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In the second year managing the 14-and-under Dutchess Debs Gold Fast Pitch softball team, I felt compelled to share with the community the heart and soul demonstrated by this team. Composed of 11 girls from across the Hudson Valley, the team has played together for less than two years.

Although very successful on the field (30-10-2), it is the life skills these girls are developing which should be recognized.

Our coaching staff consisting of Mike Malile, Matt D'Angelo, Lynn Nazzaro, Kevin Cargain, and myself felt it was time to change how we approach the game. As such, our goals shifted to instill greater work ethic, a successful attitude, and an approach to sports not often seen in today’s sports.

As a staff, we began to speak of encouragement, confidence and accountability. We worked on creating a culture of team first, winning and losing with dignity, and giving 100 percent max effort. The girls responded beyond all expectations.

As a result, the girls serendipitously started a tradition. They kneel, and hold hands as a group for one belief — belief in each other. This culture and mentality is also resonating with the parents. For a group of eighth grade girls to be able to use this sport as a vehicle to build their character, to me, as a coach, is amazing.

I have coached many teams, but I have never witnessed what is going on with this team. It is truly something powerful and enjoyable. #MoreThanSoftball