the secret

Podcast (with sound healing)

Video (No sound healing)

Would having an extra $20,000 help you out right now? I’m sure it would! Nobody in their right mind would sneeze at $20,000.

Ever since the hit movie ‘The Secret’, people have been working with the Law of Attraction and trying desperately to transform their lives for the better. Most, unfortunately, have never achieved the results they desire, and many have given up with a sense of hopelessness feeling as if either there is something wrong with them, or that the Law of Attraction is a sham.

This is an unfortunate situation, and the truth is, that most people don’t understand the fundamental principals of the Law of Attraction and what it takes to make it work.

The principal behind the LOA is simple. We are vibrational beings and, just like us, everything in the Universe is energy vibrating at a particular frequency. When 2 objects vibrate at the same frequency, they are attracted to each other. All emotions and belief systems are also energy. So if you have belief systems and emotions that are vibrating in alignment with lack and poverty, you will literally repel money. The good news is that we can alter our vibration and frequency through positive focus on what we want and aligning ourselves vibrationally with it.

The next most important point is that this takes time, and it is different for everybody. For some it may happen quite quickly, depending on where their vibration is in comparison to what they want, while others may take a lot longer. The critical thing is to never, never, never give up. As long as you maintain a positive focus, you must end up in alignment with what you want and when you are in alignment, it must come into your life. THIS IS LAW!!!

Fortunately we now have many different transformational tools available to us to help change our frequency more quickly. And when used regularly and effectively, over time our lives can become like a factory for miracles.

Those who know me know that my favourite tools are Emotional Freedom Technique (EFT) and Sound Healing. So following you will find an EFT script that you can follow and, if used regularly (preferably every day) for a few weeks, miracles will definitely start to occur.

Karate Chop:

Even though I could really use $20,000 right now, I have absolutely no idea how to attract it into my life, and I choose to love and accept myself anyway.

Even though the thought of having an extra $20,000 really makes my heart sing, I’m convinced that I will never get to see that kind of money in my lifetime because I’ve always blocked it in the past, but I choose to be open to all the possibilities the Universe has in store for me.

Even though I’m convinced that I’m hopeless at attracting money and the Law of Attraction doesn’t work for me, I’m open to finding out whatever is blocking me from wealth and releasing whatever that is.

Eyebrow: There’s no way I’m going to receive $20,000

Outside Eye: It’s just not possible

Under Eye: I could definitely use it right now

Under Nose: But I am hopeless at attracting money

Chin: I’ve tried everything and the Law of Attraction doesn’t work for me

Collar Bone: The thought of having that kind of money makes me go weak at the knees

Under Arm: It would really solve a lot of problems for me right now

Top of Head: But I’ve never been good at receiving money

Eyebrow: Money and me really don’t get along

Outside Eye: I must be blocking it for some reason

Under Eye: But that doesn’t make any sense

Under Nose: Why would I block money coming into my life

Chin: Maybe the Universe is holding out on me

Collar Bone: Maybe it’s some kind of cosmic joke

Under Arm: Well it’s not funny

Top of Head: I’m angry that I’ve tried really hard, but the Universe is holding out on me

Eyebrow: I’m fed up that I can’t create the money I want in my life

Outside Eye: I’ve tried and tried and there’s no way I’m getting $20,000

Under Eye: The Law of Attraction just doesn’t work for me

Under Nose: I know deep down inside that I’m blocking it

Chin: Which is really frustrating because I could really use $20,000 right now

Collar Bone: Maybe I don’t feel safe having that kind of money

Under Arm: Maybe I don’t feel like I deserve it

Top of Head: Maybe I’d be breaking some sort of family law if I had that kind of money

Eyebrow: I would love to know why I’m blocking having more money

Outside Eye: Because then I could clear it and all my problems would be solved

Under Eye: But I have no idea how I could create having $20,000

Under Nose: I’m obviously not in vibrational alignment with it

Chin: Because I’m just no good at bringing money into my life

Collar Bone: I would love to have an extra $20,000 dollars right now

Under Arm: But I really don’t believe that it’s ever going to happen

Top of Head: And I’m tired of struggling for money

Take a deep breath.

Most people, when they’re considering their financial problems, get stuck because they don’t know how they can change their situation. Remember that ‘how’ is not important because it’s not your business. The Universe has hundreds if not thousands of possibilities available to be able to create solutions to your problems and whatever money you want to attract into your life. The Universe knows how to orchestrate everything to create whatever you want. ‘How’ is not your concern. ‘What’ is all you have to worry about and then follow the inspiration that turns up.

Start to really pay attention to any signs and inspiration that appear over the coming days, weeks and months and be grateful for any extra money, small and large, however it comes to you and a trickle will turn into a flood.

Now for a positive EFT tapping round.

Eyebrow: I would really love to have an extra $20,000 right now

Outside Eye: I can just imagine what I’m going to do to get it

Under Eye: I would love to know why I’m blocking money in my life

Under Nose: And whatever it is, I choose to transcend and transform it right now

Chin: Maybe I don’t have to know what the block is

Collar Bone: I choose to tune into my vibration

Under Arm: And call up all the blocks I have to money

Top of Head: And I transform and transmute them into pure love energy

Eyebrow: I call up whatever blocks I have to $20,000

Outside Eye: And I transform and transcend them right now

Under Eye: I choose to take all the energy I have invested

Under Nose: In blocking money in my life

Chin: And transmute and transform it into pure love energy right now

Collar Bone: I choose to release any belief system or emotion

Under Arm: That’s blocking $20,000 in my life

Top of Head: And transmute, transform and transcend it into positive energy now

Eyebrow: I love the thought of having $20,000

Outside Eye: And I’m curious about how it’s going to turn up

Under Eye: I choose to allow it into my life with ease and grace

Under Nose: I choose to be open to receive $20,000 now

Chin: I choose to know I’m a master creator

Collar Bone: And if I want an extra $20,000 then I just have to align my vibration with it

Under Arm: So I choose to align my vibration with $20,000 right now

Top of Head: And I allow it into my life with ease and grace

Eyebrow: I know exactly what I’m going to do with that money

Outside Eye: And it is going to feel so great

Under Eye: I am ready to release all belief systems that are blocking financial freedom for me

Under Nose: And I’m really excited about having an extra $20,000 in my life

Chin: And I’m open to all the possibilities and opportunities

Collar Bone: That could help me create $20,000

Under Arm: With ease and grace

Top of Head: I’m so happy and so grateful to receive $20,000 with ease and grac

Another thing to remember is that your level of belief is also very important. The slightest doubt will unravel your attempts to attract what you want, so build absolute faith using EFT and by visualising your dreams, being grateful for them coming to fruition. Do this and your life will be transformed.

And you may have any belief systems that are blocking your wealth become very clear to you through things that happen. Pay attention, particularly to things and situations that are in your face, and may even be challenging. These are gifts from the Universe showing you what’s blocking what you want. It’s up to you to clear them to allow the money to show up.

And finally, be patient. It won’t happen overnight, but it will happen. IT IS LAW!

For a free EFT video course on wealth and success, register on the right hand side of this page.

I spend a lot of time writing and talking about the subconscious and how it controls 96 to 98 percent of our results. This is because once you learn how to change this programming, and are committed to working at it consistently, your results will change so dramatically, it is like night and day. First you will find your behaviour changing and you will be aware of more opportunities coming into your life. You will take action that is congruent with achieving your goal and people and resources will turn up in your life like magic.

Hence the saying, ‘Get out of your own way’. You are the only person who is in charge of your results. Once you realise this and become aware of the behaviour and habits that aren’t serving you and are keeping you stuck, then you will really begin to move ahead in leaps and bounds.

This takes discipline and a willingness to do the things ninety-five percent of people won’t do so you can have what ninety-five percent of people will never have. And, unless you have an instant enlightenment experience like Byron Katy or Eckhart Tolle, this is a journey that takes time and dedication, it will not happen overnight. I’m not saying you have to meditate for 10 hours every day for the next 50 years to finally get it. We live in extraordinary times and we have the opportunity to shift our awareness incredibly quickly if we choose. However, it will take some effort on your part.

Why are willing to spend time, money and effort to avoid our feelings and ultimately perpetuate our pain, such as unhealthy levels of addictions to things like television, the latest technological toys and games, alcohol, sport, work, legal and illicit drugs, but the opportunity to spend 30 minutes a day healing and discovering our potential comes last, if at all?

Why haven’t we been taught to embrace all of our feelings, especially the uncomfortable ones, so we can discover the truth behind them so they lose their power over us? We give our power away to our fear, anger, grief, sadness, frustration, etc when we refuse to feel them fully and discover the truth within these feelings. We take our power back when we choose to experience every aspect our beautiful existence and feel everything fully. We become awakened in that moment and all of a sudden those uncomfortable feelings are seen for what they are: merely responses to a belief system or perception about our world or ourselves.

Feelings have no life of their own, they only exist because of your response to a particular situation. And where one person might thrive on the adrenalin and excitement of performing in front of a crowd of 10,000 people, somebody else might prefer to die than take the risk of humiliation and rejection. Of course, if that latter is you, then public speaking might not be your chosen vehicle for making your dreams come true, at least not this right this minute.

Once you become a master of your thoughts, feelings and behaviours, you become a conscious creator. Suddenly you have the ability to choose appropriate responses in every situation of your life instead of being at the mercy of your emotions.

Have you ever been in the middle of an argument and suddenly you have the thought ‘Why am I so angry and why am I taking it out on this person’? I certainly have, and the more aware you become, the more this occurs, until you are able to actually stop the unconscious response before it occurs. It is not the event itself that defines it’s meaning in our lives, but our response to it. And rarely, if ever, is it the particular circumstance that is the cause of our response. The event is merely a trigger which activates an automatic response within us, depending on previous experience and belief systems, formed usually in the first 6 years of our lives.

For example, a person who has had a history of betrayal or abandonment in their life, may feel particularly jealous if their partner is looking at someone of the opposite sex in, what they determine, is an inappropriate manner. Even if the other person is the most loyal and devoted person on the planet and has never shown any signs of betrayal, they respond from what they expect to occur. Because they have been betrayed or abandoned previously, they are expecting their partner to do the same and they perceive their over eager appreciation of another person as a betrayal, even though they have done nothing wrong.

We are all human, and just because we devote our lives to one person does not mean we automatically become robots incapable of appreciating the beautiful form of another human being. In fact this is perfectly healthy behaviour. What is not healthy is the over reaction of the person who immediately goes into fear of being betrayed, and angrily accuses the admirer of being unfaithful.

This is how our subconscious works. It looks for situations to prove our programming right. So we look for situations and events that will substantiate our model of the world. If we believe we don’t deserve to succeed, or it’s not safe to be successful, we will draw to us events and circumstances, and behave in ways that substantiate those beliefs and sabotage our success. And there may be hundreds or even thousands of those negative beliefs lurking in your subconscious, quietly working away and keeping you bound within your self imposed limitations.

It is your job to disentangle yourself from these belief systems and disable them so they don’t sabotage your success. This is why energy psychology and vibrational healing techniques are now becoming so popular, because they have the ability to quickly eliminate these beliefs so we can form new ones.

You need to be dedicated though, because your subconscious has formed these belief systems in an attempt to protect you and keep you safe. It is not likely to just show you what they are so you can get rid of them. You need to outsmart your subconscious and engage it to be your assistant in this process rather than your enemy.

And your emotions are your greatest ally in this quest. Become aware of your feelings in every moment and you will quickly discover what fears and beliefs you are holding onto that are stopping you from being the best you can be and living the life of your dreams.

I have found this is a fascination journey of discovery and, though difficult at times, highly rewarding. And the greatest reward is success. Following is an EFT Sequence to help you to get out of your own way.

Karate Chop Point

Even though I am my own worst enemy, I deeply and completely accept all of me

Even though I am responsible for all of my results in life, I choose to love and accept myself anyway.

Even though I have been the one holding myself back and stopping myself from succeeding, I deeply and profoundly love and accept all of me.

Inside Eye: I’ve been sabotaging myself all this time

Outside Eye: I should have known

Under Eye: I’ve allowed my emotions and belief systems to control my life

Under Nose: I feel powerless to take control of my life and realize my dreams

Chin: I should have known better

Collar Bone: I’m afraid to realize my true potential

Under Arm: I have all this conflict about success

Top of Head: I’m afraid to step out of my comfort zone

Inside Eye: It doesn’t feel safe

Outside Eye: What if it doesn’t work out?

Under eye: I’m afraid I’ll be disappointed

Under Nose: Actually, I’m afraid I’ll fail

Chin: I have all these negative beliefs about becoming successful

Collar Bone: It doesn’t feel safe to succeed

Under Arm: I don’t believe I deserve to succeed

Top of Head: I have all this conflict about success, no wonder I can’t realize my goals and dreams

Positive Round:

Karate Chop:

Even though I still have this conflict about success, I’m ready to transform and transcend all negative belief systems that are preventing me from realizing my goals and dreams.

Even though I’ve been sabotaging myself all along, I’m ready to get out of my own way and do whatever it takes.

Even though I’m responsible for where I am right now, I choose to forgive myself and get on the fast track to success and wealth.

Inside Eye: I’ve been sabotaging myself all along

Outside Eye: And now I’m willing to do whatever it takes to succeed

Under Eye: Even if I have to get out of my own road, it will be worth it

Under Nose: I choose to take my power back and feel strong

Chin: I choose to transform and transcend all my negative belief systems about wealth and success

As a society we are notorious for being dissatisfied with our lives and for an insatiable appetite for wanting more and more ‘stuff’. Generally speaking, much of this stuff is meaningless to the heart and soul and will not bring happiness, just more wanting and more discontent.

It is a part of human nature to want to create. Because we are continually expanding and seeking more ways to express our infinite selves, we are insatiable creators. This is a good thing as long as we are consciously creating what is best for our highest good and the highest good of all. This kind of creating is soul food.

And experiencing having beautiful, fun things in our lives is a wonderful opportunity we have and compliments our spirituality and overall wellbeing. The belief that if we are spiritual then we cannot be wealthy and have everything our hearts desire is complete nonsense and you are doing yourself a grave injustice if you believe this.

The reason most people do not ever attain what they really want in life is because they ‘want it’ too much. It’s great to have a desire for things and you cannot create unless you have this desire. But the state of ‘wanting’ will just perpetuate the state of ‘wanting’.

So how do you get what you want? Stop wanting it!

I know, it sounds like a complete contradiction, so let me explain.

Put your desire out the Universe and then give thanks for already having it. You don’t want what you already have, so turn your attention to how grateful you are for the things you do have in your life, including the thing you desire.

Keep doing this many times each day. Focus on what you desire, picture yourself already having it, enjoying it, appreciating it and give thanks for it. There is no more powerful attracting force than gratitude. And once your subconscious believes you already have it, then it cannot help but attract it into your life.

Confused? I’m not surprised. It’s the same as the old saying ‘Be, Do, Have’. If you act as if you would when you are living your perfect life, then you will have your perfect life. This concept is alien to many people because we have been trying to do things in reverse for so many years. If your manifesting is not working the way you are doing it, then try it this way. Issue your request, then give thanks for already having it. Miracles happen when gratitude is your focus.

Success, happiness, abundance, freedom. None of these conditions will turn up in your life by accident. Either consciously or subconsciously, you must create them in your life, and to do that, you need to ask yourself the right questions.

Do you keep asking yourself questions like:

“Why can’t I get a break?”
“Why can’t I get ahead?”
“Why am I so unlucky?”
“How come bad stuff happens to me all the time?”
“Why do I keep getting ripped off?”
“What am I doing wrong?”
……………. etc, etc, etc.

Do you notice any relationship between these questions?

I’m going to let you in on a little secret. As soon as you put any question out into the atmosphere through thought, word or deed, your subconscious immediately looks for an answer to affirm that question.

For example, if you ask the question in your mind, “Why can’t I get a break?”, the subconscious will immediately get to work looking for reasons why you can’t get a break and deliver those answers to you in your every day reality. You will experience sabotage all over the place through people and circumstances in your life.

This is because the subconscious mind has 3 jobs. The first one is to keep the status quo. The subconscious mind does not like change, and as long as it perceives that you are not in any immediate danger, it will work to keep things the same.

It’s second job is to keep you in whatever it perceives to be safe circumstances. Even if you don’t feel safe, your subconscious finds your situation safer than the alternative for whatever reason.

And third, it looks for ways to prove you right. So if you ask the question, “Why can’t I get a break?” your subconscious will bring people, events and circumstances into your awareness that will show you why and you will continue to experience problem after problem to stop you from achieving your goals and dreams.

The good news is that you can use this quirk of the subconscious mind to your advantage. Imagine what happens if you turn those questions around. If you ask the question “Why am I so successful?” instead of “Why am I such a failure?”, your subconscious will look for answers to that question and your entire world will change. People, situations and opportunities will present themselves to show you why you’re so successful. And even if you have felt like a failure up until now, suddenly your will start to see areas in your life where you have succeeded that you had completely overlooked before. Your self-esteem and belief in your ability with improve and different results will follow.

You can continue to be thwarted by your subconscious, or you can become a conscious player in the game of life and stack the odds in your favour by putting your subconscious to work for you and not against you.

Become aware of the questions you are automatically asking about yourself and your life, turn them around to a positive focus, and then watch in amazement as miracles and magic conspire to help you succeed, rather than fail.

Life! Good, bad or indifferent, we are all participating in it. So, how’s it going for you? Do you feel like the captain at the helm, or rather like a feather on the breeze, pulled this way and that, at the mercy of whatever life throws at you?

The truth is, we are all, to some extent, subject to the changing nature of life and what it throws at us. We cannot control every aspect of our lives and if we believe we can then we are deluded. What we can control is our responses to situations and the degree to which we allow life’s events to determine how we live our lives.

‘Failure’ is a nasty word in our language that is used to label and demean and criticise the efforts of others (and ourselves). It is something that paralyses many of us and stops us from trying to achieve our hopes and dreams because of our fear of failure.

Like it or not, life is going to continue to change, move, evolve and happen around us. And the truth of the matter is that the only failure that exists is the failure to participate.

Life is filled with challenges. Many of us consider this to be a bad thing and yet challenge is what helps us to grow and experience and achieve things that we would not achieve otherwise. So are you allowing challenges and the fear of failure to paralyze you and keep you stuck? Or are you willing to think outside the square, get out of your comfort zone and find solutions to those challenges rather than blame them for your current state of affairs.

If we choose to blame events or other people for our circumstances we become victims to life. Blame puts us in a position of powerlessness and takes away our ability to find satisfactory solutions to problems. Life is not defined by the problems we have, but how we choose to meet those problems. The greatest achievements arise out of adversity.

So, as long as you continue to participate, YOU CANNOT FAIL. Sure, you’re going to make some mistakes along the way. That is all part of the process. You cannot succeed unless you make mistakes. Provided you learn from them, with each mistake you make, you are one step closer to success.

And sometimes success is just one more failure away. How will you know unless you keep trying? There is a terrific saying, “It is better to try and fail than to fail to try”.

So, what’s going to be better for you? To stay a victim, blaming everybody and everything else for your situation, and ultimately never have the opportunity to realise your dreams? Or to keep trying until you succeed and realise your dreams. Because that’s the truth of it. If you don’t give up, you are destined to succeed.

Do you sometimes wonder if you’re ever going to get off the merry-go-round of life? That Ground Hog day kind of feeling where you want things to be different, but every day rolls into the next and nothing ever really changes except the weather? Why, when there is an overwhelming amount of choice and opportunity in our lives, is it so hard to get different results?

The answer is it is the nature of the beast. It’s literally not your fault. We are habitual beings and 96 to 98 percent of the results we experience in our lives are the result of our habitual behaviours, actions and responses to life. These habits have been formed from the time we were conceived through our environment, our parents and other influential people in our lives, and is even programmed into our DNA and cellular memory from past lives and generations. We only live consciously 2 to 4 percent of the time, so if you are purely working with your conscious mind to transform your life, then your chances of seeing true change are pretty close to zero.

There is a great quote by Anthony Robbins: “If you always do what you’ve always done, you will always get what you’ve always got”.

If you want something to change in your life, then you are going to have to alter your thoughts, feelings, behaviours, actions and responses to situations in life. The question is, how do you do this when they are all formed through habit and most of the time we are oblivious to what is causing our life to turn out so different to what we really want?

The answer is simple: Personal Growth and Development. If you want your life to be different, then you have to be different. The change can only come from the inside out and this takes dedication and commitment to your own personal growth and development.

And even those who have dedicated many years to their personal development still struggle with the fundamentals because they are only scratching the surface. To get real change, real fast, you must go deep into the programs that have been hardwired into your brain for most of your life and even beyond.

Fortunately we live in exciting times when dozens and dozens of powerful and effective tools and techniques are widely available for us to learn and use to transform our lives.

EFT is based on the philosophies of the ancient Eastern Healing art of Acupuncture and uses the meridian (energy) points of the body to clear physical, emotional and mental blocks that prevent us from living life to our full potential.

Sound Healing has been utilised by many ancient cultures for thousands of years as a powerful way to restore and maintain harmony and balance in all areas of our physical, emotional, mental and spiritual bodies, thus allowing us to align with whatever we desire and be the best we can be in all ways.

By clearing our major energy centres, our chakras, through sound, we open ourselves up to realizing miraculous and spontaneous healing on all levels.

You are a being of infinite potential. The only limitations you have are the ones you have imposed on yourself. Dedicate yourself to clearing whatever limiting programming, beliefs and emotions are holding you back, so you can realize your full potential and live the life of your dreams.

As was referred to at the end of the last installment of this article (read Part II here), the material that constitutes a $100 is no more valuable than the material used to make a $5. It is what it represents that is valuable, not the note.

Now, this concept was taken one step further in the 1970’s when all major currencies in the world were disconnected from gold or sterling to back them up and governments could literally print money as they pleased. The concept has been expanded many times over in modern day times as banks and lending institutions lend digital money based on the value of the goods and property it is loaned against, not any supposed pool of money sitting in a vault somewhere.

This means that now that piece of paper that you think is $50 is merely just a piece of paper. It has no real exchange value at all except the value we collectively give it in our minds. Take that even further, to numbers on a computer screen, and you realize that banks are literally creating money out of thin air!

Most of us now exchange credit for goods and services rather than money that we have saved. And billions of dollars changes hands all around the world just by virtue of manipulating some numbers in computer databases.

Money is a concept, an idea, a philosophy, an energy. It is not real. So, once you get your head around the truth about money, you will change the level of importance you place on the whole ‘money’ game. There is no such thing as scarcity around money because it is merely a concept. Do you believe you have a better chance of mastering something that is conceptual? If there is infinite money in the world, your reality no longer has to be ‘there is not enough’, but can become ‘how do I create more for me’.

There is as much money in the world as there is the air that you breathe. Do you expect the air to run out? No! If we did, we would immediately stop chopping down trees! (Now that would be a belief system that actually served us!)

Let your imagination go wild as to how you can create more money in your life. Because you have the ability to create as much of it as you want. Acquiring it doesn’t mean taking it from somewhere so there is less of it for everyone else. We all have the same opportunity to connect ourselves to the infinite nature of financial wealth once we change our money mindset.

Now that you know the true nature about money, and that you have been living a lie all these years, what are you going to do about it?

Firstly, you must share this story with everyone. The more people who realize and adopt the belief that money is infinite in nature, the less fear and stress there will be about money and the less power it will have over our society. And the more you talk about it, the more it will become a part of your intrinsic belief system, your subconscious mind. Imagine a community with no stress around money. Free to share it, give it, spend it, knowing that there was plenty for everyone. Wouldn’t the world be a more caring and empowered place?

Of course, as money is energy, all energy requires an exchange. So, just like with the lending system, you must offer something of value in exchange for receiving the energy of money. That is how our world works: energy in = energy out.

If you have something of intrinsic value to the world, which we all do, then you need to exchange that value for money. Of course, if you do not value yourself, your product or your services, then the exchange will be low. If however, you develop a healthy self esteem, realizing that you and what you have to offer the world is priceless, suddenly your ability to create money in your life increases many fold.

“Why on earth would I chase money away?’ I hear you ask. Well, the simple truth is that many people are doing just that without even realising it.

About ninety-five percent of the population thinks about money for a significant part of their day. And unfortunately a large percentage of those people are in some level of anxiety, fear or stress about it. Many are worried about how they are going to pay all their expenses, whilst a certain percentage are conjuring up ways to get more of it, and unfortunately many fail at this.

Whilst acting on your creativity is essential if you want to attract more money into your life, making it an obsession is going to do you more harm than good in your pursuit of a new financial future.

Think of it this way. When you discover a new love interest, he or she is everything you ever dreamed of and more. You can’t stop thinking about them and how great your life is going to be together. That’s great! Until……….. You start calling this person up 5 times a day just to say hello, you send them little text messages every hour too, and emailing valentines e-cards even though it’s September. What do you think is going to happen next?

Dead right. Your new love interest is going to feel smothered, even stalked, and will be turned right off by your obsessive neediness and suddenly you’re left broken hearted because you’ve managed to chase them away before the romance has had a chance to blossom!

Money is no different. Thinking about it in a positive light is fantastic, but obsessing about it is only going to keep it from you. This obsessive-ness comes from fear of lack, and fear of lack only creates more lack unfortunately.

So how do you overcome these all consuming thoughts about money and lack? By realizing that creating the money is actually not your job. That’s right, it’s not! Focusing on exactly the vision and lifestyle that you want to create with the money; following your purpose and your passion; taking consistent action on the inspiration you receive; trusting and allowing the Universe to bring the money into your life, they are your jobs. Actually creating the money……..not your job!

The Universe knows where all the resources are and how best to bring to you what you want. It will let you know what you need to do through inspiration. Don’t waste time and energy worrying about where the money is coming from, because it will probably come from sources that you never even expected.

Do what you came here to do and live your life in full expectation that your dreams are being fulfilled with every passing moment and the rest will unfold magically. Not immediately, but in the right way and the right time.
Don’t forget that there are plenty of pieces of the puzzle that need to be put into place, many of which you are not even aware of, before you can realize your dreams. If any of those pieces are missing, it could mean the whole picture falls apart sometime in the future, meaning you have to start all over again, which is definitely not what you want. Exercise patience and trust that the Universe is on your side and putting everything in place.

Following are some great EFT phrases to use as a guide to help you release your stress around money. Choose which ones resonate with you and create your own phrases that really target your specific feelings and issues as you go through the EFT Process. The Abundance and Prosperity sound healing recording from the Symphonies of Light series is a great accompaniment for this tapping sequence.

EFT Set Up Phrases:
Even though I think of money all the time, I deeply and completely trust I have everything I need and so much more.
Even though I worry about not having enough money and how I can create more, I profoundly love and accept how I feel.
Even though I waste too much energy obsessing about money because I never have enough, I choose to feel calm and confident that everything I desire is coming to me now as I focus on my purpose and passion.

EFT Reminder Phrases:
I never have enough money
Money causes me stress
I can’t stop thinking about money
Isn’t that what I’m supposed to do?
How can I not think about money?
I really need more money, I have to think about it all the time
What if I could let go of my stress around money?
That’s not possible, I have to worry about money.
It would be irresponsible of me if I didn’t worry about money.
Wouldn’t it be nice if I didn’t feel so anxious about money.
Worrying about it has not helped me in the past.
Maybe I’ll try something different and let go of my stress around money
I choose to feel calm and confident about money
I love feeling relaxed and confident about my financial future
I hand over the job of money to the Universe
Creating the money is not my job
I choose to feel relaxed and confident and let go of my stress about money
I choose to focus on my purpose and passion
I choose to know that everything I desire is being created for me right now
I no longer believe the lie that I don’t have what it takes to create whatever I want in my life
I live in my truth that I have everything I need within me to realize my dreams.

The Secret and The Law of Attraction have been hot topics for a few years now and, in spite of the enormous wealth (pardon the pun) of information, books, programs, coaching, techniques, etc, etc, still the vast majority of people struggle to unravel the mysterious formula to unlock massive wealth, success, freedom and happiness in their lives.

The principal of the formula is very simple. As vibrational beings, all we have to do is align our vibration with whatever we want, and there it is, right in front of us. Couldn’t be easier, right? Then why do so many people try and fail over and over and over?