Is he using me for sex or could it be more?

I've been sleeping with a guy for the last 6 months, I'm 24 and he's 32. I've never been with someone that much older than me so this is all new. We're not really dating but we've gotten really close. We hang out, watch movies and text often. We see each other 1-2 times a week and I sleepover at his place every other week. He tells me cares about me, that he likes me for more than just sex and that I make him happy. Neither of us are sleeping with anyone else but we've also never defined what we are and I'm okay with that.

Two weeks ago I told him I was falling for with him. He said "Thanks for being honest." I said maybe it'd be best if we stopped seeing each other. He said that's not what he wants but it's up to me.

I haven't decided yet on whether it's worth it to stay, I don't want to get hurt but maybe he just needs more tine to figure it out. If he didn't care about me wouldn't he just end it? Maybe he is just using me for sex?

I'm not really sure, I've never been in this situation. I've only ever had two long term serious relationships.

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You've been sleeping with him for 6 months, you try to have "the talk" and he tells you you should stop seeing each other, and you are questioning if he's using you for sex? Of course he is! Now quit hanging out with the loser!