How Strong is Your Relationship? Quiz

Instructions: This quiz is designed to help give you some idea about the strength of your long-term monogamous relationship or marriage. For each item, indicate how much you agree or disagree with the statement. This takes most people about 5 minutes to complete. Take your time and answer truthfully for the most accurate results.

I am a year old Female / Male / Other

1. Though we’ve gone through some difficult times, I can at least tell my children they have a dad/mom worthy of their respect.

5. Even on our worst days, I know that if I were in real trouble, my significant other would drop everything to help me.

Strongly disagreeDisagreeNeutral / mixed feelingAgreeStrongly agree

6. We have our differences but my significant other eventually apologizes if they see they’ve hurt my feelings.

Strongly disagreeDisagreeNeutral / mixed feelingAgreeStrongly agree

7. We had fun together at the beginning of our relationship.

Strongly disagreeDisagreeNeutral / mixed feelingAgreeStrongly agree

8. If my best friend or sibling were married or deeply involved with my significant other (instead of me), and things weren’t great between them, I’d tell my friend or sibling to keep working on it.

Strongly disagreeDisagreeNeutral / mixed feelingAgreeStrongly agree

9. My significant other was supportive of my personal interests and goals the first few years we knew each other.

Strongly disagreeDisagreeNeutral / mixed feelingAgreeStrongly agree

10. My significant other makes me feel safe and secure.

Strongly disagreeDisagreeNeutral / mixed feelingAgreeStrongly agree

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