When we follow our heart, we follow the path of least resistance. We enjoy what we do and do it joyously.

Our enthusiasm spurs us forward and we accomplish more than when we take a more resistant path and “burn out” while beating our head against the brick walls we encounter.

When we take the path of least resistance, we walk around boulders, rather than trying to chisel away at them.

Instead of wasting time and energy to accomplish impossible feats, we skip down the path of least resistance, kicking the pebbles we encounter to the side of the road.

Life should be more than a series of stressful moments strung together ad infinitum. Life should be a joyous journey of adventure and discovery.

Here’s to enjoying the journey . . . along the path of least resistance.

Quotes to Ponder:

No man is a failure who is enjoying life. ~ William Feather

I would rather be a failure at something I love to do, than a success at something I don’t. ~ George Burns

Success comes not from what we do, it comes from who we are.

I’ve never liked the quote, “Good guys finish last,” because it implies that greed, and power, and arrogance will get you to the finish line first . . . but that’s not the finish line that I’m aiming for.

When we stop clinging to ego attachments, we lighten our load and learn who we truly are. ~ Lama Surya Das

How refreshing the whinny of a pack horse fully unloaded! ~ Classic Haiku

No rules. Just write!

What about you? Do you agree with Wells?

Have you accomplished more on the path of least resistance . . . or by battling windmills?

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My favorite is this one “Success comes not from what we do, it comes from who we are.” I think our success can only be defined by us and no one else has the right to place that judgment on another. Here’s to every step of the way on the path!

I like the quotes, and I probably agree with you on this, but I think once again that we have a semantical problem. “Resistance” to me does not necessarily mean head-banging, brick walls, road blocks and impossible tasks. To me the intent of the axiom is to learn not to shy away from things that might seem daunting at first blush, but to persevere through the rough patches. The “Road Less Traveled” is often the most beautiful, and leads to the most wonderful places – even though there might be thorns along the way. Resistance does not mean, IMHO, that you cannot derive enjoyment in the process. As a matter of fact, I am most happy when facing a challenge. I would much rather find a way to climb over a boulder than to just walk along kicking pebbles out of the way. Doesn’t seem like much fiun to me. But, I also believe that “whatever floats your boat” proverb. We all have to arrive at our destinations in our own way!

There are many ways to interpret the word resistance, of course. But when we are on the right path, doors open for us that would not have opened for anyone else. The Universe is behind us, assisting our efforts to meet necessary challenges.

In my experience, when we meet too much resistance, it may mean that we’re heading the wrong way. 🙂

It is indeed – especially at certain times in our lives – that breezing through challenges is wonderful. For my own self, however, I find that working my way yields far more valuable lessons learned than the path of least resistance. Besides, like I said, I enjoy the “pushing” part of it – most times. If I find myself pushing and not enjoying the struggle, then I almost always back off and seek another route, feeling that I have received a message to turn around and pursue a different avenue to my goal, or whatever.

If photography came easily to me, I would not enjoy it nearly as much as I do, and these days I am rather consumed with it! (I’ll be telling everybody why very soon!) It gives me such pleasure to figure things out, even when it is frustrating – but like I said, that’s just me! 😀

Thank you Nancy! What a wonderful post about a subject we ALL struggle with. I love your quotes…here’s another that epitomizes my philosophy on life…although I know we need to set goals and strive to reach our potential…and there are obstacles on the road of life that we can’t always go around but do have to climb over sometimes…”happiness is wanting what you have, not having what you want”.

Sometimes moving an obstacle may be worthwhile, but surely we should pick our battles. Why fight just to fight. Sometimes obstacles are not meant to be moved but to change our direction. I prefer open doors to closed doors. I believe God wants us to live fulfilled lives. Drudgery is not necessary. We were meant to enjoy what we do and live life abundantly. Not to say we will not have troubles. I’m sure you know we will. Blessings to you, Nancy…

I have always equated the ‘path of least resistance’ as being the opposite of the moral path, e.g. if your friends are drug- or drink-enslaved. But I can see your interpretation of it too, Nancy, and that is also how I feel. That which excites and challenges us is what we are meant to do – our passion!

I expect that H.G. Wells intended that when he referred to the path of least resistance, but the more I listen to my heart, the less resistance I encounter on the path . . . so I interpreted it another way.

Like many of your posts, this one can be interpreted on practical and philosphical levels. Like PTC said above, I’m not sure Wells was encouraging us to slog through life and enjoy a daily grind we can never escape (I believe that was Mother Teresa’s advice, actually).

I agree wholeheartedly, though, that most of us meet with resistance because we are trying to forge the wrong path. I am convinced that working 50 hours a week, like I do, is not the way I should be spending my flash of existence on earth. I’m working on a way around it. We’ll see if I’m successful.

Good for you. Too many people spend their life on the road more traveled . . . when they take the road less traveled (i.e., the path of least resistance), the road is a bit less bumpy and far more enjoyable.

My mother has always told me ‘don’t get good at something you don’t like doing!’ I think if we are to overcome obstacles and resistance, it may as well be on a path that points us where we want to go! Thanks for another great post Nancy!

Reading the previous post its interesting to see the different perspectives. People will sit in judgement and there is nothing you can do about that. Then you reach a point in life that you are forced to make a new path whether you like it or not.

Smart lady! Going to law school was “hard work” but I loved every minute of it. It was filled with challenges, but I enjoyed meeting them. To me, it was the “path of least resistance” because I was doing exactly what I needed to do . . . at that time.

Then, after 13 years as an attorney, it was no longer the “right” path to be on. My heart urged me to take another path . . . which has made me far happier.

I suppose, in some ways, H.G. Wells was right . . . continuing to practice law would perhaps have been the path of least resistance at that point ~ it was far more challenging to shift gears and forge a new road. 😀

One year, at New Year’s, a very Type A friend wanted me to set conventional goals. I told her my goal was simple . . . to enjoy the journey. That frustrated her to no end ~ she insisted that I HAD TO SET MEASURABLE GOALS if I wanted to SUCCEED in life.

I ignored her . . . and here I am 13 years later, still enjoying the journey. And I’m NOT standing on the bread line. 😀

Nancy, this is fabulous! In my work life, I took the motto “work smarter, not harder” and didn’t fall into the trap of workaholism. (I know…I just invented the word – not the condition, thanks be!)

An old gent who became a multi-millionaire making cardboard boxes (!) told me his advice: Never do a job you don’t like. I asked how making boxes stayed interesting. His answer, “I simply made it interesting. There’s room for creativity in every single thing you do.”

I agree. Often taking the path of least resistance is working “smarter” not harder. We follow the shortcuts whispered to us by our hearts and get where WE want to be faster than someone who follows more conventional pathways to “success.”

When we are absolutely determined to enjoy what we do, we win! No matter what happens, we win.

You know I have found that when I begin striving with something if I back off for a little while, let the pot simmer a bit, the “work” I was working so hard at evaporates leaving me to walk freely down the path. “The path of least resistance” often arrives to take over the worrisome way an hour after we sit down to rest.

How interesting, jelillie! My ftaher taught me that technique when I was a little girl, but he called it “back-burnering.” He used it in conjunction with solving the NYT crossword puzzles. (I started as a very little girl, sitting i n his lap an “kibbutzing” as he solved them – which he did every day. I’ve continued doing the same thing, but unfortunately I haven’t so far at least, convinced any of our sons to follow in the path.

Generally, I think most people know the answers, but pushing too hard- to the point of frustration – is not the way to come up with the answer. Putting it out of your conscious mind, and placing it on the “back burner,” lets your subconscious do the work, and the answer often pops up out of the blue! Fun!

Life is pitted with obstacles and challenges, it’s how we handle them that matters, and as Paula says, we shouldn’t push too hard; things seem to sort themselves out eventually anyway.
Don’t worry – be happy!

The “Road Less Traveled” is often the most road traveled, but I love challenges and the excitement of new adventures.
“Path of least resistance” is ok for awhile, but the fun of traveling down the unknown paths, leads to meeting new challenges, and that is what I do best. I find it intriguing discovering these new challenges down these unknown paths.

Me too! The path of least resistance, to me, doesn’t mean climbing into a rut and staying there . . . it means following our hearts to discover new challenges that APPEAL TO US by wandering down unknown paths.

I would not condemn the past of least resistance if it is a joyous matter. But if playing the violin is a joy, for example, there is no easy path because it will be hard work and that draws the Puritan work ethic back into the course of the path. Another one of life’s paradoxes I suppose.

The Puritans felt that life should be a sacrifice. That people should put their nose to the grindstone and not expect to feel joy. They frowned at laughter and mirth.

Playing the guitar is a joy for me ~ learning to play it required focus, but not sacrifice. In that sense, it was the path of least resistance. It required hours of practice to learn the chords and songs I wanted to play but I enjoyed the JOURNEY.

Playing the TUBA would have been a sacrifice for me ~ because it wasn’t the instrument that I WANTED to play. Learning to play the tuba would NOT have been the path of least resistance because neither the JOURNEY nor the DESTINATION (of becoming proficient) interested me in the least.

It rubbed me the wrong way because of his choice of the word “loser” ~ I translated that to mean that there are winners and losers in life. That, if you get a BIGGER piece of the pie, you win . . . even if it’s more than you need or want. I don’t agree with that notion. Sometimes LESS is MORE.

BUT after seeing the differing nuances attributed to “the path of least resistance” in this comment thread . . . I’m wonderfing if I even know what H.G. Wells meant. 😀

For me, I think it depends on the kind of resistance. If it is a mental resistance telling you that one is not good enough to be doing something (eg. a creative endeavour), then I agree with Wells that if it is something that one really wants to do, it’s worth a try. On the other hand, if it’s a matter of frantically hanging on to something even though it aggravates one, then I agree with you. Hmm … I hope that made sense. 🙂

M. ~ It does make sense and I’m beginning to think that I don’t disagree with Wells at all.

What if he meant . . .

Going into the family business and doing what everyone else wants you to do = “the path of least resistance” because that’s the path everyone else is pushing you down. If you take that path to please others -> LOSER!

If that’s what he meant, then I agree with him.

But that’s not the way I read it initially because to me “the path of least resistance” is the one that BECKONS ME forward. I feel no resistance in my gut to moving forward and taking on new challenges, etc.

I know that I will enjoy the JOURNEY, even if I never reach the DESITNATION I’m headed for. And that makes me a WINNER!

I’ll have to see if I can find the quote in context to see how he defines “the path of least resistance.”

I think that Wells used it to mean “taking the easy way out” or “being lazy.” That’s not really what I mean by the path of least resistance.

To me, the path of least resistance is the path that we are meant to follow. We will face challenges . . . but they are the challenges that we NEED to face, not just a bunch of “busy work” designed to impress others.

The path of least resistance is also the avoidance of soap operas and daily dramas and worrying about things that may never come to pass.

My mentor said, “If you are happy more days than not, you are most likely doing what you came to do. If you are unhappy more days that not, then you need to move a little to the left, or right, or up, or down, until you are happy.” Dr. Coll also said, “Doing what you came to do will make you happy.”

I believe we all have a life purpose that we know innately. When we hit the path that keeps us on our life purpose, we enjoy the journey immensely. We get divine help to follow that path. That is our success.

I know this and believe it. But right now I am having trouble with my path and I can’t seem to find the path of least resistance. Posts like yours, Nancy, talk to my feelings. They reassure me that, no matter what, everything will be all right. It makes it easier for me to look for my path again.

You’re welcome, Sandra. And I think that you’ve summed up my experience nicely.

I did not stop practicing law because it was “too hard.” I left my career as a litigator because it was a NEGATIVE in my life. It DETRACTED from my happiness and peace of mind and prevented me from being the best “ME” I could be.

We don’t have to have jobs that we LOVE every minute . . . but if they are making us unhappy, a course correction is probably needed.

I concur… the path of ease is the path of the wise… that old adage of no pain, no gain, went out with the 1980s shoulder pad. 🙂
Finally catching up after taking time out to handle offline stuff. 🙂
Elizabeth

I made myself miserable taking the path of least resistance; I was wasting my potential, and forgoing my dreams because I told myself it was “too hard” or “impossible” to realize them. Only when I go against this nature do I seem to accomplish things I am proud of and happy about.

I think it depends on what H.G. Wells meant and what you mean. I take his quote to mean deliberately choosing the easy way out to avoid challenges. For example, someone may not follow their heart because the path ahead that they can see seems too difficult.

I understand what you are saying to mean that when we follow our heart, the path, no matter what it contains- challenges, etc, becomes one of least resistance, because our enthusiasm or passion spurs us forward.

Thanks for making me think about this some more. When I feel intuitive resistance to doing something, I heed the advice.

For example, after taking 2 weeks off to think about whether I wanted to switch gears and “leave the law,” I walked into my office and heard my heart go THUNK!

As my secretary was busy telling me how happy she was that I was back, I felt IMMENSE resistance to the idea of being back ~ a sick feeling in my gut that this was no longer the right path for me. I turned to my secretary and said, “I’m not staying.”

H.G.Wells might characterize my decision to leave the law as a “failure” and he might refer to me as a “loser.”