Saturday, August 30, 2008

Distant Lover

Distant lover, lover, So many miles away, Heaven knows that I long for you, every night, every night and sometimes I yearn through the day.- Marvin Gaye, Distant Lover

So I just asked my friend...turned better than cut buddy...turned long distance love...are we gonna make this official or not.

When I first moved he said he didn't want to do a long distance relationship.

Neither did I.

BUT...

Once the I Love You's flowed...I found (find) myself in an interesting predicament of "Now What?"

His money ain't right he says.

I say so.

We don't live in the same city he says.

I say we won't live in the same city for at least the next year...so if he is as serious about me as he says he is then we do it now or not at all (well we can still keep it causal but u get what I mean...)

He says he needs to think about it.

I say okay.

No pressure.

But I know if we keep in relationship limbo, when my Thundercat comes along (and he will come along)...there will be no second thoughts or guilt on my part...'cause...well..we'll just be better than friends...right?

Long distance relationships are really hard and I personally, am not down with them from experience. My attention span and patience is just not there. So, you probably consider letting him go unless the two off you have solid plans to move to the same city (because it gets old after a while. But at the same time, just because a lot of LDRs don't work, doesn't mean that applies to all. So just be realistic about your particular situation and go from there. Ultimately, follow your while still being logical.

I know damn well he didn't like it!LOL You know we don't play that sharing sh*t! even with the side piece...when it comes down to a woman sayin' that she wants to explore other options...I may have to pull out the secret weapon>>>"I luh u, baby!" and let a tear well up in my left eye.