Transcript of "Respectful Workplaces"

2.
Training Objectives
 Increase understanding of difference between
disrespectful (hostile) and respectful behavior.
 Increase understanding of the impact
disrespectful behavior has on you, your work and
others.
 Identify your role and responsibility in creating
and maintaining a respectful workplace.
 Learn tools for creating a more respectful work
environment.

3.
Why Should I Care?
 Increased commitment to job/higher job
satisfaction
 More productive on the job
 Higher satisfaction with personal/professional
development
 Higher trust of supervisor/coworkers
 More comfortable in providing feedback and ideas
 Avoid a lawsuit!

4.
Why should I care?
 Feel more secure about my job.
 Alignment of my career plans with that of
institution
 Less absenteeism
 Improved morale
 Fewer work-family conflicts/stress

9.
When someone else is the
object of offense, do you…
 Laugh along with
everybody else?
 Walk away?
 Confront the offender?
 Report this behavior to
superiors?
 Just think the person is
“thin-skinned?”

14.
More reasons…
 Lack of tools/training
 Don’t understand nor care about impact on
workplace/individuals.
 Lack of confidence in other’s responses (no
support within work group including
management).
 Fear of hurting other’s feelings; not being taken
seriously; being blamed
 Fear of retaliation.

16.
Projection: Classic Defense
Mechanism
 Persons have need to feel better about
themselves; only way they know (learned
behavior) is through disrespecting others.
 It’s easier to focus “self-negativity” or self-
loathing onto others than to face it
themselves.

17.
Why do people not feel good about
themselves?
We could fill libraries on this! Pick your issue!
 Victim of domestic
violence, physical,
emotional, or sexual
abuses?
 Living with an alcoholic,
drug abuser, gambler,
“spend-a-holic” or
otherwise disrespectful
spouse?
 What other stressors can
you think of?

22.
What to do….
Helpful? Or, harmful?
 Get educated on what IS or IS
NOT appropriate!
 Do not ignore it!
 Say something right away to
the offending party or parties
to STOP IT!
 Speak to offending party (ies)
in more depth in a
confidential setting.
 Report it to management.

23.
Everyone: Needs to Lead
the way!
•Ignoring the problem
will only make things
worse…
•You will lose respect.
•You could incite
workplace violence.
•If you join offending
parties in offensive
behaviors, you are
complicit and could
get sued!

24.
Management
 Educate your staff on what is/is not
appropriate.
 Show them that you take this behavior
seriously.
 Utilize discipline as appropriate up to and
including the management referral
 Seek advice from your HR Department!

25.
One-on-One
HowYOU communicate What you communicate
 Makes all the difference in
the world.
 Either demonstrates your
knowledge or your
ignorance.
 Sets the tone for your
department.
 Employees either feel safe
or fearful.
 Are you sending a message
that to “be part of the
group” one must be
offensive to others?
 Either produces or reduces
departmental stress.
 Either enhances or
destroys departmental
morale.

31.
Can you reframe a situation?
 Identify situation that produces
uncomfortable or distressing feelings.
 Identify your automatic focus, thoughts, and
feelings about situation.
 Identify a more useful way to view this
situation which offers you choices and the
potential for growth.

32.
Do YOU feel lack of power?
 DoYOU feel bullied by your employees?
 Feel pressure to “chime in” to their
behaviors?
 Feel ostrisized when you don’t laugh at their
inappropriate jokes?
 Feel powerless to do anything about it?

33.
A good rule of thumb: What if it
were:
•Your wife or husband
•Your son or daughter
•Your mother or father
•How would you feel?
•What makes it different
to have someone else be
the butt of disrespect?
•Why do your co-
workers not deserve a
respectful workplace?

34.
You have got to take a
stand!
 If you are struggling with “doing things
differently” now that you’ve heard this
lecture-FANTASTIC!
 If it makes you feel uncomfortable-BETTER
YET!
 If you want some help figuring things out and
wanting direction-WAYTO GO!

35.
Call LifeServices EAP!
 For affirmation of your thoughts & feelings.
 For education on how to best approach
situations both in the workplace and family or
social situations.
 You deserve a safe & respectful workplace!!
Call LifeServices EAP
1-800-822-4847 24 hours a day!