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International Women's Day

Today is International women's day. We are wishing each other. We are expressing and sharing our thoughts with each other. Women are equal with men, we all are person, we all are human, we have super strength, we can win everything, we are perfect, etc. Yes we are right, we can do anything but are we really perfect ? I am not sure about this. When it will be materialized then half of our problems will be solved. Because we are very much experienced with this situation that maximum time the problems of women are arising from women. It may be at home, it may be at working place. Actually, from maid to madam everybody are suffering from various problems who all are creating problems they have no genders. Problem creator for women, hater of women, rumor monger for women are all mischief or evil spirit of individual. They have no particular gender. When one newly married woman come to in- laws house then maximum problems arising for her from her mother-in-law or sister- in -law. Even when one woman is very happy with her husband then who all are jealous of it maximum number of time? Surely they are your surroundings women. Many a times we can realize that our bosom friends always criticize their husband in front of our husband, “my husband is so orthodox, my husband love to eat but hate to help in cooking, my husband is so miser, my husband is so lazy, always love to sleep” etc. Yes, sometimes friend's mission is success. She brilliantly succeeded in replacing her imagination condition in reality in my family. Same thing is also happening in working place. Always an unhealthy competition is going on. We have sufficient knowledge to realize it. So, there is no need of explaining it. Sometimes we see that two educated women staying side by side but they have no unity with each other but they love to talk on globalization, on mental purification, on beautiful relation, social transformation, etc. But they forget ‘charity begins at home’.Sometimes we can see somebody is announcing themselves as a feminist but in reality they are very busy in filling their own bags of material happiness. Even they feel jealous of other women's happiness. They have no time to listen to the poor condition of their own maid who is snatched of her hard earned money and gets beaten by her drunk husband every evening. This is the status of some so called feminist. This feminist is an opportunist.All these are bitter truth. But we are facing this reality everyday.When a woman is beaten by her husband then nobody is with her. Everybody try to put the blame on that woman; When a girl is raped then nobody is with her. Everybody try to blame that girl.We can see that victims are becoming more neglected than accused. This is the reality of our modern society. From Maid to Madam, we all are suffering from these problems. Rapist has no gender. Accused has no gender. All of these are done by evil or mischievous individuals.From my experience I have written one poem on the problem of woman.The poem is----We are PersonWhen man (husband) is working outside,And woman (wife) is working inside,Then everybody is comfortable with this situation.Nobody feel any pain with this tradition.One is earning money for home,And another one is spending time for home,Then everybody is happy with this condition.When man is working outside,And woman also is working outside,Both are earning money for home,But only woman is working at home,Then everybody also is happy with this condition.But when woman is working outside,And man is working inside,Then nobody is happy with this condition.Everybody wants to go with tradition.They are very worried with the nontraditional work of person.After that so called traditional moderns wish for the equality of women on woman’s day.Then my mind thinks nontraditional honest work is far better than fake wishing on this auspicious day.We are men and women, we all are equal and we all are ‘person’.Nobody has right to create the discrimination.We should be more unified. We have super strength we can do that, we should try to be each other's protector if we want we can do that. We should love each other if we want we can do that, our humanity will make us perfect and if we want we can do that because basically we are real. Perfection is the principle quality of real being. We all are real but for our insufficient knowledge it has been covered and consequently we follow all those wrong paths.We should be unified against all these:No more Female foeticide;No more female infanticide; No more dowry;No more domestic violence; No more sexual harassment; No more mental harassment; No more rape;No more old age home.Women should first respect every woman's reality.I would like to do it, would you? If yes then just stretch your hands and embrace each other and promise, “Yes I am always with you”, this unity will be our real strength. If you give me assurance that you are with me then I will be free from fear.If you give me assurance that you are with me then I will get strength from your support. If you give me assurance that you are with me then I will win over every worry.If you give me assurance that you are with me then I will be detached from each discrimination.So when we will stands for each other then certainly we will be able to remove all types of discrimination and will enjoy equality.

My good thoughts for you are your strength. Your good thoughts for me are my strength. Our unity only will bring our social growth.We can do it because we have super strength. So in the conclusion I would like to say that I love to wish a very happy women's day to all those human beings who have good thoughts and good hearts.