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Posted by: Sunflower | 2008-10-31

Re: Dating after 3 years

Hi All,

Please can you offer me some advice as i feel today i am going nuts with nerves but also excited. I have asked out on a date after 3 years of not dating. This guy is wow and we have decided to meet at a -|- tail bar this evening for supper and a couple of drinks. the only problem is i have not been out with a guy for over 3 years as i always tried to hide from it but now the time has come and i want to go out with this guy. I am not sure on how to behave if he has friends there and i also don' t know what to wear for a date out. Please can some of you offer advice. And do you kiss the guy after the date or how. Sorry it sounds stupid but after three years its scary..

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Posted by: J | 2008-11-02

Don' t try and be someone you are not. Do not put pressure on yourself. Just be yopurself. Act normally. Don' t go there with expectations, just be calm and take things as they come your way. The guy might also be nervous or trying to impress you or boasting. If you don' t like what you find just try and make it a normal conversation knowing that you do not want to see him again. Don' t show that you are desparate or uneasy. Just relax and see how the evening goes. Kissing? If you really feel attracted and positive to him.

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