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If black people don't like it, they need to step up and adopt these children. Black children are hard to find families for in the first place. I'm not being racist. It's a sad statistic. My friend does foster care and it's more difficult to find homes for black children for some reason. Race shouldn't matter. If the white family loves them it's better to be in a loving family than the foster care system.

a better statistic though is that most black people don't care who adopts who due to race. my wife runs an adoption agency and the biggest push back she sees is people not wanting their child adopted by people in the LGBT community. and even that is maybe only 5% not wanting a LGBT person adopting their child

@RolandCuthbert in many and most private adoptions where birth moms choose adoption they willl have a say in the adoptive parents if they choose. adoptions through the state or government don't give birth moms options about adopting parents

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a lot of black people feel this way? did you take a comprehensive poll? i know tons of black people and none of them have any issue with white people adopting black children. my wife is a supervisor for the second largest private adoption group in new jersey, pennsylvania and delaware. she has personally overseen about 200 adoptions since she started working there and has encountered zero black people who didn't wan their child adopted by a white family

What Girls Said 30

A couple of any race should be able to adopt a child of any race. Why does it matter? The kid wants to be loved. The parents want a child to love. Whats the problem? And for those saying that they shouldn't, are assholes. If the parents are good people and want to love a child, let them. The child won't care, because they'd be to caught up with having a family and being loved to care what they look like. If much rather have a black child go with a white family, than sit there wondering what they did wrong to not have a family.

Thank you lol. I just don't see why it would matter. I've heard similar things and its terrible that there are people whod rather the child sit there without a family, then have them to to another race of people. Its heartbreaking. They say they care about the childs cuktire and shit, but they dont mind that theyd sit there instead of getting adopted by another race of parents.

But to go out on a limb and say all white parents cannot adopt another child just based off of color? Selfish and disgusting. Children are suffering in orphanages but other privileged dumbasses want to intervene? Hell no.

If black people dont want white people adopting black children then they should start getting in and adopting the black childrn before the white people get the chance. As long as the kid gets a home where thdh will be loved and cared for i dont give a flying shit what colour the parents are.

Race should not matter. It is the child who matters, if the family is willing to give the child of color a safe and happy life then so be it. There is nothing wrong with white people adopting colored children.

I think there is nothing wrong with white couples adopting black children. If they are willing to love those kids, feed them, take care of them, and be there for them. I don't see a problem. Love doesn't have a color. I think it's great!

There's nothing wrong with a white family wanting to adopt black children. It's actually good, it shows they care about the child and want to give them a good life.However, the child is going to face some problems. They will have some doubts and a white family won't be able to deal with that. They won't know what to tell and how to teach the child to deal with these issues.They probably won't understand it, since they never went through the same situations.

Okay all kids need a good loving home and if I white family can provide that then so be it. However, there are so many down sides to it. My nephew and his sister are adopted by white people and it really pisses me off. I have a sort of biased opinion.

@Rissyanne we didn't even know he was in foster care when we found out it was too late. He had already been adopted. Their mother is in jail and we hadn't heard from her. If we would've known then we would've adopted him so he can be with his family.

@Rissyanne for your information since you're just making assumptions and you don't know even know the full story. His mother told us he had a different father. Their mother went to jail. My niece (his other sister) is with their grandmother. Their dumb ass grandmother told us nothing. She only kept my niece and let my nephew and his other sister go to foster care. We found out when it was too late. His life would be much better if he was here with his family.

@Rissyanne woman that doesn't make a difference. You don't know her. She took damn good care of her kids. Now if all you have to say is something negative then you need to stop talking to me. I said what I had to say about the issue.

To be fair, if she's in Jail it kind of means she isn't following the rules and doing good for society. So how does one in Jail take care of kids if they can't take care of themselves, no matter what color or creed. Secondly, if you cared about them so much, regardless of allegations and information spread by the family, you would have been present in their lives and known the mother/father regardless. Third, color is color, who gives a shit, as long as the kids are happy and have a safe, loving home, you have no right to be pissed at the white family you racist.

@EchoOfLife we didn't know he was related to us. We hadn't seen him since he was a baby. And to be fair you don't know what the fuck she went to jail for so it's not your place to say anything about that.

Oh yes, because people go to jail for donating to charity and helping the poor right? No, she fucked up, did something wrong, and can't take care of herself or her family. Sprinkle some more racism why don't ya.

@Rileyxx97 she actually did nothing wrong. It's funny how you all are accusing her of being some criminal when you don't know what the fuck is going on. And it's none of your business. All of you should feel like some fools.

Black parents are typically abusive to their kids and plus black women hate their hair and pass their self hatred on their daughters. This is why you see so many black girls wear weaves because their mothers hate their own hair so much they try to push it on their kid. I feel like most likely a white woman would be better than a black mother because she at least cares about herself

White and black women have the same hair styles. Individual preference determines the style. My mom is black with two black parents. Her hair is style is almost always straight. There’s native blood in my family too tho. My sister wears dreadlocks. So eh.

Maybe your parents are that way don't speak for the rest of us. And a lot of us wear weave to protect the hair we do have so we can keep it healthy. And a white women hate themselves too by get implants, lip injections, plastic surgery , just so they can look black.

There are plenty of kids that need a nurturing home. I don't think that this scenario should be made into a race debate. This may be effective in persuading well intentioned couples to avoid children of color, and that would be tragic.

What Guys Said 22

I know some very opinionated black people and I have never heard one complain about white people adopting black kids. Seems more likely to me that a lot of white people feel that white people should not adopt black kids.

I think any orphaned child who can find a safe and happy home should be allowed access to it. The idea that foster care life or living in an orphanage is preferable to being raised by white parents just strikes me as grossly ignorant.

Considering the population numbers you would only be hurting the black community by not allowing it. I'd prefer children getting to live a life with parents who love them over being an orphan, because their parents skin color wasn't the "correct" color.

This gay dude is racist as hell and has a really low IQ... I was adopted myself and I couldn't care less if I was adopted by god damn gorillas as long as they loved me, and were there for me when I needed them most..