In a few weeks, half of my friends are going to be very disappointed. The election will be over. In each contest one candidate will win and one will lose. Hopefully, we can all look forward to freedom from caustic ads and the obsessions of our friends over the election. After the election, I hope all of my friends are still speaking to each other. I’d like to offer a few words for finding common ground and making peace with each other. First, forget the angry words spouted by entertainers. We’ve heard some particularly nasty comments this election season. When the election is over. It is time to recognize that some famous people are willing to manipulate the populous for their own profit. Let’s ignore them and move on toward a goal of loving our neighbors. I’ve heard numerous stories about the evils that this candidate or another will commit if elected. Reality check: None of us can foretell the future. Will any elected candidate behave in the predicted fashion—either for good or evil? I don’t know. Nobody knows. When the election is over, it is time to stop worrying about what someone might do. You’ve done the best that you knew how in your choices at the polls. Now, it is time to trust in God to provide for you and practice loving your neighbor. We’ve tried, over the past few months, to dialogue on issues close to our hearts. In many cases both the pro and con sides of the discussion have wanted the same outcome. Our disagreement has been over how to get from where we are now to where we want to be. Do we regulate more? Less? About the same? Do we pass new legislation? Do we enforce existing legislation? Yes, we disagree on how to accomplish our goals. Most of those disagreements are based on ideologies that will not work without compromise. It is time to set aside our favorite opinion on how to accomplish our common national goals and practice loving our neighbors. Yes, our country has a great deal of work to do to restore economic stability, safety in our communities and the security of all members of our country. We may be battling some huge forces of evil, but I think if we work together, we-the-people can grow our county to a position of physical security, economic stability and peace. The government cannot do this for us even if they were inclined to try. As long as we are divided we cannot heal. Our first step is to set aside our anger and sense of self-righteousness. We need to take a look around us and take action based on love for our neighbors. Now is the time to ask yourself, “What can I do to help heal my nation?” I think we will all find different answers. For myself, I will continue to write books, garden organically, care for my foster daughter and prayerfully worship God. Healing is possible, but it must begin with all of us making the decision to love our neighbor.