Me and my wife got together in '88, and got married in 2000. That's a lotta years.

Got married in '88 (I just realized: today 3/2, lol). The day my child turned 4 (turns 9 in June), I forced the wife out --- @ age 2, she decided our child was "ok" and that it'd be perfectly fine to drink and abuse prescription drugs. This is why I have a very dim view of drugs... what I put up with for two years amazes me now, because never ever again...

So 12 years before marrying was there ever a thought of not getting married?

Rather bold, idle, or nosy in your questions --- don'tcha think? A lot of people don't like dwelling on the past (whether personal or other party failures, most don't have a fondness for this kind of thing lol).

@nightstah- I apologize for sounding nosy I figured if people didn't want to share they wouldnt post or just tell me to go jump off a bridge. In Stomps case he is still married so I figured it all worked out ok to talk about it.

"The worst thing you can do is not to get old, but to close your mind to others that you think lack the experiences you have had. " Oddgriffin

"I don't mind having problems. I'm sure anyone who has spent time on here reading my rants will tend to agree." Darkcide666

I think I cheated on the whole situation. My gf of 5 years decided last year that she wanted to change her whole name (long story). Since she was doing it anyways she changed her last name to the same as mine. No marriage required lol Why screw up a good thing with marriage

Sorry I never read that thread I was kind of busy yesterday well and today *midterm exams*. What really scares me is that fact youll be able to drink. I can't wait to see what your drunk messages look like, especially since your sober ones are so far out there.

I TOLD YOU NOT TO READ IT!

Lol, I don't/won't drink. If I wanted to drink, I could have. I've been to a few parties over the years.