Annoying in laws.....

Idk how someone can be so irritating sometimes.....everytime this woman holds my son she talks baby talk to him which I dont mind....but she says little insults to about me while she holds him and its really fucking rude and disrespectful.

Show her the door! seriously now is the time to set boundries (not sure if this is your first or not) but seriously, you are the MOTHER, she is the GRANDMOTHER, your wishes come first regarding your children, she needs to respect you in this role. Tell her to respect you or leave. Sorry your dealing with that.

If she's doing it in front of you, she probably thinks she's teasing you and you think its funny. I would bring it up nicely to her that it bothers you at first... Or have dh do it. If she continues then I'd follow through with what pps say

That's messed up. I would limit contact as a result until she gets the hint after you bring it to her attention. I already told my mother based on her child rearing skills and passive aggressive comments that she will have limited contact with my baby. As a result, she stated she isn't coming to the hospital. Crisis Averted! She's doing me a major favor and doesn't realize it.