How does role play spice up your sex life?

Sure, sex is great in a new relationship! But despite what everyone tells you, the attractiveness of it all wears off, and soon, you’ll find yourself bored with the same partner, without the thrill of discovery or without anything new to look forward to. In such a case, role play can be a good option to add some zing back into your sagging sex life.

It allows you to get over your inhibitionsThe reason a majority of the people don’t want to try role-playing is that there is a struggle in being overly sexual. Not just that, they are inhibited by what the other person will think of them. While all these fears are natural, you’re forgetting that your partner is probably as excited as you are to try it out. Try and have a frank chat with him, to make sure your insecurities are addressed before you plunge in.

It adds spark to your characterRole play can boost your confidence, make you more aware of your body and also add spark to your character since you’ve tried something refreshing and new, which has probably led to great sex.

It gives you a varietyYou can choose who you want to be in the bedroom. From the teacher-student fantasy to the cop-convict fantasy, or even just pretending that your partner is a random stranger you’re picking up from the bar, you have a variety of options to choose from.

How to get it rightTry and get into character as much as possible; this includes the use of the right costumes, makeup and props. Pick out exciting music that goes with your theme, and use it well during foreplay. Try not to use too many distracting props if you’re new to role play, and keep it simple.