Since there are now 16+approved men (first time for some to ever be approved by ladies...you know who you are) I thought we should have a thread where we can ask any questions (respectfully) to our gathered ladies and hopefully find answers that will draw us all closer together (and who does not want to be closer with a group of hot attractive ladies..

1. How come ladies continue to chase the bad guy even though the have a history of failed relationships with said guys?

or

2. How come ladies spend so much time on buying guys gifts when we would be much happier if you bought us a new porn DVD and watched it with us?

1. Because "good guys" are too easy to get. We are like you...we need a challange and to feel like we accomplished something when we get the bad guy. We also like to hear that we are "so special", the bad guy changed for the better just to keep us.

2. We buy gifts that we would like to get. Clothes, jewelry, etc. Unfortunatly women don't feel the same as guys do about porn. If you find one...make sure she is your priority while watching, the first time she sees you looking at the tv while she is "working"...you are done.

Why is it that a woman has such a hard time admitting when she is in the wrong? Save the smart ass answer that you are never wrong please, I'm asking a serious question.

serious answer...guys do the EXACT same thing.

its not a guy or girl thing, it relagated to the person and their ability to admit fault. in doing that...you admit that you screwed up and some people cant deal with it. normally when you have time to think about it, you go back and say you are sorry. admitting you are wrong.

2. How come ladies spend so much time on buying guys gifts when we would be much happier if you bought us a new porn DVD and watched it with us?

2. Like proschic said, a lot of gals don't feel the same way that some guys do about porn. Some gals may like it, but others feel that it is a very sad, horrible industry and that a lot of the women involved don't truley wish to be. Porn also can destroy marriages if a spouse prefers the fantasy over the real thing. In addition some women may feel intimidated by porn-"stars" for some unearthly reason.

its not a guy or girl thing, it relagated to the person and their ability to admit fault. in doing that...you admit that you screwed up and some people cant deal with it. normally when you have time to think about it, you go back and say you are sorry. admitting you are wrong.

Since there are now 16+approved men (first time for some to ever be approved by ladies...you know who you are) I thought we should have a thread where we can ask any questions (respectfully) to our gathered ladies and hopefully find answers that will draw us all closer together (and who does not want to be closer with a group of hot attractive ladies..

1. How come ladies continue to chase the bad guy even though the have a history of failed relationships with said guys?

or

2. How come ladies spend so much time on buying guys gifts when we would be much happier if you bought us a new porn DVD and watched it with us?

1. because they think they can be the one to change them from those bad boy ways.

I prefer muscular to "thick" bodies on men. I even prefer "fat" men to men with "runner's bodies."

i think a big muscular man signifies masculinity, and comfort. its the whole defending your honor, conquering the world for you idea. i need a manly man....a brute. they are messy as hell, and sometime ignore you while watching football...but they do the damn thing. they take care of business. they give the best bear hugs, they are so snuggly, and they make great dads.

My dad is a rather large, masculine man...i guess its true when they say girls marry someone like their father.

Why is it that a woman has such a hard time admitting when she is in the wrong? Save the smart ass answer that you are never wrong please, I'm asking a serious question.

As said before, there are plenty of men who can't admit they're wrong, and there are also women who are willing to apologize. Some women though seem to argue "feelings" rather than "polints" and it's much harder to admit that you were wrong about how you felt rather than that the paint you chose really is lime green, or you really should have gotten off the exit before. Sometimes when you just acknowledge the feeling... you get a whole different tude.