Should I let him cum on my face?

Posts by porkansoskans-

My boyfriend always talks about cumming on my face during dirty talk but I never really let him do it lol. He shoots a lot and I’m kind of scared of it getting in my eyes and in my hair and everything.

Tomorrow is his birthday and I’m thinking of letting him do it, but I don’t know.

heres_thefoxx 355

It's really not that bad! I even find it fun now Some tips to make it easier for you though.

Put your hair up and away from your face so you dont get it on your hair

Close your eyes and hold your breath incase in gets into your eyes/nostrils

He will find it super hot if you open your mouth and maybe stick your tongue out a little bit. But this part is completely up to you. Idk how you feel about maybe swallowing a little bit of it, but trust me that position will drive him crazy.

I hope this helps!

BurritoWithExtraSass 68

Seconding the pulling the hair back, getting cum out of hair is a massive pain. I'd also add that having baby wipes nearby really helps with cleanup.

fverstudent 43

I'm not dissing anyone's advice, but bear in mind when reading that those who love/hate this may not be a fair representation. Reading some of the threads here you'd get the impression that 90% of people do threesomes, etc. (Spoiler: Not everyone does)

My advice? Only do it if you're completely happy with it. You can always reconsider next year if not 100%.

heres_thefoxx 46

And you're right (although I dont get what you are trying to say about the threesomes) However I never told her to do it, I just gave her some advice to make her feel more comfortable if she decided to do it 🤷🏽‍♀️

Lexloner 13

Always beware of the eyes. So painful in the eyes.

babythneeze 6

I know this pain too well. I was with a girl I used to date and right as I finished she hopped off me and I came a perfect arc right into my eye, a full load bullseye. Ouch

Emptyplates -2

Painful and can lead to eye infections.

It's a hard no for me.

Fitcryptoguyin -30

Y r u so depressed

VesperX 258

Pro tip that I haven’t seen anyone mention. If you do get it in your hair rinse it out with cold water before washing. Warm/hot water will actually cook the plasma like an egg white and make it sticky and chunky and much harder to clean out.

BeneficialTrainer066 125

thats so gross wtf why does cook like an egg god

GaianHelmers 215

Because it's made of water, sugars, and protein... Like an egg.

BeneficialTrainer066 150

well that explains why I love swallowing cum so much.... I love egg

GaianHelmers 49

There's a very stomach turning video of exactly what we're talking about. A lady 'collecting' a cup of cum, it getting fried up, and her eating it... Struggling to eat it.

For your scientific knowledge.

530nairb 29

She went to one of the high schools in my hometown. Cool girl actually. I would see her at the skatepark rolling around and I would feel bad because kids would run to their phones and point showing everyone. She didn’t seem to mind though. Guess that’s part of being a pornstar.

GaianHelmers 4

Cool to hear that someone has a level view of things. It really doesn't have to be that huge a deal... I think of the 99.9% of other bizarre, gross, stupid things people do online and really her contribution to it is a grain of sand on the beach. I hope she is well!

BeneficialTrainer066 10

ew gross that just fucks with me

if you really love egg and you're militant vegan, frying cum and eating it could be a really good substitute though. Some food for thought.

Captain_Eaglefort 9

I’m pretty sure vegans can’t eat cum. It’s still produced by an animal. And I am now very curious about the rules of vegans regarding oral sex...

sewer_mermaid 30

Humans can consent to producing come that is then consumed, animals can't consent to producing e.g. milk that is then consumed. That's the motivator behind veganism, not 'it comes from an animal so it's bad'.

theresfourcherries 12

This guy vegans and swallows.

sewer_mermaid 14

Gal :)

VesperX 2

Cannibal.

Captain_Eaglefort 1

That might be the reason some people have. Or even most. But there are vegans out there who don’t apply the reason to their reason, so to speak.

You can replace eggs with cum in a lot of recipes, particularly where egg is just there as a binding agent.

🌈The more you know!🌈

VesperX 4

There is in fact a cookbook with semen recipes called Natural Harvest on Amazon.

traici 2

Of course there is.

SithDomin8sJediLoves 1

Amazing what you can learn on Reddit!

dry_or_die 5

Her?

On_account 2

And it keeps it out of your hair 😉

Epicuriosityy 1

Apparently so when it’s in a nice hot area (inside you) it sticks around and gets you pregnant. So it’s made that way for us to make more humans.

Neveragain312 2

Haha!! Good info! So true, same if you try to wash it off on your body...it’s always there!

making_dinner 1

I just vomited in my mouth

VesperX 2

It’s hilarious that you’d rather swallow that.

shrimp_advocate 0

Came here to say this.

hellokitaminx 54

It’s okay if you don’t want to do it. For me, I fucking hate it so it’s happening basically never. That being said, I wouldn’t have known I hated it if I hadn’t tried it!

Malariadengue 3

Why do you hate it? Is it the smell, texture or something else?

hellokitaminx 1

I feel totally indifferent being cummed on in general, but I do hate the smell and the texture on my face specifically a lot. I feel like I’m dipping my face into those sticky slimy things you’d get from the 25¢ machines at a grocery store— except this slimy thing also smells like bleach.

Hailsagansdick 40

Wear glasses. ;)

ManBearHybrid 68

Or maybe some swmming goggles!

MuphynManIV 15

As a dude I would be 110% okay with a girl doing this loool

kates_busch 2

Or a helmet.

SaxBaBombs 25

If you are not totally against it and want to do something special for him then I say go for it. Just establish that he will give you a warning before he cums. Also I suggest that you are the one who holds his penis when he ejaculates, that way you can control where it shoots and how close to your face it is.

neuenono 23

Sure! Have him come across your face so it'll be likely to cover your cheeks and mouth - not so much your eyes & hair. He should stand/kneel next to your face while you're lying on your back. Bring him to climax with your hand to have the most control.

In case any does fly into your eye, have some Visene (eye drops) handy - it really helps prevent/reduce semen-induced redeye.

sweetlove 10

I’m pretty sure the shooter would have better aim than the recipient doing a sideways handjob.

mchef117 22

It's really not that bad. It's not my favorite place in the world but just take a shower afterwords and have a towel nearby to wipe your eyes

hornymistress 18

I started doing this to please a partner. I could tolerate it, but it wasn't my favorite. Now that I'm older, if I'm really into a guy and very pleased with his performance, I will ask him to do it. Bonus points if his hand bumps into my jaw/cheek while he finishes. Just give it a whirl. Use a washcloth afterwards.

fingerbang92 3

😍👌🏻 when a girl asks me to cum on her face I lose it.. hottest thing in the bedroom. Whoever you sleep with is one lucky dude

Nixie_D 14

Pull your hair back into a ponytail or bun, close your eyes, and hold is dick to guide it. Try to aim at your forehead or your mouth. Don't tilt your head back, keep it straight on or slightly down (avoids up the nose).

And have wipes in close proximity, you're going to want to wipe before you open your eyes if it drips down. If it does go in your eye, well the redness dissipates within a few hours usually, less with eye drops.

iteachchemistry 3

Good tips. Up the nose is not fun.

Highroller4242 1

Haha I had a gf tilt her head back "trying to look all sexy" as she said and it went right up her nose. She took it like a pro though and later told all our co-workers to my embarassment and pride.

If you really want him to enjoy it though, dont hold his dick, that will take most the fun out of it. Act submissive and let him be in control of every movement.

Nixie_D 2

Pfft, hold the dick, or the guy holds it, don't free Willy that stuff. Otherwise you'll have spunk going everywhere but where it should. And for a first time, screw the whole submissive thing unless that's your scene (and it is mine, but still screw it). For a first timer a level of control is good idea.

Even after, when a guy is coming, he's not so caring of where it goes. And frankly it's usually following a blowjob/handjob/combo of the two, perfectly normal for the woman to keep stimulation and guiding.

owlbois 1

Can confirm, don't get cum up your nose. It's a fucking nightmare to clean once it starts to congeal lmao

HappyRs 13

It's his Birthday... Why not? :3 You can do it once in a while for him, there is nothing wrong about it :)

0-90195 13

It's awesome. Big fan. Even if it gets in your hair, you can just rinse it out. If it gets in your eyes, they might sting and be red and irritated for a couple of hours, but it's nothing unbearable. It's worth it.

iteachchemistry 6

Was going to say this.......... it can sting in your eyes, might want to take your contacts out. Try to get him to aim more for your mouth if he can.

BlondeIdiot 12

This might be stupid to say, but just close your eyes and open your mouth and it's not bad honestly! Just a little messy and it might be nice to keep for only speical occasions if you aren't too keen.
It's good of you to even consider the idea for him!

youdontknowmemessy 12

Think of how much he'll love it! I think it's a harmless thing for him to want. Let the man give you the facial he deserves.

freddiedogg 4

think about what you want and what you think is hot, no one deserves anything but what the other is prepared to give!

anonymousalice2 10

Up to you if you want to do it as a "special treat" type thing for him. Personally don't like it and I think a lot of women don't and for a lot of people it has weird porn-y connotations... so it's totally okay if you just don't like to do it.

If you don't want to do it maybe suggest to the guy that he shoot somewhere else? On your boobs can be hot, or tummy, or if you are comfortable with bareback sex and have birth control or whatever have him unload between your legs on your lips, most guys seem to find that hot as well.

MuphynManIV 2

Yeah I'm a huge fan of onto the tummy since my last gf didn't like it on the face. She suggested it and now it's my favorite thing even after we broke up

anonymousalice2 1

Yeah that works well and the cleanup isn't too bad at all.

walrusdoom 8

Ironically, my wife of 10 years has no problem with me coming on her face, her ass, whatever. I’ve just never had the urge to do so. In fact, I don’t get the whole withdrawal thing. Nothing beats blowing your load when you’re balls deep in a tight cunt.

kates_busch 6

Did you just call your wife a tight cunt.

BoopinSnootsnUpDoots 5

Wear safety glasses and a shower cap and let 'im just give'r.

throwaway_702_ 2

A ski mask and a rain coat

ClarityByHilarity 1

🤣

katekink 5

I 21 F find it really hot when my boyfriend cums on my face its honestly not bad at all. Get yourself in the mood wear the lingirie you feel the most sexy and kinky in, tie your hair back and really get in to it. My boyfriend says the number 1 thing is enthusiasm so if you act like your really into it he will love it even more. I feel really kinky after it and trust me your boyfriend will go crazy for it. When you see the load coming just close your eyes and i definately agree with the opening of the mouth tip formentioned here.

fingerbang92 2

There need to be many more women like you. Your boyfriend is a damn lucky guy! 😅👌🏻

katekink 2

Ha thank you! We are both lucky. :)

Eejtna 4

doing that in the shower is the easiest way to go!

the_river_nihil 4

You’re thinking of pee. Semen in the shower actually turns into glue because of the steam.

Eejtna 2

wat

the_river_nihil 6

The hot steamy environment of a shower causes the proteins in semen to rapidly congeal into a thick glue-like substance that is harder to remove from hair and eyebrows compared to semen in a non-humid room temperature environment.

If you’d like to test this out, get some semen and rub it into both your eyebrows. Clean your left eyebrow using a moist towelette (aka “wet wipe”) at room temperature. Clean the other one using a hot shower. Report back with your findings.

RLupus 10

I would watch this video.

Eejtna 3

I never had such a problem, let him cum on my face/whatever and simple let it rinse with water

the_river_nihil 3

Warm water? Really? Maybe I’ve got weird sperm

Lockheed_Martini 4

It def congeals but if your in a shower you can use shampoo and just a lot more water to get it off.

PM_ME__YOUR_FACE 4

Never done it before? Then yeah you should definitely give it a go if you're curious. Who knows, you might get something out of it yourself?

Justinoneo 4

Just close your eyes and maybe tell him to not cum in your hair haha

OhToTheZo 4

It's good for your skin,trust a girl whose had a fair few to the face,secret to not getting it in the eyes or hair is make sure you're the one holding his dick and aim to the cheeks or mouth. He'll be super grateful after...then you can ask for whatever you want for your Birthday😜

Rottified 4

It's not bad. My boyfriend does from time to time and it wipes off easily with a damp cool towel.
He cums around my mouth so it doesn't go in my hair or nose.

NeeshaD22 3

For a start I would have him just sloppily aim for your mouth. Him standing over you and You on your knees head back, tongue out, and let him water hose your tongue. That way it'll avoid our eyes and hair and probably just land in your tits. Then if you're cool with that progress up to the face.

voiderror404 3

Do it if you're comfortable with it. If you are...when you're fucking him and he's about to cum, tell him you want him to cum all over your face. Just close your eyes and if he does do it make sure he gets you a towel to wipe it off before you open them. If you do tell him he may be taken by surprise and cum before he's able to do it on your face.

sorrycharlie91 3

yes, Yes, YES !!!

mynameisreallycool 3

Is that good for acne?

TinkerBob7926 3

Just close your eyes, open your mouth and get a little pornstar-y. He will LOVE it, sis

silvera6969 3

In my personal and humble opinion, i'd say... if you really want to please him this one time(who knows if you actually end up enjoying it afterwords) dont think about anything else and just let him(or even ask him) to cum on your face. See what happens, fuck it, it's a one time thing and i assure you it wont do permanent damage or anything you can't "fix" or sort out in a matter of minutes. Think of it as a B-day gift and just take it if you know it will make him happy. Dont go around pulling your hair up and closing your eyes and this and that... just go wild and let it happen. Again, i'm saying this from my personal point of view... when there's that much "preparation" it looks fake and kinda forced so it's a turn off, for sure.

fingerbang92 3

It’s really not that big of a deal, every girl I’ve ever done it too just goes to the bathroom to clean it up. Some will even grab it from their face and put it in their mouth, super hot. I shoot a lot myself and girls definitely complain about that, But it’s manageable. cum in the hair is a mess I think plenty of girls commented on how to clean it up. It would seriously make his year, it’s absolutely amazing and it’s one of the best nuts a dude can have. Plus he’ll feel like you really care about him, just if you do it, own it. Don’t be scared, don’t act afraid, I’m sure you’re a beautiful woman, own it.

anyabez 3

If you WANT to do it then go ahead, but dont feel pressured. If you do it though, dont wear false eyelashes as they will go sticky and get ruined, pull your hair back as well!

Tip: put your tongue out when you do it, it drives men crazy.

TimmyD80 3

What’s the big deal? Let him cum all over your face and act like you love it, like you can’t get enough, do it for him. Why not? It’s just cum, it’ll wash off.

hofstra5 3

I think it's a really nice thing to do for a birthday if it's something you don't hate.

Neveragain312 3

If he’s not being a jerk about it, yes! It’s nice to be nice. And honestly...I’d hope he wouldn’t want to spurt all over your face....ask him if he could just try to aim for inside your mouth. IMO looks so much sexier anyway, but then again I’m female.

fairydustxx 2

Not a fan of it but def close your eyes and open your mouth with your tongue out or turn a bit so it’s mostly on your chin, neck area

throwitaway1596 2

Tomorrow is my guys birthday too! Last year I let him cum on my face for his bday aaand he got it in my eye. It burns a lot but water helps. Keep your eyes shut really hard and keep a towel close by to clean up

shrimp_advocate 2

I don't hate it, nor do I love it. If my SO asks, I'll let him, because we're comfortable with each other. Do it if you feel comfortable doing it, if you don't feel comfortable don't do it. It's really up to you. But, as a few others have suggested, put your hair up, close your eyes and hold your breath for a few seconds while it's happening, and rinse with cold water.

scarninscrantoncity 2

It’s definitely fun but getting in the eye hurts like a bitch

buyxrp 2

wear swimming hat and glasses

scumoftheearth30 2

This gal sounds giving and game. Whatever she chooses to do, I suspect they will have a good time.

Darling_Tator_Tot 2

If youre on your knees sit a little further back and use your hand to get him there that way you know where it'll shoot out from, aim for your mouth/chin that way if it goes far it'll land in your mouth if it goes short, your chest

cptnstephie 2

I did this once because my boyfriend was begging for it, he wanted me looking up at him and all that. Well I ended up with some cum in my eye and that was a terrible experience haven’t done it since lol I think I would do it again but definitely not with my eyes open haha

swiller 2

Another tip: Have him come sideways to your face so it aims for your cheeks and lips... almost no chance of hair or eyes this way, and as a bonus, you can nibble his cock right at the sweet spot along the bottom.

rusty_rampage 2

Obviously don’t do something you aren’t comfortable with, but I will tell you that if you do it will really please him and it isn’t because he is ‘degrading’ you. You might find this is rally, really fun.

As a guy that shares this fetish, I'm always thrilled when a woman lets me do this. Make sure there are paper towels/Kleenex/wet wipes handy before the act, keep your eyes closed during, and use cold water to clean it off of clothing (and possibly hair?) if necessary. Good luck and have fun!

Sandman575 1

If your giving him a bj you can have him cum in your hand and jerk him off with his own cum.

You don't sound against it, so why not? Worst thing that happens is you learn it's not your thing.

VonWeezy 0

lol you type like your 15, lol. i think like lol!

jsswarrior444 0

Don't do it if you feel uncomfortable

rtahkwa 0

Do or don't, we don't care. Up to you if you think you can close your eyes or ask him to compromise in the areas you're insecure about (not on your hair, warning before cuming, etc)

If it's not something you're interested in at all, then don't do it. I'm sure there are other fun things you can do together to celebrate his birthday (or any other day).

montecrystal -1

It’s good for your skin

pussyguild -1

Duh. This is a no brainer. He should be cumming on your face whenever. He. Fucking. Wants. To.

NewJaguar -8

Quid pro quo

Do it under condition you get to kiss him right after ;)

And if you scared of getting it in your eye, do it in a way that your head stays slightly above his penis, not below it,most of it should hit your chin and mouth (unless he shoots like a sniper or something).

rusty_rampage 2

Yeah sexual relationships don’t work like that.

iteachchemistry 2

Some guys like snowballing.

DancingCat09 -8

That’s mean he watched some porn a lot. At least on your face doesn’t get you pregnant.

ipan705 -9

come on.. my gf always lets me cum in her mouth and face if i ask..

budpowellfan -11

Why would any woman want a guy to come on her face? Because they saw it in porn? Reading these comments from women giving pro tips on how to get seman out of their hair - I just can’t believe this is an enjoyable experience.

For that matter, why would any guy want to come on a woman’s face? It reeks of degradation and violence. It’s all too corporate for me - like the porn industry.

hereforginger 5

Sexuality is a mysterious thing, there is a ton of both logical and/or "absurd" reasons to like giving/receiving a facial...
And t's not because you aren't familiar/comfortable with some sex acts that they are automatically linked with porn...

If you want proper answers to your questions through, there is an endless number of topics on reddit discussing it ;)

hellswrath_ 3

I don't find it degrading in the least and I love having it done to me. I like having his cum anywhere on me and that includes my face.

in porn, though, a lot of people do use it as a form of degradation. but it's not inherently degrading, not to me anyway