If you were to find someone and fall in love... and they were willing to open up and share a fetish with you would you try it? For a little while, modifying your lifestyle for them?

Let's say that fetish was their desire for you to gain 5 lbs. Would you gain 5 lbs because it turned them on and you loved them? How about 50 lbs? Would you be willing to gain 150 lbs for someone you loved because it turned them on?

Curious about this particular fetish? read on...

"Feederism, Is a term widely used to describe sexual relationships where both members obtain gratification from the gaining of body fat. Feederism refers to the acts of feeding, encouraging eating, or being served large quantities of food in order to achieve sexual pleasure from the act, or from the process of gaining weight, becoming fatter, and modifying the body.

The fondling of the adipose tissue of an overweight or obese person for one with a fat fetish is usually sexually arousing and is often similar to that of mammary intercourse. They may be aroused by the presence of a pannus or other hanging flaps of skin such as those on the thighs, arms, and back. Some people are aroused by the appearance of male breasts ("man boobs"), caused by the presence of fat under the chest, known as pseudogynecomastia." (Cited from Wikipedia.)

Unfortunately, with such fetishes it puts one's health at risk. You're setting yourself or your partner up for high blood pressure, high cholesterol, reduced liver function, a weakened heart, and a slew of other health problems.

Would YOU be willing to reduce your quality of life or your lifespan for your lover? Would you be willing to ask the same of them?

Kinda sounds to me like a bit of a control factor...maybe persuading someone to gain weight so the chances of someone else wanting them would not be there....It's not healthy either.Personally, I wouldn't do it...