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I'm gonna be single forever.

Dating / 5:16 PM - Saturday January 30, 2010

I'm gonna be single forever.

I'm a bitch and I'm ugly. No amount of therapy is gonna fix my personality and no amount of plastic surgery or make-up is gonna fix my face. The only thing I have going for me is I'm not fat. Should I just give up?

You've just shown us you're good at something, at a minimum. You could be a "pity party" planner. You have first hand knowledge on how to throw those and there are plenty of other insecure girls out there you can provide the service to.

No. Practice your smile. Make it genuine. It's miraculous how much change there is in people when they project inner content and happiness. Best wishes. Oh, yes, that also means getting rid of the 'bitch' content.

- Response by stoney07, An Intellectual Guy, Male, 66 or older, Who Cares?

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I usually don't look, but this time I checked the responses that you received and all gave you positive re-enforcement. I shall also give you positive feedback by answering your question. Yes!

You have within you the skills to become a nice person and with make up and the right attitude, you won't look what you think is ugly. Your personality has more that you know to do with what you look like. Being a bitch it totally within your control. So YOU work on yourself and come up with a new person. Others have reinvented themselves and so can you!!!!!!!

- Response by barbb, An Alternative Girl, Female, Who Cares?, Other Profession

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You already have. You mean, should you snap out of it? Should you love yourself? Should you seek some therapy to find out why you have such a horrible personality and low self-esteem? Then, I can say, yes; you should. But, how can we seriously tell you to give up, with what you've just stated about yourself here?

Believe it or not, you just might find someone who will find you attractive, faults and all. As far as being ugly, I don't believe that. If you fix yourself up and wear attractive clothing this will help. The main thing that is ugly is your attitude about yourself. Change that, and your world may change for the better.

No, you just have excuses for everything in your life. When you become accountable for yourself then maybe you'll develope some self-esteem, dignity and self-respect. You have all the answers for yourself you just don't have the guts to be honest with yourself.

Your a being a little to hard on yourself, I don't think there's such a thing as ugly. Did you know that term developed when they used to describe the way something was developed not a person. During my growing years and people I grew up with that I thought was this or that now days are living happy lives with husbands and children. Your young so just let your life grow you'll find someone and this will be a passing moment in your life thast you'll never look back at again.

Yes. Give up being desperate. No matter your looks or personality, if you are happy with yourself and your life, someone will find you attractive. Stop thinking about single or not and start to enjoy your days.
And dress well.

It's really sad to see someone look down on themselves for whatever reason. Admitting to the fact that you're a bitch is one thing, calling your self ugly is another. I personally believe everyone is beautiful in their own way. You hear that from your parents all the time, and I believe it. There are some women who wouldn't wouldn't wanna look twice at. But I mean so what? Don't lose hope is all I have to say.

Your not going to be single forever; but most likely you will never find true love. After 21 years of age, most and if not everybody has had a SO. Whether it endly negatively does not matter, there will always be drama and there will always be questions for you or your SO.

That is why I hihgly value virgins and put them as priority over others when I date. Just remember: virgins in sex, but not virgins in love.

This is true, Laffy. I am amazed that you're going to come out of the closet at last! :D

And yeah, you should stop making up stories about women who are dating you on Answerology AND you should stop chasing men who do not know that you are male on Answerology. Those would be excellent first steps. Seriously.