I've waited my whole life for a woman President of the United States. Wait. Let me rephrase that. I've known my whole life there would be a woman President of the United States. Not based on supposition. Or desire. But on the clear reality that women are proven leaders. Arbiters of wise council, comfort, logic, humanity, humility, character, insight and calm. They are worldly, educated, observant and physically and emotionally strong. Yet for 200 plus years, American women have lacked equality.

In a 2005 article for "Development Journal," I attempted to explain why women pioneers in America needed to immediately fight for their rights. I wrote, "Contrary to the enduring misogynist portrayal of heroic males and submissive females, women were often more cunning and able than their strongest male counterparts. And for good reason. Their own government deemed them inconsequential. The Declaration of Independence never mentioned them. [It stated] 'We hold these truths to be self-evident, that all men are created equal, that they are endowed by their Creator with certain unalienable Rights, that among these are Life, Liberty and the pursuit of Happiness. That to secure these rights, Governments are instituted among Men...'1

Gratefully for me, coming of age two centuries later in the 1970's,
women leaders were no longer an anomaly. In fact, three women in
particular caught my eye.

The first was trail-blazing Manhattan Congresswoman,
Bella Abzug, who took center stage in my political life. It was Bella
Abzug, not Nancy Pelosi, who coined the phrase "this woman's place is
in the House -- the House of Representatives," in her 1970
Congressional campaign. An unflinching opponent of the Vietnam War,
Bella was a constant presence in New York media, featured almost daily
on TV. My fellow New Yorkers saw her as fearless and outspoken. Some
saw her as quirky and shrill. I just saw her as Bella, a woman leading
the way.

Around the same time, another media darling ruled the airwaves in New
York. Madame Golda Meir, the Iron Maiden Prime Minister of the nation
state of Israel from 1969 through 1974. Golda's tenure was so replete
with historical milestones, including the 1972 Israeli Olympic Team
massacres and the 1973 Yom Kippur War, that she was a constant
headliner in print and on TV. In 1970's pro-Israel New York, Golda was
a major player on our stage.

Also at this time, the feminist movement enjoyed a
meteoric rise, lead by dynamic Gloria Steinem. Buoyed by the 1972
launch of Ms. Magazine, the photogenic Ms. Steinem frequently dominated
the news.

Needless to say, my formative years as a young woman
activist filled me with expectations for a lifetime of equality, which
as we now know, never came to fruition. The disparity in numbers
between men and women in governing and leadership positions is evident,
forcing the battle for equality to rage on. I'm thrilled Nancy Pelosi
is Speaker of the House, but dismayed we have yet to have a woman
President. Proud though I am of Congresswoman Shirley Chisholm and
Senator Carol Moseley Braun for valiantly daring to try.

Today, according to political watchers and pundits,
money-men and mainstream media, the United States has its first
formidable female contender for the Presidency of the United States.
Senator Hillary Rodham Clinton! As a politically active woman who
desires equality in office, Mrs. Clinton's candidacy should rally my
support. But sadly, it does not!

What rails me instead are Mrs. Clinton's frequent
statements over the past four years in support of the War on Iraq. What
ails me is her inconsistency. What angers me is her continued funding
of the war. What infuriates me is the ease with which she sends young
Americans to fight a war that can force them to kill or be killed. What
saddens me is that Mrs. Clinton as a woman offers no more hope for
peace than the supporters of this war who are men.

I've been against this war from the beginning. I can't
imagine supporting a woman to lead this nation who knows less than I do
about peace vs. war, and candor vs. pander.

Give me instead, direct-speaking, newly progressive
John Edwards, who takes full responsibility for his mistake in
supporting the war, desires open discussion with Bush's proclaimed
enemies, admits to a potential tax raise to provide universal health
care, supports unions, and vows to work for the working class.

And along with John, give America a truly great woman
for the White House. Give us his wonderful wife, Elizabeth Edwards, who
will instill in the White House the humanity and warmth it has lacked
for so long. The Edwards are a masterful couple. They've weathered
unfathomable personal tragedy with dignity, humanity and grace.
Characteristics America sorely needs to restore its image at home and
abroad.

Give me Barack and Michelle Obama. This past Tuesday
evening I had the good fortune to see and hear Barack and Michelle
Obama at the Beverly Hilton Hotel. Yes, I was impressed with Senator
Obama. He's charming, poised, thoughtful and highly intelligent. He'd
be a popular, soothing leader, working hard to reset Bush's tainted
world stage. Give me Barack. A child of the world who directed himself
into an adulthood to be proud of.

Give me the Barack Obama described by Michelle Obama
as a regular guy, "who can harness the energy in all of us and take us
to greater places.... the Harvard Law Review, Constitutional law
professor, best selling author, and Grammy winner..."

Compare that to the pre-Presidency accomplishments of
the current President who was raised in one of the wealthiest families
in America, only to drink away the first 40 years of his life. How dare
people question Obama's experience? What I'd give for just five minutes
of a Barack Obama/George W. Bush debate even after six years of Bush's
"experience" in the highest office in the world.

And Michelle Obama. What an impressive woman. As powerful, charming and
dynamic as her husband. A Harvard graduate, mother, dedicated wife and
as she says, "a citizen" who wants the best for her country. What a
White House the Obamas would have. A true House of the People from
which to reconcile and re-engage the world.

We all know if Hillary is elected, she presides with Bill. They're a
team. But a team with baggage. Hillary brings Bill. Bill brings the
Bushes. Until Bill renounces the Bushes, the White House must be off
limits to him.

Michelle and Barack Obama are also a team. As are
Elizabeth and John Edwards. Barack succeeds better with Michelle. John
succeeds better with Elizabeth. America benefits from both of their
unions.

On Fox television this past January 30th, Rae Abileah,
an impressive young spokeswoman for CODEPINK Women For Peace, appeared
on the Hannity and Colmes show. Responding to a question from Alan
Colmes about Hillary Clinton as a candidate, young Abileah stated, "I'd
love to support Hillary Clinton as the first woman Presidential
candidate for office. I'd love to vote for a woman for President but I
can only do that if she becomes a woman of values and courage who can
lead our country toward peace."

Transcending generations, younger women like Rae
Abileah, along with older women like me, yearn for women leaders worthy
of our support. But just being a woman isn't sufficient justification
for support. As Rae so aptly stated, we need "a woman of values and
courage who can lead our country toward peace." From my perspective,
that woman is not Hillary Clinton.

And so Rae, myself and millions of women will wait for the right woman
leader. Until such time that our proper woman President does come
along, I have complete confidence that Michelle Obama or Elizabeth
Edwards would be exceptional women occupants of the White House,
sharing their gifts of leadership with our nation and the world.

For now, I can only hope that one of these two life
partners will be the Number One Woman in the White House. My thanks to
Mr. Obama and Mr. Edwards for giving Americans two fabulous First
Ladies from which to choose!