I was once very close to an officemate. He was my best buddy for two years. We became close because we both love drinking. Regular yung pag inom namin at palagi pa ako sa bahay nila, sleepover dahil sa sobrang lasing.

Because of this closeness, i fell in love with him. He became my world and my life. Sarap ng feeling. Masaklap lang, syempre di ko masabi sa kanya.

I suggest adding people w/ a lot of mutual friends… be friends w/ them by getting to know them online 1st and w8 until that person gives his/her number… W8 for them to invite you to hang w/ them like the gym.. Simply greet them there in person and who knows what’l happen.. I suggest people around your age who’s just like you.. Just take things slow. 🙂

With regards to what you feel for your office mate, you should know your boundaries. You should realize first who you really are before jumping into a relationship; whether with a guy or a girl. Because we should accept the fact that some people still prefer the opposite sex. Some people would want to have a commitment with the same sex. While others are just jerks and they would hook up with either men or women for just sex (aka “Douche bags). Also, keep your guards strong against douche bags if you ever encounter them because if you suddenly developed feelings for these kind of people, it sucks pal. Furthermore, these people are the ones with STDs. Be careful.

If you are willing to go beyond the fence and tell him you like him, be prepared for the consequences. So I’m telling you not to rush on these things. How long have you known this person? Do you feel just aroused or aroused plus emotional attachment?

Loving someone, whether homo or hetero comes with retroactions. All you need to do is measure the scales until it tilts in favor of happiness, satisfaction, and commitment.

you’re just 21. there’s more men to come. just don’t let your guards down. hiv is everywhere. nevertheless, enjoy the experience as you discover this part of you. good luck! (coming from a 23 yr old man lols)

haha. you’re quite right. maybe I’m just being sentimental at times. my ex bf told me back then, “victory is always mine whenever we have debates on social issues; but as far as our relationship is concerned, you always leave me speechless”. 😆

Just keep smiling 🙂 what you put out there you will attract. As for Mr. Pogi, kiligin ka na kung kiligin, but just set no expectations. He may or may not make your fantasies become real, but just sit back. Chill lang, stay friendly. 🙂