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Time--2017 A to Z Theme

My theme for the 2017 Blogging from A to Z April Challenge was "Time". The posts are of a more philosophical, contemplative, and even autobiographical bent. No time management tips in this theme, but stuff intended to make you think.

Always a work in progress--welcome to my blog...

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Monday, January 30, 2012

Today is a big day. Because it's my birthday? It is my birthday today, but that's not the big deal today. The really big thing about today is that it's sign up day for the Blogging from A to Z Challenge. Are you ready? Need I ask?

For those who are scratching their heads about this A to Z Challenge I recommend that you go visit the officialA to Z Blog for full details. If you still don't get it, there is a CONTACT US tab that will take you to a page where you can ask any questions you may have.

You'll be able to sign up any time between now and April. The Linky List will be available on this post until Wednesday and then after that you'll find it by clicking the List tab at the top of this page as well as similar tabs on the A to Z Blog and the blogs of all of the other co-hosts. In other words, the list will be all over the place so you shouldn't have any problem finding it.

Even though you have two months to sign up, we encourage you to sign up now or as soon as you can. Why so soon? Well, because once bloggers start signing onto the list, the pre-Challenge party begins. Get yourself out there so others can find you. Two months of mingling and meeting and greeting will allow you to get to know the other participants. This will be favorable in helping you determine your April strategy.

Between now and April you can start following other blogs and getting to know those bloggers. They will likewise start following your blog. So even though the blogging part of the Challenge begins in April, the really big part of the Challenge--visiting other blogs--starts now. Are you ready to make new friends? Your link on the list means you're ready to invite visitors to your blog.

Let's go!

the linky list can be found at the tab at the top of the blog page that says it's the tab for the list. That's where you can go to sign up for the Challenge.

Friday, January 27, 2012

A Post About A Post (and the Comments It Generated)generated a positive response. Thanks for egging me on. I don't mind really. I enjoy the challenge of creating something out of that which wasn't intended to go much further than the comment box. Comment analysis may become a trend. I'm going to milk it for all it's worth.

For anyone who is just dropping in on my shenanigans, it all starts with a post at the beginning of January, Where Am I Now Anyway?. I had been away on a trip at Christmas and written my posts ahead of time. This particular post was an experiment or an exercise in absurdity, but dealing with a conundrum of sorts. If you haven't read it yet then I encourage you to do so. If you leave a comment on that post I may comment on that comment on an upcoming post about comments from that post.

A bit wacky you say? Of course! I'm just tossing it out there for some crazy fun. So on with the comments and my comments about those comments:

I actually loved this post so much Lee, sorry to hear you're so cold though, that sounds kind of sucky. Interesting writing as per usual my friend, keep it up. You're definitely one of my inspirations around here on Blogger.

Matthew, you leave some of the most positive and uplifting comments. That's a way to make a good impact and entice readers to go to your blog to read what you have to say. I enjoy reading what you have to say and despite some of the things you're dealing with, you keep an amazingly upbeat attitude about things. And here you've shown such a caring attitude toward my coldness as I was writing that it warmed my heart enough to warm the rest of me. Thank you for calling me an inspiration to you. You are paying it forward and now I'm inspired. Thank you, YeamieWaffles.

I enjoy being called clever and it's even better when someone tells me I made them think. I do make an effort sometimes to provoke readers into thinking. You make me feel like I've accomplished my mission since I was trying to be somewhat clever with a topic that could lead one into twisty thought. And then you go on to invite me into your world. I can see you hunched over your keyboard with the shifting light of the morning sun streaming through your windows. You said so much in two brief sentences. I paused in my reading to ponder what you had said.

Lee, you kinda blew my mind -- and with the fringe, esoteric, mind-bending reading I typically do, that doesn't happen often. Also, this 'I feel like I'm wearing snow shoes--and by that I mean shoes that are made out of snow.' made me smile.

I like it if I've brought a smile to someones face. Smiles can be contagious and to hear that you smiled made me smile. And if I blew your mind that's all the better. I set out to create a mind trip and you state that I kinda did that. Hey, that's cool enough for me. You also did something here that often I don't see in comments: You brought context to your comment by quoting my words and connecting them to your reaction. This disconnect between the context of the blog post and what appears in comments is a very common thing that I've noticed where comments don't seem to relate to anything and one has to go back to the blog post to see what the comment is referring to. They're only comments, but still....Thanks Suze.

Now this was fun, LD. You went for the comic comment done in the spirit of my post, basically summarizing what I had said. Your comment tells me that you not only read the post, but you also got it. I think sometimes my sense of humor gets somewhat obscure and people take me more seriously than I am meaning to be. Your paraphrase of my post was fun for me and if anyone else read it they probably smiled too.

You did understand, Yvonne. You got it exactly as you have also restated what I was saying in your own way. It is delightful and reassuring when I know that a person who left a comment is not merely leaving an obligatory mark in my comment space, but is letting me know that they read what I wrote. So many times I feel like people breeze through reading, half hear what people are saying, or selectively understand what they want based on what they want. In those cases communication can be very difficult and even fall apart. But that sounds like a different topic for a different post.

Oh boy! Topics that were elicited by comments. Actually I've done that before. It can be a great way to get fodder for posts. And about that word "fodder". It's kind of a weird word. (Note to blog self: future post about weird words.)

And for any of you who thought that I was just trying to be funny when I said I was considering a series based on comments about comments from a past post, you don't know me very well. I can get pretty weird sometimes. if you guys keep egging me on, it can get a whole lot weirder.

When you think about it, "weird" is kind of a weird word.

Now some A to Z business:

Don't miss the posts this week-end on the A to Z Blog. We're making preps for the Blogging from A to Z April Challenge sign-ups coming January 30th which is next Monday from where I'm standing now. Today on the A to Z Blog Alex J Cavanaugh is explaining the Linky list and sign-up process. I'll be explaining some additional details this Saturday and Sunday.

Now that sign-ups are starting you will want to check out the Challenge Blog each day for updates and special announcements. Be sure to become a follower or "Friend of the Alphabet" as we call them. Also we are still accepting guest posts for the A to Z Blog. If you have something that you'd like to share with the rest of us, let us know and we'll schedule you. Or if there is something you'd like us to address, let us know and we'll either write a post about it or answer you directly.

Video Challenge is not the same as the April Challenge!

Video makers or wannabes--we are accepting videos until March 11. The Video Challenge is your chance to promote the April Challenge with a commercial or promo video about the April Challenge. You can do one video or as many as you like. We are not suggesting that you have to do a video a day during April. The Video Challenge is a whole different shebang.

Wednesday, January 25, 2012

Today I'm guesting at Stephen Tremp's Breakthrough Blog so make sure you visit there, but while he's busy hosting me I thought I might tell you my opinion of this new book Stephen Tremp is touting.

Even if you missed my Monday post where Stephen was my guest, most of you probably are aware that he has begun a blog tour to kick off the release of his new book Opening. I had an advanced reader copy of Opening so I've already read it. So while Stephen's busy and can't hear me, let me tell you what I really think about his book:

I am a big fan of BREAKTHROUGH, the first book of the Chase Manhattan series, so I was looking forward to OPENING. Author Stephen Tremp has not only not disappointed with the the new installment, but also raised the bar in OPENING, providing a slick complex action thriller.

The story continues where the previous book left off. The struggle between opposing factions of scientists trying to gain control of briefcases that contain what could be the fate of the world expands on a worldwide scale as statesmen and nations become involved in a tense standoff. Powers and principalities may be leading the world toward a potential Armageddon.

The scope of the story is breathtaking and the action is non-stop. Along the way I started to become concerned that Tremp was losing control of the story with too many things happening too quickly. However, skillfully the pieces of the story are brought together into a climax that left me excited for the next installment of the series.

All of our favorite characters from the first book are back in fine form as we are introduced to new and equally memorable players in the story. The events are so plausible that at times I was nodding in agreement thinking, "Yeah, that could happen." The story is cued directly from current world events and scientific breakthroughs. There's nothing overly difficult to understand here since the technology comes across as clear and realistic.

Although this book is written in such a way that it will stand alone, I would recommend readers who haven't read the first book to start with BREAKTHROUGH before reading this. It's not a necessity, but starting with OPENINGS is something akin to climbing aboard a roller coaster in the middle of the ride--you'll miss a lot of fun. The two books together provide a great ride, but on it's own OPENING is an entirely satisfying reading experience.

I'll definitely be on board when the next book, ESCALATION, comes around. I think once you've read OPENING you will too.

Don't tell Stephen I told you this. Just go buy his books.

Stephen Tremp is author of the recently released suspense thriller OPENING, the second book in the BREAKTHROUGH series. You can visit Stephen at Breakthrough Blogs. For $1.99 Opening is available for download at:

Monday, January 23, 2012

My guest today is Stephen Tremp, a blogger and author who needs little introduction to my blog audience. Stephen is one of my earliest blogging friends as well as an A to Z Challenge co-host for the second year. He is also an author for whom I have much admiration. This is what brings him here on Tossing It Out today.

Stephen Tremp has released the second installment of his Breakthrough book series.and is starting his book tour today on my blog. So I'm honored to present to you--Stephen Tremp:

A Twist on Additional Dimensions

Hi everyone, and welcome to the first stop of my Grand OPENING Tour! Thanks to Arlee Bird for helping me kick off this event on a most positive note. Arlee read an Advanced Review Copy (ARC) of OPENING and gave me invaluable feedback. Thanks Lee!

This post is on a topic that I’m very much passionate about. I think many others are too. Enjoy the post and I look forward to what other people think about people who seem to have abilities above and beyond that which we call normal.

You’ve probably met someone who seems to have special “abilities” that are generally perceived to be above and beyond what we would consider normal by our five senses: seeing hearing, smelling, tasting, and touching. Every society since the dawn of mankind has had people they consider to have special “abilities.”

These people can “see” or discern things that most people cannot. These perceived abilities can be filed under various labels such as paranormal, prophecy, extra sensory perception (E.S.P.), gifts of the Holy Spirit (word of knowledge, word of wisdom, discerning of spirits), demonic possession, out of body experiences, or dreams that are more reality than fantasy. They are called seers, prophets, or mediums. Some would say people who claim to have paranormal abilities are frauds altogether, they are good guessers, they use the power of suggestion, or they’re just plain lucky.

How would you describe the ability to “see” beyond our five senses? One theory is that since the reality we live in is a three-dimensional spatial world (length, width, and height), our senses were created or have evolved within this reality. This is all we should be able to comprehend. We are not conscious of anything else.

Example: If you are hunting a charging bear to feed your family, you need to be able to look at the bear and judge how far away he is, how fast he is closing in on you, and the best moment to throw your spear at him. They say nature is very efficient and generally gives us only what we need to survive.

However, some proponents of M-Theory (ten actual dimensions along with time) think our minds can actually navigate through these additional dimensions (if they do indeed exists), yet our minds are construed to filter information through our five senses and emotions. This is why information and insights are partial rather than whole.

Could it be that there are some people who are more in tune with these additional dimensions and can thus get a glimpse of information that we would consider to be prophetic or of an extra sensory perception? Many people claim to be aware of angelic beings or demonic forces. Some can “read your mail” so to speak. Others have an acute sense of what an investment will do in thirty days and are very accurate in their predictions.

Questions:What are your thoughts? Do you think some people have abilities to “see” beyond our normal five senses?

Stephen Tremp is author of the recently released suspense thriller OPENING, the second book in the BREAKTHROUGH series. You can visit Stephen atBreakthrough Blogs. Opening is available for download at:

Friday, January 20, 2012

Oh--this is a topic that was asked a while back at Blissed-Out Grandma. It was on one of those meme things, you know--tag you're next. I looked at it and started to think about my picks and then just entered the idea in my blog composition list to think about later. Well, later has come.

What a great way to fill up a blog post.

Here they are in no particular order:

Jesus Christ-- This is almost a no-brainer. Who wouldn't want to meet Jesus in person? Where you could actually talk face to face with him? I'd want it to be a time-travel thing too so I could see what things were like back then. In fact that will be part of my criteria for the rest of the characters who are real or historical. And also, I'd get to stay three days in each place. Three days hanging out with Jesus and his disciples would be pretty amazing.

Now, back to the list: Image via WikipediaFranz Schubert-- I guess I'd need to learn German or have a translator, but three days with Schubert would be undoubtedly filled with music. He's one of my favorite composers. A biography that I read about him told about how he would perform a lot of intimate concerts and hung around with a rather arty group. Vienna in the early 1800s sounds like a fascinating time. Maybe I could catch Beethoven while I was there.

Thomas "Stonewall" Jackson --He's a distant cousin and seemed like a very upright guy. An American Civil War hero, he was also a teacher at a Viginia university. From all I've read about him he sounds like a pretty serious guy. I would be talking to someone who was very closely related to my ancestors who first came to the United States in the mid-1700s.

Mark Twain--The guy was a literary genius and could say such funny things. I wonder if he was funny all the time. I'd say he must have been at least passably congenial since he was so popular. Mark Twain would have some fascinating stories to tell.

Image via WikipediaErik Satie--The French composer of eccentric impressionistic and minimalist music seems like a pretty strange guy and I imagine it could be entertaining to spend some time with him. Add to my criteria the instant ability to speak and understand the language of wherever I was--I'd need this for several of my characters.

Al Jolson--I want to know the real story about the guy. This popular singer from the first half of the twentieth century would probably have some great tales to tell about the entertainment industry of his time. He comes across as a pretty nice guy in both the fictional portrayal and in his films, And if he's an ass then so be it. It's only three days for crying out loud.

Image via WikipediaJack Kerouac--After three days I'd probably be pretty drunk hanging out with this guy, but it would be cool going to jazz clubs and hanging out with people he knew. I could get more of a feel for the beat philosophy and lifestyle, and maybe get some kind of insight from Kerouac about his writing. Maybe three days of a cross-country drive. I can dig that for sure.

Now wasn't that fun? I had fun thinking about it. You want to do it too? I'm supposed to tag you here, so if you want to play--go ahead. It's an easy way to fill up a blog post. Or did I say that already?

Wednesday, January 18, 2012

Call me silly if you will, but I was moved. Or maybe impressed. No, I was both and more. It was about my blog post Where Am I Now Anyway? that appeared on January 4th. Your comments warmed my heart and uplifted my spirit--well at least they made me smile.

I'd been driving all that day and when I got home that evening I found something like 26 comments that were quite nice. It's not a huge number of comments, but it's not all that bad either. It was the nature of the comments that struck me.

All I can say is that I've got some great readers and sometimes I just want to start another blog--a blog about the comments I receive on my blogs. Now, don't worry--I'm not really going to do that but that's almost the way I feel sometimes.

So here in the spirit of weird content concerning a kind of weird content blog post, I give you some reader comments and my comments about the comments and then in the comment section you can leave your comments about the comments I received or the comments I have left here about the comments.

Shelly, two big pluses in your statement: "silly post" and "time-machine-like". You got it! I was shooting for silly, but I was also contemplating some paradoxical concepts that seemed best discussed in a whimsical way. And I love the topic of time travel. You struck a chord by noting that aspect of the content. Thank you Shelly.

Lee, this is one of the best posts. I'm sitting in my car, reading blogs and waiting on the person to open up the office. Is that specific enough? Lol I'm where I need to be at the moment. It may not be where I'd like to be (at my future mansion office), but it's on the road to my future.

Oh Miranda! Such sweet flattery! "One of the best posts" is enough to make me puff up with pride. Someone deflate me please before I float away. And you played right along with the post. Now that's what I call a fun comment. Thank you Miranda.

I too am where I need to be at this point in time. I like when writers use their words to lead me somewhere and their are so smooth about it that I miss the real clues along the way and when I get there, I'm thinking how did I get here? I don't think they are deceiving me, but giving me what I want. Cool post.

Teresa, you took this to the next level by doing an analysis of what it means to be a writer. What you described is what I always dream of doing when I write and what I hope to receive when I read. No deception, just truth in art. We take liberties in our work and hope the reader will suspend disbelief and play along in our game. Teresa, this was a cool comment. Thank you Teresa.

It's an honor to have this comment from one of the masters of modern sci-fi. I dream of creating mind bending writing, not always, but sometimes. I like to mess with time just as much as I like to mess with minds. You come up with some short, but clever comments and I'm pleased to have received one of those. Thank you Alex.

So there you have the first installment of comments and comments about comments. Since there were 36 comments on that post, I can probably turn this into a six week series with one installment per week. Then again with greater analysis I could make a post out of each comment. I could probably drag this out the rest of the year.

Be watching for "My Comments about Comments I Received on This Blog Post About Comments and My Comments on Those Comments". Maybe I will need to start another blog.

Check out the A to Z Challenge Blog for new details about the A to Z Video Challenge. Hope you'll submit your videos soon!

Monday, January 16, 2012

Nobody can argue that Amazon.com was a brilliant idea. To create an online bookstore, where, from the comfort of one’s own home, you can browse thousands of book titles, order them, and have them delivered to your home all with just a few strokes on the keyboard. And shelling out some money, of course.

Karen Jones Gowen has taken that idea one step further. She created an online bookstore for authors to support other authors. To join, you simply agree to purchase a minimum of six books per year. In exchange, the book you’ve written is part of the pool of books others choose from.

I loved the movie Pay it Forward, because that concept is so beautiful. I didn’t need any encouragement to support other writers I’ve become acquainted with online. I try to purchase their books when I can. But this makes it so much easier to do so, because now many of them are in one place.

If you love books and love helping others and want to do so in a new and creative way, you’ll love Celerytree.

Karen Walker

One of the books available from CeleryTree is Karen Walker's Following the Whispers. In her poignant memoir, Karen Walker traces the effects of a cold, loveless home environment and an early sexual molestation on her growth, marriage, motherhood, and career. After freeing herself from a desert of a marriage, Walker loses custody of her child and then journeys to discover who she is and to find some sense of wholeness. The journey takes her from her old life to new friendships, new lovers, and new professions. From New York to Portland, Oregon, and eventually to Albuquerque, New Mexico, Walker seeks someone to love her as she is. She finds that and more -- a loving connection with her son. This fifty-year emotional odyssey ultimately leads Walker to a self who can look back over her life with a contentment and satisfaction that allow her to follow the whispers that the future may bring.

Karen Walker is a writer who has published essays in newspapers and magazines, as well as an anthology series. After a 30+ year career in marketing and public relations, she went back to college to complete a Bachelor's degree and graduated Summa Cum Laude in 2005 from the University of New Mexico's University Studies program with a major emphasis in Creative Writing. She lives in Albuquerque, New Mexico with her husband, Gary, and their dog, Buddy. When she’s not writing, you can find her doing international folk dancing, singing at retirement communities with her trio, Sugartime, hiking, reading, or hanging out with friends. You can also find her online at: http://www.karenfollowingthewhispers.blogspot.com

Wednesday, January 11, 2012

For those who haven't noticed, I have a blog about dreams called A Faraway View. A while back I had a dream about a concept called "Dynamic Flow". According to the information that I received in this dream, Dynamic Flow is the theory that states: Outward movement of money will result in an incoming flow of money.

I will be blogging about this dream on A Faraway View tomorrow. However as I was preparing that post I began to wonder if the concept delivered to me in my dream was original. When I googled the term I found various entries that used the term, but one in particular caught my eye.

I have invited the author of that Google entry to Tossing It Out to provide her explanation of Dynamic Flow. You may want to save this post for deeper contemplation since it does invite some thought, but do give it a read through now and let us know what you think. I am honored to introduce you to Halina Goldstein:

Money is, without doubt, one of the most interesting aspects of our lives, and as such it is surrounded by excitement and fear, desire and frustration, and last but not least: mystery. Even if the subject has been explored in depth in countless ways already, there doesn't seem to be any universal trick or ultimate solution to the money challenge. No matter how evolved our philosophy around life, spirituality and money may be, and regardless whether we choose to live a simple life or strive for wealth, our day-to-day experience most often reveals a complicated and often difficult relationship with money.

So here's another perspective on money, and, as you will see, a somewhat unconventional one:

In most relationships, much of the difficulty stems from lacking ability or willingness to understand and accept the other person as is, unconditionally. Approaching another person with hopes, fears or expectations which most people tend to do much of the time - equals inviting complications, pain and dissatisfaction into the relationship.

In that respect our relationship with money is no different than our relationship with people. Much of the difficulty is due to our limited understanding of money as such and hence a tendency to approach money as merely "a thing". A thing that we earn and then use to buy other things, or a thing that we use to fulfill our needs, physical, emotional, mental and spiritual, including the need for safety and freedom.

Money affects every aspect of our life, sometimes in big and visible ways, and sometimes in equally big yet subtle ways. In any case, because of the key role money plays in our lives, transforming our relationship with money can lead to a transformation of our life as such, and not just our finances. But how can we transform this relationship?

One such way is to approach money -- and everything else by the way - as a flow -- as energy flowing.

From that perspective, money is not a thing but a flow. Not just as in "cash flow" (although that is a very important part of it), but in the sense that the entire experience of money is a flow: a flow that involves all aspects of our life (spirituality, personality, emotions, thoughts, vocation, calling, relationships and creativity) in a way that is meaningful and purposeful.

As I experience it, money flow (like all flow) is dynamic by nature. Dynamic in the sense that it changes, and that these changes are meaningful and in no way coincidental.

How can that knowledge help us create a more harmonious relationship with money, and from there in fact a more harmonious and joyful relationship with ourselves and our world?

First of all, knowing that money is a meaningful, dynamic flow we can choose to go with it rather than fight against it. Experience shows us that when we follow it, in other words, when we are willing to learn from our money flow, it supports us on our unique life journey and leads eventually to more freedom and lightness. And the other way round: when we fight against it, it often leads to stagnation or crisis.

To learn from your money flow is to be willing to look at money with fresh eyes. It is to learn from your financial biography (which also is an emotional and spiritual biography), and also to be willing to learn about the money dynamic as such: how it reflects your energy, your receptivity, your relationship with yourself, your relationship with other people and the world as a whole, your purpose -- and also how it by itself shapes your journey and thus helps you move in the direction that you are meant to move in.

The latter is often being overlooked by the way: Money has a very specific transformational role in your life, and if you don't understand that dynamic you may find yourself struggling in one or more aspects of your finances even if it looks like you're doing everything you're supposed to do. You may for example be applying all the best advice to your business yet nothing seems to work.

As you learn to relate to money as a flow, without clinging to it, as you learn to be receptive to the way that flow supports you you realize that money, like everything else, is here to help and support you. As you open to that support you may be surprised by the way money can show you your way to freedom, joy, and purpose.

This article is written by Halina Goldstein, coach, teacher, writer and the creator of the Flow~Integration Approach-- a fresh approach to living with flow, joy and purpose. Visit Halina's Flow blog here and download a map for your Flow Journey plus a beautiful Flow Contemplation and Music mp3. (no money will be required. :-))

Thank you Halina! And be sure to check back tomorrow on A Faraway View for my thoughts on this dream "message".

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