Dude I would've freaked out a lot too! Making me doubt wanting to have children

hog mate, it's the best thing that ever happened to me. I have three little girls now and there were problems with them all. The first two had hip problems and needed urgent operations. Yes it's tough seeing them in any kind of discomfort but let me tell you, I wouldn't change it one bit. If anything it make you love the little buggers even more

I agree with you though. Don't rush it. When you're ready you'll know. And it's true what people say, you're life will never be the same again when you do have kids

That kind of stuff would scare the ever lovin hell outta me though. I don't freak out over the small stuff any more ("OMG SHE COUGHED LIKE THREE TIMES! LET'S TAKE HER TO THE DOCTOR!") but that would scare the crap out of me. Luckily, my daughter has never had anything worse than an ear infection.

I want a son at some point as well, but since my baby's mom and I aren't together any more I guess I'd have to procure a willing female lol.

And I've been rehearsing the "So you want to take my daughter out" speech since before she was ever born. Necessary prop = 12 gauge.