Hijab-wearing College Golfer A Trailblazer for Muslim Girls

Noor hopes Muslim girls are encouraged to chase their dreams, no matter how scary, uncertain and hostility their environments might be. — AP

LINCOLN, Nebraska (AP) — Noor Ahmed outwardly lives her Muslim faith and even growing up in a state as diverse as California she says she encountered hostility on the street, in school and on the golf course. One of the top junior golfers in Northern California coming out of high school, Ahmed was a starter in her first year at Nebraska and the No 2 player most of this spring.

She is believed to be the only golfer at the college level or higher who competes in a hijab, the headscarf worn in adherence to the Muslim faith. Arriving in Lincoln two years ago, Ahmed sensed hesitancy from teammates mostly from small Midwestern towns and unaccustomed to seeing a woman in a hijab.

She didn’t feel embraced until an unfortunate yet unifying event roiled the campus midway through her freshman year. A video surfaced of a student claiming to be the “most active white nationalist in the Nebraska area,” disparaging minorities and advocating violence. The student, it turned out, was in the same biology lecture class as Ahmed.

Teammates offered to walk with her across campus, and one who would become her best friend, Kate Smith, invited Ahmed to stay with her. She didn’t accept but was heartened by the gesture.

“That,” Smith said, “was when she realised how much each and every one of us care for her on the team, that it wasn’t just like, ‘Hey you’re our teammate.’ No, it’s ‘We want you to be safe, we want you to feel at home here.’”

Having grown up in the post-9/11 era, Ahmed, like many Muslims in the United States, has been a target for bullying and verbal abuse. She began wearing the hijab in middle school. On the course, in an airport or even walking across campus she can feel the long stares and notices the glances. She said she has never been physically threatened and that most of the face-to-face insults came before she arrived at Nebraska.

Much of the venom spewed at her now comes on social media. She has been the subject of several media profiles and each sparks another round of hateful messages. She acknowledges she reads but doesn’t respond to messages and that an athletic department sports psychologist has helped her learn how to deal with them.

“I’ve been called every racial slur in the book,” she said. “I’ve been told explicitly that people who look like me don’t play golf, we don’t have a right to exist in America, you should go home. It would definitely faze me a little bit, but it never deterred me. I’m really stubborn, so I’m going to prove you wrong, just wait,” she added.

“When people think they’re dragging me down, it kind of fuels the fire in me that I’m going to be a better golfer, I’m going to be a better student, I’m going to keep climbing up the ladder,” Ahmed asserted. The daughter of Egyptian immigrants is from a close-knit family in Folsom, California and she steeled herself for the cultural adjustment she would have to make at Nebraska. She dealt with loneliness and anxiety, especially her freshman year. She had difficulty finding a support network.

There is a small Muslim community on campus, but she didn’t immerse herself in it. The demands on athletes are great and they are largely segregated, eating and studying in facilities separate from those used by regular students. Nebraska coach Robin Krapfl said she was initially concerned about how teammates would react to Ahmed. Krapfl remembered meeting with her golfers and telling them about her.

“I could tell by a couple of the looks and maybe even a comment or two that they weren’t 100 per cent comfortable with that,” Krapfl said. “A lot of our girls come from small-town communities that are very limited in their ethnicity. It’s just the fear of the unknown. They had just never been exposed to being around someone from the Muslim faith.”

Smith said she sometimes cringes when she and Ahmed are in a group and the conversation turns to politics, immigration or even fashion, like when someone innocently or ignorantly tells Ahmed that she would look good in a short dress or a certain hairstyle. “She can never wear a short dress, so why would you want to depict her as that?” Smith said.

For all the challenges Ahmed faced, there have been positives. Some people have complimented her for living her faith as she sees fit. Another Muslim teen who golfs in a hijab and lives in the United Kingdom wrote to says she draws inspiration from her and a player for another college team approached her at an event to tell her she recently converted to Islam and just wanted to say hi.

Ahmed said she’s naturally shy and a bit uncomfortable with the attention but she hopes Muslim girls coming up behind her are watching. “I grew up never seeing anyone like me. Honestly, I didn’t realize how much grief I was carrying, having never seen an image of myself or someone who looked like me in popular American culture. It’s a big deal,” she said.

Ahmed started playing golf at 8 and her parents encouraged her to take the sport to the highest level possible. Wearing the hijab has never interfered with her game and she has never considered not wearing it on the course. “I think Muslim women who choose to observe it or choose not to observe it have the right to exist in any space they want to be in,” she concluded.

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