i offer you my heartfelt commiserations on your new found status as 'mother of teenager' ....it's still early days i can tell but mark my words this time next year you'll understand perfectly harry enfiels 'kevin ' Whats only slightly helping me through it is the knowledge that apparently teenager boys are so testosterone fueled that 'they would argue with a roadsign" . i've been adoping the ostrich head in sand approach and i think it's the wrong one .....have a stiff drink ....