I do agree that we need to help each other. But, when trying to balance that with the chances of retaliation and getting sucked back in, it becomes a challenge. My narcissistic sociopathic ex boyfriend is a cop, and he is from a family of cops. I have seen him ask relatives for favors. I’m terrified to reach out to his new wife to warn her because of what could happen to me. I want to so badly. But, I also don’t wanna get sucked back in. All of the professional help I have sought has advised me that the best thing is to keep moving forward and maintain no contact with him or his new wife.