Know When To Move On

Is It Really Time To Move On?

Now let me explain something to you, Viktor. You can’t go back to Patty. You dropped her and disappeared for five long months. When you go out with a babe, you have to go out with her in a straight run. You can’t date a girl once or twice then disappear for half a year and try to come back. Like my cousin Fast Eddie Love from East L.A. says, “You’re insulting the girl, man.” And in her mind, you’re being disrespectful.

And now she’s turned you down when you asked her out again and she didn’t counter-offer. Which proves what I said about how she feels about you now. Then you went and asked her out again, but she handed you a lame excuse about the holidays. Once again there was no counter-offer. What this all means, dude, is that you’re out.

You might feel like Patty’s still interested in you, guy, but she’s not. You’re the one who’s interested in her because you got rid of Nina. You should have stayed with Patty to begin with and you should have finished what you started with her. But you don’t say why you dropped her. What was it about her that you didn’t dig?

Of course Patty is turned off because you waited half a year to ask her out again — any woman would be. You dissed and insulted her, buddy, like I said. And like I say in my book, you get one shot per girl per lifetime. You had yours.

Patty doesn’t want to go out with you again, so waiting for any gesture from her now is a waste of time. If I were you, I would just forget this girl, throw away her number and chalk it up to your ineptitude. If she happens to contact you, go out with her — but it’s not going to happen. She’s turned you down twice with no counter-offers, so why would she contact you now? Why would she contact you at all?

Remember, guys: when you’re dating a girl and then disappear for five months, you can’t just pick up where you left off.