I agree that you just know. We just had #3 3months ago and the whole pregnancy I was saying this is it, no more. Since having him I watch baby story and birthday and I just cringe at the thought of going thru labor again. I love getting that new baby put in your arms for the first time but the thought of another 25 1/2 hrs of labor(yup that long with #3!!) I just don't think I have it in me. At the same time I am in no rush for hubby to have the big V. It is just so final. KWIM?