July 21, 2016

My blog is for the general public, and Facebook is something for family and friends (including friends from the distant past). But I must admit I've friended some people that I don't actually recognize and don't remember why I accepted their offer of friendship. Some of them post political things. This morning, someone wrote "If you believe Ted Cruz should have endorsed Donald Trump, please let me know by leaving a comment. That way I can unfriend and block you." And I'm thinking: I don't even know why you're up here as my friend in the first place. So I unfriended him. What kind of bullshit is this — stating political opinions with a threat to unfriend if you don't agree? What the hell kind of friendship is that? You can't fire me, I quit. And I don't care one way or the other whether Cruz endorsed Trump. I just don't need my Facebook feed containing the candyass bullying that is a threat to unfriend.

I don't understand the benefit of a facebook feed that is only things you agree with. I can understand getting tired of dumb forwards (and there are a lot this year) and I suppose if they got to be too constant and annoying you could at least hide a person's feed for a while, but I rather like seeing posts (rather than forwards) from friends supporting Trump, supporting Hillary, and lambasting both. Every now and then there's a good point, and at least I know where my friends stand.

Basically I don't post political stuff because I know I would get unfriended by half the liberals I know, and when liberals post political stuff, I turn off their feed. who needs politics interfering with genuine friendship and who needs friends that aren't genuine?

Facebook is just another part of the Government Media Cosmopolitan Complex. I've had so-called 'friends' from the past Unfriend me because of my Beliefs. I consider this a favor, really: when the Shit Comes Down I know who I don't need to give a Fuck about. MY bunker's ready, bitches: good luck on the Outside, licking the same boots that kick you in the hopes of getting a crust of their bread...

I had one 'friend' from fifth grade whine about my Nazi beliefs, saying he couldn't believe who I turned out to be. Who I turned out to be? I'm the kind of Friend who will be at a True Friend's side with a pipe in my hand. I'll shank your enemy and share with you my beef jerky, that's who I am...

Meanwhile, little bitches on the Internet get all faint because I Represent. I won't forget how you turned on me in the Easy Times, and I will not spill a drop of my blood for you even when the Government and the Blacks kick in your door: the Government and the Blacks, they don't 'LOL', motherfuckers...

Yes. Like keeping up on recipes, what her cat did today, and vegetables from her garden. Guys who think like guys are doing the same thing on Facebook that they do everywhere else - going through the social dance while quietly looking for sex partners.

When it comes to this sort of synthetic sociality kind of stuff -- and my definition is broad enough to include advertising -- my life's ambition is to craft myself to a state of being somewhere between oblivious and immune.

I'm generally far too irritable at present and Operation Disengagement has not so far proven to be an overwhelming success.

I forget the name of the comic (Rodney Dangerfield? Henny Youngman?) who said, "A friend in need is a pest."

On a personal level, I don't care either that Ted Cruz didn't endorse Trump, but I have lost what little respect I had for Cruz and will definitely not support him in the future (a dubious repudiation, like one who boycotts a store they were unlikely to shop at anyway). But I distinctly recall pressure being brought to bear on Trump during the primaries to pledge that he would support the primary winner no matter who it was. Where are those pledges now that Trump is the nominee?

"But I distinctly recall pressure being brought to bear on Trump during the primaries to pledge that he would support the primary winner no matter who it was. Where are those pledges now that Trump is the nominee?"

Probably became inoperative around the time the nominee broke precedent and mocked Cruz's wife's looks and said his dad helped kill Kennedy. The pledge probably didn't anticipate that.

The only reason I am on facebook is because all my friends use it. I never post anything because I don't want anyone knowing where I am or what I am doing. I am private like that. I think I have like 25 facebook friends-which are my real friends. Politics isn't something we discuss much. More like-"we will be in Ptown this Saturday-Saturday"

I freely admit becoming a Facebook member basically because "everyone" is on Facebook. It comes in handy when it comes to staying in the loop with relatively distant relatives and friends. But what I also see are a lot of people I don't know arguing with each other.

I remember overhearing a disturbing story about person A getting into an argument on Facebook with person B - it got so heated, B actually showed up at A's house.

A few months ago as the deranged political comments increased from some of my "friends", I posted for all that I will be blocking (not unfriending) such people until after the November elections so I don't have to see their nonsense.

It really is stunning how quickly the same exact phrases rampage through the tribal echo-chambers.

Blogger Brando said..."But I distinctly recall pressure being brought to bear on Trump during the primaries to pledge that he would support the primary winner no matter who it was. Where are those pledges now that Trump is the nominee?"

Probably became inoperative around the time the nominee broke precedent and mocked Cruz's wife's looks and said his dad helped kill Kennedy. The pledge probably didn't anticipate that.

The pledge didn't anticipate a hotly contested political race getting dirty? That's the whole point of the pledge--when the race is over, you accept the results and rally behind the winner. Period.

This is what I hate most about politics and I'm seeing it absolutely everywhere this time around--bullshit self-serving hypocrisy masquerading as principled positions.

NYT: "Though Silicon Valley has well-known problems with diversity in its work force[sic], people here pride themselves on a kind of militant open-mindedness. It is the kind of place that will severely punish any deviations from accepted schools of thought—see how Brendan Eich, the former chief executive of Mozilla, was run out of his job after it became public that he had donated to a campaign opposed to gay marriage."

"The pledge didn't anticipate a hotly contested political race getting dirty? That's the whole point of the pledge--when the race is over, you accept the results and rally behind the winner. Period."

Hey, a pledge is a pledge and Cruz broke it--but I can sort of understand behavior being nasty enough that you can justify breaking the pledge.

Is there nothing the nominee could do that could give a person a good reason for breaking the pledge? Let's say for example he physically assaulted the guy's wife. Should he still say "damn, still have to endorse..."?

I feel your pain! I went so far as to post a rant saying that I really, really didn't care to hear anyone's political opinions this election cycle, but if I was forced to read them on FB I'd "unfollow" them until after the inauguration. So far, I've unfollowed six of them, inlcuding three libs, two cons and one who's just bat-shit crazy. I also really resent all the people who post some plea for LGBT tolerance or racial harmony or the like. Do these people think their FB friends are all bigots who need to be converted, or do they just feel an overwhelming need to virtue signal? And, what's with the insecure women (it's always women!) who post "copy this and paste it so I know you're my friend" BS. Are people really that unaware of how pathetic that looks?

I had an immediate family member threaten never to speak to me again unless I told him how I was going to vote on a ballot initiative in my state. He got tired of me deflecting with "oh, I don't like to talk politics with family," I guess.

At the time, he was 25 years old. I was a 38-year-old married mother of four.

If I had it to do over again, I would have set that boundary more firmly and refused to cross it. As it is, I am no longer in contact with that entire branch of the family, but for another reason. Another immediate family member told me it would be easy for me to stay out of their lives after I finally did set a boundary: don't use homophobic slurs in front of my 14- and 11-year-old boys.

Not too long ago, someone I know IRL, and who knows my political viewpoint, tried to post an advertisement on my Facebook timeline that was diametrically opposed to that viewpoint. I have Facebook set to ask me to approve posts from other people on my timeline, so I disapproved that post.

I also sent the person who tried to post that advertisement a private message saying "don't do that again" -- and the poster unfriended me.

I've got such a weird mixture of FB friends that I try & avoid the political, except with a few friends that I know can withstand a good verbal slugfest. Some folks, however, are just unrelenting in their propaganda. I just let it roll by, as it shows me how the other half lives.

I gotta tell ya, though, one thing FB has me muttering on a daily basis: "My God, do you lefties know how smug you sound?". I think I can explain the political rise of Trump as a hearty "Fuck you!" to about 1/3 of people in my FB feed.

Lie down with candy ass facebookers, get up with fleas. I agree that the idea of Face Book as a means of keeping up with real friends and family is attractive. But mostly it dribbles down to dreck. So I don't waste my time with Face Book or Face Bookers.

>>But I distinctly recall pressure being brought to bear on Trump during the primaries to pledge that he would support the primary winner no matter who it was. Where are those pledges now that Trump is the nominee?<<

"No, I don't anymore," Trump said, when asked by CNN's Anderson Cooper if he continued "to pledge to support whoever the Republican nominee is?"Trump said he has "been treated very unfairly" by the Republican National Committee and party establishment figures. The billionaire front-runner accused rival Cruz of "essentially saying the same thing" in response to a question about the pledge.

Our votes cancel out each other because my opinion of Ted Cruz rose inestimably after he refused to kiss Trump's ring. Could Trump reasonably expect an endorsement from Cruz after insulting Cruz's wife(Trump's Twitter feed still has several photos of Heidi Cruz that he couldn't summon the decency to delete); and suggesting that his father was complicit in Kennedy's assassination. Then just yesterday Trump flew his plane over a rally while Cruz was speaking, his supporters sabogated the video displays during Cruz's speech last night, Trump interrupted the conclusion of Cruz's speech by entering the auditorium at a time designed to distract, and his goons on the convention floor organized the booing and heckling.

Thanks to this post and the comments, I now know I can stop someone's nonsense from coming into my facebook feed without unfriending them. Just did it to two annoying progressives who slam Republicans/Christians/gun owners all the time. Thanks!

The real kicker is when you try to quit facebook, they do something to you so that your "friends" who you knew before facebook won't communicate any more. I think what happens is when you leave facebook, they list you as unfriending everyone you had friended. Well, that's nice of the cheezy bastards isn't it? But, its better to know that sooner rather than later. I never bothered with Twitter because I don't have a "smart" phone. Everybody on Twitter updates their feed anyway. I think of facebbook as being like Disco music. A taste quickly acquired and soon forgotten.