For the second surgery, John called her primary physician, who prescribed an IV medication and then came to the hospital after hours to check on her. Then, on her day off, the doctor called to check on her.

On the third day after the second surgery, the surgeon called and asked Anne to describe her symptoms. He assured her they were normal and would be all right when he saw her Monday.

"Give me a call if you need me over the weekend."

"Oh," said Anne, "Are you on call?"

"No, but they can get me!"

Besides all the food, drinks and rides, the overarching help was — and is — prayer.