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Re: Father-son nudity

It used to be perfectly natural...back in the day when males being naked around each other was perfectly natural.

In fact, here's a vintage pic from back in the day, It's Father-Son-Uncle in this pic. This pic was taken out of an online fambly album, so no one even thought twice about the content. Every year this fambly would go camping in the Catskills, and all the men would go hiking and skinny-dipping together.

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My Dad and I used to skinnydip all the time when we were hiking or at our lakehouse. Not only do I find it completely normal--but I would also find it disturbing if someone found it immoral for a father and son to see each other naked.

As an aside, wouldn't puberty completely freak you out if you had never seen your father naked? I mean, where's all this hair coming from?

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I saw my dad naked several times, camping, swimming etc. Totally natural. Have scene my nephew naked as well similar reasons, when he was 7 I stayed at there house in his room and he never wore undies, totally funny one morning I woke up to nsnyc's "tearin up my heart" nephew's dancing naked to it...HILARIOUS! Another morning he wanted to get me out of bed so he hops up on top of me, (there were blankets between us) and wouldn't get off till I promised to get up. I thought then as I do now, his and all childrens bodies are beautiful, but NOT sexually. it's no big deal unless you make it one.

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Originally Posted by Mako247

if memory serves correctly that was a set with son father and grandfather from playgirl in the 70s

That's right. It's wierd but I hadn't seen that pic in years and was thinking of it when I started reading this thread! I remember it from either the very late '70's or early '80's. I still think the son in the middle is hot. I wonder where they are now...

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Interesting Topic!Hey whatever floats your boat and tickles your pickle! Oh and if you like father/son stuff you might want to check out art by Josman,his stuff can't be put on this site but his site features some erotic father/son artwork to say the least.

"Your brother said that you were on a date with a hottie. Evidently someone's in need of LASIK."

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in my case, i dont think my dad would be mature enough to handle the situation. i can totally see him saying to me "jees son, you sure grew a big dick, just like your old man?" and having anybody within earshot hear the same thing. i wish my upbringing would have been more open and normal so that i would feel what the rest of you feel about it....which is "nothing".

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Originally Posted by wanderer

in my case, i dont think my dad would be mature enough to handle the situation. i can totally see him saying to me "jees son, you sure grew a big dick, just like your old man?" and having anybody within earshot hear the same thing. i wish my upbringing would have been more open and normal so that i would feel what the rest of you feel about it....which is "nothing".

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As a child, as a teenager, I never knew what a man looked like. I knew what a woman looked like. I could see sneaked copies of Playboy, Mayfair et al. But I never knew what a man looked like, naked.

I wish my father had been open enough to be comfortable being naked around me. He wasn't. I guess he was repressed.

Therefore, when my children were young, I was totally oblivious to nudity. For me, for them, it was natural. But the fact is that once they reach a certain age they neither want to be seen naked; nor do they want to see their parents naked. You have to judge when that is.

Still, when I sunbathe on a beach, if it's discreet, this daddy will be nude.

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For those of you who think it's a good thing for dad and son to be nude together (in proper circumstances, etc.), does your opinion change when you're talking about a gay dad and an underage son. For me, that would never be a sexual situation, but I could see others saying that I, a gay man, should never be nude with my son.

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Originally Posted by pjlikesporn

For those of you who think it's a good thing for dad and son to be nude together (in proper circumstances, etc.), does your opinion change when you're talking about a gay dad and an underage son. For me, that would never be a sexual situation, but I could see others saying that I, a gay man, should never be nude with my son.

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Of course that would be wrong! You wouldn't want a straight woman to be naked in the presence of her underage son, would you?

With the sexual morals of some countries evolving as they are, I think this century may see the day when those countries criminalize breastfeeding.

On the first point, does that mean you would approve more of a lesbian being around her underage son? Why do you make your point so emphatically in terms of sexual orientation and not at all in terms of gender? If we're talking about young children, I would think sexuality should be far less of a concern.

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Thank you, guys! I appreciate all your answers. In my case, my father is very prude and I have seen him naked maybe twice in my whole life, always accidentally. Now, Iím trying not to make it a big deal in my relationship with my son. So, it seems to be a time for everything, and some nudity can be normal.

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When my son was around 10 I talked to him about the fact that I like to be naked. He didn't have a problem with it as long as the blinds were closed ... there was no sexual tension between us. We went camping at a nude beach many tmes with other friends. I never pressured him to be naked ... of course as a teen, he didn't at the beach ... but he had no problem with others around him .. male and female being nude.

I hoped that I was teaching him that the human body was beautiful ... no matter what shape or size and that there was no reason to be ashamed of it.

I firmly believe that if Americans were more liberal with nudity ... it would no be such a thrill to see someone naked just to fuck them.

My one and only time seeing my dad naked ... my only thought was "I hope mine grows up bigger than his"

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It depends on how you look at it. Sexually is disgusting, but over 18 is their bussiness, just your naked akward or we have the same thing is not problem.
IMO I wouldnt be naked in front of any family memeber but To some people its okay.

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My parents frequently took me with them to the nude beach in New Jersey when i was growing up. Nudity was never a big deal. I never had any sexual feelings for anyone in my family. my partner and I have already discussed that when we adopt we want to make sure our children do not have issues with nudity.

The first time I went to the nude beach with my folks i was 12 or 13. I wore my speedo, because I was shy. The only thing was, i felt like I was the only one around wearing a swim suit (looking back atht e photos my folks smapped on the vacation, I wasn't) Anyway, being (as I felt) the only one clothed, i was worried. I asked my folks if i was allowed to take my speedo off, and they explained that it was up to me to decide, and it was perfectly ok to wear a swim suit, and it was perfectly ok to not, but that no one could make the decision for me. It was a great lesson in life. i want to make sure my child learns the same thing -- that the body is nothing to be ashamed of but you don't have to show it to anyone you don't want to.

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I would not like to see my father naked. Seen him once and couldn't sleep for weeks. I see my mom all the time because she always leaves the bathroom door open and her room. I always freak. My dad closes the door but not the bathroom. I guess i am just a screative child. When i was little i wasn't though. Lol i would just sit on the couch watching tv naked. hmm yea well now i am like freaked out if my rants see me or if i see them.

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Here in Brazil there is an actor called Matheus Carrieri. Maybe, a few of you guys have heard about him. Well, he has a son, Kaike Carrieri. It was rumored that his relation with his son was not good, they weren't friends and close. Now, things have changed and this is what happened:

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Originally Posted by sw22br

Here in Brazil there is an actor called Matheus Carrieri. Maybe, a few of you guys have heard about him. Well, he has a son, Kaike Carrieri. It was rumored that his relation with his son was not good, they weren't friends and close. Now, things have changed and this is what happened:

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I'm a Pagan nudist, my son has seen me nude in the back yard many times during the summer months and he's been to the nudist parks and nude swims with me. There is a big difference between nudism and sex.

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There is nothing wrong with Nudity. As long as nothing sexual happens between a father-son. I love to be naked when i have kids i am not going to stop walking around the house naked. I am going to encourge my kids to do the same because again nothing wrong with being nude.

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Originally Posted by sw22br

Here in Brazil there is an actor called Matheus Carrieri. Maybe, a few of you guys have heard about him. Well, he has a son, Kaike Carrieri. It was rumored that his relation with his son was not good, they weren't friends and close. Now, things have changed and this is what happened:

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I'll bet most of the people who think nudity around family members is at all weird are North Americans and other Anglo-Saxons. If you said this to almost any continental European, or a non-Muslim Asian, they'd think you were crazy. If you ask me, what's weird or disturbing is when people automatically equate nudity with sexuality. If I were more judgmental, I'd say that you'd have to be a little perverted to even THINK that there's some kind of linkage between mere nudity and sexuality. I think North American culture is seriously a little warped in this respect. It weirds me out how our former Atty. General (Ashcroft) felt the need to cover the bosoms of nude statues, or why people object to men wearing speedos, etc.

Growing up, my mom would work in the garden topless, and my dad and I bathed together, and the thought of it being wrong or unnatural never even crossed my mind. To this day, we still sometimes walk around in our underwear. I also don't get those guys who feel the need to cover up even when they're in the changing room or whatever. It's all about context. The sight of a bare human body isn't at all erotic or titillating (no pun intended) to me, unless the context makes it so.

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Exactly. People can be so much hotter with their clothes on. The sight of genitalia is completely unerotic, anyway. Some people might have a thing for genitals, but it's not passion I share. Not that there's anything WRONG with that . . .

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My wife and I have raised our children to be comfortable with their nakedness. Since they have seen us naked all their lives, it is only natural for them being naked around us. My son is 18 and my daughter is 16, and they are both pretty much naked all the time. I even taught my children how to masturbate when they were sexually ready, and they feel comfortable masturbating in front of us. So, I feel that my children have grown up a lot more confident by feeling natural about nakedness and watching their parents naked...