2012年7月13日星期五

As human, the main reason we study on the human sex positions is only for baby conception. Today, I want to stand in the prospective of evolution to have a look at the animals’ sex positions. First, we have to know how many sex positions animals have on the earth. One is rear entry (doggie style), the other is face to face.

1, Rear entry

In this position, male have the penetration into vagina behind the female. It is also called doggie style, because animals mostly have sex in this position as same as dog. Of course rear entry has lots of variation, such as the standing canine, spooning, the cuissade, and so on, but the core of these positions is penetration from the back of female. According to the people who hold the theory of penis envy, this position is good for stroking female G-spot, because penetration is quite deep in this position. I really have to admit that this position indeed offers a deep penetration during sex, but unfortunately the G-spot never exist.With the skin gone, what can the hair adhere to?

2, Face to face

In this position, male penetrates female face to face. If you have ever seen other animals mating, you know that face to face position is pretty much unique to humans, so far we only find two animals who do the sex face to face: Bonobo and Chimpanzee, undoubtedly they are the closest relatives to humans we have found. Missionary position is the most popular in human, and it offers the deepest penetration thereby allowing semen to easily enter the cervix. Of course missionary position also has lots of variation, such as the lap dancing, the female superior position, the scissors position, and so on, but the core of these positions is penetrating female face to face.

Do you ever think why almost animals, except human, only have the rear entry sex position? Why face to face position only happens during human, bonobo and chimpanzee? What is the difference between the two positions in evolution? What makes face to face happened on human, but not on other animals? Is face to face sex position the result of human evolution?

Here I try to explain these questions step by step.

First, if earth’s entire history was just 24 hours long,

Life on Earth (app. 3.8 Ga)4:10 AM

Metazoans (1.2 Ga?)17:44 PM

Chordates (565 Ma)21:03 PM

Land dwelling plants (475 Ma)21:31 PM

Land dwelling animals21:46 PM

Reptiles(340 Ma)22:13 PM

Dinosaurs (235 Ma)22:46 PM

Mammals (225 Ma)22:49 PM

Common ape-human ancestor (7 Ma)23:57 PM

Homo sapiens (165.000)23:59:56,9 PM

Oldest civilizations (3.500)23:59:59,9 PM

Industrial revolution (250)23:59:59,999 ?

From the history of evolution, undoubtedly the face to face sex position occurs far behind rear entry sex position, because sex reproduction occurs in 18:08 PM, but human occurs in 11:58:43 PM. So we can claim that rear entry really has a long history than face to face, and it also means face to face is really the result of evolution.

Second, I think one of the reasons why face to face happens on human is that people want to see and communicate with each other during sex process, at least one side wants. It illustrates that other animals don’t have the desire to see the partner during the sex. Why? Sex also ends as male ejaculation, what makes the difference between human and animals? I think the only reason is that the purposes they have sex is different. The purpose animals have sex is just for reproduction, so male only have sex with female during the estrus, maybe once a year or twice a year. In general, they mates only during female estrus. Look back to our human. Man nearly want to have sex with a woman all the time, whatever she is in estrus or not, whatever she is in fertility age or menopause age. Apparently, we can claim that human have sex not only for the reproduction, but also for some other purpose, maybe for pleasure or self sex desire. In modern time, I think reproduction is only a by-product for a man to have sex.

Third, what makes human have the other purpose to have a sex rather than reproduction different from other animals? I think the answer is evolution, not only physical evolution, but also psychology evolution. In physical evolution, human is the only animals who always walk upright, and scientists think the first mammal that walked upright was the ape-like australopithecines - believed by scientists to be an ancestor of early humans – which lived about five million years ago in Africa. Walking upright significantly frees up the hands to carry objects, also creates the physical conditions for face-to-face mating. But only physical evolution is not enough in short history of human. In psychology evolution, self-awareness shows up. Frankly speaking, I am not an idealist, but I really agree with some points of Descartes. Human need more than basic physical needs which only in the first floor during Maslow’s hierarchy of needs. Undoubtedly, the self-awareness of human is the strongest among all animals, then human are going to pursue the other four needs, like safety needs, social needs, esteem needs, self-actualization. Do you notice that: the higher up in the model of Maslow, the more words “Self” he used, such as self-esteem in forth floor, self-actualization top floor, and of course, self-awareness makes humans so significant difference from others. I don’t mean that self-awareness can exist without brain, but the form of its existing is really different from substance, for example, if people got drunk, they were unconscious, but the brain still there. Self-awareness is going to start make human to have a clear perception ofinternal and external things, including personality, thoughts, beliefs, motivation, and emotions, so human began to a real evolution in comparison with other animals. As human grow in self-awareness, we will understand who we are and what we want and why we want it. So men found that they were more willing to enjoy thespecial pleasure during sex, not only for the original purpose: reproduction, as a species. I can claim that the phenomenon of human having sex all the time is the product of development of human self-awareness, precisely to say, just man self-awareness.

Finally, sex positions evolved. Because chimpanzee females are highly promiscuous, some scientists thought chimpanzee females are more likely to achieve orgasm by mating sequentially with multiple males. This is big mistake. The main reason I think chimpanzee females can’t achieve orgasm is just because they mate with multiple males sequentially. If they really have an orgasm, they must have the refractory period right after orgasm, and can’t get into another mating. As a woman, I have to admit that the evolutions of man and woman are not synchronous, apparently, the evolution of female, in many areas, lagged behind male. As men, they have already walked out the trap of reproduction, but women are still trapped in the cave. Evolution is always moving forward. Human and our closest relatives are already evolved far forward than other animals, and the most significant sign is the appearance of face to face sex position, because only in this position, female have a chance to stimulate the clitoris shaft by accident, and then women's self-consciousness can be awakened. Women will know that sooner or later the true meaning of sex is “genital rubbing”, the problem is that male genital is penis, but female genital is clitoris shaft, not vagina.

Many times history is unfair, especially in the reproduction of species. Even we can say that the reproduction is so selfish and cruel, not only can it sacrifice the interests of other species, and also even can sacrifice some group of their own species. Fortunately, evolution is still moving forward, we are only on the middle way of long evolutionary history. Human have lots of things waiting to be changed, human females have more. It is really time for women to get out the trap of reproduction.

2012年7月10日星期二

Recently, I found that so-called female multiple orgasms and communism have lots of things in common. So far, no one believes what I said that female multiple orgasms is bullshit, and women never have the ability to get multiple orgasms, and the pleasure women experienced mistaken for female multiple orgasms is just a series of urinary incontinence. Frankly speaking, women in my eyes are as same as the people in North Korea in the West eyes, and women drop into the trap of reproduction as same as people in North Korea can’t walk out of the great deception of communism. Female multiple orgasms is a beautiful lie as same as communism. Let me explain to you one by one. It is very interesting.

Thomas Sowell divided people into two camps (according to the Positive Psychology in Harvard open course) Constrained vision and Unconstrained vision. The Fundamental difference of the two views is whether human nature was born selfish or selfless.

Constrained vision is based on man is inherently and irredeemably selfish. Human nature can not be changed, it is immutable, and we have certain instincts. What you were born with, as species, is all we have. The flaws that we are out there are inevitable, they can’t be changed. We need to accept them for what they are, that is only thing we can do with these flaws. Francis Bacon said “nature to be commanded must be obeyed”, whether it is physical nature, or human nature. People who have the constrained vision think our instincts, our inclinations, our basic nature is immutable, and then what they do rather than resign, they channel it. Generally people on constrained view are people politically, not always, but usually people who would support capitalism. Let’s channel imperfect, perhaps flawed human nature toward the good.

Unconstrained vision relies heavily on the belief that human nature is essentially good, it can be improved, can be changed. It is up to us to do so, it is perfectible. We don’t need to accept these flaws as inevitable. People who are more on the unconstrained vision would tend toward utopianism or communism. Because let’s change the human nature, self-interest is not good, it hurts in the long term and therefore we need to change it.

In my opinion, I think human nature is fixed as same as Tal, and we have inclination, we have certain instincts that are there, and we have been formed either God-given or evolutionary given for millions of years that we have been formed. They are not going to change any time soon. It is fixed, we have to accept them whether good or ill. All we can do after we accept this nature, is to first understand it through research, and the after we understand it, make the best of it.

What is communism? I use my words to explain: Every property belongs to all citizens, nothing is private. Communist Party really depicts an ideal and wonderful society as same as the fantasy that man and woman can achieve orgasms together at the same time. There is a big question in my mind: The Communist Party is led by the proletariat, and what does proletariat mean? Just as its name implies, proletariat are the people who don’t have any property, so they only need to obtain resources to change their situation through revolution. Proletarians don’t want society to be stable, the only one thing they want do is revolution, revolution, revolution. On the contrary, property owners want society to be stable, because they have assets, they do not want society to be unrest and revolution. As proletarians, they have nothing, and how do they lead people to the Communism, it is like many female professors who claim that she is sexual expert, counseling or sexual educator, but in fact, they have never experienced a real female orgasm, how do they educate other women to get a real orgasm? Finally, the only result is misleading, misleading, continue to mislead people. There is only a shameless lie left: There is an area called G-spot in vagina, as long as the sex movement lasts enough, man can help woman to get multiple G-spot orgasms. It is as same as Communist Party said to the citizens “As long as we stick to the socialist road, we will be able to achieve the ideal, wonderful and perfect communist society.” Kim rules North Korea with autocracy under the guise of Communist as same as man rules woman’s body with sex autocracy under the guise of that women only can get multiple orgasms through the G-spot in vagina. The poor women, as same as the stupid North Korean people, still live in this great deception.

Human nature is selfish, whether it is on wealth, power, or sex, it is fixed, we have to accept them. The only thing we can do is to establish a good system, which not only can develop the good and positive side in human nature, but also can contain the bad and negative side in human nature. I think it is very difficult to change the situation based on external factors, whatever in social change or sexuality change, and the only one thing we have to rely on is to wake up people’ self-awareness.

Montesquieu said “Political liberty in a citizen is that peace of mind that comes from the opinion each person has of his safety, and to have this liberty, the government must be such that a citizen can not afraid of another.”

We have the permission to be human, normal human, not only in freedom, democracy, but also in human rights. Women deserve to know the facts about female orgasm, and don’t be deceived or fool anymore.

2012年7月9日星期一

July 4 is Independence Day in the United States, I want to write something to celebrate this festival, but because of my poor language and short history knowledge, I only write something about my own opinion. Nowadays, U.S. military switches its focus to western Pacific, and a total of 22 countries joined this military exercises, but without China. There is no doubt, in Southeast Asia all countries which have a dispute with China, without exception, jumped into the embrace of the United States. In fact, the behavior and actions of these countries all depend on the attitude of the U.S., I have to ask what factors on earth determine the attitude of the United States? What does the United States really care about?

1,the United States

Although American economy, military, culture, politics, are not perfect individually, it is by far the best in the world. But America needs to understand that the biggest weapon today is not military, but culture. Although America only has less than 300 years history, it doesn’t mean American culture is not advanced, because history does not always bring people positive effect, and a lot of people in many countries which have thousands-year history are kidnapped by the decadent culture, but American don’t have the long spiritual shackles at all. That is the key why the United States has a strong and advanced culture, but in some other long history countries, Classes are very significantly, and the social system is a top-down, and people have to learn to obey their superiors since born, and women have low status in society, they only have to rely on men to survive. Why? Because they live under the old rules, decadent culture. This is the most important reason why I don’t agree with David Buss's theory. His theory only can apply to human being in the past, but not apply to the future.

There is no doubt that the U.S. is very generous to their allies, and this point is the biggest difference from Soviet Union. I think that is key point why so many countries tried to forge an alliance with United States, but what should America choose? First, America should keep the eyes open and figure out who is a trustworthy friend and who only wants to use United States to get the private purpose. Of course, every country has its own purpose, but America should have to know it very clearly and make the right choice between the Democracy and Pro-Americanism, and don’t make the result as an anti-American dictator falls, and another pro-American dictator stands up. The alliance is an art, not only do you need to know what exactly you want, but also know the other wants, you need to think very carefully about it. Second, don’t easily go to war, but war must be won. The United States must learn from the lessons of the Korean and Vietnam wars, the less developed countries, the more invincible. Last, the foundation of the U.S. is human rights and democracy. America should wake up the stupid people’s self-awareness in authoritarian states and let people around the world to know that the enemies of the United States is only authoritarian governments and dictators, not the ordinary people, and try to make them understand the American culture, human rights, and polity, and try best to inspire their pursuit of equality and freedom in the minds. It is very important to let people know you are here to liberate you, not to invade you.

2, European Union

First, no doubt, in the anti-dictatorship and democratic process, the European is the largest partner for the United States. The biggest crisis the EU faces now is sovereign-debt crisis. In this problem, Britain, France and Germany as leaders in Europe must give a hand to other countries, because if the proletariat comes to power, Europe is facing the risk of being communization. British should not stay out, you should understand the English Channel can't stop the long-range missiles. So work together to survive the economic difficulties. Second, accept the countries from the east of European especial independence from USSR. A people stands in front of two doors, which is leading to Heaven, which one is leading to Hell, if the door to Heaven is closed in advance before he chooses, there is no choice left and he only chooses the Hell. If I were Polish, I would hate the Soviet Union more than Germany, because of the Katyn massacre. “With the Germans we run the risk of losing our liberty, and with the Russians we will lose our soul.” Finally, since the Europe was involved into the World War I and II, the Europeans seem to be disgusted with war, but I hope the Europeans would remember the mistake of Policy of appeasement during the World War II. You must put your eyes on the long-term benefits, not only immediate interests, and European Union must take the responsibility especially on the issue of North Africa and Middle East. As long as Europe is united, it can contain Russia's action in the Far East maximally, after all, the fundamental interest of Russia is always in Eastern Europe.

3, Russia

Russia, I have to mention the Soviet Union which is already disintegrated in 1991. There is no doubt that Russia is also a Kratocracy country. Putin is a political strongman as same as Stalin. In his eyes, country's interests rank above the people’s lives, so Beslan massacre happened. Storming, of course, is not the root cause of this tragedy, but it is truly the direct cause. Vladimir Putin: if those people were your families, you may sacrifice them, but they were not. You are not qualified to hold more than 1,300 lives of innocent civilians as the cost to destroy the Chechen. Putin exaggerated the national honor too much, but disregarded the lives of ordinary people. He did not understand the meaning of a country, the significance of a country existence is to protect the life and property safety of national people, if your people are dead, what is useful to have this country? I’ like to ask those people who voted for Putin, if you or your son or your daughter is the one of the 1300 individuals, do you agree storming disregarding of your son life? I really hope today Russia is not going to go back to Stalin's Soviet totalitarian model again.

Warsaw Treaty Organization, led by the Russia, apparently went from Eastern Europe to Asia, because Russia obviously feels that Europe would not go with him, and Africa is too far to his reach, and it is under the control of Britain and France, and of course, Russia don’t want to make two enemies during one time in the west and the east line. So Asia is Russia's important interests particularly the Middle East, Central Asia and the Far East areas.

4，China

China, no doubt, is the most embarrassing country now in a very passive position, and 22 countries have the military exercise in the Western Pacific, even including Russia a so-called strategic partner to China, but without China. First, Chinese government must have a clear understanding of this situation very well, and all the shameless acts of betraying allies in the history of Soviet Union. You only can get into the Hell, if you follow him. The biggest difference between United States and Soviet Union is that United States treats his allies as friends, and Soviet Union treats his allies as slaves. Second, Chinese people must reflect that China was the victor in the World War II, Japan was the loser who is the only country suffered by atomic bomb attack on the earth, but 60 years after, what exactly make so difference between them? We were the United States' greatest ally in Asia, who made us lost our friend? Why Japan would quickly rise after the war? As both yellows, why is the gap so much? Who caused today's status of Chinese people? Shouldn't Chinese look at the servility of own bodies?

5, People's self-awareness

I hope if you live in authoritarian states, you should think what exactly do you want, what is most important to you, why are you alive? You should look back at the history to see how difference democratic state and totalitarian country deal with the enemy. The Marshall Plan: because of the Soviets Blockade of Berlin in 1948. Over 4,000 tons of supplies per day were required by the Berlin population during the airlift. To achieve this, the United States Air Force, Royal Air Force and other Commonwealth nations flew over provision of supplies to West Germany, 200,000 flights providing 13,000 tons of food daily to Berlin in an operation lasting almost a year. You can use a little math, one day has 1440 minutes, there is almost an aircraft taking off and landing during every 2.5 minutes. Katyn Massacre: both as the Slavic peoples, what did Soviet Union do to Poland? If a country takes a high-handed policy to national people and ignore the lives of their citizens, and takes slaughter to foreign countries in order to expand, as a person, will you support him? I will not. I hope everyone can choose the right side. Maybe the next step is Hell.

As individuals, we are so small in the history of human being, but we should think what we can get from history? Due to World War I and World War II, women came out for work from the kitchen, and after the war, it is impossible to make women to get into kitchen again, so the war make feminism rise in Europe. Any dictator is not willing to exit the stage of history. Truth is the child of time, you can deceive everyone in a moment, and you can also deceive some people forever, but you can not deceive all people forever. God bless every innocent people.