A lot of couples that I work with express a desire to increase the intimacy in their relationship. Today I want to share 10 secrets in increasing relationship intimacy through communication.

Look for the good in your partner and compliment him/her.

Shower your partner with praise

Listen to your partner (this means giving him/her time)

Listen to understand — not to judge

Use active listening (summarize what your partner says before you make comments)

Share your feelings. Your partner can not read your mind.

Use I statements (for example. I feel _____).

Seek solutions to problems rather than blaming each other

If a problem persist don’t hesitate to ask for help. A relationship coach or therapist can teach you effective conflict resolution skills. Click here to learn more about the premarital coaching I offer.

Give your relationship the same time and effort you gave it when you first fell in love.

Premarital coaching is great way to get your relationship off to a good start. Click here to schedule a free premarital coaching consultation.