I was molested by a Catholic priest, says Lola Omotayo-Okoye

LOLA Omotoya-Okoye, wife of Peter of P’Square fame, has opened up on two major issues that nearly ruined her life as a teenager.

The first issue, according to her, is the molestation she suffered in the hands of a Catholic priest. She said the incident disturbed her emotionally, and made her to be rebellious.

“When I was a young girl in my early teens in high school, I was molested by a Catholic priest. I blamed myself. I didn’t tell anyone because I was ashamed. I couldn’t tell anyone because everyone would blame me; so I carried on the guilt and bitterness with me for years. I was filled with hate and I became an angry person. I was rebellious; I didn’t want to listen to anybody, and because I wanted to be expelled from school to avoid seeing this person, I would do so many terrible things, everything around me was just so negative,” she said.

The beautiful mother of two carried on with her bitterness, up to the university where she thought she had fallen in love, until her lover turned her to a punching bag; making her feel she is not good enough for anything or anybody. “I moved on to the university, met the love of my life and I’m like, okay this guy is cool, he loves me…and then, he started to abuse me….I was beaten black and blue all the time; in front of friends, in the public, and at a point I felt I was not worthy of anybody there is nothing about me that is nice, nobody loves me but I hid this from my family”

However, the turning point for Lola came when she decided to sink her energy in work before finding a counsellor who helped her out.

Lola, who was speaking on a TV show, Dare2Dream, also revealed how friends and family members discouraged her from dating her hubby, but she stood by him and today she has got a beautiful life, “Look at my husband, when I met him peeps were like what are you doing with him, he has nothing but I stood my ground and choose to stick with him cos he had a dream. He and his twin brother did not let their dream die, they worked hard. Look at them today! I stuck by him because he had focus and drive and today I am happy, I have a good life, we are happy and we have got a beautiful family. No one can make you a loser.”

Natural Solution
To Solve, Cure And Prolong Ejaculation! LAST MUCH MORE LONGER IN BED
WITH ANY WOMAN NATURALLY WITHOUT Dangerous Pills, Herbs and Medication.

@ www. peculated. blogspot. com.,

jumy

Thumbs up mrs. Okoye! U r an overcomer 🙂

Regan Ray

Lola,since you know it was your fault in your encounter with catholic priest, why mention it in your interview. What is your intention now? To blackmail Catholic priests? Secondly, it is possible it is your fault for your former man to use you as punching bag. You German blooded ladies brag a lot & very disrespectful. Thank God that those punches brought senses into you, other wise you would not have been lucky to marry to such a disciplined ,handsome, cultured and creative young man like Peter Okoye. Him don de sweet you now.

Emeka Osuji

Shame on you Regan Ray. Before you leave this life you would experience first hand what it feels like to be an abused victim, then you would talk with a little more respect and empathy.

Regan Ray

Emeka osuji, you take for granted that every alarm raised by ladies is genuine without reading through. She said it was her fault. Come to our universities and see what girls do with themselves, for penury. Very soon we shall hear about your name enmeshed in girls controversy, is my prayer for you.

Emeka Osuji

So if a girl of her choice decides to dress half naked, or even naked, is that any justification for a sane man who was properly raised by a woman to sexually abuse them. Nothing justifies such action sir, absolutely nothing. If you can come up with a stronger argument, I’d like to hear it.
If God decides to punish us everytime we err, you won’t be here. He allows the rain pour on both the good and the bad. I don’t suppose you’re wiser than Him.

julie

Lola, thank you for opening up,that you have overcome all to be a contended lady,would encourag others,to look beyond their afflictions.
As for people like Reagan Ray,who have nothing encouraging to say,let him be,tomorrow has lessons for hi.