re: Teen turns in librarian whose flirting went too farPosted by Darth_Vader on 1/29/13 at 3:27 pm to GeauxSTATE

quote:Did you read the article???

Yes, I did

quote:The kid damn near initiated it. There is no victim here. Especially not a 16 year old boy/man. If anyone is the victim its her for being misled and set up, lol.

and this is why I said this may be different for this 16 yr old than for other boys who are in similar situations.

quote:I think you have a point when it comes to cases where it is forced upon a kid, but this is clearly not one of them.

Thank you. That was the point of all this. We have these threads on here all the time and the reaction is always the same, no matter what age the boy is. Post after post of how he was "lucky" or how they wish it had happened to them. It is this attitude that has allowed this type of thing go on almost unnoticed for decades. Well not all of the boys are lucky and there are real consequences, issues, and scars these boys live with the rest of their life as a result of what was done to them by women like this. I just want people to start realizing this. Because until this type of thing is viewed by the general public as something repugnant (which it is) then it will never get any better. Thankfully, attitudes are starting to shift on this issue but we've got a long way to go.

quote:The kid was sending her dick pics and inviting her over to his house. He told her to purchase condoms. I don't think any of Jerry's victims asked him to buy condoms.

He sent her a dick pic from the internet. He only asked her to buy condoms b/c the cops told him too, geeze, you never seen to catch a predator. Bringing alcohol or condoms when asked by the "victim" is a sign of intent to have sex or something like that. But i still agree he did a lot of initiating and talk and is a puss for turning her in and will most likely have to change schools, or the rest of the guys at the school are gay as well if they don't rag the hell out of him.