At first I thought, "argh, typical", but then I started wondering if there was even an iota of truth in the off-the-cuff comment. Seriously, decades ago, when ballroom dancing was the norm, women were far more "maleable", I'm told by one of my teachers. These days, he's said before, that many of the women (he was basically painting a picture of me) who were single and working had a really hard time learning to be lead. Have any other guys/girls had this experience and if so, do you think it's an individual thing or a generational thing? Also, how do you think a gal can "learn" to be lead?