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not to be mean...i'm just saying

why do so many women ask us to rate their hubby's when they aren't that attractive? i mean, yeah, she might like how he looks, but c'mon. do they really want the truth?? because i am really tempted to be honest. no hun, you dh isn't hot. he's a 1 1/2...and you could have done better. I mean, sure, he might be cute in person, but if it doesn't show in the picture, don't ask!!!! I don't get it. unless i was married to mario lopez or brad pitt, i would never ask anyone to rate my hubby. don't even get me started on the "Rate Me" posts!!

I HATE the "Rate me and my man" posts. I think they're a waste of everyone's time. I mean, who cares who you're dating/engaged to/married to?!! As long as you're happy, who cares if your man (or you) looks like Brad Pitt or a homeless guy you pass on the street?

in a way i guess its nice to here other people say he is good looking but in other ways when they are away it kinda sucks to think that he is so attractive b/c you know women might be hitting on them....i was just in that post and i decided not to post b/c last time i kinda got offended on one of the replies about what they would want to do with mine and he is away for 4 months...i understand what you mean though, sometimes women get offended when no one replies about thier man and then they get votes that are a little high for their looks b/c no one want to hurt their feelings

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