(Closed) FMIL says ….

After discussing wedding plans for prob the first time with my FMIL (after dress shopping), she said that if we plan to have a seating chart then it should be stated on the invitation so people can decided whether or not they still want to attend. Isn’t that ridiculous? I told her that if someone is bothered by the fact that we have a seating chart and decides to leave the reception, then I don’t want them there anyway!

That’s ridiculous…I would just say thanks for your input and move on. I learned in the wedding planning process to limit the information I shared with my MIL and to not specifically ask for an opinion…

that’s the dumbest thing ever. You do not need to warn guests of a seating chart – I think most wedding it’s understood that’s how it will be! If it’s not, cool added bonus? If somoene really has an issue with their seat, I’m sure they could always switch with someone no big deal and no one would ever know!

After thinking about this more, maybe you should warn people about it….because if someone doesn’t want to attend because you have a seating chart, that’s not the type of person I would want at my wedding anyway, so better to know ahead of time, ha! 🙂 🙂 🙂