I would dump her because to me getting that drunk when you have a boyfriend shows lack of respect. When I am single, yes I have gotten so drunk that I didn't remember having sex with some random guy but when I have a boyfriend, I have enough respect to never get that drunk. I know when I get that drunk anything can happen and since I don't trust my own self, I rarely drink alcohol when I have a boyfriend ..so I stay concious and don't do anything that I would regret.

I wouldn't do anything drunk that I wouldn't do sober.. with the exception of a few dumb stunts that I just didn't have the balls to do while sober. My values don't change. I don't forget that I'm in love. I don't forget that I'm in a relationship.

Alcohol doesn't turn you into a whore unless you're just a whore who masquerades as a decent person when sober.

If the bitch thinks it's possible that she fucked some random while wasted, she isn't worth it.

If she told me straight that she had done it, I might be able to put it past us and move on. At least that shows she knows what she did was wrong and is trying to right things. But it would take some convincing and will take some time to build back the trust. If she didn't tell me, and I found out, I would end it right away.

she DID tell me right away and thats why its so hard to just say "well fuck you" becuase she has showed that shes sorry and things like that. but its still REALLY hard to deal with knowing my girl just went out got drunk and got nailed by some other guy. i mean honestly i'd almost wish should COULD remember it cause i HATE being in the dark like this.

if that girl is pregnent then you better beat the shit out of the guy!!! you betterbreak up with her too because that is not right. then you will be taking care of some other guys kid and you know this is going to mess up your relationship sexually, without a doubt even if she isn't pregnant it will still be messed up for a little while. has she figured out yet wether or not she remembers what happened.

well there was 4 people in the house. 2 passed out her and the other guy didn't at least not at first.

normally after sex shes sore in the morning she wasnt sore. SHE didnt even think they came close to having sex she didnt even think about it until HE asked her if they had sex and started putting things in her head...??? i dont know what to think of it but we aren't gonna be having sex for awhile because i'd feel to fucking dirty... and it makes me never want to drink again

dumb bitches and there drinking HOLD YOUR DAMN BOOZE!

im glad she came clean but i'd rather have a definate YES or a definate NO then just.. i think i had sex with him i dont remember shit but he thinks we did. so ?

I'v ebeen so drunk that I can't remember things the next morning but I know I've never been so drunk that I don't remember sex with someone. It's a lie, as far as I'm concerned, to try to make it look like she wasn't a lying, cheating slore.

i have got drunk plenty of times, and never would consider cheating on my boyfriend. drinking is not an excuse, and if she cant fuckin control herself while drinking tell her not to fucking drink in mixed company anymore, if she cant control herself but i would say shes a lying cheating whore whose making up excuses and your being the sucker by believing her, and shes gonna get away with it and do it again.

The thing i'm starting to wonder...why did this guy wake up and immediately ask if they had sex? were they naked? were they doing stuff before they "blacked out?" There's gotta be a reason they think it's a possibility.

most of you people saying "being drunk is not an excuse," sound retarded. even in the case of sex...yes, it is a TOTALLY fucked up situation. but this bitch has a problem...she doesn't know how to control herself when she's drunk.

but when it all comes down to it: she obviously doesn't care all that much for you. i could get totally wasted and have 400 naked, good looking men around me and all i'd want is my boyfriend.

most of you people saying "being drunk is not an excuse," sound retarded. even in the case of sex...yes, it is a TOTALLY fucked up situation. but this bitch has a problem...she doesn't know how to control herself when she's drunk.

but when it all comes down to it: she obviously doesn't care all that much for you. i could get totally wasted and have 400 naked, good looking men around me and all i'd want is my boyfriend.