Self sabotage – what’s that all about?

For those who prefer to read, you can read the article in full belowIf you are ready to let go of what holds you back and allow yourself to truly flourish, to be all that you know you are meant to be, then a Core Belief Reprogramming session is right for you.

In this session, we will look at what your Core Beliefs are, where they come from and work through this process, validating your subconcsious for the work it has done for you, releasing the beliefs that no longer serve you and replacing them with new empowering beliefs. You will now be able to move forward and jump in the flow of life, stronger and more in your ownpower than ever before.

Book in during October and also receive a bonus hypnotic recording incorporating all your new beliefs to help you install them into your subconscious mind. All session are conducted over Skype. Special offer, unitl 27th October, book in now and save $100. Regular price $297, Now $197.

Full transcript

Do you stop yourself from moving forward and allowing yourself to be successful?

Now I know you want to be successful. You know that you have everything you need to move forward and achieve everything you want and need, but still you are holding back. You’re not allowing yourself to have everything you want.

What is it deep down that has a grip on you that you need to let go of. Sometimes we’re not clear on that. Mostly we have these underlying beliefs that are stopping us. The subconscious is furiously doing its job trying to protect you and you’re not giving it an easy time, so it is fighting hard to make you stop.

You just don’t want to give in to these old outdated ideas and beliefs. This is not who you are anymore. You are strong independent adult; however these moments of a powerless little child still creep in and stop you in your tracks. Within yourself, you know that these ideas and beliefs are no longer relevant to your life. But still they linger.

So what can you do about it?

Of course you have choices. You can give into it. You really didn’t want to go out there, be powerful and make a difference in the world, did you?

OK, so that is not the option you want to choose.

You can wage an all mighty battle, conscious mind against sub-conscious mind. That battle is a tough one. You conscious mind says “I am a powerful being who can achieve whatever I set out to do?” You can say it time and time again. Meanwhile, your subconscious mind is in the back ground snickering away projecting into your thoughts, “No you’re not. Your just a weak little baby who I need to protect.”

Understanding where some of these beliefs and ideas come from is a good place to start. Get out pen and paper and start writing down all the things you heard as a child about whatever it is you are dealing with. If it is around you money beliefs, did you hear things like “Money doesn’t grow on trees.” “We can’t afford that”, “You have to work hard to have money.” “Rich people are greedy.” Or maybe you have some self-worth issues and heard things like “You’re not good enough” “Your not pretty enough” “Only rich kids get those chances.” or “Children should be seen and not heard”

Think about these and how are they affecting you now. Do these ideas play out in your life and prevent you from moving forward? Do they stop you from living your potential.

What about what was modelled to you, for example did your parents spend money like it was going out of fashion or did they scrimp and save? Were you always left feeling poor, that you couldn’t have what you want. What role modelling did your parents set around work and gender roles? How do these affect you today?

There is a lot of these deep down structures that we hang on to, which are getting in the way of us being wholly ourselves. They are someone else’s ideas and values that have been installed on us at the deepest level. We can see that, we can recognise that, but until we release these as not being ours, they still hang on and keep us rooted in these beliefs and these hold us back.

Then what are you going to do about it?

There are many different ways of working with core beliefs and shifting them. The method I use, I find to be one of the most effective. It is a gentle process which I like to think of as providing a peaceful resolution between your conscious and subconscious mind. It doesn’t shock the subconscious out of its beliefs or just shut it down. It is acknowledged for the valuable part it has played in your life and how it has protected you and helped shape the person you are today. When your subconscious is able to see and recognise that these beliefs are no longer of value to you, it is willing to let go of them and develop new empowering beliefs that will help you grow and develop.

You are no longer fighting with yourself. Conscious and subconscious are working together as a team who are on the same page. Your subconscious now supports you on your path and only feeds you positive feedback and self-talk.

Wow, what a difference. You can move ahead and allow yourself success. You can be in your own power and shine as bright as you want to. Recently I worked with a lady who had not been cared for as a child. She had a whole gamut of beliefs that she had picked up that stopped her from being successful; one of them being that if she was successful, then somehow it would validate those who didn’t care for her as a child. It wouldn’t matter that they didn’t care for her, as she was successful anyway. The difference in just a short time for Jan, and finally feeling the freedom that she was able to let go of all of this that was holding her back was remarkable. “At last I am finally free to be who I am supposed to be.” She exclaimed at the end of her session. Jan very quickly moved beyond all of this and was able to flourish in her business. She was a now a true reflection of her life purpose.

You can finally be who you are meant to be.

If you are ready to let go of what holds you back and allow yourself to truly flourish, to be all that you know you are meant to be, then a Core Belief Reprogramming session is right for you.

In this session, we will look at what your Core Beliefs are, where they come from and work through this process, validating your subconcsious for the work it has done for you, releasing the beliefs that no longer serve you and replacing them with new empowering beliefs. You will now be able to move forward and jump in the flow of life, stronger and more in your own power than ever before.

Book in during October and also receive a bonus hypnotic recording incorporating all your new beliefs to help you install them into your subconscious mind. All session are conducted over Skype. Special offer, unitl 27th October, book in now and save $100. Regular price $297, Now $197.