6. Your Psychological Issues

Again, you may be able to hide your depression or anger issues from her at the outset, but a leopard can’t change its spots so much as mask them, and sooner or later any psychological issues you may have will present themselves to her. Truthfully, if you have any kind of crippling or relationship-sabotaging psychological issues, you should actively work on dealing with them, more for your sake than hers, but let her in on your struggles before she witnesses a full-blown meltdown, so that she knows to expect and can feel confident that you’re making an effort to improve yourself.