Well, Tracey now you have it from Tobias himself. It was him totally! Jennie really got in a good punch when she laughed at him. Tobias is really just spot on with BJ. He is so nasty, sometimes I find it hard to watch.

I'm sorry they felt that they had to show it for us to get the idea that he couldn't get it up. Jenny's narration plus watching him told us all that we needed to know (IMHO). I hope the scene with BJR and Jamie isn't too graphic. I'll be sad if it is....it's so not necessary.