i got 3 kids now and i don't want to get pregnant anymore. the last time i took pills, i still got pregnant with my 3rd kid and it was of course unplanned. what can you suggest any natural birth control methods out there?

For your safety, it's best to consult your doctor and ask for a contraceptive pill that is good and fits for you to take. You cannot just take any kinds of birth control pills..if it works for the others..it might not work best for you. So, to be sure, just have proper consultation first with your doctor.

not having sexual intercourse at all? abstinence as they may say but it's kind of not that a good one to hear especially for married couples. but of course a couple may plan to practice abstinence from sexual activity for some specific time.