How to Tell If a Girl Likes You: 10 Subtle But Surefire Signs

Now that you know these six flirting signs and a few key contexts to apply them in, you are well on your way to more easily noticing when women like you. If she’s outgoing: On the other hand, she might CREATE opportunities for more closeness with you, so that she can be near you and feel how strong and safe you are. If she’s shy: If she feels this too, she might be SHY to be close to you (even while maybe blushing and feeling happy) precisely because she knows it would excite her even more. It’s been that way for years, and the thought that she might feel the same excites you to no end. Since you’ve just met, you’re not sure if she’s smiling extra because she’s talking to YOU or if she is just a smiley person in general.

If that date goes well, she might offer signals that she’s open to a bit of physical intimacy by getting physically close to you as much as possible without actually making physical contact. Likewise, if a woman at work touches your arm, don’t automatically assume she wants to have your babies. Indeed, studies have shown that many men have a hard time interpreting social cues, particularly sexual ones. In other words, women decide if and when men can initiate romantic advances. Across animal species males typically initiate mating, while women decide to accept or reject those advances.

I committed to building my social confidence, becoming great at making conversation and bonding with people. You could try asking her if she’s ever been attracted to a girl. Okay… There is this girl that I like but I can’t figure out if she likes me back or she’s just being herself. Usually when I’m hanging out with friends i notice her at the corner of my eye staring at me.

This could mean she’s a bit extra shy or self-conscious around you, which tells you that she might also be a bit extra interested in you. But if she never calls or texts first, that’s a sign of lack of interest. If she’s often the one initiating, that’s a very strong sign she’s into you. Click here to read my full guide on how to talk to girls. If she seems eager to get the conversation going again, that’s good.

And let’s be honest, it’s kind of hot when a woman puts herself together, and women subconsciously know this. If she looks away when you notice her looking at you, that’s also a good sign.

These seemingly minor body movements can be laden with important information.

– If there are a group of people, check to see if she’s looking at you and monitoring your reactions.

When she decides to drop her wall, you will know she likes you.

I’m not going to suggest that women are lying, but rather, embellishing the truth. Listen and watch how she poses her questions: if it’s with her eyes wide open, glance fixed on you, with a smile, upbeat intonation, well then she likes you.

33. Does she ever speak about things she wants to do with you or present you?

If you’ve been friends with her for a while, then she’ll undoubtedly reveal more about herself because she feels comfortable with you, not because she likes you romantically. This is a great sign that she sees you as someone she can trust. As a result, she’ll naturally start to reveal her quirky or geeky side. When a girl starts to become comfortable being around you, she’ll reveal more of who truly is. If you like her, you’re probably doing the same which is making the conversation flow nicely.

She might also smile more around you, or act more awkward than she does around other people. If the girl you like objects to your romantic advances, even when you thought she liked you back, don’t take it personally. If she says no, you can change the conversation to something else.

There could be absolutely no connection, until the moment you strike up a conversation with her and spark one. Perhaps she’s shy, more reserved, or simply has too many things going on in her life to focus on you. Now, while you might be under the impression that she likes you, there’s truly only one way to find out. People wear all sorts of disguises, and reading them isn’t always easy. My point is, don’t look at the mystery of women as being a negative.