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Two married people have been in an affair with each other for years. What started out as a friendship grew into an emotional bond which lead to them falling in love. The woman’s marriage is currently going through a divorce…but the mans marriage is not. The woman in the affair is now pregnant and wants to abort the child. The man does not want her to abort. He knows that an outside child could ruin his marriage (further) by creating him an unorthodox “way of exscape” or that the shock and jealously of putting evidence with his wife’s suspicions… could cause his wife to be more attentive. A dice game. The woman wants to abort fearing that she would ultimately be forced to raise the child alone. She doesn’t want to bring a baby into the world under the current circumstances. The man is not in the best financial position to assist her or to even raise a child… but his “concern” is the baby. The woman has made plans to abort in just a few days….regardless of the man opinion. They both understand the selfishness to their actions. They’re not looking for responses of people who just want to “grab the mic and show how perfect they are”. They are seeking honest opinions of if an abortion should be a mutual agreement or if the woman (being the one to carry the load – no pun intended) makes the decision alone. If you don’t have a solid point of view…just pray for the situation. ‪#‎Respect‬.

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Can you post this to the group? My boyfriend and I moved together about 4 months ago. Things went really well at first, but now he is verbally abusive, he pushes me when we argue now, that never happened before. Our arguments are getting worse. We are both on the lease, it’s for a year. I don’t want to live or be with him anymore, what can I do. It’s expensive to break the lease on my own. I’ve tried reasoning with him, but it doesn’t work. I will take any advice. Thank you.

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Principal Lisa will you please post? My husband and I are in our 30’s. I’ve never been a jealous woman, so that is not the issue. I really would like Relationship Soup’s feedback. My husband is a pastor. There is a member of the church, a young woman who constantly posts about him on social media. She posts about what he does, how much she loves him, etc. It is getting to the point that it’s becoming excessive and well, weird..She has started to include me (his wife) in all of the postings now. I just find it disturbing. My question, as a wife or a pastors wife, would you care if another woman posts about your husband almost daily? Record him in videos, upload videos and constantly posts about how she loves him and tags you in all the postings? How would you feel?

Relationship Soup! Here is a real situation I received. ‪#‎FromThePrincipalsInbox‬ if any of you would like for me to post a situation for you please email it to relationshipsoup@relationshipsoup.com. You will remain anonymous. Here is the situation:

Hi Principal!

Hope all is well with you. I would like to ask a question I am having an issue, I don’t deal well with my s/o talking about his previous sexual encounters. I was told I don’t have an open mind. Every so often a name will be mentioned. I on the other hand do not discuss mine. Help me understand why I should have an open mind about his previous sexual encounters being discussed…? Yes am serious I do not deal well with it! Ugh

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