Too often, families fight over inheritances. The clash may be over heirlooms, land, or money, and these fights erupt when there isn’t a will and even at times when estate-planning measures were put in practice. Sometimes, these conflicts are the last straw for families under stress, and family members may swear that they will never speak to one another again. The best way to reduce and avoid these conflicts is by anticipating these conflicts.

When the whole family comes together to discuss the future of the parent’s care, it’s unlikely that everyone will be blissfully happy and cooperative like the families you see in television advertisements. Follow these tips to work towards the best possible outcome for your loved one.