My wife is disabled. Much of the time, there isn't enough space between the pain and drugged insensibility for loving sex. This blog is a diary of our journey. Or just a place to shout. This will not likely entertain you. For that, see my links.

Monday, February 12, 2007

One of the things that has been a huge brick wall in the way of our sex life has been the fact that penetration is painful for my wife. She's kind of hung up on the idea that sex has to HAVE penetration, and as a result we don't have any sex at all.

The other night I suggested intercrural sex (between the thighs) and she was favorably disposed to trying it out.

Of course, we do a lot of talking and little doing, so we'll see what happens.

Friday, February 02, 2007

You (that is, all four of you who actually read this) may be wondering why there haven't been any posts for a while.

The reason is that things really aren't changing. There's not much to report. Stagnation is the order of the day, at least as far as my marriage is concerned. Everything I've tried has gone nowhere, and right now I'm out of ideas. We haven't even been back to the marriage therapist.