I have to just sit back and laugh when I think about my sister. She and I grew up sleeping in the same bed, playing in the creek together and just having fun. She was always my best friend.

because I felt so close to her, my eyes and ears were closed to all that she did in life that hurt others including me. That is until a few years ago.

We have been agreeable to some extent for a while but only because I was the one making the effort. It was hard for me to realize that she didn’t like me at all. (A friend suggested one day that she might be jealous. ) No one should be jealous of me because we all have our special talents in life. .Anyway, I should have known but in my heart, I am a peace loving woman. In my life, when things go bad, I am always looking for the bright sun hiding behind the clouds. I never stop long enough to think how others truly are. I just accept them because they are who they are.

That is the key thing with me. It is my nature to just allow people to be who they are. I can accept who they are or I can chose to not have anything to do with them. That is easier to do with a friend or acquaintance than with a family member. Family members are always showing up at family functions. People do not say, “Well, we can’t invite this person or that because they do not like each other.” However, that is now the case. My number one sister has hosted holiday get togethers for years and now, I am not invited. That is very hurtful to me.

My sister and I have a younger sister who lived half the distance of the state from us. My sister was always trying to get my youngest sister to move up here to be close to us. I never asked her to move because she is a grown woman and I knew that she would do what she wanted. All I wanted for her was to be happy wherever she lived. Sister number one…as I will refer to her was always begging sister number 2 to move. When she finally decided to move, she even went down to help her. I thought that was nice.

Sister number one even demanded that sister number 2 move in with her until she found a place to live. While sister number two was looking for a home to buy, she never asked her sister to go out with her to look at houses. She knew that their thoughts on what type of home to buy were way too different, I didn’t blame her but sister number one took it wrong and had her feelings hurt. Needless to say, before my youngest sister could get moved out, the other sister was giving her grief. My youngest sister had to come live with me for a week because the youngest sister’s dog scratched the bedroom door while she was at work. I could have been repaired but no, the other sister demanded a new door plus a professional carpet cleaning before my youngest sister moved and that had to be in CASH. So little sister brought her dog and stayed with me for a week. On moving day, she wouldn’t allow her own sister to be at her house to move. The movers had to move her things without the youngest sister even being there.

Our sister got mad at me too because I took up for my youngest sister, When she refused to allow her to be there on moving day, I asked our sister number one who she wanted me to tell about her past life first……her preacher, she friends at church or her good friend down the street, By the way, she isn’t friends with that lady any longer and has dropped out of church saying that since back surgery, she doesn’t feel like going and that has been nearly two years, but she can do some more shopping. Just for the record, I don’t have a church home except the many ministers I watch on television.

As I am writing this, I see all the times that she used me to her advantage. I was like a blind bird just flying along without giving it any thought. It has been two years ago and she still hasn’t spoken to me but a few times, She stopped by when I had a new bath installed. Back in my early days at home, my mother would call that kind of person nosey.

Now, to top all of this off, my baby sister doesn’t speak to me either. They both are too interested in how I live my life. My son lives with me and they do not approve. My son and I do not always get along and sometimes we have words, At least, I can depend on him to help me out when needed. I can’t depend on them for anything. There was a long time that I cried all the time and still do at times but I am not eat up with their rejection as much as I once was. I just figure that by not being around either of them, they are saving me a lot of grief. Women who are always trying to control others aren’t my favor people to spend time with in life.

The reason for my youngest sister putting me out of her life is a hoot, Make sure to check back if you are interested in some good drama and I will tell that story. It is better than this one.

I think some may be wondering why I am writing this. Well, I suppose because my youngest sister reads my blogs and I hope she will see how ridiculous all of this is.

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