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June 08, 2014

As everyone knows, we only accept male and female clients who are looking for a marriage partner as a member. That means that our members’ purpose for joining is “Marriage”. Most Japanese women are looking for men who are in the same age group as they are. In most Asian countries...

Have you seen the
Hayao Miyazaki’s latest animation movie, “The Wind Rises”?

It is one of the greatest movies of Hayao Miyazaki.

My husband and I
went to the Charles Theatre in Baltimore one Friday night for our date night.
It was impressive and beautiful, but it was not really a romantic movie
suitable for a date night since some of the plot takes place during World War
II.

However, the story
also tells about the love between Jiro and Nahoko ........

March 08, 2014

Naoko is now traveling to NYC once a month to meet with potential clients. This
is my new project in 2014. I would like to meet many single professionals and
Japanese women in NYC to help them in finding their lifelong partners. >>>Click to read

February 17, 2014

One of my friends in Wisconsin
shared this story about his friend, John. John was married to a Japanese woman
and they had a child. They appeared to be a happy family. One day, John’s wife travelled
to Japan with their child, and they never returned to the US. >>>Click to read

February 08, 2014

One of our female members visited a man in Los Angeles who was introduced to her by a friend of hers. (He is NOT one of our male members.)After staying at his house for a few days, she was told by him,

“The toilet paper is running out faster after you came to my house.”

“Besides,” he continued,

“There is the Washlet (TOTO), so you do not need to use much toilet paper.”And he continued to lecture her.

She didn’t like him to complain. And, she understood that it is more important for him that she lives frugally with him than creating a positive relationship with her. No matter how much toilet paper she used, she didn’t want him to say anything about it since it hurt her feelings.She shared her story with us after returning from her trip.“Since I was concerned about his happiness, but I bought an ample amount of consumable supplies, such as toilet paper and toothpaste, and gave them to him before leaving his house.”Some people would have seen this seemingly unhappy incident as something to be avoided. However, our female member realized that the toilet paper was simply an expression of their incompatibility. Therefore, she had no reason to blame him for what he said to her. So, this experience was fortunate since she was able to realize that they were incompatible before deciding to get married.Even though he told her, “I like you!”She honestly realized that he did not care for her.As a result of this experience, she said good bye to him and moved on to start finding a better relationship.She met a new gentleman through MJL’s service last December, and she said they are getting along well. He cares for her very much and she feels happy.I am looking forward to hearing great news from them soon!

January 23, 2014

We received a wonderful message from one of our male members in Los Angeles. “We Are Engaged!”We responded with, “Congratulations to you both!”He visited Japan last fall in order to meet some of our female members. And he decided to choose one of these females as his wife.I remember when he became our member during an interview with me, he said that he has a goal oriented personality, and that he has accomplished many big tasks in life with dedicated concentration.He sounded very confident.So, I felt that it would be very easy for him to find a wife.The way it works is that if you really want to marry, and you are completely dedicated with all of your energy on meeting someone to marry, it will happen. And, I saw his complete dedication in him when I first talked with him on Skype.If you have complete dedication to finding a wife, women will feel that you are sincere, and they will feel comfortable with you and trust you. If you take initiative, it is easy for women to believe in you.He made a decision to visit Japan within 6 months since he became a Full Member. At his first meeting he met some of our female members whom he had chosen. His dedication to finding a wife was successful for him and happened rather quickly since he had a goal oriented mind. It all worked out wonderfully for him!We are happy for him and his fiancé!Their engagement is MJL’s first one in 2014. We look forward to hearing from more of our clients who decide to get engaged this year! Let 2014 be the year to make it happen!!!

January 20, 2014

As I wrote in this blog, I visited New York City in the second week of January.
Fortunately, it was a wonderful day: sunny and not too cold.

I made an appointment with one of our male members who lives in NYC. He had just
returned from his vacation in Asia. I appreciate that he made time to meet with
me.

He is looking for a wonderful woman, but he doesn’t specifically look for a Japanese
woman. That’s fine. There are many men who are NOT looking for a woman in a specific
ethnic group. Rather, these men are looking for a human being with special
trait. For some men it doesn’t matter if their future wife is a Japanese woman,
Chinese woman, Korean Woman, Filipino woman, Thai woman, or a woman from any
other country. What matters is that she is something special for them.

I understand.

We are talking about having children: He wants to have children. Some male members
who want to have children want to meet as younger women. I think age is
important for those who want to have children. However, I have to tell you that
most of our female members who are in their late thirties and early forties
still want to have their own children. I understand their thoughts too since I
had a child when I was 39 years old.

Anyway, the male client I met is open minded to meeting women who are in their late
thirties to early forties. That’s fantastic!

Two of MJL’s female members who are planning to travel to New York City in February
would like to meet with him, and we are now setting up meetings for him.

I hope everything will go well!

My 2014 New Year’s Resolution of going to NYC once a month to meet prospective
members is working!!!

If you live in New York, New Jersey or other states and need a personalized
matchmaker’s assistance, please let me know. I am happy to talk with you in
person. If you are NOT in New York or New Jersey, we offer Skype consultation
by appointment. Please let me know!

January 19, 2014

I am looking for gentlemen who want to meet Japanese women for lifelong partnerships.

I
have been brainstorming for how I can create more and more opportunities for
gentlemen and Japanese women to meet in a safe and sincere atmosphere. MJL has
many new female clients as members who want true love and happy marriages.

And
then, I realized that taking action is more important than thinking in my mind.
Right now, I do not have many connections, but if I keep going to New York, I
am sure I will be able to meet single men and women who need my help.

I am very motivated to find a solution through positive action.

New York City is one of the biggest cities in the world, and I believe that
there are many single professionals who do not have time to think about
marriage but do not want to keep being single. Also, I believe that there are
many single Japanese women who would like to meet their future husbands.

How can I meet them?

I
am happy to help them and try to cut a road through a forest. I believe that it is one of my
life missions.

Maybe, we can have speed dating events for our members in NYC or members from
other states in the US. It is possible.

I have never thought of it although I have lived in Baltimore for more than 7
years. It takes just about 3 hours to arrive in NYC from Baltimore.

So, why not try?

Let’s go for it!

Then I purchased a ticket to New York City.

Visiting New York once a month: This is one of my New Year Resolutions.

If I keep visiting NYC for a year, I bet that I might find something
interesting there. Therefore, I just try! Without too much expectation, I just
do.

January 07, 2014

As you may know, in Japan, New Year’s Day is
like the Thanksgiving or Christmas holidays in the US. Many Japanese people
take a long vacation, travel abroad, or spend time with their families.

Many Japanese people are shocked to learn
that after the New Year’s Eve celebrations, life goes on as ordinary for most Americans.

Anyways, since now is the starting point of
the year, you may have made some New Year’s resolutions.
Perhaps, one of your New Year’s Resolutions was…“I will marry a Japanese woman this year!”

That’s great!

If so, you may have already planned to visit Japan this year.

As part of MJL’s membership program, all of our male members look forward to
visiting Japan for their first meeting with our delightful female members. As
our service becomes more popular, we had many male members visit our Tokyo office
to have meetings with our female members last year. Especially, from Thanksgiving
to New Year’s Eve we had a MEETINGS RUSH. We had many meetings every weekend.

In early December, one of our female
members met a gentleman from SF in Tokyo. Their meeting was
successful and right afterwards he invited her to visit SF. They visited our
sister company’s office and invited one of their staff members to lunch.

They look so happy!

We look forward to hearing wonderful news
soon!

Take Action for Positive Change!

Some of our male members say that they are not ready to visit Japan. If it has
taken more than 3-6 months since you started communicating with our female member
or members, it would be better to plan to visit Japan as soon as possible this
year. Otherwise, our female members won’t believe that you are really sincere,
and they are likely to move on to another man. Women who are over thirty five
years old are especially serious about getting married now. They look for men
who are serious and will not wait for men who do not take action for more than
a year.

So, if your New Year’s Resolution is to
marry a Japanese woman this year, here is our sage advice that will help you
fulfill your dream. Decide to visit Japan this year and meet our lovely
Japanese female member or members. If you truly want to marry a Japanese woman this
year, it is truly possible, and the best way to make this dream a reality is to
visit Japan. Meeting our female members face to face helps immensely with
knowing whether she is the right person for you and vice versa.

Life is about going after opportunities when you can and not waiting for them
to come to you! Your life awaits you here in Japan! Go for it today!

December 23, 2013

Our first Speed Dating Event in Singapore was held on Dec 7th and 8th. The first day, we had about 50 attendees. Men and women sat face to face and talked to each other for 5 minutes and then switched to the next seat after that. 5 minutes sessions with 25 people equals more than 120 total minutes where all attendees were talking. It was a bit hard but it was fun!

There were some break times for snacks and mingle time. They exchanged their business cards freely and we were told that some of the attendees started corresponding individually.

The second day, we had a lunch meeting at One on the Bay, a Chinese restaurant which is located on the other shore of the Marina Bay Sands.

Most of the attendees live in Singapore; some are from Japan, Philippines, Bangkok, Vietnam, and Jakarta. We had some inquiries about the event from China, Korea, and other Asian countries.A journalist from KYODO NEWS came and collected materials as it was the first speed dating in Singapore in the Japanese society.KYODO NEWShttp://english.kyodonews.jp/We had a wonderful experience in Singapore. We will have events in Japan and Los Angeles. We invite you to join us!

December 04, 2013

I remember that it was early June when she enrolled in our Trial Membership.She and Luna, our Matchmaker kept talking.And, she chose some candidates and started as a Full Member in early July.A male client started communicating with her and visited her in Japan in the middle of September, and she decided to visit him after that.Things went smoothly for them. They had been thinking deeply about each other and they built up their committed relationship with sincere affections.It has been 5 months since they start communicating by email and Skype when they decided to get married. This was a fairly short time in our members’ records.They will try to obtain a fiancé visa for her. This will take more than 6 months to one year to obtain which is an incredibly LONG TIME, but it is normal. If you would like to start searching for a Japanese woman as a lifelong partner, you can learn from this example as to how long the process takes and figure out what to do right now.If you have already decided “I am going to be married in 2014”, please take action now!

November 19, 2013

Our family drives to Pennsylvania about every three weeks in order to get fresh spring water. It is about a 40 minutes’ drive from Baltimore, and it is great to breathe fresh air and feel peace in rural Pennsylvania.The owner of the spring provides spring water for free, so many people in the area make special regular trips to fill their water bottles and enjoy the fresh water. The owner also sometimes sells fresh eggs produced by their own chickens.Yesterday, when we were filling water in our sixteen bottles, a woman rushed in to get a dozen eggs. There are no people to collect money for the egg sales, but there is a payment box to make a payment. She placed some money into the box and left. I felt happy because she was honest.We have the same system in the countryside in Japan. Farmers sell produce along the street without anyone collecting money; there are simply collection boxes. I believe that there is a mutual trust between farmers and customers, and it works well, and I am grateful to know that there are many honest people on earth.I found an interesting topic: Honest Tea tests the honesty of the citizens in many cities in the US by placing unmanned kiosks

The top 5 results for the percentage of citizens who are honest for 2013:Oakland, CA 100%Salt Lake City 100%Boulder, CO 99%San Francisco, CA 97%Seaside Heights, NJ 97%

Reference:The National Honest Indexhttp://thenationalhonestyindex.com/Basically, I believe that all people are honest. Especially, when I meet someone in person, I talk honestly and I try to feel his or her honesty. If you are honest, honest people will come to you. That’s what I believe. If you would like to meet an honest Japanese woman as a lifelong partner, being honest is the key.

By the way, my name Naoko means “Honest Child”. My grandfather gave me this wonderful name. In order to appreciate my grandfather’s love and respect him, I have tried to be honest to everyone my whole life.

November 18, 2013

We will have a small Lunch Meeting Event on Nov 23rd in ShinjukuOur Special Hosts Visiting from the USA:LUNA and STEVEEvent Fee: 3,000 JPYWho Can Attend: MJL VIP ClientsA select group of our female members who live in the Tokyo area will attend. We hope you enjoy this great opportunity to meet our female members in person!Please contact us ASAP.

November 02, 2013

Long time ago, one of our female members visited the man whom she was
corresponding with in the US and stay there for three weeks to make sure if she
felt comfortable living there.

Since
he has a job, she was supposed to be in his house alone until he came back.
However, there was no internet access. He went to Starbucks when he needed to
go online. There was no car for her, she had no friends there. She was like a
bird in a cage for more than two weeks. She completed reading the books she
brought with her from Japan. She had nothing to do for most of the day and was there
alone. Finally, she gave up staying there and went back to Tokyo. Needless to
say, she and he broke up after that. I do not want to blame him, but there must
have been a better way for him to welcome her to the US and show her that he
really wanted her to stay with him and that he really wanted to marry her.

Before
she visits you, it would be nice to prepare for her to make her feel welcome and
happy. The best way to do this is to at least provide the following things for
her:

1)Fast
Internet access.

2)Area
map with your location and how to use the public transportation to the
downtown.

3)Local
information about shops, libraries, cafés, and restaurants.

4)Information
about Japanese community if there is any Japanese community near your town.

5)Locations
of rental car companies or Zipcar. She can drive if she has an international driver’s
license.

The
purpose of her visiting you is to for her to see if she feels comfortable staying
with you. If you pass this test, then your relationship will move on to the
next stage. So it is most important for you to prepare to make her happy.

October 27, 2013

My
son and I went to an apple picking picnic as an outdoor activity for his Japanese
class.

We
drove for 30 minutes from downtown Baltimore and saw peaceful farm landscapes
all around us. Since I had lived in central Tokyo, seeing the countryside is a
great experience for me.

If
your Japanese girlfriend says, “I enjoy a relaxing lifestyle,” you and she may
feel happy to live here together. However, most Japanese women may feel a
culture shock upon arriving in the US since living in Japan is extremely
developed, super convenient with buildings and stores everywhere, and most
people live in cities in Japan.

As
a matchmaker, I always tell our female members not to expect the same lifestyle
that they have now in Tokyo. I tell them to be openminded about their new
upcoming life in America and to be ready to create a new sense of value.

If
Japanese women have flexibility and can enjoy the differences between the American
lifestyle and the Japanese lifestyle, their life is going to be abundant.

If
your Japanese girlfriend has not yet experienced wild nature which urban cities
don’t have, it would be nice for you and her to explore the outdoors together.

My
son and I enjoyed a wonderful Fall day at the apple farm in rural Maryland
where we felt the warm sunshine and saw the pastoral scenes.