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After Nadya Suleman’s two-part special with Dr. Phil, the cameras keep rolling. Dr. Phil leads a town hall meeting between the mother everyone is talking about and the studio audience. See Nadya openly answer viewers’ questions: How will she take care of herself while caring for 14 kids? Where will the children be while she pursues her education? How will she find transportation for all her kids? Where will the organization that's agreed to help her, Angels in Waiting, get the funds to assist with 14 children? How will the donations coming in be handled? Is the sperm donor aware that he has fathered 14 kids? Then, Nadya leaves the stage but the discussion continues without her. The audience doesn't hold back with their heated comments. Plus, as Nadya prepares to move into her new home and make it suitable for the influx of babies, how will her new neighborhood react to the mom of 14 and the media frenzy that follows? Talk about the show here.

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Nadya Suleman

Although I live in Australia and probably have no right to comment on this subject.

My television has only just caught up with the fifth program in the series regarding Nadya Suleman.

To me the most simple solution is that if Nadya cannot care for her babies herself without a tremedous amount of help (both monetary and by using friends and relations) AND she realises that she made a mistake to have all embryos implanted then I am sure that there are plenty of childless couples in America who would love to adopt a little baby.

DISGUSTED

I am disgusted with Nadya and all the help she is receiving, she is getting exactly what she wanted. call me cold but I'm honest. Split these kids up they can find each other when they are older if they want to (Adoption not foster care). There are so many other kids out there that need help, a home, diapers and food. You people are fixing up her home, giving her a 24hr care and taking her shopping for a new wardrobe. I need some new clothes and help with my bills. She is getting all this help but who will be left with her Dr. and Hospital bills, us people in California who did not make this reckless decision. SHE MADE THIS CHOICE LET HER LIVE WITH IT. Women drop eggs every month we dont keep them because they could be a baby. Get real you selfish person!

03/16 Octuplets' Mom Answers Viewer Questions

Although I live in Australia and probably have no right to comment on this subject.

My television has only just caught up with the fifth program in the series regarding Nadya Suleman.

To me the most simple solution is that if Nadya cannot care for her babies herself without a tremedous amount of help (both monetary and by using friends and relations) AND she realises that she made a mistake to have all embryos implanted then I am sure that there are plenty of childless couples in America who would love to adopt a little baby.

Really?????

Town Hall meeting? Too bad the viewers didn't know about this ahead of time, I'm sure a lot of us have questions that we would have loved to have her try and answer.

1. How can she afford to get her nails done as often as she does? Every time someone does a story on her, her nails are always perfect. How? How does she find the time? Even if it takes just an hour to get them done, that's an hour she doesn't (or shouldn't) have. If those kids are as important to her as she claims they are, why is she not spending every minute with them? If she's not with the six at home, then she should be with those 8 babies. Kate Gosslin said that the first year of her sextuplets lives, she never left the house, she was lucky to get fifteen minutes to go outside for lunch. It's pure selfishness on Nadya's part - she keeps proving that time and time again. But let's have the viewers contribute their hard earned money so that she can continue to get those nails done.

2. In trying to explain the 911 call, she said that her son went on a walk with the nanny. How does someone on welfare afford a nanny? I would love to have a nanny help me with my kids, but certainly can't afford one. Just goes to show you, if she can't keep track of 6, how is that crazy person going to take care of 14? She is seriously out of her mind as are you Dr. Phil if you think she doesn't need to undergo some serious counseling. She is living in La La Land and doesn't have a clue what this is going to cost us, not her, US and she doesn't really seem to care. It's not bad enough that we're forking out our tax money to pay for the medical bills for the birth and continued on-going care of these babies, but then you give us a number to call if we feel the need to donate. What?

3. I believe on one of your latest shows someone from ANGELS said they would have 12 nurses rotating 'round the clock. Why so many? If that woman (using the word in the losest form) claims she can take care of six at one time (all by herself - as she said she didn't have help from her mother up until the last part of her pregnancy), why can't she take care of a few of the babies also? Us viewers certainly don't have anyone helping us with our babies so we can go to sleep or go pick up the other kids from school, or run to nail place to get my nails done, or back to the plastic surgeon to get another fill......

4. Why when she found out that she was carrying six/seven babies (one was hiding aparently and they didn't find out until the day of their births), why didn't she then have a plan? She knew about this for over half a year and yet she did nothing and we're expected to all rally to her side because she placed a frantic phone call to Dr. Phil saying a couple of her babies were ready to come home but the hospital administration (actually has a few people with some common sense) said no way are we letting you take them home in those conditions. Come on people, she knew exactly what she was doing. After one of her first ultrasounds when they found the six or seven babies, thriving, why didn't she then get her a** in gear and come up with some sort of plan? She doesn't care any more for those kids than she does for all those donations that are coming her way. I have yet to see that woman shed a tear for all the generosity people are showing her with, for the free house, flooring, nursery, beds, built in babysitters. She is the most ungrateful person I have ever met. Again, she knew exactly what she was doing. If she didn't get it one way, she would have gotten it another (welfare, disability checks for her kids which we all know isn't going for the care of the kids - it's for her pretty nails!).

5. Who is handling all this money that is coming in? Nadya has proven to all of us that in no way is she responsible enough to handle that. Any money that people are crazy enough to donate to this mentally unstable person should be handled by a neutral party that makes sure it goes directly to the children and their current needs (not their future - they need it now so that us tax payers don't have to pay any more than we already have for those kids). Perhaps when all the medical bills are paid and some money is given to those poor grandparents who never received anything in form of rent or compensation for putting up with a psycho daughter and her first six kids (Grandma said she never saw a penny and didn't even know about the settlement Nadya got from her last/only job but Nadya claims she did pay her mother for rent - LIE!). Gee, let's see, who do we believe, a person who clearly is unstable, who doesn't have enough consideration for others that she can allow them to finish a sentence before she opens her big fat mouth, or her poor mother who has been nothing but used? Tough one Dr. Phil. But you keep letting her interupt you. You would never tollerate that from any other guest, yet you say nothing to her. What does this woman have over you?

It's one thing Dr. Phil to take care of the kids, but you're acting as an enabler - one thing I've heard you get on guests of your show about over and over again, how they enable their adult child to walk all over them, etc.. This doesn't make you any better.

There was a post on perhaps the first show you had her on where this person condemned us for voicing our opinions and that God did this - that this is what he wanted for this woman - he's the one that gives us our children, etc.. First of all, these message boards are for just that purpose, so that we can leave our opinions, if you don't like it, don't read them. This woman had six IMPLANTED - she did not do this naturally - the way God intended it - when medicine gets involved, sometimes God gets pushed to the side, unfortunately.

I think if people knew their money would go directly to the children and she wouldn't see a dime, more people would be willing to help out. I say, if you feel the need to contribute don't give money - she can spend that - give your time to hold those babies as she clearly doesn't have time for the six she already had, (and she thought she had a lonely childhood? Her poor kids won't even know their mother, the only thing they'll ever long for - their mothers attention, they'll never be able to have - for more than 45 minutes).

I certainly hope we as tax payers aren't going to be expected to pay for all these kids until they're adults, with all the money coming in she better be able to get her butt off welfare and take care of her own darn kids, we have our own to take care of, we really don't need the burden of taking care of hers too.

Nayda

Dear Dr. Phil,

Stop - Please stop - with your Nayda fund raisers. This women does not deserve the help. you say everything goes to the children - that is not true. I am sure she will live in the $565K home. You are just delaying a train wreck. She is not competent enough to care for these children - now or through 18 years old. will Angels in waiting be available until then? I doubt that! You are ruining your show by having her on. If these children could be harmed in Foster care, perhaps adoptions with caring, loving competent families would best serve these beautiful children.

03/16 Octuplets' Mom Answers Viewer Questions

i am sure i will get alot of responses from this but i feel i must say it. i dont think it's any ones bussiness how many kids this woman has!!!!!! i dont think any one has a right to judge this lady. this lady has 14 kids. bless her heart! if she can keep up with them all and have patients.as long as this lady is taking care of them all in a healthy way, i dont feel it is any ones business. i dont feel the media should be involved i believe if this lady can provide for them (love, clothes,food etc.)thats all that matters. look at all those out there that had kids that didnt want them. they are actully the ones that should be judged not this woman she wanted a big family. she got it. its no ones place to judge this woman. shame on you!!!!!!

Nayda Suleman is just a con/scam artisit

Most of the americans believe that Nayda Suleman had planned this whole thing. She know that people will be angry with this ridiculous thing she did. She is hoping for our sympathy so she can be a free loader for the rest of her life. She does not have much of a work history. Any women would know that she fake her back injury by now. No one that has a severe back injury like she claim can keep carry babies. She should pay back disability the 168K she took and hope that they do not put her in jail for fraud. This lady is playing all of us from the start in hoping that we will all be so gulliable to donate our hard earn money. It is not our job to raise her kids. she made that decision. I bet Nadya's been watching too much reality show such as Jon & Kate plus 8. She saw what they got and decide to do the same except she didn't count on so many hatred toward her. Nayda lies and lies. She got numerous plastic surgery which included her eyes, nose, cheeks, chin, huge fake boobs. Every one that knew Nayda said that her face looks completely different. She got botox, juvaderm for her whole face plus some other kind of filler for her fake gross looking lips. Making babies is easy, but raising them is not. Don't let this woman drain your pocket. There are way too many , much deserving people that need donations. Please don't let Nayda Suleman take your hard earn money. Look at how she is already spend that money. ballet shoes for $200 , and so on. Don't donate, cuz you are encouraging people to follow her foot steps. Don't reward Nadya that obvious is laughing behind your back on her way to the bank!!!!!!! Nadya should just make porno movies , then she can honestly say she earn it........................ Don't say I didn't tell you so. In a few short year, you will see this big time scam artisit living in a house that is 5,000 or more square footage......................... You want to be a sucker??????????????

03/16 Octuplets' Mom Answers Viewer Questions

Dr. Phil, Dr. Phil, Dr. Phil!!! At the start of the interview with Nadya, I sat with my jaw dropped.. thinking, what the heck is he doing??? Does he not see this woman is saying what he wants to hear????? I couldn't believe I was watching "our" Dr. Phil!!! After a couple of days, I realized as you say, "this is not your first rodeo". You surely have a plan somewhere down the road. I think you mainly want the babies to receive the best care possible and it looks like they will...until Nadya pulls the plug on everything and wants all caregivers out! This woman is crazy and I hope you can help her, Dr. Phil. She is clueless to life.

Now....I was in foster homes until I was 16 mos old and then adopted by a wonderful couple. My birth mother was a 35 yr old single Mom with two boys 12 & 10 and two girls 8 & 6. This was not popular in 1949. She made the choice to allow a childless couple the opportunity to raise her baby girl.

My daughter and her two sons lived with me and her Dad until the boys were 8. Then she was on her own. Is was extremely tough but she did it. Now she has two awesome teenage boys.

My daughter in law was born without a uterus. After 2 heartbreaking years of hearing, "we have another mother due...." they finally adopted a precious bi-racial 18 mo little boy.

My point... my mother loved me enough to let me be raised in a better home than she could provide. My daughter had enough sense to know she couldn't raise more than two boys alone! My daughter in law would have loved to adopted one of those precious babies.

Why couldn't she release these babies for adoption? She already has 6 children why did she want another baby??? This is not normal behavior!! Just because you can doesn't mean you should!!