I get accused of being stuck up when I first meet someone I'm very quiet plus they think I act like I'm to good a lot of guys expecially are afraid to talk to me but that's far from how I am I'm very nice and have a bubbly personality I make good friends easy if they get to know me but I don't make so good of a first impression I guess;(

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I'm exactly the same, I'm a very bubbly person but seem to lack confidence when I first meet someone. People straightaway assume I'm stuck up when I'm actually very shy. People don't often come up to me and start a conversation, because apparently I look bitchy. I honestly don't even realise that my body language is that "LOUD". I've tried just smiling when I'm at a club or so, to see if it makes a difference, nope still got the same results. I give up. If people want to judge me before they took the time to know me, I’m probably better of knowing them anyway.

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I hate it when people judge anyone. I try to judge as little as possible. They say first impressions say a lot, but I really don't think that's the case. For example, tattooed people. Just because they have tattoos doesn't mean that they are of low intelligence, poor, or lazy. I have one, and I'm none of those things. They are just expressing their views and opinions for the world to see. Do I find lots of tattoos on someone attractive, no. But it doesn't mean they are a bad person. Just because we are shy at first, doesn't mean that we are ******* and stuck up.

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My calm demeanor at work has actually gotten me in more trouble than anything. Things don't make me emotional at work. It's business. When others get emotional, or come to me emotional, I take it in stride. We talk through it, figure it out and move on. That I'm not as emotional as they are gets misunderstood for not caring. I care. But I'm not going to run around like a chicken with my head cut off. What good does that do?