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Bound for Fun!, our Third Anniversary Party, was held at The Barracks on Saturday, March 7. Eighty guys joined us for friends, fetish and fun–and most participated in our creative Tie2Win Contest. In fact, the contest was so much fun that another club has already “borrowed it” for one of their own events in the Southland! Emcee Tom Pardoe kept …

Sex laws vary from nation to nation and state to state. In a world where a consensual BD/SM act is a judgment call away from a Domestic Violence charge, you need to know how to avoid risks and misunderstandings. How real can your uniform be without impersonating an officer? How far can you go without risking endangerment? Guest speaker Andrew …

Gear up and join us at The Barracks on Saturday, March 7 from 9 pm to midnight for Bound For Fun!, our third anniversary party! This year is all about friends, fetish and fun, and features our outrageous Tie2Win Contest. Join with other party goers to create a unique piece of rope bondage art. We’ll give everyone a souvenir length …

DFA exists to bring kinky guys together in real-life settings away from internet hook-up sites, but that doesn’t mean we can’t harness the power of our web profiles to tell guys about our brotherhood. If you’ve got a Recon account, join our new awareness campaign as a DFA Ambassador. It’s easy! Just throw a few extra words into your profile! …

The first Whips in the Park of the new season took place Sunday, November 16. Here’s Drew’s wrap-up. “A beautiful day for throwing whips and a good turnout! Guys with decades of experience were happy to give some pointers to first timers, and Spike, a first timer, sure showed himself to be a natural whipsman with a lot of promise.” …

Our latest Men’s Discussion Group took place on November 14. 12+ men showed up for a great discussion on body issues as they pertain to cruising, comfort in one’s skin, self-esteem and how we look in gear. The conversation went everywhere, from total acceptance of one’s body all the way to reservations due to aging, weight and culture. We also …

After a summer hiatus the DFA Book Club zooms back to life with a special event, open to everyone, at Gear Leather & Fetish on Wednesday November 5 at 6pm. Last year Alex Ironrod read excerpts from LEATHER DAYS, his second novel involving LAPD homicide detectives and partners Mark Farrell and Dan Fortunato in a gay BDSM murder mystery set …

From Drew Kramer: Heading home from a meeting of the Magister Circle, I saw that I needed gas, so I stopped at the Arco at Vista Chino and Sunrise. After futzing with the payment kiosk, I opened up my tank, put the nozzle in, and started pumping. That was when I pissed my pants. I was wearing light colored hiking …

Every other month on the first Thursday at 7 pm, guys who are interested in creating DFA events and activities get together at the LGBT Center to coordinate schedules and seek advice, feedback and support. (Double check our calendar for dates.) We used to call these meet ups planning sessions, but that implied we had some sort of central group …