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I once lived in an Asian country. I decided that I wanted something to do in the evenings after work, preferably an activity that killed two birds with one stone- entertained me and kept my body fit. So, I signed up for yoga classes, because I’d always been curious about it. I liked the idea of Yoga, besides, a regular gym was oh! so basic (I love how bourgie that sounds).

Ok, I’ll confess. The truth is that the treadmill actually looked like a weapon of torture to me. I was quite intimidated by it. How fast would it go? Would I stay on it? Would I fly off it? Many questions that have now been answered since I finally stepped on one 8 months ago.

I still remember my friend’s remarks upon learning that I’d signed up for the classes.

First class, the instructor showed us a pose that seemed almost humanly impossible. Then, my rubber-bodied classmates responded by smoothly replicating the pose without breaking into a sweat. Like they were born to do this.

Now, Asian women are naturally small, I suppose that given a genetic disposition to minimal body fat, effortlessly elastic joints would come in the anatomical red bow package.

Me? I winced inwardly and thought to myself; These women are my competition, I mustn’t appear to be anything less than a professional Olympic contortionist in front of them. After all, I dressed to impress before leaving home that day, you know they say people will address you according to how you dress.

Likewise, I would stretch to impress, perhaps people gauge one’s resilience to life’s challenges by how far they can stretch their body?

My thoughts were rudely interrupted by the mythical cherub flapping on the left side of my head called “Envy”. It said to me in a harsh whisper “Ah! If she can put her head behind her buttocks, so can you. I mean, does she have 2 heads? After all, she’s a woman like you. C’mon, DO IT NOW!”.

The other cherub floating on the right side of my head named “Reason” gently cooed “Hello sweetie, hmmm, you know that your joints have been stiffened by years and years of consuming hot eba. Do this thing a little at a time, you mustn’t go all the way today. Perhaps your head at your waist today and gradually at your buttocks next week”.

Envy won…

Well, here’s the thing, the human body has a malicious way of retaliating after being literally bent against its will. The day after I bullied my body, it sent me a strongly worded memo. What started like sharp twitches along my backbone, gradually escalated to a painful squeezing feeling with each breath, and finally a shaky-shaky fever.

Afterwards, it got better. I was training my body to learn to sit, roll-over and catch. Day by day, I improved at the yoga poses. Turns out the human body is rather malleable. Ha!

I find that on the one hand, Jealousy is outrightly full of bitterness and negativity, on the other hand, while Envy does have strong undertones of resentment, the ironyis that Envy can be gently coaxed and transformed into positive motivation.

Jealousy says “Why does she have to have all that?” Envy says “Hmm, That looks great, I want mine!”

“Envy can be a positive motivator. Let it inspire you to work harder for what you want.” – Robert Bringle

Anyway, I was feeling rather envious. Everyone but me seemed to have the funky iro and buba, I decided to make mine jare,abi do they have two heads? 😀

Iro and Buba is inarguably timeless, the classic tunic blouse and wrapper has been given a modern twist, with silky fabrics, revamped shape of the buba, and the twisted style of wrapping the iro in a tulip knot (why do I feel like I just wasted a good pun opportunity?). Now, younger women find it more appealing.

I sewed a blouse in the traditional buba style, and rather than make the traditional iro (a little over 2 yards of fabric tied around the lower half of the body), which technically is a wrap around skirt, I chose to make a pencil skirt.It was delightful to discover that fabric can be purchased per yard at the Woodin store, why become saddled with 4 extra yards when you only really need 2? This also gives one the flexibility to mix prints and colours, which is what I did. I picked a yard each of Bottle-Green and Wine coloured fabrics in the same print.

The original model (Iro and Buba v 1.0) is really simple to make and can be sewn in under two hours. I made a buba muslin first, the sewing steps are very easy to follow:

Measure the hip width [W]. Divide this by two [W/2]

Important: Add 3 to 4 inches to this for wearing ease, plus another 1 inch for sewing allowance.

Decide on the desired length [L], for mine I chose 24 inches.

Cut out fabric with the following dimension; Length is derived from step three, multiplied by 2, and Breadth is derived from step two.

Fold the fabric, width-wise and then length-wise. The width-wise fold removes the need for a shoulder seam.

For the neckline, measure a 4.5 x 4 inches rectangle, at the corner with the folds and cut out a curved line.

The sleeve circumference [SC] ranges between 17 to 20 inches for a small to medium size.

The sleeve length [SL] depends on the desired style. I opted for a 3/4 sleeve and used 14 inches.

For the iro wrapper, cut out 2 yards of fabric and hem the likely to fray edges by folding twice and sewing.

Skirt pattern | Fully lined | Skirt and lining hemming

The skirt is fully lined with a medium weight, tightly woven cotton fabric for added volume. The skirt was hemmed with satin ribbon and hand sewn blind stitches, I passed the needle underneath one-eighth of an inch from the edge of the satin ribbon to achieve discrete stitches.

The skirt lining was hemmed by binding the edge with bias tape. The neckline, sleeve hem and side seams of the buba were finished by binding with bias tape. The buba hemline fell tidily on the fabric selvage, and since it was cut on the grain-line, I didn’t bother hemming it.

Buba | Bias bound neckline | Hong Kong seam finishing

I didn’t want visible stitches at the neckline and sleeve hem, so I first sewed the bias tape to the fabric with the right sides touching and then turned the tape inward to the wrong side of the blouse and slip-stitched by hand.

Sleeve hem | Attached bias tape | Discrete slip stitches

I passed the needle underneath the machine sewn stitch and then with a vertical motion into the bias tape, taking care to catch no more than 2 threads on the tape. This required quite a bit of patience but the tidy discrete finish made it worthwhile.

I was very pleased about the tailored finish of the skirt, as I put quite a bit of work into it. I will pair it with a chiffon blouse the next time I wear it.

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It looks gorgeous… Looking forward to seeing you pairing the skirt up with a chiffon top…You really did crack me up with the yoga story…
Envy really good motivation to do/achieve more…but really taking it a step at a time makes the process more enjoyable.
Nice one Nedoux!!!

Nedu, i just love you more! Where do i start from? The hairdo, the stylish and trendy iro and buba, the red lips which is almost becoming my signature look and your simple yet a perfect compliment to the outfit. All i see is creativity (I just made a peplum top and midi pencil skirt with a lace fabric and its out of this world)
Now i envy!!! and i will definitely have my own stylish iro and buba

Men! You are so pretty! The outfit is fab too. But I can’t just get over how pretty you are!
I agree with you about envy.
Sometimes, I get jealous and when I feel jealousy, I am a monster. I have worked on that so I don’t feel it any more. xxx
Have a fab evening.

Surprised to see I haven’t commented on this post before but I’m here now.
Your iro and buba remix looks awesome. I particularly like making pencil skirts. Does this have a pocket by any chance? And a midi pencil skirt? Fabulous (on you). I would make one myself except I don’t personally want a midi pencil skirt. I’ll probably just make one for my cousin 🙂
My current love is this material- collezioni- the bubble wrap plain one. I’m completely in lust.
Btw, we are biding our time but more stories of Singaporean adventures will be told, hmm?
I knew you’d agree.
Hugs.

Why are you like this?! How did we go from yoga to Iro and skirt?! I cant with you! I have tried, but I cant! LMAO
That bit about “envy” is actually quite deep. I am interestingly learning that EVERYTHING is about perception! If you do not think people and the stars are out to get you, you cant be gotten! Everything that happens, good and bad, you will be able to easily take it in stride and move on. It is a very life-changing concept to grasp, really! Not easy to get there, but life-changing once you do, nonetheless.

You should have seen how excited I got when I went to a Daviva shop and learnt I could buy in yards! I almost went crazy! 2 yards of that lime, 2 of the orange, 2 of the one with leaf motif, 3 of the elephant one. Our God is a great God who has good eyes for arts & its provisions……amean, lookachew!!!! Nwawupawpaw men! Yawwwww!!!! (Whatever that means)
BTW, which Asian country did you live in?

The yard option at Daviva!!!!!!!!!!!!! The day I found out, I was soooooo happy. I bought just one, but made a mental note to do it regularly. The last time I went, I bought 3 which are being sewn right now. I can’t wait!

For some reason, I read the title as ‘Iro Ni’, which is Yoruba for ‘It’s A Lie’, which will have been quite ironic against the text of the post, titled Irony. I can’t remember where I was going with this.

I learned pretty early to make envy a propelling force to be a better version of me rather than let it eat me up or make me do something crazy.
I had no idea that you’re the “Nedoux”- I’ve visited your blog several times from Berry’s but have been too shy to say hello.
You look fabulous in this version of iro and buba and you’re giving me an idea of how to rock one. I wore one for the first time this year and felt weird!

Oh nedu!
Where do I start?
Your way with words?
The joints you were forcing to be malleable?
These beautiful prints?
The perfect outfit? Or the cutie wearing it?
I need to come register for apprenticeship.
The outfit is just so party ready.

Aha! there’s a book that I’d like to recommend- ‘Dress Pattern Designing; The Basic Principles of Cut and Fit’ – Natalie Bray. It’s a great book and breaks down the science of pattern drafting wonderfully.

*sigh* This woman sha! You will just be making me jealous sha.
Lol. I love the way this post evolved. I feel like previous comments articulated how I feel succinctly.
Now Nedu, why didn’t you find a party to crash? Tsk tsk

P.s; there’s a woodin store where you can get materials by the yard? What have you been waiting for then? Sew my skirt jor. And I have been exercising patience o. *huffs and puffs*

Now I have a belly-ache and it’s all your fault. There was too much sweetness in your comment. Thank you so much! 😀

Your perspective made me nod my head in agreement, Indeed, it is best to focus on one’s own self, because you never really know the other person’s actual reality. The truth underneath the facade might be quite different from public perception.

I think it’s human nature to do the comparison thing once in a while, so far it doesn’t end in negativity.

I had always thought of envy as an extreme form of jealousy.
Glad to know it can also be a postive motivator.
That part of stiffness from years of hot eba cracked me up….i was moulding said hot eba while reading this 🙂

Oh I couldn’t agree more. Envy can be a positive motivator and vice versa. When I think of some people I grew up with and where they are in their lives and what they do, I beat myself up so badly one would think I was suffering lol. But like you said n like I say, they dont have two heads so all in due time Gracey, all in due time.

Love your outfit and you do look like an Asian woman in these pics hehe..

It’s only human to do the comparison thing once in a while, it’s quite healthy even, as it means that one is mature enough to tolerate self-criticism and become motivated to devise a strategy for self-improvement.