how can someone be so un-undeestanding?

so i've been in and out of the hospital the last 2 wks. this baby #2 and it's been tough. with my 1st i had complications, as i do with this one. my DH has been trying to step up at home for our 3yo. I know I'm hormonal, but it just makes me sad to see how tough it is rather than how excited we should be together. DH didn't visit me in hospital for for almost the 2 days I was there this time (picked me up when i was diacharged). he worked from home, but my mother watched my son so it was mostly because he was so busy at work. his boss should be understanding as he had twins in the NICU. anyway,dont mean to rant but i get home am on bedrest and told to "relax" and DH is so snappy, does not ask how i'm feeling, actsso stressed and is short with me and our son (who is trying to adjust). i've been yelled at which i dont feel is helping the situation. not sure what my point is, guess i just needed to share. thanks

so i've been in and out of the hospital the last 2 wks. this baby #2 and it's been tough. with my 1st i had complications, as i do with this one. my DH has been trying to step up at home for our 3yo. I know I'm hormonal, but it just makes me sad to see how tough it is rather than how excited we should be together. DH didn't visit me in hospital for for almost the 2 days I was there this time (picked me up when i was diacharged). he worked from home, but my mother watched my son so it was mostly because he was so busy at work. his boss should be understanding as he had twins in the NICU. anyway,dont mean to rant but i get home am on bedrest and told to "relax" and DH is so snappy, does not ask how i'm feeling, actsso stressed and is short with me and our son (who is trying to adjust). i've been yelled at which i dont feel is helping the situation. not sure what my point is, guess i just needed to share. thanks

I hate to sound mean, but you need to get your 3-year-old and go to your moms. Moms always know how to make things better. He may have his own reasons for being a butt, but you need support right now. I am so sorry you have to go through this. Good luck!! I hope he pulls his head out of his butt soon.

I hate to sound mean, but you need to get your 3-year-old and go to your moms. Moms always know how to make things better. He may have his own reasons for being a butt, but you need support right now. I am so sorry you have to go through this. Good luck!! I hope he pulls his head out of his butt soon.

Mabe he is just stressed out n feels bad, most guys don't show their emotions,My DH n I r going though alot our 3 mon old is in the NICU n I'm prego aGian n I've been bleeding for 3days.I'm sure ur honey cares but mabe he is freaked out.but yes I do agree ur mom prob help u to get rest better.moms always do.

Mabe he is just stressed out n feels bad, most guys don't show their emotions,My DH n I r going though alot our 3 mon old is in the NICU n I'm prego aGian n I've been bleeding for 3days.I'm sure ur honey cares but mabe he is freaked out.but yes I do agree ur mom prob help u to get rest better.moms always do.

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