Is Your Divorce Stressing Out Your Child?

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One of the biggest concerns for couples going through a
divorce is the impact it may or may not have on the children. It can be difficult
to provide stability and unity in the face of something as emotional and
life-changing as a divorce. If you and your spouse are separating, paying
attention to your child’s needs and actions is vital when helping
them cope with the change. Our Monmouth County divorce attorneys have
compiled a list of 10 signs that could indicate that your divorce is negatively
impacting your child and you should take further action.

Signs that Your Divorce is Impacting Your Child

Frequent night terrors or nightmares

Regressed behavior, such as wetting themselves again or resurfaced fears

Loss of interest in school, athletic, or social activities

An increase of complaints about physical ailments, such as headaches or
stomach pains

Constant or periods of prolonged sadness or anger

Sudden change in eating habits, either a loss or increase in appetite

Significant change in school performance or loss of good grades

Developed anxiety that interferes with the child’s daily life

Having to miss work due to complications or issues caused by your child

Expressed desire to harm themselves

If your child is demonstrating any of these signs, getting angry or frustrated
with them is not the answer. These could be signs of serious emotional
distress on your child. Action should be taken, such as talking with your
child with your spouse and seeking a therapist. If your child expresses
the desire to harm his or herself, it is imperative to take immediate
action and seek help.

At
The Law Offices of O’Toole & Gunteski LLC, we do what we can to ensure that your divorce runs smoothly for you and
your family. We understand that it can be a difficult time, especially
for a child, but pursuing what is in your best interest and wellbeing
can help soothe the stress.

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