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also a pastor's wife
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Interesting post. Thanks for the link. Our church is good in that they don't expect anything from me as a youth pastor's wife with a full time job as a nurse. I bet it would be different if he was on the executive team though or the lead pastor. It still feels weird to me, 5 years in, to be considered as my husband's appendage and not as a person in my own right. to be referred to as "so-and-so, the youth pastor's wife" used to be particularly grating to me...