September 23, 2014

It’s getting cooler, can you feel it? Yes, autumn just got here. And the end of summer. I know most of you are gonna miss the summer days and parties! However, autumn is also a great season. It just amuses you in a different way.

Personally autumn is my favorite season in a year; the weather is really comfortable, neither too hot nor too cold. The outside world becomes quiet, and you look out from the window seeing a leaf dancing in the air and then fall down on the shoulder of a young man, but he doesn’t notice that and keeps talking to the girl next to him and she’s giggling. What a beautiful sight!

Autumn is a nostalgic season because it can easily wake up the deepest emotions inside our heart. It reminds us of the past and the joyful memories in those days, and it makes us happy and feel a little sad in the same time. If you’re single, like me, it might also remind you of love and romance. Your heart feels empty and wants something to fulfill it. The urge for love is never so strong. It’s telling us to fall in love now in this lovely, nostalgic, romantic season!!

If you’re a single man dating some Asian lady on iDateAsia.com, I think it’s really a great time to win her over, because most Asian women easily get emotional in autumn. They regard autumn is the harvest season, of course including the harvest of love! So have a lovely autumn date on iDateAsia.com and let her know you’re the one she’s looking for. Here are some tips for you to amuse your lovely Asian lady:

# Write her a romantic love poem. Women love sweet words and they always want to be the heroine in your dream, your story and your poem. It’s no need to be very long, just simple and sweet. At the end of the letter, attach a recent photo of yourself enjoying the autumn day.

# Sing a love song for her. Pick a love song and record it by computer or other recording device, when it’s done, make a love call to the lady and let her hear it through the phone. It would be a surprise!

# Fly over to meet her. If you’ve been dating for quite a long time and get ready for the next move, your unexpected show-up must become one of the best memories in her life. Then you can walk down the street with your beautiful Asian lady, you’re talking, she’s giggling and the leaf’s dancing in the air.

Being a woman who’s turning 30, I’m getting to know more about myself and life.

Like the rest of you, I have so many desires; I wanna get a better job and make more money; I wanna have a great vacation and enjoy the sunshine in the beach; I’m dreaming of marrying someone who loves me and makes me happy every day… However, many of these things only happen in my dreams. Why? It took me some time to find out why the good fortune and happiness didn’t come to me. Because I never work hard enough to make it happen.

I always thought that I was not ready; it’s not the right time to do it. And then I postponed my dreams and plans day by day. One day when I looked back at the past it seemed that I’ve spent most of the time in getting ready. Now I understand that life doesn’t wait for you to get ready, you gotta jump in. If you really want something, you need to go for it and fight for it RIGHT AWAY. Don’t find any excuse to postpone your dreams and happiness. I know we will feel a little scare to change and lack confidence to chase the better things, but once you get started, you’re actually stepping forward to them.

Life is really short. No more waits. Be brave and get what you want. Love now! Live Now!

Hey guys, are you interested in dating Vietnamese women? You know, these Asian ladies look so beautiful and they also cook delicious meals. It would be great to marry a Vietnamese woman or live with such a pretty young Vietnamese girlfriend.
Meeting new people and seeking a romantic cross-cultural relationship through online dating services become popular around the world, even in the under-developed Vietnam. Many single Vietnamese girls and women tend to find a foreign husband online today. Why these beautiful women prefer to marry a foreign man from UK, the United States or any other western country? Well, that depends. Some Vietnam women might be more attracted to the western manliness. Here I share some opinions on this hot topic and give you some further information about Vietnamese single women.

Just to see what is out there: Some people are just tired of seeing the same things over and over again. They are curious about the outside world. Not everyone is capable to travel to even one part of the world and experience the differences. Marrying away is one way to do so with all of the life changing opportunities. It is common to see people who come back to their homeland after realizing what they see out there are not exactly what they want.

Life changing opportunity: A handful of young beautiful and smart Vietnamese girls who come from very much wealthy family also decided to choose a foreign husband over a local one. Their purpose is not to seek for a more wealthy life or to full fill their material/monetary needs. Rather, the opportunity to become famous and successful in a developed country is the most-driven force for them.

Escape from the traditional culture: In the Vietnamese culture, women are educated to be nurturing, willing to sacrifice and wait for her husband even until they turn into stones. This expectation has shaped the Vietnamese women to be the most beautiful and respectful creatures on earth but at the same time it is a factor that somewhat contributes to the result of shaping the modern Vietnamese men into a lazy and macho type of man. Plus, the old conceptions of “Trong Nam Khinh Nu” and “Chong Chua, Vo Toi” have further put the weights onto the Vietnamese women’s shoulders to the point that some of them just wish for an escape.

Seek for material comfort: From the delta in Vietnam’s south to small rural towns in the north, a growing number of young Vietnamese women are marrying foreigners, mostly from Taiwan and South Korea. They seek material comfort and more important, a way to save their parents from a life in extreme poverty, which many Vietnamese women consider their greatest duty.

Less requirements from foreign husbands: The majority of Western men do not care much about the past of their partners. The Vietnamese brides are not required to get the approval from all of the husband’s family members. Western husbands usually don’t have restriction on their bride’s career, education level, family backgrounds, or virginity. For the Asian husbands other than Vietnamese, they don’t have many other choices from their own country due to “limited supply”.

To love and to be loved: This is the most obvious and simple reason of all. In fact, it is believed that all marriages ought be this way. Most women have gone through years of their life finding love, but in the end they happen to fall in love with a foreigner. Vietnamese or not Vietnamese, these women make decisions based on who and what they love.

Regardless of the reasons, most Vietnamese brides are highly dependent on her husband upon arriving to the foreign country. And the family and husband will become the most important things in her life. What she wants from you is only your love and caring.

If you want to find such a good Vietnamese wife, you may go iDateAsia.com, there are over one thousand pretty single Vietnamese women seeking a foreign husband on the Asian dating platform. You can date different kinds of Vietnamese women like cute, pretty, sexy or classy.

Looking for a new relationship? Go online dating! It’s fast and effective.
It must be sad to end up with someone who you used to love so much like this. No one wants divorce! But when it shows up and there is no way for you to change the marriage, you’d better learn to accept it and move on. Find someone who can stay in a harmony relationship with you!
So today I’m gonna talk about how to start a new relationship after divorce. You know, it might be sort of strange and uncomfortable to get back to the love battle after having settled down for years. Anyway, I hope these online dating tips could be a little helpful.

1. Cheer up and leave your divorce behind. Give yourself a few months to handle the bad feelings after the break-up and then let it be the past. It’s time to cheer up and get ready for the new stage and lifestyle.

2. Make yourself attractive.Many divorced men just remain their lifestyle and appearance as that before divorce. However, if you want to attract younger women, you must make yourself look attractive. Otherwise, you can not even convince yourself that you can date a young beauty successfully. Get yourself dressed in a new look and try to have a new hairstyle. Try to be a new you and attract some new ladies!

3.Set a High Value on Yourself. Many divorced men think it a big disadvantage to be divorced. They are not confident while dating a single since he has been married before. However, you needn’t feel it that way. If the girl really likes you, this won’t affect her thought in a very high degree. You need to keep confident; otherwise, you are not attractive at all during dating.

4.Dating online. You might think it unrealistic to date a woman online and are afraid of scam. Now it is time for you to change your thoughts and visit some dating sites. Currently, the internet is a global hang out where you can get profiles of a large number of ladies. Of course, you should be cautious while selecting dating sites and try to avoid being cheated.

When you follow these 4 tips for divorced men above and get ready to come back to the world of dating, it’s quite soon for you to find a new lover!

Since it’s the technological era, the dating ways are quite different. Online dating is considered to be the most popular way to meet new people and create a new relationship. So how to take good advantages of this online matchmaking service to find a woman for marriage or for a stable love relationship? Many divorced men are over 50 and they might not be so familiar with the internet stuffs. They used to talk to single ladies face to face and know the exact timing and way to flirt her and make her laugh. But to date a woman online seems strange to these senior singles. So here is the guidance for the newly divorced men and newly online daters.

1. Show your advantages. Many beautiful young ladies are looking for the advantages that can not be found in their ex-boyfriend, such as healthy body, honesty and good temper. However, you must not lie about those advantages, all you need to do is show the real you in front of her.

2. Don’t rush. A woman who might also just finish a relationship with someone and needs to think about it thoroughly before moving into a new relationship. Take it slow during the process of dating her. Don’t rush to the next stage unless both of you think it the right time already.

3. Get along well with their families. For many women, specially the Asian women, family is very important for her. You should get along well with her parents and relatives. You should try your best to leave good impressions to them. If she has children, you should take time to be with the children and let them know who you are and like you. No matter how much you love each other, if the kids do not like you, you two are not possible to be together in the future.

4. Show her attention. It is necessary to show that you care her very much by giving her some gifts or flowers, calling her every day, sending SMS to her and pick her up after work. You should let her know that she is very important for you.

All the tips above are summarized from many men’s experiences of dating divorced ladies. If you stick to them, you are likely to getting the success. I know it might be not that simple but online dating does work if you put your heart into developing a sweet, romantic relationship with a single lady online.

At last, I would like to recommend iDateAsia.com to you newly divorced guys. Many sweet Asian women are looking for older foreign men for a serious relationship on this dating platform. You don’t have to pay anything to sign up and browse photos of hundreds of lovely Asian singles. Oh, it’s providing a FREE TRAIL OFFER recently for the new members.

June 3, 2013

Everything needs to be treated with sincerity if you want to make it successful, especially love.
I always hear complaints from my girl friends about their boyfriends not taking the relationship much seriously and feeling disappointed with the guy’s sincerity. Also some members of iDateAsia.com have similar problems. Why is my Thai girlfriend keeping refreshing her profile when we have been talking for a long time and I think we’ve already been in a relationship? Is she connecting with many guys? Should I go onchatting with this Asian girl? How do I know whether she wants to develop a relationship sincerely with me or not? Hundreds of questions have been asked in different ways but on the same topic, honesty and sincerity. Here are my points on it.

Don’t judge and try to show more understanding. Single Asian women actually feel pressures to develop a relationship through Internet. Although there are materials supported that Asian people become more open-minded than before, still disagreements and misunderstandings to the marriage with a foreigner are existing, like marriage for money. Frankly speaking, some pretty Vietnamese girls grow up in a rich family and have her own career, so they do not base love on economy as some people say. They just appreciate guys from other countries and bravely step out with the hope of a happy marriage. Then the reason why these ladies keep refreshing profiles is the same as you tend to be connected with more than one girl and pick out the right one eventually. They want to get to know more guys and choose the most suitable one to be a life long partner. Asian singles just look forward to love so badly. Once they make sure you are Mr. Right, she will love you with her whole soul and heart. So she really deserves your waiting and understanding.

Let her know you really want to be with her. On the other side, you should tell her what you feel for her. Once you open a profile and log in the online dating website, you definitely know you are going to find someone to spend the rest of your life with. And it is not that simple just by tapping the keyboard and clicking the mouse. You need to put a heart on it. These Asian women for marriage are still a little conservative in some way. They are not sure whether you have a feeling with her or just show friendliness and will hope guys tell his love to her first. Then you will have her attention and focus on you. Wonderful mutual effect.As a result, do remember that sincerity and understanding also play an important and irreplaceable position in love journey. So how to get a beautiful Asian girlfriend? Sincerity and understanding will work well.

If we want to date people online, firstly what we should do is to create a dating profile. This is a digital billboard that tells other singles on the same site you’re available and love to have a date. However, if someone has been in contact with you for months but still keeps her profile active online, it will be kind of frustrating and confusing some men. Why doesn’t my Asian lady take down her profile? Is she really into me or just wanting to make money from me? Is iDateAsia an Asian scam site? Various kinds of such guessing, doubts and suspicions upset us and are hurting our Asian dating life. It’s a necessary to remove these concerns before we’re having a healthy dating life and stable relationship.

Firstly we need to find out why these your Asian girlfriend doesn’t disable her profile. If you have chosen a friendly dating site like iDateAsia, scams or frauds should be excluded. Mostly there are two situations explaining why Asian girls still keep their profiles active online after several months of dating and contacting.

She’s Not Ready.

Yes, she obviously likes you, but it’s not strong enough to let her make this decision: cut down all the potential connections with other guys and ONLY develop an uncertain relationship with you. It’s especially for those gorgeous Asian women who experienced failed relationships or marriage with Asian guys before. Their former dating life tells them not to count on ONE unstable relationship too soon. So in this situation you can see these Asian females are just too serious to a relationship or marriage, not playing love games or any scam.

She Doesn’t Like Being Pressured.

Do this kind of Asian girls like you? Of course. They wouldn’t have been talking to you if they don’t like you. They don’t disable their profiles probably because you’re coming too strong in your emails, chats and other connecting ways. She becomes to doubt whether you’re the right person to be her lifetime partner. Asian girls for dating who belong to this situation are mostly young and independent. They want more personal space and respect in a relationship.

Since we know the reasons, how are we gonna deal with it? What should we do?

Relationship should be confirmed.

Tell her how much you appreciate her personality and want to create a serious love relationship with her. Write to her more frequently to show her your determination, giving her more confidence to believe that you’re her best choice, the one who can assure her a good marriage life. If your financial situation is good, a face-to-face meeting in her place will be very helpful to accelerate the relationship.

Be nice and listen.

But when it goes to the second situation, listening and understanding should be more important. Check back your former emails and live chat records to see if you’re coming too strong. Try to be gentle and understandable. Listen and know her needs. Apart from that, tell her your sincerity on developing a cross-cultural relationship with her but be careful of the way you talk. Don’t haste. Let it develop naturally but stably.

Try to understand the girls’ perspectives and keep follow our dating tips, your Asian dating life on iDateAsia will be a good ending.

November 7, 2012

I believe most of you probably have seen this comedy movie “The Yes Man ” starring Jim Carrey. In the film, he commits to saying “yes” literally to everything that comes to him after taking a personal development and this brings a huge change to his life.

Said Too Much “NO” to Love?

Have you ever thought about why you’ve been in the single state for such a long time? Why the hot Thai girls and gorgeous Asian ladies don’t date me? Well, busy with work and no time for a date should be mostly responsible for that. But it’s not just the fault of this high pressure society. Look back to your past dating life and think about it: are you prone to saying “NO” when you’re dating someone? Did you refuse to:
Talk to the Asian beauties you met at the bar?
Sign up and open a profile in a Thai dating site?
Practice how to flirt and attract girls online?
Hang on and give her more time to fall for you?
Meet her offline after weeks’ chat?
…
Yes, I know there must be some kind of reasons or excuses that make you to say no. But you know what? You’re limiting yourself. You’re losing the chance to meet your Miss Right, who will probably cross your path if you give more “yes” response to your dates and life.

Why “YES” When Dating Asian Girls?

When you say “yes,” your positive thinking will help you attach to your Asian match.
When you say “yes” to situations and ladies offline or on dating sites, you will be a pleasure to be with and surely a charming guy to date.
Every “yes” is possible to make a positive impact on your dating and life experience.
I’m not trying to persuade you guys to say yes to all the things, but give less negative replies to what comes in your way. Try to look in the bright side and imagine the best results you may get. We all have fear of the unknown world, but we have to take a risk an give it a try, to find out the beauty and happiness of life.
You can check out the Success Stories on iDateAsia and you’ll find that lots of these married guys had a skeptical attitude on online Asian dating in the beginning, but still gave it a try positively and finally worked it out in the good way – getting a beautiful Chinese wife, gentle Vietnamese bride or hot Thai bride.

I gotta the feeling that tonight is gonna be a wild, thrilling, crazy night! Because it’s Halloween!

As an international cross-cultural online dating site, iDateAsia.com will never miss such a good chance to let its members communicate and get to know more about each other. Since ladies on our platform are from Thailand, Vietnam, Philippe and Taiwan (China), this festival is not so familiar to them and they must be interested in hearing the funny things happened in Halloween nights! It’s really a good time to let these Asian girls know you and your culture.

It would be funny and happy! Online Halloween video chat? That sounds great. Can’t find interesting topics in normal times? Well, you’ve so much funny stuffs to share this time. Have you decided to play which character yet? How about the batman or Wolverine? They’re so popular in Asia. You can show your Thai girl or Vietnamese lady your manliness and fun side.

If you have ever been to Asia or dated Asian girls, you probably know that people from Asian countries speak very interesting English in which you can hear strong accents. For example, most Chinese people speak Chinglish while Thai girls speak Thaiglish ( also called Tinglish). Since English is not the mother language for the native Asian people, most of them cannot speak fluent English that’s in accordance with the rules of grammar, pronunciation and other factors, instead, under the interference of their first language they produce another strange but interesting way to talk with native speakers of English. Today we’re going to find out some interesting phrases and conversations produced when some Asian ladies talk in English.

Native English Speaker:” Hey where can I buy a SIM card? ”
Thai Girl:” You go seven or in the chopping also have sell.”
Actual meaning: You can go 7-11 or the shopping mall, they sell it too.

Native English Speaker:” Hey, are you free tomorrow morning? ”
Singaporean:” Tomorrow morning cannot leh, I have appointment, late a bit can or not? ”
Actual meaning: Tomorrow morning I’m not available, can make it later?

Native English Speaker:” So this trekking road will get me to that village? ”
Vietnamese Girl:” Yes, but zhe road is no so good, you must walk carefully, zhe weather is very hot, walk slowly. ”
Actual meaning: You can get there through the road but it’s a little rocky. Besides it’s hot. (“Zhe” is actually “the”.)

When Thai people say “to much”, mostly they mean “a lot”.

Thai girl:” I like it too much. ”
Actual meaning: I like it a lot.

Thai:” He has money too much. ”
Actual meaning: He has a lot of money.

They always struggle with ed / ing adjectives

Thai girl asks ” Are you interesting me?”

Asian girl:” Are you boring? ”
Actual meaning: Are you bored?

Thai girl:” Are you boring me? ”
Actual meaning: Are you bored with me?

Asian lady:” I am headache. ”
Actual meaning: I have headache.

They also mix up pronouns.

“I have one sister and he stay with my dad. ” (Is her sister a transgender? )
“Her is my friend.”
“He is she uncle.”
“Me go”
“they house”
“She car”

Some popular omissions in their sentence.

” I not know” ( means I don’t know)
“same you” (means same as you)

There are still many interesting phrases and sentences. Although many Thai girls, Vietnamese girls and other ladies from non-English speaking countries can not speak fluent English, there’s always a way connecting her world with yours, which I call it the friendliness and love.

Every woman craves romance, so do the Asian ladies dating online. If you want to successfully get a girl, you should touch her with romance. But some guys may think that it must cost a lot to be romantic. In fact, you don’t need to spend much money buying her an expensive gift or holding a luxury party for her. Occasionally sending her small gifts or showing your caring by saying considerate words also can grow her love for you.

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Ask Asian Lady How’s Her Day!

Send her a different friendly or love note every day through the online dating platform, and tell her you’re missing her and hoping she can be with you at that time. Ask her how is her day. If she has a job, you can also listen to her complaining about her work or boss and share your opinion. Meanwhile, you can tell her your day and what’s going on in your community or country recently. You don’t have to spend hours talking with her online. It can be only thirty to forty minutes a day for online communication with your Asian lady through Live Chat or occasionally Love Call. Besides, write her love letters ( called EMF Mail on IDateAsia.com ) should be also a great way to share emotions and grow affections.

Exchange Opinions on Culture and Traditions!

Since you’re online dating an Asian girl from different country, you should be aware that the culture and traditions are really different. Some people may think these differences cause a lot of troubles to the dating. However, seen from different point, the differences actually bring more fresh and interest topics to online-dating single western men and Asian women. Ask her about the Thailand Buddhism, traditional crafts, festivals, customs and so on. Let her feel your super interest in her country and her. In this way, she won’t feel bored and meanwhile you can learn more about her culture. Conversely, you can tell her the interesting stuffs happened in your homeland. Movies, songs, hobbies can be good topics for dating too.

Small Gifts for Memorable Days!

No need to buy her an expensive gift or hold a big party for her. Since you’re online dating, relative services are supplied for your convenience. On her birthday, Valentine’s Day, Songkran festival ( Thai New year festival ) and other memorable days for your Thai girl, you can send her gadgets like beautiful but not expensive necklaces, furry toy bears, chocolates, cakes or flowers. Apart from the reasonable price, what’s more, it’s very convenient to send the gifts. Only one click then you can send your love to your Asian girlfriend. And for the safety and preventing scam on IDateAsia.com, you’ll receive a notification telling you that she’s got your gifts and you can make sure with your Thai lady through Live Chat or phonecall. Romance is not based on money. Simple considerate words and small gifts can always win the love of Thaimatches online.