Wow. I had a vauum extraction, episiotomy and a tear with my first birth...and thats one reason I'm doing natural this time. Seems like she's got things a bit backwards...lol.

I says over and over in my hypnobabies NOT to watch those types of showes or listen to negative births and I'm really taking it to heart this time. I did way too much of that before my first birth. I'm trying hard to "re-program" my way of thinking.. : )