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Im lovin ma second cousin n shes 4 years elder to me im lovin her since i was 7 years old n nw im 16 .im feelin scared to propose her but i proposed her many times indirectly n she will always get angry wen i do so ill impress always n she gets impressed but shes not lovin me.im so crazy abt her ill die if she doesn't marry me.i doono hw to propose her plz help shes not understandin n shes nt luvin any1 but she broke wit a guy n doesn't wants to love any1 again

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I'm not really sure what you said, but, Dude, you're 16. You don't need to be proposing to anyone yet. Sorry if my ignorance of your culture is showing, but I'm 15 and I know I'm not ready for that. You need to be this girl's friend and then who knows what might happen down the road when you're both old enough.

Sorry that probably wasn't what you wanted to hear, but I do wish you luck and happiness.

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ok marc, i'm going to tell it to ya straight. i'm sorry if it hurts your feelings. but dude! look at the way you are writing! you write like you're in fourth grade, not like you're 16. what 20 year old woman would be interested in a boy who doesn't care enough about communication to write properly? you obviously have a great grasp of the english language, and an even better grasp of text lingo, so no way will i buy the excuse that your writing style is because you're from another country.

secondly, and i know this may also hurt... but you're ONLY 16. she's TWENTY! maybe that seems like nothing to you... and in ten years, it'll mean nothing to her either. but at her age, four years is a lifetime. she's not seeing you as an adult. she's not even seeing you as her peer. in her eyes, you're still just a kid.

now forgive me for continuing to lay it on the table, but the very fact that you admittedly are unable to control your feelings, and the fact that you are feeling so dramatic and that you'll just "die" if she doesn't marry you only further demonstrates that you're nowhere near ready for a relationship.... in her eyes, it's just widening that age gap all that much more.

you need to concentrate on your schoolwork and quit pursuing her. the more you push her, the more you will push her away.