>>40516962I did it. My group only found out out-of-game when a party member tried to revive me after I was bludgeoned with a tank. The GM dropped a few hints and my group soon picked up on it. It became a humorous point for the rest of the campaign and didn't really matter because I didn't make a big deal out of it.

Have her suited up in knights armor or swathed in robes, even better if she keeps them because of 'religious' purposes. That way no one will expect her to take it off and the cult/religious friends will back her up in that she's extremely dedicated to her garb.

Played a wild elf barbarian. We played through several adventures until we came to my character's home jungle and I went and kissed my husband. That's when they realized their berserker elf was a girl.

>>40516962I sort of did this a while ago in a campaign I'm in. I was playing a woman the entire time, and the other PCs were aware of it, but the players were not. I was finally outed when I was afflicted with a love spell or such shenanigans. "Hah, that's a low saving throw, I guess you're gay for him now.""Actually, Ravid is a girl."When they asked me why I never told them earlier, I said that I didn't feel it was important to the situation at hand. And really it's kind of not. When I role play a woman, I only really have subtle differences to when I might role play a man with a similar personality.

>>40521250One of my friends did this in our current campaign. The character was pretending to be a man because she was a bard on the run from a jarl who was trying to kill her for some unknown reason. We knew the character was running away from someone who wanted them dead but never questioned it much.

In retrospect, my friend was dropping clues that something was amiss but we all didn't notice them. We never got a good look at the character sheet to see that the gender box was left blank.

The first clue that something was up was the general untalkative nature of the character. This character is a bard. I was expecting a more classical boisterous bard but the she really only would only play music, never sang, and didn't negotiate much for the party. I ended up doing a lot of the negotiation because I have the second highest charisma.

The baggy drab robe and gray hood were another indicator that something was under wraps. This is the first campaign the player has ever been in so I just figured they were doing the standard "I'm dark and cool" thing. Nope. She was actually hiding something and trying not to draw attention.

The last indicator was the denial of fanservice. We killed some high ranking chieftains, took over their tribe, and the DM threw the harem at us. One character always accepts the ladies so that was that. I'm a ghoul who is pretending to be human so I kicked them all out before anyone could find out. Our bard did the same. What kind of bard would deny a chance to be covered in hot women? A straight female bard that's who. From there some people started joking that the character must be gay. Joke's on us.

In short, yes you can pull it off. Just don't be a jerk about it. And be sure to drop hints and change a few mannerisms. Some people are sick of a person playing "bro but with tits".

Just don't try to grab both ends of the stick by claiming that the girl's also totally hot and has nice big tits and is super feminine and womanly when not in disguise. You can't have your magical realm cake and eat it. A girl who could pass for a guy for any length of time is going to look, sound, smell and act the part.