Have you ever noticed that your girlfriend seems to feel a bit uncomfortable near you? Obviously, to have a good relationship, you both need to be comfortable around each other. Just read on to know how to do this.

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Steps

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Build trust with her. Make sure that she knows that she can trust you with her secrets, because you can keep them. Tell her some of your secrets too, so she knows that you trust her.

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2

Get to know her. Usually, the more you know someone, the more comfortable you are around them. Get to know her well, and let her get to know you well. This will make your relationship more comfortable for her.

3

Spend time with her. Just like getting to know her, the more time you spend with her, the more comfortable she'll be around you. This doesn't mean spending every second of the day with her, but simply going out at least once a week, hanging out at school, eating lunch together, etc.

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Make sure that your friends are nice to her. It's always a little uncomfortable for a girl to hang out with her boyfriend's friends (unless she knows them), so make sure that your friends are treating her right. They shouldn't be flirting with her, calling her sexy, commenting on her body, boobs, butt, etc., or calling her names. This will make your girlfriend feel very uncomfortable.

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Don't hang out with your friends that are girls more than you spend time with her. She'll feel like you're disinterested in her and that you're trying to cheat on her, even if you aren't. Don't send off the wrong signals!

6

Go shopping with her! Going shopping with a girl is a great time to bond with her, especially if she's trying on clothes. This will make her feel more comfortable about showing herself to you, as well as having you judge how she looks in certain outfits. However, if your girlfriend doesn't like shopping, skip this step.

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Don't embarrass her. There's nothing more embarrassing for a girl than when her boyfriend tells everyone that she's "his bitch", that she's "as sexy as a stripper", or that he'll "get her in bed tonight". Don't say these things to anyone. It's okay to say that she's pretty, hot, beautiful, etc., but don't make sexual references when you're talking about her looks, as this is embarrassing for girls.

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Don't push her to do something she doesn't want to. It is possible that your girlfriend is uncomfortable around you simply because she's afraid that you'll force her into doing something she doesn't want to. This includes kissing, smoking, doing drugs, drinking, touching, having sex, getting pierced, and/or getting tattooed. Make sure not to pressure her into doing anything that she doesn't want to do!

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