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Open Marriage *edit*

In your honest opinion how do you feel about open marriage? There was a episode on Ricki Lake the other day and I'm still amazed. *On the open marriage aspect I think I should let it be known that these people were already married for about 12 yrs before they started having a open marriage. At that point they had 3 kids and didn't want to get divorced.*

Also would any of you swing with your husband or have a threesome?

I know these are personal questions so if you don't feel comfortable answering feel free to inbox me.

I would never take part in an open marriage. I don't believe in them. I would feel I wasn't enough for my husband. I would leave before consenting to be in one. Threesome NEVER There is no way . That is strictly fantasy material in my world.

Neither of these would work in my marriage. Husband and I are both sexually lazy.
We stopped in the middle of sex once because it was taking too long. If we brought another person into that, we'd both just lay there and wait for orgasms.

We are in a monogoumous relationship. However we both hold the belief that we are capable of loving more than one person without taking something away from the other. We would never "swing" or just have sex with someone just for the physical aspect.

We have talked about the possibility that if we both fell in love with another woman(I am bi), and she with us, it would be something we might explore. But we have no intention on going out and looking. It would have to be a relationship between the 3, not just sex.

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