These are the thoughts and observations of me — a woman of a certain age. (Oh, my, God, I'm 60!) I'm single. I'm successful enough (independent, self supporting). I live in the burbs and work in the city (Chicago, the best city in the world). I'm an aunt, a friend and a colleague. I feel that voices like mine are rather underrepresented online or in print. So here I am. If my musings resonate with you, please visit my blog again sometime.

78) In your world, what brings on more creativity? Water. I find I'm frequently more creative after a shower, which is why I think it would serve my coworkers well to make sure I have time for lunchtime workout and subsequent shower. They don't seem to get it and keep scheduling meetings for 11:30 to 12:30.

79) What is the single best decision you have made in your life so far? Back in the days when I was a secretary (before there were "administrative assistants") in a huge corporation, I applied for a position as a copywriter in the internal creative department. I didn't have any training whatsoever, but there was a mid-level executive, one of the few women in the company in that role in those days, who encouraged me. That's when I went from "job" to "career."

80) Why did you break up with your last ex? He moved to Ohio to be nearer his big brother and it just didn't seem worth the long-distance thing.

81) What would you want to be written on your tombstone? The way Wilbur eulogized Charlotte: She was a true friend and a good writer.
82) What is your favorite word? "Gubernatorial." It's fun to say.

83) Give me the first thing that comes to mind when you hear the word: delusional. Meds.

84) What is a saying you use a lot? " ... then we'll miss our deadline and Christmas will be cancelled!"

85) Are you watching Idol this season? If yes, how do you like it? I keep forgetting to tune in.
86) Were you surprised that House got canceled? Nope. Never watched a full episode from start to finish.

87) What is your current desktop picture? I've told this story before, and I'll tell it again here:

These
two photos take turns on my desktop, revolving from one into the other,
telling the story of the day in the life of Jacqueline Bouvier Kennedy
Onassis that provides just one example why I admire her so.

These
photos were taken the same afternoon, moments apart, in autumn, 1971.
The photographer who took the first shot and appears in the second shot
is Ron Gallela. He hounded Jackie on a daily basis, dressing up as Santa
Claus to shoot
her while shopping at Christmastime, hiding in coat racks for photos of
her dining and sometimes even smoking (gasp!) with friends, chasing her
in a speed boat while she water skied, following her into movie
theaters, etc. When her children were young they still had Secret
Service protection
and she would ask the agents to, "Please smash his camera," and usually
they would. It got so bad that in 1972, just months after this
incident, she actually took him to court and got a restraining order. I
often wonder what would have happened if Princess Diana had been as
ballsy as JBKO; perhaps she'd still be with us.

Anyway, Jackie
was running a quick errand, crossing Fifth Avenue in front of her
apartment building, when Galella sidled up near her and called her name.
She reflexively turned and smiled. When she saw who it was, and that
this time he had an accomplice with a camera, she simply slipped the
dark glasses on (thereby making the subsequent photos he shot worth a
little less), kept her face impassive and kept going.

She hated
Galella. He was a stalker and he frightened and enraged her. Yet look at
her control. Sure, she could have lost her temper with him (Marlon
Brando literally punched his teeth out), but that would have given
Galella a front-page shot he could have retired on. So she just withdrew
into herself and kept going.

I wear my heart on my sleeve. I have a difficult time with my temper, which often hurts no one else as much as it does me.

I
hope if I gaze at her long enough and remember the story, some of it
will rub off on me. "Remember, Gal, just put on your sunglasses and keep
going."

88) If you could press a button and make anyone in the world instantaneously explode, who would it be? Oh, I don't like this question.

89) What would be a question where you'd not tell the truth? "Do you want to get together?" I really like my alone time, and I've learned that people take it personally when I'd rather just sit home "doing nothing" rather than hang out with them. So I lie.

90) One night you wake up because you heard a noise. You turn on the
light to find that you are surrounded by WEEPING ANGELS. The Weeping
Angles aren't really doing anything, they're just standing around your
bed. What would you do? Pray that I wake up from this dream really quick.

91) You accidentally eat some radioactive vegetables. They were good,
and what's even cooler is that they endow you with the super-power of
your choice! What is that power? I would suddenly burn double calories for every move I make!

92) You can re-live any point of time in your life. The time-span can
only be a half-hour, though. What half-hour of your past would you like
to experience again? I was really in love with a very nice man. We were staying with his sister and had to share a twin bed. It was very uncomfortable and I woke up because he was holding me soooo tight in his sleep. I realized at that moment how happy I was, how easy it felt.

93) You can erase any horrible experience from your past. What will it be? Something ugly happened to me when I was in high school at the hands of a male relative.

94) You have the opportunity to sleep with the music-celebrity of your
choice. (let's say that you are both single and available) Who might it
be? See Question #2. The Boss had me at "Thunder Road."

Isn't it nice to see The Big Man again?

95) You just got a free plane ticket to anywhere. You have to depart right now. Where are you gonna go? Boston. I have been thinking about Boston a lot lately.

96) Do you have any relatives or friends in jail? Nope.

97) Who's winning the U.S. Republican presidential nomination? Why? If it's Romney, it's because people are thinking about their wallets. If it's Santorum, it's because Republicans are afraid of anyone who doesn't think exactly like they do.

98) Who's winning the next U.S. Presidential election? I'd like to be sure it's Obama, but I can understand Romney winning. No way will it be Santorum.

99) If the whole world were listening to you right now, what would you say? "The demonizing and polarization in this country is killing us!"

3 comments:

The polarization (I believe) is being caused by the rich 1% who use Limbaugh and Fox News to demonize. What I don't understand is why the lower middle class buys their crap. I suppose it's like the people who keep buying scratch lottery tickets. Someday they might be rich...