‘Debbie Downer’ or ‘Smiley Joe’⁉️

Feel better? Do yourself a huge favor & let go of your need to know or care what others think of you. It’s such a waste of time & causes you so much needless suffering. What others think of us is irrelevant – all that matters is what WE think of ourselves.

Once you get yourself into the mindset that it really doesn’t matter what other people think, you’ll stop being bothered by such nonsense.

🎯Set solid boundaries🎯

There is good & bad in the world & it’s up to each individual what to focus on. ‘Everybody‘ is not going to like ‘everything‘ “all of the time.” Remember that what you focus on grows.

Take this example: Let’s say you’re car shopping – you are set on getting a 2 door blue car.
All of a sudden you start noticing blue cars everywhere as you go about your day. Why is that ⁉️

Cuz when you focus on a particular thing, you’re feeding it, making it grow, giving it life .. focused on that one particular thing, it stands out, & you notice it more, cuz you’re keeping it in your consciousness.

Well the same thing goes for what you focus on in life; whether you choose to focus on the Love & Beauty, or the Fear & Hate – whichever one you choose is the one you’re going to get more of.

One of the biggest things I learned in my journey so far, in my Spiritual Awakening, was: to find & keep your “inner peace” is to let go of all the labels & boxes & things society tries to fit you in & just be free. Don’t get attached to outcomes, don’t expect anything from anyone, let go of the past & the future & truly live in the moment🤩

We are the creators of our lives & our reality .. & you choose to either be a Debbie Downer or a Smiley Joe!