Maybe I am, but at least, I have an answer that is reinforced by the teachings of more than one aikido teacher with over thirty years in aikido, and a couple of shihan, from various seminars and lessons.

Better than whining and crying all the time.

Get over Andy. You have your own personality problems to deal with, I suggest you, at least, try to deal with them.

If you think that was arrogant and condescending, get on my bad side and find out how bad I can really be?

Boy, I am gonna get in trouble for that one.

I feel like the mean widdle kid Red Skelton used to play. He would say," Ooooh, if I dood it I get a whippin' ... I dood it!"