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Friday, 10 March 2017

Nollywood actress Georgina posted this to support women and prays a cuss on those who think its Okay to snatch husbands ....She uses the word Karma to illustrate her point.

"This beautiful thing called marriage. It is every woman's dream. It is sacred , it is beautiful. No one ventures into it just to have it fail.. It is an institution on its own that you never graduate

you keep learning every single moment in it. How can something so beautiful go wrong? From hi's to hugs to kisses and romance.. all of a sudden tears and pains? And at end most are left broken, pained and hurt.. Those who are single wish to be married, while those that are married are looking for a narrow escape because of the unbecoming shenanigans arising in it.. I know of no woman who gets married and decides to walk away from it without giving it thoughts and fighting to keep her home. I don't know that woman.. What baffles me the most is the level of hate and vile languages coming from women when they see their fellow woman crumbling in pains and tears

Why are Nigerian women so quick to curse at their fellow woman? If you've not walked in my shoes for a day or live in my home for a second, I repeat you have no moral authority to judge me or my decisions. My heart goes to out everyone having a rough time in their homes. As actors people expect to be super humans with no feelings or emotions. We are imperfect people trying so hard to please an angry mob OF she devils. What you wish others will surely come back to you. If you special in sleeping with people's husbands and expect a different outcome when you married, then you are delusional. Karma is a bitch.. when faith will come for you, yours will be unbearable. Why cause a fellow sister pain? Women learn to respect and support each other.. Fight and protect your happiness with all you've got.. To our darling brothers, Why ? Why cause what you love dearly so much pain? What happens to walking away when you are angry? God please give a new reorientation and direction.. Too many homes crumbling.. Give us grace and solace.. Every woman has a breaking point. Many have lost their lives to domestic violence, while some are bold enough to walk.

85 comments:

Not all married women are looking for a narrow escape aunty, I am very happy in my marriage. God really packaged my hubby for me and I bless His name for that. Very good write up, let people stop laughing at others in pain even the Bible doesn't give you the permission to laugh at a wicked person when they are being punished but trust the tappers to turn around and insult you when you have issues

Doppelganger watagan? She has a right to post this on her social media handle just like you took time to comment on it here without going on with your business. Plus, it's not like the post doesnt make sense

Rocky, I know reading is not your problem but obviously comprehension is.If you've been following Georgina you'd know she has started talking a little too much about everything on social media it's not about this write up and I want her on screen because I miss her acting. I didn't say anything about the write up not making sense.

I'm sorry Doppelganger that I haven't been following Georgina on social media, I really don't have time for that. The truth is Georgina is news to me, I don't know herThis post isn't even about her past updates or whatever it is she has been updating, it's about her write-up... So, who lacks comprehension now?

You keep inferring that you don't have time for social media but isn't that an irony my dear.I clearly remember not mentioning your name in the first place but here we are.Rocky, thank you for making my point for me.😚Georgina, please if you can see this come back to a screen near me please.

Bitter truth. I love this write up.This constitution called marriage takes only grace to survive in it.change is bound to happen.its nt always rosy.It take Gods grace and human perseverance to sustain it.God help me ooh.

Georgina enough of this your sermon. The women who are not able to satisfy their husbands needs in their matrimonial homes are to blame for their men going out to look for other women. These men approaches other women. Some of them accept their invitations, some others do not. We should stop blaming women for accepting these men. It's a common knowledge that some women are very nasty to their husbands.Aunty georgina, how about the married men you are sleeping with right now? Mtchewwwwwwwwwww!!

Anon you are very stupid. Is sex the only thing a man needs? Wat happened to good companionship, good behaviour, etc. I didn't even mention sex. If you read carefully what i wrote, you would see i wrote "needs". Who is the greater mumu? I see sex is all you can offer a man. It's your likes that pushes men out to look for other women. When you want to come at me next time, use your id.

Anon you are very stupid. Is sex the only thing a man needs? Wat happened to good companionship, good behaviour, etc. I didn't even mention sex. If you read carefully what i wrote, you would see i wrote "needs". Who is the greater mumu? I see sex is all you can offer a man. It's your likes that pushes men out to look for other women. When you want to come at me next time, use your id.

Does karma really exist? That I can say, what I can say is that some sins just don't go unpunished e.g, being wicked to widows and orphans, or coveting their property. I've seen so many people who lost their life cos of such. Meanwhile its my beautiful triplets birthday today. HBD to my angels, the lives of my life, my little darlings. I don't know what my life would have been without them and their big bro. God bless them for me.

Happy birthday to your triplets.. Tell me how do you do it? Like manage them? Know when one is running a temperature and what if they are all crying at the same time? What if they want to suck at the same time? Or they don't? I'm curious oo

Lol Rocky, honestly I don't know how I've managed for 4 yrs, all I can say Is, it's just been God, and my mum and hubby too. I breastfed them from when they where born up until 3 months. I couldn't cope after that cos they where draining me and I was looking so old then. Luckily for me they don't fall sick at once, they take it in turns lol. Honestly managing 3 girls of same age isn t easy oh. They can be terrible when they mean business. Plus my son is just one year older than them so it's like managing 4 children. I have another battle of managing another 2 in the next 5 months. It's well.

Happy birthday to your beautiful 3pplets.. Meanwhile I think this karma thing is overrated.. How About that chacha lady that was killed by her husband last year? She married that man a complete virgin cos she was so young but the man became a serial cheat, so whose karma is that? When I served in Jigawa I knew a woman that married as a virgin also and her husband was a well known womaniser, intact he even married a 2nd wife and was planning for the 3rd one.. So whose karma is that? Pls let me hear word with this karma bullshit... Of course it's wrong to sleep with married men but don't bring karma into it... And for those that would wana insult me, sorry I am married so don't think I want to justify my actions

If a strong man marry a rude and disrespectful woman, they marriage can never work. The man will always end up going physical on her.So d best advice is for any ill mannered girl to marry a mumu & yeye man that she can tell him to shut up and sit down and he will do exactly that

When people talk of karma I laugh...... so karma will turn a responsible man to a public dog just because his wife slept with other people's husband. Let's grow up pls and stop giving these men a pass. It's not always about what the woman did and did not do.

May God bless you, if there is anything like karma NHN for don hear am cos she was a maid sleeping with her madam oga Under her madam nose, from there get belle for OGA, oga marry her she enter as a 2nd wife scatter the family, enter full time as a wife while real madam is out of the house. She don balance they preach her stupid gospel while she snatched her madam husband. She is not even properly married to Dt her Harry ngonadi , she don live with that man for over 20yrs & still counting, karma no see her abeg make una forget that karma thing, I DOESN'T EXIT.

Not all married men are looking for sex. Some are looking for compliment, hugs, companionship, to eat their cake and have it, someone to hear their rants, to feel young again, middle-age crisis, but they forget their women have needs too.

If you are a married man and you need compliment...meet your mother/father/aunties/nephews for itIf you need companionship...what are your kids for? watch football, play with them. If you don't have kids, adopt and bless someone's life.If you want to eat your cake and have it...stay single.If you want to feel young again...connectwith your young kidsIf you are going through middle-age crisis, see a counselor or therapistIf you need sex...take your wife alone on a vacation, rediscover each other, hug yourselves and have sex.

*You have all you need at home.

Do you know how much it gladdens a married woman with four children to receive compliment from men that she is still hot and desirable? yet she stays faithful and loves all your nastiness, your potbelly, early morning bad breath, farting in the sleep yet you see a man cheating for no substantial reason.

No one is perfect, Tonto made a mistake. A past is called past for a reason, she found God, the ALL forgiving father who gave her a second chance to make it right. But no, you all won't give her peace that God has given her. I am tired of people making excuses for men that misbehave outside the home, why then did you get married if you won't give your wife the respect she deserves. Or you think women are not tempted to cheat too. Domestic violence is a NO for me, what happen to walking away when you are angry. A man is someone that walks away when he is angry and not someone that hits a woman just because he feels he is a man, Our culture frown at women leaving the home, all they say is manage for your children at your own detriment, at your own happiness. How long will women keep sacrificing everything for the home while the man acts like a demigod. Please let us learn to support each other in times of pain and stop bullying people. Like Georgina sai, dont judge me until you walk in my shoe.

Only ignorant people or those with low IQs believe in karma. Isn't it obvious that life happens to everyone? The best people also find themselves in the most unfavourable situations, including kids and babies! What could they have done to deserve such? There is no justice in this world, besides NONE of us are without sin yet we live free from condemnation. But trust naija women with their fish brains, according to them, karma only applies to single women sleeping with married men. Mumus

Both parties are responsible for a failed marriage, regardless of the ratio. It could be 90:10, 60:40, even 99:1. Bottom line, it takes 2 to make or break a marriage. Ladies tend to bear the brunt in most bad relationships. Because of the shenanigans most men are known for, it's easier to sympathise with wives than husbands, so by default, once a marriage fails, the man is to blame.

We rush to conclusions as though we were the 3rd wheel in the marriage, the ever present silent listener to every conversation and the observer to every action behind closed doors. If we can put aside our biases and prejudices and analyse each case based on the facts unique to each, you'll be amazed that more women than we actually imagined, carry the higher proportion of the blame. I'm not referring to cases of domestic violence, there's ABSOLUTELY no excuse for that, though some women REALLY know how to get their men all riled up.‎

It all starts with the foundation. Once a Queen says "yes" to a joker or a chamberlain, instead of a King, she will be held responsible for the outcome. Any punk can ask for your hand in marriage, it behooves you to refuse to be dragged from your throne into the arena like a cheap gladiator whose life has been mortgaged for sport and entertainment. Choose wisely, don't rush. Marry a man with the fear of God in his heart, a man who loves and adores you because he knows and appreciates your worth. A man who will thank God everyday for blessing him with an amazing woman. If you are more excited about marrying him than he is of you... you should probably have a rethink before you tumble down the rabbit's hole.‎

Most wives give too much credit to side chics. I'm sorry but no side, front or back chic can "snatch" a King from his Queen. Do kings cheat? Probably but not all. What makes a man a King is his ability to treat his wife as his Queen. The minute you choose the wrong partner, you've invariably sealed your marital fate.

You have more access to your hubby than any side chic. You share his bed, you prepare or supervise the preparation of his meals. If you know how to play your cards right, you can "have him" however and whenever you want. As a wife, you have so much power over your hubby. If you allow the women outside take the power away from you, whose fault is it? A lot of women lose good husbands to complacency. Just because you are lucky to have a good man who adores you, doesn't mean you should take him for granted and refuse to working on your marriage. You should always look for new ways to add flavour and spice to your marriage. Routine is to marriage what cancer is to the body. Remain mysterious and unpredictable in an exciting way. To have a good marriage, it takes a lot of hard work and dedication.‎ The time you use in worrying about side chics, should be put to better use like devising new ways to be a domestic goddess. You have the power over any side chic, you should intimidate them and not the other way around.‎