So we split up 3 months ago ,doesn't make it easier .he changes so quickly ,I'm sure it's not just alcohol now.police arrested him few hours ago after he threatened me and my 14 year old .police just called and said they can't release him as he's so out of his face ,I'm dreading it when he does .im locked in my home once again just wanting peace.such a shame he was a great bloke once.his paranoia is killing me.