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A
Problem
No
One
Studies
:J/ie
American
Male
DeHmma
,
;
ny
SANDRA
GITTENS
NEW
YORK
(AP)
--
Drs.
Anne
Steinrnann
and
David
J
Fox
are
in
total
agreement
-the
male
in
today's
society
is
in
a
dilemma.
.
I
n
a
major
social
study
D^s.
.Fox
and
Steinmann
have
written
from
their
accumulation
of
research
over
the
past
20
years
"The
Male
Dilemma
--
How
To
Survive
The
Sexual
Revolution."
;.Dr.
Fox
says
the
last
seven
or
eight
years
he
and
Dr.
Steinmann
concentrated
on
male
concepts
and
male
roles
"That,
plus
the
feelings
which
ery
one
in
the
last
five
years.
naturally
emerged
as
we
got
more
and
more
data
that
ever
maybe
the
last
decade,
in
society
was
overly
concerned
Â·with
the
adjustment
problems
of
women
but
nobody
was
paying,
any
attention
to
what
.seemed
to
us
the
obvious
im-part-
of
these
same
situations
on:
men.
That's
what
oriented
the
book
towards
men.
We
-could
have
written
the
same
book
on
women
in
terms
of
the
data."
Dr.
Steinmann
says
the
research
goes
back
to
the
time
when
she
was
doing
her
dissertation.
:
Â·
"In
1951,
as
a
matter
of
fact,
'even
before
that,
I
started
to
investigate
the
concept
of
roles
for
women.
Of
what
they
felt
about
themselves
in
terms
of
what
was
happening.
The
traditional
role
vs.
th
eso-called
liberal
role.
The
home
oriented
role
as
against
the
new
career
woman."
MORE
QUESTIONS
What
she
found
was
many
more
questions
than
answers.
Taking
college
girls,
their
f
a-
hers
and
mothers,
she
found
what
women
felt
they
really
were
as
people
and
what
they
bought
men
wanted
in
a
woman.
That's
when
Drs.
Fox
and
Steinmann
found
eacli
other.
Having
the
same
interest,
they
started
questioning
more
and
more
people
--
doctors,
lawyers
all
types
of
professional
people
--
in
America
and
abroad.
"Whenever
we
gave
a
research
paper,
we
found
the
same
.
discrepancies,"
she
says.
"Women
felt
a
man
wanted
a
home
oriented
woman
--
one
to
sit
home
and
take
care
of
the
family.
But
women
also
felt
they
were
entitled
to
a
life
of
their
own."
That
led
to
the
questioning
of
men.
What
did
they
think?
What
was
their
ideal
woman
like?
"And
we
found
that
the
ideal
woman
for
the
men
was
exactly
the
same
as
the
woman's.
So
you
see
we
had
this
problem
that
either
somebody
was
lying
or
somebody
was
mis-projecting
a
feeling
that
he
x
she
had
or
didn't
have
about
he
other,"
Dr.
Steinmann
said.
The
problem
she
says
the
men
faced
was
that
they
wanted
to
be
aggressive
--
the
traditional
aspect
of
the
male
role.
The
man's
ideal
of
himself
was
even
more
outgoing
and
more
achieving,
but
he
felt
that
a
woman
wanted
a
home
oriented
man.
"A
man
who
would
be
around
the
house.
A
supermarket
man,"
she
says.
The
women,
she
adds,
felt
heir
ideal
man
was
aggressive,
maybe
to
some
extent
home
oriented,
"but
actually,
women
said
they
wanted
a
man
like
the
man's
ideal
--
mÂ»re
aggressive.
"The
problem
is
one
of
communication,
I
think,"
said
Dr.
Fox.
"That's
what
we're
really
talking
about.
These
people
were
not
effectively
communicating
to
each
other
wbal
they
would
say
to
us.
And
there
is
discrepancy
between
whal
they
think
or
express
on
the
one
hand,
and
how
they
behave
and
the
bahavioral
cues
they
give
to
each
other.
This
is
the
major
problem
to
which
we
address
ourselves
in
the
las
chapter
of
the
book."
Dr.
Steinmann,
however,
feels
the
gap
stems
from
the
fact
that
women
have
b
e
e
n
Out
In
The
Rocky
Mountains
The
Buffalo
Market
Takes
A
Bullish
Turn
.
HELENA,
Mont.
(AP)
-
The
Â·buffalo
market
is
bullish.
/
H
e
r
e
on
the
high
plains
of
the
-
R
o
.
c
k
y
Mountain
country,
'ranchers
who
started
raising
buffalo
as
a
novelty
or
hobby
"now
find
they
have
some
valu-
'Â·able
beasts
romping
around.
Markets
and
restaurants
are
Bordering
buffalo
meat
in
record
amounts.
-
B
o
b
Schall,
a
Montana
ranch-
Â·
er
--
one
of
a
handful
raising
ibuffalo
--
is
still
kicking
him-
'self
for
liquidating
part
of
his
"Â·Â·herd
in
recent
years.
Prices
are
up,
demand
unprecedented.
"Â·
Great
herds
of
buffalo,
num:
hering
an
estimated
20
million
;in
the
mid-1800s,
once
teamed
this
country.
They
werÂ«
slaughtered
Â·
for
their
bides
and
for
ir.meat
as
settlers
moved
West
.'Historians
said
there
were
only
Â·
551
in
1889
when
the
federal
-government
took
emergency
faction
to
save
them
from
extinction.
,,.
Roy
Houck,
president
of
the
National
Buffalo
Association.
The
rest
are
owned
privately.
Houck,
who
believes
he
is
the
nation's
largest
buffalo
feeder
with,
a
herd
of
3,500
--
not
including
this
year's
calf
crop
-said
there
are
20,000
buffalo
in
Canada.
LIKE
POKER
Schall
said
raising
buffalo
las
been
akin
to
a
poker
game
and
he
lost
one
hand.
"If
1'c
seen
this
(increased
demand)
]
irobably
would
have
fenced
a
ittle
better
and
not
liquidated.'
He
had
about
150
animals
in
recent
years
but
cut
the
herd
to
ibout
50
on
the
6,000-acre
ranch
le
operates
on
the
Flathead
In
dian
Reservation
south
of
the
National
Bison
range.
"I
got
started
in
this
as
i
lobby,
but
the
buffalo
havt
een
real
good
for
the
ranch,'
le
said.
Schall
recently
shippec
some
heifer
calves
to
Idaho
foi
about
$400
each.
He
fans
cus
toraers
in
Washington
as
well
and
in
his
own
region.
TTnilflr
cnrr1
hi
if
fain
Â·
danrtVita
Pound
for
pound,
buffalo
meat
sells
at
prices
25
to
50
per
cent
higher
than
beef.
A
grass-
fed
buffalo
is
slaughtered
at
,'
to
4
years
of
age.
Grain-fed
cattle
go
to
market
when
they're
two.
The
nearly
19,000-acre
Na-
ional
Bison
Range
was
established
in
1908
to
help
perpetuate
a
representative
herd
of
American
buffalo.
The
herd
is
kept
at
about
320
animals.
The
Durham
Meat
Co.,
San
Jose,
Calif.,
lists
Safeway,
Red
3wl,
National
Tea
and
Alber
son's
supermarket
chains
E
large
customers
for
buffalo
meat.
Bud
Flocchlni,
vice
president
and
part
o
w
n
e
r
of
Durham,
said
his
firm
also
has
buff
a
beef
available
by
mail
order
i
relatively
small
quantities.
It
sells
for
$4.90
a
pound
for
boneless
buffalo
steak,
$4.10
a
pounc
for
T-bone
steak,
$2,50
for
roasts,
$2.85
for
stew
meat
am
$1.50
for
ground
buffalo
burger.
Northwest
Arkanwt
H/VUsS,
Sun.,
July
tÂ»,
iV/4
FAYETTtVlLLI,
ARKANSAS
remised
through
their
educa-
on
the
same
opportunities
as
aen.
"They
have
been
out-jobbed
their
homes.
They
don't
have
i
do
the
weaving
,the
actual
realive
work
in
the
home,
heir
jobs
as
homemakers
ave
been
taken
away
by
tech-
ology,"
she
explains.
"When
the
middle
class
worn-
n
started
becoming
educated
le
was
promised
the
fruits
of
chieving
roles
yet
nothing
was
orthcoming."
Dr.
Fox
points
out
that
the
eneration
they
studied
were
etween
the
ages
of
35
and
55.
hey
were
children
during
a
eriod
when
society
In
general
ad
a
different
set
of
ex-
eolations.
DIFFERENCES
"But,"
he
says,
"in
the
last
5
years
as
adults
these
people
lave
accepted
intellectually
a
ery
different
set
of
ex-
ectations.
When
you
speak
to
lem
on-a
verbal
level
they
will
ell
you
these
'
aggressive
ex-
cclations,
yet
then-
internal
still
very
to
specific
eeling-response
is
different
according
ituations.
"Take
for
example
who
is
going
out
to
a
a
wife
meeting
vwho
operates
a
50,000-acre
buf
'
falo
.ranch
w
e
s
t
of
Pierre,
S.
D.,
said
there
are
about
30.000
-Jbuffalo
In
this
country
today
~,About
5,000
of
them
are
on
ref
iiges
or
in
federal
parks
--
1,000
in
Yellowstone
Nation
a
Â·Park,
about
500
in
Wichita
Wildlife
Refuge
at
Cache
''Okla.,
400
at
the
National
Bison
'Range
in
Montana
and
smaller
herds
at
other
national
parks
in
the
West.
Ego
Lift
Needed
WASHINGTON
(AP)
--
Worn
.-Â·en
pursuing
careers
often
have
Â·.problems
stemming
from
tradi
Â·
tional
roles
which
have
kepi
:'them.
from
the
business
world
The
biggest
of
these
problem!
..is
usually
a
lack
of
self-con
..fidence.
...
Jinx
Melia,
a
career
coun
;selor
and
instructor
at
George'
University's
School
for
Â·1
Summer
and
Continuing
Educa
tion,
advises
women
to
givi
a
themselves
a
kind
of
"ego-lift'
'as
they
approach
the
job
mar
:
,,ket.
v
:
Her
methods
for
confidence-
'building
include
knowing
you:
own
abilities
and
skills,
devel
Doping
"support
systems"
tc
"boost
morale,
and
facing
ad
^justments
that
must
be
made
in
i.home
life
when
both
spouse.
work.
She
advises
against
"doing
'ultra-feminine
things,"
such
a
wearing
heavy
makeup,
to
hell
protect
women
as
individual
who
will
be
listened
to.
slaughter
and
the
husband
is
staying
to
mind
the
children,"
he
says.
"The
husband
under-
itands
why
this
is
necessary
le
understands
that
this
is
fair
le
understands
that
his
wife
is
allowed
a
life
of
her
own,
yet
still
feels
a
reaction
that
My
father
never
had
this
im-
osed
.on
him,
what
the
hell,
'm
seen
here
as
a
babysitter.'
And
he
effectively
communicates
both
the
words
and
the
eelings
to
the
wife.
The
wife
therefore
responds
more
thoroughly
to
the
feeling
and
says,
He
really
wants
me
to
stay
lome,
his
acceptance
of
my
reedom
is
a
lot
of
baloney.'"
Both
Dr.
Steinmann
and
Fox
10
on
to
say
that
these
dis-
:repancies
are
part
of
the
wilding
basis
for
hostility
in
marriages
today.
"And
I
want
:o
point
out
that
you
find
the
same
discrepancies
among
college
students
today.
Whether
they
are
reacting
to
this
generation
that
we
are
writing
about
is
something
that
we
still
have
to
investigate,"
adds
Dr.
Steinmann.
Dr.
Steinrnann
and
Fox
have
each
successfully
combined
marriage,
family
and
career.
Dr.
Steinmann
is
a
consulting
psychologist,
psychotherapist
and
lecturer
at
the
New
School
for
Social
Research
in
New
York
City.
Dr.
Fox
is
the
director
of
Research
ar.d
Graduate
Studies
al
the
School
of
Education,
City
College
of
the
City
of
New
York.
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ago.
It
started
on
Wyoming
ranch
where
the
meat
was
sold
to
Safeway
stores
and
then
in
Custer
State
Park,
S.D.,
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one
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Rapid
City,
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noted
buffalo
is
still
considered
"a
wild
animal,"
and
restrictions
are
not
as
stringent
as
those
for
slaughtering
beef
cattle,
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some
people
not
I
knowledgable
about
buffalo
had'
been
critical
of
their
commercial
slaughter
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it
appears
to
be
cutting
down
on
their
numbers."
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is
untrue,
he
said.
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slaughter
annuals
are
surplus
males
and
old
cows.
All
producing
females
are
kept.
I
don't
know
of
any
productive
animals
used
for
slaughter
any
where,"
he
said.
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the
National
Bison
Range
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the
entire
herd
there
probably
could
be
sold
at
a
moment's
notice.
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1969,
the
range
sold
79
buffalo
which
brought
an
average
price
of
$368.48
a
head.
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range
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buffalo
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through
the
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ring
this
year
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an
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