Delayed Feedback, Contacts will not Sync with FBGeneral

I apologize if this has been answered but I really have my wife yelling at me. Since the 2.1 upgrade I am having issues with FB contact pictures syncing, sometime I have to wait 15 seconds between keys when dialing a number. Everything seems A LOT slower!

I took my wife's upgrade and got the incredible and she has my eris. I need to get these issues resolved or I will continue to hear it from her.