NEED HELP!!!!!

I am ready to throw my phone along with my computer out the window! I have been through every tutorial on here I can find. None of them work to get my phone to connect to the computer. I have a V180 and windows XP. Heres what I am doing step by step.

1. Install P2k by using the found new hardware wizard.
2. Install Motorola USB Modem (USBMOT2000) using hardware wizard. (I think this may be the problem as I assume the 2000 inthe name means its not an XP driver)
3. Install MPT 1.23, then upgrade to 2.11.

Still nothing. When I check phone and Modem options, it shows the Motorola USB Modem Connected to COM3. But no programs, MOBILedit, P2KMan, or MPT will see the phone. They all say disconnected. WTF???

I got it to work once using MOBILedit, but once I restarted the computer, Windows lost the driver for some reason.

Could someone tell me exactly what I am adding when I do the add hardware? I get 2 options sometimes, Motorola USB Modem and Motorla USB Phone. I have tried installing drivers for both but still nothing.

Also, I use the P2K driver first when it says found new hardware. Then I go back and add hardware and add another device using the USBMot2000 driver? So now I would have 2 USB modems? Or am I upgrading the p2k Driver to the USBMOT2000?

Also, does it matter which COM port the phone is on? It seems to always want to go to COM 3.

I have not been able to get anythng to see my phone except a programn called MOBILEdit. I was able to edit my phonebook and copy a picture over from my computer. The only drivers I had at that point was the ones that came with MPT.

But after I shut down, it somehow lost the drivers and tried to reinstall them again. After that it did not work. I was able to get MOBILEedit to see my phone one more time btu once I restarted, again the drivers somehow disappeared.