I love living my life, whether through strong friendships or relationships. I like to keep active through dragonboating or watersports. I like a challenge and overcome because it builds character. Moving to new cities and having to start over is just one challenge. This has strengthened me and given me confidence. I don't settle for second best in myself nor do I expect it in any of my relationships. I love to experience the positive side of making an impact on a person's life whether saying HI or cracking a joke or simply doing something that makes a person feel better. I strongly feel that what goes around comes around and why be bitter? We all have choices and we chose to be negative or positive.

Other interests

Amateur Theatre, Burlesque, Jazzercise, Zumba

What I'm looking for

A person that is flexible and communicative. Takes care of themselves both physically and emotionally. It is not my job to help change a person to make them a better person, it is up to them to make the difference in their own lives. I like a person who is active in the community such as volunteering, that shows character. I don't make excuses for negative things that have happened to me nor do I expect that to be in any of my partnerships!! Living in the past is not the way to live in the present or the way so spend your future. So to speak I am an optimist , life gives us lessons to learn from. I love when a person can be authentic with me but I will ultimately chose to have this person in my life or not. Keep in mind I will be as authentic with that person as what they give me in return.