Divorce is Tough But the Holidays Don't Have to Be

November 21, 2015
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Owenby Law, P.A.

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By nature, divorce is a difficult time physically, mentally, and emotionally. Of course, when the holidays come around, this process can become even more daunting and unbearable. However, it is important to remain positive during a divorce and to enjoy each day, even the holidays, as much as possible.

To help you overcome the holidays while going through the divorce process, read the helpful tips we have listed below:

1. Relish in the beautiful company surrounding you.

During the holiday season, it maybe easy to think of your former spouse and the memories you two had when you were married. While recognizing these feelings is healthy, it is important that you take into consideration your current situation. Rather than focusing on who isn’t present, think about the loved ones that are surrounding you now. Focus on creating new and beautiful memories with those persons instead. Take this holiday to focus on establishing a deeper connection with your children or having more meaningful conversations with your parents.

2. Don’t be afraid to go through emotions and talk to loved ones about your situation.

Many people who go through divorce forget to do one important thing- feel. In today’s culture, many people feel guilty for crying. But during life-changing events, such as divorce, crying can be a healthy activity. When going through a divorce, it is important to focus on maintaining your own identity. To do that, it is essential that you can reconnect with yourself and feel every emotion. In doing so, you can feel the depths of the happier feelings that are soon to come.

3. Get out of the rut and start new traditions.

Divorce brings about endless amounts of change. If you are going through divorce, you may feel confused about the upcoming holidays since traditions will no longer be the same. While this may be the case, keep in mind that you have the ability to start new traditions with the people around you now. Instead of driving up to that same cabin, take the kids to a holiday lights parade or spend a night in with your closest friends watching a marathon of holiday movies. Part of divorce is finding yourself and building a new start. What better time to start than this holiday season!

Our Jacksonville Family Law Attorneys Are Here For You

At Owenby Law, P.A., our Jacksonville divorce lawyers understand how challenging everyday activities can become during the divorce process. That is why our team is here to make the process as smooth as possible. When you work with our firm, we won’t just help you get through the legal part of divorce, we can be there to provide you with positive support and professional guidance. If you are going through divorce or are considering divorce, allow our Jacksonville divorce attorneys help you. We truly care about you, your children, and your future.

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