I’m sad and glad to hear! Sad that we have to sometimes make this decision, but happy that we do – for our own mental health and well being. This was a very personal post to me as it deals with an estranged relationship I have with my mother – which is a sad thing – but something that took a long time – and a lot of soul searching and self love to come to. I am fortunate to have so many other loving people around me that make up for it, but certain times it comes to mind. I try not to talk about it much here, but then there is so much in my heart that I want to share that I think may resonate with others – maybe different relationships or circumstances – but if it can help someone else realize they are not the only one – then it may be my purpose and my gift to them. It took me a long time to get to a healthy place about it and about myself. I hope you have peace about your decision and love for yourself about it! Thank you for letting me know it rings true for you so that I do not feel so alone! Sending Love to you my friend! ❤

Even with all of our differences, there is a lot of similarities between us all as well. Everything begins from within, even finding the strength to move at times. We own our own lives, and a reminder of this is always helpful.

It’s a little bit like “tough love”. Hard to do guilt free, but so necessary. “……God grant me the wisdom to know the difference.” There is no calm or inner peace “wishing” the story was different, when the reality says the truth. Very sad. Looking back, staying stuck, wishing, changes nothing. Moving forward, accepting what is, is. That’s all anyone can do to find peace in their inner being, & that inner being can can then love to the fullest, bring happiness to themselves & others & be a beacon for those who are not sure they have the courage & strength to do what someday will eventually be the only thing they could a, would a, should a, a long time ago. Hugs Jodi

such wise words sweet lady! seems you may understand as well… and yes – it is like tough love – hard to do guilt free – but so necessary. Thanks for the support and encouragement! Thanks for your visits and notes! Thanks for being a friend!