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losing loved ones to ... suicide, cancer and dementiaTue, 30 Sep 2014 19:11:57 +0000hourly1http://wordpress.com/Comment on Most Suicidal People are Not Mentally Ill by Bobhttps://crumblingwalls.wordpress.com/2007/09/16/most-suicidal-people-are-not-mentally-ill/#comment-4716
Tue, 30 Sep 2014 19:11:57 +0000http://crumblingwalls.wordpress.com/2007/09/16/most-suicidal-people-are-not-mentally-ill/#comment-4716People say that because they need to believe that the suicidal person wasn’t seeing things properly, when in fact it is the person saying that who is denying reality–the suicidal person is in his/her right mind. The survivors *need* reality to be okay and not awful through and through, so they need the suicide to have been sick and thinking wrong.
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Wed, 25 Jun 2014 14:22:13 +0000http://crumblingwalls.wordpress.com/?p=721#comment-4668I am so sorry to read this. I hope that you are able to make the most of the time you have left with your father.
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Mon, 09 Jun 2014 20:26:22 +0000http://crumblingwalls.wordpress.com/?p=721#comment-4660So very sorry to hear the sad news of your dad However, don’t give up, there are many ways to fight and STOP cancer. Similar story of a 45 year old friend who was given the same sentence for (lung cancer 8cm tumor) two years ago is now winning her cancer battle 1 – high vitamin C IV (natural) 2 – Salvestrol (natural) 3 – Curcumin (natural) 4 – DCA (dichloroacetate) synthetic – some minor side effects 5 – hyperbaric oxygen chamber 6 – natural organic diet 7 (if possible) hyperthermia cancer treatment ( St Georg Klinik Bad Abling Germany) A 65 friend with esophagus cancer is following the same protocol and doing well My prayers are with you Stephen Silk
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Mon, 09 Jun 2014 00:26:51 +0000http://crumblingwalls.wordpress.com/?p=713#comment-4657Hi Isabel,

I’m still connected for another week or two. After that I will not see comments until I return to the internet in a few months.

Your words are not awkward. I understand what you are saying and appreciate your thoughts.

It’s true, we grow older knowing that one day we will lose our parents, but it doesn’t make it any easier. Unfortunately, my father is making it more difficult too. He’s angry and is hurting those who love him the most by pushing us away, when he should be allowing us to love and help him.

I know he’s grieving his own life, and he hasn’t had time to accept what will happen. I will do what I can to make things easier for him, regardless if he wants me to or not.

And, as the eight year mark draws closer for you too. Please remember the good times and take care of yourself.

Best wishes,
Karen

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Sun, 08 Jun 2014 09:18:21 +0000http://crumblingwalls.wordpress.com/?p=713#comment-4656Dear Karen,
As you won’t be connected, you’ll probably find my message much later. Anyway, I want you to know that I’m thinking about you and that I wish you strength and courage in order to cope with these new difficult challenges. What you’re saying about Barry sounds so well-known as we are approaching the eighth anniversary of Tal’s suicide too. I’m so sorry to hear about the health of your parents. I wish them and you not to suffer too much, too long.
Unfortunately, we’re reaching an age where we have to say goodbye to our beloved parents. My father’s fighting against a kind of blood cancer as well (but it’s a very long fight not a sudden one as your father), so I know what you’re talking about. On the contrary of our sons, we’ve always known that one day we would lose our parents. When that very moment has arrived, it is very hard, but we don’t have any choice. (Just as our sons didn’t leave us the choice to go on living with our broken hearts). So what I wish you, is to enjoy (if possible) the last moments with your dear parents and to be able to concentrate on your grandchildren and life at its best. I really hope you’ll understand my awkward words.
All my regards and wishes, sincerely, Isabel
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Wed, 19 Mar 2014 23:22:15 +0000http://crumblingwalls.wordpress.com/2007/03/29/he-only-took-my-hand/#comment-4640I have this poem tattooed on my leg for my grandfather I changed some of the words but kept the meaning of it
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Sun, 02 Feb 2014 22:40:29 +0000http://crumblingwalls.wordpress.com/?p=570#comment-4626I was looking for a version of ‘Please’ by Rita Moran as it is almost a year since my son passed from suicide, google brought me to your website. I watched the photos, it is a beautiful tribute to your beautiful son. From one bereaved mother to another I am very sorry for your loss xx
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Sat, 02 Nov 2013 02:28:50 +0000http://crumblingwalls.wordpress.com/2006/09/20/how-ecstasy-affects-the-body/#comment-4625Always look forward, never back, live life with no regrets

I have never done drugs and never will, I don’t have any experience with drugs but know what the main ones do to you, at the time they may feel great, but when the effects wear off you feel like shit. Its not a good idea to try them because even once might get you hooked.

Thanks people who acknowledge this post, be safe.

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Sat, 05 Oct 2013 19:16:38 +0000http://crumblingwalls.wordpress.com/?p=682#comment-4624Thank you Karen, and congratulations for your granddaughter! Best regards, Isabel
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Sat, 05 Oct 2013 09:22:57 +0000http://crumblingwalls.wordpress.com/?p=682#comment-4623Thank you for stopping by and leaving a comment, Isabel. I hope Tuesday is not too painful for you. Be kind to yourself.
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