Facebook
trend in society is strong enough, make a lot of fans who end up buying a
smartphone in order to be able to continue to access and to
change status. Facebook
is interesting, as a mini-blog, Facebook allows its members to write status in
the wall, what he feels or what he was experiencing, then other members can
comment makes it even more exciting.

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Facebook lets you accept a friend request from a close friend, school friends,
relatives and even your old friends. People
who do not know before you can invite friends through Facebook. Or
you can also enter the picture and mark the ones that exist in the image, so
that people can see the marked image. You
can also enter the event schedule and invite others via Facebook. Another
feature is that you can chat or chat with other members who are your friends
when you are online simultaneously.

Indeed, many interesting features that you can get
through Facebook. Often
people use Facebook media to promote their products because of the many members
of Facebook. But
even as a knife can be used to cut food to be cooked and can also for a crime,
then Facebook also has a negative side if misused. What are the negative effects of
Facebook?

Negative Effects Facebook

Update your status, upload photos, chat or watch the
walls of others can be very exciting and make sure time. It is often
perceived that the members of Facebook. So, in order not
to lose track of time have good discipline. For
your child, takes measures how long they can access the Internet and could not
run out of time to rest, study or other activities.

For
couples who are married, using Facebook can cause a rift in their relationship.
When
you see the words sent by a romantic opposite sex from your husband or wife may
be able to cause an argument. Or
with Facebook, communication with the opposite sex can be very intimate, making
you often tell your problems to him to make in the end you're interested in the
person, not the couple themselves.

Include complete biographical data, even phone numbers or
home addresses to lure people who are not responsible. This
is because if it is not dealt with specifically, everyone can read this
information. And
if this information is used by people who intend evil, then it is easy to do. Protect
your privacy while feeling confident that the site has been completely safe. Share
your information only to those who really know. Ignore
the invitation of friends if you are suspicious of the person's membership on
Facebook. Even
if you've got a threat or act less fun than anyone else on Facebook, you can
report the person to the manager up.

Many
people compete to have as many friends as possible on Facebook. Always
check who you invite friends and who invites you to be his friend. Because
it could be your only friends with people who intend evil or send spam on your
wall.

Various interesting applications are also available on
Facebook. However,
some of these applications may contain viruses or malicious applications. If
there is an invitation to use a particular application, and you are not sure
then just ignore the invitation. You
can ask other people or your friends who already use these applications to
request recommendations.

The Importance of Monitoring Your Child

When adults only able to be made infatuated with
Facebook, especially teenagers who are at times delighted met and wanted to
show his true identity. Facebook
has become the virtual space as a forum for friends who liked them. The
lack of experience of the teens make them often an easy target of criminals,
especially sexual predators and pedophiles.

Various
news in the newspaper showed that many children who leave home due to meet with
someone and possibly find love with new friends. In
fact, it is not certain who the person is, given the virtual world, one can
only cover up his true identity. It
may be that the person claiming to be a young single or disguised as a good
kid. When
your child to leave home to meet someone like that, of course, can cause harm
to your own child and bring grief to the family.

So,
how as parents can safeguard and protect children from bad influences Facebook?
You
can try to do the following things in order to keep control of your child's
Internet activity either via a PC or laptop as well as through HP.

Attempting
to learn about the Internet

Maybe for parents who do not understand about the
Internet technology, learning is a challenge. However,
in order to monitor your child, at least you have to understand about the
Internet. Learn
about how to use email, chat or have a Facebook account. By
knowing it, you can also teach your child about this. Even
you can become Facebook friends with your children, so they can simultaneously
monitor any updates that your kids do on Facebook. Never too late to
learn the technology. Even many
members of Facebook are the elderly!Tell
about the dangers that lurk in the use of InternetRemind
your child that while interesting, they must be aware of the dangers the
Internet. One
way is to remind them not to tell the complete personal data to strangers and
do not include them in a personal profile.

hanging
out fairly in cyberspace

Tell your child not to accept everyone who wants to be
friends on social networking sites like Facebook. It is
not necessary to have a lot of friends in the virtual world. Because
if a stranger is accepted as a friend, a stranger can more easily access the
profile and range of your child's information. Do
not also are too familiar with friends on the Internet or even a serious relationship
only being interested in his face, his skills or anything else that is not
necessarily true. Having
friends in the real world is much more secure than friends with people who may
be hiding his true identity in cyberspace.Do
not allow your child to access the Internet without direct observationPutting
a computer with Internet access in rooms is a big mistake that might be a
parent. Children
who do not fully understand the dangers of the Internet, it can secretly access
the Internet without your knowledge. In
the bedroom, children can freely access the Internet without being noticed. To
reduce this effect, the computer should be placed on a lot of people passing
by, for example, in the family room.

Facebook as a social networking website can indeed be
useful to all users. If
used correctly, you can enjoy the many positive and beneficial. But
do not relax your vigilance, because behind a lot of benefits, if misused then
Facebook could be a danger of destroying your family. Always use Facebook wisely.