I’d like to bring your attention to a new workshop as part of the 40 Days – Alchemy of Tranquility series. This one, specifically for psychotherapists addresses bringing the perspective of ultimate reality to relativity of the intersubjective field. The main presenter, as always, is Shah Nazar Seyyed Dr. Ali Kianfar, a bona fide Sufi master from an ancient, venerable lineage. He will be joined by a team of therapists and healing professionals, me among them, who have taken on the work of integrating his traditional teachings with contemporary modalities, to offer a secular-spiritual approach to the deeply compassionate work of healing.

This workshop will be offered at the Institute of Transpersonal Psychology in Palo Alto on the weekend of March 5th & 6th. You can register or find more information here.

]]>http://jamalgranick.com/2011/02/beyond-transference-and-countertransference/feed/0upcoming eventshttp://jamalgranick.com/2010/09/jamals-upcoming-events/
http://jamalgranick.com/2010/09/jamals-upcoming-events/#commentsWed, 22 Sep 2010 19:56:03 +0000http://jamalgranick.com/?p=283There are two new events coming up, both on the same weekend in October:

]]>http://jamalgranick.com/2010/09/jamals-upcoming-events/feed/0The Dignity of Being Human – Spirituality and Psychology Panelhttp://jamalgranick.com/2010/06/the-dignity-of-being-human-spirituality-and-psychology-panel/
http://jamalgranick.com/2010/06/the-dignity-of-being-human-spirituality-and-psychology-panel/#commentsFri, 18 Jun 2010 02:27:31 +0000http://jamalgranick.com/?p=265On Saturday, June 26th there will be a panel presentation The Dignity of Being Human on spirituality and psychology at the 17th Annual Sufism Symposium. In the past, these panels have been really rich explorations of the multiple ways that spirituality and psychology are related. And after all, why shouldn’t they be? Both are about self-knowledge. Presenters have come from a variety of backgrounds, both psychologically and spirituality, and there has always seemed to be a spontaneous synchronicity between the presentations.

This year promises a very exciting program. The presentations, moderated by Dr. Amineh Amelia Pryor will include:

The panel is from 3 – 5 pm at the Embassy Suites Hotel in San Rafael. Cost is $30 and there are CEUs available for MFTs. ANDyou can register online!

]]>http://jamalgranick.com/2010/06/the-dignity-of-being-human-spirituality-and-psychology-panel/feed/0taking it personallyhttp://jamalgranick.com/2010/04/taking-it-personally/
http://jamalgranick.com/2010/04/taking-it-personally/#commentsFri, 23 Apr 2010 23:46:46 +0000http://jamalgranick.com/?p=258When we have an unpleasant encounter with someone and aren’t able to shake it off, we are often told that we shouldn’t “take it personally.” But what does this mean? A close look reveals that over-personalizing something implies one or more of several unexamined assumptions:

this event is about me

this event reflects something about me

this event reflects something about my nature

this event is about something I’ve done

this other person is aware that their action is having an effect on me

this other person is aware of what effect their action is having on me

this other person intends to have the effect on me they are having

this other person is aware of how I am feeling

this other person wants me to feel the way I am feeling

this other person is responding to something they attribute to me

this other person’s attribution is accurate

this other person’s action is because of something I’ve done

this other person’s action is because of something I’ve said

this other person’s action is because of something about my nature

this other person knows I exist

I deserve to be treated the way the other person is treating me

I should feel the way the other person wants me to feel

These aren’t necessarily inaccurate. However, if we automatically accept them as true, we set ourselves up to carry an unnecessary burden of responsibility. Simply stepping back and noticing gives us the opportunity to consciously evaluate the situation and determine for ourselves what is so.

This is the fourth in a series of workshops for psychological balance and spiritual development with Sufi Master Shah Nazar Seyyed Dr. Ali Kianfar. The Spring workshop is entitled “Are you ready for practice?”

]]>http://jamalgranick.com/2010/04/249/feed/0The fishbowl of lifehttp://jamalgranick.com/2010/03/the-fishbowl-of-life/
http://jamalgranick.com/2010/03/the-fishbowl-of-life/#commentsTue, 09 Mar 2010 17:15:57 +0000http://jamalgranick.com/?p=244I just watched a wonderful video clip on Michael Mead’s website excerpted from his CD set “The Soul of Change”, in which he tells the story of a woman who had a pet fish. One day, noticing that the water in fishbowl was cloudy, she put the fish in the bathtub temporarily while she cleaned the bowl. Watching the fish in the tub, she noticed that it swam in exactly the same size circle that it had in the fishbowl, despite that it was in a large tub of water. She immediately understood that this was also our condition, psychologically.

Both psychology and spirituality have pointed out that we live in a very limited internal world. Not just our behavior, but even our identities, have been shaped by our environmental conditions. For the most part, what we think of as ourselves is largely a set of psychological habits. It is as if we are living in a trance.

The promise of this story is that we potentially have a much larger domain of experience available to us if we can find a way to break the spell.

]]>http://jamalgranick.com/2010/03/the-fishbowl-of-life/feed/1Gary Greenberg on “Manufacturing Depression”http://jamalgranick.com/2010/03/gary-greenberg-on-manufacturing-depression/
http://jamalgranick.com/2010/03/gary-greenberg-on-manufacturing-depression/#commentsMon, 01 Mar 2010 17:40:33 +0000http://jamalgranick.com/?p=235This morning I heard Gary Greenberg on Democracy Now discussing his new book Manufacturing Depression: The Secret History of a Modern Disease. He made some interesting points. Greenberg’s premise is that the epidemic of the diagnosis of depression is an economically driven pharmaceutical response to the experience of sadness; i.e., the prevalence of antidepressants has established depression as a medical entity. What gets lost are situational and subjective explanations for why we feel sad. When we rely exclusively on chemical solutions we are less empowered to explore the causes of our feelings and take action to resolve them.
]]>http://jamalgranick.com/2010/03/gary-greenberg-on-manufacturing-depression/feed/3Before Freud…http://jamalgranick.com/2010/02/before-freud/
http://jamalgranick.com/2010/02/before-freud/#commentsThu, 18 Feb 2010 18:02:39 +0000http://jamalgranick.com/?p=218At the Association Transpersonal Psychology conference last weekend I heard a wonderful presentation by Mark Ryan on the work of F.W.H. Meyers, an little known and under appreciated figure in the history of psychology. Meyers was a major influence on both William James and Pierre Janet and laid, according to Ryan, the foundation for what is now known as Transpersonal Psychology.

Ryan proposed the following five seminal contributions of Meyers’ work:

The application of rigorous empirical methods to the study of subjective experience.

The assertion of the reality of spiritual experience and the inadequacy of materialism to address it.

An extensive map of the psyche as a spectrum of consciousness.

A view of the unconscious as an avenue to transcendent experience and higher human potential.

Belief in the evolution of consciousness.

In recent years there has been a rediscovery of Meyers’ work and a deepening appreciation of his contribution to psychology in general, and Transpersonal Psychology specifically. A comprehensive review of his work and integration with current developments in the field can be found in the encyclopedic Irreducible Mind(Kelly et al, 2007). Thanks go to Mark Ryan for presenting this voluminous topic in a clear and accessible manner.

]]>http://jamalgranick.com/2010/02/before-freud/feed/0“any good therapist”http://jamalgranick.com/2010/02/any-good-therapist/
http://jamalgranick.com/2010/02/any-good-therapist/#commentsMon, 08 Feb 2010 00:55:16 +0000http://jamalgranick.com/?p=206In an interview toward the end of his life (Baldwin, 2000), Carl Rogers said

I find that when I am the closest to my inner, intuitive self –when perhaps I am somehow in touch with the unknown in me–when perhaps I am in a slightly altered state of consciousness in the relationship, then whatever I do seems to be full of healing. Then simply my presence is releasing and helpful. At those moments, it seems that my inner spirit has reached out and touched the inner spirit of the other. Our relationship transcends itself, and has become part of something larger. Profound growth and healing are present. (p. 36)

In the same interview he said, “I recognize that when I am intensely focused on a client, just my presence is healing”, and then went on to say, “I think this is probably true of any good therapist [italics added]” (p. 29).

If this is true, then I find myself wondering how many good therapists there are out there. Presence is the subject of my doctoral research, so it’s something I’ve spend a fair amount of time thinking about over the last few years.

Rogers’ quote suggests that beyond training, theory, or technique the quality of a therapist’s being may be an essential ingredient in the healing process that psychotherapy potentially offers. And it further implies that there can be elements of this relationship that are profoundly spiritual.

Baldwin, M. (2000). Interview with Carl Rogers on the use of self in therapy. In M. Baldwin [Ed.] The use of self in therapy (pp. 29-38). NY: Haworth.

]]>http://jamalgranick.com/2010/02/any-good-therapist/feed/1Members of the Sufism and Psychology Forum will be presenting…http://jamalgranick.com/2010/01/members-of-the-sufism-and-psychology-forum-will-be-presenting/
http://jamalgranick.com/2010/01/members-of-the-sufism-and-psychology-forum-will-be-presenting/#commentsTue, 19 Jan 2010 01:24:56 +0000http://jamalgranick.com/?p=202I will be moderating a panel on Sufism psychology at the Association of Transpersonal Psychology conference in February. Panelists Arife Hammerle, Ph.D., Brian Heery, Ph.D., and Amineh Pryor, Ph.D., all members of SPF, are students of Sufism and presenters at the 40 Days – Alchemy of Tranquility workshops.

The theme of the conference is Spirituality in Action. It will be at Menlo College in Atherton, CA from February 12-14.