Keep Your Chin Up!

If you’ve been following me on twitter, you might’ve noticed that I haven’t been the happiest lately.
I won’t dwell on to why that is the case, but I guess this post is dedicated to every single one of you out there who may be feeling down at the moment. I know the feeling. And this is just to remind you that you are not alone.

Even after the darkest night, morning will always come.

This is something that I continue to remind myself every time something brings me down. And we have to remember that this world is filled with balance. Day and Night. Water and Fire. Earth and Sky. And I believe it is the same for the things that happen to us. For every sad thing that happens; something good will too.

So even though it feels like nothing is going right at the moment. And even though it feels like no matter how hard you try, those tears just wont stop. Remember that this won’t be forever. And hold on just for awhile more and things will get better. Just don’t shut your eyes, because you’ll never know when morning comes if you do.

And not to mention, if you ever need someone to talk to, you can always email me: melludee[at]hotmail.com
Sometimes, talking to a stranger works wonders ♥

♥ ♥ ♥Tell me something on your mind

Mine is the above and I really do live by it.Thank you to every single person that asked if I was alright on twitter ! I love you all. And I miss the blogosphere so so so sooo much. Everyone, please expect to see a letter or a package from me sometime in the near future!

I have been so MIA from the internet for the past few days. I didn’t get to catch up to see how all my buddies are. Sorry to hear that you haven’t been feeling well. I was sad recently too, and I thank you for talking to me. I a here if you ever need someone to talk to ♥
Hmm something on my mind. I’m actually glad that nothing is atm~ Free from stress.

Enjoy watching Madeline now :)
And I hope you continue to soldier on to be happy!
Lotsssa love, Gerry.

Aww, it’s okayyy. I’ve been MIA lately too ! I miss talking to you heapsss <3
And thanks for that Gerrryyy, I think I should write you an email or something soon heh. Just because I miss you that much <3

This relates to me soo much this past week..
It feels like everything that I do isn't right.. or what I do is never enough..
Everyone who had been close to me for years I feel like I have lost..
I'm so stressed and depressed these days.. I just feel like staying in bed and never getting up. :( Nothing for me seems to be going right.. and seems like it gets worse and worse each day + my hw pile seems to get bigger and bigger everyday :( I don't think I've done anything wrong but..*sigh* I'm just so sad these days and so unmotiated to do anything :(

omg LOL i wrote too much.. I'm probs just being overdramatic about everything..but yeh.. :/

Aww, don’t think that way !
You’re not being overdramatic at all :( ! If you want, you can always talk to me about it !
But yeahh, try not to stress too much <3 Things will eventually get better soon mhmm ? Try think about the positive things xo

Aww Melody I feel so bad… I had no idea that you’ve been feeling down :( But what ever it is that has caused you to feel this way, I hope you stay strong and become cheerful again very soon <3 You know I love you dear, I'll be here if you ever need someone to talk to!

oh, I’m feeling down atm too TT^TT
I feel want to cry! sob…
I just got a surgery week ago and my BF was so mean the day after! he said such a painful things and shout at me =(
I don’t think our relationship will last. and some ppl keep stealing my pic on blogspot without even ask and they didn’t even write the credit… aaah I haaate it >.<
I tried some IP blocking too for those stealers but they won't stop! aaw.. =(

hey melody, i miss you so much from the blogosphere! I don’t have twitter so I never follow any of your updates there. :( As far as I am concern, this relates to me so much for the past week, didn’t have anyone to talk to but only suck it in all to myself, saw a couple of comments too who went through the same. :)
remember you always have us, random people who will always be there to support you <3

Mel, your post comes in at the right time. I haven’t been feeling very well the past few weeks. Felt (still feel) like crying more than half of the time. Stress, personal issues, tiredness, just a mere sense of losing myself while trying to do good to others, all this is causing me confusion and sadness. But I still believe things will get better, your post is an imaginative pat on the back. Thank you hunnie.

Hehe, I was happy posting, but then later yesterday was sooooo opposite. Lately it’s been a roller coaster: something good happens, something equally bad happens. Something awful happens, something equally amazing happens. Yesterday we were all set to buy our dream car. It was a 2007 Prius Hybrid, with TONS of features, including the back-up camera, and for around $17,800! On another lot we found the ’08 version minus the amazing features for like, $19k something @__@ But of course, since I don’t have my license and my boyfriend’s credit isn’t as good as mine, we had to walk out. After being there for what, 3 hours?? Waste of time… and we might’ve lost our chance on a SMART car deal for $14,500 out the door. :(

For a while you’re happy, then the same amount of time passes afterwards with everything going wrong. I guess that’s life right now, but hopefully everything will be a lot better soon for all of us! I’m sorry for the long rant >_<;; Feel free to rant back at me LOL

Right now, my boyfriend is pretty much passed out on the floor. I think I'm going to sneak out and surprise him with pho. That'll definitely boost both our spirits back up I think. :)

Ahh FEEL FREE TO RANT AT ME ANYTIME <3 By email or comments or anythingg :3
I’ll be sure to take up your offer when I need it teehe. And ahhhh, life seems to be filled with roller coasters ;__; Lets just hope we don’t fall out of our seats ahhaa. But mmmm, pho …damn, I’m kind of hungry lol xD

Awwww :(. This post made me sad. But happy. I don’t know. BALANCE I GUESS.

But you are one of the sweetest virtual friends I have, so I hope all is well. You’re so right – everyone gets the blues. I hope yours go away. Stay happy and optomistic about life. Look at the sun. Smile at strangers.

Great post Melody :) And very well written too. I have to agree with a lot of the things you said. Sometimes things go the way we want them to and other times they don’t, but I am a firm believer as well that everything happens for a reason. We can’t control how things will happen so we can only do our best to cope when the time comes. Glad to hear you are still so optimistic despite what happened :)

Hey Melody sorry to hear you haven’t been feeling very well. I know we aren’t really that close but if you need anything/ someone to talk to I’m here for you. I had depression for a good 7 years so I know the feeling and I have escaped it so my entire life is kind of proof that all bad things end. I truly believe the happiness was worth waiting for.

It is a really bad time of year, the weathers getting colder and exam time is getting closer, so its all really understandable and longical. Please take care of yours and do remember you have a lot of friends who really care about you and are willing to help you out.

Sammiiiii~! <3 Thank you heapsss for that >.< Ahhh, you’re such a sweetie for offering an ear when I need and I’ll def take up the offer if it seems like I need it ! You should also know that I’m here for you anytime that you need a hand, an ear or …anything really mm ! I love you heapsss ! xo

you aren’t alone melody. i have been feeling quite down lately too. if you have time go scroll down my blog to see why. :/ i’ve been trying to keep myself pre occupied lately so i won’t get depressed but posts like this help.

Thank you for the post! I really needed that! ^_^ I have APD (avoidant personality disorder), so it makes everything ten times harder for me in the whole romantic business.
I really like your blog. It’s cute and uplifting. And you seem to be really nice, considering you take the time to answer everyone! If my blog ever goes big, I hope I can be as modest as you.

Aww, your words are really kind >__< Thank youuu! And ahhh, it must be really hard having APD; but just keep going strong <3 And I wish you heaps and heaps of luck for everything! Also, you can always talk to me any time you need to :) xo

;___________________; … I’ve mentioned soooo many times how much I love these kind of posts that you write. I do, it really made my day coming on here and reading this. I’m so grateful to have read this, I hope your day today and tomorrow, and the upcoming days after tomorrow will be filled with beautiful and memorable moments! Thank you for this! ^-^

Melody~ Stay positive girl! You’re a great person, for sure things will work great for you. I really like the text of this post, it’s so uplifting. Thank You so much. I don’t know why but I’ve been quite sad for the past monthS. I know it’s sad but it’s not that anyone’s making me sad but it’s actually myself who is making myself sad. It’s like i’m putting myself in my own cage; not letting myself move on and forget the past. Is it really possible to forget & move on? Would it be in a long run? It’s probably easy to say but definitely difficult to do. Anyway, I hope things will work out for you! Cheers! & sorryy for the novel like comment. :)

Ahhhh. Thank you heaps for writing a comment like this !
I’m glad that I could make you smile even if it’s just a little. And I really hope that everything works themselves out soon. If you want to talk further about anything, don’t be afraid to email me okay? <3 Stay stronggg ! x

Hi Melody! Life has ups and downs, as we cant control them. Later on you would find out there are even more things we cant control as we get even older lol. I dont mean to be a downer but now should be the time being happiest! Keep you head up girl. I know you can get through this <3