There is this idea floating around society and the media that the “giving” position in sex is powerful and the “receiving” position is weak. Normally, that correlates to men being in the “giving” position and women being in the “receiving” … Continue reading →

Hello all. I’m sure I had a really great idea for a post. You know, the post I was supposed to upload yesterday. But yesterday was really long, and today was a lot more draining than I expected. And did … Continue reading →

I thought about titling this essay “why I call myself a feminist” but after thinking about it for a while, I decided that I was hedging around an idea. I don’t “call myself” a feminist, I am a feminist. That … Continue reading →

Here I’m using the term “sick” in the sense of having a fever, cough, aching…you know, actually being ill. Just to get that out of the way. I’ve been fairly sick over the past week and a half and am … Continue reading →

What do you consider to be sex? (Not sex the noun, sex the verb.) At what point would you say, to yourself or others, that you had sex with [that person]? My current definition of sex is that both (or … Continue reading →

The other day I was giving off massive “let’s have sexy times” signals to my boyfriend, and felt like I wasn’t receiving anything back — or at least, anything I knew how to interpret. (We’ve been slowly having conversations to … Continue reading →