In 1761, he married Albany native Jannetie Bradt. They set up their home on the southside of Albany along what would be known as Hudson Street. The marriage produced five children - all baptized in the Albany Dutch church between 1763 and 1774.

Abraham J. Yates was a baker - working from his modest frame home. Over the next quarter century, he was able to acquire additional lots near his home and bakery. Like other Yates family members, he was connected to city hall in service positions as a constable, firemaster, inspector, and roadmaster. He also was compensated for contract work. In January 1766, he was named in the will of his childless brother.

In March 1770, he took a step forward when he "acquired" the four city docks for the next year. He seems to have held that right to collect rents into the war years. In 1776, he was designated as the "dockmaster" for the next year.

In 1775, he was appointed ensign for the first ward watch company by the Albany committee. He also supported the crusade for American liberties with financial contributions. In June 1777, he was elected to and served on the committee for the first ward. Later, he received a land bounty right in association with the second regiment of the Albany County Militia.

In December 1794, he filed a will. pronouncing himself in "perfect health, sound mind, memory, [and] understanding," Abraham J. Yates left his entire estate to his "beloved wife" Jannetie Yates. However, she died in November 1804 and he passed three months later. Abraham J. Yates had lived seventy-one years.