~ I came, I saw, I slept.

why?

Life, love, relationships, society. An individual gets lost in these four. May be, that’s the way these things are meant to be. Many have tried to maintain their individuality and stand out of the crowd. Many have been successful. Many have failed. Do you need some guts to do that? How bold one must be to do that? What are the other factors that matter?

You wanna show you have guts, become a rebel, and live life your way, by losing out on your loved ones? Why does that happen? Why does one have to choose always? Why do any options exist at all? Pick anything you want, do anything you want, wear anything you want, eat anything you want, work the way you want to, sleep whenever you want to, say whatever you want to, just do any damn thing you want to. Does that make a society undisciplined? Does it mean that people will be out of control? Why, at all, is there a need to control people? Why do we have presidents, ministers, and mayors?

Everything and everyone has a master; a person who controls, manages, and gets things done in a systematic way. Would we become animals if the managing business disappears from our life altogether? At times, I feel like leaving everything. What’s the worst that can happen if I escape from my responsibilities? I’d be called an escapist. So what? Do I need to care about what people say? Nah! Well, yeah! But again, why??

Hope you guys wouldn’t tear your hair cuz’ I’m kinda repeating whatever I have been saying before. People people and people. Woohoooo! :p

The setting sun as seen from my office. I look at it daily and it shows me a different picture everyday. I wonder how the sky manages to change everyday 🙂

20 thoughts on “why?”

it is ok Divs.. i know that you are busy..i vist ur space once in a while to get the pulse…
and i know wat you go thru, now to add to ur woes, the heat waves have turnd their color up ward..uff..
so just take it easy, chillllll……mmmm?that said…must hav read Sonia’s latest entry na? so just b a little careful ha?
who knows some brik or sth..hehe
now readin this i m reminded of my sociology classes….heard about Feral children? want to now follow thier path or wat?
have a nice time yaa

Take a chill pill? nah! that’s a very odd advice poeple have recently started giving to each other when they are frustrated or feeling bad and all.. so what should i say? well, that’s a lot of effort i have to put in and so here I am with my advice-

IGNORE. Don’t let ur emotions out in front of those who don’t give a damn!
Coz am working part time, I NOW know how it is.. really, its NOT easy but definitely is possible.

Bubble bubble bubble……..all four are deeply interconnected !! We have to live within the society and abide by the "rules" to a certain extent!! They definitely cannot rule your life ,but some distinguish us from rest of the "animals" !! The animal world also has a strict social order,basic dos and donts which are adhered to !!
Live life as you want to,to live like a so called called "rebel" requires guts and a thick skin to ward off the "barbed words and attitude" that often accompanies this kind og "behaviour" !!
Ziyo gurl,live life to its fullest !! kal kissi ne nahi dekha 🙂 !!
Tc and have a grt day!!
Smile,
love,
Dids

Came by RW’s for a visit.
There is wisdom that wants to rise up from our heart (spirit) that will guides us from
the true words of goodness. Our steps will be led where they are supposed to go and others
around us will be left wanted to help others too.
thank you for allowing me to visit, Greg

Work is just a FOUR-LETTER WORD:)
Tear my hair?
I don’t think so
I’d become quite a bear
It’d fill my head with woe!

Laws & rules keep honest people honest and the dishonest one aren’t going to act any different. Without laws & rules there would be more victims in this world and no way to protect anyone. So people chose how they will be, whether they want to survive in this jungle we call civilization or not. To survive, rules & laws are a must.

Interesting post and very thought provoking. You’ve been working too hard:)

Hi Divoo! Haven’t seen you around for ages! What’s up? Busy??!!On your blog, I can say only this: it is no use wondering why we are always left in a position of having to make choices: remember we humans are supposed to be the highest in the evolution scale, and each one has a mind of his/her own? The animal world is governed by rules of society; the same is true for monkeys, tigers, lions and wolves. The law of "Survival of the Fittest" applies to us as well. The rebels in the group are termed outcastes and are generally left to fend for themselves. The Leaders/Seniors/Elders generally see to it that the people down the line are obeying the societal norms. Although things are changing nowadays, and there are far more virulently rebellious people around, they can’t survive for long with this kind of attitude. As they say, there is a good and bad side to everything. Having rules to follow is what holds society together, otherwise there would be further chaos than what we are already witnessing.Have fun, and don’t think you can please everyone in this world equally. At the most, you can open a dialogue with people who matter to you directly in life, and see how open and reasonable they are to your way of thinking.Bye, and hope to see you around sometime in my Space! Love, Ruma di.

People usually abhor what they have easy access to or too much of. If the a/c were taken out of your life then life, in Pune summer, would be intolerable. Then again, at your age the body manages temperature much better than it will in another 15-20 years. Summer didn’t bother me when I stepped into my twenties.Jitender Saan- I need immigration sponsorship- darkspace … where truth is revealed (well, sometimes)- Television Addiction

well i have alws thought we need rules..I vouch for society..ok i sound conservative…but I dont beleive in antiquated rules…every society evolves and so do love and relationships..its alws an ongoing process..
what a pretty place ur office is at!!lovely sunset!
be happy bubbly girl!
love
nids

hmmmmm u sure know how to get the point bang on sometimes.
We need to ask ourselves, and yet our answer may not be what we actually do.
We live in a society..any society anywhere has its constrains…
I dont think one can avoid it..

"Easter is a time of love,of family, and of peace.It is a time when we saya quiet thanks for all that we haveand for all that the future holds.Easter is a feeling in our heartsof hope and faith and trust.
It is a day of miracles;a day when our dreams seem a little closer;a time of retrospection for what has been,and anticipation of all that will be.And it is a time for rememberingwith love and appreciationthe people in our liveswho make a difference…people like you."
I hope that you will have a nice, sunny Easter time :)many hugs,Nally

Hi dear, after a long time, im back again…..Hope you are in a great mood…well, everybody is fighting with the same problem but then everybody is following the same thing….how many times we scarifies our desires and our life just in the name of society and people…and in return what we are getting is always the same questions and objections for everything…Anyways…take care of urself…

Divoo thinks…

it feels funny at times
and cold too
it makes me feel uneasy
and peaceful too
i dunno what i want to say
but i know what i feel
i need to curb my thoughts
but the fruit of thought i peel
i shall and i will
but how and what
i might be able to
but i feel distraught
they overwhelm me
and i give in
i might do what is not right
but what i do ain't a sin
what i ought to know
is what i know not
i know it all i say
though i need not
are my thoughts the culprit
or is it me?
do i continue to question
or let it be?