Ryan Phillippe ‘won’t be there,’ but their two children will play a ‘major role’ in the ceremony.

It may not be as big as the Royal Wedding, but we can’t wait to see Reese Witherspoonand Jim Toth tie the knot March 26! A source close to the nuptials tells RadarOnline.com that Reese, 35, will walk down the aisle at her Ojai, Calif., estate in a Monique Lhuillier gown, surrounded by “candles and flowers … in white and pastels.”

“It’s not going to be a traditional and big Hollywood wedding,” the source continues. It will be “intimate, private and quiet, with only Reese and Jim’s close friends and family.” And Reese’s ex-husband Ryan Phillippe definitely “won’t be there.”

No word yet on how the blushing bride will wear her hair, but we did spot her leaving a Beverly Hills salon March 21, sporting some lovely tresses that screamed “wedding” to us!

The big day is being planned by wedding-planner-to-the-stars Yifat Oren, who was also responsible for sending Charlie Sheen and Brooke Mueller down the aisle in 2008. Let’s hope the similarities end there.