March 6, 2013

Are you?

I've been chatting with my former Dominant. We have always remained close and we have played over the years. Master has met him and there are no issues with me playing with Him.

I also have a close friendship with Him. He said that He knows He will always get the truth from me. Its nice to know that my words are valued. I am also this way in my submission. When I choose to be a submissive to Master or to this Dominant, I take it very seriously because I know that being a good girl is what makes them happy as well as myself. I find when I am doing what makes me happy, it shows in my service.

I've not had a poly relationship in a while. Sometimes I miss it, other times I am wrapped up in my other projects. But somehow I always remember my place. If not, I get reminded!

My wife and I entered into a polyamorous relationship quite by accident. We had sex with a couple one night and that continued on for a few months. Over that time, we both started to get feelings for the other and that's when it began. We talked it over and worked out guidelines. I will say it was very strange to go out on a date with my girlfriend, knowing that I was married and that my wife was okay with it. We all remained good friends, but we had our stressors. In the end we broke it off because the other husband was not getting involved anymore and it turned out to be jealousy. We have since moved, but still keep in touch from time to time.

I doubt that my wife and I will ever enter a polyamorous relationship again, but the experience was definitely an interesting one. Now we have just learned of Dd and are beginning that new journey. In the past few years we have had great communication and I will say that makes the marriage so much easier.