Saturday, January 26, 2008

What girl want may surprise you. At least once a day, as a dating coach and a columnist. I get an email from a somebody somewhere begging for an answer to this most frequently asked question by men: "What do girl want?"The question of what girl want comes from a genuine confusion in many men. What most people already know is that men and girl think in very different ways. And how those different thinking patterns are demonstrated gets some couples in trouble. Men like action activities; girl like to sit and talk. When you are planning a date, if you want to please her, try and combine both such as lunch and a walk in the park. Another example of the different ways men and girl think is that men perceive working long days and even on weekends as a way to show their success or love. Girl, however, may see that behavior as neglect. There are many other examples where men and girl get their signals crossed.

If you have ever been at a loss for understanding what girl want, here is a five point guide that i give truth coz im also a girl:

1. Being Number OneAll girl want to be Number One. Just ask Cinderella, Cleopatra, or any other well-known female icon. They want to know that they come first in a man’s order of priorities. They want to feel that their boyfriend or husband will choose them over every other activity or relationship. If your girl knows this, she won’t mind when your mother, child, friend, or co-worker calls and asks for help. What she won’t understand is if you have dinner with your Ex on occasion, or drop your plans with her and go have date with the guys instead, or, never take time to ask about her day because you watch the sports channel every minute you are at home. Being Number One is the Number One desire of most girl.

2. Keeping Your WordGirl want a man who keeps his word...in his relationships, his work, and in all aspects of life. If you promised her the world (Disney World, that is) then you'd better give it to her. If you don't do what you will say you will, she won't trust you. Without trust, your relationship doesn't mean anything. Keep your agreements. If you can’t, tell her so (preferably, beforehand) and tell her how you plan to rectify it. More importantly, don’t make promises you can’t keep.

3. ListeningGirl want a man who listens. I know you are tired of hearing about this one, but it is central to a relationship. She wants to be heard. Listen to her. Apparently, this is difficult for most men to do. Sitting down and talking is not something you are naturally wired for. But you can learn. Further, it’s impossible to have intimate or important conversations. If your girl is trying to talk to you, handle any emergencies, turn off the cell phone and TV, and give her your full attention. If you do, you will make her feel that she matters.

4. Believing HerGirl want to be believed by men. Men tend to be (or think they are) more analytical than girl. Therefore, when she speaks, and is trying to tell you something important, you may have a tendency to dismiss it. If you know how to balance your brain with your heart, and listen with kindness, you will find that what she has to say is relevant to your life with her. If you are with someone you don’t trust, then her words will have no affect on you. (And you should be asking yourself why you are there.) But if you love and trust her—then believe her.

5. Doing What She AsksGirl want you to do what they ask at crucial times. She doesn't expect you to "fix" everything, but there are times when her requests call for action. I know, I know—some of you are probably smirking by now. But if you implement what she says, you will have an extremely happy partner. This statement assumes that you are with a good person; that she is rational most of the time; that she does not ask the impossible or the ridiculous of you; and that she is equally giving. Some men find this hard to do because they feel that to do this, they are being a wimp. Believe me, she wants you to have backbone. And there is every opportunity in all parts of your life to exercise that quality. She isn't asking for you to give up anything. She is asking to be heard and cared about. If you trust her character and if she tells the truth…do what she asks.Go on and try these suggestions. If you are with a happy lady…you are going to be a happy man. This is what girl want and what girl need either in relation who anything else..

I'm scared to write my feelings,alll so clear and true and at night, I realize,that they all centre around you.I keep getting lost,falling into this trance,wondering what it would have took,for you take that chance.You saw it but ignored it,you chose to go away,you left it all behind,with out a word to say and now you lie there cold. Beyond a dormant sleep as I lie here and cry and fall in too deep. All I have is a picture some memories to hold dear but it's just not enough because I can't feel you near.You meant so much to me, my words could never say, like I can't describe this feeling. That just won't go away.I miss you quite terribly. I really do,It doesn't feel like living,breathing with out you.I need to feel you close because it's been so long, need to feel you here, but you're lost, you're gone.

haha...both 0f us are "king in eating''...after that start worried bout weight...hehe...tarak guna!!! after that we g0 to upstairs...m0re see at me..and i see her back..." more...SALE!!!!!" hee..~bring back 7 helai baju~ crazy gal...its coz of m0reyum la..."cantik m0re?" cantik diana"beli..beli....~

Your sex appeal becomes more powerful than ever throughout 2007; you'll turn heads wherever you go. The greatest challenge will be trying to discern between lust and love. At times your desires will be so strong that they'll cloud your emotions. If you're in a committed relationship your sex life could undergo a blissful transformation thanks to therapy, medication or free-spirited exploration. After September 2nd you'll want to take a playful fling to the next level. The last four months of the year may increase your determination to settle down or have a child. Looking for a good time to get engaged or married? The weekend of November 9th is ideal.

GEMINI - Not A Match Made In HeavenTaurus is well advised to keep a cool head when he/she first meets the Geminian, as Taurus could be swept up in the excitement that is wonderful at the time, but does not last overly long, and the danger here is mistaking a wild infatuation for true love. Gemini is a charming individual, but much to caught up in a hectic social life to worry over much about domestic affairs.If the Taurus expects to keep this one for long, he or she must work hard at it, as Gemini wants a person who can share his or her interests and social activities and will not settle for a domestic type. If Gemini is male he will want a woman who is an excellent hostess which Taurus is) and someone who will share all his interests.If Taurus tries to curb the Geminis tendency to flirt, the fights and the cries of "you don't understand me" starts. An extra bond to the ones that are tied so loosely already could be the simple fact of Gemini recognizing the Taurus' strength, and seeking shelter there when the world becomes too much for him/her.Their sex life is gradually affected by the Gemini moods which are very changeable, being the twins this is his/her natural way, and having him/her as the playful, mischievous little kid one minute, and the next minute he/she will turn basic and animalistic in his/her sexual appetites. The typical Taurus reaction to this action could drive him/her into someone elses bed. Gemini enjoys spice in his/her life, and if it is not found at home, then Gemini will look elsewhere. Not a match made in Heaven.How do you see Gemini? It doesn't take long to realize the importance of mental stimulation to this person. But you wonder if this social butterfly can give you the security you cherish.How does your Gemini partner see you? Gemini wonders if all that down-to-earth practicality could be a little too much to cope with. This person needs to have lots of fun and variety in their life.How to make things better: Try to make Gemini sit still long enough to listen to all your wonderful plans for the future. And make sure you keep up-to-date with what is going on in the world so that Gemini never gets bored.

P/S: is dat true? can trust? dunt make this blur your mine..just for fun..

Dress Slimmer, Look Thinner!By Carolina Diaz-BordoneDiets Staff WriterHere are a few basic fashion tactics you can use to look better and boost your confidence and body:

1. Wear solid fabrics: Wearing one color from head to toe is more slimming.

2. Wear vertical lines: The longer the vertical line of the outfit, the more flattering it will be.

3. Stick to dark colors: Darker, duller and cooler colors are generally more slimming than lighter neutrals. Compare different shades and see what best complements your natural skin.

4. Wear a double-breasted jacket: A double-breasted jacket will make you look thinner than wearing a single-breasted jacket. Choose a well-fitted version. Loose jackets tend to add bulk, and never wear a jacket longer than ankle length.

6. Wear high heels: The higher the better. This will help you appear taller and thinner. If you don’t like high heels, then choose a low-heeled shoe that is cut low on the instep.

7. Accessorize: Wearing a scarf, necklace, earrings or choker takes the concentration off the body.

8. Tight is not always right: Clothes that cling can make you look heavier. Clothes that slightly contour your body give you a slim look.

9. Choose v-necklines: They make you look leaner and longer.

10. Always have confidence: The way you feel in your clothes is very important. Your attitude reflects the way people react to what you are wearing. If you feel like a million bucks, then chances are you look like it too!

This happened when im and ma roomate take brekfast at AL AZHAR the restaurant that open 25 hours. suddenly i saw a cat was reading a newspaper...what a clever cat...(mesti kucing terlatih nie...) 21st century....what a weird thing can happen..cat can read a news...huhss.....weird....make me scare t0 think what happen in the 20 years later...

17-01-08Mr Azmi teach us techncal writing..he also had a PHD in meng'polite'kanbahase..hahaha..(hope my blog did not incur 'gam' by sir)that day he teach us a word ---susunable--had heard that??~~hehe..only us the student FKAAS..(dun pronounce it in American slang okey) know that..and today...21-01-08Mr Azmi give us 1 more word...un'sangka'able...what the hell..(this phrase also by Mr Azmi)...huuhhh...its can make my english get A1...poor im not see him early..how come...if not im the best student who can speek english s0 pr0ud..anyway thanks sir...hahaa...

Tuesday, January 8, 2008

''we always be beside youuntil the very endwiping all your tears awaybeing your best friendwe`ll smile when you smileand feel all the pain you doand if you cry a single tearswe`ll promise we cry too..''

said an!s and M0re...

i know they can be the best for me...thanks m0re`yum and aN!s for everything..

thanks for make my l!fe full of b0th 0f l0Ve..thanks f0r be!ng h0nest..

atleast have 5 people in this world that love you and willing to die for you,atleast have 15 people in this world that luV you in diferenTs way,THE 1ST REASON THAT SOMEONE HAte YOU JUZ COS THEY WANT TO BE LIKE YOU (haha..i j`dore this sTaTement),your smile can make happiness to somebody even they dunt like you,everynite have somebody remembering you before they sleep,you are very `mean` in someone life...,if not because of you, somebody cant life happily ever after,knowing this..somebody l0ve you more than she l0ve herself...appreciate that before she feel doWn to make that...l0ve her as much as you can...give her to know what is l0ve in your way...teaching her to make the world shine...and make the happinest between you and her with Allah bless...i l0ve to be ma self n i l0ve him...

Life is like 1001 to cry, but Allah give 1001 reason for us to smile,but we never know we never `thanks`, we never feel disabuse,we dunt realise, juz want to smile though the bad to Allah good for us, Seldom which the bad for us that are the greatest behind Allah. we just plan what we want but Allah give us everything.