5 Research-Backed Reasons Eldest Children Are The Best

Eldest siblings tend to think they’re
the kings and queens of the family. They were born first, so it only
makes sense that they get the most attention and affection, right?Youngest and middle children would beg to differ, but it turns out science mostly supports the eldest’s bragging rights.Numerous studies have shown that birth order plays an important
part in development. How much influence it has is a point of
contention among experts, but regardless, there is something to be said
about being the oldest one of the bunch.If you’re an eldest sibling, take a look at the benefits of your
birth order below. If anything they prove first is definitely not the
worst.

1. Older siblings might be smarter.

Research suggests that eldest children have higher IQs on average
than their younger siblings. In a 2007 study of 250,000 Norwegian young
adults, firstborn men had an average IQ 2.3 points higher than their
younger brothers.Researchers believe the difference is due to environment rather
than genetics. Eldest children often “teach” their younger siblings,
which can help them to better retain information, according to the
authors. Also, as a family grows, parents have less time to spend with
each child.“Every time you add a child, you’re diluting the intellectual
environment of everyone in the family,” the researchers wrote in the
study’s conclusion.

2. They could be more responsible.

Forging the path for their fellow siblings means eldest children
learn some serious responsibility early in life. According to Jeffrey
Kluger, author of The Sibling Effect: What the Bonds Among Brothers and
Sisters Reveal About Us, eldest siblings tend to be the ones that focus
the most on family loyalty and traditional achievement. As a result,
they’re often seen as more obedient and responsible.

3. They might be more successful.

Not only do eldest children perform better in school, they also
might be more successful in the professional world. According
psychologist and New York University adjunct professor Ben Dattner,
firstborns are achievement-oriented and eager to please their parents.
Research also suggests they tend to dominate their younger siblings as
an authority figure of sorts, making them acutely prepared to take on
leadership roles in the professional world.Plus, their parents perceive them to be more accomplished. Go figure.

4. Eldest children follow the rules.

While middle children are thought to be the rebellious ones,
oldest children aremore likely to be rule-followers and stick to the
status quo.“Firstborns tend to be responsible, competitive and conventional,
whereas laterborns have to ‘distinguish’ themselves and create a
specific niche by being playful, cooperative, and especially,
rebellious,” Belgian psychologists Vassilis Saroglou and Laure Fiasse
wrote in a 2003 paper published in the journal Personality and
Individual Differences.

5. They may be more conscientious.

In a 2015 study, firstborns were found to be slightly more
conscientious, more agreeable and less neurotic than their younger
siblings — characteristics that could help them in the long run.A 2015 Australian study found that people who were more
conscientious showed higher academic performance. Conscientiousness has
also been found to be amajor key to success.Revel in the glory, eldest siblings. It’s hard to argue with science. But we’re sure your mom still loves you all equally.