I dunno what is inspiring me to say this but I confess that I have never had an orgasm and don't know if I am even capable of it after so many years taking SSRI antidepressants (which I am on now).

I also confess that it hurts having anything 'in there' and that is one of the reasons why I don't like/want sex. I also worry that it only hurts because I had an accident when I was about 3 and ended up having to have stitches in that place and I have scar tissue or something and will never be normal...