Dating Men: “I Strip for Your Boyfriend”

Dating Men: “I Strip for Your Boyfriend”

How much sex happens in the club?

“It depends on what you mean by sex. [Laughs.] No, there’s no sex—that wouldn’t be legal.”
—“Lotti,” 23, who’s stripped for three months

So…how much touching is allowed?

“If the ‘custie’ is nice and respectful, I might place his hands on different parts of my body or brush my boobs against his face. In the champagne room, he can touch me wherever he wants.”
—“Gigi,” 25, who’s stripped for two years

Do guys ever masturbate while they watch you?

“They’d better not! Once in a while, guys will climax in their pants. Dancers hate that!”
—Gigi

Is there a price you wouldn’t turn down for sex?

“I think everyone has a price. I would do it for $50,000. It would be stupid to turn down that kind of money. It’s just sex!”
—“Mona,” 21, who’s stripped for one year

How often do customers cross the line?

“They’re guys—so of course they try to get away with stuff. Usually it’s because they’re drunk or just rude.”
—Lotti

Are all bachelor parties typically rowdy?

“Most of them are rowdy, but they’re not usually out of hand. It depends on the groom and his friends. I’ve worked parties where the groom is so sweet and shows me pictures of his bride, and others where I’ve been pelted with balled-up dollar bills and left feeling nasty and degraded.”
—Mona

Do they wear wedding rings?

“I’ve seen it all: Some of the guys are married but don’t wear a ring; some make it clear that they’re married but don’t want their wives or girlfriends to know; and sometimes they have a ‘don’t ask, don’t tell’ policy. Lots of couples come in together! Whatever they want is fine; we respect their privacy.”
—“Samie,” 24, who’s stripped for two years

Are the men ever total creeps?

“Sometimes, but the security is on it. If there’s a problem, we just raise our hand and blink an eye, and there’s someone there to help us.”
—Samie

Is it cheating?

“At the end of the day, it’s entertainment. Women spend money on shoes; guys spend money on girls! We have sports, girls, good food—what more could a guy want?”
—“Coco,” 25, who’s stripped for a year

What would you say to women who don’t like it when their guy goes to a club?

“A lot of the dancers are in relationships themselves! So they really shouldn’t worry.”
—Samie