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But, still, yes, you can say it. In Brazilian Portuguese, I imagine that "Você está me tocando" is better or, at least, more common. In European Portuguese, we almost don't even use the gerund, so we would say "Tu estás/Vocês estão a tocar-me."

@orfeonegro, sorry for the delay. Yes, 'to be played' means to be manipulated or controlled mentally or emotionally. Physical manipulation is not so implied here. It is used metaphorically. As an example: "The beautiful young woman played that old, lonely, rich man like a fiddle." A phrase with similar meaning would be: "She had him wrapped around her finger". Or: "She was pulling his strings" (like a puppet). Or: "Larry, that horrific narcissist, played his codependent girlfriend like a harp".

For playing instruments you use the verb "tocar", so, if that's what you're going for, "You're playing me" would be "Você está me tocando" (Brazilian Portuguese) or "Tu estás/Você está a tocar-me" (European Portuguese).