"Jesse James does not want me to see [7-year-old daughter] Sunny and intentionally ambushed me so that I would go to jail," Lindemulder says.

James, 41, and Lindemulder, 42, have been battling in court over custody of Sunny, who lives with James in Austin, Texas. Sunny had a stepmother in Sandra Bullock during the actress's five-year marriage to James, a reality TV star and motorcycle customizer. James recently became engaged to Kat Von D, who will be his third wife.

"Jesse does not give me ways or any means to contact my daughter," Lindemulder says. "Sunny has a cell phone but it's never on. He forces me to call his phone. There have been times where I have not spoken to my daughter in 40 days."

According to legal documents reviewed by TMZ, James' ex stood accused of leaving hundreds of "chronic harassing telephone calls to all hours of the day and night," estimated at more than 300 messages since he moved to the Austin area.

"In November, Sunny was hospitalized with a deadly infection, and I never knew nor was I informed," Lindemulder tells Radar. "It was a life threatening infection, and I didn't know. That's not good parenting."

Radar notes that Lindemulder's allegations haven't been verified. She tells the site she wants no contact with James other than where her daughter is concerned.

"Sunny is the most important thing in my life and want to be part of her life," she says. "Jesse has made this virtually impossible and is manipulating the entire situation."

We have to ask: Is Jesse James the only next-to-nobody in America who has four exes (well, three ex-wives and one ex-mistress) we know by name?

Jesse James used his marriage with Sandra Bullock as ammuntion to get total custody from his ex-wife during a court hearing...Because of what what said by him and by Sandra about him being the perfect husband and father, he should be charged with perjury and the custoday hearing verdict should be overturned for his pervasion of justice.

Please leave poor JJ alone. She had a rough life and now is trying to turn herself around since Jesse was so caring and got her out of the porn business. It would be such a lovely family if she and Jesse could re-unite.

JJ didn't do what he did out of "love" or "care"; if he had he wouldn't have beat her up. He's a childish, insecure, violent retard with serious control issues. Just let the mother see her kid, already. Sheesh, what a jerk this guy is. Someone should beat HIM up.