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He “likes me and finds me attractive”, but by no means am I nearly as good looking as a movie star, and I am crazy to be even comparing myself to them. Of course, I felt hurt and I had a few “nice” things to say to him in response – as in “look who’s talking” kind of things and this conversation went downhill right away. Her wanting to be that woman doesn’t mean she has low self esteem; it means she’s a woman.

Now, am I crazy to be upset about this outlook of his? While I am totally OK with the idea that somebody doesn’t find me the most beautiful woman on the planet, which a lot of people probably don’t, I am somehow not OK with that person being my boyfriend! Like it or not, so much of a woman’s value is based on her beauty.

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To him, I am “good looking” and “pretty” but, say, Angelina Jolie is “hot”, and “beautiful” and I am well… They obscure the truth to be sensitive, but fail to communicate their true feelings. ” The woman would turn to her friend and say, “Do you think it’s hot in here? The woman tries to build consensus, but she doesn’t come out directly and say what she really wants: open the goddamn window! But the reason I’m sharing this, in reference to your situation, Diana, is that the most interesting thing about women’s linguistics patterns can be summed up in one line: Men say what they mean. Thus, women are often surprised when men say what they mean. So what’s really going on, Diana, is that you wanted your boyfriend to LIE to you. Is this a sign of a mature man, or a sign of a man who’s not really in love? I’ve dated such women and personally, I would rather date a 7 who can accept reality than a 10 who expects me to lie to her.

a regular person so I am not, how could I possibly be? My linguistics professor used an example of how a typical man and a typical woman would respond to being stuck in a hot classroom. I’m not going to get into some debate about whether this is 100% accurate, because it’s not. It’s in a woman’s DNA to want to be seen as the most beautiful woman in her man’s eyes.

That child is aching for a man to call his or her own.

a sign of a mature man, or a sign of a man who’s not really in love? You can pick up a heroin addiction, drop out of high school, rob a bank or decide to write the great American novel financing yourself on your credit cards. You can go to rehab, get your GED, get parole, and pay off those cards. A modern man doesn’t turn up his nose at a woman with some sexual experience who might have learned a trick or two from previous lovers about what men REALLY like, or more likely, she learned how to FIND OUT, but the majority of men would like to see a NEW sign on her uterus. When a man picks a wife, he wants to know he won’t be competing with some random babydaddy who was there before him. A great wife and mother places the needs and happiness of her husband and children ABOVE her own needs, and in doing so, finds her greatest happiness. But a woman who makes YOU the center of her life is going to be a great wife. Oh, that’s the story she’ll spin for you, because really, what women is going to sit there and say “I’m an unbearably controlling and irrational cunt who made my husband’s life such hell he decided he would rather be a weekend Dad than spend one more second with me”. What kind of delusional self-image does a woman have, if she can fall for a con artist with a gambling habit that would shame Charlie Sheen?But once you have a child, you cannot take it back. Third, single mothers profoundly misunderstand men. There are few men who are overjoyed to spend their blood, sweat and tears on some other guy’s genetic offspring. A woman who cares so little about her children, her own prospects, and her future husband is NOT going to make a great wife. Oh, and in return, you have to make HER the center of your life. When you meet a divorced single mother, immediately start looking for the flaw. Something that drove another man to pledge his undying love to her, to have and to hold, from this day forth, and then sometime later decide “fuck this shit. Be very cautious around a woman who takes none of the blame for her failed marriage. If you ever find yourself referring to a woman whose husband died on a battlefield as a single mother, you should immediately pour Tabasco sauce into your eyes, because you deserve to weep all the tears I’m certain she has.Having a child out of wedlock is pretty much the number one thing you can do to fuck up your life. Never, ever assume a divorced woman is some innocent blushing maid cruelly abused by some terrible man. What kind of insecurities plague a woman who thinks getting married to a drug addict is good idea? Depression, suicide, drug abuse, jail and psychiatric medications are all more common in populations of children raised by single mothers. journalid=37&articleid=107&sectionid=692 Ladies, this is why abortion exists! Children of single mothers do poorly on every imaginable scale: they have more emotional problems, experience more stress, are more likely to grow up poor, they have lower educational achievements and experience way more behavioral problems than children who grow up with married parents.We’re getting pretty serious but there’s something that is eating me up inside. Being 5’5″ and 115lbs and measuring 34-26-35.5”, I always assumed that I was in the same league as a lot of celebrities who boast similar bodies. The difference is that: a) My wife would never ask me to compare her to Angelina Jolie. b) My wife would not be surprised at my response, which is that she’s no Angelina Jolie. You basically set yourself up for failure on a couple of levels. • You insulted your boyfriend’s looks because he didn’t lie and tell you were as attractive as one of the most attractive women on the planet. • You actually feel that that a man who is truly into you would think you are more beautiful than all of the Hollywood celebrities combined? How much self-delusion do you have to have to say such things? So, to answer your question: Are you being insecure and shallow for zooming in on this issue when everything else is fine, or have you got a legitimate concern?Granted, I am a little heavier towards my hips and have a bit wider frame but does 1″ really make a lot of difference here? He basically told me that I can’t even compare myself to an actress or other celebrities (this ridiculous conversation started while watching TV and making comments about some actress). “No, you don’t look fat in those jeans.” Men cut their buddies down. ” In fact, suffice to say, women are largely better and more sensitive communicators and men should really learn take a page out of women’s emotional playbooks. Because women are so kind and supportive, they don’t always speak their minds. c) My wife would not take it personally that I told her the truth, because she knows she’s no Angelina Jolie. • You expected your boyfriend to be “infatuated” with you because other men have been. I mean, let’s just take it to the extreme: A man with average looks, average intelligence and an average job gets pissed at his girlfriend who doesn’t think he’s the love child of Brad Pitt and Steve Jobs. Is your boyfriend recognizing that you may not be at the very top of his scale in terms of looks but are the best “package” he can get in terms of looks-personality-values-etc? You’re spot on in assessing your boyfriend’s maturity. The real question is whether it’s a deal breaker for HIM to stay with a woman who has such a hard time hearing the truth. Women are turned off by men who show their physical interest on a first date. Men respond to women who show their physical interest in them on a first date.