Unexpected and without lube? No. But I have had it done to me before. It's alright I suppose. Just ask before doing it, ladies. Men are REALLY particular about stuff in their asses.

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Did they go all the way in to massage the prostate or was it just basic fingering of the ass?

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I wish the woman that did it actually knew her anatomy. All she did was spit on a finger, and stuck it up there. Didn't even press against the prostate or even finger it. Next time I have it done, I'm going to have the chick press against it by making a "come hither" motion and press her thumb against the gooch/taint. Hopefully that'll yield better results.

Lube it up, maybe use a latex glove if she's worried about putting a finger up there.

Just drop whatever preconceived notions of it being gay. If a chick is doing it and it feels good, what's the difference?

Gay men are gay because they like fucking guys...not because they like their ass played with.

Tapatalkin'

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For guys that haw never had their ass played with before, would you recommend a specific...part of the BJ to attempt this? For example like....as they are getting ready to cum so that they associate it with the orgasm?

I don't understand why people would feel so threatened by this thread. No one here is a sex expert and knows every little detail about everything. There's no harm in discussion and having questions.

To me, that kinda sparks their own disbelief in ever having sex so they get salty about it. That's the only explanation I can think of that warrants the strong dislike for this. Especially considering their stance on it is "lol at all these virgins discussing sex on the internet. so pathetic lolol"

Lube it up, maybe use a latex glove if she's worried about putting a finger up there.

Just drop whatever preconceived notions of it being gay. If a chick is doing it and it feels good, what's the difference?

Gay men are gay because they like fucking guys...not because they like their ass played with.

Tapatalkin'

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For guys that haw never had their ass played with before, would you recommend a specific...part of the BJ to attempt this? For example like....as they are getting ready to cum so that they associate it with the orgasm?

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You'd have to be lubed up, but... sneaking up on a guy very risky. It really depends on the person.

For guys that haw never had their ass played with before, would you recommend a specific...part of the BJ to attempt this? For example like....as they are getting ready to cum so that they associate it with the orgasm?

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Near the end for sure. At the beginning it doesn't do much. When the guy starts getting into the BJ and gets all relaxed and sensitive. Then maybe like 3 minutes before the end.

And definitely while he's cumming because it helps him clench more for a stronger orgasm

For guys that haw never had their ass played with before, would you recommend a specific...part of the BJ to attempt this? For example like....as they are getting ready to cum so that they associate it with the orgasm?

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Near the end for sure. At the beginning it doesn't do much. When the guy starts getting into the BJ and gets all relaxed and sensitive. Then maybe like 3 minutes before the end.

And definitely while he's cumming because it helps him clench more for a stronger orgasm

Tapatalkin'

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Some people find this too taboo though, for example, I don't like to get my ass played.

Lube it up, maybe use a latex glove if she's worried about putting a finger up there.

Just drop whatever preconceived notions of it being gay. If a chick is doing it and it feels good, what's the difference?

Gay men are gay because they like fucking guys...not because they like their ass played with.

Tapatalkin'

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For guys that haw never had their ass played with before, would you recommend a specific...part of the BJ to attempt this? For example like....as they are getting ready to cum so that they associate it with the orgasm?

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Hm... Your best bet would probably be to play in the general area before inserting it. If he responds positively, ask him for the go ahead.