How to Start Over if You've Lost Your VirginitySecondary virginity is a decision to abstain from sexual activity, starting with today and continuing until the day you get married. I't an opportunity to start over, Your physical virginity may be lost, but virginity is more than just a physical state, It's an attitude, a frame of mind. It's manifested in the way you look at yoursefl and others.

Secondary virginity is a chance to change bad habits and heal past wounds. It allows you to clean and renew yourself prior to marriage.

"We were so much into sex that we never became friends."

Five Steps to Becoming a Secondary Virgin

1. Make a firm commitment to save yourself for marriage from now on, and believe you can do it. (Because you can!)

2. Get away from people, places, things, and situations that weaken your self-control, Sometimes the healthiest thing we can do is avoid people who temptus.