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http://www.nlpworld.co.uk/responsibility-and-alchemy/#commentsSun, 26 Jul 2015 17:30:24 +0000http://www.nlpworld.co.uk/?p=16962Responsibility and Alchemy When we attempt to change a situation of any kind, we are engaging in the elemental process of alchemy. This is also true when we are working with clients. They see a situation where there is no way out, either physically or mentally, there is a prison with no windows, doors handles or even locks! You can translate this across to how we try and deal with individuals behaviour that we don’t enjoy. Normally when we want to change someone’s behaviour, we apply heat or cold to transform a situation. That’s the same in physics too. The heat way is to wage war and try and transform via consecration, wipe out the bad disease with nuclear attack and hope something good remains. The other way is via cold. We will attempt to isolate someone, not talk to them, talk to others about them and leave them in Siberia! The same way we’d use anaesthetic on a patient in pain. Ring fence. That’s what we see when we don’t enjoy Russia’s behaviour with Ukraine. We try and freeze them out with sanctions etc. They, in turn, want consecrate or apply massive heat to Ukraine. Yet there is another […]

When we attempt to change a situation of any kind, we are engaging in the elemental process of alchemy. This is also true when we are working with clients. They see a situation where there is no way out, either physically or mentally, there is a prison with no windows, doors handles or even locks!

You can translate this across to how we try and deal with individuals behaviour that we don’t enjoy.

Normally when we want to change someone’s behaviour, we apply heat or cold to transform a situation. That’s the same in physics too. The heat way is to wage war and try and transform via consecration, wipe out the bad disease with nuclear attack and hope something good remains. The other way is via cold. We will attempt to isolate someone, not talk to them, talk to others about them and leave them in Siberia! The same way we’d use anaesthetic on a patient in pain. Ring fence.

That’s what we see when we don’t enjoy Russia’s behaviour with Ukraine. We try and freeze them out with sanctions etc. They, in turn, want consecrate or apply massive heat to Ukraine.

Yet there is another way, albeit not the trodden path of mediocrity. When you and I are clear on the intention, we can literally tune into the theme and play those notes from our internal keyboard. This does take time sometimes so it may not be overnight. Yet when you know the development stages someone is at – and where they need to be, you can literally send out that vibration with the knowledge it will happen. The selfless part of this is you’d have to be prepared for it to happen at any time, even when you are not there.

How does this effect me day-to-day?

Apply this to someone being late for you. Firstly, we need to know how that is relevant to our own development and where we are going. Then how does that effect the other persons development? Should we go to war on them? Freeze them out? Or play our keyboard and stay in our own zone. Because really we do have choice. We don’t have to wait, we can leave without them. Then if the answer to being late is that it has effected you negatively, you could use that to help yourself develop.

There still maybe a conversation to be had with the other person. Like “When you do that, this is how it effects me and makes me feel”. Or nothing. Yet you do have choice and can be responsible how the event made you feel.

Excuse me Ma’am, but I notice you are late, can I ask you a question?

One client I had was 40 minutes late. Those who know me will understand I don’t take that behaviour lightly. So firstly I had to meditate how that is part of my development (finding my upset and not taking it personally), then I was clear enough to put my intention on that she is going to get transformation from the event of being late. So i started a discussion about her being late. She had the perfect excuse of her road being blocked by a fire engine attending a fire. Not being swayed by the ‘excuse’ (staying with my note of intention to transform), I still pressed her for enlightenment for her part in all this.

Eventually she came up with a massive insight that she never believed she could have any power over her circumstances in life. That consequent release of that limiting belief changed not only the issue she came to see me for – but also for her whole life.

The laws of attraction work to the best in our favour when we can embrace where we are developing and what – taking responsibility for what we see around us, and then taking action commensurate on our development, which should coincide perfectly to where the outside world needs it also.

That is responsibility (read respond-ability) and leads to your ability to make things happen in the world.

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http://www.nlpworld.co.uk/the-power-of-choice/#commentsSun, 19 Jul 2015 14:12:16 +0000http://www.nlpworld.co.uk/?p=16949The Power of Choice Evolving towards being the complete human will involve using the frontal lobes, utilising the Pituitary gland and Pineal gland – enabling us to have the possibility of real choice. Our minds are the unchartered areas that still have not been conquered in our search for new territory, space and freedom. Yet how do you get access to pure choice, and then how do you know? Some people will call the ability to freely choose, as the ability to train and use your third eye. What is the Third Eye? Technically, it’s the pituitary gland on the physical level. In the abstract it is the place you can “see” from. The difference between the kind of seeing you do with your physical eyes and the third eye is everything. If and when you are located in the third eye area, you will not be in the past or future, you will be seeing in the Now. In the chakra system it’s the 6th chakra, the governing planet will be Mercury. ‘Mer’ for see (or sea in French) and ‘Cur’ for cure, making secure, a form of security as you will know what’s coming. In the west, we […]

Evolving towards being the complete human will involve using the frontal lobes, utilising the Pituitary gland and Pineal gland – enabling us to have the possibility of real choice. Our minds are the unchartered areas that still have not been conquered in our search for new territory, space and freedom. Yet how do you get access to pure choice, and then how do you know?

Some people will call the ability to freely choose, as the ability to train and use your third eye.

What is the Third Eye?

Technically, it’s the pituitary gland on the physical level. In the abstract it is the place you can “see” from. The difference between the kind of seeing you do with your physical eyes and the third eye is everything. If and when you are located in the third eye area, you will not be in the past or future, you will be seeing in the Now. In the chakra system it’s the 6th chakra, the governing planet will be Mercury. ‘Mer’ for see (or sea in French) and ‘Cur’ for cure, making secure, a form of security as you will know what’s coming.

In the west, we place all our ‘security’ in pension plans, insurances and the notion that if we make enough money, we will be secure. Yet how can you plan for life’s ability to keep us out of our development plan? Can we really insure ourselves from finding our true purpose in life, even if that doesn’t mean a comfortable beach with a Pina Colada?

Yet when you know what’s coming, can literally feel thought the third eye area and understand things without logic and other outside authorities telling you – you really do have the kind of security that is sustainable and abundant in developmental materials.

Then what is choice?

Choice is the ability to have unlimited options, then being able to know which of those will prosper you most, in mind, body and spirit – and taking that choice. Not fettered by the past or the future. This is the true idea of goal setting. The goal is not actually important, it’s the development that you get on the way. So choosing, without hindrance from the past or future will be like you being a fisherman, throwing a line out into the future, to be present to the now on the way to catching your choice.

On the physical level, the relationship between the pituitary gland and pineal gland is like a conductor with an orchestra. One will wave the stick and the other will secrete the chemicals necessary to perform the action. That’s why choice is the most powerful friend an evolving human being has. In this world where desire can grasp a person and shake them like a mad dog with gnashing teeth, choice is sometimes the only saviour to call upon. The other route is enlisting an ‘expert’ from an outside source who knows nothing about your purpose or journey and taking pills that do not relate to your life in anyway, but only conduct an impotent band, playing tunes to lull you into obscurity or sleep.

When you enlist the services of the third eye (pituitary) via the frontal lobes in your forehead, you are literally saying “I am the Captain of the Ship and we are going in THIS direction!”

How do you make the third eye work?

There are many ways. One is meditation, meditation that is based on getting you to empty your mind to nothing. Another is the Now State or sometime called The Hakalau or learning state. A video follows underneath.

Since that video and within a year Joanne has moved to Australia and is having a good time there!

The next evolution is choice making beings. We learned to take control of our bladders at one point. next step to take control of our minds and at least have some reins on the horses of desire.

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http://www.nlpworld.co.uk/interrelating-with-mindfulness/#commentsSun, 12 Jul 2015 17:15:54 +0000http://www.nlpworld.co.uk/?p=16927Interrelating is what we are doing all the time with each other. Usually our interrelating turns out to be entanglement, yet if that’s the best way to get together, then that’s the way we will do it. If you consider the intelligent workings of the universe, it has made two seemingly separate beings called men and woman (well, the universe didn’t call us men and women, but there are definitely differences). These differences make us interested in each other. Even if you are a same sex relationship, you would be interested in the differences. So the invisible forces all around had a plan that we should use each other to make something happen. Working out that unseen, yet seed of a plan is what you may call mindfulness in relating. Mostly our ‘plan’ dissolves into a bad episode of Eastenders. Why can’t we just get on and have unlimited fun? It happens and it’s my biggest love to find the adult playground with some playmates inside. Yet the reason it’s mostly going to go ‘Tits Up’ is because of our unresolved issues that want completion. Carl Jung said that we marry our unresolved unconscious patterns (words to that effect). Meaning […]

]]>Interrelating is what we are doing all the time with each other. Usually our interrelating turns out to be entanglement, yet if that’s the best way to get together, then that’s the way we will do it. If you consider the intelligent workings of the universe, it has made two seemingly separate beings called men and woman (well, the universe didn’t call us men and women, but there are definitely differences).

These differences make us interested in each other. Even if you are a same sex relationship, you would be interested in the differences. So the invisible forces all around had a plan that we should use each other to make something happen. Working out that unseen, yet seed of a plan is what you may call mindfulness in relating. Mostly our ‘plan’ dissolves into a bad episode of Eastenders.

Why can’t we just get on and have unlimited fun?

It happens and it’s my biggest love to find the adult playground with some playmates inside. Yet the reason it’s mostly going to go ‘Tits Up’ is because of our unresolved issues that want completion. Carl Jung said that we marry our unresolved unconscious patterns (words to that effect). Meaning that if you and I have not yet resolved our issues with our father, we will find someone who represents our fathers ways to make a reflection of what we need to push through and complete. And it’ll be the same with mother patterns. That’s why you may keep getting abusive partners and wonder why it’s always you who finds them! I have heard many women say “If only I could find a guy who treats me well and supports me”. That is a weird statement because there are thousands of those – but those women will not find them because their internal magnetic ‘Laws of Attraction’ will not bring them into orbit.

I once had three female partners in quick succession that all had some excuse to get really angry and go off like volcanoes with me. With the third one, I had been cooking her gourmet meals, treating her with champagne and flowers, only to get the same result! She was a journalist and even had the audacity to write an article mentioning me as “Maybe he is NOT a womaniser, smothering me with flowers and nice compliments”!!!

Now here’s where life gets very interesting. The newspaper she wrote for, was the only one my mother bought. AND it effected my then current girlfriend. Plus she even talked to my NLP trainer (female) at the time (back in 1996) about how I was so bad. So it actually effected every significant woman in my life at that time. How is life so perfect?

What it forced me to do, was to look carefully at my side of the equation. How was I responsible in any way for this? I got together with a good friend and worked out that my pattern was to get deeply involved without really knowing the other person. Then, when they got emotionally upset for any reason Illogically (in my estimation), I would virtually leave the relationship – but keep one physical foot inside the door still. That’s enough for most women to feel disempowered and ‘dumped’. That’s like a sperm arriving at the egg and just dipping it’s ‘toe’ in. Women require total commitment, even if it’s total commitment to be a jerk. At least that’s known.

So I released the pattern and made new commitments. My next relationship did not follow those lines of the past. And when she did get upset emotionally, I went towards her instead of running out of the exit door. The pattern had been exposed and then acted on.

The idea of mindfulness in interrelating then, is to “see” your place in the workings of your relationship. There is a reason for wanting differences through your partner. You will search for them (differences that invoke your old patterns)), find them and eventually kill them

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http://www.nlpworld.co.uk/the-new-relationship-era/#commentsSat, 04 Jul 2015 15:09:22 +0000http://www.nlpworld.co.uk/?p=16895The New Relationship Era A large proportion of my new clients over the last two years have been very interested in crafting a new paradigm for their relationships. Therefore these days it’s no surprise when a client comes in to see me, seemingly to clear up the finances or look for a new career, ends up talking about a relationship that needs updating. We live in an arena, especially in the western world, where a woman no longer needs a man with regards to money, housing or security. We can start to design our own ways to relate, however strange that may seem to others. And with that in mind who would you really choose to live side-by-side, minute by minute, day by day and night by night with? When I begin to ask those questions, a lot of couples dearly love each other and would even love each other more if they could spend more time apart to do what they want to do without interference; having their own good habits and not be interrupted by the different developmental level of the other partner. When it comes to coaching and training – these developmental levels are especially important to […]

A large proportion of my new clients over the last two years have been very interested in crafting a new paradigm for their relationships. Therefore these days it’s no surprise when a client comes in to see me, seemingly to clear up the finances or look for a new career, ends up talking about a relationship that needs updating.

We live in an arena, especially in the western world, where a woman no longer needs a man with regards to money, housing or security. We can start to design our own ways to relate, however strange that may seem to others. And with that in mind who would you really choose to live side-by-side, minute by minute, day by day and night by night with? When I begin to ask those questions, a lot of couples dearly love each other and would even love each other more if they could spend more time apart to do what they want to do without interference; having their own good habits and not be interrupted by the different developmental level of the other partner.

When it comes to coaching and training – these developmental levels are especially important to be married together for two people to be moving consistently in the same direction – at the same speed – without interfering with each other’s developmental levels of evolution. As a coach or transformational practitioner it’s essential that you include the other partners development when working with your own client. It is obvious that when one partner changes, becomes more individual, becomes more themselves – it will affect the environment they go back into. There are two ways you can manage that transformation into success. The first is good for you because it means the other partner should come and see you as well to get their own evolutionary developmental stages up-to-date just as you would keep the computer program current with the latest software every human being needs to have their own memory banks updated and as clean as humanly possible.

The other way is to get your client to literally train their new environment. It isn’t just the close partner that there with which is affected it will be their family, friends and work colleagues too. Those people have been used to habitually talking to your client in a certain way – seeing, perceiving and interacting with them in certain habitual ways. Those ways need to be updated to your clients benefit. When you’ve made the transformational practices and cleaned up your clients past, giving them the benefit of the evolution that’s coming to them, it’s good to spend as much time as possible future pacing them role-play and imagining how they will now be interacting with the environment they go back into.

If you spend an hour and a half doing some deep change work with the client, you may expect to do another whole hour on future pacing them and using anchoring to cement these changes out into their future. It’s time well spent, it’s money well spent and those deep profound changes will come back to you in the manner of friends family and colleagues are really feel the difference and change!

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http://www.nlpworld.co.uk/the-quantum-bridge/#commentsSat, 27 Jun 2015 11:00:14 +0000http://www.nlpworld.co.uk/?p=16884The Quantum Bridge is an invitation to take the basis of language, understanding and learning to a new level. A level beyond words. The experience is always far more profound than can be described in a short blog, yet you can use these coming words as a hint of the ladder that is provided inside the training. When you have the experience, you can let the ladder go. Wittgenstein says it beautifully here: “My propositions serve as elucidations in the following sense: anyone who understands me eventually recognizes them as nonsensical, when he has used them – as steps – to climb up beyond them. (He must, so to speak, throw away the ladder after he has climbed up it.) He must transcend these propositions, and then he will see the world aright”. Wittgenstein uses very correct English, yet what he is saying is that when you understand Quantum Linguistics, you understand the world and you understand the models or vehicles to take you and your clients into the experiences you want to direct them too. Yet the vehicles (Quantum Linguistics and the art of storytelling) are not the destination, they are the mediators. The ladder. What will I […]

]]>The Quantum Bridge is an invitation to take the basis of language, understanding and learning to a new level. A level beyond words. The experience is always far more profound than can be described in a short blog, yet you can use these coming words as a hint of the ladder that is provided inside the training. When you have the experience, you can let the ladder go. Wittgenstein says it beautifully here:

“My propositions serve as elucidations in the following sense: anyone who understands me eventually recognizes them as nonsensical, when he has used them – as steps – to climb up beyond them. (He must, so to speak, throw away the ladder after he has climbed up it.) He must transcend these propositions, and then he will see the world aright”.

Wittgenstein uses very correct English, yet what he is saying is that when you understand Quantum Linguistics, you understand the world and you understand the models or vehicles to take you and your clients into the experiences you want to direct them too. Yet the vehicles (Quantum Linguistics and the art of storytelling) are not the destination, they are the mediators. The ladder.

What will I get from this workshop?

Advanced Language Consciousness (The Quantum Field)

Coaching Skills Through Values (Cellular Motivational Links)

Magical Story Telling Skills (Metaphors in action)

Quantum Linguistics

You will get a clear understanding of what makes words change minds. You will have the opportunity to go beyond words into the “Quantum Soup” or “The Middle of No-Where” as Milton Erickson would say. You will have the potential to have the gift of using language in a conscious way; knowing the effect you are having and the art of using words as a knife to cut away dead wood, or the creator in language to build new bridges. You will also get deeper into the properties of storytelling in a way that deeply moves your clients or audience (I.E. in presentations).

Values

You will also get into the practise of eliciting values from clients. This is quite a common theme in popular coaching, yet you will go a step further and be able to blow out the debris on old memories. This enables yourself and your clients to be attracted and motivated by their values, rather than always heading towards what they don’t want (don’t think of a red tree in an orange field). We call these “away froms”. They are what the majority of people do in their minds when making goals (mostly underlying subconscious patterns). You will notice clients that have results that peak and then crash, again and again. When you artfully take out these mini traumas surrounding their memories of money, love, trust and career, they suddenly get inspired from an attractive place again (or for the first time).

The package is an unique self-development set of practises that you can enjoy for yourself and your own movement – and then have ways of delivering those practises into the context you work with others in.

You can use this module as a Master Practitioner accreditation token worth 300 points (you need 600 for a Masters certification).

When is the next workshop?

The next available dates are September 19th to September 22nd 2015. It will be at The Mercure Hotel in Brighton.

How much is this workshop?

The price is £675 as an earlybird through July, increasing £75 per month until we take off in September. The deposit is just £200.

If you’re now ready to book your place on your Quantum Bridge Training Course, you can click on the “Add to Cart” button below to start the registration process.

The Quantum Bridge | Masters

Price: £200

That deposit is £200 with £475 payable by September 19th.

If you have taken the NLP 4 day course with me, you can now get your ANLP status by completing the hours for this course way as well as AIP accreditation and certification.

Let me know if you are intending to book, so I can inform you of status to get the lower price. See you soon.

Notes:Note: This is module 1: Modules 1, 2 and 3 are interchangeable and can be taken in any order. Fully accredited with ANLP and AIP – £675 Earlybird in July, then £75 extra per month until take off. £200 deposit here to get on board.