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Since my wife is unwilling to commit to participating in an encounter, we are looking for a MM experience with a unpredictable F. We have been very honest with the people that we have talked too. It seems that they are mostly interested in the wife and think they can persuade her to join. Do you think we should continue looking for a bi male or consider a gay man who is comfortable with a wifes presence.

I'm not sure interested is the right word. I have chickened out on occasion or two so I have a confidence issue. That is why we include that info. On the other hand, my wonderful hubby knows exactly what he wants and has no issues. I can honestly say that I am 100% behind him getting what he wants. In fact it was my idea. We had just gotten done with the strap on and I told him that if he liked the toy he would like the real thing way more. Here we are.

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I am bi and i am in chicago

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You can watch for an opportunity to join a bi house or hotel party. They are always no pressure, so the wife can go at her own pace. They don't come up often and usually are private (for descretion reasons).

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"Since my wife is unwilling to commit to participating in an encounter, we are looking for a MM experience with a unpredictable F."

Is your wife really interested in this lifestyle? By the way, welcome to the forums.

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Hang in there for a bi man. I love engaging in MM encounters while the wife watches. There are surely more bi maen than me that enjoy this! Too bad you aren't closer!

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Since my wife is unwilling to commit to participating in an encounter, we are looking for a MM experience with a unpredictable F. We have been very honest with the people that we have talked too. It seems that they are mostly interested in the wife and think they can persuade her to join. Do you think we should continue looking for a bi male or consider a gay man who is comfortable with a wifes presence.