How To Tell If Your Girl Is (Possibly) A Ho.

(ThyBlackMan.com) I started to name this post ‘Ho’ish Tendencies’…but I wanted to make this one crystal clear.

Too many good dudes out there are giving their precious time, their hard earned money and their hearts to females, that to be frank with you, simply don’t deserve it. I’ve met countless dudes who have inadvertently or purposely chosen to fall in love with a whore…a tramp…a ho. Some have even chosen to marry such females.

But its a true saying indeed: You can’t make a ho into a housewife! It just won’t happen. I know a dude real well, who was in the military several years ago. He, like many others, fell in love with this chick who had a nice body. But she was ho material. Undoubtedly he fell in love with her sex skills; and that was his biggest problem. But he didn’t know she was a ho…until he came home early from work one afternoon and found his brother pounding her out doggy-style on HIS bed!

So in the spirit of avoiding making a similar mistake, I’m going to list a few of the things to look out for; some tell tale signs of ho’ishness. And don’t approach this with a blinded eye. If you see any of these signs in the woman you are currently dating, you need to do some serious reevaluation of your relationship, and some soul searching.

HOW TO TELL IF YOUR GIRL IS A HO

1. She has sex with you on the first date
For me, this is always a deal breaker. You can be the finest chick on earth; but if you let me pound you out on the very first date, don’t look for a ring or any type of commitment from me.

2. She’s bi-sexual
To me, bisexuality is really just another term for ‘freak’. It speaks of a lack of sexual discipline…an ‘anything goes’ mentality. Bi-sexual women in my opinion are non-comitters; meaning they aren’t the type who will commit to you. They can’t even commit to one choice of sexual preference! Most bisexual chicks are really just freaks who like to get their coochies pleasured; and it usually doesn’t matter who’s doing the pleasuring. Not saying I won’t hit it; but I damn sure won’t commit to it!

3. She has a ton of male ‘friends’
Another deal breaker. What makes YOU such a friendly person that all the guys like hanging around you? I’m nobody’s fool! Men can sometimes be like vultures; we can smell out an easy meal from miles away! And if dudes are hanging around you, they probably sense an easy opportunity.

4. Her male cousins are overly ‘flirty’ with her
Ever hear of ‘kissing cousins’? It happens, in more families than a few. To some oversexual horn-dogs, being blood related means absolutely nothing. In fact, the more ‘forbidden’ the affair, the more erotic it tends to be for them. And again: what makes you so easy for your cousins to flirt with? What type of family IS this anyway?! I don’t even want my gene pool mixed in with a bloodline like that! Guys who are familiar with a female usually know who the ‘freaks’ are; even in their own family. And just about every guy has at least one female cousin he wouldn’t mind pounding, if given the opportunity. (Nasty I know…but so true!)

5. She greets every guy she knows with a hug.
If she’s overly friendly with the opposite sex, your girl could be what we call an ‘attention whore'; the type of female who lives for the attention of other guys. A definite deal breaker for me…

6. She has more male friends than female friends/ or claims she doesn’t like being friends with a bunch of females, but prefers being friends with guys.
This too is often just BS. Most females I know who are friends with a lot of guys have had sexual relationships with most, if not all of them. Very few are on some truly ‘just friends’ tip. And if other females find it hard to be friends with her, it could be because other women can smell out a home-wrecker from miles away. And your girl could very well be the chick that all the other women keep their boyfriends away from because she has a habit of stealing them. Food for thought…

7. She sends you nude or sexual photos of herself before you’ve actually met her in person
Pretty self explanatory. Those are all the hallmarks of a true to the game FREAK! And no sane man would be found wifing up a freak.

8. She has kids by several different men
This is a sign of sexual irresponsibility. And in this day and age, its actually quite dangerous.

9. She has kids with different fathers, but never been married
There ain’t but one way you can continue to spit out babies: you keep giving up the ass! Multiple kids by multiple dudes is a sign of ho’ishness. There’s no two ways about it! If you don’t value your own pussy, why should someone else?

10. She’s no longer friends or on speaking terms with a relative because she was accused of sleeping with their man.
If a woman ever confesses something like this to you, you’d better get your head out your ass and take note! She’s clearing her conscious with you…confessing. She’s letting you know what type of female she is. And even if the accusations are untrue, how did she put herself into such a situation where her good name could be smeared anyway? These are things we as men have to start being aware of before we jump into relationships with just any cutie with booty.

11. Her mother is a ho
You know how the saying goes: The apple never falls very far from the tree… Like mother, like daughter. This is the woman who raised her and trained her into womanhood. This is her coach. And even if she didn’t like her mother, if she spent any significant time around her, she inadvertently soaked up some of mom’s philosophies and life outlook. So buyer: beware!

12. She used to date a pimp
Ho, ho, and again I say ho! And I’m not mocking Santa here…

13. She works as a stripper or exotic dancer; either now or in the past
What’s the difference between a hooker and a stripper? Answer: THERE AIN’T NO DIFFERENCE! Either way you’re trading sexual activity of some kind for money. That therefore makes you a ho! At least the hooker knows she’s a ho, and has come to terms with that fact. She’s openly chosen to embrace her ho’ism; whereas the stripper tends to think she’s somehow better. So know that you’re dealing with either a past or present hoe. And like the saying goes: You can’t make a hoe into a housewife!

14. She was molested or raped in her younger years, yet sucks and screws like a porn star today.
Females who are molested or raped at a young age tend to become promiscuous early in life than they should. That means that by the time she’s in her early 20’s, she’s probably banged more guys than your average porn star. It’s a sad outcome to a tragic event, but one that you should take into consideration before you choose to jump the broom .

15. She doesn’t believe in sexual limits
Hoe…

16. She idolizes authors like Zane or Nancy Friday
Freak…

17. She doesn’t see anything wrong with carrying on a sexual relationship with two or more different guys at the same time
Quiet freak…

18. She’s had sex with over 10 different guys in her life time
Nasty freak…
Again: if you don’t value your snatch, why on earth should I? Multiple sex partners denotes a lack of value for your own body. You lack any sense of exclusivity about your body; hence, a lack in personal self value. Personally I like for my women to hold their bodies in such high esteem that it causes me to have to break out my A-game just to possibly hit it. But that’s just me…

19. She believes in the sexual ‘liberation’ of all women
Sexual liberation usually means being liberated from any sense of guilt about being a ho! If your woman is on some conversation like this, you best believe she’s had more pricks sticking out of her than a porcupine!

20. She works in the porn industry
Need I say more?!

21. She has home girls who are ho’s
(Birds of a feather flock together!)

22. Her porn collection is bigger than yours
A woman who’s addicted to porn is bound to live out her sexual fantasies. And if she was single when you met her, you have to wonder why…What’s a good looking chick who loves porn doing single? Why no man? Only possible answer: she’s had plenty. And some poor simp will come along and try to cupcake with her, in the hopes of getting all the free sex he wants. That’s when he’ll wake up one day married to a slut, wondering how in heaven’s name did that happen…

23. One of her sexual fantasies is to screw two guys at the same time
Double-dick clutching is a no-no. Signs that your girl is a double-dick clutcher:

a. she tells you its her fantasy
b. she has a two-pronged dildo: one slides into the cooch, the other slides up you know where at the same time
c. she tells you she’s already fulfilled this fantasy
d. she knows way too many dudes, everywhere you seem to go

24. She’s not sure who her baby-daddy is
Maury Povich has brought to light the sheer masses of freaks out there, ready to pin an unwanted pregnancy on any dude stupid enough to run up inside one raw. Freaks like this are just that: freaks. You don’t try to rehabilitate them. You avoid them..like the bubonic plague!

25. She knows a lot of dudes in the entertainment industry
They have another word for women like this: groupies. If you meet a female and her FaceBook page is full of photos with her and every male rapper, rocker or country music singer…know that 9 times outta 10 she’s probably an ex (or still current) groupie. She knows more about these dudes than is morally sound.

26. She used to roll with a gang
Gang chicks ain’t nothing but gang groupies. They’re just restricted to only having sex with the other gang members.

27. All her brothers are pimps
If her whole family is involved in ‘the life’, there’s a good chance that she is too. You’re not only what you eat; you’re also what you see and sleep. And if all you see and sleep is pimping and hoe’ing, day in and day out…pimping and or hoe’ing is down in you. Its down in your bones. And here’s a clue to which one your girl most likely is: there aren’t many female pimps out there…but there’s an abundance of female hoes!

28. Her father was a pimp

29. She used to be a cheerleader for a professional sports team
We call this the sports groupie. But its still the same game. The average cheerleader makes less than someone working at Taco Bell. So if there’s no money in it, why do so many females do it? One word: access. They get to shake their money makers and pom-poms in front of multi millionaires for every game. So you take good looking females, add a bunch of horny young jocks, and throw in millions of bucks. That’s a recipe for lots of groupie activity. Looks to me like the athletes aren’t the only ones ‘taking one for the team…’

30. Her only career has been modeling
How many times has she fell for the line: “Wow, you’re beautiful. Did I tell you I was a photographer…?”

32. She got with you, even though she knew you were married at the time
And now you want to wife her up? Get serious man…*shaking my head*

33. She’s the church pastor’s ‘special’ assistant, and travels with him everywhere he goes
I hate to say it, but this is what we call the church groupie. What: you didn’t think the church would have their own set of special groupies too? Of course they do! Not everyone who says unto me ‘lord, lord’ shall enter into my Kingdom…*the words of Jesus*

34. She goes away for the weekend with her ‘friends’ a lot
Yeah, I’ll bet! Don’t think that females won’t cover for each other like men do. They surely will! The closer the friendship the more likely they will cover for one another. I’ve known women who traveled to places like South Beach and Jamaica together, just for the sole purpose of meeting men to hook up with while away. Do a Youtube search on ‘Rent a Rasta’. Very eye opening…

35. She likes to hang out in clubs and bars
Clubs and bars are for the young. By the time a woman reaches a certain age, usually her mid 20’s, she should be tired of the club and bar scene. She should be good and ready for settling down. And if she’s not, your ‘Spidey senses’ should start going off.

36. She knows every guy in the club or bar
Again: what makes her so popular with the guys?

37. When she takes you to meet her people, they give you a funny, ‘knowing’ look; or you hear them make comments like “I’m glad she’s finally settling down!”
When a female’s friends or family make comments like that, they’re inadvertently letting you know your girl used to be a wild one. Take note…

38. She stands up in church and testifies that she used to be a ho
Not saying that a person can’t change their life, but you have to exercise some wisdom. You can only trust an ex-crackhead to a certain degree. Put your guard down and he/she could easily slip back into addiction and start robbing you blind. Once a crackhead, the potential for ‘cracking up’ is always still there. For life. The same goes for alcoholics who will occasionally fall off the wagon and slip back into addiction. Likewise for an ex-hoe. Ex-hoes are some of the slickest type of females to deal with. They can be charming to perfection, but secretly conniving against you. Don’t fall for the oakey-doke. Better to leave the ex-hoes for the Lord and the ex-pimps to deal with…

39. She admits that she used to be wild in her teens and twenties
She’s basically letting you know that she used to be a slut in her younger years. She could probably pass a sperm tasting test blind-folded hanging upside down. If you’re cool with that bit of knowledge, then by all means proceed with reckless abandon. After all: its your life buddy…

40. Her internet profile says anything like:

“I’m tired of guys playing games…
translation: I’m tired of guys tricking me out of my panties by pretending to really like me

“I’m tired of meeting liars..
trans: I’m tired of screwing guys who I think have money, only to find out their really broke and living back home with their mommas.

“I’ve met a ‘few’ people on this site but they didn’t turn out to be what I was hoping for…
trans: I screwed many guys off this site, but they never turned into any sort of long-term relationship.

“I can smell BS a mile away…
trans: I’ve been tricked out of my panties so many times by so many different games that i pretty much know them all now.

“I’m not looking for a sex buddy or friends with benefits…
trans: I’m tired of being used only for cheap sex.

“I did the club/bar scene, now I’m ready to settle down…”
trans: I’ve gotten all my slutting and whoring out the way; now I’m ready for some simp who doesn’t know my background to come along and cupcake with me.

41. She met you and was sexing you down while she was already in another relationship
If she did it to ‘him’, she’ll do it to you too! Don’t think you’re above being played or cheated on because you’re not. It’s happened to the best of us at one time or another.

42. She admits to having cheated on her boyfriend or husband in the past
*Ding ding ding* You don’t get any clearer warnings than this!

43. She’s a part of the female college sorority who’s male counterparts are the “Q-Dogs”
These are what you call college groupies. Yes they got’em too! And Q’s are known on campus for getting down and nasty with the ladies. So if your girl is an ex or current Q groupie, you best believe she’s seen male organs of various shades and sizes during her school days!

44. She ‘swallowed’ the first time she ever gave you head
That right there has ‘ho’ written all over it…with a capital ‘H’! best believe your jizz isn’t the first time she’s swallowed.

45. When you’re together late at night, her cell phone is constantly ringing at 1 or 2 in the morning
They call that time of night ‘booty call’ hours for a reason…

46. Guys from her past still buy her gifts or pay her bills
The only way he’s still paying her bills is if his name is tied to it…or he’s still tapping the skins. There ain’t too many altruistic generous money donors out there looking for some woman’s bills to pay. So don’t be stupid and gullible.

47. She tries to lock you down into a relationship way too fast
She’s trying to get you down that aisle and into the county courthouse records book before you figure out she’s a hoe and change your mind about seeing her. What’s the big rush anyway? Women who are trying to pressure you into marriage usually have an agenda…and its probably not in your favor. Now to be fair to the ladies: if you’ve been dating her for a few years now, she has every right to expect some sort of long term commitment out of you. After all: she ain’t getting any younger.

48. She has had sex with more than 2 guys in the same year
Again: if a woman won’t value her stuff and treat it exclusively, why should you? Why should you commit to someone who obviously can’t even commit to themselves enough to make their body off limits to any dude who comes along whispering sweet words with flowers? Even a female dog (a real bitch) will only allow the best male dog to mate with her. He has to prove to her first that he’s worthy to plant his seed inside of her. Most average females these days require little more than dinner and a movie…some even less!

49. She has 3 or more visible tattoos on her body
I’ve come to discover for myself that females who carry multiple tattoos on their bodies are usually tramps. They seem to be looser sexually than women with one or no tats. I thinks its a respect thing for the human body…on some deeper psychological level. People who tat their bodies up tend to show less respect for their bodies than those who don’t. Again, this is my own personal observation.

50. She has the names of other guys tattooed on her body
Not only is she easily impressionable; she’s not even very wise with it. Permanently inking some dude’s name on her body is her way of staying forever attached to that guy. You’ll always be number 2 or 3 in her life…based on how many other dudes she’s permanently bound to in her mind.

51. She has a tattoo that reads ‘Hit it daddy’ on her lower back
Now that’s just some outright ho mess there!

I’m sure there are more signs out there. I welcome you to leave any I may have left out in the comment section of this post. Be sure to check out my blog http://www.flipthegame.net. Keep your eyes open playas!

Comments

i can’t believe anyone took the time to write all this trash. honestly, i could not get myself to get past the first 2 points. whether you’re being serious or not, and whether you still hold these views to this day or not, i need to tell you how wrong you are because even though this was written in 2012, you clearly still have people reading it in 2015 and that worries me because it’s basically contributing to a very nasty mentality that ‘hoes’ are subhuman creatures. literally just read all the comments your bitter bros left. so let’s get started!

ONE: “if you let me pound you out on the very first date”??? if you ‘let me’?? PLEASE you’re a grown ass man, two adults make a decision to have sex, it is not one sided. you write this to warn your bros about hoes but you forget that if they have sex on the first date, your bro was in on it too? why isn’t he a ho? why shouldn’t girls watch out for him? the reason why you don’t hold your bros to these standards is very simply because you hate women.

TWO: “she’s bi-sexual” I LAUGHED SO HARD AT THIS ONE so thank you for that, i guess!
“To me, bisexuality is really just another term for ‘freak’.” good thing bisexuality and its dictionary definition are not up for debate. you can’t say, “to me, cats are just furry human babies” or “in my opinion, abraham lincoln is still alive” because it’s not a matter of opinion or perspective, it’s an objective fact. just as cats are their own species and abe is very much dead, bisexuality is a legitimate sexual orientation. here, i’ll even give you Merriam-Webster’s definition: “sexually attracted to both men and women”. notice how it doesn’t say ‘freak ho’. by now, the 21st century, i think we’ve pretty much established your sexual orientation is not something you choose, so i don’t see how it shows a ‘lack of sexual discipline’. in simple terms, the only difference between bisexual people and heterosexual or homosexual is that the list of applicants is slightly bigger. this misconception that bisexuals are loose hoes who can’t commit is ridiculous. sure, i have the ability to be attracted to more than one gender but if i fall in love with someone, i’m sticking with them. now whether i’m unfaithful to them, that has nothing to do with bisexuality. homosexual people can be unfaithful and so can heterosexual people.

maybe you should stop and think and analyse your feelings and behaviour towards these ‘hoes’? and while you’re at it look up what ‘misogyny’ means. i honestly wish you the best of luck because if i ever met you at a club the chances of me fucking you would be 00000000000000000% and trust me, girls are smarter than to want any commitment with someone like you. i’m telling you this as a girl who’s dealt with mountains of insecurity her whole life, no one is going to put up with your hateful sexist shit for very long, no matter how much they hate themselves.

This is too real and I’m reading this in 2015. This generation is full of hoes and women jealous of their ways. It’s really hard to find a woman who finds these points organically strange and genuinely strives for one man romance leading to love.

I agree what u say about 75 percent pretty good I think the most tell sign is how many kids she has and I feel alot of women have slut pass but the issue with the black women is the social media the younger ones I speak of I feel women have reached there boil point and I’m referring to black women they have little to choose from I think for the most part they slit like they do for reasons like u said,attention from the men they I programed to mate with but there is so much competition between them they thirsty to do what ever gets there attention, but it’s the lack of black men out there set as role models not just for the boys but for the females there needs to be another Martin Luther to reach out to the black community cause or women or men our being extinct, through aids, gun violence, and jail it is just ridiculous we need to fix the hoe problem with or women amongst other things, cause it will just get worse, more and more by disproportionate numbers of black women living that lifestyle, because of intenet and poverty it is getting worse it’s the blatant sign of a loss race of people

My girl is definitely the number one slut in queens. I was banging her 2 months after she had a baby with some other guy. Due to the fact that she had a baby I couldn’t fuck that dirty ass pussy until 2 months after she had that baby. I remember after the baby was a month old she could only blow me no sex. What’s funny is she used to suck my dick then go home to her man and her 1 month old baby. I’m gonna marry this slut. I got the #1 whore in Queens. I’m so happy.

Great list but this was not out in time for me and most of the info I did not know till well into the marriage. 1) first visit to her home, 3) lots of male friends, 5) greets every guy with a hug, 6) more male friends, 15) no sexual limit, 16) loves Zane (but so do I with her ;->) 17) more than one sexual partner at a time, 18) Sex with more than 10 (thats a virgin) mine claims over 40, 21) ho friends, 34) visits family, I’m not invited and you can’t reach her, 35)Loves the club she is 53, 39) admits to being wild starting in 20’s, 41) We were intimate about a week when her BF shows up at 1am (This should have made me run), 42) she won’t admit it but I know she cheated on her first husband, 45)phone goes off all day and night IM’s she takes in private, 48) more than 5 guys in single year. those are what she matches on your list, now what not on your list, per her, she is not sure but almost 20 abortions, exhibitionism the older she gets the worse (she does look good though), If she sees a guy she feels is attractive especially in a crowd she will run into him and feel him up on accident of course, She discuss how to have multiple sex partners with her daughter and not get semen mixed up. daughter said ugh. Most of this I found out over the last few years because of medical issues feminine issues and she got scared and started talking. Some I fount out yesterday when i inadvertently saw a love letter from her new\old lover, the same guy that came to the door at 1am 14 years ago. I went straight to the doctor ordered STD STI test full battery. At the moment I can’t even look at her don’t want to touch her. Just nasty

I read this great summary too late. Hence I can confirm that it is so true…

I married a formed hoe (“reformed slut”) only to be left some 20 years later. Lost house, 4 dogs, 3 children. Have to pay for all of them. She lived on my income. Left with her inherited wealth, leaving nothing … I learned she add multiple ONS without protection until lastly she fell in love with a professor (female hyper gamy, I guess). He however was smarter than me and let her down in time. She’s back on the cock carousel. My children are the true victims, she doesn’t really care for anyone but herself – my mother was so right when she warned me about her wicked ways…

Guess what? Had I known and had I believed in the signs described above, this would never ever have happened to me. Btw, her name is close to Maryse (Holder). Any questions left?

I really enjoyed reading the article. Unfortunately I do believe what the good books says, “…whatever you sow, you reap.” I was wild and I thought two ex-hoes could turn the corner. I wished I had remembered #1, #3, #11 (not that her mother was one but she inadvertently soaked up some of mom’s philosophies and outlook). #14 (not raped but her Dad physically abused her mom and she became jaded. #21, #41, #42, #47, #48. I can honestly say I fell in love with her sex skills. LMBO.

I think that women can have a vast sexual experience being labeled a hoe. Just have quality sex with the few characters that you are in a relationship with.

I also have this theory going on that I want to hear our thoughts about:

you know a women will say if can can be promiscuous (in the terms of having multiple sex partners and being praised for it) but women can’t? Well I think that is due to the over-hyped taboo connotation that sex has in America and with the media always talking about who is having sex with who. And there are the men that validate others or themselves based on if their virgins or not. But I think women also perpetrate this type of behavior. If women were more accepting of male virgins then I don’t think some men won’t feel the need to validate themselves through sex. I think there are more men who are accepting of female virgins than male virgins. Many women will end the relationship solely based on sexual performance instead of having the patience to work with the guy.

Everyone is entitled to their opinion. My hopes are that those who do read your articles, and others who choose to read any opinion based blog understand that “one must think for themselves,” and consider what you feel is valid, but discard what you can’t prove for a fact (with hard facts). Love you my brothas and sistas!

Ya Im a little late to comment….but honestly, this article is legitimate. I’m 28 and I’ve ran into several hos ..had a kid with one. This article is accurate. Can we talk more about church hos lol. Slime is everywhere.

To all the haters especially women.You HAVE to a make a choice in life whether to be a woman with limited sexual experience or a hoe/slut, and no 99% of people don’t change! If you have to do the hoe thing then you don’t deserve to have a good man later on because you made a choice earlier.I know woman who “changed” and don’t slut anymore but karma came back 10x harder than what they put out.They settled down in a happy marriage and one day OUT the blue the husband comes home and says he not in love with her anymore and wants out of the marriage, it’s happened to countless women I know over and over.What women don’t understand is your the gatekeepers to sex.Yeah, you can have some sex experience but you and men can have far too many partners which means you broke some hearts and angered alot of people, and you will pay for that whether you believe it or not, so go play then later get your ASS truly kicked because it definitely going to happen.I’m no prude but the sexing, anything goes all over the world has gone far above board and thats why marriages are not lasting more than 7yrs.Remember sex is powerful no matter what form.Alot of people are dead or in jail because of sex from being hurt, jealous, slighted, lied to and played with.

Alot of this makes sense its not necessarily applicable to EVERY woman but there are alot of women who fit this category there are tons of sluts out there say goes for frigging men out there but doesn’t offend – don’t give a shit anyway cuz I’m not them. I like this article gave some may not be accurate but it possibly is.

So let me make sure I get this straight: because I have aunts, sisters, a mother and female cousins, I’m supposed to assume that they were only women of the highest most noble character, who never did any hoochie stuff in their pasts? What planet you been living on homie?! Don’t you know that when Ike Turner or The Temptations were touring, in every city they went to there were scores of women throwing panties on the stage, waiting to ambush them in the hallways of their hotel rooms? And this was back in the 50’s and 60’s. Who do you think all those females were who became groupies back then? They’re the same ones who probably raised you and me! And that’s just some real adult talk right there.

Truth is: your mother is as flawed as my mother is, as well as millions of others. Their being family members of the female gender doesn’t exempt them from having done some hoish things in their past. They just don’t discuss it.

This article wasn’t written to empower woman or to denigrate them; it was written to enlighten my brothers. Hence why it was placed in the ‘brother’ talk section…

And far as i can tell, the world has only told black women how great and successful they were WITHOUT the black man in her life. Or haven’t you been following all the ABC and CNN specials about successful black and single women?

And where did I state that I would still have sex with a woman in spite of her past or not? Obviously you’re referring to my comment about bisexual chicks. I guess you have personal reasons for why this particular one bothered you above all others on the list, but let me assure you: I make no apology for what I said. Most men out here would tap the skins of a fine chick, even is she was bisexual. Most probably have anyway without even knowing it.

As for me being full of human excrement, I alleviated that problem several hours ago.

And finally, as for the type of woman I choose to marry, she certainly won’t be an active participant of what’s on this list. I value myself too much for that, and advise my brothers out there to do the same. And for the record: former sexual promiscuity doesn’t necessarily make for a bad wife; but denial of one’s issues definitely does.

This article was written from obviously a person who lacks wisdom and has only gained his experiences from living his entire life I assume in one state. You have a mother, sisters, cousins aunts, how do you know if they have not met some requirements on this list. Your argument or advice is flawed highly, rather you should try to empower women, not subject them to what this world has constantly accused them of. And the irony of it all is you state such a list but would end up fucking a girl who does all of this whether you knew of her past or not. TBH YOUR FULL OF SHIT, and time will be the judge of the kind of woman you marry.

This is some serious bull shit. You need to write an article like this for men as well. This is beyond unrealistic and extremely selective. People make mistakes and people change. Does that mean they do not deserve a chance at having a good man ever in life? You are being EXTREMELY JUDGMENTAL. You do not judge someone until you have had a chance to get to know them. By writing such a column, women should be aware of brothers who obviously feel they are superior and without blemish.

“White man” …i mean black woman, i am not sure why you are so critical of brother macks article. One of the few sites whose writers have not been indoctrinated by feminist idealogues of the many mainstream sites that do.

Why does this site have a section called “Speak Your Mind” Tell us what you’re thinking? I thought all opinions were welcomed.

You do know, you write for a media venue that starts with W W W in case you don’t know what that means (World Wide Web). If you can’t take the heat then don’t put your stuff out there for everyone to read.

Also, you should have higher expectations for this site and your work; just reaching out to black men limits your audience. In addition, be secure with your thoughts and opinions, if you’re a writer, then judgment and criticism comes along with the territory.

When’s the last time you read the Join ThyBM Staff section, I just read it and it sounds like this site is not just geared to black men, it speaks of enlightening the community. Community is not just one group of people (black men) it includes population and the public as well.

One sure way to loose your readers is to insult them just because they criticized your work, smarten up dude!

I didn’t expect my article to reach everyone; just those for whom it’s written: Thy BLACK MAN. This is a site for MEN last I checked. This is not a site for white cuckholding. And if that went over your head, google the term for more clarity.

I don’t kiss women’s asses, and I don’t suck up to them. That doesn’t mean I hate black women. It just means I have a backbone! Something I’m quite sure you lack. I don’t Internet beef, nor do I hide behind my computer screen. You can actually click on my name and see what I look like. I don’t really believe you’re a white man. Probably just another disgruntled sister, mad because your particular hoish ways got exposed. Tsk, tsk, tsk…

See, guys like me that were actually raised by a father and mother, have a healthy respect for black women. I love sisters enough to tell them when theyve gone astray, as opposed to feeding into their bullshit just to make them feel warm and fuzzy. Real love is direct and forward at times. Plus I love my brothers enough to put them up on solid game, so they can avoid making mistakes out there.

Now don’t you have some angry black feminist website to go trolling on? GTFOH

1. You are hating on women, POWER TO THE PUSSY, because it messed you up

2. You probably were raised by a single parent, who with all good intentions,
didn’t have the time to teach you much, especially about women

3. You’re hurting, a woman really hurt you, good for her, Power To The Pussy

4. You’re in the closet, just come out and stop taking your fears of what you are, out on black women

5. You need to go find your father and cry for a hug, but he’s probably an asshole too

6. If you were my son I would disown you, I’d take my belt off and give you the spanking that you obviously are reaching out for

7. Your writing style, your choice of words and the way you think just proves that black women are out numbering black men by leaps and bounds in everything from maturity to experience, to education, to parenting, to nurturing, to paying the bills

8. Now when they start putting your asses down, then what will you call them “Bitches”

9. Black men are still failing their women

from a White Man, who can’t believe you were hired by this site or company to represent them.

Wow. I see I ruffled a few feathers on this one! It’s all love at the end of the day people. But I do find it interesting how, though this was written for MEN by a man, certain women and dudes of a similar persuasion decide to speak up on the topic. You know how the saying goes:

Women that use the 90 day rule. Most of them use it when they meet good men but don’t apply it to bad boys. So while the good men are spending their quality time, energy and money on them, at the end of the night when he drops her off at home she is calling that bad boy to get her rocks off so she can keep from giving that good man some. I feel thats happening in most cases because I have been on both sides of the fence. When some women see you as good and some see you as bad then you learn alot about how they do things.

I wasnt even going to hit the read button on this article but i must say something now that it has been read. I want to know who took the time to write this? Whomever did I hope they take the same amount of research skills and use it towards something to better humanity. I am not a “ho” loose person but god forbid if i was no list is going to deter me or teach me any better and looking at a few of the men in my very own family i do not believe it would deter them either. Instead of preaching on what a person should not do or should look out for i (this is truly only my opinion) believe you should be telling them about the women in which whom would help build thier lives better. Like the qualities and good signs. If you’re teaching someone about a “ho” then they obviously dont know so now all they are going to know is about a ho! Teach them/ fill thier brains with the good qualities to look out for and trust me if they are dealing with a loose woman they will know because she will not posses the qualities in which you teach. The person will enlightten them on thier ways and exit the relationships or teach them better but dang dont just dog them out. I will speak up for the males species so im going to definitely speak up for the womans. ====lastly, I know a male whom had loose tendencies. I couldnt lay with him nor could i place myself at risk with him but i would never dog him. I pray for him, even til this day that God will show him how to be with a woman securely. he finds comfort where he goes for a reason. I pray one day in his lifetime he gets to experience that comfort with a decent woman, whom may help him grow and harness thier relationship. Be careful what you place in the universe for thats what you feed it. Pray for those woman and sometimes men. Pray for em’-God bless

This “mack” has to be the worst writer ever. Wow. The grammar and the syntax alone is horrid without even mentioning the subject matter which is even dumber. Here’s my article: “How to know if a blog writer is possibly an idiot” (link to this article). Get a clue dude.

Yes, Hon.. Triad Relationships, they do exsist! But these are relationships for folks who wishes to just keep the committment down to only 3 (2 men,1 women)(2 women, 1 man)(3 women)(3 men) However the folks want to make it..

But remember, maturity must be there and not everyone can be mature. If someone gets jealous or have a “agenda” all that can fall apart. Everyone must be on the same page to make it work..

“Coming from the “I” and I alone, It’s a good thing that everyone is entitled to their opinion..

I like to comment on the “Bisexual” area. FYI: As an Educator and A Director of an lesbian/bisexual Organization, Not all Bisexual women are “freaks” and do believe in committment. there are Bisexuals that are in long-term relationships with either a man, or a woman. and there are some that are in a “triad” relationship and it’s works. it all depends on the maturity of the people involved..

Education about Bisexuality is very important so that folks can be aware and have better understanding..There are websites about bisexuality, check them out..U will be quite surprised of the information you will find! Just my 2-cents!”

You know, I thought about that one. But I don’t think women do that because they’re ho’s. Sometimes its more about getting attention from the thirsty dudes out there. So maybe they’re attention-hoes? But the perception is definitely that she’s a hoe either way. So good point.