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Thanks for stopping by at this blog that tells stories about life of a simple woman who is ambitious and always wish to be the best.A wife, a mother, a daughter, a sister and a friend.A woman with a lot of dreams.A woman who loves and needs to be loved. A woman who cares and need to be cared of.

As for us, we had planned it for a long time, if we have a son, we want him to be circumcised masa baby. Reason being, baby punya recovery process cepat. So,InsyaAllah, luka cepat baik. Then, baby tak makan lagi.. So tak payah nak pantang-pantang. And baby tak berapa lasak lagi.. So, senang nak jaga.. hehe... Win-win situation. Convenient for the baby, as well as the parents.

So Alhamdulillah, Faris has been safely circumcised yesterday at Al-Islam Specialist Hospital (previously known as Kampung Baru Medical Center). Done by Dr Shahrul, pediatric surgeon kat KBMC tu by plastibell ring method (click at the link to know more about the method).

For those yg interested, or might be looking for option nak khatan kan ur boy, I would say, KBMC is one of the convenient option jugak la.. What you have to do is to call KBMC to set an appoinment for the procedure. Oh ya, the circumcision procedure is only conducted on every Tuesday starting from 2pm. So, u just call a week before, set an appointment. Then on the respective day, datang, bawak baby, register at the counter, fill up one sheet of form, then pay the charge, RM 150, then tunggu kena panggil. The procedure took only around 10 minutes. In KBMC, parents are not allowed to enter the operation room. So we had to wait outside. Cuma satu yg tak berapa best KBMC ni, parking! Tau-tau je lah kepadatan area Kg Baru tu.

One more thing that I wanna share, setakat semalam, Faris' weight is 4.98kg! Alhamdulillah, anak mama memdebab bagaikan juara.. Hahaha.. When he was born, his weight was 2.85kg. After a month (33 days) we went for his immunization shot, the weight was 4.2kg. A week after that, dah 4.98kg.. Alhamdulillah..,as for today, he is still fully breastfeeding.. :)

Konon tenang lah menunggu turn nak masuk jawi..

Di sinilah ia berlaku, Al-Islam Specialist Center

Mama & Faris

4.98kg boy...

Ok, before I stop, just to share some points about khatan.

Do you know that 'khatan' was never mentioned in Al-Quran? However, Rasulullah s.a.w was circumcised, and he also circumcised his son. So there was debate about khatan being wajib to be done upon the muslim boys by the group who only accepts Al-Quran as the source. But due to mazhab Shafie & Hanbali, circumcision is wajib upon muslim.

Khatan is not wajib for muslimat. It is encouraged to do so tho. But in some Muslim country like Arab, the women do not perform khatan since it is said that khatan will make their sexual organ less sensitive and reducing the sexual drive. Well, it is scientifically proven that people in different part of the world has different sexual drive and requirement. Guess the standard is a bit lower here in Malaysia since khatan has been practiced upon women since turun temurun and tak ada dengar pulak wanita Malaysia menghadapi masalah kurang sexual drive *kot?Hahaha..*

Around 9 something, Dr Zalina (the gynae) came in just to check on me. So I pun tanya lah, tak jadi induce ke, since dah dilated by 3cm. Doc was shocked.she didn't knew that I missed the 6am induce procedure that she had scheduled. So the midwife was called and asked. I tak berapa nak dengar the conversation since they discussed while walking out from the labor room *and sebenarnya tak berapa nak faham jugak since they used all these kinds of medical shortforms..haha*.

Tak lama kemudian, the midwife came in taking some stuffs from the laci and datang kat I and pasang all those IV thingy and letak a bag of liquid. Hubby tanya, apa menda pulak ni, mdiwife jawab, ubat induce.. Just to speed up the dilation..
Not long after that, she came to break the water bag. Oh man, the procedure is painful. Maybe b'cos, it was only 3cm by then when she broke the water bag. I dunno.. Masa Fatin last time, the midwife broke the water bag when I already dilated by 6cm. So masa tuh mmg dah sakit contraction kuat, so, tak kisah dah apa yg dia dok buat..*kot?..haha*

I thought, with the help of that, I can sleep soundly la.Since mmg lalok sangat rasa.. Tetapi, angan-angan ku musnah, sekejap je lena, then contraction datang frequently and kuat sangat.. Lalok camana pon, sakit tu tetap rasa.. Hadoi la... I think I cried like a baby kot mengadu kat Enche Jdai.. Alhamdulillah, this time around, he was there all the time by my side. Tho there's notin he could do to reduce the pain, but somehow, his presence there is enough..hehehe...

Few hours after that, the midwife came in and checked my progress. Alhamdulillah, 6cm dilated. So, they started to prepare equipments for delivery. Only God knows how hard I prayed for it to be over... Not long after that, I started to feel the urge to push. I bukak mata, looked around, Dr Zalina wasn't there yet. Ah sudah..! I started to worry the possibilities of giving birth on my own.. I mean without doctor's presence.

Alhamdulillah, with the total of 3 strong pushes, Muhammad Faris Rusydi was born. To be honest, I rili felt that if I failed to give birth to Faris with that 3 pushes, then maybe he will need to be vacuumed out since mama dah black out. Seriously... The pain was.., MasyaAllah, can't be described. memang I pushed sekuat hati to make sure it worked out since I mmg dah rasa macam nak mati dah.. *ohh..over dramatic choice of word! hehe*
Tapi Alhamdulillah..., Allah tuh Maha Mengetahui, Penyayang dan Mengasihani.. HE will never let HIS servant to suffer the burden that he/she cannot bear.. Maka lahirlah anakanda Faris ke dunia, Alhamdulillah dalam keadaan sihat walafiat..

By now, guess my dear friend, Izzah and her family is safely arrived in UK... She and her husband, who is also a friend of mine, Farid flied to UK yesterday to do their PhD there in York University, UK..