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I am a huge fan of designer clothing, but this dress really doesn't do it for me. Maybe it's the model, but I just think the dress looks a bit "off". I can't describe it. I don't think it will work for an evening or a formal wedding. Maybe you should check out some of the Vera Wang cocktails if you are looking along those lines. Good luck.

Is it a night/formal wedding? You would stand out there, but if it's a day/evenning, then it'd be fine.

Answer by
Anonymous
at 3:26 PM on Aug. 25, 2009

yes, yes a cardigan for the service ( to show respect for the place of worship - if it's gonna be held at a place of worship) and to the reception leave the cardigan in the car and dance the night away.
Very cute.

I think it's okay if you wear the straps. Don't wear it strapless or with the butterfly. That is more evening, out on a date look. I'd also not wear super high heals like in the picture. Take along a sheer long scarf to put across your upper arms if you think it's too revealing.