ARC: Adopting Grace
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mom, possess a great deal of power to either add or subtract pain and suffering to the journeys of my children. If I choose to “otherize” my own child, I have then decided to cause them pain and suffering. I choose a different path. I commit to loving each of my children well, no matter what comes. I was playing cards with one of my sons and shared my story of the store clerk encounter. His response was, “Mothers should rule the world.” In many ways, we do. If we wear garments of grace, then a compassionate and kind kingdom will come. So if there is a people group that makes me squirm or I just don’t understand, the challenge is to live a life that will cross paths with such individuals. Sometimes they show up in random daily interactions. Other times they move in next door or are present in my own family. If I open my ears and heart to form relationship, there is always much to learn. It truly is so very often who I know. Reflection Dear Formerly “Other,” I am sorry. I am willing to soften my heart, put aside judgment, and see you as fully human, just like me. I am ready to listen to your voice and 148