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Desire Rating System

?= I don't understand this activity or I just missed it.

No = Hard limit. Will not do this activity under any circumstances.
0= Soft limit. Hate or actively dislike this activity but might try it under the right circumstances
1 - 3= you don't like to do this activity, but wouldn't object if it was asked of you
4 - 6= you usually like doing this activity, at least on an irregular occasional basis
7 - 9= you like doing this activity, and would like to experience it on a regular basis
10= The activity is a wild turn-on for you, and you would like it as often as possible
~ = You desire this activity to be a perpetual constant and can not imagine NOT doing this activity.

Done Rating System

This describes if you have actually participated in this activity.

Fantasized Rating System

This describes how often you fantasize about a particular activity. This is independent of whether or not you actually would do such a thing but rather how much is this activity on your mind.

Hair brush or Paddle spanking

The dominant delivering spankings with a hair brush or other hard flat device.

Hair Pulling

The Dominant pulling the submissive's hair.

Hand Jobs

Masturbating another with your hand - The Dominant being the recipient or one He or She designates.

Hanging, Pretense

Play that involves the threat of or use of a noose on the submissive.

Hanging, Actual

Play that involves the use of a noose on the submissive to hang by the neck for a time up to and including unconsciousness.

Harems (serving with other subs)

The dominant being served by more than one submissive at a time.

Harnessing (leather)

The dominant using leather devices that restrain the submissive with multiple lines.

Harnessing (rope)

The dominant using rope devices that restrain the submissive with multiple lines.

Having food chosen

The dominant choosing what the submissive will eat and when.

Having clothing chosen

The dominant choosing what the submissive will wear and when.

Head

Oral sex by any other name. In this case the submissive is the performer.

High heel wearing

While not a big deal for a female submissive it can be for a male submissive.

High heel worship

Similar to boot worship. The focus being the heels worn by a Domme.

Hoods

The submissive wearing any manner of bondage for the head usually restricting vision.

Homage w/tongue (non-sexual)

The submissive displaying homage with their tongue in a fashion of worship not in a sexual manner.

Hot oils (on genitals)

The submissive having oils that either are hot or cause a burning sensation such as ben gay.

Hot waxing

The submissive having wax dripped from lit candles upon them by the dominant.

Housework (doing)

The submissive doing common household tasks usually at the direction of the Dominant.

Human puppy dog

The submissive taking on the role of a puppy dog for the Dominant.

Humiliation (private)

The Dominant humiliating the submissive in private. Verbally or otherwise.

Humiliation (public)

The Dominant humiliating the submissive in public. Verbally or otherwise.

Hypnotism

The same as what some psychiatrists do whether in role play or in fact.