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4 Rules to transform an long distance love on the Internet into an normal relationship

Let's suppose that you are meeting
someone online and that person seem to be the mach of your life, but
is living far away from you. Does it worth to spend your time to a
long distance relationship with this person? But, what if this person
is realy your soulmate?

You may be surprised how much a
relationship can grow if you work at it. If you know and aply some
simple rules, your relationship can turn out to be one of the most
successful and happy relationships that ever existed.

Distance, combined with telephone calls
and writing, electronically or through snail-mail, can foster an
enviable intimacy which results from learning about another's
qualities, values, ways of thinking, sensitivities, dreams, and
aspirations. This type of intimacy can make your coming together much
more special.

As if relationships weren't complicated
enough, having them across a long distance is extremely challenging.
Just read the following ruls and try to keep in mind and aply:

1.The quality of the relationship is
more likely to increase if both people develop the ability to share
feelings openly with each other. Do not feel afraid to tell your
partner what you really need and want from him or her, he or she
deserves to know the truth and judge whether they can give it to you.

2. Make the relationship a high
priority. Avoid canceling reunions or putting off a phone call.

3. Start to keep in touch daily. If
large phone bills are a concern, send e-mail, letters, cards and even
faxes. And when you do make contact, don't just stick to love talk,
but keep each other informed on the day-to-day aspects of your lives.
This way you each stay aware of how the other is thinking, feeling
and developing. Late-night talks and thoughtful letters can convey a
lot of what is most important in the long-term: your goals, values
and dreams.

4. Be prepared to be flexible. Tell
your partner of how much you think about and love him or her will
score high points, making them miss you more with the constant urge
to see you. But don't be posesive. Being paranoid and accusing will
only grow doubts, insecurity and tension between you and none of
those will help the relationship develope successfully.

If your partner truly wants to be with
you, then they would not want to wait forever to have you next to her
or him. As long as you both trust each other, inform one another of
your personal lives, keep in touch, your relationship can turn out
into a happy normal relationship.

Ultimately, a normal relationship is
the goal, doesn't it.

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