Category: Adultery Advice

The ultimate cheating quiz

After being in a serious relationship with my girlfriend for over four years, I began to suspect her of cheating. I suspected this because she began acting a lot colder towards me and always seemed to be too busy to spend time with me like she used to. Since my girlfriend is very secretive, catching her in the act was basically impossible — still I didn’t want to waste anymore time on her and wanted to know if she was sleeping around right away, so I went on my computer and took a cheating quiz. This cheating quiz really helped me state the obvious, and sadly, the obvious was that my girlfriend was cheating on me via online dating websites.

Signs of an affair and how to spot one

After taking the cheating quiz, I was able to properly spot the signs of an affair. So when I began to examine my girlfriend’s behavior, I instantly knew she that she was cheating on me. To me, the most obvious sign that she was having an affair was her lack of interest in me. It seemed that she was so focused on covering up her tracks that she never asked me how my day was, or frankly, any questions at all because she was afraid I would then direct the same questions back to her.

Is she seeing other men in Miami?

When it started to become more clear that she was cheating, I couldn’t help but think about her seeing other men in Miami. Who were these other men and how did she meet them? Since Miami is a populated area, I suspected her of using online dating platforms to meet local men, but there are a lot of ways she could have met some. Since most people now use online dating services to cheat on their partners, looking through her laptop’s history helped me figure out exactly who she was talking to to and how frequently.

Does it look like she’s getting ready to go out on dates?

Before I took the cheating quiz and found out my girlfriend was cheating, I was always skeptical about her going out with her friends — not because I didn’t trust her but because of how long she would take to get ready to go out. My girlfriend would leave our house, looking like she just got ready to go out on a date, but then say she was grabbing drinks with friends. Although it wasn’t uncommon for her to go out for drinks, it was strange to see her so done-up. In the end, I realised that she had been using her friends as an alibi and actually going out on dates with other men in Miami instead.

Does she always have her cellphone on her?

When I first started dating my girlfriend, her cell phone was like my cell phone: we had no passwords or privacy arguments. But all that changed when she started cheating on me and put a password on her cell phone. When I first saw the password and asked her about it, she told me she wanted to have more privacy — this was probably the biggest sign she could have given me — because people who have nothing to hide don’t need to hide their phone from their partners.

Do you think your boyfriend is cheating on you? If you do then you’ve come to the right place. There are a lot of factors you should consider when debating whether or not you’re being cheated on, so to help you come to a conclusion we have put together a small cheating quiz that will allow you to know for sure.

Is he cheating?

Is he cheating on you? Has your boyfriend started acting strange and distant? If he has then he is either cheating on you or mad at you for something. An easy way of finding out if he is cheating on you is to look through his phone and see who he is texting and calling. If you ask to see his phone and he refuses, he is obviously trying to hide something from you.

Clear signs of an affair

There are many clear signs of an affair, the main one being that your boyfriend’s sex drive and willingness to see you has dropped drastically since you started suspecting him of cheating. If your boyfriend is becoming a stranger to you or acting like he is too busy to see you every couple days, he might be trying to show you that he is cheating and doesn’t want to be with you anymore. If you want to learn more telltale signs that your boyfriend is cheating, read our blog on the subject.

Affair quiz: Helps you see the obvious

Taking the affair quiz will help you see the obvious, and the obvious might be that you are being cheated on. When reading through these paragraphs, try and keep a mental note of how many clues your boyfriend is sending your way. If you can relate to any of these clues, it’s safe to say that you are being cheated on by the person who is supposed to love and care for you. If your boyfriend isn’t giving you the attention that you deserve, it might be because he is giving it to someone else in the St-John’s area.

Are you still in a real relationship?

Being in a relationship with someone you love shouldn’t be a complicated affair. In fact, a healthy relationship should be very easy to uphold. If your boyfriend has begun acting like a different person and making you feel like you’re no longer his main priority, you need to start asking yourself if you are still in a real relationship. A real relationship is when two individuals spend their free time together, include each other in their events, accompany each other to family gatherings, have sex, cuddle, and respect one another. If you are not mentally crossing off every single one of these relationship prerequisites, you might not be in a real relationship anymore.

Does he always answer his cell phone when you call?

When you call your boyfriend does he answer you? If he is constantly dodging your calls and not telling you where he is, this might be a sign that you are being cheated on. When someone is faithful and committed to you, they will always answer your calls and tell you what they’re doing, where they are and who they are with. If your boyfriend has stopped acting this way and started being dodgy with his phone (even though it is always glued to his hand), there is definitely something going on. If he has admitted to cheating and wants a second chance, read our guide on how to determine if he deserves it.

He’s obviously cheating on you

Some cheaters are better at hiding the fact that they are unfaithful than others, but despite their biggest efforts to get away with cheating, it is usually pretty easy to bust them. If you believe that you are being cheated on, there are many different ways to find out for sure. If he’s obviously cheating on you, you probably already know about it but are just looking for proof. Luckily, there are some telltale signs that you are being cheated on that are very easy to spot out. The first and most obvious sign that your partner is cheating is that they look guilty. Most first-time cheaters end up experiencing guilt, and because of this guilt they’ll distance themselves from their lovers. If your lover has begun to act distant and weird, this might be a clue that he has cheated on you.

How to tell if they are cheating: Their sex drive has changed

When you date someone for a long time, you become accustomed to their sex drive. You know when they enjoy having sex and you know how many times a week they want to have it. So if you’re used to your man having sex with you a certain amount of times a week, and then all of a sudden they just stop trying to be intimate, this might be a sign that they are getting their sex from someone else.

They disappear for hours on end without explanation

One of the biggest signs that you are being cheated on is when your boyfriend starts acting like a magician and disappearing from the globe. When you’re in a relationship with someone, it’s common for you to know where they are at at all times. So when they start disappearing for hours on end and not telling you where they were, it is normal for you to start thinking that they are seeing someone else. If your boyfriend is disappearing for hours a day, a couple times a week, and he isn’t telling you where he is, he is probably at some other girl’s house in Quebec City.

They don’t answer their phone when you call

If you were born in the past thirty years, the chances of you having your phone on you 24/7 is pretty high. Since the entire purpose of having a phone is to be able to answer and call your loved ones, it is very strange when someone you’re dating isn’t answering your call or messages. If you don’t know where your boyfriend is, and he doesn’t answer or text you back for over two hours and he’s not sleeping, something is definitely wrong.

They never want to go out on dates or spend real time with you

When you’re in love with someone and dating them, you usually go out on dates and spend time together right? So if all of a sudden your boyfriend is flaking out on you, not taking you out like he used to, and is overall only seeing you when he has to, you need to accept that he’s seeing someone else. He might not be taking you out anymore because he’s spending his money on taking out another woman. If you want to find out more about telltale clues that he’s cheating, read another one of our guides on the subject.

Are they cheating on you?

More often than not, when you suspect your lover of cheating on you, it is because they are. People tend to have something called intuition, so if your body starts talking to you out of nowhere, it is wise to listen to it. If you want to find out if your loved one is cheating, the best thing to do is ask them, but then again I guess it’s not that easy. Since infidelity is a testy subject for many couples, it is important to approach your loved one gently when trying to tackle this subject. If you aren’t willing to confront your lover about cheating based off of intuition, you should try reading up on some common cheating signs
and see if your partner has been acting in this manner.

Catch them cheating

When I first started thinking that my lover was seeing someone else besides me, I knew that in order to get them to confess, I needed some proof. Since I did not want to remain in a relationship where I was being played, I wanted to catch them cheating so that I could just walk out of the relationship without having to go through the breakup motions. In order to catch them cheating, I needed to find out what they were doing with their day when I was at work, so I got my little brother to follow them around and see what they were up to.

Are they in another emotional relationship?

My brother followed my partner around for the day and told me that nothing out of the ordinary was happening. I was relieved but I still couldn’t shake the feeling that I was being cheated on. I did some reading online, trying to find out if there were different types of cheating out there, and I found out that there is such a thing as emotional cheating. Apparently, some people cheat on their partners by texting a stranger all day, and sending them pictures of themselves. These strangers allegedly know all about your partner, and sometimes more than you do.

Are they physically cheating on you?

The thought of my partner cheating on me emotionally made me feel a little weird, but somehow I knew that something was going on. When I got home from work that night, I asked to look through their phone and they started getting defensive. Eventually I got the phone in my hands and confirmed my suspicions. My partner may not have been cheating on me physically, but they were sending nude pictures of themselves to randoms on the internet and it just made me feel like I didn’t know who I was with anymore.

Breaking up with a cheater

Although my partner hadn’t actually cheated on me in person, I still considered their actions as cheating and so I started to pack my bags right away. They kept pleading with me saying that they hadn’t done anything wrong, that they were just lonely, but I didn’t care. Breaking up with a cheater is a lot easier than breaking up with someone you have fallen out of love with because you don’t owe them an explanation. I slept at my brother’s place that night, found an apartment in Whanganui, and moved there the following week.

Is she having an affair or is it something else?

I love my wife with all my heart but sometimes she gives me reasons to doubt her loyalty to our marriage. We’ve been together for eight years, but even since we moved to Philadelphia last year for my job, I can’t help but wonder if she’s having an affair. I know that moving can be hard to get used to, and unlike her, I have friends here because of work. Since she hasn’t found a job yet, I don’t know whether or not she’s just depressed or if she’s having an affair with someone she met in Philadelphia while I’m at work.

She smells like cologne — She must be cheating

The other night when I got home from work, I could smell a manly musk off of her but instead of just asking her about it I asked her how her day went. She said that she went to the mall, did some shopping, and came back home but I don’t know why she would smell like that. I can’t shake the fact that she must be cheating but she has never been the cheating type and so I am a little more than confused. I know I should ask her about it but she moved her entire life to Philadelphia for me to land my dream job, and I don’t want to insult her.

How to know if she’s cheating: Get sneaky with it

Since I don’t want to ask her if she’s cheating on me, I decided to order a GPS tracker and put it in her car. I know it’s a sneaky way of finding out whether or not she’s cheating but I need to know — I love her. I’ve been tracking her activity for about two days now and she hasn’t gone anywhere but the corner store, mall, gym, and a park where she walks our dog. I’m starting to think that I may be paranoid that she is cheating but I’ll keep tracking her for a couple more days. I also can’t help but wonder if she’s already met someone and he is coming to our house to see her.

When you ask her if she’s cheating she starts acting like the victim

Last night when I got home from work my wife smelt like cologne again and I lost it. I accused her of cheating and told her why I thought so and she immediately started crying. I thought she was about to confess to cheating but she started acting like the victim instead, saying that she couldn’t find a job, was bored, had moved her for me, and smelt like cologne because she’d brought the dog to the groomers and they shampooed him. I smelt the dog to make sure, and the smells were compatible. I apologized to her and we talked things through.

She’s wearing new jewelry

Everything was fine until I saw her wearing a new necklace. I knew she hadn’t bought it for herself because she hated heart-shaped jewelry. Suddenly, I realised that my wife had never gone to the dog groomers (it wasn’t on the tracker), and that the only reason the dog smelt of cologne was because the man in question had been playing with it. I told her about it, she confirmed the affair, and I moved out the next day.