Success!

How many times have you been confused for an extrovert? This is common for the INFJ personality. Not just because we thrive on having meaningful connections, but also because when an INFJ opens up, you get this other side of us not many have the chance to see. Our...

The end of the year is a scary time for INFJs. We are bombarded from all sides with participating in social events, endless small talk, mingling with large crowds of people, and facing constant pressure not to be party poopers. No wonder we enter the New Year tired,...

Oh, HELL NO! That’s what I feel like saying a lot during this time of year. But somehow I always get sucked into the madness. I do things that leave me frazzled and overwhelmed. But as a fellow introvert, I think you’ll understand that it’s not entirely my fault. You...

I’m writing to you from bed today. Mainly because it’s the weekend and because I can. I'm sharing another strange little introvertism I hope you’ll be able to relate to. It has to do with going out to eat or run errands. Allow me to explain with a quick reference no...

If you’re an HSP, empath INFJ like me, then you know how overwhelming winter can be. Sure, it has certain charms. But combine the pressure of socializing, constant cold, and depressing weather, and it’s no wonder this is a time of year many of us want to fast-forward...

Dating as an introvert has its own unique challenges. You have different needs than extroverts, and nowhere is this more obvious than when it comes to romance and dating. As an introvert, you function best in intimate environments, as a lack of solitude can drain you....

Have you ever bumped into someone you know at the worst possible time? For introverts, this scenario can be pretty awkward. The thing is, we introverts like to mentally prepare before socializing. We’re not always ‘on’, as many extroverts tend to be. If we’re not...

I hear from a lot of introvert readers who say that they struggle to allow in love. I’m not just talking about romantic love. Many introverts find it hard to let any kind of love in, even from friends and family. After all, when introverts are stressed or feeling down...

This little introvert comic by Zora Jeong makes me LOL. People always associate the holidays with parties and non-stop socializing. But for introverts, some of the most blissful moments of the holidays are spent alone, cozy in our home. Rarely bored alone, we find...

Until the age of twenty-four, I had only vacationed with family or friends. The thought of ever traveling on my own terrified me. I was scared of missing flights and getting lost. I was even scared that I wouldn’t make the most of it, and that would somehow constitute...