The difference is they tell us they want to confide in me and they are scared to. So all of them turn on me saying I’m always yelling at them . I don’t listen to them etc etc . It’s not a case of no I don’t want to confide in mum . That’s why it hurts.

I know just frustrating . I’m not totally all there some days. They take it as I don’t listen when I’m not there present in that moment of time . My mind wanders and I’m gone. They catch me at bad times