Just curious where you guys usually cum when you're with a girl for the first time? (With a condom). Or, where would the average girl prefer you to cum? I plan on getting with a girl sometime this weekend.. but I'm sort of torn. Where do you usually cum? In the condom? Take it off right before you do and cum on her belly/ass? What if she's disgusted by that? I DEFINITELY don't want to ask "where do you want me to cum?" right before I do. Talk about awkward and ruining the moment haha. What's your guys opinions?

Most girls I've been with like me to cum inside their pussies, with or without a condom.

If I had a choice, my favorite place to cum is on their faces or in their mouths, without condom. On the face has added visual appeal, whereas in the mouth has added sensations of her lips/tongue on my cock.

As others have said, I also like to cum between their tits if they have big meaty ones that wrap around my cock nicely. The visual of a pearl necklace is pretty cool.

Most girls I've been with like me to cum inside their pussies, with or without a condom.

If I had a choice, my favorite place to cum is on their faces or in their mouths, without condom. On the face has added visual appeal, whereas in the mouth has added sensations of her lips/tongue on my cock.

As others have said, I also like to cum between their tits if they have big meaty ones that wrap around my cock nicely. The visual of a pearl necklace is pretty cool.

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Don't you get paranoid cumming in her pussy without a condom? i mean most of them will say they are on the pill but that usually isnt the case.

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I don't do girls but it really depends on where he wants me to cum. My partner loves to swallow and 9 out 10 times he swallows my load. If we are fucking then it either on his back or stomach just depends on the position.

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Talk about it before your clothes start coming off, and find what she enjoys.

That being said, all the girls I've had sex with for the first time (virgins and otherwise) have wanted me to cum in a condom, inside their vagina. I'm thick, and they like to feel the swelling and pulsing of orgasm inside them. I aim to please.

The first time's usually basic missionary or variations. Exotic waits for the second or third date. And I always wear a condom, unless I'm married to you.

Pulling out just before you let go, and cumming all over her tummy and front is always a winner for me. It's got all the sensations of vaginal up until the last moment (which I find better than anything else and also is a lot more stimulating for her), but a lot of visual stimulation that you don't usually get so much of by finishing inside her, at least not with a condom on. I love to finish by creampieing deep inside as much as the next man, but prefer to mix it up with this.

That said, if you and her are new together, finishing inside her would probably be more expected, unless she's got a particular dislike of having guys finish inside her (but if you're wearing a condom I'm guessing she's going to be okay with this). As ever, talk to her, see what she likes (she may very well not want you to cum all over her and want you to keep it in the condom, especially if you're new and haven't got tested together yet).

It all depends, I've been with girls who were adamant that I finish inside them, and others who were adamant that I not cum in their pussy (fear of getting preggers I guess). Guess you just need to have a think over how to raise the subject so it doesn't put a dampener on things.

Just curious where you guys usually cum when you're with a girl for the first time? (With a condom). Or, where would the average girl prefer you to cum? I plan on getting with a girl sometime this weekend.. but I'm sort of torn. Where do you usually cum? In the condom? Take it off right before you do and cum on her belly/ass? What if she's disgusted by that? I DEFINITELY don't want to ask "where do you want me to cum?" right before I do. Talk about awkward and ruining the moment haha. What's your guys opinions?

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ask where she wants it. nothing like a person who knows what they like sexually.

When I'm doing the fucking I usually say something hot like "You are making me so fuckin' hot, I'm gonna unload, where you want it baby, you want me to cum all over you, you want this load in you... something to that effect. And usually I get a response in good enough time to put it where it's wanted. I can start to feel my nuts boil and my cock get that twitch well ahead of when I'm gonna shoot. And when I ask him or her if they want me to cum all over them, I mean it...I cum a lot!

I'd think that if you're to the point where you've had it in her long enough to blast a load - she's gonna be hot enough to let you know what she likes.
All women are different. And, remember, it's not a porno shoot. It's not is it? Lol