Let’s talk about; choosing the right person If you want a healthy relationship, you don’t choose based on physical attractiveness or how they “make...

Let’s talk about; choosing the right person

If you want a healthy relationship, you don’t choose based on physical attractiveness or how they “make you feel.” You don’t choose based on some set of interests and characteristics (“must be tall,” “favorite food: Toast bread and tea.”)

Some others want some sort of compatibility. Like seriously?If love is an act, then love is an investment of time and attention, our most valuable things in life.
Emotional health is the indicator of the ROI of love. If you genuinely love an unstable person, you’re only pouring it down the drain. He is not even sure if he loved you in the first place, but when he saw you at the dinner party he was consumed by his passion and thinks he loves you.

You don’t just pick somebody, No! You find that special person.

So find someone who is self-loving, deserving of your love and will return it and meet your needs.

Most importantly, find that one person that has the potential (the ability) to partner with you in achieving your preferred life purpose.