This site is dedicated to my spiritual and physical journey before and after the death of my husband and the father of my son from cancer. It is about grieving, loving, understanding and sharing, and living in the connection while accepting the physical separation that passing on brings. It is also about moving forward in your life from whatever challenges life hands you and living the life that is wanted for you from above.

All Equals One and One Equals All

Its so simple. So easy. There is no complicated mathematical equation. Just a basic principle of All equals One and One equals All.

When we do a good deed towards one person, that effect is just as powerful as if we did it to all of humanity. That is how to solve the problems of this world. When we recognize the power that lies within one good deed towards the other, we realize we have the ability to change the world for the better. One man can help one child. And at the end of his life he wonders if he was good enough during his time on earth because he only helped one child. And Spirit answers back. That one child was Ghandi. Or Jesus. Or Mother Teresa. Or Malala. Or any noble peace prize winner. Or that child grew up to be a great parent, teacher, minister, or astronaut. See?? That one man, by helping one child, helped the world to be a better place. It is the Ripple Effect.

When we see this is possible… And we realize that individually we all matter to the world? Then we will truly understand the concept of All Equals One and One Equals All.

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Holly C Barker

My name is Holly Barker and I am the founder of Grief Anonymous, a national support organization for grief and loss. I am also the founder of the Grief Resource Network. My husband of 14 years and the father of my son died of Malignant Melanoma skin cancer in 2014. My mission is to write honestly about our journey and to share with those that are going through the loss of a loved one or another challenging experience. I learned through this experience about the process of understanding, accepting what life hands us, and living in the continuum and connectivity to our loved ones that have passed on. If you are stuck and having a difficult time moving forward into the life that is wanted for you from above, follow me on this journey and maybe it will help you, too. Love and Light, Holly