During the March 31 episode of WEtv’s new reality series Mama June: From Not to Hot, the reality star got disinvited from her ex-husband Sugar Bear’s wedding — but her 11-year-old daughter Honey Boo Boo was too afraid to break the news to her!

In one scene from the show, the preteen (who’s real name is Alana Thompson) Facetimed with her soon-to-be stepmother Jennifer Lamb. “I don’t know why Jennifer’s calling me, because every time I talk to her, it causes some issue with Mama,” Honey Boo Boo admitted.

When Jennifer asked the Toddlers & Tiaras alum to tell her mom that she’s not allowed to come to the nuptials, the former pageant queen was understandably upset. “Mama’s not invited to the wedding? This is everything she’s been working towards,” she lamented.

Jennifer went on to explain that the 37-year-old has been banned “because she’s been calling and leaving nasty stuff.”

The bride-to-be told the camera that it doesn’t matter how Sugar Bear feels about inviting June. “I don’t have to have his right to say who’s at my house and who’s at my wedding — that’s my day,” she explained.

But being disinvited from Sugar Bear and Jennifer’s wedding will ruin Mama June’s entire weight loss journey. The mom-of-four decided to work on getting a revenge body after her ex announced that he was marrying another woman, just so she could go to their wedding looking smoking hot and show him what he’s missing out on.

Since Alana is only 11, it’s hard for her to be put in the middle of Mama June and Jennifer’s drama. She knows her mom worked so hard to get her revenge body just for this wedding, so she came up with her own plan which will help her avoid upsetting her mom.

“I got a good idea,” she told her older sister, Lauryn “Pumpkin” Shannon. “She’ll just show up at the wedding. I’m not telling her — and I’m not going without mama.”