I Want A Divorce – How To End The Relationship

The decision to end a marriage should not be one that is taken lightly. Divorce is very common in today’s day and age, but it will always be an upsetting and difficult process to go through and a decision that will have implications for many years to come. If you think that you want to end the marriage then it can be hard to know how to go about ending the relationship as more often than not it is not a mutual decision. While how you go about finishing a relationship will depend entirely on your own circumstances, here is some information which should help you to navigate the process.

Take Your Time To Decide

First, you need to make sure that this is a decision that is not made emotionally during the heat of an argument. You need to think about the decision with a clear head and speak to friends or possibly even a professional who can offer advice on separation.

Divorce is a huge decision, and you need to make sure that it is right for you. In many cases, a divorce results in a reduction in the standard of living (at least initially), so think about what the future might hold if you go down this path.

Seek Legal Advice

It can be helpful to seek legal advice early on and before communicating with your partner so that you can get an idea of what the process will entail. This will give you an idea of tricky issues like divorce finance, property and children’s living arrangements will look like.

Speaking To Your Partner

The difficult part is, of course, telling your partner that you want a divorce. How you go about doing this will depend entirely on your circumstances and whether or not they have any idea that this was on the cards. The key is to be calm yet firm in your decision and to create clear boundaries early on. If you have kids, you will also need to break the news to them which can be another huge challenge.

Temporary Living Arrangement

It is a good idea to have a temporary living arrangement in place before having a conversation with your partner. The divorce process can take some time, so you need to find a suitable space to live but understand that this is only temporary and that you will be able to start to build towards a new life soon.

Separate Personal & Legal

It is vital to recognize that there are two sides to getting divorced – the legal side and the emotional side. You need to be able to separate these and understand that both areas need a lot of attention as they will have a huge impact on your future. Try to avoid conflict related to either of these as best as possible.

These are the key aspects to consider when ending your marriage. It is a huge decision and one which will have a significant impact on your life and many other peoples which is why you need to take the time to decide if it is the right move and to handle the process with tact. It is then a matter of listening to your lawyer, remaining calm and waiting before moving on with your life.

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