sum ppl like 2 be abused its like drilled in2 there subconcious mind they mite not even realise it but its there, its like the whole stockholm syndrome thing, well thats wot i think anyway and its the same wiv ppl who r in physically abusive relantionships, they find it really hard 2 leave and even if they do alot of them end up goin back. it mite be that kinda thing or it mite be nufin 2 do wiv that