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vendredi 16 août 2013

And thats why you should leave ...

I was inspired from several stories to write this article , stories about guys who take their girls for granted ,and it makes me wonder why girls should wait for them to change or to make a serious move ?

I wil start with a quote by Mike Litman , explainig how time wont wait for anybody :

Yes eventually Time wont wait for you , so dont wait for anybody , cause if that somebody loves you he wont make you wait , he will want to share everything with you .

Why girls accept

callousness, narcissism, impulsivity and other antisocial traits in a guy . Why they keep creating all kind of excuses for him ! I know hundred of girls that would ignore every advice giving by her bestfriends , go blind about real facts seen by others , just to be with the guy she loves !I find it stupide to be the only one who compromises in the relationship ! It should be a mutual relation with two sides ,two people, who care for each other , and exchange everything , even more SHARE everything , find a mutual solution that help both of them ! why you should be the only one who sacrifices , trying fix this and that ! who runs the world ? Dont you think is girls. so step aside and follow the great women that make a change dont be that sad girl in the corner in the pourring rain , crying !!!! do you remember Adele's both album's 19 and 21, and her huge heartbreak that make her write the most beautiful songs in this century??!! she kept falling for a guy who didnt appreciate her ! she kept wining and waiting until he broke her good heart . Of course , every experience has its fruits , you will definitely learn from pain and struggles , at least it makes u stronger . If she didnt move on the way she did , she would probably been trapped in the past like my poor Amy winehouse , mercy on her soul . Girls ...don't chase pavements , made up your mind , be stronger , and move on when u feel that you are not appreciated by the person you love .

You dont need to be the final option on his list , you dont need to feel like a burden , you dont need him to make you feel like you are lucky to be with him ! You are much more than that , you are not the last choice , you are not in the final position , after his family , studies , work , super car , friends , objectives ...If you are not the first a,d the most importantthing in his life leaaaaaave !Dont wait for him to change cause after getting that job he wants , he will ask for another one , and after the other one , he will spend all his money on his favourite activities ( sport music project studies ..) and after that it will be travel plans , and after that he will find others things , you gonna always stay in the back of his "wish list" ! If you are not the one and only ...leaaaaaaaaaave ! If materialistic things are more importing for him from being with you leaaaaaaaaave ! If he cares for other persons more than you leaaaaaaave !If he breaks up with you for months then try to have you back when he is bored leaaaaaaaave ! This are some signals to leave... dont be blind , dont ignore them , dont live that kind of " destructive love " you are much better than that.Baby just leave , God has his mysterious way , he will take care of everything , he will take care of people who hurt you , who make you feel inferior , who make you feel that you dont worth it , who make you feel that you are the last , dont ever stop your faith he will lead you ! If you feel uncomfortable , in pain all the time LEAVE.leave for tha sake of your sanity , leave for the sake of people that supports you all the time , leave to be a better person for you and for those who really loves you . Love yourself and LEAVE .