A girl who shows many of the characteristics of your typical male "player" and uses boys and then tosses them aside. Not to be mistaken for a "slut" as sluts are the ones who are being used. Playerettes are selective of who they get with.

A girl who makes a habit of using guys for attention, affection, sex or other gifts.

Tasha: " What you doin' this weekend, girl??"
Leia: "My boyfriend Adam is out of town for a few days and I don't want to feel lonely for a minute. I've had Jim on a string on the side for awhile - I'll meet him with a bunch of my friends for a free bottle of wine and dinner".
Tasha: You a playerette, girl!!

A playerette is like a player but with an extra step in her motivation chain. After all, guys are pretty straightforward: we want sex. Playerettes, on the other hand, use sex as a means to an end, a tool to get things like favors, money, dinner...

A playerette will always have five or six guys around her, as she will use each of them for something different. For example, Carl will pay her rent, Paul, her phone bills, Pat, her car lease, until finally, she's only having sex with one of them... hopefully you.

Remember that a playerette will always get sex in the end -- either from you or someone else.

Since it can be difficult, even for The Player, to imagine his traits in a woman, here's a paradigm: a good example of a playerette is a stripper. Although not all strippers are playerettes, and certainly not vice versa, I choose a stripper because, when you get right down to it (something many guys never end up doing with strippers), she uses sex to get money from men. But when customers stop paying for her "services," she drops them.

Playerettes do not exist in reality, but girls who say "Yes" a lot to certain men do.

To be a Player one must abide by the rules of The Game; women are not entirely bounded by the rules of The Game because women, taken as a whole, create and edit the rules which men (potential Players) must abide by and/or manipulate in order to attract women. Like sports authorities, be they umpires, referees or whatever, women are involved in The Game (like the players in the sport) but are simultaneously exempt from the particular set of rules that govern the players because the referees must follow different rules. All the rules that govern how men must act in order to create attraction with women, collectively taken, comprise a significant part of what is commonly referred to as The Game.

Women are almost entirely exempt from *those rules* of seduction. This is evidenced by the fact that any woman could walk around begging sex from any man and almost every woman would discover that a fairly large number of men would go for it -- far, far fewer men could ever achieve this with any significant amount of women.

The closest thing to a Playerette would be a woman who purposely and convincingly disguises herself like a man and uses the methods of the Player in order to attract women.