Dating is No Fun That’s right, I said it. For most people, me included, dating feels like a gauntlet you run to get into a relationship. They are like job interviews, with sex at the end. Which is still part of the interview, because if he has great...

Sadism and Masochism – Fun or Flaws? A lot of people ask me if it is wrong that they’re turned on by masochism (experiencing pain and other sensation?” Or the flip side, they ask, “Why do I like giving pain and being a sadist?” The answer...

Instruct Your Lover So They Can Hear It Clients frequently complain about some aspect of how their partner makes love. They don’t like how he kisses, or how she performs oral sex. And they claim that they have been telling them how to do it “right”...

Pole Dancing for Consciousness? Yep. That’s the creation of my latest guest on the Rebekah Beneteau Show. Patty Alfonso is an internationally acclaimed speaker and facilitator on the topics of consciousness, bodies and creating a life that inspires global...

Stopping and Starting in Love and Relationship It’s been weeks since I made my last episode of the Rebekah Beneteau Show. I don’t know why I stopped. But the longer it went , the harder it seemed to start again. And I had a lot of self-judgment going on...