hi, so as an older uk woman (well 44 seems ancient against those of you that have replied on this message) is there any hope for me or should i give up now? have flitted on and off this site for the last couple of years, but not having visited it for about 6 months i decided to rejoin today so please tell me am i wasting my money or are there older uk men out there who are seriously looking to meet larger women.

I'm in the UK and like bigger ladies, and I'm a member of many UK dating sites, including several for larger people. I send out lots of winks, smiles, kisses, messages - Whatever the particular site calls them. How many replies do I get though? NEARLY ZERO!

So it isn't a question of not being any guys out there, but more a question of the ladies being too fussy, shallow or judgemental. I may have my issues but I'm actually a really decent guy, but the huge majority of ladies don't accept me as I am. I don't smoke, don't drink, don't like clubs - And at the moment I'm not working for a health reason. Finding someone who accepts those things as well as liking what I look like is nearly impossible.

Ok .. My Turn....
I am in here and in OKC ( a like the chat feture there)
And its the same everywhere, for most folks, finding the right person will take time.
Mainly travel is an issue for some, it is for me, but for others can I say this.
My sister had a problem, single mom with new baby (her first) heart broken as the guy she had just finished with turned out to be married !!! so she left, moved up north, a family freind who lived and worked in glasgow let out a secret, he liked my sister.
The git decided to get chatting with her, he travelled just over 100 miles just to go and see her to then travell the same distance back on the same night!!! now to some that would be nothing, but the git ( and i say this with a lot of affection) worked 10 hours in the day doing a LOT of Driving...
So hang in there, it may take time and a lot of trust,(with some madness of the mind I am sure, Muhahahaaaa ) but the possibilities are endless. BTW, the Git and my Sister married over 20 years ago now, and they are STILL together.

well here to thing for you then hun
1. we live in the same country and not to far wayfrom each other.
2. I love women with a fuller figure and just cant seem to find 1 yet.
3. i feel the same as i cant seem to find people who accvept me either.