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Make someone cum or have someone make you cum?

So...I put this question to everyone...men and women...out here. If you had to choose...what would you say is more satisfying (emotionally as well as physically) for you? Is it to make someone you're having sex with cum...or would it be having someone make you cum?

For me...I find it more satisfying to take control of my lover's orgasm and make him or her cum incredibly hard. To know I'm stimulating someone to the point that they can't help but cum is empowering and even flattering.

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Honestly, when I bring a guy to orgasm with my mouth, I believe I enjoy it probably more than he does, but I'm sure he enjoys it too. I also love bringing women off orally and thoroughly enjoy having a man or woman bring me off. Whether it's individually (him then me), or simultaneously, like in a sixty-nine, really doesn't matter as long as both are satisfied.

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well most of the time my boy friend makes me cum a lot , seems like every one i ever go with any more wants me to do all the cumming , i have made others cum by playing with them or them giving me a good pounding up the butt will make them cum , i don't suck any more do to mouth problems tho i want to suck a nice penis again i sorta miss doing that . how ever i don't mind shooting a lode for my boy friend he like every one els loves the taste of my cum

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My gf is a squirter so I really love making her cum for me, and I am a swallower for men so really really love making them cum for me!! I love to cum, but it makes me happier to make sure my lover either male or female,gets off in our sexual encounters!!

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I'm afraid I have to agree wholeheartedly with the rest of ya. I Love to make a lover cum...several times if possible! lol I love that little ounce of power...having them under your pleasure quaking and moaning, wanting more and more, feeling that heat rush all thru them, just pure mindless pleasure. To almost be able to Mentally feel the electricity flow over their body, and have them in such a state that when they do cum, its loud, hard and delicious....to both of us. Mental for me, physically for them. :}
And I know that if I do a good job for them, that it'll be my turn in a bit...lol
Cat

I'm tryin' my best to leave a loving foot print on the hearts of the folks who's lives I touch..longly, or briefly..:}
Minx

Women and cats will do as they please, so men and dogs should relax and get used to the idea.
Robert A. Heinlein

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I must say that either alone (without the other) leaves me feeling somewhat...errrmm, incomplete and unsatisfied.

I hope my achievements in life shall be these: that I will have fought for what was right and fair, that I will have risked for that which mattered, that I will have given help to those who were in need...that I will have left the earth a better place for what I've done and who I've been. (C. Hoppe)

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I love to make my partners' cum. There's just something so rewarding about seeing your sweating and flush partner, breathing heavily and trying fruitlessly to contain the feelings that are washing over them. Not to mention that the little feeling of pride and power you feel for giving them such pleasure is its own reward.

However, I'm also not foolish enough to refuse a chance to cum myself when offered it from the right person.

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Both are nice. But I absolutely love to bring my partner pleasure. My favorite part of making love to my wife is to watch her achieve orgasm after orgasm on top of me. Everything after that is icing on the cake.

Last edited by coyotedude; Feb 25, 2011 at 12:26 AM.

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I enjoy making them cum, but when both cum same time or not makes me horner when they cum befor me i get off even better! LOVE TO WATCH THEM SCRUM WHEN I DRAIN THEM DRY & MOAN WHEN I SUCK THERE HEAD AFTER WARDS! WHAT FUN !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Re: Make someone cum or have someone make you cum?

Originally Posted by bisexualcocklover

So...I put this question to everyone...men and women...out here. If you had to choose...what would you say is more satisfying (emotionally as well as physically) for you? Is it to make someone you're having sex with cum...or would it be having someone make you cum?

For me...I find it more satisfying to take control of my lover's orgasm and make him or her cum incredibly hard. To know I'm stimulating someone to the point that they can't help but cum is empowering and even flattering.

What do you all think?

I Feel the same way having control on the other person and allowing them to cum when I ready to let them off is awsome

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Sam~

It's actually kind of funny; I love to make Mikey cum and he loves to make me cum. We've actually had "games" where we tried to make the other cum first. Nothing is better than seeing his shoulder muscles contract and back arch when he lets loose.

Mikey~

Before I say anything: Yes, I do that. And I like to receive, but making Sam cum usually puts me over if he's not playing with me. Can't say I have never made him cum, really. Then again, he's never failed under normal circumstances either.

~!?

Michael (Mikey) H. - 27, M, Bi
"I do martial arts, I love video games, and I'm training for the US Air Force."