this is the “birth announcement” that quickly became the “holiday greeting” which evolved into into the “new year’s card” and finally became the “happy-holiday-chinese-new-year-five-month-announcement-valentine’s-day-thank-you-greeting-card.” (let’s face it – “parenting” should be defined as: people who guide children to adulthood and manage to accomplish much – it just happens to be on an eighteen- minute/day/month/year delay.)