[168] The Father’s aggressive behaviour around the time of separation and during some exchanges of the children has been transient and relatively minor. It has not been directed at the children but may have affected their well-being because they have sometimes been present. This is not a case where family violence is a significant factor for determining parenting arrangements. However, minimizing contact between the parents will be better for the children as well as the parents.

[87] I recognize the courage required by a sexual assault complainant to come forward and testify in a criminal trial. However, as I earlier stated, a criminal trial is not a credibility contest between witnesses. It is a trial to determine whether the charge has been proven beyond a reasonable doubt. I have heard evidence of two different versions of what occurred in the bathroom in 2009. Apart from concerns about the reliability of her evidence, A.S. provided an entirely plausible account of being sexually assaulted in the bathroom by Mr. Shields. In contrast, Mr. Shields provided a believable account of a consensual sexual encounter with A.S. I do have concerns about some of his evidence such as how he ended up in the bathroom with A.S. However, when I consider his evidence in the context of all the evidence, these concerns are not sufficient for me to reject his evidence. After analysing all the evidence, his evidence raises a reasonable doubt in my mind against A.S.’s subjective assertion that she did not consent to the sexual touching in the bathroom. Accordingly, the law requires me to find you not guilty of the charge and I so do. Given my conclusion there is no need to consider whether the defence of honest but mistaken belief in consent applies.

[19] There can be coincidental meetings of people, especially in small towns: see for example R. v. Ducey 1995 NLCA 178. However, it strains credulity to suggest that 26 contacts in 4 years, especially when the parties live 40 km apart, is a matter of mere coincidence. It becomes even harder to believe that coincidental meetings could continue after the accused has been told or asked to stay away from the complainant and her family by several police officers and by the complainant’s spouse.