2011/06/15

Pleasing Your Woman - How to Use Your Fingers to Bring a Woman to Orgasm

Learning how to please your woman with your fingers is a hot topic in many sexuality forums recently. Other than your manhood, your hands are the next best tools during lovemaking.

When a man fingers a woman correctly, the pleasure she will be getting is enough to propel her to orgasm heaven.

However, good fingering technique is more than just poking your finger in and out of her vagina. In fact, if you do it incorrectly, you will cause a lot of pain and discomfort that will turn a woman off completely.

Learning how to finger a woman well is a trick that you should master under your sleeve. Now, let me share with you some tips to give a good fingering experience to a woman:

Tip One: Trim your fingernails and wash your hands before inserting your fingers into her vagina. Long fingernails can cut her and cause pain. For hygiene purposes, it is also better to keep your fingernails short.

Tip Two: Start off slowly. Don't get overly excited from the beginning. Start lightly, get her in the mood and slowly increase the pace of your strokes.

Tip Three: Use a lubricant. Lubricant makes the whole process smoother and thus more pleasurable for her.

Tip Four: Look for the g-spot. Insert your index finger into her vagina with your palm facing upward. Your aim is to try to reach her belly button with your finger. While you are going deep inside her, make a "come here" motion with your finger and try to feel for a rough bump at the front wall of her vagina. That is the g-spot.

Tip Five: Stimulate the g-spot. Once you have located the g-spot, press hard on it. Rub it and observe her response. Ask her how she feels and whether she wants you to go faster.

Tip Six: Follow her movement. If you are going things correctly, she should be thrusting and moving her hips. Try to time the motion of your fingers with her thrusts. Take note that incorrect timing will result in a loss of orgasm. You should feel her tighten up as well as moan as she nears orgasm. Go for the finishing line!

Hope that you have gathered some ideas on how to finger a woman and give her an orgasm.

However, knowing how to finger a woman well is not enough if you want to please her in bed. You need to last at least 2 minutes during intercourse if you want to satisfy her sexually. Are you lasting long enough?

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