Blake Lively wants to have a lot of kids with Ryan Reynolds. Like, a lot.

"Oh, I'd have 30 if I could," she told Allure before her surprise wedding. "I've always wanted a big family."

It may come as a surprise that one of the biggest It-girls around hopes to live a quiet life at home with her family, but Lively insists she's nothing like her
"Gossip Girl" character, who will be on a path of self-destruction when Season 4 launches on Monday, Oct. 8 at 9 p.m. EST on The CW.

"I don't drink. I've never tried a drug," she says -- and she's not into clubs, either. "The music is so loud, you can't have a conversation with somebody." Mostly, she doesn't love dancing. "If I were an amazing dancer, yeah, I'd go, but I'm definitely not. My friend calls me a speed walker because my elbows are everywhere."

She doesn't feel like she's missing out on much by not rubbing those wandering elbows with Lindsay Lohan. "It's not like I decided on these strict lifestyle choices and I'm enforcing them. It's just something that I genuinely don't have a desire for," she says.

For more from Lively (who stays mostly mum on the subject of Reynolds) pick up
the latest Allure magazine. For wedding details, you'll have to wait for Martha Stewart's December wedding issue!