Last night I stayed over my girlfriend’s apt which is about 15 mins away from my college campus. She had to work this morning, and I didn’t have any classes today so I just stayed at her place while she went to work. A few hours after she left I got bored and decided to try to pull up Netflix on her laptop so I could stream it onto the TV. Whenever I unlocked the laptop I saw that her photo gallery was pulled up and in one of the albums I saw a picture of myself. This album contained literally hundreds of photos of me all over campus that I had no clue existed. A few of the photos were even of me while I was asleep at her place a few weeks ago.

What does this mean and how do I go about bringing this up? She is still at work and gets home in about an hour.

Edit: forgot to add that she doesn’t even go to my school so there is no reason for her to be there

zchxn 535

get out

Throwawaylatias 256

OP should run so hard and fast he leaves a person shaped hole in the goddamn wall

This is the beginning of a horror movie

OP should run so hard and fast he leaves a person shaped whole in the goddamn wall

tiedandtamed 16

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StrangeDrivenAxMan 6

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IAmNildo 3

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boros_is_useless 9

NIBBA I WAS RUNNIN

Sdog1981 364

If true this could turn into a potentially dangerous situation. Stalkers do not deal with rejection easily. Makes copies of evidence as quickly as you can. Stalkers don't just do it as a "phase" and she might need some serious psychological help.

YeezyTaughtMe412 135

That’s what I’m thinking too I plan on breaking up, but should I even bring up the fact that I saw the photos? The crazy part is she doesn’t seem like anything is off about her personality wise.

soeasytohate 72

“Hey Babe, i was thinking of making a several hundred photo collage of myself for my mom for Christmas... know where i can find several hundred candid photos of me?”

Sdog1981 71

If you bring it up, be prepared for an unknown reaction. That could make things worse, the hard part here is getting her help, while at the same time protecting yourself.

rj2029x 28

Why should OP even worry about getting her help? They've been dating less than two months. He needs to protect himself. He needs to make up some shit about incompatibility, not ready for something serious, etc and get out.

Sdog1981 11

Think of it this way. She is like a tar pit, he only touched her for a short period of time but she is now stuck to him. He can’t ignore her actions because she is going to keep following him. So by getting her help he can get her out of his life.

rj2029x 5

Or he could just cut off the finger.

It is an option.

Sdog1981 2

The problem is she would be the one doing the cutting.

opheliaaaa888 40

Whether you bring up the photos or not when ending things, I have a feeling you'll get a reaction, either right then or shortly after. If she's been doing this since before you guys were even together, it will continue and could possibly become a stalker situation. There is no winning in this situation, especially if she knows where you live and your class schedule. If you break her heart, this whole thing could get ugly.

Does she have any family or a friend she's close with that you could talk to? Someone who knows her well enough to tell you if this is a normal personality trait that she has in every relationship? Maybe you could talk to her mom, or a sibling, or her best friend and get some advice from them and tell them what you found, so they could help her through the situation and hopefully help you as well.

Take pictures of the album and its contents. Email them to an email address she has no idea about. Keep it there in case something happens.

Take pictures of the album and its contents. Email it to an email address she has no idea about. Keep it there in case something happens.

squeekycheesecurds 18

The stalking is definitely off about her personality

ex_astris_sci 9

Is she a photography enthusiast? Are the photos artistic in any way or straight up surveillance style?

XzXbrockXzX 3

I would do it somewhere in public just to be safe OP .

sr2045 2

Does she like photography? She could just like taking pictures and think you make a good subject? That would really be the only logical and normal reason I can think of

lastplacel0ser 3

He says in the edit that there are candid photos of him on campus even though she doesn’t go to the same college and has no reason to be there

cyancynic 0

I dunno, maybe she is just totally into/infatuated with you?

Its kinda hot.

Sleepy1997 3

I agree. Make a move. ASAP

npeip563 289

This needs an update!

BeaVida33 27

I second this

bigcoolbody 23

Yeah I’mma need to know how this goes

alan-cramer 14

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TatooinesMostWanted 5

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beamerBoy3 6

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TatooinesMostWanted 6

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alan-cramer 2

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TatooinesMostWanted 7

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alan-cramer 4

TBH I don't think anyone does.

deltapat 3

Figuring out how to navigate reddit effectively could be a resume skill

If you like dramas, look for jasoninhell story. He deleted his account but you still find it through Google.

MikeEnslin 123

If you feel violated and disturbed by it, it doesn't matter what her reasoning is. You're justified to end things IMO.

ejohnny11 21

I agree. What she is doing is crossing a line.

YeezyTaughtMe412 22

Do I bring up the fact that I found the photos or no?

MikeEnslin 70

I wouldn't bring it up, simply due to the fact that her behavior could become dangerous, especially if she feels caught or trapped. Personally, I'd come up with a BS break up reason and cut off all contact.

nohoesfonz 4

I second this, but also be easy-going, if the subject doesn’t come up, don’t bring it up. It’ll be fine if you treat her normally. If you still happen to talk to her after, keep it minimal and friendly, then overtime it’ll all disappear like it never happened.

InV_Clutch 4

she might continue taking pictures if they break up without talking about it.

ejohnny11 3

I would. I mean, that's the reason you're feeling weird. It may be an opening discussion for her to find help for herself.

kishi5 2

I wouldn't. If she will be as crazy as to do that who knows what she would do if she found out he knew about the pics ! I'd run for the hills.

oh_whoops_ 1

I would give her the info (I know you already did, but for the sake of the argument for it, I'll explain anyways).

Although it might cause further fallout in the short term, in the long term you could really help her avoid this kind of behavior. I think it's fair to call her out on it, but not in a rude or completely demeaning way. If it helps a future boyfriend of hers not to endure the same thing, that's a win in my book.

Plus, if she didn't recognize the harm in doing that stalking-esque behavior then it could escalate, and she might push the envelope further the next time.

Growmyassoff 2

no! just break up. don't give her any info

Planning4burial 1

I would make a backup of the file you found so you have evidence in case this escalates and you need a RO or something

Shh-NotUntilMyCoffee 2

Just because you feel violated or disturbed by it doesn't mean that you are correctly assuming motive of action.

Really tho we're all in agreement that he has the right to end a relationship with someone whenever he wants, really irrelevant of any reason.

OsrsGoku 1

doesn’t mean you are correctly assuming motive of action

Exactly, we found out that my buddies girlfriend(now wife) was doing pretty much the same exact thing, minus the sleeping photos. She said she took a picture every time she was grateful for him and presented it on their anniversary. Granted she started about a year after they met, not 5 weeks.. I’d say don’t bring it up, but choose a plan and stick with it. You said her personality is great so I don’t think its malicious, but i can’t say for sure.

nyorifamiliarspirit 112

This sounds really creepy.

Are the photos time stamped/dated at all? Is it possible she was stalking you before you got together?

YeezyTaughtMe412 131

Yeah about 10 were before we started dating but we had already met by that point, still very creepy

micn 9

Wait so your saying it 10 photo after you meet but before you was dating are you sure she din't have a crush on you after you meet and took them randomly when seeing you? was there photo before you meet?

oh_whoops_ 7

But it wasn't random, OP mentioned that she doesn't go to the same school as him

these-rmyconfessions 5

Even so, that’s weird. Even if I see someone I know I don’t start taking pictures of them and then saving them to my computer...

WorkReddit_SendNudes 62

Her having a folder of pictures of you that you know of isn't creepy. Her having a folder of pictures that you DON'T know of, is VERY creepy.

Shh-NotUntilMyCoffee 2

As a professional and hobbyist photographer I have hard drives of photos of people most of which people don't know about. Thats literally the heart of photography. Just because she didn't instagram her photos doesn't make photography suddenly nefarious.

It heavily relies on the material on the photos, the time frames they were taken, the quantity of photos etc.

RA_ManInHisPrime 24

The folder is full of just him, and he was never told she was taking any pictures, your experience isn’t useful here.

Treacherous_Peach 0

So not saying it's the case but it's possible she takes thousands of photos as an amateur photographer or something and decided to see which ones had him in it once they got together. If it's a small campus, not unlikely he would be in them.

Shh-NotUntilMyCoffee -19

You can use imagining recognition to designate a face which automatically lumps them into a folder for that person. Even shitty photo software has it, like iPhoto;

Faces
Here’s the Faces feature in a nutshell: By analyzing the unique properties of each face in a photo—nose, mouth, hair color (or lack of hair), distance between the eyes, and so on—iPhoto attempts to distinguish among the people in your pictures and group them together into tidy stacks. Once the setup process is complete, you’ll see these stacks when you click the Faces icon in your Source list.

An idea that was implemented because of how common it is to store photos by people as a sorting mechanism.

You don’t take pictures of someone you just started dating without telling them you’re doing it. Do you not get it? Do you think that’s normal?

It has nothing to do with basic photography, and everything to do with basic respect. She has been taking photos of him like this since before they met, that’s insanely fucking weird, whether she has a photography hobby or not.

Hundreds of photos, in 5 weeks, without saying a word to him. That’s not a photography hobby.

Shh-NotUntilMyCoffee -22

You don’t take pictures of someone you just started dating without telling them you’re doing it.

People literally take candid photos of their SOs all the time wut. Now you're just spouting nonsense cause your last post was retarded.

Do you not get it? Do you think that’s normal?

Lol yes it is. Just fucking google candid photography for like ten seconds and you'll find millions of candid shots of peoples SOs. People do this all the time and have since the invention of photography. Its called candid photography - its literal own branch of photography. Its incredibly common, and photos being candid alone don't prove anything, which is why a bunch of people - people who actually know what they talking about - have asked for more information before railroading some random chick. Things that could actually provide nefarious intentions or not.

Things like photo timeline, crossover shots (are there a series of photos but he only appears in a few select ones she saved), subject matter of photograph (is it a shot of him laughing in the crowd vs a shitty photo of him walking to class, etc.), devices used to shoot, etc.

Hundreds of photos, in 5 weeks, without saying a word to him.

I did a two hour shoot at a lighthouse last month, inclusive of candid photos of strangers, and inclusive of candid shots of my gf, and had over 300 photos from just that set. That's how you're supposed to shoot. You set the trigger to multishot. Especially for candid photos because you are trying to catch them looking good without them posing.

And if you read any of the other posts I said it was suspicious enough to investigate deeper. I know I would.

Very much waiting for your next incredibly uninformed baby rage post. This has been fun.

RA_ManInHisPrime 12

If she had said “hey I’m going to take some candids of you from time to time, just wanted to let you know so you weren’t surprised” what you’re saying might make a difference. She didn’t, and it doesn’t.

My ex took pictures/videos without my knowledge on occasion, maybe once or twice a week. She mentioned that she might do this in passing as soon as we got serious and I told her that as long as I could veto anything I would rather not have immortalized, that I didn’t care.

This chick knew this guy for not even 2 months and didn’t give him the courtesy of even knowing.

Read the update he posted, you’ll see that (shocker) she has absolutely no explanation, and reacts to the entire thing like a sociopath.

lastplacel0ser 7

Uh what? she’s taking photos of him SLEEPING. That’s creepy unless you ask first or at least mention the photos, no matter how good the photo is. As a professional photographer, do you take secret photos of people sleeping? “Please kindly sit down” if you don’t know anything about basic courtesy.

lastplacel0ser 4

OP said in an edit that she took photos of him on campus, but they don’t go to the same school and she had no reason to be there. So, she’s stalking him

JayPetFW 3

It's definitely important whether the photos on the hard drive are all of him, or if she has folders of all of her different friends and pictures not of people too

Shh-NotUntilMyCoffee -1

Its extra important because programs like iPhoto have facial recognition sorting. If you enable facial recognition it gathers all photos of a specific person into a centralized folder;

Faces
Here’s the Faces feature in a nutshell: By analyzing the unique properties of each face in a photo—nose, mouth, hair color (or lack of hair), distance between the eyes, and so on—iPhoto attempts to distinguish among the people in your pictures and group them together into tidy stacks. Once the setup process is complete, you’ll see these stacks when you click the Faces icon in your Source list.

RA_ManInHisPrime 4

Go read the update he just posted so that you feel less inclined to keep spewing this shit.

_Neon_Shadow_ 50

If you break up with her you'd better be prepared if she tries to murder you. If she has pictures of you at school, that means she's been surveying/stalking you for a while. Any person capable of that is not right in the head.

Spoonbills 40

Photograph the folder with the files showing with your phone. I think it might come in handy at some point.

How did you meet?

nyorifamiliarspirit 13

Anyone else getting Jeanette from S8 of How I Met Your Mother vibes from this story?

osTarek 2

Yes indeed

4us7 24

She's obsessed about you. Is it a harmless obsession or is it a crazy one? No one can say for sure. But if she's secretly taking pictures of you, dozens per day without your knowledge, then she's stepping out of line.

If you can't deal with this obsession, then break it off. If you can or want to see what's going on, have a frank conversation with her. Maybe she's planning on a surprise media project for you (idk, seems unlikely but possible).

Some people can become obsessive in relationship due to overinvestment in relationship (usually for those new to dating), self-esteem issues, or other shit.

Sometimes the obsession tones down as the relationship progresses. Other times, it gets worse. That's when you definitely step out.

Partners who obsess with you are usually very enthusiastic in bed though.

bigcoolbody 18

Kinda was thinking the same “I bet the sex is fucking WILD” notion, glad I’m not alone there.

AMB573 24

Holy shit.

kdd20 15

OP - What ended up happening??

EstuaryKingBI 14

I know Reddit hates ghosting but this situation seems appropriate to do just that...then I realize that she had pictures of you before you guys were together so I don't think ghosting would work haha. I would save all of the evidence and have witnesses if you confront her.

RA_ManInHisPrime 12

Run. Run far, far away.

silversages 1

I was going to say that!

mielismydziecko 11

Run.

Ryan_from_Arkansas 10

Bro,that’s weird. You may want to talk to a counselor or something for yourself because that’s gotta be traumatic. As far as she goes, you may want to go no contact and break it off immediately.

littleleathers 10

Going to need an update on this.

Throwawy5jcnskznf 9

I mean, is it possible that a crazy friend of hers did this and sent her the pictures, then she was weirded out about it? It’s super crazy if she did this. If she’s normal otherwise, then I’m wondering if there are potential alternative explanations. Just an idea. I try to give people a little space for explanation.

If she’s got these weird behaviors, why would she casually give you her computer password where she has these creepy pics hidden? Something doesn’t make sense.

cryp2locker 1

Yeah you're right. What if it was just her friend sending her the photos just for the laughs? But still, we can't be so sure about it.

Lets go over the photos mate, because its possibly (though very unlikely IMO) that there is a non-nefarious reason.

First, get the date taken of a sample of photos with you in it - to give you a time frame of how long its been going on.

Was it before or after you met?

How many photos are we talking about?

Next look at the quality of the photos, are they done with her phone, with a real camera, a drone (that would be scary!) etc?

Are you the main subject of the frame in all of them (targeted photography) or are you part of a scene in some, the subject of some, etc.

What are your actions during the photograph. Are they scenes with you in them (like playing ball with friends, or performing in some way etc) or are they candid and non-remarkable, like you blurrily walking to class.

I'm only asking because as a former professional photographer, when I'm doing hobby photography I can take hundreds of pictures, especially ones on campus because schools maintain their property very well (looks great).

After I started dating a coworker I did a personal project where I went back through all of my photos and tried to find any photo I had taken that included her. In retrospect I bet the folder has the same creepy/stalkery vibe, but my intention was just to trace the ways/places in which she came into my life. Its pretty clear from my photography collection where she is part of the scene, when I first noticed how attractive she was, and after I approached her to ask her out.

Just want to do the due diligence before you get a restraining order.

My first and foremost thought is she was thinking you were a fuck boi and tried to PI you.

ohemgee0309 6

If this was a chick saying this, there would be no other comments than: get evidence and run like hell!! Screw gender bias. OP, GTFO, come up with some bullshit excuse to break up, and stay gone.

cskii 5

Could be she's in love for the first time in a long time and likes the way you look. The sleeping pictures could just be a reminder of how she put you to sleep that night. If worried about anything is how can you be sleeping so hard, and she has enough energy to sit around taking pictures. Is she territorial around other women, or does she sit back cause she knows she got you. If you're only in because of the proximity of her place to your class run. If you are in it because you like her; cool, she likes you back.

fists_of_curry 6

homegirl is going to put opes to sleep forever...

mothertoadoggyRAI 5

She sounds crazy. Congrats on the great sex.

SuperDragonYoshi1989 4

Oh no, i think your girlfriend had a crush on you! DRAMA!!

mabelie 4

I wouldn’t bring up the photos but hopefully you made a copy of them. I would also let a friend or two know about the photos.

I’d consider breaking up in a reasonably public place, like a park, where you can still be respectful but she’s likely to behave and not go crazy.

Out of curiosity, were there other people’s candid photos, or just yours?

It's just an obsession. They come in two varieties. Before you know which one it is, relax. Maybe she's just super into you and doesn't know how to deal with those feelings. If it turns out she's creepy then leave. Until then, keep getting to know her and enjoy the relationship for what it is.

DntfrgtTheMotorCity 1

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Skiie 3

well atleast you know she likes you.

thrasherjacobs 2

OP update please! :o(

TatianaAlena 1

He did!

Imperator_Red 2

Crazy chicks are the best in bed tho...

wilczek24 2

I dunno where's the problem? If I had a cute gf, I'd keep her photos on my PC, and probably wouldn't tell her cuz it's awkward. I guess everyone here is overreacting AF. Pretend you didn't see it or bring it up like it's nothing. Maybe she'll tell you sth you don't know.

RA_ManInHisPrime 3

You took photos of your gf that she didn’t know about as soon as you met, and then for the first month of the relationship?

That’s not fucking normal.

wilczek24 0

Nope, I didn't, that's purely a hypothetical situation. But I simply don't think it's a big deal. I wouldn't hide taking the pictures, but I wouldn't say "heyyy I'm taking a pic of you right now, don't mind me!" either.

Honestly, I know a lot people who have a hobby of stalking random people they meet. I don't have any issues with them about it. OP's GF might have a hobby like that and she might have fallen for OP because of it. I'd lie if I said that I have never felt some sypmathy for some redditors after browsing their posts and comments.

Trust me, you personally have been stalked more times than you'd like, and perhaps some people near you also have this hobby. If you went through their photo gallery, you might see yourself much more often than you think.

Back to the point of OP's GF, it might indicate that she is, indeed, as crazy as you all seem to think. But it's not neccesarily true.

DntfrgtTheMotorCity 4

Nah, not normal.

wilczek24 1

Any arguments maybe? Why do you think it's not normal?

bashar_speaks 2

Oh, the melodrama. This is real life, not a Lifetime: Television for Women movie. Just talk to her like a human being. Besides, on the off chance she is dangerous, ghosting her isn't going to make her less dangerous. First things first: secretly copy all of the photos before saying anything, and don't tell her.

librolass 2

Precisely.

DntfrgtTheMotorCity 1

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YEIJIE456 2

Holy shit op just murdered

malcominthemediocre 2

This is super disturbing. Let us know what happens!

Thef2pgamer 2

This is like the plot line of a horror movie.

TheWastelandWizard 1

If you date Yanderes, you get stabbed. Don't do it unless you're prepared for a stabbin'.

Mendoza333 1

Wtf. That's creepy.. she might be planning on something. Or she really likes you?

nixmahn 1

Does any of the photos predate the 5 weeks?

HotCPA_0001 1

Ok. Time to set some boundaries,
This should be a boundary,

k_15s 1

This sounds very creepy and sounds like she is a stalker or having someone stalk you and take pictures. 5 weeks isnt long at all. And no matter how long the relationship is this is never acceptable

thismakeanosense 1

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AndyFlips 1

We need an update on what happens

TatooinesMostWanted 1

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Umaritimus 1

remindme! 2 hours

laffy_man 1

Don’t assume the worst but that’s pretty god damn weird. Talk to her about it, maybe over the phone. There could be an actual explanation for it, does she have any friends that go there? Maybe she saw you couldn’t get your attention and thought it would be funny to take a picture of you? Seriously talk to her, maybe somewhere separate but like talk to her first. Also I would get the pictures as evidence with a time stamp in case it is the worst case scenario but dude just talk to her first. Probably not in person.

zeebout 1

what a funny thing to do... taking 100s of stalker photos of someone. nah. there's literally no explanation needed here.

laffy_man 5

OP did not go into specifics. Just ask her about them. You’re assuming this is 100 different instances, which it very well may be, but she also could just like taking pictures and takes a lot when she does, or uses that iPhone feature that takes a lot of pictures. Idk, I’m not saying she’s not a crazy stalker, I’m saying talk to her first with a plan in mind. It could be completely innocent, but it very likely isn’t.

zeebout 0

he said there are some from his campus- a school she does not attend- before he met her.

laffy_man 3

“Yeah about 10 were before we started dating but we had already met by that point, still very creepy”

That’s what OP said. Again it’s super weird, but there could be an explanation for it, a potentially innocent one. Does she have friends that go to the campus? Could she have just taken a lot of pictures with the iPhone function that takes a lot of pictures? How many different instances are the pictures from?

I’m only saying this because people are so quick to jump to the worst possible thing, and people are rarely as bad as you assume they are. I don’t know everything about the situation. Is she crazy? Maybe but at least find out first, or ask one of her friends if she has any. Don’t just jump straight to break up and restraining order.

zeebout 1

“hundreds of photos of me all over campus” it’s literally in the post. who cares if she has friends who go there? why are they taking his photo, sending it to her, and then she’s compiling it all into a folder?? zero percent chance of any of this being normal.

Katieebabeyy 1

End things.

nate2092 1

Gonna need an update with this!

happywithanh 1

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SciFiPaine0 1

Shes a stalker, not sure how you handle it but this is a sign of a very unhealthy mind. When I say not sure how you handle it btw I dont mean whether to stay in the relationship or not, you have to withdraw contact I'm just not sure how as I've never been in this situation. Dont confuse this for some kind of sign of affection. You should probably consult others (that you know irl) about this you have to be cautious of your safety in this kind of scenario, and at the very least of your privacy

thankyouamigos 1

Is she into to photography? Does she take pictures a lot while you it’s are hanging out too?

juffin_halli 1

OP we need an update

theotherthing_ 1

YOU HAVE A STALKER. SERIOUSLY. CALL THE POLICE. YOU'RE IN DANGER.

sn00p3r 1

Evacuate!

mischief-managedd 1

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Tracyannk28 1

I really need an update on this!

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alwaysevil 1

Get out, get out now! Saw this show, it's called dateline crime! This is an obsession. I wouldn't tell her alone, plan on a public place or to have a friend, or cop, within earshot. Good luck

yeetus--fetus 1

Gather evidence block on everything report her

unknownplayer6969 1

speak to her about it where she can't really do anything drastic. Maybe invite a friend over and ask her into another room to have a chat about it justtt incase she goes tf off.

I never am an advocate for "ghosting" someone, but I think I may have just found an exception to that.... HOLY SHIT DUDE, DIP THE FUCK OUT!

8530683641 1

It shows that she has been stalking you long time and she will not be able to digest the rejection easily so be ready to face arguments when you confront her over this. Talk to her and hear what she has to say and if you think this is not normal and her reaction is out of the way then rethink on your relationship with her. If she has explanation to this and you found it reasonable then it is good.

AkimboMajestic 1

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scarninscrantoncity 1

That’s really scary. I would not mention that when you guys break up

HappyMunchQueen 1

Yikes man
If it makes you uncomfortable, ask her about it in a public setting (cafe, public park, etc) just in case she does react in an unexpected way.

Copy the pictures to a flash drive and get the fuck out, go to the police and tell them the story. Get a fucking protective order. I'm dead serious.

One question, though, for my own personal curiosity: do you knock it down in bed for her?

GuiTariq 0

In my experience it might a "honeymoon" phase of relationship. My girlfriend was madly in love with me and used to take pictures of me too. She always took numerous snapshots of me during our video call, that I didn't know. But it faded away a year into the relationship. We broke up, 2 years later, in the nicest way possible.

I guess, some girls just really love to see their partner's pictures. Yeah, it sounds very creepy, but jumping into the worst possible conclusion is not right either.

Do one thing, take pictures of her while she is almost asleep and she catches you taking it. Then tell her you found her cute, that's why you did it. And then ask her, "do you not take pictures of me like that?". If she denies completely, there is a reason to be concerned. And if she giggles and admits it, then she is just super attached to you.

Floweringpooops 0

Copy them onto a disk drive. Delete them all from her computer. And break up with her right after

LemonGirlScoutCookie -1

I think I would go to the police station to be honest but I'm a paranoid dude. What if she roofied you after you told her you found the pictures and she dragged you somewhere and murdered you. Sounds like the beginning to a horror movie.

FR05Ti -3

You’re 21 now. Get your conceal carry permit. Leave. And be careful. Who knows what she had planned. Better safe than sorry. I wish you luck.

Another_leaf -4

Whatever you do, just understand that there is a real possibility that she will kill you in your sleep if this doesn't go well. This is pretty insane.

That might sound like an over reaction, but don't treat it like it is.

She probably won't, but you should treat the situation like she could.

There are a lot of possible explanations for those pictures, and NONE of them are good.