I think I'd feel the same way were one of my parents to remarry. My mom and pop have been together for as long as I could remember, and having someone else come into the picture would take a lot of readjusting for me--and I'm usually a very adaptable person. I feel for you, man, but I'm glad that she's still alive and well. I hope things improve for you, and I'll be thinking of you in the meantime brother!

I feel for you, man, but I'm glad that she's still alive and well. I hope things improve for you, and I'll be thinking of you in the meantime brother!

Thanks, Brother Joe: Mom has actually lost about ten years off her face since this happened ~ I actually think she was pining for Dad and although she had lots of friends around her where she used to live, I think she was slowly dying. This has given her a new lease on life and it will be one heck of an adjustment for me: I probably will get used to it in time.

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internally I feel as abandoned as I did when my birth parents abandoned me.

Aw Trevor! From what you have said about your relationship and childhood, I know your Mom has a huge heart and a lot of love to give. It's a huge adjustment after all this time having her so close by, but I also know that nothing has changed between you save a bit of physical distance. Give it time. You have a big heart too: there is room for all of us, and that includes potential for a special friendship with the new love in your Mom's life. I have faith in you. It will happen. {{HUGS}}

Aw Trevor! From what you have said about your relationship and childhood, I know your Mom has a huge heart and a lot of love to give. It's a huge adjustment after all this time having her so close by, but I also know that nothing has changed between you save a bit of physical distance. Give it time. You have a big heart too: there is room for all of us, and that includes potential for a special friendship with the new love in your Mom's life. I have faith in you. It will happen. {{HUGS}}

Awww: big hugs to my Canadian sister.

There certainly is room in my heart for all of my family on here. *HUG* Even Wyrewizard. Yes: I typed that.

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I can't claim to know what you're going through; I don't know how I'd feel if my dad were to remarry. But you can take comfort in the fact that your mom is happy and you can still be in touch with her. Obviously, we're all pulling for you.

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Sorry to hear, Trevor. Things will improve in time. Until then wishing you the best, I understand it can be hard to lose someone who has been a part of your life for a long time. Whether permanently or by moving away and so forth. It is always sad. I've lost many friends in similar ways and it is sad. I can understand that it is deeper for you and hoping that things will not seem so distant and such. However, as long as she is happy, you will be happy as well. Change is just never enjoyable. Wishing you the best Trevor you are good member of the forum and always a joy.

I can't claim to know what you're going through; I don't know how I'd feel if my dad were to remarry. But you can take comfort in the fact that your mom is happy and you can still be in touch with her. Obviously, we're all pulling for you.

Thanks and hugs, SisterCT

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