Sois belle à ta façon

Before you keep thinking or Google the title, I will tell you the meaning of the title. It means “Be beautiful in your own way“. The reason I used this title is cause I hardly find anyone who is having an individual character or personality both physically and mentally. Everyone is so busy with pretending to be someone else or acting completely different than being themselves and above all this they do this only for the sake of attention or impress there friends.

Many youngster’s these days feel the need to be accepted by their peers, I have seen people change their clothing, the manner in which they converse and the people whom they associate themselves with, just to fit-in , this has become a social problem and due to this youngster’s are depriving of their individuality and the social skills. They are so obsessed with fitting into some kind of clique or say merge into some group of people who they think are cool. Why ? Why do you want others to accept you ? You are not running the race of their life you have your own.

I strongly believe that you shouldn’t let other people direct your life, you are nothing but a slave then. I don’t think you should wear clothes which others think look beautiful on you or what their thoughts are, you are the one wearing it make sure you are comfortable with it. Be yourself don’t act like being someone else, just be you and creative, there is no one like you in the whole of earth. Trying to do something cool may lead you to various problems.

Life is very short to be worrying about what others think of you. It is hard to digest when people discriminate you on how you look or what you do, just don’t care about what people think about you. You are just wasting your life your basing everything you do in life and basing what others think of you. When your true to yourself, you allow your individuality and uniqueness to shine through, you respect the opinions of others but don’t conform to stereotypes or their expectations of you.

It takes lots of courage to be true to yourself, it requires you to be introspective, sincere, open-minded, and fair . By this I don’t mean that you should be inconsiderate or disrespectful to others, it simply means that you won’t let others define you or make decisions for you that you should make for yourself. Be true to the very best that is in you and live your life consistent with your highest values and aspirations. Those who are most successful in life have dared to creatively express themselves and in turn, broaden the experiences and perspectives of everyone else.

Always remember a bird sitting on a branch of tree is not afraid the branch breaking because it doesn’t trust the tree but on its wings.