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I’m inundated with people asking me to help them ‘open themselves up’ to Spirit.

If you’ve read my Blogs at all you’ll know my answer to this off by heart lol BUT here is some advice on how you can open yourself up to Spirit.

Tips and Advice to set you on your path. Then instead of repeating myself in emails I can just refer people here.

Now……..in the last 12 months I have been giving people the Card test. here you get a deck of cards and shuffle them and then you have to guess whether the card is a red or black card. Then when your 80% right, you then try and guess the suit ie hearts,clubs,spades, then once your at 80% you guess the entire card ie 8 of Hearts etc…Someone I got to do this test once spat at me ‘How does using these fucking cards teach you to be psychic’ and my reply to her and to you all is this.

‘The Card test isn’t to help you BE psychic, the card test is to help you tune in your frequency to Spirit AND to test your resolve and determination.’ If you give up doing the card test then your not ever going to be a tuned psychic. Because the truth of the matter is, this is feckin hard work and you have to put in at least 10 years of hard work and dedication to draw out, open up and master your gift.

That is if your not a natural. Even then,no one who is Psychic will be allowed to BE psychic for others without passing the test from The Council. Any Psychic or Medium I know of especially in my Society had ‘The Meeting’ with the Council introduced to them by their Teacher and if your an honest person who uses their gift the right way I won’t even need to go on any further. You’ll KNOW what I’m talking about. The Council are as old as time and historic text is littered with talks of these Guardians of The Spirit World. If you know what I’m talking about you’ll know. I won’t need to say another world. Not any people see them. But most will know them by name alone. The Egyptians spent centuries trying to understand and gain favour with them, the Greeks were terrified of them as were the Goths and Romans. All of whom were desperate to have an inside view of The Spirit World.

As I have explained before, I am what is called an Ancient. Everything I do is based around tens of thousands of years of practice and learning and anything I tell you is based on these practices. And you know I’m only ever going to be honest with you. Brutally honest. And it starts with me saying this:

To open yourself up, you don’t need drums, incense, meditation, courses, books, crystals, Gurus or any of it. Your relationship with Spirit is yours for the taking.Spirit have been waiting multiple millennia for us all to say ‘I want to know you’. So what you need to do to have them in your life is so simple. The question is. Are you prepared in the years of hard work and dedication to achieve it?

So first thing you need to do is what I call ‘Have The Talk’.

When your ready you need to sit and say to Spirit I’m ready to receive you into my life if you think I’m ready. I promise to listen and follow you and to never judge what your teaching me. I will have faith in all that you do and I will work hard to be a good student. I will never doubt myself and everything I do I will do with the absolute best of intentions using my gift and connection to you ONLY to help others where you see fit and never to gain, fame or power. I ask that you always protect me and to teach me what you decide when you think I’m ready.’

or something like that lol

Second:

You need to Pay ATTENTION: learn what is and isn’t Spirit. Just because you get scratched doesn’t mean it is a negative Spirit. 99.9% of the time it is a Spirit trying to show you how they died and they don’t realize you don’t understand this. Don’t let religion or even someone like me sway you. Go with what feels right for you but know what your talking about. You are a student of Death.

So you HAVE to know it inside and out. Know what it feels like to die, (you won’t actually have a choice to be honest, I’ve felt death 100 different ways but in order to know death you must know what it is to die). You can’t know Spirit without knowing how they died. But just because you get goosebumps, or your hair stands up on end or get scratched of pushed it doesn’t mean it is negative. If the only energy the Spirit can muster is to show you how they died, then it means it is important to them that you know how they died. It is up to you to them figure it out and help them. It really pisses me off that people think they’re under attack from ‘dark unseen forces’ because it scratched you. And I don’t blame them.

I blame the media and these shows who portray Spirit in a totally unrealistic way. Dead Resident for example. Like what? you go to 100 houses and EVERY SINGLE ONE has a demon? I never knew they were so busy lol Use logic, science, common sense and psychic ability please I beg you. All that is cold is NOT Spirit. All that growls is NOT a Demon. Spirit will try and communicate in a million different ways and it is up to you to know when it is genuine, when it is wishful thinking or when it is environmental. You need to educate yourself on the many forms of communication and trust me, once you have ‘ The Talk’ things will happen quick and fast. So know your Dead. It’s not going to be just the ones you’ve loved and lost. Once Spirit know your open for business you will have them coming from all angles. So educate yourself. Lucky for you I did all the hard work for you and have listed all the different types of Spirits and their forms of communication lol

Thirdly: Know your boundaries and set them with Spirit:

Sometimes Spirit can pop in at the wrong time, or put you in a position your not comfortable with. I’ve been in restaurants and even just recently at a car boot when Spirit have wanted me to pass on a message to someone. They have to understand what your prepared to do.

While Spirit know what you can and can’t handle they don’t always understand not everyone is actively Psychic and can’t just go talking to all and sundry about their deceased loved ones. So don’t put yourself through anything that makes you uncomfortable. Your the one who has to live with it not Spirit so set boundaries. For example, my spirits know that they are NOT allowed to bother my sons while they are asleep. If they come to me it’s fine but they are to leave the boys out of it. Also they know when I’m sick or exhausted I need quiet time.

They are only to come to me when it is urgent. Also they are never to ‘Pop in’ when I’m doing something that requires my concentration to the fullest. Like using sharp knives, driving (if I drove lol but you know what I mean) you get my drift. They are welcome to talk to me Telepathically but visuals and Time Slips etc…are for when I’m not trying to put nails in to line up a painting or something lol they can give you a fright if they come to you without warning.

Your not always going to get the hum, buzz or anything to warn you they are there and if your concentrating on something then turn around or hear them in their own voice you can jump 100 feet in the air lol Even Psychics can get a fright lol Once you set the boundaries it doesn’t take them long to realize and learn. It happens to me very very rarely now. It’s usually only if it’s urgent.

Fourth:

Don’t run before you can walk. Just because your starting to see them doesn’t mean your ready to go sending them over, or doing readings. Some of you may never be able to predict.

If The Council don’t give you the Test and approval then your never going to be the Clairvoyant kind of Psychic. You may just be the sort that knows they are there but that doesn’t mean your no good or anything.

You will still have the incredible responsibility of being Psychic.

Some people are happy just having their own personal connection to Spirit, some people might have enough of the gift to be able to let people know their loved ones are around but being Psychic doesn’t mean you’ll automatically start seeing into the future, or Time Slipping.

All of this will be determined on your intentions and your understanding of your ability. But even the most basic Psychic ability can mean many wonderful things like the ability to cross Spirits over and assuring scared or grieving people their loved one is at Peace. You can counsel people using even the most basic of ability. But as I said it will be The Council that decide your fate. You will have to practice everything you preach and if you go doing stupid things like Seances, Ouijas, Ghost Hunts and Provoking Spirits etc…..and you have only been openly Psychic for 2 weeks then your going to have to be prepared to get nothing but trouble. So please be smart and responsible enough to know what your capable of. If you misuse your connection and gift Spirit WILL remove it. You have to prove to them you deserve the right to have this gift. If you misuse it, you won’t have it for long. It is called a Gift for that very reason. So don’t take on more than your prepared to handle. If you call on Spirits because you asked them to follow you then you have to be prepared to literally face your demons. You created it, you fix it. Which is a nice segway into

Fifth: Don’t EVER ask The Dead to follow you.

Never, EVER take Spirit with you. Don’t let a child Spirit, lonely woman, sad man or crying baby fool you into thinking it needs to come with you. the WORST thing you can do is invite Spirit to follow you or communicate through you. If you don’t know what your doing you can bring a reign of terror down on yourself and your home. So ANY TIME your going into a situation involving Spirit, Protect yourself and leave what is there……THERE.

Sixth: Make a Code of Conduct.

I talk about this all the time and having one really does make you a better Spiritual person. Your not expected to be perfect but you are expected to be honest. Making a code of conduct always reminds you of why our doing what your doing. I was recently taught by my now deceased teacher the Spiritual Laws of judgement.

As a White Lighter I’m not allowed to judge. Being human first, sometimes I have caught myself doing it. The night my teacher passed away she came to be with my ‘File in hand’ and told me I needed to work on Judgement.

I thought she meant I was too judgmental but then an incident happened on Facebook where I was accused of being non Spiritual because I judged Kim Kardashian and Angelina Jolie based on their fame coming about because of sex and how they were appalling examples of the wrong type of ‘Role Models’ to young girls.

When you hire yourself out for personal appearances for money your a Call Girl. When you take money for work because you released a sex tape, your a Porn Star, when you abuse the sanctity of marriage because you were told it would nice to have a TV wedding your not someone I want to have in my home or around my children. Having money doesn’t give you class or automatic status as a role model.

This is when I realized actually I am allowed to judge others based on their behaviour and also how I choose to have them in my life especially with having young kids. What I am not allowed to do is judge why someone drinks, or takes drugs, no one is perfect. I especially am far from perfect.

I’ve done things in my past I would like to change but I am smart enough to know my mistakes didn’t hurt anyone else but me and they happened so I can learn from them and better myself. Being Spiritual doesn’t mean your expected to be perfect. But you are expected to be honest. And sometimes the truth will hurt.

After I was abused and called all sorts of names on Facebook by people who call themselves Spiritual who weren’t even smart enough to counter argue my point (which said to me they knew I was right) Spirit said to me ‘Being Spiritual means you often have to speak the truth to ears that don’t want to listen’. And that is so true. So create a code of conduct. It will be your guiding light in every single part of your life. Mine involves things like Always being honest,putting others before myself, giving to those who have less etc….Yours can be anything you want it to be if it makes you a better person. Your going to make mistakes but it is whether you correct them and learn from them that matter to Spirit. Spirit don’t begrudge anyone making money but what they care about is how you make your money and what you do with it once you have it. If I was ever lucky enough to have millions in the bank my readings would be free. I’ve said that many times before and I mean ever bit of it.

Seventh: Educate yourself.

Get to know every aspect of Spirituality. From the Theological point of view to the Religious aspects. Know what your living and preaching. You can’t go helping people understand the true nature of Spirit if you yourself don’t understand it or practice it. Never tell anyone anything you yourself don’t believe and never do anything or get anyone to do anything you yourself wouldn’t do.

Because then your not a leader your a dictator. Read up, talk to people, ask questions, watch movies, documentaries, practice. Educate yourself. Your going to have people listen to everything you say so make sure your telling them the right thing. Common sense, logic, psychic ability and science. Right?………Right. Remember learning is knowledge, knowledge is wisdom and wisdom is power. Having the power over yourself and your gift is thee most invaluable most precious gift you could ever be given next to having children. No one person, no amount of money, no single experience can ever teach or give you what Spirit are going to give you for free. So make sure you give yourself and Spirit the respect of knowing what your talking about. Never will you regret it ever. In fact it gives you a sense of peace and comfort not only to yourself and to others when you have the answers. Even the most basic a of Psychic or Spiritual ability will be called upon at times to help someone else or yourself.

Eighth: Document everything

Especially for the first couple of years. Your dreams, your experiences, the lessons you’ve learned, visions, visitations. Get a big journal and write it all down. Date stamp it and never throw it out. You’ll be surprised how helpful it will become later on. I have one for dreams that I write all my ‘premonitions’ in and one for my experiences and lessons. Both started when I was around 15-16yrs old and I still get them out to read them. I’ve been able to tick my premonitions off and understand things that didn’t make sense when they happened but do now. It does help honestly.

Ninth: Know you are privileged.

If you end up a Path Walker which is what you will become if you put all I’m teaching you into practice, your going to be privy to the entire Universe and it’s secrets. Your going to live a life dabbling in Scientific theories and principles even Science is just starting to understand and unravel. Your going to be in a position of great power over the sad, lonely, scared, vulnerable and grieving.

With your knowledge and ability your going to be the final answer in a lot of peoples lives. If you get it wrong, or abuse the privilege you will not only destroy your life but theirs as well. I have had over a dozen people on the brink of suicide come to me this year alone relying on me to give them the answers. If I put my ego in the way in any way, none of them would be alive today.

It doesn’t matter what your principles are, or your religious views or what your views are on anything in their life. You take of your own principles and keep it away from everyone else unless your asked to. But when it comes to the grieving, the scared, fed up and lost they must ALWAYS come first. you do whatever you have to do to comfort them and give them the solace they seek so they choose life. If your only playing at being Psychic, if you think its fun and cool and a bit sexy to be playing at psychic and then you psychically read someone wrong, or read them the wrong way you could be responsible for them dying instead of living.

You can think your cool and righteous Meditating and Namasteing everyone, burning incense so you can transcend space and time but if you don’t understand how important your role is or your just playing at being Spiritual you could commit Spiritual Murder. When your Spiritual, I mean truly Spiritual, you don’t become Spiritual for yourself, you become Spiritual for everyone else and the entire Universe. There is no room for Yourself or your Ego in the world of Spirituality.

Tenth: Know the words you speak.

One of the things that drives me barmy more than anything is watching people misuse or use a term incorrectly. For example to be an Empath does NOT mean to be Psychic. It means to feel Empathy with your fellow man and the Universe on a very high and emotional level. If someone calls themselves an Empath and they mean Psychic, please walk away. They don’t know what they are talking about.

I do not have a problem with New Age or Modern Spirituality but I do have a problem with how many of these places and people are teaching others the wrong thing and putting peoples lives in danger. In going over my books for the year I received in 2014 from January 17th until the 3rd December 211 emails from people who had been told or read something from a New Age practitioner or shop they were a White Lighter or an Empath who should be doing this and that who spent a fortune buying the things they needed or to have the readings that ended up causing them financial, emotional or Spiritual hardship.

One of them is actually being sued. I have no problem what you choose to believe. It’s your faith, your beat, you march to it, what I do have a problem with is people wearing the Uniform but not knowing the job. If you think your a White Lighter because someone said you were and then you can’t control someone suffering from depression or someone who is erratic with fear then your going to bring so much trouble on you, possibly even litigious actions or physical harm.

Because it is one thing to do it yourself but when you involve other people it is a whole different story and probably a good 60% of what I do is fixing other peoples ignorant mistakes. I’m not having a go at anyone who is New Age, I wish no one ill will or bad feeling. I love and respect anyone who takes on the hard task of being Spiritual. I have New Age followers and friends all of whom I know would NEVER abuse their life style. I know they would never dream of putting anyone’s life in danger because of their own ego. But I’m being dramatic with you so you understand the seriousness of being Spiritual and Psychic. I would never lie to you.

My goal and dream is to have everyone on the planet having a level of Spirituality in their lives that makes them happy and stops them being afraid of Death and the Dead. How they do it is up to them but when your dealing with other peoples lives you need to understand the importance and serious nature of the business. And that is, if you don’t know what your doing or do it for the wrong reasons, you won’t last long and Spirit will shut you down. With great power comes great responsibility. So know the words you speak. A sensitive is someone who feels Spirit but doesn’t want to be called Psychic. The word Psychic can be seen as a dirty word but what else are you to call the ability? Someone who drives for a living is called a Driver, someone who nurses is a Nurse etc…someone who can communicate with the dead using psychic ability is called a Psychic. It is the Science of it after all so call it what it is.

Also a White Lighter is someone who lives their life under the guidance of Spirit for the purpose of helping others. All these terms have been around for centuries, don’t let anyone teach you otherwise. The strength of your gift will be based on the level of your understanding. The more you know the more you learn. The more you learn the more you can teach. The more you teach the more others learn, the more people learn the better our world will be.

Everything I have told you is all things I have done myself. You can have no ability or have a small amount of ability but if you do all of these thing you WILL have the ability to see and communicate with the dead. Some people in my society were in there 60s when they became Open to Spirit. But as I said in the beginning, just because you have the gift doesn’t mean your going to be allowed to BE a Psychic. Some of you I know will just want to have a better understanding of what your ability is all about. Some of you will want to help others, some of you will want to make a living from it. It is your gift to do with it what you want. But ultimately it will be Spirit who decide if you get to use it on others and how you get to use it.

Be honest, be pure of heart, have the best of intentions and never do it for the money. Spirit will give you the life they see you working hard to have, you will never make yourself be rich and famous if it isn’t in your destiny. But you will be rewarded all the time for your selfless acts and good deeds. The rewards are better than any lottery win I promise you that. When someone you took from the darkest place in their life and showed them the light at the end of their tunnel so they could walk through it and see the light for themselves no amount of money of earth is better than that feeling of knowing you got to watch them come out the other end saved and at peace.

You will never worry about money, Spirit will ALWAYS have your back and your Faith will be stronger than anything else in your life. They will never lie to you or let you down. The path they walk you down is littered with love and abundance, opportunity and friendship, loyalty and respect, admiration and understanding. People will respect you and fear you, love you or hate you, but for those that matter you will be their light. These are the reason it is called a Gift. This is why it is a privilege and why I am so fierce to protect it. Having a gift is an honour not a right.

If you spend the next 10 years working on all of these things once you have The Talk, you will be rich beyond your wildest dreams. I wake up every day wondering how I got to be so luck to have the life, followers and clients that I have. Such loyalty is truly humbling to me.

You can have that too if you follow my teachings. Honest, easy and free. But if you don’t get past the card test, your either never going to have the patience to master your craft or your going to take decades to get past the first level. You will need patience, dedication and humility. Spirit will teach you at the pace they know your capable of. Remember to protect yourself at every connection, protect yourself every night at bed time and make sure you protect those around you too. you might be the only one practicing your ability but if your in a house with others they WILL get caught up in it at some point.

You must remember, Spirit will have been waiting for you to have ‘The Talk’ since the day you were born if it is in your destiny to have this ability opened up. They will come thick and fast. Even the Negative ones. You WILL get tested many times before you get the go ahead to use your gift out in the world should that be the plan and even if it isn’t your going to be tested many many times.

The Light Side goes par and parcel with the Dark Side at first. So just remember what I have taught in this blog about it and you’ll be fine. Be firm, protect yourself and don’t give in to the fear. Remember they need your fear to survive so don’t give it to them. Starve them of the fear. They will be whatever your most afraid of and use it against you. Don’t give in to it. get angry, get protective and tell them where to get off then turn your back on them. However, it is just a test.

Always remember Spirit have your back. If you keep yourself honest and only use your gift the right way then the Dark Side or anything negative won’t really be interested in you if your not doing anything you shouldn’t be. The Dark Side don’t worry about people who just want to open up to understand or have a better connection to Spirit. It’s if you want to use your gift for a greater humanitarian purpose they will have a problem with. But they are weak pussy bitches who need to frighten you in order to exist. So tell them where to go and shut it all down before it takes off okay? Also when you start this journey remember to forget everything you knew before because the way Spirit choose to do it for you doesn’t necessarily mean it will be done the way you think it should be done or even how. You will be the Student and the Teacher for the rest of your life.

Thank you for your trust and faith in me in knowing my character. I am honest, I am forthright and blunt but I’m not cruel or abusive. I just want to help people and it requires honesty. I want to help heal people not hurt them. Those that know me and my style know this about me. I’m True Blue.

Happy New Year and I love you all

Love and Light

Debbie

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If you are a follower of mine and you have been blessed with the patience to sit and read all of my Posts, then not only are you gifted with patience but you will know I am what is called an Ancient.

Which means I, like my siblings can trace my psychic ability back through many generations of my family as far back as my ancient Egyptian ancestry.
While my Parents weren’t open about their gifts they talked openly to us kids.

I grew up still at a time when you simply didn’t talk to strangers about your ability to see the dead. I’m blessed not to have grown up in a racist country but it was a very Christian country and being a Catholic Psychic Family was virtually punishable by death for your reputation and social standing. I was a giant, over weight kid who questioned authority if I thought it was wrong, I didn’t need to be a further out cast lol

However, talking about the Spirits we had seen, discussing premonitions etc…around the dinner table was second nature to us. My parents didn’t understand their own gifts but they never ever stopped us from understanding ours.

THIS readers is what every parent should be like. I understand more than most what your kids are going through and as a parent of psychic kids I know how complicated it can be to explain what is happening to your children.

It doesn’t matter if your children are too young to talk or have a limited vocabulary. If they are seeing things you’ll know it. If you know your children are seeing Spirits I have some tips to help you deal with it a lot better so you not only find answers your seeking but you will also help your children to have the same relationship with Spirit as I do which I have to be honest and say ‘Is the best relationship your child will ever have in their entire life’. So here are some tips and hints on the things you can do to help your child embrace, understand and keep their gifts.

Now, please remember just because it is a black shadow doesn’t mean it is an evil or demonic Spirit. It just means the Spirit hasn’t got enough energy to draw on to manifest.

Okay so here we go.

1) If your child is afraid to sleep in their room at night it is important to give them back the power. I gave my sons, a torch to keep on for as long as they want.

The most important thing about the Spirits that are in the room at night is they aren’t there to frighten your children. They are drawn to their light. All children can see Spirit up to the age of about 8 before society pressure takes over. I’m always so happy to hear when I child’s gift has gone beyond that.

It is important they understand that it is perfectly normal to see dead people and they are only there to get help or to protect your children. The younger the child the closer they are to being Spirit themselves. So newborns are considered Spirits until they can see and hear and watch. Then they are immortal beings. But they all have that light.
Some Spirits can be scary, even negative ones will scare your child but ALL can be dealt with painlessly and easily as all Spirits are teaching ones even dark side ones. But the dark side are terrified of children because they are pure light so tend not to target them unless asked or invited to do so. But even then the child’s defenses would need to be down ie being lead to believe they are evil by someone they trust.

Psychic ability comes with a light only the dead and some intuitive people can see. But it is the light that draws the Spirit. By giving your child a torch or lamp your changing the type of light Spirit see. It seems to calm them down. Or tone them down might be the better term. They become less scary to the child.

2) It is VERY important that your child see’s your not afraid and have it all under control. They need their parents and Guardians to be strong so they learn to be strong too. Everything your child is going to learn is through watching you. So it is important that you never show fear. You can be as scared as you like inside but to your children you must look in complete control at least to your child. If all your dealing with is your average every day Spirit then you have nothing to fear. That I promise you. When your child goes to bed it is important you do this ritual every night. As they grow more confident and aware they will end up doing it themselves. Okay so the Ritual…….

Tuck your child in bed with their security blankets, binkys or toy they love most. Snuggle them in, give them a kiss and say ‘Sweet dreams Baby, and remember we aren’t going to let the Spirits make us afraid are we? Because Mummy/Daddy/Granny etc…. won’t let anyone or anything scare my Baby. Do you hear that Spirits, we know your here and we know your trying to communicate but your scaring my baby/child. Mummy/Daddy/Granny etc…will come and tell you off and put you on the naughty step (basically whatever it is you do to reprimand your child when naughty). Your not allowed to come and play at night. Night is for sleeping and (child’s name) needs their sleep because they are only little. You have to listen to me because if you don’t respect what I am saying then I will have to send you away. Day time or in dreams is fine but your not allowed here at night okay?’

Your child will trust that your taking their fear or concern seriously. They will feel safe and confident that you can help them and it means they won’t hesitate to come to you in the future to tell them what is bothering them. My son talks to me about any concern he has now including big worrying ones. When your child knows you always have their back and you will always protect them, they trust you more to talk openly about their visions, concerns and worries. It is actually quite a bonding experience. You can of course use your own words to the same effect but you basically just want your child to hear you saying to the Spirits they see ‘We know your here but scaring them isn’t allowed. So you play by the same rules or you will have to leave.’ This will give your child confidence and make them feel protected. Plus you bond with them. My son and I fight like Cats and Dogs but he told his Dad ‘The only thing I’m scared of is Mum when she yells but she is the only one who makes me not afraid of Spirits and she’s my best Fwend’ (he can’t say his R’s with some words lol).

3) Always encourage your child to talk to you about what they see. Even with a limited vocabulary you know what your child is saying or gesturing. Start as young as you can. Use whatever language you have to in order to get them to open up. Every time they see something, encourage them to talk to you. The reason being is if your child is seeing Spirits, they will be seeing some in their death state and even being shown things that will happen in the future.
You need to get them talking to you so you can help them understand what it is they are seeing. If they are seeing things you can”t explain come to me and I will help you. Especially if your child is like my youngest and comes out with things like ‘Mum a Spirit showed me an explosion in a train tunnel’ and then 2 weeks later a train in Switzerland catches fire.
But it can and probably will happen at some point. But trust me, some of them can be scary and confusing so you need them to be able to talk to you any time. It really does help to get it off your chest as a kid even if you don’t want to dealing with any of it. But it is true that a problem shared is a problem halved. I promise you with every fiber of my being, if you can’t figure out what they are being shown come to me and I will help you try to understand it.

4) While your child has been given a special gift that no amount of money can buy, always teach them to be proud, humble and honest about their gift. If your child is allowed to show off and be condescending as a child, Spirit will remove their gifts by the time they are adults. But in the same breathe don’t let them hide what they are. You can absolutely raise your children to be humble with their craft while confident as well.
Some people will react in a completely ignorant and stupid manner, some will embrace everything your child says. But you will have occasions when out in public when your child will say something like ‘Mum that waitresses Dad is standing with her and he wants me to tell her Happy Birthday and I love you’. Now…..you should never make your child feel anything other than relaxed about what they have seen. But what you do next matters. What I would do is write it down on a piece of paper and hand it to them as we are walking out. But my point is, you should always encourage them to use their gift and not to be ashamed of it but at the same time to be socially conscious of the fact that not everyone can handle being around the dead or get direct messages from them.

Your children aren’t different to other kids, they are just ‘more’ than the average child. lol I taught my son to look at any kid who doesn’t like him and tries to bully him as ‘they only do it because they are afraid of your light’. It makes him feel sorry for them because they don’t have the Special Light.

5) Encourage them to ask the Spirit questions when they are old enough. It will teach them to interact with them better and when they see Spirits human side it makes them less afraid. At some point you realize they are someones Mum, Dad, Brother, Sister, Grandparent, Husband, Wife, Sibling, Grandchild etc…and they either just want to be acknowledged or they might have a message.

If your child can let his/her Teacher, Neighbour, Friend etc..that their loved one has sent a message your child will be bringing Peace to the receiver. So the more information your child can get from the Spirit the more they have to give to the receiver who then can’t deny the message.

There are many ways to approach this kind of situation but I find an email, or letter is still the best way to go about it. Write it on our child’s behalf and end it with a ‘If you would like to know more please don’t hesitate to ask’. Then it leaves it open to communication should the receiver want it. But this teaches your child about being responsible with their gift as well.

If you follow these key things not only will you help your child understand without fear what their gifts are and how natural being around Spirit can be but it is a beautiful way to keep a bond with your child because I will never forget what my parents did for me when I was a kid and love them more for the experience. So I guarantee you your children will feel the same way too.

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