Your Helpful Words Hinder

You have heard this, read it or even said it, You can’t find love until you learn to love yourself.

To suggest this is to imply that someone can’t love what other perceive as your imperfections but that one person might see as the total traits that make you who they fall in love with. To suggest only a person who accepts everything about themselves first can then find love is unfair to that person because you have suggested a limit to that person’s happiness. The individual who comes into someone’s life might just be the person who helps that person heal or deal with those traits that have caused them trouble in their life. You know sometimes it takes the power of two to help you love all the things about you. Just look around and at yourself, how completely healed and in love are people or you but yet have a relationship?

The individual who comes into someone’s life might just be the person who helps that person heal or deal with those traits that have caused them trouble in their life. You know sometimes it takes the power of two to help you love all the things about you. Just look around and at yourself, how completely healed and in love are people or you but yet have a relationship?

Make sure your words are helpful and you are just not repeating the phrases and facebook quotes that you read before you understand the nature of the human journey. If you truly can’t be helpful without judgment then just don’t say anything.

It’s better to be silent and have people assume you’re a fool than to open your mouth and erase all doubt.