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I also prefer being with a man who makes less, because I don't NEED a man for financial dependence, ONLY for companionship. I don't NEED a man to provide for me because I'm capable of providing for myself.

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You gotta do this at least 2-3 times with the same woman (separate gym visits, obviously) before you ask for her number or whathaveyou...only then will she think you might be genuinely interested and not some creepy-gym-rat.

So we were fighting over that and as dumb as it may sound to other people it is important to me because many newlyweds fight over finances. Friday night he went with some friends from school to a kegger at another friend’s house. The party was an hour away. He who is over his miles drove there and he drove another girl. This girl has no clue he has a girlfriend because he has never told her. He claims there has never been a good opportunity to throw it into the conversation and he didn’t want to seem like a weirdo for just blurting it out. This girl dresses really slutty for class and has bragged to him about how many guys she has slept with. He is turned off by that kind of girl normally. She can talk about this with him and he can talk to her but I have never come up? Is there a reason for this? Does he not want her to know about me because he is attracted to her and wants something to happen? The worst part is that he talked about his psycho ex with her and still not me. It is like a slap in the face. Then he was at a party away from me and called me trashed. It was a very uncomfortable night for me because my suspicions got the worst of me. He spent the night at a party with other girls an hour away from me while we were fighting. Am I overreacting or do I have genuine basis for being concerned? I would appreciate your feedback, especially guys. Thank you.

I do really like this person, at times think I am falling in love with him. Somehow he is not feeling this vibe from me and I wonder if it is because of anything I am failing to do in some of the above questions. Am I failing to connect on any level here? Will moving forward in any of these areas lead to greater connection, or am I on the right track?

The other night the SO and I were at a dance. Lots of mutual friends, a few of her guy friends. It was hot in there, for sure. Her guy friend keeps saying that he's too hot - she enthusiastically tells him to take off his shirt right in front of me. Tacky and inconsiderate or cute and harmless? I took offense and got jealous for sure. She could tell and later semi-apologized and told me that she'd like it if I'd take off my shirt as well - I have a real problem with that as I see guys with shirts off at dances to be meat-head idiots. I love to dance, with clothes on, unless everyone else is naked too! lol.

It's good that you got some counseling. Now, that you are in a new relationship, it would be a good time to go back again. Someone who knows you in real life will be a good help to you. I wish you all the best!

If you feel this strongly about it, you should probably move on and find someone who is much more interested and willing to man up to pursue you a little bit. A lot of guys don't actually like being pursued.

Oh, and guys just looking for sex will usually show their hand pretty soon by venturing sexy little remarks to see how you will react. Not always though--sometimes after you meet them and they decide they don't want to continue dating, they'll try to get some on their way out, but that's not quite the same as just looking for sex.

Another thing you can do is throw some small sarcastic jokes when you go get your usual coffee at the usual place. My sense of humour sucks but sometimes it is easy to make a small joke, e.g., you go to a bar with some friends and they take some time deciding what they want while the waitress is waiting, make a small sarcastic joke, even if something like: "these guys, pff, they are always like this", it's crap, but it's something. You won't get laid because of this but i believe it will ease you into being more sociable. There are alot of other situations, most of them are very small in the sense of not being important by themselves, but important when put together.

IME, a majority of guys are uncomfortable with women they perceive as more sexually experienced than themselves. And they may make a leap from "she was a FWB with someone" to "she sleeps around." Obviously, those are not the same thing.

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