“Marius, the girl I like doesn’t really
flirt back because she’s really shy. What can I do to get her?”

My answer is simple: Take the lead and keep flirting!

What most people don’t understand about shy folks is that
just like all people, they respect leadership. They may not TELL
you that they like the attention you are giving them, but it does
not mean they want you to stop.

In 9 out of 10 situations, they are just looking for
someone (ANYONE) to lead.

But…how do you know when you should REALLY stop?
How do you know when a girl wants you to leave her alone?

By using my green light theory!

When you are flirting with a woman, pretend you are
at a street intersection.

If you see a red light (aka she gets annoyed or tells
you to stop), stop immediately. Then pull back and try again.
(See if the red light ever turns green before you quit!)

If you see a green light (she is flirting back),
then keep advancing.

If you see a yellow light (you’re not sure how she feels),
then it just means you haven’t advanced enough yet. So push
ahead until you finally see a red OR green light.

Remember: all the same basic rules apply no matter who
you are flirting with. Break the “Smart Dating Rules” just
because think a girl is “special”, “shy”, or “unique”, and you
will end up breaking your own game!