'Bachelorette' Ali Fedotowsky Wants Roberto Martinez Back?

Ali admits: ‘We had something really special.’

BacheloretteAli Fedotowsky and her fiancée Roberto Martinez called it quits after an 18-month engagement on Nov. 21. But now Ali seems to be regretting her decision that she dumped Roberto and might even be considering getting back together with him.

Breaking up is never easy, but Ali reveals her trick to battling the pain. “You have to do things you love,” she shares. “One thing that I do — I know it sounds really corny — but I actually say a lot of self-affirmations.”

“If I’m starting to feel bad about something, I’ll say, ‘You’re a strong woman, Ali,'” she continues. “‘You are strong, you are tough, you will get through this, you can do it.’ It immediately changes my mood and I feel like I could tackle anything.”