Dont know what to name this post but i need to talk

Im sorry ladies that i didnt reply to any1 on my last thread. Its been a rough couple of days.

I have an update on DD. Not a good one and something else to add.

DD first- On Friday DH and I opted to do the surgery. Friday 7 pm doctors told us that they had to stop the surgery hald way because the tumor is wrapped around certain parts of the brain that controls movement. If they continue with surgery DD will most likely be in a wheelchair (if we are lucky) for the rest of her life.
DH left the hospital at 9pm to go home and bring me some fresh clothes (DS was staying with a friend). As DH was on his way back to the hospital a drunk driver skipped a red robot and smashed headon into DHs car. DH was trown out. He sustained multiple injuries that need immediate surgery. While on the operating table DHs brain hemoraged. He is currently on life support. A doctor has declared him brain dead. I am waiting for a second opinion.

DS and I are sitting in. The hospital with DD while DH is at a hospital an hour away.

Oh my goodness. I'm so so sorry you have to deal with all of this. Big, big hugs and prayers for all of you.

Is there anyone at the hospital (social worker?) you can talk to? Just to be able to vent to someone in person?

I've been following your posts for a while and I'm so sorry that you will have to make these hard decisions alone. Huge gentle hugs. Other people will say this better and likely post lovely memes to the same effect, but you have a virtual community of Internet strangers (almost all mothers and wives) here to talk, cry, and rant to as you need.

Danger : my medaid has set up therapy for me at the hosp. Am waiting for DHs big bro to fly in from Dubai so he can make decisions regarding DH. My family has actually stepped up no and they are helping out.

Oh mama, I'm so sorry. Can you contact someone from your religious group? Can the hospital point you in the direction of some resources? When my son was sick our docs gave us info for support groups, and I found it very helpful. Please talk to one of the family advocates, they can find you support.

Im so sorry for everything youre going thru, and please know you are in plenty of prayers right now.