44 Reasons to Date Vietnamese Girls

I just came back from a five-day trip to Ho Chi Minh City and I’m glad that I went because seeing all these sexy Vietnamese girls blew me away.

But you already know that.

You have already read in my Vietnam Cupid review that I planned to visit my friend Thomas in his new home AND that the ladies I chatted with on this dating site are the most beautiful women in South East Asia.

What I haven’t told you yet is that I met Thomas, his Vietnamese girlfriend, a bunch of her friends, and her family.

We had a lot of fun, enjoyed the local food at the Royal Saigon restaurant and talked for hours and hours.

What did we talk about?

Come on. You know me.

Of course, we talked about the local women, the dating culture and what it’s really like to be in a relationship with a Vietnamese girl. Thomas’s girlfriend Phuong was more than happy to share all the dirty little secrets that 99% of Western men will never know.

I listened, I made notes, and she told me everything about…

The true nature of Vietnamese women.

The pitfalls of the local dating culture.

What it takes to get married to a woman from this country.

Why she will most likely never ever cheat on my friend (let’s hope for the best).

When I had a look at my notes, I realized that I couldn’t find a single reason not to date Vietnamese girls. Phuong smiled and I decided to write down the following 44 reasons…

1-10 Answer the Question “What Are Vietnamese Women Like?”

As you can see in the table of contents above, I divided this article into six categories.

The reason why I did this is pretty simple. If I hadn’t done it, the table of contents would be longer than Mr. Biggz schlong.

But don’t worry. The categories actually make sense.

So without further ado, let’s start with the reasons why you will love these girls…

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1. Vietnamese Women Can Provide for Themselves

Who wants to date a girl who needs you to breathe, eat, and shit?

I don’t.

The good news is that Vietnamese women want you, but they don’t need you.

They are hard-working and they can provide for themselves. I guess it’s because their mothers and grandmothers have experienced what it means to be on their own during the Vietnam War. They have passed those values on to their daughters.

In case you have dated women from other parts of Asia, you know that self-reliant women are rarer than diamonds.

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2. Sexy Vietnamese Women Don’t Dink and Smoke

While I visited my friend in Ho Chi Minh City, I met seven hot Vietnamese girls. None of them drinks alcohol and when I asked them if they have ever smoked a cigarette, they shook their heads and looked at me like this…

It must be a pain in the ass for these girls to make out with a local guy. I mean, 50% of the Vietnamese men smoke whereas only 5% of the women have ever touched a cigarette.

What about drinking?

The local guys are known for drinking too much and for getting a bit too aggressive when they are drunk. I’m sure that there are some binge-drinking girls, but the ones I met don’t touch alcohol.

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3. Hot Vietnamese Girls Care More about their Family than About Themselves

In Vietnam it’s all about the family and as her boyfriend, and especially as her husband, you are part of her family.

She will cook for you.

She will take care of you when you are sick.

She will take care of your family.

The only downside is that the mother of your Vietnamese girlfriend might call her two or three times a day. Okay, forget about the might. She will.

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4. Pretty Vietnamese Women are Pretty Submissive

There’s one thing you need to know about the Vietnamese culture and I bet my ass that you like it.

Women are supposed to be submissive.

Hey, don’t shoot the messenger. I didn’t make this shit up. But I like it and I know that you like it too. And no, expecting a woman to be submissive has nothing to do with being a chauvinistic asshole. It has everything to do with wanting a fulfilling relationship with a woman who embraces her feminine side.

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5. Vietnamese Women Have Amazing Physical Features

Give me and H. Give me an O. Give me a T.

That’s what the girls in Vietnam are. They are hot, insanely hot. There’s no doubt that they are the most beautiful women in South East Asia. I have to admit that, even though I’m in a relationship with a Thai woman.

Heck, even my girlfriend says that they are the crème de la crème of South East Asia.

God....their bodies.

If you like slim, light-skinned Asian women with beautiful faces, you will love Vietnam. If I wasn’t in a relationship with my dream girl, I would have hit on 8 out of 10 women in Ho Chi Minh City.

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6. Even Thick Vietnamese Girls Have a Slim Waist

I don’t know how they do it.

Maybe it’s the local food. Maybe they have won the genetic lottery. I don’t know. All I know is that even thick Vietnamese girls (the ones who have asses like Kim Kardashian), have a small waist.

And no, plastic surgeries are popular among South Korean women but not among hot Vietnamese women. We have to thank Mother Nature for this blessing.

You can definitely find more thick Asian girls in Ho Chi Minh City than in Manila or in Bangkok.

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7. The Women of Vietnam Know How to Dress

Look at this girl…

She’s not stylish. She has real style. She doesn’t look slutty. She looks elegant and classy. I would be proud to walk hand in hand with her.

Vietnamese women have this incredible skill to look like princesses whenever they leave the house.

Of course, not every woman walks around in a traditional dress, but the ones who do will take your breath away.

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8. Respect and Loyalty are the Most Common Traits in Vietnamese Women

That’s what Phuong says.

I wanted to believe her but I had to be sure. So I asked my friend Thomas if it was true.

He just looked at me with a smile on his face. That’s when I knew that it was true. But I wanted to hear it in his words.

“I have to be honest (he looked at his girlfriend). She is the most respectful and loyal woman I have ever met.”

Phuong looked at him and gave him a kiss, which is something that Vietnamese girls usually don’t do in public. I just wondered when those two will get married.

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9. Vietnamese Girlfriends Know How to Take Care of Their Boyfriends

It made me happy to see how happy my friend was with his girlfriend. I mean, how could he not be happy? She takes better care of him than a dozen moms.

Are you thirsty?

Are you hungry?

Can I bring you something?

It’s almost a miracle that she didn’t ask him if he has to take a shit. I bet she would take him to the toilet and wipe his ass.

She’s an angel.

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10. Attention-Whoring is Not a Common Characteristic of Vietnamese Women

What’s the most obnoxious characteristic of young Western women?

Narcissism!

“Me, me, me, it’s all about me!”

Even if they have personalities like serial killers and the physical appearance of a hippopotamus, they believe that they are sweet princesses who deserve the best of the best. It’s hilarious.

Vietnamese women are way more down to earth…despite the fact that they actually look like princess. Maybe it’s because of the communist culture that despises self-centeredness.

I promise you one thing:

The hottest Vietnamese girl in the world is less entitled and narcissistic than the ugliest American woman that has ever walked on this earth.

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11-14 Answer the Question “What Do Vietnamese Women Like?”

Congratulations!

You survived the first category without suffering from a stroke.

Now you know what Vietnamese women are really like, but do you also know what they like and what they are looking for in a man?

She wants a man who makes her smile

Let’s have a look at why they are so excited when a man like you wants to get to know them…

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11. Vietnamese Women are Crazy for Western Men

There’s one reason why these girls are so crazy for Western men and no, it has nothing to do with the color of your skin. They don’t need you to make light-skinned babies. They are whiter than snow.

They want you because a relationship with you promises freedom, safety and stability.

You have to understand that Vietnamese women are self-reliant, educated fighters who know how to provide for themselves and their families. It also helps to understand that the local men are the complete opposite.

They want you because…

You provide them with the freedom to express themselves.

You don’t drink away your money instead of providing for your family.

You don’t think that sitting in a café all day long is the same as achieving something.

The reason why you will get hundreds of messages from cute Vietnamese girls is because you are different than the local men who treat them like crap…

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12. Beautiful Vietnamese Ladies are Looking for Nice Men

Did I really just say that the local men treat them like crap?

She has enough...

Well, I’m sure that there are a lot of good men in this country, but the facts speak for themselves. And it’s a fact that approximately 58% of all Vietnamese women are victims of domestic violence.

What does that mean for your dating success in Hanoi or Ho Chi Minh City?

Be nice.

I know, you have been told that being nice, genuine, and friendly equals a death sentence. And that’s true, at least when you are dating women in Western countries.

But you’re not in the West. You’re in Vietnam.

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13. Sexy Vietnamese Ladies Want a Romantic Gentleman

Finally, you can be the gentleman you always wanted to be.

You won’t hear and awkward okaaay when you hold the door for her.

You can give her as many compliments as you want without sounding needy.

You can even talk about marriage without listening to a talk about individual freedom.

In case you still ask yourself “what do Vietnamese girls like?” I encourage you to watch a Disney movie. Even though these movies are poison for every man, they are exactly what these cute Asian girls dream of.

They want a gentleman from a Disney movie, not a psychopath from Fifty Shades of Grey.

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14. Beautiful Vietnamese Women Want to Date Leaders

If you ask your Vietnamese girlfriend one of these questions, you are already dead:

Honey, where do you want to go today?

Is it really okay that we go to that Italian restaurant?

Why don’t you choose something?

Don’t expect an answer. And don’t expect sex when you ask too many of these questions. She’s not together with you because she wants a so-called 50/50 relationship. I have news for you. This doesn’t exist in this country.

She wants a man who leads her, not one who asks her to lead him.

Don’t worry. She will let you know if your plan sucks. But she wants to know that you have a plan.

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15-20 Reveal Everything about the Vietnamese Dating Culture

Now that you know what cute Vietnamese girls are like and what kind of man they are looking for, it’s time to have a look at the dating culture.

“Sebastian, is the Vietnamese dating culture comparable to the Western dating culture?”

This is not the USA

Nope, it’s not all about getting pissed drink, having sex with random strangers, and being proud of your STDs (yes, there are really feminists who celebrate their STD’s with the hashtag #ShoutYourStatus).

In Vietnam it’s not about catching Chlamydia. It’s about finding love and enjoying a fulfilling relationship.

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15. Feminism is Not a Part of the Vietnamese Dating Culture

Is it wrong to use your friend’s girlfriend for a little experiment?

Not if the experiment consists of one simple question:

“What do you think about feminism?”

Her answer was priceless. It wasn’t a particularly long answer, but it was the best answer she could possibly give.

“What?”

That was her answer and it said more than a thousand words could have said.

Vietnam is a communist country with deeply traditional values. It’s more likely to meet a frustrated feminist in Bangkok than in Hanoi.

You can take a deep breath. The women in this country are still women.

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16. Love in Vietnamese Means Being Honest about Your Emotions

I believe that the way Vietnamese girls deal with their emotions is a reason to date them. But I have to warn you. It might be a bit too much for you.

To be honest, I didn’t expect these girls to be so open about their emotions. As a man who lives in Asia, I am used to women who cover their mouth with their hand when they laugh.

I haven’t seen this in Vietnam.

These girls are laughing when they are happy, crying when they are angry, and they don’t shy away from showing their affection.

It’s even normal for friends to walk hand in hand.

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17. It is Easier to Date Young Vietnamese Girls than Mature Vietnamese Women

I have more good news for you.

Vietnamese women who are in their late 30s are already married.

“Why on earth is this good news?” I hear you asking.

Well, because I assume that you want to date young women and most women in their early 20s are desperately looking for a husband. In a country where it’s normal that girls marry with 18, the pressure for a 22 year old single woman is high.

18. The Women in Hanoi Love You Even More than the Women in Ho Chi Minh

I spent the past five days in Ho Chi Minh City and I don’t want to brag, but I got a lot of stares.

Girls were checking me out.

They were smiling at me.

One girl even touched my hand in the bus (it was on purpose. I know it young lady!)

My friend’s girlfriend saw that I got a lot of attention from the local girls. Then she said something that blew me away…

“You’ll get even more attention in Hanoi.”

“More???” I replied in shock.

She knows what she’s talking about.

Ho Chi Minh City is in the communist part of the country. The city was once called Saigon and got renamed after the first communist leader of North Vietnam. The girls in this part of the country are more traditional, less accepting of foreigners (especially Americans) and more conservative in their beliefs.

The girls in Hanoi, on the other hand, love the American culture, romanticize everything that’s from the West (especially the men) and are even more open to dating foreigners.

It must be a dream to meet girls in Hanoi.

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19. Most Vietnamese Ladies Don’t Care about Your Religion

Dating a Russian woman can be tricky, especially if you are a Muslim. Dating a Malaysian woman can be tricky too, especially if you are a Christian.

What about Vietnamese women?

Don’t worry about that. Most of them don’t care about your religion. Neither Christianity nor Buddhism is a predominant religion in this country. Most people practice the Vietnamese folk religion.

Your future girlfriend knows that you have never heard of it and she’s cool with it.

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20. The Older You Are, The Easier it is to Meet Vietnamese Women

I already told you that it’s easier to find young single women in this country than mature single women.

It gets even better.

I know that it sounds unbelievable but it’s easier to meet Vietnamese girls when you are in your 40s than when you are a 27-year-old German with the name Sebastian. And you don’t have to be rich either.

21-25 Reveal Why It’s so Easy to Meet Vietnamese Women

Okay, it wasn’t really a rent. It was rather and song of praise. And I don’t take it back, not a single word. I really mean what I’ve written and my friend Thomas and his beautiful girlfriend are the living proof that this country is an amazing place to meet women.

But how do you meet these women?

Where do you meet them?

And what does it take to meet them?

Have a look at the following reasons to date Vietnamese girls and you’ll find the answers to these questions…

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21. Beautiful Vietnamese Women Don’t Jump in Bed with Everyone

In case you want easy sex, this is the wrong country for you.

You’ll have more fun in a club in New York than on the streets of Ho Chi Minh City. Vietnamese women are traditional and conservative. Just because she comes back to your place doesn’t mean that she will sleep with you.

She might be a virgin. Yes, even if she’s already 25.

She's preparing herself for the perfect guy

These girls know that some guys only come to Vietnam to have fun and to fuck off right afterwards. I don’t say that it’s impossible to have a one-night stand. All I say is that most of the good girls want a relationship that lasts longer than 4 hours.

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22. Chatting with Vietnamese Girls Online is Easier Than Meeting them in Clubs

It’s easy to meet girls in Vietnam. You just have to look in the right places.

What about the nightlife?

Wrong place!

Sorry, but if you are looking for a vibrant nightlife with thousands of sexy party girls who want to meet a man for the night, you should stay in Bangkok.

I went to a club in the center of Ho Chi Minh City (you know how much I hate clubs).

Here’s what it looked like:

The girls were standing around in groups.

None of them were dancing.

The local guys ordered one overpriced bottle after another to impress the girls.

Maybe we went to the wrong club. Maybe we went on the wrong day. I don’t know. All I know is that it’s way easier to meet Vietnamese girls online.

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23. You Can Find 1000s of Single Girls on This Vietnamese Dating Site

“Okay, it’s easy to meet Vietnamese girls online. But what’s the best dating site to meet them?” I hear you asking.

Well, there’s only one answer:

VietnamCupid is the only Vietnamese dating site…

That has more than 800.000 members (most of them are Vietnamese girls).

Where more than two third of the girls reply (I enjoyed a response rate of 93%).

Where you can meet dozens of stunning women within a short period of time (I received 93 replies within 24 hours).

24. Picking Up Girls in Vietnam is Predictable

Yes, I did, but I didn’t tell you yet that this makes it super easy to pick them up.

No guessing

No stupid games

No need to decode body language

That’s how it should be and that’s exactly how it is in this South East Asian country. The girls are extremely emotional and when it comes to hiding their emotions, they are worse than Lil Wayne at singing.

It’s so easy to read her emotions and thoughts. You just have to look at her. As a result, it’s super easy to react to her emotional state and to seduce her.

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25. Meeting Girls in Vietnam is Easy Because They Speak English

Thomas girlfriend could speak English. Her friends could speak English. Okay, her mom couldn’t speak English but you get the point.

Of course, no Asian country in the world can be compared to the Philippines, a place where even donkeys can speak English.

But it’s way easier to communicate with the girls in Vietnam than with Thai girls. Just have a look at the official English Proficiency Index…

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26-33 Reveal Why You Want to Date a Vietnamese Girl

Now you know….

Where to meet them.

How to meet them.

How easy it is to communicate with them.

Let’s say you meet a girl in Ho Chi Minh City, Hanoi or in a rice field in Da Lat. Her smile makes you want to hug the moon and her soft skin makes you want to lick her whole body (Oh God…that was really inappropriate).

You want to date this girl but you have no idea what it’s like to date a Vietnamese woman.

Calm down. It’s not that hard.

Have a look at the following reasons and you will understand why…

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26. The Hottest Vietnamese Girls Want to Be Your Girlfriend

Vietnam doesn’t have a hookup culture. It’s all about being in a relationship and when you’re together for more than a year it’s all about marriage.

As a result, every girl you are dating wants to be your girlfriend.

Forget friends with benefits.

Don’t even think about taking things casual.

What about one-night stands? You’ll break her heart.

She wants to be your girlfriend, better today than tomorrow.

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27. Your Vietnamese Girlfriend is Not a Bar Girl

Yes, there are go-go bars in this country, but Vietnam doesn’t have a city like Pattaya or Angeles City. There’s no bar girl culture…if you can call this culture.

What does this mean for your dating life?

Well, you don’t have to worry that your Vietnamese girlfriend is a prostitute. That’s what it means. Of course, it doesn’t hurt to ask her about her job and to have a look at her Instagram account, but the chances that you fall for a bar girl are lower than in Thailand or in the Philippines.

Every single girl I chatted with on VietnamCupid had a normal job.

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28. Dating a Vietnamese Woman Means Following Your Vision

“What I love most about my Vietnamese girlfriend is that she cares more about how hard I work than about how much I earn.”

That’s what Thomas told me and I believe him.

These girls can take care of themselves, but what they love most is to support their boyfriends and husbands.

Don't give up. She supports you.

I could see that Phuong was proud to be together with a man who wants more out of life than to lay in the sun all day. It made her proud to be his biggest supporter.

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29. It Means Something When a Sexy Vietnamese Girl Holds Your Hand

She’s traditional, so don’t expect her to hold your hand in public. It’s a big deal for her. You are not in the Philippines, where the girls are proud to walk hand in hand with a foreigner.

Even the hottest Vietnamese girls are shy about it.

She’ll only hold your hand if she sees you as her boyfriend. If she does, it means something. And as a man who wants a committed and loyal girlfriend, you should be happy that it means something to her.

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30. Going on Dates in Vietnam is Not Expensive

If I lived in New York or London, I would quit dating.

I mean, Jesus Christ. It’s cheaper to call a hooker than to invite a girl to dinner. Dating in these places sets your wallet on fire.

Going on a date in Ho Chi Minh City can cost less than $5 for both you and the girl.

The prices are comparable to Bangkok. The food is cheap and good. Drinks are cheap. Taxis are cheap. The only thing that’s more expensive than in the West is condoms…at least when you want the ones without holes.

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31. Dating a Vietnamese Girl is Like Dating Your Best Friend

She wants to be a part of your life. And no I’m not talking about the way she feels. She literally wants to be a part of your life.

She wants to go where you go.

She wants to do what you do.

She wants to meet the people you want to meet.

My friend’s girlfriend even signed up for a gym membership even though she doesn’t lift weights. I guess that it’s a mixture of jealousy and commitment.

32. Hot Vietnamese Babes Don’t Need to Be Entertained

I still can’t believe how lucky I am that I’m in a relationship with a Thai woman who doesn’t want to be entertained 24/7. A lot of Thai girls want to have fun until it’s not fun anymore. This can be a pleasure, but it can also be a curse.

"Can somebody please entertain me?"

Vietnamese women are not like that.

They are more comfortable with you doing your thing. You don’t need to take care of them all the time because they learned how to take care of themselves.

Phuong didn’t complain once while Thomas worked on his business. It’s rare to find such a woman.

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33. Dating a Vietnamese Woman is Intellectually Stimulating

It was refreshing to be around so many beautiful women who know that books are something you can read and not something you can upload on Instagram.

I only met seven Vietnamese girls, but every single one of them had…

An interest besides Facebook.

Read at least one book in their life.

Loved to discuss deep topics.

I would say that dating a low-class Vietnam girl is more intellectually stimulating than dating a high-class Filipina. But maybe my friend’s girlfriend has just really cool friends.

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34-44 Reveal Reasons to Marry a Vietnamese Girl

Are you ready for the last couple of reasons to date Vietnamese girls?

Good because you’re at a crossroads.

Y﻿﻿ou hav﻿﻿e met ﻿﻿this girl on Viet﻿﻿namCupid. She is beautiful, educated, and she treats you like a king. Now that you think about it, you realize that she’s the kind of girl you always dreamed of.

You can check all the boxes. She has it all and the only thing you can think of is to marry this woman.

In case you really want to do that, I want you to be prepared…

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34. Vietnam is a Paradise for Men Who Are Looking for Women for Marriage

I already told you that Vietnamese girls are not easy. And I also told you that every girl you go on a date with wants to be your girlfriend. No, not your friend with benefits. Your girlfriend.

Once she is your girlfriend, she wants more.

Remember that she has been born and raised in a culture where it’s normal for women to marry when they are 18. Ask a Western 18-year-old girl if she wants to marry you and she calls the police.

While the West is living hell for marriage-minded men, Vietnam is paradise on earth.

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35. Vietnamese Brides Don’t Have Completely Unrealistic Expectations

Thomas, his girlfriend, and I were in this small café in the center of Ho Chi Minh City when we heard a conversation between two female backpackers. I think they were Australian, but I’m not sure.

One of the girls was complaining about how hard it is to meet guys in Vietnam. The other one just nodded their head. I shook my head in disbelief.

“Of course it’s hard for you to find a guy. You weight 150 kilo, sweat like a horse, and I just have to look in your face to see that you have a crappy personality!”

I didn’t say it, but I wanted to.

It’s no news that Western women have completely unrealistic expectations, but it gets dangerous when you marry one of them and they threaten to take half of your money if you don’t fulfill their expectations.

A Vietnamese bride, on the other hand, has low expectations because the local men set the bar so low.

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36. Finding and Marrying a Vietnamese Virgin is Not that Hard

This is a controversial reason, but a reason nonetheless.

In case marrying a girl who had sex before marriage goes against your Christian belief, you will love Vietnam.

It’s common for girls to stay a virgin until they get married.

In fact, a lot of families expect it from their daughters and things can get pretty nasty if the daughter is a bit too naughty.

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37. Marrying a Vietnamese Woman after a Long-Distance Relationship is Less Risky

I warn everyone about having a long-distance relationship with a Thai woman. It’s funny because I was in a long-distance relationship with a Thai woman (now we live together).

And even though I know that my girlfriend is 100% loyal, I have to admit that it’s less risky to have a long-distance relationship with a Vietnamese woman.

She can take care of herself.

She doesn’t seek for someone who can entertain her.

She believes in loyalty.

It's deffinitely more risky with a Western woman...

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38. Your Vietnamese Mail Order Bride Doesn’t Want Your Money

There’s one thing I observed about the girls in Ho Chi Minh City, but I might be wrong...

I saw a lot less girls with designer handbags, expensive jewelry and IPhones than in Thailand or the Philippines.

I can only assume that it’s because of the communist belief system. From what I can see they are less materialistic than girls from other Asian countries.

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39. You Might Want to Marry a Christian Vietnamese Girl

Just because you’re a Christian man doesn’t mean that your Vietnamese bride must be a virgin. However, I’m sure you want to marry a woman who has the same religious values.

Can you find her in Vietnam?

You can, at least if you find a girl who belongs to the 6.8% of Christians in this country.

And believe me. She’s REALLY Christian. Sleeping with her on the first date is impossible and marrying her is your only option.

40. Vietnamese Wives Don’t Want You to Do the Dishes

Do you want to clean the floor, do the dishes, and take out the trash while your beloved wife watches Sex and the City?

I bet you don’t.

Do you want to work on your business or watch porn a movie while she takes care of the household?

Now we’re talking.

Say hello to your Vietnamese wife, a woman who doesn’t want you to wash, iron, and clean. If you do it, she will lose respect for you. If you appreciate her for doing it, she will be a proud wife.

Not in her house

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41. Your Vietnamese Wife Won’t Cheat on You

Vietnamese women are loyal yada yada yada.

I don’t want to repeat myself. Instead, I want to quote a reputable Vietnamese news outlet that reported on article 182 of the 2015 Penal Code that is the basis for a new adultery law that has been passed last year.

“…those who commit adultery which results in divorce or suicide…shall be sentenced to up to three years in prison.”

She won’t cheat on you. Believe me.

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42. Beautiful Vietnamese Ladies Have Amazing Families

Do you remember what I told you at the beginning of this article?

“…I met Thomas, his girlfriend, a bunch of her friends, and her family.”

Yes, I really met Phuong’s family and they are the friendliest people on earth. Her mom cooked for us and we watched an American movie with her dad. He was laughing all the time even though he didn’t understand a single word.

You’ll marry a beautiful woman who has an amazing family.

And don’t worry. You are not marrying a South Korean girl. You don’t have to drink until you pass out. You marry a Vietnamese girl and her family will take care of you in the same way as she takes care of you.

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43. Your Parents Want You to Marry a Vietnamese Woman

Your parents will love your future wife because...

She takes care of their son.

She has good manners.

She looks like an angel (Your parents don’t know that she’s a devil in the bedroom).

Heck, she will probably cook for your parents and help them with the household because Vietnamese parents-in-law would expect it. Show me one Western girl who does that.

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44. Vietnamese Mail Order Brides are So Thankful

You made it to the finish line…or you scrolled all the way down to read reason #44 (Do your fingers hurt?).

There’s only one more thing left to say:

Your Vietnamese wife will thank you forever

She will thank you for saving her from a life of domestic violence (remember the 58%).

She will thank you for being a good husband.

She will thank you for loving her, respecting her, an appreciating her.

Comments

I’m a Vietnamese girl and studied Vietnamese culture. I don’t totally gree about some of point of view you write.There are some problems you have written that are wrong. And I’m sure Thomas’s girlfriend Phuong provided a lot of incorrect information. I guess she is Northerner in Vietnam. Or when she said but you have written wrong. EX: “Ho Chi Minh City is in the communist part of the country. The city was once called Saigon and got renamed after the first communist leader of North Vietnam. The girls in this part of the country are more traditional, less accepting of foreigners (especially Americans) and more conservative in their beliefs.

The girls in Hanoi, on the other hand, love the American culture, romanticize everything that’s from the West (especially the men) and are even more open to dating foreigners.”

And the truth is:

“Ho Chi Minh City is NOT in the communist part of the country. The city was once called Saigon and got renamed after the first communist leader of North Vietnam. Americans have lived here for a long time, so girls live in Ho Chi Minh City more openly, less traditionally because their accepting of foreigners’s culture and lifestyle (especially Americans). They are romanticize everything that’s from the West (especially the men) and are even more open to dating foreigners.”

For the girls in Hanoi, Ha Noi is in the communist part of the country. The girls in this part of the country are more traditional, less accepting of foreigners and more conservative in their beliefs!!!!

Hey Uyen, thanks for correcting me (seriously!). I’m not shy to admit a mistake and I guess I made one. I did more research. Thanks a lot. However, I recently visited Hanoi and I had the feeling that the girls in Hanoi are way friendlier and more open to talk to foreigners than the girls in Ho Chi Minh. Has anyone had a similar experience?

I respect your point because it’s your feeling. I have thoughts and feelings different your point. I was bon in Quang Ngai province, it belong to the middle of Vietnam country. Currently I’m studying and living in Saigon. This means I’m not Saigon girl and sure I’m also not Ha Noi girl!!!! ( Currently in Viet Nam, people are living, studying and working in Saigon and Hanoi, they come from many provinces. It mean is whenever there are conservatives and open-minded people). I see and feeling girls in Ha Noi and Saigon are gentle, friendly and open minded. But what would you think when I say I have more sympathy for Saigon girls than Hanoi girls? I like openness, honesty of Saigon girls (I’m not talking about girls from other provinces and in Saigon) I have a lot of friends, they are boys and girls from many provinces of Vietnam, Hanoi is one of them. I also wen visit some place And i understand their personality depends where they are born and full-grown. I went to some places, to communicate with the people there. Moreover, I am Vietnamese, I can hear, see, know and understand Vietnamese, about Vietnamese girls quite exactly.

Thank you for the nice things you have thought about Vietnamese women. And it is truth. But in 2017 , i think girls are educated, good qualities account for about 60 – 65%. If the guys want to meet and date with this Vietnamese girls, I think it is not difficult. But guys will be shocked by culture, if they only know about Vietnamese culture but don’t understand Vietnamese culture. EX: When Vietnamese guy and Vietnamese girl dating, guy will pay if they go out for drinks, eat together.. It is a part of Vietnamese lifestyle and culture. But for West guys, they think Vietnamese girl take advantage, greed,date with them for money!!! ( of couse i know a lot of girls date with foreigner for money or similar things, but not all Vietnamese girl!). I think when dating, sharing 50/50 like in Western countries is ok but it’s better if foreign guy and Vietnamese girl have better ways.

I think there are many cultural issues West guys should understand if they want dating and marry Vietnamese. For example: why Vietnamese women do not have sex before marriage, Why guys should not give Chrysanthemum to girls, why Vietnamese women keep their husbands money (Vietnamese men often say that wife is the bank It’s easy to put money, but it’s hard to get out money !!! lol),Why when married, he had to give wedding presents to his future wife’s family, why mother-in-law gives the bride’s earrings,….

Yes, I’m thinking some guy started feeling difficult or run away…

P/s: Thanks for reading my thoughts. I sure you can understand althought i write not corect by English.

Thank you for your writing, Sebastian. You combine valuable perception with refreshing frank honesty all around—about the cultures you discuss and about the guys you are writing for. It feels like you size up everyone’s strengths and weaknesses realistically, and to me this is more respectful than whitewashing any of us. It’s such a relief to read straight dope that does not feel packaged and rendered “correct.” Bravo to you for learning to live so well, and thank you for sharing your insights with the rest of us. Cheers mate —David

Yes, every woman has the fantasy to date (and sleep with) a guy like that but Vietnamese women are rasied in a traditional way and have traditional beliefs that forbidd them to date such a guy. This is why a lot of Asian girls go to the other extreme and dream about the perfect Disney Gentleman. Both are ideal fantasies.

I’m sorry, but I have to disagree with your artcle. While it may be true for some women in VN, I can honestly say my experience was completely opposite of what you described. My boyfriend and I have been dating for over 2 years now. He went to Vietnam to work abroad for 6 months, and worked for a very wealthy woman who owned a hotel to teach English to her staff in District 1, Saigon.

Now, my boyfriend and I had decided to do the ldr. I visited him for 2 weeks, and what I saw was completely different from what you described. First, the women crave western foreigner men. Everywhere my boyfriend went, he would get stared down like a blue passport commodity (mind you- he is vietnamese, but very tall, slender, and handsome- so he stuck out like a sore thumb. Women would prance themselves around my boyfriend. In fact, I met his boss while she was out here in the US, and her agenda was to hook him up with her daughter all along – that’s another story.

Secondly, MANY of the women are very materialistic. Every woman I passed had some knock off of a chanel handbag, or louboutin shoes. My boyfriend can vouch for this, and claims that walking with an iPhone 6 deems high and wealthy status.

Thirdly, as I went to the bars with my boyfriend I witnessed young girls kissing their clients- sometimes two different guys in the same night!

Two weeks before my boyfriend’s return to the US- he decided to take a break from me and traveled to Hanoi. The women there are supposedly more beautiful as many of them are from Chinese decent with a “small nose.”

He met a young girl out there the last three days of his trip. They had pictures of them kissing, and holding hands. Now, my boyfriend was usually a very loyal and trustworthy guy. But something in Hanoi made him stray from me. He spent these last three days with this girl whom he met at a cafe where she worked on beer street. She was 23, and he’s 28. They went out for coffee often, and after much persistence, she agreed to sleep at his hotel. -side note: supposedly she’s very conservative and well educated. She supposedly never came to his room that night because he fell asleep- but the intent was there. I found all this out through discovering text messages from his VN phone.

I will say, there is some validity in women wanting love and being emotional. Now, my boyfriend is completely guilty for having a weak and douche bag moment, as he mislead her to think there was emotional connection there. However, she was very quick to proceed into getting something more out of him and making him her boyfriend.

Also, I might add that it was very difficult for him to connect with anyone in HCMC, as a majority of them do not speak English. Whereas, he felt that English was more common in Hanoi.

I’ll also add- that while his friend had visited him out there, he slept with a woman in Hanoi.

Therefore, I have to disagree with this post. There are woman all over the world who can be deemed as deceitful with a hidden agenda, whereas there’s also woman all over the world who is described as the VN women you described above.

Note- I am a Filipina born and raised in the U.S. And I feel that I uphold a lot of the values you described in VN women. But I am also that western typical woman you described as not being submissive, and being more independent. I kind of feel there has to be some respect for that.

Thank you TT, Well said. My husbands ex gf Vietnamese woman wanted him for his passport, he is not white and especially did not come from the west. It just happen he lives in Europe , with European passport. She wants to lived abroad with him and he found out she have a Vietnamese boyfriend.

Well, i pack my stuff for the holidays, travel to vietnam, find an amazing woman, and then what ? i have to go back to France after a couple of weeks where i have my good paying job (relativly to vietnam)…

Thanks for your sincerely writing, Im a VNm woman, and I confirm that what you wrote is totally true in my case (except one thing ,actually we love more if the husband willing to share home work with us) I have my foreigner boyfriend,only him, I love him totally my heart, but I dont know why he alway doubt me that Im loyal with him or not, then I have to search for what are foreigners told about we VNm woman and I dont know how to make him feel safe with me, because I love him alot, and dont need anyone else. I worship the loyal. Anyone can tell me the way?

Thanks for your article. I am a typical Vietnamese young girl and I have lived in Australia for 3 years. I am 20 years old and I am in relationship 3 months with my Irish boyfriend. I feel so happy when your article tells most of vietnamese personality. Thanks for you article.

Hi, I am Malaysian , and I met a Vietnam girl , introduced by my friend . She has been working in Malaysia for 1 year+ , and she came from Hanoi . She is so cute , pure minded , and I want she to be my girlfriend. On our 1st outing , when I was driving , she fed me some cakes. Is she giving me some hints , or they are just so friendly to everyone due to their culture?

I guess u need to dig deeper, there’s nothing is perfect in this world, most of the part is true, but there is something to be careful. Girls from certain parts or area of vn, is not like what u said on above. Many countries have many news like vn wives ran away from husband. This I can provide u answer, and like u mentioned up there, they don’t really hide emotions and they dare to do something they think was right. If after marriage but didn’t feel love or did not get respect or also not been treated like normal family members, don’t blame they ran away from u. I bet u all will do the same if u live in other countries feel like hell, sure u wanna go back to your home town like heaven

Very thanks for your articles, I like them. How long should be a trip? Two weaks or three? (I have introverted personality to. ) Maybe my question sounds too practical, but I have to ask becouse of my job. I have calculate my holidays with this information. (I want the heart of a lady, not just make a sextrip.)

Hey Gabryael, it’s good to hear that you are looking for something serious. Vietnamese women are quite traditional, the longer you can visit, the more success you will have. And check out my Vietnam Cupid review.

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