Nursery worrys

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Nursery worrys

Nik89zac

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Posted on 02-06-2011 at 9.24AM

I just put my 22 month old sOn into nursery because he is very clingy and won't go to any1 else other then me, also he can't say very much so I thought it could help there to, he has been 3 times and cries the whole time I'm away, when I pick him up he is sobbing! It has also made him worse to the point where I can't Evan wee in peace! Do I stick it out and hope he gets used to it, or take him out?? I also have second baby due in 6 weeks!!!! Help!!

I just put my 22 month old sOn into nursery because he is very clingy and won't go to any1 else other then me, also he can't say very much so I thought it could help there to, he has been 3 times and cries the whole time I'm away, when I pick him up he is sobbing! It has also made him worse to the point where I can't Evan wee in peace! Do I stick it out and hope he gets used to it, or take him out?? I also have second baby due in 6 weeks!!!! Help!!

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mel76vxz

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Posted on 02-06-2011 at 9.42AM

I would stick it out.Hard but do it now or you will be doing it when he starts school.Ive worked in a nursery and ive got 2 of my own.This is normal.Its still early days and his still getting settled in.Talk to his key worker about it and how you can settle him in.She/he should be leading him to play when you bring him in.Find a toy or activity your LO likes and take him to it when goes in.With my DD she liked role play so i would take her the role play area to play.My DS liked the farm so that was where i would take him.Also i know its hard but try not to give mix signals.This is as a key worker talking,sorry if sounds harsh.The sooner you can take him in and go the better for him and the sooner he will settle in.Aim to take him in,find him somewhere to play and go.Never say bye then return to him.It gives mixed messages.Even if his crying.Trust the key worker to step in. Also remember when you new baby arrives your LO may become unsettled going again.
We all go through it.
Its hard and i wish you the best.:hug::hug::hug:

I would stick it out.Hard but do it now or you will be doing it when he starts school.Ive worked in a nursery and ive got 2 of my own.This is normal.Its still early days and his still getting settled in.Talk to his key worker about it and how you can settle him in.She/he should be leading him to play when you bring him in.Find a toy or activity your LO likes and take him to it when goes in.With my DD she liked role play so i would take her the role play area to play.My DS liked the farm so that was where i would take him.Also i know its hard but try not to give mix signals.This is as a key worker talking,sorry if sounds harsh.The sooner you can take him in and go the better for him and the sooner he will settle in.Aim to take him in,find him somewhere to play and go.Never say bye then return to him.It gives mixed messages.Even if his crying.Trust the key worker to step in. Also remember when you new baby arrives your LO may become unsettled going again.We all go through it.Its hard and i wish you the best.:hug::hug::hug:

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Posted on 02-06-2011 at 9.46AM

have the nursery staff told u he cries all the time ?
little people r very clever at making mummy feel bad u know lol
talk to the key worker about how he is really getting on i would say stick with it a bit longer if the key worker thinks he is just needing more time to adjust

have the nursery staff told u he cries all the time ?little people r very clever at making mummy feel bad u know loltalk to the key worker about how he is really getting on i would say stick with it a bit longer if the key worker thinks he is just needing more time to adjust

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Nik89zac

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Posted on 02-06-2011 at 9.59AM

Yea the key worker said cos He can't talk yet, and I can see cos he is always in such a state when I pick him up

Yea the key worker said cos He can't talk yet, and I can see cos he is always in such a state when I pick him up

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Den54yhs

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Posted on 02-06-2011 at 10.34AM

Hi I am a nursery nurse and also a parent so I totally agree with everything Melanie said hun. So wont repeat her words! lol xxx

Hi I am a nursery nurse and also a parent so I totally agree with everything Melanie said hun. So wont repeat her words! lol xxx