How Can You Get Full Custody of Your Child?

Obtaining Full Custody of Your Child

Calmly discuss child custody with your spouse. In some instances, parents may come to an agreement without a costly and emotionally draining court battle if full custody can be agreed upon by both parents.

Hire an attorney who specializes in family and custody issues. Fully brief the attorney on the objective reasons why you should be awarded exclusive custody of your child. "He or she was a bad spouse" is not an example of an appropriate reason for awarding full custody.

Be prepared to explain to the court why you are the parent who can provide for the best interests of the child. Financial stability, emotional stability and the presence of other siblings and family members all serve to enhance your case for custody. Showing that the child has a stable and happy home with one parent is not a guarantee of exclusive custody but will aid in proving who can provide for the best interests of the child.

Provide information showing why your spouse is not suitable for joint custody, including any history of abuse or instability. Mental or physical instability of one parent can result in the granting of full custody to the other parent. An arrest record is not conclusive evidence but may serve to influence the court as to the probability of the child's stability if raised exclusively elsewhere.