i loved the part about the hair touching! just this very morning my daughter told me that a friend of hers irritated her.

daughter: so i slicked back my hair really tight in a ponytail but wore the back of it out and when i saw ashley she said, "HI!!!!" and rubbed her hands back and forth on my head...not the part that was out but the slicked back part.
(the look on my daughter's face was like total horror, like why would any sane person do that?)

me: oh, she's white, she doesn't know. for her if you mess up her hair she can just brush it back with her hands. she doesn't know you spent forever trying to get it just perfectly straight.

i loved the part about the hair touching! just this very morning my daughter told me that a friend of hers irritated her.

daughter: so i slicked back my hair really tight in a ponytail but wore the back of it out and when i saw ashley she said, "HI!!!!" and rubbed her hands back and forth on my head...not the part that was out but the slicked back part.
(the look on my daughter's face was like total horror, like why would any sane person do that?)

me: oh, she's white, she doesn't know. for her if you mess up her hair she can just brush it back with her hands. she doesn't know you spent forever trying to get it just perfectly straight.

Originally Posted by frau

LOL, I think the hair rule can be applied to most curlies as well. I hate hair touchers!

Hilarious! I liked the way the receptionist had trouble keeping a straight face.

(I hate it when people touch my hair, too. Sometimes I literally have to bite my tongue to keep from saying, "You're going to mess it up!" It's just so...intrusive.)

Originally Posted by ninja dog

I do too, but in my experience it's more likely to be a black person. It has happened to me--and then the woman pulled out her hand like "Oh! That's really your hair." I think she was expecting a weave.

Hilarious! I liked the way the receptionist had trouble keeping a straight face.

(I hate it when people touch my hair, too. Sometimes I literally have to bite my tongue to keep from saying, "You're going to mess it up!" It's just so...intrusive.)

Originally Posted by ninja dog

I do too, but in my experience it's more likely to be a black person. It has happened to me--and then the woman pulled out her hand like "Oh! That's really your hair." I think she was expecting a weave.

Originally Posted by gemini

thats happened to me before. not cool. and i usually do say, "cut it out youre going to mess up my hair!," as im bobbing and weaving trying to avoid their hand.

Hilarious! I liked the way the receptionist had trouble keeping a straight face.

(I hate it when people touch my hair, too. Sometimes I literally have to bite my tongue to keep from saying, "You're going to mess it up!" It's just so...intrusive.)

Originally Posted by ninja dog

I do too, but in my experience it's more likely to be a black person. It has happened to me--and then the woman pulled out her hand like "Oh! That's really your hair." I think she was expecting a weave.

Originally Posted by gemini

thats happened to me before. not cool. and i usually do say, "cut it out youre going to mess up my hair!," as im bobbing and weaving trying to avoid their hand.

Originally Posted by subbrock

She was too quick for me. We had just been introduced and the next thing I knew, her hand was knuckle deep in my hair.

I really do get wanting to touch people's hair, but at least get to know me, ask permission or buy me a drink first!

I do too, but in my experience it's more likely to be a black person. It has happened to me--and then the woman pulled out her hand like "Oh! That's really your hair." I think she was expecting a weave.

Originally Posted by gemini

thats happened to me before. not cool. and i usually do say, "cut it out youre going to mess up my hair!," as im bobbing and weaving trying to avoid their hand.

Originally Posted by subbrock

She was too quick for me. We had just been introduced and the next thing I knew, her hand was knuckle deep in my hair.

I really do get wanting to touch people's hair, but at least get to know me, ask permission or buy me a drink first!

Originally Posted by gemini

Damn, that would piss me off!! I don't get it at all..I don't even like bf touching my hair. Only if I know it's gonna get washed before being seen in public. I'm not sure why anyone would want to touch my hair anyways, it's not like it's soft, silky and u can put your hands through it..then I'd get it. Sorry for the guano....I haven't been able to watch the video yet, my soundcard on this computer isn't working for now.

I need a white friend. Male. Tall. Blond. Plenty of money. Good credit. Works with Wallstreet. Very familiar with computers(hacking). Willing to cosign. And Willing to loan(give) money.

Where is 'white friend finder' when you need one.

Originally Posted by Vagabond Davotchka

I need one of those friends, as well. I wouldn't care about the color.

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