In a shocking new report, an ex reveals Jake’s dirty secrets — and many are wondering if the former Bachelor is gay.

We thought it was weird when Vienna Girardi, 24, said Jake Pavelka, 32, suddenly stopped being intimate with her for months — but it turns out she’s not the first girl he’s done this to! “Jake did the same thing to me,” Jake’s ex-girlfriend Tanya Douglas tells Star magazine. The couple dated from 2008 to 2009, and Tanya says she believes Vienna’s claims 100 percent. “He told me that he had to abstain from sex for religious purposes until we were married, which is exactly what he told Vienna. It was so weird, because we had already been intimate! It’s bizarre to change overnight like that.”

And the Jake-bashing continues, as Tanya also poses the million-dollar question on a lot of people’s minds: is Jake gay? “I always wondered if he could be,” she admits to the mag. “There were a lot of signs. … Jake would get really giddy [with one particular male friend] and the two of them were very touchy-feely.”

She also says Jake once told his mom he needed to see a psychiatrist because he was “confused.”

Star even speculates that Jake may have had a fling with Bachelor Padcontestant Juan Barbieri. Though Juan, 37, denies it, sources say he and Jake were seen at West Hollywood gay club Micky’s in mid-2009 and they were acting like a couple!

Wow. Another day, another batch of Bachelor rumors. HollywoodLifers — given this new information, we want to know…