How to Convince Your Wife You Are Not Cheating On Her

Your wife has accused you of being unfaithful. You can't believe it. Throughout your entire marriage you've remained completely devoted and committed to your wife. Now she's telling you that she doesn't believe that to be the truth. You're devastated. Not only do you feel angry for being accused of something you haven't done but you also feel upset by the knowledge that your wife doesn't appreciate or see the depth of your dedication to her. Before you fly off the handle in a rage trying to defend yourself, it's important that you take a step back and think about what made your wife so suspicious.

Women tend to become distrustful if they feel their husband has developed a relationship with another woman that is too close. It often happens when a man has a close female friend. Try as he might to convince his wife that they are indeed only friends, she's going to worry especially if she's not included in the meetings between her husband and his female friend. The same is true if you work closely with an attractive woman. Your wife may feel threatened by this. In her mind she'll imagine you engaged in intimacy with your co-worker because she'll assume that you don't have the willpower to find the woman irresistible. Although you would never think about cheating, if you do have another female in your life in an important role, that could be what is causing your wife to hurl the infidelity accusations at you.

It's important that your life become an open book if your wife does suspect that you and a close friend or co-worker are engaged in an affair. In the case of a friendship, invite your wife to participate in the friendship more. Invite your female friend over so your wife can get to know her better. If this isn't enough to help your wife feel better it may be worthwhile to explain to your friend that your wife comes first and unless your wife can be an active participant in the friendship it may not be something you can invest a lot of time in at the moment.

It's obviously a bit different if your wife believes you are cheating with a female co-worker. Short of changing jobs all you can do is assure your wife that there is nothing going on. Invite your wife to your office to visit you both and if your co-worker is attached, arrange an evening out for all of you. If your wife is able to see your co-worker and her partner together she'll likely feel much less threatened by her.

It's important to remember that when a woman is worried that her husband is cheating it's typically her own insecurities that are pushing her to feel that way. If you spend more time and devote more attention to your wife it can help her immeasurably and she may feel much less jealous than she is now.

Saying or doing the wrong thing can actually cause your wife feel even more distant from you. You can make your wife fall back in love with you, all over again. You don't have to worry about whether your wife is on the brink of asking you for a divorce. You can control the situation and use specific techniques to naturally make her fall hopelessly in love with you.

So, you are in a state of confusion and wondering how to get your wife back. The good news is you still have an opportunity to get back your wife regardless of what you did wrong. You must learn one word, that is, humility. If begging and crawling will give you results, you must do it...