There is a popular expression that begins with: I’d do anything for............ Usually, it is not meant too seriously, like a person might say, “I’d do anything for an In and Out Burger right now.” Well, I really don’t think the person would do anything even though an “In and Out Burger” does indeed merit great sacrifice.

Sometimes the popular expression, “I’d do anything for you,” is used as part of a marriage proposal. The sentiments are lovely, but the reality contains an awful lot of “excepts”. You know, like, “I’d do anything for you except let you control the remote, or except let your sister move in with us, or except miss today’s football game so we can go curtain shopping.” Or a wife might say, “I’d do anything for you except let you keep that lousy old college shirt, and your high school junk.”

The expression, I’d do anything for you was far closer to reality when you held your babies. People will do anything for their children because they love them so much. That might mean working two jobs, sitting through a dance recital (“Oh, good, my seven year old is only number 83 on the program”), and saving all you can for their college. There are few limits to what you would do for your children. Even when you choose some “me time” it is basically to help you be a better Mom or Dad.

The way you all feel about your children when you say, “I’d do anything for them,” gives us a faint idea of how God feels about us.

He’d do anything for us.

And he did.

God so loved the world that he gave his only begotten Son so that all who believe in him might not perish but may have eternal life.

God gave his son to us as a Complete Gift. He was completely ours to treasure, to find the Father through, or, sadly, to ignore and even to put to death. And human beings did put Jesus to death in the most horrible way possible, execution through the torture that was crucifixion.

Today we celebrate this special feast, the Exaltation of the Holy Cross. The Son joined the Father’s love in doing anything for us. The feast is the exaltation of the cross because it is a demand that we recognize that this symbol of death and misery has become one of life and victory.

Jesus’ death on the cross restored our capacity to have eternal life. The power of the Crossis that on the Cross, Life Destroyed Death, and Love destroyed hate.

This is totally counter cultural. Our culture asks us to accept the absurdity that physical might and financial strength are the signs of a powerful nation or a powerful person. But who were the most powerful people of the last century? Perhaps you might think Hitler, Stalin, FDR, or Churchill. I would disagree. Two of the most powerful people of the last century were both based in India: Mahatma Gandhi and Saint Theresa of Calcutta. Both were poor. Both were lovers of all that is right and just. Gandhi shamed the mighty British Empire into giving India independence. Saint Theresa shamed us all into recognizing our responsibility towards the poorest of the poor. The leaders of the world found that it was easier to deal with a powerful capitalist than it was to argue with Mother Theresa. We also should add Saint John Paul II to those who conquer through the cross. John Paul II’s life demonstrated the Power of the Cross.

We should never wear a cross as a piece of jewelry, even if we wear a gold cross. We should wear a cross as a sign that we are committed to Christ’s way, the way of sacrificial love. We should wear a cross as a sign that our ideal is to choose that which brings love into the world regardless of the personal cost. Love and love alone defeats hatred and, ultimately, death.

We should wear a cross as a personal reminder that even when the cost of one of our sacrifices seems terribly high and even when we can not see and may not see the good that has come from the sacrifice, we still have faith that the power of the Cross, the power of Sacrificial Love will prevail.

We should wear the cross as a sign of our commitment to a living faith and our hope that even if we die, as we all will, we will still share the eternal life of God.

We should wear the cross as a statement to ourselves and to others. The statement is simple: this is how God loved the world.

msgr. Arthur a. holquin, s.t.L.

Msgr. Art was ordained to the priesthood on May 25, 1974 for service in the Archdiocese of Los Angeles. Shortly after the creation of the new Diocese of Orange in 1976, he completed post-graduate work at the Catholic University of Louvain in Belgium, obtaining an S.T.L. in Sacramental Theology and an M.A. in Religious Studies. He has served the Diocese in a number of ministerial capacities: Director for the Office of Worship, Director for the Office of Evangelization, Rector of Holy Family Cathedral and finally, Pastor and Rector of Mission Basilica San Juan Capistrano. In 2009 he contracted a rare neurological condition (Primary Lateral Sclerosis) that gradually impacted his walking and speech. In 2014 he was named Rector Emeritus of the Basilica parish and continues as Episcopal Vicar for Divine Worship in the Diocese and is one of the liturgical consultants on the Christ Cathedral renovation project that will be completed in 2019. Msgr. Art’s favorite quotation is from Blessed Henry Cardinal Newman: To live is to change and to be perfect is to have changed often.