So far in the 21st century nearly a third of a billion children have been sexually abused, most of them multiple times, some thousands of times. 6 out of 7 are girls. Anything you can do to get this message to as many people as possible will help save abused children all over the world, and maybe even some of the abusers. Please read "Save A Child from Sexual Abuse by 3:15 PM" under "First Time Visitor?" May God bless you and anoint this ministry.

Everyday thousands of children are being sexually abused. You can stop the abuse of at least one child by simply praying. You can possibly stop the abuse of thousands of children by forwarding the link in First Time Visitor? by email, Twitter or Facebook to every Christian you know. Save a child or lots of children!!!! Do Something, please!

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Monday, 8 May 2017

NY State Politicians Couldn't Care Less About Child Sex Abuse

Child sex abuse victims cannot wait any longer

BY SHAUN DOUGHERTYNEW YORK DAILY NEWS

With less than two months left in the legislative session, it looks like once again lawmakers will leave survivors of child sex abuse behind and fail to pass meaningful reforms to our statute of limitation laws.

All New Yorkers, not just survivors like myself, should be disappointed that Senate Republicans choose to hide behind legislative procedures and avoid a vote on the Child Victims Act, instead of committing to helping victims.

New York’s statute of limitations for child sexual abuse crimes are the most restrictive in the country. Survivors have only five years after they reach legal age to file criminal or civil charges against their abusers. I know first-hand how inadequate this amount of time is; it took me a decade to share my story of clergy abuse with my family and more than 30 years to speak publicly about it.

My abuse occurred in 1980 in Johnstown, Pa., by Father George Koharchik, who was my teacher and coach. He was also a trusted friend of the family who had a weekly bowling game with my parents. His betrayal led me down a road of depression, drug addiction and attempted suicide. It made learning difficult and relationships hard.

I’m fortunate that I have been able to build a successful life — I’m married now and own a restaurant in Long Island City — but I know others that haven’t been so lucky. Many battle mental and physical illnesses and struggle to get the help they need.

The Child Victims Act rightly recognizes how difficult the healing process is by eliminating the reporting deadline and giving survivors of past abuse a one-year period to file claims. For more than a decade, survivors have been trying to get this legislation passed, which despite receiving broad support from victims, advocates, justice reformers and many legislators, is blocked time and again.

Senate Republicans must reconsider. These restrictions leave survivors without justice and help abusers go free. Just as abusive priests were moved from town to town with no warning to parents or parishioners, today most of these priests aren’t registered as sex offenders, even though investigators have termed them predators and the number of children they harmed is staggering.

While we are forced to wait for our laws to catch up, we must take other action so that the perpetrators of these crimes become known and can be stopped.

Who would have thought that New York would be the most backward state in the union when it comes to victims rights and child sex abuse.

Archdiocese establishes compensation plan

This year, clergy abuse survivors in New York have a small window of opportunity to report their abuse and they must seize it. The Archdiocese of New York, which encompasses Manhattan, The Bronx, Staten Island and several surrounding counties, has established its own compensation plan, separate from the courts. It allows victims to register previously undisclosed claims against priests.

This window is only open until July 31, 2017, and I urge survivors to register for the program before it’s too late.

The Archdiocese of New York is the second-largest Roman Catholic diocese in the United States. If the program is successful here, it could set a precedent for the rest of the country and New York can be a model that encourages the church to establish similar plans in other states.

Registration doesn’t mean acceptance of compensation and it doesn’t have to be made public. It simply keeps the door open for future discussions. While this program doesn’t absolve the Church of what happened, I believe that as more survivors speak up, it will be harder for the Church, and lawmakers, to ignore us. We must use every avenue available to hold our abusers accountable while we are prevented from using the courts.

From my own experience, I know the long and difficult healing process for survivors of child sex abuse, which is only compounded by the lack of legal recourse and inability to bring our abusers to justice. It’s a journey that never ends and one that should not, and cannot, be timed against a clock.

Lawmakers need to commit to supporting survivors and pass the Child Victims Act.

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“There is nothing thrilling about a labouring man’s work, but it is the labouring man who makes the conceptions of the genius possible; and it is the labouring saint who makes the conceptions of his Master possible.

You labour at prayer and results happen all the time from God’s standpoint. What an astonishment it will be to find, when the veil is lifted, the souls that have been reaped by you, simply because you had been in the habit of taking your orders from Jesus Christ.”