If
G-Spot Female Ejaculation is one of the Great Sexual Wonders of the
World, then Deborah Sundahl is Wonder Woman. In her book,
Female Ejaculation and the G-Spot, she invites all women and their
lovers to enjoy this once esoteric phenomenon that is just now flooding
the world with pleasure.

Ladies:
Uncork your champagne! Gentlemen: Get ready to get wet!

Called
by a variety of names, from the poetic to the worshipful to the silly
to the crass, "Female Ejaculation" is variously called the
Nectar of Aphrodite, the Fountain of Venus and the Champagne of Sex.
I call it the Geyser of Love, a sparkly spritz of pussy perfume, a
waterfall of womanhood, a broken fire hydrant, a vaginal hurricane,
a rainforest treat, a baptismal sexual revelation. Yes indeed, it’s
Holy Water, Brothers and Sisters, and it’s good for the soul, not
to mention the skin.

Squirting!
Spurting! Spraying! Splashing. Gushing.... Female Ejaculation is carnal
proof that a woman's ability to hit her lover right between the eyes
with her orgasmic juice is equal to that of a man. Often, female ejaculation
is even more profuse and forceful than the male variety. Thus, its
importance is not only erotic, but political, as it is tangible--not
to mention tasty--evidence of female sexual power.

Yes,
indeed, Sisters: One political message of female ejaculation is: lay
down your arms, pull off your panties and shoot the gun between your
legs! And while you're at it, you could try getting your man to lay
down his arms by baptizing him in the healing holy waters of your
liquid love. Hey, couldn't hurt to try. That means you, Sister Laura
Dubya B. On second thought, you could just piss on George.

Speaking
of urine, of course, that's what the naysayers say this is. Over the
years, the subject of G-spot female ejaculation has stimulated a thunderstorm
of debate among sex researchers, doctors, sex educators and porn stars.
Detractors insist that there is no G-Spot, that women who squirt are
just peeing while they're coming, and all this hoopla over G-spot
female ejaculation is nothing but a glorified golden shower.

But
those of us who have experienced the power and glory of G-spot female
ejaculation—giving or receiving--know that it exists. This is not
a matter of faith, Brothers and Sisters, this is the science of sex.
We're still waiting for a detailed chemical analysis by a chemical
lab (and I hereby offer my studio as a place for any reputable chemist
to gather specimens). But in the meantime, we're not holding back
the floodgates. Those of us who "believe" in squirting believe
it because we can see it, we can smell it (and it doesn’t smell like
pee!), we can taste it, and we can feel it. And it feels good. Yes,
it does.

And
this *feel-good* aspect is perhaps another reason that the naysayers
have held sway over the years. Female ejaculation is a pure recreational
pleasure that has no direct role in procreation, except that women
who squirt may, over the millennia, have procreated more, simply because
we tend to enjoy sex more.

Throughout
history, prominent scientists and philosophers have reported experiencing
the forceful release of fluids from the vagina during sex. We can
begin with the Western world's most famous ancient scientist, Aristotle,
who wrote about the phenomenon of women's vaginal expulsions during
sex, maintaining that they did not have the appearance or aroma of
urine, nor did they stain the lady’s toga.

The
first modern description of female ejaculation came from a 17th century
physician from the Netherlands (just going to show that the Dutch
have been open-minded about sex for a long time). Dr. Regnier DeGraaf
wrote about the urethra being pierced by large ducts through which
fluids are discharged, "occasionally in large quantities."
Sounds like Mrs. DeGraaf must have been soaking the sheets.

In
1950, a German obstetrician, Dr. Ernest Grafenberg, found a spot within
the vagina which he soon named after himself: the G-spot. He discovered
that stimulation of the G-spot could lead to expulsion of fluid from
the urethra. "Large quantities of a clear, transparent fluid
expelled not from the vulva, but out of the urethra in gushes.” Sounds
like Mrs. G was a gusher… And if it wasn’t Mrs. G--well, I won’t go
there.

Now
we have another important pioneer upon the slippery path of G-spot
female ejaculation: Deborah Sundahl, whose discovery of her own ejaculate
in a puddle on the floor led her on a wild, soaking wet journey into
the center of an orgasmic storm.

Deborah
is the master, not just of the physical side (though she’s quite a
long distance squirter herself), but of understanding and explaining
how G-spot female ejaculation works in terms of the body, the mind
and the soul.

In
fact, I first heard the term “G-spot female ejaculation” from Deborah
herself back in 1992 at a Lifestyles Convention, having wandered into
her seminar quite by accident. I had never heard of such a thing as
women having "squirting" orgasms, at least not on purpose.
Neither had anyone else in the seminar.

Now
it seems like everybody’s squirting, or trying to squirt, or trying
to get their lover to squirt, or asking about how to do it. And Deborah
is the Godmother of the Squirting Mafia, the Go-To-Gal of the 21st
Century Explosion in Female Ejaculation.

Over
the years, she's produced three videos on the subject. And now, finally,
she has written a book. Though it goes into some of the history and
mythology of female ejaculation, it is primarily a "how to"
book, and in this respect, I must give Female Ejaculation & the
G-Spot a resounding and very personal endorsement. What I mean is,
it works!

Learning
about sex from books isn't for everybody. But books have always helped
me with my own sexuality. I learned how to have my first orgasm from
Betty Dodson's Sex
for One (then entitled Liberating Masturbation). Now I've learned
how to squirt from Deborah's book. I must admit that hosting a "Squirt
Salon" with her on my show also helped, and so does having
a husband who adores it. But it was the book that got me started.

I
should also confess that I'd ejaculated before, but only with literal
hands-on help from another expert and friend, Axel (The G-Man) Braun.
Never had I done it on my own, at least not voluntarily. Deborah's
book taught me how to do to that; that is, how to make myself squirt.
My very first self-propelled female ejaculation experience, with Deborah's
book in one hand as my other hand rubbed and pressed my G-spot, soaked
my panties and the towel I was sitting on, and seemed to make the
police helicopter circling above me screech to a halt in the sky.

Since
then, I've been able to squirt voluntarily during sex, and even on
the show. During our Squirt Salon, I soaked the cameraman. So did
my other guests, Squirting Stars Annie Body and Leila Swan.

If
you're also the type that learns sexual techniques from reading instructions
and ogling diagrams, and if you really want to learn to squirt or
if you want to help your female lover to squirt, Deborah Sundahl's
Female Ejaculation and the G-Spot is the book for you (if you
prefer videos, you might want to check out our Squirt
Salon). I believe that any woman who really wants to squirt can
do it. But just because it's "natural" doesn't mean every
woman can do it without help. Just as many women, like me, need to
learn how to have an orgasm, most of us need to learn
how to ejaculate. And guys who are interested need to learn how to
help.

As
with any kind of learning, the first thing you need is motivation.
Some, maybe most, women are just not motivated to do this, and that's
fine. You don't have to ejaculate to be a very happy, orgasmic, sexual
woman. Some women don't have time, of course. When you're worried
about where your next meal is coming from, squirting is not at the
top of your list of things to do. For some, it's "against their
religion" (which says only men should wear the pants and do the
squirting in the family). Some women think men don't like it. Fact
is that some men do; some don't. The ones that do tend to be the kind
that really enjoy and seek out women's pleasure, and aren't too fussy
about getting soaked.

Speaking
of which, there are practical issues. Some women just don't like sleeping
on wet sheets. I confess this to be one of my own problems with squirting
regularly. Female ejaculate doesn't stain, but it does tend to soak
everything within a 1-6 foot radius; just think of spilling a glass
of water in bed. You can put a towel down, but a really good squirt
soaks right through the towel. Best to do it in the bath, on a nice
clean floor, on the roof, or best of all, in a bed you won't be sleeping
in that night.

Face
it, G-spot female ejaculation is one of those decadent pleasures,
like fresh oysters, that require the right circumstances and preparation,
as well as post-pleasure clean-up. Is it worth it? Well, aren't fresh
oysters worth it, at least occasionally? Yes, they can be bitches
to crack open, but if you succeed, you have yourself a real treat.
So, isn't reaching a new height in sexual pleasure worth a little
effort? I think so. But then, I love fresh oysters. At least, occasionally.

Once
you've got the motivation, you might find yourself squirting like
a sprinkler system with just a little concentration and some good
G-spot rubbing sex. More likely, you'll need some instruction, which
you can obtain through books, videos, the personal touch, whatever
works for you. Maybe this little article is enough to get you going,
or perhaps you need to read Female
Ejaculation and the G-Spot and/or watch a video
on the subject. Some of you may need more instruction than others.
Some of you may have pyschological or physiological *learning disabilities*
that plug up your porthole, so to speak. Don't be discouraged. If
you really want to squirt, eventually you will. Every woman can. Most
of us hold it back for myriad reasons, good and bad, crazy and sane,
conscious and unconscious. But we can all squirt. Remember: the human
body is about 75 per cent H2O. It's just a question
of letting a little out.