Well all i can say is that am deeply in love with a girl and she some what the same with me, but we have been like this for nearly two year and it seems its only starting and all i can say is that i cant imagine life with out her.

You might be wondering why this isnt in the relationship forum, but the reason this relationship is at a puase is becuase of how i feel about my penis i ges. I am a late starter and i started febuary 2003 and my vioce broke october 2003 and now i have pubes but not as much as i thought i would have...i havnt noticed any reacent changes with my body..i have very little arm pit hair.

My problem really is my penis is roughly 5 1/2 inches but i feel its to small, but also feel i am not hard enuf i never been solid, its has been hard but not really hard and tends to be less harder at the base of the penis..but i feel the only way i can keep this girl is to give her sex even tho she hasnt hinted and asked...but maybe u can give me advice.

I wouldn't worry about your size; 5 1/2" is perfectly fine. I don't know what to say about getting harder, though. At least for me it varies in degree from time to time. I think the best thing you can do is not to worry about it, because if your girlfriend really loves you, then she'll be able to look past any problems you may have. You know what they say, omnia vincit amor, "love conquers all." Anyways, judging from what you've told me, I'd say you're fine, you shouldn't worry about it unless it gets to where you can't even get aroused at all. Hope this helps. Good luck! ^_^

A few things here.First, 5 1/2 inches isn't small - it's about the adult average. You're doing all right there. Furthermore, penis size matters less to most girls than you might think. Nearly all women are much more concerned about the man and his personality. If your girlfriend loves you, she'll love your penis because it's yours.Don't worry about the lack of hair. You'll almost certainly get hairier as you get older, but it's nice not to be too hairy. If your parents aren't hairy, you probably won't be either, and you can consider yourself fortunate.It must be difficult to know if you really have hardness problems or not unless you have either compared with others, or found you can't use it. People talk about "hard as a rock", but of course a penis never can be that hard. A urologist's opinion would be best, though I understand that might be difficult to arrange.Finally, why do you think the only way you can keep this girl is to have sex with her, when she has never even hinted? Many girls don't want sex too early.

thanks guys. the hair thing is alryt jus when u have pubes going up some ppl call it a garden path lol i dont have that but i am not worrying about that and the hardness thing isnt as bad as i must of put out to be becoz i am hard and i can make it very hard but not for long and that adds sum size to it so i am nearly 6 inches when i do that.Yeah your rite about love conquers all...if she had a problem i wouldnt think twice about it i jus love her.thnks alot