A Top's Eye VIew.
I hope this will be fun, funny, complicated, opinionated and occasionally irritating. Say what you will. Agree, disagree, complain, rant, rave. It's fine. If I say something that offends you, go somewhere else. If you agree with me or any of my musings, please share this with your lifestyle compatriots.

Monday, January 16, 2012

Sex Slave? Yes Please!

The entirety of the article tells the tale. What an odd story. Thanks to A'marie for sending it my way. As she pointed out, it's amusing, but if it was a woman on the receiving end, it'd be disturbing and wrong. (Of course, it ends up the story--which first appeared in 2009--was a hoax.) Most men, submissive or not, have likely dreamed at one point of being at the mercy (sexually, at least) of a dominant female hellbent on sex.

Why?

One, because most of the time men have to be the proactive ones when it comes to establishing a sexual encounter and it can be stressful. (Plus, no one likes rejection.) Then, there's the whole sexual drive thing. Most men have a stronger (or at least more obvious) sex drive than women. So the notion that a woman would be in control allows a man's libido to freely, uh, flow.

Because that sounds like a pretty awesome fantasy does that make me a submissive? Nope. I think it just makes me horny.

About Me

Motto: Conversio Virium (latin for "exchange of forces")
I am a MDHL (Male Dominant Het Leather) and am a proud member of the Monarchs. I am a Master and daddy to Lizzie.
I believe discipline, caring attention, focused instruction and mastery of myself and my sub are the first steps in a meaningful D/s relationship. I'm enjoy bondage, impact play, spanking, erotic humiliation, humiliation & debasing, and scenes mixing sex and delivery of pain. I feel true protocol comes from respect, trust, communication and understanding.
Because of my work and family I live the lifestyle 24/7 as best I can and am happy to have the balance I have.
I enjoy not just finding play partners but meeting new people, making new friends and appreciating the connections that come from that. The serendipity I discover in meeting great people in the scene has been a pleasant surprise.