Category: queer

Recorded live via KPISS.FM, in a more innocent time, before the election — in which Dusty and Max join as we talk about male bisexuality, if it’s more ok for ladies to be bi, if dicks rule everything, if men lose more privilege than women by coming out, Prince, Bowie, Marilyn Manson, and why hair metal was actually macho, how the AIDS epidemic put an end to speedos, man-boy love, ancient Greece, Berlin in the ‘30s, passing and not passing, if everything is RuPaul’s fault, and why dating apps are the place to be open about wanting to be shit on. Plus: Don’t forget to like us on Facebook.

Recorded live via KPISS.FM, in which Rina from Indulgence Boutique joins us as we discuss sex toys, the Victator’s moment with Dr. Chris Donahue, penis oriented sex-toy company TENGA‘s study “The United States of Masturbation,” notions of masculinity as a barrier to cis-male use of toys, Ms. Mayness’ trunk full of toys, the lack of friendly sex toy stores outside of major cities, how timing is everything when introducing toys to partners, checking that ego, Kegel detectors, orgasm noises (or lack thereof), ease of orgasms as baller status, and a blow-job hack for the deep-throat-averse. PLUS: a very special appearance from the KPISS landlord.

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Recorded live via KPISS.FM, in which Lucy joins us as we discuss sex in long-term relationships, “givin’ out the fake cellphone and name,” defining “relationships” outside of exclusivity, when sex plummets off the cliff of priorities, sex frequency, how Gale needs sex ALL THE TIME, how emotional distance can get you stuck in the lust zone, and how sex is sometimes (shocker!) better in LTRs, the Victator gets sappy in her PMS, stress as a lady-boner killer vs. sex as stress relief, the Octopussy, masturbation and cohabitation, cumming standing up, saving your orgasms, and what the hell “multiple orgasms” really means.

Recorded not quite live from NuBritt’s bed, in which the Victator and NuBritt’s butts become one, NuBritt signs off (temporarily!), the Victator threatens anyone who keeps NuBritt away, we introduce our new segment NuBritt-At-Large, NuBritt packs, and Victator poops.

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Recorded live via KPISS.FM, in which we discuss orgasms with burlesque performer and drag king Foxy Squire and playwright and slutty man Fred, Victator’s flirtatious musical chairs, cis dude orgasms vs. cis lady orgasms, cumming vs. orgasms (is there a difference? the answer may surprise you), refractory periods of men and women, consent between doms and subs, difficulty in making consent talks sexy, how consensual sex does not necessarily equal good sex, Fred’s pre-recording hookup, blowjobs, how vibrators and cock rings can be problematic, dogs barking in Piss Alley, full body orgasms vs little orgasms, asexuals and demisexuals, and how you make NuBritt and Victator cum AT YOUR OWN RISK. Also, check out Fred’s new play at astronautloveshow.com and Foxy’s events and everything at foxysquire.com.

Recorded live via kpiss.fm, in which sexy people Jax and Isaac join us as we yell a lot and discuss butches and transmen and the lesbian milieu, Jax saving the Victator from bullies, Isaac being a good looking dude, all ofour articlesonFlux Weekly, how “Roey Thorpe is the man,” claims that butches are disappearing, hostility from some old guard lesbians about transitioning, how definitions of butchness are context dependent, litmus tests for masc/femme, having sex with people you aren’t attracted to, how Jax is the reason Victator is gay, making Barbies and Kens gay-make-out, the multiplicity of identifications, the experience of coming out as trans, the differences in learning about queerness while growing up in Chelsea vs. Upstate vs. the South, college experimentation, realizing that trans is an option–that life can be better than fine, generational and cultural shifts, identifying as fluid, the self-challenge of “if I were coming out now, what would be different?”, being a little girl who wanted to be a boy but who liked being a girl but who wanted to do all the things the boys did, the different factions in the LGBTQIA communities, how the LGB have benefited more from the support of the Ts than the Ts have benefited from LGBs, emphasizing difference to emphasize sameness, how comfortable or not comfortable our families are with us, middle aged dyke or American mom or German lady?, how gaydar doesn’t translate to other nations, butch bisexuals, how contextual definitions of masculinity and femininity change over time, how the Victator feels inside, being rigid about one’s identity or not so much, the shorthand convenience of identifying as a top or bottom, FLUXWEEKLY.COM, did we say that? Go to FLUXWEEKLY.COM.

Recorded live via kpiss.fm, in which friend and sexy queer lady Gale Mayness joins us as we discuss eating the furry tuna taco, that time Key and Peele taught teenagers how to eat pussy, morning wood in film, Michael Fassbender’s dick, cumming in one’s sleep, sex ed in the South vs. NYC, how damn intimate it is to receive cunnilingus, ethical non-monogamy, how NuBritt and Gale have, um, GONE THERE, anxiety and orgasms and ego, the Victator victating on her dates’ faces, feedback during sex, Margaret Cho and manuals on eating pussy, the importance of the warm-up, playing the anatomical double-bass string, preferences for nipple stimulation as evidence of being related, the well-placed nose, oral sex algorithms and the importance of primes, pussy hair preferences, NuBritt’s Mediterranean beach tryst, pussy hair dreads, flying uterine lining, enemas: yes or no?, anal sex, santorum and NO SNEAKING IT IN.

Recorded live via kpiss.fm, in which token-straight-dude Lil’ J joins us as we discuss our listeners in Ghana and the Midwest, sex with an ex, double dipping, keeping your numbers of down, Tyler Perry, relationship hos, our future exes at Mikey’s Hookup, Victator as philosopher king, using Tinder for a place to crash, more OkCupid etiquette, and the Chlamydia Collapse of 2009.

In which we discuss Victator’s letter to Dan Savage and go on serious tangents about how to be a good ally, trans and cis preferences, the gender binary, being homoflexible, george castanza, bisexuality, garlic knots, the Kardashians, STDs, tops and bottoms, NuBritt’s article in Vice, and hoga.