But if you are a Christian, abstinence when you are already married doesn't make you any more holy. God made sex pleasurable. I don't think he would mind if you had some fun in the bedroom. God, Christians who don't even know the bible piss me off.

You sparked my interest when you mentioned that you were asexual and I was hoping you could answer a few questions.

- Do you feel physical pleasure when engaging in sexual activities?

- If so, why do you never partake in sexual activities? Regardless of the fact that you are attracted to a person, you could still enjoy the basic physical pleasure of sex or masturbation. Since pleasures are a great deal in life such as enjoying a good meal, listening to good music, laughing with friends,... all these activities activate the reward pathways in the brain with release of dopamine causing happiness etc which would also be the case for you?

Sorry for my ignorance. Perhaps you just don't have the need for it even though it does feel good similar to how other people might not 'need' to enjoy good food or don't care much for music etc?

I am not professorrowan however I wish to clarify, or add, a few things for you since you seem interested: Asexuality is the lack of sexual attraction to anyone or low or absent interest in sexual activity. If you're Asexual you can find pleasure in certain sexual activities: There are different levels of Asexuality like how there different levels of Bisexuality, Google "The Kinsey Scale" if you don't understand. So yes if you're Asexual, thought not all, you can find pleasure from sexual activities.

really? I don't know but as you can see every creature is alive thanks to reprodiction, every form of life is programmed in DNA to reproduce themselves, everything in nature is about sex, just look at the animals they fight for the female, have you ever seen a dog that would say meh, i am not gonna **** that bitch, THEY **** EVEN YOUR LEG, every creature wants to reproduc...

Yes every creature is alive to reproduction but it doesn't count every single one; cause certain animals can be gay and that doesn't lead to reproduction: So not every form of life is programmed to reproduce themselves. Saying you're asexual doesn't mean **** - it just means you aren't attracted to either gender: Why the **** is this such a big ******* deal? Can't people just understand "I may not like sex at all, I'm the 1% according to a study in 2004."

no it's really not, asexualism is a thing, not everything is about sex for humans, which are higherups to animals so quit comparing their methods to ours. INB4 we are animals. Asexualism is probably just something along the lines of a complete lack of the hormones and **** necessary to care for sex. It makes sense, sort of like that old explanation for gays.

The only reasons i can think of for you to be asexual.
1. You have complications with you're genitalia
2. A complete lack of hormones/sexual desires (As you stated)
3. Every Man/Woman you can **** don't deserve to reproduce (i.e Stupid, Bigoted christian)

I hate to be that asshole who throws questions at you, but are you really asexual? Because almost every aspect of psychology, biology, and evolution relates to sex in some way. Are you actually asexual, or have you just not gotten laid in so long that it doesn't seem appealing to you? Or possibly gay? I hope you don't think I'm being an asshole I'm just curious

I don't mind questions as long as you're genuinely curious and not trying to find an inconsistency and prove that I'm lying, I really am asexual, sex has never been appealing I didn't just lose interest one day, and guys are just as unappealing as girls so I'm not gay either

I don't know what I'm missing out on because I've never experienced it but I don't really care because I have other goals instead of getting laid, like writing a best seller novel, or getting a job and moving out of my mom's house

I think I might move out with my brother and a couple of his friends, when they move out, my brother is only four years younger than me and he just started college so it'll probably only be a couple more years until we move out together

I'm a little bit nerdy but not enough to make girls avoid me, and I've never been friend-zoned because I've never wanted to date a girl, I tend to avoid them because I am socially awkward but I also avoid guys too because I don't like interacting with other people regardless of gender

how can I give up on something I've never tried or wanted to try, I avoid girls, because I don't want sex, and I don't like interacting with people, if you think giving up on sex is so easy why don't you try going a month without it

Cheap shot. Abstinance till marriage is fine, and in fact helps focus self discipline, which many people in this world sorely lack. Also, with all of the STD's out there and other crazy **** that can happen its STILL not a bad idea. although, my wife and i ****** like rabbits before and after we were married...soooo.....

However, their reasoning is stupid. Married couples can do whatever the hell they want in a bedroom in Christianity. >.> Their stupid "double holy" relationship is the dumbest thing I ever heard, their marriage will end horribly, most likely in violence.