Turn Your Love Life Around

Remember when you were young, carefree, and every other week there was a house party, dance or hangout spot where you could gather with your crew and scope out members of the opposite sex? Not the case? No problem, because even if you spent your entire teenage years in your room with your collection of Spider-Man comics, you need this information.

it can be great again

The point I want to make here is that as a teenager and young adult, relationships came and went with such ease. Meeting new people, socializing, dating, and everything else was never a problem. Going out to party, dancing the night away, drinking, and staying out all night was part of our identity as youths. Even if you were a complete recluse, there were ample occasions to bond with someone new. Campus life, and the life of a teenage or twenty-something guy in general, is set up for spontaneity, romance and new interpersonal connections.

There was a new relationship every other month. There was no shortage of people to spend time with on the weekends. Without adult responsibility to hold us back for the most part, we were free to do whatever, whenever, and with whomever.

But life is different now. Our weeks tend to revolve around our jobs and our weekends book up fast with chores and a host of appointments that we schedule into our mobile devices in order to "organize" our time. Our jobs and material possessions own us, as we have become victims of the proverbial rat race.

Before we had a career, we may not have had money but we had time to get out into the world and meet people. Now that we have the money, our window of time to meet new people and date is rather narrow. So what can we do to change our routine and form new relationships?

put your dating skills to the test

Well, the people at DatingConfidence.com may just have the remedy to get you back into the swing of things. They offer a very cool and innovative service on their site that I just had to try.

It's called the Dating Skills Questionnaire (DSQ) and it's cited as a comprehensive appraisal of your overall outlook on relationships and the traits that affect your conduct on dates. Think of it as a personality audit, with your love life as the focus.

In the end, the answers and feedback you get from your DSQ report are intended to improve your skills in the romance department, increase your confidence, and vitalize your resolve in order to increase your chances out there in the jungle. Make no mistake; it is a jungle out there and you need to arm yourself with as many quality tools as you can to help you make meaningful connections with attractive people.

The set of skills at the focal point of the DSQ are:

Romantic Ideals: In this area, the quiz looks at whether or not you have practical beliefs or hold on to traditional, romantic notions of destiny and love.

Personality Characteristics: What kind of person are you at the end of the day? Are you noble and generous? Do you have a strong capacity to care for someone or are you selfish? As human beings we are obviously complex, but in this part of the quiz, the end goal is to extrapolate your personality traits and determine how they are projected to others.

From your ability to maintain a conversation with a woman to how good you are in bed, improve your chances of impressing women...