What the CSLB is trying to do is help protect you, the consumer. Too often homeowners like yourself decide to use the first "nice guy" contractor they meet to remodel their kitchens and bathrooms. Unfortunately an overwhelming number, seniors and younger generations alike, are taken advantage of by unlicensed, expired or even shared license contractors who take excessive time in completing the remodel and usually increase the cost by nickel and diming "unforeseen" circumstances that they really should've been aware of and all too often these "nice guys" disappear never to be found or finish the work you've already paid them to do. The CSLB isn't recommending that you do this practice of getting bids just so you can find the lowest bidder. In fact it's the mere opposite. Doing the bidding process will illuminate for you who has listened and payed attention to your needs, home, budget and other details vs who it trying to be the lowest bidder. Typically the lowest bidder has not made a clear detailed description of the work they will be doing for you, how long it will take and fixed costs, sometimes they even have asingle page contract that generically says "remodel kitchen".

So why do I disagree with the CSLB regarding bids? Honestly it's because you can vett the good contractors out more easily. Start with a conversation. Ask your interior designer or architect for recommended professionals they have relationships with. Ask them why they think the contractors they are recomending might be right for you. During the Schematic Design Process, I often recommend a couple of contractors for the homeowners to meet. Occasionally I haven't worked with them before in a home, but I've built a relationship with them through the National Association of the Remodeling Industry (NARI) and I've had great feedback about them and their work from colleges and past clients. More often than not I have worked with them on some remarkably transforming spaces.

Main things I look for and recommend you look for too:

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Trust

How do I feel in there presence

How do the things they say about their business model and process align with my core values?

What is my basic gut feeling? It's okay to say it's not a good fit based on this alone.

Practical

What will they be like to work with as a designer and as a homeowner?

Do they speak contractor over my head terminology or can they explain things in a way that I can easily understand?

One of my pet-peeves is when experts in their field are my advisors, such as accountants and insurance professionals, and speak over my head in a lingo that is only specific to their career knowledge base.

Value

Pricing style:

Do they give a bid right after their first conversation with you based on random allowances?

How realistic could that really be?

Or do they offer a small contract to assess your home and provide a detailed construction contract with a fixed price?

In my experience this is the best path for a successful remodel.

Communication:

Does their construction contract provide a detailed list spelling out every fixture, faucet, work being done to re-wire and where etc?

Do they provide a construction schedule with their agreement outlining everything from where materials are ordered to when construction is expected to be completed?

Do they respond to emails and phone calls etc in a timely manner (generally 2 business days if they're not computer savy)?

Finished product:

Have you seen their recent work online or another portfolio?

Will they invite you to not only meet a past client but also see their project if you ask?

Did they pay attention to details or do you notice odd things that seem unfinished?

While there is nothing "wrong" with getting bids, we've seen how that can have a major negative impact in projects like the new San Francisco Bay Bridge from Oakland to San Francisco and the gigantic cost overruns! The most important thing to remember is that this is your home, who do you want to invite into your most private spaces?