My Willy Needs Some Assistance

Dear Rachel and Claire,

I never thought I would see this day, but I love my wife. I'm 56 years old and I had a heart bypass 3 years ago. With the pills I take I can’t get an erection. My doctor said try a strap-on. We have used dildos before, she didn't like it, said it didn't feel the same. PLEASE help me find something that feels real. -Aiming to Please

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Dear Aiming,

You know what, no dildo feels exactly like a penis, though some are better for that than others. Hopefully your wife will realize that although the penis may be artificial the love and the sex energy are just as real and strong (or maybe stronger than ever). Try the Bandit for a real-feeling toy and the Commando for a good men's harness. Good for you for keeping on in spite of physical problems and your wife’s hesitations, and I’m sure you’ll find something that works. You might be interested in reading about a new material called VixSkin, that is very realistic and easy to maintain.