From Abu Umaamah radhiallahu anhu he said: The Messenger sallallaahu ‘alaihi wa Salam said:
ما ضل قوم بعد هدى كانوا عليه إلا أوتوا الجدل ثم تلا رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم هذه الآية: ما ضربوه لك إلا جدلا بل هم قوم خصمون
“It is not a people astray after they had been above instructions except that they are a people who love to debate.” Then he read this verse, “They do not give it to you but the parable with the intention of debating it, in fact they were a quarrelsome. “(Surah Az-Zukhruf: 58) (Narrated by At-Tirmidhi no. 3253, Ibn Majah no. 47, and declared hasan by al-Albani in Saheeh al-Jami ‘no. 5633)
From Aisha radhiallahu ‘anha of the Prophet sallallaahu’ alaihi wasallam, he said:
إن أبغض الرجال إلى الله الألد الخصم
“Surely the most wrath of God is the most harsh and challenging hostility if proof be explained to him” Read the rest of this entry →

Assalamua’alaikum Warohmatullahi Wabarokatuh
Ukhtiy Habiibatii. In the first edition this time, we will be ‘sharing’ the problem of water. Ukhtiy probably many who do not know the importance of consuming enough water each day, or already know but lazy to meet the number of measuring a variety of reasons, one of them called ‘fear of its frequency of urination, trouble! “. Is not it? Come on, appoint yourself …

Then how the process, a simple white water can become so valuable?

Approximately 80% of the human body consists of water. Brain and blood are the two important organs that have a moisture content above 80%. The brain has a component of the water as much as 90%, while the water component of blood has 95%. At least, normally we need 2 liters a Read the rest of this entry →

The brain requires 50% of the total energy requirement or energy in the body. Lack of brain nutrients, such as multivitamins, amino acids and minerals greatly affect the maximum power of the brain.

The brain is an organ vital for humans. Various potential and capabilities are controlled from the brain. Various attempts were made to optimize brain function, especially in children. Three principles to optimize brain function is nutrition, stimulation and emotional.

“As for sucking wife against her husband’s genitals (oral sex), then this is haram, is not allowed. Because he (pubic husband) can be dispersed. If you disperse the water will come out of it that he madzy unclean according to the agreement (scholars’). If (water madzy it) into the mouth and into his stomach then probably will cause disease to her.

What is the legal wife went to the anus (back) or come to him in a state of menstruation or childbirth?

Answer:

It should not be intercourse with his wife in the anus or in a state of menstruation and childbirth. Even so it includes the major sins according to the word of Allah (meaning):

“They ask you about menstruation. Say “menstruation is dirt.” So shun yourself from a woman when menstruation. And do you approach them before they are holy. If they are holy, then Go to the place which they enjoined. Truly Allah loves those who repent and to love those who purify themselves. Wives you are (like) fields (where farming) for you. So you bagaimanasaja Go to the fields you want. “(Al-Baqarah 222-223) Read the rest of this entry →

Man is not free from mistakes, big or small, consciously or accidentally. Moreover, if the passions dominate his soul. He will be the butt doing disobedience. Obedience, as no meaningful value.

Although dogged by human disobedience and sin accumulate, does not mean there was no door to improve. Since, however mounting immoral deeds of a servant, but the door of mercy is always open. Humans are given the opportunity to improve themselves. That is, with repent of their deeds that can be delivered into the abyss of hell. Repentance must be conducted in total, which is known as repentance nashuha. Prophet sallallaahu ‘alaihi wa sallam said:

MATERILISTIS VIEWS OF THE WORLD
Materialistic outlook today, hitting a lot of human life. Even some Muslims are also affected by the neglect of this life. Namely forward outlook on life that only a limited effort to get momentary pleasure in this mortal world, so that activities are executed only lives revolve around the problem of how to create jobs, develop the economy, build houses and buildings, fulfilling life satisfaction and things other worldly, without thinking of consequences and attitudes that should be done. Seemed to assume, that happiness can only be achieved with the treasure. As a result, this materialistic view of disturbing the harmony and tranquility of a Muslim household. Neglecting the core purpose of its creation, servitude to Allah alone in every aspect of life. Allah says:

Islam has given a complete and detailed instructions on the issue of marriage. Starting from the suggestion to get married, how to choose an ideal mate, do khitbah (proposal), how to educate children, as well as provide a way out if there was chaos in the household, until the process nafaqah (provide for) and the estate, all governed by Islam in detail , detailed and explicit.

Furthermore, to understand the concept of marriage in Islam, then reference the most correct and legitimate is the Qur’an and As Sunnah Ash Saheehah in accordance with the understanding Salafush Salih. Based on this reference, we will gain clarity about aspects of marriage, as well as a number of irregularities and shifts occurring in the value of marriage in our society. Read the rest of this entry →

Households who are happy and harmonious is the dream of every believer. Prophet sallallaahu ‘alaihi wa sallam has set an example to us, about how to foster domestic harmony. Indeed in the Messenger’s self-contained example of the best. And a husband must realize that there is a hero in his home on behind the scenes, the carrier of calmness and coolness, namely his wife. Prophet sallallaahu ‘alaihi wa sallam.

الدنيا كلها متاع, وخير متاع الدنيا الزوجة الصالحة

The world is full of pleasure. And best of pleasures of the world namely the shalihah wife.

The new man can be spared from the disease of sin and crimes when he believes that sin and crime is more dangerous and more memudhoratkan than a thief, snake or other wild animals and so on. And when the might, majesty and authority of God every moment into consideration.

In our daily life, evident that man can leave the wants, wishes, and desires of his heart. For example a person sick with diabetes, doctors actually forbade him from eating foods that are sweet. So the man, for her life, touching sweet foods even he did not want to. So so is the spiritual desires and impulses of lust. If greatness and might of the Almighty has implanted in his heart to the right, then the attitude of not obeying God’s will she feel worse than eating fire, and worse than death. Read the rest of this entry →