Vagina is a very gentle flower, it needs a very delicate touch to create in it a very powerful energy. Yes, the gentle touch creates a very powerful energy of arousal in vagina, but rough, fast and hard touch kills the energy in that flower. A woman can get…

One of the big mistakes in understanding human sexuality is that most people, including professional institutions, do not see human sexuality as an art requiring a skill which we all need to learn. Most people think that they have to have desire for sex so call libido the same way…

Men have a very strong desire to touch a woman. This is the man’s nature. There is nothing wrong with that. What is wrong is their attitude to women. And as the result of that, the quality of the male touch is often not pleasant for women. Men often do…

Grief... Somebody from the close family has died. Most couples would avoid sexual contact for many days or even months after the tragedy has happened. They would let sad emotions dominate over their life and over their love. "How is it possible to have sex, when the grief is there?"…

One of my blog readers has sent me a message: “Indeed... Women are flowers of life… Thank you for the insights. What do you think of women who say they want 'a ready man' who already knows how to please them?” What do I think of women like that? I…

Most men and women believe that in order to be considered as a good lovers they need only to know how to bring their partners to orgasm. That simple orientations brings many couples to the point when they feel worry about their ability and energy capacity to achieve orgasm themselves…

A lot of men believe that they are very tactile and sensual. 'I love touching a woman's body', many men would say. Yet, they do not consider that they also have to be present with their women but not live in their own fantasies about touching a female body. A…

Very often people hesitate to come and to see me in fear of what they might find about themselves or about each other of they are couples as most people never talk to anyone about how they feel in sex. Most people do not understand that sex cannot be…