"My" cousins decided to show up... ugh. Why are they so fucking boring? Why do they have to smile so much? Why are they so disgustingly happy?! Make them stop discussing what the various types of weather they traveled through every single day of the way here! Why the fuck did they have to bring their stupid ass rodent-dog with them which just sits there and yelps at me? Who gives people the right to breed these demons? What right do people have to inquire upon how my summer is going? Maybe I don't celebrate the summer, has anyone ever thought about that? Racists. Someone kill me, and I will offer you my dead body as a present. Or maybe some money.

I'm sorry to hear that. I like the cousins on both sides of my family quite a bit. I can't imagine how difficult it must be to have cousins one dislikes.

I'm sorry to hear that. I like the cousins on both sides of my family quite a bit. I can't imagine how difficult it must be to have cousins one dislikes.

Oh it's actually not that bad. It was a bit of an over-dramatization, but I still get headaches from having to answer every single stupid question they have about me. >.>

Originally Posted by Chanaynay

still gay

Are there times when you transform sexualities? Though I myself tend to like certain genders more depending on the mood. Sometimes I disregard both females and males in replace for something more... enjoyable and rewarding. That would be food. At least ice cream doesn't expect anything of me!

Annoyed at stereotypes in typology, particularly on PerC (as I'm unsure to what extent they exist here on TypoC) :/. I'm reminded of why I hate visiting my individual type forum. I'm an ENFP, and I'm not really flaky, especially after I've gotten to know you pretty well. I don't get "bored" of people or relationships any more than anyone else. I'm not particularly unreliable, especially emotionally. I have my moments, but nothing out of the ordinary. And besides that, it's hard for me to fulfill obligations at times because of ADHD and anxiety/depression, though I don't want to just blame it on that and leave it at that. At the very least, I take responsibility for what I do and don't do. If I mess up, I'll admit it, and do what I can to make it up in a way that I feel I can. If you can be sympathetic, I will try doubly hard to meet you halfway or more. But yeah, emotionally, I will always try to be supportive. I love taking care of people, and I don't mean mothering and babying, being overbearing, overprotective. I just want to do my best to be accepting and understanding, a really good friend.

I'm not simply a "shallow INFP" basically, which is the impression I get often. Like, having feels but being more concerned with "having fun" and running around like a crazy maniac to fulfill that need, thus causing me to be ignorant of the consequences or effects of what I do. I am not by default less "mature" or something than other types, less "deep" because of a natural, external cognitive focus. Being extroverted cognitively certainly does not mean I am stupid and not "thoughtful" and like going to parties (which I don't think should be seen as so inherently bad, though I empathize with those who don't like them). These things hardly apply to social extroversion either. I almost never go out, really. I love talking to people, but I've not been able to form lasting relationships with other people in person that I engage physically (hanging out, doing stuff together), and not because I don't want to. It just didn't ever happen, and caused me much grief throughout my years.

At the same time, I'm not gonna pull out the "ENFPs are the most introverted extroverts" idea that seemed to become a thing (for reasons I don't really understand). If it's not them, it's ENTPs. I feel like this was something someone said and it just caught on because really, I don't see a strong pattern. I also feel like, though sometimes unsaid, it makes ESFP and ESTP out to be extremely "extroverted" and take the brunt of the stereotypes associated with that. Which is certainly not necessarily true. Even if we're taking a more shallow dichotomy approach, what makes the "S" more "extroverted" (than most other types, but specifically ENFP/ENTP)?