It always starts innocently enough. He asks how is your day going? and I think how tedious sweet. But if we're on plenty of fish or okcupid or twitter or facebook or maybe even via text, it usually ends the same, he wants to turn the...

The message reads: What are you wearing? And it's your move. The board is set. The pieces are all lined up. Now all you have to do is ask yourself, do you want to play?I used to spend a great deal of time wondering what...

If dating were a sports team, its mascot would be the butterfly.Which may explain why lately every date seems to be a fumble. And championship games keep getting cancelled. Coach keeps telling me to get in there! and really give it to the...

A conversation.It seems so simply, so easy, so... unattainable?And the irony is that I'm actually not asking for the world. Your questions don't have to be Pullitzer Prize winning caliber. They don't have to be inventive or intu...

It's been a long time coming.I've been meaning to write it for ages.But somehow I just kept putting it off. Because it's not really a dating post, or a humor post, or a sex post, or a poetry post even, it's a post about me. Little old me,...

At this point, it was about 8pm. I had spent the first half hour waiting for him and the second half deflecting inappropriate comments and trying not to be horribly disappointed with the mess of a man that plenty of fish had served up to me. &n...

This post continued from - The Mess: a New "Something" in the MixHave you ever gotten a present, like say for a birthday or Christmas, which you then opened only to find that there were more and more presents inside? Like, you had thought...

And then this happened...Ashton Kutcher made a dating video...It's like they looked straight into my heart. A bollywood producer with hip muscles that could move mountains?It's like they looked straight into my soul. A punny hippy with dr...

The Mess - a New "Something"And then it was April.Guy #1 emailed. It was eloquent. It was adorable. He was going back to London. Fuck. We decided to keep in touch anyway because with his job moving him around and my acad...

January was all about finalizing grad school applications and the disastrous effects of dating CryBabyRomeo. I'm not sure if I ever mentioned it but on that first date of ours, he had told me about how he dated a girl from V...