Survey finds most mothers have been ‘shamed’ about their parenting skills

A recent survey finds the majority—60 percent—of mothers have had their parenting skills shamed at one point or another.

It’s called “mommy-shaming,” and although the number of women who are targeted by this type of criticism is high, what’s even more shocking is the source.

While celebrity parents are often subjected to a barrage of anonymous insults online, for the average mom, it usually hits a lot closer to home.

Mothers reported incidents of shaming are much more likely to come from family than they are from friends or even judgmental strangers.

“Our findings tap into the tensions moms face when parenting advice leads to more stress than reassurance and makes them feel more criticized than supported,” says poll co-director, M.P.H.

“Mothers can get overwhelmed by so many conflicting views on the ‘best’ way to raise a child,” she adds. “Unsolicited advice — especially from the people closest to her child — can be perceived as meaning she’s not doing a good job as a mother. That can be hurtful.”

The most frequent offenders are the mother’s own parents—37 percent of respondents have felt second guessed by their mother or father.

The spouse or other parent is the second most likely offender, with 36 percent feeling judged by a co-parent. Coming in a close third are the in-laws at 31 percent.

Youngstown State University student Albert Maruna was caught red-handed and arrested this week after he allegedly attempted to have sex with a 15-year-old boy, who turned out to be an undercover officer.

Youngstown State University student Albert Maruna was caught red-handed and arrested this week after he allegedly attempted to have sex with a 15-year-old boy, who turned out to be an undercover officer.