5 Questions Never to Ask a Pro-Domme

Portions of this article are courtesy of Fet Pro: www.fetpro.com

Chances are, the pro-domme of your predilection hears these questions at least once a week, and it’s like the sound of nails on a chalkboard to her. One of the quickest ways to earn a red flag next to your name is to waste her time and yours with one of these thoughtless inquiries. So save yourself the heartache and banish these thoughts from your mind before you open up a new email or dial the phone.

1. Can I be your personal slave?

If you want to make a positive first impression on the DOMINA KATHRYN, don’t ask one of these questions.

You might as well just tell her that you’re cheap, broke, looking for a freebie, or all of the above, because this question will get you the same response. While some professional dominas do make use of personal slaves, as a rule, they are extremely selective about who they choose for this privilege. In general, a personal slave is someone she has known for a long time through a personal or professional context, and who has earned her trust with deeds, not words.

2. Do you have a boyfriend/husband/significant other?

Whether you ask this question of your hairstylist or a dominatrix, they both can see your sad and creepy follow-up question a mile away. If they want you to know they’re single and/or available, they’ll make sure you have no doubts about it. Otherwise, it’s none of your business.

3. Do you ________ ?

Save yourself the trouble and assume that she’s going to “just say no” to any sexual overtures. You’ll be much better off entering into an encounter with a pro-domme with zero expectations in this regard. In practice, your mileage may vary. But if she knows you’re expecting it, you’re giving her all the more reason to deny you. Then again, maybe that’s what you actually need. Trust her to know what’s best for you.

4. Do you offer discounts?

Very, very few professional dominatrixes offer any type of discount or price break on their tribute. And most will be insulted if you ask. If you don’t see it mentioned on her web site, then don’t bring it up. Otherwise, it’s a great way to get started off on the wrong foot with her.

5. What are you going to do to me?

Asking this question is a great way to get yourself tagged as a wannabe who’s only looking for wank material. When it’s time to discuss possible activities and fetishes she’ll let you know, and more than likely, she’ll ask you to outline a few things you’d like to experience. But don’t expect her to tell you what’s going to take place during your session. For one, this is something she’s going to figure out as the scene unfolds, and she’ll want the flexibility to be spontaneous. But more importantly, she’ll think you’re looking for free phone sex.