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I love what you wrote at the end Deb. We can all allow things we like to become addictions that effect our relationship with the rest of our lives and at that stage we need an honest loving person to let us know - we're addicted. Sorry things didn't work out though, doesn't make it any nicer for you xxx

I’m sorry it ended that way for you, Deb. I think one of the most devistating things about loving an alcoholic is denial, depression and anxiety are big parts of the problem. You can let them know a thousand ways what they’re doing is hurting them and everyone around them but they won’t change until they reach bottom. That could be financial, relationship, loss of job, health scare. I tell you this because yes it hurts now, but you have saved yourself so much pain.