"The greatest mistake you can make in life is to be continually fearing you will make one." ~Elbert Hubbard
"Happiness is not a goal; it is a by-product." ~Eleanor Roosevelt~R.I.P. Grandma 6/22/33 - 10/5/10~

Re: 6/11 The Bachelorette 8: Episode 5 **West Coast Spoilers**

My view of Jef is that he seems very eager to please, very desperate. Ugggh.

What scares me is that if I were in Emily's shoes, I'd probably be lapping it up like she is. I'd like to think I'm smart enough to recognize when something like that is happening to me, but the fact is that when somebody is doting on you, it's really easy to enjoy the ride.