No need for dinner dating

30-Nov-2017 19:40

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No doubt about it: The first time a woman beds down with a guy she’s crazy about is an exciting and special time. Whatever a woman’s decision, we had to wonder: Does the double standard still exist today? They push women for sex, then blame them for having sex.

Some women are happy to get down to business the night they meet; others will wait weeks or months before doing the deed.

I know one woman who was told by an “expert” to wait 10 dates before sleeping with the man she was dating. Your sole responsibility before having sex is to figure out if he’s interested in YOU or in SEX. And if you can’t handle the emotional consequences of making an occasional mistake, you probably shouldn’t sleep with anyone until you’re in a committed relationship. “Your sole responsibility before having sex is to figure out if hes interested in YOU or in SEX.” Excellent point and one to never forget.

I repeat: Your sole responsibility before having sex is to figure out if he’s interested in YOU or in SEX. This has been my personal policy for the past three years – no committed relationship, no sex – and it’s worked very well for me.

Now, the unfortunate paradox for a woman is that she must be the chased simultaneously pursue him. It stems from a number of factors, but most prominently from the fact that men don’t know what the hell they want from us. Because they don’t know what they want, they end up chasing nothing. There are too many options so they choose an empty plate… But it will never be as we fully imagined because, in our dreams, men weren’t timid or scared little boys; in our dreams, men are the ones with the balls to ask us out.

They’ll make eye contact with you in the bar, but never come over. I’ve watched men spend an entire night talking to a girl, yet never get up the nerve to ask for her number.So we settle for the options we’ve been given and learn to work with what we have.Men, on the other hand, always seem to be waiting for something better.In a sad, but not all that surprising, report by Nickelodeon UK, men are 11 years behind women in maturity.

While women reach maturation by 32, men aren’t fully matured until 43.

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