Bi-Polar Husband, ugh (make up your mind!)

So, I was not going to come to you ladies about this because I know it is only a matter of time before he changes his mind again. . .

So DH and I had dinner over our neighbors house last night who have a 3 and 1 yr old. Silly me thinking this would be great for him to see a loving couple enjoy their kids and that are doing well financially.. . . NOPE! We only met these neighbors a few times and while we thought they were about our age late 20's early 30's turns out they are 39 and 38 (couple looksGOOD!)

Well when we get home we are having the never ending baby talk and how we are waiting until next summer to TTC, he mentions he would not mind waiting a few years before we start having kids and ask me to get back on BC! . . . . WHAT! . . . . I mean it would not be the end of the world to wait a few more years. Once I pay of this bill next summer we will have an extra couple of thousand to to play with. The things we could do with that much extra money are endless, and allow us to be in an even better situation for kids. But I think if we do that we will reach that cycle of never being ready. . . . ugh

Sorry, he just has my emotions all over the place this morning, and to know that things may be completely different by tonight or next week, ugh I am just so confused now

So, I was not going to come to you ladies about this because I know it is only a matter of time before he changes his mind again. . .

So DH and I had dinner over our neighbors house last night who have a 3 and 1 yr old. Silly me thinking this would be great for him to see a loving couple enjoy their kids and that are doing well financially.. . . NOPE! We only met these neighbors a few times and while we thought they were about our age late 20's early 30's turns out they are 39 and 38 (couple looksGOOD!)

Well when we get home we are having the never ending baby talk and how we are waiting until next summer to TTC, he mentions he would not mind waiting a few years before we start having kids and ask me to get back on BC! . . . . WHAT! . . . . I mean it would not be the end of the world to wait a few more years. Once I pay of this bill next summer we will have an extra couple of thousand to to play with. The things we could do with that much extra money are endless, and allow us to be in an even better situation for kids. But I think if we do that we will reach that cycle of never being ready. . . . ugh

Sorry, he just has my emotions all over the place this morning, and to know that things may be completely different by tonight or next week, ugh I am just so confused now

Hi.Â Â Do you think that maybe he could be a little nervous or scared of the situation he was in at dinner?Â Sometimes for me, when I'm around my best friend and her 10 month old I get really nervous, and frankly scared and sometimes want to put off TTC.Â I think your best bet would be to sit down with your DH and have a honest and frank discussion with him.Â Best of luck to you!

Hi.Â Â Do you think that maybe he could be a little nervous or scared of the situation he was in at dinner?Â Sometimes for me, when I'm around my best friend and her 10 month old I get really nervous, and frankly scared and sometimes want to put off TTC.Â I think your best bet would be to sit down with your DH and have a honest and frank discussion with him.Â Best of luck to you!

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