‘To the world you may be just one person, but to one person you may be the world.’

‘Love is always bestowed as a gift - freely, willingly and without expectation. We don't love to be loved; we love to love. - Leo Buscaglia’

I hope these sayings would suffice that falling in Love is once-a-lifetime feeling, but adding my thoughts right from my heart…

‘Love’ the four-letter word that spells magic on humans to live their life for someone special in their life, to feel someone’s feel, to think of someone, and to fall in love with someone madly.

* The moment you fall in ‘Love’, went on your knees to propose your love, the moment you were proposed by someone special, the moment you first kissed someone special or when butterflies filled your stomach while uttering the phrase, ‘I Love U’ are priceless. You cannot afford to buy those sweet moments and they can be felt only once in your lifetime. If it repeats, you won’t feel the same zeal in it.

* People run away from home or fight their parents, blood relations to live with someone special in their life. What is the reason behind it? ‘Love’ because it is once-a-lifetime feeling.

* Why people commit Suicides because of ‘Love Failure’ or for ‘Love’? Is it because there is no girl/boy in this world other than the one they loved? No, it is because ‘Falling in Love is once a lifetime feeling’; once they love someone, they remain in their heart forever. Stats, say that Current Average World Suicide Rate: 10.07 per 100,000 people and 6.7 per 100,000 people is because of ‘Love Failure’ or for ‘Love’

Last but not the least, ‘Love is like a flower, it blossoms only once, lives happily until it dies. For most of us it is like a flower, that’s why Falling in ‘Love’ is once-a-lifetime feeling.’

With these sweet thoughts, I love to conclude that ‘Falling in Love is once-a-lifetime feeling’. Not everyone falls in love if you fall then you are one of the luckiest people in this world and words can never say how sweet it is...

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36 comments:

I do not agree with this. Love comes in many shapes and forms. One would have to be lucky to find only one true love, which is a vague idea. An individual can fall in love many times over their lives. I loved my ex-wife when we went out and got married. But after our divorce, it changed more into a friendship form of love, do not hate her. Time has passed, and now I am in love with my girlfriend, and we plan on getting married. One true love is more of a fairy tale these days, but, if one can find that, good for them.

So you are writing for the topic.. hmm.. i liked the quotes you have used..even the way you have represented the concept is good.. but like Buddha i have the same question.. what happens if we fall head over heels on someone.. marry and then turns out it is not working.. does that mean we can't love again?

I liked the post. You have elaborated the whole idea in a commendable manner. But i second what Buddha has said. People fail in love many times, they fall in and out of love. But that doesn't make any difference in the charm of 'love' ..

Bro...you have written for the topic very well...but personally I don't believe in "Love - once-a-lifetime-feeling".....because once I was or I thought I was in love..the feelings you described...I felt them for her..but all my feelings along with me were rejected...and I have once acted like Devdas too...

Since I definitely think I had a very strong attraction towards her..I believe it was love..I still have feelings for her even after 4 years of not seeing her...but I won't get her..so this does not mean I will never fall in love again...if that happens then what will happen to my wife...should I remain unmarried...???

"Love"..is a relative term bro...how do you know you are in love...the way people feel when they say they are in love is the way shown in movies...it is the power of suggestion from childhood that has made us to think like that...we are conditioned in that way...to think and feel like that...

Glad that you don't agree with my point and that is how a debate starts.. First, 'Love' can be different forms and shapes, I agree but still 'Falling in Love is once-a-lifetime feeling', you can feel the same zeal in your second time.. Always FIRST is the BEST in all sorts.. I accept that people break up with one and getting marry with next but somehow their first love will stay in their heart.. Because 'Falling in Love is once-a-lifetime feeling', Let us have a healthy debate here..

Of course I always support 'Love', glad to know that you liked my take on the topic.. Well in that case, I don't think you won't find the same zeal again in your second love and I am sure you can't forget your first, truly and Heartly. Sure will visit yours by this weekend..

Nostalgic, glad you liked the post and thanks for all the smiles.. PS: 'Love' is not a exam to fail in it, it is a feeling, only once you can feel the zeal in it.. and I agree that many people fall in and out of love but still the charm and passion you had for your first is always special..

Hi Pkay, it is great to see a person of my sort, one who encourages many with his/her words, reading and commenting, debating Wow! You are awesome.. Hmm, Glad you are on the other side, so let us debate.. You never get addicted to 'Love' and True Love will be only once and thanks for the smiles..

"because once I was or I thought I was in love..the feelings you described...I felt them for her..but all my feelings along with me were rejected...and I have once acted like Devdas too...ince I definitely think I had a very strong attraction towards her..I believe it was love..I still have feelings for her even after 4 years of not seeing her...but I won't get her." - It is a true love then, but PS, it is not good to be Devdas, instead live your life with the zeal and fire you got from your first..

Practically speaking, you have get married and fall in love with your wife, but my point somehow your first love footprints will be with you forever, that is why "Fallin in Love is once-a-lifetime feeling"..

Well, Love is not at all a term Bro, it is a feeling like God, you have to feel it bro..

If the first love is forever, then the mother/parents may love their first kid.

If the first love is forever, then the second married persons are cheating their spouse.

If the first love is forever, then there will not be a Jesus Christ, Mahatma Gandhi or a Mother theressa in this world.

IF the first love is forever, then people may living in hell forver, if the first decision were wrong taken by them.

If the first love is forever, then the majority of humanbeings may commit suicide in this practical world.

If the first love is forever, then it will be the other form of selfishness.

If the love that what you say, then love is not that love which is pure and divine. It will not be blind or unconditional.

Dear SiS, my love is universal and it spreads everywhere like light and its fragrance will sterilize this materiallistic world with its supreme positiveness.

So why we should imprison this divine feelings only for ourself ? Why should we keep it like Gin in the bottle of our heart ?

Therefore I humbly requesting my friend to free it to this universe and share with every living thing in this world. Let us make it universal together to spread faith and harmony in this world. Will you be with me friend to complete this divine task ?:)ReplyDelete

Wow! You are the sweetest person I have ever met in this blogosphere.. 'Love' is a feeling and it differs according to the situation and relations..I accept the divine love in the case of Parents, Jesus Christ, Mahatma, Mother Teresa, or the friendship has no bound and it can be 'N' in number.. but 'Falling in Love with someone special in your life is once-a-lifetime feeling'..I hope you accept with this.. don't you?

How can I agree with you SiS ? You yourself stated it in the second paragraph of your post i.e., "Dont find love-let love find you. Thats why it is called falling in love. Because you dont force yourself to fall, you just fall."

This line itself shows the strength of love. We are helpless in front of it. Whenever it comes to you, you have to surrender in front of that divine feeling. We dont fall, but just fall:)))

Then how can we say the "Falling in love just once a life time feeling?" If it is not in our control? We fall everytime in front of love dear.

I am still waiting for you friend :))) "Let us sing a song of evergreen love..and let the see the tune of love-together" ha ha ha ha.

hie SIS!there seems to be fueled up discussion going on here. ur post is no doubt sweet like the first love with beautiful quotes and wonderful pictures but I don't really feel convinced about it!1) first love maybe a memorable feeling but that doesnt mean ur 2nd and 3rd relation is not 'love'2) people who give up their lives for love don't prove that love is 'the most imp' thing in life instead for them life happens to hold a very limited meaning!

I disagree on the following points: 1. You say we fall in love, and my dear friend, fall is beyond one's control. If one falls once, there is no guarantee that he will not fall again. One simply falls and thats all.2. You say people commit suicide for the sake of their beloved. This happens because at that particular moment, he feels himself extremely attached to him or her, and committing suicide is the result of mindless or extreme emotions. People also commit suicide due to other distress also. Will we say that that feeling of distress only occur once ? Also, suppose if a person manages to survive the situation arising out of failure in love, will he not be able to fall in love again forgetting the lat episode. 3. You say Flower blossoms on once. But dear, flower will blossom again the next season. We may lose the fragrance of that flower for some time but again it will be there. Same fragrance will arouse same feeling of love next time.So dear, since we fall in love, we may fall, no one knows, how many time.

* I accept your first point Jagdish, falling in love is beyond one's control.. but if you fall more than once then I don't feel it is true..* It is as a result of distress but one do that madness at only once because they don't want to love once again or fall in it..* Dear Jagdish for people like me it is like a flower, one blossoms it lives happily and dies but this won't hold true forever..We fall in love but only once you can feel the zeal, be it the aroma of the flower or any, only once you will have a passion..

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