What is 'Good Sex'? can you quantify, or qualify, or define it in any meaningful way. When a person is discribed as 'being good at sex' what does that mean. Reciently someone wrote that women aren't very good at sex, in spite of what they claim, and if you only consider the Missionary position he may have a point, but is the physical act the only contribution that matters?

Good is 90% mind over matter. The more you are into it, the more likely you are to have a good time no matter who you are with or what is going down.

In terms of good sex in relationships I believe it comes down to learning each other's preferences and using that tho gratifying them to the max while maintaining and strengthening the emotional connection.