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Sunday, June 16, 2013

The Father's I Do Not Understand

Nothing makes me angrier than a DEADBEAT DAD! (yes i know there are deadbeat moms but today I am focusing on the DEADBEAT DAD'S)I do not understand one teeny tiny bit how a MAN will not acknowledge their own flesh and blood. I do not understand one teeny tiny bit how a MAN does not want to hug his babies.I do not understand one teeny tiny bit how a MAN does not want to teach his childrenI do not understand one teeny tiny bit how a MAN can treat his childs mother like poopI do not understand one teeny tiny bit how a MAN can go one single day without seeing his babies smilesI do not understand one teeny tiny bit how a MAN can not Love his childI do not understand one teeny tiny bit how a MAN can not hold his childI do not understand one teeny tiny bit how a MAN misses out on those looks, where his child will watch him so intently while he is fixing something around the houseI do not understand one teeny tiny bit how a MAN can let another man take his placeI do not understand one teeny tiny bit how a MAN can live with themselves while their child is wondering why they don't have a daddy I do not understand one teeny tiny bit how a MAN can SLEEP at night while he has a child who is going without the LOVE and SUPPORT of their daddy.HOW CAN HE?More importantly WHY? WHY would he Not want to experience the joy of this wonderful human being that he created. Why would he not want that Love?I also don't understand WHY there are so many of these MEN?
I could go on and on and on..im sure I will add more for this is my 2nd short post on this topic. Up Next..why immature mothers don't let dad's see the babies out of spite!Click here for my previous post on Deadbeat Dadisms

I totally agree with you. I actually just got into it with my sister's babies dad. My sister lost her daughter at the hospital on June 1. She was born 25 weeks and didn't make it. Her babies dad NEVER came to the hospital to be with my sister NOR did he come to the babies funeral. It made me SO mad to see him shrug them off like they wasn't anything to him. I wanted so bad to see him there with her wiping her tears and comforting her.. saying "I know how you feel because she was mine as well". But he didn't show up. My family- especially my mom and myself were there- but we couldn't say those same things to her..