I am liking the opinions shared here. I would like to point out, though, that "Yes means yes" is a safer and more reliable way for men to handle sexual assault and sex crimes. It's not as intuitive as no means no, because many sexual incidents happen without actual explicit verbal consent (a result of passion), but it's a nice thing to secure before you do anything, especially if there's a shred of doubt about consent such as the presence of alcohol.