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Do your
parents hate the person you love?

Has it ever
happened to you that you love somebody and your parents just don’t like to
stand the sight of the person? You follow dating tips from friends and experts and leave no stones unturned to win the person you love and finally, when your parents show their resentment, you are left in dismay. Many a times, parents are logical with their
resentment, but sometimes, its just so unconvincing that you feel like running
away from your home. In any way, it is you who has to meet with anxiety. So,
isn’t there a solution to that? Isn’t there a way to prevent this from
happening or even make your parents like the person you love? Here are some tips
that will prove to be helpful if you want to win your parent’s approval.

The first
thing that you should keep in mind is that parents are not your enemies. If
they are saying that the person you like isn’t worthy enough for you, then they
must have had some good reasons to back that. Do remember that your parents
have seen more world than you and if they say that something is wrong with your
fiancé/fiancée, listen to what they have to say and think it over.

Be calm and
think about the person you love. Is it your real liking for the person or is it
just an infatuation? Is the boy committed to the relationship to the same
degree as you are? As a teenager in love, sometimes we fail to recognize the person
we love and eventually our relationship comes to an end. Being experienced with
love and life more than yourself, your parents could have foreseen your
tumultuous future if you hooked up with your mate. So, just give yourself some
time and try to see the actual human being in the person you’re in love with. If
your mate is really a great person and a good human being, you should try to
convince your parents, they would surely understand.

Are you
deeply in love with this person? Or is it just their popularity and charm that
attracts you? Or it could be so that you weren’t ready for love in the first
place but had to give in due to the pressure of friends and your mate.
Sometimes, your so called love only thrives to sustain your reputation. if your
relationship is more of a drama and show off, it might be actually hurting your
parents and even the person you call your lover. If that is the case, you
should pay heed to your parents’ words and put the relationship to an end.

But what if
you are truly in love with this person and your parents don’t like your seeing them?
What if this person is bound to be your soul mate? In that case, you should try
to talk your parents into accepting the person you love. Find out what they
don’t like about your relationship and convince them how you are going to make
things right. If your parents realize that you and your mate are deeply in love
and are committed to each other, they would surely give your relationship a
green signal.