If you were on 4.0-4.1, it sounds like you installed ios60-stub. Not sure the version # of the stub, but you need ios60-v6174, the stub is newer. If you installed a different one from NUSD, there is nothing you can do, short of boot2 bootmii. You can try savemiifrii with a gc-controller, but it wont work.

im pretty shure when i started all this bootmii was installed being it was one of the first things installed i believe, i asked some one who helped me and they said they thought we used loadmii and bootmii both

im doubting they can be deleted from the system ? or from the sd card i guess its there somewhere lol