He Doesn't Call - Should I Call Him? Dating Advice For Women

Calling a new man in your life is tricky business. As always, when you first start dating someone you are not sure if the person shares your feelings. You don't want to come off too strong and too fast. But what if the new man in your life perceives you as not interested in him if you don't call him at all and always wait for him to call first? And what to do if the man you've just started dating sends you a text message? Should I call him or text him back, you ask. Should I always wait for him to initiate contact with me or should I go ahead and let him know that I am interested in seeing him?

Some men like to receive some sort of a signal from a woman that would give him the green light to call her. One too many times I hear from women, great date but he doesn't call. What does it mean? The date went great, he had a fantastic time, laughed a lot; we kissed then he said, I'll call you but doesn't call. It's been a week and I haven't heard from him. What does it mean? Does it mean he likes me? Or does it mean he is a player? Did he really like me and how can I tell if he really likes me or just likes me ok? Is there a way to tell if he'll call? And if so, when will he call?

The beginning stages of a relationship could put a woman through a turmoil not knowing whether the man likes her, and whether he will call and when. For that reason I have put together a very extensive article that deals with all kinds of questions women have about calling men in their lives, calling a new man, calling a man you've been dating for some time, and what does it mean when he stops calling. You can read my post What To Do If He Doesn't Call that hopefully will answer all of your questions concerning men and calling men in dating.

Think as well of the future; if he is like this now, what will it be like in the future, if you have kids is there a risk he will leave you alone?

Sally on September 12, 2011 said:

It seems fine to contact someone but not too many times, if you make the first call and get no reply then it is possible that its not to be. Who calls first is possibly a problem that will arise after any date and there is no real solution to it for both men and women but this is good advice.