These questions radically improve your chances of having a particular activity or scene go well. We’ve designed and produced the Consent Card on plastic, so that it’s easily cleaned and will survive being shoved in and out of your wallet / purse / toy-bag.​The questions are based on our own and others’ experiences of getting it wrong, and getting it right. Running through this Consent Card will give you an extremely high chance of having a safe and successful play, and set the groundwork and trust for more play like it in future.

Some of the questions are slightly more geared around kinky activities, but the Consent Card is appropriate for all types of sexual play (and a whole bunch of non-sexual play, too).

You can simply enlarge the pictures below any time you have access to the web, print out the images, or buy your own handy card from our online store; at $9 each, they’re priced to cover only the cost of production and shipping them to you. Or buy them in bulk - 5 cards for $30, or 20 cards for $70!