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Well I had my first appt. yesterday. It wasn't what I expected. He did an internal exam and says, "Well if I didn't know that you were pregnant I couldn't tell by your uterus. However your cervix is etremely soft. That is a sign" So I ask him if that is normal that my uterus hasn't grown. He says "Well it can be normal. What we will do is have you come back in 2 1/2 weeks and see if we can here the heartbeat. All though I doubt we will."

Ok now I am freaking out because what I have read on the internet says that my uterus should have grown right now!! And the uncertain response from my Dr. saying it COULD be normal! Don't get me wrong I normally love my Dr. but come on!!! You are talking to a girl who has had previous miscarriages. I thought I was ok til I went to this appt. Now I just don't know! I don't even want to try and listen to the hearbeat if he doesn't think he will hear it. That will just make it worse! I just don't know what to do.

Oh yeah! His constant asking me about my PG symptoms made it even worse! They ask what they are. I tell him tired, sore breasts, and frequent urination. That's all I have. He kept asking if I was sure that that was all I had! Well Duh! I knnow my own body! But that's all I had when I was PG with my boys. When I had my miscarriages I never had any symptoms.

I am sorry I am just a little uneasy now. I thought I would be ok but I don't know how to handle this again.

If you made it this far GOD BLESS YOU!!!! I just needed to get it out. I told my husband the Appt. went ok as to not worry him. But he could tell there was something wrong.