from whom you listen most Father or Mother or Some Other?

I am moody guy well listing is good skill
while in my family we are four members where i always listen carefully whenever my father explaining anything to me.
and tottaly opposite with my mom I rarely listen from here. whenever she was saying somthing probably i was doing something else.
Actually i love both of them lot. but still my father teach me or exprianced me lot things in life. he know exactly how to survive with life.

u act same like me .. i dont listen to mom advice or instructions much .. but have the feeling that my mom talks to me with more love than my dad.....
but i have to listen to my dad ... maybe its love or maybe its fear..

yes there is equal love with both, but with father there is some fear too. b'coz if we did some wrong thing then we can say as much as easy to mom rather than father. so may there is father.
one more thing is in our society father have main member of our family who takes most of the decisions related to our family.