Is Love Stronger Than Prophecy?

You had another opportunity to discover Elizabeth's true intentions when she asked you to go to church with her. You could have countered her offer with, "Sure, and after that I'll take you out to lunch and a movie."

If she went along with your counteroffer, there would be hope, but if she had stammered or said no, then she considers you a "friend" — the worst name any woman could call you!

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Although you didn't take these opportunities, Warren, you did two other great things. First: instead of leaping at her first invitation, you hung back. This showed self-control and Challenge [term used by Doc Love to represent the "challenge" of a man when he goes after a woman] — most guys in your shoes would have bowed down and kissed her toe-ring out of gratitude.

Second, you accepted her invitation by showing up to the church unannounced. This was a great move. It showed guts — and guts are part of a man's confidence.

The fact that you and Elizabeth are both churchgoers makes you look like a fine couple on paper. Your concern should be about her flexibility. If Elizabeth lets someone else's prophecy affect her Interest Level for you, she's structured — in other words, she has an inflexible attitude. Along with lack of integrity and giving, a lack of flexibility is something you don't want in a woman.

Think of it this way, Warren: just as it was Elizabeth's decision to listen to another guy's predictions of her future, it's also her decision on how to interpret these messages. If she wanted to, she could view a Bible conversation you have with your friends as evidence that you are a preacher.

And — if you have ever driven to Canada or Mexico, she could consider you a world traveler! My point is, if she is in love with you, her Interest Level will cause her to stretch the meaning of the prophecy to its breaking point — just to make sure that you are her chosen one!

Who knows, if Elizabeth keeps chasing you, she might even consider you more important than prophecies. Yes, guys, some religious women with high Interest Level would actually do this!

Warren, your girl's invitations to church were strong by themselves, but when you add the fact that she nearly trampled the congregation in order to give you a hug — Hallelujah! It's rare for women to be the aggressors in relationships (it is even rarer in church!), so you've got a very strong Buying Signal.

True — some churchgoers hug each other out of their love for God, but I don't think that's what happened in your case. I think you've got an angel with 80% Interest Level.

Warren, you've done a good job so far, but keep utilizing the principles of The "System" [program created by Doc Love to help men understand women] — if you do, you will raise her Interest Level to high heaven, until she might just ask you to tie the holy knot till death do us part!