Keep trying. There are a lot of great guys looking for girlfriends, but it doesn't come easy sometimes. My rule for dating is that 8 out of 10 dates are fun, but many times the person isn't compatible with me for whatever reason. Sometimes it takes a bit to find a someone worth pouring your trust into.

But there are a ton of single men available... Most single women I meet while dating aren't single for long. The people who are single (not by choice) are usually control freaks or have unrealistic expectations when it comes to relationships or the level of person they'd like to date. You either have to step up your game or plant your feet.

Also, if you can't define the person you are, you'll have a hard time finding someone to hang out with and love. At least not any longer than 6-months to a year.

This is probably a really stupid situation, but I've never met anyone more annoying than her. So:

A friend of mine calls me all the time. Every few hours a day, until 10PM, she calls my house phone, and wants to talk to me. She also messages me on Facebook 24/7, and I have tried to start good conversations with her, but she's just a really, uninteresting obsessive person.
I like her, and when we hang out in person, we have fun, but she's really irritating. She constantly talks about her boyfriend and the same drama over and over again.

How can I tell her she's irritating without coming off as rude? I've been ignoring her, but the pestering just gets worse when she's ignored, and a lot of people ignore her too. She can't take a hint. I feel bad, but I've seriously never been more irritated at a person.

This is probably a really stupid situation, but I've never met anyone more annoying than her. So:

A friend of mine calls me all the time. Every few hours a day, until 10PM, she calls my house phone, and wants to talk to me. She also messages me on Facebook 24/7, and I have tried to start good conversations with her, but she's just a really, uninteresting obsessive person.
I like her, and when we hang out in person, we have fun, but she's really irritating. She constantly talks about her boyfriend and the same drama over and over again.

How can I tell her she's irritating without coming off as rude? I've been ignoring her, but the pestering just gets worse when she's ignored, and a lot of people ignore her too. She can't take a hint. I feel bad, but I've seriously never been more irritated at a person.

Tell her you're her friend and all but when you two hang out it shouldn't be just to talk about her all the time and her drama. Either hang out and have fun or find someone else to talk about that stuff to. It's not fair to you. I'm not sure if you tried to help her with whatever problems she have but if you tried to help and nothing is going then you'll just have to wash your hands of it. Let her know it's not you being mean but you just can't give her what she wants. This is just my 2 cents.

Tell her you're her friend and all but when you two hang out it shouldn't be just to talk about her all the time and her drama. Either hang out and have fun or find someone else to talk about that stuff to. It's not fair to you. I'm not sure if you tried to help her with whatever problems she have but if you tried to help and nothing is going then you'll just have to wash your hands of it. Let her know it's not you being mean but you just can't give her what she wants. This is just my 2 cents.

Thanks! This helped a lot. She probably will feel bad if I tell her either way, but it's for the best. We aren't benefiting each other in this situation. And at least It'll definitely make a difference if I don't approach it aggressively! I have tried to help her, but it mostly seems that it's emotional support, and that's the best I can do for her. I guess I will just have to relieve myself from it, and not be fake about it like I have been... Once again, thanks!

I'm planning a trip to Japan in a few months.
I am also a member & pay a monthly subscription to Crunchyroll.
I've read recently about the newest copyright laws in Japan that have passed.
I've read that streaming websites such as YouTube & Nico Nico are not illegal under the new laws.
Is it safe to watch anime on Crunchyroll's website while in Japan since I'm a paying subscriber?
I just want to get a heads-up before I decide to watch any anime while overseas.
As a member of Crunchyroll, I want to help support & respect the creators & animators of the anime I enjoy.
Thanks for your time & have a great day.
:3

I'm planning a trip to Japan in a few months.
I am also a member & pay a monthly subscription to Crunchyroll.
I've read recently about the newest copyright laws in Japan that have passed.
I've read that streaming websites such as YouTube & Nico Nico are not illegal under the new laws.
Is it safe to watch anime on Crunchyroll's website while in Japan since I'm a paying subscriber?
I just want to get a heads-up before I decide to watch any anime while overseas.
As a member of Crunchyroll, I want to help support & respect the creators & animators of the anime I enjoy.
Thanks for your time & have a great day.
:3

Unfortunately we do not have the rights to stream most of our content in Japan.
Non competition and all that. :/

If you need help making sure you're not charged for your time there, please let me know!

I'm planning a trip to Japan in a few months.
I am also a member & pay a monthly subscription to Crunchyroll.
I've read recently about the newest copyright laws in Japan that have passed.
I've read that streaming websites such as YouTube & Nico Nico are not illegal under the new laws.
Is it safe to watch anime on Crunchyroll's website while in Japan since I'm a paying subscriber?
I just want to get a heads-up before I decide to watch any anime while overseas.
As a member of Crunchyroll, I want to help support & respect the creators & animators of the anime I enjoy.
Thanks for your time & have a great day.
:3

Unfortunately we do not have the rights to stream most of our content in Japan.
Non competition and all that. :/

If you need help making sure you're not charged for your time there, please let me know!

I'm planning a trip to Japan in a few months.
I am also a member & pay a monthly subscription to Crunchyroll.
I've read recently about the newest copyright laws in Japan that have passed.
I've read that streaming websites such as YouTube & Nico Nico are not illegal under the new laws.
Is it safe to watch anime on Crunchyroll's website while in Japan since I'm a paying subscriber?
I just want to get a heads-up before I decide to watch any anime while overseas.
As a member of Crunchyroll, I want to help support & respect the creators & animators of the anime I enjoy.
Thanks for your time & have a great day.
:3

Unfortunately we do not have the rights to stream most of our content in Japan.
Non competition and all that. :/

If you need help making sure you're not charged for your time there, please let me know!

i find this very, very ironic... very

You find it ironic that the companies who are airing this content want non-competition in their home turf?

I'm planning a trip to Japan in a few months.
I am also a member & pay a monthly subscription to Crunchyroll.
I've read recently about the newest copyright laws in Japan that have passed.
I've read that streaming websites such as YouTube & Nico Nico are not illegal under the new laws.
Is it safe to watch anime on Crunchyroll's website while in Japan since I'm a paying subscriber?
I just want to get a heads-up before I decide to watch any anime while overseas.
As a member of Crunchyroll, I want to help support & respect the creators & animators of the anime I enjoy.
Thanks for your time & have a great day.
:3

Unfortunately we do not have the rights to stream most of our content in Japan.
Non competition and all that. :/

If you need help making sure you're not charged for your time there, please let me know!

i find this very, very ironic... very

You find it ironic that the companies who are airing this content want non-competition in their home turf?