Making Unreasonable actions/demands on the following:<br />invasion of partner's privacy<br />control choice of apparel<br />control type of friends to make<br />financial aspect<br />control what hobbies (recreational activities) to take up<br />food choices (citing partner's food choices as unhealthy in their opinion)<br />family (usually bad mouthing them)<br />using excuses such as if you love me.... blah blah blah you will give in.... you will not mind me checking.... etc....