This is a serious question. No one can answer this question or make the decision for you. You must be the one to decide. Choose a group that offers you opportunities to develop enduring friendships, leaders who will inspire you to do your best, and a house in which you feel relaxed and at home. In joining a fraternity, you are beginning a lifetime relationship with an organization. You can be an initiated member of only one National Inter-Fraternity or one National Pan-Hellenic Fraternity.