I had thought of that and do wonder if it is me. I try not to be the issue BUT maybe I am pulling a bit giving her the wrong idea. When we meet this puggle again in a few days I might let my husband hold her leash and see if the reaction is differe...

>>> but I thought we should forst teach her that she needs to use pee pee pad when she has to go (since pupies can hardly hold it)....then I wanted to advance to a spot by the door......then hopefully outside...is this a good strategy? <&...

I would suggest maybe an older dog or at least an older puppy. 1+ yr since you might not have to deal with potty training or the high puppy energy. Often they have some basic manners and training as well.