Tuesday, December 9, 2014

For the 2014 Holiday Season, I have posted the dream gifts that I would receive from my true love. These were posted one day at a time before Christmas 2014, following the Twelve Days of Christmas formula. Please feel free to be my true love for a day during any season, and buy me one or more of the featured gifts.

(Photo Source: Various Facebook Pages)

The iconic American Cowboy is my favorite costume for the exotic male dancer. There is just something about the hat and the boots that pushes all my buttons. So, it comes as no surprise that I might want 12 of my very own cowboy dancers for Christmas. The above male dancers were found mostly in Texas but I did slip one in from Kansas City, MO. Some dance specifically for the ladies only, but that's ok, there are plenty to go around. I invite you to take a ride in the saddle, tug on the reins, and stop by their watering hole for a whiskey or two. Below is a list of online ranches where they can be found.

My philosophy about Las Vegas is... "what happens in Vegas, gets told to everyone!" I mean, I have so much fun in Vegas so why shouldn't I talk about it! And if you go to Share Nightclub, you're going to have plenty to talk about. First and foremost, all the eye candy! If I was a betting man, I'd say that someone at Share is a size Queen. Have you seen the size of some of those man parts? The fabric on their underwear is stretched to the breaking point. And I for one am truly grateful! Thank you size Queen! I'm ready for a trip to Vegas and a stay of eleven nights, particularly if many of them are spent at Share.

The Corner Pocket in the French Quarter of New Orleans is the kind of place you wouldn't take your mother to. Well, I wouldn't take mine anyway. If she walked in and saw those scantily clad boys on the bar, she might have a heart attack. And then if they started one of their wet underwear contest, I would probably have to pick her up off the floor. But that's ok, for what I have in my dirty mind, I don't want Mama to be there anyway. ****Evil Grin*** And all that filthy mental playtime brought to life, is what I want for Christmas this year!

(Photo Source: various)

In 2014, I had the pleasure of getting up close and personal and tipping each of the male dancers above. You probably never have this happen but each of them has cauased a naughty thought to pop in my head once or twice since. They are some of my favorites. Below I've listed where you can find them for your own naughty thoughts.TOP ROW (left to right): Jake, Men of Skin and Andrew Christian model, Kansas City ~ Troy, X-room, Springfield, MA ~ Carson, Men Of Skin, Kansas City. MIDDLE ROW (left to right): Zach, JM Productions, Columbus, OH ~ Gabe, X-Room, Springfield, MA ~ Reese, The Bamboo Lounge, Tulsa, OK. BOTTOM ROW (left to right): Houston, Boxers N Briefs, St. Louis ~ Hollis, Area 18, Tulsa, OK ~ Spencer, Stockbar, Montreal, QB.

The Floppy Rooster has risen to prominence in our eyes during the past year. As the "Only All Nude Gay Gentlemen's Lounge" in Miami, we've heard arousing stories, and have seen pics erected on Facebook that has caused a stir. For Christmas, Males In Motion is firmly hoping to see in person, at least 8 floppy roosters at this club in 2015.

I depend on the G Lounge to provide my weekly fix of hot male go-go dancer pics in New York City. The dancers are not shy and provide their photographers with ample opportunities to get the money shot, or the ass shot, or the bulge shot, or the... I have just one thing to say, "Thank You!" And if great photography is what you like, check out Edwin Pabon's limited prints on the walls.

For me, Bamboo Lounge in Tulsa, OK has breathed new life into the shadow dance. And of course, it doesn't hurt when a dancer has the ability to cast a large shadow between his legs. What's in the stars for the Bamboo Lounge? All I can say is that I know what the stars are covering in the images above. "Star light, Star bright, first star I see tonight. Wish I may, Wish I might. Have the wish I wish tonight!" Click here and read my recent review of the club.

Consistently sexy! I have been keeping an eye on these guys for years! Their Facebook posts keep my wall hot as fire! If you live in Southern California head to San Diego and see the boys at one of the venues where they perform. They pop up in other areas of SoCal as well. I'll toss those five golden rings if I can have five global males.

The Men Of Skin are home-based in Kansas City, MO. I have traveled to see them several times and in different locations. The guys have a customer oriented mentality that always keeps me coming back for more. You can find them every weekend at Missie B's in KC. There are more than four of them but I"ve included four of my favorites here as a Christmas wish. Like their Facebook page so you can catch their latest appearance. You'll find their pics featured in many of my blogs and shared online. Click here and read one of my reviews for Men Of Skin.

After several years of watching the nude male dancers online, I finally made it to Montreal this past summer and saw them in person. I love the club and those French Canadian accents. Make it a destination for one of your vacations. I can't wait to go back. Click here and read my review of Stockbar from this past summer.

The balls of Bryce bounce in many locations! You will find him dancing in New York, Massachusetts, Connecticut and other parts of the Northeast. Get to know him and you'll become one of his fans which he calls the "cockwatcherz". We recommend that you "follow the bouncing balls"!

Recently crowned "Mr. X-Room", Gabe moved to the top of my list this past year after a visit to X-Room in Springfield, MA. Yes, I have enjoyed a lap dance from Gabe. And I Want Another One!!! Click here and read my review of X-Room At Mardi Gras.

Advertisement:The Nude Male Dancers of Stockbar in Montreal Click the pic and see much more!(Photo Source: Stockbar ~ Montreal)

Saturday, December 6, 2014

I get excited when I learn that a club has added a night for exotic male dancers to their weekly line-up. It provides another opportunity for me to enjoy my favorite form of entertainment. Recently this happened at the Bamboo Lounge in Tulsa, OK. If you're not from the Tulsa area, you may be tempted to shrug and say "big deal". But let me give you a little additional information.

You see, Bamboo Lounge is a big deal and has earned my respect whether they have male dancers or not. The Bamboo Lounge was started in 1957, helping to pave the way for what the gay community of Tulsa enjoys today. They've been through the trial-by-fire and are still standing. I tip my hat and my dirty martini to them and say "THANK YOU!" The very act of parking my car and freely walking into this bar will never be taken for granted. The early gay patrons to visit this bar, would have had a very different experience than we do today!

At the invitation of my good friend Craig, I stopped by for the "Thrust And Lust" Thursday. The evening involves several male dancers who go through a rotation first at the dancer pole, then move to the front dancer box, and then mingle with the customers.

Four of the dancers from the night's schedule, stopped by my table and thanked me for coming and made me feel welcome. Guys it matters... thanks. This was one of the best parts of my experience at the Bamboo Lounge...the interaction between customers and dancers.

Watching the dancers at the pole was as always, enjoyable for me. But as I said, interacting with the dancers, staff and patrons was what distinguished the Bamboo Lounge from many other bars and clubs I have visited. I enjoyed spending some time chatting with the dancer named Reese. Damien stopping by and sitting in my lap, well, I probably enjoyed that a bit too! And I'll add, the friendly bartender and customers will give me additional motivation to come back again...soon!

The shadow box was most definitely a highlight of my night. One of the Males In Motion mottos is "It's all about the tease!" The shadow box is the perfect demonstration of this motto. You see it but you don't see it.

You see it's shadow only but you know the real thing is there. And believe me...there was much about the real thing that was impressive. The tease of the shadow box will drive you crazy while keeping a smile on your face. You'll want to get a seat that gives you a clear and unobstructed view of the shadow box window.

There was a variety of dancer types in the night's rotation. So, if you prefer a specific body type, there is one to please. And hang around for later in the night and watch the Underwear contest. Anyone can participate and possibly win. And if you don't want to enter, you'll enjoy the eye candy.

If you live in the Tulsa area, I recommend the Bamboo Lounge, especially for Tuesday and Thursday nights when the boyz will be dancing. And when those boys perform in the shadow box, make sure once they step back out, tip to show your appreciation! If any of the readers want to take a shadow pic of your own, send it to me at mike@malesinmotion.com. Until next time, put a few extra dollars in the waistbands...the boyz deserve a little extra this time of year!

Advertisement:The Nude Male Dancers of Stockbar in Montreal Click the pic and see much more!(Photo Source: Stockbar ~ Montreal)

Saturday, November 29, 2014

As a photographer and promoter, I have made many mistakes in my career but hopefully they have served to improve my talent and ability to promote my clients. I try to learn from all the mistakes and improve each time. With eleven years experience in promoting exotic male dancers (and a few drag queens here and there), I feel I have a few tips and suggestions that might help others. I've put together eight in this blog that I feel are worth thinking about. (NOTE: The pics in this blog are some I have used to show samples of pics that I often share in social media. If I and others share, that equals more promotion.)

ONE: ALWAYS HAVE TWO SOCIAL MEDIA ACCOUNTS
If you're going to bitch, moan and complain on Facebook and other online social media outlets, then create two accounts. The first one will be your business account. Everything you post here should be positive. Only post the pics and videos where you look your best. You are promoting the product, you, and your potential employers want to see the best you that will help to represent their product or service. The friends you add to your circle on this account should be fans and business connections.

The second account is for you personally. Add your close friends and pour your soul out on it if you want, use it for therapy, vent, etc. But always keep the two separate. I have deleted male dancers from my friends list who spend most of their time, whining, crying and bitching. I don't want to read it, and I don't want to help promote them. There is enough negative in this world without my assisting in spreading it around.

TWO: DON'T CONFRONT THE HATERS, REMOVE THEM
There is no rule that says you have to keep a hater on your friends list. They will sap your energy and turn your focus from moving forward to trying to defend yourself. Remove them! You don't need them. If you acknowledge them, you are giving them power. You aren't losing a fan and you're keeping your career focused in the direction you are wanting it to go.
I get them from time to time. I simply remove and block them and move on.

THREE: DO NOT POST WHEN YOU ARE PHYSICALLY, MENTALLY OR EMOTIONALLY IMPAIRED
So, you had a few drinks at the bar...no problem, hope you had fun! But avoid posting on social media on your business account. You aren't feeling well. I hope you get to feeling better. But avoid posting on social media on your business account. You spent some time with friends and maybe involved yourself in a few recreational chemical experiences....I don't judge, be careful. But avoid posting on social media on your business account. Ok, hear this...you had a death in the family. I am truly sorry to hear this if it has happened to you. But avoid posting on social media on your business account. When you are physically, emotionally or mentally impaired, you tend to remove your filters and post things that do not promote you in a positive light. You may think me harsh, but I do not want to read about a death in your family when I am looking for a dancer for my club or event. I will think you are not emotionally up for the task of representing my interests. And if you are drunk or high, I am going to see you as trouble, and not someone I want to be paying to perform at my place of business.

FOUR: TAKE PICS WITH FANS/CUSTOMERS
The fans/customers are the folks with the tip money. You always want to appear friendly and open. By taking pics with other fans and customers, you promote the image that you are approachable. If you want to be a diva, go ahead, but I won't tip you and others will find someone else more friendly. I don't mean to burst your bubble, but there are literally hundreds of good looking, well built guys that are dancing in clubs and venues across North America. We'll be able to find one to replace you. On the other hand, if you have all of that, and are customer friendly, I'll be coming back for more, and if you wear a cowboy hat...

FIVE: AVOID SHARING TOO MUCH ABOUT YOUR PERSONAL LIFE
An exotic male dancer performs a service as part of a fantasy for customers and fans. Let them have their fantasies. It will result in better tips. Avoid shattering the fantasies by sharing too much of your personal life on your social media business account. Positive things to share are your work-out routines, diet, new underwear purchases (or costumes), dates and places you'll be performing, etc. Use your discretion. If you think it will help promote you, post it. Also, we hope it doesn't happen but in the case of a potential stalker, you don't want to give them too much personal information.

SIX: POST THE RIGHT PICS - CROPPED THE RIGHT WAY
Let's cut to the chase...if you want to be promoted online, post a pic that will be shared. Unless you have the most amazing face, arms, chest or abs, I'm most likely not going to share or repost your pic if you crop it at the waist. I want to see you in underwear that either presents your bulge or highlights your ass! As a fan I get a feeling of disappointment when I see a hot male dancer in a pic and nothing below the waist is shown. I understand that there are those times when posting that pic might get it reported, at least on Facebook. But when possible, I want to see 'the boys' and I want to see the ass. And if I don't, I'll probably keep scrolling and not give you that extra promotion by sharing your pic.

SEVEN: AVOID USING THE HIGH SCHOOL CLUB PICS FOR PROMOTION
I'm willing to admit that this is a personal pet peeve. By High School Club Pics, I am talking about the group pics where everyone is standing shoulder-to-shoulder. These pics remind me of when pics of clubs and organizations were taken for the high school yearbook. The problem with this type of pose is you place yourself in one of those "Which one is the hottest positions?" You see those pics posted on Facebook a lot where the question is asked, which would you rather sleep with? 1, 2 or 3? It's not a bad position to be in if you are the one being chosen each time. That is great promotion. But, if you are not going to be the one chosen, then you will decrease your promotional value. The fan/customer/potential employer would evaluate each dancer in the pic. They could determine that they like you, but they really wish they could have the one to your right, etc. When by yourself in a pic, there are no other dancers beside you for comparison. From an eye candy perspective, I like group pics of hot guys but for the individual male dancer, this type of pic is not always in your best promotional interest.

EIGHT: ALWAYS ANSWER AND REPLY
If you are going to ignore me, then I am going to ignore you. I do not respect a person who chooses not to reply to a message I have sent them. If I send you an email, message you on social media, call you on the phone, leave a voice mail, send you a snail mail letter...and there is some component or question in the message that asks for a reply, please be courteous enough to reply. When you choose not to reply, you are telling me that I am unimportant and it's ok to ignore me. Hey, this is most likely the case. I am not going to be important in the lives of most people. However, you are running a business. I am a potential customer. And in this case, I am a resource of promotion for your business, service, product, entertainment, etc. When someone ignores me once, I can rationalize that maybe they missed the message because it didn't make it to their inbox, or maybe they had so many messages, that it was overlooked, etc. I'll allow that once, but if I resend and I'm still ignored and I know I've sent it to the right place, then I am going to delete that person from my business activities.

I am using myself as the example here, but put the name of any person in your friends list in my place. What type of message are you sending by ignoring them? What potential door of opportunity are you closing by not sending a reply? Even if you aren't going to be able to do what they are asking, they will respect a response that says, "thank you for asking, but unfortunately at this time, I am unable to ...". Of course, always end that response with, please contact me in the future should a similar opportunity arise.

I hope all exotic male dancers realize that I write these blogs because I want them to be successful. I share tips and suggestions because I want the dancing men to continue dancing. I want to continue to enjoy my favorite form of entertainment. Until next time, promote your pretty self, post those pics, and I'll be sure and share them...as long as they show below the waist. And for you fans who have read this...don't forget to tip the boyz!!!

UPDATE: May 2017: Political Posts There is currently a super charged political environment in the United States. I recommend that you make no political posts on your business social media accounts. Although most of the people in your entertainment circle will most likely agree with your political positions, there are some who will not. Do not close any doors before you are given an opportunity to walk through them. And as is the very real and frequent response these days, you may say "Fuck You! I hate those $%$#*&@# people!" That's ok by me, I'm just looking out for your best business related interests. However, if you have a personal account, then I say post whatever the hell you want, and as often as you want. Just remember, you never know the exact political convictions of the gate keepers. And not all of them are of one viewpoint or another. Some of them are a mix depending on the issue.

Saturday, November 15, 2014

Music! It's important for the exotic male dancers whether it be a go-go boy, pole dancer, male stripper, male revue, etc. I won't pretend to be a DJ and make a play list. However, I can recommend to our DJs a few standards that I enjoy and hope they'll bring back from time to time, and "slip them in" (pun intended) their current play lists. These are tried and true songs that make the boys want to dance; make the fans want to tip; and causes everyone in the club to at least tap their foot, and often encourage them to stand up and shake their booty! I've listed several songs in this blog and my take on why they should be played below them. Take some time and enjoy!

Christina Aguilera, Lil' Kim, Mya, Pink, Missy - Lady Marmalade

How many non-French speakers have ever stopped to find out exactly what "Voulez vous coucher avec moir ce soir" means. If not, here you go, "Will you sleep with me tonight?" Of course, it is a song about a whore house. I mean, I have no problem watching a exotic male dancer wearing very little clothing (or none), dancing to a song that bascially ask if I want to sleep with him tonight. That's just me, of course, you probably have much higher moral standards than I do. And for the exotic male dancer's potential tips, this song can provide the right motivation.

Kylie Minoque - Timebomb

I am a Kylie Minoque fan! Most of her music is focused on the dance club environment. And this song is a perfect example! Dance like it is the last dance.

Justin Timberlake - Sexy Back

Ok, let's be real. To be an exotic male dancer, you've got to have at least a little confidence in yourself and your look. This song lets the male dancer move his body and show off a little. If he can dance, this song will let him showcase it. It's ok to have some attitude when dancing to JT.

Rihanna - S&M

Seriously, do we really need an explanation here? I don't think so.

George Michael - Freeek

Let's go back a few years and pull out George Michael's Freek. The beat keeps the boys moving. And the message is very clear. "...you've got yourself an ass with a mind of it's own, bring something to the pary!"

Ginuwine - Pony

I've blogged about this song before. And I have followed my own inspiration. If I am at a club/bar/event with exotic male dancers and this song is played and a male dancer is wearing at least a cowboy hat, boots are nice too... I have been known to tip every dollar in my pocket to that dancer. It's one of those songs and visual combinations that pushes all my buttons. So, male dancers, if I'm at your place of employment and you want a decent tip night. Take this hint! ;) NOTE: The original video is no longer available on you tube.

Katy Perry - Teenage Dream

I know, I know...this song was played to death when it came out. But Josh Kloss is so hot in it that I personally think it was played as much for him as the song. I still love the song as a celebration of youth! And as in many situations, the male dancers at a club/bar/event are going to be in their 20s so this song is perfect for them. Throw it in the mix now and then! Watch them go..go! "Let's go all the way tonight! No regrets..."

P!nk - Raise Your Glass

This song is for the fans. Sometimes you just want to celebrate who you are! This song works for the dancer too. So, raise your glass and have fun, while watching the boyz move! My glass will contain a dirty martini. That's my preferred mix for a successful night out! (NOTE: This video is on a you tube playlist so the songs will continue after this one is played.)

Ask your DJ to 'slip it in' ... you know, one of the recommended songs. Until next time, don't forget to tip the boyz! And if they are dancing to one of the songs that pushes all your buttons, tip them extra!

Monday, November 3, 2014

I'm one of the those strange people who really like the rain. I should probably move to Seattle, or better yet, London. In my area of the U.S. lately, it has been raining and raining and then raining again. All this rain has made me think about the phrase, "Make it rain!" Which of course is speaking about a stripper and a tipper. The tipper is motivated to start throwing down the cash or loosely dropping it to make it rain dollar bills.

This started me thinking about what does it take from a male stripper to make me want to make it rain for him. I've come up with eleven different things that all work together to make me start dropping the dollahs.

1 Physical attraction...yep, that is obvious. I mean, why else do we want to watch the dancing boys, except they make our eyes dance across their hot bodies and pretty faces. And in that order I might add... hot body first, then pretty face.

2 I get some attention. When the object of my attraction returns some attention in my direction, it makes a connection. This connection begins a stir that becomes more powerful than I can resist. I become "buttah". Yes, I'm easy. That fact has been established!

3 The connection has been made causing a fantasy to begin to play in my head. I hear myself thinking, "I wonder what I can get by with". I began a more thorough inspection of the male dancer and imagine what could be if my hands were allowed to roam free.

4 I revisit the dancer's body topography. The first stop on this physical tour is to check out some of the local landmarks. I visit the nether region to see if a tall timber has grown toward the sky. This is why his selection of underwear is so important. Please don't hide in the shadows, I want skin-tight-little-imagination-needed fit for each pair of underwear he chooses.

5 I do like a little definition. So, if the dancer makes it to the gym a few times each week, I will be most appreciative of that six pack, and muscle definition that is displayed in the chest, legs and thighs, back and arms. I'm not screaming to be a muscle worshipper because slim, lean and defined works perfectly well for me.

6 Would a quarter bounce off of that ass? If it does, my attention will be focused for the rest of his session. Yes, a tight bubble butt is a terrible thing to waste. So, I will have to find a way to show my appreciation through tipping, touching, rubbing, slapping. f... oops, sorry, I got carried away there.

7 The eyes have it. When I look into his eyes, I have a few things I like to see reflecting back at me. I like to see a sexy man who knows the game, likes to play the game, and knows how to play it. He's there to have fun, make some cash, and give the customers a good time. He can say it with his eyes. And in my opinion any exotic male dancer can have gorgeous eyes. If they work to make sure I'm having a good time.

8 It's time for the crazy eights. This can be confusing but there are several personality types that can get me going. I like the bad boy. The very fact that a guy is an exotic male dancer, automatically puts him in somewhat of a bad boy category. Add in a few tattoos, maybe some leather, then a fun but bad boy attitude, and I'm hooked. I also like the jock who works hard to make his body look great but then likes to be appreciated for the hard work that he has done. And I also like the cute boy next door who hasn't yet realized just how good looking he actually is.

9 I love creativity. I love creativity in the underwear chosen. I like creativity in any costumes that are selected from which to strip out of. I like masculine themes: military, sports, warriors, uniforms, leather and most definitely cowboys! So, if you put a little more effort in your presentation, I'm sure to show my appreciation with a money shower or two. I need to put in a disclaimer here. I do not enjoy an exotic male dancer who dresses and dances like he'd rather be a drag queen. My advice to them is to embrace your true self, leave the dancer pole and go buy that evening gown, wig, heels and makeup. Then sashay to your heart's desire.

10 I love being 'naughty'. If I"m allowed to do a little sightseeing and forbidden exploration, then I'll in return, cause a little isolated thunderstorm in his specific location. For instance, when the classic song "Stroke it, stroke it" was playing, I once had a male dancer tell me that I should do as the song said. And I happily obliged.

11 The final and most important reason to inspire me to make it rain, is a genuine customer service oriented personality. A male dancer is there to entertain the crowd. So, entertain me. Let me know you're glad I showed up as a revenue source for your bills. Tell me thank you when I make a deposit in your waistband and below. Stop by my seat after your session and I'll make another contribution from my chair.

I hear the thunder. I see the lightning. I'm forecasting rain showers in your region of the planet. I feel drums beating for the rain dance. Until next time, make it rain!