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Caitlyn

If you're wondering who I am, I am 20 years old and a recent college grad. I love to act, dance, read, write, and sing. For me, these are all forms of worship to my Jesus. I love action movies, sci-fi, crime dramas, and romantic comedies, and I am pretty much obsessed with Ted Dekker novels. I am a relentless God chaser, a daughter of the King, and the beloved bride of Jesus Christ.

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Hey, girls! A Beauty Glorious is a place for mainly teen girls - although anyone is welcome - where we can talk about what it means to be young women and daughters of God.

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Followers

I have a confession: sometimes I think I have a pretty good understanding of God’s heart for me. He loves me unconditionally, he calls me his beloved and his favorite one, he wants to use me to change the world, I get all that. Or at least I think I do. Every now and then, though, God reveals a whole new dimension of love to me, and I can’t help but be overwhelmed all over again.

There was a time a few months ago at a youth leadership meeting when the pastor asked us to take a few quiet minutes to imagine in our own minds what God thinks of us. What came into my mind was, “God is delighted in me, but he is eager for me to grow.”

The pastor then asked us to actually ask God what he thinks of us. I didn’t think God’s answer would be much different from mine, but he surprised me. What I believe God told me was, “I am delighted in you, and so I am eager for you to grow.”

I was floored. There’s a huge difference, isn’t there? I had been feeling like God was saying, “I love you, and the way you’re living now is a good start, but not quite what I had in mind. You’re still not quite measuring up.”

But that is so NOT the truth! What God really says to me is more like, “I LOVE YOU! I’m so proud of you, you’re doing great! Keep it up, I can’t wait to take you further!”

I mess up, I do stupid things, and I don’t do what I know I should be doing, but he still smiles when he looks at me. He is still so excited and proud when I keep trying!

I don’t understand this. My tendency is always to imagine that God is up in heaven somewhere shaking his head and saying, “Oh, Caitlyn, Caitlyn, Caitlyn. You sure blew that one,” and then I have to go him like a dog with its tail tucked between its legs to repent so he can stop being disappointed in me.

I’m not trying to say that sin isn’t a big deal; it is. And I’m not trying to say that repentance isn’t serious and important; it is. But my sin never surprises God. It doesn’t shock him, and it doesn’t disappoint him, as if he had his hopes up expecting me to do the right thing and then I let him down. He already knew. The day he wrote my name in his book, he already knew exactly how many sins I was going to commit over the course of my life. He already knew exactly how many sins his blood would cover. He didn’t say, “Ah, Caitlyn looks promising! She could be pretty awesome if she doesn’t screw this up.”

He already knew. And still he chose me just the same.

Because here’s the deal: he sees me through the veil of Jesus’ blood--his holiness. He looks at me and he sees the person he made me to be. That’s what forgiveness is all about. He knows he’s still helping me work through my junk, but since he sees all times at once, he can look at me and see who I will be a thousand years from now, when I am in heaven and not struggling with all this anymore. Isn’t that a crazy thought.

What blows my mind is this: My failing and struggling and trying and falling does not lessen God’s delight in me. Let me say that again:

My struggling does not lessen God’s delightin me!

I thrill his heart! Even when I’m all tangled up with my junk and I’m so frustrated at myself, he still looks at me and calls me beautiful. That’s a miracle, right there.

In fact, it’s the struggle that he loves! He loves it when I don’t just give up and give in to sin but keep wrestling with it, because that struggle proves my love for him. I screw up far too often, and my love might be shaky at times, but God knows that it’s genuine. He gets so excited when I come back again

and again

and again

and again

and again

and again because that’s me reaching out for him. It would be so much easier to just write myself off as a failed Christian and just decide to live however I want, rather than trying over and over and over. It’s hard to try over and over and over! And God loves it when I do the hard things for him.

Here’s the kicker: God’s not just putting up with me. Nor is he giving grace just because he’s God and that’s what he does. It’s true, grace is part of God’s nature, but there’s more than that.

He wants me. He actually wants to be with me. Not only does he love me, he really likes me! (Have you ever said about someone, “I may love him, but I don’t have to like him”? Not God.) He is completely infatuated with me. He dances over me. He loves to hang out with me. He wants to hang out with me for all eternity!

I make his heart smile. I make God’s heart smile, just by being me!

And that is a truth that will keep me coming back, again

and again

and again

and again

and again

and again.

These thoughts were pretty directly inspired by some things I’ve been discovering through Misty Edwards, particularly her prophetic song “I Knew What I Was Getting Into.” Below is the video and the transcript.

(starting at 1 minute)

Listen, my beloved

Listen, my beloved

Listen, my beloved ones, in whom I am well pleased

Listen, my beloved ones

I knew what I was getting into when I called you

And I am not surprised with you now

I knew what I was getting into you

When I said your name

And still I said it just the same

I know you better that you do

I knew what I was getting into when I chose you

I chose you still

I knew what I was getting into

I know you’re afraid

And I remember that you are but dust

But I know where this is going

I knew what I was getting into when I called you

I don’t regret it

I am not shocked by your struggle

I am not put off by your struggle

I am not disgusted or ashamed of you

No

I knew what I was getting into when I chose you

And I said,

“He is my vessel, he is my chosen one

She’s my vessel, she’s my chosen one”

You see, it’s not about you

It’s all about me

I chose you and that’s enough

And I’m gonna bring you forth in love

I’m gonna bring you to the end

I’m gonna bring you to the end in strength

Cause I see strength in you

When all that you can see inside of you is your own weakness

Oh, but I see the end from the beginning

And I know where this is going

And you’ve barely just begun

But you see, you see,

So few will ever fight the good fight

At least you’re fighting

Even when you feel you’re losing

So few will ever enter into the battle

But you refuse to quit

And this is all I ask

This is all I ask

So few will ever look back at me and say,

“I really want to love you!”

But you say it every day, every day

You say, “I really want to love you!”

And you cry

And you say, “I’m so sinful, and I’m so full of compromise!”

And I see your confession and it’s real

And I still believe those vows you make, you break

You make, you break

I still believe in you

I knew what I was getting into when I called you

And I called you just the same

I knew what I was getting into when I beckoned you

And I still beckon you today

I am not surprised by your struggle

No

I am not disgusted by your discovery

You’re the one that is surprised

In your pride you thought that you were better than that

Listen

I see the seeds of righteousnessin you

I’ve clothed you with the blood of my Son

And its enough

It’s enough, it’s enough

Why are you trying to get in a room you’re already in?

You’re already in

I am not surprised

I know you better than you know yourself

And you say “yes” and so few do

Who is this, who is this, who is this who’s beautiful as Tirzah

Awesome as Jerusalem

Awesome as an army with banners?

Who is this?

Lovely as Jerusalem

Beautiful as Tirzah

Who is this?

Look away from me

Your eyes, they overwhelm me

Yes, your eyes, your eyes, they overwhelm me

I sympathize with you

I know you’re in a dark night of faith

And yet you still have faith and so few do

You are my favorite one

You're the only one I see

You’re the only one, my favorite one

You’ve ravished me

Dare to believe

I know you’re disappointed with the way your life is coming down

And bitterness is trying to bind you like a plague

But you fought

And you fight

And you press on

And you push

And you long

And you reach

And you mourn

And you hunger

And you thirst

That’s all I ask of you

It’s all I ask of you

It’s all I ask of you

It’s all I ask of you

Do you know the way this moves me?

You’ve ruined me

You’ve ruined me

Nothing can overwhelm me, but you overwhelm me

Your eyes are like doves’ eyes

Your eyes are like doves’ eyes

You think that you waver in your vision

Oh, but you come back again and again and again and again

You didn’t give up, you didn’t give in

You didn’t let shame pull you down

You didn’t just hang up and say, “I can’t do it; it’s too hard.”

You didn’t accuse me of being too hard, no

You said, “I wanna try again.”

You got up again and again and again

You repented again and again and again

It’s all I ask of you

It’s all I ask of you

Just don’t give up

And don’t give in

If you don’t quit

You’ll live

Angels, oh angels, gather round

Angels, oh angels, look and see

Through that dark night of faith she’s still choosing me

Angels, oh angels, oh angels, gather round

As he spins around wildly rejoicing

Rejoicing

As he spins around wildly singing

She said yes

He said yes

She said yes

He said yes

He said yes

Again and again and again and again and again

He chosehumility when he was overlooked

He chose humility when he was misunderstood

He chose humility when he was falsely accused

She chose humility when she was disappointed

She said no to bitterness

And when she was so afraid, she got up again

Look, angels, look

Angels, angels, angels, look and see

Oh, the way they move me

Tell them the way they move me

Hephzibah

Beulah

Tell them the way they move me

Hephzibah

Beulah

My delight is in you

I’m married to you

It’s more than just mercy

You’re not a project to make me look good

There’s more than only mercy working here

I don’t just feel sorry for you

I want you

I want you

I want you

I want you

I want you

You’ve ravished me

You’ve ravished my heart

I want you

I want you

I love you

I like you

I delight in you

You’re the object of my affection

You’re the center of my world

You are the apple of my eye

There’s more than just pity

You are the apple of my eye

You’re the center of my world

You’re the only one

You’re the favorite one

Who is this who’s beautiful as Tirzah

Lovely as Jerusalem

Awesome as an army with banners?

Turn your eye away

Your eye has overwhelmed me

Who is this?

Beautiful as Tirzah

Lovely as Jerusalem

Awesome as an army with banners

I see strength in you

You see your weakness

I see strength in you

I know the end from the beginning

I know where this thing is going

You do love me

I know you love me

I know you love me even more than you know you love me

I know you love me

And I was not surprised by you

Oh, no, no, no, no, no

I knew what I was getting into when I called you

And still I called you

I knew what I was getting into when I beckoned you

And still I’m beckoning today

I knew what I was getting into

And I knew this would work in you humility

And humility is of greater value to me than even your perfection right now

Humility is the only way to perfection anyway

I knew what I was getting into when I called you

Still I call you

And I am not shocked by you

I’m not disgusted, no

Quite the opposite

You’ve ravished me

You’ve ravished me

Oh

Will you marry me?

Will you take my name?

And all that’s yours will be mine

And all that’s mine is yours

Will you marry me?

Will you take my name?

And all that’s yours is mine

And all that’s mine is yours

It’s yours

And I am sure of this, that he who began ﻿a good work in you will bring it to completion at ﻿the day of Jesus Christ.

--Philippians 1:6 ESV

Declaring the end from the beginning and from ancient times things not yet done, saying, ﻿‘My counsel shall stand, and I will accomplish all my purpose,’

--Isaiah 46:10 ESV

You are beautiful as ﻿Tirzah, ﻿my love,

lovely as ﻿Jerusalem,

﻿awesome as an army with banners.

Turn away your eyes from me,

for they overwhelm me

--Song of Songs 6:4 ESV

You have captivated [ravished] my heart, my sister, my bride; you have captivated my heart with one glance of your eyes, with one jewel of your necklace.

--Song of Songs 4:9 ESV

Behold, you are fair, my love; behold, you are fair; you have doves' eyes.

--Song of Songs 1:15 AKJV

The Lord your God is in your midst, a mighty one who will save; ﻿he will rejoice over you with gladness; he will quiet you by his love; he will exult over you with loud singing.

--Zephaniah 3:17 ESV

Never again will you be called “The Forsaken City”or “The Desolate Land.”Your new name will be “The City of God’s Delight" [Hebrew: Hephzibah] and “The Bride of God," [Hebrew: Beulah] for the LORD delights in you and will claim you as his bride.--Isaiah 62:4 NLT

Like a young man taking a virgin as his bride, He who formed you will marry you. As a groom is delighted with his bride, so your God will delight in you.--Isaiah 62:5 GNT