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Oh yes, that's the painful lesson I learnt as a babylita. A lot of these look salvageable by replacing the lace and ribbons, and ironing it. Then you realise the stupid fabric is so frikken horrible it will always need to be ironed, sometimes you sit down for a minute and when you get up it needs to be ironed again. Oh, and most of them are also uncomfortable as fuck, feels like you're wearing a paper dress. What a photo like this doesn't show you is that the fabric itself is a huge problem that can't be solved or replaced.

Also who wants to go around replacing the lace on these, that's not really a piece of cake, and I say this as someone who has replaced scratchy weird lace on my Bodyline dresses. Imagine spending all the time and energy on an uncomfortable paper dress when you could've just sewn a brand new dress from better material, from scratch.

I don't even know if you realise the irony -- I wasn't a seamstress in my babylita days either, only ever started sewing for lolita, which is why I even attempted salvaging a dress like this.

Anyway, mainly posted earlier comment as a warning for other newbies. These things only look like they just need a good ironing, but in reality a lot of them were made from shitty fabric and there's really no saving that, the dress will look right for all of two seconds and will look like crap the rest of the time.

>>10052071Am I the only one who finds it really weird, illogical and straight up unfair that there's this mentality here that posting and shit-talking people is okay "coz that's how these threads work" but shit-talking back when you got posted is frowned upon because reasons??Like it makes no sense, like other anons have said, we're all here for the same things, so both parties should be entitled to some mutual shit-flinging equally.I really hate this idea that coming in and standing up for yourself (or standing up for someone else) makes a person /look bad/ as if dragging someone anonymously is not the more shitty thing to do.

>>10053758it's embarrassing and eggs on people who want to give you a hard time as opposed to people who just want to laugh at bad outfits and move on

there are ways to do it well tho, look at olive oyl-chan. if you come in and are receptive to concrit and have legitimate reasons for what's in the picture ("this was cropped from my comm's derp shot, here's the real photo of the coord that shows the proportions better" NOT "i spent all my money on my main piece"). most of the time people coming in to defend themselves is just REEEEEEEE

>>10053771I get the part about egging on, but why is it seen as inherently embarrassing? Yes, there are plenty of ways to make a fool of yourself when responding in a scenario like this, and not being able to handle criticism looks dumb most of the time, but more than half the time posts here have nothing to do with concrit whatsoever.Observe the example above:1. Asking invasive questions about someone's mental health based on their appearance is not constructive criticism.2. Posted-chan gave a short, simple answer not even going for defensive or aggressive.3. Troll-chan still got her bloomers in a twist and went on a retarded hypocritical rant about it.

It just doesn't make sense to me. Not handling concrit is one thing. If some asshole harassed me on the street and I told them to fuck off, I fail to see how I would be the one in the wrong.

>>10053758Nyart but, defending bad outfits is super embarrassing on its own and now we know what the person in the picture thinks, and if your “shit talking” people who are already laughing at your coord, that only makes it more embarrassing.

>>10053886I agree with you, but as I already stated above, not everything that gets posted here is about bad outfits.

Too often people are just being assholes targeting appearances, personality traits, mental health and things they personally happen to dislike, all of which has nothing to do with "laughing at bad outfits", but when they get called out on their bullshit it gets a salty accusation for whiteknighting, samefagging, etc. as if it's the default response the shittalkers use to shield themselves from being called out and, for some reason, it works.

Most of the time, when I disagree with someone in these threads, I am told that I'm just the posted person samefagging (when it's obviously not, bc it's me) as if that's supposed to automatically dismiss my side of the argument, and I think it's really stupid.

>>10054350Who said anything about mental health here? And if you’re talking about the “unfortunate faces” Comments, that’s all it is, unfortunate. If someone wants to defend themselves about their faces, go for it; but we’re all just trying to laugh and move on. If you don’t get that I can’t help you.

>>10054417>we have to do concrit anonymously because of people like you frankly.

Are you a troll or did you fail grade three reading comprehension?nayrtThe person you replied to is saying that they're sick of people ragging on unchangeable or irrelevant traits. Why would someone complain about or critique someone for something they can't change? Why are you concerned about how someone is irl when this thread is for judging outfits? There are cringey dweebs who dress well, their personality might be ita, but they don't get posted here. So there's no good reason to talk about personalities in the ita thread.