Grief & Loss

For all our babies xxx

katymumto3 wrote:

Had to post this (To all of our babies) I thought of you and closed my eyes And prayed to God today I asked " What makes a Mother? And I know I heard Him say "A Mother has a baby This we know is true" But God can you be a Mother, When your baby's not with you? "Yes, you can," He replied, With confidence in His voice When they leave is not their choice Some I send for a lifetime And others for the day And some I send to feel your womb But there's no need to stay. "I just don't understand this God, I want my baby to be here. He took a deep breath and cleared His throat And then I saw the tear. "I wish I could show you What your child is doing today If you could see your child's smile With all the other children and say.. "We go to Earth to learn our lessons Of love and life and fear My Mommy loved me oh so much I got to come straight here I feel so lucky to have a Mom Who had so much love for me I learned my lessons very quickly My Mommy set me free I miss my Mommy oh so much But I visit her every day When she goes to sleep On her pillow's where I lay I stroke here hair and kiss her cheek And whisper in her ear Mommy don't be sad today I'm your baby and I'm here" "So you see my dear sweet ones your children are okay Your babies are born here in My home And this is where they'll stay They'll wait for you with Me Until your lesson's through And on the day that you come home They'll be at the gates for you So now you see what makes a Mother, It's the feeling in your heart It's the love you had so much of right from the very start Though some on earth may not realize you are a Mother until their time is done They'll be up here with Me one day and know that you are the best one!

@katymumto3 Thank you! It's just so hard after trying so long and then to be happy for that short amount of time and then for my sweet little one be taken away again. I'm sure it will get easier. Things won't ever be the same I know that for sure!

@katymumto3 Thanks for this. Today my little ones would have turned 1 and it's still hard to deal with the fact that they are gone. I will always be their momma but most people don't understand that. This made it a little more bearable today.

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