It’s kind of funny how overwhelming it can be for a man to ask a woman out on a date sometimes. I’ve known men who no one would ever question their toughness when it came to most things who would fret all about when it came down to asking a woman out on a date, especially if they were really fond of her. It’s not uncommon for a man to get nervous or to feel stressed out about asking a woman out on a date, but it’s something that you have to do if you are going to actually get the chance to date her.

You’ve probably been expected to figure out women and dating the way that most men do- through trial and error and of course, luck. Going about it that way is not always the best method, though. If you want to ask a woman out on a date and have the best odds that she ends up saying YES to you, you have to learn how to warm her up.

Here are 3 tips on how to ask a woman out on a date and warm her up to saying YES to you:

1. She’s not going to say yes if she does not expect to have a good time with you.

If you were a woman and you knew that you could pretty much pick and choose which men you dated, would you want to go out with someone that you thought would end up being a bore? Probably not, right? Well, that’s the reality that you have to face when it comes to dating. You need to make her see that she can and will enjoy herself going out on a date with you.

2. To get a woman to say yes to you, you have to get good at flirting with women.

Some guys try to avoid flirting at all costs because they don’t feel comfortable when doing it. Other guys think that they are experts at flirting with a woman, when they really don’t end up getting the results that they want. You have to be honest with yourself, and you have to really learn how to flirt with a woman if you want to warm her up. If you need to improve, then by all means, learn HOW.

3. You have to make her feel an ESCALATING amount of sexual attraction with you.

Going too strong too soon is almost always a deal breaker. And not being able to get her to the level of feeling a strong amount of sexual attraction will keep you at the acquaintance or friend level with a woman. If you want to practically guarantee that she will say yes to you when you ask her out on a date, then you need to make her feel an escalating amount of sexual attraction.