My boyfriend wants to cum/ejaculate on my face after a blowjob?

My boyfriend cum/ejaculate on my face after a bj. Why do guys like this? Is it sexy for you, or can it be sexy for the girl too? Is it common to...
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My boyfriend cum/ejaculate on my face after a bj. Why do guys like this? Is it sexy for you, or can it be sexy for the girl too? Is it common to do this now-a-days, or just in pornos? How old were you when you first tried this? Any tips you could suggest and for keeping the come out of my eyes, I guess that's my biggest concern?

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You will find that some girls will do it, and other's wont. Some girls find it degrading and other find it sexy. There is a fair bit of domination in play I will agree, so I can see why a girl feels it to be degrading. Not only that but the way it portrayed in some pornos is that the guy is the king of sex and the girl is just filth, which is incredibly wrong.

Now on the other hand most guys don't see it that way they are just trying to fulfill a sexual fantasy, and have the up most respect for the female. They just find it arousing.

What you need to ask yourself is " Am I in a respectful relationship with a guy that really loves and care about me?" If the answer is yes, then have at it. Its all in the name of sexual fun, while you at it why don't you fulfill one of your own sexual fantasy.

Tips: take control and jack him off aiming for your closed mouth. this will minimize the chance of getting it into your hair and eyes. if it does get into you eye flush it out with cold water your be good as new.

I don't think it's a domination / territorial thing at all, like the guys are saying. I think it's the physical worship (not really in the submissive sense, but the appreciatory sense) of someone's sexual gratification.

Let me put it this way:

Say you're masturbating and you're the wettest you've ever been in your life, rainstorm conditions (sorry lol). And you're really close to climax and your boyfriend walks in on you. You're nervous as hell because you're thinking "uhhh oh sh*t this was a private moment" and you think he's not gonna know what to do. And then without you having to say a word he goes "keep rubbing yourself" and then jumps on the bed with you, holds you down and your legs open, and then gives you oral sex right there and tells you how hot he thought the sight of you masturbating was. And then after you orgasm, you watch him lick his lips and lick the juices off his and your fingers and legs, and kisses your body.

I know that is like a porno scene right there (even though I feel slightly perverted I got a little bit aroused tbh and I hope I have to diffuse that situation someday lol) but that is exactly my point. If a guy worships your physical form and sexual essence, that makes you feel amazing. It feels great for the ego and it's extremely psychologically arousing. Not in the same way that a kiss is, but when you know your sexual essence is desired and accepted, you feel good.

That's kind of what a facial is. We know it's uncomfortable for the women and a lot of us are concerned with how you feel when we climax. Women are supposed to be a little more reserved about that stuff in society and because of that, we never really know how to feel. Us guys can get kind of nervous about what the girl really wants because we don't know if she feels pressured to keep her image up.

When we give a facial, it's extremely psychologically comforting and actually, it's extremely visually appealing. The appearance of come is kind of appealing because it's associated with so much fun times. So when someone you sexually look up to shows they accept it, it makes for a great visual turn on.

So really, facials are great for all of the above. Or any time you let us come on an erotic part of your body. It totally beats the hell out of coming in a condom or anywhere else you can think of.

Ppl like you sometimes look to much into it sometimes its just a fetish fantasy and the fact there girl is being adventures and fulfilling sex fantasies is a huge turn on not about being more dominant over your women

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I'm a Psyc major, its a turn on because of the dominance issue. You don't think about being dominate you just have behaviors that show that.

It probably always is a little dominant and macho, but I think it can also show a high level or desire by a woman for a man to want his come that is flattering. Its "dirty" so that's a turn on. Honestly its fun to aim and shoot and your making a big mess you can see while moaning and having this intense orgasm. it does look kinda sexy. I am sure porn has made this more common. Its not a big deal to me but I am not gonna lie I like it sometimes and its hard to explain why this is enjoyable its just a guy thing. I think whether its degrading or just part of a loving respectful relationsip depends on the context it happens in

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My boyfriend sometimes likes to do this and I let him. It makes him very happy, like I've totally accepted a part of him. And the come isn't bad for you or anything. So just have a lot of fun with it. But yes, keep it out of your eyes. It does sting, I found out.

make sure he has good aim lol that's like the only way to keep it out of your eyes and if you do get it in your eyes wash it out asap because it HURTS! A LOT! if you wear contacts you should take the contact out wash out your eye and put loads of eye drops in. a good way to do this is if he's on his knees and your laying down. try not to get it in your hair it's hard to get out lol GOOD LUCK!

Yeah it does seem like that's what the guys want nowadays. Like I've mentioned in my other question, most recent guys I've been with always wants to come in my mouth or around my face.

Not just blowjobs either, most of the guys I've done that with have been having sex with me and they always tell me they're about to come and wanted to come in my mouth.

It can be sexy for me, especially if I'm really into it as well (and the guys is really hot) because I get turned on knowing that I'm making him feel good.

One tip I do have for not getting in the eye is to actually push your tongue on the tip of his **** when he's cumming. Another tips is to let him do that sideways on your mouth so it'll go from left to right and not straight up into your eye area.

But seriously, usually when that's happening I'm so turned on myself I'm not thinking about actual techniques, it's almost just reacting and doing it out of reflex.

Mmmm.. nothing like a good facial..it may seem gross now but if you let go of your thoughts about it and think about how hot he is gonna think you are when you let him do it..It can be very fun and enjoyable for yourself as well, think of it as if you are that hot porno star and you wanna make your man come soo hard it hurts! Let him come on your face, open your mouth and try to get some in there too, let him shoot it wherever he wants, once he is done, lick your lips and show him the come in your mouth and start rubbing some of it from your face , down your neck and onto your nibbles. Very Hot!

Your boyfriend will be very imporessed, and after awhile you will be asking him to do it to you!

this has been requested a few times ;) but I haven't tried. this seems to be a much more common sex act now. but pornos don't make this look very sexy to me - but some girls here seem to like it. I would think good aim by him is the best prevention of keeping it out of the eyes - I think he should shoot for the cheeks and lips. glasses? ? I suppose. but then again, I haven't tried this. maybe more girls/guys with this sexual experience will respond.

Im glad your not dumb like me and thought about your eyes.. I wasn't thinking about it at all.. and it hurt really really bad! we had to use like a bottle of eye drops to get it out but even after that my eyes still itched and they where red :P

if he's good at aiming.. you could just tell him to do it below the eyes to try and lower the risk.

I know my favorite part about the whole experience is watching the guy cum, but if you think its close to your eye and try and close them, or if your not into watching just keep them closed anyways.

I think guys like the visual of seeing it on our faces. I've done it a few times - no harm no foul. For me, its okay, but the guys think its awesome. it won't go in eyes if you don't let it- just warn him to aim right or else it will never happen again;) just make sure his d*** is pointed at your cheeks/chin below your eyes.

I have only done this with two guys so far - the first time was a few years ago when I was 14. my current boyfriend loves this. He says he loves the visual. And I can see why. WE did it in front of a mirror once - very sexy. Its not degrading as some would say/think. if you don't have a problem with come in general, then it will be fine. Just close your eyes and stick your tongue out.

Thank you for not seeing it as degrading, I'm glad someone understands (see my reply above)

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Yes, it can be sexy for both of you. It is for me:) I've had like 5-6 guys request this the past 3 years, and I let them and have even asked for them to finish on my face a few times. I think the first time I tried this I was 15 I think.

The best is to blow him on your knees and then let him wank himself off at the end so he can aim properly. YES - it stings like hell. My ex and I used to do this frequently, so used to wear my old glasses (I got lasik since) when he wanted to facial me.

Try it and see if its for you or not. Buy yeah, facials seem to be really in with the guys these days.