J K Sikh girl offers to donate kidney to save Muslim friend. Her family says no

Proving what true friendship is all about; Manjot Singh Kohli, 23, has decided to donate one of her kidneys to save the life of her Muslim friend Samreen Akhtar, 22, who is suffering from organ failure.

The Udhampur-based Sikh girl’s decision came despite objections raised by her family and a hospital in Jammu and Kashmir. The girl has decided to approach court as the doctors were “delaying” the procedure by creating “unnecessary hurdles”.

“We have been friends for the past four years and I am emotionally attached to her. Also, it is my strong belief in humanity that is motivating me to donate my kidney,” Kohli told news agency PTI.

She said Akhtar has been involved in social activism with her for the past many years in Jammu.

“But, Akhtar never told me about her illness and I came to know through a mutual friend. She has been my friend and supporter in my tough times and I decided to donate a kidney to her when she needs it,” Kohli said.

Akhtar said she was grateful to her friend for the selfless act.

“She (Kohli) is an incredible person. I simply want to thank her for her selfless act of love and kindness. She was prompt to contact me and express her willingness to donate her kidney. At first, I did not believe my ears, but when she came to meet me and accompanied me before the authorisation committee, I was overwhelmed. It was really life changing for me,” Akhtar said.

“The Sher-e-Kashmir Institute of Medical Sciences (SKIMS) is creating hurdles and delaying the procedure even as the authorisation committee for organ donation has cleared both of us for the transplant procedure. I do not know why we are being pushed to the wall by doctors and administration at SKIMS, Soura,” Kohli said.

Director, SKIMS, Dr Omar Shah said the committee is looking into the issue and they would decide on it immediately.

“We will do whatever best we can. The authorisation committee has informed me that there are legalities involved and they need some more papers before they take a decision on the matter,” Shah said.

Kohli said while she thinks the SKIMS might be apprehensive about the procedure because of the donor belonging to a different religion, her family also has sent a notice to the hospital, saying there was no family consent.

“My family has sent a notice to the SKIMS and may never give the consent. But, I am a major and can take decisions for myself. I am legally eligible to donate and I do not need the family’s consent,” she said.

She said they would approach court on Saturday to seek a direction to SKIMS to perform the procedure without any further delay.

“I have consulted a lawyer friend and we will go to court tomorrow (Saturday). There are court directions from previous cases and we hope to get a favourable judgement,” Kohli said.