Monday, March 06, 2006

Morning Edition - 3/6/06

On BlastRemove the negative. Sometimes it’s hard to accept the negative aspects about our personalities; it’s even harder to change them. Whether you’ve been checked by close friends regarding odd quirks in your personality or you sense you may be rubbing folks the wrong way when you do or say certain things, the truth is we all have things about ourselves we might want to change. What personality trait about yourself do you receive the most criticism about? Do you feel there is a real need to change this trait? Do you feel there is any truth in the criticism or do you think everyone who has voiced their opinion is wrong about how they’ve pegged you?

I must admit that I'm an Ass. I usually rub people the wrong way because of my arrogance, from what I hear. If your lucky enough to make it through our initial meeting you'll find out that I'm really not that bad. I can be one of the good guys or the bastard from HELL. It's just which side of the coin your rubbing. I try to be careful with my braising truthfullness and cover it up with a smile, but people just don't get me....I really don't understand. Either way, life goes on with or without you....

Based on the opinions I trust, one of my personality traits I’d like to work on is my overwhelming ability to see the negative and prepare for it. I feel if I’m aware of what could go wrong, it can’t catch me by surprise. Of late, this has morphed into a more, if it doesn’t quite go my way, I drop it and lose interest, but I’m trying to find a happy medium. Based on some comments this weekend, I also think I need to return calls when I leave folks with a, “Call me!” and they do. I think I may have made that a signature “good-bye” line that friends have taken to heart and I don’t want to send the message that I don’t return calls.

Just Me, don’t go there on J-Lo, you know there is no mercy for J-Lo dissention.Negative comments about J-Lo are equal to direct kicks to my groin area. Talk about validating that first paragraph you wrote about being an azz…. LOL

Caspar, my slice of angel food cake…. I’m sorry I couldn’t call you back last night, but I was (and AM) working on overdrive. I’m beyond BEAT!

i need to work on being too handsome...yeah, yeah it is becoming a problem. no one know what to do with me. my poor stylist has no where to go, i have broken through the glass ceiling on beauty they just replace.

I have a problem w/listening. I usually try to anticipate what one is saying and proceed to comment without listening to what's being said fully. More often than not, I'm wrong, must apologize and have that person repeat what he/she just stated. I'm already working fixing on that.