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Number 1 Girl Mentally focused and physically strong, the first born girl presents a powerful physical presence. She gathers and preserves the family, sometimes overpowering others with her confidence and driving sense of responsibility. What a strong little girl and incredible woman this birth order position is! As she grows, she will start to tell her mother what to do. Control is her natural gift, but is it also her greatest weakness. Number 1 girl like to manage situations, telling others what to do.Number 1 girl can be so precious in her role as a 'little mother' organizing the neighbourhood kids to play house or become a make believe family. She takes her responsibility seriously, as she takes personally all the problems the other kids might encounter. It is easier for No 1 girl to be the mother than the daughter. Extend her childhood by helping her not to take on too much responsibility too soon. Teach her to laugh and play. Give her freedom and a sense of equality, but protect her from feeling that she has to solve family problems and conflicts.