I am sad, frustrated and I don’t know where to start from, what did I do to deserve this.

I gave my all or is it a sin to love someone who claims to love you, Damola and I didn’t have any issue neither did we have any major quarrel just the normal ups and downs that married couples have but I started feeling uneasy few weeks to our Wedding Anniversary when he rarely pick my calls nor reply my sms promptly and will only call me back in the middle of the night.

Gist started filtering into my ears that Damola was seeing Bukky but I ignored but when my husband won’t change I asked him and he denied that the only thing between them is work until Damola’s brother girlfriend called me to tell me that Damola actually brought Bukky to Osogbo and they went to Damola’s uncle home where she made dinner for him before they retired into the room to make love and it started to make sense to me because like thrice in the middle of the night I had seen Bukky’s text messages to Damola saying I miss you, i love you and can’t wait to see you but I allowed it to slide because guys in the industry are in the habit of calling themselves darlings and all.

But when I knew I was in serious trouble was when I came home for our Anniversary and Damola didn’t pick me at the Airport and on getting home noticed that Damola had packed all our wedding pictures and all my properties into the guest room, while waiting for him I took a look at his ipad and behold I read his messages with Bukky talking about the romantic getaways,the fact that he does not want me again and he professing love to Bukky.

I was home for 30days and Damola only slept home once,Later I heard he was with Bukky in Magodo, I went to see his parents but got a shocker as they told me pointblank that they would only want what their son wants and all my parents efforts to make peace his parents turned down, I have not spoken to Damola for over 70days as he neither picks my call nor reply my sms.

Distance relationship forget it,wont work for long,1 in USA,UK now Dubai ,1 part in Nigeria.Find ur husband in Dubai,nigeria man with only phone call in midnight,no wife at home to cook,talk,hold and test,forget,he too is fool to marry this way first place.

The truth the told, the guy messed up. I am married thou no issue yet, I did not allow my wife return to the UK where she based. The mare sense of a third party separating us couldn’t let either of us stay apart. It is sad that immorality doesn’t sound sinful to us any longer. Men should learn to say No to those stuffs under skirt. If he felt his marriage is at stake, did he tried calling the wife’s attention for relocation? Doesn’t he know before marrying her that she based in dubai or she is not beautiful enough for Him? God will judge evry of our evil act. This is evil and inhumane act. What a man shows, He shall reap.

What a display of shame. This people should have known by now that character is of great value. This arugba girl, I learnt attended Unilorin, what a misrepresentation for unilorites. Get married the right way and if it’s not working get a divorce the right way….very simple and less messy…..

I hate it when people think because women that stay apart from their hubby for one reason or the other mess around! Because Raliat stay in dubai doesnt mean she dates anyone there. I have been in the united states for over two years away from my hubby it has never ever crossed my mind to date anybody even when the pressure was much i never think twice about .if you love your man u definitely will be faithful in any situation

Marriage i know is between a man and a woman until death do them part or a union between a man and a woman, we should know the meaning of marriage before engaging in it, let us stop this western culture that is not taking us anywhere.

Damola one of the best actor I love watching his movie but why is it you that is caught in such kind of habit.I don’t know what might have gone wrong between you and your wife but you shouldn’t have acted first in such manner…I pray GOD should intervene in these your matter o.

Damola olatunji has bin one of ma best nollywood actor likewise bukola who is no doubt my best actress. she just has DT face DT makes everyone love her especially her natural beauty BT it was a sad tin when I heard abt dis issue. I wasn’t expecting it from u guys at all. all though,it doesn’t change my likes 2wads u both BT it not gud.

RALIAT -IT,S A PITY THINGS ARE HAPPENING DIS WAY BUT DON,T U THINK YOU ,RE KEPT IN D DARK 4 SO LONG BCOS OF UR FLIPANT MOUTH ? JUST IMAGIN UR STATEMENT – DAMOLA,S BROTHER,S G/FRD TOLD ME -DAMOLA ACTUALLY BROUGHT BUKKY TO OSOGBO -BLA BLA BLA . MUST U MENTION D SOURCE OF UR STORY ?CHILDISH ADULTS . AND WHY DID D LONG-THROAT DAMOLA GET MARRIED TO D DUBAI-LADY WITHOUT LOVING HER ?NO OIL MONEY AGAIN–DAMOLA DON CHANGE DIRECTION [email protected] BLESS YOU 4 WISDOM . @ OMOLABAKE –I CONCOR .-DON,T MIND DEM ,THEY THINK ALL WOMEN ARE PROMISCIOUS LIKE THEIRS .THESE NOLLYWOOD DESPERATE GIRLS TAKE ONE INJECTION CALLED ” HUSSKID “MEANING -HUSBAND SNATCHING / KIDNAPPING INJECTION . @ BUKOLA – IT,S A DISGRACE THAT WITH ALL UR ACQUIRED BEAUTY AND KNOWLEDGE U COULD ONLY FIND 4 URSELF D HUSBAND OF AN OODUDUWA DAUGHTER ! WHAT MAKES U ALL DOING THESE THINGS THINK U,LL GO UNPUNISHED ? SOME OF WILL CRY SERIOUSLY IN UR OLD-AGE, SOME EVEN B4 YOU GET OLD . WHY HAS THIS BCOME A CULTURE IN NOLLYWOOD ?AND D ENVIRONS ???. RALIAT , PRAY THAT OLUWA PROVIDES YOU WITH A GENIUNE MAN BCOS AN EARLY MARRIAGE OF LESS THAN 2YRS WITH SUCH GRAVITY OF INFIDELITY IS GOING NO FAR .WAS UR HUSBAND NOT SUPPOSE TO GO TO DUBAI 4 UR WEDDING ANNIVERSARY ? WHY U COMING TO NIGERIA ?YET HE NEVER CAME TO PICK U AT D AIRPORT ?.WHY DO SOME LADIES DO WHAT MEN ARE SUPPOSE TO DO ATIMES ? OLUWA HELP US ALL WITH DIVINE WISDOM.

You made a lot of sense. I also was shocked when she said the source of the gossip, can you imagine? That confession can ruin the other girl’s relationship. So, she saw texts from Bukky to her husband saying I love you and she didn’t do anything?? This girl is beyond stupid!! Its a shame her marriage broke down but to be honest, she caused it. This will teach her for future purposes.

What a man need in relationship is not sex nor dinner but a presence of a woman that he love so much,,,,,, is not everything house ???? maid can do!!!! Respect matter’s mostly a to you spent with spouse….