Living alone is like Hell? Brother what are you saying. You should be ashamed of your self. What you really mean to say is that you want to work hard, have a woman to look after you and for her to give you sex.

Think about and say a prayer for ALL those poor women who are bereaved and have no hope in this life to have another husband. There are probably millions! Do not include me in this. I amvery happy by myself.

Happiness brother is a state of the mind...nothing else. Of course you must move on...that is normal for a human being..but I think it is too soon.

You sound so much like most of the muslim men I have met in this past 6 years. Yuck...sorry. Do not think me unfeeling, but I am sure I am not alone with saying this. Less than a month ago you were dying because a women was rejecting you. Amazing how quick you forget. I am disappointed brother.

Excuse me brother, dont get defensive with me. You asked for a reply to your question and I gave you my answer.

I do not need to talk to anyone about my feelings. I will not go mad. If your relatives and friends have already advised you then why ask here? That is confusing.

I am not mixing western thoughts at all. I do understand deen thank you very much, possibly better than you do. It is sad you do not know me like others do here, then you would not answer me in in this way. YOu sound SO much like my ex husband. You need to understand your deen brother.

ANd don't dare to judge me on your concept of western people. I am a revert, not born muslim like you. I had a choice about my religion, you didnt.

I will try to understand you as one muslim to another and not stereotype you as you have done me. But seems your culture is more important to you above your religion unless youtell me otherwise.

I always think of the Prophet(pbuH). He did not rush into another marriage after the death of Khadijha..he was deeply in mourning.

As for myself...I have been through a mourning period and still am in no hurry to re-marry. Does that make me wrong then? Because I do not agree with you or your family? No, of course it doesn't. But it does not mean that I am having a wild life here either. Perhaps that will make it clear for you

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