The Unlonely Woman - Issue 8

Ahhhh
orgasms. Nothing beats an orgasm. Male orgasms are often made out to be something that always happens and that is so important, yet
we very rarely place an emphasis on the female orgasm. Why is this? Are woman’s
vaginas not as important? Do we live in a world where we as woman having an
orgasm is simply not important?

I’m sorry
but no. Let’s talk about this because for a long time I thought mine didn’t
matter because we didn’t learn about it in sex ed, and to be honest, growing up
my friends were embarrassed to talk about masturbation. I remember when I told
my mates I masturbated, and they looked at me in disgust and gave me shit. They
orgasm shamed me. However last year I found out they were doing it to.

A woman’s orgasm
is just as important as a man’s. No ifs or buts about it.

So, what’s
my experience with men in this field? As you can probably tell I’m an extremely
open person, so I really have no problem with pulling a boy up on his shit. Up
until September last year I never had a one-night stand and I had never pulled
a man up on not getting me off, even though I got him there.

So, let’s
get down to it. I had been talking to two men for a bit. We went on a date (two
separate dates), things were great. I decided to go home with them both
individually. We start doing the deed. No warm up what so ever. They had
finished and then these mother fuckers rolled over. Now, I don’t know about you,
but I won’t stand for that. So, I laid there in bed for a couple minutes
working myself up to say something. I turned to them and said, “so do you not
normally ask if the woman finished or at least offer?” Both boys’ responses
were “oh I don’t know”. I said, “you either do or you don’t”. They both replied,
“I don’t know”. Fair to say I never heard from either of these guys again.

Like come
on now are you that selfish that you can’t just finish a sis off? Like since
when is sex a one-way thing. Ladies grab yourself by the ovaries and stand up
for your vagina. I know she has lips, but she can’t speak.

I have had
a friend tell me her sex stories. It’s the saddest thing. Let’s call her
Mariah. Mariah told me that her boyfriend and her have sex, but he never ever offers
to go down on her or even just use his fingers. She put’s in all the work.
Another friend of mine has never had an orgasm from a guy ever. She can get herself
off, but a guy has never got her there. If you are in a relationship with a
lady like this, you should at least try! Don’t do any half ass shit. Go in there
and figure out what works. A vagina is complex at the beginning but once you
know what works, you’ve got this. I feel like this is such an important point
but if you expect a woman to go down on you, well you best be willing to go
down on her.

If your man
isn’t doing shit pull him up on that. Imagine if you marry this person and you
never have an orgasm because you never stood up for your vagina? Men if you are
reading this and are one of these men who only care about getting their dick
wet. STOP. You know how you love to orgasm, well guess what, so do woman. Stop
being so one sided with this stuff. Put in the hard work and it can be
something beautiful.