"You never know how strong you are until being strong is all you have left"

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RyeBread♂ 37437Member # 37437

Posted: 11:39 AM, May 17th (Friday), 2013

Rehashing past hurts/resentments is definitely a relationship killer. Sometimes I think moving on is better than being stuck.

Hugs

Let him that would move the world first move himself. - Socrates

Posts: 1057 | Registered: Nov 2012 | From: Midwest

peridot♀ 18334Member # 18334

Posted: 12:11 PM, May 17th (Friday), 2013

(((Faithful w/Love)))

I think...therefore, I'm single.

It is what it is.

Posts: 4879 | Registered: Feb 2008

Phoenix1♀ 38928Member # 38928

Posted: 1:33 PM, May 17th (Friday), 2013

POS and I really never fought about anything, which was good. Unfortunately, we never talked about any problems in any way. That meant everything was swept under the rug. The kids NEVER heard us fight, ever, in all the years we were together. Yet the rugsweeping was just as lethal to our relationship as it meant resentment just kept building over the years (for me). For him, he felt that it was simply okay to ignore the past mistakes, pretend it didn't happen, and move on (to new mistakes). Either extreme is unhealthy in a relationship.