A fantastic choice for beginners

The Simply Sexy leather strap-on harness is good for people who are new to strap-on sex and want to experiment without spending too much money. The unisex design is attractive on everyone, and fits a variety of sizes. However, if you're looking for something very high-quality, you should check out Aslan Leather's harnesses.

Published:
December 27, 2012

Pros:

Great for beginnersLooks attractiveFits a wide range of sizesHolds toys firmly in place

This is a great harness for beginners, and more advanced users could still get some enjoyment from it as well. It's the most basic harness I've found anywhere. If you're new to strap-on play, you could try this to see if you like it, without having to spend too much money. However, it isn't as comfortable or stable as some more expensive harnesses. That said, it's a decent harness, and even though other harnesses could do the job better for a higher price, this one still won't disappoint. Also, it's small enough to fit into a large purse, which comes in handy.

The front part of the harness is made of leather, as are the front straps. The g-string style strap is made of nylon. The buckles are metal, and so are are the o-rings. It feels very soft and smooth, and it's fairly thin. I love the way the material smells, but that's probably because I love the smell of leather.

The design is very sexy, and can work for anyone on the gender spectrum from extremely butch to very femme. My girlfriend is butch, I'm femme, and we both feel hot in this harness. It's pretty well-made, considering the price. The straps are adjustable and it's easy to put on, a huge plus for beginners. It uses an O-ring, but the O-ring straps aren't adjustable. We've used it with two of our dildos, the Pack & Play No. One and the Silk in Medium. If your dildo is larger than the Pack & Play No. One, it might not be compatible with this harness.

This is meant to be a good harness for beginners, and it was effective for that purpose. It's pretty comfortable, although it feels uncomfortable if you wear it for longer than a few hours. It was extremely easy to adjust, put on, and take off, which was a huge plus for us. Getting the Silk into the harness was easy, but getting the Pack & Play No. One into it was a different story. It was a bit of a struggle, but not something that took an excessive amount of time. More like a minute or two, and then she was ready to go. Anything bigger than that probably would not have fit. The harness holds toys firmly in place, and it holds up well for a variety of positions. Seriously, when we got it we were so excited that we tried every position we could think of without getting ridiculous, and it held up fine.

The packaging isn't discreet. It features a topless feminine woman posing seductively while wearing the harness. Actually, the packaging is pretty cheesy and made me laugh a bit, but most people don't buy these sort of things to stare at the boxes they came in.

Before my girlfriend and I tried this harness, we were using a makeshift harness that she created out of an old belt. She'd slide the dildo through the hole in the belt, use duct tape to hold the harness in place, and fucked me with it. Needless to say, this was a more satisfying as well as aesthetically pleasing experience. My girlfriend felt very sexy while wearing it, and so did I! However, if you're looking for a harness that could help your partner come while she's fucking you, this one isn't it. We're still searching for a harness that hits her clit just the right way while we fuck. Still, I'd recommend this to any beginner!

Follow-up commentaryI don't like it anymore3 months after original review

This harness was cheap, and we got what we paid for. It began to fall apart after three months of use, is no longer comfortable to wear, and needs to be constantly adjusted. I'd recommend it to people who aren't sure about strap-on sex and want to try something cheap to see if they like it, but don't expect it to last. If you like strap on sex, upgrade to something that's higher quality.

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