Is it rude to ask my videographer for additional edits?

Hi Bees. Our wedding videographer did a great job, but the video doesn’t include any of our vows or actual ceremony, like I was hoping. After speaking with my photographer friend to make sure I wouldn’t be stepping on the videographer’s toes, I asked the videographer to just add a few lines of our vows, without any music (so that he can just insert the vows in the middle of the video he already has without having to move the song around). However, he never responded to my email and I’m thinking of writing him again…I’m just wondering if anyone else has ever asked a videographer for an additional edit? I really wanted some of our ceremony in the video but I don’t want to be rude. I’d appreciate any advice! Thanks!

No, in now way is it rude. You are paying him to do a service which is to highlight the most important day of your life. Just an FYI, i went back and for several times on my wedding video with my videographer. He had no issue with it, he was so nice and helpful.