first off Im 13 and female and now for the super awkward bit and that is Ive yet to learn how to masturbate, like I tried it yesterday but after I tried to do it for about 20 minutes I got scared kinda and so I stopped doing it. Is there a way to do it properly, and should I be afraid like that? (as in, is it normal??) how do I do it!?

Well first off there's nothing to be scared or worried about with masturbating, I've heard alot of people say their first orgasm was pretty intense which can be a little scary at first, but after that it just gets better as you learn how to enjoy it. Plus there's plenty of info about it on youtube and some health sites.

Ok, thanks. I really want to try again... Any tips? Like, time, in my room or in the bathroom, etc. Any techniques I can try as well???

HayleyMom

Your bedroom is really the safest place to experiment with anything sexual unless you feel more comfortable in another room, as for techniques it's best just to try different ways and see what you get the most pleasure from, some girls prefer just rubbing their clit, fingering or rubbing their vagina lips.

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