A couple of months ago one of my beauties got married in a gorgeous wedding. She got to walk down the aisle into the arms of the man she is completely in love with- and it could have easily ended up differently had she done what was intuitive to her prior to working with us (this is why there is no replacement for one on one coaching if you want to fast track your path to love with an amazing man)......

And this is why understanding the psychology of men is so important to knowing how to move through the commitment stages and keep them magnetized with your feminine energy-

In my very 2nd session with her, my client was fuming because she had just started dating him and they had been going out a few weeks, and she had sent him an email and he had not responded to this email.

Now watch how and why this was a make or break moment.

She is a publicist just starting to gain some traction in her career and on one of their dates he had told her if she ever needed his help- he would be happy to help her in any way he could (masculine man providing and saying, "If you NEED me I am here.") However it is early on in their dating timeline and she goes from baby steps to a little too much too soon.

Now he is a top business executive, very busy and with a very demanding career. He takes pride in being the man and showing up for people in a way that has a strong and positive impact in their lives. How do I know this? I've worked one on one with a lot of driven, quality and top performing men so I have a very good idea of how they think and act- and it is often SO misunderstood by women.

So she took him up on it in her own way....and sent him an email asking for his advice. However, when she and I spoke, she soon admitted it was just a ploy to try to get some attention from him (masculine, chasing.)

Here is the deal though- and why too much too soon can kill a relationship...

The contents of her email were her embellishing a work situation- she told him via email how scared she was (trying to act like a damsel in distress) and how much she could use his advice. So she asked him in the email how to solve a precarious work situation......

IN her mind this was a perfect way in which he could deliver protection and provision and show up for her...she had been reading free articles on masculinity and femininity, and as it often goes with mixing and matching advice and trying to implement it, she was going about it in an unhelpful way......

IN HIS MIND THOUGH...this was a lot of pressure. Here's why... (and this is what I explained to her in session about his real motives in not responding to her email, which she assumed was disinterest on his part)...

As a responsible businessman he knows the weight of his words, he measures them, therefore he doesn't want to give advice that isn't good, and he knows he is an expert in his industry and not in hers. He doesn't want to be wrong as his healthy masculine ego wants to be "the man" for her, he doesn't want to let her down, yet her email was too much too soon....

So (as we find out much later)....he read her email, is nervous about letting her down and feels put on the spot, then refocuses on his event (his business event) and gets single focused, which men do, forgets about the email and then a week later he hasn't responded to her.

She interprets this as disinterest, he is just pulling away a bit to get some space to figure out how to proceed in the best way.

Now most women in this space will get resentful, take things personally, go cold and guarded, OR begin chasing, pursuing and getting obsessive...My client felt enormous relief when she actually allowed for there to be a different reason, one that she had to try to understand since she isn't a man....and just leaned back and focused on her own life trusting him.

Soon almost 11 days later, he calls to ask her out for dinner. She (since she now understands this differently and owns her part) is happy and warm and they go out.

She notices he is a bit nervous. He looks like he's afraid he's in trouble with her and he is apprehensive- but she is open-hearted and in her feminine radiant energy (after doing the inner work in our sessions)...

f course, he ends up finally opening up and tells her almost to the letter everything I said, and explains how he wanted to spend that evening listening more and getting more information, to give her informed and GOOD advice.

She could have either gotten demanding "Well he could have said "something" or just lean back into her feminine energy, trusting and magnetizing this man to bond with her at his pace-

It is so important in the dating process to know how to move through commitment stages through the power of your feminine energy, this is the KEY to a man's lifetime love, devotion, and masculine commitment.

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