Stop Denying the Power of Others

Summary of Brenda’s February 5, 2016, channeled, 15-minute “Creation Energies” show at http://www.BlogTalkRadio.com / brenda-hoffman: Those of you revisiting an issue you thought completed, are now the audience and no longer on stage. Those of you who created your earth dream, please share your earth dream creation with others. And those of you finding a need for quiet time, please honor that need. All of you listening to this channel will fall into one of these three phases for you have climbed your 3D mountain of fear and rolled down your hill to joy.

“You’ve Added a New Sense to Your Repertoire” is the title of last week’s “Brenda’s Blog” – her weekly, channeled blog for www.LifeTapestryCreations.com.

Many of you are feeling scattered. You are likely addressing 3D issues you thought you completed – and you are angry that these issues seem to be in your way of future development.

Issues that are so ‘yesterday’ – and you wish to be of today or even tomorrow. Your fear, your angst is that these issues will never allow you to move forward. Before your transition, these issues frightened you. Now they make you angry, “Why me? Why now?”

For the pieces arriving now seem to be as inappropriate for you as would be true if you had graduated from high school, only to learn you must repeat a first-grade reading class before attending college. Most definitely, inappropriate and not conducive to your good humor!

So it is you are learning to look at an old issue with new eyes, new perspectives. How much, if at all, are you willing to sacrifice to readdress an issue you have addressed many times before? And if you are not willing to readdress the issue, how do you clear it completely from your being – never to address again?

That is your piece at the moment. For indeed, that piece, if you will, is the piece that is holding you in a place you never wished to be before and most certainly not now.

So it is we suggest you look at that piece intently to realistically determine if you are able to do anything to shift or change that piece. Most likely, that piece involves other humans or human activities. Do the humans involved wish to change their roles? Do they wish to address their issues from a 5D perspective? If the answer is a resounding, “NO,” which more than likely will be the case, there is nothing you can do for them or that activity. You are in a different place with different perspectives and goals.

Perhaps an easier way of understanding the issue would be the example of your first-grade child having difficulties learning how to count money. You could be frightened along with your child that he or she will never accomplish that skill. Or you could know with every fiber of your being that your child will indeed achieve the goal of money counting before they became much older.

You have an overview of possibilities and certainties you did not have when you first encountered the fear piece you are now readdressing. It will be solved, shifted or negated without your angst or fears. For those issues, even though they might touch your heartstrings are not about you, but instead about the person or persons in question.

You cannot learn lessons for another including taking their pain away. It is something they must do for themselves – just as was true for you. Even though you might reduce their pain in this particular issue by rescuing them in some format – such as telling your child’s teacher that the counting money lesson is too difficult for any child and thereby forcing the removal of that lesson from the curriculum – that lesson will only return for them until they shift it themselves.

There is no longer any rescue possible. For that is a piece of the caretaker/victim stance that you addressed months or even years ago. Trying to remove someone’s pain only returns that pain to them in another format – until they address it themselves.

Many of you experienced the same. Perhaps you were addressing abuse issues. Until you focussed and refused to participate in abusive situations involving you and/or others, the issue popped up in many formats. So it will be for those you stop to rescue. Even if you solve a particular problem for them, their issue of abuse, lack of self-worth, abandonment and on and on continues until they decide to clear it. For it is their issue, not yours. You have more than enough to complete in this lifetime with your issues – and you have done so remarkably well.

You are not helping your children, friends or relatives by trying to clear their issues also. You are merely muddying their clearing phase and perpetuating their need to address the same issue in different venues.

Allow them the strength to find their way – if they wish to do so. You have found yours. It is not your place, nor do you have the energy to be a mother duckling to all humanity or even one other human. You have more than enough to accomplish in this lifetime – and so you are.

But stopping or slowing down to help another find their way when they are not necessarily looking, does not help them, nor does it help you. Doing so is from the 3D perspective that others are more important and valuable than you. Which, of course, is no longer part of your 5D repertoire.

For you know without a doubt where you are going even though you might not have the particulars quite yet. And you are beginning to understand that others are as powerful and capable as you – they merely need to remember that they are. This they cannot do if you are constantly rescuing them to their learning and your forward movement detriment.

It is time for you to let go of your need to rescue or direct others. Such is of 3D. This life is about you rescuing you and glorying in the ability to know that you are able to do so. And that the same is true for any entity who wishes to be part of this wondrous transition. So be it. Amen.

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Dearest Brenda, – this message is so eeringly correct, and to the point, in all of it’s contents! – How do you even do it?! – Which crystal ball are you using, and could I please have one too?!? – All my love to all of you.

Hi Finn,
I key in or speak what I hear in my head and VERY, VERY SELDOM know the topic until I’ve started a channel. I’ve always assumed the messages were for me and anyone else experiencing something similar. Knowing that my channels actually help others move through and better understand this transition is one of my great joys!
Blessings, Lots of Love and Creation Sparkles,
Brenda

This is so true !! I see so clear !!
I have some vocation of red cross girl … or fireman (firewoman) apprentice…. of amateur psychologist … … of father confessor of veterinary……of nutritionist …. of healer ….of mediator…..of referee…. of bridesmaid…..even of translator!! 😉
Always to the rescue but do not ask me!!!
Oh no!! This is over !!! It is soooooo tiring and I still have a lot to do!!
Thanks dear Brenda
Love Blesses and sparkles
Cristina

Hi Cristina,
Isn’t it delightful that we’re starting to accept the freedom from caretaker and the resulting victim feelings and behavior?? This should be such a simple concept, but like you, I find caretaking pieces here and there – just when I least expect them.

Caretaking is so deeply ingrained in our 3D world – especially for women.

To the freedom to with the knowledge that others have the same freedom – if they wish!!!
Blessings, Lots of Love and Ongoing Creation Sparkles,
Brenda

Aha! Beautiful Brenda! So well said, once again. Sheesh! That caretaking thing…….my issue really mostly with family close to me, at this point. So, perfect message for me right now. I am focusing on me. Aha! It sounds so narcissistic! But I know it is necessary and it is not a narcissistic kind of focus. I get it…….I do, I get it…..I do, I do I do…..Can you tell I am trying to convince myself?

Having spent many years in a religion and also family where I took care of everyone and we were supposed to SERVE……to the detriment of ourselves…….I am now breaking that old mold and habit pattern.

I have been a inner focus woman for years but also felt I had to take care of others and as a woman and a woman with children, even more ingrained…..I am a super over achiever….heehee………..NO MORE! It does help that my beautiful best friend son and daughter are 35 and 32! 🙂

Dear Sweetie,
Many of us are trying to convince ourselves that it’s ok to love ourselves as much as others. It’s an interesting concept isn’t it – that it still feels bad sometimes to love yourself enough to say, “No!”

And you’re so right women, in particular, have been touted as caretaker supremes for generations.

But we’re doing it, we’re changing our perceptions with the love and support of others – as well as our inner need to do so. Kudos for us all to be awakening at the same time from the deep guilt, anger and fear of caretaker/victimhood.
Blessings, Lots of Love and Ongoing Creation Sparkles,
Brenda

Brenda I think I have invented two ‘things’ which would be of value to others. One is a psychological model of the mind, the other is a piece of engineering. Should I be concerned because they are not accepted by anybody and that I may not leave them as a legacy when I leave Earth? How do I fit tem in 5D?

Hi Gil,
Kudos for your inventions. I’ve sensed for some time that new inventions will shift our lives dramatically and that many, obviously including you, are engrossed in creating those pieces now.

Historically, those who think “outside the box” are not necessarily believed or followed especially initially – but they create the future in ways not even dreamed of by the inventors. I love history and so I’m referring to the struggles of those inventing electricity, air travel, automobiles, television, radio, computers, the Internet and on and on.

As to how you fit them into 5D – ah, a question for your inner-being for sure.
Blessings, Lots of Love and Creation Sparkles,
Brenda

Dear Gil, I am a scientist and inventor. I have written much (patents, books, articles etc.) and most of my stuff is not accepted by anybody. Some of it has been noticed, and the naysayers have swooped in with torches and pitchforks.
I do what I do because I love solving puzzles and because I want to know how this reality works. I am freewheeling and I love to think outside the box.
The only reason I have written all this stuff is to leave a trail of breadcrumbs for anyone who wishes to follow my lead. But I don’t look back to see how many do. That doesn’t interest me. I am already on to the next thing.
I take comfort in knowing that whoever needs my information will find it. I have no way of knowing how it will be used or who will find it or what effect it will have. It’s like sending a signal, dropping a pebble in the pond. Who knows how or where it will reverberate?
You ask, “Should I be concerned….?” Short answer: no.
But do leave a record. You never know.
Love,
Nancy

Thank you Brenda. This was very helpful. I do tend to go into the “trying to save others” mode from time to time. I’m learning to let others be and for them to learn their own lessons. A difficult thing to do sometimes, but you are right, I have to take care of myself from time to time. Thanks 🙂

I agree – this learning to love ourselves as much as others is not an easy lesson. But then, before this, most of us didn’t realize that we didn’t love ourselves. So we learn and grow and become!
Blessings, Lots of Love and Creation Sparkles,
Brenda

This message didn’t quite resonate with me, I didn’t even understand exactly what’s being said (rare situation).
But I wanted to tell this to someone, I wanted to write this down: That’s it. I am done with this so called ‘ascension’. I just don’t want to continue this never ending so called cleansing and misery called ascension. I am not willing to ascend and I am not willing to follow my higher self. I am not willing to give up every possibility this moment has, I am not willing to live in misery to get some future rewards.
I don’t have what it take to complete this journey. I am not frustrated. I just don’t want to go through this. I don’t care about the so called rewards (I don’t even believe there are any rewards).
And I don’t want to be forced to do this.

As you spoke of in your recent Blog Talk Radio post, the one referenced above, the request has been made to share the manifestation of our Earth security dream. Originally I really wanted to hear from someone else who had already created their own, especially when I had yet to create mine.

It is with joy that I am able to now share that I have begun to see and actively create the early manifestations of my Earth Dream!

– Travel? Check
– Places I really want to visit? Check
– Financial abundance to do it all? Working on that. Crowdfunding my adventures might be part.
– The tropical, warm, humid, ocean living location? Still intending to hear word on that when appropriate.
– Being able to share knowledge with others? Yup! Medium.com/@LanceAdventures and my fan page at Facebook.com/LanceAdventures

Amazingly I too am finding things I didn’t realize we’re holding me from full manifestation. I, of course, clear these as they appear to the best of my ability. Even this article above helped to bring light to a subject for clearing of which I had only recently come to recognize.

Thank you Brenda for keeping up this blog and sharing such amazing information. It has truly helped me reach the next most amazing path in my life with confidence and joy.

I am right where I am supposed to be. I am ready for each manifestation in diving timing.

WOW! Brenda, today’s Blog Talk was very direct! I like it even though it raises a HUGE question…How do I help myself KNOW that because I AM therefore I CREATE? It seems that it must be truth that is already within and that I must allow it to come to the surface. That sounds like more clearing and yet it seems we are told that we have cleared enough for us to be still and know…wow… I once read that we can’t force our transformation but we can create the space for it to emerge…I think I’m stumped but hopeful… I liked this Blog Talk, Brenda, even though I don’t know if I know how to allow what I need to come to the surface…hmmm…All I have to do is BE… ❤ 😉

I found that quote I was trying to think of, Brenda…
“As far as inner transformation is concerned, there is nothing you can do about it. You cannot transform yourself, and you certainly cannot transform your partner or anybody else. All you can do is create a space for transformation to happen, for grace and love to enter.” ~Eckhart Tolle

I guess the hard part is that we probably want to DO something about this when it’s more about allowing…about BEing… ❤

I agree with Eckhart BUT I believe it’s as much about intention as allowing. I found comfort in today’s BlogTalk channel. We’re diligently trying to remember to love ourselves, despite all messages to the contrary. And because we are doing so, we value ourselves enough to know that we have the power to create just by being.

We’re like Dorothy in The Wizard of OZ – she didn’t have to complete any of her adventures even though those adventures helped her better understand herself. And once she claimed her power for herself and was no longer dependent on the tiny, ineffective wizard behind the curtain, she was told she merely needed to click her heels together to return home – her ongoing objective – as was always true. Dorothy trusted the information from the Good Witch but most likely would not have until she pulled back the curtain from the wizard. And so we are also pulling back the curtain from our self-designated wizards.
Blessings, Lots of Love and Ongoing Creation Sparkles,
Brenda
PS. Love the art work!

Upon re-reading I see that you have spoken more to the intention element than I realized…I just teared up and forgot what all I had just read…haha! “We’re diligently trying to remember to love ourselves, despite all messages to the contrary. And because we are doing so, we value ourselves enough to know that we have the power to create just by being.” My thinking is so scattered…perhaps more than usual…I come away with a feeling and don’t remember many details… 😛 …thank you, Brenda… ❤ ❤ ❤

Hi Janis,
Not to worry. That happens to me all the time. The pieces I channel are forgotten right after I channel. That’s why I always quickly write a brief outline of my BlogTalkRadio shows.

Shortly after I started my BlogTalk show, a friend of mine asked what the BlogTalk channel I had finished 30 minutes before was about – I had absolutely no idea, even though I’m known for a very clear memory for all sorts of information.

I learned a long time ago that the feeling is more important than the details – almost as if the info goes into some secret cabinet that our cells use to shift our being. Fun thought.
Blessings, Lots of Love and Creation Sparkles,
Brenda

Hi Christopher,
I’m so pleased my channeled resonated for/with you. Sharing my channels with others is one of my great joys. And returning your thanksgiving and gratitude of light and love to you and all!!!!!!
Blessings, Lots of Love and Ongoing Creation Sparkles,
Brenda