Saturday, March 14, 2009

Since welcoming our new addition, some things have changed quite a bit, others haven't changed at all. Weird how the things I thought would change, haven't and the ones I could have cared less about have changed.

As I've been tending to Tucker, I've taken a back seat to Carter's little world for a while. This is okay though because to see the bond that he and his Daddy have is something that is so dear to my heart. From the night we came home from the hospital it's almost like he has a new understanding of our life without us even explaining to him. He understands that I'm busy and that Travis is his main "go to" person now.

Watching these two truly does bless my heart. I have to give Travis major kudos for doing such a magnificent job with Carter. The night we came home was night two of a week long fever that Carter would run. Travis took on the responsibility of being "Mr. Mom" with no questions asked. I've been the one to get up with Carter since day one of his little life. I've always figured that since I stay home, it's more my 'job'. I'm so grateful and proud of how Travis has jumped right in and helped out. I knew he would but to see him do it with such patience, is pretty amazing.

Carter has always wanted to be Travis' shadow but he is literally his little three foot tall shadow now. Today, I watched them out the window as Travis was building a new shade for the cows, and Carter hung right with him until it was time to come in for lunch. Keep in mind now, Travis is out there on a tractor with six HUGE poles trying to get them set in the ground, while tending to a three year old on the tractor. Dangerous, yes... but I trust him to take the utmost care of my little ones! :) Not the first grumble, or harsh word has come from his mouth. He's just taken little Carter under his wings and off they go.

This is such a blessing to see a father that is so involved in the life of his children. I have always known that Travis would be a good Daddy, but to watch him is far more precious to see then I ever dreamed. A mother couldn't ask for more then to have a father that loves the life he has, and isn't ashamed to tell others how his children have changed his life.

As I type this, I'm watching him outside mowing the lawn and Carter chasing him while driving his John Deere Gator. Both are smiling, and they have no idea I'm watching and smiling too!!!

I love you Travis. I thank you for everything that you do for us as a family. You are my rock,my and my very best friend. I thank God every day for sending you into my life and allowing my children to have such an amazing role model for a Dad!!!

2 comments:

Girl...that was so special...that is the first thing I said when we pulled up to your gate last weekend and seen Carter on Travis' heels...what a BOND those two guys have?!?! I can't wait for that, myself! I enjoyed our visit..next time..I'll give ya a better head's up.:) Love ya.

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I am a wife & mother. My husband is Travis and we have two beautiful boys, Carter and Tucker, that bring us more joy than we ever dreamed possible!These three consume my life and I am so grateful that God has allowed me to be a part of their lives. Travis is an amazing husband. He deals with my moody self with no complaints! Carter is a loving, happy, and on the go six year old. He makes us smile regardless of the situation. Tucker is our shy guy, but don't let the shyness fool you he's a firecracker underneath! His giggle is contagious, his eyes sparkle, and he gives the sweetest kisses! My family is pretty much my life, all the other stuff are extra blessings. I started this blog as a reminder to myself the days I wish to remember.

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I started blogging in April of 2008. I wasn't really sure of what I was doing when I started this whole thing or whether or not I'd even stick with it. Looking back over the past year, I am so grateful that I jotted down the little memories that make up our life. The days pass so quickly I don't want to forget the funny little things that my children say or the moments that brought smiles to my face, or the bumps in the road that made my faith stronger. Blogging has become a part of my routine. I enjoy looking back and reading things that happened weeks back, and also sharing what's going on in our lives with my family & friends.

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I thank God for my husband, Travis, each and every day. I love the way he puts up with my quirky ways and loves me regardless. He is a true blessing, and my life would not be complete without him. I LOVE YOU TRAV!

Our little cowboy

My oldest son, Carter. Six years old and full of energy and spunk. Each day is bright and fresh with this child, full of questions and a little heart that over flows with love. He's funny, sweet, and brings more smiles to my life then I ever dreamed possible!!! I LOVE YOU MORE CARTER!!!

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My little Tucker, a.k.a Tucker Bear, is such a little firecracker!! He is shy at times but when it's just us at home, expect the unexpected!!! He loves to sing. He loves to do whatever his Daddy and brother are doing. His eyes sparkle like stars and he gives the sweetest kisses. He's the life of the party, too! Twinkle, twinkle... I love you!