The odds do not tell the whole story

Have you ever wondered what the ratio of men looking for women vs women looking for men on this site? It's 15.787 to 1. I wonder how many guys would have even bothered to set up a profile for free if they knew these odds to start with?

Men seeking Women 15,381,678 Women seeking Men 968,723 So the world wide ratio = 15.787 to 1

In the USA here are the numbers. Men seeking Women 6,298,321 Women seeking Men 540,915 Ratio = 11.643 to 1

Now in my state of Texas Men seeking Women 463,210 Women seeking Men 39,303 Ratio = 11.785 to 1

The odds look terrible here but there is another side to the coin. Have you ever counted how many men actually have paid accounts.

I did a local search within 5 miles of my location and found 40 male paying members. There were tons of standard members but since the cannot initiate contact, they were not counted.

I did the same search but with women looking for men. This time I counted active members. Those that have been active on the site in a month or less. I found 11.

That gives you realistic odds of 3.64 to 1 ratio on this site for meeting women. If you have some brains, getting a date from this site should not be that difficult.

I've met several people from my paid profile. I have a hard time understanding the whining from some of the guys on this site.

Basically it's not hat different from dating in the real world. You would think the guys here would use the anonymity of the internet to express themselves and find exactly the kind of women they are looking for.

Quoting Babel__Fish:This is a good way to look at things, I wish more would also have this out look.

Babel

That would require those that never get responses to do some self evaluation. I don't see that happening from the ones who think that sending a "wanna fuk" email is going to get them laid will ever happen. I guess once you eliminate those guys as competition, the odds get even better for me.

Usually, when I send an email, it's more intellegent than, "wanna fuk", coz I read the profile. And, often, when I read the profile, I look for many factors that would decide if I'm what she's looking for, or if she's what I'm looking for. There are a few the will either make or break my attraction to them. I write only when I am interested and am serious about meeting. And, I have been known to write several paragraphs explaining my attraction.

This does not merit a response, sadly, but it's better than "wanna fuk". LOL

Usually, when I send an email, it's more intellegent than, "wanna fuk", coz I read the profile. And, often, when I read the profile, I look for many factors that would decide if I'm what she's looking for, or if she's what I'm looking for. There are a few the will either make or break my attraction to them. I write only when I am interested and am serious about meeting. And, I have been known to write several paragraphs explaining my attraction.

This does not merit a response, sadly, but it's better than "wanna fuk". LOL

The only time I haven't gotten a response is when I sent an email to someone who has not been on in a while. On those I'm just taking a shot in the dark, so to speak.

I've gotten more reply's through my blog then anything else, but maybe there are regional factors to. I'm close to houston, which means there are a lot of hookers, and spammers with pics and profiles that look very real, so alot of my emails go unanswered. But I keep truggin on! I havn't met anyone from AdultFriendFinder yet, but I havn't been around that long.

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