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Sex after baby?

I just had my 2nd and last child, a baby girl, 2 weeks ago today. She was 5 lbs 12 oz 20 inches. I had a natural birth with no tears. My question is how is sex gunna be? I'm already super horny, but I dont go back to the doctors until next week...i go back at 3 weeks because I had a tubal. Anyways, I've lost all my baby weight, have no stretch marks and a flat belly, not to mention huge boobs from nursing, i just feel sexy....I was very swollen after birth, but now it looks smaller than before I got pregnant. I'm just scared my husband wont enjoy sex as much, kinda like shooting a hotdog down a hallway kinda thing....and im afraid I wont enjoy it either....whats your experience?

Two vaginal deliveries of 7+ lb kids and while we did wait until about 6-8 weeks after and I did tear a little (about 1/2 inch) with both sex is really no different then it was before for me and DH says it isn't either. Our kids are 3 and 5 years now.