Everyone wants to be great in bed. Knowing how to make your partner crave for more, up to the point of begging you, is one way to spice up your sex life. Everyone loves sex, but not everybody is great at it. It takes time and a lot of effort to know how to be irresistible in bed. Here are some ways to make sure your lover can’t say no to you.

Convince your lover to express his or her sexual desires and focus on satisfying them

“Convince her with your eyes”

Every person has a unique sexual desire. Never assume that you know what your partner wants. You can try to convince him or her to share it with you. Convincing doesn’t mean you should force the person. You simply need to have a conversation about your own sexual desires. Once the other person feels comfortable about the topic, encourage your partner to share his or her desires with you. In some cases, you will find out that your lover has sexual fantasies you never thought existed. Once you’re aware of these fantasies, focus on them. It may take time before you can finally satisfy your lover’s desires, but it’s definitely worth the effort. Make use of the resources you have. Don’t hesitate to experiment even if it looks ridiculous to you. Your lover’s sexual desires might just give you the best sex ever.

Know how to tease your lover

“Tease all you want”

Teasing is so much fun especially when you know how it’s done. Teasing in the bedroom is different from what you do when dealing with kids. You have to know how to tease your partner. One way to do it is to prolong foreplay. You can also change your rhythm. Once your partner starts to feel the heat and you’re on the verge of unearthly bliss, slow down a bit. Just remember not to do this all the time. Sometimes even a quickie is good enough.

Make use of your mouth and master the art of oral sex

You can’t deny the fact that both man and woman love oral sex. However, not everyone is kind enough to do it. Some women and even some men like it when their lovers give them a mouth job, but they don’t reciprocate. It may seem like your lover is fine with it. But at the back of his or her mind, your partner may be completely disappointed. Don’t be selfish and think about your own pleasure alone. You have to understand that your partner also has sexual desires. Even if you don’t like going down, you’ll have to reconsider doing it. Your lover will surely appreciate you. And if you know how to use your mouth and tongue properly, your partner will be screaming in no time. No one will resist you if you are great in oral sex.

Be adventurous and vary your sex positions

You can never be irresistible if you’re boring in bed. By being adventurous, your partner will always have something to look forward to. There are a lot of ways to show this side of yourself. You can introduce sex toys or even use whipped cream. It’s also best that you try different sex positions. Don’t go to the missionary or the doggie all the time. There are lots of positions out there. Use your imagination.

Make sure your partner orgasms all the time

Women may still find sex to be satisfying even without the orgasm. Then again, it’s so much better when the two people involved reach orgasm. This is a challenge for men. Not every lady orgasm during sex. Sadly, many of them are only faking it. They’d rather hide the truth than let their partners know that they didn’t orgasm. Ladies are often worried that it will hurt their partners. This should never be the case. Men can become irresistible if they know how to make their lovers orgasm at all times. Guys can help their ladies climax by stimulating their clitoris the right way. Men should also know where the G-spot is and go for positions where this zone is constantly stimulated. Also, men have to devote some time for foreplay.

You don’t have to be a sex guru for you to become irresistible in bed. You just really have to be serious about satisfying your sexual desires and that of your partner. Opening yourself up to changes and exploring new positions can help you become irresistible. Don’t be selfish and never hesitate to introduce new things in the bedroom. In no time, your partner will be begging you to have sex with him or her.