tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15229872.post4695631517087035530..comments2014-03-31T13:16:06.066-05:00Comments on Mirror Images of Myself: Maybe You are RightCarolinehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14476059033054104085noreply@blogger.comBlogger10125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15229872.post-78389168112511697762008-07-31T04:54:00.000-05:002008-07-31T04:54:00.000-05:00Wow! That is so terribly sad! I feel so bad for th...Wow! That is so terribly sad! I feel so bad for this man. I have known people who have been disfellowshipped and I understand what you mean about the isolation. I think more people need to understand what it must be like in the way you have described it - the bit about having to relearn everything because your whole life has been about being a Witness. I can see how it can have a huge impact and it doesn't seem like a very caring process - the whole disfellowshiping thing. <BR/><BR/>Whatever the case, you have so much to be proud of because it takes an enormous amount of courage to live life on your own terms, as you have done. You are amazing for having the strength to do that. Congrats! xxFrancescahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08354018733674437364noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15229872.post-60849273616131599462008-07-29T21:02:00.000-05:002008-07-29T21:02:00.000-05:00It will be very interesting if it comes out that t...It will be very interesting if it comes out that this man was disfellowshipped...I'll bet you're right, though.Sandrahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00114323395915699960noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15229872.post-24673820175420507242008-07-29T16:41:00.000-05:002008-07-29T16:41:00.000-05:00Yes ma'am just remember you are strong... strong e...Yes ma'am just remember you are strong... strong enough to bend as well. I feel for that poor man also.Monogram Queenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00201245389134780751noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15229872.post-29309999386111965152008-07-29T14:53:00.000-05:002008-07-29T14:53:00.000-05:00First time poster here....I spent 30 years of my l...First time poster here....<BR/><BR/>I spent 30 years of my life in a religion that many have referred to as "cult-ish" and "fanatic". Two weeks before my 30th birthday I was excommunicated and stripped of my membership for being a homosexual. I wasn't breaking any church rules, I just was not willing to say that I was wrong or that I would change. I can relate to this so closely - and the night after my excommunication was one of the darkest of my life. I understand why this gentleman took his life and I am deeply saddened by his loss - even though he is a stranger to me. <BR/><BR/>One thing I learned from my experience is that I spent my life feeling like I "had" to be good and once I left the church I was good because I "wanted" to be. I could write a novel about the evils of organized religion, but I'll spare all of your readers. Just know that this post really touched me on a personal level and I am thinking of both the man who took his life, his family - your journey and all others out there in similar situations. Thanks for listening.kyky7079https://www.blogger.com/profile/03500266936155643746noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15229872.post-42219721423965543392008-07-29T04:41:00.000-05:002008-07-29T04:41:00.000-05:00What Fern said. Organized religion sucks.What Fern said. <BR/>Organized religion sucks.Juliehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01307762555108511788noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15229872.post-58428346143932247042008-07-28T23:48:00.000-05:002008-07-28T23:48:00.000-05:00Oh wow. This post felt like a punch in the gut to ...Oh wow. This post felt like a punch in the gut to me. How awful for that man and his family. It breaks my heart to think of that isolation but I know it well.<BR/><BR/>I understand what you're saying about still learning stuff that most people learned when they were much younger. I'm doing that too.tracihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10951176913462356992noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15229872.post-56713619968292426182008-07-28T22:39:00.000-05:002008-07-28T22:39:00.000-05:00You are. And they are wrong to make anyone feel so...You are. And they are wrong to make anyone feel so isolated and apart.Fernhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08385300459967135657noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15229872.post-86405314620115906922008-07-28T21:34:00.000-05:002008-07-28T21:34:00.000-05:00You are a strong woman but I think we are all stro...You are a strong woman but I think we are all stronger then we give ourselves credit for.redfrog27noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15229872.post-50414991584606034152008-07-28T21:17:00.000-05:002008-07-28T21:17:00.000-05:00I am very sorry for the sadness that this man must...I am very sorry for the sadness that this man must have felt. It is a terrible thing to make people feel so alone and empty. I am glad you found other things to fill you up.Renaissance Womanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16958178544581250567noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15229872.post-19256956126003005152008-07-28T20:49:00.000-05:002008-07-28T20:49:00.000-05:00you are - more than you will ever realizeyou are - more than you will ever realizeCheekyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18141415238972042869noreply@blogger.com