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It is absolutely possible that he impregnated you. Vasectomies and Tubes getting tied are procedures that are NOT guaranteed to take, and only last 99% for up to 5 years. tell him to look up the facts :)

If you didnt cheat dont worry about it. DNA doesnt lie. Tell him you will give him a test. its rare but it can happen. Dont worry about him just worry about you and that baby. and if you know hes been with other women use a condom. He thinks he cant have kids so he doesnt use a condom with them either!

Answer by
Anonymous
at 11:23 AM on Jun. 23, 2011

Get him checked again!!! it can happen if they just cut and don't burn off the ends. After years they can attach again, it is rare but it has happen.
This is why my dh had them cut short and burn the ends and than tuck them away from each other.

Sounds like he missed a follow up appointment to make sure his vasectomy worked. Have you had sex with someone else during this time frame? Those would be the only two ways you became pregnant. If you know you haven't cheated then get a paternity test when the baby is born to prove to him and his mom your not lying. Might be time to find someone better than him.