https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6bHhn4vJZls&t=30sHere is an interview, notice he doesn't make
much eye contact with the girls and he looks down a lot, you might think he
would be relaxed in the presence of women who are less attractive than his, he
even says he is not a good dancer, my guess hes not good in bed either. I think
he has a lot inhibition and insecurity.I think Nick Jonas is a special case because on
paper he has everything a guy could possibly want, but at the same time its
almost like deep down he thinks he dont deserve her.

My response:

I vaguely remember the Jonas 3-piece brother
group from a few years ago, but that's about all. I can only go by what my gut instincts and
experience of human behaviour tell me from the links you posted.

My peripheral vision tells me Jonas looks
nervous and perhaps a touch intimidated and overwhelmed when higher profile
stars are in the same environment. This
is only a problem in attracting women of similar level status (hence female
singers, actresses, etc). They will pick
up on his lack of confidence and be repelled from him and, as a consequence of
his apparent weakness, onto more edgy men.
But as for the other 99.999% of regular women, male high status can
cloud his supplication and jealousy because it is the main draw in attracting
the female hunger for vicinity/relationships.

Note to above:

Beyond initial
attraction, high status will not necessarily act as the main pulling point in
locking down women, and it is by no means the greatest sexual arousal cue.

As for his girlfriend (former Miss Universe), I
find this slightly surprising. If she
was just a very hot woman off the street who looked like her, then the maths
would work out. There are a 100 hot
women like her in Hollywood for every famous guy like Nick Jonas, so naturally
he would be a good catch from her perspective.
But her profile surely gives access to higher status men than him - who
are not so timid - therefore I find this a little conspicuous. Just a thought, but is it a case of links
between their agents/management companies, forming a celebrity set-up
relationship that will sell a few columns and raise profiles before the
inevitable end?

The head turn she makes when he approaches her
shows me the emblem of a woman who is far more in it for herself than the man
she is “in love with”. It is a common
scene all so familiar and clear to see.
Her reaction is so unnatural. How
can one second a genuine acting woman turn her head, only to be followed by the
fake “my heart is beating” gesture? This
move was contrived every bit as much the relationship.

As for the interview, well I'm not too
concerned about the lack of eye contact he makes. For one, they are positioned awkwardly either
side of him, so moving his neck around with effort isn't worth the hassle. Second, if he was acting with cockiness, attitude
and couldn't give a crap demeanour, a shortage of eye contact will actually
endear him to many women. Whilst more
than decent looking, it’s not like he is blessed with film star looks, so he
doesn’t need to act with more attainability and vulnerability traits in the
celebrity circles at least.

I’d like to see him give more flirty answers
and sexual innuendos when asked certain questions by the, as you allude to,
nothing more than above average looking women.
There was more than one opportunity to do this, and women love this kind
of male character who doesn’t care what women think to his thoughts, when used
selectively. He could have teased them
and given indirect answers that leave the two women, and more importantly the
mass female population, guessing what is behind the mask of mystique.

But his answers correlate with his awkward face
and body language. Jonas doesn’t appear
to be comfortable in the limelight, and it seems to me he is emblematic of the
guy at work who has taken a promotion with reluctant and obligated
emotions. I guess some former boy band
members like Justin Timberlake are simply born to go it alone with effortless
comfort, ease and expertise. Others are
perhaps more genetically made up from the safety in numbers mentality.

To re-iterate, what would concern me more is
his anxious look. Sure, some girls may
be saying it is so sweet to see him act in vulnerable ways, but these will only
be the less attractive women or females leading with their egos.

And the female ego leads appropriately onto the
last point. Like movies and romantic
novels, you will see a very high percentage of songs that are themed towards
building up the mass viewer’s (hence women) self-centred thoughts. A song that illustrates jealousy shows how
much he must love her and how important she is to the world. A simultaneous head swell and dry knickers for
a woman is a recipe for disaster with regards to a sex seeking man. Puke!

Coincidentally, along with male artists writing
about how lucky he is to have her, how she is above his league, how he longs to
be with her, and portraying her as the only girl in the world – all words that
make a woman feel better about life but conceal what women truthfully desire –
the next most popular theme is for female artists to write about men cheating
on them and acting badly. Lay down the
sob story and handkerchief, quickly after the tears from “I knew nothing about
his reputation” or “I hate men like this” justifications.

Q-tip:

Women may not
like the feeling of pragmatically being cheated on, but they sure love the
thought of a man carrying out infidelity.
Because a man who can cheat, or even does cheat, is a man who has full
proof of another woman’s love and desire.
So when women who take back cheating men complain about these guys, they
only have themselves to blame. Simply
put, if less women forgave these adulterating men – men who are far lower in
number than women attempt to proclaim – fewer men would cheat.

So here you have it - men writing mainly about
idolizing women, and women writing about being broken-hearted by the wanted (in
real life - rare wanted) men. In
reality, >80% of men are the beta males who put women first in any way,
shape or form. Women, who venture into
these bonds and marry these unwanted but safe men, initiate 3 out of 4
relationship departures. Often they will
leave their giving and providing men for the kinds of jerks who were slagged
off in female artist records. Do you see
the disconnect between what the mass population believe is politically correct,
against what the actual outcome is?

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