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I don't know what to do, I can't seem to stop lusting for my best friend. This guy is the brother I've always wanted. Everything was fine till he and his gf moved in with me. Now I just can't stop thinking of him. He so sexy. And he tells me about his sex life and I wish I was apart of it. How can I stop these feelings

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Ask yourself if it's really problematic. Is it really strong ? Does it complteley fill your mind everytime ? Ask yourself these questions, and then if it still is heavy on your mind, you might consider telling him.

From experience, weither he is cool with it and you're kinda still unsatisfied and it doesnt relieve you, or it bothers him and he takes distance. Of course other stuff could happen. For all you know he could be lusting for you too.

Now if you wanna get rid of it, I have no good answer for you. I've been in the situation myself and life happened to cut me away from the person and it didn't change much. The thoughts/feelings just weakened a bit.

You can "accelerate" that by replacing him by another "subject of lust". I know it sounds weird but it could help a bit.

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