How To Restore Your Trust Again After Narcissistic Abuse

The Shift of Core Beliefs Which is Necessary

When we have been smashed by the narcissistic abuse we are undergoing a powerful Spiritual Awakening at the Highest Level.

I have said so many times that narcissistic abuse is a make or break experience where we either shift profoundly into a Higher Version of ourselves or we remain broken and break down further as a result of not rising to the Soul Truths we have been presented with.

After being narcissistically abused these are the original False Beliefs that cannot remain in our psyches and beings if we want to create a Thriver Recovery.

“Life is happening to me from the outside in.”

“I fear the evil people in the world that I am absolutely defenseless against.”

“I am a human being whose life is precariously dependent on what other people are or aren’t doing.”

“Other people are responsible for my own safety, boundaries, love, approval, and security and if they don’t provide it healthily my life is in peril.”

“I am a victim and life is happening to me regardless of how I am showing up in life.”

After narcissistic abuse when we are living within these False Beliefs and “outside in” framework the concept of “trust” is terrifying. If we felt helpless, victimized and defenseless before narcissistic abuse on certain levels, NOW this has escalated to a whole new level of fear.

It is usual that we are suffering C-PTSD and agoraphobia as well as many adrenal disorders because we do NOT feel safe in Life.

Now our natural dependencies on Life and other people outside of our own connection with ourselves feels precarious and untrustworthy … and is fraught with danger.

For those of us who were narcissistically abused, it is very likely that by the time we found out that these people were not to be trusted, we had already over-invested ourselves.