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Nope not appropriate unless I had a daughter who was at least 16 or older.

Younger children don't belong there. I think its a terrible way to introduce a new sibling. "This little creature is causing MY mommy pain, and I'm supposed to like the thing? I don't think so!" is what I would imagine would be the thought process of a young child.

Younger children don't belong there. I think its a terrible way to introduce a new sibling. "This little creature is causing MY mommy pain, and I'm supposed to like the thing? I don't think so!" is what I would imagine would be the thought process of a young child.
Answer by Ginger0104 2 minutes ago

I HAD to have my 2 yr old DD is the room. I was living in a state with no friends or family when I went into labor. When my then husband got there he was able to find a way to get her in the base daycare for a few hours while I had my son.

And I'm not sure about the boy thing, grace. I'm just not comfortable with it.
Answer by FreeForAll a minute ago

I get it... I think my feeling is that is something they should experience with their wife, having THEIR OWN children, not seeing their brother born. If that makes sense. I just think my boys would freak out and that the situation is just uncomfortable.