just worry that hes giving my friend false sense of security. i think im going to ask my friend if i can meet up with this guy. Would it be a good idea to spar?

I personally think it would an excellent idea for you to spar with the guy, and have your friend shoot some cell phone video of the session. Then upload the vid to Youtube and link it back to this thread. No doubt you will get some A-mazing feedback from the people on this board from the sparring video. And I promise no one will laugh at you - the people on this board are extremely professional and gentlemanly at all times.

Growing up, I had this friend who was really charismatic. He was 5 years older than me. After I moved away to college, he started a cult about sex vampires and grey aliens and possession. Last time I saw him he had an entourage of like 10 people hanging off his every word. I said, "you are insane and what you are doing is insane. Good day to you, sir" and I cut him out of my life. It actually works pretty well. "No, you are fucking crazy and are going to get people hurt. I don't want to get splattered by the ensuing shitstorm." You can tell your friend that it's retarded and incorrect on the way out, advise him to go to a real school with a good reputation, warn him that he's going to get hurt and this guy has him suckered, but the best thing for you to do is to realize that you are the only one you can make decisions for, ultimately. And go join a real school or gym or dojo or whatever if you haven't already.

Don't keep company with someone like like that former friend of mine, who ballooned up, stopped being able to impress anyone, and still thinks that MySpace is cool. Oh and believes that he is a sex vampire allied with little grey aliens with giant black eyes who have implanted a chip in the heads of everyone he is involved with that is set to explode if his secrets are revealed.

*edit* HOLY **** my head didn't blow up, I'M FINALLY FREE!

*edit 2* I'm a fattie but Kyokushin is slowly fixing that. A good Kyokushin dojo would fix all of these problem and paint that Dan guy's little red wagon nice and quick if he decided to try to roll it over them.