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OPP: Don't Wanna Be A Booty Call

by Slacker And Steve,posted Aug 9 2012 4:29PM

Yi!!!

Has anyone ever gotten an impression of you and it wasn’t the way you wanted to be perceived at all?

Today’s OPP comes from Whitney…

Yi! I met a really attractive guy at a friend's party three weeks ago. We hooked up at his place afterwards. He said he'd call me and when he didn't, I phoned him. He apologized for not reaching out and invited me over. As soon as I arrived he expected another hookup so I left. Is there any way to get 'Dave' to view me as 'girlfriend material' rather than just a 'booty call'? How can I make this happen?

Whitney

Slacker definitely puts women that he meets in the “yes” bucket or the “no” bucket. He’s also dated women he’s slept with on the first date.

Steve explains that she wants him to gain interest in her, wine her and dine her.

Slacker says if ‘Dave’ is like Steve that’s not gonna happen! One and Done!

Steve sees it as this guy needs to make an investment. Apparently, since the booty call started the relationship, she’s screwed. He suggests that she asks him to go on a few dates and she could hold out on the booty. Steve thinks in his own world if everything was wonderful then he would go back for more. Steve assumes that Whitney wants to feel like she’s worth it!

The guys don’t want to hurt Whitney’s feelings, but they do wonder if she was any good in the sack and is that why ‘Dave’ didn’t call her like he said he would!

Slacker states that she will probably see this guy again due to them being in the same social circle.

How does she get out of the "Booty Call Bucket" and into a relationship with this guy?

I met a woman at a gig in Florida and it turned into the true definition of a booty call. The call was always late at night, always uncomplicated. We never discussed a relationship outside of the bedroom. She eventually got transferred out of state and I never heard from again. I will admit, I got a peek at her non sexual side and I would have been more than happy to start a relationship with her. It was for the best as it turned out!

Whitney just needs to roll with the punches. If he wants more he will make it known. Otherwise, hit it and forget it, girl!