Family Issues Support Group

Family issues is a huge range that go from minor conflict to major misbehaviour and even abuse on the part of individual members of the family occur. Whether you feel you are in a dysfunctional family or you're dealing with a very specific issue, this is the place to talk about it and find others who might be going through the same thing.

my fucking mother

uuuuuuuuuugggggggghhhhhhhhh my mother is really annoying me i live with my husband and 6 and a half month old son and SHE COMES OVER EVERYDAY she does nothing but just sit on the couch watches tv or plays with lucas (my son)... and everytime i tell her we are busy me and ben want some alone time or we r out she cracks the shits and says "fine i will b bored all day see you whenever" its really pissing me off ben and i r trying 2 fix up r marriage due 2 recent fallouts but we cant do jack shit wen she is here... help!!!!

It sounds like she is very lonly and wants to be with you. Sit her down and tell her you love her but you need time with your husben and baby then make a time when she can come over for you and her time. Then rember to thank you when she comes on that time. Hope it helps.

Wow, I agree with craftymom. All you can do is talk with her and if she can't understand you've done your part. She need to respect your space and your marriage. This is the time for her to be living it up. Mom can always got into my business until one day she really pissed me off. I said look. No matter what I do it's wrong. I am tired of living my life for you. I can't do this no more. I love you, but I don't need your approval. Of course she didn't take that well in time I notice she started to back off. Any now it is what is is. I am okay with that.

I agree with everyone. You should talk to her and let her know that there are boundaries and she is crossing them. You need time to work on your marriage and family and she needs to give you that time and space. If she makes snide remarks tell her, I love you mom but I have to do whats best for me and my family.

In time she will understand. But sometimes you have to be cruel to be kind to yourself.

Maybe you can set up days and times when it's best for her to come over. Just tell her, the truth, you need a little space, don't take it the wrong way and you'll see her on that certain day. If she's still mad, well she's being unreasonable, so then don't worry. She'll adjust.

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