I love to hear her moan and love to hear "oh yes baby" and things like that. And I like to hear her give me instruction if I'm not hitting the right notes, although she's shy about doing so. As for the decibel level, I prefer soft to moderate. During sex, for some reason, I like it louder.

Oh yes! The louder the better! Unless we need to be discreet for some reason... like a son who won't leave the house often enough.

Isn't it interesting how circumstance will change how much noise you make and then you can almost get "in the habit" of being quiet? I remember never making a peep growing up because I was masturbating or playing around at home, or a friend's home. Then I had close houses and lots of neighbors that could hear everything when I finally wasn't living with others. Now, however, I have my own home and plenty of privacy and I have turned into a sreaming mimi, lol! Well, not real screams, but I moan and make all kinds of noise. I used to be able to control it, but don't even bother and wouldn't you know it, now I have trouble being quiet! It's like there is no stuffing the genie back in the bottle, lol!

And I can totally relate to the sounds causing a climax, too! When I hear a particularly quiet partner making noise and then it escalates, I know he's beyond being able to stifle it and that sends me over every time! It's such a turn on when a partner loses control, especially when they are very in control most of the time! But I agree with Ron Lee, no matter who my partner is, complete silence reads as indifference to me on some level. And it's especially true for going down on a person because it's so hard to read them with no sounds.

Do you like them to really show their appreciation, or be more discreet?

Personally it depends on the situation for me. I kind of get off on her being as quiet as she can be when we are trying to be secretive. Like if I'm going down on her at a friends house in the bathroom or something I love seeing her try to be quiet as I am pleasuring her. I think that she gets off on having to be quiet or getting caught. Now if its at our own house I am like get loud! claw my back!

Personally it depends on the situation for me. I kind of get off on her being as quiet as she can be when we are trying to be secretive. Like if I'm going down on her at a friends house in the bathroom or something I love seeing her try to be
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Personally it depends on the situation for me. I kind of get off on her being as quiet as she can be when we are trying to be secretive. Like if I'm going down on her at a friends house in the bathroom or something I love seeing her try to be quiet as I am pleasuring her. I think that she gets off on having to be quiet or getting caught. Now if its at our own house I am like get loud! claw my back!

Truthfully.... The legs tell the tale....

What does that mean? Making noise and moaning is one thing but when you can make a girls legs shake as shes getting closer to having an orgasm you know shes enjoying it. So either way noise doesen't mean too much to me. When you see her shake that's worth 1000 moans!

Especially when shes trying NOT to make a noise and her legs are shaking while you are going down on her!

What does that mean? Making noise and moaning is one thing but when you can make a girls legs shake as shes getting closer to having an orgasm you know shes enjoying it. So either way noise
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Truthfully.... The legs tell the tale....

What does that mean? Making noise and moaning is one thing but when you can make a girls legs shake as shes getting closer to having an orgasm you know shes enjoying it. So either way noise doesen't mean too much to me. When you see her shake that's worth 1000 moans!

Especially when shes trying NOT to make a noise and her legs are shaking while you are going down on her!

Good point about the legs! I don't know if it's true for most women or not, but mine shake like crazy sometimes, especially when receiving oral or really intense, pinpoint clitoral stimulation.