If she is a 'J,' I don't think she's a very strong one. Or she may have registered as 'j' on the MBTI test because she might be judgmental or highly interested in a physically organized workplace.

I’m a farley strong ‘J,’ and I usually over estimate how much time it will take me to do any one activity so that I can always compensate for any hold up that I could not have foreseen (Example: if I have to drive over a two mile stretch of road and I have no idea if there’s going to be traffic, I’ll just mentally calculate how much time it would take if I were driving that two mile stretch at five miles an hour. Something like twenty four minutes.)

To be honest, this is the first I’ve heard of an INTJ being consistently unpunctual.
How strong of a J is she? And if she is an extremely strong J, that begs the question: “are there different types of J’s?”

Q: "What is the process of seeking the truth?"
A: "Distilled liquor"

Q: "If you could live anywhere in the world, where would it be?"
A: "Between a starving prostitute and a steak sandwich."

Q:How would a mathematician capture an elephant?
A:He would build a cage, step inside, and rename his new location as "outside."

One learns soon enough how to incorporate a P's spontaneity. If you plan something you can do whether the P shows up or not, you're golden.

Naturally, later, when the P person has some important thing they want to bear down on and be punctual about, they get to sit upon the petard.

A petard is someone who doesn't understand the serious and compelling nature of extraverted perception and how it is legitimately more important than all other things, except when the extraverted perceiver wants to lasoo themselves into some "plan", in which case everyone else still has the wrong priorities and will pay dearly.

Wow! I'll have to say that reading this thread is like being in a Twilight Zone episode. INTJ late all the time? ENFP complaining about it? Move over Rod Serling.... we have, ladies and gentlemen, entered the Twilight Zone.

I'd say talk to her. Perhaps she's not adequately considered how her actions are affecting the people around her. Noooo. No INTJ would ever do that....no sirree bob.

I feel the same way- Twilight Zone. I never heard of an intj being late, at least, a hour or more late. They must want to avoid something, it would be assume if it's you!

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Death must be so beautiful. To lie in the soft brown earth, with the grasses waving above one's head, and listen to silence. To have no yesterday, and no to-morrow. To forget time, to forgive life, to be at peace."
— Sylvia Plath (The Bell Jar)

"Remember, remember, this is now, and now, and now. Live it, feel it, cling to it. I want to become acutely aware of all I’ve taken for granted."
— Sylvia Plath