Can you turn off the language and gore?

Is there any way to turn off the extreme language and gore in this game? My friend said he wouldn't buy it if the language was so bad, even in the cutscenes it's awful!!!!!!! Also, can you turn off the extreme amount of gore? When I see limbs being blown off and blood spraying everywhere, and I know my parents are in the next room, yeah... Please somebody help me!!!!!!!!!!4 years ago