95% of what drives your behaviour is in your subconscious mind.

02May

I am parked outside the Forth shop waiting for Pete to emerge from the Postal section, when an enormous B-double starts heading in the direction where I am sitting like a duck in the passenger seat of our Territory. I start to sweat… what if he doesn’t stop in time? What if his brakes don’t work? What if he doesn’t see me? I will be pancaked!

I got hit by a truck in 2006 and I didn’t see it coming.

But my subconscious must have, and it tells me that trucks are best avoided.

I am holding my breath….

And let out a sigh of relief, when the 42.5 tonne moving object stops just a few meters away from my comfy seat. A second later the driver door swings open and the truckie saunters into the shop to get his lunch.

Now that I am safe, I start to see the funny side.

“What makes a gigantic B double truck stop faster than anything else in the world?” I ask Pete when he returns to our car with an armload of parcels.

“Not sure. The cops, I guess?”

“Wrong. It’s a sandwich!”

Yes, a sandwich is all it takes.

Pete didn’t think it was funny. He didn’t have adrenalin coursing through his veins and didn’t get my mental image of a 50 gram sandwich lying seductively in the middle of the Forth Rd, stopping a 40 tonne truck in its tracks.

The truck could have driven straight over the top over the sandwich, but it didn’t, the imaginary sandwich halted the truck. In this case the sandwich came out the winner.

When it comes to our problems, they sometimes seem insurmountable. They are like the B-double, threatening to overtake our lives.

Here are 3 examples:

Scenario 1

You are a couple who keeps going around in circles about your finances. E.g: Harry thinks that Amy spends too much. Amy accuses Harry of being stingy. And this is only the tip of the iceberg. Secretly Amy doesn’t like the way Harry never picks up after himself and Harry believes that Amy flirts with his mates behind his back and he feels disrespected.

They spend hours on end trying to justify their view to each other (yes, they do love each other, so they put in the effort.) Each of them feels that the other one is wrong and before long they are experiencing a repeat of the Cold War. The problem is now a B-double gaining momentum as the weeks and months pass.

Good feelings drain out of the relationship, tension mounts and the love and connection that used to keep them so strong together is slowly going down the gurgler. Both Amy and Harry worry that they are going to lose it all.

Here is the thing: If you feel that you can’t get through to your partner, more words are not going to do the trick. More justification, blame and arguments are simply making the rumbling B-double go faster.

What you need is a disarming move, like the sandwich!

In this case the ‘sandwich’ that would stop the truck and disarm the mounting animosity would only take 10 minutes max!

I have helped countless couples figure things out and turn their lives around. It only takes 20 or 30 minutes and they get it.

I have helped people from all walks of life, from executives to sleep deprived mums. Once they know what to do and follow my instructions, they can get on with the business of keeping their love thriving.

Scenario 2

Scenario 2 might be a personal problem, something you don’t tell anyone about. It’s forever going around and around in your brain, gaining traction and depriving you of much needed rest and energy.

You can’t out-think a deep-seated problem but you do it anyway. There is nothing more powerful than your mind (the B-double) you believe, so if you keep ruminating, the solution will pop up sooner or later.

Well, if it were that easy—just turn a problem around in the brain a few times and out pops the perfect answer, the world would be a much different place.

But it doesn’t work that way…

Overanalysing the problem doesn’t work.Obsessing over it doesn’t solve it.Venting on social media feels liberating for a moment, only for the pain to boomerang.

I will give you a hint: the way out of the maze of pain and confusion is to isolate the critical feeling behind the overanalysing, arguing and justification. With my help you can do that in seconds. We can then go to create dramatic shifts in your relationship or in your trajectory, so you can finally enjoy the love and success you have worked so hard for.

Scenario 3

Have you ever made a firm commitment to change something in your life? A thing you know would change your life forever, like releasing 20 kilos or saving $50 per week or having a cold shower every morning.

You start and then you can’t make it stick.

You say to yourself, “This time will be different.”You’re fired up and committed.Yet…it feels like a recurring nightmare. You keep running from the same “monster or B-double” night after night—the same self-doubts, limitations, fears, health issues, and unhealthy relationships on replay.

So what do we do?

We’re human. We push it aside. Hide it under a million layers of denial. Numb it with seemingly harmless habits and addictions.

I’ve been there, many times. And no matter how you try to bury it under piles of stuff, the real issues are still in your tissues. Your need for change is there, and it’s not going away.

You can’t breakthrough by relying on your mind alone, you need something that disarms your mind (ie. the sandwich) and then get in touch with the subconscious mind, where the issues stem from.

You can’t think your way out of your problems because 95% of what drives your behaviour is in your subconscious mind.

How do you break through?

By getting in touch with the subconscious mind. By setting up a direct connection with your subconscious. By learning how it ticks over, and by getting to understand the language of the subconscious mind.

This is my area of expertise. For me, it boiled down to live or die. I had to connect with the invisible force that controls everything, after being hit by a truck and left for dead. It worked for me and it will work for you.

This isn’t something you have been taught at school or at University.

The language of the subconscious also happens to be the same language that operates the Universe. How amazing is that? So when you bring yourself into alignment with your subconscious mind, the Universe responds immediately. It becomes your best friend and starts to show up with new, unheard of possibilities.

During Surge to Success I will be your laser coach. I can tell where your energies are blocked and help you bring to the surface what you’ve been trying to stuff down for a long time, or issues you are not even conscious of! We all have our blind spots.

You’ll finally have the clarity to know exactly what needs to change, AND the strength and courage to create that change.

You will discover that there is nothing scary about change, and that you can have easy control over any B-double. Imagine being in the steering wheel of a 40 tonne truck, having all that power available to move mountains – rather than being the onlooker and seeing the scary truck move towards you, where you think it is going to run you over and ruin your life!

Isn’t it time you reclaim the endless amounts of time you are squandering on mis-communicating with your partner, your child, parents, co-worker, or yourself?

Instead, during Surge to Success you will learn to create dramatic shifts within 5 or 10 minute time frames;

You will be able to say what you haven’t been able to say for years

You will restore the connection with your loved ones

You will connect deeply with your subconscious mind and you will love it!

You will restore self love and dignity

You will free up huge amounts of energy

Your confidence will surge

You will create respect, equality and understanding between you and your fellow humans

Here is what others have said…

I have just done the surge to success weekend with Grada and Peter, Wow!!! What an amazing course this is! You don’t realise how much emotional baggage you carry around with you that you don’t ever know is there!! I feel so refreshed and alive again, have found my spark again! Cannot thank Grada and Peter enough and for their hospitality too!! If you have ever considered doing this course don’t hesitate!! Life is much to short to be living a miserable life!– Cindy S

I have known and worked with Grada for over a decade. She has an extraordinary healing ability. She knows exactly what is required for you personally and gets to the heart of your issues within minutes of entering her room. Her honesty, compassion and professionalism make you feel so comfortable and relaxed straight away, whether in person or via a distant session. There is complete absence of judgement. “She has seen and heard it all” she says, and I have no doubt that this is true because her sincere desire to ease human suffering makes her a magnet for people in extreme stress and trauma. I highly recommend Grada to anyone who wants to let go of their pain, past and history, so they can live a life of wellbeing and ease.– Ruth B

When I initially saw the advertisement for this course (Surge to Success), I was very interested however I did not sign up straight away. I have been disappointed before with other courses I have attended so I was sceptical about the promises made by Grada. I deliberated over it for weeks until finally I decided to risk being disappointed again.I am very happy to say I was not disappointed. I have learnt so much about my inner life and am now committed to practicing the techniques I learnt each and every day. I feel connected to myself, empowered and am truly loving myself more than I have ever done, warts and all.

I would recommend this course to you if you are interested in understanding and connecting to your energy field and gaining insight on how to deal with situations that arise in your life. It is all about energy and it isn’t complicated.