ew the idea of hooking up and friends with benefits is even worse to me than a relationship obv. i don't judge people who do, like i don't give a shit what people do but hooking up and friends with benefits and one night stands are just definitely not for me

ew the idea of hooking up and friends with benefits is even worse to me than a relationship obv. i don't judge people who do, like i don't give a shit what people do but hooking up and friends with benefits and one night stands are just definitely not for me

ew the idea of hooking up and friends with benefits is even worse to me than a relationship obv. i don't judge people who do, like i don't give a shit what people do but hooking up and friends with benefits and one night stands are just definitely not for me

It's fine, I know my family isn't too pleased about it so I've heard it all

I don't really consider it friends with benefits. That's something I don't want to get into because it almost always ends up bad. I guess I consider it just friends with a twist?

I'm not really a one nighter type, either. Most of the guys I've fucked with I've gotten with again and I stay with that circle of guys. But there are just some guys who are too hot to deny.

OMG..........I have a rotation of guys. I never thought about it like that until now

As long as the two people don't become too needy and dependent of one another and can basically keep their friendship and regular day life and personal night life separated, it's fine. But it almost never ends up that way

never had a relationship, never had a proper first kiss let alone anything even more haha and I'm completely fine with it tbh.

that said I think I am in love with love if that makes sense? like its such a beautiful thing to be able to love someone and/or having someone love you, and it makes me really warm and fuzzy to see people in a happy relationship and all, but despite that I don't see myself in a relationship for a longgggg time nor do I feel like I want or need one right now

never had a relationship, never had a proper first kiss let alone anything even more haha and I'm completely fine with it tbh.

that said I think I am in love with love if that makes sense? like its such a beautiful thing to be able to love someone and/or having someone love you, and it makes me really warm and fuzzy to see people in a happy relationship and all, but despite that I don't see myself in a relationship for a longgggg time nor do I feel like I want or need one right now

Oh yeah, that makes perfect sense. I think I'm the same way. I've never had a real relationship but I have had quite a few hookups. During my first two years of university, that's basically all I would do. I think it's because I had really poor self-esteem then.

There was this guy I really like a lot but he recently send me a text saying that he choose "the scriptures" over any feelings he had for me.

i guess it's jsut different for everyone for me i can't really like someone unless i actually knew them. like i could be physically attracted to you but it doesn't compell me to approach them let alone have sex with them or something. maybe i'm just being too picky?

but yeah see!! it's messy and people's feelings get hurt i believe everyone will find someone eventually and when they r ready tho.

btw on that side note, i hate how people let religion run their life though. people shouldn't let someone else govern what they do with their own bodies!