The 'Blind Side' actress - who has now finalised her divorce from the motorcycle enthusiast, following revelations he cheated on her with a string of women - is desperately trying to move on with her life and will only have contact with her ex-husband so she can spend time with her stepchildren.

Discussing Jesse's plans to move to Texas with his daughter Sunny, near where Sandra has a home, a source told RadarOnline.com: "The only reason that Sandy gave the green light to Jesse move to Austin was because she wants to maintain a relationship with his children. Sandy loves those children but she has absolutely no intention of getting back together with Jesse, ever.

"She wanted the divorce done quickly, so that she could move on with her life.

"Sandy is civil to Jesse for the sake of the children, that is it. If there were no children, Sandy would have nothing to do with him, period. And he knows that."

After being married to Jesse for five years, Sandra grew increasingly close to his children Chandler, 15, Jesse Jr., 12, and six-year-old Sunny, from previous relationships.

Sandra adopted her own son Louis as a single parent, after allegations of Jesse's infidelities came to light.