[Debate] Why is it sex the only thing guys are looking for nowadays?! O_O

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Re: Why is it sex the only thing guys are looking for nowadays?! O_O

Originally Posted by Slug Princess

Guys, seriously...
I'm not saying that sex is "wrong" ... that's an important part of life. But please, you can't just be interested in that when you love someone. If you love someone it will come eventually and naturally. Trying to get sex from a girl and if she doesn't want to... are you just gonna leave her like that tard did to me??? shame on you if your are like that. Sex is a part of life... but so are FEELINGS!!

oko i was only kiiding , i was playing online , i'll read the thread .... brb

Re: Why is it sex the only thing guys are looking for nowadays?! O_O

Originally Posted by MacMiller

Ahh yes, blame everything on us males. It's not like any females are like that too, right? I totally agree, every single man out there which shall include myself were born to have sex and sex only. We are freaks of nature, we can't control it. It's the same for each and every one of us. It is impossible to find one male out there who doesn't crave the need to have sex. Even if they have other problems to deal with; such as poverty and health, they will always have sex as their first priority.

This. If you're seriously judging all men based on one experience you had with a guy then you're the one that needs to grow up.

Re: Why is it sex the only thing guys are looking for nowadays?! O_O

Originally Posted by DrProof

My *****h. :y

OT: I like sex, things won't change. Go find yourself a nerd, they like to keep it in their pants.

No one told you to dislike sex!! DrProof!!
seriously... I wouldn't mind to be with a nerd if he loved me and I loved him.
It's about feelings for your partner!! If you really love her you have to give her all the time she needs!
Love is a beautiful thing!
Don't degrade yourselves into GPS for Vag****

Re: Why is it sex the only thing guys are looking for nowadays?! O_O

loled super hard when i saw the title said nowadays, like it wasnt like that before...

but, this is just another side effect of the degredation of civilization and the oversimplification of humanity. no depth anymore.

before anyone jumps on this post to give me a bunch of flak and put words in my post that were not typed, im not at all saying sex is bad or wanting sex is bad or anything of that nature, all i am saying is that in today's world, far too many for my taste are too simple, and fixated on few things, be it sex, drugs, money etc etc. simple people bore the hell out of me. that is all.

Re: Why is it sex the only thing guys are looking for nowadays?! O_O

I'm a guy, and I couldn't agree more with what you're saying. I personally believe that having sex before marriage is a shameful act.
it is also a shame that there are guys who 'love' girls just to get laid.

Re: Why is it sex the only thing guys are looking for nowadays?! O_O

Originally Posted by Slug Princess

I think that promoting a better sexual conduct on guys is really important and that is why I made this thread.
There are more important things in life that just "a hook up".
Guys, I'm really disappointed and disillusioned about this fact. I'm not being biased when I talk about this matter.

My last bf just left me like a month ago just because he wanted to sleep with me already and I told him that I wasn't ready for that jump.
He never told me he left me because of that but from my perspective:
-Everything was great, we used to have fun and I was (am) ridiculously in love with him even when he wasn't that "good looking" guy. But I liked him because he never pushed me to do anything and everything happened very naturally. He used to take me to places and we used to have lasting conversations. Suddenly he asked me when were we gonna sleep together. I explained him the fact that I wasn't (still not) ready for that. He insisted a couple of times more and after a week he just broke up with me saying that "he needed some time and space for himself".
Now he's seeing another girl who is known to be a big ***** and rumor has it that she has slept with half the school's guys and she's only 17 just like me.

Guys, no one is supposed to jump to a sexual relationship where there isn't love... there are things that take time in life like to feel that you are fully prepared for such an important decision as it is having your first sexual relationship.

Love someone and wait for the right moment when you both feel that the natural time for you has arrived. There's more time than life, says my Granny. Don't rush into something you might regret later on. For your safety and for the one you really love's safety. Let it flow... stop being retards like my bf.

If all guys are only after that "one" thing I rather be with girls ... so grow up ya'all!!! I'm serious!

ok , when i was in high school all i wanted to do was bang & bang ..... i think guys hit that stage quiker than girl , your going to that stage eventually trust me i know .... but what your boyfriend did is what most of the guys do ... is try to troll you in to sleeping with them & if what you said about him dating the whore ..... you got your answer right there , so he's not worth it , dont waste your time in him anymore ...... love only brings hatred * nagato * ..... & i understand that you need to feel love to do it .... its a great feeling
so keep calm & one cool guy like me will find you one day dont worry

Re: Why is it sex the only thing guys are looking for nowadays?! O_O

Originally Posted by SasukeTheViper EMS

I'm a guy, and I couldn't agree more with what you're saying. I personally believe that having sex before marriage is a shameful act.
it is also a shame that there are guys who 'love' girls just to get laid.

Re: Why is it sex the only thing guys are looking for nowadays?! O_O

Originally Posted by labiancareality

ok , when i was in high school all i wanted to do was bang & bang ..... i think guys hit that stage quiker than girl , your going to that stage eventually trust me i know .... but what your boyfriend did is what most of the guys do ... is try to troll you in to sleeping with them & if what you said about him dating the whore ..... you got your answer right there , so he's not worth it , dont waste your time in him anymore ...... love only brings hatred * nagato * ..... & i understand that you need to feel love to do it .... its a great feeling
so keep calm & one cool guy like me will find you one day dont worry

Re: Why is it sex the only thing guys are looking for nowadays?! O_O

OT: I like sex, things won't change. Go find yourself a nerd, they like to keep it in their pants.

Yes because acting cool on the internet actually makes you something, right?

when you don't crave for sex it doesn't mean that you are a "nerd" , it means that you have morals. love isn't just about having sex. and when you say that it's not cool to still be a virgin where you live, you are just proving that you are a phony..a mere follower of stupid trends.

Originally Posted by labiancareality

such old fashion beliefs * garaa

Call it "old fashion beliefs", call it whatever you want..
I still believe that it's far better than what most of the people do nowadays.