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Move towards the light - spiritual well-being

Move towards the light - spiritual well-being. I've been watching my mint plant do this for the last few days, it moved towards the light. Each spear of mint and stem making the adjustment for survival. It knows what it needs and responds accordingly by turning towards the light. Since then it has begun to flourish and thrive. We can take a leaf out of nature's book. Nature can be a great teacher and show us how to be, cohabit, heal and flourish as we are part of nature. The same natural laws apply to us for flourishing and thriving in life, we must move towards light spiritually, emotionally, mentally, socially and physically.My care! Marie Joshua Psycho-social & physical well-being practitioner

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