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Thursday, January 3, 2013

My Dad Impregnated Me Twice – Teenager

The Human Right department of Ilemba Hausa Police Division, in Ojo area of Lagos has arrested a 49- year-old man who allegedly had been having carnal knowledge of his teenaged daughter for five years.

It was discovered during investigation that his daughter Janet(not real name)got pregnant in the process twice, only for her father to allegedly ab*rt the pregnancy with the aid of a herbalist.

Sitting at a corner in the Human Rights Office, 17-year-old Janet could not raise her head to face her father, Wale Akinusi, who was also there. When approached, she simply stated that at last, she had been freed from the psychological trauma associated with her father’s sacrilegious act.

Crime Alert gathered that Janet’s tale of woe started after her mother abandoned her barely when she was two-year-old for her paternal grandmother.

It was gathered that her mother who was then a Junior Secondary 3 student, was impregnated by Wale who was 32 years old. Initially, he reportedly denied paternity of the pregnancy but later opted for an ab*rtion on the ground that he could not afford to father a child then because he was only an apprentice.

But his mother came to the rescue as she offered to take care of the baby who turned out to be Janet.

But when she was 12, her father, reportedly took her from her grandmother, with a promise to give
her a better education.

Rather than live up to his promise, her father, allegedly use her to satisfy his s–xual urge, a practice that went on until he was arrested.

Narrating how it all started, Janet in her sitting position with her head bowed all through, said: “When I was leaving my grandmother’s house, I was happy because my father said I would be attending a better school. But I waited for months without being enrolled in any school.

“One night, then, I was 12,my dad called me into his room and told me he took an oat with my mother to be the first man to sleep with me. He said it had a spiritual connotation and that it was to enable him assume his proper financial state.

“Then, I was too young to understand what he meant. He had carnal knowledge of me that night. At a point, he asked if it was painful. All I did was to watch him have his way, still unable to understand what he was doing.”

First pregnancy aborted by a herbalist
“It continued until I was 14 years. Then, I started having a funny feeling. I told him I was sick and when we conducted a pregnancy test, it was positive. Next day, he told me we were going somewhere and we ended up in the home of a herbalist in Ikorodu, who gave me some concoction. I drank some in his apartment and took the rest home. After two days, my menstruation started and my father assured me all was well.

He only gave me a week’s break before he continued all over again. Two years later, when I was 16 years, I got sick again. When I informed daddy, we went for another pregnancy test which confirmed my fear; I was pregnant again!

When he returned next day from his shop, he told me there was no need to go to the herbalist. Rather he gave me two sachets of Alabukun and squeezed some lime juice into a cup, asking me to take it in a gulp. It did the magic and the menstrual flow started few days later.”

“After the second ab*rtion, I became tired of the whole thing. I started being afraid every night. At times, I would put tissue paper under my panties , pretending I was witnessing my monthly flow. After a while, he got the trick, for he started taking note of the date.Challenges father

“I summoned courage and reported the sacrilegious act to our neighbors. But none of them could confront him. Rather they told me they could not interfere into our family affair” , she stated, with her head still bent.

Apparently discouraged by the cold reaction from the neighbors, Janet decided to take the bull by the horn. Looking straight into his father’s eyes for the very first time since the sacrilegious act started, she told her father she was tired of the whole thing. To make do her threat, she reportedly rushed to the kitchen, grabbed a knife and threatened to stab him if he attempted to force her.

“This happened on November 28, 2012. My father had come home from his shop . And at about 6pm, he called me inside to warm his bed. But when he saw the knife, he retraced his steps. I quickly ran inside my room , with the knife in my hand and packed my things out of the house, to stay with a friend whose family welcomed me after I narrated all that has been going on in the past five years.”

“After spending three weeks with them, I received a text message from my father, asking me to come home, or I would die. When I showed the text message to the family I was putting up with, they suggested I reported the case to the police. I hesitated at first because I was scared he would be jailed.“But I changed my mind when the text message threat continued”, she said.

I did that to appease the gods – father
When approached, it was obvious that 49-year-old Wale Akinusi, a fashion designer who hails from Ondo central in Ondo state was oblivious of the legal implication of the offense, as he showed no sign of remorse.

He bluntly told this reporter that what he did was not new under the sun, adding that this would not be the first time such story would be published on the pages of newspapers.

“It is not a new thing that a man is sleeping with his daughter and even if I am jailed at the end, I will surely come out after serving my jail term. But I promise that my daughter will join me” he threatened, dismissing the issue with a wave of the hand.

Continuing, he said: “I went back to claim my child so as to fulfill the oat made between her mother and I. That was why I took her to the herbalist when she was pregnant, so as to appease the gods of her mother’s land. You will not understand.

“You see, when her mother was six months pregnant, we made love. She later told me that it was a taboo for a man to sleep with a pregnant woman in her place. She said the only remedy was for the man to be the first person to sleep with the child.

“I initially did not want to do it. But along the line, I discovered that things were not going on well with me financially. And when I made inquiry, I was made to understand that I had to appease the god’s of her mother’s land, so as to attain my rightful place in destiny.”Asked why he continued after the first time, he kept mute. Also asked why he did not satisfy his sexual urge on his wife who has had four children for him, he explained that they were leaving apart.

“My wife lives in Ketu with the children while I live in Ojo. I had to live apart because I do not want my wife and children to suffer the consequences of my sin. Also I did not want my wife to know I was sleeping with my own daughter”, he said.

Meanwhile, effort according to sources at the Human Rights department, was on to arrest the herbalist who allegedly gave Janet the concoction that aborted her first pregnancy,while her father would be charged to court.

I don't want to insult you its a new year. I know an igbo father who was sleeping with his three daughters to their mothers knowledge! The issue here is the sexually abused person. How do they ill and know its not their fault.

Please lets not start. What about the Youruba Chief that stays in Ajah that sleeps with his daughters? Abeg leave matter. Its all over the world. Sick people. Poor child. Mothers, i repeat mothers no matter how much you trust your husbands, never leave your daughters with a man. Never! The devil is very powerful. Yet he shall continue to be disgraced.

the FACT IS THAT 7 OUT OF 10 GIRLS IN NIGERIA HAVE BEEN AND ARE STILL BEING SEXUALLY ABUSED AS CHILDREN IN DIFFERENT WAYS, 70% HAVE NEVER HAD THE GUTS TO SAY IT OPENLY. IF U HAVE A FEMALE CHILD AROUND, EVERY MALE IS A SUSPECT......FACT!!!! OUR FEMALE LEGISLATORS ARE SLEEPING ON A BICYCLE SINCE THEY HAVE NOT THOT OF PASSING A BILL THAT WOULD FULLY GUARANTEE LIFE IMPRISONMENT FOR PAEDOPHILES COS THE INCREASE IS AT AN ALARMING RATE

Very sick unrepentant man......im broken. How is she supposed to face life now? I know how beign forced at 13 killed me and its effects are still here and im 25 now. I can imagine her at 12 and for five years.....Jeez how wicked. She didn't ask to be born neither did she ask for that kind of heartless and Fetish dad. God will Judge him....dog, im sooo full of hatred for him right now. Let's hope God helps this poor girl overcome this..... Very painfull.

its really sad that there isn't much help for people who are going through child abuse and those who are victims….an ex girlfriend was abused my a big uncle in their church she is in her late 20s now and she is still ashamed to tell her parents…if govt are not doing much i wonder why we private people are not doing enough if not for the resilience of nigerians many would have been committing suicide left and right…

the man has this sort of face that you just feel like punching or slapping

you have to tell someone before it leaves a permanent damage psychologically telling someone even a professional or those in spiritual or moral authority will go a long way in getting you on the road to recovery..this is not just my assertion but grounded in scientific fact which you can research into

you didn't want your wife to know you were sleeping with your daughter and at the same time it was an agreement with you both...story for tortoise!meanwhile its domestic issues like this Nigerian police would be sharp and up to task.hope the girl would ever recover, poor child.

this is wickedness of the highest order and more painfull he isnt remorseful.who willfix that young girl now? not going to be easy for her to have a stable relationship. she needs total mind orientation and counselling and prayers. i pray God heals her wounded soul. bella

d world is becoming unsafe 4 d gal child wit dz psychos ol around us. If u r a lady, Plz make it a point of duty to protect ur daughters frm dz Dogs. monitor how dey mix up wif d older guys be it family relatives. Dont Evn marry a man without self control. Ur daughter myt become a victim on a cold nyt,(whn u r nt Arnd 4 genuine reasons) And if u catch any of them, use a sharp knife and cut off dat d**k. Evn God will understand.

very very brave girl,i wish charities will take this girl's case up and possibly in future if she s up to it she should share her story with others a girl this brave that was able to confront her dad should encourage others who are not as brave

The evil that happens in this world. Please its not a tribal or race issue. It happens more than we care to believe in many homes. We need to speak openly about this and give victims the courage to heal .

The man said dat to appease d gods as is d tradition of the woman for sleepin wit her yl pregnant, he has to sleep wit d child wen she is born abi? Wat if the child was a boy? Wetin 4 happen? The man is simply mad!

Exactly! Would he have slept with †̥ђε̲̣̣̣̥ child if it had turned out to be a boy? Pervert!! To think he is justifying †̥ђε̲̣̣̣̥ act is just so sick, he should be tortured before thrown in jail for †̥ђε̲̣̣̣̥ rest of his miserable life.

This man obviously likes sleeping with under age girls. The girl's mother was in jss3 when he impregnated her, den he waited for his daughter till she was 12. He's a really sick man paedophile and incest

You are not well. Silly child. So you want to use alabukun and lime to about abi? May God give you quadruplets, idiot. For your information, there are some pregnancies that do not abort except you visit a doctor and guess what? Doctors are now born again and dont indulge unlike sometime ago. Omokomo

This is outrageous. Incest! Mothers please be very careful with your daughters. A woman with an unfaithful husband should be very careful more. A single mother who is married to another man other than the father of his daughter(s) should equally be more careful. A woman with a husband who has little or no strong moral grounds should be more careful. A woman who married a non true born again i.e hypocrite should be seriously careful. Women teach your children morals. Educate them on sex. Teach them how to live holy lives. Develop a close relationship with your children especial female ones. Above all, draw them closer to God, buy Bible for them. God bless our women.

dont be surprise all this things are happening, if u re so close to the bible u shud know that the book of 1st Peter 5vs8, says be self control and alert the devil ur enemy is a roaring lion, roaming around luking for whom to devour....this is the sign of d end tym...so bcareful devil can use ur father, mother, sister, brother, uncle, aunt, niece, nephew and cousin even ur pst against you.so alway work with caution.....may God be with dat poor girl...her father is from the pit of hell