Erin, I didn't mean it that way. I have three girls myself and thought it would be cool if they had the joy of having a daughter too. I can't believe you would read anything in to my offering congratulations to them at this special time. Geez.

First and most importantly, happy anniversary and congrats on the preggers news!

Secondly, I think erin needs a great big ol' chill pill with an extra side of chill. Being the mom of 4 boys, I took no offense whatsoever when expecting #4 when folks said maybe you'll get a girl! hell, we were hoping for a girl too! we got ourselves boy #4 and love him to absolute pieces.

Just saying there's nothing wrong with wishing for a little variety. ;o)