Nurse helps woman say goodbye to mother over FaceTime before she died from coronavirus

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they knew we couldn't be with her. I could tell the emotion in both there and the doctor's voices of their frustration knowing we couldn't be there or be risk the infection. So the nurse Tatiana, then she had called me about 10 o'clock at night and said, um, you know what? Your mother's breeding is changing, you know, we can see that. It probably won't be much longer. I'm gonna take myself. If it was her personal cell phone and I'm gonna I'm gonna go and get dressed in all the protective gear I have to be in. And then I'm gonna put the phone up to her face so that you can tell her you love her and say your goodbyes. And it was so touching just to know that I couldn't be there. And I said to the nurse, Is it can you please hold her hand? Can you rub her head? Can you pretend you know, like we're there with her? And she said she will not be alone. We will stay with her to the end. And so 10 minutes later we get the phone call for face time and you know, she put it right up to my mother's face. And, um, you know, I could I could tell my mom I loved her and how much I was gonna miss her.

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Nurse helps woman say goodbye to mother over FaceTime before she died from coronavirus

Michelle Bennett didn't think she'd be able to say goodbye to her mother before she died.Like a lot of families across the country right now, Bennett was told she couldn't be in the same vicinity as her 75-year-old mother, Carolann Christine Gann, who had contracted coronavirus and was nearing the end of her life."Not being able to be there and hold my mom's hand, rub her head, tell her the things I wanted to say her. It was such a helpless feeling, I can just remember the days leading up feeling so frustrated and helpless and not being able to talk to her because she was not conscious during that time," Bennett told CNN Monday.But a nurse at Swedish Issaquah Hospital in Washington state took it upon herself to make sure Bennett got to say her goodbyes. Bennett told CNN the nurse called her from her personal cell phone and said her mother's breathing was changing and she probably wouldn't live much longer."I'm going to put the phone up to her face so you can tell her you love her and say your goodbyes," Bennett says the nurse told her. "She will not be alone, we will stay with her till the end."Ten minutes later, Bennett says she was speaking to her ailing mother over FaceTime."I love you very much," Bennett told her mother, adding the two had discussed recently the trials every mother-daughter relationship goes through and that she never got to tell her mother she forgave her."I forgive you mom, I love you. I know I didn't get a chance to say it," Bennett said.She admitted it was tough expressing her feelings when she wasn't actually there, but she hopes her mother heard her last words."Mom, it's OK to pass on. It's OK to go now."Within an hour, Bennett said she was gone.Bennet said she saw the nurse was crying as she took the phone away."I know how difficult this is for them," she said. "I can't imagine being on the front lines of that and having to go home everyday and risk infection themselves, but then have the compassion and the empathy to be right there in that moment as if it was their own mother. That was one of the most amazing things I've experienced."

Michelle Bennett didn't think she'd be able to say goodbye to her mother before she died.

Like a lot of families across the country right now, Bennett was told she couldn't be in the same vicinity as her 75-year-old mother, Carolann Christine Gann, who had contracted coronavirus and was nearing the end of her life.

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"Not being able to be there and hold my mom's hand, rub her head, tell her the things I wanted to say her. It was such a helpless feeling, I can just remember the days leading up feeling so frustrated and helpless and not being able to talk to her because she was not conscious during that time," Bennett told CNN Monday.

But a nurse at Swedish Issaquah Hospital in Washington state took it upon herself to make sure Bennett got to say her goodbyes. Bennett told CNN the nurse called her from her personal cell phone and said her mother's breathing was changing and she probably wouldn't live much longer.

"I'm going to put the phone up to her face so you can tell her you love her and say your goodbyes," Bennett says the nurse told her. "She will not be alone, we will stay with her till the end."

Ten minutes later, Bennett says she was speaking to her ailing mother over FaceTime.

"I love you very much," Bennett told her mother, adding the two had discussed recently the trials every mother-daughter relationship goes through and that she never got to tell her mother she forgave her.

"I forgive you mom, I love you. I know I didn't get a chance to say it," Bennett said.

She admitted it was tough expressing her feelings when she wasn't actually there, but she hopes her mother heard her last words.

"Mom, it's OK to pass on. It's OK to go now."

Within an hour, Bennett said she was gone.

Bennet said she saw the nurse was crying as she took the phone away.

"I know how difficult this is for them," she said. "I can't imagine being on the front lines of that and having to go home everyday and risk infection themselves, but then have the compassion and the empathy to be right there in that moment as if it was their own mother. That was one of the most amazing things I've experienced."