Wednesday, January 01, 2014

Ludacris Baby Rumors Confirmed

Back in November there was a not so blind item suggesting rapper Ludacris had gotten someone other than his longtime girlfriend Eudoxie pregnant [click here if you missed that].

The blind item has been revealed...

According to TMZ Ludacris just filed court docs to legally establish paternity for Cai Bella Bridges, born December 9th, and to set a limit on the amount of child support that can be awarded to her mother.

Luda is claiming he pulls in only $25,000 a month which would limit child support to $1,750.00 a month under Georgia law.

First of all, she was never in medical school to be a doctor. She was studying to be a physician's assistant. I believe she had just started when she met Luda. She originally was a respiratory therapist or something. I only know this because I am a registered nurse in Miami and knew someone who had gone to RT school with her. She was always just biding her time, waiting for some rich guy to snatch her up. Being in the medical field gave her access to doctors, pharma reps, etc but even their money isn't as long as a rapper's.

Anyway, I'm not trying to downplay her education because becoming a PA is not easy but it is not the same as going for an actual MD. In fact I think she wasn't even accepted into the PA program but was taking pre-placement courses. She also speaks french so that added to the "ohhhh she so educated and purrttty" narrative.

When she hooked up with Luda that was all she needed. He needed a chick who looked good enough to flaunt but wasn't a "typical" Draya type know whore in the rap/sports community. Eudoxie had her fair share of athletes but she was much more low profile and came from a good family so I hear. She also didn't have a baby which made her look "smart" kind of how Cassie looks "smarter" than Diddy's baby mama's even though she is the true bottom bitch.

Anywho, I really don't see this as being that big of a deal. When men cheat they don't use condoms especially if they aren't using them in their "primary" relationship. As a nurse I will tell you that the percentage of the population that uses condoms is VERY low. Most people do not use them whether they are being monogamous or not.

Someone posted this statement in another thread but I thought it was worth repeating because it's so on point and applies to both Men and Women: Looks will never be enough to change anyone's messy character....so please with the superficiality.

It's amazing how some folks would go on and on about how hot, fine, stunning, etc Luda's girl is and how she was #winning. Not taking anything away from her looks but this goes to show how it failed to insulate her (and Gabby, etc) from being just like any other "regular" looking chick who gets fucked around on.

All the young and not so young and clueless who live vicariously through celebrities and even regular folks who appear to be living a better life kill me with that #Winning bullshit. This type of mess right here shows why people need to choose Character over Personality or Looks.

There's an old rap song or verse that said something like, "Pu$$y has no face." True indeed. True indeed.

These boule kneegrows get around don't they? she really need to take her ass back to school. in this day and age relying on a man for finances is sure way to wake up broke, get your own shit, so you don't have to put up with his mess. at this stage if she's had any real ambition she would let him fund her education and work on starting her own business.

PA or medical doctor, this is why choosing an education and standing on your own two feet is a much better choice than trying to get a "baller." A woman with self-esteem and dignity would be able to walk away from a cheating boyfriend and his new baby mama in spite of the hurt.

She only has two yrs too finish school she knew if this didn't pan out she could always go back y'all act like these girls haven't planned for shit like this I'm sure they have nice little stashes! I would....

What is this taking a break business?!?! Taking a break is supposed to be where you take some time out by yourself, evaluate the relationship, evaluate yourself, get some advise from wise counsel. Go on some dates with a few people just to see how it feels, but most of all you're supposed to make it so that you can see what your life is like without the other person.

Coming back into a relationship with a damn baby on the way permanently extends your break. How you leave with yourself and come back with two extra people?

These women must think their Cookie Johnson, and look what she ended up with.

11:06I have been in a long term relationship for over 7 years and I always use condoms never liked birth control. Men change their minds too much for me plusi believe in controling my own fertility. Most women would call me crazy because of there lack of discipline but I go off of my own instincts. It takes a lot of time to really know a person's heart and motives and because of my own boundries I have never got pregnant yet. But when I choose to it will be by my own terms.

11:11 That is thr reason their is so many illegimate families out here especially in the black community. If I can help it I refused to glorify single motherhood under ignorant circumstances because a real women can control het fertility and ability to produce.

Ludicrous (I'm spelling it by the correct spelling because this nigga is truly ludicrous), in that picture, looks like this old neighborhood drunk that used to live in my grandma's neighborhood. He was always hitching ride from errbody and showing up at people's wedding drunk and flirting with all the females, both women and underage girls!

This should not be a surprise because the black culture glorifies being a player, "pimp', whore, heaux, "boss". Those that live by the word & stress commitment & family are vilified. They are square, not cool & "acting white". Blacks wonder why we are treated with no respect. Our behavior is not respectful. I don't care what others do, I'm talking about us & just because other races do it doesn't mean we should do the same. This race is seriously messed up. Why have you never seen an Asian on Maury? Because they are a more honorable people. We need to get our morals in order. #realtalk

To further prove 11:06AM point ... read this on another blog about yet another celeb caught dippin' his little dipper.

So we were talking via facetime for like 2 weeks then He told me to come to Charlotte for his game. Thats when I first actually met him in person. Long story short we had sex at the Marriott. We continued to talk via text & facetime then he told me to come to NYC for Christmas so I did. All this talking & texting, he NEVER mentioned a girlfriend. I went to his house Christmas day, we had sex & I spent the night. I finally found out he had a girlfriend after snooping around on his close friend page. And he didnt officially tell me he had a girlfriend until we fell out recently. So he is a a******, who has a girlfriend but literally BLOWING me up to come see him. And we had unprotected sex. Smh but he never mentioned a girlfriend not once !These athletes are disgusting & cheaters.

And yet she's mad at this athlete for accepting an opportunity she willingly provided him with.

These dumb ass athletes and celebs are their own worst enemies. How hard is it to wrap your shit up? This is why we have HIV and STDs running rampant through the community. Too many fools having unprotected sex. People don't even respect themselves enough to protect their own health, much less the health of their sexual partners.

And poor money management is another issue these dumbasses need to be educated on. Who needs thieving accountants and shady entourages when they are shelling out child support for 5 and 6 kids?

And before somebody comes in here trying to blame it on the golddigging jump off, I will never understand why these men will have sex with whores while pretending she hasn't done the same freaky shit (unprotected) with the next man and bunch more.

Not to mention the risk of getting a ho pregnant there are so many dangers with going in raw....he endangering himself and his girl , I mean really! Women are sensitive to PVH which men don't show no signs of, we can get it from some ho he fucker years ago who just happened to have fucked 400 men herself! I got my PVH vaccine and I sure hope to god it holds, last thing I need is uteran cancer because of some ho of a nicca.

How is it these dudes are in managamous relationships and they're impregnating hoes? Why aren't they impregnating the women their with? Him and his lady appear to be together all the time, when did he find time to cheat? And why aren't men ever satisfied with what they have? His lady is beautiful and smart. I thought Luda was smarter and had his isht together and wasn't like them other rappers. Guess he sure had me and his lady fooled! Smh @ this fraudulent lil nicca.

When it comes to sex, a lotta people simply don't think and act responsibly. A lotta people just lie they muhfuggin ass off to get what they want. A lotta people are naive, so they get taken advantage of. A lotta people are too trusting. Mostly, people just talk a lot about safe sex - promoting the shit and everything lmao. Actions always speak loudest regardless of how loud you yell "wrap it up!"

Unless a rape is taking place, it typically takes two people arriving at the same decision to have unprotected sex. Some muthafuckas just don't care and some people are naive and stupid and walk around with the "it isn't gonna happen to me" mindset.

And like I said before, there seems to be a sick element of our culture that makes "putting a baby in her" a very casual thing. Likewise, it seems like becoming pregnant by some one that you have no established future with is happening way too casually. And when you consider the many std casualties and lives that are hampered and destroyed by all of this sexual promiscuity, it's even more sickening. There's no blanket answer except to say that individuals have to be more responsible and empathetic, and stop being so wanton for whatever the desire is, whether it be to smash as many females as possible or to lock a dude down.

I just don't get it about the whole unprotected sex thing. If you are going to have sex, wrap it up. I just don't understand why so many Americans, especially our Black and Hispanic populations, can not take their asses to the nearest CVS or Rite Aid and buy some damn condoms. They even sell condoms at the gas station. If their ratchet, rank asses can buy Jordans, LV bags and lacefront wigs, then their asses can drop $5 on some condoms!

Snitch please post the FULL story with all the facts when doing posts. I'm tired of reading stories in full on other blogs. Anyhoo, the woman in question is Luda's friend from high school. If him and his high school friend are tight like that why is he not with her? And why is he cheating on Eudoxie with her? Wow @ this story! All the diamonds in the world (Luda bought Eudoxie a diamond bracelet for NYE and posted it on Instagram) couldn't make up for this mess.

@3:16pm - I don't think it's just a black/hispanic issue either. There's just so many more whites in this country that their percentages are always gonna seem less affected by these issues that seem more rampant in minority communities. It isn't just a cultural problem, it's a societal problem.

Here's the thing. The dude will go see a female with CONDOMS IN HIS POCKETS. The female will have CONDOMS IN HER DRESSER. But when shit goes down, a lotta niggas are like "I'ma just go with it until she tells me to get the condom, and then play dumb if she does.." I can't speak to the female mindset in that scenario, but basic math tells me that many of em like receiving raw dick just like the dudes don't mind giving it out.

People mostly talk a lot. I call it "Facebook Syndrome". Your life can be all jacked up, but that FB profile is on point. Got 750 friends but really only have 2 friends and them niggas stay trippin on you, so really you don't have any friends. Some people stay talkin like their sex lives are great and safe but you check their medicine cabinet and it'll make you nauseous.

These women are afraid the man will not be bothered with them if the woman insists that he wear a condom.

We also have a lot of idiots who still believe that just become someone looks clean and healthy, they don't have any STDs.

The majority of people would never wipe someone else's snotty nose with our own hands, yet so many people have no issue with having unprotected sex (oral, vaginal, or anal) with someone they barely know, or someone whose medical profile they are unfamiliar with.

You are right about how the population of whites affect numbers when comparing to minority groups. It is the same with the HIV/AIDS statistics.

American society is uncivilized to me. We always criticize other countries and their cultural habits, for centuries WHITES have gone to other countries to teach Christianity to groups that they felt were primitive and they still do that shit through missionaries. There are many countries in the East, countries in South America and in Africa that are very Westernized because we felt that they need to "keep up with the Joneses" and they knew that in order to prosper they had to be like Americans. And yet and still, we are a country of people that are rude, racist, deadly, violent, and uneducated (how the fuck are we a first world nation and got kids, rich and poor, that are dumb as fuck?). We lack manners and etiquette, we are some of the fattest motherfuckas on the planet, 99% of our population is in poverty, struggling, or middle class and STILL struggling to stay on top, and we market sex to our youth yet preach that sex is for marriage.

To those always preaching black men are African kings & its in their DNA to be with multiple women & father multiple children. Well talk about the black women. It is common in African societies in preparation for marriage the groom is to provide the bride's family with a "dowery"(sp). It would be an animal, cow, property. Only then would the famiy judge him worthy. Now if the same argument applies to modern black males, shouldn't the same be applied yo modern black women? Should'nt modern black be honorable & have a man prove himself worthy of marriage? That whole African king argument is bull & no excuse for men to be heauxs. Black have set very low standards & we spread our too fast & too often

@4:43 I didn't mean it in a bad way. It's just that a lot if the things you have in your country, I don't have in mine. And vice versa! Like section 8, I see it on here a lot. And have no clue what it is. No harm meant.

First Dwade now Luda...Clearly black americans are still continuing with their baby mama n baby daddy bullshit in 2014...I though the new year would Come with more dignity and morals but clearly not...add that to the strippers,rappers n trannies,video hoes and single parent families... Oh did i forget the pedophiles who sodomize n turn out small boys... No wonder America is a country i would never visit with my 6 yr old daughter.... All kinds of evilness!

I don't believe Luda is gay. Not for one second. And a pic is worth a thousand words if not dollas. That main chick is about to be mighty embarrassed to have to explain that NYE gift. It would have to be worth alot less then $1700 if Luda wants that low child support order to stick..

When award-winning rapper and actor Ludacris orders up a magnum these days, he’s not talking champagne. Aside from working on his latest album Ludaversal, and appearing in the fifth installment of the Fast and the Furious series, Fast Five (due out later this month), Luda has partnered with Trojan to spread HIV/AIDS awareness. I recently chatted with the hip-hop artist about his gig with the Live Large Project, a freestyle rap competition presented by Magnum.“Staying safe is extremely important; being safe is extremely important,” said Ludacris, who admitted it’s not such a bad thing being associated with the large condom brand. “I’m a firm supporter of the project; I mean that literally — a firm supporter,” he said . (We get it.)The Live Large Project is a freestyle rap competition that takes place in several cities across the country (Detroit, Miami, Bay Area, New York City). The winners from each city will get a shot at performing in Miami for a final showdown. The ultimate prize — $5,000 and a year’s supply of condoms. FORBES went to the Highline Ballroom in New York City to catch a glimpse of the competition.

These women are afraid the man will not be bothered with them if the woman insists that he wear a condom.

We also have a lot of idiots who still believe that just become someone looks clean and healthy, they don't have any STDs.

The majority of people would never wipe someone else's snotty nose with our own hands, yet so many people have no issue with having unprotected sex (oral, vaginal, or anal) with someone they barely know, or someone whose medical profile they are unfamiliar with. 3:37 PM

_____________________________________________^^^^^^^^^ THIS

I have more than one friend who has gotten pregnant because their boyfriend "didn't like condoms"

And guy friends who say I didn't wear a condom because she looked clean.

4:46 As crazy as it seems I know of a real old couple who both took about a 3 yr break after having a kid together, during that time both had babies with other people and ended up raising both since the mother of the man's outside baby died. And they're still together.

If Eudoxie was a true gold digger she'd have stayed in school on that man's dime. She's a typical bum bitch that stay posting on Instagram instead of doing something worthwhile in life. Don't nobody care about your designer onesie and your red bottoms while your man's out skeeting in stripper bitches

leave the social media accounts to be managed by staff. never upload instant pics online all pics need to be screened.

you have left a well documented money trail on social media. unfortunately all your pics of new ferraris and strip money wasting is already being shifted through and estimates are being made for your up coming child support case by your side pieces attorney

in future make sure only pics of your interacting with adoring fans, tv,movie and concerts are published after prescreening. never argue or floss on social media

law enforcement and employers have set a precedence showing that can your can lose your freedom and your job over social media stunts.

@11:23 AM Letting Ludacris fund her education is NOT a good idea. There's been countless cases where women (married and single) funded their spouse (boyfriend) education and once the spouse graduated, he divorced the wife. If taken to court, the spouse will have to repay the amount funded for his education. It's best for this young lady to pay for her own education, but judging from 11:06 AM comment, school may not be in the picture anymore.

Since when is a rapper's money longer than a physician's??? Rappers and singers literally have NO money; whatever total amount they get the IRS get's their cut off the top (or they supposed to) then after they finish reimbursing the record company and paying their managers/dancers/promoters/lawyers/body guards etc then to paying their personal bills property tax etc, they ain't got no money. The physician has more money left over than the rapper/singer does.

7:54U r right unless u are Beyonce who has a great team as an artist u are not making much. I think Toni Braxton said after she payed for promotions she brought home like 1500 shit that is like most of us. Actors make far more revenue but the IRS takes a lot of most big money unless u r a high political figure that has them on your payroll.