This is Why You Have to Ignore Her

Women will frequently do and say things that deeply wound a man’s self-esteem without even realizing what they’re doing. She thinks she’s being “nice.”

This is why the first step to “getting your balls back” is to remove your ego attachment to your wife. You want to get to the point where it doesn’t matter how she responds to you. You’re becoming a better man to please God, not to please your wife.

The next time she makes a hurtful comment, just look at her with pity and think (or say aloud) “You have no idea what’s in store for you, my little kitten.”

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The real challenge that a lot of men face is that their whole package of love, care and affection for their woman is wrapped up in their own ego investment. To extricate the vulnerability of their ego from their emotional attachment to a woman often requires them to sacrifice some of what they believe to be the better aspects of themselves in terms of how they experience the relationship. This might not seem like a feasible option to many men, and there are a few men who might even find this to be impossible.

From the woman’s side, most females are very sensitive about whether a man’s behavior towards them is motivated by his own self-esteem or not. Women tend to discount any such behaviors of men as being self-serving, and not being ‘authentic’ gestures of love. To really touch a woman’s heart, a man has to operate in a realm outside of what would bring his own ego any gratification.