Not necessarily true. My old boss was completely obsessed with make sure you could always see fresh vacuum lines in her carpet and wiped everything stainless steel down several times each evening to keep it shiny. We literally went to her for all cleaning advice because her house was spot-less at all times. Her personal life on the other hand - hot ass mess. She always came to us for advice on the craziest stuff and was always upset about something going on at work, with her boyfriend, with her daughter, her parents and on and on. She was always very organized at home, in her car and on her desk but everything else was crazy.

Not necessarily true. My old boss was completely obsessed with make sure you could always see fresh vacuum lines in her carpet and wiped everything stainless steel down several times each evening to keep it shiny. We literally went to her for all cleaning advice because her house was spot-less at all times. Her personal life on the other hand - hot ass mess. She always came to us for advice on the craziest stuff and was always upset about something going on at work, with her boyfriend, with her daughter, her parents and on and on. She was always very organized at home, in her car and on her desk but everything else was crazy.

That's because the only thing she was able to control in her life was how to keep things neat but felt hopeless in fixing her own life.

can't say that it does, but i always say that one thing people who are otherwise in chaos can do is clean up their external environment/appearance. sometimes you don't have control over much but you have control over that. small win.

Not necessarily true. My old boss was completely obsessed with make sure you could always see fresh vacuum lines in her carpet and wiped everything stainless steel down several times each evening to keep it shiny. We literally went to her for all cleaning advice because her house was spot-less at all times. Her personal life on the other hand - hot ass mess. She always came to us for advice on the craziest stuff and was always upset about something going on at work, with her boyfriend, with her daughter, her parents and on and on. She was always very organized at home, in her car and on her desk but everything else was crazy.

That's because the only thing she was able to control in her life was how to keep things neat but felt hopeless in fixing her own life.

Yes exactly. Cleaning and organizing was a lifelong coping thing for her. She had a crazy childhood.

Not necessarily true. My old boss was completely obsessed with make sure you could always see fresh vacuum lines in her carpet and wiped everything stainless steel down several times each evening to keep it shiny. We literally went to her for all cleaning advice because her house was spot-less at all times. Her personal life on the other hand - hot ass mess. She always came to us for advice on the craziest stuff and was always upset about something going on at work, with her boyfriend, with her daughter, her parents and on and on. She was always very organized at home, in her car and on her desk but everything else was crazy.

You always hear this exception, but never the person with a dirty ass house, sh*t everywhere and personal life/mind all together.

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