I have one testicle. Can I get my wife pregnant?

You totally can. You may have only one testicle, but it produces millions of sperm. And you need only one of those squirmy guys to fertilize the egg for conception. So you shouldn't worry; you should still be fertile. Many men with only one testicle have had children.

If you want a baby and are worried that your wife is not getting pregnant, you many want to find a urologist who specializes in fertility, just to make sure everything is okay and to ease your mind. Your doctor will order a bunch of tests to make sure the remaining family jewel is in working order. The tests that predict the chance of fertility include those for sperm count, volume, shape, and movement. (Sperm can be underdeveloped, abnormally shaped, or not able to move properly.) The doctor will also test to see that there is no trauma or blockages to your vessels, and may do hormonal and genetic testing as well. The good news is that there are many treatments for infertility, including medications for low sperm count. To look for a doctor in your area, check out urologyhealth.org. By the way, I met a guy once with one testicle who fathered six kids -- which is way too many kids for a guy with two testicles.

I once heard a girlfriend say that if she meets a guy she could be best friends with, and loves his personality, then she could learn to be attracted to him. Forget it! I told her. Youre either attracted to someone or youre not. Its really animal and instinctive (as well as surprising and unpredictable, but thats another issue). So do yourself (and him) a favor and gently break off the relationship. Youll end up hurting him worse if you fake an attraction to him. Next thing you know, youll be faking orgasms and faking an entire relationship.