Length enough for the Mrs., not reached my goal. Continue?

Length enough for the Mrs., not reached my goal. Continue?

Well, I have been doing PE for 1 year and 9 months by now and achieved a length gain of 1.3”. Starting at 5.9” and am now 7.2” (BPEL). Not bad at all and I am not far from my length goal which is 7.5”.

No reason to stop now…but for that my wife think it is enough as I kind of bottom her out already. Not really hurting her but I like to go ball deep and push hard and here is where I might run into a problem if I gain more in length. So, the question is if I should reach for my goal or leave it as is? What would you do? Can another 0.3” really make a lot difference for her? This is perhaps the first problem I have ran into by not doing stealth PE:) .

Well, I have been doing PE for 1 year and 9 months by now and achieved a length gain of 1.3”. Starting at 5.9” and am now 7.2” (BPEL). Not bad at all and I am not far from my length goal which is 7.5”.

No reason to stop now…but for that my wife think it is enough as I kind of bottom her out already. Not really hurting her but I like to go ball deep and push hard and here is where I might run into a problem if I gain more in length. So, the question is if I should reach for my goal or leave it as is? What would you do? Can another 0.3” really make a lot difference for her? This is perhaps the first problem I have ran into by not doing stealth PE:) .

If she wants me to gain in girth instead? You bet! :D

Find a bigger woman lol?

If you bottom out in every position I’m certain you will be able to fit that extra 0.3 in most positions and I’m sure she will get used to it

Anyway it’s up to you I guess you can keep doing pe and watch her reaction to it, if she starts to not like it, stop doing PE. If she loves it more, keep doing pe, easy.

05-03-2010, 08:25 PM

Acid Jazz

Steel,

I’d listen to what she is saying. You are now in the top 10% in length. I suggest you get on the girth train. Get to 5.5 in girth, and see how she responds. ( I bet it would be with eyes crossed and a smile on her face :) )

Paraphrased: It is not the critic who counts: The credit belongs to the man in the arena, whose face is marred by dust and sweat and blood, who strives valiantly, who errs and comes up short again and again, who, at the best, knows the triumph of high achievement, and who, at the worst, if he fails, at least he fails while daring greatly, so that his place shall never be with those cold and timid souls who knew neither victory nor defeat.

05-03-2010, 08:39 PM

marinera

I agree with AJ.

05-03-2010, 08:49 PM

erissoup

I agree. I am also in the same situation. I am a firm believer that girth is more important to women than length. My GF does not want any more length since I hit places that hurt her but she would like more girth. But .3” is not that much more and if it will make you feel better do it! I think I am just going to focus on girth and take any length gains that come along.

Start 2007: 6.75" BPEL-4.9" EGMS- 5.5" Base Girth

Current: 7" BPEL-5.1" EGMS- 5.8" Base Girth

Goal: 7.5" BPEL-6.5" EGMS- 7" Base Girth

Last edited by erissoup : 05-03-2010 at 08:57 PM.

05-03-2010, 08:50 PM

mgus

I think tntjockey has posted here and there about his sexlife going into a downwards spiral after having nearly reached his goal - sex being good but scarce, as I recall.

Taped onto the dashboard of a car at a junkyard, I once found the following: "Good judgement comes from experience. Experience comes from bad judgement." The car was crashed.

Primary goal: To have an EQ above average (i.e. streetsmart, compassionate about life and happy) Secondary goal: to make an anagram of my signature denoting how I feel about my gains

05-03-2010, 08:56 PM

Pillars

Ive hurt my girl plenty of times but she has still shown intrest in more length simply because when Im deep inside her I can hit a very nice spot.

05-03-2010, 10:32 PM

e211

I am also in a similar situation. When I’m at EQ 10 im at or a little over 7 ELBP. My girlfriend has started saying things like “it feels huge and like you’re going to dilate my cervix.” It makes me feel like a stud but I sense a twinge of confusion on her part as to why I’m banging more and more into her cervix and reservations toward certain positions and thrust intensity. Some days she’ll be like don’t put it in all the way yet. I don’t want to lose out on sex because I’m hurting my girlfriend. I think once u go over 7 inches you really have to make a decision as to whether you want to go for 8 and let up on the pounding or just focus on length. I am no where near maxed out on girth for her(at least that’s my impression-im not asking her!)But I am overshooting to 7.5 because I don’t want to lose length if I only go for girth.

05-03-2010, 11:31 PM

onenekkidguy

Oh man, I’m right there with you! My wife has told me to stop but I just can’t right yet. I am very close to my goal of 7.5 BPEL and I know I shouldn’t bother, but just cannot stop. She has adjusted nicely but tells me it’s more work now and that makes her hesitant sometimes. We have great sex and she has mind blowing orgasms, so it’s not way too much yet…

Once I hit 7.5, I’ll do a few months of maintenance. If I lose any after that, then I’ll consider it a sign that it wasn’t meant to be.

I suggest (like others did) to focus on girth now. Some additional length gains may come also from girth-related routines, like jelqing. This way you allow mrs. to get accustomed to the new size and at any time you can resume length work, if you feel so.

Starting BPEL: 6.9" (Dec.1st, 2008)

Current BPEL: 8.11" NBPEL: 7.63" BPFSL: 9.09"

Current MEG : 5.6"

05-04-2010, 01:57 PM

enamoured

Hey man if you plan on having kids. Don’t. Long dicks plus hard thrusts equals (POSSIBILITY) of serious cervix trauma that may spell either infection or a case of injury on one of the most important parts of a woman body.

Yeah it feels great and all, HUGE EGO boost. WIFEY feels like she can almost see heaven but in the end it’s not just SEX it’s about sex with a person you care about. And you have to consider that.

Cheers man

05-04-2010, 10:21 PM

litos89

I think 7.2inch it’s great.

05-05-2010, 05:01 AM

Dxero

If she’s happy and that is enough for you to be happy with your length then go for girth.. 7+ is more than enough :) especially starting from where you did.

S: 5.9'' x 5.25'' BPEL x EG [Vol=184cm³] (2015-10-01)

C: 6.4'' x 5.5'' BPEL x EG [Vol=232cm³] (2016-04-20)

G: 9.5'' x 6.00'' BPEL x EG [Vol=423cm³] (?-?-?)

05-05-2010, 05:42 AM

Steelfire

Thanks for all replies!

I know it is enough and perhaps also stupid to continue. But once I set a goal, I kind of want to achieve it! Especially if I have strived for it a long time.

Even though I see in the statistics that I am now into the top 10%, I don’t feel like I am. Obviously, it is longer and if I do the comparison at the http://www.thevisualiser.net/ site, the change from my starting point is great! But still, I don’t feel big. Perhaps due to that I am not that girthy.

My plan was to use May for length exercise but I think I will only do some light training permanent the gains. I have lost length before and wish to keep it!

It will be girth from now and I am not far off from my 5.5” goal. Hopefully, I can reach it this year.