Porn versus real life

Femdom porn

I got to thinking about this because I’m on reddit and there are always people in the BDsm community thread asking why the image of a Femdom is “so mean.” I’m one of the many posters who point out that ANY movie is going to be different than real life and porn is no exception. It’s also difficult to make something sensual and yet wickedly erotic unless two people create together. Why? Because what is sensual to YOU might not have enough *bite* to be domination or humiliation for another person. It takes a conversation.

Sensual Domination

I can be the sexually assertive woman who throws you a curve ball while controlling you. I adore sensual domination where I wrap you around my finger and …. mmmmmm … have my way with you! Here’s a free sexy audio that has some of my thoughts on sensual domination.

Sensual Humiliation

Sensual humiliation is often part of sensual domination because when I tease you I am controlling you. ~grinz~ And ohhhhh so sweetly, which makes it even more fun! I know some of you aren’t into humiliation but I know that some people really like just a bit of sensual humiliation in a call. Are you just a little curious? Don’t be scared. Take a listen to this free sexy audio about sensual humiliation and see if you’d like to try it.

16 Comments

John
on July 24, 2014 at 10:00 am

Ms O is way better than standard paint-by-numbers femdom porn. She’s the best. She uses all the senses to create a unique, sensual experience not available elsewhere.

I think because she’s a real life Domme, she’s more creative, versatile, knowledgeable and most importantly enthusiastic about kinky play. She enjoys what she does and that will make your session so much better. In a lot of femdom porn, everyone seems really, really bored. Even the dude screaming in pain.

You also don’t want to get stuck talking on the phone with a “Mistress” from another company who is obviously watching Judge Judy while dog-sitting a very loud Chihuahua. It happens.

If you’re not sure about calling, I can tell you she makes amazing custom audios. Her 2 minute audios are great but they’re appetizers, order the full meal and you won’t be disappointed. They’re Chihuahua free!

olivia
on July 30, 2014 at 5:17 am

~laughs~ at the Judge Judy and the yappy Chihuahua! ~grinz~ So glad to see your comment, you ALWAYS make me smile!

Jake
on July 28, 2014 at 10:18 am

That audio was SO hot!!! You can blindfold me anytime you like Mistress!

olivia
on July 30, 2014 at 5:18 am

Wonderful Jake! When? ~laughs~

Jake
on August 1, 2014 at 5:38 am

Oh!!! The thought of you tying me up has made me SO hard!
I’ll get the next flight to America if it meant a real life session with you!!!

Ms Olivia, your hair is soooo magnificent. Blown back flowing by Floridas ocean breeze, I bet it has been the cause of many a traffic accident. Its as perfect as the rest of you. Pardon me for staring.

Oh Mistress Olivia, i couldn’t agree more You truly are “THAT” beautiful sensual Dominatrix of many a person’s fantasy (well, at least my three personas)! ~blushing grin~

i can only speak from my experiences, but You have always helped me to explore my limits and boundaries in such an intimate, caring, yet strict way. i have always enjoyed our trips to the limits of our respective spaces.

i highly recommend You for any of those curious, yet a bit timid on investigating their yearning for sensual domination and humiliation. You truly are the consummate tour guide.

olivia
on August 5, 2014 at 6:03 am

Sensual is RIGHT! Thank you so much for your compliments and being such a wonderful and willing dear one! ~smiles~

vanessa
on August 2, 2014 at 12:27 pm

Your so right Most Femdom Porn sucks! It’s a total turn off for me!

If only there was good Sensual Femdom Porn! I’m imagining a beautiful woman, convincing a hesitant sissy into sucking cock in front of a group of people, by using her feminine charm and the fear of rejection, to make it happen!

olivia
on August 5, 2014 at 6:04 am

Hey Vanessa! Where have you been? How are you? ~grinz~ Ready for some sissy play? ~grinz~

k,n & e
on August 2, 2014 at 10:01 pm

i’m glad You enjoyed and found the sensual domination porn clip i shared with You this morning…inspirational. ~blushing cum eating grin~

olivia
on August 5, 2014 at 6:05 am

Now THAT is what I’m talking about! That clip is so yummy, thank you for sending that. Ohhhhh, such lovely inspiration for some very yummy play time!