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Sorry to hear both of your awful news ladies, hope you both get the strength and are able to try again I know it’s not easy esp after a miscarriage once you get that positive test your mind goes in to overdrive then all the plans and dreams you had for that wee baby are shattere, but your hurt will ease a little, sending big hugs to you both take care of yourselves

Your so right babydream it's so hard that even when it's a positive we can't enjoy it because we know too well that doesn't necessarily mean that will result with a baby and a lot of ppl don't understand why we don't get too excited at the positive result.

No havent had any scans every mc is diffrent and some times it takes longer for every ting to come out.last time it was quick gush of pink watery fluid then savk and clots a few hours later.this time i still havent had any clots or sack yet but i think i have ovulated yesterday some times your body absorbs it im not sick or any thing so il wait till my period and see what happens.how are you keeping?have you went for a follow up?

I know its awfull to miscarry as ive had 2 its much easyer to get a bfn.im sure you should be ik if you have alot of bleeding.hopefull your period should come back normal quick enough.miscarry is so commen and i dont know why it is sweeped under the carpet it should be talked about more so people can understand what to expect even for men as they are heart broken to and feel helpless as they have lost to.

I have always had it in the past, clinic have just changed their protocol to not give it now, but consultant prescribed it for me anyway as have had it in the past and it worked. It also thickens the lining and gets the womb more ready apparently.

Babydream, I have only just seen, I am so so sorry, sending you so much strength xxx

Oh right. I'll bear that in mind. My first cycle was private but we had to suspend fresh transfer and went for FET instead. It took ages for my linning to thicken so they had to up my dose of tablets and also put me on patches

Thanks dusky.i had no idea trigger would help thicken the lining.i had progenova and progestaone for that.what did you have for fet in the past and when did you take the trigger im intresred in asken to try it as i only get to 8mm lining with a struggel.

I have always had the pill, 3 weeks Buserelin injections, 4 Progynova tablets, Ovitrelle HCG trigger shot (a week before) and Cyclogest pessaries. They did a small study and it showed that it didn’t change pregnancy rates, but said it wasn’t conclusive as wasn’t a big research study. As it isn’t detrimental I just wanted to do it, as it worked before.

Have you ever had a scratch? I haven’t but have seen lots of positive stories of them, I was too late this time but if it doesn’t work then will be asking for one next time.

Have you tried acupuncture? I really believe it is good to get the blood flowing to the uterus. Acupuncturist says to keep your feet warm too, and a warm hottie on your back/tummy. And who knows what else but I try pomegranate juice, Brazil nuts, lots of protein, milk, eggs, chicken, advocado. Lots of warm foods to nourish the womb, chicken soup, stir fries etc xx

I have tryed the acupunture and reflexolagy and diden even get a bfp so not sure abour these for me i think their a waste of money which i could be saving towards another cycle.i got my bfps when just liven life as normal and not changeing any thing.i have wonderex anout the scratch but i thought it just helped with implantion.i am getti g bfps but i just miscarry at over 6 weeks i cant make it to my 7 week scan.im open to ideas form bfp to first scan.this seams to be my problem.

Yes going for the private and yes im with dr agbaje to.but i dont think it makes a differance when you get started again.if i waited for nhs it would have been nov for review then wait about 4 weeks to sign papers and get meds and start on day 21 its looken like once we oay for privateyour review is sooner but we wait longer after for the next appointment so it realy dosen make a differance we just end up paying money we dident need to.did you have a scan?has your period returned to normal?

I know it's crazy lol no scan, was on about 10 minutes said sorry to see us there as it hadn't worked explained fet a bit and that they would put one back again signed the papers and away we went lol yea my periods just carried on as normal, what about you x

Ive only done 1 fet and it was with gcrm im waiting to start my fet at rfc.i started down reg on day 18 for both fresh and frozen with gcrm ad ive a short cycle.i started on day 21 for fresh with rfc so i think it will be the same for frozen the start everybody on day 21 the nurse told me when i asked but i think its alot quicker my last frozen it was 4 weeks from starten meds to test day.

Girls I've just got my top of the list letter for fet I have to call wed to accept, does this work as fresh did where I'll call to accept then receive a letter in a week or so with appointment date which from what i can remember is usually a couple of weeks from the letter?

I'm going to call first thing wed so I will keep you posted on what' they say lol It's threw me a bit getting the top of list letter I wasn't expecting it so soon tbh! I only had the consultation on 26th September and signed to go on the list and the date on the letter is 23rd oct so that's not even a month??!!

Im so glad you posted i was in the wek after you an wasen expecting it so soon il probaly get mine in a week or so i was planing a hol for dec dont think thats gona happen now as id much prefear a baby.fingers crossed we both have a good christmas

I had my review appointment in June after a failed fresh ivf and was told it would be 3 months but I got my letter in August. I had to postpone cause I'd just started a new job and I didn't feel ready in myself to go through it all again. They said I'd get my letter again at the start of November so hopefully I'll be starting again soon and joining you all