Sexual rude talk behavior from my teenage boy

Dena - posted on 12/11/2012
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Help.. My son is 15, I have just discovered my son talking sexually rude to girls on Facebook . I have alway made a point make sure he respects girls and be a gentlemen to them or he will not be respected back. I'm worried, he has put himself in a bad place now, he now will be known as the creepy guy that is talk gross to women. How am I going to correct this. Is there help he can get or what. I'm going to take him out of school. To many kids have threatened him. If it wasn't for one of his used to be friends calling us, we wouldn't of caught this. He used to be so good on Facebook and the computer, and then this.. It seems to started in mid November. Does any moms have any advise for me. I am very worried and scared on what is to happen with my not so baby boy.. Please someone help me.

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Jodi - posted on 12/12/2012

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Has he done it since you spoke to him? Were there consequences at home?

Personally, I think what is going on at school is a natural consequence of his behaviour, and if he doesn't like it, he needs to suck it up and learn the lesson. Having you swoop in and save the day by pulling him out of school is teaching him nothing. He needs to learn that all actions have consequences, and sometimes, they are not so nice. What is he going to learn from this if you remove the natural consequence?

It was brought to my attention he is talking sexually to girls, like what he wants them to do to him and what he wants to do to them. They told him to stop too. It's very disturbing reading them, and some of these young girls have boyfriends and want to fight with my son, they even asked my son to stop and he just kept doing it. What he did is wrong. But I don't want him to get hurt. Independent study may be the right thing to do for a while. At least till I find the right direction for him.

What do you mean he talks sexually rude to them? Have you seen his facebook page? Who is threatening him? What are they threatening him with? Sorry for all the questions, but I am not sure that taking him out of school is the best thing for him, but it really depends what exactly has been happening.