"and He will wipe away every tear from their eyes; and there will no longer be any death; there will no longer be any mourning, or crying, or pain; the first things have passed away."Bible~ Revelation 21:4

This page was made to honor the memory of our precious Lila Grace Bower.

She passed away in her sleep at almost three months old. We still don't know exactly what the cause was and perhaps we never will. One thing we do know, however, is that she is safe in the arms of our Lord Jesus Christ. She could not stay, but we will go to her. She was- and always will be..

Feel free to contact us for support if you've gone through this and need a friend. SIDS, or any type of loss (especially that of a child) is a situation that demands support and love to survive. It is a difficult process, but together we can all make it through. Better days lie ahead. It has been two and a half years since Lila passed away. To this day we still don't know if it was SIDS, but then again- even if we were told SIDS- there are a lot of things that can fall under that heading. It's just a label for a death of an infant that cannot be explained by humans. To contact us, just click on the link on the left that says "Click here to contact the creator of this website." You can also find me at www.citymom-countrymom.blogspot.com.