Monday, June 5, 2017

Roz: Hi Hermione, that story is getting a bit too dark for me. We have only
tried improvised gagging, as in no ball gags or 'proper' gags on a
couple of occasions. It's definitely not for me.

Downunder Don: Gagging in any form is a definite no-go here. Apart from anything else it is potentially dangerous!

abby: Well, in my case, Master worked way to hard to get me to be 'expressive'
during a spanking...or other activities. He would never make me think
that He wanted me to be gagged... unless you include a mouth full of
cock.

Subone: Right now my mom is using my front room as a bedroom. I ball up a
blanket and knot it. We do have a ball gag but have not used it yet.
Maybe some day.

Joseph: It would not work with me, I don't "give in", my wife knows that once I
start squirming, kicking, she is getting to me. When I do make sounds
from the pain of the spanking she always saids "Now we will get down to
your spanking" and from then on I can be heard for "miles". She
believes strongly that the more noise I make the more effective the
spanking is. When she tells me to stand up, I start rubbing, dancing
around the room, she just smiles. It is when she takes me to face the
wall, spanking my sore bottom on the way. It takes awhile to get under
control while facing the wall. So as far as my wife is concerned, the
sound is part of the punishment.

kdpierre: A ball-gag is merely one way to achieve a goal. There is nothing
inherently extreme about any tool, though any tool can be used to an
extreme. As for us? We don't have one but only because the whole "noise
thing " is neither an practical concern nor a sexual thrill. Still we
have employed other things when enforcing silence WAS a goal.

Simon: I'm normally able to keep quiet during a punishment apart from the
occasional grunt and I do like to be able to chat if the situation calls
for it. I have been gagged but only rarely as I find that gags make me
gag and I can become quite nauseous and nothing ruins a spanking like
the feeling that you are going to be sick at any moment.

Wilma: I can't use a ball gag as I have an overbite ( um not bucked teeth!
lol). We do have a bit gag that has been used on various occasions. For
Barney it is another way he exerts his control. It works. It has me
more focused or out of my 'head' when being reset. There are other
times he has shoved a face cloth or other fabric in my mouth. I am
generally very quiet during a spanking (if you don't count laboured
breathing and snorting), so the gagging really has nothing to do with
being heard outside of the area we are in. It can be very humbling for
me.

Enzo: Hi Hermione - I love to hear a girl moaning and pouting and thus the
reason to not use a gag most of the time. However, although never used an
actual ball gag, I have used other specific fabric items as gags and for
all the reasons Wilma explained.

In terms of the story, the
ball gag wouldn't have been my issue. I was not enjoying the overall
themes of extreme non-consent. It was no longer non-consent between two
people, it was multiple people and the overall darker future plans.
Again just my opinion which may be hard to clearly define.

Ronnie: No ball gags. Once P used a pair of my knickers but it made me gag so he had to take it out so no, I wouldn't like to try one.

Ripley: I don't think I would like any kind of gag. But for sure not a ball gag
(or anything else that completely covered my mouth). Just the thought of
it causes me anxiety.

Leigh: I've never worn a gag, nor do I think I would like wearing one.

Yorkie: Considering I am the one giving the directions during my spanking it
would not work if I were unable to speak. So that would definitely would
be a no from me for gags.

Hermione: It's not for us. I like to think that Ron enjoys my vocal expressions of distress. If I don't say "Ow!" and squeal frequently, I'm afraid he will think I'm not enjoying myself.

Thank you all for your participation this week. By the way, in the passage that I omitted, the ball gag was described as a practice golf ball with holes in it to allow breathing. But the whole process was, and Enzo said, non-consensual and therefore unpleasant.

1 comment:

Oops I missed this brunch... but we too don't use gags. I think BIKSS enjoys hearing me say ow. And when I'm trying to be stoic and not make a sound, he only puts more effort into getting a response from me (i suspect). Thanks for this interesting look at the gag/spanking relationship.