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Part One: Rise Above the Status Quo in Children's Ministry Introduction: Are We Just Spinning Our Wheels? The state of the union in children's ministry shows that spiritual succession rates are in trouble if church leaders and children's ministry leaders stick with status quo methods. Chapter 1: Minding the Discipleship Gap The church dropout rates among college students point to the presence of a "discipleship gap" despite well-intended ministry methods and models (cf. Kinnaman, You Lost Me, 2011). Is this the result of cultural shifts, cowardly parenting, contentshallow resources, or careless church leaders? What leads to sustained commitment to long-term discipleship? Chapter 2: Pain Points in Today's Children's Ministry This chapter will open with a harried story of Dan's children's ministry experience as a recently hired associate pastor in a mid-sized church. Four programmatic pain points distract well-meaning children's ministry leaders from facilitating long-term discipleship: * Fatigued Leaders * Scarce Budgets * Complex Programs * Deficient Content Part Two: Relate Intentionally to Kids and Families Chapter 3: Jesus' Disruptive Approach to Discipleship This chapter will open with a snapshot story of Jesus disrupting His disciples' impression of greatness and the importance of childlike, not childish, faith (Mt. 18:1-6). Jesus modeled five discipleship invitations: * Jesus compellingly drew people into an unscripted adventure with God - discipleship marked by faith over formulas. * Jesus graciously challenged people to wrestle with messy faith in community - discipleship marked by relationship over regulations. * Jesus radically established unconventional community between the most unlikely people - discipleship marked by interdependence over independence. * Jesus wholeheartedly modeled God's revolutionary mission for the sake of this world - discipleship marked by the gospel over good principles. * Jesus humbly equipped people for a lifetime of dynamic discipleship - discipleship marked by individualized over institutionalized. Chapter 4: Draw Kids Into an Unscripted Adventure with God This chapter will open with a story about God using Mrs. Anderson in Dan's life as a disruptive disciple-maker. It will elaborate on his personal desire to fully engage with God's Word, the body of believers, and their children's ministry programs at a young age. It will highlight five techniques to invite them into a faith-guide, not formula-driven journey. * TALKING: Talk openly with kids about personal "life with God" stories * EXPLORING: Give kids opportunities to explore faithful Godfollowers in the Bible * SHARING: Encourage children to share what they are discovering about God * RESPONDING: Invite kids to respond to Christ for salvation by receiving God's gift of grace * CELEBRATING: Find creative ways to celebrate milestones while walking with God Chapter 5: Wrestle with Messy Faith Together Anchored in John 15:5, this chapter will address the discipleship tension between bearing spiritual fruit and abiding in relationship with Christ by building upon Jesus' "relationship over regulations" approach. Children's ministry leaders and volunteers can create sacred space for kids, parents and leaders to wrestle with messy faith issues by: * The power of "I'm here" (presence) - it's ok to be yourself * The power of "I don't know" (humility) - it's ok to ask tough questions * The power of "We're in this together" (empathy) - it's ok to lean on each other Chapter 6: Build Unconventional Community with Families The practical principles in this chapter will be rooted in varied Bible passages (John 19:26-27; Acts 2:42-47; Galatians 6:10) that demonstrate that the church becomes "extended family" for all disciples. Children, whether they are part of healthy nuclear families or casualties of extremely dysfunctional homes, must experience discipleship in relationship with biological an

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This is perhaps the most sobering and inspiring book on children's ministry to date. An essential read for anyone working with children in the church today. -- Gary M. Burge, , professor of New Testament, Wheaton College Jesus Christ has called us to make disciples who will mature in the Christian faith and reproduce their kind. Dan understands that children and youth comprise a fertile field where we can work. -- Lyle W. Dorsett, , Billy Graham Professor of Evangelism, Beeson Divinity School Dan is a voice to be reckoned with. The ideas he shares in this book will empower families and church leaders to transform our kids into lifelong disciple makers. -- Steve Carter, , teaching pastor, Willow Creek Community church; author, This Invitational Life Amid all the stories about young people leaving the church, this book offers great encouragement for revitalizing the formation of the young. -- Vincent Bacote, , Associate Professor of Theology, Wheaton College Dan has it right. His observations and practical advice can help church ministry leaders immeasurably. -- Jack D. Eggar, , president/CEO, Awana Dan reminds us that real spiritual growth happens through relationships, and gives practical help and direction on how to realign ministries to this mission. -- Mindy Stoms, , Promiseland director, Willow Creek Community Church Dan does an excellent job of saying what most of us are thinking, but then takes it a step farther with compellingly clear guidance to implement effective plans in our ministry. -- Heidi M. Hensley, , children's pastor, Bayside Church

About the Author

Dan Lovaglia is director of leadership development at Awana. With 15 years of pastoral ministry experience, he is committed to intentionally equipping kids, families, and ministry leaders to know, love, and serve Christ. Dan holds a bachelor's degree in youth ministry from Moody Bible Institute and a Master's degree in evangelism and spiritual formation from Wheaton College. He most recently served as discipleship teaching and content director at Willow Creek Community Church. Dan and his wife, Kate, live in the northwest suburbs of Chicago with their two teenage sons.