I live on the 16th floor of a building surrounded by other high-rises in El Poblado. There’s a cute little pool on the rooftop. The views are gorgeous, especially when the late afternoon sun lights up the Andes mountains.

A few years ago, I met a guy on OKCupid (We’ll call him Patrick) and we went out a couple of times. It was clear from the start that we weren’t romantically compatible, but we decided to become friends.