Where to go for drinks/socializing?

I read your article in today’s times union and it mirrors the situation that my friends and I have all of the time. Where do you go in Albany when you are in your 30’s and not looking to get smashed in a bar, your butt grabbed by some random drunk man or have a guy try to pick you up for a night? The added problem is that I am a 38 year old single mom and I do still want to have an opportunity to meet men while I am out that will remember my name the next morning. So, my question is, where do you go in Albany when you find yourself single again in your mid to late 30’s to meet eligible men around the same age that are looking for more than one night?

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Great question, I’m curious as well. While I’m only 25 I’m new to the Albany night scene and I’m not one for “getting smashed” with friends. I’d rather find a quieter, more sophisticated place than a large, techno-thumping club to spend my evening in. I do like Pearl and Blue-82 for the most part, but sometimes they get a little too obnoxious for me.

I really like dp at the Hampton Inn and Suites in downtown Albany. It’s the more casual side of Yonos and has a fantastic selection of wines by the glass and a professional crowd.
The Wine Bar is upscale, but there are only nooks and smaller tables there. I can’t imagine flirting with a stranger there, but it would be a great place for a date.
Trying new wines together is a classy date option – you get to share a fun experience and learn something about yourself and your date.
Kathleen Lisson

I suppose I should mention that 74 State has been discovered by the state legislature, so if one were to go there early in the week, one might want to keep a look out for prowling politicos. If one were looking to avoid this, I would recommend waiting until Thursday evening when they have exited the region.