Seems like your photos contradict your text. Generally speaking Christians try to avoid flipping anyone the bird as basic disrespect so your credibility suffers. It would tend to lower the drama in your life if you didn't amplify it with aggressive gestures which pretty much most of your photos do so you have made yourself a target in and all ages site.

You might have a very different response if you took off the sunglasses, put on a shirt, smiled, and played up the responsible aspects of your life. At 27 you want to show you have a solid job, a place of your own, transportation, healthy relationships, and assets rather than expensive toys to play with the boys. Know that sounds kind of boring but given the mean age of DHer's you probably want to be trying for support and referrals to the women your age. Put yourself out there in a way that a parent would not slam the door in your face when you called on their daughter or sister or friend.

Nothing wrong with rocking on for Jesus or earning your way as a musician but you don't want to look like and over grown Garanimal in and out dated hairstyle harassing the neighbors in a garage band.

I credit you with your respectful response to criticism. I do disagree to the references to abbreviations because that is age appropriate and twenty something females talk the same way.