Sexless Marriage, Resentment And Commonality.

I found this forum looking for a bit of daily consolation and a tidbit to carry forward. Searching for help on these marital topics brings the reminder that our problems/difficulties are experienced the world over. Thanks all.
Be proactive and have a daily plan folks.
It's going to be a good day!

Would like to get something that helps reignite passionate interest going forward.
Funny how such big, essential items like sexual intimacy can become mundane and forgotten in marriage. It's a toughie for sure.

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