Not yet, I've got one lined up though. I saw this girl for the first time in a while a few weeks ago and talked with her on FB after. I saw her again and exchanged numbers (a week or so ago), and we've been talking regularly since then.

Simple way to figure this out... You should be driving, correct? If she opens the door by the time you get to it, let her. If she is opening her own door (your door) she obviously doesn't care. Otherwise, open it. I usually plan on opening it for her either way, bc that's just the type of guy I am, but I've had chicks who could care less, and if they don't care, I'm not going to go out of my way... Sometimes you just gotta let **** figure it out for itself.

Met this girl and had her jocking me. Talked for a few days, went on a date. Had just broke up with her ex of a year and a half day before. Back with him. Talks to me today and essentially lectured me on what I did wrong as far as being to nice and the like. I could have had it had I just done it right. She was a dime.

Most girls can and will distinguish chivalry and politeness with being a little *****. It's how you act around your friends, and when you're out together that they form their opinion of you. I've never gotten the 'too nice' from a girl for being polite. It has happened though for being a little too willing to hear them out on their life problems. But, i'm glad i'm on hiatus from the dating scene, i miss the single life sometimes but definitely not that.

My girlfriend of 2 years ended things a couple days ago. Needless to say its been tough for me, especially since all my roommates and friends are home for winter break and I'm here by myself. I've been out of the game too long, not sure what to do.

My girlfriend of 2 years ended things a couple days ago. Needless to say its been tough for me, especially since all my roommates and friends are home for winter break and I'm here by myself. I've been out of the game too long, not sure what to do.

youll be fine bro, just takes time to get used to it. Alcohol can do two things to the situation, make you extremely sad or let you forget it and have a good time. My advice to you is to lay back with your guy friends to get your morale up, women are an enigma that stresses one out to no end.

Serious question here, should I be concerned that I"m 20 and never had a relationship? I have had my one night stands and ish, but I've never had a relationship with a girl at all. There really isn't anyone that stands out to me in these 20 years where Im like, "yes, there's something special there." Or do I just not know what something special is and take it for granted?

youll be fine bro, just takes time to get used to it. Alcohol can do two things to the situation, make you extremely sad or let you forget it and have a good time. My advice to you is to lay back with your guy friends to get your morale up, women are an enigma that stresses one out to no end.

Alcohol will mess with you if you drink by yourself while sulking. If you're gonna drink do it at a social even or just chillin with close friends.

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Whatever you do Hawk, do not immediately jump into another relationship. My two best friends are notorious for dating girls for long periods of time and then getting right back into another serious relationship a week or two later and it bugs me to no end.
Take some time for yourself and enjoy the single life a bit. Rely on your friends and family during this time and just have some fun.

Serious question here, should I be concerned that I"m 20 and never had a relationship? I have had my one night stands and ish, but I've never had a relationship with a girl at all. There really isn't anyone that stands out to me in these 20 years where Im like, "yes, there's something special there." Or do I just not know what something special is and take it for granted?

How do you guys go about handling getting x mas presents for the gf? Be my first holiday season of having some one.I kind have an idea but not sure exactly what to get. Should it be something more personal or something out of the box ?

How do you guys go about handling getting x mas presents for the gf? Be my first holiday season of having some one.I kind have an idea but not sure exactly what to get. Should it be something more personal or something out of the box ?

Here's something that might help:

Female Gift Value = (Monetary Value) / (Function)

So something like flowers or jewelry are high up there while a vacuum or dish soap are not.

How do you guys go about handling getting x mas presents for the gf? Be my first holiday season of having some one.I kind have an idea but not sure exactly what to get. Should it be something more personal or something out of the box ?

How long/serious is it?

The longer the relationship has been, the more personal and meaningful you wanna go with a gift. If she has been your girlfriend for like, a month, buy her a perfume or something.

Metsox,
well we just started dating in Sept .But have been friends since last summer in 2010. So I'm fairly new to the whole gift idea. I do have a necklace in mind but I wanted to get a few more things. Also I'm not sure if I should order them or go to a store.

kalbears13,
Yes I know that much and wouldn't even go there because it would not show nothing to speak.

She into the whole animal thing as well and loves pink or sparkly stuff like that. Also into the peace sing deal so I guess I just have to start looking around and get my butt in gear.

Whatever you do Hawk, do not immediately jump into another relationship. My two best friends are notorious for dating girls for long periods of time and then getting right back into another serious relationship a week or two later and it bugs me to no end.
Take some time for yourself and enjoy the single life a bit. Rely on your friends and family during this time and just have some fun.

Appreciate the advice bro, yeah I wasn't planning on that. Its tough getting adjusting to not having steady action. That's the motivation though.

I got this girls number in my one class just now. I told her I will text her if i know of any parties next semester. I was wondering should I text her over break or text her during break? I was thinking about texting her about our take home final but if it is a easy final I dont want to look like a dumbass.

So been talking to this girl a lot lately. She has mentioned dating and talking about how she likes me and spending time with me. I feel the same way and what not and over thanksgiving we hung out a ton, I brought home a buddy from school who wasnt gonna be able to make it back, and so he was always there as well which kinda bummed me out sometimes because I woulda liked to spend some time alone with her.

Well I head back for break tomorrow for christmas and we havent stopped talking. I brought up the idea of takin her to dinner or goin out on a couple dates and what not...and she has kinda been scared about the idea. Shes worried that now its more "official" and that there is more pressure since my buddy isnt there. I know she had a terrible ending to her last relationship so I've made sure to let her know I'm not gonna try to rush her, but id like to spend some time with her. She seems open to try it, but im worried it might be a little awkward. Shes just scared, she doesnt wanna rush into anything and I understand that....but wow.

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