This blog is all about happiness and ways to achieve it. If we wait for the right time to be happy, we may never be able to experience it. It wont ever find its way unless we decide to make it our only way! :) You may have a slice of it through this blog. ;)

And Happiness will find its way!

Thursday, 7 July 2016

Live Your Life With
Your Own Style!

Have we ever tried to wonder that in the yearning to always
remain ahead of the game, or the craving to reach at the top or to fill the
pockets with loads of money, we somewhere forget to live our life with a style,
that is unique, that is eternal and in a way that is truly happy? It is a
common observation to see that people crave for riches of the world but at the
same time, they may not know the fact that their hearts are getting deprived of
the most essential richness, and that is happiness.

We began our race to search for our unique identity, to
search for the leader in ourselves in the group of herds. But, in reality, yes,
the bitter truth is that we began to be different but end up being the same. We
began our journey to stand apart from the crowd but end up becoming the part of
that same crowd. In the journey, to find a place for our individuality, we lose
what we are and what we were. In simple words, I would like to say that the way
we need to lead our life and the way, we, in reality, lead it, are two distinct
poles and we need to fill this gap. This must be done so that one can say with
their heads held high, yes! I am living my life, yes! I am happy because I
chose it my way. This is my lifestyle! I live it differently! I live it unique
and it defines ‘me’. I am proud of it.

What my perception says that we must lead our life in a way
that it becomes inspiration for others, a ray of hope for the hopeless, the
shade of trees for the homeless. It is said, “You don’t have to be great to
start, but you have to start to be great.” Taking into consideration this
notion, this is the point to begin, to break free from the regular, monotonous
schedule we have been living and lead our life in the way we want to; to do
what we want to do, to do what makes us happy. No! I don’t mean to say that one
must leave their jobs and follow their dreams. My notion is that we begin to
walk on a certain a way to see our dreams turning to reality but then
somewhere, we forget to chase our dreams because minting money becomes an
important factor. Somewhere, we forget to remember why we began our journey.
Sometimes, we give no importance to the fact that only a good health can give
us more wealth.

Therefore, we must choose our way of life, the way which
defines us by never restricting ourselves to follow our dreams. The regular,
mundane schedule must not make you dull but early morning exercises, practising
yoga, meditation must rejuvenate your day to fill that spirit of liveliness in
you once again. Go on vacations once in a while, with your friends, family or
make a solo trip, as it is always said, “You can always make money but you won’t
get time to make memories again.” Give time for the things you like, let’s say
reading, singing, cooking or anything. Once in a while, stop yourself from running
in the race, sit, take a deep breath and do nothing, listen to music, sing the
songs along and just be happy.

It is not always
necessary to follow a schedule, yes it is important to some extent but just
remember that life means collecting memories, the haphazard moments of
happiness and sadness. Take out your childhood scrap book for once in a while,
browse through your old photographs with your cousins and feel simply happy.
Remember the countless moments spent together and this is assured that you
would be surely left with a smile on your cheek and tears in your eyes. Go to
your high school, meet old friends, meet your professors and enjoy the essence
of that moment.

Lifestyle is not about living your life what the world
states as “style” but it is about living your life what you call your own
style. Do what makes your heart happy, do what makes your soul fulfilled. Do well
to others and feel the goodness in you. Live your life with a smile that is
beautiful and with a style that is eternal!