"I would advise you not to tell your parents about this letter." Toby is an adult, actively seeking out a 14 year old girl against her parents' wishes and asking her to not tell her parents about him. I'm sorry, but that just screams "STRANGER DANGER" to me. I know Toby means well (and a few sentences ago, I was like "What a sweetheart"), but after that line NOPE NOPE NOPE.