I wonder if your theology would be the same if you were dying from kidney disease. The Lord wants people to do a lot of things that they don't do. Jesus said, If you say "God bless you, be warmed, but don't do anything to help your brother in his time of need, how can you say that the love of God dwells in you?"

Ash is thin because he is younger and fitter than me... and because I eat too much. How much do you weigh?