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I"m a girl and sometimes I actually look forward to using my vibrator even though I fantasize about my boyfriend. Weird huh. I think people do need 'masturbation' time for themselves when they are in a relationship... its just good for you and we know ourselves really well.
I enjoy the sex we have too though... it just depends what I'm in the mood for.

good point, 3:26, but at the same time, i'm gonna go ahead and guess that your vibrator is probably a lot more exciting than a guy's hand is to himself. especially with all the fancy ones they have now!

I'm a woman, and I still agree. Just like there's a time and place for long intimacy, or a quickie, or fast and hard- sometimes there's just something needed about takin' care of business on your own. Anyone that's offended by that is just being insecure.

There's nothing wrong with masturbating while in a relationship. It's not that you don't love having sex with your lover, you just need a change of pace occasion. Alone time is definitely appreciated, both men and women have agreed to this.
Besides, for guys, it allows you build up and keep going longer.