Me: BH - Happily remarried.
Hope is never lost. It exists within you - it is real. It is not a force in and of itself - it is something that you create with every thought, action, and choice you make. It is a gift that you create for yourself.

I copied it as a word document so that I can read it when I need to get my head on straight. Very good advice and easy to understand, Thank you!

BS 37
WS 37
Married 18 years
Two children 12 & 18
D Day May 1,09
WS moved out May 5,09
I am hoping for R, but WW refuses and says it is not possible, she's "IN LOVE" I refuse to give up hope!
6-24-09,I really no longer want her back

Posts: 88 | Registered: May 2009

marvalon♀ MemberMember # 23324

Posted: 9:38 PM, June 21st (Sunday), 2009

That's a great post. I am ready for all this. I have started some of this and will soon see a lawyer. I am going to stop his engagement in my financial affairs, which will make him blow his stack. He likes using all the write offs from my business, but I will be filing separate tax returns as long as this is going on. I don't trust his financial judgment anyway. He also wants money from me monthly. That's stopping. He has bought OW flowers on different occasions, and probably things I am not aware of. I am keeping your checklist handy as a reminder.

The most important person in your life is you. The person who you love the most in the world should be you! Why not? Who better than you?
Ayn Rand

Say what you wanna say and let the words fall out...honestly
I wanna see you be brave

Pretty pretty please, don't you ever ever feel
Like you're less than, less than perfect

Posts: 12248 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: DeepInTheHeartOf, TX

nooneeverthought♀ MemberMember # 20157

Posted: 9:26 AM, August 4th (Tuesday), 2009

bump to page one

it doesn't matter where you go in life ,it's who you have the beside you

Posts: 8493 | Registered: Jul 2008

jewel123♀ MemberMember # 22863

Posted: 9:15 AM, August 11th (Tuesday), 2009

bump

BS me 44
H 46 (paulie)
married 25 years (hs sweethearts)
dday 8-08
DS19
DS23
New love is the brightest, and long love is the greatest, but revived love is the tenderest thing known on earth. -Thomas Hardy
Reconciled! :)