Wednesday, December 26, 2012

This pregnancy started off rocky and ended with a bang! This was the roughest labor but easiest delivery of our 4 kids. My husband and I had waffled back and forth on our decision to induce 2 days prior to our due date. We were not inducing for medical reasons so much as to ensure the doctor we trusted would be the one to deliver our son. After how this delivery went though, we are beyond thankful that we listened to our doctor and allowed the early induction.
Delivery day:
We arrived at the hospital a few minutes late. We had taken our time and just enjoyed the drive. We laughed, talked, worried and tried to envision how the day would unfold. After check in it felt so chaotic and nothing like the calm feeling we had during the Professor's labor. They were sort of rushing to get us checked in and settled before the shift change. There were 2-4 nurses bustling around, attaching monitors and doing the iv and asking all those questions. Eventually we were settled and they came in around 7:45 to start the Pitocin. Almost immediately I began feeling small contractions. They were quite regular too. However, due to my anterior placenta they could not keep the baby on the monitor. Literally every 15 minutes or so the alarms would start going off and they'd spend another 5 minutes trying to get him on the monitor. At one point I had to shimmy myself into this very tight, very uncomfy band to try and keep the monitors extra tight. It worked.....a little. The alarms were going off only once every 30 minutes or so now.
The contractions continued and were getting more noticeable but when they checked me around 11:30 I was still only at a 3 and about 70% effaced. My husband and I started fretting and worrying that this little man just was not ready to arrive. Around 12:30 my doctor came in and broke my water. At that point she said "We have merconium." My heart sunk. I had never envisioned hearing that. Then she went on to say there was a lot of it. They were worried about what he may have been exposed to. They placed the internal monitor and my contractions picked up at a rapid pace. By 1 I was having trouble talking, or even thinking, through them. But I was hesitant to get the epidural since my progress had been so slow. However, I decided to go for it since typically my labors have gone quickly after my water has been broken. I got the epidural and it was a very easy one. Right afterwards a nurse comes rushing in and tells us that the doctor called and was not happy with the baby's heartrate on the monitor. I was put on oxygen and flipped to my left side. By this point I was in tears. I was scared and really worried about what would happen. Things seemed to settle down and we sent my sister-in-law after some lunch for my husband. We figured the baby would arrive by 4:30 or so and I wanted to make sure he did not pass out from lack of food. A few minutes til 3 the nurse came in and noticed I had the shakes. She cleared the room and did a cervical check Immediately she called the doctor. The nurse then calls in the teams and everything was moving so quickly. We were complete and ready to meet our little guy. At 3 the doctor zoomed in. We were introduced to the respiratory specialist and pediatrician who were standing by in case he had trouble breathing and we were briefed on the fact that he would be whisked away as soon as he was out. Around 3:05 I was told to push. At 3:07 he flew out! It was so fast we could barely process it. He was whisked away and they pumped 8 cc's of merconium from his belly. Thankfully he did not have any in his lungs. After he was pumped and breathing good (about 10 minutes) he was weighed and measured. He was exactly 9 pounds and exactly 21 inches. Then we finally got to hold him. He was so calm and sweet and we just fell in love with him. My husband and I enjoyed our skin to skin time and relished the calm after what had felt like a rocky labor. We brought in the siblings and introduced them. They all loved him but the Hippie was completely smitten by him. She seems to think he is her baby. The rest of the family got to meet him and hold him and love on him too.
Shortly after we thought we were calming down the pediatrician came in and informed us that in addition to the hole in his heart they were hearing a loud murmur and that we might have to get a transfer to the Children's Hospital. That was so terrifying. To make a long story short, there was no problem with his heart and we just follow up with his cardiologist in January. We did have to stay two nights due to his heart, merconium and having a higher birth weight. On Friday at lunch time my husband and the kids came and picked us up....in the middle of a huge snow storm.
Our little man certainly came into our lives with a bang! We are thrilled to have him here and are all falling in love with him more each day.

Tuesday, December 18, 2012

My last time to write a blog post before this baby makes his debut! I cannot believe we are to this point. In some ways it seems like we have waited forever and in other ways I am shocked that he will join us tomorrow. Either way, I am a bundle of emotions. I have found myself hugging the kids a little tighter, snuggling the Professor (before his happy little world is rocked) and cleaning. Ha! I am excited and nervous and happy and scared. Please keep us in your prayers and look for an update soonish on our sweet baby!

Saturday, December 15, 2012

The bassinet is up and ready with a freshly washed sheet.
Hospital bag is packed and waiting (except for bathroom items).
Kids bags are packed and waiting.
The diaper bag is loaded and ready.
My husband installed the carseat yesterday.
Supplies have been purchased and are waiting to be used.
The house is (mostly) in maintenance mode.
Now....we wait.
I am scheduled for an induction this coming Wednesday, but am still hopeful that labor could start on it's own. No matter, we are as ready as we are ever going to be for this baby to join our family.
I am very uncomfortable now and am so thankful that I squeezed so much in with my husband and the kids over this past month. This afternoon I am making gingerbread houses with the kids. Last night we drove through a park with over 3 million lights, went to a live nativity, took a horse/wagon ride and saw a house with lights set to music. So many memories have been made and treasured. Now we look forward to making new memories as a family of 6.

Wednesday, December 12, 2012

I got a call from my doctor's office later in the day. My doctor knew how much it meant to me to have her deliver. She called over herself and got me scheduled for an induction next Wednesday! As much as I would love to go on my own, I know that this is best. I know my doctor's opinion on c-sections and she knows how much I never want one. Plus, like I said, she is a Christian. So it looks like we will have 2 children born in the same state, same hospital and same doctor! Pretty exciting!
Yesterday I had a bunch of Braxton Hicks contractions. Whenever I was sitting they would come regularly but when I'd get up and move, the would completely stop. Last night I was woken up by real contractions but they fizzled out as well. Even if I do end up being induced, I am hopeful that these are at least helping me make some progress!
A week from now we could be holding our son!

Monday, December 10, 2012

Sigh. I had my OB visit this morning. The good, or rather, great news is that the baby looks healthy and fluid levels are all fine and dandy.
The rest of the appointment just left me so disappointed. My doctor hurt her thumb and is having surgery on Wednesday. So she cannot work for the rest of the week. During the ultrasound the baby is measuring very normally and not overly large at all. He could be anywhere from 7-9 pounds right not, but we are definitely not looking at a big 10 pound baby or anything. So she suggested and induction next Wednesday. However, when I went to schedule it, the hospital is not doing any inductions on that day because of computer shut down and maintenance. Well, next Wednesday is my doctors last day of work til 2013. After all this time with her, she will not be the one to deliver. I am just so bummed. I really trust her and like her and we have a good rapport. She is one who helped us through our loss and she has gone above and beyond to help us with this pregnancy. Plus she is a Christian. I know it really is not that big of a deal but at this stage I am so tired and emotional it really feels like a big deal to me.
So it looks like our little man will make his appearance at the end of next week unless I go on my own before then.
Today I was 2 cm dialated but still just 60% thinned out.

Friday, December 7, 2012

38 weeks today! Knowing that we have 2 weeks or less really makes me feel like we are in a time crunch. I truly do not have much left to do. Most of my list could be knocked out in an hour. But still, I am ready to know everything is crossed off. Then I just have to focus on my family and keeping the house cleaned. Yesterday we got the bassinet set up, the carseat cover washed and ready and a few other things that were on my list.
Even though there are things I need to get done, there is also a list of FUN things I have planned and want to do.
Tonight there is 2 live nativities and a park filled with Christmas lights that we want to take the kids to.
Sunday my husband get a real date. A date where my parents take the kids and know we will be gone for awhile. Some time after church they will get the kids and my husband and I will get dinner, a movie and a little bit of shopping.
Monday I have an ultrasound and a check up.
Tuesday my friend and I and the kids are supposed to do a little shopping and get some yummy Chick-Fil-A food.
The Professor has his 6 month post surgery check up.
We have home-school to try and get ahead on.
And I'd really love to cook a few family favorite meals since I know ramen noodles will be a staple soon enough. Ha!

Monday, December 3, 2012

This morning I took all 3 kids to my check up. It went really well and the kids were so well behaved. Thankfully these appointments are super fast! I think we were in and out and buckled back up within 25 minutes. The doctor said I am still just under 2 cm dialated but that I am 60% thinned out now. Not quite the progress I would have liked but I will still take it for sure! I go in on Monday for my next appointment. The doctor said she will do an ultrasound to check on the baby's size. About 1 month ago they had him at 6.6 pounds. The average baby gains about 1/2 pound a week at this point. In theory, this would put the baby right now at about 8 1/2 - 9 pounds. Our other babies were 8.5, 8.7 and 9.4 so I think this baby will be on track to be about the same range. However, the doctor wants to check and make sure he is not getting too big. She said if he is measuring extra large she may look to set an induction at 39 weeks! That would be NEXT Friday. Crazy! My husband and I will definitely have some discussing to do. He does not mind an early induction at all, but I have such mixed feelings on it. I really dislike going early. However, I was induced with our first and third. Our 2nd came on her own almost 2 weeks early and she still weighed 8.7. Anyways, it kinda hit me today that things are really winding down and soon we will be holding our baby. The only really impending sign I have that the time is drawing close is that my emotions are going crazy. Today I cried hearing the Mariah Carey Christmas Song "All I Want for Christmas". LOL!

Saturday, December 1, 2012

Do you do Advent Calendars with your kids? I grew up always having one and we have continued that tradition with our kids. This year the Professor is old enough to have his own. I am guessing in a few days he will start understanding to look for a new gift each morning. We keep the gifts really small. Usually it is a piece of candy, a pencil something like that. I am also a fan a buying something like an 8 pack of cute socks and that takes care of 4 days for the girls PLUS gives them something useful. Today the girls each got a new headband (and they will be getting headbands 3 more times.....Ha!). The Professor got a new matchbox car. On the 24th they will each come out to find a big gift and it will be their annual Christmas pjs.
What traditions do you have?