I agree with most of what has been said. However, I made a point to make sure that you can see ALL of both of us even in our public photos, that most are very recent (1 from a M&G 2 weeks ago....<------that one) and I state that we are both a little heavier. Yes I said little. She is about 25 over and I about 30. However, we both have large frames. The ARMY wanted me at 176, I got there and looked like I was ill and dying of a disease, my frame was just to large for that weight. I prefer to be around 200. That fits me nicely. On the other hand, I like my woman a little bit larger, I lust after T. I love her just the way she is. I keep prodding her NOT to lose weight...lol But I also state that if our size isn't to your liking, keep on keeping on and good luck!

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Or you can look great and be cool too, people like that do exist! And no, it is not a given that as we age we gain weight.

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I think that people need to get over the weight thing. As we get older we get fatter I look at it this way you can look great and be a dick or chubby and really cool. I prefer the later

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We have definitely had the meeting where we were like Holy crap! update your photos! LOL! we have had people meet us and tell us that our pictures don't do us justice.. Ehh

Here is one that i find funny.. so we chatted with a couple on here on and off, then they disappeared for awhile. fast forward... we went to a house party and during the party they walked in ( we didn't recognize them and vise verse. so the evening went on and we were cordial but never did anything with them other than chit chat..

Few weeks go by and we get an email from them with just general conversation and how we should get together and meet sometime. We look at the photos and said to each other. "Holy crap! we met them at so in so's house" funny thing is we don't think they realize they have actually met us already LOL!

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"then the farther you go the older and uglier they get."

Why do you equate age with ugliness? Some of us were ugly even in our youth.

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there are pics of the male half in our private pictures. We did have some in the public folder until I did a mass purge of pics about a year and a half ago. Need to put some up but I need to take them first! Our heights and weights are accurate within a few pounds one way or the other. I get told I don't weigh what my stats say but always to the good side but I'm not into lying even if most feel I look thinner.

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LOL. And we only have one earth so we'd better take care of it, right? I can appreciate that. :)

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SS, I guess those that put old "new" pics are just trying to be green and recycle!

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with you on that one girl. we saw mickey mouse at disney last week. fucker is supposed to be in such good shape? haha. double chin. LOL. he's actually a chubby little fucker.

as for working out, we'll never be slaves to the gym. we're there (their, they're) about every other day usually. not trying to impress anyone, just trying to stay in decent shape. hwp you know. so far it seems to be working for us.

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We had several hilarious incidents with swingers who lied about their weight. This one stands out the most.

One couple, the wife's numbers were 5'7 140lbs, I'm 5'6 and 148lbs. The husband was showing 6'1 and 208lbs, my husband is 5'11 and 192lbs. We show up at the restaurant and wait for them. Thirty minutes go by, they're not there. We figured we'll give them 10 more minutes, finish our drinks and leave. Moments later, the couple from across the bar approaches us. Taps my husband on the shoulder and are introducing themselves as the couple that we're supposed to meet. To this day, I am wondering what my expression was like. The guy had at least 40lbs on my husband, was no where near 6'1 (he was the same height as my husband) and his fairy tales of gyming which he was bragging about were all an apparent myth, moobs are not pecs their chunks of lard. Her? holy shit! her thighs were thunderous! I can't even begin to describe the baggage that was on those thighs, yet their profile states that she weighs less than me and is only one inch taller. I used to have an issue with zero pounds on the profile, but at least, zero pounds is not lying, whereas fudging numbers is, whether you're a female or a male.

I really don't understand what people are thinking, we're here to meet, your lie will be discovered, you'll be humiliated, what is the purpose of this non sense?