Today, I was spending time with my boyfriend for our one year anniversary. Trying to be romantic, I told him that I loved him and I was so glad I was with him. He responded by giving me a thumbs-up and turning back to the TV. FML

#9, they want to be the one that changes them into a nice guy or "saves" them, and most likely, they have daddy issues. Some just like to be with someone difficult or who will control them, because its "cute". Usually, in that last case, it just turns into abuse.
That's my own personal opinion anyway.

Since you've been with him a year, I doubt this is highly an unusual behavior for him. What were you expecting?
That sucks though. It's not like its a random day you're saying all this, its your anniversary.