Tuesday, January 22, 2008

Thank you for all of your continued emails on your situations with your "MMs," asking for advice:- all of your stories are so different, but always remember that he is the one having it all not you. Wise up to that and you will be ok...

I write this blog from New York, where I celebrated my birthday yesterday.

With regards to the angry wife who sent me a comment to my blog, in relation to the article that appeared in the Sunday Express Newspaper in the UK yesterday, two things: 1). I am proud of you for actually divorcing your husband when you found he was having an affair - so many wives don't, but 2). The anger you show toward me, and "other women" would be better directed at your husband, or rather, ex-husband.

Sunday, January 13, 2008

Hello my little blogettes - I am sorry for not writing my blog every day; It had been one of my New Year's Resolutions, but between my diary, my "Mistresses Anonymous Support Group," and a novel I am writing, I hardly get any time to spare - (and definitely NO time for an affair these days, phew - I don't know where I ever found the time or energy!)

You will see the title of my blog today is "Princess' Day," as when I was traveling in Colorado over Christmas, I was told a story, by a very happily married wife. Her story made an impact on me. She and her husband told me that every Sunday is the day he spoils his wife, lets call her Patty for the sake of this story. He gushed about how he will do "anything Patty wishes, and give Patty anything her heart desires, all day on Sundays" (typical treatment involved running her a bath, bringing her breakfast in bed, etc.) So much so, that they had officially named Sunday as "Princess' Day," in their house!

I have no regal title, and no husband to spoil me, but I have to say that I have adopted the cause myself, and today, Sunday, I treated myself like a Princess!! Today was all about me - and I ended a wonderfully indulgent day with dinner and a movie. I saw the "Great Debaters" - it was totally brilliant, and a MUST SEE! Not only because it is produced by my favorite person, Oprah - but because it's message is all about, not quitting what you believe in, and not caring what other people think, but following your dreams and knowing you are as equal, and as good as, anybody else in the world. I think this movie would empower and inspire, anyone who watches it to want to be better! - and for the record, I though Denzil did some of the best acting I have ever seen him do.

Ok well, must shoot now, as I only have a short time left of Princess' Day - must go and finish indulging myself. Leave you with this little thought though - does this spoiling situation mean that EVERY DAY should be called "Princes Day" where men are concerned? considering how much we pamper them and look after their every need? (especially our MM's!) - and secondly, if I ever did get married, I would like to think the poor guy would spoil me every day, not just on Sundays!

Send me your comments. I get them all, but for some reason they don't get posted. Keep sending though, and I will get that fixed. In the meantime, feel free to email me to sarah@havinganaffairthebook.com, that way you are guaranteed a reply!

Thursday, January 3, 2008

Hello to all my wonderful "anonymous adulterers" everywhere - this is your year!

Happy 2008, and I hope you, have all, made some wise decisions about the coming 12 months - I would love to hear from you, as to what stages of an affair you are in, and how you plan to proceed with it. I am here to help!

About Sarah

As the World's first and only Infidelity Analyst, you can imagine that I'm a pretty busy girl. A real life mix between Carrie Bradshaw, Dear Amy, and a smidge of Jackie Collins thrown in. I look forward to analyzing with you soon.