Breakups & Divorce Support Group

Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.

I am a caregiver to the extreme...which can be a wonderful attitube if you dont' neglect yourself in the process. I also don't trust easily anymore and really need to work on that. I am also a perfectionist and can sometimes be impatient with others. All things I need to work on....all things that have held me back. Mostly the caregiver syndrome. Neglecting myself is only something I can take accountability for...nobody made me do it but me. I need to buck up, own up to that and realize that being a good friend, being a good spouse or life partner does not include neglecting yourself in the process. Its all about balance. I have a lot of work to do! But I'm determined to grow and learn from my mistakes

I'm an idealist. I spend too much time imagining a perfect world where everyone is happy, the sun shines everyday, and the love hangs in the air like moisture after a downpour. Then I can imagine invading that world and imposing martial law.

on a lighter note...I have also developed an immature habit of throwing things at my STBX. A bowl of cheerios, a remote control, a basket of pinecones....he swears I'm trying to kill him. (he's such a drama queen). I hate to admit it, but I'd kinda like to see him end up in the ER impaled with pinecones. *evil laugh* and have to explain it to the ER doc...&quot;well doc, you see I was being a total fucktard and she just lost it...&quot;

I've been told I ask too many questions, I'm bossy (well SOMEone has to be lol), make fabulous mountains out of teensy molehills, stubborn, hard on myself to the point of self loathing sometimes, quick to take offence and over analytical... I'm sure I misses sumpin'...

A friend sent this to me..As far as I can see, grief will never truly end.It may become softer overtime, more gentleand some days will feel sharp.But grief will last as long as Love does - ForeverIt's simply the way the absence of your loved onemanifests in your heart. A deep longing accompaniedby the deepest Love some days. The heavy fog mayreturn and the next day, it may recede.Once again, it's...

Today is my 25th birthday, to my somewhat lack of surprise I can see already no one really seems to care. I've always been the kinda person to make sure that everyone I Care about feels appreciated and knew somebody had their back. I can count 4 times this year when I Went out of my way to make sure a "friend" felt good on their birthday, especially if they got left hanging. Its early in the...

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