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what does she like?do you want to invite others(friends/family) or just take her out for a special treat(movie,nails done,shopping,icecream etc) with only you...you can fix a cake if you want to or just buy one...have you asked her what she would like to do?

@mollysmom212 she says she doesnt know yet, but were pressed for time because i need to know if ineed to make reservations and stuff,and yess we want to invite people..my daughter is a reall girly girl so i was trying to find some place were the girls can get pampered maybe she can invite a few friends...@Rita_Mae its too cold for water park out here but bowling sounds nice..she has a sleep over everyother weekend

Just do a plan party with her favorite colors. If she does not choose then choose for her. Get a cake, make a dinner, maybe a pinata then have some of her close friends have a slumber party. Which you could rent movies, have board games.

Have something simple at home - use a spring theme if she isn't focused on a character. Cook her favorite foods, invite over a few of her friends, play some games, put some fun music on, maybe even have a "movie time". If you get overly stressed at providing her the "perfect" party, neither she nor you will enjoy it. It should be more about the celebration of her life than something that ADDS stress.

Kids remember the love and attention far more than they do whether the party was well structured.

I agree a hair and nail party at your house could be a lot of fun. Do you know anyone that does nails that you could have come over and do manicures for the girls. You could even call a local vocational high school and see if they have girls that would come to your house to do nails, make up and hair and how much it would cost. They do not usually charge a bunch of money for that sort of thing and the girls would have a blast. Then you wouldn't need a theme or anything