Any trick that makes sex hotter for both of you will make you feel more connected—in and out of bed. We asked women to reveal their most game-changing moves.

The Lift

The Lift

"Don't get too jealous, but my guy is insanely good at giving oral. One time, right when I was about to come, I lifted my butt a few inches off the mattress and clenched my butt muscles for a couple of seconds. The tension made my orgasm stronger than ever!" —Rachel, 25

The Kneel

The Kneel

"My boyfriend and I made up a move, and now when we use it, we feel extra close, since it's our thing. I lie down on my left side and pull my top leg as close to my chest as I can. Then he kneels behind me and goes in, so our bodies are perpendicular. He strokes my boobs and hips and hits my clitoris perfectly!" —Layla, 29