Thats the first thing i did. Emergency gear release doesnt tell computer that the car is in neutral there is no errors on the transmission they check that as well

So what is it showing on the dash?? How do you know it's stuck in 3rd?
Inpa must show if its stuck in 3rd.
Theoretically it might stuck bc of sudden engine stop. Well if nothing helps remove the pan and move that shifter manually. Weird neutral release should have helped, it
Moves the shifter no matter what.
It's not showing "N" on the dash??
If it was stuck in 3rd you
Would get tranny errors for sure, so find out what's going on there.