Its after the deployments you have to worry about. I'm with a military police officer with 2 tours and he's very temperamental. Its really draining the relationship. I hope everything is working out for you!

I've never personally had experience with anyone coming out of BMT abusive or controlling. My guy was more out going and less shy when he was done with BMT but nothing bad as far as how he treated me. We would get into arguments while he was in tech school about him going out or not paying enough attention to me but we resolved them.

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