What Guys Said 4

he wants to commit? well at your age group he sounds like "normal-desperate", maybe he's just tired of waiting and lucking out and willing to just jump the gun with you, which could have negative repercussions.

What Girls Said 2

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That would be a red flag for me. Why doesn't he want to get to know you better? First dates are nice and all, but you are just seeing a fragment of what is yet to come. I would go for a second date, but I would not commit on the first one. . . OR the second one for that matter! Take some time to figure out who someone is first. The fact that he isn't interested in safe guarding himself that way, (by getting to know who you are before offering commiment) makes me concerned he has some deeper rooted issues.

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He says he wants to care and be cared for by a woman with love and respect. He says he is going to be responsible toward me. I hinted at the fact that it is too early.