Originally posted by lindalmj at 2008-7-28 14:34
Yeah, I know some girls pay more attention to wealth than true love.
I also heard some men changed their wife when they get rich.
The world is fair. So it is need every one keep your eyes open an ...

Originally posted by cathylu1983 at 2008-7-28 20:52
It is said that the matural love is combined with sex and affection. I think money is important, but compared to live with a hateful wealthy man , I'd rather choose dirty broken house but surrounde ...

Love is merely a sort of emotion!

When you chase love in a rational and reasonable way, it always eludes you.
But one day, when you least expect it, it arrives.....

Thousands of years have passed, humans made fantastic progress on science, but our cognition to love didn't seem to improve. ^_^

My cognition towards love has undergone three stages:
1, before 18, I think love is an emotion!(and I'm dreaming for it~)
2, 18-24, I believe love is responsibility and it holds a lot of connotations! (I am trying to think and act maturely~)
3, over 24, I realized that love is indeed an emotion! (I am already mature and rational and fully responsible that I've lost the ability of initial impulse. )

When love can be implemented by reason and logic and responsibility, it fails to be love.

H.L.Mencken put it that to be love is merely to be in a state of perceptual anesthesia----- to mistake an ordinary young man for a Greek god or an ordinary young woman for a goddess.

And by George Santayana----Love is only half the illusion; the lover, but not his love, is deceived. : )

Originally posted by garyguoyi at 2008-7-28 13:56
remember one post " marry me ? prepare a house first ..."
actually , when get marry , woman will think about many aspects : love , physical condition, future...and so on
herein , money ...

I couldn't agree with you more.Nowadays apparently people tend to be realistic.But ironically in fact , mercilessness invariably reflects the human nature and dominates the human race.So i'm under the impression how to renovacate our self-esteem while abating the self-being is the top priority for the modern people.