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Went doctors today and was told i need to lose 2STONE god i feel terrible about myself as it is without a doctor telling me, i wouldnt mind but im only 11.5stone and she wants me to lose 2 stone (would be happy with 1).

Had big row tho and asked if she expevted me to be a size 0 20 weeks after having daughter, a nice size 10 maybe but praticalality wise my little princess is only 20 weeks old and been more preoccupied making sure she is happy and content (not and excuse).

Then doctor goes on to tell me i need to also quit smoking (not a heavy smoker but vary from 0-10 a day) and i will not and do not smoke near my dd although i know smoke still clings to me, but doctor thinks im ment to do both together surly i should just concerntrate on 1 lose weight or quit smoking?:\?:\?:\?

know how you feel, went to see my gp when my lo was about 20 weeks to be told i needed to loose a lot more weight than you, if i lost what they told me to loose i'd weigh just under 7 stone, now i know i'm only 5foot 1 but that seems tiny to me and i think i'd have to chop a leg of to get to that weight, i just take it with a pinch of salt. And i'd concentrate on 1 first and then the other xxx

i would concentrate on smoking first and not on weight loss for ages. Everything i have read is don't epect to be back to pre baby weight till a year after birth and if your not back to pre baby weight or want to lose more that's when you can start thinking about doing something about it.

women problems im a pcos sufferer and always have carried extra weight, but since having dd i have had huge probs with bleeding after bdin or just general bleeding, have nw been on for over 3 weeks and only had 1.5weeks off previous to that 3weeks on etc so more or less bleeding constantly. tmi sorry.

its very strange for me as my afs stoped prior to concieving dd and we struggled to concieve but was like this when i was in teens 9constant bleeding) i just hate being told something i already feel like crap about hello i know im over weight and am trying to do something bout but dnt need dr to throw it in my face esp as she looked a perfact size 10haha. (maybe just jellous lol)