"Electronic heroin": how the children became addicts Susan six year old son John will soon come to the virtual world of the first grade, she bought John a iPad as a gift. "My idea is, why don’t you let him get in touch with something new?" She said to me on the healing course. Recently John school started Tech Education in lower grade students, the class teacher John technology also strongly advocate the use of high-tech equipment has many benefits for education. Under all circumstances, Susan decided to pay more for his son, who had blond hair, loved reading, and played baseball. At first, she just let little John play some educational games on iPad. Then, John found in the iPad, my world, the technical teacher told Susan that the game and electronic Lego is no two. Susan recalled that when he was a child playing with Lego – the joy of building these blocks, but also to develop their own creativity – so she let go of Janjohn to explore. Initially, Susan was pleased with the performance of his son: he seemed to be able to explore the "world" in the world to find the joy of the process, and to create their own construction. Susan also noted that my world is not exactly the same as Lego – after all, you don’t have to kill an animal when you’re building a Lego. However, John apparently in my world, very happy, and even joined the school of my world club. Everything seems to be all right. But Susan also from his son found a slight change: John will put more time in playing games on the previous love baseball and reading habits he was also dismissed, is not willing to go to do the housework. In the morning, John even told his mother that he had seen a lot of games in his dreams. This was a sign of his attention to some extent, but he still felt that it was only because his son’s brain was developed and his imagination became rich. But as John’s performance deteriorated, he began to realize that the phenomenon might have something to do with the game. Susan tried to remove the game from his son, but John was angry with him. Susan eventually surrendered, and to "have educational value" this game will convince myself. Later one night, Susan realized that something was more serious than originally thought. "I went into his room and wanted to see what he was doing. As usual, John had gone to sleep – but the sight I saw made me afraid." According to a recent study, iPad, smart phones and games, the impact on people and drugs similar. Susan found his son sitting on the bed, the front is running the game iPad: John with his eyes wide open, with the screen role, even some bloodshot eyes. He looked in a trance. Susan, who had seen all this, was in fear and shaking her son’s body, hoping to wake up John. Distressed, Susan still can not avoid confusion: she can not understand why she was healthy.相关的主题文章：

GYMBABY parenting many mothers have complained about the child dawdle, get up slowly, homework procrastination, while playing with the school. The more you worry, the more children the unhurried. The parent-child conflict triggered at any moment. When mom’s on the edge of collapse. I can understand the mother’s mood, but before doing to solve problems in children, we must first ask the mother to examine their own parenting methods. ("children don’t get up to the morning, mom is really the most headaches, no one) is not a slow child, you couldn’t stop nagging? Because you are anxious, the mouth will not stop nagging, urging, dissatisfaction and complaints, speak the truth, even blame and scolding. But what do you think if your leaders do this to you every day? Too fast rhythm will take the time to think about the child, so that not only will not soon, but it will cause a lot of unnecessary mistakes. And the more often the child is urged, the easier it is to do things. Because his heart has always been kept repeating "can you hurry" to the consequences of this is just a want to quickly finish, but because too care about time to become confused. Children have the rhythm of their children to do their own thing, the mother can not regulate the child’s adult standards of action. This is a direct invasion and transgression. Most of the time, children do homework, housework, details of life will be less efficient than adults, slow, not because of procrastination, but limited capacity. He has just come into contact with new skills and takes time to practice. Only in the most comfortable rhythm of their children, in order to best play their potential. If people are always urged aside, will let him in disarray, but became confused, it is difficult to improve the efficiency and. If the child is a little bit slower, my mother would not have patience, give the child labeled "dawdle" label, will strengthen the children dawdle, you see the psychological! I was so slow. ("sometimes kids" slow "is behind the process. He is familiar with new skills) Is the child a slow, you can not help but come forward to help? Life often have such a phenomenon: the mother will take the time to wait for an excuse, many children do their own thing to do. The morning time is not enough, to wear clothes to go out; not enough time, help feeding, pack up; the children do not understand the time directly from the timetable and fine to eat toilet. Although the mother side urged, criticized the child, but all the things, my mother had finished. "The Analects of Confucius" in · Lu said: "no haste, not see a small profit. Haste makes waste, and little profit makes no success." Do not pursue fast, do not pursue the interests of the present small. When we blindly request "fast", what we see is only the successful completion of this matter, but it is not conducive to the realization of a larger goal. Mother to save time to help their children busy, mother broke into the children’s room to grow, and assume the responsibility for their children originally, because the consequences of doing. Perhaps the child did not go to school late, according to the work相关的主题文章：

Kunming bus station, soliciting passengers not to get off on the rampant: hand – Location: Beijing Burma Road on loess slope (loess slope field bus bus station opposite the ramp) "every bus station in front of a row of cars, car is around tens of meters, is the black car owners often program bus passengers black". For loess slope the Burma Road bus station, public Voices of discontent. The site before the black car, vendors Jeeves is very chaotic, confusing. In October 31st, the temperature dropped sharply in Kunming. Because it was Monday, a lot of people very dissatisfied for the bus station in front of the chaos. I live in the vicinity of the Loess Plateau, to the high-tech zone to work, but in the Loess Plateau bus station and so on to 3 cars, did not get on the train." Mr. Zhao Ming said the public, not because people at that time, not because of the rain, because the platform is full of black, blocked. More than 10 in the morning to Mr. Zhao said the bus station, the bus has not stopped, you have seen a lot of passenger cars continue to go back to the bus back door. As soon as the door was opened, the passengers had reached out for the passengers. Scene, a row of electric cars parked in front of the bus lane on the platform, the bus can only stop in the motor vehicle lane. On the train, passengers get off, must break out from the electric car owners and showmanship "". "Look at the distance, the entire site friction, public transportation, pedestrian mixed line, very dangerous. Each stop all frightened, for fear that the passengers to get off a what error." A 153 bus driver said the bus stops in the motor vehicle lane is also very affected by other vehicles. The site belongs to the jurisdiction of the Loess Slope community, the staff is a headache. It is reported that, because of the loess slope of the bus station in the vicinity of a year in the construction, so many of the nearby hardware facilities are not perfect. Community can only persuade electric vehicles, temporary maintenance of the scene order, such as to be completely resolved, only the relevant departments to come forward. "For a long time, the car we would not regular check the bus station and the slope of loess slope in Loess flea markets and other places, and in a timely manner to the summary, but the effect is not good." For the public to reflect the situation, 31 PM, loess slope community staff said, will go to the field view, persuasion, and the relevant circumstances reported to the relevant departments. Fengning Street office staff also said it would cooperate with relevant departments to solve the problem. Duan Lingyan City Times相关的主题文章：

Become a master child education, the premise is that parents are willing to self practice! – the mother and child of Sohu is a sensitive receiver that reflects your voice and information. A good parent, should focus on education by educating children to educate themselves. For the conscious parents, the education of children is just an excuse, self-education is true. When you educate yourself, the child is just a reflection of your beauty, he will naturally become better. All things need is not his education, but self learning and self education. In essence, in the creation of human wisdom, only this part is really meaningful and useful. What you see in your child is the projection of your own problems. For a family, you are the root, the child is the flower. If there is a problem with flowers, most of them are roots. Parents often "see" the child’s problems, in fact, his own problems in the child "flowering". The child is your projection screen. In essence, there is no problem with the children, only the problem of parents. Parents mean "mind", children represent "heart"". When the existence of life seems to be a problem, it is the "mind" out of the question. "Heart" has been healthy, "heart" how could it be a problem? Without your point of view, judge, think, you will see the problem of children? Who made a problem child? You. You created the concept of the problem, and projected it on the child. Is your eyes, put a piece of flawless jade as an ugly stone. If you are a parent of fear, you must have a problem child. The more you fear, the more children you see in your eyes. Fear leads to control. The more you fear, the more likely you are to hold on to something that gives you a sense of security. The mind is the master, and the child is usually free of heart, they flow like water, it is difficult to be controlled. This makes the more you want to seize, the more you want to control, the more you want to control, the more you can not grasp, the more you can not control, the more you can not control. The more you fear, the more children you ask, the more children you see in your eyes. Is it true that a child is a problem child? Is it really hard to educate without your fear, without your repression or judgment? Ask yourself. How can a child grow up naturally? When you become a totally fearless parent. People expect their children to grow up with enough wisdom and ability. How can we make him show the greatest wisdom and ability? That’s how he grew up. It is not an easy thing to put a small horse on the vast grassland. How big the heart of the pony master needs! He would worry about the dangers of such a situation on the road. He would worry about letting the pony go, what it would be like, what would it be like to grow up. How dare you let go of your child? You don’t have much courage. In the form of a child’s freedom, you can see how much fear a parent’s heart. Not like God!相关的主题文章：