Sucker or Not - "admitted that that "making out" included feeling her breasts and rubbing her.."

Wife of 14 years and 21 years of a relationship cheated with a coworker.

After I figured it out from looking at phone records and text messages she admitted to inappropriate text messaging only.

Then after a couple of weeks and questioning from me she admitted to meeting with the other guy a couple of times for kissing and "making out" only.

Then after a few more days of my questioning she admitted that that "making out" included feeling her breasts and rubbing her vagina...but only from outside the pants.

After yet more questioning, she finally admitted that the rubbing was actually inside the pants and finger penetration.

Finally, she admitted to another rendezvous where they actually were trying to have sex. But because they were meeting in his car in the back roads of town and someone in a car came buy he couldn't get an erection to start or complete the sex act.

Of course I'm still skeptical with the explanation and believe that actual sex occurred despite her conviction of the truth. It completely makes no sense to me and I'm no fool, but for some reason she thinks I am.