50 Signs a Guy Likes You

How to Tell a Guy Is Interested in You

Perhaps there's a co-worker who has caught your eye. Or a fellow student in school with you who makes you weak in the knees every time he comes near.

You are interested in him, but how do you know if they like you? It can be embarrassing for you to ask your friends about how you can tell if he's interested. If you're shy, the last thing you want is for your friends to make a fuss. Or, even worse, to approach and ask him directly.

Here's a list of the top 50 signs that a guy may be interested for you to look over and see if any seem familiar.

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Top 50 Signs He Likes You

He leans towards you whenever you are sitting close to one another.

He rarely turns his back on you.

He smiles a lot and looks at you keenly.

He maintains eye contact with you.

He finds an excuse to touch you whenever he has the chance.

He might try to make you jealous by flirting with other girls who are just friends to him.

He will often show interest in things you like or that matter to you. This is an attempt for him to be closer to you.

If he looks away quickly when you notice he is watching you, then there is a high likelihood that he likes you.

He will be nervous around you — this is especially true if you haven’t known one another for long.

He will have a seemingly never-ending smile on his face whenever you are around him.

He will mimic, imitate, or try to do whatever you happen to do in the way you do it.

He might tease you a lot, and this can especially be a massive sign he likes you when he doesn’t tease other girls around him

He may playfully pinch your body, especially hands and cheeks.

He starts many conversations. He asks questions and is interested in talking to you.

He compliments and congratulates you, even when there is nothing big you have achieved to warrant praise from him.

He compliments your make-up, clothing, or fragrance. This is a way of indirectly telling you 'I like you'.

He may seem jealous when you are with other guys.

He develops a strong interest in your social media conversations and comments. Suddenly he is commenting or liking your Facebook status updates or retweeting the tweets you have made.

He may shower you with gifts.

He prefers to be near you, even when he is supposed to be busy with work or attending to another important task.

You receive lots of phone calls from him. He asks how you are doing and what you are up to. Does he call you often when he has nothing important to tell you? That's a sign.

He will start acting nicer and more generous when you are around him.

If he willingly says yes to everything you ask him to accomplish or do, he likes you. He most likely doesn't want to disappoint you by saying no.

He does not want anyone to offend or insult you in his presence. He will defend you and make sure that you are safe and sound.

He always wants to hang out with you and wants to introduce you to his friends

He is less likely to allow you return back something you have borrowed from him before. He may tell you there is no need to return it and encourage you to keep it for yourself.

He may call you sweetie, honey, baby, and the like.

Does he say (or behave) like he misses you when you are away from one another for some time? He likes you.

He will do things to make you laugh and stay positive.

He will comfort you when you are having a hard time. He is the first one to say sorry when something unfortunate happens to you.

He abandons whatever he is doing in order to find time to be with you and talk to you.

When you are not around, he will ask your friends for clues about where you are.

He may dress to get your attention and impress you.

Body language signs of attraction is a sure way of telling if a guy likes you or not. Observe his body language to tell if he likes you.

He will stare at you from top to bottom. If you see him running his eyes from top to toe, he has an interest in you.

He will sit next to you, lean over you, or hover close by every chance he gets.

He will ask lots of questions. He wants to know more about you and your opinions on varying topics etc.

He wants to be seen with you. He doesn’t feel ashamed of the two of you being seen walking together, having a conversation, or having a great time. All that matters to him is you.

He may tell you that you are beautiful and sexy, even if you don't feel it.

He is your best companion when you are sick or not feeling well. He visits you and spends countless number of hours beside you.

He will offer you unnecessary help to impress you and keep you happy. In the workplace, he may undertake some of your tasks.

He does things aimed at proving to you that he is the most suitable man that you will ever find in your lifetime.

He may offer you financial favors.

He doesn’t mind spending on you and may spend his last dollar in order to impress you.

He will want to be there for important events you may be having like graduating from college or celebrating a birthday.

He will offer you support. This includes grabbing you by the hand to help you cross a busy highway.

He will sacrifice his commitments to do something for you.

He is generous with many nice and kind words.

He will treat you better than he treats any other girl.

When he starts sharing his personal secrets, you know he's definitely falling in love!

Remember to Observe Closely

There is no exact science that will tell you if a guy likes you back or not. However, there are many signs guys display when they are interested that can help you predict (or at least give clues) as to whether he likes you or not.

That said, it is hard to determine if a guy likes you as many factors come into play. Also, the behavior that you see in a man may not necessarily mean interest. Sometimes, only one or two signs may not be enough to make a judgment. Lastly, signs of attraction or love shown by one guy may not be the same used by another.

You should study the man from as many angles as possible before deciding whether he is into you or not.

Questions & Answers

Questions must be on-topic, written with proper grammar usage, and understandable to a wide audience.

Question:

I’ve been hanging out with this guy that I’ve been interested in for a month or two now, and he’s exhibited signs that were mentioned in your article, but I’m not sure. I have his number, and we text a little, but I feel really nervous about texting him because I don't want to come off as annoying. We talk incessantly when we see each other in person, but when we text it just seems like neither of us knows what to talk about. Is this normal and what should I do next?

Answer:

Texting is very popular, but many people can’t actually talk face to face. You’re one of the lucky ones! It is much better to build a relationship in person so be happy that you and your guy talk so much when you see each other.

I suggest you just use texting to arrange your next meeting, for example, when and where to meet. Leave all the important news and fun chatting to when you see each other in person.

I’m guessing you’re the student. I have some friends who are teachers, and every year there are students flirting with them and sometimes even declaring their ‘love.’

It is not unusual to have a crush on a hot teacher. But that’s all it can be, just a crush. Why? Because teachers can get in huge trouble if they behave inappropriately with a student. Some teachers have even gone to jail because of it.

The truth is, my teacher friends are all in happy, loving relationships and have no interest at all in students. So while you’re dreaming about your teacher, I’m guessing he’s already living a happy life.

You should be concentrating on your schoolwork. Do well and graduate. There is the slightest possibility your teacher might someday consider dating you ... but you’d have to be old enough to have graduated from school.

Eight years is a big gap when you’re just a teenager. By the time you’re in your 20s, it won’t seem so big, but you know he’ll probably be married by then if he’s not already.

I think instead of wasting your youth obsessing about an older man who is out of your reach; you should be looking at guys your age. Aim to find a boyfriend among the students, not your teachers.

This article gives you 50 signs a guy likes you. If the only sign you're getting from the guy is him looking at you, I don't think you should be getting too excited. Keep an eye out for some of the 49 other signs I've listed here.

What if he is a womanizer and you have a crush on him? How will you know if he likes you?

Answer:

Your question raises a few possible answers. I'm guessing you're saying you have a crush on someone but don't know if he's a womanizer. So you're wondering how to tell if any guy is a womanizer.

If that's the case, I suggest you could be asking others who know him. Has he had lots of girlfriends? Do his relationships last very long? You could also be asking him the same questions.

But maybe your question is slightly different. Perhaps you already know the guy is a womanizer but you still have a crush on him, and you're asking me how will you know if he likes you. In that case, I'd be suggesting it doesn't matter if he likes you or not. The guy is obviously trouble and destined to break your heart. So I don't think you should waste time and effort on him. Find someone else to have a crush on.

During a youth trip, this boy always walked beside me and was always protecting me. He even asked why I was crying that day. He was really worried. Does he like me?

Answer:

Isn't it nice to know there are nice guys in the world who make an effort to care about someone in need? He sounds like a good guy who stepped up to help you during your difficulties on the youth trip.

But I think you should be grateful for his help without expecting him to continue his kindness now the youth trip is over. Don't confuse kindness with romantic interest. I think the guy was just being kind. Good on him.

Now it is time for you to get yourself together and move on with your life on a daily basis. If that guy doesn't have a role in your daily life, you shouldn't have any expectations. Just be pleased he helped you when you needed it. But don't think that being 'needy' in a general sense is going to attract his attention. That's not what builds a romance.

I have a friend and we are seatmates at school. He tells me his personal secrets and his hobbies. He keeps asking me if I know who his crush is but I’ve mentioned every girl in the school, but still the answer is no. Would it be possible that it is me?

Answer:

You have a few ways you could reply to find out if you are his crush. Which option you choose will depend on whether or not you are happy to be his crush.

If you just want to be friends, you should respond in a way that gives him a chance to say, ‘No, not you’ without being too embarrassed. So if you really don’t want him to admit you’re his crush, say something like ...

‘I’m running out of ideas. I hope you’re not going to tell me it’s me!’

But if you’re happy to be his crush, you could say ....

‘About the only girl left in the whole school is me.’ Then wait and see what he says.

If you like him a lot and want him to know it, simply say ...

‘It would be nice if it was me.’

My final suggestion if you want to force him to say he has a crush on you, instead of you having to ask if it is you ...

‘If you want me to know who your crush is, you’re going to have to tell me. I’m not guessing anymore.’

I don't know if a guy I like is really into me, but he acts awkwardly when I’m around him. He tries to make me laugh, he stares at me a lot, and he likes to be close to me. Are these signs that he likes me?

Answer:

Yes, those are among the many signs I’ve listed in my article. See if you can spot any more if you’re still not sure if the guy likes you.

There is a guy nurse at my mom's nursing home. He calls me 'babe' and says, "Why are you not here more often?" Yesterday, when I was going in the elevator to see my mom on the second floor, he said, "Hold the elevator. I will go for a ride." Does this mean he likes me?

Answer:

Two possible scenarios spring to my mind. One is that he likes you, yes. The other is that maybe he's bored at work and just looking for ways to amuse himself and get out of other tasks. I guess your mission will be to figure out which option is most likely.

Strike up a conversation and learn more about him. Ask him how long he's been working there and if he likes it and that kind of thing. That's a good starting point, I think. There's nothing to lose just chatting with the guy if you think he seems nice and you're interested in him.

I have a guy best friend. We call each other husband and wife because I said he was my husband and now he calls me his wife. But then I noticed he called me cute, and he says he misses me. Does he like me?

Answer:

It certainly sounds like he likes you. He’s obviously very fond of you. But does he like you in a romantic way? It is hard to tell from a distance.

There are 50 things to look for on my list from this article. If he fits the description for the majority of them, I suspect he’s smitten.

The power of suggestion is a remarkable thing. If he’s telling you you’re cute and he misses you, maybe he’s starting to imagine you in the role of his future wife.

Or maybe he’s just a big softie. Either way, he sounds like a nice guy to be around!

There's a process to follow before you can expect someone to be your boyfriend. You have to know each other well enough to know that you actually like each other. Being a proper boyfriend or girlfriend requires an element of commitment. So I'd expect you'd have been dating for a while before asking him to be your boyfriend. In which case, just ask him.

If you haven't even gone out at all yet, just ask "Do you want to go out sometime?" That will begin the process.

I have this guy whom l met just three weeks ago, and l like him. Until today, I thought he liked me too. We don’t talk. Actually, we have never talked. He just keeps following me. But since three days ago he is acting differently. Different as in not noticing me, and not even saying anything when we are alone. Do you think he doesn't like me?

Answer:

So you met the guy three weeks ago, and he followed you around, but you’ve never actually spoken to each other, even when you were alone. Gee, that sounds awkward.

How can the guy even know if he likes you? What does he know about you? He might have been interested enough to follow you around for a few weeks, but if neither of you was brave enough even to say hello, I’m not surprised he gave up.

You’ve never talked. If you want any chance of getting to know someone, the silence needs to be broken. So if you think you like him, just say hi to the guy.

People always say that it looks like this boy and I are dating because of how we ‘act,’ when we’re really just friends. But then, most of his friends say that we’ll be perfect together, and he keeps denying it, but he keeps calling me pretty, beautiful, the cutest girl in the world, etc. What I don’t get is why he doesn’t want to say that in front of our friends, but when we’re alone he would say it. What does that mean?

Answer:

This is a conversation you need to have with your guy. Ask him. He’s the only one who knows the answer.

If you become more affectionate in private, he may become more confident in front of his friends.

What if a guy puts his arm around me guiding me out of a restaurant? Does he like me? He also called me really precious, but I don’t know if he likes me. I really like him.

Answer:

Putting his arm around you to guide you from a restaurant is another excuse for touching someone we like. That’s a positive sign.

Calling you "really precious" suggests that he values you. It sounds a bit quaint and old-fashioned in a kind of sexy way. It is not a standard kind of line that rolls easily off the tongue, so I’m guessing he’s sincere.

If you also see him doing most of the things on my list, I’d say he’s definitely interested. So if you like him, I think you should cozy up.

If a boy shoves me with his shoulder then he smiles at me, does he like me?

Answer:

There are better and clearer ways of showing affection. Bumping a girl with your shoulder and grinning sounds like the kind of thing a young boy might do if he likes a girl. Yes, he may well like you, but I’d expect to see more than pushing and shoving before being convinced the boy was mature enough for any relationship.

What if he lives across the street and we were talking one day, and when I went to say ‘bye’, we kissed multiple times. What does that mean?

Answer:

I’m not sure what it means emotionally for either of you. I do think you need to be careful though. Becoming too intimate too quickly can spoil a blossoming relationship.

I don’t know how old you are, but I hope you’re old enough to understand you don’t have to kiss a guy just because he thinks it is a good idea.

If he lives across the street, you don’t want him putting the hard word on you all the time. Make sure you’re confident to say ‘no’ ... as many times as it takes to have him treat you with respect.

I’ve known way too many guys over the years who are just racing to get physical. A kiss is nice, but the pressure to keep kissing leads to pressure to do more.

So you ask me ‘What does it mean?’ I don’t know the guy, but I suspect it means he’s just after physical contact. If he were after ‘romance’ or a proper girlfriend, I’d expect him to be treating you with respect. Asking you out, trying to be helpful, all those kind of things.

I slept with a guy and after we slept together he tells me that he has a girlfriend. I met his girlfriend and things were very awkward. At first it seems as if the guy loves me. My friends think that I'm loose for sleeping with this guy...but I love him. How do I solve this? Does he love me?

Answer:

What a shame you’re in such an awkward predicament. I’m guessing by now you’ve figured out you’re not really in love with the guy. You might have thought you were before, and I guess you were hoping for a love story with a happy ending, but that doesn’t sound very likely.

I sure hope you used protection. And I hope you’ve learned enough from this experience to know in the future how important it Is to talk with a guy and get to know him before sleeping with him. At least find out if he has a girlfriend or not.

A guy who cheats on his girlfriend is not a guy worth having. If he cheats on his current girlfriend, he’d probably cheat on you too even if you were his girlfriend.

Do I think he loves you? Sadly for you, no I don’t. I doubt the guy loves his girlfriend either. I suspect he’s chasing physical contact, not emotional involvement.

So I think you should view this encounter as a life lesson to help you make better decisions in the future. And I think you should tell your friends you made a mistake and will be more careful in the future. Ask your friends to help you feel better about yourself because I’m thinking you need their support right now.

If that's the best the guy has to offer, I can't see why you'd bother with him. Firstly, he's not a good communicator. Why isn't he using words? Secondly, he sounds kind of creepy. Who does that kind of thing?

I think you should wait and see if he can behave like a normal human being before getting excited about spending any time at all with a guy who just gets close to your face and winks at you.

The best way to get the phone number of a guy you like is to ask him if he wants to swap numbers. There's no point getting his number if you're not going to use it so don't bother being sneaky about it. Otherwise, you'll just be stressing about how and when, if ever, to call it.

If you've swapped numbers, he shouldn't be surprised if you call or text. Plus he will be more likely to contact you because you offered your number to him.

Is it possible for a guy to love me and not know it? if yes, how do I make him realise it?

Answer:

In theory, I suppose it is possible. If you’re spending lots of time together, perhaps step back a bit and make him seek you out. See if he misses you enough to chase you.

I do struggle a bit with the idea of a guy being in love and not knowing it. Unfortunately, in my experience, it is quite common for one in a couple to be more in love and committed than the other. Those relationships tend to fizzle out sooner or later.

If you can’t get the kind of attention from him that you want, it might be time to look for a different guy. One who loves you and definitely knows it.

My friend gives me hints that he likes me. For example, his really good friend said to me "Go run to your boyfriend," and I was like "He’s not mine." And he said ‘That’s what he told me."
He also called me babe and said "I’m your boyfriend" under his breath. What should I do?

Answer:

Set him straight. Tell him he’s your friend, not your boyfriend. Tell him you like him as a friend and not to get creepy on you, Then link arms with him and say, "Let’s go talk with our other friends and get things back to normal, okay?"

I think it is always wiser to make a quiet and smooth transition back to ‘friends’ instead of having an ugly confrontation and outright rejection.

There is this boy who sits in front of me in one of my classes. He's really hot, and he called me babe and wanted me to call him babe. He also pretends not to look at me, but I can tell he is. Does this mean he likes me?

Answer:

I can think of a few reasons why he did the ‘babe’ thing. He might be showing off, or he might have a bet with his friends, and maybe he actually likes you.

I think you should talk with the guy and see if he can keep a conversation going. If he’s not mature enough to do that yet, you’ll just have to busy yourself with your studies and wait until he grows up a bit. Trying to get you to call him ‘babe’ straight up does sound a bit childish. But he might someday develop a personality to match his good looks so don’t write him off forever.

I love this guy in school. We met in the library. He is so beautiful. I love him even when he is not at school. I feel weakness in my legs. But how do I know if he loves me back?

Answer:

It’s great you’ve found a guy you’re attracted to, but don’t forget you’ve only just met him. A bit early to be making declarations of love.

But, you’re excited and that’s fun ... as long as you don’t end up in tears and grieving the love that never was. Because, quite honestly, there’s not much chance a guy you’ve just met in the library will be feeling ‘in love’ with you before you’ve ever spent any time together.

You like him. Maybe he likes you. There are ways to tell, but asking me is not one of them. You’ve seen my list of ‘50 Signs a Guy Likes You’. See how many of the signs I listed can be matched with your guy.

If you can identify 30 or more of those hints when it comes to your guy, I believe you’re safe to assume he likes you. But in your case, I’m guessing you don’t know him well enough yet to know how he behaves in different situations.

So I suggest you resist the temptation to obsess about your ‘love’, and just make it your goal to get to know the hot guy a bit better before worrying about how much you like each other. Otherwise, you’re just setting yourself up for disappointment.

Don’t be one of those girls who end up sobbing for weeks, claiming she’s ‘heartbroken’ about a guy she never really knew.

Feeling attracted is far more common than actuality ‘falling in love’. Attraction is part of the fun part, so don’t spoil it. Just enjoy trying to get to know him better.

The simplest way is to ask, "Can I talk with you about something please?" (So he knows you’re serious and he has to pay attention.) Then say, "I really like you. Is that a problem for us?"

You can’t be positive what he’ll say, so be prepared for a further discussion that could go either way. Just in case he’s never considered dating you and is uncomfortable with the idea, be ready to deal with that.

You might need to say something like, "That’s okay, I’ll get over you. We can be just friends if that’s how it has to be."

Or if you really can’t stand the thought of him dating other girls in the future, and you don’t want to be his friend and to have to be nice to them, it might be time to start putting more distance between you and finding other friends.

But if you believe there’s real chemistry between you, give it a try. It would be a shame not to try being a couple just because you were both too afraid to raise the subject.

You either accept his invitation, or you turn him down gently. Either way, I think you should thank him for asking you.

I believe it is appropriate to set a few guidelines when accepting a date so there’s no room for confusion later. For instance:

‘Thanks, that would be great. But you need to know I’m not interested in any kind of physical relationship right now, so I understand if you want to change your mind. But if you’re happy to go and hang out and talk and get to know each other better, I’m up for that."

If he tries to cross the non-physical line, you should confidently remind him of your agreement. But if you do want to get physical, like kissing, you’ll need to revise your rules. Otherwise, you might get stuck in the friend zone forever.

My best friend’s brother has a crush on me, and I think I might like him back. What do I do?

Answer:

I’m thinking you should probably talk with your best friend and see how she feels about it. If she’s happy about you possibly dating her brother, that’s helpful. If she’s not, you might have to decide how much you value her friendship. It could get complicated if you and her brother were to break up, for instance.

You need to decide if her brother is worth the risk to your friendship.

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Daniel Long

3 days agofrom All Over

I'm really pleased to hear you didn't send the guy any nude photos. He's a loser who was just trying to pressure you into sending him the pictures. Smart girls don't do that. So good on you for saying 'no'.

I don't believe you should bother with him again. He's trouble. He told you didn't have feelings for you after you didn't send him any nude photos. If he was really in love with you, he'd never have said that. A guy who really loves you cares about your feelings. This guy doesn't.

So, Wura, there's nothing you can do to make him fall back in love with you. He was never in love with you in the first place. He was just using you. so forget him.

Keep watch for a genuinely nice, loving guy who won't say mean things to you and especially won't ask you to put yourself in a compromising position by asking for nude photos of you. Let's be honest. No guy who loves a girl needs photos of her naked. He just wants to be with her and enjoy her company without putting pressure on her. That's the kind of guy you should be looking for.

If you ever let a guy have naked pictures of you, what's going to happen to those photos after you break up? You won't be able to get them back and he'll probably show them to his friends and maybe even post them on the internet. So don't fall into that trap, my friend. And avoid the guy who asked you for them.

wura

4 weeks ago

If you're in love with a guy and you do chat and he start asking you to send nude pictures and you are not sending it.He then tells you he isn't having feelings for you.What can someone do to make him fall in love back.

Aleksandra

4 weeks ago

Is winking a sign?'cause a guy I just stopped likeing did that

Stacey Culton

4 weeks ago

I love my bae

Marie

5 weeks ago

My boyfriend constantly argues with me and then say he’s sorry. But it’s annoying because it’s a repeat. He always tells me he can’t live life without me and all. I’m just confused ! I think he’s not ready to settle down at all . Smh

Unknown User

5 weeks ago

This boy at my school always teases me and is playful to me, but when he teases me , he is being mean.He looks at me often , and even winked at me once?Is there a possibility he likes me?

Raina

6 weeks ago

Theres this boy in my class that i like, he shows 16 signs that he likes me a few people have said that we would make a cute couple and I've had questions asked to me like "aren't you two dating?" And my friend is always teasing me that we like each other (she doesn't know i like him). We sit next to each other everyday in maths and he's always taking my stuff and making me find it, sometimes i look at him then he looks away, the other day my friend said something about "date" and he thought it was "gate" and i said "she said date not gate" and he freaked out and said "i don't want to date you!". What does this all mean???

doppi

7 weeks ago

I'm sitting at the table with 2 other people right three of us are friends, and he is one of them. He sits in front of me. when he has questions he mostly asks it to me, not the other. sometimes I catch him looking at me. when he makes a joke, he always tries to see my reaction. he sounds worried when he knows that I cry and make sure that I'm okay. he didn't use to be like this before. are those signs mean smth?

Issy

7 weeks ago

Hey, I have been crushing on this guy for a while. And now, we are best friends. He is always spamming me to get my attention. Does he like me?

Mya

2 months ago

What if a boy asked yoy if you think your a women.

Aubree

2 months ago

Hey ummmm so I have this crush on this one guy at school. And he’s doing some of these signs, me and him are friends now. I have feelings for him a lot but I don’t know how to tell him that I like him cause I’m too afraid it will ruin our friendship please help me.......

Blueh

2 months ago

So, there's this guy, and he has a "GF" but apparently, they broke up, and that's what she told me but she isn't really trustworthy. He keeps on staring off in my direction, he makes these bets with me, and when I tell him to stop doing something ect.orange justice, he stops.

BUT... He's really friendly with a lot of girls...

Somebody

2 months ago

There's a guy I've known for a year. He started saying hi and waving to me in the hallways, every day, and seems interested in things I do. I know he doesn't have a girlfriend. He's shy, and doesn't talk much, but talks to me. Is this enough to tell if he likes me?

Mary

2 months ago

This kid he is in 7th I’m in 6th and j like him he talks to me and says kind words and sometimes he might defend me and he might try to make me jealous by sitting next to his friend and in the bus he asked where I was was do you think he likes me ?

Debra

2 months ago

Ok, so we text almost constantly and he told me he likes me but his best friend told me that he said he likes someone else. This really confuses me and I'm not really sure now on if he likes me or not

alisabith

2 months ago

what if a boy likes someone eles and i like him and i do not know if he likes me.

Naomi

2 months ago

There's this one guy in my class that i really like. But literally 20 other girls in my grade likes him too. Like... HOW?!

Nadia

3 months ago

Love this website

evelyn

3 months ago

what if the guy is in a realationship with a girl and i give him something and he gives it to some one else.

Jimena

3 months ago

So during school he look at and smile at me like all the time

Kenley Evans

3 months ago

Wow I like him and don't know if he likes me but we've dated before and it was good I guess we dated about 3 days ago he broke up with me and we're still talking I mean it's not romantically but it's not just friends I feel like there's still something there but I don't know what I still like him so if you could help me it would be great

Rhea Dps

3 months ago

Their is a guy in my school coaching centre who at first was very frank and funny but now he doesnt talk that much to anyone in class

But teases me often

We dont often text each other and if did he stops the chat by puting emojis in it

What should i do

Animals

3 months ago

I really really like this boy but i dont know if he likes me

Madisyn

3 months ago

This boy at my school , that i like,but he called me honey in class

Lau

3 months ago

He does most of the things on the list and he also proposed, we have been besties for a long time and I dont want anything else than being besties.... so how do i reject him without hurting him.

And after he proposed i feel that I'm starting to like him too .is this called "liking "or is it just a atomatic reaction ???? How do I avoid it???

Hes kinda unable to focus on anything if I don't talk to him and ignore him ,am I being selfish? I'm really confused :( what now

Anonymous

3 months ago

So there's this boy and he always smiles at me and he's flirting

Anonymous

3 months ago

My crush visited me a day ago, and he showed me around town. He offered to pay for drinks, food, and fare costs. He wanted to make a deal if he found somewhere I like, then we would go out to eat.

When we got home, he decided to hide. He wanted me to find him.

We had am emotional conversation after, and he asked if I was ok and if I needed a hug, and that he was sorry. We went out for dinner, and we talked about my ex. And he called him a jerk, and decided to text him. My ex answered, and started being rude. And then he blocked him and said :" why don't we get some icecream?"

Do you think he likes me?

Tiffany

4 months ago

Okay. There is this kid that I really like. I really like him and whenever he is near me I panic.Sometimes he may look at me but when I look at him he turns away. He also teases me too. Does he like me or is he acccidently look??? Help! I'm a girl in love! ://

Sarah

4 months ago

How do i know if he jealous? What if he just doesn't like the dude?

Anonymous

4 months ago

I met a guy about a month ago at highschool. We talked to each other a lot, and now we are friends on Facebook. We write to each other almost everyday, and he seems to show interest in my hobbies (horses etc.). He didn't know anything about horses before we met. And he remembered something about horses I told him a month ago. He wrote that he never will forget it... It's summer break now, and unfortunately it isn't possible for us to meet face2face again before it's over. I wonder if he likes me. Or is he just being friendly?

Confuzzled

4 months ago

I like this guy and I don't know if he likes me back. We don't talk but I see him looking over at me every time I even glance that way. I want to start talking to him but I don't know how without sounding awkward . I am a really shy person. Please help.

Egyption

4 months ago

True

notthiskid

4 months ago

I like this guy and I don't know if he likes me back. We don't talk but I see him looking over at me every time I even glance that way. I want to start talking to him but I don't know how without sounding awkward. Please help.

Benita

4 months ago

I was dating this guy and I'm literally in love with him but we are going to different universities and because of that he broke up with me .we still love each other but cause of the distance and I don't want to lose him

What should I do

Elysia

4 months ago

Hi, last year I went to summer camp with not too high expectations. There was this one guy who I wanted to be just friends with, but I started to like him. He gave me the signs and even asked me if I like someone. Well, I never get to an answer, cause the same day he bumped into a tree in a forest and had to go to the hospital for a couple of days. That was sadly the end of our friendship, cause he lives in a different town far, far away. But then my friends discovered his FB and texted him some pretty teasing things, with my permission, cause I was really angry at him for not confessing to me. I realized how bad idea it was when he blocked one of my friends and told them that he isnt going to the camp next year. I went to the same camp even this year, expecting him to not be there. Ofc he was. I wanted to apologize, but he did it first and from that it seemed like it will be good few days with him. I suddenly started to feel the same thing for him, even though I realized all his flaws during the whole year. But I found out during one convesation with our friends that he is taken. He talked bout her in such a cold way, telling us only the basic informations. From that day, he wasnt as nice and caring to me as he always was and everytime someone asked bout his gf, his smile and sunny personality disappeared. Later I found out that the girl never mentions her boyfriend and maybe actually is dating now a girl, but they had some photos together and he talked bout her in a really sweet way in the past.

I noticed some of the signs and I want to know if Im not just lying to myself bout him loving me or not. He gave me all the body language signs, but Im not sure bout the others.

When we were eating, he often said something to our table and if he wasnt telling a certain person a question, he always looked at me and continued the talk with me.

I once stole his hat cause I wanted to tease him, so I had it in my backpack in my room and wanted to take a shower. When I was finished, my roommate told me to come out from the bathroom and when I did, he was standing at the doorstep, looking at me almost completely naked. He started to apologize, his cheeks turned red and with his eyes closed wanted me to give him the hat. After that he ran out of our room and didnt talk to me the rest of the evening.

I was playing truth or dare with some girls who knew bout my crush on him and they gave me the dare to confess to him. I wanted to do it in privacy, cause he is really shy and wouldnt react naturally. But my limit to the dare was one day, so I had to do it during a visit in the boys room. Everyone laughed or looked shocked, but he was silent, red and apologized to me when we were leaving.

He always laughed at my jokes, despite the horrible punch lines.

The last day we had a dancing party or something like that and at one point we had to chose our partner to dance with. I didnt want to ask him, so I let our instructors to gimme some random name. You can guess which name it was. While we were dancing, he was extremely blushing, apologizing and told me that this shouldve happened the last year. When the song ended, only us two didnt notice and my friend had to tell us.

We both are kinda young teenagers so I dont actually imagine something more serious, especially when he is still in puberty, but kiss or something like that would be nice. Everyone was telling us that we had some chemistry and we fit each other perfectly. But when it comes to a more personal talk, he starts to act extremely shy, so I suppose I am the one who should somehow begin, right? Should I even try the next year, or is it already lost?

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Daniel Long

4 months agofrom All Over

I think it means you should be watching and waiting for another guy, Luz. Unless you like the idea of a silent relationship with a guy who doesn’t express any emotion or interest, I think you should forget about him. Find someone more interesting ... and more interested.

luz luce

4 months ago

i have this classmate of mine since high school. during that time he never talk to since 1st year until we graduate in our high school. In our last year in high school he gave me a chocolate and a stuff toy and i don't know why he gave a gift. but, now that we meet again, still he never have a conversation with me, he never talk or chat with me, what does it mean?

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Daniel Long

4 months agofrom All Over

Destiny, if he has a girlfriend and you’re her close friend, why is he asking for kisses and hugs from you? And why are you asking me how to make him love you?

It seems to me you should be thinking about your ‘close friend’ and her feelings before you actively start trying to steal her boyfriend (although I suspect you’ve already begun.)

You should think long and hard about whether you want to do this. It will probably cost you her friendship. Better, in my opinion, to wait until they’ve ended their relationship.

There’s not many things worse than the betrayal of having your close friend steal your partner.

destiny p

4 months ago

I love my bestfriend and it seems he does too,he has a girlfriend who is my close friend,he asks for kisses,hugs,pecks and so many others.how do i make him love me d way i do.☹☹☹☹☹☹☹☹

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Daniel Long

4 months agofrom All Over

It sounds like he likes you, Jasmine. It also sounds like he’s very young. I suggest you wait a while and see what he’s like when he grows up a bit. Meanwhile stay friends.

Jasmine

5 months ago

me and my guy had been best friends since seventh grade. at first, I would deny that I have a crush on him because, I know he's my best friend, and it might affect our friendship. although, I tease him with my gal pal because I know she has a crush on him, but this time she told me she's over him. and now, I know it sounds crazy but whenever I get jealous of them, I would tease them. it's kind of weird right? so now, he's been off, which is the good kind. and I really want to know if he does like me back.

first, he would poke me on the waist for good old nothing, then he would laugh. is that a weird thing? second, he's always the first one to start the convo, and when one of my classmates joined in( which is his best bud), he got... annoyed? or something else. he would pinch me whenever I talk to his bud! and give me this angry-annoyed look. third, we had this name fight, and we would name it to me or his future son. so, me, I love a good challenge so I did to. and none of us won. (we really are a weird combo) fourth, he would always tickle me. like he just... it's always random! fifth, there's always intense eye contact. just, had to. sorry. and lastly, he just ignores me when I tell him wait for a minute because i'm doing something. then poof! ignorant boy for the whole day.

please help me out? I am really confused.

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Daniel Long

5 months agofrom All Over

You should make an effort to talk with him, Britney. You'll need to get to know each other before either of you will know how you really feel about each other.

Mariana

5 months ago

This really helps thanking

A nothing

5 months ago

Iike someone. But I don't know if he likes me. I see him looking at me. But we don't really talk

Heart breaker

6 months ago

My friend I have known for 2 years now liked my last year and likes me this year too. He asked me if I like him and he is ok and I said he isn’t ugly but he is ok. Is that letting him down easy enough?

Stella

6 months ago

So my best friend (his name is Gavin) he does most of these things BUT he says he likes my best friend Gabby. Does that mean he is lying about likeing Gabby or is this just a coincidence?

some nobody

6 months ago

i really like a guy like i think i love him but he has a "thing" with someone already. and to make matters worse he flirts with me a lot then the next day just like drop me and flirt with other girls NOT THE ONE HE HAS A THING WITH and then the next day its back to me. What should i do???

Belinda

6 months ago

SO their is this kid and he said he used to like me me but he tells me that every day and he toughes my butt but I slap him for that and he said he wanted to kiss me so does that mean he likes me?

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Daniel Long

6 months agofrom All Over

Nervous girl, if your friend tells the boy you like him after you asked her not to, she’s not much of a friend. But as far as the boy goes, if he says anything to you about it I suggest you say something like this ...

‘Sure I like you. You seem nice. Doesn’t mean I’m madly in love with you ... but yeah, I think you’re a nice guy.’

If you can say that with confidence, he’ll think you’re pretty cool.

Ellie

6 months ago

So I have this really good guy friend. I told him a while ago that I liked him and he told me kindly that he didn’t feel the same. But the other day we went to an amusement park with some friends and we ended up breaking off and riding rides together and he won me something from the arcade and took photo booth pics together and like couple-y stuff like that. Also the other night he was taking me home from a party and he opened the car door for me, walked me to the door and hugged me goodnight. I can’t tell what he feels for me but he told me a while ago that he thought of me as a sister. I’m so confused! Does he like me or not?

NERVOUS GIRL

6 months ago

HEY I REALLY LIKE THIS GUY IN MY CLASS BUT IM AFRAID HE DOESN'T LIKE ME I TOLD MY FRIEND I LIKED HIM AND SHE SAID SHE IS GOING TO TELL HIM ON MONDAY MORNING WHAT THE HELL SHOULD I DO?!!

Koty2053

6 months ago

I have a crush on my bully and he has a crush on me what should I do????

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Daniel Long

6 months agofrom All Over

A nice confidence boost for you, Brooklyn. You must be doing something right!

Brooklyn

6 months ago

There are many boys in my school that like me. I never knew this until I read this article on "how can you tell when boys like you." I just want to say thank you for making this article because now I know that there are people in my school that like me.

Koty2053

6 months ago

I like my Bully and he likes me what should I do because I have a boy friend and why should I like my BULLY???:(

Shy girl

6 months ago

I like this guy but i do not know how to tell him he some times is a pest can you help me

Samara Murray

6 months ago

What if you like someone and they don't like you back want should you do

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Daniel Long

6 months agofrom All Over

I don’t see a question from you, dd. If you ask one here I’ll do my best to answer it.

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Daniel Long

6 months agofrom All Over

If you’re dating the wrong guy, Busi, it is time to tell him. If you and his friend really are in love, then you’re wasting everyone’s time at the moment. I think you should tell your boyfriend you’ve really enjoyed your time with him but you just aren’t in love with him. You can’t help it, it’s just the way it is. Tell him you’re sorry but you know it can’t work between the two of you ... and you want him to find a girlfriend who really loves him.

I think you should break up with him and wait a few weeks before expecting him to get used to the idea of you dating his friend. It would be wrong to date his friend too quickly. If the other guy really loves you he will wait. Meanwhile he needs to support his friend while he gets over you. But he shouldn’t lie if his friend asks if he likes you. He should say ‘yes, but I’ll wait a while before I consider asking her out’.

Busi

6 months ago

So..

I'm dating but I'm in love with his friend and he told me he loves me and I feel the same way to

What should I do ??

dorcas damilola

6 months ago

U haven't answered my Question

harmony

6 months ago

thanks for the help a guy in my 5th grade class that I like has given me these sighns and i wanted to know for sure and this really helped

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Daniel Long

6 months agofrom All Over

Happy to have helped you, Millie. I hope your conversation with the guy goes smoothly.

Millie

6 months ago

Daniel, hi, Im the same Millie as the one who commented 4 days ago. I just want to say thank you because what you said really helped me prepare what Im gonna say when the time comes.

I hope you realize how many women you helped whenever you comment. There are people who are too shy comment so they just read comments and i was one of them until 4 days ago. So again thank you and keep doing what youre doing. Have a nice day!!

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Daniel Long

7 months agofrom All Over

Sure I understand, Unicorngirl. If you don’t want to be the first one to make contact, I guess you’ll have to do what millions have done before you, and that’s get a friend to ask him. But you know even that can be a bit embarrassing, don’t you?

I suggest you think of a reason to speak with him. How he responds and whether or not he talks to you more after that should give you an idea of how he feels about you. You don’t have to say ‘I like you’. Start by asking him about an upcoming event at school or if he’s seen a particular movie or if he’s been to a particular theme park or venue or whatever. Be creative. You just have to break the ice.

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Daniel Long

7 months agofrom All Over

Hi Willow. There’s no point going out with a guy you don’t like, so let him down gently. (You never know if he might grow into a great guy as an adult, and you might be interested in him then so be nice about it now.)

If the guy you like is not your ‘type’ you could consider making an exception to the general rule and make an effort to get to know him better. You might be surprised to discover he’s a fabulous guy. Unless you suspect he might be trouble (which could explain why he’s not your type), in which case I suggest you wait for another completely different guy to cross your path.

Unicorngirl123

7 months ago

Hey Daniel I really like what you do but I'd like some advice.

I like a boy at school but I really want to know if he likes me. I want him to realise i like him without making it obvious but I want to know if he likes me first in case he doesn't like me so it won't be embarrassing. Do you understand? Thanks

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Daniel Long

7 months agofrom All Over

Hi Millie. If you’re interested in the guy but not yet ready to date, I suggest you say ‘Thanks for asking me, that’s really nice.’ (That will prevent him from feeling stupid and flat-out rejected.) Then explain, ‘I’m not ready for dating right now but if you want to swap numbers we could maybe keep in touch.’

That’ll work if you’re interested in texting or encouraging him not to give up hope. But if you just want to say no, leave out the suggestion to swap numbers. Just say the ‘thanks’ part ... plus ‘but I’m not interested in dating so I’ll have to say a gracious no. But thanks.’

I think as long as you are polite, he’ll appreciate it and continue to respect you and be able to see you without things being awkward.

By the way, I admire your willingness to let him down gently. And I congratulate you for not feeling as though you have to accept every date offer you receive.

Millie

7 months ago

Hello Daniel! I admire your effort for helping confused people and i want to thank you for that. Also, I've been reading comments and compared your list to whats happening to me and i can tell you that i am confused.

I met the neighbor of my friend a few months ago. We quickly became friends because of our similar interests. But during my visits, i noticed a few things. He would definitely shift his body towards me. He would move to be in my view, like move to a seat infront or beside me. He would look at me from time to time and then look away when i look at him.

So i went undercover and ask my friends who knew him if he likes me and they said yes and that he is planning to tell me.

Is it ok if i ask how i would respond you him because this never happened before. I was the one to have a crush on people. I kinda like him because he is charming and interesting to talk to. I just dont know if im ready to commit or do anything. I also dont know how to let him down....

Willow

7 months ago

Hello Daniel,So im having some trouble with a guy and i was hoping you could help?So the problem is how there is this guy in my life this really caring one a guy that obviously likes me but I dont like him back he is sweet and i am interested in someone else but he is not my type what should i do?

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Daniel Long

7 months agofrom All Over

Hi Lexie. Thanks for your cute note but I am very happily committed to my relationship, which is why I’m so convinced the right person is out there for everyone ... and they are certainly worth the wait. I certainly remember being a teenager and wishing someone would give some good advice which is why I try to be helpful to those who ask for my opinion.

The creepy guys are the ones you want to stay away from. (And strangers you meet on the internet! Lol.)

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Daniel Long

7 months agofrom All Over

Leila, here’s what I want you to do. Spend some time on your phone or computer googling ‘battered wives’ and ‘domestic violence’ and look at the stories and statistics. All those women thought they were in love with a man like yours. They all thought he’d change because they loved him ... but the only change was the guy got meaner and he became more violent. Even when they had kids (often even when they’re pregnant) the scumbag beat them and terrorised them. Do you want to be one of those statistics?

You’ve just described a total slime ball. Read your message again pretending someone else wrote it and I’ll bet you’d be telling the girl to stay away from him.

You deserve better than this guy, Leila. Look how he treats his current girlfriend, telling people he’s not into her. If he had an ounce of decency he’d be honest and break up with her and let her get on with her life.

How can you possibly say you’re in love with a guy who tells you he hopes you die? Can’t you see there’s something dreadfully wrong with his head? You need to wise up before it is too late. Get away from him and find a guy who is nice all the time. If he is mean to you now, he’d be a monster once he starts taking you for granted.

Sorry to be the one to warn you but this guy is a potential nightmare, and certainly not worthy of being the man of your dreams.

I’m amazed your friends aren’t smart enough (or honest enough) to have spotted him as trouble. Maybe they just love you heaps and don’t want to upset you by being honest. I don’t want to upset you either, but you asked for my opinion and I’m always honest.

I believe you should walk away. He’s trouble ... and I hate the thought of you becoming a victim of his future violence and abuse. So stay safe and find another guy to plan your future with.

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Daniel Long

7 months agofrom All Over

He’s graduating and going out into the adult world, with a clear idea in his mind that he doesn’t want to be dating anyone from school when he goes. You have to respect that.

There will be other guys. Or maybe you might cross paths with the same guy again after you’ve graduated and you’re both adults. Who knows?

But it would be a waste of time and effort to feel too disappointed at this time. It just isn’t meant to be, so I think you should accept that and move on.

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Daniel Long

7 months agofrom All Over

If you’re only young, Ella, don’t bother. Wait until you’re both older, then the age gap won’t be such a problem. Meanwhile, stick to guys your own age.

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Daniel Long

7 months agofrom All Over

Pretty simple solution, Jaylin. Just talk to the guy. Start by saying ‘hi’ a few days when you pass him. Then ask him a question. By then he should be ready to talk with you.

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Daniel Long

7 months agofrom All Over

Don’t be confused, Betsy. It sure sounds like he likes you. I’m guessing he was caught by surprise when you said you like him. Probably kicking himself for hours (or days) for not making a smarter reply instead of his vague response. Give him a chance to regain his confidence. He’s obviously trying to please you.

Lucy yung

7 months ago

I like this guy he knows that I like him and he told me he likes me but it was in a complex situation, because he thought I get jealous seeing him with a particular girl in school we are not even in the same class. He later told my friend he can not date me because he will soon graduate

Gabriela Ramirez

7 months ago

So ever since i read this it is true that guy does like me and i think he does bc theres a lot of ppl saying that he does like me and whatever it said there he does that to me but i like him too so i hopefuly think well act cool around him and his name is Xavier

ELLA

7 months ago

HOW CAN YOU TELL A GUY OLDER THAN YOU ,THAT YOU LIKE THEM?

jaylin brown

7 months ago

ok so in first period and in 2nd i think this boy likes me i mean i like him but he keeps looking at me and he said only one word to me and he keeps asking his friends to ask me a question like he is nerves to ask me i mean i really lie him so i dont know what to do

Betsyroseblue

7 months ago

I have a guy friend who drops by my desk at work and chat and we sometimes play games as part of a big group at lunch time… he sometimes accidentally kicks my feet under the table sometimes. We also do yoga at work and I catch him looking at me through reflections. Occasionally he’s walked me to my bus stop and waited with me in he rain to make sure I caught my bus. …. when I go up to other games he’s playing at work he often can’t look at me but when we play he has regular eye contact …he is also very opinionated (I here from others) but he is never like that with me…He similes a lot when im with him. I also left the office 10 mins before him and the suddenly he was there over the road walking slowly and on the phone. He waited for me to cross the road and we walked to my bus stop where he sat down (first before I could say anything) and waited with me. We chatted whilst we waited for my bus and he talked about his day and asked about mine. He sat first with his legs open the crossed them in my direction. I have just split with someone and told him I liked him but he just gave a vague comment but it told me nothing and now I am so confused…

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Daniel Long

7 months agofrom All Over

Bea, you're getting all in a twist but I don't think you should worry so much. He either likes you or he doesn't. You'll either go out with him some time or you won't.

If you suspect he's too immature or 'bad news' it is probably a good idea to follow your gut feeling and heed the warning.

But I know from experience that doesn't always work out. lol. Sometimes I've spent time with people I felt weren't right, and later regretted not following my initial instinct.

I think you should be less concerned about what happens with the guy. Put him in the 'wait and see' pile. Maybe he'll be far more attractive in a few years time when he's had time to mature.

He might surprise you and step up to be a better prospect as a boyfriend, but right now I don't think you should be holding your breath. It could be a long wait.

Bea

7 months ago

Hi! I met this guy on the first week of march and he was really friendly. He would tell me im cute and tease me for being small. He would also poke me on the waste cause he knew that i am very ticklish through a mutual friend. He was also a flirt and one day he called me CGA or "Cutest Girl Alive"

On the 3rd week, my friends and i were watching a movie, him included. He was lying fdown on my lap with my permission of course. he told me that he would tell me something the next time i went to our mutual friend's house (they were neighbors and we had a group project) but when i did, he would always delay it for some reason. A couple of days later i asked my friend if he was going to say that he liked me, she said yes. I also had confirmation from another friend that knows him and their friend who immediately asked our mutual friend if i was the one that he likes as soon as i walked in.

But, he would only do moves when im at my friend's house. I even added him on messenger and initiated a conversation just to have a medium of communication. But if i dont make the first move and when im not at my friend's house, he would do nothing. I even waited for him to make the first move whenever i see him online but he never contacted.

I didnt get a chance to go to my friend's house for the whole month of april. But i did had a few plans on going there just to see him which were all cancelled cause of an emergency.

I went there on the first week of may and the first thing he told me was "what took you so long?" i didnt know if my friend told him that i had an emergency which was the reason i cancelled plans but i was so taken a back that i told him the same thing. Its because he didnt go to my birthday in april and he didnt give me a decent explanation for not going when i asked him why he wasnt there. He just said, " i had a busy schedule ".

I dont know what to do... I thought he liked me then why is he doing this? He doesnt really take the first move when i openly give him the chance. He also seems sweet and we have a lot in common but theres something about him that seems immature or an aura saying he's bad news. The problem is im on the verge of liking him. I need to know if hes serious in liking me or just a casual crush. Please tell me what to do. And what to do if he actually tells me he likes me.

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Daniel Long

7 months agofrom All Over

He might like you, Kaitlyn. Keep talking with him and see if he becomes more comfortable answering you.

kaitlyn digiacomo

7 months ago

ok so today at school in 4th period the popular boy that i kinda like he just kept staring at me then looking away. And everytime i try and talk to him he just looks at me and stays silent, then he just replies with some shy awkward tone- DoeS this mEan hE lIKes mE O_O

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Daniel Long

7 months agofrom All Over

Aubree, I deleted your comment because you plastered your full name on the top of it. Anyone could track you down on Facebook and pretend to be the guy.

I don’t want to be responsible for some nutcase stalking you. I suggest you just use the first part of your name when you put messages on the internet. If he went to school with you, he’ll remember your full name ... or he’ll ask someone else who does.

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Daniel Long

8 months agofrom All Over

Yes, Louise. No need to ask for permission, just ask your question. It might take a while, but you can certainly expect a reply.

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Daniel Long

8 months agofrom All Over

Sounds like the guy likes you, Bell. He might not be confident enough (or old enough yet to feel confident) about asking you out, but he's doing the best he can for now.

If he's as nice as you say, I think you should be patient and stick with him. He'll probably grow into a really great date with time.

Bell

8 months ago

Hi, I really like this guy in one of my classes. We always sit together and walk to train station and he is really nice, he would always whispered when he is talking to me in class and I have to lean in to hear what he says and he would butt in my cono with another girl about the things I like to do .Idk why when ever I talk to him his ears turn red and he is acting shy in the our class even though he is good at speaking in front of a crowd and another thing me and my friends noticed is that his friend kept on stating at me in our lecture and I always catch him turning away.

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Daniel Long

8 months agofrom All Over

Would you want a boyfriend who touches other girls in front of you, Kayla? I feel sorry for his current girlfriend ... and any future girlfriends. I don’t know why you’d bother following him anywhere. Sounds like he loves himself more than he’ll ever love any girl.

kayla

8 months ago

hi i dont know if he has a crush but he has a girlfriend and i have a boyfriend but he touches me in front of his girlfriend and she does nothing and he stares at me.every time i walk into school he touches me everytime.and stares. and he asked if i would follow him on hangouts.

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Daniel Long

8 months agofrom All Over

He’s either rude or he’s immature, Liz. I’m guessing he’s only young and not yet ready to make an effort to get to know any girls, so don’t waste time chasing him. When he’s eventually ready he’ll know where to find you. Just remain friendly but don’t push him. He might be more interesting (and interested) in a couple of years.

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Daniel Long

8 months agofrom All Over

I’m not sure what you’re asking. If you don’t know him but you think he likes you ... what? Talk to him if you want to get to know him. Avoid him if you don’t.

Liz

8 months ago

The thing is, whenever I actually say something to him he’ll just: 1. Turn around and talk to friends or 2. Say something back but not start a conversation.

Boys are very confusing.

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Daniel Long

8 months agofrom All Over

One of you will have to speak first, Liz. May as well be you. If you say hi and seem approachable, I expect he’ll step up and speak with you in future.

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Daniel Long

8 months agofrom All Over

I don’t know why you’re having sex with a guy before you know if he actually likes you, Kay. Hard to imagine it turning into a great love story. You’re taking a chance with STDs with this guy and there’s always a chance of accidental pregnancy. That’s a lot of risks to take with a guy who might not feel the same way about you.

I think you’ve passed the stage where there’s any point asking if he likes you. You’re at the stage where you want to know if there’s any hope of a future together. He obviously likes you enough to have sex, but that’s not the same as wanting a relationship.

unknown

8 months ago

what if you don't know him but you feel like he likes you?

Liz

8 months ago

Hey! There’s one guy I have on my mind right now.

As of right now, he stares at me like a crazy person but doesn’t say anything if its not necessary. (He is a Capricorn boy). We have some classes together, and all my friends say that he stares at me and they all agree that he likes me - but I’m not sure. He meets most of the signs but i really dont know. Can you help me?

Kay

8 months ago

Hello Daniel, okay so there's this guy I like and we have had sex like 4 times. I have feel I gs for him and I'm not sure if he does. How am I supposed to know if hr likes me or not or should I take my chances and ask him?

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Daniel Long

8 months agofrom All Over

Ginni, I gave you 50 clues to look for. If staring and touching his hair is all you’ve got from the guy, that’s not much to go on.

Start talking with him. You’ll find out more about each other and then maybe see more positive signs.

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