pliss help me,, im really depressed with my life,,i just feel,, that i'm a LOSER, i'm not smart , im just type of a geek or sumthin like that!i tried to be a useful person, but can't..please, really need ur help,,,thank you!

look brother
life does not worth being sad or depressed
try to open new page with new feelings : happiness, friendship,enthusisim
and be sure that Allah with you
be happy
look at the flowers, the sun, the moon they are all happy beside what human is doing for them by pulltion
just be like them
ok?/
start from now
let me see your smile soon Ok dear
you are not alone in this world we are with you
and God with you too

pinkpop wrote:pliss help me,, im really depressed with my life,,i just feel,, that i'm a LOSER, i'm not smart , im just type of a geek or sumthin like that!i tried to be a useful person, but can't..please, really need ur help,,,thank you!

oh dear ,you know that Allah always gives us things that are great and useful but we don't recognise it until time passed and uderstand it.
nothing desrves your sadness,yes we faced problems sometimes but we've got to be brave enough to fight for happieness at least one smile in a day will be enough.

Try to start your new life and don't give your self a chance for those bad thoughts .whenever it come just eliminate them by opening EC forum as I do.
you are going to find many friends to talk, to help,to make you laugh and share thier happiness and thier daily life with you.
come on smile and start your new life.

pinkpop wrote:pliss help me,, im really depressed with my life,,i just feel,, that i'm a LOSER, i'm not smart , im just type of a geek or sumthin like that!i tried to be a useful person, but can't..please, really need ur help,,,thank you!

I guess something must have happened to you to make you feel that way. But whatever it is, you must convince yourself that you're NOT A LOSER (better erase than word from your personal dictionary), you ARE smart, you're the best person you'll ever meet. So stop worrying and start loving yourself a little bit more, because, if you love yourself, that will be reflected in your eyes, and the others will perceive it and love you.
I'm talking from my personal experience because I feel that way sometimes, too. You feel like you're nobody, that nobody cares about you and that no one would miss you if you were not here. But that's completely false, there definitely are people out there who love you and who cannot imagine life without you. You're important. Remember this saying: "To the world you might be someone, but for someone you might be the world".
Keep it up, friend! Cheer up and smile. You never know you might fall in love with your smile

I remember I read somewhere that said "One does not become important; one is born important". So, Pinkpop! Don't let the negative thoughts tie you down. There is no one exactly like you in the entire world (unless you have an identical twin )
You're special, unique, the only one. You're not only important to your families, your friends, but you are important to you also!

try smile who knows you fall in love with your smile.,
mom's that is right, I fall in love with my smile, none another smile,,, ............

I am sorry to hear that, you were feeling loosing , you felt no use in the world.
really some of people sometimes has feeling like that specially when they got a big problem that they canot solve, or lose of someting without ability to help, or love some one without response....heheheheh

i tell the truth only, coz I have ever had feeling like it.by the time I didn't pass exam to college to get medical subject, I am feeling no use, nothing with my ability, nothing with my preparation since 5 month before, no use with so much money that I had spent for it.
that time I just thought that I am the stupid one in the world, although I have spend all time, I spent all chance, I get so much help for other ppl, but still didn't pass exam...very stupid ..very stupid ...that all in my thinking..
than bye the time, I took nursing college although I don't like it before,,,
but now I am feeling this job is better special for me..
"god will not give us a problem that higher than our ability to solve"

pinkpop wrote:pliss help me,, im really depressed with my life,,i just feel,, that i'm a LOSER, i'm not smart , im just type of a geek or sumthin like that!i tried to be a useful person, but can't..please, really need ur help,,,thank you!

u got my avatar....that not fair

hmm....life is not a bed of roses....my advice for u to enjoy the every moment u got , even its pain or happy....

when u except what is coming towards u...it will be urs...and then u will realize it was worth to face everything, fair or unfair.............

I think that we humans are too selfish,.there is a proverb that says : variety is the spice of life.......if all our life were easy and happy it would not be worth living........
i imagine life like our mother earth if it were flat what would happen?
I believe sir, that our sorrow and woes are the visa for paradise..........we must go through ........successfully.........and stand up again and again stronger .......and look at life with an optimistic eye......then convince ourself that the most important thing that we are still here and we can do much better....life is the best school
If we don't learn from life we'll never learn

Did your friends told you all this stuffs ? If you're a teenager as I think, the only reason which makes me sad like this, is a bad thing told from a friend. So, I was thinking, thinking.. And finally said to myself : Why do I cry or feeling bad? My character doesn't depend of my friends but of me actually, he doesn't love me, WHO CARES? It's his problem. I have a lot of friends who love me and know when I'm hurt. Sorry for all this text but I like share my feelings even it's not the subject, so you don't have to matter, DON'T WORRY AND BE HAPPY.

pinkpop wrote:pliss help me,, im really depressed with my life,,i just feel,, that i'm a LOSER, i'm not smart , im just type of a geek or sumthin like that!i tried to be a useful person, but can't..please, really need ur help,,,thank you!

life is not so long.you try to do your best.and believe in god.dont forget that Allah thinks you more than you do.
you are not a loser, you will be a winner of your own life.dont forget you are so importatnt in this life for the peolpe around you.think positive, if u are depressed, u make ur own life depressive.give thanks to Allah.