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Saturday, June 16, 2007

Happy Father's Day

I suppose that today and tomorrow many a blog entry will touch upon this theme. Dad's all over the US must realize that theirs is a second rate holiday. But to me, it's just as important as Mother's Day. So important that I celebrate it two times. First on the 19th of March (St. Joseph's) and then again in June. My dad has been so very important in my life that I could celebrate this day (and Mom's day as well, but I'll leave that for another occasion) every day of the year. Dad has done many things that make me appreciate him, both big and small. The one thing that will always stand out as his greatest attribute is that he was a great role model as a husband. It was thanks to the standard that he set that I ended up with my husband. After many other failed attempts at finding "Mr. Right", what made me decide on D. was not that he was just like my dad, but that I saw him as a loving caring husband and father. By no means perfect, but willing to go that extra step to make things work.Dad always did that. In his relationship with Mom and with his children. Sometimes we didn't understand the why of his actions, especially when they implied not getting what we wanted, but as adults we all see the wisdom of his words. Not once was he wrong. He was never wrong in the things that matter.I could go on and on but really the only things that I want to say to Daddy (yes, I am 42 years old, but he'll always be Daddy) over and over is: Thank you! Lo quiero mucho.And now to all those who are nauseated by cheap sentimentality:STOP READING HERE!

I always hate it when people write song lyrics on blogs. Having said that here is part of the song that I always makes me think of Daddy (and Mom and Jesus):For all the truth that you made me see. (About me and everything and everyone around me)For all the wrong that you made right. (broken hearts, broken spirit, broken car)For all the love I found in you. (and Mom)You're the one who held me up. (when I needed it the most)Never let me fall. (so many times)You saw the best there was in me. (even when I couldn't or wouldn't)Lifted me up when I couldn't reach. (Cookie jar)You gave me faith cause you believed. (thank you for teaching me about Jesus)I'm everything I am, because you loved me. (Thank you)I lost my faith you gave it back to me. (with actions and love)You said no star was out of reach. (it kept me going)I was blessed because I was loved by you. (Thank you)You were always there for me. (Thank you)You've been my inspiration. (and still are)Through the lies, you were the truth. (dime con quien andas y te diré quien eres)My world is a better place because of you. (Thank you! I love you!)