I don't know how crafty she is but you could do a Pinterest party. We did that for my cousin and she picked a theme and we found a bunch of cool stuff to make on Pinterest. We printed the pages and bought the craft stuff for them to pick what they wanted to do. I mean they had to pick from what we had but they still felt like they got to do personalized stuff.

And Pinterest has some cool stuff that is cool/pretty while not being overly kiddy.

With coupons from online for craft stores it ended up being pretty cheap.

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Thank you Vivien and Angel Chicken for the siggy! Also I have been frosted!!! And as of 9/13/07 I know the secret handshake!

If she likes sushi, there are sushi dragon rolls made to look like Asian dragons using avocado for scales. That could be a good appetizer.

For favors, since you have time to start looking you might gather together some Beanie Baby dragons from Ebay and stuff when affordable ones pop up. They're super cute but not totally childish. My college roommate had a bunch of them on her computer monitor.

Lol I actually have the one on the bottom lol, I love dragons (as any of you can see from the eggs in my siggy at any given time) hope the party goes well, it's so exciting for you guys to be back in contact

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Checking out Pinterest too. Thanks. I am running them by my daughter as you guys are giving them to me. We are thinking we have the food down. For the meal it will be authentic viking foods. For the drinks and finger food she wants something that would be from fantasy type thing so fancy for an Elven like twist. And the cake she wants to look like a dragon. Preferablely Saphira from the movie Eragon.