Reaching out in a different way....please.

Reaching out in a different way....please.

Just found out my exN boss denied my unemployment claim. I know this isn't a boyfriend-husband, etc. The feelings of emptiness are here however, and I feel horrible just the same. I came here to this board 3 years ago seeking solace from N boyfriend. This is just a caution to all of you here that you can attract them in all forms. I did fight back, but still....My father was a psychopath--many, but not all men in my life paths and narcs. I don't need admonishment or I told you so. I worked very hard and brought wonderful things to this place...of course that wasn't the problem. I slowly caught on to the narcdom and I knew what spiral it would eventually take on. Abrupt landing later--I really needed this help to get my feet back on the ground. It's a very small town and his charming ways have made my re-employment to anybody near impossible. I will get back up-somehow, I know. Please-no pulling of bootstrap quips. I'm exhausted-lonely-torpid-lost-misunderstood-shy-mute. Know your enemy. Know who you are dealing with out there no matter the situation-work or play.