Dating hasn’t been easy for “Real Housewives of New York” star Kelly Bensimon. The former model and jewelry designer, who divorced photographer Gilles Bensimon in 2007, said men are attracted to her glamour but don’t get the reality of her being a single mom with two kids. “It’s not as sexy as it appears,” she told us. “If you want to date me it’s like dating a 16-year-old because I have to be home by the time the nanny comes home.” Bensimon is open to dating all types of guys and isn’t looking for a high roller: “I’m not really into going out with high-profile people. I want a life for my kids.”