When Gulaal/Nirja entered Kesar's life she was 18 (more sensible) and Kesar 12, in his adoloscense. How can an 18 yr old teenaged girl can develop motherly feelings for a 12 yr old boy, ok if it were an 8-10 yr old gulaal nursing an infant kesar then it was ok if any one say gulaal has motherly feelings for kesar but here things are not like that unlike the novel where Rano a 17 yr old girl who nursed and lulled a 2 yr old boy whose relationship wuold definitely tagged as mother-son, which is not posible in the case of Gulsar nor agewise,relation wise or not even from the bond they shares, it is hardly a mother-son type. Gulaal was almost like a "dream girl" of his. Gulaal had a friendly relationship with Kesar in the begining and it grew to a deep rooted affection later partly as she learns Kesar as her most dear ones(vasanth's) passion and dream and partly of that untitled eternal bond that Gulsar shares themselves. When Vasanth died kesar's dream (Gulaal) became his only life and support.

As of now Kesar and Gulaal both are adults and Gulaal still in her youth if the above age classification is correct and her behaviour wise also she portraiys a young lady that is with in her and that which really she is which is clearly evident in the scenes at the mango orchards, the way she enoys herself dressing up by singing, the way she adores wearing those green bangles, the way she terribly misses her husband esp when she is alone, all these states the proof,

Gulaal doesnt consider Kesar as a kid. There are many scenes that proves this.

1. Her inner turmoils are reflected in her face whenever JK refers Gulsar as Pathi-Pathni, if she is ignoring the fact as she says, she need not to be so tensed and thought ful.

2. The pallu scene at the terrace.

3. Her sudden nervousness and hesitations whenever she finds kesar looking at her mersmerised.

She is not willing to accept Kesar as her husband, coz she considers Vasanth as her whole life and she wants to live her entire life as his widow/wife. But deep in her heart she is deeply wounded badly missing that love and care that she often break in to sobs and the only one who can cure her is Kesar himself with his unconditional intense exclusive love for her.

Lhethal.MeIF-Sizzlerz

12 n 18...No mother-child in der!!! Hope everone reads der...@ TM can u plz enlarge How can an 18 yr old teenaged girl can develop
motherly feelings for a 12 yr old boy, ok if it were an 8-10 yr old
gulaal nursing an infant kesar then it was ok if any one say gulaal has
motherly feelings for kesar

mystikalGroupbie

i thin kesar was arnd 12 n gulaal arnd 22 wen dey first met as devar bhaabhi.yu r rit in saying dat der cant be any mother -son relation between dem .but gulaal has always been too mature fr her age.evn wen she was nly 22 she behaved lik a mature woman n dats reflected in da way she tuk care of vasants family at dat young age aftr hz death.

now da situation z totally different though at first meeting aftr 10 yrs gap gulaal still showed sm motherly attitude towards kesar by getting so emotional 2 see a grwn up kesar but in da cuming tym she vry well understud dat things have changed altoghtr n dats why shz getting so nervous in kesars presence wen derz no pallu on her head.

alantaIF-Dazzler

I wrote gulaal as 18 yr old coz I read it in FBs article on gulaal/Nirja where she goes through different facets of life(Radha,Sita,...) and 18 sounds more reasonable as she was an unmarried villiage girl when kesar first met her and it was shown like she has got married in the right age(as for villiagers the right age for marriage is 17,18 but doesnt exceeds 19, this is evident when it comes to the case of Rewa, where she was only 19 and family members were getting tensed as her marriage was not getting set in the right time and the earlier proposals were broken.

IncenseIF-Sizzlerz

nice post dear ! well its all about perception sometimes women at 18 year consider their young relatives as their son or daughter...like paro and bandini who was married at 18 year and consider their son and daughters elder to them as their son./daughters...but as i say its perception ...the most imp thing as reemz said no mother in this world can marry his son...gulaal did deeyarvatu that means she doesnt consider kesar as her son and after marriage motherly feeling is impossible

LennieIF-Stunnerz

Bottomline is KG have a bond, which is beyond everything and no they arent mother/son coz i never saw it that way, maybe the elder relations did coz Gulaal was a person who did everything for him and Kesar centered his life around her

This show and KG is so layered, that you need to see it, feel it and understand it, to get the KG bond

We can keep talking about the age gap and so on, but storywise if you follow it and KG scene even from the past before the leap, you will see its a bond beyond everything else

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