Cautionary Tales For Children
Wonderful witty poems great for reading to your children. The stories and rhymes will stay with them for the rest of their lives.

Research has shown how important YOU are to your children and how as a dad the things you do, and keep on doing, really count, whether you live with them, or you are a single dad and are only able see them once a month, once a week or more, what you do really matters. This site is dedicated to all dads but will be of special relevance to the single dad. Remember, you are half the reason your children exist and they need you whether you live with them or not. As their dad, you have what it takes to make their lives successful and fulfilling no matter how often you see them. This site is about all the positive things that we as parents have to offer our children.

Who needs New Year's Resolutions?

by Chris Barnardo

It’s January and the beginning of another year. Whatever has gone before is in the past. The Romans named the first month of the year after Janus, the god of beginnings and the guardian of doors and entrances, and as such we follow their lead by using the occasion as an excuse to set ourselves goals and targets for the year ahead, with the intention of making our lives better as we pass through the door into our new year. It’s ironic then that studies have shown that however well intentioned they start out as being, New Year’s Resolutions actually have an overall negative effect on our sense of well being.. . .
Setting targets to lose weight or somehow magically improve job prospects has in fact been shown to be much more likely to cause us feelings of failure and disappointment in us, than to make us feel better. . . .
Apparently, so the psychologists tell us, if you’re a man, you can improve your chances of success by setting yourself realistic and specific targets, and if you’re a woman you’re more likely to succeed if you tell all your family and friends the goals you are setting yourself. . . .
Whatever you do, take my advice; don’t make any New Year’s Resolutions that will make you feel bad about yourself, instead think positively about the year ahead. As you’d expect, here are some top tips to get you thinking.... . .

Take more time to really get to know what makes your kids tick

Walk more

Drink less alcohol

Listen to others and be interested in them

Write a list of the 10 things you would most like to do and choose one of them to do this year

Review only your successes from last year

Spend one day this year helping out at your children’s school

Write out your goals for the year on a big sheet of paper and pin it somewhere prominent

Eat something healthy and good for your body every week

Learn something new

I could write lots about each one, but I’m sure you can fill in the blanks. Here’s to a great 2009.

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