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The only reasons someone would be friendless is..

Posted by Anonymous

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You're A) a bitch or B) Creepy Right?

I'm trying to figure out why I have no friends. It didn't helped that I moved all around groing up and never made lifelong school friends. The adult friends I made in my early 20's were too much drama once I was married so I had to let them go. And now I live in a new area and really only have 1 friend who I've known for about 3 years. We hang every couple weeks for girl talk and drinks.

I'm really looking inwards at this thinking it MUST be me. It doesn't help that my mean aunt always tells me no one ever liked me in our family and that my DH married me out of pity. I can't help but think she may see something about me that I never did- that I am "putting off" to people.

I'm not abnoxious, I think I'm funny, and I'm laidback. I help anyone and am there for anyone when they need me. SO I wonder if I say stupid things they may come off bitchy? There has to be a reason. Any ideas?

Are you a sahm? If yes than maybe once you begin working you will probably make friends. Also a lot if people don't like mean sarcastic people. Also people don't like people that are selfish or self absorbed.

I don't really have friends -- there are a few people that I text from time to time but that's about it. I'm a SAHM and am always with my kids. I don't go out, not into parties, never have been. So the only time I'm not literally with my kids is when we are all sleeping for the night so I don't have the time or even opportunity to make friends. Plus I've never had a lot of female friends, I'm MUCH more comfortable being friends with guys

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