A lot of moms feel like they can't lean in because they have to spend all their time with their kids, says Skenazy, who advises companies on creating work-life balance for employees. But we don't have to lavish as much attention on our kids as we think we should. Dont latch yourself to the desk, but dont feel so guilty if you cant watch every soccer practice. Its wise to figure out how a new job will affect family time, but passing up opportunities can leave you simmering with resentmentnot a good cocktail for family happiness.

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