What Makes A Man Sexy?

75 Traits That Make A Man Timelessly Sexy - How Many Do You Possess?

Sexiness changes throughout the years. Back in the '60s it was sexy to be chain-smoking and constantly drinking whiskey. Now, it's sexier to drink green juices and have six-pack abs. In five years, who the hell knows what socio-cultural shift will take place and flip sexiness on its head?

As a society, we’re constantly reevaluating what traits in men we think are appealing and what we find kinda gross. It can also be difficult to stay on top of sexiness trends. But fear not, fellow men! Through extensive life research I have compiled a list of 75 sexy things that will never go out of style in a man. With this list you’ll constantly be bring your A game to the dating scene or win back the affection of your bae.

You have nice things, but don’t feel the need to constantly brag about them.

You're not a racist.

You never raise your voice at someone in public. Unless, you know, you’re trying to get their attention and they’re running away.

You own at least one nice watch for special occasions.

You're kind to new people at work. You were the new guy, once.

You make sure the people you love feel valued.

You know your limits when it comes to drugs and alcohol.

You know that women are worth more than just their looks.

You wear deodorant.

You never call a woman a “slut.” Everyone should be able to enjoy sex.

You don't expect to be treated like a god just because you have a dick.

You're respectful of women. Even if they turn you down.

You wear clothes without stains, patches or holes.

You always cancel plans by a phone call. Not a text. Not a Facebook message. Not a goddamn carrier pigeon. A phone call.

You do your laundry each week.

You have life goals, even if you’re far from reaching them.

You're not helplessly terrified of commitment.

You always have a business card with you. You never know who you’re going to meet.

You know a craft — beyond the one that pays your bills.

You ask someone out on a date by calling them.

You have at least one nice bottle of liquor in your cabinet for special occasions. Ideally several.

You know that just because a guy is gay doesn't mean he's lusting for your D.

You treat homeless people and beggars with dignity and respect.

In addition to the above, you're kind to service industry workers in general. They’re not paid minimum wage to put up with your B.S.

You tell your significant other they’re beautiful regularly, even if they’re not looking their best.

You give a damn about the state your body is in.

You're man enough to walk away from a fight instead of instigating it.

You don't believe everything you read — you question the world in an insightful and informed way.

You carry cash on you, even though cards are “in.”

You brush your teeth twice a day.

You know how to slow dance, and you know how to get down in the club.

In the past few months, you've paid for someone else's meal, drink or ticket when they were short on cash.

You buy someone flowers — even if they say they’re “not into that sort of thing.”

You text back in a timely manner.

You pay your bills on time.

You offer to help your friends move.

You don't put down other people’s religions, even when they’re in direct competition with your beliefs.

You're accepting of trans people.

You watch emotional movies, and you're not afraid to cry during them, goddamn it.

You take care of your possessions.

You hold the door open for people, regardless of who they are or what they look like.

You understand the value of money and investments.

You believe that women should be paid equal to men for equal work.

You're kind to animals. Yes, even if you’re allergic.

You're passionate about your job.

You're a feminist — it's 2016 already, guy.

You respect your elders.

You clean up around the house regularly.

You tip service industry workers 20% like a god damn human being should.

You know which footwear is appropriate for where you're going and which footwear isn't. You don't wear flip-flops to a formal event.

You don't ask people for gas money when you drive them somewhere. That's just stingy.

You're not overly jealous.

You'll check in on a friend who's sick. Or could just use a visit.

You have a savings account.

You get your mom a Mother’s Day card and your dad a Father’s Day card.

You can do a handful of handyman things around the house. At least, you know how to change a lightbulb.

You’re proud of your friends’ successes instead of jealous.

You're always trying to improve yourself.

You're up to speed on the basics of what's going on in the world.

You ask someone for consent before you touch them… sexually or otherwise.

You don't flex for every single f*cking photo you take.

You wear glasses. For reading, for distance, or for the sun.

You own a bookshelf, and you read the books that are on it.

You know whether you’re a family man or not, and you don't string others along while you try to figure it out.

You don't spit on the sidewalk.

You know when to walk away from a relationship.

You're able to go out drinking without getting sh*t-faced.

You care about politics.

You've got a clean-shaven face and a well-groomed haircut.

You have conviction in your morals and beliefs.

You stand up for your friends and the ones you care about.

You don't publicly shame your ex, no matter how bad the break up was.

You don't cheat. Period.

You call your parents to see how they're doing before they have to call you.

You're not an asshole about someone else’s political beliefs, even when they're wrong.

So how many of these apply to you? And which traits do you think are missing? Let us know here.