It is still surreal for both of us, but we are starting to prepare for the the baby (or babies?) to arrive. It feels like we have so much to do, in such little time. But, we’re still taking things a day at a time, and enjoying every happy moment of this pregnancy.

I am sure you want to know how we found out and what it was like telling our families, so here is how it all happened.

Monday, February 6, I went in at 8:00 a.m. for my blood work. It was like every other time I’ve gone in to get the blood work, but there was something that surprised me. After nurse finished drawing my blood I asked if she could leave a note for my coordinator. Scott and I decided that this time around it would be better if we heard the news together, so I asked if she could leave a note for the coordinator to leave a voicemail. The one thing that surprised me after she wrote the note was her saying, “You have to promise me to listen to the whole message, so you can hear all the instructions.”

WHAT?!

Was there something she saw in my blood already, because I remember last time and the nurse didn’t say anything. So…I happily took this as hey, this is a really good sign.

After that I went on with my day, back to school. Nothing changed, other than me being so nervous for the voicemail. I left work at my usual time and came home and watched The Ellen Show. After being home for about 30 minutes, I ran upstairs for just a minute, and they called! I waited and waited, then finally the voicemail came through about five minutes after the call.

Then, I just had to wait for Scott to get home. He has been so busy at work, which is awesome for business, but I was dying for him to get home from work.

Around 7:00 pm, we finally listened to the voicemail. We made it through the first sentence of the voicemail, then lost it! My coordinator said, “…you are pregnant.” We laughed, cried, smiled, and hugged for a few minutes. Then, we decided we should probably listen to the rest of the voicemail.

I was told to continue taking my medications just as I had been. So that means, I do one shot ever morning, another shot twice a week at night, a progesterone medication every night, and then every morning a Prenatal Vitamin and Baby Asprin. I’m sure it seems like a lot, and it is, but it’s part of our daily routine now.

I will take medications until about the middle of March and will have two more appointments, a 7 week and 9 week appointment. Then, I’ll graduate and move onto my regular OBGYN. It’s hard to believe that everything is moving forward and each week is such a huge accomplishment.

I’ve had to give in and buy a little something. I saw these JellyCats at Babinski’s and fell in
love, so of course I had to give in. We decided for good luck we would need to get two, in the hopes that both of the embryos are growing into two cute little babies.

Before we know it, I’m sure we’ll have more updates for you! So let the waiting game continue for more good news!

This sweet little piggy bank has so much meaning to our family. Not only was it specially picked out by some of our nieces, it was picked out specifically to be the Baby Gowdy Piggy Bank.

There has been such an outpouring of love and support from so many family and friends that we have been left speechless. No words will ever adequately express the love and appreciation for all those that have supported us through our IVF journey.

You might be surprised to hear that there is more than just coins in our piggy bank. So many people have touched our lives through our IVF journey, that we have decided to add all their names into the piggy bank. If you have prayed for us, sent good vibes our way, shared your story, fasted for us, sent any amount of money or gift, or touched our lives in any way – your name is in that sweet piggy bank.

When it comes around to decorating a nursery, you better believe that there will be a special place for this piggy bank.

Thank you to everyone who has been there to love, support, and uplift us day after day. It gets hard at times, but there is always a reason to keep going and enjoying this journey, which is you.

I don’t know why I’ve been putting this off for so long, but I have. It’s not like I don’t share anything. Thinking about it, I think that it’s just finding the right way to put this all into words.

I can only imagine some people wonder, why in the world do we openly share our story? This is our life right now. This is what we are experiencing.

Here are three reasons why we are open about our experiences through IVF.

One. We have family and friends all over the world that we share our journey with. Whether it’s our neighbors, family in Texas and California or in Canada, they are all involved and there for us. It is hard to share every detail of everything we go through at separate times, so we find that this blog is a great way to share the experiences.

Two. Being able to look back at our experiences is always so incredible. We have grown in so many ways over the past two years. Thinking of where we were two years ago, we have experienced and grown in more ways that we ever expected. The experiences are something we would never want to take away, even the hardest times.Not long ago, Al Fox shared something that hit home in so many ways. She said, “I’ve spent too much time literally yelling at God because things were hard and confusing; and too much time asking where He was because what I was asking for wasn’t happening, and it was important to me. What a waste that’s all been. Because it was all of those situations I was complaining about that always led me to even better things than I even knew was available. Let’s all vow to quit questioning His plan for us and allow ourselves to LET Him show us how great our God truly is. Let’s all loosen up a bit and laugh a lot more and exercise faith in a perfect God who profoundly makes no mistakes.”–That was so perfect for me and I really needed to hear that.Three. To connect with others that are going through similar circumstances. We know that we are not alone on this road to parenthood. Hearing others stories gives us strength to keep trying, and we hope that we can give strength to others too.

These are not all of the reasons why, but a few of the important ones. We gladly share our story: the love and support we continue to receive is so humbling.

As a quick update, last week on January 5, I went in for my Baseline Ultrasound and got the go ahead from Dr. Foulk to start the calendar of shots. One shot down, and many more to go. In hopes that we will have a successful FET and a family on the way.