Ways To Be Intimate After Having A Baby : If you’re about to have a baby, or are a few months in, you might realise by now that a baby consumes almost all of your time. They will be the best thing that ever happened to you, an absolute gift, but it can be daunting thinking of all the changes that will happen to your life. There are a number of things you might have to give up, but a healthy social life isn’t one of them.