my best friend's mom makes $62 hourly on the computer . She has been out of a job for 7 months but last month her pay was $19912 just working on the computer for a few hours.
go to the website............
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It's so easy to be caught in other people's comments about how we raise our children. Comments like, "She's overly attached," or "She cries because she knows you'll come," are so hard to hear because they sound so negative, as if that's a bad thing. I've decided to hear those types of comments as a compliment, even when they weren't intended to be. I'm proud that my daughter knows that I'll be there for her. That means I'm being the parent I want to be. To those statements, I now say, "Thanks for noticing. I'm doing something right!" Now, I have a responsibility to let her find her way too, but I do subscribe to the attachment parent theory that by nurturing a relationship where my child knows I'll be there will give her more confidence to take steps on her own. It will be my job to encourage her, give that push when needed, and get out of her way when it's time. Be proud that your child is attached. It means he or she knows their parents are there for them. How can that be bad?

After giving birth, I left work and decided to stay home with my daughter who is now 7 months old. We spend a lot of time together, I also breastfeed her. She has become very attached. Shows a lot of affection to me and also to my husband. She exhibits all the signs of a healthy bond with me. Recently my mother in law has started commenting that she thinks my baby is "too dependent on her mother", also says that she is too attached, along with many other criticisms. The other grandchildren are both adopted, not breastfed and went to daycare as young babies so I think she notices the difference but thinks that there is something wrong. I'm pretty sure she has been telling other people in the family her opinions about my baby's "over attachment" issue. At the last family event I felt like there was an inside joke about me. When the baby cried and I picked her up and hug her, my mother in law gave my sister in law a look. It was pretty obvious that there was some kind of inside joke. Both my in laws continue to try and convince my husband that we need to leave the baby with more people and she even mentioned day care the other day. We are very happy with the way we are raising our daughter but my mother in law is really starting to get annoying. I need advice on dealing with her! Can anyone offer some any tips?

I always though there is nothing you can do to spoil your child. I even typed in how to not spoil your child and it say that.My little girl is with me 24/7, my boyfriends mom can pic her up out of the blue and she doesn't care she takes seperation perfectly fine. I can say she is an eater and will get mad if you don't giv her any of your food only because her grandma gives her sweets and anything she's eating only thing that gets me because she never did it before.

I love that people are putting this information out because it is very important how parents respond to their newcborns. So several people have referred to this as attachment parenting but this is not attachment parenting this is how a newborn developes their attachment style and they will live with this style their entire life. As a student about to receive my PsyD in psychology I know a lot about attachment development during the first year of life and its importance. If you would like more information about it look up Mary Ainsworth and attachment. She studied under Bowlby and she furthered the research on attachment in her strang situation. If more parents would respond to their newborns needs and help them develop secure attachments there would be less psychological distress for people later in life (not to say it takes care of all psychological distress).

Every baby born with a different character. I have a 3 year old son and I didn't know anything about attachment parenting but when I heard about it, I recognized that I was already doing it instinctively. I respect psychology, but not ever person is same. So let your self to the flow, just do whatever you think is good for your child.

@hisgirlsunday: No one can judge you. If you weren't really care about your child, you wouldn't be writing your thoughts here. I guess you are overly judging your self. Please get emotional support!! No matter what, you are the most important person four your child. Also just an idea you should have a health check up, may be your thyroids are the problem which makes you feel exhausted!! Please take good care of your self and your child.

I didn't know anything about attachment parenting and was frankly terrified by the whole idea of being a mom, but when my little one was born I instinctively knew what to do. After doing some reading I realized what I did naturally was attachment parenting. So my recommendation is do what feels right to you and you can't go wrong!

Adoption might hurt the 2 year olds feeling for a little bit but if he gets to experience love from two parents then he will be happy. My little sister was adopted when she was 15born and she is the happiest girl in the world. They did an open adoption and it's perfect. Think about it.

If you think your 2 year old would have too much trouble adjusting, on option would be to implement an open adoption, which could be ongoing, or you could choose to end it once you feel your children have adjusted.

There are also varying levels of open and closed adoptions; for instance you could choose to only receive pictures or updates on how they are doing through the mail. Or you could choose to maintain complete contact with them and even have regular visits with them. Or you could have no contact at all. It's up to you and the adoptive parents.

If it's postpartum depression that's causing you to not feel anything for your children, then you need to get help.
If it's not postpartum depression, then adoption is truly the best option for you and your children. Most importantly for your children. Being raised by a mother who doesn't love them would be a million times more "scarring" than the process of adoption. Please just do what's best for your kids.

If that is truly how you feel about your children, then I would like to ask you to do two things:
1) Seek help through counseling and other support. Depending on where you live, there are programs like Head Start and Early On that are there specifically for the support of parents and their children. I'm sure a quick google search will point you toward the right resources in your area.

2) Please reconsider adoption. Yes, it would be very difficult for your 2 year old, but your 8 week old would not remember it. And in the long run, wouldn't it be better for your children to be in a loving home with parents that want them? In the right environment, and with lots of love (which you have made clear you are incapable of giving) a child would recover from adoption and eventually thrive!

i feel so sad that you feel this way. i do not judge you, and i do not think you are wrong, for you cannot help how you feel. i do think you need to talk to someone that may help you to look deep in yourself to find out the reasons beyond your feelings. all children deserve their parents' love, and if you cannot give it, i am sure it is not because you dont want to, but because you cant. and before this affects them negatively, which im sure you do not want, please get help. i have two children, a 6 year old girl and a 6 month old boy. i love them dearly, but i find it difficult to cope as a single parent sometimes. i want the best for them, which drives me even when i have no energy, and i wish you can feel like that about your children. everything happens for a reason, and i hope one day you will find the reason why you got the children.

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