Linking Facebook to contacts? How can I stop it?

My Droid X came today, and it automatically links my facebook friends to my contacts. I have tons more facebook friends than people I actually call and text (I have 1400 friends). It even shows people who dont post their numbers and has me automatically email them. I want to get rid of this feature, does anyone know a way? Its driving me nuts!

I have the same problem - and none of these suggestions seem to work. There are no settings options (that i can find) in the facebook app or in contacts that will allow me to stop the sync. It's really annoying. Can anyone help?

That is odd. We are both on 2.2. Shouldn't that part be similar across the board? I have downloaded the latest FB app from the market, too.
I man, obviously, I believe you. that it isn't there. But wow... kind of lame to make that different on different hardware.