What PR Professionals Can Learn from Dating Sites

While
blogger/PR types are just now fumbling around, trying to find
a way to turn a buck on relationships without cheapening what they do, dating sites are
wildly popular. Jut take a look at this link, and you'll see there are many more than the one or two known names. So popular,
they're making money -- either from subscriptions, or from advertising. Lots.

What, then, can public relations professionals learn from dating sites?

Clarity of Intent -- Dating sites aren't about starting
"conversations." Nor is the role of the middleman ambiguous. For all
parties, it's all about the end result. Members want a date. The dating
site wants your subscription money (or ad revenues, depending on their
business model). The selling proposition -- both for the romantic
parties and the dating site -- is efficient and honest.

It's about people, not numbers -- There are no follower counts on dating sites. Authority derives entirely from the quality of a member's character, and how well they express themselves.

Tell your story, or sit at home, alone -- On a dating service, you can't just list a screen name and expect someone to contact you. What are you about? Why should someone bother to say hello? You're more than just a name. Show people who you are.

Only profiles with pictures need respond -- You see this on dating sites all the time. People want to know who they're really talking to -- and nobody speaks to companies. They engage with real people. When you chat online with a company like Dell, you're talking to someone like Richard. Put faces on your public-facing contacts, and don't hide behind an agency name.

Profiles are opt-in -- The sites are designed around pulling interest from individuals about individuals, not sending unwanted information into dozens of email accounts en masse.

Simplicity rules -- All dating sites are basically the same.
You choose a screen name, post a picture, and construct a profile. Then you browse the profiles of those who have done likewise. When you see someone interesting, you say hello -- and maybe good things follow. Is your outreach this simple, or are you fencing your company with too-clever titles, features, and choices?

Repeat business depends on disclosure -- Put some spin in your
profile, and you might get a date. But if it's not accurate, there
won't be a second. Transparency serves both parties.

Connection depends on real interest -- Everyone participating understands that match making happens on the basis of mutual interest and develops over time.

I'd like to see PR professionals behave less like marketers and put more love in what they do. There are many ways to measure PR efforts and correlation to business value. Many more than their direct response colleagues can even grasp.

Now if only they can get back to understanding the simple principles that stand behind successful dating sites -- emotional connection, story telling, simplicity, disclosure, transparency -- they can bank on greater results with social networks. After all, they are in the relationship business, or so they say.

This helps me to take time to get to know people. I am just started PR work and I want to get all the numbers I can. I will just take one step at a time and do the best for my current client. John Lim For Governor (Oregon)

Funny, I've just done the copy for a Swedish dating site called Singalo. It was a learning experience writing for an audience like that because you have to put the absolute focus on people and connections.

What's more, it has to be meaningful and not cheesy or people won't stick around.