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Gemini Woman and Cancer Man Compatibility

Famous Gemini-Cancer Couples: Nicole Kidman and Tom Cruise, Wallace Simpson and the Duke of Windsor, Jessica Tandy and Hume Cronyn

This is one of the most romantic, etheric and delightful combinations imaginable. Gemini women are among the most sought after and Cancer men are prized as “good husband material”. When flirtatious, gregarious Gemini meets sweet, comforting Cancer, the violins start to play. These two create a busy, happy personal world with friends and interests centered around the home. No world dominion required for fulfillment, thank you very much. Parents and siblings may be especially important for socializing. Likely they love each other’s company while the sound of each other’s voice is this side of heaven. Gemini keeps things interesting while Cancer provides a serene anchor in a busy whirl of interests and activities. Thanks to Gemini, there are always other people around which warms Cancers heart.

How to Attract a Cancer Man as a Gemini Woman: It’s ok to be as flirtatious as you like. It brings out his warmth and sweetness. His conversation is not likely to be as witty or clever as you would like but give him a chance. His compliments are genuinely caring and he has a high degree of integrity. Most importantly, laugh at his cutesy little jokes. Even though you’ve definitely heard better, his humor is whimsical and a big part of his social skill set. It’s a clue to his inner world. This is the guy most likely to be asked (believe it or not), “Heard any good jokes lately?”

How to Attract a Gemini Woman as a Cancer Man: She loves to talk and she’s curious about everything so start with some questions. Show what a good listener you are. Try some variety in dating — dinner, a movie, an art exhibit, a nice chat at Starbucks. Ask her about current events and celebrities, the latest films or political gaffes (nothing too heavy).

Degree of Romance: These two dance to the same music. Their relationship is bound to include great romance. Gemini is famous for keeping things interesting and it’s no different in the romance department. With Cancer a willing play partner, she is full of surprises. Gemini is a great flirt and tease while Cancer responds with just the right appreciation and encouragement.

Degree of Passion: This relationship tends to stay at a more superficial level than passion. Neither sign bring out jealousy or possessiveness in the other and their emotions are delightfully straightforward.

Degree of Friendship: These two make close personal friends. They can share day to day interests, small talk and routine activities til the cows come home! Likely they have a merry band of followers, other friends who keep up with them through tweeting, facebook, IM and texting. They wouldn’t want to be a moment alone during the day so the door is always open to communicate.

Degree of Marriage: A great combination for marriage! They can focus on each other and building a life together without the distraction of heavy psychological issues, overly dominant career plans or complicated emotional drama. They are focused on having good friends, good times, a happy home, delightful children and interesting vacations.

Progression of Relationship: Cancer is very protective and careful about building a relationship. He makes sure she feels comfortable and secure every step of the way. Although she hardly needs it, he reassures her she is #1 and special by words and deeds. Cancers don’t play games, being security oriented and nurturing, and Gemini, though a wicked game player under some circumstances, is not encouraged to be that way by a Cancer. He gives her so much steady and sincere attention, it takes her restlessness away,

Sex: Sex between a Cancer man and a Gemini woman is like a beautiful piece of music. The melody is introduced and then embellished to infinite delight. Familiarity is combined with flourishes and bouquets. There is a special kind of subtlety that is introduced the more the get to know each other’s tastes and talents.

When It’s Over: Gemini and Cancer need to have patience with one another a good deal of the time. Air (Gemini) and water (Cancer) need to extend each other courtesies lest she run roughshod over his insecurities and he appear to cling so close as to bind her butterfly wings. If worse comes to worse Gemini will have to code it. The unwinding will be messy and plant seeds for endless future contention because Cancer will have to handle all the responsibilities and he doesn’t want to end it. Always in the back of his mind is the hope of “neverending love” and reconciliation even as she flips her petticoats on the way out the door to get a breath of fresh air. He whispers after her, “I know you’ll be back” while she flips over her shoulder, “Get a life!”

I really like geminis but not THAT much. I find our connection to be a superficial one. We laugh together and flirt a lot, but…I need something more than that. I never have felt emotionally connected to geminis, and I’ve dated several, casually.

So true!! OMG I am a gemini woman and was with a cancer man and only because he clung to me like a wet blanket and begged until he woreme down so whinny sometimes I could deal with it but most times my evil twin would come out; he reminded me of a woman…LOL, he was too sensative and needy….uuuuuughhhh I do not ever want to date another Cancer but Gemini men are a different story

So true!! OMG I am a gemini woman and was with a cancer man and only because he clung to me like a wet blanket and begged until he wore me down so whinny sometimes I could deal with it….. but most times my evil twin would come out; he reminded me of a woman…LOL, he was too sensative and needy….uuuuuughhhh I do not ever want to date another Cancer but Gemini men are a different story

Well i can honestly say that everything i read about cancer and gemini was right on the mark. Ima 34 yrs old gemini woman and usually attract Leos,Aquarius and Taurus. Being a strong willed,intellectual woman i need a dominant sociable man i can match witts with. So it amazed me that tho Cancer and Geminis are opposites we can get along if our differances are respected. I honestly feel with my cancer fiance that ive met my soul mate. When hes down im cheery so i pick his down moods up and im also fun and spontanious which is good change of pace for the shy stay around familiar surroundings. What he offers me is True Love and Emotional security which i never found in any other man or sighn. This guy plays for keeps and it makes me feel secure. They say geminis arent the settle down type well thats not true at all,we want to settle down we are just very intelligent and are very intuitive soif a guy we like or want to get to know pretends to be serious about a relationship but isnt or if he is a player which most men are we see rig through it. We like tohave fun anyway so if a guy we like tries to play heart games with us we dont get mad. We enjoy the experiece and let it go until we meet Mr.Right. There are two things tho thatcould ruin my relationship with my cancer fiance? Being that im independant band he needs to be needed all the time i make him feel insecure and when a cancer feels insecure they look for security and security to a cancer man is a woman. So i naturally make them feel insecure and when they feel that way they will go behind your back and CHEAT. Which is a deal breaker for us geminis cause trust means every thing to me. 2ndly cancers are irrational when upset,they are emotional and blow small mole hills into mountains. Geminis hate dramatic public scenes or an irrational person. I think a person should always be able to talk rationally even when upset and water sighns cant. Besides those two issues we are compatable. If gemini can make cancer feel secure and if cancer learned that self confidence comes from with in and stops clinging to people to feel important then it would work. Me and my fiance are currently haveing these issues and its make it or break time for us so wish us luck. Thanks

i am a Gemini woman…in love with a cancer man…he drives me nuts!!! We start5ed off dating and quickly moved into a relatonship that quickly ended within weeks because he cheated on me. I was angry then said to him we have far too much fun together so lets be friends. When i made the gesture it was true & geniun. We started hangn out…he called frequently..he’s very spontanious so we take long drives on the weekends. One of the main reasons we broke is because i felt he was still stuckon his dhgtrs mom. He hated me constantly accusing him of that….so he ventured on. ok so back to now…we had been hanging out, my feeling began to grow again…i started to feel like this was love…what more could u want a friendship to turn to love! So this past weekend we went out as we made plans to do this for a while….it didnt turn out that well not due to us, but the event was a bust. He aqsked my while we together how i would define our relationship and i advised him that i liked him alot….i felt him deeply and wanted to touch on him ALL the time. He said he felt the same way…then when i asked if he could see himself with me he took a long time to answer but sad yes however we have “fundemental differences” which we like the same things, goin to the same places, love family…all that…we ust veiw things differently whereas he wants me to be a lil less playful and silly and more deep…he’s cranky & uptight about small stuff….so there are our “fundemental differences”. I asked him what he thought our differences were & he didnt want to talk about it….he asked me to call when i got home…i did…he didnt answer…i text’d the next day twelling him i hope i didnt complicate things…he hasnt answered me…i havent heard from him in 4 days! im going crazy…i miss him….feel like i did sumthing wrong..confused…i refuse to reach out…i want to be done…but i want him in my life. HELP ME…Iv fallen & i’m having a hard time gertrting p from this!!! What to do???

i am a Gemini woman…in love with a cancer man…he drives me nuts!!! We started off dating and quickly moved into a relatonship that quickly ended within weeks because he cheated on me. I was angry then said to him we have far too much fun together so lets be friends. When i made the gesture it was true & geniun. We started hangn out…he called frequently..he’s very spontanious so we take long drives on the weekends. One of the main reasons we broke is because i felt he was still stuck on his dghtrs mom. He hated me constantly accusing him of that….so he ventured on. ok so back to now…we had been hanging out, my feeling began to grow again…i started to feel like this was love…what more could u want a friendship to turn to love! So this past weekend we went out as we made plans to do this for a while….it didnt turn out that well not due to us, but the event was a bust. He asked me while we together how i would define our relationship and i advised him that i liked him alot….i felt him deeply and wanted to touch on him ALL the time but i dont want to do more & mess up our frienship. He said he felt the same way…then when i asked if he could see himself with me he took a long time to answer but said yes however we have “fundemental differences” which we like the same things, goin to the same places, love family…all that…we just veiw things differently whereas he wants me to be a lil less playful and silly and more deep…he’s cranky & uptight about small stuff….so there are our “fundemental differences”. I asked him what he thought our differences were & he didnt want to talk about it….he asked me to call when i got home…i did…he didnt answer…i text’d the next day telling him i hope i didnt complicate things…he hasnt answered me…i havent heard from him in 4 days! im going crazy…i miss him….feel like i did sumthing wrong..confused…i refuse to reach out…i want to be done…but i want him in my life. HELP ME…Iv fallen & i’m having a hard time getting up from this!!! What to do???

I am a gemini woman and currently talkiing to a cancer guy. He is starting to bore me already and its only been 3 days. I do like him on an intelectual level but i feel like i have to put too much effort into our conversations just to keep him saying something. Im not sure if he would make a great boyfriend but I think he would be a true friend and always there for me when I need him.

I am a gemini woman and very attracted to a cancer man,.. i have tried to let him go before and have gone back 3 different times now..theres something special about our connection, its different and more addictive than any other connection iv ever felt. So strong. I feel secure and very safe with him as if no one can even dare to hurt me with him around. Its a very flirtatious connection and we laugh all the time he and i get along very well. I have never felt anything as strong as his connection with me, i know that he would be there for me no matter what and would back me up on whatever i decided.

Am a gemini woman,inlove with a cancer man…He so romantic and emotional,however I dont feel deeply inlove,we broke up before because I felt empty and we are two different people however intellectualy we connect.I just want to get to know him better and give him time,he is a one woman man and I have no doubts that he loves me and he gives me the sense of security .He gets too excited about things instead of taking his time.I get confused.

well im gonna give you my honest oppinion in reference to your question as far as whats up with your cancer friend and did you do anything to make him not contact you after you told him your feelings? Well what i think is that either your cancer friend is still in a relationship with his childs mother or hes seeing someone else. First off cancers are clingy insecure and need attention especially attention from a women. They are flirtations but relationship people so basically they need to be with some one so if he isnt with you best believe sweety hes with some one. When you told him how you felt i think you made him have to stop playing games and make a decision as far as was he gonna be with you or his childs mother or who ever hes seeing. You being serious and basically calling him out made him realize what or who he really wanted. I see your qoute was written in august and im responding in october. So if you and your cancer friend are still seeing each other but he hasnt asked for a committment yet then hes not going to cause hes seeing some one else. 2nd cancers are possesive and family oriented sighns so its in there blood to want family a women to call their own and security. Either way if you didnt hear from him by now or you did but he hasnt asked for a committment yet hes definately seeing some one else and he feels secure with that person. Basically move on boop,trust me

i appreciate the support sweety we still have had some ups and downs as no relationship is perfect but over all i think i might have met my soul mate and future husband? I d k yet tho you know how moody and unpredictable cancers are im just hopeing for the best but still keeping my eyes open wide as always. you know geminis are far from naive but so far i honestly couldnt complain sweety. thanks for replying and let me know how you and your cancer boop are doing?

mandy take my advice give your cancer friend some time to open up. cancers are fun spontanious nurtureing and loyal. cancers are moody tho and have tempers but all u have to do is put your foot down and teach him how to be more ratiional and open minded when upset because their closed minded and have no control over their feelings. Thats the whole attraction with gemini and cancer opposites atract and its basically because you lack what he has to offer and vice versa. The arguements and confusion stems from you not being sympathetic to him on an emotional level cuz geminis are all intellact and forget our feelings and forget that others feel too? He has to learn to open up and just learn to trust people and he wont trust you if you dont earn it and it takes time and patience miss Gemini? Cancer is defiately husband material boop if hes boreing you its cuz he doesnt trust you yet to show his soft under belly which he hides behind that crusty cranky hard quiet exterior but its a facade best believe hes fun but in a conservative light hearted way. Not dangerous,irresponsable reckless fun geminis love so much? Best believe in life God gives is what we need not want and geminis want lively exiteing fun filled partners who are honestly not good for us and too much fun pays no bills but a nice home loveing security focused cancer will believe that and he will take care of your children. Hes a keeper just make him feel secure be patient with him and watch what happens.

i have a crush on a cancer guy im “16″ i find him realy sweet and considrate sometimes i get the feeling that he tries to show me that he likes me .. but when i think of it all over again i feel all his actions where something he normally does since he is sweet ..! lol he rly confuses me =\

I’m a Cancer male. I dated a Gemini woman some time ago. It was like a big storm of passion for both of us. In the end we broke things off pretty badly. I’ve never taken anyone back after the fact, but I would take her back in a second. We just didn’t talk enough. We both realized this later, and that love we had was still definitely there. We still love each other. We both understood what happened, we just didn’t talk enough, plain and simple. Our love was definitely not superficial this is a fact. Gemini women just have to talk to the Cancer men, and trust them. It’s our nature to become a little jealous and yearn attention to show us you care. Also Cancer men have to let go of our need be totally consumed by our urge to be the only thing in their life. We have to relax. They love us, they are just pursuing ideas, or maybe even a career. After all, do you want them to just stay home all the time and never work. What kind of relationship is that? Gemini women, please just understand that us cancer men are just moody sometimes. Just give us some attention sometime, and never think you can’t talk us. Cancer men, you just gotta get over that feeling that she’s cheating. Just relax, don’t let that consume your thoughts or you’ll push her away. It’s the worst thing you can do. We are confusing to ourselves, and oversensitive at times. We have patience, so please have patience with us. Meekah, you are totally 100% right!!! Teach us, please. We have to learn in that respect. It took me time to learn that.

I’m a gemini woman, 23, and I have a son with a cancerian man, 35. We felt a strong atraction to each other from the very beginning, sex has never been so perfect. But, the problem is that I’m very jealous even when he stares at a girl. I’m very very loyal and never before I’ve thought on cheating. Because of my jealousy I have broken with him many times. In revenge I dated two guys with whom I had sex. One was a leo man and the other was a cancer. But I broke up with both of them. After that, my son’s father asked me to go out again, we got married. But I always tend to sexually fantasize with other colleages. E

I have been madly in love with a cancer man. We were friends for awhile and decided to become more. We meshed well! Our conversations were great and sex was passionate. Unfortunately, he was a liar and needed many women. I know the truth and he still lies. He’s a player and I still loved him. We are okay now…we communicate and have occasional sex because it’s so good. I’m am growing further apart mentally and being a Gemini, once that’s gone, everything else is too. I just can’t understand why he lie so much, but that’s his problem. If he was mature, we would be so great.

He does sometime act like a female because he is so sensitive and I can be sort of blunt.

Every last word written here is so true. I have been with my cancer man for 17years and this explains our relationship completely. So much that is written explains us perfect I cant even pick what does the most, I would be writing the whole thing over. This is great, and I am glad to finally see a positive post about gemini/cancer. They really are great together, once they both learn to be patience with each other this relationship is 10/10 for sure. I think the best match for a gemini woman is a cancer man. This is a relationship where u really have to give it time, stick with it and u will learn each other well and have so much fun, romantic, flirting, and love together. Its like your always 2 teenagers in love even after many years. A cancer man is great for a gemini woman

Im a cancer man she was a Gemini woman 3 years my junior. The relationship lasted 5 years.
I tried to break up so many times but it was her that clung on to me obsessively so. Hacked my facebook and hotmail account and read all my emails. Created a false female facebook account and tried to seduce me to see if I would take the bait. She played endless games, cheated and was a pathological liar. I am completely open and honest and she wasn’t real enough for me. When she created the false facebook account I rang her and told her a girl was coming on to me, but my honesty didnt even inspire her to tell me the truth that it was really her. I was always faithful to her physically even though I longed to move on for a long time.
Even though I have moved on and she done a lot of bad things, I still think about her, maybe just because we were together so long.
The sex was disconected loveless and superficial, which is why I wanted to break up because if she was going to make the sex superficial because she was too insecure to connect, the least I could do was be attracted to her.
I got with her because I liked her personality but she was inconsistent maybe because she was young.
Thanks for the information on the site, really helpful, I’ll keep on the lookout for my Leo lady. Still 25 ladies ;P

Dude, I was in your shoes once. I dated a Gemini girl 4 years and she displayed all the same charecteristics your Gemini lady did. She lied, she played games (hacked my fb & myspace/tried to seduce me online as well), she cheated (twice) and she had a nasty habit for turing shit around so I was the bad guy. She was uncontralably jealouse and manipuative and yet I LOVED her. I mean adored her and she loved me too. When things where good it was like we where ment to be, when things where bad I had to restrain myself from doing something stupid. The sex was always amazing and to this day (3 years later) I still think of her, infact where still really good friends. So maybe there is potential there between both signs, it just takes alot of work…and patience.

Cancer’s are cool. But they usually get attached to me . Not the other way around . They are also very romatic but some are annoying and have child-like mood swings. They will compliment you so much , YOU WILL GET SUSPICIOUS. lol . but it’s all in good fun . As well as they are fun to be around . but they do pick up on your vibes gemini so if you want to hide something keep changing your tune to throw them off ..( all you gemini’s know what i mean,if you don’t want him to get too close .. stay a mystery by providing disractions) Never disrespect them and always be honest kind and tell the truth . They are GREAT friends to have at the end and enjoy a women deeper than a superficial level . the one im referring to was actually one of the coolest cancers I know , and was very protective but also a little cliny this sign for gemini gets a 3 out of 5 stars.

this is very encouraging to me, ia am a cancer man and tells me exactly where i have to curb my own behavior and learn to grow. i have recently made acquaintance with a Gemini woman, and we have so much in common it is uncanny, a lot of the same ideas, interests, and such. i read her vibes very well over the phone, since we have been restricted to that kind of interaction due to work and busy lives, but the more i talk to her, the more i like her, and i can see a lot of potential there. she is fast becoming my number one girl in my mind, even though i still flirt with ohters here and there, but not seriously. she is different and the level of our conversations is so much deeper and intelligent. in fact you could say im really hoping this one is right. her subtle innuendo, which i always catch, but im still kind of shy to respond to, tells me she wants more than friendship, but the difficulty is i think she is surprised by my somewhat belated response. i tend to think a bit about her words and then respond the next time i talk to her, but then we pick up conversation again about an entirely different subject, and i dont mind cause i love it. i have a venus in gemini, and a mars in leo, so i tend to be attracted to gemini women and exhibit some leo traits as well. well now i get the feeling she is becoming confused by her own feelings and is somewhat apprehensive, not of me, but of the feelings, she is confused. so right now im going to back off. i told her the last thin i want is for her to be confused, and to tell me what it is i may be doing to confuse her. so hopefully she will answer some time tonight (i gave her a lot of room, didnt demand a time, just whenever) i mean after all i would want the same respect if i was busy and could not be on time, or prompt.

honestly i think she is my best shot at true happiness and marriage yet. well maybe not marriage, but life long loyalty and commitment.

I am a 32 yo Gemini woman and I have a 35 yo Cancer male friend. All we do is have sex. The sex between us is marvellous and he always wants more of it. We dont have a relationship but I really do like him alot. And I can not say that the feeling is mutual. When it comes to men and me expressing my feelings Im shy and hold my feelings inside. I have never been hurt or heartbroken but I have broken plenty of guys hearts. Im so scared to open up to him and tell him how I feel. He has no kids and he is the type of man u can bring home to mama. If anyone can help or give me advice please help me.

I am a 32 yo Gemini woman and I have a 35 yo Cancer male friend. All we do is have sex. The sex between us is marvellous and he always wants more of it. We dont have a relationship but I really do like him alot. And I can not say that the feeling is mutual. When it comes to men and me expressing my feelings Im shy and hold my feelings inside. I have never been hurt or heartbroken but I have broken plenty of guys hearts. Im so scared to open up to him and tell him how I feel. He has no kids and he is the type of man u can bring home to mama. If anyone can help or give me advice please help me.

well miss gemini, if you want it to work, tell him how you feel. let him know exactly how much you adore him. show him. put it on the line. but keep your guard up. i know as a cancer male, that i can often give the impression im not serious, but that is usually if the relationship was built off of sex in the first place. its hard to grow that way. if its built off of friendship and turns into sex and love then there is something there to sustain it when sex is not appropriate or timely.

maybe you will get lucky and he will admit he feels the same way, or maybe he was hurt and is not ready for emotional entanglements. if he is not ready, then he could back off. there are always risks involved in love, and i dont know all the details, but being honest will more than likely ease his fears and allow him to express feelings that mirror your own. if not then he will move on, and i advise you let him, and dont make him feel like he is rejected or it will get messy. you already know how to satiate your desires and find distraction elsewhere if you need to, if things do not work out.

i hope that helps a bit, but you can ask me more about the cancer males point of view. but that is not the only thing there is more than just our sun signs ruling our personalities and this can determine how well or how bad geminis and cancers interact as well.

right now im trying to keep my cool so i dont lose the interest of the gem lady i want. there are a lot of factors involved, and usually i run by now, but for some reason my instinct is telling me to stand still, be strong, and wait out all the other idiots as the last one standing. i usually have a strong exterior, but meeting her has thrown me into a place where i cant really identify everything i feel.

i have left her some messages, and some emails, and some of them i never sent. but finally i had to admit to her the truth. that i was really into her, and i wanted to be near her.

i also would like to add that sometimes it just takes a little growing up before this pair works. a great example of cancer Gemini compatibility is in the 60 minute interview of Hume Cronyn and Jessica Tandy, a cancer male and Gemini female pair. in it they played a practical joke about their relationship. Hume got real serious and said “you know this is something we have not talked about yet, but we have been talking about it and we are going through the process of separation, you see she has her eye on another fella and well, i want to play the field, you know, while im still vertical” at which point Jessica busts out laughing and Hume admits “you dont know how long we have been dying to do that to you guys!” they were together for 44 years until Jessica died. now if that’s not something special i dont know what is.

ok update. she finally texts me back. this time she responded with hello. so i ask how she been. she says ok, how you been, so i say, hey you cant use that question thats mine. then i tell her she must be scared to talk. no response. so i say, guess i was right, went from calling me every day and asking me what i was doing to nothing either that or your not telling me the whole truth (as in fine) or think you got me figured out (as in bored). she says shes not scared, and im still cool with her. so i say you think so? you have not got on my bad side, yet lol.

and that was that. nothing else.

now why i am confused is because im afraid i missed an opportunity. a week ago when there was a small window of opportunity, i might have been able to talk to her face to face instead of just on the phone, which probably would have ramped things up very fast in the passion department. in fact i think she was trying to push me that direction, but got frustrated when i did not take the bait. so she backed off. now shes seems somewhat cold or indifferent. i have not told her that i see potential for a long term relationship because the physical has not even come into play yet. its just been talk, and then silence without any explanation.

just “oh i was thinking”

and then “we are still cool (as in dont worry)”

is this something i should be open to later? maybe the timing is off? should i expect her to come racing back at some random time in the future? will this ever get off the ground?

based off of our conversation, it is something i would love to explore, maybe even develop into something that lasts. but im not good at playing the waiting game, and im getting too old for sillyness.

what do i do. she completely has my mind, and im getting anxious wishing she was next to me.

i am a 26yr old gemini woman and was dating a cancer guy who was 2yrs younger then me… well we dated for 4months and spent my birthday together but he did not take me out or buy me a gift which really bothered me but i couldnt bring my self to tell him so i distanced my self from him…. now since da last time we spoke i was very cold and gave him point blunk answers since then i havent heard from him at all and i am not the type to call or text unless he’ll do it first… so its being a month now and iv being doing my own thing but i cant help missing him and find my self thinkin about him alot which confuses me a i dont understand my feeling towards him… because his sensitivity would annoy me and his moody way would really get me angry he was really bypola with his mood swings but i miss him!!! i dont understand why he didnt make the effort for my birthday it really upset me…. are cancer men tight arses with their money or something?? do they have to told things constently??

i really need advice from a cancer man to let me know how they are… because he’ll would say he’ll do any thing for me and that he really liked me and im the only girl he likes we would spent every weekend together and and during the week also… he always ask me if he could see me and went i didn’t see him he’ll message me to tell me he missed me so im thinking if you really like a girl wouldn’t you fight for her i don’t mean physically but he hasn’t and its being a month and nothing from him..

maybe he has financial problems right now, and he is afraid to admit it, then when he is expected to deliver on a birthday gift or something he doesn’t know what to do.

now he probably will not text first, unless he starts to miss you very much. what i would do if you really miss him is text him and ask him to call you.

its not that he had to be told constantly, but he didnt know how to respond. sometimes we overthink things instead of acting on what we know. not always, but if we are in a tight spot we do.

with you and this guy, you have to let him know you didnt mean to stomp all over his heart, since he did not have the money to give you what he wanted to, he tried to compensate by spending quality time with you, and he got stomped. so if you want to repair things, tell him you are sorry and give him a chance to make it up to you. maybe soon he will have something for you that would make uo for the birthday gift you never got, or the date you didn’t go on.

what i have learned from reading about cancer/gemini relationships is that you girls can be fickle, sometimes you want to be bothered, and sometimes you dont, but when you do want to be bothered and there is tesnion or confusion, you girls dont tell us, you want us to know we should call you or text you.

so what i do is just text when i have something genuine from my heart, not too much, and not too little. i let her know im not expecting her to reply right away, and i dont tell her any demands, i tell her how i feel about things and that’s all. i try to keep it happy and sweet, but i also tell exactly whats on my mind when the time is right. and sometimes that is not really pleasant. so i have to balance it out.

if any relationship is the most rewarding it is this match, if both people can figure out how best to balance it.

im not out of the woods yet, but im still trying, and im hoping this gem lady will really appreciate that.

i also thought of something else lucy, maybe he has moved on. maybe he was so confused himself and insecure, that he found someone else who was willing to talk to him when you blew him off. if too much time goes by, and we cancer men lose faith in a relationship, we can sometimes find another lady to fulfill our needs. its best that you just identify your feelings, and let them go for now. who knows, maybe in the future there might be a chance, if both of you are mature enough, but then again, it might not be what is best for you. maybe this particular cancer male is not right for you. another one might be, depending on his level of maturity, but this guy seems to have enough problems right now, and a relationship is probably the last thing he needs.

thank you joe really appreciate advice and taking the time to respond to my question i think its time to move on i also think he probably found someone else who can emotionally satify him because i can be emotionally detached…. i hope all goes great with u and your gemini lady wish u all the best

well thank you, so far so good. she has expressed her desire to hang out and meet somewhere. we talked about interests and activities, and other things, and she also let me know in a round about way she thought i was cute. even had a strange dream about me, so im liking the results of being patient. maybe that is something the cancer guy you were talking to did not have developed enough yet. maybe his anxiety won out over his ability to persevere. i know you gem girls just want someone around who will be there, and not point fingers. trust is a big thing, and im doing my damndest to make sure i build that solid trust before trying to go any further. if she is talking to other guys, she doesn’t give me any indication of it, and is pretty straight forward about why she does certain things. now can she get bored? yes, pretty easily, but i recognize her need to be stimulated intellectually, and if something grabs her curiosity, and its not me, then it probably is not another guy, its something she wants to find out for herself.

right now just from the simple fact she calls me at bedtime, and when she wakes up, is enough for me. if she was talking to other guys or had a male friend that was over, then she probably would not be bold enough to juggle like that.

now does she always call me back when she says she will? not always, gemini’s can have trouble keeping a schedule. will she eventually call back? of course. she always does. in fact even when i dont expect it. but thats kind of a nice surprise for me. im always glad to hear her voice, and tell stories, and joke around. the conversation is fast paced, never boring, no loss for words, but it gives me a sense of ease, unlike the heavy belabored conversations i have had with other girls in signs im supposed to be compatible with.

so for right now, we are both learning to open up, to trust, and to build something meaningful.

like i said i hope it pays off, shes a wonderful woman, and i see a lot of value in her that i cant find anywhere else. in my eyes, shes the perfect match, so far.

I happened to come across this website while trying to understand why i love my ex cancer man so much. Needless to say I’m a gemini female. We dated for 3 1/2 years and hoped to one day be his wife. That didnt happen as i discovered 3 years into the relationship that he was cheating. What i do know about cancer men is the need to feel secure and loved….or they will cheat! as a gemini woman i worked hard at being home more and molding myself into what he was needing, all the while losing myself and my self-worth. It has been 3 years since our break-up and yet i still love this man. I just cant seem to get him out of my mind! Some one please offer some advice!!!!!

I’m seventeen and in a relationship with a cancer man. Its been two months. Three weeks into our relationship he called it off, told me he wasn’t following his heart. I cried a bit, then the next day when me and my girlfriends were going out to the movies guy hunting, he calls me and tells me what a big mistake he made and that he couldn’t stop thinking about me. He asked me for forgiveness. But i couldn’t be mad and took him back. He tells me a lot of what he feels. He is very emotional, but none stop tells me how beautiful i am and how he wants to hold me and never let me go. It’s a bit annoying but i cant stop thinking about him and vice versa. He gets attached quickly. Now moving into three months he’s very physical, which i like but too much hand holding, ask me where i’m at and who I am with. Tells me he will always protect me. But he is always there for me when I need him. Been friends three years….hope this last long then my other relationships.

Cancer men can mostly likely be a good friend then a husband for a Gemini women , don’t expect to much of roller coaster ride like dating a gemini man , every gemini women gemini men they have love and hate relationship that keeps making gemini women coming back for more , and hate it at the same time . With cancer men you can expect loads of security , he will put the effort , same time can bore you , but he will keep reminding you how good a person he is to you and for you. You looking for security and stability , choose cancer , which may lack fun but worth it for security .

I happened to come across this website while trying to understand why i love my ex cancer man so much. Needless to say I’m a gemini female. We dated for 3 1/2 years and hoped to one day be his wife. That didnt happen as i discovered 3 years into the relationship that he was cheating. What i do know about cancer men is the need to feel secure and loved….or they will cheat! as a gemini woman i worked hard at being home more and molding myself into what he was needing, all the while losing myself and my self-worth. It has been 3 years since our break-up and yet i still love this man. I just cant seem to get him out of my mind! Some one please offer some advice!!!!!

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You just need to meet a new guy and Fantastic sex , you will be able to get your ex of your mind , remind yourself of the hurt he has cost you. You know it for yourself you deserve better , you just lonely now , that you keep missing what you had .

I Honestly can say that Ifell in love with my cancer man in a week! i def believe in love at firsr sight ! He is the best to me and our daughter ! Yes he is overly controlling and very jealous over me , but i love it . . . what man do you know that would be like that ??? none ! I am glad he is like that it shows that he doesnt want to loose me . . which is always a plus , Sometimes we have our fusses that are small but tend to make a big deal out of it. . yes i am a gemini and love to laugh and have fun with him but no when to get serious as well . The only thing i do not like is he doesntopen up to me enough as i would like him too ! But we have real strong connection mentally , emotionally etc.

And the only bad thing about mycancer man he BLOCKED FACEBOOK from me and accused me of cheating for nothing ! just because and old guy friend messaged me and asked how our daughter was ! I didnt even respond to it and i still get accused of cheating ! then he unblocked it so i could tell my couzin happy birthday and got a message saying he cheated on me by one of his ex girl friends best friend . . . What should i believe ? ? He says that he blocked fb is because its to over rated and he doesnt want to loose me over fb ! Then he says that He aint never cheated or gets mad everytime i ask him but my heart says he has , but something else tells me he wouldnt . . he comes home to me every night i even have his work schedual we are always together if he aint workin and not only that he is always loving on me . . . i havent caught him cheating i just a confused gemini women right now not knowing what to believe ! ):

Hello, I would like to have some cancer man’s suggestion~
I am a Gemini woman and had broken up with my ex who is cancer man. We were together for 3 years and almost 1 year since separate.
The main reason we broke up was because he wasn’t sure what is missing, since his married buddies told him “you just know if she is the right girl to get marry”. Well, besides this “just know” we loved and cared for each other, even up till today.

The day we broke up, we decide to stay good friends cause we do love and care for each other; and lately he has been telling me that he felt confused lately. I wasn’t sure did he mean he is confused his love for me or he is confused if he sees me only as friend and nothing else more.

What should I do? Should I give him more time to think? I felt it’s real hard to find a good partner, who I find mentally & physically attractive. Beyond this, he is the only person I ever felt so close with, whom I could share all my thoughts and feelings with. I still remember the days when we were together, how anxious I was to see him, how much smile on my face whenever I looked at him, all these feelings just kills me cause we aren’t together anymore.