... I have read and responded to some of your posts and I'm comforted to know so many others know what type of things I am going through. My family has been dealing the loss of my father since Feb 2012. ... (10 replies)

... ce, as am I, you are forgetting that unless you take care of you, you cant be there for anyone else....and just as importantly, you are forgetting that this isnt your fault and you have done everything possible to show your brother love and support. ... (5 replies)

... i totally understand your pain and what you're going through. i lost my father when i was 27 and i guess you could say that i also lost myself. i developed panic disorder six months after my fathers death. ... (3 replies)

... Please dont let the fact that they are there bother you now or get in the way of how you feel about your dad, mom and brother....you need to just concentrate on that right now and cross that bridge when you get to it... ... (16 replies)

... I'm so sorry to hear about yourfather. I know how awful all this is as I've just been through it too. I watched my father die in much the same way...he had prostate cancer that went to his liver and brain and in the end, he just drowned in all the fluid. ... (24 replies)

... better place and he is not sick, he deserves that, He probably wishes he could have taken the entire family with him but that's impossible, But someday when it's your turn to go, he will be waiting for you with open arms. ... (24 replies)

... My heart goes out to you and your family. I too have been there with my Father. My father was a military man and my mother and father seperated when I was three. At the age of 13 I found my father and became very close to him thru letters. ... (24 replies)

... I'm new here and this post caught my attention, I went through this very thing. not once, but twice. both my mother and father died of differing causes. but both very slowly and painfully. I offer as many prayers as I can for you and yours. ... (24 replies)

... It has been a long time since I posted on this sight but I wanted you to know that I truly understand and empathize with your situation. Losingyour Mom is the worst experience that I have ever had in this life. I also, am alone. ... (31 replies)

... and it is still unbelieveable to accpet. His death, like yourfather's was completely unexpected, he ended up dying from infections in his blood that stemmed from a total knee replacement, it was very bizarre. ... (4 replies)

... Please don't shut out people who care about you. I didn't know yourfather, but he wouldn't want you to feel like you're going off the rails and missing out on your life. And I doubt that his death affected you less than anyone else, maybe you just had to shut it down at the time to cope. ... (6 replies)

... First off I wanted to say sorry! I to lost my Father at a young age I was ten years old and my Father had a heart attack in our house. I saw my Father take his last breath and could do nothing about it. I was a Daddy's Girl and it was like I didn't even know my Mother so I had to get used to being around her. ... (6 replies)

... to party and drink a lot more. Needless to say I learned that that is not the way to deal with this. In all honesty the best thing to do is don't try to ignore your feelings. If you can find someone you trust and can talk to. Even if that means you need to cry. It is better to let it out than keep it in. ... (6 replies)

... s me with my grieving is when it gets really bad or something really good happens and I want to share it with my dad, I keep a journal. I started one for my step father as well. I'm not very good at going to the cemetery to visit his grave however. ... (10 replies)

... I am so very sorry to hear about yourfather. You must be learning a great deal from doctors and maybe online about what caused that to happen. I also lost my father to heart disease on February 1, 2012. He was young too, only 60 years old. He was playing racquetball and collapsed. ... (11 replies)