That seems to be the expectation but it's hardly the reality. Especially when it comes to f/f relationships and sexuality. For lesbians, it's still common for girls to not have any f/f sexual experience prior to college.

I know a attractive 26-year-old bisexual woman who has had lots of boyfriends but not one girlfriend.

__________________Art is about modes of engagement with the world, not modes of avoiding it. The key thing is that some forms of engagement are liberating, and others enslaving; and simple "distraction" falls under the logic of the latter.

That was a fun vid Amy. Almost vintage, a classic porn film. Saxophone in the background, fun dialogue.. "do you trust me?" "you can cum!!!...EXPLODE"
It was cool. I like the unshaven pussy, a rarity today. Nice kissing, and some beautiful pussy licking.
It had me squirming... mmmmmmm

That was a fun vid Amy. Almost vintage, a classic porn film. Saxophone in the background, fun dialogue.. "do you trust me?" "you can cum!!!...EXPLODE"
It was cool. I like the unshaven pussy, a rarity today. Nice kissing, and some beautiful pussy licking.
It had me squirming... mmmmmmm

yes it seemed 'vintage' a bit corny probably made before I was around certainly before I watched any porn type films, but I kinda liked it as it seemed to move a little slower than some of the others which I found erotic !

yes it seemed 'vintage' a bit corny probably made before I was around certainly before I watched any porn type films, but I kinda liked it as it seemed to move a little slower than some of the others which I found erotic !

I did have a certain charm.

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I am too way sexy for any man! I'm a lesbian Yes, it is a blessing...

Guys!!!! What part of "I'm a lesbian" do you not get???? It is one thing to think men are stupid, but why do they have to prove it over, and over, and over....

My significant other and I went away for the holiday weekend. We like to beat the heat of July and enjoy the mountains, so we traveled to Lake Tahoe. While wandering through the casinos we found a flyer for an escort service, offering the girl of our "dreams".
Well we kidded each other about this for a while, and after a few drinks, we decided to play the game and see what happens.
But what is the girl of our dreams??? After a few more drinks, and case of the nervous jitters, we decided we wanted an Asian girl, early 20's.

We called, and made arrangements to have our dream girl meet us at the bar. We made it quite clear we were women and dream girl was to be into that. The lady at the other end said that it was no problem and assured us that they do this "all the time".

We arranged to meet at the bar. As it turned out she was a lovely young girl, very early twenties, petite at about four eleven. We asked if she was going to have any reservations about being with women that were older than her mother. She assured us that she was quite happy with the arrangement. and she would prove herself excellent at pretending to be "into" us.

It was quite bitter sweet though, she was so lovely, such perfect skin, firm smooth body, firm breast. It made Karen and I both wistfully look back into the past when we had such glorious bodies.

My significant other and I went away for the holiday weekend. We like to beat the heat of July and enjoy the mountains, so we traveled to Lake Tahoe. While wandering through the casinos we found a flyer for an escort service, offering the girl of our "dreams".
Well we kidded each other about this for a while, and after a few drinks, we decided to play the game and see what happens.
But what is the girl of our dreams??? After a few more drinks, and case of the nervous jitters, we decided we wanted an Asian girl, early 20's.

We called, and made arrangements to have our dream girl meet us at the bar. We made it quite clear we were women and dream girl was to be into that. The lady at the other end said that it was no problem and assured us that they do this "all the time".

We arranged to meet at the bar. As it turned out she was a lovely young girl, very early twenties, petite at about four eleven. We asked if she was going to have any reservations about being with women that were older than her mother. She assured us that she was quite happy with the arrangement. and she would prove herself excellent at pretending to be "into" us.

It was quite bitter sweet though, she was so lovely, such perfect skin, firm smooth body, firm breast. It made Karen and I both wistfully look back into the past when we had such glorious bodies.

Yeah I sent a long winded reply to a lovely Lit friend tonite saying pretty much the same thing really. I have it so much better than lots and if I ever lose sight of that I hope a dear friend will slap me around until I remember that fact. I used to ride hours on end and take road trips at the drop of a hat with just a phone call from a club member but nowadays I find myself having fewer video jilling sessions with friends from here and especially yahoo, ride lots less than I did and often find myself asking just what it is I am gonna do with the rest of my life. I am not sad just sort of in a fog maybe. Nice thing about a fog though is the sun will make it go away.

Yeah I sent a long winded reply to a lovely Lit friend tonite saying pretty much the same thing really. I have it so much better than lots and if I ever lose sight of that I hope a dear friend will slap me around until I remember that fact. I used to ride hours on end and take road trips at the drop of a hat with just a phone call from a club member but nowadays I find myself having fewer video jilling sessions with friends from here and especially yahoo, ride lots less than I did and often find myself asking just what it is I am gonna do with the rest of my life. I am not sad just sort of in a fog maybe. Nice thing about a fog though is the sun will make it go away.

Nothing wrong with a change up every once in awhile and times of reflection can be quite good. For whatever reason, you need that space now. I don't think that our lives are a trajectory, but rather an interesting winding road.

I'd say that another way to ask the question about your life would be "there are so many possibilities, I wonder which ones to pursue? And what will be the result?" In other words, adventure! Sounds to me that your a mindful and that's valuable in making the best of your life.

Blueberree you right about the possibilities and if I am only allowed one thought each day when I wake up that would be a good one to have. It is far too easy to get caught up in drama and even life in general and lose sight of simply having possibilities. Some have few and for the ones I have I am grateful. Yep there are possibilities. Thank you luv for making me smile.

While the woman who measured me at my last bra fitting had a nifty accent, I'm guessing professional decorum wouldn't allow her to go there. What are the chances even that someone in this line of work would be interested in it?

Fun idea though.

Been there and done it and never an incline that anything would happen. It must only happen in Lit. stories. I wax regularly with the same girl and she just chats away as she has me opening my labia and again, nothing. It must be an everyday event for her.