QuoteReplyTopic: Wearing weaves the only way you can be HOT? Posted: Nov 18 2012 at 11:25am

Those men are straight up fools. You should not want to wear weaves to appear hot/attractive...don't let any man dictate what you should do to your hair just for he can date you. If you feel hot/attractive with braids then continue and you will find a man that would accept you for what you are-braids and all.

Those men are straight up fools. You should not want to wear weaves to appear hot/attractive...don't let any man dictate what you should do to your hair just for he can date you. If you feel hot/attractive with braids then continue and you will find a man that would accept you for what you are-braids and all.

Those men are straight up fools. You should not want to wear weaves to appear hot/attractive...don't let any man dictate what you should do to your hair just for he can date you. If you feel hot/attractive with braids then continue and you will find a man that would accept you for what you are-braids and all.

^^^ This all day long ..They are not worth you. You have to love you and it doesn't matter what some 'immature boy/man' thinks. Someone that cares about you will like you for you, braids and all. Don't ever change yourself to try and please someone else. You like your braids wear them proudly you are hot with or without them it comes from within. ....

From their point of view, I can understand what they're getting at. Braids, imo, and on myself, can often make a woman appear younger, and more child-like. Perhaps that's what they were trying to, ignorantly, get at. Maybe with braids you look more innocent, and young.

However, are they right in that braids can't be sexy, hot or attractive? Hell no.

They have no right to talk to you as if your looks are for their benefit, and that you have to present yourself in a way that's pleasing to them. Ignore their ridiculous commentary.

You do not need long, flowing, silky hair to be hot, or attractive. It's a common, false, belief.

If you like wearing weaves, go for it. If you prefer braids, go for it. Ignore the commentary coming from immaturity and ignorance.

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