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How do you live like that?

Not trying to be mean , but all these complaints and posts got me thinking.
The ex gf/wife bs
The husband cheating
The abusive husband
Living off others
No income or barely getting by
The lazy or pointless bf living off you

You are all better than this. I personally couldn't live like that. The only way to fix your problems is to evaluate yourself then the people around you. Empower yourself. I am a sahm and don't work but I will not be a doormat. Know yourself. Love yourself. Find the strength to better your situation. Hugs.

society is becoming one big pity party and everyone seems to think they are entitled to be taken care of financially, in any way possible, as long as they dont have to do it themselves, they can do everything else though, they can parent, they can work out in their yard doing yard work, they can be on a computer site like this all day but hell no they just cant work and everyone must just understand.

society is becoming one big pity party and everyone seems to think they are entitled to be taken care of financially, in any way possible, as long as they dont have to do it themselves, they can do everything else though, they can parent, they can work out in their yard doing yard work, they can be on a computer site like this all day but hell no they just cant work and everyone must just understand.

I agree for the most part but every situation is different. My husband cheated and I stayed. My marriage is amazing now. It was worth staying through one mistake. I respect myself but I also respect my marriage and my husband. Now if he was a habitual cheater, hell no, I would have been gone.. but a one time bad decision in the midst of a bad situation, I chose to stay and fix the problems we had.

Quoting Anonymous: I agree for the most part but every situation is different. My husband cheated and I stayed. My marriage is amazing now. It was worth staying through one mistake. I respect myself but I also respect my marriage and my husband. Now if he was a habitual cheater, hell no, I would have been gone.. but a one time bad decision in the midst of a bad situation, I chose to stay and fix the problems we had.

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