Okay, okay we hear you, we promise. Buuuut, try to see it as a sort of helpful spam filter.

However, this implies that there are unseen messages that didn't quite make it through the first stage of cuts, right?

But what if there was something important in those unanswered messages? That flirty message from the guy you gave your number to in the coffee shop that time that you thought never bothered contacting you? Christ, you could have been headhunted for the role of Queen of the World and you wouldn't be any the wiser!