So sorry about your BFN... :( (pg, mc ment)

It did seem hopeful in your story though, I was so sure the story would end with BFP...

back in Jan when I got my BFP my lining measured only 6mm at 1dpo, and I went on to get pg that cycle. It ended with m/c at 9 wk but my OB is certain that was not the problem.

I don't know much about surrogacy, but I've heard it is very expensive (much more than an IVF cycle and adoption), but not only because of the person--because of legal issues associated with it. If you have a family member or very close friend that you trust, then you might not have to pay them, but I think the legal fees would stay the same.