Ji Judy, wanted to share a great confession I had with an older Irish Priest. We discussed my homosexuality and my struggles with it, he told me that the church teaches clearly that it is the ACT that is disordered and sinful, NOT the person. He told me many, including those living in sin, are not evil people at all...just blind to the truth. He wants me to always remember that we are imperfect people on a journey. It was a wonderful confession.