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I can't answer for all guys, but I find a lot of different aspects of a woman sexy.

Personality (This matters a lot more than some might think)

Intelligence (This matters a lot more than some might think)

But those two things are rather nebulous and can take time to really judge on.

Looks are something that matter in fact to be honest they matter as much as the other two. All three of these basic aspects and the most holy of triumvirates make up the promise of the possibility of attraction.

If you go just from a physical standpoint, how women dress is one of those things that can work or not work for me personally. I have found women who dress both conservatively or provocative sexy, or dressing up or down sexy. It really depends on the people involved in that instance.

If you are into someone than it doesn’t matter what they wear, because you will find them sexy, at least that’s my experience.

Does that mean I don’t like it when a woman dresses up or puts on makeup? Hell yes, I like it.

But to me if I care for someone and I’m connected to someone emotionally and not just physically, the element of sexiness becomes different to me.

Sexual... Wow.. I love tattoos.. Short hair.. small little perky breast and wits that could move a politician to drop to his knees and beg forgivness. Other than that.. if you're a woman.. usually does the trick ladies..it isn't hard ..unless you make it HARD.. -= hahaha..inside joke, catch it??=- usually if you talk and act interested..at least for a night..you are going to get you're hold rammed.. simple.. Logical and basic..since the world ...I mean men and women run everything off sexual desire. It's a fact.. and well...not a damn thing any of us mammals can do about it.. -= GRINZ =-

Oh, my. I can't speak for the men, but I can tell you what men have told me that they adore about me. Wow. That sounds conceited. Wasn't meant in that light, I assure you. In any event, I have super soft skin which most of my dudefellers love. Also, my hair is a little longer than most and apparently, they love to thread their fingers through it. I get tons and tons of compliments about my 'scent', even if I'm not wearing any type of perfume, so my guess would be that men love a clean, fresh scent. I'm quite feminine and most of the guys I know love it! I conduct myself as a lady and that garners me lots of respect and compliments. Oh, and let's not forget silk stockings and anything lace ! The guys love how femininely I dress. I also receive compliments on how I carry myself. I have dainty feet which I'm told is cute. I'm not sure about that one. Smacks of strangeness to me. I get the most compliments on my personality and my laughter, though. I guess it pays to be a silly, sweet girl.

Its really on an individual basis... Sexy isnt just looks, although a woman wearing clothes that fit, and colors that match their skin tone and personality can be simply irresistable.

Personality has a lot to do with it... Sometimes its the shy, quiet type, sometimes its someone who is a bit more vocal and aggressive. Self confidence is a great thing. How a woman carries herself is yet another.

I personally like for a woman to usually dress somewhat in a feminine manner... I love to see a woman wear pink. Lace is nice. Its not a neccessity(sp) though. On the flip side... seeing a girl in work clothes/more masculine dress can also be very appealing.

One thing to remember, most men want to marry a virgin but have a whore in bed. We want to marry our mothers and go to bed with a porn queen. I say leave most of the sexy for the bedroom and act virginal outside of the bedroom when other folks are around.

It is different for every woman. I have seen some women in sweats and a tee give me a feeling like I just had to have them. Other women can dress up and I wont give a second look. this thread can go for years...lol

My Grandmother, my Mother, and I...we all sway our hips ever so gently. We're trying to teach my Sister-in-law this, but either you have it or you don't...methinks she doesn't have it...which is sad 'cause she's the only one walking in our little group without that gentle sway the ladies of our family have perfected over years and years...

Hello all,......To me it's a few things, going along w/ today. I found in a woman who carries herself well,exmpl. Doesnt mimmic a certain way of walking, not looking tense, not forcing habbits of others, and not looking to force herself. ( A fluidness or flow about her).Something that gets you to stare w/out trying & Say (WOW!). When with her noticing a state of calm in her being, as well as not needing anything to improve her own chemistry such as jewlery, perfumes,hair colors,make up etc. Yes Im partial to tomboys or natural looks (Sue me). A man can find Qualities about a woman in his own taste to find it sexy, it can be Inteligents,confidents, personality, low maintenance or (high). "**I personally find a woman to be sexy when she can hold her own (Especialy when shes small ) in a so called mans world, shut a man down in a moments time,Look good in Contruction clothes (Boots,Caps,Jeans,-Dirty-) and stop traffic in a gown, if she ever wore one. A woman that can easly do a mans job, sometimes even better. I guess for me it is(" Charactor") all togather..P.S Example: yes Im older then her (big time ) but Avril Lavien

Eyes, ladies with defined waist and curvey hips, it might be the lips, a smile, some special joke that shows intelligent wit, the way she holds a child, her legs, the way she looks in a skirt, the way she looks riding a horse, the way she looks in jeans, her neck, the jokes she laughs at and the ones she doesn't, when she closes her eyes and sways to the music, all this and more

Lol..ok, coming from an old broad..men find self confidence a turn on...that and "the walk"...no matter the clothes, baseball cap or not, even smelling of horses..if you have that easy, natural hip swaying walk (especially in cowboy boots n snug jeans)...heads'll turn to watch. Head up, shoulders back (boobs or no), said shoulders held still while the rest sways just a tad, walking "with your hips" and striking your heel down. Lmao....works every time.

A great sense of humorThe ability to have a real conversation (brains)The ability to be a great flirt - to the guy shes with only thoughConfidence in herself

And then there's physical things - for me, some of them are...

A great smileBeautiful eyesPigtails are always hot when done rightThe perfume she wears (just enough so only when you're close you can smell it)Freckles are awesome!Cute shoesA sense of style that leaves a little to the imagination but not TOO muchOh, and I LOVE it when she can pull off those hip looking squarish glasses

It's hard to nail it down exactly, but when I see it - I just know because my knees will get weak. ;)