What you got yourself into is more than surreal-- I wondered what took you so long to realize it.

What's really disturbing is the Facebook entry: he ain't no Lubavitch (aside from the vort being in BP and not CH); and the juxtaposition of the vort pics with the rest of the albums is troubling to say the least-- not so much from a frumkeit or tznius perspective-- more from a concern of an unstable personality 'tantzing auf beider chasunahs'. What's mind-blowing no matter which side you take is the boy's family's position-- how and why did they ever get into the middle of this?

I'm a casual bystander when it comes to blogging-- this is the first time I felt such a strong crossover to the brick-and-mortar world of people's lives. This feeling results not from idle curiosity of salacious voyeurism-- since I stumbled across the blog, the whole situation has been rattling around in the back of my brain; this seems to be a case in which NEITHER side is legit. I would say that further participation is simply feeding more fuel on a fire of unknown proportions and nature.