My boyfriend just broke up with me. The day before Valentine’s Day. And I put my dog down Thursday. Kind of numb . I hope it goes away soon. How long did the pain last for you? I know we’re all different but I’m just searching for answers

UPDATE: THANK YOU GUYS SO MUCH. Man, I never thought I’d have such amazing support. I feel like I grew new skin just reading everyone’s comments and messages. My nausea is subsiding with every motivational comment. Wow thanks Reddit!

Yeah well don’t do that. It’s not even just about sex and coupling here. Cis people would benefit of people would stop minimizing each other this way.

Some people can't imagine having sex with someone who doesn't have a penis, whereas some people can't imagine having sex with someone who doesn't have a vagina. Even if everything else clicks.

How sad for them. I wonder if that would still be the case if people didn’t minimize each other into genital carrying cases.

If they are serving pizza I believe a lot of people who want pizza would be down for it, even if it's not the pizza they had imagined. I totally agree that pizza is still pizza, even if it's not my kind of pizza. The point is that there are pizza places that don't serve pizza, but serve sushi instead (For example a woman with a penis).

If you keep hanging neon lights off your metaphors it’s not gonna be any fun.

As I said, it’s minimizing to the point of inaccuracy and not to mention to say transwomen are analogous to sushi from a pizza restaurant. There are a huge number of things that go into femininity and masculinity other than penises and vaginas. A food with crust and cheese and sauce is suddenly not a pizza if it’s got a topping you’re not used to seeing on it?

It might still be a pizza but nobody fucking wants to eat gross pizza with weird toppings we didn’t order. If somebody is willing to eat the anchovies on the pizza then that’s great but don’t get upset if someone else just wants their normal same pizza.

There are a lot of people that cheat once ever and feel terrible about it and manage to fix their relationships. Not condoning it - I’ve been cheated on thrice and I know how terrible it feels. But there are different levels of bad here, from once ever and actively trying to fix things to tiger woods and we don’t know what the situation is here.

like i said, in NA can be different, but normally "buying contracts" is Team A pays Team B a fee for the player, and Team A makes a new contract for the player. when those conditions are met, the purchase is made.

A player can always stop a negotiation if he refuses the contract.

more specifically, players have a "price" that must be paid for the team to release him (it can even be for free or a trade). but if the player rejects, he will stay in his team since he has a contract. teams or players can't just "destroy" a contract.

That is not how it works in NA, if these league contracts work at all like sports contracts. If you are traded to another team, your contract is still the same. If they choose to give you a new contract, great, but otherwise you are stuck.

I know this is an unpopular opinion but I think that our society has moved past dancing girls in the NBA. Like I understand cheerleaders, but then why aren't there ever any guy cheerleaders? They are not cheerleaders, they are dancers. It's gross.

You might have. Some people might have. Society as a whole most definitely has not moved past it. People in general want to see attractive scantily clad women everywhere. Sex sells has long been marketing rule #1. It’s not changing anytime soon.

It is. Several friends at my local Costco. I worked at sams club for years which was terrible.

They are correct in that it’s still retail. It’s going to be a certain level of soulless. But it pays much higher than similar jobs, up to forty percent more at my local Costco than my local sams club. That’s starting out.

The benefits are much nicer as well. On the sliding scale of retail hell, it’s about as close to purgatory as you get.

Theres a reason t he average Costco employee has like 9 years of experience and the average sams club employee has about 2.

Surprisingly enough I installed that Saturday and put an hour into it last night before I went to sleep. It’s pretty fun but I don’t understand the story at all and it also seems really easy lol. That’s just me. I feel like i’ve not even started though so tbh I can’t comment on anything haha. I see what you’re getting at.

People on PCs have been primarily using text chat for over 20 years, voice chat is not something every PC player has. I assume the vast majority of gamers on console have a mic, but it's much more hit and miss on PC, because literally every person has a keyboard for communication.

It's not a stress issue, it's a convenience issue. I can only use voice chat when I use headphones, but most of the time, I prefer to use speakers for audio.

I know a lot of people who have gotten engaged after 1-2 years, and I'm just sitting going "really?" Hell, one of my best friends who got married that quick has been asking me when I'm going to propose to my partner.

Like, I didn't want to move in as early as we did (6 months) but we both needed to move at the same time, and with the friend circle we had we were able to get in a kickass house with a pair. We maintain separate rooms for our sanity though.

I love my partner a lot. Even when we wear on each other, there's still nothing but love. But I'm under rules where they cna propose whenever they want, whereas I have to wait ten years. It's semi joking, but at the same time, ten years is the right amount of time imo to get the full measure of a person and know if they're who you want. It's why common law marriage is often set to that amount.

I'm rambling here, but I think the point I'm trying to make is people rush into shit poorly, when they'd be better served with patience.

And I'm 28. So many friends are getting married, but like, it's crazy they're doing it with so far short relationships. I like the old style of doing stuff as a minimum: a year and a day of dating, a year and a day handfasted/living together, and a year and a day engaged. Three years before marriage seems solid and reasonable to me, at least.

Loved Mario kart 64 at release. Put hundreds of hours into it. Absolutely hated DKR at the time as did all my friends.

When I found it everyone seemed to have a reverse opinion I tried the two via emulator last year. Still the same opinion - I think DKR is garbage.

Not devaluing anyone else's thoughts - I'm sure it's a lovely game. I just being it up because some people just like Mario kart better and it has nothing to do with hipster attitude. The game was flat out more popular at the time as well.

I might get downvoted for it but I genuinely feel like iAlien had a more "iPhone" vibe to it. However it isn't supported and they won't even take my money to get ads turned off.

Downloaded your app, and it is very nice. Maybe nice enough to get me to switch. I put in a donation either way because I'd rather support someone that actually takes suggestions and time to fix things then ignore their users.

And realistically, your app does look very similar on the post browsing page - just the way the text below is different feels weird but that's just due to it being different from what I'm used to as it is totally fine. Going to use this all week and see if it sticks. Have tried literally all of the other iOS options.

One feature I'd like to see. It I might be alone in this - parent comments having a different background color to more easily distinguish them from other comments. Again, maybe this isn't something everyone wants and I'll only miss it because I'm one of the twelve iAlien users left.