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Monday Motivation: Optimism

Ok my little pandas, this Monday motivation is brought to you by the word, optimism.

Last night, I was super bummed that the weekend had gone by so quick again. It’s like I let out an exhale on Friday and before the next inhale, it somehow magically turned into Sunday night. Isn’t that always the case? This quickness makes me feel like I’m not cramming enough in to my days. Like I’m not being productive enough. And then, just like that, my mood wavers to the rockier side of the seas, which in turn makes me get a little doubtful with myself. Negativity eventually swoops in and I find myself wishing certain things in my life had turned out differently. I’m not ashamed to admit that I mope on certain occasions. In fact, I used to really mope hard. A hardcore moper. Is there even such a thing?

Even though I don’t show it, I’m an emotional person who takes failures upon herself and doesn’t know how to woosah the fuck out! Initially I used to wallow in this mopey state. But it turns out that too much pent up negativity, causes stress and in my case, panic attacks. So I decided to start being as optimistic as possible. And do you know something? It’s made me calmer. I can think more rationally as opposed to dealing with things by a brain that was fuelled by emotions. It’s a nice feeling at the end of the day.

So this week we are all going to try and be more positive than we have been. If your job sucks, don’t worry. You will either quit and find a new one or better yet, start your own business. If you need to lose a few extra pounds, just remember to take one day at a time. Sometimes looking at the bigger picture makes you miss the tiny details that are oh so important. If your man is not treating you with the respect that you most definitely deserve, don’t worry, you will find the strength to move away from that situation. Because you will realise that you are a beautiful, amazing and genuine person who does not need people dragging you down. This also applies to friends who have made it all about them. If it’s not a two way street, then you’re gonna have to ditch-a-bitch. Simple as. The whole point is to rid your life of any negativity and in doing so, you will see that you won’t have much to worry about. I can’t even tell you what a freeing feeling it is. To not have drama. Man, it feels good!

What I’m really trying to sputter out is that life is a chaotic mess at times. But the more you de-clutter and the more positivity you push out there, the more good vibes you will receive in return. Trust me.