I thought about your family many times yesterday. I used to think gathering afterwards was kind of awful, but as I get older I can see the benefits - you can cry with family and friends if you need to, share stories, decompress a bit, and share lots of hugs. And it never hurts to have a sweet child like Charlie around. Sending thoughts for peace and comfort in the coming days.

Mary, even though we have never met, I feel as if I know you and your family and I am so very sorry for your loss. I'm glad you are finding strength in those around you, particularly adorable Charlie. May you continue to find that strength and begin to heal. Deb