good news, I have a girlfriend got to holding hands, next date we're hoping for a first kiss.

That is good news Good luck.Me and my girlfriend are still going stron (surprisingly, i didn't think she'd stay with me this long). 5 weeks now and it now helps that i see her much mroe than i normally would. I see her everyday after college (and AT college) and i really like it. We've had her house to ourselves for quite a bit recently due to her family being on holiday and she's really into Anime so we've spent a lot of time with each other watching Anime.

DT13: It's good you still talk, keeps you close still. Worst thing is to drift away... And may i ask, why did you move out? Your choice?

anehwehz my fellow Psypokians, for those who don't read the "how's your day been going" thread, I just want to report that I took my girlfriend out on Thursday, stuff happened but most importantly we were sat in a resteraunt with arms around each other and hands holding while kissing each other's faces, and afterwards we went down to an isolated playground place and had our first kiss good times.

yesterday she confessed to me that she regrets doing what we did in a public place, which she's right to, I don't want her to feel like a slut or anything, I've very well-intentioned when it comes to women. anyway, I think I might be in love with her, that's right Psypokes, Zombie and his girlfriend are madly in love with one an other (I know she is because her best friend is my spy and she said that she said something along the lines of "what if he's the one?")

@Zombie: It's a little too early to be in love when you've just had your first kiss. Give it some time.

I'm not trying to be a douche to you, but what the hell? Maybe this is my look on things, but normally, in a relationship, I don't have our first kiss until I really think I like her, and after that, I think saying "I love you" and all that is okay. Kissing isn't something people just do (unless you're relationship is just that meaningless), it's something you do when you really think you're in love with them. Understand? That's me though, I know some people who think kissing is something you just do as a couple, but I disagree.

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lol, of course I'm obviously too young to know what being in love is, and that most people think it's "forever" sort of thing when they have their first feelings of this kind towards somebody...but hey, as long as I don't do anything stupid, what the hell, right? she's an amazing person, and I can't believe how lucky I am to have found her.

in this country, young people barely go out, and they hardly ever kiss, so yeah it's a pretty big deal, it's not something we do over here. I know in the West that kissing is nothing, and it's just something you're expected to do when you're a couple, but that's not the case here

@Zombie: It's a little too early to be in love when you've just had your first kiss. Give it some time.

I'm not trying to be a douche to you, but what the hell? Maybe this is my look on things, but normally, in a relationship, I don't have our first kiss until I really think I like her, and after that, I think saying "I love you" and all that is okay. Kissing isn't something people just do (unless you're relationship is just that meaningless), it's something you do when you really think you're in love with them. Understand? That's me though, I know some people who think kissing is something you just do as a couple, but I disagree.

Well, it seems we've got contradicting views. I personally think that the first kiss is an early thing, and saying 'the L word' (Not Lesbian, mind you) comes later. Zombie, if you really love her, don't rush in by telling her you love her. Too many good relationships fall because of that.

lol, like I said, I won't do anything stupid I think I know my share when it comes to women. but like I said, in this country especially, kissing is a huge deal, so it must mean something....and not even the kiss....but the way the kiss happened, I can't even remember it...it's like a dream that you know you had but can't recall exactly...we were sitting in a dark park and I had my arm around her, her friends were calling her because her ride came, she said "I luv yew" and started to get up, and then we were both suddenly overcome and we started kissing each other....it was like I was being pulled, not like something I planned like most guys do.

I'm not in a relationship because I'm in FFA and I was raising a pig and I was caring more for my pig then caring about getting a boyfriend so I'm single and I do want a boyfriend but I could care less also.

maybe it's just me, but i've never seen a relationship go wrong because of saying "I love you" too early. Lately, saying I love you doesn't mean anything anymore, unless the situation makes it mean something. But I had my first kiss with my girlfriend at homecoming, when we slow danced. Lol, I knew it would be cheesy, but she said she loved it. Especially because it was her first kiss. I felt so romantic, lmao.

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Trust me S_E girls love the romantic crap. I may be 13 but I've gone out with at least three times my age as many... The girl I'm currently going out with (Our 1 year anniversary was last Monday [trust me I'm about as surprised as you are]) went well because at the park by her house (not to mention she lives on another side of town at my old school) I had a picnic set up and she went coo-coo over it. Trust me dude coming from a guy who has (according to the law) has commited many rapes (of course not like forcing people...) I knows what works. (I know the rape thing sounds weird but look it up even BJ's at my age count as rape..)

Yeah, some girls like the romantic type stuff. At my school, nobody cares about that crap, which is why I haven't found anyone. I want something real. I guess my standards are too high :O

or you're just too young

I knew it! I know posting in that dumbass "How Old are You" Thread was a mistake! I'm not too young!

i thought you're thirteen...?? honestly, when i was thirteen, nobody dated or anything; sure, everyone had crushes, but none of that stuff really starts until high school (maybe eigth grade at the earliest). and i'm not calling you a dumbass; but you are younger than the majority of the posters here.

Trust me S_E girls love the romantic crap. I may be 13 but I've gone out with at least three times my age as many... The girl I'm currently going out with (Our 1 year anniversary was last Monday [trust me I'm about as surprised as you are]) went well because at the park by her house (not to mention she lives on another side of town at my old school) I had a picnic set up and she went coo-coo over it. Trust me dude coming from a guy who has (according to the law) has commited many rapes (of course not like forcing people...) I knows what works. (I know the rape thing sounds weird but look it up even BJ's at my age count as rape..)

Kid, get out of here. You are not doing that kind of stuff. 1: Even if you really are getting BJ's (which I highly doubt), it's not rape. The only reason it could be is if her parents caught you and are radicals about that kind of thing. Which they should be, looking at how you're 13, you fool. 2: "I may be 13 but I've gone out with at least three times my age as many" ... So you've gone out with girls 3 times your age? Is that what you're saying? Because that means you go for 39 year olds... Yeah, no. 3: You are 13! You don't need to be in a relationship. I'm not trying to patronize you for being younger, but this is all ridiculous. You are way too young to be in a "serious" relationship.

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If you're in love, you know it. Saying anything like, "I think..." or "He might be..." only expresses excitement towards another. While caught up in good feelings with a great friend, one might feel better being around partner. But when one is truly in love, he knows it. There is no ambiguity.

In adolescence, relationships and "love" are things children participate in because adults do. It is an age where people feel they're ready to grow up and often try to behave as if they're older than they are. Of what they understand, part of a relationship is a more mature self and part is pleasure. Relationships are far more emotional than sexual, and often children confuse how to express one without the other. Children honestly learn more fighting with their partner than they do spending time with them. Often with adults, the opposite is true.

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