Does she just like how I treat her. She admitted she liked me

I've been talking to a girl for a few days. We only just started texting and I'm not really sure a whole lot about her life yet. However, I think she likes how I treat her and all that. She wound up admitting that she likes me. She also thinks that because I didn't tell her that I like her (which I don't even know if I do yet) that I don't like her. Now she's being standoffish. What should I do?

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Don't string her along. Obviously she's not into taking things slow and wants something she can be sure of, straight away. Not every girl is like that... but it's an indication that she likes you a lot and she's pushing you into admitting you like her back or reject her. The stand off thing is her way of protecting herself and also forcing you into action. So you need to decide how you really feel about her. If there's going to be nothing between you, let her know that. Sounds like that's what she wants.

Ha, yeah, unfortunately we want a nice guy and often misinterpret a nice guy trying to be our friend as him wanting something more. A guy I know was once in your predicament with me and he offered friendship and I rejected it because I liked him& got insulted he didn't want me, so we didn't stay friends,now we are just nothing.I wasn't prepared to be his friend and wait around for anything to possibly happen. I wanted what he couldn't give me, not at that point in time. Your girl sounds the same

I'm not saying all girls can't be just friends with guys they like. That's a personal decision. Just friends means none of the intimacy that goes with a relationship and sometimes when you really want that with someone but they don't want it with you, it can be difficult to still hang out with them. Not ALL men can just be friends with a girl they like either, for the same reason. If you can, good for you. If you can't, that's not wrong or bad either.

Because anyone is free to choose to be friends or not be friends with anyone. It doesn't mean you treat them horribly, but you don't have to spend any time with that person either especially if it's painful to do so. The girl you're talking about here might have strong feelings for you and can't just be friends. If that's the case and you don't reciprocate, she's allowed to distance herself from you to avoid getting hurt. It just sounds like all she wants to know from you is where she stands.

No, it's not, and she's being a bit unreasonable, considering you don't know her well enough yet to decide if you like her romantically and she can't accept that hence the stand off behavior - which is immature by the way, when I said it's not wrong or bad to distance yourself, it is stupid to give the silent treatment with no explanation. You can try saying to her that you're not sure how you feel and that you'd like to know her better. If she doesn't accept that, its her problem.

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Wow, She Was Brave Enough To Tell You She Liked You... Most Girls Aren't.. She Must Really Like Youu!.. Don't Play With Her Emotions Even If Your Confused About Your Own.. Simply Tell Her You Need Some Time To Think... I'm Sure Shell Understand.. Get Your Feelings Strait.. If You Like Her Back Tell Her.. If You Dont, Well Don't Lead Her On.. Tell Her Your Not Ready For A Relationship & Have To Much Going On... Tell Her The Truth.. Don't Suger Coat It With A Lie Because Lies Hurt More & Much Longer Then The Truth... GoodLuck.

maybe give her a time limit on when you will give a answer. don't say something and then not mean it. she is kinda acting crazy if its only been a few days though. maybe some space would be good for both yall.