First time having sex

I had sex for the first time today. It lasted about 2 hours until she decided that she was too tired. I did not manage to have an orgasm. However,
she seemed to have had half a dozen. She wasn't loud about it but that's the number of times that I felt her vagina become much tighter, it was almost painful.

What did I do wrong, why didn't I manage to have an orgasm? Should I have faked it?

unfortunately, this might be the cause of it. some are too thick, which limits sensation. Find a thinner one. I've had good luck with the Trojan Twisted Pleasure and... I can't remember the other brand.

That and if you "fly solo"... stop. It'll desensitize you.

Other than that, don't worry about it. Considering how you treated her you get a round of applause (esp. on the first go! you're a precocious little devil!).

Don't be concerned about this... yet. If this continues, switch brands until you find one you like.

unfortunately, this might be the cause of it. some are too thick, which limits sensation. Find a thinner one. I've had good luck with the Trojan Twisted Pleasure and... I can't remember the other brand.

That and if you "fly solo"... stop. It'll desensitize you.

Other than that, don't worry about it. Considering how you treated her you get a round of applause (esp. on the first go! you're a precocious little devil!).

Don't be concerned about this... yet. If this continues, switch brands until you find one you like.

my first time i lasted about 45 minutes, mainly b/c I was nervous as hell since my parents were down the hallway in their bedroom. try thinner condoms though....i particularly dont like condoms b/c it takes away a lot. my current g/f and i use condoms most of the time though b/c she freaks out about getting pregnant (even though she's on the patch).

if they want to give it a go to see the difference, there really isn't a problem

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Yes I know it is 99% effective...still doesn't mean it's fail safe and prevents diseases. He can do whatever he wants, I just cannot stand when so many guys are like "Oh I got her on the pill so now I can raw dog it with no problem!" And then she gets pregnant and they either throw a shit fit saying she has to get an abrotion, or freak out that they now have to pay child support, or decide to get married for "the sake of the child."