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Emma White The inspiring mum of 6 who dedicates her time to supporting others. While battling with her own demons, she continues to be the voice for others unable to speak out. Her controversial yet heartfelt writing is a lifeline to many. You can follow her on Facebook, Twitter & Instagram.

Unfortunately this is just what families do. My brothers always used to call me and my sister fat, even when we were far from it. If they get a reaction from you, why would they stop? As for your mum, have you ever really sat and had a chat with her and ask her why she feels those comments are appropriate? Maybe it is time to do so.

Your best bet is to go on Google, learn some really good insults, and give as good as you get. So now, if my brother calls me fat I tell him he best learn to love it as he is so ugly he will only ever pull fat girls. If you don’t let it bother you and you come back with something twice as cutting they will back off. Even looking him dead in they eyes and saying ‘and what??’ will leave him stumped! And if he does try to come back with something after that laugh at him and tell him he should look at Google for better insults in the future! Just have some fun with it, honestly.

You will find though that you only ever really start to get on with your family once you move out, so maybe now is he time to look at getting your own place. I moved out at 16 and it was the best thing I ever did.

And remember: No one can make you feel anything you don’t want to feel.

Wow 11399 lbs is no where near fat. N bullying is wrong especially from family members. Im sorry u go thru this. Its wrong. Maybe they r so insecure they have to take u down so they feel better. Its wrong. Please try not to give their words so much worth. They r far from perfect. Please reach out for help n get counseling so u dont hurt urself over mean people. U deserve better. Huge hugs hun. Proud of u for sharing n hope this helps u see how wrong but family is n that its not ur fault!

I also have two older brothers who call me fat and ugly and I used to cut, so i know how you feel. But so many people care about you, I care about you and I know you can get through this. Please do not cut because we all care about you.❤️❤️❤️