Learning Blowjob Techniques

First of all Xaviera says there is no man who can say there is too much oral sex for him.

Xaviera Hollander is a very famous and popular person in the United States. Well, of course! This amazing woman has years of experience in the field of oral sex that helped her to create her own theory. That theory now is basic in courses she provides for all the girls who want to learn how to suck and those ones who wish to master their skills. Everyone can take those courses despite the age and religious beliefs.

Her first lecture dedicated to the art of blowjob Miss Hollander took a few decades ago but this topic remains popular even today.

She says it’s a great relief you can speak about blowjob without any taboo or fear to be involved into a scandalous story. So let’s learn what she teaches us.

First of all Xaviera says there is no man who can say there is too much oral sex for him. And don’t listen to others! There is only one truth on this Earth if to believe to Hollander – guys are ready to get pleasure of blowjob nearly 24 hours a day! And it’s true! The recent research dedicated to this topic has shown that single and married men, young or old agree they can enjoy blowjob every hour if their sexual partners are able to give it.

We think you know that oral sex has always been the integral part of your sex lives. Moreover, if you skillfully use your tongue and lips your sexual partner will forget about your character drawbacks and your failure as a cook. Let’s speak about skills in detail.

Xaviera says women refuse giving head mainly because of two reasons. First of all, giving deep throat causes gag reflex. Well, this can happen. But as Hollander says you need a little training and you’ll do it. She advises to massage the root of your tongue close to the glands with fingertips a few times a day. By the way, you can practice to your training using a banana without skin. After 7 days of such training your skills will be better!

Second reason is that 5-10 minutes of upside down head makes girls feel dizzy. To solve this problem you can try other sex position. Hollander advises to lie on your back in a way your throat and mouth were on one line. Your sexual partner has to kneel in front of you and start moving. You can get rid of negative feelings having synchronized your breathing with penis movements (you inhale when a penis moves in and exhale when it moves out). This sex position has one more benefit – your boyfriend can see everything you do and get amazing feeling of physical and psychological pleasure.
Let’s go further. Xaviera says you will not find two identical guys who love the same blowjob technique. It means you need to apply your skills and fantasy to find out what movements give your sexual partner the most pleasure. But your first task is to learn basic techniques.

Xaviera suggests looking at blowjob as a number of parts. First of all the speech is about sliding up and down cock with your pursed lips which should remind of penis movement inside a vagina. To learn this movement you can use a banana again. Fast tongue movements are also the part of this stage. So train your speed you can increase or decrease as your sexual partner wants. Your tongue must vibrate, change its direction and pay its attention to the most sacred – head of the penis possessing lots of nerve endings.

Only practice will help you to become a skillful lover. But your effort worth it – there is no man who can refuse to become an ‘experimental object’ in this affair. Moreover, you shouldn’t explain him everything you do with his penis.

It’s impossible to imagine a blowjob without paying much attention not only to penis but also to testicles, scrotum and extremely sensitive zone between it and anus. By the way, you can give your sexual partner real pleasure stimulating this erotic zone. Xaviera advises to make your boyfriend shave his genitals. There are benefits for both of you! First of all your sexual partner will get lots of new exciting feelings. And you will not need to stop to take a hair away from your mouth. By the way why not to listen to Miss Hollander and turn genitals’ shaving into a passionate foreplay? It’s better for you both to take part in it. But before you do it make sure your guy’s penis is hard – it’s much easier to shave hard balls. Then you can give your partner lots of tongue and kisses to thank him for shaving. And remember: hands help blowjob and teeth ruin it.