This message came through Sunday morning, November 13, 2016 following a message delivered by Jesus on Thursday, November 10, 2016. Both messages are regarding me but also address a larger issue reflected in the current climate following our recent Presidential election. You may wish to read that one first here for context.

As I have been receiving messages from God, angels and others for over 20 years, we have established some habits. One, is that when he wants to identify himself when coming through, he starts the message “My Dearest Joy”. As you will note, in my channeling, the information often comes through both in letter form to me but also with dialogue to humanity.

My Dearest Joy:

What you did the other day was purposeful and brave. People do need wake up. Jesus was not kidding when he said it was time for people to wake up. I sit back and watch what people do to each other as I have given them free will to choose. It appalls me the way people treat each other. Jesus was taking particular issue with the way in which people think and discuss you. And, as he said it has a lot to do with their supposed allegiance to him that gives them the right to judge you. What they don’t realize is that they are using that as an excuse to discuss and blame what they don’t understand and fear. You are here because I asked much of you. You gave up much to come and do as you are asked. You didn’t even have to come. You weren’t even required to do more than initially assigned, but did it as a favor to me.

Yes, you have often said, “What else would you do?” because you have been so programmed for service for so long. But, there are plenty of things you could do and money would never be an object for you regardless because that was my promise to you. What people don’t realize is how much you have sacrificed for humanity over the years, let alone lifetimes. They don’t necessarily mean you any harm but their thoughts and actions are harmful nonetheless. The energies behind those thoughts toward you permeate the ethers and travel around the world in seconds impacting all within their path.

The troubles in the world are largely because of the individual fears and judgments they consider private. There is no privacy in thoughts as I know exactly what everyone thinks as they think it. That goes for Jesus, Michael and others who are in Heaven working along side humanity for their benefit.

“Thoughts are things” as has been written often. But, what people don’t understand is that those thoughts that have been thought for a millennia are what is playing out now – in the workplace, in the streets, in the recent election, in these riots that are being demonstrated and all across the globe in the discord experienced by each and every one of my children who are currently lost, wandering and wondering, “How did we get here?”

Well, I will tell you how we got here. We got here because of separation from me. You got here because you continued to look outside of yourself taking direction from those you chose to listen to regardless as to whether or not they had your best interest at heart. Why did you listen to them? Because you didn’t think to listen to me. Why? Because, you didn’t know where to find me. Why? Because you were guided to listen to others outside of yourselves. And, where has that gotten you? It has caused you much pain, separation and heartache. You are troubled constantly by the state of affairs that exist today but they are not much different than the same complaints you had other lifetimes.

I have been listening to those complaints for a very long time. You are troubled because you don’t know who you are. You doubt yourselves because you can only rely on yourself and hearsay rather than what I have to say. Do you have any idea of how much I love you and always have and always will? I have never forsaken you. It is you that have turned away from me and countless times for a very long time. You think I don’t notice? You think I don’t hear you? You often doubt my very existence because the lack of connection we share.

What you don’t realize is that I am within you. You have been taught to go within but you seem to have trouble quieting yourselves long enough to do so. You actually find going within troubling because you don’t always see what you would like. Because in order to find me, you have to take a long look within at yourself. You know what you have done so your guilt stands in your way of connecting with me. You cannot forgive yourself so you don’t allow me the opportunity to be one with you.

Why do I say this now? Because we’ve drawn a line in the sand. It is the time in history long awaited when all would be restored to balance. It is now up to you to restore yourself to balance in order for the world to be restored to balance.

You worry about what is happening in the world. But, what is happening within you and your world within? The larger world is always a reflection of the world within. Your personal world is much more important than the world at large. Unless and until you clean up your personal world, the world at large will always be troubling. But, you aren’t willing to look at yourself. Right now your focus is looking at the presidency and what they are going to do. Do you know your president is you? Do you know that your president is a perfect reflection of you?

He is you. He is all of you as a collective or he wouldn’t be in the position he now holds. This goes for your sitting president as well as your president elect. Both are a perfect reflection of the collective hearts and minds of the people they serve. If you want them to show up differently, you need to show up differently. If you want the world to change, you need to change your personal world first. If the world at large is not showing up as you wish, then where in your life is that world view demonstrated?

Unless and until you wake up and decide to take personal action and reflect on the dynamics within your own life, that outside world will continue to reflect that which you personally demonstrate.

Now, back to the dynamic of Joy specifically, and why she is my emissary of light. What Jesus mentioned the other day was purposeful in many ways. He wants you to wake up but he also wants you to recognize how we have been trying to help you. We sent Joy as our servant, your servant, this lifetime, in preparation for the times to come. She has many gifts, given to her for the specific work we asked of her this lifetime. She was required, as she has a special skill set in dealing with darkness. We gave her the special assignment of clearing the casual level of many of your problems.

But, clearing the cause of them does not remove them from you in entirety. You are responsible for letting them go from within. Your programming has you so set in your ways that you do not see your role and responsibility in the matter. Just because you have always seen and done things in a certain matter to date, does not mean you are required to do it one more second unless purposeful. But, you do not know what is purposeful because you have been so programmed to think and do things in a certain manner. Is that working for you? If you aren’t receiving the results you desire, then why do you automatically do things the same way? Because you think you have to because you likely don’t know there’s another way.

So, we send you someone to explain to you why things are the way they are and why they are not necessarily the best way so you can have a better life. But, because she does not fit your pictures and programming, you say no to her. In doing so you, you say no to me and the answer to your prayers when asking for the help with your problems. She has many answers to the numerous questions and prayers you have but you refuse the gift because it is not packaged in the way you want it. You want your answers in your way. I give you answers in ways you often don’t realize.

Joy, is only one answer. I have many. I try and support your needs in so many ways, that you would laugh at how often you have missed those solutions. It would embarrass you when realizing that you have refused the solutions when provided. And, then you continue to ask for that which I have already supplied but you cannot see. You cannot see because your mindset is so set on the old ways of the past deeply imbedded within your subconscious limiting every outcome possible.

You want answers? You want solutions? Well, for starters, align with me. Go within and align with me. I ALWAYS know what is best for you and all in mind. I never try and create win/lose situations. I am always looking for the best and most purposeful answer. I do not favor one of you over the other. The biggest difference is who listens the most. You can be guided every day moment by moment to whatever would serve your highest good if you only allowed me the chance to assist you. I know more than you think I know. I am more willing to help than you realize. And, the love I have for you is beyond measure.

And, yet, you continue to go it alone trying to figure out life alone. Or, you depend on another man to serve your needs and uplift your life when I can provide those solutions for all bar none. No one has to lose in the world I create. You look outside of yourself wondering why you suffer. You suffer because you look outside of yourself. You suffer because you don’t let go of painful past memories. You suffer because you will not surrender your will to me living in fear because you do not trust me and my love for you.

Why do you suppose that is? Because often you have been told stories that misrepresent me and that love I have for you. You often think of me as a punishing God. You have no idea what real forgiveness is. Had you understood me and my love for you, you would never leave me. I have all the power in the world at my fingertips anxious to give to you that which would make you happy. But, you cannot receive it because of misinformation as to who I am and how I operate.

Do you know my love is unconditional? Do you actually know what that means? You often think of me as a punishing God because of what people have told you. It is not something I have told you. No wonder you are afraid of me. But, unless and until you understand the misinformation told, you will remain operating in the dark continuing to be separated from me – your Source and the Source of all.

Why wouldn’t you want to tap into that for your own personal benefit? But, you will continue to go it alone while separate from me thinking you have to do it according to some idea that was passed down by man.

All answers lie within you. You don’t need to go to Joy for answers. Her purpose is to lead you home to me, within you. She isn’t looking for followers. You just have to stop following others and seek me instead. Go within. That is where you find me and the solutions to all you desire.

Peace be with you my children. I am here for you when ready. Awaken to this truth and you will be set free forever.

The love I have for you goes without measure. Allow me to love you in a way that is so profound you will lack for nothing. Trust in the process of repentance. Surrender to me and your salvation is assured.

No one needs to die on a cross to forgive your sins. You only need surrender them and all to me. For, the love I have for you will carry you and keep you safe for eternity.

We don’t always understand when someone dies young why that had to be. Hopefully, this story may help shed some light on a perspective that may never have been considered. It’s certainly a dynamic that would have never occurred to me.

On Father’ Day, June 19, 2016, my late father, who passed in 2006, had a message to convey to me. We connect periodically and often on anniversaries and occasions such as this. He shared with me certain personal information so I left most of that out of this post as it was largely relevant to my life only. However, I left one paragraph here as it may telling of other heavenly dynamics that may serve the larger picture and more applicable to all although addressed to me specifically.

I found the story that follows interesting as well as a teaching point especially to anyone who has suffered loss of a loved one.

I was told by a colleague years ago that my father had reincarnated and was living in California. I had wondered about that lifetime recently and apparently he knew I questioned it. He, therefore, mentioned it here along with a valuable teaching for anyone but especially anyone who has lost a child.

We don’t always know the purpose of one’s life or the timing of their death. This dynamic was certainly one I have never considered. Hopefully, it will give you a broader sense of purpose, life and death from my sharing it.

My Father’s Message:

Trust that I watch over you in a way that does not allow me to come forth to you as I have in the past. That will change and at some point and you will see me again. In the interim, I have duties to perform in ways that I cannot explain as you cannot comprehend at this time. Just trust that they are supporting your role in a bigger way.

I am not on the planet at this time as you suspected. I came and went early on. I was birthed to a couple in California who had a stillborn child and then I came along. She was the light of their life. The loss of that child was devastating to her parents even if they never got to hold her beyond that beginning and that end.

There was something in their DNA that prevented children from being birthed. I came through to clear that for them. That was my purpose and my purpose only. I lived. I was young but then got hit by a car. I was never to come through again. This was my last lifetime as well as it will be yours. I came through to help open the way for the child that was meant to be for those parents. They now have a son who is a bright shining light in their lives. They cherish the day he was born and are grateful for every move that child makes.

During my young life, I got to open their hearts and help them heal. When my passing occurred, they were more ready to allow the separation to heal. They didn’t give up. My birth gave them a vision for the future to hope again to have a child of their own. They cleared something within their ancestral pattern that was haunting them and it had been cleared by my coming and going. The car accident was quick and painless. My soul left the body upon impact and I was once again taken home to Jesus, who greeted me with open arms upon my return. It was totally a selfless act that I came through. It was a gift to them in disguise. They received the gift and were able to move on.

That story was significant because they never gave up hope. They accepted God and what was God’s will. They were then able to go on and be happy.

When you accept God and God’s will in life, you can accept loss better as well as remain open to new gifts God has in store for you.

There is so much we don’t understand about life including why things turn out as they do, but our responses to the incidents in life make all the difference in the world.

I had never heard of the type of situation my father explained. When I look into the causal level of negative memories for my clients during our spiritual healing sessions, I often learn aspects of life that were unfamiliar to me prior. I recall a particular client who was abused as a child. We discovered that she chose to be born to a family with the goal of helping end an ancestral curse that caused abuse to occur down their lineage. We don’t always know what is going on behind the scenes on a causal, as well as, spiritual level. I’m always learning something new regarding life and it has helped me to accept life more as is and judge circumstances less. We can’t always see the big picture.

When life doesn’t meet our expectations, it doesn’t mean it is without purpose and a blessing. But, if we remain attached to the expectation and the disappointment of it not being met, we remain stuck and limited.

The lesson here, however, is to accept God’s will, life as is and to stay open. If you close your heart when circumstances such as these occur, it blocks receiving the possibilities available now, as well as, in the future, which may serve a higher purpose. Letting go isn’t always easy but without it, life becomes increasingly limited and blessings are blocked. We won’t know what God has in store for us if we limit him by staying closed living out of the past.

While listening to CBS Sunday Morning, I was thinking about the choice between saving a mother’s life or the child’s life during time of a health threat. In this segment, the story was the mother’s life was saved at the expense of the child who was aborted. I am not going into the Catholic Church controversy over abortion that was also discussed but would rather suggest a useful procedure in these choices.

The church obviously has its perspective. What about God’s personal one? God knows each and every individual as well as the blueprint for their life. God has the whole picture in mind. By learning to access God’s opinion directly, each and every one of us has the opportunity to ascertain what would be the highest and best choice for the particular situation at hand. Getting the answers directly from God alleviates the necessity to fall back on general decisions and rules of any organization or on man’s limited perspective. God has the ability to elaborate on each situation on a case-by-case basis by taking into consideration all aspects.

We all have a choice as to whether we go within to ask God within what is best for us in any given situation. Otherwise we tend to go outside of ourselves and ask people for their opinion or rely on an organization’s standards to make decisions for us.

I don’t necessarily know what is the highest and best choice at any given time in my life. That is why I prefer asking God. I know He has the big picture and as my best interests, as well as all those concerned, at heart.

I asked God what He thought of this subject and this was His response:

The subject of abortion is a tricky one. No one should be taking the life of another. It is not your role. It is mine. It is my choice who should live or die. I, however, do not want to see anyone die but of their own accord. You choose your own death in more ways than one. You, however, do not have the role of choosing someone else’s death. That you should leave up to the individual as they each have been given free will. I gave that free will to each and every one of you to exercise as you see fit.

I see the big picture, as you say, and can guide you to best action, but it is up to you whether or not you adhere to the recommendation I provide.

A woman came to me a couple of months ago for spiritual healing with the desire to have a better handle on her reactions to her children. She loved her children very much, but certain things triggered her to hit them. She shared with me today’s session that she hasn’t raised a hand to her children since then. She mentioned her relationship with her children has been effortless as well as a lot of fun. When I worked with her, I cleared all connections to and causes of anger. I included all current and past connections with her children because they is always a lot of karma between parent and child. When we clear the cause of the karma and the history and memory of those relationships, the future can change. I also am shown by their subconscious, angels or guides specific incidents and lifetimes of theirs to include. Once we identify and include the memories we want spiritually healed, Divinity is able to help clear, release and heal the situation.

It’s heartwarming to know I had a hand in facilitating s positive shift in someone’s life especially knowing there is a wonderful outcome for both her and her children.

As we can work on children through their parents, a father was concerned about his daughter’s fear of flying. During the session, I saw she was in an accident when flying in another life. By eliminating the previous memory, the subconscious doesn’t replay that memory before flying but looks at the new situation as just that – a new situation. Therefore, there is no reason left to fear flying, unless there is another memory that is also contributing to that fear. Then that additional memory needs to be released as well.

Because I have the ability to clear the cause of issues for others, I often end up clearing for spouses and children through my client. While working with a client, we often uncover issues pertaining to the rest of the family so it is a natural inclination to clear on their behalf.

The protocol, however, is to have permission first from that individual before we delve into their emotional issues. Therefore, for anyone over the age of 16, we are require their permission. A parent can work on their children’s issues under the age of 16. Over 16, they can ask them if they are OK with doing work with a consultation that could potentially uncover blocks that if cleared could help them have an easier and happier life. As long as they say, yes, we can proceed and they can benefit as best as the client themselves.

As a rule, we are not supposed to go against someone’s will. God has given all free will and we all must respect everyone’s respective free will whether we agree or not.

Children need to learn holiday traditions only for the purpose of understanding their family ancestry and dynamics. There is no real reason to carry on traditions unless they are a form of enjoyment and they have a reason behind it that serves the individual and family structure. What is inappropriate is to instill a have-to for children to adhere to and carry forth such as a mandate of how things need to occur for the holidays.

These traditions that families have passed on and carried out for centuries of time may be useful, may be fun, may serve a higher purpose, may be out of love, but also may be out of discord, emotional bondage and manipulation. Be conscious of your intent, your needs to control and your needs to impose. Relax and allow children to enjoy the holidays without instilling in them your lack of freedom, balance, peace and awareness.

What do you teach children about money? Do you teach children that if you work hard you will earn money? If you do a certain job, you will make a lot of money? Are you teaching your children to sacrifice themselves to make money? Are you teaching your children to not be true to themselves but true to the society that keeps them imprisoned? Are you teaching your children to be all that they can be and support them in what they were put on this earth to be, do and have? Or, are you trying to fit your children into some outmoded mold of an idea set down eons ago that does not serve them now? Are you teaching them that money is more important than who they are and are meant to be? Are you passing on your limiting beliefs to your children?