A lot of times we live for approval of other people. We live because we want to get to a certain “number”. A number of views, subscribers, etc.

What is an authentic life to you?

For the most part, you are in a matrix.

That matrix is trying to encourage you into . other people’s script.

Make so much money so that compared to other people, you can feel successful. Human beings, we typically don’t analyze absolute wealth, we analyze relative wealth, says Tyler.

Think about it, all of us have more (absolute) wealth than a king or queen from 300 years ago but we have a lot less “relative wealth” because the king or queen had more money than the rest of the town.

One question to ask yourself:

If right now you had all the money in the world, all the wealth in the world, all the status in the world, all the friends in the world.. you have it all. It’s physically impossible to make more.

Would anything change? Or would you start freaking out?

We are always on this rat race, pushing forward but don’t stop to think about…

What am I chasing? What is driving you?

Is it the approval of your parents, your father, your mother. Approval of friends? running from past trauma growing up?

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