D. Ph.
.Men are motivated and
empowered when they feel
needed…
Women are motivated and
empowered when they feel
cherished.
Men are from Mars. Women are from
Venus –John Gray.

When a
MAN
LOVES A
WOMEN?
Men are from Mars. Ph.D. Women are from
Venus –John Gray.
.

and
I don’t care if you lose. his body lit on
fire.
Womenrelationship
are from
successful
is for
partners
to win. As he watched
the
Venusians for the first time of
his life he began to care
someone other than himself.)
But this attitudes becomes
harmful in adult relationship.D.A man falling In love with a
women is similar to what took
place when the first Martian
discovered the Venusians.
From just one glimpse his life
had new meaning.
Ph. have a win/lose
philosophy.
.
Venus –John both
Gray.
Martians.(I want to win.
Men
The secret of forming a
are from Mars.
When he had discovered
the Venusians.

”
“Instead of blaming his female partner.
he expresses his best self.”
“Given the opportunity to prove his potential. trusted and accepted.”
“As a man experiences limits.Love motivates the
motivates
“When a man is in love Love
he is motivated
to bethe
the best he can be in order to Martians
serve others.”
“To become motivated again he needs to be
appreciated. Not to be
needed is a slow death for a man. he is motivated to
give more. a man
can be compassionate and offer his support
even if she doesn’t ask for it.”
.

“Given the opportunity to
prove his potential. Women are from
selfish
ways…”
Venus –John Gray.D. Ph. a
man expresses his best
self…
Only when he feels he
cannot succeed does he
regress back to his old
Men are from Mars.
.

D. Women are from
Venus –John Gray.When a WOMEN LOVES A
MAN?
Men are from Mars.
. Ph.

.
Men are from Mars. Ph. Women are from
Venus –John Gray.The woman falling in
love w/ a man is similar to
what took place when the
first Venusian believe that
the Martians were coming.
She dreamed that a fleet
of spaceships from the
heavens would land and a
race of strong and caring
Martians would emerge.D.

overwhelmed..
…... confused.
…..
…. or hopeless what
she need is a companionship.
She needs to feel she is not alone.
And she needs to feel loved and Cherished.Most men have little awareness of how
important to a women to feel supported by
someone who cares.
Women are happy when they believe their
needs will be met.
….
. exhausted.
When a woman is upset.

How
Deal
s
with their
depression?
Men are from Mars. Ph.D.
. Women are from
Venus –John Gray.

Venusians were busy by sharing their
feelings and talking about their problems.(I lose
so that you can win)
Men are from Mars.. Women are from
Venus –John Gray.
They live by a lose/ win philosophy.
….
They are tired when they are too much
giving.
.D. Ph..
….

Women today are also tired of
giving. Time
to explore being themselves.
…. They want time off..
At
this
point
Martian
learning to give while the
Venusians were now ready to
learn how to receive.
Time
to
care
about
of
themselves first.
THIS
SAME
CHANGE
COMMONLY TAKES PLACE IN
MEN AND WOMEN AS THEY
.

She feels
injustice of giving more
than she has receive. Women are from
Venus –John Gray.
Men are from Mars.D.Giving Up Blame
When a women realizes she
has been giving too much. Ph.
.
She tends to be blame her
partner for their
unhappiness.

Giving Up Blame
Instead of blaming
your partner give them your
understanding.D.
acceptance.
and support.
Men are from Mars.
compassion. Women are from
Venus –John Gray.
trust. a women
can accept and forgive her
partner’s imperfections.
Instead of blaming a
man of giving less. Ph.
.

She is commonly
afraid of needing too
much and then being
rejected.D.
abandoned.
judgment etc… are the
most
painful
because
deep
inside
her
unconscious she holds the
incorrect
belief that
is
Men are from
Mars.of
Ph.Learning to Receive
Setting and receiving
are very scary for a
woman. Women
are she
from
receiving
Venusunworthy
–John Gray.
.

)
Men are from but
Mars.D. she unknowingly pushes
away the support she needs. Ph.
(Rem: Men need to be
trusted
and
primarily
motivated by being needed
turned
off by are
neediness.
.
then he feels immediately
rejected and is turned off.
Women
from
Venus –John Gray.Learning to Receive
• Because of her afraid of not being
supported.
•When a man receives that
message that she doesn’t
trust him to fulfill her needs.

HOW VENUSIANS LEARNED
TO FEEL WORTHY?
.

• For centuries the
Venusians compensated
for this fundamental fear
of unworthiness by being
attentive and responsive
to the needs of others. Ph.
Men are from Mars.D. Women are from
Venus –John Gray.
.
• They give & give but
deep inside they did not
feel worthy of receiving.

they realized
that they worthy of
receiving love and
support. Women are from
Venus –John Gray. Ph.
Men are from Mars.D.
.• After Centuries of
giving. And they
looked back and
realized that they had
always been worthy of
support.

Learning To Give
.

Women afraid of receiving.
…. Women are from
Venus –John Gray.D.
Men are from Mars.
.A man’s deepest fear is that
he is not good enough or
that he is incompetent.
Men are afraid of Giving. Ph..

Men are from Mars..
When a man really cares a lot.
. Ph. Women are from
Venus –John Gray.He wants to give but is afraid
he will fail.. so he doesn’t try…
….
….D.
To avoid failure he stops giving
to the people he wants to give
to the most.
his fear of failure increase and
he give less.

When a man is insecure
and not caring about by
anybody except himself. Women are from
Venus –John Gray.
.D. Ph.
What is he most
automatic defensive
response?
Men are from Mars.

Do you know that when
Martian made mistake it
thought them a very
important lesson necessary
to achieve their goals.D. And
then they realized that they
had been good enough….
Men are from Mars.
. Women are from
Venus –John Gray. Ph.

Women are from
Venus –John Gray. Ph.
.D.It is Ok to make
Mistakes
The first step for a man in
learning how to give more
is to realize that its Ok to
make mistakes and it is
ok to fail and that he
doesn’t have to have all
the answer…
Men are from Mars.

Men are from Mars.
.
Her unhappiness
confirms his deepest
fear: he is just not good
enough. Ph.she is unhappy or
disappointed because
he feels like a failure…
….. Women are from
Because
Martians
needs
Venus –John
Gray..D.
….