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Thursday, January 24, 2013

Signs Your Boyfriend Is Losing Interest

Signs Your Boyfriend Is Losing Interest

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Studying how to recognize the signs your boyfriend is losing interest can save you lots of anxiety and heartache. When you understand men better, you can finally stop wondering if you're being over-sensitive, and figure out what to do when he is having tired of you instead.

Study on to see whether you should be worried about the state of your relationship...

Sign #1: He picks on you.

Do you remember a time when you could do no incorrect in his eyes? A time when your flaws seemed lovely to him? When a man is interested in you, it's easy for him to look past your flaws. But when your boyfriend starts losing interest in you, and doesn't want to be honest about it, you'll notice him picking on your faults... increasingly. No matter how hard you work to change and please him, nothing seems to be good enough.

Dear girlfriend, if you have to give in to him most of the time - in order to keep the peace in your relationship, it's a strong sign that your boyfriend is losing interest. A man who is serious about you will do his best to please you. He will be HAPPY to please you - instead of you having to please him.

My advice is it's time to stop letting him bully you and pull away from him. If he doesn't treasure you the way you are now, there are no guarantees he'll love you - no matter how much you change.

Sign #2: He's too busy to come and look for you.

When a man is genuinely interested in you, he will find a way to come and look for you. No matter how far, no matter what time of the day. "Too busy" is simply an excuse that's easy to make. Don't become the woman who goes out of her way to go and look for him. If he doesn't have to work hard to chase you, he won't treasure your presence and relationship. He will get tired of you if you do all his work for him. Hence, if your boyfriend uses the reason "I'm too busy" more than once a week, as a reason not to ask you out on a date, it's a warning sign that he's losing interest.

My advice is to stop waiting around for him. Get busy pursuing your life goals and allow yourself to make friends with other men. He needs to know that if he's too busy to come and look for you, other men aren't. You don't belong to him and you deserve to have a boyfriend who can't wait to see you everyday.

Sign #3: He doesn't initiate contact even when you don't contact him.

Resisting the urge to contact him first when he doesn't contact you can be very hard (I know it used to be one of the hardest things for me). It takes practice to not call, text or email him first. But you MUST resist... so you can make sure how interested your boyfriend still is about being in a committed, long-term relationship with you. If he doesn't voluntarily contact you for more than a day, I would take it as a sign your boyfriend is losing interest.

My advice is to ignore his calls and let him sweat a little. If he doesn't apologize and do something to make you smile, prepare to move on. Don't forgive your boyfriend's bad behaviour too easily... because your actions now will determine the way he treats you in the future as well.

Picking on you, using busy as a reason not to date you and not contacting you daily are warning signs your boyfriend is losing interest. Take my advice and walk away when he is getting tired of you. You deserve to be adored and cherished by a man you love.