How to: Find your soulmate?

Top love and relationship reader Jessica P shares top tips on how to find your soulmate this Valentine’s.

I think it’s true that there is someone out there for everyone, but the soulmate connection is that very special connection. ‘The one’ if you like. I liken the soul-mate connection to the ying/yang symbol, what they lack you have and what you lack they have, so when you come together you make a perfect whole.

One of the major beliefs about a soulmate partnership is that the Universe is overseeing the union, but in order for this to happen we have to feel worthy of being loved. This is the key. You deserve to find your ‘other half’.

Affirmations can really help with self-worth and finding your soulmate. The following affirmation can be said daily: “I am love, I deserve love and I accept it for myself from others.” Writing this on a post-it note and sticking to your mirror can help remind you to say it every day. If you believe you will find them - you will!

My top tips

Get out and about, it is unlikely your soulmate will knock on your door, so get out there and socialise

To meet like minded people, join a group or club that interests you. Be it a hobby, learning activity or something spiritual

Look after yourself on a mind, body and soul level so that you are at your best when you do meet

Lots of people meet online now so take the plunge and, if you haven’t already, join a dating site. You have nothing to lose and everything to gain

Visualise pulling gently on the silver cord from your tummy button as it is connected to your soulmate and they will respond

Make sure your heart chakra is open by doing meditation or visit a crystal healer, make sure it is shining out rose pink light. Keeping the crystal rose quartz around you helps too

Remember that confidence is the most attractive thing about a person. Believe in yourself and others will believe in you too

A love reading can really help give you clarity and insight into who and where your soulmate is. With a reading a psychic can also make you aware of any blockages or obstacles that maybe preventing the connection from happening. Make your way clear for that special someone to step forward.