What Women Notice When Meeting Men

Most men in nightclubs are just regular guys, according to women, but some men are classy. How do women define a man with class? Class is like a rainbow. Women don't know exactly how to define it, but they know it when they see it. A man with class has an aura about him. He carries himself in a way that just commands women's attention.

A man with class does everything with style. He is not ostentatious, however. He doesn't have to turn on his class. He is as interested in other people as he is in himself. He is able to humble himself. Most importantly, he treats all women with respect.

A man will remember four things after meeting a woman in a club or bar:

1- If he danced with her2- If he kissed her3- If he got her telephone number 4- If he had sex with her the night he met her

A woman will remember these same things as well after meeting a man. Women, however, also remember the following:

1- His initial approach2- What he was wearing3- If he was wearing cologne4- His choice of beverage5- If he was a gentleman6- If and how he interacted with other men and women7- If he made her laugh

good looks aren't everything

The belief that women only notice the most handsome or well-built men in a club is a myth. Men who dress to impress, are outgoing and friendly with others, and display a sense of humor are the ones who have the competitive edge, according to women who responded to my survey. This makes a lot of sense when you think about it.

Since clothes usually cover about 95% of a man's body, it is only reasonable to expect women to notice what you wear. As well, men who interact with other men and women don't seem desperate. Women follow and respond to their emotions. Laughter incites the emotion of joy, and women love to laugh. Keep that in mind the next time you find yourself in the company of ladies.

Based on random interviews, anecdotes, his Internet survey, and of course, first-hand experience, Rodney Battles' book, Night Games , reveals the secrets, truths, and unwritten laws for attracting, approaching and meeting women — where traditional rules do not apply.