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Do or Don't: Dating Someone Who Blabs about Your Bedroom Behavior

As you've probably heard, Jessica Simpson told Oprah she wasn’t impressed that John Mayer dished about their intimate moments. This story got me thinking: Has a guy ever revealed something about your bedroom behavior? And more importantly, did you find it insulting or flattering?

Once upon a time, I dated a boy who (I thought) cared about me a lot. But one night, his drunken buddy nudged me and winked, “Hey, heard about the whipped cream bikini. NICE!”

I was horrified. I couldn’t believe that he would share such an intimate thing with his friends.

“The more serious you are with a guy, the less you expect him to share the dirty details about your sex life,” my friend Sarah theorized. “BUT, it’s still nice to know that my husband is giving me a big thumbs up to his bros, you know? I don’t want them to think we have a bad sex life!”

So true! I finally accepted that my blabbermouth guy wasn’t necessarily dishing to be disrespectful, but because he wanted his friends to know how rad I was.

My current BF, however, is quite tight-lipped about our bedroom behavior. It's OK I guess.

“You haven’t told your friends anything?” I frowned. “Not even that I was a great kisser? Because I am, you know.”

He just laughed and patted me on the head, saying I should be careful what I wish for; once he starts gushing, he might not be able to stop!

Does your man blab about your love life? Do you find it embarrassing or are you secretly kind of proud that he’s crowing about your escapades?