Cancer in Love

All jokes aside, they really can be one of the most intense partners in the Zodiac. They have that crab-like shell, sure – but once you get past it, they have more of an ability to become obsessed with their partners than anybody; anybody except, that is, perhaps Scorpio.

This sign is also the least likely to kiss and tell, which can be so frustrating from the outside – you KNOW your Cancer friend’s in love – but if they are, why aren’t you hearing about it more? they are not being selfish – they’re just being private. If the whole world knew about the inner workings of their relationship, well, the relationship wouldn’t be that special, now would it?

What to look for in a partner: someone who needs support, but doesn’t show it; the underdog; someone who can keep a secret. Perhaps a Capricorn with a lot of water in their chart.

Love Traits

A main love trait of Cancer is to love forever – once love is given it’s for life. Typically they are kind people who love family life. They tend to be naturally loving and caring and can also demonstrate creativity, imagination, shrewdness and caution in equal measures. Cancer people can be a little sensitive and easily hurt but tend not to hold a grudge. Cancer is also a sexy Sign – they will know how to show their feelings towards you.

Cancer Male Love Traits:

The man who understands women – the one who is willing to go shopping with you, the one who knows how to be romantic, the one who knows how to make you feel sexy. He’ll also remember your birthday and anniversary . This guy will have lots of girlfriends (not necessarily all at the same time) but once he makes a commitment to marry someone he stays committed. Not really the jealous type but can be a little moody for no good reason.

The Cancer female needs and expects total honesty and trust in her relationship – but in return will give you everything you need. She can be a real party girl yet also a great lifelong partner. She loves children and is a great comforter for them. Cancer woman needs emotional security and constant reassurance in her relationship but will stick with her chosen partner through thick and thin, providing support and encouragement when things are not going great.

What It’s Like To Date A Cancer Man ‘

Men of this sign are generally not forthright with their mate. He will approach a female with cautiousness. It’s not uncommon for them to be both flirtatious and romantic, courting the lady with attention and expensive gifts.

Cancer men fear rejection, which is why they are not direct with the ladies. If you would like to date a man of this sign, you must make the move and ask him out. Cancer men tend to fall easily in love, making their mate their entire world. Once that feeling of belonging begins, he can become possessive and jealous. He worries that he might lose you to someone else, crushing his spirit.

They demand their mate be both faithful and devoted in the relationship. Of all astrological signs, Cancer men are seen as the most trustworthy. Cancer men are great lovers for any woman who loves the idea of being swept off her feet and wants romance. Cancers are extremely affectionate and demand constant physical contact.

They are all about feelings even if the Cancer men don’t show it themselves. While he may come across as cool and calm; on the inside, he’s deeply intense. They can become easily offended so don’t make jokes at their expense. You may not realize you hurt him but he will become pouty and try to decipher just what you were trying to get at.

Cancer men are seen as the ideal protectors; a knight in shining armor. If you demand to be cared for and protected – a woman who wants love and warmth, the Cancer man is the ideal man for you.

What It’s Like To Date A Cancer Woman

The women of this sign are often sensual with deep passions and emotions simmering under her skin. If a potential mate wants to be with a Cancer woman, he must be patient, tender and give her time. A potential mate shouldn’t expect an open book with a Cancer woman. She doesn’t get into relationships easily and any moves made must be done by you.

Cancer women are very intuitive so a person’s impure motives will be immediately noticed. The women of this sign see trust as the most important thing. Betray it, and you can leave. The Cancer woman demands both security and love.

A man who desires to sweep a lady off her feet can do well with a Cancer lady. She’s regarded as sweet, sensual and flirtatious. You may even do a tango together while you build a relationship together. After the foundation is built and secure, the relationship’s richness will present itself. The Cancer woman is passé and patient. If a man can provide her with what she needs, the relationship can be rewarding and long-living.

How To Attract A Cancer

Cancers are not overly direct so you must be. You must make them aware of your feelings if you are to establish a relationship with them. Their biggest fear is rejection, and if you take the risk, they don’t need to worry about it. If you want a short lived relationship with them, tell them. You don’t want them thinking there is something more there when there isn’t. Hurting them can really crush their spirit.

You must build trust with them to bring them closer to you. Be sure you praise them but not overly so because they can sense when this is being done to them. You need to be sincere toward them. Cancer loves giving advice so share what issues you have with them. They love to help people out and provide advice.

These people love the culture and extravagant experiences – bring them to a play, museum or fancy restaurant. Never force them to undertake a relationship or make hasty decisions. They’ll start to shy from you. Be patient, as that is the key to winning them over. Be physical because they love the affection. Bear in mind that Cancer is overly cautious. Allow time to pass and allow things to progress slowly. Before you know it, you’ll have a fulfilling, loving relationship.

Quiz: Cancer lover – What kind of Lover are you? or is your partner?

To answer each question, meditate or think about each one to get an answer of either Yes, No, or Sometimes, which ever applies best to you in regards to the question.

Scores: Yes=3 Sometimes=2 No=1

For Men

Do you consider yourself having a very nurturing nature? Does the ocean inspire you? Is having a big family with many children part of your dream? Is going out for coffee or for a drink with your friends often, important to you? Does making out with two women at the same time turn you on? Does the woman of your life become the center of your world? Do you keep in touch with old flames? Do you have a great memory? Are you patient and gifted with details? Do you love to take care of dependants? Do you enjoy the old traditional lovemaking? Do you believe that you can only love one person at a time? Do you practice any sports? Are you attracted to trouble? Do you worry about what people think? Do you feel that society has lost a sense of morality? Do you love to be the center of attention? Does it take you a long time to get over a lost love? Do you get hurt when other people lack sensitivity? Do you want to be the one and only for the love of your life?

For Women

Does everything you see and hear touch you deeply? Is romance a part of everything you do in life? Do you feel that to have a family without children is very sad? Can you stand a man who is unfaithful? Do you tend to hide in your shell? Do you prefer it if your mate takes the lead in bed (you like the secondary role)? Do you have a tendency to get noxious and sick? Do you like to be the center of attention? Do people hurt you easily? Does the ocean fascinate you? Is sexuality important to you in your life? Do you have a tendency to gain weight? Do you worry about what people think? Is it impossible for you to have two lovers at the same time? Do you suffer from melancholy? Do you have a tendency to be too possessive? Are you gifted to handle money? Do you prefer to be alone? Do you adore antiques? Are you a romantic at heart and believe that you cannot have sex without fantasy?

SCORES FOR CANCER

1 – 35 POINTS

You are a stronger and more assertive type of Cancer. The Moon influence is tempered by the Air element, which gives you more confidence in your way of handling life.

35 – 45 POINTS

You are a Positive Cancer. These are men and women who are very comfortable with feminine energy and also have high creativity. It is tempered by the Earth element, which makes them more practical in making their dreams more of a reality.

45 – 60 POINTS

You are a true and typical Cancer. You are dreamers and very maternal and possess all of the typical traits of Cancer.