I want to marry the love of my life. I want to grow old with him. I want to get through hard times. I want to send him on a plane at the last moment just as a giant storm is on the way. I want to protect him, nurture him, and grow with him. I want to laugh with him, mourn with him, raise a family together, cook food, make mistakes, and tell each other its going to be just fine even when we’re scared. …