Maybe you have a vision of what the day will be like when your wife or partner gives birth. Maybe you’ve imagined what you’ve seen in the movies: her water breaking, rushing to the hospital, pushing, and the baby comes out. Or maybe you’ve been to a birthing class, and have a more realistic idea of what will happen.

Either way, you can count on some surprises when your baby enters the world. Being as prepared as possible will ensure you can fully enjoy the moments — and support your partner during one of the most challenging and magical days of her life.

We’re here to share the insider things you should know prior to your partner giving birth. Not only will you benefit from reading these tips, but your partner and baby will, too. And we can only imagine how excited you are to meet your child!