let past be past.... if your ex doesnt want to dig up his past relationship then you should respect him.... me i dont like it too...digging up the past doesnt make any sense and doesnt help you in your relationships....if he wants to speak up with his past dont force him let him share those stuff with you voluntarily..... dont be so immature just respect what your partner want

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What if he asks about your past? Do you really want to set yourself up to be hurt by learning that maybe girls from his past did things you wont do or did better? If you are insecure with your relationship maybe you need to look inside yourself.

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It is absolutely okay to be interested in the life of someone with whom you spend a significant amount of your time, past/present/future. Of course, it's important to respect someone's wishes if they do not want to talk about something. However, it could very well be a warning sign that this person has something to hide, or is unwilling to hold a mirror to themselves if you find they often snap at you when you ask questions about them.

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Well thank u for your comment guys! But what I just think past is past why can't share some stuff about ur past relationship to ur present partner?? And yes the most important thing is that our present and future.. And that we really love eachother.. That's why I don't really ask about his past relationship now, cause we are happy of wat we have now, and I realize past is past, not a big deal anymore...;))

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If he makes you happy, hold on to that. There are dozens of reasons why he might not want to talk about his past relationships. If you keep wondering about it, you will help neither of you. Focus on what you share :-)