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Don't try to fix it just forget about him. You said so yourself he has no respect for you! I don't know about you, but I wouldn't want anything to do with a jerk who just wanted to be friends with benefits. Don't lose any sleep over this one. Move on and find a better guy!

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I just can't stop crying, I'm not a mean person and I hate that I acted like this he's messaging me saying he's seeing someone too. Like I just said I was wrong mentioning my sex life to you but I'm not sitting on the back burner for you if it doesn't work out with other girls.

Then he just said he never ever even wanted to have sex with me ever again. I was like that's grand I don't want to sleep with you.

He's so angry with me and I really love him and don't want him to be.

He has no respect for me, is really rude and I finally stood up for myself, why do I feel so bad?

Because you're dependent on him and he KNOWS this. That's why he's saying the things he says, he knows it will hurt you. Believe me, he's no good. He's an asshole and the only time you will get to be with him (if you do at all) is if you let him USE you for sex. I understand that you can't see it right now because you love him, but sooner or later you will realize that he's not worth it and you'll laugh at yourself for caring so much in the first place. My sister dated tons of guys like this in high school, they're just immature and mean! They don't care that you cry yourself to sleep over them.

To deliberately hurt you. He's manipulating you into caring what he thinks of you. He knows you love him and therefore, are vulnerable, so he's saying these things to you because you feed into it. If you ever want the pain of this situation to end, you have to stop giving him control. Cut him off and move on. I promise you'll feel so much better.