a mother`s wish

` staying at the back, giving power and support to those who are in front & still being egoless….This is what we should learn from the digit zero.` This message was sent to me by my niece . Thanks to the cell phones and free SMS plans. We remain in touch and convey what we sometimes are unable because of one reason or the other.

Parent`s role in our lives is much more than digit zero but sometimes in this materialistic world the numerological value of zero reduces the parents place to zero in the front instead at the back. This is very unfortunate but prevalent.

Children forget that they are up the ladder this moment, but what will happen when they are down the ladder! Will they ever relish what they are cooking in the present (now), when served to them tomorrow (then). I am sure they will discard it as distasteful. I have a question to ask from these individuals –how could they serve such a distasteful attitude to those who sacrificed everything so that they can bloom? They simply forget that someone has always prayed for their safety and happiness first and more than theirs.

Now when it is their time to look after their parents in twilight they set their own priorities.

Parents love and especially mothers`s love is unconditional like the light and warmth of the sun. The sun never says to earth,”you owe me”Likewise, the mother brings warmth to everything she touches, and yet never asks for anything. Present generation is becoming more materialistic and less realistic to the fact what life has to offer them. To love without condition, to talk without intention, to give without reason and to care without expectation is the art of true relationship.

A true relationship is holding hands in the critical times. It is a feeling in which you care for someone more than yourself. Relationship is like a monument. Everybody will wonder how beautiful it is! But nobody thinks, how much difficult it was to build.A relationship is like a garden. It’s beautiful when watered with love, hugs, tears and cheers. But it dries up, if left untouched.

My only submission to younger generation is to tend to this relation very dearly. Make this one of your priority.