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Df accused me of cheating cuz i wanted to shower during the day

I was itching really bad and it wouldnt stop.We have bedbugs and fleas(weve had apt professionally sprayed twice and spent $500 to have it done but it didnt work so were stuck with em til our lease is up May 2013) Figured a shower would make it stop so instead of telling df i was taking a shower i made the mistake of asking. He said if i wanted a shower i have to send sexy pics after i get out. Well i just wanted to stop itching and after arguing with him about the pics it calmed and hardly itched. Well when he got home that night he said i had to be hiding something cuz i never shower during the day always at night with him. he said i must of just fucked somebody and i wanted to wash the smell off. I dont know anybody here but his family for 1 and 2 dd was home and i would never do that in front of her! I'm gettin tired of him accusing me of stuff and thats part of the reason i left the first time. And hes starting to do it again and hes like i could go find a woman 10x better than you and im like well go do it and he turns it on me and is like why, cuz u dont love me anymore? or some bs like that. i liked it a hell of alot better at my moms. I was free and could do anything i wanted. Here with df i have to ask to do anything except pee. but to eat or shower or use comp i have to ask. i dont like it here but im trying to make it work cuz i really do love him. weve been together 2 years.

I have a feeling he has already gone after other women and you need to get in a better relationship. The chronic infestation will not cease if you havent treated the mattresses and all linens with a high heat essentially baking them to death.

Sounds like abuse...and anyone that allows you to live in bedbugs is just gross!!! Besides i would report that to the county health dep! Your land lord will be in some serious trouble because it's thier resposibility NOT on you!!!

It's time to either leave or stop complaining. if you dont like how he treats you or how he makes you feel then leave. i understand that you love him, but it doenst sound to me like he loves you because you dont say or do things like that to people that you love. IMO

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