She’ll wear a chic and sleek lace gown and guests will feast on chicken and ribs!

Her boyfriend Kyle King hasn’t proposed yet — but that has not stoppedMaci Bookout from planning every tiny detail of her big day!Just don’t expect an extravagant bash — Maci, 19, wants to keep things simple!

Friends say the Tennessee-native was deeply affected by the tornado that destroyed Joplin, Missouri, and wants to keep the celebration low-key out of respect for those who suffered.

“Maci feels that a wedding that is over-the-top would be wrong with so much devastation going on around her.”

“She wants it small enough to be intimate, but big enough to have fun,” a friend tellsOK Magazine! She just wants a big party, nothing too fancy.”

So guests shouldn’t expect fancy food and live music — the menu will be Maci’s favorite southern BBQ and the soundtrack will be provided by “an iPod playing all their favorite songs.”

Maci WILL splash out on a wedding dress — she’s already got her eye on a couple of expensive designers. Her friend says, “Maci loves Vera Wang and Monique Lhuillier. She wants a dress that’s really beautiful and practical… a wedding gown that’s sleek and chic, probably strapless with some lace. She’d definitely like a veil with a tiara, too.”

Guest of honor will, of course, be Maci’s two year old sonBentley — the cute toddler will even escort his mommy down the aisle as ring-bearer.

And there’s even a spot on the guest list for Bentley’s dad, Maci’s ex Ryan Edwards. The friend explains, “Maci still cares a lot for Ryan and doesn’t want him to feel left out. At the end of the day they have a son to raise together.”