Here's what I posted: Not only was the gift amazingly thoughtful, but it couldn't have come at a better time. Just days before Christmas my grandfather in law passed away, and I had the car loaded for a long 3 hour drive in near blizzard conditions to go to the funeral. My wife was crying and my 3 year old kept asking why. we kept having to explain what death was. It was the first time someone he knew had died. literally as we were driving out of the driveway the postman brought the gift. It's the closest to a Lifetime Movie moment I’ve ever been. the winged lemniscate that was sewn on is the logo from my webpage howlround.org whoever you are, secret santa, I can't thank you enough. If I ever find you, I'll upvote all your submissions and comments for life!