I did it threw text. I made sure to include that I didn't need him though. I told him my decision to keep the baby and he wouldn't change my mind. After that he said what he said to me (pretty much tried to place all blame on me) and that was it. I told him the due date and planned on never texting him again. A few weeks later he texted me. I have only contacted him once in the last 6 weeks which ended in a argument. I suggest texting once tell him the situation and then after that it's up to him to reach out to you.

I did it threw text. I made sure to include that I didn't need him though. I told him my decision to keep the baby and he wouldn't change my mind. After that he said what he said to me (pretty much tried to place all blame on me) and that was it. I told him the due date and planned on never texting him again. A few weeks later he texted me. I have only contacted him once in the last 6 weeks which ended in a argument. I suggest texting once tell him the situation and then after that it's up to him to reach out to you.

Even though you work together I still dnt recommend doing it in person, Unless someone else is there with you. I got lucky my baby's dad lives about 20 minutes away so we never run into eachother or have to see eachother unless we wanted to. It also depends, do you want him in the baby's life? I was set on having him deny it was his or something so I was planning on doing this myself anyways. His response that he wants to be in my child's life was a surprise, and little to be desired.

Even though you work together I still dnt recommend doing it in person, Unless someone else is there with you. I got lucky my baby's dad lives about 20 minutes away so we never run into eachother or have to see eachother unless we wanted to. It also depends, do you want him in the baby's life? I was set on having him deny it was his or something so I was planning on doing this myself anyways. His response that he wants to be in my child's life was a surprise, and little to be desired.

Maybe I should do it over text. Seems like it's would be less stressful that way. Plus, that's how we communicated the night the baby was conceived, so it seems appropriate lol.I don't really need him to be with me, but I think it's fair to put the option out on the table in case he wants to be a part of this child's life and he isn't the dramatic type so I'm glad for that.I have my first OB/GYN appt. on the ninth of January (@ 7weeks pregnant). I'm thinking of waiting until then. I want to hear the heartbeat first :)

Maybe I should do it over text. Seems like it's would be less stressful that way. Plus, that's how we communicated the night the baby was conceived, so it seems appropriate lol.I don't really need him to be with me, but I think it's fair to put the option out on the table in case he wants to be a part of this child's life and he isn't the dramatic type so I'm glad for that.I have my first OB/GYN appt. on the ninth of January (@ 7weeks pregnant). I'm thinking of waiting until then. I want to hear the heartbeat first :)

Yea deff wait then. I made the mistake of telling mine very early since I found out when I was 3 weeks (my doc thought I was 5). I had many complications and it was very back and fourth weather I would miscarry or not. I'm still only 10 weeks so not totally in the clear yet. I could have done without the extra stress he put on me. There's going to be a point where it's going to have to come out prepare yourself for it and don't expect anything. This way if it goes bad you aren't to let down. You never know it could go either way. Even though my baby's father says he wants to be there for the baby he's done nothing to show me that, we dnt even talk. Maybe once the baby comes he will change but I'm not expecting it.

Yea deff wait then. I made the mistake of telling mine very early since I found out when I was 3 weeks (my doc thought I was 5). I had many complications and it was very back and fourth weather I would miscarry or not. I'm still only 10 weeks so not totally in the clear yet. I could have done without the extra stress he put on me. There's going to be a point where it's going to have to come out prepare yourself for it and don't expect anything. This way if it goes bad you aren't to let down. You never know it could go either way. Even though my baby's father says he wants to be there for the baby he's done nothing to show me that, we dnt even talk. Maybe once the baby comes he will change but I'm not expecting it.

Thanks lady! I hope things work out for you. Don't expect him to jump out and start doing things right away. My one friend told me that he the whole pregnancy thing was surreal for him, until his baby was born and then everything came together for him and he actually ended up being there for his daughter more than the mommy. Men are just wired differently and they're lucky they don't have to go through the nausea and physical changes, but they have to deal with feeling responsible and making the choice to be a man or a loser. I think your guy is just trying to figure everything out in his head. Give him time.

Thanks lady! I hope things work out for you. Don't expect him to jump out and start doing things right away. My one friend told me that he the whole pregnancy thing was surreal for him, until his baby was born and then everything came together for him and he actually ended up being there for his daughter more than the mommy. Men are just wired differently and they're lucky they don't have to go through the nausea and physical changes, but they have to deal with feeling responsible and making the choice to be a man or a loser. I think your guy is just trying to figure everything out in his head. Give him time.

I told my BD over the phone, I wanted to tell him to his face but I know that the initial reaction would have upset us both. I just blurted it out and said I was pregnant. He wasn't happy and asked me to have an abortion to which I said no and he then asked if the baby was his - of course it was!!But a few days later he overcame the shock and has been brilliant. He contacts me every day and has been to every appointment. He even bought me an Xmas present! We were only together 5 months when I got pregnant and know that we didn't suit as a couple but were really good friends and plan on co parenting and giving our son a happy life.We argue of course as we don't really know each other and the first 14 weeks were awful as I was so upset and confused and had raging hormones but I swear it gets easier, even when you think it never will.So bite the bullet and let him decide his involvement then accept it, your baby comes first and this ensures their happiness! Good luck xx

I told my BD over the phone, I wanted to tell him to his face but I know that the initial reaction would have upset us both. I just blurted it out and said I was pregnant. He wasn't happy and asked me to have an abortion to which I said no and he then asked if the baby was his - of course it was!!But a few days later he overcame the shock and has been brilliant. He contacts me every day and has been to every appointment. He even bought me an Xmas present! We were only together 5 months when I got pregnant and know that we didn't suit as a couple but were really good friends and plan on co parenting and giving our son a happy life.We argue of course as we don't really know each other and the first 14 weeks were awful as I was so upset and confused and had raging hormones but I swear it gets easier, even when you think it never will.So bite the bullet and let him decide his involvement then accept it, your baby comes first and this ensures their happiness! Good luck xx

I told mine in person with a creditable witness present that I was pregnant.he was absolutely shocked so was I (got told I couldn't have kids) and I was keeping it and it was his.it was my choice to keep it I beared all the decisions for it.after months of trying to make it work him cheating etc my son was a year old I packed my stuff and left.he tracked me down 3 years later took me to court lost I have full custody he sees his dad at grandma's house and that's it.we both moved on happy and have other families.

I told mine in person with a creditable witness present that I was pregnant.he was absolutely shocked so was I (got told I couldn't have kids) and I was keeping it and it was his.it was my choice to keep it I beared all the decisions for it.after months of trying to make it work him cheating etc my son was a year old I packed my stuff and left.he tracked me down 3 years later took me to court lost I have full custody he sees his dad at grandma's house and that's it.we both moved on happy and have other families.

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