The story has been recounted at the grocery store and at the gas stations, where people trade the latest details about the hostage standoff that entered its fourth day Friday.

It has thrust this town of about 2,300 into the national spotlight, with nightly reports recounting the hostage drama that has shaken this community known for its close vicinity to the "Peanut Capital of the World."

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An FBI hostage negotiator was communicating with the alleged gunman through a plastic ventilation pipe in an effort to end the standoff.

"They're taking time and trying to wear him out," said Police Chief James Arrington of Pinckard, who is familiar with details of the case.

Bentley, the governor, said Friday that "the right people (were) in place to work through this problem."

"Patience should be a virtue ... we don't want to make any mistakes," Bentley told WPMI.

On Friday, authorities confirmed what neighbors have been talking about and news outlets around Midland City have reported -- the suspected gunman's identity.

He is Jimmy Lee Dykes, 65,a Vietnam veteran and retired truck driver who moved to the area about five years ago. Local authorities releasted a photo of Dykes -- a gray-bearded unsmiling image -- along with his home address and a brief physical description -- white male, 6 feet tall, weighing 170 pounds with brown eyes and gray hair -- but provided no new details about any developments in the case.

'Take this'

By all accounts, Poland knew the alleged gunman, at least in passing.

On Monday, the day before the shooting and abduction, Dykes flagged down Poland while he was driving the bus to talk to him, according to Miller, who lives near the suspected gunman.

While Miller did not know the nature of the conversation between the two men, she told CNN affiliate WSFA-TV that Tuesday morning, Poland offered the suspect a gift of eggs and marmalade as a thank you for clearing his driveway so the bus could turn around easier.

"His friends and his neighbors stated that he did not trust the government, that he was a Vietnam vet, and that he had PTSD," Byrd told the civil rights group. "He was standoffish, didn't socialize or have any contact with anybody."

Still, Miller said she can't reconcile the man she knows as her neighbor with the one accused of killing a bus driver and abducting a boy.

"I really in my heart don't believe that he intends to hurt that little boy," she said. "I think that he may have something to say and he wants people to hear him. I'm not sure what that is. But I don't think he intends to hurt that little boy."

'That's a hero'

Charles Poland was fatally shot in Alabama on Tuesday.

Even as authorities search for answers behind the killing and kidnapping, there is no question to Midland City residents that the bus driver was a hero.

Poland was a gentle Bible-reading man who could not stand to discipline the children on his bus because it hurt his heart, the Dothan Eagle newspaper reported.

He had worked as a full-time bus driver for four years, shuttling children between their homes and schools.

"There was a laughter and a love that he had for the kids," his brother-in-law Melven Skipper told CNN affiliate WDHM, reflecting on the regular conversations he'd have about "my youngins'."

"They were his youngins', when he had them on the bus."

The state's governor echoed that sentiment: "He did his job -- he protected those children," Bentley said.

"He stood in that place, and when that man came to take two children, he said no. And he lost his life because of that ... he did his job, and I'm proud of him as the governor but I'm just proud of him as a human being."

Poland will be memorialized Saturday night at a visitation service, followed by his funeral Sunday afternoon at the Ozark Civic Center.

"You couldn't give nothing greater than your life for a kid or anyone else," Skipper said.