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Does it bother you or is it just an observation? It could be partly that there is a popular fetish for certain types of people. Asian girls, Blonde white girls and black men are quite fetishized i believe in porn and maybe the media? I am just guessing tho. This is not something i see often

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I think a lot of that has to do with guys of all races going crazy over them. So basically, guys of other races pursue them and ask them out a lot more. There were three blondes in my junior class and all three dated guys who were black, hispanic because none of the white dudes asked them out. I didn't think those girls were my type as they were really annoying and liked to complain a lot. But two of three had crushes on me because there friends told me so and im white. I honestly think that they get so many non white dudes asking them out that they spend a lot of time dating them but its all good.

How is not being part of someone's preference not fair? No one is born entitled to receive anything, much less to be the preference of someone without having to put in zero work to earn it. It's not like blonde white girls exclusively date non-white's. It just so happens non-white males will more actively pursue them, therefore will succeed more times than a white guy who doesn't put in much effort.

I'm thinking it is because she is attracted to someone who is opposite of her. I also imagine that guys of other races are attracted to blonde girls. As a blonde girl, I am usually attracted more to white guys, and have only ended up dating white guys. However, I have been interested in guys of other races too.

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Okay, but my question was not about you, not about a random girl, but rather a general thing. Of course there are people with different preference in the world, but my question was how come blonde girls IN GENERAL (not all of them obviously but the vast majority) tend to prefer black/brown/asian guys over white guys?

I thought I answered your question too. I think white blonde girls are attracted to the difference in other races. Even for white girls with darker hair, they are physically closer in appearance to men of ethnicity. Dark hair, darker skin. I also have found that guys of other ethnicities seem to be more attracted to blondes. It may be about media portraying blonde white girls as the ideal (which I absolutely do not think is the case).

I think there's also room to consider that there are many women who color their hair blonde, and are not naturally that way. I also think that there are plenty of blonde white women with blonde white guys. My last SO was (naturally) blonde as well.

In America there are mixed couples everywhere. It's not uncommon to see. A lot of women ( blonde/white or anything else) date men they like and find attractive so obviously these white women find these black and hispanic men attractive. There's more to people than just appearances.

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Okay, but my question was why do you think there are more blondes with other races than blondes with white guys?

No, it's not. You can't help who you love. Think of how many different races there are in the world. Not everyone has the exact same taste, so of course there's going to be some overlapping. Why do you want only blonde white girls to date you? That's racial discrimination. Are you a troll?

I have a couple of possibilities why this may happen:The men of color are probably the ones who are confident enough to approach them The white women like those guys so they pursue them Maybe they want to piss their daddy or mommy off the white girls find the men of color fun and interesting Maybe it's a phase

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its just who they like.

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Well my close friend is blonde, blue eyed and married a blond blue eyed guy... they have a blonde blue eyed baby boy. Is she one of the few exceptions? I'm not sure, I really don't pay attention, tbh.

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Okay but i mean in general... why are so many blondes with other races but very few with white guys?

Two, there seem to be a lot of stereotypes going around with people. Take these for example:

- "White girls are some of the prettiest and most feminine girls out there."- "White people are the most uncultured and boring race out there."- "Blacks are tough, have more soul, and have larger equipment"

Ergo, white girls will look for the "real men" who are black, and white guys will avoid the "confrontational, aggressive" black women, instead going for the more stereotypically feminine whites or east Asians.

Obviously that's not how it works in most cases, but that's how things like the media and TV tropes run things. I would imagine that IRL, the main effect black stereotypes would have is if a white girl is expecting a black guy to fit the stereotype, and then discover he is a big softy at heart.

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But still, do you think it is normal that there are far more blonde girls with other races than blondes with white guys?

I don't see that much at all where I live. If a black guy IS dating a white girl, she is more likely to be a redhead than usual. But I wouldn't say it is some national norm. Statistically, it doesn't match up. And people generally prefer their own races' features anyway.