We received a refund from CS, it financially hurt BM.

So someway, somehow $650 of our income taxes was paid to CS. Well dh called and they confirmed then sent it back to us. The money had already posted to CS and they took it from BMs account. She calls and says she needs the money back to pay her bills. Now her phone is all of a sudden off and we have dss for the weekend, but no way to contact her. I honestly laughed at her. Um we need the money too, plus it isnt owed to her. She gets $200 a month (I'm aware thats not alot at all) and claims she doent need it because she has her own business. So why is she asking for it back?

Are we wrong for not giving it to her? We have a child of our own and one on the way...

Rj- She really thinks dh was wrong for calling. She says it would've helped his son.

She got hit with alot this week. Her payments were lowered because his arrears we paid off (she went from $50 a wk to $30 a wk) and then this happened. Now she'll probably keep dss us from us. They're up for review in Sept and we have 2 kids now.

Why is he only paying $200 a month? You said he just got out of arrears. In my state you can't raise child support if they're behind so that sounds like HIS fault the amount is so low. Roughly $50 a week omg that's nothing. I certainly hope you have more visitation than eowe and that's why its so low! If that's all it's set at he should help bm more!