DUSTIN Lance Black, who won the screenwriting Oscar for “Milk,” wants a Web site that posted X-rated photos of him and an ex-lover to pay. Black is suing Starzlife.com and a man he claims stole the photos from Black’s ex-boyfriend for $3 million, claiming he’s suffered invasion of privacy, copyright infringement and violation of the right of publicity, among other things. In the suit filed in California Central District Court, Black also claims he thought the naked shots of him and his ex in action had been deleted long ago.