Rasheeda tells Cocoa Fab that she and Peach Candy cohort Kandi have had numerous chats about Kandi's relationship with Todd Tucker and the couple's tension with Mama Joyce. "I talk to Kandi frequently, so I understand everything that’s going on," Rasheeda says. "It’s hard to talk to a friend about their mom. That’s somebody that they love, and the situation is not easy."

"I tell her to do what makes her happy and makes her feel good," Rasheeda continues. "That was my main thing with her. She has to be happy." Rasheeda adds, "You can’t let outside people make decisions for you." As you may know, Kandi and Todd finally tied the knot in April 2014.

Rasheeda — who is married to Kirk Frost and has two children — points out that Mama Joyce says what's on her mind, whether the cameras are rolling or not. "What you see is what you get," she says of Mama Joyce.

We think Rasheeda offered some great words of wisdom to Kandi, and we wish Kandi and Todd all the best as they continue to adjust to life as newlyweds!