It's the psychological makeup of the chick that matters more than anything. Assuming you're doing all the "right things" as a man / husband, if she has issues, every day will seem like a year in jail, and you'll want to be around other women just to relax. Of course, if you're someone that needs the rush of young love, it'll happen sooner rather than later, and you're doomed from the get go.

Lot of retards on Getbig think that women actually want to marry THEM. Ha! When the right woman comes along you will know and it will be the best thing that ever happened to you. Sure, I look at other chicks, sure I jerk off thinking about them but the wife is the one that puts up with your bad moods and washes your dirty socks and still loves you.

My advice, don't go thinking you're all that because you probably aren't and if you can't stomach the ups and downs then marriage isn't for you, it's strictly for the adults in this world.

I was sick of it before I got married. Just too lazy to put effort into chasing bitches. As for cheating..yes pussy is all around and it gets easier to do with other married chicks who are bored of the same dick but it is not worth all the drama when you get caught. Luckily I am still married after all my shenanigans.

The other thing is that if you cheat women do NOT forget. My Dad's cousin was married for 35 years and his wife new he cheated from time to time and when the kids were grown she divorced him over it, she did not forget. He had to start again at 60 after his cheating days were behind him!

you already cheat upfront, so youre first.and yes, cheatin at every single oppurtunity, they think youll do it anyway, and you only live once, and what we live for if not having sex as long as we can?

it gets boring after 2 months.

after 6 months, first murder thoughts are created.

after 1 year, you cant stand her smell anymore.

something like that.

haha you da man.

actually i have thought about cheating her right off the bast just once to garantee i would be first. but at the same time im a romantic guy, I WANT to believe that the perfect marriage can exist. Still i get scared shitless of getting married and not banging 18 year olds ever again.

My wife and I have been together for 10 years (married for 4), and we're each others only partners during that time. We fuck a lot. Married couples are usually much happier in their sex lives than single people. There's new sex, and there's good sex. if you need new sex, don't get married. if you want good sex, get married. but don't just marry a hot bitch. as i have said before on this site, actually make sure you can have fun with a person one on one, and not just when having sex. my wife and i are best friends, and we have sex. its great. but i have to reiterate the fact that she's not crazy, she's rational, and smart. one of her friends complained to her that her husband/boyfriend was getting too "weird" in bed. her response was,"well, you're the one person that they get to be crazy sexual with, and they want to do that with you. deny that guy for too long and he'll either start fucking someone else, or he'll remove himself emotionally from the relationship." her friend did not care for my wife's response...they divorced 2 years later.

wife test: take a car trip with them. if they only talk when conversation naturally presents itself, that's a keeper. nothing screams crazy and insecure like a woman who always talks. women like that should be eradicated.

After how many years (or months) together you started to feel sick and totally bored out of fucking always the same girl?

And does cheating once in a while relief a little the above mentioned effect?

wtf?

Happily married 6 years, never cheated on my wife, never intend to cheat on my wife, never will cheat on my wife.

Fact is I used to have sex with her literally 3 times a day, and she'd try to run from it lmao but of course enjoyed it. Naturally high hormone levels -- annoying for a woman all the time. Now a days we do it 3 times a week, but when we do it, we do it for a few hours and it's GREAT!

You gotta be a weak character to wana cheat. Seriously brah? Is that even a question to ask? Why would you even think like this?

I have amazing sex life, all the tools that assume that being married you don't get great sex, don't know what they are talking about.

On that note, as a husband and wife you gotta share with each other your thoughts/fantasies/emotions/etc... Communication is key. Get creative, romantic, etc... with your wife.

Don't be a typical guy that just wants to plunge in, release and turn around. I enjoy more pleasuring my wife than just cumming which is easy. Women like that. Put some effort into it lol and it won't be boring.