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I'm sorry to have to tell ya this, but you don't and won't get that man back. They way he sees it, is he has you to wipe his ass and clean up after him so why should he even bother. This may work for a little bit. Go about your normal day and then when hubby wants a little nookie, just tell him sorry babe I am just to tired after having to pick up after you all day. I suggest if you want some fun love from you, then you pick up after yourself so I'm not so tired later. Then roll over and go to bed.

Men get comfortable and they stop trying to impress you. Once they've got you, they don't need to try.
Just let him know what he does to annoy you. And Nag. My mom told me just today "That's what our job is" lol