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im completely drained over this process. so I will stay away from BBC until Monday and by then I should have an update for you ladies!! FX for all of you who are still not out this cycle! GL and baby dust to all! Wish me luck and pray I get some answers before I really lose it lol

Hi. I think I O'd on or the day after Christmas. This is my first time TTC. I am 35 and got off BC in September. I started feeling nauseous on the 27th and felt like I was pre-menstrual. On Sunday, I started spotting. I think AF came yesterday but there has been only spotting so far. I continue to be nauseous which is unusual. I broke down and POAS yesterday. It was BFN. I was devastated and confused at the same time. I do not know if I should move on and give up hope or keep hoping. I was so devastated I could not go in to work today. I needed someone to talk to that could understand so I joined this group. I appreciate your posts. I am going to focus on the positives for the rest of the day and I hope everyone else does to!

paul-- i just had to stop testing cause i too was making myself nutty. do you ever get headaches tied to your hormone levels? i do. maybe it is a good sign after all. i will send good thoughts in your direction.

woodbine wings-- love your online name. reminds me of home, there is a town in south jersey called woodbine. any way, i totally get the frustration and upset of your bfn yesterday. but, don't give up hope. maybe you just implanted late?

as for sleepiness, woke at 730 and by 900 i was down for a wee nap before heading to sub in the afternoon. feeling like i could lay down again.

I'm brand new but wanted to join in. I think O'd right after christmas...AF is 3 days late; on CD 31. I POAS this morning with a BFN. The last 3 weeks I've been super emotional...period cramps...car sick feeling all the time. This is my 4th month TTC. Should I wait for a few more days for AF to show before I test again?...those things are spendy!

Strawberries - I am not sure if hormones played a part with that terrible headache I had on Saturday but it was the worse headache I have had in a really long time! How are you holding up? I feel loads better today.. not so stressed and am just trying to be patient. Just feel stuck in time lol

paul-- i am doing well today. i didn't have to work. so, i cleaned the house from l top to bottom, did a bunch of grad school work and played on ancestry. i am feeling way less stressed today. trying to keep in mind that if i get a positive this time out great, but if not there is always next cycle.

Yup! I had a long day at work but I am right there with you.. I have a doc Appointment on Monday so ill see what I'm told.. I just want to know what the hold up is for AF lol I am missing her right now bc I don't think I'm pg bc I keep getting neg results and feel more like something is going on with me..

paul-- yep. another bfn for me this morning. i am not shocked. we really just started trying in the past couple of months. i will look forward to af because it means that this month i can temp and use my new fertility momitor. i have a friend who is a midwife who swears by the thing. they have been successful the first month out with both kidlets. i figure it is worth the try.

Starwberries - I woke up this morning to a bfn on a frer although I had a very faint line on a dollar tree test yesterday morning so I assume it must have been an indent... I feel numb at this point, out of pure frustration I cancelled my appointment this evening and kept the appoint I have for the 29th with my regular doctor. So I will just see what happenes by then... Gl to you and I will kmfx for you! Let me know if you have an update..