I was at the movies with this guy, not on a date though we have gone on a date before. It was a scary movie, and after a jump scare i pulled my legs up a bit. He lightly tapped my thigh a bit and asked if I was okay. Then a little later, he used his whole hand to pat my thigh a little longer than necessary. Then he put his hand on my thigh for a third time and he sort of lingered there a little longer than needed.
I've been talking to him for a month now. We've gone on one date and since he hasn't asked me out again, but we did study together and he seemed to be flirting with me. He looks at my face a lot and smiles a lot. I can't tell what he wants. I'm not sure if he's looking for a relationship or just sex

So maybe things have just been to unclear between us and nothing is really happening, so he did that to show that he is really interested and wants something to happen?
Which could mean sex + relationship?

So maybe things have just been to unclear between us and nothing is really happening, so he did that to show that he is really interested and wants something to happen?
Which could mean sex + relationship?

He is making his advances. Trust me on this...a guy hangs out with a girl or invests his time in her for a reason.

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