How To Take The Fear Of Approaching Women
And CRUSH It Under Your Heel
Like A Bug.

And, on the next page, I want to explain one of the most painful
experiences a guy can go through when approaching women - and
how it can be completely avoided...

Carlos Xuma

Carlos Xuma Material:

Secrets of The Alpha Male <--**His Most Popular Intermediate Level Material**
Intermediate Level - It's time to learn the secrets of the Alpha Man - self-confidence to attract beautiful women & get all the girls you want.

How To Approach Women
Intermediate Level - Nervous? Don't be. Click here to learn how to approach women, how to talk to women and read their body language.

Power Social Skills
Advanced Level - Would you like to avoid people's games, connect more authentically with others, and get the social life you've always wanted...?

Alpha Lifestyle DVDs
Intermediate Level - This is the finishing touch you need to complete your Alpha Lifestyle and become a powerful Alpha Man. If you've been through all the other "pickup programs," maybe even a bootcamp, and you want to know how to make every area of your life a success with these principles, then this is the program you need.

Carlos Xuma - One question I'm asked quite a bit is how to find dating advice for men that is both practical and useful. There's a lot of stuff out there, and if you're not careful, you could get pulled into a bad philosophy.

Carlos Xuma - Some of you may be familiar with some Eastern school of thought on how energies are used in the human body. Chinese philosophies refer to it as Chi, and the energy itself can have both female and male (Yin and Yang) "flavors" to it.

Carlos Xuma - I didn't know it at the time, but I was reading the book that would RUIN my game with women... I stood at the checkout with this small red book by one of those self-help relationship gurus (I'm protecting the identity of the guilty party here... but it was a female author).

Carlos Xuma - Way back in 2001, when I first started giving dating tips for guys, I made it my priority to give guys the Truth about women and dating. Even if it meant that I was being "politically incorrect."

Carlos Xuma - As you read these, I want you to try something for me. No matter how 'obvious' what I might say seems, I want you to re-think your beliefs about them, and see if you are still, perhaps, working under the opposite belief in some way.

Carlos Xuma - Flirting with women is something that guys often feel uncomfortable doing. I've had many guys write to me to tell me that they were afraid they'd get arrested if they were seen flirting with women in a store or other establishment during the day.

Carlos Xuma - We want to stand out in a crowd. Every man wants to walk into a bar and have all the heads turn to look at him, and it IS possible. You just have to learn how to differentiate yourself from the rest.

Carlos Xuma - I was at the bus stop a couple weeks ago, and I saw a gal there who I had seen once before. She was young, attractive, blonde. I immediately saw some potential for conversation, so I just started talking to her as if I already knew her from somewhere else.

Carlos Xuma - One area that guys don't take advantage of enough is the power of smell with a woman. Scents and smells are very important to them, and it's been scientifically proven that women are much more sensitive than men to odors.

Carlos Xuma - In short, your posture is your overall status level with a woman. Your posture can range from total supplicating wimp on the left end of the scale, and hardcore self-interested jerk on the far right.

Carlos Xuma - Don't be in such a hurry to get into a relationship, guys. I just read an article on CNN.com, relating a survey that tracked 24,000 people and showed that marriage does NOT make you more happy. (Gee, we needed a survey for this?)

Carlos Xuma - "Tell me about your last relationship..." Those six words can strike fear into the heart of just about any man. The truth is that women LOVE to ask this question, and men HATE to answer it.

Carlos Xuma - Have you ever met someone that you felt was just really boring? Bland? Dull? It's interesting, because it's rarely about what a person HAS that adds up to their being boring; it's what they're MISSING. Personality...

Carlos Xuma - Have you ever met someone that you felt was just really boring? Bland? Dull? It's interesting, because it's rarely about what a person HAS that adds up to their being boring; it's what they're MISSING. Personality...

Carlos Xuma - You see, in order for a woman to feel attracted to you, she must believe that she is unique and special in some way to you. Different from the other 358 women you approached today. A woman has to feel UNIQUE.

Carlos Xuma - EVERY guy has a liability of some kind. Short. Bald. Chubby. Missing a tooth. Missing a leg. Whatever. You have to learn how to communicate your confidence THROUGH that liability, and at the same time not seem defensive, or like you're carrying around issues.

Carlos Xuma - The approaches will break down each situation into the essential ingredients. This isn't your usual "be confident and just ask her" advice. I'm going to give you specific goals, opportunities, dangers, approaches, and analytical details of each situation...

Carlos Xuma's Other Articles:

Carlos Xuma - It's the most intimidating question a guy can ask a woman, and one that I get asked about regularly. It feels like such a risky proposition, putting yourself out there for a woman's approval (or rejection.)

Carlos Xuma - I happened to watch the Jude Law movie "Alfie" the other night. While I can't recommend it based on its merits as a movie (especially if you have as little time as I do), I found the message in it to be very disturbing and worth noting.

Carlos Xuma - I recently came across someone who wrote a long article in a forum about how he felt that dating advice programs were scams. And that "You don't have to buy any advice to get better with women or to improve yourself."

Carlos Xuma - The news media tends to recycle its stories. The reality is that anything that is put out there "on the wire" is rarely NEW news. It's picked up and repeated without any real investigation or verification.

Carlos Xuma - I was thinking the other day about men's perceptions about women, and how we "figured out" what it is they're looking for. I wondered how men could have been so misled regarding this subject, and just where did it come from?

Carlos Xuma - I was talking the other day with a friend, (a fellow Alpha Male) and he was joking about the way boys grow up, drawing dicks on desks, and how they would write the notes to the girls to find out if they liked him or not...