When you know the correct sequence of touches (I’ll show you these step by step below) and when to use them, women will be more turned on and willing to have sex with you.

Touching (kino) is also important because it helps to build trust, rapport and prevents rejection, either directly or indirectly… I.e the friend zone.

So why do you need to use the right types of touches?

Well, if you use the wrong types of touches, you will convey mixed messages or stand a higher chance of freaking her out.

Using the right touches shows her that you’re a confident man who knows what he’s doing.

Right then… now we have that cleared up, let’s move onto the 3 types of touches that you need to master.

The 3 types of touches that will take you from the first meet to the bedroom… in HOURS

Think about this for a second.

Most men don’t get laid on the first meeting.

It usually takes them a date or two before they can get in her knickers.

But not for you it won’t.

In any interaction with a woman, there are three types of touches that you want to execute, which will take you through a cycle of attraction.

The “Cycle of Attraction” looks a little something like this:

You can’t skip the stages, otherwise you will freak her out.

Stage 1: Initial meet – You have just met her. She is unsure of who you are and is judging you based on first impressions.

Stage 2: Rapport – You are building rapport with her, connecting on a deeper level than she experiences with most people. I.e strangers, work colleagues, shop workers etc.

Stage 3: Familiarity – She now feels a connection and trusts you.

Stage 4: Attraction – She shows signs of attraction and wants to kiss/sleep with you.

Touching her correctly can speed up this cycle DRAMATICALLY.

Whereas most men fumble through interactions with women, not really knowing what they’re doing… the poor schmucks.

You’ll know exactly what stage you’re at in the cycle, because of how she’s reacting to your touches.

Pretty cool right?

Are you starting to see the power of touch?

Ok, so let’s get into what those three touches are…

Comfort touching: Build trust with her in minutes (as opposed to hours!)

The first phase: Knowing where to touch girls when you first meet, will help speed up the interaction.

The first type of touch is – comfort.

This phase is basically when you’re first introduced to a girl or you approach her and you want to build trust and rapport.

Now there are four main “touch types” which are known as ambiguous touches.

Meaning they aren’t sexual in any way, you can use it on a friend or work colleague, as they are interchangeable.

Here they are:

Tapping the shoulder or elbow (during conversation only): This is to emphasise a particular point during a conversation. Don’t use this to grab attention if it’s a cold approach, that’s annoying and weird.

Cheek to cheek kiss: During an introduction when first meeting, it can be used once at the end also.

Use a handshake: When you exchange names. It’s also optional at the end of a conversation too.

Jewellery/clothing compliment: Touch the item, making sure you make contact with her physically.

Each of these touch types are harmless right?

And they are easy to do. But what they are doing is removing the social barrier.

You’re now no longer a stranger and the trust/rapport phase has begun.

So now that you’ve initiated touch with comfort, you now want to move onto the second type of touching… attraction.

“If you are not comfortable touching in non-sexual ways, it will be very hard to escalate later towards a kiss and sex.”

Attraction touching: Create unstoppable addictive chemistry fast

The second phase: This is how to touch a girl to turn her on. READ CAREFULLY.

Attraction touches are used to transition from “He’s just another potential friend” to “This guy is super cute, I wanna hump him”.

Cuddle, her resting on your chest, touching side by side (she will be heavily invested now).

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Something to remember…

These “touch by situation” guidelines are not set in stone.

So be fluid in your approach to using touches. Always gauge the situation and her reactions, then you can escalate at the right pace.

Double the speed of building comfort and attraction with these 4 simple tips

I want you to run through the following tips and keep them in the forefront of your mind, because they will make a massive difference in how well your touches are perceived.

Here we go:

Keep doing it if she likes it: If she’s reacting positively and flirting back with you… KEEP DOING IT. Don’t stop man, otherwise you will run the risk of her losing interest.

Always escalate: I always talk about dialling up attraction like a dimmer switch. From the moment you meet to sex, you should be increasing the amount of touches and pulling away to increase the sexual tension.

Touch when it feels natural: If you it doesn’t feel natural for you or make sense in the moment, don’t touch her for the sake of touching her. Keep it natural, otherwise she will notice and it will feel fake.

Touch as soon as you can: The sooner you touch her, the more comfortable she will get with you touching her. Also it won’t feel strange later on when you suddenly start to touch her.

3 things you should never do when touching a girl – Commit these to memory

Want to know how to touch women like a pro? Don’t make these mistakes

When guys learn the techniques I’m showing you here, they usually abuse them.

This in turn pushes girls away, because they are coming on too strong. Not a good situation.

Here are some things you should NEVER do, if you want to get laid.

[X] Touch too soon: Going straight to attraction touching when you’ve just met is a terrible move. It will freak her out. Think gradual touches over time.

[X] Linger with the touch: I did this in the beginning, it’s an easy rooky mistake. If you linger, it just looks weird and she will avoid you.

[X] Touch too much: Use the push/pull dynamic. Touch her then take it away to not be too full on, also giving her a chance to reciprocate by touching you.

Conclusion: Here’s what you need to do next… [Very important]

You now know how to touch a girl… where to touch and when to touch.

So what now?

Put it into practice!

I want you to go out tonight, tomorrow and the next day. Apply everything I’ve mentioned above and see what happens.

Then work on your mistakes so you don’t repeat them and you will become a kino legend in no time.

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This stuff would work on normal women but if you try this on asin women it does not work. I’m part of a community that you do not shake hands with a woman or touch her in public it dissrepecfull and if you do she freek out. Like women in Thailand if you go up north touching hands is very romantic so you have to be careful how you touch her at all.