Edging, Teasing and More – How to Pleasure your (Female) partner (OMGYes part 2)

by Beth Divine•16 Aug 2018

One
major part of OMGYes’s database is the wealth of information provided by women
who freely and openly revealed their likes and dislikes.

One
thing that overwhelmingly proved popular with a large percentage of them was
the use of edging techniques. Edging is the practise of bringing a woman close
to the edge of orgasm (hence the name) but then moving away again. Repeating
this a few times prolongs her sexual pleasure and has also been known to
enhance the orgasm when it does finally occur.

However,
orgasm is not meant to be the ‘goal’. Too often, sexual partners think that
they need to get their female partner to orgasm, almost as though they are
playing some kind of video game in which the end goal is to make her come, and
then you’re the winner with the highest score! But in fact, women take immense
pleasure from the right kind of stimulus that may or may not culminate in an
orgasm.

While
for men, the desired end result is obvious with sex being fairly linear – from
penetration to thrusting to coming – for women it is quite different. Women
have more nerves in their genitals than men do, and while these nerves are
concentrated predominantly in the clitoris, there are also many sensitive nerve
endings elsewhere in the genital area – all of which respond to stimulus.

While
it may seem counterintuitive for men, women are often content to ‘play’ for a
long, long time, touching, massaging and stroking their partner’s body, and
revelling in the same being done to them. This is called ‘teasing’ and it is a
way of ensuring that a woman is fully aroused before moving the sexual
encounter to the next phase.

For
true female pleasure, take the idea of the orgasm as ‘goal’ off the table, and
instead, focus on prolonging your sexual pleasure – and hers – for as long as
you possibly can. Edging, teasing and massage – all over her body with less
attention being paid to the genital area than you might expect – are a great
way to help a woman to relax and get even more into the mood for sex.

It is for this reason
– call it advanced sex ed! – that men are downloading apps like OMGYes almost
as fast as women are – there is an almost even fifty-fifty split between the
sexes when it comes to downloads. Men are overwhelmingly realising that women
are deserving of more and better in the bedroom, and they are doing their
homework with great enthusiasm. Make sure you stay on top of your homework, and
you will reap the benefits in ways you cannot imagine!