Today, I [F 23], squirted for the first time & it was amazing

I thought i squirted before during penetration with previous partners because of the amount of discharge but man was i mistaken, this was something else. I used my vibrator on my clit and I usually stop when I feel this weird heat sensation in my toes because it’s a bit painful but this time I kept going and it happened. I didn’t imagine it would feel so weird but amazing at the same time. I even feel more clear-headed now and focused, ready to start a long work day ahead. i’m wondering how I can accomplish this during penetration with my partner

edit: wow! this is my first post on this sub and I did not expect so much response! thank you guys for all the advice (minus the creeps that PM me, you know who you are) i’ll be having lots of fun with my SO soon. my magic wand is on the way, too 😉 i’ll update y’all on that

edit 2: to those of you with the “it’s just pee” comments: y’all are the reason why the female orgasm was denied for so long. the most recent research on this (2015) studied 7 women and concluded it was pee (someone linked it in this thread somewhere). it’s a little unfair to base a universal truth on what 7 women felt compared to what a gazillion other women are saying. don’t discredit what we feel. if we’re saying it’s an orgasm, then who are you to say otherwise?
i’m not saying it doesn’t contain pee because it clearly does, but it’s not the same as peeing.

edit: wow! this is my first post on this sub and I did not expect so much response! thank you guys for all the advice (minus the creeps that PM me, you know who you are) i’ll be having lots of fun with my SO soon. my magic wand is on the way too 😉

alittlebirdy1 838

The only way my wife has ever been able to squirt during penetration has been with her on her back on the bed, me standing up, and somehow finding the perfect angle to hit her G spot just so during the sex.

However, the magic wand is a cheat code for her squirting, and it apples applies here, too. We've gotten her to squirt in the same position, but using the wand until she comes, then I keep fucking her. Before long,my balls are soaked. :)

However, the magic wand is a cheat code for her squirting, and it apples here, too. We've gotten her to squirt in the same position, but using the wand until she comes, then I keep fucking her. Before long,my balls are soaked. :)

Mysterious-Af 234

thanks for the reply! I think i’m going to try with my vibrator, maybe look into the magic wand, too. might even try tonight...2 times in one day sounds thrilling :D
the only problem is that i’ve been with my bf for 3 years now and I thought I had squirted before and he was under the same impression but now i’m going to have to break it to him that it wasn’t the case 🙃

alittlebirdy1 212

For the record, I'm not talking about the big, bulky plug in the wall magic wand. I'm talking about this rechargeable magic wand at Amazon. It's only $30, but had tons of great reviews (another redditor suggested it to me). Holy shit, the things it does to my wife.

Mysterious-Af 200

the first review on amazon is: my wife no longer needs me. lmao! that’s hilarious. thanks for the recommendation (-:

alittlebirdy1 209

Haha, that one is funny.

Look, we've owned several sex toys over the years. Vibrators, dildos, whatever. She's fine with using them from time to time (especially if she's feeling like DP play), but this is the first time we've owned a toy that she actively asks for.

The user who recommended it to me talked about it in glowing terms, and I see why.

When my wife comes, it's petty typical stuff. Her eyes are clenched closed, she trembles some, maybe arches her back a little bit. She's usually very quiet and reserved during sex. Even if it's oral that we build up to, even if it's good for her, there's usually not a ton of visual confirmation.

With this toy, I can see her lean into it, rock her hips around as she gets close. Nothing in the world makes her wetter than this - we're talking about major visible wet spots on the sheets. I tend to go back and forth from her vagina to her clit, slip it just inside the entrance, really get her g spot going... she'll bear down on it to get the indirect stim to her clit before I slip it back up.

When she comes, her ass comes way up off the bed, her hips thrash, she twitches around.

If I fuck her immediately after - especially in ways that I hit her g spot - that quiet is gone. She moans, she makes choking noises, and she pretty much always has a vaginal orgasm not long after (these are normally tough for her to get). And yes - she does squirt during PIV with this routine.

That toy is worth way more than what they charge. :)

Mysterious-Af 109

anddddd i’m convinced- just ordered it. how can i not with amazing reviews like that

alittlebirdy1 30

lol. There are plenty of amazing reviews there. The one con I've found is that the battery life isn't quiet what they claim. I've taken to recharging it after every 2-3 sessions of use, just to be sure.

Of course, my wife doesn't use the patterns or whatever... we just turn it on high and go.

I mean this in a totally non creepy way - I'd be interested to know if you ended up liking it as much as I'm hoping that you will. I'm not asking for details, just maybe respond sometime down the road with a yay nor nay?

Mysterious-Af 32

not creepy at all (-: i’ll def update on this post if it opened the flood gates :D

alittlebirdy1 15

Awesome, thanks! Good luck!

Hehe, flood gates.

LOVEandWeltanschauun 5

rechargeable magic wand

Sign me up! I'm going to buy one too.

nocrustpizza 3

I notice the link given is Amazon affiliate account. Not saying review not legit, just something to be aware of.

sexydaydreams 37

Fuck that description is fucking hot. Lol

alittlebirdy1 27

I mean... it's just what happens. The night before last, I pulled it away when she came (the stim is just too much at that point for her), and the motion flung her juices over where they made a visible spatter on my leg a couple of feet away. I guess that is graphic, but my God was it hot in the moment.

sexydaydreams 4

I dont know about the splatter not really into vaginal fluids personally but the way you described her ass thrashing about. 🤤

alittlebirdy1 2

Gotcha.

punkinsmama16 15

Sent a screenshot of this to my husband and he ordered one for me 😂😂

alittlebirdy1 2

Haha, that's awesome. I hope you enjoy it as much as she does!

camelliajaponica17 7

Ok, I'm sold too. Going to buy this magic wand. ;)

alittlebirdy1 6

I hope that you enjoy it as much as my wife does!

camelliajaponica17 3

Thank you. I'm sure I will. Have always enjoyed the toys. lol

alittlebirdy1 3

Haha, awesome.

karmasutra1977 5

Sold me on it! Yessir!

alittlebirdy1 1

Haha. I hope that it works as well for you as it does for her!

Moleculor 1

How does it compare to a standard Hitachi?

alittlebirdy1 2

It's not as powerful as the original plug in Hitachi; nothing is. It is very powerful for a potable rechargeable vibe. It is obvious far lighter, and is waterproof. Also has various patterns and such, if those matter to you. It is significantly less expensive.

xhoi 44

Review #2 was quite good as well.

This thing will mix pancakes, waffle mix, brownie mix, it does it all. I've driven door frame nails with this bad boy. Do you need a drink shaken and stirred? Drop this bad boy in for a quarter of a second and your mixed drink is ready to go. I accidentally left it running in the house when I left for work one morning and I noticed the drink in my truck was vibrating like the scene in Jurassic Park when the T-Rex is stomping up to the jeep. By applying this thing to the outside of your form, this will help get the air pockets out of construction grade concrete. The local USGS station triangulated a new seismic disturbance in my rural county. After an inspection to determine we were not fracking in my backyard, I had to reveal the true cause, the Shibari Mini Halo. This single device has replaced so many tools in my shop. After a recent run-in with a mailbox, I was able to use the Shibari to rough out a dent in my truck fender. With it's soft silicone coating, the fender came out looking perfect. It's also waterproof. Are you in the market to build a new pier on your waterfront property? Why rent a pile-driving barge when you can tape the Shibari to new pier poles and sink them in a fraction of the time. Have you ever had to fight to drive low voltage lighting stakes along your sidewalk? Not any more with the Shibari. A quick tap on the stakes will drive a lawn stake through granite, marcellous shale, basalt, even obsidian.

saxlife 8

That is absolutely hilarious. Favourite review of a vibrator ever!

dsmiles13 12

Wife has exact same toy. Absolutely loves it!!!! Wayyyy better than the $125 wand we bought and quieter too

alittlebirdy1 2

It is something else, I agree.

tandemmom 1

Exactly. I own 3 $200 one $80 and this one figuring a $30 cheapie could be our, hmmm how do I say this... travel toy. Better battery life than the $80, quieter than 2/3 expensive ones. Love it.

JennyJanss 19

Chuckling because I clicked the link to see what the fuss was about, and it turned out to be my all time favorite toy. I’m glad the internet is catching on to this wizardry finally! I own two just in case the battery dies mid use. I highly recommend having more than one for that reason.
I also bought this one as a gift for my girlfriend and got her to have multiple orgasms for the first time. My husband and boyfriend are always stealing it for their solo time once they realized they could use it too. 😂

alittlebirdy1 11

I could totally see picking up a second one for that very reason. I posted about this everything in the daily thread earlier this week... it pretty much wrecked the encounter for her when the battery died. At this price point, it seems silly that I haven't already bought a second one for a safety net!

Hah, I haven't tried it, but I imagine that perineum massage with it would be a ton of fun.

JennyJanss 10

Try just holding it against the tip of your penis and sit back and wait for it. You’re welcome. 😉

I'll have to post this to the daily thread. This was super unique - a lot like receiving an amazing blow job. I actually lost my erection, but it continued to feel amazing (I held it against the head, ended up rubbing it slightly against the bottom of it), and I got that slow, leg clenching buildup. I ended up coming while flaccid, which I can't recall ever happening before... and it was amazing.

Thanks for the suggestion!

JennyJanss 1

No problem! I’m always happy to share the good info. 😁 I’m glad you enjoyed it! It’s a nice lazy method for when you don’t feel like putting in much effort haha. Hubs and I discovered this one by accident and it’s been a great addition to the ol repertoire.

alittlebirdy1 2

I can see that for sure. It's a different set of sensations, but very worth doing!

corksoakerfun 4

Is it really strong in a rumbly sort of way? I need really strong like electrical outlet Hitachi magic wand on high strong. But I’d love something cordless. I’m just afraid it will be like everything else I’ve tried and not be strong enough.

PS I love that you have a husband and a girlfriend and a boyfriend.

JennyJanss 1

It is pretty rumbly compared to other typical vibrator type toys. I haven’t tried the plug-in kind of magic wand so I can’t totally say if it’s the same as that. I need super strong stimulation as well though, and this does the trick for me while other battery powered toys do not. For the price it’s worth a try! Easier to bring with you.

And thanks! I love my little poly family! <3

rainjays 2

I too opened it up and wondered why it looked so familiar... It's the only vibrator I've bought that works for me, and it gets me louder than anything else. I've still not had any big orgasms (not for lack of pleasure or trying), but this gets me the closest.

Although we got ours at a sex shop and most definitely paid more than $30 for it. Now I can get a second one for less.

JennyJanss 1

I know everyone is different, but I learned that I have to have a combination of clitoral stimulation (vibe) plus internal (partner or another toy) to get there. And give it time! Some of us just take longer than others so just keep going some time, relax and enjoy, and see what happens!

rainjays 1

I've been working at it some two odd years without much success. It's very difficult to get the right angles inside and out at the same time for me--and I've had some clitoral damage that makes it even more difficult. Some areas are too sensitive and others are simply dead, and since the exposed clitoris is so small, it's very difficult to angle the vibrator just right! But it's lovely when it is.

I think my struggle is more of a mental one than getting the pleasure just right honestly. We live at my dad's house, which is part of the problem haha. And my hormones are whack. I'm hoping after getting some treatment for my mental health, and getting my hormonal birth control adjusted, my head might be in the right space for it.

JennyJanss 1

Ah gotcha! Yes it’s smart to address other sources of stress and hormone issues too. I have had better luck now that I’m on the IUD rather than the pill. I also benefitted a ton from getting my mental health balanced out. All of that affects sex. I don’t have experience with clit damage, but I’m sorry, that sounds rough. 🙁 Finding a nice quiet, private place alone to experiment definitely is a must.

o_cthulhu_o 1

You mention mental health... are you taking antidepressant medication? Some (citalopram for example) can completely stop the ability to orgasm.

rainjays 1

I only started taking antidepressants yesterday, actually. I've decided to experiment a bit and see if I can find one that will help pick up my mood without erasing what's left of my sexual interest. Also looking to find a new form of birth control that works for me. I take the pill to stop my periods, not really for birth control, so it has to be a hormonal type unfortunately, and they're fucking with my libido and sleep cycle.

o_cthulhu_o 1

Good luck! I found Mirtazapine (Remeron in the States) good for avoiding sexual side effects, although it does usually lead to weight gain. All these medications have pro’s and cons however.

Burnmotherefferburn 8

PSA: we have that one. It's not fully waterproof. They replaced it under warranty though.

alittlebirdy1 4

We've never taken it into the tub or whatever; it comes into contact with sexual fluids (obviously) and gets rinsed off in the sink. No issue for us so far. Good to know re: warranty.

BrownheadedDarling 8

I just bought one, and I can’t tell if I’m more excited about getting this thing in the mail tomorrow, or being able to say in my gleaming review that a little birdy told me about it.

It’s the little things, no?

alittlebirdy1 3

It's times like this that the username is worthwhile. Every now and then, someone picks up on the joke, and I grin every single time.

That said... I hope that you enjoy it as much as my wife does!

MirrorGrl36 7

Buying wand as I’m scrolling...

alittlebirdy1 5

lol... I'm telling you, you won't regret it.

MirrorGrl36 2

Just got my wand. Also just came pretty damn hard. Thanks for the suggestion! 😊😊

alittlebirdy1 1

Haha, happy to help! Glad it worked for you!

dream_61 3

Same😁

ghanima 3

How far does this one go on a charge?

alittlebirdy1 4

It usually lasts multiple sessions. I'm not great at keeping up with that, though, and have had it die on us a couple of times. I now make it a point to recharge every 2-3 sessions, just to be sure.

ghanima 1

Thanks for responding! Definitely going to have to take a closer look at this one.

alittlebirdy1 2

Sure thing! We've had great experiences with it, and are far from alone in that.

That sounds like a defective unit. Ours has always been cool, even when used for an extended period.

justasmolfox 0

Honestly it may of been, it wouldn't stay on for even 15 minutes

alittlebirdy1 2

Another user commented how they had killed theirs immersing it in water, even though it is supposed to be waterproof. The company replaced it.

Dagr0nScaler 2

added to wish list

alittlebirdy1 1

:)

paperandfireworks 13

FWIW, I squirt all the time, and there really is a wide range of what it feels like and how much liquid comes out. You don't necessarily have to tell your boyfriend that you never did before. You could frame it as, wow I somehow reached a whole new level of squirting that I didn't know existed. Maybe a sight fib, but it might actually be true too. Sometimes I completely soak a whole towel or squirt like a few feet across the room, and other times it's just a bit of wetness on the sheets under me.

Mysterious-Af 5

i like this advice. i’m going to this instead, it’s better for both parties haha, thanks!

Stone_tools 9

Apples! I fuckin knew it!

alittlebirdy1 2

Haha, thanks. I'll edit.

Lost_Persephone 5

Then there's me, the weirdo that can only squirt from penetration by a partner...

alittlebirdy1 2

Such is the cross that you bear...

laycdeeann 114

I did this for the first time last night. I got a new vibrator and I think that's what got me...wasnt trying or expecting it.

Mysterious-Af 30

me neither! pleasant surprise though

laycdeeann 8

Same here.

boredhorny_engineer 86

What exactly makes you go over the edge? Vibration on clits? Actual penetration offers minimal stimulation to the clit (as I'm told by my gf) so what can males do to help? Any idea?

Mysterious-Af 51

what got me over the edge today was def extreme stimulation on the clit. i’m trying to figure out how to accomplish this with penetration too since I just realized i’ve never squirted until today. hopefully i’ll get some responses :D

mademethemayor 13

For me, it only happens with penetration. It requires my partner to hit the g-spot consistently, and hit it pretty hard. So any position that allows that, or if he uses a toy on me :) good luck, and have fun!

Jdc5724 2

Pull out and rub her clit with your cock lightly this works about 75% of the time or pull out and start licking her clit works every time I've done it

ottswingingcpl 84

Pick up the Womanizer, or the less expensive Satisfyer Pro 2 and you won't believe how hard you squirt. I don't squirt from penetrative sex, never have, and I have lots of sex with lots of partners. I also don't squirt from vibrators or bullets on my clit. I have once squirted from using the Magic Wand but it's not regular. Well both the Womanizer and Satisfyer Pro gets me consistently squirting buckets every. fucking. time! Now I wondered if it was just me, so when we went to Hedo 2 (a sex resort in Jamaica) for our 8th trip last year, I brought it with. We have a spa party for women who are bi-sexual and bi-curious, and we were talking. I found 9 other women who had never squirt who also agreed to let me try it on them and I was able to make 8 out of 9 squirt buckets (yes I fully sanitized the toy between using it on each person; I only play safe)! Seriously... because it uses suction and pulsation instead of vibration, you don't get "numb" down there after a while. The key really is to hold it on there even after you just "can't anymore"; then all of a sudden, whooshh... your whole fucking body will convulse and you will spray like a fire hose! LOL

serge4ntpepper 8

I agree. I bought the womanizer about 4 months ago and that toy alone makes me cum and squirt soo much. When used with additional stimulation such as a dildo, it intensifies times 10! Best $150 spent. Its rechargeable and waterproof too! Definitely 10/10, for sure recommend.

ottswingingcpl 1

Yeah, I love it so much, my clit is pierced so it takes a bit more to find the "sweet spot" to make the suction work, so I don't use a dildo with it, but it's def my fave toy ever found to date.

JennyJanss 7

I have that toy and it’s always a bit too intense for me (Aka makes my clit suuuper sensitive and somewhat painful) so I never really use it. After reading your comment I’ll have to give it another try!

BougieB_83 16

I have the satisfyer and it’s what made me squirt for the first time. I actually really disliked the vibe at first because it was so intense but I’ll be damned if I waste $50 and don’t come so I rode out all the intensity and next thing you know I’m squirting across the bed. It was crazy.

blobfish_brotha 6

It takes some trial and error. Get comfortable with it by yourself first before you use it with a partner. It's completely different than any other toy so it's going to take some experimenting to figure out what works for you. The first time my husband tried it on me and it was a little uncomfortable and even painful. Until I figured it out for myself so now he knows what to do. 💦💦💦

JennyJanss 1

Any tips and tricks?

blobfish_brotha 8

Do whatever you need to do to fully relax. For me it's cannabis.

JennyJanss 1

Ah yeah!

ottswingingcpl 1

Use it on a lower setting and see if that helps? May take longer but if you have a super sensitive clit, it's worth the try.

JennyJanss 1

I always use it on the lowest setting, or second lowest haha. I’m not generally sensitive, in fact with other toys I always use the highest setting so this one is a total mystery to me. Maybe it’s just not for me, but I’ll give it another go just to be sure.

ottswingingcpl 1

Lemme know, I'm curious, haven't seen this yet and I've played with many gfs with it so I'd like to know :)

blobfish_brotha 7

The only time I've squirted has been due in large part to the Womanizer. Hate the name but goddamn, love the product. It's the only way I've been able to have multiple orgasms, too.

Someone seriously needs to give the inventors a Nobel prize.

ottswingingcpl 1

Yup; it's aahhhhmazing, that product is awesome! There are some other good ones too like the Satisfyer Pro

Got2LuvIt2 7

How was the club? I've wanted to go for sooo long! Is it worth the money?

ottswingingcpl 3

It's really great, not at all like the adverts (all models shown in them); just normal people looking to have a great time. You can book with groups so you end up going with like-minded peeps also. Some groups are more aggressive than others, some are younger, some are more middle-aged, some are full swingers, some are party groups. Definitely worth finding the group that works for you. I recommend the Hedo Rockers (hedorockers.com) because they're an amazing party group with a mix of people from 18 to 60+; half are in the lifestyle, others just go to party, no pressure, boundaries respected and they have a ton of bisexual and bicurious women since they book with Wild Women Vacations (a group that focuses on bi-sexual and bi-curious women); it's a really cool group and I've never regretted going with them.

Got2LuvIt2 1

Thank you!

ottswingingcpl 3

Welcum! :)

Got2LuvIt2 1

Sounds freakin awesome!

ottswingingcpl 3

It really is; it's not like swinger clubs, or meet and greets, to hang out with like-minded people for one or two full weeks without any responsibility, adulting, parenting, etc. where you can really immerse yourself into it and explore your sexuality without judgement is a dream cum true!

It really is; it's not like swinger clubs, or meet and greets, to hang out with like-minded people for one or two full weeks without any responsibility, adulting, parenting, etc. where you can really immerse yourself into it and explore y our sexuality without judgement is a dream cum true!

redmondisababy 4

Do you work for the company that makes said sex toy by any chance? This almost reads like a testimonial.

kampamaneetti 1

I mean, he mentions 2 different toys made by different companies so I doubt it.

ottswingingcpl 1

Haha no, I'm an office admin. I don't think they make very many sex toys in Canada other than the We-Vibe and I don't like it unfortunately, I spent $150 on the first version and now I'm afraid to spend the money on the 3rd or 4th version to see if it's any better.

Swallow_bird_ 1

Awh wtf. I have this toy and I use it every time I have a "private session", but I've never squirted. I guess I never will.... damn.

ottswingingcpl 1

Try having someone else hold it on your clit for you while they hold you down. Maybe you remove it too quickly?

donutpmmeplz 1

Omg thank you for posting this! I've been trying to squirt forever and will definitely give these a shot!

ottswingingcpl 1

No probs, let us all know how it went, and if you can't keep holding it on your clit cause you get too sensitive, make sure you have your partner hold you down and do it for you, cause that's key if you remove it too quickly.

alex3delarge 1

Do you think I'd be able to enjoy this toys even if I don't really feel anything with oral sex?

ottswingingcpl 1

I think so. I do enjoy a few partners who lick with some pressure, but it still takes me a long time to cum. I'm more successful with vibrating bullets on my clit but I do go numb after a while. These pulsation'suction toys are great. Just don't buy the $20 one, it has next to no pulsation or suction and really sucks (or doesn't suck very well haha). The Satisfyer Pro 2 is $60 on Pinkcherry in Canada or $45 on Amazon in the US; and it's the one I started with and I love it. Now I have a Womanizer (much more expensive toy, more than double in price); and it's not that much more intense, but easier for me to hold on my clit through the duration of the orgasm. Hope that helps!

alex3delarge 1

Thanks! I got myself a satisfyer pro plus vibration. I reaaally struggle to orgasm by all means, so I'm excited to try something new. Sadly it will take about 2 months to arrive in Brazil:( but if it works I'll sure spread the word. Thanks!! :D

ottswingingcpl 1

I hope it works as well for you as it has for me and my gfs. Whether or not you spread the word, I don't work for them so it's all good. Most vibration and pulsation toys like the Satisfyer and Womanizer work well, just can't buy the cheap ones (there are $20 knockoffs that are too weak to help)

carolnuts 69

I don't really enjoy it. I feel terribly embarrassed afterwards

kcottss76 52

I never squirted till i was 39 (42 now). I was embarrassed at first too. But I've found most men love it! And it is a very relaxung feeling when you are done. Also for the OP, I have a rabbit vibrator that works well, but the first several times I squirted was from a guy giving me oral, lots of cliteral stimulation and then using his fingers inside me very hard. Also, mid-sex oral and then doggie style makes me squirt during sex.

Mysterious-Af 32

i’ll tell you this, it’s not a sensation i expected. I did feel a little pain due to the intensity. I can’t imagine doing it multiple times in one session nor would I want to. but no need to feel embarrassed! I felt kinda powerful after like hell yeah I just ejaculated

Caldwing -2

That's cool you had a great experience. It might interest you to know though that although the sensation of squirting is sometimes intense, it's not actually an orgasm, which feels fairly different.

BougieB_83 4

How isn’t it an orgasm? Feels like an orgasms to me, just a different kind. Much the way imagine the difference between a male orgasm from prostate stimulation vs. penile contact.

ETA-Even with woman there’s a difference between clitoral orgasms and one from g-spot stimulation.

IShouldJoinReddit 1

Science suggests it's not an orgasm. There was a study done a few years back on squirting. The results showed that the fluid from squirting likely comes from the bladder, as women's bladders were scanned prior to arousal (empty), during (full) and post-orgasm (empty again) meaning, yes, it's likely half piss and not at all the same fluid produced during an orgasm.

Mrknowitall666 1

Well, here's the thing. As OP edited, it's an orgasm: however I agree with you that it's not ejaculate. So it's such an intense orgasm that they don't have bladder control. Maybe similar to the way a woman might pee a little during a sneeze.

And OPs other comment that it's like a man's orgasm from prostate v penile stimulation doesn't feel right to me either, since to me anyway xthey both feel like orgasms with the same (and only) ejaculate I've ever had.

BougieB_83 1

I know when my husband has an orgasm from prostate stimulation versus penile contact it is way more intense and the contractions are way stronger. That’s similar to how I feel when I have a squiring orgasm. Similar but different and more intense.

BougieB_83 1

That study is pretty weak first off but the squirting comes while orgasming. I’ve read that study and no where does it say that it isn’t because of an orgasm. The Skene glands in a woman produce a fluid similar to ejaculate and like any woman who has squirted will tell you, it doesn’t smell, look or have the consistency of urine. I don’t think the one study that seems to be the only one ever referenced with a sample size of 7 women should be taken as gospel at this point. Whatever it may be it still occurs because of orgasm.

IShouldJoinReddit 1

Go check out the National Center for Biotechnology Information. They prefer the 2014 study over the later study. It's not gospel, but you're right, I re-read it earlier and misunderstood slightly, although it does have a major semantic difference between that and the 2015 study.

BougieB_83 1

That’s the study. Still weak. Female orgasms is still pretty mysterious especially when you throw in the squirting aspect. I think most anything at this point is anecdotal and I only know from my experience that it is nothing like urine. It leaves no pee scent behind what so ever. It sure is fun though so....piss or not, we’re loving it!!

IShouldJoinReddit 2

Well, yeah, I would never tell my girlfriend "hey, that wasn't a real orgasm" because that would be dumb haha. But you're leaving out lots of information to call the study weak. It was a 20+ page report and even has a retort for your "it is nothing like urine" comment (FWIW, my ex's smelled pee-ish when it hit my face). Not here to trash your opinion because it's your opinion and I think I agree with you more than you think because it's a semantics issue, but I'm gonna roll with scientists over a redditor, no offense.

edit: also, that may be the study, but they also have 98 other studies on it then, as there are 99 papers on squirting from 2014 on.

BougieB_83 2

No worries, it’s really an interesting topic and I think there is more to it than what researchers have yet fully figured out. I’m really fascinated by it all.

Mrknowitall666 1

Oh, I meant to post to you. IME prostate or penile contact feels like the same orgasm with the same (semen) ejaculate....

Caldwing 0

For most women who experience "squirting", there is little pleasure, usually just a very intense muscle spasm. Some women who experience this before ever having had a real orgasm come to falsely believe they are having orgasms. If you are emitting a large amount of liquid during a true orgasm, that is simply bladder incontinence brought about by powerful orgasm. As far as science can tell, there is no such thing as female ejaculation. If it does exist, it's just a small amount of milky fluid, not a bunch of watery liquid, which could only come straight from the bladder.

Also, although orgasms can feel different depending on how they are triggered, there is no fundamental difference between female orgasms arrived at in different ways. They still activate all the same pathways and muscle contractions. There is no fundamental divide between so called "clitoral" and "vaginal" orgasms, they are both just orgasms. Almost all women experience the strongest orgasms from both at once. The average squirting response is fundamentally different, and doesn't activate the same systems.

BougieB_83 1

Oh thank god. I’m so glad as a man you have been able to explain my orgasm to me.

Caldwing 1

Scientific fact is not affected by the gender of the messenger. It was a woman, a very famous sex researcher in fact who first established for a fact that there is only one, universal, type of female orgasm with many different variations. I am simply reporting what she (along with many other researchers) discovered.

BougieB_83 1

Didn’t need you to explain it to me though. I understand how my body works. Just because I didn’t specifically detail everything out for you certain folks doesn’t mean I don’t understand how my body and orgasms work. “With many different variations” being the key here. You probably just shouldn’t try to explain to women how their bodies work.

Caldwing 1

Explaining to people how their bodies work is one of the primary reasons this subreddit exists. I am sorry this bothers you.

Aussie_chopperpilot 28

But its so damn hot for us. I promise….lifetime memory of omg thats hot. Please do it again…hot.

MaltersWandler -22

not for everyone. ask if your partner is okay with it before spraying him with your urine.

not for everyone. ask if your partner is okay with it before spraying him with your urine.

sparrowsknow 30

It’s not something everyone can control, so asking permission isn’t always an option. And it’s not the same as urine. I’ll never understand people that get freaked out by vaginal or penis fluids, it’s part of sex. It’s like not wanting someone’s spit in your mouth when they kiss you.... I don’t get it. To each his own tho obviously.

Abysssion 12

Its watered down urine, but you're absolutely wrong that its not urine. Its urine, with other liquids, but majority is urine. Why are people always against it?

sparrowsknow 0

I’m not against it at all. I’m not sure why anyone else is. But I read an article saying that they did mri’s while it was happening (with an empty bladder) it still happened. So I dunno what it is maybe urine or watered down urine. It doesn’t really matter to me. But that’s what it said. I don’t think urine is any more gross than semen or vaginal fluid which I also don’t think is gross.

Abysssion 9

Im a guy, and pretty sure semen is more gross than squirting, but thats me.
Squirting, ( usually ) doesn't contain that pungent smell, so maybe thats why it doesnt tend to bother some

sparrowsknow 1

Yea it definitely doesn’t smell like pee. Sometimes it can even smell sweet

IMM00RTAL 1

You are missing a huge portion of that MRI study. Yes the woman had empty bladders before hand but before the squirted the bladders filled back up and then emptied.

MaltersWandler -3

You don't have to understand them, just ask new partners before having sex if they're okay with it and respect their preference, just like you'd agree where the semen goes with a new partner. If a partner not being okay with it means you don't want to or can't have sex with them because you can't control it, that's okay too.

You don't have to understand them, just ask new partners if they're okay with it and respect their preference, just like you'd agree where the semen goes with a new partner. If a partner not being okay with it means you don't want to have sex with them, that's okay too.

Texasbill15 3

Jeezzzze, talk about taking the fun out of sex : /

sparrowsknow 2

I know I don’t have to understand, just mentioning that I don’t. Also I agree with you, I’m not saying you shouldn’t ask, but I also don’t think if you happen to do it on “accident” or by surprise you shouldn’t be embarrassed. That’s all.

MaltersWandler 3

I agree you shouldn't be embarrassed about it

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carolnuts 4

Isn't it mostly urine tho?

MaltersWandler 1

I didn't say that in the comment you replied to

ZerkWilder 2

U right tho. My mistake.

Texasbill15 0

Urine..??

MaltersWandler 14

doesn't matter what it contains. but yeah, it does contain urine most of the time

GleepGloopGlop 5

Yeah. I hear it's mostly urine most of the time which is the major psychological barrier for me doing it.

I just don't want my husband thinking I'm peeing on him.

MaltersWandler 1

If you think you'd enjoy it or just want to try it to see if you do, I encourage you to confront him about it.

GleepGloopGlop 3

I know I enjoy it. Lol I do it all the time by myself.

I just don't want to pee on him because I don't want him thinking about me peeing on him, which is what it is. The orgasm doesn't change anything. I wouldn't pee on him when I am not having an orgasm. He would not be into it. He says he wants me to squirt, but hey. It's pee.

MaltersWandler 3

I don't think I can change your view, as that's exactly how I think about it too. But you should try it once. If it turns out to ruin the moment for him or for you, you don't have to try it again, and you will have other moments.

GleepGloopGlop 3

I feel that. I also have this weird thought though that since we are so young that I am trying to "save" experiences for when we are older. We've already known each other for 15 years, and been having sex for most of them, but we are are in our mid 20s. I don't want to be bored in my 40s because we have made love thousands of times. We take new things slow, after we perfect old things. It's worth it. I mean I've never, ever, had better sex in my life with anyone. Nothing that even comes close to as good as the sex I am having with my husband right now, and it's always getting better. I think that's because we take things slow. We've done anal a handful of times and it feels great, but we don't run to it. Now we ROCK vanilla sex, so when we get an idea to do something kinky after a few times that becomes amazing too because we have this incredible foundation of hot sex and energy to build on, you know? I bet when I am 30 I'll be begging him to make me squirt all over him ... I am not in a rush.

Does that make any sense?

marrymeodell 13

Used to be embarrassed too, but every guy I’ve been with said “that’s so hot” after it happened 🤷🏻‍♀️

interwebbed 46

I was having skype sex with my gf one day and she was playing with her vibrator and then all of a sudden she goes like "omg i squirted" and behold she did have a nice wet spot on her bed.

We haven't been able to recreate that moment together :(

we want to, if you ever find out how, let me know!

luxuryvelvet 5

two words: prone bone

SbrbnHstlr 40

Why not use the vibe during penetration ?

Or mutually masturbate(with your vibe) until youre close to flood gates and have him penetrate you to open them up?

Mysterious-Af 24

yesss that’s a good idea. I think i’m going to try it out.

Offended_by_Words 36

Isn't it %90 piss?

atryhardrooster 54

Lmfao, yes its diluted fluid from the bladder.

Abysssion 24

Half this sub doesn't seem to think so, and will downvote anyone who says it is.

atryhardrooster -5

I think the female orgasm is a different fluid from squirting so they may just be mixing things up

paperandfireworks 4

Chemically the same as urine but more dilute. So that she a different fluid, but it does come from the bladder.

Mysterious-Af 27

who cares?

MaltersWandler 2

Your partner might

Offended_by_Words 1

I'd rather not be pissed on during sex. I'm not judging. Totally cool of other people are into that. A bunch of cum on my cock is enough for my gf and myself.

Mysterious-Af 25

that’s fair but it doesn’t smell or look like pee at all. it’s a clear fluid

edit: i’m not into urine play at all either but this really doesn’t resemble pee in any way. it’s like regular female discharge buuuut a lot of it

Abysssion 6

Because its mixed with other liquids, but majority is still urine, but yea its not the same as peeing on a partner lol

Lakersrock111 -4

Yes definitely different ! Can confirm as a squirter 12 years:).

dirtsunshine 2

Grab a baby change pad. Makes it simple.

Kissing13 1

I've been with a squirter before (I'm a woman, BTW) and it was pretty clear, but it was copious amounts and it was watery, not viscous. You couldn't rub it between two of your fingers, pull them apart and have it span between your fingers like you can with vaginal fluids. The natural lubrication a woman's body produces when aroused makes penetration easier and makes it easier for sperm to reach the egg and achieve fertilization. The squirting I've witnessed would be counterproductive to that (though not by any means a reliable form of birth control).

What really matters is that people enjoy it and it's too dilute to be harmful.

Offended_by_Words -1

Some of my friends love it as well. If it's satisfying to you, do not let anyone else tell you different!!!

dirtsunshine 16

Cum on face - it’s a go.

Shit on dick - let’s do this.

Lady lube juices dripping off my nuts - I’m in.

Something kinda pee like? This crosses the line.

Offended_by_Words 8

Cum on face - for sure

Shit on dick - I'd prefer not but it could happen and then a shower is required

You only pump a load on a girl's face that wants it. I could care less. I prefer to cum inside my gf.

Mysterious-Af 2

as long as it’s not 90% piss amiright

Offended_by_Words 1

Shitting feels kind of good. What if I decided to hold in a shit all day and then when I'm cumming, just force a runny shit all over the place? Does that sound fun. Should I be denied that orgasm?

Mysterious-Af 7

from what I read, no woman has said they hold the urge to pee just to release it. that would be intentionally peeing during sex. that’s not what we’re talking about here. in fact, they say the complete opposite and often pee beforehand (this was my case as I had literally just woke up). secondly, please read the comments from this thread. most girls on here have said that it feels like an intense orgasm. I reckon we know wtf peeing feels like and we can compare it to squirting. it’s different. by saying we’re “just peeing” you’re discrediting what we say we’re feeling. I pity any lover of yours because you obviously don’t listen.

livevil999 12

Yes it’s pee. Wether or not you care is up to you but I do wish people would at least come to terms with this and I kinda wish they would stop calling it squirting. It’s peeing during sex and if that’s your thing then cool, but don’t pretend it isn’t pee.

BougieB_83 19

Meh, there’s a bit in there, sure,but I have small kids who regularly piss the bed and there is a HUGE difference between that smell and the basically nothing smell of what is left behind after I squirt.

livevil999 8

It’s more than a bit. Tests have shown its urine. And not a little bit.

BougieB_83 5

There hasn’t been many studies to begin with and the amount of women studied has been small. So while there may be some truths to it I wouldn’t consider it solid research.

livevil999 9

Don’t downvote just because you disagree with studies on the subject. There are no studies saying it isn’t urine so...

BougieB_83 5

There aren’t many studies to begin with. The one I see most often has a sample of 7 women with 2 secreting pure urine and the other 5 having urine diluted with ejaculate fluid. At this point anecdotal evidence from women is probably more solid than the small amount of research. I would imagine there definitely is some urine considering it comes from the same place but from personal experience, if I was just pissing everywhere during orgasm I would imagine that it would smell like piss at least a little? No?

CrashyTitan 6

Exactly. It smells NOTHING like pee. At all. At first I was so embarrassed but then after many times (and many reassurances by my partner) I started realizing that it really didn’t seem like pee. Also, the amount of fluid I produce, I couldn’t pee that much if I tried. And I always have to pee afterwards.

uberblack 6

Are you saying there's a pocket of fluid hidden in a woman's body just waiting for the right lover to come along and unlock the flow? If it isn't mostly urine, what are you proposing that it is and where is it coming from?

mademethemayor 5

Yeah, in my experience it smells nothing like pee, has a different consistency, and doesn’t feel at all like the same sensation as peeing. Might there be trace amounts of urine in there? Sure. But honestly I thought it was pee at first too, and after doing it enough I changed my mind. Anecdotal, but that’s my two cents. Either way...who cares?

BougieB_83 1

I didn’t down vote.

Kissing13 2

Your small kids have healthier kidneys and don't chug down a couple of glasses of water to make their pee dilute.

Your small kids have healthier kidneys and down chug down a couple of glasses of water to make their pee dilute.

Mysterious-Af 6

if it looks and smells different than pee why would it have the same name? it obviously is different than pee which is why they came up for a different term for it.
I didn’t even think this would be a topic of argument amongst people. it kind of reminds me of how people would deny the female orgasm back in the day (im not sure if people still do).

0-1-1-2-3-5-8-13-21 6

Well you can also squirt from stimulation without having an orgasm. But it's totally pee, hon. You can pee first and think you have an empty bladder but it fills again with many different muscle contractions. You can also squirt, with or without orgasm, totally soak the bed, and then totally pee again after. But it's pee. Our bodies are awesome, enjoy it.

paperandfireworks 4

It is chemically the same as urine and comes from the bladder, but there is something going on besides "just regular pee," because research has shown that it is much more dilute than normal urine, and that the bladders of women who squirt fill up more quickly when they are aroused. The research I read didn't go further than those observations

Ownurshit -5

No I pee right before

duderinocity 16

Still piss

Ownurshit 1

Not mine I tasted it so gtfoh

wysmamaalwaystired -26

From what I read about it, the fluid actually comes from a different hole.just above the vaginal opening. Can't recall the name right now but no , its not piss

oioioooiiio 58

This hole you're talking about is urethra and yes, it is piss, just diluted.

potsandpans 13

lmfao

DirayaIsNoLaya 3

Diluted with what? I really don't Understand the mechanics of squirting.

Texasbill15 -7

Educate your self. It's not Piss.

oioioooiiio 8

honey, you're the one who needs some educating :')

MaltersWandler 16

yeah that's piss my dude

Eagleassassin3 12

Your comment is partially true. Pee doesn't come from the vaginal opening but from the hole that you're talking about which is just above the vagina. That hole is the urethra.

In males, the sperm "tubes" and the urethra both open into one tube while going through the prostate, so 1 tube leads to 1 opening. They stay separated in females.

Dalillah 7

It actually is pee, but not completely formed, that’s why it doesn’t have a smell like regular pee.
It just came out because of nerve stimulation.

zesty- 2

It comes from the urethra but its produced in the skenes gland just above the bladder.

Gigantera 29

All people here saying that squirt is pee/same as peeing/asking and supposing the liquid composition: r/sex has a FAQ section with techniques and tips to have your first squirting altogether with biochemical studies on the composition. Spoilers: although it has urea, just like sweat and blood does, it's not pee, and has a lot of PSA antigen - similar to semen.
So stop ranting on getting downvotes because you're spreading misinformation.

jcsc30 4

I haven’t studied it but I agree with you as I think cum and squirt tastes very very similar

tandemmom 5

I think all these people are missing a major sense. Vision.
I squirt on my hardwood floor once. Last time I checked I definitely do not pee cloudy white.

RedSyringe -1

vomits

Kissing13 2

What organ does it come from? And don't say the vagina, because it has to actually come from somewhere that can actually produce and hold that much liquid..

Gigantera 0

Prostatic glans around the female urethra, if I recall the FAQ properly. Because if goes out from the same "hole" than pee, it probably is another confusion factor.

RedSyringe 2

Brah women don't have prostate glands.

Gigantera 0

Not as men do. They're "vestigial". Just like men have nipples but do not breastfeed.

Kissing13 2

Skene glands are very small. There is no way they can produce the quantity of fluid that comes out when a woman is "squirting."

Gigantera 1

I do not know if skene glands are the ones responsible for squirting. But salivary glands are also very small, and I've seen people gush saliva out of their mouths in spurts just by pressing them the right way so...

Kissing13 1

That is true, but those are much smaller spurts. The squirting I've witnessed was at least a fluid cup at a time.

Gigantera 1

Well, I can'f offer more info than that. Maybe there are anatomical differences? Maybe some women have bigger glands than others, and that's why it's easier for some than others.

AnUnexpectedUnicorn 26

I'm a squirter. It has to be the right angle (missionary, with my knees way up but close to his sides) but I can feel it about to happen, then I get this huge wave of orgasm and flood my poor guy! Honestly, I often try not to cuz it's such a mess, but it feels really good, so sometimes I just let it fly! He laughs that it tickles as it runs off his balls.

MochiandMongo 14

Im a squirter too! My fiancé and I just put down an absorbing dog pad down before starting and it seriously collects all the liquid without dripping or spilling. You can get a big pack pretty much anywhere and they’re really thin.

Im a squirter too! My fiancé and I just put down an aborning dog pad down before starting and it seriously collects all the liquid without dripping or spilling. You can get a big pack pretty much anywhere and they’re really thin.

AnUnexpectedUnicorn 6

We have designated sex towels to handle the job! Thanks for the hint though!

MrArchibaldMeatpants 22

A woman squirting is the hottest thing ever. Just had to say that. Squirt on me 24/7, I don't care. Its hot.

vimrc_201808 21

The world is better when it's a wetter place

Viciunia22 21

I have a 100% success rate with my boyfriend. We'll start with me on top for about 10 minutes. Then he throws me off and shoves his dick in my mouth. He'll be vigorously fingering me until I squirt so hard, I get it on my face. Might sound disgusting, but I have no shame.

DickardiumLeviosa 2

That’s my go-to also!

Diggs4eva 21

Two words: Extreme cunnilingus

Forestnymph0 20

Omg! I (24f) squrited just recently too! It was insane! Definitely the best orgasm I have ever had! Congrats!!!

Mysterious-Af 10

it was the best orgasm! thanks lmao you too

fedxc 12

So, was it pee?

kittenxsnow 8

I always squirt on my stomach with my legs together, and my partner would just slide in between. It’d be super tight for him and very, very stimulating for me.

saxlife 7

I’ve never squirted but I fucking LOVE that position. It hits my g-spot at the right angle. Add a clit vibrator to that and dayum!!!

arkzak 8

u peed

mjohnson062 8

Look, as young men, we feel as if the deep-dicking we deliver is God’s gift. As older, wiser, more experienced men, we truly realize that good sex for both parties is a multi step process. The dick alone typically ain’t gonna git ‘er done.

Sure, having it happen during intercourse is a valiant goal, but meanwhile, lots of foreplay, experimentation with positions and possibly the introduction of toys into the process. And I’m not even talking squirting here, I’m just talking about female orgasms.

Dalillah 8

I am always able to squirt with a dildo, faster than with a partner. When I put it in I try to move it a bit deeper and press my front vaginal wall. When you hit the spot you’ll feel it, I go in slower strokes and just hit that spot repeatedly.

I think the way of your pelvis is positioned can determine in what position you’ll find that spot easily. Since mine is a bit tilted posteriorly, I feel it best in me lying on my back and my partner above me but on his knees and with slower strokes (not too slow but not too fast either), but that’s just my personal experience.

Experiment more with your vibrator and switch positions with your guy to see which angle works best for you. He must not stop, that kills it 😅
He has to be focused entirely, you’ll both probably feel amazing, my ex always came right after my squirt. Guide him, tell him what kind of strokes do you feel the best and let him know to continue in that tempo.

BREATHE! it’s very important to breathe, don’t hold your breath even though you might feel tempted to.

Drink PLENTY of water! That helps a lot.

Hope I helped a bit and good luck 🍀

muffin2019 6

I discovered I can. But it didn't involve penetration. It involved me, mostly naked, on my own in front of an open widow, cars driving by, and the flood gates opened all over the carpet. I discovered I can squirt and that I have an exhibitionist kink at the same moment! I have tested the same situation many times.. Yep, still works and still squirts. Haven't told my SO yet.

it’s a little unfair to call something that 7 women experienced as the universal truth.

Lovingyourlove 7

Is it fairer to believe something is something else because it fulfils a fantasy? Honestly I don’t really care but I do think it’s nice to have investigation into this stuff. Thanks to porn, the performance aspect of sex is getting a tad out of control and both men and women are being expected to prove their level of pleasure as depicted in porn. It’s getting really boring imo.

Beckenize 5

did you get a feeling that you needed to pee ?

Mysterious-Af 3

yes! it was intense and a bit scary cause i didn’t want to pee myself but I let it happen because i was aware that the sensation is normal right before squirting

helloosi 5

Is squirting a real thing? I always thought it was just pee.... I’ve never done that before 😦

h4xnoodle 4

The very first time I accidentally squirted the other person hated it and complained that I pissed the bed, so I thought I had. Terrible time.

Current partner thoroughly enjoys it, to my knowledge.

The trick I've found is to stay hydrated, but also to go to the bathroom right before. Relaxing and letting it 'go'. From what I can tell, there is a little gland thing there that when poked, causes expulsion. Kinda like a gleek (small squirt of water out your mouth when yawning/etc)

How often do you drink pee?!? Remember it is mixed with psa fluid from orgasming. Also they aren’t sure whether sexual excitement stimulates urine production so it may be more dilute if it’s made during a faster process...?

dirk1971 4

Nice, This is hot!! Ever since My ex showed me how to make a women squirt. I have had more than a few OMG moments "how did u do that!? Can u teach me to do it again"

I just recently squirted for the first time about a month ago with the satisfyer pro. I initially didn’t like the vibe because it was way too intense but I stuck it out and I ended up squirting. It was crazy. If happens pretty regularly now and I’ve learned out to do it vaginally too. My husband basically has to assault my g-spot with a glass dildo. It works though!!

childrenofthewind 4

Get the we-vibe tango. It’s perfect for clit stimulation during penetrative sex. You won’t regret it.

djdrazah 4

The liquid is a mixture with pee in it but that's not reason to not indulge yourself. If it makes you feel good, fun to obtain, and provides so many benefits to your health (according to top scientists) then fuck it, pee to your hearts content and if anyone doesn't like it, tell them to hold their pee! XD

JuicebySarasgotJuice 3

Yeah I don't squirt anymore I gush. All she has to do is Spider-man that hand and we are off to waterworld.

kimbalinapea 3

Today you peed. Stop lying.

Mysterious-Af 17

lol if only peeing felt this great (;

duderinocity 7

Nothing wrong with enjoying the experience.

Itsoktobe -1

Lol wow.

Hookemhorns0712 -4

You're fucking stupid, you're either a) a virgin or b) don't know how to properly have sex with a woman, or have never had sex with the right man

Mysterious-Af 0

lmao I love this. I really had noooo idea peeing v. squirting was a debate. it doesn’t make any sense to me because peeing feels totally different so why would it still be considered the same thing?? it’s like they don’t believe women when we say it’s an orgasm.

Hookemhorns0712 -6

It's because some women either don't really know the difference or don't even know that that's a possibility of happening for a woman. Some men, either don't know what they're doing, don't know how to do it, and/or don't have the right size package. So either this person is a woman and like I said doesn't know how it's done, or has never been with anyone capable enough to get the job done, or they have never been able to get a woman to do this cause they're either to small or just flat out don't know how to do it. Some men can go their entire life and not know how to properly satisfy a woman.

Like I said earlier when me and my wife had issues and I left, I slept with an older woman, I was 28 she was 43, she had 3 kids, and even with that she still didn't know how to properly "fuck". Yet I've been with some girls who in high school were virgins, and they could damn near ride like a pro.

nwofoxhound 3

I used to make my fiance squirt all the time from PIV but then she started IUD and it hasn't happened since. Damn shame too since it was so fun. Happy you find the Goldilocks zone for achieving this. Enjoy experimenting with your partner 😀

shooter1982 3

Got an ex to squirt the only time she ever has. She was starting shit with me talking smack. I wound up chasing her around the house til I caught her in a hallway took her to the floor wound up going to pound town and it did the trick it was a massive amount with multiple jets pew pew pew.

jessiirose94 2

A guy ive recently started dating made me squirt twice while we were 69ing. He was soaked, his beard, bed. It was a mess! But felt amazing

Justyce54 2

My wife is a huge squirter... which has turned me on big times over the years....
BUT... Get a waterproof throw that you can put down beforehand...
Makes cleanup much easier... Just saying

Eliza03 2

Njoy Pure Wand works wonders with this as well!

Crixusgannicus 2

Good on you! I've (M) accomplished many milestones but have yet to make a lover squirt. Still on my list!

Enjoy!

As for me though I'm only counting it as a win if I succeed without using toys. Half point if she's squirted before on her own, regardless of means and methods. Double points if she's never squirting before.

foreveremmylou 2

I squirted for the first time a few weeks ago using a vibrator on my clit. I can't squirt during sex and now every time I use my vibrator I squirt. It was an amazing feeling. But I don't care if I squirt during sex or not. My boyfriend actually likes that I don't squirt. But sometimes he says "let's see if we can get you to squirt" it never happens

Ownurshit 2

I can squirt from doggy and the legs all the way up the shoulders

YoureTrollingRight -1

You’re able to get people to have sex with you?

Ownurshit 2

Bye troll 😏

Ownurshit 1

More than u can

littleleolion 2

It's been scientifically proven to be pee. It's clear because that's how urine looks when you're hydrated. It doesn't smell strong because that's what happens when you're hydrated. Studies were done where various women completely emptied their bladders before sex, then it rapidly filled again, then was emptied again upon squirting. BUUUUUUUUUUUUT, sex is messy PERIOD. Sex involves bodily fluids PERIOD. Female or male cum is still a body fluid that is enjoyable during sex, spit swapping, kissing and all of that involves bodily fluids and is enjoyable! Sometimes people even get a little poo on them during anal play. Moral of the story is, it's a body fluid. Shit happens. Take a shower and move on. As long as you and your partner get off, that's all that matters! It doesn't matter what bodily substances are involved.

MoonDaddy 2

Always a good idea to put a tarp down.

LOVEandWeltanschauun 2

YASS Queen!

I'm glad you got to experience it.

justlookin4u662 2

I once dated a woman who would the head of my penis to stimulate her clit. 9 out of 10 times she would squirt doing this. Never through penetration. Hope you find this useful.

haltingblueeyes 2

My magic cheat code is me [F] on top of him in cowgirl. Something about that grind feels so amazing and just tingles me in all the right ways.

Tulanol 2

Congratulations not everyone can do that I think 🤷‍♀️

dtino08 2

There was this girl I used to make sure. It was usually in the spooning position and I would angle myself lower and use my hands to spread her ass cheeks and just fuck the shit outa her. My dick would pop out and my thigh would be soaked. It was great.

"But the researchers observed a noticeable filling of the women’s bladders from the ultrasound taken right before squirting. After squirting, the third and final ultrasound revealed women’s bladders appeared to be empty once again. This suggested the squirting samples were urine."

Do you ladies orgasm when you squirt? I can squirt, but I don't orgasm from it for some reason. I'm not sure if mine actually "squirts" but I end up with a big puddle. Just wondering how others experience it.

BougieB_83 2

For clitoral stimulation If I just go for it on my own it’s intense but not too crazy. If I’m with my partner and he’s been edging me for 45 minutes and then I use a vibe it is absolutely insane. Very powerful and forceful and I am DONE for the night. Same if it happens via G-spot. I’m simply spent after and my whole body is just a shaky, vibrating mess of pleasure.

Mysterious-Af 1

does it feel good at all?

SurrealIdeal 1

Definitely, it's almost like a mini - orgasm.

Hookemhorns0712 1

Me and my wife were together for almost 5 1/2-6 years before she was able to squirt for the first time in her life. Now it happens every single time, I've got her to squirt by doing nothing but playing with her nipples, it's fucking amazing, satisfying for both of us, is reassuring to me that I'm doing shit right and I'm that good lol (not that I thought I wasn't), and holy Jesus fucking Christ is it fucking sexy as fuck. But we do have to change the sheet every time we have sex in the bed. Invest in some plastic sheets if you want to keep it up and want to keep your mattress.

Mysterious-Af 3

hmmm it sounds like squirting is kind of like a switch. does it mean i’ll squirt everytime now too? 🤤

Hookemhorns0712 3

That I can't tell you, we honestly didn't think it would happen every time we did, but that one time was like I broke down the flood gates. Obviously, some times she'll squirt gallons, some times it happens but not tons and tons. But it should happen more often. We had some issues a few years ago and I left her she slept with a couple different people, as did I, and they couldn't get her to squirt at all.

So it can depend on who you're sleeping with.I know some girls can squirt off clitoral stimulation and some girls can squirt from penetration and then a few can squirt from both.

Austish 1

When my girlfriend and I are getting into it, I can usually get her to squirt after a long amount of foreplay and sex, sometimes I can get her to do it with penetration but I've noticed if I play with her clit really fast she will squirt a lot quicker than if I was just fucking her. All I can say is it's amazing considering she and I are into very rough sex which my past girlfriends were not, and it really helps to get her off. She never uses toys or vibrators and when I bring it up she always says no she would rather have me get her off instead of a vibrator, which is fine since I'm able to. I'd suggest talking to your boyfriend about being rougher and paying more attention to your clit. I've heard from other women that vibrators really help so maybe while he is having sex with you, put the vibrator on your clit to get the best of both worlds. Especially if you have a sensitive vagina, I've heard and experienced with my gf as well since she has an extra sensitive area there, that the clit and the hood area around it really help to achieve that. Also, of course, the best thing is to be as relaxed as possible. Try not to get frustrated if it doesnt happen right away, that actually makes it harder for you to cum. It's all about being clear headed and just to enjoy the sensations being given to you. If something feels really good, have him put extra attention to that area. Try not to stop it even if the feeling gets so good that you cant even handle it, because that's actually a good sign you're getting closer to an orgasm and that your bf is doing a great job.

stormboxer 1

Isn't it though. I love it !!!! Women don't realize it's 80% us

uncreative613 1

For me it happens really often but only with my current bf. The other guys I have been with did not really use any technique during sex. With my bf, it happens with penetration. The first time was in my car and it was really embarrassing but he loved it. I think you just have to explore and find the g-spot; for me it is best when I'm on top.

Tha_Gnar_Car 1

ayooo. Ride that pleasure train girl! Word of advice even though you might not need it- don't go overboard!!! When I first started cumming like that I couldn't stop and I desensitized myself from masturbating too much 0.- it's a real thing... for some people... lol have fun ;)

FemmeDecanter 1

Have you tried using the Womanizer/Satisfyer/LELO? I never thought I was a squirter until I bought myself a Satisfyer!

Phitthat 1

Hey awesome

blanketmecozy 1

#lifegoals hahaha

(if you don't mind me asking) when you get to that point where it's about to happen, is it like you have to let yourself squirt and if you don't let yourself then you don't squirt, or is it that you will squirt unless you stop yourself from squirting?

Mysterious-Af 2

def the former. it’s a very weird sensation, almost a bit painful because of the intensity. like i mention in my post, there’s a certain point you reach with clitoral stimulation (at least for me) where my whole lower body (including my toes) feels tingly and on fire. i’ve usually stopped when that happens cause it’s too much for me but moving past that is what allowed me to squirt.

blanketmecozy 1

K thanks!

mycat_hatesyou 1

This happened to me recently too!! Using my vibrator on myself. Haven’t been able to since that one time.

ElieDoYouHaveAVagina 1

this post inspired me to buy a vibrator! (and some butt plugs!)

Mysterious-Af 2

yayy!! squirting squaddd

hmill8511 1

My husband works away from me for most of the year. Last year he sent me a package and it was a magic wand. What a fucking game changer! He said it has ruined me😂

rareherodotcom 1

this may be a throw away account but your sure picked a great username. Might even be better than your original.

Kudos to you!

Mysterious-Af 3

lol thanks! it actually is better than my original. i’ll keep this account around for my sexual deviance. I have way too much personal info in my personal (which I kinda regret now)

valicat 1

In regards to your second edit, I don't really care if it's pee. I've squirted a couple times and if all it really is ends up being is an orgasm so special that it made me lose bladder control in a funny looking way? WHO CARES? Most often when I orgasm from PIV (rare for me) I notice that I usually don't squirt but then I find a colorless puddle on the bed that doesn't smell like urine. And it happens every time, either I notice I squirted, or I didn't and then I find a puddle.

GreatMainTest 1

I'm just curious. Like how far did squirt out. Was it crazy like porn?

Mysterious-Af 1

lol! it was much more than I imagined. I was standing (long story short I was getting ready for work in the bathroom) and managed to wet my shoes a good amount

PaulAndOats 1

I think in porn they just pee

wysmamaalwaystired 0

Look up the skene's gland.

icravedeath_exe 0

I [F 19] was utterly shocked when I squirted for the first time. My SO [M 22] has larger hands than my previous sexual partner (a girl I was with for about a year in high school) and so I was very surprised that he made it happen just by fingering.

Ralph-Hinkley -1

Only time my ex squirted from PIV was from behind. Standing or kneeling.

erischilde -1

A couple tips for couples:
1. "come here" motion with one or two fingers
2. Knees up on back, or try both on your knees. The curling up of the body helps a lot
3. Lying on back, knees up, doing the come here motion inside the vagina, try applying light pressure on the outside. Below the bladder. Just over the fingers inside. Like squishing from both sides.

Happy squirting!

wysmamaalwaystired -2

Please look up the skene's gland. The female prostate.

coblajo -3

Just don't pee all day. You will squirt. Squirting is piss.

Black-oilman -6

About 95 of the women I’ve slept with have squirted. I’m a little surprised that it isn’t all that common. My wife is a squirter but she never squirted until the first time we had sex. I can’t point to something I do which may explain why most of my previous partners have squirted. Squirting is hot but I find that a lot of times, it displaces that natural vaginal lubricant. The in out motion tends to be a bit rough because of this. It’s like having sex in a pool (totally overrated if you haven’t done it before haha). We always use some lube, solves that problem.