I'm totally freaking out!

So yesterday on a hunch I bought some pregnancy tests. This morning I did one before work and lo and behold there are two little lines. This will be my second bub but for DP it will be his 4th. I haven't told him yet because I am pretty sure he doesn't want anymore kids. I don't think he will be a jerk about it but he will be very very stressed out so I guess I am just working up the courage to deal with that. I am going to the doctors tomorrow to get confirmation via blood test etc. before I say anything to DP.

But for now OMGOMGOMGOMGOMGOMG!!!!!!!!!!!!!! In the words of Peg (+ cat) IM TOTALLY FREAKING OUT!

I actually did want another baby but never thought I would talk DP into it. But even if I did I wanted to wait a bit. DD is only 15mnths old and still BF. She also still co-sleeps. Plus both my kids birthdays will be in the same month with my SS's in the two months beforehand. This will literally change everything especially for DD. I was not expecting this at all! Any ideas on how to break it to DP after the doctors?

Just do it. Take a bit breath and say those words.
I had to do sort of the same thing when I found out we were having dd. we hadn't really discussed having another, but we weren't actively preventing it either. I'm very lucky that df is a responsible man and he just hugged me and told me we would do whatever it took to make it work.

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Thanks for the replies. I ended up telling him everything straight up including how worried I was about stressing him out. He was totally fine with it and started helping me plan. Now that the shock has worn off we are both a bit excited. Kinda forgot how horrible the constant nausea is tho.

Thanks for the replies. I ended up telling him everything straight up including how worried I was about stressing him out. He was totally fine with it and started helping me plan. Now that the shock has worn off we are both a bit excited. Kinda forgot how horrible the constant nausea is tho.

Oh yay! I'm so glad it worked out It is very exciting, congrats! Also I was still co sleeping and breastfeeding when I fell preg with my youngest. I breastfed my toddler for the entire pregnancy and it was fine- it also meant that I had no pain whatsoever or cracking/bleeding when I was establishing breastfeeding with my new baby