Our server supports wordpress.org we transferred all of our files but we can't figure how to make the current blog and the other blog 1 or move it so that it is self hosted. We will be able to fumble through the rest I think but that is the biggest problem. We have a couple of people who would like to advertise with us but I don't feel comfortable until we have this squared away

Have you tried just copying the code directly? That's what I did, after I uploaded my new theme onto my self-host provider's servers. It didn't take too long. Feel free to contact me if you have questions. I may be able to walk you through it.