Helping someone else

How can I help a someone I know who is experiencing domestic abuse?

Some basic steps you can take are:

Make sure they are safe – this is the number one priority

Be understanding. Acknowledge that it takes strength to trust someone enough to talk about the abuse & that there are many people in this situation. Allow them time and if they don’t feel ready, don’t push them to giving details.

Do not criticise the abuser, as this could put the person off telling you any more information.

Be supportive and listen & encourage them to express their hurt and anger.

Let them make their own decisions, if they are not ready to leave their relationship yet then that is their decision.