Making an untimely orgasm work for you in a threesome

So your first threesome, you can’t believe it is finally happening, you’ve fantasized about this moment for so long!

Too fantastic

The girls are kissing, undressing each other, you’re feeling them up while rubbing your crotch against somebody’s leg, holy shit, so now you’ve got a different vagina in each hand while sucking on a delicious hard nipple!!! Someone hungrily reaches for your cock, starts rubbing it, this is too much, this is….

And all of a sudden you can’t control yourself as you come in a wave of joy mixed with embarrassment.

Damage control

Fuck! The girls can’t believe you came already, and all the action came to a screeching halt.

Now what? Well, if you have lemons you make lemonade. Act like you’re in control and move the scene to something that doesn’t immediately require a hard cock on your end but will be entertaining and erotic enough to keep them from having second thoughts.

If you’re lucky you are at a place with a bathtub or a shower big enough for all three of you.You assure the girls that the party has just begun, have them start the shower while you fix some drinks, and prolong that chapter as long as you can by soaping them up and encouraging them to play with each other, buying you time to recover for round two. It’ll be a lot easier for you to rise to the occasion after you’ve taken the edge off with a drink and 20 or 30 minutes of hot, steaming, soaped up wet bodies sliding against each other.

Ways to satisfy

Make sure they both get their rocks off at least once, preferably simultaneously at first, a good way is to lean with your back against the wall and have them both lean to you with their backs to you, that way you can reach around and finger both at the same time while taking turns kissing their necks and sticking your tongue in their ear to heighten the sensation. If one comes before the other, give her a moment and then encourage her to help with the other.

If no shower or tub big enough for three is available, have one of them lay naked on a towel on the bed while you and the other girl massage her body with a warm wet sponge, and while doing so finger and lick her to a climax. Then do the same with the other girl. Use your judgment who’s the most patient of the two; that one should go last.

Again, it is paramount that both girls come at least once without having to wait too long (preferably at the same time if that can be accomplished), it will negate the fact you already blew your load somewhat, and it’ll make it easier for them to come again, as it keeps them in a heightened state of erotic lust.

Both the shower and the bed scenario have the benefit that the girls get all the attention, which will make it more likely they return the favor later on once you’re up to it again.

Obviously it would be much better if you could manage to not blow your load too early (some tips for that can be found in The optimal threesome experience), but either way it’s a good thing to spend as much time as you can pleasing both girls early, as that is usually very rewarding in the end, and improves your chances of another threesome down the line.