Because the card to which this will be attributed is one that I use in my private journal (I assign cards to people I know to maintain anonymity for them) to represent a man I got to know well almost 20 years ago.

Not only is he someone I grew to respect immensely but he’s the man that’s easily the most genuinely successful with women I’ve ever personally known.

Not long ago I wrote regarding what I perceived to be ► the common quality ◄ shared by those most successful with women.

Thus, I feel it prudent to take a moment to share what I perceive to be the common quality shared by those unsuccessful with women (and how to avoid it).

Admittedly, there are many contenders for this dubious title considering the nearly innumerable things women would like in a mate.

But I do believe one among them has a particularly strong case for its claim.

Of the ever increasing number of men who’ve contacted me regarding recent break-ups, the primary shared complaint/comment, either explicitly stated or strongly implied (consciously or unconsciously) has been:

In this situation, it’s vital to understand that – while nature has seen fit to spare the female a great deal of danger – nature has also atrophied her ability to seek destiny without considerable external input.

(Again, pragmatism; why choose when someone will gladly do it for you? Thus absolving self of blame or responsibility.