I Think My Partner is Cheating! 3 Big Warning Signs Of Infidelity

You've got a suspicious feeling that your partner is cheating on you. Maybe you've already taken note of some warning signs of infidelity. You're in love with them and want to trust them, but certain things don't add up. Let me tell you first you shouldn't blame yourself. Your lover's cheating is absolutely not your fault! Nothing deserves cheating in a relationship, period. If you are being cheated on, you deserve so much better! Read on to the 3 warning signs of infidelity below if you're ready to catch your cheater.

#1 White Lies
Small lies about seemingly insignificant things is one of the first warning signs of infidelity. These can simply be about when he paid the phone bill, or whether she "forgot" she had to work late. Cheaters feel like they have to cover their tracks so they'll lie about things they wouldn't usually lie about in order to dodge possible suspicion there.

#2 Lookin' Good, Feelin Not
Your lover has begun to take better care of their looks and hygiene, however your sex life has noticeably decreased. She's spending more time wearing make up and wearing sexier clothes, or he's using cologne, shaving and wearing nice shirts. (By the way, do you know where those new clothes came from?) And yet they're not in the mood for intimacy as often as they used to be. Doesn't make sense, does it? These warning signs of infidelity are a possible indicator of seeing someone on the side.

#3 A Little Paranoid
As said in #1, cheaters feel like they have to cover all their bases to ensure they don't seem suspicious in any regard. So if you say something that gives a hint of doubting them, they may answer defensively. For example you could jokingly say, "I know where you really where last night", and your lover may react like, "What are you talking about? What do you mean?" They could even accuse you of cheating! These warning signs of infidelity may be subtle, but they are still important.

So you've looked at these warning signs of infidelity and feel even more sure. Now what do you do? I can say one thing for certain: don't confront your lover right away. Gather your emotions and evidence first. If you accuse them and come off as unstable and emotional, the cheater will be in control.

They will take the opportunity to appear calm, collected, and rational while you're a mess. Don't give them this opportunity! Pretend you don't suspect a thing and they will get cocky, making it more likely to make a mistake and give you more warning signs of infidelity. Gather up these warning signs of infidelity. Express yourself to a close friend or family member (who you're sure you're partner isn't involved with) so you don't feel like an emotional time bomb ready to explode. Good luck!