If you’re going to a local sex site like this one, it’s easy to think that the only way you can achieve victory is when a chick is down on her knees sucking your dick, playing with your balls, taking your dick in her mouth, and eventually bending over so you can take her from the back. While granted that is the ultimate benchmark of success whenever sex is involved, you have to also keep in mind that this can only happen after you go through a process.

You see, trying to get laid online is not much different from trying to find an ideal job. You have to go through a process. You have to go through several steps that set you up for certain filtering processes.

It’s not like you just go to a website, pick up a profile, send it messages, and all of a sudden the chick responds with the date and time for when you can fuck. It would be nice if the online dating world actually operated that way. Last time I checked, things only work this way according to the advertising materials of adult dating sites. In other words, it’s a complete and total pile of shit.

Make no mistake about it, achieving sexual victory with a typical local sex site still requires work. It still requires time. You have to be consistent with your focus and your attention. Otherwise, nothing is going to happen, at least nothing good.

So it’s really important to define success and victory based on the context of where you are in the process. Otherwise, you’re just going to unnecessarily demoralize yourself.

It’s like trying to make money online. If your definition of success is you making millions of dollars and you just put up a website, it’s very easy to feel like you’re wasting your time. It’s very easy to feel that you’re failing because you’re not making a million bucks. Do you see how this works? So focus on where you are in the process and let the process push you forward to your ultimate victory.