I just want to send a little shoutout from my corner of the internet. To see you going through this shit with grace and a sense of humor says a lot about your character. Divorce or not, prioritize your self-care today.

If you don’t think he’d be completely negligent or dangerous with your twins, take a few hours out of the house and get your toes painted or see a matinee or go for a walk somewhere pretty or do whatever you damn well please. I know having little ones makes this trickier, but it’s your turn to be supported and, if your husband is not willing to do that, it’s entirely fair that you get to focus inward and take care of your recovery. He can deal with it.

Hugs!!! You should do whatever you can to live your best life. It sounds like you are willing to do this without him. It sounds like you are already doing everything without him anyways. He sounds like a teenager.