For Teen Vogue, Uzo Aduba wrote the sweetest letter to her 18-year-old self. Touching on topics like love, relationships, and recognizing self-worth, she gave all of us a little reminder about the important things in life:

2.She was candid about heartbreak and how it absolutely sucks. But she reminded little Uzo that even though it feels like the end of the world, it isn't — always give love another try.

3.Her third rule was to become friends with both guys and girls, but "continue to be a girl's girl." She emphasized keeping female friends close because having people who aspire and inspire is so important.