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I spent a lifetime trying to understand men and the dating process. The questions that wreaked havoc on my self-esteem were: “Why am I unable to attract the interest of a desirable man.” And “Why do men not ask me for a second date.”

The answer to my relationship problems came to me serendipitously from a girlfriend.

It’s not our fault, as women, that we yearn for the love, devotion and support of man. It’s not our fault, as women, that we fall head over heels for a man who ardently pursues us. It's not our fault we discount a man's deceptive, unreliable, hurtful behavior. Or, is it?

Whatever you worry most about in life, will filter the way you view your life. If the underlying driving force in your life is security, you may accept less than what you want and deserve in a relationship.

You got mail from an online man! Don't blow it by playing your cards too close to the chest. Leila was afraid of looking too eager and so her email to her online man were brief, stoic and unenthusiastic.