Dear Amy: I have a daughter who enjoys baking and cooking, and she is very good at it. However, when she finishes a project she leaves the kitchen for someone else to do the dishes and clean up the mess. Or she will say, "I will clean up later," when asked to do it.How can I approach her to clean up without discouraging her from cooking? — Mom De...

MOM: I disagree with the idea "who cooks should clean". While Amy is right that the best cooks are tidy, they also don't clean by themselves (if at all) after the whole thing is done. That's what the kitchen cleaning staff does. I think since your daughter is not a pro in a pro kitchen with help, she should clean when she's cooking for fun, but if she cooks you a meal, you should at least help with cleanup.

No Fan: You said the other girl still has a Facebook page, but you didn't specify whether it's her own page or the false page she created about your daughter. If that other page about your daughter is still up, then the parents of that child didn't take steps to make it right. BTW, impersonating someone may be a crime, and making up lies in writing is libel, and they are liable for any damage that may occur. I suggest you not only talk to the school but that you talk to an attorney about you and your daughters rights.