I started listening to bands like Rotting Christ, Cannibal Corpse, Napalm Death, Morbid Angel and Terrorizer when I was in 5th grade mostly because it sounded so cool and different than other music, not knowing anything about the lyrics'n stuff.
When I went to 7th grade, I started to play in a punk band but still listening to Black/Death. When I went to 9th grade Punk moved aside and I discovered new bands like Cradle Of Filth, Dark Throne, Mayhem, etc. This was in 1996-1997. I started to play in symphonic "Black Metal" band and that lasted few years and ended in disagreements. After that I had one project onto which I was a vocalist in, but we managed to lose our rehearsal place and that was that. After the turn of the millenium I started to listen more and more Hardcore and now I listen to pretty much everything.
But I have seasons when I listen to mostly BM & Crust and sometimes mostly Hardcore.
Here's some BM/DM I enjoy