Your #1 Rule When Dating Korean Women

Are you in Korea and trying hard to meet and have dates with Korean women?

I get a lot of questions on dating Korean women and if there’s ONE rule I can share is this: Keep your standards high and your expectations low.

If you want to have a fun time with a beautiful Korean woman then I recommend keeping this rule in the back of your mind. It will help you by guaranteeing that

• you and her have fun

• you stay true to yourself

• you stay sane

As you apply this into your dating life you’ll find yourself having more fun experiences with Korean women. You might just end up being with a Korean woman who makes you happy!

Make Sure You Have Fun!

The #1 mistake guys make when going on dates is taking them and the women too seriously. They also hope against hope while walking on eggshells that everything will go well.

If you want to make the date a success I recommend acting as if you don’t expect anything from her. Not even her showing up to the date! In fact the lower your expectations the more likely you’ll be yourself and she’ll be into you.

You’ll also find yourself more able to relax and make her have fun. This is very unique for any woman! Most women (and especially Korean women) yearn for a fun date. Korean women especially because they only go on their soggaeting dates with some boring (read: typical) Korean guys.

You can shine by dropping the expectations whilst keeping your standards high.

Attention: This Is Not About Your Beauty Standards

I’m also talking about how she treats you. If you feel like she’s mistreating you (for example showing up late at the date) make sure you let her know – gently but firmly. This is easier if you didn’t expect her to show up on time.

With respect to how she looks it’s up to you. Understand that the prettier she is chances are that she’ll be busier and more unable to date you.

I also recommend knowing yourself well. Know yourself with respect to what you’re willing and not willing to tolerate.

This is just one reason why applying this crucial rule to your dating life is helpful.

Stay True To Yourself

Most people think that being alone is the worst situation to be in.

I disagree.

What’s worse is being in a relationship with someone we’re not happy with or want to be with. This happens with guys who settle for women they’re not happy with.

To make sure you avoid that trap is by staying true to and keeping your standards. At the same time if your expectations are low then you avoid being disappointed and frustrated. Instead you’ll be at peace with it all which will ironically bring you closer to what you want.

Stay Sane On Your Dating Ventures!

Many women think that men meet and date a lot of women because they’re dogs! Although there’s some truth to our reproductive behavior the main reason is that many women (and men) are unreliable.

This is even worse with Korean women! I’ve travelled the world and have never met women as flaky as Korean women! Granted it’s mainly because of their social and filial obligations that are more important than your date but still…if you let the flaking get to you it will (as I have if you couldn’t tell by now.) 😉

Note: Many Korean women ARE reliable and yes there are flaky men too.

So when you’re working on dating your ideal Korean woman there are many things you don’t control. Her behavior is an example.

So what can you do? Keep your sanity as you go out by keeping your expectations low. Even if SHE sets the date and talks about it – don’t expect her to show up.

International Dating Is Tough!

Searching for your ideal partner is a tough game. Everyone gets hurt and gets pleasant surprises. This is more true with interracial dating – there’s a different

• gender

• culture

• language

It’s important to be patient with yourself and accepting that some things won’t work out. All in all it’s a game of life and this #1 rule will make sure that you’ll stay true to Rocky Balboa’s cliche quote that I’ll leave you with:

“It’s not about how hard you hit. It’s about how hard you can get hit and keep moving forward. It’s about how much you can take and keep moving forward.”

Stay true and you’ll find and date a beautiful and fun Korean woman who can’t thank you enough for coming into her life.