Jesse James

They call it "The First Commandment of Getting Inked": Never get your significant other's name tattooed anywhere on your body. You never know when things might end, and if they do, you might find yourself scarred for life – literally. (Or maybe not...)

The couple, who got engaged late last year, married at the Malibu home of DeJoria's father, co-founder of the Paul Mitchell hair care products line and Patron Spirits Company. They exchanged rings designed by jeweler designer Neil Lane.

"I am not in a relationship," the tattoo artist said in a post on her Facebook page on Saturday. "And I apologize for all the 'back and forth' if it's caused any confusion."

The couple, who had been planning a summer wedding, called off their engagement in July. A month later, Von D's reality show L.A. Inkwas canceled. Despite the setback, she was on a personal high because the engagement was back on.

So what went wrong this time? "It was clear to me that we were just on two different paths in life," Von D tells PEOPLE. "My friend put it best when he said I could never be more deserving of total, noble love. And as a woman, I think it's important to know your value and never lose sight of that."