Having sex in a public place

Desiring sex in a public place might just mean you feel there is excitement missing in your sex life

If this is a recurring reverie, maybe you feel there is excitement missing in your sex life.

The thought that someone could catch you getting down and dirty gives an added element of passion — and it could be that you need to up the excitement in real life.

Romping with a co-worker or boss

This is very common, and you’re more likely to dream about bonking boring Barry from accounts than that sexy new temp, sadly.

If you’re getting it on with your boss in your dreams, you might be struggling with a power play in your own sexual relationship. Try telling your partner what you really want in the bedroom, and not just do what they expect of you.

If you are the boss in your dream, you might feel guilty that you are walking all over your lover in real life, so lighten up.

Having an orgy

You want your lively ideas and sparkling personality to be appreciated, so maybe your partner isn’t expressing their affection openly enough, or you are just feeling stifled.

Don’t immediately invite the neighbours over for an orgy, but start socialising more as a couple. When your partner sees you being openly liked and admired by other people, they will probably take you back home for some one-on-one appreciation.

Sex with a faceless stranger

You’re craving physical pleasure with none of the usual relationship effort, like having to be thoughtful and considerate.

In real life, this behaviour would make you feel selfish, so your subconscious has created a person whose feelings you don’t need to worry about.

Try expressing your own needs more, and saying no to things you don’t like, and you’ll start saying “Yes, yes, YES” more in bed.

Doing it in your childhood home

This can indicate you are yearning for a more carefree time. But by dreaming about having sex on your old bunk-bed, you clearly still enjoy your new adult wisdom and confidence.

Try stripping your relationship back to basics. Go on relaxed dates with your long-term lover and don’t worry so much about the future.