(Closed) FI ditched me for his friends. ugh.

would anyone here be annoyed if their FI promised them a date night and then decided last minute that he was going to go out with his friends? “we can do something tomorrow night honey”….ummm.. yea…sure whatever works with your schedule. I had a long week at work and all day today I looked forward to our date ! I feel like he can be so selfish sometimes and my feelings feel hurt because he wasn’t obviously looking forward to our date as much as I was. uuuuuughhhh. I love him to death but sometimes he drives me crazy.

I told him he was being selfish and that it hurt my feelings. Then, he said” Well I guess I’ll stay home then” and being a girl, I said ” you obviously don’t want to stay, and I’d feel like I was forcing you to stay when you really don’t want to”. so he left. He doesn’t do it often, but he has done it before.

I totally understand your response. At that point, him staying would have made for a horrible date night, right? I’d give it some time and then sit and talk to him about it–maybe in a couple of day. Just tell him how you feel, why you feel that way, and go from there. I’m sorry you’re having a bummer of a night! Can you call up a friend and go to dinner?

thanks for the advice 🙂 yes, I did think of that..but since it’s so late notice, everyone already has plans. Seems like friday night is date night for a lot of my girls. oh well. Contemplating locking him out of our room tonight. is that evil? haha.

Well, that’s just poopy of him! I would definitely call a friend and go to dinner, get a drink, head to the mall, or something. Take your mind off of it now and let him “face the music” in the morning.

hey ladies!! thanks so much for your advice. A friend just saw that I had called, so she called me back and just so happens she is free! We are heading to a late show. It will be good to get a girls night! FI will be home in a couple of hours but guess who won’t be here? hehe. you all made me feel so much better xo