I guess this is our opinion more than anything... Generally speaking it seems that younger couples do not meet older couples based on the age range they indicate on there profile. We mean 20 somethings don't meet 40 somethings plus. But when they get a little older that changes. Then some 20 somethings change their age preference to include older couples. By the time they reach the age of 30 a lot of them have changed there profile to include couples of 45 plus. The funny thing is this.....a lot of the younger couples that are not interested in older couples eventually change there preference and are meeting the very same older couples they rejected at a younger time in there life. The irony is this.......Those older couples that were already hot if not hotter at an earlier age in there life are now found to be desirable at an older age by the same couples. Age eventually catches up with everyone. It just sort of sounds silly that the younger couples wouldn't pick up on it when the older couples were younger. What do you think ? Why do you think this happens ? Just wondering. Be safe & be good to each other.....

I often say, age is in your mind. It's how you act and feel as much as how you look. It's also about taking care of yourself and caring about your appearance.

We have met couples MUCH older than us who looked, acted, and even played much younger than their age. We have met younger couples who acted much OLDER than their age (cant tell you how they played because they lost our interest very quickly, lol)

I have a very fond memory of meeting a couple at a local meet-n-greet. They were very interested in us. They wanted to leave and get a room. I politely informed them that we had emailed them once and that they responded that I was "far too old for his wife". She replied, "But you're not old at all! You're very sexy!" Maybe it was the drinks. Maybe it was us being spiteful. Maybe it was all the other HOT couples that were interested in us that night. (OK, it was all of the above hehehe). But we dismissed that couple as quickly as they dismissed us online. HA!

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As my dear stepmother like to say age is only what you want to make of it. The thing about us older folks is that we have learned to take our time and to really enjoy life for all that it has to offer wi the younger crowd seems to rush thru everything and that includes sex. Older people have learned that the trip is more fun the arriving at the destation. Have been with young couples where they last maybe ten minutes then with older couples where after 1 hour has pasted as if it was mere minutes. Why because we were enjoying the journery to the final cilmax to rush it.

Of course looks has a lot to do with it as well. All of us want to be seen with a beautful,sexy person and a lot of older people has a few extra pounds, wrinkles,ect that a lot of younger people don't like. We like to say "That if you don't want to talk to us because we are older then its your loss not ours."

We have been to Desire Resort several times and have meet younger couples that wouldn't even say hi kiss my ass. but when we meet them again 2 years later they couldn't leave us alone. We have started to answer any questions about our ages from stranger with "Old enough to know better but young enough not to give a damn."

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We do not read the ages of couples at all, but we often run into trouble from other couples. I know personally, we have had a lot of trouble meeting older couples. We have even met couples in person played, around a little, and after, we exchange sls ids, they won't respond back to us based on our age. We have met couples after trying to message them for several weeks to find out they were just too worried about our age to consider meeting. I have even had a couple tell us "You need to find people your own fucking age...and there is nothing you could do sexually we would be interested in." So, we understand why some couples might stray away from too big of age gap.

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This is something I'm working through -- one 25 y.o. Has already begun doing tantra on his own, so I find that interesting.

I might meet him for coffee.

Other than that many people under 30 seem less capable of writing and interesting first contact email.

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Interestingly we have been on a hiatus recently due to health issues. When i started feeling like we were through the worst i figured id revise our preferences and raise the lower age limit from 35 to 45...not really expecting much response from the latter.

Lo and behold just in the last couple days weve been contacted by two couples who are late 20s to very early 30s! I guess you never know. Ive always been turned on by older women.

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Damn I'm a creepy peep now :(

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I find it creepy, but the lifestyle is full of creepy peeps.

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Revisting this topic....

It depends a lot of what you expect of people. If we're just fucking, well - there can be a little more leeway. If it's long-term friends, more in common is important.

One 22 year old I played with a few months back has attempted to become "buddies", but in chatting with her I realize we have little to chat about. She talks about bands I've never heard of, etc. OK. You're nice, but really, all I want to do is fuck you.

Some may find it creepy if I play with girls into their mid to low 20s but, oh well. I go older too. It's all about having fun.

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When we got started in the lifestyle, we said that there was no way we could get together with anyone our children's ages or close to it. That all changed when we were at Hedo and met a mid 20's couple (she was 24) in the hot tub. We sat and talked with them for such along time, finding things we had in common and then they asked us to meet them for dinner. They were so mature! After dinner, we headed down to the disco. There were maybe two other couples in there. As we danced with them, the young lady leaned into Mr. CT and whispered in his ear that if they got together, he would be fulfilling one of her fantasies to have sex with an older man. He proceeded to tell her that she would then have to fulfill one of his which was to get a blowjob from a girl with a pierced tongue. At that point, she squatted down, pulled out his cock and gave him a BJ right there on the dance floor. She stood up and again whispered that he now owed her. She got paid back 3 times that week.

Since then, we have met many other younger couples who actually enjoy being with couples our age as we know what we want and we take our time in getting it. No longer do we shy away from couples our kids ages!

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For us, it is a bit creepy to date people under 24, our oldest is 17(had kids very young) Now for her preferences.... when we first started this "adventure" she wouldnt even look at couples over 40. She will now look at them, but almost all of the time, and I have to agree with her, the female half is attractive and the male half looks like he could be her dad.......

His preferences... 24-? . As long as there is an attraction...... But if you are older, and don't have a youthful spirit.... it is a big turn off. Now here is the other spectrum... if you are younger, please act like an adult( a little immaturity is ok), but acting like you are a teenager at 25 is another turn off. I guess for me it is all about attitude, as looks are # 2 in my list, and age is even further down the line.

I have even stated to the wife, next time we go to a club, lets find a couple that we really can't tell the age of, and talk for a bit and see if we wanna play, then play first and ask the age afterwards. She would be surprised by a few of them in their very late 40's -mid 50's who would be perfect matches for us....

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