I know when my Mom passed away 3 years ago I was devistated. I wasn't sure how I was even supposed to face life - she had always been there for me ...

All I can tell you is what helped me - and that's tears. Let them flow. Grieve. And when the laughter hits because of a memory - allow it to happen to - it's all part of missing someone important in your life - laughing, crying, and hopefully, eventually, that warm spot in your heart set aside for them alone. That place that everytime you touch - you feel their love.

I hurt for you, and hope your grief can bring you to a similar place of peace, eventually.

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blue shift, i pray for and hope that you may cherish the memories of this precious person who has brought you into this world. it's not over for you nor her; she has gone to accept the gift of god's better idea, and in a very real way brings you along with her. may you be at peace thru these next few days which will seem as a dream. then, in the remaining days of your life, cling to the notion of your meeting her again and sharing in her spirit in more profoundly joyful ways. peace to you, ron

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