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A great question to ponder. In my world a good marriage is about as rare as a Texas Lottery ticket winner, and I wonder that same question every day. I know there are happy winners of the Lottery but for every winner there are millions of loosers so I always ponder why and what and how.

Defining a marriage is very important.. Make sure you dont feel owned or that your spouse does not feel as he owns or possesses you ... It should be equal, giving and loving with both cups full and freely filled by each other. Each couple realizing that they are with each other by free will and choice, not just by a document of marriage, or contract. I think that as long as we respect that we are individuals in marriage by choice we wont feel so.. chained or ask the question “Why am I married” ?