Saturday, April 19, 2008

GOD Whyyyyyyyyyyyyyy?????????!!!!!!!!!!!

I'm beginning to agree with pple who think that God is a woman cos this shit is no longer funny. I just met my JSS 1 dorm prefect's brother and this dude is all over me like white on rice. He wants to be in a "serious" relationship with me and not only that he even asked me if i would be willing to get married middle of next yr, to which i promptly replied NO! So what the problem? He's not cute, and he's bald. Why couldn't it have been my cute crush being all over me. This is so not fair.

Yes, i'm very superficial when it comes to looks. I tried to listen to my friends and sister when i dated that ugly fool who ended up almost killing me. So since then, i have said never again. I would follow my eyes (and my heart). I haven't completely Xed this guy out though, but i'm pissed all the same. I understand there's more to a person than looks (and he's not ugly) and all those good stuff pple say, but i can't help that i'm primarily attracted to the cute, pretty boy types. I'll get over it, but i'm so freaking PISSED right now. SHE is messing with me seriously. I don't know why she can't send cute UNATTACHED dudes my way.

Maybe i'm really too picky as i have been accused of by numerous pple. I'll go think about that for a sec. BTW, this dude has the same name, age, and was born in the same month as the guy who asked me if i wanted him to be my boyfriend. Weird!

19 comments:

lol... Theres nothing wrong with being a little shallow abi is it vainthey call it... i am... and i've made my peace with it(lol i actually never saw it as a problem... but for those who do... ah well) i mean its not that he has to be gorgeous but i have standards... and thats all there is to it... omo do you straight up... cos you dont want to settle for something just because and regret it down the line... if a wowo man is not ur taste... LEave that my dear.. lol

I think it's about balance - that you don't focus too much on the physical. I don't think there's much mileage in marrying someone that you're not physically attracted to. But at the same time, it wouldn't hurt to overlook certain things where looks are concerned, - if the guy is suitable otherwise.

My response disappeared when I tried to post it so I'll keep it short this time.

You can't force attraction, so don't ever settle for a "physically unappealing" man unless you you're attracted to him.

I tend to fall for guys who aren't so fine but who are funny, or kind and then start thinking they're the hottest thing ever. My friends never understand.

Fine guys intimidate me sha, and some of them are so full of themselves (like my brother) that I think my primary position won't be girlfriend or wife, but rather cheerleader, always telling him how hot he is. No thanks!

My dear, I've always said this, 'knowing what you want is not pickiness', and I've told people that who've called me picky. I'm not desperat, and neither are you, so don't feel the need to listen to any guy that comes along if you're not attracted to him. Frankly, I have a 'beauty' limit too. You don't have to be Justin timberlake, but I have standards o!

heyy found your blog today and im in like with it! Makes a very good read.Oh and I also happen to love your layout would you be kind enough to tell me where I can find other nice layouts like yours? Thx

if dats wat makes u happy then so be it jare. u can only satisfy pple this much. cos one minute they are telling u cute does not matter the next minute they start helping u plan out to breakdown with him.

Now, this is something I don't get: How come when a guy is looking for a mate and he wants the most beautiful, ppl bend over forward and backwards to find him the most beautifullest girl in the world? but when a female wants a dude who looks good, she's chided and called vain? makes no sense to me. Keep on looking doll for that hot guy with a heart of gold. don't ever settle.

Abegi jare! Do you girl..and if you're shallow then so be it. If you aint attracted to dude then biko..no! cos in the end na you wey go dey look im face every day... LOL.I will pray that God sends cute unattached men your way o! :)

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