Tag: esteem

We live life as drama. Every day we are all the more force the culture of appearance, the gossip. We give to comply, not to look bad, because everyone does it … not to please. Managed by advertising and propaganda, do not buy what we need, but what the market needs to buy and others see us. Hear other arguments on the topic with James A. Levine, M.D.. Not for us really. The market constantly creates new products and the TV is about turning them into needs. We speak without thinking what we say, we live routines, buy advertisements. We say that a lot of fun at the party because it is expected to say that we loved the movie advertised that everyone says is very good, but we have to see her supremely boring. We applaud because everyone does it, smiling, without knowing why, when all they do. In short, every day there are fewer people who dare to live, to be masters of their own life, to love: most live for others: the TV, customs, fashions, what to say … The What say is an overwhelming concern that befalls many people. It can become a kind of terror of ridicule, an obsession to be like everyone else, to follow the pathway all work on what everyone, not to break schemes because “we can not do what the others do not do in order to have what others. ” We therefore more ostentatious luxuries or originality, and in most cases we prefer this, rather than investing in ourselves, in our physical or mental health, to feel at ease, feeling good with ourselves. Unfortunately we focus on: “Go there where everybody goes,” “In doing what everybody does,” “In deferring the good, which improves our physical and mental health in exchange for acquiring immediate appearance”, “To think like everyone else. No one thinks so, why exactly I’m going to be the exception? “. The strongest reason is usually one of the above point: “What can I do?, Is what makes the whole world … “(everyone … in the world he moves). If you have been rejected for the simple reason that wears no clothes brands, designed by famous designers and brand as” bad dress, “do not worry, you only have to sacrifice and stop eating if possible for a month, maybe can bring themselves to buy even a piece of brand which has to make every visit to friends, You can also buy clothes and pass by imitation simply get original clothing brand labels and sew them together in imitation clothes. So feel good while you’re sick. To live a life of lies, is not to live … live a virtual, imaginary or pretending it is not … is to live to be dead, is definitely not love each other.