Messaging Guys Added to Hot List

Maybe it is a Canadian thing - not wanting to be rude; but should someone that you add to your hotlist be contacted?!I have slowly been adding guys to my list and wonder if I am being rude in not telling them why I added them (ie. you have a great smile, your write up was hilarious, etc). Thanks!Mark

teapimp saidMaybe it is a Canadian thing - not wanting to be rude; but should someone that you add to your hotlist be contacted?!I have slowly been adding guys to my list and wonder if I am being rude in not telling them why I added them (ie. you have a great smile, your write up was hilarious, etc). Thanks!Mark

MARK...I just HOT-LUSTED YOU, Because you are HOT and seated in a really nice, inviting , open and reclined position in your chair. Hope that wasn't too rude! I don't think anyone on here is going to be offended to find out that someone else thinks they are attractive for whatever reason....Hotlist at will and if you feel the urge to "message them"...feel free to do that too!ENJOY!!! Give regards to your partner!

Recently, I've had a couple of guys add me as a buddy or (surprise!) to their hotlists, but I haven't had any previous interactions with them. I usually send a thank you email and ask how I deserved the honor. I figure it's just a way to get the conversation going.

I don't hotlist many people. But I use it as a 'wink' or flirt. Also, I'd like to email these guys but I don't have time right when I see their pic, so hot listing them allows me to put them in my personal list, so I can contact them later. Then I don't have to memorize their handle.

I don't agree with Caslon about getting approval to hot list someone. It's my hotlist. By putting yourself on this site, you're consenting to be 'collected' by whoever wants you.

Sheesh, the least they can do is say thank you... so I would like to take this opportunity to check with all those who hotlisted me if you've all received your payment electronically in your respective bank accounts. Thank you

I've never asked someone if I could add them to my hotlist... maybe I should. I do, however, always try to send a thank you to guys who have added me to their list. Nothing major... just want to let them know that I appreciate the compliment.

I did not realise my first post would garner such discussion, so many comments and views! Thanks for all the feedback! I guess I will go back and write the "hotlisted"!The forum was worth it, I got "hotlusted" by a member and viewed by more than I can check out in one evening!Thanks for replying and taking the time!Mark

I don't use the hot list but I love being hot-listed. I take it as a compliment. I don't care if the guy writes me or not. Honestly, I can be forgetful about writing people back and then I feel guilty, so the less messages the better.