Whitson Gordon

Ever wondered what freaky (or non-freaky) stuff your partner is into, but are too afraid to ask? Or maybe you're just looking to get some ideas for spicing things up. Mojo Upgrade is an online questionnaire that you and your partner fill out, and it lets you know what's on the table.

The whole thing is set up quite nicely: You and your partner both fill out the questionnaire, which is filled with sexual acts from the basic ("Receive a sensual massage from partner") to the more advanced ("Be whipped by partner") to the I-didn't-know-this-was-a-thing ("have partner act as furniture to be used by me"). It's a pretty long questionnaire, as long as you check the "Advanced" box.

You can answer each fantasy with four options: "No," "We already do that," "If my partner is interested," and "Yes!!" When it's over, you'll see which things your partner answered "Yes" and "If my partner is interested" to:

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That way, if only one of you is interested and the other says no, you don't have to give up your secret fantasy to get a brown shower from your partner.

Obviously, communicating openly with your partner is the best thing you can do, but Mojo Upgrade is still pretty useful for the initial plunge, or (more importantly) getting ideas for your sex spreadsheet. Hit the link below to try it out.