Posted by PurplePassion38I'm looking for 50/50. I had to be real with myself, I'm not submissive outside of the bedroom, and I don't want to be. I wasn't raised that way, and it's not my personality. I'm a very capable take charge person, it's not in me to follow, but I don't have to always lead either. I like someone who balances me where I fall short, but doesn't try to stifle my independent spirit. Just let me breathe so I can do what I do best, and I will let you do the same. Let's bring out the best in each other. I've dated men who were slightly more dominant than me and I've dated men who were slightly more submissive than me. They each had their own dynamic which I liked.

The discussion I had with my coworker at lunch yesterday was that my personality is intimidating to men, I'm too strong. She is very passive in comparison. She said I reminded her of her other single girlfriends. I guess I don't seem meek or submissive enough. She is married and felt she was giving me good advice that in other words...I should be more like her. I'd rather die. I mean just die. The men I've dated have admired me for my strength, even encouraged it. I'm not the meek type.

Did they tell you what exactly is intimidating about you? I usually picture a ball busting bernadette (big bang theory), but men usually dont know how to handle a disagreable fastpaced woman who is very active in steering the conversation. Dont agreee or disagree with the answer please.

People who use strong and dominant in one sentence dont know butter. Subs are ultimately in charge cause they allow and forbid the doms to step on their boundaries. They are usually the ones who can truly handle a dominant woman without getting stressed out in real life. They truly wish for that and have more frame than most machos.

I'm fast paced and active in steering the conversation. 😂😂 She thinks its why I can't steer the conversation.

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She thinks you cannot steer the conversation cause you are active and fastpaced in steering the conversation?

Can you give me advice? I am a slow and contemplative taurus how would you train me in not letting you run over me without getting combative? I think convos are two way streets so people are rude when they impose their thoughts. But then again people tell you you cant handle a szrong woman if you get handle strong woman.

Posted by PurplePassion38I'm looking for 50/50. I had to be real with myself, I'm not submissive outside of the bedroom, and I don't want to be. I wasn't raised that way, and it's not my personality. I'm a very capable take charge person, it's not in me to follow, but I don't have to always lead either. I like someone who balances me where I fall short, but doesn't try to stifle my independent spirit. Just let me breathe so I can do what I do best, and I will let you do the same. Let's bring out the best in each other. I've dated men who were slightly more dominant than me and I've dated men who were slightly more submissive than me. They each had their own dynamic which I liked.

The discussion I had with my coworker at lunch yesterday was that my personality is intimidating to men, I'm too strong. She is very passive in comparison. She said I reminded her of her other single girlfriends. I guess I don't seem meek or submissive enough. She is married and felt she was giving me good advice that in other words...I should be more like her. I'd rather die. I mean just die. The men I've dated have admired me for my strength, even encouraged it. I'm not the meek type.

Did they tell you what exactly is intimidating about you? I usually picture a ball busting bernadette (big bang theory), but men usually dont know how to handle a disagreable fastpaced woman who is very active in steering the conversation. Dont agreee or disagree with the answer please.

People who use strong and dominant in one sentence dont know butter. Subs are ultimately in charge cause they allow and forbid the doms to step on their boundaries. They are usually the ones who can truly handle a dominant woman without getting stressed out in real life. They truly wish for that and have more frame than most machos.

Posted by libralionfishSo many of these men have come across my path and they all seem to be the unevolved kind ...habitual liars, cheaters, martyrs and charmers. They will say anything to get into your pants and stroke their own ego (which is insatiable btw).

Then (shockingly!) you find out they're married with a white picket fence, 3 kids, that they're incredibly caring family men, pillars of society, etc. Their wife does everything for them and yet they're still not satisfied with their love life.

These guys sound like the textbook definition of a sociopath/serial killer if you ask me.

Based on the answers that you have selected, you are most sexually compatible with Virgos. Virgos don't need all the bells and whistles to have a good time but when it comes to the deed itself, they are known for showing great attention to detail, so the chances that you are going to leave unsatisfied are slim to none.

Well Id love to have a watery virgo, but I know how to use their compulsive need for repition and attention for detail for my own gain muhahaha.

Quiet by Susan Cain. Encouraging Introverts to own their nature instead of trying to become Harvey Specter. Being sensitive to noise, being risk averse, not liking aggressiveness doesnt make us deficient.

Guys did you see the baywatch movie? Priyanka Chopra was a tryhard. She tried to sound like sexy with her smokey voice. Its cringey. She tried to come across sexy and cookiemonstery but it was too intentional. Like a redneck trying to be a sultry french woman.