meninlove said I hear 'I'm frustrated with the glad handing that goes on here, and also the judgmental pricks that do the opposite.'

intrigued,

-Doug

There's a way to state it. I've had enough of the double meant chumps biting at my heals. That is why I took my break, as well as avoided Valentine's dread. I'm misguided by cyber punks... anyway, I'm going to be on here much less now. Post count be damned, you know I'm veteran here.But for serious, what the Hell am I truly doing wrong?

Nothing; it's a website that brings together a lot of guys and makes a dynamic gestalt of people from completely divergent courses in life. I've found sometimes navigating it all can be a little confuzzling.

Nothing; it's a website that brings together a lot of guys and makes a dynamic gestalt of people from completely divergent courses in life. I've found sometimes navigating it all can be a little confuzzling.

Yeah, back to normal life, and reality for me. Confuzzlment is heartwrenching.

My impression is that you have interactions with other people here, and those interactions are above my notice. And you will either get paranoid that they're your enemy or else you're right and they are your enemy. And that paranoia or legitimate conflict (whichever is the case), puts you in a bad mood periodically.

Just my casual impression of things.

It's a sucky feeling, being unsure of where you stand with someone. You can believe what they say but there's a risk of them laughing at you behind your back.

Personally, I think the virtue lies in treating the other guy as a friend despite the risk that he is laughing at you. Being ridiculed doesn't make a man any less of a man. That's what's on my mind and I hope it creeps into your mind and makes you feel better.

SkinnyBitch saidMy impression is that you have interactions with other people here, and those interactions are above my notice. And you will either get paranoid that they're your enemy or else you're right and they are your enemy. And that paranoia or legitimate conflict (whichever is the case), puts you in a bad mood periodically.

Just my casual impression of things.

It's a sucky feeling, being unsure of where you stand with someone. You can believe what they say but there's a risk of them laughing at you behind your back.

Personally, I think the virtue lies in treating the other guy as a friend despite the risk that he is laughing at you. Being ridiculed doesn't make a man any less of a man. That's what's on my mind and I hope it creeps into your mind and makes you feel better.

Mostly yes, and a mutual return of the feeling by way of my own confusion.