In past 34 years,I have gone through many affairs,of course and feelings,such as
pain,enjoyment,sadness,disappointment,rage,happiness,etc.For me,all these experiences are precious and valuable.But I now want to emphasize "Happiness".

About happiness,everyone has himself own individual comprehension.For me,happiness means freedom.In past many years,I have had few freedom,forribly,I was nearly used to such case...I went to a medical college to complete my college curriculum,just because my parents thought that learning medicine is better than one else,actually,I always like literature.

In my younger age(25~27),I didn't have the plan of getting married,but some invisible pressures,from society,parents,conventional customs,etc,compelled me to get married.When my marrige left only some form,no affection,many people demanded me to keep on maintaining it.I had to run aways from my hometown.

Now I live in a place where is far from my hometown,further,is a freer surrounding,so I eventually find out that I can decide whether to do something or not to do myself.ie,I enjoy so much freedom.That is great!Although my decisions aren't all correct,now and then, wrong and unfit,so I still made some mistakes,but these mistakes is mine,not others',so I can accept them agreeably.In fact,after leaving my hometown,I made more successes than I did in the past.

By occasion, I met Redrose on the line. The chat lasted for severaly hours. She sent me a photo of her with a few priends of hers. I am moved by the photo she sent me because every one on the photo is every happy. laughing from the bottom of heart. Although they are not in very fine clothes, they shined something valuable and arresting. I am also moved by Redrose, who is so outstanding. i can't help telling her that I like her. After so much miserable experience, she still have enough confidence in life to present for us a beautiful and unclouded woman. This is a woman who deeply excited me. This is a woman with great courage persuing freedom and hapiness.
this is a woma full of knowledge and wisdom. Here I should say I like her, though I even don't where she is now. I hope she could be happy and happier.

I really like this post..it make me find out the freedom is the happiest in my life...i agree with her...we sometimes make mistakes,but they belong to us,not others's one...the story of her make me cry..but she is well now...hope you get a happy life with freedom...

lekimtoan wrote:I really like this post..it make me find out the freedom is the happiest in my life...i agree with her...we sometimes make mistakes,but they belong to us,not others's one...the story of her make me cry..but she is well now...hope you get a happy life with freedom...

I am RedRose,thank u for ur encouragement!

I also hope u get too much happiness and freedom.for us,life is so short,but we can do our best to make life become shiny and brilliant.I just viewed ur resum,so I know u r from vietnam,I hope that u and vietnam will both get more and more splendid.