Butterfly, hedgehog, bear and Co. lie down in winter and keep the cold season over and sleep.They sleep through those cold, dreary days. Comfortable in a cave. Warm and dark, quiet.Sometimes I wish also to be a hedgehog.Nothing to get know of the hustle, leave all your worries behind.In spring, if then already the first flowers sprouted, the sun's rays warm the ground and it starts to become friendly, the wake up again. Forces gathered for a hectic year.So rested and full of power you can then tackle the tasks of the year and is back there!

Oh my dears!Last weekend many have started to decorate for the Christmas season.I've bought little Christmas decoration last week, but I'm not really in the mood for that.Generally, now Christmas is not really my thing. Be nice to have a Christmas tree that lights up nicely, but not required.Where it has become a must, because of my son.So the Christmas tree this year will be decorated with old balls in blue and otherwise get the flat glitter and mica.So then later in the week the apartment peu a peu festively decorated.Even my beloved deer get their rightful place!And yes, I would sometimes find a really wonderful white Christmas.Then there are even such as I muffle Christmas in the mood!

It doesn't probably help. I changed my profile data, you actually want to keep this secret, but there are some people who simply don't want that and find it great to celebrate birthdays.I want to thank all those who have congratulated me for my birthday!I was so happy! :)Also thanks again to Franziska and Jasmine, for their special birthday gifts! Hehe! :)And also a special thanks to Tea, for your nice flowers I've found in front of my front door.And now I'm enjoying my evening with a glass of champagne and I my new wrinkles! ;)So folks, I wish you all a pleasant evening!

Relax and enjoy!Our world is hectic enough. We take so less time for cozy, easy times for relaxation and time for nothing.Time is rushing by and we are running from one appointment to another.We need to get ready presentations, meetings, organize your next appointment....There are so few nice, quiet moments. We should enjoy these include and hold them.Grab your loved one and do something beautiful, go in a restaurant. Enjoy the time alone. Take a fragrant bubble bath and read a great book.The silence of aloneness. This rest is rarely enough because the kids come home again so fast, we must continoue something or the telephone rings. With this in mind: relax take it easy, for there is nothing that we can do!

Most people try to find their whole life the real, true and perfect love.Searching for a person who accepts our flaws and failings, accepts us as we are.When we are sleepless, unstyled, i a bad mood and everything else to all the negatives in our life.Soulmates.But there's this love at all or is it merely a chemical process?Sometimes it makes one doubt our whether there is really no such thing as love.Because after a short time, then the whole thing called life.We simply tolerate this person. We're not used to sleeping alone, do anything alone.I think it's admirable and remarkable when couples can escape this rut and get to being in love every time.Certainly there is no universal recipe for it. Everyone needs to make this with their partners how to keep the love in the relationship.But what if it isn't easy? You notice something, it just doesn't work.But you still feel that it is love. It must be love. You still love.Sometimes that's just not all.Thus the painful then it may be, but the separation is probably the only logical thing.Whether you ever come together again? After a break? Takes one bad love a break?Love has so many possibilities and options.Sometimes it's magic.

In our life there isn't probably save oneself, that we know the feeling of helplessness and loneliness.The first big thing is the first love. Wonderful feelings of happiness and tingling bettles in the abdomen. But the first love will usually end abrupt. It wants to destroy the world, you no longer believe in love. The belief in everything good is lost. This phase is quickly overcome. After all, other mothers have also beautiful sons! ;)It is inevitable, because life isn't finally.In the course of our lives everyone makes acquainted with this hard blow. Inevitable part of the time.Helplessness is spreading with us. We feel infinitely alone. Leaving.Friendship, beloved ones, support of family - all these can help us in this time.Learning to deal with these feelings continue and not give up. As hard as it may be.

Each year the same procedure.We intend to stand at the graves of the dead, pray for them.We're sorry that we let us see so rarely. But Jesus said: "The kingdom of God is within you and around you, not in (magnificent) buildings of stone and wood. Split a piece of wood and I am there, lift a stone and you will find me..."(Gospel of Thomas)When my grandpa died almost twleve years ago, I wrote two poems about death.

Firstyou gowith one, someone you love,is happy andlaugh, untiltheniteventuallycrashes.Thenisthe beloved onein hospitaland you thin, every secondit's over.Eventually the death comes quietly andgetswhathe needsin his own way.Thenitis over and the person you love isnotthere like apathetic,dead mouse.He lies there,like an oldrottenboat.We're talkingabout death.Thenone mournsyearsandoneis afraidthat the same happen to you.Butthenyou haveovercomeit, the mournerhasdoneitallandthendrawsnewvigor,so you createdeverything.But you should remember, ifsomeone is suffering, death is a relief.(from me)