Texting fills the time when you’re out of sight, and keeps you from becoming “out of mind.” Getting a girl’s phone number is only the first step in seducing her via text. Your phone goes silent, and you can’t figure out what went wrong. I know it’s frustrating as hell, and that’s why I wrote this post. These are almost worse than not sending texts at all. Because girls respond back to your texts based on 3 important factors: 1. If she’s feeling happy because her day is going well, then she’s more likely to reply. A girl will almost always text her Mom or friends back right away or anybody else who she’s really close to.