wozzlem, leave off her. she only posted about alex's 1st day at nursery.not for odd remarks. i think that was unfair of you.

kate, im happy for u that alex had a great day.bet u feel better knowing that he liked it

well done Alex x

Thank you Susan!!!

I cannot beleive a post about my son first day at nursery turned into bitching!!!

What bitching? She was stating a fact. You do always say that he is up late. You said 'he decided to stay up late,' but it's for us parents to make the rules not the children. I think you made it personal about you-not anyone else!

some children just cant get to sleep sometimes and might prefer to stay up late occasionally.
i know my son does but its up to the childs parents no one else

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Fri Oct 26, 2007 10:19 pm

serenas_mummy

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parenting is a individual thing. you have to do what suits your lo and what fits in with ur life style.

trevina ur saying kate made it personal to herself? - she posted about Alex's first day at nursery - she didnt ask for a load of comments about what time he goes to bed!

im not trying to start an argument or anything - just dont like to see ppl being ganged up on - its not fair and its not nice. x

Fri Oct 26, 2007 10:24 pm

Emma CJ

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serenas_mummy wrote:

parenting is a individual thing. you have to do what suits your lo and what fits in with ur life style.

trevina ur saying kate made it personal to herself? - she posted about Alex's first day at nursery - she didnt ask for a load of comments about what time he goes to bed!

im not trying to start an argument or anything - just dont like to see ppl being ganged up on - its not fair and its not nice. x

I completley agree with Serenas mummy - I don't post here very often and it's posts like this that are sometimes the reason - I just don't see why these negative comments were necessary and don't think Kate deserved them at all.

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Fri Oct 26, 2007 10:27 pm

trevina

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serenas_mummy wrote:

parenting is a individual thing. you have to do what suits your lo and what fits in with ur life style.

trevina ur saying kate made it personal to herself? - she posted about Alex's first day at nursery - she didnt ask for a load of comments about what time he goes to bed!

im not trying to start an argument or anything - just dont like to see ppl being ganged up on - its not fair and its not nice. x

When you post your life on here, then it does bring comments. Imo no-one was being horrid-they were giving advice but Kate turned it around onto herselfwhen I feel it wasn't intended like that . Like I just said it's my opinion, but others can have different opinions. I'm not going to get all mardy about it

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Fri Oct 26, 2007 10:27 pm

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i cant see anyone bein ganged up on ..it was the kind of comment that could be pointed out by anyone
including kate herself ..she gets straight to the point usually herself x

When you post your life on here, then it does bring comments. Imo no-one was being horrid-they were giving advice but Kate turned it around onto herselfwhen I feel it wasn't intended like that . Like I just said it's my opinion, but others can have different opinions. I'm not going to get all mardy about it

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Fri Oct 26, 2007 10:30 pm

serenas_mummy

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trevina wrote:

serenas_mummy wrote:

parenting is a individual thing. you have to do what suits your lo and what fits in with ur life style.

trevina ur saying kate made it personal to herself? - she posted about Alex's first day at nursery - she didnt ask for a load of comments about what time he goes to bed!

im not trying to start an argument or anything - just dont like to see ppl being ganged up on - its not fair and its not nice. x

When you post your life on here, then it does bring comments. Imo no-one was being horrid-they were giving advice but Kate turned it around onto herselfwhen I feel it wasn't intended like that . Like I just said it's my opinion, but others can have different opinions. I'm not going to get all mardy about it

of course you are fully entitled to ur opinion, but you do have to be careful that you dont hurt others. i think kate has been quite upset by this post. all she wanted to do was share that she was happy that her son had completed his first day at nursery and seemed to like it. - she didnt ask for any advise on what time he should go to bed. i think we should just let it float off the page now as there is no point in carry on and on about it. x

my kids are put into bed at 7:30 holly falls aleep pretty much straight away but trying to keep the boys in bed is a nightmare sometimes patrick doesn't fall asleep until midnight and he's up and down the stairs all night and daniel until around 11ish and then he's up again at 1am wanting a feed

I think it's unfair to jump on kate because alex went to bed late, just because he fell asleep late doesnt mean that maybe she didn't try to put him down before hand because if that makes her a bad person then i am rotten!!

my kids are put into bed at 7:30 holly falls aleep pretty much straight away but trying to keep the boys in bed is a nightmare sometimes patrick doesn't fall asleep until midnight and he's up and down the stairs all night and daniel until around 11ish and then he's up again at 1am wanting a feed

I think it's unfair to jump on kate because alex went to bed late, just because he fell asleep late doesnt mean that maybe she didn't try to put him down before hand because if that makes her a bad person then i am rotten!!