Will you marry someone who love you more or you love more?

It is happy to meet the right person in the right time, but what if meet the right one in the wrong time or meet the wrong one in the right time?
Love is always surprise me.
If you can choose, who you will marry to? the one who love you more or the one who you love more? Why?

Oh, that is a difficult one, but I don't think I could marry a person if he didn't love me as much as I love him. I have now been married for 38 years, and I think both my husband and myself love each other equally.

I have divorced my first wife and happily married again. Both of them love me more than I care to...and I feel I like it more, to be on the safer side. Dont know if confronted with such a choice what would I had chosen but it is so for the moment.

Well, I tried marrying the one who loved me more. That's not enough to sustain you for the long haul. After 7 years, I had had enough. I got tired of him bending to my opinion all the time, doing whatever was necessary to make me happy. I realized after a while that I didn't want a puppy dog, I wanted a partner. I'm happily remarried now and I think that if you can determine that one partner loves the other more, than there is a problem in the relationship. Marriage is a partnership not a place to have your every need catered to while you do nothing in response.

Thank you and your saying make me think more. My mom always want me to be with someone who loves me more so that I wouldn't get hurt, but as you say, marriage is a partnership which need responses from both sides, if not hurt by someone who loves me more, then I wouldn't feel love either