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“People get scared when you try to do something, especially when it looks like you’re succeeding. People do not get scared when you’re failing. It calms them. But when you’re winning, it makes them feel like they’re losing or, worse yet, that maybe they should’ve tried to do something too, but now it’s too late. And since they didn’t, they want to stop you. You can’t let them.”

~Mindy Kaling

Mindy Kaling is one of my favorite celebrites. Not that long ago, I read her book Is Everyone Hanging Out Without Me? however, this quote is from her book Why Not Me? which is on my Christmas list. I honestly looked up “mindy kaling is everyone hanging out without me quotes” and this came up even though it’s from her second book, but it still spoke to me. I really agree with this quote, everyone is threatened by everyone, it’s because of who we are as a species.

I know that I will start a competition with everyone in my head. …Okay not everyone, but there are a few people where I just do this and I can’t help it, that’s why it’s my internal battle. It’s one of those things where I try not to do because I think it’s bad, but I still do it.

I think that once you start gaining success more people will start to do this with you. People are threatened by success, there is this belief that as soon as someone else starts to gain success there is less for you to gain, which is completely and utterly untrue. I struggle with this, I just have to keep in mind that just because someone is doing better than you, it doesn’t mean that their success will stop you from gaining success too.

Like she writes, their jealousness of your success does not mean you should stop your success. It’s going to let people plow right over you. Beware that people will be jealous of your success and will try to stop it.

6 thoughts on “3 Days 3 Quotes Challenge: Day 2”

You chose a good quote and I honestly get what you’re saying. I hate to admit it, but I sometimes compare myself to others. I try not to let it make me jealous though or angry. I know that I have my own struggles and that I’m working through them and I try to be happy for those doing things that they want to do and that makes them happy.

This is a great quote. I believe that most things are accessible to most people, it’s fear that keeps people from obtaining it. When other people have success it should be an indicator that we can succeed too, but sadly, it just brings out our own insecurity.