The right kind of support makes people independentProjection When I provide help and support to others sometimes I find that they become dependent on me They continue to expect the same kind of support that they had got from me before when I am not in a position to give Then my good gesture becomes a bondage or difficulty for meSolution When I am providing help to someone I need to check the kind of help that I am providing True help is to provide assistance in such a way that slowly the person learns to rely on his own resources and becomes independent Then there will be no expectations from me

Support When in our darkest moment we need support whether a kind word a pat on the shoulder in whatever form that support came we are craving for it Arjuna in his darkest moment needed support and he received that support from none other than Shri Krsna Himself Shri Krsna removed the veil from Arjuna by supporting him as devotees of Shri Krsna we have with us the Gita for our support

What goes on in mind decides who you areIf we are afraid of the unknown or at least uncomfortable with it then we prefer the present state of mind within and world outside as it isEven our meditation is such that does not change the mind a bit and we fear the people who are trying to change the world for better or worseOn the other side of the fence are little more courgeous people who keep struggling all the time to change the outside world in many good or bad ways and also some who struggle within to make their inner mind different from what it currently isTo me the people who go for change are more in tune with nature as it too is dynamic unlike the person who retiers from government service as well from life and settles with status quo on all fronts

Youth for Peaceis a nonprofit organization based in Delhi evolving above a deeprooted cause the very motive of saving the land of our planet from being entirely degraded ennoble the lifestyle of the rural people and nurture environment the same way it did selflesslyIn times when deforestation has led to global warming acid rain and the greenhouse effect planting trees has become an issue we have to address Earth without forests is a picture that most of humankind presently could not conceive Deforestation is affecting our environment and the way our earth appears At least eighty percent of our forests have been destroyed Our rain forests are disappearing It has been estimated that in the last two years around 728 km of forest roughly half the size of Delhi have been wiped out clear Such surveys might not have moved the masses but definitely stirred the founders of this nonprofit organization The NGO working for environment in Delhi looks forward to cover the most rugged regions of the national capital region of the country planting saplings and nurture them till they form into a tree Alongside the embedding of greenery around us the team also concerns its fidelity to help the poor especially in rural India and feels obliged to work for the elevation of the underprivileged Emerging with an aspiring target to make our country greener Youth Services for Peaceworks for the povertystricken people in the rural areas empowers them with jobs and better working conditions by creating a wellsufficed consonant plantation environmentThe foundation aims to reach to the most remote and yonder villages of India and replenish the life of the rural poorWe believe in urban plantation specifically organic greens and garden vegetation The foundation has already started its workin the most impregnable regions of Delhi where the plantation seemed impossible The process of our transcendence towards our ultimate aim is composed of several plantation drives majorly involving the school students We start by creating the plantation environment around their schools and localities and then traverse through other regions of Delhi We at Youth Services for Peace engrave in ourselves a mission highly propitious and visionary We committed ourselves towards a task which the world has shown its back Each one of us believe that even today there are people out there who feel for their sobbing planet With a vision in our eyes and determination in our hearts we have stood to make our planet green and sustainable once again The organization has blindly pledged to work for the welfare of our mother Earth In its lucrative process it supports rural livelihoods and generates environmental awareness among the people across the country

Our career is as important as our personal life It is what carves our identity in the world and also helps to fuel the engine of our domestic lifelearn which careers suit you the most as per your zodiac sign The perfect Aries job Aries are known for being enthusiastic and competitive leaders Therefore jobs in the military government politics entrepreneurship athletics management and advertising would prove to be as audacious as them The perfect Taurus job Taureans are known for a few things one of which is for being good with their hands This might lend them towards jobs such as massage therapist chef florist or even painting and sculpting if they are artistically inclined They also tend to enjoy the finer things in life so other good jobs for them are as stock broker jeweller business executive and real estate agent The perfect Gemini job Gemini is the sign of the twins and they generally have the energy of two people They like to be kept busy and don39t like to be bored They like jobs that are interesting and exciting and many of them enjoy travel too Here are some of the varying choices that might spark the interest of the fickle Gemini stockbrokering advertising entertainment radio marketing tech support teaching or architecture The perfect Cancer job Those born as Cancerians tend to be very caring and nurturing of people and things This makes them the perfect fit for a career as teacher healthcare provider gardener landscaper social worker or nanny The perfect Leo job Leos are very independent individuals who like to be in control They like to be the centre of attention and crave power Jobs that are a good fit for Leos are as CEO tour guide manager event planner entrepreneur real estate performerentertainer and salesperson The perfect Virgo job Those born under the sign of Virgo are very detailoriented and organised perfectionists They usually like things to be tidy and neat and in their proper place This actually leaves quite a range of jobs to choose from for them They can be librarians manicurists mechanics architects editorswriters doctors scientists researchers or executives The perfect Libra job Librans are very charming and are good at negotiating and communicating which makes them natural lawyers If that doesn39t suit you other good careers for a Libra are professor writingjournalism marketing advertising sales or travel agent The perfect Scorpio job Those born under the sign of Scorpio tend to be very intense people who can think strategically and intuitively They do well in jobs that require a lot of concentration such as doctors negotiators lawyers detectives scientists physicists or law enforcement officials The perfect Sagittarius job Sagittarians are high energy spiritual people who like the outdoors and like to travel They tend to like both animals and people Here are some good careers for the easy going Sag teacher travel agent writereditor actor spiritual leader coach animal trainer and public relations The perfect Capricorn job Capricorns tend to be very ambitious in their careers and that is why they also tend to be the most successful too They are very responsible and determined and will do what it takes to get the job done Good choices for a Capri are IT scientist manager banker editor entrepreneur and administration The perfect Aquarius job Aquarians are good at managing a lot of things They also like the technical and scientific stuff This of course means that they are perfect scientists Other jobs that suit an Aquarian are inventor designer organic farmer aviator anything with computers political strategist or politician The perfect Pisces job Pisceans tend to be creative passionate and compassionate people They flock to two major career fields healthcare and the arts Here are some good career choices for a Pisces artist nurse or doctor physical therapist veterinarian astrology writer graphic arts film or hair stylist

In early sixteenth century Guru Nanak Dev the founder of Sikh religion observed the pathetic condition of women in the society Guru Nanak comdemned the attitude of maledominated human society denying the due respectable status to the women HE strongly advocated for a respectable status of women in the society bhandd janmeeai bhandd ninmeeai bhandd mangan veeaahu From woman man is born within woman man is conceived to woman he is engaged and married bhanddahu hovai dhosathee bhanddahu chalai raahu Woman becomes his friend through woman the future generations come bhandd muaa bhandd bhaaleeai bhandd hovai bandhhaan When his woman dies he seeks another woman to woman he is bound so kio mandhaa aakheeai jith janmehi raajaan So why call her bad From her kings are born bhanddahu hee bhandd oopajai bhanddai baajh n koe From woman woman is born without woman there would be no one at all But the yoke of inferior status accepted by women in the society since the primitive stages of development of human beings is still continuing The human evolution from its savage state to the present state is a story of long toilsome journey spread over period of thousands of years The human beings hardly distinguish from brutes in stone age passed through various stages of primitive races tribal wars racial complexes slavery etc The dominating principal at all the times remained THE MIGHT IS RIGHT which is still shadowing the human race Half of the race consists of women who are physically weaker than men and have been the victims of exploitation within the states communities and even families Most of the time men considered women the possessions which could be snatched sold exchanged and even staked in the dice contests The great epic MAHABHARATA reveals the plight of women during those days DRAUPADI the wife of Pandvas was lost to Kaurvas in the dice contest and was subjected to humiliation in front of her husbands and others in the darbar of Kauravas The story of Gandhari in the same epic clearly depicts the acceptance of women their inferior status to men in the society The king of Gandhar whose kingdom extended from Kabul to river Sindhu married his daughter Gandhari to a blind king DHRITRASHTRA to gain powerful alliance Gandhari obeyed her father but blind folded herself for the whole of her life to renounce the advantage which her husband lacked The cruel custom of SATI had the support of religion in India and continued till the 19th Century As per the SATI custom the woman whose husband dies before her was burnt alive on the pyre of her husband The inhumane treatment of women in Iran was exposed in a report prepared by the British Parliamentary Human Rights Group Steep penalties ranging from lashing to stoning to death await Iranian women found guilty of adultery or exposing themselves in public Some women are reportedly raped prior to being executed while even pregnant women are not spared from severe punishment The statistics available on the status of women confirms the deplorable condition of women all over the world It is said that women have not achieved equality with men in any country Of the world39s 13 billion poor people it is estimated that nearly 70 per cent are women Between 75 and 80 per cent of the world39s 27 million refugees are women and children Various laws are being enacted to protect the weaker sections of the society But the women representation in the law making legislature is too little to press for due justice The women representation in the world parliaments is only about 17 India has less than 10 women members in the parliament In a list of 135 countries India gets places at 105th position With such weak representation of women in legislature to genderfree thought under the pressure of ruling political party s programmes there is little scope of indepth understanding of the statusproblems of women in the society Whatever little results in the shape of laws are coming from the legislature they fail to give the expected results because of mistakes in making interpreting and implementing the laws There has never been any possibility of a foolproof system The influence of political monetary and majority strengths can not be ruled out Moreover the laws take birth from the necessities of the societies and are therefore always behind the requirements of the societies The gender discrimination is deeprooted in India The daughters are considered a burden and are killed before birth in many cases The society measure a woman39s value as a bride by the size of her dowry not necessarily by her character and integrity When a daughter is born not only the relatives but the parents themselves feel condoled than congratulated This has pushed up the ratio of male children to an alarming level of over 10 Dowry crimes are increasing day by day During the year 2007 the police registered more than 8000 cases of dowry crimes which come to an average of 22 cases per day The law against dowry crimes is however misused also Since a single instance of such misuse forces investigating agencies to examine the cases from this angle with due weightageimportance or power to influence or persuade the process of justice is affected adversely Former IPS officer NK Singhal collected details from Delhi Haryana Mumbai and Bangalore regarding cases under IPC 498A of 1983 and 304B of 1986 In spite of suitable laws the dominating male members in the families watch their selfish interests and misuse the laws in their favour This jeopardises the implementation of the laws and damages the causes of women in the long run The contribution of Kalpana Chawla Indira Gandhi Kiran Bedi Mother Teresa Sumita Williams Pratibha Patil India39s first woman president and many others appear having not affected the status of women in India They are still deprived of their rights in favour of their brothers although the law exists for equal rights of sons and daughters to inherit the property of their parents Except in some rare case the girls forfeit their right in favour of their brothers In case of doubt on the consent of the girl to forfeit her right the property if transferred to the sons under some sale deeds etc The most tragicpathetic conditions that are faced by female children are in case of death of their father and second marriage of mother Exceptions are always there where the stepfather take care for the proper development of such girls and ensure that they are not deprived of their rights to the property of their parents But in most cases the situation is just otherwise Some cases reported in the newspapers bring out terribly inhuman treatment being meted out to such semiorphan children Continuous mental and in some cases physical torture and the feeling of being at the mercy of somebody causes deep rooted inferiority complex in them to such an extent that they lose the courage to even protest against their humiliation at the hands of their younger stepbrothers and sisters Their necks get bent to receive the yoke of inferior beings in the family of a stepfather where the possibility of a right or rightful place is totally ruled out The shadow of their inferior status in stepfather s family continues to haunt such unfortunate girls even after their marriage when the family of their inlaws is also mistreated and subjected to humiliation apart from expecting the married girl to compensate them for her upbringing In the case of a stepmother the father gets married after the death of the firstwife the condition of the female child is even more miserable because daytoday care of the child is at the mercy of the stepmother The plight of women in India is revealed by the statistics provided by the Honourable Union Home Minister while answering a written question in the Upper House of Parliament on 22nd October 2008 The Honourable Minister gave details of the cases registered by the Police in India during the year 2007 regarding atrocities on women On an average each day 57 cases of rape 22 cases of dowry crimes and 30 crimes of sexual exploitation were registered by the Police These figures speak only of those cases which were registered In most cases the victims are reluctant to speak or go to the Police because of social stigma family pressure and shoddy investigations A simple page of a newspaper carries the following four news articles which supports the aforestated plight of women News Headings in the Newspapers are as under A pregnant beloved kept in cave for 3 months A girl burnt alive after rape in Orissa After suicide of wife a father continued raping his 14 year old stepdaughter for a year A minor girl raped by a man in Patiala In most cases especially the unreported cases the crime on girls is committed by family friends near relatives neighbours etc against whom either the girls are not able to speak or they are forced by the family to keep quiet As per one of the surveys population of female children up to six years of age was less than the male children of the same age by over 10 in 122 districts of India The total population of girls in India was found less than boys by about 5 million This is bound to shake the peaceful family systems in the society when by 2020 millions of eligible males will not be able to get a life partner This seems to be a BITTER PILL being applied by the MIGHTY NATURE to cure India of its centuries old disease of denying due status to women This may consequently solve the problem of population swell and unemployment also Let us see if India can find some solution before the mighty nature takes over the task

Quote 1 Before you start some work always ask yourself three questions Why am I doing it What the results might be and Will I be successful Only when you think deeply and find satisfactory answers to these questions go aheadIn Hindi Chanakya Quote 2 A man is born alone and dies alone and he experiences the good and bad consequences of his karma alone and he goes alone to hell or the Supreme abodeIn Hindi Chanakya Quote 3 God is not present in idols Your feelings are your god The soul is your templeIn Hindi Chanakya Quote 4 Even if a snake is not poisonous it should pretend to be venomous In Hindi Chanakya Quote 5 Do not reveal what you have thought upon doing but by wise council keep it secret being determined to carry it into executionIn Hindi Chanakya Quote 6Education is the best friend An educated person is respected everywhere Education beats the beauty and the youthIn Hindi Chanakya Quote 7 As soon as the fear approaches near attack and destroy itIn Hindi Chanakya Quote 8 Books are as useful to a stupid person as a mirror is useful to a blind personIn Hindi Chanakya Quote 9 As long as your body is healthy and under control and death is distant try to save your soul when death is immanent what can you doIn Hindi Chanakya Quote 10 A man is great by deeds not by birthIn Hindi Chanakya Quote 11 The serpent the king the tiger the stinging wasp the small child the dog owned by other people and the fool these seven ought not to be awakened from sleepIn Hindi Chanakya Quote 12 As a single withered tree if set aflame causes a whole forest to burn so does a rascal son destroy a whole familyIn Hindi Chanakya Quote 13 The biggest gurumantra is never share your secrets with anybody It will destroy youIn Hindi Chanakya Quote 14 Treat your kid like a darling for the first five years For the next five years scold them By the time they turn sixteen treat them like a friend Your grown up children are your best friendsIn Hindi Chanakya Quote 15 The fragrance of flowers spreads only in the direction of the wind But the goodness of a person spreads in all directionIn Hindi Chanakya Quote 16 The world s biggest power is the youth and beauty of a womanIn Hindi Chanakya Quote 17 We should not fret for what is past nor should we be anxious about the future men of discernment deal only with the present momentIn Hindi Chanakya Quote 18There is some selfinterest behind every friendship There is no friendship without selfinterests This is a bitter truthIn Hindi Chanakya Quote 19 Whores don t live in company of poor men citizens never support a weak company and birds don t build nests on a tree that doesn t bear fruitsIn Hindi Chanakya Quote 20 There is poison in the fang of the serpent in the mouth of the fly and in the sting of a scorpion but the wicked man is saturated with itIn Hindi Chanakya Quote 21 He who is overly attached to his family members experiences fear and sorrow for the root of all grief is attachment Thus one should discard attachment to be happyIn Hindi Chanakya Quote 22 He who lives in our mind is near though he may actually be far away but he who is not in our heart is far though he may really be nearbyIn Hindi Chanakya Quote 23 It is better to die than to preserve this life by incurring disgrace The loss of life causes but a moment s grief but disgrace brings grief every day of one s lifeIn Hindi Chanakya Quote 24 Never make friends with people who are above or below you in status Such friendships will never give you any happinessIn Hindi Chanakya Quote 25 Once you start a working on something don t be afraid of failure and don t abandon it People who work sincerely are the happiestIn Hindi Chanakya Quote 26 Test a servant while in the discharge of his duty a relative in difficulty a friend in adversity and a wife in misfortuneIn Hindi Chanakya Quote 27 There is no austerity equal to a balanced mind and there is no happiness equal to contentment there is no disease like covetousness and no virtue like mercyIn Hindi Chanakya Quote 28 If one has a good disposition what other virtue is needed If a man has fame what is the value of other ornamentationIn Hindi Chanakya Quote 29 O wise man Give your wealth only to the worthy and never to others The water of the sea received by the clouds is always sweetIn Hindi Chanakya Quote 30 The earth is supported by the power of truth it is the power of truth that makes the sun shine and the winds blow indeed all things rest upon truthIn Hindi Chanakya Quote 31 One whose knowledge is confined to books and whose wealth is in the possession of others can use neither his knowledge nor wealth when the need for them arisesIn Hindi Chanakya Quote 32 The happiness and peace attained by those satisfied by the nectar of spiritual tranquility is not attained by greedy persons restlessly moving here and thereIn Hindi Chanakya Quote 33 The life of an uneducated man is as useless as the tail of a dog which neither covers its rear end nor protects it from the bites of insectsIn Hindi Chanakya Quote 34 The one excellent thing that can be learned from a lion is that whatever a man intends doing should be done by him with a wholehearted and strenuous effortIn Hindi Chanakya Quote 35 The wise man should restrain his senses like the crane and accomplish his purpose with due knowledge of his place time and abilityIn Hindi Chanakya Quote 36 Purity of speech of the mind of the senses and of a compassionate heart are needed by one who desires to rise to the divine platformIn Hindi Chanakya

SELF SUPPORT is the best way of living The message is very clear and good for every body Extend the message to all the spheres of life and try to have self support in every sphere of life No doubt this phrase is commonly used for financial self support but can be extended to other aspects of life as well For spiritual growth one needs a supportguidanceblessings at initial stages but ultimately one has to become SELF SUPPORTING to move on his ownThus one hindi song also says ONE HAS TO MOVE ALONE NO OTHERS AND MEANS CAN HELP ON THIS PATH All the best

More than seeing this poster going viral what irked me more was the number of likes and supportive comments that it received Just the morning after I celebrated my 26th birthday I saw a photograph on my Facebook timeline that said 90 Mamlon mein yahi kaaran hai Jo Beti Apne Peehar Ke Sampark Mein Zyada Rehti Hai Aur Peehar Ka Moh Rakhti Hai Vah Apne Sasural Mein Sukhi Nahi Rah Sakti English translation In 90 of the cases the problem is The daughter who continues to stay in touch with her parents even after her marriage or who doesn t cut chords with her family shall never be happy in her inlaws home Before I could even disregard this rubbish piece being propagated and move on to see something worth looking at on my timeline I got a glimpse of some comments over this photo which read 1 100 true or else why would God make this tradition of wife moving away from her parents and not the other way round 2 Beti to Nadan hai Maa Baap ko Galat Siksha se dur rakhna chahiye Sasural mein zyada ghul mil kar rahna chahiye And you ll be surprised to know that these comments were posted by women To both these women and to the 22k people who liked this photo and over 187 k people who shared this photo First of all God didn t make this tradition it s the society that enforced rules which seemed fit to them Secondly Maa Baap parents that of the girl or the boy should insist on their kids to equally love and respect both the families It s ironic because we are born in a country where Sita had the right to choose her own life partner through a Swayamvar I m sure her parents or her love for them wasn t the reason for all the pain that she endured throughout her life And Draupadi who willingly accepted her 5 husbands who eventually mortgaged her dignity for a silly game and got her dignity shred into pieces in front of her inlaws who didn t even try saving her Being a 27yrold unmarried girl surrounded by a family todiefor and friends tokillfor I would rather wait for a man who would not ask me to choose between my parents and his and would in fact love my parents just like would do his I outrightly call the maker of this poster a shit because I refuse to cut my chords with my mother who selflessly bore me inside of her for up to 9 months and my father who tirelessly worked round the clock to give me the strength and education to face the world and my sibling who stood there shielding me at the drop of the hat And would continue to seek their love and advice to help me support and adjust to my new life my new parents and my husband I refuse to let go of my love and respect for them I would not be biased to my parents and that of my husband s I would rather be blessed to have two sets of parents with double the love and blessings with more siblings to love and fight with If I have to wait too long to find a man and a family who accept me on this condition then it s not me but the society at fault who had failed to raise a son with these basic values And if things like this poster go viral then it clearly shows what s wrong with the society Instead of spreading such malignity within society we should rather ensure teaching both men and women about the moral value of their sacred bond To love and respecting each other s parents and family with equality

Support system is a must in life Actually without a support we are nothing But the conclusion here is that the support system has to be true and realTrue from heart and soul for the personSometimes we are so dependent on the other person that we feel that he or she is actually our support system But when we look at the situation we shall find that our real support system is meIt is only us who can fight with every situation with our own positive attitude and energyThere is no one else who can help us in any matter irrespective of our own wish and will to fight backActually we are our biggest and strongest life partnerWorld people or our own loved ones can let us down Sometimes even our loved ones have word of criticism for us In all this situation if we let our own support system stong surely we could fight for our rights It is good to recognize our own inner strength and to be our own support systemBlog byDr Jaya Kumar

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SUPPORT A WEAKER SOUL All living beings consist of a body and a soul Body is visible whereas soul is not Body is run by the senses provided for its functioning Body is subject to pain sorrows sufferings pleasures and happiness Soul is independent It is beyond all feelings Souls may be termed as weaker ones or stronger ones Those beings that are governed more by the body are weaker in nature as compared to those who are governed by their souls The soul characteristics are the qualities one acquires over many lives These characteristics stay connected with soul through subconscious mind Soul may have both positive and negative characteristics For instance the positive aspect of soul is that one is brave selfless and positive The negative aspects which arise from physical mind may be ego stubbornness and negative thinking Qualities move with soul to next incarnation Existence of jives in the universe is composite in nature One affects another Nature is living thing but it is neutral Human beings have the ability to change the course of nature Negativity or drawback of any section will affect the universe Human souls should remain in balance with nature in all regions of earth However cycle of life on earth is such that sometimes good is more widespread and negativity is contained or vice versa At some point or region negativity becomes too overwhelming creating imbalance of nature It causes various natural calamities like flood earthquacks volcanic eruptions tidal waves fires and so on It also causes man made calamities like materialproperty destruction killing of masses diseases and so on It is necessary that negative weaker souls must be supported and helped to become positive by stronger souls Human form is having most developed brain than the other creatures Human soul is intelligent that is why God gave man free will to make choices between negative or positive energy To bring harmony and equilibrium in crowd of living beings the stronger ones must exercise sympathy and give support to all other living beings The following aspects will make characteristic improvement in weaker soul and maintain balance of nature on earth a Learn to live in presence of God God does not have to prove himself to living beings If one has faith he gets proof of presence of God in some form or the other Soul will become stronger by practicing the presence of God Joy lies in being constant touch with Him In this world of delusion the mind often wanders away Bring back your consciousness to existing presence of God Bhagavad Gita teaches if you think of God while you perform your duties in this world you will become mentally connected with Him b Love AllLearn to love all It is easy to forget own faults and difficult to forget fault of others To commit errors is usual One must learn to forgive and forget In a day you might have hurt feelings of numerous knowingly or unknowingly You may not able to apologise directly as you may not be aware of who are hurt by your comments or action At the end of each day taking God as a mediator ask pardon for your guilt from all c Avoid Criticising OthersOne should learn to avoid criticising Try to understand problem of others There are many sick people in body or mind around us If possible help them in any form considering them as close as your own relative At least to sympathise speak to them sweet words of love d Follow Path of Ahimsa Mahatma Gandhi emphasised on AHIMSA or nonviolence The desire to hurt any other living being in any way to whatever degree alienates us from our soul reality This also affirms our ego due to strength of physical and mental power It is but impossible to live altogether harmlessly in this world of relativities Some harm is done merely by surviving and living in this world For example with every inhalation lots of germs are killed and with each step that we take on this earth might be causing death of lots of insects Survival cannot be considered sinful Nature herself decrees survival of life by non survival of some other form of life After all vegetables are also life form Moreover wild or domestic birdanimal39s survival mostly depends upon killing of some life forms to make as a food intakeThe essential rule of Ahimsa is to have non violent attitude Bhagavad Gita declares that lesser harm may be inflicted to forestall a greater harm In general attitude of wishing no harm to living creature is necessary One may have relaxed acceptance of others and of life e Be Humble and SelflessHumility should be a part of one39s thought No point appearing humble but thoughts being full of pride and of superiority Ego is selfish One should try to remain as far from it as possibleIf someone is thirsty a thoughtful person would offer him a drink Consideration of others is most wonderful quality to uplift a weaker soul Everyone needs a period of aloneness Solitude is necessary in order to become stronger and cope up increasing pressures of life As far as possible do not encroach upon one another s independenceFriendship is noble fruitful and holy Two separate souls may march in difference yet live in harmony and love Help your friends by being a mental aesthetic and spiritual inspiration to them f Death is not the End of LifeDeath is culmination of physical life but soul stays in universe Soul is a wave of energy that changes physical form with every incarnation It is indestructible Those in physical life form must understand this fully and spread this knowledge It will help ignorant to come out of material delusion and make their soul stronger g Prayer Concentration and MeditationThe most powerful prayer is the prayer for the spiritual growth of another individual Plunge into inner silence again and again by practicing methods of concentration and meditation Soul will progressively be stronger You will find great peace and happiness h Self analysis and Self correctionList all possible negative soul characteristics that human being can have Go through this list with open mind Tick whatever quality applies to you You must tick qualities manifested on a particular day Analyse yourself with gentle and receptive mind Look at your own soul so that whatever is negative may be dissolved Process is long and difficult at first but will eventually lead to your healing

In my deepest darkest moments what really got me through was a prayer Sometimes my prayer was 39Help me39 Sometimes a prayer was 39Thank you39 What I39ve discovered is that intimate connection and communication with my creator will always get me through because I know my support my help is just a prayer away

When you can t work full time you work parttime That is okay because you are the one who has to make both ends meet So you have every right to decide as to how you want to do it You have your priorities So you decide how much money you need to run your life how much time you want to put in to earn that money and how you earn itBut that is not okay with friends There are people who will show and stick around when the going is good and vanish into thin air the moment your bad days begin They are called fairweather friends When you are in high spirits you don t really need anybody s company or support Therefore there is no need for themIt is when you fall into bad days that you need the help and support of your friends And that is the time they are not around So what is the use of having them in your lifeIf you have such friends it is time to tell them Sorry but I don t need any parttime people in my life You are either with me or you are not You can t just come and go as you please The sooner you discard such parttime people from your life the better Life is so much better without them