Patricia M. Free / Sage T. Free Minor Child

Patricia Free continues to cause conflict between father and son. She receives $1, 000.00 per month in child support plus $111.00 per month for medical insurance and I pay for all his orthodontics, and she continues to make it difficult for me to spend time with my son. She is alienating my son from me, not allowing him to spend the time granted to me by the courts by always finding someway to keep him from coming during visitation times. There is always an activity that will keep him from time with Dad. She has denied me access to my son's myspace account and has not given me an e-mail address, you can't talk with this woman, she twists everything to suit herself. I do not get report cards unless I contact the school, I do not receive any information about his athletic events or any school events that he is participating in, the only way I find out any information is by contacting the school directly. She is not encouraging a good father son relationship, money is not the issue, but when we asked that she put aside $250.00 per month into a trust for my son, she was furious. How is he going to go to college if he chooses to do so, I have a college fund started for him in my name so that she can not access that money. It even states that in the event of my death that my estate will continue to pay child support for my son, I am a farmer and it is not easy making a living, but the courts allow this kind of thing to go on and make no decisions to assist fathers who want to be with their children and pay their obiligations. I have never not paid my portion of my sons expenses. DOES IT REALLY COST $1, 111.00 per month to raise a child in public school??????? Be forewarned if you get involved with this woman what you will be in for if you have a child with her, she even got me to adopt her daughter by another marriage when we were married, yet she continued to let the daughters father see her whenever he wanted to, why would you want to have someone else adopt your child yet continue to have a relationship with their biological parent??????