My advice: Research it extensively before you do. Don't let peer pressure dictate your actions. Make an informed choice and remember that there's nothing brave about doing things because you're scared of people judging you.

>Moved to a new city two and a half years ago due to university>Met a guy there who I liked>He usually always initiated the conversation, sat next to me/near me>I get really nervous around him, spaghetti everywhere basically>I either stare at him or avoid his look>He sort of did the same thing>one and a half year later he got a girlfriend>his gf liked another guy in our course before, but he ditched her (?), so she started looking somewhere else>she pretty much had enough balls to show interest in him like a normal person, unlike me god damnit>our interactions stopped, but we exchanged looks every now and then

>fast forward to now, they are still together>he's been getting really weird lately>he grins at me for no reason>i get visibly uncomfortable by it, which makes him grin even more>talks to me whenever he has the opportunity>his friends write me messages if I go to the club to meet them>one apologized for his behavior towards me telling me not to think anything of it>even one of my fucking professors took me away from him since he thought he was hitting on me in a way which made me seem uncomfortable>his gf is even there at those times, giving me and him weird looks>the both of them seem to talk about me???

Ok, so, the thing is, I don't believe he is flirting with me.. so what exactly is his deal?

Another thing is that our internships started recently, so we will probably never see eachother again. Though I would love to keep him as a friend or something, I don't feel like I have any right to interfere with him and his relationship, since I still have romantic feelings for him... I'm just really confused ;_;

I don't know how it got to the stage that a teacher moved you away from him because they suspected you were being harassed. That seems incredibly extreme and unusual, and it's even more complicated because really, underneath it all you actually quite like him.

Our "city" is actually rather small. We have a local club near the university where we all hang out at night, including some of our profs. I talked to my professor at that night, when he (as in my crush) interrupted us, sort of drunk.He literally talked to me about doing some leg training with me for solid five minutes until my teacher had enough and pulled me away.

>>16801733Exactly. I always wants to know everything they liked and did... so I can do better and get it too. It's fun when you legitimately give your girlfriend something she's never had, like good sex or an actual orgasm for the first time?

They think you're their God. So yeah, I want to know what you did girl. Tell me everything.

Hey Anon, I'm sorry you feel this way. I've only recently learned how to stop hating myself. Rather than typing out rambling paragraphs, I'm going to give the sparknotes versions of what I learned from beating depression.

- Accept that you're a human. None of us are perfect. But you still love your friends and family all the same despite their imperfections, don't you? You're much more focused on your negative qualities than anyone else.

- Embrace failure. As odd as it sounds, failure isn't a bad thing. It's an opportunity...Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.

>>16801692not op, but how do i recover and get back into my education after a year of non-stop failing, and failing internships? My university counselor guided me into choosing another study, but it's to hard, and now i hope i can get back into my previous study, and not make the same mistake

I really want to rawdog a prostitute but I don't want to get an std. Is there some safe way I can quickly check the prostitute to make sure she's clean? I have two escorts on my phone that I fuck twice a month (one white, another black) The white one seems the most safe because she doesn't take black customers and is fairly pricey, also I have had her perform oral on me before with out a condom and never got anything.

I am a normal man, with a normal wife, a normal life and normal job, and a normal two year old son.

Last night I had an extremely unsettling dream and am concerned about what it means. I dreamed life was pretty much the same as always. Same wife and same house. Instead of a son though I had a three to four year old daughter. The disturbing part was that throughout this dream I was constantly molesting her! Like, in front of my wife and my mom and it was all completely normal to everybody in the dream. It was completely normal to my daughter in the dream who was only annoyed...Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.

>>16801557>I think pedo's are human scum and should be euthanized to cleanse the gene poolwell, maybe you secretly are a pedo. people with such strong opinions on a topic usually have some deep rooted problems with it. maybe you just wish you could have sex whenever and wherever you want to. pretty reasonable and normal if you ask me. dreams tend to reach for fucked up scenarios sometimes. don't think about it too much

>Have girlfriend (25) for 6 years who is into Japan and K pop>I hate it but I accept it because I am a gamer and she accepts that of me too>She is going to Japan and Korea in September both 5 months (so 10 months) for something like an internship for being a teacher in education>How fucked am I

I am never jealous but knowing she is going to a country with so many asians makes me a bit sad. If her internship was in the US or Europe or any...Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.

>About to lose my shit on you for making a retarded, clearly not /fit/ related topic>Realize I'm on /adv/, not /fit/lol

It's hard to say without knowing her personally, and even then you never really know. Some chicks aren't into the men, just the culture. Some chicks are also into the men. 10 months is a long time to expect a dick not to go in there. But if she has dedicated 6 years to you, you would think she has the control to not ruin it for 10 months.You would think...

It's about that time when the majority of my acquaintances who had started a successful relationship between 18-20 years of age are now getting engaged.

I've been in a relationship with my girlfriend for 6 years now, and although I know she's not keen to get married just yet, she's dropping hints like crazy about engagement, and her family are starting as well.

My problem is that since about the 2nd year, I've had this niggling feeling that I don't want to be with...Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.

None of those things have changed, but I'm questioning whether that's enough to build a marriage on; even disregarding that feeling that marriage with her wouldn't be a good idea for me, and maybe even for her.

>>16801502tell her what you honestly think and how you feel, it is the best you can do and see how she will react to that.remember that it is your life and your feelings are just as important as anybodys elses

I'm unexperienced, and I don't want to go trough the trouble of studying in college for so much time, even if that means having a lower salary.

What is important to me is:

1) free time: a job that doesn't take much time so I can enjoy my hobbies at home2) comfort: hopefully something done sitting3) working as alone as possible: i can handle working with/for people, but i'd rather do it alone4) proximity from home. i dont want to spend several moneys with trasnport.5) good money

I'm 29. I never went to college and I've bounced around between entry level jobs. I work in a office right now and it's ok but it's not a lot of money at all ($13/hr.) The most I have made was $20/hr and that company ended up making a ton of layoffs. You can find something that feels cushy but you probably won't find something that pays well and you definitely won't find a job where you can work entirely alone. I'm sure it's possible to make a lot of money without a degree but you'd have to be working your ass off in sales or running...Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.

What does it mean if my ex gf who broke up with me at NYE party (some idiotic stuff, not even worth it to post), now is asking my friend how my life is going? It's ridiculus to me, because I'm seeing her maybe 2 times a week when I go to the store where she works, and she could just ask me.

>>16801204After the first time I sex sex, while cuddling with the girl, she told me she was molested as a child. Since I was an autistic child, I misunderstood her and thought she was telling me how much more experience she had, and it made me nervous that I didn't sex her right. I never told anyone and she went on to become a drug addict and I've heard she has attempted suicide a few times.

I need help on a pretty simple matter. Yes I have a lawyer but it's Friday night, they aren't available and I'm trying to read up on this before I even talk to my lawyer.

Long story short is my buddy was pissed off at me, got caught in some stupid legal shit, made a statement against me while still extremely high like 2 hours after being arrested. After sobering up says he doesn't even remember it, etc. Regrets screwing me over by blaming me. Aren't cops supposed to wait a certain amount of time before taking a statement for that exact reason?...Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.

>>16801123That's the thing. He didn't. It has nothing to do with the truth, the problem is that Wisconsin just allows hearsay. If someone says something, you did it. I've known people who have been revoked for probation for this. That's why falsified statutory/sexual assault charges are such an issue here.

Apparently just saying he was high/did it out of spite isn't enough. So basically I'm fucked no matter what. I could have sworn there was some procedure where they are supposed to wait...Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.

so i was an autistic faggot all through out highschool with my hair. trying to style it in very particular ways, spending tons of time in front of the mirror and using a lot of hair gel. and once i started college i got overwelmed and stressed with the work. i picked up a bad hair twisting habit that lasted a good 2-3 years. always impulsively picking and twisting at my hair. the same exact spots i would twist my hair in are now either dead or extremely thin. i used to have way in the front. my back is super thick and my hair generally grows back quick but the front is just...Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.

So I've had chronic migraines for a while now and just recently I had to go to the hospital because it was so painful I couldn't function. I used to take prescription pills for it when I was younger, but it never really helped. I told my doctor this and he suggested I try medical cannabis and got me a card and recommendation. I've never smoked it before but am willing to try it to get rid of the migraines. The only problem is that my GF is super against weed. How can I explain it to her so she could be accepting of it? I smoke hookah so I was thinking about explaining...Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.

I really, really, really, really, really, hate stoners. But if you have a legitimate medical need, by all means give it a shot. If your girlfrend doesn't want your pain alleviated dump her ass, she doesn't care about you.

>>16800925Yeah I was skeptical about it at first too. But he started explaining how it could help and I thought I should see if it can help. I know a lot of people abuse it just to use it recreationally.

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