I'd have made that joke but the same could be said for every thread on this forum.Every time I get in close WHAM! the Ex wants to get back to gether or Some one else snuck in under me. I blaim my timing and luck, the gods of the RNG HATE ME WITH A FIERY PASSION.

Its luck, yes. Alot of it is either luck or the teachings of both my stephdad and my brother. And the other parts are looks, experience, endurance, willpower and crazyness.

I like to see it this way: I'm fucked up, in a lot of ways, and me having sex is like god saying: Sorry for your fucked up-ness, here, hwould you care for some sex with girls to make it up?And im like: Sure God, i'd love to.

So, I've been asked out to dinner by a guy. Not going to go there, he has a massive hole in one ear (piercing) and told me I wasn't classy. Uh, no thanks.

Then last night I went to a good friend of mine's place. We watched movies then he's like "going to bed, you coming?" and I was like "ahhh..." and he just said "it's okay, it's totally innocent, we'll just sleep. I'm too tired to do anything anyway." So I was like "okay", went with him, naturally he closed the door and started making out with me and it got a lot more intense rather quickly (think toplessness). No further than that though, then we just slept. I figured he was just drunk but then he kissed me again when he dropped me home so I don't know. He's such a good friend that it might be weird, ahhh...

let it progress. If you are good friends, that has to be for a reason- meaning there is common ground. And it's easier to start a relationship when there's a path than just cutting your way through the personality equivalent of a jungle. I may not be the best person to take advice from, seeing as I haven't acted on anything, but if it progresses into something, great for you. If not, no hurt feelings. But if someone jumps the gun and rides the relationship bandwagon too quickly then realizes it's not going to work out and bails before they get too deep... that would make it weird. Don't force anything, just see where the path takes you.

I don't like to say no to people or to make things awkward, but yeah it's kinda weird. I don't think I want to go there because he's so much my friend...urgh I guess I'll talk to him when I see him next.

Online things are usually just dealing with a huge attraction between the two people. Because you're still by yourself in a dark room, people go alot further than they would with just attraction in RL. Knowing the person you're doing it with will probably never come over and actually be there, makes it all the more exciting for people, i suppose.

The girl sounds really unstable, but the online thing... They usually don't mean much, unless she's actively seeing someone and still goes to do it.

*speaks from experience... maybe a little too much*....God I need to get a girlfriend....

Shattered Dreams wrote:Also last night she was naked on cam for some dude who'll never be friends ith or anything. It's just an online thing.

Is she a stripper? If not, there's no logical reason for her to be naked for strangers. Oh, and "it's an online thing"? If that were true, porn wouldn't exist, and lonely guys on the internet would be content with mysterious stranger nerd chicks naked for them. I see no way to explain away "she was naked but not for a friend".

td260 wrote: I see no way to explain away "she was naked but not for a friend".

You'd be surprised by what you can bump into on the internet :\The less you know the person, the easier people do stuff, apparently. Aslong as they're nowhere near you.

again, begging the question of whether she is a whore/stripper.

I'd say webcam girl if anything. She's online most of the time, so doubt she works at a club and whore seems doubtful from talking to her. Having said this, camgirl is possible but I don't see it. I think her confidence level makes her vulnerable to doing things that get her attention.

Right DRTJR, stoppit. Stoppit right now. Do you know what being desperate sounds like to a girl? "I normally wouldn't look twice at you, but I'm so sex-starved I'll go with you anyway, and I know I've got a chance since you're so awful no one else will look at you." It's demeaning to you and insulting to the girl.

Seriously man, get some self-confidence and talk to women. They're not going to fling themselves at you. Proper relationships grow from friendships. You're not going to get very far if her only redeeming feature is that she's a whore who puts out. Join a club for something you like doing, try out a new social hobby, anything, just go out there and make friends of the opposite gender. That's your first major step.

I'll be the first to admit I'm not exactly a pin up. I'm unattractive, my boobs are pathetic and I don't stick my tongue down the throat of every guy who shows an interest in me. But I managed to end up with a fanclub because I talk to boys. I'm interested in what they say and do, I hang out and become friends. If it's a girlfriend you want it's your personality you need to show off. And to do that you need to get to know them, and they you. So go out there and make some female friends instead of sitting in front of your computer crying that nobody will ever love you. Man up, be social, profit.

And if you now complain about how you won't try because nobody would like your personality I will punch you through the screen, I swear.

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