I love my new partner dearly and I truly do not want to hurt them by straying with my former colleague

Afterwards I felt bad, as I don’t want to become a home-wrecker.

Since that night he has texted me, saying he would like us to have a repeat performance.

But I now have a new partner, who I love dearly and do not want to hurt — although the sex is not brilliant, just OK.

My partner always wants to do the same things in bed and I am starting to find it dull. I have told him time and time again that we need to mix stuff up but he doesn’t want to. Meanwhile I cannot get this other guy out of my head.

I really want to see him again but I know I would not be able to handle the guilt for cheating on my partner.

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HALF of men aged 40 to 70 have erection problems – and this is increasingly common in younger men.