I revise that. After recently seeing someone who is probably THE MOST chronic chain smoker I've ever been around (although a considerate smoker, I will say) I will no longer date a smoker. Sorry, but really being anywhere near the smoke gives me headaches and I just don't like the smell that lingers on their clothes and skin.

Not sure how smoking effects dating, but I might find out when I get the nerve to get back out there. I do know it can effect a marriage. My soon to be ex of 23 years (20 of those married), said he can't stand the cig's anymore and wants out. It don't seem to bother him enough to get out of the house, just out of the marriage. By the way I smoked when he met me. Personally I think my smoking was a good excuse for him to relive his youth.

thunderunderme write: Hey BHG...congrats are in order...atta girl!! Hey..you're helping him out aren't ya?, holding the smoke maybe?? Hon if he can handle you I have no doubt he is quite talented. *wink, wink* Cweet Char

Char...I just hold everything else for him so he can hold his ciggy...wouldn't want him dropping that between...well you know...

OUCH!

After careful review of my previous post, and considering some recent experiences..dating and smoking is only a problem you can't get a burning flame to ignite and there is only puffs of smoke coming from your date while he smolders and his flesh is only a little charred and his skin has only a little soot to show for your efforts.

thunderunderme write: Hey BHG...congrats are in order...atta girl!! Hey..you're helping him out aren't ya?, holding the smoke maybe?? Hon if he can handle you I have no doubt he is quite talented. *wink, wink* Cweet Char

thunderunderme write: Hey BHG...congrats are in order...atta girl!! Hey..you're helping him out aren't ya?, holding the smoke maybe?? Hon if he can handle you I have no doubt he is quite talented. *wink, wink* Cweet Char

Char...I just hold everything else for him so he can hold his ciggy...wouldn't want him dropping that between...well you know...

thunderunderme write: Hey BHG...congrats are in order...atta girl!! Hey..you're helping him out aren't ya?, holding the smoke maybe?? Hon if he can handle you I have no doubt he is quite talented. *wink, wink* Cweet Char

Char...I just hold everything else for him so he can hold his ciggy...wouldn't want him dropping that between...well you know...

Had to go back to the beginning since I missed it....wondering just what kind of smoke we were talking about here....thought maybe we were gonna roll one up...lol...just don't drink the bong water..uck.

I smoked up until the time I got pneumonia and landed in the hospital for 6 months and am now on oxygen for the rest of my life. hmmmmm maybe I should've listened when I was told to stop..but I didn't.