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What to Do If He's Acting Distant

It is extremely difficult for many women to understand why men pull back and acting distant when everything seems to be going well. You may have an incredible attraction for your man, spent great times together or have even become intimate. You want to know why he’s pulled back and what to do about it.

If you’re going to be successful in your relationships, you cannot let your fear of rejection drive you to respond in ways that will make a man think of you as insecure and needy. If he says he’ll call and didn’t, do not chase him down. Leave him alone.

Women view the process of being in a relationship much different from men. Men usually focus on enjoying the ride while women focus on the destination. If you want to be the kind of woman that your man can’t get enough of, you have to respond in ways that other women do not respond. This is the only way that you will stand out from the crowd and cause him to think of you as his dream girl.

This starts with having a “together” attitude that communicates that you respect yourself and him. Men are looking for women who can respect their space. If you respect his need to just chill, he’ll be way more attracted to you. In order to do this, you have to play it cool. Don’t become a crazy. You must show him that you’re not going to fall apart when you haven’t heard from him.

When he comes around, he’ll also look at how you’re going to respond. Will you be excited to hear from him or respond with indifference? Think about it… if you’ve been waiting for him to call, then call him back after a few hours and you’re totally excited to hear from him, don’t you think he’ll want to call more often?