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How do you handle something that won't go away (well sometimes she does) but whenever she decides she wants something she just appears.

I am talking about the exwife...why not leave us alone. 1. Is it bc she is not happy in her current life. 2. Is she just being a witch bc c/s is going to end sometime in the future (almost 18) 3. Or she is just wanting to know what is going on in our lives and trying to keep it open and being nosy by asking for money.

The only reason she should be calling my dh is...well really for nothing she has the kids living with her and she is getting the child support so why not live her supposebley happy life.

Because she lost him. Some women (and men as well) have a hard time letting go, even if it was because of something they did. They want to hurt them because they are miserable and will do anything to stay in his/her life. It's crazy and annoying as heck, but it happens.

When you get involve with a man that has kids you are getting involved with his kids and his ex for the rest of your life. She is the mother of his children. If you don't like it then get involved with a man that doesn't have kids.

I understand your point of view, I would be thinking the same thing. Does your husband get the kids on weekends or holidays? Perhaps its to check in about the children or to see what they will be doing???? Maybe if you talk to your husband about it, say it is making you uncomfortable