How to fix a bad relationship

I was talking to friend/co-worker today. I was expecting the usual from him "girl friend got another dui", "girlfriend out all night", "girlfriend this or that", always the complaints. Not today, their relationship is great,always has been and they are .......having a baby.WHY do people think having a baby fixes everything. I know too many people that think this. Wouldn't it be fun to choke the life out of idiots that think like this.

I was talking to friend/co-worker today. I was expecting the usual from him "girl friend got another dui", "girlfriend out all night", "girlfriend this or that", always the complaints. Not today, their relationship is great,always has been and they are .......having a baby.WHY do people think having a baby fixes everything. I know too many people that think this. Wouldn't it be fun to choke the life out of idiots that think like this.

I was way more sane during pregnancy.. I went from crazy mood swings on the pill, to sane. It was wonderful. Pregnancy/ parenthood really has brought DH and I closer together.. but we didnt have a train wreck of a relationship to start with. But we don't fight at all anymore.

I was way more sane during pregnancy.. I went from crazy mood swings on the pill, to sane. It was wonderful. Pregnancy/ parenthood really has brought DH and I closer together.. but we didnt have a train wreck of a relationship to start with. But we don't fight at all anymore.

HA! they are gunna have one HELL of a wake up call man....hubs and my relationship is...complicated...it was awesome before sanlaya, but we had such PROFOUND differences that those needed some work and conversation and our relationship really still needed some more time to develop and we through sanlaya into the mix without doing any of that important stuff, and oh its so stressful...some people pull it off surprisingly...but we are making progress at a snails pace...but progress...

HA! they are gunna have one HELL of a wake up call man....hubs and my relationship is...complicated...it was awesome before sanlaya, but we had such PROFOUND differences that those needed some work and conversation and our relationship really still needed some more time to develop and we through sanlaya into the mix without doing any of that important stuff, and oh its so stressful...some people pull it off surprisingly...but we are making progress at a snails pace...but progress...

idk, but I think throwing a baby in the mix is waaaay more stressful., You DEF have to have a strong relationship FIRST so you don't drive each other NUTS after the baby is here!!! (not to mention the hormone crazies during pregnancy...)

idk, but I think throwing a baby in the mix is waaaay more stressful., You DEF have to have a strong relationship FIRST so you don't drive each other NUTS after the baby is here!!! (not to mention the hormone crazies during pregnancy...)

oh wow. hopefully that will calm her down a bit and she can do some internalizing.

i know this sounds extreme but if they aren't married, he should hire an aty now and go ahead and establish the enforcements of his parental rights. like visitation, child support, even if they live together it needs to be established that he pays something, even if its rent. so she can't try to take advantage of him later. she sounds like the d-bag in this one, not him.

i say this bc if she's that big of a hot mess, he's going to need to protect himself.

sounds like their in a honeymoon stage though. :(

oh wow. hopefully that will calm her down a bit and she can do some internalizing.

i know this sounds extreme but if they aren't married, he should hire an aty now and go ahead and establish the enforcements of his parental rights. like visitation, child support, even if they live together it needs to be established that he pays something, even if its rent. so she can't try to take advantage of him later. she sounds like the d-bag in this one, not him.

i say this bc if she's that big of a hot mess, he's going to need to protect himself.

I started a thread about this a few months ago because a few guys I worked with were trrying to fix things in their sh!tty marriages by having a baby 2 of the 3 have succeeded and their wives are due soon. I hate to sound nasty but I cant wait to see how this plays out. I feel so sorry for the babies in these situations.

I started a thread about this a few months ago because a few guys I worked with were trrying to fix things in their sh!tty marriages by having a baby 2 of the 3 have succeeded and their wives are due soon. I hate to sound nasty but I cant wait to see how this plays out. I feel so sorry for the babies in these situations.

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