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Wednesday, 21 August 2013

WordPress Daily Prompt: Fifteen Credits

Another school semester will soon begin. If you’re in school, are you looking forward to starting classes? If you’re out of school, what do you miss about it — or are you glad those days are over? Photographers, artists, poets: show us LEARNING.

A photo taken a few years ago when I
decided to let my hair grow (some sort of post hippie phase I was going
through, thinking that long hair was being in – forgetting at the same time
that it would have been better in another colour except for grey). At the time
I was learning Italian. I already knew the basics of the language, but a friend
had enrolled for the course, which had become an advance course and due to
other things, could no longer carry on. She had paid for the course, so gave
the rest to me. I finished the rest and enrolled for two further courses, hence
me sitting in this class as a golden oldie.

I have been out of school so many years, that the three schools I visited no
longer exist. The infants school is now a boys only school, the primary school
(ages from 7-11) has been demolished and my high school in the middle of London
was built on such expensive land that it too was removed elsewhere to accommodate
high office towers which brought more profit. The land was a very expensive
zone in London. The hall still exists, being transformed into an expensive
French restaurant in the meanwhile. It was really not my fault, they destroyed
the schools to make money, to organise a new school system and not because I
left a negative effect or tried to blow it up (although the thought often
passed my mind at the time).

My mum always said “school days are the best days of your life”. Not that mum
was wrong, and they probably were the best days of her life. Her schooling was
finished when she was thirteen years old and she had to learn the hardness of
real life. In the early 20th century growing up in a working class
family in the East End of London, you had no choice. There were four children
and money had to be earned, especially as granddad was not exactly the pillar
of society. He had a good job as a carpenter, collected his pay on Friday and
drank most of it away on Friday evening. The family had to make do with what
was left until the next Friday.

I was lucky. I grew up in the post war years. We were still not rich, but I
could take advantage of what I knew. The world was at my feet, but my feet were
not so sure. It seems I was intelligent enough to pass exams and reach high
school. A school uniform was bought, I had my first leather bag for carrying
school books and other such articles and it was ready, steady go. To be quite
honest “go” was the main word. I did not like school, full of learning things
that I did not want to learn, and travelling to and from school on the London
busses.

We had games once a week, which meant and hour’s travelling to some isolated
sports ground on the edge of London, or in a part of London which was
complicated to reach with public transport. We arrived at the sports ground
with a coach supplied by the school, but most of the time the coach driver
would stop the coach and tell us if we did not behave he would throw us all out
of the coach. That driver just did not have humour. Apparently a coach full of
30 teenage girls was too much for him, especially when we all spoke at once. We
had to complete the home journey at the mercy of the London Transport system.

Time passed, and at the age of seventeen/eighteen for me, school was over and
the earnest of life begun. My last year at school was a secretarial year. I
could type; write shorthand (Pitmans system) and cope with the basics of office
life. When I left school I was not sorry, now I could learn what I wanted to
and not what I had to.

The first part of my non-school life was spent somewhere in an office in London
during the day and evenings mostly in the local library (I enjoyed reading) or
week-ends at West Ham United stadium watching a football game. Saturday evening
was usually in the local dance hall or in the pub according to what was
organised with my friends.

Was I missing school? Forget it, I missed it like a hole in the head. I was
having fun. What I missed, to be quite honest, was nourishment for the brain.
Living on Beatles songs, meeting people of the other sort (do not forget I
spent my school life at girls only schools, co-education was not so common in
my years) was in order, but I had my hobbies. I loved learning foreign
languages, one of the few ideas that school gave me on the way. I learnt six
years French at school, although I wanted to learn Italian. Eventually I
enrolled in an evening course for Italian. I spent two weeks holiday in Italy
and they understood me.

As the years passed, I immigrated to Switzerland, met Mr. Swiss and decided to
have a family. I learnt how to bring up children who also went to school. I
found I hated the school system in Switzerland even more than that in England.
They had Saturday morning school, you know the day when you do not do anything
you have to. The week-end, reserved for some shopping, relaxing and even
spending more time in bed on Saturday morning. The Swiss school system was
based on sending your children every morning to school. On Sunday they were
allowed to stay at home. There are also the complicated time tables. Your
children do not go to school at the same time and come home at the same time,
it depends how old they are and which class they visited. With four children
this was complicated. One child still at home, and the other three coming and
going all through the week, each child needing mummy to be there when he/she
came home or left.

You were also expected to help them with homework. I remember my mum gave up
with that when I started bringing Algebraic problems and Pythagoras home. My
dad knew how to do it, but he did it different to the way I was taught at school.
His mathematics were more based on football permutations and working out the
odds on horse racing bets. I did actually understand my children’s homework,
even if it was in German. When it came to correcting grammar, I passed it on to
Mr. Swiss. Somehow I got this all behind me one day, but I found sending others
to school was more tiring than when I visited school myself.

One fine day my kids did not need me anymore. Some had moved out (I even helped
them to go) and others were thinking about it. Now I began to catch up on the
things I always wanted to do. I learnt Russian at evening classes for about
twelve years, and did a year Arabic. German I learnt as a side-line because I
had to, living in Switzerland. I even found the six years French I learnt came
in handy.

Summing all this up, I do not miss school, but even as a golden oldie I found
it is never too late to learn. My last escapade was Tai Chi, but that was more
a necessity to keep me moving. I learnt how to drive a car at the age of forty.
I learnt how a computer works and how to do a web site at the age of fifty. I
have discovered in life it is never too late to learn anything really. You just
have to want to.

3 comments:

I definately agree with you on the 'never too old/late to learn something new'. I really disliked school a lot, and as such in later years when I tried evening classes, I would just switch off. I found it far easier to learn things myself, either with books, manuals or learning-tapes.

We have a good system in Switzerland with evening classes. I even taught english myself, but my figure got in the way eventually, so I gave it up (was expecting son no. 1). At the moment I a broadening my knowledge of growing orchids (they have a special offer in the supermarket and now I have four of them).

About Me

Grew up in the East End of London, which means I am a cockney. After a commercial course at school and working around the city of London as shorthand-typist, I moved over to Switzerland and worked 2 years in an import export company in Zürich. Moved on to work for Robert Bosch in Solothurn and met Mr. Swiss. 2 children later and many years I am still in Switzerland. In the meanwhile worked for 30 years for a Swiss machine tool company as export clerk, am bilingual (english/German(Swiss German), speak French, Italian, Russian. Am now retired and enjoying my hobbies, photography, writingm Tai Chi and looking after 3 cats that decided to move in with me.