Personality Disorders Support Group

Personality disorders form a class of mental disorders that are characterized by long-lasting rigid patterns of thought and behaviour. Personality disorders are seen by the American Psychiatric Association as an enduring pattern of inner experience and behavior that deviates markedly from the expectations of the culture of the individual who exhibits it.

relationships.

most of u know i'm gay and already have relationships problems.we are know having relationship/physcosexual councelling.the physcosexual because my partner nly wants to make love about 3 times a year.
yesterday during councelling when asked what stops her wanting to be sexually intimate with me she said it was because making love set my bpd off.it was rubbish i sat there in disbelief she could say such a thing.then she went on to blame my bpd on making her feel not like having intimacy because of "what i put her through" etc.so i brought up her past b/f who she had a sexua relationship with asking why she could have sex with him when he was a schizophrenic(she told me herself what he was ike)yet she couldn't with me with bpd.her answer was she didn't live with him but by what her family and friends told me he pratically lived with her.
i#m fed up with my bpd being blamed.if it is triggered it's my partner that triggers it. even my thearpist says my bpd is not to blame my partner is.
my doctor also is worried about the effect my partner is having on me.
if i want to discuss anything she doesn't agree with she starts yelling over the top of what i'm trying to say,wagging her finger at me etc while i stay calm and ask her to talk calmly.is me staying calm bpd?
am i the one yelling etc ?no i'm not.
i guess i just feel unhappy my thearpist says i'm doing well and reacting the right way to my partner.she accusses me of wanting to start rows but all i try and do is discuss thingsn a calm manner.
i really got frustrated with her in councelling yesterday when she blamed my bpd.

i have been unofficially diagnosed with borderline personality disorder only 3 months ago and already i'm trying to not talk about it to other people because all they do is use it to blame me for everything. i'm already so sick of it that i've pushed people away and some even completely thrown them out of my life. now even though i'm lonely it's better than exposing myself furthur to people who are emotionally abusive to me. from what you say it sounds like you're trying to work on things but your partner is doing nothing but blaming you. the only reason your relationship is surviving is because you're just taking everything and that probably won't change.

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