Rejuvenating Relationships: Be Spontaneous

At the beginning of a new and fresh relationship, many couples make vows to each other committing to show love for the rest of their lives. Then, one or both allows life’s situations to divert their attention to building a career, belonging to a club, putting religious and community activities, or even other relationships before the marriage.

The once romantic relationship becomes drained of intimacy and trust. When the spouse finally wake up and realize the love is lost, he or she is so bogged down with issues in life they don’t know what to do to rejuvenate love. Then he or she believes it’s too much of an effort. There is not enough time in the day to spend working at rejuvenating love in their relationship. He or she does not realize the relationship has lost its zest and zeal because someone decided to reposition the nurturing of the relationship from first place one to fifth or tenth place in their life.

There are couples who have become selfish and self-centered in the relationship. One or both forgot it is not about me, but about us. They wonder why there is no joy in the home. Building and keeping a healthy love relationship takes focus and dedication. How can love be rejuvenated? What can I do to breathe life back into love? Can this love live? The answer is yes! It takes commitment and work from both parties.

When the relationship has lost its zest and zeal, and your love is lying on its death bed, how do you resuscitate love and breathe life back into the once vibrant cradle of love?

First, decide that love is worth reviving. Next, pray to God for guidance and discernment. Then search for resources that will help you reach the desired goal.

In some relationships, you know your mate loves you, but it is not evident in their action. Romance is a very important life line in a relationship, and spontaneity is the rejuvenator. Create romantic moments for you and your companion. Don’t let your relationship lose its life line. A little smooching, a lot of snuggling, deep conversation; this all takes effort. It’s an investment with compounded returns.

Decide today to make romantic spontaneity a priority in the relationship with your companion. Put a little away in a “YOU ARE WORTH IT” account. Every once in a while, make the sky the limit. Your spouse is worth it! You will feel joy in your heart for doing something special and putting your mate first. Just do it and enjoy the returns.

Initially it may be an out of the box effort to try the romantic suggestions in the poetry book “Spontaneity, the Essence of Romance” and the date planner “Rejuvenating Relationship ~ One Date at a Time”. Allow the romantic suggestions to enhance and rejuvenate your relationship. It will put the spark back in the love you thought you lost. Be creative and innovative. Relax and enjoy. There should be no regrets when you are romancing the one who loves you.

Open the book; turn the pages in your life to rejuvenate love in the relationship. Explore the book “Spontaneity, the Essence of Romance” and apply the information within. The rewards will abundant.

Be creative, spontaneous, and a true believer that love can be rejuvenated.

Stella Alexander
Author and Speaker
Book “Spontaneity, the Essence of Romance”.
Date Planner “Rejuvenating Relationship ~ One Date at a Time”