am nine weeks pregnant today. I have no sex drive at all, I think its mostly because of how icky I feel, but also I just have no desire. Im sure this is normal, but I need something to tell my husband. idk if its the hormones making me say this, but he's been a real douche abot me not wanting to or not feeling well enough to have sex with him. it really makes me feel terrible and hurts my feelings, I need to tell him some facts to prove that im "nit putting out just to be a b###h.

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1 Replies |Watch This Discussion | Report This| Share this:no sex drive: first trimesteram nine weeks pregnant today. I have no sex drive at all, I think its mostly because of how icky I feel, but also I just have no desire. Im sure this is normal, but I need something to tell my husband. idk if its the hormones making me say this, but he's been a real douche abot me not wanting to or not feeling well enough to have sex with him. it really makes me feel terrible and hurts my feelings, I need to tell him some facts to prove that im "nit putting out just to be a b###h.

Honestly, I haven't had morning sickness but I have been too tired to be horny the whole 1st tri. It was all I could do to stay awake until my older kids were in bed before I crashed. I will say... I am 13w today and the last few days I have been feeling so much better! Actually energized! Not sure if it is mental or if it is really true that things get better in the 2nd tri. I hope your DH can be patient and I hope you start feeling better soon!

KimberlyDS - 8, DD - 6, EDD 10/16/2013 (Green Team)

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Report This| Share this:no sex drive: first trimesterHonestly, I haven't had morning sickness but I have been too tired to be horny the whole 1st tri. It was all I could do to stay awake until my older kids were in bed before I crashed. I will say... I am 13w today and the last few days I have been feeling so much better! Actually energized! Not sure if it is mental or if it is really true that things get better in the 2nd tri. I hope your DH can be patient and I hope you start feeling better soon!

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