(Original post by LordwinJMA)
Lol age isn't just a number guys come on.
Call me old fashioned but I think you should see where the relationship can go before you go any further; because both of you are in very different stages of life; she's only just become an adult (legally) and maturity we don't know about since we don't know the girl. You're 27, probably looking to settle down with a woman, not a girl, of age. I just don't know what's going through your head really (not in the offensive way, I genuinely wonder what you're thinking), like does it even sound right to you to be having sex with a girl 8 years younger than you? When you we 5 her parents hadn't even had sex to make her yet and you were already walking and talking, just think about that

(Original post by LordwinJMA)
Lol age isn't just a number guys come on.
Call me old fashioned but I think you should see where the relationship can go before you go any further; because both of you are in very different stages of life; she's only just become an adult (legally) and maturity we don't know about since we don't know the girl. You're 27, probably looking to settle down with a woman, not a girl, of age. I just don't know what's going through your head really (not in the offensive way, I genuinely wonder what you're thinking), like does it even sound right to you to be having sex with a girl 8 years younger than you? When you we 5 her parents hadn't even had sex to make her yet and you were already walking and talking, just think about that

I really cannot see how it's wrong.
I mean it's completely legal and consensual by the sounds of it.

(Original post by TheonlyMrsHolmes)
I really cannot see how it's wrong.
I mean it's completely legal and consensual by the sounds of it.

Just because it's politically correct doesn't mean it's morally correct (in my book at least, but he's a different person so I guess his perspective is different)
I mean there's stories of guys who are intimately in love with their grandmothers and have had children with them, although both people are over 18 and are politically allowed to do whatever they want, does that even sound right to you? "I had a baby with my nan..."?

(Original post by LordwinJMA)
Lol age isn't just a number guys come on.
Call me old fashioned but I think you should see where the relationship can go before you go any further; because both of you are in very different stages of life; she's only just become an adult (legally) and maturity we don't know about since we don't know the girl. You're 27, probably looking to settle down with a woman, not a girl, of age. I just don't know what's going through your head really (not in the offensive way, I genuinely wonder what you're thinking), like does it even sound right to you to be having sex with a girl 8 years younger than you? When you we 5 her parents hadn't even had sex to make her yet and you were already walking and talking, just think about that

An age gap of anything over 9 months would lead to one person being born and the other not having being conceived! That whole "you were 5 when..." thing totally fails to emphasise the age gap. If anything it shows how close in age we are - the same sort of generation.

She's at second year of university, going onto third year soon. So I would say she has matured.

(Original post by LordwinJMA)
Just because it's politically correct doesn't mean it's morally correct (in my book at least, but he's a different person so I guess his perspective is different)
I mean there's stories of guys who are intimately in love with their grandmothers and have had children with them, although both people are over 18 and are politically allowed to do whatever they want, does that even sound right to you? "I had a baby with my nan..."?

I don't think you can compare OP's relationship to an incestuous relationship with one's grandparents...

(Original post by LordwinJMA)
I meant the slang connotation for trust me, as in I agree that what I said was ironic

You've lost me.

(Original post by LordwinJMA)
Just because it's politically correct doesn't mean it's morally correct (in my book at least, but he's a different person so I guess his perspective is different)
I mean there's stories of guys who are intimately in love with their grandmothers and have had children with them, although both people are over 18 and are politically allowed to do whatever they want, does that even sound right to you? "I had a baby with my nan..."?

Although I agree with the "Just because it's politically correct doesn't mean it's morally correct" bit, that's just incest, which I'm pretty sure is illegal, or at least I hope it is.

That's really weird to me. Yes it's completely legal, but what exactly do you have in common? You're both in completely different stages of your life, and it does ring some alarm bells imo. However, as it is legal, you can do whatever.

(Original post by drowzee)
That's really weird to me. Yes it's completely legal, but what exactly do you have in common? You're both in completely different stages of your life, and it does ring some alarm bells imo. However, as it is legal, you can do whatever.

What alarm bells?

She's approaching final year of university. I am three years out of university. We both study similar subjects.

She's approaching final year of university. I am three years out of university. We both study similar subjects.

It's not really a world of difference.

You said you're 27 and she's 19; an 8 year age gap isn't bad, but considering you're in your late 20s and she's only 19, it is a tad odd. I am in no position to judge as I don't know either of you, so you do you. I just think for most people that wouldn't work.