Archive for December, 2012

Do you want to help set your child up for a positive and healthy new year? Join the International Parents and Professionals Community December support call with guest expert Deborah McNelis, an Early Brain Development Specialist, on the topic of “Brain Insights: Make a Positive Difference for Children!”

Our next monthly International Parents & Professionals Community (IPPC) Guest Faculty Call is Tuesday, December 18th on this call Deborah will share practical and important information that can shape your child’s brain!

The brain is greatly impacted by experiences. With the realizations you gain through this presentation you will learn eye opening ways to have a positive impact on behavior, moods and learning…even during busy every day life!

On this call you’ll discover:

The impact of the early years

What “out of control” behavior means

How important consistent nurturing relationships are

The importance of play for optimal brain development

How nutrition impacts behavior and learning

How to fit healthy brain development into your schedule with practical strategies for busy families.

I adore Deborah and always learn something new when we talk. I can’t wait to share her pioneering and practical brain insights with our community! If you’re not a member of our community you can learn more here.

The holidays are a very exciting and stimulating time of year, and regardless of your age you may find yourself overwhelmed, exhausted, and ready to meltdown from stress. Now imagine you are a child with limited control and resources to express and manage your stress. No wonder this time of the year can be overwhelming for kids and adults alike! Here are 4 ways to prevent holiday tantrums and meltdowns at any age:

Overstimulation is… overstimulating! Running around from store to store and from activity to activity is exhausting for everyone, especially children who are sensitive to the environment or have sensory issues. All those bright lights and loud stores are enough to unnerve anyone. Know your child’s limitations and don’t ask them to go beyond what they are capable of doing. Instead, arrange a play date, ask a relative to help out, have your spouse watch the kids as you go and take care of shopping or last minute details.

Kids don’t always have the words to tell you. When children are exhausted and overwhelmed they don’t always have the awareness or ability to let you know that they are at their limit. Heck, even as adults we can easily minimize our spouse/partner when they say that they have had enough and need a break…”Oh but there are a few more things we’ve GOT to get done”! Listen to your child, look at their body cues, and help them identify when they need a break. By helping your child understand and positively express their limits you can avoid the meltdowns and tantrums, especially the public ones that leave you wanting to sneak out of the store from embarrassment.

Get back to basics: Wacky schedules, too much sugar, not enough exercise will lead to mood dysreguation. Keep a daily schedule with regular bedtimes and use a whiteboard to add special events. Limit all those holiday sweets. A simple rule of 1 sweet a day can help diffuse the arguments over cookies and candy. If your child drinks soda, it may be time to choose a natural soda or limit the amount of soda. Clean out the cupboards of salty snacks, toss the ice cream and other sugars, and get outside and exercise. Head to the local YMCA, join a sport, or just get outside. Exercise helps reduce stress and regulate mood (and helps with anxiety and depression).

Pick and choose what’s important. What do you want your holiday memories to be like? If you are trying to pack everything holiday into 4 weeks you’ll be creating memories, for sure, but they may not be the memories you would like your child to remember!

CQ Playful Creative Activity:

Here’s a creative activity to help you choose what’s important for your family. Take a few minutes and some deep breaths then find some magazines (or just get paper and pen/pencils/markers). Choose a few words that reflect what you would like this holiday season to be remembered as. Write those words or cut the words out from magazines and paste onto paper. Then write down all of the things you believe you “should” do over the holidays on a separate piece of paper. Look at your list of things to do and remove activities that do not align with the words you desire to create. This can be an empowering activity for the whole family, to help your family choose what’s important (and not so much) for the holidays.

Set your child up for success by joining the International Parents & Professionals Community December support call with guest expert Deborah McNelis on the topic of “Brain Insights: Make a Positive Difference for Children!” You’ll get access to positive and practical strategies to help your child develop a healthy brain.