I've been with DH for 15 years, married 8 years. I'm catholic. His Dad and grandmother were Jewish but when we met and when we got married he wasn't practicing. We had agreed to raise the kids Catholic when we married. I thought he was just not religious which was fine. I was actively practicing, but accepted that him not being catholic was fine.

Well the past 2 years, he has started to learn more about Judaism. Attended a course one semester, checks out books from library, started celebrating holidays and now attend the synagogue almost rgularly weekly. He also told me he wants to convert!

I'm very uncomfortable with this. Kids and I don't go to the synagogue. I feel deceived. Why now? What's missing? He knows I'm uncomfortable but still is moving forward with this.

I guess I'm wondering what you think about this? Our marriage is pretty much good but I just can't get over this.