Saturday, May 8, 2010

"Think positive and be optimistic"...a very oftenly used phrase..isn't it...but then sometimes i ponder upon one thing and that is does being optimistic drags me away from being realistic...or being a little realistic makes me a little pessimistic...because...reacting in certain situation..any hard u try to be optimistic u r bound to be affected by certain factors that force u to think negative and it effects u ...some say this is being realistic..but i have never been able to judge is it realism or is it some sort of pessimism..overcoming the optimism...
I am a very optimistic boy..but when i really want someone who is talking to me to feel positive about things...i get the statement u r not being realistic...ofcourse i dunot want to live away from reality but what i want is whenever i want to think what can happen in a certain situation i want myself to just imagine a positive outcome and that too without ignoring the actual situation or certain real life factors..there drags in a little pessimism..when u cannot simple put away the thought"agar aisa na hua aisa ho gaya tou"..so what is it exactly...pessimism or a little realisation of the things around....well i think i cannot really conclude about it because i am surrounded by all sorts of people so the best way out is judging everything and then making some sort of prediction and trying to make it a positive one...
living in fantasy world is ofcourse not welcomed but then living in a real world and still thinking that whatever happens happens for our own good and just putting in true efforts is what is right that is what i feel....:)

2 comments:

u r great at writing........but thoughts seem to be a bit intermingled in their way of expression..... u can be more effective if u choose it to come from ur heart not from ur mind........and rest is fabulous..........expecting more......

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