Safe, Sane and Consensual are the three keywords that define proper BDSM conduct. Safe refers to the means one should take to avoid risks during BDSM play, like using a safeword. Sane refers to the approach one should have while participating in BDSM activities – namely being reasonable and realistic. Consensual refers to the fact that all participants must agree as to what goes on during a scene.

Fetish is an extreme desire for certain behaviors or particular objects, materials or body parts. A person with a fetish will often be drawn to the object or behavior of their desire and will be excited or aroused by being close to it or touching it. Fetish comes in all

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A Bullwhip is a type of whip with a single tail usually made out of braided leather. Bullwhips were originally farmers’ tools and were used on livestock (hence the name). The bullwhip’s handle is short and rigid. Having the handle covered in the leather braiding that makes the body of

A jokey way to differentiate between pain that is part of consensual play and is designed to trigger arousal (good pain), and pain that is beyond the limits of consensual play and it not arousing in the least (bad pain).

Anal Sex refers to sexual penetration of the anus. Anal sex usually requires some form of lubrication, or otherwise some training. Though there is usually no risk of pregnancy in anal sex, there is still the risk of sexually transmitted diseases, and therefore the same rules of safe sex apply.

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