bad situation...ex gf bitchy

Ok, well here goes...

My ex and I broke up about a month and a half ago. At first I was really upset about this and phoned her a bunch of times, but then I get on the right track to getting her back (she broke up with me then I agreed to the breakup to regain social power status back.) After I agreed to this break up she started texting me like she missed me, and I was constantly giving in to this and texting her all AFC and lots of it. So I regained frame by not talking to her for a few days at a time, then one day I had been at school hitting up some girls because I was single. So these girls start posting stuff on my facebook wall like saying we need to hang out, the typical stuff that shows a girl is interested in you.

Reminder this is all about a month and a bit ago....Fast forward to the important stuff, so I initiated texting with my ex about 1 day after these things were posted on my wall, and so she blatantly asked me, "so you're over me then huh? :P" I responded with "just keeping my options open :P" and "I still like you a bit tho " it was supposed to be sort of playful and show that I still liked her. She went into total rage jealousy mode and said she never wanted to talk to me again and all that bs.

From here I went into total AFC mode for about a 2 weeks, not straight but more times than others I was going crazy..., I phoned her, I texted her I did everything to try and get her back. I phoned her a bunch of times, we were getting all angry at each other and stuff like this. It was really awful, it got to a point where she said she was going to block my number...

I got counselling advice from a well known PUA a few days ago about what he would have done yesterday as I got some counselling from him, he said he would have held the frame that I was indeed keeping my options open as the roles would have reversed, I would have been the one telling her that I don't want to be with her.

I have gone a month with no contact, she was my first love so I feel like this is worth fighting for. She was totally 100% attracted to me, (I am really attractive :P just saying ) but I realize that doesn't mean anything unless you can spit game and be confident.

So I feel like it is time to talk to her, and possibly see her this weekend at a party. I just don't know how I should act at the party, and if I should text her before hand to make sure she shows up and just try and get her thinking about me.

I have talked to her now via text... this was yesterday, here is how the convo went, I messed up but I figure I can easily recover with the help of you guys!

me: Hey, how's it going, do you know if any parties are happening saturday night in (her town)? Nobody seems to knowHB: Hey I'm good , you? And nope. Don't think so. Thought u didn't party lol.
me: Figures, peeps in (her town) can't party more than 1 day a weekend haha
HB: Ya not like u party anyway so it wouldn't matter to u now would it? .
me: I don't not party.... I party hard ! ( i know looking back that this wasnt that great to say but I sort of let emotion take me...)
HB: Lmao sure thing. Late
me: you wanna bet

She didn't respond but I know she read the message, I am stuck from here on out on what to do. I am willing to pay for some lessons if you are well known by the way.

Re: bad situation...ex gf bitchy

Originally Posted by robpua48

she was my first love so I feel like this is worth fighting for.

Because she is your first love you have no idea if its worth fighting for and I'm hear to tell you that she is not going to be your last love. You need to shut her out of your life for good and move on. Enjoy the memories you had with her and branch out to explore new love and adventure. You will look back in time and realise you never really wanted to get back with her, you just didn't like the rejection and sentimental feelings clouded your judgement.

Your ex is holding you back. You truly deserve better than her. Delete her from your life and concentrate on new girls...lots of them. You want to live life looking at the road ahead rather than in the rear view. Good luck