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My dh has never asked me. We've both been involved with them in the past, but we prefer to just be with each other. If he did, I would probably consider it, simply because we're pretty open with each other but I doubt it would happen. I think it can work, I also think it can wreck marriages. If you know yourself well enough to know it would bother you, then by all means don't!

First of all, my husband would NEVER mention something like that. He respects me and our relationship with each other. Threesomes are just nasty and people that participate in them are setting their relationships up for failure. A marriage is between two people..not 3. Your husband is an immature gross pervert and I'd kick his ass to the curb if mine ever said that.

Answer by
Anonymous
at 3:10 PM on Aug. 28, 2009

People that are invovled in threesomes are sick people! Marriage is between two people not 3! How gross!!!!! I'd kick your loser husband to the curb! If he wants another woman, why don't he just leave you, then he can whore around with everybody else!

Answer by
Anonymous
at 3:11 PM on Aug. 28, 2009

anon- those in glass houses should not cast the first stone.. ive done 3somes and couple swapping with my hubby a few times and im bi sexual and im not ashamed of it, i guess to anon im sick blah blah freaking blah

My husband isn't interested in that at all, I've asked (not for a threesome but if he was ever interested in one). He never was. I'm not either. But if he DID ask I would first feel his forehead and make sure he's not hallucinating with a fever :p Then I'd probably consider it. I've been opening up to the fact that human beings were never meant to live in a lifelong monogomous relationship. Right now I am far too jealous for it and it would only cause huge problems. But who knows... 10 years from now I might be open to it. I doubt he would be, though, and that's okay. I'm happy with my monogomy :)