Wednesday, December 29, 2010

News

Well, it's been a while since my last post, simply because there hasn't been much idle time in this house. Everything got done by Christmas, as everything always does. I iced the cake and thought I might have mastered the way to turn photos round - but no. Nice presents were exchanged. I've done a lot of cooking and most of us have done a lot of washing up.

We have been a large but steadily shrinking party. My brother and his wife, son and daughter are staying with my mother but eating here, and Daughter 2 and her fiancé have been with us, as was Son. So we were thirteen on Christmas Day when my confused aunt was of the party. Then twelve for a couple of days, till our son went back up north. Then Daughter 1 and her husband went down south yesterday to be with his parents so today there were nine of us. Tomorrow Daughter 2's chap, my nephew and my niece all head back to England, so we'll be six. My brother and his wife remain till the 2nd and Daughter 2 heads back down to her new life in London on the 3rd. And that will be that.

It's been a time of mixed emotions. It's lovely to have the children but we're very aware that they're visitors now, which is painful, especially since Daughter 2 is going to be in London for the foreseeable future and we're not convinced that marriage to someone trying to make a living as an actor is entirely the path to happiness. Her six-week London job is continuing at least for a while, which is of course good from the point of view of continuing to earn; but her absence leaves a huge hole in our hearts.

However, Daughter 1 and her husband popped in unexpectedly early yesterday to give us some wonderful news:

All going well, we should become grandparents in July. I know it happens all the time, but when it happens to you, it's very exciting! And worrying.

It's going to be a busy year. My mother is going to move in with us once we've sold her flat and found something (what???) to do with her very many household effects. The little person above should be joining us in July. And Daughter 2 is getting married in September, an event for which so far only the church, the hotel and the ceilidh band have been organised.

31 comments:

Congratulations, Isabelle! A grandbaby! Prayers that all goes wonderfully! The wedding plans will go smoothly, also! :) What wonderful news (I read the other not-so-wonderful news, but wanted to cheer on the good stuff! :)) Many hugs-for the chipper news and otherwise!

Such a lot going on in this life of yours. Your heart must be being pulled every which way. We have an actor newly in our life too! No grandchild that we know of. I will watch this space with great interest. Congratulations.

P.S. One trick that works for getting photos the right way up: Open the photo in your photo program on your computer and then click "Save As" and choose "BMP. file". For some reason, saving it as a bmp file instead of a jpeg file will keep it oriented the way you want it.

CONGRATULATIONS!!! SO very exciting -- I just know that you and Mr. Life will make the most wonderful grandparents!

Can you believe how quickly the holidays have disappeared? I guess it's just all a blur when so much of our time is spent cooking and doing. I hope you can squeak in a bit of rest before returning to work!

How did I not see this????? I am SO excited for you, Isabelle!! A grandbaby! Congratulations to the expectant parents too of course, but oh, how you are going to love being Granny. Wonderful news indeed!

Actually I have not had time to read blogs for the past few weeks, but come Friday, all will be back to normal, and I will be back home. Sigh. I didn't see any of my children over Christmas, but I will see the boys and Ann and Missy this weekend, so I am grinning.

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I'm a retired English teacher and live with my husband in Edinburgh. I enjoy reading, gardening, singing and walking; and making fairly simple quilts. Our children are all married. Daughter 1 lives in Edinburgh and is the mother of the much-loved Grandson and Granddaughter-the-Elder. Daughter 2 lives in London, 350 miles to the south. Son lives 65 miles to the north and is the father of the dear baby Granddaughter-the-Younger.
I'm very conscious that time is passing and would prefer not to fritter my time away. But I sometimes do.