Erotic Intelligence – What Is It And How To Unlock It

Erotic Intelligence – Most people tend to think that just because they have sex on a regular basis, they’re automatically erotic creatures. This, however, is not necessarily true. Eroticism is much more complex than a regular sexuality, and this is something most couples simply don’t understand these days. It really doesn’t matter if you met your partner in person or via some cowboy dating site, for example, you still need to know how to unleash your eroticism. Therefore, if you truly wish to experience mind-blowing sex inside your relationship, make sure to stick around and find out what erotic intelligence is and how to unlock it.

Intimacy, Romance, And Emotions Are Often The Enemy Of Great Sex

Believe it or not, these lovely romantic factors that are essential for a successful long-term relationship are actually harming the sexual energy and passion. How is this possible? Well, the explanation is rather simple actually. A marriage requires security, emotional predictability, and assurance. At the same time, humans need mystery, novelty, longing, and the element of surprise in order to have a fulfilling sexual relationship. This is what makes them desire their partners the most. As you can see for yourself, the requirements for a long-term companionship and successful sex are completely opposite.

How To Maintain The Sexual Spark In Long-Term Relationships

As we already mentioned, in order to keep the passion alive, you need to feel the desire for your partner. To achieve that, you have to distance yourself from your significant other. As the brilliant Esther Perel, the author of the famous book called “Mating in Captivity”, says – the fire needs air. So, in order to regain your fiery passion, you have to let it breathe for a while. You must not smother your partner with your constant presence.

Also, you need to widen your sexual vocabulary because expressing yourself correctly is crucial. Like we said, eroticism is about desire, novelty, surprise, fantasy, and breaking the rules. Therefore, if you really want to become an erotic creature and keep the sexual spark in your long-term relationship, you need to think out of the box. Feel free to explore new things and don’t be afraid to step into the unknown. This is the only way you’ll be able to move forward and learn new and valuable things about yourself and your partner.

What Is Erotic Intelligence And How To Unlock It?

It is hard to define clearly what erotic intelligence is, but we’re going to try to explain its role when it comes to sex and the erotic connection between two people. Erotic intelligence is a form of awareness, an ability to understand what you need to do in order to transcend simple sexual urges and become a highly erotic human being. Unlocking it means doing all the things we already mentioned like expressing your sexual feelings correctly, talking with your partner openly, exploring unknown pleasures and fantasies, and creating a healthy distance between you and your lover. The ability to do all this without jeopardizing your relationship means that you’ve found the way to unlock your erotic intelligence.

Ashley Rosemont is a feature columnist for Sssh.com, the web’s original porn site for women by women. She is a Renaissance woman of many talents, but tries to remain humble in the face of all the curveballs life throws her way. She has been a professional writer for over two decades, and specializes in writing on media, culture, health and sexuality.

Ashley Rosemont is a feature columnist for Sssh.com, the web’s original porn site for women by women. She is a Renaissance woman of many talents, but tries to remain humble in the face of all the curveballs life throws her way. She has been a professional writer for over two decades, and specializes in writing on media, culture, health and sexuality.

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