Hi!- New to the group here and trying this for advice from other women. I've been married for going on eight years now and I'm a little frustrated with my husband in intimate areas. Particularly, I am always the one who has to initiate intimacy and it is rarely quite long enough for me to achieve "true happiness". Additonally, he has developed a strong aversion to pleasing me orally- AND IT'S DRIVING ME CRAZY!!! Any suggestions from anyone who may have ever experienced this problem?