Wait a minute. . .you lament a few posts ago that men marry a pair of boobies and a vagina but now you say a woman marries a man's occupation?

(say it ain't true - that these young hotties are after this doctor's salary and stability?)

Could we be making honest progress here in realizing that love and marriage exceed 2 soul mates engaging in endless, interesting conversation?

That money and sex have a lot to do with the Price of Tea in China?

I mean if that were the case, that it were all about endless, interesting, deep conversation, it would be one big Group Marriage here at TAM.

With me as the Head of the Family of course.

Big Daddy. Papa.

That's me.

Chicken said what?

There are soul mates and we do have endless interesting conversations that end up changing the world for the better and constantly having mind blowing realizations throughout life while enjoying mind blowing sex.

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There are really hot 20 something women who will marry a man for his occupation and who will always enjoy each physical aspect of this man as many times as he wants or needs and they will do it any way he wants because they are so grateful and obsessed with his manhood.

Two fantasies I suppose. In reality marriage, love and life is always work.

Scanner you can come to our TAM convention but you've got to wear a t-shirt that says, "I make smart, old women want to vomit but I make hot, young women scream with joy"

And since you're a doctor you have to pay for all of us to fly to the convention, first class.

My husband's friends can be out of line like that anytime they want. Yep.

You want really out of line? Same guy for some reason misheard that we were in the process of separation. He sent me a message on FB that said "Sorry things aren't working out. As soon as you separate, call me. I want to make sure I am first in line to date you". That was last week. WTH? AWKWARD.

You want really out of line? Same guy for some reason misheard that we were in the process of separation. He sent me a message on FB that said "Sorry things aren't working out. As soon as you separate, call me. I want to make sure I am first in line to date you". That was last week. WTH? AWKWARD.

You want really out of line? Same guy for some reason misheard that we were in the process of separation. He sent me a message on FB that said "Sorry things aren't working out. As soon as you separate, call me. I want to make sure I am first in line to date you". That was last week. WTH? AWKWARD.

Oh please ... You loved it.

And if you do tell hubby, just make it clear that your already starting a man-ho posse if things don't pan out.

There are soul mates and we do have endless interesting conversations that end up changing the world for the better and constantly having mind blowing realizations throughout life while enjoying mind blowing sex.

&

There are really hot 20 something women who will marry a man for his occupation and who will always enjoy each physical aspect of this man as many times as he wants or needs and they will do it any way he wants because they are so grateful and obsessed with his manhood.

Two fantasies I suppose. In reality marriage, love and life is always work.

Scanner you can come to our TAM convention but you've got to wear a t-shirt that says, "I make smart, old women want to vomit but I make hot, young women scream with joy"

And since you're a doctor you have to pay for all of us to fly to the convention, first class.

Yes, yes Trenton. A 20 something woman marries a 40 something man because of true love. Career and money be damned.
A 40 something man who marries a 20 something woman for her looks is just as shallow as the woman who marries for "stability". Both can go away in a New York minute. Take a look at all the IB's on Wall Street who lost their wives shortly after the economy tanked. Take a look at every woman over the age of 35 here in Texas who was married because she was a trophy wife and tossed aside for somebody younger.
If you marry because of age or money, you are doomed. Hubbie and I have problems but we didn't marry for either of those reasons, so at least we can look at our relationship with honesty and say it was for love. OR the fact that I got pregnant.

Having I think drifted pretty much off topic. . .let me just conclude, since I admit I don't have the stamina for exchanging these witty barbs that I think amanda will find love, happiness, and fulfillment as a good-looking 50 year old.

I won't say it will come easily but as you say, Trenton, love and marriage are hard work. If she's up for the task and goes out to find love vs. waiting for love to find her, she will find it.

And if you do tell hubby, just make it clear that your already starting a man-ho posse if things don't pan out.

NO, it WAS really awkward. Flattering, yes. Weird, beyond yes. We have known him for 9 years and see him at school functions. Not part of my husband's "core" group of friends but still, he is a friend of ours.
Now, to be really honest, he does have a charisma more than anybody I have ever known. THAT part is attractive. If I could take his charm and confidence and stuff it in to my husband, well, I wouldn't be here.

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