. eighty-four (Making the First Move?)

5/08/2009 10:51:00 PM

It's seen as either desperate or butchy to make the first move when asking a guy out...

I vowed, when I was a young child that I would never ever ever EVER, make the first move ever in life. So today I went ahead and disobeyed my law and texted the crush I have (the guy who gave me a bus ticket), randomly on thebus being bored and playing with my phone... and said:

"Do you want to chill? Maybe go for a walk? Lol I don't get text back so call me with your answer."

So..SURPRISINGLY he called me back in like less that half an hour and was like , "Sure, i'll call you tomorrow and if you want we could chill...if you want."I was ready to be like "OBVIOUSLY I WANT TO, THATS WHY I TEXTED YOU DUMBY!!" But I was just like "alright." HAHA! This is like the first time I've initiated a date... Wow.I don't know what we're going to do....but we'll have fun...I feel like a gelato, so maybe he'll wnt to get one. Haha.

So,This brings up the question I was asking myself on the way home, awaiting his call..."Is it normal to do that?" I mean, I know nowadays no one cares, but i know my friends were like "don't do it, wait for HIM" but, he is just TOO SHY!I hate shy guys, but this guy's sooo cute and sweet and mannered, that it's okay..

A nice guy indeed.

So, would you make the first ove if you really liked a dude? Some people don't have the guts. I think I did it cause I was tired on my way home from hanging with some friends and out of tiredness and boredom I texted him. Cause DUNNO I would've never done it if I was in my right state of mind.

Now I'm scared of the actual day, cause I'm sort of shy too, and not good at dates with people I especially don't really know or hang out with too much. You know? Ugh. I guess I will just keep asking questions? I'm not good at first dates.