If we want to date people online, firstly what we should do is to create a dating profile. This is a digital billboard that tells other singles on the same site you’re available and love to have a date. However, if someone has been in contact with you for months but still keeps her profile active online, it will be kind of frustrating and confusing some men. Why doesn’t my Asian lady take down her profile? Is she really into me or just wanting to make money from me? Is iDateAsia an Asian scam site? Various kinds of such guessing, doubts and suspicions upset us and are hurting our Asian dating life. It’s a necessary to remove these concerns before we’re having a healthy dating life and stable relationship.

Firstly we need to find out why these your Asian girlfriend doesn’t disable her profile. If you have chosen a friendly dating site like iDateAsia, scams or frauds should be excluded. Mostly there are two situations explaining why Asian girls still keep their profiles active online after several months of dating and contacting.

She’s Not Ready.

Yes, she obviously likes you, but it’s not strong enough to let her make this decision: cut down all the potential connections with other guys and ONLY develop an uncertain relationship with you. It’s especially for those gorgeous Asian women who experienced failed relationships or marriage with Asian guys before. Their former dating life tells them not to count on ONE unstable relationship too soon. So in this situation you can see these Asian females are just too serious to a relationship or marriage, not playing love games or any scam.

She Doesn’t Like Being Pressured.

Do this kind of Asian girls like you? Of course. They wouldn’t have been talking to you if they don’t like you. They don’t disable their profiles probably because you’re coming too strong in your emails, chats and other connecting ways. She becomes to doubt whether you’re the right person to be her lifetime partner. Asian girls for dating who belong to this situation are mostly young and independent. They want more personal space and respect in a relationship.

Since we know the reasons, how are we gonna deal with it? What should we do?

Relationship should be confirmed.

Tell her how much you appreciate her personality and want to create a serious love relationship with her. Write to her more frequently to show her your determination, giving her more confidence to believe that you’re her best choice, the one who can assure her a good marriage life. If your financial situation is good, a face-to-face meeting in her place will be very helpful to accelerate the relationship.

Be nice and listen.

But when it goes to the second situation, listening and understanding should be more important. Check back your former emails and live chat records to see if you’re coming too strong. Try to be gentle and understandable. Listen and know her needs. Apart from that, tell her your sincerity on developing a cross-cultural relationship with her but be careful of the way you talk. Don’t haste. Let it develop naturally but stably.

Try to understand the girls’ perspectives and keep follow our dating tips, your Asian dating life on iDateAsia will be a good ending.

February 5, 2013

It’s getting closer to the most romantic day in a year!!! Yep, the V day or the Valentine’s Day.

Although it’s originally from a western love story, lovers all over the world celebrate this romantic festival. And our Asian girls also want something special on this memorable day. So there you go. The iDateAsian’s Miss Valentine Pageant 2013 comes for all you girls and guys.

How does it go? Well, quite simple. Just login in iDateAsia Valentine festival page and click “vote for me” button for your favorite Asian girl. You may cast up to 3 votes each day and the best Miss Valentine will go to the Asian beauty who gets the most votes! So if you want to make your lovely Thai lady the lucky winner, keep voting for her. And apart from the vote, iDateAsia, as a trusted online dating site who’s always devoted to offering the best services to the members, will give away some FREE live-chat coupons and discount cards to our participants. Therefore, the more you vote, the more prizes you may get!!

The duration of this activity is from Jan 28th to February 16th. If you want to spend a romantic sexy Valentine, join the party now!

December 25, 2012

Merry Christmas!!
Finally it’s 25th December, 2012! Thanks to God, the world doesn’t end on 21st December as it said before! We’ve got more time to enjoy delicious food and appreciate the beauty of life. And iDateAsia will keep offering its best, high quality services to all its members. So in this memorable Christmas holiday iDateAsia holds a series of activities to share the joy and happiness with all the people in the world!

Instant Chat with Hot Asian Christmas Girls

http://www.idateasia.com/activities/Asian-Christmas-Girl-2012.php
Beautiful single Asian girls will show up in this activity and wait online to share a happy, romantic night with you single guys. They will be very glad to hear your story about childhood and Santa. And in return they love to share the funny stuffs happened in the big festivals. So if you’re interested, JOIN NOW!

Christmas Sweepstakes on Facebook

http://on.fb.me/TYniB3
iDateAsia also celebrates Christmas with Facebook fans! Don’t worry if you haven’t LIKE our Facebook page yet. Go to our Christmas Sweepstakes, simply click LIKE and subsequently fill the form, then wait for the PRIZE! All is done in a minute. So get in to win the PRIZE now!

This post is originally written by our member Rian, which is firstly published in Chnmate.com

My name is Rian and I’m from Canada. Like most of you single guys out there, I had been through the loneliness and emptiness of being SINGLE. But now my life is full of joy and laughs since I met Maria, my gorgeous Thai lady! We met via the so-called thailand wife finder online services. To be honest, I once doubted this online dating stuff and had heard a lot about dating scams. So when I decided to find my life partner, I never thought she would be the one I met online.

Blind Dates Don’t Work.

As I said, online dating sounded not right for me at the first beginning. But blind dates seemed to be a correct choice for a fourty-five guy. So my friends and colleagues introduced girls to me and I did develop a close relationship with some of them, but all could not last more than four months. It really made me frustrated. How could it be? Ok, probably I am not a rich, handsome guy and kind of old-fashioned, but still I’ve got merits, like a good listener. Obviously, my merits seemed not to be appreciated by my ex-girlfriends.

Match.com or eHamony?

Since the blind dates in real life could not work out, I had to try a new way out. So I spent nights on facebook and twitter in the hope of finding the special one in my life from these popular social networks. But nobody can guarantee that these new friends on facebook are girls, guys, cats or robots. It’s hard to find a serious relationship on these social networks. What to do next? Well, Google always helps! When I searched “online dating”, “online matchmakers”and relative words, it showed Match.com and eHarmony. I signed up in both of them and got many emails every day, but none of the girls on these sites could be connected if I did not pay to be a member. The cost of these big brand sites was a little high, which I did not think it’s worthy to be tried. Therefore, neither Match.com nor eHarmony was my way!

iDateAsia Helps Me Find Love.

After match.com and eHarmony, I also registered in a few of online dating sites including iDateAsia. Compared with other sites, I should say that iDateAsia offers relative good services. It’s a Thai dating site and girls on it are mostly from Thailand, Vietnam, Philippine and Taiwan, China. You know, Asian girls are hot and get popular around, besides, my dating world opens for all races. It took me less than one minute to fill the register form and I could browse its single Thai ladies profiles without paying money. There are many free services on this Thai dating site; For example, Cupid Note allows you to send your first email to your favourite Asian lady, telling her you’re interested in her. Apart from that, it also provides charged services like EMF correspondence, Love call and Live Chat since it’s profit organization. However, it’s services are worthy of the price when compared to other dating sites including those I mentioned above. Their customer team always reply your emails quickly. Members reviews and comments on this Asian dating site are good. And I’m also a live proof. I met my Asian love here and ended my lonely single life with the help of this Thai dating platform. So if you’re still single and hate being alone, why not try to have some fun here? Thai girls for dating! Try iDateAsia!

I gotta the feeling that tonight is gonna be a wild, thrilling, crazy night! Because it’s Halloween!

As an international cross-cultural online dating site, iDateAsia.com will never miss such a good chance to let its members communicate and get to know more about each other. Since ladies on our platform are from Thailand, Vietnam, Philippe and Taiwan (China), this festival is not so familiar to them and they must be interested in hearing the funny things happened in Halloween nights! It’s really a good time to let these Asian girls know you and your culture.

It would be funny and happy! Online Halloween video chat? That sounds great. Can’t find interesting topics in normal times? Well, you’ve so much funny stuffs to share this time. Have you decided to play which character yet? How about the batman or Wolverine? They’re so popular in Asia. You can show your Thai girl or Vietnamese lady your manliness and fun side.

If you have ever been to Asia or dated Asian girls, you probably know that people from Asian countries speak very interesting English in which you can hear strong accents. For example, most Chinese people speak Chinglish while Thai girls speak Thaiglish ( also called Tinglish). Since English is not the mother language for the native Asian people, most of them cannot speak fluent English that’s in accordance with the rules of grammar, pronunciation and other factors, instead, under the interference of their first language they produce another strange but interesting way to talk with native speakers of English. Today we’re going to find out some interesting phrases and conversations produced when some Asian ladies talk in English.

Native English Speaker:” Hey where can I buy a SIM card? ”
Thai Girl:” You go seven or in the chopping also have sell.”
Actual meaning: You can go 7-11 or the shopping mall, they sell it too.

Native English Speaker:” Hey, are you free tomorrow morning? ”
Singaporean:” Tomorrow morning cannot leh, I have appointment, late a bit can or not? ”
Actual meaning: Tomorrow morning I’m not available, can make it later?

Native English Speaker:” So this trekking road will get me to that village? ”
Vietnamese Girl:” Yes, but zhe road is no so good, you must walk carefully, zhe weather is very hot, walk slowly. ”
Actual meaning: You can get there through the road but it’s a little rocky. Besides it’s hot. (“Zhe” is actually “the”.)

When Thai people say “to much”, mostly they mean “a lot”.

Thai girl:” I like it too much. ”
Actual meaning: I like it a lot.

Thai:” He has money too much. ”
Actual meaning: He has a lot of money.

They always struggle with ed / ing adjectives

Thai girl asks ” Are you interesting me?”

Asian girl:” Are you boring? ”
Actual meaning: Are you bored?

Thai girl:” Are you boring me? ”
Actual meaning: Are you bored with me?

Asian lady:” I am headache. ”
Actual meaning: I have headache.

They also mix up pronouns.

“I have one sister and he stay with my dad. ” (Is her sister a transgender? )
“Her is my friend.”
“He is she uncle.”
“Me go”
“they house”
“She car”

Some popular omissions in their sentence.

” I not know” ( means I don’t know)
“same you” (means same as you)

There are still many interesting phrases and sentences. Although many Thai girls, Vietnamese girls and other ladies from non-English speaking countries can not speak fluent English, there’s always a way connecting her world with yours, which I call it the friendliness and love.

August 6, 2012

Thirty is a special number for Asian ladies. It means a woman has turned into another stage of life.

There is a special group of beautiful, well-educated women in Asia, who have been already in their thirties but still stay single. Perhaps it is quite normal in the United States and other Western countries, but not in Asia. According to the Asian culture or traditions, girls should get married after 20 and before the age of 30. If she is still living with her parents after thirty, she will suffer huge pressure from the family, relatives, neighbors and peers. So why would these single Asian girlslike to suffer so much to stay single? Why not just find some guy and marry him to start a new family? Well, indeed, these ladies really want a happy marriage life but can not find the right guy in her own country. What they want is actually quite simple but men around her seem to be not able to meet her demands. Anyway, let’s take a look at her so-called high standard for husband. Maybe you are the right one for her.

No lies, no cheating. She wants you one hundred percent loyal to the relationship mentally and physically. In present Asia, it is almost an open secret that a married man has an affair with other women, especially the rich men. He and she may get married because of love, but after the marriage he probably will be involved into an immoral relationship with other women. It’s said that couples easily get divorced after the seven-year marriage life according to Asian wisdom. The so-called Seven-year Itch. Grown up in the surroundings and viewing all the breaking-up, the modern Asian females obviously are lack of sense of security when dating or facing marriage. Thus, they will spend more time to find her Mr. Right who can give her a stable relationship and family.

Asian Ladies Long For Romantic Love.

Women have the same all over the world. That is to be the princess and live a happy life with her prince in the end. Although meeting so much difficulty and frustrations, women never give up the hope of having a romantic story with her Mr. Right. Because in the fairy tales, Snow White, Cinderella, Sleeping Beauty, all of these heroines have to go through varying troubles before they met their destiny, their love. Therefore, these Asian women also desire romantic marriage. However, Asian men seem to know little about romance or they tend to be undemonstrative to confess love, while Western men are always making romantic moments for his girlfriend or wife. So that’s one important reason for why many Asian brides want to marry western men.

These females look beautiful with good appearance and hot figure, get high education, work in good company, have a sense of fashion and enjoy a comfortable self-sufficient life. Financial factor is not that important in her dating demands to the guy. In contrast, they emphasize the spirit communication. They want him to be a considerate, reasonable man that can show more understanding to her and guide her when she loses her way in life. These Asian ladies in 30s need a lifetime partner rather than someone sharing apartment.

It’s another IDateAsia review on Asian dating, which is about how Thai girls learn English hardly in order to communicate fluently with their foreign boyfriends or future husbands.
English is widely used as the second language in many non-English-speaking countries. And also men and women in Asian land have got plenty of opportunities to learn English. Schools open the English class to all the students, which has been regarded as the compulsory course from the primary school to university since decades ago. Watching local English Television programmes, movies and listening to English songs are one of the best ways to have a good command of this language. Apart from that, ethnic Thai people who were born and grew up abroad return to their homeland and bring back the foreign values and culture, which influences the English learning situation in Thailand. Although all these provide good conditions to learn English, it is a second language for Thai people after all. School English concentrates on training reading ability, so many college or university students can not have good communication with native English speakers. Besides, if someone has no chance to speak English in her life or work, she will not spend so much effort on learning it. Therefore, frankly speaking, there are many Thai people speaking excellent English, but there are much more Thai people speaking poor English or understanding no English.

Asian girls learn English hard for love

Why Thai Girls Say/Do That?

There is misunderstanding caused by language difference. Although globalization brings countries closer than before. Immigration, studying abroad, business business trip or personal travelling narrows down the gap between cultures and traditions of different countries and smooths the communication. But sometimes misunderstanding happens partly owing to language barrier. For example, many Asian women say “I LOVE YOU” to her date after meeting for several times, which confuses the western guys because they have heard a lot about that Asian ladies are very traditional, conservative and shy. I would like to tell that what they heard is a fact. And the reason for why these women act so passionately and not in a oriental way is that they do not know English well. In their eyes, the sentence “I LOVE YOU” equals that I have a good feeling for you and try to develop a further relationship with you. Yes, it means a little more than “I like you”. In addition, they may have many ideas to share with you, but words fail them, which leads to another wrong impression on single Asian ladies. That is they seem to have got no mind of herself. Imagine that, if you have to use Thai language to communicate, how many Thai expressions you know to tell someone you like her but not love her?

You know what? There are plenty of language training centers or institutions in Thailand, which mainly teach oral English and provide English courses specially for those who need to improve her English ability at work, who want to pass international English tests to go abroad, or who are meeting western guys and try to remove the language barrier. The fee of the training is relatively high. It generally costs about several thousand RMB, which occupies a great portion of her income. Apart from money, she also has to pay a lot of time to acquire the ability. You know, handling the work, English learning and life well must be not easy. It’s an exhausting work. However, still a great number of Asian women are trying their best to better their English. And it is almost the same situation in other Asian countries.

As a result, if you are dating Asian girls or seeking Asian match, please cherish them. Because these girls also pay so much to be in love with you.

July 20, 2012

Today dating online is the most popular and best way to meet new people and find a good lifetime partner for oneself. Various kinds of dating sites are there online to provide services. You can meet someone who has the same religion and hobbies. You can date people from different countries. You can do the Asian dating with beautiful Asian girls even you know little Asian language. But in order to begin a great love journey in the internet world, you need some advice.

# 1. Be Mentally Prepared.

Take all the necessary caution and understand the commitments associated with dating online. You may even have to wait for some time if you want to find a perfect match according to your likes and dislikes. Besides, you need to be cautious. The internet is a place for all kinds of fraudulent activities. You can be easily vulnerable to scammers who can trick you and take a lot of information from you. So be very careful while contacting unknown people.

# 2. Have A Good Profile.

To attract potential partners, you need to open a good profile. Make it very interesting so that people are attracted to it. Add several good photographs you recently do to make the profile lively. Tell your hobbies and what you don’t like clearly. Because it will help you find someone with similar interest.

# 3. Present W hat You Want.

In other words, to mention your true intentions. If you are really looking for a true relationship then you need to be serious and find the perfect match. During the process of dating, you can tell your date what you wan to get from a international marital relationship. It might take you some time to find the right person on the Asian dating sites, but if you’re patient enough, you will get your beautiful Asian wife.

Online dating used to be considered as a playgame and people never that someone could have found his or her lifetime partner through this online stuff. However, it did work and it’s still working. What’s more, it’s getting more acceptable and popular.

Old Gentlemen Are Also Active Online

Among the booming online dating crowd, there’s a special group, the old gentlemen, who want to review the joy and happiness in love and try to date foreign younger ladies through dating sites, such as IDateAsia. People in the present society prefer to follow their hearts and do what their hearts say. Heart is given privileged over the mind as it guides through the passage of love and that is what a person desires. According to their own desire, it is usually seen that most of the old gentlemen do not try to find the mate of their age, instead they go for the younger girls (specially the hot Asian females) who can remind them of their youth and previous golden period of their lifetime. Besides all men in the planet are attractive for the youth body and charming looks of a young woman.

According to some statistics, it reveals that not the old gentlemen like dating younger Asian women, but the young Asian girls tend to seek the company of older men who can guide them perfectly and show more understanding and consideration to them in a relationship and life. To some people, a 20 years girl marrying a guy who’s in his forties can not be out of love, affection and admiration. They doubt there’s other purpose for those beautiful young ladies to get married with old plain men, like getting a green card or making money. However, in the most case, girls date mature men just because they find old men more attractive as compared to their age mates and it has been seen that in most of the cases such couples live a pretty happy life. Hence, there are still a great number of hot Asian girls dating older guys for marriage and true love does exist in the international matchmaking sites.

Online Service Makes International Dating Easier

Finding the partner of your own type gets easier with the arrival of online dating websites where you can find your desired partner in a nice and easy manner. For the sake of dating, you do not have to dress up properly. You can just switch on your computer and you can have a date with your loved one. Easy and fast. Based on the survey of some Asian dating websites, most successful couples are younger Asian wife and experienced mature man and they still enjoy good time after marriage. So it’s quite alright for old gentlemen dating younger Asian ladies online.