Thanks A LOT!!!

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Ladies, I am sooo freakin irritated right now. So yesterday, my dh helped my sisters and bil move from their apt to their new house. He literally did most of the work while they were still scrambling to pack and organize. Ok let me also mention that after working an 8 hour day (after five 12 hour days) he went straight to their apt, and missed my niece's end of season soccer party to do so. So, when everything was done it was about 7-8 ish. My sister told us to hang around bc she was going to buy dinner. Well she didn't leave til about 9:00 to go get food and drop off the rental truck. They had to shower first, (while my dh had to sit in his own sweat).... Well we waited for an HOUR!! Kaydee fell asleep and dh was falling asleep and both of our phones were dead. So we did what any normal people would do, we left. My younger sister was still at the house while we were waiting, but instead of coming to keep us company she stayed in her room after her shower.... Yeah. I went to her room b4 we left to call older sis and let her know we were tired an ready to go but she didn't answer. So this morning I get a text from her "thanks for leaving. If I had known you were goin to leave I wouldn't have wasted my money buying food for y'all" OMG are you fkn kidding me?? Thanks for leaving? Not thanks for helping?!?! Uugghhh!! Then my younger sis commented on a photo on ig that I Should have helped. Um ok let me leave my 8 month old unattended to help y'all... No. I helped as much as I could while Kaydee played in her walker at the new house. I wasn't going to tote her back n forth in and out of the car seat, not to mention have her around all the dust and dirt from the old apt... How grateful they are! I feel like ripping my hair out right now.......

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Ladies, I am sooo freakin irritated right now. So yesterday, my dh helped my sisters and bil move from their apt to their new house. He literally did most of the work while they were still scrambling to pack and organize. Ok let me also mention that after working an 8 hour day (after five 12 hour days) he went straight to their apt, and missed my niece's end of season soccer party to do so. So, when everything was done it was about 7-8 ish. My sister told us to hang around bc she was going to buy dinner. Well she didn't leave til about 9:00 to go get food and drop off the rental truck. They had to shower first, (while my dh had to sit in his own sweat).... Well we waited for an HOUR!! Kaydee fell asleep and dh was falling asleep and both of our phones were dead. So we did what any normal people would do, we left. My younger sister was still at the house while we were waiting, but instead of coming to keep us company she stayed in her room after her shower.... Yeah. I went to her room b4 we left to call older sis and let her know we were tired an ready to go but she didn't answer. So this morning I get a text from her "thanks for leaving. If I had known you were goin to leave I wouldn't have wasted my money buying food for y'all" OMG are you fkn kidding me?? Thanks for leaving? Not thanks for helping?!?! Uugghhh!! Then my younger sis commented on a photo on ig that I Should have helped. Um ok let me leave my 8 month old unattended to help y'all... No. I helped as much as I could while Kaydee played in her walker at the new house. I wasn't going to tote her back n forth in and out of the car seat, not to mention have her around all the dust and dirt from the old apt... How grateful they are! I feel like ripping my hair out right now.......

I have decided that I am not putting up with family drama anymore and am not going to forgive and forget! If our family wasn't our family and were just friends, we probably would have ended these friendships a long time ago! Don't even let it bother you. How ungrateful!!

I have decided that I am not putting up with family drama anymore and am not going to forgive and forget! If our family wasn't our family and were just friends, we probably would have ended these friendships a long time ago! Don't even let it bother you. How ungrateful!!

Dani, yes that is how I feel sometimes like if we weren't family I wouldn't be friends with them. I swear I feel like we have to walk on eggshells around them bc they get so offended so easily and take things so personal. I love my sisters and all but I just don't see eye to eye with them. Sometimes I feel bad for not wanting to hang out with them, I feel closer to DH's sister than my own sisters sometimes bc she respects me and is always there for me not just when it's convenient for her. My sisters have no problem accepting favors from me but when it's the other way around there's always some excuse... to the point where I don't even want to ask them for anything anymore and when they ask me I'm hesitant to agree but somehow always feel guilty about saying no & give in. Not only that but my older sister always has something to say about how I raise Kaydee. She doesn't come right out and say stuff but she makes comments that make me feel uncomfortable like she doesn't agree or support me. Like the other day she told me "someone" told her I was annoying bc I always put big bows in Kaydee's hair. Ok I understand haters are gonna hate but why would she tell me that instead of keeping it to herself. Part of me felt like she made it up just so she could indirectly criticize me you know?

Dani, yes that is how I feel sometimes like if we weren't family I wouldn't be friends with them. I swear I feel like we have to walk on eggshells around them bc they get so offended so easily and take things so personal. I love my sisters and all but I just don't see eye to eye with them. Sometimes I feel bad for not wanting to hang out with them, I feel closer to DH's sister than my own sisters sometimes bc she respects me and is always there for me not just when it's convenient for her. My sisters have no problem accepting favors from me but when it's the other way around there's always some excuse... to the point where I don't even want to ask them for anything anymore and when they ask me I'm hesitant to agree but somehow always feel guilty about saying no & give in. Not only that but my older sister always has something to say about how I raise Kaydee. She doesn't come right out and say stuff but she makes comments that make me feel uncomfortable like she doesn't agree or support me. Like the other day she told me "someone" told her I was annoying bc I always put big bows in Kaydee's hair. Ok I understand haters are gonna hate but why would she tell me that instead of keeping it to herself. Part of me felt like she made it up just so she could indirectly criticize me you know?

My sisters and I are opposites so we do run into issues know and then. It hurts more than with a friend. I have one sister that I always have to give her her way. It's so annoying. Take some time to cool off and stay away from family for a while :)

My sisters and I are opposites so we do run into issues know and then. It hurts more than with a friend. I have one sister that I always have to give her her way. It's so annoying. Take some time to cool off and stay away from family for a while :)

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