I Miss Him

I haven't spoken to my father since Monday January 27th, 2014. 123 days. He was angry, aggressive, a hypocrite, doesn't pay child support, didn't support my gay brother, chewed tobacco, and was overall a bad person to be around. But all the sudden I am in tears on the floor shaking because I miss him so much. I don’t know why or how to make it stop, but all I want it a huge bear hug from my smelly father.

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We may not always agree with our parents, but they are our parents..the good, the bad, the smelly etc. If you want a relationship with him, then have one with boundaries. He is human, he is entitled to his opinions (even if you don't like them or agree)..Maybe someday he'll evolve and change. But until then to avoid arguments don't bring stuff up. He's probably not capable (or won't be willing) to see the other side. Have your dad in your life and let it be on your terms.