I have often wondered about fantasies . Is fantasies real desires or is it just an escape from reality? I asked before writing my book Ilse, 28 women about their view of a relationship or marriage between an older woman and a younger man . 24 Expressed a strong no. I refer to their answer. I got the impression they find it totally unacceptable. But my book Ilse , did quite well. I wonder now if it was curiosity and whether it might be a cherished fantasy. Who knows? My similar stories , Paula and Pauline found happiness, performed well .

After a process of hassles with WordPress, this website, although very basic, is running. I did not know WordPress and the whole process is one of discovery. I had a lot of frustrations, but also some fun. There is several more to do before I will be satisfied.