A Gentleman Always Gets The Ladies

some men are pigs

Every day, we witness men who disrespect women. Some men whistle at them like hound dogs, others grope women on the dance floor in order to satisfy some sort of human need for physical contact, while other men curse at women once they realize that they're being given the cold shoulder.

It is these reckless men who give the rest of us a bad reputation and make it more difficult for us to interact with women. So don't be surprised if a woman says, "Get lost jerk!" when you say, "Hi." Keep in mind that she has likely been disrespected by a few drooling men before you came along.

breath of fresh air

"I have never allowed my duty as a gentleman to interfere with my pleasure in the slightest degree." &nbsp&nbsp - Oscar Wilde, The Importance of Being Earnest

Of course, the most successful players know better. They're aware that being a perfect gentleman will not hinder their chances of seducing beautiful women. Au contraire; for women, it is a breath of fresh air that will only help you charm their pants off.

Acting like the perfect gentleman doesn't involve letting women walk all over you, putting anyone else above yourself or even being a nice guy.

The Player's definition of being a gentleman means that you should treat all women — including the bimbos — with equal respect in order to achieve your ultimate desire: To bed as many women as possible. Why else would you be a gentleman?

Okay, so some people might argue that one should be a gentleman because he wants to and not because he has something to gain. But come on; doing something for nothing? To that I say rubbish; that way of thinking is old and chauvinistic.

You see, in the old days men were noble because they believed that women were inferior and fragile, and thus such righteous acts were necessary. Fortunately, women have made it pretty clear that they don't need our charity and they'd very much like to be treated as equals. So why should we be chivalrous if there is absolutely nothing to gain from it?

important rule of a gentleman

The most important rule when it comes to acting like a perfect gentleman is that you do so with all women. Why would you treat women that you dislike with respect, you ask?

Well, by being a perfect gentleman with all the ladies, you'll be convincing the ones that you are attracted to that your kind gestures come with good intentions and not ulterior motives. And in order to be perceived as a gentleman, one must display such behavior at all times, not only with those he likes. Otherwise, they'll think you're just putting on an act.

Here are a few helpful tips that will help convince women that you're a true gentleman:

Do not get angry Every time you get angry, you're showing the women around you that you don't have a handle on your emotions. Always control your temper and avoid swearing at all costs.

Always be courteous Whether or not you succeeded in getting her digits, it is important to always be polite. This demonstrates that you're a better man, plus you won't scare away other women who may possibly be interested in you.