First of all make it clear that if appearance has to do something with anything at all then it’s not love for sure, it’s attraction. It was many months before I saw Mocha, my dog, again. Mocha looked at me, then looked away with an actual HURT look on her face, like “You abandoned me.” I don’t think I’m projecting—if you have a dog, you know how expressive their faces can be. My controversial posts are edited from feeds. Please bookmark my Quora profile if you’d like to read them.