Ever look at a guy's profile and they are SO HOT you wouldn't have a clue how to approach them?

Man, I wonder how many guys realize how hot and attractive they are. I am floored by the guys on this site. Then again, I've heard some guys don't know how handsome they are even if you tell them. It's just so damn hard to figure this all out, isn't it.

Some guys I wont approach, not simply because they are "to hot" but because I just don't see much that makes me want to contact them on here, it could be a multitude of reasons, from there profile being uninteresting, there profile having things that make me go cold or there photos not showing much of who they are as a person, in a photo a person can show a great deal of them self, from there facial expression the look in there eyes, there stance, all those good things.

To be honest....Very few , if anyone in life or on this site, intimidate me physically to the point of shying away from saying hi or something friendly to them.... but then again, my personality is one of honesty and integrity and self-confidence.... If you piss me off, you will know it directly, Pro or Con....I don't have a "poker face" so I play it straight all the time with people. Their is more to "Beauty" than what you see on the surface, and the beauty or ugliness, can shine through in many ways, which can be as, or more, important that the way they look.......

TheGuyNextDoor saidThere's lots of guys here that I am way too intimidated to say hello to. I'm much better at answering email than starting them. That said, I certainly don't mind passing along a heartfelt compliment.

Agreed.

What I like about this site is...sure, there's a lot to look at, but god damn it's nice to find a hot, smart guy from time to time, and there are plenty on here.

Not online, no. I know on the inside I'm as beautiful as anyone else here, so the outside is just lovelier wrapping. In person, though I'll admit that a few people are so attractive I'd be tongue-tied.

One of the things I try to do on here (because it's easier) is to develop the habit of complimenting people when I think they're attractive/smart/funny/etc. so that I develop comfort with doing the same thing in reality. I mean honestly, is there anyone who doesn't feel better after someone compliments them?

And then of course there's this - watch from 3:20 on:

"You are what you love, not what loves you. That's what I decided a long time ago." Or as one of my more interesting friends says, there is always the dynamic of the lover and the beloved. Often we forget that it is the lover who holds the upper hand.

I think he's generally awful because somehow, in this improbable world, he's become an action star. However in this movie he shines, and genuinely deserved whatever awards he got for it.

His ability to muster self-contempt, and the way in which it seems so natural, and somehing we suspect must deeply lie within the actor himself, makes the movie just that much more engaging. Not that the excellent writing wouldn't have done that already.

Nope. If I like what I see in a person's profile then approaching them is easy. A simple "hello" works wonders. It also helps to read their profile to maybe get an idea about what to chat with them about. Sometimes their pix tell enough about them to where you can spark up a conversation.

I don't have a problem making the first move. After that's done the ball is in their court and if they choose to reply then cool but if not then I'm not gonna sweat it.

abelian0 saidOne of the things I try to do on here (because it's easier) is to develop the habit of complimenting people when I think they're attractive/smart/funny/etc. so that I develop comfort with doing the same thing in reality. I mean honestly, is there anyone who doesn't feel better after someone compliments them?

And then of course there's this - watch from 3:20 on:

"You are what you love, not what loves you. That's what I decided a long time ago." Or as one of my more interesting friends says, there is always the dynamic of the lover and the beloved. Often we forget that it is the lover who holds the upper hand.