Parents will always blame you.

You have shitty neighbors who ruin your life where you live? Your parents will tell you it’s all you. They want to tell you it’s all you because they want you to be some sacrificial lamb for when their own troubles are around.

Parents will never not tell you it’s not just you. To them, it’s always you. Even if you’re not the root. They’ll even support the root of the problem for the sake of your anguish.