Mindfucking

I dislike the term ‘foreplay’ with its insinuation that penetration is the main event; and as though anything non-penetrative is trivial and frivolous compared to the Real Business of sticking something somewhere.

But even if I were to use that term as shorthand for ‘the introductory stages of sexual activity for the purpose of stimulating arousal’, I’d still have issues with the ‘play’ part. I like my getting-revved-up activity to be serious. Not necessarily solemn, but with focus, intent and dedication. No messing about here, I want to see hunger and need in your eyes. That turns me on, more than any caress.

Yes, I like my clit stroked and my nipples pinched. I welcome your cock in my mouth or your hands cupping my breasts. You can touch, hold, lick, bite; make me gasp, make me squeal – but if you truly want to awaken the wanton in me, start with my mind.

I never really thought much about the term foreplay (other than to know other people don’t like it) but I also don’t really use the term, either — not anymore, at least. What JB and I do together is sex and sexual. It feels good, and it’s not always penetrative, so I never thought to give the “warm up” the typical name because it’s all part of the greater whole.

Okay, so all that being said…YES to aaaaaall of this. This is my kind of sex/foreplay/warm-up/whatever we want to call it. YAS.

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I dislike the term ‘foreplay’ with its insinuation that penetration is the main event; and as though anything non-penetrative is trivial and frivolous compared to the Real Business of sticking something somewhere. But even if I were to use that…

I dislike the term ‘foreplay’ with its insinuation that penetration is the main event; and as though anything non-penetrative is trivial and frivolous compared to the Real Business of sticking something somewhere. But even if I were to use that…

I dislike the term ‘foreplay’ with its insinuation that penetration is the main event; and as though anything non-penetrative is trivial and frivolous compared to the Real Business of sticking something somewhere. But even if I were to use that…