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Ghosting is something that’s become such a part of our culture and sadly something that’s very much accepted. What does it say about us as a society that we think these types of behaviors are ok? It’s really just a symptom of the lack of integrity that we are accepting more and more in our world. The lack of empathy that we are accepting as “just the way it is”.

It’s becoming so common to act immorally and without integrity. It’s pretty much glorified nowadays. Just log on to Instagram and scroll through. It won’t take long to come across different forms of narcissism. All these posts about “I’m doing me”, “I catch flights not feelings” or the dreaded “If you can’t handle me at my worst you don’t deserve me at my best”. It’s glorifying this narcissistic culture that we’re prescribing to. [Read more…] about Ghosting: how it reflects our growing narcissism and what can we do about it

How can that be when neediness is what kills attraction? Yes, neediness for someone is not a good thing and in relationships it will kill the attraction she feels for you. What neediness is good for is figuring out what needs you’re missing in your life or need more of. There’s seven needs we all have that we need in order to be completely fulfilled:

Ok so It’s not the worst advice you could get, but it’s definitely down there with some of the most useless advice. When men and women say “Oh, just be yourself and she has to like you for you”, what are you supposed to do?