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Alecia argues that saying "I Have A Boyfriend" removes the agency of a woman, and takes away her ability to speak for herself and make her own decisions about whether or not she accepts advances.

Male privilege is "I have a boyfriend" being the only thing that can actually stop someone from hitting on you because they respect another male-bodied person more than they respect your rejection/lack of interest."

It doesn't give women the power to control how they reject a man. Alecia says women should be as straight forward about their feelings as possible when they're hit on.