What kind of suppression were you on for your IVFs?

That is, did you take BCPs or lupron before starting stims? I think that is the first thing I would discuss changing given the less than ideal response. It could be that whatever method they used to suppress you was too much for you to overcome.

You may need to not take BCPs or use micro-dose, rather than full strength, lupron. Alternatively, it may be better for you to do an antagonist (Centroide) protocol rather than one with suppression first. I hope you get to discuss all of these possibilities with your doctor and one turns out to be the right approach for you.