Should DJs Be Music Moral Guardians?

What’s Appropriate?

In preparing for a recent birthday party for a group of thirteen year olds, the sponsoring parents expressed concern about the music I would be playing.

Would the songs be appropriate for the age group, and most importantly, would any of the songs contain lyrics which would be considered vulgar or unfit for their youngsters?

To allay the parents’ concerns, I suggested they ask their kids to make up a list of the songs they wanted to hear during the party, and the parents review the list before passing it on to me.

Since that party, I’ve been thinking about some of the music being produced today and how we, as working professionals (and parents), should handle it. It is true that so-called “clean” or radio versions of songs are available and most of us choose them over unedited versions. However, some of these can still be inappropriate due to the lyrical content or subject matter.

Getting Caught in the Middle

For us as music providers for a variety of events and audiences, we may find ourselves caught in the middle of what is considered appropriate and the demands of our clients and guests. Are we to act as moral guardians?

Should You Hit the “Play” Button?

Unhappily, there is not always an absolutely right/wrong answer. It comes down, in my opinion, to our personal judgment based on several factors: what are the “community standards” for the locale in which we’re conducting the event, and are we qualified or capable of interpreting those standards. What type of event are we doing – kid’s party, wedding, club gig?

Obviously each of these events can have widely different standards which would determine the music we play.

Don’t Be Big Brother

Always talk with your client in advance and determine their wishes and expectations. Find out who will be in the audience – will it be kids, 20-somethings, middle-aged adults or as is often the case, a mixture of ages and tastes.

As professionals, it is not our job to “push the limits” of propriety. In short, using good judgment while still meeting the needs of our client and audience is the best policy.

As always, we want our audiences to enjoy themselves and go away having had a fun experience. So, in a phrase, we should carefully select our music to fit the occasion and audience, and by doing so, we create a win-win situation for both ourselves and our audiences.

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