I see a lot of women that say they want a "nice guy" or gentleman that treats them right. Yet they always go for the "bad boy" assholes with tattoos.

Quoting: Anonymous Coward 34983804

One word for the ladies...immaturity.

Women get better the older they get.

Quoting: Carpet Gnome

Or more desperate, more willing to spend time with a man they don't desire. But a man shouldn't want that because that relationship is insecure, she'll drop you in half a sec. if she does start to desire someone.

I'm a nice girl who isn't interested in casual sex. Are there any men left out there that would wait anymore? I don't want to venture out into dating after divorce because I feel like that's all men want. I'd rather be nice and alone than with someone who's not right!

I love the gentlemen. they are so rare. I laugh at loudmouth men. I have no interest in that type of immaturity

Quoting: Elisabetta

Do you go to bed with / date / commit to the gentlemen? Is this real or hypothetical?

My experience is that it's OK to be a gentleman but that alone won't affect whether you "get" a girl. You have to make her desire you, and opening doors for her has nothing to do with that.

Quoting: Anonymous Coward 24537404

im being totally honest.

when you speak of "getting" a girl do you just mean getting her to the sack? if so then that is a different story. I don't know where you men get this crap, but opening doors for us does not make us view you as pathetic or w/e it is you think. it makes us respect you because you stand apart from the rest. why do you think women like to date older men? jeez

I always found that, if I acted unnaturally to get a woman , I would never be happy with her. Be yourself no matter how disheartening it is. You will meet women who are attracted to you for who you are. And you will feel great being yourself.

Nowadays girls are trained to be little drama princesses, entitled to everything, and responsible for nothing.

Gone are the days when a young woman was expected to learn to manage a farm and household, essentially a small business, with massive responsibilities for the food, clothing and shelter for an extended family plus hired help.

Girls with no core sense of responsibility go for guys with no core sense of responsibility.

Being "loudmouthed" and a "bad boy" are the male equivalent of a girl being a drama queen princess.

Your good nature and gentlemanly qualities will bode better for you as you get older.

Besides, you are better off with little interaction with the high maintenance, high drama girls around you.

Stay true to yourself, develop the skills that will make you the man you want to be, and you will be able to either attract a good woman, or simply find satisfaction in self-respecting independent bachelorhood.

PS. And it annoys me more and more what sort of men girls pick, "all the rage" now in increasing degree is immigrants/arabs/africans, in neighboring Sweden this "trend" is even worse, but we're following along full speed now. :/

A nice and normal but also cool white guy just is seen as boring and uninteresting all over the western world. I want to kill soon.........................

Quoting: Anonymous Coward 930283

Ethnicity is irrelevant, people become products of their environment. A persons ethnicity doesn't influence in how they act. Your thoughts are your thoughts but I'm telling you that your ignorance is quite profound!

Because jealous haters have set you "up" to destroy your "online" reputation. Nothing worse than jealous haters. No worries, there is a time, a place a season and a reason for justice. For the Homosexuals who are a part of the setup hoping for another to join your sick society, justice will be served undiluted for you. It is all a matter of time and or the lack there of.

I love the gentlemen. they are so rare. I laugh at loudmouth men. I have no interest in that type of immaturity

Quoting: Elisabetta

Do you go to bed with / date / commit to the gentlemen? Is this real or hypothetical?

My experience is that it's OK to be a gentleman but that alone won't affect whether you "get" a girl. You have to make her desire you, and opening doors for her has nothing to do with that.

Quoting: Anonymous Coward 24537404

im being totally honest.

when you speak of "getting" a girl do you just mean getting her to the sack? if so then that is a different story. I don't know where you men get this crap, but opening doors for us does not make us view you as pathetic or w/e it is you think. it makes us respect you because you stand apart from the rest. why do you think women like to date older men? jeez

The Western countries are going through rapid culture change the past couple generations. Big money from the culture creators in hollywood along with massive immigration into western countries have quickly turned Western values into more of a culture that you would see in the rest of the world.

The culture has become one that people who are evil are lionized and supported, those that are nice are put down and laughed at as if they are weak. I've heard people in the big cities put it as "Even if you aren't evil, you need to act like you're evil if you want to get by in society and your social life."

The criminal mindset hates good, honest people, because good people stand in their way of setting up a gang-like system of hierarchy.

This sounds far fetched, but this has been my opinion based on social evidence over my life. For example, I will be chatting with some guys at work and the thug-like co-workers will be talking about their firearms all the time, but when I talk about my abilities at target shooting, they will get all offended and look at me like me, as a nice, upright, moral, honest, responsible young man should not have any business owning a gun.

That goes with any weapon as well, one time I was in Home Depot to look at their knives and the thug-looking guy working there asked me "What do you need a knife for?".

To put it simply:

Bad people hate good people, it's always been like that, it's an instinctual thing. Bad people have always dominated this planet EXCEPT for in Western countries. Now that gangster culture has taken the west, the women are jumping ship and going with the new alpha males and their culture.

If the good people routed out the thugs, women would fall for the good guys. Women aren't much different from an episode of animal planet.

Women like men that are physically attractive. It doesn't matter what is on the inside, no matter what they say. They are just like men, except the opposite sex. Since they hate you, you must be ugly; because if you were an asshole, they would overlook that.

Women like men that are physically attractive. It doesn't matter what is on the inside, no matter what they say. They are just like men, except the opposite sex. Since they hate you, you must be ugly; because if you were an asshole, they would overlook that.

Quoting: Anonymous Coward 38757865

Women are not the same as men, they are two very different creatures! Just cause physical appearance is important to men does not mean it goes the same for women.