I was thinking either longer hair or shorter. That approaching middle length is a bit awkward. I think you should try growing it out a bit and see how it looks and then if you don't like it longer try it shorter. The great thing about hair is that it always grows back. But as long as you are comfortable in how you look that is what is most important.

_________________"I'm bad and that's good. I'll never be good and that's not bad. There's no one I'd rather be than me."

Just because you are an Aspie doesn't mean you can't have a winning personality, and if you have one, that qualifies for cool.

The avatar is Brock Lesnar, a crazy strong musclehead fighter. I would guess that he has rocks for brains and zero personality, but he could probably bend a steel girder. To my mind, however, that doesn't really qualify for cool.