A few years ago, we discovered this gem of a gourd. It’s name is Delicata and it lives up to all the whimsy and subtlety that the name would suggest. It’s light, slightly sweet, and so crazy delicious that YOU WILL WANT TO EAT ALL OF IT IMMEDIATELY.

I’ve tried it a few different ways, and the easiest and tastiest way to prep it is in the oven. A simple roast with coconut oil and pink salt elevates the squash to another level. It’s a level you want to be at, trust me. It’s also simple and quick to prepare and the squash doesnt’ require peeling, unlike some other squash cousins. Yep, I’m looking at you, Butternut. You’re too much work! But delicata takes all the work out of it.

This super simple dish is great as a side, but honestly, I eat it on it’s own all the time. Because it takes no work to prepare, it’s comforting, and very filling.

Ingredients:

2 delicata squash, de-seeded and sliced (no need to peel!)

1 large fennel bulb, cut in half and sliced

1/4 cup coconut oil, melted

1 tsp pink himalayn salt

2 tsp rosemary, chopped

1 tbsp fennel fronds (the soft, feathery green things that sprout out of the the fennel bulb)

Well, not me. Especially not when it comes to food. When you have a super special custom eater for a toddler and you can’t handle grains, things get a little dicy.

So, I want to make easy things. And if it’s healthy, even better. Because you know what should be easy? Eating. In this day and age, eating should be the easiest thing we do. So, I’m on a campaign to make easy, healthy food that doesn’t require magic or rare ingredients from exotic places like Whole Foods. Just real food, you guys. Foods that nourish and feed your belly and give our bodies energy and the builidng blocks it needs to function well.

I’m starting in the easiest way possible: Frozen vegetables, with a side of canned coconut milk and a bit of hot curry powder.

Ingredients:

1 12 bag of frozen vegetables (I like cauliflower, or something with cauliflower in it because of texture)

1/2 can full fat coconut milk

1 Tbsp (more for spicy, less for not) hot curry powder

1 tsp salt

1/2 tsp pepper

Instructions:

In a medium or small saucepan, dump the bag of frozen veggies, coconut milk, and spices. Heat on medium heat for 20 minutes, stirring occasionally. Cook longer if you want to saturate the veggies with the curry flavor.

Eat it.

Optional edit: You can pour this over rice or quinoa. This feeds one person in my house without the rice, and sometimes even with the rice because when it comes to veggies, we don’t edit ourselves. I also like to sprinkle some fresh chopped cilantro on top of it for a bright contrast to the creamy deliciousness of the curry.

I have these neighbors. We will call them Wilfredo and Valentina, because those are their actual names. Cool, right? Well, they ARE cool and totally live up to those epic names. They moved in downstairs about eight months ago from New Jersey and we have become close friends. So close, in fact, that my two year old son, E, feels totally comfortable opening their front door and walking right in to say hello at any hour of the day. (Yeah, we’re working on the whole concept of knocking.)

Wilfredo and Valentina are both avid athletes. It’s not uncommon to see them sprinting up and down the steep hill in front of our building, or doing interval training in the parking lot at dawn. And rain or shine, Wilfredo is running his heart out, getting ready to run UltraMarathon races, and Valentina is probably completing a 50 mile bike ride as part of her triathlon training before heading off to work. They have a serious love for activity, the outdoors, and competition.

They’re also VEGAN.

Now, we eat many animal products in our house. We eat plenty of veggies and fruits, too. But we are decidedly not vegan.

Our tribe here has expanded to enfold Wilfredo and Valentina into our hearts. We want to fully integrate them into our little community and become a safe place for these New Jersey transplants.

But here’s the thing: I love them. I love them BIG. They love my kid fiercely and he loves them fiercely right back. My love language is food. So, in order to share our table with them, I’ve been experimenting with dishes outside of my normal food repertoire.

But here’s another thing: Every single person in our tribe has special food things. E takes the (gluten-free, nut-free, egg-free, dairy-free, soy-free, carrot-free) cake because of his FPIES, but he certainly is not the only one who needs special food. But nobody has excluded animal products entirely from their diets.

Until now.

So, when the tribe decided to do a vegan brunch a few weeks ago, I accepted this challenge with great excitement. Because even though you will never see me sprinting up and down the hill for funsies, I do love a good challenge. And if the challenge translates to a little food love, then even better.

Everyone can technically eat corn, including E. I typically try to avoid it, but it doesn’t make me feel like wheat does. I also wanted to do a homestyle dish that was still healthy and everyone could enjoy. I began to dream about casseroles, baked dishes, and rich, flavorful sauces.

Creamy, hot polenta dishes started filling my mind. It’s easy to veganize polenta. So, I scoured the internet looking for recipe ideas. I hit a wall when I couldn’t find exactly what I was looking for and started getting frustrated.

Then I remembered that I can cook. DUH.

I started extracting favorite elements from dishes that looked great. Easy enough. Then I got to work.

I discovered that making the polenta first and baking it for a bit gave it the perfect texture. Scoring it, and then topping it with a simple tomato and veggie mixture and putting it in the oven to bake longer made mouth magic.

I brought my finished polenta dish before our tribe. I know I can count on them to give me their honest feedback. They tasted. They went back for seconds. They lamented when it was over, especially Wilfredo and Valentina. Luckily, I made an extra dish of it just for them, and walked it downstairs after brunch was done. They were stoked.

This dish is the classic, simple-food-done-right, love-in-a-Pyrex pan taste of comfort every person needs in their life. Probably right now.

You can make your own variations by using what you have on hand. THIS DOESN’T HAVE TO BE VEGAN. But then again, you can’t share it with your awesome vegan neighbors if it’s not. So, prepare wisely.

Ingredients for Polenta:

2 cups dry polenta

4 cups unsweetened, unflavored hemp milk (or regular milk)

2/3 cup water

½ cup Nutiva Shortening, or butter

1-2 tsp sea salt

Ingredients for Ragu:

1 jar crushed tomatoes

2 fresh tomatoes, chopped

1 onion, chopped

4 cloves of garlic, crushed

1 bunch spinach or chard, chopped

1-2 zucchini, chopped

2 Tbsp olive oil

4 leaves fresh basil, or 1 Tbsp dried

4 leaves fresh sage, or 1 tsp dried

1 Tbsp fresh rosemary, or 1 Tbsp dried

1 Tbsp black pepper

1 tsp sea salt

Directions for Polenta:

Cook polenta according to instructions on package, subbing water for milk. Add additional water to thin it out. It should be a smooth, creamy texture, and easy to stir.

Summer is almost over in the Pacific Northwest. The uncharacteristically hot weather has been replaced with overcast skies, cooler temperatures and a sprinkling of rain. Summer lovers are eeking out every ray of sunshine and late-afternoon warmth in preparation for a rainy autumn and winter ahead.

As for me, I’m eeking out every opportunity to utilize the grill before we are driven indoors. I like the rain. I like the cooler temps and deep greens and blues of the rainy season. But I miss my grill.

I attempted many new recipes this summer, with many new ingredients. Because cooking with fire is FUN. Asparagus has been a favorite go-to for a summer veggie, and my new favorite asparagus recipe is simple, impressive, unusual and freaking tasty. All it takes is a bunch of asparagus, a little mayo and dijon mustard, fresh rosemary, cracked pepper, and you guessed it, a hot grill.

Don’t let a fancy words like “asparagus” and “aioli” fool you. Asparagus is full of important vitamins that naturally boost energy and immunity. And as for aioli? It’s just mayonnaise with something added to alter the flavor profile. For this recipe, I used mayonnaise in place of oil and it turned out superbly. It adds a complex flavor and richness that oil misses. I am sure this will work in the oven, as well. But, you know. Summer.

Ingredients:

1 lb of asparagus, trimmed

1/2 cup mayonnaise

2 Tbsp dijon or stone ground mustard

1 Tbsp fresh rosemary, chopped

1 tsp cracked pepper

1 tsp sea salt

Directions:

Combine all ingredients, except asparagus, in a small mixing bow. Call this “aioli”.

Coat asparagus in aioli mixture.

Place asparagus on hot grill and cook until asparagus is slightly tender, and the outer skin crisps up a bit.

Sprinkle a little sea salt on top, and serve immediately.

If asparagus is your dish, you will fall in love with it and impress your friends and family at your Labor Day gathering this weekend. Or at the very least, give them stinky pee.

I am burned out with cooking. And a large part of my mission in life is cooking. Changing the conversation around food, around bodies, around babies and single people and periods and sex and family and allergies and wholeness and therapy and kombucha and…ALL OF IT.

I just have one small problem.

I want to flame my tiny pink kitchen down to the ground. Ignight it. Light it up and watch it burn down in a blaze of glory, a la Bon Jovi. (I will gladly let you film this spectacle as I stand in the middle of the flames wearing nothing but my mom jeans and an old leather vest that belonged to my grandma in the 1990s with my son’s pink ukulele strapped to my back in exchange for a lifetime of free Chipotle.)

Then I want to walk away, and never look back.

This isn’t about food. This isn’t about my outdated micro kitchen. This isn’t even about my mission.

This is about self-care.

Last week, I started doing the thing where I eat trail mix for breakfast with a cup of coffee. Then I eat the same thing for lunch. I might grab a handful of cherry tomatoes or eat some cucumber slices off my son’s plate during lunch and start congratulating myself for making vegetables a “priority”. By the time dinner rolls around, I’m ravenous, have a terrible case of the bitchies and lose my words, so I groan and cry and end up laying on my bed in complete despair when I should be making dinner for my family. That is the moment when I want to douse my kitchen in gasoline, light it up with my Namaste candle and run away.

The trail mix is a bad sign, my friends. It means I’m giving up. I HATE GIVING UP. But sometimes I hate the process of not giving up more. It feels good to pretend I can’t cook. It feels like a whole lotta relief to plan to cook dinner and then say “eff it” at the last minute and orderThai takeout instead. It’s like a shot of heroin or the feeling you get when you cancel plans last minute because you want to stay home and watch Netflix in yoga pants and you have a legit, last-minute reason to do it.

Don’t get me wrong. These food hacks are totally okay. We all hit our max, and sometimes we live at our max for extended periods of time without much relief. There are seasons. I get it. I’ve been there.

But this isn’t it.

This is abandoning my commitment to taking care of myself. So, now that the world knows what that looks like, here’s what maintaining my commitment to taking care of myself looks like.

(Note: It might look differently for you, so no judgment here. Pound that trail (mix).)

Ready?

Hot breakfast.

The end.

I don’t eat many grains because, with the exception of rice and sometimes oats, they really tear my stomach up. Plus, I FEEL better when I eat a protein and veggie heavy breakfast during the rest of the day. I like the feeling of something warm in my belly, too. It reminds me that my body is served best when I care for it in small ways. Plus, I don’t have to fight the trail mix bitchies.

What prep looks like in my tiny pink kitchen.

Here is my plan of action: Fritatta. I make one large fritatta, portion it out into individual servings, and heat it up in the toaster oven while I get ready in the mornings. This is all it takes to make me nice. Well, this and a cup or seven of coffee.

This simple, humble little egg dish is great. You can make a million different variations of it, but here is my absolute favorite. The fact that I can go outside and gather many of these ingredients from my garden is a total bonus.

Ingredients:

12 eggs

1 cup cheese (I prefer parmesan or asiago)

1/2 cup half and half

1 lb of browned sausage or cooked bacon, crumbled (I prefer mild Italian sausage, but you can skip meat altogether to make this vegetarian.)

1 medium onion, sauteed

12 oz chopped broccoli

2 medium zucchini, chopped

2 large tomatoes or 1 pint of cherry tomatoes, chopped

1 large bunch of swiss chard or spinach, roughly chopped

3 Tbsp of fresh herbs of your choice, or 1 Tbsp dried herbs. (I use rosemary, basil, and thyme from the garden)

In a large, greased baking dish, bake at 350 degrees for one hour, or until the middle is cooked all the way through.

Remove from oven and serve immediately. Cut into individual portions and reheat in the oven or toaster oven for 12 minutes at 350 degrees.

My individual frittata portions are hanging out in my fridge, ready to be heated and eaten all week long. I blasted Bon Jovi’s greatest hits while prepping and cooking and cleaning up the kitchen to make this all a little more tolerable. But I digress. I WILL TAKE CARE OF MYSELF THIS WEEK. I hope you can, too.

Hi! I’m Carrie.

Several years ago, I embarked on a journey to hold my life with empowered wellness. It started with community, both online and in real life. It breathed and it grew and it spilled over into my work, my marriage, my family, and brought forth a remarkable son with special challenges. It's not perfect, it's a little quirky and sometimes frayed around the edges, but I love this life. And I want to share it with you. More about Carrie

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