what’s been on my mind: why are people jerks*?

*(That’s not actually the name I want to use, but I’m really trying to clean up my language.)

But seriously, if you’ve been dating someone for almost a year, how do you suddenly decide that you’re too busy to respond to their texts or phone calls (forget actually seeing them), and when you do finally talk to them and they have an attitude, you get upset because they are “ballistic” and “too emotional”?

Yes, there’s a reason I’m wondering this. No, I don’t want to talk about it. Yet. But I will.