no sex since conception !

Yes you read correctly , last time Dh and I were intimate was July 25 2012 - day after ovulation. This seems Crazy but it just seems like its a no go zone right now. My ob says its ok but I just don't feel like its necessary and Dh seems to think the same ?Anyone else been without sex since conception. ?!

Yes you read correctly , last time Dh and I were intimate was July 25 2012 - day after ovulation. This seems Crazy but it just seems like its a no go zone right now. My ob says its ok but I just don't feel like its necessary and Dh seems to think the same ?Anyone else been without sex since conception. ?!

We're the same way. Last time we had sex was July 30th. At first the morning sickness and exhaustion got in the way but then I had some issues and the doctor advised us to not have sex. That was 4 weeks ago and I haven't been back to the doctor so I haven't received the okay to do the deed again.

We're the same way. Last time we had sex was July 30th. At first the morning sickness and exhaustion got in the way but then I had some issues and the doctor advised us to not have sex. That was 4 weeks ago and I haven't been back to the doctor so I haven't received the okay to do the deed again.

What!? That's crazy! The blood flow is going down there so you should try and enjoy it before the baby. I swear its ok and if you're not feeling ok then that's one thing but you should definitely try. I had a tough birth and couldn't have sex for a solid 10 weeks after DD. it made me glad that we did it often through pregnancy. Just sayin! No pressure at all and I'm not tryin to be judgmental. I promise, I know it can be hard too.

What!? That's crazy! The blood flow is going down there so you should try and enjoy it before the baby. I swear its ok and if you're not feeling ok then that's one thing but you should definitely try. I had a tough birth and couldn't have sex for a solid 10 weeks after DD. it made me glad that we did it often through pregnancy. Just sayin! No pressure at all and I'm not tryin to be judgmental. I promise, I know it can be hard too.

Last time dh and I went 8 months! I was crampy a lot and when I finally thought I was up to it, he was scared of hurting baby. Lol. We did do other things though. This time, we are doing a lot better, we aren't doing it every night, but its better than last time. It is very understandable and it sounds like you are both on the same page. You both may become more comfortable soon. Good luck!

Last time dh and I went 8 months! I was crampy a lot and when I finally thought I was up to it, he was scared of hurting baby. Lol. We did do other things though. This time, we are doing a lot better, we aren't doing it every night, but its better than last time. It is very understandable and it sounds like you are both on the same page. You both may become more comfortable soon. Good luck!

DH and I went through 3 miscarriages in the past year. So now with this pregnanxy, we had sex once when I was 5 weeks, I had some spotting after, and that was enough to freak him out. My doc gave us the all clear after 12 weeks, but DH keeps telling me he would never forgive himself if we miscarried again because he would always wonder if sex had anything to do with it. It's very frustrating because it's him that's worried, not me.

DH and I went through 3 miscarriages in the past year. So now with this pregnanxy, we had sex once when I was 5 weeks, I had some spotting after, and that was enough to freak him out. My doc gave us the all clear after 12 weeks, but DH keeps telling me he would never forgive himself if we miscarried again because he would always wonder if sex had anything to do with it. It's very frustrating because it's him that's worried, not me.

Have to say as one other the blood flow there swelling everything makes it amazing . Hard sometimes to get the mood there but if you make yourself it's so worth it . The baby won't be effected and when the baby comes it becomes that much harder to find the energy and time . The intimate connection is so important , hopefully you can both be comfortable with it again

Have to say as one other the blood flow there swelling everything makes it amazing . Hard sometimes to get the mood there but if you make yourself it's so worth it . The baby won't be effected and when the baby comes it becomes that much harder to find the energy and time . The intimate connection is so important , hopefully you can both be comfortable with it again

I was like this for the first month maybe month and a half but I could tell my fiancé was being deprived.. So I took one for the team. The first time he was all nervous and careful not to put pressure on my belly but now he is pretty much like whatever. Um I'm still prego mister, go easy.

I was like this for the first month maybe month and a half but I could tell my fiancé was being deprived.. So I took one for the team. The first time he was all nervous and careful not to put pressure on my belly but now he is pretty much like whatever. Um I'm still prego mister, go easy.

Yes...sadly! Our "last time" was july 18th... He has a hard time getting in the mood knowing the baby is there and is afraid of something going wrong (even though the ob told him its fine!). There are some days I miss it but now that it has been almost 4 months I am starting to get used to it...

Yes...sadly! Our "last time" was july 18th... He has a hard time getting in the mood knowing the baby is there and is afraid of something going wrong (even though the ob told him its fine!). There are some days I miss it but now that it has been almost 4 months I am starting to get used to it...

That doesn't sound fun at all....my advise would be to give it a try. It does feel amazing and it doesn't have to be any sort of crazy sex...anything feels awesome! It changes all the time too. One week a certain position will feel good then the next week it's out and you figure out a new one. It really changes things up.

That doesn't sound fun at all....my advise would be to give it a try. It does feel amazing and it doesn't have to be any sort of crazy sex...anything feels awesome! It changes all the time too. One week a certain position will feel good then the next week it's out and you figure out a new one. It really changes things up.

My best friends baby is nearly one and she hasn't had sex since the baby was conceived. Personally that would drive me to insanity, the same friend asked me if I had stopped having sex when I fell pregnant I literally fell to the ground laughing. You ladies should go get laid if there's no reason not to be doing it.

My best friends baby is nearly one and she hasn't had sex since the baby was conceived. Personally that would drive me to insanity, the same friend asked me if I had stopped having sex when I fell pregnant I literally fell to the ground laughing. You ladies should go get laid if there's no reason not to be doing it.

I hear ya! We tried once- about a month ago. It was weird. I just wasn't into it & on top of that it was physically uncomfortable...maybe because it had been 2 months since there was any action in that area. First it was the nausea & fatigue- now I just have no drive & am kinda spooked by the last attempt. He's still very interested but he knows I'm not...so I try to keep him *ahem* satisfied in other ways. So far so good. It's just so hard to believe the talk that some women feel more sexual than ever during pregancy...well, more power to ya girls!

I hear ya! We tried once- about a month ago. It was weird. I just wasn't into it & on top of that it was physically uncomfortable...maybe because it had been 2 months since there was any action in that area. First it was the nausea & fatigue- now I just have no drive & am kinda spooked by the last attempt. He's still very interested but he knows I'm not...so I try to keep him *ahem* satisfied in other ways. So far so good. It's just so hard to believe the talk that some women feel more sexual than ever during pregancy...well, more power to ya girls!

I too have not had sex since conception which is coming up to 14wks!! Just don't feel sexy- more like bloated, tired, nauseous (although getting better) and too busy running around after an almost 3 yo. No form of intimacy here at all, but hubby doesn't seem fazed so neither am I.

I too have not had sex since conception which is coming up to 14wks!! Just don't feel sexy- more like bloated, tired, nauseous (although getting better) and too busy running around after an almost 3 yo. No form of intimacy here at all, but hubby doesn't seem fazed so neither am I.

We only have a couple times and it was actually amazing, but I'm never usually in the mood. I'm getting chronic yeast infections this pregnancy and several utis, it's just felt weird to think about. I feel terrible about it.

We only have a couple times and it was actually amazing, but I'm never usually in the mood. I'm getting chronic yeast infections this pregnancy and several utis, it's just felt weird to think about. I feel terrible about it.

We've done it once since and it was basically because I felt so bad. Otherwise he hasn't asked and I haven't mentioned it. It wasn't comfortable for me at all and he understands that, he'd rather me enjoy it than feel like he's raping me! I'm so crampy and uncomfortable right now still at 17w2d. I don't have any desire for it right now. He's making do, I have no issue with him if he masturbates.

When the time comes that I feel better we'll have some fun!

We've done it once since and it was basically because I felt so bad. Otherwise he hasn't asked and I haven't mentioned it. It wasn't comfortable for me at all and he understands that, he'd rather me enjoy it than feel like he's raping me! I'm so crampy and uncomfortable right now still at 17w2d. I don't have any desire for it right now. He's making do, I have no issue with him if he masturbates.

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