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My son (now 2) was conceived through rape. Now, I found out I'm pregnant again. 9 weeks. I'm sad.

I feel terrible-I used two kinds of protection for both-hormonal shots and the pill...but, still got pregnant! I have a nerve pain disorder and a tremor as well as PTSD. I don't think I'm ready for this again...and, I lost the respect of my entire family when i decided to have my son who was conceived through rape...I have all the love in the world for another child-but, none of the support. I don't want to feel alone.

Mom Answers

Dear friend! You have gone through it! But wow! What a mom you are! You are not alone. You have an army of other mothers ready to cheer you through the tough times, as we slog along beside you. Rape doesn't define the child. And it certainly doesn't define the mother. You have taken the first step, posting on this forum! You are a hero, friend. And your son, and this child, will have decades to appreciate that fact.
You are NOT alone. I'm happy to stand beside you.
heather ;)
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Oh my. I'm so sorry for how your family reacted. There is no reason for them to shun you for you keeping that baby! I can't say it won't be difficult. You seem to have a lot on your plate. I hope that you find the strength to make it through, and Incredibleinfant is right! We as mothers will support you! Also remember that you are never alone! You have a little angle right beside you!

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