Thursday, September 2, 2010

"Luckily, the fact is that just like the rest of us, even a beautiful woman doesn't know what she wants until she sees it, and that's where I come in. My job is to open her eyes. Basic principles: no matter what, no matter when, no matter who... any man has a chance to sweep any woman off her feet. He just needs the right broom." - Hitch (2005)

can't believe that i can relate a lot to this movie i just found out about a couple of days ago.it started off a little bit too slow and dull and then started to pick up as it approaches its middle scene,the part where Hitch (Will Smith) started winning Sara's (Eva Mendes) heart.it's all about the cliche' sweet sensation and experience of falling in love,arguing,breaking up and running back into the arms of the one you love,despite how idiotic it could seem like.but that's not what i could relate to,what i meant was,the fact that falling in love can never be planned or catalyzed,no matter what methodology or theory you practice in order to do so.falling in love is impromptu,spontaneous and merely all about seeing what's inside rather than the outside.

"So how does it happen, great love? Nobody knows... but what I can tell you is that it happens in the blink of an eye. One moment you're enjoying your life, and the next you're wondering how you ever lived without them."-Hitch

it makes perfect sense.people claim that i easily fall in love,do you even have any backup for your little assumptions?you do know talking without any supporting details or evidence gets you NOWHERE.how sure are you that ALL the guys i claim i had a crush on are all the ones i fell for?it may seem like it but trust me,those are just minor crushes that i have in between those painful breakups or heartbreaks i just experienced.it doesn't necessarily mean that i love them all,as a matter of fact,the word LOVE and LIKE carry such different meanings from one another.need evidence?fine,here's a little reference i made to prove it,these are the definitions of 'Love' and 'Like' from the Online Cambridge Dictionary (one of the most reliable sources),respectively.

be in love

to love someone in a romantic and sexual way

I'm in love for the first time and it's wonderful.

They're still madly in love (with each other).

likes

the things that someone enjoys

The pop-star lists his likes as 'my new Porsche, my girlfriend and staying up all night'.

They can't expect me to accommodate all their silly little likes and dislikes.

see the difference now?it's all about definition people.i enjoy company from the opposite gender,but it doesn't mean i'm a player and i don't give my heart to all of them.i might still be in the phase of healing my previous heartbreak if my 'in-between-breakup' crush seems a little bit too soon.as you know,or might not have known,girls have so many weird ways to face heartbreaks especially when it's about love and relationships.some would consume twice their weight,some would find as many activities as they can so as to try to get over it,while others,for instance yours truly,will try to find a crush to divert her mind.it's just the way i am and right now i would like to stress once again that i am certainly NOT in a rush to find a replacement.i am smart enough to understand that love doesn't work that way,the more you force it,the further it will flee from you.same goes for the pushy guys who keep forcing me to have a relationship with them while in truth,i barely even know them as a friend.why the rush?isn't love friendship set on fire?though sometimes i do admit that when you get extremely close to someone as a friend (referring to the opposite gender) you will either realise that you were meant for each other or just the fact that you're better off as best friends.i do have a lot of guy best friends despite being in a convent for the past 7 years,i consider all of them as my brothers or just,well,bestfriends! my shoulders to cry on,my study buddies,my musical fellows,my secret keepers etc.they're so much fun to be with to say the very least,also does not mean that i'm making them an option in my love life,HELL NO! i often let love do its own job. again,i NEVER speak without any proof.

what was my point again?just because i hang out,i laugh and i am close to someone of the opposite gender,it doesn't mean i'm dating him.right now,i'm proud enough to say that Jerin is my bestestestestest (sum to infinity) friend. (dalam bahasa mlayunya,walaupun kami mngada2 acah2 romantikus,jeles olok-olok aka suka buat dialog mintak pelempang,kami xde pape pun,hehehe).but yeah,i know all of his secrets as much as he knows mine :')

too bad it doesn't apply for Marco though,when will I ever learn?despite knowing the fact that friendship lasts longer than love,i still chose to contradict myself,time and time again,sigh.

well,i guess that's all i have to say,for now.still need to blog about my night with the girls,but i guess i'll wait.toodles people :)