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Thursday, August 9, 2012

The Best Natural Medicine is a Smile

Anne Kelly, founder
and president of Junonia.com, specializing in active and casual plus size
clothing.

Do you like it when
people smile at you? Most often the
answer is yes, because it feels really nice to be noticed and appreciated with
a genuine smile. But the real power of a
smile is the one you give.

You’ve probably
heard all the good things smiling and laughing can do for you: Releasing those
positive chemicals in your body, relaxing your body, putting yourself into a
more creative mind frame. And those are
all true.

But the interesting
thing is that you get those benefits even when you fake a smile! Try it!
Right now, while you are reading this, just slap a fake, sloppy and
silly smile on your face. Turn up the
corners of your mouth, open up your lips and make a toothy smile. Notice what is happening to you. You are probably sitting up straighter
because it is hard to slouch and smile at the same time. You are probably looking out and around,
because is it hard to smile with your eyes closed, and you are probably getting
a little antsy sitting in your chair, because it is hard to sit still when you
are smiling! And although you might not
be able to tell, your blood pressure probably just dropped a couple of points.

And that was with a
FAKE smile. Think what will happen to
you when you are REALLY smiling.

I’ve heard is said
that children laugh about 40 times every hour.
Adults, well maybe 4-5 times? Why
is that? Why did we stop smiling and
laughing? An adult who always seems to
be smiling is the Dalai Lama. Now
there’s a guy who would have good reason to never smile, a refugee who had to
escape his homeland to survive, leader to a his far flung people. Yet, there he is, finding as much happiness
in each moment as he can, and sharing it with everyone through his smile. He has a child’s impish quality, and yet is
among the most serious of people.

Research seems to be
pointing to social connection as a factor in living a long and happy life. When we are really connecting with others, we
are smiling! The more smiling the more
social connection. Who knows what is the
beginning of that virtuous circle!

You can do your own
social research. Watch what happens when
you smile. Try it on the bus, in the
elevator (OK they might think you’re a little off), at the next sour meeting
you have to go to. Fake it if you need
to, and watch what happens. When someone smiles at you, it is really hard
not to smile back. And now you have put
that person in a better frame of mind.
Gosh, where could that go? And
how fun is this for you! Not only are
you getting the biological benefits of smiling, but now you can enjoy watching
people be people as you pay it forward with a smile!