Your fat...

Is that nice to say to anyone let alone a pregnant woman? I feel like crap I just got told I got fat by my husbands grandmother... I was slim before pregnancy and have gained 25 pounds and I'm 29 weeks... I thought I says doing well since my doctor said I was and I know my face got chubby but I just feel like crap now... How fast did other mothers loose their baby weight... Have I gained too much? Does anyone esle feel this way

OMG girl you are fine and this is normal. SO calls me fat all the time, playing and jokingly. But, I know it is a part of the process. He does make comments about me losing it but, I am prepared for whatever my body can and cant do afterwards. Not the time to focus on fatness lol you are beautiful!

That's mean. She is probably one of those old ladies who doesn't have a filter. Try not to let it bother you. Soooooo many women get chubby faces while pregnant and it goes away after the baby is born. With my first son I lost almost all of my weight within a month. Listen I your dr not his grandmother. So sorry, easier said than done.

My joking husband is ok because he's joking and I know it but I guess I just feel like crap cuz old ladies don't have censors and it must be true then that I look like crap... Sorry I'm having a putty party I was also size 4 and now I feel like a whale because of what people say :(

I hate that too! Sounds like you are right on track with your weight. I work with a bunch of 50+ year old guys and they all think it's funny to tell me I'm getting fat. I laughed it off at first, but now when they say that I usually just walk away. I really just want to hand them a mirror. How rude to say that to someone who is not only probably a little self conscious in the fist place but to some one who is creating a person!!!

That is what happens when you get pregnant. You get fat to prepare for BFing. I gain most of my weight in butt and thighs and my face is fatter. Your face wont be fat anymore by your 6 week appt. How quickly you lose the rest depends on how active you are.