Lance, how did you cope with the stress, because that's a definate problem for me worrying all the time?

Ah yes, the question for the ages. Get an Igm and an Igc blood test and repeat the Igc in six weeks. That will put the Herpes thing to rest. Prostatitis is sort of a catch all term for something amiss down there. Things go amiss from time to time, it doesn't mean your whole world is broken. I believe my body will take care of things that are amiss, the human immune system is remarkably effective, give it a chance to do its thing.