Ever wish your kids came with an instruction manual? Now they do. One of America’s most successful behavioral therapists brings help and hope to the millions of parents whose kids are disrespectful, defiant, obnoxious or out of control. In The Total Transformation® Program, James Lehman offers a step-by-step system to help parents get back in control of their family and get their kids to respect and listen to them again.

Real Help For Real-Life Parenting Problems

How to stop any argument with your kid right in its tracks.

How to defuse temper tantrums and show your child you mean business.

The 10 Words to Say When He Gets Mouthy - Slam the brakes on ugly talk and disrespectful behavior once and for all.

How to stop outbursts before they even start.

How to get your child to take responsibility for his actions and behave appropriately.

How to get him to go to bed at night and wake up on time in the morning.

ADD, ADHD, bipolar disorder and more - How to make a child with a diagnosis behave.

James Lehman MSW, Behavioral Therapist
Creator of The Total Transformation® Program for Parents

James Lehman was abandoned in a basement at age two by alcoholic parents who were unable to care for him. He was found and adopted, but quickly developed oppositional, defiant behavior as a young child. By age 14, he was living on the streets of New York City and falling into a life of alcoholism, drug abuse and crime. James had spent nearly seven years in prison when a judge sentenced him to an accountability based treatment program that turned his life around. He went on to obtain his bachelors and masters degrees in social work and has worked for over 30 years with troubled children and adolescents.