Hook her

Sure, sometimes a ‘Hey’ will work, but this massively depends on how she’s feeling. Err on the side of being playful, fun, and silly.

Sending her something like ‘I saw you try to steal my wallet’ with the angry/shocked emoji is far, far more likely to start a conversation (and a funny one) than saying ‘hey’.

But again, any line depends on how she’s feeling.

You simply want to operate from the perspective of ‘If I was bored and scrolling through Facebook, and this message popped up on my phone – would it make me smile/laugh/be intrigued and want to reply or would it make me more bored?’

Tease her

Texting is shallow (for the most part), and whilst you can have deep conversations over text, they’re actually pretty rare, and best saved for a phone conversation.

You want to treat a text conversation as a playful distraction. One you do to have fun and one that you’re moving in a direction of a date or phone call.

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About John Matich
John is a writer from the UK who splits his time between travelling the world and trying to find unconventional solutions to dating and personal development. You can find more from him at www.lifeuncivilized.com.

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