Over a decade ago, on this very site, ( or was it Afronet? ) I characterized, named and defined a Mookie. and with it, MY "SAY NO TO MOOKIE!" campaign

I am proud to say, it has become a nationally recognized term. But as popular as it is, some still havent caught on to what or who this person is.

MOOKIE : My coll. for a dog. A predatory male. Bad boi, rogge. Only in it for what he can get, namely sex. All else is 2ndary to his goals. Unreliable in a pinch, unless it involves his goal(s). Does not understand why you are tripping over why he has several others to service him and his goal(s). Will say or do almost anything to get it. Mookie is not into handling his responsibilities. Especially if you get pregnant. Will avoid you and child support like a leper. Mookie is never without a few sisters around.

" ...ultimately, the man you sleep with is a direct reflection of your character. "

....some women spend more time thinking on what outfit they will wear to the club, than thinking about who is the best man to be father to their children....

Ah, so now I get what you're meaning by MOOKIE
Well in that case yeah - definitely say no to them as they will do you no good whatsoever.
I guess that they are the biggest threat to those girls who in a way are most like them...
Like if you are prepared to have sex on a first meet like in a club then you're asking for trouble unless you've got protection with you.
If you're the kind of girl who is only going to have sex once you've been on several dates then chances are any mookie will have got bored and given up.

Ah, so now I get what you're meaning by MOOKIE
Well in that case yeah - definitely say no to them as they will do you no good whatsoever.
I guess that they are the biggest threat to those girls who in a way are most like them...
Like if you are prepared to have sex on a first meet like in a club then you're asking for trouble unless you've got protection with you.
If you're the kind of girl who is only going to have sex once you've been on several dates then chances are any mookie will have got bored and given up.

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It depends on the Mookie. Some are patient. They can afford to be. They have other females on the hook. So they can afford to wait for you to come around.

Also, a lot of females today think roughnecks are cool. There is a reason so many want one of the guys from Twilight. They arent dreaming about Harry Potter

" ...ultimately, the man you sleep with is a direct reflection of your character. "

....some women spend more time thinking on what outfit they will wear to the club, than thinking about who is the best man to be father to their children....

"It depends on the Mookie. Some are patient. They can afford to be. They have other females on the hook. So they can afford to wait for you to come around."
In which case how would a girl spot one in the first place so that she could then say no to him?"Also, a lot of females today think roughnecks are cool"
True, like in that Alexandra Burke / Flo Rida song

"It depends on the Mookie. Some are patient. They can afford to be. They have other females on the hook. So they can afford to wait for you to come around."
In which case how would a girl spot one in the first place so that she could then say no to him?"Also, a lot of females today think roughnecks are cool"
True, like in that Alexandra Burke / Flo Rida song

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The basic way to spot one is to listen to what he says and if he backs it up. An accomplished Mookie can back it up short term. But all have other women around.

" ...ultimately, the man you sleep with is a direct reflection of your character. "

....some women spend more time thinking on what outfit they will wear to the club, than thinking about who is the best man to be father to their children....

Over a decade ago, on this very site, ( or was it Afronet? ) I characterized, named and defined a Mookie. and with it, MY "SAY NO TO MOOKIE!" campaign

I am proud to say, it has become a nationally recognized term. But as popular as it is, some still havent caught on to what or who this person is.

MOOKIE : My coll. for a dog. A predatory male. Bad boi, rogge. Only in it for what he can get, namely sex. All else is 2ndary to his goals. Unreliable in a pinch, unless it involves his goal(s). Does not understand why you are tripping over why he has several others to service him and his goal(s). Will say or do almost anything to get it. Mookie is not into handling his responsibilities. Especially if you get pregnant. Will avoid you and child support like a leper. Mookie is never without a few sisters around.

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Ironically, "Mookie" has several meanings, one of which is:

An strong, independent, sexy woman who enjoys being hugged, smooched and loved on.

See the Urban Dictionary.

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