My boss and I have this incredible chemistry between us. We get along so
well, and he has many of the qualities I would look for in a man. However he is
married (and my boss!). Lately, he makes a lot of comments about me, like
jokingly, but like he is trying to see how I feel about him. Recently, he
invited me out for Happy Hour Friday after work and told me that he'd like to
spend more time with me, but can't ask me to do things because his wife is
jealous of me. (And I met his wife only once!) We haven't spoken of any related
issues since that night. He also said that night at the bar, that if he weren't
my boss and weren't married he would like to get involved with me. But it's
almost as if he said that to see if I would accept those conditions, almost
proposing an affair to me (my gut level feeling). I told him, "in some
other dimension" we could get involved but not like this. We haven't
spoken about that night/conversation since then, but he constantly talks to me
at work and I catch him looking at me often. I know the right thing to do is to
NOT get involved, yet we are so attracted to one another. HELP!