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Wed, 20 Jun 2018 06:00:00 -0400Turns out children arrive with no manual. There's no coherent online tutorial.
Between staying up to date with emerging technologies and balancing work and home life in an industry that often requires un-timeable bug fixes, on call schedules, and more, working parents are balancing a lot.
Parents are also exploring additional technical issues like "screen time" or internet privacy, coming at these issues from a different perspective as technologists ourselves.
We cover all of these topics and more using a panel of parents coming from diverse perspectives and a variety of technological backgrounds. We'll shine light onto these issues and provide a valuable food for thought for these folks.
Want to ask a question that the panelists can discuss in an episode? Email us at panel@parentdrivendevelopment.com.
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en-usepisodicA podcast about parenting in techParent Driven DevelopmentTurns out children arrive with no manual. There's no coherent online tutorial.
Between staying up to date with emerging technologies and balancing work and home life in an industry that often requires un-timeable bug fixes, on call schedules, and more, working parents are balancing a lot.
Parents are also exploring additional technical issues like "screen time" or internet privacy, coming at these issues from a different perspective as technologists ourselves.
We cover all of these topics and more using a panel of parents coming from diverse perspectives and a variety of technological backgrounds. We'll shine light onto these issues and provide a valuable food for thought for these folks.
Want to ask a question that the panelists can discuss in an episode? Email us at panel@parentdrivendevelopment.com.
And if you're loving the podcast and want to support us, please visit our Patreon (https://www.patreon.com/parentdrivendev)!
noParent Driven Developmentpanel@parentdrivendevelopment.com008: Remote Work with Kidshttps://www.parentdrivendevelopment.com/remote-working-with-kids
d1b2295e-65f5-4ee4-b9e7-91bbe3ef31bbWed, 20 Jun 2018 06:00:00 -0400Parent Driven DevelopmentfullParent Driven DevelopmentThe panel discusses working remotely after having children (and sometimes with kids around)54:08noParent Driven Development
Episode 008: Remote working with kids
00:37 Who all works remotely?
02:30 Working remotely with kids at home
Lifestyle choice
Nursing and alternate schedules
Spouses working from home as well
06:00 Working remotely before and after having a child
The difference between working from home with a spouse also working from home vs. not
Hard starts and stops to your day
10:00 JC forgets pickup
11:00 Dealing with interruptions
This classic example (https://youtu.be/Mh4f9AYRCZY)
Interruptions from your spouse vs. the kid(s)
15:00 Allison joins
15:45 Do companies who accept remote work also do better at understanding flexible schedules and work/life balance?
Tyranny of the green dot on Slack
What are the expectations of being remote?
Do we feel guilty about doing "life" or kid stuff during the work day?
19:53 Being a remote worker vs. being on a distributed team
Understanding working hours
Helping colleagues be more purposeful about working hours and communication
23:00 Shared calendars and communicating hours to your team
slack notifications and snoozing
google calendar work hours
basecamp Tools
24:00 Based on Cate's blog post (https://cate.blog/2016/12/29/figuring-out-remote-work-is-figuring-out-work/) Going in to an office established a lot of defaults for a team and working remotely it helps to be more explicit
25:30 Being in the office is nice because you get to talk to other adults. How do you deal with isolation?
Going to stores
Being in the coffee shop
Parenting groups and daycares
Playdates with other kids
The difficulty of coworking and coffee shop working while pumping
Leads to great isolation which is pretty difficult
Rant about when people tell you to be social while pumping (spoiler: it's not that easy!!)
31:00 Being home instead of going out as a matter of priorities
What do you want to have time for?
33:00 Listener Question!! Our first!! It is so exciting!!!
When is the right time to introduce screens to your child and how did you do it?
Allison introduced games first, mostly on flights. When Allison introduced tv shows, she tried to make it educational like Daniel Tiger (http://pbskids.org/daniel/), PBS shows (http://pbskids.org/), etc.
Talking to your child about what they watched and what they learned
KWu thinks what screen time and for what purpose. And introduce something, see the effect and make changes from there.
JC said as you have more kids, it's harder to control media and screen time. Having structure around things is very important.
Josh remembers lots of research but can't remember when they introduced screens
Andy says do it collectively and sparingly
KWu says that technology and watching things can be used as bonding time and can focus on artistic or creative endeavors as opposed to isolating
JC talks about use of imagination using programs like minecraft (https://minecraft.net/en-us/).
45:00 Genius / Fail moments
JC - my daughter has been playing softball and she looked at pictures of herself batting and fixed an issue! She was resilient and didn't get discouraged. #Genius
Allison - Everything is a genius and fail right now. My son's preschool teacher told me that he's doing fantastic #Genius
Josh - my daughter has guinea pigs named Ana and Elsa and one of them fell which led to a visit to the vet. There they found out Ana and Elsa are male which led to a great discussion about gender and what gender means. #Genius
KWu - Marriage win! We started watching the Americans together and it is so nice to be doing something together and have something not household related to talk about. #Genius
Andy - After a difficult day, my daughter wrote "I love you daddy, even when you're grumpy" #Genius? or #Fail?
53:00 Contact Us!
Tell us what you're learning!
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Panel:
Josh Puetz (https://twitter.com/joshpuetz)
Allison McMillan (https://twitter.com/allie_p)
JC Avena (https://twitter.com/jcavena)
KWu (https://twitter.com/kwu)
Andy Croll (https://twitter.com/andycroll)
Additional links:
https://medium.com/@benthompson/breaking-down-the-father-on-bbc-being-interrupted-by-his-children-9840cdc8857b
https://youtu.be/-Ojvk-4IcOE
Parent Driven Development

Episode 008: Remote working with kids

00:37 Who all works remotely?

02:30 Working remotely with kids at home

Lifestyle choice
Nursing and alternate schedules
Spouses working from home as well

06:00 Working remotely before and after having a child

The difference between working from home with a spouse also working from home vs. not
Hard starts and stops to your day

23:00 Shared calendars and communicating hours to your team

24:00 Based on Cate's blog post Going in to an office established a lot of defaults for a team and working remotely it helps to be more explicit

25:30 Being in the office is nice because you get to talk to other adults. How do you deal with isolation?

Going to stores
Being in the coffee shop
Parenting groups and daycares
Playdates with other kids
The difficulty of coworking and coffee shop working while pumping
Leads to great isolation which is pretty difficult
Rant about when people tell you to be social while pumping (spoiler: it's not that easy!!)

31:00 Being home instead of going out as a matter of priorities

What do you want to have time for?

33:00 Listener Question!! Our first!! It is so exciting!!!

When is the right time to introduce screens to your child and how did you do it?

Allison introduced games first, mostly on flights. When Allison introduced tv shows, she tried to make it educational like Daniel Tiger, PBS shows, etc.
Talking to your child about what they watched and what they learned
KWu thinks what screen time and for what purpose. And introduce something, see the effect and make changes from there.
JC said as you have more kids, it's harder to control media and screen time. Having structure around things is very important.
Josh remembers lots of research but can't remember when they introduced screens
Andy says do it collectively and sparingly
KWu says that technology and watching things can be used as bonding time and can focus on artistic or creative endeavors as opposed to isolating
JC talks about use of imagination using programs like minecraft.

45:00 Genius / Fail moments

JC - my daughter has been playing softball and she looked at pictures of herself batting and fixed an issue! She was resilient and didn't get discouraged. #GeniusAllison - Everything is a genius and fail right now. My son's preschool teacher told me that he's doing fantastic #GeniusJosh - my daughter has guinea pigs named Ana and Elsa and one of them fell which led to a visit to the vet. There they found out Ana and Elsa are male which led to a great discussion about gender and what gender means. #GeniusKWu - Marriage win! We started watching the Americans together and it is so nice to be doing something together and have something not household related to talk about. #GeniusAndy - After a difficult day, my daughter wrote "I love you daddy, even when you're grumpy" #Genius? or #Fail?

23:00 Shared calendars and communicating hours to your team

24:00 Based on Cate's blog post Going in to an office established a lot of defaults for a team and working remotely it helps to be more explicit

25:30 Being in the office is nice because you get to talk to other adults. How do you deal with isolation?

Going to stores
Being in the coffee shop
Parenting groups and daycares
Playdates with other kids
The difficulty of coworking and coffee shop working while pumping
Leads to great isolation which is pretty difficult
Rant about when people tell you to be social while pumping (spoiler: it's not that easy!!)

31:00 Being home instead of going out as a matter of priorities

What do you want to have time for?

33:00 Listener Question!! Our first!! It is so exciting!!!

When is the right time to introduce screens to your child and how did you do it?

Allison introduced games first, mostly on flights. When Allison introduced tv shows, she tried to make it educational like Daniel Tiger, PBS shows, etc.
Talking to your child about what they watched and what they learned
KWu thinks what screen time and for what purpose. And introduce something, see the effect and make changes from there.
JC said as you have more kids, it's harder to control media and screen time. Having structure around things is very important.
Josh remembers lots of research but can't remember when they introduced screens
Andy says do it collectively and sparingly
KWu says that technology and watching things can be used as bonding time and can focus on artistic or creative endeavors as opposed to isolating
JC talks about use of imagination using programs like minecraft.

45:00 Genius / Fail moments

JC - my daughter has been playing softball and she looked at pictures of herself batting and fixed an issue! She was resilient and didn't get discouraged. #GeniusAllison - Everything is a genius and fail right now. My son's preschool teacher told me that he's doing fantastic #GeniusJosh - my daughter has guinea pigs named Ana and Elsa and one of them fell which led to a visit to the vet. There they found out Ana and Elsa are male which led to a great discussion about gender and what gender means. #GeniusKWu - Marriage win! We started watching the Americans together and it is so nice to be doing something together and have something not household related to talk about. #GeniusAndy - After a difficult day, my daughter wrote "I love you daddy, even when you're grumpy" #Genius? or #Fail?