😱😳 I mean, there are the standard “country” burlap/mason jars/wild flowers/cowboy boots/twinkle lights/hay bales/chalkboards/Pinterest hurled everywhere weddings. Do that. Make your gown and bridesmaids dresses out of cotton like every good country bride. Go barefoot. Pose on a tractor/horse/with goats/your inbred…

The one thing I didn’t like when I was watching it is that inevitably the bride who threw the most expensive, most bridal-industrial complex wedding always wins. The winning dress was always the strapless white gown, etc.

I’m not sure how much wealth Cheryl herself actually has? She burned down her ancestral mansion and is living in the carriage house, basically, I think. I don’t know how much her mom still controls (although she kicked mom out of the actual living space.)

I started a business facebook page off of my regular page just for giggles and to investigate its behavior. turns out every time I make a post from it, facebook tells me that if I payed 40 bucks they can make sure ‘up to’ 3500 (or was that 35000? prob not) people saw it.

Social media has created a “cult of the amateur” (quoting the book of the same name which got panned in the Tech industry because a lot of “amateurs” didn’t like it. An amateur in this context is a person with no actual experience, degree, internship, and so on garnering tons of attention on social media. People…

This is the response I was expecting. You’re not going to get a disagreement out of me on why I don’t want THOSE FOLKS to know our lingo, trust me. I’m not with seeing anymore White or other folks keep mining Black material without paying homage.

I think the internet alone is proof enough that many nuances in Black culture need to be explained because just being Black aint enough to know details. My family wasn’t even established in this country until the 1950s, and as American as I am, there’s plenty of stuff I do not know as a Black American or a Caribbean…