We’re supposed to be friends but she keeps making digs at me, and she told me she kissed my boyfriend

We see this other couple regularly. They are in their mid-20s too. The girl started making digs at me soon after we got together.

She kept saying my boyfriend used to say he wanted a girl like her and that he always confides in her.

Recently he admitted to me they kissed once and she had wanted to have an affair with him, but he refused.

She belittles me and I want to tell her I know about the kiss but my partner says his mate must never know.DEIDRE SAYS: This girl is jealous of you so don’t give her the satisfaction of knowing she gets to you.

Your boyfriend could have been with her if he had wanted but he has chosen to be with you.

Don’t argue about it. When you are with them make sure she sees how happy you are together and that she is no threat to your relationship.

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We can’t have sex as pain is too much

Dear Deidre

I HAVE never had full sex with my girlfriend because it hurts her too but we both want to do it so much.

She was a virgin when we got together and I told her we would never rush things.