You may feel puzzled by your relationship dynamics today. You could be confused about the actions of a family member, or you might feel distanced and disconnected from close friends. While you may be tempted to obsess about the behavior of others, you may want to remember also that you can only control your own actions. If you instead give some thought to the things you can do to bring more harmony into your relationships today, you will likely come up with activities that can make you feel more in control. You might open up the lines of communication to speak your feelings with loved ones or simply take some time away from conflict to process your thoughts.

By focusing on the ways our own actions affect our connection with others, we can bring a greater sense of productivity into our relationships. As much as we might like to take control of events and shift them in a more positive direction, we eventually realize that we are only in charge of our own actions. While this may seem limiting at first, we soon recognize the power of watching our thoughts, words, and actions to be sure they are contributing to healthy relationships. Either we set an example for our loved ones to change their destructive habits, or they feel inspired to work with us in more productive ways, and we end up with more harmonious relationships. Changing the dynamics of your relationships today is as simple as allowing your actions to bring about the changes you wish to see.