"More women orgasm through oral sex than intercourse but many feel anxious about it. They stress about smell and taste, and relinquishing control.

Ian Kerner, author of She Comes First, says: "The average man can maintain genital thrusting for two-and-a-half minutes before ejaculation, but the average woman requires 15 to 18 minutes of persistent clitoral stimulation to have her first orgasm "That twelve-and-a-half-minute difference is a gaping maw of frustration on the part of women."

Cunnilingus is all about perseverance. And consistency - but with enough variation to keep it interesting."

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