... od way to have it happen is to just start making out and let it lead on to that.. and definitely make sure to have protection figured out figured out before that time comes! During your firsttime you don't have to try anything crazy.. you can just do something simple like have him on top. ... (4 replies)

... and very thick. I start to worry regarding the pain and did not go for it. I know that not all girl hurt for the firsttime but most of them hurt a lot. I am small in size 5'2" only and my vagina opening is very small, I can't use tampon due to it is painful. This make me worry more. ... (30 replies)

... e concered about this, try masturbation. That way YOU are in control and will be able to stop if something is uncomfortable. I actually never felt pain during my firsttime having sex, so I know it does work. Also, some girls lose their hymen or it gets stretched from using tampons and some sports, like horseback riding. ... (1 replies)

... can be different lengths and it's common for them to be a bit longer than others you may see. If you want to look for your hymen you would probably have to open them up to look in. My guess would be that you still have yours if it has been difficult to put in a tampon. ... (11 replies)

... elc426 - Other than lubrication and you relaxing, I don't think there is anything you can do. It does seem like he has a large penis. I have a small penis but have never had sex with a virgin. Mine always easily slides right in. (30 replies)

... Futhermore I am also small size and small down there. Everytime try is hurt so much, I cry actually but still no yet break the hymen. I heard that breakinghymen is more hurt than the goes in. Is it true? ... (30 replies)

... period then this would be my frist time. but the odds are slim that it just so happens that the day we decided to do that is the day that i get my period for the firsttime. so i was just wondering if there has ever been any cases the a girl has had her cherry popped and has bled for a few days. ... (9 replies)

... Also, yes most of the time the firsttime does hurt, maybe a little, maybe a lot, often times this is due to the hymenbreaking. But the most you can do to prevent some umwanted pain is to engage is a lot of forplay to "loosen up" and to make sure that you use a lot of lube. ... (3 replies)

... The thing that makes sex hurt for the firsttime is the breaking or stretching of the hymen at the opening of the vagina. The speculum that they use at the gynaecologists will be smaller if the hymen is still intact and may only affect it slightly. ... (6 replies)

... Dr said that my hymen is normal but there are some minor stretch mark. I think it is cause by my bf penis when he try to enter me during the first try, Dr advise to let it break naturally instead of cut it. My vagina also found slightly tight. ... (9 replies)

... i got a steady boyfriend and when he first started fingering me i started bleeding pretty heavily, i thought it could be my period but i could tell from the color of the blood that it was not. ... (4 replies)

... Not ALL girls bleed when they have sex the firsttime. Traditionaly it was the hymenbreaking that caused the girl to bleed, but today with alot more girls do sports such as netball etc, bleeding isnt seen as a sign of losing virginity. ... (3 replies)

... Masturbation does help, especially if you get used to having something inside you. A lot of girls say that the pain the firsttime doesn't come so much from the hymenbreaking as the feeling of having something big inside. ... (6 replies)