tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8104692645589867745.post7554923026047307653..comments2015-03-02T16:07:10.175-07:00Comments on The Anarchist Soccer Mom: The D WordAnarchist Soccer Momhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18104642282433680432noreply@blogger.comBlogger12125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8104692645589867745.post-46421343759219548202013-01-04T22:15:25.158-07:002013-01-04T22:15:25.158-07:00Really, Mandycap, marrying someone younger than yo...Really, Mandycap, marrying someone younger than you after divorcing your wife makes you a possible murderer? Come on, now.KyleM1701http://www.blogger.com/profile/01471200774895971562noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8104692645589867745.post-7298326132658743762012-12-20T22:07:54.767-07:002012-12-20T22:07:54.767-07:00She kind of is asking your opinion if she enables ...She kind of is asking your opinion if she enables comments. Just sayin&#39;, Mandycamp.lanie dayhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03702330000207943892noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8104692645589867745.post-19685815412488484612012-12-18T19:06:09.349-07:002012-12-18T19:06:09.349-07:00I just read every single blog post and I love your...I just read every single blog post and I love your writing!!! You are a fascinating person.futureshockhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16131024328687419483noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8104692645589867745.post-69059582054943942272012-12-18T12:44:12.277-07:002012-12-18T12:44:12.277-07:00Followed a link here. I am glad I took the time to...Followed a link here. I am glad I took the time to read your blog. Take a few lines out and you sound crazy. Read it all and you are a very intelligent caring mother. Why share this with the world/ You are a gifted writer and have a story to tell. Thank youC. Jeffords, 2009http://www.blogger.com/profile/15531930024314504992noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8104692645589867745.post-68729607001682726282012-12-18T11:11:15.222-07:002012-12-18T11:11:15.222-07:00@KyleM1701 Her husband left her and her children a...@KyleM1701 Her husband left her and her children and married a 20 year old in less than a year. That makes him a douchbag. <br />And to all others. If you have nothing nice to say, don&#39;t you say anything at all. She isn&#39;t asking for your opinion. She is telling her story, about her life, and no one has the right to judge someone unless they&#39;ve walked a mile in their shoes.mandycaphttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01391181425485382287noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8104692645589867745.post-49764664172626091232012-12-18T08:50:33.930-07:002012-12-18T08:50:33.930-07:00Love your blog! Please keep writing, you are witty...Love your blog! Please keep writing, you are witty, thoughtful and insightful.amyk8gapgirlhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11648712111293902654noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8104692645589867745.post-51586113166876730052012-12-16T18:23:08.780-07:002012-12-16T18:23:08.780-07:00Like some of the others my wife and I read you&#39...Like some of the others my wife and I read you&#39;re now popular post on your and decided start from the beginning. We have some criticism, but not the kind you&#39;ve been getting about being a &quot;bad parent&quot;. We don&#39;t think you&#39;re that, necessarily.<br /><br />We do think you&#39;ve been too harsh on your husband. Seeing how troubled your kids are perhaps in hindsight he was correct to want them incarcerated when he did. He seems to have seen something you didn&#39;t at the time. Not everyone can deal with two difficult, possibly mentally ill children. He couldn&#39;t and I don&#39;t really blame him. Tiny things regarding feeding, sleeping, and schools can wear heavily on parents, stressing them and even breaking them up. I can&#39;t imagine what two people deciding whether to lock their kids up or not would be going through. I assume it&#39;s worse.<br /><br />You may also consider, due to their mental state, that it may have been one of your kids that tried to kill you by loosening your car wheel. I find it odd that you refused to accuse your husband of murder in front of the police, but on a public blog it&#39;s a-ok. I&#39;m shocked he hasn&#39;t sued you.<br /><br />Anyway, that&#39;s my food for thought. Take it as you will.KyleM1701http://www.blogger.com/profile/01471200774895971562noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8104692645589867745.post-32627011071298885182012-12-16T17:03:08.116-07:002012-12-16T17:03:08.116-07:00Welcome to the dark side.Welcome to the dark side.pursuingnothinghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15684845785100316482noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8104692645589867745.post-17802046834129156312012-12-16T15:56:16.920-07:002012-12-16T15:56:16.920-07:00Ive been scanning your blog trying to understand w...Ive been scanning your blog trying to understand why you love Che Guevara. It makes no sense. You seem like a loving mother who appreciates family religion and even the military. Why you would idolize Che Guevara, I guess we will never know.Political Juleshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12923204088611593341noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8104692645589867745.post-19437605432073016912012-12-16T15:49:57.062-07:002012-12-16T15:49:57.062-07:00Like another commenter, I was touched by the piece...Like another commenter, I was touched by the piece about your son, which someone posted on Facebook, and I went to read your other posts. Your writing is funny and beautiful (love your outfit-building skills), and I was immediately seized with worry for you because of all the attention you are sure to get very very soon. Another friend just posted on FB the link to the Gawker.com reprint (giving your name), and I hope that people will link to that page and not your blog when they share it further; I&#39;ve read some of the insanely ignorant comments on the Gawker posting, and you don&#39;t deserve that kind of treatment on your personal blog (or anywhere, frankly, but I guess it’s unavoidable). You may want to protect it from the cruelty of strangers by turning off comments, and perhaps it would be good to have a friend (I&#39;m sure you&#39;re pretty busy with 4 kids and all the sure-to-be-coming media attention) read through your posts to make sure no info about you that&#39;s too personal has been disclosed? (Or maybe just set them to &quot;draft&quot; for now and wait for the storm to blow over?) I hate sounding so fearful, but people can be SO scarily mean.<br /><br />I have to commend you for being brave, both as a mom and as a writer. What you are experiencing reminds me of spousal abuse but a thousand times worse; for most people (I can’t say all) there&#39;s no one we want to love and protect more than our own children. How hard it must be to need to protect yourself from your own son! I’m a mom of twin toddler girls, a middle school teacher (stay at home starting just this school year, though), a lawyer on inactive status, and the daughter of a man who scared my mom (his ex) and the rest of us for 14 years, had a few years of seeming wellness after a stint in prison (for assaulting police officers, not my mom), and then finally shot himself--and only himself, thankfully--a few years ago. We still don&#39;t know exactly what was going on—probably a serious case of manic depression but we don’t know because he never sought help—but he was soooo charming and handsome (and successful when he tried) that no one outside our family understood what we were going through. <br /><br />However angry and threatening he got with us at times, though, he was a million times less scary than your son, and I do have memories of genuinely loving and happy times with him. A very very different situation, yes, but I remember the anxiety I grew up with; often with him, it was like walking through a minefield (he would say, ”I wouldn’t be so angry if you didn’t act so scared of me.” huh?), and I can’t imagine the anxiety that you and your other kids must have to live with. My heart and thoughts are with you.<br /><br />Jessica<br /><br />Ms. Prentisshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16095426828828098782noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8104692645589867745.post-74224513077432109592012-12-16T10:47:02.488-07:002012-12-16T10:47:02.488-07:00I wish I could speak with you. This is terrifying....I wish I could speak with you. This is terrifying. Norman Greenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03918520638101002753noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8104692645589867745.post-19244327487837785842012-12-16T10:29:58.880-07:002012-12-16T10:29:58.880-07:00Dear ASM:
I would like to follow your blog. Your ...Dear ASM:<br /><br />I would like to follow your blog. Your powerful statement about mental illness hooked me, and I first read all of 2012, and then went back to the start. That is where I am posting this comment. <br /><br />Unfortunately, when I click on the &quot;subscribe&quot; link (ATOM) at the bottom of the blog listings, all I get is a page full of gibberish. <br /><br />I do a blog on blogger myself (www.gapatton.net), and I hope that same thing doesn&#39;t happen to anyone who wants to follow my blog. Maybe it does, in view of how many followers that turns out to be! I get around the feeling that I am talking to myself by posting my blog to Facebook. Those guys see it whether they want to or not.<br /><br />You have a wonderful voice! If you can figure it out, please let me know how to subscribe to your ASM postings. Thanks!Gary A. Pattonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15049925834933920507noreply@blogger.com