Selasa, 22 Oktober 2013

Working mom & Implications for Child Development

One of the effects of the financial crisis is the
increasing needs can not be met because of the increasingly high prices . To
meet these needs is one way to supplement the family income ... eventually that
usually only the father is working now ibupun go to work .
Mothers who work have a lot of options . There are mothers who choose to work
at home and there are mothers who choose to work outside the home . If mothers
choose to work outside the home then the mother must be very clever to set the
time for the family because it is essentially a mother has the main task of
organizing the household affairs , including overseeing , regulating and
guiding the children . Moreover, if the mother has a young child or toddler
then a mother should know very well how to manage your time wisely . A child
aged 0-5 years old are still very dependent on his mother . Because children
0-5 years of age have not been able to perform personal tasks such as eating ,
bathing , learning , and so on . They still need help from parents to do these
jobs . If the child is entrusted to an aide , parents or mothers in particular
should know very well that the maid was able to guide and assist the children
in their work . If the maid was not able to do so then the kids who will suffer
losses .
The formation of a child's personality begins when the child is 0-5 years old .
Children will learn from the people and surroundings of the things done by the
people around him . Children who are in an environment of people who are angry
, hitting , and perform other acts of violence , the child will grow up to be a
tough personal . For the mother or the parents should be wise in
child care while parents work .Sometimes just because the environment is less
supportive when young children will result in a negative impact on the growth
of the child's personality in later ages . Such as juvenile delinquency cases ,
the involvement of children in the drug world , and so it could be due to the
formation of personality in childhood that is not well formed .
For those reasons, mothers who work outside the home have to be wise to set a
time . Work to meet the needs of the family is very precious , but still it
must be remembered that the main task of a mother is the household . Mother who
had left for work that morning and return in the afternoon should still take
the time to communicate , joking , check school assignments although the mother
is tired after a long day of working outside the home . But the sacrifice will
be a joy if they see their children grow up to be strong and stable person .
As for the women who work in the rumahpun still should be able to manage time
wisely . But the task is certainly not the only duty of the mother but the
father also should be involved to help the mother to perform household tasks so
that the integrity and harmony of the house tanggapun will remain well
preserved .

Refrense

Graney, M. J. Happiness and Social Participation in Aging. Journal
of Gerontology, 1975