Serena Williams embraces motherhood — and confronts the ‘biggest challenge’ of her career on the court

On a grey, gloomy Wednesday in Manhattan, Serena Williams was swaddled in bath towels to stay warm in an air-conditioned corner suite on the 41st floor of the Lotte New York Palace Hotel. The room’s normally panoramic view had been obscured by dense fog, making it a challenge to see even across the street.

That seemed an apt metaphor for Williams’ tennis career as she comes back from maternity leave at age 36.

It remains unclear whether she will be able to return to dominance. As she heads to Europe to start her clay-court season, she has played in only two tournaments in 2018, winning two matches and losing two and struggling, understandably, to regain full fitness.

But her personal life is a much clearer, blue-sky matter. She is newly married to Alexis Ohanian, the internet entrepreneur and co-founder of Reddit, and is embracing the challenges of motherhood with their eight-month-old daughter, Olympia.

“We haven’t been apart from each other more than 24 hours, ever,” Williams said of her daughter, whom Williams’ longtime fitness trainer, Mackie Shilstone, calls Baby O.

Williams’ private sphere is about to become much more transparent with the premiere Wednesday of a five-part series on HBO called “Being Serena,” which tracks her pregnancy, her life-threatening postnatal problems and her comeback in unvarnished fashion.

The cameras follow her and Ohanian through some of the most intimate moments of their lives: even into the delivery room during Olympia’s birth by cesarean section as Ohanian murmurs, “So proud of you,” into his wife’s ear. That is only moments before they get their first look at their new “teammate,” Williams’ splayed fingers mirroring Olympia’s outstretched arms with a clear, plastic barrier still separating mother and child. Olympia is soon placed on Williams’ chest and immediately stops crying.

The scene and the series are all the more surprising in light of Williams’ longtime reluctance to share much publicly about her previous relationships, or even acknowledge them.

But she is in a new phase, and she reveals herself with few limits: letting the public see her concerns, her fears, her puffy eyes, her extra pounds, her surgical scar and her sense of humour, which is rarely in evidence when she’s in her fist-clenching, turf-defending mode on the tennis court.

“A lot of people see me on the court, and they only judge and see that side of me, and there’s so much more to my life and to me,” she told me. “That’s not me, actually to be honest, on the court. As much a part of my life as it is, I become a different person when I play tennis. The second I step onto the facilities, the grounds, I become a different person, and the second I step off, I’m back to being Serena, no pun intended.

“So I thought it would be interesting, while we were going through this process, if I just took all the curtains away, and I was just myself.”

Serena Williams poses for a photo at the Lotte New York Palace Hotel in New York on April 25.

A Trophy, and a Baby

Williams said she was the one who initiated the process with the HBO series.

“It was super-organic,” she said. “When I found out I was pregnant, I was saying, ‘I really want to get some footage of me,’ because I remember my dad had all this film when we were younger, all this cool footage, and I wanted to start this journey for Olympia, even though she was the size of a raspberry at the time.”

She shared the thought with her agent, Jill Smoller.

“HBO got wind of it, and they said, ‘We would love to do it for you,’” Williams said. “My original idea was to do more just Olympia stuff, and then I thought if we’re going to do this, let’s go all out.”

Mission accomplished, though some will certainly wonder whether some of this qualifies as oversharing in an era seemingly dedicated to it. But there are scenes of raw emotional power: above all, the moment when Williams has finally left the hospital after being treated for a pulmonary embolism and other blood-clotting issues in the harrowing days after delivery.

As she and Ohanian arrive at their house in Palm Beach Gardens, Fla., Williams emerges from the car, struggling to put one foot in front of the other as she lugs Olympia in a baby carrier with her right hand as if nothing — truly nothing — is going to stop her from reaching the front door.

“I didn’t want to let her go. I don’t want to let her go,” Williams explained to me. “I like to believe, and I would like other people to understand, that I’m no different than anyone else. I have the same struggles a lot of women have had, and a lot of women are probably determined to carry their baby in the door. And a lot of women are determined to do a lot of the stuff that I do, and there’s literally no difference between me and them with the exception of the side of me that just so happens to play professional tennis.”

Her tennis success is, of course, what has brought her a global platform and considerable wealth, along with 23 Grand Slam singles trophies — the most recent of which was won at the 2017 Australian Open when she was two months pregnant with Olympia.

That trophy now sits on a small shelf in Olympia’s room.

“It was definitely my idea because I feel like it’s hers,” Williams said. “It’s sitting in her bedroom, and one day she will understand it, and I hope if we are fortunate enough to have more kids that they won’t be jealous.”

During the HBO series, when Ohanian repositions the trophy as the couple prepares for Olympia’s birth, Williams chides him: “Lex, don’t break it. You’ll never have one.”

In this Jan. 28, 2017, file photo, Serena Williams holds up a finger and her trophy after defeating her sister, Venus, in the women’s singles final at the Australian Open.

After the delivery, as Williams lies in a hospital bed applying makeup and looking into a hand-held mirror, Ohanian asks, “What did you say when someone said that our little girl was going to win Wimbledon in like 15, 20 years?”

Williams, as if on cue, puts the mirror aside and answers, “Not if I’m still on tour!” to which a deeply amused Ohanian responds, “You’re ridiculous.”

There is much more of this banter, and at one stage, Williams expresses surprise that she and Ohanian “are such a good fit.”

“I’m an athlete,” she says. “He’s a business guy. I’m black. He’s white. We are totally opposite. I think we just complement each other. I think we understand hard work in different ways.”

Anyone who has read Richard Williams’ 2014 memoir, “Black and White: The Way I See It,” knows how much resentment he felt about the racism he faced growing up in the American South and how intent he was on preparing his tennis-playing daughters to handle being outsiders in a predominantly white sport. Racist comments that he said he heard at the tournament in Indian Wells, Calif., in 2001 were a big part of the reason Serena and Venus Williams boycotted the event for more than a decade.

I asked Serena, who had dated black men and white men, what message her marriage to Ohanian sent.

“Oh my God,” she said. “Literally all I tell Alexis is, ‘well, you know, there’s such a difference between white people and black people.’ He always gets to hear about the injustices that happen; that wouldn’t happen if I were white. It’s interesting. I never thought I would have married a white guy, either, so it just goes to show you that love truly has no colour, and it just really goes to show me the importance of what love is. And my dad absolutely loves Alexis.”

She added, “Ultimately I wanted to be with someone who treated me nice, someone who was able to laugh with me and someone who understood my life and someone that loved me.

“And you know, I’m sure there’s other people out there,” she said, pausing for effect and then laughing. “But you know, Alexis is the one I connected with, and I wouldn’t have it any other way.”

In the series, as they finally settle into the front seat of their car to leave the hospital, she turns to Ohanian and says, a bit groggily, “I think we should have another baby,” to which Ohanian responds — all too aware of what they went through in the previous days — “Can we at least get home with the first one?”

Williams told me she did not remember her comment until she saw the video. “I must have been crazy,” she said, laughing. “I was clearly on something.”

But she acknowledges, nearly eight months later, that the desire remains strong. “Oh yeah, if I wasn’t wanting to play tennis,” she said, “I definitely would have talked Alexis into having a baby already.”

Serena Williams poses for a photo at the Lotte New York Palace Hotel in New York on April 25.

Reasonable Expectations

Williams’ comeback to tennis has not been without setbacks or indignities. She has needed more time than she expected to drop weight and go deep in tournaments. After her most recent match, an error-strewn first-round loss to Naomi Osaka at the Miami Open, Williams skipped the mandatory post-match news conference, incurring a fine, and headed straight for her car with her bags to drive home.

“I played … obscenity,” she said, pausing and managing to avoid the four-letter option.

“So I just thought after match point, I just thought there’s no need,” she added, referring to the news conference. “Such an easy shot, and I think I almost hit someone in the stands.”

At the memory, Williams started to laugh uproariously, the sound reverberating through the suite. “And the best part was I passed Venus, and Venus looked at me and said, “I get it; oh, I get it,’” she said.

Venus also has declined to speak with the news media on some occasions after painful early-round losses, but Serena, like her big sister, is intent on using the setback for fuel.

“I feel like I set my expectations incredibly high, and I feel like, after Miami, I wanted to get more, not realistic expectations, but more reasonable expectations for me,” Serena Williams said. “And so took some time off and then started training like a lot, lot, lot, lot, lot, lot, lot, lot, lot, lot.”

Williams’ eyes darted back and forth with each “lot” as if she were watching a long baseline rally. Shilstone, her trainer, said he told her after Miami: “Serena, you know how to play tennis. You are just not fit.”

More than five weeks after the Osaka defeat, Shilstone said, Williams’ fitness level is back up to “about 75 per cent” of what it was when she won the 2017 Australian Open.

“Let me tell you, yesterday over at the hotel, we just did over 500 repetitions on the whole body with cords and cables,” he said. “It was unbelievable, 500, and we did it in 45 minutes. Serena says: ‘Mackie, now that I have a baby, I can’t go two hours or whatever. We’ve got to get it done quick.’ And I said, ‘No, we’ve got to get it done smart.’”

Williams has a full-time nanny and is getting considerable child-care help from her mother, Oracene Price. But like many a working parent, Williams said she would like to clone herself, except that at this stage she would need “a clone army” because of her increasingly dense mix of business interests outside tennis.

She and Olympia will soon head to France, where Williams will train at her coach Patrick Mouratoglou’s academy near Nice. She said she was not yet certain to play in the WTA Premier Mandatory event in Madrid, which begins May 5, but is “definitely” playing in Rome the following week and at the French Open, which would be her first Grand Slam tournament since her comeback began.

“I feel like, since Miami, I’ve made a ton of progress, but who knows,” she said. “I’ll have to see when I get out there to play a match. I always have to be ready, but I have to be even more ready because who knows who I can play early, or first or second. So I really have to be super-super-ready, so that’s kind of what I’ve been working on.”

Serena Williams lunges to return a backhand to Kiki Berten during the BNP Paribas Open on March 10.

Williams has a protected ranking of No. 1 that guarantees her entry into tournaments. But just like players returning from long-term injuries, she does not have a protected seeding that would help her avoid playing high-ranked players in early rounds. There has been a push within the WTA to reconsider that rule for players returning from pregnancy. Williams is in favour of protected seedings, arguing that women should not be discouraged from having families during their careers.

“I think it’s more of a protection for women to have a life,” Williams said. “You shouldn’t have to wait to have a baby until you retire. If you want to have a baby and take a few months off or a year off and then come back, you shouldn’t have to be penalized for that. Pregnancy is not an injury.”

It certainly has cost Williams physically, though. She calls this comeback “the biggest challenge” of her career.

“I never felt winded like that,” she said of her early practice sessions. “And it felt like no matter what I do, the weight is taking forever to get off, and it was crazy. Finally I was able to get better, but it took forever.”

Ion Tiriac, the owner of the Madrid tournament, where Williams is likely to play next, referred to her weight when asked about Williams and the state of the women’s game in a recent interview with Sport Bild, a German publication.

“With all due respect, 36 years old and 90 kilograms,” or 198 pounds, Tiriac said, adding that he wished women’s tennis had more headliners.

“I always say people are entitled to their opinion,” said Williams, a two-time champion in Madrid, after being informed of the comment. “Clearly there’s more to women’s tennis than me. There’s a lot more, but I’ll have words with him, believe me, I’ll have words with him. It’s an ignorant comment, and it’s a sexist comment, and maybe he’s an ignorant man.”

Asked why it had been so difficult to drop weight, Williams attributed it to her continuing to breast-feed. She had decided to stop this month, but she was instructed by doctors to continue because she had developed mastitis, an infection of the breast tissue caused in her case by the plugging of the milk ducts. The infection contributed to her practising little between her third-round loss to Venus Williams in Indian Wells and her match with Osaka in Miami.

“Apparently 10 per cent of women get it,” Serena Williams said. “So you have to continue to pump and feed until it clears.”

Consider that yet another challenge for Williams, who has been through so many of them in her 23-year professional career and yet still claims to thrive on them. She maintains that next season, not this season, will be the right time to judge where her tennis truly is. Whenever the end of her career comes, she wants a big-bang finish.

“Eventually I’m going to have to drop that mic, and I would like for it to be a mic drop moment,” she said.

Winning the 2017 Australian Open with Olympia along for the ride would, of course, have been an excellent one.

“It could have been the one,” Williams said, the fog still obscuring the view of the Manhattan skyline. “But I’m still here, still playing.”