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Dee Dee
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I have been one year into growing out a severely layered shag haircut (not sure what my hairstylist was thinking, but she got a little carried away), and decided to grow out my bangs last summer, so I completely understand. You look fine and I am sure you have discovered the magic of bobby pins (I sure have, and never thought I'd be so enamored of something so simple). I also want to let you know that I wrote on your blog last summer because I was frustrated with my hairstylist's reaction when I told her I no longer want color. Well I am six months into growing out my natural color and I can see some pretty, subtle silver streaks in the front, along with my natural brown hair. When I went back to my stylist for just a cut, she seemed fine but a few weeks ago, after she had finished styling it, she started getting on my about how I need to start thinking about color! I was so annoyed! She even had the nerve to say something like "all that grey you have is not flattering to your eyes and skin tone. . . grey hair is dead hair" I just grinned and kept quiet because I didn't want to argue. I am sure my decision is upsetting her cashflow, but she really needs to respect my decision. I have been a very loyal client for 16 years, and I don't want her to think she can sway me from something I am determined to do. I also don't think I need to give her a long list of reasons why I want to quit the hair color--saying "no" to color because I don't want to should suffice.

Thanks for writing. Yes, I remember your comment! I'm sorry that your hairstylist is giving you a hard time. It sounds like you have been a client for a long time. She should respect your feelings, and yes, no long list of your "whys" needed. I lucked out in finding my stylist who is so pro-gray hair. She helped a ton. It sounds like you are following your heart on YOUR gray and that's important! :) Also, yes, love bobby pins!!!!!!

Hi Lauren!! I've been reading your blog for a long time, and you are such a breath of fresh air! I am beginning my FOURTH attempt at growing out my gray. I first saw you on Pinterest and you have been my gray inspiration ever since! Your posts all have such a positive vibe, and that gives me hope as a mom who faces challenges with schooling, as I have a daughter with TBI and a son with ADHD. I can tell that you truly care about the people who read your blog. You are genuine and kind, and I find myself reading your blog whenever I need a little pick me up. You really have a special ability to reach people. I just wanted to let you know that it truly means a lot and that sharing your experiences really is helping people. Thank you so very much and the best of luck to you and your family.

I am so glad I stumbled upon your blog!! I was looking for people around my age (34) with gray hair, and kept seeing older women or young women with fake "granny" hair. Which by the way I hate that term! You look absolutely stunning! Which gives me hope to stay strong!! I currently have a little over 4 inches of brown and scattered white hair on the crown. Again couldn't leave without thanking you for your boldness because it has given me motivation to keep at it!!