This blog is created for my son Adriel Cheng. After suspending our access for 6 mths, the Singapore Family Court has granted us weekly access. But even with a Court Order, I still couldn’t see my son who had been brainwashed to reject me. Many Care and Control parents are openly violating Orders granting access to their ex. Most of them use the child as a pawn to do the rejection and the Court rarely make them accountable. Parental Alienation is child abuse, it has to be stopped

Wednesday, June 23, 2010

DAY 69 (of the 6-month cut-off from my son by the Singapore Family Court without any valid reasons) :

I was once again blessed to know another parent who displays absolute love and determination in his fight for his 2 beautiful boys. Here is a poem which he wrote specially for them.

Supermens Dad..

My sons fly by,With arms spread wide..No fear of speed or pain.There is no care,For bumps aheadNor storm clouds filled with rain..They may Fall....And scrape a kneeOr even break a arm (which we all did a year apart)But outside hurt will mend and grow..Tis no cause for great alarm...Its inside pain and tortured soulsThat grip my heart with dread..For as their Dad, its my job,To prepare them for whats ahead...Grief and sorrow, Love and joyAre roads that they may choose..My chance to teach and mold is now..A time that I cannot lose...They are growing strong-Invincible?their choices good or bad,Help me to know, at least for now..Even my lil supermen need a Dad.....Dad Loves you Caleb and Hayden...

God bless you and your boys, Mr VandeZande.I pray for your day of reunion to come soon.