Most Helpful Guy

Don't worry so much about it. Some guys won't be attracted to you but lots will be. Women are generally much harder on themselves then guys are (yes some exceptions I know but generally speaking). That body type is attractive to me and I also consider it normal, most women have it. Don't be so self conscious. Especially if you have a boyfriend. He likes you already and WANTS to see you naked, the way you are. He's not going to be disgusted and break up with you or anything because he seen you naked (and if he does he never cared for you at all, just wanted sex).

Most Helpful Girl

i exercise daily and eat a balanced diet of fruits, vegetables and whole grains and of course the occasional / weekly treat and you know what, if i have to stop eating what i love bc some people think i dont like alright, screw them ! i though girls on here would be more supportive but no, no they are not

What Guys Said 20

What I do is look at the girl as a whole then decide how attractive she is - There will be lots who will like these girls a lot and it will be close to their preferred shape - My preference is slimmer girls with smaller breasts and smaller butts but I can often think bigger girls are very attractive - Sometimes especially girls are convinced that guys are obsessed by slim girls with curves that is like saying that guys think girls are only into tall muscular guys if you get my drift - It is not that important and often people are surprised how attractive they find people when they are outside societal imprinted expectations.

This kind of body is attractive, yes, and you do not need to be extra slim to turn some heads. The way you behave, talk and your gestures may be much more enticing than some extra fit plastic bikini girl.

Seduction is much more related on what you do with what you have than on having the 'perfect' body.

Anyway, pursuing a healthy life style is always a plus and a need, ok? When you love yourself, you make efforts to have your own better everyday - but don't need to be obecessed about it at all.

I understand that. I am only trying to say that posting a photo of yourself (or someone similar to you) on the internet and asking random guys that you will never even meet what they think about it is not going to fix the root cause of how you feel about yourself, regardless of what the replies are going to be.

And how does this site in general help individuals then? People post about sexual feelings they experience and what guys want from girls vise versa, seeking advise from a small population of the wider community

BMI doesn't matter when it comes to appearance. Its subconscious. I would not call her curvy, some guys maybe into her, but most wouldn't be. She's not too heavy so I don't see why not eat balanced diet and excercise to become slimmer.

Your entitled to your opinion, but she may already eat a balanced diet and she may be like this? I dont think, personally, she has to become slimmer, all i asked was if she was attractive, not if she should lose weight, (bc her body is like mine)

What Girls Said 2

You didn't give much of a choice in your poll only attractive or not attractive nothing in the middle. If you have a nice face and a plus sized body you would be very good looking don't underestimate the power of the face. so without a pic and the proper choices it's very hard to rank but you could be anywhere from a 4-7/10