"I didn't say it wasn't a diamond ring!"

SO has been going on and and on about this amazing mysetery present he is getting me when he gets paid. He wanted me to guess so I guessed a few things and he said “no, no”. Anyway yesterday I thought it might have been a pair of GHDs so I guessed that and he didn’t say no. I was all smug thinking I had figured it out to which he said “Why do you think it is GHDs?” and I said “because you didn’t say it wasn’t” to which he smiled and said “”I didn’t say it wasn’t a diamond ring either!”

I didn’t reply to this but I think that comment might be a bit out of line (if it isn’t) considering he knows how I feel.

Er, no. I don’t think he likely intended it in regards to an engagement ring in a cruel way. I think it’s a more of a turn of phrase … poorly chosen perhaps, as he is implying it’s ridiculious to expect a diamond ring, but that’s a phrase that’s used. It may have just popped out. I doubt he meant it to be hurtful.

thanks guys. I know you’re right. that’s why I love you bees, sometimes you need some perspective. I am just a little sensitive.

last night in bed he asked “so do you really moan that I haven’t proposed yet?” (in regards to recent comments from my nan, sister, nieces, nephew etc.) I think he is getting sensitive and pressured too. Day 1 starts off SIU :-).

@LilMonkey: If it helps you feel any better, I was joking around with SO last night, and said ‘I must love you more then’ and he said ‘no, that’s not possible, I love you a circular amount’. After me giving a few jokey reasons as to why he loved me a circular amount he said he meant the ring.

I couldn’t ask something wedding related because I am trying to stick to the Shut up Pact. However, GHDs are amazing!! they are the best hair straighteners that unfortunately cost around £100! which is why I thought they could be the mystery present.