The Couch

As you watch TV, give her a foot rub that gradually becomes a calf rub and then a thigh massage. By the time your hand is between her legs, the television should be off and your lips should be on hers. Raise her shirt and kiss her stomach, then head south while working her jeans off her hips. Softly kiss her pubic mound until your tongue reaches her clitoris. That's right, your hands get help here—don't argue: A recent Australian study found that an oral-manual combination is the surest path to her orgasm. Slip a pillow under her butt and ease her thighs to either side.

Many women prefer to be stimulated on one side of—or just above—the clitoris. Rub gently in different spots, asking what she likes best. Insert the index finger of your other hand just inside her vagina and leave it there as you continue to attend to her clitoris. Alternate between oral sex and this two-handed technique until you find out which move makes her crazier than any other.