Maximizing Your Sexual Pleasure

In terms of sexual pleasure, it is important to maximize yours, as well as hers. We men tend to forget that sex is a game that can only be played by two people (or more), so both parties need to be fully sexually satisfied in order to really call the sexual experience a full one. If the thought of pleasing your partner scares you, don’t worry about it, we have you covered. First off, an experimental trick for getting better in bed that we like to use is browsing through online dating websites with the sole purpose of chatting with girls. You see, we use these adult dating platforms in order to talk to girls and get their opinion on what they like to experience in bed. Because it’s a virtual, non-conversational exchange, they really feel at liberty to reveal everything they’re comfortable with about their sexual lives. If you haven’t tried this educational tactic out yet, we highly recommend it. Regardless, we have some great sex tips for you below to get you started on maximizing your pleasure, and hers.

Using Foreplay To Get Her Ready For Sex

Because we men just like to get down to the nitty gritty of sex, we tend to forget that women’s bodies are like engines that need to be revved up before we take them for a spin. By engaging in a healthy amount of meaningful foreplay, you are effectively warming her body up to fully take on your many sexual prowess. Give her soft kisses throughout her entire body, making sure you hit her sweet spots. Rub your body against hers and give her a preview of what the se will be like. Of course, all of that leads up to a nice bout of oral sex, which you will both be giving out and receiving. By the end of the foreplay session, she will hardly be able to wait before jumping right into the hanky panky act with you.

Why Heavy Breathing Can Come Off As Being Nervous

If you’re nervous, that’s fine; she’s probably a little nervous as well. If possible, try not to let your nerves show in the bedroom. Something like engaging in heavy breathing can clearly reflect your nervousness onto your partner, and that will make the sex awkward throughout the experience. It’s alright to be nervous; just take deep, calm breaths throughout the evening, and remind yourself that you are a sexual god and that this woman needs to be ready to receive your extreme pleasure. Keep building yourself up in your own mind as you go through the motions of sex. Eventually, you will turn a corner and you will find that the sense of nervousness you just experienced will be gone completely.

Getting Nervous In Bed

Getting nervous in bed is part of what makes us human. Believe it or not, some girls find this adorable, and they can’t wait to have a lot of sexual fun with a nervous man. While that’s good news for you, it’s still important to keep in mind the fact that you should always try to control your nerves during sex. If you control your nerves, you are effectively controlling the situation at hand, and you will be in the driver’s seat when it comes to making sure that both you and your woman are experiencing the vast amounts of pleasure that you deserve.

Using Mind Tricks To Calm Yourself Down

As we mentioned above, deep breathing and confidence-building thoughts can help you calm yourself down if you find yourself nervous in the bedroom. If all else fails, you can quickly excuse yourself to go to the bathroom and have a private moment with yourself. Look in the mirror at your face, and tell yourself who you are. Remind yourself that this woman is in the bed with you because she finds you super attractive, and all that’s left for both of you to do is to experience each other’s full pleasure. After that, sit down on the bathroom floor and engage in 2 minutes of meditation, focusing completely on your breathing so that all your other thoughts shut down. When you emerge from the meditation, your thoughts will be completely clear, and you can re-enter the bedroom with a totally new mindset. Use this new mindset wildly, and don’t be thrown off with nervous thoughts as they come along. Just enjoy the sex you’re having with your lady, and she will enjoy it too.