Comments on: Why Don’t Guys Ever Make Plans?http://www.jdate.com/jmag/2013/01/why-dont-guys-ever-make-plans/
Where celebrities, experts and JDaters come to kibitz!Thu, 30 Jul 2015 08:30:25 +0000hourly1http://wordpress.org/?v=4.1.6By: renathahttp://www.jdate.com/jmag/2013/01/why-dont-guys-ever-make-plans/comment-page-1/#comment-392051
Sat, 27 Dec 2014 15:56:13 +0000http://www.jdate.com/jmag/?p=138211#comment-392051I have a question I have this friend and he wanted to hang out two weeks ago but he never confirmed the plans with me so then he sends me an email saying that he has been cheating on me with his homework and if I wanted to go bowling hang out n maybe go dancing the upcoming saturday so the day after I said we can tall about it face to face but I’m ok with bowling and hanging out. So it’s Saturday no followup nothing my phone is off so he communicates with me on other media but he still didn’t let me know for sure. I’m not the one who is suppose to followup on the day we are suppose to go out he is. Any other suggestions on how to deal with this stupid ignorant crap bc this is twice and he swear up and down he still want to spend tI’m with me and I’m his boo. Ugh. I decided to just ignore him and find someone st my college who is mature enough to know how to date plus I’m not sure but my women inintuition telling me he might have to his babymama he was goin out and she all of a sudden needed him to watch the kids. Like I said any other advice is welcome. I’m 34 I haven’t had a date n years bc the next person I date will be my husband.
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Tue, 06 May 2014 04:18:12 +0000http://www.jdate.com/jmag/?p=138211#comment-357311Oh also even he was reluctant we did few videochats and one phone call. I initiated all this. He’s in his 50s and I’m late 30s. So I’m confused. I don’t know what to think or do. I like this guy. But I’m a little bit concerned about his very busy schedule. I start to doubt. Maybe he has a girlfriend or even live with someone. We live in different countries. He’s in USA and I’m in central Asia. So it’s very far. I asked him if he’s ok with that and he said “no problem, we can meet in Thailand”. He was there several times and know the vibe. For the 3rd time he said he got very busy. I guess he works a lot or he has not enough money to travel for right now. Any advice? Coz I feel not sure. Thank you
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Tue, 06 May 2014 04:07:03 +0000http://www.jdate.com/jmag/?p=138211#comment-357301Hello
I’m here with some problem. I met this guy online and we started chatting for 9 months. And we discussed to meet in person. So after 4 months of chatting he said he’ll meet me but he got busy and he told me he can meet me after 4 months and he got busy again and he told me he can meet after 3 months. But he got busy again. I feel very frustrated and told him that I have feelings for him and really hoped to see him. But I feel like I’m kinda not important to him. And he said he’s very serious about me. He really wants to meet me. He says he’ll meet me after 3 more months and it’s for sure. He sent me a bday card with his pics and on valentine’s day too. He is reluctant to videochat or phone calls bcuz there’s 3 am by his time and by my time is afternoon. Please give me some advice Thank you.
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Wed, 20 Feb 2013 00:13:16 +0000http://www.jdate.com/jmag/?p=138211#comment-113761Well all you ladies out there, though l havent had too much succes with online dating, l have been given some words of advice from a relationship councellor

1. Dont chase them

2. You must appear all the time to be busy. And will try to fit him into your schedule.

3. Dont ever buy him anything!!

4. Speak softly.

5. Show your inner feelings to him. This will make him trust you and open up to you.

6. Remember this always – you are the PRIZE and it is for him to chase after you.

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Tue, 19 Feb 2013 22:48:12 +0000http://www.jdate.com/jmag/?p=138211#comment-113681Ladies: whenever you are inclined to excuse or gloss over such behavior, I ask you to say “OBAMA!” Even though the President is running the free world, you better believe that he has time to call and/or dine with Michelle daily! No more excuses! Move on.
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Tue, 19 Feb 2013 22:32:20 +0000http://www.jdate.com/jmag/?p=138211#comment-113651I have been with a man I met on jdate for well over a year. We both are widows. I am 65 and he is almost 75. We have been having a wonderful time. However he never came off the site. He has been on jdate for over 7 years. Last week he told me he wanted to see a woman he had met on the site. They had had lunch and he wanted to arrange another date. Before we were together he must have had 1-2 dates with so many women including 2 friends of mine. Also he says that he is 70. He is 75. So I threw him out. Any comments on this kind of online addict.
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Tue, 19 Feb 2013 20:47:23 +0000http://www.jdate.com/jmag/?p=138211#comment-113581Yes I had contact with a man who knew where I lived and asked for my phone number as he had “lots of questions for me” and we had a nice chat, then suddenly he said he had to get off the phone to take care of something (???)and then when I sent him an e-mail saying that I enjoyed our chat, he said that I lived too far away, an hour’s drive (something he had to know in the first place)so there was not much point to going any further.
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Mon, 11 Feb 2013 17:33:04 +0000http://www.jdate.com/jmag/?p=138211#comment-111351STORY OF MY LIFE!! I am in the same boat and completely over it. It seems like all the guys on this site just want to mess around and not anything serious. I have been on so many dates and its all the same BS!
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Mon, 11 Feb 2013 08:41:35 +0000http://www.jdate.com/jmag/?p=138211#comment-111261Update from Baffled:

I had 4 dates this week and have another one set for next week (all different guys). My dating experiences have definitely turned around. What did I do differently? Nothing except not waste my time on jokers (guys who waste time and do not ask out). I do pay attention to my inbox and send out emails making contact when a profile interests me. I have also edited my profile but not to a great degree; same pictures. When texting or on the phone with the other party, I keep the conversation going in a way that asks the question, “When will we meet?” For many guys it’s automatic and they will drive an hour to meet, buy dinner and drinks; it’s a real date. For others, nothing happens. Go figure. Humanity.

I’ve also had great interaction and fun with guys from other parts of the nation. Although it’s unlikely we will meet, friendships have developed and we share our dating experiences. This has been enjoyable.

Regards,

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Sun, 10 Feb 2013 23:30:43 +0000http://www.jdate.com/jmag/?p=138211#comment-111151Hi I really enjoy what you say about meeting,you have reason,
I think the same about ,
best regards
Vanice
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