(Closed) Follow up to my previous post

I had wrote my previous post in the hope of getting some encouragement and the way you all have supported me is simply overwhelming. It gave me the initial push to break things off with the guy. Now I have involved my parents and confided in them and they have decided to stand by my decision to quit. I have broken off contact with the guy and let him know that I can never become his wife under any circumstance. I might be getting overly optimistic but already my life is much better

Just wanted to thank each and every one of you from the core of my heart.

My suggestion? Step One: Figure out what he didn’t like you doing and DO IT EVERY DAY. For me, in a similar situation, it was driving a car (weird? yes). I drove every effing day like my life depended on it for awhile and it was fabulous.

Thanks a lot! There are times I accidentally remember a (rare) good moment but I have made that ‘bad things’ list and keeping it handy. Every time I look at that list I’m feeling disgusted all over again. You guys give some seriously great advice.