back OT karin i managed to get 1 match and I feel so flattered. To be fair I am an odd fella so I am not that surprisedAt those prices it will remain a great unknown …well I said I was frugal in the questions

Karin – Take yourself off on an mtb holiday. I did this many years ago and it was amazing. 2 guy’s asked me out and I had a sort of fling (I know, I know) with the guide on the last day.
The confidence it gave me on my return (I’m shy too) was so great that I met my (now) husband a few months later on a skiing holiday.

Ianpinder – I think if you put a lot of “very importants” in, the software chucks you out. They want to be able to report that they are a success so they need applicants who are wishy-washy and have no idea of who they are or what they want.

My friend also tried it today – he didn’t even get the refusal message!

I’d actually recommend OKCupid, I met a few interesting people from there, and now I’m not on there at all, due to the first person I met being my darling now.
Warning, there are a LOT of people who have profiles there to either troll or to just do the quizzes.