(Closed) MOH in need of marching orders!

I’m MOH for my BFF and would love some advice. My bridie is extremely low key and not only asks next to nothing of me and of the other BMs, but outright refuses to be fussed over. Her groom’s aunt is hosting the shower and the bride has nixed a bachelorette party, so aside from hosting a bridesmaid get together and participating in the actual wedding my maidly duties are really limited. (Where’s the problem, right?) Thus far, my biggest responsibility has been running interference for the people pleasing bride up against pushy family and friends.

My question to you bees is: What can I do for her that would be helpful but not overbearing as the wedding approaches? She would never ask for anything, especially since I’m out of town, so I’m hoping some of you experienced brides can point me in the right direction!

Maybe get her a gift card for a spa day??? And/or a gift certificate for her to get a mani and a pedi??? I think that both of those gifts would be appreciated, since she doesn’t really expect you to do more than what you have done and are doing.

I agree that she’d probably really just like a spa-type thing if the wedding is stressing her out. Most of all though, just be there for her. 🙂 Do something cute – maybe one of those “day of kits” for the wedding day.

There’s a post on here somewhere that I posted the “emergency day of kit” stuff. I think that will help her to stress less and enjoy her day more. 🙂 Other than that, I can’t think of anything else.