thriftycrafter wrote:Another ex, you're very kind to these people. Lovely one this.

But I class my ex SIL as a friend, she was the one I missed the most when me and him got divorced. I actually stay in touch with the ex in laws too as they are the kids' grandparents and they didn't ask us to get divorced, mind you they aren't exactly hands on despite my best efforts but I don't want anyone to say in the future that this or that could have been done had I stayed in touch