Open Days

Who Should You Take to an Open Day?

You’ve got the open day timetable in your bag and the university prospectus tucked under your arm – you’re off to scout out what could end up being your home for the next few years. Open days are important, so who should you take with you?

Visit any university open day in the country and you’ll see countless would-be students trying to casually distance themselves from their parents. Yes they’re embarrassing, but as your primary caregivers for the last 18 years it makes sense to bring them along – after all they’re as invested in your uni choice as you are.

PROS

You’ll get a free lift and they’ll probably spring for lunch, plus they’ll ask questions for you if you’re the shy sort.

CONS

Potentially hugely embarrassing, especially if they ask questions whether you want them to or not. Could also cause potential issues if you have a difference of opinion about the ample drinks provision at the student union.

You’ve been partners in crime for years, so it makes sense that they’re part of this exciting new adventure too, right? You’ll also need someone to point out all the hot students, and who’s a better wing person than your bessie?

PROS

With no embarrassing parents around, you can check out the things you’re interested in, as well as easing some of the sadness of leaving your BFF behind by making plans for future visits.

CONS

While you’re definitely up for checking out the local sports bars, you do really need to find out some important information about your course too. And it might be harder to chat to other visiting potentials if your mate is hanging off your sleeve.

You’ve decided you’re going to stay together throughout university, even if you’ll be living on different sides of the country. They know you better than you know yourself, so their opinion is vital.

PROS

They’ll be on hand to chill you out if you start having a massive "oh my goodness university seems so scary" crisis, and them being able to visualise you in your environment while you’re apart will help bridge the distance.

CONS

You’re about to start a whole new chapter of your life and they won’t be there to experience it with you – watch out for tears.

You’re about to embark on an amazing new adventure – the only person you need to be answerable to is yourself, right?

PROS

No distractions from other people, or other opinions muddying the waters of your decision. You can visit the talks and buildings you want, and chat to whoever you want. If you end up choosing that university, you’ll feel like it’s really yours.

CONS

It might get a little lonely at lunch time, and you’ll have no-one to bounce thoughts and ideas off. If you end up choosing that university, you might feel a bit isolated at the start having not experienced that environment with your nearest or dearest.