Leakes seemed to come to Williams’ defense during the segment, but things turned when Porsha brought up a choking incident that happened between Nene & Kim Zolciak-Biermann back in thee day (click HERE to refresh your memory).

Nene’s defense was that Porsha was caught on camera each time and that she (Nene) was smart enough to have never done anything physical in front of the cameras.

Whatever the case, Nene spoke more about the situation recently and it seems she’s done defending Porsha and her anger issues.

Details below…

VIDEO: RHOA Season 8 Reunion (Nene vs. Porsha)

In a recent POST-Reunion blog, Nene addresses the situation and when asked if she felt Porsha was throwing shade during the segment, Leakes states:

I certainly felt it was unnecessary for Porsha to say, “Didn’t you choke somebody?”

I was purely trying to give her good advice out of love, as I was asked to do by Andy. I consider myself a real friend as long as you are one, and I don’t condone the B.S. I’m not the friend that’s going to lie to your face and tell you what you want to hear! I’m the friend that’s going to school you, but I’m also the friend that knows when my advice is not welcome.

We all have made mistakes along the way, and we are all a work in progress at times, but I believe viewers tune in to our show for the shade and not the wrestling. Violence is wrong! Three physical fights clearly say something is wrong here. No one should laugh at, uplift, support, or encourage violent behavior.

Girl gon’! And, don’t you never ever wear no jumpsuit shit like that, again! Leave that for a body like Porsha’s–the one you’re so jealous of. I’m sick of people like NeNe trying to act like they haven’t done it or been there before. Gtfo of the office with that bs! You’re fired!

I feel like nene was telling her out of love.. nene was once the big villain and had to calm down a lot for them doors to open for her getting acting roles. She’s right nobody is gonna want to work with somebody who is just going around kicking every bodies ass!!!

Rina Booker

TMZ has already turned Porsha down for work

Abby_Wabby_CatLadyVanderZombie

I just hope she clams down before she puts her hands on the wrong person and winds up in jail, seriously injured or dead….

Danceroflife

Correct. Porsha will attempt to assault a knife-carrying person could end up with her pretty face sliced and diced.

PB

I think it’s just a matter of time. Porsha seems totally incapable of self-reflection.

marydary

Lmao kicking evrybody ass..wish she kixk kordell ass too hehehhee

Pamela

No one is saying shes wrong for telling her.But she told her so let it go.Why all the extra.Ill tell you why…because Porsha questioned her!! POINT BLANK PERIOD!

The point is, it wasn’t on camera and she didn’t get demoted and the executives wasn’t going to fire her nor was it under the new contract. #pow

Tan

Right. And @Dee, I think what Cynthia meant about the fear is that, it could happen again, meaning, she would walk away and not engage because she doesn’t want it to get physical. I think they were able to be in each other’s commercial because they addressed the issue and made amends. The sad thing about reunion is that they let that go, but have to rehash it, so its like all the making up seems for naught at times.

Mimi

True, but I tend to agree with ISAIDIT!.She broke that shit down! ISAIDIT is the biggest Nene fan I know but she just like that family member that will get your azz together. Like she said there was no reason for a post reunion msg. WTH

KimJ.

Yessssss ISAIDIT IS THE TRUTH! I read it. #foeverisaiditfan that child need to be a RHOA consultant!!!!!!

Dee

Sounds like she is trying to get rid of her. First they ganged up on that girl and all of a sudden people fear her. Where and when did that start? Oh that’s right this episode. Cynthia could not even look up or at Porcha when she was speaking about the issue. Still being controlled by NeNe I guess. But yet you all are in each other’s ads and commercials as focal points. OK, but I’m scared of you but be in my commercial and I’ll model your lingerie.

XoXo

That was some crazy shit the way that went down. Absolutely no one is loyal.

ChocolateCity

But, they didn’t seem to fear Glen Rice Jr…huh? But, now you tryin to say ppl saying they fear Porsha. lol right. But, Yes, if she puts her hands on another woman on that show..she SHOULD be out of there for good. So, what’s your point?
Porsha is a couple eggs short of a dozen…So, she’s the type that need someone to break everything down to her….at least that’s how she portrays herself.
Nene don’t need to explain herself…ppl with common sense understand where she was coming from.

Marilyn

I love me some Nene leakes, but man sit yo ass down some where frfr. You were doing everything u were big enough to do to some of these ladies in the previous Porsha Now, since their paying u to play Iyanla…you trying to fix folks life…..Girl bye! Porsha was antagonized by Kenya when she dragged her and the incident w Cynthia… Blame it on the alcohol. As for her assistant, Porsha needed to used better judgment because if I’m cutting your checks, I’ll be damned if I’m going to resort to cutting your ass….I would hit her w your services are no longer needed and fuck up her commas. Any who that’s my two cents✌

Bobbi

FOR WHAT! KENYA SHOULD HAVE BEEN GONE! JUST LIKE ISAIDIT SAID PEOPLE NEED TO REMEMBER! BEST POST EVER! NENE WAS HAPPY AS HELL WHEN PORSHA DRUG KENYA! GTHOH

NeNe is such a hater just like the rest of them. Kandi is so jealous of Kim F. it is not even funny. Porsha & Kim do NOT need that show to be relevant unlike the rest of those dried up birds.

Kel2707

Why does Kandi have to be jealous of Kim? Why do any of them have to be jealous of the next one? If someone has a different opinion then they’re jealous?? I don’t get it

PB

Huh? Kandi hardly interacted with Kim on camera. Due to her pregnancy, Kandi’s visibility was in large part limited to her interactions with her family. And, I agree that Kim F. does not need the show to be relevant. Porsha? Time will tell.

It’s cool to tell her, but on national TV, come on now. If they are friends why treat her like that. A real friend will pull you to the side not in front of the world.

FLYw/oWings

Phaedra swears to be Porsha’s friend. It will be very interesting
to see how she straddles the fence on this one, being that her
and NeNe are suppose to be friends also. Will NeNe turn on
Phaedra next season also?

She wasn’t trying to be nice to Porsha. She was trying to make herself look perfect, which she is far from. She is always trying to seem like she never does anything wrong, yet she does all the time. Have yet to admit she was wrong about anything that went down on the show. When you do something stupid, admit that you did wrong, and then you can try to do better. Nene just need to get off her high horse.

I believe Porsha’s job is on the line and that’s the reason Andy.asked.NeNe to.talk.to.her… If you think about it they do.alot of arguing on the show but how often do you see it turn physical?? And Porsha has been in 3 altercations… I just dont think this particular franchise accepts that…

Jadorequi

I believe this is the case as well the addressing publicly was so the network could see that they are addressing things and her behavior will change. Wouldn’t be surprised if Porsha is axed

Rina Booker

She should be this is unacceptable behavior it keeps happening. Bravo has their other employees working in a hostile work environment

Karen

Stop acting like Porsha is some maniac! When she handled Kenya y’all all was cheering! Including Nene!

Danceroflife

Truth! Many of the fans absolutely loved Porsha’s physical attack against Kenya Moore; they celebrated her violent act..

In this country, all citizens and residents have the right to freedom of speech, excluding criminal threats. Also in this country, its citizens and residents have the right to be free from physical assaults including when exercising their right to freedom of speech. To physically assault another is a criminal offense, can be charged as a misdemeanor or felony, as as Porsha quickly learned after she attacked Kenya.

Now, Porsha(Phaedra) fans may quickly assert that Kenya threatened Phaedra with her comment “..if you weren’t pregnant…” One thing Kenya Moore is, is smart, because Phaedra WAS pregnant at the time of the threat which made it(threat) moot and non-criminal.

People do not have the right to physically assault others simply because they pissed them off. Domestic abusers have quick tempers like Porsha.

I suspect that Kordell was well aware of Porsha’s violence and may be the reason that he changed the locks on the doors once Porsha was away from his home shortly after he filed for divorce. He probably hid the kitchen butcher knives and his shaving razors as well just in case she gained access to the house anyway.

Before Porsha assaulted Cynthia and Jamie, she had verbally assaulted a law enforcement officer and resisted his arrest when he stopped her for speeding on the freeway and driving on a suspended license. The crime report, still online, and describes how Porsha was profane and combative in her interaction with the officer who arrested her for two violations. Porsha appears to believe that she is about the law.

Currently, Porsha has two mug shots and I wouldn’t be surprised if she were to pick up another one in the near future because she has serious and uncontrollable anger management issues, just like all child abusers, domestic abusers and others of that ilk. ….

Regardless of how one views one housewife or another, absolutely no one should be subjected to physical assault which as :”everybody knows,” can lead to serious injury or even death. Physically attacking another is not only against the law, it’s uncivilized as well.

The Porsha who presented to viewers as a demure, sweet “Christian” woman who was loathe to view Las Vegas show girls “objectified,” is actually a very low-intelligence THOT who has a quick temper and a proclivity for criminal violence; a prettily painted thug.

FLYw/oWings

Awesome post…….Preach!!!

Danceroflife

Thank you. It amazes me at the number of women who celebrate violence and think that it’s the answer to their anger. Perhaps they, like Porsha, lacks the emotional and intellectually tools to discern(using Porsha’s go-to word) what is and isn’t criminal.

FLYw/oWings

I voice my opinion on various articles, but I don’t
personally call out a poster for what they lack in
their beliefs. We all bring something to the table
that “we” view as healthy to enjoy, whether we
truly enjoy the “taste” or not. However, there
have been times that I have brought a mirror to
the table, so they can see for themselves the true
reflection of their projection, without speaking a
word! (smiling softly)

Danceroflife

Porsha is a maniac, a violent maniac. How else can one describe someone who is quick to violently assault another?

Really

Dance of life stop trippin! Pirsha is no monster. First you say truth now you calling her a monster. Sthu

Danceroflife

Violence IS a monster. Just ask any victim of a violent crime…

PB

I gave Porsha a pass on the Kenya situation because Kenya was asking for it. But, since then, Porsha has gone off on a Georgia State Patrol, Cynthia, and now Jamie. I wouldn’t go so far as to call Porsha a maniac, but she definitely has a serious problem. Unless anger management or some type of intervention is helpful to her, I think it is just a matter of time before she seriously injures someone and ends up in jail or gets seriously injured herself.

Danceroflife

I give no one a pass for criminal violent behavior. Porsha may have had immediate satisfaction over her mad-dog attack upon Kenya Moore simply because she was exercising her freedom of speech. However, I highly doubt if she(Porsha) is satisfied with the fact that she has a criminal record and two mug shots. Porsha is a pretty violent thug who has perfected being a THOT.

ChocolateCity

she should be. telling Cynthia she don’t want her to get up…and then this alley stuff. she needs to check that. and she’s not married. she’s only there because the public like her. Ppl want to see her win…but, she needs to focus on that. and not acting rachet.

I don’t care for Nene but what she said was right. She’s trying to keep the stupid girl out of jail or worse. I hope Portia is not listening to all of these people who are defending her behavior because they are not helping her.

That’s true, but they came at her like she was a raging monster, give me the advice and move on. They’ve all tried to get physical in past shows SEVERAL times, especially Nene.

helpme2understand

And nene knows how it feel, to be attacked by everyone in the room at once her last season on the show.

Chuck

Nene, please. You’re a bully, who have been bullying since day one. FOH!

Danceroflife

Truth! NeNe is without a doubt a bully! And just like Porsha, she has more than one mug shot too…

ISAIDIT!

MY OPINION ON THIS NENE/PORSHA SITUATION- Someone just e-mailed me and asked me to please weigh in..Im not doing this to embarrass anyone,just a reminder that wer’e all blessed for a reason..LEGGO… Nene I was very excited to see this post because I was hoping it was an apology.I am shocked and appalled that you would further chastise Porsha on a public forum. Your behavior is disgusting! All of you know, I am a Nene fan to the heart.One thing about me when youre wrong Im callin you on it.Nene youre wrong! Question..Was Porsha suppose to forget all about your violent behavior just because Andy asked you to address her? That’s like a bank robber trying to give advice to a mugger! H*ll you both d*mn criminals! You were probably asked to speak with Porsha because YOU were Porsha! The difference is Porsha didn’t go in on people at every sit down dinner.You should be ashamed! Imma need you to remember what kind of friend Porsha was to you! LOYALTY is worth millions to me! When Porsha drug Kenya across that stage,,you were the first one on the scene,NOW you targeting her like shes the worst human being in the world. I will no longer back you,until you apologize to Porsha Williams.As you told Sheree (way back when), You on the wrong team! This is what I need you to do…LISTEN CAREFULLY…REMEMBER….1.Remember youre from Athens,Ga. 2.Remember when your hair was so short,your Aunt had to squeeze your brain to make a pony tail. 3.Remember when you had a mouth full of Mexican corn (different colored teeth).4.Remember when yo azz ate pork and bean sandwiches for dinner. Now look how far you’ve come…. LASTLY REMEMBER The devil was kicked outta heaven for trying to take over Gods position.In other words……You have been in Porsha’s shoes,but youre acting like you’ve never wore anything but red bottoms! Be yo azz still before God make you REMEMBER you were in Athens runnin around barefoot! ISAIDIT!

Jen

ISAIDIT you better preach! I respect you even more now.I know you love Nene. Great post!

ISAIDIT!

Thank you.It was hard.Im STILL a Nene fan. I just don’t think it should be done so publicly. Nene was once Porsha’s age (and hot tempered), ,and since Porsha is trying to get help,I think Nene’s way was a bit harsh. We all need to remember .ME included.Thanks again! ISAIDIT!

ohdearme

Way to go! There’s a way to say everything, NeNe blew it.

Michelle Hicks

love every word…preach…God has a way of making you sit yo butt down and remember where you come from and how far you have come…dont throw stones at others that you had to walk on to get where you are today. people kill me acting like they never were in need of guidance.

XoXo

I was sooo pissed when I saw Nene yet again showing her ass in the public like a puppet. She has definitely forgotten where she came from. I saw Nene in a different light on this situation, and yes, she needs to openly apologize. Loyalty is everything.

XoXo

And while I’m at it, I’m just going to keep it 100, and don’t get me wrong I’m a Nene fan, but just because they make a certain outfit in her size, does not mean she should wear it. I hated that outfit on her.

FLYw/oWings

I am not a NeNe fan, but I appreciate
your honesty about her wearing that
jumpsuit. Clothes and styles and body
shapes come in different sizes for a
reason…..embrace the reason and dress
accordingly!

FLYw/oWings

I am NOT the least bit surprised by NeNe’s behavior
towards Porsha. Kandi told Phaedra in season 7, how
it would be easy for NeNe to turn again on anyone
because she is disloyal in her friendship relations as
proof by her past behavior.

Dime

This is staged entertainment. Porsha and Nene are having drinks as I type.

Jen

Not according to Porsha’s clapback on Dish Nation.Go check it out!

Dime

Ok. Let me go see what she has to say. What does she do on Dish Nation anyway? What is Dish Nation? Let me go google this now.

Dime

I’m trying to watch the video now, Jen. I’ll try to get through it.

Danceroflife

Personally, I don’t think that NeNe has the capability to be a true friend to anyone.

TamaraJ

ISAIDIT, your posts are always very entertaining although I don’t always agree as I’m not a Nene fan. But considering how much of a fan I know you are, I very much admire that you can be objective in this situation and really call out her bad behavior. Very well-stated point. Much respect to you.

ISAIDIT!

Thank you! 🙂

Jd

Said the woman who was always in some crazy shit with everyone. Now she is so perfect!

Jd

I wish they get rid of Kenya

Danceroflife

Because there is such an intense focus on Kenya, good or bad, and Bravo is focused upon the ratings that this show brings in, as long as she continues to do the job that for which she was hired which brings in the rating, she will remain a RHOA cast member.

Kenya is smart, knows that the reality TV is drama driven, is very adept at creating drama and thus ensuring her another Bravo contract.

See folks still coddling Porsha and making it someone’s else fault. Porsha chased Jami down a alley and beat her ass and folks is getting mad a Nene for telling the truth and trying to tell Porsha from her own experiences about how her actions can affect her brand and reputation.

Tan

True. Porsha needs to accept responsibility. Porsha is clearly out of control. She was wrong in all incident pbp. Please don’t bring up a scepter in her face bc she had snatched that thing out of Kenya’s hand way before she snatched her up. The same thing with Cynthia, she put her hands in Cynthia’s face first and used that and the same excuse for her assistant. It’s funny bc earlier in the season her and Phaedra were saying they don’t argue with the help, so why was she this time. Oh her assistant called her out of her name. It boils down to her not being able to fight with her words which leads to the next best thing for her, attacking people. People will antagonize you. She knows she has a short fuse, so walk away and protect your coins.

This can make her an easy target. If does this outside of the show she will have lawsuits all over the place. They will definitely bring her past up and use it as a character flaw against.

Roc

I don’t give a fugg at what point it was that Porsha snatched Kenya up, that azz whooping was well deserved. How ridiculous is it to defend someone who was so blatantly disrespecting someone and antagonizing them? Have you ever had anyone yelling in your ear with a damn bullhorn?

Danceroflife

Some people are simply violence oriented…just like Porsha.

Roc

Violence oriented? Do you mean just violent? Don’t enter this conversation until you can engage me verbally because you are NOT ready for this.

As I stated, she was absolutely justified in the altercation with Kenya. Nothing will change my mind on that. Now, if you can give me a rebuttal of why you think I’m wrong, then feel free to do so. Otherwise, beat it.

Danceroflife

Correct. Anyone who repeatedly physically assaults another over words is nothing but a violence oriented criminal. Period.

You are delusional if you ignorantly believe that you can control when and how I enter a discussion on this forum. Period.

In my opinion, any person who celebrates, applauds or encourages violence, like some fans(e.g., Trump supporters, Porsha supporters, ISIS supporters, etc.,) tend to do, are just as violence oriented as the person who committed the violence. Period.

Anything else?

If not, enjoy your day!

Roc

Let’s be clear, I never told you that you weren’t entitled to your opinion. In fact, I never said a word to you about butting yourself into the conversation. The fact that you read it that way, shows YOUR ignorance, not mine.

I was speaking SPECIFICALLY on the incident with her and Kenya. There are not many people that would have been able to just sit and ignore that. MYSELF included. So, I guess I’m one of those “violence oriented” people. For that, I don’t apologize.

You also sound foolish as hell comparing Porsha to ISIS. I guess you were really trying to make your point. As I stated before, you won’t change my mind on the matter. Kenya deserved to be dragged.

Enjoy your day as well.

Jayla

Roc why are you wasting your time with this knucklehead? He don’t get it.

Roc

I believe there is hope for everyone LOL!

Danceroflife

What is clear me is that there are some population groups that enjoy, celebrate and indulge in violent behavior. Perhaps it’s genetic…

Me

Roc you tellin the show nuff true! The whole world celebrated whenKenya got drug! Bum heifa!

Me

*truth

Danceroflife

Truth! People who celebrate and/or are violent, applauded Porsha who now has two mug shots. There is a reason why it is believed that Black folks are incapable of disagreeing without violence…

Abby_Wabby_CatLadyVanderZombie

ITA – people act like Porsha is 12 when she’s almost 35 doggone years old – she’s an adult and need not be coddled.. Nene had said previously on WWHL that she had talked to Porsha personally about certain things she thought were not so great so I don’t understand the uproar over NL comments. No one was ganging up on Porsha…Kenya yes but NL was just giving her sound business advice. I usually agree with ISAIDIT but in this case she’s totally off base…NL doesn’t owe Porsha an apology and has made enough mistakes; imho that makes her the perfect person to advice Porsha. It also appears Porsha hasn’t learned anything from her Bravo mandated anger management classes because she is still playing the blame game. Porsha would do well to calm her behind down before she rolls up on the wrong one and gets injured or even worse winds up dead. IJS

Lisa

Abby I think ISAIDIT is correct.She’s not saying Nene was wrong,she said Nene had no reason to come back for Porsha again.That was suppose to be her friend.Okay so the first time Andy asked her to address it.She made her point.so why come for Porsha again? When Porsha drug Kenya,Nene was doing cartwheels,now that she thinks her and Kenya is cool she actin a fool.Porsha was there for her. Nene will be back as soon as Kenya ask her where she got her hair from (toysrus).People should never forget who was there for them.

ISAIDIT!

@Abby_Wabby, Its okay that you think Im totally off base.The greatest friends often agree to disagree. Ms.Leakes is not wrong for caring enough to address Porsha. She was asked to do so,but if Nene felt a further discussion was needed,it should have been in private. Friends respect each other.Porsha was probably already embarrassed.After all she was mature enough to seek help.ON HER OWN.So to continue to chastise her was un-called for IMO. Im still a Nene fan (and probably always will be),but I would never do that to MY FRIEND.I wont label your post way off base.Ill just say wer’e agreeing to disagree on this one. Just wanted to make my post a little clearer.I don’t like being mis-understood.Thx.In the words of Mary Mary… GO GET IT! ISAIDIT!

beez

You should consider doing your own blog. You have so many fans that truly admire you and I believe would be a loyal following. You are eloquent with your words, and you have a way of getting your point across without being condescending. Please keep up the good work.

Dominique

Well said beez! ITA.I would follow ISAIDIT in a heartbeat!

ISAIDIT

Thanks. I normally would not have so much time.I just post on Mondays and that’s it.Today Im on travel, so I came by to see what my people were talking about. lol. Thanks ALL.

ISAIDIT!

Thanks @beez,for your kind words. Go out there and grab your life TODAY “SIS”! lol. We all deserve it! In other words, tear something up! :))

Abby_Wabby_CatLadyVanderZombie

Thanks ISAIDIT….the catch is Porsha didn’t go get the help on her own AND she is still playing the blame game….anyhoo I agree NL delivery wasn’t the best BUT we don’t know IF she had tried to talk to her off camera….We agree to disagree and I do go on STFA just to get your recaps on RHOA. Do you do twatter?

Rina Booker

Right she is out of control and ain’t no but. Who does that. She looked like a wild animal in that alley. Its not everyone else’s fault its Porsha . she has gotten a false sense of confindene since she pulled Kenya’s hair. Someone is going to beat her behind or worse she keep going the way she’s going. She has no real friends because real friends would tell her the truth even her mother she has a problem. I don’t understand how Bravo continues to accept her behavior maybe they will have her quietly go away.

Abby_Wabby_CatLadyVanderZombie

AND I’m shocked when people say oh she’s young. Porsha is 34 yo how is she young? Heck her younger sister Lauren just had a baby and is waaaay more mature. IJS

Dime

Right! She may be younger than the cast, but she is not a young girl. She is a 35 year old woman chasing folks through alleys! In her first season she was playing the airhead (I never believed that underground comment was for real), and now her real personality is coming out. Her attitude is wack.

PB

I think the exact same. Thirty-four is young, but not THAT young. If I had behaved like Porsha behaves at 34, or even 30, my friends and family, out of love, would have steered me towards some serious psychological help as soon as they noticed that I was acting like a wild 15-year old instead of like a grown woman. I wonder why Porsha’s friends and family didn’t do that for her a long time ago.

FLYw/oWings

I totally agree. Porsha’s biggest problem is,
she was never aware that she had one!!!

PB

Exactly! I have always been more pro Porsha and anti Nene. But, this time, Nene got it right. She said what needed to be said in a caring, non-confrontational way. Unfortunately, instead of receiving it, Porsha got defensive and tried to turn it around. Also, I wasn’t watching the show when the Kim/Nene choking incident happened. But, if it did happen, IMO, that makes Nene even more qualified to say what she said to Porsha because she’s been there, done that, suffered the consequences, and overcome.

Michelle Hicks

anybody remember on the tour bus when Nene went after Kim and was standing over her like she was about to go in for the kill and was pulled off…anybody remember Kandi at the PJ party where she acted a fool and was gonna drag a bitch if she could get her hands on one…anybody remember Sherri going after Kim at that restuarant and following her outside and pulling her wig…anybody remember Kenya invading Kim F space and pulling her chair out…they are all bullies when they want to be or think they have someone that they can act a fool on…the diffrence is Porshia has turned out to be that bitch that will back up what she says…the only diffrence is all these other ladies always threatening what they gonna do…what they gonna say…blah blah blah…they got one that they aint gonna beable to do that to without backing up what you gonna do and they dont like that. They want us all to sit and watch them week after week put each other down..be all up in each others business…going after the weak and Poshia is throwing a wrench it that. Rather you like it or not…rather she gonna get kicked off the show or not…better believe people will think twice about stepping to her with nothing but air to back it up.

Dime

Porsha is a 35 year old woman. Chasing down her assistant is not the business. Embarrassing her family name should not be the tea. She needs to take a class from Phaedra and learn to mollywhop folks with her words. All it takes is the right opportunist to provoke her, then sue her for that Dish Nation money.

Danceroflife

Porsha is stupid and should be careful because she may run up on someone who won’t use their fists as their weapon of choice…

Tanya Tyus

Not knocking Ne Ne…love her to death…but…our of love and true friendship..you chastise your friend behind closed doors and not in a room full of women some of which you know are only criticizing your friend out of meanness when your heart is in the right place towards the person you are trying to help..anyone in a position where they feel attacked is going to try and save face when no matter who is conning at them in a room full of people saying certain things…especially when those same people have been known to name call in the past…when Portia wasn’t taking up for herself…and the choke happened on camera in Kim’s tour bus…unless that wasn’t the first time…then there was the wig pull on Kim..also the hair pull on Sharea as you all were coming out of the restaraunt so be a mentor the right way and show her in private how you regained control…and stop throwing shade…and Kenya shut up..you deserved yours and you should be glad Kim wasn’t a fighter.

Dime

These women are not friends.

Tanya Tyus

I’m going by what Ne Ne said when she explained that she was giving Portia advice out of love as a friend.

Michelle Hicks

Nene should have picked up the phone to speak with her…Nene should have went by her house…when Nene didnt have anybody else on the show that would be bothered with her she was always on the phone with Porshia or over her house…she did this to grandstand only…what do you think would have happen if the ladies had decided to tell her at a reunion show how her behavior to Kim was out of line and she needed to get help…oh she would have acted a fool and walked off madd. If Nene wanted to come to Porshia out of friendship she wouldnt have done it on the show like she did…she would have talked to her one on one like Phadrea did

Casey Webb

I thought that Nene’s advice on the reunion was sound and not at all shady. If Porsha is building a brand – Nene was trying to help her see she was putting a bad light to it by fighting and such and allowing it to be filmed – so that Bravo can show it at a later date. Nene has turned herself around and is building her brand into the catch all that she wants it to be. Porsha might also keep in mind that it was Nene who told her to be quiet when she was talking about the fight with Kenya directly after it happened and Bravo was filming and recording everything she said. Had Nene been shady I doubt she would have told her to stop talking. Dear Porsha please see Nene’s comments for what they were help – NOT SHADE.

I don’t think that Nene is wrong. If my friend was constantly displaying this type of behavior, then I would have said the same thing. It’s ok to make your mistakes, but when you constantly do the same thing then that’s not a mistake that’s a habit! Porsha’s first incident was the “mistake”. The second time definitely wasn’t because she had her fingers in Cynthia’s face. Porsha stated that Kenya was in her personal space and provoked her, but she did the same thing with Cynthia. Its funny how Porsha is feeling some type of way because Nene said what she said, but I do recall Nene was the main one that wanted Porsha to stay on the show when bravo took her peach.

Nene is completely full of moose sh*t. She can put Porsha on blast but get pissed when its reciprocated. The camera didn’t catch her choking Kim but the police report she made still exist. The biggest bully on the trying to lecture someone about violence. Foh.

Beloved

Nene did what she was asked to do when she addressed Porsha’s tendency to fight when getting into altercations that others can resolve verbally. Andy and Bravo used Nene to “warn” Porsha that the network will not continue to support her and her various endeavors if she continues to use violence. And, I am sure the network is paying for Porsha to seek counseling with the counselling to be part of Porsha’s storyline next season. We have seen Porsha lose total control 3 times now on TV and in all 3 encounters, Porsha was like a mad animal foaming at the mouth, even being restrained. She does need help and I am glad she is getting it. And, those of you who think Nene was wrong for saying what she said to Porsha, must not have a brand or is trying to get a business launched since, everything Nene said to Porsha was true. Noone will want to do business with a person who fights at the slightest provocation and Nene knows this and is trying to help Porsha, even if the delivery seemed harsh… to some.

I’m truly shocked at all the comments about Nene on this blog!! I agree with all that’s being said, but usually Ms. Leakes is untouchable and if you say anything about her there will be a serious backlash. Loved you post ISAIDIT

beez

I skipped most of the comments and went straight to ISAIDIT!, you are my sister from another mother we think like twins. I really like Nene but she is wrong as two left shoes. She has bullied and intimidated people every season, but I still hung in there with her. How in the world can she be so judgemental with Porsha? Where I do believe a friend should be able to call you out when you’re wrong, but it’s a way to do it, Porsha is younger than she is but she’s still grown. Who are you tell her she needs to stop twerking, when she was Posha’s age she was still sliding up and down the pole. I wonder how she would’ve reacted if another woman told her to get off the pole on a national platform. I’m sure she would take offense to someone doing it to her. I still like Nene but make no mistake I’m #TeamPorsha all the way!

RayRay

Shout to NeNe for telling Cray Cray Porsha like it is, hopefully Porsha will take NeNe advice….#NeNe is the type of person that you need in your Circle of Friends to (Tell You Like It Really Is)….#Real Talk

Liyah

Yeah like they tried telling her at that counseling session,but she didn’t wanna hear it! GTHOH.Nene is wrong.END OF STORY!

GetIt2gether

I guess she has changed since she is no longer cashing trump checks… I remember her acting a fool on apprentice.. she was pulling a Kenya then.. I remember when Kandi was going to “blow up on her a$$”…LOL..

LMBO! this one got me too paulie! They really think Im crazy when I find an ISAIDIT post.I laugh so hard people be looking over their cubicals!

GetIt2gether

When Kandi first appeared on the show Nene tried to come for her and she didn’t want it. Kandi can eat all she wants because shes the real one with all the coins… Nene only comes for those she feels she can. When she know they might get at her she runs away…

Leddi

Chile cheese Kandi coins is slow and low with all those ghetto business’s.Nobody is scared of Kandi the bull Burruss.Nobody! All Kandi do is talk and sweat.Just like a lot of Ghetto chicks do.She let Mel push Todd and then waited on somebody to hold her back! So she could talk noise.Girls like Kandi wont bust a grape.Unless she got her Click.But they not gone fight either! Chile Bye!

GetIt2gether

If her coins are slow and low them NeNes are non existent.. lol.. Nene is ghetto too Even more so because she can’t even speak that well, though she pretends too So yes girl bye..For Real!!!!!!

XoXo

Don’t get it twisted, she will fight you over a piece of chicken.

Roc

Nene kills me acting like she so above everyone else. She came back because she needs the check. All her Hollywood checks dried up, and they won’t be coming back because the bish can’t act. I guess she feels she can bank on the Fashion Police, but it’s been clear they don’t like her. She better keep sucking up to Andy, or her and Geriatric Greg will be back on the curb.

Ppl hate when u call them out on their mess .. Smh… Aint nobody perfect…. Everybody has skeleton’s in their closet…. So if u don’t want none of that stuff brought up from the past get out the lime light!!! Don’t start pointing fingers when u have just as much dirt in your closet!!!

FLYw/oWings

Especially when it would take a crane to remove
their dirt and a crew of six to haul it!!!

Yeah I really didn’t appreciate them attacking porsha…Kenya a smart mouth bitch that’s not gonna bust a grape yet dare you to beat her ass when she knows good and GOTDAMN well she deserved it 2 years ago, I don’t get how everyone ignores how Kenya is a shit starter and always plays the victim,and I used to like nene big foot abominable snow man arrogant ass she needs to sit down and STFU,she knows she was at Kim throat when she was on the show,and got rather aggressive.PHONEY ASS CHICS

She might have been wrong for what she said to pohisa,but she was wrong for what she said to Porsha!

Lula

Nene is not wrong for what she said,as a friend youre suppose to tell your friend when theyre wrong.But in private! Okay so she did it because Andy asked her to.Ill give her that.But why did she come back AGAIN! Sit down Nene!

NeNe must have gone to Funky Dineva’s “How to Live Like a Rich White Woman” seminar. She is far less ghetto these days though she still looks like she’s always a little “ripe”. Porsha is the queen of coochie and thus created a story arc for herself. LOL

Clearly Porsha will not be on the show next season but I am a little confused as to why Kandi, Cynthia , Sheree and Nene all were having amnesia about their own violent histories. Apparently aggressive behavior is justified in some cases. Sad.

Nene is a shady mess. And she did choke Kim. And she has bullied Kim since the show came on. She looks a hot mess. All that plastic surgery. Nose and that mess of a wig.

NiKki-T

I hope Porsha’s therapist/counselor/mother or whoever can speak with her soon about her behavior. Unless, you have a negative mindset you can see that Ne-Ne remarks to Porsha was not in the spirit and tone of all the other ladies and she should have received what Ne-Ne was saying to her. Porsha felt attacked by the others because that’s exactly the tone from them but I did not sense Ne-Ne was attacking her. Porsha is wrong in this case, sorry!

NENE LEAKES states that Andy told her to talk to Porsha , but yet why didnt Andy tell her to talk to that bully azz Kenya Moore about how she constantly bullied Kim Fields the entire season. Kenya Moore also had bullied Porsha and tried to bully Phaedra Parks. Let Kenya Moore try and bully NENE LEAKES, Kandi, Phaedra Parks, Cynthia, and Sheree, they would whoop her azz with the quickness. I think NENE LEAKES should have waited to talk to Porsha Privately off the set. Sounds like they are trying to get rid of her. First they ganged up on Porsha and all of a sudden people fear her? Where and when did that start? Oh that’s right at the last reunion. Cynthia could not even look up or at Porsha when she was speaking about the issue. But yet they all are in each other’s ads and commercials. OK, but I’m scared of you but be in my commercial and I’ll model your lingerie. SMH..

Nene must have heard what Porsha and them were saying about it on Dish Nation and just had to respond. Nene gets in her feelings too much. She said what she said on the reunion with good intentions, so let it be and not say anything else about it.

It was ignorant. As a friend, if we have issues or concerns, we can talk about it in private. That was so corny. I wouldnt look at her the same if we were friends. This fake friend trend is too becoming nowadays

PB

I have never, ever even almost been a Nene fan. The only thing I ever liked and respected about her is that she is smart enough to know how to use her Bravo platform as much as Bravo uses her for ratings. However, I commend her for approaching Porsha about her outrageous behavior in a caring, big sisterly way. The fact that her approach was public is a non-issue, IMO, for several reasons: (1) Nene has mentioned previously that she has privately talked to Porsha about the negative changes in her behavior—apparently to no avail; (2) Andy solicited the ladies’ thoughts on Porsha’s behavior, i.e., Nene did not just out of the blue volunteer her thoughts; and (3) Considering that Nene knows how to succeed in spite of people’s criticism about her past horrible behavior, she is in the best position to give Porsha advice about the impact of her violent, slutty behavior. —— The other women sit back and let Porsha make a fool of herself. Sometimes they even help her to make a fool of herself, e.g., Kenya, Cynthia, and Claudia. Porsha should be grateful that someone as experienced as Nene cares enough about her to try to reel her in before she does herself in.