We seem to be missing here. There is nothing in an OpenEdge database that deals with relations between tables so nothing you do about the order of load is going to impact your ability to load. Whatever is happening here is not about relations between tables.

The messages you are reporting appear to indicate that you are trying to load a table which is not defined in the database and you say something about the table not being in the .df. If so, that is your problem since loading the .df isn't going to do you any good if it is incomplete relative to the data you are trying to dump and load.

I would try creating a new .df and even connecting both databases and dumping an incremental .df to insure that they are identical before you concern yourself with loading the data. You have to get the schema right first or you will get nowhere.