lets be honest - if it was a private moment, you don't do it at the bar of a busy pub. he was happy to go public, it wasn't private for him or he wouldn't have done it in such a public place. If he's not bothered, you shouldn't be either. Live and let live!

It does not matter who he is dating, not dating, kissing or not kissing. If that young lady is his match well we sure wish them the very best. That life of fame comes with a heavy price , don't believe what you see, its not always what it seems. A picture of him kissing her don't mean anything. Kissing somebody should not equal automatic relationship and even if he is dating her oo well best of wishes again things are never what you see sometimes.

Why are some of you guys upset about him kissing his new girlfriend? I saw the picture and yes it does looks like a private moment that happened in a public place, get over it. Is it because she’s 19; because he dated someone one year older than himself and that didn’t work out. Is it because she’s a college student; I know nothing about this girl she might be brilliant with an “old soul” that comes from a prestige family, but yet no one on this site knows her but yet feels the need to judge her. The comment he “needs to grow up” or maybe it could be that he’s just having fun with her and she makes him laugh? Maybe he’s looking for an easy breezy type of relationship right now without the stress of looking for the future Mrs. Cavill?After all, NO fan truly knows their favorite actor, we only know what they want us to know and what they feel the need to tell us. When I support my favorite actors/actresses I support their work and could care less about what they are doing and who they are doing it with. Give the guy a break and let him live his life, he is finally getting some main-stream success and doing some great charity work. If his biological mother has no problems with him dating this young lady, why do so many of his “fan” mothers have an issue with this? Live and let live people

Genuine question - why was my comment removed?? I was respectful to Henry and to the OPs. I was just trying to explain to the OP why some people are upset about this, because they asked...?? I don't know what I said that was wrong... :(

Yes who cares let him do anything his soul desires. It doesn't bother me. I have to only think about my life working and my relationships working, his dating life is his to deal with. Lol people take him too serious, only thing is a bar is not your best place to meet anybody but if it works for both of them we shall only be happy for him ☺

I find it interesting how some people are upset about this and are passing judgement on this topic, a previous anonymous writer even stated that they can both grow up together, but no one gets upset that he takes selfies with fans in bars/pubs at least three days a week. Even strong actors like Michael Fassbender, Chris Pine and Tom Hardy aren’t photographed in bars/pubs as much as Henry is and they are also in their early to late thirties with just as much success. So way aren’t people stating that he should grow up about the bar scene. It seems ok to belittle this young lady and call her a child but yet a “man is a man” type of mentality with his drinking.

. About the old soul comment above, you have a good sense of humor☺ A good solid relationship doesn't start at a bar, not impossible just unlikely. Also intimacy, trust, and love builds over time. It doesn't happen all of a sudden in the middle of dance club in the middle of the night and intimacy and passion you don't really exactly find after a night of drinking in a bar. Not saying anything about either of those two birds, just stating in general.

I am not worried the guy has everything , the whole world in his hands. What he does will only hurt him directly not anybody else. Not sure why people think he should do any different..? This is who he is. This is what he wants , so let him have his cake and eat it too.

Of course he is free to do as he wish, it's his life after all but HC right now is behaving 100% different than what he says he is, fans are disappointed by these shady contradictions, and since everyone is free here, they can place their support where they think it's deserved.

Yes I just seen it. They are together. My heart literary sank to the floor. Such a weird feeling because his life is non of my business and I don't really know him personally but I can't help the feeling of an awful heart break right now! Like big time:( And I still love him as an actor but I'm totally crushed as a chick.Is this weird?M.S.

He clearly hasn't read any of the comments on this on dlisted. com or he would never have gone public with this relationship if he knew what people thought of this. I know someone will say he doesn't care about what ppl say but everyone cares about what people think about you, especially when you're in the public eye. I hope for his sake this quickly goes away. Maybe it will once he's in America next year. Who knows?

Hope for his sake it doesn't "go away". He's happy no matter what you or anyone else thinks. Leave him alone. He can still keep a relationship strong whether he's with her or distant from her. He more likely will take her with him to America next year. You know what, I really do hope henry and Tara go further and she's the one for him, there's not a huge age difference, it's just like Nina dobrev and Ian somerhalder, no one had an issue with their age difference why should this one be any different. I am happy for them. I hope Henry and Tara marry and have babies, in future! ♡

You don't know her, she could be an awful person. So you should hope that they get married and have children ( if they do, good for them and I hope they are happy but if not so what). He probably wont take her, she is in a university and i doubt she will give up on that and waste your money. He said he wants some with a career, she wont have one if she leaves college to come to America. And Nina and Ian aren't even together anymore so they are not a very good example.

It said "had an issue" aka past tense. Please read carefully. And it does make sense, why should people judge by age? Are we back in the 50s? Jesus calm down. And you can study abroad it's fine as long as you get work done. People these days need to look into things more.

Doubt it but you never know. He has been desperate to settle down so maybe he thinks she could be the one. Maybe she has convinced him that she is willing to give up uni and be a stay at home wife and will give loads of kids? That is what he wants he said, to get married and have kids.Although his judgment is questionable. Who knows?

I hope that he is not so desperate to settle down that he will just marry the first girl who agrees to it. He should only settle down with someone he truly loves even if it takes him 10 years to find it, because that marriage probably wont last very long if the only reason he marries her is to settle down and he will just end up single again. Maybe he just want us to know that he is actually with her. And only time will tell how long their relationship will last.

I've had a lovely few years checking this blog out, seeing updates on our favourite actor, who I've a fan of since the first episode of the Tudors. But that is now over. I will not be paying any more for cinema tickets. Because there ethics and standards and lines when you have such a huge fan following. He and his people must have found out about the negative publicity this news caused a week ago. It's everywhere. Then on top to show public display of kissing in a very public place where everyone had a smart phone means he doesn't care about his fans. Everyone has a right to do as they want. Including me. And an awful lot of people I have spoken to it seems

it doesn't mean that he doesn't care about his fans. He has a right to live his life. and we don't know what happened, she could have kissed him and he didn't pull away. Not liking him being with some body is one thing, but to say that he doesn't care about his fan because of it, is an awful thing to do.

To be honest, I think he should be able to date whoever he wants without factoring in his fans' opinions. He's the one dating them after all. But the issue for me is the vast contradiction in the person he was and the person he is now; the difference in what he says, and what he does in real life. To me, in my opinion, it feels disingenuous. Factor in the teenage girlfriend and it just leaves me with a bit of nasty taste in my mouth.

I think Henry is a good guy, I really do. But based on several things over the past year, he isn't the guy I thought he was. And that's fine. Henry is entitled to date whoever he wants and kiss them in as many public places as he wants. But I don't think he can be surprised when some fans jump ship, because that's not the image he presented to us for years.

I'm really surprised by some of the stuff hes say and done recently too. When he was doing the interview with Jimmy Fallon, when he pretty much said he has sex to say in shape, or talking about the boner story, dating girls who are using him for money and fame. At first i was really proud of his success and happy for him. but I feel like it has change him a lot.C.J

It's actually not that hilarious , I thought it was hilarious when it was claimed that he was dating her. That turned out to be true. So who knows? And what you said about him caring about his image and trying to do something to take the the focus away then why did he kiss her publicly yesterday?

Why?? Fans should be able to voice their opinion and disappointment. Many of us are still fans, but we want to communicate how strange we find this all.

Deleting the comments won't make what has happened go away. Or bring the old Henry back. If people want to be a fan to Henry, the best thing they can probably do is accept this whole affair - and not show how disturbed they are by pretending it doesn't exist. Acceptance is the key to understanding! LOL :D

Deleting the comments will not change anything. Everyone has a right to there own opinion. If I don't like something I'm not going to eat it. I still love Henry as an actor I'm just creeped out by the 18 yr old thing. He's 32 a grown man. That's creepy. Makes him look immature. And I agree with the comment on his image. You portrayed a decent image so you can sell but your actions scream immature loser. Sorry but I'm seriously disappointed.

Why? Because its not you. If you were 18 and he wanted to be with you, would you not date him? Its not creepy, 18 is legal, so stop acting like hes with a 12 year old, she is NOT a child. She is a grown woman, just like he is a grown man. His actions don't scream immature loser and that rude of you to say, he has the right to be happy and be with who he wants. She could be the one for him ( Not saying she is) , but she could be and it would matter what her age is, if she is. So what is everyone saying she is to young for him. There are a number of couples who are they same age and don't last long. Just like there are a number of couples with at least a decades in between their age ( Celine Dion,47, and Rene Angelil,73, ( they have been together since Celine was 19 and are happily married with children) , and Hugh Jackman,47, and Deborra-Lee Furness,59,( they have been married for almost 20 years, and are happily married with children.) So age does not matter.

She is an adult, she can legally drink and she can date whoever she pleases. And you don't know whether they hooked up or not, do you know them, did they tell you, did you see it? He is not an Immature loser because YOU don't like what he's doing.

We don't care if she does delete them☺�� not that important, we just give an opinion, no attacking anybody, not saying bad insulting words, no making direct mean attacks so this is shat freedom of expression is about.

Here is what the problem is I think in my humble opinion. When an actor dates other actresses or models or singer's they are usually very beautiful ( which is why they are models, actresses in the first place!) You think that's fine, I don't stand a chance. Here he's dating someone who isn't famous or really beautiful. Instead she's a normal person, which gives hope to everyone! As did the one before her ( marisa) now big problem here is that she is a teenager, which is fine. But you know BUT. I won't say anything disrespectful so I shall end it here.Let's just hope it's a phase. Yikes

Here goes. I don't know if this is real or a publicity stunt, or a mid life crisis or a fling or a self issues thing. It just makes him look really bad. Silence. I can't say anything else because I don't want to across as mean.....silence

Henry doesn't look bad at all. It's all his so called "fans" who look bad by displaying negative comments on his personal life. Why should his personal life matter to you? It's his life. You should just concentrate on his professional life since it's completely separate to his personal life. He and this woman look very happy, wherever he met her doesn't matter. You all are disappointing, you're no fan if you're going against his wants. You have to let him want if you want him to give. He gives a lot of his time to his fans and charity, not to mention work. Let him want something without being judged just because of the way it looks. Why do you judge him? If you're not a fan then what are you? Just leave him alone. A true fan won't criticise who he dates, weds, has babies with. If she is or another is his wife in future, you all will still judge, whether it's by age, look, or even something else. You're unpredictable. You can't choose for Henry. You're right, he's mature, if for him he made the right choice, then he made the right choice! Let's all just support his movies and stop moving our attention to his girlfriends or personal life.

some of us want whats best for him ( i personally don't care as long as he is truly happy which he looks like he is sometimes and sometimes it looks like hes not) and other just want him, which is why they're being so rude. I hope he gets with someone he loves ( despite age, look, ethnicity, religion, or how much money the have, etc.) and doesn't settle with someone because hes trying to please others or even because he doesn't want to be alone, etc.

Ooo boo hoo cry me a river. Who cares who he dates? Just curious what he will make out of this because the backlash is huge..? Joining social media is not a fix. When you're that famous and rich, get a clue you have your career on the line that depends from your fans, while his personal life is not ours to manage, his poor choices show him in a very undesirable light and fans think he is not mature and lacks character. In his line of business approval from his fans or lack of it can either continue his career or ruin it.

Clearly you didn't read the top comment. "Professional life COMPLETELY separate to personal life". We should concentrate on his acting not what he does during his free time. Fans shouldn't be curious to what or whom he is making out with or even with in general, they should be more curious in his projects what he does for fans not what he wants to do with someone he cares dearly for. Christian Bale married someone not so famous, it didn't affect his career. A lot of famous people married none famous people, it didn't affect their career, why??? Oh wait... because their personal life is very different to their professional.

Amazing? Just because he has the money, fame and looks it doesn't equal an amazing human being. Too many people look so good on the outside, but later you see what a lie everything can be about them. We only know the image he has portrayed thus far to us, we see pictures but don't know the real person.

Well from what I know he seems like an amazing man. He seems kind, caring, and like he has an amazing sense of humor. It not because he has money, fame, or looks. He just seems amazing from what I can see. why do you think that where seeing a lie, because hes dating someone younger. That does NOT make him a bad person

And so you know him personally then? Are you his best friend or something?☺That's the only time I can take your word for what is .Otherwise NO you're just a fan and gave an opinion like me. I didn't say he a bad man, just that we don't know anything about him period outside of whatever the media reports and the few interview he has given.

No, I don't know him personally and no I'm not his best friend. But I hope I do become his best friend one day so I can prove you wrong. And from those media reports and interviews and from things co stars and other industry professionals have said about him, he seems like an amazing man. And they way you worded it, thats what I took it as, calling him a bad person. You said " Too many people look so good on the outside, but later you see what a lie everything can be about them." Which makes it should like that to me, because it sounds like you are saying everything we know about him is a lie, and from what I know he seems like a good guy.

Ooo boy okay good luck with becoming his BFF and call me in 10 years let me know☺ Jesus never said he is bad. All I did say is you or I don't know anything about him outside what has been reported to us by the media and his few interviews. That's not enough to be able to say YES he is a great person, as appealing as his fame and riches might be those two things don't make him be a great human being. Just a general statement, not an attack on him. I don't know him just stating general facts. You don't know him personally so again neither do I.I tend to think there is a side of every person we don't see or know till we personally deal with them. What you see is not what a person is behind closed doors.

Okay. I will get back to you when we are BFF's. Well from the media report and interviews he has done over the years, he seems like an amazing person to be friends with or to be in a relationship with and that's why I would mind my daughter bring home a man like him. And nobody is really ever the same person that they are behind closed doors, probably not him, probably not you, and probably not me. And personally, he could still be a kind, caring, all around awesome person, just because of who he dates or what he does in his personal life, doesn't make a difference in who he truly is.

I cant stand the Kardashians and personally think that they have never looked good, so this is a bad example to use for me. I have always seen them a bad people who live lies in order to get more famous, and I always will, no matter what. And he seems like a good man to me, and I would mind my daughter being with someone, so until I know him personally and he gives me a reason to believe he is a bad person living a lie, i will believe he is a kind person, who care for others, animal, and our planet. He hasn't give me a reason to believe he is a bad man

No way this is PR. This is really eating away at his reputation and making him lose fans very quickly. It's terrible publicity. Headlines like "Superman's kryptonite = teenage girls" are NOT exactly what his publicists are after! Lol.

The journalist was just someone who tweeted about seeing Henry in the pub and not recognising him because of his scruffy look. She didn't mention his girlfriend and she wasn't there for long.

I just feel that every time he kisses his teenage girlfriend in public he's kissing Bond goodbye. Over the years I've invested a lot of time and money into his career and this all just makes me feel very disappointed and sad.

if only one pic has gone public, it probably means he has only kissed her once in public so far. We dont know if he will even be seen with her again. and if he has kissed her more then once in public, where are the other pics

With all the bad press are WB still going to want him to play Superman? It's all about image and saleability. In American isn't 21 figured as an adult not 18 like in the Uk? He can take her to the US but she won't be allowed into pubs and clubs or have a drink.

Actually here in the US (I'm from there, btw) you are considered a young adult at 18 and you can do things like buy smokes, go to strip clubs, go into sex shops, and you can go to certain clubs, they just put something one you (like a stamp or a bracelet) so they know that you're not 21 and can't drink. At 21, your considered an adult and you can go to clubs and buy drinks, and sign contracts for like houses or cars (when you 18, you have to have a parent or gaurdian do it for you so if you fail to pay it.) At 18, you are also free to date some of any age that you please. If your 18 in America, you could legally date a 90 if you really wanted to.

If you want to drink, then no it is not. But if you trying to meet people and going dancing you can. Some people will pay other to buy drinks for them if there 18, since they cant legally do it. Or some people under 21 also get fake IDs so that they can buy drinks.

Ooo NOW that he is dating a 19 years old girl I don't know how I ever recover emotionally. I think I will need a therapist to get over the heart break.☺How can you do that to me Henry Cavill?I think I already can't sleep, can't eat, and I think I am losing weight ☺☺☺☺ I just was all hoping he jumps from the internet into my life and be my Superman now I think I have to wait for him to break up with her and start building this delusion in my head all over again. Now that its all over , oo its tragic Henry don't you se?? and I am just unconsolable...! Jesus I kissed 2 people in last few months and I have an affair with a 19 years old myself and guess what people it didn't make the newspapers and I left the 19 years old boy and moved on, realized 19 years old is just that and will never be my match, so can't imagine if every detail of my life is to be published and my career depended on public liking I might not have a career but thank God I am a regular woman dating in regular world ☺ with no fame involved. Yes Henry's image is tied to his personal life sadly or not its a fact.

I didn't even notice that. wow. I don't think he looks much older than her, to me personallly she looks like she is like 25-27 years old but looks can be deceiving just like pictures( if you know what I'm saying). Hopefully this wont last long, only tell will show us how long it will though.

I have a stupid question; would some of these outraged “fans” be more upset if this kiss photo showed Henry kissing a woman of a different race, let’s say like Rhianna? Or is it truly about this young lady’s age? Some of the comments keep stating that he’s not the “same” Henry, but yet how many people giving these judgmental comments essentially know this man, you only know the image that he projects. Some even wrote that this is a PR stunt, if you glance at the photo you can tell that it’s just a photo taken and it’s not all that clear, so the person that toke the picture probably did so quickly. So what would he gain from this so called PR stunt? His fan base isn’t that large, if you add the total number of fans from Instagram and Facebook, its least then 1 Million. Or could it be to get his face and name out there for Bond? Hmmm, I love Henry, but his acting skills aren’t strong enough for Bond or even the lead role in The Virginian. Looking back at Man of Steel, critics and true fans of the Superman comic books either loved him or hated him in that role.

As a fan of his work, I will support him and watch his movies. He and this young lady have done nothing wrong in my eyes and she is of consenting age; he hasn’t raped, beat, drugged, or molested her so I am confused as to how this will “hurt” his career. Who he’s dating is his business and some of these judgmental comments are only really hurting his true fans because his fans will now forever be known as crazy or nuts. Some stated that he was so private about his personal life, with the quick speed of the internet and social media little things now become public; remember the pictures of Jonathan Rhys Meyers from this summer?

George Reeves (TV Superman of the 1950s) took the part of "role model" seriously, even to the extent of quitting smoking and not making appearances around children with his girlfriends. How times have changed.

Here when anyone posts something it gets deleted . The truth hurts. Probably that's why. Every other site where comments are not getting deleted you can see the huge storm this has created. And it's not a good one, certainly not one Mr cavill or his employers would want. Now there is a chance that Mr cavill doesn't know about this since he doesn't read about himself. But I do think his team should protect him and advice him and sort this out . Maybe someone should get in touch with his PR and point it out. I'm sure they know about it since it is their job. Unless they are told by their client to stay quiet. I wonder how this will play out. As for all the people saying he should stay with her and marry her, they have to realise that no celebrity has a long term relationship, married or not. Plus when big heartthrob get married they become unwanted making them irrelevant. This thread could go on forever but it's pointless. I suggest to those of you that are worried for him to allow him this mistake. Hopefully he will learn from it.

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There was a way to do this better. They could have dated in private for a while, which would have given him plenty of time to decide if he wanted to go the next stage of the relationship. Could have kept in touch while he was abroad. This would give her the chance to finish her studys and then she would have been in her 20s. But who am I to say so? Just someone who loved him and respected him.

Can't help but feel for her really, can't be easy dating someone like Henry, think most women in their 20's and 30's would at times struggle with jealousy, trust , them being away from home alot etc, can't even imagine how a 19 years is going to be able to handle it and study as well, guess he will see just how mature she really is over the next couple of months...

Thinking the same thing Karen. Sometimes I truly hope Henry doesn't read here, let alone anybody he is dating because some of the stuff (mostly not on here) is downright awful. He looks really happy in that one pic especially. I hope that is true for whatever reasons. I've dated guys much older than me. Things didn't work out because of differences in opinions, lack of honesty, respect, etc. It had nothing to do with the age differences. Wishing him well (and the whole crew) in Jordan.

Where is Henry?? No news on him, is he filming??, has this whole fame thing got to him, he's just a regular guy, I fully understand where people are coming from having a 19 year old daughter, but really its none of our business, I feel for him and his family, this is not good for his profile.

I think this website is great. keeping us informed on what henry is upto in his career and personnel life. I am fed up with people coming on here and critizing henrys girlfriends every time he is seen with a different woman it is non of our business who he chooses to go out with. True fans support him and hope he is happy that is all that matters. People that choose to put nasty things about him and his girlfriends are not true fans. Because no true fan would do that to him. So those people that have written a nasty comment on this website should take a good look at them selves henry does not criticize who you all choose to go out with. If he did you would not like it. so don't do it to him.

Henry frequents clubs, bars, he drinks, smokes and have a weird lifestyle for sure, like most actors something is off with him, then we have to just see the 2 min Jimmy Kimmel interview in which he implies how he has sex for sport to stay in shape for the "Superman" role. And people were expecting some mature man and there comes Henry with an 18 years old he met a nightclub.., just it makes him look immature, otherwise not a big deal really its his life, let him date as many 18,19 years olds as he wants.

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