Post by nthingtolose on Apr 17, 2013 10:34:41 GMT -5

By far the biggest summers breeze move is to talk in the middle of a set. We are there to hear these artists touch our soul and no one seriously wants to hear your voice. Period.

I keep thinking about Buddy Wakefield spot on here, "juggling predictable conversationwith folks who look like iceberg lettuceand who believe that somehowthe flat lines of small talk will give us life.I want them to leave,like a big deal orchestra removing itself from the stringed sectionso I can fiddle with fate and make music.’

Post by Roo'adelphia on Apr 17, 2013 10:35:43 GMT -5

You're huge blanket does not constitute the do not cross line when you are 20 yards off the rail for a headliner.Some people spend a whole show trying to find their friends. Make friends with the people around you. Nothing lessens the tensions of a packed What stage crowd jockeying for position then knowing your set neighbors. Maybe pass one around or share a brew/give out some water to a person looking a little dehydrated. (short folk make friends with the tall people. Most are more willing to let you move infront of them if you dont barrel them over like a dbag.)

Post by gratefuled on Apr 17, 2013 10:37:43 GMT -5

Could you please just pay attention to your feet and not step on me or my friends where we're sitting/lying around as you're making your drunken confused oblivious "where's my peeps?" way across the outer reaches of What? We moved to the back so we could stretch out and relax, and now you're stomping on us.

This year I'll be setting a bear trap in the middle of our blanket.

I go the exact opposite way on this idea. You said you move to the back to stretch out so I am cool with that. But to the guy/girl that decided that in the midst of 60.000 people during a headline set was a good time lay down on your blanky and take a nap, I'm probably going to accidentally step on you, bump, or kick you when walking through (not maliciously, i try to keep the vibes happy) . Also, while I am doing a ballet routine to miss you while you drift off to dream land I am probably going to step on the corner of you blanket, so don't bother glaring at me as I do it. Don't worry the bottom of my Sanuk is not going to do any permanent damage to the piece of cloth that is spending 4 day on the ground with your dirty ass on it.

Well...OK, so yeah, it sounds like we agree that it's not the accidental and inevitable brush-by that makes one a douche. I'm sure you've seen this: towards the back of What isn't exactly in the midst of 60,000 people -- things open up, the crowd transitions from standing to sitting and/or lying, and groups of people cluster on the ground with a little space in between each group. Seems like in a circumstance like that it's just downright rude to actually step on a person or on a backpack or whatever, simply because you're not paying attention to where you're putting your feet. Corner of a blanket? No worries. My thigh, or my sunglasses, or kicking my beer over? Yeah, I'm going to glare at you.

Post by nthingtolose on Apr 17, 2013 10:39:26 GMT -5

You're huge blanket does not constitute the do not cross line when you are 20 yards off the rail for a headliner.Some people spend a whole show trying to find their friends. Make friends with the people around you. Nothing lessens the tensions of a packed What stage crowd jockeying for position then knowing your set neighbors. Maybe pass one around or share a brew/give out some water to a person looking a little dehydrated. (short folk make friends with the tall people. Most are more willing to let you move infront of them if you dont barrel them over like a dbag.)

Post by gratefuled on Apr 17, 2013 10:43:24 GMT -5

You're huge blanket does not constitute the do not cross line when you are 20 yards off the rail for a headliner.Some people spend a whole show trying to find their friends. Make friends with the people around you. Nothing lessens the tensions of a packed What stage crowd jockeying for position then knowing your set neighbors. Maybe pass one around or share a brew/give out some water to a person looking a little dehydrated. (short folk make friends with the tall people. Most are more willing to let you move infront of them if you dont barrel them over like a dbag.)

Totally agree with this. The personal space you can expect depends on the area where you're watching the show from, and even this is constantly in flux, so to make friends, be one.

Post by Boner on Apr 17, 2013 10:57:39 GMT -5

Pro Tips from a Canadian: - for moving through a crowd, say "excuse me" and "sorry" a shiz ton. Even if you don't really need to. People will assume you are Canadian, feel sorry for you, and let you go on by. - if somebody is giving you an unreasonably hard time for being in their space, and you are feeling intimidated, just spoligise snd give them a big hug. if that only makes matters worse, start singing "Oh Canada" very loudly, other Canadians will hear this and come to your side.- OP, stop cussin'. These are inconveniences for sure, but there's no need to get that hot and bothered about it. Bonnaroo is too short to waste time being angry and upset.

You're Canadian?

I am a lumberjack, and a fur trader, I live in an igloo and eat blubber, and own a dog sled, and yes I do I know Jimmy, Sally and Suzy from Canada, and yes, they're really, really nice.

I have a Prime Minister, not a President. I speak English and French, not American, and I pronounce it 'a boot', not 'about'.

I can proudly sew my country's flag on my backpack. I believe in peacekeeping, not policing; diversity, not assimilation; and that the beaver is a truly proud and noble animal.A tuque is a hat, a chesterfield is a couch, and it is pronounced zed: not zee – zed!!Canada is the second largest land mass! The first nation of hockey! And the best part of North America!My name is Boneroo!! And I am Canadian!

Post by postjack on Apr 17, 2013 11:46:12 GMT -5

I was laying down in the back field of What waiting for someone to start. It was dark, and a guy walking by totally kicked me on accident. I didn't mind at all because he realized what he did, turned around, and apologized genuinely and profusely.

A simple apology and recognition of one's error can really keep the vibe going. Lets face it, its crowded and dark, people are going to get stepped on, people are going to be accidentally hurt in other ways. What matters is A) you apologize and B) try to make amends by not engaging in the same behavior to others, if at all possible.

In my case, I knew I was laying in a dark field, I expected to get stepped on, but I did appreciate the apology.

Post by crazykittensmile on Apr 17, 2013 12:05:33 GMT -5

I was laying down in the back field of What waiting for someone to start. It was dark, and a guy walking by totally kicked me on accident. I didn't mind at all because he realized what he did, turned around, and apologized genuinely and profusely.

A simple apology and recognition of one's error can really keep the vibe going. Lets face it, its crowded and dark, people are going to get stepped on, people are going to be accidentally hurt in other ways. What matters is A) you apologize and B) try to make amends by not engaging in the same behavior to others, if at all possible.

In my case, I knew I was laying in a dark field, I expected to get stepped on, but I did appreciate the apology.

I've seen people with various glowy strands and bits on their persons and along the edges of their blankets. This seems like a good preventative measure if you're planning to sprawl out at night.

Post by SwiggitySwoodyComin4DatBooty on Apr 17, 2013 12:11:05 GMT -5

Pro Tips from a Canadian: - for moving through a crowd, say "excuse me" and "sorry" a shiz ton. Even if you don't really need to. People will assume you are Canadian, feel sorry for you, and let you go on by. - if somebody is giving you an unreasonably hard time for being in their space, and you are feeling intimidated, just spoligise snd give them a big hug. if that only makes matters worse, start singing "Oh Canada" very loudly, other Canadians will hear this and come to your side.- OP, stop cussin'. These are inconveniences for sure, but there's no need to get that hot and bothered about it. Bonnaroo is too short to waste time being angry and upset.

This is all I'm sayin', be courteous. This post was for all the people who might be new to huge crowded festivals. But it seems I have stirred up some shiz. Whatevs, my b yall.

Post by Roo'adelphia on Apr 17, 2013 12:11:48 GMT -5

I like to put my glowsticks by people sleeping in the grass at night. They will be usless the next day anyway so mide as well put them to some use. Hopefully they attract attention to the ground so our slumbering Roosters can sleep in peace instead of catching a foot to the face.

Post by bonnaroodavid on Apr 17, 2013 12:41:15 GMT -5

short folk make friends with the tall people. Most are more willing to let you move infront of them if you dont barrel them over like a dbag.

I need to make friends asap cuz I don't plan on growing any taller by Roo

I never mind if shorter people get in front of me. I'm 6'1" so I can generally see over people fairly well. Although it seems like every time I really want to see something, two people who should play basketball stop directly in front of me

Post by postjack on Apr 17, 2013 14:06:34 GMT -5

I was laying down in the back field of What waiting for someone to start. It was dark, and a guy walking by totally kicked me on accident. I didn't mind at all because he realized what he did, turned around, and apologized genuinely and profusely.

A simple apology and recognition of one's error can really keep the vibe going. Lets face it, its crowded and dark, people are going to get stepped on, people are going to be accidentally hurt in other ways. What matters is A) you apologize and B) try to make amends by not engaging in the same behavior to others, if at all possible.

In my case, I knew I was laying in a dark field, I expected to get stepped on, but I did appreciate the apology.

I've seen people with various glowy strands and bits on their persons and along the edges of their blankets. This seems like a good preventative measure if you're planning to sprawl out at night.

That is a fantastic idea. I'll definitely put some glow sticks and whatnot on my roo packing list for this year. Thanks!

Post by railroad436 on Apr 19, 2013 12:43:31 GMT -5

I need to make friends asap cuz I don't plan on growing any taller by Roo

I never mind if shorter people get in front of me. I'm 6'1" so I can generally see over people fairly well. Although it seems like every time I really want to see something, two people who should play basketball stop directly in front of me

This is my top complaint. I dont really care about being bumped or talking because I expect those things to happen and I can block out whatever sounds I want too (probably the reason I am divorced). I am only 5' 8" so a lot of people are taller than me. I hate it when someone that is like 6 feet or taller just decides that of all the spots to stand, they do so directly in front of me blocking my entire view. This happened during RHCP like 20 minutes into the set last year.

I know tall people have a right to see the show as I do but just take a look behind you and see if you have anyone a few inches taller than you behind you and if you are blocking their view and adjust yourself if necessary or allow them to get in front of you. If you got to the spot after they did, it is common courtesy to allow them to have the view they had claimed. If the shorter person shows up later, then they should adjust themselves so they can see and dont really have a right to complain or I dont.

I was at a music performance for my daughter a few weeks ago and videotaping the show. There were like 8 empty seats in front of me but a guy shows up that is pretty tall and chooses the one right in front of me when I have a video camera out in front of me. Not sure how he could miss that.

Post by roolocal on Apr 19, 2013 19:28:35 GMT -5

So I guess it would not be a good idea to bring my car to the main stage every night and pretend like Im at the drive in? Maybe I will just drive it to the This tent and watch shows, Im pretty sure I could get close in my car. lol

Post by ilovethisgame on Apr 22, 2013 23:23:26 GMT -5

I never mind if shorter people get in front of me. I'm 6'1" so I can generally see over people fairly well. Although it seems like every time I really want to see something, two people who should play basketball stop directly in front of me

This is my top complaint. I dont really care about being bumped or talking because I expect those things to happen and I can block out whatever sounds I want too (probably the reason I am divorced). I am only 5' 8" so a lot of people are taller than me. I hate it when someone that is like 6 feet or taller just decides that of all the spots to stand, they do so directly in front of me blocking my entire view. This happened during RHCP like 20 minutes into the set last year.

I know tall people have a right to see the show as I do but just take a look behind you and see if you have anyone a few inches taller than you behind you and if you are blocking their view and adjust yourself if necessary or allow them to get in front of you. If you got to the spot after they did, it is common courtesy to allow them to have the view they had claimed. If the shorter person shows up later, then they should adjust themselves so they can see and dont really have a right to complain or I dont.

I was at a music performance for my daughter a few weeks ago and videotaping the show. There were like 8 empty seats in front of me but a guy shows up that is pretty tall and chooses the one right in front of me when I have a video camera out in front of me. Not sure how he could miss that.

I hear where you're coming from, but if tall people did what you suggested, we might as well just stand way in the back to begin with - and what's the fun in that (assuming we also want a good view)? I'm a little over 6', and my biggest thing is staying put once I'm in a spot. I've had taller people than me start out in one spot, and I get lined up perfectly in the gap between them and another person. Then, at some point, they magically shift to being directly in front of me! Since space is pretty tight, it's not easy to shift with them without bothering others around me. It's no fun - so I keep that in mind for others that are behind me at shows.

Post by Dan'ROO on Apr 24, 2013 21:49:30 GMT -5

I'm a pretty tall dude m'self, standin' around 6'3''. Now I do sympathize with you shorter folks out there, and so long as you ask nicely and there's room I will generally allow you in front of me. But y'all have to realize I also got there early enough to claim my spot and don't get all bitchy if I don't let you in front of me.

Post by railroad436 on Apr 26, 2013 11:56:19 GMT -5

This is my top complaint. I dont really care about being bumped or talking because I expect those things to happen and I can block out whatever sounds I want too (probably the reason I am divorced). I am only 5' 8" so a lot of people are taller than me. I hate it when someone that is like 6 feet or taller just decides that of all the spots to stand, they do so directly in front of me blocking my entire view. This happened during RHCP like 20 minutes into the set last year.

I know tall people have a right to see the show as I do but just take a look behind you and see if you have anyone a few inches taller than you behind you and if you are blocking their view and adjust yourself if necessary or allow them to get in front of you. If you got to the spot after they did, it is common courtesy to allow them to have the view they had claimed. If the shorter person shows up later, then they should adjust themselves so they can see and dont really have a right to complain or I dont.

I was at a music performance for my daughter a few weeks ago and videotaping the show. There were like 8 empty seats in front of me but a guy shows up that is pretty tall and chooses the one right in front of me when I have a video camera out in front of me. Not sure how he could miss that.

I hear where you're coming from, but if tall people did what you suggested, we might as well just stand way in the back to begin with - and what's the fun in that (assuming we also want a good view)? I'm a little over 6', and my biggest thing is staying put once I'm in a spot. I've had taller people than me start out in one spot, and I get lined up perfectly in the gap between them and another person. Then, at some point, they magically shift to being directly in front of me! Since space is pretty tight, it's not easy to shift with them without bothering others around me. It's no fun - so I keep that in mind for others that are behind me at shows.

I am just talking about tall people who squeeze into tight spots where people have been and choose to stand directly in front of someone significantly taller. You have just as much right to choose a spot as everyone else but if you are moving into a crowded area and people have established a space, I think it is just common courtesy to check to try to make sure you dont block someone who has claimed a spot already. There arent a lot of people shorter than me but I always check to make sure I am not blocking someone who was there before me when I go to a stage and move into the crowd.

Post by rymobrady on May 19, 2013 19:46:51 GMT -5

I swear to f@cking god do NOT barrel your way to the front with your friends in a congo-line hand holding chain. Someone will probably break your chain, because you are being a doosh.

It was quite funny when a solid 10-15 person chain tried walking right through my 10-15 person group of friends during Radiohead. We blocked the path for the last guy, whose friends obviously didn't wait up for him (b/c they are dooshes). We probably ruined his night. Whatever, f*ck him. Doosh.

Post by rymobrady on May 19, 2013 20:20:46 GMT -5

Fearless Leader doth decree; once a show begins...1. do not walk through, around, or in front of anyone. stay put. no restroom breaks till after set. you should have been ready. 10 hours wasted is no excuse for tardiness.2. everyone take 1 step back.3. put your hands out to your sides, take one side step, so that everyone has enough room. 4. no talking once any band starts playing. 11 hours wasted is no excuse for babbling like an idiot. be on point at all times. 5. don't wear any full backpacks, large hats, carry any flags, totems, or any other accoutrements that may possibly annoy the "Roolers". 6. do not step on peoples toes. again, 12 hours wasted is no excuse. 7. share this with the other 79,900+ attendees who will not read this. in fact, post any lists of personal festival annoyances on all neighboring tents/rvs. 8. when the bell sounds, be at your desk with your pencil sharpened and ready.9. now that we've covered that.. relax, be cool in accordance with said definition, and go have some fun!!

Post by rdk on May 19, 2013 20:42:22 GMT -5

Fearless Leader doth decree; once a show begins...1. do not walk through, around, or in front of anyone. stay put. no restroom breaks till after set. you should have been ready. 10 hours wasted is no excuse for tardiness.2. everyone take 1 step back.3. put your hands out to your sides, take one side step, so that everyone has enough room. 4. no talking once any band starts playing. 11 hours wasted is no excuse for babbling like an idiot. be on point at all times. 5. don't wear any full backpacks, large hats, carry any flags, totems, or any other accoutrements that may possibly annoy the "Roolers". 6. do not step on peoples toes. again, 12 hours wasted is no excuse. 7. share this with the other 79,900+ attendees who will not read this. in fact, post any lists of personal festival annoyances on all neighboring tents/rvs. 8. when the bell sounds, be at your desk with your pencil sharpened and ready.9. now that we've covered that.. relax, be cool in accordance with said definition, and go have some fun!!