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you’ve totally got the wrong end of the stick, all the comments were along the lines of women wondering if their piss-flaps are gonna be hanging out/dropping out the outfit. Some very creative and funny comments

OMG....Is the one with the one piece that had maybe a 1/2 strip for the crotch that is all over FB???The comments were the best!!"Looking like a dog with his head out the window with his lips a-flappin!"

I actually feel sorry at times, for both men and women who are " very good looking " or " beautiful ". Seems to me they attract the wrong kind of people, all through their lives. And although this is not always the case, it seems to ring true for many. If one " thinks " the mirage of outside beauty can some how equate to a great or " exciting " possible relationship, I have news for them.

Good afternoon Backcreek. This quote is very true, I think. I've a sister who is extremely attractive but seems to be very unlucky in love, always seems to attract the wrong men. I'm hoping at some point she will learn to filter them out.

I hope that " true companion " will not mind me making a comment concerning her obvious beauty ~[/ quote]

I also think "true companion" is quite beautiful. For some reason a beautiful woman seems to send other women into a frenzy. I'm not sure if it's envy or they think she may be living a better life style. Judging by comments my sister has had to endure from other women, I think it may be true, women can be quite mean with other women, when they think she may be better looking.

women wondering if their piss-flaps are gonna be hanging out/dropping out the outfit. Some very creative and funny comments

Does not matter how beautiful a lady is when vulgarity like this falls from her lips, she just seems ugly.

.. I actually feel sorry at times, for both men and women who are " very good looking " or " beautiful ".

I don't.

Seems to me they attract the wrong kind of people all through their lives.

That's usually because when many of them get into their teens and past that most of them give off the wrong kind of vibe- based on narcissism- and attract those types and repel the better quality types who understand that lucking out in the genetic pool doesn't really entitle them to skate through life on their looks.

Each person is responsible for their own thoughts, feelings, attitudes, and behaviors. And if the foundation of all of those is their great looks (for those that have them), well, they get what they get.

. Being beautiful / extremely handsome ~ doesn't mean the person on the inside is such.

For some reason a beautiful woman seems to send other women into a frenzy. I'm not sure if it's envy or they think she may be living a better life style.

It likely has nothing to do with envy. Beauty is all relative anyway, because it's dependent on the person who's beholding it. The tastes and appreciation of what’s considered beautiful differs from person to person.

An average or plain-looking man might think a marginally attractive woman is beautiful, while a man like George Clooney wouldn’t give her a second glance. Exceptions would be classic beauties such as Charlize Theron and Halle Berry, who are generally considered beautiful by the masses.

Judging by comments my sister has had to endure from other women, I think it may be true, women can be quite mean with other women, when they think she may be better looking.

I think if women are not nice to another woman, it’s usually for reasons having to do with the woman’s personality, rather than her looks. I have several friends who are much younger and better-looking than I, and we get along great.

I think if women are not nice to another woman, it’s usually for reasons having to do with the woman’s personality, rather than her looks. I have several friends who are much younger and better-looking than I, and we get along great.

Completely and totally agree....I have some awesome friends that are just straight up gorgeous.....but they are gorgeous on the inside as well and that is what makes us friends.They also don't feel the need to point out that they are gorgeous and the trials that come with it.........

In my younger years, I was considered a catch primarily because of my looks and slim, fit figure. Now? I don't feel that I am a catch being a few pounds overweight and the whole aging crap so I consider myself out of many men's league. Insecurity. Too long single. Too long without love. OMG. I'm making myself weepy. STOP!

And to add, that in my younger years, women did not like me in spite of the fact that I was extremely shy and was not an attention seeker. I really think that women who gossip are more popular than those who don't?

Now? I don't feel that I am a catch being a few pounds overweight and the whole aging crap so I consider myself out of many men's league. Insecurity. Too long single. Too long without love. OMG. I'm making myself weepy. STOP!

Most definitely STOP!!

You are quite lovely....and from the few posts I have seen of yours....witty and full of common sense...Don't give up.....some lucky man will come along sooner than you think!

" I actually feel sorry at times, for both men and women who are " very good looking " or " beautiful ". Seems to me they attract the wrong kind of people, all through their lives"

>>>they can, along with wealthy people, and people who appear to be good listeners (you'd be amazed at who sits down next to us to unload their life story :) ). but there's plenty of upside. I meet very few attractive people who go out of their way to downplay their physical looks all the time they are out in public, for example. I know more wealthy people who don't hide the finer things in life they own, than ones who do. and so on.

"For some reason a beautiful woman seems to send other women into a frenzy. I'm not sure if it's envy or they think she may be living a better life style."

>>personally, I find it has to do with what attention or benefits the beautiful woman is getting. an 18 yr old hottie in a group can irritate the middle aged woman who used to get that attention, and now watches the men pass right by her..and she's left fending for herself when she has little experience in doing so, b/c she always counted on the men to do it for her. then the cat claws come out. but a woman who is secure about her place in life? she may worry less about the competition for the spoils.

the more one relies on others, the more one needs the adulation of others. tho when we're at an age of immaturity, we really need the confirmation of worth from others:)

"I really think that women who gossip are more popular than those who don't?"

>>>shirle, ditto to what the others said, and as for this observation...I think what makes some gossips popular is, they have a conversation-starter. also, you may have heard the phrase about what small minds talk about, compared to intelligent people :) tho I find personally, a gossip begins on a kernel of truth. what it flowers into is usually a turd blossom, but its interesting how a real observation leads to an unreal conclusion--typically revealing where the concluder's mind would be if they were in that situation :)

you may have heard the phrase about what small minds talk about, compared to intelligent people

Actually intelligent people gossip too. The only difference is they gossip about other intelligent people. Intelligence has nothing to do with gossiping. We all learn to gossip as children and some take it to far for the rest of their lives.

Yes Miss Skies, what ever you say, I won't share any PMs I got about you, but I'm not the only who feels confident about your identity.

You won the prize for the Forum Bully/ Queen Bee, that's Ok, I have a better Tiara to wear :0)

I'm whiterose0. More to the point, why should my identity matter to you? I'm here strictly to post in the forums. Unlike you, I don't create multiple profiles for the express purpose of stalking, harassing, flaming and reporting other users whose opinions I disagree with.

One only has to look at the posting history of some of your various profiles, such as this one, to see that it's YOU who is guilty of the very thing you're accusing me of:

And to add, that in my younger years, women did not like me in spite of the fact that I was extremely shy and was not an attention seeker. I really think that women who gossip are more popular than those who don't?

Ty Dearie! We got back Thursday night & had a lovely time! Had great couples in the dining room at dinner, got some nice shopping in- in Progreso, & had smoked salmon every morning for brekki! Had beef at dinner 4 nites & veal 1 nite, along w/ some lovely salads & fresh veggies. A few drinks, just some pinot grigio, I am not much of a drinker. The weather was perfect as well.