Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

2 June 2012 (F)
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26-29 -
As of a couple of months, I have kept in touch with a teacher of mine, whom I once had a crush on. We agreed to remain friends, and much like when I was still his student in high school, we began to have a small debate about some hot topic issue. Suddenly he stopped responding, ...
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2 June 2012 (F)
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36-40 -
My boyfriend and I have been going out for a year now. Last month was my birthday and he organised a party for me which was really thoughtful of him but my problem is that he gets to be this angel and the out of the blue he becomes something else. Whenever we get into an ...
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2 June 2012 (F)
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41-50 -
I really need help and advice as I'm sure other women have been through this before... My partner of 2 and half year has changed toward me in past few month,we used to be close and he always wanted to be with me,he has alcohol problems and I helped him,and it was very hard has ...
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2 June 2012 (F)
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22-25 -
Well basically me and my ex attended the same party last night and I was hoping to say something to him which may have helped get our relationship back , and I told my friend that I planned to say something, but as the night progressed she came and put his arm round him and I ...
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2 June 2012 (F) -
I am growing very resentful of my husbands two boys. When I met him 7 years ago my first impression was that the boys were spoiled and disrespectful. But their mother had died 6 months prior so I made excuses and tried to be warm and friendly to both of them. The younger one, ...
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2 June 2012 (F)
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22-25 -
Right... So basically, im going on holiday on the 1st of August, but im due to be on my period then. I dont want this to ruin my holiday, so i want to dely my period? Im not ready to use a tampon and i dont want to go on birth control.. Does anyone have any other suggestion...
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2 June 2012 (F)
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30-35 -
He split up with me other week and said he was fed up of everything and wanted space, he said he loves me and always will, one minute he said were together then he said he doesn't want me back.. I have just been diagnosed with depression, and i am 21 weeks pregnant with his ...
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2 June 2012 (M)
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22-25 -
this is my first time going round town and basicly what do i do??? just got my i.d (im 19) my friends have invited me out tomorow night and what do i do? how do i speak to girls?? do i have to dance? (wich i cant) what about when my mate goes to the toilet do i just stand ther ...
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2 June 2012 (F)
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22-25 -
My friend had been with her boyfriend for 19 months before they split up, it was her first boyfriend so it's kind of hit her hard. How do i support her? Like, what do i say and do? Help will be appreciated, thanks ...
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2 June 2012 (F)
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26-29 -
Ok so I keep havin dreams about my boyfriends ex we Were brokin up for a couple years ( we also have two kids) and they were together for like a yr but they broke up and we got back together now i keep having dreams about her some dreams shes nice some shes trying to make out ...
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2 June 2012 (F)
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41-50 -
My boyfriend of 7 months and I enjoy discussing everything and posed the hypothetical question of "if we were to break up, would you be interested in pursuing any of your friends". Fyi, he has casual female friends whom he has dated briefly in the past or finds attractive and ...
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2 June 2012 (F)
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26-29 -
Ill try to keep this short and sweet, my bf and i were together over 3 years we have a 2 year old together. he has a lot of stress and demons, drug addict, anxiety, can't hold a job, his dad just passed away, we never broke up but he seems to say we did and we aren't ...
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2 June 2012 (F)
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26-29 -
Would this bother anyone else? It feels like my boyfriend didn't want pictures of me to use when i wasn't there because he prefers the porn models. I know he wouldn't ask me for pictures because he's too nice, but i'm concerned why he wouldn't ask when i started moaning about ...
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2 June 2012 (M)
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26-29 -
From what I can tell, my problem is me. I'm a twenty-one year old virgin, who is terrified of not only relationships, but sex in general. If I ever think about sex, I get uncomfortable thoughts and feel odd. As if the thought of being intimate with someone sickens me. I really ...
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2 June 2012 (M)
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30-35 -
So, this is my first time posting here, but I could really use some advice. I'm 24 years old, and still living with my father and sister. I've been looking for work for well over a year now, and recently got laid-off from the job I had. Making things worse, because of a tec...
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2 June 2012 (F)
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30-35 -
A guy in a group of friends confessed to me and I rejected him. And because i really have no interest in me,i am feeling very disgusted with him and wish to avoid him. But recently he kept organising group outings,i really do not wish to attend as i do not want to see him. What ...
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2 June 2012 (F)
age
51-59 -
Dear Cupid: Am I too paranoid/insecure, or are there some red flags here? Something about this LDR doesn’t sit right with me. After chatting 3 mos. on Facebook, I returned to my home state to meet a guy I went to high school with (-I’m 3 states away). Back then, he was a ...
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2 June 2012 (M)
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26-29 -
Can someone please tell me which man lives a better life: A man who has sex with multiple partners due to enjoyment of that or a man who is a virgin, has never had a real girlfriend and has the belief that he will find the girl of his dreams. I'm asking this question because ...
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2 June 2012 (M)
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30-35 -
Keep in mind, I never dated, or actively try to "flirt" with girls, but I do observe a lot, and I gotta say, I don't really understand it. For instance, one of the bigger things I've noticed is guys commenting on girls' physical features (and I mean things like "You have nice ...
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2 June 2012 (M)
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51-59 -
Hi there. I need some advice I have just ended a nine year relashionship and now five months on I feel it was the biggest mistake of my life, all I do is constantly think about him and realise just how much I love him, we finished because he had an appetite for saunas and ...
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2 June 2012 (F)
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36-40 -
Hey there! So I have this really burning problem. I think some guy is checking me out. I have found him on many occasions staring at me. We normally meet at the cafeteria only as we come from different departments in the same institution. I normally hang out with some very ...
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2 June 2012 (M)
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18-21 -
there is this girl that i know, she is really pretty and she goes to the gym. last week i told her that she doesn't need to wear the bib. under 15 at the gym need to wear a bib and there only allowed for an hour, i look a bit old so i get away with it, even tho i'm 15. so i to...
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2 June 2012 (M)
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22-25 -
Right this is my first question i have been with my girlfriend 8 months and before she met me she had another boyfriend ill call him s and she liked s for 1 year before she met me and later in the year they ended up going out not for long about 1 month i think and now we are ...
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2 June 2012 (F)
age
41-50 -
Would you pursuit? We met when I was almost 20 and she almost 35. Now I am almost 35 and she is almost 50. I told her I love you. She was happy but ignored it. There are social conditions for which pursuing would be really bad. But she makes me happy. I make he...
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2 June 2012 (F)
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41-50 -
Ok, does alcohol have that much affect on guys performance? Never had a bloke keep going soft on me before, ever. He said he has some viagra that he sometimes uses for when he's been drinking, but we didn't use it this time. I have had guys take aaaages when drunk, but not keep ...
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2 June 2012 (F)
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36-40 -
Hi. Is it my imagination. My bf is so into friends. He accompanied his friend to another province for a his friends' wedding and he had to abscond work for 5 days which it was a leave without pay. And again someone has passes on to that province again he's attending that ...
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2 June 2012 (F)
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26-29 -
Hiya aunts, I need your help! Long Story cut short.. I've been seein this guy for 2 years now but he has a girlfriend who he lives with! I used to work with him and see him everyday but now we don't work together I never see him or even speak to him! I don't feel like the lo...
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2 June 2012 (F)
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36-40 -
hi im 32 and my girlfriend 42. we dont live together and im at parents but stay with her some nights. when shes paid she gets food and yes does get it for us both but when im paid she keeps asking for things like fags and milk and cakes and also has started asking me to help ...
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2 June 2012 (F)
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22-25 -
Well, I play in a band and 2 out of the 3 guys are in love with me. I can't help that, they are my best friends and I love them ( yes, they're kinda friendzoned), but they don't know I have a boyfriend yet. But here's the problem... We have to perform today and my boyfriend...
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2 June 2012 (F)
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30-35 -
Hello everyone! Sorry if this is long btw. i recently moved back home from the flat i was sharing with my partner. for a long time he has been unsure about being in a relationship and dealing with some hassles a relationship can bring. so we decided that i would move out...
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2 June 2012 (M)
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22-25 -
Im an 18yr old guy, just out of school, and I'm still a virgin...I don't understand why it's so hard...why I dislike it so much...I feel like I'm missing out...like everyone else is in on something that I'm not a part of. Then people say its a good thing to be a virgin. That I ...
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2 June 2012 (M)
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26-29 -
Me and my ex haven't been talking for 10 months. I didn't contact her before because of fear of being rejected. A couple of days ago, I tried calling her up and she answered my call! We had a really good conversation about what's been going on in our lives and I admitted that I ...
(182 words)

2 June 2012 (F)
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18-21 -
So I have a guy friend that I have known for about 3 years. For the first 2 years we were basically best friends. Spent several hours out of the day with each other, talked on the phone every free minute we had, and eventually became sexually involved. This went on for two ...
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2 June 2012 (F)
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26-29 -
The guy I'm dating left his girlfriend for me. Is there anything to worry about? After we hung out a few times as friends, he brought up that he broke up with his girlfriend one month ago, but she refused to accept it so they're technically still "together." Then he told me he ...
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2 June 2012 (M)
age
41-50 -
When I met my wife I was mesmerized by her beauty and brains. Somewhere over the last 20 years, although she is just as beautiful, she has lost all of her wits. She throws tantrums after not being able to figure out the most mundane things like printing a report. She needs my...
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2 June 2012 (M)
age
26-29 -
Hi, basically me and my gf are dating and we are deciding to go on holiday together for 5days. Our relationship is secret though and it's kinda like a romeo and Juliet story. No one knows. Now I want to take her away, but She needs an excuse to get away. Becuz her mum is kinda ...
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2 June 2012 (F)
age
26-29 -
For two years - from the time I was 17 to 19 - I was involved with a man 20 years older than me. It was strictly an online relationship and I never saw him in person. Six months ago I finally saw him for what he was and dumped him, and haven't spoken to him since. At the time ...
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2 June 2012 (F)
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41-50 -
Hi Just after some opinions really. I know we hear a lot about blokes liking one night stands then losing interest, but I seem to be the female equivilant. I am so happy in my life right now in all ways, and I love being single. Yet I also love male attention? I kn...
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