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Dating a cop ?

2008-05-28, 05:00 PM

There is this guy that has been writing to me from match and we used to exchange lil funny emails for a few weeks now and I just got a chance to talk to him after a few weeks of that and realized he is a cop.

I had never really contemplated dating a cop but I like this guy.

My friends have been cautioning me against dating one given their crazy work schedules not to mention the fact you probably have to constantly wonder if the time he walks out of the door will be the last time you'll see him(that alone can turn me into a nervous wreck).

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Cops have this stigma attached..kinda like everyone stereotypes them. I went through police academy and I am not a cheater, beater, etc. I know many cops (including the sheriff of our county) who have been faithfully and happily married for 20+ years. It's just a job just like any other job that has it's pros and cons.

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Cops have this stigma attached..kinda like everyone stereotypes them. I went through police academy and I am not a cheater, beater, etc. I know many cops (including the sheriff of our county) who have been faithfully and happily married for 20+ years. It's just a job just like any other job that has it's pros and cons.

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I grew up around cops, and have worked around them most of my adult life.

I would be very leery of dating a cop for the reasons stated above. Sure, it's a stereotype that cops are cheating abusers at home, but that stereotype exists for a reason. It seems to be more common among police.

I have all the respect in the world for what they do everyday, but I've seen the toll it takes on their relationships in real life....it's pretty bad.

And women do throw themselves at them EVERYWHERE they go in uniform - it's insane.