No note...I drove over to her brothers house to talk to her b/c I figured that's where she would staying. She ignored my calls (I pay her cell phone bill). Walked right in, and she told me she was done. She was battling some trust issues from an incident that happened 2 years ago. I thought it was water under the bridge, bu I guess it was making her crazy.

No note...I drove over to her brothers house to talk to her b/c I figured that's where she would staying. She ignored my calls (I pay her cell phone bill). Walked right in, and she told me she was done. She was battling some trust issues from an incident that happened 2 years ago. I thought it was water under the bridge, bu I guess it was making her crazy.

so wait, let me comprehend this a bit. She NEVER brought it up in 2 whole years, then all of a sudden. Seems to me it's her OUT, but I dunno, I think there are other reasons if you ask me. Not saying there is but that's my first reaction to why she'd do that. I mean overall, the last 2 years, I'm guessing it was a good relationship

she definitely brought it up the first couple months after it happened...and after it did, I gave her no reason to not trust me. She had access to my phone, email, etc. Yeah we got along great...did lots of fun stuff together. I just booked a cruise for us for the week after Christmas this year two weeks ago. I better be able to get my $$ back, or at least be able to take someone else.

she definitely brought it up the first couple months after it happened...and after it did, I gave her no reason to not trust me. She had access to my phone, email, etc. Yeah we got along great...did lots of fun stuff together. I just booked a cruise for us for the week after Christmas this year two weeks ago. I better be able to get my $$ back, or at least be able to take someone else.

she definitely brought it up the first couple months after it happened...and after it did, I gave her no reason to not trust me. She had access to my phone, email, etc. Yeah we got along great...did lots of fun stuff together. I just booked a cruise for us for the week after Christmas this year two weeks ago. I better be able to get my $$ back, or at least be able to take someone else.

I say, bring someone else, bring a buddy or friend that's a girl but totally platonic. You did give her reasons NOT to trust you for awhile after the incident, but she should have explained her feelings in those two years. I know MOST men don't wanna hear the ladies babble about feelings and crap, but here is a reason to bring them up.