Car camping or bikepacking/backpacking? If car camping there are plenty less expensive none lightweight durable options out there in other materials. If you want to save weight, titanium is probably your best option for weight and durability.

My go to outdoor shop in Portland is the Mt Shop, not in Bend though, but great to deal with.

IMO the MSR Groundhogs or the best tent stake on the market for anything but maybe solid ice (no experience there).

The titanium stakes I have tried are all the skinny "?" shaped ones which bend easier than the groundhogs (sourced at an REI btw). I guess if there was a groundhog shaped Ti stake it might be better...