I am male and have tried this, personally I use a fake skype account (justforfun107) instead of my real one to have fun however many girls feel against this. Whenever we engage we never show faces so there is a privacy barrier and no personal details are mentioned. Therefore I cannot understand why girls are so against online masturbation with a stranger.

I don't make a habit of walking down the street, see some random guy and flash him the goods.That is the equivalent of what you're wanting to do here.(Although, I've been known to "moon" people... But that's another story altogether)

Not showing your face with the level of intimacy of mutually masturbating together just comes across as kind of creepy.I prefer to know who I'm flashing my bits at across a computer screen and I just don't do it with random strangers. Or even people I'm comfortable with.

This SO reminds me of the chat rooms on other networks, that have cams involved. So many guys go into the rooms and turn on their cams with their cocks on cam (and many times not even hard), and not even their faces, and then beg the women to show their tits, look at their cams, etc. It is annoying there, and more so here. And not only annoying, IMO pretty pathetic. And this member joined here and made two posts, pretty much asking non-serious questions in the attempt to solicit women to go to his "fake skype account" to masturbate with him. It makes me think he ran out of stupid women elsewhere that were interested in lame attempts to watch him jerk off so decided to hit this place up.

I am sorry if this comes off as harsh, but give me a break..... now HERE too?

And it also kind of reminds me of the large thread in the lounge where the kid was complaining that women don't want to cyber any more here. The truth is that if you want to cyber, or cam, there are PLENTY of women here and "out there" that are into it and would want to with a guy... IF they LIKE HIM and find him in some way attractive! But there are guys who just like in a real world situation, just don't know how to approach a woman, talk to them, or otherwise be attractive to them. But they come online and think all they should have to do is come into a "room" and announce themselves available for masturbation (or simply flop their dicks out... no matter the size) and the girls will just come running to pleasure THEM. Because, oh yes, THEIR dick is the thing that will make them swoon!

Desperation isn't attractive, that's what all these incels who are desperate to 'cyber' are clueless about.

I don't search out for it at all (i.e. I don't have my cock flopped out while messaging 20 different females hoping to get a response), but just normal chats here seem to lead to situations where both me and my chat partner get so aroused that it turns into mutual masturbation.

Desperation isn't attractive, that's what all these incels who are desperate to 'cyber' are clueless about.

I don't search out for it at all (i.e. I don't have my cock flopped out while messaging 20 different females hoping to get a response), but just normal chats here seem to lead to situations where both me and my chat partner get so aroused that it turns into mutual masturbation.

Exactly. And frankly that is how it works in the vast majority of online settings. No one has to be a "cyber god" or "god's gift to women" either. You don't have to be the most fit, have the biggest dick, or even the best personality... you just have to be YOURSELF and connect on some level.

Totally agree JohnC its about building up a connection, a spark and trust not wham bam fancy a CAM.I cannot believe some people think such a tactless approach will work?

The best Cyber I have ever experienced is where I have made a real connection with the lady in question and that takes time, as it does in real life and often happens without planning just a mutual attraction.

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justforfun107 wrote:

I am male and have tried this, personally I use a fake skype account (justforfun107) instead of my real one to have fun however many girls feel against this. Whenever we engage we never show faces so there is a privacy barrier and no personal details are mentioned. Therefore I cannot understand why girls are so against online masturbation with a stranger.

I am male and have tried this, personally I use a fake skype account (justforfun107) instead of my real one to have fun however many girls feel against this. Whenever we engage we never show faces so there is a privacy barrier and no personal details are mentioned. Therefore I cannot understand why girls are so against online masturbation with a stranger.

It takes a real man to jerk off to World of Warcraft characters while listening to only voices!

Grab your dick & double-clickObscenity is the last refuge of an inarticulate motherfucker.

To be fair, I think you'll probably find that most guys are against this as well. It's a fetish and as such, you shouldn't expect everyone to want to share it with you. Good luck in finding someone to share.

Okay I guess I'll be the one guy that sticks up for him. Let him be. If he want to flash random woman so be it. In the end a guy is going to do what he's going to do. However if you want to me girl and not just show her your thingy you will have to shape-up.

Okay I guess I'll be the one guy that sticks up for him. Let him be. If he want to flash random woman so be it. In the end a guy is going to do what he's going to do. However if you want to me girl and not just show her your thingy you will have to shape-up.

That's brave of you Mr vines, way to stand up for what you believe in. I think.

Honestly, I find this thread ridiculously pathetic not to mention insulting. What is it with men (especially) and cold, random and faceless wank encounters over skype??? I guess I can understand that some men (and women) like the idea of being watched but is it really that enjoyable when you have NO IDEA who the person is at the other end? I don't get it but then again, I may be a bit more old fashioned than most on here.

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