and I finger her and she loves it but lately I don't feel like fignering her anymore because it feels looser and she doesn't get the same reaction. Also when we actually have sex , I want her to feel good and feel it.

Hey! Okay, before someone else tells you, I'll say it: you don't have to multiple-post, that's what the edit button is for.As for your question, what do you mean it's getting looser? Are you sure she's not just becoming more confortable with sexual contact? I ask because the vagina is VERY elastic and it's not likely she's getting any looser physiologically....after all, they squeeze babies through there...if it didn't spring back, we'd all have to be hung like mutant elephants to ever have worthwhile sex again. I don't think you have anything to worry about, although obviously a woman's vagina can become less elastic over time, but dude....you'd have to be in there up to your elbow 24/7 for there to be any alteration.Don't sweat it, but you probably should find other ways to spice things up....ice, feathers, whatever. Never let sexual contact become mundane!!! That's why God gave you both imaginations