Ladies, I don't loan money to my siblings anymore, so you can rest assure, that I will not give a dime to anyone on this site. All I can offer is a referrals to a meal program, or shelters, or
social services. Thats all the help I can give.

hello
you look like this?such a nice but sorry....ingenune lady????
is incredibile how people , woman and man , lie , chat and more outher even bed things
and still are lot of people who can belive them till a point...incredibile

I just don't understand why and how would some of you send money? I don't how long you have converse with someone over the phone. You just don't send and give out your information. Ghana um NO Nigeria um a definite NO. These countries are the biggest scammers using anyone's photo's they are not legit. I feel for some of you, and hope it's a lesson learn.

Be carefull with the scam in MM, i finded 2 here, from Innisfil and from New Jersey, all go to travel to other country, have problem after few days of to be there and ask you money, if you dont send money then they try to send you one laptop for you know where you live. When he "send" the computer always come the problems, and the scam or the friends of scammers ask you more money.

Keep you head up!! it's not worth it,,, i have a book for you "he's not that in to you" i read this book 6 years ago and help me think like a man>> be sure about my self and chose who i want to be with, and wen , my way or no way...i enjoy my life ...

you will love this book!! Believe in you self!! if a man want to meet you or talk to you he will search for you Believe Me>>> good luck!!!

I'm not surprised to read that "stand-ups" and "fade-aways" happen to other women and even to men. I have been stood up a total of 4 times in my life, and twice by men from this site. It's funny too, 3 of the 4 were French :) I think I could take those odds to Vegas.

But I am grateful, in a sense, to know early when a man lacks good character...saves the heartbreak after you've invested yourself in fiction.

Noone can steal my joy unless I allow it. Noone has an obligation to meet my expectations - those are for me to weed out non-potential. The no-show/no-explanation thing, while rude and cowardly, is mostly a clear non-verbal communication of a failure to connect. "Why" is totally irrelevant, it just "is". There are LOTS of quality men in the world. I've no urgency to convince any one of them of my own quality, in which I am secure. I take it as a lesson, and ALWAYS indicate if I have a low level of interest.

We're all responsible for the mark we leave on the world. I'd hope to leave one of Hope, Integrity, and Fearlessness. So it's nothing more than a growing pain when some random person chooses to be careless with the vulnerable parts.

I hope to not offend women in particular, but to help create an option other than reacting to poor behaviour. We are more powerful than we think.

What's the big deal, personally i am notorious for missing planes. I wouldn't be so
quick to assume that the guy was married, perhaps there was a good reason. like maybe he just misses
planes for some reason! y'all are making this much more difficult than it is

statuesque4u write: There are all types everywhere just not here. We have had men who have been on this site playing single and engaged and lving with someone. They are in abundance i would guess. You will find the type you are talking about anywhere and here they seem to be in abundance... Just stick to the home phone numbers(cells do not count)Know where they work. Have their work number. Talk to them at work. Then you will at least know that part is true.

Then we have good men who meet women and for whatever reason they decide that she is not the one. Sure we would like them to come out and say it but they don't always do that. Get over it. Bust their chops and move on!!! There are always those good men out there and as always you just have to weed them out.

There are all types everywhere just not here. We have had men who have been on this site playing single and engaged and lving with someone. They are in abundance i would guess. You will find the type you are talking about anywhere and here they seem to be in abundance... Just stick to the home phone numbers(cells do not count)Know where they work. Have their work number. Talk to them at work. Then you will at least know that part is true.

Then we have good men who meet women and for whatever reason they decide that she is not the one. Sure we would like them to come out and say it but they don't always do that. Get over it. Bust their chops and move on!!! There are always those good men out there and as always you just have to weed them out.

Ladies: Please do not believe a word he has to say. I will not post the gory details on the site but will be happy to fill you in. He is a liar. If you have any questions about MississippiMan007 (alias ouchh721 or whatever else he goes by), please feel free to contact me, I will save you a lot of grief and emotional distress. He CANNOT tell the truth.

Gem
Hang in there. Some people need to take time to know and understand. I've had a few experiences in life being too good to someone, only to find out how shallow they are. It's really hard to take and leaves a person gun shy. Sometimes we allow are selves to mingle on the web, as to guard against heart ache and miss treatment. We get to know somebody at a distance, first. You are such a sweety, I enjoy knowing you and others like you exist. It gives me hope!! stevey

Soulful2005 write: Ladies: Please do not believe a word he has to say. I will not post the gory details on the site but will be happy to fill you in. He is a pathological liar. If you have any questions about MississippiMan007 (alias ouchh721 or whatever else he goes by), please feel free to contact me, I will save you a lot of grief and emotional/financial distress. He CANNOT tell the truth.

Soulful,

There seems to be an EPIDEMIC on this site!!! Why can't people be truthful??? I just don't understand. The truth will eventually be told, so why not start out that way?

If all you are seeking, guys and gals, is an emotional "fix," STATE IT IN YOUR PROFILE or tell the person with whom you are corresponding. How juvenile is this behavior?

Why can't people be upfront and honest about themselves? Why do people say they're going to call, give a time, and never do? Why do people agree to meet someone for a date, and then not show up?

******* WHY ARE YOU HERE??????? *******

I'm looking for the right man in my life, THE man with whom I can spend the rest of my life, happy and devoted to him, our families, and US!

I'm beginning to think that I'm alone in this quest.

*sigh*

Gem

You're not alone, Gem. *sigh too*
I know you know there are good people here. Perhaps there's a larger number of these types because of the site name.

Soulful2005 write: Ladies: Please do not believe a word he has to say. I will not post the gory details on the site but will be happy to fill you in. He is a pathological liar. If you have any questions about MississippiMan007 (alias ouchh721 or whatever else he goes by), please feel free to contact me, I will save you a lot of grief and emotional/financial distress. He CANNOT tell the truth.

Soulful,

There seems to be an EPIDEMIC on this site!!! Why can't people be truthful??? I just don't understand. The truth will eventually be told, so why not start out that way?

If all you are seeking, guys and gals, is an emotional "fix," STATE IT IN YOUR PROFILE or tell the person with whom you are corresponding. How juvenile is this behavior?

Why can't people be upfront and honest about themselves? Why do people say they're going to call, give a time, and never do? Why do people agree to meet someone for a date, and then not show up?

******* WHY ARE YOU HERE??????? *******

I'm looking for the right man in my life, THE man with whom I can spend the rest of my life, happy and devoted to him, our families, and US!

I'm beginning to think that I'm alone in this quest.

*sigh*

Gem

Gem,
This site is notorious for drawing a larger percentage of players than any other site. Just my opinion of course. After being on the site for 2 months a year ago, I had concluded as a dating site for women (possibly men too), MM has a debilitating and demeaning affect on one's self-esteem and confidence. Hence I quit using it as such. Instead I remained for the entertainment value of the forums.
I think it is important to remember that we should not stereotype all the men on MM. They may be few and far between, but I think they exist on this site. Patience and taking one's time in getting to know someone off the internet is probably the best route. In the past I've been told you need to be fast...meet right away...snooze you lose. But reality is...if they are truly interested in you, they will take the time to get to know you. They will ask questions about you, because they want to know everything about you. You are worth it to them.
You are looking for that one person you want to spend the rest of your life with...so take your time. Don't be in a hurry. Generally something that is really good, doesn't come that easily. It is work to find that right person. Not just for you, but for them too.
It'll happen. You are a beautiful lady inside and out! Hang in there!