Q: My parents seem to love the guy Im dating. They always...

RAVE - TEEN 2 TEEN

June 9, 1994

Q: My parents seem to love the guy Im dating. They always tell me how nice he is and how lucky I am to have him as a boyfriend. The problem is that I dont want him as a boyfriend anymore. I want to date other guys. I know my boyfriend will be upset, but what Im really worried about is telling my parents. How can I make them under-stand I have to follow my heart?

Follow your heart: Ive had this same problem before. I would just break up with your boyfriend first and then go to your parents. Tell them you thought it just wasnt working and that you want to see other people. Thats what I did, and it worked.

Kim Williams

sophomore,

Edgewater High

Follow your heart: Its really none of your parents business who you are dating. But if its that important to you, then just sit down with your parents and explain that its your decision, not theirs. Say you dont want to date your boyfriend anymore and the only reason youre telling them is because you respect their feelings. And they have to respect yours.

Angela Brennar

freshman,

Winter Park High

Follow your heart: Talk to your parents and explain that their opinions are just that their opinions. Let your parents know you appreciate their judgment, but its really not their concern. They may feel that youre making a mistake, but so what if you are? The only way we learn is from our mistakes.