Monday, October 04, 2010

i had this conversation earlier with a fren... regarding choosing the right and the best person in life...

she'd married for one year and just divorced....

i cant find any lacking in her.... same goes with my other colleagues...she's sort of the girl/ women every man ever dream of...she's nice, very gentle and obedient, blalalalala.....

y divorced???lemme keep it to myself.... pity her a lot...she's not from semenanjung... travelled all the way, get her ass settled in this so called "bandar" muar to be with her spouse... unfortunately, things went wrong and she got no one close to her at all (i mean family/ relatives) except we all.... but nothing much we can really do to help...

and what did she said to me??? it's more like an advice from a sister to her beloved younger one...

" to choose a guy.... when u have few options in front...choose the one that falls in love head over heels to you....choose the one that really cares, who calls and text u no matter in what situation...choose the one that answers your call and listen to you well....choose the one that can be a good fren.... not a good boyfren.....never choose a guy that from the very beginning u'r the one who do everything for him....who left u alone when u cries... blablabla........

such a long advice that i cant really type it all here...100% agree and ....GIRLS!!!if u'r looking for a guy, please get a guy who falls "HEAD OVER HEELs" in love with you ok!!!so that later on in your future life, there's no such thing coming out from his mouth as... "sape yang terhegeh2 nakkan saya...??"

Saturday, October 02, 2010

but this pure gold can be turned into various colours by mixing it with another element....

by "alloying " the gold... yet the gold is still pure!!!

i'm sure each and everyone of us must have heard the term "alloy" atau dalam bahasa melayu adalah "ALOI"

so y do we need to alloy this pure gold....

can't we just leave them yellow, as most people like it that way...???

simple answer is that pure gold (24K) is very2 soft... therefore is not suitable to tie the diamonds all in order to make such a nice jewelry...

for example,

white gold---is an alloy of gold and at least one white metal, usually nickel, manganese or palladium. A common white gold formulation consists of 90 wt.% gold and 10 wt.% nickel.

Rose gold --- is a gold and copper alloy widely used for specialized jewelry. It is also known as pink gold and red gold. As it was popular in Russia at the beginning of the nineteenth century, it is also known as Russian gold.

The common alloy for rose gold is 75% gold and 25% copper by mass. (18k)

There are few more colored gold--- blue , green, purple, grey as well as black gold.. in which every one of them is alloyed to certain other elements/metals to make such colors....

Therefore, points to remember....All types of solid gold are alloys. Pure gold smelt is much too soft to be practical as currency or for forming into jewelry. Even the highest grade of yellow gold is mixed with alloy elements so that it can be easily handled. Without this knowledge, you might assume that pure yellow gold is more valuable than any colored gold. This is not true. The value of every type of gold is determined by how much gold it actually contains. Therefore, rose gold that contains 18 parts of gold is just as valuable as yellow gold that contains 18 parts of gold.

Thursday, September 30, 2010

see how good he is at helping me....he got all the passion that no one can really think of...

he's my bad boy at a time... but a good boy the next minute.....he may jump out if things go wrong but will sit quietly to analyze back....he can shut his mouth up for hours even days, but will start joking and giggling laterhe knows when to please mehe made me cry but came back with roses....he cooks me pasta and spaghetti, makes me salad and sandwiches....he prepares the breakfast, do the bed...he helps me choose my make-up forever without complaining....he bought dresses and t-shirts for my lovely STITCHhe helps me with laundry.... shop for the groceries.....he brought me for a walk after long tiring days been studyinghe get me the best of allthese are the addictions..............................its such a long list if i could write it down all.....but certain things are best to be kept within.....

after all..... we are looking forward for our future.... may it be the best, God Willing... Ameen....

Wednesday, September 22, 2010

I should have done this long time agoooooooooooooo.... but never give a try...

WHY???

because of ignorance..... and i made a mistake...

now, i learnt my lesson...

not washing face properly for one year is seriously unforgivable..... huhu...

i'm so bad, and sooo lazy...

until the 1st "mr. jerawat" tumbuh kat hidung sebelah kanan early august recently.... been there for a month, size getting bigger extending to the central of my nose, and subsided only on the 4th week... the scar??? disgusting.... huhu...

then the 2nd one appeared on the left side of my nose.... already 1 week... and just about to say goodbye... huhu

definitely my face hated me now, for not been caring bout her for soo long....

there's no other way to say sorry than to give her a good facial treatment.... which i never experienced before....

so, here we are.... "Pusat Kecantikan SRI MAWAR Kosmetik"....

initially i went to MELILEA beauty center, but need to wait for another 2 hours to get the treatment... haha, just got no energy to wait anymore after been sleeping for only 3 hours last night (oncall la dear)... then, the nearest beauty center around that area is this SRI MAWAR

anyhow.... i enjoyed the session a lot... took nearly 2 hours, and i even fell asleep.....

Saturday, September 18, 2010

"Empathy is the lovefire of sweet remembrance and shared understanding."

It's kinda hard to define the word, but to make it easy and simple is putting urself in anothers's shoes, be it your friends, parents, colleagues, your patients or your clients....

How do we do that????

some people think they have this empathy inside them.... but most of us naturally and some might forcefully only have sympathy towards others...

To show empathy is to identify with another's feelings. It is to emotionally put yourself in the place of another. The ability to empathize is directly dependent on your ability to feel your own feelings and identify them.

Why do we fail to empathize???

It's because u never experience such feeling, u failed and maybe u never try to relate yourself with that particular person....

If you have never felt a certain feeling, it will be hard for you to understand how another person is feeling. This holds equally true for pleasure and pain. If, for example, you have never put your hand in a flame, you will not know the pain of fire. If you have not experienced sexual passion, you will not understand its power. Similarly, if you have never felt rebellious or defiant, you will not understand those feelings.

so .... What are we going to do???Is empathy so important in life???

The answer is................. YEs.. YeS... and YESSS!!!

Then, how do we show our empathy???

there's no way people can teach us.... we have to figure it out ourselves....maybe more care towards your loved one???maybe a social visit to rumah kebajikan/ rumah org tua....maybe....maybe....maybe....definitely maybe u'll become beautiful lovers and empathy towards all....and interestingly, u'll find the true happiness behind the empathy.....

definitely the song... POP!! Goes My Heart.... and Way Back into Love.....

plus the booty shake by hugh grant while he sings, which is very minimal yet the most exciting part for me.... hihi... y??? because reminds me of my hubby.... he loves to do that also tiap kali nyanyi or dancing.... :)).... no offense k yang.... cheers!!!

Wednesday, September 01, 2010

The worst thing you can do is straighten up and hold your head high because then you'll start to feel better. If you're going to get any joy out of being depressed, you've got to stand like this....

However... this is another way to cheer up yourself.... works well for me... but later on, mengikat perut la sampai tggu next gaji... hehe... retail therapy la sayang....

bought this beauty 2 month ago in Parkson, MP Malacca

and this is another one, ... bought it earlier last monday at BP Mall, takut2 sedih nnt if got no gift for my birthday... hihi... actually to reward myself for being so patient, tough and strong thru all the hard time, thou sometimes tears did fall on my rosy cheeks.... but no matter how low i am at one time, i'll always put on a big smile...

n mommy replied " of course sweetheart, only god knows much i miss him all these days.... but daddy is working sayang, he got so much work and he's been busy day and night.... he misses u too... i hope... let's pray to Allah, moga2 daddy sihat, gembira, dan sentiasa mengingati kita berdua... ok sayang?? we'l stay together once mommy and daddy get married later k... mudah2an kasih sayang daddy pada mommy n baby takkan berbelah bahagi, ameen....."

and lil baby kisses me on my cheek, sweeps away all the pain and sadness....

Wednesday, August 25, 2010

i dozzed off pretty early last nite and was in 'mamai' state when my hubby called.... ala terasa rindu la sangat2.... called back and he was having supper, and he's actually oncall.... so cant really talk long la... so buat penghilang rindu, i just read thru all my all blogposts, how saddened that moscow currently tinggal kenangan... it's so far away.... but the memories overthere akan terus kekal segar dalam ingatan....

Monday, August 23, 2010

presenting to u guys my other half that went missing for quite some times.... hehehe... it's not like he'd been abducted by the alliens or what so ever... it just that we rarely meet each other due to the distance.... ( yelah, sorang kat selatan ni, sorang lagi nun jauh di pantai timur... keje lak tak tentu masa... huhu)....

Thursday, August 19, 2010

it's really hard to start, after almost 2 yrs living without this blog.... how should i write in a proper way, in a real me??? i'm just afraid...., especially in my current condition... of what??? owh, definitely cant tell.... but i'm so lucky and feeling grateful to know that i still have a bunch of frens out there who really care about me thou we never met....

frankly, i got thousands of thing to share... 2 years is not a short time, it's a long journey... a newborn baby would definitely can walk and jump by now... can at least vocalize simple words, and for no doubt mesti dah tumbuh gigi sume.... :) yup, i'll write more often... don worry... but not tonite la kan.... hehe....

nuffnang

About Me

I live the principles of integrity and fair play.
I am a compassionate being and do extend a helping hand to those who need it. I was born with happy go lucky nature, it is as if nothing can go wrong for me.
I don't get knocked about by the difficulties of life, but prefer to see the hard times as an opportunity for an even greater growth.
i am a very loyal person, i believe in love n i never do such things to fool my own feeling.
i hate lies, hate all made-up stories... always wonder y so many pple can't be honest even to her/himself...
i enjoy outdoor activities, love to explore new things n try new experiences, .... tat's y i am "Pengakap Di Raja". but inside me, i am so fragile....