Cheap cigarettesdownload moviesWorld View: The world values a champion. Avoid failure at all costs.Basic Desire: to be admiredBasic Fear: of being rejected

Healthy loop controlled by Basic Desire:

Need to be admired ->
self-improvement ->
admired ->
Need to be admired

In the healthy state, the need to be admired induces Type Threes to work
hard to improve themselves and succeed, which often cause others around
them to admire them. When Threes feel admired, the need is
satisfied and a balance is reached.

In the average state, when Threes' are not working hard to improve
themselves, others admire them less, which increases Threes' need to
be admired. Thus this helps Threes to again work hard to improve
themselves. Thus the balancing loop can help Threes to recover.

Unhealthy loop controlled by Basic Fear:

Fear of being rejected ->
compete ->
admired ->
Fear of being rejected

In the unhealthy state, the basic fear of being rejected can cause Type
Threes to be competitive and hostile towards others
as a defense, which makes them even less admirable, and
further increases Threes' basic fear. The cycle continues to build
up.

Insight:

We can see from the diagram that a way to help break the control of the
basic fear is to weaken the unhealthy loop. Threes can refrain
from being competitive but focus on self-improvement instead. This
will lead to genuine admiration from others and lessen the fear of
rejection.