Eyeing that guy for some time but don’t seem confident to go
ahead and tell him? Worry not, as help is at hand. With our tips and tricks,
you’ll be able to steal that guy’s heart in a jiffy. Or better still, you may
even become so alluring that all the men would make a beeline for you!

So here are some of our best suggestions on how to make a boy
love you.

Top 16 Tips on How to Make a Boy Love You

1

Look Your Best

Let’s face it. The first attraction is always physical. And
more so with guys. So when you go about hunting for your man, look at your most
attractive. Nothing extravagant, it could be wearing a dress you like, smelling
nice and always carrying that bright smile of yours.

2

Wear a Positive Attitude

Your optimism, more than anything else, will reward you with
lots of friends. And yes, boys too! If you want to know how to make a boy love
you, simply show a positive attitude around him. Guys will be naturally
attracted towards you. Add that killer smile of yours and you are golden.

3

Love Yourself

Be yourself, you may have heard a thousand times. For good
reason, as it’s absolutely true and if you be and love yourself, others will
love you too. So how do you love yourself? Be aware of your positive qualities
and don’t be shy to show them off in front of him! And of course, examine your
weaknesses too and work on them.

4

Flirt with Him

Don’t be afraid of flirting with him. If anything, it’ll come
as a pleasant surprise to him, as girls usually wait for guys to take the lead.
You don’t have to be overtly physical, just an occasional touch on his shoulder
while chatting or a light tease on his knee while laughing will really entice
him towards you.

5

Listen Patiently

If you’re the chatty kind (and which girl isn’t!), just hold
your horses for this time and let your guy talk. Even if his conversations veer
towards sports and politics, topics you find dull, just listening to him will
make you tremendously attractive. And if you can add your inputs to the
conversations, all the better! Slowly you will find him asking you a lot of
questions as well, there’s your chance to bring up topics of your interest.

6

Don’t Be Gossipy

You can be the most gorgeous girl in the block but if you
gossip too much, it can put off any guy around you. Here’s how to make a boy
love you: keep your gossip and catty comments about other girls away from him.
It may be difficult at first but the reward may well be worth it!

7

Shower Him with Compliments

Do it excessively and he’ll suspect you to be a flatterer;
don’t compliment him at all and he’ll find you dull and uninterested. There’s a
fine balance you’ll have to maintain when you want to shower him with praise.
Talk about his great dressing sense, sincerely compliment his professional
achievements and things he is good at.

8

Check If His Hobbies Match Yours

If he loves going on treks and hikes and you do it too, you’ve
made it easy to make him fall for you. There’s nothing a guy loves more than
having his girlfriend share his hobbies and passions. So get to know his
interests and see if they match yours.

9

Mind Your Body Language

Your body language is your secret weapon if you want to know
how to make a boy love you. With a few subtle body moves, and you don’t even
have to speak a word, you can lure him towards you.

Maintaining eye contact shows him that you’re interested in
him. Don’t be a creep and just keep staring at him; only maintain eye contact
to get his attention. Also use facial gestures to show you are finding the
conversation very interesting.

Don’t droop down. It will convey the message that you are
getting bored. Stand nice and straight while talking to him. Time and again,
tilt your head towards him while chatting. This is another subtle hint that you
are interested in him.

10

Be Unique

What separates you from other women? Apart from being yourself,
tell him about your interests, your career ambitions and your secret desires.
Don’t give an impression that you’re completely flawless. It’s okay to
occasionally mention some of your more harmless weaknesses. This will make you
unique in his eyes and he’ll gravitate much more towards you.

11

Get a Life

Don’t be that clingy, overly obsessed girl who insists on
spending every moment with her guy. He will appreciate you more if you show him
you have an independent life and your own set of friends who you spend time
with. You are also busy with your career or school and actively pursue your
interests. Ironically, the more time you spend away from him, the more he’ll
admire and crave for you.

12

Be Creative

Create new ways to tell him how much he means to you. It could be arranging best seats for him for the Saturday night game or gifting him things that improve his lifestyle (a Vitamix is a good example). Sometimes, it’s those small gestures that will touch his heart more than anything you tell him.

13

Display Sense of Humor

Show your witty side and don’t be afraid to laugh along. Guys
love girls who can crack a good joke and even take it on themselves. Your sense
of humor will open him up more to you. If you can make him laugh, you know how
to make a boy love you.

14

Cook for Him

An occasional meal cooked with love and you will have him
wanting more from you and of you! It doesn’t have to be very fancy, a simple
treat or two will keep him gushing all day long and he will look at you in a
totally new way.

15

Be His Confidant

There’s always a temptation to tell all your private chats to
your close friends. Resist that temptation. Even if he doesn’t ever get to
know, it’s simply bad manners to tell your intimate conversations with him to
others.

16

Don’t Jump into Bed with Him (Yet)

Give him enough indications that you are more than just your
body, and he’ll respect you as a person. Holding off sex will result in both of
you giving time to your relationship before things get more intimate.

These are very good points for any girl who is looking to make a boy fall in love. Some of these tips are amazing and some thought has been put into this nicely composed article.
If you want the above rules to work every time, you need to learn to feel the rhythm of the interaction. Be in the moment, and pace yourself, move slowly. angela @ getyourguyhq.com

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