themindiswatching:Maybe, just maybe, we should be fapping less often and spending more time with our SOs.

Maybe we should just stop judging men for fapping. We're visually stimulated, sexual pleasure is distinct from love or attachment, and our instincts tell us to mate with every female in the herd. So our options (even with an SO) are 1) fap to porn or 2) actually try to mate with every female in the herd, which is even more socially unacceptable.

I'm not gay, but I have this in common with gay men: feeling bad for who I am got old and busted a long time ago, so I quit doing it. I don't volunteer to my wife that I use porn, but she knows, and if she asks I'll tell her the truth. <popeye>I yam what I yam.</popeye>

Fuggin Bizzy:I'm not gay, but I have this in common with gay men: feeling bad for who I am got old and busted a long time ago, so I quit doing it. I don't volunteer to my wife that I use porn, but she knows, and if she asks I'll tell her the truth. <popeye>I yam what I yam.</popeye>

If a wife asks her husband if he looks at porn and he says no, then biatch you know he be lying.

And if he's telling the truth then you best GTFO of there fast cuz that guy is an inhuman freak that's gonna explode in a murderous rampage from lack of porn. See Middle East.

Flip on the tele'Wrestle with JimmySomething is bubblingBehind my backThe bottle is ready to blow

Say it ain't soYour drug is a heartbreakerSay it ain't soMy love is a lifetaker

I can't confront youI never could doThat which might hurt youSo try and be coolWhen I sayThis way is a waterslide away from me that takes you further every day (hey)So be cool

Say it ain't soYour drug is a heartbreakerSay it ain't soMy love is a lifetaker

Dear Daddy,I write you in spite of years of silence.You've cleaned up, found Jesus,things are good or so I hear.This bottle of Steven'sawakens ancient feelings.Like father, stepfather, the son is drowning in the flood

Yeah, yeah yeah, yeah yeah.

Say it ain't soYour drug is a heartbreakerSay it ain't soMy love is a lifetaker

encyclopediaplushuman:Dow Jones and the Temple of Doom: Porn? It's that for people who still haven't discovered Snapchat?

Or Imgur Randomizer (nsfw, you can and will find porn using it, often)

The concept of IR is rather intriguing. Some may crank it up as a time-waster, eye-candy, jazzy screen-slaver, whatever, but the intellectual drifting through pretty much unrelated realities triggers appealing stimuli.

I didn't know of it, probably won't log on again, but found it a cute experience.

Except that there's an awful lot of dumb video game stills. I guess it reflects who's watching IR.

This makes no sense. Why, because the next computer won't be able to access porn? Or should I just live without a computer? I'm a software developer, so that's a non-starter for me, but maybe I should destroy my car so I don't drive to the fark shop or something. Maybe I should close all my bank accounts so I can't buy porn. I don't...how does...what the...

jaytkay:silvervial: jaytkay: ReluctantPaladin: would it be too much for him to express some concern over the effects that pornography might have on women?

The porn he is watching doesn't affect women.

Ah, so it's my kind of porn.

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You got it! Just watched a hysterical "behind the scenes" from a bear/twink porn and the twink was quite a character, really funny. He should do stand up (instead of lie down, on all fours, on his side, upside down, etc.) Anyone who can be that funny while upside down with a dildo up his ass is a natural.

I'm not watching porn right now. I don't even want to watch porn right now. I am quite busy with income-producing activity and I am not even thinking about porn.Well, now that I type that, I guess I kind of am, but in an indirect way.

" pornography's devastating effects on a man, his marriage, his home, his job and his leadership within the church."

What the hell kind of farked-up porn has this guy been watching? Double reverse cowgirl midget tranny ATM?

Also, isn't providing leadership within the church kinda that pastor's job? Everyone who said this guy is projecting his own inner shame onto the congregation is probably onto something.

Partaking of porn semi-regularly (or even daily) does not constitute an addiction. People go to work every day, but we don't say they're addicted to work - and they can't quit anytime they want, 'cause bills and kids and retirement.

Repo Man:JenFromTheWood: Repo Man: themindiswatching: Maybe, just maybe, we should be fapping less often and spending more time with our SOs.

Some of us do not have, and will never have, an SO.

How come?

I'm sure there are as many reasons as there are sad lonely men who have completely given up. Speaking for myself, the film The Forty Year Old Virgin was remarkably like seeing my life on the big screen, except for the happy ending part. And now I'm 47, and bald, and I only have a relatively modest income. I don't think I could get what I want, and I don't think I would want what I could get. Profile pic is from 1989, when I did briefly have a girlfriend. So, yeah.

And therein lies the crux of the matter-learning to balance our expectations with our reality. I won't bore you with a bunch of cliches about love and destiny...if you ever just wanna talk to a random friend from the middle of nowhere Missouri, hit me up. Have a good night!

Repo Man:JenFromTheWood: Repo Man: themindiswatching: Maybe, just maybe, we should be fapping less often and spending more time with our SOs.

Some of us do not have, and will never have, an SO.

How come?

I'm sure there are as many reasons as there are sad lonely men who have completely given up. Speaking for myself, the film The Forty Year Old Virgin was remarkably like seeing my life on the big screen, except for the happy ending part. And now I'm 47, and bald, and I only have a relatively modest income. I don't think I could get what I want, and I don't think I would want what I could get. Profile pic is from 1989, when I did briefly have a girlfriend. So, yeah.

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That is *unspeakably* sad! Here we were trying to have a nice porn thread and you had to go and do this!

DoctorCal:bunner: The only way to not do sh*t that isn't what you view and sh*t you shouldn't do is to not want to do that sh*t.

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Another weakling who believes that, because he cannot resist a temptation, that all avenues to temptation should be destroyed. Misses the whole point of temptation - that resistance, not denial, is the point of the conflict. He would rather run away from the fight his God sets in front of him, terrified that he might lose, rather than face that fight.

he does have a point, because it is almost impossible to avoid porn if you have a computer and an internet connection. if i wanted to stop watching porn, getting rid of my computer would be the first step. i just have no reason to stop. one thing i hate is how anti-porn crusaders throw around the word "addiction." i suppose maybe .001% of porn watchers might actually be addicted and unable to stop, but the rest of us aren't. here is a paraphrased conversation i had once:

friend: you are addicted to porn.me: no, i'm not.friend: but you watch it all the time. you probably watch it every day.me: i probably do, but that doesn't mean it's an addiction.friend: how can you say that? that's what it means to be addicted!me: really? well you watch sports every day. are you addicted to watching sports?friend: well, no, but that's different.me: how is it different? you watch sports every day, and i watch porn every day. same thing.friend: but sports are my hobby.me: exactly, and watching porn is my hobby. it's something i do for fun that i enjoy.

I need to stop fapping it to ultra dirty porn all the time. It's making it very hard for me to get sexually aroused around women who aren't into cum baths, anal fisting or don't have tits the size of zeppelins.

I've had sex with 5 different women in the last two weeks and I've actually been having trouble getting it hard enough to have sex with them unless I visualize extremely demented or degrading stuff happening to women. One girl even went so far as to go right down on me and give my balls a tongue bath and I still had a hard time popping a wood.

Now, I know it's not just garden variety impotence or whisky dick because I can easily get it up within 2 minutes of browsing the internet. I think what's happened is that I've basically desensitized myself to sex unless it's "extreme". I'm actually experimenting right now seeing if I can avoid all porn for a month or two while just railing chicks normally. It'll suck for me because the most I can probably organize is something like 3-4 times a week if I am putting on the full game (I am juggling like 8 girls at one time) and I really normally masturbate like 2 or 3 times a day. I don't know how I'm going to do it but I feel very strongly that I need to just have straight sex for a while in order to reclaim control of my erections. Either that or I wimp out and just get a Viagra prescription...