>>17154060To paraphrase advice from another thread...>The problem is your inability to recognize your own strengths and positive attributes. You don't believe in yourself and you don't give yourself credit for your accomplishments, intelligence, etc. So you need to start doing that. Contemplative reflection.

Start by making a list of the things that you CAN DO WELL and avoid dwelling on any negatives! GL out there!

a lot of people never bohter completing or sharing a piece of work, simply because they think its not ready / good enough. and its never not ready / good enough. therefore they never get the confidence that comes with knowing they did something, and the validation from peers or even strangers on the internet.

to put it into perspective, I once decided to create new episodes of sailor moon by cutting out animations frame by frame, and re editing them, dubbing them etc. to make new stories.

The degree you got heavily relies on networking and internships. If you did not do either of those things, you can't just waltz into a job in government. You need to get an internship working with local or state government.

What are good (or at least okay) jobs for people who neither have good social skills nor any hard skills or talents, let alone discipline? I'm not particularly good at math, clumsy, a bit awkward and impolite with people I don't know, physically weak and to lethargic to learn anything useful. Additionally, I'm a night owl and seldom able to sleep before 1 or 2 AM. The only thing I'm relatively good at is writing (in my native language, at least) but since I hate journalism in my country I don't see any ways to make money out of it.

>>17153950You listed a lot of shit qualities. Instead of trying to find something that accommodates your shit qualities (spoiler: you won't find anything), you need to work on correcting those bad aspects of yourself.

If you didn't suck at maths, I would suggest going on a training course to become a croupier; people will occasionally talk to you, and you need to interact when necessary but most of the time they will focus on gambling/socialising with others.

Every single job out there requires some form of social interaction, so you need to suck it up and try your best. Over time, your social skills will improve, and you'll end up wondering why you ever worried.

My gf and I fell in love 4 years ago, but we lived 1000km away from each other. 2 years later we managed to move to an appartment, and lived together since then.

During this period, I step by step realised that she had some kind of mental disease: she gets mad for dumb stuff, she is constantly stressed out and anxious, and at the same time very intimidative and authoritative. As I am a rather submissive person, I tried to get over it, thinking that I could deal with her anxiety, because I love her.

She is not making your life any better and unfortunately for her, the dice she was given weren't the best.

She may have a psychological/emotional imbalance.

It's not her fault. Or, maybe she just wants to make your life miserable. You really need to sit down and talk to her and be honest and don't hold anything back. Speak your mind and tell her to speak hers honestly. If she gets mad, you need to leave. You tried your best. But, in the end. It's your life.

I've been with my boyfriend for little over 6 years now. Because of my body image, in average we would maybe have sex 1-2 times a week, which was a problem to him (a problem he mention to me various of times over the years) and I kind of always looked over it, hoping the problem would go away on its own (bravo me). A month ago, I found text messages, of him flirting with a girl online. I cried, bla bla bla we didn't break up because I don't want to break up over flirting. And PUFF, like something clicked in my mind - I'm a sexual person again. I want to have...Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.

Am I a bad gf if I abandon the ship on the first big problem, but on the other hand I don't want to "try" and maybe, just maybe, one day he'll be "normal" again (which he told me he can't promise me he'll be).I'm 24. I don't want to "waste" years of my life trying to make him happy again just so that he could one day say goodbye to me when he's had enough.

I know I fucked up and I'm not looking for a magical answer. But I need advice. (part 2)

>>17153526>Because of my body image, in average we would maybe have sex 1-2 times a week, which was a problem to him (a problem he mention to me various of times over the years)

He chose to stay with you and was attracted to have sex. That should have been an indicator to you that your body was fine. The fact that he talked to you about it and you brushed it off was pretty shitty on your part.

>"look what you made me do"No. He did it himself....Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.

Quick story:>Moved out of parents house.>Living by myself.>Slowly buying furniture and shit.

Anyway, my next buy will probably be a mattress, however I've been thinking that for centuries humans have slept on the hard floor and only recently we've develop the fancy matress with springs made out of virgin blood and shit so, is it worth buying an expensive mattress?

>>17153442it's worth it if the mattress is actually worth the money, and if you plan to use the same size bed for the next 5-10 years. personally I would not recommend going out and buying THE most expensive mattress. but like most things, a cheapo mattress is going to wear out way too soon. you might luck out and get one of those rare good cheap mattresses. but personally if it were me, I would go with something mid-range.

make sure you do your research and read reviews and product ratings before buying. if you...Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.

no one's going to fuck you for an extended period of time if you don't have a mattress. buy used, throw one of those water-proof matresss covers on it. will block any of the undesirable stuff from the mattress from ever coming in contact for you. or drop 800 bucks for a saatva /casper (online retailer) and get ten years of use

Long story short my gf did the big reveal on some pretty serious shit, happened when I asked her to move in with me to a new place. We were already living defacto where she lived before she met me. I want to know what I can do.

I'm 23 m and Australian. Living in Sydney and working as a security guard.

This last week has been horrifying. Everything makes her upset, I'm walking on eggshells

She recently got her provisional car licence so she has been driving my car to get around.>threatened to kill herself>refused to talk after I'd calmed her down>drove to a friend she knew from high schools place to play n64>got very high>drove home an hour laterI was out at the shops about a 5 min walk away, I got a text telling me she was gone and I said where I was. so she decides to go out again to give some drugs to her boss. >Calls back an hour later hyperventilating>got into a minor car accident, sideswiped on the back left door>said she would leave soon, I had had 2 beers at this point so I couldn't go get her>hour later she isn't homeI get pretty worried

I try to call her roughly every 5 min for an hour (22 calls)Picks up one very confrontationally asking if it's OK to call back in 5 min>I wait an hour

>she calls saying she is leaving. It's 11:30pm at this point>gets back at 12:15 (15 min journey normally)Obviously I demanded she talk to me, I was scared all day at work is have to come home to a dead gf.>no, just lashed out and told me how I was controlling her

I took the keys with me the next day.>return after work to an absolute meltdown>blubbering about how I had put her in a cage by putting stipulations on how she drives my car. >I told her it was uncomfortable to consider the risk of someone in her situation driving, explained that I had to make assumptions and act on those assumptions>I understand, but still feel like I'm in a cage.>sigh ok. Continue consoling her

>>17153426breakup with her if you're not happy. You can't fix someone, and if she has mental issues that she isn't willing to get treated, then you're only going to end up getting hurt. I watched my brother go through something similar

>>17153426She and I loved each other, it is at the 6 month mark. Older gents and ladies be kind about that, it's a long time to someone our age :)

I'm definitely not as bummed out about the abuse as I thought I might be. I had started practicing mindfulness about a year ago, and was already a chill kind of guy anyway.

But when someone you really care about like that says all of those really awful things about you it is very hard not to feel hurt, I've also said hurtful stuff back although I never...Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.

>>17153436I feel trapped by my strong feelings for her. I don't want to leave her when she is going through a hard time too.

It's just that this is something that happens every 3 months (once before) and otherwise it's a very pleasant and healthy relationship. She different flip out like this and I'm not sure what is going on with it all.

>In college>Meet amazing girl in club>Literally into all of the fun things Im into>Enjoy spending time with>Incredibly cute and sexy>Spend every day of a week together right before finals>hanging out in cafeteria>Some guy comes up to me and says he sees me with that one girl all the time>proceeds...Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.

Don't believe everything you hear and dont trust people who are biased

A guy in my group was trying to get laid in hs with a girl who's now in the same college, he spreads rumors of her being a slut and fucking guys aroundShe's sweet and okay to talk to and doesn't go around guys that much

We didn't know he was into her until she told us.He denies it but is really pissy on the subject and she hates him

>>17153399Sounds more like that guy tried to use her as an easy fuck but got rejected, so now he's spreading rumors about her for revenge. If she was really that slutty, why would she bother hanging out with you like a normal person for so long? Sluts would just lay it on heavy and want a quick fuck. Like above anon said, don't believe everything you hear.

Spend more time with this girl and get to know her better. Her character will tell you everything you need to know.

>>17153246Don't care. Orgasm is what matters. If his dick can do it, great. I doubt it can, but go for it. Oral is always the more reliable source of orgasm. If a guy can make me cum, regardless of method, I'll gladly submit to him.

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