Spiritually you can be on your last breath so disconnected from Source that you are terminally exhausted. You can be emotionally ready to crumble from untended wounds. Mentally you can be so stretched you are ready to break into a million pieces if just one thing doesn’t drop the way it should.

But you can look good ~~ for a while.

I’ve done it. I would have to say that is one of my better than average skills.

And I’ve crashed too.

We can get so good at compartmentalizing our fears, our wounds, our traumas we trick ourselves into believing that they no longer exist. Until something in the general vibrational vicinity happens and the over the top reaction comes flooding out.

What do you do? Well, some of that depends. Are you pre-crash but you know it’s coming? Are you a little afraid to go digging up bones for fear of what might spring out? Understandable.

Start by first by stabilizing your behavior. Getting more rest. Eating better. Taking time out. Starting a meditation practice. Denying self-care is a form of abuse. Get help if you need to. As you begin to withdraw from some toxic behaviors you will be in a better position to look at the bigger arc of your circumstances.

If you are post-crash and feeling like you’ve been hit by a truck. You have to soothe. You have to unwind. You can’t process anything right now. You are overloaded because your bags are too tightly packed.

I’m a big fan of working it out in a journal. It is a form of prayer and meditation for me. I receive quite a bit when I am connected through writing: clarity, peace, a sense of being grounded. I usually just start free-writing which can seem very chaotic, but over time my thoughts slow and they organize.

Pre or post-crash there comes a point where you have to surrender. You have to ask for help from your Higher Power. After the break-up, the meltdown, the hospital stay, the setting our hair on fire moment the one thing we usually do feel is raw, stripped bare. There is a clarity that can come in those moments, but you can also shoot yourself in the foot to stop thinking about a toothache.

I used to think that was the inevitable destination. Just store everything up and pick up the pieces once it all explodes all over the place. Imagine my surprise when I learned to maintain mental, emotional and spiritual health actually meant that you didn’t have to live that way. One crisis to the next. On the contrary, while we think of caring for ourselves as selfish it is the most loving thing we can do for our loved ones and family.

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Do folks think that saying affirmations or afformations are the magic shortcut to health, wealth and forever prosperity? 🧞‍♂️🧙‍♂️

Me? I love a good afformation (where I send my guides and subconscious mind out seeking the answers that I require for the results I want). Especially those that REALLY resonate with where I want to BE!! I LOVE going general, seeing the big picture and I love that HIGH FLYING feeling that comes with Vibrational Alignment. 💃🕺

Do you want to know what I also know? They are simply a part of aligning your energy. They are a part of raising your vibration. They don’t replace personal growth. 😳

Contrast has its place. It helps you decide what you want, by showing you what you don’t. Ignoring contrast, pretending it’s not happening, brings you more contrast. At some point in time, you are going to have to make a decision.

Making a decision comes from your core beliefs and values regarding the world 🌎 YOU live in. If you believe having money 💵 is inherently evil 😈, that it’s easier for a camel 🐫to pass through the eye of a needle than for a rich man to go to heaven at your core; it’s going to be hard for you to experience prosperity. Sooooo you might need to work on your Money Mentality. 💵🧠

If your choices are coming from a place of pain 🤒or fear 😮, you will constantly experience a feeling of being held back or worse yet, get only so close to your dream before it all turns to smoke. UGH!! That is a Worthiness issue in need of healing. 💝💖

Along with your personal growth, affor/affirmations are powerful tools. A statement affirmed born from your aligned beliefs, well… that can begin to change your life!

If you’re ready to align your believing and create some great affirmations that truly support your growth, I can help with that. Feel free to Facebook message me or email me and I can make suggestions to help. For a fuller look at what’s going on in your life and how you can be aligned with what you want to achieve whether it be love, money or career I have availability throughout the week in the mid-afternoon and evenings for 15 and 30-minute sessions.

Everything we experience outside of ourselves is but a reflection of what we’ve created within. You can keep rearranging the deck chairs on a sinking ship or you can learn to patch the holes.

I’ve found waiting for your lover to change is as useless as walking out the door and hoping they will chase you. But the path of honoring self and removing the limiting blocks that keep you stuck with someone who will not see your greatness….. that is what we can do something about.

Amazingly I have found when my clients start to tap into that aspect of themselves, those people who couldn’t see them before start to wonder what they’ve been missing all this time. 😊

Be Blessed, Stay Blessed!

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We hear that it’s better to give than to receive. Do you hear that and cringe? Do you think if you just knew the stack of bills I have? The orthodontist, the new tires before winter, the mortgage/rent, what do I have left to give other than to provide for my family? I think of that and can write a hundred posts on what that means and how you can embody that in our daily lives. But seeing as I am a practical metaphysician I look for how can we use that wisdom in our daily lives and reap the rewards of its application. So without further ado, this exercise will help you put that into action.

Money is energy. Even the word we use for it “currency” means the condition of flowing. How is money flowing into and out of your life? Do the bills come and you cringe? I did at one time during a divorce many years ago. I knew I was living on prayer and lucky circumstance. I indeed made it through by grace, but during that time I was given something else in my channeled conversation with Spirit.

I was told to bless my money. I was told to look at whatever I had and ask for it to be blessed, to visually surround it with white light and know there would always be enough. It didn’t have to be cash, it could be anything a bank statement or just your visualization. That was step one, and it worked. Things started getting better, money showed up just in the nick of time, I wasn’t rolling in it at this point but I was sleeping at night! I blessed my food, my car, my home pretty much anything that I came in contact with.

Next came step two. As you see your money go out into the world, whether it’s the electric bill getting automatically debited, or paying the orthodontist, or purchasing the airline tickets for your vacation see it as blessed. See that energy go out into the world and prosper all those that it touches. Take airline tickets. That money goes for the ticket agents, ground crew, mechanics, parts manufacturers, electronics, pilots, stewardesses, gate fees, air traffic controllers. It touches each and every one of them and hundreds more. It’s taken home to their families which in turn they spend on food and orthodontists. As you see these divine currents spread out into the world blessing each one as it stops along the way you truly are giving blessed energy out into the world.

This is a daily exercise for me. I always meet the nicest people at salons, stores, wherever I go to spend money, especially if I have been there more than once. I literally see my credit card glowing with white light as I use it, sending that pure positive energy out into the world. Things that I need show up, usually on sale! I get help and am told about offers and private sales that I had no idea about. My money sends out such pure positive loving energy it returns to me in ways that I never thought possible.

The money I receive for my services, I bless. I bless those that sent it to me, and the avenues from which they receive and all those that it touched before it came to me on its journey. I realize I am only part of the chain. I realize that in this way I can continually give into the world and I am an open conduit to continue to receive as well.

Be Blessed, Stayed Blessed

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“If you want to control your animals, give them a larger pasture.” That’s a quote I heard at a class several years ago focused on the power of changing your attitude about the things you can’t change or don’t need to change.

The animals and their larger pasture are a form of letting go and allowing things to be the way they are – instead of trying to tightly control something, you’re loosening up, giving it more space, a larger pasture.

The animals will be happier – they will roam around and do what they naturally do. And yet your needs will be met too – you will have more space to be at peace with the way the animals are.

Stepping back and allowing certain things to happen means these things will take care of themselves. You will have less stress (and less to do), and more energy to work on the things that matter – the things you actually can control – like your attitude about everything. 😊

This is not giving up. It means showing up every day in your life with the intention to be your best self, and to do the best you know how, without expecting life to go a certain way. How many things will just handle themselves if you will allow it? Are there things in your life that you can automate, like bill paying? What can be simplified to require less of your attention?

Have goals, have dreams, aspire to take action, have great relationships, but let go of having to be so hands on with what every speck of your life must look like to be happy. Sometimes just allowing things to be what they are without orchestration is release enough.

Letting go brings peace and joy, and lest we forget that our outer lives are but a reflection of our inner state of being.

Being an empath now is a thing. It’s definitely a buzz word and talked about more now in the last 2 years than I’ve seen in my whole career. That is not to say I don’t believe that individuals are waking up and consciously experiencing their gift because I do. I’m glad they are. Being an Empath is a superpower. It is far less about “developing” it than it is honing.

It’s important to have a spiritual practice. That does not mean you have to be spiritual, religious or take on any belief system that does not feel right to you. It does mean you have to understand energy from a perspective not taught in other modalities. These daily practices will keep you from being overwhelmed and curb the need to isolate. Empaths need a certain amount of quiet time daily. We all have busy lifestyles but downtime for us is essential. Whether you rise early to meditate or you end your day with a long soak in a salt bath, both would be beneficial at least one of those will be essential.

Know who you are. Empaths take on a lot of energy. Until you become aware of what is you and what is the rest of the world, it is very difficult for you to establish your own identity. What you believe. What you value. What is your passion? I find that journaling is a big help here. It’s a safe place for you to explore without the noise of excess energy. Also, it’s important as an Empath to know who you are because you run the risk of being influenced unduly by others’ emotion. You stand near someone extremely excited about XYZ, you may begin to believe that you too are excited about XYZ, but are you? Do you know yourself well enough to know that you are enjoying their vibration but you may be completely blase` on the entire topic personally.

Set healthy boundaries in your life and don’t apologize for them. If you find large gatherings overwhelming, invite friends over in smaller groups. Or initiate plans in a 1:1 setting. The point is not to disengage with the world, but to learn how to engage in a way that works for you. If there are certain people that you can’t avoid but trigger you, welcome to the rest of the world. But have a plan, set energetic boundaries through visualization and intention. You can wear protective crystals such as Shungite, Onyx, Hematite or Obsidian that block and absorb energy, stones like Blue Kyanite that transmute or a combination of the two.

Know your limits. This also refers back to #2, however, you are in control of your energy, not the worlds. Know what you can handle and what you can’t. I have very little problems anywhere I go, but I do know that I can’t handle the energy of a concert or a college football game in an arena full of people. About ¾ of the way through I am just worn out. However, if I exposed myself to that energy more, and I prepared for it more I know that I could. The cubicle work place is probably where an empath experiences the most stress. So often the energy in that environment can stagnate and hang in the air. Visualization of filling your space with white light and zipping up a protective shield around you of clean pure energy is the best way to wash the energy of the office before you interact with it.

Understand Law of Attraction. In the wise words of one of my earliest teachers, “It’s about energy Dummy.” You will receive energy in like form based on your core vibration. Again going back #2, it is important to know who you are and where you set your vibrational tone and that you set it INTENTIONALLY. You will draw like experiences to you. An empath has the ability to play with the energy of the world. You have extreme drawing power and extreme manifesting powers. If you are surrounded by negative people and experiences realize that you are putting them there. Clean up your beliefs and you will change your experience.

As an Empath we feel, that’s what we do, but it’s not about OUR feelings. We are feeling the energy of others, the room, the environment, etc. Literally, the world is not out to hurt our feelings. We are not VICTIMS. It is not personal. Just like a bird doesn’t fly to anger a fish. The world spins and we have the unique ability to understand it at its core. That is provided, of course, you can get out of your own way. ?????