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my other hand- even though i know i'm using HIM as a booty call, sometimes i feel like i'm just the booty call. like when i call him, majority of the time, he's not able to do it- whether its because it's too late and he wants to 'stay in' (except that he's out with his boys!) or whatever reason.

so annoying!

ETA: not married, not in a relationship. dont wanna be in a relationship. i can support myself and my ONE child. if i end up pregnant (birth control and condoms are being used though!- but i know the chances) i can support that kid too... plus (and i know a lot of females say this) the guy would stick around for the kid. he's great with mine! we've been booty calls to each other for a while now and honestly, i know his family, he knows mine. his family does stuff for my child (christmas presents, birthday presents, invites us to cook outs, etc) and if he has a kid, it'd be his parents first grandchild so they'd be crazy overjoyed.... although tbh, i dont think i'd wanna be there to explain how a baby came about. hah

not married... not in a relationship. not looking for a relationship. i can fully support myself and my ONE child. i dont plan on having any more kids, but if it SHOULD happen, i can fully support that kid too (although i do know the guy and i know he'd stick around).... umm... what else? i think thats it

by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster
on May. 29, 2013 at 11:46 PM

Quoting stargaze281:

you should leave him and be in a real relationship

i dont want a relationship. at all. i've been relationship free for 7 years now- and i plan on staying relationship free for an even longer time. hence my booty call. at this point, i just want sex. lol

by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster
on May. 29, 2013 at 11:47 PM

Quoting phoebe81:

Option C, stop being a skank? :P

but i LIKE being a skank! =)

i just wanna get my boots knocked off! is that so hard to ask for!? hah

if you just want sex, can handle the things that might come with it (pregnancy) then keep him.

I am sensing you do want a bit of relationsahiop from him, however, or you would not be annoyed when he was unavailable (sexually frustrated, yes - searching for a booy caller #2, yes - but annoyed? No)

by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster
on May. 29, 2013 at 11:52 PM

Quoting RadnRem:

Don't be such a girl about it, lol

It's a booty call relationship....you're using each other. I think that's the way they work, right?

but i wanna be used MORE! what guy turns down sex b/c he's out with the boys, or he's too tired?! grr! stupid responsibility! (when he's too tired, it's because he worked 15 hours that day-- which is understandable... but with the boys?!)

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