Does saving yourself for the right man mean you have high self esteem?

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I really don't think it matters if you do or not it has nothing to do with self esteem the girl over here that has fucked a dozen guys could have really high self esteem and be really happy while the girlwho is a virgin could have low self esteem and feel bad about her self or vice verse can go either way

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No. It means you're a religious zealot sheep who can't think for themselves; or a scaredy cat who doesn't want to deal with the possible potential pain of first having sex; or someone who is so deluded by society to think that a hymen actually means anything; or no guy wants to fuck you.

I never said it wasn't your decision. Nor did I say many guys did not want to fuck you. But clearly you are a sheep who can't think, given how you misinterpreted everything. So, that settles that. Are you religious? Because that would be the clincher: right on the money.

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Sheep are those people who do what others do. And I never do things just because others do them

Only you can know this answer and it is up to how YOU feel about it. You never know what is in someones head, some might think highly of you for waiting and others might think you a fool. What if you never meet "Mr. Right"?

Well, even low self esteem women wait. But being selective of who you choose to be with is a sign of high self esteem. Because you believe you have a choice and have options. But simply waiting for sex I wouldn't necessarily is the same.

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No, it doesn't. It doesn't mean you have low self-esteem either. The reason behind either choice is what matters. For example, if you're saving yourself because you think virginity is one of the most important things you have to offer and having sex decreases your value as a person, then that would suggest low self-esteem and under-estimating yourself.

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Thinking thatit is wrong to have sex with guys who don't want to date me means i have low self esteem?