I depends on where and how it is done. At a funeral, work, church.....offensive. Cat calls across a parking lot.....offensive. Touching, leering, or drooling.....offensive. If, you smile nicely and tell me that I have shapely backside, that is a compliment. And, I love compliments!

I depends on where and how it is done. At a funeral, work, church.....offensive. Cat calls across a parking lot.....offensive. Touching, leering, or drooling.....offensive. If, you smile nicely and tell me that I have shapely backside, that is a compliment. And, I love compliments!

Totally agree. It depends on the situation. Although I would be more impressed if he/she said something like I have a beautiful smile than saying I have a great ass.

I depends on where and how it is done. At a funeral, work, church.....offensive. Cat calls across a parking lot.....offensive. Touching, leering, or drooling.....offensive. If, you smile nicely and tell me that I have shapely backside, that is a compliment. And, I love compliments!

Totally agree. It depends on the situation. Although I would be more impressed if he/she said something like I have a beautiful smile than saying I have a great ass.

Hi Nikki. Have I mentioned you have a great vertical smile? That work?

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I depends on where and how it is done. At a funeral, work, church.....offensive. Cat calls across a parking lot.....offensive. Touching, leering, or drooling.....offensive. If, you smile nicely and tell me that I have shapely backside, that is a compliment. And, I love compliments!

Totally agree. It depends on the situation. Although I would be more impressed if he/she said something like I have a beautiful smile than saying I have a great ass.

I definately agree, that was one of the things that attracted me to the bf. He ignored everything below the neck. He told me I had beautiful eyes, lips, mind, smile, and hair. He even said I have a cute nose and ears. He never said a word about my body until we were intimate. Most men have never looked above the boobs.

I wouldn't be offended. Its always nice to be complimented. But I may not be particularly impressed either because its not very imaginative and as already noted above the time and place matters. But sometimes its nice to get a simple compliment, even if he doesn't really mean it :)

I was in line at the grocery store several weeks ago behind a woman who was positively beautiful. (And, yes, her pencil skirt clearly showed off a beautiful ass). Her car happened to be next to mine, so when we were in the parking lot loading our cars, and there was no one else around, I said to her, "Begging your pardon, Ma'am, but I just want to tell you that I think you are drop-dead gorgeous." She looked at me, and positively BEAMED, then said, "Thank you,"and got in her car and drove off. It felt good to think I had maybe bightened someone's day a little. (Now, I must admit, I was thinking ,"What a great ass!", but I would NEVER say that to a total stranger. (And if someone said to me, "You have a beautiful lump in your pants", I would be equally offended.)

I believe there are certain rules of civility that shoiuld be maintained in all situations, and complimenting strangers is one of them. Keep it honest, clean, and private. That shows a little restraint, and a little respect."There's only three tempos: slow, medium and fast. When you get between in the cracks, ain't nuthin' happenin'." Ben Webster

I believe there are certain rules of civility that shoiuld be maintained in all situations, and complimenting strangers is one of them. Keep it honest, clean, and private. That shows a little restraint, and a little respect.

If I got dressed in my sluttest short skirt and most revealing top to go out to the clubs and pick up men (or women), then I would be patting myself on the back.

Otherwise, what DLizze said.

When I was High School, the weirdest comment I ever received was a stranger coming up to me while I was at the mall, and complimenting me on my small feet. He stared (and stared) at them in wonder and awe - a good four (very long) minutes. I was somewhat confused and a little flattered. Now a little wiser, knowing that he must of had a foot fetish, I would feel just a little creeped out. There is a time and place for everything - one, I was UA and secondly, I was shopping! No-one should ruin a woman's day of shopping. Never! LOL

I was in line at the grocery store several weeks ago behind a woman who was positively beautiful. (And, yes, her pencil skirt clearly showed off a beautiful ass). Her car happened to be next to mine, so when we were in the parking lot loading our cars, and there was no one else around, I said to her, "Begging your pardon, Ma'am, but I just want to tell you that I think you are drop-dead gorgeous." She looked at me, and positively BEAMED, then said, "Thank you,"and got in her car and drove off. It felt good to think I had maybe bightened someone's day a little. (Now, I must admit, I was thinking ,"What a great ass!", but I would NEVER say that to a total stranger. (And if someone said to me, "You have a beautiful lump in your pants", I would be equally offended.)

I believe there are certain rules of civility that shoiuld be maintained in all situations, and complimenting strangers is one of them. Keep it honest, clean, and private. That shows a little restraint, and a little respect.

wow. that was really pretty much perfect. that would totally make my day. what a perfect way to handle it. :)

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