Thursday, February 5, 2009

Recently, just like me, another fellow blogger has also decided to settle down in a committed relationship... after having bid her final goodbyes to all the major commitment related blocks she had. And now that she's opened her heart and mind to welcome "that most familiar stranger" in her life, she has "placed an order" for this man, to the Universe, describing CLEARLY and EXACTLY what she wants.

As I went through this post on her blog, it struck me that while I have also now made up my mind about getting married, I haven’t yet given a clear order to the Universe, as to the kind of man It should send to me. Better late than never, I guess! So I decided to copy her idea… and post my detailed “order” on my blog too. Here it goes…

The kind of man I see myself spending the rest of my life “happily ever after” with is:

LOL! No, that's not my wishlist! That's just an image I found on Google. It sort of tickled my funny bone, so used it for this post! But, my actual wishlist is here:

* Someone who vibes with me at the intellectual, emotional and physical planes.
* An absolute romantic! (It’s only fitting… ‘coz I’m exactly that too! :-p)
* A nature lover… loves watching the sunsets & sunrises more than the news on the TV! :-D
* Somebody who likes to read, preferably. (Like me… 'coz that would give us so much to talk about.)
* Someone with the patience and desire for teaching & encouraging others to try out new stuff (which obviously includes satisfying my own zillions of spurts of curiosity! :-p)
* Having a healthy curiosity and appreciation for the various different cultures around the globe.
* Very fond of traveling! In fact, if asked to choose between a new cell phone worth Rs. 25K or a family holiday for the same cost, he would instantly go for the latter, without the blink of an eye!
* Professionally & financially competent, with passion for his work.
* Always able to maintain a smooth balance between personal & professional life, with enough time & space for both aspects of his life.
* Able to give and receive freely & equally in all aspects of the relationship.
* Possessing enough “domestic skills” to “hold the fort” on his own when I’m not in the mood to “play housewife”.
* Naughty and playful, with plenty of boyish enthusiasm about life and all things in it… even carom-board & computer games!
* Someone who is comfortable with what/who he is, and what he wants out of life, even if it is different from the norm.
* More spiritual than religious!
* Able to see the humor in most things/situations in life. (Not a serious, grumpy kind of person, please!)
* Lastly, and MOST IMPORTANTLY, someone who reciprocates the same inner desire, to be in a committed, monogamous, mutually satisfying and nurturing relationship! (But that’s obvious, isn’t it?)

Physical Attributes:

* A normal healthy person, obviously... with all body parts intact.
* Preferably 5 to 8 inches taller than me (don’t know why, but the probability of sharing a strong physical chemistry increases for me with tall men!)
* CLEAN looking – with a strong sense of personal hygiene.
* Having a “Killer smile” – yes! (That can always diffuse one of my stormy outbursts! A must-have “weapon” for him!)
* Having expressive eyes. (Communication is important, you see!)

In short, both of us should be able to support each other and inspire each other to be the best that we can be.

So there God… hope that’s CLEAR enough for you! Now please go ahead… get my order ready and deliver it to me! :-D

Oh and while you are at it God, could you please add one more thing? It’s not like a MUST-HAVE, you know, but I figured… if you can put together ALL of the above, surely this one little thing would be as easy as “placing-a-cherry-on-top” for you!

See, while the rest of my cooking is fairly above average, I’m absolutely pathetic at making tea/coffee! So maybe you could add this particular quality in his skill-set too – ability to make good tea/coffee for the both of us… like my Dad does currently!

Think about it God… him and me… the 2 of us in our balcony, holding mugs of steaming hot tea in our hands, listening to “Purani Jeans” on Radio Mirchi (or Red FM… or whichever radio channel it is aired on!), watching another one of your artistic sunsets, humming along with the songs… me, in tune obviously and him, completely off-tune… thanking you of course, for bringing us together…! Cute picture, isn’t it? Think about it… :-D :-p

well translated from thoughts to words Kaddu.. Maybe, my comments cant do justice to your words but my thoughts can when they also let out a whisper of blessings to you to help the Universe bring your picture into your life! Love and light to you!

Just an ordinary everyday kinda guy Soul... the kind you bump into every now & then... :-)

In fact, majority of my friends/acquaintances are guys like these... just that they are all already settled "happily ever after" in committed, monogamous relationships! :-D

I think it's the way I have described the man here... the kind of images and qualities I have focussed on... that makes him seem like a species from outer space! As they say... "Beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder"!... ;-)

As a matter of fact, if you look closely... you'll realize that majority of the above traits go hand-in-hand... like "a package deal" you know. They're just parts of a larger personality structure.

Dare to dream!!!Its a totally customized Husband here that you are looking at.. God has to be a real designer on this one..But as we know God is the best one..so he must have already customized this one as a "common man you find everyday" ..Its just taking you long to find him or taking him long to find you..but as an Indian movie freak, I'll only say "Lage raho munni behan"..:P:P:P

Yupp! He is the best! And, as ur gtalk often says, "there are no limits in dreams and love"... right! :-pCouldn't find him till now 'coz I wasn't actually looking for someone like this till now! I had been focussing on limiting thoughts, so I found people with similar limiting traits. But now I'm thinking like Dhirubhai Ambani! =)) Ha ha ha ha ha ha ha!

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