Saturday, 31 August 2013

One day, there was a bully named Bill, who had little to nothing, and the only thing he could do to make himself feel comfortable was to make others feel worse than he does. He used to go around his school and community, and abused anyone that he came across just so that he can feel better about his life. Causing fear everywhere he went, seeing all of cries around him, he laughs and laughs at all the suffering souls around him. No sign of guilt on his face. In his mind, he thought that it was his responsibility to make himself happy by creating fear and suffering in others, just so he can have his life.

Life seemed so bright in his eyes, not a single sign of happiness around him. After a few days, he walked around at what he has created, but could not see the signs of suffering. Instead, he saw a wall of courage, signs of hope. People bonding together, surrounding him, creating fear in bill's eyes. He started pushing and forcing the bond to break, but couldn't. the "walls" just got closer and closer to the point that there was no sign of escape for bill, no where to run, no where to hide. He went on his knees begging for forgiveness, but ever single one of the people turned their back on him, causing bill to feel isolated, alone, and fearing for his life.

The next day, Bill was still begging and begging any way he can to be seen by the people that he once abused, stole, and bullied. He started doing things that made him look even worse. Using things such as drugs, exposing people ( if you understand what I mean by that ), and various other things. People only felt sorry for what he has become, so much that they felt like Bill needed a time out, meaning JAIL TIME.

He was locked up for years for all he has ever done. However, it has not changed anything, Bill got so used to bullying, abuse, and all of the other things he done, that he thought that no matter what happened to him, he just felt like it was just how his life was. Thought that the other people just had " a problem with the way he living ". Bill continued to do what he always done, continued to abuse, and expose people, beg for forgiveness, serve jail time, and come back out and do the same stuff over and over again.

In time, the people chose to ignore Bill completely, no longer going anywhere near him. Bill could not see anyone around him to take advantage of. He got so angry that he broke into someone's house to murder them, but when the police came in to arrest him, he tripped and fell onto something and died.

Some bullies will always be bullies, will always want to cause chaos and fear in life for their enjoyment, but in time, it will be them who suffer the most.

Thursday, 22 August 2013

Being trapped in a real dark isolated space, feeling lonely and bleeding from the inside. Breaking mentally, and physically, breaking apart. Feeling depressed, sad, alone, trapped in this place with no sign of light. Down and gone, my soul lost, people may be around, but yet I the one isolated, trapped.

People burying, isolating, breaking others down in ways that make people feel buried, making people want to bury themselves in any way possible to save themselves from others. No longer looking for people for support, scared of the outcome because of their past experiences. Isolated, but yet not alone.

There are others who feel the same way, others who are also buried in their own issues. Isolated, trapped, not knowing what to do, who to call, or where to go. People in fear of what is to become of them, what could happen, what might happen. People may suffer, but there is always a way out.

Coming together, bonding together, digging people out of their trapped buried state. The effort to open your hands to others, give them a sign of hope. Give them something that will make them finally feel free. Without any effort, people will continue to be buried deeper and deeper in their hole. Together, we can do more than just dig them out, but show them and give them life. Together, we can uncover everyone's inner strengths, something in them that is like no other. Together, we can be free.

Monday, 19 August 2013

The people who are open to anyone and everyone. The people who not afraid to give people a hand. The people who give their life for others. The people who will forever put people before anything else. These are the people who should be in position of power of our communities, but seems that some people are more concerned about having money and more money.

The open handed people understand and know how serious, how bad, and how sometimes horrific life can become. They understand the looks in peoples eyes, the cries for help, even the silent cries. The ones that reach out and bring hope because they know, understand, feel, and also have been through ( or know someone that has ) all the issues that the victims have. Open handed people are those who no matter what situation you are in, they are always there to give you a hand, other to comfort, or support you, or both.

Open handed people live their lives not for the sake of fame or wealth or anything of that sort, but to bring a brighter future for others. We all must aim to open our hearts, our arms, and our hands to those who are suffering, to those who are not truly living. Never do things for others for money, always open yourself to others, FOR OTHERS. Open your hands to the world, and the world will open up to you. :)

Sunday, 18 August 2013

The path to be free, the path to a more livable life, the path to be. It can be a really long, real painful, real rough path to endure and to overcome. It is something that most people face in their life. It is something that can lead one to fall into deep depression, insanity, or WORSE. We continue hearing the cries of those suffering, begging and pleading for something to set them free, but most of the time it is ignored, pushed aside, or worse. Not everyone goes through this however. Most people in power continue to focus their efforts more on keeping those who are " living " a bigger and better future. Guess things will always be better for others than us.

The suffering of bullying on the souls of victims, really hard to run away from. There are all sorts of bullying in the world, cyber bullying, physical bullying, mental ( verbal ) bullying, all sorts of bullying. Most victims can never get away from it, it can cause one to feel trapped even when they finally out of the place they were suffering in. The world of a victim is a life no one else can truly understand. It can be changed, if only there was something where they can truly show what they can do, something that will make them feel needed, wanted, accepted, and more. No need to worry about spending money to make it work, actions speak louder than words, if only our voices were heard and ideas like that.

Abuse, scary situation when its in a relationship. It can cause one to do things horrific, or worse. It can cause one to loose all sight of what's right and what's wrong. Can cause mental damage, and cause one to think that hurting is a part of life. Can cause one to continue to hurt one's self even after being out of an abused area. It could be one of the worst things, but can be turned around. Find the right people, not the ones that may seem perfect, every " perfect " man or woman may have a darker, more scarier side to them. Not everyone is, but having suffered the way you have ( you meaning the one suffered ), your life, your health, your mental well being, YOU matter most of all.

In these dark times, we all need to look for a more brighter side to life. Away to set people truly free. We have kept people " aware " of situations for far too long, how long will " awareness " be the focus, when everyone already knows. When will " action " be the focus? All we have to do is truly stand up, speak up, and create change. Take a stand and make the change.

Saturday, 17 August 2013

Bullying may never end, because of greed, revenge, and the addiction of getting noticed. It will always be there in a certain way. However, there are ways to control it, to heal the pain, and to silence the hate.

The bonds of kindness, and caring of others, creates bonds that can not be broken. Bonds that create a brighter future not only for one, but for many. Does not have to look all colorful and lovely as some may think about the word " love ". It is a feeling, and a form that creates hope for people, and can be made in any way. So always be the way you want to be, look the way you wish to look, but always remember that not everyone feels that way about life, and try to give a hand to them in one way or another, in a harmless manner.

The sounds of life, the wall of hope, the voice of the people. Giving your time to speak up in any way you can, will bring about a sign of hope for those who do not feel it. Work with others, bond together, and create a better future for all by sharing your hard times, and thoughts on how to help others.

Bullying may scream, may yell, may break and shatter, but it can be silenced. It may be out of control, but can be controlled. Can be hurtful, but can be healed. All you need to do is stand up and speak out and give your hand to those in need, and they will do the same.

Friday, 16 August 2013

The suffering of bullying, abuse, force, and more. People feeling so down and depressed, but for how long. The more one is bullied, the more stronger they are, and the more smarter they are. The more one is bullied, the more power they have to prove people wrong, to bring a better life for themselves, and also have the power to save others from that. The more one is abused, the more stronger they get deep inside, and when the opportunity comes, they will end the abuse to them forever.

The suffering you may be facing now, is building up something special deep inside you, so deep that you may not be able to feel it until the time comes. You may not feel it at the moment, but its there. They may tell you that you do not have it, but what they really doing is building something deep in you telling you that you do have it, and nothing can stop you from having it or achieving it.

Abuse may be real scary, painful, and suffering, but it opens your eyes to the truth. It opens your mind, eyes, heart and soul. It may not seem like it at first, you might not be able to feel or see it at all, but deep down, there is something building deep down in your heart. When the opportunity comes, you will feel it, see it, and know what you got to do to end the suffering forever.

It may hurt, it may be painful, but in time, things will be reversed. You will feel alive and beyond anything, while they are suffering for their sins.

Wednesday, 14 August 2013

Freedom of speech, being able to say whats in your heart, to say what you want about anything. Also, share your thoughts and opinions on things. To vote for what you believe is right. To say what matters most to you, and to have those ideas, thoughts, all that is in your heart, have all of that ignored, and pushed aside, even with the people on your side. Also, for people to abuse that right and force others to believe a certain way, or act a certain way, or look a certain way.

How about the feeling of being alive. Being able to feel so many different things. Being able to feel, touch, smell things. The feeling of being trapped. The feeling of pain, suffering, and scared of doing anything you want because of abuse, bullying, people taking advantage of you, using and playing around with you for their enjoyment.

Seems like no matter what you do, things will always look bad. Things will always be rough, hard, tough, and plain ugly at times. Why do we continue to strive, to fight the good fight, to bring light to all of the chaos. Because we can, because we see what is, because the people who has the power to change things, those who say they work for us, don't seem to want to listen or care for us ( the community ). We fight because its something we truly believe in, something that we know deep down that this life that we are in, is suffering, and can be much better with just A LITTLE EFFORT. They may not want to listen, but their " job " is to make us feel comfortable, to feel safe. If we do not feel comfortable, we have the right to take action, or to leave and find a new place, in order to send a message to those who promise change, but do very little to nothing to show for it. All we need to do is speak up, work together, and send a message. All we got to do is stand up and speak out.

Monday, 12 August 2013

Money, all that seems to matter these days. So many focus on money, like it is the source of control over change. Like the one with the most money can truly make the most change. People wishing for change, but reaching for gold. Sounds strange that the greedy saying that they will help to bring change, stealing money from people, showing it off by what they spend on, and promises for a better future for the suffering. How does that sound to you?

Now I not saying getting money and working to be rich is a bad thing, as long as you do it the right way, and also don't speak bullshit, meaning stay true, always speak the truth. If you promising for better future for the suffering, then stop focusing all of your money for " the living ". STOP SHOWING OFF!! If you are all about the money and want to give " the living " all they want, then admit it and stop bull shitting about " promises for change " if it will never happen from you.

For those who think " well how can change be made with no or little money? " or something like that. Well think of it this way, Having an anti bullying group in schools, posting papers of the logo and name of the group that has been drawn out with a pencil. No need to worry about money, doesn't even have to be any special type of paper. The view of change is not important, the actions, the efforts, the planning for change is much more important than having colorful lights and sounds and so on. If money really matters that much, then screw the money, but don't let the money be the reason why we have to stop the changes for better life.

I would like to also mention that being online and sharing these thoughts on life is free, and people listen and like and give feedback and share and so on, seems like there more efforts from us than the greedy ones who " promises " change.

A quote from a rapper
Kyprios:
"Are you a mess?
Well money can buy you respect and success
Are you depressed?
Well money can buy you happiness so invest
It's all about winning, coming up and knocking down
Is your head spinning? Money makes the world go round
And around..."
"Why are we so concerned with our money?
If it's the root of evil why are we still planting seeds? "

Sunday, 11 August 2013

Looking out my window, seeing what life could be. Freedom for all, the light shining on every one of us. A life of no fear, signs of hope everywhere. Everyone having their time to be somebody, to show what they truly made of. To be the way they want to be, and not what they wish they can. A world where people's voices are truly heard, not ignored or pushed aside. A world of true life for everyone, no longer in fear or suffering.

All students truly safe from harm. Taking a stand, taking control, showing all that they have to offer. A world where the bullies are slapped in the face, not my hand, but by a new stronger force of anti bullying in every school. No longer is there any student forced in isolation, forced to live their lives scared and in fear, and no longer will any one student have to worry about their cries for help being ignored in any way.

A view of true light. No longer is there any voices unheard, no opinion pushed aside, no thought ignored. No longer is there cries for help, but cries of happiness.

The world I see out of my window is just so much more worth living then what It is inside. In the world we are in now, hate, bullying, selfishness, hate, people who are so fixed on their own needs of the world. With the cries for change of the suffering being ignored and pushed aside, will this world ever be the way that is shown out my window, or will we be forever trapped inside, our voices unheard, the cries for help ignored.

They say they doing what they can to change the world, yet they continue to focus on the people " living" and less on the people " suffering ". We must make it balance, keep making life better for both sides, not just push aside the victims to a dark corner of " the room " while the people feeling alive and awake having full control of it. They may make the rules, but it is us as people, as the community that they have to work for and have to listen to, even if they try their hardest to ignore, to change things for the better. All we have to do is stand up and speak.

Saturday, 10 August 2013

A time for change is now. We all understand what is happening in the world. We all know of all the pain that's in the world, the suffering, the cries for help. The cries for anti bullying, the cries to stop. The worried faces, the scared souls. When will we truly take action in bringing about change? Well I believe NOW is the time to create a real strong stand against all the pain, bullying, all of the suffering needs to end.

What do you think of these points:

A group of leaders, who strongly believe that things need to change

A group where no matter who you are, you are welcome, as long as you have that burning flame for change inside you

A group where no matter where you are, you have people to reach out to that ready and able to help you feel comfortable, and who will help you through the dark times

A group where anyone, with any skills, can join, if you have that passion for change, you welcome in this group

A group that will work with you to get your voice heard, to get our voice heard. For example, if you not good at creating a speech, we ( the members ) will create one for you together, to make it the best it can be, so then all you got to do is go out there and read it.

A group that will not stop, until the voices of the voiceless are truly heard, and everyone is truly free.

I wish to create something to truly stick out and something that is stronger than any. My intention is NOT to ruin or break up any bond with other places, but BOND them together, bond everyone together who have the passion, the desire for change. I have created a Google community ( link below ) , call it a base of operations, it is only a start for bigger and better things. I believe the very first step in starting something like this would first be gathering people. I do not call them ( you ) followers because in this group, there is no ONE leader, but many. We all have it in us to become leaders, to support, help, lead, and create something new, and thus we all will be considered leaders, supporters, helpers. NO ONE PERSON WILL EVER TELL YOU THEY ARE BETTER, NO ONE PERSON WILL TAKE THEIR IDEAS AS JUST ( meaning if someone wanted to create a speech and say that this is what everyone will read, and no editing or anything can be put into it, that is a sign of force, and will not be tolerated in this TRUE FREE SPEAK group, anyone who joins and spreads out anything and says that it was apart of our work, without the group knowing anything about it, will be kicked, the group is meant so that no one is left out, we will make sure that most of the people in the group have seen and gave their opinion on anything that is shared before it goes out to others ). This group is and will be focused on free speak, support, leadership, kindness, and above all else, the caring of other people's opinions, words, way of life, feelings, and any other issue related to what has been mentioned.

Friday, 9 August 2013

Well its Friday, final day of school, the day to forget about your job and to do what you want for 2 and a half days. The day to feel alive, away from all of that stress of work and relaxing with all that you got and all that you do. Turn up the music, party all night, and forget about your worries about work and so on. If only everyone could feel that way, and have all that.

Fridays are not a day to feel alive to everyone. There are people who are scared of that day, and even the word " Friday ". The voiceless, the isolated ones, the scared suffering ones, the people stuck in abusive life ( meaning with an abusive partner or family or something), how can they feel alive?

Fridays are days of celebration, relaxing, and so on, but you can not forget about those who can't have non or very little of that. Always try you best to leave a little time to share your time with them in any way you can. A small online chat, share a drink with them, you never know what little action can do. Any little action of connection can bring about hope, life, and just signs of happiness in their soul. Make this day feel good for those who don't feel it.

Fridays are about getting out of your stressful work week and into a time of living and being you, but you should remember those who can not feel that way about Fridays and try your best to give a little of your time for them. Share your happy life with those who can't, even if its for a little while. This day is all about feeling free, why not reach out your hand to them and make it a day of freedom for everyone :)

Thursday, 8 August 2013

What is " freedom" these days? What is it to be safe? With so much bullying and chaos and so many greedy " community organizations " in the world, how can we truly be free? With people stealing and taking our ideas, our life, our souls, and many more, what is it to really "be"?

People say "ending it" will set one free. People say that's just how life is. People say just deal with it. How long shall we simply deal with all the wrong in the world? With the stories of horrific issues, deaths, suicide, abuse, and worse, how can we truly make our voice heard?

Some may feel free, but what about those suffering? Shall we continue to focus more on giving " the living " more and more things to celebrate their happiness, or focus on doing both, Creating fun and entertainment, as well as ways to give those suffering to stick out and become something special in life. My opinion is that in order for life to truly feel free for all, everyone, " living " or suffering, must have their time to shine, one way or another. Everyone has something special in them, so why not have something for those suffering to truly show what they got? Something to truly make everyone feel wanted, needed, liked, loved, adored, and so on. Really, how hard it is to create something to give the voiceless the chance to have their voice truly be heard?

To me, everyone is not truly free until everyone has their time to shine, in one way or another. Me myself, I have only been good at computer stuff, wasn't really that much of a poet or anything, mostly because of my depressed life in the past caused by bullying. Now the most important thing to me is to make peoples lives better in any way possible, not as a computer engineer, as it says on my resume, but as a leader of life. Some may say that it sounds selfish, but the truth is, every single one of us has what it takes to truly become leaders of life, to truly make big changes in the world, to be somebody. Sure there are things that may block you from being heard, people ignoring you, people seeing you as a no body, or nothing special. If you know that you somebody, and feel it deep down in your soul, in your guts, every inch of you, never let people bring you down. Stand up and prove them wrong, bring out a better life for yourself and for others. Always be you and don;t let others change what you are and who you are. Stand up and make things happen no matter what people do and say. Create true freedom for everyone. All you got to do is stand up and be heard.

Wednesday, 7 August 2013

Life as a victim of bullying. Some may say its hell, others a way of life, some may also tell yea that it never leaves even after leaving the place where you got bullied. Like dark shadows following you everywhere you go. I have been through a hell of a lot myself, can cause one to lose it, and also fall into deep depression. Life is never easy for those who are suffering from bullies, especially in schools. Some schools have teachers that are there to help you and give you a place to feel safe, but also some teachers that just wish and beg that you stop complaining and may even blame you for what is happening to you. Can be really bad.

HOWEVER, there will always be someone who cares, someone who understands, and someone who is on your side. Other someone around, or people online, there is always people for everyone ( like the saying " there is always someone for everyone " ). Always be yourself, the bullies do not bully because they hate you, they always bully for one reason, attention. Later in life, you will see that you have something special, and you will see people who like you for you.

There are always signs of life. Signs that make you feel welcomed, alive, awakened, and feeling great about things. I know how it feels, you can see the link to my story below. Always remember to never let them change who you are. Always be yourself, the more they bully you, the more you should prove them wrong. Use it to your advantage, and in the future, you will see yourself on top, and them with less.

Its so pointless to talk about bullying, when people are in fear and falling into depression. Its so pointless to take action against abuse, when people are suffering in " horrific relationships " ( abusive relationship ). Its pointless to stop thieves when people's precious possessions are being forced out of people's hands. No need to listen to the cries of the people, when millions of suffering hands are reaching out, begging for change. Why save the lives of the suffering when we can have dances, sports, things that will bring happiness to those living.

As you probably have guessed, that paragraph on top was just sarcastic. The reason i wrote that was that those in power that choose to ignore any single cry for help, those in power that hear from victims of " hell ", but yet continue to do what they normally do, without even trying to change. Now I am not talking about every single person in power, there are those good ones. However, I can think of a few, and have made speeches to a few, that do ignore, that do choose to push away people who stand up and give out so much knowledge of how things can be better, but they choose to ignore. Some of them ignore just because your experience is not written down, like a resume. Think about it for a second, what matters more, the effort one takes to create change, the effort to stand up and speak out, having people listening to them, especially having doctors and life coaches support your actions. Does that matter more than having something written down on a piece of paper ( resume )?

These things need to change. We together need to look at who is in charge of our lives, school boards in control of the schools that our kids go to, the places where they tell you that you will be safe, but yet you hear so much sad stories about the place. We as people need to stand up and demand a change, to be heard, and to take control of our lives, and make things better not just for you but for everybody. We have a voice to change this, each and every one of us has something special, something that can really make a big difference and create a better future for everyone. All we got to do is stand up and be heard.

Tuesday, 6 August 2013

I will be posting a few blog posts about my thoughts for a little while ( few days ). I have made various poems and song lyrics in the past, feel free to go and look them up, but right now, I wish to get myself back to what really matters to me, Creating change, hope, and life for the voiceless. " the voice of the voiceless"

My first article is about how this world needs people to stand up, voices and sounds of life. In a world with so many problems, bullying, abuse, people in power ignoring the cries for help from those who they say they are helping, so many people in need of change. How can they continue to let the suffering continue, are the people in power simply ignoring the cries, or is this their way of revenge for the pain that they suffered? How long can they continue to take advantage of us, to steal from us, to use the cause for a better life to simply increase their income or fame? What can we do to change this!?!

I have made various articles in the past, few of the links are below, about ways to stop bullying in schools. their must be something that will show our kids that they have something to give. Every one of us is special in our own way, and there must be something put in place to allow students to freely show what they can do, NOT including dance competitions and so on. I am talking about something where students can truly show what they can do to change things in their schools and even in various other schools. Students who are bullied are likely to fall into depression, as I have in the past. In order to control, and to stop the pain from building into falling into depression, the student needs to know for himself, not just from others, that they have something special. Something that will change the minds of the victims, that they are far better than what anyone tells them.

Abuse, other in a relationship or in a family, is usually caused by lack of understanding, or a mental issue. A sign of this could be from having suffered in the past ( example, bullied in some way ) that lead one to have a hateful feeling for certain people. If someone was suffering so much to the point that they started to hate the slightest positive comment to someone else, it can cause them to abuse someone. My point in mentioning this is that abuse is always a mental issue. My reason for mentioning this is not to defend abuse in any way, NOT AT ALL. My reason is to stop abuse, we must control that " mental case ". If, however, it can not be control, then that person, the abusive person, must be locked up, or shown the same, weather its locking them in a room with videos of abuse playing, showing that person what he has been causing to others. If, however, this does not change one's view on life, That person must be locked up, or isolated, saving others from harm.

My purpose of this article was to give an introduction into how this world needs heroes and leaders, people to step up and to change things. No more shall we wait and watch from the sidelines as the people in power continue to steal, abuse, control our way of life. No longer shall we wait and hope for the best. We will create a better life not just for ourselves but for everybody. We have it in ourselves to make this area better, to make this land better, to make this country better, TO MAKE THIS WORLD BETTER. All we got to do, is stand up.