Venus in Libra...

The Venus in Libra person is attracted to anything refined, classically beautiful, peaceful, and kind. As far as people, this translates into those who are fair, tactful and considerate. If you are crude, abrasive, selfish, dirty or even too loud, they will simply avoid you. Their taste is sensitive and well developed.

The most valued element in the life of a Venus in Libra person is fairness, which in relationships, is known as equal treatment between people. Venus in Libra people can be the easiest and the most difficult people in a relationship. When both people in the relationship are giving and taking equally, it's like floating on a bed of rose petals. The relationship hums along beautifully with each person giving help and psychologically stroking the other person.

To a large extent, the Venus in Libra person feels their own sense of worth and value through other people. If they think other people like and approve of them, they feel good about themselves. This dynamic causes them to put a lot of effort into pleasing other people so other people like them. This way, they can like themselves. It can put a lot of pressure on the other people. For the more down-to-earth people who don't analyze relationships like Libra people do, it can be downright frustrating.

However, if the Venus in Libra person does something kind for someone out of the goodness of their soul and the sentiment isn't returned, the whole relationship can turn sour. This is very difficult for them to accept or forgive. This can put a lot of pressure on those in relationships with a Venus in Libra person. You have to keep things fair and sometimes you just wish they would stop doing nice things for you because you just can't keep up with always returning the favors.

If the Venus in Libra person does something for you and you never asked for it, or worse yet, don't want it, you are still obligated to thank and return the favor. Yes, remember that fairness and equal treatment are the most valued ideas for those with Venus in Libra.

As an air sign, Libra is fundamentally intellectual and they view their relationships intellectually. This is why they have these "understandings" about reciprocation and fairness. It's the ideas about how the relationship should be that is always their focus. This can make them seem a bit removed from the actual guts of the relationship and more like unemotional calculators who keep score because they are lost in their ideals rather than in their feelings. The more emotional signs may have difficultly accepting this.

In the end, Venus in Libra people truly value the ideals of fairness and harmony above all else. For those who understand and appreciate this, they are a dream come true. They will always treat you fairly, make you feel appreciated and hold you in high regard. They follow the "Golden Rule" and will treat you exactly as they would have you treat them. They will respect you. They are kind, thoughtful and considerate. Venus in Libra people are truly nice, which is absolutely wonderful. Just make sure you are also kind to them. If you are, you'll have a relationship that is forever peaceful, caring and harmonious.