No Queer Girls Are Queerer Than Others: Resisting Femme Invisibility

As a queer femme, I struggle to find myself represented in media, in communities and in life. I’m constantly excluded, judged as straight, and not taken seriously because I look girly. I’m not welcome at queer parties, and not thought of as a serious partner for dating and sex (re: bisexual phobia + erasure). My femininity is a core part of my sexual identity and my queerness, not me being complacent in heterosexual and gender norm pigeonholing. No Queer Girls Are Queerer Than Others: Resisting Femme Invisibility, is a great write up worth a read.