Going with OS dipes would make it easier, but I think I want to stay away from the bulk factor...which makes me think they might not be the best for us. Lots of people love them, though! So many variables to consider, that's why I always come back to the trial pack

By private scan, I just mean it is a private u/s, not the doctor ordered anatomy scan. That won't be for a couple more weeks. We are not keeping gender a secret. No way!!