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Random Thoughts about me :) - w4m 40yr (7436, Oakland, NJ)
This will be a long one so grab a cup of joe, put up your feet and read on...
These are just some random thoughts about me and who I am and what I like, nothing is ever written in stone.
I am a pretty, Recently turned 40 year old, single mom with 1 grown kid who lives with me. I am full figured woman, currently a size 12. If you're hung up on weight move on. I've lost 60 lbs and have been eating right and exercising. I have not smoked in over seven years and do not do drugs of any sort.
I always try to find the silver lining in life. Life is way to short to spend everyday miserable.
I am a loyal and loving friend and would do anything for the people I care about.
I believe family is very important. I will lovingly nag you to call your mom.
I am always at least 10 minutes late, Please love me in spite of that :)
I love to be held. My favorite body parts on a man is the whole arm, chest, shoulder region. I love to be wrapped up in your arms, feeling safe and loved.
I do not care for the club or meat market scene, I find it more enjoyable to find taverns, restaurants, pubs, or coffee houses with a relaxed atmosphere. I love to actually be able to hear you when you speak.
While I do enjoy going out, I also tend to be a homebody. Relaxing in my pj's with the paper and a cup of joe, blockbuster nights, playing board games, just lounging around reading a book or watching tv with you is just as enjoyable as going out.
I am capable of spending hours in a bookstore.
I love my dogs and I love to be able to take them with me whenever I can. If you want me to come over more often, Invite them too. And yes, they are yappy little buggers. :)
I tend to have a sarcastic sense of humor but not to the point that I'm mean or hurtful.
85% of the time I prefer plain old vanilla, sweet romantic love making. The other 15% I just need some good hard core, kinky, erotic f***ing ;)
I work way too much. I need a nap.
While I truly believe love knows no number I am more comfortable dating Men who are older than me. I tend to relate better with gentlemen who have plenty of life experience, so please be at least my age.
I do not require that the men I date be over six feet tall but I do prefer them to at least be taller than me. I am only 5'5'' so at least 5'7'' would be great.
I do not want to have any more children, If you have the desire to procreate at some point I am not the woman for you. It would be great if you have children already or no desire to have any. I've done the entire unwed broke single mom thing and while I love being a Mom and being with children the baby factory is closed :) Thank you for understanding.
I once went to Cancun with barely any money and had to eat at a Denny's almost every day there. Grey mashed potatoes are not that yummy. My Dad was not happy that he had to wire me money.
I love to laugh.
I have one child, three brothers, two dogs and a parakeet.
I like Margaritas and good Sangria.
I would greatly appreciate a good but simple Sangria recipe.
I like that you actually read this all. Thank you. xxxooo

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HOT SUMMER NIGHTS 43yr (Oakland, 7436, NJ , Hudson Valley)
The nights are nice, days are hot looking for someone to spice it up at night.. I have a pool lets swim at night not looking for some young stud tonight. He must be single, must be white and light in the night. Perhaps dinner, drinks and a playful night..
Looking not for a one night thing if married stay at home, if interstes then write me tonight

i don't want to need to impress you with a clever title. - w4m 34yr (7436, NJ, Bergen County)
I'm not looking for sex. I'm not looking for something typical.Rather, someone wholesome and mature. A soul that has found its way out of unhealthy and irresponsible dynamics.a clever man with charisma for life.As the fish moves through his watery world hebelieves his condition to be normal and complete. Hedoes not say to himself, "how did all this water gethere? " or " this water defines reality ", rather hejust goes about his day and notices those things whichare of interest to him such as the little fish helikes to eat and the big fish that like to eat him. Heis resigned to the belief that all of experience isdefined and contained by water.This too is true for the person that lives in thethick soup of commonly held beliefs and the socialstructure myth. As with the fish, this person does notask," how did all of this come to be? " or " thisstuff is defining my reality ", rather this personjust strives to achieve those aspects held in highregard by the collective agreement, noticing onlythose things that have personal relevance to thisperson. The quality of this persons life is measuredby how close he has come to achieving the rewards thatsociety tells us are the signs of success. The deeperaspects of what life offers are turned over to thosewho rush to promote ideas and beliefs that place theresponsibility of ones life in the hands of so calledexperts who's position of power is backed up by theirability to accumulate those signs of success.This model is so pervasive and alluring, and is sodeeply infused into the psyche that even those whoclaim to be on a different path and reject the mainstream model are still often trapped in tangent selfdiversions having exchanged the props of the world foralternative standards of success; though still boundto the failing energetic field of the unawakened selfI'd like someone who has the capacity to love the piece of divinity I represent, instead of falling in love with the concept of my ego.A fellow human being to explore the world with, in love and gratitude.I am tired of under-stimulation.I'm tired of mediocrity.Looking for a .real. connection, amidst so many unawakened people.There is a divine blueprint, and all stellar activity, all energy and all consciousness fit snugly in its geometry.Every electron and every minute of the day are intricately woven together in such a manner that there is an illusion of separation.Space-time is a hologram created by god, out of god.We are all pieces of the divine essence, who conceptualized conception, and duality, and entered the experience AS every possibility. As us. as rocks. as trees. as birds, angry old men, guns, war, children, bob dylan, art; stars, black holes, poop throwing monkeys, photosynthesis and symbiotic algae. . .and manifested itself in perfect timing, in every moment, in every way, in both directions of "time and space". .. so that it could experience itself.And if we are God experiencing God, If everyone is God, if there is no separation. . . . That's enough incentive for me to love myself and others, regardless of the illusion.Everything makes me happy. Life is . . . everything I dream it can be. Even though I am not in absolute control of all the circumstances that entangle me, I love each and every mistake, each and every sacred moment, and each and every single piece.....that connectsme toyou .The fact that we are tangled in the web of experience,isn't that enough to be grateful for?I'm a no bullshit lover, livin' in love.I have my demons but all is blessed.i'm an artista poetwith a uniqueset ofbrain processesI feast on the flavors of life with my soul's earnest tongue.if you digg it talk to me andI'll love you anyway.if you truly understand,come sweet me off my feet.

Looking for a SWM 23yr (7436, Oakland, New Jersey)
Let's try this again... I am looking for men that want's to date... I am not lookingo for a one night stand, none of that! I am simply looking for a SWM... I want to date someone that's in the age range of 25-28. I am looking for a supportive, financially dating for married nice, man to call my own...feel free to email me ok? if your lucky I will give you my number....
Please NO WEIRDO'S, ASSHOLES, MEGALOMANIACS, ETC.

would you like to get to know me (Oakland, New Jersey , Hudson Valley)
I am in my late 20's. I am single. I want to have fun this summer with someone. I am tired of being alone. I love movies and yes I love food from Mediterranean to Indian. I enjoy the outdoors. I also enjoy someone who is smart and funny. I prefer someone who is not balding with no reseeding hair lines. Taller than 5'8. I have a sense of humor. I like to keep myself updated with current events. I am on the chubbier side. I can guarantee I am one of a kind. Remember fat can go away with exercise, beauty stays forever. I am beautiful. I posted some pictures of plus size women so you can have an idea how I Look. I am 5'8 that is why I prefer milfs my height or taller. Send me a pic too it be nice. I am hispanic if you really have to know. If you do decide to respond to my ad, then please write about you. Have a wonderful day ahead of you.

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A single dad would be nice... 41yr (Oakland, 7436 , Bergen County)
I'm a single mom and thought it would be good to meet someone else that has kids and understands what single parenthood is like. If you are, maybe I'm for you. I don't want a FWB situation or just someone to date on occassion, I'm looking for something long term. If that's not what you're looking for, great, but this is what I want. Sooooo....if you're interested keep on reading.
I'm 41, divorced mom with 4 young kids. I work full time but if I won the lottery I would definitely stay home with my kids. I have my own house and car. I even have all my teeth . I'm on the short side, about 5'4 but with heels get all the way up to 5'8! I'm not a skinny girl but working my way back down to my old size 10, which I plan to reach by the Summer. I enjoy sports, especially the Bears, Hawks and Cubs. I love the outdoors but I'm not particularly fond of the cold. I come from a large family and I'm very close to them so I enjoy family time. I'm get along with my ex-husband and he's very involved in our kids lives, so I'm not looking for someone to replace him but eventually I would dating for married you to be a part of my kids life as well. So that's a little about me.
What am I looking for? I definitely need someone with a sense of humor. If you haven't at least cracked a smidgen of a smile reading this then I don't think I'm for you. If you've thought of sarcastic, smart-ass replies then hit me up, I bet we'd click! Age doesn't really matter as long as you can remember being alive when the Challenger exploded.
So what are you waiting for? Write me back...send a pic and I'll send one back....and don't forget my question above ;)