(Closed) To hair flower or not?

So I had my hair trial and bridal portraits (don’t have any pics yet) and I loved my hair. She did an awesome side updo that was just the right amount of loose and messy. The only problem is that now I think I really want to wear a hair flower for the reception. I am wearing a veil only for the ceremony and the hair flowers are just so stinkin cute that now I think I want one. Should I wear a hair flower? and if so which side do I wear it on?? HELP! thanks

and sorry that I don’t have better pics than this. These were taken at the end of a very long day.