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Hmm, when I first met my ex-bf I was a mere wisp of a girl at 5'8" and 125 lbs. He was 6'4"/265 lbs./8x6. Looking back I realize I often dominated him in bed which is odd since I now enjoy a much more submissive role with men of any stature. :redface: :biggrin1:

It is a great turn on for me when a woman knows what she wants, and she is assertive/aggresive about getting it. I tend to choose outspoken, intelligent, decisive and athletic woman. But in all the cases the dominance does seem to break down to submission when I am inside them.

This question reminds me of a play that I saw in Cambridge Halcyon Theatre called'The Fat Boy Laughs'

In it a 30-something, buxom housewife invites 17 year old trainee solicitor to spend time at her house while he studies.

At first they keep up a simple friendship, until one night when the solicitor returns home drunkafter failing a part of his course, the comforts of the woman's soft cleavage and her inviting pout smile prove too much for him and they become engaged in a passionate relationship which eventually becomes obsessive.

As the woman trys to break up the relationship to start a drop-in centre for homeless mime artists, the solicitor attempts to suffocate himself with a pair of her slippers, and after that fails he ties a rope around his neck then jumps in front of a train.

The woman realises that the solicitor was the only man that she had ever truly loved and falls into a deep depression.
She utilises the darkness to become a performance artist and finds fame when she creates a popular art installation called 'Deter' comprised of a flashing light and 4 cd players randomly selecting recordings of directory enquiry operators.

After watching this I was able to full understand the interplay between dominance and submission.

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Can you? Or does the facade crumble, as has been my experience, when we fuck you hard and deep?

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I assume 8+ will count as big. I was very dominant with two-such men (not at the same time) when I was feeling dominant. Who cares they're hung? Who cares who's doing the penetrating? When I feel dominant, that cock belongs to me and is merely part of a greater instrument. The man, all of him, is my toy for my pleasure, and I will get from him whatever I demand. He will fuck after he has satisfied all of my other desires, and he will fuck me exactly the way I tell him to. Or else.