1. Do you think that acting out a fantasy can sometimes cause damage to a relationship?

In my opinion, it can only get better! As long as you still have something to fantasize about because if you did it all, what would there be left?

2. Some couples role play their fantasies rather than introducing another person into the relationship to live out their fantasies. Do you think that this is an acceptable substitute?

Did you read this blog? Yeah? No? Well let me tell you that I find either fun.Role play? Hell yeah! Another person? Yes please!

3. Is there a particular movie or TV series or character from a movie or TV series that you fantasize about?

Oooh wel I have quite a few, one of my favorites is this guy though:

As you might have thought, I have a total soft spot for geeks and nerds!And among those is Matthew Gray Gubler, if you don’t know him, you should, he’s awesome!

4. Apart from the obvious things like child abuse, are there some things that are ‘off limits’ for a fantasy e.g. incest fantasies, age play, rape fantasies. Why/ why not?

Well I’d say with fantasies the sky is the limit, but of course things that aren’t legal and socially unacceptable like child molesting is certainly out of the picture for me. But age play, rape fantasies, as long as they are fantasies…. or with consent 😉

5. What is the most taboo thing you have ever fantasized about doing?

*thinks* Mmmm this is an interesting one, I most certainly have to say kidnapping and rape are at the top there. But of course with consent, not actual kidnapping or rape. Wouldn’t want you lot to get the wrong ideas of course 😉But the real question is of course then, who would be the kidnapper and who would be kidnapped? I will let you guys think about that one on your own!

6. Tell us about a fantasy that you have that you don’t ever see yourself actually acting out. Why do you think you will never act it out?

*points to the answer above* Ooh I’m a shy person, did I mention that. And less kinky then people seem to think! I’m pretty boring actually, no really! *looks very innocent*

7. Have you ever pretended the person you were having sex with was someone else without telling them?

Trust me I tried, having an ADD brain doesn’t make that one easy though! Concentrating is already hard as it is!

8. Have you ever tried to make a fantasy a reality only to have it fail miserably? What happened?

Not that I can think off, I’ll just mention laughing attacks while having sex instead. Total mood killer, especially if you can’t stop laughing!

Bonus: Tell us about your most cherished fantasy. Did you ever live it out? Please give us all the juicy details because that is the kind of people we are.

Oh this is an interesting one..Well I did share some fantasies before here like The desk and What if?I’ve got a dirty mind, and a lot of fantasies…..maybe you’re in it next?

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1. Have you ever had sex with someone famous or who later became famous, if only locally?

I suppose yes on this one, totally had sex with someone in a band. Not sure if they got really famous though. But in my eyes, if you have a CD released and people actually buy it, you’re somewhat famous.

2. In the spirit of Six Degrees of Separation, have you had sex with someone who had sex with someone who had sex with someone who . . . someone famous?

How the hell are you supposed to know that? I’m sure everything is possible with the Six Degrees of Separation! 😉 With the normal degrees I would get to a Hollywood actor with just one guy in between. Unlikely that the one guy had sex with the other though, being family and all…

3. In the opposite direction, have you had sex with someone whose name you didn’t know?

*thinks* Does having sex with somebody who didn’t give you their real name count?

4. Someone whose name you knew then but have forgotten?

Sadly, no. I do remember everything! Oh wait I do not remember one! *pondering* Yup really don’t know his name anymore!

1. If your lover was turned on by forced feminization would you participate (giving or receiving)?
*forced feminization is the practice of enforcing activities on a male, which are typically associated with women, to make him submissive. For example: wearing lingerie, heels, make-up.

Sure I would, who would I be to deny that pleasure? Of course I have my limits but with that I wouldn’t have any problems.

2. When you have sexual dreams or fantasies that are aggressive or cruel, does it worry you?

I barely have sexual dreams but if I have them they are just really hot and I don’t care about anything. With fantasies it wouldn’t worry me too much either, that’s why they are fantasies!

3. Tell us your hottest filthiest fantasy, right now, in 100 words or less. This is the fantasy about your desires that you probably never share, maybe they even go against your morals, or are societal taboos.

*thinking* Oh dammit I just have too many so I’ll just pick one that I will share….

A dark quiet alley, 2 guys, me by myself……. I am sure you can fill in the rest 😉

4. Which super hero would you like to have sex with? Why?a. Aquamanb. Supermanc. Wonder Womand. She-Ra

I would have to go with Wonder Woman, tall, sexy, who wouldn’t?

5. Knowing there’s a hot young couple in the adjoining hotel room, would you press your ear against the wall to hear the action on the other side?

Well obviously: Of course!

6. Do you think the lure to live out sexual fantasies or have sex frequently is amplified by technology? Briefly explain.

Interesting and as you know, if you can think of it, there is porn of it. No exceptions. Seriously. And yes of course technology helps with that!

1. What is your sexual personality?
a. The Controller – initiating sex, twisting your lover into positions you want, and driving scene play by play
b. Sex Slave – You love to be used and at the mercy of your lover. You don’t initiate but follow and do as you are told. You love to be used.
c. Daredevil – Sexual adventure and sexual thrills are what you are all about. You get off on the risk factor.
d. Subdued – Sex is a necessary part of the relationship so you are available when needed.

Oh this is a tricky one, I’d say all of them and more options. I like to play and mix things up, that’s the most fun for me (and for the other)

2. How many times have you sneaked away from party guests to have sex in another part of the party venue. Where did you sneak to? Were you ever caught? For example, at a wedding reception you sneaked to have sex in the coat room. At a party, you sneaked to have sex in a bathroom or closet.

This might be hard to believe but I never did such a thing! Would be a lot of fun I think, under the right circumstances!

3. Your sex partner that you are mad crazy for has requested you do one of the following, which one would you grant consent to do:
a. Bondage/light restraint with your hands, legs tied while having sex
b. A sexual spanking that leaves light marks
c. Record the two of you having sex
d. Have sex in a mirrored room where you can see yourselves having sex from every angle

Seriously? All of the above wouldn’t be a problem at all. Of course C. I would only do with my boyfriend, I do have pictures… But anyway video I might do, but just with my boyfriend. But the special mention is here for A and B, yum.

4. Do you act out your sexual fantasies (select one)? Why?
a. I act out all of my fantasies.
b. I act out many of my fantasies.
c. I act out some of my fantasies.
d. I act out very few of my fantasies.
e. I don’t act out any of my fantasies.
f. I don’t have any fantasies.

I do try to go for A, slowly working my way through all the fantasies I have but some would be more difficult then others.

5. How important is sex in your life (select one)?
a. I could hardly survive without it.
b. It is very important.
c. It is somewhat important.
d. I could live without it.
e. If it were up to me, sex wouldn’t even exist!

My sex life is pretty important but not the only thing in my life. I can go without pretty long but I do start to miss it after a while. Sometimes I just get a case of the hornies and I am unstoppable and sometimes I just don’t feel like it. But yes, it is important to me in a way, a healthy sex life is very important to me.

Have you ever shared sleeping accommodations with someone of the opposite sex without anything steamy happening?

Not only it depends on what you would call steamy, also would depend on what you would define sleeping accommodations. With a study trip I slept in a room with 30 other people and nothing steamy happened (at least as far as I know). Of course it also depends on when something steamy would happen. I’ve slept in the same bed with a guy several times without anything steamy happening but I’m guessing that he’s gay doesn’t count as a fair game. But I did sleep over at a guy his place and make out in the morning (after a night of not anything happening)

When it comes to swinging or partner swapping, which would excite you more, watching or being watched?

Both! Since I did both and both is a lot of fun. And being watched you don’t really pay attention to it all (especially when you’re on your back on a table)

Would you vote for a candidate caught in a sex scandal?

Easy, why not? Sex is one of the most humanly common things in the world!

Do you masturbate to porn, and if so, what is your favorite genre?

Usually when masturbating I do have some kind of porn, mostly written or video’s. The genre can be a lot of things, usually it’s something with a girl tied up ( or a guy, yes I got some interest in that too 😉 ) And if somebody is tied up there always is someone to take advantage of that of course. Pretty much anything with somebody tied up and being taken qualifies for me to look at it. But that does not mean that is the only porn I watch.

What are three mistakes someone could make on the first date with you that would automatically make you turn down a second date with them?

Hmmm that’s a little tricky think of but generally if somebody just is plain rude that certainly is a turn down. Insulting me or somebody who is my friend also is a pretty bad move. Just talking about yourself is also a bad sign for me. Girls usually like to talk, so let them! Thinking about second dates I don’t think I really did turn somebody down for a second date. But we don’t have the real dating culture going on, it usually just happens.

Bonus: Is your sex drive in park, neutral or over-drive. Explain.

Mine is more in over-drive than in neutral these days. I usually can keep myself from being too much in over-drive but once I got something in my head it’s hard not to think about anything sexual.