'I'm cheating on my wife'

She is 28. I’m enjoying it but at the same time I’m worried about what will happen if my wife and my 10-year-old son come to know about the relationship. For some strange reasons, I can’t see myself breaking my wife’s heart and ruining my kid’s heart with this ugly truth of mine. But I’m also relishing this zing in my life.— Dushyant

Illustration/ Amit Bandre

Dear Dushyant, You clearly know you need to stop your dalliance with your colleague if you want to save your marriage. As you spend time together at the workplace, you are attracted to her. She is single but remember you are married. Your married life may have become boring and this colleague is adding some spice to your life. But remember when you get caught it will not only affect your personal life but also your professional life. Also, it will affect her career too. So bear in mind the consequences and also ask yourself if there is any future in this relationship.