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Sunday, June 12, 2016

Daddy’s lesson on Posture and Position.

This lesson is not, repeat NOT, just for bottoms. As a top it
is also your responsibility to know so you can train a bottom.

Most will tell you the same thing about positioning your back,
but they neglect one thing: understanding why. It is advantageous to not only
understand the different positions, and their uses in pleasing a partner, but
that when you are doing it right it can maximize your safety AND your
enjoyment.

The whole ‘push out ‘ to make it easier to enter idea is
almost a moot point if you are properly educated on how your body
works. There are dozens of muscles in the area that contract and flex
based on the position of your lower back and hips. Many of the muscles that
control bowel movements are involuntarily affected by your body’s posture as
much as the position.

What is in there?

As you can see, it’s not just a pipe, a tube or even simple at
all. It took millions of years to get it this far, and while you don’t need to
know ALL of this, there are some things you should know.

I (the author original) have written previously about Pelvic Floor Exercises and their benefit to health
and sexual performance, but here you can see the Levator Ani, which when
combined with a few others create what is called the pelvic floor. The layman’s
version is this muscle is not only what helps you when you go to the bathroom,
it helps control WHERE YOUR PROSTATE IS. This means that as the
bottom you can make it rub against your partner’s penis even more. Let that
sink in a moment.

By contracting this muscle (and yes it does take practice) you
can create an internal sensation for your partner while boosting your own
pleasure when this lifts. When you have an orgasm this muscle helps to pull and
tighten bringing everything in line which is why people say the best feeling is
being inside someone when their partner is having the orgasm because suddenly
it goes from a silken glove to a spasming, shuddering grip around the penis.
These exercises and a basic understanding really do change the way you
experience sex. There is a reason why certain cultures practice sex as a
religious act and see it as a source of supernatural power. This is part of
that understanding.

Squat don’t sit.

This trick isn’t one people think about often and they should.
You don’t (or shouldn’t) normally walk around having bowel movements after a
certain age. This is because your body has developed a muscle that keeps it
SHUT when you aren’t in certain positions. This lets you walk, run, jump, all
those great things without crapping your pants. Good yes?

Well. When you’re trying to shove something IN there the
principle is the same. That muscle (and many others) will work against you
making it at best more difficult and at worst painful. Most of these are
completely involuntary and you can’t train yourself to not have those
reactions without compromising your normal function to one degree or another.

There is, thankfully, a fairly simple trick to making that a non-issue and (as
a bonus) give you the ability to use those automatic processes to increase
pleasure with your partner.

It’s all in HOW you sit and position your legs: by keeping
your anal canal in a ‘squatting’ style position you keep the passage relaxed
and open. When you rock your hips forward or back you cause the muscle that
keeps you from going to the bathroom to tighten and relax, which is a desirable
effect when combined with other movements and muscle exercises ONCE he’s
inside.

You’ll hear partners tell you that you are ‘tighter’ in
certain positions or that it feels ‘better’. They are right, it does, but there
is more to it than that and the nuances will be covered in the section on
specific positions.

Putting the prostate to work.

if you are gay and having sexy but DON’T know what the
prostate is or what it does you are in trouble. If you are a top: finger your
bottom boy and FIND it. You really cannot miss it under your finger because you
will feel something different there AND your boy will let you know you found it
because his body will light up like a Christmas tree. If you are the bottom boy
in question do the same thing: get in there and FIND IT. It doesn’t matter
which position you are in, you will want this knowledge so that when this all
comes together you blow both of your respective minds.

If the prostate is in the proper position it’s a win win. The
top and bottom both get increased pleasure from the experience: the top gets to
feel your button rubbing his head and you get to feel his head stroking your
button a WHOLE LOT MORE. Instead of screaming deeper, harder, faster.. you can
make it happen for yourself as well.

In to win.

This part is fairly simple: if you think about the previous
points it should be clear now that when your back is arched and legs are in the
right position everyone wins. If you lose control and go for one of those
‘constipated contractions’ you’re going to force him out by changing the angle
of the hole he’s trying to get in. It’s a defense mechanism, but if you want to
bottom you really should try to control that one. As a top you should also help
them by keeping a hand on their lower back as a reminder, especially early on
for them. Also be aware that it may have been involuntary because you caused
pain. Check in, talk to each other and be smart about it.

Keep your ass pointed at the same angle his cock is at as much
as possible.

Tab D goes into hole A, but only if A isn’t bent at the wrong
angle. The consequences are painful shoves, a lot of popping and in general a
much rougher ride going in than it should be. You want to conserve that energy
for a long ride instead of wasting it just getting in the door.

Getting down to business.

All of these are examples and basic training guidelines. You
do not have to , nor should you, use nothing but these when having sex. On the
contrary, try anything that sounds fun.

When you are in ‘cowboy’ position:

Keep your back upright and keep your hips angled like you
would be squatting if your legs are at your sides or ACTUALLY squatting if you
aren’t doing a seated cowboy.

When you are in ‘doggie’ style position standing up:

This one is THE most complained about posture because it’s
easy to get lazy in (as the bottom) which makes it more difficult. Keep your
lower back down, arched upward while keeping your hips rotated to match his
entry.

When there is a height difference this can get tricky if you aren’t
careful.

There IS a point at which you can’t point your ass up any higher which
means your partner will have to hunker down behind you to enter properly.

When you are in Doggie-style on all fours:

Anytime your back is facing his stomach you will want to heed
the same advice. The difference is that when you are on all fours/hands and
knees, you can control exactly where your ass is aimed and how you position
your prostate to be stimulated. Keep your back arched up, keep his dick in your
hole by maintaining a kneeling ‘squat’ position and keep your body where
you want it to be to get the most out of it. Keep it up, keep it in and keep it
on target.

When you are laying face down:

The rule is the same here for what you do with your ass. If
you lay flat, the hole is out of alignment and is going to make things less
pleasurable for the both of you. Face down, butt up. Simple no? You’d be amazed
how many bottoms/tops don’t get that part. With the ass raised up, penetration
is easier, deeper, and stimulates that boy-button a WHOLE lot more.

When you are face up:

This position is one of my personal favorites for a number of
reasons. Not only do I get maximum penetration depth and have complete control
over the stroke, but I get to see my boys face AND feel his feet braced against
my chest. Having the feet (like in the illustration) positioned with knees
together and up on their chest brings the entire lower anatomy in line with the
downward stroke. This means a great deal of pleasure for both of you but also
gives the bottom ‘breathing room’ to relax for a while.

I personally change
positions often but usually end with this one because it means the only thing
he has to concentrate on is the feeling of me inside him.

When you are on your side”

There is a strong temptation in this position to move around a
lot, to stay pressed against your top and in general to try to be ‘active’.
What is important here is that you keep one or both (preferably) of your legs
tucked upward. This again allows for greater depth and pleasure on your part.
If you don’t you move things out of position. I personally prefer the T
position, where the boy lays on his side and I am seated behind his ass because
it puts my head in a different position and increases his pleasure.

In conclusion:

When you combine the knowledge of anatomy with understanding
of posture changes on the position of internal organs, you not only make sex
safer and easier but you make it a much more enjoyable experience. There
is no losing here. It’s a very small amount of effort and self control, even
with the exercises which take a minute or two a day, to change sex
forever.