Female and male decisions implicating on intimate relationships and dynamics

Sunday, 30 March 2014

British summer girls: but which do you prefer?

“They come in
all shapes and sizes, but are the ones you choose the ones you would chew?”

There’s
nothing quite like the first day of the year when you can sit outside and enjoy
a ray of sunshine. We aren’t exactly
spoilt with endless sunny days in the UK, so maybe we can appreciate it that
little bit more when it does beam down on our pasty foreheads. Nothing epitomizes the change of seasons more
than British women’s zealousness to show those flabby white legs on a night
out. Not that it stops them in the
winter. Only kidding, if you are happy
to keep dipping the hand in an enormous candy bag with your eyes shut,
eventually you’ll pick up the sweet that leaves a fond memory on the taste buds.

Second
only to our good friend and ally of the USA, British girls reign global supreme
when it boils down to exploitation of their existence, deploying mind games
with men, and congregation of female gatherings to show the world what it is
missing. When summer strikes, off they
go to party in warmer climes that offer a chance to show off their beauty or
attain more attention than usual from desperate men. I stand by the fact our ladies will catch a
fish in Autumn, take him for a ride in terms of his gratitude, expenditure and
supplication just past Valentine’s Day, then look to be on the phone to their
girl friends come April. Who can blame a
cunning bird for bleeding a naïve man dry?
I doubt there were many bites of his worm in the time before she
jettisoned.

Not
that I’m complaining at all about this routine process. The better looking, edgy and astute men can
take full advantage of women’s seasonal habits.
Whilst the brainless chaps keep them occupied in the colder months, guys
like me capitalize on female adjustments when the days become longer. And I’m no different to most men. My libido levels significantly increase between
April and September. There are many
women I have slept with in my lifetime summer experiences who I wouldn’t touch
with a barge pole once the clocks have gone back an hour in October. Simply put, a woman’s body, to a point, can disguise
her facial shortcomings when my sexual urge is the motivation.

The
below pictures are from a group of women I know on an impersonal level, and
they were taken from last year’s summer vacation to Marbella. The Andalucian beach resort has proved to be
a popular destination in recent years for Brit girls, mainly because it is
renowned for a few third rate male celebrities venturing there, but also due to
the supposed number of high status and wealthy men to be found. So even with knowledge of declining physical
allure, a woman past her prime years can convince the mind that a sugar daddy
is their waiting to be knocked off his feet once her shadow walks past. From my standpoint, these visions illustrate
a good example of how you would see a typical group of British women, and their
individual look dictates the way they fit into the group. Needless to say for those clued up, but
important to clarify for inhabitants of cloud cuckoo land, their relative
physical attractiveness swings the differing level of projection onto male
eyes.

The
dreadful billboard posing picture will label each woman from left to right by
number. A beach photo is also attached
to further emphasize their differing body profiles.

Woman
1: The Elder Stateswoman

We
may as well start with the woman that, I would anticipate, honest men find the
least sexually sought after within the group.
As the most mature looking (and probably chronologically oldest) out of
all five, she may well have been decent to look at a good few years ago. As for today, not only must it be a nagging
thought to see thousands of more eye catching women in the bars and clubs, but
to be ranked the lowest in a five-piece further compounds the misery.

How
does a woman counteract this situation? Pure
and simple, a woman in this predicament has no option but to be louder, friendlier
and provide far less sexual resistance when men are in the vicinity. This strategy won’t make them find her more
attractive, but on a singles party holiday men can sometimes go by the “time is
precious” mentality. Five minutes
talking to her for a guaranteed lay will seem like a more beneficial choice
than hours in complimenting a hotter counterpart - only to walk separate ways
once the wallet has been bled dry.

Woman
2: The Hottie

Although
the posing picture doesn’t do her justice (seems to me like she has consumed
one too many kebabs come the end of the week), the blondie dressed in lime
(yellow?) is the one who will strike most men’s instinctive attention. She knows this, and like most hot women she
can make men endeavour that bit harder to get what she wants. Hardly ever do hot women like her give it up
to any Tom, Dick or Harry on an average night, and even the best looking men
will have their work cut out in escalating with her. As documented many times on this blog, hot
women do not take kindly to being with men who are on physical impressiveness
parity. The only men with high
percentage chances of sexual liaisons with her are going to be the isolated
famous men (who could be good looking) or local high profile businessmen.

This
woman was encroaching her 27th birthday during the girl’s outing,
and she proves how some women at this point of life can look as good as they
did in their early 20s if they have chosen a healthy lifestyle. Nevertheless, the decline will start to show
signs about now, even for a typical girl’s girl who hasn’t had kids to wear her
down. Hot women, by and large, crave for
bad boys who treat them like crap at a younger age, but the mid 20s phase will see
a shift in partiality male mate choice towards higher status but lesser
looking men. If she doesn’t lay her
cards on the table soon, her options in men will naturally go down the leagues
in alignment with her diminishing beauty.
Many of them even strike lower than necessary before they pass their
pinnacle splendor. Call it a
contingency. If you have often seen
women of this compartment in their late 20s or 30s, with an average looking
male partner and two little children alongside them, life isn’t playing tricks
on you.

Woman
3: The Follower

Hidden
at the back, it could be argued that this lady in her mid 20s is the most
facially blessed out of all five women.
However, when you take a look at the beach photograph, a bronze medal is
all she can hope for in overall physical attractiveness against the
others. A pose or expression can tell
you a lot about a woman, and I think men underestimate this probability. When you analyze all five women, she is the
one who holds the most natural stance and is clearly not seeking any elaborate
attention. This woman will casually go
with the flow when suggestions are made with regards to restaurant, bar or club
venues. She is the perennial follower of
the group.

In
consideration to all five, she is the one who appears to least desire in being
there. As attention is not a huge requirement,
I very much doubt the scintillating conversation and good times are much of a
draw for her, and my guess is that she is a homely girl waiting for a nice guy
to treat her right. It could well be she
met him after the vacation booking and he is waiting for her at home, but
despite being boyfriend driven, even partner validation requiring women still
have those irritable fantasies of a rough guy leading them astray. They are just, due to stronger will powers
and solid prides, far less likely to go there.

Woman
4: The Leader

In
every girl group derives the crying out for a leader. In this case, here’s your nomination. Despite nearly all women having
uncontrollable mechanisms to inflate the ego and draw eyes onto them, hardly
any, in percentage terms, like to take on the proactive role as the one to
direct control of situations. Some take
it on reluctantly, but others use it to their advantage in manipulating results
to suit their agendas.

In
an almost magical but non-coincidental manner, she is not only the second
oldest but also, I would expect from the minds of men speaking truthful words,
the second least sexually desirable. Not
dissimilar to her more senior and perhaps less alluring friend, a woman who can
no longer acquire numbers of male hunters is left with no alternative but to
deploy tactics that benefit her. As the
leader, she can guide the troops to trenches where she is at her most valuable
and comfortable. So if there is a
decision to be made where one place has younger and good looking men, yet the
other option is filled with older and more desperate (but perhaps rich) men,
any prizes for guessing where she leads the march?

Woman
5: The Young Cutie

Slightly
shy of being hot but feasibly cute, the 20 year old of the pack back then has
the most optimistic outlook for the forthcoming years. If I was to see this group out for the first
time, she wouldn’t be the first to strike my eye (as this accolade belongs to
Woman 2) but she would soon be the one to arouse my sexual compulsions. As a guy who is rather partial to the more
curvaceous ladies of the world, I’d soon be shifting away from my gender
physical equivalent grade – hence the hot blonde – and onto the one who gets my
balls hard in an instant moment.

As
the youngest member, vacations of this kind are tailor made for a cute woman
like this one. She can simply follow the
tracks of the older foes like a baby bird flying behind her mother for the
first time, but once accustomed to the big bad world, it won’t be long before
she realizes male species are far more interested in her freshness than the
experience of her elder four compatriots.
A very cute woman offers the perfect ingredients for all men. First, she arouses the men most in demand,
and as she is more than a decent catch, they won’t just fly away as soon as the
needs have been relinquished. Second,
less desired men – average looking nice guys but willing in providing,
supplication and commitment by definition – just about see her as attainable
despite still boxing above their weight.

So
if a cute woman with an appealing body to bang has men pulling at her from all
directions, which option does she take?
Well, much depends on her confidence levels and cravings to feel
wanted. Her sexual impulses will
naturally draw her towards edgier and more aesthetic men, but the ego necessities
to feel better about herself will sway her in the direction of a guy who is
that usual 10% to 15% less eye catching in relativity. Whilst knowledgeable to the power of money,
her young age is a couple of years away from the whole female hypergamy mindset
of male occupational status, and this means she can flip between bad boys
(perceived or actual) and nice guys.
Currently, she is with a nice guy who is significantly below her in the
looks stakes, but he is, as his default mind believes it must be, someone who
spends abundant monetary and emotional expenditure in order to keep her at
arm’s length from better looking rivals.
This is fine in the short term, but he can expect a broken heart once
her appreciation turns to resentment.

There
is pretty much 10 years disparity from the eldest to youngest in this female party. They all play their part, and they all have
their strengths and weaknesses from a sex hungry man’s perspective. Nevertheless, one aspect that cannot be
ignored is how age plays a huge part in female projected desirability onto male
sight. With maybe an odd intricate move
here and there, the physical beauty ranking transports from high to low in
respect of youngest to oldest. To my
knowledge, none of them have raised children; therefore it is a simple
comparison of mother time reflecting on relative beauty.

A
more pertinent analysis would be to see pictures of the same woman at the ages
of 21, 25, 28, 31 and 34. With the vast
majority of “regular” women (as celebrities offer little validity to this
subject), the physical impressiveness descends as the respective age
ascends. This is why I stand by how
critical it is for a woman to sell her market price prior to 25 candles sitting
on the birthday cake, if ambitions are held to track down the best man she can
obtain. If left any later, she can
expect to be booking another trip to sunny Spain with the girls once more. This is on the provision that there are still
some happy hunters left to go with her.

Now
compare this to a group of men ranging from 21 to 34 years of age – who are all
of similar innate looks comparativeness to each other. By sheer force of nature, sexual evolution
and general averages, men who look after themselves should be most physically
attractive in their late 20s or early 30s.
For men blessed with kind genetics, this privilege can even transcend
into the mid 30s. In transparent
explanation, the ageing of male facial features is much delayed in comparison
to women, but men’s body profiles and builds do not fully develop and peak
until the latter part of the third decade.
And let us not forget: men do not rely on physical attractiveness to
attract the opposite sex in the same manner to how women rely on their beauty
to appeal to the male population.

Another
polar opposite between male and female sexual attraction onto their opposing genders
is the contemplation of maturity and leadership traits. Although some men never seem to grow up, the
general consensus and actuality is that a man attains further positive personality,
attitude and pro-activeness as he grows through the years. Women find this very attractive, and it can
be seen in evidential ways with regards to so many of them walking hand in hand
with older men. Flip the coin, and a woman
who is older, dominating and more in the face of someone is far less pleasing
to the lion’s share of male hunters.

A
woman should be entitled to enjoy life as much as any man out there. When all is said and done, this is what life
is about – enjoyment. Would it be worth it
otherwise? However, the simple reality
for women in the modern day is clear. If
they hold desires to locate the highest calibre man that plausibility allows,
stretch him to commitment, plus take him to the alter and midwife, women must
do it sooner rather than later unless they truly hold inclinations to back
horses with longer odds.

**
The documented descriptions of habits, decisions, strategies or any other
reference are based on my general experiences with females who are
representative to the respective physical and characteristic genre of each
exampled woman. This blog does not
subscribe to claim these are the ways each woman mentioned above does, in
practice, behave. **

About Me

Tough and sensitive. Firm but kind. Happy to help, but not here to be used. Once naive, now astute. Versatile and ranged. Balanced yet peripheral. Stylish but not extravagant. Stands out at the same time as blending in.