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I am blessed to have a Daddy Dom that sees the fun in our dynamic and the comical way we are at times in what we do, on a daily basis and in our play/scene times. For me and who I am, I find the fun in most things. So, to have someone that appreciates that and does that himself for the most part, that’s why I say I am blessed.

I am a playful person and when my last relationship was falling apart and I was anxious and stressed all the time, it was very hard to find the fun in anything. So, when I went in search of a change and something that would make me happy and give the fun/playfulness back into my life, I met Daddy.

At first I thought I needed the seriousness to guide me to get my life straight. His guidance, understanding and control definitely helped me along. But it’s the fun side; his love of dress up, his ability to see the comical fun side of things and not being so very serious about things regarding part of our play times, that helped me overall get back to me and find the enjoyment in my life again.

Like when we play school girl or cheerleader, I can be cute, silly, pouty and flirty while we play and it’s part of the play that is expected. I can go all into those characters without much worry that Daddy will get upset at me. For the most part, when he acts stern and all upset Daddy on me, it’s him playing his part to be in character to give me my spankings and punishment in our play. I see a twinkle in his eye and a lift of his lip at times trying to stay in character when I am being so “bad.”

Even when we play a serious sexy scene and there I am in my lingerie, stockings and heels, and Daddy has me bending over the bed with my feet on the floor, legs spread, and there go my feet in their heels slipping! I can’t help but giggle because here I am trying to be serious and follow Daddy’s direction and my feet are having other thoughts in the matter. Daddy will then giggle for a second (cause he just can’t help it either) and then get back into character and say, “Kitten, stay put and stop moving around so Daddy can get at you properly (knowing I can’t and will finally give in). Okay, get up on the bed then. We will continue there.”

Some in the lifestyle may think that is improper or wrong, but it’s our dynamic and I love it. I would not be able to be with someone, nor trust them, if all they were all the time was serious.

Now, don’t get me wrong, there is always a time and place to be funny and playful, but we definitely take our D/s relationship seriously and of course have our serious times too. But thank goodness I found someone who appreciates who I am, all of me, as I do him.