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Besides what she calls the inevitable "lazy comparison" that some critics are making to HBO's other female-centric hit "Girls," Orji's eyebrows were raised by one online troll who lamented that the show proves that the premium cable network has "now become BET." "If white people loved black people as much as they love black culture, the world would be a different place," Orji told NBC News, echoing remarks made last year by "Hunger Games" actress Amandla Stenberg.

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