Hi Dear Sheila,I love the Melody Beattie quote...both because I remember such sadness when her son died (she was a mom in the school district where I worked) and because I love her books so much. I am full of gratitude today. Jud and I are going to spend 10 days in Barcelona and Spain! We leave in a couple of hours. i will be taking the camera and computer along...of course!Love to you, Sheila!