He was very mean when he said that and whatever else he has said to you before then. You need to talk with him before it goes any further or both of you go to counseling. If you do not start feeling good about yourself your baby will feel the same way, your baby will have the same characteristics as you and also allow others to say ugly things. I know this because I went through the same thing. I was depressed while pregnant and now my son is lazy, sleeps a lot and have other issues that we are trying to work through. Please don't let this happen any longer for your baby's sake. Remember it's not only what you eat affects your baby it's what you live also!

You don't need an expert to tell you what you are doing is wrong, do you not understand that this is adultery. I'm trying to empathize with you but you jumped out of the frying pan into the fire when you let him back into your life. He wants control over you and his wife and he will lie to get what he want. Do you think his wife would appreciate this and remember what goes around comes back! That is in the bible.(What you do to others will be done unto you!) So stop and repent, I know it will be hard and your flesh is weak, but would you rather burn in hell or try to find your own man to be with. I wish you the best. Question, is he that good to you for you not to be #1 in his life to settle for being #2.View Thread

We see things the same when it comes to friendships. It sounds like you don't have a best friend and I don't either that is why we place a high value on friendships. I have dealt with the same type of situation as you and it hurts when you really want to be a person friend or make this person a close friend but they want reciprocate. She has barriers either coming from her culture or personal life that isn't allowing her to give this friendship her all. She may see you as being too needy, so whenever you see her don't stop, just wave back, always be nice to her because she may not be ready to be the type of friend you need. Until then keep socializing with others until you find that true friend.View Thread