To be annoyed at being woken at 630am by dps ex ringing (non urgent)

I'm tired and grumpy so may be being unreasonable.We were both jerked awake at 630am this morning by dps ex ringing to discuss an non urgent problem with their daughter.We both thought there was something really wrong and then couldn't get back to sleep. She has form for this having once rung at 530amDp has big work day and client dinner so now worried he's driving when tired and weather is shockingAibu?

No true I know lots of people get up that early but prob am more concerned about her causing him extra anxiety. She rang us on holiday at 530am also over a non urgent thing (we were in this country so not a time difference thing)She texts constantly also

Either phone on silent, most will still sound wake up alarms or set her ringtone to silent, or some will allow a timed block mode for all notifications/calls/texts except for a specific group, so in my case, the children, dh and my mother in case of emergencies.

Fuck that. If my dps ex was calling at that time I would get him to say something to her.My Dp works til 2am some mornings Pottering so yeah being woken up at 6.30 after about 3 hours sleep would be an issue. Not everybody is home from work at 6/7pm.

If you know you're going to be up at 6.30 during the week you set a sleep schedule that fits that. You go to bed at 10.30, you get up at 6.30, you're tired again by 10pm. If you're normally in a schedule where you sleep from 12 to 8, of bloody course you're going to be tired if you're woken at 6.30am.

My phone (Motorolla) allows me to set certain people to priority meaning my phone is on silent at night but my sisters, in laws and close friends who may need in an emergency can still call me. I choose who is a priority.

I'd get a separate phone for her if you can't do a selective mute. If your DP has anxiety then it's not surprising he felt anxious about driving, it's easy for the anxiety to fix on something unexpected like that so I don't think that he was being unreasonable.

Yes, that's a ridiculous time to ring outside an emergency. Doesn't matter if you're up or not...it's just intrusive. Who wants a chat at 6.30? I understand you have to answer in case it IS an emergency. Has he chatted with her about boundaries? How long have they been apart and why do you think she calls so frequently?