Making decisions or having traits that don’t sit well with everyone in the general population doesn’t make you less of a woman, or less of a man, or less of a human being. It makes you independent. It makes you indefinable. And that’s the best thing you can be.

Salad needs dressing like Ashanti needed Ja Rule. They just work so well together. Light dressing is like Ja Rule sans Ashanti. Imagine “Always On Time” without Ashanti. That’s what light dressing tastes like.

Knowing what you deserve is the hardest part. Admitting what you want is the second hardest. It’s okay to think you deserve everything. In fact, you should think this way. You should want all the things.

About Jillian

Jillian Harding lives and works in NYC with her dog Jasper. She truly believes “Romy and Michele’s High School Reunion” is the pinnacle of American film. In her spare time, she tries to avoid falling down stairs and pretends like she could be a worthy opponent on “Chopped.”