i am not very confident when it comes talking to women and asking them out. but i saw this pic so i wanted to know what a woman would think if she was given one of these by a average looking random guy like myself and what she would do afterwords. oh and everyone is welcome to give their opinion.

a friend is a good start. but my ultimate goal is to get laid. and try and get a relationship at some point. my current goal is to get laid once before i am 30 the total count so far on that is a big fat zero, and i am almost 28.

Nah i really cant see that working my friend however it is a really good way to brighten up someones day (:. In all honesty the best first move is before you even talk to the woman and that is having confidence in yourself, it is a cliche i know but even if i was to suggest to you a bunch of pick up lines they would be useless without confidence and if its a confidence boost your in need of friend then this is a great place to be there are many honest and friendly people here who i;m sure will be willing to give you a compliment or too, so maybe use this as a way to build your confidence and maybe make some friend however do not feel this is a substitute for face to face contact but more of a stepping stone. I hope this helps you because you honestly seem like a nice guy who just needs a bit more face in your self (:

Nah i really cant see that working my friend however it is a really good way to brighten up someones day (:. In all honesty the best first move is before you even talk to the woman and that is having confidence in yourself, it is a cliche i know but even if i was to suggest to you a bunch of pick up lines they would be useless without confidence and if its a confidence boost your in need of friend then this is a great place to be there are many honest and friendly people here who i;m sure will be willing to give you a compliment or too, so maybe use this as a way to build your confidence and maybe make some friend however do not feel this is a substitute for face to face contact but more of a stepping stone. I hope this helps you because you honestly seem like a nice guy who just needs a bit more face in your self (:

thanks man. i really do need more confidence. my biggest hurdle would be getting over the fear of getting shot down. after that's out of the way its just a long journey up the mountain of confidence.

thanks man. i really do need more confidence. my biggest hurdle would be getting over the fear of getting shot down. after that's out of the way its just a long journey up the mountain of confidence.

Take it from someone who went down in flames thousands of times. It doesn't hurt. You don't bleed, no bones are broken, and there are no medical co-payments.

You ask a girl out, she says no. Big deal. You are right where you were 5 minutes ago, but now you know how she feels and you don't have to spend any more time worrying about it. One day, the girl you ask out will say yes. But you have to ask her first. So get out there and get some practice!

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I totally agree with "telboy18".... And also assume your talking about women you don't already know?

Just remember, however you approach a women, be it with a card or talking to them or whatever, the very worst they can do is tell you to do one. While that is absolutely crushing at the time, you really do have to remember that it's nothing personal, she doesn't know you properly and if she won't give you a chance, she probably isn't worthy or getting to know you anyway.

In the traditional world its the man that makes all the first moves and is big and confident........in the real world most women know that it just isn't true and even some of us fella's get nervous.

One last thing, don't ever be put off because you think she's "out of your league". Ever see a butt ugly bloke walking down the street with a stunning wife on his arm? It happens. You never know who you'll get along with and who will get along with you.

If your just looking to get laid before you're 30 then try anything and anywhere! There's always a girl out there that just wants a good time:P Just make sure she knows where she stands before you start coz that isn't fair on either of you otherwise. I proper agree with NSA relationships but many people don't do it properly.

I totally agree with "telboy18".... And also assume your talking about women you don't already know?

Just remember, however you approach a women, be it with a card or talking to them or whatever, the very worst they can do is tell you to do one. While that is absolutely crushing at the time, you really do have to remember that it's nothing personal, she doesn't know you properly and if she won't give you a chance, she probably isn't worthy or getting to know you anyway.

In the traditional world its the man that makes all the first moves and is big and confident........in the real world most women know that it just isn't true and even some of us fella's get nervous.

One last thing, don't ever be put off because you think she's "out of your league". Ever see a butt ugly bloke walking down the street with a stunning wife on his arm? It happens. You never know who you'll get along with and who will get along with you.

If your just looking to get laid before you're 30 then try anything and anywhere! There's always a girl out there that just wants a good time:P Just make sure she knows where she stands before you start coz that isn't fair on either of you otherwise. I proper agree with NSA relationships but many people don't do it properly.

that's my goal. but that does not mean it is what i want. i would love to have a meaningful relationship. but i think most girls see me as friend material and nothing more. what really sucks is when you are friend material and they flirt with you because they find it amusing. i hate that!

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hotdog, on Sat Apr 02, 2011 05:01 PM, said:

that's my goal. but that does not mean it is what i want. i would love to have a meaningful relationship. but i think most girls see me as friend material and nothing more. what really sucks is when you are friend material and they flirt with you because they find it amusing. i hate that!

Yeah I used to get that quite a bit...........best thing I can suggest is stay being their friend. You never know where a relationship will spring from. For example I met my wife because she was friends with my older sister. The one thing I would say is don't be afraid to say or do things. Many people with give you advice about being careful not to mess up a friendship and all that but if they're really your friend you'll be fine........Not enough people take the risk in life and normally you only regret what you haven't done in life, not what you have.