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Any women have any suggestions for couples porn. We've never watched porn together & she has watched almost none. Most of the porn I've seen has been marginal at best and generally degrading to women. Got any suggestions?

There's a site called (someone's) list that reviews porn and looks specifically for those that work better for women with varying tastes. I heard about it on a Savage Love podcast, and I can't remember exactly what the site called. Which makes this not so helpful a comment, I imagine, but I'll see if I can uncover that information and post it here; and meanwhile, that might give you an idea what to search for online.

Interesting profile. Looking for ongoing NSA sex and intimate encounters? I guess your wife approves. But you have no photo, so we only have your word about how good looking and fit you are. A real hunk.

We've never watched porn together & she has watched almost none. Most of the porn I've seen has been marginal at best and generally degrading to women. Got any suggestions?

I consider cheating to be 'generally degrading to women'...wonder why THAT would bother someone like you?I have a suggestion.Get a Divorce.THEN go looking for women to use for sex.Or if you can't handle doing the right thing...at least give you wife CARTE BLANCHE to find a REAL man to watch porn with.You know...someone who means they love her.

Start with the easy stuff...Red Shoe Diaries is great soft porn...more about the energy of progressing the encounters to a fever pitch. One...with Denise Crosby as a cop with an intense desire for one guy always seems to be a mutual turn-on (women like to pretend to be in charge...controlling and focusing his energy).

As far as real hardcore stuff...wow...be careful there, Skippy...once you crawl down that rabbit hole it's both amazing and disgusting all there is to be found. Know your boundaries...better yet...know her's. It's really, really bad if she won't do les and anal and just when they get to the part with the two girls in a 69 and the guy reaming one of their asses at the same time...and suddenly, you're sporting the biggest, hardest erection you've had in months...she may not be too darn thrilled at what turned you on.

My suggestion is you get help for your addiction. It gets progressively worse. If your sex life is that dull w/o porn, maybe you/she needs a new partner. They have educational sex tapes you can watch. If you do it more than Once you are probanbly developing a problem.

My suggestion is you get help for your addiction. It gets progressively worse. If your sex life is that dull w/o porn, maybe you/she needs a new partner.

Just to say so, if there's an addiction at play here, your recommendation sounds a lot like suggesting an alcoholic switch from wine to beer. Secondly, of course, its seems sweepingly judgmental to diagnose an addiction from a three or four sentence thread on the Internet.

I still like Two Moon Junction... It's not porn at all, but a very sexy movie... Try that as a start to see how see responds to seduction, sex, video taping of sex, etc...

There's always "Looking In". Embarassing to admit, perhaps, but that's the only real porn movie I've watched "most of". I thought it was too stupid to watch the whole thing...I think we turned it off and just had sex instead. LOL I've seen many, many clips of other porn movies, but nothing with an actual plot.

Looking In is about a couple that moves into a new house and they realize that the neighbors enjoy watching each other have sex thru their windows at night. Kinda like peeping toms except th eneighbors are displaying themselves on purpose. Then they have a barbecue and all decide to just start getting it on w/each other. That's the point that I gave up watching it...

It certainly is plenty vanilla for a beginner...straight oral, vaginal, and maybe anal sex. Lots of positions, lots of body types.

My suggestion is you get help for your addiction. It gets progressively worse. If your sex life is that dull w/o porn, maybe you/she needs a new partner.

Just to say so, if there's an addiction at play here, your recommendation sounds a lot like suggesting an alcoholic switch from wine to beer.

LOL....He's already well on his way to seeking out the "hard alcohol" based on what his profile states he is seeking out!

Secondly, of course, its seems sweepingly judgmental to diagnose an addiction from a three or four sentence thread on the Internet.

Read his profile and then see what's going on here.Why would a man think it's fine to seek out p*ssy on the side AND ask about porn for his wife if there wasn't SOME problem with him? Sex addiction is insidious.And it happens to married men who are already out there exploring thier options.I think he should mention to his WIFE...that he has a profile here....I doubt she's want to watch anything with him if she knew him.

Good point...Tickle~...seems like OPie is just another scared loser trapped in the marriage merry-go-round of life...he wants an active sex life, hence the IE seeking...and certainly has no qualms about what he wants in his write-up ('cept I'd wager his wife hasn't seen the profile but, as he's not find women to flop down and have their ***** lavaged by a loser, he's trying to figure a way to get the MRS to step up.

Too bad guys like that don't understand that foreplay and lust and wild, crazy, fun monkey sex is something you begin before you even wake up in the morning and the attitude, the building and progressing that "desire" in her to want to do all sorts of wild crazy things is something that is inherent in her which she will allow out when she trusts, respects and feels fully loved by the man she is going to take to those levels with her.