Body Language That Leads To Sex

Learn To Understand Her Body Language

She inches closer

Some of the more liberal women will simply toss themselves into your lap, but they’re either drunk or the “liberal” label is simply a nice word for “slut.” Most ladies will keep themselves at a certain distance when a guy first approaches them, which is why you should watch that gap very closely. The key is to keep your distance. Maintain the aforementioned gap and resist the urge to move closer, and as your conversation progresses see if she begins to shift. Perhaps you’re sitting next to her in a booth (just beware the “Bottle Service Only” signs if you’re not prepared to shell out), and initially she’s a few feet to your left. However, she has laughed a few times, participated in the discussion, smiled with her eyes, and when she thinks you’re not looking, she’ll make the shift. It’ll be very subtle, a few inches at most. But it should continue if you stay the course. By the time your legs are touching, give yourself a pat on the back. It’s a win.

She touches

There’s any number of ways to interpret a social encounter, but the lightest of touches can be the most significant of signals. Most times, girls don’t like being touched; if you ask them what their No. 1 turnoff is — in regards to the night scene and clubs — it’s usually men who take the ill-advised initiative to touch them. They’ll put a friendly arm around a woman, put a hand on her shoulder while talking or lean in for a hug when it’s completely unwarranted. Girls aren’t often interested in this confident stance. Hence, it makes perfect sense to realize that when she puts a hand on your forearm or purposely brushes up against you, things are going quite well. Any experienced Player knows that when a woman laughs, places a gentle hand on his arm and looks him in the eye, he has clearance for go-ahead maneuvers.

She moves for your benefit

While women are always careful to keep interested men in their line of sight, they automatically assume your eyes won’t be roving. After all, she’s sexy as hell and there’s no better place for the man’s eyes to be. Therefore, if she has deemed you worthy and she’s rapidly becoming enamored with the idea of a sexual escapade, she may start moving in a way that is designed to catch your eye. This usually happens after you’ve broken contact for a moment; perhaps she goes to the bar to get a drink, and she leans over to grab it — further than would be necessary. Or maybe you’ve made the appropriate impact and have decided to circulate a bit more, but you can always spot her in the throng; she’s “unconsciously” striking a certain pose that gets your attention. Such body language is a definite precursor to more amorous movements, and you must trust your eyes: Yes, she is doing that on purpose.

become a body linguist

If you’re not paying attention, you’re probably missing a veritable horde of signals that all mean the same thing. You don’t need to be a genius in the area of human behavior; you only need to spot one of the preceding signs — and she’ll usually provide you with more — and you’re off to the races. However, it just goes to show how crucial observation is for any Player.