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Re: Techniques for Tops

Those pictures are so hot Superboy69!

I love being a top and being in charge, and I like it when a bottom is active with me when I fuck him. I love it when bottoms push back when I fuck, so that my cock can get as deep in their butt as possible

Originally Posted by Superboy69

I fuck for a good long time - no quickies, and I make sure that he cums first

Wow! Do you make him cum just from fucking him, or do you masturbate him? I wish I could make a bottom cum without touching his cock

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Originally Posted by andymhlr

The best way for my bf to satisfy me it to fuck me so that he feels good!

I agree with that. More than half my enjoyment is being there to take his cock and his cum. I feel so satisfied to have his cum in me and my partner often says , looking at my satisfied face. "the cat's got the cream then!". And I have.

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Originally Posted by breathe

Many guys love to feel the balls of the top slapping into his ass, so I agree that it's good to switch up positions throughout the session and sometimes do doggystyle. It's also really animalistic when you sort of crouch behind his ass and hump him doggystyle like that. And that really gets the balls slappin'

I also like to flex my cock inside him when I first slowly ease in, to help him adjust as well as to feel the power of my dick inside him heh heh

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As a bottom one of my favorite things is the first penetration.. I love when he bends me over a couch or bed and lays his whole weight on me as starts to penetrate me.. that whole "oh my god its too much" panic goes threw my mind as he continues to push deeper till he bottoms out with that first push... that initial freakout just gets me soo twisted up thinking about it.. I love some big strong men getting what they want..

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A question for my top bros- How long can your cock stay hard inside your buddy?

Like I said before, I don't like quickies - they just don't let me savor the act of fucking a guy. I'll share this one experience with you - let me know what you think:

Years ago, an old boyfriend (Gerry) and I used to spend a lot of time fucking. I would usually top him, but I also bottomed for him a couple of times. I remember one afternoon- in particular. We had finished fucking and cleaning up. I was still super horny and my dick was fully erect. We jumped back in bed, played around a bit, and ended up cuddled in a "spoon" position. Then, I asked him if I could insert my dick back into him, but without really "fucking". He agreed. So, I applied a small amount of lube and slowly maneuvered my dick in. But, I didn't pump or thrust. I just stayed hard inside him for a good long time: three - four hours! During that time, I played with his balls, foreskin, and nipples. And, I kissed and licked the back of his neck, his cheeks, and around his ears. We rested at times, talked, played, and just fucking had a great sensual time. When we were done, I just withdrew my dick which was still rock hard!

Anything similar, guys?

My best bud and I met up in New Orleans for a long weekend. We spent the afternoon making out in a bar in the French Quarter, then he looked me in the eyes and said, "I want you to fuck me."

While we we 69ing each other I gently took my fingers and began loosening him up.

At first he acted like he was in a lot of pain, but as soon as he was comfortable he rolled over doggy style and put his hot ass up for penetration.

I inserted and he asked if I had put on a condom. I told him "Of course." Which was true.

With my cock halfway in his tight hole I dropped some spit onto the shaft of my cock then slowly penetrated him in and out until he was sufficiently lubed.

He arched his back and I leaned into him so that I could put my arms under his shoulders as if I were going to start massaging his chest. He grabbed my arms and began hugging me, and I hugged him back as I kiss the back of his neck, and licked his shoulders.

I fucked him slow and deep for hours.

At one point I actually thought that maybe he had fallen asleep, or had passed out. That's when I asked him if he was "okay."

With his eyes closed he smiled and said, "I'm in heaven having you up inside me."

At that point my dick was so hard I could drive nails with it!

He flexed his tight hole to acknowledge how much more hard that I had become, and said "Don't pull out until I feel the condom fill up with cum."

OMG! I had been fucking my bud for HOURS at this point.

I whispered in his ear, "I"m going to give you a few hard deep thrusts, and my condom is going to fill up your ass."

He got that little shit eating grin that he gets and quietly said, "Go for it."

I had to grab the base of my cock and pull the condom out for fear that I'd spill five pounds of cum into his ass and all over the bed!

Once I took care of that he rolled over exposing his beautiful cock, and sucked him off as I knuckled the area between his ball bag and his hole. I left just enough of his nut in my mouth so that he could taste his own cum inside my mouth, and then we held and gently kissed each other until we fell asleep in each others arms.

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This is a really hot thread.

I'm versatile and respond to whomever I'm with. I like to fuck smaller and younger guys and get fucked by older and larger guys. In either case -- and I'm sure I'm a minority with this -- I like for the bottom to be in some discomfort. I like for a top to be selfish and aggressive. His goal is to take a small, tight hole and to drill fuck it open so that when he's done, the hole is gaping wide. I love to watch porn where a bottom is struggling to take it and the top just keeps on going for his own pleasure. I also like seeing ass-to-mouth, where a bottom either sucks the tops cock clean after or between fuckings or when the bottom is spit roasted by two or more tops who take turns using his hole and mouth. Power bottoms actually turn me off. I hate it when the bottom demands that the top fuck him.

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As a bottom, here are a few tips for you tops.

Go slow and use plenty of lube even if they are experienced bottoms, theres nothing worse than when my boyfreind decides to just shove his dick in there, its painfull and can completly ruin the experience for me.

Mix it up but dont rush, theres no use staying in one position, it can get boring, as well as this dont just smash away, you have to make it interesting, try slow movements in and out then maybe pick up the speed a bit, then maybe try pulling your cock out and teasing the hole, and then putting it back in etc.

Work with the bottom, try and work out what they enjoy, when being bent over I love having my cheeks pulled apart, or my boyfreinds hands on my shoulders pulling me back and forward. Dont be scared to touch them, get as close as you can, hold each other, kiss each other.

Although putting all the above into practice may be more difficult. Its took me ages to get my chap well trained lol.

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I can fuck multiple times in a session. Usually the first time is a quickie and then it lasts longer the next couple of times. My record is 6 times in one night, but it was my first time with a Latino and I was really excited and horned up.

I like switching positions but doggie or cowboy is my favorite.

As for foreplay my favorite thing is rimming. I LOVE to eat ass.

One of my best bottoms is this HOT Brazilian guy. We usually meet for breakfast, get a room and literally fuck all day. His favorite position is spooning. We're getting a room next week in fact. Can't wait to get up in that hot Brazilian bubble butt again.

As I mentioned on another thread,I was a TOTAL top until I started playing with Latinos (Latino bottoms are hard to find). A couple of years ago I had a fuck buddy who was Puerto Rican and we used to flip fuck. Me on top first (he said getting cum in his ass made him horny). Flip fucking is the best.

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I've just started fucking a student. 21, fit, great tight hole. Two things I love: fucking for a long time is number one. Hate to waste a good hole with a pump&dump in 3 minutes. It leaves the bottom wanting more cock which unless you're deliberately going for a gang bang represents a failure by the top. I can (and like) to work for an hour or more, swapping positions and moods. I want the neighbours to hear, snigger, and by the end, ask why they are missing out.

With the twink, we started off with him greedy to get me in him. With plenty of lube and fingering I slowly got my cock in, and as he got used to my thick shaft, I geared up to putting it in deeper and faster.

Once he was used to taking it, we alternated between him on his back, me pumping slowly and steadily as we kissed, and doggy style where I'd be a bit rougher, slapping his ass from time to time, breaking the rhythm of my thrusting so the bottom doesn't know what to expect. I go from making love and whispering sweet nothings, to an out and out hard anal fuck with dirty talk thrown in. Male sexuality is a spectrum, and it is important to show younger bottoms that they can be loved, or fucked. Or both. Joined or owned. Sex is play, and play is exploration.

A couple of times he went on top. I don't really like this position as I like to be the one in control, but I let him ride me because he was so sweet and asked nicely. He sat astride my hips, rolling his pelvis. Eventually I held him still and thrust upwards a few times into his beautiful young body before standing up with his arms round my neck, legs round my hips, to fuck against the wall, my cock never once leaving his ass through the whole manoeuvre.

The other thing I love is spreading an ass to see the hole. After 40 mins this lad's hole was gaping open, lube oozing out. Holding the ass open, I pushed the whole length of my thick cock deep and hard into the wet juicy ass, all the way up to the pubes, and yanked out. He made a moaning sound and I did it again - and again, and again. His teeth were gritted and he had the bed sheets scrunched up in his hands. He never knew when the next thrust into his ruined hole was coming. For a moment our whole world was my cock in his ass, veined shaft straining in tight hole, seed churning in my balls.

I spanked his ass and went for a good session of long-dicking. This was too much for him and he begged me to cum. Instead I suggested we rest a while, and we lay on our sides, me behind him, kissing his neck. He let out an audible sigh of relief when I stripped off the condom, and guided my fingers to brush his nipples. We cooled down for five minutes or so. Then I asked if he was ready to cum. He nodded. 'You want to cum with my cock in you?'
He nodded again.

I unwrapped and rolled on a fresh condom, and gently guided the tip in. Amazingly his hole had tightened right up, and it felt almost like breaking him in all over again. This time though, I wasn't so careful, I knew he could take it and I found somehow a new angle to attack his hole with.

He moaned, I pushed in deep, thrust vigorously into him for another five minutes or so, and he came with his ass vibrating and clenching around my shaft. Normally I'd carry on thrusting until I came but the lad had now taken an hour of heavy, hard pounding and looked exhausted, so I pulled out and let him wank me to an orgasm that produced a shower of cum that hit my chin and splattered his chest.

All in all, I was very impressed that he could take it so hard for so long. I'm seeing him again and the aim is for him to take whatever I can dish out, until his hole is completely wrecked (I've got a buddy who has this done by me in a 2 hour session once a month). He's a very good student boy!

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1. I always make sure to rim a guys ass, but i tell them ahead of time they should shower. Not only do i like to do it, but it also loosens the guys ass up so when i go in i dont have to go as easy. I put their legs together and lock my arms forward to lift their ass up a bit so it's easier for me to reach.

2. I always listen to what noises the guy makes when i fuck him in different positons and what speed and force i use. Then after a few different positions i go to the one that they liked the best that i did and do that till they cum. Them cumming first is a must.

3. If their dick is long enough, i try to suck their dick while i fuck them, atleast the back of the head if it's too short. Also if i'ts really short i'll build up siliva in my mouth for a minute of two, pull out and start sucking their dick immediately after fucking them(all of this is if they're trying to cum, i know some guys that dont ever cum while getting fucked).

4. I try the usual sensitive spots on a the human body: both nipples, ears, hugging, ect. Then if i find one that hits them just right, i'll do it as much as possible. Also vs. if they like doing something to me i'll let them do it within reason, like if they like sucking my nipples, biting my ears, or stuff like that. I'll stop them if they bite too hard or go for my neck, i dont want a hickey on my neck as i walk downtown getting lunch with friends.

5. I only go balls deep if they let me, some guys dont like it really deep, they just want me to half halfway(one dude told me just to put the head in, because he doesnt like all the way). I respect their boundaries and only disregard the ones i wont see after that night. If it's someone i want to see later i will be respectful, if it's a one night stand then i will do what i want.

6. Put lube up inside the dudes ass before fucking, and re-apply lube often. A lubed ass is a happy ass

7. When i cum i tell them and ask them where they want it(stomach, face, mouth, ect) but i always avoid the hair, cum is a bitch to clean out of hair(whenever i jack off i cum on my stomach but it always trickles down my legs so i know how much it hurts to pull it out of hair)

8. Not alot of tongue during foreplay, but some mid-act of fucking. I see how the kiss in foreplay and try to copy their way, then maybe alittle more tongue in mid act of fucking

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Originally Posted by breathe

Many guys love to feel the balls of the top slapping into his ass, so I agree that it's good to switch up positions throughout the session and sometimes do doggystyle. It's also really animalistic when you sort of crouch behind his ass and hump him doggystyle like that. And that really gets the balls slappin'

I also like to flex my cock inside him when I first slowly ease in, to help him adjust as well as to feel the power of my dick inside him heh heh

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Wow! reading these threads I realize I've never really been fucked good. I wish I could meet one of you tops so you can show me what Ive been missing. And I'm in my mid twenties!! All my tops have never taken the time to see if I'm OK. I always thought I was but now I see I didn't know anything.

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Originally Posted by Superboy69

Okay, I have to admit that I've never fucked a guy that many times in one session. I think I came four times with one guy sometime back (fucked him three times and he sucked me off one more time). Question = can any of you top bros beat Hot4Latinos record? hehe

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I had a great fuck last night with the guy I'm seeing. I was pretty tired so he initiated. He played with my balls and my dick through my underwear, then slipped my nuts out to play with them some more very lightly. They pulled up a bit tighter and my cock got ROCK hard. Finally I couldn't play it cool anymore and I went from gently playing with his hole to putting him in the missionary position and teasing his hole with my cock. It felt amazing and made me feel like such a man when I put the condom on, since I was more rock-hard than I've been in a long time. Unrolling it felt so good and especially with him watching. You guys know the rest. Fucked him nice and good :P

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Originally Posted by Superboy69

Hey! All top guys-

I was watching college wresting on tv earlier today and it got me so horny. I love watching those guys pin each down and have the top dominate the bottom. Of course they don't take it into fucking, but it gave me some ideas about how to pin down a bottom bro. I need to hit the gym more often, build some muscle, and practice some new moves.

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So I finally made the jump and had my first experience with a hot top! He was a guy I met online, he was great, helped get me loose and feel relaxed (which did take a while)
i was flat on my stomach with a pillow under my hips so my ass was lifted up, he just went inch at a time, getting me use to the feeling, it was driving my body crazy! We ended up like picture 3 above, he was basically pinning me down showing me who was boss while he fucked me with long deep strokes. it was so erotic hearing him moan, knowing my ass was doing that to him...

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Originally Posted by Superboy69

Hey, buddy- from the tops' perpective, it's our big hard dicks that are "doing that" to you bottom boys. Hehe. I like what you say, buddy, about how your top pinned you down and showed you who's boss with his deep thrusts. It sounds like a hot man-to-man fuck session!

hehe for sure there was only one boss there!! his cock had all the power and he new it, i could practically feel it throbbing while it was inside me!

Question for you tops though, when the bottom is riding you (on top) do you like us to be active or do you still prefer to pound?

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Originally Posted by coolperson05

How's your student boy now? :P

He's doing very well! He knows the drill now - I call him when I need to fuck, we fix a time and he's prepared and clean for my cock. I really want to get another student and teach him how to fuck... Kind of a fantasy!

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Originally Posted by UncutBrit

He's doing very well! He knows the drill now - I call him when I need to fuck, we fix a time and he's prepared and clean for my cock. I really want to get another student and teach him how to fuck... Kind of a fantasy!

Wow just read what you did with him the first time, it sounds totally amazing, I have to say I'm kind of jealous, how long was he able to take the long dicking for? what position do you work him in most often?

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Originally Posted by Superboy69

Hey, buddy- from the tops' perpective, it's our big hard dicks that are "doing that" to you bottom boys. Hehe. I like what you say, buddy, about how your top pinned you down and showed you who's boss with his deep thrusts. It sounds like a hot man-to-man fuck session!

I've been top and bottom and you're both right: From the tops POV its him "doing it" from the mottom's POV it's "my ass doing that to him."

For example: I only bottom for Latinos. But I love the feeling that a hot Latin stud is "showing me whose boss," and using my ass for his pleasure. Ironically, it only makes me want his cock even more.

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Originally Posted by Hot4Latinos

I've been top and bottom and you're both right: From the tops POV its him "doing it" from the mottom's POV it's "my ass doing that to him."

For example: I only bottom for Latinos. But I love the feeling that a hot Latin stud is "showing me whose boss," and using my ass for his pleasure. Ironically, it only makes me want his cock even more.

As a UK guy I've sadly never been with a Latino guy, what is it about them that is so good?

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Originally Posted by Críostóir

Can't find that with the new system. Could you link to it?

It's post 102.

iplayhard - depends on the guy and how fit I'm feeling! 2 hours is my max, I have to be in the zone, and I treat it like a workout (stretch warm up and pace myself). Perhaps I should break for a protein shake half way through!

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Originally Posted by Superboy69

Man! I love to fuck a guy! Lately, there have been a few threads where guys have been asking questions about the pros and cons of being on bottom or on top during sex.

I've always been a top. I guess that it just comes naturally to me. Don't misunderstand - I have been fucked and I have enjoyed it, but the vast majority of times, I wind up on top of my buddy. So, I have questions for all my top brothers-
What makes you a "top"? How do you go about fucking a guy? What favorite technique do you use in your role as a top man?

I'll share a few things that I like to do when I'm fucking-. I make sure that I go deep inside my buddy when I'm with him - balls deep. I fuck for a good long time - no quickies, and I make sure that he cums first. Finally, I try to arrange it so that when I am ready to cum, that I'm in a face-to-face position with my dick deep inside so that my buddy can feel the bottom of my shaft pumping my sperm into him. Some of my buds say that they really enjoy that sensation of being inseminated.

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Uncutbrit, how much do you like your bottom to suck you before it? Or do you prefer to cum twice, once from oral before and then later from the fucking? you sound like you really know what you are doing!

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Originally Posted by Superboy69

For all of us tops-
Here are three gifs to remind us why it feels so good as a top. These are about that moment when our dicks penetrate a bottom's warm tight ass and how good it feels to give pleasure to another guy.

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I would LOVE to get fucked in the position in this pic. Sorry for the small size of the pic, but it's the best one I could find. This position works best if the top is rather tall and strong, and the bottom is on the light and limber side. It's a great position for those who prefer their sex to be more dom/sub in nature, and very much athletic.

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Originally Posted by UncutBrit

I've just started fucking a student. 21, fit, great tight hole. Two things I love: fucking for a long time is number one. Hate to waste a good hole with a pump&dump in 3 minutes. It leaves the bottom wanting more cock which unless you're deliberately going for a gang bang represents a failure by the top. I can (and like) to work for an hour or more, swapping positions and moods. I want the neighbours to hear, snigger, and by the end, ask why they are missing out.

With the twink, we started off with him greedy to get me in him. With plenty of lube and fingering I slowly got my cock in, and as he got used to my thick shaft, I geared up to putting it in deeper and faster.

Once he was used to taking it, we alternated between him on his back, me pumping slowly and steadily as we kissed, and doggy style where I'd be a bit rougher, slapping his ass from time to time, breaking the rhythm of my thrusting so the bottom doesn't know what to expect. I go from making love and whispering sweet nothings, to an out and out hard anal fuck with dirty talk thrown in. Male sexuality is a spectrum, and it is important to show younger bottoms that they can be loved, or fucked. Or both. Joined or owned. Sex is play, and play is exploration.

A couple of times he went on top. I don't really like this position as I like to be the one in control, but I let him ride me because he was so sweet and asked nicely. He sat astride my hips, rolling his pelvis. Eventually I held him still and thrust upwards a few times into his beautiful young body before standing up with his arms round my neck, legs round my hips, to fuck against the wall, my cock never once leaving his ass through the whole manoeuvre.

The other thing I love is spreading an ass to see the hole. After 40 mins this lad's hole was gaping open, lube oozing out. Holding the ass open, I pushed the whole length of my thick cock deep and hard into the wet juicy ass, all the way up to the pubes, and yanked out. He made a moaning sound and I did it again - and again, and again. His teeth were gritted and he had the bed sheets scrunched up in his hands. He never knew when the next thrust into his ruined hole was coming. For a moment our whole world was my cock in his ass, veined shaft straining in tight hole, seed churning in my balls.

I spanked his ass and went for a good session of long-dicking. This was too much for him and he begged me to cum. Instead I suggested we rest a while, and we lay on our sides, me behind him, kissing his neck. He let out an audible sigh of relief when I stripped off the condom, and guided my fingers to brush his nipples. We cooled down for five minutes or so. Then I asked if he was ready to cum. He nodded. 'You want to cum with my cock in you?'
He nodded again.

I unwrapped and rolled on a fresh condom, and gently guided the tip in. Amazingly his hole had tightened right up, and it felt almost like breaking him in all over again. This time though, I wasn't so careful, I knew he could take it and I found somehow a new angle to attack his hole with.

He moaned, I pushed in deep, thrust vigorously into him for another five minutes or so, and he came with his ass vibrating and clenching around my shaft. Normally I'd carry on thrusting until I came but the lad had now taken an hour of heavy, hard pounding and looked exhausted, so I pulled out and let him wank me to an orgasm that produced a shower of cum that hit my chin and splattered his chest.

All in all, I was very impressed that he could take it so hard for so long. I'm seeing him again and the aim is for him to take whatever I can dish out, until his hole is completely wrecked (I've got a buddy who has this done by me in a 2 hour session once a month). He's a very good student boy!

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I like that pic superboy, I confess i do that when I get really horny! It's especially hot when the top is cumming, I like to pull him in really close and feel every inch of it while I try to squeeze my ass

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Originally Posted by Superboy69

I appreciate what you say, iplayhard. And, I don't mind fucking a guy when he's on top of me and enjoying himself. But, my preference is to be on top -literally. I like to feel "in control" of the fucking.

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Originally Posted by Superboy69

I appreciate what you say, iplayhard. And, I don't mind fucking a guy when he's on top of me and enjoying himself. But, my preference is to be on top -literally. I like to feel "in control" of the fucking.

If I'm going to sit on a cock, it's so the fucker can't pull out. You're not getting your cock back until I'm done with it! Now, that being said, if you promise to be good top, you can take the reins as much as you want.