Thanks for your message! It turns out that Alfred's gravestone cannot be found. A Find A Grave volunteer walked the entire cemetery, and found several Wears, but not Alfred. She said a number of the pre-1900 gravestones are no longer standing, so maybe Alfred's is one of them. I really appreciate her looking through the entire cemetery!

Alfred Wear is not part of my family, but is part of my husband's. Alfred is his gr-gr aunt's first husband.

Thanks again for your note. Aren't FindaGrave volunteers great? You can meet the best through this website!Kathie