I guess this means he won't be blowing his wife a kiss anymore before he shoots every free throw? Funny how his lawyer makes a public statement making some pretty serious allegations and then asks for privacy. Stay tuned for the wife's lawyer's response . . . .

TRENTON, N.J. -- New Jersey Nets star Jason Kidd filed for divorce from his wife of 10 years Tuesday, accusing her of "extreme cruelty" throughout their marriage.

In the dissolution papers, filed in state Superior Court in Bergen County, Kidd accuses Joumana Kidd of physically and mentally abusing him, threatening to make false domestic violence complaints against him to police, and of interfering with his relationship with his children.

"The defendant's extreme and unwarranted jealousy and rage has left the plaintiff concerned about her emotional stability," the papers say.

The divorce filing came less than a day after the 33-year-old NBA player filed a domestic violence complaint seeking a temporary restraining order against his wife.

"Jason Kidd filed for divorce from his wife today on the grounds of extreme cruelty over a long period of time," Kidd's attorney, Madeline Marzano-Lesnevich, said in a statement Tuesday. "As this is an extremely difficult personal matter, I ask that the privacy of the Kidd family be respected."

The Kidds, who live in Saddle River, were involved in a domestic violence matter six years ago when he was playing for the Phoenix Suns.

In that incident, Jason Kidd was arrested in January 2001 after his wife told police he hit her during an argument over their son, Trey Jason (T.J.), who was 2 at the time. Kidd pleaded guilty to spousal abuse, was fined $200 and ordered to take anger management training.

Attorney: Counter complaint will be filed against KiddAssociated Press

TRENTON, N.J. -- A day after NBA star Jason Kidd claimed in divorce papers to be a victim of spousal abuse, his wife's attorney rejected claims Wednesday the New Jersey Nets point guard had reason to fear the diminutive woman.

"He says he's threatened by her? He's a star athlete. She's 5-foot-2 I think, and 105 pounds," said celebrity New York divorce lawyer Raoul Felder, one of the attorneys representing Joumana Kidd.

"It's shameful what he did here. The truth will come out," Felder said of the allegations. He said his client planned to file a counter compliant within a week.

The 33-year-old NBA player filed for divorce from his wife of 10 years Tuesday, claiming he was an abused spouse. The filing came a day after a court issued him a temporary restraining order against her.

In court papers, Kidd says his wife physically and mentally abused him, threatened to make false domestic violence complaints against him to police, and interfered with his relationship with his children.

The papers accuse Joumana Kidd of kicking, hitting, punching and throwing household objects at her 6-foot-4, 210-pound husband as she became "increasingly controlling and manipulative" in the last few years of their union.

On Monday night, Felder said police showed up at the couple's Saddle River estate and, instead of serving only Joumana Kidd with the restraining order, forced her to leave.

"The police put her out of her own home, originally giving her 30 minutes to get out with the three children," Felder said. "It turns out the police misinterpreted the court's order."

Attorneys for Kidd said that he never intended for his wife to be kicked out of their home when he applied for the order of protection. On Tuesday morning they went to court to get the order clarified so Joumana Kidd could legally remain in the house.

Under the order, Jason Kidd will have to pick up his children curbside for visits so that Joumana does not violate the order, attorneys said.

Calling her "a battered and harassed wife in every sense of the word," Felder said that it was "absurd" to think that the former model was the abuser in the relationship given Kidd's former domestic violence charge.

"He's going to have to deal with the real court and not the basketball court," Felder said.

Jason Kidd's attorney, Madeline M. Marzano-Lesnevich, objected to the suggestion that size was a factor in the abuse.

"The complaint speaks for itself, but if the suggestion is that you need to be smaller than someone to be abused by them, the police logs are filled with examples to the contrary."

Philip Cook, author of "Abused Men: The Hidden Side of Domestic Violence," said that the size of a woman isn't indicative of whether she'll be abused or will be an abuser.

"Half the time it's mutual combat," he said. "Women hit first, about half the time, and most say it's not about self-defense, but that they do it in order to get through to him."

The Kidds, who were married in 1997, were involved in a domestic violence matter six years ago when he was playing for the Phoenix Suns.

In that incident, Jason Kidd was arrested in January 2001 after his wife told police he slapped her in the face during an argument about feeding their son, who is now 8. The couple also has 4-year-old twin daughters.

Kidd pleaded guilty to spousal abuse, was fined $200 and ordered to take anger management training.

Kidd's complaint filed Tuesday, however, painted a detailed portrait of Joumana Kidd as a vitriolic, jealous and paranoid wife who suspected her husband was cheating and who was prone to public outbursts and threats.

"The defendant's extreme and unwarranted jealousy and rage has left the plaintiff concerned about her emotional stability," the papers say.

The papers accuse her of installing tracking devices on his cars and computers, of violent rages in public and in front of their children, and of harassing his trainer, friends and family.

The personal drama in his life didn't seem to affect Kidd's professional game Tuesday night. He scored 10 points against the Toronto Raptors as the Nets beat Toronto 101-86.

Kidd is among the NBA's top 10 highest paid players, earning $99 million over a six-year contract with the Nets.

"There is really no distraction. This is my job," Kidd said after the game. "I can't talk about my personal stuff."

I guess this means he won't be blowing his wife a kiss anymore before he shoots every free throw? Funny how his lawyer makes a public statement making some pretty serious allegations and then asks for privacy. Stay tuned for the wife's lawyer's response . . . .