How comfortable would you be if a stranger hits on you?

Say I'm out doing my own thing and run into a woman i find sexy or enticing in one way or another, how awkward is it for me to just start taking to you? Are you either instantly turned off or do you get excited and want to talk more?

What Girls Said (18)

I'd actually like it! I don't know what the deal is with people who get turned off from someone liking them! However, if I AM busy or in a hurry, I may not have time to chat! So depending I think also if I (or the person in question) is pressed for time or not, they may or may not be more open to chatting or getting to know someone! Plus, since it's a very random thing, like I said they may not have time to get to know you and things can get awkward! They may come of as arrogant, unfriendly or snobby even though it's just that they are in a hurry! Also, they could be married, have a significant other, not interested, or don't have time. It's really a hit or miss these things and it IS a risk to the emotions/ego if you get rejcted BUT that's life!

I once had a stranger offer to pay for my food at a coffee shop - he was very intelligent and rich but I felt uncomfortable and ordered the cheapest thing I could find instead of what I wanted. I don't like it when somebody I don't trust is interested in me.

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Anonymous

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I feel like it depends on the approach. It's easy to come off creepy. Even if that's not your intentions.The best thing to do is keep it short and sweet.

” hello my name is ” your name” compliment her & ask her name.I would love to get to know you better here's my number xxxxxxxxxxx... If you are interested in getting to know each other better ” Don't come on to strong. DON'T BE A CREEPDon't be aggressive.Don't be rude. Don't follow her around. Shell notice & will be freaked out.****Give her your number instead of asking for hers.Simple & sweet. I think what makes it's easier to go online is most people are so socially awkward lol they don't know how to talk to people that are outside of their general circle. Sad but true🤦‍♀️

I'd be turned off, but that's just me. I've only liked a couple guys (one is now my boyfriend), and I have to get to know them as a friend first. Some girls would love that.

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Anonymous

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I am always caught off guard and don't know what to say or do on the rare occasion I get hit on. It almost freaks me out a little because it's so rare, and I'm not used to it.

I also have a hard time telling the difference between friendliness and flirtation unless you're really forward about it. There have been many times where friends have told me after the fact that a guy was flirting with me and I didn't pick up on it at all.