As Ruler you…..

Happily take full responsibility for how you feel and for creating the outcomes that you desire.

Trust yourself, your desire, and know you can have what you want, even when you have no idea how its going to get there.

Face forward and focus on what you WANT to create and experience.

Are clear on what your rules for living a kick-ass life are and what you need to thrive.

Constantly update your storyto reflect who you are NOW, where you’re headed and what you’re creating.

Live in integrity and courageously choose what is right for you.

Choose where to focus your attention and the thoughts you give space in your head too.

Just to be clear here…..

Ruling your world is NOT about expecting and demanding that the world, and everyone in it, is going to bend to your will and act how you want them to act and make you feel how you want to feel. You’re not sitting on your thrown shrieking at everyone around you like the Red Queen in Alice in Wonderland. It doesn’t work that way. The only person responsible for how you feel is you.

As ruler, you are deciding how you want to feel and making choices that allow you to feel that way regardless of what is going on around you.

You know that what you want is on it’s way, so you look for evidence of it’s arrival. You act as if it’s already here and excitedly create that space for it to appear in.

You frequently can be found daydreaming about all the ways you’re going to use and enjoy having your stuff. Like…. how it will feel to have the money and to spend it; picturing long afternoons spent with your lover and how it feels to gaze into their eyes; imagining what your day to day flow will be like with all those new clients.

AND you constantly raise your glass and eat celebratory cupcakes to honor all the progress that you’re making.