Reader's Dilemma: "My Boyfriend Doesn't Really Kiss Me Anymore..."

Well, today, one reader asks what to do when her boyfriend doesn't kiss her that much anymore. Let's chat after the jump...

Our reader's question...

"So I have this dilemma about kissing. I love kissing but I feel as if my boyfriend doesn't think about it much. I mean, he will definitely be sweet and kiss me/peck me etc. But, the whole making out aspect, I feel, is lacking. Does it only exist in the honeymoon period or are there ways to work on 'making out' later in the relationship too? Do women like kissing more than men? If one party likes to do it more than the other, what are some ways to work on it together?"

My answer...

Thanks for your question! I totally agree, kissing is really fun. (I mean, just look at these photos!) But when you're dating someone, sometimes you can jump right to sex, and forget how awesome it can be to suck face on the sofa for hours.

So, here's a little game you can play:

* Tell your boyfriend to sit on the sofa or lie down on the bed. Now you kiss him--on the mouth, on his cheeks, on his forehead, on his ears, on his eyelids, on his neck, hands, knees, you name it!--but he can't do anything. He can't move, he can't touch you, and he definitely can't kiss you back....until he just...can't...resist! It's really sweet to see how he will get turned on by your kisses and be absolutely dying to kiss you by the end of the game. Afterwards, switch places: Now he can kiss you and you can't kiss him....see how long you last! The game is fun, and, more important, it will help remind him how fun simple kissing can be.

Dear readers, have you ever found yourself in a similar situation? Do you love kissing, too? Any advice for our kiss-starved reader?