We are often concerned our deceased loved ones do not hear us. “My mother died many years ago and I never get any signs.” “My father died. I talk to him. I don’t think he hears me.” I hear questions like this all the time.

I am here to tell you they do and they do! I believe it is us that have the limitations as to what we hear and see, not the other way around. Our loved ones are ready and able to communicate with us if we would just listen. This is not to say all deceased loved ones can appear, move objects and flick lights. Do not pigeon hole them with their communication skills. It really depends on where they are in their vibration and frequency.

If you were to call your mother on the phone, would she always be there to answer the phone. No. You may have to wait a bit for them to get back to you. Now they will call you back in a different way. Just don’t place expectations on how.

Do not rule out what you get as “no communication”, for example, if you have heart to heart with mom and are wondering why she doesn’t contact you. Don’t rule out when you hear her favorite song on the radio two days later. If you are at a store and the check out person has Dad’s nickname on his badge do not rule it out. These are not coincidences.

I know how much you may want the communication to be more obvious. Let’s face it they are moving Heaven and Earth to reach us. The more you accept the stronger it will get.

Carla Blaha is a spiritual writer who is an intuitive and Reiki Healer. She has studied and practiced Metaphysics for many years.