Infertility Support Group

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How to deal

I am a proud auntie of 2 beautiful girls, but I've been told by 5 doctors that it is impossible in every way for me to have a baby. Adoption is out due to my epilepsy. I'm mourning it so badly right now and don't know what to do. Please any ideas?

Why is adoption out??? What is wrong with these people?! You're taking an &quot;unwanted&quot; child out of the system and giving them love! I swear it's all about the money. How about Foster Care? Could you deal with being a Foster mother? Sometimes you can actually adopt the kids you Foster. I really wish I had an answer for you. I'm so sorry.

The damage was too severe to repair due to infections. The vaginal damage just left scars everywhere and the probability of miscarriage at 99%+. Fostering and adopting are out due to other medical issues. I just need advice on beating the baby blues sometimes.

I know some good therapy and that is watching the person who raped you go to jail and be raped by a 300 pound man called butch for the rest of his life. Sorry i guess i should not say that but it was just so wrong for someone to hurt you like that. Have you tried adoption in other countries? Im sure their laws arent as bad as ours. I will pray for you and i hope something will come up for you really soon . I would have one for you if only i could have one for myself first.

EVERYBODY has medical issues. You COULD live to be 100 and there's a child that won't have a home. Over seas adoption is OUT! Since all the stars are BUYING their babies over seas, they can be picky and choosy now. There was a whole list of requirements but the two that stood out for me was: you have to make at least $80,000 a year- Who makes that kind of money?! We don't even make half that! And you can't be obeese. That leaves out me and my DH and most of America. I just don't get it. I wish I could tell you how to beat the baby blues, but I can't do it myself. I'm so sorry.

I am so sorry you have to suffer like this. You seem like a really strong person to be able to handle all this. Could you possibly use a surrogate? Unfortunately, I can't be of much help with the baby blues because I have them myself. Don't give up. You are in my prayers. Good Luck!

I found a little relief also in loving other people's children. It hurt, but was healing at the same time. If there were any way you could volunteer somewhere where there are needy children, especially infants, maybe you could use some of your mothering instincts &amp; not feel so frantic. I am so sorry this has happened to you. I can't begin to imagine your pain. Best wishes always.

Honey, there are been so many miracles out there after doctors have said that. I don't believe that. Honey, you have faith and don't you ever, ever give up. God works in so many mysterious ways. I'm praying for you all the way. Best wishes and luck to you and your DH.

I'm so sorry you've been told that. I believe most doctors should give us hope esp now bec of the technology. There are surrogates so you can have a child if you produce eggs, that is what my thoughts are. I know we deserve to be moms and there just should be a way.

Have you tried looking into international adoption? I have one on my friend's list and she suffered depression and other medical issues and adopted a child from Korea.

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