(Closed) Random Private Message- Seems odd?

Hey Bees… I got a RANDOM Private Message a day or so ago from a bee with the screen name @AshesIntoBeauty The message said I see your from Southern Illinois, where is your wedding being held??? So I goto look at their posts or whatever to see if maybe they are from around here…. they havent contributed ANYTHING to the site, No pics, no posts, no bio NOTHING AT ALL! They have been a member for 2 days?! And their profile on here says theyre from another state all together that would have NOTHING to do with So. Il?! I’m just a little lost and think that was such a odd message I got!!

Well I already did respond with the town it would be in (which is another state) and didnt realize all of that until after… however when I look at my sent messages theyre are still envelopes next to the messages… does that mean they havent seen it? And is there any way to UNSEND the message Mods?

It’s an odd message, but don’t panic. I don’t think there’s any reason to be alarmed. If they message you again and you’re still uncomfortable, just ignore them. It’s probably just spam from a vendor, or just a new member who lives in North Dakota, but is getting married in Illinois, or has a friend who lives there or something.

@emersynsmommy35: No, there’s no way to unsend a message. You can delete it on your end if it is unread, meaning that it won’t show up in their weddingbee inbox, however, a copy also gets sent to their email address, which doesn’t get deleted. So unless they don’t check the email account that they used to sign up, they should still be able to read your message even if you delete it.

@Everyone – If you ever get spammy PMs from vendors – this is VERY against our terms of use, so please report them (link to the profile of the user, if possible) in support.weddingbee.com