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Do you know where he is at? If you do then give them the address. If you live in the good state of IL they suck at finding the dead beat dad's. I said my ex is in criminal court serve him there. No ......pretty much saying in so many words they said.My ex-husband owes me over 12,000 dollars.

Here if they cannot find him you have to place an ad in the newspaper in the area that you last knew he lived in for 3 or 4 weeks and then you are off the hook. However if he is not claiming an income then they cannot take it out of a paycheck they do not know about. IF you do that with the paper they should be ablke to suspend liscense and issue a warrant... I live in SC where do you live?

Google him, ask his family and friends where he is, get an old address and follow him through address changes at the post office (if you can find the right worker willing to help). If you have no luck, take all info you have on him and his ss# and have a PI track him through that. It will cost a couple few hundred, but when you find and nail him, it will be well worth it.

My atty told me that there is a Lexus/Nexus program that most lawyers have. They can look up anything about a deadbeat father by using his name, ss#. Anything legal that comes up about the ex will be in the system (where he works, cases against him). Call attys around your area and see if they have this program.

Ok I'll tell you waht I did. Now my son dead is already on child support. But he dont pay it. Now as you know child support dont look on sites like facebook and twitter for men but they should. I dont know if you have a facebook or twitter or not. But type in his name and see what you get. Most people on facebook you can get there number off there. But if you cant. Look to see who his friends are that post comments and add them. Start taking to them to see if you can get info on him. I would start by trying a women with kids. Other mothers dont like for other mothers to be done wrong. I know thats alot to do. But sometimes we have to help child support get us are money. Good luck.

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