so i've just decided to enter into a sort of polyamory relationship. i'm usually the type to just jump right in, i'm up for anything. they're a married couple, they have been for 7 years, together for 10. they have a son. the wife is bi. they've done this before. i just want to know if ya'll have any advice for me. i want to hear everything because i don't want to go into this blind. good or bad, i don't care. lay it on me!

AutumnalTone

08-26-2010 11:45 PM

Welcome aboard.

You'll find threads full of information on the New to Poly and General Discussion boards.

Derrythe

08-27-2010 05:17 AM

One really good early tip would be to make sure that whatever expectations you have are made clear and that you know what their expectations in respect to you are. For example, my wife and I recently had a bit of a misunderstanding with her boyfriend because she neglected to tell him about a date that she was going on with her (now) second boyfriend. She didn't think it was a big enough deal to tell him, and he feels he should know about any possibly romantic events that don't include him or me. To beat the dead horse a little, communication is key.