I've never timed it, Jaysus, it's not like boiling an egg. It varies, since sometimes you have plenty of time to fool around all weekend, and other times, you've got a few minutes before you're due at work.

Expectations are mostly resentments waiting to happen, so I can only go with I hope he lasts long enough to complete the job.

guy I'm with now often goes 45 minutes to over an hour of actually P in V sex before he comes. The rest of my experience was probably more like a few minutes and the difference between a quicky and a long night was about what we did before and after penetration. Honestly, I miss the quickies, but I know it's a good problem to have.

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