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Giving out the right signals when looking for love

It’s important to know the various ways in which you can send the right signals when seeking love. Giving off the right signals helps us all to make the right choices when we are looking for love.

Sometimes we tend to send the wrong signals and miss the chance of being shown the love that we deserve. If you feel that your boyfriend is not getting the hint and is not growing attracted to you, then you must be sending the wrong signals to them. Avoid the shy and the awkward signals that you may make, since they are not confidence building and nothing is as attractive as a confident and assured person. Your lover needs to know who you really are and, therefore, if you are shy and uncomfortable around them, you are sending the wrong signals and you may risk losing the person who is perfect for you.

Here are some ideas for you to consider.

Your boyfriend needs to know that you are interested in him. Once you are sure that you would like to get to know him a little better, then try telling him that this is how you feel. However, take your time. Show him that he really deserves you too. But if you go too fast you might push him away. Let him know some little things about you; such as where you live and your occupation and your hobbies. This will help you in winning his attention and he will be attracted to you. Learn the various aspects of his body language. What does his body language tell you when you ask particular questions? If he avoids answering and obviously looks uncomfortable then move on to another topic.

Use your own body language to appear more attractive to him. Making eye contact and smiling at him, will let him know that you are interested in what he has to say. Touching your hair is always a definite turn on for a man. Doing this draws his attention to you and means he will then make eye contact with you as well. Listen attentively to what he is saying and ask questions!

These are just a couple of tips that you could take on board and may make you feel much more comfortable about getting to know your man.