good observation. my profile on match: set to be deleted. site is a vast wasteland.

profile here up for renewal. at least here i'm meeting some quality couples & have the bonus of being non vanilla.

Bridgewater NJ

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SweetCoCo - interesting, we were just talking about the number of couples who have met and coupled through SLS......eHarmony out SLS in for match making :)

Clemmons NC

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While I think it is hard to find a partner period, I have been blessed with meeting a few great guys out of I have no clue how many emails and messages from SM on this site. I have had better luck on SLS than eHarmony and Match. Taking it slow and learning about each other first I think is the key to finding that partner.

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unicorn, welcome to the forums!

Bridgewater NJ

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what drew me to this lifestyle was the fact that I know several loving couples that do it .. I think its awesome to love and trust your partner enough to be able to watch and be a part of all kinds of pleasures together ..I would love to have that kind of connection with someone else .

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Seems there are a lot of us looking for that.... :)

Knightdale NC

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ful secret you got it on the head,sinful secret any man that you would get into a serious relationship that be the luckiest man in the world.I am also looking for a serious relationship with a female that ino the lifestyle,.she uld have to be open-mimded and love the lifestyle.ALL the lady al have married knew I was into the lifestyle and when along with it for the first party then they when cold after, they had a wonderful time during the party.and was with a few men and one of them had a couple bi emale.But when I bought it up again they told me to go as I enjoyed it more than they did I wasn;t going to fall into that trap even thru a woman I be wanting askedme to the party in the first place but I just let it slide to keep the peaqce thenless than a year they left me and got into swinging I ran into wife #two as she came out of the orgy room with cum running down he leg she lied and told me she walked in to check it out and I saw her as she coming out,ilet it slide until the next time I came to get my son and I told her I didn't like her lieing to me.need someone that like to party and let there hair down along with me.

Belmont NY

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Boy do I ever empathize! Where on this planet does one look for such a person? Judged on vanilla sites shunned on swing sites. If i only wanted a piece of meat to jump up and down on they make blow up dolls you know..same kind thing no interpersonal or communication just physical. Jergens and the internet carry allot less risk than random NSA encounters. I want more than that and you will catch hell discussing your appetites with barflies. What does one do? Is the SM that wants more than a rag to wipe up with damned to remain single?

Ritter SC

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Snowman72 I see no point in revealing your LS pref. on a vanilla site. Like anything else, it takes time to make the right connection. One of the issues I with SM is that many are overly anxious thinking they're walking into a fuckfest when they enter the LS. It doesn't happen usually.

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I have found on normal dating sites is once they find out I'm in the lifestyle they want it immediately judge me calling me names and trash . What they don't know is I'm not stupid and use my safety gear and very careful as most of the singles and couples I've played with are . Here is the funny part I went to a house part once and run into 3 ladies that claim to be vanilla on these dating sites all up in this party so it proved they lied to me lol . I to would like to find someone lifestyle friendly but that's a hard thing to do so I figure I'll be single a very long time .

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