Might make for some initial awkward moments. I have recognized people on here that I knew from ‘out there’ in the world, including my work place. Never said anything to them about it. There was no reason to.

I don’t care. Although I put my face picture on my profile as the main picture recently, they’ve always been there in the album. I was looking at the "members close to you" the other day and saw a guy from work. Not someone I’m interested in but we were friendly at work. I don’t think he’d mind if I just said "hi".

The gladdest hours we know are those shared with a friend or two. Wilbur D. Nesbit

Quoting author51:I may be annoyed but not devastated..It is and was our choice alone for being on here and knowing there is a chance that it could happen..Everything in life comes down to choices we make...

You? Annoyed? Never... Lol 😁 Perhaps livid, for an hour or so.... Omg... 😱Then... you'd be back to normal. But anyway.. it's not as if you're hiding,.. Right?You're right out there! 😘 Who knows? Might be good for business? 🤔

Quoting Yours_4A_knight:It has happened to me and it was not a big thing though the friends who noticed me kept it to themselves, so as not to expose there own ExecutiveGayDating.com Executive Gay Dating &amp Chat account

Well.. That's interesting. No way they would say anything, if they were here as well. Still.. It must have been annoying.... 😶 Good to see you survived! 👍

Quoting sexyldy1000:Might make for some initial awkward moments. I have recognized people on here that I knew from ‘out there’ in the world, including my work place. Never said anything to them about it. There was no reason to.

Initial awkward moments? Hmm... You don't post any revealing pics.. Unless you mean, you'd be shy to have seen them? You don't seem like the shy type... 🤔What would happen if we met... accidentally...? Which image of mine would you retain, to impact our first 'Hello' ? 😱 Would your eyes remain fixed on mine... or would they drift....? 😎😀Did you look at those co-workers in a different light? 💡

Quoting superbjversion2:No...I don't care if I'm exposed. It's not like I'm running for president.Hmm maybe it would actually get me elected.

No... I wouldn't imagine that you would... 😁If I met you at a Walmart.. I might ask you for an autograph... 😁 or more... 🤔 😘President.. Hmmm.. That's a thought! 🙄Need a campagne manager? Hang on a second.. I'll delete my profile.... 😜

Quoting azriel1970:I would vary between maybe and yes. It would not affect my personal life but it might my career.

Hmmm. I Agree about the personal life impact. 🤔Professionally? There's a thought. I'm wondering if the people at my work are on this site? I'd be curious to find out... Lol.... 😱 Who knows who's a member at your place of work? Perhaps you can start identifying them with some sort of secret handshake.. 🤔Or not... It's just a thought.... 💭

Quoting HeartCollector:I don’t care. Although I put my face picture on my profile as the main picture recently, they’ve always been there in the album. I was looking at the "members close to you" the other day and saw a guy from work. Not someone I’m interested in but we were friendly at work. I don’t think he’d mind if I just said "hi".

True... There you are.... Smiling at me! 😁That guy at work... I hope he had more than a dick pic on his profile, with which to identify him... otherwise... you're pulling down zippers all day.... 😱😘 Could be interesting... Sure.. Say Hi.. I'll bet he'd be in shock and then... Who knows...? 😍 I'd love to sneak up behind you and say - "Guess who?"That would be fun! 😊

Quoting Tmptrzz:Honestly I have nothing to hide, great poll Paul. Really makes us think, I hope you have a wonderful day..

True.. I wouldn't expect you to...😁When I first started here I thought about it. Now... well, I guess.. I could care less. 🤔 Of course.. if there was an 'A F F meet and greet', I guess I'd have to go pantless, so people would recognize me... Hmmm.. 🤔😱 Maybe I should post a few more face pics... 😶Hey girl.. Happy Thursday! 😘

Not so much afraid as I am concerned. Like someone said, the impact to my personal life isn't an issue, but there is great risk to my professional life (where I live, the lines between the two often blurs). I'm not in a position to take that risk. I imagine were I independently wealthy, in a different profession, or retired, it might not be a big deal. Of course, I wouldn't be on here were I independently wealthy, lol.

That said, I'd be quite miffed if my information were compromised. It's *my* choice what I put out there or how I use it. Therefore, someone taking away my decision about what happens with that information or how it's used would piss me off.

Good point... where your job is at stake. No need to risk that! 😱And... well... I'd have to ask you to bend over, and then flip your skirt. for me to even take a guess. Although - that might be fun... 🤔😘 That would be a lot of fun! 😁

Guess this can be a bit risky - (and esp when you do um ..... you know, "when in Rome .....")! The thing though, maybe and hopefully whoever may come across you, even figure out it's you, (reason I try to cover parts of my face with a pink heart, although I have shown my face almost completely on occassion), is that the person who recognizes you, well, perhaps he, she won't want to admit it, cos if this place is so bad then why are they here?! They'd have to admit to visiting or being a member of this sexy place?! Truth be told there are some very great members here - yep, like you Paul! So the friends you make - somehow may even be worth the risk?! And I wrote you an essay - sorry, but you have put in a Blog what most of us def do worry about - Society still dictates and all that! But to me, the human bod, man or woman is beautiful!

True... They would then have to admit that they were here. 🤔Aww.. Thanks.. And you as well.... 🤗 And there are many! 😘 I would recognize you.. Lol.. And I wouldn't need much to do that... 😊 They are beautiful... 😉 Well.. most of them.... 😍😎

Quoting BeccaLuvs:Guess this can be a bit risky - (and esp when you do um ..... you know, "when in Rome .....")! The thing though, maybe and hopefully whoever may come across you, even figure out it's you, (reason I try to cover parts of my face with a pink heart, although I have shown my face almost completely on occassion), is that the person who recognizes you, well, perhaps he, she won't want to admit it, cos if this place is so bad then why are they here?! They'd have to admit to visiting or being a member of this sexy place?! Truth be told there are some very great members here - yep, like you Paul! So the friends you make - somehow may even be worth the risk?! And I wrote you an essay - sorry, but you have put in a Blog what most of us def do worry about - Society still dictates and all that! But to me, the human bod, man or woman is beautiful!

True... They would then have to admit that they were here. 🤔Aww.. Thanks.. And you as well.... 🤗 And there are many! 😘 I would recognize you.. Lol.. And I wouldn't need much to do that... 😊 They are beautiful... 😉 Well.. most of them.... 😍😎

Quoting BiggLala:Not so much afraid as I am concerned. Like someone said, the impact to my personal life isn't an issue, but there is great risk to my professional life (where I live, the lines between the two often blurs). I'm not in a position to take that risk. I imagine were I independently wealthy, in a different profession, or retired, it might not be a big deal. Of course, I wouldn't be on here were I independently wealthy, lol.

That said, I'd be quite miffed if my information were compromised. It's *my* choice what I put out there or how I use it. Therefore, someone taking away my decision about what happens with that information or how it's used would piss me off.

True about a professional career tripping on one's A F F affiliation. That would be a pain. 😭And I'd be annoyed, on principal, that my info was compromised. Yep. That would tick me off. ✅😕 About that wealth thingy.... ? 🤔 Why would you abandon us because of your wealth? 💰💵I thought it was fun here for you? True.. You could afford any guy you'd, want. But that doesn't sound like you? Not judging btw. Just a thought. You'd hang out with us.. Lol 😘 In fact, I'm betting that you'd probably pick up the first round... 🍾🍺🍹🍸🍻

You're funny and so cute and oh so sexy.. 😘😍🔥 I have no need for liquid insentives for you to take advantage of me... I can be taken advantage of o naturel... '.. But, I will bring something for you... 🍷🍻🍾 Yep.. Later.. I'll text before I leave... 😘

Quoting Paulxx001:You? Annoyed? Never... Lol 😁 Perhaps livid, for an hour or so.... Omg... 😱Then... you'd be back to normal. But anyway.. it's not as if you're hiding,.. Right?You're right out there! 😘 Who knows? Might be good for business? 🤔

Quoting Paulxx001:Initial awkward moments? Hmm... You don't post any revealing pics.. Unless you mean, you'd be shy to have seen them? You don't seem like the shy type... 🤔What would happen if we met... accidentally...? Which image of mine would you retain, to impact our first 'Hello' ? 😱 Would your eyes remain fixed on mine... or would they drift....? 😎😀Did you look at those co-workers in a different light? 💡

Nope-definitely not the ‘shy’ type.It’s not a question of what I had or hadn’t seen of co-workers; more a matter of not thinking 🤔 about them in any intimate way.If we met ‘accidentally’, I would be thinking of your face pic as it’s the best way to identify you. And yes, I would be looking into your eyes 👀 They are usually more telling than spoken words.

Quoting sexyldy1000:Nope-definitely not the ‘shy’ type.It’s not a question of what I had or hadn’t seen of co-workers; more a matter of not thinking 🤔 about them in any intimate way.If we met ‘accidentally’, I would be thinking of your face pic as it’s the best way to identify you. And yes, I would be looking into your eyes 👀 They are usually more telling than spoken words.

True.. If you don't see someone in 'that' way. Most men (myself included), are pervs, shallow and driven by naked thoughts, so I'd always see a co - worker (woman, at least), naked. Or at least as naked as her A F F pics permitted. 😉So you'd focus on eyes.. 👀 Really...? 🤔That's deep... but words are worthy focul points, as well. In my case (unfortunately), they sometimes predominate... 😔😁😘... and that's not all bad.. all the time... Talk to me...

Quoting RyuFujin:The description about Oreo cookies... funny thing. It was a meme I snaked off of FB. and has been circulating around for the past four years or so.

Though TBH, you get a much better reaction when told to in person.

Ahhh.. I guess I've lived a sheltered life (recently), as I haven't seen that one. Then again, I'm not on FB as often as I used to be.Told in person? 😱 Now that... is probably true... as I think about it... Lol 😘 Hmmm... You're right! I imagined you saying it and it works... really nicely for me. 😊

Quoting Mandythot:Yes, I'll be a certified teacher soon. Do not want future employers, Parents or students knowing.

Yes Mandy... You're right about that! 😱Although, I will say that, parents these days (especially the Dads), might be more forgiving and flexible, when it comes to judging, a teacher's personal choices. 😊 The administrators, probably... not so much. Hmmm... 🤔Nice profile pic BTW... 👍 Stop by any time. 😶

Hell yes!Having people know that I am interested in the most common and natural activity we can share as human beings would be devastating.It's hard enough that people know that two people had to have sex for me to even be here.Posting my face turned out to be the worst thing I could have ever done,For the opposite reasons of course.

Quoting s2ndegree:Hell yes!Having people know that I am interested in the most common and natural activity we can share as human beings would be devastating.It's hard enough that people know that two people had to have sex for me to even be here.Posting my face turned out to be the worst thing I could have ever done,For the opposite reasons of course.

Good one... 😁 It's always a pleasure to meet someone with a sense of humor.. My parents never had sex... Go figure... My brother doesn't believe me. Drop by any time.. 👍

Sure... I guess.. I think it's just as likely to have all your credit card info revealed in a hack on a 'purchase' site. I'd be more upset about that... They hacked Walmart a few years back. If they hack this site, they'll have my name and a dic pic or two. I don't care. 😊Thanks for sharing your pov. Drop by any time... 👍

Yeah, at this point it's just the book club, and I think some of them already have suspicions about me!

That's funny and ironic. 😉Don't you ever wish, that you could just share your secrets, your experiences and your wild dreams (or at least a tiny snippet of them), with one or two of your acquaintances. Ones who may have, in the past - disparaged, (unknowingly albeit), your lifestyle choices? 😱Omg.. That would be so much fun. Or is that just me... being juvenile? 😁

Actually, I have a core group of close women friends who know about my blog here and also about the kink groups I'm involved with (although not a lot of the details). They're all in long term marriages, so I think when I first came on ExecutiveGayDating.com Executive Gay Dating &amp Chat they were entertained to hear my stories about meeting people here.

Both of my sisters also know I'm on here. They worry about it a little because they're old fashioned and think I'm going to meet an ax murderer or something. LOL. They don't know about the kink stuff. I don't need for them to worry THAT much.

Quoting smartasswoman:Actually, I have a core group of close women friends who know about my blog here and also about the kink groups I'm involved with (although not a lot of the details). They're all in long term marriages, so I think when I first came on ExecutiveGayDating.com Executive Gay Dating &amp Chat they were entertained to hear my stories about meeting people here.

Both of my sisters also know I'm on here. They worry about it a little because they're old fashioned and think I'm going to meet an ax murderer or something. LOL. They don't know about the kink stuff. I don't need for them to worry THAT much.

That's interesting.... As an IT sales professional, my job rarely puts me at risk, and at this point in my career... I could care less. My daughters are intrigued, when I mention my hobbies, but I don't go into details. But seriously... I lost my inner monologue about 30 years ago... way before I should have m.. Lol 😁Yep.. I understand where you're coming from... I love your exotic hobbies... I am really interested in that area of sensuality.. Hmmm. Anyway.. Thanks for sharing your pov... By the way.. My sense of humour, is tongue in cheek, so I hope you take it like that. Satire, sarcasm, are my topical forms of humor. I just don't want to accidentally offend you. If I offend you, at the very least... it should be on purpose.. 🤔😁😘