Working and Alternate Care Givers

If neither parent can be a full-time caregiver, then a child needs someone who is not only consistent and loving, but has formed a bond with them and consciously provides care in a way that strengthens the attachment relationship.

Explore a variety of economic and work arrangement options to permit your child to be cared for by one or both parents at all times

It is extremely important to have continuity of care with a consistent, loving, caregiver

Parents should expect and encourage their child to form an attachment to the caregiver

Frequent turnover of caregivers can be very damaging to the attachment process

Make the transition to a caregiver well in advance of any separation so that it is a gradual process and is comfortable for the child

Minimizing the number of hours in non-parental care as much as possible provides the best opportunity for a child to build secure attachments with parents

Holding and cuddling helps parents and babies reconnect after being apart. Include the child in day-to-day tasks, and spend non-work time with family

For more information on evaluating childcare, consult the following API resources.