How to Talk So Kids Will Listen (Part Four): Alternatives to Punishment (Part B)

When a parent has tried the alternative to punishment described in our last segment, it means the problem is more complex than it originally appeared. In such cases, a more complex approach is required.

How to Problem-Solve

Talk about the child’s feelings and needs

talk about the parent’s feelings and needs

Brainstorm together to find mutually agreeable solution

Write down all the ideas without evaluating

Decide which suggestions you like and which you plan to follow through on

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