Did it take a while for them to get used to each other?
Everything I've read says to keep them in seperate rooms at first and that it could take anywhere from two day to six months for them to start getting along.

I like Ed. We've had a kitten at my mom's house for 3 months now that my mom still keeps secluded from our dog and cat. Not like locked in a cage or anything, she has a bedroom all to herself and gets to go on the patio and gets lots of love from my mom, but it is still ridiculous. She is freaked out that they will kill her so she spends all day herding animals from room to room. The kitten is not even that small anymore so she could probably handle my big fat cat no problem and while the dog is crazy he is getting older too so I think the kitten would be quick enough to handle herself.

My cats freaked out when my ex gf's cats were brought into the home, but they were full grown and male. I'm hoping she'll recognize the kitten as being a baby and not feel as threatened. I've heard that once they get used to the kitten they get all motherly and start bathing and taking care of it.

So I'm kind of going tomorrow because 1) it's something to do and 2) there's tons of bands playing that I've just never bothered to check out but always planned to, so I figure this is a good way to do so (and some I love and have seen live as well, of course).
Planning to catch Lucero, Fucked Up, Grabass Charlestons, Dillinger Escape Plan, and maybe Dios.