Thanks. Well the anniversary went well, there were a lot more people there than we had expected to see. Not just family but some of their friends and coworkers who had known them a long time too. With so many people around it was fairly easy to avoid him. We ended up on opposite ends of their house for the buffet-style luncheon after the vow renewal ceremony. They got "remarried" in a car lol! Apparently my aunt's husband's parents had been married in a car so since h