You 20 somethings, pay attention. Do 1 of those chores each day. Do it out of love. Do not do all of that nonsense. And skip a day now and then. Women feel superior to men and our "lack of responsibility" confirms their belief. Thus producing a higher level of self-esteem for themselves. Win - win. Don't argue with me. I have been married for 32 years. The woman is full of confidence and she is crazy about me!