The most sensual aspects of a bedroom are often smelled and felt, not seen. I use strictly white sheets and blankets, not only for ease of bleaching, and keeping clean, but also because the all white oasis is so welcoming after a day out in the cruel world. I use Tide's Lavendar and Vanilla aromatherapy detergent, and that, combined with branches of eucalyptus I keep on a nightstand make my bedroom smell heavenly. A man could be turned off by too many frills in a girl's bedroom, but beautiful smelling soft clean sheets turn *everyone* on!