I have a close friend with BPD. Her DC is 8 now and she is an amazing mum!!

What I would say is that you need really good support in place. If your trust has a perinatal mental health team, absolutely accept a referral to them! Have you discussed your medications with someone as well?

Ahh good on her!I was refused help by the perinatal service!!!! Don't even ask me how I try not to think about that because it's a real life f@??;;&(ng p!!!ss take! And the less said about it the better.Luckily I was already heavily involved with my community mental health team and my psychiatrist got me a therapist who I will now see weekly for at least six weeks I think having a baby will give me something positive to concentrate on and be proud of.Thanks for replying x