I'm in the same boat. I think in a lot of ways he's been constructed as an NBA villain, be it through his own actions or perpetuated conceptions of who he is as a basketball player, but it's difficult to argue against him being the best active player.

Think he is the best basketball player in the world right now. With a chance to go down as one of the best of all-time. Plus, while some may find him egotistical or arrogant, think he can really be a fun, outgoing person at times. For instance, this recent series of events:

Best player in the world and probably will be for the next 5 years (when he's about 33 and Durant hits his peak).

He's become much more of a leader and now without the monkey on his back, he's playing a lot better. I say the Heat repeat this season, perhaps lose next season, and win again after that. He's also the best defender in the league. Not just perimeter defender but overall. The fact that he can guard bigs and point guards is extremely versatile. He should win a DPOY in the next couple of years.