This month’s theme is asking for help, and being open to receive. While normally the best place to find a helping hand is at the end of your own arm, sometimes doing it alone is not the best answer. Things seem to happen in waves; in patterns of up and down. It’s easy when things are smooth sailing, but when an event happens, or you need to re-think your previous plan, or it seems overwhelming, that the foundations of trust, and self love, and asking for help start to show themselves. Part of loving ourselves is the commitment to stay in gratitude even when things get complicated. Loving yourself also means asking for help, allowing the trust to emerge, that you don’t always need to be in “control”. Have you ever asked for what you need, and want, and then just handed it over to your angels or the Supreme Being and let go? To Trust the universe to support you, and to trust yourself to have the strength to move through the feelings and act? Trusting enough to let go, and ASK FOR HELP (not just whining about your problems from the same mindset).Sometimes the biggest obstacle is you- the stubborn, fixed, unchanging way of thinking about change in your life."Insanity: doing the same thing over and over, and expecting different results"~~~Albert EinsteinThe more you love yourself, the easier it is to ask for help, and get out of your own way, or be open to new ways of problem solving. Are you resisting some pain or fear that has come up from your inner beliefs; or some inadequacies that have you on a negative or fear treadmill? When you trust in yourself and the big picture, asking for help, from friends, from your angels, can help put the worry on the back burner, can help you to see your situation in a different light, and can help you to make the adjustments in your perceptions, that may be stuck on “on” while you are in the drivers seat, trying to control everything, everyone, every outcome. When you change the way you look at things, the things you look at change. Lighten up, and ask for help. Stop the “grinding action” of effort and victim and struggle and isolation, and all those thoughts associated with it. If there is pain there, underneath that, acknowledge it,(breathe) own it, and let yourself ask your angels for help, while you regroup, and love yourself. Breathe. Your Angels cannot intervene until you ask; that is the law. Your friends and colleagues cannot either. What is also true is when you ask for help, you are already changing the outcome.I am so lucky to be a clairvoyant, and have friends who also read! We exchange energy checks frequently. Sometimes just getting a reading on a difficult time, or overwhelming circumstances, opens up a whole new paradigm of viewing the situation, which gives you choices in acting, in waiting, in being.It’s perfectly fine to question your own authority; your thoughts, and feelings about circumstances in your precious life. They might not be your fears.You might be converting to a family program on handling change, which might not be in present time for you, or with your commitment to love, and light, and growth.Sometimes a series of events happen in waves, waiting for you to take your next step in evolution and growth, by how you resolve them. Like all lessons, or tests, you get to decide how you will approach it. In grounded amusement, or chaos and blame, in trying a new approach (like asking for help), or co creating, or delegating, or keeping your heart open, or stepping up to the plate and being present and responsible.Don't look where you fell, look where you slipped~~~African Proverb Having another set of eyes and ears can help you to see your blind spots, and show you avenues you haven’t considered before. Trust. Own. Ask for help, andget out of your own way.Be open to receive, and love yourself enough to be given to. Your guides and Angels can smooth the path, and offer answers as well. Look at your heavy problem for a second, and imagine how an angel could assist you. What would you do if you were one?I invite you to get a clairvoyant reading, and a fresh look, on your one wild and precious life.Say helloto lightening your load as you co createwith the angels, and dance with change, and take your next steps in gentle strength, gratitude, and growth.