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Trace Blakley

Survivor Since: August 2010

Age: 35

Hometown: Lubbock, TX

Occupation: Probation Officer

Question – How did your journey with breast cancer begin? How were you diagnosed?

Trace – On July 20, 2010, I had my annual gynecological exam where my doctor asked about nipple discharge. I had nipple discharge for as long as I could remember and did not think it was unusual or problematic. My doctor took a smear of the discharge, completed blood work, and referred me for a mammogram. I had my first mammogram which resulted in an ultrasound the following day. On July 29, 2010, I underwent a breast biopsy. On August 2, 2010, I received a call from my doctor informing me I had non-invasive DCIS (ductal carcinoma in situ) in my left breast. I opted to have a double mastectomy and the procedure was completed on August 28, 2010. My first chemotherapy treatment was on September 28, 2010 and the last on November 29, 2010. I completed breast reconstruction March 25, 2011 and am scheduled to finish herceptin injections in September 2011.

Q – Who were your biggest supporters? In what ways did you receive support?

Trace – My coworkers, daughter, mother, and brother were my biggest supporters. My coworkers babysat, donated money, mowed my lawn, drove me home from work when I was too weak to drive, brought me groceries and meals, formed a team and participated in the 2010 Komen Race for the Cure, divided my work while I was out, and many, many other things. My daughter shaved my head, took on additional household responsibilities, including caring for her foster siblings, and remained optimistic. My mother and I spoke daily; she cared for my children, and endured chemotherapy, surgeries, and sickness with me. My brother called me daily and cared for my children when I was unexpectedly hospitalized. Most importantly, my biggest supporters listened, cried, laughed, and were willing to face my diagnosis honestly with me.

Q – What quote or line from a movie or book inspired or motivated you during treatment or even now?

Trace – “… you are braver than you believe, stronger than you seem, and smarter than you think….” – Winnie the Pooh

"When there’s an elephant in the room introduce him." – Randy Pausch (The Last Lecture)

"Are you a Tigger or an Eyore?" – Randy Pausch (The Last Lecture)

"Experience is what you get when you didn't get what you wanted. And experience is often the most valuable thing you have to offer." – Randy Pausch (The Last Lecture)

"One thing that makes it possible to be an optimist is if you have a contingency plan for when all hell breaks loose." – Randy Pausch (The Last Lecture)

Q – What is the sequel to your story? Where do you go from here?

Trace – My sequel includes traveling, making memories with my friends and family, taking care of myself, and seeking spiritual growth. I will continue my journey as a foster parent. I will always have a fear of cancer returning and plan to use that fear to humble and motivate me to truly live.

Q – Was there a moment during your treatment or recovery that surprised you or made you smile?

Trace – I was shocked how insignificant my breasts were in comparison to my hair.

Q – What lesson or message would you like others to take from your experience?

Trace – Share everything with someone including your fears and pain. Never underestimate the power of human touch. Have your own experience, everyone’s is different and too much advice or information can be counterproductive. Live by your heart.

Q – If they made your breast cancer story into a movie, what movie would it be? What actor/actress would star as you and why?

Trace – “Up.” I had to experience loss before appreciating what I had and living intentionally. Betty Boop would play me because she has short dark hair and perkiness.

Q – How has breast cancer changed you or your outlook on life?

Trace – I am trying to live and love more intentionally; smell all of the flowers, not just the roses; and meet people where they are.