I'm not asking for you, because I now what your answer is going to be, I'm asking for me. I have my rebuttal answer all planned out and I am prepared to hear "no," and also to have the conversation where we both decide that it's for the best. So, bring it.

I ain't thirsty. There's plenty of fish in the sea, but I don't want all of them, can I have some standards? Or do we just have to settle, for someone's who meh and will do."