I'd love to know what Chinese marriages are like. For instance, is it very common for husband and wife to argue a lot? Who usually wins? Are Chinese husbands and wives very happy with the married state? Is it like in the United States where marriage is an equal partnership with love, rather than a man as head of household/woman as secondary role. That seems very old fashioned to me, though I'm not judging. It's just not something I would feel comfortable with. I think Chinese relationships would be modern, especially with younger people who have access to social media. However, not so sure about the more well established relationships/marriages, such as with people who grew up in the 1950's and 60's. Maybe those marriages are more traditional. It's the same way here in America as typically older couples have more traditional marriages or at least did during the early years.

Tell me what you know about Chinese love, relationships and marriage. What roles does each person play? And, is it similar to Western marriages?

For thousands of years, arranged marriage was very common and marriage was more like a business arrangement - with emphasis on man being provider/bread winner and woman being the care giver/mother/homemaker. Then the 1980 Marriage Law was introduced in China that emphasized one's right to pick a partner of free choice (that is without arrangement). This law stressed equality of genders in marriage as well as setting some common sense guidelines for marriage- such as marriageable age for a man being 23 and for a woman being 20 years old. They stress late marriage and late childbearing too, another policy to help control population. As for whether or not the spouses argue, that is usually a private matter- as in any relationship and likely dependent upon each person's love or tolerance for the other.