I can’t help feeling that wronged spouses often act too hastily and — dare I say it? — obsess too much about a sexual betrayal that needn’t necessarily spell the end for a relationship. Affairs make us martyrs. As victims, we believe we occupy the moral high ground. We rage and scream at the injustice of our lot. And yes, adultery is wrong. But I believe it’s also wrong to rush to end a marriage in its wake.
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