Mother and elder sister of Stephanie Otobo, the alleged ex mistress of Apostle Johnson Suleman, the General Overseer of Omega Fire Ministries (OFM) Worldwide visited the church’s headquarters on Sunday to beg the cleric, a Facebook post by the church says.

Two days ago, a video surfaced online showing Stephanie’s mother telling some people that she wants the sex scandal to “die down”.

She said she has not seen her daughter for about three years, adding that she is calling on Apostle Suleman to forgive her daughter so that the whole issue will end.

She also said her daughter is not “normal”.

Stephanie, has however said that her mother was “arrested” and forced to make that statement. She recorded the video after arriving at her base in Canada.

In the post published on Facebook, the church said that Stephanie’s mother and sister attended its service on Sunday, March 26, 2017, asking that the cleric forgives Stephanie.

???? Naija women selling each other out since 1845. Coming to beg the man that used your daughter sexually then had her arrested and attempted to disgrace her. I am just done with you females in this country.

Tell me about it. Unfortunately nigerian women been selling each other out forever. Starting from Nigerian mothers who don’t believe their daughter was molested, sexually assaulted and raped especially when it’s a related uncle or their male friend even some cases with father with daughter incest situations. Then when religion is associated, it’s even worst. They will trust these questionable pastors than anybody else. Nigerians become very weak, coward when it comes to authority. Even if caught red handed, the daughter will be blamed she seduced a ‘man of God’. To nigerian women who will insult one another for being an “ashawo”.
The fact is Suleman committed Adultery. It doesn’t matter if it was a set up or this stephanie lady has mental illness. He should take accountability. His wife is just making a fool of herself.
When will Nigerian men take responsibility for their actions? When will Nigerian women stop allowing these men to get away with so much. Then you wonder why so many domestic violence, abuse, cheating, adultery go unaddressed. You wonder why men continue to see women as so weak who you can easily manipulate.

It seems that some Nigerians are shameless. At least when your lies are exposed you keep quiet in shame. Was it not your kind that argued that the truth of the matter be revealed. Now you have turned a family paftriot advising and trying to trick Stephanie’s mom to lie that she was forced to apologize. This woman apologized on behalf of her daughter and seems to have peace after the apology was accepted. You say you love daughter and mother; why don’t you want them to have peace. Stephanie has run back to Canada to pick her pieces. Maybe this will be an opportunity for her to repent. Leave them alone.

What you don’t know is that all attempts to defame Apostle Johnson Suleiman are efforts in futility. Many of those peddling the gossip will die before they have time to repent. There is no believer who knows the Apostle that will not condemn this stripper agent of the devil. We are in Canada and we have discovered who she is, a frustrated stripper. A stripper is “a shameless prostitute who can dance”. She has nothing to do with music than to strip and dance to entertain some drunk men staying away from their broken relationship at home. Strippers end the night with men who have spare cash to give them to continue the stripping in the man’s motel room. Don’t you see how uncomfortable this stripper is when you ask her what she does for a living. Do you believe she is a musician and she has no dental plan in Canada to take care of her dental formula. That is what she does in Canada. During bad times that business does not flourish, that is why she has taken to extortion. Read the News, 3 other Nigerians were caught who traveled from Canada to Nigeria to dupe some rich Nigerians. Did you watch this girl? If you command power and wealth like the Apostle, can you stand this girl’s teeth? How does this girl convince an honest person? I feel like crying that this girl makes sense to anybody who doesn’t want to be vicious. I’m in Canada, people are not gullible this way. Nigerians are also too smart to be played this way. Or are we saying we hate Apostle Johnson Suleiman? I can understand if you are jealous, he has a lot to jealous; but you are not even a pastor. Even a junior pastor should not jealous him, he is building and supporting pastors. Trust me General Overseers have serious reasons to beware of him. His brand of Ministry is similar to what New Generation Banks did to traditional banks in Nigeria then: you better upgrade or be overtaken. My next question is: apart from the devil and hunger, who is this girl working for; you know what, she will expose them.

Why would a Nigerian law firm that claims to fight for human rights accept to fight a man of God who is saving wretched people out of poverty. Because a man of God is involved, every garbage now makes sense. Someone was helping you and suddenly you want to destroy him because he changed his mind about marrying you. When has promise to marry become a court case for a ‘SAN’? What kind of lawyer would go out to destroy an international figure of Suleiman’s standard.? How many are like him in Nigeria. Wake up ‘SAN’. They say that when a warrior is destroyed in the homefront; when an international war brakes out those people will not have a capable soldier to lead the army. This shameless girl may have contacted a disease from indiscriminate sex, and may have been waiting to die anyway. What she needs is not a false lawyer but a good friend to help her to repent before she dies.

I feel so sad and ashamed that this is allowed to happen. Apostle Johnson Suleiman may never know who I am but he has inspired me beyond words. No human being can change my mind otherwise. On the other hand I see him like a century man. You see such once in a century. He should be protected to last long. Moreover, he has a mission: To transform the lives of 5 billion souls. Woe betide you if you are part of not letting this to happen: it were better that you were not born.

Sorry but all you just said is not relevant, considering the situation that is being scrutonized.
His church is probably the smallest of the peticostal churches in Nigeria: if compared to the mega churches we have in Nigeria. Remeber: Pride comes before downfall.
Where in Canada do you stay? and what gives you the right to generalise Nigerians?
I advise you be more concerned in making heaven if you are a Christian and forget about men. Regards

Indeed some Nigerians have fallen off the normal spectrum of shame into something much darker and degenerate. You’ve just spent all this time analysing this girl. she is no Angel and I don’t think she has set out to proclaim herself a saint. Dear Sherlock Holmes How about you lend some of your investigative talent to look into the affairs, financial/ personal of your beloved man of Wealth and Power.

No no Mama you don’t do this you don’t throw your daughter under the bus like this . Why not wait and see how the law suits go . Your daughter might be crazy she is still yours . A publicity stunt like this won’t save this man IF HE is guilty. Let the law courts do their thing please

some Nigerians will sell anyone out for a pastor.. abeg I don’t take the woman’s statement as anything.. she is a product of her time.. is it not d same nigerian women that protect their, pastors, husbands, brothers when their own daughters are molested?

Stephanie’s stories were riddled with holes. Very contradictory at best. Shameless girl bringing disgrace to her parents. I believe she is mentally unstable. No normal girl after having consensual sex will come on live TV/Press conference and detail graphically what happened in the bedroom. Mtcheeeew. Miss me with that annointed crap. Ya’all crucified the Labinjo/Davido chic yesterday. So, search yourself. Apostle Suleiman should answer to his wife for committing adultery and to his followers if he is guilty.

I guess this kind of case , mere human beings cannot be objective, but I guess the woman is already ashamed , due to the unnecessary attention on her family, so she would rather allow the ruler of the universe be the judge! She has just handed it over to God!!!

Her mother was saying the truth and you say she was bribed. some empty heads here are already condemning the mother. The claim that she came with her mother for marriage introduction has been punctured before it was his dad, when the man said the truth. she turned around and claimed it was with her mum. Now the mum is saying she has.not seen her for 3 years and never went with her in her imaginary marriage introduction..some idiots here are giving the shameless prostitute backing to defame …smh

Lol word people. You want him to admit by force.no be by force ohhh.it isnt by force to be guilty.Just because your dad or boyfriend or husband did you dirt doesnt mean all men are like dat ohhh.For people that are saying let the court process prove inocense or guilt.he isn’t in court.he is not sued for anything.she is the one granted bail for terrorism and blackmail charges.he didn’t arrest her the police did when she attempted to withdraw cash from the bank.so I don’t know how the courts verdict is going to affect him. Keyamo wrote him a later that he intends to sue for breaking marriage promise .the girl they fly up and down and received those bar from him yet her mumsi still the hustle roadside things.Yet u say make mumsi no beg.na she born pikin no be you. HAPPY BIRTHDAY APOSTLE.

Thank you Ggv,
Whenever I read or hear people say Suleiman is guilty or the court should be allowed to decide, all I do is laugh. Which court exactly? Nobody has sued Suleiman for anything.
Keyamo’s law firm is one of the most recognisable in Nigeria. It’s a law firm that can receive a complex brief and file a suit on behalf of its client within 24 hours. But somehow it has not filed one document against Suleiman before any court. Why? Most probably because this client has no case.
All they have done is to apply for Stephanie’s bail, splash photoshopped pictures on social media and organise a ‘world press conference’ where emphasis was placed on sex positions and size of manhood. Why again? Probably because the aim is to create a scasndal and blackmail; not to get justice as there was no injury in the first place.
All it takes to have one’s reputation ruined in the eyes of many Nigerians is to get anybody to say anything, however ridiculous, against such person’s character. Those Nigerians will believe. Subsequent deluge of contradictions will not change anything.
A marriage introduction was held in her father’s house with the father and all family members present, Nigerians believed. The father denied and all of sudden the introduction was now held in Suleiman’s office with the mother present; the mother denied as she had not seen her in years. Yet, those Nigerians still believe her. Worse still they claim the mother was bribed. If only they know what it would take a Nigerian mother to take a bribe to stand against her child, they would have waited to b e sure before making such outrageous claim.
As it is now, even if Stephanie herself comes out in flesh and and blood to recant all she said and exonerate Suleiman, those people will argue that she has received a bigger offer of bribe or hypnotised or threatened.
I’ve used the name Suleiman(without the title) in this comment to remind some us that anybody can be blackmailed, pastor or not. If you’re quick to believe such tale(s) fraught with inconsistencies, just be assured it could happen to you someday. Be prepared.

@rain dont mind them , bunch of oloshos, supporting one anothers..birds of the the same feather ..most of the females rhat comments here behaves like Stephanie otobo..I wont be supprised if Stephanie is a feminist

You are such a butthole and a bonehead. Were you there when he slept with her? Some people are just so gullible and stupid. Apostle Suleiman could be guilty but in the absence of credible, indicting evidence, we can only speculate. I’m not discrediting Stephnie’s story o, but I understand that a desperate person is capable of telling great lies. She hasn’t given us enough concrete evidence. If she claims the Apostle came to see her people for introduction, how comes they are disputing this claim. According to them, they haven’t seen her for three years. Stephnie’s story is just not adding up. Until you are sure about something, you must learn to take whatever you hear with a pinch of salt.

Dummy, don’t you get it? I’m neither supporting Apostle Suleiman nor Stephanie. I’m sitting on the fence until either of them proves beyond all reasonable doubt that the other is lying. I don’t want to cast aspersions on anyone’s character when I don’t have the slightest idea about who is guilty and who is not.

Yeah you sit on your fence “”lawyer don’t defend me”” because you and I bout know there is no smoke without fire. it’s obvious which side of the fence you’ll be falling when the wind blows you, you are already tilting dangerously LMAO CONTRARY DEFENSE ATTORNEY.

Some times I really wonder if people actually know Christ. Christ the one who chased out people turning his house into money laundering business Matthew 21:12. I think it’s high time people stop calling business houses churches. And the term ‘man of God’ it has being bastardised. Even the anti Christ can claim that title and be received by my – unfortunate to say, truly gullible Nigerians. I just look at these Buisness enterprises using Gods name in vain and shake my head. Why don’t people use their common sense. God isn’t coming down to point out the fox in sheep clothing when it has already been disrobed for all to see that it is indeed a fox.

Why exactly is this video on social media? Is the church saying the pastor is innocent? “I’m not understanding”…….. bcos her parents came out to deny her does it automatically mean she’s lying? Abeg let me face my work.

Dont you get it? She lied. This is not because the Suleiman is a pastor. Her stories are not straight. Her father denied her. Her mother says she has not seen her in 3 years.. Yet you people are fighting blindly. Even that foolish real nigerian is saying the mother was bribed. How? Such hypocrisy. Even Stephanie ran back to canada as her blackmail attempt failed. Women, stop supporting badly behaved women blindly just because they are women. and the accused is a pastor.

Remember you may have sister’s in your family or children now or in future. What you reap you sow. be careful not to accuse and insult because if your Pastor is not innocent and you are defending him; you will partake in the punishment one way or the other. Please if you are a Christian, focus on God not man.

I didnt call your name when i posted the comment. you do you, and i’ll do me……. let me ignore the fact that your comment was laced with a lot of snide comments and go straight to the point. Did the lady go after a random person??? NO. the poastor must “know” her on some level for her to even dare to disgrace him. I am a rational individual and my comments stem from deep thought about the whole issue so allow me be. thank you

So Stephanie has run away to Canada instead of providing hard evidence of her claims. Not a single shred of evidence. Let’s be careful to believe anything based on he said she said. The Bible says; he that judges a matter before hearing the whole matter, it shall become to him shame and folly. Let this matter with inconclusive claims die please. We are tired.

Can you imagine, warns about talking about man of “god”. What will happen sir. Will the person get arrested ?
I blame all the people giving him thite to buy cars for olosho’s.
This woman is fearful for her daughter and her families life. Stephanie is lieing about alot of things but they was an amorous relationship between those two.

It’s being confirmed that he gifts houses/ cars to nollywood peeps from tithes and offerings of the church. That is enough discrepancies for me. I don’t need stephs or any other ashawo evidence, they are ALL corrupt the defendant and accused. . I will not be attending that type of church. Shikena.

See utube he just Gifted 10 million Naira cash , a house and 26 cars. Plus luxury cars to his pastors, to his childhood friend, gifted for the simple fact that he is his childhood friend. People gone say this is right. He took credit for the gifts he didn’t say the church has decided to give he said I am giving out as a gift. It’s not a church people it’s a Buisness.

listen to the audio of this stephanies mum..she claims was manipulated and they made her afraid so she out of fear was asking for forgiveness and for the case to ‘die”and to release stephanie from the curse he put on her daughter and all that…she was traced to her house and followed to her market and people with guns ..

With all the stories outside now, Our apostle cannot be innocent. I mean, nobody came out and said pastor adeboye gave daniel a car or one iyabo. Imagine those trips she claimed they made together. Were they business partners? Apostle Sulaiman can as well give us a robust explanation later.

I pray God forgives our ignorance to see certain things clearly.
Where you there when they had their dealings or is stephaine your daughter,sister,wife,girlfriend or mother? How can you condemn without being 100% certain? even the bible warns us about judging others.
you who is judging ,are you purer or more holier ? check yourself and beg forgiveness from God.

this story is beyond pathetic. i don’t even care to know if the apostle’s tip went into the girl crevices. this whole sage is unbecoming of anyone that sits on a pulpit. time for him to call it quits, focus on his marriage and stop using God as a shield for his absurd predicament. y’all know that religions are manmade, right? this dude is fully exploiting your zeal for God. #fraud

You have said it all. Its baffling how we are condemning this man when we werent there with the two of dem.
May we nt be wrongly accused.
17yrs ago while in school. I had a friend I fell out with as a result of childhood competition of who was more intelligent academically. Our quarrels and unending competition to out do each other was well known in our circle then.
During our junior waec mock exams, she somehow came into possession of an exam paper we are yet to write and confided in her bunk mate, who is a friend to her seat mate. Her seat mate broke into her locker and leaked the paper we were to write d next day.
On d exam day it took our entire set, those who were privy to d leaked paper less than 35 mins to finish a 2 hrs exams and as such d bubble burst and investigation was launched.
It was discovered my friend was d originator of the leaked exam script but the question among d students was ,who broke into her desk?
Being dat alot of people had witnessed our many quarrels, her seat mate to cover her tracks quickly and conveniently nailed me as the suspect.
How did I know, she (my friends seat mate) came to me secretly to confess to me dat she was d one who broke into her seat mate locker but because she is her seat mate, she doesnt know how to own up to her. She begged me dat wen everything dies down she will personally report her self to her seat mate, my young self then, innocently nd foolishly believed her.
Trust me she never did tell the truth again and majority didnt believe me, when i finally talked, probably due to the quarrels we used to have. For the minority students and the whole of my teachers who trusted me, yet d damage had been done already and as such it did little or nothing to help.
After our jssc, our paths further got seperated as I went for pure science class (further maths class) and she went for Arts class.
This singular incident which happened when I was 12yrs, old cost me the friendship and reconciliation of this my friend as she rebuffed all attempts I made to settle things with her, through out d remainder of our fggc days ,and uptill now, dat we have grown. A house visit during our uni days, several un returned emails, until I gave up, and chosed to grow up and finally move on with my life.
We are both married with kids now and I had long ago released them both in forgiveness and stopped trying to reach out to her.

lol… At least he was working in Portiphar’s house….. But what could have brought Stephanie and Apostle together? Nobody can be blackmailed by a random person except there is an intent. If you are married, avoid chats with random person, but if you must, let your spouse be in the know maka Igwe ije nga…lol

This is a clear case of ‘bird in hand’with mama Stephanie. Who will she side with? Daughter who hasn’t been seen in 3 years and clearly not sending enough $$, or pastor who dashes house and car upandan? Mama is just being pragmatic, Hunger, the fear of apostle’s vengeance and intense external pressure wallopped maternal instincts this time around.
You think she left the church empty handed?

Anyway, Apostle still has A Lot to explain.
And the whole truth will still be exposed. The only winner here is his wife who can rest assured that he will be curtailing his amorous escapades for the foreseeable future.

New Living Translation
For the love of money is the root of all kinds of evil. And some people, craving money, have wandered from the true faith and pierced themselves with many sorrows.

English Standard Version
For the love of money is a root of all kinds of evils. It is through this craving that some have wandered away from the faith and pierced themselves with many pangs.
Stay clear from Any church that focuses on MONEY. It is NOT A CHURCH.
Beware Any man of God living above the means of his congregation (Christ did not have luxury items) Verse (Click for Chapter)
New International Version
Jesus answered, “If you want to be perfect, go, sell your possessions and give to the poor, and you will have treasure in heaven. Then come, follow me.”

New Living Translation
Jesus told him, “If you want to be perfect, go and sell all your possessions and give the money to the poor, and you will have treasure in heaven. Then come, follow me.”

English Standard Version
Jesus said to him, “If you would be perfect, go, sell what you possess and give to the poor, and you will have treasure in heaven; and come, follow me.”
Times are hard and we crave luxuries and vain things the church’s purposes is to help you find peace and joy beyond what worldly vanity can every give you. Hence the example of Christ being born in a manger and him living off charity when he walked the earth as man. Christ was humble: he washed feet of his disciples to show that a leader serves rather than be served.
I have not read anywhere in the bible were Christ set example of gifting luxury items to people. Him living like an earthly King. Christ taking credit for miracles.
Christ IS THE ARCHETYPAL MAN OF A LIVING GOD, THE SON OF GOD.

(Matthew 12:33-37; Luke 6:43-45)
Beware of false prophets. They come to you in sheep’s clothing, but inwardly they are ravenous wolves. 16By their fruit you will recognize them. Are grapes gathered from thornbushes, or figs from thistles? 17Likewise, every good tree bears good fruit, but a bad tree bears bad fruit. 18A good tree cannot bear bad fruit, and a bad tree cannot bear good fruit. 19Every tree that does not bear good fruit is cut down and thrown into the fire. 20So then, by their fruit you will recognize them.

21Not everyone who says to Me, ‘Lord, Lord,’ will enter the kingdom of heaven, but only he who does the will of My Father in heaven. 22Many will say to Me on that day, ‘Lord, Lord, did we not prophesy in Your name, and in Your name drive out demons and perform many miracles?’ 23Then I will tell them plainly, ‘I never knew you; depart from Me, you workers of lawlessness.’

Romans 11:8New King James Version (NKJV)

8 Just as it is written:

“God has given them a spirit of stupor,
Eyes that they should not see
And ears that they should not hear,
To this very day.”

This is beyond the accusations of a woman who feels betrayed and in her hurt (and not because of repentance ) wants to expose- her motives are QUESTIONABLE. FOR WHAT IF HER BLACKMAIL SUCCEEDED WOULD SHE STILL BE INSPIRED TO EXPOSE &REPENT? . It is beyond this woman, it is about the conduct of of people who claim to be men of god. We need to pay more attention to what is in the scriptures and not be SWAYED, DAZZLED AND HYPNOTISED BY THE PROMISE OF TEMPORARY SHINY THINGS OR CONFESSIONS LACED WITH ALTERIOR MOTIVE.

It is Obvious that if you stand for truth then you stand to be scandalized if these thus not happened then Apostle’s Calling stand to be challenged. Joseph in the Bible sold by his brothers let miss Otobo come out now with the names of those behind the scene

Mbonu Chris…it’s fine if some of you have decided to close your eyes to the truth God has revealed through this issue. Forget what Stephanie Otobo said for a minute and let’s focus on your Apostle’s utterances and attitude. The Bible says ‘by their fruits, we shall know them’. What fruit is Apostle producing? Take the veil off your eyes, remove the bias off your mind and analyze your Apostle’s fruit. Forget about all the cash gifts and cars he gives out with publicity posts to accompany it, even politicians do that to amass votes. And mind you, the fact that Adeboye, Kumuyi, Oyedepo, Olukoya and co don’t broadcast their giving doesn’t mean he’s the only generous pastor.

I wish Bella naija posted the video of the service, so you can hear the kind of words that proceeds from this man’s mouth.

In his words, ‘ if you watched the video( I.e Stephanie otobo’s videos) and you believed it,or contemplated believing it, or you’re bothered about it, knock your head, you know why I said you should knock your head, your brain must be unconscious, so knock your brain back to consciousness, or knock stupidity out of your head’.

Of course you can tell his members worship him, in their eyes, He is the Jesus of our time. So any little thing he says, they start screaming. In the usual manner, they start screaming when the mother was pleading for forgiveness. What will your Apostle say, ‘ Silence, keep quiet. If you don’t keep quiet,I will walk away’. (I can’t imagine being in church and my pastor is talking to the congregation like it’s him we came to worship).

So, while the woman was still talking, he goes on to cut her short and says’ Bye bye’ and starts to walk away. Please is that how your Apostle addresses people. Speaking like he holds the keys of life and death.

Your apostle also went on to stylishly shade the girl’s lawyer saying, he knows some dirty things about him too, but he wouldn’t divulge because how will he feel if his children reads such, he says he studied journalism abi mass communication and he too could have lashed him since he didn’t consider his children and family. Now, note that your apostle had earlier boasted that he never watched any of the videos or read the story, so how did he know the dirty things the lawyer said? He also insinuated that he didn’t know the girl, he said he heard one girl from Canada was saying some things. Please if he doesn’t know her, why did they earlier say she’s a prostitute who he was helping financially? Use the discernment God has given you nau.

Your apostle then goes on to threaten those who criticize men of God. In his words, anyone who criticizes or speaks against a man of God is cutting his life short. It is not our business whether he is fake or real. We are only allowed to criticize politicians but not men of God, according to him. He didn’t read the part of his Bible that says we should respect people in authority because God put them there. So to him, it’s ok for politicians to be criticized but men of God even if he’s a false prophet should be sheepishly followed.

You see, some of us who are not OFM members but respect your Apostle from afar, follow his services online. I recall that some months back, your Apostle stood on the pulpit and lashed T.B Joshua, he insinuated that Synagogue is not in their caliber because T.B Joshua did not stop someone from saying stuff against Idahosa and Adeboye. By that action, was he not criticizing a fellow man of God?
Please we are not fools, his own words are also inconsistent and laden with lies.

Please relay this message to your Apostle since he has many voltrons that have been released to the media to defend him, instead of , We love Jesus’, it is ‘We love Apostle Suleiman’. Tell him to go and look up Bishop Eddie Long and see how he ended. If he knows he has done anything wrong or has missed it along the way, he should repent, retrace his steps, stop this attempt to sway the public to his side and go on a retreat to seek God. Something is off about him. I used to follow his sermons as at last year and I can tell something has changed. He should forget all those sycophants around him that are pushing him further to destruction. If not, God forbid that in 2 years time, the kind of news wie’ll be reading won’t be good o. Abeg.

Is he not a human being? Doesn’t he has feelings? Who would keep smiling (even if he’s a saint) after such threat to his marriage, a reputation he has sacrificed many years to build…..even d people he has sacrificed so much to make happy, now questioned his character, while some had doubts about him? From even d way u sounded I know u won’t tolerate it one bit….. A song writer said ” life is easy when you’re on the mountain, but things change when you’re down in d valley ” u can only judge because you’re not d one being torn bits by bits by those who know u and those who don’t.

U know inferiority complex sometimes shows in our comment…… So because He’s ‘ wealthy and powerful’ that makes him guilty, that this girl’s story doesn’t add up, doesn’t matter anymore…..anyone can frame the popular pastor ….if he is holding a crusade in Washington and I live nearby I will attend….his passport will definitely show him coming into Washington that day, and mine will bear same record….asking him to produce his passport is no evidence, where did u meet? Which day? Where are d videos u claimed u have……….all I’m trying to say is that, are there fake men of God? Are they more than the true ones ? Yes…..are they all fake? No…. Is this a scam?Yeeeeeeeeeeeeeeessssssssssss! If u don’t believe that…..that’s ur problem…..but pray u don’t find yourself in same shoes…..where even your friends won’t believe you’re Innocent