Winter is going blind in one eye too white scales growing over :(
If Matt doesn't take Ares I will plant a ten gal and divide it for Winter and Ares :) need money first... I am not sure if anyone else wants the tanks or if Matt takes Ares that is fine :D

I know what you mean about trying to figure it out - I've been going by anal fins and watching for tiny black beards. Spent hours sitting there guessing and changing my guesses. then they go and get pale on me again >.< But Nyx is so fierce for such a little guy!

(He gets that from Janey) so do I!! I sit there, and see if there is any difference between some. This "IDK" one has a female shape (not eggy, but not a streamline thing either), but a chewed caudal from being in the tank. -shrug- little buggers xD found another female though.