I feel selfish....

Because I should be happy to be pregnant and starting my family but I'm miserable..my DH is In another state I have a terrible cold and horrible morning sickness...and I'm just all around emotional...i feel like a bad mommy because I'm not super happy like I feel I should be :-/

Because I should be happy to be pregnant and starting my family but I'm miserable..my DH is In another state I have a terrible cold and horrible morning sickness...and I'm just all around emotional...i feel like a bad mommy because I'm not super happy like I feel I should be :-/

Oh hunny you have every right to be happy. And that little one growing inside you needs those good mommy vibes sent down to em. I know being a military wife is one of the hardest jobs in the world but don't ever feel bad for feeling happy. Im sure if your hubby was around he'd tell you to stop being so silly lol. I know mine would

Enjoy your pregnancy and marvel at the fact that you are growing a little person. You are gonan be someone's momma... Everytime I say it it makes me squeal lol and I have 2 kids already. The cold will go away and hopefully ( fingers crossed) so will the intensity of your ms. Usually as the hormones start to regulate in your body, you become more used to them and the ms slows down. I know you feel miserable right now but its not something that will last, just gotta push through. Im sure you don't wanan hear this but I just had a horrible cold, with stuff coming out both ends.. sorry tmi.. I didn't even wanna get outta the bed so trust me I feel your pain hun. I hope i helped a little bit and if not, don't listen to the crazy pregnant lady lol.. VIRTUAL HUGS HUNNY

Oh hunny you have every right to be happy. And that little one growing inside you needs those good mommy vibes sent down to em. I know being a military wife is one of the hardest jobs in the world but don't ever feel bad for feeling happy. Im sure if your hubby was around he'd tell you to stop being so silly lol. I know mine would

Enjoy your pregnancy and marvel at the fact that you are growing a little person. You are gonan be someone's momma... Everytime I say it it makes me squeal lol and I have 2 kids already. The cold will go away and hopefully ( fingers crossed) so will the intensity of your ms. Usually as the hormones start to regulate in your body, you become more used to them and the ms slows down. I know you feel miserable right now but its not something that will last, just gotta push through. Im sure you don't wanan hear this but I just had a horrible cold, with stuff coming out both ends.. sorry tmi.. I didn't even wanna get outta the bed so trust me I feel your pain hun. I hope i helped a little bit and if not, don't listen to the crazy pregnant lady lol.. VIRTUAL HUGS HUNNY

With my first pregnancy I threw up for at least three months - I was told to go see a nutritionalist becaue I could not keep weight on (which, hello, if I can't keep anything down why does it matter what I eat...healthy won't keep it down but that's a rant for another day). I was tired, trying to work full time and there were multiple times I called my husband in tears because I was so exhausted/sick/overwhelmed. I too felt horrible because I was happy to have the baby but SO ready for the sickness to be over. It just made the whole pregnant thing not feel like that "glowing joy" that people always described it as. My advice - hang in there, rest when you can and when you feel overwhelmed its ok to ask for help. Your little one will be worth it...although I told my hubby that when she was old enough she was cleaning toilets for the rest of her life as her punishment for making me puke multiple times a day ;) Hang in there, it gets better!

Elizabeth

With my first pregnancy I threw up for at least three months - I was told to go see a nutritionalist becaue I could not keep weight on (which, hello, if I can't keep anything down why does it matter what I eat...healthy won't keep it down but that's a rant for another day). I was tired, trying to work full time and there were multiple times I called my husband in tears because I was so exhausted/sick/overwhelmed. I too felt horrible because I was happy to have the baby but SO ready for the sickness to be over. It just made the whole pregnant thing not feel like that "glowing joy" that people always described it as. My advice - hang in there, rest when you can and when you feel overwhelmed its ok to ask for help. Your little one will be worth it...although I told my hubby that when she was old enough she was cleaning toilets for the rest of her life as her punishment for making me puke multiple times a day ;) Hang in there, it gets better!

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