October 25, 2012

Want joy in the morning ... talk to a child.

Today is my great nephew's birthday. He is 8 today. I called about an hour ago to wish him a wonderful day.

There is something about talking with children that just can fill your heart with joy! Pure joy...

He was quite excited because he has big plans with his family today. He rattled them off so quickly I don't think I understood half of what he said...his pure excitement carried him away.

A key to talking with kids I have found over the years is the same advise I got when I worked in TV...don't ask yes or no questions because that is what you will get. A Yes or a No. Ask open ended questions that gives them a chance to talk.

Then listen. Conversations need to be two way...the more you hear the more you can be engaged with them.

Today I learned Joey's room was filled with balloons when he woke up. They are going to Famous Dave's for a birthday dinner. And he is wearing blue today. All pieces of information that brought a smile to my face.

Need a smile yourself? Pick up the phone and connect with a little one. A smile is almost guaranteed.