My question is: what if somebody deliberatly changes your plans. Can we still take it as an unexpected turn of life? Don’t we have the rights to resist? Does this person has the rights to play the Destiny on us?

Hi Jundo
I really have to restate Rog’s question, what do we do when someone
deliberatly interrupts & tries to change/manipulate our lives?
how do we resist that & let it go with the minimum of bitterness
or resentment? esp if they wont let the past be…
any suggestions would be greatly appreciated…
thank you & peace
J

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