I don't know? I just call my boyfriend
I think people should say more what they want and what they need instead of having these wild ideas of a perfect relationship that nobody can live up to, specially when they don't let anyone know what to do cause "If you have to ask you don't get it!!!!" xD I dunno...kids...

Girls who behave like this are just immature imo. " I'm upset you didn't call me last night i waited for hours!!!" grow up

Originally Posted by Hallufauz

Maybe they want a sign that you care enough to think about them and call them. Not that I'm all up for this kind of thinking, but that's the way I see it.

Basically the two above quotes. They're using it as a test to see if you truly care about them. Considering that's how an awful lot of media has taught them to be, it's not entirely their fault.

If it's something that's bothering you specifically, then I'd suggest talking to your girlfriend and setting out the expectations of the relationship early. Be willing to compromise (as should she), and figure out something that works well for both of you.

Her need to be loved/appreciated isn't a negative thing. How she's choosing to exhibit it is, however. Talk to her and figure out the best way to satisfy that need of hers, then do your best to uphold your end of that bargain. Should work pretty well.

I don't know, if I miss my husband I call him myself. If he isn't calling then he's busy with something. I don't need to talk to him every two seconds for validation or something. Now it really depends what kind of time frame we're talking about. If he didn't call me for days and days at all I'd be more worried that something has happened and would definitely call him myself. But I'm glad my relationships is secure and when we are apart we check in often to let each other know everything is okay and to tell each other about the latest happenings. Maybe I just haven't been in an insecure immature relationships in too long to be able to relate to bf/gf drama.

I don't know. We've settled into a comfortable dynamic where we text during the day when things happen (or just to say hi), and talk when we get home if we have anything major to discuss. Depending on schedule he might call me or I might call him when I get off work (or he's on his way to class), but if we miss one of those calls the other person does get a bit concerned and wonder why they haven't been called.

But making expectations without something to support it (like years of him calling me when he gets off work) would just be annoying.

We are strange creatures us women. Men and women will always have some form of small drama because it's natural. He gets on her nerves at times, she gets on his, nag nag, hug kiss. Everythings hunky dorey.

In the end if she is worth it you'll put up with it

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Women that behave like that is one of the reasons I feel glad that I will never have a wife or girlfriend

This is nothing that a little talking in the relationship couldn't solve Exactly what Kisho said.

Originally Posted by Kisho

If it's something that's bothering you specifically, then I'd suggest talking to your girlfriend and setting out the expectations of the relationship early. Be willing to compromise (as should she), and figure out something that works well for both of you.

I've learned in the past that, talking about things that annoy you with your partner, makes things a lot easier to handle and understand later on. You need to have that mutual understanding and respect.

Its not necessarily just limited to girlfriends; I have a female friend who, if I don't text her every day, she thinks I'm upset with her over something. Its bad enough that she flitters from treating me like a boyfriend and treating me like a friend, to the point where other people notice it too.

This girl is sending out so many mixed signals she could bring down an airplane.

My ex was like that, It was ok for her to miss my calls and not ring back but if I missed one of her calls and didn't phone back I was obviously ignoring her or off with another women.

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