Former video vixen turned actress Lisa Raye has taken a vow of celibacy after a slew of failed relationships. “I’m in a new place. I’ve tried everything but celibacy, and I really want to know what it feels like to be touched by someone with a mental touch and not a physical touch,” she told Cocoafab.com.

The “Player’s Club” sex symbol touched on how men are intimidated by her image: “When men meet me, they’re in awe of the image. I’m so turned off by that. Automatically I’m like, ‘Boy move.’ You know what I mean?”

Lisa intendeds to make men work harder for her goodies as she should.

“I want to know what it is to build the foundation of the friendship for real, to have my best friend and not because we’re just [physically] intimate, but because we’re mentally intimate. So I’m waiting for that person to come into my life.”