Diva Spill Friday & How Out Of Control

My stomach is sick from the comments on my post yesterday. NEVER in a million years would I have thought I would get mean comments on that post. Trust me, I have published blog posts, and knew mean comments were coming. This one I would have never imagined to get so much ugly.

I was upset, I did call that Amanda out, and I felt the need to. I know she probably meant it as your life crazy as you say, that she irresponsible to want another to add to your plate. BUT this is my life, and I do all for my kids, and really Rocco’s siblings will be his best friends one day. Yes, it’s a little hard now to warm up to the baby, but as he progresses and thrives, things will be different. We are great parents and we truly do have a crazy life with things lately, but wouldn’t trade it for the world.

Sometimes you get kicked out of nowhere, that is what happened yesterday. It got way more out of control than I ever imagined as well. It literally makes me sick that people can be so cruel to people, especially when they don’t deserve it. I am still in shock by some of the comments, but I am moving on. I debated taking that post down, as some comments just got way out of control and crazy.

One more time, I respect all of you, but let’s MOVE on and I’m sorry again that this got out of control. I was upset, so my friends were upset, and it just got crazy.

PLEASE though just let the post go, do not leave anymore comments.. I appreciate people standing up for me, but I really hate negativity, and just want that storm over.

I truly DO respect all of you, and if you think it’s crazy I might want another one day, that’s fine. I know my posts have been sharing how my life is crazy, a shit show, and how it’s been hard. But I don’t sugarcoat stuff, I show my real life, not just the happy and good moments. Life is hard, I know people out there have harder times than I have the last months, and I’m grateful for every hard time god has given me.

Things have been crazy over here, lots happened one after another , some things I didn’t even share publicly, so yeah maybe I’ve been sharing more not so great moments. But I try to just keep it real to show people they are not alone. Life can be hard, nobody has an easy life, we just do the best we can to handle anything that comes our way.

SO I am sorry if I offended anyone, I truly am sorry if I have been sharing more crazy and hard, but that’s what my life’s been like the last months. We all go through storms. I just always try to be real, and I appreciate all in my life.

Everyone is entitled to their opinion, I do have a public blog, so I have to expect this, and can’t be too upset. So, moving along!

Now, sharing just a little for Diva Spill Friday!

Post workout selfie with my littles. It has been tricky this week to workout with Elisabetta being up a couple times or more in the night. But, I managed to get some fitness in while both kids were calm! ( had to hide the boobage, lol! )

I really love this chocolate sludge bowl. Sounds fun, right?! Ha! It’s vegan chocolate shakeo, cashew milk, nut butter, raspberries, and berry cheerios. I have been having this on repeat all week. Actually every day for a while!

Little princess and little sister…20 weeks old! She is really getting a personality, loves hearing her voice, seeing herself in the mirror, loves watching Rocco’s every move, and is laughing! Oh, it really is a blessing to see how great she is doing! God is good, happy to have her all better!

LOVE the bolthouse dressings! I always forget how much I love ground turkey, and I cooked some up this week for meals. Added some to a southwest chopped salad, so good!

I can’t even. Baby’s first swimsuit!

Rocco LOVES his bubbles! I found a really fun bubble gun in the dollar target been this past week, and he loves it. Daddy and him played on the deck while I was cooking dinner. I came out to play a little, too with them. As you see, baby E in the back creeping, haha! Poor Rocco has horrible allergies right now, and I am hoping to get the pediatrician to approve something for him to take. His little eyes are irritating him so bad.

This weekend is going to be great! Anthony has prom tomorrow, so excited to see him and his girlfriend all dressed up! I know they will have so much fun! Her parents are coming over to take pics, so it will be nice to meet them for the first time! I think Mike and I will probably chill tonight, as Anthony works late Friday nights, and one of us gets him at 11! Saturday night, we are going to order food in and watch a movie, and Sunday I think a chill day. I know Anthony and his girlfriend supposed to go fishing, and Mike and I might do some more major spring cleaning while the kids nap.

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Comments

The fact your still working out agent the babies been up just shows how awesome and dedicated you are!! Sorry for yesterday’s post, I didn’t read the comments but people sometimes suck. I appreciate your openness. Life is hard! Bloggers I sometimes feel like (myself included) sugar coat everything to seem better. I love that your open to sharing the hard stuff too!

I wish you well Katie! Have a GREAT weekend with your family & can’t wait to see the prom pics! Wow! I know he has a ways to go yet and a million changes ahead but, what are Anthony’s thoughts on future career plans?

Wow, I cannot believe you received negativity on your last post! I read it and thought, “wow, this woman is a warrior!” If we were friends, I would be the one showing up on your porch WITH the wine!! 😉 You are doing such a great job. Haters gonna hate. They are small people with zero compassion. You are doing the right thing to let it go and move on. Have a great weekend! You deserve it!

This isn’t meant to be negative so I hope it doesn’t come across that way. Siblings don’t always end up being best friends. In a perfect world yes they remain close all their lives, but that’s not always the case. Just something to consider as you move forward. I am a speech pathologist and have seen cases where yes the siblings are all very close and even involved in therapy for the person who I am working with, but I have also seen cases where the siblings have nothing to do with the person I am working with. Again not meant to be rude! Just a fact of life.