And meeting up together? mmmm a bit problematic. Not sure I'd like to meet up with a bar full of guys from Lit.

But the thought of meeting up with a couple of people who I've got to know through chat is appealing.

I have met ladies off the internet after getting to know them online first (not from Lit I hasten to add) - and I've found those who I have met up with to be really wonderful people who I have had a connection with. In all three cases there has followed a long term friendship (and yes more in two of the three cases). I haven't had any bad experience, I think its just about getting to know the person first.

But if you don't get on well online, then..........

Thanks for starting the thread Tom, its a good one..........

__________________oh she dressed in the dark and she whispered "amen".
She was pretty in pink like a young girl again.
Twenty years married and she never thought twice
She packed up her bags and walked into the night.

Thanks Richard, the words are a joy. I hope you don't mind me sharing them with my friends