First Tinder

What’s your gender? WomanHow old are you? 18What’s your race/ethnicity? White / CaucasianWhat continent do you live on? North AmericaWhat country and/or city do you live in? San franciscoHighest education received: High school diplomaWhat’s your occupation? StudentWhat’s your current relationship status? SingleReligious affiliation: AtheistHow religious are you? Not at allWhat’s your sexual orientation? HeterosexualHow many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 4How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

First tinder

How long ago did this hookup happen? 2 days

What was your relationship status at the time? Single

How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand

How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Guy was a bit fat but good looking. Hairy balls tho.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? Texted on tinder. Was not planning on getting laid. No planning. He did instigate it.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? Went to the bar for a few drink. Was a bit stressed to talk about herpes and chlamidia I got from a previous drunken hookup. Forgot to tell him but was not an issue for me as I was getting wet drinking so much booze. He asked me if I needed a ride back. Told me he didn t care about DUI so said ok. He started fingering me in the car. Dig a finger up my ass, didn’t like it at all. Especially when he wanted me to taste it.was gross. He took me to his place even after promising me to take me back home. He drop my pants and shagged me without condom and jizzed in my vag. I then fall asleep. Next morning I felt the bed was wet. Pretty sure I peed myself. Left straight away before he woke up. Hope I gave him my STDs.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Not at all

Did you have an orgasm? No, not even close

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? Got tested because I had a vaginal infection and found out I got gonorea from him

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None

What were your motives for this hookup? Hoping or expecting it would lead to something more

How intoxicated were you? Completely wasted

What substances did you consume? Alcohol

How intoxicated was your partner? Drunk/high but not wasted

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? A little bit

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I didn’t give a clear ‘yes’, but I didn’t give a ‘no’

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Mum

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? A little bit

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Somewhat

Why do you regret this hookup? Std

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Giving std

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Getting std

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? No

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Not at all positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Very negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup? No

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? No