Kelly Rowland’s engagement ring might be big, but the X Factor judge tells PEOPLE that her wedding will be just the opposite.

The former Destiny’s Child singer, 32, who got engaged to her boyfriend and manager, Tim Witherspoon, over Skype, says that while she hasn’t set a date yet, she knows just what kind of ceremony she wants to have.

“I think we just really want it to be us and our pastor. That’s it. I mean, we are the only two that’s going to be in the marriage.”

“You have to pay for food for everyone and I’m not down with that. Everyone is there just to be nosy and see who I’m wearing, you know. I’m okay.”

Kelly has never been one to flaunt her relationships in public, so maybe all of this media attention has made her feel some type of way. Do you think she’ll change her mind and at least invite her parents and close friends in the end?

Kelly also showed some skin last night on the “X-Factor” finale red carpet. Peep pics of her showing off that bangin’ bawwwdy on the flip.