In a Fundamentalist Christian family that lives the Biblical principle that the man's authority comes from God, and that the man is in charge of the family and God orders that he discipline his wife and children when needed... can wife wife discipline the husband?

1 Peter 3:6 ESV /As Sarah obeyed Abraham, calling him lord. And you are her children, if you do good and do not fear anything that is frightening.Ephesians 5:22 ESV /Wives, submit to your own husbands, as to the Lord.1 Peter 3:7 ESV /Likewise, husbands, live with your wives in an understanding way, showing honor to the woman as the weaker vessel, since they are heirs with you of the grace of life, so that your prayers may not be hindered.Hebrews 13:4 ESV /Let marriage be held in honor among all, and let the marriage bed be undefiled, for God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterous.Genesis 19:26 ESV /But Lot's wife, behind him, looked back, and she became a pillar of salt.1 Corinthians 6:19-20 ESV /Or do you not know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit within you, whom you have from God? You are not your own, for you were bought with a price. So glorify God in your body.1 John 1:9 ESV /If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness.1 Peter 3:1 ESV /Likewise, wives, be subject to your own husbands, so that even if some do not obey the word, they may be won without a word by the conduct of their wives,1 Timothy 2:1-15 ESV /First of all, then, I urge that supplications, prayers, intercessions, and thanksgivings be made for all people, for kings and all who are in high positions, that we may lead a peaceful and quiet life, godly and dignified in every way. This is good, and it is pleasing in the sight of God our Savior, who desires all people to be saved and to come to the knowledge of the truth. For there is one God, and there is one mediator between God and men, the man Christ Jesus, ...Leviticus 20:13 ESV /If a man lies with a male as with a woman, both of them have committed an abomination; they shall surely be put to death; their blood is upon them.Matthew 18:15-17 ESV /“If your brother sins against you, go and tell him his fault, between you and him alone. If he listens to you, you have gained your brother. But if he does not listen, take one or two others along with you, that every charge may be established by the evidence of two or three witnesses. If he refuses to listen to them, tell it to the church. And if he refuses to listen even to the church, let him be to you as a Gentile and a tax collector.Malachi 3:1-18 ESV /“Behold, I send my messenger, and he will prepare the way before me. And the Lord whom you seek will suddenly come to his temple; and the messenger of the covenant in whom you delight, behold, he is coming, says the Lord of hosts. But who can endure the day of his coming, and who can stand when he appears? For he is like a refiner's fire and like fullers' soap. He will sit as a refiner and purifier of silver, and he will purify the sons of Levi and refine them like gold and silver, and they will bring offerings in righteousness to the Lord. Then the offering of Judah and Jerusalem will be pleasing to the Lord as in the days of old and as in former years. “Then I will draw near to you for judgment. I will be a swift witness against the sorcerers, against the adulterers, against those who swear falsely, against those who oppress the hired worker in his wages, the widow and the fatherless, against those who thrust aside the sojourner, and do not fear me, says the Lord of hosts. ...2 Peter 2:9 ESV /Then the Lord knows how to rescue the godly from trials, and to keep the unrighteous under punishment until the day of judgment,Ephesians 2:2 ESV /In which you once walked, following the course of this world, following the prince of the power of the air, the spirit that is now at work in the sons of disobedience—Genesis 6:1-22 ESV /When man began to multiply on the face of the land and daughters were born to them, the sons of God saw that the daughters of man were attractive. And they took as their wives any they chose. Then the Lord said, “My Spirit shall not abide in man forever, for he is flesh: his days shall be 120 years.” The Nephilim were on the earth in those days, and also afterward, when the sons of God came in to the daughters of man and they bore children to them. These were the mighty men who were of old, the men of renown. The Lord saw that the wickedness of man was great in the earth, and that every intention of the thoughts of his heart was only evil continually. ...1 Timothy 4:1 ESV /Now the Spirit expressly says that in later times some will depart from the faith by devoting themselves to deceitful spirits and teachings of demons,Ephesians 6:5 ESV /Slaves, obey your earthly masters with fear and trembling, with a sincere heart, as you would Christ,Romans 1:28 ESV /And since they did not see fit to acknowledge God, God gave them up to a debased mind to do what ought not to be done.Acts 20:29 ESV /I know that after my departure fierce wolves will come in among you, not sparing the flock;Leviticus 19:18 ESV /You shall not take vengeance or bear a grudge against the sons of your own people, but you shall love your neighbor as yourself: I am the Lord.1 Timothy 1:9-10 ESV /Understanding this, that the law is not laid down for the just but for the lawless and disobedient, for the ungodly and sinners, for the unholy and profane, for those who strike their fathers and mothers, for murderers, the sexually immoral, men who practice homosexuality, enslavers, liars, perjurers, and whatever else is contrary to sound doctrine,Revelation 21:8 ESV /But as for the cowardly, the faithless, the detestable, as for murderers, the sexually immoral, sorcerers, idolaters, and all liars, their portion will be in the lake that burns with fire and sulfur, which is the second death.”Jude 1:6 ESV /And the angels who did not stay within their own position of authority, but left their proper dwelling, he has kept in eternal chains under gloomy darkness until the judgment of the great day—Ephesians 6:1 ESV /Children, obey your parents in the Lord, for this is right.Galatians 5:19-21 ESV /Now the works of the flesh are evident: sexual immorality, impurity, sensuality, idolatry, sorcery, enmity, strife, jealousy, fits of anger, rivalries, dissensions, divisions, envy, drunkenness, orgies, and things like these. I warn you, as I warned you before, that those who do such things will not inherit the kingdom of God.2 Corinthians 5:20 ESV /Therefore, we are ambassadors for Christ, God making his appeal through us. We implore you on behalf of Christ, be reconciled to God.1 Corinthians 7:2 ESV /But because of the temptation to sexual immorality, each man should have his own wife and each woman her own husband.1 Corinthians 6:18 ESV /Flee from sexual immorality. Every other sin a person commits is outside the body, but the sexually immoral person sins against his own body.John 8:10-11 ESV /Jesus stood up and said to her, “Woman, where are they? Has no one condemned you?” She said, “No one, Lord.” And Jesus said, “Neither do I condemn you; go, and from now on sin no more.”]]Matthew 7:21-23 ESV /“Not everyone who says to me, ‘Lord, Lord,’ will enter the kingdom of heaven, but the one who does the will of my Father who is in heaven. On that day many will say to me, ‘Lord, Lord, did we not prophesy in your name, and cast out demons in your name, and do many mighty works in your name?’ And then will I declare to them, ‘I never knew you; depart from me, you workers of lawlessness.’Revelation 17:8 ESV /The beast that you saw was, and is not, and is about to rise from the bottomless pit and go to destruction. And the dwellers on earth whose names have not been written in the book of life from the foundation of the world will marvel to see the beast, because it was and is not and is to come.2 Peter 2:4 ESV /For if God did not spare angels when they sinned, but cast them into hell and committed them to chains of gloomy darkness to be kept until the judgment;Hebrews 12:23 ESV /And to the assembly of the firstborn who are enrolled in heaven, and to God, the judge of all, and to the spirits of the righteous made perfect,1 Corinthians 6:9-11 ESV /Or do you not know that the unrighteous will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived: neither the sexually immoral, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor men who practice homosexuality, nor thieves, nor the greedy, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor swindlers will inherit the kingdom of God. And such were some of you. But you were washed, you were sanctified, you were justified in the name of the Lord Jesus Christ and by the Spirit of our God.

I'm not a fundamentalist, and am egalitarian, so I'll stay out of it. I don't subscribe to the lifestyle and attitudes you have written. In my parents' marriage, no one disciplined the other. They were both godly people. In my marriage, we don't discipline each other; we're godly people.

Most of the verses you listed below have nothing to do with your question above.