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But that's what I want!!!!! Edit

Posted by Anonymous

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I want a BIG family I always have. I have one DD now and my DH only wants one more baby because he has a lot of other children(all grown 5 all together not including one that we will have) and I want a big family not two babies but at least 4. And he says no :( because he already has a lot of kids. How fair is that?!?! I mean I give him all his dreams why can't I have just one of my own dreams? So after we have a baby he's getting a vasecetamy. I feel so left out because he has the big family he wants but I don't get one? So not fair. ( again all his kids are grown and have families of their own.) ugh!

Edit--- FFS I do not have daddy issues he has been my best friend for 4years and we DID discuss this before we got married he was fine with it. He has led me to believe WE would have a BIG family TOGETHER he changed his mind. I understand why. Doesn't mean I have to like it and I have every fuckin right to bitch about it!

This is something dh and I discussed pretty early in our relationship. I'd think with someone older (and my dh is 11 years older than me) and/'or who has other kids this would definately be a topic of discussion. So did you not talk about it or did he change his mind?

by Anonymous 3
on May. 17, 2013 at 11:26 AM

My ex always told me he wanted 5 kids he had 3 from a previous relationship and I always wanted 2. Well after we had dd together he went behind my back and got a vasectomy soon after I left because of lots of things but also because he lied to me and tried to hide the fact he had that done

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