I am getting married in January and decided to get my bmaids sweats, a zip up hoodie and a tank top that says bridesmaid or maid of honor. However, today I thought since it is winter and it will be cold, wouldn’t it be cute if we got ready in sweats, tights, whatever and longer flannel shirts? no? yes? I would want ones that arent completely manly and lumberjacky and possibly would monogram them. I can return the hoodies but would need to find the perfect flannel shirts first. Which would you rather have??

Honestly I would want none of it. I would want to be comfortable in my own clothes and not potentially uncomfortable in something the bride is making me wear. But I personally think things with bridesmaid/MOH are an utter waste of money. They will never be used after the wedding by your BM’s.

I never wear sweatpants, so I would probably feel a little uncomfortable in them simply because they’re not “me”. However, I’d get over myself and wear them if you wanted me to.

I’ve also noticed around here that not many people like things that are monogrammed, so I would worry that the shirts wouldn’t get worn again if you monogram them. Ask your bridesmaids though, they may feel differently. Do you have a picture of the type of shirt you’re considering?

Out of your choices I love the robe idea w/ ‘bridesmaid’ on it. You could get them in a certain color for them, and yours can be all white. I also love the idea of robes that say bridesmaid. I say go for something matching for pictures, but that’s just me.

Umm yeah, that would be a no go for me. To me anything that has the word “bride” or “bridesmaid” on it is a waste of money. If anything, get them something they will like and will wear again if you insist on having “getting ready” clothes.