tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1380741379275020521.post7042589073632739848..comments2019-09-12T16:13:40.653+01:00Comments on brummymummyof2: If you've got nothing nice to say. Smile and keep quiet.brummymummyof2http://www.blogger.com/profile/15122840386573154296noreply@blogger.comBlogger25125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1380741379275020521.post-23684237108409332122014-04-12T09:41:38.922+01:002014-04-12T09:41:38.922+01:00What a stupid cow at the sure start! Makes my bloo...What a stupid cow at the sure start! Makes my blood boil! My baby&#39;s 18 months and I&#39;ve only just stopped wearing maternity pjs :) Fab post my lovely xxJess Patersonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05101400922915784452noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1380741379275020521.post-16399695431709040092014-04-12T08:06:50.201+01:002014-04-12T08:06:50.201+01:00I don&#39;t think I&#39;ve suffered too much with ...I don&#39;t think I&#39;ve suffered too much with people commenting - nothing that I can remember anyway. Clearly if I have I must&#39;ve gone down the &quot;ignore&quot; path too lol x Colette Bhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13520171361118177674noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1380741379275020521.post-57551596200980361282014-02-21T05:29:05.498+00:002014-02-21T05:29:05.498+00:00Oh my gosh. Do not get me started on mitten gate!...Oh my gosh. Do not get me started on mitten gate!!!!!!! I had a similar row with a family member. We have also had sock gate. Socks needed to be off to help with walking. Every time I left the room? Socks would be put back on again!!!! Grrrrrrrrrrr xbrummymummyof2https://www.blogger.com/profile/15122840386573154296noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1380741379275020521.post-24693364893177716422014-02-19T06:58:27.940+00:002014-02-19T06:58:27.940+00:00People are way too quick to judge, they have no id...People are way too quick to judge, they have no idea what others have been through but still think they have the right to say what they think is best. <br />My son&#39;s glove fell off recently and he started sucking his fingers which kept him happy and it wasn&#39;t even cold, and I got a comment from someone &#39;oh gosh his hands freezing to touch&#39; and his hand wasn&#39;t freezing was just not warm to touch, but he&#39;s just like me and has cold hands and feet sometimes no matter what temperature the rest of him is. XCatriona Stephenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15480505228165085349noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1380741379275020521.post-42195522209195860112014-02-18T08:12:06.695+00:002014-02-18T08:12:06.695+00:00Luckily now in my post hormonal way I know they we...Luckily now in my post hormonal way I know they were being stupid! Silly idiots xxxbrummymummyof2https://www.blogger.com/profile/15122840386573154296noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1380741379275020521.post-50469260021487301632014-02-18T07:04:10.052+00:002014-02-18T07:04:10.052+00:00It&#39;s easy to judge from the outside -
but onl...It&#39;s easy to judge from the outside - <br />but only you, who is living your life and knows it from the inside,<br />knows what is best for your family…<br />be strong and enjoy knowing that you&#39;re doing the best you can.<br />Emma :-)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1380741379275020521.post-33373258793506564392014-02-17T05:28:17.381+00:002014-02-17T05:28:17.381+00:00She was such a smug idiot! Luckily with the second...She was such a smug idiot! Luckily with the second one I don&#39;t care so much! xxxbrummymummyof2https://www.blogger.com/profile/15122840386573154296noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1380741379275020521.post-62456036848302555292014-02-16T22:19:17.134+00:002014-02-16T22:19:17.134+00:00Sounds like you&#39;re doing a fab job! I can&#39;...Sounds like you&#39;re doing a fab job! I can&#39;t believe that the mum said that to you. Laura Mummy to Boyzhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08383878153634746282noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1380741379275020521.post-2030308758661638792014-02-15T18:02:55.295+00:002014-02-15T18:02:55.295+00:00Silly smug idiots! I just ignore them now. Don&#39...Silly smug idiots! I just ignore them now. Don&#39;t give them the benefit of my sad face. I smile and nod! xxxbrummymummyof2https://www.blogger.com/profile/15122840386573154296noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1380741379275020521.post-3501513205386929402014-02-15T18:00:59.725+00:002014-02-15T18:00:59.725+00:00I just ignore them the second time round and laugh...I just ignore them the second time round and laugh at them in my head. Silly idiots! xxxbrummymummyof2https://www.blogger.com/profile/15122840386573154296noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1380741379275020521.post-62925613807531810052014-02-15T13:59:21.468+00:002014-02-15T13:59:21.468+00:00Great post! Such a shame that people can&#39;t sup...Great post! Such a shame that people can&#39;t support new mums and be honest with them about how hard it is, instead they pile a lot of judgement on and make you feel like the worst parent in the world. I wish people would keep their opinions to themselves!! #archivedayCaroline Elliotthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15520390829505052652noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1380741379275020521.post-72306786705658764612014-02-15T08:25:57.802+00:002014-02-15T08:25:57.802+00:00Great post :-) sod the terribly sad judgers, belie...Great post :-) sod the terribly sad judgers, believe me from the view 10 yrs down the line, they do not come out as the happy ones. XBeta Motherhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00194978993670545278noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1380741379275020521.post-3651076820236658972014-01-22T17:33:29.722+00:002014-01-22T17:33:29.722+00:00You are a brilliant Mum - and don&#39;t forget it!...You are a brilliant Mum - and don&#39;t forget it!! I really wish people wouldn&#39;t judge without knowing the full facts. When will people get off the &#39;breast is best&#39; bandwagon?! Thank you for linking to PoCoLo xVictoria Weltonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17488151945036286537noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1380741379275020521.post-40398336666721982342014-01-21T05:31:33.423+00:002014-01-21T05:31:33.423+00:00And boy was I grumpy grrrrr xxxAnd boy was I grumpy grrrrr xxxbrummymummyof2https://www.blogger.com/profile/15122840386573154296noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1380741379275020521.post-30137287460531559852014-01-20T20:09:44.794+00:002014-01-20T20:09:44.794+00:00Perfectly put oh grumpy mummy :)Perfectly put oh grumpy mummy :)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1380741379275020521.post-60670848022949968552014-01-19T17:36:02.323+00:002014-01-19T17:36:02.323+00:00Thanks! Nah I ignore the nutters now. Its so unhel...Thanks! Nah I ignore the nutters now. Its so unhelpful. Life is too short. My sprogs are super happy and to be honest that&#39;s all that matters to me really. They can just sod off! xxxbrummymummyof2https://www.blogger.com/profile/15122840386573154296noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1380741379275020521.post-20525589425561716572014-01-18T08:09:16.353+00:002014-01-18T08:09:16.353+00:00I used to get really upset when people commented o...I used to get really upset when people commented on my parenting skills with my first. Now I couldn&#39;t give a sh1t! I have two healthy, happy children who have been bottle fed, had dummies and slept in our bed. As you were. It sounds like you are doing a great job! Xmummy of twohttp://www.mummyoftwo.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1380741379275020521.post-65208874688981529712014-01-18T07:20:45.961+00:002014-01-18T07:20:45.961+00:00Exactly. I just ignore people now and laugh it off...Exactly. I just ignore people now and laugh it off. But that&#39;s as I&#39;m not an hormonal mess now. Well not too much if one!! Nice to meet you xbrummymummyof2https://www.blogger.com/profile/15122840386573154296noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1380741379275020521.post-32255568573855216632014-01-18T07:18:49.541+00:002014-01-18T07:18:49.541+00:00Thanks. It did upset me but now with number two I ...Thanks. It did upset me but now with number two I just think sod them!!! My kids are happy and that&#39;s all that matters. People are crazy. Nice to meet you! xxxbrummymummyof2https://www.blogger.com/profile/15122840386573154296noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1380741379275020521.post-52770978803579506382014-01-17T20:44:33.217+00:002014-01-17T20:44:33.217+00:00What a totally heartless thing to say to you about...What a totally heartless thing to say to you about breast feeding. No one has the right to judge another, I tried and failed to breast feed, I was distraught about it, if anyone had said that to me at the time, I&#39;d have been in pieces. You do what works for you and your family. We are all different, that&#39;s what makes us all interesting.Mary @over40andamumtoonehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03781361285071744721noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1380741379275020521.post-60441752283961797552014-01-17T20:34:03.407+00:002014-01-17T20:34:03.407+00:00You are a great mom, and don&#39;t let anyone tell...You are a great mom, and don&#39;t let anyone tell you otherwise! The bottle-feeding incident is very sad, because everyone knows &#39;breast is best&#39; but everyone makes the choice most suitable for them. I love the honesty of your writing! #PoCoLo<br />Tarana Khanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01254231933129121893noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1380741379275020521.post-18274444709543925312014-01-13T15:49:29.292+00:002014-01-13T15:49:29.292+00:00It makes me so cross! I&#39;m not perfect and of ...It makes me so cross! I&#39;m not perfect and of course I think the odd thing about what other people do with their kids but I keep it to myself. The rude comments I got when I decided to go part time killed me. I now just ignore it all xxxbrummymummyof2https://www.blogger.com/profile/15122840386573154296noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1380741379275020521.post-49091021416653489462014-01-13T10:31:14.960+00:002014-01-13T10:31:14.960+00:00It amazes me the way people think its ok to judge ...It amazes me the way people think its ok to judge and criticise other people&#39;s parenting choices! It&#39;s ok not to agree with people&#39;s decisions but they really ought to keep that to themselves! Colette Bhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13520171361118177674noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1380741379275020521.post-39776004569036194272014-01-12T19:11:50.469+00:002014-01-12T19:11:50.469+00:00Gosh! Thank goodness she was ok!!!! I think we oft...Gosh! Thank goodness she was ok!!!! I think we often feel pressure to be super mum when in reality it&#39;s bloody hard work. Glad everything turned out ok for you xxxbrummymummyof2https://www.blogger.com/profile/15122840386573154296noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1380741379275020521.post-29779009806439370312014-01-12T19:05:08.604+00:002014-01-12T19:05:08.604+00:00how very true, I can even take this one further an...how very true, I can even take this one further and admit to the worst parenting fail of all, when my second born was 4 weeks old I had hold of a cushion that I was going to shut her up with, she just cried and cried and cried and cried ( you get the picture) for hrs and hrs and hrs. Phoned my GP and said take her away, take her home to the wife, phone social services and put her in foster care, just get rid of her......<br />I was justified she was desperately ill and if I had not reached breaking point she would not be hear to tell the tale as the hospital told me she would have been dead within 6 hrs had I not got help that night ( and I am not totally bad I had had her seen by my GP and HV and they said there was nothing wrong I was paranoid.) <br />Elaine Livingstonehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12580416781042660045noreply@blogger.com