So a couple of times people have emailed me with interest and I've been intrigued by their profile or the one or two partial body shots they have posted. So I have asked for pictures to see if I would be attracted. They send me face pics or body pics, and I'm just not into them so I send a thanks, but no thanks email. Several times I've gotten angry responses about how bad it was that I responded that way after asking for pics.

Am I breaking some etiquette rule here? I mean attraction is crucial, and as a single female I get a lot of emails so why lead the guy on.

Fucking or not fucking strangers is the most selfish thing you can do in the lifestyle..

You've done nothing wrong, they're the ones with issues!

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I understand completely what you are saying, because I myself photograph poorly. My large breast make it look like I have no waist in most pictures of me. However, as a female playing alone I get a huge amount of responses. I have a life beyond this and I can't go getting to know everyone that sends me a decent email hoping they look better in person.

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You never know about pictures. Some people are camera whores, always looking their best when the camera is clicking. Others take bad pictures, and are much more pleasant to see in person.

Rejecting someone based on poor photography would be a shame. Going gaga over photogenicity, you could set yourself up for some disappointment.

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WannaTry basically summed it all right up there. This happens all the time... the only etiquette rules I'm aware of is "don't be a dick", and it sounds like you're doing just fine there. They, on the other hand...

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Don't feel bad! I think you responded just fine to those emails.

That happens to us, too. we are intrigued by the *few* pix posted on someone's profile. Then when we ask for more pix and receive them, it's like...oh hell no!

I've taken to responding with something like this: "Thank you so much for responding and sending your pix. We really appreciate it. Unfortunately, we don't feel there is a match here. Thank you again and we wish you all the best here on SLS."

You don't need to explain yourself. And if they continue to be a**holes, block 'em.

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Bloomfield's only an hour away, if you're interested in another couple. We can and enjoy hosting, and have no problems posting face pics upfront.