Monday, May 20, 2013

Aurinigate :Davis MJ Aurini: Caught With His Pants Down

UPDATED MAY 20thAURINI WAS DUMPEDFar be it for me to pass up on a good piece of YouTube Drama, especially when it concerns to that gynophobic monster, Davis Aurini. Normally, I would not write about a person's private life. Nor would I include photographs. In this case, these people decided to make their private life public. They chose to publish YouTube Videos and Blogs. Aurini invited other's into this mess when he advertised it online. Therefore, I am going to treat this in the same way I will treat any celebrity break-up, with one exception, photos of minor children will be blurred.Let us reminisce one of his woman hating diatribes, ¨We live in a world where most of our legislature is feminizing, where wealth transfer goes from men to single mothers.¨ The clash between deeply loving his dreamy Betty Homemaker whilst hating the women he calls ¨decadent bitches and sluts¨ was breathtaking. He contrived a highly structured, penis driven world order where any woman who does not conform to his world view is a bitch, slut, money-grubbing whore.

Today, March 4th 2012, about one hour ago, I discovered that Davis MJ Aurini is a home wrecker. Davis is in fact - the very Decadent Slut he claims to despise. Every time he says, "Decadent Slut", I can now say - "Stop hitting yourself! Stop hitting yourself!"He posted a video Gresham's Law: Moral Behavior in an Immoral World. I was shocked to find that I was agreeing with most of what he said in the video. His video had an unusual softer tone to it. His level of hate is normally at an eight, but in this video, the hate was at a two. I sensed something was not right. I had to listen to the softer side of Aurini for the entire video, until just the end...the very end...when he drops the bomb. Aurini is in the midst of a very real drama. The whole point of the lovey-dovey video was to put himself up on a pedestal, be the 'moral' person, and not address his personal drama. He also said that he would delete any comments made by people addressing the drama. (Good thing I know how to take screen shots of comments)

Drum Roll Please.....here it is:

Davis has been sleeping with a married woman. Not only a married woman, and a mother with small babies at home, one barely off the bottle. Here is the best part - the husband was a friend of his!

The title of his video, that's right ' Moral Behavior in an Immoral World. This guy really believes he is taking the high road. Sleeping with his friends wife (meh), choosing not to talk about it publicly (the morally high road)Moliere wrote, "The true hypocrite is the one who ceases to perceive his deception, the one who lies with sincerity." That softer side of Aurini was his self-deception and sincerity. This dude really thinks he has taken the moral high road. Somebody needs to get that guy as strong cup of coffee. Maybe a cold shower? I do not know, but he needs to take something because I have a hard time believing he is that delusional.I know I am not perfect, and one of my faults is that I do have a little bit of schadenfreude. This makes me wonder how Richard Dawkin's must have felt when Ted Haggard (minister, evangelical christian, leader of huge Colorado church) was caught having sex with a gay prostitute. Here are some of the comments Davis will probably be deleting soon. I saved them for you: Just click to enlarge them.

Let me get this straight, Aurini makes extensive videos rambling about how women are a bunch of decadent sluts. He says most women are not marriageable, they should not work, they should stay home and have babies - and - educating women is pointless unless it makes them better mothers. He also talks about single mothers being the scum of society.

Addendum and UPDATE

Dear Readers, as this blog has been hit thousands of times you will notice that I deleted a significant amount of information about the woman Davis Aurini was involved. It took this decision by my own opinion, and my reasoning is entirely on moral grounds.

My reasoning is this: First, young women make many mistakes in their intimate relationships. I made worse decisions in my life than she did in hers. She is certainly different from me in a lot of respects, but who am I to condemn her to having her information on the internet forever and ever? I would not want my horrible choices online for the rest of my life, and I do not think she deserves that either.

Second, I think that she surrounded herself with the wrong people and got sucked into a life she did not belong in. I also think that Davis is too full of hatred for women to ever truly love one, including her. This makes me wonder what she has been through. It is not just about making bad choices, being with the wrong people, but it is also about finding the right person who will give her the real respect she is entitled to. I am talking about the basic human dignity that all humans deserve. Third, although she did publish content online, I do not have reason to believe she wanted this much exposure in her life. Moreover, if I kept all that content about what she did online, Davis Aurini is not going to care in the least bit. I have no doubt that he never truly cared about her. He will not lose a second of sleep over it.

Finally, although I stand behind the opinions I expressed in this blog about he choices, (specifically the neo-con, misogynist, Nazi's she was associating with), I think thateveryone deserves a chance to start anew. I do have a conscience, and I do strive to be a moral person in my life. Her feelings have been on my mind, and I have wrestled with my own feelings of guilt.

People can change if they want to change. She dumped Davis, and moved on with her life. For that, she is lucky that she did not get too involved with a very sick person.

I hope she takes my decision to remove the content, as a promise to me, that she will make her best effort to make good choices for herself, and not repeat the same mistakes. This means - get a career going, develop your self-esteem, and reevaluate how you choose men. I will ask her to do this not only for herself, but also for her children.

39 comments:

Here is Anya Skuza's (aka "Alpha Unit") personal blog about what a loyal and loving housewife she is to her husband. lol. http://entwifeanonymous.com/

She wrote this barely a month ago:

"You see, I always wanted a traditional marriage, kids, the works. While I’m too Type A to wait around for Prince Charming, when he showed up, I checked out. My Junior year, I got married, graduated a semester early, and moved 1700 miles away. Horrified, disappointed, fascinated, and/or confused everyone from my best friend to my parents’ cleaning lady.

Doomed to fail, right? Nah, 2 kids, 12 moves, and all sorts of assorted shenanigans later we’re about to celebrate our 4th anniversary."

Unfortunately, from the sound of this web forum, the husband sounds like a pretty awful person as well: http://4chon.net/new/res/2822744.html

It looks like some weird white supremacist website. One post from someone who apparently knows both of them says the following:

"during the time that I knew her, Anne (as she was then called) hooked up with multiple guys at Penn (including, yes, a black dude) but kept it on the DL. She's one of those really self-absorbed, holier-than-thou types who loved to call other chicks sluts and whores for engaging in the same behavior she did. I assume she lied to Bryce about her sexual exploits, but the shit Bryce lied to her about was much worse IMO.

See, Jay Brys' real name is Leland Bryce Heithold. He changed it to Justus Bryce after he was accused of some kind of sexual assault (rumor has it that he tried to rape an under-age drunk chick., though I'm not sure how much truth there is to that). He proposed to Anne a week after they first met, and they got married a month later.

Anyway, at the liberty conference where Bryce and Anne met, Bryce constantly bragged to everyone about how he was "basically an engineer," about how he was a war hero, and about how he "could have gone to Yale."

In reality, of course, Bryce is an incompetent grade-A moron with serious personal insecurity issues. Dude has literally dropped out of 3 colleges in the past couple of years. He was only finished with one semester at some no-name mining engineering college in SD when he met Anne and told her that he would be a rich engineer some day and provide for her forever. Needless to say, that didn't happen. After they got married, Bryce dropped out of south dakota mining college and went to another school of mines in Colorado. Anya lied to her friends that he was doing a Master's in Economics there. In reality, he was a college sophomore (at age 25). He flunked out of Colorado after 1.5 semesters and then transferred to South Dakota for an Associate's degree in Nursing. Then, about a semester ago, he dropped out of the Nursing program as well. (On top of all this is the history program that Bryce dropped out of after he graduated high school in New Mexico. )

You might be asking yourself how the two of them managed to support two kids during this time period without ever having a real job. Well, as Anne is so fond of mentioning, Bryce has a 50k/year inheritance stipend from his rich grandpa. And Anne still uses a credit card that's attached to her mom's bank account. Since neither of them have careers, they both spend all day on Facebook, blathering on about how Bryce is a "patriarch" and "provider," and about how poor people are lazy shits, and about how people who "can't keep a family together" should be sterilized. Ironic, no? Anyway, they are both delusionally-narcissitic, fat, lazy, hypocritical morons – it's kind of amazing that their marriage failed since they have so much in common."

Wow, that is interesting. I am curious, have you made the same observation that people who are against higher education tend to have these kinds of lives, and tend to repeatedly flunk or drop out of school?

I noticed on her FB page, she said that she graduated early, as a Jr in Slavic studies. I am thinking that she too dropped out.

So Anne abandoned her children to the care of Jay the Neo-Nazi Child Rapist so she could go shack up with Aurini who is a convicted Domestic Abuser and fulltime doomsday prepper? man, this chick sure knows how to pick em.

Actually, Aurini was not convicted of beating Amanda. The judge found that she attacked him first, and that his actions against her were reasonable. Amanda previously burnt his bald head with a cigarette. Aurini and Anya have one thing in common - they both choose to have relationships mentally unstable people.

I am suspecting that these people have the following traits:

low sense of self worthover estimation of their own intelligenceidealism and magical thinking

Also, there is this video of Anya ("Alpha Unit") and Aurini talking about several topics, including: how much they hate feminism, how they think that the US fought "on the wrong side" of WWII (Aurini thinks we should have sided with the Nazis), eugenics/white supremacy, and the "coming financial apocalypse." Aurini and Anya also spend several minutes making fun of the immigrant cleaning staff that are employed by the corporation Aurini works for. These people are seriously sick.

Wow, you sound just as hateful and irrational as Aurini. You've spewed quite a bit of hatred about a woman you "know" from a small handful of blog posts.

You may not realize there are lots of people, both liberals and right-wingers, who do not trust their doctors. (Are you quite sheltered, how do you not know this?) She didn't say *your* pediatrician sucks, she said that as a group they are often underinformed. There's no denying this is quite true. Just because you got a good one doesn't mean they shouldn't be questioned.

And, contributing to your child's college fund isn't as de rigueur as it once was. Plenty of caring, educated parents (myself included) are not saving for college for their kids. (Also, how do you not know this either?)

I'm certainly no fan of Davis Aurini, he's an angry, pompous douchebag who's put his life on display and deserves your vitriol, but I find your attack on Anya rather disgusting.

And Anya is an angry, pompous bitch who put her life on display. She had a well-trafficked blog that she used to mock racial minorities, poor people and single mothers (ironic, huh?). She and her husband, Jay Brys, are also well-known members of a bunch of neo-Nazi, apocalyptic facebook groups and Anya has gone on Aurini's youtube podcasts to publicly spew her hatred of others.

Anya ("Anne"?) deserves Naoimi's vitriol every bit as much as Aurini does.

PS: Naoimi, her last name is Skuza, not "Sukza" -- you spell it wrong in the blogpost.

There is evidence that she also emptied her husband's bank account shortly after leaving. A fine catch befitting a fine man, amirite?

Aurini's "Lunatic Podcast #10" has Aurini, Anya, and Matt Forney (the loser who picked a fight with Paul Elam of the MRA movement while working at Wal-Mart).

Listen through to catch the subtle flirtations and inflection in tone between Aurini and Anya; they were practically cybering. Knowing what is now known about the situation, it is especially lulzy is to hear the following snippets:

9:45 - Aurini: Alpha Unit, you are a virtuous woman. 16:22 - Aurini: Alpha Unit is a very big mover and shaker... without screaming for handouts (she has her children's college fund she can steal from, lol)

Nice try, but I've never worked for Walmart. And I didn't pick a fight with Paul Elam, he picked a fight with me (I posted a mild criticism of his Register-Her.com site a year ago, and he went ballistic).

If you're going to lie about me snookums, at least make the lies believable.

Forney (the Manatee) is the one who is waiting for a chance to move in after Aurini's done. He talks a big game, posting an article: "How To Rape A Woman And Get Away With It." After people who talked a bigger game responded, he was frightened into making an apology.

Just in case someone wanted to know the quality of people that compose Aurini's friends circle.

"...when a relationship begins with an affair, both parties know the other has been willing to betray their spouse, so they lack trust in each other."

I stumbled on that insight when I was in my early 20s or thereabouts. Thus far, it has kept me on the straight and narrow. If I leave my wife for another woman, that woman will never truly trust me, because why would I stop at one infidelity?

"Aurini makes extensive videos rambling about how women are a bunch of decadent sluts. He says most women are not marriageable, they should not work, they should stay home and have babies - and - educating women is pointless unless it makes them better mothers. He also talks about single mothers being the scum of society."

It seems that you misunderstood everything he's said and have taken it out of context.

"with an alcoholic, sexist, woman hater like Davis Aurini?"

Ahh, so criticizing women automatically makes you a "sexist woman-hater". You're an idiot.

Hey Naomi. I think we'd all benefit from a feature on Justus Bryce, and how being a men's rights activist and a neo-nazi prick (not to mention -- per one of your comments and many more on the grapevine -- a rapist?) is a poor relationship strategy unless you want your wife to hate you and cheat on you.

I am always enthusiastic to write about any neo-nazi, dip shit like Jay. I would need to see some evidence that Jay is influential in some way. Right now, he seems like a nobody. I think that most reasonable people can see him for what he is.

If he starts making videos, or publishing blogs that reach a lot of people - I will go after him.

I would have kept the blog up. Aurini and Anya are both horrible people, I agree with you.

However, Aurini made himself much...much...much more public than Anya did. I will never remove anything about him. But I do not know if she chose to have this much attention on her.

I think that any person has the right to be a POS. For me, it is a moral dilemma, because if she never wanted to be a public person, and wanted to be a POS in private, then I must decide if removing her identifying information is the right thing to do.

If I have evidence that she publishes public videos and blogs, with her identifying information, then I would keep the content up regardless of her wishes. Since I do not know, I am going to keep the door open for her to contact me and say, "listen, I never published anything, I never asked to be public, I do not want to be public."

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