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After my part time event at Singapore Island Country Club, I went over to meet the clique; chong meng and kianwee. Kinda weird as we did not meet to go for singing; purely a totally a chatting session! haha.

We had an expensive la-kopi session at Coffee Bean for almost 2 hours. Army life topic is really unavoided with chong meng around. haha.

Then we almost went for the kbuffet; but ended up at Aston for dinner.

Topic for dinner is mainly about Men and Women, Horscope and I gave them lots of situational question. I love to give people situational question; interesting when i find that most of them feels this way and interesting when they are not.

For example, guys will never praise one another. Imagine your buddy who is alway so weak, suddenly train hard and become fitter whenever you saw him. Will you actually praise or maybe mention to him. "hey bro, wah, why your body become so fit now" They actually won't do that.

Reason : By saying out, meaning they have lost their ego. To men, ego is really important to them. They will never admit their mistake.

For example, your man is driving. You told him that he went onto a wrong way. Do you think he will listen? Yes/No. Some won't cause they will think that they are right and he is the one who is driving often. But when things really went wrong ways, all he will do is to keep quiet when you are doing your nags. :)

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And we talk about the differences women and men. Sometimes women can be quite annoying. I agreed I am too. And sometimes women do not know what she knows.

For example:1. You had a bad day at work. All you hope is someone to listen to you and give you advices. The first one you met; is your man. You complain to him how your boss treats you when you forgot to do something for him. Your man, did not say anything but pin-pointed at you that you shouldn't have do this or do that. He is right, he should pin-point your mistake as it is really your wrong. But all you feel is that, he don't side me. You will ended up quarrelling.

2. Same situation. Bad day. Complain. Then when your man heard that you are being bullied by your boss. He stood up! "WHY DID HE SCOLD YOU?" "HOW CAN HE BE SO MEAN" On the other side, you smile for the way he stands up for you. But is this healthy? =\ Women are really weird enough.

The difference between men and women

NamesWomen: If Mary, Susan, Claire and Barbara go out for lunch, they will call each other Mary, Susan, Claire and Barbara.

Men: If John, Brad, Tony and Daniel go out, they will affectionately refer to each other as Bruno, Scrappy, Peanut-Head and Godzilla.

Eating OutMen: When the bill arrives, John, Brad, Tony and Daniel will each throw in $20, even though the total is only $34.25. None of them will have any smaller bills and none will admit they want change back.

Women: When Mary, Susan, Claire and Barbara get their bill, out come the pocket calculators.

MoneyMen: A man will pay $10 for a $5 item he needs.

Women: A woman will pay $5 for a $10 item that she doesn't need, because it's on sale.

BathroomsMen: A man has five items in his bathroom: a toothbrush, razor, shaving cream, a bar of soap, and a towel from the Motel 6.

Women: The average number of items in a woman's bathroom is 328. The average man would not be able to identify most of them.

ArgumentsWomen: Women always have the last word in an argument. Anything a man adds after that is the beginning of a new argument.

FutureA woman worries about the future -- until she gets a husband.A man never worries about the future -- until he gets a wife.

SuccessA successful man is one who makes more money than can be spent by his wife.A successful woman is one who can find that a man.

MarriageA woman marries a man expecting he will change, but he doesn't.A man marries a woman expecting that she won't change, and she does.

Dressing UpA woman will dress up when she goes shopping, empties the garbage, answers the phone, waters the plants, gets the mail and reads a book.

A man will dress up for weddings and funerals.

NaturalMen wake up looking as good as when they went to bed.

Women will somehow deteriorate during the night.

ChildrenA woman knows all about her children. She knows about their best friends, romances, secret hopes and dreams, favorite foods, fears and dental appointments.

A man is vaguely aware of some short people living in the house.

After that, supposed to go to superclub (I think I get the name correctly?) Then after we went to bridge again for HTHT Session. Kw asked a question "Sometimes will you wish to be like those drama situation and get into a coma then wake up losing your memory so that you are start afresh again?" Well, sometimes I do hope that too. But right now, most probably I won't wish to. Maybe I hope that I can erase some part of the unhappy memories that I have, but not for all. It will be kinda miserable if you don't remember any single thing. But then, unhappiness experiences make someone grow up, isn't it?

It is good when you have friends with you to talk too and you feel comfortable talking to them anything and everything. It don't have to a big group. Just purely chatting session can simply make the day and enlighten your thinking. (:

Sometimes I feel that I am overly stubborn over certain thing. Why am i so persistent over certain stuff? Can't I just let go and there will be a happy ending?

一个人太执著是对是错. Seriously I have no idea. I know I shouldn't be like this. Yet. I cannot get over with me. The problem totally lies with me. Sometimes I hope I can much better at handling things. I can't handle things at all. I know how to think but I cannot handle. This is what I am sucks at.

And I truly agreed that Ignorance is a bliss! Why find out something knowing that it will makes you feel upset. But still you will want to find out. That's why; Curiosity killed the cat. We will grow up and understand... I guess?