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Lesbian Escort Service

hello everyone!!! I am curious to see how many lesbians would consider using an escort service that was created for lesbians. My friend thinks not many would use an escort service but i disagree... so would ya'll use one why or why not?

Melissa

The question isn't who is going to let me; it's who is going to stop me. Ayn Rand

"It is far more impressive when others discover your good qualities without your help" Judith Martin

hello everyone!!! I am curious to see how many lesbians would consider using an escort service that was created for lesbians. My friend thinks not many would use an escort service but i disagree... so would ya'll use one why or why not?

My friends and I have mulled this one over for YEARS. While I'd LOVE to see someone actually start a service, I don't think it would do enough business to sustain itself. If you are speaking strictly of an escort service, as in "hi, I need a date for my company holiday party" - most women can find a platonic date for the evening. If you're talking about "escort" aka "sex surrogate", there aren't enough women that either a. can't find someone to have sex with, b. would be willing to pay for it, c. would ever consider the idea of having sex with a "prostitute".

I believe there ARE women who would use the service, just not enough to actually sustain a business from it.

If you're talking about "escort" aka "sex surrogate", there aren't enough women that either a. can't find someone to have sex with, b. would be willing to pay for it, c. would ever consider the idea of having sex with a "prostitute".

I believe there ARE women who would use the service, just not enough to actually sustain a business from it.

It'll be interesting to see if any TG butches or stone butch/femmes reply to this thread since a lot of stones (disclaimer: only the ones that I personally know and have talked to) don't ID as lesbian...be it stone butch or femme. Interesting concept and interesting to see if that kind of service would accomodate stones.

It'll be interesting to see if any TG butches or stone butch/femmes reply to this thread since a lot of stones (disclaimner: only the ones that I personally know and have talked to) don't ID as lesbian...be it stone butch or femme. Interesting concept and interesting to see if that kind of service would accomodate stones.

I suppose i should have been a little more detailed about it... I am all for providing escorts for stones/TG persons... couldn't refuse them, they are my favorite...I jsut wanted to know how many within the gay community would actually concider an escort..

Melissa

The question isn't who is going to let me; it's who is going to stop me. Ayn Rand

"It is far more impressive when others discover your good qualities without your help" Judith Martin

Poe, If I was single I would suggest we open a Butch Escort Service. You and I could make loads of cash!

Yah, LOL! I forgot to mention that I have been expressly forbidden to actually sell myself. Apparently, Biken wants all of me to herself. She did hesitate slightly at 1k a night, but I don't know if I could get that kind of action.

hmm...im not so sure about lesbians doing this. personally i dont see the point. most lesbians can get a date when they want to if they want it badly enough.

though i know many tg femmes (mtf) who do escort to get funds for surgery.
personally i'd never do it as it always involves sex of some kind, phone, or real.

the money is good yes. but in the long run your pride will be hurt so much. and it is risky to do this because you might find someone who'll get violent on you. even if they are just on the phone, they can easily find out who you are, where you live.

I don't think escorts are used` for sex, in Ca it's illegal and the escort business can get in trouble if the escorts are having sex with clients on company time. as for violence, escort privacy would be just as strict as patient confidentiality. I would use an escort service, for an event I had to attend since I am single. sometimes i find that I couldn't pay my friends enough to attend a political function, i'm not one to attend alone.

Melissa

The question isn't who is going to let me; it's who is going to stop me. Ayn Rand

"It is far more impressive when others discover your good qualities without your help" Judith Martin

"...the money is good yes. but in the long run your pride will be hurt so much. "...
willow

I think that's rather presumptuous to put your values on someone else. Some people think sex work is perfectly acceptable and don't have issues with it affecting their "pride", or any other part of their being.

back in my younger days(my early,eaarly 20's) i spent a yr in indy and their was a very small group of butches that actualyl did this--even contemplated it myself-they catered to the slightly older lesbians,especially those still closeted bc of their upbringing..there were certain rules and regulations...they paid for a certain time and then anything else that when on(and we all know there are alot of times it becomes extracurricular from time to time) that was personal between the butch and the lady.....once the time was up the butch was off the clock so to speak and anything hy chose to do could not affect the service.

Would I use the service...hmmm for a date to a function maybe, professional escorts tend to know more about the social part of functions & can work a crowd more than some of my friends. So if it was something where I had to have a certain type of person as a date then maybe.

Sex....no, i can get that anytime

Now as far as phone sex goes I know there are a few ex-phone hoes walkin around on here (that is said lovingly) I would do it. I get propositioned by men at work all day *shudder* but if it was butches/FTMs etc I would be all for it (working not calling that is)

that's what I thought.. i was looking at larger cities like LA, San Fran, Seatlle.. maybe expand all over with the internet.. when i lived in vegas, i was amazed with all the sex and escorts services there were....

Melissa

The question isn't who is going to let me; it's who is going to stop me. Ayn Rand

"It is far more impressive when others discover your good qualities without your help" Judith Martin

On the DL.... I have both been paid & considered paying 4 personal companionship/entertainment..

Now as sex 4 sale I have always turned that down--though I can tell u that as an openly gay dancer/stripper I do get prositioned by women.So yes there is a market-infact I'm met quite a few suga mommas who were in the market 4 a boitoi or other wise interesting in buying me interms of a full time takecare of each other kinda relationship arrangement, but that was never my interest soo I have only taken up offers that involded that paid me well 4 my time 4 sex that I probably was always wanting 2 have or having w/her...as in she wants me 2 call off of work on her off day then she has 2 sweeten the deal or I'm off 2work & she can met up w/ me on my time after i make my money...or some other that made sense 4 her 2 pay me 4 my time & the sex wasn't even the issue...sometimes not even part of the game plan as lots of what I involded myself in had more 2 do w/ fanasty, fetish, & roleplay ...

Anyhow the 1 time I considered paying 4 it--yes it was about the sex, but it wasn't like I wanted 2 go pay 4 sex, cuz frankly I don't have 2...however it was this 1sex worker who offered me sex 4 a set price that was laughible & i thought it was her way of trying 2 have sex w/me w/out outing herself--cuz she has hinted & jumped in2 the shower w/me & ofcourse being that she is "str8" & a sex worker I've never wanted 2 play chase w/her like all the men did, soo I really found it an interesting thought she wanted 2 play like it was about the money when I know her reg price & that it really wasn't...and that i soo could have used that 2 my advantage & soo made the str8 girl in2 my lil slut 4 almost nothing, but I soo passed cuz I knew 2 well where she has been...and even though she just wanted 2 suck me off --I couldn't have it that way...I thought it was more powerful 4 me 2 show her that I could just walk away & have her keep chasing me till she amitts how much she wants it...

Well so I hope that helps u somehow interms of answering yr questions..

the axe came into the forest and the trees said the handle is one of us.

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If I was a little older and more street-smart, I would totally sign up for a queer escort service. Actually, just for butches in need of femmes. I don't know if there will ever be a large enough demand for that sort of market to open up, but hey, one can wish.

I love flirting and making people feel good, and I think with a little bit of training, I would excel in the personal escort business. I think a lot of femmes would.

I'm not sure if I would go as far as selling sex, though that idea strikes a very hot chord in my head. Again, maybe if I was older and more street smart.

Imagining a butch for hire is so sweet! I want one to take me to the park and to family functions, where we can freak out the relatives and spoil everyone's dinner.

It'll be interesting to see if any TG butches or stone butch/femmes reply to this thread since a lot of stones (disclaimer: only the ones that I personally know and have talked to) don't ID as lesbian...be it stone butch or femme. Interesting concept and interesting to see if that kind of service would accomodate stones.

I agree. I, for one, wouldn't be opposed to an escort service (it get's tiresome going places alone). On the other hand, there is the element that I'd have to pay to get a "date". There's something slightly humilating about that (as if to say that, that would be only way a womon would go out on a date with "a man like me"....).

Here in Houston we have tons of escorts services they know they are having sex and the cops dont do a thing about it. If I had the cash I would call and make an appt. for myself just to see who shows up, but they also have websites for the escort services where you can look at the girl and choose her for yourself, but you dont know the person who you are gonna get and their personal business, etc.

I could start one if I knew how to and go about it the legal way without having shit posted on the net.I know a few girls in the business and they have taught me alot, so you never know I could be the next PIMP DADDY BUTCH, rofl.

Make the sex industry legal and I thinkt here would be less STD's and AIDS in the world.

This idea seems to based on the assumption that women/lesbians are a large unserved market for sex/escort services, which just isn't true.

I think most women who have the cash & the desire & the lack of inhibition just go to the regular services, for either an escort or an "escort" (i.e. sex). Most sex workers are *thrilled* to have a female client for a change. (That includes phone sex, lap dancers, pretty much everything, btw.)

I don't see what the benefit (to the client) of a "lesbian" service would be. You certainly couldn't guarantee that the workers never had sex with men in either their personal or professional lives, so what would be the point?

I suppose there might be a way to market this as a "new" service or cater it to a particular "lesbian" market, but the fact is, sex services already exist and plenty of women do take advantage of them. A new service would either have to tempt these women away from their regular services, or somehow draw in new women who wouldn't dream of going to a "regular" sex worker.

I agree. I, for one, wouldn't be opposed to an escort service (it get's tiresome going places alone). On the other hand, there is the element that I'd have to pay to get a "date". There's something slightly humilating about that (as if to say that, that would be only way a womon would go out on a date with "a man like me"....).
Dre---

There is nothing wrong with paying for a service. It does get tiresome going places alone, but worse than that, it gets tiresome going places w/ people you don't want to go with. LOL

I try to see it as a service like any other. I have had a fuckbuddy once that wanted to be given things in a date in which sex happened ( a pack of cigarrettes, a dollar bill, dinner, etc... and was very clear about it and took it very seriously) So, I guess, in a way I used the service... (ugh! K... I don't know if I would use if I had to actually write a check, but I would never say never and perhaps for that one I would! )

I wouldn't have a problem if say, I had paid for vacation or an event for two people and then for some reason my companion had to bail out, but may be slightly if sex was involved, but probably not for the same reasons as Dre...

Sorry for the run on sentences. It's late, I am tired and English is not My language. (And I am too lazy to read what I wrote and try to edit it -- I hope it makes some sense)

Actually, I think you are the perfect age for this. I would think the services of a guy like yourself would be in demand...just saying.

While I wouldn't want to set up a date with Mr. Turino, I would absolutely, if single, pay for date. I wouldn't pay for a non-professional (read: someone off of b/f matchmaker) but I would pay for a professional. This doesn't have to be about sex; compaionship from a woman who isn't looking for an everlasting relationship and knows how to make you feel speical sounds awesome....if I were single.

I bet more ftms and butches pay for professionals more than we think. HOT.

I remember this topic being brought up some years ago by a butch who actually started an escort service (although I believe hy was the only employee). I wonder how that turned out for hym.

I don't know if I would use a service or not. I mean, I can't really afford to pay someone to do something with me when I could just have a friend go somewhere with me for free.

Unless your talking about just sex. Are you?

Speaking for myself, I am not talking strictly about sex--

If I were to pay for companionship it would be because I, too, was looking for anonymity--and a pretty girl across the table to chat and flirt with--I don't feel comfortable doing that with my friends. You can't get the no strings attached too often, unless you pay for the service of a professional. Does that make sense?

I don't know if I would use an escort service myself... I don't think so. However, I have had a curiosity concerning being a (strictly) social escort- business dates, special events, weddings etc. Conversation and flirting. Seems like a win-win situation for a college student with cash flow problems and a bachelor(ette) who enjoys her/hys single status.