"So you screwed up and she dumped you, and now
you regret it and want to beg her forgiveness? Here are some ways to get
through to an angry 'ex-girlfriend' when she just won't take your
calls."

Sometimes you do something thoughtless and really
upset your partner. She gets so angry that she breaks up with you in a fury.
You try to call her but she hangs up and refuses your calls. Desperate you
wonder how to get through to her to tell her you are sorry and try to make
up. Here are a few ways you might try to cut through the wall of anger and
mend your shattered relationship.

Try writing her a letter: If she won't take
your calls then try communicating in a different way. Try writing her a letter,
sometimes you can explain better in writing. She may even open it and feel
more conciliatory towards you. It is very important to open communications
as soon as possible and this might just do the trick. You can send it with
some flowers to add a nice touch.

Try visiting her with flowers:
Now this will take a bit of courage but if you really want her back and are
truly sorry then you will be able to muster up the courage to do this. You
know her favorite flowers or if not you may have to settle for roses but
it is the thought that counts. Coming in person may be just the thing that
will break the barrier of anger and allow you both to at least talk about
it.

Try talking to a mutual friend and getting somebody
to intervene on your behalf. This is probably a last resort, as you should
initiate conciliatory moves if possible. However if you really cannot get
through then you can enlist a mutual friend to intervene for you. Discuss
the situation in detail with them and plan a proper approach.

When you really care about someone
you will find a way to get through to her and mend your relationship. Try
some of the above suggestions and see if you cannot open up a path to communicate
and make up for your past mistakes. Once you have made an effort to make
matters right you will be surprised at how smoothly this can go. So don't
give up just be persistent and you will succeed.

Whatever you do think carefully before you act
because how you handle this can mean success or failure of your efforts.
The main thing is to convince her you are sorry and try to persuade her it
will not happen again. Once you start to talk you can then take steps to
mend your relationship and build a new and stronger bond together. It is
very important to learn from your mistakes and be careful of your partner's
feelings. When you do this you can prevent these mistakes from happening
and build a strong relationship.