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Would this bother you or am i overreacting?

Bf of 2 years almost always comes to bed and cuddles immediately. He has
had cold so didn't want to. For the past week even since he felt better
he won't cuddle. Will lay with his.back to me and won't touch. Granted
we had awesome sex Sunday night but I'm wondering what I did wrong for
him not touch me? I said to him this morning "what you don't like laying
near me in bed anymore?" He says "what! You have an issue with that
because I want to lay this way! you're ridiculous!" What do I do?

I did lay with him when he had his cold. I didnt deny that. If he chooses to lay the way he is now then that would create a problem because no cuddling in bed.....no intimacy or sex for him and trust me I can hold a grudge for a loooooong time.

Quoting JuliFox:

You wouldn't snuggle with him while he had his cold; maybe he discovered that he's more comfortable lying the way he does now. Don't take every little thing so personally.

Your not ridiculous you need to know whats up! Why is he acting so funny? So instead of walking around it, ask him. Maybe he is stressed or maybe you done something that offended him but he needs to tell you because like you I would be thinking the same way.

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