How Worrying Makes You Weak And Kills Your Optimism

As if the worst thing is actually happening to you… even though it’s not.

From a basic level of functioning, worrying robs from your potential in every way.

The propensity to worry is associated with reduced resilience and ability to compartmentalize in the first place.

Psychological Research published a study that shows that worrying and rumination were associated with reduced cognitive control.

People with higher levels of cognitive control were able to compartmentalize their worry and limit its personal impact, whereas those that had lower levels of cognitive control had higher levels of worry and a reduced ability to differentiate what was personally relevant to them or not.

Furthermore, the more you worry, the worse this lack of control of your thoughts becomes.

Cognition and Emotion reported that worrying reduces working memory capacity by using up resources in the brain.

Anxiety, Stress, & Coping challenged previous research that suggested worry might be useful in problem-solving and found that in fact, it reduces your ability to compartmentalize, have balanced perception, and assess your issues cognitively.

And overall, research out of Cornell University found that 85% of the things that people worry about never actually happen and the 15% of things that actually do happen, people are able to navigate through better than they expected.

So worst case scenario is almost a zero possibility.

And yet, you might be spending a tremendous amount of time worrying about it.

Wasting time, compromising brain health and emotional and physical well-being… for nothing.

Eliminating These Worries Will Instantly Improve Your Life

Outside of worrying about global issues you can’t change and everything pumped out through media on your newsfeed, it’s the issue closer to home that might be occupying valuable brain space in your life.

And this is compromising your ability to reach your goals and be happy.

The truth is, you can regain control of your thoughts.

The reality is, if you ever want to be successful, you must stop worrying so much.

In particular, there are three things you need to stop worrying about now.

1. Fear of missing out.

First, you must stop worrying about missing out on events.

You must work to completely remove your fear of missing out, or FOMO.

Feeling like you are about to miss out on something is painful.

Your mind hates pain.

So terrified of regret that you burn yourself out with obligatory “yeses”.

So, when someone invites you to a party, or asks you to work late, or tells you about a million dollar idea, your mind will feel the urge to jump at this “opportunity” in order to avoid the pain of missing out.

It’s a burn-out recipe in action but it’s an endless fury of useless, wasted energy in thought too.

You must ignore this urge to worry about missing out on something.

Build up a resistance against it by practicing saying “no” to everything first.

Don’t fall into the trap of thinking that you have only one chance to say “yes” to things.

In most cases, you can say “no” to an opportunity at first and say “yes” later.

Practicing this will give you time to evaluate what you actually want to do and what will actually move you closer to your goals.

You’ll instantly feel more in control and relaxed by only engaging in activities that are aligned with your goals.

2. Your reputation.

Second, you must stop worrying about being seen as unaccountable or irresponsible.

By practicing this regularly, your brain will start getting used to expecting the best outcome, and priming you for your best response.

From this place, you’ll be able to maximize your brainpower for creative problem-solving and the best overall response.

You won’t be crippled by the fear of “what if” as your brain rides its negative bias.

Living with expectancy means knowing that you can create your own future, and that you can get anything you want in life if you apply yourself correctly.

Don’t live in La La Land where you ignore that bad things can happen. Be aware and prepared, but don’t let worry paralyze you from taking action. Worrying about what other people think, what you’re missing out on, or all the things that “might” happen robs your focus and keeps you from reaching your goals. Instead, direct your focus to your best performance and response to achieve best outcomes. Get out of your thoughts and move into action that will move you forward with optimistic expectation so your fear doesn’t control you.

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