I remember a college professor once say that when a person says he or she is bored, they really are saying that they are boring. I’m not sure if it applies all the time, but it makes sense that you should have something to talk about. Getting it out to your date despite anxiety or other reasons are a separate issue.

Someone who has an exciting life has something to talk about. People who travel have always something to talk about. Besides that most of them are much better at having a conversation because they have spoken to so many people in the last couple of weeks, months…

We have also a different frequency. People will feel the adventure that is going on whenever we start.