What does it mean when you dream about someone you like?

What does it mean when you dream about someone you like?
Why do we dream about certain people?
What does it mean when you dream about your crush?

Is this something you should read into more?

The short answer is YES. If you are finding yourself dreaming about your crush or someone you like, there’s a very good chance your subconscious is causing this to happen for a reason (as opposed to just being a random dream).

What most people don’t realise is that our dreams are coded. For example, if you are worried about your looks, instead of dreaming that you are worried about your looks, you might find yourself dreaming that your teeth are falling out.

Your subconscious scrambles the thought that is inside your head (i.e. you being worried about your looks) and creates a scenario in your dream that would clearly cause you to worry about your looks (i.e. your teeth falling out).

By creating this awful scenario, your subconscious mind hopes to motivate you to take more care of your looks in real life so that your looks will no longer bother you. You see, your subconscious is always looking out for you. It sees that your looks are bothering you in real life, so it makes you dream of a horrible situation of your looks in order to get you to take action in real life.

So what does it mean when you dream about someone you like?

When you dream about someone you like you’ll most likely find that you do not interact directly with the person in the dream. Most likely you will be at a distance from them observing or glancing at them. You may even see them hanging out with friends or members of the opposite sex. Very RARELY do people who dream of someone they like actually talk with the person in their dream.

Basically, whats happening here is that your subconscious recognises that this person is important to you. It sees that this person can fill a hole or a space in your life that most other people would not be able to …and so it is causing you to dream about them in order to keep you thinking about them so that you will work towards bringing them into your life.

Your subconscious is trying to:

Remind You Of Whats Important: Your subconscious recognises that this person is important to you and so a dream is a way for your subconscious mind to remind you of this fact in case you would let them slip away from you in real life.

Program Your Mind: Your subconscious wants to make you think about the person more and more in your real life when you are awake. The more it can get you to think about someone, the more likely you are to fall in love with them. And if you fall in love with them, then you work that much harder in real life to bring them into your life.

Create Fear: Your subconscious causes you to see the person at a distance (and possibly with members of the opposite sex) in order to create a fear in you of losing the person. By putting the person at a distance from you, you’re more likely to act in real life to prevent this distance (metaphorically speaking) from getting bigger.

All three of the above essentially are designed to motivate you to bring this person (who it recognises is important to you) into your life. In my book “THE LOVEMAP CODE: How To Make Someone Fall In Love With You Using Psychology” I show how to program a persons mind to subconsciously recognise you as someone important in their life …so that they will work harder to bring you into their life.

Why do I need a dream to motivate me?

Right now, you may be consciously making the decision NOT to try to get with this person. It may be that you’ve decided:

They are too good-looking and so you will never make them fall in love with you.

You are worried you are not good enough for the persons parents and so it would be better to not try and get with this person.

Or you might think you lack something (like money, large circle of social friends, good sense of humor etc) and so you reason it would be a waste of time trying to get with this person.

While you may consciously try to think up of excuses of why you should not approach or try to get with this person, your subconscious still recognises that this person can fill an important need in your life.

Because of this, it will not allow you to forget them. Its basically trying to over-ride your conscious mind (where you are being slow to approach the person) and trying to motivate you to try to get with the person. And it may be the case that it will keep causing you to dream about them intermittently until you do so.