Speaking

Danny Speaks About Control

“Shortly after meeting Danny and reading his book, I was convinced he would be an excellent keynote presenter at our Family Day Intensive workshops. Danny walks like he talks, and in his key note address at our workshop, his topic was right on target for those attending: ‘Decontrol Tools for Healing Relationships.’ He uses real life stories which clearly demonstrate how the need to be in control negatively rules and impacts our lives, as well as the lives and happiness of others. He has formulated tools and techniques that help people release control not only in family and love relationships, but also in all aspects of their lives.”

“Danny is down to earth and speaks from the heart. We can all benefit from the psychological insights and spiritual wisdom he graciously shares. I highly recommend him for presentations at treatment programs and educational symposiums.”

George E. Patterson, Ph. D., -Clinical Director, The Gooden Center

“Your topic, ‘Letting Go of Control in the Workplace,’ was so relevant to what we do daily in this office. One of my agents came to me complaining about how another agent had been. My response was, “What did Danny say yesterday????” You are already helping us. Rave reviews all around.”

Elizabeth Shapiro, -Manager, Nourmand and Associates, Beverly Hills

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Danny is an inspiring and thought-provoking speaker who is committed to helping people improve their lives emotionally, spiritually, creatively and financially by teaching them how to let go of unhealthy forms of control. He personally gets involved with event organizers so that he can tailor his presentations to the specific interests of the audience. Below are descriptions of some of his speeches.

Decontrolling Your Life: Discover the True Powers that Bring You Freedom and Contentment

What would your life be like if you let go of control and let events unfold without resisting? Accepted people and things for how they are instead of trying to change them? Stopped telling your family and loved ones what’s best for them? Danny answers these and other probing questions as he shares the overlooked keys to providing freedom and contentment. He explains proven decontrol tools and strategies developed over 30 years that help people let go of control and thereby heal damaged relationships, foster lasting love and intimacy with their loved ones, strengthen bonds with their children, expand their creative horizons, and overcome financial and other hardships.

The Gifts of Acceptance: Keys to Accepting People and Things as They Are

Based on his forthcoming book, The Gifts of Acceptance, Danny shares the remarkable and often unexpected benefits—to us and others– that result from accepting people and things as they are. Using true life stories, he shows how practicing acceptance reduces stress, anxiety, and resentment, releases us from the shackles that bind us, reveals meaningful new choices and opportunities, strengthens bonds with our family and loved ones–and is the best antidote for the need to control. He also explains how to overcome the formidable challenges to acceptance, including fear, arrogance, and undue expectations. Finally, he shows how acceptance enables us to transcend “unlikeables” such as control freaks, adversaries, and other “crazy-makers.”

Strategic Benefits of Relinquishing Control at Work

Drawing on his vast experience as a successful businessman, Danny shares true stories demonstrating the remarkable and unexpected rewards that result when you are willing to give up control in business and at work. He explains a “holistic” way of working and doing business that enhances your clarity and vision (giving you a broader perspective of strategic issues), enables you to discover innovative solutions to perplexing business challenges, avoids conflict and dissension with co-workers and employers, markedly reduces worry and anxiety, averts costly diversions of time and energy—and makes you more money in less time.

How Letting Go of Control Reduces the Struggle with Your Children

Danny addresses what he calls The Fundamental Parental Challenge: fulfilling our responsibilities for ensuring our children’s health and well being, fostering their moral values and ethics, and encouraging learning without obstructing their personal growth, self-reliance and life path through domineering forms of control. He shares ways to meet this challenge, including providing guidelines that enable parents to distinguish between the important role of parental guidance and unhealthy forms of parental control, including parental enabling. Danny further identifies the keys to accepting our children as they are and forging stronger bonds with them.