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I am so depressed I feel all around me is dark. To see my kids I have a paralegal who mediates and I have to pay her 700 USD for each time, how can people profit from my misery. I asked her to just mediate to ask my ex wife to see my kids monthly. My exwife does not answer my emails and calls, her family does not help, and I am alone in Japan. A culture that is closed to foreigners by nature. And I love my exwife so much how can I cure my broken heart and every single time I see a glimpse of the life I had with her how can I forget her, I miss her so much, I think I have no way out and I want to take my life. How can I cure myself? If I only could get my kids exwife I need some advice some help.

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Re: My broken heart will never heal

Wow, I wish I had the answer for you, captaineo. Very heartbreaking (((Hugs)))

All I can suggest is to keep focusing on your job and your daily routines, which are the essential basic things right now. Try to let go of thinking too much about what you've lost and perhaps seek legal advice in terms of your kids.

Im so sorry sorry you are going through all of this my friend . i wish I knew how to help and solve your problems . please stay strong because there is hope . i know things are so tough for you . message me any time please . i really care about you . you are a kind good person .

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Re: My broken heart will never heal

Just leaving you some hugs if they will help, captaineo, so sorry you're having to go through this

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I'm so sorry, captaineo. You don't deserve to suffer like this. You're a kind and loving person and I'm sorry you can't see your kids. I wish I could do something to help... but all I can do is listen. That, I can promise. I hope writing here helps a bit. Feel free to PM me anytime. Let me know if I can do something to help you. Please don't give up. You're a wonderful person and I hope things will get better for you soon. Sending many hugs to you

My dear friends, you are my support, my lighthouse, you know you are, and I appreciate it so much. Life has not been kind these few years and I am resentful for it and I look in the mirror and is hard to say I like what I see. I was an excellent dad my kids loved me, I miss their laughter, their body heat, their smell, loved to do their laundry every night and wonder how small socks can be. They have been taken from me J law does not allow for joint custody so I am screwed, People can be nice here but also cold as ice. And I am having a terrible time. All I have are my books, games and work. I donít drink thank god if I did it would be the end of me with all the meds I take my heart would stop. Thank you for always being there, I hope I can be there for you too. Although 99 percent of Internet is not gr8 this app and you guys are awesome and I thank god I found you all.

Hi, I have residency in Japan but not citizenship (they donít allow dual citizenship) I am from Venezuela. I am looking to other lawyers see how they can help me. This April 6th it will be 20 years on Planet Japan. Almost half of my life.

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