Sexual likes, fetishes, attitudes and world views are often formed in adolescence and early adulthood. The children of baby boomers are the first generation that grew up with ubiquitous and high quality porn during that crucial formative period. I myself went from old-style porn in my early adolescence to ubiquitous high quality porn by my late teens.

Previous generations of men in human history, at best, had non-ubiquitous access to low quality porn. That is no longer the case.. Even a basement dwelling guy can now enjoy more visual stimulation than sultans, kings and emperors from previous eras. Moreover, many developed countries now have relatively inexpensive and safe escorts- or you can travel to places that have them.
From my own experience, I can say that- My porn + escorts + available flings lifestyle could not have been possible in a previous era, even the early 1990s. Between porn and escorts, I can essentially ignore suboptimal women.

Many old-timer escort users are very impressed with the quality, low-cost and willingness of the current generation of talent. Wonder why things changed for the better? Did you know that escorts in the late 1980s charged 300$/hour and let you come just once. After 30 years, they are 200-something $/per hour and let you come as many times as you can or want. Condom-less BJs and french kissing (but not condom-less penetrative sex) are now standard.

Many of my more kinkier demands were both reinforced and facilitated by porn. For example- I would not have spanked so many women, made them take it up the ass, had threesomes or demanded rimming, teabagging etc without the ready availability of porn that normalized it. This change in the availability of non-traditional sexual content and opportunities has coincided with the evils unleashed by feminism (hypergamy, political correctness, sexual harassment, obesity, family court, divorce laws). There are fewer and fewer men left who still want to play by the old rules. I certainly do not want to.. do you?

Throughout human history, women had one principal leverage over men- the possibility of sex. However this leverage requires some preconditions-

a. Acceptable and competitive sexual attractiveness.

b. Reasonable availability of mediocre sex.

c. Stigma on fapping.

d. Life-long livelihoods for men.

e. Laws that were not generally unfavorable to men.

As some of you have probably figured out- all those preconditions are in tatters. While older generation of men are still trying to resurrect the dying ways and mores, it appears that the younger generation of men who were exposed to ubiquitous HQ porn, new sexual opportunities and the negative effects of feminism are not playing by the old rules and expectations.

I believe that HQ and ubiquitous porn is the main ingredient precipitating this change. It is one thing to see a professional occasionally take it up the ass. However being able to see an unlimited number of professionals and amateurs do anything and everything at your convenience and whim is something without parallel in human history. Remember you can always find an amateur who looks much better than your woman and is doing stuff that your woman refuses or sucks at. The very existence of such information is as disruptive than the acts or body parts depicted in any photo or video clip.

It is unlikely that such a major change in the sexual opportunity, availability and information scene won’t affect human behavior or attitudes.

I’m glad to see an avid consumer of porn acknowledge that yes, the ubiquity of pornography has wrought great changes on the sexual landscape. Whether those changes are for good or ill may be a matter of debate, but they have undeniably occurred. I say “undeniably”, but in truth there are lots of young men out there protesting: “What’s the big deal? It’s just porn. It hasn’t affected anything.”

I think the key to men actually winning the gender war is to embrace things like pornography, masturbation and escorts. If you take the power of sex away from women, what do they have? They will be forced to actually try to become decent people if they want any attention from men.

I’ve known this for years. Personally, masturbation literally makes me sick for a day and I can’t fathom the thought of watching porn anymore, but it does save you from wasting your stamina by fucking the wrong people. Add strippers to the mix, though and there you have a winning combination, which will refute any reason of making women more than what they are. Because that’s all they are; women (humans).

It has changed me, though I would say that it’s not a good idea to learn how to fuck or learn new techniques from watching porn.

There will be less and less incentive for men to choose the PUA lifestyle, as these game changers will offer similar gratification without the investment in learning “game”. Nature chooses the path of least resistance.

Being a Gen X’er, even I can tell the difference. There is no longer any awkwardness in walking into that section of the video store. Now, you check your email, pay your bills, read the news, and before getting ready for bed, you can treat yourself to whatever suits your fancy at that moment. Particularly for those of us who would not be able to engage in that sort of variety in “real” life, it is a welcome diversion.

Plus, it certainly is less costly to society than what women do – which is rather than just indulge in fantasy, they actively toss out the men in their lives to go for someone who they believe will give them higher social status. The experiment of children being raised by strangers has resulted in tremendous negative costs.

Gen Y’er here. I don’t know about Gen X’er’s experiences but I can tell you guys my own. I’m 21.

First, the stigmas against masturbation, prostitution and lifelong bachelorhood are either completely gone or vanishing fast. I’m taking Adv.Diab’s advice and heading to Amsterdam this summer. I’ve got enough to treat myself to eight hookers. I want them to be the hottest women I’ve ever seen.

I somehow by pure luck managed to lose my virginity years ago, but it’s been five years and I haven’t gotten any action whatsoever. And mostly, I’m not motivated to pursue. Every semester I have a chick who checks me out in some way. I approach, I ask out, I act confident, which I am to a certain extent. Usually the girl flakes or puts up shields. At that point I lose interest completely. Do I care? Nope. I probably wanked the night before so I am completely unturned on by her real live body.

I do not see women (or men, or animals etc…) in a sexual light at all. The last time a girl turned me on was the last date I went on, where I thought I had a shot at her. Turns out she pulled some bi-polar psycho crap on me and I haven’t been searching since. Before that I don’t remember the last time I saw a real woman that aroused me.

I’m not into superficiality, flirting and small talk. I like deep stimulating conversations and find it very difficult to relate to girls my age. Many seemed to have stopped maturing beyond age 12, and the one’s who have are fugly. The hot ones are all dating guys with tan skin and black hair. Blond blue eyed guys are not considered “hot” in our popular Jew culture.

“Blond blue eyed guys are not considered “hot” in our popular Jew culture.”

You had me until this last bit of nonsense. As an Indian male in college during the early 1990s, I routinely saw Indian and Asian women choose blond-haired guys.

Deus

April 14, 2011 at 7:45 pm

I’m talking about white women and their preferences.

It’s well known Asian women love blond men. I know that and plan to use that when I move to Asia some time within the next few years.

I didn’t know about Indian women, some are hot, Ill see if I can get a piece of that but by and large, white women are not as attracted to blond men as they are to darker skinned blacks, Arabs and latinos (at least here in Europe)

It’s so amazing that the average middle class guy (or even lower middle class) has a better life than kings who lived in the past. Longer life, the ability to afford up to 1 escort a week, no worries about kids with effective birth control, better food, etc.

The only reason why I have not gone to an escort in the USA is that I am afraid of embarrassment, like if my family found out. Embarrassment is a good deterrence unfortunately.

You are dumb my friend, but you will not realize it until it is too late. Women do have one thing over you, the ability to have children. They can buy sperm and get preggo; even the mediocre and/or fat bitches. And when you are 45 and thinking about your legacy, you will buy a womb or pay a surrogate. So keep getting your ass rimmed and keep “making” girls get anal from your nasty weenie. Porn will rot your soul and it will show on your face and you will be ugly so that no woman will fuck you unless you pay her a lot of money. Men like you will NEVER get it,

Well…as a 58-year-old (married nearly 35 years, with several kids by his wife) who’s done some observing and listening through the decades, I know that NOT every guy wants children; and, that a lot more guys than might be expected have kids primarily because a woman to whom they’d long-term committed decided she wanted kids, or, because social “norms” pressured those guys, but not because those guys were eager to be fathers.

So, even if Lori’s criticisms and conclusions were otherwise accurate, for plenty if not many guys, especially those born since the societal changes of 1990s, it wouldn’t matter, since they’ll feel little pressure to have and do little thinking about a “legacy”even when they’re 65.

Lori is funny.
Men in demand for their looks, money, status …
have women offer them sex for free, all the time.
Regardless of whether they watch porn.
e.g. Dan Bilzerian …
p.s. his lawyer sent off half-Asian porn star Janice Griffiths, pretty well…