for having sex the first time you get with a guy, the boys we interviewed are in consensus that this is not a deal-breaker in deciding whether or not you are girlfriend material. i think wanting companionship -- especially after so many years on my own -- is natural and understandable; desperate would be entering into a relationship with just anyone who'd have me, whether or not i'm really into them.

my opinion, if you think of yourself as an awesome human being, who doesn’t need a person on the street to measure your worth or your potential at finding true love, then you are totally girlfriend material — no matter what any guys say.