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To keep the body in good health is a duty… otherwise we shall not be able to keep our mind strong and clear. Buddha

Our bodies are the vehicle for our Souls. By honouring and looking after our physical vehicle we are then much better able to access and work with our mental and spiritual gifts.

There are eight practical, proven and simple things that we can do or include in our lives each day in order to help build up energy within our bodies, and to maintain our physical health and vitality. This is not rocket science – it is fundamental and basic information. Yes, what I am about to share sounds like what your Nana might have told you (in fact, my Nana told me). Yes, it works!!!

These ‘miracle’ ingredients for a long and healthy life are:

Water

Sleep

Fresh Air

Clean and Nourishing Food

Movement

Spiritual Health

Love

Self Control

Let’s explore each of these eight vital ingredients in more detail.

1. Water

Drink plenty of fresh, clean water.

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Suggestions: For best results take your water at room temperature to minimise pressure on your internal organs which would otherwise have to heat the water up before using it. Keep a bottle of water with you at all times, even beside your bed. Often residual low level fatigue is the result of chronic dehydration. For even better results, write positive words and affirmations on your water bottle. If you suffer from dizziness or low blood pressure, add a small pinch of celtic salt to your water bottle. This will help restore the electrolyte balance within your body and assist with the uptake of water and oxygen by your body’s cells.

2. Sleep

Get adequate (what your body really needs, not what you let it have!) sleep.

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Suggestions: Most of us need a minimum of eight hours, and sometimes more if we are fighting off an infection, healing, growing or changing. Did you know that most of the western world’s adult population is sleep deprived? Since the introduction of the electric light bulb, and then television, adults have been slowly eroding their hours of quiet time and sleep during the evening hours. Where we once had a few hours of quiet talk, or reading, or other gentle and relaxing activities to wind down before sleep, we now have over-stimulation from television. We sleep from one to four hours less per night on average than our physical body requires. The artificial light we are exposed to during the day in offices and shopping centres, and at night in our own homes reduces chemical and hormonal input from our bodies that would ordinarily prepare us for sleep. We lose our natural sleep rhythms. This sort of prolonged sleep deprivation, where you get substandard sleep or inadequate sleep takes some months to recover from, and prevents the body from healing, solving problems and spiritual connection during the sleeping hours.

To improve sleep, get some exposure to natural full-spectrum sunlight every day. (Don’t wear sunglasses as this changes the spectrum of the sun’s rays.) Twenty minutes would be a minimum. Don’t go to bed immediately after a big meal. Let the digestion process have around two hours first to get started so that your sleep is not compromised. If this is hard to do, eat earlier, or make your main meal lunch so that you are only digesting light food at night time. Keep your bedroom quiet, dark and well ventilated. Take at least half an hour before sleep to wind down. Don’t do this in front of the television! Take a shower, read a book, listen to music, meditate, make love. You may also want to remove electro-magnetic radiation from the bedroom, or at least get rid of electrical appliances beside, behind or under the bed. Lavender essential oil aids relaxation and sleep. In winter keep your feet warm, or have a warm shower just before going to be so that you don’t get into bed cold.

3. Fresh Air

Oxygen and clean air is vital to our well being on every level.

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Suggestions: Get out into the fresh air and sunshine each day. Oxygen is vital for our well being. Sunshine is important for providing vitamin D. Use good posture to enable you to breathe deeply and to avoid shallow breathing. Take several slow, deliberate deep breaths a few times a day to recharge and re-oxygenate your blood. Make sure that your home, office and bedroom are well ventilated, with a good flow of natural air. Don’t spend all of your time in air-conditioning, and if you do use an air-conditioner keep it well maintained. Minimise dust and mould in your environment. Avoid exposure to chemicals, especially within your home. Don’t exercise on busy roads.

4. Clean and Nourishing Food

Food is both fuel and medicine for our bodies. Our bodies are the direct result of the quality of nutrition that we put into them. Eat regularly to maintain a good supply of fuel to your brain and body.

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Suggestions: Food is best when it is freshly prepared, chemical free, and made with love. Blessing your food, and eating in a relaxed environment really does make a difference. Favour a plant-based diet, with the inclusion of good quality fats and proteins. Choose organic meats and free range chickens, and wild caught seafoods. Grass fed beef has the same essential fatty acid ratio as fish – grain fed beef does not, and is not nearly as good for you. Make sure you get a good range of fresh vegetables each day – these can also be eaten as juice. Fruit is better taken as a whole food than as a juice so that you can minimise your concentrated sugar intake. Eat fruit and vegetables in season. Out of season food has often had to travel a long way to get to you, and will have lost a lot of its vital energy and goodness. Nuts and seeds are good, and so are whole grains. Naturally fermented foods such as yoghurt, keffir and so on are also good for your gut health. If a food has a prolonged shelf life, it will also have little life force.

Reduce and avoid food that is mass produced, fast food, or high in sugars, salts, stimulants (such as caffeine) fats and flour. Avoid artificial colours and additives. Eat when you’re hungry, and pay attention to when and why you eat so that you can identify and manage emotional eating – where we eat for comfort or entertainment rather than because our body needs fuel. Sharing a meal with a friend or family member is always a good way to reduce stress. Don’t eat in front of television, and don’t eat when you are upset. Always calm down before eating. Different bodies prefer different diet variations – if necessary find a good natural therapist or dietician to help you with your food choices. Listen to your body – it will soon tell you what it does and doesn’t like. In times of stress or illness, it may be necessary to take additional supplements of vitamins, minerals and/or herbs. Seek help if you need it.

5. Movement

Our bodies were designed to move. They must be moved, nurtured and stretched on a daily basis. Movement allows the internal organs to function well, it keeps joints lubricated, circulates blood, oxygen and lymph within our bodies, and helps us to stay supple, strong and mobile.

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Suggestion: Movement helps decrease obesity, depression and a host of other ills. The longer we go without movement, the more difficult movement becomes. Find some exercises that you enjoy, and try to become active at work and home. Learn some basic stretching, and if you want to understand and nourish the physical body on an even higher level, learn yoga, tai chi or qi gong. Movement was never just about going to a gym, although you might enjoy this. Movement is also about walking, surfing, lawn bowls, stretching, swimming on a hot day, skiing in winter, dancing anytime, gardening, housework, fencing, playing with children or animals, chasing your lover around the bedroom, building, creating, self expression and pure joy. It can also be about the discipline of a martial art or practice such as yoga, or about the fun of teamwork playing footie, cricket, tennis doubles, or tug-of-war. Not so bad after all, is it?

6. Spiritual Health

Those people who have an active faith, and who practice regular connection with that faith have better physical health and longevity, lower stress levels, faster healing, greater rates of ‘unusual and unexpected’ recoveries and greater levels of personal acceptance and satisfaction.

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Suggestion: Spirituality isn’t about going to church, although for some people that can be an important focus of their faith. It means taking time to talk with God and your Guides, Angels and Loved Ones who’ve passed over. It’s about having a connection to the earth and all living things. Some people do this through listening to music, some people do this through creating art, and some people do this through going for a walk in nature. How you find your Soul, and talk with your God is up to you. Spiritual Health is about making time to go within, through prayer, meditation and self reflection. And doing these things as a normal part of your daily routine. Take time to learn about your spirituality, to read and share and grow your faith. Take time to practice your connection. Use spiritual tools, and give and receive spiritual energy. Pray for yourself and others on a regular basis. It is also powerful to meet with like-minded people to share the experience. This can be through worship, group meditations, sharing healings and readings, attending festivals and workshops, or even just holding hands together before a meal.

7. Love

Love is fundamental to the human spirit. We need to learn to give and to receive love, and to do this daily! Love is the most powerful energy in the Universe.

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Suggestion: Self love and self care top this list. This includes treating ourselves well, and surrounding ourselves with energies that uplift and support us. We all need someone to love. Family, friends, partners, even animals. We need to be able to actively demonstrate love through our thoughts, actions and intentions. It is also important that we open ourselves up to receive love as well. This is often much harder to do, than to love others. Become involved in helping others. Use your spiritual faith to help you find ways to express Love in the World.

8. Self Control

Self control is a conscious development of our will. It is the voice of our wise self, and it becomes stronger and easier to identify the more we use it. Self control allows us to stay true to who we are, and to what we know is good for us.

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Suggestions: Self control requires self trust, and self love. If we come home from work feeling tired, it is easy to eat junk food and forgo exercise. Self control is the wise and caring voice within us that urges us to eat something healthy, to take the dog for a walk, or to say ‘no’ to a second helping of dessert. It is often difficult to exert any self control if we have not worked with this part of us for a long time. When self control is not exercised, our inner critic – the ego, can make us feel very unhappy and inadequate. This fuels low self esteem and can make the lack of self control even worse. Our wise self whispers, “eat a salad and some fish” and we then need to exercise our self control to enable this to happen. If instead we eat toast with jam, and a bowl of ice-cream, the ego will chastise us. Your self talk might then sound like this: “Oh, you are so fat and weak. You might as well eat another bowl of ice-cream.” And so you do, and end up feeling worse about yourself, and believing that you have no will power. If your self control is weak, start with small promises that you make and then keep with yourself. As you fulfil each promise, this will strengthen your self control by building your sense of worth and self confidence. If you slip back, be kind with yourself and just start again.

Journal Activity: Revisit each of the eight ingredients of good health. For each ingredient, write down one small step that you could take in the next few days to strengthen that area within your own life. Make sure the actions you want to take are small, measurable and achievable so that you can continue to strengthen your wellbeing, self belief and self control!

One looks back with appreciation to the brilliant teachers, but with gratitude to those who touched our human feelings. The curriculum is so much necessary raw material, but warmth is the vital element for the growing plant and for the soul of the child.
~ Carl Jung

Week 3: All About My Emotions

This week we are focussing on our emotions, our feelings and all that entails for us, with a special emphasis on feeling good. Our plan is to understand and connect with our emotions; our relationships, triggers, dreams and hopes and how our surroundings influence us.

Journal Exercise:

Journal relationships this week. Identify areas where you need to forgive or move on.

Work out who/what supports you and makes you feel good, and who/what brings you down.

Energy of the Heart Chakra

The heart chakra, an energy centre located at our heart, is an open doorway, the anchor for our soul, and the seat of love. Its colour is a magnificent shade of rich emerald green.

When your heart chakra is open and balanced you will be in a space of self-love, self-nurture, generosity, kindness, humour, empathy, non-judgement, happiness, tolerance, expansion, optimism and FLOW. You’ll see beauty everywhere!

When the chakra is unbalanced you may experience too much empathy,and hypersensitivity to the moods and emotions of others – where you will process these emotions as your own or feel responsible for them. This is draining emotionally, physically and spiritually.

When the chakra is closed down you may experience loneliness, depression and anxiety, a sense of not belonging, shy away from intimacy and commitment, be overtly critical of self and others, be defensive and even paranoid. This lack of flow can create addiction, including workaholism, because addictions mask and numb PAIN.

In all instances, what the heart chakra needs is LOVE, and to feel good. Treat yourself and others with kindness, and spend time listening to your heart. Your heart holds all the wisdom of your soul, it truly knows what is best for you and what direction best serves you. All you need to do is tune in to that wisdom. That’s what we’re going to explore this week!

Activity: Feeding Your Heart Chakra:

Food contains energy, trapped sunlight, known as Bio-photonic Energy. It also contains a myriad of chemicals, vitamins, minerals, proteins, carbohydrates, fats and all sorts of amazing properties, many of which are not yet known or understood by us. Consciously incorporate some of these heart-chakra friendly foods in your diet, and begin to FEEL the difference.

For the Heart Chakra think green! Salads, steamed vegetables, green oils, juices and smoothies. These foods are full of calcium, magnesium, iodine, selenium, sulphur, essential fatty acids, B group vitamins and Vitamin C – all great for heart health, cleansing of the blood, and general circulation.

One of my favourite recipes for a green smoothie is one cup of coconut milk (or coconut water and flesh from young coconut) and a few handfuls of young spinach leaves, a frozen banana, dash of organic vanilla and a spoonful of spirulina.

And for a beginners green juice you can’t go past apple, cucumber, zucchini (trust me – it makes it so creamy and delish!), parsley, celery and a hint of ginger.

Journalling:

One of the most powerful ways to work with the energy of the Heart Chakra is to recognise what makes you happy. Today, write a list of things you enjoy, are grateful for, and that make you smile and feel good.

If you have time, and feel so inclined, create a collaged double-page spread in your journal of pictures, images and words that uplift you and speak to your heart. If you like, go crazy and make a full-sized dreamboard.

Simple Meditation:

Picture your heart chakra as a rose bud, tightly furled and lusciously green, and then opening into a beautiful red rose with the most gorgeous fragrance. Do this once or daily. And use some rose scent or a fresh rose to anchor this new energy!

This short clip has an excellent visual for you:

Above all, this week, choose to feel good. Even if that means you don’t win the argument, or get the last word in, or be ‘right’. Let this week be about flow, and ease and listening to your HEART.

Focus on you. Focus on happiness, and on drawing into your world more of the energies and activities that nurture you, uplift you, make you smile, make you FEEL all of that incredible love that is within you and all around you.

The happier and better you feel, the higher your vibration. The higher your vibration, the more good you attract into your life. Trust me on this – it really works.

I’ll be meditating all week on heart healing and helping you open up to the wisdom and love within you. Know that you are much loved ♥ Nicole xx

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