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Cleaning out my kids room, Do you think this is wrong?

I have asked them several times to go through there clothes, and again it has been 3 weeks, so tonight, I am going through them, and recycling the ones I believe are not fitting them or they don't wear.....

Do you think that is cruel???? I am so tired of the mess, and they don't wear half the stuff anyway...

I don't see anything wrong with going thru their clothes. You asked them to do it and since they did not you have the right to 'downsize' the wardrobes. If they complain that something is missing then maybe they should have done the job themselves when you asked them to.

The 14 year old might be able to do this by herself. Especially if she has done it numerous times before. But the younger need your help and direction. It could be fun time together. You might find out a little about their fashion preferences.