How to Have Phone Sex (Yup, Phone Sex)

Experts swear it's hotter to leave a little to the imagination—which is why this old-school move still feels naughty as hell. Whether you're in an LDR, traveling for work, or just want to try something new, here's how to have phone sex that'll leave your man hanging on your every word.

Gauge His Interest

Gauge His Interest

We'd bet our next paycheck that your guy will be completely psyched to get frisky over the phone, but testing the waters still can't hurt. Sexologist Yvonne Fulbright, PhD, author of The Better Sex Guide to Extraordinary Lovemaking suggests bringing it up during a casual conversation by saying something like, "I think it could be kind of fun to try phone sex while I'm in Houston next week. What do you think?" If the mood strikes while you're already on the phone, tell him, "I've been thinking about being with you all day," or "Hearing your voice makes me wish I could feel you inside me," and see how he responds.

Go in With a Game Plan

Go in With a Game Plan

Having a general storyline in mind can help you avoid Yikes, what do I say now? moments. Don't be afraid to plot out what you'll say and rehearse it beforehand. "Just keep it loose, so that he can interject and take the lead if he wants," Fulbright says.