Monday, 11 February 2013

I've been there. Man, have I been there. Many, many times. More times than I'd like to admit I've been broken hearted by breaking someone else's heart. It always seems as if it'd be better to be the one ending things, but it's not. It still hurts.

One of the most important things I've learned in my path to positivity is that you can't just brush the bad emotions aside. Sure, it would be fabulous if we could be oh-so-happy all the time, but that's not life. Life sucks sometimes. Really sucks. We get mad, we get sad, we get hurt. That's just how it is.

I spend time analyzing and thinking and over-thinking situations, instead of really just sitting down with myself and realizing that the love I have for myself should be my focus.I really do believe that there's a lesson in everything and every painful experience I've gone through has proved that to me. Even when I've felt like giving up, like just screaming until my lungs collapsed, I was learning. Even though it didn't feel like it at the time.

When you're battling a broken heart, choosing happiness is far from easy, but it is still possible.No matter what happens in life, you always have yourself so you better work on loving that person and celebrating how awesome he or she is. If you really love yourself, really believe that you are great, no one can take that away from you.

Of course, the love I've experienced from others has a great impact on my life and I would most likely not be the person I am today without the love I've experienced.At this juncture,I am so grateful for the things I have experienced,hoping no more sad episodes I have to go through again.I must admit,it took me long journey to be here now.God is fair and great.He never let me cry for the rest of my life.

You can wake up every day and love yourself as much as you possibly can and still love all of the people around you. That's the amazing thing about love!I cannot say that I'm always smiling at myself in the mirror, so overjoyed to see myself happy again.It was unexpected.I never thought I can wake up again from another fall.

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but the most important thing; seek help through patience and prayer.InsyaAllah.