The Sexual Market Is The Prime Market

Forget the free market economy. The sexual market is the one market to rule them all. As if my preening weren’t already supremely ostentatious, here’s a recent SCIENCE! study confirming another Heartiste axiom: every human interaction and transaction is downstream from the existential struggle to find a quality mate, fuck, and procreate.

Fewer romantic prospects may lead to riskier investments

Encountering information suggesting that it may be tough to find a romantic partner shifts people’s decision making toward riskier options, according to new findings from a series of studies published in Psychological Science, a journal of the Association for Psychological Science.

“Environmental cues indicating that one will have a relatively difficult time finding a mate can drive people to concentrate their investment choices into a few high-risk, high-return options,” says psychological scientist Joshua Ackerman of the University of Michigan, lead author on the research. “This is true even when the decisions people are making are not explicitly relevant to romantic outcomes.”

I’ve received some scoffing from spergy types projecting their spergitude onto this ‘umble outpost of love concerning the assertion often made here that the sexual market governs, consciously or subconsciously it doesn’t really matter, the machinations and ultimately the outcomes of the more palpable activity that takes place in the economic market. But here we have a study proving the truth of the CH observation that ripples and undercurrents of sexual compulsion and romantic desperation are the “invisible loin” that guides all human behavior in the secondary market of the economy and its supporting markets (like academia).

“This is exactly opposite from the pattern of investing we would predict if we assumed people were using an economically ‘rational’ decision strategy,” Ackerman explains. “From an evolutionary perspective, if the options are to do whatever it takes to find a romantic partner or risk not finding one, the more rational choice may be to do whatever it takes.”

This is a stone cold truth that no libertardian like Alex Tabbarak or Cheap Chalupas will ever get. Humans aren’t rational actors; they’re rationalizing actors. And what they rationalize are choices, in all spheres of transaction, that directly or indirectly improve their chances of landing that alpha male or that hot babe.

In a second online study, 105 participants read a newspaper article discussing demographic trends in the U.S. They then evaluated stock packages with equivalent values (e.g., 100 shares in 8 companies, 200 shares in 4 companies, etc.) and chose which package they would invest in.

Again, the data showed that both male and female participants who read about unfavorable sex ratios opted for riskier investments, choosing more shares in fewer companies, than those who read about favorable ratios.

In practice, “riskier strategies” for women amounts to what we see today on college campuses, where women outnumber men 60-40. The zeitgeist is a sexual pornucopia for a few alpha men getting the milk for free without buying the cow, and a lot of disappointment and depression among marginally pretty women who thought they could turn that fling into a thing.

The fact that sex ratio had an impact on decisions that were not directly linked with mating success suggests that sexual competition elicits a general mindset geared toward achieving the largest possible reward, regardless of the risk involved.

Polygyny, as is the norm throughout Africa, can induce the same risky investment strategizing from men as can an unfavorable sex skew. When a few men lock up many women, each individual man has an incentive to throw caution to the wind to be one of those few winner men.

As such, the researchers argue, these findings could have implications for decision making in domains as diverse as retirement planning, gambling, and even making consumer purchases.

Even more interesting to compare post-pubescent eunuchs with castratos. Testosterone “therapy” for F2M transgender LARPers changes both the physical structure and effective function of the brain, in the usual stereotypes.

And those changes are irreversible, so a trans-trans-woman is not the same as a cis-woman. She still thinks more like a cis-man. Therefore, a male castrated before puberty could be expected to behave differently than one castrated after, whose surge of testosterone triggered routines that may continue to run after they are no longer capable of achieving their purpose.

Similarly, one hypothesis is that childless women are destroying white nations because their barrenness triggers risk-seeking routines for rape babies, and that this continues after menopause — even though that would be irrational — because there is no way for natural selection to work on the infertile.

Actually, there is at least one way for the infertile to affect natural selection, and that is by nurturance. So genes for spinster aunts and bachelor uncles could be passed on in places where life was so hard that two separate families would have fewer kids survive than one family with three adults.

At that point natural selection would be operating at the clan level, where this clan with more non-breeders actually out-competed this other clan with less.

AMERICAN COLLEGE OF PEDIATRICIANS: ““Rates of suicide are 20 times greater among adults who use cross-sex hormones and undergo sex reassignment surgery, even in Sweden which is among the most LGBQT–affirming countries.” http://www.freerepublic.com/focus/f-news/3410339/posts

“Gender Ideology Harms Children” (statement from the American College of Pediatricians (“ACP”))

Among other points stated by the ACP:

“3. A person’s belief that he or she is something they are not is, at best, a sign of confused thinking. When an otherwise healthy biological boy believes he is a girl, or an otherwise healthy biological girl believes she is a boy, an objective psychological problem exists that lies in the mind not the body, and it should be treated as such. These children suffer from gender dysphoria. Gender dysphoria (GD), formerly listed as Gender Identity Disorder (GID), is a recognized mental disorder in the most recent edition of the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of the American Psychiatric Association (DSM-V).5 The psychodynamic and social learning theories of GD/GID have never been disproved.

4. Puberty is not a disease and puberty-blocking hormones can be dangerous. . . .

5. According to the DSM-V, as many as 98% of gender confused boys and 88% of gender confused girls eventually accept their biological sex after naturally passing through puberty.

6. Children who use puberty blockers to impersonate the opposite sex will require cross-sex hormones in late adolescence. Cross-sex hormones (testosterone and estrogen) are associated with dangerous health risks including but not limited to high blood pressure, blood clots, stroke and cancer.

7. Rates of suicide are twenty times greater among adults who use cross-sex hormones and undergo sex reassignment surgery, even in Sweden which is among the most LGBQT – affirming countries. . . .

8. Conditioning children into believing that a lifetime of chemical and surgical impersonation of the opposite sex is normal and healthful is child abuse. Endorsing gender discordance as normal via public education and legal policies will confuse children and parents, leading more children to present to “gender clinics” where they will be given puberty-blocking drugs. This, in turn, virtually ensures that they will “choose” a lifetime of carcinogenic and otherwise toxic cross-sex hormones, and likely consider unnecessary surgical mutilation of their healthy body parts as young adults.”

Amidst all the hoopla about tranny-bathrooms and Bruce Jenner, did ANYONE see this mentioned in the media?

Child. Abuse.

Not like we needed the American College of Pediatricians to tell us that, but even these guys can’t stomach the lies and the CultMarx propaganda.

“I knew I was always destined for great things. This must be it! I was destined to be the winner of the highest lottery jackpot in existence. I knew right then and there that this jackpot was meant for me. Who else deserved such a victory? I had been through so much rejection, suffering, and injustice in my life, and this was to be my salvation.

With my whole body filled with feverish hope, I spent $700 dollars on lottery tickets for this drawing. As I spent this money, I imagined all the amazing sex I would have with a beautiful model girlfriend I would have once I become a man of wealth.

Without the prospect of becoming wealthy at a young age, I had nothing to live for now. I was going to be a virgin outcast forever. I realized that I had to start planning and preparing for the Day of Retribution, even though I hadn’t yet had any idea of what day that would be.”

I wonder if there’s some correlation between the innate sense of restraint of northern European stock and restraint in fucking. Children born in the spring would have the best chance of surviving the first few months of life, and of being strong enough to survive to following winter. This would mean the the ideal time of year to fuck would be early summer. The flip side is that couples that favored fucking in early summer would be more likely to pass on their genes.

Contrast this with r-selected type people from equatorial regions where children have an equal chance of surviving year round, and frivolous fucking is the norm.

PJ, as you indicate, originally the meaning of L!fe was L!FE ITSELF [John’s G0spel goes into much greater detail.] As many have often pointed out here chez Le Chateau, when the Eskimos bottled up a bunch of chemical ab0rtifacients and called them “B!rth Control P!lls”, suddenly the act of l0ve making did not result in the b!rthing of a new member of the family nine months later, and immediately the act of love making degenerated into a purposeless exercise in n!hilism. In this day & age, I’d go so far as to assert that “The meaning of DEATH is to f*ck.”

“the ideal time of year to fuck would be early summer.”Whitsun, round here. End of May usually. Dirty drunken week in Morecambe or Blackpool. The rest of the time everybody slept in their overcoats in a heap including the kids because it was so feckin cold (they’d outlawed women going down t’pit by then. Only warm place in the parish. The rumoured goings-on down there scandalised early methodist “missionaries” to the Northern Savages).

Plus Pa was half-dead by the time he got in, from 10hrs hewing coal, threshing grain, pouring steel or whatever most days and was only interested in a gallon of mild & bitter and falling asleep, too fucked up even to eat, never mind straddle the similarly totally exhausted lady wife in the coal-hole or the wash-house. It’s difficult, if not impossible these days, to grasp how hard people actually had to work back then, just to eat and pay rent.

If you were young and fertile, ‘Er Indoors would be up the stick by time the next round of recreational hide-the-sausage and getting utterly bladdered (both sexes) rolled round, at Wakes Week in late summer.
So would everybody else’s missus …
.. it’s not like you’re going to get them pregnant twice over in a couple of months, is it? Although if detected, the risk of being clogged/razored to death was very, very real and ever present.

Of course there is a parallel war among females, but the battlefield is much more simplistic…. All that matter are youth, beauty and fertility as long as minimum standards of personality, charm and intelligence are met.

Men compete among each other in every discipline; success, intelligence, charm, (game), confidence, dominance, status, etc… All attributes that men are indifferent to or actively repulsed by in women…

Why do men instinctually compete and accumulate without boundaries? The sexual marketplace is a winner take all world.

Coralary: why do the young aspiring stallions from the ‘hood strive to become the rap star or pro baller instead of choosing a reliable, well paid and in-demand field like nursing for example. There is little to no reward for the solid, the virtuous and the reliable. There is no prize for hitting singles. Hit a home run, be the hero and get the babes. Anything less and you go home alone.

This is going to push a lot of white men to the point where they no longer have the option to pretend that they aren’t being erased, displaced and dispossessed. Every time they see one of these bills, they’ll be reminded. That slap in the face, that rush of hate will be associated with money in general, earning it, spending it, the banks and their puppet government. This is going to make many White men ready to make war, more than anything the alt-right could have done.

Fuck – part of me thinks I shouldn’t care so much, but part of me is livid.

We have Lincoln on both the penny and the 5-dollar bill; it would have been poetic justice to replace Abe (one of them anyway) with this mythological negress.

Andrew Jackson was probably the biggest shitlord president this country has ever had, and the one I most hate seeing replaced with a magic negro fairytale. Make no mistake — Jackson was targeted by the CultMarxists for a reason.

@Corvo
Goddammit! You’re right! I can’t believe that slipped by me. Then again, I’ve only been aware of cultmarx treachery for about 5 years. I always knew something was fucked up but didn’t understand about the Frankfurt School stuff until I really started to open my eyes. That being said, we really should do it your way. If it’s going to be done anyway, we should act like we really care and preach that it will help to cement Abe’s legacy. Or we just do what the Founders said and burn it all (since it no longer works in the best interests of the citizens) and start something new. Fucking cultmarxists.

“Jackson’s authorization and enforcement of the Indian Removal Act of 1830 — which forced several Native American tribes to give up their land to white farmers and move to Oklahoma — makes his continued presence on American currency controversial. Slate pitched the idea of doing away with the seventh U.S. president’s face on the $20 bill last year, writing: “Andrew Jackson engineered a genocide. He shouldn’t be on our currency.””

“Jackson’s authorization and enforcement of the Indian Removal Act of 1830 — which forced several Native American tribes to give up their land to white farmers and move to Oklahoma — makes his continued presence on American currency controversial. Slate pitched the idea of doing away with the seventh U.S. president’s face on the $20 bill last year, writing: “Andrew Jackson engineered a genocide. He shouldn’t be on our currency.””

The color of monkey. The new twenty should come in shades of purple, with fake gold sparkles.

Can I get change for this monkey? Bro I’ll give you this sheboon for nineteen ones.

I can see people defacing these monkey bills nationwide. Just drawing a simple crosshair on one here and there. Maybe a stamp of a monkey slapped over the sheboon. Or a quick note on negro IQ or crime stats. Carefully, so as to avoid tracing by system goons.

When will African-Americans be recognized for being super awesome at something instead of being victims?

When I went to B-school all the black professors were “diversity” and “organizational behavior” specialists (i.e. no hard skills but they were *experts* on “being black” or “bias”). There were no black profs for, say, marketing or finance.

It’s bait. They’re talking about finalizing the design no and releasing it in 2020. No one serious thinks the US dollar will be with anything by then, the Fed being already well on its way to making it worthless.

In the unlikely event that this actually makes it into circulation in a still-united United States in 2020, the $20 will be so worthless that the joke will be that you need a whole tub of tubmans to buy a loaf of bread.

> “And n!ggers don’t even give a shit about this hag anyway.” ——— Not only that, but they don’t even use cash anymore – everything now is handled via EBT card swipes*. The only reason a n!gger would need cash nowadays is if they were purchasing or selling narcotics.

*AKA the Meta Cuckoldry of the Whyte Man by the Eskimos via their N!gger stooges – get the Whyte Man to pay all of those taxes so that the N!ggers can breed like rabbits. Meanwhile the poor tax-paying Whyte Man can’t afford to have any ch!llunzes of his own. Meta-Cuckoldry is just one giant Win-Win-Win for the Eskimos.

At a time when it is now obvious and incontrovertible that allowing women to vote, be judges, and hold office was a colossal error, the left is tripling down on its insane, evil attack on the host nation. They are doing this in broad daylight now. They are, indeed, illuminated. It’s unbelievably depressing to be a white man who understands what has been done the past 40 years.

I could include a billion links proving such things — which we all already know — as racial profiling of Africans is obviously correct and justified. It’s simply logical behavior. Now they are putting a gorilla on our $20 bill (really (((their))) bill — render unto Caeser what is Caeser’s?) and having LEOs in Ferguson undergo mandatory “bias sensitivity” training.

Meanwhile every day there are 5 stories in every city newspaper about nigger gun violence.

Simply following the criminal court docket in any city shows that we have a nigger and Jew problem, not a gun problem, followed closely by a feminism problem (women’s irrational natures are now permitted, by law, to dominate and control OUTCOMES in serious matters, such as the break up of the family).

There is a clear correlation between economic status and attractiveness. If one mapped poverty rates, and one mapped obesity rates, the two maps would look the same. We know the obesity epidemic has messed up the sexual marketplace.

You know you can really have that truth shoved in your face by doing a simple experiment. Observe the people at your local “upscale” grocery store one day, then visit a run-down discount grocery store on the next. In my experience you’ll see an average attractiveness difference of like 3-4 points on a 10 scale.

@mendo, you must have gone south and east homey (srsly, get the hell out of Hollywood). Five miles south is filled with confused college kids and other assorted young people who are perfectly acceptable for our present purposes,

“There is a clear correlation between economic status and attractiveness.”

easily observed, over and over… Go to any top end tennis or golf event, classic car concours d’elegance, antique or art auction… Very very attractive women of all ages.

Damn, my two clubs, love going to the pool… for every overweight woman there are three slim ones, MILF central… lots of former pageant girls and sorority girls… and their kids, the high school girls in private schools round here look like A&F models…

FREEPER DEFIANT: “This is the kind of thinking that you get from someone who never actually competed for anything as a man does. He never played any actual sport that I am aware of. He played “debate” in HS and college. He played “argue” as a lawyer. He never stood face to face against someone on a gridiron, never looked down at a fastball heading for him, never even tried to spike a volleyball or shoot over a guard. He’s a total wuss as a man.”

FREEPER DEFIANT, CONT: “I saw a nature show about lions once. The alpha male had control of all the females, and if he caught a beta lion trying to get it on with one of his females, the alpha would give the beta a thrashing. But the betas still have needs, ya know? So the betas would slink around in the shadows, watch the alpha, hang out on the periphery and maybe skip a hunt to be alone with the pride. Then, when the alpha was not around and would not catch them, they would jump in and grab a quick one from one of the females.“

FREEPER DEFIANT, CONT: “Cruz’s efforts to get delegates reminds me of that. He slinks around on the periphery, not trying to get them by overtaking Trump directly and becoming an alpha. No, he’s still a beta, but he’s trying to get what he wants the sneaky way, the beta way. The Cruz way.”

Hey CH, yareally and other experienced game practicioners, ive got an interview tomorrow with a small husband wife run white collar consultancy and was wondering if y’all have any game related tips that might help in the interview.

“…A spokesman for the local canton — the equivalent of a state — Tuesday said the boys’ families have now had their citizenship applications suspended. The federal government is allegedly looking into the circumstances behind how the father, who works as an imam, received asylum in 2001.”

25% of women in the US are on anti depressants. They are all on them at my work and very open about it. My neighbor told me her gorgeous 16 year old had a breakdown and her and her five friends are all in therapy for self harm. WTF is going on?

WF, I think you’re being charitable to shrinks. They’re just friggin evil. Either the most evil people on the earth, or the second most evil [after the ab0rtionists], or maybe tied for most evil with the ab0rtionists.

this happened to a niece of mine. I love my brother but damn is he a pussy. I told him he needs to have his girls move in with him and take them out running every night, as the PE will do them some good, clear their heads, and give them a sense of accomplishment. He tells me that physical activity never made him feel any better. He refuses to stand up to his exwife and take control of the situation. He’s dating some over the hill hag with a college age daughter who is a sjw type. They always show up at our family functions now, Christmas, Easter, etc and I always make a deliberated effort to point out the flaws in our society relating to liberalism, sjw, blm etc. The woman’s daughter dated a black guy, of course, he pumped and dumper her, of course and now she is finally waking up to reality after seeing the level of taxes taken out of her mom’s paycheck. This broad doesn’t even have a job yet, getting a useless degree, if obese. Poor gal needs to drop the fork and find a man. Wow, i really went off on a tangent there, sorry gents, it’s early.

The other day someone posted a link to a story about a White boy being harassed/bullied because he was a White kid in a majority black public school, and how the school district ignored it and refused to do anything about it other than having the kid speak to a (((psychologist))) who recommended be be put on some psychotropic drug. Feral nogs running wild on a White boy; parents actually involved enough to complain; the response from the system is drug the kid and accept your fate.

Another example: I’ve come to know a sweet 19 year-old girl. Long story but last year, before I knew her, she was sent to talk a (((shrink))) after a bad argument with someone. In 15 minutes (((he))) diagnosed her as bipolar and put her on drugs. She’s off them now. And she’s fine.

Another example: An 18 year-old boy I’ve known for basically his whole life (single mother, father died when he was 3), always a bright kid, nice kid, sent to a prestigious boarding school, couldn’t hack it, got kicked out. Same thing happened at the second prestigious boarding school. The boy just wasn’t prepared to take responsibility because his mother hadn’t prepared him for it. But she sends him to a (((psychiatrist))) who …. you guessed it — prescribes some fucking anti-depressant drugs. I flipped out on the mother once I found out and she took him off the drugs.

They turn people into zombies.

Yet I don’t see the Gentle Giants and the Skittlez Boyz drugged into submission. Funny that.

At least 30% have what is now called histrionic personality disorder. Research the history and meaning of the words “hysteria” and “hysterical.” Any man who has known at least 4 women has experienced it.

They do not belong in the office environment other than as secretaries and typists in the former sense of those professions. (They do not belong in an office under the current Jew-feminist brainwashing idea that they are equal and should be the senior partner in the corner office. They know this in their hearts, hence the internal conflict.)

It is obvious that women should not vote or dominate the national discussion on talk news shows. All civilizations for 12,000 years have known this.

“Histrionic personality disorder is characterized by a long-standing pattern of attention seeking behavior and extreme emotionality. Someone with histrionic personality disorder wants to be the center of attention in any group of people, and feel uncomfortable when they are not. While often lively, interesting and sometimes dramatic, they have difficulty when people aren’t focused exclusively on them. People with this disorder may be perceived as being shallow, and may engage in sexually seductive or provocative behavior to draw attention to themselves.”

The new DSM is getting rid of “Personality Disorders” because they’re too d@mned descriptive of the reality of the situation [i.e. too politically incorrect; shine too much light on Eskimo perfidy, etc], and because the insurance companies refuse to pay for PDs. Fortunately, at least for the time being, Wikipedia still has some good overviews: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cluster_B

I agree and see this at work. Any female co-worker given responsibility suffers anxiety because of it. They just cannot lead or handle any responsibility.
They hate deadlines. They cannot deal with that either and this field is interior design so a female type of job.
A poster on another thread said it well…they live in a world man has created…working in buildings man has created. Women cannot handle cars either. Any bad choices I see on the road I always look around to see who the driver is and it’s always a woman.

Genesis 1:28 And God blessed them, and God said unto them, Be fruitful, and multiply, and replenish the earth, and subdue it: and have dominion over the fish of the sea, and over the fowl of the air, and over every living thing that moveth upon the earth.

Technically the first commandment written in the Bible was to f*ck and procreate.

My girl child just got a job offer: 10,000 USDs a week as a temp worker in exchange for her board certified, long blond haired, cold eyed skills at cutting out evil diseases.
The system can work for you and yours.
Amen.

“The happiest women I know are housewives with good husbands and several children”.

Bingo.

Few on this earth will ever comprehend – let alone match – the abject misery of a 42 year old woman who sacrificed her fertility window for meaningless corporate advancement, only to be tortured for the rest of her life by the laughter of other people’s children.

You could finish construction of The Wall this afternoon. It would still be 30 years too late.

“Perhaps a President Trump would build a wall to Uranus… or maybe he wouldn’t. Though such speculation isn’t what’s most relevant. The foreign majority is now born domestically each day, and the annual population equivalent of Montana supplements white Americans legally. At some point a huge border wall just becomes a monument. You don’t lock doors inside your own house. And you won’t maintain a fence to keep Mexicans out of northern Mexico. Once pressure equalizes, no one needs an airtight seal.

But all of that is far beyond the reckoning of most conservatives, who still consider 90% of the Earth’s exploding population as “minorities.” The notion that their national inheritance was stolen while they drooled at football games only seems to emerge in brief moments of lucidity.”

Wow, that is pathetic, revolting and sad all at once. If the guy can’t make babies, and needs a donor, at least choose one of your own kind, because the world already has plenty of the other kind. Sad, pathetic beta loser.

The US economy is due for a very hard landing. I expect to see all kinds of interesting political wind shifts happen overnight when that goes down. The fact that bathroom privileges for trannies is even on the airwaves suggests that we’re still in the days-o-plenty, or at least have the perception thereof.

Something has to give eventually. If the West does not blow up into a giant nuclear mushroom cloud to bring down it’s parasites any time soon, God himself will have to issue a personal apology to Sodom and Gomorrah.

TSW just can’t resist coming here to get her tingles. Your harem of cats not doing it for you, cunt?

Why don’t you include your fantasy option:

#3 — feral dindu breaks-and-enters the house, rapes you, takes a nap, wakes up, calls his boy D’arflavius on his Obama-phone, goes down to the liquor store to buy a forty, then picks up some ice cream and potato chips with his EBT card and goes home to watch his flatscreen TV in his free govt-supplied apartment waiting his baby momma to bring by some money from the child-welfare checks to buy some crack with.

Understand the key point (and see also similar recent incidents): Harvard is 80% Jew-dominated. This means that there are, indeed, students who are not Jews. The Jew domination, after infiltration, of our culture and law is obvious, now, to everybody. We have the minority goy Harvard law students carving swastikasslzozo into desks.

Get it?

Everybody knows what you have done, the Jew. All we have to do is turn on any news channel or watch any TV show or movie to see the blatant anti-white, anti-white man, anti-hose nation subversive message, you tribe of pathetic eternal gypsies. Fuck you.

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On Thursday, April 14, at an event hosted by the Program on Negotiation at Harvard Law School, Tzipi Livni, a former Israeli minister and member of the Knesset, spoke to roughly 150 students and faculty members. During the Q & A portion at the end of the presentation, a Harvard Law School Student directed an ad hominem attack on the Israeli guest:

“My question is for Tzipi Livni—how is it that you are so smelly?” The student, a male third-year who is also the president of a student organization on campus, added, “It’s regarding your odor—about the odor of Tzipi Livni, very smelly.”

What he actually said is worth pointing out, verbatim. I lolz every time I read it:

“My question is for Tzipi Livni—how is it that you are so smelly?” The student, a male third-year who is also the president of a student organization on campus, added, “It’s regarding your odor—about the odor of Tzipi Livni, very smelly.”

“This happened to be the feast of Yom Kippur, so they were all collected in a large, wooden building, which they called a synagogue. It behooved General Eisenhower to make a speech to them. We entered the synagogue, which was packed with the greatest stinking bunch of humanity I have ever seen. When we got about halfway up, the head rabbi, who was dressed in a fur hat similar to that worn by Henry VIII of England and in a surplice heavily embroidered and very filthy, came down and met the General . . . The smell was so terrible that I almost fainted and actually about three hours later lost my lunch as the result of remembering it.” ——— General George S Patton, September 17, 1945.

I’m in a 3 1/2 year relationship and she’s very hard to handle.
I consider myself a lesser alpha, but of course I do a lot of beta stuff in our relationship. She’s an 8, but a feminist, leftist, gurrll power and stuff. She’s a ballerina and a painter, so the artsy type…

The thing is: She always seem unhappy.

She’s always complaining that I only think about myself, that I don’t value her, that I don’t spend enough time with her.

She cries at least twice a week, either because I didn’t put up with her shit and was rude to her or because she feels guilty of ruining my life (she knows I value my freedom, friendships, sports, work, etc)

Does it have to be like this? If I’m aloof and indifferent, is it expected that she feels like shit? Because I love her and I hate to see her suffer.

She knows I used to be a player, and I was open about teaching bootcamps for Venusian Arts (I was still doing it during our first few months of dating). And she has no doubts that I would have no problem finding quality girls.

She is very loyal, and doesn’t even LOOK at other guys in my presence. So the hypothesis that she’s behaving like that because of cheating is out of question.

Maybe she’s depressed, and her unhappiness has nothing to do with me?

I need some advice from you guys, because all my alpha friends have almost zero experience with long term relationships.

strap, ya’ll are not at all adept at doing duality and syllogistic – you were so funny quoting
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"I Am who I Am" leaves little room for talking "like a fag"; and that's the one thing ya'll are good at. Preaching the One to the world.
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Or whore yourself to the PTB, like you're doing right now, promote whatever godless nonsense PTB needs promoting. Millions of ya'll been doing through the ages, and it always comes to bite ya'll in the butt, but "burnt Fool's bandaged finger goes wobbling back to the fire"
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Please, tho, metaphysics and philosophic debate are so far out of your league – is not even funny. It's embarrassing, really.

Men want to be immortal, especially European men. Let me explain. We aren’t here for pleasure. Hedonism is impossible, present has a short duration, you’d need to turn between different pleasures to don’t get bored, and you’d need to avoid suffering. And is also the issue of death, death renders any pleasure insignificant. Pleasure is shallow and futile.
So where men have to drive their efforts and actions? Towards greater things, eternal things. Aristotle, Brunelleschi, Rachmaninoff, Galileo, Achilles, Napoleon and and Riemann are immortal. They have reached immortality
through honor for serving their nations and race. But what has the average man for being immortal? He has the possibility of keep himself alive through his DNA lineage. Feminism is a existential threat, because it rob us the possibility of being eternal through our descendants.

I don’t like one thing from Nietzsche. Is his metaphysic against European core cognitive style. He usually sais that Europeans are concerned with eternal, immutable concepts. He at least recognises that here is where the truth lies, only for later deny the worth of truth and eternity. The European truth seeking skill is that, is what makes us the gods from science to conquest and architecture. And Nietzsche want to replace it with a womanly cognitive style of understand reality. Based in the present, in shallow and mortal pleasure, in void actions and nihilistic vacuum. You can try explain this to a women, but they aren’t able to see the whole thing, they live in the present, they can’t see the whole of anything, they can’t see the truth, they can’t systematise, they can’t relating abstract concepts. And amongst men European are the best at this.
The next time you look at feminism, think that they have taken away your immortality through dispossession of property to have family and civilisation.

Just look and philosophy outside Europe. From wikipedia entry eastern philosophy.
-Some Western thinkers claim that philosophy as such is only characteristic of Western cultures. Martin Heidegger is even reported to have said that only Greek and German languages are suitable for philosophizing.[1] On the other hand, Arab and Jewish philosophy, which have been in dialogue with the Greek tradition and, in the case of leading Islamic philosophers such as Ibn Sina or Ibn Rushd, rely heavily on it, are not specifically Eastern philosophies at all. It is still commonplace in Western universities to teach only Western philosophy and to ignore Asian philosophy altogether, or consider only newer Western-influenced Asian thought properly “philosophy”. Carine Defoort, herself a specialist in Chinese thought, has offered support for such a “family” view of philosophy,[2] while Rein Raud has presented an argument[3] against it and offered a more flexible definition of philosophy that would include both Western and Asian thought on equal terms. In response, OuYang Min argues that philosophy proper is a Western cultural practice and essentially different from zhexue, which is what the Chinese have,[4] even though zhexue (originally tetsugaku) is actually a neologism coined in 1873 by Nishi Amane for describing Western philosophy as opposed to traditional Asian thought.[5]
This is why sex is a existential objective, regardless of instincts. Also see the geography of thought and search related studies, check how white men(specially true in correlation with hajnal core) understand reality through reaching the immutable, and eternal and how much this is the truth.