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There are times when you’re either tired of the routine or you’re just not getting anywhere with the same daily routine you have.

So what do you need to do? You gotta change it up.

I really resonated with #1, #2, and #7… You want to have much clarity of what you want to do, have your own reasons of why you’re doing it, and when push comes to shove you want to develop your own support circle.

From my own opinion and experience, once you have these 3, everything else will be less of a challenge.

Well said Lea! For better or worse, I have a tendency to shake things up periodically just to keep myself from growing stale so change is a pretty familiar part of my life. I especially relate to your point on being clear about what you want. I was a life and small business coach for over a decade and answering that question is a real challenge for many people; in no small part because of course if you state what you want you might not get it and then you set yourself up to experience failure. It’s a self perpetuating prophecy in the making! Thanks for the inspiration and great advice.

Isn’t it crazy how much people struggle with being clear about their wants. You would think that when you want something you would know what you’re going after. But I think people get caught up with the short sighted view of it that they don’t even notice.

Well this one definitely resonates with me because I have someone in my life who is about as miserable as they come but she doesn’t realize that she’s in control of her life. She has had so much go wrong that she’s not even aware that she continues making her situation worse than believing that she can turn it all around.

She definitely does not believe in herself and we all know just how hard it is to turn situations like this around. But it’s possible, I see it almost every day and I only wish I could get her to read this post and start absorbing this kind of information. Instead she would be upset with me because I just don’t think she’s open to this kind of help right now.

You always have such great tips to help us with whatever situation we’re in at the moment. Your advice is spot on Lea so thank you for always being that beak of light to help us along.

As I read that I instantly thought of a person that fits that description as well. It takes a lot of self-awareness to see how you could be contributing to your own misery.

It’s an unfortunate situation. Until she’s willing to receive the info it won’t do her any good. It’s really shame to witness others in this state because we know what they need but they’re not ready for it yet.

Thank you so much Adrienne!! I really enjoy helping others and I draw from my own experiences. I’m so thankful for your feedback.

“Believe in yourself”… that is a huge one!!!!! So many are unable or unwilling to make the changes they need or want to make because they aren’t confident enough in themselves.

Change is hard… I’ve been through it several times in my life but I know I have the support of my family. And when you mentioned support that one is vitcal!!!! Friends are great but family support is critical.

Change at some point is necessary. Your post was insightful for me as someone who isn’t afraid of it and accepts the opportunities that can come with it!

Those are great steps to take to change your life. I’m having to take things slowly because I just have so many things going on! I want to change my life (to have less going on) but the things I “have to do” pay the bills for the moment. That doesn’t stop me doing a little bit every day towards the long-term goal. So, it’s little and often for me 🙂

This is a great set of guidelines to get your business moving forward.

I think that so many people get stuck in their comfort addiction, that they never take the actions required to be a successful online entrepreneur.

Then, when they do decide to take action, they don’t know where to begin. I think you’ve laid out a great plan of action here, and I hope many people read it very carefully. Great insights you’ve shared.

Thanks Natasha! I know what you mean. I think with things like that progress can’t happen fast enough. But in due time you’ll have what you’re after 🙂 Best of luck with your business!

~Lea

Stella Chiu

Hi, Lea

I love this post – stop to be dreamer, but be a doer.

We can’t make people to change until that person sicks and tires of his current life.He must have the determination that he has pick himself up from every fall because obstacles and challenges are sure along the path

Your 8 steps are all nice practical actions that any body can use to change his/her life to better level. I particularly love the last step that we have to do them every day. We can’t expect good result if we put so many gasps in between.

To start off, the huge life change for me would be … consistency. Like real consistency. Consistency that won’t allow doubts, and won’t make me look back. Just simple consistency every day, like your #8 (which I loved!). It’s quite hard to explain, but quite easy to understand. 🙂

To me, #1 and #2 may arguably interchange, though. You know, the big question “Why?”

I see what you mean, it is debatable. But I can see them as two differest aspects. You’d be surprised how some people can be clear on what they want, being about to paint the perfect picture of it. But have no clue where it came from, like why they want it. They usually discover that they don’t want it anymore or ever really.

I definitely hear you on the consistency thing. That probably is the biggest contributor for me in turning things around. You have to do it everyday, you can’t let it fall behind.

Thanks for sharing the change that you’re making. Best of luck with your consistency 🙂

~Lea

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