QUESTION FROM SHAUMBRA 2 (read from the Internet by Linda): Could you please provide some further clarity regarding the karmic relationship I had with my husband who just transitioned. Why was it so challenging? Why did he choose to go, and how is he doing now? He asked me to DreamWalk him, and I’m not really sure where we’re at with it. Yesterday I was ready to throw him off the Bridge (laughter) thanks to the mess he’s left me. Would it be best for me to discontinue the DreamWalk and to hand it over to someone more compassionate and less connected? Thank you for any insights at this time.

TOBIAS: Indeed, and since this letter was written, you’ve learned by now that the DreamWalk has been discontinued because he doesn’t want to go across the Bridge of Flowers. There’s too much energy keeping him in the near Earth realms, concerns for you, and some of your – how to say – interesting feelings about him are keeping him closer. So let’s let that DreamWalk go, disconnect from it and understand he’s going to be hanging around for a while.

As you already answered in your own question, there’s a long karmic history, a long – very, very long – history that goes back to the angelic family level, but a lot of history here on Earth. It presents you with an interesting question, and what you are really asking is it – what you’re truly asking here underneath all the words – is it appropriate to let go of him once and for all, whether he is dead or alive? Is it appropriate to disconnect and to say, “We’ve had many adventures together – I’ve loved you dearly, I’ve hated you miserably – but is it appropriate to absolutely let go?”

Now, that’s a difficult question. Difficult because there is an interesting sense of guilt and being conscious about things that all of you have – “What happens if I let go of my mother who passed away?” Not my mother, your mother. “What happens if I let go of my children energetically? What happens if I let go of my job? What happens if I let go of this old human condition that I’ve lived with so very long within myself?”

Excellent questions – what happens if you let go? Do you fall into an abyss? Do you become nothing? Or do you discover freedom?

For that I cannot answer the question for you. But I can empathize with the certain anxiety that you have, the reluctance, even the guilt you have about letting go of others. But let’s take a look at it this way. Energetically, so many of you have been very connected to your children and still are. What happens when you let go? Are you being an irresponsible parent? Are they going to stop living? Are they going to fall off the cliff because you’ve let them go? Absolutely not. You are granting them a divine freedom.

When you let them go, it liberates both of you, not just them. It liberates these old energy connections that you’ve had. Now you are free. Now you are sovereign and independent. Does it not make sense as a wise spiritual being that a new relationship can be created on a different level, a free level and a level that you can truly call love, not karma? Thank you.