What Makes for an Exhilarating,
Earth-Shaking, Unbelievable Quantum Orgasm?

Sizzling
Sexuality

If you
were to actually be intimate with someone who was in fact sizzling, you would find the experience most
off-putting, more like waiting for a breakfast of bacon than enjoying the act of love, or at least, sex.

So words
like 'hot' and 'sizzling' are not be taken literally, especially by young folks, because people tend to become
noticeably more unpleasant the hotter they get, and this has always been so.

But in a
way, with sex being partly electrical in nature and

involving
a lot of friction, it's not too far off the mark.

When
molten lust is at its peak and your orgasm is an electric volcanic eruption, words like sizzling and
red-hot certainly come to mind.

But is
this the reality for people most of the time?

Running at Full
Capacity

People
have a vast capacity for experiencing joy and ecstasy, but sadly, most of them never discover this fact. They
live their lives and then exit toes-up, never having experienced the heights of human passion, pleasure and
emotion.

Apart from
the odd little thrill, people's lives are often boring, tiresome and unfulfilled. They spend a lot of their time
fantasizing about and chasing the ultimate sensory experience without ever actually having it.

The
closest they come to feeling that way is possibly during the teen and early adult years, when a brief intimation
of what might be sexually achievable flashes across the screen of possibilities before it fizzles out or settles
down to a bare simmer and curls up with a box of chocolates and a good book.

The
stresses of everyday life combined with an ignorance of the true capabilities of the human body and its
energetic systems dooms almost all of humanity to a drab and colourless third-dimensional life in which their
full sexual potential is never reached.

Having
established what an orgasm is in the article 'What is an Orgasm?' we will now look at how to have bigger, better and more frequent love-spasms.

What Makes an Excellent AAA
Orgasm?

Most
people would agree that the longer and stronger an orgasm is, the better it will feel. Quality, duration and
strength are the most important factors.

The
following tips may aid you in your sensual quest:

·During sex the stomach and abdominal
muscles should be relaxed, not taut or clenched, both before and during orgasm. One of the largest impediments to a
satisfactory orgasm is the holding of tension in the wrong muscles. This is linked to breathing.

·Maintain deep eye contact with your
lover. The eyes transmit a special energy that can deepen orgasmic experiences.

·Emotional intimacy and trust allow for
more complete relaxation during sex and a better, stronger experience.

·Set the mood. Anything that pleases or
stirs the senses will heighten the entire erotic experience for you. Be aware of the colours, flowers, scents,
fabrics and textures that surround the area you are planning to make love in, and create a sensual
love-nest.

·A very erotic way to increase intimacy
between you and your partner is to get into some body art. Learn about mehndi, the ancient art of painting the body
with henna. You can buy mehndi kits, or just purchase some non-toxic body paints. Cover each other in art and then
take a nice long shower together. Caution: you are not indulging in
urban graffiti here - no spray cans!

Breathing

Breathing
is very important, not merely so you can stay alive, but also because by learning control of the breath you
are also
learning to control other, more subtle functions.

Wotta
Tripp suggests enrolling in a tantric yoga class to learn about breath control and its role in your
sexuality

Hypnosis

This is an
excellent tool for creating extra bliss and stronger orgasms.

A person
who has been hypnotized can achieve orgasm through the action of the brain alone when given the suggestion to do
so.

Wotta
Tripp is not suggesting that you do this, but rather that you experiment with
self-hypnosis and see if you can learn to increase your pleasure in
this way. If you are not comfy with learning this art in order to use it on yourself, seek a professional
hypnotherapist's help.

People can
use hypnosis to improve many aspects of their lives. Do a little research and decide if there is a place for
this technique in your life.

Hypnosis
works in tandem with the brain itself, which is in reality the major sex organ of the body. It's where it all
happens.

Wotta
Tripp is hopeful that nobody is wantonly foolish enough to misunderstand her words and attempt direct brain
contact with any type of foreign object or sex toy via the ears or nasal passages.

Health

Your
health has a definite impact on your ability to experience fantastic sex. One of the best and most fun ways to
get fit is dancing.

Learn
Salsa or some other form of vigorous and sexy dancing with your lover and then go dancing once or twice a week.
It will help keep you fit, spice up your love life and make you more responsive sexually.

Get a good
balance of rest and exercise.

Ladies who
frequently practice Kegel exercises will have better control over orgasms. Learning the art of belly dancing
will also be helpful.

Make sure
that you have a healthy diet. Foods high in saturated fats, starches and sugars make the body and mind sluggish,
impairing the ability to experience very strong orgasms.

Try and
have a whole food diet with a lot of vegetables and a little lean protein, such as chicken or fish, if you eat
it. Many dairy products cause acidic conditions in the body that can lead to lassitude, mucus build-up and
ill-health, but yogurt is very good for you.

Drink
plenty of pure water. Eating pineapple or drinking pineapple juice is very healthful and will also make bodily
fluids taste sweet.

Never Fake an
Orgasm

Learn how
to communicate your wants and desires to your partner properly.

Communication is one of the keys to
good sex. Being Eager is not the same as being competent.

Never fake
an orgasm. Women do this the most, but men do it sometimes as well. If you do fake it, your lover will think
that they are doing things right and continue in the same way.

You'll
never have a fabulous orgasm like that.

And if you
have no gift for acting, your partner will know - they might well
figure it out anyway - and then the issue will become one of trust instead.

There will be hurt feelings and tears before breakfast. Practice honesty and have
respect for your lover.

Besides,
if when you are attempting to fake the highest moment of physical love you look like a neurotic racing horse
which has just this very moment been badly startled, you will in turn startle your partner, who might have the
moment indelibly stamped upon their brain, and not in a good way.

You also run the risk of sounding similar to a Tibetan yak in the midst of a
rather difficult birthing experience.

Alcohol

Having one
or two drinks can relax you and your lover and overall enhance your sexual experiences.

Drinking
more than that will have the opposite effect, leading to a depressed nervous system and an inability to have a
stellar experience.

It can
also lead to an upset tummy, frequent urination, flaccidity, slurring and stumbling, passing out in the middle
of sex, arguing, sleeping in separate rooms, snoring maniacally and feeling very poorly the next
day.

None of
this is conducive to the wildly wonderful climaxes you are probably seeking.

No Baggage

Leave your
emotional baggage outside the door of whichever room you are having sex behind. It is unfair to bring up past
grievances while you are having sex with your partner.

Relaxation
is most important.

It may be
difficult to achieve orgasm while bearing a grudge or having a heated argument. Telling your lover that your
first partner performed with more finesse or suggesting separate holidays is not going to improve anyone's
overall performance.

Know Your Bodies

Make sure
that you understand how your body and that of your partner works.

Dame Wotta
Tripp is not here to explain the various special places and alphabetical hot-spots that are scattered across the
human anatomy, or the many sexual techniques available to try out on them.

This
information is available all over the place.

She
labours instead through her advice articles to provide you with the basic information you need to lay the
groundwork for taking control of your body and its functions, catapulting it over the edge of humdrum, every-day
human sex into a brand new land of multi-coloured super-orgasms.

Positions for Pleasurable
Paroxysms

Everyone's
body is different and unique, and some are definitely more so than others.

Nevertheless, most people deserve an
opportunity to enjoy peak experiences, so experiment with different positions while having sex until you find
the ones that are most satisfying to you.

The Kama
Sutra may be the oldest sex-education manual in the world, but it also is so comprehensive that it might not
have missed a single sexual position out.

Nobody has
yet managed to figure out any new positions that aren't already in there. For this reason alone you should have
a copy of the book.

You will
find free copies online.

If Dame
Wotta Tripp held a competition to see who could find a

new
position that hasn't already been addressed, she fears it would end in multiple injuries rather than multiple
orgasms.

Also, it
may not be wise to take the other types of life-advice you will find within the Kama Sutra seriously, as most of
it really isn't appropriate for this day and age.

Attempting
to follow some of the strictures in this tome could even lead to your arrest or ostracization.

The Multi-Orgasmic
Male

A lot of
people think that only women can be multi-orgasmic, but this isn't true at all.

For men
who wish to achieve this state there must first be an understanding of the way sex works and why. They must have
a good grasp of the male anatomy, as well as a proper knowledge of male sexuality and the techniques used to
bring about multi-orgasmic bliss.

There are
differences in chemistry that occur during the male and female orgasm. A woman has the ability to be
multi-orgasmic naturally because of her unique chemistry, but a man does not.

Many men
think that having more than one orgasm means having an orgasm, losing an erection, gaining it again and
proceeding on to have another orgasm. This is not what multi-orgasmic means.

Multiple
orgasms occur one after the other with no loss of arousal in between them. These orgasms are not accompanied by ejaculation, except for the final orgasm in the sequence
when ejaculation finally takes place.

The men
and women who properly understand human sexuality and put their knowledge into practice enjoy sexual experiences
that most people couldn't even fantasize about.

Study the
sexual arousal cycles of men and women and you will discover that they are different, but that there are
techniques that are designed specifically to bring about multi-orgasmic experiences in both men and
women.

These
techniques must be learned and properly implemented in order to achieve success.

But a man
can learn the correct techniques to be able to experience this state for himself fairly simply. Investing in
yourself and upgrading your sexuality will be well worth the time spent.

Mint Lubricant

A
little-known trick that women will appreciate, using lubricant that has mint infused into it increases sexual
enjoyment considerably. Please Note: do not use chewing gum,
especially if a lady is un-waxed.

Massage

Learn how
to give an excellent massage to your lover to heighten their entire experience with you. Tantric massage is
especially good. Buy a good book or take a class.

An erotic
massage is obviously useful during sexual encounters, but massage
can also be used simply for relaxation and health.

This is
something that lovers can learn together, and Wotta Tripp recommends that you do so. It will considerably
increase your pleasure.

Extended and Full Body
Orgasms

The
extended orgasm is something many people seek but few achieve.

As with so
many other desirable things it is worth pursuing.

For a
woman, one of the best ways to achieve this state is using The Brauers' Extended Sexual Orgasm (ESO) technique, which you should
research and then put into practice.

This
should allow women to remain orgasmic for half an hour or more.

People
don't generally realise that it is also possible to have an orgasm that encompasses the entire body, rather than
just the genital area. The article'Tantric Sex'in this section of
Dame Wotta Tripp Advice will explain this enticing possibility in
more detail. It's a peak experience that is worth working towards.

Wotta
Tripp strenuously advises you to pursue an understanding of modern-day Tantric practices and add them to your
love-making in order to attain peak sexual experiences of the physical body.

It will be
an attainment you take great joy in for the rest of your life, and you don't even need a
partner to begin your sensuous voyage of
self-discovery.

Waste not
a second more! Learn how to extract bliss from the sexual energy that floods your body and fill your life
with ecstasy.