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In my opinion you married this man thinking that marriage life will be like the fairy tail movies you watched in Disney channel, unfortunately life isn't like that sweet heart, unless your in your honey moon.

I think that instead of feeling unhappy because your not getting enough attention you should focus yourself on your new born, read books, prepare yourself for it, The fact that your man changed it doesn't mean that he doesn't love you, he does! but keep in mind that he also needs to provide for you and for the new born and sometimes that can be difficult.

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but why marriage life can't be more romantic ? I don't watch disney channel, but normal romantic movies, and I don't understand what's the problem to make life like this?

the child may have a normal life with two parents but kids know when their parents don't love each other... I work with I work with child whose parents stay together just cause of what you said ... they have insecurities

That's true a true fact, I read once that children tend to grow happy when both parents have a happy marriage, so if your sacrificing yourself to stay with him for your kid better think twice because arguments will come along in the future and when there is no love there is no respect, so arguments are more intense

yes, maybe you are right, I believe it's true . But my parents were divorced , and I can't say my chidhood was the best one, my dad left my mom when I was 5 and then had new family, I felt jealous because of his new kids , and my dream was to make my parents together - that's why I didn't want it to happen to my kid. And also I love my husband - that's the 2 reason I don't want leave .