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Online dating sites are at their busiest between Dec. If online dating feels like a second job, it’s because there is serious work involved in maintaining your image as approachable, easy going and fun — and you have to have a lot of patience, dating coach Bela Gandhi tells Moneyish.

“People think that dating is like Amazon Prime, [but] you’re not going to find someone in two days,” she says. Even if you’ve got a banging body, leave something to the imagination and put your clothes on.” Gandhi says selfies turn people off because they can come across as narcissistic, and the use of clever angles can misrepresent what you really look like. Swap out your photos The photo of you at college graduation six years ago needs to come down.

“You have to stay active and committed.” Match is predicting that Sunday, January 7 will be online dating’s busiest day of the year, particularly beginning at around 9 p.m. Delete selfies If you want to be taken seriously, it’s time to realize that low-res mirror pics, sports bra photos at the gym and selfies in cars are not cute. Gandhi suggests having four or five solid photos of yourself in different outfits and places that have been taken in the past six months.

EST when the dating site expects to see a 42% spike in new singles coming to the platform to find a potential suitor. Avoid head shots and get a full body photo, otherwise a prospective suitor will think you’re hiding something.