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Blog Topic:Do You think it's ok for a partner to tell their partner what to do/say/wear? Hell no! If my bf doesn't like the way I dress/say/do then why the fuck is he with me? He can hit the road, jack, and dont you come back no more. No more. No more. NO MORE! My soul mate is like this, she'll do what ever it takes to please whom she's with and I think it's a waste of time! If a guy is going to sit there and tell you how to live your life, then he obviously doesn't care, he just wants to ruin you, so when he's through with you no other guy would want you. Psh. hell, while she was over here she turns and tells me "We should dress like Tom boys, since that's what guys are going for these days." and I'm like "Hell no! I'm not changing who I am just for some guy! If guys want a chick who dresses like a guy then maybe they should question their sexuality."

Don't get me wrong, I love men! "Now ladies what's my weakness? MEN!" I will do anything to make my bf happy, but when it comes to me changing who I am, uh uh.... Who I am is what makes me great. Yes, I do love myself. I make myself smile, and laugh so hard it hurts. =P I wouldn't change that for nothing! When people come up to me and say I'm just some goth bitch, or an emo I'm like what ever.. Well... When someone calls me emo I threaten to take my so called "Razor" and slice their throat. >,.,> That is such an insult to me! Matter of fact, FUCK EMOS! Gawd! Anyways.. If someone comes up and asks me, what do I consider myself? I say I'm just me. I'm not goth, I'm not emo, I'm not what ever, I'm BATMAN! .... which is me... ^,.,^

Since someone is having a little trouble understanding. This whole thing goes to women also. I have never known any female to do this, but whom am I to judge? I would never tell me bf to change who he is. I've dated different types of guys, I have never asked them the change the way the look, nor have I asked them to not say the things they say, nor asked them not to do something they normally do. It's just wrong to do so otherwise. Is that better for you to comprehend? or do I need to type louder? =P

it goes both ways though.. guys tell women what to wear pretty rarely (unless your down in the redneck south) but women do it all the time. buying us clothes they want us to wear, saying we should take off the hat, etc. that's some double standard bs, isn't it?

Umm if you read properly you will see that I put Do You think it's ok for a partner to tell their partner what to do/say/wear? Hell no! I did not say is it ok for the man to tell the woman what to do/say/wear? Since I'm a girl, nor am I bi/lesbian, I used bf. Of course it goes bothways. Before you leave a comment like this again maybe you should understand what your commenting more. =)

and maybe you should read more... i didn't say you were like that. i was inputting my own personal experience (which comes from a guy whose lived all over the world and seen how cultures react are from more than cali, albeit from a guys point of view) to agree with your statement. before leaving a comment like this again maybe you should understand what you'RE (and there is a difference between your, you're and yore) commenting on more. stop being so defensive.

Lol. I happen to know the difference. I just woke up not to long ago, nor do I care. =)

Then why don't you say so? Coming in with a comment like that, I'd say that you were being a dick. I wouldn't have cared so much about your comment, but when the double standards came in it made me feel like you were saying I was a double standard ho. Which is totally un-true. So either you get some communication skills, or just stfu. K. Thx. Bye. ^,.,^

I was the same way when I was younger, still am. I don't take shit from anyone. My mother realized that and stopped trying, just said he's going to do whatever he wants do. I'm better like that... Maybe I was King in a former life, I act like one.