Hi everybody i am back. May i just say i hope you all had a very merry Christmas and i wish you all the best for the new year. I have been working out of town and had no access to a reliable network.
Lovesnuffles i just read your post and am thinking of you and the twins. I am so sorry to hear things are going badly. i sincerely hope all this works out and you make decisions that are best for you and the twins. I strongly support not sticking around "for the kids". No good ever comes of this just a lot of regret.

Greg! Welcome back!! I wondered where you had gotten off to ... Thought you didn't love us anymore Lol

Thank you. I think I definitely made the right decision for me and the twins. Since I left him, three weeks ago mind you, he has not asked if the twins need anything, has "tried" to see them once ((But he wanted me to meet him somewhere. I told him get his ass over here and he refused)) and is refusing to give any kind of support for the twins ((And on top of that, he has my old phone so he's also impersonating me over text message!!)).

I am sorry to hear this if only you were in SA i could assist you through the court system. He certainly sounds like a nasty piece of work. Honestly as tough as times seem now you will not regret your decision. Your twins will grow up to appreciate the sacrifice you making now.
I believed the US had a very effective system of child support and keeping bad news fathers like him in check. Dont hesitate to use the law to get what the twins and you deserve.