Visa requirements from philippines in going to holland and how can i get a copy of the application form?

A far relative I have who is sponsoring me for a tourist visa and his a dutch citizen. He ask me to inquire requirements for visa and to set the appointment date for interview. I got the appointmant date already on this coming aug 1 but my problem is on how to move my appointment date to the next four days and that could be on aug 5 of this year.

here's the site where you can download a copy of tourist visa application form: http://www.eurovisa.info/Forms/pdf/SchengenVisaApplicaion_En.pdf
Here are the requirements for family sponsored tourist visa:

For the purpose of visiting family/friends:

1.visa application form, duly completed and signed by the applicant
2. 1 recent and resembling photograph, passport size.
3. International passport with a validity of at least 3 months after the scheduled return
4. Proof of insurance for the whole period of travel against costs for medical treatment and or repatriation covering up to at least an amount of EUR 30.000 and valid for all countries in the Schengen area
5. A letter of invitation of the person in the Netherlands including a copy of his/her passport
6. A letter of guarantee from the host available at the city hall, together with latest bank statements or proof of income such as the 3 latest salaryslips of the host.
7. Return flight reservation. Please, provide a photocopy of your flightreservation
8. Proof of employment, which is for employees: a recent employers’ statement that should mention salary, date of entree and duration of absence; for private businessmen: a photocopy of SEC registration of your company, business permit + tax-paying certificate "ITR"
9. For students: registration from a school or university and if travelling during study period, certificate from school of university with permission of absence
10. For minors: legalised authorisation of the parents (original and copy)
11. Non-Philippine citizens have to present: Philippine visa or residence permit + registration valid 3 months after scheduled return.