So at this point, roughly half of respondents have a problem (11) and half don't.

Anyone care to speculate: Is this because half the cars have a problem and half don't, or is it because half the drivers are much pickier than the other half? Or, is it perhaps somehow related to driving style and the adaptive feature?

Perhaps some of those voting its fine have 35s which, in my experience, is different and does not have the same issue. It also seems that some find that there is less/no lag when the software is new or reset so perhaps it is an adaptive software issue