don't hang out til' closing ... they won't get any better. U r very g l, so it isn't you. If they are not getting back with you, they are flakes and not worth your time ... count your blessing. ... you know the old saying ... 'you gotta kiss a lot of toads before you find a prince'

They probably don't even remember who you were let alone whether or not they were interested in you at the time. That's no criticism of you, exactly, as AMH said, you're vgl, so that isn't it. BUT... sometimes you have to make an IMPRESSION. I duno. Maybe try spilling your drink on them or handing them a card with a pic of your dick or something. (No, I'm not really serious about that but you get the point.)

Thanks for the advice-- after being off the market for so long-- it's hard- and this just puzzles me..

Ya - I get it that they're not interested-- but why go thru the bother of being interested at the moment- usually they are the ones initiating the connection.. And I do text the next day for the followup--

I guess the real question is how to avoid these guys and stop wasting my time..

IDK man, would hope you're not telling them you're just out of "Long" ltr right off the bat?

"guy seemed great...why is he single?"-It's all electronic now, guy's know more about you without meeting you. IE. whats your virtual image; LinkN, facebook; what comes up when they Google you.-Hang out here long enough and you'll get the idea of what read flags you're waiving, without even knowing it.