I had been using a mix of avocado, sweet almond, coconut, and a touch of olive oil on my ears for a while. I didn't find it to make much of a difference with dryness and such and it made my ears stinky. I decided to just try my body lotion called Everyday Shea. Its paraben free, scent free and uses unrefined ingredients so I figured it was worth a try. Well I am so glad I did. My ears are so soft to the touch, stretchier and the ear gunk it GONE. I always wear glass and I know its prone to that but since the change my ears are clean, smell nice and happy. If I take my plugs out or they fall out at night they slide right back in and are loose instead of being tight and fighting to get them back in. That was after just a week of using it daily.

happy to hear you found something that works well for your lobes. ive only used jojoba, vitamin e and emu oil but i have heard unrefined shea butter works great. i might have to try it once i run out of my oil