That's what this blog is about, and I don't mind answering your questions, comments, concerns about those things.

If you are seeking counselling advice, let me start by saying that I have the love of Christ for you, but I am not gifted in interpersonal counselling. I am not a trained counsellor. I cannot tell your disobedient teen to come around and act like a human being; I do not have the works of wisdom it will take to get your spouse to do or not do "X". Please do not e-mail me your counselling questions as that's kinda like trying to find a sugar cube in a box of legos.

Yes, I know: James Dobson is not Truly Reformed. That doesn't mean that his staff doesn't offer decent, free counselling to families in need.

Because your concerns are important and need experienced, Godly counsel, I cannot and should not be the person to help you: I am simply not qualified. These folks are qualified and are willing and available to help.

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