ONE MONTH until TTC!!!

DH and I had a long talk about it this weekend, and we are completely on board to start TTC on my birthday: 11/14! I am crazy excited. I wish we were trying now so that we could potentially announce to our families at Christmas, but November fits better with the other life scheduling we're working around. I'm hoping to lose 4 more pounds before my birthday so that I'm at a good number before I ::fingers crossed:: gain lots of healthy baby weight :)

DH and I had a long talk about it this weekend, and we are completely on board to start TTC on my birthday: 11/14! I am crazy excited. I wish we were trying now so that we could potentially announce to our families at Christmas, but November fits better with the other life scheduling we're working around. I'm hoping to lose 4 more pounds before my birthday so that I'm at a good number before I ::fingers crossed:: gain lots of healthy baby weight :)

I just did my daily OPK, and I finally got a positive! I danced around like it was a freakin BFP. So relieved that my body is on track post BC (and wish I could go ahead and take advantage of that positive OPK...).

Good luck! I can't wait until it's our time.

I just did my daily OPK, and I finally got a positive! I danced around like it was a freakin BFP. So relieved that my body is on track post BC (and wish I could go ahead and take advantage of that positive OPK...).

Or just act like you really want it and flirt. See me and DH always BD. and TMI but some of the time I go after it, so he wouldn't know the difference. Lol, do you not want to trick him, I mean it's only 1 month. It'll be a nice bday gift for you finding out rather than trying .... :-)

Or just act like you really want it and flirt. See me and DH always BD. and TMI but some of the time I go after it, so he wouldn't know the difference. Lol, do you not want to trick him, I mean it's only 1 month. It'll be a nice bday gift for you finding out rather than trying .... :-)

OH MY GOD I KNOW! Sorry for the all caps, but a BFP would be the best 30th birthday present EVER. I don't want to trick him, but I hate to waste this perfectly good o! (Also, my body may be in o-heaven since I've been on the pills for years. Let's blame that.)

OH MY GOD I KNOW! Sorry for the all caps, but a BFP would be the best 30th birthday present EVER. I don't want to trick him, but I hate to waste this perfectly good o! (Also, my body may be in o-heaven since I've been on the pills for years. Let's blame that.)

Sorry, I don't think it's tricking either :). But I have also had this feeling of wanting to "trap" my husband lately, lol. Yes he is mine, and completely faithful, but something about being sneaky and trapping him excites me. Feel like I am getting away with something bad. He would not be mad if we were, in fact I think he would appreciate the surprise. From some recent conversations I think he would rather an "oops."

Well either way have fun :), nothing wrong with practicing.

P.S. You can always ask to play russian roulette (sp); (it's when you BD with no holding back and no protection) you just try it once in while to be dangerous with no pressure.

Sorry, I don't think it's tricking either :). But I have also had this feeling of wanting to "trap" my husband lately, lol. Yes he is mine, and completely faithful, but something about being sneaky and trapping him excites me. Feel like I am getting away with something bad. He would not be mad if we were, in fact I think he would appreciate the surprise. From some recent conversations I think he would rather an "oops."

Well either way have fun :), nothing wrong with practicing.

P.S. You can always ask to play russian roulette (sp); (it's when you BD with no holding back and no protection) you just try it once in while to be dangerous with no pressure.

Wish I'd read your Russian roulette idea earlier! I did interrupt his football watching, but I didn't trick him into anything. Maybe TMI, but being off of BC is definitely throwing my libido into high gear.

Wish I'd read your Russian roulette idea earlier! I did interrupt his football watching, but I didn't trick him into anything. Maybe TMI, but being off of BC is definitely throwing my libido into high gear.

lol!!!! @jrie, I tri to hurry up and start before dh gets a chance to get one. Then by time we are half way through he has to debate stop and go get one, or just finish and risk it :). (in my urkel voice) IM WEARING DOWN BABY, IM WEARING HIM DOWN!

lol!!!! @jrie, I tri to hurry up and start before dh gets a chance to get one. Then by time we are half way through he has to debate stop and go get one, or just finish and risk it :). (in my urkel voice) IM WEARING DOWN BABY, IM WEARING HIM DOWN!

lol!!!! @jrie, I tri to hurry up and start before dh gets a chance to get one. Then by time we are half way through he has to debate stop and go get one, or just finish and risk it :). (in my urkel voice) IM WEARING DOWN BABY, IM WEARING HIM DOWN!

lol!!!! @jrie, I tri to hurry up and start before dh gets a chance to get one. Then by time we are half way through he has to debate stop and go get one, or just finish and risk it :). (in my urkel voice) IM WEARING DOWN BABY, IM WEARING HIM DOWN!

LOL @the1 exactly! I love it. This is the one thing that us as women can control, but only if DH or SO wouldnt mind. If he will be happy then go for it, I'm not condoning trapping men who don't want to be bothered at all. @mollz ur situation is different, ur trying next month, I see it as why not, but don't cause an argument between you and DH or stress too much if DH wants to use a condom; as I said next
month will be here in no time :-)

LOL @the1 exactly! I love it. This is the one thing that us as women can control, but only if DH or SO wouldnt mind. If he will be happy then go for it, I'm not condoning trapping men who don't want to be bothered at all. @mollz ur situation is different, ur trying next month, I see it as why not, but don't cause an argument between you and DH or stress too much if DH wants to use a condom; as I said next
month will be here in no time :-)

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