The Webber Bennett Broach Foundation

The generous funds from this foundation built a storytelling room called "Itty Bitty Forest" at Northside Methodist Preschool, where Bo and Whit attended, in Webb's honor. The room is a precious, happy, joy filled place for the children to use and for our children to cherish for years to come. It is a perfect cause as it is at our church and our children's school, and because Webb loved story time. The Forest is filled with reminders of our sweet boy, bears everywhere since that was his nickname, a portrait of him under a heavenly sky and a verse I hold close to my heart, "Anyone who becomes as humble as this little child is the greatest in the Kingdom of Heaven." Matthew 18:4

About Me

My husband and I are parents to four precious children, Bo, Webb, Whit and Bess. On December 26, 2008, our lives changed forever when we suddenly lost Webb, Whit's twin, to a brain tumor. We were left confused, heartbroken and empty. By the grace of God, we are surviving in spite of the most horrific loss. Here is our story....

Wednesday, April 13, 2011

Perfection

There are so many days when I feel and see myself getting better.Times when I look back on the past two and a half years and think, “Ok, I am getting through it.”And then there are times when still it stops me dead in my tracks.The other day I was sitting in my office, and all of the sudden I had a vivid flashback of being in the hospital with Webb, and I was once again crippled with pain.The fact I lost Webb is something I still think about no less than 20 times an hour.Maybe more.But the actual flashbacks of the hospital and funeral started to come less and less the past several months.Maybe that’s why the latest round hurt so incredibly.It’s surreal to see his identical twin grow and thrive.It gives me a glimpse into what Webb would look like and be saying and doing, but he was his own unique person, and I just want to see him, right next to his brothers, sharing in their fun.I don’t know how to make this life fit into what my family used to be.I don’t know how to be completely happy here when my heart still aches for what I once had.I feel so helpless.I know I can survive just about anything that is thrown my way, but gosh, I don’t want to.I want to go back to the days where I expected the best instead of always anticipating the worst.It’s almost as if I’m scared to believe anything good can happen.I remember walking into the twins’ room right before Webb got sick.They were curled up in their cribs, right next to one another, bottoms in the air, sleeping soundly.I looked at them, and then Bo sleeping in the room next door, his hand curled around three extra pacifiers, and I had this feeling of utter joy.I actually remember saying, “God, what did I do to deserve all this perfection?”I will never forget that moment of feeling like my life was everything I wanted it to be.I will never feel that again on Earth.Because no matter how many wonderful things will come our way, there will always be that hole, that something missing.I want it all back.That moment, those days, the perfect 18 months of my life where all my children were safe in their beds.I want it back.

1 comment:

This post is so real to me as well. Its just something I feel even though so many wonderful things are really happening in my life, but there's always this hole of feeling like I am never full! One day that hole will be filled! Its just hard to wait!