I had the luck to meet this wonderful lifestyle domme once for drinks.

Glamorous, Alpha, Kinky. A bohemian free spirit and the personification of the playful but dangerous Femme Fatale.

If you are imagining me to be a stereotypical Mistress, a cold sadistic Bitch who only wants to hurt and humiliate you, think again. BDSM is only a fraction of my repertoire. I have many moods and in My sessions I can be sensual, erotic, and playful as often as I can be mean and sadistic. Yes, I demand to be in charge and you will surrender and do as I say. But time spent with me is playtime and as much as I am a Dominatrix I’m also a Fetish Actress specialising in role play, A Goddess who wants be worshipped and a Therapist who derives satisfaction helping you accept your desires are not shameful.

My style is smooth, sensual, sophisticated and playful. My sessions feel intimate and connected. I enjoy looking deep into your eyes, penetrating your soul as I invade your mind and take charge of your body. Lots and lots of tease and denial. Low or no music so you can hear my voice whispering filth into your ear, urging you to go further for me as I coach you to become sluttier, to be as shameless as possible. Let your mind go where it wants to. You only regret the things you don’t do. Set yourself free. Make your Mistress proud.

As a (semi-)professional blogger for an interesting niche like the Femdom C/community, one sometimes has to find a reason to post an article, just because the laptop carries for days a picture. This picture –

The site is alive again, nice! If this continues, I will come back regularly and perhaps more, see below. The site is sweltering, for me, it invites me to show myself (little by little). Let me introduce myself.

I am a divorced woman of 42 years, no children, and in daily life, I’m self-employed in the communications industry. Ever since I can remember I have dominant feelings. My earliest memory, heart Dutch Bible Belt – can you imagine? – is as a toddler; horse-playing with a ten or eleven y/o neighbor boy. I can tell you, that was far from innocent! What I remember is that I regularly ordered him to drop on all fours, mounted his back and clenched the poor sod as hard as I could between my legs. And he actually rode. All the way until I got a (sort of?) orgasm. Then I let him be, but the rest of the day he used to follow me – like a puppy – sort of begging to do it again. Can you imagine, five or six years older than I!

In subsequent relationships of course I have experimented, but a truly D/s relationship, it never came. Only with the rise of the internet (surfing until dawn, with screen-eyes to meetings) I came to understand that these feelings of mine were not unique and that there is actually a whole world to it. Your world.

After that discovery I was once in a club and twice I’ve visited VSSM evenings (thé Dutch BDSM society), but both times were disappointing. My feelings remained though; sometimes quite vague, when I had a vanilla relationship with a man I truly loved; sometimes ‘unbearable’ fierce, as somewhere on your site is beautiful stated.
The last three years I could order this young boy (who’s age was hardly enough to vote *blush*) whenever it suited me. Unfortunately, because of his studies he moved to the other side of the country. However, he set me thinking with his remark: “You could be a paid Mistress you know,” because it is very bad in my usual work.

Now I wondered: can I, if I indeed make the choice to become a Prodomme, occasionally post something to promote my new business? I’m curious about your answer, until I sign,

With ‘strict’ wishes,
(call me) Lilith, named after the woman who was there before the Biblical Eve

PS – I have a selfi ‘included so you get an idea.”
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Postscript editorial

Dear Lilith, what do you think yourself? If you can write like this ánd you looks are like the picture, then you will immediately enter the ranks of our top Mistresses. Frenzied mail! Hence we have it (though a bit shortened) 1on1 posted. Keep us informed, and perhaps any future customers of yours dare already show themselves below :) Hope to hear and see more of you soon! Richie66

One glance at her site is not enough. For starters, you should have a fast internet connection. Or you do have to wait a bit. Content and form merge without boundaries. That what she has to share is that what you experience, it goes way past reading or seeing. And the form she presents has utterly been taken care of; every detail fits your expectations without you knowing what to expect in advance. Hers is how personal websites look like in ten to twenty years time.

Ms.Nikita is born as an intersex male. Here is what she wrote about it, and here is Klapjes Media’s view about intersexuality. She opened her site at April 5th last year to share her transitional times & thoughts on step by step getting a female body. Is this in itself interesting enough for many, this Woman in mind and begetting in body is also health-aware, vegan, open-minded, respectful to life and an allround IT-user. In 50 to 100 years time everyone has to adapt to this, otherwise there is not enough livable planet to feed our grandchildren and provide them a sanative life. Ms.Nikita is truly a person to follow.