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What would you do ?

so i posted before about this lump i found under my arm well i went to my obgyn to go over results of a biopsy i had done it was negative for cervical cancer :-) but when i asked her about this lump she told me it is most likely a cyst so she checked my breast also to make sure nothing was there and then all of a sudden she got this look on her face and started asking me if anyone in my family had breast cancer and i told her yes my grandmother is a surviver but my great grandmother had died from it and she said oh ok then she sat down and she never sits so i knew something was wrong when she sat down and she told me i have 3 lumps in my breast she wants to to get a ultra sound asap to get them checked she told me she just wants to be sure what they are since they dont hurt at all. so ok i will get them looked at when she calls me with the appoiment day and time but my fiance on the other hand i didn`t tell him yet about it since he worries a ton my question is would you tell someone if you werent sure ? i just dont want to worry him or any of my family since im not sure and dont no what to do or how to tell him if i do decide to tell him . what would you do ?

If I were in that situation, I would tell him immediately. We never hide those kinds of things in our family. In fact, we usually sit in on one another's docs appointments since we only have one car. So if there were something medically wrong, and he wasn't there when they told me, he would be the first to know. Absolutely. He is my support system since my family and I are a little distant. So...yeah...I would tell him. It's important and he should know.

i did tell him tonight since i didnt see him last night due to him working and he took it better then i thought that he would he was very calm and not like freaking out worried like i thought he was goin to be <3

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