Make That Choice

When we are on this adventure, it is extremely difficult to
tell a loved one or a friend that you no longer want to participate with this
action or hang out with them in the 3D illusion or do what they ask you to do. Many
are in the state of fear of losing you or want you in the same old box they are
in and don't want you to grow and they lose another vampire relationship they
are in, which is with you. When we consciously understand the situation and
that we need to make a choice, we are bombarded with a myriad of negative
emotions that bring us down, making it difficult to make that choice. Guilt and
abandonment and victimization is on the top of the list of main culprits that
we need to keep an eye on.It seems according
to the ego we are abandoning this person and we are harming them by letting
them go and not connecting with them anymore or not doing what they want us to
do.But is this really true?

When we made the choice and express ourselves, the being has
a choice, they can chose to respect your choice and let you go, or chose to take this as abandonment, attack, or victimization.
It is their choice, but we must not let ourselves get entangled with their
drama and loose our focus and center. Many begin to play victim/victimization
games and role playing and get us entangled as we forget to see the bigger
picture and just see them as the friend or the family member who do not want us
out of the box.

Let's look at the bigger picture, we have been on this planet
for thousands of years and gone through many relationships and experiences. It
seems we have done all that we need to do, and had these beings as our family,
friends, enemies, etc. All the roles have been played, all the contracts
completed, it's just one more to finish and be aligned to our God self/eternal
spirit. We have a long journey ahead and much more to do and much more to
figure out; do we need to have this guilt or this person to weigh you down? I
bet the answer is a big NO. We have to also remember that when we make this
choice we are allowing them to grow and heal and be free of the illusion they
are holding.

I know it is harder than what I say here, but this is a
start. Go and work with it, you can be free from the false parent who controls and
doesn’t want you to take your spiritual journey, or the friend that drags you
down and still wants you to be stuck in the 3D world of illusion. If we are
true to our self and know our core values, we can use that integrity as our
strength to push us through so many challenges we come across on this path. Be
strong, we have all the support and strength, it is time to make that choice.