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is it wrong of me?

Okay so my birthday is coming up. Is it wrong of me to want someone to watch the kids so I can go to a hotel and just be alone and relax. I mean I love my kids and family but that's what I want. I don't want anyone to call me either. I just want to be alone, not have to worry about cleaning. Watch tv and veg out for just a day/night. Sleep as much as I want and mess around on the computer, just me, no one else.

I'd much rather have a nice time at the park with my family. Or going out to dinner and a movie with DH. But if that's what you want to do on your day, then no it's not wrong. Although, I'd be terrified of even entering a hotel room with the bed bug fiasco going on.

I don't think thats a bad idea at all. It would just be a different version of a spa day or a girls retreat. You shouldn't feel bad about that. Mommie's need time to recharge. Actually your idea makes me think that might be something I'd want for my b day =)

I'd much rather have a nice time at the park with my family. Or going out to dinner and a movie with DH. But if that's what you want to do on your day, then no it's not wrong. Although, I'd be terrified of even entering a hotel room with the bed bug fiasco going on.

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