I disagree. Doggy style is the sex position men fantasize about more than any other! As a man, it's exciting to see your penis moving in and out of your partner's vulva at the best of times, but when this scene is framed by the cheeks of her bottom, sex in this position becomes something extremely arousing, sexy and downright lustful!

Doggy style is extremely arousing. It's the primeval, lustful position, the one that comes straight down to us from our animal ancestry. It's the one that we'd have fucked in throughout the development of the human race - and quickly, too, for life could be short, and time spent having sex was time exposed to the attentions of predators or competitors. Does that explain why so many men come so quickly in this position? Yes, probably. And it probably also explains why we find it so arousing - it's the ultimate stimulus to mate: the sight of a willing female's buttocks.

Many women can't quite see why men find this such a turn-on, though they may well be happy to go along with their man's all-too-obvious desire to fuck in this way from time to time. I doubt it's a mainstay for most couples because women tend to find it a bit impersonal: it makes many women feel like they're a sex object. But I'd have to say that most men, when making love in this position, don't spend a lot of time thinking about the ethics of sex or what their partner looks like: they're just consumed with lust and the desire to come inside their partner!

A woman may well discover that rear entry sex provides her with the opportunity to be deeply feminine and sexual, to offer herself with total abandon to her man - and to enjoy the power she holds in this position, the power of arousing her man and making him desire her body even more than he normally does. This is a powerful sex position for men and women, a position that produces powerful sex!

Oddly enough, rear entry sex also offers the chance for greater sexual equality during lovemaking. We think of man on top as the archetypal male-dominant sex position. Yet what happens here? Think of how the woman can move, how she can thrust her body back and forth, whether her man moves with her or remains standing still. She has the power to bring him to sexual ecstasy, whether he thrusts in rhythm with her or not, and she can angle her hips so that she gets the greatest stimulation in her vagina, the greatest pressure on her G spot - a fact that means she stands a better chance of reaching orgasm during intercourse than in many other positions.

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I can never have an orgasm in this position. I feel really tense for some reason. I prefer just about every other position I can think of other than this one. I seem to spend the majority of my time in this position trying to hold on so I'm not sliding further and further away. I just don't really care for it

2. It's so much hotter when you see pleasure and excitation on your partner's face duting sex.

3. I get bored when I bottom, looking straight away and doing next-to-nothing, nevermind how hard I get pounded.

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For hetero sex, I sure have to agree with luckyseven! Doggy-style is extremely hot. I love it best with my wife's head on the pillow and her ass high in the air, and with me kneeling behind her. Seeing her ass as I fuck her, and seeing the beautiful slope of her back really gets me going.

What's this about not seeing her face? There is little in life as exciting as her looking over her shoulder into my eyes and telling me how much she is liking getting fucked this way. And the view of my cock fucking her cunt is especially good in this position.

Usually she does not cum while doing it doggy-stype. She typically has all her cums in other positions, and then rolls over, puts her ass in the air, and begs me to fuck her from the back. We both love it when I cum in her cunt doggy-style.

For hetero sex, I sure have to agree with luckyseven! Doggy-style is extremely hot. I love it best with my wife's head on the pillow and her ass high in the air, and with me kneeling behind her. Seeing her ass as I fuck her, and seeing the beautiful slope of her back really gets me going.

What's this about not seeing her face? There is little in life as exciting as her looking over her shoulder into my eyes and telling me how much she is liking getting fucked this way. And the view of my cock fucking her cunt is especially good in this position.

Usually she does not cum while doing it doggy-stype. She typically has all her cums in other positions, and then rolls over, puts her ass in the air, and begs me to fuck her from the back. We both love it when I cum in her cunt doggy-style.

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Exactly!! My bf loves my butt (and the lipstick kiss tattoo on one cheek)and according to him seeing it wibble wobble as he does me really tips him over the edge.I look back over my shoulder at him flicking my long blonde hair over one shoulder and lick my lips.....he gets him everytime!:wink:

As for OP saying he isnt able to see his partners face......position yourselves infront of a big mirror...voila!!

Exactly!! My bf loves my butt (and the lipstick kiss tattoo on one cheek)and according to him seeing it wibble wobble as he does me really tips him over the edge.I look back over my shoulder at him flicking my long blonde hair over one shoulder and lick my lips.....he gets him everytime!:wink:

As for OP saying he isnt able to see his partners face......position yourselves infront of a big mirror...voila!!

I disagree. Doggy style is the sex position men fantasize about more than any other! As a man, it's exciting to see your penis moving in and out of your partner's vulva at the best of times, but when this scene is framed by the cheeks of her bottom, sex in this position becomes something extremely arousing, sexy and downright lustful!

Doggy style is extremely arousing. It's the primeval, lustful position, the one that comes straight down to us from our animal ancestry. It's the one that we'd have fucked in throughout the development of the human race - and quickly, too, for life could be short, and time spent having sex was time exposed to the attentions of predators or competitors. Does that explain why so many men come so quickly in this position? Yes, probably. And it probably also explains why we find it so arousing - it's the ultimate stimulus to mate: the sight of a willing female's buttocks.

Many women can't quite see why men find this such a turn-on, though they may well be happy to go along with their man's all-too-obvious desire to fuck in this way from time to time. I doubt it's a mainstay for most couples because women tend to find it a bit impersonal: it makes many women feel like they're a sex object. But I'd have to say that most men, when making love in this position, don't spend a lot of time thinking about the ethics of sex or what their partner looks like: they're just consumed with lust and the desire to come inside their partner!

A woman may well discover that rear entry sex provides her with the opportunity to be deeply feminine and sexual, to offer herself with total abandon to her man - and to enjoy the power she holds in this position, the power of arousing her man and making him desire her body even more than he normally does. This is a powerful sex position for men and women, a position that produces powerful sex!

Oddly enough, rear entry sex also offers the chance for greater sexual equality during lovemaking. We think of man on top as the archetypal male-dominant sex position. Yet what happens here? Think of how the woman can move, how she can thrust her body back and forth, whether her man moves with her or remains standing still. She has the power to bring him to sexual ecstasy, whether he thrusts in rhythm with her or not, and she can angle her hips so that she gets the greatest stimulation in her vagina, the greatest pressure on her G spot - a fact that means she stands a better chance of reaching orgasm during intercourse than in many other positions.

I would think you are definitely in the minority on this one - especially if your talking about pussy...

Frankly, I try to do a few different doggy variations during every session. Come on! Whats better than leaning back and watching a beautiful pussy wrapped around your cock - it's one of my favorites! And when your feeling like a real alpha animal - you can throw your feet up in front of her waist and really pound. also, its a great attach the ass position.

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I am with the naysayers on this one. Kissing is essential for me having sex

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I agree completely as regards kissing and sex.

For me it's also complicated by my hard-wired tits; I can do doggy for about four or five minutes before the lack of titplay causes me to lose my erection.

Another complication (at least for me) is that I'm rather short (5'6). Doggy fucking a guy who's 6' or taller is a genuine challenge. I'll stick with face-to-face, thanks, in all its myriad variations.