Golden herself met her husband through friends 16 years ago — before dating apps had hit the scene.She has never personally used a dating app, but said her training makes her equipped to help modern singles.Maybe they are announcing they want kids too soon, or she’s needy or a guy doesn’t follow up enough. Market Watch: Do you worry that the matches aren’t getting an authentic conversation when you chat for them? Golden: Yes, and I have a knack for sifting through what smells right.

I really believe what people put out there is what comes back.Golden: If I am asking for a first date as a guy, I know when the girl is interested — 100%.As the girl I don’t ask, the guy always has to ask. Don’t Miss: Don’t be fooled by these common online photo tricks Market Watch: If you’re a woman wanting to be asked out by men on these apps, how do you know if a guy is into you? Have your doorman take it, have an Uber driver take it.Golden: I read over their Facebook and Instagram and meet with them to get their relationship history, and learn if there’s a problem.Some people say, “I don’t have a problem with getting a first date but a second date.” I try to see what the single is doing to not get a second date. Even though it comes off as them, I am the person doing all the writing and back and forth. Some clients like to keep control of their own calendar at which point they’ll jump in to schedule the date. Market Watch: Aren’t there various red flags on profiles and other traits people should be looking out for beyond surface level conversation?