Sunday, May 05, 2013

ArchAngel is No Angel at all

I think I have thrown away more shoes than I’ve kept them –
expensive branded ones, low cost locally made ones, cheap ones from night
markets.

Shoes just hate my bunion-ed, calloused, and skinny feet
with long bony toes.Apart from my Asics
running shoes (and they have to be Asics, not Nike), very few fit well.Most give me blisters – at the heels, at the
ankles, and the toes – anywhere I try to avoid them, that’s where blisters
attack even more.

And so it was with a hopeful heart that I visited the ArchAngel shoe store at Purvis Street.It had been highly recommended by at least
two friends.They are supposed to sell
super comfy shoes, super good-for-your-feet shoes, super ‘’supportive’’ shoes
that are supposed to be ‘’good for you’’.Actually, they are super ugly to me too.

But I am nearing 50 – I don’t need to strut around in
dangerously high stilettos, and even if I fell from wearing them, I doubt I
would fall into the rescuing arms of any tall, dark and handsome (and eligible)
man.Besides, mature women are supposed
to be more poised and self confident and can hold her own (style) – including
ugly shoes, I guess.

What the self righteous woman at the shop did was to condemn
all shoes in the world, except those that are sold at her store.Worse, she made me feel like I’ve been
torturing my feet all my life.The only
way to protect your feet, it seems, is to wear her special pair of sandals at
home: ‘’Don’t you feel pain at your heels when you walk at home?’’ she asked
incredulously.‘’No, why?’’I asked, even more incredulous.‘’The floor is so hard!You must be sooooo lucky you are not in
pain,’’ she declared.I wanted to retort
– for someone who runs marathons, trains almost daily and have had personal
training for 7 years, I know how to take care of my JOINTS and legs, and spine,
and core muscles to support my body, and would not be such a softie that I
would feel pain just walking around at home!

She looked at what I was wearing – a low wedge heel – and
immediately pronounced that it was ‘’very bad’’ because it was ‘’no support in
front’’.I told her I used that for
short distance walking, like walking from the office nearby to her store during
lunch.Usually I would wear flats as I
did not want to stress my calves.‘’Flat
shoes are bad too,’’ she was quick to retort.Yes, yes, I know by now that flat shoes, heels, flip flops, slingbacks,
peeptoes, wedges, stilettos - anything her shop does not sell, are ‘’bad’’.

Then she proceeded to do a few ‘’demo’s and tests’’ by
making me hold my hands in front of me for her to push them down.In so doing, I leaned forward.‘’That, shows your feet are very weak,’’ she
pronounced smugly.Any fool knows that
if you pushed me forward, I would lean forward.In fact, had I resisted and locked my knees, I would have hurt my legs
even more!

If she were really educated about feet and strength, she
would have known that what is ‘’good’’ for you to protect yourself is not just
shoes, but posture, core strength and flexibility – all of which have got
nothing to do with shoes.

And if she were really smart about winning over a
prospective customer, she should really go for a crash course on tact and basic
etiquette.