Nollywood Actress Tonto Dikeh took her time to explain the issues relating to her marriage:

God settled me with Oladunni Churchill.
Pure Joy. But the God of all
grace, who hath called us unto his eternal glory by Christ Jesus, after
that ye have suffered a while, make you perfect, stablish, strengthen,
settle you…1 Peter 5:10.

My finding love again...

Ladies
Don’t let no man sap all of your energy and love when he obviously have
nothing to offer you asides from good sex. I’ve been there, done that
and trust me, I ran away.

Catch flights don’t catch feelings? So tell me, what is your reason for being? The purpose of your
existence?
The same reasons why many of us are here in the first place… I don’t
mean to kill the Boss attitudes, but I work with bosses all the time.
You have to be able to find a balance. Yes we all have an economic
reality, But No, money can’t love you. Be happy at every opportunity,
never repress your love for the sake of trying to make enough money.”

What
is enough? Can you feed your self? Do you have a bed to sleep in at
night? Yet you want a bigger bed, forgetting that you could be looking
for someone to share it with. Don't miss out on a family just for money…

Don’t
turn into a bitter and cynical person because you were in love once and
it didn’t work out… Yes, you invest emotional energy into your partner,
but you will always have more energy…. You have a lot of Love to Give.
Energy can’t be destroyed so you can’t say it was wasted. Your partner
cheated on you… Doesn’t mean all humans are cheats. My ex was a cheat, a
prolific internet LovePeddler and a fake but that didn’t stop me from
loving even harder the next time… You have to be in it to win it.
Building breakable barriers will leave you lonely. Loneliness would
leave you Sad. If you don’t allow people to get close to you then yes
you might not hurt, but you will never Feel. Feelings are just visitors,
let them come and go. So catch feelings and flights, but don’t forget
love, because that is what all humans need. Don’t let modern trends
change your mindset in Cynical ways… Living a life without love, is not
living at all.

Most annoying is when the woman have to be bread winner and still receive nothing but the manhood.

A good dick never built a house or paid the rent; a hardworking, dedicated, supportive man does.

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