If he is serious and will fear losing you, he will waste no time in going about setting things right. You know the saying, “If you love it, set it free. If it comes back, it is yours; if it doesn’t, it was never meant to be.”

Granted, rebuilding your life and your self-esteem may take some effort, but you will be on the right track and on the way to healing, to reclaiming your self-dignity and to living a life of truth. Fortunately for you, you are not alone. You have friends and family who care enough to worry about you and will be there for you in your time of need – to see you through a difficult period in your life.

Come on, girl, do this for yourself, if only because you deserve better! Rest assured that you won’t be sorry.

Good luck!

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