'F*** that! That's not fair': Tracee Ellis Ross, 44, says she's sick of feeling like she has to be 'really skinny' one minute and have 'big boobs' the next

The Blackish star got real about learning to love herself and how she overcame her 'contentious relationship' with her figure in latest issue of Redbook.

The Brown alum talked about how ever shifting beauty ideas make it impossible to please everyone, telling the magazine, 'F*** that! That's not fair,' while also sharing how she focuses on what 'makes [her] feel empowered' instead of listening to others.

Learning to love herself! Tracee Ellis Ross got real about loving herself in the latest issue of Redbook, telling the magazine how she says she overcame her 'contentious relationship'

The LA native questioned how ever-changing beauty standards make things near impossible.

'One minute, you're supposed to be really skinny — the next minute, you're supposed to have huge boobs. One minute you're supposed to have no lips, the next they're supposed to be full.'

'No one can keep up! I finally got to a place where I was like, excuse my French, "F--- that. That's not fair." So I got to then choose for myself what makes me feel empowered.'

In addition to loving her body, Tracee also talked about learning to love her natural tresses and how 'excited' the natural hair movement has made her about her God-given style.

'For a long time, I was trying to beat my hair into submission so that it would do what I thought it was supposed to do to be sexy, so that it would be silky.

'But the more I supported my hair in its authentic texture, the more choices I had for it to do hundreds of different things. That was exciting to me. I'm really grateful to the natural hair movement.

Curly girly: The daughter of Diana Ross also talked about her natural tresses and how excited she is to embrace her God-given texture and not 'beat [her] hair into submission'

The Golden Globe winner has been riding high since taking home the award for Best Actress in a Comedy or Musical TV show in January.

But the actress also explained that she's had to deal with her fair share of haters.

'There are joy stealers everywhere! Honestly, a lot of people don't do it on purpose. Joy makes them uncomfortable.

'So I do my best not to take it personally. I will literally imagine myself moving out of the way and letting their stuff just pass me by.'

She's a contender! The Brown University alum won her first Golden Globe in January and can look forward to an exciting Emmy season after nominations come out July 14, Above the star is seen at the Women In Film Awards

The chipper star can be looking forward to an exciting Emmy awards season, where her ABC series will be a sure favorite.

Nominations are announced July 14th and the ceremony is scheduled for September 17.