Imagine you are sipping tea or coffee while discussing various issues with a broad and diverse network of students, colleagues, and friends brought together by the common bond of physics, graduate school, and the physics GRE.

"Female" is possible or even likely because of intentional gender ambiguity, but I'm convinced that I'm not the only male physicist who cares about issues of women in physics. I kind of enjoyed my moment of ambiguity when RG flirted with me in his joking way .