By jeff brown

​People often ask me if I'm "Red Pill", and this is how I answer...

I have no hatred/disrespect for women. I love women. Women are magnificent creatures. I've spent my entire life studying them. Why should I, or anyone, blame them for aspects that are out of their control. That doesn't make much sense does it?

I teach how to maintain a woman's interest indefinitely. Therefore, marriage? No problem. There's a lot more to understanding women than just sexual strategy. Sex is great! It's just a natural byproduct of two consenting individuals with genuine interest.

Red Pill aspects I most agree with:

Focusing on self-improvement (mentally and physically)

Focusing on self control ("frame control")

Understanding that a woman's actions often contradict her words ("hamstering")

So, if "Red Pill" means simply that most people don't understand human mating behavior and neurophysiology, then absolutely- I'm Red Pill. But if it means juvenile misogyny and disrespect towards women- no way.

ALPHA – Socially dominant. Somebody who displays high value, or traits that are sexually attractive to women. Alpha can refer to a man who exhibits alpha behaviors (more alpha tendencies than beta), but usually used to describe individual behaviors themselves.

​ALPHA WIDOW - A woman (typically but not necessarily post-wall) who has been abandoned by an Alpha male. No matter how great her new man is, she will perceive him as failing to meet the standard of the alpha she was previously associated with. Due to hypergamy, a woman cannot date backwards, once she gets say, a male 8, she cannot date below a male 8 and be happy with him. If she does, she is just using said man for resources (BB) and doesn't really love him. Essentially, a damaged woman accustomed to a tier of man she can no longer attract. See "Post-wall" and "Hypergamy."MY RESPONSE:
Incorrect. The first part of this is just referring to a woman’s response to being dumped and rejection – “rebounding.” The second part is assuming that women only respond to physical attractiveness level, which simply isn’t true. It is and always will be more about the mental strength qualities (see above) with physical attraction just being a baseline requirement.

AF/BB - Alpha Fucks/Beta Bucks.

MY RESPONSE:

Mixed. It is more situational/relative. I say Alpha Fucks/Alpha Bucks. Beta’s do more of just the Bucking.

AWALT - All Women Are Like That. Often expressed after an example of hypergamy.

MY RESPONSE:

Mixed. If referring to the fact that all women react to the same dating/relationship stimulus the same way, due to their deep down wiring, via the limbic system or “reptilian brain,” then yes.

Beta – Traits of provision: either providing resources or validation to others, women (and perhaps men). Beta traits display low value to women if they are put on too strong or too early in meeting- giving without equity. Beta can be used to describe individual behaviors, as well as people who have an overwhelming amount of beta properties (opposed to alpha).

MY RESPONSE:

Correct. More specifically, the more guys lack the inner strength qualities, the more towards the Beta side of the spectrum they would be.

Blue Pill – From The Matrix and its sequels. The path of conformity with Society’s expectations; the state of being unaware of the problems engendered by society. Compare with “Red Pill,” below.

MY RESPONSE:

Correct.

CC, or Cock Carousel – The period of time in a woman's life where she successfully exploits her sexual value and maximizes her hypergamous tendencies by having sex with as many alphas as possible. Usually happens between ages 18 - 27. Often ends when the woman hits the wall.MY RESPONSE:

Mixed. Both women and men are more active and explorative sexually during this time period. Women are drawn to alpha males regardless of whether they are 13, 33, 53, 73, or 93.

Close - The apex of an interaction. Often preceded by an indication of the type of close, eg. f-close (full close or fuck close, the interaction led to sex), k-close (kiss), #close (receiving phone #).MY RESPONSE:

Correct.

Comfort Test - Similar to a Shit Test, but meant to gauge your level of Beta traits. Typically only encountered in LTRs. While not discussed as often as shit tests, a successful LTR requires that you pass these as well.MY RESPONSE:

Mixed. Composure is the most important strength quality to display during LTR.

Covert Contract - An unspoken deal with terms the other party would never agree to. Most typically seen by orbiters trying to negotiate desire: "If I do a favor for her, she'll go out with me."

DHV – Display of Higher Value, the accomplishment, anything that improves your sexual market value in the eyes of another.

MY RESPONSE:

Correct. See again, strength qualities.

DLV - Display of lower value.MY RESPONSE:

Correct. Lack of strength qualities.

DQ - Disqualification. Used by women as an IOD. Used by PUAs as a method of disarming ASD by appearing to be disinterested.MY RESPONSE:

Correct. But it is just one form of the strength quality, “challenge.”

Dread Game - Purposefully inciting jealousy in an LTR by openly getting attention from other women. Soft Dread is similar, but less open. With Soft Dread, the attention doesn't even need to be real. Creating the possibility for female attention is enough to get the hamster going. (If you develop a great body, she knows that other women will find that attractive without having to actually see other women displaying interest.) The purpose of using Dread is to get the target (wife, girlfriend, plate) to step up their game to compete with other interested women.

MY RESPONSE:

Correct. Again, just another form of challenge.
​Feminism – ”A doctrine built on the pre-supposition of victimhood of women by men as a foundation of female identity. In its goals is always the utilization of the state to forcibly redress this claimed victimization. In other words, the proxy use of violence and wealth appropriation. In whatever flavor, and variation, these two basic features are common to every doctrine using the label feminism. Feminism is therefore, a doctrine of class hatred, and violence.” (John The Other, “Why not date a feminist?” A Voice For Men, 4 June 2012.)

MY RESPONSE:

Mixed. Agreed that at one end of the spectrum it is a problem, just as misogyny is a problem at the other end of the spectrum.

FR - Field Report.MY RESPONSE:

Correct. I am a big fan as it gives data.

Frame - The context in which something is perceived. Maintaining frame is often cited as the most important aspect of Alpha behavior. MY RESPONSE:

Correct. I believe it's how well you exhibit the 7 inner strength qualities.

Gaslighting - A form of mental abuse in which false information is presented with the intent of making victims doubt their own memory, perception, and sanity.

MY RESPONSE:

Mixed. Sounds warped though.

Hamster - Used to describe the way that women use rationalization to resolve mental conflict and avoid cognitive dissonance. The core mechanism that allows women to say one thing and do a different thing.MY RESPONSE:

Mixed. If this describes the disconnect between a woman’s conscious mind (reason) and her subconscious (feelings), then yes, absolutely.

Hypergamy – The instinctual urge for women to seek out the best alpha available. This is marked by maximizing rejection (therefore women are the selective gender). A woman will vet her alpha through various shit tests to ensure his "health" on the alpha scale. She is conditioned to recognize a declining alpha, as hypergamy also tends to continue seeking out higher status males even while with an alpha male. Shit tests allow her to prepare herself for eventually leaving when a new higher status male is found. If the male fails shit tests to a great enough degree, it will effect her feelings for him. He will effectively lower his sexual market value in her eyes. This will enable her to jump to the next male with ease and little remorse.MY RESPONSE:

Mixed. Women are definitely the selective gender. Women gauge a man’s Alpha qualities via intentional and unintentional tests, yes. In regards to seeking out other Alphas, it’s partially true. Hypergamy seems to be referencing a woman’s interest. Therefore, she only seeks out other males when her interest is low, and only leaves when her interest is lowered to the point of no return, because women are nesters. I think we’re close on this one. See again strength qualities.

Kino (Kino Escalation) - "Kino" means touching. Kino escalation is the process of ramping up the touching from light touching to heavy (though still not entirely sexual).

​MY RESPONSE:

Mixed. In regards to what Kino is, yes. In regards to the effectiveness of Kino, mixed.

Monk Mode - Mitigating distractions and focusing on introspection, reflection and self-improvement for a given period of time. Working on the body and mind. MY RESPONSE:

I’m a huge fan of self-improvement. So sounds good to me.

Oneitis - When a guy has fallen in love with a woman in the same way a boy loves his mother. He obsesses about her, but she does not reciprocate.MY RESPONSE:

Incorrect. I was right with you on this one until the thing about the mother. It’s simply about pining for the same girl for a long period of time without doing anything or being dismissed as a mate.

Orbiter - Also known as Beta Orbiter. A beta guy who accepted the proposal to "just be friends" from a girl he has oneitis for. He will stick around her and constantly validate her whenever she requests it. Also known as "friendzone." She will keep him around because he will do anything for her and provide validation, giving small hints that he might eventually win her love- but he never will. Typical signs of orbiter status: likes and comments on new facebook photos. Go-to guy when girl has problem with boyfriend. Also known as emotional tampon.MY RESPONSE:

Correct.

Post-wall - A woman past her peak beauty/fertility. Depending on genetics, this can be a woman as young as 25 or as old as 40. Generally speaking, it is agreed most women hit the wall around 30. Women tend to become desperate to settle down around age 28/29, realizing they have limited time to secure a quality mate as their beauty diminishes. See "The Wall."MY RESPONSE:

Correct. Basically referring to a woman’s biological clock.

Preselection - The idea that women are more attracted to men who already have the interest of other women. This saves the woman time in judging a man by using the idea that other women have already judged him favorably.MY RESPONSE:

Mixed. Blue pill beliefs are a problem, so I congratulate you on realizing something is awry. We are very similar in our mating habits to other animals. Men and women are definitely wired differently. The idea of women being attracted to Dark Triad traits is just them being attracted to the darker side of strength qualities.

SMV – Sexual Market Value. A shorthand statement for “what you bring to the table,” whether for an one-night stand or for a longer sexual/emotional relationship.

​MY RESPONSE:

Correct.

SMP - Sexual Market Place. A description of the free market that is mating.

MY RESPONSE:

Correct.

Snowflake - A woman who tries to persuade a man that she’s somehow unique, different, or special by playing up her good girl resume and downplaying her bad girl resume. When used as a verb, snowflaking refers to the argument she puts forth to justify her claim.MY RESPONSE:

Mixed. Would apply to men as well in the same situation.

Solipsism - In Red Pill, solipsism (e.g. female solipsism) refers to the female's tendency to frame everything she experiences or witnesses in terms of herself and her own needs - personalizing it **- even when such personalization would not make contextual sense.MY RESPONSE:

Mixed. How do men view this concept differently?

The Wall - The point in a woman's life where her ego and self-assessed view of her sexual market value exceed her actual sexual market value; the beginning of the decline. Usually occurs as a wake-up shock to women when they realize that their power over men was temporary and that their looks are fading. This usually results with first denial and then a sudden change in priority towards looking for a husband. Even after hitting the wall, many women will squander a few more precious years testing her SMV with alphas to double-check, hoping her perceived decline was a fluke, this will make her even more bitter when she finally has to settle for a worse-beta than she could've gotten before because of squandering her youth.MY RESPONSE:

Mixed. Women are always looking for the best male they can find, regardless of their age and attractiveness level.

Trickle Truth - A method of coming clean about bad behavior by only disclosing small pieces of truth at a time. "All we did was talk," leads to "Well we just cuddled," leads to "I didn't mean to fuck him, it just happened." It's a hamsters way of saving face when bad behavior is discovered.MY RESPONSE:

Correct.

White Knight – A man who “comes to the rescue” of a woman, or of women, reflexively, emotionally-driven, without thought or even looking at the situation; (2) a man in authority who enables Team Women in his legislative actions, judgments, or rulings, reflexively, emotionally-driven, without thought or even looking at what’s right. Also known as "Mangina"MY RESPONSE:

Mixed. How is this different from Beta?

THE TAKEAWAY

So as you can see, I consider much of Red Pill theory to be correct. There is however a substantial lack of understanding of the linear nature of a woman’s interest level, and more importantly, how to maintain it. There's no mention of the subconscious disconnect that causes the vast majority of confusion with dating and romance.