Well, it was the Saturday before Christmas, when all through the cottage, not a creature was stirring, not even a kitten. The crops were hung by the chimney with care, in hope that someone who would use them would soon be there. The submissives were nestles all snug in their cages, while groans and moans of ecstasy was etched all the clearly on their well gagged faces.

I hope that Clement Clarke Moore doesn’t mind perverting the pureness and intent of this poem, but I thought it was somewhat fitting this close to Christmas. Speaking of Christmas, Has it not sneaked upon us? I was really thinking I had way to go and all of a sudden it’s less then a week to go. Luckily the shopping is mostly done.

Next week … well planning is good right, I may write a little bit in a more retrospective way, glancing back at the past year. Although; knowing that wordpress releases their blog statistics in the new year I may leave it until the third of January. We shall see how things turn out.

But first of all, I want to wish you all a very happy and wonderful Christmas. May you celebrate it in the way you want, with the persons you want and love close to you. I hope it will bring you lots of joy, good times and of course good food and drink.

Within BDSM fear is usually seen as a bad thing. After all, in a healthy and loving BDSM relationship, be that M/s or D/s or whatever form or name you give it, one should please their partner out of love and a desire to make the other person as happy as they can be. To act out of fear, would be a very unhealthy situation for a submissive to be in. As such the word fear in relationships hold a very negative definition.

However I have found that fear does not always need to be a negative thing but can either be healthy, or even down right exciting and arousing. If handed out in the right way, dealt with it in the right way, by the right person, fear can be a wonderful tool to a dominants arsenal of toys and a delicious feeling for a submissive to become overwhelmed in. I know that this sounds entirely paradoxical: How can you be attracted to fear, and how can fear have a place in a loving and trusting bdsm relationship?

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"There are two kinds of strengths: the strength to lead, and the strength to follow; the strength to control, and the strength yield. There are two kinds of power: the power to strip away another's soul bare, and the power to stand naked."