Friday, November 18, 2011

kawan vs. cinta

assalamualaikum to all..

this is my second entry for today.

tengok sat kat title tu. SESI KAUNSELING. eh.. cik bella ni ada masalah ke???? hellooo...i dont need any kaunselor yet. coz i still have many shoulders to borrow:) sesi kaunseling ni actually berkelompok means my whole classmates have to attend this kind of session. okay, to make it short, we were divided into 5 groups if i'm not mistaken. and each of group got 1 kaunselor-to-be. we got kak nad. for this session, we got a topic on L.O.V.E. we had to answer about 50 questions about relationship. just YES and NO answer. easy right? but then, quite difficult to answer. frankly speaking, i cant answer it well. why? can i leave this ques without answer? just go through with the questions and my kind of relationship is LOGICAL. there are 6 types of relationship.

- cik bella kata: bila kali pertama saya jumpa someone which is a guy and hati kata *he'll be my friend, and forever he'll be my friend. but, when my first sight says this guy is for you to fall in love, and yet, he'll be my lover. ya, this is my principle in love. don't agree with me? who cares?

and one more thing in love, never believe and tend to sacrifices everything to any guy even you really love him before he becomes your husband. because, he does not deserve to get your sacrifices. it's no offence for you to in love because love is a special gift from Allah. love is too special to give to somebody who we never know. so, keep the love for someone who deserve for it and let him be the first to feel your love:)...i talked based on my experiences before. i wish to keep my love to HIM ...

......you all percaya tak cinta selepas kahwin? one of my friend believe this. because, she only believe on qada' and qadar and jodoh. sometimes, it's difficult for us to believe this. but then, this is the right path which we should go through. however, we never satisfy and keep finding the mr.right. and at the end of the day, we end up with tears. haha. inilah adat yang kita amalkan selama ni. so, we should change those mentality and start new leave!