I am in a long distance relationship that as I see it, has no resolution. I feel so sad and out of control all of the time. I am so in love with this man that I don't know what to do with myself. Now, he has told me that we must come up with a long term plan for our relationship by the end of the year, or we have to move on. I completely know and understand where he is coming from, because the distance is taking an emotional tole on both of us. I cry almost everyday when I think about it. I get angry about the fact that I feel I have finally met the man I want to spend my life with, the man I thought I would never meet, and I can't find a way to actually have him in my life in person. We both have children and live in different states. I just need to figure out how to not feel so sad all the time about the fact that I know I'm going to lose him come the end of the year.