We have tricare as well......had free standing bc with #2. Hoping to do that again since the cnm's here dont do hb and cpm's arent covered. Dont think dh would go for hb........however, Im a precip so maybe we will have an "accidental" hb lol.

Hubby is good with whatever. He was awesome at Natalie's birth... just not after when I was starving upstairs and couldn't get ahold of anyone to get food for me from the kitchen downstairs.

I want this birth to be just him and I (and baby) but we'll see what happens.