Tag: going on dates

The ultimate cheating quiz

After being in a serious relationship with my girlfriend for over four years, I began to suspect her of cheating. I suspected this because she began acting a lot colder towards me and always seemed to be too busy to spend time with me like she used to. Since my girlfriend is very secretive, catching her in the act was basically impossible — still I didn’t want to waste anymore time on her and wanted to know if she was sleeping around right away, so I went on my computer and took a cheating quiz. This cheating quiz really helped me state the obvious, and sadly, the obvious was that my girlfriend was cheating on me via online dating websites.

Signs of an affair and how to spot one

After taking the cheating quiz, I was able to properly spot the signs of an affair. So when I began to examine my girlfriend’s behavior, I instantly knew she that she was cheating on me. To me, the most obvious sign that she was having an affair was her lack of interest in me. It seemed that she was so focused on covering up her tracks that she never asked me how my day was, or frankly, any questions at all because she was afraid I would then direct the same questions back to her.

Is she seeing other men in Miami?

When it started to become more clear that she was cheating, I couldn’t help but think about her seeing other men in Miami. Who were these other men and how did she meet them? Since Miami is a populated area, I suspected her of using online dating platforms to meet local men, but there are a lot of ways she could have met some. Since most people now use online dating services to cheat on their partners, looking through her laptop’s history helped me figure out exactly who she was talking to to and how frequently.

Does it look like she’s getting ready to go out on dates?

Before I took the cheating quiz and found out my girlfriend was cheating, I was always skeptical about her going out with her friends — not because I didn’t trust her but because of how long she would take to get ready to go out. My girlfriend would leave our house, looking like she just got ready to go out on a date, but then say she was grabbing drinks with friends. Although it wasn’t uncommon for her to go out for drinks, it was strange to see her so done-up. In the end, I realised that she had been using her friends as an alibi and actually going out on dates with other men in Miami instead.

Does she always have her cellphone on her?

When I first started dating my girlfriend, her cell phone was like my cell phone: we had no passwords or privacy arguments. But all that changed when she started cheating on me and put a password on her cell phone. When I first saw the password and asked her about it, she told me she wanted to have more privacy — this was probably the biggest sign she could have given me — because people who have nothing to hide don’t need to hide their phone from their partners.