I think it is more valid for reasons that have been repeated hundreds of times probably. Allowing gay marriage is similar to allowing interracial marriage. It doesn't harm me or anyone else and I have no interest in telling people how they get to live their lives.

So what? I'm not willing to so readily dismiss long held beliefs on man/woman/god because I want a "feel good" moment when two men exchange vows for all to see. While that does me no harm, it does me no good either.

Actually, I think your reason is less valid. You're imposing your beliefs on someone else. Allowing them to marry doesn't harm you but it does benefit them. Taking away that benefit harms them but doesn't benefit you.

So what? I'm not a bleeding heart that believes every bleating bird should get a worm. Allowing gay marriage is imposing a belief, the belief that same sex couples are the same as a traditional couple, on others. They simply aren't the same.

Sure. Just as free as the racists in 1967 who opposed interracial marriage. Great thing about this country, you are free to be a bigoted *******. I just hope you know how stupid you'll look in the relatively near future.