Criticism

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Law of attraction and Learning to
Take Life Less Seriously

Criticism happens, doesn't it? It is never an easy task for anyone to listen to criticism from others.

When it does happen, however, you will want to
keep in mind that criticism doesn't always have to be negative, or taken as negative...no matter how it is intended or stated. Well, others will not want to hear
criticism from you, either. There are ways to talk to someone and give them a little bit of
advice, or even judgement, but it does not have to be in a way that would be upsetting or hurtful. Even when done with
care and courtesy, people will still feel the need to go on the defensive. You will find that
it is normally to want to correct others, but it is just as normal to
become defensive. You will need to look at the true reasoning behind
the criticism and you will need to learn how to find the benefits of
the criticism so that you can still keep your mind focused on the law
of attraction.

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You may also want to take into your consideration that you will need to learn
how to accept criticism graciously and learn how to use it to your
advantage by using it in a positive manner. You will find that accepting
criticism will help you to come closer to your goals, because
everyone needs to have the perspective of others to back reality back
into focus. You need to accept the fact that valuable
feedback will give you many opportunities to improve.

Be Brave and Face Your Critics

Another key to using the law of attraction and handling the criticism
is that you need to face it head on, instead of allowing the negative
feelings to wallow. Take everything as a way that you ca improve
yourself, but also at the same time, consider the source. When you find
yourself in a corner where you feel like you are being attacked, then
you might want to take a step back and use some of the following tips
so that you can keep your law of attraction positive attitude.

Facts over Feelings

First, you may need to pause what they are saying (especially if it is
hurtful) and ask for them to use facts and not feelings in their
reasoning. You will find that the minute that you ask for proof in the
numbers, then you will find the motivation behind the criticism. You
will find out if the source is trying to help or just trying to bring
you down.

Remind Yourself to Listen with Your Brain, not Your Heart

Also, you need to learn how to listen with your brain and not with your
heart and emotions. You need to use words like "I think", or "I know", and not "I
feel", because those who constantly allow their emotions to run high only end
up in the middle of a huge argument, instead of a constructive
discussion.

Always be a big enough person to admit when you are wrong. When you
know that you are "only human" or that you have just made an error in
judgment, then you need to own the wrongs to right them. This is
something that you should keep in mind for life in general.

Own Up to Your Mistake

Once you know that you have messed up, you need to be confident
enough, and honest enough, to own up to the mistake and take corrective action so that you
can improve your skills and abilities, but also so that you can keep on the positive path.

Even though there are going to be times where the criticism you encounter may seem
out of hand and very discouraging, you need to learn how to make
lemonade out of the lemons life has handed you. You will also want to make sure that you
take into consideration that there may indeed be at least a little truth behind the criticism that
has nothing to do with you. You need to be aware of other people's
feelings, even when others are not considerate of your feelings.

Even though it is hard to accept the negative responses, it doesn't mean that you have to react in a negative way.
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