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Re: Are you easy to please?

^^ Always wanted to know....

I only had sex once, and with a girl. She gave me a fellatio, and at some moment I sensed a little bit of teeth, and it increases the pleasure. So I was always wondering why so many people mention that as something horrifying ?

Otherwise for the OP, I imagine I'll be easy to please, but more eager to please the other one I think, especially as a 'gay virgin'.

Re: Are you easy to please?

looking at the thread title, i came in here thinking you were talking about easy to satisfy with a date to mcdonalds to eat a happy meal or a walk in the park or relaxing on your couch watching tv on your dayoff but you're talking about sex. can't answer that question.

one thing about the closet/you don't have to hurry/it will be bad tomorrow/so brother, don't you worry

Re: Are you easy to please?

Originally Posted by oakpope

^^ Always wanted to know....

I only had sex once, and with a girl. She gave me a fellatio, and at some moment I sensed a little bit of teeth, and it increases the pleasure. So I was always wondering why so many people mention that as something horrifying ?

Otherwise for the OP, I imagine I'll be easy to please, but more eager to please the other one I think, especially as a 'gay virgin'.

I'd say if it was your first time just anything she'd do was going to cause pleasure, even things done a bad way...

But in fact I had a lover once who liked his dick being chewed ... maybe some guys are less sensitive and will need more pressure than a gentle lick to feel some sensation down there ...

Re: Are you easy to please?

I'd say I'm pretty tolerant. In most things, not just sex. But I have my limits of repetitive pushing. Go too far in something I've asked nicely about or mentioned once, and I tend to get a little stabby.

Answer a phone or text during or in the middle though, and your ass is outta there! And through the damn window, NOT the door!

Re: Are you easy to please?

Originally Posted by JP.

What is this with good personality= boner? Is that a myth?
No offense to you guys, I understand good ass/ no teeth but good personality?....

It's hard to explain, but I'll try.

I'm not blind. I can see OK. But the visual input I get from guys is somewhat minimal. It can have an impact on me, but not that great of one. And I don't necessarily respond to physical attributes the same as most people, or even the same way at different times. Sometimes a bulging cock in tight underwear is a great turn-on. Sometimes, enh. The one thing that nearly always gets me going is a good ass. And I've seen good asses that are barely there, and ones that are gi-normous. It's hard o quantify, but I know a good as when I see it.

So what DOES attract me? A personality that I click with. Friendly. Funny. Fun. Playfully sexual. Why do I find this a turn-on? The same reason I find a great ass a turn-on - "this would be great to have in bed". For instance, I've played around with cocks ranging from four inches to nine inches. And the ones I've enjoyed the most weren't a particular size or shape, but the ones attached to a guy who I connected with the most. That's when sex (for me) is taken to a whole other level.

And yeah, some might think it's odd to be attracted to a personality instead of a hot body. But here!s the big payoff.

You meet a guy that turns you on. Hot bottom, great ass, cute face, whatever.
I meet a guy that turns me on. Nice ass, great fun personality, we cluck.
Which of us is more likely to get our guy into bed?

Re: Are you easy to please?

Originally Posted by Kien

Uh yah, I am. If you buy me McDonalds, you pleasin' me.

Especially if you use coupons from those handy coupon booklets. This month's coupon booklet is SO GOOD. Like...$2 for a big mac!? Or buy one large sandwich, get one free!? Get one McCafe and get one free!? $3.99 chicken nuggets!? Get free medium fries and a free medium soft drink when purchasing a 20 piece nuggets?

Pure ecstasy.

Kien this may be the most ghetto post you've ever made.

Originally Posted by RazorzEdge88

What horrifyingly low standards you have.

A guy better buy me Panera or IT'S OVER.

I should really actually go to a Panera sometime. My mental image is walking in and just seeing loaves of bread on shelves.

Re: Are you easy to please?

There have been quite a few friends that have told me: "you are the biggest asshole I have ever met but I still love you." I feel like my generation in general wants friends that put them on a silver pedestal and worship them. I am not gonna be that friend. I am gonna be brutally honest with you which people often mistake for insulting them. Those that cherish my candidness are much better off than the ones deluded into thinking everything is okay because people tell them that.

Random aside: So, my boss that got fired, apparently I said to her that she should not put up with the shit her husband throws at her. That somehow translated in her mind to 'find another man'. I am all about conflict resolution unless they other party is unwilling to compromise.

Re: Are you easy to please?

I wish I could say I was easy to please...but it is the opposite for me. Especially nowadays...I have grown accustomed to tantric sex and I don't think anything else would satisfy me now....

Before this....I really liked guys who were into primal dominance and submission which is not the same as S&M or B&D...no dress up or role play or verbal or physical abuse is involved and no ego is involved...it instead requires a lack of ego. It is more like getting in touch or hopefully already being in touch with your animal state and trusting your instincts and if I submit to someone it is only with a guy who operates on that level. I love that kind of sex because I get a freedom from it.

One of the worst things someone could do is tell me I am cute or hot if they want to have sex with me...as soon as someone said that to me I was immediately turned off because in my mind they gave me a role to play. Being "cute" pretty much kills the sex IMO...I like to lose myself... I didn't want to be "cute"....I wanted to be free from all of that nonsense. I only found a handful of guys who could take me there over the years...and they have my eternal appreciation.

Re: Are you easy to please?

Sexually speaking, I suppose I'm pretty easy to please really.

In terms of day to day life...Well, I'm still mostly easy to please as well. I might have some high expectations of the way people should act, at least while I'm around them, but they're not so high that it's impossible to please me. I suppose that answers the question; probably.

I'm sorry to have kept you waiting, but I'm afraid my walk has become rather sillier recently...