On many levels, having our first child together brought us closer together. Watching my hubby play with and read to our daughter brings me such joy, and I know he adores witnessing our bond, too. But when it comes to the day-to-day, I’d be lying if I said we don’t bicker about baby stuff, just a bit. It started when I was pregnant, but wow, did the sticking points pick up once she got here. Now that we’re rounding in on the one-year marker, things have gotten both better and messier. I love the man like crazy, but we do dedicate at least a little time each week to bickering about these top 21 things:

1. Infant poop colors: What do they mean? What can we glean? Does any of this really matter or does the parent of the moment just need some sleep?

2. Whose turn it is to walk the dog.

3. Why the Boppy pillow is mine — he likes to use it as a neck pillow; I prefer to have it handy for feedings and cuddles.

4. How to wash pacifiers.

5. What type of school she’ll attend and when she’ll start — yes, it’s a little early for that.

6. Piles of dirty laundry — who’s responsible, who’s offended, and who’s going to pick it all up and wash it.

Jenny is a bridal, lifestyle, family blogger (Born to Be a Bride) from New York. After working in beauty editorial for WSJ magazine, she transitioned to freelance writing. She and her husband Josh currently live in New Jersey with their daughters Willow and Marigold. Jenny might have (temporarily) ditched the heels and highlights in favor of the leggings and tees of new-momhood, but she's never been happier. Follow her frequent Starbucks runs, hair bow obsession, and daily blog updates via Instagram, Pinterest, and Facebook.