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Sat, 02 Jul 2016 09:31:37 +0000http://endingdestructiverelationships.com/?p=8178#comment-2877Nice book recommend for all
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Thu, 07 Oct 2010 21:27:52 +0000http://endingdestructiverelationships.com/?p=410#comment-1129Yes @ nocontactbook.com
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Tue, 05 Oct 2010 10:57:29 +0000http://endingdestructiverelationships.com/?p=1511#comment-976Enjoyed this article. Keep on writing. I’m a fan.
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Mon, 04 Oct 2010 01:18:42 +0000http://endingdestructiverelationships.com/?p=410#comment-905Yes. If you go to the front page of the blog, half way down the page you will see the RSS icon and the words Subscribe in a Reader. Click on the words and you will be directed to a page where you will be able to sign up for a reader.
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Sun, 12 Sep 2010 22:14:52 +0000http://endingdestructiverelationships.com/?p=452#comment-463Great information. Thanks a lot!
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Sun, 20 Jun 2010 21:45:03 +0000http://endingdestructiverelationships.com/?p=1117#comment-141Thank you for sharing.

Sometimes, I also notice that some people enjoy while they are having the opportunity to hurt others, like the first persons that were at the first salon you went.

I do not always know how to deal with this. Of course there are different cases and different situations. One thing is to have Compassion toward them, and other very different is to let them walk over you. Of course they are not aware of what they are doing (if they Knew, they wouldn´t do it at all). And they exist because we are carrying them within. They are a reflection of our own unchecked darkness and monsters. They are there because our Painbody wants them to be there.

This phrase kept my attention. I saw the scene while reading it. Can you imagine how mentally dependent a woman has to be in order to go on “being in love” (not in Love though) with a man like that, who shout at his wife or girlfriend or lover in such a way?

One has to be deeply lost to “be in love” with a man who is not respecting you. Who dares to raise his hand to hit you or who humiliate you in any way.

One has to be really mentally dependent …

And what is worst (while the woman is mentally dependent and in love with such a man); to believe or feel guilty when trying to stop that and reach out.

Of course if a man like that has appeared some time in our past it was because we were needing an experience like that one to show us the place where we were inside … so miserable.

The man is also a part of us; a part of what we were being at that particular point in our lives. The man was as miserable and lost as we were and by allowing him to go on beating us, shouting at us, humiliating us we were indeed not Helping him.

We do not need to hate him either because in that way our energy is equally lost in the same kind of lie. But once we realize that we are no longer mentally dependent of a man like that, we do well by not entering into his game and go on participating.

I don´t know how I could be in love with a man very similar to the one you describe here and how I could, after some time has passed, go on trying to “forget everything and try to make peace and go back to him”. Of course I was still mentally sick and dependent and also desperate trying to escape from another situation I was inmerse in.

]]>Comment on Words to Live By by Lovehttp://endingdestructiverelationships.com/uncategorized/words-to-live-by/#comment-49
Sat, 24 Apr 2010 21:45:27 +0000http://endingdestructiverelationships.com/?p=171#comment-49This entry is so beautiful.

“Preparation is the mother of opportunity.” I like that too. Sometimes we are feeling too weak and we can´t prepare not even pray … othertimes we can´t prepare as much as we would like because we are living in a dark castle and we are simply not allowed or we have to hide things all the time so to avoid others to discover that we are trying to improve our lives.

Or this is what we think. Truth is that we always can do something even if our minds wants to make us believe that we can´t.