“I'm definitely ashamed of my brother. It's embarrassing,” she says of her 27-year-old sibling. “My brother definitely needs tough love at this point in his life. I am done with my brother. It's either you change your life, or I'm gone.”

On Monday’s episode of Dr. Phil, hear from Jessica’s parents and why her dad calls her mom the “ultimate enabler.” And, hear why JJ says he blames his mom for his behavior. When Dr. Phil offers this family a chance for help, will they all agree to follow his rules? Check here to see where you can watch.