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Sunday, August 7, 2016

I want to be married again. I want someone to come home to, hug and kiss, and swap stories about our day at work. I want to look forward to planning a date night every week. I want to travel with someone who appreciates seeing different places. I know exactly what I want for my life.

But here's my dilemma: I haven't a clue to what women want.

At one time, I thought that women would want honesty. That they want a man who would tell them the truth, regardless of how bad it may sound. They want someone who is trustworthy because he has a track record of being honest about his actions.

Nope. Not it.

Okay, well, how about this: Women want loyalty, right? They want a guy who would never put himself in a position where there's an opportunity to cheat. He doesn't have to guard his cell phone day and night because he's not doing anything wrong. He only wants his lady and no one else.

Nope. Not it.

Okay, I know this one has to be it: Women want security. That has to be the ticket, right? They want a man who has a career and not a job. Someone who takes his household responsibilities seriously. When the house note is due then that's what he's paying. He's not waiting in line for the next pair of Jordans to drop while bills still need to be paid.

Nope. Still not it.

So, what do women want in relationships? I keep racking my brain trying to figure it out. If it's not honesty, trust, loyalty, security, and responsibility, then what is it?

Wait. Now that I think about it, they do want all of those things. Just not from me. LOL!