What is your relationship with MONEY?

Here, in
this blog article, I want to share with you the power and importance of your
relationship with money.

So, what is
your relationship with money?

Why
relationship with money?

Most people
do not realize that relationships rule most of our lives.

Whatever
you do. Wherever you are. And whoever you are. You cannot run away from the
power of relationships in your life. Relationships rule your life whether you
like it or realize it or not.

If you want
to be a great chef, you must have a great relationship with food.

If you want
to be great lawyer, you must have a great relationship with law.

Therefore,
if you want to be rich beyond your wildest dreams, you must cultivate good
relationship with money.

So, what do
you think your relationship with money is now?

What will
be your answer?

There can
only be either one of the 2 answers – Positive or Negative. There is no other
answer in my opinion.

Most
have negative relationship with money

Yes. This
is a fact. Most people have negative relationship with money without realizing
it at the very least.

But we were
born without knowing what relationship is. So, how do we develop negative
relationship with money in the first place?

My short
answer – your childhood conditioning and experiences.

Most of us had our fair share of seeing our parents struggle over money matters when we were young. We saw the anger on our parents’ faces and we being to associate money with anger. Therefore, money = anger.

We were told by our parents, “money doesn’t grow on trees.” And that we must work very hard to live an above average life or we will be labelled as a “nobody” in the society. As such, we being to associate money with pain. Money = pain.

We have been told that the love of money is the root of all evil. As such, we despise money from a very young age.

We have been told, “the rich get richer because they exploit the poor.” As such, we despise the rich.

We
subconsciously carry these negative feelings and thoughts about money into our
adult lives, into our marriage, and very often into our graves.

Because of
this early childhood conditioning and experiences, most of us are financially
poor and our family lives are not as good as they should be. This is all due to
our poor and negative relationship with money.

The
consequences

I am a
believer of cause and effect. For every cause, there will be at least an
effect. And for every effect, there is always at least a cause.

My mentor
once told me, “the quality of your relationships determines the quality of
your life.” He was very right.

As such, in
my opinion, when you have a negative relationship with money, you can never
have a positive financial life. Period. This is but a sad fact of life.

All
conditioning is reversable

This is
what I believe. Whatever your negative relationships you may have in your life,
they are reversible for the better. This is where the good news lies.

This is
because, whatever you have input into your subconscious mind, they are basically
your habit of thoughts. You put them into your subconscious mind in the first
place. And whatever you put in; you can replace. You are the master of your
thoughts. As such, all your thoughts are replaceable.

You must
have come across many cases of people who have changed the quality of their
lives by changing the quality of their thoughts and in the process their
relationship with the things they want to change changed for the better.

You can do
the same as well.

However, as
a word of caution, this is NOT going to be an overnight stuff like most
motivational “gurus” would have you believe. The truth is the longer you have
held on to those negative thoughts or relationships with money, the longer it
is going to take you to replace them. It will take you time, dedication, and
patience. It is NOT easy but doable.

In the
Bible, it was mentioned, “new wine cannot be poured into old wineskins.”

In short,
you must decide to be the new wineskin to contain the new wine. Otherwise, all
new wine will be spilled on to the ground and all your efforts will be futile.

So, decide
to be the new wineskin and take your financial life to the next level where it
is your birth right.

Prosperity
to you.

Victor Ang

CEO &
Founder, AlgoInsights

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