Hello there again!
I posted a while ago about this girl that was winding me up. I was talking to her online the other day, and she was showing me pics of her holiday. Now, we always flirt about, but nothing ever comes of it. Well, there was this picture of her at the beach in her bikini, and I said 'wow, can I see a bit more of you please :stuck_out_tongue_winking_eye: ?' in a jokish thought, but she started talking seriously, as if she thought I'd meant 'can I see more of you' girlfriend wise. So, this double meaning has meant she might be going with me and a friend swimming on saturday. She says she doesn't know if it's positive, but if she can't make it, she definatly will some other time :blush: I'm ecstatic :laughing:

So, we're going to go swimming sometime, only wearing swimstuff, so it's pretty hot :laughing: Any ideas of what to say? What to talk about?

Yeah, I have the perfect plan for you:BE YOURSELF! After all...it seems to have worked so far. Look, if she's interested in you, then you have to let her know who you are and you certainly can't do that if you're trying to be someone else to impress her. Talk to the girl...ask about her interest that you don't know...ask about the ones you DO know...but don't dominate the conversation...answer her questions as honestly as you can.Oh, and one more thing: is the friend you're going with male or female, your friend or hers? That makes a difference....

well, I always go with my friend (male) who is in her class, so she knows him. She will likely bring her friend along too (we all know each other).Thanks for the reply, but being in the pool for a while is going to make it hard to keep a conversation last that long.I will try

In reply to: ...being in the pool for a while is going to make it hard to keep a conversation last that long. The perfect way to keep a conversation going is to be a good LISTENER! Women are almost always better talkers than men are. Just think of something about her that you are curious about and ask; then LISTEN to the answer. Don't spend the time she is talking thinking of what you are going to say on the same topic, because that means you aren't listening. I tell my kids that they should always maintain good eye contact and come away from a conversation knowing at least as much about the person they were talking to as that person now knows about them. PS. When all else fails, jump in the water, but don't splash her unless she splashes you first, and maybe not even then. Good luck!