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No.
I think it's the parents job to mold them into the right direction. Lack of discipline creates a monster child. Horrible parents create a monster child. Abusive parents create abusive children. If let's say down the road the child is now a teenager or young adult then during that time the child can either retaliate or put into motion everything their parent has talked them.

I think we are all born with our personality type. Its what our parents do with it that makes all the difference. My son and I are both hot headed - I have taught him how to handle it so he is not violent where my mother and I would get into major battles.

this wont be popular but yes. absolutely. my 3 year old is not my first child, he was my 4th. he was destructive and "mean" from the getgo, not a damn thing i could have done to change it. my other kids are nothing like him and i sure hope my 5th isnt either.

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