ur:~# ls -l /etc/apache2/sites-enabled/
total 0
ur:~#
hmmm i realy do not know what i'm looking for here... but if i understanded it right i have no sites on my server...

Thank you,
AngelDrago

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No, that means that the default Apache web site isn't available any longer, you know, that placeholder page you see when you access Apache the first time after installation. It's configuration is located in /etc/apache2/sites-enabled/, and it is served from /var/www.
To me it looked like this placeholder page was interfering with the ISPConfig web sites because you had to type http://www.mydomain.com/web1/web/ to access web1.
Your ISPConfig web sites configuration should be in /etc/apache2/vhosts/Vhosts_ispconfig.conf.