Stop Self-Sabotaging Actionables

Whenever Evil takes over—like, when you’re a meanie to a nice man—stop, tuck and think: “What would Angel Twin do?” Hint: She’d be open and vulnerable.

Don’t beat up your Evil self: that just makes her rebellious and more likely to be a repeat offender.

Take a new action. Anything, something small starts the ball rolling. Example: Find a guy—any guy—to purposefully and warmly engage with a-sap. He’ll likely be super appreciative of the kind attention received. This helps your subconscious (Evil Twin) learn that being warm with men is safe. Repeat three times as soon as possible to reinforce the new learning. Then keep repeating as often as possible.

xo AJ

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