Six years ago my writing mentor urged me to submit a story to the Chicken Soup for the Soul book series. They were looking for stories about autism, she said, and what did I have to lose?

She was right. I needed to go for it.

I was elated when the story about nine-year-old Noah and his visit to Convenient Care was accepted. The book, Raising Kids on the Autism Spectrum, was published in April 2013. I was over the moon.

Before the book was published, I was asked to submit a short bio. Did I have a blog? It was the motivation I needed to finally start one, which I did two months before the book hit the shelves. When the book was released, I already had written a few blog posts.

Submitting the first story gave me the confidence to keep submitting – both at Chicken Soup for the Soul and elsewhere.

Since then I’ve had stories published in two other Chicken Soup for the Soul books: Miraculous Messages from Heaven and Thanks to My Mom. Earlier this year a story about my mom also landed in a Chicken Soup for the Soul bookazine.

I’m glad I said yes to the opportunity.

This summer I was invited by Chicken Soup for the Soul to attend newbo evolve in Cedar Rapids, Iowa. I’d get the opportunity to attend sessions, participate in a Chicken Soup for the Soul panel of Iowan writers, and get free concert tickets to see Kelly Clarkson and Maroon 5. How could I say no?

Amy Newmark, editor-in-chief and publisher for the Chicken Soup for the Soul book series, was the keynote speaker for the conference. I listened to her words of wisdom and was fortunate to receive one of her autographed books.

​I heard New York Times best-selling author Heather Gudenkauf discuss her writing process, her latest book, and methods she uses to generate ideas. She was gracious and answered all of our questions. She used to teach elementary school in Dubuque, Iowa, where she currently resides.

I was mesmerized by Clint Harp, the carpenter who has worked with Chip and Joanna Gaines, as he talked about his stops and starts. After many disappointments and an almost-empty bank account, he found his calling while working with reclaimed lumber. He and his wife, Kelly, have a new show on the DIY Network, Wood Work. We all have our fingers crossed that it will be renewed.

​I was grateful to listen to these celebrity stories. It was surreal.

Before the panel Saturday, the other writers and I were told to come to the green room and walk across the hall for hair and makeup.

Seriously?

Hair and makeup?

Green room?

The only green room I’ve spent much time in is my kitchen, which is painted in Koi Pond by Sherwin-Williams.

The first thing I noticed in the green room was Carson Kressley’s shoes.

Minutes later he chatted with Amy Newmark.

While Amy spoke with us six writers about the panel and various questions we might be asked, Clint Harp and his wife walked in.

Was I dreaming?

They weren’t there to see us, but still . . . we were all breathing the same air.

During the one-hour panel we talked about storytelling and some of the stories we had written. How does it change us as people? What do we learn about ourselves as a result of writing the stories? How did telling our stories affect our relationships with the people in our stories? What constitutes a good story?

Amy Newmark talked about the process for submitting a story and how she chooses book topics. She answered a question or two from the audience. Then we headed off to a book signing.

I learned a lot from other writers on the panel who shared their experiences. Some had written about grief, faith, grandparents, and losing a family member. Some had written funny stories about their families. Others had written about reinventing themselves, receiving messages from heaven, and volunteering. Everyone’s diverse life experiences were interesting and relevant.

When we share our stories, we realize we’re not alone. We’re all in a similar boat with our challenges and joys, which is one reason, I think, why the Chicken Soup for the Soul book series continues to be popular.

I left newbo evolve with new friends, new books, and a new motivation to keep writing. I was honored to have been invited.

On the way home, I thought about the storytellers I had spent time with throughout the weekend. Some are Iowans. Some are celebrities I’ve seen on TV.

In spite of our differences, we’re all artists who are telling our stories, hoping someone will listen.

It was so great meeting you, Tyann! I’m glad you said “yes!” It does feel strange to say some of these things out loud and in writing.

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Tyann

8/11/2018 07:48:11 am

I’m so glad our paths crossed, Robin! I’ve been thinking about the story you told about creating a legacy. I bet your grandma is smiling. It was great to spend the weekend with you.

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Shelley

8/11/2018 07:42:47 am

This couldn’t have happened to a better person! I love your writing and am so happy for you. Congratulations!

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Jacquie

8/11/2018 09:55:46 am

I'm thrilled to finally hear about this wonderful honor/experience. I'm certain you are all geared up to charge ahead with your writing - as well you should be. Thanks for giving us a chance to share in your joy.

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Karen

8/11/2018 10:49:14 am

Oh, Tyann, what an honor for you!!! I really like Clint Harp as a woodworker and his role on " Fixer Upper."
You deserve the recognition for your stories!!! WOW!!
Great photos. 😄❤️

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Ann

8/15/2018 03:56:51 pm

Really enjoyed your blog about your experience. Sounds positive and was an opportunity to learn from and teach others. So proud of you.

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I'm Tyann Sheldon Rouw, mother of three sons, wife to one husband, and lover of all chocolates. My twins have autism. I like the color green, advocating for autism, and trying to find the silver lining. Sometimes it's not easy. Usually it's funny.