Troian Bellisario and Patrick J. Adams are one of those elusive couple you’d never know where dating unless you followed them on social media. The Pretty Little Liars actress and Suits actor have been together for nearly a decade, but have managed to keep their relationship pretty private. They recently got married in a beautiful California ceremony, but because of their shyness of the spotlight — not much is known about them! Here are 11 things you probably didn’t know about Patrick J. Adams and Troian Bellisario’s Relationship:

11. How They Met

The two actors met on the set of the play in 2009. “We did a play together in L.A. called Equivocation. She was cast for the part of my romantic interest. We met and that was it. That was a little more than three years ago,” said Adams in a 2013 interview. Their relationship hasn’t been easy as they’ve both held main castings in popular shows; Troian was a lead cast member in Pretty Little Liars, while Patrick co-stars in Suits.

10. Grand Gesture

Maintaining a relationship in Hollywood can be hard, especially when both individuals are filming in separate cities on separate schedules. This is what happened to Troian and Patrick in the beginning of their relationship. Luckily, Patrick wasn’t about to let her get away that easily! He made a grand gesture to win her back which involved him auditioning for a small role on her show. “We had broken up at that point, and I decided to audition for the guest role which I normally wouldn’t have and got it,” he said. He played the role of Hardy in season 1’s episode “Reality Bites Me.”