REMEMBER PEOPLE WILL ALWAYS LIKE YOU BETTER IF YOUR NOT WEARING ANY PANTS!!

Tuesday, March 27, 2007

People who cheat. When you are dating as girlfriend and boyfriend it is different then cheating when you are married. When you are married you take a vow not to cheat. And when people try and justify their cheating it is funny to me. How do you justify being a liar and a cheat? If a person can lie to the mother or father of their children, the person closest to them. Then they can easily lie to others.

To me when a person cheats it is proof that they are a liar and a cheat. Straight out proof. Laid out right before your eyes. They might as well wear a sign that says Hi I am a liar and a cheat. I can lie with ease and without caring how it affects the person I am cheating on and have lied to.

If you are married and not happy and meet someone else, it is respectful to say hey look I'm not happy, I met someone else. End the marriage and let the other person who you no longer want to be with go and be happy too. Or you can continue to live with them and sneak around and lie to the person closest to you making both of you unhappy.

I also think it says a lot about the person who you are cheating with. That they can be with someone else's spouse makes them just as bad as the person cheating. It show a major disrespect and lack of morals. I also find it interesting when the people who cheat continue the relationship after the divorce. I wonder if they ever really trust the person. Cuz if they can cheat on their spouse they can just as easily cheat on you.

And how it affects the children. You may think it doesn't hurt the children they don't know what happened. Maybe they don't. But when they get older and find out the truth, it will be bad. Bad for the parent that cheated. There will be anger and the child may cut themselves off from you completely. Because they will find out the truth.

Being a cheater affects all aspects of your life. When I find out someone has cheated it immediately changes my view of that person.

1 comment:

Anonymous
said...

I agree 99%!! except for this one part:

"If you are married and not happy and meet someone else, it is respectful to say hey look I'm not happy, I met someone else. End the marriage and let the other person who you no longer want to be with go and be happy too. "

Because:

I don't think that is respectful. You should say you aren't happy and leave BEFORE you meet someone else. In order to see if that person is worth leaving your spouse for, and whether they feel the same way, you've probably been emotionally leaking all over them already, anyway. Emotional affairs, or being emotionally intimate with another, are worse than just [pardon the expression] sticking it in.