Does it seem like more young girls of today just get married for there wedding day? Does it seem like more of them care more about there wedding day then getting married? It seems like more of them only care about the wedding day and not really care for there marriage. What you think about this you think its true or not?

To be honest I always think it's a bit unfair that the only big parties you have in life are for graduations, weddings, special occasions, etc.

Those are pretty much the only day that everyone is there to see you, so it is a special day.

Me and family are entertainers so my Mother is no help, constantly telling me I should get married and it'll be the best even we ever threw T_T But to fight her influence I told her I'd settle for a going away party for when I move overseas for awhile.

Everyone wants their special day, and the wedding is the most common one. I just wish more of the woman getting married would realize that's not the only special day they can have, and focus more on the seriousness behind the marriage vows than the event.

If you didn't post that video I'd been dissapointed. And because I am being obtuse today :-P What if the religious people you invite don't believe in hell?

On topic: All these reality shows and E! and TLC channels are making girls look forward to a big day even before they are old enough to understand what love and marriage is supposed to be. They are taught to look forward to a "special day" just for them before being taught about love and vows. It isn't some of their faults, they are imprinted at a young age with the wrong priorities. Sure they get married for love, but in the back of some of their heads they just care for their big day.

Sometimes It does seem like it I seen the show called bridezilla and in the show from the few eps i have seen it looks like they care more about there wedding day then anything else I dont even know how lot of the guys end up marring them

I am in to getting married and I also like to have a nice wedding but not so crazy like the bridezilla I want a nice stress free fun wedding Yes it is a big day but its over so fast. I be more happy with that I got married and hope for a nice life with my new husband