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Topic: Can Anyone Explain This? (Read 19257 times)

There you go again running your mouth and waiting to start a flame war which isn't going to happen. You are the one that stated you were bi and you got a divorce. I'm not here to make you feel loved. Do I have trust issue, no, but apparently your wife did. No you don't have to use profanity, but you sure yell a lot. It only took one word to get my point across and you did a whole paragraph in caps. I don't see where anyone called you any names do you? Have you ever sought out the help of a mental health professional? It might be something for you to look into.

There you go again running your mouth and waiting to start a flame war which isn't going to happen. You are the one that stated you were bi and you got a divorce. I'm not here to make you feel loved. Do I have trust issue, no, but apparently your wife did. No you don't have to use profanity, but you sure yell a lot. It only took one word to get my point across and you did a whole paragraph in caps. I don't see where anyone called you any names do you? Have you ever sought out the help of a mental health professional? It might be something for you to look into.

I love having these discussions with people like you.I don't even know what a flame war is, much less try to start one.Yes, I said I was bi, in my FIRST post----you referenced it in your last one and told me to shut the fuck up!I already explained my marriage break up...youth....she was 18 and I was 22. Trust issues....Hmmm, probably. I would say 95% of divorces involve trust issues.

What one word got your point across? I'm still here!

No one called me names? Are we reading the same thread?

Oh, the mental health remark was so subtle. Kudos to you! Again, just more bitterness, nastiness and judgement.

Now threaten to ban me for 4 weeks (time out) like I'm 8 years old! I've read some of your posting history, so I have a reason to believe you have control issues. You love to shut people up. No free speech in your court!

I belong to other HIV/AIDS groups and have never experienced anything like the nastiness that your members spew! So anybody needing discussion or compassion this is NOT the place, as evident in the above quote!

I don't understand why people have turned this thread around from the original post. I knew once i read the first couple of threads this would turn out bad. Really childish to sit here and argue like this. To the original poster i have some questions for you.

Have you recieved any tattoos. I know if a tattoo artist reuses the needle it could infect you.

I don't understand why people have turned this thread around from the original post. I knew once i read the first couple of threads this would turn out bad. Really childish to sit here and argue like this. To the original poster i have some questions for you.

Have you recieved any tattoos. I know if a tattoo artist reuses the needle it could infect you.

Well..thats all been interesting reading ey!Ive come to the conclusion that its actually difficuilt to communicate via a forum.Humour can easily be misunderstood for aggression and once somebody has become aggressive its there in black and white for the world to see..and because its a Forum- an act of aggression can feel quite humiliating to the receiver.But this is a forum, and we all express our emotions freely, it may be aggression or humour, or whatever...so the trick to reading a reply to a post is to just accept that everyone has a different way of thinking and that some people may be on a completely different wavelength to oneself...perhaps even a different planet?Ive been hanging around my tree and feeling very 'Confucius like'. does it suit me?