But is he(Bolo) better kendra or anyone else? Kendra was right he was a barbarian.

Bolo lacks refinement and isn't the smartest or most cultured man in the world, but I would hate for those things to overshadow his attributes. I don't recall him ever being abusive or mean to anyone. He clearly loves Lori very much and has no problem saying it and showing it. I thought he was funny and interesting (one of my highest compliments) despite the toll the lack of food and sleep took on him.