also your buddy has played paintball.. tell him to try to play a game where he can only grab people.

Isnt that game called rape?

__________________"Men ought either to be well treated or crushed, because they can avenge themselves of lighter injuries, of more serious ones they cannot; therefore the injury that is to be done to a man ought to be of such a kind that one does not stand in fear of revenge."
- Machiavelli