"Thus, the battle to follow Jesus is won or lost in those milliseconds when we first encounter people, in the instantaneous flashes of contempt, irritation, anger, fear or disgust we feel toward others. Social feelings flood our brains with neurotransmitters and hormones, hijacking our theology before we even have time to think." http://www.nomadpodcast.co.uk/richard-beck-practicing-way-loving-like-jesus/