he pushes ALL of my buttons!

So I need to rant! My so and I live together, its great! Although everything he does lately seems more mean than normal! :( I'm not sure if im more sensitive, but I'll give some examples....Be straight, tell me if I need to suck it up?!1) chews with his mouth open although I ask everyday for him to be a little more concious (i gag!!) 2) he has just started a new job and is sore, and expects me... At 14 and a half weeks to climb up and give him a back massage! Hes never offered to give me one because "i didnt carry 150lb siding all day" -.- 3) he has a bad knee which hurts him, i know, but wont take anything for it or ice it to help it... Hunny if I could take pain killers right now, I would!! 4) told me I smell bad and physically walked away for 3 hours because I was drinking peppermint tea.... :/ hey, heres a thought... My sense of smell is hightened and you dont wear deodorant... AND YOU SMOKE, which i'm allergic to!!! 5) since were on the hightened smell, he uses the bathroom before his shower, doesnt flush!! Then showers, leaves it in there to stew all day and I walk in open the lid to pee because i'm about to explode, or worse... Throw up! And theres his nasty #2 floating!!!! I dont know how many times i've reminded him!!! Help! :( what should I do?! How do I make him realize how much of a toll this pregnancy is taking on me!!!! :(

So I need to rant! My so and I live together, its great! Although everything he does lately seems more mean than normal! :( I'm not sure if im more sensitive, but I'll give some examples....Be straight, tell me if I need to suck it up?!1) chews with his mouth open although I ask everyday for him to be a little more concious (i gag!!) 2) he has just started a new job and is sore, and expects me... At 14 and a half weeks to climb up and give him a back massage! Hes never offered to give me one because "i didnt carry 150lb siding all day" -.- 3) he has a bad knee which hurts him, i know, but wont take anything for it or ice it to help it... Hunny if I could take pain killers right now, I would!! 4) told me I smell bad and physically walked away for 3 hours because I was drinking peppermint tea.... :/ hey, heres a thought... My sense of smell is hightened and you dont wear deodorant... AND YOU SMOKE, which i'm allergic to!!! 5) since were on the hightened smell, he uses the bathroom before his shower, doesnt flush!! Then showers, leaves it in there to stew all day and I walk in open the lid to pee because i'm about to explode, or worse... Throw up! And theres his nasty #2 floating!!!! I dont know how many times i've reminded him!!! Help! :( what should I do?! How do I make him realize how much of a toll this pregnancy is taking on me!!!! :(

Has he always done all of those things? Honestly it sounds like you're blowing things out of proportion which is super easy to do when your hormones are in charge. All of the things you listed sound like small, not too out of the ordinary things. The only thing I would really have a problem with is the bathroom thing, lol. But if I were you I would just wait til he gets in the shower and go flush it every morning so the water will burn, haha. Eventually I think he'll get the hint to flush the damn toilet, ew. I would find it hard to believe that he just started doing that though. Sounds like a nasty habit. I think things are just bothering you more now because you're pregnant. Everything my husband did when I was pregnant irritated me, too.

Has he always done all of those things? Honestly it sounds like you're blowing things out of proportion which is super easy to do when your hormones are in charge. All of the things you listed sound like small, not too out of the ordinary things. The only thing I would really have a problem with is the bathroom thing, lol. But if I were you I would just wait til he gets in the shower and go flush it every morning so the water will burn, haha. Eventually I think he'll get the hint to flush the damn toilet, ew. I would find it hard to believe that he just started doing that though. Sounds like a nasty habit. I think things are just bothering you more now because you're pregnant. Everything my husband did when I was pregnant irritated me, too.

Has he always done all of those things? Honestly it sounds like you're blowing things out of proportion which is super easy to do when your hormones are in charge. All of the things you listed sound like small, not too out of the ordinary things. The only thing I would really have a problem with is the bathroom thing, lol. But if I were you I would just wait til he gets in the shower and go flush it every morning so the water will burn, haha. Eventually I think he'll get the hint to flush the damn toilet, ew. I would find it hard to believe that he just started doing that though. Sounds like a nasty habit. I think things are just bothering you more now because you're pregnant. Everything my husband did when I was pregnant irritated me, too.

Has he always done all of those things? Honestly it sounds like you're blowing things out of proportion which is super easy to do when your hormones are in charge. All of the things you listed sound like small, not too out of the ordinary things. The only thing I would really have a problem with is the bathroom thing, lol. But if I were you I would just wait til he gets in the shower and go flush it every morning so the water will burn, haha. Eventually I think he'll get the hint to flush the damn toilet, ew. I would find it hard to believe that he just started doing that though. Sounds like a nasty habit. I think things are just bothering you more now because you're pregnant. Everything my husband did when I was pregnant irritated me, too.

Yep sounds like your blowing this out of proportion, at 38 weeks I got up and gave SO a back massage after a long day at work, and my SO does things that annoy me at times but I know I do too but because we love each other we suck up the little things otherwise all those little things are gonna tare y'all apart!

Yep sounds like your blowing this out of proportion, at 38 weeks I got up and gave SO a back massage after a long day at work, and my SO does things that annoy me at times but I know I do too but because we love each other we suck up the little things otherwise all those little things are gonna tare y'all apart!

Only thing I think is messed up is the leaving his poo all day, that is just nasty and unsanitary lol How hard is it to flush a darn toilet? I would totally ream my dh a new one for that one lol But other then that, calm down and have a nice relaxed conversation with your SO. Express how you feel about these issues, if they bother you that much.

Only thing I think is messed up is the leaving his poo all day, that is just nasty and unsanitary lol How hard is it to flush a darn toilet? I would totally ream my dh a new one for that one lol But other then that, calm down and have a nice relaxed conversation with your SO. Express how you feel about these issues, if they bother you that much.

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