One thing I do know is that as you get older, you appreciate the female form more and more, and things that you wouldn't have thought of in your teens are very sexy - such as the way she talks, laughs, stares at you, snaps at you sometimes.

Also, if you are like me and are not blessed with great looks, then you have to realise that she has made allowances for you.

What is "ugly"? I don't believe at all that beauty is a scientifically measurable thing. Or if it is, I'm so far out of the consensus that I can't relate to it. I look at winners of "Miss This" and "Miss That" contests and wonder, "What were they thinking?" I see very pretty women, even beautiful women, every day, but they tend not to be on the covers or in the centerfolds of magazines.

I basically think that the women I like are nice to look at. But do I like them because they're pretty, or are they pretty to me because I like them?

Agree with that, is one of the best sayings and one I always love to say and hear.

Mostly coz I know I aint good looking or anything special, and also because of a slight disability so I have been on the wrong end of most things of how people see me and the way often people look at me and probably consider me ugly, but I think we are all Unique in our own way, and it's whats inside that counts I feel, but then, maybe thats just how I feel growing older.

Id take a girl with a heart of gold and caring who isn't absolutely stunning, than a stunningly beautiful girl who didnt give a crap about you and walk all over you to get what she wants.

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I have had lovers that would be considered unattractive by society's standards but there was something that attracted me to them or I wouldn't have fucked them in the first place. Now if they look like Freakshow then nooooooo...don't do boils.Sex is not the answer. Sex is the question. "Yes" is the answer. ~Swami X

It would really depend on what would be considered ugly, as we all have our unique tastes in what we find attractive or not.

But I would have to say that I would have to be at least somewhat physically attracted to the person to have sex with them. I've known girls that I would consider attractive and I know other men would also, and they had great personalities too, but I would just never feel any physical sexual attraction to the person.

Jokes aside; beauty is, of course, the initial attraction. Be it face, smile or boobs that first get you to look/take notice. But one has to have that initial attraction.Thereafter it comes down to who washed.

Again; jokes aside. The actual person then takes over. And then it depends on what you find attractive or interesting in a person.Is it intelligence, the way she speaks, the way she walks ...or even just the way she moves her mouth when she talks.There are so many facets to one's taste in the opposite sex ...or same sex for that matter.

Life is all about choices ...and yes, I have slept with some ugly ducklings - but OMG, they turn into swans in the bedroom/boardroom/car bonnet ...etc

Joined: 8/5/2011Posts: 9,099Location: In a suspended state of permanent horniness, Unite

Personally I have had some ugly boyfriends. I am attracted to a persons attitude...seriously, if they have a good attitude and can make me laugh I would date them. As for sex, I listen to my body, it responds to people automatically. I have had instant physical attraction to someone who was ugly and been repelled by attractive people. And as Mazza said looks are subjective.Sex is not the answer. Sex is the question. "Yes" is the answer. ~Swami X

Define Ugly. To me you can find beauty in every one, especially a female. Whether it is their personality, eyes, smiles, or whatever. So no I would not have sex with an ugly girl, because there is no such thing.

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Define ugly! Does she look like a guy, complete with a moustache? Unless she is a total clock stopper, it wouldn't matter to me! I don't need to go to bed with Brittney Spears! If there is a connection on a deeper level, why not?

To be honest and this may sound rude, but I've hooked up with some girls that I usually say "She's pretty in her own little way" lol ahahah! Most of the time, its someone that has an ok face nothing to crazy messed up. But most of the time she as to have a decent to great body and an awesome personality. Everyone looks the same in the dark but not everyone feels the same! ahaha!

The only "ugly" girls are the ones with a nasty personality who are totally stuck on themselves... one of the plastic people. No I wouldn't sleep with them, they are an instant turn-off.

If I were looking to sleep with someone other that my wife, she would have a genuine spirit, posess a good sense of humor with kind eyes, and be loving and passionate. She would be comfortable with herself. She would be a lady first with a devilishly seductive side. Sexuality begins in a woman's heart and mind - then it flows out to her surface features. Those are the women who interest me sexually.

I've been with a few munters (i feel qualified to call them munters, being a munter myself) and I've found that looks don't matter to me. I'm more attracted to energy anyway, like charisma or perhaps that little something that you can't quite put your finger on, but maybe the fact that I'm sexually deviant and will fuck anything that moves makes some difference.

If you go just by looks that makes you superficial. I am a girl and i have been called ugly more than once and that hurts. It really should not be about looks it shoould be about the connection you have with someone. Personally I would rather be with someone who is ugly that someone who cares just about their looks and themselves

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