So your saying the fact the only/my reasons (health insurance for her and tax credits) I contemplate marrying my girlfriend / baby mamma are going to bring me "closer" to god???? That bitch better get a job with bennies...

Christian Marriage and Secular Marriage are completely different things....For the most part. I think that's why most of you guys think I'm living in a Fantasy world. According to my beliefs Marriage is one of the biggest parallels to Christ and the Church there is. That's also why we hold it in such high Regard. I will say this though, Maybe the reason our Marriage works the way it does is because we're using it in the way God intended. Not for our own Selfish Gains.