It’s an interesting fact that girls thinks and believe that relationship is the physiological and basic needs in our life…Well I mean relationship, I am talking about Boy and girl relationship..I learnt about Maslow’s hierarchy of needs when I was studying Human Resource..Most people thinks that it is a theory..But it is not a theory but a fact..Why would I say so…You may wonder..

Maslow’s hierarchy of needs talks about the needs of humans..The hierarchy suggests that people are motivated to fulfill basic needs before moving on to other needs..

Maslow’s hierarchy of needs is most often displayed as a pyramid. The lowest levels of the pyramid are made up of the most basic needs, while the more complex needs are located at the top of the pyramid. Needs at the bottom of the pyramid are basic physical requirements including the need for food, water, sleep and warmth. Once these lower-level needs have been met, people can move on to the next level of needs, which are for safety and security.As people progress up the pyramid, needs become increasingly psychological and social. Soon, the need for love, friendship and intimacy become important. Further up the pyramid, the need for personal esteem and feelings of accomplishment take priority.

There are five different levels in Maslow’s hierarchy of needs:

Physiological Needs
These include the most basic needs that are vital to survival, such as the need for water, air, food and sleep. Maslow believed that these needs are the most basic and instinctive needs in the hierarchy because all needs become secondary until these physiological needs are met.

Security Needs
These include needs for safety and security. Security needs are important for survival, but they are not as demanding as the physiological needs. Examples of security needs include a desire for steady employment, health insurance, safe neighborhoods and shelter from the environment.

Social Needs
These include needs for belonging, love and affection. Maslow considered these needs to be less basic than physiological and security needs. Relationships such as friendships, romantic attachments and families help fulfill this need for companionship and acceptance, as does involvement in social, community or religious groups

Esteem Needs
After the first three needs have been satisfied, esteem needs becomes increasingly important. These include the need for things that reflect on self-esteem, personal worth, social recognition and accomplishment.

Self-actualizing Needs
This is the highest level of Maslow’s hierarchy of needs. People at this level are self-aware, concerned with personal growth, less concerned with the opinions of others and interested fulfilling their potential.

Each and every humans need the first basic needs which is air,sleep,food,shelter, warmth and water. Even animals needs that let alone talk about humans. If we humans can’t even fulfill the basic needs of the 1st level which is the Physiological needs. We won’t never ever be able to move on to the next level.Once this need is satisfied then one will be able to move onto the next level,the security needs which is protection from elements, security, order, law, limits, stability.Further on, once the security needs is accomplished,humans beings would move onto the love and belonging needs which consist of work group, family, affection, relationships.Followed by the esteem needs which are mainly self-esteem,personal worth,social recognition. Last but not least, self-actualizing needs talks about people being self-aware and being less concerned about opinions of others and interested in fulfilling their potential.

It’s a fact that humans need the 1st basic needs, If we are to survive without it,we won’t be alive walking on this earth. Not only humans,animals too need the basic needs.Only by achieving and satisfying the first basic needs,then we would be able to move onto the next needs. How can one survive without sleeping or eating..Englighten me please if you are able to do that..Relationship is for sure not the physiological and basic needs as what most people think. In fact it is the third level of Maslow’s needs. Maslow does not states that saying relationship is a basic needs. Think can you survive on relationship in order for you to live…No?

Every girls want a guy to love her but that does not mean you can simply just jump on the wagon when some guy proclaim that he like you. What’s the reason behind for it? Think and ponder carefully? Is it because of money or sexual needs? Or simply because he love you? Girls, you don’t need a guy to make you happy. All you need is yourself to make yourself happy. You are the only one and the very one to make yourself happy and filled with joy. You don’t need some guy to love you in order to make you happy. That is totally wrong! In fact very wrong! Don’t assume you love him because he love you according to what he said.You don’t need to search for the right one or should I say you don’t need to search for a guy. He will appear when it’s time. The more you search, the more wrong one you meet into. It’s only when you stop searching and lead your life, that is when he turns up. As I mentioned before, you are who you are and the other party should love you for who you are. But not love you because they just want to satisfy their sexual needs. So girls, stop wanting prince charming coming riding in a white horse. Don’t bother to go around searching for prince charming. He will appear when time is right. You will attract guys when you are beautiful within yourself inside out…Relationships is not the basic and physiological needs.

Don’t pin your hopes on guys. I don’t deny the fact every girls want someone to love but not by being blindly in love without knowing if he is good or bad. You don’t accept the bad just because you need a life jacket that’s not the way..You are your own life jacket!

I’m sick…as in physically sick..Flu,Cough,Sore throat,Gastric.Last week was pretty bad since I cough like mad and it was really drama haha for the first time in my life which I though things only happen on drama actually happen to me which is coughing out blood. But thank god it was only once.Now it’s down to flu and cough.Gastric once in a while it likes to act up…For work,Things are ok..Busy…

Photography: I am happy with my shoots but I believe I got a way lot of room for improvement. I’m so loving him…He’s too amazing.It would be good if I got more lens…But that cost a bomb!

Love: Cindy, my love..My dear..I know you want me to write something about this topic..Very single haha! Nothing more than that..The relationship is neither here or there. Although I have to admit that person make me fall for him..That’s it..End of story…