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How can I win my boyfriend back after cheating on him?

I cheated on my boyfriend and he found out. Now he's talking to me but doesn't want to be with me again I don't know what to do. I have tried: I tried to talk to him I even threatened him I would kill myself. I think it was caused by: He was being distant

You have to tell him that you admit that what you have done is absolutely wrong and against your nature, and you may find something to prove that (for example, being intoxicated with alcohol). If you find that, promise to never do that again under any circumstances and to never contact the person again. To prove that, spend more time with him. Let him install spy programs onto your phone'. And ask him to call you anytime he wishes. If you do not have anything to prove that it has been against your nature, then you need to try to move together to a new place or city. Most men (just like women) never forget these incidents and only new environment may distract them from the thoughts. You may wish to let him think over all of your suggestions and apologies and not bother him for some time. He may realize that there is nothing in the world but you for him.
After that, and only after that, you may get a relationship advice and take your boyfriend with you.

I am confused, please what should I do after cheating on my boyfriend?

Hi, me and my current boyfriend have been dating since we were in college, though he was a year ahead of me. When we were still in school he never took me seriously until few months before he graduated. He immediately traveled out of the country when he graduated from school leaving me behind. For the first few months we only talked once in a blue moon. Because I didn't see any progress I decided to go for another guy that was way older than I am. During the course of my relationship with the other guy my long distance

boyfriend " started calling me and we got to talk everyday. I could not tell him that I was in another relationship because I still liked him. Few months later I cheated on my new boyfriend and when he (my new boyfriend) found out he was really mad though we were still together. I later broke up with my new boyfriend because the relationship was not progressing after I had cheated on my new boyfriend. After my new boyfriend and I split up I decided to go back to my old boyfriend who later found out that I slept with one guy once. Because I was too scared of losing him I lied to him that I have not dated any other guy since he left. He forgave me for sleeping with another guy the first time and so things went back to normal and he even asked me to go and meet his parents which I did until he later found out that I had dated another guy and lied to him again. I immediately admitted and begged him. I even traveled to the country he is currently in to show my sincere apology. Though he has forgiven me but I just recently admitted to him that he was my plan B which really hurt his feelings. I am really confused right now and I don't know what to do because I don't want to lose him.. I have tried: I have apologized. I even traveled out of the country to the country he is currently in to apologize. And I promised him that I am never going to hurt him again. I think it was caused by: The main cause of the problem is the long distance and lack of effective communication between us for the first 5 months that he traveled out of the country

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