The ultimate deal-breaker

People often ask what I look for in a guy. I share a few physical attributes peppered with “must-have” personality traits.

What I never mention, but realize more and more is so crucial, is shared morals. A parallel value system is a necessity for any romantic relationship to extend beyond a few dates, yet it’s one of those things you don’t discuss upfront.

I should start leading with this when I answer the question. Discovering significantly different beliefs is a massive deal-breaker.

Also, perhaps there in lies the answer to my “Why are you single?” inquiry. I don’t meet people with whom I see eye to eye.