Most often men using online dating sites to meet and interact with pretty Chinese girls are not able to maintain a strong relationship with these females. This is because most of them have certain fears that stop them from putting their whole hearted effort into ensuring the success of their relationship. Sadly, not many men are even fully aware of the fears that might be sabotaging the future of an otherwise strong and beautiful relationship with a Chinese female.

Generally, men have three kinds of fears which can prevent them from enjoying a happy and fulfilling relationship with their online dating partners. Most men are generally afraid of trusting other people and this includes the Chinese girls they might choose to date online. In addition, men might fear the prospect of falling in love and ending up being cheated or worse being left heartbroken. Then there are men who are afraid of handling the responsibilities of a committed relationship or fear that once they enter into a long term relationship with a Chinese woman, they would be forced to live a disciplined life.

Most often the causes for all the above fears lie in the past of men suffering from them. These might include an abusive childhood, a series of failed relationships, a dominating ex-partner or girlfriend, to name just a few. However, men need to understand that just because they have had a bad experience with some females in their past does not necessarily mean that the Chinese girls they choose to date would also treat them in the same manner. It is important for them to let go of their skepticism and give their Chinese dating partners a chance to prove their love and commitment toward them. Unless they do so, neither can they hope to find a good Chinese dating partner and life mate nor can they hope to overcome the pain of injustice and hurt that they might have suffered in their past.