In search of AFRICAN AMERICAN MALES ONLY, please! :) lol I'll fill this out soon, but just wanted to put this out there so everyone can see it upfront. ;)

To be clear, I no longer live in the Rochester area, but I spend a lot of time there. I am choosing to leave that as my city.

What I’m doing with my life

I'm living the life and enjoying the journey! Seriously, I spend most of my energy on my son, my family, my friends, and my career. Any energy left over with that is primarily spent on attending sporting events, screaming at the TV while watching sports, shopping, and reading.

I’m really good at

My mom always told me I could do anything I put my mind to - she's right. I'm good at being a mother, my career, taking care of people, and sleeping.

The first things people usually notice about me

My hair or my smile

Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food

This is a difficult question. I'm a voracious reader - primarly fiction to break up all the heavy things I read at work. I enjoy movies but not horror movies. My favorites include Wizard of Oz, Love Actually, Friday, and Pitch Perfect. I like hip hop, rap (mostly old school plus Jay-Z), old soul, neo soul, and Top 40. I am not an adventurous eater...

I'm usually pretty open about me, my life etc, but you'll have to get to know me before I share truly private things.

You should message me if

You should message me if you are an African-American male who is driven, focused and respectful. I'm looking for someone who is smart, preferably educated, witty, and talented. Someone willing to laugh and enjoy time spent with me and can handle time spent away from me. Someone interested in experiencing new things and having fun.