As a licensed therapist and certified relationship coach Dr. Lyn Kelley gives you the complete low-down on low achieving, weak, passive men. You'll learn why they are this way - and what to do about it! You'll learn why high achieving women are drawn to low achieving men and 18 ways YOU may be enabling him to remain weak and passive. She'll give you the ONLY strategies that will motivate him to be the partner you want him to be.

Deal Breakers: When to Work on a Relationship and When to Walk Away

This is a book about men. Not all men, just emotionally unhealthy men. The ones who make you question, "Is it him or is it me? Am I making too big a deal out of this? I try to tell him how I feel, but he says I'm overreacting or needy or it's all my fault". Relationships are hard work, but how hard should they be? When do you know you are struggling too hard to make a relationship succeed?

Controlling and Manipulative Men: How to Spot Them and Handle Them

Lyn Kelley, Ph.D., CPC, drawing from years of experience (her own and her clients') gives you the little-known secret tactics - all the things controllers and manipulators DON'T use but don't want you to know! She tells you word-for-word, what to say to the controller to get him off his position and onto yours She explains how women get "hooked" on controllers, how to know the severity of his case, how to know if he can change, and how to get him to surrender to you.

Bad Dick, Good Jane: How Good Girls Get Bad Boys to Behave, Fall in Love, and Commit

A hip, modern, must-listen for women of any age! Dr. Lyn tells you all the "bad" traits in men and what makes a man "bad" for relationships, how to measure his severity of "badness (or goodness)," how to know if he's "manageable" and if so, how to be a "Good Jane" and get him to behave the way you want him to.

Make Him BEG for Your Attention: 75 Communication Secrets for Captivating Men to Get the Love and Commitment You Deserve

Men give their undivided attention to those who respect them. If a man doesn't feel respected while communicating with you, he'll find the respect he needs elsewhere. The woman who knows how to communicate with men can influence the man she wants without resorting to "that mini-skirt he loves." A man craves the attention of a graceful woman who knows exactly what to say to him, when to say it, and, most importantly, how to say it to get what she wants.

How to Break Up, Survive, and Thrive

Dr. Lyn tells you the right and wrong ways to break up. It is vital to your well-being that you know the stages of pain and grieving, how to heal in the best way, and how it affects you if you don't heal in this way. She explains how to break up with someone you're not really into, or you've lost your feelings for, and how to break up with someone you are still in love with. Her strategies will cause you to heal and move on as quickly as possible with dignity and optimism. She provides the best information on how to break up with your lover successfully, leaving everyone better off for it.

Self Centered and Narcissistic Men: How to Spot Them and Handle Them

Lyn Kelley, Ph.D. is a licensed therapist and certified relationship coach who draws from her own experience and that of her clients to give you all the information you'll ever need to know about self-centered and narcissistic men. You'll learn how "bad" he is on a scale from 1 to 10. You'll know all the early warning signs, why you're attracted to him, how to respond to selfish behavior, the 11 questions you MUST ask up front, the 3 C's to watch out for, and the 3 R's cure. If there is any hope for your self-centered man, this book will give you the ONLY strategies that work to turn him into a generous, caring, giving man.

Emotionally Unavailable Men: How to Spot Them and Handle Them

Licensed therapist and certified relationship coach Dr. Lyn Kelley gives you the real lowdown on closed and withdrawn men. Rate your man on the "emotional unavailability scale". Find out why he shuts down emotionally, how to get him to open up, how to connect with him, how to create more intimacy, and how to make him fall deeply in love with you. Understand his psyche and how to know if you should stay or leave. Plus: The best 15 strategies to handle an emotionally unavailable man.

Self Coaching: Become Your Own Life Coach in 12 Easy Steps

Yes, you can become your own Life Coach! This book gives you the proven methods of goal achievement from the world's top coaches. Everything you need to create your dream life plan and put it into action. The fun and easy 12 step workbook exercises give you the step-by-step process, structure, guidance, motivation, and support you need to achieve any goal. Learn your own self-sabotages and how to overcome them. How to become pro-active and move forward step by step.

10 Secrets to Getting Any Man You Want to Want You

This audiobook is for women who want to be in committed, monogamous, satisfying relationships; however, the principles apply to ALL relationships. The most important decision a woman will ever make in her lifetime is choosing a life mate. And if she's already chosen one, the next most important decision a woman can make is use my strategies to get him to want her and keep wanting her! My audiobook will help empower women and ensure that her mate loves her, commits to her, and consistently treats her with dignity, honor, respect.

Let Him Chase You: Dating Advice for Women Who Want Both Long-Lasting Love and Respect in Their Relationships with Men

Real, Practical Dating Advice for Women. Are you the pursuer or do you let men pursue YOU? The answer is the difference between you becoming a side toy for a man to play around with or a girlfriend with a title and eventually a woman who any man would be eager to call his wife. Many of us modern 21st century women have been taught that in order to get a guy we have to go out there and snag him, trick him, tag him and drag him home. But that doesn't work - at least not in the long run. Men are natural-born hunters. It's in their DNA. They won't always admit it, but they absolutely LOVE the chase. They want a woman who has the traits described in this audiobook. They want to be given the opportunity to earn a woman's love. This simple, easy-to-follow audiobook explains how you can shake off meaningless flings with men and start to attract men who are serious about you. You ARE deserving of real, respectful love in your relationships. Don't allow anyone to convince you otherwise!

Women Who Love Too Much: When You Keep Wishing and Hoping He'll Change

Is having 'somebody to love' the most important thing in your life? Do you constantly believe that with 'the right man' you would no longer feel depressed or lonely? Are you bored with 'nice guys' who are open, honest, and dependable? If being in love means being in pain, this book was written for you. Therapist Robin Norwood describes loving too much as a pattern of thoughts and behavior, which certain women develop as a response to problems from childhood.

Men Who Can't Love: How to Recognize a Commitmentphobic Man Before He Breaks Your Heart

Featured on Oprah and Sally Jesse Raphael, this definitive look at the dynamics of male-female communication gets to the heart of the all-too-common phenomenon: women who are ready and willing to commit, and men who back off just as the relationship moves toward the next level. This book can help you recognize early warning signs of the commitmentphobic man and avoid unnecessary stress and heartache.

The Magic of Detachment: How to Let Go of Other People and Their Problems

Dr. Lyn has struggled with the concept of detachment and "letting go" her entire life, and she finally got fed up with OPP’s (other people’s problems)! She shares with you exactly how to detach with compassion, what to say to yourself, what to say aloud, and how to pull out of the situation while avoiding conflict and the emotional rollercoaster. You’ll learn how to protect yourself with spiritual empowerment, how to show genuine love and concern, while detaching from your emotions.

How Ideas Spread

What makes one novel a bestseller, while a similar work languishes unnoticed? Why are the same few baby names suddenly everywhere? Why is everyone talking about that viral video? Welcome to the science of social epidemics: the cutting-edge study of why some ideas, products, and concepts spread wildly, while others quickly flame out. Anyone who has something to sell, a cause to promote, or a message to spread knows that there are obstacles in creating a message that resonates, spreads, and sticks to make their product or idea the word on the street. Enormous sums of time and money have been spent trying to answer the question of why some ideas catch on. And not only is it an ever-present challenge for businesses, governments, and organizations, but it has long been a source of inquiry for psychologists, economists, and sociologists as well.

How to Turn a Player into a Stayer

Finally! Here are the answers to all your questions about that hard-to-pin-down man you've been dating! Here are the little-known secrets (all the things players don't want you to know) to making any man commit to you. If you follow these strategies, any man will beg you for a real relationship!

Lying, Cheating Men: How to Spot Them and Handle Them

Licensed therapist and certified relationship coach Dr. Lyn Kelley tells you how to rate men on the "lying/cheating scale". She explains why men lie and cheat, how to know if he's lying or cheating, how to know if he can change and how to respond to it. She will help you understand antisocial personality, why it's so hard to leave a cheater, how to know if you should leave him, and how to know if he can change.

Why Marriages Succeed or Fail: And How You Can Make Yours Last

Psychologist John Gottman has spent twenty years studying what makes a marriage last. Now you can use his tested methods to evaluate, strengthen, and maintain your own long-term relationship. This breakthrough book guides you through a series of self-tests designed to help you determine what kind of marriage you have, where your strengths and weaknesses are, and what specific actions you can take to help your marriage.

8 Keys to Eliminating Passive-Agressiveness

This audiobook offers guidance for dealing with this common and frustrating form of behavior. Many people often say "yes" to something when they'd rather say "no." They offer cooperation through words but follow up with how they really feel - in actions that contradict their words. That's passive-aggression. At its heart, passive-aggression is about being untrue to oneself, which makes it impossible to have a clean relationship with others.

Publisher's Summary

As a licensed therapist and certified relationship coach Dr. Lyn Kelley gives you the complete low-down on low achieving, weak, passive men. You'll learn why they are this way - and what to do about it! You'll learn why high achieving women are drawn to low achieving men and 18 ways YOU may be enabling him to remain weak and passive. She'll give you the ONLY strategies that will motivate him to be the partner you want him to be.

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The author tells it like it is. Before I read this book I was doing it all wrong and probably causing my boyfriend to be more weak and passive. Since I've been using her strategies my boyfriend has changed in positive ways! When you change, HE changes. I'm so grateful for this book -- it saved my relationship!

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