borak nye borak...until laa at one particular moment when Aley pop up this TRIVIA QUESTION :-

How do you know if he/she is the one for you?

Hah ambek ko!! Berpeluh gak nak menjawab nye wakakaka! I'm neither Dato Dr. Fadzilah Kamsah nor Dr Fazley! But thru my experience of love failure plus I used to be single and not knowing what to do or where to go while everyday tried to convince myself that I will never ever gonna meet a good guy apetah lagi untuk kawen.?? and suddenly!!! Suddenly just for once in my life Allah knows how a very simple first date has changed my life, my perception of guys & marriage for ever!! (i hope it'll be forever!)..

I met Izuan sumwhere in April this year..introduced by my ex-collegemate Kak Feza yg happens to be his officemate. The very first day ktorang kluar dating (leh la dikatergorikan sbg first date)..to be honest at that time I thought maybe he's just like sama jek ngn other lelaki yg pernah aku knal..not that dyer jumpa aku dgn rupa romeo ke ape! he was so damn calm and he acted cool la konon all the time hah hah..

+++B, if you are reading this rite now, I want u to know that I love u so much & I am so thankful that we've met. For some people you may not be perfect, but for me - you are MORE than perfect! Biarlah u xde Evo 10, xde rumah banglo 1 juta or x bergaji 5 angka..cukup lah dengan apa yg u dah buat utk I all these while! for all ur sacrifices..for all the cares and love that u hv given me.. All I can say is THANK YOU!+++

1) He makes you laugh until you cryA sense of the humour is one of the most appealing qualities in a man and sharing the same jokes will keep you close, whatever comes your way. It doesn't matter if no one else finds you funny, as long as you can make each other laugh out loud.

2) You want the same things out of lifeIf you want to settle down and have a family and he wants to travel the world with no commitments then you are not on the same page. Although all couples have to make compromises you should essentially want the same things out of life and be able to work towards them together.

3) He likes you best with no make-up onYes, you may think he is lying but the chances are that he really does prefer you au natural. He loves you for you, not for the clothes you wear or the make up you doll yourself up in. If he tells you you're pretty when you are cuddled up in your pyjamas then chances are that he means it.

4) You see his flaws but love him anywayIt is wrong to think that to be ‘the one' your man has to be perfect. Nobody is perfect. He is ‘the one' when you know him well enough to see all his flaws, accept them for part of who he is, and love him just as much anyway.

5) He supports you in everything you doWhether you are going for a job promotion or planning a night out with your friends - he should be your biggest cheerleader. He may not agree 100% with all your decisions but he will never stop you doing anything, will be there to offer advice and pick you up when things go wrong.

6) You trust him implicitlyIf you have been hurt in the past it can be difficult to trust again, but it is an important part of any relationship. Your partner should earn your trust by proving that he always keeps his word and treats you with respect. No, you can never be 100% sure he won't stray but 99.5% will do.

7) Even your dad/mom/best friend/families likes himOK, it shouldn't matter what other people think of him, but it is still nice to know that they approve. Your dad and best friend are only looking out for your best interests and it is difficult to convince them that somebody is good enough for you. If your boyfriend manages to get them on his side then you are probably on to a winner.

8) You wake up and feel lucky each morningAs you roll over in the morning and see him lying next to you, you are struck with a great sense of contentment. Here, out of everywhere in the world, is where you most want to be. You feel lucky to have him in your life and can't imagine sharing it with anyone else.(okeh yg nie x leh digunapakai sebelum kawen pls!)

9) You stop noticing the cute guy at the coffee shopOf course you are still going to find other men attractive but it is amazing how much less you notice them when you have found ‘the one'. Think about it, have you met anyone recently who really got your juices flowing? No? Then chances are he's right in front of you.

10) You just knowSometimes there is no defining factor or moment that confirms he is ‘the one' - you just know. When your life is brighter with him in it (even with his annoying habits and football obsession), when you feel happy each morning and can't imagine your life without him, when you smile thinking about him - you just know.