Bitchie Mail: I Met Trey Songz…

Stephanie wrote:
Hey Necole, I read your blog everyday and I am a huge fan. I met Trey Songz a few years ago when I was a flight attendant on my plane. At this time he had only released “Just gotta make it.” He was really nice and pleasant the whole flight and invited us (the other flight attendants and I) to a club he was performing at in Atlanta. I went and got a chance to say hi. When he asked if I had any trouble getting in, I told him they charged me $20 and I had to stand in a long line in the cold. I was surprised when he reached in his pocket and gave me my $20 back. He told me to keep in contact and you know I tried.

After about a year, I lost his contact information but Trey was performing at a club in Dallas. After performing he was in the dj booth talking to promoters. Somehow he spotted me and waived me over to the DJ booth. I asked if he remembered me (I had cut all my hair off) and he did, noticed the haircut and even remembered my name. He gave me the number to his manager, took a pic, and told me we have to stay in contact. From then on if he had a performance where I had a layover, I was there. In Detroit, Trey allowed my friends and I in the VIP booth while he took pics with fans and even poured my friends drinks. In him growing as an artist from where he was to where he is today, I am so proud of him. It is rare that celebrities care so much for fans and are humble enough to actually reach out to them. I haven’t spoken to for almost a year now but when he performed in Dallas for the Passion Pain Pleasure tour, he spotted me in the audience and said a special “whats up girl” to me.

I love that he loves his fans because he is a brilliant artist and so passionate about what he does. Trey deserves all the success he has and much more.

The blog snitching need to be cut down. By the time I meet the celebrity of my dreams he is going to say no pictures all my buissiness will end up on the blog lol…cute story tho. Trey seems very down to earth!

Just curious on whether she was supposed to be on some VIP list which meant she wasn’t supposed to wait in line…otherwise who doesn’t expect to wait in a line when going to an event and if the event is not advertised as free, shouldn’t you pay to get in???

How the hell is it “blog snitching”??
Explain that one .. because when a celeb opts in to take pictures with adoring fans it is bound to be in the public eye .. duh..

And How are THESE PEOPLE GETTING SHINE??
Oh, excuse them for actually meeting a person who they feel gave them eargasms constantly just by hearing their music..
Oh.. oh please don’t let these people dare talk about meeting celebrities who aren’t stuck up… and want to shy away from fans.

How is it bolg snitching? She don’t know if he had a GF or not. He took my number paid my way into the club……You don’t know how Trey feels about this. So stop acting like you know. I am sorry I speak for myself and I don’t follow protocol when it comes to commenting and that I have thoughts of my own. I get tired of every thing I say somebody always have to call me out. If you don’t like what I have to say skip over damn !

People still come on these boards and announce “FIRTS”…Chile, I guess.

As for this story, CONGRATS on this chick who always gets spotted by Trey! I mean out of thousands of fans at a show you got to be hitting those front rows each time to see him. Holla back at him again on your next layover and this time tell us how the sex was!!! (no hate)

Lmaoo get out of my da*n head.. I was thinking the same exact thing.As
I was reading I was like uh is she sleeping with him, you got his numb
and everything, we know how hoe-ish Trey is. I’m not saying I’m just
saying lol.

I’ve noticed people who’ve recently become aware of who Trey is, think he’s somehow changed into being this cocky person. He’s actually toned down his attitude quite a bit, because dude use to be hood, cocky as hell, and fight at the drop of hat (earlier in his career)…he’s always been a really confident and bluntly honest dude, even before all the success which just recently happened. But, that really doesn’t have anything to do with the way he treats his fans, because he’s one of the only celebs that I know of that really is dedicated to his fans and pleasing them first…and he’s always seemed to be that way. I ain’t no stan, but I know he really does cater to his fans.

I agree and disagree. Ye be became a little less cocky but he’s become over-sexed which is looking corny and a little suspect. Yea he sang about sex couple of times but back then he REALLYU use to SANG. He doesn’t do that anymore. He gets on stage and makes a fool outa himself. Wanting everyone to close their eyes while he’s moaning and then he’s fingering the air LOL i couldnt..

Yea, but that’s not what I
was speaking on. I’m speaking on the fact that many people
feel his attitude is some new found thing as a result of
his success…and I was just basically clarifying to
those newly aware of Trey, that he’s in fact toned down
his cockiness. The whole sound of his music and material
is a different issue. But, I do agree with you on that,
his music has become one note imo, and the more I listen to
his new material, the more I miss the old skool Trey
^^^^^ pictured up top…because he actually SANG back then!

I deal with a lot of celebrities…it’s my job.
Most Rude and Disrespectful: Steven Segal
Sweetest: TIE…Beyonce and Saraj Jessica Parker.
Most Charming: TIE…Lil Wayne and Mystikal
Most Handsome: BORIS KODJOE!
Biggest Diva: Of course “THE BOSS”…Diana Ross.
Funniest: TIE…Little Richard and Flavor Flav.
Most Nerve-Wrecking: Shaq
Messiest: James Brown, only because when he hugged me he left a big brown make-up spot on my cream, suede blazer.
Best Looking in Person: Of course Boris, and surpisingly Jude Law…lol.
Nicest Band: Steel Pulse
Biggest Disappointment: Halle Barry (sorry-she was probably just having a bad day…TWICE!)
Celebs I would LOVE to meet: Oprah, Obama, Prince, and of course…Nicole Bitchie.

Thanks for sharing, that was – from outside looking in – spot on. I was watching Halle Berry talking to Tyra once and I got the sense that she was not too sure of her footing in life, like she been knocked down too many times. I think she is growing into her own though.

OK WHY CANT U GUYS JUST BE HAPPY FOR THE CHICK? SHES A FAN THAT MET A CELEB SHE LIKES AND ALL YALL CAN DO IS HATE ON HER. IF U DONT LIKE TREY WHY WUD U EVEN CLICK ON A LINK THAT CLEARLY SAYS “TREY SONGZ” IN BIG ASS LETTERS? AND CHILL WITH THE GAY JOKES, ITS 2010….

Trey Songz the artist knows how to treat his fans. I had the privilege of meeting him just by chance and he was very nice and genuine. I just do not get why people can not be happy for a young black man being successful the honest way. Congratulate not hate.

Stephanie’s story may sound unbelievable but it’s probably true. I definitely believe it because there’ are chicks who can post so much more…. VIP, pictures, hugs, meetings and he also know them on a first name basis. It’s well known that Trey is good with names. Like Stephanie, these chicks have been down with Trey since day one. There’s definitely a Trey overload now but it wasn’t always this way. Many people seem to think that Trey is a new artist but Trey debutted with Chris & Neyo in 2005. The reason why he recognizes or know these fans on a first name basis is because dude could barely fill small venues & clubs. Those diehard fans were there, front row and Trey appreciates them. They supported him and showed love when there were little fans, little to no promotions, love or support from his label, before he cut the braids, got his weight up, etc…. Hell, some converse and have met his mom, brother and his ex girl. I’m sure these fans realize that with Trey’s new celebrity status, it will become difficult for him to extend these priveleges. Many admit that they’re going to miss it but they’re happy because Trey is finally where he deserves to be – on top! Hell, they contributed to him getting here. Chicks rep Songz to the fullest. Yuuup!! Leggo!

Trey is BEYOND sweet. I met him about 3 or 4 times (between his “Gotta Make It” and “Trey Day” days) and he was sweet each and every time. The very first time I met him was on my 18th birthday outside of 106 and Park, and he was rushing to go inside of the building, but he promised me a picture as soon as he came out of the building….and he did just that. When he was heading back to his car, he bypassed all the other fans, and came straight to me so I could get my picture. (still have the picture and everything

The 2nd and 3rd times I met him were no different. I agree with a comment someone made earlier. He’s actually become less arrogant, and more humble over the years. It’s like the more success he acheives he appreciates his fans that much more. So the ones who are quick to say he’s an asshole, are obviously the people who’s never had a chance to really meet him.

OR you’ve met him on a bad day…and the last time I checked he was human, and we are all entitled to our “get the fuck outtta my face” days. Famous or not.

I Use to be a Trey fan I saw him in person 1 time & he was extremely mean & cocky since than I refuse to buy his cd’s.He REALLY needs to humble himself cause fame & Looks can be taking away like a eye blink. Ugh just thinking about him makes me remember how cocky & mean / arrogant he was..JERK!

@ Necole I don’t have any Pictures, But I have a wonderful Trey story to share.
My Brother was in California on a Conference for His Job , At the time he was working For Toyota, So after a Meeting Him and his Co-Workers went to have Dinner at P.F. Changs and in walked Trey Songz , My brother knowing How Much I Looooovvvvve Trey asked him for an autograph for me, well Trey did one better and Told my Brother to call me so he could talk to me,OMG I was so done and he sang I cant help but wait to me….Necole he then called me back after the conversation and Sang on my Voicemail and I was so impressed with him as an entertainer to take the time out to talk to his Fans, I still Loooovvvve Trey he is a class act….Just wanted to share my story…Love u Necole♥

I can definitely vouch for Tremaine being a sweetie and real cool person. I just met him 2 weeks ago through a radio contest on Hot 97 in New York. We had dinner and chopped it up with him for a while and he was mad cool. I was already a fan but this solidfied that I’d remain one.

if id been front row &\or within triggaz eye sight since “just gotta make it” all the way to PPP& he b checkin 4 me @ his shows & im on his line ummn .. Oh baybee *tiny&toyavoice* im tryna smash& u lyin if you a real live songz fan& u say u not..#imjussayin
NEway tho thats a real nice story & i cnt help but wait LEGGO!!!! ..lol.

That’s nice! u can definitely tell he cares a lot about his fans and that’s great. So i’m REALLY gonna send in my pics now. I thought u wanted only recent pics but mine are from 2 or 3 yrs ago so i wasn’t sure. This is a nice lil feature Necole. thx

what the fuck is 20 dollars to trey songz. and vip tickets they give them shits away on the radio. i tell you women are so easy to impress. he’s got a permanent whenever i want to beat pass on her and her friends (because you know she’s advertising). game recognize game. oh well. va all day

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