``Where
the Bishop is, there let the multitude of believers be;
even as where Jesus is, there is the Catholic Church'' Ignatius of Antioch,
1st c. A.D

May Crowning

As are all flowers, the month of May is dedicated
to the Mary, whom we celebrate as Queen of
Heaven on the last day of this month. Early in May, a statue of the Virgin
at church is crowned with a wreath of roses, and the same are laid at her
feet. Little girls and boys dress up in their best, often in blue; one child
carries the crown on a cushion to the statue and another child is chosen
to crown the statue. The selection process varies -- sometimes a boy is chosen
to bear the wreath, but always a girl is chosen to crown the statue (usually
the oldest girl).The flowers remain throughout the month. Hymns are sung,
too, and especially favored is the Victorian "Bring Flowers of the Rarest,"
lyrics below. Click here to
listen to the melody.

Bring flow'rs
of the fairest,
Bring flow'rs of the rarest,
From garden and woodland
And hillside and vale;
Our full hearts are swelling,
Our glad voices telling
The praise of the loveliest
Rose of the vale.

Chorus:
O Mary! we crown thee with blossoms today,
Queen of the Angels, Queen of the May,
O Mary! we crown thee with blossoms today,
Queen of the Angels, Queen of the May.

Of Mothers the dearest,
Oh, wilt thou be nearest,
When life with temptation
Is darkly replete?
Forsake us, O never!
Our hearts be they ever
As Pure as the lilies
We lay at thy feet. (Chorus)

Catholics honor Mary at home, too, crowning the
true "May Queen's" statue with flowers at their family altars, and leaving
roses (especially red and/or white) at her feet, for the entire month of
May. If you don't have a statue of Our Lady, you can place flowers around
a picture of her. 1

And here is a beautiful astronomical coincidence for this time of year. If
you go outside early in May, face East, and look directly up overhead, you
will see a relatively faint "L" in the sky (assuming the sky is clear enough).
This is the constellation Coma Berenices
2 -- a constellation, whether mythically
or not, that was named after a Queen (actually, a Queen's hair, but that's
another story). Anyway, the second brightest star in this constellation is
called "Diadem" -- crown of royalty. So take your children outside, point
out the star Diadem to them, and think of Our Lady, crowned in Heaven --
our Queen Mother who wants nothing more than for us to love her Son...

Footnotes:1 Tip for keeping cut flowers fresh: re-cut stems,
and put an aspirin, a penny, some sugar, and a 1/2 capful of bleach into
their water. Change water every day and repeat the above. Keep them in a
cool place -- in the fridge at night, if possible. Doing these things really
will keep them fresh a lot longer!