Psychologically, it is impossible for a woman to be truly dominant. To be dominant one must learn what it means to be disciplined, commanding, and have a strong sense of will. Most importantly though is the experience of gaining what you have through work and/or hardship. Society coddles women. They are handed opportunities and adoration by virtue of their sex. They do not know the experience of true hardship, only imagined. They do not know how to truly command obedience, be disciplined, or have strong willpower. A woman can gain everything having sacrificed and striven for nothing. She reaches the throne on the backs of other's efforts, blissfully ignorant of her lacking effort.

Thus when you meet a "dominant" woman, what you meet is a fake. A hollow shell. A simulacrum of dominance. A man who is dominant commands respect and demands obedience. He puts those who submit to him in their place with a firm hand and unflinching will. A "dominant" woman is a living fallacy. Her "dominance" is just self aggrandizing masturbation. Her brittle shell will break the at the first moment of true resistance. Her tough and commanding demeanor shattered by a simple slur or negative assertion. Whether she enters a rage or cries bitter, stinging tears matters little. She is defeated, laid low by one supposedly the "submissive."

Such is what it means to be the so called fairer sex. This is why women should be at home as submissives.

From another thread, but it belongs here and deserves to be illustrated desu.

I got a small greentext set my buddy sent that relevant to this, here's what he sent verbatim:

I come bearing a feela very specific feela feel I doubt others have felt, nor have they considered this feel, but it's a feel i felt and i wonder if others will feel it after explaining the feel to you.>tfwno:>gf who tries to get into femdom because it sounds fun and she knows you like it, but she's very inexperienced and messes up quite a lot, stuttering, giggling, but still tries her best. Her dialogue is in quotes.

>"OK, first things first, boy, you may only cal-">No, honey, first thing is the safe word>"What?">The safe word, dear>"Oh yes right, sorry, you said about this. [She checks her small pink notebook]>"Umm, yes, your safe word, boy, is "butterfly", ok?">Yes ma'am

>"Now, don't call me honey. You may only call me, Miss, Ma'am, or Mummy">Wait, can I just not call you mummy?>"Eeeh? Why not, it sounds cute">Yeah, but I think it's weird. I mean, we had lunch with my mum the other day.>"Oh yeah, I see what you mean. Remind me to return her mixing bowl after this">Yes honey.>[She kisses his head]

>"Now, boy, you can start off my licking my boots">"But, like, only the tops and sides. I know you vacuumed today, but the bottom can still be gross".>Yes, ma'am [He lifts her foot making her wobble]>Honey, sit down on something, I dunno the table.>"It's too tall, plus my butt's exposed">Then hold on [He takes cushions off of couch]>"Mm yes, that's better. Start rubbing my feet as well">Yes ma'am>"Oh yeah, I need this. It's been a long day">Did you try those orthotics I recommended?>"Yeah I ordered them, but they're still in the mail">How was the free sample?>"Oh it was great. Thanks sweetie".

More on Newlywed Femdom Couple>"Oh yes, does it feel good; my gloved hand stroking your dick?">Yes ma'am, it's wonderful. If you keep that up, I'm->"Nuh uh uh. Not yet. ">"I control your orgasm, and there's nothing you can do about it.">"Hehe, I bet you'll do anything do ble bl- blah blah pffft. Hold on."> [She read's her pink kitten notebook] "You sure this is right, I swear we've done this before?">Yeah, but I liked it, so why not do it again before we go out for dinner?>"Fair enough" [She mumble reads from her notes]>"I bet you'll ...mmhmm, anything to be.... ABLE to cum">"I bet you'll do anything to get a chance to be able to cum!"

(It's ok if none of you like this. This is a feel for me. It's my feel that I carved myself).

You know that's not happening. Someone with more tolerance for bullshit than I, should start archiving the sexy greentexts and OC in pastebins so I can enjoy 10% of the thread worth checking out without the rest.

>>8377267but seriously. the guy is short because it's easier to depict "domination" if the girl is bigger. they have no body hair because it's hard to draw and adds nothing to the picture. like seriously practically no anime pictures have realistic amounts of body hair on anyone

>>8376853honestly? the characters are one-dimensional, foot worship is niche (not my thing desu), and you need more showing, less declaring. if you're going to do orgasm control make it obvious *without* saying what's happening. don't put narration in the dialogue.sorry to be critical but the truth is that most writing comes out like that if you don't have experience. just write lots and expect to throw 95% of it away.

>>83777281. Determine gf's role compared to other girl, is she sub dom or switch with girls?2. Do you intend to have piv intercourse with the second girl? If no, just get a dildo. If yes, see craigslist/backpage - your work has just begun.3. Just because you cum inside her doesnt mean she won't at some point question the point of having a male around if she's got a female partner who's a better sub. Men are often judged on performance, women on looks.

Subby anons, I'd love some input from you!I want to make a jar of cute notes for my subby boy - we spend time apart regularly due to work and I want him to have a little handwritten pick me up when he's feeling down.What would you love to read on notes like that?

>>8378082I'd like a mixture of stuff because it would feel like an exciting lottery. Some categories:

>praise: "You're my good boy" "I love you so much" "You make me happy" etc etc etc>sexy commands: "Text me, we're having phone sex tonight." "Take a sexy picture of yourself and send it to me." "You've been a bad boy. Spank youself 10 times and apologize to me" "Wear your butt plug and masturbate" "Tell me one thing you'd want to try in the bedroom" >non sexy but positive commands: "Drop down and give me 50 pushups" "Clean the bathroom" "Throw a blanket in the dryer and cuddle with it, thinking of me" "Go into my closet for a box of chocolates <3"

I never really had a fetish for Gentle FemDom or Role Reversal; but I've been exploring it with my wife lately. It's her fetish, not mine.

Over the course of our marriage, I've found some dynamics in our relationship to be changing. At first, I held the more prominent job in medical while she worked the phones at a startup company. We moved into my apartment together. I initiated almost every sexual encounter, and usually it was BDSM related with her as the submissive.

Fast forward five years.

Her job blew up. She's a director at that same company and makes twice my take-home pay. It was somehow decided along the way that I'd be better serving the household if I moved to part-time and spent my days off cleaning the house and preparing meals for the week. She now initiates 90% of our sex, increasingly pushing me down, straddling me, trying to hold my hands up above my head, etc.

This all just happened so slowly it seems normal now.

Today she joked about how I'd proposed to her; and showed me how she'd propose to me if it had been her. She got down on one knee, gave me the ring and put it on my finger. Then we had sex. I don't even.

>>8378540i never posted any pictures of children and still haven't. one of my pictures was deleted for being "shota" even though there was nothing to indicate the guy was a child other than he was short and no body hair aka every anime sub ever

>>8378642i don't really have a whole lot to say other than good luck and maybe you should have a conversation about your expectations and desires once in a while. spontaneity is fun but planning ahead just a little is usually worth it

I guess the tradcons have found another way to attack this community and shame male submissives. Claiming that if a male character is short, thin or effeminate, then he's a shota and you're a pedo for posting that pic. They do this because they despise males who aren't traditionally masculine, they despise gfd, and they won't rest until this thread is 100% yurishit and girls getting pounded by Chad.

>>8378830Anon, of course we hate GFD. This shit has been banned no less than four times now, and every time, you fuck it up. You always get pissy, have a meltdown, and then raid other threads for a few months when you realize another ban is coming inevitably, and everyone has to put up with your shit.

We've seen it four times now. If anything people just want to fast track the part where you get banned so we can get through it quicker.

Also, read the rules, pedoshit is banned.

Also, decrying the oppression of the basedboy aesthetic isn't going to do you many favours on 4chan m8.

>>8378869>Also, decrying the oppression of the basedboy aesthetic isn't going to do you many favours on 4chan m8.>implying being short thin or effeminate is the same as being a basedboyTradcon brainlet spotted

>>8378810Something vampire themed I wrote for a gfd thread back in 2017 about a vampire lady turning her human sub into a vampire too it was well received then but it probably won't be now because the threads seem more argumentative these days.

>Shhh anon everything's going to be ok focus on my eyes Good Boyyy *she tilts your chin upwards her hypnotic stare puts you into a daze* that's it anon just go blank for me. *Slowly she kisses across your neck as you stand immobilised feeling intense pleasure but unable to do more than whimper. The kisses turn to love bites you're so open to her....so vulnerable then in a mix of pain and ecstasy you feel her fangs biting into your neck, your eyes close as you fall into her arms*

>*You wake up your head resting on her lap, it's night, your vision is different the colours are so much brighter...more vivid, you're hearing is sharper, it's so much... too much.. and you're thirsty, soooo thirsty, you start to moan aloud trying to convey the words to express your thirst...your need* it's Ok anon I've got you *she runs her hand through your hair calming you for the moment before she lifts her wrist to her mouth biting into it. The scent of her blood reaches your nose increasing your need and you let out a desperate cry....a plea. She puts her bloodied wrist to your mouth* that's it anon drink deep I've got you Goood Boyyy you're one of us now but you're still mine. *You listen to her soothing words, feel her fingers run softly and playfully through your hair as you fulfill your need. This is where you belong*

"Do you know why you're here?" "I-I-I" he stuttered. She looked him deep in the eye "you're here because your desires led to thoughtcrime. Some believe that such desires should be crushed" her face came close to his ear, he could feel her breath on his neck causing him to let out a whimper as she whispered "I believe desires can enable submission, You're mine now sweetie" he felt a slight pain in his arm as she jabbed a needle into it. "Nothing to worry about baby" she said "just to help you relax" he felt his body melt into the couch, he heard words but couldn't fully grasp their meaning. when his mind cleared he was lying naked, his body resting in her lap. One hand idly playing across his chest the other stroking his cheek, He let out a moan of pleasure as the sensations were too much. "Oh my pet is awake is he" she said in a mischievous tone inflaming him further "Do you want more?" She reached down between his legs grasping him "Yes Miss, please!" he exclaimed not recalling where he learnt to address her so. "Tell me" she said as she started stroking "Who owns you?", "You do Miss!" anons words came out in a whine of need Her mouth came down onto his neck biting deep, "And who am I anon" anon thought carefully. She was....she was Big Brother. She was his Mistress but she was also Big Brother. His submission to her was submission to Big Brother. "You're Big Brother, Miss pleaassee?!" She laughed sweetly and stroked faster "Good Boy, one last test" anons hips bucked as he came into her hands. He was spent. Sleep threatened to take him. But she brought her messed hand up to his mouth. "Sweetie, show Big brother your devotion" he opened his mouth licked his own mess off her fingers as she stroked his hair. "Good boyy".

O'Brien adjusted his glasses as he read the note. It was from an office within the ministry called the "Office of Lust" the message read Phase 1 of Experiment 69 DoublePlusGood success.

>>8378635>shaving>hygienic Not true at all. Most men don't shave their pubes, and they don't smell bad. Women didn't start shaving their pussies until the 70s. Shaving is done for strictly aesthetic reasons, and it imitates the appearance of a prepubescent child's genitals. Therefore, any picture with a shaved pussy or dick is 100% pedo shit.

>>8380044You're right, and I don't date people who smell bad. Hence why theres multiple people on that list. I stopped dating them. My latest pet knows he has to maintain a basic standard of hygiene, and that if he doesn't take care of it then I will.

>>8380044>>8379979>>8379977>>8379933>>8379956>>8379957Imagine defending smelling like shit and accusing people telling you to take a shower. This is the reason people call gfd autistic. You're the equivalent of the people who go to cons/tournaments without showering and then claim you're being oppressed when people retch and tell you to leave.

>>8380046No it's nothttp://www.hentai-foundry.com/pictures/user/WitchOfAvalon/205011/Commission---Nordshttps://www.hentai-foundry.com/user/WitchOfAvalon/profileAnd it wouldn't matter if it was, because it's drawn in a Western style.

>>8380068>as we all know, huge eyes and exaggerated features are common tropes in the westThey literally are. The anime style was originally inspired by Disney.

The artist's ethnicity doesn't matter. No one would care if a pic like this >>8377280 turned out to be drawn by some white guy from the states, because it's drawn in an anime style. >>8379994 is drawn in an ugly western deviantart style.

>>8380110>what happenedOther "communities" moved in. Compared to places like eka's, reddit, and even deviantart, /d/ looks positively lively, because new stuff is always being posted. Except it isn't actually new, and most of it is just reposts of older stuff. But the people moving in from outside don't know that, so they see a constant stream of "new content" when all their favorite artists on deviantart only post new pictures once a month.

So they start moving here, which makes /d/ pick up a little but those other places slow down in comparison. Then with those places dying, people start to post the "best" pictures from their old archives to here instead, except /d/ doesn't have archives and three weeks later someone else posts the same shit for the same reasons.

In other words, nothing changed. It's just different people with different images, doing the same shit for the same reasons. /d/ ate some other website's userbase, which happens every couple years and is easy to spot once you know what to look for.

>>8380687Thanks! I think its a really cute idea. I think especially adding some variance would push it over the edge to greatness. You can have one or two "grand prizes" that are above and beyond the rest. For example, you could lead him to a care package that contains some food (his favorite snack), something comforting (like sweatpants) and a big ticket item (like a new video game or his favorite bottle of whiskey and instructions to call you and drink tonight). You can also include one or two very poor prizes like "Nothing! Muahahaha!" (add "you can draw again if you like" if you feel generous). The idea is to have a lot of good ones, a couple better ones, a few really good ones and some bad ones. That will add variety and make drawing extremely exciting.

Regarding the "Surprise! You have permission to cum!" one, he might prefer something more personal. To me, that one would be a little disappointing (masturbating alone, if I want) so I'd try to draw you in somehow. Make sure he understands not to replace the card he draws. Once the card has been drawn, it's "used up" and should be discarded (or he can keep a scrapbook of them, I just think its so cute). That means he can feel the love you put into every card :)

By the way I think its really cute (have I said that already?) so I'll probably try something similar with my SO.

>>8380617the admin of this server is a massive nigger loving cunt. she only likes women or guys with no backbone. ive spoken to her many times. i added her with several different accounts trying out different personas to see what would actually get her attention. i figured out she only ever is nice to women or men who are such pathetic beta garbage that its ridiculous. i couldnt even keep up the one persona she actually fucking replies to. if you arent the most pathetic soppy doormat don't bother. she posts whore nudes but gives nothing in private messages. she also has disgusting fetishes like for fat people. i dont know how anyone manages to be such a whore prude and cunt all at the same time. what a fucking joke.

>>8381647I was tempted to make her O'brien but O'Brien seems the type of man who'd crush desire not use it, it just didn't make sense in light of the source material. I wanted to chanve Big Brother to Big Sister but again I wanted to keep to the source material.

Plus when I thought of that last paragraph I couldn't resist the urge to write "Experiment 69 doubleplusgood success".

Once I've thought of another concept I can twist to gfd I'll write some more.

I've written another story and put it on pastebin. I personally think it's my best one yet.

Story starts after The Joker is finished torturing Jason Todd (One of Batman's Robins) he's traumatised and left alone in the cell that the Joker tortured him in. Harley rescues him because she likes broken delicate little birdies. Gentle Femdom Shenanigans ensue.

>>8382111you sound like a massive entitled fuckboy desuseriously, guys who think dommes are meant to pay attention to anyone who messages them, to the point of trying on multiple roleplay personas are desperate misogynistic incelssounds like the problem is entirely on you being a dumbass

So the guy I'm dating is legit perfect outside of the bed room. Really cute and sweet. He was a virgin too, which is fun for me. Only when we actually get down to it he gets a little rough, without realizing he's doing it. Clumsy rough is what I mean. He's so inexperienced though. So what I sort of think is really going on is that he actually just leans towards the dom side. But gently. Which is exactly how I am sexually. I read lots of stories about people who have problems in their relationships because they are both TOO submissive. What happens if both people are too dominate? Btw we are both extremely GENTLY dom and haven't traveled too far into kink. I've tried going there a little harder and it didn't work. I got a cock ring but he wasn't into it. Showed no interest in a chastity cage either.

>>8383617>what i sort of think is going on>i read lots of stories about other peoples relationships>i tried to force some things on him without talking to him first

you sound like a fucking moron and you're the reason women get a bad name in relationships. why are you unable to just speak to him like a human being? you would have known if he was into cock rings or chastity, or if he even wanted to try that, if you had spoken to him first. why are you reading about other peoples relationships if you havent even spoken to the other person in your own relationship yet? you would KNOW what is going on if you ASKED him!!!!

>>8383617I think people are being a lil too harsh with you, asking others for advice when the true solution is just to talk to the partner is an issue I've seen happen in almost every relationship and so I don't think you're dumber than average like the previous posters...yet ultimately they're right. The solution is to talk your concerns through with him and then decide if it can work by one of you changing dynamic or if the need to be in control is so strong for both of you that it won't work beyond being casual friends.

>>8383654This lol imagine if op was a man and bought a chastity belt and pussy pump for his gf and tried to force her to use them. He'd be forever branded as a rapist and abuser. I know this post >>8376607 is pasta but there's some truth to it. So-called dominant women have no idea how to handle power responsibly.

>>8384007I think this Thread is fine. I can see why people don't like Discord ( Banning, drama, etc ), although I think those are necessary for a good coomunity. Maybe we just didn't had a good Discord Leader or whatever it is called. And this is the internet, and this fetish specifically can attract people with issues, so you know. Don't let it bother ya mate.

My ideal femdom relationship involves the total ignoring of my penis but also genuine love between partners. Pegging and cunnilingus would be the main fare, but anything that doesn't involve touching my penis or anger. It doesn't even have to involve extreme denial, just a disinterest in my penis. Is anyone else like this?

Being submissives is just one aspect of a person's personality, A big one but still just one. A sub won't submit to a faceless, nameless paragraph on the internet ...well some do but most won't. A domme has to show dominance in a way that resonates with the sub if they want them to fall for them. Especially with gentle femdom most subs are only looking to submit to one person who's special to them. They'll be fiercely vigilant about showing that kind of vulnerability to anyone beyond the person they've chosen. You can get an instant submissive reaction if you do something that makes them fall into "subspace". Being called a good boy or having my hair played with are two examples of that for me.

What I'm saying is submissive assholes on 4chan are just like any other asshole on 4chan unless you can get them to submit to you.

>>8385297Did this once. Bf was playing botw and during those 3 mazes, I'd fondle his dick/nipples and stop every time he'd pause. It forced him to keep playing if he wanted me to continue. Needless to say he got lost in each one for like an hour.

>>8379956I agree, even most women don't have a nice body smell either. It's just genetics, i can go without showering for 4 fays and i smell the same, but others start stinking after 1. Pubes are there to prevent chaffing, and no one should ever do a full shave, just trim, unless you grow hair on the shaft like i do.Also i put deo in the pits between my legs and around my nuts, as long as i take a shower within a day, it never smells bad and it never gets itchy no matter how much i sweat. But i never put deo if i'm going out with a girl, shower lasts long enough.

>>8384033>Maybe we just didn't had a good Discord Leader or whatever it is called.Finding a good leader isn't easy. You need to find someone who can tell reality apart from opinions, and who puts their responsibility to the people ahead of their feelz.There is no easy way to do that.But what is very easy to tell is if the person thinks they're owed and deserve respect based on their position, or if they have to earn that respect by being a benefit to others in some way.Also, if they try to measure or ask about whether they're being beneficial, or if they just assume it.You could also just get a self-confident jerk that knows exactly what they want, openly and honestly expresses this, and tells people opposed to this to gtfo. Not the best leader, but a stable and consistent leader and one you can work around.

>>8387328Yeah, not exactly what you would find in this community. Not when the guys are subs, they tend to be a little emotional, and nowadays people like to put politics even on cooking. And I don't think a dom would step up and manage Discord drama, that would be pointless work.Well, what can you do.

>>8388503>There's got to be SOMEONE that won't immediately throw a temper tantrum when their ego is challenged.yeah, those are the people who just don't respond, I'm pretty sure all the arguing is a vocal minority

>>8384007>why are these threads always end ups in a shitstorm, I thought that beta submissive males don't like to argueI dont know what part of animal hierarchy I fit in, but I despise arguments.Most of the time I just come to these threats to save pretty pictures.