I don't really think it's anything on that list. I think I just require too much simple things that nobody can seem to do.

What simple things are you talking about? Just curious

A person who sticks around when things get tough not only when things are great, communication, honesty, never having to guess where you stand in the relationship, just to name a few. Basically, just all the important things to keep a relationship together. Alot of people are quick to walk away instead of investing.

1. Because I look young and all the guys my age probably think I'm too young
2. Because I care too much about what people think of me which leads to overthinking and anxiety for no reason
3. Because I doubt myself alot and talk myself down

1. Because I look young and all the guys my age probably think I'm too young
2. Because I care too much about what people think of me which leads to overthinking and anxiety for no reason
3. Because I doubt myself alot and talk myself down

I know what you mean, but embrace who you are, and enjoy your individuality xx

I don't really think it's anything on that list. I think I just require too much simple things that nobody can seem to do.

What simple things are you talking about? Just curious

A person who sticks around when things get tough not only when things are great, communication, honesty, never having to guess where you stand in the relationship, just to name a few. Basically, just all the important things to keep a relationship together. Alot of people are quick to walk away instead of investing.

I'm with @The_Devil_in_Miss_Jones. Online, people either want to chat/trade texts endlessly, and never actually meet, or they want to meet immediately for guaranteed sex, and don't want to put in either the conversation or the work. (I've been told it's just easier to determine sexual compatibility and THEN decide if you like someone.)

In real life, it seems people rarely ask each other out. Am I the only one not afraid of rejection? It's momentary, and then you move, you don't waste time. When I do ask someone out, they want to meet at bars, at clubs, and at night. Me, I'm a morning person, and while trying to get fit/lose weight, the bars are the last place I want to be. In fact, they're generally the last place I want to be anyway.

So I'm single because number 8 is my choice until I find someone who wants to work on partnership with me.

I'm with @The_Devil_in_Miss_Jones. Online, people either want to chat/trade texts endlessly, and never actually meet, or they want to meet immediately for guaranteed sex, and don't want to put in either the conversation or the work. (I've been told it's just easier to determine sexual compatibility and THEN decide if you like someone.)

In real life, it seems people rarely ask each other out. Am I the only one not afraid of rejection? It's momentary, and then you move, you don't waste time. When I do ask someone out, they want to meet at bars, at clubs, and at night. Me, I'm a morning person, and while trying to get fit/lose weight, the bars are the last place I want to be. In fact, they're generally the last place I want to be anyway.

So I'm single because number 8 is my choice until I find someone who wants to work on partnership with me.

Because I'm not a crazy dumpster fire and apparently a lot of dudes want to rescue someone. I don't need someone, therefore I'm intimidating.
Also, I call out B.S. and don't allow drama. Yes, guys bring drama too. Oh and I'm constantly put into the friend zone. I'm cool to be around but no one wants me romantically.