After trying another carrier and my back killing, I did some research into carriers and I ordered a Beco Gemini. Most of my friends have the Ergo or Bjorn and the Bjorn killed my back and the baby wasn't a fan and i didn't like the baby couldn't face out in the Ergo. Right after receiving my Gemini I put my baby facing inwards and she fell right asleep. It was amazing! We wear it all the time! So far she is 4.5 months and we wear her inwards and facing out. She loves it! We love that its so easy to tighten or losen the straps depending on if my husband and I are wearing it. We couldn't be happier with our purchase.