My post wasn't the first in the thread either, but it's getting the most heat.

I merely said I'd be surprised and disappointed if he wasn't.

I didn't say 'Yes he has a boyfriend, I think'

Heaven knows what the response would have been if I did. I suspect a lot more heated than they have been although I'd have said nothing different to the person whose post has gone completely ignored by everyone except me.

One person speculated he might be straight.

That's the difference.

You're getting the most heat as you're the one who is being unreasonable. Your're the one nit-picking at other peoples posts and trying to find homophobia when there is none.