My boyfriend

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bamagirl98 wrote:

I read alot about men who don't seem the same way they used to when you first got together. I left my dad's early March. My boyfriend rescued me and he says I rescued him. I've tried working but couldn't because I can't find a work-at-home job and he doesn't want me to work where I used to in case I hurt myself and the baby.

He is the greatest thing that has ever happened to me and we found out not long ago we were having a boy. Both of us are super excited because it's our first kid. He will be 35 in December and I will be 20 in March. We never cared about age so please don't say anything bad about it.

He cooks since I never knew how to, he gets me anything I need or want and does the sweetest things for me. He basically spoils me to death and pampers me so much.

I'm not trying to make anyone jealous on here. I just really want people to know that they are good men out there. No matter the age. And with everything bad that has happened to me before I left my dad's, I'm so grateful to have him.

I’m glad you’re happy and good men do exist. I agree with the pp’s though. He’s almost twice your age and you’re still very young and naive. You’ve never learned to fully support yourself so if this relationship goes south (hopefully not) you have no idea how to make it on your own. There’s a great imbalance of power in your relationship.