• harassing her about affairs the abuser imagines she is having 诬赖受害者在外有外遇并对他严厉的辱骂

Isolation孤立受害者

• stopping a woman from going to visit her relatives and friends 不让受害者和亲朋戚友有联络

• confining her to the house 关闭受害者在住家

• stopping her from socialising with others 不让她和大众有联系

Threat威胁受害者

• threatening to kill a woman 威胁要杀她

• threatening to take her child(ren) away 威胁会带走她的孩子

• threatening her that he will commit suicide 威胁受害者，威胁者会自杀，如果。。。。

• threatening to divorce her (this I added on myself)威胁对方要离婚

Of course it can be the other way round. so if any of your friends have any of these, please tell them to get help. Sometimes medical doctors overlook the issues behind the sickness compained by patients. These were my learning when I helped to do research questionnaire on domestic violence (nation wide) by the medical faculty of USM