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Friday, October 14, 2016

Friday.com: Is it Bothering Love or Smothering Attraction?

I’ve got some issues with attraction that has
been bothering me a while now. And I am confused how to relate attraction with
or to love. Is it possible to be attracted to someone you’re not in love with
or love someone and not be attracted to that person? How is it that two people
look at themselves and are drawn to each other like an iron unable to resist
the force of a magnet. Series of questions that I hope someone will provide an
answer to.

Is attraction
based on the individual look, (exude sexiness, the figure 8 or 6 packs....) if
so, how much does look have to play? What about the personality? If is based on
that how come people with terrible attitude still find others tripping over
themselves to get to them? Maybe Delilah and Samson could provide a sensible
answer to that. Or is it something deeper?
If it is something deeper could it be termed love then?

Which needs
to come first; love before attraction or attraction before love? How easily
could one get to mix these feelings up? Where
do one stops and the other begins? Which is considered to be stronger? Is it possible for attraction to be one
sided as love could be? You should know the iron can’t resist the magnet
neither can the butterfly or bees resist the pollens. Could one be attracted to
more than one person at a go?

If attraction
is not love, is it possible for it to lead to love? Honestly I’ve been trying
to wrap my head around these. But just haven’t succeeded. You could try if you haven’t succeeded
too and if you do, be kind to help us by placing your comments.

That’s it,
Friday don come abi na show e show? Any which way na way.... Have a beautiful weekend.