Go buy a power tool or a cam. Something that you would always enjoy and... Buy something that would have annoyed your exwife... Plus, go have a bro night out. It could be moutaineering, shooting guns, blowing something up, drinking while attending a game, or... Heck, go to strip club if it floats your boat. Or even better, go out with a woman that is 100% better than your ex. Enjoy yourself man, life is short.

Unsure how to respond in part because of the ambiguity of the post. Is it Happy Anniversary???? Or just anniversary. You don't say you are happy and the triple ??? punctuation suggest maybe not. I don't find any reason to be happy about the anniversary of my divorce. Personally, I need to forgive myself - instead of being mad at MYSELF - for the decision to marry the female in question in the first place. Jim Donini counseled me to forgive myself with the observation we all make decisions in life with the information we have at the time. In fact, we make the best decisions we could possibly make at the time. Regret, self-recrimination over the decision is monday morning quarterbacking yourself. Instead, realize you had your reasons for every decision you ever made. Let it go; you made a few mistakes; you hit a few home run. F*#king up is the price of living. Let it go. Be nice to yourself; forgive yourself for being an idiot. That too is the price of living. And it beats the alternative - never living.