This is another Free Special Report fromJim DeSantis, a retired TV News Editorand Pastoral Counselor! You are welcometo give it away to someone who mayappreciate it. Be a friend! Give it away!If you really want to get your ex back, I know that this Special Reportcan help you accomplish just that. It contains highlights of thecomplete “Magic of Making Up” course that has helped hundreds ofpeople get back together even when it seemed impossible.These techniques are not the usual psycho-babble you commonly findon line. They were developed for real folks like you and are proven towork again and again.Of course, we cannot guarantee you will get an ex back who truly hasmoved on, but, if the flame still burns, these tips will fan that flameinto a bonfire of love between you and your ex love.1

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How To Tell If Your ExReally Wants You Back!If your ex is showing you a little bit of interest, or seems more interestedin going out and spending time with you than before, or if you noticesigns that your ex is trying to flirt with you, then it's okay to be a littlehopeful but you need to avoid jumping the gun.These are definitely very common signs that your ex is interested ingetting you back. But even if you want to get back with your ex, youshould not simply jump into things.The best way to play things is to play hard to get (in moderation), whichis probably what your ex will best respond to anyway. If you simply jumpinto things full force, then you may find your ex pushing you back again.In fact, if your ex is giving indications that he or she wants you back,then the odds are, it was you playing hard to get that led to the renewedinterest in the first place.Usually when you break up with your ex, or, he or she breaks up withyou, there is a natural level of missing one another, or longing to getback together. This is especially true following a relationship of a year orlonger.Your ex is probably going to miss you no matter what, because of howmany memories were shared together during this period of time. Butthere are other emotions that come into play, including past regrets. Ifyou are wondering "does my ex want to get back with me" the odds arethat your ex may be thinking the same thing for the same reasons.Sometimes, when an ex shows interest again following a break up, it mayonly be a game. They may see that you love them, and they may simplybe trying to get attention, without actually intending to get you back. So,unless your ex really seems genuinely interested in spending time withyou, they may just be passing the time because they have no otherprospects on the horizon. And ,worst of all, they may see this as a wayto get revenge for some perceived wrong. This is why it is important notto jump the gun, and why you should focus on evaluating the situationbefore you act on it.This “get even” syndrome is fairly common. All the more reason to get afeel for the situation before you act.2

In reality, if your ex does want to get back with you, playing hard to get(in moderation) is the best scenario because it will prevent you fromgetting hurt if your ex is not really serious about getting back with you.“Order and downloadThe Magic of Making Up here!If you are not back together with your ex within 60 days…or you are not absolutely delighted for any reason…You will receive a prompt and courteous refund."A Confident Attitude Works Wonders!Although a breakup with a boyfriend or with a girlfriend can be reallydepressing, it does not need to mean that the relationship is over. Even ifthe breakup should suddenly leave you feeling confusion and loneliness,you may still feel really eager to heal the wounds and jump right back into that relationship with your ex.If you learn how to react following a break up, and you become aware ofhow not to strain the relationship even further, then getting ex back willbe easier than ever.It can seem hard to keep up a cheerful attitude throughout your dayfollowing a breakup, but it is believed by relationship experts that anoptimistic and confident attitude can go a long way. Here are some of theways that the right attitude will work wonders.Keep your confidence.Rather than going around feeling gloomy, try to find ways that you cankeep yourself occupied and happy. Keep the depression out of yourdemeanor. Allow your ex boyfriend or girlfriend to know that you arestrong and that you are more than capable of handling such an emotionalsituation, and also that you are capable of surviving on your own as well.3

Remain socially active.Surround yourself with well wishers, positive attitudes and good friends.Show your ex that people appreciate you, and that they love having youaround. As more people begin to feel good about your presence in theirlives, your ex will begin to see you in a completely new light.He or she will realize that yes, you are a good person that they simplycannot afford to let go of. This is one of the best ways to let your exnotice you in a new light.Maintain a good appearance - Another solution to "How can I get my exback?" is not to let your appearance reflect your situation. You need topay attention to every detail of your looks, including your clothes, yourmake up, your hair, your stride, your shoes and even your voice.It can be hard to act happy or to take care of yourself following a badbreakup, but this is one of the best ways that you can let your ex knowthat you are doing just fine, and do not need to beg for his or hersympathy. You are going to get back together like adults who are matureand responsible if you are going to get back together at all.“Order and downloadThe Magic of Making Up here!If you are not back together with your ex within 60 days…or you are not absolutely delighted for any reason…You will receive a prompt and courteous refund."Going Slow Wins The Race!If you are wondering how you can get back with your ex love, the firstthing that you need to understand is that this is a very delicate situation.Your feelings may be hurt, and their feelings may also be hurt - And it isimportant that you are careful about how you handle the situation,otherwise feelings may be hurt even worse.4

Here are some key points that you need to consider when it comes tofiguring out how to get back with your ex love.1 - First and foremost, what was it that you did in order to cause thebreak up? Breakups do not happen completely out of the blue, so there isprobably a really good reason behind the action even if you are notimmediately aware of what it is. The first step in this process has to be tofigure out what went wrong, whether or not it could have beenprevented, and how can you can fix it now that you know what it is.2 - If the break up with your ex love was entirely your fault, then thefirst thing that you need to do to help rekindle things is to let your exgirlfriend know that you recognize what happened. Let them know thatyou recognize that it was your fault and that you are sorry for youractions and the unintended consequences.3 - You should continue to socialize with other people, even though youare trying to court your ex again. Just because you and your ex are not incontact right now, that does not mean that you need to cut yourself offfrom the rest of the world.You should date others, or at least go out and have some fun with yourfriends. It may even work to your advantage for you to cause somejealousy in your ex partner if you really do want to get them back.4 - Show your ex that you have moved on, but you also need to show herthat you still care about them. This is the most ideal way to eventuallyget her back.By letting her know that you have not completely moved on, and that youstill have feelings for them, will make you appear more mature and moredesirable as well.5 - Finally, it is important that you work hard to become friends withyour ex love. Friendship will build trust and will help to bring you closerto one another than you have ever been.At some point you should ask them why the relationship fell apart, but becasual about it rather than appearing desperate. They will either admitthat it was a mistake that the two of you broke up, or will let you knowthat the break up was for the better at that moment in time. Once youhave an answer, you can proceed from there.5

“Order and downloadThe Magic of Making Up here!If you are not back together with your ex within 60 days…or you are not absolutely delighted for any reason…You will receive a prompt and courteous refund."How to Get Back Your Ex Love in Five Steps!If you really want to learn how to get your ex love back, there are anumber of steps that you can follow to have more success than if youjust wing it and hope for the best. Breakups happen, but they do notnecessarily have to be forever.Here are five steps that will allow you to subtlety let your ex love knowthat you're still interested in being a fixture in their life, so that you canpotentially rekindle things in the right away.1 - Start by reaching out and contacting them. But, do not be wimpyabout it nor arrogant. Just reach out and let them know subtlety that youare still interested in being a part of their life.2 - Drop them an e-mail to keep in touch. If you do not find casual, easygoing methods of communication with your ex, you will never be able toget them back. Staying in touch is absolutely vital, but keep it to casualmessages like "Hey, what's up?" rather than overwhelming their Inboxwith love poetry.3 - Stay away from committing to another person you may be dating.Sure, your ex love may be understanding enough to let it slide if youbegin to peruse other "prospects", but if you want to get your ex back,don't appear that you have found a new love.4 - Remember the little and big things. Part of learning how to get yourex love back means treating them like they are the most special personon the planet.6

One of the easiest ways to do this is by remembering the most importantanniversaries and dates in their life. Send a card on their birthday, andlet them know you're thinking about them but in a harmless and positiveway.5 - Call and text, but use discretion when communicating. You should notbe afraid to send your ex love a text message, or drop them a line hereand there.Uncertainty is something that should be avoided in life and love, so callyour ex and let them know what's going on that they may be interestedin knowing. This way they will know where you are and what you'redoing and not have to imagine that you're out having fun without themwith another love interest.Let your ex know you care, and that you still think about them. If theyknow that they are still in your thoughts so frequently, it will contributeheavily to how quickly they will want to rekindle things with you.There is no exact process or science to the process of learning how to getyour ex love back, but there are some pretty clear cut methods that willsteer you in the right direction. Obviously maintaining contact andcommunication is absolutely vital to the rekindling process, but do notover do it, otherwise you may scare your ex love away.“Order and downloadThe Magic of Making Up here!If you are not back together with your ex within 60 days…or you are not absolutely delighted for any reason…You will receive a prompt and courteous refund."Patience and Friendship Win The Prize!Many people yearn for the good old days and dream of rekindling a lostromance. Many are interested in giving a tumultuous relationshipanother chance. If this is you, follow the steps detailed below.7

1 - Keep in mind, first and foremost, that patience is a virtue. Do not rushanything, but rather start things off with simple comments whenever youencounter your ex. This can be as simple as waving or just saying hello.When these encounters happen, you should maintain eye contact so thatthey know you are communicating with them and not with somebodyelse, but do not let it go much further than this.2 - Try slowly implementing conversation again, making an attempt totalk to them when you can. Remember that you should keep yourconversation brief, and rather basic in nature. Do not reveal too much,because mystery is actually quite appealing.Also, if you run into your ex love at a party or a social gathering and yourfriends come into the room, you may consider stopping the conversationwith your ex and focus your attention on your friends. This will let yourex know that, while the communication between the two of you is nice,they are not your highest priority right now. Don't be afraid to flirt a littlebit here and there as well.3 - Keep things fresh. Make sure that you look good, and smell good, andthat you keep things changed up on a fairly regular basis in order to keepyour ex interested in you. You should put some thought into yourappearance because maintaining your good looks will show confidenceand respect for your appearance and which is something that mostpeople of the opposite sex find quite attractive.4 - Don't be afraid to make a few honest compliments to your ex every sooften. You are going to want to make sure that your ex feels good anytime they are around you. Talk about the good times that you spenttogether, bringing up only good memories from the past. Help them toremember some of the best highlights from the former days of yourrelationship and enjoy the reminiscing while simultaneously working toget them back.Try to become your ex's friend first and foremost. They will feel morecomfortable with you and, if they want you back, they will eventually letyou know. Be a true friend, open up to them, show them a nice time. Iftheir feelings for you are rekindled, they will let you know.Take things slowly and don't act too needy. Instead, just play it cool andlet them come to you. If things are meant to be, they will be, and you willget your ex love back through the process.8

“Order and downloadThe Magic of Making Up here!If you are not back together with your ex within 60 days…or you are not absolutely delighted for any reason…You will receive a prompt and courteous refund."Saying You're Sorry AndShowing Your Sensitive Side!Well, there’s no guarantee you’ll get back together, but the odds tiltmore and more in your favor when you do things right. Show your exlove how much you miss them, and how sorry you are. Then, payattention to how they react. If saying you're sorry only make them angryor they throw away your small making up gift or something dramatic likethat, change your tactics until you find that something that they respondpositively to.If flowers or cards frustrate her, for example, maybe that’s because it’seasy to pick up the phone and order flowers or buy a card someone elsewrote. Try putting yourself in her shoes and try to figure out somethingmore appealing. Buy a blank card and write your own verse in it. Itdoesn’t have to rhyme, in fact it’s better if it doesn’t. Try to honestlyexpress how you feel. Or pick flowers and present her with a bouquetyou put together yourself.A common complaint among women is that men aren’t thoughtful. Wereyou thoughtful during the relationship? Now you might be wondering,how can you get your ex girlfriend back by being thoughtful? Well, everypositive thing stacks up, making it easier and easier for her to come backto you. Don’t expect things to happen right away, though.As for an ex boyfriends, it will take some imagination. You really have toknow your man and what will impress him and surprise him. Forexample, I love powder coated cream puffs. Give me a half dozen as amake up gift and my heart would melt on the spot! Something that onlyyou and he know about would make an excellent ice melter!9

If you spent your former relationship rarely doing thoughtful things, oryou only did them in the beginning, your ex will probably doubt thethings you do now. Just be patient, and keep up your efforts. Don’tappear frustrated or angry. Do the thoughtful things because it feelsgood to make them happy, not because you’re working toward a goal.Can I get my ex girlfriend backby dating other women?If it’s been a long time since the breakup, and you’re still working onbeing thoughtful, a casual date seems harmless and may make her wishshe was your date, but go too far and it could backfire.Can I get my ex girlfriend backif she has a boyfriend?The odds are against it, but if you can show her that she’ll be happierwith you than the new boyfriend you’ll have a good chance. Beingthoughtful will go a long way toward showing her that. Even if it seemshopeless, don’t give up.If it appears she’s moved on, still send her a card you wrote just wishingher a great week. But don’t look as if you have any expectations. Yourthoughtfulness might really impress her.Can I get my ex boyfriend backif he has a girlfriend?This is probably the hardest situation to overcome. Not only is it difficultto be alone with him if he has someone else, he’s focused on the newrelationship. You’re part of the past, and not a priority. Being nice rightnow is crucial. You have to make him see how wonderful you are andhow much he’s missing.10

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