July 2013

The pioneering work of Ken Wilber, a foremost philosopher in the field of Consciousness, is rife with the theme of eternity. Arguably his most popular work, No Boundary, clarifies our understanding of our “selves” as […]

[Intelligent Lust Part One | Part Two: How Sex Heals: Embarking on the Journey of Intelligent Lust | Part Three: What Brings You To Orgasm? | Part Four: What Gets Other People Sexually Excited?] If you’re like most of us, […]

“If we are only guided by other people’s thoughts what’s the point of having our own?” (Oscar Wilde) The other day I was answering a friend’s questions about relationship mythology. An alternative to therapy, Relationship Myth is a unique […]

As someone who teaches, supervises and works with fellow colleagues, analytic candidates, psychology graduate students and members of other healing professions I have found that often, many of us entered a healing profession because of […]

When is sex bad for you? Among mental health professionals, that question is hotly debated. Definitions of sexual pathology can range from sex that crosses legal lines to any form of sex involving humiliation or self-harm that leads to […]

Sexual denial never succeeds and sexual desire can never be buried. Why do some of us choose to live without sex? What is the emotional cost of sexual abstinence to parts of our lives? The secret life […]

At the tender age of 36, I seem to have found what feels like the right relationship for me. This process has been intentional at times, unintentional at others. Sometimes graceful and thoughtful and sometimes […]