Brené Brown on Empathy

What is the best way to ease someone's pain and suffering? In this
beautifully animated RSA Short, Dr Brené Brown reminds us that we can
only create a genuine empathic connection if we are brave enough to
really get in touch with our own fragilities.

You Cannot Learn What You Think You Already Know

“It is impossible for a man to learn what he thinks he already knows.” -Epictetus, Discourses, Book II, ch. 17

Another translation:

“What
is the first business of one who practices philosophy? To get rid of
self-conceit. For it is impossible for anyone to begin to learn that
which he thinks he already knows.” -Epictetus, Discourses, Book II, ch. 17

What It Means

Be
it a skill, craft, or just general knowledge, to improve yourself is to
learn. But you cannot learn if you believe there is nothing left for
you to learn. What if what you know is only one of many possibilities,
and some are better than others? What if what you know could be further
enhanced by what others know? What if what you know is actually wrong?

If
you do not show humility and approach all things as an empty, willing
vessel, you will not grow. Never assume that your mind is full, or that
what you know overpowers what others know. After all, how could progress
be made in any field if everyone assumed they knew everything as soon as they learned something? It’s arrogant and foolish, even for those who are at the top of their field.

What to Take From It

No
matter what you pursue in life, keep yourself hungry to learn. Choose
to always have a beginner’s mind, constantly looking for another angle.
Get comfortable with being wrong, and relish it when it happens. It’s
okay to be wrong as long as you make it a lesson. Don’t be afraid to ask
questions and seem like an amateur. An open mind can be your greatest
asset if you let it.

We are stubborn creatures who would like to
assume we’re smarter or more capable than others, but hoping you’re
superior makes you inferior. Ditch the ego and accept your place as an
eternal student. Besides, nobody likes a know-it-all, and true “experts” are the ones who will admit when they don’t know something. Why? Because they’d like to learn it.

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