I love dirty talk, whether I'm the one doing the talking or being talked dirty to. I've often found it helps push my fiance over the edge and vice versa. Although, usually I'm the one doing most of the talking, but that's true in general, lol.

I'm not into the name calling type of dirty talk, however being told what and or how you ladies like something in particular is what I enjoy and really spins my wheels. Generalizing for a mo - women have been asking for years for equality, sooo where's the equality in the few ladies that lay there letting/expecting there partner do all the work and believe me some are hard work. I have had a few partners like this then recently I had the privilege of being told what this awesome friend wanted / needed e.g. - as i was sucking on a nipple she simply asked in a lovely quiet sexy (non demanding) voice "suck harder"

I had a boyfriend who talked dirty during sex, and it really turned me on, especially when he whispered in my ear. But the moment he began calling me his 'fuck bitch' - or 'slut whore', really turned me off quicker than blowing out a candle. I just loved him whispering hoarse with desire what he wanted to do to me and how good I made him feel. I was too breathless to talk back. Loved it, but didn't like being humiliated or verbally put down.

I think it's a function of getting over that particular hump. I know women like it when I talk dirty to them during sex, and if one partner does it the other generally finds it easier to join in. Which is fun for everyone.

i dont mind doign ti before sex to turn him on but while im sucking on him its quite annoying to hear him ask me to talk dirty while im trying to give him a blow job, what would he rather have a blow job or nothing

Absolutely...I love dirty talk.. I love to talk dirty, but more then that I love it when a guy talks dirty to me, the dirtier the better as far as I'm concerned. It is just so hot, and makes me feel like I can be open about my dirty fantasies if he can. But like Dancing Doll said it really has to do with your partner, and what they are comfortable with, and learning to read them. I too tailor my talk to my partner. And Vance, I would be extremly turned on if a guy ever said that to me. ;)

how many women would be hurt or offended if a man were to say " i want fuck you like i own you and i dont care if you like it"

that will turn me on.

i do like dirty talks, not sure with the humiliation. but it prob depends whether the guy can set the mood rite or not. read the girl's reaction! be 'sensitive' on things that matter. I mean, she prob will enjoy the things that you fear will hurt her, or prob otherwise around. communication is needed in bed too you know.. lol. but for myself, i like both 'dirty' moment and 'loving' moment in the right timing. variation is great! (okay, i'm losing myself here, better stop now.. lol) xD

I usually talk real dirty when I want him to give it to me harder. Sometimes I talk dirty to make him do kinky things. I like to be talked dirty to when I am getting it doggy style. The real dirty talk and spanks on my ass make me cum real good.

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I had always been turned off when guys on here would talk dirty or tell me they wanted to FUCK me...But with my current Boyfriend it is different it turns me on... the first time he told me I was his Mother Fucking Bitch I kinda froze during sex and I said nothing and he noticed it and he stopped and pulled me to him and held me tight and said baby you know you are not a bitch I am only role playing with you and he asked me to call him a Mother Fucker so we have progressed to this role play of an " Old school gangster thug type" of play and it fucking drives me nuts.....

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It's timing and partner! I couldn't imagine getting fucked and not saying a word, I am definitely a dirty talker, borderline raunchy at times. Of course I'd never spew out something raunchy when making love to my husband unless I was trying to change the pace of things!

I have a really filthy mouth during sex, much more than at any other time. It's all part of the fact of being turned on and enjoying it. And being told I'm a great fuck is good for my ego lol ;)The Filthy World of Naughty Annie. Three new stories, now available from the Kindle Store:

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