Trending News: New Study Reveals The Secret Moves That Will Give Her An Orgasm

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Researchers have pinpointed a combination of three moves that are most likely to make her moan in ecstasy – genital stimulation, deep kissing and oral sex.

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Research into the female experience during sex is notoriously, and shamefully, lacking. It was only in the 1950s that the G-spot was “discovered.” But now just over 50 years since William Masters and Virginia Johnson controversially exposed the truth about female orgasms (hint: they exist), a new considerably-large survey has finally determined how to get a woman to orgasm. The answer: It’s complicated. Well, sort of.

A new study published in the journal Archives of Sexual Behavior looked into data collected through an online poll on the NBC News website. The survey received 52,000 respondents ranging in age from 18 and 65, all of whom were in a monogamous relationship.

What the study found out is that — contrary to popular belief — vaginal sex isn’t enough to make her climax (you should probably know that already). Rather, if you really want to make her moan, you’ll need to string together a combination of deep kissing, genital stimulation and oral sex.

Note that vaginal intercourse isn’t included at all — and that’s something most men aren’t aware of, according to study co-author Elisabeth Lloyd, a professor of biology at Indiana University.

“About 30% of men actually think that intercourse is the best way for women to have orgasm, and that is sort of a tragic figure because it couldn’t be more incorrect,” she said, according to The Guardian. “To say that there needs to be some education I think is an understatement.”

Of course, even if you deploy the “golden trio” it won´t guarantee an orgasm. Women aren´t that simple. Men, on the other hand, pretty much are.

I don't think you should fake orgasm. But if you do, a pretty convincing face is "scandalized by the price of a $17 wedge of cheese."

According to the research, 95% of heterosexual men reported that they usually or always orgasm during sex, while just 65% of heterosexual women did. For LGBTQ+ couples, the study showed that 89% of gay men usually orgasm, 86% of lesbian women, 88% of bisexual men and 66% of bisexual women.

And it doesn’t matter what you do or don’t do during sex, whether it’s playing music, saying "I love you," or changing positions, guys still climax, while for women it’s a maybe.

Your best bet to find out what works is to — news flash — communicate with your partner. That´ll give you the absolute best chances, according to lead author David Frederick from Chapman University.

“Women really are tremendously variable in how readily they orgasm and what makes one woman orgasm can be quite different than what makes another woman orgasm,” he said. “Explicit and direct communication with one’s partner is key.”

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