(Closed) Avoiding the fairy-tale look

I’m getting married in an elegant but simple hotel. I really wanted a foresty look, so we’re decorating with glass jars, moss on the tables, little candles, hydrangeas and ferns. The table cloths are white but i’m making some cloth napkins out of a foresty print to add a personal touch. The decor is purple, green and brown. We’re going to have cupcakes instead of a cake and a pair of french guys with guitars are playind during the buffet dinner.

Here’s what I’m afraid of- I don’t want the whole thing to look fairy-tale. I am wearing an embroidered veil tied at the back like a scarf, and with the moss and cupcakes I’m scared it’s gonna look very storybook cutesy. How can I avoid this? Any tips?