Monday, March 9, 2009

Five Tips to Finding the Right Girl

Dating can be such a pain in the neck for a lot of guys because they have set their expectations too high. Rather than enjoying the dating experience they are looking to hard trying finding the right girl. They end up putting too much pressure on themselves to be exactly what she wants rather than trying to be themselves, so here are few tips to finding the right girl.

First it is important that you learn how to be comfortable with number one. If you are not confident with who you, why would she have any confidence in you? Learning to be yourself and stand up for what you believe in is a key part in finding someone else. If you don’t have you ducks in a row, how can you expect to help someone else be happy? Take the time to find out who you are and then go looking for someone.

Manners are so important. They may not be to you, but they definitely are to her. Even if you don’t know the girl you are trying to find, you won’t find her if you don’t have manners. This means being kind to people that you know or may not know. Reputation has a way of defining you.

Step outside of your comfort zone. A lot of people expect different results by doing the same thing over and over. Wouldn’t it be nice if that were the case? If you want different results in your dating life, you have to put yourself out there and try new things. You will be surprised what you learn about yourself and may like the results of who you find in the process.

Get a job. This is one of the best ways for you to increase your self esteem and at the same time increase your chances at finding love. This doesn’t mean that you need to look for your future spouse on the job, but it does mean that it will open up opportunities for you to meet new people and in a way network with those folks, which could lead you to someone new.

Learn to enjoy life. WE have all heard that smiles are contagious and it is true. When you are happy it is much easier for people around you to be happy. Sometimes the best way to find someone to love is learning to love yourself first and the rest will fall into place. When you are happy, people want to be around you because it is easier for them to be happy when they are with you. Smile, it will go a long ways.

Stop worrying about finding the right girl and just enjoy the experience. It will happen when you least expect it. Everyone deserves to be loved, so start believing that you can be loved.