You're telling me he can't scale that gate? You're lucky, my middle son didn't just scale gates. At a year old he was literally ripping them down.... yes even the one's that were anchored into the walls.

As for the tent, I believe she's referring to the mesh tent you put on top of a crib to keep cats out.

That is where you are wrong Heather. It's not "his" loss. His meaning Zacks father. It's Zacks loss.

Zack can't choose to make his biological father be a dad. Zack can't: throw ball with himself, take himself fishing, teach himself to shave, tuck himself in, read himself a story. Sure technically he can do these things for himself and by himself but he can't do them in place of a father. Nor can you do them in place of his father should he choose not to.

About Me

My son and I live on a farm in Iowa with a menajarie of otheranimals. On a good day our life runs like a smooth three ringcircus. On a bad day one of the elephants escapes and chargesthe crowd. Please join us in our adventures, just watch whereyou step.