Advice on Wedding Day timeline at SRB & NOW

So after being in contact with Silvia my Wedding Coordinator (FYI all the brides that are freaking out because there is no response and your wedding is months away...I know I was there...however as of right now I am 31 days out from the wedding and I get responses almost in the same day and even unprovoked emails) I decided that it would be awesome to do our private dinner at the Eclipse night club - however that is only open until 9P for private events since it opens as a night club at 10:30 -

Our ceremony starts a 5P do you think it would be too much to go to the cocktail hour from 5:30/5:45ish-6:30/6:45ish and dinner from 7P-9P. I am not super concerned with all of the extras - garter toss, dancing, etc...maybe we just do a first dance, cut the cake, and do speeches - we can always go to another bar at one of the resorts and come back at 10:30 if we wish...

If not there is an option of having the ceremony at 2P - however we have someone flying down that day

the original plan was to have it a the relaxation pool but I like how Eclipse would be a bit more private