When I was a kid I was always told, “You have such Potential.” It was usually said by an authority figure telling me I wasn’t living up to expectations, that I had a potential I wasn’t realizing. These words fell on a deaf child’s ears....

Talking and Relating to Men Oh, those Men. Our partners try to understand us, as we grapple to understand ourselves. Even when we think we have it all handled, someone comes along and finds there are motivations deeper than we thought. In my 43 years of studying...

You Never Get a Second Chance to Make a First Impression! Today’s writing is purely opinionated and I offer a trigger warning, specifically to the very men this post addresses. In my time with Pleasure Evolution, I’ve had the opportunity to...

Another full moon, another sleepless night. Even as a child, I had trouble sleeping on a full moon. I know it’s a cliché, and many pagan and wiccans will claim a strong connection to the lunar cycle. I used to lie awake and read books by the light of the full moon....

Are two people having sex, or is one person f*****g the other? Let me start by saying I grew up in what seemed to be a pretty normal southern American environment, which is to say it was racist, homophobic, unenlightened and violent. Despite my best attempts it...

How Sensual Research Dates Changed my Life! At Being Socials, one of the most frequently asked questions is “How did you and Trevor get together? The short answer is, he was seeing a couple of my friends, and I was dating one of his. Sensing a kindred spirit...