Etiquette ~ Save The Date

The first contact with most of your wedding guests will be your Save-The-Date card. Here are a few commonly asked questions about them.

What should be on a Save-The-Date card?

When save-the-date cards were first created, they contained the basics (couple’s names, wedding date, and sometimes the location), but now more are choosing to include specific details that used to go in the invitation such as the wedding website, lodging options, and things to do in the area. But it’s really up to you. There are no hard and fast rules aside from the basics of the event. In the example below, a timeline is a fun way to answer all of the questions you’re likely to get from relatives and friends regarding your relationship.

Does it have to be a card?

No. You can be as creative as you want! Tie it into the theme of your wedding or have a cute photo taken with the date written on something during your engagement shoot. Magnets are also a common alternative, or you could even have the date printed on a bar of chocolate!

When do you send them?

As a general rule, it’s best to start sharing the news between 6 and 8 months before the ceremony. This gives guests plenty of time to figure out their travel arrangements, save a bit of cash and ask for days off from work.

What is the best way to address the envelope?

Do you always call your fiancé’s best friend by his nickname? It’s time to find out his full name. By including the actual names of every guest on the envelope, you’re less likely to have any assumed invitees (like your third cousin’s new boyfriend), or general confusion (are children invited?).