By including the word fat alongside truly horrible slurs and terms it further adds to the stigma that fat people experience every day. There is nothing wrong with being fat, we are all different shapes and sizes.

The fussiness started around his second birthday and after about a year of it, the resulting stressful mealtimes and a slight worry that he was going to develop scurvy, I decided I needed to try and tackle it in a way that wouldn’t cause long term issues or food aversions.