From the time I was 12 and saw my first Penthouse I wanted to have anal sex with women. Something about the soft smooth curves just drives my crazy and how can you fully enjoy a butt without using penetration?! So it's been my idea in every relationship and usually their first time.

I voted 'other' because the only anal experience I've had is with a plug I used on myself while masturbating alone, so no one else was involved, lol! It did nothing for me until I also inserted a slim dildo in my vagina and played with my clit and then I had a fabulous, drawn-out orgasm! I couldn't feel the plug at all and the only difference I felt was when climaxing; I could keep going and going and I am not normally like that at all. The only other time i did that, and much longer at the time, was experiencing oral with a particular guy who kept me climaxing for two hours, I kid you not! I don't know if they just flowed one into the other, or what, but it felt like they never stopped and it was just one long orgasm. I was a complete zombie afterwards, lol! Now I wonder about if getting a better will help even more because the one I used was too long and pointy for me (Mood Naughty in Large)

With my very first partner necessity, being the mother of our invention, it was a collaborative idea, due to her fear of pregnancy. With my subsequent female bodied partners my idea and my male bodied partners either theirs or again a mutual idea.

Now we mutually explored anal, both finger and cock for her, and finger for me.

I don't remember which of us first thought of her pegging me. It was just something we hadn't tried.

I enjoyed it and I think she did too but she didn't want to make it a habit.

When I admitted to her that I'd love to know what it's like to suck cock, we did that too and it was really hot. We did it a few times but she lost interest. I sure wish she hadn't. I wish that she, like some women, had penis envy and wanted several cocks. I'd suck every one of her cocks!

I voted other because my SO isn't really one to suggest things like that. He tries to be a prude haha! I guess I was the one that brought it up, but it certainly was something that had been on his mind for a while

It was his idea and it was awfull....no lube and Prob not much silva . I hated it.....took me awhile to go there again.
But now I totallly luv it.....diff guy and of course lube, lube and lube. I luv to give it with my Strapon as well.....

I said "his" idea but also said "other". How shall I explain lol. I was at a very experimental age, you know, when you are young enough that you're very inexperienced yet you want to seem experienced, so you jump at the chance to do all the things you read about or saw in porn without hesitation??? That was me with this situation. I'm pretty sure he said "let's try I" and said "why not". That was the 1 and only time for a very long time. Some things are better left to age and experience

I said "his" idea but also said "other". How shall I explain lol. I was at a very experimental age, you know, when you are young enough that you're very inexperienced yet you want to seem experienced, so you jump at the chance
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I said "his" idea but also said "other". How shall I explain lol. I was at a very experimental age, you know, when you are young enough that you're very inexperienced yet you want to seem experienced, so you jump at the chance to do all the things you read about or saw in porn without hesitation??? That was me with this situation. I'm pretty sure he said "let's try I" and said "why not". That was the 1 and only time for a very long time. Some things are better left to age and experience

I will say, I'm enjoying it much more NOW

Oh V, that sounds like a not enjoyable 1st time. That is unfortunate. It should have been better.