Yesterday someone commented on my website about love-based relationships. They wanted to know what a love-based relationship is and how to acquire these types of relationships in all areas of life.Meditation and prayer can bring us love based relationships if we understand the reality of who we are as a person.

We need to understand our own personality and makeup, who we were really created to be, our inner DNA as it were.Our Creator left within each of us the DNA of a Creator of Love. We can't have love-based relationships with other people unless we have a love-based relationship with our God and with who we are. We must like ourselves.Life laughs as it passes us by when we are unhappy and we don't believe we can achieve our dreams. So what is it in life that's laughing? It's Phantoms of worry, fear, disbelief, and the pain of lost hope. Can we live only thirty-three seconds without hope? If in that time frame we give up or quit, relinquish our rights as a wonderful creation of our Creator, then Phantoms walk into our lives and take control. They begin with our thoughts. Thoughts become our emotions and then tear apart our goals and dreams. We are no longer on the journey we wanted, but on a dangerous downhill spiral. The Phantoms want us to sink deeper in quicksand of despair and swallow us up like a python devouring its prey.We have a choice and we can control our choices. We can't control the consequences of our choices. Our Grandma’s wisdom taught is “if we make our bed, we sleep in it.” Our choices sometimes lead to sleepless nights. So how do we keep our hopes and dreams alive, or rekindle the hopes and dreams we are blessed with? Gratitude is the golden key to life's hope. Gratitude will unlock and remove the chains of our Phantoms. Oh yes, Phantoms are very real. We need to be aware of the present moment and keep our gratitude alive, vibrant. Gratefulness is energy that brings us to the desires of our heart. Each morning when we awake from sleep, regardless of how we feel, we thank our Creator for the blessings we own and for the blessings that will yet appear in our life. We do the same thing at night and thank Him for the blessings that happened in our life that day and do it with all sincerity.It takes thirty days to form a habit. The habit of Gratitude precedes the blessings we have waiting in the wings to appear in our life. Do you have five minutes each morning and five minutes each night to change your life to fulfillment? Just think about it. What do you have to lose? You can lose those Phantoms of worry and deceit that don't belong to you; and bring gratefulness into your life occupying that negative space. Love yourself, forgive yourself and allow your blessings to find you. The Phantoms of life's negativity are waiting in the shadows to steal our creativity given to us by a loving God. How to keep the DNA of this creativity and use it to live out our life's dream can be done with The Golden Key. Discovering the Golden Key of opportunity behind our locked doors is a simple process. All it takes is learning gratitude. http://www.lovebasedrelationships.com