Troubled relationships: Help and advice

30 April 2008 (F) -
Hi, i'm 20 and was seeing a man of 47 years old who is separated with 2 children. We met at work and started seeing each other when he had problems with his wife, who he eventually separated from. For the past year we were seeing each other and got ...

30 April 2008 (F) -
I'm a 19 year old who has been harshly judged by her past. Let's see... I'm now single, I guess. My (ex) B/F left me yesterday, over an issue from my past. Not the first time he's done it. However, yesterday he broke up with me, and today he wen...

30 April 2008 (F) -
I am confused as to what to do with my boyfriend. He genuinelly acts like he cares about me and that he loves me. He says that every one is always saying that they love someone but they don't mean it, but when he says it he means it. He is marr...

30 April 2008 (F) -
I was with my boyfriend for a long over a year before we broke up. Things weren't good. When we split up, i was devestated, and rebounded almost immediately with a boyfriend, who treated me like a god. My ex and i began to get in contact again, a...

30 April 2008 (?) -
I have a problem. I know im going to get all the generic answers of your a bitch who isn't satisfied with your own life so you have to go around messing up other people's etc etc....But Im not like that. Im just a young person who has done things. ...

30 April 2008 (F) -
hey i dont live with my parents anymore but ive a huge prob with my father and its affected me my whole life. He always lived with us and hes not physically abusive or anything but he is the coldest most withdrawn person. He always expects my mother ...

30 April 2008 (F) -
I'll probably get judged as a complete slapper here (understandable)....but please give me some good advice before judgement. I know, i know....it's my own fault. I'm a student, and done temping work last summer for a great firm. I loved it, and ...

30 April 2008 (M) -
Hi my name is Kieron and up intill a month ago i was one of the happyest men youcould meet. But that all changed when my partner told me she was leaving. It all started about a 3 monthes ago i have had some problems with myself due to things in the ...

30 April 2008 (F) -
Help! I take psych medications for depression and anxiety so I dont always know if I am overreacting to something or getting being too nice and always question myself. So I am please asking for advice I am so angry and hurt! My bf of almost three ...

30 April 2008 (F) -
HI... I'm sure youi get like a million letters with the same problem as i seem to be havin, but that doesnt change the fact that it makes you feel pretty much miserable. Well.. here goes... My boyfriend and i have been together for two and a half y...

30 April 2008 (F) -
Hi im 7 months pregnant with identical twins and have a 2 year old boy aswell i have just found out tht my husbund is cheating on me. And as been doing so for around 9 months. Im heart broken and i cant look at him or touch him he makes me feel sick ...

30 April 2008 (F) -
Ok guys, if you had amazing sex after a first date after loads of talking. You sent her lots of messages saying how fantastic it was and you wanted to continue with it. But, the girl suddenly backed down a bit and said she was unsure and confu...

30 April 2008 (M) -
Here we go, me and my girlfriend have been going out for a little over a year and things were great in the beggining. But lately she has had alot to do and is always running around. one of my problems is that i get paranoid to easily and she tells ...

30 April 2008 (F) -
this is just a curious question here. Why do most girls fall for the "bad boy" lol so far i have liked 3 guys and two of them are bad. I wont get into it because i hate when folks judge, but anyways most girls who i know and are friends with much ...

30 April 2008 (F) -
ok i really need some help here, so i need as many opinions as possable, whatever your veiw. ok, i was sexually, physically and mentally abused by my brother when i was about 9 years old and he was 15. my parents worked all the hours they could for ...

30 April 2008 (F) -
I have been dating this guy who is 42. He was very, very into me, and pursued me for about 2 months. He really gained my trust, and I liked him a lot. We started having sex (three weeks ago) and virtually overnight he stopped being on time, ...

29 April 2008 (F) -
My bf is 11 years old than me i am 17 and he is 28 he gets very jelous but then he loves parading me in front of his friends. We were in a pub. I bent over to pick up a packet of crisps and he was saying to his mates "that is all mine when ever i ...

29 April 2008 (F) -
I found gay websites in my boyfriends computer, should I confront him? My bf is a people person, very friendly and outgoing. We have been dating for a year now, he is 30 years old. A couple months ago I found gay websites on his computer...

29 April 2008 (F) -
Me And my boyfriend have been dating now for 3 months an he could be facing jail soon for a crime he done wen he was drunk.Most of my family hate him but im head over heels in love with him What Should I Do???...

29 April 2008 (F) -
I've been dating a guy for a year and 7 months. We have the same interests (but not too many as to keep the relationship intersting), we talk for hours on the phone, he takes me to special places I've never been before, etc. I've hung out with his ...

29 April 2008 (M) -
I've known my girlfriend for close to 7 years but we've only been dating for 5 months. She has suffered from depression for a while now and had to move from Miami because of it. We started dating and it was like we had been together for years. Late...

29 April 2008 (F) -
hi everyone i have a question that makes me think about my relationship with my boyfriend and how long its going to last if this keeps happening. ok me and my boyfriend have been datin for almost 11months and i love him to bits but i believe that...

29 April 2008 (F) -
Last year I got involved with a man - a good friend of many of my close friends. I didn't date him for several months after I met him because he is still married. His wife was serving a 3 year jail sentence. Eventually I got to know him more, and we ...

29 April 2008 (F) -
ive been dating this guy on and off for six months, we've had our fair share of arguments and we always end it, and i always try to move on but a few days later he texts me saying sorry and i always give him another chance. This has happened a lot, ...

29 April 2008 (F) -
When my boyfriend was at college he met a girl who he became good friends with as they were in the same class, he had to draw her alot for his project as they worked together and I got really jealous of the girl as she was really beautiful, and he ...

29 April 2008 (F) -
I've been with my boyfriend for 6 months now and we really love eachother. We've been living together and cause fight most of the time over silly things. Infact the phone is the cause of everything. Each time a guy calls me whether just a friend to ...

29 April 2008 (F) -
Help. My boyfriend said he wants space i leave him alone for a few days then hes textin me sayin he loves me and all that. But then Says Ill Never Change he thinks im a complete bitch. And Doesnt want me no more. I think Somethings up co...

29 April 2008 (M) -
Me and my girlfriend have been together for three years, we are just finishing university now and shes said to me she wants a break. We got together at 18 and are both 21 now, furthermore we were best friends for a year before that. She says to ...

29 April 2008 (M) -
Everything's going a bit wrong here. My mum's new boyfriend has moved in and he's making life a real misery. He mostly ignores me, but if he does talk to me it's only to tell me to fetch a beer from the fridge. When he's been to the pub he's even ...

29 April 2008 (F) -
My boyfriend and i recently made our relationship official, but the other day he found text messages on my phone to another guy, though i didnt cheat or meet up with the other guy my boyfriend doesn't think he can trust me. He said he can't be with...

29 April 2008 (F) -
My bf is leaving for another country, which has gotten me all stressed up and I was really afraid to lose him. So I try to pressure him to give me a commitment and I think that got him very frustrated. When he did not even plan to spend his last day ...

29 April 2008 (F) -
Ok this one might be a little tough, but here I go! I been divorced for almost 5 years now. I left him becasue I wasn't ready ( I was only 19), I know yes that was wrong of me. So a week ago he moved back to his hometown, where I'm at also. We w...

29 April 2008 (F) -
This is classic . . and I know you guys here this all the time the girl who fell for the guy . . who never payed any attention blah, blah, blah, Well no SURPRISE I was that girl. I had deep feelings for a friend and I never told him he was always ...

29 April 2008 (M) -
hey to all.. Im a bit down. Yesterday i asked a question on how to ak a girl out to be my girlfriend.. Well thanks for all the advice i got from my family.. Thats now you guys!!!! Uhm i did ask her out, although i didnt the answer thati wanted but ...

29 April 2008 (F) -
Ughhh ok I am so frustrated... it honestly is an emotional roller coaster with this guy.. I talked about him earlier and I honestly thought it would be over with him- what with him not calling and all- so last night I get a call from him saying he's ...

29 April 2008 (F) -
My husband (then 32) and I (then 35) met 5 years ago when he was at a very low point in his life and had recently left his mentally and physically abusive first wife. It really was love at first sight for both of us and we have had what I thought ...

29 April 2008 (F) -
i am generally a very pesemistic person and ive been with my boyfriend now for a 19 months and i love him to pieces. he has watched me go through a really depressed anti social stage, hes always stayed around when i push him away when im stressed ...

29 April 2008 (F) -
My ex and I broke up a month ago, which I know is not a long time to let it heal, but the problem is that I don't want to move on and get over him - I want him back! When we broke up he told me it was because he needed time and space to sort ou...

29 April 2008 (F) -
I just got married a few months ago, but things are not going very well. Before marriage my husband talked to me for hours on the phone and would often come and visit me (we lived in 2 different states then). Now he barely speaks to me. We never ...

29 April 2008 (F) -
I moved in with my b/f a couple of years ago,and then recently I lost my job and now I feel very depressed and trapped. My b/f is always criticizing everything I do, always pointing out the negative instead of saying thanks for the many things I do ...

29 April 2008 (F) -
i feel like whenever i try to give my boyfriend a blowjob.. i cant live up to the other girls he's been with..considering he's my first i just always feel like im being compared... and i realzie it makes me feel insecure about myself expeciall...

29 April 2008 (F) -
My ex and I broke up about 6 months ago. We were together about two years and things ended pretty rough. Anyhow now we are both dating other people and I haven't heard from him in about a month, but I got online tonight as he asked if I would like ...

29 April 2008 (F) -
Hi everyone, i have a question that has bugging me. I love my boyfriend to death, and i'd do anything to see him happy, and that's how he is with me. We get along perfectly, and we are 110% comfortable with each other. We do almost everything toge...

28 April 2008 (M) -
My girlfriend and I have have been having the time of our lives over the past 8 months. I'm 48 and she's 45. We're both very much in love, and then last week I saw a dramatic change in her. Even in the bedroom she was cold. Something she has alwa...

28 April 2008 (F) -
ok, so i used to talk to this guy and we just recently. stopped talking. Might i add that i did not do anything wrong, he stopped talkin 2 me two be with someone else and then he called me back..but i felt like i was being used so i told him that i ...

28 April 2008 (F) -
My boyfriend seems all to ready to break off our relationship. He is fixing to go on a job and he has been cheated on several times in the past. When he goes on a job he is gone for several days or weeks at a time, I think that he is afraid that I ...

28 April 2008 (M) -
Im 21 and met this girl things were going fab. We had sex and i thought i fell in love. Then she tells me she is pregnant and im the father and also she is 15!!!!! She told me that she was 18 i still had a problem when she said 18 but i dealt with ...

28 April 2008 (F) -
Here's the thing, last week my boyfriend and I spent A LOT of time together, going places and being together and it felt good, EXCEPT for him it doesn't seem to count for anything!!!! He says he's not attracted to me (although he certainly was a ...