I plan on getting married in Las Vegas in December, but on holiday in America in July 2001, my boyfriend was pulled over for speeding and was given a fine that he had to pay in 14 days, which we forgot about. Is there any way we can pay this before we go, and is there a chance my boyfriend will be refused entry? I am having nightmares about all our family and friends waiting in Vegas while we are turned away. Also, is it true that if you have ever been arrested, even for a minor offence, you are not allowed re-entry?Heather Loye, Lancashire

You're right to tackle this one before you go. The worst-case scenario is that there is a warrant for your boyfriend's arrest, which could result in his detention on arrival in the US. He should contact the court in the county where his ticket was issued to resolve the issue, and apply for a visa (ring 09042 450100 for details and an appointment - calls cost £1.20 a minute) before departing. For the court details, go to www.uscourts.gov/courtlinks.

An arrest or conviction doesn't mean permanent exclusion from the US, but you will certainly have even more hurdles to jump over. A US Embassy spokesman told me a prior conviction could make an applicant 'permanently ineligible to receive a visa' - unless he or she obtains a waiver from the Department of Homeland Security. 'The granting of a waiver is not automatic and is based on several factors, including nature of the crime committed, sentence served and the period of time which has elapsed since the conviction,' he said.

Two females in Morocco

I would like to take my 14-year-old daughter to Morocco in October. I've travelled independently in Europe but am a bit wary of doing so in Morocco as two lone females. Any suggestions for a safe but fun and interesting week?Lesley Smith, Telford

Morocco is a wonderful, welcoming country, but there's no denying it - two lone females will attract some unwanted attention. Don't let it bother you though; mostly it's just harmless curiosity. You should arm yourself with a few words of Arabic, modest clothing and dark glasses for tough moments, and be prepared to escape to the upper floor of a salon de the or the bar of an international hotel. Despite police attempts to stamp out unlicensed touts, you're still likely to encounter faux guides. The best approach is to take any unwanted approaches as part of the experience, politely but firmly declining their offers. Engaging an official guide (ask at the tourist office) can be an excellent way to get more out of your visit as well as to deflect some of the attention.

Five days in Hong Kong

We are travelling to Perth via Hong Kong in July. What is the best way to spend five days in Hong Kong with our three sons, aged 18, 15 and 11?Mrs Furnell, Dorset

Your sons will love Hong Kong. It's busy but safe, and a source of endless stimulation. If you arrive in the evening, start by hopping on the Star Ferry to Kowloon and strolling along the Tsim Sha Tsui East Promenade. This waterfront walkway has some of the best views of the Hong Kong skyline and is best at night. Follow this by taking the Victoria Peak tram for the most famous view of the island. There are plenty of western eating options, but a meal at a chaotic dim sum restaurant is a must.

While there's plenty to amuse on the island, explore elsewhere to get a full flavour of Hong Kong. Kowloon can easily take up a day. Your sons will love the cheap DVDs and imitation watches of the Temple Street night market and the gadget shops of nearby Mong Gok. The Hong Kong Museum of History tells the territory's story, while a ferry ride away is Lantau Island, which has cable cars, a Big Buddha and beaches. There are loads more ideas at www.hkta.org/eng/travelneeds/family.

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