Monday, April 19, 2010

Personal Sin, Shared Reparation

One of the priests at our parish spoke about the pedophile scandals and how we should confess our sins (and he said it like that - sounding like it implied we should as a group ask for forgiveness as Catholics for these terrible crimes) and seek forgiveness for allowing this to happen. Even though I think that these are horrible, awful, abominable events, and pray for both those who have been damaged by these sins, and as difficult as it is, those people who committed these sins, don’t exactly feel responsible for doing this myself so am having a hard time wrapping my head around repentance for the sins of others. I have sinned in a multitude of other ways but do I need to carry the burden of other people’s sins as well? Do I need to ask forgiveness for this myself? Are we supposed to ask forgiveness as Catholics even though we individually didn’t have anything to do with it?

Mark's reply is worth reading in its entirety, but I think the key passage is:

It is a radical misreading of the Tradition to say that, for instance, you are somehow personally guilty for some sin committed by a pervert priest or negligent bishop. Don’t approach penance for their sins as though you must somehow feel guilty for crimes and sins you did not commit. Therefore, you also cannot and should not try to “repent” for sins and crimes you did not commit.

On the other hand, part of the nature of the Christian faith is that it recognizes the fact of human solidarity. You neither personally ate from the fruit of the tree of the knowledge of good and evil, nor handled the hammers that drove nails through the flesh of the Son of God. Yet, in some mysterious sense, when these sins were committed, we were all implicated in them. This is why it doesn’t do (as many Catholics have done over the centuries) to say that “the Jews killed Jesus” (with the convenient suggestion that I most certainly had nothing to do with it). The fact is, Jesus’ death occurred because we, the human race, killed Jesus—and therefore, by the miracle of grace, Jesus died for us all and now offers his grace to us all. It is in the awareness of our radical solidarity with each other and with Jesus that we can offer penance for one another.

I thought this was a particularly helpful way of explaining things.

Drawing it out a bit further, in development of the thinking I'd done on the topic of individual versus collective in earlier, it strikes me that one of the important things to understand here is that the groups within which we live out our lives (families ties, church ties, associative ties, etc.) may not be capable of committing sins as a group, but that the necessary reparation for sin does often carry through a group. This is because sin is not merely the violation of a legal code, but is destructive to the relationships that bind us together into communities.

Take this down to the most direct human relationship, the family. Imagine a situation in which it becomes known that the father of a family abused one of the children over a period of years. This is clearly a sin of the father -- and it may be that the other members of the family never knew about it or had any ability to prevent it. Thus, they do not share in fault. But the relationship between the mother and the abused child, and the other siblings and the abused child will have been changed by the father's sin. They can't just ignore the fact that the sin occurred, and indeed they will need to make special efforts to heal their relationships with the abused member of the family. That is not because the whole family was at fault for the abuse, but rather because the experience of the child at the receiving end of the abuse was not merely personal but social -- not merely "my father abused me" but "I was in a family where I was abused by my father".

In our family of the Church, we now face a similar situation. Few of us shared any knowledge or culpability in the abuse which a small percentage of priests perpetrated, and yet our relationships with those abused, with each other, and with our priests have been changed by the fact that this abuse occurred within our family. That is why healing will require work towards reparation on the part of all Catholics (in different ways depending on our places within the Church) even though most of us hold no personal culpability in the sins themselves.

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Wow, this is a great point. Heaven help us if the New York Times ever hears of it, though -- I can see the headline:

"Darwin: Parents of Abused Children Owe Reparations"

Your point seems to recommend that the rest of us -- even if we have nothing to do with the scandal -- do penance for it. Not that we must for our own guilt, but that such penance will be efficacious in advancing the healing of the victims and the conversion of the perpetrators.

The Obama-worshipping liars in the state-controlled propaganda appartus are attacking the Pope and Church because?

I think they are attempting to paint all priests, all bishops, the Pope and all Catholics as guilty of heinous sins. They are trying to apply "collective guilt" to all of us. Why?

Point of information. Hitler and the Nazis used the concept of "collective guilt" to start a World War and murder millions. Lenin dehumanized the kulak peasants that resisted collectivization and murdered millions of them . . .

Because the Church is holding to absolute, revealed morakl truth, i.e., is against the diktat that the world is the end all and be all; against exterminating unborn babies; opposes the sanctification of sodomy; confronts liberal tyranny; . . .

To be clear, I'm not arguing that I and other Catholics share the blame, but rather that we share the responsibility for reparation. I wouldn't say it's specific to religious community, either. Other ties can produce a similar responsibility to make up for the sins of others. If, for instance, one found that one's late father had committed some great sin or great injustice against another person or group, I'd see the same principle applying.

Though I certainly understand that in a highly individualistic culture, this is a hard sell.

When a global scandal perpetrated entirely by clerics

Maybe I'm reading too much into this, but it seems to me that when you say "perpetrated entirely by clerics" it makes it sound like clerics are this other caste one can point to and say, "Hey, go talk to those guys. Your problem is with clerics."

Clerics are, after all, just Catholic men who are ordained, they don't come from some other source.

It's true, though, that since priests and religious (brothers and nuns) are consecrated to service to the Church, their actions do seem to take on more an element of collective responsibility than those of lay Catholics. If I heard that the uncle of some unrelated lay Catholic family has been abusing all his nieces and nephews, I would feel sorry for the victims and want to help if I could, but I wouldn't see any sense of shared moral responsibility to make reparation.

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