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after i had my ds...i was 26. we only wanted 2 kids, a boy and a girl. that's what we got and are happy. and i don't think i could handle another little one, it's sad to see my babies grow up but lord knows i don't want another one,

I had just turned 26 when I had my second baby. We only wanted two and I was relieved to be done. My husband had a vasectomy the day after our youngest was born. It is so nice to not have to worry about pregnancy or babies or toddlers anymore! My boys are now 6 and 9 and things are so much more fun now that we're past all those early stages.

I was 30 when I had my second. I wanted a boy and a girl, when I got that I knew i was done. Also my husband has 4 older kids from previous relationships, so I knew that after the second we were done. I get sad b/c my kids aren't babies anymore and my oldest will be in kindergarten this fall, but I am glad not to have babies anymore.