Although men don't like to admit it, they've all looked at the sex tips and advice in the magazines their girlfriend has left on the coffee table! However, instead of getting a saucy article about women revealing their oral sex techniques, it's often quite the opposite!

But fear not; we have searched high and low for the best sex advice just for men. This week's update searches through newspapers and websites to glean the best bits from them, leaving you with the hottest advice and the top tips!

"When you take a woman out on a date, other than calling to make sure she made it home safely, do not call her to discuss the date in detail the following day. Let her bask in the romance and give her time to imagine what your next interaction will entail.

Calling her two or three days later is fine, as it lets her know that you're thinking of her. Also, let some time pass before you ask her out on the next date. Buffering the time between contact with her is a major step in making her miss you."

There really is nothing worse than getting totally absorbed in an erotic story, enjoying the plot, seeing how the characters develop, getting to your first hot and heavy sex scene and then - BAM! You're faced with a phrase which is not only very unsexy but extremely distracting, too!

In our Erotic Book Club Forum we have been discussing this precise phenomena which has come to be known as "Throbbing Member Syndrome". This terrible affliction affects writers of erotic fiction and causes them to use words and phrases which, quite frankly, set our libidos plummeting!

A technique which we women are very receptive of is to have your partner lie on her back, spread her vaginal lips wide apart with your outer fingers, and use your middle finger to rapidly slide up and down her vagina rapidly and lightly grazing her clitoris.

This motion alone will often bring a woman to orgasm. Don't forget to use your mouth while you are fingering, keep kissing her, her neck, and all her other erogenous zones.

Maybe she was taking her cue from Paris Hilton, who loves nothing more than an excuse to get into full costume! So far we've seen her dressed up as a zombie nurse, an army cadet and a rather naughty Alice in Wonderland!

If you fancy playing the hero as opposed to Alex's villain, try on our fabulous Wonder Woman costume! This 7 piece set comes with everything you need to celebrate the original superheroine - headpiece, cape, stars and stripes leotard, belt, lasso, bracelets and boot tops! A wonderful costume for a wonderful woman!

If you prefer Paris' take on the sexy costume why not go for the classic French Maid look? With fetish-inspired PVC lace-up bodice, gorgeous ruffle trim, attached skirt, apron, duster and gloves, this is too hot to waste on cleaning the kitchen!

G-spot orgasms are like nothing else! They feel absolutely incredible and this blushing-red vibrator will prove it to you time and time again!

The multiple vibration speeds are just one of the orgasm-inducing qualities of this extraordinary vibe!

The tip is angled perfectly; the gentle curve combined with the soft, broad tip will stimulate the frontal wall of the vagina and the G-spot with ease.

Slide it in just a few inches and marvel at how wonderful the raised and bumped base feels against the clitoris, providing you not only with the best vibrations but with the most unique textural sensations too!

It's also completely waterproof, allowing you to take it into the shower or bath with you!