Ground rules for love online

If you're planning a foray into online dating, making a good first written impression is important. Here are some tips from veterans that can speed online romance.

From Trish McDermott, resident online dating maven at Match.com:

* Use your spell checker.

* When people have only a few sentences in which to gauge you, you'd better watch your grammar.

* Be positive and optimistic.

* Show your sense of humor. Don't just say you have a sense of humor, actually display it.

* Avoid coming across as desperate, needy and lonely. You don't want to give the impression that you're broken and you need to be fixed.

* Describe a full, happy life that has room for someone else in it.

* Take advantage of the profile makeover services offered by many online matchmaking sites. A profile makeover specialist can open up your profile for member feedback and then help you revise and rework it.