I found the worst thing about job seeking was hyping myself up to look like this was the only job in the world, then having to pedal furiously backwards to rationalise why this job would have been a serious mistake for me.

Welcome to the car crash...

I have a complicated bereavement. I was only reconciled with my ex, W, months before he died of cancer. Luckily (for him) I was made redundant and able to care for him while he died here at home - October 20th.Currently getting through it with our son, aka the Cherub, dog Ned, and friends here in CHEESETOWN.