Challenge 19

Cosmo Challenge: Have him push you up against the wall in a narrow area, like a hallway, then have standing-up sex.

I've written in the past about how I have trouble fully enjoying any sort of sex position in which the guy has to hold me up. And some of you have shared that you're in the same boat as me. It's not that I think they can't hold me or I'm self-conscious about my weight or anything. It's just that I can't fully relax because I'm thinking about his muscles getting tired, if I might fall, etc. Well, ladies, I've found a way to enjoy standing-up-against-a-wall booty. It's a little solution I like to call Doggy Up Against a Wall.

D. and I discussed doing this challenge in the morning and all day I was thinking about the best place for us to do it. I don't have any narrow hallways and I'm luckier than many New Yorkers in that my bedroom is wider than my wingspan. So I chose the doorway to my bedroom.

And it ended up being ideal! I hereby declare that the doorway is the new bed! OK, maybe not, but it's definitely an untapped hot spot.

D. and I were already in bed when we started making out. (I'm all about the looong kissing sessions now.) As soon as we had removed each other's clothes, I led him to the door and opened it very quietly. Oh yeah, did I mention that my roommates were home? Yep. It was late and their doors were shut, and we kept the lights off. I figured that if anyone came out, we could stealthily dismount and return to bed unnoticed. Looking back, this was probably totally unrealistic, but what can I say? I guess I was in the mood for an extra challenge and thrill of potentially getting caught.

But back to the original challenge. We stood in the doorway and suddenly, remember that D. was supposed to push me up against it, I said, "D., push me up against the door." He obliged, though it definitely doesn't feel as animalistic when you have to prompt the guy to tap into his animal urges. Ah well. He did and we grinded against each other. Well, he grinded against me and I stood, pressed up against the doorway.

When it came time to move past foreplay and get to the main event, I have to admit I was slightly nervous. Having him hold me up against a wall is nerve-racking enough, but up against the narrow edge of the doorway while my roommates slept nearby was a whole other story. So I improvised. And thus was born Doggy Up Against a Wall.

I turned around so I was nearly flush against the doorway with one hand on either side of the wall and stuck my butt out. D. pulled at my hips so my body was basically forming a sideways V. He reached around and slipped a hand between my legs. I was already wet from the grinding, but he kept on keeping on with the foreplay. I love that he did that! Sometimes I feel like guys wait for the absolute first hint that our bodies are ready for penetration and go for it. There's something really nice about knowing that he didn't just want me to be ready, but to be dying for it.

And man, was I dying for it. D. brought me close to an orgasm–alternating rubbing my clitoris in slow, circular motions and inserting two fingers inside me while tugging at my nipples with his other hand. And they say men can't multi-task!

When my breathing got heavy and I was close to finishing, D. must have sensed it. He pulled his hands away and then pushed himself into me. But instead of sticking my butt out further so we were in a more typical doggy style position, I tried to flatten myself against the door.

Had there been less foreplay, I think it might have been uncomfortable, but it felt amazing! It was such a tight fit and each time D. pulled out and thrust in, I felt his tip all along the inside of me.

Then D. put his hands over mine so we were both supporting ourselves on either side of the wall and pushed his entire body against mine, thrusting very gently and shallowly. He hit my G-spot and I climaxed quickly. He followed and here's where my only complaint about this position comes in: when he finished, he rammed against me, pushing my groin and torso against the wood panel of the doorway. Uncomf. Next time, I'll be more prepared.

Have you ever done doggy standing almost straight up against a wall? Any tips for making it extra hot? And out of curiosity, on average how long does foreplay last for you and your guy?