Girlfriend Won't Stop Talking to Exes

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I’ve been dating a girl for a little over 9 months and I’m crazy about her; however, she continues to interact with exes despite my objections. Some of these interactions have been harmless, but with two of them they have been more problematic. 1) The first guy was a hookup buddy of hers from right before me. He’s part of her class at school (they are completing doctorate level degrees). All was well until he began making jealous phone calls and voicemails after we had been dating for a couple of months. She never confronted him and continued to hang around him during social events. They still text from time to time. I’ve explained that I don’t think his motives are good and that it upset me to the point of wanting to physically fight him when he has insulted me to her. She still interacts with him. 2) She spent a night drinking with an ex boyfriend at a bar. After saying I didn’t feel this was appropriate she agreed that she wouldn’t like the same from me. Thoughts?

I would tell her not to do anything that she wouldn’t feel comfortable with you doing with another girl. Have a serious conversation with her. And let her know how you feel. If you are still having problems be more definitive about it. And tell her that you will get upset if this behavior continues. Ask her why she feels she needs to hang out with these people. If she doesn’t have other friends then okay. But at the same time, as a girl, I used to do this to gauge my boyfriends reaction and see if he got mad. It was like me testing out the waters to see what was allowed and what wasn’t. Not sayin that’s what she’s doing but I have done that before.

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