Saturn trine Pluto

Exposing the roots

Your love affairs can be quite intense, because you love to find the roots of problems in relationships and expose them to the healing light. While other people might like keeping their skeletons comfortably in the closet (or uncomfortably, as the case may be), you don't want to live under the weight of old wounds. And you don't want to watch your loved ones do it, either.

If you get involved with someone who's made a lifestyle out of avoiding some painful issue from their past, you'll be on top of the problem as soon as the relationship starts to deepen -- and maybe even before that happens. Be forewarned: Lots of people won't like this. They sweep their problems under the rug for a reason. So don't be surprised if you scare off a lover by digging a little too persistently at the source of their issues -- their relationship with their parents, their experience growing up in an emotionally cold household, their feelings about losing their grandmother at an early age, or any other old wounds you might unearth. Tread lightly with other people! Help them along their path, but gently. Turn that healing intensity inward, and you'll make huge strides in your own enlightenment.

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Kishaon December 29, 2017 at 9:00 am

Wow! This has really helped me to understand my relationships–romantic and platonic. I have Saturn in 11th house already trine Pluto in 3rd House. I like to counsel, help, and dig deep but I have really scared people (they go into extreme defense mode), or scared them away! Saturn in 11th house already doesn’t afford me a lot of friends, so it is tough to not dig into others issues with a sincere desire to help them find peace. Biting my tongue is difficult, and people who know my analytical perceptive ability know the look on my face when I want to share. I will learn how to moderate; however, there are unfortunate times where I just have to keep my insights to myself. Keeping them to myself, however, I have discovered, makes me sad while sharing and walking with the other to a brighter perspective brings me such great joy.