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My Boyfriend And My Friend Are Getting Too Close

My boyfriend seems to be spending too much time talking to my friend. Should I say something to her or him? I don't know what to do. Help, please.

Quinn

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Dear Quinn,

If your boyfriend has not given you reason to worry he may be falling for your friend, don't make too big of a deal out of this. If you constantly question your boyfriend or drive him crazy acting like you don't trust him, you may drive him to do exactly what you are hoping he doesn't do.

Focus on your relationship and try to make it the best it can be, then he will have no reason to look elsewhere. This doesn’t mean you need to change who you are. It means be yourself and stop worrying about all the what-ifs.