Dear Noble, Should I Tell The Church ?

I am on the verge of exposing my amorous youth pastor. I got into a relationship with him in my third year in school. Our relationship started some months after his second visit to our campus. I must say that relationship was in no where near holy. Although, I was shocked and defensive the first time he made a move at gaining access to my body, I soon caved in. We dated for about a year and six months before he jumped over to another lady in my school as well.

When I returned home a couple weeks ago, I was reliably informed the same youth pastor is getting married to a totally different girl.

Noble, should I spill the bean. Should I tell the lady he’s dating in school, should I tell his fiancee in our church or should I tell the church authority? I want to tell, should I tell? Everything in me is seeking revenge but my rational mind is asking me to let go and leave him to however he pleases to live his life.

NK

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Dear NK,

I will go with your rational mind. I will suggest you leave him alone. Like you said, you are just seeking revenge. I know there’s some kind of gratification that comes with revenge but to what effect? Just the way you found out, I’m certain the other girl will find out one day too but even if she doesn’t, that is no longer your business.

All the best.

Or what do you think, dear beautiful reader? Let’s know what you think in the comment box.

Comments

I will go with Noble’s advice.Revenge may be sweet but the aftermath is always bitter. if you tell on him, would it make you a better person?. Someone once hurt me real bad n I felt like cursing him. But I didn’t do that rather I prayed 4 his wellbeing and that God should forgive him.Sister,I must tell you that singular action really helped me. I am not bitter thinking about him anymore. I pray God lead u,stay blessed.

What exactly are you going to tell the church? That you both did fornicate? You had that chance when he began his immoral requests from you. Now, go lick your wounds. He did not force you into any immoral act, you were a willing participant. He probably wasn’t your first or woula be your last at it. His only crime against you was dumping you. Heal yourself and repent. He might have repented.

On other hand, people should realise that what is bad is bad. That a man/woman of God asked you to do it is not excuse. By your refusal, the person might give up the bad act and renue their love for God again. A christian’s standard should be Bible not another human.

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