O, P, R

O

Oral servitude– A specific form of submission in which the submissive partner satisfies the dominant partner orally, but is generally not permitted to have other, more conventional forms of sexual contact with the dominant partner.

Orgasm Control – When one is forced to release or hold their body’s desires to orgasm. Can be used in play or punishment.

Over the Knee (OTK)– Over the knee spankings

Outdoor Scenes – Scenes involving the great outdoors! Any scene where the couple is outside during scening. Some activities are illegal.

P

Painslut–A person who enjoys receiving a heavy degree of pain but may or may not necessarily enjoy submitting.

Parachute – Round leather device which is fitted between the scrotum and the base of the penis with chains for weights to be added. This is a form of play, or punishment.

Play party–A BDSM event involving many people engaging in scenes.

Pony Slave – Scenes involving the submissive being dressed or made up as to portray a “pony”. Scenes might include mouth bits, harnesses, saddles, riding crops, etc. Note: Riding your pony can cause serious damage to their backs, hips, joints.

Prison Scening – Acting out a scene involving some type of prison scene. The use of a *cell* is for punishment and humiliation.

Psycholangy– Orgasm without physical stimulation.In some D/s relationships, the dominant partner will train the submissive partner to orgasm on command, with a word or a gesture, but without being touched physically.

Pussy Whipping -“Whipping” the genital (vagina) area with different types of equipment (i.e., floggers, crops, slappers, etc.) for erotic pleasure

R

Rack – A table-like device which is fitted with pulling or stretching capabilities. Some racks incorporate pulleys, winches or wheels for pulling one in opposing directions. Paddles or whips are generally used on the person on a rack.

Rimming – Mouth contact with the rectal area, which includes insertion of the tongue. Note : Hygiene precautions should be observed with this type of play. This play can spread disease.

Risk Aware Consensual Kink (RACK): A loosely defined code of conduct in the BDSM community which holds that a given activity is ethically acceptable between adults so long as everyone involved is aware of the risks involved, if any, and gives informed consent to that activity. The idea behind “risk aware consensual kink” is an acknowledgement of the fact that some BDSM activities may involve risk of injury, and that as long as all the participants are aware of any risk and consent to the activity, the activity is ethical.

Rope bondage – There are many styles of rope work from simple to very intricate. study of knots is important to anyone wishing to attempt this play. This form of play can be very dangerous if blood flow is disrupted. Not for the novice.