A project I’ve been working on with my friend Maura Egan landed today on Refinery29: No, You Can’t Have It All — & That’s Okay. We’ve really been amused and comforted by talking to other women abut how they are navigating their forties — parenting and adulting while balancing work, kids, aging parents, sagging boobs, Instagram, downward mobility, gray hair, and so much more. We’ve been getting interesting feedback. Glad to know we’re not alone in our modern midlife crises.