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Saturday, May 12, 2012

Transform Pain or Transmit It

What is suggested here is a
generational truth. Of the problems we know about now, those that have plagued
us in previous generations, are destined to haunt us in future generations if
we don’t do something now about them.

“If we do
not transform our pain we will most assuredly transmit it.”

~Richard Rohr

As a graphic national illustration
we look to the Rwandan genocide of 1994, where one million Tutsis were massacred
over a 100-day time period. Two previous genocides occurred in similar
circumstances, each a generation beforehand, in 1973, and previously in 1959.
After each genocide there was the pledge made—“Never again.” But, it did indeed
occur again. And, more pertinently, will
it happen again?

As the personal illustration this
pattern holds, for individuals and families. If we would wish to rectify the
problems we have known, annihilating the possibility of their repeat, we must
wrangle with the pain and transform it beyond the current manifestation.

This encapsulates all our
addictions, dependencies, areas of neglect, incidences of trauma, and abuses,
etc.

Tackling Our Pain

There are so many things that we
should want to transform and rectify; and not leave as is, so they might be
transmitted to those even yet unborn, through us.

This has direct relevance to our
diseases like alcoholism, and traumas like sexual abuse. There are a great many
mental and emotional ills that we might tackle head-on.

It goes further into our
developmental pain, and our lack of tenacity for the spiritual conquest.
Anything that appears as a threat to our spiritual growth could be in sight.

The quote above is relevant to
every single person. We all have our pains which we must transform, otherwise
we’re faced with transmitting the effects of our pain, even the pains
themselves, through communicability, to the next generation, and into
generations to come.

The Spirit Of Transformation

We, truly, have a great deal of
power over our destinies. We can identify and work on any work we wish to
accomplish. Instead of building great material wealth, for instance, we could
work at developing our spiritual wealth. There is great wisdom in that.

The spirit of transformation is
freely available to all humankind, but we must want it, and to receive it we
must live truthfully. That takes courage and sacrifice, and, no less, humility.

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We have this time right now as a
time to transform our pain into something useful. It’s our time and our
opportunity. If we don’t transform our pain we will transmit it onward, into
the next generation. We can fix it now, beginning today.