I hate every single thing about myself. I have no deeming qualities to offer the world or the people in it. My life is the flash animation Jerry. I'm not smart enough, sexy enough, skillful enough, talented enough, wise enough, brave enough to do any of the things I'd like to do, or SHOULD do. Basically I'm living till I die.

But there are little things. Not about me, about the world, things in it, people in it that keep me going, that keep me caring. That keep me forgetting my faults and loving them for their strengths.

As for the job, lose the negative attitude and get a good damn job. It might be just simple I know, but if you fail try again and keep on trying harder. Beause then you at least say "I tried" instead of saying "I hate myself".

At 10/15/12 03:06 AM, apocalypseven wrote:
Because I have no job or credentials, no friends or gf/bf, no family that cares, I fail at all things I try, I still have talents, but they get me no wher

Oh i forgot. All of those things you said you had none of, those can never change. Ever. I guess only the people that are born with all those things readily given to them are the only ones who succeed in life.

Well, I don't like myself because I blame myself for the death of one of my family members. I know I had nothing to do with it, but I feel so guilty that I didn't help him at the time.

And by the way, apocalypseven, I thought your name sounded familiar:

freshmaker49 wrote:

I have outsmarted you dumb peoples, you keep banning me, but I evade you with another account. The whole time youve been banning me thinking your in charge Ive been posting with alt accounts, you guys are so stupid I even gave hints and you still lack swag.

At 10/15/12 03:03 AM, apocalypseven wrote:
Someone told me I hate myself, I thought about it and she was right, i do, not sure what to do about it, thoughts?

Why do you hate yourself?

Because I have no job or credentials, no friends or gf/bf, no family that cares, I fail at all things I try, I still have talents, but they get me no where.

I have talents, they didn't really get me that far either, but I'm still proud as hell of them. I consider myself a good-looking guy, and even though I've only ever had 1 girlfriend in my entire life (who was an ugly freshman whore that cheated on me and I got her at age 18), I'm still extremely proud and satisfied with myself by the way I look.

I also have practiced tennis for over 10 years and even though I've never done anything too extraordinary (I never really joined too many tournaments or events), I'm still proud of how great of a player I am and enjoy when people watch me.

Don't think about accomplishments man, just be proud of who you are and be the kind of guy who you would respect the hell out of.

Work out, eat healthy, improve a skill/hobby of yours (mine's golf), spend as much time outside as you can, accomplish something everyday no matter how trivial, behave like a gentleman, masturbate as frequently as needed (seriously), and WORK HARD!

For my personality type, these are the things that keep my head level. If you do all of these, your body will become fit and sexy, your self confidence will improve dramatically, and you should develop an overall positive attitude on life. Women love these qualities of a man, and these are qualities all guys can improve on.

At 10/15/12 03:14 AM, Gagsy wrote:
I'm not smart enough, sexy enough, skillful enough, talented enough, wise enough, brave enough to do any of the things I'd like to do, or SHOULD do. Basically I'm living till I die.

Gagsy, you have to live your life, and not worry about being talented or brave enough or whatever. I can't believe I'm saying this, because I hate people that say this, but YOLO!

I sort of alternate between being completely disgusted with every aspect of myself and my complete lack of achieving anything in the midst of my daydreams and half-hearted attempts, and absolutely being completely in love with myself and applying myself intensely to whatever the fuck I feel like. There's not much in the way of middle ground.

My advice would be to take some risks and do something stupid. That's usually when I'm at my best, anyway.

The only person who can change the way you feel about yourself is really you. Self esteem isn't something that you either have or you don't, it comes with time or change. If you aren't happy with yourself or your life you need to do something to change it. You can do it you know, it just takes belief and motivation. Give it a try.

I'll quote WIlliam Ernest Henry's famous poem Invictus:

It matters not how strait the gate,
How charged with punishments the scroll.I am the master of my fate:
I am the captain of my soul.