Posts Tagged ‘road trip’

Whirlwind Weekend is now behind us. Our eldest son, Austin, graduated in a beautiful ceremony for which Rick and I were responsible. There were a few snags, but the evening turned out to be very rewarding for the 145 graduates and their family and friends. They felt loved, celebrated and prayed for! So worth it, in my humble opinion, to put on a grand celebration for homeschool graduates! A homeschool graduation is a day to celebrate the parents who chose this often difficult educational route, the mama who toiled endless hours in subjects she’s not all that familiar with, the siblings who were right there in the thick of things and of course, the graduate who survived. This child in particular, caused more prayer hours in my life…. so far….. please read the previous post to learn why we are so proud of him!

After cleaning up the church and scrambling home by 11:00p.m., we slept for four short hours and then jumped in the van to drive 17 hours to a wedding in Oklahoma. Son number two has had his driving permit for one week…. no, not even. Five days. F I V E. So we endured a few white-knuckled hours of experience for him during extremely uneventful stretches of flat highway across the top of Texas and Oklahoma. How can he be allowed to drive? He was chubby and cute and three years old just a few months ago???

The wedding was beautiful…. truly… as beautiful as a wedding can be. Our daughter was one of the bridesmaids and it was such a joy to experience the love between the young couple starting their new life together! And blast it all, I didn’t take one picture of the couple together!

In the fairytale setting there was a fairytale swing… one of the tallest I’ve ever seen. Nora had a few moments of terror after the ceremony. Her scared belly laugh makes me giggle. It’s the laugh she can’t hold in… throaty and deep. I love it!

Usually I am a bit more up-to-the-minute on my New Years post with a review of the past and hope for the coming times. 2013 was put to rest none too quickly for my liking. It was a hard and frustrating year due to the car accident and slow healing. Glad that’s almost over!

On December 31st I pulled my journal from the bottom dresser drawer… the journal with the hot pink cloth binding and the swirly letter L with bling bling on the cover. The journal contains my bucket list. I usually don’t look at it but once or twice a year, so I’m pleasantly surprised when I get to highlight the completed items on the list! In 2013 there were 2 1/2 items completed…. 1. Go on a girls road trip! CHECK! 2. Build a chicken coop and raise chickens. CHICK! I mean CHECK! And 1/2 of 3. See the Parthenon…. well, I did see the Parthenon. The one in Nashville. I didn’t even know there WAS a Parthenon in Tennessee! It’s in far better shape than the one in Greece. When I made the list, I meant the one in Greece, but I didn’t specify Greece…. so I half-way highlighted it with hopes of Greek Islands in my future still.

On the horizon for 2014, other than we should start getting fresh eggs come May, we have a few out of town weddings, a graduation, some missions trips and lots of excitement and hope! I relish a fresh new year with no scribbles on the pages.

As far as resolutions go…. REZ#1: I’m going to lose the weight I gained while lying on the couch for months eating casserole after casserole that my homeschool peeps brought to feed our family! Believe me, I am SOOOO thankful for my community who surrounded us during that time! What’s a bigger size of jeans? Or 2? But everyone plans to lose weight, right?

REZ#2: I am reading the Bible through again. The Children’s Living Bible is the chosen translation again. The best I ever did at reading the Bible through involved a plan that took weekends off. I needed the weekends to catch up! So I divided the number of yearly weeks by five days and then divided the number of pages in the Bible by that number. Voila! Brilliance! Four and a half pages a day. And it’s already January 10th and I’m ahead of schedule! Oh Yeah!

REZ#3: Make a few more mind and life changing resolutions…. like spending time each day in silence, and spending time each day being artsily creative, and knitting (well, that is creative too), and spending time each day listening to good music. “Good” by my standards, not my children’s.

What are your resolutions? Did you make any? Will you keep them? Share the wealth!

Sorry, but I am not excited about gift giving this year. Yes, I love to bless those around me, but I’m starting to realize that maybe my spiritual gift is not gifts. I would rather spend time doing some family/bonding/memory/making activity that will last in my children’s minds forever! Seriously, what did we buy them last year that they are still using? The question is semi-unfair as we went to our homeland, Canada, last year for Christmas. Being in the desert in the Southwest, we had to buy warm clothes, long pants and shoes for the kids and we kept telling them the vacation to another country WAS their gift. :o)

See?! What a great memory!

Our then 9-year-old daughter was DYING to get this set/book where she could draw outfits for dolls. She LOVED it to death… I think it took about 21 days. I haven’t seen it in almost a year. We also got her a fat, purple and pink sparkly piggy bank that she spied in Walmart. She was DYING to have a place to put her money…. AND would accentuate her pretty bedroom. I’m fairly certain the pig has been vacationing with the naked dolls that still need dresses since late February. If the Popsicle man ever comes by in July/August and my wallet is empty, I need to remember to look for that pig.

My then 16-year-old son was DYING to have this totally overpriced black with lime green stripe cooler-than-cooljacket. It is a close fitting, non-waterproof, zip-up, and being in Arizona I’m giving him a bit more grace than his little sister for not using it A LOT. I did see the lime green coolness trying to peek out from a pile of clothes on the floor in his room. I’m not sure if he wore it or if it fell off the hanger? Then Dec. 16th, we crossed over the Sierra Nevadas in a snow storm… pulled into the first ROSS we found and bought him a more suitable winter jacket. Jacket #2 has been in the winter clothing box in the garage since January 2nd.

My then 14-year-son, who was DYING for concert tickets or iTunes gift-cards, got a mountain bike. My husband bought it hoping for father-son bonding times, which did happen a few times last January and February. Now, said son HAS used the bike and he does take care of the bike, but he rides his longboard 9 out of 10 days of the week. Recently I asked him what we got him for Christmas last year… long pause… “Concert tickets or something?” Um, no, but we probably should have.

My then 19-year-old got the most useful, but not necessarily fun gift…. an orange suitcase of her very own. She was leaving for college in January and it turned into a necessity as I realized if I didn’t buy her one, she would be taking one of mine. All that said, she LOVES orange and LOVED it…. AND she took one of mine anyway. She also opened a brand new shiny pair of Nike tennis shoes, as some sort of athletic course at school was in her near future. I’m positive that the Nikes won the “Most Used” Christmas gift of 2012.

Rick and I got a nice shiny red van for Christmas… that I crashed three months later. Boooo Hissssss. At least I remember what we received!!!

Do you remember what you bought everyone last year? Do you remember what you received?

Hello from Lake Tahoe, one of our favorite relaxing places on planet earth. It rocks! Do I look cold in this picture? I am! Does my sweatshirt look too big? Does it look like it is a Minnesota sweatshirt that I would never wear? IT IS! See my husband? Doesn’t he look kind and thoughtful and fun. It’s all a FRONT! If we post more pictures from our adventures in Tahoe, be sure to notice my jeans…. because I will have them on in EVERY single photo. WHY? you ask.

Our story begins last Wednesday when I emptied my suitcase from my trip to Nashville, only long enough to wash the clothes and re-pack into a carry-on for my high school girl’s road trip. My family would be joining me in Tahoe after I flew to Los Angeles for the four day excursion with four of my high school friends. Us girls had to pack light as there were five of us in a suburban and we needed room for our vintage/shabby/thrift store gems yet to be purchased. And we used all that space too!

Knowing that I would need WARM clothes in Tahoe, I packed half of the big suitcase to share with my husband, as we have done for 27 years now. Being the Phoenix girl that I am, I added wool socks, flannel jammies, three more pair of socks, a big Mickey Mouse sweatshirt, sweats, a wind-proof jacket, five pair of undies, my warm fur Vera Wang bling bling slippers, long sleeve shirts, a heating pad, the next book in the series that I am reading, Christmas-in-July gifts for two of our friends, etc. etc. etc.

When our family was re-united (and it feels so good) at the lake, I immediately went to the suitcase to layer up on my clothes and find my slippers. I dug on one side. I dug on the other side. Then realization hit…. like a mosquito impacting the windshield at 75 mph…. MY STUFF WAS MISSING! WHAT? I almost couldn’t breathe for a few seconds. I threw out a few games and a pillow that my sweet husband had packed in the suitcase and then with a slightly elevated voice I “kindly” asked, “WHERE ARE MY CLOTHES?” His blank look of confusion on his handsome face confirmed that it was not a premeditated action taken to cause me mental anguish. He replied after a few seconds, “I took out all the stuff that you left in the suitcase from Nashville.” “IT WAS NOT FROM NASHVILLE! IT WAS WOOL SOCKS AND A HEATING PAD SO I DON’T FREEZE TO DEATH HERE IN TAHOE!”

He told me that I could just wear the clothes over and over from the road trip…. yeah… NO! It was a beach dress, shorts and a tank top and capris with a sleeveless shirt. NOT TAHOE FRIENDLY at all. I was wearing my jeans, thank God all mighty! And a blue t-shirt. And one of my three pair of underwear. And one of my two pair of socks. At that moment, I took Rick’s Minnesota sweatshirt from the suitcase and put it on. He commented, “Well, I brought that so I could wear it.” Too bad, Bucko.

My Vera Wang slippers have been temporarily replaced by these handmade Halloween slippers that are four sizes too large that I found in the cabin…. they ARE warm. I’m almost speechless at this turn of events. Almost. OK, not really. Several comments have been made ALL DAY LONG as to my clothes being the same as yesterday…. the stain on my blue t-shirt that appears to be growing… the outfit that I will have on for ALL the pictures this week…. a Bible verse about how we shouldn’t worry about what we wear…. and how I should really be choosing ONE outfit for my husband to also wear all week long next to me. :o) He is lucky that this is not a trip where I needed nice, dress-up clothes with matching jewelry and purses and shoes. Oh, let me tell you how lucky he is!

Sorry, another post-accident report but thankfully not from the couch! I lived on the couch for six long weeks. At first it was because of the damage to my legs from the airbag UNDER the steering wheel. (You might want to check if you have an air bag down there and wear shin guards while driving, if you do.) On day #4 post-accident, I realized my shoulder was hurt and that I couldn’t lie on either side on the couch OR in bed. I am still in that state… flat on my back in bed with my legs elevated…. with a pile of pillows crammed against the back of my reading chair so as not to fall off the bed. But I digress.

After my 6th week of “no significant improvement” at therapy, I was sent for nerve testing. Nerve testing = acupuncture. Or more appropriately, you are now a voodoo doll. The good news out of that supremely stressful doctor visit was that I was sent to pain management, who promptly put me on medication #27. (Do not fear, I have stopped taking the first 23.) Med27 plays some sort of hokus-pokus on my nerves and I have had a VAST improvement in range of motion for my right arm. Read: I still can’t lift the milk jug, but the therapist did a happy dance that I can now scratch a giraffe’s neck. Side effects of Med27 include, but are not limited to: drowsiness, lack of short term memory, general lethargy and an overwhelming desire to do nothing.

All that said, the eight day camping trip to the Grand Canyon, Mesa Verde, Canyon de Chelley, Four Corners, the Painted Desert and the Petrified Forest that didn’t happen in April has been reduced to a five day camping trip to the Grand Canyon. Commencing on Monday, June 3rd. Two days from right now. Thankfully, the other crazy homeschool mom, CJ, whom we have been studying National Parks with all year, has picked up my slack and we are venturing forth in two days from right now. CJ went so far as to purchase a Sprinter van seating 14 that her 6’4″ husband can stand up inside. Read: I don’t have to drive at all OR pack a car. As per usual, the week before departure, we went through our lists of what to take. The division of camping equipment went something like this: CJ CJ CJ CJ CJ me CJ CJ CJ CJ CJ me. And that might be an exaggeration for “me’s”. Thank you, CJ!

Today about 4:12 pm, I realized what my life has come down to. Normally when embarking on a road trip, I print packing lists for my kids. (Remember, I am a list maker. I thrive on lists. I make detailed lists. I am an overachiever at making lists.) But never in my 20 years of parenting have I printed an extra “kid packing list” for myself. This is what it has come to… and I’m O.K. with it. Except I added to the bottom of mine: Med27.

This is the longest hiatus I have ever had from MSJ. I am astonished that you faithful readers keep coming back and reading in my absence. Hopefully something I wrote somewhere along this journey gave you something to smile about! At this point, headlines would not even fit the bill for the last two months of craziness in the Crosby household.

We had the Great Computer Crash of 2012 which began with a mystery download from an unnamed son (who knows better) which slowed our computer to a snail’s pace, but gave us a nice icon of Jesus wearing red head phones. So, off the tower went to Howard, the other savior (little s). THEN, the plug-in dealie on my laptop broke… broke right off the board (whatever that means). We are still in denial about having to pay the same cost as buying a new laptop to have it repaired. So we have been internetless since December10th…. until yesterday.

Good thing there was a three week road trip in there! It wasn’t our original plan, but it worked in our favor to drive up and down the western states and into Canada using our friends’ and relatives’ computers. The Crosby Canadian Christmas Adventure was cold but quite enjoyable spending time in British Columbia… by the fire place and eating hot soup and sipping warm cocoa. Rick and the older kids went to a spin class several times, but also took in: swimming, ice skating, paint ball, pickle ball, a glow-in-the-dark ping pong tournament, snowboarding and skiing. The kids haven’t seen their Uncle Glen in 10 years! Hopefully it won’t be that long next time!

Thirty-six hours after we returned from the west coast road trip, we embarked on our southwest road trip to take Larisa (our firstborn, first graduate, first everything) to Oral Roberts University in Tulsa, OK. If you haven’t been to ORU (or to the 1960s in a while), it is a trippy scene….. I’ve never seen so many buildings made of gold and sidewalks that are diagonal. Seriously, if you are a film producer and need a 1960s set, DON’T BUILD ONE! Go to Tulsa; it’s all there for your 1960s dreams to come true.

We did have a successful first launch of a child from the nest. Rick and I had plenty of reflection time (due to him mistakenly taking three extra days off work) as we drove from OK through KS, CO and NM on our way home to AZ. My conclusion to our happy send off is that we have no regrets. We feel like we did what the Lord called us to do with homeschooling and pouring our lives into raising our kids. (Not that we are done, by any stretch of the imagination…. nine more years.) Most importantly, I am thrilled that Larisa gets to go to a school still based on the foundation is started on….. Jesus Christ. I’m so blessed knowing that she is surrounded by other kids who are sold out to the Lord and are striving to learn to be more like Him. ORU is unusual in today’s world and it is the perfect place for our girl right now. (The JB posters were a joke…. thank GOD!)

Yes, I still accidentally set six places at the table on the first night home, but there were no tears. Only smiles of joy and gladness. And I can blog again. My world is right-side up, despite a choppy start to 2013. Happy New Year!

Every five years, our family makes the trek north to our homeland Canada where we met and fell in love with starry eyes and warm hearts. Crosby Family Christmas was occurring in Abbotsford, B.C. at my brother and sister-in-law’s house. Three out of the four siblings arrived with kids in tow along with Rick’s folks…. 15 of us in all.

We never leave on time for road trips. Various circumstances contribute to this, mostly, however, is my dear husband’s tendency toward tardiness. Day #1 had 12 hours of driving on the agenda, but there was not an impending arrival time that we were aiming at. This was a godsend because my great aunt and uncle are staying in our house for us and watching the doggies…. which translates to the house needing to be spotless… way beyond the normal “leaving on vacation” level of cleanliness…. causing three of my four children to roll their eye balls at their mother.

Soooooooo, departure time was chosen for 7:00 a.m. At 9:15 a.m. dusting and mirror cleaning were still in progress. We pulled out of the driveway at 9:38 a.m. BUT there were three scheduled stops before we could leave town. Rick had some checks to drop off, his work truck to take to the mechanic and we still needed gas for the trip. At 10:27 we pulled into Circle K in downtown Phoenix and Rick announced to his wife and four children, “Everyone go to the bathroom because we’re not stopping for a long time!” Into the gas station we obediently traipsed.

11:01 a.m. we officially left Phoenix and began our trek westbound. At 11:18 a.m. Rick mousily squeaked from the middle row of the van that he needed to go to the bathroom….. so we turned into another Circle K in Buckeye, AZ! And thus began our 3,400 mile ROAD TRIP to the Great White North…. only 3+ hours behind our scheduled departure. Not bad.

So in the past four days, we drove 24 hours… including stops. It was all well worth it and we needed a break from the reality of sitting in our cozy house waiting for the phone to ring… giving us the information that will change our lives forever. No, not Ed McMahon calling…. our adoption referral call. Yes, I’ve mentioned it in every blog for the past month because I’M OBSESSED!

Back to the road trip. No Crosby family trip would be complete without original sayings that get repeated for all eternity and instantly take us back to the trip where the saying was first quoted. This trip’s quote is a passionate, “WOW!” It was voiced by both my husband and I simultaneously after a pause that followed a Snapple Trivia Fact from the inside of a cap of juice. Larisa read it from the back of the van, “Everyone ready for a Snapple Trivia Fact?” Silence commenced preparing our hearts for a truth from a juice cap. “A three-day-old Caribou can outrun its mother.” A quiet space was followed by dual “WOW’s!” from both of the front seat passengers. Think about it… at three days…. it can run faster than its mama! Wow!

Then we played Name That Tune, which is normally undertaken with humming, but humming is too quiet to effectively play Name That Tune in a running vehicle. So we sing… without words. There were some clever songs sung with no words. There were some stupid songs sung with no words. There were also some unknown songs sung with no words. After about three Michael Jackson songs sung with no words, Larisa leaned over the back seat of the van and rummaged through her suitcase until she presented the new MJ cd This Is It! So Name That Tune was ended by two go-arounds with MJ singing his little heart out. Larisa commented during the second run-through that it’s ironic that MJ was singing the song This Is It…. and it was. He never got to perform for an audience. I added the fact that he also sang the words, “I’m the light of the world” in that song. Those words should be reserved for the true light of the world, Jesus. Yes, ironic. Wow!

It’s taken me several days to get back into the swing of things after three weeks away from home. Re-entry was rough. We arrived home at 1:00 am Tuesday morning after taking a “short cut”… yes, the infamous short cut… that takes longer and is curvy and bumpy and narrow and all the truckers know about it too. I can’t remember the last time I had to get out one of the gallon size zip-lock barf bags for myself. Thankfully I didn’t use it. I just held it in my free hand… the one that wasn’t clinging to the door handle…. and I breathed deeply for a LONG time.

I felt sorry for Rickey, by husband, because I knew he was only going to get about 4 hours of sleep before having to go to work. But I was in no shape to drive. I consoled myself by noting that HE chose the “short cut” that made me sick. Not the nice wife, I know. But still, I could have driven the other route and he could have slept, but no. That old hind sight saying is so true.

Five a.m. Rick’s alarm went off and I was a sweaty mess lying in bed with no covers! Welcome back to Phoenix, the Valley of the Scorching Sun! 110 degrees…. not hot enough to boil water… only people. Our bedroom is the hottest room in the house, and that morning it was worse than usual… because of re-entry. I had to escape… and headed for the loft, just outside our room and turned on the ceiling fan. Ah, the cool breezes.

As I sat there cooling off, I glanced over to the homeschool bookshelf and a feeling of dread passed over me! I have planning to do… for the whole year ahead. I didn’t want to. I didn’t want to be awake. I didn’t want to be hot. I didn’t want to live in Phoenix in the summer. Then I realized that I had only been home from vacation for four hours, was over tired and irrational and I had six weeks before I had to plan anything… and I didn’t need to think about it now. Or this month. And I always get pumped back up to homeschool with glee at the annual convention in July. Whew.

Back to sleep I went and did feel much better when I awoke in another four hours. I thought my attitude had improved since 5:00 a.m., but then I went into the kitchen and looked out the back window. Dead, tall grass with weeds that had yellow and purple flowers blooming greeted me. Not the nice wildflowers of Washington. Annoying weeds. And four pots with dried out dirt and dead flower plants. I didn’t want to look at brown. I wanted to still be seeing green trees and green fields and green ferns and wild blackberry bushes bursting with fruit. I didn’t want to be in Phoenix. I didn’t want to be hot.

We are now on day four of re-entry. I have adjusted slightly better each day. Part of day three was spent sitting in the coolness of the ice rink while my boys skated, planning trips to leave Phoenix this summer. It made me feel better to have escapes on the calendar. Nothing extravagant, but trips to cooler climates with pine trees. Trips starting next weekend! I like the ice rink in summer!

Fallen Leaf Lake, just east of Emerald Bay, has a flat and easily hiked trail that leads from campsite 78 to the lake. It wasn’t until 4:00 pm that we arrived… it was a bit further than it looked on the map. Personally, I don’t think the map was drawn by anyone who understands perspective or proportions. Anyway, despite the 45 minute drive, the scenery was spectacular.

There were two paths that diverged in the woods from which to choose, and yes, we quoted the Robert Frost poem. Being a lover of safety rules and caution, we took the one most traveled… AND marked with orange and blue plastic streamers so we couldn’t get lost unless we really tried.

No matter where we go, or what we do together, there is always much laughter and frivolity… especially with these three giggly girls. Can you guess which one is a forest ranger?

With seven kids between our two families, we do much switching and swapping of children when traveling together. We had the boys the first half of the day and then Austin moved to the other car, or so I thought. The last time I saw him, he was heading to the bathroom (term used lightly) at the Fallen Leaf campground with his father. I only witnessed his father’s return, but was informed the my eldest son did indeed trade vehicles. Forty-five minutes later, we are in the Safeway parking lot in Tahoe City and I watch the other car drive by and I don’t see Austin. As any good mother, I was sure that we had left him back at the campground. I texted my friend to ask if they had Austin. It didn’t go through. Patiently I sat in the van awaiting my husband’s return from the grocery store…. to inform him that we are horrible, no good, very bad parents and left our 13-year-old son FORTY-FIVE miles back, and didn’t notice until now. Then Austin came out of the store with his dad and all was well. I’m still an OK mom, who has only left one child one time in the McDonald’s playland… but that was YEARS ago. Don’t judge me. It’s not like I drove away. A kind lady came out of Micky D’s holding his 2-year-old hand and asking if he was mine. I said yes, and tried to convince her that I would have figured it out when I did up all the car seats. See! Only once in 16.5 years.

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Welcome to My Sister's Jar. The story behind the blog lies in the original post on Feb. 2, 2008. Type "giddy moments" into the search box to find it.

I'm a homeschool mom who loves to speak and write, encouraging moms to press-on in motherhood. Two of my books are available NOW! Laughing in the Midst of Mothering and Laughing in the Midst of Marriage. See them at www.LindaCrosby.com or www.cbd.com.

I have four children, one of whom is adopted from Colombia, so there are LOTS of adoption tidbits here.
~~~~~~ Linda Ann Crosby