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I have compiled a top 10 list of what I'd like to start doing for my new years resolution, and I hope I can @ least stick to some of them

1. Save more Money 2. Continue to be a cheap asshole 3. Enjoy Life more 4. Be kind to others 5. Fuck all the others who aren't nice to me 6. Seek out better people in my life 7. Get rid of all the others one who aren't worth my time 8. Get Out More, & do FUN THINGS 9. Love the hell outta Bob, cause he deserves THIS more 10.Love Myself More cause I'm so worth it

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"it's so nice to be insane, cause no-one ask you to explain" Helen Reddy cc 1974

I much prefer to fuck the ones that are kind to me and just ignore the other assholes

I really don't have any special resolutions for the New Year of 2012, although I do have resolutions that I try to work on all through the year, every year.

Main Resolution #1: After my Randy died and I didn't die, I have always tried to enjoy life as much as possible because I learned that hard way that it can be way too short.Main Resolution #2: After leaving OH behind and moving to SC just a little over two years ago, I learned to take every opportunity to meet new people (which also works towards my first resolution by pushing me into situations I might never have tried and enjoyed).

so I've been actively working on #3, 4, 6, 7, 8 from your list for many many years and doing pretty good at it if I do say so myself.

good luck everyone on trying to change the things in your life that you're not happy with. There's no sense being miserable with the bad stuff and it is up to you to make that bad stuff change.

I gave up on resolutions; I'm now goal oriented.1: buy a home2: loose the few pounds I gained over the holiday3: Continue to improve my positive mental attitude4: Learn forgiveness5: Try to master #46: Return to school7: Drink more often8: Attend AMG and misbehave like it's our last summer on earth. (could be you know according to other threads)

Wolfie

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Complacency is the enemy. Challenge yourself daily for maximum return on investment.

Haven't done resolutions in a long time. My way of handling it is everything is a two year project from today. Tomorrow it will be a two year project from tomorrow and so on. The point behind this is I know I'll slip up at some point or not be in the mood to follow through right then. It's no big deal because I've still got two more years.

One of my two year projects is to get my triceps to actually get bigger as opposed to just getting stronger. Who cares if you can head-bang 110lbs if your arms look like string beans...strong string beans...but still string beans (no they're not that bad but they refuse to add mass).

As to money...I've decided to kind of ignore that one. Make payments as needed but there's always something that happens that wipes out any progress I make on my credit card. This year I had two teeth break...$2,800 later I've got more money in my mouth than in my checking account.

I guess I've made my decisions/resolutions years ago about what I want to improve. I go to the gym four days a week. I've just about eliminated sugar from my diet. I've eating healthier than I ever have. I'm even getting social again...but that wasn't a resolution...just a drug side effect.

If you do list some resolutions wish you the best in sticking with them. Never hurts to set a goal. Happy New Year!

One of my two year projects is to get my triceps to actually get bigger as opposed to just getting stronger. Who cares if you can head-bang 110lbs if your arms look like string beans...strong string beans...but still string beans (no they're not that bad but they refuse to add mass).

Well I always wanted to look like lou ferrigno, but I know that EVER gonna happen, good luck on your triceps and keep working @ it

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This may be a little off topic but my best friend is making $4000 a month typ...oops...wrong site.

Actually this is for denb45 or anyone else who's been on here a long time. I want to post my own picture as my avatar. Are there any rules on using your own picture...other than having to do the URL thing?

This may be a little off topic but my best friend is making $4000 a month typ...oops...wrong site.

Actually this is for denb45 or anyone else who's been on here a long time. I want to post my own picture as my avatar. Are there any rules on using your own picture...other than having to do the URL thing?

It must be shirtless.

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Actually this is for denb45 or anyone else who's been on here a long time. I want to post my own picture as my avatar. Are there any rules on using your own picture...other than having to do the URL thing?

I don't necessarily have "resolutions," more like things worked toward. I would like to quit eating like every day is a holiday. I would like to get an emergency fund saved up and credit cards paid off. I also would someday like to attend an AMG, as there are some posters I would love to meet in person.

Other than that, everyday directions, as being kind, putting myself in another person's place etc. Oh, I would also love to hook up with someone who has an endless supply of cash and wants to spend it wildly on someone (that someone being me).

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Find myself a part-time job. If I can't find a paid one by the end of Feb then some volunteering will at least get me out of the house and back into a situation where I can get a work reference.Apart from that no resolutions, have a few other things I want to aim toward. An afterthought I will butter more butts <evil grin>.

I am cautious almost superstitious now when it comes to hopes and dreams.

@ Micheal, at my age, me too, I just take one-day-at-a-time, you never know just what the next day will bring, but I always hope for good continued health, and when I wake up each morning, I know I made itthur the long dark of night, baby steps, that how I play THIS

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I'm going to try to stop dwelling so much on people and things I have lost, and try to start thinking of new possibilities -- even if I don't know what those possibilities might be yet. Oh, and like Mark, I resolve to attend AMG, and also to have sex again -- though not necessarily at the same time.

Happy New Year!

Henry

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"Life in Lubbock, Texas, taught me two things: One is that God loves you and you're going to burn in hell. The other is that sex is the most awful, filthy thing on earth and you should save it for someone you love." - Butch Hancock, Musician, The Flatlanders