Hi, I'm following because I really liked your articles on sexis! Keep up the good work & Have an great week! Do you like anime/manga? Gaming? Lolita Fashion? If yes to any of the above (ME TOO!) and ... read more

Phone sex, raunchy emails, and sexting are classics now. What can you do that hot-and-heavy partners couldn’t do ten years ago? Plenty, as it turns out. Have a quick peek at five stars of the new generation of sex tech ... read article

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Sun, 11 Dec 2011 23:51:22 GMTChronic Pain: Stop it from Sucking the Fun Out of Your Sex Life by Kal Cobalthttp://www.edenfantasys.com/sexis/sexual-health/chronic-pain-and-sex-1201111/
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Though chronic pain has become a more medically-recognized condition, whether as a complication of another diagnosis or an unexplained phenomenon existing by itself, one frontier remains: How do people with chronic pain ... read article

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Thu, 01 Dec 2011 11:56:07 GMTDenial of Sterilization as a Form of Birth Control: Discrimination or Due Diligence? by Kal Cobalthttp://www.edenfantasys.com/sexis/sexual-health/denial-of-sterilization-as-birth-control-1007111/
http://www.edenfantasys.com/sexis/sexual-health/denial-of-sterilization-as-birth-control-1007111/#ArticleID-2360

Nothing polarizes debate like birth control. Though many high-profile arguments rage on about abortion, the “morning-after” pill, and insurance payments for birth control pills, sterilization is an often overlooked but ... read article

If you’ve ever had one of those “I never knew my smartphone could do that!” moments, you know how much fun it is to discover those little tricks that can change an activity forever. Even when your between-the-sheets life ... read article

By now, slash is practically a household word in fandom, and a “slasher” isn’t just a gory movie anymore. But the kind of slash that’s about Frodo and Sam or Kirk and Spock has a redheaded stepchild: real person slash ... read article

It's what every geek wants this summer: an invite to the beta of Google Plus, the social network du jour. As with any beta, problems abound — but one in particular is causing quite a fuss. Why is Google Plus the latest ... read article

You've made the decision to take the plunge: you're going to your first kinky party. Half of what you hear is talk about how important etiquette is, and the other half is about how you should just relax and be yourself. ... read article

The Bromance: the most versatile relationship two (or more) characters can enjoy. It's uniquely suited to the varying desires of a full-spectrum public: to some, it's a depiction of buddies. To others, it's an ... read article

It’s more and more common these days. If you don’t suffer from carpal tunnel syndrome or its familiars, one of your partners probably does. And CTS is a bitch to deal with in the sack. But never fear: as with all other ... read article

Whether you're the one excited about trying poly or the partner who's been approached to open up the relationship, you don't have to just guess and hope about the outcome of this venture. There are things to think about, ... read article

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Mon, 02 May 2011 12:39:00 GMTVaginal Fisting Is Good For You. by Kal Cobalthttp://www.edenfantasys.com/sexis/body/vaginal-fisting-debates-0418115/
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Plenty of folks are eager to warn you of the dangers of vaginal fisting: you'll either tear something, be loose forever, or end up desperate to find bigger and stranger insertables until the point of absurdity, right? ... read article

When our society thinks of sexy treats, we usually think of truffles, whipped cream, chocolate fondue, dessert wines...all things that can be extremely unfriendly to diabetic partners. As with any other dietary ... read article

You have a cat, you know the deal: ownership goes both ways. Your furry companion has some ideas about when and how you should offer up affection, entertainment, and snacks. Often, those of us with cats fancy ourselves ... read article

It might not seem obvious, but tea can be intensely sexy. If you're looking for a warm, sumptuous drink to share with your partner(s), there are teas that will knock your socks off. Some teas are great options for ... read article

Not everyone is a “roses-n-chocolates” kind of lover. Some of us are even irked by the idea of a greeting-card-industry “holiday.” But that doesn't have to stop them from making the most of the sexy mood permeating ... read article

The humble banana has been the butt of many sexual jokes, but who says sex—or the meal in advance of it—has to be serious? Or that bananas can’t be classy? Bananas really can shine in the starring role of your date-night ... read article

There’s a lot of outrage about the TSA’s “enhanced patdowns” (their term) and “pornoscanners” (the media’s) going around. Despite all the coverage, one important problem has been overlooked— but then, it always has: How ... read article

Pomegranates: They’re sexy, they’re mysterious, and they’re completely impenetrable to pomegranate virgins. How the hell do you eat them, and are they worth the work? If you’re a sensual foodie, absolutely! read article

Steak is a no-brainer. We all know of it as a decadent food, but how do you make a truly sexy steak? And if your honey is vegetarian, what then? Let’s talk about meat, baby. What’s on your plate (veggie or otherwise) can ... read article

For the past three years, Apple’s iPod Touch has been the company’s biggest success with consumers under 18. Now that the device’s newest upgrades include the same video chat feature in the iPhone that was immediately ... read article

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Thu, 07 Oct 2010 12:30:35 GMTThe Appetites Project: What to Serve For Dinner When Sex is on the Menu by Kal Cobalthttp://www.edenfantasys.com/sexis/sex-and-society/kal-cobalt-pre-sex-meal-0923103/
http://www.edenfantasys.com/sexis/sex-and-society/kal-cobalt-pre-sex-meal-0923103/#ArticleID-825

What’s fueling your next naughty romp? If you’ve ever tried to get down with an empty stomach or felt frisky after a heavy meal, you know that the state of your stomach has a lot to do with the success of your sex. How ... read article

It’s easy to make healthy choices about dildos today. Whether you’re concerned about the phthalates in rubber, have a latex allergy, or want a toy you can throw in the dishwasher between partners, there’s something on ... read article

If it sounds too good to be true, it probably is. Then again, innovation is always propelling us forward into realities we couldn’t possibly have imagined. The concept of orgasm on demand has been around for a long time, ... read article

Oh, technology. You bring us fabulous new discoveries, connect us with humans across the globe, and make sex scandals much, much juicier. What once were salacious accusations without evidence are now proven indiscretions ... read article

Technology is widely touted as the anti-censor, opening up realms of knowledge from the mundane to the sublime to all people with unlimited access. But all Internet connections are not created equal, and the controversy ... read article

Most people enjoy a little discretion when it comes to nookie. At the very least, they'd rather not broadcast their boffing to friends, family, and co-workers—especially when there's some kink involved. However, the ... read article

The Next Big Thing in gaming: Project Natal, Microsoft's revolutionary platform that uses the player's entire body as the controller. No more “gamer's thumb,” no more Wiimotes flying through TV screens–just your body and ... read article

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Thu, 20 May 2010 12:43:19 GMTPlugged In: iPorn—Is the Sin in the App or the Apple? by Kal Cobalthttp://www.edenfantasys.com/sexis/sex/plugged-in-no-porn-apps-for-iphone-0506102/
http://www.edenfantasys.com/sexis/sex/plugged-in-no-porn-apps-for-iphone-0506102/#ArticleID-518

Technology and porn have always been butt buddies, but the most prudish mobile device out there is the one in everyone’s pocket. The iPhone acts like your paranoid Aunt Marge when it comes to sexy apps, even though its ... read article

CBT: It all makes sense until that last letter. Cock and ball...torture? Really? If you were raised on “guy gets smacked in the junk” clips on America's Funniest Home Videos, or if you possess junk that prefers a little ... read article

If you've ever filled out a BDSM checklist, chances are you've seen a question about whether you enjoy “serving as furniture.” Or you might have run across someone who gets hot when referred to as “it.” What's the allure ... read article

White coats, stethoscopes, and nurses standing by? Ooh la la! A surprising number of folks get faint at the thought of a little medical porn, or medical equipment—and those are two very different kinks. The doctor will ... read article

Of all the things crammed into pussies and asses through the ages, the fist maintains an underground popularity that's baffling from the outside. What is it about fisting that captures the minds (and hands) of its ... read article

Knives and sex with no felonies involved? It's possible. It can even be part of a fun Friday night. How do you mix sharp blades with tender bits? Here are five points (I'm sorry) for living on the edge (I'm so, so sorry) ... read article

Bondage is often devious, but no bondage is quite as sly as predicament bondage. Every minute is a mind game and every movement an act of will. Here are five whys and hows of this nasty little game. read article

“The sweetest romantic comedy about S&M since, well...ever,” says Blackbook of the then-quirky, now-seminal film Secretary. Was it a massive step toward the mainstreaming of kinky culture or a lopsided portrayal that did ... read article

Corsetry isn't just for Victoriana enthusiasts. The dramatic lines of a corseted figure is custom-made for the high-fashion fetishwear subset of BDSM culture, and the restrictive nature of the garment allows for all ... read article

Have you ever found yourself confronted with a piece of latex fetishwear and wondered what that familiar tingle was all about? Chances are, your brain recognized the basic scent of condoms—ooh la la! So what is it that ... read article

If you're looking for a way to try out kink that's free, easy, and likely to have good results, this one’s for you. Spanking as sexual titillation goes a lot further than the trope of the 1950s secretary getting a slap ... read article

It sounds pretty, but it feels mean. Bastinado is the practice of beating the soles of the feet. Why do it? You know the drill by now: if this is your sole exposure (sorry!) to bastinado, read on for five little piggies' ... read article

Your article on animal roleplaying was rad, and I am really enjoying the whole series. It's near impossible to stuff such big subjects into 500 words or less, and you somehow manage it elegantly. Looking forward to ... read more

Why is that cutie on the bus wearing a dog collar? Why is that yuppie breathing heavy in the bridle aisle? Animal roleplay is a surprisingly popular form of kink, with puppies, kitties, and ponies the apparent favorites. ... read article

I'm thrilled over the latest Kink Corner on Masochism! I'm especially impressed over the distinction you made between masochism and submission. It is so often thought of as the same thing. Even though AM that commonly ... read more

Is making someone hurt an act of cruelty or an act of love? If you said “either one, and sometimes both,” you get a gold star (and I’ll see you at the dungeon). If you didn’t, read on: Here come five points that might ... read article

I love your writing style and range of your subject matter. It is wonderful to see well-informed writing on kink and BDSM. These subjects are often ignored by mainstream, sex-positive sources. Considering how many people ... read more

Most people don't think of needles as sexual or erotic, but even the shallowest consideration yields some obvious reasons for that association: needles penetrate the body and afford access to bodily fluids in a way few ... read article

For some of us, tickling is an activity we remember from summer camps and evenings with the family, either fondly or agonizingly (or both). For others, the enforced abandonment of control and reflexive, hysterical ... read article

For as long as robots have been a concept in the human imagination, we have been plagued by questions: Is advanced artificial intelligence possible? Can machines devoid of emotion truly understand the human condition? ... read article

From Facebook to Twitter to Myspace to AIM, YIM, and Skype, our love lives have transitioned seamlessly into the constantly evolving fabric of Web 2.0. But what do you, a savvy social networker, do when your love live ... read article