Ariana Grande: Don’t Reunite With Jai Brooks — He Accused You Of Cheating

Ariana Grande, what were you thinking when you kissed your ex Jai Brooks at the iHeartRadio Music Awards on May 1? This is the same guy who went on Twitter and ranted that you were a cheater! You deserve better.

Ariana Grande’s Relationship With Jai Brooks: Don’t Get Back Together With Him!

What he had to say then was pretty harsh! If you don’t remember, here’s exactly what he posted — the whole long, crazy rant:

Yes, I was cheated on. Yes, it does suck. Yes, I was left for another man. And this happens everyday to so many people of every age, gender, race. I happen to be one of those people and I’m in a situation where I am constantly reminded of it every day. Like anyone who has been cheated on, it has been tough for me, but I’m finally ready to move on.

Once you are cheated on, you should never go back and I did because I wasn’t ready to give up on love and something that was everything to me. I wasn’t ready to give up on something that was causing me to smile and be happy day in and day out. That’s what relationships do, they make you the happiest person in the world and all of a sudden a miserable wreck.

That is why if you know someone who is in a relationship, I’m begging you to please not interfere with that, because you are going to destroy someone and crush their world. Nathan may be a top bloke or a sweet person, but what he did was just completely wrong. He interfered with my life and did not respect my relationship, his actions caused me to not be able to sleep at night and not see the world as a beautiful place.

Nathan, if you read this, when you hold her hand you better hold it tight because you are holding my world. I do wish you two happiness and a good life and hope everything works out. Through all of this I have been able to mature as a person and grow up and have learnt a lot about myself. I have learnt how to find happiness on my own without relying on anyone else.

I’m not going to go into the full story of what happened because it isn’t anyone else’s business and I’m just not ready to. Today was supposed to be our one year anniversary but instead I’m writing this. Do you know how s**t this makes me feel? How crushed it makes me feel? But I’m doing this to protect myself from the endless hate I am getting and for those who have lost respect for me when I haven’t done anything wrong.

I’m seeing this post as moving on, ending peoples continuous questions to me which keeps reminding me about what happened. I hope you can read this and it is enough for your questions to stop because I really can’t keep being reminded of it every single day of my life and it is not healthy. It’s better to end everyone’s questions now than to keep it going for the rest of my life which will slowly destroy me and not allow me to move on. I’m starting to get back on my feet and smile again.

Yes, I do miss her and still love her, but I need to start thinking of myself and do what is best for me. You may or may not believe me, that is up to you and I’m not going to force you to, but just know I would never make up a lie about something like this, it’s far too serious. She may not respond to this post, may ignore it, may deny it or may own up to it, she is going to do what’s best for her and do what she thinks is right, which is what I’m doing, doing what I think is the best for me.

I hope you can respect that. Please stop the endless questions to me and move on with me and let’s put everything behind us. Thank you to those who have been supporting me, helping me smile and being there for me through a day to day basis. Like I said, this post does make me feel like shit, but I feel it’s the best thing for me, I’m looking out for myself. Thank you everyone. Here is to a great life.

Ariana, we know you’re a lovely girl, but even the most forgiving woman needs to ask herself why she would take back a man who was so disrespectful to her. It’s so insulting to be accused of cheating publicly, no matter what happened between you two! And, of course, you made your own immediate and very public response to Jai’s accusations. Shall we remind you of what you told your fans?

Ariana Grande — You Deserve Better Than Jai Brooks

We have to commend you, Ariana, for defending your honor after this unbelievable Twitter rant by Jai. Your fans stood by you — they believed in you, and in your character, and they still do. And so do we! Here’s what you said on Oct. 7, 2013:

Woke up this morning in complete and utter shock… I guess I shouldn’t be so surprised.

As it turned out, you didn’t end up dating Nathan for all that long — you starting going out in September, 2013 and then broke up in December, 2013, so it was a short-lived relationship. And that’s normal and how it should be for someone like yourself, who’s just 20 years old! Being young is all about trying out different relationships and seeing what kind of person will make the best partner for you.

Ariana, there are about a million guys in this world who would absolutely love to take you out and get to know you — and why wouldn’t they? You’re smart, you’re beautiful, you’re talented, you’re successful, you’re loving, you’re caring and you’re giving. You are a prize catch!

There’s no need for you to settle for any guy who doesn’t worship the ground you walk on — let alone someone who doesn’t completely respect you. Even though we’ve learned at HollywoodLife.com that Jai “apologized for making up all the lies about [you] cheating,” how can you really trust him again? That’s why it’s so surprising that you would take Jai back. Jai, after all, is only 18. He’s still so young and probably not much more mature than he was when he accused you of cheating.

What makes you think that your relationship will be better and more satisfying a second time around? Ariana, there’s no reason for you to settle for any romance in which you aren’t a fully equal partner who is highly regarded by your other half. Do you really think that Jai is capable of that?

HollywoodLifers, do YOU think that Ariana should be getting re-involved with the man who publicly dissed her? Let me know.