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"Dale and I have been together for two and a half years and will be married in 3 months."

Two and a half years ago I was frustrated, sad and a little hopeless. I had had yet another man leave me suddenly and I was so confused. I knew I hadn’t done anything to warrant his departure and yet I could not deny that the only common denominator in all my failed relationships was me! I had started to read Evan’s blog and everything he said resonated: I really believed there were good men out there – after all many of my friends had met and married good men- and I had finally come to accept that the only thing I could change was me. So I signed up for private coaching and promised myself that I would do whatever Evan suggested even those things I knew I would want to resist.

Evan helped me with my profile, recommended a photographer for professional photos and I started to date using his advice. Within a month I met Dale. Now, in hindsight I can see something which was not obvious to me then: when I met a man who was really open to a relationship, and who I might like, I wanted to run – made excuses as to why he wasn’t right or talked myself into moving onto a less available man. And of course this was true of Dale too. In this case though I had Evan – who encouraged me to ” stop paying attention to how I feel and start paying attention to how he treats me”.

Never before have I received better advice! To make a long story short Dale and I have been together for two and a half years and will be married in 3 months. I love him and am so happy and excited to start a new life and family together.

It’s not that I don’t think I wouldn’t have found love and marriage eventually on my own but I do know that I would not have found it as quickly nor as painlessly without Evans help. And who wants to wait to be happy?? Evan thank you for everything!