I guess for a relationship to work – friendship, comradery, partnership, there has to be a few but important few things in common. to be willing to tolerate and “let go” other ppls imperfections, respecting differerences – even celebrating differences. Open to communication is a big one, willingness to show silliness and be fun. Be serious when serious is required, be fun when it’s fun time. Expect only a few important things that are completely understood by every member of the ground and ‘buying in” to those few common things — I think that helps tremendously in people getting along. “