Why i’ll never date a bar girl from Thailand

Sometimes I really wonder why people date bar girls and prostitutes, karaoke girls and street walkers. Let me say as loudly as I can to you DONT DO IT! It's not exactly brain science but there is a reason why she is in that job and you'll never really understand why in fact there are so many reasons I could start a whole new blog about the subject.

This is my Mantra

Only pay girls to sleep with you and never pay a girl not to sleep with other people

When a bar girl comes home with you the only thing she has is her body it's likely she has no money and she definitely has no income. Without an income she is now your dependant making it so that you'll have to pay money for her so she doesn't go back into the bars and turns tricks. It's going to take a lot of therapy or Jedi mind tricks to get her to take on a real job and the only real job she's going to be able to do is sweep floors and maybe handle a cash register as long as it's only filled with 1000 baht notes.

Can you turn a GoGo Girl?

I say go go girl but could be a bar girl karaoke girl whatever your flavour is mate. You can get her into classes maybe even keep her around till she gets her high school transcript but lets face it your not going to put her through University and unless your a super motivator she's really not going to be able to do anything except look pretty for you.

Notice how the Thai's don't have trophy wives they have trophy mia nois and trophy girlfriends but not trophy wives. This is because if you want something on your side that looks super hot all the time and forever you have to keep changing them! Hey maybe your nearing death right now so that super sexy 18y/o, if you have the money awesome bring her home and keep her. But for the rest of you guys what are you thinking?

I've turned girls into being prostitutes but I've never flipped one out of being one. Although I've tried, it didn't really work out well, the few I tried it on were too damn lazy. Is it possible? Yeah sure you could flip a bar girl into the good girlfriend you might even be lucky to do it so she still isn't pimping herself. But why? And I asked myself this at the time too, what is the point? Is she really better looking than a decent trustworthy farm girl or slim urbanite, ahhh no.

I actually know a few guys who date bar girls, they get free sex from these girls on a dime basically, some I know even get presents and money from them. I'm not saying that there is anything wrong with that but I can't bring myself to being a pet dog for anyone.

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Chris founded LivingThai.org in 2011 and has received over 3 million visitors. In 2017 he stopped writing new content (although does update the site) and is now focused on writing for his new website SlyNomad.com.

2 Responses to Why i’ll never date a bar girl from Thailand

My sad experience was with a Filipina, but maybe similar. After a few bar fines I took her on vacation and we had a great time, including frequent sex. I did notice though that she seemed to be indifferent to the sex. I temporarily put this out of my mind while I fell in love with her, like a fool. When we returned to Manila I soon discovered she was back on the game while I travelled the region on business. I confronted her and she said she just enjoys it, partying, being admired, being paid and…. Having sex with different guys. We split of course. But I realised it’s true – you can take the girl out of the bar, but you can’t take the bar out of the girl