I will wake up early,go downstairs and masturbate to porn,instead of trying to fuck my wife.I know I can get her to fuck me,but I rather jerk off.Every once in awhile will fuck her to keep her satisfied.She will also give me a handjob and when her hand gets tired,she tells me to take over.She'll watch as I Jerk myself ,then she'll squeeze my balls as I stroke my Cock.Only rule ,she likes to make it cum,and will finish me off.

Sounds a lot like my marriage! She'd rather jack me off than fuck. These days I actually prefer an edging self-masturbation session over fucking or a handjob. I definitely enjoy having my wife watch while I jerk off.

Cody you would think that men would be the viable alternative but unfortunately that's just not the case. Men are just as hard to get as women. That is if you aren't willing to be a cum dump, which is what most men want. Women find that out early.

Just like everything in life to much of a good thing becomes routine . I've never been in that situation so I cant say How I would react to my wife offering to help me cum. I have a friend who is in a similar position. He regularly turns down sex with his wife because he says its just to much work and very time consuming. I always tell him its worth the effort, if for no other reason, than keeping her from looking for someone who has time for her, see it all the time. Then the guy says to her why did you cheat? Completely oblivious to how she feels.

I rarely enjoy fucking... the guy would have to be
so super hot my type for me to enjoy sex with him.

I'm more inclined to masturbate, I can edge myself
for hours while holding back my load; and just revel
in my own pleasure threshold until I finally break it
and release my load.

In my adult lifetime experience, I've only had one
buddy who enjoyed sucking and edging me for a few hours
until I ejaculated. That was all he wanted with me,
and I never complained about it; I Loved it!
Too bad that buddy relationship was short-lived
for almost two years.

I often respond to ads on Doublelist, only to learn
that the partner just wants to get fucked right away.
I have needs, too; but lately I get hits from
total bottoms who are "Me Me Me". Fuck that shyit!
I'm not a "Me" person, I'm a WE person.
If WE don't click, then it's just Me and MY Dick.

Self-masturbation can take two forms that are quite different from each other. One is a "quicky", when a guy just wants an immediate-gratification orgasm. The other is "edging", when the guy floats on the verge of cumming for an extended period.

A partner can easily do the first type effectively. The second is much more difficult - if not impossible - for a partner to do as effectively as the guy can do for himself.

Guy is crazy. Admittedly, women are lousy at doing hand jobs. But jacking off is really just relief. I would much rather have my cock in a woman, than Jack off beside one. If she would volunteer to suck or fuck, my cock is all hers. I would even let her do the band job and enjoy spraying cum all over it she wants. A woman and my cock is all good.

I enjoy fucking my wife most of all. I also enjoy her masturbating my cock. We enjoy mutual masturbation as foreplay and on occasion, I like to jerk myself off.

Insofar as your BF pushing you away when he's jerking off, well, in a word, he's nuts. I'd far rather have you do the deed or push my penis in your soft pussy to cum.

However, there are times when no one knows how to jerk a man's cock off better than he. So don't be offended when he wants to jack off himself. I'd suggest you lay next to him and masturbate yourself while enjoying watching him do the same.

I do this sometimes when I'm super horny and your bf may do it for the same reason. It's nothing personal. I've even jerked off after having my way with two girls. Why? Because after they were all fucked out I was still horny and needed to cum one more time. Honestly, don't worry about it. Just offer to suck him off or lick his balls and taint while he's jerking off. It's the least you can do