Yeah, the INTJ I was talking with seemed to have more Te based rationale for solving problems, with shades of Ti in the mix. It was a refreshing perspective, but it certainly was a revelation on my behalf that I took into consideration the welfare of others. It was a difference between focusing on people vs. the problem.

Yeah, the INTJ I was talking with seemed to have more Te based rationale for solving problems, with shades of Ti in the mix. It was a refreshing perspective, but it certainly was a revelation on my behalf that I took into consideration the welfare of others. It was a difference between focusing on people vs. the problem.

It's all a matter of conceptualization and perspective. It's not a vs. thing. It's a system, they are but variables. Therefore INTJs are capable of integrating the variables into their perspective and contingency if a decent case is made. You just can't use Fe to do it. They will fight you to the death on it. You have to coax and appeal to their Fi to come out and play.

It's all a matter of conceptualization and perspective. It's not a vs. thing. It's a system, they are but variables. Therefore INTJs are capable of integrating the variables into their perspective and contingency if a decent case is made. You just can't use Fe to do it. They will fight you to the death on it. You have to coax and appeal to their Fi to come out and play.

Is it really wrong for me to identify with Katy Perry's "Teenage Dream?"
Sometimes that sounds so appealing.

- Dreamy, Unsure, Delusional?

"Hey Capa -- We're only stardust." ~ "Sunshine"

“Pleasure to me is wonder—the unexplored, the unexpected, the thing that is hidden and the changeless thing that lurks behind superficial mutability. To trace the remote in the immediate; the eternal in the ephemeral; the past in the present; the infinite in the finite; these are to me the springs of delight and beauty.” ~ H.P. Lovecraft

Use lots of solid Te and don't make sudden movements. Exude calm, non-emotional Fi energy and peace. Once it happens they will likely bound away - don't take it personally. They have to process what just happened. Here it is caught on film:

Use lots of solid Te and don't make sudden movements. Exude calm, non-emotional Fi energy and peace. Once it happens they will likely bound away - don't take it personally. They have to process what just happened. Here it is caught on film:

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And then, with enough persistence, you can get us to a point where it becomes like this:

The Justice Fighter

INTJ - 6w5 8dw 3w4 sx/so - Neutral Good

"I trust what you are doing though…I just see it a little differently.
I don’t see it as you stepping away from the fire. I see it as the fire directing your course.
No matter how airy or earthy or watery you become... to many of us you will always be...a super nova."