Very sorry about the passing of your son. He is still with you, just not on earth! I think RowanGrey and ReverieAnya would be beautiful. Anya and Arya are similar, and you said you didn't think the AR in Arya was useable...

Haven't checked back in awhile...
I do like Anya too... hmmm. My hunch is 1 girl and 1 boy this time... so I have to pick my favorite. ReverieAnya is lovely.... I agree. Will have to think on it. Thanks!