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Okay so this is my fertile days and suppose to ovulate on the 4th! My question is is it bad to have sex every night?? B/c so far we have every night I have been fertile! Or does this make my chance less to pregnant? Thanks.

I *think* that sex every night might reduce his sperm count, have you been having sex every night for awhile? If you are just having sex every night you are most fertile, I don't see a problem. I read somewhere that you should keep sex prior to ovulation at a minimum, then have sex often during your fertile days to increase your chances.

The way I learned it was would you rather put in zero sperm and have zero chance for that day or would you rather BD each day you are highly fertile and at least have some chance. My opinion is BD often, as often as you like. There is IMO no such thing as too much BD (but others do have different opinions on the subject :-)

Yes only time we have sex everyday is un my fertile days! Other than that it's every other or every 2 days!

Quoting Mama2LexiAnn:

I *think* that sex every night might reduce his sperm count, have you been having sex every night for awhile? If you are just having sex every night you are most fertile, I don't see a problem. I read somewhere that you should keep sex prior to ovulation at a minimum, then have sex often during your fertile days to increase your chances.

The way I learned it was would you rather put in zero sperm and have zero chance for that day or would you rather BD each day you are highly fertile and at least have some chance. My opinion is BD often, as often as you like. There is IMO no such thing as too much BD (but others do have different opinions on the subject :-)

It is not bad to have sex everynight. It would only be bad if your SO had sperm issues. As long as sperm is normal and healthy...it's kind of like breastmilk. Supply and demand. The more he gives on a regular bases the more he'll have available each time. That's what I was explained by my fertility specialist and I've read it in research.

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