Friendship problem...help?

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Dear dish-it
My so called bff has been mean to me! I don't wanna be bff's anymore. I just want us to be regular friends. How do I tell her without her going off telling everyone my secrets?!?!?! She said she will.

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Dear dish-itMy so called bff has been mean to me! I don't wanna be bff's anymore. I just want us to be regular friends. How do I tell her without her going off telling everyone my secrets?!?!?! She said she will.

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That's something that never really occurred to me that you'd tell. If I were you I wouldn't come out and say it. I'd just slowly start to spend a little less time with her. Usually it's easier to take when friends slowly grow apart, which happens a lot.

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That's hard since you said she will tell everyone your secrets. How about you blackmail her? Wait how many best friends and close friends do you have? I'm pretty sure that she told you some of her secrets.

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she... or he, is blackmailing you! if she tells on your secrets you tell on her secrets! or just slowly spend less time with her...slowly stop calling her, slowly stop hanging out with her, slowly stop making contact with her. soon you will be just two ppl who dont know each other

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Uhmmm... Well, for me, there are NO such things as BFF. Even if we have been in a relationships for long time, we really can break up - but I do this just silently - and may eventually come back. For not breaking up, don't troll your friends and don't ask questions that you may tend to consider as heartbreaking. But still, don't deal with everything that they (friends or plainly people) say and don't think that it's actual objective truth. If they don't prove this, considering it obvious - maybe you just live in different "universes".
Since you share the secrets, that's inherently bad =.= Know well what you keep before keeping it in secret. Sometimes disclosing secrets may take the awe away from people - but actually, that's very normal thing in technical and scientific progress. Monopolies are titanic monuments that can eventually fall down, break and scatter around in smaller companies.

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Yess its true all your friend are not suppose to be your best friends............ Me my sister is my best friend i tell her all about me but mu cousin is a dragon which crush fire all over her way......... I didn't love her appreciate her as well......... Sorry for the language but she is a CRIMINAL i say...... Take care..................

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she... or he, is blackmailing you! if she tells on your secrets you tell on her secrets! or just slowly spend less time with her...slowly stop calling her, slowly stop hanging out with her, slowly stop making contact with her. soon you will be just two ppl who dont know each other