~Jada~

One day I said, 'I will go out & look for my enemies' and on that day I found no friends. The next day I said, 'I will go out & look for my friends' & on that day I found no enemies. ~YeddaHeads~

About ~Jada~:

ghost.of.jada@gmail.com

I am a girl who loves my family. They are 1st in my life and everything and everyone else is secondary. My friends do come in very close behind family and some of my friends have become my family. I am one of those people who will charge hell with water buckets to protect those that I love. I have my son and daughter in law, two beautiful little grandsons, and one very active Rottie. I love life and try to live it to the fullest. I love the ocean, mountains, horses, and the great outdoors. I believe in God, my man, my family, my friends, honesty, morality, communication, & dignity. I believe that when it comes to friends or family... you are either with me or against me.

My heroes are my parents; may they both rest in peace, and my husband who serves our great nation in the United States Army. He willingly serves so that you don't have to. And by the way, if you woke up free on this day, thank a soldier.

I can make it to the fence in exactly 2.8 seconds.... can you?

IF YOU ARE A VIETNAM VETERAN

AND NO ONE HAS TOLD YOU YET...

WELCOME HOME Never Forget

Support our troops...past, present, future.

My Heroes:

My MOTHER who fought the battles but lost the war...I wish I could have said all the things I wanted to say, but I was young and the tears got in the way. But if you think she's gone, think again...then look toward the night sky; for there she stands, shining brighter than all the other stars in the heavens... and still guiding my way.

My FATHER

God took the strength of a mountain,

The majesty of a tree,

The warmth of a summer sun,

The calm of a quiet sea,

The comforting arm of night,

The wisdom of the ages,

The power of the eagle's flight,

The joy of a morning in spring,

The faith of a mustard seed,

The patience of eternity,

The depth of a family need...

Then God combined these qualities,

When there was nothing more to add,

He knew His masterpiece was complete,

And so, He called it.... DAD

May He Rest In Peace

Favorite Quotes:

Girls like us don't come along often... Like us and you'll grow to love us. Hate us? You're just wasting your time. You can't beat us and you sure as hell can't join us...

Failure to plan on your part does not constitute an emergency on my part...unknown

You see, in this world there's two kinds of people, my friend: Those with loaded guns and those who dig. You dig... The Good, The Bad, & The Ugly

Never argue with idiots; the people watching may not be able to tell the difference...unknown

Keep your friends close and you enemies closer...unknown

Don't go to bed mad; stay up late and plot your revenge...unknown

Well behaved women seldom make history...Marilyn Monroe

I'm not bad, I'm just drawn that way...Jessica Rabbitt

It's better to remain silent and be thought a fool than to open your mouth and remove all doubt...unknown

The road to truth is long, and lined the entire way with annoying bastards...Alexander Jablokov

Freedom is never more than one generation away from extinction. We didn't pass it to our children in the bloodstream. It must be fought for, protected, and handed on for them to do the same....Ronald Reagan

Favorite Questions:

Why is it that we choose two people to run for president and over fifty for Miss America?

Why is it that children can't read a Bible in school, but they can in prison?

If pros and cons are opposites, wouldn't progress be the opposite of congress?

Jada's Blog:

As I sit here alone, listening to the rain & Billie Holiday, I realize the two go perfectly together...For reasons apparent to probably only myself, both make me miss home. I miss the fall rains of Tennessee & the many nights drinking a glass of beaujolais & dancing to wonderful music in my house, dimly lit, for no other reason than that I could. The sounds of rain & great music combined with the sounds of high heels clicking against hard wood floors & laughter...

Although certainly not innocent at the time, I was far more innocent then than I am now. The times since those days have etched the memories and wounds that come from living life, deeply into my soul. Times that others may have long forgotten, but for me will remain forever & are a large part of who I am today.

Rain & Billie Holiday... yeah, they go together perfectly. I close my eyes and I swear, I can almost smell Tennessee; & for a moment, I'm home again...October 2009

Have you ever had a sadness ~ creep into your veins, reach right down inside your soul, and make you feel insane?

Have you ever had that glimpse ~ of the depths inside your soul, and found the things you've left behind have left a gaping hole?

Have you ever felt your mind ~ could not find any peace, the battle raged inside your heart looking for relief?

Have you ever felt the pain ~ that drove you to your knees, with all that screaming in your head, yet no one hears your pleas?

Have you ever stood among a crowd ~ and felt so all alone, and looked around to realize you can't find your way home?

Have you ever searched for answers, the ones you couldn't find? Stop looking now and understand, you're only wasting time... ~ Jada ~

May 2009

I have also always thought the best way to discern a persons character is simply to sit back and quietly observe; and in time, all of your questions ~ both answered and unanswered will reveal the story. As life unfolds before me and as stories are revealed, I find myself being amused and disappointed at the same time, yet for some unknown reason, I manage to remain optimistic....stay tuned

Recent Activity by ~Jada~

Tell her that you are considering joining a club, walking daily, taking up bike riding... whatever, and ask her if she'd like to do it with you. She knows she's overweight...she just needs to change ...

The bottom line here is that your boyfriend is protecting his own sobriety, as he must. You need to address your own issues on your own. The problem lies within you and you are the only one who can ...

♥~MICKI~♥~F.A.B~♥
says:
"Oh Jada! You're the biggest SWEETIE!! Whats your Rotties name?? I laugh at the "I can make it to the fence in 2.8 secs! can you?" HA HA HA! CLASSIC!! May the "Yeddar Force" always be with you! Love ya, ~Micki~ XO"

♥~MICKI~♥~F.A.B~♥
says:
"Hey Jada! Been a while. How are you! Hope life is treating you well. LOVE the Rottie LMAO. Peace & Love from ~Micki~ ;) "

Wild Irish Rose
says:
"Jada, thanks for the welcome! I haven't been around much lately, broke my wrist, so I'm typing one handed, which is a bother. I've seen a lot of your answers and comments too, and you sound like a very intelligent and sensitive person. Take care."

Wild Irish Rose
says:
"Just a comment about your answer to a 7 month old question about "how to help a friend in trouble" in which a friend was looking for a way to help her alcoholic friend in another country. I always enjoy reading your answers, they are so intelligent and thoughtful. You really have a wealth of knowledge, and I just want to thank you for sharing it with us all."

Nicki
says:
"Happy New Year, Jada! You are a hero on Yedda! I like reading your answers, all the time."

Jackyp
says:
"Thanks for writing. I have been following your answers and you are really helpful! Keep up the great work. I look forward to hearing more from you. Happy holidays! "

Neta
says:
"Thank you for caring for the community and for playing such a major role in it. Your answers show a lot of compassion as well as attention to detail, without forgetting that we're all here to have fun. Happy new year"

lawbug
says:
"May this be the best Christmas and New year a sweet young lady can have. And the best to your outher half."

Nicki
says:
"Your answers are serious and sensitive when people need them most and I am moved by what you write sometimes. Thanks for your wisdom."

shorty one
says:
"thank-you ~Jada~ for your help, you truely are a person that stands for all that is right!---happy thanksgiving."

Sparky's Mom
says:
"Jada, Just wanted to say how I am loving your funny comments. You did a fantastic job making our Band of One thread, and I am really enjoying posting on it. Here's to a great friendship! Anna, Jada's Best Friend "

citrine1
says:
"It's an honor and a privilege to walk (fly-hehe) among the elite Yeddians like yourself. "

auntjoan
says:
"Your answer to Christine about her sister was warm, thoughtful, and right-on. I hope it helps her."

andme2
says:
"Hello Jada_Lyne, I enjoyed reading through some of your thoughts and quotations, wishing your husband a safe return home to you. All the best."

Yechielshlipshon
says:
"Dear Jada_lyne; People like you and Norm incourage me to do what I can for onr nation. Maybe you allm Norm, EYO and I shall meet in the future, when we can thank G-d together for our retrived and charished freedoms. Shalom; Yechiel"

SamQ
says:
"I love your page and so many of your quotes are inspiring. Beautiful, poignant, and a touch of humor too."

citrine1
says:
"Love your profile. Hard to top that, not that I would want too. It's an honor and a privledge to know you. To share company on the same website is like sharing the same cloud in heaven. Thanks for all the good times."

♥~MICKI~♥~F.A.B~♥
says:
"Keep up the good work sweetie! i LOVE your page and your answers. You have great insight. LOVE the attitude! PEACE! LIVE LOVE & LAUGH! ALWAYZ! From F.A.B. ~Micki~"

oldephart
says:
"Thanks for sharing sophiexx's question with me sweetie, I had a fun time with my reply.. Wait a minute! He said he was a 'he'.. So how come it's sophiexx? Go figure. Anyway, I love your profile page.. It's... YOU. Later.."

john
says:
"Hey beautiful, I posted you some songs. Hope you like them. I love you, Sai"

Jen-Jen
says:
"jada_lynne, Thank you for the warm welcome and for being nice."

Morgan
says:
"You appear to be beautiful within and without I am sure you have met with the hateful wolves here on yedda. Thank goodness for women like you. Keep it coming. Lady Eugenie' Darko"

fern
says:
"Corrine recommended you as a Yedda role model. I can tell from your profile and the answers I've read from you that you've learned a lot from both good and difficult experiences ... I think you're someone I should be listening to. And I like that you remain optimistic. :-)"

Ranger
says:
"jada_lynne, Haven't seen you around lately just wanted to drop a line to you. Hope to see you."

n
says:
"Hi Jadalynne, You seem to me to be a very special person and give good and honest answers to everyone. Nice to have met you!"

Corrine.
says:
"Jada_Lynne even though we don't always see eye to eye I enjoy all of your answers here on yedda. They are always so real and honest which may be just what some people need lol. Well take care. With Sincerest Wishes, Corrine :)"

~Sweet Gypsey~
says:
"jada.. lol, I know you are the one that understands the most, and I have so much faith in you, which is again odd for one like me, but dang girl you just have something I trust in, you really had us going that time, but we have figured out away that wont happen no more..sending Dave to stay with you...lol..no really he will talk to you more.. Gypsey "

~Sweet Gypsey~
says:
"jada_lynne, you ever leave us again like that I'm gonna come get you myself...you don't know how much you are cared for, not all the time do people just click, hit it off, and you just have a way.. you are very special to me and many others, you really had us worried, being a "BRAT" that is not in my make-up, so you know where you stand with me, I am so glad that we have this friendship, I have been wanting to write this for so long, so I'm slow...LOL.. Gypsey"

ddavel544
says:
"Jada, you Rock and Roll Country girl, you! If you ever go away again, it better be on your own radio show or better yet... your own TV show!...Welcome back!...Dave...:)"

AShoofly
says:
"jada_lynne, I'm glad to see you're back with us. Next time leave your address so we can find you. Again, It's good to have you back, my friend. "

charlie2911
says:
"Jada, -so good to hear a comment from you again. - Us cowboys wuz gittin downright lonesome without a tough and sweet Southern lady around ."

charlie2911
says:
"Jada you are such a sweet lady, Yedda would be a dry, forbidding desert without your wisdom and wonderful humor. "

lawbug
says:
"And the same to you keep up the good work and advice. As you do a excellant job of it."

lawbug
says:
"To a young lady who has it all together and speakes it as it is even when we argee and disagree as there are no right or wrong answer's to many questions but you have it together and the best to you and your better half."

MrWebster
says:
"WOW! Holy Moly! I don't want to get in any trouble here, but at first blush, it is hard to tell which of you two is better looking. He is the kind of man that another guy would want to take to the local saloon, shoot some pool, shoot the ... well, never mind (you know, men's talk), and put down a few cold ones with. As far as you are concerned, WOW! There just aren't words. Your dress is absolutely knock down, drag out gorgeous. It must have been bought in the most exclusive shop of all Dallas, if you didn't have it custom made by hand. You are such a beautiful couple, that it's obvious that it is a match made in heaven. God bless you both, and highest regards. ~ MW"

Nanadee
says:
"you got 69 complements on here now...my age....next week i will be 70 so i want to change your number to 70 also...lol..you are a sweetie...love ya girl...NAN"

Full Time Patriot
says:
"Be good to that man. Thank him for his service. Live Free..."

EJ
says:
"Jada, that sweet southern girl we all adore!! Nothing but the best my friend."

AShoofly
says:
"jada_lynne, Just stopping by to thank you for the music thread. It was a great ideal. Your a person with a good sense of taste and humor. Thank you for the birthday bloopers that men do when they turn 50. I enjoyed them. Couldn't stop laughing. Well, again Thank You, my friend. "

remove from yedda.
says:
"I did not ask for your direct opinion for anything.Do NOT respond anymore to any of my questions.I dont want your advice for anything. Ruth."

remove from yedda.
says:
"You are not in the undersanding of psychology...so dont answer or coment on my questions that I hae posted.First of all,responding to your comment on my questions.....you dont make any sense!!.I was not asking YOU for any answer!.Next.We were friends, me nd that person,so dont think you know what your talking about here,...cause you dont,cause you was not THERE when it happened.In my opinion about you...your a know it all,and very judgemential,and degrading of ahuman being,with no concern but only to yourself I think..but of course,I could be wrong!!.luck to ya.... Ruth."

Articus2
says:
"It is okay You's and your Country deserve it and more.I was blubbering again when I was writing it.My husband are you crying again .I said "yes just sad mixed with happy tears". :)"

Articus2
says:
"Thank you looking at your man remines me of the Days follwing that day in september 01.All though we fly two different flags I like to think we are united as citizns of freedom and right. Onthat day or soon after A few of gathered onthe international bridge between our countries .And we sang God bless America. The U.S.border guards came out and stood at attention for us.It was a real tear jerker.After I approached a guard,and said"Sorry".He said for what.I returned "i was the horrible voice in the back of our group".He just laughed and hugged me.I got the front of is uniform wet. I guess this was too long. :)"

Anothernonymous
says:
"You and your husband are absolutely stunning my dear.. Your profile brought a tear to my eye, it was so honest and intense. Thank you for your compliment and I will be watching your activity with anticipation. (you mentioned texas, I grew up in fort worth, tx)."

Marla R
says:
"That is such a beautiful photo of you and, I'm guessing, your husband! Luv the dress! "

Articus2
says:
"Wow you are absolutely stunning.That dress Double wow.And the gentleman Is gorgeous.As well.I can tell you are well in love. :) "

Katherine
says:
"Thanks for your compliment jada I really didn't want to lose you as a friend, I don't have many in real life! :D"

Barberella
says:
"Hi Jada, just wanted to thank you for the advice,but as you know money talks and bullshit walks.my son in law does not have money, but his granparents will stand behind him no matter what,in thir eyes they know he is doing wrong, but again,blood is thicker then water, right"

Articus2
says:
"Where have you been Jada_lynne.I miss your commets and talk. :)"

Katherine
says:
"Jada corrine is not an idiot, she is sad that noeone is forgiving her even though she apologized; which is making her angry she would stop being like this if we all forgived her and moved on :)"

Articus2
says:
"Thank you jada_lynne.I look forward to being here for along time.I think you are awesome. Again thank you!"

Hodag
says:
"Thanx again for your help. I am not going to monkey around with this beast any longer, it's getting worse. I also have a friend who is an IT guy at a small college near here. Time for the pro to take over. I read your profile, and I wish there were more people just like you in the world. Norm D"

AnyaGarcia
says:
"Hi Jada, I just wanted to say hi, and to let you know that you seem like a really cool and interesting person. I love reading what you have to say here on Yedda. You're also friends with some of my good friends on Yedda, so you must be cool :) I hope you have a great rest of your day."

Katherine
says:
"Hey jada I hope all is well and fine, please check out my book exccerpts I posted. God Bless -Katherine-"

Katherine
says:
"jada, unfortch i already gave him three compliments and two messages offering to be friends, but that just made him meaner and madder :("

Marla R
says:
"Hi Jada! I wanted to take a moment to let you know how very much your beautiful thoughts and insight are appreciated. You seem like quite a warm, intelligent and courageous individual and that is such a gift these days - one that I'm tremendously glad you've decided share at Yedda. You make this website a much better place in your own way that I truly think many people have and I hope will continue to benefit from. It's not always easy but, if you have your priorities straight, it happens and you sure seem to have yours in a straight line, directly towards the sky! I'm so glad I found your profile and have no doubts you are loved - genuinely - by everyone for being genuinely you. And, yes. Thank-you to our troops!!!!! I hope they all come home very soon!"

Dawg
says:
"Hiya Jada Your profile is coming along nicely. You're inspiring me to work on my own a little... Hey, by the way, tell yer Hubby I said Thank You for Standing on that wall to protect my Freedom. =o)"

Lido
says:
"I just read your fascinating profile. You are a unique soul. I'm happy you added me as a contact. I'll be looking forward to your posts. Peace."

fifthbeatle
says:
"sorry so long on finding the compliment! Thanks! You do good work on Yedda, keep it up!"

Bon Bon
says:
"Hi Jada,im trying to get you as a contact.i got your mess.but its not going through.Bonnie"

ddavel544
says:
"Happy Valentines day...And I hope your hubby stays safe and well...and comes back home to his family."

Capt. Conservative
says:
"Jada ... Thank You for the Kind comments. It's people like yourself that make this Country great. I enjoy reading your posts and it's refreshing to know that there are people out there, that love this Country as much as do. God Bless & Semper Fi CC"

-O-
says:
"Hi Jada, just wanted to say thanks for the welcome and that you have great insight and a great demeanor!"

OronD
says:
"Dear Jada_Lynne. I remember clearly when you joined Yedda. From the very beginning I could see your outstanding qualities (as a person and at your answers) so I marked you as my contact and since then I read many of your GR8 answers.... I am happy to say that I was right !.... Your answers are smart and brave (above all very true !). You are doing a GR8 job and sure you are one of the "heaviest" contributors to Yedda. Keep on, we all love you. "

AShoofly
says:
"Jada_ lynne, Thank You for making me a contact. I didn't have any questions. I agree don't let anyone tread on you. I see your a true America too!"

BabsNC
says:
"I loved your Charlie Daniels song and video! That message is just how I feel about things! Also, you give good advice!"

URI93
says:
" TY and a Happy New Year to you and your loved ones. Your profile is one of the best on Yedda and is very well written as well as thought provoking. You are a great lady with many helpful answers, and I look forward to more of them in the coming year. God bless!"

Equus
says:
"Hey Jada , Thank you and Happy New Year to you and your husband . Fifthbeatle and I are headed to the KY to ring in the new year . Looking forward to next year on Yedda with you , my Soul Sister . "

OronD
says:
"Hi Jada, You are a very special & smart person with a charming personality. I love reading your smart answers at Yedda. I wish you a happy new year and that 2010 you'll make all your wishes come true. No doubt you are one of the nicest person in Yedda. No wonder everybody loves you. Me too...... "

DB Lady
says:
"Hi Jada_lynne, I would like to wish you a very prosperous New Year. I wish you'll answer more questions. I enjoy reading your posts. You're one of the nicest people in Yedda."

rahma
says:
"hai how are you i already read your profile and you seem like nic lady and i want make a friend with you,would you be my friend?"

Nanadee
says:
"hi jada lynne, i havent been on yedda very long but i love it. met a lot of nice people on here.i admire your spunk and honesty and you seem very kind, we know the same contacts so i would like us to be also..friends...happy thanksgiving God bless...nanadee"

Equus
says:
"Thank you for the nice compliment my Friend . You are one of Yedda's great ones . Your advice always brings a smile to my face . It has been said that we Tag Team . We were called the Blonde Bombers once . Be it relationships , horses , fido or smith & wesson , you are right we are soul sisters ! No doubt about it ."