Get Pissed!

Good because I find this a good opportunity to deliver your daily dose of mentoring tough love. Earlier this week we talked about the urgency in needing to make this year, this week, this moment your turning point.

Now, if you are really serious about undergoing massive change and living up to your greatest potential, then here is what you need to do next: watch the video above…

ACTION PLAN: Make sure the resolution or goal you are starting with isn’t a wish, but a commitment and an action. Re-write it to state:

Resolve that THIS IS IT. Only look forward. The new you starts RIGHT NOW. The A-Team and I are here to bolster and support you along the way… if you continue to stick with us!

We’re ALL IN! Are you?

Your Daily Mentor, -Darren

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Great message Darren! I’m fired up for today! I need to figure out a away to catalog these messages to my smartphone. Any chance that the folks can create an app to catalog these by catagory and for quick at the fingertip replays?

Perfect videio for this Monday morning. One of my rising star sales engineers just resigned. I was feeling really defeated and thenmy mornign video from Darren arrived and brough the situation into perspective.

I will simply my life and rid myself of the unimportant(mindless) activities that stop me from having time to spend with what matters most to me. I intend on being a loving & caring daughter, sister, friend and world class sales representative. I am already and amazing mother (there is always more room for growth). I will journal more regularly to figure out my bad habits and patterns. I will delegate tasks that others can do better than. I horrible at house cleaning. And, I do not ever want to master in it. LOL! This year will be my break through year.

I WILL implement and follow the Getting Stuff Done lessons from my Business Accountabilty Coach, Camilla Kragius of http://www.nomorehamsterwheel.com by writing and completing my daily I WILL ACT NOW list of daily tasks.

I will focus on personal development so that I attract business and A leaders to my team!! I will do this by reading ONE personal growth book per WEEK, listening to a minimum of ONE leadership CD per day and attending a minimum of TWO company conference calls per week! I will show my business to a minimum of FOUR people per week. To do so, I will contact FIVE new people per day! I have what it takes to reach the top and I am super pissed at myself for allowing fear to stop me!! NO MORE!!! #HelloSuccess!!! #livingtn

We have some misunderstandings and negative judgments about certain emotions that are actually positive and useful, like for example “aggression”. The dictionary definition of aggression is “To move toward” it does not mean to move against. That’s hatred not aggression. Aggression is the power to move forward and overcome obstacles. So let’s use our aggression this year to accomplish our goals.

I am pissed that I am still in the same place financially and we aren’t making grounds! I will stop making excuses and get to work. I get mad at others, but I only have my self to blame. I will save money this year and talk with more people about the business opportunity.

I will commit myself in doing whatever is needed, even if I don’t feel like it or if I need to get out of my comfortzone, to be a million dollar mom and live the life that my kids and I deserve and show other moms how to do it.

I will be HAPPY this year! I will put ME first! I will be prosperous and pay all of my debt down (my car and credit card wiped out by the end of the year). Which means, I will pay myself first before EVERYONE and EVERYTHING else instead of taking whatever is left (which is usually nothing), and I will not let people (and myself) off the hook and take responsibility for everyone elses lack of responsibility. No sir. I deserve to be happy, have free time, and not STRESS on stupid shit. There, I said it. #2016

Great advice. Great video. Thanks. Use anger for the “good cause”, get pissed and do it. If one is mentally strong enough it is even possible to do it on your own. Stop some bad habits and resolve to stick to some good ones. It is life-changing.

The video is true I know I am getting tired where I am at, and I am getting angry to get my online business going. I also want to work from home so I do not have to deal with an employer making money for them. It is time to get angry and focus on what I want to do. Thank you for the massage.

Thank you so much Darren!!!! The best message for me in this moment!!!!

I will quit my negative senior job, in two months! I’d been angry with myself a few months ago, I started therapy to help myself.

And the best for all, is that I knew it would be pleasant being a independent by myself!!! Thank you for all these dailys mentoring by 2015 and for the coming new ones!!! It’s a pleasure hearing from you!!!

Darren you were literally talking to me!!!!!! I am PISSED I am broke. So darn PISSED. Enough is enough I will meet with 3 people a week (12 per month) for the next two years in buidling my business! Following the steps fo Jordan Adler. Thank you Darren daily. I get a lot of these kinds of daily emails and yours are the most motivating. thanks a million. xo

Well spoken Darren and so true! Anger has motivated me to do more in my past than any other emotion x 10! I’m going to use this Anger to accomplish my biggest and toughest goal I’ve set for 2016. Starting immediately today!

I will close a deal I’ve been working on since May 2015 before the end of February. This will generate tne extra net income necessary to reach economic independence. I intend to double it by 2017 quadruple it by 2018. This will put in on the road to Finantial Freedom

I will not choose fear about this as a business, because I am retired and I can go as slow or as fast as I desire! I will not choose to allow the feeling of insecurity to overcome me when when someone says, ” No.” I will choose the Joy, and the attitude that this young man shows above in this video and has so wonderfully stated! For years, I always told my students, “You don’t fail if you try, but fail if you don’t try.” So….I guess it’s time for me to “Get Pissed” with Fear and send it off to get drunk as Dave Allen states from the UK! : ) Former Musical Theatre Actress, NYC. Teacher. Married & Happy in FL !

I, too, am ‘pissed’ at myself. I am no longer willing to accept anything less than my ultimate best in my business and personal life. Today is the day that my back is turned and I face an exciting now and future. God created me for a much more beautiful and grand life than what I’ve accepted and settled on. NO MORE!!!!!

Exceed my business goals, complain less/command the plan more, remind myself daily that I truly do love my professional domain (Communication) and write daily. One more thing.. complete the journey of returning to optimal weight/fitness (which make all of the above much more enjoyable). All the Best to all of YOU in 2016!

This year I will make more family time ,I will double the amount of personal devlopement ,I will become an expert in my field through going to more course’s more intensive study and following the course LIving the best life ever and also using the power of the compound effect of lots of little good habits so that I will be more organized and I will learn to work smarter

Real talk for real people. It’s time to get angry, get up, dust off the past and do something to become who I should be. I will be intentional in my life this year – I will fulfill my potential by adding value to others!

This year I will do what I know I have to do and did not do it before to advance in my MLM to finish this year with $7000/monthly. Other thing is to enyoy the ride, to be happy in the way to obtain my goals. Thank Darren

Love this! This year I will get my financial house in order and lose weight! I am pissed that Inhave let myself get into this situation, and Darren is right – it is my fault and only I can do something about it!! 2016 is my year 🙂

Thanks for the inspiring start to this series! Wow…getting angry at that which is withIN that should be withOUT, never to be allowed in again, is such a charge! SO many “I will’s” come to mind. I WILL hire a business coach to help me stay focused to develop and EXEUTE the plan to transform and grow my business to include writing, speaking/teaching within a “working better not harder” framework, allowing for abundance and prosperity on all levels, starting with my spirit as I live God’s call on my life and get the message I feel He’s given to me, out to the world.

I will do the thing I hate the most first thing each day, and get it out of the way, battling my fear of finishing things. This will push me each day towards the completion of my goals and leave me to do the things I love once the boring, but necessary things are complete!

I will press forward every day and fight for the goals and dreams I have put on hold in the last 10 years….I will not let the emotional instability be the factor in why I’m not working at my full potential. I will no longer be the victim of self sabotage and procrastination, excuses and laziness , binge eating and self loathing…. I will no longer entertain people in my life that are negative and judgmental….I will wake up and spend divotional time with my creator and make it a point to be of service every day….thank you Daten for sharing ….stay blessed…:))

Great way to start the first work day of the new year. Thank you Darren. I will make 2016 the best year ever for my businesses, my personal development and my family. I will NOT settle for anything less!

…I’m. tired, I don’t have time, I’m not equipped, I cant afford it, I’m not a member, I don’t know how, I’m too old, It doesnt matter, no one wiil know, just one wont hurt, just one more time, I’ll start tomorrow, they won’t like it, no one will help me, It’s never worked, no one else does it that way, they won’t let me, it won’t work, I’ll pay it back later, I tried that before, they are more important than me, it’s not that big a deal, a few minutes is not that late, just one more episode, they’ll understand, everyone does it, I deserve to rest, I’ll be the only one, I’ll just pray about it, after I get organized!

I will make my calls to referral sources, past clients and prospects per my plan every single day without fail. This will get me to my goals of financial success in 2016!! I am PISSED off about where I am today and resolve to be here no longer!

I will every night plan my actions for the next day! I normally let my day happen then get to the end of the day and find out I really did not get anything accomplished. I will take my goals and break them down into small actions and schedule those actions each day!!

It is great to have someone like Darren tell you like it is. Yes I agree time to Get Pissed and Time to Turn the corner. You waste another year looking for someone to blame. Darren is right just own it and make the necessary adjustmets.

I signed up for this to get motivated to really build our direct selling business. But in yesterday’s video you said to tackle one thing at a time. There is one unfinished thing that I need to do first before I can really focus on the business. I WILL FINALLY FINISH WRITING MY DOCTORAL DISSERTATION AND WRITE SOMETHING EVERY DAY UNTIL IT IS DONE EVEN IF IT’S HORRIBLE WRITING. Once that’s done THEN I can build the business with no distractions or nagging “what ifs.”

I WILL do something every day to improve each area of my life. In my world if I lack in one area it rolls to the next and next and next. Doing this each day will remove the chaos and allow the unexpected things to become challenges and not excuses.

I will have confidence in myself and build my self-esteem, I will read motivational books for my personal development, I will write down my contacts in my contacts list instead of pieces of papers, I will keep my finances organized, I will be Diamond in my Kyani network business by my birthday (5/27). I will be a speaker by practicing and doing presentations, I will eat right and exercise daily not to lose weight but to be healthy.

Awesome! I started my business out of spite- now I have to recapture that feeling of excitement again! I WILL stick to my schedule and not deviate because I know I get great results when I do that! Thanks Darren, looking forward to more great tips!

I find this to be so strange because on New Years Eve. I had (2) people that pissed me off so bad that all I have been saying to myself is that they are going to feel really bad as soon as I come up. I plan to come up higher than them by Summer. And continue up so high they will never be able to reach me to hurt me again.

There is a Gospel singer named Donald Lawrence and he has a song called “The Gift” please listen to it Darren! It talks about the same thing and how we should all please God when we use the gifts he gives us!

I have certain Gospel songs for inspiration also, because I know we can do all things through God. Have a very blessed day and a wonderful New and exciting New Year!

Great post, Darren! I was never offended by what you were saying but more offended by how I’ve been living. It reminded me of an old football coach of mine who would motivate me by yelling in my face. The passive coach never struck a chord with me. Thanks for getting in my face, coach Darren!! 😉

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Fired up! I will lose 100 lbs and get fighting fit, make corrdinator level in Life by June and build the dojo to 300 while growing the team to run this one and the next one all this year. I will accomplish my goals and help my family and teams accomplish theirs!

I havn;t been ” Pissed” in a while ( sober 14 years. gfeelin great. and LOVE This one from Darren Hardy… In our organization we say ” Reallllllyyyy” meaning why doesn’t that person ” get it” I Love Gettin Pissed – of then you have to Channel that and make it actionable. Make it Happen Thnx again Darren! from all of us at Downey Insurance Group Boston, Ma. http://www.Downeyinsurance.com Great people to know.

Love this! How have I not run into you before. I can only attribute it to “when the student is ready the teacher will appear”. January 3rd, 2016 was my 5 year anniversary of sobriety from drugs and alcohol yet I have found myself still struggling emotionally, as if my “victim mentality” has remained the voice telling me things aren’t going to get better and the struggle never ends. My circumstances aren’t improving because “I” am not changing them… there’s always an excuse that says “maybe tomorrow I’ll work on that.

Brilliant Darren. Thank you for kicking me in the butt this morning. NO MORE EXCUSES. I am mad as hell and this is the year I am showing up for things (finances, weight loss, stop picking my fingers). I am going to use the postive side of mad to propel me forward. No more stuck in the rut!

Thanks. Have been feeling sorry for myself over the holidays. Woke up yesterday with a resolution that enough is enough, and felt angry. Thanks for your advice. I will work smarter at my home business to ensure consistent growth for 2016.

I will never allow myself to feel sorry for myself again! I will accomplish all my goals by conquering the daily steps it takes to get there! I will no longer allow myself to live another year fat! I will no longer allow myself to live broke! Thank You Darren!

I will complete my Lean Six Sigma Blackbelt certificate. I will launch my business and be financially successful for my first year in business. I will finish my weight loss goal. I will be more physically fit than I’ve ever been.

I will master discipline in 2016. This is measured by setting a daily schedule and sticking to it (drifting no more than 15 minutes on no more than 4 transitions) including selecting and completing 3 priority tasks before I go to bed. I’ll even allow myself to get angry to have the energy to finish, if necessary. I will not take anger out on others, only use it on myself as a motivator.

I love harnessing the power of negative emotions to fuel a big move forward. I will achieve my goals so my children know it is possible and they can do the same thing–set BHAGs and GO FOR IT. Not achieving the goal is not an option! Really appreciate your daily messages! Thanks a ton!

Sick and tired of being sick and tired. With trackers and programs in pod casts and dvds, with journals and mentors and daily darrens, I have mentally,” refused” to move. Today, purging the left over holiday stuff, partnering with my daughter as an accountability health partner. Here we go !

Wow! Are you mad? Thanks Darren! You’re one of the few I would sit and listen while you talked to me like that, especially on a Monday morning for gods sakes! I know the feeling well when I get mad enough to make the change! I began making positive changes last year in mid October. 1 by 1 adding quality changes to my morning routine, little ones so that I am developing new habits that will stick with me for the rest of my life… not just for one year. I am the proud owner of a morning routine (which I’ve never even had before). Including DD (as always), meditating, 20 min of exercise bike and now adding yoga, fresh juice, and now writing! My over all intention is to put so many high quality choices into my time outside of “work” that there is no room for lesser things! The best thing out of this is that it is really paying off! I look forward to getting up and starting my day with all these fun things! The only ongoing constant…. is change and I am enjoying the journey! When 2017 arrives I will say this about my choices all year: “I’m so glad I did”! What will you say?

I will write, record and share the music that my heart is crying out to give the world no matter what ANYONE thinks of it. I’m really pissed at myself for wasting thirty-six years of my life avoiding criticism! What has it gotten me? Thirty-six years of compromise and regret; not what I was designed to experience and give the people who will appreciate what I have to offer, not what I can do, not what I WILL DO.

Hi Darren, Thank you for your everyday messages. I like it they are really making value in my live. Just one remark i want to say to you. Jim Rohn taught us be careful with you language, why? because it will cost you. I thing that that king of words “pissed off” shouldn’t be used by such grate achiever like you. I haven’t heard Jim Rohn using that king of terminology. I am sure it is possible to find other words to emphasize it. Have a nice day to everybody Tomas From Norway

I will net 10,000 a month and put all my transactions in Quicken. I will know where I stand financially at all times. On paper, not just a number carried around in my head that always ends up being wrong

Holy Moley! I literally just told my girlfriend last night that I’m fed up and pissed I need to direct my anger at myself and not the rest of the world and do it in a positive way. So I’m going to do this not just for this year but for forever.

So, I will get pissed at myself -only- and not the rest of the world like I’ve been doing and I will conquer three main goals: my optimal fitness, my success with my business, and most importantly, I will conquer my attitude and my happiness.

Darren, this is literally the first time I’ve commented ever and I’m doing so for the very simple reason that I’m holding myself accountable. I want you to know how much I appreciate all of your effort since your inception and implementation of Darren Daily. I’ve been with you since the beginning and followed vigilantly everyday. Thank you so much for this priceless resource.

I’m not going to let a negative mindset control me or the negative feedback from others to stop me from doing the things I want to do or be. Grow myself and my network marketing business further in 2016 is key !

I saw a video that expresses Darren’s point on getting pissed and taking accountablily by Dr. Eric Thomas and it changed my thinking forever. His emotion and “no kid gloves kick in the pants approach” is what we all need, not what we all want but WHAT WE NEED. The link to the video is below ” YOU OWE YOU” and if you are all about your feelings its not for you. Required viewing if you need to get PISSED FOR CHANGE.

I admit it, I wasn’t angry, I felt sheepish. It’s like my father telling me I could have done better and I knew I only did so-so. Well….now I’m pissed! I’m 41 and I know better. Time to change and I WILL start today. Why wait when I know I don’t really want to do that.

Wow, talk about in your face, no holds barred, no sugar-coating. Just what is needed to be said to get us out of our stupor. Let’s be real…we’re NOT living up to our full potential. I know I’m not!!! This weekend, our company had a great nationwide launch and that helped light a fire under me. I am DETERMINED to change my life. Our theme is #ThisYearIWill, and for me, this year, I will be come a Senior Director. I’ve put it out there for everyone to see. I’m holding myself accountabile and letting everyone else know what my intentions are. No more hiding, no more excuses, no more, “yeah buts,” no more dreading to wake up.

Seriously ask yourself if you ARE living up to your potential. Are you? If not, GET PISSED!!! Stop making excuses and just do the damn thing!!!

I can’t wait to see what the future holds and how many people I can take on this journey with me. Take care, Everyone, make it an AWESOME day, and choose you!! You deserve it!!!

Darren, Thank you! You know it would cost hundreds of ‘therapy’ dollars and you wouldn’t get the same great advice. I sent this one to all four of my grown children, because no matter where we are in our lives, we need to hear this again and again and…again! Thank you! Marion

#Gmorning All, The great late Jim rohn said; ‘We generally change ourselves for one of three reasons: inspiration, desperation and disgust.” The choice is ours, one we have control over ( nspiration) the other we don’t (desperation), the last one we create DISGUST!!! This is Jim Rohn’s perspective on DIGUST..The emotion that can change your life forever!

DISGUST – One does not usually equate the word “disgust” with positive action. And yet properly channeled, disgust can change a person’s life. The person who feels disgusted has reached a point of no return. He or she is ready to throw down the gauntlet at life and say, “I’ve had it!”

That’s what I said after many humiliating experiences at age 25, I said. “I don’t want to live like this anymore. I’ve had it with being broke. I’ve had it with being embarrassed, and I’ve had it with lying.” Yes, productive feelings of disgust come when a person says, “Enough is enough.”

The “guy” has finally had it with mediocrity. He’s had it with those awful sick feelings of fear, pain and humiliation. He then decides he is not going to live like this anymore.” Look out! This could be the day that turns a life around. Call it what you will, the “I’ve had it” day, the “never again” day, the “enough’s enough” day. Whatever you call it, it’s powerful! There is nothing so life-changing as gut-wrenching disgust!

That was awesome. It’s exactly where my mind is at as we enter 2016. I posted this on my FB page Saturday. “It’s easy to be good. It’s hard to stay hungry enough to take good and make it great . #stopseeingsquirrels”

It’s time to get hungry again, to “stop seeing squirrels” and being distracted, and get laser focused, intentional and purposeful with each moment.

I will schedule and organize my time for a better balance of family, business and fitness so that I can accomplish the things I know to be possible. I will use that organization of my time to create a catalyst and hold myself accountable for that schedule and start making huge strides to be a better more rounded father, business leader and mentor.

Thanks for the inspiration Darren – I WILL do whatever it takes to Win The Game of Money and STOP living a mediocre lifestyle. Today is National Cleanse Day, so I WILL complete the challenge and get fit – to stay fit.

I AM PISSED!!! Can’t wait any longer for me to be, do, have and share all that I am capable of this year! Last year I made some big changes, had some great achievements and I am ready to allow that to fuel this year and inspire more to do the same!!!

Yes I am all in. This is the year that I will shut that door of the past and start to become what I was created to be. I am starting this year to move forward to becoming the person that I know that I am to be. For example today I start my new job because I would no longer accept that toxic job I was in. 2016 is going to be my year of domination. Thank you Darren for getting me to open my eyes and moving forward. Needed you years ago.

I WILL be financially stable by December 31, 2016 and I will do that be reaching the business level I want (1 Star Diamond) and making $1500/week (in addition to my day job). I WILL be rid of debt by December 31, 2016!

I WILL achive my 3 banner goals for the year – period. For those of you not using Darren’s ‘Living Your Best Year Ever’ – you’re missing out. Get it now. And when you’ re serious about achieving your goals, I mean really serious, then register for Darren’s High Performance Forum. I did as a VIP. A life changing experience. I have my autographed Activity Mangement System (AMS) as a daily reminder to the commitment I made to myself. http://store.success.com/living-your-best-year-ever-by-darren-hardy.html

I have always used a bit of controlled, calculated anger to accomplish things. It is not a bad thing to use anger to motivate. My lone resolution is to simply eliminate all of the credit card debt we have.

I stopped setting New Years resolutions several years ago because, like most, I kept failing at them within the first month. Instead I started setting S.M.A.R.T. Goals. There is a big difference between the two. Now, thanks to Darren’s personal mentor ship, I only set 3 goals for the year and throw the rest of the list away. Since we’re talking about resolutionsthough, I WILL resolve to continue to get back on the horse every time I’m knocked off, I WILL move through my disappointments much faster, and most important I WILL leave 2015 in the past where it belongs.

This year marks my 15th year in business as the owner of a plumbing company. Some people think, “Oh, you own your own business, you must be rich!” That’s the furthest thing from the truth. I’m doing okay and I truly love working in residential service where I’m dealing with all kinds of people on a daily basis, but I have a lot of debt and no retirement at this point. That is going to change this year where I plan to make this the most profitable year since I have been in business, but also focus on the goal of zero debt both for the business and personally. Thanks Darren, I’m PISSED!

I got to this point in August September last year so I started swimming regularly. Yes it took determination and I started very slow but now i am actually swimming a mile frontcrawl 4 times a week. Im really proud of that becasue it has taken me a lot to get over some psychological barriers and fears of choking and drowning that im not sure where they came form except a time in high school where I had water wooshed into my mouth as i took a breath leaving my coughing and spluttering in the middle of a pool. So as i write this now I know where my fear came from. Thank you.

At the end of last year on the very last day i achieved a goal to become Manager in my business. It was nt where i wanted to be at the begining of the year though as i had set a goal much higher. yes I am pleased i got there but annoyed at myself for loosing focus along the way. This year will be different. I shall be dedicated to my self learning, investing in me, completing Darren Living the best year yet as I find this book an essential tool. You know when I look back over last year, when i was completing this book daily my business was growing. Guess what happened when i stopped for a few months. Yes you’ve got it, my business stopped growing too. When i got back on it andf doing my Mindset work, hay presto my business took off again.

PLease never underestimate the importance of investing in you and your leanring time.

I am on a FIT challenge for 69 days and am determined to carry this through the year so that i can have bags of energy and feel great. I have swum a mile this morning already and propose to do 40 miles in 69 days to raise money for a charity but also to really push me into creating a far healthier and fitter lifestyle. I have planned my year too with my business and I am going out there to achieve.

Thank you Darren for all that you do. I must apologise for not being able to comment over Christmas and new year, for some reason the system wasnt allowing me too. Thank you Kylie Burnside Anfin and Kat for helping me to sort that all out. Your help was invaluable 🙂

I will no longer lose self-control and never settle for less! I will take the necessary actions to succeed in life and with my businesses! This is it! I’m drawing the line in the sand. Thank you Darren

Thank You Darren, that´s what we do with Laughter Coaching, Play with our Emotions and use our Anger as Energy in Motion into Action in the direction of our REsults. I Love the R sounds that move yours and my Universe on our names; dARREn hARdy angER REsolve REsolutions. Turn ERRORs into REsults. Thank you thank you thank you

WOW!! This hit me right between my eyes… and now I’m “pissed!” I will on-board 1,000 entrepreuners in 2016; please help me today by passing this post/video on to as many people as possible. #DarrenDaily #JustGrindIt #SageAdvise