Drugs – Concerned a Loved One is Using?

What to do if You’re Concerned a Loved One is Using Drugs

If you are concerned a loved one is using drugs, it is difficult to know exactly what to do. The National Council on Alcoholism and Drug Dependence, Inc. has put together a list of what NOT to do to aid people in dealing with this difficult situation:

Don’t Preach: Don’t lecture, threaten, bribe, preach or moralize.

Don’t be a Martyr: Avoid saying things that could increase feelings of guilt and the compulsion to drink or use other drugs.

Don’t Cover Up, lie or make excuses for their behavior.

Don’t Assume Their Responsibilities: Taking over their responsibilities protects them from the consequences of their behavior.

Don’t Argue When Using: They cannot hold a rational conversation when under the influence.

Don’t Feel Guilty: or responsible for their behavior, its not your fault.

Don’t Join Them: Never feel the need to stay connected to them by drinking or using.