Ways to interest wife in sex.

I'm 48, She is 42, married 10 years, and I'm inquiring to mostly ladies in ways of initiating woopie. I've lost the touch, and to often revert to looking at bad stuff on the net and wether she knows it or not I'm self-conscience of that. More often than not, just masturbate rather than bother her. I've been turned down alot, because of the lack of varied initiation. Help Ladies

You are probably looking for ways to get her in the mood. While looking up seduction techniques may prove to be helpful, I would suggest another approach. If she is repeatedly turning you down, I would just talk with her about it -- not at that moment, though. Just be frank with her. Tell her you would really like to make love and are getting quite concerned that she doesn't seem equally interested. Ask her why that is. Does she feel okay? Is she stressed? Is she sad? Does she not feel sexy herself? Did the sex get too monotonous for her? Those are the kinds of areas I would explore.