Gastric Bypass Surgery Support Group

Gastric bypass (GBP) is any of a group of similar operative procedures used to treat morbid obesity, a condition which arises from severe accumulation of excess weight in the form of fatty tissue, and the health problems ("co-morbidities") which result. If you are considering gastric bypass or have had it, join the community where we share our experiences and find support.

Feeling nuts!

So surgery is on Monday and until yesterday I am feeling just fine about everything and then this morning I am just shaking and terrified of the prospect of both surgery and life afterwards. Does everyone have a period of this or am I just nuts? The whole "what if" thing is going on in my head and I am just having a hard time dealing. I can't believe that I went from just fine to feeling like this right now. I need the surgery, and I'll do it, but how do I get my emotions in check to go along? Anybody else have this last minute freak out? I have tried all morning to stay busy, but I just can't stop thinking about it. How do you handle your anxiety?

Anxiety before surgery is normal and healthy. After all, you will be under general anesthetic. But if you have had surgery before with no problem, there probably won't be a problem this time. As for recovery and afterwards, it is a great journey that you will wish you did years ago. Tell them you are really nervous when you go in for surgery and they should give you a Valium. it will help.

Thanks. I know it is just the emotions talking but I just feel it so heavy. I appreciate the support and advice. The reminder of how many are so happy they have had the surgery is a huge help. I appreciate it. I am going to go out and find something fun to do with the kiddos! Thanks!

Oh yes, all you describe is exactly how I felt too. And don't be surprised if after surgery you get a sort of &quot;post surgery&quot; blues. With thoughts swirling, did I do the right thing? oh my, there's no going back, etc. Reminds me sort of like the baby blues. But through all of what is happening you know deep inside that this is going to make your life better beyond imagining. Yes there will be time needed to recover and relearn your new stomach. But in time you'll look back at this is the best gift you've ever given yourself. Hang in there sweety, life marches on and we march on too. I'll be thinking of you tomorrow!! Good luck!!

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