Originally posted by Zoomerang96 stars, while i do believe you mean what you say, it unfortunately doesn't work that way.

whether people want to admit it or not, looks are initially the most important thing. they're the first impression! more often than not, you see them before you hear them talk.

looks are extremely important.

Looks are important...in a way. Whether or not you look like you take care of yourself is important in that sense. But variety IS the spice of life.....the kind of guys I find attractive aren't the kind that my best friend does--at all. Of course you would need to be initially attracted to a person to be interested in getting beyond the exterior...if there's no sparks, then there's no sparks. But who you choose to find attractive is a very subjective and personal thing...and you don't need to fit a convential style of outward beauty to be able to find love.

From what you guys seem to be saying is that because...well take me for example. I am single. Therefore...there must be something wrong with my looks because I am single...cause otherwise I would have a SO. I hope that's not the case....