Helping You

If you read my About Page it gives you a good idea of where I was in February 2018. Such a lot has happened since then and I am probably a totally different person to who I was at that time.

I’ve been through an incredibly tough period of growth – I lost work, home, friends, my dogs. I have experienced loss and grief. But life is about choices – I could choose to follow the “Poor Me” path or I can view these challenges as lessons. I chose the latter.

I qualified as an Holistic Counsellor because however tough my life can get, there are others out there who have no idea how to get out of their life challenges. And so, my on-line course Helping You developed.

Based on Mindfulness and ANSR, the course helps you to gain understanding of why you feel as you do, but without the often traumatic deep digging into the events that triggered things. A gradually-increasing series of tasks and tools are given that help you learn to flip your thought patterns and start the healing process.

Something is About to Explode!

A year or so ago I moved to a small town which had been through the mill. The whole town had been just about wiped out with a cyclone. The people who live there are wonderful and I felt right at home very quickly. Becoming a part of a small community isn’t always easy yet I felt welcomed almost straight away; but when you have a small community, where just about everyone knows everyone else, there are going to be some arguments and disagreements. It’s quite normal and in a town this size, like family spats, they are easy to see.

Once I had understood these differences, I made the conscious choice not to become embroiled. To walk the middle path.

The reason I tell you this is because a Face Book friend just put up a post that mentioned that people who won’t choose a ‘side’ in an argument are gutless, and it seems a good time to set the record straight. It actually takes a TON of strength to not choose sides and to try to maintain that middle road, staying open and friendly with all sides. All my life I’ve tried to be the ‘peace-keeper’ between ‘factions’ and all my life I’ve been the one hurt – yet I keep doing it. I’m pretty sure I won’t stop anytime soon either.

All that info is just to introduce something that is very likely to happen in the next few months. It’s something we need to be prepared for because it has the possibility of being really ugly and people like me, who prefer not to choose sides, are very likely going to have to take a stand. I told you that we ‘middle roaders’ are strong – don’t say I didn’t warn you when you see that strength and years of frustration erupt! What am I talking about? I’m talking about the rapidly approaching time that Coronavirus starts to come to an end; when social distancing and quarantine comes to an end and when people start to look for answers as to why this happened.

Our world is currently swamped in Fear. For those of you who know about my Energy Ladder work, know that the bottom rung, the one in the murk, is held at the frequency of Fear. Pretty much every low-frequency emotion can be devolved back to fear. So what happens as the virus starts to fade away and the fear starts to reduce? As we start to move away from Fear, we get to move up a rung on that Energy Ladder – and the next rung up holds the frequency of Anger.

People are going to start to question – and not just about Coronavirus. Humans have been swamped in fear for centuries, especially over the last few decades – war, famine, plague are fears we are reasonably, possibly even genetically, used to. Then add in the constant barrage of low-grade fear we’ve subjected ourselves to over the last few decades – the news we watch, the films we watch, the books we read. Conspiracy theories abound. Advertising that tells us we are just not up to the mark. That we don’t have the right body, belong to the right group of friends, are too old, too young, too fat, too thin, too short, too tall. That we are female. There is the possibility that these fears – that are so endemic to us that most of the time we don’t actually recognise them as fears – will just add fuel to the fire that is likely to happen when we start to question how Coronavirus was started. How was it allowed to spread to rapidly; why isn’t there a vaccine?? Who is to blame?

Humans like to blame someone.

And this is where our society threatens to come completely unstuck. Are we advanced / ascended / awake enough to understand that we need to go about this in a different way if we are to gain the future we desire? That this anger, – and believe me I can’t see it NOT happening – needs to be reined in; turned around and the Energy used in a positive manner. And for that to happen we have to know what we want to see when this comes to an end. How we want our world to look for our children’s children’s children. We have to stop it and seek other ways before it gets off the ground. Do we want future historians to look back to this time as say “That was the time we missed a huge opportunity” or would be prefer them to say “That was the time when we started to make a difference.” I know which I want.

We have been in the pause between the in-breath and the out-breath.

Now. Today. That Collective out-breath starts and it will continue until the end of October.

Are we ready for the next in-breath??

Are we ready to choose how we want our future to look?

Because if we can’t – it’s going to get worse. Anger will be added to Fear.