Help he is too big: big penis

Research indicates that only about 5% of males have an above average penis. Also women are more likely to wish for a bigger penis than a smaller one. The question by one lady on how to accommodate her mate’s big penis is unusual. See her question; Help he has a big penis.

Dear Sex Aunty, I am a diligent reader of your column. Recently started dating this guy. We have been intimate for about two weeks now. The man is too huge down there thus I get more pain than pleasure any suggestions on how to adjust to this or should I just break it off? Confused.

Dear confused, the problem of physically mismatched lovers is quite prevalent in society.

Big penis

Either one prefers morning glory while the other a night cap. At different stages one has a high libido that their partner and then tables are reversed. The issue of a big penis is rare but that can be overcome too. Running away is not a solution, less your next lovers is too small or worse even bigger. Your situation is not all that bad, there are women who run back home after the honeymoon, thanks to the size of their husband’s man hood. On the other hand many who wish their men’s are a bit bigger. Such women are always seeking ways of tightening their vagina, especially after childbirth!

Lots of foreplay

Your problem is quite easy to fix, all you have to remember it that the vagina is one of the most flexible muscle in your body. If women give birth to five-kilogram babies, then you can accommodate any man, but only when aroused, well lubricated and relaxed. Remember the average woman needs about twenty minutes of foreplay before penetration. Once you both have a good session of foreplay. Assuming he will pamper you, with kisses. While whispering all those sweet nothings and half-truths. The you will be ready for the fireworks.

Modified Sex Positions

Your next move will depend on what is huge, for example if he’s too long then you might want to restrict him on the other hand if it’s the width that’s the issue, then its all about the position and styles you use. This can be archived by modifying the sex positions. For example on the former spooning (side-by-side) style might be appropriate. This is how to do it; lie down your side facing each other, rest your upper leg on his hip and he penetrates. This option will give you more control and restrict how deep he can go. Spooning from behind in another option.

Avoid missionary position and rear entry as much as you can, unless he is willing in to put on a restricting penis ring. If his penis is really thick, you need to be very well lubricated (see lubes). As far as positions are concerned, I would advice for the woman-on-top position so that you can control penetration while giving your vagina time to adjust to the width; sudden penetration in this case can be extremely painful. Once, you are comfortable, you can switch to other positions. Remember to open-up your legs as much as possible.

My name is Getrude Mungai. I am a Lifestyle designer on sex and relationships. A wife, mother, an author/blogger, TV and radio host and a motivational speaker. This year I will celebrate my 20th year in marital bliss. Married to the same man; Peter. Whom I have been in a relationship with for 25 years. Peter and I, are blessed with two sons, Mark and Albert who are in their teens.