Someone please Read this:)

you don't know it will be his last you don't say how old you are so there may be time yet for a baby between you and your hubby, I wanted two children and I only have one, because we went through a rough patch, and hubby fathered a child with another woman which he never sees (she moved far away) and the child was a girl (which I wanted for myself ) and then he was sterilised as he didn't trust himself any more as he thought he was going mad I have a lovely son though and we still love each other even now. Our son was 16 months old when this hit the fan as I realised the child this woman was expecting was hubby's...we got through it and we're still married 20 years in this October (and still living with his mother too)