He's in diapers today, and I'm not putting him on the potty anymore today. I'll just change him when he's wet. I'm lowering my expectations of him. He's not going to be trained before this baby comes. Yeah, I definitely have THAT right, since I'm not doing anything to help now. My kids don't "train themselves." They need some direction. I'm not able to give them the apparent level of needed intensity of direction, so they don't make any progress, then I get frustrated, then I give up. Lather, rinse, repeat. :/