Get rid of what you own: Removing hundreds (or thousands?) of useless ‘things’ in your life

Earlier this year I became fixated on a mission to get rid of most of what I own. This all happened when I discovered a concept that was new to me: minimalism. For those who are unfamiliar, minimalism basically means that you strive to own fewer things, have less of an impact on the world, and lead a simpler and more fulfilling life because of it. One of the more popular minimalist ideas out there is only owning 100 things. Feeling as though I had owned a lot all my life (I amassed large collections of CDs, books, DVDs, and other things before I graduated high school), my interest in lowering my “stuff” count strongly appealed to me.

I immediately searched for things to unload. I picked on easy targets first, like clothing, extra office supplies, and books that I hadn’t touched in years. I even got to into larger and more valuable items, such as listing a bike on Craigslist and putting my clothing dresser on the curb. For a while, almost nothing within my grasp was safe. I successfully eliminated a lot of stuff and that felt great.

After a bit, it grew more difficult for me to get rid of more. I’ll admit I never thought I’d make it down to only 100 things (at least at this stage in my life), but I did manage to get rid of several hundred items from my life. In reality, 100 things wasn’t the mission from the start. The real idea was to simply have only the things I need and get rid of the rest.

More than 6 months later now, I’ll admit that I’m still not perfect when it comes to the random items I have laying around. Sometimes I do feel a sentimental attachment to random college mementos. Other times I literally don’t know what to do with stuff (like the stack of blankets in my closet), yet feel bad throwing it out. These types of things pose a challenge to my basic mantra of “if I don’t need it, get rid of it.” However, the transformation that I’ve gone through is definitely valuable and something that a majority of people could easily implement in their own lives.

I doubt that we will ever be a society where everyone owns less than 100 items. We’re not even close to that right now. Rather than striving to meet the 100 things challenge, I think there is certainly a middle ground that can be achieved on a large scale. To do this in your own life, here are some strategies that I’ve developed or read about in other places:

1. Realize that it doesn’t matter how much you spent on an item in the past. It’s value to you now is what really matters. This is a classic case in almost everyone’s junk-filled lives. From my basic understanding of what economists refer to as “sunk costs,” the price you bought something for doesn’t matter after the purchase is made and can’t be undone. What really matters is the item’s value is to you now. Yes, you may have spent $120 on that leather bomber jacket in your closet. But if it hasn’t left the hanger in a couple years, it’s really not worth anything to you and should be sent of to Salvation Army.

2. Rely on your instincts in deciding if you truly need it. When I’m deciding what to get rid of one item at a time, I pick something up and then think about what immediately comes to mind. If I immediately decide it’s junk, I get rid of it and move on. If I know I need it or use it, I put it in a pile I will most likely keep it. If I hesitate, that usually indicates it’s something I think I might need but really don’t. Most people are probably biased towards keeping things rather than towards dumping them. To me, this is a simple way to recognize and conquer that bias. If you’re on the fence, it’s most likely not worth keeping.

3. If unsure, give yourself time to decide by putting the item aside and attempting life without it first. Once you know you no longer need it, toss it then. This goes with #2 and can be used on those middle-ground items. If you’re unsure that you really need it, store it somewhere out of plain sight but in a place you can remember. If you need it, you’ll know where it is. If a month goes by and it hasn’t been used, it should probably be thrown out.

4. Realize that you don’t need to keep every single item associated with every memory. Again, this one can be hard, especially for the sentimentalists. Perhaps it’s a doll you were given as a child or a souvenir from a trip you took. Whatever it is, you have some sort of emotional attachment to it. Let’s be realistic: you simply can’t keep everything that you have this attachment to. There’s simply no way to even keep track of all of these things. I know this may sound harsh but saving things in a box that you only come across every few years does not serve any value to you.

Instead of keeping items as memories, find value in photos, videos, or journal entires instead. These can be at least as valuable as your item, but only take up space on your computer’s hard drive and not your closet.

5. If it can’t be sold for more than $20, don’t bother with it. I’ve sold lots of things on eBay and Craigslist that I didn’t need, and I’ve made a good deal of money doing this. But there’s been a lot of different stuff that has been difficult for me to sell. For example, I’ve had rugs or other small tables that just aren’t worth much in the second-hand market. I’ve put them on Craigslist only to get many tentative buyers that don’t come through or no real interest at all. Don’t waste time trying to sell things that don’t sell! My rule is if I don’t think I can get at least $20 for it, I don’t bother trying to sell it. It just isn’t worth my time (especially considering most people haggle anyway). If you have spare time, perhaps you can move your limit down to $10, but make sure you aren’t spending hours on menial sales.

6. Sell, donate, or give away stuff instead of trashing it. If you feel guilty about throwing things out, you’ll feel better knowing someone else will use them. Sell what you can or eBay or Craigslist. Salvation army takes just about all clothing plus a wide array of other items. If it’s still usable but selling or donating won’t do, put it out on the curb and advertise it on the “free stuff” area of Craigslist (I’ve literally had people pick up items within minutes of listing them online).

All of these tips can be taken in small steps; there’s no need to tackle your whole house or apartment in one day. I recommend starting in easier areas, such as closets, storage areas, or junk drawers.

In the end, the actual number of things you own doesn’t really matter. 100 is more or less a benchmark and useful for comparing what you own compared to others. It’s simple to find things to get rid of and you’ll feel the relief of having less clutter and more space for you instead of for your stuff.

Comments

Ha ha. I think this may actually be easier done than said. I love going through all my shit and getting rid of some of it, if for no other reason to get a good mental picture of what all you have. I’ve found that sentimental value is the biggest reason I hang on to strange or otherwise useless things. This can be a difficult process for the creative among us, as everything I donate or give away could just as easily find itself in a random parts box in my studio for future art projects. I’m not sure, but I think hoarding scrap materials (or dumpster diving) has saved me tons of money over the long run of being an artist.