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Sex Drive in Human :Part 5

Role of Religion and Society

In previous posts, several times it has been revealed that sex and sexual desire is in human software and religion teaches human about ethics of its performance, along withright people and at right time.

It means that if notion of “sex” would be evaluated without the parameter of religion and considered as purely CREATOR’s gifted software inhuman-hardware, then it reveals that this process does not recognize any relationship,boundary, religion or ethics. This process is beyond the relationship of mother, sister, and daughter. If the idea of religion gets removed, which teaches human to practice it with wives and husband only, it illustrates that sexual desire does not recognize female as mother, daughter, or sister.

Every day, there are so many examples in newspapers and magazines about this fact.

In Europe there was a couple married for ten years and had had two children. It has been discovered that both husband and wife were actually siblings,abandoned by their mother during infancy. However, this news did not affect both husband and wife. The wife remarked that she considered him only as a husband and will always see him with eyes of loving wife and intended to have more kids with him.

This very example illustrates the above argument quite precisely. Religion and society called that couple as brother and sister, but their penis and vagina have no concern with it, which only needs satisfaction and fulfillment of each other desires.

Similarly, the example of Brooke Sheild’s movie “The Blue Lagoon” also highlight this factor, in which brother and sister left alone in island and when they reached to puberty they began to have sex. As they were out of traditional boundaries of society and religion, therefore their mind did not develop the idea that their sexual relation is forbidden. Rather, their sexual drive took the power and the Brooke Sheild ended up getting pregnant by his brother.

Recently, I read another article from India in which a teenage girl was constantly raped by brother, father, and father’s brother and her mother was unable to do anything. Although, it is very insane and horrible but it also reveals that human body, brain, and sexual desire does not value the societal relationship. It only aspires to fulfill its hunger by any means.

Again, it develops the understanding that why general religions ordered humans to keep decent distance with father, brothers, and sons after certain age. The major reason is that society and religion (collectively) set a boundary that human cannot have sex with certain people. The relationship of brother-sister, mother-son, and father-daughter does come under the boundary of no-sex, rather they considered as very sacred.

The very near example is one of my friends:

Throughout the childhood she has been sexually assaulted by her brother. Her brother used to torn her trousers from the side of vagina, ripped her bra from nipples, used to watch her when she was changing, bathing and defecating.

The saddest part is that her parents knew everything but they did not do anything to protect her. Apart from her tragedy, it shows that how unchecked-sexual desire abolish the social and religious boundaries once in all.

Females are hornier than MEN:

Here, it is important to mention that man are not the only offenders, because, females are hornier than them. Is it wrong? No. It is not, because Creator designed female body to reproduce. Therefore, her sexual desires are far stronger then male.

When the puberty come, female’s body begin to prepare itself for reproduction and right time usually arrives in late 20s. This is the most strong and suitable mating period, in which every part of female body is ready to participate in sexual process to reproduce the new generation. This is the reason that those girls who get married in late teens or early 20s usually remain sexually unsatisfied throughout the life. In the contrary, those who get married in later 20s, experience prolonged pleasurable and most satisfying sex than former.

Just like male, those girls who have strong sexual desires but possess no male companion, also practice masturbation. In west, it is considered as common thing; however, here it is still a taboo mainly because of its lustrous intention. Those girls who are innocent enough not to indulge in masturbation, but have strong sexual desires usually face acne problem on face. Similarly, theconstant desire of sex also destroys the youthful glow and brightness from their face.

It is possible that this evaluation can be wrong here, but it has been deduced that female usually try to find their mate by revealing their bosoms. It is not necessary they torn off their shirt, rather it can be done quite delicately which depicts the situation of “saaf chupthay bhi nahi samnay atay bhi nahi (not entirely invisible but also not visible)”. The hunters recognize this move and take their action.

It has been found that the very shape of female bosom has been designed by creator in the way that an ordinary male cannot escape from it, unless they are highly trained. The very act of showing bosom, highlights the internal desire of female body which is hungry to go through with sexual process and reproduce.

And the dilemma is that these very girls don’t even know what they are doing.

Their software commands them from subconscious mind and they follow the orders unintentionally.

The culture of SELFIE:

If Selfies are to be analyzed with critical eye, it reveals that in group form it consists of several faces only, while, the individual Selfie show the face, breast and waistline, which is enough to grab the attention of masturbating-perverts.

The issue of widow and divorce women:

It has been already discussed in detail that sex does not consider any boundary from society or religion, thus, those females who get accustomed to its taste and pleasure want to do it again and again.

This is the major reason that females tend to ignore the idea of divorce or separation from abusive husband. No matter, how much husband beats her and abuses her, if he is fulfilling her sexual appetite she will not prefer to end the relation and if the husband has money then chances of separation reaches to zero level. Is the ordinary women bad or prostitute? No. She is not because she is not aware of this reality.

Her desire is in her software, which forbids her to take specific action. In similar way, those women who get widowed are also sexually active, because, and they are extremely vulnerable regarding sex. They had had experience this pleasure and in sub-conscious they does not get accustomed with the idea that they can’t have this pleasure again. It shows that widowed and divorced women should get remarried as soon as possible because their sexual desires may led them to wrong means of satisfaction.

In my observation, I came across with a house maid whose husband had died six months ago but she tried to develop sexual relationship with the husband of her boss.

On this note, I would finally like to conclude the series these bogs-articles, in which it has been learned that no matter how pious human become, he cannot escape from sex unless he is spiritually and physically trained by real Master, because it is in his software. And frankly, there is a no need to escape from, when world’s leading spiritual personalities have practiced it themselves.

All human needs is to remain aware that what he is doingand with whom he is doing it. In this regard, in contemporary age of media, another responsibility has burdened the shoulder of parents that now they are compelled to teach and train their children about sex in order to protect them from creepy and absurd understanding of this very phenomenon.

Sex Drive in Human Part 4

Friendship between Male & Female

With respect to my previous posts, in which I mainly tried to highlight the element of LUST so far, hence, in this piece, I endeavored to address the issue of friendship between male and female.

Most of the people in Pakistan’s society claim that friendship between both genders can survive and it is usually most reliable one as compare to same-gender friendship. However, if we analyze the software of human brain, it performs only two functions:

survival

reproduction

This have been also discussed in the previous parts that reproduction is in genes of every creature of this earth. CREATOR created male and female body with a unique diversity and inserted the element of attraction between them.

Every person from teenage to ninety(s) would see a woman’s breast first. There is nothing wrong in it, nor can that man be considered as pervert, because it is in his software to judge the extent of female’s curves in first encounter.

Similarly, females also evaluate and measure man’s chest, squares and bottom at first sight.

Here, again religions of world teach manners and ethics to human and takes them out from this barbarism of natural software. Every religion orders its followers to keep their gaze low, during conversation with opposite gender, and it is forbidden to stare each other intentionally.

Hence, in the presence of such quick and rapid software in between, how can male and female become friends?. I don’t think they can be if they would, then west must not be experiencing the culture of “one night stand” among friends and “friends with benefits”. The sexual desire definitely comes in between them, that’s why they either sleep once or often with each other.

In our society, these desires are silently conveyed through sexual or “adult” jokes between friends in schools, colleges and universities, which is normally neutralize by the sentence that “Oh come on dude I was just kidding. I didn’t mean that”. They forget that word=creation, if someone is saying something than he/she desire it somewhere back in mind. In this regard, a notion has been developed that friendship between both genders can only be survive if both of them are highly trained by experienced and extensive Masters.

Like this:

In my previous two articles, I used the word “man” in title which I now considered as biased. I am talking about human so, I changed it with Sex Drive in Human.

Earlier, I discussed that how ICT has influenced our society and participated to further knit it. In this regard, hypocrisy emerged as a byproduct. Here, in this post, an attempt has been made to explain the further consequences of hypocrisy and what it produces on its own.

First of all, let’s put the male’s reproductive part “penis” in perspective. When males are not able to fulfill their sexual desires due to absence of female partner, then ultimate solution is masturbation, which normally 90% of men perform from highest social class to the garbage collector. Masturbation is the process which gives pleasure to males and they feel like they are having sex with females. Similarly, some of the females also practice it on regular basis, to get sexual pleasure and when they have issues to find mate. In West, it does not considered as “objectionable act”, but our society and its social beliefs, along with the upper cream of our CLERGY considers it as Haram. The objective of this post is not to discuss Masturbation as halal-haram act, but it is intended to explain the negative results, which it generates on any human both physically and spiritually.

Now, as far as the sexual desire and culture of so-called “relationship” is concerned, those males who possess strong and active sexual desires but they are unable to find any mating-partner, usually ends-up in practicing masturbation, by having the imagination of particular female’s face and body (who might belong to their social circle) and the same act is performed by females on any male. The issue did not end here; rather it got worse by facebook, instagram, twitter and culture of Selfie, which are so-called byproduct of ICT.

These social networking websites have removed the culture of decency, which was quite prevalent in Pakistan’s society decade ago. Due to these sites, now, most of the females upload their pictures online, so, people could see those pictures and complement them. In psychological context, this commenting process fulfills the hunger of recognition and appreciation in females. Recognition and appreciation are common traits of human psyche and everyone wants to earn them. These are those hidden aspects of human’s sub-conscious mind, which may push him to every extreme. As far as the matter of uploading pictures on social media is concerned, most of people hide these internal desires by giving logic of privacy on these networking sites, which prevent them from pervert stalkers. But, what about those pervert who are already added in their friend-list and they are known as “nice-people”. The point is that the perverts are human too and they can be anyone in disguise of mature beings. They can easily copy pictures in their personal devices like, computers, phones and even in mind. What happens that these very perverts masturbate by keeping that particular female’s face and body in imagination.

It is one of the dangerous action which not only harm the males but also snatch the glow and vitality of females, because, this act is so negative and powerful that it makes male and female sexually-discharge during sleep and it is also scientifically and spiritually proved. (If anyone has objection on its scientific approval then he/she must read the book “Masters of Sex” and also watch the series. It will show you that how much research has been going on about every dimension of sex and how William Masters and Virginia Johnson has discovered its entire structure and anatomy.) In this regard, you must have seen certain males from very good families, highly educated and religious and well-mannered, but they have strange kind of creepiness on their face and eyes, due to which most of the females prefer ignoring them. That creepiness and negativity is mostly done by masturbation and constant lustrous desire of sex. Similarly, before social-networking websites and Selfie culture, no one was able to see pictures of girls from respectable families, but now everyone is not only able to see those pictures, but also save them in their personal devices and situation got further worst by online pornography.

The question is how it is sure that they live in such state of mind? The basic answer is that CREATOR has gifted women to recognize man’s intention in thousand parts of second. Women know that if someone is staring them with impure intentions. The process of masturbation not only sucks out all the beauty and warmth on man’s face but it also destroy the beauty of those females who have been imagined in practice of masturbation by males or practice it by themselves. Consequently, their health begins to decline, glow of face get dim, dark circles appear, body pains started, feeling of sadness and grief overtake their emotions without any significant reason and their overall appearance get badly affected. This is the most pertinent reason that CREATOR order females to cover their head and breast from everyone except husband and this order is also visible in world’s three major religions Christianity, Judaism, and Islam.

Masturbation has nothing to do with any religion; it can be practiced by any one from any region from any culture. This act is wrong in its own nature, because it ORIGINATES from LUST. The dilemma is our society condemns it on the name of Religion, and practices it most widely.

Sex Drive in Man:

Part 2: Survival & Reproduction

Previous post discuss that how the arrival of information technology negatively influenced our society. It showed that generally we are confused nation, who has no such idea about right and wrong and we are stuck with our lust and desires. These lust and desires were mainly perpetuated by IT; in fact the negative use of IT has become mainstream reason for our sociological and moral destruction. In this regard, I talked about two key functions of brain: survival and reproduction.

Human brain is designed to sustain the life on earth.

Throughout his life, human being strives to remain alive through multiple ways. In this regard, first of all it protects the body from natural elements such as, touching the fire, jumping in water, crossing road carefully, avoid using harmful utensils unnecessarily such as knife, giving hands in electronic sockets, and jumping from heights.

Once human brain gets satisfied with these protective measures, it turns attention to long-term survival techniques such as, earning to have food on constant basis, develop positive image in society to earn huge number of PR so it can help him in time of need, and the desire to remain on top through which he would be remain source of attention of all and the doors of earning and income would not be reduced.

These are the short and long ventures of human brain, which helps human to survive in this world.

Once all these ventures are secured, human brain automatically turns itself to reproduction, in which it desires to extend the human generation and keep the name of human alive on this earth. This agenda can only be pursued through sex and it is cornerstone of making new humans.

Sex is a very common and basic phenomenon of earth which acts as a catalyst for reproduction, in which mating bring about new generations. From plants to animals, humans and even insects go through this process during their life span.

However, in our society, it is a taboo to discuss its importance, causes, and consequences, mainly due to our cultural background, lack of education, and presence of unnecessary shyness. The irony is that it is the most practicing act among all social classes, experienced by almost everyone at least once in lifetime and usually justified by social, cultural and religious arguments.

As far as Pakistan is concerned, it is Muslim country and having Islam as state religion. Islam forbids sex out of wedlock and those who practice it outside of marital boundaries are convicted of adultery. Nearly, all religions of world apply the same phenomenon and those children who born without wedlock are considered as illegitimate.

This trend is still very vibrant in oriental societies including South Asia, where elite class still hesitate to confess it publically although it practices diligently on its own. Nevertheless, adultery is not a huge problem for them because; generally they are not ardent supporter of religion and tend to lead free life, due to their extensive exposure to world and constant travelling.

The problem initiates with middle class, lower middle class and lower class. In Eastern societies, these classes have widely seen to follow the religion on extreme and they are source of designing societal norms and traditions. The arrival of cable network, internet, and smart phones made them to access the Western lifestyle by single click. They opened the new windows of Western media, culture and traditions to such a way that was initially impossible through colonialism. Colonialism defined the culture and life style of elite class, while, ICT influenced the life of middle classes.

Now, the problem is that these middle class use Religion as their False Identity, but inside they want to pursue the western culture privately.

They want to have sex out of wedlock, other than their wives, sneak out with their girlfriend-boyfriend, and practice homosexuality. But socially, they are restricted by Religion. Here, the trend of Hypocrisy starts and prevails in society.

From here, we want our wives, sisters and daughters to take Hijab but also want to visit strip club and sleep with hooker. Here, we diligently practice Saum-o-Salat on one hand, but also keep pornos in our phones and computers.

It is the high time to re-evaluate ourselves and our character. We can never be a developed until we remain stuck in such tiny thorns.

CHANGE is the only constant thing in human life; it applies to physical appearance of world, human anatomy and psychology.

EIGHTEEN CENTURY: these changes were slow and steady; however the advent of industrial revolution has fastened this evolution process twice. Consequently, global warming has started to initiate its existing face.

NINETEENTH CENTURY: (the century of scientific revolution) the Cold War has strike the scientific inventions, discoveries around the world which suddenly pushed human race to centuries forward.

LATE 1980S AND EARLY 1990s: (third significant change) in the form of information technology (IT) and software which completely swept out human race from its previous heritage. World turned into global village and nearly more than half of world population is connected with each other through world wide web (www).

Information technology has transformed the life of average person

These transformations are varied according to culture and society but are on its full toll. However, there are some factors which are constant since Day 1 of this universe’s creation, such as reproduction and survival.

What I intended to explain here? Is how the evolution of society is influenced by IT, and explained how concept of reproduction is directly proportional to relation to that. Focus is mainly on Pakistani society how it has reformed within short span of two decades.

IT and information communication technology (ICT) development has squeezed Pakistan’s society beyond its limits. When era of desktop computer got replaced by touch-screen gadgets and internet became accessible to almost every individual providing 3G, 4G and LTE. This is how political, economic, and social lives are considerably affected. The good impact can be seen in education sector, arrival of e-governance, and much large extent of awareness at mass level. However, this development is not void of negative impacts as well.

There is a sharp difference of moral values and ethics between pre-2000 and post-2000 of Pakistan’s society.

People were used to be more sophisticated, respectful of each other’s privacy, maintained the certain space around them which is necessary for the survival of civilized society.

Nonetheless, these values began to shatter after the arrival of ICT, the moral space started to narrow down on the name of new global society, that started to invade people’s privacy and space. In fact, those who condemned these negative developments are considered as backward and taboo within society.

In social perspective, the concept of reproduction got negatively evolved.

The Human Brain is designed to administer two processes, rather called instinctive behavior:

Survival

Reproduction

One objective is connected all the functions of brain that is to maintain and sustain the human life. When it gets reassurance of sustainability of human life, it automatically turns its wheels towards reproduction.

The process of reproduction is constant since the creation of Universe; some creations have to die so that others get created and for human it is conducted through sex, hence – through the sex – human life is destined to reproduce itself again and again. Here it is important to understand that this very natural process have badly effected through arrival of ICT in Pakistan’s society.

In Sociological Comparison between Western & Pakistan’s Society:

West have gained its existing shape in step-by-step process – Industrial revolution, First World War, Second World War, Cold War, and post-Cold War era- has put multiple impacts on the very structure of their society. They practically designed their values and norms and implemented them gradually.

For example, most of the inventions have conducted in Western society between 17th and 18th century, and these societies literally gone through with the process of innovation and gradually made it as their life style.

Whereas Pakistani society is a by-product of colonialism. Most of the cultural values do not possess indigenous roots; rather they have been imported from West. It led a common man to utter confusion with what to follow or not. The same issue revived on arrival of ICT in Pakistan, achieving the sudden gift with most sophisticated technologies without having prior training, ultimately led to misuse and exploitation of these technologies.

For example, pornography is widely seen by Pakistan’s population, Facebook and twitter are most negatively used, and the sms-call packages are extremely exploited by the population.

Irony is that being a Muslim state and Islam as state-religion, all these practices are highly condemned but actually practiced by every second individual. Consequently, as per society, the trait of HYPOCRISY has become one of the significant elements of us.

On one hand, we offer prayers so diligently, but on the other hand keep porn’s in our cell phones.

As a society people talk about bringing the positive change but in reality we are not ready to bring any positive CHANGE so far.

However, right now it is necessary to recognize that being a nation or society we are not as pious as we claim. It is important because, confession and acceptance of our faults is the first step to lead positive lifetime journey.

There is a state of utter confusion throughout the society, in which HYPOCRISY has settled down in our roots. This HYPOCRISY and double-face has literally plagued the Pakistan’s society in multiple dimensions, which the on this topic will be explaining.