Suggestion to "newbies"... Decide if you are just lookin' 4fun or a real commitment...and stick to your goal. Early-on, I made many baaaaaad decisions, "looking for fun" relationships that soon blurred into something I thought was 4real. Then I was "surprised" when it ended quickly/badly... Of course it would! I think there is a place for quick frolics, but just know going in what the expected outcome will be and accept it for what it is/was.

Suggestion to "newbies"... Decide if you are just lookin' 4fun or a real commitment...and stick to your goal. Early-on, I made many baaaaaad decisions, "looking for fun" relationships that soon blurred into something I thought was 4real. Then I was "surprised" when it ended quickly/badly... Of course it would! I think there is a place for quick frolics, but just know going in what the expected outcome will be and accept it for what it is/was.