There is a lot that goes into this blog, most of it is me. You may read some things that challenge you or your assumptions about the way the world is or should be. Feel free to peek thru, but bear in mind that what you're reading is basically the inside of my head.

In the last year, I've dealt with an eating disorder (and other health issues in my own body), the illness and death of my father (from pancreatic cancer), happiness and excitement at forming new relationships and building existing ones, and the death of my daughter (Timelord). So much has happened, but all I can do is live my best life and that's what I'm going to do, even while I grieve.

The persons you read about in this blog are real. They have lives and feelings, and I want to respect their privacy as much as possible. And while it is entirely possible that you know who I'm talking about, everybody has a codename. It's a thing.

One last thing, all this stuff is for my own personal edification. I do hope you enjoy it and find wisdom here, but I also don't care if you don't like it. :D