Have you ever found it hard to surrender fully into pleasure, even though you wanted to?

Are you tired of how fake this world is and long for authentic sisterhood?

The truth is, all women struggle with these things.

We’re all on a journey.

And I am too.

For years I didn’t feel comfortable with my body.

There was always something I wanted to change about it. And even when I liked my looks, I could always find a little flaw to criticize.

With partners, I found it difficult to surrender fully into pleasure. I had been trained to focus on their pleasure instead and to be seen in my own felt vulnerable.

I also never had a place to talk about these things.

I never had a place to share both the immense joys of being a sexual woman or the difficulties.

I longed for sisterhood with other women, and to talk openly about my sexuality and body, but all the women around me seemed locked in competition instead.

Thankfully things didn’t stay that way.

A few years ago I stumbled upon a powerful work which healed and transformed my life as a sexual woman.

This work unlocked my power in pleasure and orgasm, and helped me realize the unique beauty my body had always had, but I had never been able to see.

This work is called Bodysex.

Bodysex has transformed the lives of countless women, including my own and it fills me with joy to be able to turn and offer Bodysex to you now, so that you can share in it’s transformative power too.

This May I invite you to go on the Bodysex journey with me, in a sacred circle of sisters. Together we will explore deeply the experience of being a woman, celebrate our bodies as they authentically are, and forge true sisterhood.

Bodysex is happening:

May 14-15th, 2016

At a private, beautiful space in Boulder, CO

“Seeing that each body and each vulva is so unique… there really is no comparing one to another… in fact it seems incredibly pointless after seeing the variety… I feel the only thing I can do is appreciate each one as it is.” – Luna

The workshop space for the Bodysex I held in August 2015

What is Bodysex?

Bodysex is a transformative workshop for women only. Bodysex is done in the nude, but is non-sexual. It is a sacred circle and a unique and powerful opportunity to share with other women, what it is like to be a *real* woman, not a cardboard cosmo model.

Bodysex is for all women at all stages of growth in their sexuality, body and pleasure, and all walks of life.

Together we go on a journey to discover our own beauty, power and uniqueness – and in that journey, come together deeply as sisters. We celebrate our bodies, pleasure and orgasm, and share honestly about times we haven’t felt so sure of ourselves or our pleasure. It’s healing and empowering.

I was trained by Dr. Betty Dodson, world renowned sex educator and orgasm expert, to lead Bodysex workshops. She is an amazing leader in the field of sexuality and I am honored to be mentored by her and to be chosen to carry on this beautiful work in the world.

I am fully committed to this work because I have seen its transformative power in the lives of many women as well as my own. I thank every woman who has already gone on the journey with me in Bodysex and welcome every new sister that will join us.

Bodysex is very unique from other workshops for women. Instead of theory, it is rooted in experiencing the empowerment journey. Instead of just *talking* about healing and transformation, you get to experience it in your own body, heart and orgasm.

The other big thing that sets Bodysex apart from other sexuality workshops, is most workshops and teachings are focused on pleasure with another person.

Bodysex, on the other hand, teaches you how to own your orgasm and embrace pleasure for yourself, not others. And from that foundation, your capacity for pleasure with others is impacted exponentially.

You would greatly benefit from Bodysex if you want to:

Overcome pleasure anxiety

Fall in love with the unique beauty of your body and orgasm

Heal body image

Increase sensation and pleasure

Heighten orgasm

Be a part of a true sisterhood, beyond competition

Get real and stop sugar coating everything

Step into your full power as a woman

Feel fully accepted in your body and sexuality

Learn a new kind of orgasm, or learn how to have your first one

The last day of Bodysex – The circle of sisters embracing

What we do:

Bodysex contains four keynote experiences that take us on the journey into loving ourselves more fully. We go through and GROW through these experiences together over the course of the weekend, and the power and safety of the sisterhood holds healing space for us in our transformations.

Genital-Show-And-Tell: A sacred ritual honoring the beauty and uniqueness of each or our own vulvas (vaginas).

Erotic Recess: A free-form time where we practice self-pleasure in the circle. It begins with guided instruction and then transitions into solo-pleasure. Erotic Recess is relaxed and light-hearted. We play music and the women help themselves to snacks and chat in-between orgasms or pleasure. It’s all about owning your orgasm and pleasure without judgment. It’s many women’s favorite part of the weekend.

Group non-sexual touch Massage: The opportunity to be nurtured through loving touch without sexuality or the need to perform.

“Two words, erotic recess. Yes! need I say more? Ok so when talking to my friends about this, whoa, I feel so empowered. 8 women laughing, orgasming, crying and loving. More gatherings such as these need to happen. Thank you.” – LB

Throughout the weekend of Bodysex, you will experience:

A safe space to talk openly about your body and sexuality without judgment

Tools to improve and enhance your orgasm, by yourself and with a partner

Common Questions:

What if I’m on my period?

That’s absolutely ok! Every workshop someone is on their period, including even possibly me. Many women use tampons or you can use a natural sea sponge tampon, diva cup OR simply an extra towel or two under you as protection. Let me know if you need anything like that and I will be more than happy to accommodate.

What if I have a yeast infection?

No big deal. You can take some oil of oregano in water before you head over to the workshop and you can bring it with you to take throughout the day, just for one idea. It’s a powerful natural anti-microbial and knocks it down fast. If you need pain and irritation relief, any drug store carries great over-the-counter medication that helps with that. If you have any questions or concerns before the workshop, reach out to me and I’ll help.

What if I can’t orgasm?

The second day we learn about and practice self-pleasure techniques during a free-form time called Erotic Recess. There are no goals or requirements other than to give pleasuring yourself a go. No need to worry if you can orgasm or not, or even if you have never had one before. My orgasm can be shy at times too. This time is all about pleasure, and with yourself – not performance. Some women who have never had orgasms have their first one in the workshop.

Where can I stay if I’m traveling?

www.airbnb.com has many options and then there is also www.couchsurfing.org .
Boulder is a short bus ride from the Denver International Airport. If you have any questions or further concerns, don’t hesitate to ask.

Where is the workshop being held?

At a private space in Boulder. I email or message everyone with the location when they’ve registered and it’s a week or two out.

Is Bodysex for women who can’t have sex or penetration is painful/uncomfortable?

Being a woman myself who once struggled with pain during sex, if I had attended Bodysex during that time, I know it would have helped me a lot. If you cannot or don’t want to use anything internally when we explore self-pleasure the second day of the workshop, that is totally ok. The only requirement is to explore externally around the vulva and clitoris.

One note for those considering attending:

Bodysex is powerful and women walk away transformed. Their lives are changed on the emotional, physical and spiritual level. Because of this, I acknowledge Bodysex is not for everyone. If you do not want your life to change or to open and share authentically in the circle, then Bodysex is not for you.

My own Bodysex transformation:

In April 2013, I attended my first Bodysex workshop. I was struck by it’s power and the immediate effect it had on my life.
I left the workshop with a profound sense of my own beauty as a sexual woman and in awe of the beauty of all other human creatures.
The weekend helped me overcome shame about being ‘too skinny’, and with that, my fear women would not accept me because of it. I went home feeling empowered to ask for what I want with my partner and had my first big clitoral orgasm with him using my new mystic wand. For years that had been something I had only been able to do on my own and both the practical learning as well as the work helping me overcome pleasure anxiety opened me up to more pleasure with my partner.

My newfound power in my orgasm, body image and pleasure and rippled out into the rest of my life and helped me show up more fully how I wanted to.

The funny thing is, before Bodysex I would have told you I didn’t really need to improve my body image and that I had it pretty figured out sexually. But even with all the growth I had done, being in the group unlocked a whole new layer of healing, pleasure and possibilities.

Loving my mama belly

Bodysex has already changed the lives of countless women. It has a legacy of transformation leading back 40 years, and the legacy will live on through all the women who join me for Bodysex in May.

You can read about my last Bodysex workshop here. And follow this link to read the Testimonials of the women who attended.

If you feel inspired and that urge to say “yes”, I invite you to use the form below to register and reserve your spot in the circle.

It’s going to be beautiful and powerful… as well as lots of fun!

Also, if you attend the full workshop and it is not transformative for you, I will give you your full money back. Guaranteed. I want everyone to be happy and get what they need out of the experience!

Space is limited to 10 women and a few spots are already filled so register soon if you want to join us in the circle.

Your Investment: $397, includes your own Free Mystic Wand Vibrator, which you get to take home.

To attend Bodysex in New York with my mentor, Betty Dodson, would cost $1200 in registration, plus travel, room and board. I’m happy to be able to make it much more affordable leading official Betty Dodson Bodysex Workshops here in beautiful Colorado, for only $397, including your free Mystic Wand Vibrator.

What’s even better is you can reserve your spot in the circle for only $200. After the $200 non-refundable deposit is paid, your space in the circle will be held and you can take your time to pay the rest before the workshop (full amount due May 7th, a week before).

If you are in great financial need, come and speak to me. Sometimes there are scholarships available for those who are in great financial need.

If you have any questions about Bodysex or want to talk to me, Julia Emerald, the facilitator before registering, please don’t hesitate to reach out to me at: juliaemerald.mail@gmail.com

What Women Are Saying About Bodysex:

"Bodysex exponentially impacted my orgasm." -

"Bodysex impacted me in a new way. I view my body as my temple more and more each day. Before the workshop I held so much shame around my body and flaws. Being surrounded by women who had their own self-judgments allowed me to see we all have our shit we're working through.
Bodysex exponentially impacted my orgasm. Before the workshop, I felt ok with where I was with my orgasm... mostly with a partner though. Hearing from other women about their favorite way to orgasm and to see the vast array of toys opened my eyes to the endless possibilities.
I am able to express my sexual wants and needs in partnership better. Bodysex has impacted my ability to express my sexuality with others without feeling guilt or shame."
- LB

"I love my body!" -

"I am more informed of the complexity of my clitoris and female gentalia. I feel relieved hearing others share experiences similar to some of mine... I am more accepting of my pacing when it comes to orgasm.
I love my body! Seeing that each body and each vulva is so unique... there really is no comparing one to another... in fact it seems incredibly pointless after seeing the variety... I feel the only thing I can do is appreciate each one as it is."
- Luna

"I had no idea how far this experience would take me." -

"Bodysex has been empowering and life changing. I realized, like many women, that I do not express fully what I want for fear of embarrassment and judgment, and that this has pushed me to do things I don't want to do and not ask for things I want.
Bodysex showed me that all women are unique physically, from head to toe, and that variety is beautiful, and specifically that my own variety and uniqueness is beautiful and deserving of the fullest gratitude, respect and pleasure...
This experience is one of self-journey and self-enlightenment, where you learn about yourself and ultimately find the sexual intimacy you could've had with yourself all along."
- Terrah Graves

"I feel more powerful and sexy" -

"After a month of not feeling much desire for sex, I'm more inspired now to make self-pleasuring a healing, exploratory, rejuvenating ritual.
I feel more powerful and sexy with my new knowledge of female anatomy, pleasure and human experiences. I highly recommend this workshop and I would love to do it again. Thank you!"
- Kelly