Tuesday, November 16, 2010

Up Fur Debate

I can't remember whether I've featured this faux fur vest on the
blog, but I've worn it on quite a few occasions. Every time, I say never again! While I tend to wear what
I like regardless of what others might think, it's hard to feel chic and
confident when people literally think you look comical (and aren't
afraid to say so). My feelings have never actually been hurt, but
comments I've received have caused me to ponder to what extent my fashion choices are driven by trends. I suppose I either need to suck
it up and flaunt my faux fur with confidence or accept that I
can't make bold fashion choices where I live without
eliciting reactions. When it comes down to it, I'm not losing any sleep
and will probably continue to rock the vest on occasion.

On to the dress... My relationship with this frock seemed doomed from the start. There were so many factors working against it. It was terribly
wrinkly (nothing a good ironing couldn't fix, but it does wrinkle very
easily). It was snagged in many places. Because of the low-cut back, the
shoulders refused to stay up. Despite all of that, I just couldn't
bring myself to leave it behind. The long, voluminous sleeves, gorgeous
color and cool exposed zipper (not shown) were just irresistible. Oh
yeah, and it was only $10.

After yesterday's sort of emo post, I'm feeling good this week.
I've eagerly brainstormed several outfit ideas including this one and
others you'll see this week. The spark may be back. Fingers crossed!

34 comments:

Ah, it looks BEAUTIFUL with that lovely dress! I do think that a fur vest just might be a piece that is appreciated more by the blogging world than the "real" world. That being said, it looks lovely here. :)

You probably need to add a big splash of red paint on the front and attach a sign on the back that says "It's not real fur, der ..." Unless it is real fur and I didn't read your blog properly. Then you need to add the red paint and then put on the back "This was killed 50 years ago. I would never buy farmed fur these days."

keep the vest and the dress! both pieces are awesome! love the fur vest...have two myself and love the "original" compliments/comments I get when I wear one of them. I like to think that when others comment (or give me an unusual "look") that they are just jealous they don't have the confidence to pull off wearing a fur vest :-)

I have a fur-trimmed cape (vintage, I would never buy new fur) and I get a lot of comments everytime I wear it. Most are, "don't let the paint-throwers see you" which is a weird thing to say. I think people are intimidated by fur, real or fake.

I love the vest and personally wear my faux fur vest whenever I get a chance! Though mine does not look nearly as real as yours does.... either way, rock it with pride!

Also, I have an idea for the dress... maybe sew a piece of ribbon near each shoulder blade to make it into a tie-back? Not sure if I'm describing that well... feel free to contact me if you need clarification haha :)

I soo needed to hear this post today~ thanks for sharing! I too tend to get a lot of weird looks and remarks sometimes~ especially from my own friends~! But hey, at least they're honest, right?! ;)Sometimes I can't help but let it get to me even though I know I shouldn't let it! I love what Between Laundry Days said about some things being more appreciated in the blog world than in real life. So true!

Who wouldnt like the fur vest?? I have the same problem, people keep telling me how ugly my fur vest was it broke my heart but I keep wearing it, I LOVE IT!!!love the outfit<3http://reserveradefashion.blogspot.com

Love the vest! There are sometimes outfits you wear that I don't connect with - and of course this happens with anyone courageous enough to post their outfits, no one is going to love everything - but THIS outfit ain't one of 'em. You look dashing, and the color of the dress is fantastic on you! Please, don't stop wearing this combination.

I actually love the faux fur vest! It's really cute! I'm originally from South Dakota and, as much as I love my home state, I can tell some people think I'm "trying too hard" when they see my outfits when I go home. I'm sure there are plenty of fashionistas in SD, but I do think location can affect people's clothing outlook.

I'm liking the vest a lot and think it'd look lovely with a pair of skinny black jeans and quiet top. Maybe it's the drapey fabric paired with the fur that unsettles people? (i.e. a visceral textural response?). I'm surprised that you get strange looks in Lawrence--I haven't lived there in years, but it always seemed fashion conscious for a small midwestern town. Lawrence had better and more unique fashion than Austin!

I have a similar debate with myself about wearing things that seem noticeably out of the norm. Fur is one of those things. Also, crazy hats. I generally wear them anyway, as you did, but sometimes I wonder if impractical trends are worth the distraction and stare-factor. For now I'm saying yes, largely due to how awesome you look in your vest. It's gorgeous against the rich blue of your dress and really works with the shape of your outfit.