Discussions By Condition: Urinary conditions

Urge to pee but no passing of urine,very painful pls help

Like 3 years back I had this problem when I had an urge to pee again and again but when I did DAT again and again,no discharge was there leaving me in pain and in a condition where I had to squeeze both my legs,I concerned a gynac,she said it was uti,took medication,it ws fine,then after some months the problem started again, switched many doctors,they asked me to drink lots of water and I did, and I then felt alright also, switched minimum 5 doctors till date, few months back ended with an urologist,blood,blood sugar,urine,sonography all done,he said its due to stress that contraction and relaxation of muscles are not when they are suppose to be, n if continued could result in kidney issues. I took medication for 1 month ws fine den and now dis problem started again. And the few days back I had intercourse,properly for the first time,thou I had sex before with the same partner but I am not sure If that was proper sex,I peed right after it,washed properly,but,the next day it all started again,during sex there was no pain,but now its like each time I try to urinate its painful,its like something is Stretching and by end its even painful leaving me with goosebumps and join legs and squeeze it. No colour discharge,no rashes and no pain anywhere,except that itching and pain in vagina, due to this I use to skip urinating For an entire day,drank lots of water but didn't help. Am not able to sleep. Mum says its due to hot weather and since I eat too much unhealthy stuff.
Pls help,am in soo much pain.pls.