If you only want their passwords to sneak through their phone then you need to ask yourself why you need to do that in the first place

And I would say it to his face if I had the energy to continue the chores nag-a-thon for the hundredth time.

Plus, there are practical reasons, too. When my friend split up with her partner, she needed to cancel their Sky bill but all correspondence went straight to his inbox and, as the split was not amicable, he refused to speak to her.

She didn’t know the password for Sky or the password for his email, and ended up paying for an extra three months unnecessarily before he cooled down.