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The Screaming—Good Vs Bad

Crying tears of joy and laughing at bad news are common problems and researchers have finally found out why we do it. They say the key is our brain trying to compensate. And as one was browsing the net, one finds out two similar statements, but posted by two different personalities, which goes like, Thomas Fuller said, we are born crying, live complaining, and die disappointed. Samuel Johnson said, man alone is born crying, lives complaining and dies disappointed. And when we are born, we have no defenses against the world—physical, intellectual or spiritual elements of life. The point is not about plagiarism, but to discuss on what that screaming delivers to life.

When babies are borne, they cry, and they tell something since such screaming is bestowed by the natural process of life in which one could connect as to how this world relates screaming due to the fact that very nature and character of screaming into the real life in which when people face bad things or they are in displeasing circumstances of life, they scream. People also scream when they are excited in life or something good things visit their life. It is not here possible to deliver some kind of authoritative or any other meaning as to that given screaming, except peoples’ own perception and judgment they obtain in life which merely depend on what their experience and understanding dictate in life.

Accordingly, people scream when they are in two given conditions and features of life. The first condition is when they are in bad conditions of life. The second one is when they are in state of joy and happy times. In both conditions, they scream or cry but what matters on how and when they scream. Hence, the tone and intensity of screaming differ as per the nature and state of being they are in. In such scenarios of life, adults, not only babies cream though, it is very hard to correlate the screaming of babies into that of the adults.

However, scientist claim that such crying is related as there is a bypass between the heart and lungs that help the child get their nutritional from the mom’s blood. When the baby is born and the umbilical cord delivers the blood and the oxygen that the baby needs. The baby takes their first breath the circulation of the blood changes and the crying helps open the circulation that now sends the oxygen through the lungs. The crying opens up the lungs. The slap on the back or the rear is to encourage the baby to switch to breathing air. The baby first cry brings them into the world of breathing.

Psycho-therapy advises screaming as good, and one can find out different patterns and methods which people should face as they have developed stages and processes of such life such as, Step 1: Be Alone — Be alone. If you live in a place that you can’t be alone, it might be a good idea to talk to your family or roommates and explain to them what you’re about to do and make sure they’re okay with it. If you’re good to go, move on to step 2. Step 2: Lie Down — Lie down on a yoga mat on your back and place a pillow underneath your head. If you don’t own a yoga mat, you can use a rug or even a soft blanket.

Step 3: Think — think of things that have hurt you or made you angry. It can be anything from your childhood or even something that happened recently to make yourself cry, if you’re not already crying or upset. You could even scream “Mommy! Daddy!” Step 4: Scream — don’t hold anything back; cry and scream as loud as you can. You can also pound your fists on the ground, or just lie there and scream at the top of your lungs.

Screaming helps both babies and adults as per that given nature and character of their age and experience of existence since zero years of experience in screaming is quite different than a screaming that is come after many years of life. Both are screaming, but the character and message they deliver are quite different. In both cases, there is loud noise, muscle stretching or activities and other parts and organs of the body are quite busy in entertaining such screaming.

People scream with joy, people scream with horrifying things of life. However, it is quite difficult to relate such screaming of babies to neither joy or excitement nor to anger or horrifying things of this world since the baby is not pretty much aware of what is going on this plane of existence. When pope are in pain or stressful conditions of life, they could connect those screaming of life as the way they are now and the same is true when they are in happy state of being since in both conditions, screaming is always there though the tone quite differs.

Man alone is born crying, lives complaining and dies disappointed. This statement is quite related to one aspect of the process of life in which such screaming is related to the continuous flow from one stage to another stages of the human way of life in which every actions and reactions of the other side of the coin of life, which is the bad one, in which every action and reaction of life is understood and interpreted in the negative process of life. This is one aspect of the human way life.

Man alone is borne crying, lives contemplating and meditation on the process of life and dies with decent satisfaction and accomplishments of life. This is also another aspect of the human way of life in which such way of the human way of life is always possible and people pass different stages of existence and process of life, people get focus; People choose their given way of life as per their given choices and decisions they make, since they always have power and choice to change the course of life into everything they like and they want to create, make and reach.