Third-place essay -- Ashley Miller

Living in the twenty-first century, it is a known and accepted fact that society consists of a plethora of diverse religions, cultures, and heritages that have manifested themselves in each and every one of its members. While not everyone is fully aware of the backgrounds of different faiths and cultures, a level of respect exists between people. Unfortunately, in some complex circumstances, conflicts arise where core ethical values are put into question. Certain topics remain taboo to various lifestyles, such as abortion, gay marriage, polygamy, and issues such as naturalism versus multiculturalism. In such circumstances, different groups of people may take offense to public discussions of these topics. It is at times like these when everyone else’s culture and heritage must be taken into consideration. In attempts to honor and respect the ideals of others, it is best, as a society, to maintain an open mind to the situations and changes occurring every day. While sometimes difficult to do, this has proven to be the most beneficial and least controversial method to maintaining order and happiness.

In said times, when core ethical values are in conflict, it is best to look to individuals in history who have impacted and adapted to changes that are taking place in today’s world. For example, in 1989 Timothy J. Keller established Redeemer Presbyterian Church in New York City (“Tim Keller”). Redeemer Presbyterian became one of the first multi-ethnic congregations in the city, having up to five thousand people attending services weekly. Keller is a Christian preacher who believes that being open minded is the best way to reach out to different individuals. He began the church with his wife and three daughters, welcoming anyone, of any faith, race, sexual preference, or culture, who was looking to worship God. While not always sharing similar views with the people who attend his services, Keller maintains an open mind, and believes that through God everyone can reach a common ground. It is this ideal that should be acknowledged by everyone. Timothy Keller provides a perfect example; while not everyone needs to believe in the same ideals, it is important to share respect for the beliefs of others, even when they do not match personal ones.

In kindergarten toddlers are taught “if you do not have anything nice to say, do not say anything at all,” but it is as adults that these teachings slip the mind. When core ethical values are in conflict and uncomfortable circumstances arise, it is sometimes best to remain open to other values. It is necessary to realize that accepting others’ ideals does not mean compromising personal beliefs. It is with the guidance and example of individuals such as Timothy Keller that humanity develops into a more diverse and accepting society as time progresses. Years ago, without historical influences such as Martin Luther King Jr., Moses Mendelssohn, and Susan B. Anthony, society was hindered by conflicting opinions and beliefs. With the advances of individuals towards issues that are important to them, such as equal rights between races, genders, and religious preferences, society continues to advance in every aspect as people learn to live with and accept each other. It is important, as individuals, to remember the words spoken to us as toddlers, and to realize steps can only be taken forward when an open mind is maintained. Therefore, it is necessary to continue to respect and honor the opinions and beliefs of others to continue to advance in life.