I like playing with couples and it can be very hard to find a couple to play with outside of the swing-world, so that is why I swing single.

If I am dating someone and she wants to swing too, then I swing as a couple, but if I am dating someone who is not into the swing scene, then I stop swinging while dating that person.

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This is a reply to the person asking about single me swinging and under the impression we had no success finding dates.That is not my reason and I can only speak for myself,I'm choosing the life style because I don't want to be in another relationship.I had and have no problem getting dates,I just like being single.Been married twice and in numorous relationships like being single better.So please don't pegion hole all single male swingers and you have a right to your opinion so please respect mine.

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I guess I was taught a very different definition for what a swinger is. I was taught that a swinger is a person (or people) who like to engage in recreational sex. What is recreational sex? That definition is pretty broad but I tend to think of it as sex as a hobby, for fun, not necessarily with someone you would normally be socially sanctioned to have sex with.

I'm single, no husband, no boyfriend these days, and I consider myself a swinger.

I'm curious, does it bother you that there are single people who consider themselves swingers? Does something about that make you feel uncomfortable?

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We are too! ;-)

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I dunno that whore thing doesnt sound bad either ** looks at Nic

BTW welcome to the forums :)

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Agreed. Honesty is the best policy.

Have fun here!

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Hehehe...I'm a virgin whore!

LMAO

New Orleans LA

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Damn you Nic what does that make 5 in the past week and a half?

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Welcome to the fora Lynn...got another virgin! lol

By pure coincidence, I started in the lifestyle years ago as a couple but after my divorce, I started swinging single as I point out in my profile.

Enjoy, I have a feeling you will fit right in!

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They blocked YOU. When someone blocks you it is for a very good reason. Get over it and move on. SSDD