Crushes: Help and advice

29 June 2017 (M) -
why do people have friends and when you talk to them and you say you love them and I got a friend he got's a girl friend and I know them for quit some time they are in a relationship and me and my friend his girlfriend are friends put I would love ...

29 June 2017 (F) -
I need some objective clarity. So here goes. When we were teens, say 16 years ago, he had a major crush on me and we went out a few times. I never reciprocated because I guess there weren't any feelings there, and I distanced myself from him. He ...

28 June 2017 (F) -
I'm really hurt. My best friend C and I have been bffs for 5 years. We've had our share of ups and downs, but always managed to get through it and remain close as we were before. He'd been into me, like, majorly into me for 2 years. He said he was ...

27 June 2017 (F) -
Hi everyone. I'm writing about an issue I have at work with regards to a co-worker. I work in a pub so it is a very relaxed atmosphere. I get on with all my co-workers, both male and female. However, there is one particular co-worker who...

27 June 2017 (F) -
This boy I really like makes me super wet every time i think about him. I like him for his personality, He is the most sweetest smartest funniest boy I ever met. We are just friend's but I really want to be more than that. But I know that won't ...

25 June 2017 (F) -
Hi! A guy I have a crush on has extended a general invitation to hang out sometime. He doesn't know I like him and our relationship right now is just friends. However, he has a girlfriend. Just to clarify I am not allowing my personal feelings for ...

22 June 2017 (F) -
The guy I've been trying to talk to all year - and had a major crush on for two years - has just told me that he's wanted to be friends for a long time, but didn't know how to do it. In fact, he even gave me his phone number and email addresses. As ...

20 June 2017 (F) -
So I need some advice about 'the one who got away..' I need to start with the fact that I had a really difficult childhood because my parents were quite abusive and had alcohol issues, and I had to depend on myself from a young age. But my wo...

18 June 2017 (F) -
Myself and a guy I work with have been dancing around each other for a while now, we've been out a couple of times and he's kissed me with a bit of Dutch courage on board! Thing is he's really shy and un-confident and he fully admits to that whe...

15 June 2017 (F) -
MEN what does this mean? one day my crush had came late 2 pick me up and I said you're late and he said traffic, laughing and I said I hope you don't use that excuse on your girlfriend. he said nothing, he just laughed and smiled....and I smiled and ...

10 June 2017 (M) -
Hi people I'm a college student from France. So I want to share my story with you all and hopefully find a solution. A couple friends and I went on vacation to Turkey 2 weeks ago, and I met this gorgeous Turkish girl. I've never seen anything li...

10 June 2017 (M) -
Well, I have a crush on coworker, but she is dating another co-worker and has a kid with him. She asked me if I think her boyfriend would cheat on her. I told her "no, I didn't think so". She supposed to come over and hang out, but Im not going to ...

10 June 2017 (F) -
My boyfriend and I have been together for nearly 10 years. In the past 4 years, I've started to become really unhappy because he has broken so many promises, has lied so much, and I want to be married. He says he want's to be married too, but...

10 June 2017 (M) -
My wife knows I am a crossdresser so why was she so angry at me when I came home the other night. I was completely dressed, with a full make over, my eyebrows plucked super thin with a high arch in them and my ears pierced. She said she knows t...

9 June 2017 (F) -
Hello, I've been here historically and your answers have really helped me so I am hoping you can help me with something else as I honestly don't know how to talk to anyone about this or if I should. Before I get into it I need to point out that I...

8 June 2017 (M) -
hello guys, I have a crush on my professor, he is 60 years old, it been more than 2 years, I don't know what to do. I'm always thinking of him. He is so smart and handsome, I like his personality and smile. I feel I need to know him,and talk...

8 June 2017 (F) -
So I have been seeing this amazing guy for a few months now and I'm head over heels for him. He is the same towards me. The only thing that worries me is he is 18 years older than me and is separated with kids... Advice please?...

7 June 2017 (?) -
Dear Cupid, I have recently been contacted by the man I've been in love with for 27 years. There are songs I couldn't listen to, our anniversary date that I still hold dear to my heart. I hadn't laid eyes on him in 18 years and that one time wa...

7 June 2017 (F) -
Hello everyone, So i'm 19 years old and there's a guy i met online, who's really cute, smart and i like him. It's my first time really liking someone. We still didn't meet, though we're chatting everyday for hours.. The thing is he told me late...

7 June 2017 (F) -
Hello everyone. I've been friends with this guy for a little over a year now. He was a friend of a friend, and one day he messaged me and started talking about relationships. I responded and it followed with us messaging each other back and fort...

5 June 2017 (F) -
Hello, I'm 17 going on 18 and I am a little confused about my feelings towards a guy. In a nut shell, we've been friends for a while, things got flirty, he hung out a few times, I lost my virginity to him, we decided to stay friends to avoid th...

4 June 2017 (F) -
I'm 15 and talking to this guy I've had a crush on for this whole year. He used to like me but doesn't anymore apparently. I was out with friends the other night and when they were picking me up at my house the guy I like said I looked hot asf, my ...

4 June 2017 (M) -
I'm just going to dive in here. I'm friends with a girl that I have a crush on. She had invited me over to her house, because she wanted to show me a gift I had given here the year before, that she had just found. Then later, she has asked me to ...

2 June 2017 (F) -
I've never been much of a romantic; I don't really believe in love at first sight, or soul mates, and far prefer my relationship to be based on practical criteria over emotions (we have common interests, we have good conversations, we have a similar ...

2 June 2017 (F) -
I just need some advice So I've been dating my boyfriend for 9 months now and it's going great! It's the best relationship I've ever had. However there is this guy who I work with, and like we talked for ages and got really close as friends,...

1 June 2017 (F) -
I got back onto the dating scene a couple of weeks ago after a year of being single. I went onto a dating app and I met someone there. He caught me off guard completely! I fell for him, hard. He was so handsome and charming! I couldn't believe ...