Why do girls like you all of a sudden once your in a relationship?

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Before the relationship, you are clueless just doing what the world expects you to do. You tread lightly and you overthink every little action and response. You don't want to be perceived as clingy, or careless, too serious, or too carefree. You are basically a mixture of fake personas you have gathered over the years based on what YOU have found to be effective or appropriate.

After declaring the relationship, you begin to explore that human bonding freely and according to your own rules, if you have any. So, to answer your question, I think they probably liked you all along. It is just that they were just brought up believing it is wrong to express that too soon for whatever stupid reason (s) they were given (he'll lose interest - you will be called a slut - he won't believe you - he should admit it first - he might be a serial killer - Oprah said you shouldn't - and a billion other reasons).

Lol, alright. I think most girls dream of meeting a guy who is committed and faithful. Therefore, you being in a relationship tells them that you have the qualities of a good partner. Y'know, things like maturity, honesty, integrity, character, among other qualities. Generally speaking, I have come to find that being in a relationship gives you a lot of social respect, and even more respect can be achieved from getting married. I think that would explain why they are interested all of a sudden. OR maybe being in the relationship simply gave you more chances to meet (or understand) women?

I think romantic relationships are all about changing who you are to appeal to the other person. I rarely get to see someone being themselves in a relationship, y'know, that unconditional love they keep telling us about. I am not sure if this is a bad thing, I just don't feel like I can do it myself and my past experiences surely verify that.

When you're in a relationship you're happy. So I guess that your happiness just shows, you're more likely to stand even more straight up maybe even make you a little more confident which is attractive.