Make Sex Last For Hours

Have you heard guys recount stories of marathon rounds of sex; bedroom romps lasting two, three or even six hours? What the hell is their secret? How do they sustain themselves for so long, considering that you generally get through the entire act inside of half an hour?

As you've probably figured out by now from my other columns, there is no single, magic secret to anything when it comes to women. This is especially the case when it comes to sex, which is always quite personal and situation-dependent. There are always, however, general principles to follow.

In theory, four things are required to be able to have all-night sex (with one woman, that is):

Physical chemistry: To keep both partners physically aroused and interested after the initial excitement, you need that electricity.Stamina: Fit sex is incomparably better. It's a strenuous activity that works those abs and arms.Technique: Your technique needs to extend beyond only one or two moves. That gets boring.Plenty of ideas: Fresh ideas will ensure that no one gets bored.

Maybe the guys who brag about how long they last are lying, and if they don't have all of the above ingredients, it's guaranteed that they are. But with the right woman, you can have sex like this more often than not.

Read on to see how I applied my various Player tools to have a great evening of sex just a few weeks ago.

Story Time

I recently called up Janice for a second date. Our first consisted of me spotting her (a stranger at that point) in Brooklyn's Prospect Park, stopping her to ask a question, flirting, taking a stroll, sitting on a bench together, kissing her, and ending up back at her apartment. It turned out that cute little blonde, green-eyed, athletic Janice was very sexual, and a fantastic lay. Thank you, God, for putting me in the park that evening.

For our second date, as the weather forecast was good, I suggested we take a stroll downtown and grab a bite to eat at a well-known dumpling stand in the East Village. As we had already "known" each other (in the biblical sense), the rapport between us was easy enough to reestablish, and I did just that through sexual jokes and innuendoes about the food, casual touching, and general joking to keep the mood light.

Player's Tip: Set The Tone

For the first two rendezvous at least, treat a booty call like an actual date. Suggest grabbing a bite, dancing, taking a walk, or some other date-appropriate activity. In this case, I already knew she liked to walk — that's how I met her — so it was a good choice in good weather.

After two dates (involving sex) with a woman who wants a third, you'll have a good sexual track record with her. If you've sent the right messages, she should already have the idea that this is casual.

At this point, your going straight for the booty will start to make sense to her, and she won't be offended and think you're treating her like a piece of meat. Make the encounter date-like too many times and you'll send "boyfriend" vibes. On the other hand, if you treat her like a booty call too soon, she'll treat you like a creep.