Myth About Sex

I discovered Andrew from listening to an episode of the podcast Voices of Deconversion and quickly found his story both relatable and incredibly insightful. His experiences are unfortunately not unique and I believe it’s important his work (and the similar works of others) should be heard as much as possible in a culture that …

Ty wrote: “I have been masturbating until I feel like I’m going to orgasm and then stopping or slowing down; like trying to control my orgasm. Sometimes I will do this all day and have an orgasm 8-12 hours later, edging with breaks to do stuff around the house. Other times I will edge for …

I receive a lot of letters from men who want their female partners to don a strap-on and ride them into the sunset. “How do I get my girlfriend/wife try it?” or “Does this make me gay?” are the most frequent questions asked. First, let’s go over the reasons why a man would want to …

Booker wrote: “I just started watching your videos and they have been super open and well done. I have been having this problem orgasming during sex. I am in my early 20s and am a nicely sized guy about 8.5 inches and can cum no problem masturbating, very often multiple times. I am big into …

Liz: “I discovered you and your website, http://www.sextherapytoronto.org back in November of 2015 when I needed to defer to someone with professional experience in treating sexual dysfunctions and other issues. I had received a letter from a foot fetishist who wanted to know how to “get rid of” his fetish. Your website provided me with …

Curious wrote: “So recently I’ve been discovering my sexuality and I think I’ve found my answer. I believe I am bisexual but I have a preference for men. I would not turn down a female if she was someone I was interested in for the right reasons. I feel comfortable in my identity it’s just …

“Steve” wrote: “I recently discovered your YouTube channel and I love your approach to all sorts of sociological and psychological issues. I’m a straight male, happily married for 4 years. My wife and I are observant Jews and each other’s first sexual partners. Something I did not know about myself is that I love anal …

Hi Readers! Purity culture in the U.S., abstinence-only sex education (which is an oxymoron), and fathers who have a misguided idea of how to keep their daughters virgins until marriage are all topics that have been dissected, analyzed, and challenged for years now. I weigh in with my views, and bust a myth that still …

“Someone who’s a great dancer is going to be good in bed.” Tessa and I had just arrived at The Bounce, wearing little clothes and big hair, and immediately descended upon the bartenders. Tessa and I got our cocktails and stood by the dance floor, sipping and eyeing the man candy. We were 21 years …