I am a big believer in the 3 month rule. It states that after a break-up, you don’t communicate in any way with the person you were dating. And it is completely working for me right now, because I want to call in the worst way. Sometimes I want to call to bitch him out, or ask how he is doing, or just find out what is going on. All of those things are such bad ideas that I need the rule to keep me from doing it. Nothing good could come of those conversations.

He doesn’t need to know if I am hurt, angry, or sad. It’s none of his business and the reverse is also true.