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It's been a crazy week (family in town) as we are getting ready to go to a family reunion this weekend. So today is traveling. Tommorow is the reunion and seeing relatives I have not seen in ages. Sunday is traveling back. Then a few more days of family at my place.
Love family, glad to have them around but looking forward to reclaiming my house and my routine!
What's everyone else up to?

"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear

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tryingagain74♀ 33698Member # 33698

Posted: 7:47 AM, July 11th (Friday), 2014

Finally, I'm expecting a laid-back weekend. The kids have their swim lessons this morning, and then we're free to do whatever. I told my DD we'd go browsing in her favorite store, and then we'll just see where the day takes us. A good cup of coffee from my favorite coffee place is in order.

Tomorrow, we're probably going to swim at the local pool, and then we're going to my parents' house for dinner. Sunday is also open. While I love having things to do, I'm really looking forward to a whole lot of nothing!

Happy weekend, everyone!

FBS; now happily liberated!
Two DS and One DD
It matters not how strait the gate,/How charged with punishments the scroll./I am the master of my fate:/I am the captain of my soul.--"Invictus," William Ernest Henley

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WeepingBuddhist♀ 39139Member # 39139

Posted: 7:51 AM, July 11th (Friday), 2014

Hot date tonight then a weekend of doing absolutely fuck all for the first time in months. or maybe painting my living room either way, there will be bubbly

Me: BS 46
Him: unimportant
D Day:4-27-13
DIVORCED!!! 2-20-14

Posts: 797 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Columbus

norabird♀ 42092Member # 42092

Posted: 8:38 AM, July 11th (Friday), 2014

Date tonight (cooking--I hope we can actually figure out if there is chemistry and not just compatibility), then tomorrow going to my first S-Anon meeting and the Bolshoi opera if I can find my ticket!

Sunday is the world cup and a friend's wedding.

Hopefully it will be relaxing! The weather will be good

Have a great one y'all!

Sit. Feast on your life.

Posts: 4315 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: NYC

WeepingBuddhist♀ 39139Member # 39139

Posted: 9:05 AM, July 11th (Friday), 2014

OMG---so thinking about the cuite, I forgot about the final. I need to amend that to "there may be bubbly or there may be tears"

Me: BS 46
Him: unimportant
D Day:4-27-13
DIVORCED!!! 2-20-14

Posts: 797 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Columbus

nowiknow23♀ 33226Member # 33226

Posted: 9:38 AM, July 11th (Friday), 2014

DD and I are heading to hometown to see my Dad. Then back here to help a newly divorced friend paint some rooms at her new house before she and the kids move in.

I'm either taking my private jet watch the world cup, or negotiating a just peace in the Middle East, or cleaning the grease out of my Webber.

I've wiped the shit off. It can be wiped off you know.

Posts: 633 | Registered: Jun 2011

WeepingBuddhist♀ 39139Member # 39139

Posted: 11:08 AM, July 11th (Friday), 2014

Survivor, a Weber is a hell of nice grill. I'm sure that the air traffic in Rio is going to hellish

[This message edited by SI Staff at 12:35 PM, July 11th (Friday)]

Me: BS 46
Him: unimportant
D Day:4-27-13
DIVORCED!!! 2-20-14

Posts: 797 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Columbus

Williesmom♀ 22870Member # 22870

Posted: 11:15 AM, July 11th (Friday), 2014

I'm off today. I got my car fixed, and have a handyman working on a project at my house today.

After that, the weekend is all mine. I may take one of the dogs to get his nails done. I would like to clean, but it's below napping on my priority list.

[This message edited by Williesmom at 11:16 AM, July 11th (Friday)]

You can stuff your sorries in a sack, mister. -George Costanza
There is a special place in hell for women who don't help other women. - Madeleine Albright

Posts: 8366 | Registered: Feb 2009 | From: Western PA

FaithFool♀ 20150Member # 20150

Posted: 11:22 AM, July 11th (Friday), 2014

I would like to clean, but it's below napping on my priority list.

I'm wrapping up my two week staycation with more of a whole lot of nothing.

Pub lunch with a friend on Sunday.

Maybe go for pizza at the hipster joint one evening because it's been awhile.

Other than that, basking, biking, beer (not all together of course).

Back to work on Tuesday. *sigh*

[This message edited by FaithFool at 11:24 AM, July 11th (Friday)]

DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire

Posts: 18530 | Registered: Jul 2008 | From: Canada

Sad in AZ♀ 24239Member # 24239

Posted: 11:44 AM, July 11th (Friday), 2014

Finally, a free weekend! I'm thinking of getting my hair cut (by someone other than myself--first time in 2 years! ) and my toenails done. Then maybe visiting a local tearoom--haven't done that since I visited NEH in Seattle two years ago too!

On Sunday I plan to go hiking at the Natural Bridge State Forest in MA. Then I hope to finish the day at a local outdoor concert listening to an Irish folk band.

I love summer

May your 2015 be more FUCK YEAH! than fuck this

Posts: 21895 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: Upstate NY

cvs2kkids♂ 41298Member # 41298

Posted: 11:51 AM, July 11th (Friday), 2014

Clean yard after post tropical storm Arthur

Clean house after post tropical storm teenagers

Go see the new "Planet of the Apes" movie

Philippians 4:6-7

6 Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. 7 And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your min

Posts: 241 | Registered: Nov 2013 | From: NB Canada

fraeuken♀ 30742Member # 30742

Posted: 11:52 AM, July 11th (Friday), 2014

DDs are out of town for the next 12 days, so I am planning on kicking off a bunch of small projects around the house.

I have a dr. appt. this afternoon and then SO and I are getting a couples massage. I told him this could be my Valentine's Day present. He said, "But I don't get you a Valentines Day present." And I replied, "Now you do."

Tomorrow our service organization is hosting a picnic at the local VA hospital. All patients and staff are invited. We do it every year. It's a lot of work, but very worth it.

Nothing much planned for the rest of the weekend, lots of things that COULD be done, but napping is pretty high on my priority list also.

NL

Even if you can't control the world around you, you are still the master of your own soul.

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Catwoman♀ 1330Member # 1330

Posted: 12:29 PM, July 11th (Friday), 2014

Brimfield tomorrow with GDM. I can't wait. I love Brimfield.

Sunday attending a funeral for a dear friend and fellow singer who lost her battle with pancreatic cancer this week.

Cat

FBS: Married 20 years, 2 daughters 25 and 22. Divorced by the grace of GOD.
D-Days: 2/23/93; 10/11/97; 3/5/03
Ex & OW Broke up 12-10
"An erection does not count as personal growth."

Posts: 30004 | Registered: Apr 2003 | From: Massachusetts

SI Staff10Member # 10

Posted: 12:37 PM, July 11th (Friday), 2014

WeepingBuddhist -

Please remember to follow the No Politics Guidelines. We have zero tolerance of discussing politics here. No names, jokes, polls or debates are allowed. Violation of this guideline results in losing your profile.

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WeepingBuddhist♀ 39139Member # 39139

Posted: 12:49 PM, July 11th (Friday), 2014

Sorry! I'll be more careful.

Me: BS 46
Him: unimportant
D Day:4-27-13
DIVORCED!!! 2-20-14

Posts: 797 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Columbus

h0peless♂ 36697Member # 36697

Posted: 1:20 PM, July 11th (Friday), 2014

I'm hoping to go to my Brother's house for some baby time at some point but they are tired and I'm respecting their space. :( I'll probably take my dogs over to my Dad's house at some point and let them run around in the desert and I imagine I'll do some swimming and some cooking.

Posts: 2420 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: Baja Arizona

fraeuken♀ 30742Member # 30742

Posted: 5:39 PM, July 11th (Friday), 2014

I meant to say..

Sunday, I will be a confident fan, attending World Cup viewing along with my German friends and colleagues and hoping our boys, who have 4 players nominated for the best player of the World Cup and who have the most unique and unpredictable Thomas Mueller and record goal scorer Miro Klose as well as best goalie in the world, Manuel Neuer will take it all!