“My Wife Uses Private Part Water To Cook For Me” – Nigerian Man Says Wife Using Charm To Control Him

April 25, 2015 – “My Wife Uses Private Part Water To Cook For Me” – Nigerian Man Says Wife Using Charm & Incantations To Control Him

My name is Femi I worked at the Airport, am married with two kids. I was living in unity with my wife until the end of the year 2011 when my life became deserted.

One faithful weekend like that, I was financially down and i went inside my wife cupboard to get some cash but unfortunately for me i saw different things, i saw charm with an incantations where my name and my mother’s name was mentioned, according to what i saw, she will use the included soap to wash her private part with the pronouncement of the incantation and use the water to cook for me.

When i saw these, I melted for at least three weeks because i don’t know how to share it with friends talk less of families but i summoned courage by calling her but she denied using it on me, but accepted she went to one woman with one of her elder sister to make the charm, but my people am not contented with her explanations because she said she did it so that outside ladies will not penetrate into our home, still am not satisfied but i told her to desist from her sister that took her there and that such attitude with a promise that i will not let anybody to hear what happened in our house.

The funniest thing is that am living with her with an unpeaceful mind, so i decide to be keeping late. At times i can call any female workers at the place of my work just to see how she will feel, but the outcomes of my attitudes tells on her that she cannot withstand me cheating, so i decide to let go of the fear in me.

I started living with her with boldness believing that she cannot do anything to harm me, but earlier this year things changed again. Something happened at my workplace and as I got home she noticed me and asked what happened i explained to her but she just took it lightly.

This is an issue that gave me sleepless nights. The next morning i called her that when i returned we will keep vigil just to put everything in God’s hand but when we started praying my wife was just sleeping, i was disappointed.

The next morning I intentionally saved some women pictures on my phone as i got home i placed it on the bed i went to bathroom but before i could finish, I started hearing her shouting and cursing those women on my phone.

The woman that couldn’t keep a vigil for my work problem stayed up all night cursing those ladies.

The next day i called on her and asked ‘your so called husband has problem at work and asked you to join him in prayer but you were only sleeping now you saw some women’s pictures on my phone and you kept vigil over it.

My people am confused i don’t know what to do. I don’t have any girlfriend and she is behaving like this what if I decide to have one, what do you think she will do?

Mr., your problem is not much of a problem. This cry on your face solves nothing. I will not opt for divorce at the moment if i were you. I think you first all need to exercise restraint. Talk less with her from now on. But keep your duties as husband. That’s, her up keeps and your children. I think you should stop eating her food from now on. Eat good food outside before you come home.

Let your relationship be “hi and bye” in the house but be nice to your children. While you are doing all these, wake up in the middle of the night and call on God. You do not need to shout and wake up the whole town “holy ghost”, holy this and that. You dont need that.

You need to siltenly pray with good intension. Pray for protection for yourself and children. Pray that she has a change of heart. But please dont let her know your plans anymore.

I personally dislike going to people. Eventually the people may collaborate with her and mess you up further. You can do this brother by keep things to yourself. You dont need to show off by displaying pictures of women and all that.

Your priority right now is your protection. Be nice to her but no more excess talks. Do this for like 3 months see what happens.

And next time you see charms like that, try to pee in a cup and pour your urine or or poo on it. That will collapse the strength of the charms. If she asks you, you just pretend you have no idea. But speak word of peace with her. Please refrain from arguing with her even if she provokes you.

D tone of dis post suggests dat u actually lov ur wife, or Y els would he be dis confused? But first I must ask u, how Christian are u? Again, wat u felt wen u discoverd those charms, was it disgust or just fear 4 ur life? I guess d later, & dat is quite sad a thing. U started living without fear afta u later concluded dat she wouldnt hurt u just because she got jealous wen u calld oda women: (a) Dat’s not d brightest way 2 determing who wdnt hurt u. (b) Dat means dat u support her using charms, provided dat they were not meant against u.

why would u keep calm wen she z d charm is not meant for u? U z u saw ur name n ur mama name inside a paper wth incantatn and u still believe dat d juju is not meant to b used on u. Pls u need to consult a Godly man on dis and think deeply and act fast. May God help u through. Divorce is not d solution nw.

Marriage is better for worse..and as a christain Bible is against divorce except a case of infidelity. PLS my friend
sake of the vow you made to God in your marriage and your children..continue praying to God,
God will change as God has shown you all she was doing..try and forgive her.. Let me ask all these commenters..
If you divorce her and marry another girl..do you knw whether that one will be worst? No marriage is perfect

After her deliverance together with yours you must fast and carry on prayiong daily night always so as not to lost your deliverance. Just seek Gods face all will be well. Do not divorce her if she has children with you.

My Brother, stop complaining and act fast.
You shading tears means nothing to me, you shouldn’t announce your wife to the whole world If really you don’t know what to do then, your life is in danger!
And again I hate Men that behaved like woman now in your home you have became a woman just because;(a) you don’t hear word you are supposed to hear. (b) and you refuses doing things you are to do.That’s why now you are living in fear with your wife.
I hate people that don’t know and what to do.