Victims Should Make Escape Plan Early

Knowing when to leave can be a confusing, difficult thing to determine. One reason is abusers frequently put the victim on an emotional roller coaster with ``honeymoon'' periods and promises of reform, Walker said.

But Walker said victims should watch out for new, dangerous changes in behavior.

Make a plan of escape ahead of time, not during a full-blown crisis, advised Assistant State Attorney Kearsten Angel.

Here are some tips from the prosecutor and the Governor's Task Force on Domestic and Sexual Violence:

Prepare an ``escape bag'' with identification, important papers such as birth certificates, Social Security cards, credit cards, bank books, food stamps, car registration, prepaid phone cards, a change of clothing, medicine, diapers, formula, toys and blankets, and a photo of your partner so authorities can recognize him for subpoenas or warrants.

Get an injunction for protection.

Ask the school or baby sitters about any visits or inquiries. Make special arrangements to pick up children. Warn child-care workers.