h__lo all...ok so here is my first question...i have very very irregular periods...my cycles are any where from 60-90 days...how soon after s_x can i take a home pregnancy test?? here is my second question...i know when your tummy is hard you could be pregnant...however how do you know when it is hard..i am heavy weight so how would i know if it is my gut that is hard or a baby??? all advice is welcomed...please help me though...very confused and trying to conceive my first child...thank you

you can take a test up to 5 days before your missed period, but since your cycles are irregular I would take it 3 or 4 weeks after your last period. Your stomach will probably not be hard yet, as it usually is into the 3rd month or so when you start feeling that, maybe sooner for slinder wemon. I have a very small frame, so thats when I normally feel it. I dont know what to tell you about heavier wemon. Look for the normal signs of pregnancy-- tender b___sts, cramps, stretching or pulling in the abdominal area, nausea or vomiting, lightheadedness...