How to get friendly with a shy girl

Getting friendly with a girl itself can be like climbing a huge mountain for many boys because the boys themselves may be very shy at times. If this is true, it makes the task more difficult for a boy to get friendly with a shy girl. Though it is difficult to get friendly with a shy girl, it is not impossible. This is because the girl in her heart is still a normal girl and she is just shy.

There are different approaches that a boy can try to get to become friendly with the girl. They are:

1. Listen to the girl:

The best method to get friendly with a girl is to listen to her. Each and every girl, though shy would like to talk to a boy and once she starts talking, the girl has to be listened to and this is one important method of getting closer to the girl. As she talks to you, the bond blossoms and she gets closer.

2. Talk to her:

Just like the girl talks, she would like to talk too. So the boy has to talk to her as much as possible. The boy has to make her feel important and this is another important method that can be used to get friendly with the girl. Any girl would like the importance that she is given by a boy and more so when the girl is shy. Shy girls usually like the importance that is given to them and once the boy makes her feel that she is very important for him, then the girl will really be very friendly and close to the boy.

3. Share a meal with her:

When you have become a little closer to the girl by talking, the next step that you have to do is to either take her out if she is willing to join you or just share a meal with her in a place where she is comfortable and this will make her become closer to you. Usually the shy girl will never eat with a guy alone if she is really shy and once she is eating out with you, then that means that you have become a bit successful in bringing her out of the shell she was living in.

4. Do not try to touch her early in your relationship:

Every shy girl will take time to get close with a boy and if you try to touch her too soon, then she might think that you are trying to get close to her for wrong reasons and this should be avoided by the boy to get friendly with her. Once the girl thinks that you are trying to get friendly with her for the wrong reasons, then she might never become friendly with you. This is the reason for the boy to take the relationship slowly forward and this will make the girl get friendly to the boy.

These are some of the basic methods in which the boy can get friendly with even a shy girl. It should also be remembered that each girl can be different and the boy should also change the approach depending on the girl.

About Author / Additional Info: I am a physiotherapist and also a freelance writer. I have been writing for many blogs and websites and also take up freelance assignments. Comments are welcome at prakashdavid@rediffmail.com

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