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Before I ask my question I would like to give a little feedback! I don't know if you remember but I purchased a Nexus and did some damage, well i am glad to let you know I am all healed up nicely. My Aneros is a perfect fit and loving it! I haven't had much time to work with it but the little time we have spent together has been great. The main problem I had in the beginning was maintaining an erection, but I seem to have solved it!!Ok here's my question

My wife and I were fooling around about two months ago. When we were in the swing of things I managed to pump out loads of Pre Cum she really enjoyed it (Major turn on for both of us) I've tried to recreate the situation but since then I can only manage a little. Sometimes none!! My question is , is, is there a way to exercise this ability or is it something that happens occasionally or spontaneously?

I generally produce very little pre cum - a drop or two is usually about it. athough I do find that when the aneros is really moving, and things are really happening, I produce much more. At that point I can feel it rising through my dick and leaking out. My understanding is that some do and some don't

Like so many other things "Aneros", if you concentrate on generating pre-cum you will probably not generate much.

While my experience with the Helix and Eupho have only consisted of a couple of months I quickly learned that I had to reverse my mind (thinking). Instead of my mind dictating to my body I have to let my body dictate to my mind.

By that I mean I have to make my mind 'listen' to my body and quit trying to make anything happen.

While I notice that many on these forums seems to need some erotic stimulation before an Aneros session I have found that most of the time I get better results if I concentrate on my own feelings rather than trying to conjure up some image of a sexual nature in my mind. For me it seems that it is a distraction more than a help.

My favorite phrase lately has become "Enjoy the journey". I am not trying to reach any particular 'destination" such as orgasm.

As I have become more attuned to that attitude I have increased the number and intensity of my orgasms.

Let the pre-cum be what it will be, quit trying to 'make' anything happen. I find that I can enjoy my wife's attention much more if I am concentrating on my feelings and her affections and forget about trying to 'go somewhere'. And the wonderful results seem to flow naturally.

BTW, by using this method I find that I can have an orgasm with or without the Aneros by just letting my mind go and listening to my body.