Fathering a child requires special skills, which you will find hard to cope with initially in the first few months of your baby. As parenting or nurturing your baby is not only limited to the mother, father too shares some if not equal responsibility.

If it was your first baby the responsibility and looking after the baby will become even more difficult to you. You cannot get away from this responsibility since you are a man! You can actually join any pre-parenting classes beforehand to avoid such situations. This will prepare you well before actually becoming a father of a baby.

They will actually teach you everything a future father might be needing to do such as changing diapers, baby sitting, bathing your child, changing clothes, feeding your baby, etc. You will also have practical classes on these tasks as well. They will also teach you with respect to both boy as well as girl baby, so that you will not have any confusions or embarrassments in the future regardless of which baby you become a proud father of.

The other way to cope this issue of fathering a baby is to ask for help from your friends or relatives who have already gone through this. They will have a whole lot of tips and tricks to offer to you.

Although fathering might be too much for you to initially handle, but once you have gone through the initial phase, you might even start enjoying it, since after all you are actually nurturing your very own baby which needs both care and attention from your side too. But just make sure you are fully prepared for it though.