Sometimes, depending on who my girlfriend is, I will share. You never know when your significant other will be up to fulfilling those naughty desires. Make sure you know how your partner might react though before bringing them up.

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11/20/2013

DirtyBoy

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Originally posted by
Billie Bones

I know there are some parts of my sexuality that I want to keep all to myself. I'm curious if other people feel the same way.

I share them all...eventually. Sometimes you have to pick the right moment to share. Emotions are huge with how a woman will handle the desire/fantasy.

I'm with shotgun93 and DirtyBoy. It's great when your SO is willing to fulfill those treasured desires. And you need to have an inkling before suggesting/hinting them. And until then like DirtyBoy.. eventually. Hit it on the nose about right moment and emotions huge on how it will be handled.

I know there are some parts of my sexuality that I want to keep all to myself. I'm curious if other people feel the same way.

I'm with shotgun93 and DirtyBoy on this one too. Eventually, I will share all my fantasies/desires/etc with my partners but it's all about timing. I want to make sure that I can completely trust my partner before sharing some of my darker desires especially. But sharing is more fun because, like Foxy Funk said, when you share your fantasies, those fantasies tend to become realities.

I debated this for a long time with my gf and finally decided that I would take a chance, knowing that it could freak her out. I told her that I fantasized about giving a guy oral and having a 3some with her. She actually found it kind of sexy and we had some really hot sex sessions based off of it. We talked about it often and it would completely turn us on. Wish we could get back to those days but ithat's another story.

I share very selectively. My partner is kinda weirded out by some of my preferences so its always a decision on what to share. Wish i could be completely open with her, but that's another discussion for another day.

I don't have fantasies really or secrets about my sexuality. If I want to try something new, I simply say it, do it or hint around until it's clear. It really depends on what the situation is, as to how I go about making my wants known.

That said, I've been with my Husband for 16 years....there's no need for secrets and certainly no need to feel weird about sharing desires.

I know there are some parts of my sexuality that I want to keep all to myself. I'm curious if other people feel the same way.

We have a clear cut agreement. Anything either one of us wants to try, so long as it is just between the two of us, is a green light "go". In fact, we agreed ahead of time that it is a "twice go", since you may not like something the first time or do it well, so you cannot rule it out without trying it at least twice. We have yet to find any fantasy the other has, something we didn't want to try again. We both enjoy making the other as happy as possible, and that applies in and out of the bedroom.

We have a clear cut agreement. Anything either one of us wants to try, so long as it is just between the two of us, is a green light "go". In fact, we agreed ahead of time that it is a "twice go", since you may not like something
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We have a clear cut agreement. Anything either one of us wants to try, so long as it is just between the two of us, is a green light "go". In fact, we agreed ahead of time that it is a "twice go", since you may not like something the first time or do it well, so you cannot rule it out without trying it at least twice. We have yet to find any fantasy the other has, something we didn't want to try again. We both enjoy making the other as happy as possible, and that applies in and out of the bedroom.