What are you worth? Late at night on a warm Texas summer evening, I was pulling out of a gas station on my motorcycle. I had just put in my last $1.75 and it had to last me until my work study check came in on Friday. It was Tuesday night. As I turned out […]

When enough people tell me, or the right person tells me something is bad for me, or just there’s a better way to do something, I’ve learned to listen. I’ve given a degree of accountability to a couple of people, to speak to me honest and frankly, “with the bark on”, to avoid my thick […]

How to Use a Journal Chart Assertiveness Graph Make a general graph on how assertive you are. Then make a list of WHAT situations you are assertive in. List of WHO you are assertive with. List of who you are PASSIVE with. List WHY you are passive with them, (what are you afraid of losing?) […]