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Selfish girlfriends who start fights right before you write a exam the next day at 9am and are trying to study? Especially when it is over something like be being against her going in a wet t-shirt contest tonight at the local meat shack bar? I view it as disrespectful to our relationship, and to me.

That turns into a massive fight that is all about her and how she should be able to do anything she wants with her body as long as its not sexual towards a specific guy other than me Where I said it low on the self respect scale and I am completely against her doing this. And she starts calling me controlling and shit

This thread is going to be full of I told you so's and dump her... but I'm trying to study and had to vent.

Fuckk how can she be so selfish to know that I have an exam tomorrow and not turn this into a huge shit fest. Its over now but what the fuck...

Selfish girlfriends who start fights right before you write a exam the next day at 9am and are trying to study? Especially when it is over something like be being against her going in a wet t-shirt contest tonight at the local meat shack bar? I view it as disrespectful to our relationship, and to me.

That turns into a massive fight that is all about her and how she should be able to do anything she wants with her body as long as its not sexual towards a specific guy other than me Where I said it low on the self respect scale and I am completely against her doing this. And she starts calling me controlling and shit

This thread is going to be full of I told you so's and dump her... but I'm trying to study and had to vent.

Fuckk how can she be so selfish to know that I have an exam tomorrow and not turn this into a huge shit fest. Its over now but what the fuck...

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if you have shit to do, and she's trying to start a fight, here's what you do.

You say: I can't do this right now, I have finals to study for. Then you put your phone on silent, sign off your messengers, and do your studying.

From what you have said, I'm sure she'd dump you over doing that, but it doesn't sound like it would be a big loss.

If she values her independence and doesn't care about your feelings on the situation at all then move on. That's really all there is to it. I know this is one situation but I'm sure there have and will be plenty more when she won't compromise shit for you and your feelings. Next time tell her to go do it and to have a great time, but don't expect to come back home to you.