My name is Benjamin. I am a 28 year old male who is definitely a kid at heart. I work full time as stockroom manager. I work my butt off to be able to make enough to support the spontaneous life that I love to live. I am a guy who loves to treat a lady out for a real date. I work 40 hours a week but always have time for friends or significant others. I am an aspiring musician on the side as well. I lived out in LA for 11 months in 2011 and did an internship through Capitol Records. I play piano, guitar, bass, used to play viola, and I love to sing. I came to this website looking for something real. I pride myself on being an understanding and caring guy. I want to show all the ladies out there that I am different than the rest.