Invitation Information _ An invitation should include all the basics __ address, date, time and the guest of honor, but there are other important nuggets that parents may be wondering about. Indicate if a child should be dropped off or if you'd prefer an adult to stay. (Dropping off usually begins around age 5 or 6, but it's still a good idea to let your preference be known.) If parents do leave their children, get a phone number where they can be reached if there are any problems. Also, note if you are serving food so people know if they need to feed their kids, and if possible, let them know what's on the menu to alert those parents who have kids with allergies. Include an RSVP date and don't feel funny about following up with a phone call if you don't hear back.

Two to Three Days Ahead _ When planning a birthday party, it's best to think ahead. We have birthday preparation ideas that will keep you organized leading up to party day. Plus, get our best birthday party ideas. Planning a birthday party shouldn't be stressful! Let this party planning timeline serve as your birthday party checklist. If you follow this schedule, you will throw a perfect party and keep all of your ducks in a row. Everyone will be invited, the food will be tasty, and each guest will have an amazing time. It just takes a little forethought and some birthday preparation. Sticking to one birthday party theme makes planning your party a breeze.