Her issues are that she needs to find out how many guests are coming to either reception AND find out what the San Antonio guests want to eat. As far as I understand, doing two different RSVP cards is not an option. What would you do? Does the way I have it worded make it look like the American Fork reception is an afterthought?

Will guests understand that they shoudl write in the number of meals they want, not just write a check mark?