AlrightHe doesn't want to get back together but you kiss and cuddle when hanging out? Stop that, don't allow him to kiss and cuddle up with you... if he asks why, it's because it doesn't feel right because you're not in a relationship anymore

NoIf I was you, I wouldn't be convinced. Just don't let it happen, if he really wants to get all touchy, Say No, you're not a couple anymoreIf he loves you still, you two better get back together again..

You should only kiss, cuddle... if you're in a Relationship... I don't think you're a friend with benefits...You should put up a wall against him and not allow him to do it to you...He doesn't want you to get back together, but he still feels like being all touchy? that's contradicting

No idea, because it's cotnradicting...So it's to you to build up a wall, so he can't get touchy, and if that bothers him, you can tell him that you don't want it to happen because you aren't in a relationship... then he should bring it up, then he should give his "reason"

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The only thing you can Try with this kind of Guy, who Obviously has Cold duck feet here, dear Is: Tell him you are looking to just hang out, no strings attached and friends is fine.If this doesn't work, move on to someone who hasn't got his head in the water or at least is willing to take a plunge At... Dating, maybe mating.Good luck. xx

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He's good with hanging out I just don't get why he doesn't want to date me if he clearly has feelings for me

He is most Likely afraid you both could end up in this complicated relationship that he is Not ready nor raring to get himself tied into.. I find that if he likes you as you say, then Dating, setting down some ground rules should be administered but if he chooses not to, he is not worth it. xx

We'll last time I asked him how he would feel if we got back together and he said I don't want to get back together now. I didn't know what that meant I took it as not now maybe later. What's your take on it?