Explainer Video For Knowing If She's Into You

Is She Into You? This Hilarious YouTube Video Is Your Bible To Knowing For Sure

The Story

Knowing whether a girl is into you or not can be tricky. She's giving you the eye, sure, but does that mean something more? She invited you to hang out, but is that a clear sign of romantic intent? She suggested you come back to her place after the bar, but is she confirming her interest in hooking up with you, or do you need further proof?

Luckily for us, Casually Explained has a pretty solid video for you to de-mystify the whole process of whether she's really into you or not. Check it out:

The Snapshot

The Lesson

The video is meant to make you laugh, but an astute scholar of modern gender relations will realize that there's a lot of truth to it behind the funny facade. For instance: It's true that, unless someone confirms they are actually into you, it's easy to mistake politeness, or friendliness, or even a random hair flick for actual interest. Hell, even a match on a dating app doesn't guarantee she'll actually be into the real you. It might not be all ~ cool and mysterious ~ but having a conversation about how they actually feel will clear up 99.9% of the confusion about every time.

Second, the point about women being polite is intentionally over-the-top, but it's also a really sharp one. Because women are always expected to be nice and polite (and because angry dudes can be truly terrifying) sometimes they're not as good about direct rejections. This is where stuff like ghosting comes into the mix, or women letting guys down gently by saying they're busy rather than they're flat-out not interested.

So, pop quiz: If she agrees to hang out but keeps on bailing on your plans... is she really into you?