Am I unusual, I've never met another atheist?

By which I mean not that I've never actually interacted with another atheist, I'm sure I have but I have never knowingly done so, I've never had someone say "Hey, you're an atheist, so am I" or something like that..

I've lived around this area for a big chunk of my sixtysomething years and have no clue where I might go to deliberately meet another atheist.

Anyone else here never knowingly meet another atheist in the flesh, so to speak?

2. Me too.

9. I wonder if a Christian in the USA can even conceive of never meeting another Christian?

I can think of a dozen churches around here and I don't even pay attention to them, Jehovah's Witnesses have a big new Assembly Hall about a mile away and there's at least one church on the direct route between here and there.

4. Easy to find

Just look for the people that are NOT wearing yarmulkes, NOT wearing St. Christopher medallions, do NOT have tattoos of praying hands, do NOT have a cross&dove lapel pin, are NOT carrying a Bible or copies of the Watchtower, do NOT have WWJD keychains in their pockets, and do NOT have some sort of cross on the back window or license plate frame of their car.

But if you really want them to find you, put a 'Blessed Be' bumper sticker on the back of your car and they will come out of the woodwork and say hi.

16. I meet them frequently. In fact, I meet more of them than I do self-identified religious people.

It may be because of my lifestyle and the kind of *community* I live in.

The place I spend most of my time doesn't even have any kind of place of worship at all.

Except for the handful of overtly *hostile to religion* people, I enjoy discussing religion with many of the people I know. I find most atheists to be very willing to talk about their views of the world and most are also interested in mine.

37. Huh?

By the last survey, Oregon was 67% Christian and 27% "Unaffiliated". That's obviously far less Christian and religious than the nation at large, but it's not even close to being majority "Unaffiliated", much less atheist, which would be the case if it was the default position.

49. I'd be surprised if that was the case even in Portland

The rural areas in the west too also have a surprisingly high amount of "Unaffiliated" (even Wyoming and Idaho), so it'd be tough for even Portland to be majority "Unaffiliated" if 27% of the state is and remember "Unaffiliated" does not necessarily mean "atheist" (probably not even majority atheist with all those "spiritual but not religious" people around.)

24. Which area is "around this area"?

That could have something to do with it. I live in one of the most atheist parts of the country (New Hampshire) and, although I know a few "out" atheists, it's not like it comes up all that often that someone is an atheist, even around here. If you live in other parts of the country, especially the "Bible Belt", there are likely fewer atheists, and those atheists who are around you will be more reluctant to publicly identify as atheists.

26. The Bible Belt..

34. I rarely meet a new person who identifies as an atheist.

It's just not a subject that comes up right away. Just as I don't ask people I meet what church they go to, people don't usually inquire into others' religious beliefs or non-beliefs until the acquaintance becomes more complex.

That said, I know a number of atheists. They are friends or people I've known for some time. It's just not the first thing that comes up when you meet someone.

36. Not where I am, apparently. I guess it could be different in

38. I'm a bit of an oddball in that I probably know more closet Christians than closet atheists

The latter are somewhat common in the whole punk and indie rock scene, one of the few social circles in the US where this is the case, (Perhaps not closeted to acquaintances outside that scene, but that often means a good chunk of their friends.) In fact in that sense I am basically a closeted Christian myself.

39. You would be unusual in England.

I knew two atheists (my parents) from birth; and know plenty of atheists, plenty of religious people, and plenty of people who wouldn't care enough to know themselves which they are, which is common in England.

Atheism is not a taboo here. 2 of our 3 main party leaders are atheists.

40. I have family in the UK I've never met..

I do know that a couple of them at least are atheists, we converse sporadically via email but it's hard to nurture relationships with people you're never likely to meet face to face even if you are related.

41. If people keep their beliefs hidden you'll never know.

42. Why should something which is a minor part of my life be a subject for casual discussion?

I don't feel the need to proselytize atheism and constantly declare publicly that I'm an atheist.

The same way I don't feel the need to announce my sexual orientation to everyone I meet, "Oh, by the way, I'm heterosexual"..

Of course, that one is fairly obvious, I'm far from fabulous..

I was raised a Christian but with the philosophy that an individual's relationship with god is a private matter as laid out in Matthew 6:6 , talking about it is in the same league taste wise as talking about your sexual relationship with your spouse or significant other, not done in polite company.

45. Not everyone reacts really negatively of course, however..

Like any other range of human behavior it's a spectrum, there are some that don't care at all shading to those who think I must worship the devil and all but run away screaming..

I mean if I really was a minion of Satan but was still me I wouldn't want to scare people by telling them Old Nick was my boss if I didn't have to.

That Golden Rule thing, some people take it as an insult so I mostly keep it to myself until we know each other well enough that I think it won't be a huge issue. With a few people that's basically forever.

Very similar to the way I hear gays say that if they get to know someone as a person it's harder to pin the evil label on them..

I suck at prayer, no practice and I get self conscious and feel hypocritical if I even think about trying, but I'm an outstanding Bible reader and I like to read the King James aloud and get all the words right in a deep, sonorous tone. I'm a bit like Jim Nabors, but rather than singing it's reading for me that changes my voice for the better. I don't have to worry about what I'm going to say and making sense, just concentrate on saying the words on the page and making them sound good.The language of the King James really is poetic and powerful far beyond colloquial modern English, I can hold an audience of Christians rapt with it if I'm really "on".

44. A cliche phrase, of course, yet my best friend is an atheist. For real.

We joke about it at times. As we do other personal things. Often pointedly. Friends do that.

We both share progressive political / social values. And we've been friends for eons.

She's gone with me to a few Christmas midnight masses (Catholic). Our mission does it as a high mass - the priest sings the mass, in Latin. She doesn't join in on the mass procedures. Doesn't kneel when others kneel, doesn't make the sign of the cross, etc. etc. Yet she loves the ritual, visually and viscerally, as I do. It simply is what it is for her. And she knows I've no expectations of her at all - except we support each other in our interests when we can. I feel and do the same.