Interview Etiquette at the Table

You will probably not be asked to an “eating meeting” unless you have demonstrated that you can do the job. An invitation to a meal means that you are under strong consideration. The interviewer’s main objective is to evaluate your social skills. Using proper dining etiquette is essential.

Don't neglect your table manners.

before the meal

Confirm the location and time. Ask how you will recognize the interviewer.

If you are nervous about the setting, visit the restaurant before the interview. Look at the menu - brush up on the correct pronunciation of the items on the menu and the correct dining etiquette for eating those items.

Turn off your cell phone before entering the restaurant and leave it off.

Dress professionally (even if the restaurant is casual).

Bring copies of your resume and a pen and note pad.

Follow the steps you would normally take to get ready for an office interview. Research the company, practice your responses to interview questions, and prepare a list of questions you have for the interviewer.

Arrive early to visit to the restroom to tidy up. Take a few minutes to relax before the interview.

during the meal

Job interviews over dinner require a less aggressive sell than an office interview. The company believes you can do the job at this point and would like to evaluate your social skills.

Focus on the interviewer even if the restaurant is noisy and full of distractions.