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I try to not let it bother me that my

I try to not let it bother me that my girlfriend and I's s** life has gone south but it's starting to become an issue for me. I don't know if she's cheating on me or if I don't cut the mustard for her any more. I have no idea how to bring this up. I love her but I do not want to spend my life wishing I could have something that I can not have.

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» lol I'm sorry that last comment sounds like someone's been reading the Cosmo a bit too much! Yes, you should invest in her emotionally, you should invest in any relationship emotionally if you want it to go somewhere, but -and this is important- any person you find interesting you need to find out what you can about them and what makes them happy. This previous woman lives by the ignorant view of cookiecutter relationships. Some women like closeness, some women don't, you need to find out from her, not from some bitter shrew on here with the "All women want affection, all men just wanna f***" bigoted, stupid outlook on life. People, women AND men, are individuals and need their own things to be happy.

6.4 years ago

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A woman's biggest s** organ is her BRAIN. You have to romance her MIND. Spend one night a week romancing her MIND with no expectation of s**. Watch a movie, cuddle her, but don't press for s**. Walk hand in hand at the park- but don't press for s**. Next week, take her out on a picnic and let her lay down in your lap and ask her what her favorite color is and WHY. Ask what she wanted to be when she was a little girl- get to KNOW her and CARE about who she IS. ONCE she starts feeling the connection, she will want s** from YOU. And if you can't be bothered to do the work or invest in her emotionally. And don't be surprised if this doesn't work if you're using the same guy tactic of 'too little too late.' Many men don't bother to even try saving the relationship until they realize it will effect THEM- or thier penises actually. She may have left you in her mind months ago. And if that's the case then there will be NOTHING you can do. But then you'll at least know to do this with the next girlfriend- and try do it BEFORE things go to s***, will ya?

6.4 years ago

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Find something new that may excite her in the bedroom. Just as you men get tired of the same old, same old, so do we. Everytime me and my man do it, it was the same sequnce of events, head for you, head for me, then stick it in. I didn't want to make hime feel bad, so instead of saying anything, I took it upon myself to try something new. So, one night, I gave my man a sensual bakc massage, and he loved it. The next night, I told him to join me in the shower. Eventually, he started trying new things on me as well, and honestly it escalated into some really freaky things that we now incorporate into our daily s** lives. Good luck!

6.4 years ago

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lol I'm sorry that last comment sounds like someone's been reading the Cosmo a bit too much! Yes, you should invest in her emotionally, you should invest in any relationship emotionally if you want it to go somewhere, but -and this is important- any person you find interesting you need to find out what you can about them and what makes them happy. This previous woman lives by the ignorant view of cookiecutter relationships. Some women like closeness, some women don't, you need to find out from her, not from some bitter shrew on here with the "All women want affection, all men just wanna f***" bigoted, stupid outlook on life. People, women AND men, are individuals and need their own things to be happy.

6.4 years ago

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A woman's biggest s** organ is her BRAIN. You have to romance her MIND. Spend one night a week romancing her MIND with no expectation of s** .Watch a movie, cuddle but don't press her for s**. Walk hand in hand in the park- but don't press for s**. Next week, take her out on a picnic and let her lay in your lap and ask her what her favorite color is and WHY. Ask what she wanted to be when she was a little girl- get to KNOW her and CARE about who she IS. Once she starts feeling the connection, she will start wanting s** from YOU. And if you can't be bothered to do the work or invest in her emotionally, let her go. And don't be surprised if this doesn't work if you're using the same guy tactic of 'too little too late'. Many men don't bother to even try saving the relationship until they realize it will affect THEM- or their penises actually. She may have left you in her mind months ago. And if that's the case there will be NOTHING you can do. But then you'll at least know to do this with the next girlfriend- and try do it BEFORE things go to s***, will ya?

6.4 years ago

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You should buy her some victoria secret and light some candles around your room and let her get her hair and nails done that same day and let her come home around 9:30 and put some candy kisses at the door and let it lead to the bedroom and when she walks in give her the victoria secret and make sure you have rose pedals every where. That should work!

6.4 years ago

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I's???I's???? How the f*** taught you english and stop having s**. you are a moron.