Clear Spring are the highest contrast of the Springs, they have a noticeable clarity in their features. They commonly have very bright and striking eyes that allow them to shine in colors that might overwhelm others. They border the Winter category and can wear colors reminiscent of the intensity of the Cool & Brilliant season.

Light Springs may seem similar to Light Summers at first glance, but they have a subtle peachy undertone in their skin and golden tint to their tresses. What would be too weak for other categories brings out the inner glow in these beauties.

Warm Spring is flowing into the Autumn category. It is a warm and intensely saturated season. Oranges and Yellows that are dreaded by cooler complexions thrive in these Warm & Rich hues.

Kylie has amazing green eyes that vary from olive to turquoise in a sunburst pattern. Her flawless skin has rich, peachy undertones.

Her natural hair color is full of rich copper and golden blonde highlights. Follow along with the photographs to see which colors suit her features best.

Kylie glows in gold, her bright eyes pop, and her skin looks lit from within.

The turquoise really mimics the turquoise in Kylie’s eyes. Many of your best colors will mimic hues in your features (hair, lips, eyes, cheeks) or contrast them.

Kylie’s best neutral is brown. See how the camel draws all the rich colors and highlights out of her hair? The chocolate is also pretty on her, but is just a bit too dark. The cocoa leaves her skin looking a bit red and the khaki isn’t strong enough and leaves her looking slightly gray and flat.

Kylie looks amazing in green. Some color families flatter you in almost every shade. Very few people can pull off a full lime green, but Kylie is one of them. Her features are also strengthened by the olive green. Since she is on the border between Spring and Autumn you can see flattering colors in both categories.

Orange may be the most feared hue in the rainbow. But the Spring tangerine is one of Kylie’s friendliest colors. It brings vibrancy to her copper hair and her peachy skin.

Coral and Salmon the warm pink in Kylie’s cheeks and lips while the fuchsia overwhelms and the powder pink underperforms.

Kylie shines in colors that are mid-range (neither pale nor dark), clear (true to color not soft and gray), and warm. Pansy purple has just the right mix of saturation, clarity, and hue. It makes her already stunning eyes sparkle. Winter Indigo is clear, but slightly cool and dark. Autumn Wine is warm, but slightly muddy and deep. Summer Lavender is the obvious option to avoid: cool, pale, and muddy.

Flame Red, according to David Zyla in Color Your Truth, is Kylie’s Romantic color. It’s the color of her blush. The Autumn brick is also flattering contrasting perfectly with her green eyes, but the deep Winter Burgundy casts a shadow and the Summer Cranberry doesn’t bring her lips and cheeks to their full potential.

Spring buttery yellow and Autumn’s rich gold are both intoxicating on Kylie. It’s leaves her skin luminous and showcases each of the unique colors in her complexion at their best. You see Winter’s neon yellow just a bit before you see Kylie and the Summer Chiffon leaves her sick and waxy.

The morning my hundredth or so pregnancy finally showed two lines, I was confused…then thrilled…then secretly disappointed. While my heart galloped happily with the prospect of adding to our family, it stalled when I considered that I was betraying my sisters in the tribe of infertility.

Infertility was something I had fought through for nearly 7 years. The sharp pains of childlessness had been eased 5 months earlier when we adopted our daughter Coco. But I had fought a quiet war to find my children, alongside women I revered, and I didn’t want to add to their pain or surrender my identity as one of them.

I related with these women: with the pain of grieving children I might never know, the hurt of feeling broken, the ache of feeling helpless. I knew what it was like to sit exposed in doctors offices feeling like a broken piece of machinery. I knew how it felt to be so full of unnatural hormones that you would cry when your toast burnt. I knew what it was like to try anything from blue lasers to acupuncture, (which was peaceful until they hooked up electricity to it, and tried to jump start my ovaries.) I knew what it was like to have a miscarriage that nearly killed me, and I knew what it was like to feel so hopeful and then get your period and weep in a public bathroom.

I have four beautiful children now. And they are worth every effort I made to find them, but I wanted to share my experience with others, whether they have been struggling for 6 months or 6 years. So that we can all feel a little less alone.

Find others to Love

While you are seeking motherhood with the whole purpose of your being, you may be missing opportunities to mother right now. Pregnancy is not a prerequisite to nurturing. There are hungry father-in-laws, and overwhelmed sisters, there are friends suffering from too little clean laundry, and husbands who need foot rubs. People need to be prayed for, listened to, and looked after. Someone you know is hurt, lonely, and exhausted, and regardless of whether they are minors, they need mothers. Even mothers need mothers.

Ardeth G. Kapp wrote, “You need not possess children to love them. Loving is not synonymous with possessing, and possessing is not necessarily loving. The world is filled with people to be loved, guided, taught, lifted, and inspired.”

Find Other Wins

Pregnancy is not something you have complete control over. And the more determinedly you pursue it, the farther it can sometimes seem to slip away. While I applaud dedication to finding family, I also advocate living the life you have in front of you now. You can start by setting other goals to pursue: start training for a marathon, plan a trip abroad, take on a new project at work, look into ways to serve your community. Having a variety of interest and pursuits will keep you healthy and strong enough to pursue your fertility goal to its fullest. And remember pregnancy isn’t going to solve every problem you have. And the more you invest in yourself, the better mother you will be. Meeting with a counselor alone or with your spouse may be the best thing you can do to prepare for parenthood. Someday you may even be able to look back on these childless days as a blessing.

Trust Yourself

You may need additional help to find your children, but you are the captain of your fertility team. You are the expert on your body, your circumstances, and your family. If you feel off-track, do your own research, and discuss your findings and feelings with your team. Don’t be afraid to explore a different path or just take a break. You know what you need best.

Set a Budget

Even if you are lucky enough to possess an unlimited monetary budget, we all have a limit on our emotional, spiritual, and physical energy. Decide before you start, how far you will go. How many rounds of IVF can you commit too? How many different doctors and treatments will you explore? How many rounds of surrogacy or adoption can you afford? Discuss with your partner their limits as well. One of you may be committed at a stronger level, and one or both of you will need to compromise to keep your relationship healthy throughout the process. Remember that it’s ok to decide that you can’t afford the financial, emotional, or spiritual costs of pursuing children further. Don’t feel pressure to drive yourself to personal ruin, consider and abide by your own limits.

Be Open to Other Options

There is more than one way to start a family. Two years into infertility, we looked into adoption and decided it wasn’t right for us. We weren’t ready and our daughter wasn’t ready. But three years later, we knew it was the path for us. Adoption has been one of the sweetest blessings in our life. Finding Coco through a selfless birth mother was nothing less than a miracle. And she is just as much a part of us as any of our biological children. Whether you explore donated eggs, donor sperm, surrogacy or decide that it’s time to find purpose with people and projects outside of parenting. The most important thing connecting families isn’t biology. Families are connected by love and commitment.

I hope this tips helped you, but what I believe helped me the most was talking to others who I felt like understood my situation. Feel free to add to the comments below to share your story, questions, or encouragement.