Tgirlie & Ptguy: I love it when guys talk to me before and during sex. It took me awhile before I was secure enough in my sexuality to be comfortable with erotic talk, but as I did it really turned up the heat in my sex life. I think that guys are generally more visually aroused than women. That said, I like to look as much as any girl. But, there is something so erotic about a man who can use his words to turn me on.

When I'm getting really turned on, I'll go for almost anything. I love dates when PT talks to me across a dinner table and tells me that he is gong to chew my thong off later or gently run his hands over my tits for an hour before he fucks me. I love to undress for me as they tell me how much they want to touch me or suck my tits or stick their hands down my panties. I'll just smile and tease them as I slowly undress.

I love a man who tells me how beautiful I am as he's about to enter me, one who whispers to me how good my body feels under his or in his hands. That's hot! But, it's also sexy when a man tells me that he's going to fuck me or to "spread your legs because I'm going to lick your pussy and your ass," or commands me to do things like pop my ass up in the air or suck his cock a certain way.

I'll talk back too. Usually he has to initiate erotic talk but I'll almost always go right with him. I'll tell him how his cock feels inside of me, how I love his chest or grabbing his butt as he fucks me. I'm not the dominant type but I will sometimes "order" him to put his face between my legs or rub his cock on my ass, that sort of thing.

And of course, it's always a favorite to talk about fantasies of public sex, threesomes or other couples. We've fantasized about having sex with many people from this site, usually the more creative, sexually open types. The blog helps with that part of the fantasy.

Tgirlie & Ptguy: OK, I had to do some traveling for awhile so I was away from the site. My last post was about convincing an old boyfriend to trim "down there." I saw a male stripper that was really shaved close and I liked it.

So, my boyfriend was resistant to this because he was an athlete and was worried about what the guys in the locker room would say. But, as luck would have it, one of my friends who went to see the male stripper with me was dating another guy on his team. When a group of us were laughing about the events of the bachelorette party, I mentioned that the stripper showed us"all of his business" onstage and she mentioned that she saw some of it. And, that she liked what she saw. That got us talking about the idea of male grooming. Some of us liked the idea, others thought it wasn't very manly. It was kind of a new idea at that time. She liked it very much and I admitted that I did as well. We agreed to try to get both of our boyfriends to do this so it wouldn't seem like such a big deal.

I talked to my boyfriend about it and he agreed to try this "a little bit."The next time we had sex, he had shaved up his legs a little bit and tried to do some trimming around his testicles. But, he left the hair above his penis untrimmed. It looked like a little Chia pet sitting on top of his penis. :-0 I was smart enough not to laugh but offered to help. He said he didn't want me anywhere near "his business" with a razor. But then I took off my clothes.

He had an electric razor with a trimming attachment so I was able to make quick work of the Chia pet. He started to get a little hard as I moved his cock around to get the right angles. But then I needed to do something about those balls. He got nervous again when I got out the razor and shaving cream. But I crawled over top of him and straddled his head (in a 69 position) and he let me go to work. As soon as I started to spread the shaving cream around, his cock started getting hard again. I would lift his balls up a little bit to get the right angle and whenever I sensed he was getting nervous I would just lower myself onto his face or take him in my mouth for a little bit. I liked getting him hard and I found it was actually easier to shave him when he was that way. Plus, getting him to go down on me was just an added benefit :-)

When I was done and I wiped him off with a towel, I liked what I saw. I thought his cock looked a lot bigger and fuller after I shaved it. I really enjoyed going down on him after that. I just felt that everything felt smoother and softer and I really enjoyed taking my time and giving a more thorough blowjob, working all the parts of him including lifting up his balls and working my tongue underneath and all that good stuff. He loved blowjobs so he happily groomed himself after that. A few months later he said some other guys on the team were starting to do it as well, so everybody won!

I've asked every guy I've ever dated since then he would shave for me. They all did.

Tgirlie & Ptguy: OK, so when I was just starting out experimenting with sex, I was like a lot of girls and oral sex was not my favorite. But, I'd do it to make my boyfriends happy and I thought it was important to be a giver to be a good lover. Sex wasn't very inventive at that stage, we were just young and horny and everybody's body looked pretty good. You really didn't need to try that hard to make each other happy. Plus, in the college years, we were drunk most of the time anyway :-)

But, I had a boyfriend in college who wanted a blowjob every time we had sex. I was into a little more variety than just the same thing every night. I went to a male strip show for a bachelorette party and one dancer was paying a lot of attention to me. I got pretty drunk and put some dollar bills in his g-string on a dare from the girls. As the night went on my dollars got closer and closer to his "business." He never pulled away, so I just kept going. Eventually, the bride-to-be had to get on stage for the public humiliation portion of the evening show but this guy pulled me up with her, and she wanted some company. They blindfolded us and danced around and shake their asses or our laps and all that good stuff. Finally, my guy pulls down my blindfold and steps back, with his back to the audience, and pulls down his g-string enough so only I and my girlfriend can see. He had this really beautiful cock that looked big and ready to go. I can still picture it in my mind. It was the first time that I saw a cock that had been shaved and trimmed up. I loved it. This guy wants to hook up after the show, he's using the show as an excuse to open up my blouse and touch my tits and everything (I let him. I was drunk and he was a super cute italian guy) - but I have a boyfriend and I'm not going to hook up with a male stripper anyway.

But, I go home and tell my boyfriend about it and I tell him that I want him to trim down there. He's against it because he's an athlete and all the guys in the shower will make fun of him. But, when I tell him how much I wanted to go down on the male stripper because he was trimmed up so nicely (I was pretty graphic about describing what I liked about this guys cock), he eventually relents.

This is getting long and probably boring you guys. Maybe I'll finish up my thoughts in another post. The story gets better (I think), so hang in there.

Tgirlie & Ptguy: Since some people asked for a little more.... Here's a shot of my backside. Okay, let's be real. Here's a shot of my ass. Some of you know that I've done a little modeling from time to time. It's definitely not my career, but I've had a chance to do a little bit here and there, lots of swimsuit and intimates and head shots.

I've talked to really good, professional models and every one of them has said the same thing; they know their best poses, the ones that always work. And, they don't even need to see the proofs to know which shot is working. They just listen to the photographer, especially if it's a man.

I've always gotten a good reaction when I've done one of two things: open my blouse or pop my ass out for a profile or 3/4 shot. Whether it's a boyfriend taking some pics in a dark bedroom or a pro photographer with assistants standing around on a set, I can hear it in their voices when the shot is working. It is such a turn-on. So, if I'm doing a bikini or lingerie shoot where I feel really exposed and nervous, I always try to fit in one of these poses early. If I hear the change in the photographer's voice ("That's it. Perrrfecct...Ohhh, that's it right there.") I feel sexy and confident. When I feel that way, I think that I pose better. At least the shoot feels better to me.

Some photographers are really good at walking the line between making the model feel sexy and desired and doing too much and the whole thing becoming uncomfortable. But, models talk about how they can communicate back to the photographer when they're "feeling it." It's in the smile, the dead sexy stare into the lens, what they jokingly call "making love to the camera." When I'm in sync with a photographer, when it feels safe but I feel like I have him, that's when I think I give the best shots. I'll admit that I've had a few shoots where the photographer was so good to me that I'll let a pose go to the point that I know it will blow the shot.... a blouse that spills open too far, my fingers too far spread over my nipples, panties pulled an inch too low, or legs spread a bit too far... if the contract was written to protect me and he's let me believe that he's going to put these pictures "to good personal use" ;-) I'll purposely let it go. It's such a sexy dance when I feel the guy loves what he's seeing and going to make me look great. I want to get him off.

Tgirlie & Ptguy: I went to the beach on my last trip to Florida (no pictures from that trip, I was alone). Thanks to everyone who gave me great suggestions for clothing optional beaches. I had a day off and went to a state park on the Gulf side, south of Tallahassee, and found a deserted patch of beach. It was a weekday and since I could see down the beach for a long way, I figured I was safe to shed my suit after about 30 minutes.

There was a fisherman that came by after an hour or so and set up his fishing pole about 100 yards to my left. I covered up for awhile and then moved down the beach some more so I could be comfortable and shed my bikini again. I thought that he couldn't see me very well but after another 20 minutes he picked up his bucket and another pole and walked toward me and set up a pole 100 yards to my right = causing me to cover up again. So now he's walking back and forth between these poles and, while I'm not a fishermen, I'm pretty sure that the current was wreaking havoc with his lines. "Why so far apart?" I'm thinking. I realized that this wasn't going to stop and while I was a little irritated, I decided "to hell with it" and got nude again. If he had a problem with it he could either tell me or move his fishing poles somewhere else.

Well, I realized that he wasn't going to have a problem with it as he started to go back and forth between his poles constantly and I noticed him taking glances at me each time. Eventually I wanted to dip my toes in the water (it was too cold for a full swim) and I waited until he was well down at his first spot before I walked down to the surf. Well, he starts walking down my way right away and I quickly retreat to my towel but I'M NOT going to cover up again. He circles nearer to my towel and says "hI" and I return the greeting. I just lie there and look at him waiting for him to give me a hard time but he says that it's cool to sunbathe topless or nude here, that some people do it regularly and that he'll help keep a lookout for park rangers. I am relieved and say thanks and we strike up some small talk about my travels and his fishing. He seems like a nice guy, mid 40's, cute behind his ball cap and sunglasses, square jaw with salt-and-pepper whiskers... some of my favorite things.

He goes back to tending to his fishing and I go back to reading my book. When I get up again he's already on his way between poles and we talk for awhile at the water's edge. He's starting to get a little flirty with the sunscreen on my back offer and I'll admit that I'm feeling a little tempted. It becomes clear to me that he just wants to keep the conversation going because, while I can't see where his eyes are focusing behind his glasses, I'm pretty sure they are on my breasts. I talk awhile and play around with my hair, put it up in a ponytail, and just watch him watch my tits as I move around. It makes me a little wet and horny.

Eventually I go back to my towel and prop myself up on my elbows to watch the surf and his fishing. I purposefully arch my back to prop my tits up a bit to give him a show. I get all kind of sexy thoughts going through my head about how cool it would be to have this cute guy just have to have me on this beach. I turn over on my stomach and begin to rub my pussy. My head is away from the beach so I have no idea if he is walking back and forth and can see anything, but I just have to get off at this point. And I do. I made myself cum thinking about being nude in front of a strange man. I don't know if he saw or not but I didn't really care at that point. Soon after, I just packed up my towel, shouted "good bye" and left. I don't even know the guy's name.

Tgirlie & Ptguy: Hi everyone, I've been traveling for work lately. Sorry that I haven't been able to contribute. I thought I'd send out something before I have to head out again. It's great to have beach time in the States again.

Tgirlie & Ptguy: Here's a shot from a (mostly) empty beach when PT talked me into losing what little bit of a bikini that I had on in the first place. I haven't posted a shot of my ass in awhile, so I'm hoping that some people like it. I think the rear end doesn't get enough credit in terms of sexy body parts. There are lots of parts of a guy's body that I like (I could make a list) but a nice ass is so much fun to play with. First off, I look at a guy's ass like they look at a woman's tits. I like to sneak glances when they are walking away. A round butt in pair of Levis is such a turn-on. I don't like guys in skinny jeans. It flattens their ass. What a waste!

But even more than looking, I love to touch a guy's ass. I love to massage a guy while he's lying on his stomach and work below his towel and rub deep into his ass cheeks. Especially if his ass his firm. I also like to kiss it and run my mouth up and down on it and my tongue up and down between his cheeks. I can feel him getting hard underneath. But, by far, the best is clamping my hands down on a guy's ass as he fucks me in the missionary position. Just the feeling of that thick ass in my hands as I'm pulling him deeper and deeper into me. Umphhh! I'm getting hot just thinking about it.