Well its every server I can't connect to any vanilla servers, i can connect to tekkit servers just fine but vanilla is broken for me even if i try to connect through my tekkit i can't see them, but its ONLY vanilla.

Umm... have you tried with a fresh vanilla jar, as in, not installing any mods and then trying to connect? It sounds like it would be your mods that are causing the problem. I just checked Tekkit/Technic's pack site and I noticed that they don't even have it updated for 1.3.x. That could be your problem.

Well I use the launcher so it shouldn't affect it, but it still could. I tried Deleting my entire .minecraft along with all of its contents other than my texture packs(i memorize ip's so losing those aren't a big deal)
I don't have any 1.3.2 mods yet so that couldn't be it the only thing that confuses me is that i can only connect to 1.2.5 tekkit servers... It's so stupid i really want to get back on the server

Well when i go onto the servers page it takes forever to connect and when i check ny ping its 15k+ but only on 1.3 1.2.5 is fine

wipe your .minecraft and backup your server.dat and re install

You thought I hadn't already tried that?

I'm sorry Jman next time your minecraft brakes i won't try to help you fix it........

breaks* and sorry I'm just a bit stressed with school starting and trying to constantly fix things on my computer and having to do ridiculous things around the house that i put off for a week and a half...the list goes on and on

I don't use the tekkit launcher when I want onto vanilla though I just tested it, I can't connect through anything. When I go to my servers page its says "cannot resolve host name" or "no connection" it's not that i can't just log in i can't even see that the servers are online other than tekkit.