The couple arrived hand in hand for an afterparty at Zuma in New York City on Saturday, October 5. The 29-year-old “Cruel Summer” songstress and the 28-year-old actor kept close and smiled as they headed into the restaurant. Earlier in the evening, Alwyn was seemingly in the crowd as Swift sang “Lover” and “False God” during the sketch comedy show.

“She wants to get engaged to him. She just doesn’t feel as though she has to impress anyone at this point,” the source said in March 2018. “Joe feels privileged that he gets to be with Taylor. And he is happy being out of the spotlight.”

“They work out, watch movies together and have friends over,” the source said in December. “She’s much happier without her personal life out in the open. She credits Joe for that and realizes how much better off she is.”

“If you and I were having a glass of wine right now, we’d be talking about it — but it’s just that it goes out into the world,” Swift told the outlet in August. “That’s where the boundary is, and that’s where my life has become manageable. I really want to keep it feeling manageable.