By LEWIS BURKE FRUMKES; Lewis Burke Frumkes is the author of ''How to Raise Your I.Q. by Eating Gifted Children'' and ''Name Crazy.''

LEAD: Immediately east of the Boca Raton exit off the Florida Turnpike, just 30 minutes from either Palm Beach or Fort Lauderdale airports and minutes away from the Intracoastal Waterway, lies Boca West.