Sshhh ... listen to what I say, Cisca! You want to be his friend means you want to share your money, your love and all of your time: in the free world, in hospital, in prison and in the cemetery. Are you ready? Are you really willing? Look at him! Read who he is!

Aging makes us look ugly... being ugly, getting old and dying. Geez, please do not die, sexy bald...

If we walk side by side ...
although actually he looks more like my uncle ... What? Uncle? What's the difference between your uncle with your father, hm? ehehhee ... they are different, stupid! I am forbidden to love my father as I love my uncle ... ahahahaa ..., and here, uncle Soral, mmm .... Am I allowed to love him? ... What? Stop making small talk. You're doing it, stupid! ... love him secretly ... but I feel I want to walk by his side forever... And you, dahling, you'll be my bridesmaid? What? Bridesmaid? ahahaha ... ... ahahaaaa...

Shhh.... Stop daydreaming, Cisca! Money is real. So, ... your money, please? Are you ready as I say? Donation, please? You know money is not everything, but everything requires money. It is the philosophy of our politicians whole activity. Money is not just a tool for the exchange of goods, but also has been able to control the totality of human life in all respects. Infidelity between money and power -- you want to admit it or not -- is part of democracy's problem that can not be eliminated until today. In the United States, money is the winner, you know? ...

CZ

"Thank you for your perception! I like your romantic side, even if I do not always comment and I'm glad that you're in my circle of friends."(Courtesies by: Wolfgang A. Gerhardt)

Wolfgang A.Gerhardt : May be you like this Sunday collage

Cisca Zarmansyah : Before today, there never was a person doing this to me. You create a simple matter to look special. This is a special thing for me.

Cisca Zarmansyah : Thank you. I love it. I love you, my friend. ♥

CieL- FreYa Ceastle : Hmm, he's so nice...

"I am me.
In all the world,
there is no one else exactly like me.
Everything that comes out of me
is authentically mine,
because I alone chose it --
I own everything about me:
my body,
my feelings,
my mouth,
my voice,
all my actions,
whether they be to others or myself.
I own my fantasies,
my dreams,
my hopes,
my fears.
I own my triumphs and successes,
all my failures and mistakes.
Because I own all of me,
I can become intimately acquainted with me.
By so doing,
I can love me
and be friendly with all my parts.
I know there are aspects about myself that puzzle me,
and other aspects that I do not know
-- but as long as I am friendly
and loving to myself,
I can courageously and hopefully
look for solutions
to the puzzles and ways
to find out more about me.
However I look and sound,
whatever I say and do,
and whatever I think and feel at a given moment in time
is authentically me.
If later some parts of how I looked,
sounded,
thought,
and felt
turn out to be unfitting,
I can discard that which is unfitting,
keep the rest,
and invent something new
for that which I discarded.
I can see,
hear,
feel,
think,
say, and do.
I have the tools to survive,
to be close to others,
to be productive,
and to make sense
and order out of the world of people
and things outside of me.
I own me,
and therefore,
I can engineer me.
I am me,
and I am okay."

VIRGINIA SATIR
(American Phychologist and Educator, 1916-1988)

About Me

"When the Nazis came for the communists, I remained silent. I was not a communist. When they locked up the social democrats, I remained silent. I was not a social democrat. When they came for the trade unionists, I did not speak out. I was not a trade unionist. When they came for the Jews, I remained silent. I wasn't a Jew. When they came for me, there was no one left to speak out." - Martin Niemöller