Awww, don’t let it get you down! I know…much easier said than done :-). I started to experience this recently…I went to my first bridal shower after getting married, and I was a little sad that this point in my life had passed.

I can’t remember exactly how your wedding went, but just remember…it is one day! Plus, you never completely know what goes on behind the scenes. People have told us that they had so much fun at our wedding, and while the day was perfect to us…there were a ton of snafus that happened (got into a car accident a few days beforehand, BM called me 4 hours before the event, saying that DH had lost the wedding band, we had a guest pass away after leaving our wedding). The first two things, I can laugh about now, but they definitely rattled me!

Plus…I think now it’s kind of a bummer, because it isn’t “our” wedding year anymore. It’s so weird to say that we got married last year!

It’s okay to feel bummed out…I can completely understand that. Just remember…whatever they may have happen doesn’t take away the fact that you’ve married the guy of your dreams :-).

I understand. My FI and I are getting married in March and his groomsmen which is his brother is gettng married in September after us. What is sad, is I am happy for the and I know our day is probably going to be nicer (not that money makes a nice wedding but they are working on a super restricted budget, like 5,000 while we are working with 15,000) BUT what I am jealous of is that after our wedding, I am afraid everyone will forget about us and our day and only care about there wedding approaching… I feel like a horrible person even being that way.

first wedding done.. it went pretty smoothly i was the go to girl…fil says i should be a event planner lol… it was really good. food was more ethnic then i am used too( i am not adventoruos in the food area so everything they brought out i took a bit or two and i was done)( chinese /vietmanese food— i ate jelly fish and didnt know it til later and was kinda grossed out after someone told me what i had just eaten…)lol