To: Izzie
Not interested in the devirginizing part...but it SHOULD be special regardless! With someone you really like because then the sex will be so amazing- it feels like the best drug ever created. Good Luck! : )

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x. I am straight but fantasize about women all the time. Am I gay? Bi? Maybe. Maybe not. This is something only you can figure out. We can't tell you because we don't know you. Find a therapist or support group for questioning people. If there isn't near you, there are plenty of Google-able resources on-line, which will provide far better answers than you'll get on an internet board. If you decide to have sex with another woman, this won't necessarily answer the question. It's more complicated than that. If you have sex with another woman without your husband's knowledge, then you're just plain cheating. x. I'm a man, and I have a question about lesbians… We can't speak for all lesbians nor would we attempt to. Everyone has individual character traits and preferences - lesbian, straight, bi or trans. Also, as this is a forum for women, no matter how great your lesbian friends tell you you are this really isn't the place for this. x. Why are you so mean to new people? An astounding number of new people end up being trolls, most of them men. Until you spend some time here establishing that you're not, it's understandable that we'll be on guard before discussing sexuality with you. We do our part to keep this forum from becoming as useless and juvenile as most other forums. x. How do I meet girls? The same way you meet boys. Go places where they are. Use your charms on them. They'll either respond or they won't. There's no secret strategy. x. How do I tell if this girl is gay? How do you tell if she's straight? You don't. There's no sure-fire test. The more experienced you become, the more nuances you'll pick up on, but you won't always be right. x. Why do you bitches hate bisexuals?!! We don't. Many of us are bisexual. Most of us merely loathe cheaters. What we hate is people coming on here (when they really should post on the personals page) and treating us like an escort service for bored married women who want to experiment behind their husband's back. It's insulting, whatever your orientation. If you have a polyamorous relationship, you're still on the wrong board. See #x below. x. Hottt girl wanted for hottt sexxx.. Wanna hook up? No. Not here anyway. This is a discussion forum. Hookups belong on Casual Encounters on your local personals page