Tuesday, June 26, 2007

As far as my title goes 'Creating the Love of Life' that is where I will begin. Most people hate their lives. They are upset at where they are and what they have become. The problem with that is we make the decisions in our life that get us right here! We're not sure how we got here or what road took us to this strange place in our lives. Maybe it was a major event or maybe it was a bunch of little decisions that added up to 'My Life'.

Now to change things. You are where you are in life, deal with it. If you don't like the situation that you are in then start to change them. Small decisions is what got you to where you are so small decisions can get you onto a different path. The hard part is simple (contradiction in terms) YOU must take the first step. Make a decision to move into a different direction and just move! Ask yourself a few questions and be honest with the answers.

1. Where did I think I would be at this age? (different state, different job, etc.)
2. Who am I?(wife, mom, accountant, etc.)
3. Where am I today?
4. Who do I want to be? (wife, mom, artist, single, etc)
5. Where do I want to be? (different state, different job, etc)
6. What steps do I need to take to get there? (look for a different job, sign up for art classes, etc.

Make a list, set some goals. Remember they don't have to be big they just have to be written down so you have a game plan.