Me and my gf work at the same company. We secretly got married last month. We have not told anyone at work because there's a rule against dating other employees. This makes us both nervous. What should we do?

You need to go to your HR department and let them know. If the company finds out before you let them know, it could be grounds for dismissal. I checked with an employment attorney who said that laws vary depending on where you are, but you are much better off having the information come from you than having them find out from someone else.