i have the hardest time finding a vest..i usually wear a guys because i'm a big girl with a big chest..i am looking for something that is longer--i want it down over my hips--that has some width to it, but is not bulky..too much to ask i know..any suggestions!

This thread has some good info. I love my O'Neil Law. Like you I don't want one that is too short. This one fits nicely and has room for "the girls". The Outlaw is not USCGA and fits a little smaller than the Law. I tried on dozens of vests and hated most of them. Good luck!