Well ladies, most of you know I am a blogger. And well, I got a big blow tonight - if you familiar with my situation, you know it probably has to do with PJ. Here is the new blog - and while I of course tie the wives in (or else it wouldn't be here) it's still just as sad as it sounds lol.

Nice job sweetie. My ex husband was abusive and I thought when I walked out on him I was strong enough that whatever he did wouldn't bother me. That was until he moved a woman into our house not more then a week after I left. I heard around that he was cheating on me with whatever would hold still! So my advice to you "closure" is a bunch of crap! Stop holding on to what YOU planned your life was going to be with PJ. Once you stop thinking about what YOUR plans were and how those plans are never going to happen everything will fall into place. I am happily married to an amazing man (for over 10 years) with 3 beautiful children. It was PJ's lose sweetie, and your future is wide open for you to make the best of. GOOD LUCK!