You had a bad past. You lost trust in love and relationships. You decided to end up being single forever. But suddenly, you found yourself alone in your friend circle. You longed to have someone who could understand you, spend time with you, who complete you – in your 40s.

I can understand. We often go through this phase where our heart longs for someone dear, but mind prevents us from doing so. However, if you being a brave woman, decides to listen to your heart and give a try to free older women dating, here are some of the healthy truths I would love you to accept first:-

1. You need to invest your time, money, and efforts

Whether it is about learning how to build your profile on free older women dating sites or working on your fashion skills, preparing for a dating / relationship demands devoting the best of your time, efforts and funds. So don’t hesitate. Just dive into the process and enjoy at its fullest.

2. Blaming men won’t help

Trust me ladies, blaming men for the miserable life works only in the short run. In a long run, such practices turn off the good guys. Therefore, better change your attitude and learn that grownup men love those who take personal responsibility for every action and decision.

3. If he wants you, he will let you know

Regardless of how desperately you want to be with him, do not show. Do not guess, call him or ask your friends to connect him, if he disappears all of a sudden. If he is genuinely into you, he would let you know as a real man. Just wait

4. The image you portray is the one he will carry forward

When you go on your first date with a guy found on a free older women dating platform, bear in mind that the image of yourself that you will portray is what he will believe in. If you cry about your past and seek for his support, he will consider you a coward and negative soul. However, on the other side, if you accept and show your mistakes as your achievement badges, he will appreciate your strength and attitude and seek to know more about you.

Besides, be sure that you do not over-share or avoid open-up on the dates. This too can bring a negative impression on the first you are dating.

5. Not even the most perfect guy can complete you

Last but not least, accept that a relationship can just be an extension of your happiness, not the source of it. If you have no life, even the most perfect person can’t make it you feel good about it. So firstly work on getting a life and appreciating yourself.

By accepting these harsh truths, you can better prepare for a relationship. And someday, might add to the list of older women marrying younger men and enjoying happily ever after.

Many communities may have loosened their nut when it comes to younger men looking for older women. Despite this, the toughest call to make comes when you finally have to make it official to the parents, and you have no idea where to start. At this point, hell might break loose just any minute and thus requires a lot of calculations to make this call. Maybe it is just part of being parents, but be sure to receive contention from them. Their perception of ageless dating still hasn’t fully conquered with that of our generation. Anyway, if you have taken your time and you are confident this is what will make your life, then here are some tips on how to get your parents to swim along in your boat.

Prepare both parties in advance

Nothing can be more embarrassing than being rejected by the parents on sight. To lessen chances of this happening to your date, make sure you have created a groundwork for what each one of them is to expect from the other. These may include dietary preferences and restrictions or conversations to avoid. Ensure they know as much as possible about each other.

It is all about the timing

Know your parents well, choose a wise opportunity especially when they are all jovial and calm and cease the moment. Make sure they are not stressing over something else when you decide to mention her. Also, be direct and be calm as you tell them. They have all the reason for not accepting at first and even if they seem upset, it is probably because of the shock. Do not lash out at them.

Praise her in front of them

The point here is to try to make your parents understand and like her as much as you do. To achieve this, illuminate on her high points and achievements. While this makes her feel you are proud of her, it also makes the parents see the good in her. If she is a good cook, say it, don’t wait for her to blow her whistle, it might create the wrong impression.

You need to look at things the way she sees them. She is not as comfortable as you are at home. Whether it’s a game you and your folks are playing or she is being teased by the father, you are her only cheerleader. You need to show the parents that you two are perfect complements. Don’t leave her in the living room alone and go to catch up with your brother in the other room.

Dating an older woman is confident, fun and ambitious. You would be nervous introducing any other girlfriend anyway, so it is just normal if you are nervous at first. If she is a keeper, however, she will also be keen on making your parents like her which reduce your burden too. By observing the above, you can rest assured your relationship stands on more solid grounds.

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