This is going to be our last baby so we are hopefully going to have the money at Christmas for one! If not then it doesn't matter to us as you spend to rest of your life with that baby anyway. And besides, if you know the sex and you know what they look like, where is the suprise after 9 months?? It is great not know the sex and it's even more wonderful the very first time you see them. I think if it's your first then it should definately be a suprise but you already founs out the sex I guess it's a toughy for you xxx