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I allow myself to set healthy boundaries ..... to say no to what does not align with my values, to say yes to what does.
Boundaries assist me to remain healthy, honest and living a life that is true to me

well as Debs and i are very different sizes clothing wise only thing I am able to force her to wear is my shoes ............. not that she takes a lot of forcing

I allow myself to set healthy boundaries ..... to say no to what does not align with my values, to say yes to what does.
Boundaries assist me to remain healthy, honest and living a life that is true to me

[SIZE="2"][FONT="Arial"]“One day Alice came to a fork in the road and saw a Cheshire cat in a tree. ‘Which road do I take?’ she asked. His response was a question: “Where do you want to go?’ ‘I don’t know,’ answered Alice. ‘Then,’ said the cat, ‘it doesn’t matter.' "
- Lewis Carroll[/FONT][/SIZE]

Interesting post - my spouse up until 8 months ago was totally revolted by anything pertaining to crossdressing -> going back to my "Great Purge of 95".
When the Pink Fog settled in on me last summer and I nearly fell apart -litterally - my spouse and I were able to COMMUNICATE and she finally realized how deep and strong these URGES/DESIRES are to me and the rest of us. She saw what it was doing to me - I was so down that the bottom began to look like up to me - she experienced an epiphany to the point that SHE NOW INCOURAGES ME TO DRESS ANY TIME I WANT - AND IF I DON"T DRESS UP, for some reason, THEN SHE ACTUALLY ENCOURAGES ME TO DRESS !
What a difference !
JoAnne Wheeler

gee-i can see myself thrashing around with my arms as she is trying to put that bra on me-wiggling like crazy to prevent that tight girdle sliding up my body and getting zipped up-putting runs into the stockings as she is fixing to roll them past my toes telling me i will be such a pretty girl when she is done with me.
no no no-i dont want to wear that wig!!and that lipstick tastes nasty and the earrings hurt my earlobes -please please stop!!!
anybody have that w.t dream?

I'm new here, but I hope you don't think I'm a liar (yes I have used forums before where newcomers seem so full of....

So, I have been dressing since around 13/14 I think. Maybe be longer, I honestly don't know. But I didn't get into a serious relationship until I was 19. I always liked the idea of bondage, and had practiced it before then alone (before I had internet and found out I wasn't alone). So I joked about bondage one day as a hint and was tied to the bed within 10 minutes after a reply of "so it's bondage you want huh?" (yes, she had more experience than me). Anyway, a few weeks later and after a couple of drinks, she asked me to wear her underwear, stockings and shoes and let her tie me up. Of course I wanted to, and casually acted like I found it a little strange. She ended up dressing me herself and I was clearly loving it! Anyway, I don't think it worked for her quite as she hoped, as she didn't ask again And I kind of found out she was cheating on me about a year later so that had to end.

Then along came the next. I was open and told her about the dressing (though clamed it started when the first had asked me that)
She was into bondage a little and bought a maid outfit. She used to make me dress up (verbally only (but I like being the sub in bondage play so I didn't argue) and then on went the cuff, armbinder or what ever it was that she wanted . That ended as we didn't get on after a while so it was just time to move on.

So yes, some women like it, some think they may but in reality don't, and I'm sure many just wouldn't go near the subject.

I would also like to agrue with those who say being forced to dress is an easy way to remove guilt and shame. I can tell you, both times, I did feel a little humiliation when dressed in front of someone...but as a great lover of bondage and S&M play, I can tell you I like to be "forced" to do things and do find it a turn on, but if I had a supportive girlfriend, I would happily dress in front of her myself just because I could.

Nirvana

Sort of seeing someone else now. What's the chances of getting 3 in a row? I'm actually more nervous about telling her. She seems like the more understanding type. We have known each other for so long though, I feel this could just tear us apart

..................[SIZE="4"]WANTED[/SIZE]......................
.............Wife, with nice clothing tastes........................
Must want to force me to share her clothing, shoes and accesories
In exchange, i,m offering to treat her as a Goddess and worship the ground she walks on

[SIZE="3"]Seems just right that on our wedding day I am gonna be wearing your shoes[/SIZE]

I allow myself to set healthy boundaries ..... to say no to what does not align with my values, to say yes to what does.
Boundaries assist me to remain healthy, honest and living a life that is true to me