Our marriage changed that night. We instituted a policy of “Ridiculous Love”. The plan was that whenever she'd do something that made me mad... my job was not to give a death glare, criticize, or store up my anger and let it loose in an argument later. My job was to squeeze her hand and whisper the words “ridiculous love” into her ear.

There has been a steady but sure deliberate attempt to redefine marriage. There has been a successful evolutionary transition to blur the once clearly defined lines of marriage and minimalize the need to reinforce its healthy boundaries. Allowing its boundaries to become grayed and frayed.

"...the highest meaning and the most ultimate purpose of marriage is to put the covenant relationship of Christ and his church on display. That is why marriage exists. If you are married, that is why you are married."

There really is nothing casual at all about sex! Many don’t consider what is really happening.A surge of oxytocin from the brain makes a woman want to have sex and bond. A surge of testosterone from the brain makes a man want to have sex but possibly be done with you once its over! ! (Please be sure to see video below!)

Take an inventory of the things you do, the people you talk to, and the places you go. Would an outsider who doesn’t know you consider these things to look suspicious? Click here to read the article "Marriage Survival – Avoiding the Appearance of Evil"

... that includes dragons and fighting, and politics, and lost friends and hurt feelings and poverty and morality challenges and, and, and, and.
I tell every young couple that gets engaged as soon as possible that "Getting married is the most political thing you'll ever do outside of running for office". None of them believe me. Then the process begins.

None of us have squeaky clean pasts. As the scripture says, “He who is without sin, let him cast the first stone”. Our responsibility as Christians is to love. Judging others is not our responsibility.

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A keyboard cat, I hear you say? I bet you are intrigued! I know I was when I met Nora on youtube! I couldn't pass an opportunity without shouting about this talented piano cat. Yes.. that is right! This is cat play with a difference! Nora is a genuine pianist who has, with a little help from her friends, a recording contract!