Obviously, the reason of complaining to loved ones is mainly the attention. We want their attention on us. We want them to know what is happening around us.

I'm not sure if it applies to you, but it sure do to me. I complained because I want them to know my situation. At times, I complained because I need their opinion, thoughts or someone to back me up on that matter. But, all in all, I just want someone to listen to all of the complaints that I've made. Why loved ones? Because I trust you the most.

But then, listening to many complaints can be difficult too. Yes, I'm fully aware of that. Getting to hear too many complaints can make the listener fed up, bored or even mad. With you. In this case, it's me.Phew.

I'm not asking for much but the next time you ever hear me complain again, just please pretend that you're listening. That's all I'm asking for.

Complaining to loved ones is another way of releasing the stress inside- Yup, that's true. I'm just releasing the stress inside me. So please, don't get mad at me.