Though Tori Spelling has not publicly commented on the reports that her husband, Dean McDermott, cheated on her, a friend said she is “devastated.”

The actress’ friend told People, “She’s much more heartbroken than anyone realized.”

They continued, “She’s flipping out and is completely devastated. Remember early last year when tabloids wrote something [about marriage troubles] and she blasted them on her website? Now she’s not even doing that.”

The friend added that they don’t think Spelling has figured out what she will do just yet. Despite this, “she’s staying strong for her kids,” the pal noted.

Amidst the cheating reports, the married couple were seen in public on Thursday, reports E! News. They were seen smiling as they entered a Los Angeles building.

E! notes that the building Spelling and McDermott entered supposedly also contains a couple’s treatment center, but whether they were there for that is unknown.

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