Arguments erupt across message boards (keyboard jockeys) and every guru
seems to be proclaiming that his way is the “true” and “only way.”

Or if not the “only way,” surely the best way.

But while others continually draw distinctions between styles and methods,
models and theories, I’ve been interested in something different:

Their Similarities!

Without getting too philosophical on you guys, it’s always seemed evident to me
the all of the theorizing and rationalizing is just that… rationalizing a process (seduction)
that is mostly emotional.

The truth is, there are guys out there killing it night after night with routine stacks
and canned lines out the ass.

* There are also guys out there killing it saying whatever the hell they want.
* There are guys dominating social circles.
* There are guys dominating day game.
* There are guys who don’t escalate physically and get laid.
* There are guys who practically maul the girl in public and get away with it.

No matter which way you cut it, we’ve reached a point as a community where if
you can name it, somebody’s out there doing it and making it work.

Unfortunately, that fact doesn’t help the guys NOT getting laid… because they’re
back at square one:

What Do I Need To Learn?

Well, here’s my meager attempt to give a starting point…

Over the last year or so, watching guys with such varying styles and specialties,
I was lucky enough to sit and watch literally hours upon hours of infield footage
as well as watch many of these guys in person night after night.

And at the end of the day, no matter what they were doing, or how they were
doing it, they all had THREE distinct qualities… all of them…

1. Rhythm

A lot is made about attraction and comfort, phase shifting, etc., etc., — whatever
you want to call it, the idea that you start at point A (usually opening) and progress
to point Z in some order.

What’s become abundantly clear to me is that pick up isn’t linear… it’s cyclical.
It has a rhythm. And EVERY guy who is good, no matter his style or method,
has this rhythm.

Sign ups are free to look around the site and get started on learning what I’m talking about.

I’ll be honest, theory DOES have a place in all of this, but at the end of the day,
pick up is a behavioral skill and you don’t learn behavioral skills by reading about them
(think martial arts — would you read a book about Muay Thai to get good at it?)

In the end, it’s about either getting out and DOING it yourself combined with SEEING it
being done by others who are better than you.

It’s no mistake that most of the top coaches in the industry got good by hanging out with guys better than them. It’s no mistake that some people pay thousands of dollars just to SEE some of this stuff done themselves.

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