Cheating Tactics: Guide

Instant Message Flirting Tactics that Make Her Open Up and Smile

Props to you if you make it to the Instant Message/SMS phase of affair dating! That means you’ve created a nice profile and built intrigue through your initial email (unless she contacted you first because of that nice profile). Now it’s time to step your game up and get a date. You do that by WOWing her with some stimulating and fun IM/SMS conversations.

A messaging conversation should be an enjoyable experience. You should flirt, tease, and talk about interesting subjects. What you should NOT talk about is your bitchy wife that hasn’t blown you in months. It should also not include the topic of sex until you’re certain she’s ready for it. How do you know when she’s ready for it? If she’s asking you questions, using smiley faces, and giving more than just 1-2 word answers. That means she’s into you and you should feel safe bringing up sex. Just keep it PG-13. No need to get too graphic.

An Example of a Text Message Conversation That Led to Getting a First Date

A text conversation should be enjoyable for both parties. Flirt with her. Playfully tease her. Make her laugh. Make her smile. Give her a reason to want to talk to you again. Take a look at this example of an actual text conversation we had with a woman we met on EroticAffairs.com. You’ll notice this led to a date at the end. That date went well and he ended up getting laid. If you build immediate rapport with her before ever meeting, you will already have some chemistry before the date. So here you go…

“ Hey cutie, what’s good?”

“ Not my husband lol”

“ I hear ya on that. What did he do today?”

“ Nothing and that’s the problem”

“ His loss. But…my gain?”

“ If you play your cards right”

“ Did I tell you I’m a professional poker player?”

“ No you didn’t mention that. I thought you were an Investment Banker?”

“ Oh yeah that’s right. I forget things sometimes”

“ Who doesn’t forget what they do for a living from time to time?”

“ I know, right? So at least you understand”

“ No worries, I’m sure you’re telling other girls you a famous magician”

“ No I wouldn’t tell them I’m famous. Then they would look me up and my act would be up”

“ Good points. So what are you up to?”

“ Well, I was just sitting here thinking we need to go have some drinks this weekend…”