Baby Showers.. not having one :-(

Had a friend who was planning on throwing me a baby shower once she found out she was pregnant. A few weks later she found out she was pregnant, lol. So we decided to do a joint baby shower but now because her family is also throwing a seperate shower "our" baby showers are now a no go and i feel really bummed out now since it has now been canceled.

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It's my second and the baby shower planning started causing way to much drama with my SIL so I said no baby shower! Now DH may do a baby-q just to celebrate but basically unless we do it there will not be one.

FTM here and I probably won't have one. I have had people tell me they want to throw one, but that was the extent of those conversations. Not to mention we may soon end up being way too far from friends and family to have one.

I'm not having one and I am more than fine with that! DS is 3 and we kept everything from him. Plus we were team green with him so everything is neutral. This baby is a girl but we already have a TON of clothes that was handed down by various friends. So honestly, we don't need anything and I would hate to have our friends and family waste money on things we don't need just for the sake of having a shower. We don't even need diapers because we use cloth and have a stash from DS.

I am so sorry to hear about your shower being canceled. Doesn't seem fair...

These twins are babies #4 and #5 for me, and I wouldn't be having a shower except for the fact that there are two babies and my youngest is already 5. I have nothing left over except the changing table and the glider. Also, this is my DH's first babies, so his mom would like to have a shower with her friends as well.