Scorpio males

Does anyone have any experience of dealing with scorpio males?? Have become friends with one recently, and from being the most intense, in contact every day sort of person, it's now become where I won't hear from him over several days - and he'll ignore texts I send, haven't a clue where I am...

My Brother is scorpio and while very secretive, is one of the kindest, most loyal people I know. But when it comes to women, if they make it too easy for him, he soon loses interest. Not saying that you are making it too easy OP but I think you need to have HIM wondering what YOU are up to.

Sorry to resurrect this, as a scorpio male I am fascinated by all this, I have never been in a relationship with a female scorpio. I was working down south going home for the weekend, a single guy on a train, a young woman just kept looking at me, I kept looking at her, we were I suppose quite agitated by each other, she got up to leave at her stop, she smiled and said, "you are a scorpio arent you?" I just smiled and said yes. I have never felt electricity like it, really amazing, have never forgotten it

FlookCrow, a little bit woo but worth a shot - put your thoughts out to the universe to bring you a scorpio male, or else see it in your mind that you have already met one and then say thanks. Sit back and wait, but chill out in the meantime

Good luck, piratecat x Yep that's it exactly - he went from being like an overexcited child, totally full on, OTT tbh - to virtually no contact and now nothing with no word of explanation - weird and bewildering, so even tho I've moved on, to a certain degree, he could quite possibly just contact me again coz as you say the line hasn't been drawn. In addition, because of the way I felt about him I could quite imagine myself getting drawn back into his grip...which, ultimately, I don't think would be very healthy. Be strong...haha

piratecat, yes totally agree - self worth is very important and normally am confident and happy with myself - I've been thru a couple of other things recently that coincided with this disaster, so just bad timing, I guess. I couldn't believe how down I got with it, and although I don't even think of him anymore it almost hasn't really ended or he's just being nice - as when I asked him why he was just ignoring me - he unbelievably said he wasn't, as I say wayyy toooo complicated!!

Hello! burylass Ooh he's gone into retreat. Oh wow! You must have hit a nerve when you said the casual thing. heheh. He obviously doesn't know a good thing when he's onto it. He might come back laters. Good on you for not dwelling on him xxx

Sickof's comment re the need to be absolutely sure before getting anywhere even close to commitment is spot on re this guy also - but got fed up with waiting!! Couple of weeks ago after not having heard anything at all I politely enquired why was he ignoring me? His response - he wasn't, I replied that I assume we're just a casual thing then and he was seeing other people? No he's not, he tells me - casual encounters aren't what he's about - which I had thought - So, I asked him what was I to him? and he said that Right now he wasn't 100% sure.....since then I haven't heard a thing - I sent a light txt the other day just saying that I missed his funny txts as they always used to make me laugh - still no response, soooo ....given up!

I am married to a Scorpio, but he gave me the right run around till we actually settled down! My advice - treat him mean to keep him keen, sorry it's the old chestnut. He was perfectly happy to treat me like a disposable plaything, until I put my foot down and became entirely unavailable to him (at which point his male pride was piqued and the chase was on again, only with him doing the chasing). Jealousy of other men also works well, but do it cleverly rather than crassly. Be ever so slightly out of his clutches, but massively sexual when you are together. This combo works.NB - my Scorpio is now the best and most loyal of husbands, but he needed to be absolutely sure before he got anywhere even close to commitment.

Well, I'm a scorpio female (with a scorpio son!) and I don't recogise the hot and cold thing at all! I thought we scorpios were known for our intensity and loyalty. I've never been a game player! I've also always been very honest in ending any relationships, so I'm not sure you can attribute his silence to his being a scorpio.