Video: Teddy Riley Explains Himself…

Teddy Riley breaks down what happened the night his daughters left his house battered and bruised. Long story short, they got out of pocket with their father and he had to lay the hand of God on them. However, he didn’t beat them with a Rock Band guitar…but he sure enough would have used it if he had to…

i believe him 2 sometimes kids can get out of hand as i was just a teenager a few years ago so i do know..n in the white world they don’t understand that a good old fashion but whoopin isn’t child abuse …..#comeonson don’t act like yaw nev got whooped wit anything other than a belt we useda have to pick our switches children in generation x are blatant and disrespectful and the parent’s aren’t sparing the rod but spoiling the children #imjustsaying

Keep on talking over the internet and on camera if you want to…ummm, those people are going come and lock your butt up.California is not so lenient on parents who do not spare the rod. I would have said,”No Comment” and quickly walked away.SMH

As a parent that was raised in a household where we occassionally got whipped for going against our parents rules and being disobedient, I can relate because no child should ever go against their parents! In this case, the children are adults! Why go any further? This seems like kids angry and out of control because they don’t like something or can’t get THEIR way! I don’t condon violence or abuse because there are other ways in which you can get your point across to a child besides hitting them. But, this is not that type of situation! There are always two sides to a story and I feel this was an opprotunity to get some media light and make daddy look bad type situatuion. Adult children against a parent is called a fight! You have to defend yourself one way or another. This sounds like there’s more to the story than we know right now,and it is gonna have to be brought to light. But can you handle that pressure because now you put us, the outsiders looking in, all up in your family’s business for apparently revenge! Don’t air your dirty laundry if you don’t have clean hands.

I know that’s right Teddy… Like I said before “Too much time out and not enough time *knocked* out” There is nothing wrong with disciplining your children, and I’ll be damned if mine try to fight me in my own home because THEY are in the wrong….and @hmmmm An 18/19 year old is not a freaking child. The should have listened when he said ‘GET OUT’

LISTEN TO ME: It’s HIS house, if you don’t like the rules — GET OUT!!!!!
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Spare the rod, spoil the child! …And ‘YT’ has some nerve tellin’ folk how to raise children? When is the last time you see a black child cussing, at the mall, in public, at their parent(s) – NEVER, that’s when!!
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Hmm….I wonder if Charlie Sheen will EVER encounter disciplinary problems from/with HIS children? I guess THIS is what some of ‘THOSE 46% of black women’ want – a father who doesn’t discipline his children, right?
And then what do you have? ….The Kardashians, Paris Hilton, Perez Hilton and Lindsay Lohan – is THAT what you black women want?
Do tell………..?????

@xyz…you sound a lil crazy babe…you went too far left with your statements…

anyway…teddy looks the hell terrible…and people who do hard drugs (and look at him-he does) are often very unpredictable…and they hallucinate…and they black out…and they remember things the way the want and not the way they went down…and aren’t his “kids” grown people???

@Teddy_Riley — If you’re reading this, or someone in YOUR CAMP reads this, what you’re NOW experiencing is the “guilt-of-the-mainstream,” you see Teddy, Black-women are taught to distrust, despise and disrespect black men!
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You SHOULD be the “good-black-man”: take abuse from your children/wife/”significant-other” – in YOUR house.
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You should, as Tiger Woods did to HIS “VERY-BLACK-FATHER” ON Oprah Winfrey’s show, in FRONT OF the world – be disowned, disavowed and disenfranchised by said child; a child who is living in YOUR house, NOT the home of said child’s mother, no – a VERY COMFORTABLE home you’ve provided!
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Teddy, PUT THEM OUT!!! Can’t you see?!? Raising “black -daughters” is a “loosing-proposition” – they’ll ALWAYS disrespect and dishonor you: life in America, for the-black-man!
Teddy, you’re better off raising sons – at least, if NOT “in-the-face” of ‘YT’ they’ll honor and respect you AND YOUR accomplishments!!

Teddy admitted on tape to making the aggressive first move by “collaring” and attempting to throw his daughter out. Instead he should have contacted the Police and let them handle removing the adult children from his home, then changed the locks.

@Should I Care — I’m NOT “Crazy OR LEFT ENOUGH” to know Teddy Riley is doing drugs – apparently, YOU are!
And “WE” should ALL have children that act like Britney Spears and raise children as SHE does, eh?
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I actually forced myself to watch an episode of “The Kardashians” you know? I was shocked, surprised and admittedly befuddled – they actually curse(d) at their parents!!!! ….I mean, GAT DAMN!!

I mean, ‘YT’ is questioning or lecturing folks on raising children? Huh?? Haven’t we ALL seen examples of “good-parenting” at the malls – those “well-adjusted” and perfectly-behaved white children are picture perfect, aren’t they?
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SPARE THE ROD, SPOIL THE CHILD! @Teddy Riley – PUT THEM OUT!! THEY GROWN, LET THEM KNOW WHAT REALITY IS REALLY LIKE!!! You’ve done enough, PUT THEM OUT!!!
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I’ll have NO DOUBT they’ll THEN share some of the sentiments of those 46% of black women!
PUT THEM OUT!!

Lawd, you can see the sadness in his face. Drugs has destroyed his soul. Regardless of how his daughters acted he should have just called the police to have them removed from his home. You can’t expect your child to have any respect for you if you don’t raise them in that manner. As he said in an earlier statement, he was the cool dad who spoiled his girls. Well, how did he expect them to react when he started messing with a chick younger than them? Teddy should have handled this differently. This is embarrassing to say the least.

You know, it’s funny, NB has YET to do a post/blog-on Charlie Sheen. I just wanna see just how much “blog-time” Teddy Riley is gonna get, as compared to “Charlie(quick-with-a-blade)Sheen!”
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I have an idea – a splendid one, if I do say-so myself, why not have Charlie Sheen, Mary J. Blige and Teddy’s daughters, all live in a house? Now THAT’D be some SERIOUS drama and “entertaining-dysfunctionality,” NO?
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I mean, those “46% unmarried black women” would be SURE to tune-in and watch, no? Guaranteed “captive-audience” if there ever-was-one, yes?

Unfortunately these types of encounters happen all too often in households esp. when children start thinking they are grown and don’t have to abide by the rules of the parent. It would be better if they didn’t get physical, but emotions are running high and logic and common sense are often an afterthought. When a child – regardless of age, raises up on a parent, the reaction is sometimes overblown because #1 you see an adult attacking you and you are going to defend yourself and #2 if you have been a good parent (at least in your mind) you are even more angry that your child is trying to physically hurt you. You react more out of hurt than anger. People are human – emotional creatures. Whatever happened that night happened quickly and without a lot of thought. He was wrong, they were wrong. Accept it, admit it and work it out. They are still his, and he is still theirs, they need to mend their broken family. They need to stop talking to the public and talk to each other.

@Wire — I must add you to the “Can’t read;don’t wanna read; must-be-dyslexic” NB-crowd!
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K, so ad-nausia I’ll state: Rhianna ATTACKED Chris Brown, he defended himself! TMZ, her biggest supporter, even said that SHE was Aggressor and Instigator on Feb 8th! Long and short; at-the-end-of-the-day, Rhianna got what was coming to her!!!
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Maybe if Rhianna was disciplined, by HER father, she’d have NOT attacked Chris? – BOOM POW!!!
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@BLACKANDMILD — Your “thoughts on black men” are a “matter of record,” so your now – “handled it better” is expected and is to be “filed” with the “cacophony” and “back-ground-noise” found on blogs by/with the misandrists!
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I can’t, “in-my-wildest-imaginings” EVER think bout disrespecting – raising my voice or telling my parents what to do – IN THEIR HOME? Are you kidding me?
His daughters are ungrateful, spiteful and “pernicious-to-the-core!”
@Teddy — PUT THEM OUT!!! THE STREETS WILL “LEARN ‘EM WELL!”

I am so glad I kept saying there was more to the story and that if he jumped on her all like that WHY wasn’t he arrested. I hope they have all learned from that night n mend their relationships. Nobody is winning right now n this situation IMO.

Bottomline, if you are grown enough to talk back to your parents and disagree with the house rules. Move out!!! They are not little children. They are 18 and 19. Yes, Teddy is dead wrong for hitting his children to that extent. Yes, I would be mad at my dad for dating someone my age, but it’s his life. If you don’t like it, move on. Teddy better watch out, TMZ is wicked. They will laugh in your face and call the DA on you. Better watch saying you would do it again.

If CB’s mother is stupid for being a victim of DV, what does that make all the other women who are victims of DV. Yes, she should have left because obviously it affected her child, but saying she is stupid. wow….Her decision to not get her child help when he was wetting the bed and scared, questionable. I love CB’s talent, but I would never say Rhianna or any other victim is stupid. wow…

@DamnShame — …And you can bet that the serial-killers and “the Lindsay Lohans” of the world, weren’t disciplined and FAR-OUTNUMBER those, who were disciplined and “went bad!”
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I guess, from these comments, I’m the ONLY one who thinks that when a parent disciplines you – it’s for YOUR BETTERMENT! Teddy Riley’s daughters aren’t living with THEIR mother’s, now are they? He’s giving them a lifestyle “only-dreamed-bout” by MOST Americans!
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It was HIS talent that made HIM a wealthy man – NOTHING was given to him! He’s talented and made millions FROM said talent! Why not be grateful and WATCH and LEARN from him? …Obviously, he’s raising you, so he MUST love you – where are YOUR mothers? Would SHE give you the lifestyle you now have? ….I didn’t think so!
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So you NOW turn around and spit on that very talented, very caring and wealthy father. Not only did you rebel against YOUR parent’s rules, but you CALLED THE COPS!
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5th Commandment: “HONOR THEY FATHER AND MOTHER SO THY DAYS MAY BE LONG ON THE LAND!!” I should think that IF said father was a award-winning millionaire music-producer, you’d honor and uphold, HIS accomplishments and wishes, THAT MUCH MORE!

Rihanna is definitely winning. Her album just surpassed 1 Million sold worldwide, and next week she will be certified gold for selling over 500K in the states.

Meanwhile Chris album is still around 270K worldwide. His last album first week sales were 290K lol.

And enough with the two sides of the story. The only people who think that are dark skinned black women. And trust I know because I visit a lot of blogs and it’s mostly OUR sistas turning against Rihanna.

But her career will prevail because y’all never supported her anyway.
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@ taboo

Yes his Mother is extremly stupid. Her lack of parenting cost her son his career. She wants to sit on Larry King and let the fake tears drop from her eyes. Meanwhile her illiterate uneducated son can barely form a sentence.

And there were reports that he got violent with her in a hotel room before anybody could imagine him beating Rihanna. So y’all can keep that two sides of a story bullshit. He Rihanna’s her ass, go caught, and now his career is over. BOTTOM LINE!

@XYZ Everyone knows that if you spoil your child they can end up being not so great human beings but for some reason people seem to think that if you beat your child for the everything that they will end up being these great individuals. I do not believe that and I gave an example as to why. If you raise your child in an dysfunctional environment then they will be dysfunctional adults. If your child is raised seeing you on drugs, with many different men or women, cursing and carrying on no matter how many times you beat them they will follow suit. Children do need discipline but some people just go overboard with the beatings when they aren’t necessary. I highly doubt that the Lindsey Lohans and the serial killers of the world outnumber the drug dealers and gang bangers. Stop making crap up for the sake of your argument. If you disagree with me fine. We will just have to agree to disagree.

Teddy is dumb as shit. He just admitted to and gave a demonstration on how he assaulted and battered his children! Taja never touched him, he initiated the fight, and she can say she was acting in self defense. Her not leaving the house is a non issue, because by law she was living there and didn’t have to leave until Teddy went through judicial process to get her evicted. smh… He lucky she ain’t pressing assault and batter charges against him!

@KristiK — Congratulations, you win the prize! You’ve managed to “step-up” and ‘willed-yourself’ to utter the MOST nonsensical, disrespectful and contemptuous diatribe imaginable! …A more-malcontented, malicious and menacing presence-in-a-home could NOT be found!
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And I bet your parent(s) NEVER said: “If you do “_____”
again, I’m gonna break your neck,” right, Kristik?
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…”You can’t put people out into the streets?” Huh? Are you kidding me? If you disrespect YOUR parents, and YOU’RE grown, you DESERVE to be “IN THE STREETS!”
Kristik, what sort of home do YOU come from/comes under YOUR CHARGE?
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I can’t believe the rubbish I’m NOW reading, I’m absolutely stunned!!
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But, then-again, I’m NOT – I mean, the disrespect shown black-men – manhood in ALL capacity – that is NOW evident in THIS society, makes this unfortunate incident believable, and will-surely, again revisit us!
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A “black-mother” and take off her shoe and go-upside her son’s head, but a black-father can’t discipline HIS children in HIS home?!?!? What new F-U-C-K-E-R-Y is this?

@DamnShame — That’s my VERY POINT!! But you’re assuming that Teddy Riley is, or has, raised HIS children is said “drug ridden/womanizing environment!” Unless YOU’RE a part of the ‘Riley-Household’ it’ll be YOU who are making up stuff!!
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DamnShame YOU can doubt all you want, I’ve seen enough spoiled-rotten white children/adolescent to know! Which person/persons said that you should “beat your child for everything?” Do tell, I’m all eyes/ears!
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You see, Damnshame, this incident isn’t about Teddy Riley, per-se, NO, for YOU, it’s about your disenfranchisement of a black-father’s right to discipline HIS children in HIS home!
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For you, NOTHING a black-father does will be “good-enough”, hence your contradictory, hodgepodged and “just-cobbled-together” discombobulates!
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In YOUR world, black men are the door-mat’s for society and certainly black women; Urgo your “take” on the MJB/Kendu….”altercation!”
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I shudder-to-think if YOU were to have a “black-son,” his abuse, neglect and wanton-regard, would be text-book-material for the study of the neurotic,psychotic and malfeasant of society!
His rage, based on his poor-self-imagery would surely place society and himself at risk!

@XYZ My comments had nothing to do with Teddy Riley. A lot of people on here feel that you have to beat your kids to keep them in line and I disagree. That is what I was commenting on. I don’t care what you say I still doubt what you are saying because I know enough drug dealers, gang bangers, prisoners etc. to know what I’m talking about. As for your other comments you don’t know me so I have no idea how you came up with all of that. If a black mother had done that I would have had the same opinion. If you think you know me because of some comments I have left on this site that’s fine. You can think what you want, but if I disagree with something a black man has done I will not be holding my tongue just because he is a black man.

@Ummmm — You and Damnshame MUST be “of-kin”: “sister’s of the covenant” – hate; ‘no-shame’ in YOUR game, now is there?
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Now, if you are solicitor and member,in-good-standing, of the bar in said state of Teddy Riley’s residence, how can YOU lecture on the rights of a parent, or dominion-over-domicile?
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…..But what has been done – has been done, no? Yes, it has!! Those daughters felt it THEIR right to defy their father and even called the police! …So NOW, Teddy is WELL within his RIGHTS – as father and HOMEOWNER – to request a restraining order and NOT have them ON HIS PROPERTY.
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That said, he should have ALL of THEIR belongings removed! …But wait, they’re NOT gainfully employed, they never bought – NOT ONE STITCH OF CLOTHES – in their privileged lives. As HE said, THEIR vehicles WEREN’T brought “by-the-sweat-of-THEIR-brow!” NO, it was Mr. Riley who purchased said vehicles!
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So now, let THEM find the nearest YWCA and LIVE their lives as THEY choose! But I can bet, it’ll NOT be, exactly, the same lifestyle they found with him, now will it?
I can bet that – even IF they were to go to the YWCA, or some women’s shelter – they’d soon ‘fun-afoul’ of rules-and-regulations and be kicked-out – yet again, to find themselves without house and home!

I completely agree with Teddy! No child shoulD “swing” on their father…the sisters deserved to get hit…hitting a parent and not expecting to get hit back is completely ridiculous!…those sisters deserved to get a good whoopin!
disrespect to a parent is totally unacceptable!

X,Y,Z calm down, take ur feet off the gas peddle… Teddy has every right to throw out grown folks in his home. In the heat of the moment who is going to call the cops while trying to get 2 grown ass female out their home. Kids and young adults can voice ther thoughts or opinion but to disrespect your parent is a no no.. Based on these comments all I can say is some of need some serious help or family counseling. YOU step out of line in my home and dont want to leave then force will be used. She got a restraining order on him hmm well dont go knocking on his door for income either get your own. Knowing TEDDY WHO LOVE HIS GIRLS, he will provide for them if they needed..

@wire UMMM I was talking about Teddy and his situation I was NOT talking about Chrianna when I said neither was winning but since you brought it up I dont think any of them won anything from this ordeal. I hate they had to go through the events of that night. I pray they have both learned, healed and can have succesful careers. Misery loves company I guess. This is much bigger than record sales *sighs* Please be sure you know what color my kool aid is before you jump in next time. That is all.

Well, as I’ve said – what is done, HAS been done! Law Enforcement has been called; boundaries have been torn asunder!
Now, Mr. Riley is WELL within HIS rights to NOT want them on HIS property.
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But I’m SURE his daughters find equal “upscale-lifestyle” with THEIR mothers! I’m sure said matriarch will instill discipline and respect in HER household!
Now, Mr. Riley will be forced to remove ANY mention of said children from HIS will – as his “dis-ownment” of said “ingrates” surely-comes-next!
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@STARR — Sorry love, you’re NOT in the majority! WOMP-WOMP!! ….And maybe YOU should open YOUR home to Mr. Riley’s – soon to be homeless – daughters; maybe YOU’LL find their mannerisms, attitudes and dispositions to YOUR liking!
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In any case, I’ve got loads to read ; ‘more-power’ to the Misandrists and ‘black-men-haters’ on this blog: may you ‘swirl-to-your-heart’s-content’! ….Word has it, Charlie Sheen is ‘looking-for-love!’ ….Don’t worry, black-woman, a little coco-butter on that knife-wound -it’ll never “keloid-up!” ….Why complain? …..Take that white man however you can get him!!
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X,Y,”and Z” — OUT!!!

@Wire You called Chris Brown uneducated but Rihanna recently admitted that she is a high school drop out. Rihanna has a better team to boost her up b/c the girl can’t sing a lick. Yes it is wrong what happened with Chris and Rihanna. Hopefully, they will learn from there mistakes. Plus, I don’t think Chris Brown’s mother like to be roughed up by men and if that’s the case then maybe Rihanna’s mom likes it too. Did you forget that Rihanna witnessed her mother get beat numerous of times!! FYI… What Chris and Rihanna fight has to do with Teddy Riley and his daughters? Stop bringing Chris and Rihanna up. That is so last year!!!

My father chocked me like Homer Simpson choked Bart when I stepped out of line… Also, my mother one day broke a broom stick on my back b/c I came at her the wrong way… Guess what, I am a hard working intelligent,independant woman that respects her parents to this day. After I got my ass whooping, they would tell me that they are the parents and I am the child. I respect that saying to this day! I have a younger brother that gets away with everything. I told them that they should have disiplined him just the same b/c he wouldn’t be a disrespectful,grown ass man still staying with his parents. I remember when I was 18yrs old and my parents told me if I think I’m grown then leave b/c there are only 2 grown ppl in this home. I quickly got my mind right and I took those life learned lessons and I appreciate them. Hopefully, Teddy Rilley and his kids weren’t fighting over a woman but Teddy did what he had to do… It’s ashame that the media has to know about this! I only asked that Teddy stop explaining himself b/c if he did what he thought was right then why convince us!!!

When you’re hitting your kids out of anger THAT IS ABUSE, discipline comes from a calm hand. And no my parents never threatened to hit me with random objects. On the rare occasion that I needed discipline it was either a belt or their hand…not whatever was in arms reach.

I am not disrespectful, I had a very strict mother and father and I respect them very much. I have a good relationship with both, and was never disciplined much because I always strove to please them.

That being said, I stand by EVERYTHING I previously posted. I am not disrespecting black men in the least, because if a black woman/white man/white woman put her hands around her child’s neck, the same would be true. No person should ever grow accustomed to having a someone’s hands around their neck, and no one should think that is an acceptable thing to do.

@everyone arguing with X,Y&Z … just stop … she is getting her orgasm right now … let her be and don’t add fuel to her fire …. or else you end up with incoherent rants resulting from too much hand in her pussy after reading all your comments on here. She’s a contradiction within herself – spinning in & out and off topic … changing her opinions from one day to the next then claiming that she was always for something with her lying ass self. Now dear X,Y&Z you can respond if you choose to, which I know you will … all I will do is make faces at incoherency and lol @ your misunderstanding of life and others on Necole’s blog.

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@Gigi – just grab your popcorn as usual child & leave these people alone – don’t get your blood pressure too high over this – stay on the sidelines & enjoy the show.

To all you folks saying Teddy is on drugs he stated he never used drugs and never will, he had a requirement from his Blackstreet groupmates if they join the group to be clean and sober because he said he broke down crying about how he watched his friend and collaborator Bobby Brown continued to spiral out of control and was happy when he got himself together. Aaron Hall dabbled in drugs back in the day he’s clean now and Teddy was pissed and Aaron told Teddy he couldn’t control him or Guy and find you own group to control so that’s what he did when he formed Blackstreet. Aqil Davidson of Wrecks-N-Effect did drugs back in the day too, Teddy scolded him and Aqil started feuding with Teddy and his brother and fellow Wrecks-N-Effect groupmate Markell Riley. Dave Hollister admitted to getting depressd and drinking and cocaine and Teddy scolded him about it so Dave decided to quit Blackstreet so he could do whatever he wanted to do, but now he’s clean and back with Teddy & Chauncey in Blackstreet. Shortly before this incident Teddy had a public disagreement with Aaron Hall & Damion Hall before a concert in Atlanta at the Blast From The Past Concert in which Aaron & Damion performed as a duo while Teddy only performed with Chauncey Black, Dave Hollister, and fill-ins Kermit Quinn & J-Stylz as Blackstreet. Teddy dissed them when he said he wanted only to perform with Blackstreet and Aaron & Damion has a video on youtube and they are pissed that Teddy turned the Guy fans against them. He went on twitter saying he was happy Aaron & Damion got booed and they feel they can do it by themselves they got a wakeup call, but he since apologized but Guy is still coming as a duo and Teddy is coming with Blackstreet in 2010 with their fifth album and second one to feature Dave Hollister who was only on their first album.

To all you folks saying Teddy is on drugs he stated he never used drugs and never will, he had a requirement from his Blackstreet groupmates if they join the group to be clean and sober
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So because he said he don’t use drugs he is telling the truth. When the last time a drug-user told the damn truth. Hell everyone knew Whitney was using drugs and she still denied and just recetnly admitted to it. That was a lame ass long sorry excuse. Again Teddy just happy someone hell anyone interested in him at this point.

Okay JK what make you think he is on drugs he is upset over somethings with his daughters that’s why he’s animated like that it don’t mean he on drugs stop making stuff up and stop comparing him to Whitney there was proof with Whitney before she denied it but where is the proof about Teddy you don’t have any so stop with the rumors.

I know Teddy and I talk to Dave on twitter and he said Teddy has never been on drugs and he had to get Dave straight and was instrumental in helping him get on the right path even way after he left Blackstreet. He returned the favor to Teddy & Chauncey by coming back to the group since they helped him to become a better christian man. Everybody in Blackstreet is clean now but Teddy & Chauncey never used drugs but Dave did and cleaned himself up before it went to far.

People are instrested in Teddy because of his music he’s coming back with Blackstreet this year and they will be unstopable his daughters got their own group and they are tryin to ruin the chance of their father having more success. Teddy is still relavent. He produced for Snoop Dogg, Jazmine Sullivan, New Kids On The Block, Lady Gaga and others lately and he was workng with Michael Jackson before he passed, he’s been working on the Blackstreet album as of late so look for that.

He handeled the situation badly and continues to fail. All this for a chick he has been with for a few months, smh. If his adult kids are spoiled brats, he needs to look at the man in mirror because he is partly at fault.

*sigh* Im just gonna put it this way, I have a 10 yr old son and whether its today or 15 yrs from today, if he ever disrespected me IN MY HOME OR NOT I will lay his ass out…I dnt care who agrees with me and I dnt care who disagrees…I am a child of the “go pick a switch” and “I bought u in this world and I will take u out” generation. I adore and respect both my parents, I talk 2 both of them atleast twice a day because I want too, not out of obligation but dnt get it twisted, if i even thought for a min that I could jump bad at my parents they will check my grown ass quickly and I will let them because regardless of all the opinions on who should do what as a parent, I WOULD NOT BE HERE IF IT WASNT FOR MY PARENTS PEROID! so until the day I die, they have my respect, no question………………..
Im raising my son the same way and please understand that this boy is 10 and in his lifetime I have probably whopped that ass 5 0r 6 times up until 2009. Because this “special” child of mines (lol) is experiencing the terrible 10’s. So in 09 he probably caught a few extra ones….But I do not agree with beating ur kids for ANY and EVERYTHING, but backtalking, touching things that dnt belong to u and that lazy (not wanting 2 do chores or ANYTHING for that matter) crap…GTFOH… I tell this child everyday (who is slowly but surely getting taller than me) U getting 2 big for the belt, so keep it up and I will take yo ass right outside to the streets and U will find yourself in a boxing match with your mom THAT U WNT WIN! I dnt play that shit and I dnt take parenting advice from a damn soul except those who contribute to our lives (family, friends etc and even then I listen because of love and respect for that person but it doesnt mean Im gna change anything) Nobody was in the delivery room with me when my big headed bewstanky came out and I havent gotten a check from a damn soul to keep this child fresh, fly, healthy and well-fed….So like I tell him, Im mommy FOREVER dnt think cause ur lil balls dropped that I wont knock the shit outta you if you EVER think u bad enough to talk 2 me like u crazy..lil man can only hope I have a damn guitar hero accessible………………………..

.. my mom knocked my damn brother upside the head (when he was like 11) with a broom because he called himself being disrespectful. He was asking me to ask her something since he’d just gotten into trouble and didnt wanna talk 2 her directly and decided since he was feeling some type of way, he wouldnt call her mom. He called her “her” (something along the lines of “can u tell HER Im hungry, when she was standing right next to him)and she whooped that ass and told him, DNT U EVER IN YOUR LIFE call me anything but Mom unless u want me 2 give ur ass to someone else. That way when u see me on the streets u can call me “her”…That man still flinch when he see a broom and he never called her anything but mom after that….

Did anybody see the pictures of his daughter’s face? She didn’t get an old fashioned whooping….he beat her! He’s a man and there are ways to put someone out your house without causing that type of damage.

Teddy is a weak ass man and sounds like he’s an abusive parent. He had no remorse or regard for the fact that choking his daughter and slamming her against the wall caused that bruising to her face. Who is stupid enough to think he just pushed her and caused damage like that?

Just because you got beat as a child doesn’t mean there’s not a better way to raise the next generation.

Teddy please keep your mouth shut whiles you have people on your side……Just hush boy……You should have been the bigger person and kept your family business from out of the street……Because you said you didn’t want them to do it…. and you turn around and tell “your side” …..Just handle your business…..and put out the facts when all is said and done…… *sips coffee*

as serious as he seems, he is a damn lie because on the picture–not only is she bruised across the side of her face,her lip is busted and she has a black eye…..he is a woman beater–even if she needed her ass beat.

The bible states that if you “Spare the rod, you spoil the child”. My son tried that mess with me and I put him out the car and made him walk home in the rain. Because I’m the Boss and I pay the bills. Children need to respect adults or get their own place and money. His kids should have more respect for their father. He can date whoever he wants too date.

I’m riding with Teddy all the way!! I’m a parent of 5 and I certainly understand when adult kid’s think they are too grown to go by your rules and want to disrespect you in your home and some will even try and swing on you. as in this case. and you have to gently remind them who pays the damn bills, and do some laying on of hands and I don’t mean in a biblical sense.

@Jermine-Please read carefully for it is obvious that you do not. Nowhere in these comments or other posts did I state he is on drugs. I simply replied to a commenter. I don’t know if he is or is not on drugs, the fact still remains that if he is on drugs I don’t think he would say. Again please read carefully before you try to come at any of my comments. Good day.

An 18 year old and a 21 year old getting outta pocket? My folks stopped me when I was little from getting outta pocket with them and now that I am an adult I wouldn’t think once about doing it.

All I can say is his kids have probably been getting outta pocket since they were small. If they did not do it when they were younger they would certainly not be doing at the age of 18 and 21 years old and Teddy was outta pocket for physically abusing them.

If he didn’t like how they were talking to him he could have showed them the door and kept his hands to himself.

The funny part about this video, he did his hands like ” I choked the shish out of her” but he said I collared her. Then he gestured his had like he threw her through the wall, but he said “I moved her”. Then hand movement, I strong armed her 6 feet up against the wall and THEN slammed her to the floor, His words “I put her and thats how she got all this” lmao

Aaron Hall did drugs.. stated so himself… and the freak chick he had the baby with that was in Jay-Z’s video with the white fur contested to it, he used to beat her up when he was high… Teddy Riley did drugs as well(not as hard as Aaron tho)… he is probably clean and sober now..(hopefully) but yes.. he did do drugs and Jermaine claims he knows the entire industry, but he doesn’t..so his word isn’t gospel…
Teddy has 8 children I believe, not all the same mom… and goes through women like a hot knife through butter.. didn’t he just get divorced from a woman he married after two months of dating on myspace…or something to that effect..who has a tattoo of Usher on her hips from when they dated.. and she was dating Tyrese as well…. so yeah.. his kids are probably tired of all these chicks marryin dad and coming in and giving orders…

and Dave Hollister cleaned himself up after his wife saw that ass on Luke’s freak show dvd of him performing oral sex on a woman, and her returning the favor…. and went back to church… after she took the baby and bounced… public info… he was drinker and a druggie..coke was the choice and the reason for him almost dyin in a car crash, and the moment he started changing his life around…. stop giving Teddy all this credit… he’s the main reason why the groups broke up.. he accused people of sleeping with his chicks/wife… and he wanted to control everyone’s life and money….that’s the reason why Dave left, his money wasn’t right and he was the “star” of Blackstreet..damn Jermaine….lol…

If I were these girls’ Mama…I would be picking up the phone to find out of IF Pookie is out on parole…and have Pookie and his boys give Teddy a little visit and see how he like getting his tail beat and marks left all up on his face and neck…

Being somebody’s parent does NOT mean that you have the right to ABUSE your child…

You’re right but he stated Teddy & Chauncey was there for him also and Teddy was supposed to work on his gospel project but his label didn’t want it. He wanted to work with Teddy again so because the gospel people wanted everything in his life that was in the past to stay in the past, they didnt’ want Dave to deal with Teddy. So Dave is back doing R&B and back in Blackstreet. Teddy made mistakes yeah cause Mark Middleton is a great singer and he was wrongly accused of flirting with Teddy’s ex-wife which is why he’s not in the group, Teddy still has some issues but he’s gonna get past it. Yeah he had control issues but Chauncey accused Teddy of sleeping with his chick too but Chauncey slept with the mother of his daughters that’s why he got custody and Chauncey also slept with Lisa Wu Hartwell while she was still married to Keith Sweat. She stole from Keith too, he threatned her but restained himself. She still filed a restraining order and divorced him like she was the saint. He kicked Mark out for allegedly messed with his ex-fiance Donna who is Taja and Deja’s mother and he made a joke about it on a diss song to Teddy around 2000 or so but they worked throuh and he was back in Blackstreet in 2002.

@UGHugh — Clearly, from the postings I’m NOW reading, “Ya need more people!!”
And if YOU can make reference to my “double-talk/flip-flopping on issues” please, clearly state ‘em! And if you didn’t already know, the name “X,Y,”and Z” has YET to be copy-written, hence all my-rights aren’t reserved NOR protected! But then-again, this IS CyberSpace, no? ….”intellectual-property-rights” are hence – nonexistent!!
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But I’ve YET to read YOUR thoughts on ANY subject matter, beyond your “sniping-from-the-sidelines,” you’re a “non-entity” who can ONLY resort to the MOST base: “too much hand in her pussy” — Come now!! Have YOU NO shame? Have YOU not, one-ounce, of decency?
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….Must you? I have NO problem with “trading barbs,” but THAT was, not only, “below-the-belt,” but dull and unimaginative; please, “do-better!” I’m sure the education, afforded-you, allows, if not warrants, a-bit-more “substance to your writings”: a turn-of-a-phrase; the double-entendre; word-play – ANYTHING, but what you’ve ‘set-to-keyboard!’
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…..You’re a prime example of the “dumbing-down-of-America”; you’re “clannish” and seek solace in the “heaving-masses”; I, quite-the-contrary, have AND WILL continue to exhibit a “bon-vivant” of both character, form-and-substance! You must NOT, “hold me” to the same measure, as you do others, no!
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My youthful effervescence, boundless-energies and ‘witt-and-grace’ have left you dumbfounded. Blame only yourself if you can’t “keep-up!”
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Instead, be happy you’re witness to ‘better-graces’ and allow my charms to give you comfort and warmth!
….”Any-less-of-you” will ONLY find you, where you NOW remain – witless, alarmed, frightened, hopeless and forlorn……
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X,Y,”and Z” — OUT!!

@BBG — The fact STILL remains, it’s NOT their house; there is NO plurality involved: one-man-one-vote needn’t apply, know why? Cause it’s HIS HOUSE! ….NOT THEIRS – HIS!!
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If the rules aren’t to your liking – just leave! Don’t rebel, don’t fight, don’t disrespect….just pack and leave!!
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…And as far as, “putting business in the street” THEY put their pictures up on twitter, no? I don’t think HE did that!
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Listen, what NOW remains -AT-THE-END-OF-THE-DAY- is a family unit torn apart – never to be repaired. Let those daughters of his NOW go and live with their mothers. Have said mothers give them the same lifestyle he did: home, car, allowance..etc,etc…
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@Teddy_Riley – PUT THEM OUT, NEVER LET THEM BACK IN – IT’S YOUR HOUSE – YOUR RULES! My parents have THEIR home, it’s THEIRS, ‘not-OURS’, rules, under-that-roof, are theirs for I, and anyone/everyone else, to follow!
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Now that I can afford “my-own,” I have my-own roof I brought with the sweat-of-my-brow, now, anyone wanting to live under MY-ROOF/IN MY HOME, must adhere to my rules!
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In any case, I’m done…
X,Y,”and Z” — OUT!!

@Jermaine..
ok.. that’s much better… cuz I know for sure that Teddy wasn’t no damn saint… he is getting himself together and regardless of his issues, when it came to business he was always on point with his.. I will give him that…yes, him and Dave have patched things up..which is a good look, and yes, the church doesn’t want Dave to go back.. he’s a preacher now I believe and yes, the music that they would do will not be well received in the churches eyes…but I believe they will try to make it non sexual and something similiar to Dave’s last album….

if I’m not mistaken.. Teddy DID sleep with Chauncey’s girl…. which was a well known thing when Teddy was with Aaron and them.. they all did “share”….and as for Lisa… no one said she was a saint.. she did do her dirt and played it off on THOA like she was all “good wifey”….I think her and Keith are still going through some issues in court regarding the children..

Lookin for someone to go all in on?……nope..not me.. cuz while we may agree they are spoiled.. for everything that you listed.. my rebuttal will only be.. THEY NEVER ASKED TO BE BORN..so yes.. everything he does for them.. he should…and if he can’t get a word in edge wise to his children and beating them is the only way he can voice himself then it’s worst than I thought…and it only means that he never checked them when they were younger… no child should disrespect their parent, but a parent shouldn’t have to beat THEIR child to get them to abide by rules…it only means that something is wrong on the parents’ end…..how can a parent teach a child to be against violence, but retort to that same violence to get their voice heard in their OWN house…..only means that the child was allowed to be disrespectful somewhere along the lines growing up… where they were comfortable enough to do so… or that this lifestyle of parading different women around them ordering them around has become too much for these children to bear… I believe that the girlfriend and the girls were arguing and he sided with the girlfriend..of which he may have done so many times before..children of any age feel like they are losing their parent when this happens.. he could have been in control of the situation had he seperated the parties… it’s just that simple…discipline 101…bring the parties to a neutral corner… cuz in the end they are all fighting over him…and his kids are suppose to fight the hardest.. which IMO they did… they are from him… he should never put any lover before them, or beat them to prove a point about order on who he decides to love, or lust… BBG is now out….

@BigBOOtyGoddess..I want the truth…you can’t handle the truth!
Yeah I know Teddy did that to get back at Chauncey for some stuff he did that’s why Chauncey forgave him so he wouldn’t look like a hiprocite. They had good music but all had bad luck with women. All of them Aaron Hall, Teddy Riley, Chauncey Black, & Dave Hollister had bad luck with women and Keith got the raw deal with Lisa even though he got custody people think he beat her up all the time and it ain’t true plus she was messin with Ed before the divorce was even final that’s probably why he got custody and she tring to fight it. Ed said some slick stuff about Keith saying back in the day he was a fan but he got his woman now and Lisa & Ed threw out Keith’s albums in front of their children too.

He said he hate Keith Sweat and he don’t wanna see him. Oh yeah also on twitter Dave Hollister said that K-Ci did not beat Mary J. Blige she made people think that she wasn’t a perfect angel of course cause she did drugs, they smoked weed together and kicked it, but K-Ci chilled with other women and Mary became violent toward K-Ci. I know this cause Dave is K-Ci & JoJo’s cousin also and he said both K-Ci & JoJo are clean and sober and they had drinking and drug problems in the past but he said they act normal offstage but K-Ci’s wild alter ego comes out onstage but he’s not on crack and neither is DeVante or Dalvin because he’s gonna work with Jodeci and K-Ci & JoJo cause they family. He said them gay rumors about them are dumb too cause DeVante has a steady girlfriend and Dalvin has a lot of women, me and Dave real cool on twitter and I ask him things about music and the inside scoop on everything and he’s down to earth.

He’s got a few R&B projects and he’s a preacher, he got solo music coming, a reunion album and tour with Blackstreet, and possibly a album with fellow Chicago natives Donnell Jones & Carl Thomas called The Chi so try to look for those in 2010. Teddy’s daughters have a group (Taja Deja Bobbie) as well as a girl related to the Jackson Family.

The Riley family and Jacksons are close, Teddy was hit hard by Michael’s death cause he produced for The brothers, Michael, and Janet. Teddy wants to be supportive but they started trippin cause he got a 20 something year old girlfriend it ain’t that big a deal at least she legal.

Nobody said it about old Tommy Mottala when he married Mariah at 19 and another chick after that when she was 19 she was fine but when people found out she married Tommy her career fizzled out but not Mariah cause she got away from him. I forgot that chick name so she legal. Teddy is gonna do big things with this new Blackstreet project and others and his achievements will make the news again instead of this kinda news.

yeah.. Ki-Ci did beat Mary and Mary beat on him back.. they both were disfunctional.. they share equal blame in that relationship..or lack thereof..and I knew they were cousins.. along with Ms. Fanny… JOJo is another story and I experienced JOJO and his madness last year at Nokio… I don’t know about Ki-Ci. but Jo needs rehab.. and was at one point either going or in one.. either way.. I think people will forget the wonderful work they did as Jodeci… my forever favorite song is him and Mary.. but I wish them best all the same.. they have great talent..I knew Teddy and Michael were close as well..and the entire Jackson family.. and Mike’s passin hit him hard.. as for his girlfriend.. I’m not saying who he can date.. I’m just saying that he should deal with the situation better with his girls.. they probably have seen their share of women in regards to him.. and quite frankly how can he demand respect from them when he isn’t showing them any by his constant rotation of women… he himself needs to get right and stop worryin bout havin a woman in his bed…and yes, Tommy did marry Mariah when she was young.. and he did abuse her as well.. but I also believe that Mariah became big quickly and things went to her head…to my understanding she became quite the bratty bitch and Tommy felt disrespected because he basically made her..but him and Talia seem well together.. and happy..hell Celine Dion was dating rene and he was much older than her… and they seem fine.. it can happen…I just think Teddy needs to set things right with his girls and stop worryin if his image is tarnished…people will always like him because he is great at what he does… and there is no denyin that…. I also heard that Aaron and his brother are gettin back with Teddy to do another album… now that I can’t wait for… Aaron got that voice that can get ya pregnant…lol

Wow this whole story is a mess…a never ending saga…its a new year that was last yr…time to come together & heal…but look like he keep retracting statements, 1st you like “yeah I layed the smack down on her” now you like “no it didnt happen like that”…ummm yeah teddy, YEAH RIGHT! I know I hear people say, myspace/facebook, etc is da devil, causing drama in relationships/friendship, internet beef/bullies causing to people to commit suicide, etc now social networking sites cause families to break up & tear apart, but seem like everybody taking onto Twitter now to air off & vent…smdh, somethings we dont care & dont need to know…Handle your biz & handle your family! Pray for your families & there families… Also where’s mom? & why was he involved with someone close in age with his own children? Someone who also could’ve been his daughter, I’m sure he has 20 years over her… That probaly gonna need counseling to get over this…

“And enough with the two sides of the story. The only people who think that are dark skinned black women..”
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Um that is a very stupid comment to make. So based on what you said only dark skinned women think there is a second side to rihanna/chris story? Thats a lie because i am light skinned. I 100% beieve there is another side to that story.

LOL Im starting to feel sorry for Terry Riley now. I read the tweets and they were mad disrespectful online so its not telling how they talk to him offline. SMDH its a damn shame if you have to worry about your children jumping you. I probably would’ve did the same thing. Im not letting two children I brought into the world take me out. Hopefully they get over themselves and get their family back together. If the gf is who they think she is time will eventually tell all.

@BBG — I’m NOT trying to “go-in” on anything nor anyone; YOU’RE comments, along with ‘Nico’s’ and a few others, makes THIS blog enjoyable!
If I, in any way, came-off, to you, as “going-in-on-you,” then I apologize!
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From what I can see, you’re a MJB fan, that’s kool, I only used her, as an example of, an unforgiving, confusing, confused and hypocritical-industry that, itself, AT-TIMES, “mirrors the society it feeds!”
That said, let me sharply-state that, yes, “Truth IS Stranger Than Fiction,” but art has super-imposed itself atop life and, MOST-FREQUENTLY, life imitates art!
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I can’t, for-the-life-of-me, ever imagine NOT being disciplined as I was – with a “firm-hand” ….”go in the back yard and pick a switch!” If I “did-bad” in school, there was a cane, strap, belt or switch to “gently-persuade” me that I “errored-in-my-ways” ; should I THEN, go home and complain – HA! I’d, then again, I’d ‘rekindle-my-acquaintance’ with said switch!
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BBG, who has the right to tell a parent how to discipline THEIR child? …..What works for some, may NOT work for others.
BBG, you see, I’d rather see discipline, no matter how severe, done in the home, than “at-the-hands-of” the state via Prison and/or Jail! …..A little too late THEN, wouldn’t you say?
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Is THIS NOT an unruly, undisciplined and morally bankrupt society? Are American children NOT the most underachieving of ALL – in the industrialized world? We ONLY “get-by,” as we have, by finding fools to buy our debt, and now – “America sells tomorrow, to pay for today!”
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…..And to close, my father was NOT the disciplinarian my mother was, not by a long-shot! I could “get-over” on my father, but moms WASN’T having it! And you know what? I LOVE THEM BOTH – even MORE for that!!

I don’t care about what your parents did to you behind closed doors…it was still wrong.. although by it being behind closed doors no one was able to voice on it… had it been openly viewed by someone as myself, I would have made the same speech.. there is simply no need to cross reference all Bitchie topics with Mary J, and/or Chris… which we have already spoken on.. this issue is about a long standing issue within our communities…beating, versus discipline… many of us (blacks) only know that way to discipline for it has been used on us for centuries.. just because you grew up fearing your parents and things of that nature doesn’t mean it was RIGHT… you said now you’re grateful that they did beat you, well I know for a fact you weren’t saying that when you were getting beat. I was punished many times, but never to the extent of an electric cord, pan, belt, and things of that nature. I can count on one hand the number of times I actually got a spanking.. and I’m spoiled til the cows come home. My point about Teddy, is what’s on the surface of this whole issue..the girls are acting out.. point blank…and it probably stems from his inability to control his lusting for women, and/or parading them. It’s no different from a male child seeing their mom date and choose many different men…they will act out, no matter what the age. What’s probably missing from this case is that he probably wanted the girls to live with him, and had that type of taboo relationship that “friend-parent” one, instead of “parent-friend”. Whatever the case may be X,Y, and Z…it still stands, if he wanted them removed from his home, and they are his own flesh and blood, there was another way to go around it then beating the skin off his child, and to top it off this was a grown child of his…the mere fact that he had to subject to unprovoked violence proves to you that there is a discord within their relationship… cuz if my mother/father tells me to leave, just like so many on here, you would be hurt, but you would just bounce, and probably not speak to her/him for a great while. Read between the lines and stop applauding the use of violence..especially when you stood so firmly on many other issues regarding violence in the past on this blog.. just because it’s parent/child, doesn’t make it right, there was no need for abuse within that household,they are in need for a serious sit down and daddy needs to hear them out, doesn’t mean he has to do what they say..he just needs to tend to his children and listen to them …millions of children suffer abuse at the hands of their parents, and I think you know this, being a spoiled child doesn’t garner an exception.

Also… you used Mary J…funny that you would.. as it only elps to carry my words..
Mary witnessed abuse as a child, then experienced it after her father left,abused herself to shield the pain and then in turn grew up and was in abusive relationships…that abusive nature was passed down…her only knowledge of dealing with a situation is with abuse… although she could not control the abuse at the hands of her father to her mother, she watched her mother abuse alcohol, and then in turn did the same..she watched men abuse her mom, not physically, but emotion, and mentally… she viewed this as the right way for love…and in turn allowed abuse within her relationships…had her mother knew how to deal with the abuse suffered at the hands of Mary’s dad after he left, Mary probably wouldn’t have this story or belief that she should stay with a man that clearly doesn’t respect her, and that she should use violence to get him to show respect to her…….so see how abuse trickles down…doesn’t make it right, it just affirms that this is what we know and believe to be right..cuz so and so got beatings and look how well he turned out.. meanwhile so and so has trust issues, or something worst…….but you get where I’m going with this…

@BBG — Yes, I see how violence “trickles down,” as far as – Mary and HER experiences! But that, itself, wasn’t really ‘the-point’ of mentioning her.
I had made-mention, months ago, ’bout celebs, LIKE MARY who, had “dirt-up-under-THEIR-nails” but who JUST DIDN’T “keep-quiet” – they came out/went in – hard against CBreezy! I already knew ’bout her, and the Cocaine, but not the indepth-history you now bring to light!
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But THAT, within-itself, does NOT give you pause as to question HER – “going hard in/bout Chris?” If she’d, had JUST remained silent, I’d have had NOTHING to say, but she didn’t – she went hard-in/on Chris; to-add-insult-to-injury, she didn’t want HIS image to appear on/in that ‘Stronger’ Video. Chris, not only, had a hand in writing that song, but HE also sang on it – in a back-ground capacity!
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What I point out – what I UNDERLINE was/is the “REASONING” for bashing him? …As did everyone – as SHE, HERSELF, DID! Now, as hindsight affords-us, 20/20, the industry “already-knew” ’bout Rhianna and HER tantrums, and penchant for violence.
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I can’t agree with your synopsis, as I am, NOT “privi to the Reily-household,” without said, how could anyone possibly state: >”Teddy, is what’s on the surface of this whole issue..the girls are acting out.. point blank…and it probably stems from his inability to control his lusting for women, and/or parading them.”just because you grew up fearing your parents and things of that nature doesn’t mean it was RIGHT… you said now you’re grateful that they did beat you, well I know for a fact you weren’t saying that when you were getting beat.
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Er…NO!..OF COURSE – I didn’t say THAT when I was getting beat, I CERTAINLY wasn’t expected to say: “this feels GREAT, I think I’ll do more dumb shyt, to get MORE azz whippings!!”
BBG, I feared ‘running-afoul’ of THEIR RULES – NOT THEM! …I happen to love them – children whose parents don’t “spare-no-rods,” CAN love their parents too…
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You “Fear” god, no? You “Fear” eternal-damnation, don’t you? I might, hazard-a-guess, and speculate that all of the bloggers, here on NB, also do! But you do also Love god, no? You love god; heaven, happiness and an eternity spent in said happiness, no? I use this “God-Analogy” to highlight that ‘sorta-kinda’ relationship with one’s parents!
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I guess you find it tiresome for me to tie Mary’s recent…”situation” with Chris and NOW Charlie Sheen’s ‘knife-wielding-incident'; at least, that’s HOW, I’m taking it. I’m glad you’re taking note, do you see the double-standard, as far as, Breezy’s “banishment-to-the-badlands” and America’s ‘yet-still-infatuation’ with Mr. Sheen?
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Now, to address your initial statement: “Of course you’d NOT see – or knew, if I’d NOT told you – of my parent’s care/treatment/measures of punishment! I WAS disciplined, and as such, I’d NOT have “acted-up,” certainly NOT in public, for them to discipline me – in the first place – so there would NOT be anything for ANYONE to see! ….EGGS-OR-YOUNGONES? …The egg-came-before-the-chicken!
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To close: the “King-James-Way,” of discipline/punishment, or the current-day “western-way” of child-rearing? We can “wax-lyrical” ad-nausea, but I offer you the NOW skyrocketing incarceration rates, and the alarming, High School/College, drop-out rates. Oh, and they’ve gone up, across-the-board, regardless of race!
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SIDE NOTE:
* Black women represent 30% of all incarcerated women in the U.S, although they represent 13% of the female population generally
* Hispanic women represent 16% of incarcerated women, although they make up only 11% of all women in the U.S.
Source:http://www.aclu.org/womens-rights/facts-about-over-incarceration-women-united-states
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The ‘spike’ in the prison rates for black men came with the crack-craze and tough-sentencing-rules/laws, those are NOW done-with!
But what, NOW,leaves me incredulous, are the coming “spike-in-the-numbers” of white men who are, JUST-NOW entering the prison system – all due to the Chrystal-Meth-craze! ….Recent economic downturn in the economy – NOT WITHSTANDING!
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I make mention, of THESE, most cogent-of-facts, as to “put-hazard,” any chance of NOT making “judicial”, if not “optimal-use,” of “thy-rod!”
…Thy rod and thy staff, they comfort me….
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X,Y,”and Z” — OUT!!

yo all those who say “he could have handled it better” I would really love to see what you would have done different: yeah you talk the talk but as soon as you are put into a situation you don’t know how you will react… a simple collar move turned ugly cuz the CHILD did not know her place!!

this is ridiculous and i usually dont comment but how can he stand there and act like its ok that he jacked up his own daughter! trying to make it sound pretty by saying he collared her..no you jacked her up by her shirt and when she tried to get you off of her you slammed up against the wall…i hope that young girl feed you when you can wipe your own @ss anymore because if i was your daughter it would be very hard for me to forgive you..nd i have a great relationship with my dad which is the reason i feel so strongly to the point of tears because i couldnt imagine my father ever taking it to this level with me

this is ridiculous and i usually dont comment but how can he stand there and act like its ok that he jacked up his own daughter! trying to make it sound pretty by saying he collared her..no you jacked her up by her shirt and when she tried to get you off of her you slammed up against the wall…i hope that young girl feed you when you can wipe your own @ss anymore because if i was your daughter it would be very hard for me to forgive you..nd i have a great relationship with my dad which is the reason i feel so strongly to the point of tears because i couldnt imagine my father ever taking it to this level with me

talking to you is like talking to a brick wall… pointless…
you go on and on about things that don’t involve the topic or even relate… like I said before.. parents who beat their children to the point of abuse are parents that have issues within, and can not deal with situations. Beatings are out of anger and lost direction,and expectations. It’s easier to beat your child and then expect order. But studies have shown that these methods lead to anger aggression in children which later fuel their adult aggression. Jails are full with children whose parent took a switch, belt and whatnot to their ass..but it’s also filled with children who never been touched by their parents ever. Parents often take the easy route out of things… they’re too busy to deal with an unruly child, thus the streets get them and raise them, or the parent is so self absorbed that the child finds love in the street. But there are also a great amount of parents that do everything for their child and despite what they do, their children are still very disrespectful and unruly…..but it still doesn’t warrant a beat down like she received. I have said before that some parents believe that a swat on the behind with explanation works for their chidren.. I’m not telling any parent how to raise their child, but what I am saying is if you have to get to the point where you have to beat the stuffin out your pickney to get them to mind you, then yeah..there’s a bigger issue going on there. Parents make mistakes too, and this one IMO is a huge mistake. I don’t care what she said that he didn’t like…. she is an adult, and he could have put her out without beating her like she was a runaway slave. The only way you or anyone else can justify this beating would be if she tried to whip his ass…but since that isn’t the case via his own mouth… there is no justification…you can do whatever you wish with your children..but if I saw it, heard it, or knew of it.. I would report you… this is officially the end on this topic.. I said what I said, and that is it, no matter how you wanna slice it..I don’t agree with what he did! PERIOD!…. ~fin.

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BigBOOtyGoddess..I want the truth…you can’t handle the truth!
It’s all good but K-Ci did not beat Mary he did a interview saying he could never beat her they had arguments cause when Mary would get pissed at K-Ci he would tell her that’s why he’s talking to other women cause she was always on somethin back in the day. He never hit her if you saw what she did to Kendu she could beat K-Ci up worst. Dave is a man of God now so why would he lie about these things he knows cause he was in the Jodeci & Mary camps so he knows the truth he has love for Mary still but he has to tell the truth and I wish Mary would stop lettin people think K-Ci was beating her on the regular but she would attack and hit him ask Andre Harrell and Puffy, Andre told the truth on a documentary about it when the Uptown crew did MTV Unplugged that he saw and heard her screaming at K-Ci for singing to another woman and taking his shirt off that’s the first thing, K-Ci didn’t wanna really do that duet with her onstage because she went crazy on him. Look at his eyes and you can tell they had a argument but he never hit her.

This sounds far more plausible than any other version of the story I’ve heard. I don’t see Mary being beat down by little K-Ci. And she did hit her husband in public. If she’s capable of such violent behavior as a mature, saved, substance-free woman, who knows what she did to poor K-ci back in the day. Also, I’ve seen the performance where he takes he takes off his shirt and sings to a woman. Later on in the show when he performs with Mary, you can tell they were both unhappy about something. In particular you can tell that K-Ci didn’t want to sing with her at first. He loosens up towards the end.

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