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backdoor banana

I am not gay! And me and my girlfriend were having sex and she dared me to stick a banana up my butt hole. Is that bad or what? Well now I kind of like it... Roger

Roger,

First, let me extend a heartfelt thanks to you for clearing up the matter of your sexuality from the outset. Really, we’re glad you felt the need to exclaim that in such a defensive manner.

Now on to your real “problem”: the fact that you like having a banana inserted into your anus. Roger, I’d say other than your extreme bout of homophobia, you don’t have much of a problem at all. It’s normal for a man to find anal stimulation pleasurable, considering all the nerve endings in the area and the fact that your G-spot (the prostate) is hiding way up in there.

I’m not an avid supporter of sticking foreign objects into places they don’t belong, but if you make sure the object (like this banana) is adequately cleaned beforehand and inserted slowly and carefully, it shouldn’t cause problems to the area.

Donald Zimmer

pre-ejaculate problems

I am 16 years old and my girlfriend and I have very regular sex, and we like to tease, touch and fool around. When I am erect, my penis lets out a clear, sticky liquid. My girlfriend is very conscious and scared about becoming pregnant since we are so young, but in a past relationship I had sex without a condom a couple of times and she did not get pregnant. I'm just wondering if there is any semen in the clear liquid, and any possible chance of her getting pregnant by it?

Joshua

Joshua,

The “clear, sticky liquid” you describe is called pre-ejaculatory fluid. Just as a woman’s vagina gets “wet” when she is aroused, this fluid is the male body’s natural way of providing lubricant for sexual intercourse.

Research has shown that this fluid usually doesn’t contain any sperm, although once in a while it might. It does, however, transmit infections, so I urge you to use a condom at all times regardless of the low risk of pregnancy.

You have had unprotected sex before, which puts you at a higher risk of carrying an infection, so do your current girlfriend a favor and make sure you protect her from this risk every time you become intimate.

Donald Zimmer

bleeding orgasms

When I make love to my wife, blood comes out of her without any pain. Most of the time when she experiences an orgasm, she will release blood. Is this normal, and what could be the cause? This even happens long after her period has passed.

Charles

Charles,

Are you and your wife trying new things in the bedroom? Are you being more aggressive or touching her with a little more force than usual? Have you stopped trimming your fingernails?

If you’ve answered no to all these possible reasons for her bleeding during sex, your wife may be facing more serious issues and should consult a doctor immediately. There are many possible reasons for her bleeding during sex, and it takes a physician’s expertise to rule each one out. Some of these possibilities (and I don’t mean to send you into a panic) include cervical dysplasia (precancerous changes of epithelial cells lining the cervix), STDs (like chlamydia and gonorrhea), vaginitis (infection and swelling of the vagina or cervix), and fibroid tumors (benign tumors in the uterus).