How To Tell Your Friend About His Cheating Girlfriend

Ever got yourself in a situation when you see your friend’s girlfriend with some one else you are sure isn’t one of her friends and you suspect she might be cheating on your pal?

Not sure weather to speak about it or how to do it? These tips should help you out.

Be absolutely sure

The allegation might actually ruin their relationship even if turns out to be false, so cross check facts even if you’re sure that she, indeed, is cheating. She might just be catching up and perhaps, you just don’t know all her friends hence, you must do your research properly. Try asking her friends and your friends if they too suspect something.

Know your limitations

Even if you know she isn’t being faithful to your friend, may be, he wont like you to interfere in his life and might get upset. So if you two are not close enough, let it slide. The business between two people should ideally be between them. Who knows those guys might have talked it out already and are seeing other people on purpose?

Try talking to the female, generally

If you are pretty close to her, and are on a first name basis with her, try asking about how things are going between them. if things aren’t going well, they might as well have thought about walking away.

See if you can help bring them back together

Talking to both of them could give you a vague idea about the current nature of their relationship. So, offer your help as a third person and see if you can bring them back together. This step applies only when you are close to both and don’t want two hurt people in your group.

Confront

This, after everything else has failed. Because you know for sure that she is, indeed, cheating despite your friend’s loyalty to her. Tell your friend upfront that you suspect she is two-timing him and he should talk to her about it to sort out the matter. Don’t beat around the bush when you have made sure what is going on.
Understand that even though she is cheating and they are going through a rough patch in their relationship, they might not like it when you play the messenger. So don’t be too nosey and know when to stop asking questions because, faithful or not, everyone has a right to privacy.