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How can I make her NOT want to live with us?

Posted by Anonymous

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SO has a 17 yr old daughter that is seriously disturbed, confused, dramatic... I mean its BAD. She doesn't like where she lives now and is wanting to move in with us. I have a two small girls and a newborn son. Last thing I need is a crazy teenager in my house. She comes to our house every other weekend and SO is paying $400 a month cs for her. She's a total slob, bad attitude, she's a lesbian one day and "pregnant" the next, she's seriously overweight (probably pushing 300 lbs @ 5'2") and is an emotional eater so she eats us out of house and home when she comes. She lies REALLY BAD and is very promiscuous (sp?) Yeah even though she's a BIG girl. I do not want my kids influenced by her in any way. The ideas I have now include telling her how horrible the highschool is here (it is) and that they have to wear uniforms (they do), telling her she HAS to get a job to by her own car (she doesn't even have her learners permit), and I'm also going to tell her dad that she will not move in unless the child support stops immediately. She lives with her aunt who is a greedy, mean bitch and I highly doubt she'll allow her to move anyway when she realizes she won't get cs and her welfare will be reduced... I'm seriously stressing this and I will do anything to keep her from moving here. If all else fails, her dad will move out. That's how serious I am.

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