has anyone else stopped taking care of themselves after having kids?

before my two kids
every day I would jog work out
wash my face every morning with cleanser
brush my teeth twice a day
take showers every day
got dolled up I worried about my looks and weight Now its a different story I wear the same thing I don't wear make up all the time and if I do I end up falling asleep in it, I even sometimes forget to shower lotion up and brush my teeth now I'm ashamed to say all that but its the truth and idk what to do I lost my mojo I don't style up anymore having two babies really keeps me busy .. I miss my old self my old body ..I love my kids to death and I want their Mom who is only 20 to be glamorous. :( and their both girls I just need to be a better rolemodel I'm letting go and this fear of my boyfriend cheating on me is always getting the best of me.. someone please tell me I'm not the only one?

Same hear. I wash my face when I wear make up or if I am going out of the house. I have actually moved my toothbrush to the kitchen so I don't forget. Shaving? Only on Sundays. That is when I can take a loooong shower!

Make time for yourself too mama, I started a class with other mums and we bring our babies and work out. Even just bringing them in the bathroom and having a shower or something. You'll feel better and confident. Find friends to watch babies while you get a massage or something.

U are so not the only one,i have two kids too and its hard,sooooo hard my dh works all day so im rresponsible for getting everything done cooking,cleaning taking my kids to there appoitments, and i dont have any family or friends, so its like if i was a single mom its sucks,sometimes i do my make up while holding my lo in my other arm,cook holding him,and when he finally takes a nap i run around the house like crazy to try and get things done before he wakes up, i totally understand you :(

I've definitely let myself go, mostly because I'm a sahm now. If I have plans I'll get ready, but otherwise I look pretty much the same every day- glasses (I have contacts), no makeup, hair undone, and yoga/pajama pants. Oh, and I'll shower if I'm going somewhere but otherwise it's an every other day thing. I think I try and make plans with ppl just so I'll get ready, lol!

Lol i felt i was the only one i though i was doing sonethinb wrong but am glad this is something normal! I feel i do everything wrong bc i try to do everthing but at the end i don't do nothing! Lol but we have to find the way to do what we have to do!

Miettmommy- I swear I think I wrote your post. I was like that too. About a month ago I realized that I was getting too fat and I needed to get something done. I started working out at home and finding time for ME. Its hard at times. I have two under two,and they