Boyfriend of four years wants me to pay him back if he pays for me to ski because I can't afford it right now. is he a cheapskate?

He wants me to go skiing with him and his daughter but i dont have the money. he said it could be an early bday present or i could pay him back later. I think thats bs. He doesn't spend much money on me ever.

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Yea he is a cheapskate for sure. Who keeps tabs paying for their partner in a relationship? And if its an early bday presant, than why is he suggesting for you to pay back? Nope. 😒 In relationships, its either one pays for both or the other pays for both. Spliting bills is for friends. Thats my opinion at least.