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Thursday, September 26, 2013

Who is Your Hero?

Here’s a question
for you. Who is your hero?

There is
tremendous value in having a hero. Heroes can inspire us to dream big, and do the
impossible. Heroes can lift us in moments of depression and give us hope. And heroes
blaze a trail which tells us that if we did similar things, we could achieve
our dreams too. Our heroes can change over time – and that’s probably an
indication of our own changing situations in life. And yes, don’t expect your
heroes to be perfect in all respects. You will be disappointed and might get
put off heroes forever – which would be a pity!

A question
I often get asked is who my hero was. I have had several heroes in my life. And
I thought it might be useful to share some of those stories. So here goes…

One of my
earliest heroes in life was my father. Now that’s probably true for many of us!
As a little kid, I was hugely inspired by the things he did. A self-made man –
he left home in a village in Kerala to come to Mumbai to make a living, went on
to study engineering, and forged a successful career. He even mastered the
Hindi language enough to be able to teach it. Incredible! And I got my first
lessons in writing and speaking from him. I also got my first lessons in people
management – as a six year old kid. Here are two simple lessons I haven’t
forgotten: One, always call the driver by his name. So it was always Nathu-bhaiyya
– not ‘driver’! And lesson two: Carry your own school bag – don’t have someone
else to do it for you!

As a
cricket-crazy kid in school, I got a new hero when Sunil Gavaskar burst on the
scene. He was short, opened the innings, and took on the fastest bowlers in the
world without a helmet. He was also articulate, and wrote a fabulous book! In
an interview at that time, Gavaskar said how he used his height (or lack of it)
to his advantage – it helped him avoid the bouncers! And he talked of how
playing cricket in the balcony of his little Mumbai home taught him to hit the
ball straight – in the ‘V’. For me they were huge lessons: make the most of
what you have. And don’t complain about what you may have missed out on!

And then
came the angry young man. Amitabh Bachchan was a hero not just because he
managed to beat up all the bad guys even while ensuring he was the son every
mom wished she had! For me, the Amitabh story was all about having the courage
to give up a steady job to chase your dreams, about being rejected, seeing repeated
failure (and even being turned down by All India Radio because they felt he
didn’t have a great voice!) And through it all, fighting, persevering, and never,
never giving up.

A huge
influence at work was one of my early bosses – Suman Sinha! He taught me that a
leader at work was like an alchemist. Just as an alchemist turns metal to gold,
a true leader turns men and women into managers. And he taught me the
importance of values, of integrity, and the habit of doing the right thing – at
all times.

There have
been several other heroes too. Rahul Dravid, the ultimate team man. And Steve
Jobs. And of course, my driver Karunan, who shared pearls of wisdom from his
own life (sample this: Early in your career, what you learn is more important
than what you earn. And don’t worry about which car you are driving. Focus on
being a good driver!). Karunan is also a good reminder that heroes are
everywhere. They don’t have to be famous people! And the important bit is not who the hero is, but about what you learn from him and how he inspires you.

So that’s
it about me. But tell me, who is your hero? I am keen to hear! And in case you
don’t have a hero, find one. Today!

2 comments:

sir, This has come after a long time, and once again it is great to read your blog.It is true we need to have Heroes and as we grow up we follow great people who have made it good in life.I have been a great admirer of Rajiv Gandhi and was impressed by his straight talk, and i even named my first son Rajiv.Steve Job was another guy who is a hero to me.Hoping to read more from you.Ananth Iyer

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I believe everyone has greatness inside of them. And we all owe it to ourselves to rise to our peak potential. There are a few quotes that probably sum up my thinking. "If you think you can, you can. If you think you can't, you're right." "If it's to be, it's up to me." "It's never too late to become what you might have been." "Winning is a habit. Unfortunately, so is losing." "On your deathbed, you could be saying one of two things. I wish I had. Or... I am glad I did." "You don't win a silver. You only lose the gold." "Leaders create leaders. Not followers."