1.The empath enters the relationship wanting deep, unconditional love. The empath is attracted to the narcissist, and feels their need for affection is being met even if the narcissist isn’t doing anything to develop the connection. The empath feels fulfilled and “in love” just from being around them.

2.The empath begins to believe that they have a “once in a lifetime” kind of connection with the narcissist, and the narcissist affirms it – what they have is special. This is what makes it seem impossible to just walk away.

3. The narcissist can, at times, seem to want the relationship as much as the empath does. In reality, the narcissist wants nothing but constant validation, and someone who is always willing to give it is a perfect match.

4. Over time, the empath will be made to feel incompetent. Even if not stated directly, the narcissist will imply that they have the power by saying they “don’t want to hurt” them, or by looking down on their interests, or maybe not letting them handle the day-to-day bills or anything else that’s a symbol of control. This will leave the empath feeling reliant on the narcissist, believing that they “need” them, or at least that nobody else would want them.

5. As their bond grows, the empath will find it unbearable to see the narcissist in any kind of pain. They will want nothing more than to talk to them, help them, cheer them up… do whatever it takes so they can feel better again. They subconsciously want to “fix” the narcissist, or at least change their lives.

6. What the empath does not realize is that the feeling or idea of healing their partner’s deepest, most unresolvable wounds, feels the same to them as healing their own. However, it is not the same thing.

7. Somewhere along the line, the empath begins to feel afraid to advocate for their true needs – it is more appealing to them to remain more likable (but secretly less happy).

8. The more love, care, devotion, affection and work the empath puts into making the relationship work, the more powerful the narcissist becomes. At this point, it can be difficult to see that there are any real issues in the relationship… that is, until the empath reaches their breaking point.

9. Eventually, the empath begins to adopt the traits of the narcissist. Because their emotional needs are not being met (and they’ve been confusing their partner’s emotional needs with their own) they start to seem “selfish,” or at least predominantly concerned with their own well-being. They are essentially declaring: “My feelings matter,” and the narcissist does not like this.

10. What neither party realizes at this point is that the narcissist’s needs will never actually be met (that is, until *they* wake up and choose to meet them). They will move on to other partners, other hobbies, other big business ideas and creative pursuits, travels across the world… and they’ll still be as miserable as ever.

11. The narcissist will make the empath feel “crazy” for responding the way they are. They will say they are being over-dramatic, and that their concerns are unfounded. This kind of dismissal is the most obvious way they exert power and mind-control over the empath.

12. The empath begins to blame themselves. They start to wonder if they’ll ever be worthy of love, or what it is they did that got them into such a horrible situation.

13. What the empath does not realize is that there’s nothing *wrong* with them, there’s something exceptionally *right* with them, they were just manipulated and used and lied to. They have a feeling capacity that outshines many other people’s – this isn’t a bad thing, it’s just something that must be protected.

14. Even if the empath tries to communicate authentically with the narcissist, it will be to no avail. They will be deflective and use shoddy logic, they’ll make excuses and find ways to pass the blame, if not convince the empath that it’s at least partially also their fault.

15. At this point, the empath will have to do some serious self-evaluation. They’ll be left no choice. They’ll recognize what happened in the past that led them to be so defenseless, and it will be the beginning of their transformation.

16. The empath will always identify as a “healer,” and in finding their inner strength, they will likely focus on their life’s mission of helping other people in healthy, constructive ways (perhaps through a job or calling).

17. The empath must realize that not everyone you fall in love with can be trusted. Not everyone has the same intentions they do, and not everyone thinks they way they do.

18. The empath must also realize that they were just as wounded as the narcissist was – and that the point of their relationship was a teaching opportunity, a moment for them both to wake up and see how they must heal themselves. (The empath will come around, the narcissist usually doesn’t.)

19. The empath will consider the experience a painful catalyst of their awakening.

20. The narcissist will carry on acting as though nothing’s wrong and as though nothing happened. They will deny and almost seem to “forget” about the intense, powerful connection they once had with someone, and they will go pursue it elsewhere. After a bit of time, their issues will come to a head, and they’ll have to cope with the fact that they can’t connect with themselves, let alone other people.

21. The narcissist will walk away looking for their next victim.

22. The empath will walk away wiser, stronger and more careful about who they give their time, energy, love and life too.

Empaths are persons who are so sensitive that their main mode of interaction is energy vibrations, as they are very sensitive to energy.

The problem this poses is that most Empaths use their ability to manipulate others or to hide, rather than to feel and live. This is called ‘helping others’.

Reading up on what I was when I first found that there was a name for it was very discouraging. What it told me was:

You are exposed and open to danger in this world. Stay safe, and get your Protection Shield on the way.

As I have been told hundreds of times before, I am Sensitive.

But what is disgusting to me is that all of the blogs, online articles and forums I have visited have portrayed empathy and Highly Sensitive People (HSP) as persons who exalt their delicate emotional status and blood doll issues as if it were a mark of pride on this Earth.

Of course, not all Empaths are like that, just most of them. Also, the technique I use to survive may not really work for others. The only thing I know is that the classic advice offered as a solution to ‘cope/protect/shield’ was useless for me, and in fact ended up making things worse.

My Learnings:

Just because I am sensitive does not make more important or special than others around me. Neither does it make me weak or helpless. Empaths develop their abilities at different acuteness for many varied reasons; some may have received it as a gift at birth, others find a way to divine the emotions of people around them as a defence mechanism post being abused. However they may have become what they are, it does not make them any better at mastering an instrument, or picking up a sport. It is just another type of person on this vast planet.

I don’t mean to demean this gift or the power it gives the Empath, but I do not feel it gives us any kind of super power or makes us super humans in any way, either, and here are my reasons:

Most Empaths develop a core belief that they are not worthy of anything, and it is imperative that they not only see their importance on this planet but also to understand that being a Sensitive does not make us any more important than other beings here. This ‘feeling special’ will only lead to a road of superiority and loneliness, which is the point of what we are, actually, because the very basic emotion that makes us so sensitive to the energies of those around us means that at the base of everything, everyone is connected, together. Everyone is universal. Joining that energy in harmony, instead of moving away, or shielding from it is what will lead us, and the world, to Deep Healing.

Secondly, marking yourself as an Empath to protect your Sensitive Nature by staying away from people will eventually lead to a veneration of dependencies on those people, and unwholesome limits arising from the false belief that Humanity is dependent on us for their happiness, which in turn will cause us to have a ‘helper’ attitude.

Alternately, Empath takes the advice to shield themselves and stay away from the world, in hiding, thinking that to survive in this world, this is what we need to do. They cut off from all relationships and from life itself, and label it ‘coping with being Sensitive’,

These are the two snags for uninitiated and badly in need of help Empaths, and I was one of the, But, helping the world or hiding from people is not the answer. It is not living.

Such Empaths who become either Helpers or as they are known, Light Workers, in the end just lead to poisonous relationships by causing a dependency between people and Empaths, by creating a need for them to depend on the Empath’s power, in turn disempowering them. It’s a big mess of emotional dependency.

Letting energy vampires thrive around you is not the reason is not what it is to be an Empath.

Spending your life trying to make others happy will neither empower you nor make your life better. Losing focus on your own happiness to make others happy will just make a Blood Doll.

Avoid:

Don’t let others be Energy Vampires around you, you are not their food. It is like killing your energy and is very unhealthy for you. You don’t glorify those dependent on you by telling them that you can save them, or that the only way for them to be happy is you, or by trying to heal them. You are leading them to a sort of ruin; you are disempowering them.

This is why there has always been a clash between narcissism and empathy.

You should try to change only yourself. When you change yourself and are able to master your emotions, it is a gift for this world, because they can see that it is possible. You empower them with self-belief and become an icon.

If you are born with your sensitivity and the ability to read vibrations, it is because your soul wanted to learn to use these abilities and to wield them for empowering yourself and leading to the evolution of your soul. With your self-evolution, you will add on to the vast knowledge for mastery over self into the consciousness of the Universe. Others who see this will get inspired and begin to believe that they can do it too. On the other hand, trying to heal people on Earth will simply bring more and more persons who will need healing, and it is not possible to reach them all, besides the fact that it will completely drain your power if you try.

You don’t need to fix the world, the Universe is functioning as it was meant to already. It returns to people what they give it, and gives our own reflection back to us. This is what makes it perfect for self-evolution, and which is why mastery over our emotions is so important. To make a difference in this world, we need to have power in our own lives first.

Of course, it is important to love everyone about us, this Universe could do with a lot of love! But self-sacrifice is not loved. For people to grow emotionally, they have to take their own paths. God has granted humanity that freedom, and it is important that we allow others that freedom too. We should help because it’s a feel-good factor for us, and not for the reason that there are other who depend on us for their daily dose of energy, and definitely not because we feel that we have to.

The Issue:

Empaths have lost the way; we have missed our true calling of self-evolvement.

We put all our energies out there, get swamped and then switch ourselves off.

In this, we completely miss trying to understand how it makes us feel, and instead focus on the emotions of those around us, trying to fix their emotions and trying to get ourselves to feel better from it. It seems like an easy way out because it doesn’t seem risky. Our own feelings, on the other hand, frighten us to death.

And this is because Empaths have been told all our lives that are weakening to feel our own emotions, and almost all of us have emotional baggage in the form of abuse, broken hearts and other hurts we are too scared to look at. Our being Sensitive makes us too susceptible to pain.

But, giving our attention to those about us does not solve our problems. It acts as a great distraction, but not a solution. It is not empowering for us and disempowering for others.

It might at the most only make us feel worthy and important, and needed in the Now, but over time, it kicks off a dependency upon the people whom we think we’re helping that it completely drains our power. We have remained with us nothing. And that nothing feels so heavy that we attempt to hide it along with the other negative emotions within us that would give us a heads-up that we’re headed in the wrong direction, and return to the energy vampires. It gives us a reason for being and is like an addiction to feeling high and happy.

And when the temporary feel-good fades away, the feeling of loneliness returns with full force. None of our friends, even the closest of them would actually know us for what we are, because we have hidden our true nature with our emotions, trying to instead focus on healing the world around us and wasting our energy to fulfil its endless need, giving and giving to something that can never give us anything back.

So how do we resolve it?

My lessons are to let yourself feel. Feel!

Do not make the mistake of cutting yourself off from your emotions.

It is a part of what makes you, you – the power to feel and to feel deeply. It is the power of this Universe, and of humanity itself. You will create a connection of empathy between yourself and the energy about you if you begin to let yourself feel the emotions swirling within you, and return those emotions to the world using your powers to tune it to yourself using your Sensitivities.

You will be able to create a reality of your own, that is suited for your self-evolution and to help you grow. With your internal Vista in harmony with your mind, your surroundings will also begin to tune into your soul. That is how you will be able to give to the world the love it craves, the peace it needs. That will be compassion in its deepest sense, and it begins from inside of you.

This Universe we live in is moving and vibrating at all time. And our emotions are the best tuning forks we have to capture these vibrations. Thus, our emotions and our sensitivities are our power, our supernatural abilities.

It doesn’t weaken you. The sensitivity to the vibrations of the Universe, in fact, provide you with the energy and strength to move within the grid of consciousness, wherever you may wish to go. It is not only physical strength that is needed, and it is not related to the logic of life – it is the intelligence of the Universe and its vibrations.

It is as easy as knowing what makes you feel good, and what doesn’t, and moving toward that which makes you feel powerful. But you wouldn’t recognise it until you tune in!

Tuning In

Look inside of yourself.

Let yourself see emotionally where you stand, without feeling judgmental or trying to search or identify anything. Your emotions are not a person, they are not you. They are only tuning forks, pointers that will lead you to go where you both want, and need to be.

Allow yourself to feel the enlightening, fostering power of your own being, and learn to love yourself so that you are able to free your soul from the nothingness of the dependency you have left behind.

Do not let anything make you think or feel that your emotions are a weakness; that is a lie. It is not to make yourself susceptible to hurt if you allow your emotions to surface. Do not ignore your heart.

Let yourself feel. Your emotions are what make your strong, they are the weapon for your superpower. Use your weapon.

Everyone has the potential to impact people in the world in any method they desire. There is no doubt that each of us have a unique characteristic which has been nurtured significantly more than others.

Whether this has been done on deliberately or subconsciously, it is very important that we are able to diagnose our strong mark and attend to our flaws.

Healers are always present in every culture and they are never really looked for until some circumstance forces us to find them. Because of this lack of focus, most healers are in a status of non recognition. However you want to look at it, we need healers now more than ever. If you are looking for a healer in your-self, below is a list of characters very natural with healers. Examine them on your own and see if you have these hidden healing powers.

Signs That You Have Healing Powers:

1. People say how calming it is to be around you.

2. People who are physically close to you rarely get sick.

3. You are always contemplating of how to improve other people’s lives.

4. You could be diagnosed with anxiety, panic or mood disorders.

5. You are very much empathic.

6. You family has a history of healers.

7. When you are in public places you feel butterflies in your stomach.

8. Animals are happy to see you.You have a very deep connection with animals.

9. Most Strangers tell you their life story.

10. Even though you had no training for it. You are great at massages!

11. You usually have neck and shoulder pains.

12. You love being outdoor, staying indoor make you anxious.

13. You are attracted to crystals and their Meta physics properties.

14. You are interested in spiritual sciences like energy healing, shamanism, acupuncture, and others.

15. Because you have high level of awareness, you are sensitive when it comes to certain foods and drinks.

The core components of a healer are high sensitivity on many wave extent, their ability to evident energy; they are highly emphatic and have a aspiration to help other people. There isn’t any theory or agreed path for you to take to develop these feelings. You will need to determine where you are in your life. Thankfully it doesn’t take much to get the wheel spinning in terms of healing. Everything in the universe wants to be healthy and happy; we just need to remind our self more often.

Native American animal symbols can encompass just about all the animals, and their symbolic representation to the many tribes of the Americas. To narrow down the focus a bit, this page is devoted to birth animals – or zodiac animals.Many Native American cultures have the belief that a person is assigned an animal upon the time of birth. Below are interpreted Native American symbols of the zodiac and the characteristics for each one.

A little quirky, and unorthodox, the Otter is a hard one to figure sometimes. Perceived as unconventional, the Otter methods aren’t the first ones chosen to get the job done. This is a big mistake on the part of others – because although unconventional, the Otter’s methods are usually quite effective.

Otter: Jan 20 – Feb 18

Yes, the Otter has unusual way of looking at things, but he/she is equipped with a brilliant imagination and intelligence, allowing him/her an edge over every one else. Often very perceptive and intuitive, the Otter makes a very good friend, and can be very attentive.

In a nurturing environment the Otter is sensitive, sympathetic, courageous, and honest. Left to his/her own devices, the Otter can be unscrupulous, lewd, rebellious, and isolated.

Wolf: Feb 19 – Mar 20

Deeply emotional, and wholly passionate, the Wolf is the lover of the zodiac in both the physical and philosophical sense of the word. The Wolf understands that all we need is love, and is fully capable of providing it.

Juxtaposed with his/her fierce independence – this Native American animal symbol is a bit of a contradiction in terms. Needing his/her freedom, yet still being quite gentle and compassionate – we get the picture of the “lone wolf” with this sign.

In a nurturing environment the Wolf is intensely passionate, generous, deeply affectionate, and gentle. Left to his/her own devices the Wolf can become impractical, recalcitrant, obsessive, and vindictive.

Falcon: Mar 21 – Apr 19

A natural born leader, the Falcon can always be looked upon for clear judgment in sticky situations. Furthermore, the characteristics for this Native American animal symbol never wastes time, rather he/she strikes while the iron is hot, and takes action in what must be done.

Ever persistent, and always taking the initiative, the Falcon is a gem of a personality to have for projects or team sports. The Falcon can be a little on the conceited side – but he/she is usually right in his/her opinions – so a little arrogance is understood.

In a supportive environmental the Falcon “soars” in his/her ability to maintain passion and fire in relationships, and always remaining compassionate. Left to his/her own devices, the Falcon can be vain, rude, intolerant, impatient, and over-sensitive.

Beaver: Apr 20 – May 20

Take charge, adapt, overcome – this is the Beaver motto. Mostly business, the Beaver is gets the job at hand done with maximum efficiency and aplomb. Strategic, and cunning the Beaver is a force to be reckoned with in matters of business and combat.

One might also think twice about engaging the Beaver in a match of wits – as his/her mental acuity is razor sharp. The Beaver has everything going for him/her – however tendencies toward “my way or the highway” get them in trouble.

Yes, they are usually right, but the bearer of this Native American animal symbol may need to work on tact. In a nurturing environment the Beaver can be compassionate, generous, helpful, and loyal. Left to his/her own devices the Beaver can be nervous, cowardly, possessive, arrogant, and over-demanding.

Deer: May 21 – Jun 20

This Native American animal symbol is the muse of the zodiac. The Deer is inspiring lively and quick-witted. With a tailor-made humor, the Deer has a tendency to get a laugh out of anyone. Excellent ability for vocalizing, the Deer is a consummate conversationalist.

This combined with his/her natural intelligence make the Deer a must-have guest at dinner parties. Always aware of his/her surroundings, and even more aware of his/her appearance, the Deer can be a bit self-involved. However, the Deer’s narcissism is overlooked because of his/her congeniality and affability.

In a supportive environment the Deer’s natural liveliness and sparkly personality radiate even more. He/she is an inspiring force in any nurturing relationship. Left to his/her own devices the Deer can be selfish, moody, impatient, lazy, and two-faced.

Woodpecker: Jun 21 – Jul 21

Woodpeckers are usually the most nurturing of all the Native American animal symbols. The consummate listener, totally empathic and understanding, the Woodpecker is the one to have on your side when you need support.

Of course, they make wonderful parents, and equally wonderful friends and partners. Another proverbial feather in the Woodpeckers cap is the tendency to be naturally frugal, resourceful, and organized.

In a nurturing environment the Woodpecker is of course caring, devoted, and very romantic. Left to his/her own devices the Woodpecker can be possessive, angry, jealous, and spiteful.

Salmon: Jul 22 – Aug 21

Electric, focused, intuitive, and wholly creative, the Salmon is a real live-wire. His/her energy is palpable. A natural motivator, the Salmon’s confidence and enthusiasm is easily infectious.

Soon, everybody is onboard with the Salmon – even if the idea seems too hair-brained to work. Generous, intelligent, and intuitive, it’s no wonder why the Salmon has no shortage of friends. This Native American animal symbol expresses a need for purpose and goals, and has no trouble finding volunteers for his/her personal crusades.

In a supportive environment, the Salmon is stable, calm, sensual, and giving. Left to his/her own devices, those that bear this Native American animal symbol can be egotistical, vulgar, and intolerant of others.

Bear: Aug 22 – Sep 21

Pragmatic, and methodical the Bear is the one to call when a steady hand is needed. The Bear’s practicality and level-headedness makes him/her an excellent business partner. Usually the voice of reason in most scenarios, the Bear is a good balance for Owls. The Bear is also gifted with an enormous heart, and a penchant for generosity.

However, one might not know it as the Bear tends to be very modest, and a bit shy. In a loving environment this Native American animal symbol showers love and generosity in return.

Further, the Bear has a capacity for patience and temperance, which makes him/her excellent teachers and mentors. Left to his/her own devices the bear can be skeptical, sloth, small-minded and reclusive.

Raven: Sep 22 – Oct 22

Highly enthusiastic, and a natural entrepreneur, the Crow is quite a charmer. But he/she doesn’t have to work at being charming – it comes easily. Everyone recognizes the Crow’s easy energy, and everyone turns to the Crow for his/her ideas and opinions.

This is because the Crow is both idealistic and diplomatic and is quite ingenious. In nurturing environments this Native American animal symbol is easy-going, can be romantic, and soft-spoken. Further, the crow can be quite patient, and intuitive in relationships.

Left to his/her own devices, the Crow can be demanding, inconsistent, vindictive, and abrasive.

Snake: Oct 23 – Nov 22

Most shamans are born under this Native American animal symbol. The Snake is a natural in all matters of spirit. Easily attuned to the ethereal realm the Snake makes an excellent spiritual leader. Also respected for his/her healing capacities, the Snake also excels in medical professions.

The Snake’s preoccupation with matters intangible often lead others to view them as mysterious, and sometimes frightening. True, the Snake can be secretive, and a bit dark – he/she is also quite sensitive, and caring.

In a supportive relationship the cool Snake can be passionate, inspiring, humorous, and helpful. Left to his/her own devices, the Snake can be despondent, violent, and prone to abnormal mood swings.

Owl: Nov 23 – Dec 21

Changeable and mutable as the wind, the Owl is a tough one to pin down. Warm, natural, with an easy-going nature, the Owl is friend to the world. The bearer of this Native American animal symbol is notorious for engaging in life at full speed, and whole-hearted loves adventure.

This can be to his/her detriment as the Owl can be reckless, careless, and thoughtless. Owls make great artists, teachers, and conservationists. However, due to his/her adaptability and versatility – the Owl would likely excel in any occupation.

In a supportive, nurturing environment the Owl is sensitive, enthusiastic, and an attentive listener. Left to his/her own devices, the Owl can be excessive, overindulgent, bitter, and belligerent.

Goose: Dec 22 – Jan 19

If you want something done – give it to the Goose. Persevering, dogged, and ambitious to a fault, the Goose sets goals for accomplishment, and always obtains them. The goose is determined to succeed at all cost – not for the approval of other – but those with this Native American animal symbol competes with his/her own internal foe.

Driven is the watchword for the Goose’s dominating personality trait – which makes them excellent in business and competitive sports. When tempered with supportive, nurturing family and friends, the Goose excels in all things he/she attempts.

In a loving environment the Goose can be very passionate, humorous, gregarious, and even sensual. However, lead to his/her own devises, the Goose may fall into obsessive or addictive behaviors that will inevitably be his/her demise.

Crystals are powerful messengers. We often feel attracted to their energy for reasons we can’t quite explain.

We want you to take a look at the image below, and choose one of the 3 crystals. Pick the one you are most attracted to. Whether it is for the colour, the shape, or for whatever reason, you will see how truly accurate this test is when you read your corresponding answer.

Now that you have made your choice, scroll down to see what it means for you:

If you chose…

1. Blue Howlite

If you chose crystal number one, you may need to work on your communication skills. Do you need to speak up more often? Are you being open and clear about your feelings with yourself and the people around you? Are you really listening to and understanding others?

This stone is representative of the throat chakra, which includes the ears as well, meaning it refers to all forms of communication. If you currently have physical issues with the throat, such as soreness or discomfort, it’s likely you’re either holding back from saying something that should be said, or you may need to be more diplomatic when you do speak. Are you not saying something in order to avoid confrontation? Or perhaps you lose your temper and speak with anger too often? Now is the time to address the emotional causes behind your throat issue.

If the problem is with your ears, it could mean that you’ve stopped listening, or that there’s something you need to hear that has gone unnoticed. Only you can say what the reason is behind this physical ailment. Children often have issues with their ears because they have a difficult time hearing the word ‘no’, or they’re tired of listening to the adults in their life fight.

This Howlite crystal has been dyed blue, so it could also represent a feeling of inauthenticity. Are you not being true to yourself? Maybe you’re hiding behind a facade, not letting your real self show through to others? We are all unique individuals, there isn’t anyone on this Earth who is just like you, so maybe it’s time to let your true, wonderful self be known.

2. Green Aventurine

If crystal number two was your choice, you are in need of balance, rest, invigoration or much love. You need some true harmony in your life. Green is the heart chakra, which is central to all the other chakras. So this chakra has to do with the heart, balance, harmony, healing and love.

Have you ever felt truly at peace while walking through nature? When we spend time in nature amongst the beautiful green plants and trees, our heart chakra is naturally balanced and we are in harmony.

If you chose this crystal, you are lacking balance, and you need to find your peaceful center. Has this chakra been closed off due to past injuries? You may save yourself a little pain by closing the heart chakra, but it also makes you unable to receive love or make deep connections with people. You may struggle making new friends. The heart chakra also represents love of self, so perhaps it’s time to start really caring for yourself and appreciating all the great things about you. Spend some time and effort nurturing yourself and fulfilling your needs, a little self care can go a long way!

Hospitals often paint their walls a shade of green, because this color is instrumental in healing and growth. You may be long overdue for some real healing. Any problems having to do with the heart or lungs indicate a need for tender love and care, so be gentle with yourself, and know that you are worthy and deserving of all the good things life has to offer.

3. Citrine

If crystal number three was your choice, your issues revolve around the Solar Plexus chakra. This chakra has everything to do with our power and control, it is where our will sits. Maybe you’ve allowed others to control your life up to this point. Perhaps you have given away too much of your power?

You may be too dependent upon others or feel unable to make your own decisions without their approval. You need to focus on what you want for yourself out of life. What do you want to create? What do you want your legacy to be? You need to take the reigns back and claim the power you have over your own reality.

Set goals that are personal to you and use meditation and visualization to help achieve them. Don’t be afraid to dream big, and know that you are strong and capable of going after what you want.

This crystal also represents abundance and fulfillment. Perhaps finances have been lacking, or maybe you’ve been going without because you don’t feel like you deserve abundance in your life. You are as worthy as any other person and you deserve comfort and abundance just as much, so don’t resist the flow!