People like to call this “thinking outside of the box,” which is the
wrong way to look at it. Just like Neo needed to understand that “there is no spoon” in the film The Matrix, you need to realize “there is no box” to step outside of.

You create your own imaginary boxes
simply by living life and accepting certain things as “real” when they
are just as illusory as the beliefs of a paranoid delusional. The
difference is, enough people ... more...