Welcome to Bullshido. The fact that Bullshido helped you reach that light bulb moment is why we are here.

Thank you.

8/06/2009 8:49pm,

patfromlogan

That's why do-gooders like jnp are here. I'm here for the ego gratification and bragging opportunities.

Sounds like with BJJ, KK, and kickboxing you have some good choices - check 'em out, and any good school will let you work out at whatever level you are comfortable with - anything that hints of being urged to go beyond what you consider safe and fun should be a warning bell. So I wouldn't worry about being out of shape or new to the art.