According to “Dressing for Success”, a required text for executives in many Fortune 500 companies to read, a person has only one opportunity to make a first impression. Miss that opportunity and your entire presentation has been compromised.

I enjoy people watching and I am surprised at how little preparation many people do before they come into a club. I am also amazed at the number of play dates who arrive with only some preparation in their grooming and overall appearance. Don’t they care about how they are being perceived or am I being overly critical? What have you experienced?

Here I thought I was 'dressing for 'sucksex' - I think getting reading is 1/2 the fun and excitement.

But then I embrace all things feminine (bubble baths, lotions, dresses, and hidden surprises). Have I ever worn jeans to a first play date? Yep just once, very special jeans with red shoes of course. I was competing with a very important football game and wanted to score before they did LMSAO

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Awwww, thanks!

Mcallen TX

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Kibbles,

I will look here and see if I can find one. There weren't very many, when I found this one so they could be sold out. :(

Carrie

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Carrie, I will have you know I looked AGAIN for that pattern of tank top......and my store doesn't have it. {sigh} At this rate, I'll either have to get over it or borrow yours. lol

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Carrie I love your short overalls too! you can't beat a pretty gal in cut offs

Greencastle PA

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Thanks kibbles! I do love my short overalls!

Carrie

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"If I dress casual, I get lots more attention. "

Interesting.

The Mrs. likes to dress up. I dunno if this is considered "dressed to kill" by some, but while she gets a lot of comments and attention, it doesn't seem to get her laid.

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Carrie,

I think you looked gorgeous every time I saw you.... and especially the night we went to the karaoke bar. hugs, Kibbie

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I use to dress to kill, when going out but quickly learned it wasn't worth the effort. We are on Island Time here and when people come here, it is to be beach bums.

When I go out, by myself, dressed to kill, no one will approach me. If I dress casual, I get lots more attention.

Carrie

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livewirecpl: No, your standards are not too high. Did he see this pic on the Forum? Just from that alone he should have thought -- this lady looks really hot and her clothes are all that too so I need to be up on my shit.....what's wrong with that? IMO, there is never a reason to be sloppy unless maybe you're hanging out by yourself. We all have those days, at least I do when I want to be ugly but if I am coming to meet someone and, especially for the first time, I am going to be put together or stay my ass home.

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