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What Sexy Is and How to Be It

As I walk around the
streets of my city, I’m usually struck by three things. The first is
the beauty of nature. I think it’s important to stop and appreciate the
beautiful things that surround us all and to really remember that life,
and the world, is more than just about our singular and, honestly, not
very special existence. In a way, you
have to stop and smell the roses.

The second thing I’m struck by is sexy women. Women who are dressed
well, know how to flaunt their bodies, and are dripping with sexuality
are most certainly drawing the attention of all of the men around them
– yours truly included (though I am probably more subtle about it).

The third thing, believe it or not, is actually sexy men. I can
really appreciate a stylish, confident man. When I see one, I often
think to myself “He must get a lot of women, get a lot of attention
from women, or at least should. And if he doesn’t, he should be reading
Girls Chase.” But for the purposes of this post, I want to focus on the
latter two things that strike me.

Which leads to the question: What actually is sexy? What makes a
sexy man or a sexy woman? And more importantly, how do you become the
one that applies to you? And it is very important that the world be
filled with more sexy men and
women. So making this transformation is what this post will be
dedicated to.

About the
Author: Colt Williams

Raised in the American Midwest, Colt Williams made a name for
himself in dating with a style based on soulful poetic seductions and
playful dance floor antics. His style is all about inspiring girls and
drawing them into one’s world. You can book phone coaching with him here,
or get a copy of his guide to getting laid on Tinder,
the product of months of study and experimentation by him on the medium.

I wore glasses a lot of high school, but switched to contacts months prior to me starting college. I had more sophisticated glasses to give me a more educated look. I would also wear outfits that complimented my frames. Girls would comment on my overall vibe. It wasn't necessarily a edgy look, it was more on the elegant side. Another thing is to consider the bone structure of your face. Glasses obstruct your natural look. Therefore, I always recommend to guys that they find something that compliments their face. I wouldn't say glasses make a man less masculine, I would say it's the man who determines his overall masculinity. If a man is omitting a sexy vibe no matter what he wears that vibe will come through.

I'm in the same boat as you. Whenever I wear glasses I look half as buff and masculine as when I wear contacts. I call this the Clark Kent/Superman phenomenon. As soon as Superman (played by Christopher Reeves) puts on his Clark Kent disguise, he looks 4 times less confident and masculine, though this is likely just the actor doing a great job playing two parts. I personally can't pull off "nerdy but buff and sexy" with glasses look but you might be able to.

Note: I do use nerdy to my advantage though. I'm an engineer, so whenever I go in for face-to-face interviews I always wear my glasses so I look more "intelligent" and play up the stereotype of my profession and my race. The way I look at it, I will take every advantage I have.

Glasses can make you look very intelligent and sophisticated, but this strongly depends on the overall frame of glasses you get. If you get something that looks weird on you, then it will look weird to others. I highly recommend to guys to get the best overall look for them for a reasonable price. However, even the "coolest" looking glasses won't look cool on someone who doesn't have that vibe.

Can you make a post about english women. Or specifically how americams can seduce them. Chase you are a prophet of seduction and relationship advice. This is a post I really want because of a women I am in love with. Thanks but by the way you should make one about tom boys and girls who are like bisexual or ones more into women.

I think you guys keep forgeting health. I have some light scars after acne. Those little red spots on skin and I can not get rid of them. Some women complain if you have like 0,5mm long nails. I thikn if I had clean face, I would have more success. Also, as I am pale it does not really look natural and sexy either. And I would says haircut goes for men too.

Health is actually a very important aspect as well. There's actually a section on our forums that is dedicated to Health. Overall hygiene is a very important because women want men who are well groomed. Women don't particularly like men who are slobs. High quality women tend to go to guys who take care of themselves. I would personally say if you're able to get outside without getting overly sun burned, try it. I'm not saying over do but just a little color. Lifting weights to increase size also tends to help with women. It gives you the impression of appearing more powerful. As far as acne, drinking plenty of water can help clear up your skin. Along with that I would try researching things to see if you can find solutions to clear up the scarring on your face.

Hey Colt & Dave! This is Great article, all the authors of this site are excellent & great! but may I ask a request, could you do an article about on "Must Do, if your Girlfriend's Parent/s doesn't like you".