Should I keep my baby or not?

Iv found out that I’m pregnant a couple days ago and ever since iv been in two minds of what to do, I’m not with the father never was but iv told him for him to turn around and say his not fussed/bothered what I choose which didn’t help, iv got my mother and friends for support but I can’t seem to talk to them! I... show more Iv found out that I’m pregnant a couple days ago and ever since iv been in two minds of what to do, I’m not with the father never was but iv told him for him to turn around and say his not fussed/bothered what I choose which didn’t help, iv got my mother and friends for support but I can’t seem to talk to them! I never thought I’d be in a situation like this, everyone’s telling me it’s my choice but I really don’t know what to do and need some advice,

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are you a murderer? that is a human being. I am sorry you made bad choices and got pregnant. But killing a human being to try and erase your bad choices is not really an option, it is just making things worse. If you cannot afford to raise the child as your own, give it up for adoption

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If you are not ready to raise a baby, then you should put it up for adoption so it can have a good life with two loving parents.

if you are not a self-sufficient adult AND you cannot provide for this baby on your own then it is irresponsible and unfair to have it. I was 18 when I got pregnant and I had all the support in the world, but it would have been irresponsible of me to have kept it. While I was a self-sufficient adult (meaning I lived on my own and could take care of myself) I was not going to be able to take care of the baby on my own. Only because I was only 18 (just an immature teenager). I would have relied on my family for support and guidance since I did not know how to be a mother. I (and the baby) would have been a burden to anyone I would have needed to ask help from. Also, I would have ruined my future. I am so grateful I aborted. I am now 34 and very successful and almost done with my PhD as well. That never would have been possible if I had kept the baby. I also just didn't it. I wasn't ready nor did I want the responsibility.

Abortion IS murder. Please Choose Adoption for the love of this baby. Please choose parents that have been married for a few years and very financially stable. As a Nurse Epidemiologist, I have helped in adoptions both professionally and personally. My oldest daughter chose adoption to give her baby the best life ever... that was 30 years ago. Now she is married with 2 adult children.

You are choosing adoption to not only make parents happy but a large extended family. Also, your whole pregnancy will be paid for... clothes, medicine, all out of pocket expenses. So keep all of your receipts.

My daughter was a teen mum and gave up her life to raise her son but she could not have done it without my help and she has just graduated from university with a Masters Degree but she is 38 years old. If you decide on abortion it is not our place to judge, Good Luck

OK so are you financially able to support a child for 18 years? Do you have medical insurance if you live in the U.S.? Does it cover maternity care? Is your mother willing to watch a baby while you work? If not, who would? If you go on to date someone else, would your mother watch a baby while you stay overnight at your boyfriend's house? Will your job cover an extra $100 a week, which is what a baby costs? Can you work and live on your own?

What happens if you get sick? Who would watch the baby then?

Personally, you should see a doctor and get tested for STIs, since you weren't using condoms.

BTW, you're not a breeding dog that has to have a child and give it up to others. There's no reason why you should have to be pregnant for nine months because someone else 'might' want to adopt a newborn.

Abortion is usually the best option for
most women about 90% of women admif regret
ever having kids the other IO% are lying.

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Should I keep my baby or not?

Iv found out that I’m pregnant a couple days ago and ever since iv been in two minds of what to do, I’m not with the father never was but iv told him for him to turn around and say his not fussed/bothered what I choose which didn’t help, iv got my mother and friends for support but I can’t seem to talk to them! I never thought I’d be in a situation like this, everyone’s telling me it’s my choice but I really don’t know what to do and need some advice,