Hardest is when trust is lost but both still love each other. When trust is gone from a relationship. No matter how hard u want it to work.. you just have to move on and hope for the best for both involved. Much love

this is a great thought but what happens if only one person is working on the relationship and the other isn’t, than one needs to let go for their own sanity and well being, when your always giving and never getting in return it causes a emotional drain, the problem is not everyone sees love as what can I give, but instead they see it as what can I get, when you love someone you want to give to them everything you can, not because they give you something but simple because you love them,

Sometimes you have to say “NO, we don’t break up. We work this out, TOGETHER. Hand in hand… and we’ll be stronger than ever before, because we love each other and if its real, it is all that matters” …

I’ve always said no relationship is perfect, their will always be ups n downs, if a relationship is perfect no downs, it ain’t t a real relationship, I’ve tried to make her understand d that but she didn’t think so, to me a perfect relationship is 1 w it’s ups n downs, n both fight for eachother, and even if I’m right I’ll always try to make her feel gud n smile b4 bed, I luv u sheri laborte and I miss u so much…I pray that ull come back to me and we be together again,

Till one gets to drunk, calls the other names, which proceeds with a fight, where one get the shit beat out of them. Yeah, not perfect but I’m sure everything will work out eventually. He only got his head bashed in with a shovel, the a bat, and her fists. Couple of stitches later, some prison time and their back to loving each other, till it gets boring then one cheats on the other again. Oh yes if you truly love each other you will make it work. Love always makes the relationship work….

I am very much agree .But if your partner wants to give up just respect him or her because maybe he/she had special reason. We must not force anybody to love us.To love is to give freedom to the one we love.If relationship doesn’t work because it is one sided,then let go. Forcing somebody to love us is just hurting ourselves. This is what I learned few months ago.

It takes two people for things to work out. Life is full of problems and dissapointments. If your mate goes off cheating or mistreats you. The problem is within them. Thats why so many divorce. God will bring someone your way that will love you and stand by your side. Through hell and higb water.

Exactly…some people need to hear this…the moment things don’t go there way or the moment there spouse say something or act out on emotions that don’t sit well with them their ready to give up and walk away!!! If some one be so quick to walk away over a disagreement or disapproving situations then that person do not need to be in no committed relationship NO relationship is a walk in the part regardless what picture people try to paint its hard work to make a relationship work its not meant to be easy!!!

This is Soooo true! The majority of my patients are over 75 and they always say the same thing. When I ask the secret to their 50+ yr marriage I always get the same response…. When 2 people really love one another they learn to compromise and work through their differences together!

Relationships aren’t easy and love doesn’t come with an instruction manual. If your relationship is falling apart but you truly do care about your partner deep down inside, seek the help of a couples therapist that can help you sort it out. People give up too easily and want to throw in the towel when things get tough. They may even think that all the problems would not exists if only they were with a different partner. It doesn’t matter who you’re with, relationships require work and problems will surface in every relationship. You’d be surprised how things can turn… Read more »