I really don’t know what this whole “sex in the dark” thing is about. The only time I have sex with my boyfriend in the dark is when we’re in a room with other people who are not supposed to notice! Neither of us has a perfect body, and in fact my boyfriend has a history of beeing very overweight and is still quite chubby. But I know he loves me all the more because I still wolf-whistle when he gets naked, simply because I love him and I love his body because its HIS body!