Pussy Power

Since my appearance on Chanel 5’s Make or Break, “pussy power” has been the buzzword. Combined with the message that “a woman’s power is not up here, but down in her vagina”, it’s left a lot of people amused, some provoked and others just plainly curious. What is it? How do I get it? And does it mean that women should make their way in the world as just ‘sexy’?

Since this is one of my favourite topics I’d love to explain. For a woman to reclaim her pussy power is an invitation for her to step into her power as a woman. Not as a mindless sex object, but as an empowered woman who knows what she wants in life and what she doesn’t want; a woman with an equal amount of desires and boundaries; a woman who feels herself, who knows what’s right for her; who can say Yes when she means Yes, and No when she mean No. This is often hugely difficult for women. We are so culturally conditioned to accommodate and compromise; to be ‘good girls’ that make sure everyone is having a good time – often except us. The only problem is that we are mostly the ones losing out from that strategy. Plainly speaking, a good girl never has much fun!

A woman’s power is in her vagina because her body never lies. If she’s in tune with her body and has the courage to speak from that place, she will come across as very powerful. She won’t have to work hard to convince anyone that she’s attractive and powerful, because her confidence lies within herself. Her vagina will let her know if something is exciting or if it’s not worth her energy. And if it is, she will know how to get it without having to manipulate. So girls, breathe into your vagina and ask her if she’s aligned with what you think you ought to do…

If she is, keep breathing and see what unfolds. If she’s not, ask her what she wants.

Either way you’ll feel way more empowered and have way more fun. Guaranteed!

Here’s a 10-step guide to using your pussy power to seduce a man within an hour that I wrote for the Mail Online.

As the experience unfolds, keep checking in with your pussy if she’s saying “yes” or “no”. From this place you can have any man you want, so just make sure you don’t do anything she doesn’t want to do!