Breakups & Divorce Support Group

Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.

What did your spouse do after you served papers?

My husband is the one who wants out of our marriage without working on it. We have been seperated almost 3 months. He also is having at least an emotional affair (if not more) with someone at work. I told him I would not be the one to file since I didn't want to give up on our marriage. He is sending bitter emails and is making cruel jesters. It is hurting so much, I filed in mid December but was waiting till January to seve him papers. I didn't want to wait around months at a time until he got around to it.

I am afraid of how he will react when he gets served. I shouldn't be afraid though because it is he who said it was over.

My stbx (soon to be x) was cheating for years. I was so busy with my special needs kids to give our relationship much energy--I was exhausted. I told him I was upset for the lack of connection. I told him I was overwhelmed. He just got sulky and cheated. He finally didn't want anything to do with a family life at all. He just wanted the thrill fulfilling his fantasies with porn and women. So he arranged a very painful reveal which of course caused me to kick him out. Now he plays the martyr to make me look like the dirty. My only consolation is the fact that to his family over time they will know I left him for nobody and I'm the responsible party on the part of the kids. Over time they will see him plowing thru women and being clueless about his kids!

I served him he had his lawyer specify the time and place so his work would not find out. (B/C he's cheating with a new recruit and he was an officer) Frankly--now I don't care. I have a clear conscious--he'll be haunted for life.

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