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In your relationship or with dating partners:
Who wants more connection in the relationship?
Who likes more hugging or sex?
Who needs more space and independence?
We each have a different comfort level for connection and intimacy. This is our ability to stay connected before we need space or when the level of closeness with a partner activates fear.

With technology at our fingertips, Facebook connections whom we don’t even know, quick texts that don’t convey our real emotions, and dating apps that offer great photos with little depth – we are losing the personal touch. In my practice, clients are yearning to be connected.

Whether you are a seasoned online dater or entering back into the dating world after a breakup/divorce, online dating can be exciting, intimidating and everything in between!
In this workshop, we’ll explore how to become more comfortable with yourself so that you can be more comfortable in the dating experience. Plus, we’ll learn tips for creating a better online profile, how to discern dating partners up front, how to navigate the different dating apps and sites and much more!

Years ago, my husband and I split up after a very long marriage. I spent time healing and then dated casually. Eventually I was ready for a relationship and met Steven, an attractive California guy. We began an exciting long distance relationship.

Do you every feel self conscious or watch every word because you’re afraid of how others will perceive you?
Do you get tongue-tied around certain people or during difficult conversation?
How about when your on a date or connecting with your lover or the significant people in your life?

Many of us have fears of intimacy as a result of events in our childhood or issues within our family. We then create behaviors that sabotage the very thing that we want which is love. . With awareness you have the opportunity to do something differently!

We often sabotage relationships without knowing it. We do this by unconscious behaviors that can cause distance or breaks in intimacy.
We may do this out of fears of intimacy, feeling too vulnerable or needing more space but not knowing how to ask for it. Listen to the VIDEO and find out what may cause sabotage in your relationship so that you can create fulfilling relationships instead!

We all have different needs for ‘alone time’ and when two people have different needs it can cause disharmony in a relationship. Whether you are a ‘super-connector’ with an independent natured partner, or you and you partner both need space, find out how you can keep your relationship positive and connected while still getting what you both want and need! Listen to the VIDEO to find out more!

“How can I trust anyone again after what happened? I can’t even trust myself!” Have you ever said those words? I know that I have and so have my clients.
When there has been broken trust or you have been hurt, felt betrayed or abandoned; it’s easy to blame yourself, blame others, or simply lose faith in trust and in love. (To read more and watch VIDEO click)

“We all have a ‘saturation point’ for intimacy,”‘ says Cheryl Lazarus, Relationship Expert. This means your ability to stay connected before needing to break away or becoming fearful of too much intimacy. We connect – we move apart. We come back together – we move apart again. Each person has a different level to which they can stay connected or be intimate. (read more & watch the VIDEO click)

Testimonial

Cheryl is a kind and loving coach who makes things happen. She has such a keen insight to what needs to change and how to easily fit these changes into our busy lives. As a struggling workaholic, she helped me to focus my attention on what’s truly important in my life ... taking my life in the direction it needed to go.