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"You see, the editorials in women's rags, are written by lots of dykes, who think women's lib should include changing sides, "LOL.So many guys make excuses why women close to their age won't fate them, prolly cause of lines like this.Don't know any old maids. But like the card game

No, but those 30 yr olds are prolly getting banged :/I am looking for a 106 year old Baron But.. I have noticed that many women of a certain age make an effort.. some Men do but others not so much.Live in a Resort community - more plastic surgeons than dentists here.Can't tell me Editors of womens mags are dykes and expect me to go " my goodness that MUST be why " lol

I don't really see that 15 years in either direction is that big a deal once you're in your early fifties or so.

30 years, though, that's a stretch. 30 years younger, those guys would be in their early 20s. I don't even see people that age as grown-ups. My CHILDREN are almost 10 years older than that. That's just gross. Eeew.

And 30 years older - ok, but only if he's very rich. Seriously, though, I'd rather date a healthy 82-year-old than a 22-year-old. My dad is 81. He's an educated, debonair gentleman who is pretty much in full possession of his mental faculties and interested in all kinds of the same things I'm interested in (I'm just using him as a point of reference here). I'd much rather spend my time with that kind of person than a guy barely out of his teens.

Maybe not all 30 year olds but surely some find older ladies very attractive...Christy Brinkley is 62 and I'm pretty sure not many guys of any age are going to knock her back...well, maybe its just me.

The comments about Christy Brinkley reminds me of the recent death of Zsa Zsa Gabor, who was married nine times, with the latest marriage being when she was 69 years old. How many of the ex-husbands thought they were the one who would break the cycle of marriage-divorce? She made the infamous statement: "I am a marvelous housekeeper: Every time I leave a man I keep his house."

I am sure the Prince was the kind who could not pay for upkeep on his 400 yr old relic on the Rhein while Za Za wanted to be called something besides keeper of multiple men's houses,as if she'd be a cougar Princess at 99. The point is that old gals delude themselves just like old guys who say we like the same books... When you read books, you usually are not doin the nasty....Old gals start realty liking sex, when they start thinking it means they're pretty, instead of just available or sexy, like they were treated as a young woman.

I've had many 55 - 58 year old ladies that have told me that I'm too old as well...I have no idea what they're looking for any more.

I have seen that in real life, but not very often. I seem to see it much more here in the online dating world. I attribute this to the "catalog shopping mentality" that is often exhibited online. And I would suppose the same thing is true with older men and younger women. In real life, it isn't going to work (or at least not very often!). But online, your fantasies run away with you.

I do know one lady, unknown age but somewhere in my vicinity, who says that she only dates younger men "because I can". And I know she can, I have seen her out and about with men in their 40's several times. I ran into her last night, and we talked for a few minutes. She told me she's presently dating a 38 year old, who was tied up with a family gathering. I walked her out to her car, and made another pitch, "You should give me a shot sometime, I just might surprise you!"

She gave me a look look, then proceeded to kiss me. A very nice kiss. Very. Before I could catch my breath, she was in her car and making her escape. Hmmmm....

Gee Henry you said you were dating a woman in some of the other threads, what gives?

Yes, I am, and I am just a teeny bit crazy about her. But she is recently divorced, dating several men, and absolutely not ready to settle down. Which I understand, when I first got divorced, the last thing I wanted was to settle down with just one person.

I would be exclusive with her in a heartbeat, if she were ready. But she is not. So I see her whenever I can, enjoy the time that I do spend with her, and date other women in the mean time. I am playing the "long game". We text every day, and exchange emails, and I see her about once a week. And I "woo" her. I tell her how special she is, and how much I look forward to seeing her, and how beautiful she is. I do not play games, I do not pretend to be "distant" or only slightly interested.

Will this work? How in the hell should I know? But I do know that I am giving it my best shot.