“To be able to walk down with people who have been in similar situations as yourself, it’s going to be nice experiencing that all together on such a special occasion.”

“You share that comradery between each part of the military.”

For both Mark and Donna, the focus is on the shared experiences. Something that is particularly important as the memorial recognises both military and civilians contributions.

“Mark was in the Army, I was in the Navy,” says Donna, “but you share that comradery between each part of the military.”

Memories of service

“Basically my role in Afghanistan was to show presence on the ground,” says Mark, “To let the Afghan people know that they’re not on their own in this war on terror.

“I’m proud of what we did out there, trying to go out and help others in need. If I had the option, I’d do it all again. It’s just thinking about others and trying to do what you can.”

Mark and Donna have both left the military to focus on raising their three daughters, but their experiences from serving are still with them.

“You form close bonds with people,” says Donna.

“You’re away from home and confined to the ship. You do form close friendships. Even though quite a lot of us have left the forces now we still keep in touch.”

Mark and Donna at home with their daughters.

The unveiling

The memorial gives equal prominence to the civilian and military contributions. It consists of two large stone monoliths supporting a bronze medallion. The two-sided medallion has sculpted reliefs depicting the memorial’s theme of ‘duty and service’.

It will be unveiled in Victoria Embankment Gardens on the 9 March, following a service of dedication on Horse Guards Parade.