You'll NEVER Be Too Much For The RIGHT Man

Being in the beginnings of my career, I’m still trying to figure out how to balance everything, and I honestly don’t know if it will ever get easier to do. My apartment has a consistent pile of clothes on the floor, and at least four times a week I forget to feed my fish.

That’s the magic sauce we should all be holding out for. We can complicate our lives and create so much internal chaos when we try to force relationships and love with people who’s lifestyles aren’t the same as ours.

We spend so much time and effort trying to get them to understand when it’s pretty much wired in their brains that they won’t.

Why are we trying to be so happy with someone who doesn’t fit us when we can be happier all on our own?

I do believe there’s someone out there who will understand your quirks and your ticks. Someone who knows not to interrupt you when you’re in the middle of a project, or that you sometimes like to go on random walks at midnight to clear your head.

You shouldn’t be with someone who’s constantly trying to change you, just as you shouldn’t be with someone you feel like you have to change. If you all you’re attached to is the potential, then it’s time to face reality and realize the potential isn’t enough.

You deserve someone who not only understands — and loves — the most basic parts of your brain, but makes a real, honest effort to understand the parts that they don’t.