Celebrating your angel baby's "birthday"`

Karen - posted on 01/01/2010
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Hi everyone..... even though it has been so long since the loss of my twins, Christopher and David, I was wondering what anyone does as a rememberance or celebration for their angels on their anniversary?

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Prudence - posted on 05/15/2013

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My son Max was 16 when he passed away after a long battle with cancer..I still find it difficult on how to handle his birthday or date of his death...I do light a candle and try to be around family and friends who loved and miss him as much as I do...God Bless

Actually today is the one year anniversary of my little girl...she was born stillborn. We are planning on letting of a balloon marking her first birthday, and i also ordered cake for her. I ordered it to celebrate her. We are having a family dinner as well.

For my Abby's birthday I find a toy that I think she would have liked at the age she would be ( this year she would be 5) I buy it and donate it to the children's hospital in town. Then I take baloons to her graveside and tell her all about it,

My baby girl's birthday is coming up too. My first child. I gave birth to her on 14th January 2013 and she left this world and went straight to heaven 12 hours after I gave birth to her. This year it's going to be 14.1.14... My angel's first birthday. My JIbrael.

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Godspinkangel87 - posted on 08/09/2013

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Today is my son's birthday he was born 8-9-10 and was stillborn! we go every year and sing happy birthday. this year is gonna be the first year for us to try and make it a family day! we wanna go watch a movie and just enjoy being around each other!

Hi We hold a mass in our house each year as near as we can to celebrate our little boy Dylan who would actually be 16 on the 2nd of September. We also go to his grave with flowers and a balloon. We are hoping to do something extra special this yearr as its his 16th so if anyone has any ideas would love to hear them.

HI I JUST HAD MY BABY ANGEL KALEB'S BIRTHDAY MARCH 4 2008. EVERY YEAR ME AND MY HUSBAND SPEND THE DAY TOGETHER AND TALK ABOUT EVERYTHING AND I CRY AND HE COMFORTS ME BUT THE TALKING HELPS. ME AND MY 11YR OLD DAUGHTER WHICH IS NOT HIS MAKE A CAKE TO CELEBRATE AND SHE MAKES KALEB A CARD TO KEEP IN HIS BABY BOOK. I END UP TAKIN A RIDE WITH MY HUSBAND TO A PLACE WE MEET AND WE SIT ON A BLANKET AND LOOK AT THE STARS AND THINK OF KALEB IT HELPS.

I lost my son 06-09-05 to miscarriage. Last year was the first year I'd been able to do anything. I went out to a local park and released a few balloons for him. This year it will be a bit bigger as I lost my mom 06-11-09. I will celebrate them together.

Last year we had a day as a family. (Sierra was our 4th) We went into the mountains and did a hot dog roast and hiked to a waterfall. We took some balloons and released them. It was nice for the other kids to get to give her a message. I think we will always mark the day as a family.

yea last year i brought all of the family together and we celebrated what wouldve been his first birthday. we all had a celebration of his life, we released balloons and we just sat and talked about him for a few hours. it really helps just to get it all out there and being with family made it so much more special.

We celebrate every year with a "rememberance day" where I still bake a cake and we look through the photos and memorablilia from our first son's birth. Eventhough he died before being born, he is part of our family and our first child. We held him, had dreams for him, and loved him just as much as our 2 children now. I think it's important for our children (who are now 9 and 10) to know that they had a brother who came before them and he was just as much a part of our family. Taking a day to remember him is just a way for us as a family to keep him in our thoughts and family circle.

Last year would have been my son's first birthday we released balloons with messages written on them and got as cake (nothing written on it) as a celebration of his life. This year (1/23) he would have been two and we spent the day with his godmother and she bought butterflies and we did a butterfly release. A few of my girlfriends that have lost children did a small gathering with family and friends and did scrapbook pages for their child with everyone there so they could be comforted around people they love. Praying for you that you will find what is best for you on you child's birthday.

I go to the cementary on each anniversary there are two and I cry till I can cry no more, shortly after lossing my second daughter I made a butterfly garden stone with a poem to my girls in it and I move alot so it goes everywhere I go

I just went through a birthday yesterday. It is a bittersweet day for us on january 14th b/c we lost our 14 month old little girl in march 2007, she was born january 14 2006. We had Lilyana on January 14th 2008. Both my biological girls have the same birthday so we are sad not to have our would be 4yr old right now and yet happy to have our other daughter turn 2 yrs old.

This year in March will be six years and I'm still trying to bring myself to visit the grave. I usually choose to remember him alone, I light my special candle from my grief counseling sessions and I go thru my memory box. Instead of being filled with unbearable sorrow, I feel warmth & undying love remembering him. :) I don't think there will ever be such a thing as long enough to stop remembering and celebrating. :-)