Why You Must Never Expose Your Weaknesses

All of us have various forms of weaknesses. For instance, some of us are quick to anger, others are too generous, and others have low-self-esteem. It is advisable that you must never expose your weaknesses to anyone else apart from yourself. Even your closest friends must never know your weaknesses because one day they might turn against you. Therefore, always strive to make sure that people do not know your weaknesses because they might use them against you.

In warfare or businesses, the successful party always wins by working on the other party’s weaknesses. Furthermore, those who manage to assume absolute control over others mainly do so because they know their weaknesses. For instance, some leaders control people after realizing that fear, is their weakness. They, therefore, threaten people who would want to go against them.

Therefore, it is clear that people will always use your weaknesses to attack you. Also, if you become an influential or famous figure in the future, there will be people who will be constantly working 24 hours with the purpose of uncovering your weaknesses so that they use them against you. Therefore, work on your weaknesses, but never expose them to your friends, husband, wife, children, or the society: you never know, they might use them against you.

Be Careful Who You Share Your Weakness With. Some People Can’t Wait For The Opportunity To Use Them Against You

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Absolutely true..human beings are weak, anyone can turn against us on any given day and embarrass us by exposing our weaknesses and private matters..So its important to keep some things to ourselves..That is a good one

How to Bring Change In A Society or Organization

For those who aspire to be leaders, this article provides you information on how you can bring change in a certain society or organization. Many people have been rejected when they try to bring changes in companies/societies because they do not possess this valuable knowledge effective leaders possess.

Effective leaders know that the first step to bring change is to show people that you like their current way of life, and the second step is to gradually add changes to this way of life. For example, if you are given a new leadership position in a new company, you must not go and eliminate all the rules and regulations in this firm and immediately put your rules. The company’s staff will hate you if you do this because people hate abrupt changes.

Therefore, if you are given a leadership position in a certain society or organization, you must first show the people that you really love their way of life and the rules that govern them. Showing people that you love how they live shows appreciation and makes them like you. Then, after this people have developed a sense of liking towards you, you inform them that you do not want to change their rules but you want to improve them by incorporating your new rules in their rules. You also involve them in making these gradual improvements.

This method never fails: Therefore, if you aspire to bring change to a certain family, village or business setting, use it knowing that it will never fail you. What makes it work is mainly because it shows the high level of respect you have for other people’s way of life. People automatically hate those who disrespect them in any way. And if they hate you, you won’t be an effective leader because they won’t allow you to make changes.

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