if you’re comfortable with discussing sex and sexual things that’s great but please ffs respect that not everyone will be as comfortable with it as you

like seriously there is actually a difference between shaming someone for expressing their sexuality and feeling discomforted by someone else’s blatant creepy sex talk. i wish more people realized this

I interviewed a young anthropologist working with women in Mali, a country in Africa where women go around with bare breasts. They’re always feeding their babies. And when she told them that in our culture men are fascinated with breasts there was an instant of shock. The women burst out laughing. They laughed so hard, they fell on the floor.