Signs of a Cheating Girlfriend

by vijaya kumar sunku
(hyderabad,AP,India)

Although there are no "sure proof sign of a cheating girlfriend" there exists some tell-tale signs that maybe important point to take note of especially if you find out that you are increasingly being ignored no matter how professional you are trying to save the relationship.

For example if her physical look and style has changed overnight and suddenly she just behaves and looks like she used to "dress up" when the two of you started to date but not for you - most likely she feel the need to impress her new man and her style has started to conform to her new man.

Be careful though as to how you about confront your supposedly "cheating girlfriend" If she suddenly starts wearing a new fragrance, the alarm bells need not sound off. She might be simply trying to spice things up in your relationship.

That is why it's important to practice patient and resist the temptation of asking too many pushy questions too soon that might end up damaging your love life permanently.

Nevertheless, if you smell another man's cologne on her clothes, hands or neck, then she may have already started "planting her lips" where she shouldn't. Watch out and if you think you are being cheated on, confront your girlfriend but remember the golden rule; "stay calm and be non-aggressive as much as possible"

Another important thing in learning if she cheating is when her conversations no longer start with the magical two words "We" rather, they have been substituted with "I". Where your opinion uses to mean the world to her, it no longer is needed before she acts. That is a big bad sign. For instance take notice when your girlfriend comes home with a new super short hair do style without asking or letting you know, whereas in the past "good old days" she would have never done something so drastic without consulting with you.

Another bad sign that things aren't working out is the sex appetite drops off as it always have been and for a long time. But that is a topic on it's own.

10 more signs of a cheating girlfriend are:

1.) You find birth-control pills in her medicine cabinet, and you've had a vasectomy.

2.) She sets up a new e-mail account and doesn't tell you about it.

3.) She goes to the store for groceries and comes home 5 hours later.

4.) She buys herself new underwear.

5.) She sets up a separate cell phone account that is billed to her office.

6.) The toilet bowl seat is up, and when you left home it was down.

7.) She's unconventionally spending money on new clothes.

8.) She stops confiding in you and seeking advice from you.

9.) She uses a low voice or whisper on the phone or hangs up quickly.

10.) She stops wearing her wedding ring.

Now here is the deal, do not cheat back in an effort to make her jealous or to start a fight if you are unhappy with the ways things are going.

If things have changed to the point where you fear you are being cheated on, ask yourself if you want to stay in the relationship and do not think of this as a contest between you and "the other person,"

Always remember that you are not a loser because you are being cheated on. If your girlfriend is cheating on you think long and hard about taking her back if they ask - "once a cheater almost always a cheater!"