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We all live by “social clocks” — we gauge our lives by all sorts of beliefs that there is a “right age” for this or that attitude, this or that behaviour. We often adjust our own clock — social and biological — to sync with those around us, becoming older or younger in the process. But mindsets are not fate. Just as social cues can make us feel old, other social cues can make us feel and act young. You might be sixty, but fail to understand that you have a girl of the same age (below) in your DNA that is waiting for you to unlock her and allow her to come out and play.

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We don’t stop playing because we grow old; we grow old because we stop playing.

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Happiness and success is always just one thought away. You should remember this when you find it difficult to cope that one thought could change your life. One fresh thought or one new idea can change your life from pain and suffering to success and peace of mind. You are what you think. Your choices that you make on a moment-to-moment basis decide your fate and future. You can never feel or perform better than the ongoing thoughts that you allow to occupy your mind. Your thoughts bring out certain feelings in you. It is the feelings that we experience that create our future successes or failures. It is silly to go around with a negative attitude and still expect positive outcomes to come into your life. The future birthing mechanism in you is your feelings and imagination. Sad or destructive feelings draw in events and people that confront you with more of the same. Our feelings are the alarm system that warns us that we need to change our actions and activities to into more productive thought patterns. We must set new fresh goals and take action to modify our destructive mindsets. The enemy is fear my friend. We are so obsessed about what might happen that we stop creating. New projects, friends or challenges tend to bring out the best in us. It produce fresh energy into your system. The stagnation in the down periods in our lives are caused by a lack of constructive and decisive action.

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We all live by “social clocks” — we gauge our lives by all sorts of beliefs that there is a “right age” for this or that attitude, this or that behaviour. We often adjust our own clock — social and biological — to sync with those around us, becoming older or younger in the process. But mindsets are not fate. Just as social cues can make us feel old, other social cues can make us feel and act young. You might be sixty, but fail to understand that you have a girl of the same age (below) in your DNA that is waiting for you to unlock her and allow her to come out and play.

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We don’t stop playing because we grow old; we grow old because we stop playing.

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Happiness and success is always just one thought away. You should remember this when you find it difficult to cope. One thought could change your life and destiny. One fresh thought or one new idea can change your life from pain and suffering to success and peace of mind. You are what you think. The choices that you make on a moment-to-moment basis decide your fate and future. You can never feel or perform better than the ongoing thoughts that you allow to occupy your mind. Your thoughts are the seeds of your future. You can make a fresh start right now by acting on a positive thought. It is our inability to take action that destroy our hopes and dreams. What are you waiting for?

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Happiness and success is always just one thought away. You should remember when you find it difficult to cope that one thought could change your life. One fresh thought or one new idea can change your life from pain and suffering to success and peace of mind. You are what you think. Your choices that you make on a moment-to-moment basis decide your fate and future. You can never feel or perform better than the ongoing thoughts that you allow to occupy your mind.

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A defeated person becomes indifferent about his fate. He finally stops feeling ashamed or sorry. He stops resisting and fighting to reclaim his dignity. The wise is very aware that passive behaviour could make him act like a dog with a broken spirit. Our parks are filled with defeated individuals that tragically accepted their fate in life

HAPPINESS IS ALL ABOUT BEING WILLING TO BE INNOCENT AGAIN: The fear that something is wrong with you is your greatest obstruction to experience joy. As long as you judge there is something wrong or bad about you, you will see it reflected in the mirror of life. You might feel that others are rejecting you, fate is against you or that God is punishing you, but will soon discover that it is actually you who is condemning and sabotaging yourself.

With this mindset everything in life becomes a struggle. You are constantly putting yourself under severe pressure and feel that you must struggle, strive and fight to prove to others that you are acceptable and worthy. In your mind you feel convinced that others immediately see through you with their x-ray vision and detect all your bad thoughts and serious mistakes that you have made since the day you started playing the game of life.

Because you are always striving to prove that you are acceptable you create ongoing problems for yourself and for the individuals that must share the stage of life with you. The key is to understand that there is nothing wrong with you other than your “perception” that you have of yourself that might be sick. The real “unconditioned self” is still pure and uncontaminated. Your core will always remain pure and worthy.

If you wear a coat or a shirt that is soiled it does not mean that you are penetrated to the bone by this soil. The moment you discard the shirt or jacket you also get rid of the soil. It is your self-perception that is causing the warped self-image that you have of yourself. If you can adjust your perception of yourself you can remove all the soils that you have been trying so hard to hide or justify since your early childhood. It is your perception that you are the soil and unworthy that creates this impression that there is something wrong with you.

Only when you understand that you are not the soils and that all the mistakes that you have made since your birth is not who you really are that you can muster up enough courage to give yourself a break. When you do something wrong and get sentenced by a judge you are given a specific fine. Once you served your time you have paid your dues to society. We for some reason find it difficult to grasp this concept and tend to punish others and ourselves for an eternity for mistakes (sins) made.

A shift in your perception will only come after you have learned to walk away from mistakes and problems once you paid your dues. Do what you can to remedy a mistake you have made and then let go of it. If you open your newspaper and see that a judge sentenced a man that parked illegally to fifty years of imprisonment without the option of a fine it will surely get your attention. You will feel that the punishment is just too harsh for the offence perpetrated. Why then are you doing the same when it comes to your own mistakes and shortcomings? You cannot punish yourself indefinitely for a mistake that you made. A time must come when you say, “This is enough now” and when you are prepared to cease your self-sabotage.

Most of the mistakes that you made in your life were made because you acted to the best of your ability at that given moment in time. It is always easy to use hindsight and to look back at what could or should have been done under perfect conditions. Even if you made a real big deliberate mistake you must still reach a stage where you have “punished” yourself enough. You must forgive yourself unconditionally or your progress and life will grind to a halt at that station in life. Your “train” of life will leave you destitute on a station in the middle of nowhere if you continue to relentlessly punish yourself or others for a mistake that you or they have made.

The show must go on and you must learn to move on and past the soils in your life. You cannot sit and stare at the soils forever and in this way arrest your own happiness and peace of mind. Remember you are not the soil. The soil is on the jacket and not tattooed on your soul forever. Your inner self remain pure and untarnished. If any person attempts to sell you on the idea that your inner self is soiled and that they will clean it for you send such a person on his or her way. This person might seem so pure in his or her desire to help you to become untainted like they claim theyr are, but if you look carefully he or she is keeping his or her one eye on your wallet.

You have a choice how long you want to hold on to your soils (mistakes and sins) in life. You can punish yourself forever or you can take the jacket off before you go to bed at night and make sure that you start with a crispy clean jacket the following day.

Some people enjoy playing the role of a martyr and will continue to live their lives with their soiled jacket. They will later go around with their soil-drenched jacket and feel that life and people in general are against them. The people are not against you my friend, but cannot help to see and sometimes smell your poor attitude you have about yourself. People treat you the way you allow them to treat you. When you arrive with your stinking jacket you might as well wear a sign that reads, “Kick me please”.

Remember it is not God that must forgive you, but you that must forgive yourself. Your inner God core is still in tact and do not need to be sent to the cleaners. Once you have learned this very important principle a lot of other self-defeating perceptions will also become clear to you. You can be your own worse enemy or understand that you are a mistake maker and will remain one for the rest of your life. You also have the authority to forgive yourself and stop seeing yourself as a jacket or the soil. Give yourself and others break and embrace real happiness today!

Everyday you make a thousand choices. You choose what to wear, where to go, who to meet, what to eat and what to do. MOST IMPORTANT OF ALL, YOU decide WHAT TO THINK. One thing is sure and that is that your day will not be better than your thoughts. ...................
Just close your eyes for a moment and see if you can visualise this open toolbox and if you can see the hundreds of tools that are neatly placed in this toolbox. Now look if you can see the maker’s name on these tools. The creator of these tools (thoughts and perceptions) is you. You created thousands of thoughts and perceptions (tools) about everything since your childhood. ..................
When confronted with any situation or problem you reach into this toolbox and take out what you think the most appropriate tool would be and then attempt to fix the problem. It is estimated that your mind thinks at least 2,500 thoughts an hour. Every thought that you think is a tool (perception) that you have that you imagine would work best under specific circumstances. This thought process continues day and night and will do so for the rest of your life. .....................................
I am convinced that we think ourselves to a standstill. We never stop playing with these tools in our toolbox and can hardly ever really relax for a while. If we are not faced with a problem or task that needs completion we still continue to take out these tools and mentally rehears and contemplate how we will use them should something that we fear become a reality. ............................
We are forever thinking and scheming and never become still and tranquil inside. Our bodies might seem relaxed, but deep inside our heads this thought process continues churning around. What I am most worried about is that most of the tools that you have in your toolbox are very old and outdated. .......................
Many of the opportunities, problems and obstructions that you face daily cannot be repaired while you are using old and outdated tools. If you take a modern mechanic’s toolbox and you place the toolbox of a mechanic of fifty years ago next to it you will find that there are major discrepancies. When you are confronted with something that needs repair and you do not have the right tool for the task at hand it can be very frustrating. We usually improvise and try using some other tools and hope that it will also get the job done. ........................
When you are faced with a problem you need to select the right tool for the task at hand. If you do not have the tool in your toolbox it can complicate your life. What most people seem to ignore is that it is sometimes better not to reach for your toolbox when faced with a problem. Sometimes you need time to pass or need to leave the problem with its rightful owner. How well you use your tools is usually reflected in the world you see around you. What would you do if you were faced with any or all of the following? .........................
You get a flat tire on your way to an important customer or meeting. You can fall apart, develop a migraine and think that life is against you or you can take out the right tools (patience and reality) and take care of the problem in a relaxed manner. ........................
You have been working on the computer for hours and suddenly lose all your work. You can drop dead with a heart attack; think that God hates you or you can take out the right tool (sanity and reality) and begin over and this time remember to make a backup of your work. ....................
A lover or wife possibly cheated on you. You can go crazy and get an assassin to take out the potential threat to your relationship, think that you are a failure or you can take out the right tool (no fear of loss) and get on with your life. .......................
When you have the right tools in your toolbox it makes life a lot easier. The choices we make are vital in our lives. The more quality choices we make during any given day the higher the probability of success and peace of mind. ................
I suggest that you equip your toolbox with the best tools you can lay your hands on. It is important to upgrade if you discover that one of your tools are outdated or that a more modern version is available. How would you react if your TV packed up and a technician that obviously knows very little about electronics arrived at your house with only a sledgehammer and a few other primitive tools in his toolbox? I am sure that you will send him away and find someone better qualified and equipped for the task. .....................
You might sometimes be like this incompetent and poorly equipped technician indicated above if you do not often update your tools (thoughts) in your toolbox. You can also have all the right tools in your toolbox and never use them because you are afraid that you might make a mistake. ..................
You must remember that happiness and success is always just one thought (tool) away. You should remember when you find it difficult to cope with something that one new tool (thought) could change your life. One fresh thought and one new idea can change your life from pain and suffering to success and peace of mind. ........................
You are today what you were programmed with yesterday. The choices that you make on a moment-to-moment basis decide your fate and future. You can never feel or perform better than the ongoing thoughts and feelings that you allow to occupy your mind! .......................
The mistake we make is that most of us live our lives on a reactive basis. We start and complete our day in a reactive state of being. Something comes to our attention via our five senses or via a thought in our mind. We automatically slip into the “role” that we created for ourselves many moons ago. We act, react and experience the same feelings and emotions that we embedded with our scrip at its inception. We do exactly the same when new stimuli push the previous “drama” off the stage in our minds. We sustain this reactive mode of thinking until we finally go to bed at night. Most of our days are made up of a tapestry of “roles” that we played in our own colorful way. It is important to understand that nothing is going to change until we do something different. We cannot repeat the same old recipes and expect a different outcome. ....................
You can use the “Portable Life Skills Wisdom” book to develop a range of appropriate scripts that you can use when you are faced with a problem or project that need your attention. You will if you apply the scripts in this book find that you no longer run your life on a reactive basis. The new scripts will help you to live your life in the moment. You will become more realistic. You will treat each event on its own merit. How do you do this? ......................
The Process ....................
Read the first message in your book. Write it down if at all possible. It will assist you to absorb the data provided. Now sit back and close your eyes and visualize how you will apply the specific message in the various areas of your life. See yourself on the screen of your mind using the message in all your day-to-day activities. It is important to attempt to feel and experience the benefits that this new mode of thinking will bring into your life. Do this for ten minutes. Then open your eyes and begin to apply the wisdom on all occasions where appropriate in your activities on that given day. ...........................
Proceed to do the same with second message etc. in your book tomorrow. You will upload almost a thousand powerful recipes if you sustain the process indicated above. You can in less than three years upload a powerful “tool” system that will serve you for the rest of your life. This can be a life changing experience if you apply it daily. You will discover that the ten minutes you invest daily will upload countless new strategies into your subconscious computer. Build a successful and happy life. The key however is action. You can have the best tools available to man and still fail if you don’t use them daily. Wishing you the very best with this endeavor. .............................
Daily Support System (This Blog) ................
You not only have the massive key ideas in the book that you can use when appropriate you also receive daily posts on a wide range of subjects that will expand this system to a level never offered before. Visit this blog daily for fresh new ideas with a sprinkle of historical wisdom that stood the test of time. ..........................
Rene