Friday, October 19, 2012

Some
of you reading this article have asked me several times why of all places on
earth I chose to live and work here.In
my school days, most of my classmates never knew I came from Lyantonde because I
didn’t want to be associated with a town popular for prostitutes and the fact
that Uganda’s first HIV case was discovered few miles from here in 1982.As I grew up, I learnt to love and appreciate
the good and bad things about the only place I call home; HIV/AIDS and
prostitutes inclusive.

One night, a great friend, Ryan drove me back home on N25 Milwaukee,
Wisconsin from a barbecue
night
out. “I want to ask you this son; I hope it won’t offend you… We have talked
about so many things and set our goals for the future, I have realized you
speak with a lot of energy and love for people living with HIV and your love
for them, are you HIV positive? Hey Mjomba Ryan,
I want to answer this question again here, I am not HIV positive and might not
be soon (Insha Allah). I have work with people living with HIV/AIDS, shared
food with them, meet them every day, and hug them; they are part of me. In March 2008, I founded ICOD Action
Network help my community overcome the most pressing problems and with HIV/AIDS
among youth and women top on the agenda.

Five
years down the road, everyone at ICOD Action Network, donors, beneficiaries and
community are happy for what we have achieved. Congratulations folks, but I
think we won’t celebrate for long if we don’t design projects targeting
prostitutes and directly work with them.

I
have lived in Lyantonde for a very long time but I have never come so close to a
prostitute as I did few days ago. It
never came to my mind that I would hold hands or share a drink with my
community’s most despised girls just because they are prostitutes. Any ways, I
had good time with the girls I met. I actually met over 10 sisters (you call
the prostitutes) but will share with you stories from only two.

Are
you wondering why I chose to have time with prostitutes? I must clarify this:
the first is that I have been raised, lived and worked in town popular for harboring
the region’s most experienced prostitutes,
so they are my sisters, I hold no prejudice against them and I believe none of
these girls was born a prostitute. All
the girls I met were forced into prostitution by socio-economic hardships and
would stop if they had other means of earning a living. Finding a title for this article gave me a
headache until I talked this particular girl Jam (not real name) who told me she entertains
eight different men every day” Can this be true?

Jam
hails from Isingiro district and the is the only girl in the family of 6.

Grabs
a cold beer, stares at me and …. “What do you want to know? I am a prostitute,
don’t you know that? I conceived the first time I slept with a man when I was
in senior three. I dropped out of school and I went to Mbarara to work as a
waitress. I hate all men…, but I don’t hate you since you have bought me beer”
Jam says she is 19 and is the youngest of the girls at the bar where she is works. I think at 19, she would be in
high school or in University. She goes on, “I stay here, this is my home and
this is my house. When you come around and need me, just knock on my door”. Need you? My heart jerks… “I can serve eight
different men in day. That’s why these girls hate me because I am better than
them. They accuse me for using witchcraft to attract men. Can’t you see I am
beautiful?” She looks good I must admit, and I think she shouldn’t be into
prostitution.She tells me on a bad day,
she gets five or three customers. Jam thinks she has no family anymore and belongs
nowhere, her home and family is the room she rents and her customers.

Kayu
(not real name) says she is 29, has
five children, is HIV positive and tells me she is two months pregnant. She
says she has been a prostitute since 17 because her family was poor and
couldn’t afford school fees. I talked to Kay because I have seen her around for
so long and she is regarded one of the most experienced
girls in town. How do you entertain customers Kay? Stares at me too and says
what I least expected. “When men come and they don’t want to use condoms, I let
them do what they want…” But you are HIV positive? “True, but if a customer
doesn’t want to use condoms and I don’t care. Do you think I bought HIV from a
supermarket? I got it from a man like you, so I don’t care”. Like all the girls here,
Kay’s only source of livelihood is prostitution and she says she can stop only
if she gets a better job. Kay and other people living with HIV don’t
have guaranteed supply of antiretroviral drugs from the local hospital.

Jam
and Kayu are some of the many girls here and across the country forced by socio-economic
challenges to join prostitution. During the joint annual review of the national
HIV/AIDS strategic plan by the Uganda AIDS Commission, HIV/AIDS
campaigners in Uganda called for an improvement in the coordination of
anti-HIV/AIDS messages in order to avoid confusing the public on the efficacy
of the different prevention strategies. Uncoordinated and sometimes
confusing HIV/AIDS presentation / care massages have been blamed for the increase
in HIV/AIDS prevalence in Uganda. It’s very sad that few of HIV/AIDS
programming organization have come out with specific projects and messages
targeting prostitutes yet they are blamed for increasing the rate of new
infections in Uganda estimated at 530,000 every year. Jam , Kayuseveral others sisters need specific information and projects that will
help them overcome stigma and discrimination in society. They also need special
social, cultural and economic attention to overcome challenges, support their families
and leave prostitution.

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ICOD Action Network is a registered Non Governmental Organization operating in Uganda, East Africa. Founded as Integrated Community Efforts for Development(ICOD) in February 2008, ICOD Action Network’s work extends beyond material support and touches upon the need to empower communities so that they can be able to sustain themselves.

ICOD Action Network has continued to inspire individuals in Southwestern Uganda's to find innovative and sustainable local solutions to end extreme poverty, hunger and diseases. These individuals have demonstrated leadership, selflessness and passion to help their community break barriers to individual and community development and have worked with their communities to find lasting solutions independent from external support. We have continued to work with and train such leadership to move their communities forward.

We believe that sustainable solutions to end hunger, extreme poverty, HIV/AIDS e.t.c are those developed from within communities because lasting solutions lie within communities. That's why we work with communities to create permanent solutions that can sustainably transform them Our approach has continued to inspire individuals and communities and has produced new leaders who have found lasting solutions for their own communities and replicated our work in hard-to-reach communities; that is how we are "ACTION NETWORK".

Vision and Objectives

The organization is guided by the following objectives;1. Working for sustainable community development of the rural poor, orphans and other vulnerable groups of people.2. Increased awareness on HIV/AIDS to positively change people’s attitude and behavior3. Improved capacity of communities and families to care and support for people living with HIV/AIDS and other vulnerable individuals.4. Increased household income levels of rural communities.5. Improved capacity of orphans, youth and other vulnerable children to take informed decisions about their lives and improve their socio- economic status.6. Advocate for adherence and observance of fundamental human rights in the community.