First of all thanks for all your advice and well wishes! My appointment went really well our Doctor is so nice. He began by saying that although I technically had 12lbs to go to get to my goal of getting my BMI under 35 he felt I had done more than enough to keep my side of the bargin to lose weight and he was happy for us to have our next lot of treatment

So to our plan.... Well 2 more DIUI but with really aggressive injecable cycles growing 2 follies, very close u/s and b/w monitoring, then a trigger shot and progesterone support during 2ww. Then if these 2 fail we move to IVF, Doctor plans to do a fresh IVF cycle to get as many eggs as possible, fertilise them all and transfer 2 then freeze the rest. If the fresh cycle doesnt work then we will have as many FETs as there is frozen embryos till they run out then another fresh cycle and after FETs till weve used all our embryos. Dh and I have decided that if this doesnt work this is the point we will move on to international adoption and not spend any more time or emotional effort on treatment, we told the Doctor this and he felt that was a good plan.

I started AF as I was at clinic so they decided to start injectable cycle this month! I go for b/w tomorrow and start my injections of Gonal F.

Sounds like a great plan!!! Glad to hear that you and the RE are on the same page. I really hope you never need to do IVF, but also a great plan!! Of course, I think adoption is the most wonderful thing ever! Good luck, Ruth!

Good luck Ruth!! You have worked so hard to get to this point and I pray this is it for you! Hopefully the weight loss is what your body needed! I think your plan sounds great. Since you feel comfortable knowing adoption is an option for you maybe it will take some of the stress off for these cycles. Less stress is best!!! (yea right, like any of us know what less stress is!! )

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