He brought it up. I wouldn't have pressured him into it if it wasn't something he wanted to do. That's just rape-y and wrong.

Haha. Rape-y is a good word for it. On topic with this post though, I could sense that my boyfriend wanted to try it, but it took a little pushing on my part to make him see that he should validate his sexual desires. I wasn't particularly my interest, but I just wanted to be sure I wasn't accidentally denying him something he wanted, even if he felt dirty admitting it sometimes.

I've made it a point to convince every guy I've been with to let me finger them, whether they were into it or not. I have no idea why, it just happens to be something I enjoy doing, but I've run into different levels of resistance. For
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I've made it a point to convince every guy I've been with to let me finger them, whether they were into it or not. I have no idea why, it just happens to be something I enjoy doing, but I've run into different levels of resistance. For those of you who've mapped uncharted territory in your guy's butt, what did it take to get him to let you go there?

he said "mine!!!! your ass is mine, my ass is mine... no touchy my asses"

I've made it a point to convince every guy I've been with to let me finger them, whether they were into it or not. I have no idea why, it just happens to be something I enjoy doing, but I've run into different levels of resistance. For
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I've made it a point to convince every guy I've been with to let me finger them, whether they were into it or not. I have no idea why, it just happens to be something I enjoy doing, but I've run into different levels of resistance. For those of you who've mapped uncharted territory in your guy's butt, what did it take to get him to let you go there?

not only did in not resist...i insisted that she backdoor me. i'm working on how to present the idea of pegging. she's taken pretty well to the ass play to this point. baby steps. love it when she slaps my ass. ha!

I've made it a point to convince every guy I've been with to let me finger them, whether they were into it or not. I have no idea why, it just happens to be something I enjoy doing, but I've run into different levels of resistance. For
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I've made it a point to convince every guy I've been with to let me finger them, whether they were into it or not. I have no idea why, it just happens to be something I enjoy doing, but I've run into different levels of resistance. For those of you who've mapped uncharted territory in your guy's butt, what did it take to get him to let you go there?

While I was interested in it before he was, I voted that I had to convince him a little bit but really, I just gave him the information I had about it and let him then decide for himself. I would never push a sexual act on someone and convince them to do something they didn't want to do.

I don't like the way this post sounds. It sounds like you're coercing someone into something he/she doesn't want to do. I'd actually prefer if you had refrained from this post at all. It sounds manipulative and wrong. I would never do
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I don't like the way this post sounds. It sounds like you're coercing someone into something he/she doesn't want to do. I'd actually prefer if you had refrained from this post at all. It sounds manipulative and wrong. I would never do something to someone if they DID NOT WANT ME TO. This is a very abusive road to travel.

I can't imagine wanting to push someone to do something they don't want to do. It's a strange post, for sure.