Going NC on girlfriend of just over 1 year. advice?(pics of text only)

No pics until I actually dump her. They exist on misc if you wanna look hard enough for them.

She's barely responding to my texts, if I call she usually doesn't answer and if she does she ends the conversation as quickly as possible.
I've complained about her neglecting me before and she always tells me she's tired and doesn't feel like talking and to just text her, but then **** like this happens.

It's our god damned one year anniversary and I can't even get more than a single text from her? (I could not go visit her because my car was in the shop. she never even considered coming to see me.)
My reply was within 15 seconds of her text since I already had my phone in my hands when she texted.

I do not think she's cheating on me. She has a tendency to shut out the world when she gets depressed, but in the past I've been an exception to that.
And I get that this is probably an especially scary/depressing time for her but it's hardly been a picnic for me either.

I've:

gone through withdrawal
gotten into a car accident
been dealing with crippling anxiety (partially about her. She lives in a real **** neighborhood and the world is about to fall apart) but it's literally bad enough that at times I literally feel like I'm having a heart attack.
and depression of my own

I can't safely work anymore I drive uber and I'm both asthmatic and immunocompromised from lack of sleep. I sleep only every other night right now. And even if I was willing to risk it (I'm not. My mom and siblings have asthma too, I'm not risking their lives.) there isn't anywhere near enough demand for me to be able to pay my rent.

So basically my entire life is falling apart and the person who is supposed to be there for me just flat out isn't.

This really breaks my heart, but I honestly don't know what else to do at this point. I think it would be cruel to just dump her in the middle of this (I'm obviously not going to start dating anyone new during a pandemic) but how can I stay with someone who is just going to shut me out every time something bad happens? This isn't going to be the last hardship we face, and I don't want to have to go through them all alone for the rest of my life.

Yeah sorry man but sounds like u gotta cut this sh*t off, she's not into it anymore but doesnt have the balls to break it off, be a man and confront the situation and end it.
Gonna be real tough ride for you been through it recently, even tougher with everything going on right now

Well breaking up definitely seems like the correct decision. You already know that this isn’t something you’re willing to put up with for the rest of your life so you might as well cut it off now. As for advice on actually doing it, I have no experience there, sorry brah it doesn’t sound like it’s gonna be easy for you.

Yeah sorry man but sounds like u gotta cut this sh*t off, she's not into it anymore but doesnt have the balls to break it off, be a man and confront the situation and end it.
Gonna be real tough ride for you been through it recently, even tougher with everything going on right now

Originally Posted by x420SwagScopex

Well breaking up definitely seems like the correct decision. You already know that this isn’t something you’re willing to put up with for the rest of your life so you might as well cut it off now. As for advice on actually doing it, I have no experience there, sorry brah it doesn’t sound like it’s gonna be easy for you.

I'm toying with the idea of confronting her about this problem one more time, but I don't know if there is any point really...

She's clearly lost interest and most likely in the process of talking to another guy. If it had been anything personal regarding herself, she would have been less dissmive and explained her reasoning (not in her best place right now etc).

But she makes zero effort to explain, connoting you are not on her mind like you should be and unfortunately this looks as though she has other "things" she's more interested in than you.

The whole "pretty girl" thing just further sinks your own ship. Sadly, women don't really work like you expect, and such a message is probably further disrespecting yourself, it probably makes her even more inclined to ignore you and view you as less of a man.

Always remember, girls may say they want the perfect fairytale nice guy, but in all reality they want the guy who treats her like he has better things going on. Women aren't attracted to men who call her beautiful and are there at her dispense whenever she wants.

You know what to do, but given how much your life obsesses about her especially after one year (she is completely aware of this) I don't think you will have the self worth and balls to call it quits. Regardless of what people say, I bet you go back and look for any excuse to gain her attention again.

It's time to start loving yourself, only then will the rest of your life truly fall into place.

Didn't read mangos but imma boutta hit you with some copypastas since I never knew you were this much of a beta cuck. The worlds for yours for the taking, but it seems like you would rather LDAR .. . . so he you go beta cuck bruh this is chit you let happen before with no repercussions:

wat ? do i sound ****ing hostile ? tired of these ****ing dyke looking mother****ers brought up on cheesits an fruit rollups an string cheese nachos thinking they can cook . whats ur major ? liberal arts pansy who cant cook aint no use to no 1 except for applebees or some **** .

listen up nickolodian boy go buy some real pasta an cook dat **** in real ****ing sause . ****ing san marazana blah blah jason blaha ballsac tomatoes aint real **** when its in a ****ing tin can . legit ****ing dumpster diving for tomatoes would taste better than that **** an get a real ****ing major . dont need another ****ing history teacher who cant cook food good enuf 2 stretch out some pussy influencing our youth

u gotta fukkin pile of those dipping cups on ur table to last a normal person a year da fukk ? sauce is supposed 2 enhance the taste not be da taste . nice job toasting the bread perfectly only 2 get both sides soggy as an adult diaper with all that 1000 island spooge . fukkin teenage eating habits die hard . . .

da fukk is dis **** ? u done done fukked it up . 1st u poast riggatony dat looks like it was floating in da red sea b4 fukkin moses got done with it cuz so much fukkin ****ty can sause and now it looks like u squeezed a fukkin walmart tomatoe over da top of dat **** . have sum fukkin respekt when coking dececco

i wan u to print ur poast out an stick it on da wall in front of ur crapper so u can read it every time ur spackling da bowl untill chit makes cents 2 fukkin cents

looks like **** . barilla is **** . if ur not gonna make fresh use dececco then talk about sauce sticking to spaghetti . ur tomatoes look like **** that came out of a can . i live in my van and can make better meals

what a gyno fukkin pussy . u 16 or something ? go eat some fresh made pasta with actual fresh made sauce (no, fukkin canned tomatoes isnt fresh) and note the diff . even **** boxxed pasta is a huge diff if u use a premium brand and not dis walmart **** barilla buck a box **** pasta that the wheat was pissed on and picked too early . show a modicum of self respect . fukkin heathen brought up on chef boyardee and pizza rolls . go make urself a totinos pizza and watch a cartoon

yea no **** pasta thats hollow will hold more sauce . lemme tell u a italian secret about rigatoni , u use it in fukkin baked ziti not canned tomato soup . . . fukkin nickelodian generation trying to cook
yea dececco . not gonna give you other choices cause can be found anywhere because adults who cook know the diff . look up al dente cause ur phaggotty ass is going to try an overcook it to mush and it resists . u will prolly come back crying dat its too hard or some **** . same reason y when u goto a real italian restaurant u don like da food . its above ur pay grade but give it a shot anyway
respket 2 u 4 wanning 2 try it without havin to smack u upside the head with an 18” dildo made of semolina

She's clearly lost interest and most likely in the process of talking to another guy. If it had been anything personal regarding herself, she would have been less dissmive and explained her reasoning (not in her best place right now etc).

But she makes zero effort to explain, connoting you are not on her mind like you should be and unfortunately this looks as though she has other "things" she's more interested in than you.

The whole "pretty girl" thing just further sinks your own ship. Sadly, women don't really work like you expect, and such a message is probably further disrespecting yourself, it probably makes her even more inclined to ignore you and view you as less of a man.

Always remember, girls may say they want the perfect fairytale nice guy, but in all reality they want the guy who treats her like he has better things going on. Women aren't attracted to men who call her beautiful and are there at her dispense whenever she wants.

You know what to do, but given how much your life obsesses about her especially after one year (she is completely aware of this) I don't think you will have the self worth and balls to call it quits. Regardless of what people say, I bet you go back and look for any excuse to gain her attention again.

It's time to start loving yourself, only then will the rest of your life truly fall into place.

Thank you. Those texts are pretty cringe dude. You will keep failing if you send those types of texts.

Yes she has lost interest and is disrespecting you. I'm going through the same thing. I can't block her because I still have her ****. I texted her about it and it took her 3 days to respond back. I'm tempted to throw the **** away.

Thank you. Those texts are pretty cringe dude. You will keep failing if you send those types of texts.

Yes she has lost interest and is disrespecting you. I'm going through the same thing. I can't block her because I still have her ****. I texted her about it and it took her 3 days to respond back. I'm tempted to throw the **** away.

There is a fuking epidemic with the way women act anymore in relationships.
Outright cruel and selfish. Ya sloots gonna sloot but this is all the time anymore.

No integrity, no morals, no loyalty just selfishness and hypergamy.
I hate the phaggot MGTOW movement but I get why some go that way.

"I'm not going to be jerked around by some chick who thinks her pussy is going to magically override my sense of self-respect. I'm not a phucking performing seal, I'm not going to do tricks to get a mouthful of fish."

Yeah, call her and tell her that you’re breaking up and that you won’t reply or write her anymore.
Then when you hang up do exactly that.

Do NOT be a huge phaggot and go NC without telling her. Only insecure trash do that.
If she doesn’t pick up the phone after you’ve tried calling a couple if times just text her “i tried calling because I wanted to say this, but you’re not picking up the phone so here it goes...”

OP, just end it for your own sanity. A GF shouldnt be causing you anxiety and lost of sleep because you worry about her too much. Maybe that is why she is losing interest? Shes a person dude.
Women want to be treated like any other person. They dont want to be babied and ****. Im not saying you do this but im just assuming. WTF she picks where she can live. She puts her clothes on every morning right? We are all going through this crisis. Stop putting women on a pedestal.

And get out ASAP so you can start to self heal. Ive been there and its not healthy. I lost so much sleep over a girl once because she was going through so much. I bet I worried more about her then she did.

Didnt read, sloots do this when they want to end relationship but dont want to be the one to break up with you. Id personally just go NC fot being a disrespectful bitch instead of calling her and ending things. Trust me she is fully aware of what shes doing Either way, you'd be a complete moron to stick around. Ppl that care about u dont act like that

Didnt read, sloots do this when they want to end relationship but dont want to be the one to break up with you. Id personally just go NC fot being a disrespectful bitch instead of calling her and ending things. Trust me she is fully aware of what shes doing Either way, you'd be a complete moron to stick around. Ppl that care about u dont act like that

She's clearly lost interest and most likely in the process of talking to another guy. If it had been anything personal regarding herself, she would have been less dissmive and explained her reasoning (not in her best place right now etc).

But she makes zero effort to explain, connoting you are not on her mind like you should be and unfortunately this looks as though she has other "things" she's more interested in than you.

The whole "pretty girl" thing just further sinks your own ship. Sadly, women don't really work like you expect, and such a message is probably further disrespecting yourself, it probably makes her even more inclined to ignore you and view you as less of a man.

Always remember, girls may say they want the perfect fairytale nice guy, but in all reality they want the guy who treats her like he has better things going on. Women aren't attracted to men who call her beautiful and are there at her dispense whenever she wants.

You know what to do, but given how much your life obsesses about her especially after one year (she is completely aware of this) I don't think you will have the self worth and balls to call it quits. Regardless of what people say, I bet you go back and look for any excuse to gain her attention again.

It's time to start loving yourself, only then will the rest of your life truly fall into place.

"Pretty girl" is just a pet name for us. Isn't any different than another guy calling his gf princess/baby/baby girl/sugar/whatever.

I'm reasonably sure she isn't talking to another guy. (I'm 99.9% sure she's just coming home from work, watching supernatural and drinking margaritas. I know for a fact she goes straight home every day with few exceptions. (I can see her phones GPS location)

Originally Posted by user3657

Thank you. Those texts are pretty cringe dude. You will keep failing if you send those types of texts.

Yes she has lost interest and is disrespecting you. I'm going through the same thing. I can't block her because I still have her ****. I texted her about it and it took her 3 days to respond back. I'm tempted to throw the **** away.

This isn't some tinder thot I'm trying to get come over. It's my girlfriend of one year. It's not cringe to have a pet name for your significant other. It's quite common. I also regularly refer to her as "My bitch" so...?

Originally Posted by DevilMayRage

There is a fuking epidemic with the way women act anymore in relationships.
Outright cruel and selfish. Ya sloots gonna sloot but this is all the time anymore.

No integrity, no morals, no loyalty just selfishness and hypergamy.
I hate the phaggot MGTOW movement but I get why some go that way.

Stay safe brahs

This isn't hypergamy. This is her being depressed, not getting help, and then neglecting me. It's still a big deal, but theres no evidence of her cheating.

Originally Posted by ZMAg

Pics of gf

they have been posted ITT.

Originally Posted by Brosnbroccoli

Yeah, call her and tell her that you’re breaking up and that you won’t reply or write her anymore.
Then when you hang up do exactly that.

Do NOT be a huge phaggot and go NC without telling her. Only insecure trash do that.
If she doesn’t pick up the phone after you’ve tried calling a couple if times just text her “i tried calling because I wanted to say this, but you’re not picking up the phone so here it goes...”

You go NC only AFTER you have told her that you’re done.

She basically isn't talking to me anyway.

Originally Posted by AppropriateGuy

Here is OP's GF I think (srs). Let me know if you want me to remove it OP.

OP, just end it for your own sanity. A GF shouldnt be causing you anxiety and lost of sleep because you worry about her too much. Maybe that is why she is losing interest? Shes a person dude.
Women want to be treated like any other person. They dont want to be babied and ****. Im not saying you do this but im just assuming. WTF she picks where she can live. She puts her clothes on every morning right? We are all going through this crisis. Stop putting women on a pedestal.

And get out ASAP so you can start to self heal. Ive been there and its not healthy. I lost so much sleep over a girl once because she was going through so much. I bet I worried more about her then she did.

I'm not babying her. Just because I'm having anxiety her safety doesn't mean I'm sharing it with her. (I did discuss her coming to stay with me if everything goes to ****, but she had been acting this way long before that.)

Originally Posted by hoganrulz

Just go semi NC as in, don't actually contact her but leave channels open then after the lockdown if you hear nothing from her, start eating ass.

Kinda what I'm doing. I think I'm probably willing to give a little bit of grace because I know she has depression, and I know COVID-19 is definitely making it worse. But this crap has been going on to some degree for longer than COVID. If she recognizes it on her own and comes to apologize to me I'll give her another shot. But I think there is like a 0.01% chance of that happening, and I'm not breaking NC until she does that.

Originally Posted by JonEh10

She’s seeing someone else sorry OP. Time to break it off and smash one of her friends

She isn't. But it's time to move on regardless.

Originally Posted by rikugunchusa

Didnt read, sloots do this when they want to end relationship but dont want to be the one to break up with you. Id personally just go NC fot being a disrespectful bitch instead of calling her and ending things. Trust me she is fully aware of what shes doing Either way, you'd be a complete moron to stick around. Ppl that care about u dont act like that

I don't know if she's aware or not. I don't think she's thought it through. But it doesn't matter and I don't care if she knows or not.

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