Moments for Mom: Make Christmas Meaningful

Every Christmas seems to get busier and busier. And yet, you are the same woman with the same responsibilities and the same amount of money and energy that you have the rest of the year. So here are some simple ideas to think about adding to your holiday season to make it more meaningful for you and for your family.

(Keep in mind, this is not a guilt trip; just ask God what he would like you to do this year, and add only those things.)

Do something with your kids:

Bake cookies with them, no matter what they end up looking like. Build snowman or have a snowball fight or make snow angels. Involve them in basic ways – pass out invites each year, help sign and stamp the Christmas cards.

Visit a nursing home with your children. If hosting a party, ask everyone to bring a gift for a child and then drop them off at a local shelter. Donate to charity on someone’s behalf (my favorite organization is Samaritan's Purse).

Do something with God:

Read Luke 1. Take a blank sheet of paper and a few minutes and list off as many good things as you can think of, then write God a thank you note. Spend time thinking about your past year:

A great mantra that I came across in a magazine a couple years ago: if you don’t love to do it and you don’t have to do it, don’t do it. It’s okay to just say no.

Think about what you actually enjoy doing each year. Make a list. Hate baking cookies? Stop doing it. Love writing your Christmas letter – make it a priority.

Do not set extra meetings or appointments during December. The dentist and oil change can wait until next month.

Suddenly a great company of the heavenly host appeared with the angel, praising God and saying, "Glory to God in the highest, and on earth peace to men and women on whom his favor rests." -Luke 2:13-14

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