We both know that if an admod contravenes the ToS they're instantly demodded. As none of them have been then they can't have been reported for it. Yet they're constantly telling the members that admods are held to a higher standard. Is this the behaviour expected of AVEN's elite?? Reference this, a...

Simple, if you are attracted to someone that's enough. I have family members who have not only dated, but married a person of a different race, and have never encountered problems. Basically all those questions are the product of bigots with pre-conceived ideas rather than people who live in the rea...

Well the psychologically disturbed weirdos and cowards who have run AVEN into the ground have temporarily suspended me for being the foremost voice attesting to what a shithole AVEN is. Do they actually think they are punishing people by suspending or banning? Like I had told you AVEN nerds so many...

Researchers would do best to ignore the sheltered mentally disturbed weirdos who dominate AVEN and their bizarro depictions of reality, their perversions of the lexicon and their constant penchant to nitpick and create classifications for every possible behavior like they were on the DSM panel. Res...

Hiya all. Speaking as one who has turned newly green on AVEN, and who interacts in several forums, can I make one comment. My contribution to JFF and Arcade, to name but two is going to reduce, simply because if I spend, say, an hour a day on admod work, that's an hour a day I can't spend on other f...

Could excessive inclusiveness be the problem? AVEN try to not refuse anyone from saying that their asexual, a laudable premise as the last thing anyone wants is to refuse to help someone who is questioning their orientation.

To me the situation is that, unlike any other orientation, a loss of sexual desire can have other causes. A simple lack of attraction can be caused by hormones, fear, trauma, mental conditions and many others. It's why I was a long time accepting asexuality, because I had to exclude pre-pubertal ons...

The difference is that David Bowie created music, clothing, films, theatre, gave the world glam rock, made Krautrock a global experience, and threw non-cis hetero behaviour into the mainstream, and redefined how to profit from his own work That's why I cried when I listened to Blackstar for the firs...

Just so everyone here who doesn't know me from there is aware of my status. I have never had sex with anyone, never wanted to, never even pulled my pud over an IRL person. So I describe myself as asexual