See him the way God sees him.

“Confess to one another therefore your faults (your slips, your false steps, your offenses, your sins) and pray [also] for one another, that you may be healed and restored [to a spiritual tone of mind and heart]. The earnest (heartfelt, continued) prayer of a righteous man makes tremendous power available [dynamic in its working]” James 5:16, Amplified.

Through all of the challenges my husband and I faced over the 20 years that we have been together, one reason I stayed with him was because I didn’t want to leave and someone else reap the benefits of all the prayers I have prayed for him. I knew God was going to transform his life, I just didn’t know when. I knew God would help him learn how to lead our family, but I didn’t know when. I knew God was going to show my husband how to be the man He called him to be, I just didn’t know when. I prayed for him more than I prayed for myself, and God has answered my prayers.

A trick of the enemy is to cause a woman to become so hardened in her heart towards a man that she no longer prays for him with compassion and faith. Her heart is so angry that her once humble and sweet prayers turn into a bitter venting session about what he is and is not doing.

For a real man to change, it requires the hand of God. No matter how good the sex is, how good the cooking is, how fine your body is, or how encouraging your words are in his ears, it takes the power of God’s Holy Spirit working in a man’s heart and mind to bring true change. It requires your faith and your patience. I believe that every man wants to be the man God created them to be, they just don’t know how. Keep praying and interceding for him in your private time with God. Declare that he is a Psalms 112 man and other scriptures God leads you to declare over his life. He may be a good man, but God desires to make him into His man who He can use to fulfill His purpose and plan. God is no respecter of persons. What He has done for me and countless of others, He will do for you!

Prayer: Father God, thank you for ministering to my heart. I pray for the man you have given me. Way before he was mine, he belonged to you. You love him far more than I ever could. I ask that you cause him to see himself the way you see him. Open his heart to receive your love and your wisdom. Teach him how to lead our family. Help me to believe the truth of your Word and to be patient. Help me to be the wife he needs and to see him the way you see him. Make him into the man you destined him to be. In Jesus ‘name, Amen.

Read Romans 8:34; Hebrews 10:36

Recommended Resources: Stormie Omartian “The Power of a Praying Wife”

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3 thoughts on “See him the way God sees him.”

I keep praying for mine and he’s been battling addiction since I’ve known him. We had been together 10 yrs now but I just left him because he relapsed once again and treats me very poorly. He is extremely emotionally and mentally abusive but often I think if he went to counseling and if he could manage to stay sober, this will change. Sadly, I have very little hope now of us ever being together again but I ask for help in prayer that he may listen to the lord and get the help he needs and then from there that the lord do his will. Maybe we are just toxic together. I don’t know but if we can’t be together, please pray for me to that I find the strength to be at peace with it and find happiness as well. Thank You for all of you as well

Even though I am not married I spoke this message and prayed the prayer over and for my son’s life. Thank you ladies because he too WILL become ALL God created him to be before he ever hit my womb. In Jesus name Amen.