Wednesday, August 23, 2006

My guy friends tend to ask for some sure-to-work pickup lines that will seduce the women of their dreams. I think pickup lines can work but not in the way most people see it. It is not some magical word used to get the girl all arroused. It is simply a conversation opener. It is part of the tools to get women.

In order for your pickup lines to work... here are afew things that I would strongly recommend you guys to have a check list on:

BEFORE - Prepare you and the girl you intend to approach. Meaning... don't just pop up and release your pickup line on her. In other words... do a "silent pickup line" first, ie eye contact. If she doesn't want to even look at you... then forget it. No miricle line can save you.

DURING - Approach her slowly. Speak confidently and clearly. Maintain a good posture. Don't move around like a monkey while talking to her. Just compliment her on something... anything... and introduce yourself with a handshake. Try to be as original as you can. Why?? Because.. chances are.. if that girl you are after is hot/ cute... 10,000 other guys would have probably used that line on her and you'd just sound like another looser using it on her. ; P

AFTER - Don't just keep quiet after you compliment her and all. Start some small talk and ask her questions. Small open ended questions. It'll get the ball rolling. Before she knows it... you'd already be talking to her and perhaps getting her phone number.

Just remember... it's not only WHAT you say... but HOW you say it. Good luck guys!!!!

Girl in picutre: Brooke Burke

I am no dating consultant/ expert. I have failed before in the past with girls. So I know how painful it is. From then on I learnt to take on a different approach and my success rate with girls have increased tremendously then. What I share here is not from some text book but from both experiences of my friends and myself. Hope these entries can help you guys out. Good luck! ; D

I think this is going to be one of those movies that didn't seem promising at first but in the end it turns out to be totally hilarious, cool, and entertaining!! I suppose it is a "must watch" for teen flick fans!! Check out the trailer:

Saturday, August 19, 2006

Have you ever been so "nice" to an attractive girl that you find it difficult to say "NO" to her?

Have you ever complimented a girl only to have her looking not interested or annoyed?

Have you had hot looking girls coming to you and whine about their "looser" boyfriends?

If your answers to any one of these questions is yes... well... she DOESN'T respect you!! It sucks to know that but it is TRUE!! More importantly..... Women are only attracted to guys they RESPECT.

We can buy her all the diamonds and pearls, be her shoulder to cry on and give her everything "nice" but at the end of the day.. she'll not end up with you. Just like men don't respect women that are too easy, women don't respect men that are too "nice".

So how do we gain respect from a member of the opposite sex?

Independence and self-reliance. Don't be a "clingy" person. I learnt that the very hard way. ; P Same applies if your girl calls you 10 times a day, every day... every week... every month...

Have a backbone and stop letting them walk all over you.

How do we do it???

Learn how to say "NO"... in a calm manner. E.g.: "No, I don't want to wait for you to call me 2 hours before the show to see if you are going.If you can't make it, let me know now so that I can make other plans or go with someone else!"

Don't Be Too Nice: Stop buying her all those expensive things. She's going to see you more as a friend instead of a potential lover.

Be Prepared To leave: If you are not getting what you want from the relationship - LEAVE!

Plan Out Dates: Show that you know what you are doing. Be decisive. Don't give her the "as you wish dear" line.

Don't care about what she thinks of you: Remember that your job is to ATTRACT her, not to PLEASE her.

Learn The Dating Game: If you were a woman.. would you want to go out with this inexperienced guy or would you like to hang out with the type of guy who knows how to treat you right?

Hope this will work out for you guys!!

I am no dating consultant/ expert. I have failed before in the past with girls. So I know how painful it is.From then on I learnt to take on a different approach and my success rate with girls have increased tremendously then. What I share here is not from some text book but from both experiences of my friends and myself. Hope these entries can help you guys out. Good luck! ; D

Sunday, August 13, 2006

I saw the movie trailer for Raw vs Smackdown 2007 for the XBOX 360 version and I was like.. "WOW"... the graphics and camera angles are out of this world!!! After that.... I got kind of sad because I don't own a XBOX360 ; (

All of a sudden... I saw: Also available on PS2 and PSP!! My eyes glowed with hope!!! I suppose the graphics may not be able to compare with the ever impressive X360 but hey... saving up 1K plus is pretty impressive too ; D

The graphics are fantastic and the camera angles are insane. You can even see the wrestlers sweat! How cool is that? I must say though that some of the angles and wrestlers look a little too thin.

The developer; Yuke's.Co and its' publisher; THQ will be releasing this game on the 1st of November 2006. I can hardly wait!! I have been playing with the predecessors of this wrestling game ever since its first installation on the PS1... SMACKDOWN! ; D

I was in my friend's car over the weekend cruising around town. One thing that I noticed was how messy his car was. My girlfriend sure as hell didn't like it and I think most girls wouldn't either.

If you notice.... most single/ divorced men have some of the dirtiest, messiest, smelliest cars in the world. So what you say?Well.. we'd be pretty much depriving ourselves of a second or third date!!!!

Women generally like cleanliness even if they are darn filty and more often than not... they'll judge how clean you are from your first date. If you have one dirty ride with you... they'll probably feel you are this totally disorganised guy. God knows what else they will think.

I remember my car used to have some 'not so decent' DVDs in it and one of the girls I took out on a date found it. Of course she thought I was some naughty cow. She still brings it up today. I managed to kick it off with her though. *GRIN*

So remember guys... clean up your car a little before you take a woman out. Ain't going to go into details. I am sure you guys are very well capable of it. Keep only the cool stuff in like your branded shades or your coat hanged neatly and put the rest away. Putting it in the glove compartment doesn't count. Who knows... you might just get a nosey one in your car right?

Get an air-freshener. You wouldn't want your car to stink would you? I know my current girl hates a car that STINKS! Personally... so do I. That's it for now. Go pimp your rides guys!

Tuesday, August 08, 2006

I think no girl.. and I mean NO girl is going to admit this but it's true!! They love men when they are in control.Not suggesting you guys turn into a control freak... just don't act like a wimp.

"Where should we sit?".. "Up to you"... "You choose". So NOT cool.

I think this would work out better:

"Let's sit over there" "It seems pretty comfy"...and just lead her by taking her hand.

I used to try to be the all obliging 'Yes Mam' kind of guy. It didn't necessarily work out. You can still be Mr nice Guy. Just be assertive and take the lead.

Good luck guys!!

I am no dating consultant/ expert. I have failed before in the past with girls. So I know how painful it is.From then on I learnt to take on a different approach and my success rate with girls have increased tremendously then.What I share here is not from some text book but from both experiences of my friends and myself.Hope these entries can help you guys out. Good luck! ; D

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A regular guy wrestling life. Probably sick with it, that's why I am writing this blog.
Life can be a real b*tch sometimes. Hope this site will help you wrestle life in the face and relax a little. However, this site is mainly on my experiences and should be used only for reading pleasure. If you wish to attempt the tips/ stunts I post or anything at all, I will NOT be responsible for any damages cost.
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