YEAH, That's What I Thought!

I'm 50 pounds overweight, and I freely admit it. Yet, I often encounter profiles of women WHO WEIGH MORE THAN ME, saying that my "body-type" is not acceptable! Yep, I weigh 250 pounds, and they weigh even more than that, and I'm still not acceptable to them???

Most of these women are, I remind you, are HEAVIER THAN ME! If I don't exclude them, why do they exclude me?

By the same token, do you have any idea how many women who are within 5 years of my age, say that my age is TOO MUCH? Even women OLDER than me sometimes say this!!

You know what, ladies? You get exactly what you deserve. If you don't care about anything but a dick, a dick is all you'll get. I'm too polite to write to you, but I'm never surprised reading your posts about how yet another man let you down...

What did you expect? You have this Fabio fantasy, while turning away from men who might just love you with all of their hearts!

It seems like everybody on this site is used to condemning the men for not being "real" or "significant", but in my opinion most of you women are exceedingly superficial, too.

Think about it, girls. The men are far from having an exclusive license about lying and playing games!

I never understood why some women on this site jump over each other to fall on top of certain guys.

Some of them are so fucked up and they have so much baggage, including kids, an ex wife who is in his face, or a current wife etc.

You may think these woman are that great, but you really dont know them from a profile and / or a blog.

Try not to let it bother you.

I used to participate in a chat room that had a few ladies who used to behave like the ladies you are talking about here. In public, these ladies would not get the time of day from most people. In here, they get off on the attention. It goes to their head. They throw themselves at everything, especially a "hot" guy. It was all based on looks. I dont consider somebody to be "hot" based on looks. I dont even use that term.

Steve

wistfuljester replies on 8/26/2006 12:56 pm: Steve, I suppose this little rant of mine is a bit over-the-top. Still, I find it incredible how too many women here, who are SO outnumbered by men, develop this "I'm too good for you" attitude.

They moan and complain about the guys who have no class or manners, while guys like me are sitting here just waiting to cuddle and care for them.

Nice guys like me don't have a chance, unless we look like Fabio used to look. Hey, I'd like to have a beautiful sex-goddess on my arm, too! But when it's all said and done, a lady who cares for me as an honest person is what's really important.

It's too bad some of the women on this site develop such shallow ideas. They also complain about the guys they meet here, and it's hard for me to have much sympathy, when good men like me are being completely ignored...

Yep, it never ceases to amaze me when I read a profile that says "I'm 5'2", have 42DD+ breasts, with just a few extra pounds". You look at their pictures and think to yourself....WOW....if that's a few extra pounds then I'm as skinny as a rail. All the while their profile description states that they're ONLY looking for someone who's tall, dark, handsome, physically fit, stable, financially secure, and will cater to her needs first. Get real!!! If you ain't Barbie then don't expect Ken to show up on your doorstep.

I'd much rather interact with someone who has a clearer impression of themselves then something unrealistic.

wistfuljester replies on 8/27/2006 5:40 pm: WELL, HERE'S SOME STUFF THAT'S EVEN FUNNIER: I'M 54 YEARS OLD, AND I'VE BEEN LOOKING A PROFILES OF WOMEN MY AGE AND A FEW YEARS OLDER THAN ME.

"You look at their pictures and think to yourself....WOW....if that's a few extra pounds then I'm as skinny as a rail."Oh yes... I use "large" as my body type description and MissAnnThrope keeps telling me I'm too small to use "large"... go figure (sowwy, pun not intended).

"If you ain't Barbie then don't expect Ken to show up on your doorstep."

I was going to say "Ok, G.I. Joe, then," but I hate the military establishment, not to mention he and Ken seem to hve something going on... In any case, Flabio is probably a much nicer person, even without the godlike physique.

ok, I was gonna post this and I forgot. I have on my profile "A little extra padding" And when I speak to any men I tell them straight up "I am FAT". They disagree with me, but I know what I am, and I am FAT. Sure I think I have a damn good body for a 36 year old mother of 4 teens, but I am FAT. Oh yeah and Toothless Well, not totally, I can keep them in or take them out it depends on if ya want a GUM JOB or not But it is a nice $2,000 Set of choppers! I hide nothing, and mislead no one! I am a Fat, opinionated, Bitch, who can Fuck the taste right out your mouth!

wistfuljester replies on 8/29/2006 11:36 pm: Mel, except for my two lower canines, I also have a great set of choppers that I got when I was only 39. Due to extensive bone damage from gum disease, I spent a LOT more than $2000--but I still have the same set 15 years later!

I think "thick" describes you pretty well, and I see nothing wrong with that at all. I have to agree you look great for a mother of 4 teens, and that pic of you in the red panties is very sexy, indeed! You also have beautiful breasts and a fine ass--not to mention, red hair and blue eyes is my absolute favorite "coloring" for a woman! I'm an absolute sucker for a fiery redhead {pun most definitely intended...lol).

There are a couple of network pics of yours that just drive to me complete, drooling lust, but perhaps I shouldn't expound on them here. Let's just say they make "Mr. Happy" expand...

Nothing's a faster turn off to me then someone who demands a body shape that as a general rule, and not to be mean but, they couldn't attract themselves off of this site. I mean really..

Personally physical appearance doesn't do that much for me. I mean I certainly enjoy the eye candy, but I can appreciate guys with a little extra padding or even guys who could honestly describe themselves as overweight just as much as a guy with an athletic body. I think the only requirements I really have are that 1. They aren't stupid and 2. That they find me desireable. That's the biggest turn on for me. Nevermind age or appearance!

wistfuljester replies on 9/1/2006 11:50 pm: Oh, I know exactly what you mean about the stupid part. I absolutely cannot abide an unintelligent woman!

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