Wow well this is my first time mentioning this to someone other than my girlfriend.. Im 16 and iam uncut, me and my girlfriend are fine with me being natural but i feel my foreskin is too tight and i dont know if anyone else had this problem but sometimes when my skin streches to far it hurts and takes me a while to reach my peak also when im having sex it feels great but i take forever to cum and i want to know is it because my foreskin is to tight and if so how do i strech it.. Im scared to see a phycian cuz my parents dont know I have sex and me and my girlfriend are highly against circumsizion so please if anyone can answer my question please help me ... My girl has no problem with it and loves it so thats not the issue it makes me feel insecure about myself i dont feel normal so is there anyway to stretch my skin doent go past the head while Iam erect and when im not it does and can clean it normaly. I know im askin alot of the same question but am i phismosed?????

A tight foreskin in the most common problem with foreskins, but it is easily fixed with gentle stretching. It shouldn't hurt significantly - if it does you're stretching too hard.Have a look at the stretching thread.

Under no circumstances stretch it so that it causes you pain, if you're doing something that causes pain then stop immediately. You will scar the foreskin if you do that and gradually over time it will become worse until you can no longer retract your foreskin at all and will need to be circumcised. I can't emphasise that enough, do not stretch it until it's painful - not even a little bit. Having a tight foreskin as a teenager is surprisingly common, completely normal and easily treated with proper stretching. The only way it becomes a long term problem is if you stretch it to the point that it causes you pain and scars.

So many guys go through what you're going through and end up doing permanent damage to their foreskin by over stretching because they think the pain is normal and they need to just ignore it. No pain is normal.

That's exactly what you need to avoid, it won't bleed if you do it (unless you go completely over the top of course) the scarring is done at a level that you can't see - essentially every time you feel pain that's because you are pulling your skin cells apart which will cause them to scar. You absolutely have to stop doing any activity that causes your foreskin to be painful, even if your foreskin is so tight that merely having it retracted while erect causes you pain. If you keep doing this your foreskin will get tighter rather than looser, after a while visible scar tissue will appear on your foreskin and you'll have a harder time retracting it. Eventually - and this will only take a couple of years - you will have a foreskin that cannot be retracted no matter how much you stretch it and you will either be stuck with that or will have to be circumcised. This is how the vast majority of adult phimosis cases occur, it isn't some condition they have from birth it's an acquired phimosis caused from over stretching the foreskin during teenage years when erections first start to occur.

I'm sure if you stop now and take care only to stretch it properly (without causing pain) you'll be fine, but believe me when I tell you that I have personal experience with this and it's not a question of whether you can get away with it, you will have a permanent untreatable phimosis if you continue to subject your foreskin to stretching that causes you pain.