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Is it ok for me to go to the movies with this girl that used to like me? I have been dating my girlfriend for 2 and a half years...

about a year ago my friend trish started hitting on me. I told her I just want to be friends because I love my girlfriend. And she (trish) is coming to town and wanted to catch a movie (mind you), that she is in town for a conference.

So does my girlfriend have a right to be mad at me for going to the movie with this girl?

It was a year ago, that she hit on me. I need friends in my life and don't get out that often so I went to the movie with her...

Nothing happened. But was I wrong?

would you be mad at your boyfriend or break up with him over this?

I feel like shes over reacting but if you were dating me, what would you have expected...

Is it ok for me to go to the movies with this girl that used to like me? I have been dating my girlfriend for 2 and a half years...

about a year ago my friend trish started hitting on me. I told her I just want to be friends because I love my girlfriend. And she (trish) is coming to town and wanted to catch a movie (mind you), that she is in town for a conference.

So does my girlfriend have a right to be mad at me for going to the movie with this girl?

It was a year ago, that she hit on me. I need friends in my life and don't get out that often so I went to the movie with her...

Nothing happened. But was I wrong?

would you be mad at your boyfriend or break up with him over this?

I feel like shes over reacting but if you were dating me, what would you have expected...

Is it ok for me to go to the movies with this girl that used to like me? I have been dating my girlfriend for 2 and a half years...

about a year ago my friend trish started hitting on me. I told her I just want to be friends because I love my girlfriend. And she (trish) is coming to town and wanted to catch a movie (mind you), that she is in town for a conference.

So does my girlfriend have a right to be mad at me for going to the movie with this girl?

It was a year ago, that she hit on me. I need friends in my life and don't get out that often so I went to the movie with her...

Nothing happened. But was I wrong?

would you be mad at your boyfriend or break up with him over this?

I feel like shes over reacting but if you were dating me, what would you have expected...

Man if you love your GF don't do it...what if this snowballed out of control, you get into a huge fight, she wants to "temporarily" break up..during you're one week "break" some dude hits on her at the bar, he makes her feel good and she's a pretty drunk so she agrees to just "hang" with him and his friends at his apartment...and then she has a few more drinks does something she NEVER thought she would do...next thing you know she's pregnant with a kid that isnt yours and.....okay I'm just thinking of the worst case scenerio which you should always consider!

"My religious belief teaches me to feel as safe in battle as in bed. God has fixed the time for my death. I do not concern myself about that, but to be always ready, no matter when it may overtake me. ... That is the way all men should live, and then all would be equally brave." - General Thomas Jonathan "Stonewall" Jackson

Is it ok for me to go to the movies with this girl that used to like me? I have been dating my girlfriend for 2 and a half years...

about a year ago my friend trish started hitting on me. I told her I just want to be friends because I love my girlfriend. And she (trish) is coming to town and wanted to catch a movie (mind you), that she is in town for a conference.

So does my girlfriend have a right to be mad at me for going to the movie with this girl?

It was a year ago, that she hit on me. I need friends in my life and don't get out that often so I went to the movie with her...

Nothing happened. But was I wrong?

would you be mad at your boyfriend or break up with him over this?

I feel like shes over reacting but if you were dating me, what would you have expected...

Quoting: anon 23231420

i dont really know the full story, does your gf know about this Trish hitting on you?have you and Trish stayed in touch as friends and has your gf known youve stayed in touch as friends?

If youve been above board the whole time have communicated with this Trish been honest with her that you have a gf AND been honest with your GF about what went on with Trish but kept your friendship out in the open and told her everything-id say yes its fine to go-but your GF goes too so they can meet and your GF doesnt have to spin.

If you havent been honest with your GF about everything or if your trying to see someone even half sneakily by not telling her the whole story-damn right she has every right to be mad-for more reasons than one.

If you have to ask, then you already know its not right. You are looking for permission from GLP to relieve you of the guilt you feel.

Quoting: Jervis and V-Honey

I just dont know if she has a right to be mad at me for going, and wanted to see what some other women or even men would do if their significant other went to a movie with someone that used to hit on them... (a year ago).

"My religious belief teaches me to feel as safe in battle as in bed. God has fixed the time for my death. I do not concern myself about that, but to be always ready, no matter when it may overtake me. ... That is the way all men should live, and then all would be equally brave." - General Thomas Jonathan "Stonewall" Jackson

If you have to ask, then you already know its not right. You are looking for permission from GLP to relieve you of the guilt you feel.

Quoting: Jervis and V-Honey

I just dont know if she has a right to be mad at me for going, and wanted to see what some other women or even men would do if their significant other went to a movie with someone that used to hit on them... (a year ago).

if you love her and she really loves you dont DO IT!!!! but then again in my opinian love is bullshit.Trust me a relationship of 2 years love can go away just like that even if you and her have been trew your up and downs.DONT DO IT

If you have to ask, then you already know its not right. You are looking for permission from GLP to relieve you of the guilt you feel.

Quoting: Jervis and V-Honey

I just dont know if she has a right to be mad at me for going, and wanted to see what some other women or even men would do if their significant other went to a movie with someone that used to hit on them... (a year ago).

Quoting: Anonymous Coward 23231420

its probably how you went about it more than the fact you did it.duh.

Quoting: Anonymous Coward 29462072

I told her in advance. She kept calling me, before telling me that trish is a bitch, and it got frustrating so I hung up on her:/

If you have to ask, then you already know its not right. You are looking for permission from GLP to relieve you of the guilt you feel.

Quoting: Jervis and V-Honey

I just dont know if she has a right to be mad at me for going, and wanted to see what some other women or even men would do if their significant other went to a movie with someone that used to hit on them... (a year ago).

Quoting: Anonymous Coward 23231420

its probably how you went about it more than the fact you did it.duh.

Quoting: Anonymous Coward 29462072

I told her in advance. She kept calling me, before telling me that trish is a bitch, and it got frustrating so I hung up on her:/

Quoting: Anonymous Coward 23231420

you mean you sprung it on her then was a prick when she got upset?yeah howd that work out?

Is it ok for me to go to the movies with this girl that used to like me? I have been dating my girlfriend for 2 and a half years...

about a year ago my friend trish started hitting on me. I told her I just want to be friends because I love my girlfriend. And she (trish) is coming to town and wanted to catch a movie (mind you), that she is in town for a conference.

So does my girlfriend have a right to be mad at me for going to the movie with this girl?

It was a year ago, that she hit on me. I need friends in my life and don't get out that often so I went to the movie with her...

Nothing happened. But was I wrong?

would you be mad at your boyfriend or break up with him over this?

I feel like shes over reacting but if you were dating me, what would you have expected...

Quoting: anon 23231420

i dont really know the full story, does your gf know about this Trish hitting on you?have you and Trish stayed in touch as friends and has your gf known youve stayed in touch as friends?

If youve been above board the whole time have communicated with this Trish been honest with her that you have a gf AND been honest with your GF about what went on with Trish but kept your friendship out in the open and told her everything-id say yes its fine to go-but your GF goes too so they can meet and your GF doesnt have to spin.

If you havent been honest with your GF about everything or if your trying to see someone even half sneakily by not telling her the whole story-damn right she has every right to be mad-for more reasons than one.

If you have to ask, then you already know its not right. You are looking for permission from GLP to relieve you of the guilt you feel.

Quoting: Jervis and V-Honey

I just dont know if she has a right to be mad at me for going, and wanted to see what some other women or even men would do if their significant other went to a movie with someone that used to hit on them... (a year ago).

Quoting: Anonymous Coward 23231420

technically she has 'no right' to be mad. but you pretty much ruined any future with her.

women are divisive in their paybacks.

and crafty. she may not walk out right away, as most women usually have a guy lined up before they dump the boyfriend.

Hope your friend is someone you'd want to see again, cuz it sounds like you will be kissing your gf away soon...

"My religious belief teaches me to feel as safe in battle as in bed. God has fixed the time for my death. I do not concern myself about that, but to be always ready, no matter when it may overtake me. ... That is the way all men should live, and then all would be equally brave." - General Thomas Jonathan "Stonewall" Jackson

I just dont know if she has a right to be mad at me for going, and wanted to see what some other women or even men would do if their significant other went to a movie with someone that used to hit on them... (a year ago).

Quoting: Anonymous Coward 23231420

its probably how you went about it more than the fact you did it.duh.

Quoting: Anonymous Coward 29462072

I told her in advance. She kept calling me, before telling me that trish is a bitch, and it got frustrating so I hung up on her:/

Quoting: Anonymous Coward 23231420

you mean you sprung it on her then was a prick when she got upset?

yeah howd that work out?

Quoting: Anonymous Coward 29462072

I really don't know how she feels, but I think she might be considering leaving me...