In the older days they would just get a visit, now naming and shaming them on the internet seems to be the tool of choice. I'd name and shame them then see it for what it is, crap on the internet to be ignored and carry on as usual doing what you do, doing your own thing

Madrid no, I've been away working overseas so been quite busy. DJ is still a cock and continues to promote aven as a hive mind similar to berkley. kelly having fun? Anything is possible but my lottery odds are better. I hope you are well, your face is no longer fungus e fied and your tie die continu...

The only one missing around here is PiF. He accused me of doing something that I didn't do, and then he continued to accuse me of it after I TOLD him that I didn't do it - in other words, he called me a liar. Bad idea. He isn't banned, warned, or anything at all, but he didn't appreciate it when I ...

I wouldn't be comfortable if the only choice widely accepted is, which one do you trust the most whilst very few people trust any of them at all...If hilary gets back in I can imagine Bill going through the whitehouse saying..yep I had sex there, there there and no it wasn't with the wife general si...

Well as you know yourself with your big announcement, time flies by so easily :D There is no gravy train in asexuality....F*ck me, they can't organise a forum without putting walls up on a visibility site, so I'd never trust them to make money, Gravy? they have enough trouble with water. Admods reda...

So shall I start a thread on the subject then? :lol: Because I'm sure there are lots of people out there who wanna ask questions specifically of a tie-dyed beardy weirdy asexual with a fetish for Greek (or even better, Hebrew) letters. Oh wait - you forgot tree hugging. How could you? Absolutely, w...

There he isssssss...I thought you had fallen into a relationship and had your beard removed :D aha..your two's bias's mean you didn't read it right...no where does it mention THE definition of asexual..care to read again? Ah yes, piffy goes through a checklist of piffy characteristics and lo and beh...

Care to share where it is after 7 months then michael? aven can put walls up to keep muggles out in 4 days but can't release member contributed data in 7 months?..okay michael , I believe you.... :lol: :lol: You know the 2015 will confirm more or less, the 2014 census which will show as far as onlin...

Not much of a choice, it's a bit like suicide, which one is better, a gun to the head or a knife to the throat. This is probably one of the few elections that "none of the above" should be on the ballot paper.

There are a few of us but we are rarer than a rare thing Genuine full time Asexual...check Someone who actually has had sexual partners rather than having none but stating it's icky as though it's a fact....check Someone who has been married....check someone who has had kid/s.....check someone who h...

I'm lost? is yours arocalypse.com the green forum. or are you saying when it lapsed someone has snuck in copied the forum. got the website address and set it up as theirs? if so I'm guessing it's blue pheonix ace, do you know them?

I wouldn't worry about Mysticus Insanus...he's so blinded by the definition debate that he can't see your argument...that man could have his own knob in his hand and still call it a cauliflower, your not going to get a lot of sense there as to the person who appears to have started this latest silly...

I told them years ago that the site was becoming anti christian, anti parent and anti sexual But now we have a new fear....people who are anti sexual/sexually repulsed/sexually intolerant but not asexual, trying to take over aven and push out asexuals..the very people aven was created for The mods h...

This is why I keep saying...for full time asexuals who wanted to have a place to be open..aven is pretty unwelcoming. and if your sex positive then the "shut them down" clan are trying to run you out of aven because THEY are still confusing sexually repulsed, anti sexual and not having sex...

Because most of the sexual identitiy network, not just aven..see only them, they want to fit in so exagerate Valentines day, honestly it was a race to say who could say the worst about a time that promoted love..it was eww that's horrible it should be banned ..because they need to be offended...I've...

Ahhh the old can o worms This is my opinion and is shared by many, some differ from it and if your in the other place, it's about 6 of them :lol: The problem the desirists have is desire is simply another word for want...I have wanted sex before but never whilst single and it has always been not onl...

No worries, I always questioned the name hot box, given it was more luke warm. You have to remember most of aven is uni/college students and given the most sought after degree is "how to shut others down" then you can understand why those saying we should all be tolerant...are actually thi...

True, so will lurkers/potential new members who are already restricted. As much as they claim 83,375 members, on a daily basis the amount of contributors there is probably less than around 60-80 people a day contributing....that is a small enough number that a poor performing technically poor forum ...

:patpat: Sometimes a minor facial adjustment is needed. No hard feelings. I rarely have those. Even after the years of abuse from some in avens backroom and the stitch up that saw me removed, I could still work with them to stop themselves from f*cking up so regularly :lol: The problem is you have ...

I think it would help if the team involved could explain why given the same people will be doing the site swap, why it can't be done now rather than later...if for no other reason than to temper down the..wtf is happening Again perception...here is our donation page for the server swap..keep paying ...

To be fair to Michael I think he did announce the server upgrade would not be done till next year Our plan is to move to a new cloud based server in the next year, which will be better able to handle the weight of traffic we experience. The mistake they made was opening up donations, this is the int...