Wife Beating and Abuse

A Quranic Perspective

Domestic violence represented
by wife beating or abuse is rampant in this country and around the world.
While the exact numbers on domestic violence incidents differ, because
this is such an under-reported crime there are statistics on which most
experts agree.

1. In 1984 the US Surgeon General declared domestic violence as this
nation’s number one health problem. (US Surgeon General)

2. A woman is beaten every 15 seconds by her partner; it happens at some
time in 25-35 % of American homes; 4,000 women die from such abuse each
year. (FBI)

3. Physical abuse by male social partners is the single most common source
of injury among women ages 15 to 44, more common than auto accidents,
muggings and rape by a stranger combined. (U.S. Surgeon General, 1989)

4. In USA, medical costs from domestic violence
total at least $3-5 billion annually. At least another $100 million can
be added to the cost to businesses in lost wages, sick leave and absenteeism.
(Sylvia Porter, For Your Money’s Worth)

5. Women of all cultures, races, occupations, income levels, and ages
are battered by husbands, boy friends, lovers and partners. (Surgeon General
Antonia Novello, as quoted in Domestic Violence: Battered Women, publication
of the Reference Department of the Cambridge Public Library, Cambridge,
MA)

6. Approximately one-third of the men counseled (for battering) at Emerge
are professional men who are well respected in their jobs and their communities.
These have included doctors, psychologists, lawyers, ministers, and business

Statistics such as these should awaken all those in denial of the fact
that wife beating and abuse is an endemic disease in all different cultures,
religions and communi-ties. It is as common in Western as it is in Eastern
societies.

Men in Western (and Eastern) societies do not abuse their wives because
of scriptural teachings, but because of a natural instinct of domination
and aggression. God, knowing this, has therefore decreed a perfect law
to help men control their temper and to solve any problems before resorting
to physical aggression.

These statistics reflect the failure of modern societies in treating
this perilous condition in men.