I would LOVE to be able to come out to everyone in my life, those I consider important know and I think I'd be ok with coworkers knowing. However it's not something that either of my guys could ever express at work and because their work is more of a "community" then a job, staying under the radar is a must. Dealing with the idea of remaining "hidden" is something that greatly bothers myself and Monster. For me, it's a big hit to my confidence and a struggle in my relationships. Maybe in another 13 years or so..Heavens even that statement is depressing.

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