Sex life

Hi girls, I'm 36 weeks along and can't wait till we meet our little guy. My question to the rest of you is how is your sex life? My hubby N I used to have sex a lot before pregnancy, then the first month's I was super tired by the time I got home from work so it went down to about 4 times a week. Now it seems impossible to have sex with this big belly, we can't find a comfortable position were we are good. Has your sex life gone down or up or still the same?

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I'm not married yet, but my boyfriend lives about 1hr 45 minutes from me so we generally see each other on the weekends. Sex drive is still about the same. Could just be because we don't see each other every day. Lol idk. I'm 36 + 3.

we used to do it a lot also but it's really slowed. Seems to happen each time I'm pregnant and I mean it makes sense, I'm either tired, sick, cranky or uncomfortable. I can't wait for it to be normal again.

Also, the only way I find it comfortable is from the side and he'll take what he can get lmao so ya

It has slowly picked back up for us. We were only having sex like once every other week bc I was so tired and didn't feel good. (Plus we have two other children) but lately we've been doing it twice a week. Mostly on my side. We try a few positions but that one is the most comfortable for me. I'm 35w today.

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Nonexistent for us. But it was like that with our first also and then after she was born, it pretty much went back to the normal all the time thing. I'm totally okay with it though because I have no desire for sex and it's been like that for awhile. I'll be 37 weeks tomorrow.

I've been getting insane cramping during and after doing the deed, so it's not been so enjoyable for me. And hubbin doesn't seem to grasp that my back already hurts all day as is, so I really don't wanna be being over giving him a blow job on a regular basis. 🙄

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