It’s just Porn… don’t have a hissy fit!!!

What is it with porn that gets people so riled up? What is it with semi nude people that get people so riled up?

Constantly you have to listen to somebody jabbering on about how Porn is degrading to women, how we have to get rid of nudity in the public space, it’s bad for our children, etc.

I mean come on!!! It’s naked people having sex or maybe it is semi naked people advertising for a product! And why is it that it is only degrading to women and not men? It actually implies that women have less sense to say no, than a man would. Wouldn’t it be just as easy for a woman to say no to getting naked as it would be for a man? Women aren’t stupid, and most times they use their bodies deliberately for personal gain! Which is all good, if you got it flaunt it!

But where does the negative view on pornography come from? Why are we told that it is not real when there is no love?I know it is not real, but it’s still sex, it’s still exciting! And love? How many people have sex every day with out the “love” factor being involved? So that is not really an argument that can be used!

First of, if we see an advertisement with a couple of half naked people, does that make me think that I will look like that if I drink a sports juice or if I wear a certain brand of clothes? Or does it make me think that if I just use that perfume, I can have a girl that looks just like the one in the add? Not likely… so what is it then? Well sex sells, we all know that!!! Not because of some magic happening to us, but because of the act itself! We like to see naked people, we like to fantasize about them and what we would do to them… so if some add has some people that we relate to, they believe that the products brand recognition will intensify and thus the brand value! This is the job of every marketing person out there, optimizing the brand performance through all means. And if people like to look at girls in bikini’s or guys in nothing but boxers, then what is the harm in that? Has society really grown so narrow minded, that we aren’t even allowed to pose for a camera in what could be our swim wear?

Not to even mention Porn. Pornography is still viewed as something really sleazy, only topped by strippers and prostitutes! Why is that? Porn is basically actors performing a job and giving the people what they want. And everybody wants sex, if you don’t… well then you probably just haven’t had good sex yet! And maybe you never will unless you give into your inner freak. In which case porn can actually help you, it can lend you tips and ideas as how to spice things up in your sex life. Porn has come to stay and it probably time for all the nay sayers to adhere to the old saying, “if you can’t beat them, join them”.

So come on people, join the porn movement! Experience it and embrace it, if you actually had a knowledge of Porn it would also be easier to understand the world that we live in. How will you be able to guide your children, if you have no idea what is going on or what they are talking about! Because believe me, your children will be watching porn, your children will be mimicking what they see and gathering information, they will be having anal sex, oral sex, threesomes, etc. Your daughter will be sucking some guy off and your son will be thrusting his penis in to some girls ass! It’s inevitable, it will happen… so you better be prepared for it and think about how you wish to tackle these issues. Do you want your children to grow up in an environment of conformity and then sneaking out behind your back, mimicking the actions they have seen in the porn movies which they have watched alone at night on the internet! There are several sites such as Pornhub, redtube, youporn and lots of others that offer free and easily available movies to watch. And because you have raised them in an environment of hostility towards this subject, they will never ask you for your advice or your input on the issue. You won’t be able to tell them that porn isn’t real, that it is normal not to have an 15 inch dick! That you don’t have to have anal sex if you don’t want to! You don’t have to cum in a girls mouth every time!

If we accept porn to be a natural thing in our society, we can also view it in a natural way and it becomes a part of everyday life. A a part of every day life, it will be easy for us to have a conversation about it! Without getting put off, or getting red in the face and stumbling through an embarrassing and outdated “talk” about the birds and the bees!

Sex is supposed to be something fun and exciting! It is supposed to be something rockin’ and magnificent! We don’t just have sex to reproduce, but for the fun of it!!! Because it feels sooooo good!!! Because it makes you happy and high at the best of times! Because it is like your own version of Special K! So stop trying to taint it as something unsavory. We have come a long way since the norm was that you only had sex with one person for your entire life, and who out there really wants to go back to that time???