Overwhelmed and Panicked about Everything You Have to Do?

bySherie

Do you feel like you are being hammered with all of the responsibilities, chores and events that are happening in your life? There is a name for that, and it is called overwhelm, which can lead to a state of panic. When you are faced with overwhelm, it is easy for a small thing to tip you over and make you feel like you can't get a handle on anything.

The Power of Five Minutes in Preventing Panic

One of the problems with overwhelm, is that it is takes over and is all consuming. It feels like a cascade, everything is coming at you at once.

It is impossible to deal with overwhelm, until you step out of it. If you don’t stop the process, the state can lead to an even more non resourceful ones, panic and ongoing anxiety.

Don't underestimate the power of 5 minutes to change the course of your day. Here are simple ways totake 5 minutes to put things into perspective.

First things first, make a list of everything that you have to do….putting it on paper takes it out of your mind and puts it where it belongs, in a to do list, concrete evidence of what you need to do. Set your timer!

Lay down! Take 5 minutes to close your eyes and rest!! While you are there, take those pictures in your mind and make them dim and small…..turn off any voices in your head that are chattering at you about ALL the things you have to do….or make them lower…..

Take a deep breath! When you are stressed, do you hold your breath? Stand tall and take in that lifegiving, energizing dose of oxygen that you have deprived yourself of by being stressed.

Exercise! I keep a hula hoop in my room, a large hula hoop, and 5 minutes of that certainly takes yourmind in a meditative place! A five minute walk can work wonders, especially if you have a pet you can take with you.

Replace Your Panic Button!

Instead of hitting the panic button, replace it with a recharge button! Focus clearly on something else, like a favourite picture or a great memory! Funny videos on YouTube or videos of rolling kittens work too. (just don't get lost there!)

My recharge button is a picture of a serene mountain scene with bright blooming flowers and astream of water. Perhaps yours is a pet. People who have pets that they can touch, like a dog or cat, feelcalm when they spend a few minutes with them.

Think about it. How can you incorporate this into your life, easily? What is your recharge button?

Make a Happiness List to Change Your Focus

A great tool to have is a happiness list. You have heard of a gratitude list. This is similar exceptthat instead of writing down why you are grateful, you write down what makes you happy.

It's simple and it's very effective. Take out a paper and a pen/pencil and list what makes you happy.

Is it a cup of hot steaming cocoa on a hot winter's day, your cold hands wrapped around a warm mug?

Is it the look in the eyes of a loved one?

The feel of soft, newly washed sheets on your skin?

Put down the simple things……it has to be realistic. While weprobably would love to win the lottery, it's not realistic to put on a happiness list, is it? : D When you think of small and easy ways to be happy, the larger obstacles that are panicking you, fade into the background.

Sample list

Being alive….how often do we forgot that just being alive is a blessing?

Your health…..even with health challenges, you can focus on one small aspect of good health that you have.

Your family….look for the tiny details that make you happy

and so on…..

You might surprise yourself…..just like that….

Forgiveness is Essential to Prevent Panic

How does forgiveness come to play with overwhelm? In order to create the state of overwhelm, at some pointin time, you allowed yourself to say "yes" to more than you can handle. Forgive yourself for that.

Forgive yourself for having needs. We all do and it is very common to forget that we have needs and thatis a normal and necessary part of life. No super capes allowed!!

Forgive yourself for being imperfect. Perfection is a game that none of us can afford to play. It is agame that you cannot win. We are all imperfect and when you realize that, you won't allow yourself to be overwhelmed.

I was talking to a client yesterday evening,when she was feeling overwhelmed and panicky. I reminded her of the advice that we are given when we are flying in an air plane. The stewardess always reminds us to put our oxygen mask on first, before we help anyone else.

What is your "oxygen mask"? Unless you take care of yourself, you can't take care of anyone else. Remember that and smile!

Sherie

I am a Relationship Coach who helps others create happy, healthy, loving relationships…including the relationship they have with themselves…by breaking through those blocks and barriers to success. I use various techniques gathered through training as a Master Practitioner of NLP, timeline, hypnosis and common sense gathered through life experience.

I love this article, Sherie! Your suggestions are wonderful. I will give myself a “Time Out” for 5 minutes when I am starting to feel overwhelmed and just let myself just ‘Be.’ This, as well as staying in the Now and being grateful works well for me as well as I am already incorporating your great tips into my life. Thank you!

Hi Sherie, Are you sitting here next to me? LOL Man you are so right! Just dragged myself away from my computer for a little while to get some shopping done and I do feel re-refreshed! Panic button – GO AWAY! 🙂