Mature Women Share Their Sex Tips and Tricks!

The younger among us might think we know all there is to know about sex. In fact, I can think of plenty of people who go around acting like they invented the idea, and they’ll turn their noses up at the idea of having sex when they’re older.

The truth is, the experts in the bedroom are the older men and women. Without trying to state the obvious, they’ve been at it longer, and probably have managed more positions in the bedroom than we could ever imagine!

So we have put together these sex tips and tricks written by sexy mature women, so that you can start learning their favourite bits about sex and get having mind-blowing orgasms in no time at all.

Take your time

The main problem that many mature women talk about in the bedroom is rushing things. We’re all guilty of this, but it seems that as soon as we get into the bedroom we have a little bit of foreplay with pussy-licking and dick-sucking before we jump straight to the main event an a mediocre orgasm.

Mature women tell us that we need to stop rushing through sex and start actually enjoying it. Yes, you might be thinking that you enjoy sex a lot, even if you do rush through it, but you could be having so much more fun if you took your time.

One older woman suggests that a great way to stop yourself from rushing through oral sex is to use a timer. Yes, you might think it is the least sexy thing in the world to stop sex to get the kitchen timer, but it works. You set the timer for however long you think is necessary for oral sex (ten minutes or so) and then go to it. You could do whatever you want to the other person except fuck them. That you can’t do until the bell rings to save you from oral sex.

Not only does it make sure you give your partner plenty of attention in the right way, but it also makes you both excited for when the time will go off. As soon as it does you can guarantee that you’ll jump straight into bed and have some of the most explosive sex of your life.

Be aware that doing this every time might make sex boring, as you could find yourselves simply waiting for the bell to ring. Don’t do it every time, but use this technique for those times when you really want to show your partner how much you appreciate them and love making them come.

Be more adventurous!

When you are having a lot of sex with one person you tend to fall into a routine. It might be a little kissing before you go to their neck, down to their tits, and then to their pussy. You’ll adopt the same positions and do then in the same order, before lying back on the bed and wondering when sex got so boring.

The solution, according to mature women, is to step out of your comfort zone. We know why we do it. We like the comfort zone. It’s where we feel safe, and the things we are curious about outside of it might go wrong. There’s nothing worse than that, right?

Well, mature women tell us that missed opportunities are actually even worse. If there is something that you want to try in the bedroom, grow a pair of balls and do it! Tell you partner “honey, I’d like you to spank me tonight” and see what happens.

The worst case scenario is that they will say no, be creeped out by your suggestion, and never sleep with you again. If they do, so what? It is their loss, and you are sure to find someone out there who is more than happy to do all the dirty things to you that you are hoping for.

Most of the time though you’ll find that your partner is just as eager and curious as you are. They will be willing to try out something new with you, and the best part is you can both talk about it and figure out what it is you like so much, so you can come up with more things to try. What’s not to like about that?

Let us be selfish

There is a common misconception that sex ends when the man has an orgasm. If you believe that is the case, stop and wonder why that is. Why should sex end when the man has had an orgasm? What if the woman hasn’t? Will you simply let them sort themselves out while you get dressed because, as far as you’re concerned, your part is over?

If you do that, you can pretty much guarantee that they won’t sleep with you again. After all, would you go back to a woman if she wouldn’t let you orgasm during sex? Instead, you need to start concentrating on the woman and her needs. The alternative, mature women tell us, is to start letting women be selfish in the bedroom.

If she wants to go on top and ride you through orgasm after orgasm, let her. If she wants to do it doggy style and rub at her clit while she does it, let her. You will find that there is no bigger orgasm for you than watching your hot and sexy woman beneath you fucking you until she screams your name out loud.

Should the worst happen and you finish before her, don’t simply lie back on the bed thinking “that was great!” Instead, do your part and get her going again. Lick her body all over and taste the sweet sweat you have helped create and lick her pussy. Get her to orgasm and help finish her off for a memory you’ll never forget. You never know, you might find your cock perking back up as you ready yourself for round two… or three… or four!

Are you an older woman or man with some hot sex tips to share, or have you tried any of these ideas out? Let us know in the comment box below or by heading over to the Escort Norway forum and share your ideas over there.

Lara Mills is a writer who has four years of sex industry expertise behind her. Since she entered the adult industry, she has worked on the Escort Advertising forums, before moving into her current role three years ago.

Since then she has gained a fine reputation with her blogs on sex advice, sexual health and amusing news stories from around the globe. She is also a campaigner for the rights of sex workers from all over the world.

In her spare time, Lara keeps herself active by going running, and is something of a film buff. She also loves to go travelling.