Why is it rare to see white men and black women together ?

My girlfriend is a smoking hot, half black, half spanish (puerto rican) bombshell.. I consider myself an average looking, yet probably pretty attractive (due to personality traits) white guy.. We live in South Florida.. She is from NYC and I am from chicago.. We RARELY get the bi-racial bullshit, but when we do, I quickly lay down the law.. It is probably a bit different down here than many other places, but whatever.. I love her, she loves me; that's all that matters.. She cannot stand the vast majority of black guys, and even though her father is black, he's basically racist from embarassment of the way most blacks act.. Point being, color is not the issue.. Manners, respect, and personality is what count.. We are both well educated, humorous, personable, and wouldn't have it any other way.. We party like crazy, yet we both have a deep understanding of knowledge, worldly affairs and are far from 'sheeple'.. Most people who assume, just assume she is black and not mixed race, and most assume we just are 'dating' and not serious due to the racial difference.. Just a bit of input on my behalf.. I dont particularly favor black women, but my girlfriend is mixed, as I said.. However, many black women actually prefer white men - but mostly this is only the case with intelligent and educated black women.. The majority of uneducated black or mixed women prefer black men because they are typically too ghetto to attract a decent white guy, and also because they do not WANT a decent white guy... FYI, I am NOT racist.. Just stating the facts..

Quoting: Slick Vick

Y'all sound like a cute couple! Well, she is half puerto rican. I bet she is smoking!(No homo). But I understand what you are saying. It has a lot to do with attitude and education.

It's not that rare anymore when you travel to diverse areas. I am mixed, and all I date is white guys. I usually date friends of friends, and I have dabbled in online dating. But I have noticed that when I'm out and about I never get hit on by white guys, it's mostly black guys.

Quoting: BeauifulBookworm

I usually get hit on by white guys more. Now, when I get hit on by black guys it is embarrassing. They usually yell"say Guh" I don't like gangsta or thugs. I thank God that my brothers are not thugs and my cousins are not thugs. All except one went to college and graduate or go to college. The one that didn't is married and has a kid, very hard worker. His wife is black and she is a pharmacist and going back to college next semester.

It's not that rare anymore when you travel to diverse areas. I am mixed, and all I date is white guys. I usually date friends of friends, and I have dabbled in online dating. But I have noticed that when I'm out and about I never get hit on by white guys, it's mostly black guys.

Quoting: BeauifulBookworm

I usually get hit on by white guys more. Now, when I get hit on by black guys it is embarrassing. They usually yell"say Guh" I don't like gangsta or thugs. I thank God that my brothers are not thugs and my cousins are not thugs. All except one went to college and graduate or go to college. The one that didn't is married and has a kid, very hard worker. His wife is black and she is a pharmacist and going back to college next semester.

Quoting: CigarTigher

Lucky you. I wish I got hit on by more white guys. I don't like gangsters or thugs either. I like dorks and nerds. Anyways you seem like a sweetheart, and are very pretty.

It's not that rare anymore when you travel to diverse areas. I am mixed, and all I date is white guys. I usually date friends of friends, and I have dabbled in online dating. But I have noticed that when I'm out and about I never get hit on by white guys, it's mostly black guys.

Quoting: BeauifulBookworm

I usually get hit on by white guys more. Now, when I get hit on by black guys it is embarrassing. They usually yell"say Guh" I don't like gangsta or thugs. I thank God that my brothers are not thugs and my cousins are not thugs. All except one went to college and graduate or go to college. The one that didn't is married and has a kid, very hard worker. His wife is black and she is a pharmacist and going back to college next semester.

Quoting: CigarTigher

Lucky you. I wish I got hit on by more white guys. I don't like gangsters or thugs either. I like dorks and nerds. Anyways you seem like a sweetheart, and are very pretty.

If a black girl is highly intelligent and cultivated, and her sisters and brothers are highly intelligent and cultivated, and the children of her sisters and brothers are highly intelligent and cultivated, then maybe I'd dare getting involved with that gene pool...

Otherwise, no chance in hell! A single thug or unruly little monster of a kid in the family, and I'm out!

The fact of the matter is, I absolutely cannot stand loud, rude, obnoxious people who are prone to abusive and violent behavior, and a substantial number of blacks just don't live up to my standards in that regard.

When it comes to physical attraction, black girls aren't entirely without their charms, even if they aren't my personal favorites. If you were to line up all women according to a gradient from the darkest black to the palest white, then I'd say the SEXIEST are the light brown ones, while the PRETTIEST are the medium white ones.

If a black girl is highly intelligent and cultivated, and her sisters and brothers are highly intelligent and cultivated, and the children of her sisters and brothers are highly intelligent and cultivated, then maybe I'd dare getting involved with that gene pool...

Otherwise, no chance in hell! A single thug or unruly little monster of a kid in the family, and I'm out!

The fact of the matter is, I absolutely cannot stand loud, rude, obnoxious people who are prone to abusive and violent behavior, and a substantial number of blacks just don't live up to my standards in that regard.

When it comes to physical attraction, black girls aren't entirely without their charms, even if they aren't my personal favorites. If you were to line up all women according to a gradient from the darkest black to the palest white, then I'd say the SEXIEST are the light brown ones, while the PRETTIEST are the medium white ones.

Quoting: Anonymous Coward 300884

Thanks goodness my brother has a degree and my other brother is going to school next semester and he is in the army. Thank goodnes my mom has a college education. Thank goodness most of the people in my family went to college and are not thugs.

It's not that rare anymore when you travel to diverse areas. I am mixed, and all I date is white guys. I usually date friends of friends, and I have dabbled in online dating. But I have noticed that when I'm out and about I never get hit on by white guys, it's mostly black guys.

Quoting: BeauifulBookworm

I usually get hit on by white guys more. Now, when I get hit on by black guys it is embarrassing. They usually yell"say Guh" I don't like gangsta or thugs. I thank God that my brothers are not thugs and my cousins are not thugs. All except one went to college and graduate or go to college. The one that didn't is married and has a kid, very hard worker. His wife is black and she is a pharmacist and going back to college next semester.

Quoting: CigarTigher

Lucky you. I wish I got hit on by more white guys. I don't like gangsters or thugs either. I like dorks and nerds. Anyways you seem like a sweetheart, and are very pretty.

Quoting: BeauifulBookworm

Thanks chica! You seem like a sweetheart too! You'll find that special someone soon! He will make you his beautiful wife!

You are a very attractive young lady. Ignore all the stupidity that is being spewed here. There are not the norm, they are the exception.

Personally, I like to know what a person is like on the inside. Beauty, while a factor, is not the most important thing. Usually, those people that are good people and have great personalities, have an inner beauty that radiates and adds to their external appeal.

b/c a white men doesn't want to inherit a bunch of little kids which majority of black women will have at least 1-12 bastard kids.

basically - black women have baggage. Black men, Kids..etc

Quoting: Anonymous Coward 26102818

Why do white men hit on me more than black? A lot more actually.

Quoting: CigarTigher

ur very beautiful, men of all races will hit on u a lot, thats just the reality of being that cute.

come to thik of it, i have came across black husband white wife, or bf/gf couples or black bf asian gf couples, asian bf white gf couples but i have ever met black girl white guy couple...i wonder if that is coz there are fewer of couples like that...nah that doesnt sound very logical, i just did not live in racially diverse places for long enough to meet enough people i guess...indian man white gf, tho most indian boys i knew wld only date indian girls..etc...wow i never met black woman who dated outside her race....thats strange....

If a black girl is highly intelligent and cultivated, and her sisters and brothers are highly intelligent and cultivated, and the children of her sisters and brothers are highly intelligent and cultivated, then maybe I'd dare getting involved with that gene pool...

Otherwise, no chance in hell! A single thug or unruly little monster of a kid in the family, and I'm out!

The fact of the matter is, I absolutely cannot stand loud, rude, obnoxious people who are prone to abusive and violent behavior, and a substantial number of blacks just don't live up to my standards in that regard.

When it comes to physical attraction, black girls aren't entirely without their charms, even if they aren't my personal favorites. If you were to line up all women according to a gradient from the darkest black to the palest white, then I'd say the SEXIEST are the light brown ones, while the PRETTIEST are the medium white ones.

Quoting: Anonymous Coward 300884

Thanks goodness my brother has a degree and my other brother is going to school next semester and he is in the army. Thank goodnes my mom has a college education. Thank goodness most of the people in my family went to college and are not thugs.

Quoting: CigarTigher

i like u, ur pretty, nobody likes to argue with a pretty girl, let me just tell u this much.

people do not become thugs coz of their complextion, but coz the man is szstematicallz keeping them poor frustrated and with no other options but to become thugs.

zour family made it dispite racims, but that doesnt mean that there is not racial discrimination.if people living in the ghettos were white there wld be no ghettos in the modern american meaning of the word.

and most africian man are decent people, aome arent jsut like in any other race.or are some of u claiming that someones completion is somehow related to him being violant or not?that is plain sick tyo think that way!if anyone is violant white males have a history of vioalnce, throughout HISTORY.

You do rewlize that the overwhelmig majority of college grads are dumb as door knobs no matter how high a degree they achieved.

Most are just pushed through and their money taken.

It is a business plain and simple and they do not give a shit whether you know what you are doing or not.

I know many decent hardworking and intelligent people and some of them did not even finish high school yet they are smarter than a lot of people with masters and doctorates that graduate today.

College is not what it once was .

Quoting: Anonymous Coward 24520447

there is an episode of penn ans tellers bulshit show that is called college is bullshit that pretty much agrees with your take on college.

i wld tend to agree too, but most of my friends from univerisity wld say im justt jealous of them coz i dropped out and they got their BAs, MAs and in the future phds

in reality i dint drop out coz i cldnt graduate i jsut lost interest and failed to see the point in doing so...

I know many decent hardworking and intelligent people and some of them did not even finish high school yet they are smarter than a lot of people with masters and doctorates that graduate today.

this is dcefinetly true in my experience too.

but i wont discriminate againt a person if they are well educated they still might still be cool, very smart people....i am however suspicious of people who dont drink coffee, now those are real freaks, or people who never heard of halva....

as a white man. I do not find most black women attractive. There are exceptions but most white men do not find a fat ass as attractive. The other down side is there fucking mouth (attitude). what a turn off.

Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1515187

Thank God I am not loud lol. I don't have an attitude, I am very impatient in some situations. I never yell when angry, I usually talk calm when mad. It takes a lot to make me mad, now, I get mad while watching football lol.

Quoting: CigarTigher

OP, your opinion and description of yourself sounds too good to be true. I'm not trying to be disrespectful, and sorry if it sounds that way, but it would be interesting to know what you are REALLY like.

as a white man. I do not find most black women attractive. There are exceptions but most white men do not find a fat ass as attractive. The other down side is there fucking mouth (attitude). what a turn off.

Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1515187

Thank God I am not loud lol. I don't have an attitude, I am very impatient in some situations. I never yell when angry, I usually talk calm when mad. It takes a lot to make me mad, now, I get mad while watching football lol.

Quoting: CigarTigher

OP, your opinion and description of yourself sounds too good to be true. I'm not trying to be disrespectful, and sorry if it sounds that way, but it would be interesting to know what you are REALLY like.

Quoting: Anonymous Coward 27808986

What would I benefit from lying ? I am a quiet and reserved person. Very outgoing and not loud or angry. I admit.. I have slight road rage!! >=(. That's the only thing that really makes me mad. Like I said before, why lie?

as a white man. I do not find most black women attractive. There are exceptions but most white men do not find a fat ass as attractive. The other down side is there fucking mouth (attitude). what a turn off.

Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1515187

Thank God I am not loud lol. I don't have an attitude, I am very impatient in some situations. I never yell when angry, I usually talk calm when mad. It takes a lot to make me mad, now, I get mad while watching football lol.

Quoting: CigarTigher

OP, your opinion and description of yourself sounds too good to be true. I'm not trying to be disrespectful, and sorry if it sounds that way, but it would be interesting to know what you are REALLY like.

as a white man. I do not find most black women attractive. There are exceptions but most white men do not find a fat ass as attractive. The other down side is there fucking mouth (attitude). what a turn off.

Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1515187

Thank God I am not loud lol. I don't have an attitude, I am very impatient in some situations. I never yell when angry, I usually talk calm when mad. It takes a lot to make me mad, now, I get mad while watching football lol.

Quoting: CigarTigher

OP, your opinion and description of yourself sounds too good to be true. I'm not trying to be disrespectful, and sorry if it sounds that way, but it would be interesting to know what you are REALLY like.

Thank God I am not loud lol. I don't have an attitude, I am very impatient in some situations. I never yell when angry, I usually talk calm when mad. It takes a lot to make me mad, now, I get mad while watching football lol.

Quoting: CigarTigher

OP, your opinion and description of yourself sounds too good to be true. I'm not trying to be disrespectful, and sorry if it sounds that way, but it would be interesting to know what you are REALLY like.

OP, your opinion and description of yourself sounds too good to be true. I'm not trying to be disrespectful, and sorry if it sounds that way, but it would be interesting to know what you are REALLY like.