I accidentally paid one to many bills this week and figured out early this morning that unless we deposit $70 into our checking first thing today then we will overdraft and be slapped with a $30 at least fee. I know it's my fault and I feel awful. It was a honest mistake though. My math somewhere was obviously wrong. So now he is pissed at me and not talking to me. He left without even saying goodbye, not a hug or a kiss. He never leaves without kissing me. I am in pieces over here.

*Just so I don't have to keep saying this. We had the money just in another account. I don't link my savings to my online banking because I am afraid to have it hacked again. So I couldn't transfer before the bank opened today. My math was off when I was calculating the bill about $70 dollars. I must have mistyped something. I am far from needing more money. I own my business and DH has a good job. Which is why him being mad over $30 troubles me.

Wow human error. He needs to realize that you are human and it was an accident.

by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster

January 30, 2013 at 8:59 AM

Apparantly I am not allowed to make an error. He called me and started yelling at me. I ended the conversation with telling him he is now in charge of the bills. I wrote down all the passwords to all our banking and payments. And am giving them to him when he gets home today. Let's see if he can do any better.

Quoting mattiehatter:

Wow human error. He needs to realize that you are human and it was an accident.

Ive done it and it sucked only my bank charged $30 fee and $15 everyday you were still overdrafted. It happens he will just have to get over it. Make him do the bills from now on and maybe he will see how hard it is to calculate how to pay $1000 in bills with $900 every once in awhile.