He got frustrated with me because I wasn’t being open about my emotions with him, I was sort of guarded. We talked it out the next day and I told him I would try harder to be more open and we become an official couple. Anyway, a week later his ex shows up at his house and tells me he and her slept together and he told her I was a virgin. Is it possible he made a terrible decision or is he careless? He most likely committed to you and was so open and told you he loved you after dating you ” about a month” (translations: 2-3 weeks) in the hopes that you’d sleep with him. So don’t kid yourself into thinking that your guy is so wrapped around your finger that he’s going without until he can be with you. That doesn’t mean you have to have sex with him before you’re ready.

In 2008, there was 115,200 divorces granted and 29 percent of these divorces were the result of adulterous behavior.

According to a Grant Thornton UK Survey (2009), 9 percent of women would cheat on their partner as long as there was no way to be found out.

Better for you to be honest and realistic about a situation liek this than to delude yourself.