Re:I don't like her either...
CHARLIEBULL write:
Oprah Winfrey, LMAO,man If you only knew how much I hated her,lmao. I'm trying to calm down the mushy,lose myself in your eyes stuff on here. My stomach can't take it.

Re:I don't like her either... CHARLIEBULL write: Oprah Winfrey, LMAO,man If you only knew how much I hated her,lmao. I'm trying to calm down the mushy,lose myself in your eyes stuff on here. My stomach can't take it.

Re: Very well said! I totally agree. And, that is why there are so many broken hearts. I want my mate to be my very best friend 1st. I have already experienced the "lustful" men....that, my friend is MY life's experience. One I choose NOT to date. And believe me, I can pickem out pretty fast. Now I observe more. Watching his actions, conversations, expressions.....the heart. BTW....nice blog.....
CHARLIEBULL write:
I agree with you Heather. My concern was that the only thing that I was reading was about knee weakening passion. Yes you need that in a relationship,but without the glue of a relationship that passion is just lust. I know people in life that go from one new relationship to another just for that initial high.They never develop into a meaningful couple with anyone.
If we are all going to develop friendships on here than we need to point things like this out to each other. I just wanted to get people thinking. Other than the crazy jokes on here.

Re: Very well said! I totally agree. And, that is why there are so many broken hearts. I want my mate to be my very best friend 1st. I have already experienced the "lustful" men....that, my friend is MY life's experience. One I choose NOT to date. And believe me, I can pickem out pretty fast. Now I observe more. Watching his actions, conversations, expressions.....the heart. BTW....nice blog..... CHARLIEBULL write: I agree with you Heather. My concern was that the only thing that I was reading was about knee weakening passion. Yes you need that in a relationship,but without the glue of a relationship that passion is just lust. I know people in life that go from one new relationship to another just for that initial high.They never develop into a meaningful couple with anyone. If we are all going to develop friendships on here than we need to point things like this out to each other. I just wanted to get people thinking. Other than the crazy jokes on here.

Re: Is that before or after the stripper pole? LOL
HDsweetcheeks write:
I usually puke before I hit comatose state..so you better move quick
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RK20032000 write:
Allrighty then, Mental note: Don't include Charlie in the mailers for the Ophra fan club. And sorry Bro you need to kkeep your stomach in good health so we can drink Sc into a comatose state. I'm bringing the super glue.

Re: Is that before or after the stripper pole? LOL HDsweetcheeks write: I usually puke before I hit comatose state..so you better move quick Re: RK20032000 write: Allrighty then, Mental note: Don't include Charlie in the mailers for the Ophra fan club. And sorry Bro you need to kkeep your stomach in good health so we can drink Sc into a comatose state. I'm bringing the super glue.

Re I love the movie Ghost. My ex- boyfriend always used to say DITTO. Having a memory jog here.
RK20032000 write:
Hi BB Your summary of the movie describes it. But even I thought it was a heart touching movie and my heart is sometimes hard to find. He said ditto for those 3 words, thats Biker I love you. Your assignment should you choose to accept it is to watch it again with an open mind and not think just experience. Please provide a 500 work essay on the merits of strong men I love yous who realize too late they should have said the words.

Re I love the movie Ghost. My ex- boyfriend always used to say DITTO. Having a memory jog here. RK20032000 write: Hi BB Your summary of the movie describes it. But even I thought it was a heart touching movie and my heart is sometimes hard to find. He said ditto for those 3 words, thats Biker I love you. Your assignment should you choose to accept it is to watch it again with an open mind and not think just experience. Please provide a 500 work essay on the merits of strong men I love yous who realize too late they should have said the words.

Charlie I agree we all have lessons to learn through out life and if it isn't working one way you have to figure out what to do different..We tend to make the same mistakes over and over again ..I'm trying a different approach this time around enjoying our time but not jumping in with both feet to quickly .
I want to find my soul mate and moving to quickly is always a bad move, especially with children involved.The sex is an important factor but never the most important,friendship and understanding of each others want's, need's and desires comes first...
Great Blog you big softy...lol

Charlie I agree we all have lessons to learn through out life and if it isn't working one way you have to figure out what to do different..We tend to make the same mistakes over and over again ..I'm trying a different approach this time around enjoying our time but not jumping in with both feet to quickly . I want to find my soul mate and moving to quickly is always a bad move, especially with children involved.The sex is an important factor but never the most important,friendship and understanding of each others want's, need's and desires comes first... Great Blog you big softy...lol

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RK20032000 write:
Allrighty then, Mental note: Don't include Charlie in the mailers for the Ophra fan club. And sorry Bro you need to kkeep your stomach in good health so we can drink Sc into a comatose state. I'm bringing the super glue.

Re: RK20032000 write: Allrighty then, Mental note: Don't include Charlie in the mailers for the Ophra fan club. And sorry Bro you need to kkeep your stomach in good health so we can drink Sc into a comatose state. I'm bringing the super glue.

Hey as long as you say it Tamara. Some people have a hard time, some people say it to easy and don't mean it. SOme people always show it some don't.
As long as your partner knows and gets what they need. If they don't and you can't work it out then you have to move on.
Or chain them to the bed and use them as your love slave. If you go with thei approach remember the ball gag

Hey as long as you say it Tamara. Some people have a hard time, some people say it to easy and don't mean it. SOme people always show it some don't. As long as your partner knows and gets what they need. If they don't and you can't work it out then you have to move on. Or chain them to the bed and use them as your love slave. If you go with thei approach remember the ball gag

Bat I guess everyones perception of what they think love should be like is different. It wasnt that he couldnt say I love you it was his way of saying it to her..they had passion, love, respect, and I think they had the eternal love everyone is looking for..to me it was what a perfect relationship would be like.

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BadBat write:
Re:Please explain to me what was romantic about GHOST, it was about two people who cared about each other, who had great sex, the guy couldn't even say those three little words, and when he dies, she is caught on the couch kissing another guy......not real romantic in my book.....
HDsweetcheeks write:
I prefer to hang you in my bedroom : )
But your absolutley right Charlie (cringing as I say it) Both parties have to feel it, both have to be at the same place at the same time. Everyone wants that Demi Moore Patrick Swayze Ghost love..but you cant make someone feel that way...so now back to the important stufff..like gutting you..

Re: BadBat write: Re:Please explain to me what was romantic about GHOST, it was about two people who cared about each other, who had great sex, the guy couldn't even say those three little words, and when he dies, she is caught on the couch kissing another guy......not real romantic in my book..... HDsweetcheeks write: I prefer to hang you in my bedroom : ) But your absolutley right Charlie (cringing as I say it) Both parties have to feel it, both have to be at the same place at the same time. Everyone wants that Demi Moore Patrick Swayze Ghost love..but you cant make someone feel that way...so now back to the important stufff..like gutting you..

Bat I guess everyones perception of what they think love should be like is different. It wasnt that he couldnt say I love you it was his way of saying it to her..they had passion, love, respect, and I think they had the eternal love everyone is looking for..to me it was what a perfect relationship would be like.

Allrighty then, Mental note: Don't include Charlie in the mailers for the Ophra fan club. And sorry Bro you need to kkeep your stomach in good health so we can drink Sc into a comatose state. I'm bringing the super glue.

Allrighty then, Mental note: Don't include Charlie in the mailers for the Ophra fan club. And sorry Bro you need to kkeep your stomach in good health so we can drink Sc into a comatose state. I'm bringing the super glue.

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RK20032000 write:
Hi BB Your summary of the movie describes it. But even I thought it was a heart touching movie and my heart is sometimes hard to find. He said ditto for those 3 words, thats Biker I love you. Your assignment should you choose to accept it is to watch it again with an open mind and not think just experience. Please provide a 500 work essay on the merits of strong men I love yous who realize too late they should have said the words.

Re: RK20032000 write: Hi BB Your summary of the movie describes it. But even I thought it was a heart touching movie and my heart is sometimes hard to find. He said ditto for those 3 words, thats Biker I love you. Your assignment should you choose to accept it is to watch it again with an open mind and not think just experience. Please provide a 500 work essay on the merits of strong men I love yous who realize too late they should have said the words.

Hi BB Your summary of the movie describes it. But even I thought it was a heart touching movie and my heart is sometimes hard to find. He said ditto for those 3 words, thats Biker I love you. Your assignment should you choose to accept it is to watch it again with an open mind and not think just experience. Please provide a 500 work essay on the merits of strong men I love yous who realize too late they should have said the words.

Hi BB Your summary of the movie describes it. But even I thought it was a heart touching movie and my heart is sometimes hard to find. He said ditto for those 3 words, thats Biker I love you. Your assignment should you choose to accept it is to watch it again with an open mind and not think just experience. Please provide a 500 work essay on the merits of strong men I love yous who realize too late they should have said the words.

I agree with you Heather. My concern was that the only thing that I was reading was about knee weakening passion. Yes you need that in a relationship,but without the glue of a relationship that passion is just lust. I know people in life that go from one new relationship to another just for that initial high.They never develop into a meaningful couple with anyone.
If we are all going to develop friendships on here than we need to point things like this out to each other. I just wanted to get people thinking. Other than the crazy jokes on here.

I agree with you Heather. My concern was that the only thing that I was reading was about knee weakening passion. Yes you need that in a relationship,but without the glue of a relationship that passion is just lust. I know people in life that go from one new relationship to another just for that initial high.They never develop into a meaningful couple with anyone. If we are all going to develop friendships on here than we need to point things like this out to each other. I just wanted to get people thinking. Other than the crazy jokes on here.

Mr Bull...I think some things you are saying are taken out of context. Just because someone may want passion in their eyes or desire attention when they ARE together does not necessarily mean smothering. Especially if you don't see them all the time and they make you happy. I don't mean stuck together like the Siamese twins either. Trust and respect will go hand and hand and I know men like to go off into their caves and be alone sometimes and some women do too, but that is what makes the world we live in soooo colorful. It would be a very boring place if we all felt the same about everything. There are many things mentioned on these blogs but a book can not be written because it takes up too much BK space. I agree with self examination and that comes from life's experiences. A relationship should not be about what YOU can get but what YOU can give. Why not turn the negative into positive and that can happen with communication, understanding and time. Of course compatibility helps.......
Now where is that big knife I was looking for.

Mr Bull...I think some things you are saying are taken out of context. Just because someone may want passion in their eyes or desire attention when they ARE together does not necessarily mean smothering. Especially if you don't see them all the time and they make you happy. I don't mean stuck together like the Siamese twins either. Trust and respect will go hand and hand and I know men like to go off into their caves and be alone sometimes and some women do too, but that is what makes the world we live in soooo colorful. It would be a very boring place if we all felt the same about everything. There are many things mentioned on these blogs but a book can not be written because it takes up too much BK space. I agree with self examination and that comes from life's experiences. A relationship should not be about what YOU can get but what YOU can give. Why not turn the negative into positive and that can happen with communication, understanding and time. Of course compatibility helps....... Now where is that big knife I was looking for.

The initial enjoying each other;s company and having a laugh is great. But there has to be a time after a few months that you realise you want to make it more and go for having a relationship.
If you both agree that is when you need to sit down and discuss and be honest about the way you each are and what you need.
Everyone needs his own space. But if relationships are going to work how you feel in teh moment will have to be put aside for what you have to "DO" in the moment to look after the relationship and look after each other.
Nice to scatter seed but then you have to get down and look after that seed in order to amke sure it grows right.
Junie

The initial enjoying each other;s company and having a laugh is great. But there has to be a time after a few months that you realise you want to make it more and go for having a relationship. If you both agree that is when you need to sit down and discuss and be honest about the way you each are and what you need. Everyone needs his own space. But if relationships are going to work how you feel in teh moment will have to be put aside for what you have to "DO" in the moment to look after the relationship and look after each other. Nice to scatter seed but then you have to get down and look after that seed in order to amke sure it grows right. Junie

Re:How about T, SC,Southern and a video camera lol.. Who would even believe one mans word to be so lucky? hehe, just helpin a dude out here.. :)
CHARLIEBULL write:
Wait!! T,SC,and Southern? Lord take me as soon as I'm done with the smoke because it will never get any better than that.

Re:How about T, SC,Southern and a video camera lol.. Who would even believe one mans word to be so lucky? hehe, just helpin a dude out here.. :) CHARLIEBULL write: Wait!! T,SC,and Southern? Lord take me as soon as I'm done with the smoke because it will never get any better than that.