White Lies Women Tell

If your lack of performance is an ongoing problem, see a doctor for some alternative solutions. It’s important for the health of your relationship to do something about sexual problems, and if you blindly accept this white lie women tell, your relationship may suffer.

“Size doesn’t matter.”

Of course it does, or women wouldn’t bother saying “size doesn’t matter.” It’s the “how you use it” part, however, that is true regardless of your size. This little white lie women tell was fabricated for insecure men who didn’t know if they were big enough — and obviously they weren’t if they got that answer. Women are taught that the male ego is a fragile thing, and the last thing men want to hear from any woman is that they’re unable to satisfy her. The bottom line: Be glad that you even have a penis.

If you’re that worried about it, learn how to give her mind-blowing cunnilingus and she’ll have a keeper. Sexual satisfaction comes in many shapes and sizes and it’s intimately tied to our emotional satisfaction. There is a ”perfect shape and size,” but these vary from woman to woman. What you may lack in size, you'll make up for in enthusiasm and other skills, including conversational — guaranteed she will be more impressed with that than some monkey with a big schlong.

“Nothing’s wrong.”

If she is bothering to say this white lie out loud, you both know it’s not true. There’s no doubt that you just asked “What’s wrong?” because you saw that something quite obviously was. She either can’t be bothered going into it again or she wants you to care enough to dig deeper. ‘Tis a game and it’s up to you if you want to play.

“I got it on sale.”

Sure she did. Expensive beautiful things help make women feel rich and sexy. If you have a budget that doesn’t allow for these purchases, however, you may stumble upon a wee problem. Yes, she spends money — hers or yours, it doesn’t matter — on clothes, makeup, jewelry, and shoes. Then she tells you that she got them on sale, and who can resist a bargain? She knows you can’t. And she knows you won’t get too upset if she got something she really wanted that will make her look and feel good — because she knows that you appreciate her looking good.

“I’m cumming!”

This isn't always a lie, but it does happen. Unfortunately, women are able — for many reasons — to cheat their way through orgasm. Women forget that their sexual responsibility is in their own hands — literally and figuratively. Too many women simply don’t know what they like and, therefore, can’t pass this vitally orgasmic information on to their partners, expecting their men to instinctively know what to do to get them off. This is one of the white lies women tell because it’s often easier to fib about it than to address the problem. This is also a white lie told by women to save the egos of men. Society raises men with the belief that it is their job to pleasure women, and if they are unable to complete the task, their egos suffer. Still, a little ersatz orgasm here and there for conveniences’ sake never hurt anyone, but constantly forgoing your own sexual pleasure because of insecurity is just so passe.