It had to be done. She's great, but it wasnt a relationship that was heading anywhere, so after a year and a half I put a stop to it. Just kinda eating into each other's futures if we keep going like that. It's still sad though.

I saw that on facebook. Sorry, buddy. You did the mature thing, though. Sometimes love isn't enough.

She's great, but it wasnt a relationship that was heading anywhere, so after a year and a half I put a stop to it.

Just kinda eating into each other's futures if we keep going like that.

It's still sad though.

That sounds like mine. My longterm GF, who I actually really really liked, broke up because I wouldn't marry her (it's actually the main reason I left new york). We just didn't have the same kind of plans. It's one of those things that had to be done.

Take some time to just do stupid shit. If you try and be mature, dealing with it head on, you'll just end up completely wasted, 100 miles from where you live in nothing but one sock, lying next to a naked women's tennis player from university of georgia, and not know how you got there.

Dude, sorry to hear this but it sounds like you're taking charge of your well-being which is good to hear.

Similar to what SField said, after a relationship ended I would always take time to do the things that she hated or wouldn't do with me - NO NOT THAT - I mean play some golf, visit strip bars, scotch-and-cigars, what-have-you. Reclaim yourself, at least until the next one comes along.

Similar to what SField said, after a relationship ended I would always take time to do the things that she hated or wouldn't do with me - NO NOT THAT - I mean play some golf, visit strip bars, scotch-and-cigars, what-have-you. Reclaim yourself, at least until the next one comes along.

what kind of girlfriend did you have? Sounds pretty controlling to me.

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Originally Posted by SField

Take some time to just do stupid shit. If you try and be mature, dealing with it head on, you'll just end up completely wasted, 100 miles from where you live in nothing but one sock, lying next to a naked women's tennis player from university of georgia, and not know how you got there.