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Sunday, April 21, 2013

About Stress

Everyone complains about the stress in their lives.About how tired and burned out they feel at
times.About how little they enjoy
life.About the low quality of their
lives due to stress.On top of this is
the explosion in the numbers of people suffering stress-related illnesses later
in life.From obesity to heart disease
to stroke to cancer to Alzheimer’s – the list of stress caused or stress
related illnesses in endless.The
rapidly rising costs of stress related illness threatens to drown our economy
and overwhelm our ability to pay for.

So What is Stress?

The first thing to understand about stress is that it is
entirely normal feeling every individual experiences.

It’s our body’s reaction to the world around us; our feeling
of being stressed is what stimulates us to adapt, learn and grow.Recent research shows that new born infants
have fully-formed “stress circuits” in their bodies.These stress circuits are what allow each and
every one of us to learn and grow and adapt in life.Without stress in our lives, we wouldn’t have
a reason to learn and grow.

Where stress becomes a problem is when the situation and
events of our individual worlds come so regularly that haven’t the time to rest
and recover.

The Stress Cycle we use in this blog describes the emotional
and chemical processes of your body and mind.When you experience a stressful situation, whether an attack, an
argument or accident, your body releases powerful hormones such as adrenaline
and cortisol that saturate the organs of your body giving you the strength and
focus you need to survive a dangerous situation.

Keep your body saturated in these compounds without allowing
yourself time to recover and process, you are on a path that leads to physical
and mental exhaustion, Burn Out and physical and mental breakdown.Medical science links prolonged stress and
saturation with stress hormones to obesity, heart disease, stroke, cancer,
arthritis, mental illness, and Alzheimer’s.Your prolonged stress is even linked to physical and mental problems in
the lives of your children.

The Stress Cycle

To understand how stress works within your body and its
effects, you have to understand where our body’s mental and physical reactions
originate.As mentioned, feelings of stress
cause us to learn, adapt and grow.The
Stress Cycle comes from our animal survival mechanisms that have survived since
our very earliest days in the forests and on the savannahs of Africa, and
before.

It’s known in science as the Fight or Flight Reaction or
cycle.

Let’s say it’s 100,000 years ago, and you and your family
live with your clan in a small, movable camp on the forested edge of a large
prairie-like expanse.Your mother and
father and perhaps your grandmother and grandfather live with you, along with
your aunts and uncles, cousins, nephews and nieces.Everyone pitches in to the survival of your
clan by caring for your children while you dig for roots and tubers while
gathering berries and green, or while you hunt or scavenge for meat or
fish.Other clan member practice simple
industries such as tanning hides or weaving baskets when not hunting or
gathering.In the evenings your entire
clan gathers around your fire to eat, tell stories, dance and sing.Sounds pretty idyllic, doesn’t it.A no-stress life.

Except that nearby is a marauding bear or lion, and it
smells your camp.Perhaps it’s an older
animal unable to hunt deer, or it’s been injured, or perhaps it’s been poor
hunting, and prey is scarce.The animal
is hungry, and hunger is a powerful drive.To a hungry bear and lion, we’re food, so it prowls your camp looking
for a chance for a tasty morsel.

Sitting around your campfire you don’t hear or see anything,
you’re relaxed and enjoying your day.Suddenly, the carnivore strikes, perhaps dragging away a member of your
clan, or perhaps someone sees it in time, and throws a burning branch at it
while everyone else goes into action, the women hustling the kids into safety
next to the fire while the men pick up weapons and prepare to defend the clan.

So let’s stop here. What’s going on? Every person in the camp is feeling intense
stress at this moment.Their personal
and group survival is threatened.Each clan
member’s body reacts the same way.The
adrenal gland pumps adrenaline into your system, giving you amazing amounts of
physical strength and mental clarity.You become so mentally focused that time seems to slow to a crawl, and
you’re aware of every part of the world around you.You are in the midst of the Fight or Flight
reaction – the ultimate stress reaction of any animal.

Return to today.You’ve had a “stressful” day.Perhaps you were late to work, or you had a run-in with a customer or
co-worker, or received a traffic ticket or any number of other stressful
events.Remember how you felt at the
moment?You were suddenly filled with
energy and an ability to focus because your adrenal gland just pumped a
powerful hormone throughout your body.Time even seemed to slow down, didn’t it?It’s the modern version of Fight or Flight programmed
into the core of our minds and bodies.This is how every human reacts physically and mentally in a moment of
emergency.

Let’s go back to our early human ancestors. After the attack
– the bear or the lion has been driven away and no one is hurt – everyone in
the clan acts, to use a modern term, as if they were wired.Their bodies and minds are still drenched in
adrenaline, everyone has gone from the normal tired we all feel at the end of a
day to bounding with energy. It’s going
to take some time for these people to calm down.

All clan members sit by the fire and talk about the attack, laughing
about how one person ran, another hid, kidding each other about how wide their
eyes became, comforting the children.Each is processing the event for him or herself, explaining it to each
other, showing love and solidarity by making fun of other’s reactions to the
event.At the same time, the excess
adrenaline in the each person’s system is being used so that after some time individuals
become very tired.Are going to sleep soundly
tonight – except those assigned to remain awake and guard the camp.

Back to modern day.When you’ve had some sort of stressing event in your day.Didn’t it take some time to “come down”
afterwards?Didn’t you feel a strong
need to talk about it?That’s a
perfectly normal reaction, that’s how the human Stress Cycle works.

There are ways your Stress Cycle of life gets out of whack.

One occurs when someone suffers an event in which they have
a Fight or Flight crisis, but without having the opportunity to process the
event.A typical situation here would be
a soldier in combat who survives a fire fight.Back in camp, the focus is preparing for tomorrow’s risk, not processing
what happened today.Military culture
is such that talking about these events is seen as weakness, not a normal life
process.So there is little opportunity
for a full emotional recovery before the next survival event.Our bodies are not programmed to endure a
survival crisis followed by another by another without an opportunity to
recover both emotionally and physically.Men and women suffering Post Traumatic Stress Syndrome, or PTSD, are
enduring the emotional price for the lack of recovery time.PTSD can also happen to people who have been
in car accidents, shooting events, sudden and unexpected loss of a loved one,
have been raped or assaulted, or other overwhelming personal event.

The second way the Stress Cycle gets out of whack is when a
man or woman is constantly “on”.The
Stress Cycle also mirrors our body’s energy cycle in which we expend our
limited supply of energy and concentration without allowing time for our minds
and bodies to recover.

You may have job that requires you to work fifty to sixty
hours per week, or your job requires that you be constantly available via cell
phone or eMail.You may have constant
emotional run-ins with co-workers or your boss that stimulates your Stress
Cycle and leaves you feeling amped up or wired and that takes time to pass,
time you often don’t have because here comes the next crisis.

This long-term abuse of our natural Stress Cycle leads to
exhaustion and burn-out.In worse cases,
unrelieved stress can lead to rage reactions where some petty little thing sets
you off and you vent all your pent up emotions at something or someone
completely unrelated.An example is road
rage.

Enduring years of never-ending, low-level stress causes
long-term damage to your body and mind if you don’t learn to manage your Stress
Cycles.Stress is a known cause of
obesity, heart disease, cancer, arthritis and on and on.Stress is a known cause of Alzheimer’s
Disease and is linked to non-Alzheimer’s memory loss and an inability to do the
simplest household tasks later in life.We’re talking about dressing yourself, or answering the telephone, or
even to use a television control.

Not allowing your body and mind to recover from the stress
you feel causes problems in all aspects of your life; the stress you feel is
transmitted to the other members of your family and will even affects your children’s
health and well-being throughout their lifetimes.

One thing I’ve learned researching this story is that the
only person who can manage your Stress Cycle is you.I have to control my cycle, you must control
yours.It really is that simple.There is nothing the government can do.We can’t outlaw stress.While I can stress you out, only I can manage
my Stress Cycle in a way that promotes my immediate health and happiness and
prevents much more serious illness later in my life.

And there are many ways to this.

Re-framing.This is a term of psychologists that means
changing how you think about something.If you work to accept that stress is a normal part of life, and that
your Stress Cycle can be managed, you’ve taken a good first step in improving
your quality of life.Your Stress Cycle
is something you learn to manage, especially allowing time for your body to
recover and your mind to process the events of your life. Stress and the Stress Cycle is normal, it is
routine, it is programmed into our very minds and body so has to be accepted as
a normal part of life.

Food.Managing your Stress Cycle includes the
choices you make of foods, but more importantly, how you prepare and consume
food.One way your stress affects your
children is first, an over-reliance on fast foods, and second, the lack of
family meals prepared by the entire family and consumed together sitting at a
table without the distraction of television, radio or electronic devices.The simplest explanation is that people who
follow the Slow Food Movement do a better job of handling the stresses of their
lives and managing their Stress Cycle.

Chocolate.Research shows that the bodies of people who eat 1.5 ounces of
dark, 60%+ chocolate a day handle stress differently, with the wonderful added
bonus that people who regularly eat dark chocolate weigh less than others who
consume the same number of calories per day.
(Known as the Kathryn Hepburn effect.)

Exercise.It’s an old saw to say that peope who
regularly exercise feel better.Getting
your heart rate up for thirty minutes at least three times a week helps cleanse
your body of the by-products of stress.And this doesn’t have to involve joining a gym or buying expensive
running shoes.Parking in the rear of a
parking lot and walking at a comfortable pace to the door of the mall counts as
part of your exercise. This is the way Olympic Champion and American icon Jesse
Owens stayed within pounds of his best running weight throughout his long and
healthy life:he deliberately parked a
few blocks further from appointments than he needed to, and walked.No gym membership, no exercise coach, no
running stairs.He simply managed his life
to include that most basic human activity, walking.

·Since adding walking and bicycling as a normal
part of my life since August of 2010, I’ve lost over fifty pounds and am no
longer borderline diabetic.I now walk
the six blocks to the supermarket and the four blocks to my favorite coffee
shop.If you live in the suburbs were
you must drive, simply add the ritual of parking across the parking lot from
the store or a few blocks away from an appointment.Walking an extra block here and fifty feet
there adds up.

Friends & Family:Like the pre-historic clan we imagined above,
friends and family and critical to managing our Stress Cycles, especially the
emotional side of the cycle.Talking
about stressful events is a tremendous release that allows us to process these
events and to come to terms with our lives.

On the Job:The workplace is the single largest source of stress in a
modern American’s life.All too often,
you may be required to work long hours in difficult circumstances that sap
both your emotional and physical energy, and don’t allow your body and mind the
recovery time it must have for you to be healthy.Stress related disability claims in the U.S.
are exploding, leading to higher employer insurance premiums.

If you’re an employee in a situation that demands what could be called over-performance, keep in mind that you are setting yourself up for illness and disability later in your life.I can’t be any more blunt than that. This may require you to talk about this with your boss.You may just have to draw a sharp line between your job and your home life, and enforcing it by turning off your cell phone, by not checking messages and emails, and focusing on family and friends – and your personal recovery from the demands of your week.

If you’re an employer, manager or supervisor, your best strategy for your personal long-term success is to realize that you must allow the people you supervise time to recover from the demands of their jobs or your employee turnover and disability costs are going to grow.

Bear in mind that unless you are the owner of the business
or organization, you are both boss and employee.In the old saying about something rolling
down hill, this is another way of saying I can relieve my stress by making it
someone else’s problem.It’s important
you keep your role as an employee and an employer in mind, and don’t pass your
stress on to someone who may not have your capacity to manage their body’s and
mind’s Stress Cycles.

If you are an owner of business, whether you are self-employed
or have employees, research has shown that because you have control over your
schedule, you have the control needed to truly manage your stress cycle.Even though you may take work home, you’re in
a position to focus on your home life.

Lifestyle:How a person chooses to live their day to day
life has a large impact on your Stress Cycle.For example, research has shown that people who take part in community
gardening projects weigh less and are less bothered by day to day stresses.People who attend church or belong to civic
groups have built themselves a personal support system that allows them to get
away from the daily stresses of job and family while maintaining friendships
with people you can simply talk to when needed.

Volunteer.An interesting piece of research from the last several years shows that if you feel like you don’t have enough time in your life to meet all of its demands, you can create time by volunteering.This sounds backwards, but hard research shows that people who regularly give time to a charity feel less time pressured and less stressed. Interesting, no?

Laugh.Laughter is a great stress release.Unfortunately, not everyone has a sense of humor.If you do know how to laugh, then use laughter to manage your Stress Cycle.Read funny authors both old and new.Regularly watch those sitcoms that give you a giggle.Go to comedies or screen them in your home.Among my personal favorites are Laurel & Hardy.I’ve seen some of their movies such as Demon Machine or Towed in a Hole any number of times, but they still get me giggling still.

Mindful Awareness.Mindful awareness is a simple technique
derived from the Buddhist practice of meditation that is amazingly effective in
helping manage a person’s Stress Cycle. Current scientific research shows that men and
women who practice mindful awareness do a much better job ofmanaging their Stress Cycles, tend to be less
obese, have fewer relationship problems, report being happier and more
satisfied with their lives, and so on.It has even been shown that practicing Mindful Awareness is an effective
treatment for AIDS and HIV infection, measurably lowering a patient’s infected
cell counts.

Therapy.There are times and situations where the
stresses of our lives are simply overwhelming, and we need professional,
trained help.Men and women suffering
the life destroying, personally debilitating illness of PTSD require
professional or professionally supervised help.People suffering the symptoms of physical
and mental exhaustion or burn out need at least medical help and probably some
psychological support if they are to recover today and not suffer serious
disability later in life.

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We'll be exploring stress and it's affects on your life, and ways you can better manage your stress in upcoming posts.

The purpose of The Stress Blog is to explore the science
behind your Stress Cycle, to help you understand how it works and to learn of practical
ways you can manage how stress affects you today and in your future. If you are experiencing symptoms, please
contact a physician or other health care professional for diagnosis and
treatment.Information presented in this
blog is strictly educational and is not intended for diagnosis or treatment of
any illness or condition.

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