Thank you all for all of your warm wishes... i live in Hauppauge, long island... i just moved here about a couple of months a go with my fiance

the only big dilema i am having at the moment is choosing where to legalize my marriage... i dont know if i should go to punta cana and do the whole marriage license out there or if i should do it here in NY... and also i have no clue about invitations... ahhh...

oh and my mother is against me having a destination wedding... she says not everybody is going to be able to go and that i am being difficult...

i have always been a simple girl, i like to be different, i never ever wanted to get married and now that i am getting married to the man of my dreams i dont want it to be a typical wedding. i think having a big huge wedding is a great thing for those who want it but i dont see any joy in that...

my mom is making it very difficult for me to enjoy this time of my life because she keeps telling me that im making a big mistake... and everyone else is excited, everybody tells me how they cant wait for the wedding to attend and they are excited except for my mom...