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Am I Dating Too Much?

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I know lately I have posted a lot of
things pertaining to relationships and what I may be going through right now in
my life but one thing that stood out the most is my current “dating” situation.
I really don’t know if I would call it a situation but this has been the most I
have dated in my entire twenty-seven years of living. I am not sure if that is
a good thing or a bad thing to admit to.

Let me just be honest, in the past
month I have been on at least 3-4 dates and not one of these dates turned into
a second
date and that’s pretty much
by choice [by the end of the night I have already come to the conclusion
that I have no feelings or connection with the person I just shared a meal +
small talk with and a couple of laughs, which sucks but happens more often that
I would like to say].

The more I go out on these date the
more I feel as though maybe I am searching for something that I should not be
looking for [everything should come
natural and not forced] so that has put me back into the space I was in
before, happy being single. One thing that I can admit to is that I have been
the happiest I have ever been in the last two years being single, it gave me
the time and drive to realize what it is I want out of life in more ways than
one.

Question is was I dating too much?
Maybe or maybe not, who’s to say? I just know when that right person comes
along for me I will not have to question it, search for it, or even second-guess
it I
will know.