In response to the forgiving because people are broken. Ok, I did that for years and I was always understanding of the fact that everyone is messed up from childhood or as the Bible says, the sins of the fathers.....ok, but the reality is this. When Adam was caught by God and asked why did he hide from God? Adam said because the WOMAN YOU GAVE ME....so pointing the finger at the woman and at God and not being responsible for his own actions. I believe we should have compassion for people for the things they do out of their pain. In fact, I am a massage therapist and I help people with the work I do to find their issues and release them. It works and it takes someone who really understands what is going on to work with people for healing. I am compassionate and forgiving. However, God has shown me that accountability is necessary for the world to stop perpetrating. Its not enough that children are wounded, that isn't their fault. Its none of our fault. But it is OUR RESPONSIBILITY. That is called being an adult. Too many times people forgive and let it go and nothing changes. We have to find a balance in this.