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Upstairs in Downton Abbey: The Three Crawley Sisters

At the start of Downton Abbey, the Earl of Grantham sadly learns of the death of his cousin and cousin’s son on the Titanic. This event places the Earl and Countess of Grantham in a tragic and unexpected situation, for both men – the heir and the spare – were in line to inherit Downton Abbey.

The earl (Hugh Bonneville) reads about the Titanic

The earl had never anticipated such a tragic turn of events. He had married Cora, an American heiress, in a marriage of convenience in order to maintain his landed estate in the manner in which it had been run for centuries. During the marriage negotiations, the old Earl of Grantham struck a hard bargain and Cora’s fortune became completely tied up in the entail. This was no great matter to the young couple, who were certain they would produce an heir. While the earl eventually fell in love with his beautiful bride, they were unable to produce a son, their union resulting in three daughters.

The countess (Elizabeth McGovern) learns of the tragedy.

And so the plot of Downton Abbey thickens, for lovely Lady Mary, the earl’s eldest daughter, was engaged to the younger heir, Patrick. But Patrick died and now Matthew Crawley, the earl’s third cousin once removed, stands next in line to inherit. Unlike the previous heirs, who were accustomed to the ways of the upper classes, the very reluctant Matthew must learn how to run a great estate from the ground up … and Lady Mary, by dint of being a woman and as the result of an unbreakable entail, is left out in the cold.

Lady Sybil, Lady Mary, and Lady Edith

The plot line of Downton Abbey weaves the stories of the privileged who live upstairs with the lives of those who serve them, and involves the intricacies of the entail and running the estate. Of the three sisters, only Lady Mary plays a major role. But the other two, Lady Edith and Lady Sybil, faced challenges that were typical of upper class women of the era. As Jane Austen astutely observed, “ There are not so many men of fortune in the world as there are pretty girls who deserve them,” a fact that the middle sister, Lady Edith, comes to know too well, and one that Lady Sybil ignores, for she has modern notions of a woman’s place in Society.

Upon learning of the death of her fiance, Patrick, Lady Mary is not as sad as she should be.

Lady Mary Crawley (Michelle Dockerey)

The eldest of the three girls, and the most beautiful and self-assured, is Lady Mary Crawley who knows her worth. Upset that the entail cannot be undone, she realizes that her only way to marry “up” or to financial security is to find a wealthy man with (preferably) a title. The new heir, Matthew Crawley, in no way interests her. From the moment they meet, snobby Lady Mary looks down her patrician nose at the upstart heir, who, she doubts, even knows how to hunt. (Lady Mary might have no use for Matthew, but he has more than a passing interest in her.)

Lady Mary meets Matthew and ... is not impressed

Ever the opportunist when it comes to snaring a suitable mate, Lady Mary sets her sights on a duke, as well as Evelyn Napier, a gentleman who is besotted with her. But then a handsome and exotic visitor catches her eye and makes her heart flutter uncharacteristically, and Lady Mary’s safe and secure world will never be the same again.

Lady Edith reads Lady Mary's private letter

Lady Edith Crawley (Laura Carmichael)

Lady Edith can hardly contain her jealousy of Lady Mary’s beauty, her easy popularity with men, and her status as elder daughter. As the second daughter, she feels invisible. Lady Mary barely mourns her fiance, which triggers Lady Edith’s resentment of her older sister and her cool reaction to his death. Not that she is entirely to be pitied, for her jealousy drives her to snoop on her sister, and tattle tales that should never be shared.

Lady Edith looks hopeful as she is courted unexpectedly

The complex, nasty relationship between the two sisters is a result of the keen pressure that women still felt to marry up and well in the Edwardian era. Upper class women, as Amanda Vickery pointed out in her excellent series, At Home With the Georgians, were raised to live passive lives and accept the fact that they were second-class citizens. While Lady Edith plots and schemes to find a husband (if even from her older sister’s romantic leavings), Lady Sybil, the younger sister, is forging a role for herself.

Lady Sybil helping Gwen, the housemaid

Lady Sybil Crawley (Jessica Brown-Findlay)

Lively, upbeat, and compassionate, Lady Sybil plays no role in the spiteful drama of her two older sisters. She is too busy admiring suffragettes, supporting Gwen, the housemaid, in her ambition to become a secretary, reading political tracts and attending forbidden rallies. Even her taste in clothes is flamboyant, and one suspects that as Lady Sybil matures she will become a character with a capital “C”.

Lady Sybil shows off her new frock

In Downton Abbey, Lady Edith and Lady Mary demonstrate the dependent role that women still played in the early 20th century. But Lady Sybil was another creature altogether. After the end of World War I, she would no doubt be dancing the Charleston in flapper clothes, and after turning thirty, exercising her right to vote and earn her own living.

Edith, Mary, and Sybil

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21 Responses

I was lucky enough to watch the whole first series just a week ago and I absolutely loved it! I was hooked ten minutes into the first episode! It really does not disappoint in the least! Do not miss this show!

I think you missed a note on Lady Edith — she was clearly grief-stricken at the death of Patrick — the fiance of her sister who did not turn a hair. Also, Edith is not pretty like her two sisters….. not quite an antidote, but without a lot of money, she is going to be hard put to find a husband. That gives her two strong causes for resentment. Granted, a snitch is never likeable, let alone lovable, but her chances for a good marriage are remote: We saw how quickly the Duke ran away when he discovered that the entail would stand. And we all know that 1914 will change their entire world, for if there were not enough wealthy young men before World War I, there were only half that many after……. not, of course that they have a inkling of that at this point.

Good article/review with the exception of the comment that Lady Mary is the prettiest of the three sisters. Lady Sybil is in my humble opinion the true “beauty”of the three. Lady Mary doesn’t have the exquisite facial bone structure that Lady Sybil enjoys. Lady Sybil will definitely age better.

I love Downton Abbey, and now it is covering world war 1, which is of great interest to me. The series is well researched and well performed, convincing us that the charecter really is who she protrays.

Is it possible to get patterns for the clothes the ladies wear, I should like to make something special for Chistmas.

As a coarse male it’s hard to choose between Ladies Mary and Sibyl, or Lady Grantham for that matter (Elizabeth McGovern is still very pretty); but somehow Lady Mary’s cynicism and ‘side’ (as the English would say) appeals to me more than Sybil’s earnest enthusiasm. I would consider Lady Mary an irresistible challenge. Although the language is a little out of kilter with the era, and most of the mens’ hair is too long, I have been very impressed by the details of the series and, along with my wife, enjoyed it immensely. Some of the events are telegraphed rather obviously in advance, but I am genuinely curious to see how far they get into the 1920s, and how the family (and house) fare.

i agree with you that Lady Mary is the prettiest (I think she is stunning) as while Lady Sybil is definitely pretty, Mary’s beautyhas something extra, there is something behind it. I also think that Michelle Dockery is the better actress out of the two, although Jessica is good also.

Sybil was the prettiest sister and I loved her hair up in the first series! Don’t know what the blunt cut she had in the last series
was about…did nothing for her! But…the most interesting sister by far is lady Edith! I would argue that in this last series Edith has become the most stylish (love her bobbed hair!) and likely to be the most successful sister in the long run..!

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