When we get into a relationship, we don’t expect it to end, for some of us who waited a long time for Mr or Miss Right to come along, we get all excited and think, wow finally I have found my prince charming.

Personally I can confess that the signs where their from the onset that the relationship would not last, but because I waited to long for Mr right and I felt my biological clock was ticking, I was happy and excited to meet someone and get married, I must say I also did fall in love as we met in quite an unexpected way.

Their comes a time when you will just know it’s time to move on and walk away.

The journey from then on is not going to be easy, but believe me with time, you will heal and be ready to love again or just carry on being single and enjoy your life with family and friends

I hope you find this useful and do email me if you need free support by email and skype – you don’t have to hurt alone. I have been their and know it’s not easy. Smile and know you are loved.

When I was much younger, I was always worried during the times I found myself being single, and used to e upset on valentines day if I didn’t get a card. I remember when I was in college being envious of friends who had cards and gifts which they brought in to “show off” and then has to listen to their plans for a romantic evening. Worst time for me was then in the evening being home alone with a bottle of wine and box of chocolates which i treated my self to, and then crying to sleep in the hope that at least I could meet my tall dark handsome stranger in my dreams. (LOL it never happened!)

Now I am older and wiser, and after my divorce, I chose to be single as I really wanted to spend time bringing up my children. and give mysel time to cope with all the hurts and pain . 14 years on, my children are older, now it’s about taking care of me and enjoying the freedom to be me and not having to put so much time bringing up my children as they are older and independent.

Contrary to popular misconceptions, Singles Awareness Day is not about self-pity but rather a chance to announce to the world that you are single and happy to be so.

Originally, most singles referred to February 14 as Single’s Awareness Day (acronym: SAD) until it they realized that that was just depressing. Choosing the next day allowed single people a chance to turn this into a celebration rather than a festival of self-pity. This is the day that all of us single people can proudly stand up and show that it is okay to be single. Take that, cupid!

There is no reason to be miserable that you are independent and unattached; on the contrary, there are many more people in relationships than you might think who rather wish they were in your shoes, with nobody to answer to but themselves. So if you are single try not to stress, instead take time to work on yourself and let love find you.

Like this:

Last Thursday evening, I lost my weekly travel card and spent time retracing my steps and searching for it but could not find it.

The following day Friday 13th, I went to the station and no one had handed my ticket in. As it was a weekly ticket the ticket person said it could not be replaced. I had to just buy a day return for that day.

As I went on the train, I saw my friend Kathleen and explained what had happened and how gutted I felt as the ticket cost a lot. She told me that when she has lost things in the past, she would pray and just believe it would be found. So we prayed.

I spent the weekend looking again for the ticket but still couldn’t find it. I went to the station on Monday and explained my plight to the ticket person, he told me to go to the other platform and ask, I was a bit reluctant as previously as his colleague had said my ticket was not their.

Anyhow I went to the other side and explained again what had happened, the ticket person asked my name and woohoo boom boom – my ticket had been found and handed him. I was so excited I was screaming excitedly to the amusement of the other commuters queuing up. #AnsweredPrayer