When you take them in, wait for a minute after you hand them to someone and then say "You are very welcome and have a nice day". That should shame most people.-----Tessa Onyx, Foudini, Charlee, Spottie, ShyRaven, Buddy, Tuxie, Widdle Attila Sipowitz, Lizzie, Minnie, ET, Mylo, Penny (We be house cats at last), and Salem, Wicca and Marmalade (We iz also house cats, we guess)and the 5 porch kits also Riley da goggie and Buddha da baby hamster tooTabitha and Samantha..always in our heartsA house without cats is like a garden without flowers