Be Clear About Your Sexual Intentions

Do: Kiss her well. Good kissing will make her look forward to seeing you and get her in the mood every time you do.

Tease her a bit, pulling back from kisses and in general proceeding a little slower than necessary to make her desire you more.

Go down on her, if you're comfortable with her. This is of course the best way to become her sex star. But don't go straight there — tease her properly.

Don't: Be too gentle or tender. Don't give out any boyfriend vibes.

Look her in the eye for too long. Constantly refocus your attention on other body parts, so she knows what your priority is and will make it hers, too.

The Sex As important as good cunnilingus, amazing sex will make her desire you now and next time.

Do: Use several different positions. Doggy style seems much more debauched than missionary.

Keep her entertained with clitoral stimulation during the act, if she's into that. Use your hands to complete your moves. Satisfy her and she will want to satisfy you.

Make sure she orgasms at least once during the whole act, preferably twice. If you don't seem to be getting her there, you can ask her playfully if she has a request. Players always get the job done.

Don't: Kiss her too much during intercourse. Instead tease her breasts and grab her butt or thighs. Keep it more sexual than intimate.

Keep asking her if everything is okay. A player should know what he's doing in bed.

The Conclusion If you've navigated things successfully and managed to bed her but haven't said anything about what you're looking for yet, words may or may not be necessary. If you're unsure whether you should clarify things verbally, err on the side of doing so, but in doing so, err on the side of being less, rather than more, explicit.

For example, you can say, "Listen, you're really cool and I think you deserve to know that I'm not really looking for a girlfriend right now. I'm rather looking for someone to have a good time with, and I think that's what we've both had here. So if you're up for that, I'd like to see you again sometime. Why don't you give me your number and I'll get in touch with you next week."

The dilemma is of course that if you say something before the deed and you mishandle it, the deed might not happen. If you say it afterward, as in the above example, it could come off as cold. That's why it all depends on the situation. Certainly avoid giving something like this speech right after sex and right before you leave. Leave some time in there to ensure she never feels used, which is not at all the case.

On the other hand, if she leaves or suggests you leave relatively soon after sex, it may be an obvious sign that you don't need to say anything. And if she's breezy in general, the same rule applies.