Fleshlight Sex Toys for Men - In Depth Guide

If you're horny and single or even looking for a bit extra while you're in a relationship, using a male sex toy for masturbation is a lot better than the tired 'five finger shuffle' and getting your hands messy.

If you've never thought about buying a sex toy to aid masturbation, Fleshlights are perfect for pleasuring you with a realistic feel for monstrous orgasms.

What are Fleshlights?

The Fleshlight is the world's biggest-selling male masturbation toy ever. Why? Because they're the closest you'll get to the real thing from a male masturbator.

Fleshlights are made from a soft, pliable, non-vibrating Real Feel Super Skin sleeve that has been specially designed to replicate the feel of a woman's vagina and the sensation of penetrative sex.

Quite simply, Fleshlights are the closest you'll get to 'doing it' without actually doing it!

How do Fleshlights work?

Using a Fleshlight couldn't be simpler. All you need to do is remove the gel insert from the Fleshlight's plastic case and submerge it in hot - not boiling - tap water. Once the gel insert has warmed to your desired temperature, shake off the excess water and place the gel insert back in the Fleshlight's plastic case.

With your new toy ready to rock, add some lubricant to your penis, the orifice entry of the Fleshlight and the internal canal of the gel insert. Then gently insert your penis and thrust away as you would during normal penetrative sex.

Some like to leave the Fleshlight's small end cap on during use to create suction on the backstroke, while others use their hands to restrict airflow at the bottom of the Fleshlight for a more intense sensation. Whatever floats your boat, you won't be disappointed with your Fleshlight's performance.

Fleshlights and your Sex Life

If you're not convinced that the sensation you get from using a Fleshlight is much better than jacking off to an old porn tape while using your rough mitts, then how about the fact that Fleshlights could make you a better lover?

It doesn't matter if you're a porn star or porn geek in the bedroom, Fleshlights are a great way to improve your stamina and performance.

Because Fleshlights have specially designed inserts to provide different sensations, you can enjoy working on your thrusting technique or developing new moves as well as being stimulated by the textures of the different sleeves available.

The Stamina Training Unit Fleshlight does exactly what it says on the tin and builds up your stamina by getting you used to the intense feeling of intercourse, without the pressure of a partner.

Fleshlights will aid those who suffer with problems regarding lack of sensation from too much masturbation. If you have become used to the feeling of your hand bringing you to orgasm, you may find it difficult to climax any other way - but the Fleshlight can help! It has all the manual action of using your hands but feels like your favourite part of your partner, so you will slowly condition yourself to ejaculate in other ways.

And, after all, what better reason to spend half your time masturbating than increasing your sexual prowess and dynamic when it comes to the real thing?

How to choose the Fleshlight for you

SIZE
When buying a Fleshlight, measure your penis circumference and length when erect to get a good fit. Getting the right size will mean the difference between experiencing discomfort or loss of sensation during masturbation and having an exhilarating orgasm.

Fleshlight cases are generally 10 inches in length with a diameter of 4 inches at the entrance and 2 inches at the end.

Generally speaking, the average penis size is 5 - 6 inches in length when erect with a girth of 4 - 5 inches. Guys with larger than average penises tend to opt for the Original Pink Lady Fleshlight, which has a larger orifice and entry canal compared to something like the Ultra Tight Fleshlight, which may better suit guys with smaller penises or those who enjoy an incredibly tight penetrative sensation.

APPEARENCE
Another factor to consider when buying a Fleshlight is the colour. The colours currently available are Pink and Ice. Pink is the most popular model in the range, but the Ice model is perfect for when you (and your partner!) want to see exactly what's happening.

You will also need to decide what orifice you like the look of as well. The mouth opening is great for creating the experience of oral sex whilst the butt opening is tighter and more textured, allowing for a feel that is like realistic anal sex.

Alternatively, you might enjoy the look and feel of the original lady vagina opening which is ideal for men who keep it real. The stealth opening may not look like much but it's super discreet, which makes it great for travelling or shared accommodation.

Whichever colour and orifice you go for, you're sure to get the look and feel you've always desired!

TEXTURE
The texture of the insert you buy to go with your Fleshlight will have the biggest impact on your experience and ultimately your orgasm.

If you want an intense orgasm, the Speed Bump insert will provide just that with soft massage beads to stimulate the head and shaft of your penis as you plunge and thrust. The Vortex insert features a texture of dozens of twisting ribs to keep your penis continuously stimulated.

If you want something less intense, the Wonder Wave has raised rings that send out stimulating waves and ripples while pushing in and pulling out. Similarly, the Super Tight insert is smooth but small, allowing you to enjoy a subtle stimulating effect with every movement you make.

Cleaning your Fleshlight

Making sure your Fleshlight is clean will keep it looking and feeling fabulous!

To clean it, remove the insert from the case and run warm water through out. Do not use any detergents but use your fingers to make sure that the water gets into any ridges, bumps or texture.

Pat your Fleshlight dry with a towel or leave to air dry in a clean, dust-free place. Once it is fully dry, powder it with cornstarch/corn flour to keep the Real Feel Super Skin feeling supple.

We guarantee you'll spend more time playing with these 'torches' than any others you'll find in B&Q…

Comments (2)

I want to buy my fella one as a gift (a Surprise gift) how do I know which to buy?? lots of choice but is there a starting point..stamina NOT a problem just want him to have fun.

LoveHoney - Carly:August 05, 2009 20:47

Why not start with the basic Pink Lady Fleshlight? Many people start off with this one as its a great way to know if a Fleshlight is for you! It's got a nice tight (but not too tight) opening, a smooth sleeve and it's really easy to use!

It also comes complete with a case so he can use it right out of the box!