Twenty years into her marriage, Kat and her husband faced head-on the
great underlying fear of most monogamous people: My partner wants to
have sex with other people. For them, that truth led to a rollercoaster
of new sexual and romantic adventures...

You've all gotten together after much planning and discussions of fantasies you all want fulfilled but when you get to the moment, people aren't always up for it and it's important to know that it's okay to opt-out.

Not every relationship lasts forever--Whaaa?--turns out that happily ever after was kind of a fraudulent bill of goods we were sold as kids watching Disney movies. Relationships end or sometimes transition into subtly or entirely different forms.