"I'm a cougar, self-proclaimed," Inaba says. "I've always gone out with much younger guys. But I rushed into relationships before really getting to know the person. What would come up as a warning sign within the first two weeks of dating would usually be the exact reason the relationship would end!"

Inaba would not only be a newlywed, but a stepmother as well: Sloan has a 14-year-old daughter, Kristen.