Why do Jehovah's Witnesses insist I find a mate only in their corrupt religion when worldly men treat me better than any of them do?

Sometimes it gets so bad that even elders are allowed to molest children..and get away with it; and then the victims are the ones who are punished if they tell the police about it...so was just wondering because it doesn't make any sense to me to find someone in a group in which I know I will never be safe. ... show more Sometimes it gets so bad that even elders are allowed to molest children..and get away with it; and then the victims are the ones who are punished if they tell the police about it...so was just wondering because it doesn't make any sense to me to find someone in a group in which I know I will never be safe. I've met guys who don't share my beliefs but who do far more for me than any of these people do, I swear; I have no other real friends, and my family is dysfunctional/abusive. It's not like I'm precisely in a position to pass up on love and affection from a man, even if he might not know about Jehovah, while other JW's insist I find a mate only within their confines, in which the people are always so incredibly mean/dangerous to me and to so many others. I'm sure Jehovah sees what I'm going through. So does he really want me to be alone? Would he really hold it against me for dating a "worldly" guy who cares about me where no one in my religion does?

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Best Answer: I think men who are into fundamentalist religions tend to have authoritarian personalities. Worldly men are much more likely to be regular "normal" guys. If you are not obsessed with religion, I suggest you steer well clear of men who are.

After reading the details of your question, I suggest you make a point of dating worldly men, if only to remind you of how regular people behave. It may be time for you to leave the JW's and rejoin ordinary Christians leading their ordinary lives. Ditch those obsessed extremists and give yourself permission to become an ordinary human being.

It's very sad that you, claiming to be one of Jehovah's Witnesses, are saying all of these false statements. Because if you truly are a witness, you wouldn't be saying these things at all. Evidently, you are an ex or never was a Jehovah's Witness.

Obviously, you don't believe all of their doctrines. They insist upon that because if you marry outside, you'll follow him out. It's very rare that anyone converts after marriage. Are you sure that you have The Church of God? Or, just some one else's point of view? Read Galatians 5:22. If you don't feel this, then you'll know what to do.

If you really believe in Jehovah God and the program of Jesus Christ that the Jehovah's Witnesses teach then you know what to do about the problems that you see do the same thing that I did get up and go serve Jehovah God and Jesus Christ and with the elders try to tell you this that or the other thing thank them politely for teaching you about Jehovah God and how to live for Jesus Christ and walk out that door but bear in mind that it's not a good idea to marry somebody that doesn't call upon the name of Jehovah he might be treating you better now Satan will treat you wonderfully to get you in the door when I fell away Satan threw out the red carpet for me and treated me like a king for about 3 years and then when I was far enough inside his castle he made me lick the floor I lost everything I own became a crack addict and Satan's little butt boy it took me 25 years to break free and to come back to Jehovah think well before you dive in

First, why are you dealing with JWs when you know it is man-made?
Second, why don't you turn to the Bible to know what to do and go to a Bible teaching church of Christ to find out how to have your sins removed and live a faithful life.

Of course their religion is corrupt - it based on the BuyBull -
which even gives us fraudulent information about christ!

For the christ stories to be true, jesus had to have been born both before 4 BCE
(for Herod to be king of Israel, because Herod died 4 BCE; see Matthew 2:1),
and after 6 CE (when Quirinius was governor of Syria; see Luke 2:1-7).

The BuyBull disproves itself with its own GLARING errors in HUNDREDS of places...

If, OF ALL THINGS, its cult stories about christ are BULLCRAP, why believe ANY of it?

The whole goddam book is a train-wreck of errors and contradictions - literally HUNDREDS OF THEM.

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"Sometimes it gets so bad that even elders are allowed to molest children..and get away with it"

See? Right there - you just described what has happened in Catholic Cult Churches TENS OF THOUSANDS OF TIMES.
That many children were raped and molested - and look at how the Catholic Cult still shines like a jewel...