Accidental Orgasms – 7 Ways to Make the Unexpected Happen

Love the idea of an accidental orgasm? Well, here are 7 ways to make it happen. But then again, you really should be careful what you wish for!

Accidental orgasms, you say? Most women can’t even have voluntary orgasms! But, I disagree. That joke had more weight before we knew what an orgasm really was and how awesome it really is.

It’s true, though. Women can have accidental orgasms, but that doesn’t mean that you’re supposed to anxiously wait for it to come at any moment *pun very much intended*.

Accidental orgasms occur because a stroke of fate – I call it luck – made it happen. They pop out of nowhere, but only a secondary stimulus can elicit it; meaning something you can’t control. If you intended to have it, it wouldn’t be accidental anymore, now would it?

How do you get an accidental orgasm?

There are two types of accidental orgasms. The first is the physical type, which happens when your lady bits are exposed to certain stimuli like vibrations from machinery or constant rubbing through an activity.

The other type of accidental orgasm is the mental or emotional type. An example of this is having a wet dream, but it can also happen because you have extreme episodes of arousal or if you have a neurologic disorder. [Read: Magic fingers – How to finger yourself to orgasms]

Are all women capable of getting accidental orgasms?

No, because every woman requires different types of stimulation – combining physical, mental and emotional stimulation – in order to achieve an orgasm.

The least that you could get out of stimulating female genitalia is an increased sensitivity to said body part, but without any assurances that you will get an orgasm. Some women can’t even have orgasms. We kid you not. It’s called anorgasmia and it’s connected to the physical and emotional state of a woman.

For those who can achieve orgasms, there are two categories with innumerable possibilities of execution. Those two are called “surface” and “deep” orgasms.

Surface orgasms occur due to continuous stimulation of the genitals. Deep orgasms occur the same way as surface orgasms, but it also requires a deeper connection with their partner.

There is no way to determine what type of orgasm works for women because our orgasms are connected to our personalities and internal social mechanisms. What we think is deep may not be that special and what we think are just surface orgasms could be a sign of something more meaningful too.

#1 While unconsciously rubbing one out. Examples are accidental orgasms that occur when you’re riding a badass motorcycle, or if you’re a badass equestrian who wore too-tight breeches during a course lap.

#2 During brisk walks and runs. We’re not saying it happens all the time, but it is possible. The fact that your clit has made contact on something, regardless if it’s just tight clothing, means that an orgasm can happen.

#3 In your dreams. Women also get wet dreams. Although we experience it less frequently than men, it can still hit you out of nowhere. Don’t worry. We don’t usually have to change the sheets, when it happens. [Read: 10 tips for women who want mind blowing orgasms]

#4 When you’re really, really open. Sounds pretty vague, we know, but experts say that those who practice mindfulness and meditation are more likely to be aroused. This is even more likely when you practice tantric medication, which is focused on intensifying your sexual experience mentally. [Read: The step-by-step guide to your first tantric sexual experience]

#5 Thinking off. We have no idea who thought of that, but we’re pretty much into the idea *another pun, haha!*. Thinking off is when you are aroused by a mental picture or something you saw that makes you orgasm out of nowhere. It doesn’t happen to everyone, but a lot of women think they experienced it themselves.

#6 When your brain isn’t working right. As we’ve mentioned before, women who have neurological problems like bipolar disorder and hormonal disorders can experience frequent accidental orgasms. Some reports say that it becomes extremely problematic because it affects you physically and emotionally. It can also be an issue when going out in public.

#7 PGAD. Egad, what is this? Sorry, I couldn’t resist. Ignore the lightheartedness because I’m here to tell you that Persistent Genital Arousal Disorder is not a joke. If you saw a news article about a woman having 100 orgasms a day, that is what happens to someone with PGAD. To give you a clearer picture of what happens when you have PGAD, here is a breakdown of what happens when you have it.

1. Your genitals feel like they’re swollen and ready for sex.

2. You can feel a constant throbbing between your legs, akin to the arousal stage during sex.

3. You want to have an orgasm constantly just to make those feelings go away.

4. You feel like you’re not in control of your body anymore.

5. You don’t feel the need to have sex because orgasms happen without it.

6. You may spend nights masturbating continuously just to elicit an orgasm, but the whole process of arousal repeats itself anyway.

7. You feel an urge to get any sort of release, but it never happens.

Having multiple orgasms all they may sound like a sweet deal, but the truth is that PGAD is not something that you should aspire to have. It is a serious problem that affects, not just your everyday life, but also your personal life as well. [Read: How to squirt while having an orgasm – The complete guide]

Are accidental orgasms safe?

That depends on who you’re asking, but generally, experiencing something that limits control over your mind and body can be dangerous in the wrong place and time.

If you’re driving a car and had an orgasm, you might end up in an accident. If you had frequent accidental orgasms while you’re asleep, it could also be a detriment to your health because of fatigue.

I know, I know. I’m bumming you out, but it’s good to know these things. Knowing when an accidental orgasm can happen and why it’s happening can help you, especially if it concerns your safety and health.

If it turns out that you have a medical problem, lack of sleep and fender benders might be the least of your worries.

If you’re experiencing orgasms out of nowhere, without any mental or physical stimulation, get a consultation ASAP. It might be harmless, but it could also be hiding an underlying problem in your body!

Accidental orgasms may sound like a really lucky occurrence if it happens out of the blue. But before you go wishing for a lifetime of accidental orgasms, just remember that awesome orgasms and sexual happiness lies in the thrill of creative effort!

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Danielle Anne
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3 thoughts on “Accidental Orgasms – 7 Ways to Make the Unexpected Happen”

Those nighttime orgasms are definitely some of the best. Sometimes they’re not even triggered by my dreams either. My husband has woken me up countless times when I’ve been in the midst of a pretty normal dream or even a scary one only to have me screaming in bliss. I have no idea what’s going on, but I’m not exactly complaining lol. Sadly, it doesn’t happen all that often to me nowadays. It was definitely more of a teenage thing. When it does, though, well… sorry neighbours lol ;).

I’m glad I’m not the only one who has the occasional orgasm while running. They’re especially common during the summer months, when my clothes are already pretty binding and the tightness of them just ends up rubbing on me quite vigorously. During the winter, they’re not so common, so with Christmas around the corner now I’m kind of missing the experience lol. Still, I know the warmer months will be here pretty soon and I’ll be hitting the trail all the more often ;).

This is a story that I wanted to share. I was building a new deck at my house some few years back. My teenage son was helping me to fasten and saw deck boards. A few of his friends, a boy and two girls, spotted us working and came over to chat. One of the girls, Nicole, a very cute 16 year old wearing ultra tight yoga pants, sat on the partially constructed deck while the others stood next to her and were having a conversation with each other. Now the board that she sat on was only partially fastened down in the middle but I hadn’t gotten around to nailing it down completely because I needed to cut it first. As I cut it with my power saw the board vibrated due to it being only partially fastened. I didn’t think anything of it but when the saw stopped I could hear Nicole say to the others “that tickles my sensitive area.” I’m not sure if she knew I heard her, but I began to have several devious thoughts about how I could have some fun with her. Even though I had already cut the end off the board, the kids weren’t paying much attention to me so I started to make another cut in the same board. This time however I didn’t cut it so quickly. I made a very long, slow cut and made sure to have the saw do a lot of work so as to vibrate the board even more. As I sawed I could clearly observe Nicole from the side as she was sitting about 10 feet from me. Her mouth began to open slightly in the shape of an “O” and she leaned backwards to pick up more of the vibrations. She was clearly enjoying herself. The other kids were oblivious to what was happening and just continued chatting with each other. Even though it was a cool summer day I could see a light sweat had formed on her face and her breathing had increased slightly. Nicole looked over at me with a flushed face and gave me a slight evil grin. I smiled back at her and I think at that moment she realized that I knew exactly what I was doing to her. Her small breasts were now displaying prominent little bumps poking through her shirt, as her nipples had hardened I decided to let her have even more fun and me too. I moved the saw about 4 feet closer to her and began to make a slow cut. As the saw began to grind into the wood, Nicole started rocking back and forth on the board. I took quite a few minutes getting through that board and kept pulling the saw back and twisting it so as to increase the vibrations. Nicole was panting wild while she rocked with her mouth now wide open. When I was almost done I could see her tight body begin to quiver and shudder as her eyes rolled up in their sockets, and I think she had an orgasm at that moment. Nicole wiped the sweat off her brow and was breathing heavily. A couple of minutes later she stood up and said “I have to go home now.” She said goodbye to her friends and staggered toward her house. As she was leaving she turned back, smiled at me and said “Hey, Sammy, I really love that deck.” I replied, “Come over any time, Nicole.”