Supposedly, Selena’s been hanging out with people who Justin would rather her avoid — like Seth Rogen, who’s outspoken about his distaste for the Biebs, and Orlando Bloom, who could be seen as a potential threat to all relationships, not just Justin and Selena’s… if we’re being honest.

Justin’s not having it, though, which is why he’s decided to spend time with Miley openly, knowing that Selena’s not her biggest fan to gain the upper hand. We want to love Justin and Selena together, we really do, but if this piece of intel is true, it’s certainly not helping matters.

“He knows that it bugs Selena when he hangs out with Miley, so of course he wanted her to know about it,” a source close to Justin says. “He’s feeling insecure and he wants to make her feel the same way.”

Always the best way to work out problems with the person you’re dating, are we right?

“Their drama always starts because they don’t trust each other,” the source adds. Unsurprising — we wouldn’t exactly be first in line to trust someone whose first line of defense was to try to make us jealous by hanging out with someone we don’t like.

Can’t we all just get along? And maybe leave Miley out of it. She’s had a rough week mourning the loss of her beloved (and adorable) dog, Floyd. Meanwhile, maybe Justin can figure out that talking through problems might be a better way to handle them than retaliation… especially if he wants Selena to keep sticking around.