Are men deep enough to take off the rose coloured spectacles and see past the superficial in life? Hold on before i get any angry emails i'm not "dissing men!".
However I am starting to suspect that some men view larger ladies as "easy targets" a reflection of their own insecurities.
Why am i here? The opportunity for socialising is rare nowadays i have family commitments and to be honest i just can't be asked to pretend i'm having a good time in the club/bar/pub!
I am inspired when i hear success stories i read the one's on this site and i go all "gushy" like.aaaaahhhhhhh!
Anyone out there (changing the subject again) Actually travelled across the waters to meet someone? Or is everyone looking on their doorstep only?

Are men deep enough to take off the rose coloured spectacles and see past the superficial in life? Hold on before i get any angry emails i'm not "dissing men!". However I am starting to suspect that some men view larger ladies as "easy targets" a reflection of their own insecurities. Why am i here? The opportunity for socialising is rare nowadays i have family commitments and to be honest i just can't be asked to pretend i'm having a good time in the club/bar/pub! I am inspired when i hear success stories i read the one's on this site and i go all "gushy" like.aaaaahhhhhhh! Anyone out there (changing the subject again) Actually travelled across the waters to meet someone? Or is everyone looking on their doorstep only?

Queens,That's what you women are! And you should be treated as such!The men that don't treat you with the respect and admiration that you so deserve,are not men, but mere boys themselves.if one can't get past the physical form and see the person within , then they aren't worth the time you take to smile and say hello.Smile my beautiful sistas, lift your head up and be proud! One should be so lucky to find such a strong ,caring,passionate,loving woman to come home to and embrace.I so look forward to one day reaching that level of happiness.Your inner beauty shines so bright,making your outter beauty glow with the light of the world that should be.I hope to meet such a Queen for myself.
Until next our paths cross.....

Queens,That's what you women are! And you should be treated as such!The men that don't treat you with the respect and admiration that you so deserve,are not men, but mere boys themselves.if one can't get past the physical form and see the person within , then they aren't worth the time you take to smile and say hello.Smile my beautiful sistas, lift your head up and be proud! One should be so lucky to find such a strong ,caring,passionate,loving woman to come home to and embrace.I so look forward to one day reaching that level of happiness.Your inner beauty shines so bright,making your outter beauty glow with the light of the world that should be.I hope to meet such a Queen for myself. Until next our paths cross.....

Hi Spice,
I read your Blog and feel your frustration, but don't despair my Sistah....I recently met a man, tho not across the seas, but in another state. Our first mtg he drove 4 hrs to meet me. Our second mtg and 1st date, I drove 4 hrs. It was great! Tho I was very nervous about such distance...the heart knows not of distance. So I will leap on faith....2 b continued

Hi Spice, I read your Blog and feel your frustration, but don't despair my Sistah....I recently met a man, tho not across the seas, but in another state. Our first mtg he drove 4 hrs to meet me. Our second mtg and 1st date, I drove 4 hrs. It was great! Tho I was very nervous about such distance...the heart knows not of distance. So I will leap on faith....2 b continued

I read your blog and it brought back so many memories of going out on blind dates and then having them look at me with either disgust or just make up an excuse. What would get me is that later that night when they took me home, they suddenly got all chummy and lovey, and wanted to spend the night. That was the part of the dated that hurt me the most...their thinking I could be used for just frivolous sex..then I met a man from the UK..a wonderful man who accepted me and loved me with all of his heart..believe me, it is worth waiting for..your a very attractive lady..and deserve the best..Best Wishes..Nurse Patricia

I read your blog and it brought back so many memories of going out on blind dates and then having them look at me with either disgust or just make up an excuse. What would get me is that later that night when they took me home, they suddenly got all chummy and lovey, and wanted to spend the night. That was the part of the dated that hurt me the most...their thinking I could be used for just frivolous sex..then I met a man from the UK..a wonderful man who accepted me and loved me with all of his heart..believe me, it is worth waiting for..your a very attractive lady..and deserve the best..Best Wishes..Nurse Patricia

What's up sistah?
Times have changed, nowadays you have to expand your horizons. Even tough I feel it's better to grow with someone...we all carry scars and are always on our guard. It's a shame because alot of look in vain for that "someone", but fail to realize that person is right up under our nose.
Never lose faith!!

What's up sistah? Times have changed, nowadays you have to expand your horizons. Even tough I feel it's better to grow with someone...we all carry scars and are always on our guard. It's a shame because alot of look in vain for that "someone", but fail to realize that person is right up under our nose. Never lose faith!!

ooooooooh i'm inspired! Well i might just sign up here now! (not that i'm cheap just signed up to others and well...waste of money & time).
The world truly is a global village and i guess we will have to take calculated risks and invest in our future including love life. For some it happens, like WHOOP! there it is....in the supermarket......on the train.......in the park just minding your own business and LOVE just "Boofs" you in the head (or heart), well others like us have to put a bit of work in it! Days like this i get up stretch and say "Uh-huh life is goooooood" Here i go.........jump right in...Weeeeeeeeeeeeeee!

ooooooooh i'm inspired! Well i might just sign up here now! (not that i'm cheap just signed up to others and well...waste of money & time). The world truly is a global village and i guess we will have to take calculated risks and invest in our future including love life. For some it happens, like WHOOP! there it is....in the supermarket......on the train.......in the park just minding your own business and LOVE just "Boofs" you in the head (or heart), well others like us have to put a bit of work in it! Days like this i get up stretch and say "Uh-huh life is goooooood" Here i go.........jump right in...Weeeeeeeeeeeeeee!

Well spice i have travelled the world twice for love and i know there is more than whats on my door step. As for your comment on large women and the thinking of them being easy, i have seen it first hand , but have also seen that same lady becaome a strong bbw who challenges the world.

Well spice i have travelled the world twice for love and i know there is more than whats on my door step. As for your comment on large women and the thinking of them being easy, i have seen it first hand , but have also seen that same lady becaome a strong bbw who challenges the world.

Hi, my name is David & I'm from Texas. I'm a new member just trying out this blog thing. You look very pretty in your photos. Can you let me no if you get this. My personal blog should be up in a couple of days. Hope to hear from you. Take care.

Hi, my name is David & I'm from Texas. I'm a new member just trying out this blog thing. You look very pretty in your photos. Can you let me no if you get this. My personal blog should be up in a couple of days. Hope to hear from you. Take care.