I used the term "actively avoid porn" because it is just about everywhere, in some form or fashion--it is virtually impossible to not see it. So the choices were to intended to show either that I am actively trying not to see/use the stuff, or I make the choice to indulge at ____ frequency. I left it intentionally open as what is porn, and as to whether you feel guilt about it or not (have come to some sort of peace with the decisions).

The only way I'd be willing to look at porn is if my wife would do it with me. That, I would love to try.

Before being married I actively tried to find it as often as I could. Thanks goodness the Internet wasn't around. After being married, I got online and tried it a few times, but I felt too guilty, like I was cheating on my wife, that I swore it off and haven't gone back.

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For the most part, I try to avoid porn. There are times where it is still tempting but I don't want to be pre-occupied with when my next "fix" is anymore. It's similar to drinking salt water when one's thirsty.