Hello and thank you for viewing my profile.Like most of you, it's not easy to describe myself, but I'm going to give it my best shot. :-)

Here are a few words to describe me:Considerate, intelligent, funny, athletic minded, articulate, fun-loving, sensual, romantic, committed, honest, loyal, thoughtful, passionate and always continuing to work on myself to become the best "me" I can be.

Looking for someone who wants to build on each of our strengths...work through our weaknesses...and come out stronger on the other side (together).

What I’m doing with my life

I'm a Legal Services Consultant for Attorneys, doing their research and investigations in order to help prepare their cases. I've been engaged in this line of work for all of my adult life, am very stable financially and love my work immensely. Outside of work, I enjoy living a full, active and fun life.

I’m really good at

I'm really good at a number of activities and love to play sports, especially softball (not quite as good as I used to be) and golf (never was very good, but still enjoy being outdoors). I have an awesome knack for landscaping, am a great listener and problem solver.

Not really good at filling out all of this. :-)

The first things people usually notice about me

The first things people notice about me would be that I'm intelligent and genuinely interested in people. I'm fun-loving and even responsible. I know that seems opposite to be fun loving and responsible, but hey, I am. I'm a balanced guy.

Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food

I love to read, fiction mostly, especially James Patterson and Tom Clancy which feeds my analytical personality. I like to figure out the who, what, when, where and how. It fascinates me and challenges me.I love Italian food, a great steak and love to explore all the great restaurants in New Orleans.I enjoy movies, cuddled up at home or out at the theatre.I enjoy concerts, dances and festivals.And music.... I love rock, some country and love to listen and/or dance to live bands.

The six things I could never do without

1. Friends/Family (interchangeable to me)2. A good book3. Laughter4. Being in LOVE5. Sex (within a loving monogamous relationship of course)6. More of #5, LOL!:~)

I spend a lot of time thinking about

Where I want to travel abroad.Finding the woman that thinks about this:

"Hold on to a guy who calls you beautiful instead of hot,who calls you back when you hang up on him,who will lie with you under the stars and listen to your heartbeat,or will stay awake just to watch you sleep...

Hold on to the guy who kisses your forehead,who wants to show you off to the world when you are in sweats,who holds your hand in front of his friends,who thinks you're just as pretty without makeup on.

One who is constantly reminding you of how much he cares and how lucky he is to have you....The one who turns to his friends and says, 'that's her.'Hold on to that GUY!"

On a typical Friday night I am

No Friday is ever typical. I am open to new experiences and you just never know on a Friday night what's happening in our city. Maybe a movie... dinner... dancing... We would decide together what we would enjoy that particular Friday. Maybe just a glass of wine together and relax in gentle conversation.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit

That a professional like me is on a Site like this. LOL!

Probably a few more that we can learn about together.

You should message me if

All kidding aside, I am looking for my exceptional Mate/Match.Looking for someone who wants to build on each of our strengths...work through our weaknesses...and come out stronger on the other side (together).

If you are exceptional and a balanced, normal, kind woman, I'd welcome hearing from you.If not, I wish you well, but we are not a match.