We met 2 days before my undergrad graduation and his med school graduation. I had just gotten out of a five year relationship a month before so I wasn't really looking for a man but I saw him taking pictures and he was fine so I wanted to phuck. Anyways I approached him and his friend and introduced myself and while all of his friends were giving me the googly eyes that phucka acted like I wasn't even alive. So in my head I was like phuck him. Anyways his graduation was in the morning and mine was in the evening so he came because he knew some girl graduating with me. Afterwards the girl invited me to her graduation party and he ended up showing up to congratulate her. This phucka walked up in the place like he owned it looking all sexy and shyt and still avoiding the shyt out my ass.

About two weeks later I ran into the girl and asked about him and what his deal was. She told me that he was single and all the Nigerian girls wanted him so I was in for a fight. Turns out dude had graduated from pharmacy school and then went to medical school. That's all I needed to hear, I told her to give him my number. I no longer just wanted to phuck I was trying to put a ring on that.

So she gave him my number and he ended calling me while I was on a date with this dude that I wasn't really feeling. I remember trying to rush the date up so I could call him back. We ended up talking for hours that night and he was like if I knew you were interested I would have snatched you up a long time ago. So he asked me out the next day and the day after that and the day after that and so on and a month later he called me up and said hope you're not seeing anybody else because you're mine and I said cool. So here we are almost 4 years later.

I remember making a thread on bhm about him telling me he loved me and me being caught off guard and saying it back only to call him back and say I didn't really mean it. Eventually I was able to say it back and mean it. Yes I'm an ass but he's an ass too so it works perfectly.

so he was playing hard to get....he knew you were interested in him....lol..

called you UP AND SAID....YOU WERE HIS....Hot dayum...what a man, what a man ...what a mighty good man...

Mr. Blaquefoxx lived in my complex and I had a major crush on him. But I figured he was married or I wasn't his type. I used to see him sitting by the steps leading to my building and I would take another route because I would get nervous around him *blushes*

I used to stare at him from my window (no-stalker lol) sitting alone on the steps.

Came home one night from service and saw him. We were walking in the in the opposite direction heading towards our complex and it was too late for me to switch my route up. He finally spoke (said something real cheesy). Then I never saw him again :(

Bumped into him a few months later while going to school one morning and he was like "woman where have you been, I've been thinking about you for 3 months..." We started riding the train together to go to work. He told me he used to sit outside on the steps hoping I would come outside and every time he would muster up the courage to approach me I would walk on the other side of the street lol.

This is my second marriage.First one didn't make it. We married a week after graduation from law school. It lasted two years. We were both hell bent on doing whatever it took to succeed. We both knew that this black skin of ours meant that we'd have to do, and do and do! So...we did and did and did..and lost each other in the process. We parted as friends. We never spent any real time together once we graduated, so it wasn't hostile at all. But it did make us both look at what we'd done.

He has a lovely family now. Wife was an art major I think. He said one lady lawyer was enough.

He is still a great guy, but I am still the better lawyer.We've gone against each other professionally only once. One of those five lawyers on each side deal. His side lost!

This is my second marriage.First one didn't make it. We married a week after graduation from law school. It lasted two years. We were both hell bent on doing whatever it took to succeed. We both knew that this black skin of ours meant that we'd have to do, and do and do! So...we did and did and did..and lost each other in the process. We parted as friends. We never spent any real time together once we graduated, so it wasn't hostile at all. But it did make us both look at what we'd done.

He has a lovely family now. Wife was an art major I think. He said one lady lawyer was enough.

He is still a great guy, but I am still the better lawyer.We've gone against each other professionally only once. One of those five lawyers on each side deal. His side lost!

did it feel awkard when you both were at court? What kind of lawyer is he? Criminal, Medical,

that is great you both were mature enough to part ways and still be friends. No blaming each other..You live and learn...

He was good friends with my brother when I met him and I was in and out of a "situation". He also managed the record store next door to the restaurant where I worked. He flirted with me for about a good year and I was joking around like "stop playing". One day things suddenly just went from 25 to 100 and after we hooked up for the first time he told me "I can't be friends with you so if you're not ready to be mine leave me alone". My situation was still messy and he was running from being caught up in my drama with my son's father. We dated for a while and then became "friends" but kept our distance as much as possible. He got married (messy as hell) and other messiness ensued where my situation confronted him and he basically told a-hole that he would never try to get with me but if he (the a-hole) wasn't on his job he would be happy to take over. Fast forward a few years later we ran into each other one day and haven't parted since (20yrs).

A whole bunch of questionable sh*t happened in between where I likely needed to be choked but hey. ...true love prevailed

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