Do you like getting freaky in bed? Most lovers are too inhibitive to try new things in bed, and would rather stick with the tried and tested missionary. But don’t stop there. Every now and then, try a few new things to turn each other on.

Indulge in fooling around during foreplay, while you’re teasing each other. And remember not to try too many experiments when you’re actually having sex. Changing too many positions while having sex can actually make your man go limp. And that will not end well, what with him sitting against the bed post all huffy and upset.

#2 A woman who looks great and is confident in bed

Now the first part about looking great in bed can seem shallow, but umm… yeah, guys like that. Unless they have a fetish for BBWs [Read: Sexual fetishes]. Looking fit in bed is always going to be an advantage when it comes to knowing what men want in bed. After all, men are visual creatures who are drawn more to appearance than anything else.

But you should remember that good looks depend more on confidence than on actual appearance. If you’re comfortable walking around the room naked, and seducing him with a little jiggle and a bend, he’d desire you and want you even more.

Learn a few tricks and don’t be afraid to show it off. Like strip teasing or belting a few moves? It doesn’t matter if you’re seducing him to a remix of Y.M.C.A., just as long as you feel sexy and confident yourself.

#3 A woman who’s ready to talk dirty and fantasize

Evolution has programmed men to sow their seeds far and wide, as often as they possibly can. While social system and women have trained a man to hold it in his pants, most men do lust about other gorgeous women (women lust too!) now and then.

While many people are against talking dirty in bed and fantasizing about other people, we suggest otherwise. Men and women do fantasize, yet girls shut that thought out and pretend like some other girl can’t stir your man’s loins.

Men love a woman who understands this fact, whether men acknowledge it or not. While you should dump any man who drools every time a pair of never ending legs walk past him, don’t hate him if he takes a sideward peek at another woman for a quarter of a second. It’s involuntary! [Read: Why do guys stare at girls?]

Explore his sexual fantasies and help him open up about his secret desires. Communicate with each other sexually and talk about the little things that turn each other on [Read: How to talk dirty]. Do this and he’s going to want a bedtime treat every night.

#4 A girl who doesn’t feel awkward in bed

First time sex can be a cute experience at times, what with all the blushing and cute eye batting. But after a while, a man would really want his woman to open up and feel comfortable in bed. It’s great to be coy and flirty while dirty talking, but while doing the deed? Nope, men don’t want a shy girl while banging her like a tin roof in a tornado.

Do you feel uncomfortable to go down on him? Don’t go down there and stare at his ding dong like you’re looking at a raw eel in a sushi bar, disgusted and awkward. Explore him and let him explore you. This is one of the important things that men want in bed. They want to be with a woman who’s happy to be in bed with him.

Not all men look or think about other women. Believe it or not there is a thing called true love which is accompanied by lust for that one and only one individual. After all if you believe your other half is beyond business class why would you stare or fantasize about economy? 😉

My boyfriend certainly seems to have a fetish for bbw’s and enjoys looking at obese women on the street. He fantasizes about dominating them sexually and says that very fat women will let him do anything he wants to do to them keep begging for more. He is viewed as a god by some of them. (I’ve seen it. And it’s disgusting.) Says it turns him on that they are so desperate. He is tall, slim, fit, and handsome. Seems like some sort of fetish to me.