Saturday, 6 April 2013

It is true that the older you get..or rather the more you learn about yourself, the less you care what other people think about what you do, how you do it or their opinions about you that really serve you no purpose. Of course not all things will be roses. Sometimes you do need to hear a criticism you may not like about yourself...but that all depends on the person that's coming from and if their intenion is true.

Recently, as I struggle to be positive about certain situations in my life, I’ve been giving some serious thought to how I transformed my outlook from negative-focused to positive-focused.Like everyone, I have good days and bad days, but, for the most part, there has been a BIG shift in my attitude over the past year. Though I have to admit that there are many, many factors involved in my personal development.My rule of thumb :Never Give Up.

This may be the most basic piece of advice, but it really is the most important. No matter what you're up against, no matter how many obstacles you face, no matter how many people tell you you can't or shouldn't -- don't ever give up. It can be so hard not to sometimes, but reminding myself "Don't ever give up" has really worked. Whenever I feel like I don't want to keep going on something or some task is too hard to manage, I remind myself never to give up and it always gets me through. No matter what people say, no matter what you tell yourself, keep these four words in the forefront of your mind: Don't. Ever. Give. Up.

I can't be my best if I'm not allowing myself time to continue to learn and grow as a person.I need to have things in life that help me to feel happy and fulfilled.There are time in my life when I wasn't sure that I would ever find true love and my outlook on relationships wasn't exactly positive.I believed there is always second chance to keep on going without giving up.

"It's always our own self that we find at the end of the journey.The sooner we face that self, the better."

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Dear miss...Reading your post kinda sad. The last time we read it, u was going to Mekah for umrah. We pray to Allah for u to chg to a better person and earned better life. I think you are in a midst of stress & depression. Maybe 'hijrah' would be better trade for u. Sometime, when u did not get the result that you wanted, u just need to change your approach. if I may say this, possibly the journey that u travel is not in Allah's satisfaction. If u refer to 'Surah Insyirah'(94) : 5-6, every hardship there is a relief & then verse 7-8 said to stand & worship Allah by doing all his commandments and to Him we ask for all our hopes and intentions. I think your parents had prayed very hard for u everyday, and all the hardship u gone through maybe a sign that shows that Allah is answering their prayers. Verily, Allah is the best planner. By knowing that one's father going to live only for 2 yrs. we should be ready to submit and prepare ourself by doing anything that could helps our parents become a member of the Jannah. Ameen!