How many people out of high school or college in the past ~20 years even know the meaning of courting? If stopped on the street I'd be willing to bet at least 75% couldn't give a correct answer, and 50% of those would likely answer with something regarding the core system. SAD

What was he there for?
There are tons of reasons for having a court date. Not all are bad.
But he certainly did a terrible job of saying it.
And yet you still can't blame him. As much fun as it may be to dress up for a date, ive heard it was a lot more fun to dress down for a date!

of course not are all bad. He could have gotten a speeding ticket. You should always dress up for court no matter what. However, the fact that he needed to say he didn't dress up for OP means that he didn't care enough for the date to dress up on his own account and also, he doesn't care about hurting OPs feelings. I'd probably feel embarrassed after that, especially if I had taken the time to pick an outfit. It's hard being with an inconsiderate person. So I'd suggest Op run.

You're completely right.
The second part of my last comment was not serious.

I think that both parties no matter what should always treat dates with respect. That other person is taking time out of their day to be with you.
But you should also dress accordingly to the date. Don't wear dress up elegantly if you're going for coffee.
And yes, the man was showing a complete lack of respect for OP.

Most women I know will often wear high heels when dressing up.

So in the case that OP was wearing high heels, then how does she run away?

I've seen a lot of things, but a girl running with good form at their top speed in high heels is NOT one of them!

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