tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7026450255174007652.post6335558118717003159..comments2015-03-31T14:39:45.756-07:00Comments on Betrayed Wives' Club: This might make you weep with joy...Ellehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13470499558973726796noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7026450255174007652.post-28254993183538399692011-05-10T08:07:24.213-07:002011-05-10T08:07:24.213-07:00It will come if you keep working towards it. I hon...It will come if you keep working towards it. I honestly thought I would never, EVER feel joy again. I had pretty much accepted that my task was to put in time until I died.<br />It was around that time that my counsellor put me on ADs, though I had resisted them. She maintains that chronic stress/anxiety can alter your brain chemistry...and that you can&#39;t &quot;will&quot; it back into health. I finally relented and I do think they made a difference.<br />And I do think it&#39;s also a matter of &quot;glass half-full/half-empty&quot;. Life will never be the same...there&#39;s no denying that. But my guess is there are still blessings in your life. By focussing on the hurt and not the joy, we often deprive ourselves of such pleasure.<br />Hang in there...it&#39;ll come.Who are we?http://www.blogger.com/profile/13470499558973726796noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7026450255174007652.post-61323812121564075472011-05-05T09:11:00.122-07:002011-05-05T09:11:00.122-07:00I&#39;m personally 14 months out from D-day and I ...I&#39;m personally 14 months out from D-day and I don&#39;t think I&#39;ve made such a positive statement. I&#39;ve always known I&#39;d carry on as happy as I could be on a day to day basis, but maybe I should get a little more positive about my life...HisAffair.OurMarriagehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02707869152720514610noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7026450255174007652.post-63840126723860573252011-05-03T03:13:11.381-07:002011-05-03T03:13:11.381-07:00Yeah... five months out from D-Day I am not quite ...Yeah... five months out from D-Day I am not quite ready for this conversation with Life but I am sure a little ways into the future I do see a light at the end of the tunnel, or at least a break in between tunnels. The other question to ask is &quot;what choice do we really have?&quot; It&#39;s either embrace life again and strive for happiness - alone or reconciled or in a new relationship - or die. And really, why should WE die when we are done unto? We deserve to hold that face and love it again.Janicenoreply@blogger.com