What Should I Do When I'm Heartbroken After My Partner Cheated On Me ?

Like all others, it is evident for you to feel heartbroken after your partner cheated on you. It is a tough time in your life and it is very difficult to cope with. Neverthless, getting your ex back or giving up him/her after cheating is completely your choice. It is important that you need to consider carefully and don't hurry to give any decision.

Obviously you still love your ex, or you wouldn't be so cut up about the situation. The thing is, the trust that you once had in your ex has now all but disappeared. You also have many questions floating around your mind, such as how long was the affair going on, and why did your ex cheat on you. These things will leave you doubting as to your ex's loyalty to you during your relationship.

The affair will also have had a detrimental effect on your self-confidence as well. For instance, if your ex resorted to cheating on you, surely it was because you weren't good enough for him/her? As you can see, a lot of thought has to go into making a concrete decision to get your ex back after cheating.

Another thing, if you and your ex decide to give your relationship another try, you must be prepared for a very long road ahead. You might be blissfully happy to have your ex back in your life again, but is your happiness going to be all round? For instance, if your ex says that he/she has to work late one evening can he/she be trusted? Is there really an overload of work at the office, or is your ex going to meet someone else?

If your ex is talking on the phone then that too will be cause for suspicion. Who is your ex talking to? In short, it is possible to get your ex back after cheating, but will you be able to cope with the constant suspicion that is inevitable in a case like yours?

Whether you are still together and trying to deal with infidelity or you are already seperated and want to save your relationship... the next step is absolutely crucial!

Don't make the mistake of saying or doing something that will kill your chances of getting back together with your partner. Find out what you need to do to save your relationship and emotionally reconnect with her or him again.

What Should I Do When I'm Heartbroken After My Partner Cheated On Me ?

I get this question a lot. I often write about my recovery after my husband cheated on me. So, sometimes men contact me and ask for some suggestions or ways that they can "prove" to their wife that they really are sorry and want to save the marriage. They are often looking for some magical words, the perfect "I'm sorry gift," or the right actions to take to prove how remorseful they really are.

Yesterday, I received an email from a wife who said "my intuition is telling me that my husband is having an affair. I don't have any proof, but I feel very strongly that something is very wrong here. How do I find out if I'm right? Should I confront him?" I'll answer these questions in the following article.

Shouldn't it be only fair to make him feel what he put me through? After all, don't I have my pride and dignity at stake here? If all you can think of is "he cheated on me," then you should read this article to see what you should do.

I recently received a somewhat heartbreaking email from a wife who told me that her marriage was over and it was all her fault. She had cheated on her husband, very briefly, with her boss. She said that she really did not know what she was thinking at the time. She had always been relatively happy in her marriage but she never really thought that her actions were going to come back to haunt her.

I often hear comments like "my spouse says that they she is trying to forgive me and that she still loves me, but I wonder if she is telling me the whole truth. Because I can't help but see the look in her eyes and the tension in her face when she's saying this. I can't help but think that she's never going to feel the same way about me again. I almost wish she would just be brutally honest but I'm also afraid of what she might say. How does the faithful spouse really see the cheating spouse?"

So, about eight months after the affair ended, the husband asked to have lunch with the wife. Over lunch, he poured out his heart, begged for forgiveness, and told his wife that he would spend the rest of his life showing her that he could be a good husband. Of course, the wife felt relieved to hear these words, but she didn't know where to go from here. She was afraid to trust her husband again.

Common comments are things like: "I can't decide whether to stay with him or not after the affair. Part of me doesn't want to see my marriage come to an end and the other part of me feels like I will always hold a grudge and hold this over his head because I'll never really get over it. And that's no way to have a marriage and is likely to make us both quite miserable. I don't know what the right call is at this point. How do I decide whether I should leave my husband or stay?"

Still, I can offer you some insights toward some things that can make this process slightly more bearable (as much as is possible) in the days following finding out about his cheating. It can be very tempting to react with emotions without thinking too much about the future and the coming days. But, this will sometimes cause regret that is avoidable. In the following article, I'll offer what I think are some sound tips on how to effectively cope after finding out about his cheating.