Blowjob Guide: How to Deepthroat

What is Deepthroating?

Deepthroating is the act of taking your lovers penis into your mouth and then allowing it to enter your throat, the same way a sword swallower might swallow blades. Deepthroating is only possible if your lovers cock is long enough to enter your throat and is easier with slimmer cocks. If his cock is shorter, you may be able to take it in your mouth without the need to deepthroat it.

Why Does He Want Deepthroat?

There are three reasons why deepthroat feels good:

The inside of the throat is soft and covered with a lining of mucus that physically makes it feel wonderful to the penis. Also it is a narrow passage, so when a penis enters the throat it is constricted and there is friction from all sides.

A man's naturally built in sexual reproductive instinct is to push his cock all the way into the vagina so that when he climaxes and the sperm is released deep inside the woman and the sperm will have a better chance of survival and of fertilising the egg. To ensure the man knows to do this, he is programmed so that full penetration feels good, purely based on a natural reproductive instinct. Deepthroating is the blowjob version of full penetration and for that reason feels amazing for him.

The third reason it feels good comes back to the most important point of this guide. It shows him you love it! How can you show a more abandoned enjoyment of his cock that wanting to take the whole thing into your mouth and down your throat? You might choke a little, perhaps gag or become teary eyed. He sees this and then sees you still you want his cock in your mouth. When he sees your enjoyment outweighing the discomfort involved in deepthroating or even learning to deepthroat, then he will love it, and that ultimately is the goal of giving a great blowjob.

How to Deep Throat

Deepthroating is something only a very few people could be expected to do naturally and in reality it is a skill that needs to be learned, much like a baby learning to walk. It will take a constant effort where you might not see any improvement for a while. You must be dedicated and if you fall, get back up and try again. Don't expect to learn how to deep throat overnight. Realistically you need to give yourself a few weeks to a few months to even start to get this. It's not easy - you are training your body not to react how it is built to react. But, you don't fail. You either succeed or give up.

Tips for Learning How to Deepthroat

Get comfortable with your throat. While you are in the shower, try putting your fingers into your throat. Put them to the back, press them on your tongue and bend them as you slide them, following your tongue, down into your throat. It may seem strange but doing this without too much thought and pushing the fingers as far into your throat will help reduce gagging - too close to the oesophagus will gag you. You should find once in, you can hold your fingers in your throat for a second or more if you can remain relaxed. NOTE: Only do this with trimmed nails, for safety.

Buy a dildo to practice on. It will really allow you to learn how to deepthroat faster and easier when you can practice any time you want - even get into a routine. You can practice with something that won't do anything you don't want it to do, so you can relax (which is important - you can't relax your throat if you are worried he will push in too far or something like that). Also it will allow you to start off with something perhaps slimmer and more flexible than your lovers penis, which will be easier to accept into your throat and bend where it needs to, to go down your throat more comfortably.

Practice. Being able to deepthroat is not a natural skill and if you want to learn you need to practice. It might sound less than erotic but establishing a routine is a good way to ensure you practice often and keep practicing. You will get it eventually.

Be prepared to feel like it is impossible, then keep practicing. When you first put the dildo or his cock to the back of your throat and gag, you will probably think there is no way in hell you can get past that point. Keep practicing.

How to Practice Deepthroating

Take it slowly. When you are practicing, take the phallus (real or imitation) into your mouth as far as is comfortable. At this point your stomach should be fine and you should feel no discomfort. Then take it in a little further. Your stomach may feel like it is about to clench but you shouldn't be gagging. Don't push too far - Past the comfort zone but before the puke zone.

Practicing is just about bringing yourself to that slightly uncomfortable zone. Push the phallus in till it is too much then let it out. Don't try pushing it back in if you feel like you might puke. Wait it out, then continue.

Over time you will become comfortable with the cock or dildo at the entrance to your throat. When you have built up a gag reflex tolerance, you are ready for the next part, which is a bit of a jump - taking it into your throat.

When you are feeling ready and relaxed and your mouth and the cock are lubed up with saliva, try letting it into your throat. You must be relaxed. Push it into your throat but at the same time don't force it. If you can, try swallowing as the cock starts entering your throat, to get past that initial gag area. Once it is past there, for some reason it seems easier to hold it there as long as your stay relaxed and don't freak out.

Best Positions for Deepthroat

Remember that swallowing a slim and flexible dildo will be easier than a thick and unbending cock. If you are practicing on a lover, consider positions that lessen the bend in your throat.

Deepthroat position 1: Try lying on a bed with your head half dangling off the edge - your standing lover will insert his cock into your mouth as you guide him. This position is great because it stretches you neck out perfectly straight and you can feel it open up much more easily. But you might have to experiment with pillows or his standing/kneeling height to get this one right, as the wrong angle brings teeth into play.

Deepthroat position 2: Or consider lying on top of your lover in a 69 fashion as his cock will bend with your throat that way. (For some reason cocks can bend more easily up towards the stomach than down towards the feet.) This is great because you now have control, compare to position one where you have to have a lot of trust in your partner. But if this one isn't so easy for you, try position one.

So as you take these words of deepthroating advice, remember that until you do learn how to deepthroat, a slobbery hand around the base of his cock can be an effective alternative to taking him fully into your throat. If you never get it, at least you have learnt a valuable lesson of how for you can push your limits. And perhaps you both had fun trying.

If you want to practice alone till you perfect the technique you will need a dildo! Have a look at what we chose for the best deepthroat dildos at FunLoveToys.com.