As mind-bending as that statistic is, its implications are even more troubling.

When adults can’t articulate what they feel, they DO.

So when adults with limited vocabularies cannot give verbal expression to feelings of rage, grief, passion, and despair, they act out in unhealthy ways: drugs, violence, promiscuity, and self-destruction.

(By the way, this is why we believe funerals are such vitally important events at Good Shepherd — they provide space and language for grieving people to “feel” their feelings in healthy ways.)

So what will I do with this statistic that won’t leave my head?

I haven’t figured that out yet. It certainly gives insight into people’s behavior.

It also makes me ever-more committed to help young parents see that their children need a lot less screen-based entertainment and a lot more text-based interaction.