does dh get up @ night to make u food?

I'm so annoyed!! I can never sleep at night as it is, I'm in school full time and I work 25-30 hrs a week plus I do almost all of the cleaning. He's a cop so he works 6 days on 3 days off and is only taking 2 classes. He has gotten up maybe 4 times to get me food. On days he works I do NOT wake him up bc I know he needs his sleep. However, he's off the next 3 days and I work tomorrow. He would not get up just now! So now I'm wide awake thanks to the kitchen light and having to make a snack. All I wanted was for him to bring me a slice of cheese so I could eat it in bed with my eyes closed and go right back to sleep! So annoyed!!!!

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LOL.. uhh no.. i actually don't even want my DH to know I get up to eat at night (I'd rather explain it to him in the morning why all the chips are gone)... LOL But, he'd most likely be pissed if I woke him up and asked him anyways.. unless I was on Bedrest,sick or in labor then he expects me to fend for myself at night.

Yes my husband wakes up to get me whatever I need whether its tissue or food or water and if the kids wake up our need something he gets it also its always been that way.... He even got up most if the night to change the kids when they were babies it to get them when they were crying. But I know most guys don't I'm blessed in that way

SO would get up to get me food if I asked but I wouldn't ask. I figure not sleeping at night comes with the pregnancy. It's annoying but not that big of a deal to me. Besides, if I asked her to get food for me, she wouldn't get the right stuff! Lol

My Dh will get up with the kid/baby with no complaints.. but I usually prefer to-I like the way I do things :) ... and if I happen to be BFing at the time its best i get up most of the time. But, yeah I'm not going to even try to wake him up to get me a tissue.. that seems kind of rude to even ask..but then again I never EXPECT him to do anything for me in the middle of the night... other than love me of course.... but if your DH is willing and it works for you all.. I guess its a nice perk.

I can barely get DH to get me a snack during the day, so no chance at night. I don't even bother asking. Have you thought about maybe having some sort of snack on your nightstand or somewhere? That way you don't have to go to far when you are hungry in the middle of the night.