Caribbeancom 011011-587 We stood in the parking lot for perhaps twenty minuets, or so, talking. As we did, there was still a certain feeling of unreality to the situation for me. Sometimes it's that way when you've been anticipating something for a very long time, and then, eventually, you finally get to have the thing you've been anticipating; and that exactly how I was feeling as Jay and I stood there chatting.