oh if your a girl that makes your point even more invalid...you know your body. you know your spots and you can guess another females spots...a man has to learn the spots that work for each woman he is with. its like a virgin male is a new hunter where a virgin female is more than likely a grand master black belt king pin alpha hunter in comparison when it comes to what feels the best to a woman...if you aint got a dick you dont know **** bout the struggle of the process.