me and my gf have been goin out 4 seven months, and started having sex from march onwards, since june we hav been having sex practically every day, aprt from thursdays and saturdays. My problem is that i never seem 2 cum or really hav the urge 2 cum, i mean we last 4 like 4 hours but i never seem 2 feel the urge, there maybe times wen i think i feel the urge an i keep goin but it dont seem 2 wanna come out. we apply 4play b4 we start sex because i keep ripping my foreskin if we dont, but can any 1 giv me any tips or tell my it aint appenin.

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Matt.... see a doctor. Seriously. Call tomorrow and make an appointment for a full physical, and make SURE that you speak with your doctor about these two apparent issues. 1) Your foreskin ripping. Ouch. And a good source for infection. Get it taken care of asap. 2) Inability to ejaculate. If you masturbate can you cum? Important question.

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Sir, not everyone who has sex loves each other. I know many people who swing, and many men who have been unable to reach orgasm because of their feelings of apprehension, nervousness, or even lack of attraction.

lol i know that, but i do love her alot, an i dont get bored of her lol, her personality is unique, an 2 me looks aint everything, but im not really bothered if i dont cum inside of her, but it wuld be a target 4 me.

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The foreskin tearing is not "right"..... there has to be something to be done. You don't want an infection there. And ripping and healing is going to form scar tissue, which may cause a decrease in sensitivity. You don't want that?!

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I am familiar with this foreskin issue. Yes, a good doctor can repair it....well, solve the problem anyway. Simple procedure......hurts a bit. My husband has met a few individuals who had the same issue. You'd be back to normal in a few days and it would definately help. The tearing and possible infections are really unneccessary for you to go through when it's that easily fixed. Good luck!