Toxic: Dealing With A Culture Of Blame

Editor’s Note: This post kicks off a new series called Toxic in which we’ll be looking at how to deal with the dynamics of unhealthy work environments.

It’s human nature to want to assign blame. Since the dawn of time we’ve assigned unseen causes to effects that we can’t explain. We even find ways of off-loading blame for our vices (the devil made me do it!) and our shortcomings (it’s just my nature.)

Much of this blame-shifting is in the effort to protect ourselves. We don’t like being seen by others as a failure, or as lacking self-control. There are sometimes consequences for failure that affect our job, our family and even our health. We also don’t like to see ourselves as a failure, and we do everything we can to protect our desired self-image.

On a personal level, a lack of accountability can be deadly to our efforts to do brilliant work. When this blame-shifting infiltrates an organization, it can become toxic. It erodes collaboration and trust and causes everyone to waste energy in the attempt to avoid being left without a chair when the music stops. Less and less effort is spent on the attempt to do brilliant work and more effort is spent on the attempt to appear to do brilliant work. It’s a subtle, but critical distinction.

When this blame-shifting infiltrates an organization, it can become toxic.

A few signs that a culture of blame may have infiltrated your team include:

A general lack of accountability on the team. If it’s difficult to identify the single point of accountability for delivering a project, or if there seems to be ambiguity about responsibilities on the team, it’s possible that some of this is the result of a culture of blame.

Hesitancy to admit mistakes, or frequent attempts to cover them up rather than fix them. Everyone makes mistakes. If your team is really stretching itself to do great work, it will probably make many of them. But mistakes need to be dealt with, not disguised.

An overall lack of commitment to the excellence of the work or the needs of the client/organization. Some of the most toxic blame-shifting is the kind that involves blaming the client or customer for the problems the team is facing. When this happens, it can cause a down-shift in the team’s drive to go the extra mile.

Frequent “whispers in the hallway” or gossip. These little side conversations are like cracks in a dam. Every one of them erodes the integrity of the team slightly and puts the entire team at risk.

So how can we deal with this toxic culture of blame? Each culture is nuanced, complex and highly unique, but here are a few thoughts for leaders and would-be leaders:

Make sure that every project has clear accountability, metrics and rails. If expectations are clear throughout the process, it’s very difficult to shift blame.

Be the first to admit mistakes and take responsibility for them. This is especially crucial for leaders. The leader gets to take the most arrows, even if that means taking some for the team. If you’re a team member, set the example for the team by holding yourself to a higher standard.

Squash the blame game. If you notice a conversation shifting to the subject of blame, shift the topic or re-affirm where accountability for the project rests. No gossip, no whispers.

Don’t play along. To be prolific, brilliant and healthy you must maintain an accurate assessment of your successes and failures so that you can continue growing in your efforts. Self-delusion does you no good.

Everyone makes mistakes, and sometimes these mistakes are harmful to the team’s efforts. But developing a strong culture of transparency and accountability will focus your teams efforts where they belong: doing brilliant work. Do your best to establish accountability both personally and as a team and squash the culture of blame before it squashes you.

(In the next article in the series, we’ll discuss how to deal with glory hogs. Subscribe for free to get articles as they’re released.)

Have you ever been a part of a culture of blame? How did you deal with it?

Being accountable it is not working in the present circumstances. Blaming oneself can have a strongly negative effect. I did that. I was sincere about my shortcomings and at the end I ended up being my contract stopped after going deeper and deeper into the rabbit hole. The consultant who had to supervise me reported my shortcomings covering its own inefficiency and laque of supervising and teaching me. So I suppose in real life this idealistic transparency might not work and even could be beneficial for people who are highly skilled in manipulating others.

Cj

The accountability and responsibility that you talking about as a solution are actually the cause of creating a culture of blame. This is because almost all mistakes or wrong things that happen have too many entities and people and causes involved yet at the end one entity is held accountable and responsible because the ones judging who’s responsible are stupid and can’t have a clear understanding of the causes so they keep it simple and held someone accountable

Anonymous

I work for a company who’s upper level managers are so arrogant they are lightning fast to blame anyone else, even our customers! Bad Quarter? It’s the salespeople’s fault. Quality problems? It’s the mimimum wage employee we hired last week and didn’t train. Broken Equipment? It’s the operators fault; can’t be the deferred maintenance. Our Data-Systems are inefficient and difficult to use; It’s IT’s fault!

I guess the game is getting high enough up the corporate ladder so you have significant authority but get to hold everyone else responsible.

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