Chaotic amalgam of notes on the life and loves of a half Welsh 45 year old working mother of two in Suffolk UK!

Tuesday, 8 August 2017

Matters of the heart.....

I have got all my
bits and bobs together NHS number, insurance number, authorisation number,
phone number and am basically just waiting…

Waiting to go and visit
the Cardiologist.

At present I am
trying to work out whether or not I want all this to be a storm in a teacup or
actually something serious…

I don't want it to
be too serious but I do want there to be something wrong…

If you get what I
mean.

Nothing too wrong,
mind.

To put you in the
picture ever since I was put on Tricyclics/serotonin for depression back in
1992 (Yes I do mean last century) I have had dizzy spells. I stopped taking
anti-depressants more than 20 years ago but the dizzy spells have persisted. Every
now and then I get them so badly I sway and a few times I have blacked out totally.
However, after 25 years I am used to them - more or less.

However recently
they have been a bit more noticeable and the other day in Finbows, while buying
some kit for the builders (when am I ever without builders), I had such a bad
turn that I frightened myself. It was horrid and I remember thinking that
people must have thought I was drunk.

I decided to get
hold of the Doctor and rang them up. There was a spare slot that very afternoon
so I took it.

Not such a clever
idea, I fancy.

Or maybe it was a
lifesaving move...???

I am afraid the jury
is still out on that one.

Anyway, I saw the
Doctor she asked what had happened and took my blood pressure and pulse.

I thought she was
going to pat me on the head and send me away admonishing me for getting worked
up and stressing myself out.

No.

She instead asked me
to go immediately to the other clinic and get on the heart monitor.

OK says I a bit
bewildered.

“Oh!” says she, “did
you drive yourself?”

I looked at her as
if she were mad – we live in the countryside FFS, its four o’clock in the
afternoon in the middle of the week and bus services between villages are
unheard of even at the best of times… “Yes.”

“Well you’ll have to
leave your car here and get someone to take you.”

I was non-plussed to
say the least, but so very forceful was she that I did as I was told.

I went to the other
clinic, I was strapped into the monitor and the next thing I know an ambulance
is called and I am on my way to hospital.

To cut a long story
short I have low blood pressure coupled with a low heart rate of under 60bpm –
which is fine if you are Mo Farah or Usain Bolt- not so good if you are me - an overweight 50-year old mother of two
who instead of exercising for the past 11 months has taken up chocolate eating
as a past time.

I stayed I the
hospital overnight and was released back in the community the next day a bit
shaken up but more or less OK with the promise that I will be booked into have
an ECG and 24 heart monitor at some point as an out patient.

Not really knowing
what was going onand keen to get to the
bottom of this I went to speak to my GP the following Monday morning and what
happened there put me ina real spin.

I arrive, having
driven myself. I get to see the doctor.

I ask what is
happening and when will I get to know what is wrong. I say I am fed up with
being dizzy and tiered all the time and not getting any headway as to what is
wrong. I suggest perhaps it’s my thyroid.

I get told
forcefully that I have had every blood test known to man over the past 10 years
and that the problem lies with my heart.

For a moment I am
silent.

My heart? Seriously?

Yes seriously – the
heart should always be taken seriously.

Oh…

And I would advise
that you don't drive…

Oh! But I have to drive
– FFS we live in the countryside, I am the sole carer of my children during the
week, its the holidays, how can I shop….

It’s too risky for
you to drive or take exercise

What do you mean too
risky?

If your heart rate
increases then the oxygen cannot get to your brainand that is serious…

Oh….

You need to talk to
the DVLA and inform your insurance. I have written this down onyour medical notes…

The upshot is basically
no driving at all. The DVLA are happy for me to drive but I am uninsurable so I
am stuck…

This has
necessitated me calling in the troops and my mother turning up to act as
chauffeur for the time being and it has brought home to me that perhaps: THIS
IS SERIOUS.

With that in mind I
am afraid my imagination has run riot.

I am one of those
people who have to know and understand what is going on or else I worry.

So for the last week
I have worried.

I have also Googled
but luckily - or unluckily depending on your point of view - my symptoms are
not very normal so there is not much about it.

If you look upslow heart rate and low blood pressure you
get a lot of stuff about low blood pressure but the combo of the twothere is not so much…

When you look up the
technical medical terms for low heart rate and low blood pressure (Bradycardia
and Hypotension) it just becomes far too bizarre and way beyond my technical
medical knowledge.

And thus I sit here
trying to calm myself…

No kidding I have
devised a worse case scenario but it wasn’t pleasant especially the first
couple nights when I could not get to sleep for fear my heart would stop
beating. I only managed to calm myself enough by writing out my will…

Now that that has
not happened I have gone onto other scenarios – heart transplant was the worst
I could think of and managed to reassure myself that I would be Ok as I have
bulk standard ordinary blood: Type O Positive.

I have also worked
out that if I am never able to drive again I could move to Framlingham quite
happily and live in town. There are a number of very nice homes available with
big enough gardens for the dogs that I can afford and we would be able to buy a
pad in London too for Charlie to live in as Fram is just too far awayto comfortably commute with his long hours.

So I have crossed of
the worst scenarios and found that I can survive quite happily.

But there is the
thing…

What if there is
actually nothing wrong with me at all?

The last week has
been just a storm in a teacup..

THAT is a scenario I
am totally unprepared for….and I will feel SUCH a fraud.

I have to keep
reminding myself that this isn’t my fault especially if it IS a storm in the
teacup. I didn’t take myself to hospital. I didn't just decide not to drive…

3 comments:

Tattie, i am just popping by after several years away from blogland.... so am calling by old friends and berlimey....i do hope you are okay??? what a horrendously scary time, i have my fingers crossed that everything is sorted now???x