He has been through a divorce as well, so aside from him being my best friend I knew he would understand where I was coming from. So as I was talking to him about all this, he out of the blue says "I want you to know that I was hitting on you hard the week before you started seeing your husband." I had no idea how to respond to this. I have had feelings for him since the day we met; but since he didn't make a move I assumed he just wanted to be friends. Now that I'm having all these major problems with my husband all these feelings are coming back even stronger. And then today I had a particularly bad experience with my husband so I texted my friend and asked him if I could come over. He replied "I don't know if that's a good idea. I think it will look bad". I asked him who would it look bad for and he just replied "It will just look bad ok?" so my heart started breaking because not only am I in a loveless marriage, but my best friend won't even talk to me about it. He's the only person in the world I trust to talk about something so intamite as marital problems. So I apologized and told him I'm sorry if I crossed a boundary of our friendship. He said that 'we were cool' and that's the last I've heard of him. We usually talk off and on all day. It now he hasn't said two words to me. So now I feel like I'm losing my husband and my best friend. What do I do? How do I get my friend back, he means so much to me...

Denise

Hi Courtney. Welcome to All Women Stalk!
If you both want to be together, then I do think that the relationship is worth saving. But both of you have to figure out the problems of the relationship, and then commit to working on them.

Denise

Hello there. Welcome to All Women Stalk!
It's definitely better to tell him rather than him finding out from other people. And if you want to flit with him, then do it. There's a chance that he doesn't like you, BUT there's also a chance that he does.

Anonymous

theres this guy at my school, and i really like him and all but im not sure if he likes me back. i havnt told him, should i tell him or should i wait until he finds out by people talking about it? and should i flirt with him even though there is a chance that he doesnt like me like that? and i realy really wanna go out with this guy.

Courtney/Chelsie

my boyfriend does all of these things. or atleast he used to. my bf and i are passing notes but we arent aloud to see each other. and well lets cut to the chase. im in love with him but since what happened to me in the past, i test everything. no kidding. and now since i didnt realize he was in love with me i made a huge mistake. the huge mistake is i tested our relationship constantly, always getting us into fights. and i kinda well lied to him. but he just wrote me a note stating "i might break up with u" he wants to be with me and everything but he doesnt think its a good idea for us to still be together because of all the things we get into because of me, oh and he says alll the fights r his fault. and well i dont know what to do. is the relationship worth saving? is there still hope? is there still time? what do i do? im in love with him, and i want to be with him and everything. and hes the first guy i ever dated that actually treats/treated me right. help!

soniaa

hey..i like some one but he doesnt no tht i like him or not..

Jessi

** she never wanna listen to what I have to say

Jessi

Thanks but what if she don't believe us and makes us break up or something ! I can't lose this boy he means the world to me ! :( my Moma is really strict when it comes to boys ! She ever wanna listen to what I have to say !

Sheila

Hi Jessi,
Welcome to All Women Stalk!
Well sweetie, you need to be honest about things with your mom, maybe make an agreement that the boyfriend and you will abstain from sex as long as you can spend time dating each other. I hope she can give you two a shot :)

Jessi

My Moma says I'm to young for love ( I'm 14 hes 16 ) so we have to hide every thing we do together . She just thinks all he wants sex but he isn't like that ! How do I get her to understand and acutally like him and know he s not like that and that we're really in love ? ! Help me please !

Sheila

Sometimes it's better to take your time to say these things. At least then you know that you mean it instead of it being something you said just because. :)
I wish you both tons of luck! Keep reading.

Anonymous

Omg I love this article, book marked it too!
When you actually take the time to reflect on whether your significant other has all these qualities as whether or not he displays them for the right reasons or not it becomes so much clearer.
My boyfriend and I are pretty young (16&amp;17) but I know he loves me and I love him back.
And we waited a while to say it because we were not sure but now I am just positive :)

Denise

Hey Bethany. It's great to see you on All Women Stalk!
Do you and Chase talk? Are you friends? If not, then you should consider introducing yourself to him. Talk to him more so that you can get to know each other better.

Bethany

I like somebody 2. His name is Chase. He keeps on looing at me. I stil don't really know if he likes me though.

Sara

If you don't like him then...oh, I don't know...srry.

Sara

Cool. are you going out yet? if yes, then congrats!

Denise

Awwww.... Thank you for sharing your story, Shelby. I hope that you will have a happy relationship with him.
Keep reading All Women Stalk!

Shelby

This is amazing! I've been talking to this guy for months now, and we just started dating. All of the things on your list have been completely accurate to my relationship with him, except him telling me he loves me, because we just started dating. I've always been worried [due to a previous relationship where my heart was broken] that it's not possible for guys to fall for a girl like we fall for them. However, after reading this, I'm really not worried anymore. Thanks!

Anonymous

haha hey thanks a lot ....maybe i'll talk to him....wat would u do?

Denise

Hey. Welcome to All Women Stalk!
Just talk to him and get to know each other. Maybe he's changed since then.... And don't feel pathetic. You just like him.

Anonymous

hey i have a crush on a bad boy ....actuallly playboy...i really like him...i used 2 crush on him but tat was b4 he had a girlfriend which was 2 years ago....now he 's single n says hey to me everytime he sees me....tat's all he did n i liked him....i really wish 2 ignore him n im trying but it seems harder than i thought,wat can i say...teenagers...i feel so pathetic...need advice

Denise

Hey hun. Don't allow someone to play with your feelings. Who does he think he is anyway? Just ignore him and don't pay any attention to the things he's doing and saying.
Thanks for stopping by. I hope to hear from you again!

bobo

in my sons class there is a teacher who always stares at me why

Anonymous

my ex did all the stuff on top and still broke up with me for some other girl....from one day to another....now a bit more tham a month later he suddenly is all over me again...just after i heard that another guy really likes me....i never told him that.....i still like him but i guess i wont go back with him in a relationship cause he really hurt me a lot even when we were still dating.....just dont know what to think about all hes doing....huggin me wanting to know whats going on in my life etc....it just weird :S

hirah

but its hurt like hell...!!!!

hirah

i wann that person but how? i don't know ...... he always shows me attitude... plzZzzZzz advice me how should i'll be? i wann that person by heart..... :(

hirah

but til nao i don't know that he love me

Denise

Hey there. That's a really romantic story.... But to be honest, I'm kind of glad that nothing aside from that kiss happened between both of you. He has a girlfriend that he sorta cheated on and it's kind of hard to imagine how he would treat you.
Thank you for visiting AWS!

Anonymous

While studying abroad I became friends with a guy I thought was hot in the beginning...as the semester went by we spent a lot of time together and traveled together and people would always ask if we were a couple despite the fact that he had a girlfriend in his country plus our friends in our group of friends thought there was at least a spark between us....I always wondered why he got so jealous when I would be with other guys and in my mind we were friends and I only saw him that way...so in the end when we said goodbye he revealed his true feelings and I realized I felt the same way when I realized I would not see him again....at least for a while....then as I was about to catch a bus to leave the city he kissed me goodbye and told me he loved me...

Denise

Hey Virus. It's great to see you on AWS!
Yes, it does sound like you are seriously infatuated with him. But does it really what I think you feel? You know yourself better than I do....

virus

guys there is a guy i think about him and smile and when i listen him and he responces me i get nervous and excited and nervous and i talk about him mostly and dream about him before i sleep so what is it???? and i know him for 2 and half years .........so is it just an infactuation?????????

virus

i think you should pay him less attention becuz once somebody losses his or her precious things then they actually realize .....try it

Sheila

Hi Shauna,
Long distance relationships are hard no doubt you can definitely make things work. Here are a few posts to help you:
http://allwomenstalk.com/10-ways-to-make-long-distance-relationship-work/
http://allwomenstalk.com/7-ways-to-add-some-spice-into-a-long-distance-relationship/
Good luck to both of you! :)

Shauna

I've been dating an amazing guy for almost six months now. It started out as a close relationship since I lived within a half hour radius of him, but then I had to go downstate to college. Things have been rough, and he's had all of my firsts, too. I'm a shy kind of person, and don't take relationship stuff lightly and it's why I waited so long before I found someone I really liked. Unfortunately, now I'm very attached and I was wondering if anyone might have some advice that might help me make this easier on myself. He's had relationships before me, so he's not as strained as I am. Would love some insight. Thanks!

rheanna

I would sleep or just simply lay there forever raped in his arms if i could I WUV U

rheanna

i love thinking about him "thinking of his voice " puts me to sleep . in the nightmares he protects me even if it mean dieing to do it one dream he died to save me i sat by him holding his hand and i dident let go through the whole dream. I just layed there silent "closed my eyes and layed with him until i woke up". I would die for him if it ment protecting him . i will alwest love u &lt;3 STEVEN &lt;3!!!!
THANK YOU FOR READING.

i'm in a long distance relationship and we habe been talking for over six months now and we really like each other. he is a vegan and i'm not.he's an atheist and im a christian.we are so different but we get along so well. he has told me that he cares for me and that he feels close to me but he hasn't said that he loves me yet. i haven't said it to him either but i have strong feelings for him. we talk for hours almost every night and he really seems to enjoy communicating with me. how can i tell if he feels as strongly as i do about our relationship?

joseline

just ask him hey can i talk to you in pravite pleas

april

im in love with one of my best guy friends he knows i like him but i want him to notice me like he notice's other girls how do i do that

Denise

Hi Raine. Welcome to All Women Stalk!
So you've never had a decent conversation with him before? Maybe these posts will provide you with some useful tips:
http://allwomenstalk.com/12-best-ways-to-improve-your-self-confidence/
http://allwomenstalk.com/8-tips-on-approaching-someone-you-like/
http://allwomenstalk.com/15-ways-to-start-a-conversation-with-a-guy-you-like/
Don't hesitate to write back if you have questions or if you are in need of support.

Raine

I have been inlove with this guy for about 4 years now....he STILL doesn't notice me i mean our parents are close friends but when it comes to parties and when he is there i feel like im invisible because im a REALLY shy girl..so all I do is sit outside or in a corner and just think......I really love him....any advice?

Anonymous

guys, helpme with this. first of all, I met this guy 3 years ago, i had a crush on him but it stopped. but then on this 4th yr., he asked me out on a movie, we had fun, and texts each other, but he stopped texting me, and so do i. and now, i miss him.. after that, my best friend had broke up with his boy friend.. his boy friend and the guy i like our friends.. and so my best friend. and now, the guy i like texts my best friend..im lost. and im sad, i always think of him at night and it hurts me. what am i suppose to do and what do uthink of this situation im in.

Helena

OMG!! that's exactly the same with me! my best friends and i were walking together and having a conversation and everyone started to think we were going out! Thank goodness someone's in the same situation.

Sheila

Ugh. That really sucks! I guess there's no dearth of jerks out there huh? I'm so sorry.

Anonymous

He did ALL of these things, but turned out he was engaged to be married in less than a month!