When I like a guy, everyone knows
it. I talk with the guy and joke around because I’m very outgoing. How can I
make my intentions less obvious but still get the guy to like me?

Dave: Girls
who normally write to us are the opposite of you. You’ve already mastered
Flirting 101. It’s cool that you express yourself in such a relaxed way. I’m
sure your personality puts guys at ease. Don’t change the way you are just
because others aren’t as outgoing.

Bill: Am I missing something here?
You’re fun to be around, and you have no problem getting along with guys. Is
there a reason you need to keep crushes secret? Are you part of a secret
society? Do you have a secret handshake? A secret wink? Go with the personality
you have. You’ll wind up with guys who like you for who you are.