Why is it that we never get to the end of the day and feel pleased with how we handled our parenting tasks, and instead think of all the things we could’ve done better?

The ‘guilt’ list really could go on and on, but here are 12 things parents feel remorseful about every day:

1. Going to work

Most of us have to go to work to earn an income in order to provide for our children.

And no matter how many times we tell ourselves going to work is the right thing for our family, every time we say goodbye in the morning, we feel an almighty pang of guilt as we watch their little faces while walking away.

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2. Putting work before the kids

We feel even worse about the fact that, even after we’ve picked the kids up, we have to spend time on phones and laptops to complete urgent work jobs that we didn’t get around to that day.

You pray your children are going to not only remember the times when you work, but the good times too.

3. Giving in too easily when tired

It takes a lot of effort and strength to discipline a child and stick to the rules, especially on the days when you feel like all you hear yourself saying is ‘no’.

And when tiredness hits, it becomes too easy to succumb to the little people pleas and break your own rules.

4. Being on your phone too much

Our mobile phones are glued to us.

We answer calls, emails, text messages, and check social media – all in front of our kids.

Shockingly research by insurance company Row.co.uk found over a third of mums admitted to being on their phones for over nine hours every single day.

We all know we should put them down when we’re with the kids, but it’s tough when our lives seem to be run by the goddamn things.

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5. Not playing with the kids enough

Your reply to ‘will you play outside with me?’ or ‘will you play this game with me?’ is often some excuse about the ironing, housework or feeling tired.

You know playing with your children should be much more important but you just can’t bring yourself to let the ‘jobs around the house’ slip.

6. The bribes

As soon as your child hits a certain age, you realise how well bribes work.

It’s the perfect way to get your stubborn toddler or teenager to do something you need them to do that they don’t want to do.

You know you shouldn’t bribe, but it’s easier said than done when using a sweet treat or the promise of a new toy will get them out of the door instantly, make them run an errand, or get them to clean their teeth.

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7. Too much TV

TV can be like your very own childcare.

You stick it on and your kids will be glued for at least half an hour, if not more.

Half an hour to yourself as a parent feels like a lifetime. The amount of jobs, chores and tasks you can get done in this time is amazing.