newdiva the best way to get out of it is to say when asked "i dont want to be involved in this". when youre asked to explain just repeat the phrase and be done with it. if its that serious that folks are fasting and praying on you behalf, you friend at sh*t

Yeah. thanks ladies. and it's a dude. I wasn't sure what was in the Bestie Codex. I really don't want to get involved also because in the back of my mind I was thinking he needed a lesson. He's done sh*t like this before but it's never gotten this far gone. I keep tellin' him to come clean. And I did tell him that I didn't want to be involved. It's only now that he's worried about his 'good name' back home in Trinidad so he needs me to 'vouch' for him...that he wasn't lying. Come on now. I'm not tryna add on to my karmic debt.

There is a bird in a poem by T. S. Eliot who says that mankind cannot
bear very much reality; but the bird is mistaken. A man can endure the
entire weight of the universe for eighty years. It is unreality that he
cannot bear.

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