Transgendered to a woman

This is one of those topics I never saw myself bringing up. Honestly I never thought I would ever know I met one much less be approached by one, even if it was only an email. I'm not complaining in any way here, nothing wrong with the email and I find it flattering no matter who thinks I'm attractive.

I'm not homophobic, I'm also not homosexual. I haven't met this person, so I have no idea whether she is attractive or not. (She is how the person referred to herself so I'll just carry on the gender selected). Here's the thing, on the surface of it I wouldn't opt for a trans-gender woman. If she still looked manly in general I could say without a doubt that I wouldn't be interested. Now, I have seen some pictures of some that were actually quite pretty and you wouldn't otherwise know they used to be a man. This just kind of inserts a grey area to the whole thought.

I know this is going to show my ignorance on the subject. It seems to me that the sex would be quite different since there would be little if any natural lubrication. Then there is the whole idea of how to go about it. Is it a straight in push or some special angle involved? Then what about depth, I’m sure there would be some issues here. It seems like being the just right size would be kind of important.

I'm not really sure I could or would go through with anything with one. I'm just curious what other guys think on the subject.

Hey D. I know I am not a man but Piney is. We got an email from a transgender not long ago. She called him HOT...It was cute but he was embarrased. I told him not to be but he was. I had to laugh, it was funny. The way he acted not the email. At first I thought it was for me, then i read she was looking for men. DAYUM..LOL...anywho...He wasn't real comfortable with it.

Quoting PineyFolks:Hey D. I know I am not a man but Piney is. We got an email from a transgender not long ago. She called him HOT...It was cute but he was embarrased. I told him not to be but he was. I had to laugh, it was funny. The way he acted not the email. At first I thought it was for me, then i read she was looking for men. DAYUM..LOL...anywho...He wasn't real comfortable with it.

Love ya..

Neorn PS ya'll should come over today....if J isn't working.

May have been the same one. Probably just a fake looking to see how many guys would jump.

Tell him to get over it, tell him there are probably lots of gay guys out there who would love to jump his bones

Quoting rm_clever_cpl:Usually a transgendered women still has boyparts, as she is pre-op. Gender is how one dresses and acts to fit in, whereas sex is what kind of genitals an individual has. Transsexual is the term for an individual who has had the operation to switch sexes. So to be short, if she's transgender then you're still dealing with male genitalia.

Thanks, it's always helpful to know the vocabulary in any situation. I'll have to look back and see what exactly was said.

transsexual: someone who wishes to take all the steps necessary to be accepted as completely as possible in their chosen gender.

transgender: An umbrella term used to describe anyone whose gender identity or expression situates them differently than the traditional gender role they were assigned at birth. Some of the countless categories lumped together under this term include crossdressing, drag, transgenderism, transsexualism, androgyny, and many shadings between these larger groupings.

transgender(ed): [adjective] Should be to describe someone, not to label them as an object -- as a noun. (incorrect usage: "I saw three transgenders walking out of Nordstrom yesterday." Correct usage: "I saw three transgendered people walking out of Nordstrom yesterday.")

transvestite: an outdated term for crossdresser.

Perhaps this helps everyone to stay on the same terms in discussing this blog.

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