"help! i can't tell you the problem, but send me your best advice anyway. thanks in advance."

i loved all the advice i received, so i wanted to pose the same question here. leave me a comment with your best advice. i'm going to do a post later with some of my favorites. and who knows? maybe you'll hit the nail on the head!

(also, please don't worry. levi & i are fine; life is just hard sometimes...which i'm sure you understand.)

21 comments:

"Everything will be okay in the end. If it's not okay, it's not the end."--remembering this keeps me from letting anxiety/worry rule my life in a time of financial uncertainty. hopefully it will help you too!

When it's me: Remember what you are under the label you're trying to slap on top of what you were made to be. When it's someone else:Remember what they are without the labels you're trying to slap on top of who they're meant to be.

also remember that when other people are mean...it rarely never has ANYTHING to do with you personally. i am guilty of doing this and i hate it. i have to remember not to let my frustrations impact others.

Do everything you can, the best that you can and pray for help with the rest.

I'm so sorry life's being so crazy right now. It's funny how things kind of tend to go nuts the closer really good things are to happening for us (and you're about get married and that is a really really good thing!) So keep positive, stay happy, and lean on those you love, don't push them away. (that's what I do sometimes when I'm struggling with a bad-life-situation and I wish I didn't.)

Hey! I'm totally on a roll—there's two pieces of advice and I didn't even realize it. I guess I just really want you to be happy! :)

Remember to not sweat the small stuff. It's the one I have to tell myself everyday...sadly, the small stuff is all the stuff that keeps you awake at night, stacking on top of itself. Hang in there and it will all work out!

Hmmm I would say life is too short to be unhappy. Those tough decisions, when they finally get resolved, it will all be worth it. I firmly believe that what is meant to be will be so I try to keep that in mind when things are hard. I really could go on and on but in summary I will say be happy, avoid regrets and live in the now!!!