In all fairness, I find it a bit unfair. I'd assume most younger guys approached sexually by a girl their own age would be all "Aw yeah, sweet!". In the same circumstance, it's seen as obscene and overbearing for gay people to do the same, even at that age. It's a bit like we're denied the opportunity to be promiscuous, even if that's what we want to do.

Well, call me crazy, but I see that type of behavior as stupid and douchebaggy instead of creepy.

Well you are

Now that we have had this little shindig done with, here's something you'd probably find creepy since you aren't fond of mantises either. But heck, they're spiders and they're awesome. The video isn't graphic so don't worry.

In the Brazilian town of Santo Antônio da Platina, spiders known as Anelosimus eximius were shot by Erick Reis as they showered the sky. Marta Fischer, a local biologist, is quoted at G1 as saying (translated), “…They are usually in trees during the day and in the late afternoon and early evening construct a sort of sheet webs, each makes his and then they come together. The goal is to capture insects.” She also says this phenomenon is normal.

That is awesome. I love natural phenomenons like that. It's a good thing they aren't very smart, they could catch a toddler with that thing.

Also, wtf was that last page? A dude just got admonished for not wanting to be feminine? He's a guy. If he thinks effeminate actions aren't cool, it's because he's a fucking guy. I don't see the problem with that. Or, I don't see the problem with not really wanting to be touched...it's hit fucking body, it's no one else's. I mean, Xl, you're a cool dude, but you need to cool it on the hyper-liberal attacks on people [the same goes for the rest of you who ganged up on him ;_; ]

I'm a sexual dynamo with the fluidity of the great Ohio river when it comes to not caring about gay/trans/whatever and I may have....experimented..with....some...dudes....in...college. But, the fact is, I'm a man and I hate it when dudes act super-effeminate [because they are still menm, after all, so that "femininity" comes with a sexual desire not found the same in women - making the blend really odd or indecent] or beta or fucking passive-aggressive. Shit's annoying. It's not unnatural, it's not immoral, it's just annoying and I hate being annoyed.

NOW LET'S ALL LIFT WEIGHTS.

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In all fairness, I find it a bit unfair. I'd assume most younger guys approached sexually by a girl their own age would be all "Aw yeah, sweet!". In the same circumstance, it's seen as obscene and overbearing for gay people to do the same, even at that age. It's a bit like we're denied the opportunity to be promiscuous, even if that's what we want to do.

Wat. I said a lot of "stuff", so that's sort of confusing since I can't really figure out what exactly you're replying to here... I'm just going to guess I know what you're saying and reply with:

No kid needs to be sexually harassed in school. Period. No kid should be sexually harrassing another kid in school. Period. Exceptions should not exist for anyone "special" if it makes someone else uncomfortable (and, yeah, if a chick started flicking her bean and jiggling her tits in my face, I'D be uncomfortable. What an asshole that must make me, right? Sorry, just not into it... or having people in my space in general).

Guys do it to girls CONSTANTLY. Does that make it okay? Hell no. Why's it any different for a gay guy? Girls almost never (but shouldn't if they do) do it to boys (and it's frequently just girls manipulating boys to do them favors), and girls who get harassed almost never want it done to them any more than a heterosexual KID wants another boy doing it to them... and, well, if you're not into guys, you're just not. A kid shouldn't have to "deal with it" because of the poor minority gay kid (awww ;__;) rubbing his dick in class is giving him fuck-eyes. Go find a youth organization or have sex with older men like everyone else does at that age (no, I'm not "actually" advocating the other, it was a joke).

Your idea that "it's not fair for gay boys" is basically on the same level as the old "it's okay to be a pedophile and have sex with boys as long as you're hot and have a vagina" argument.

Also, I feel I should clarify: I think it's silly that the dude's "uncomfortable" with "femme" people, but I also don't think it's okay to harass someone just because you're "femme". That's so stupid and counterproductive. That mindset of "it's okay for 'victims' to ignore the rules" is just divisive, and it builds resentment and tension between everyone.

Also, Crick, I'm not being hyperbolic, you're just assuming I'm equating pedophilia with anything when it was merely an analogy for the stupid exceptions people make.

FURTHERMORE, I'LL ADD: In, like, 3rd grade, there was this really effeminate boy who would wrap his jacket around boys and pull them up to him. He did this constantly, and, yeah, it made me uncomfortable, fucking god forbid. I'm gay and even I didn't like that shit. I DON'T LIKE TO BE TOUCHED!!! *flips a table*

He was being admonished for flipping out and being disgusted (the ugh) by a gay guy for simply flirting with him. The wiggling penis is too much obviously and the guy shouldn't have done it, but that being a reason to be scarred for life?

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I'm a sexual dynamo with the fluidity of the great Ohio river when it comes to not caring about gay/trans/whatever and I may have....experimented..with....some...dudes....in...college. But, the fact is, I'm a man and I hate it when dudes act super-effeminate [because they are still menm, after all, so that "femininity" comes with a sexual desire not found the same in women - making the blend really odd or indecent] or beta or fucking passive-aggressive. Shit's annoying. It's not unnatural, it's not immoral, it's just annoying and I hate being annoyed.

I hate when men don't act like men because I'm a manly man! There's nothing actually wrong, of course, with being gay! See, I can even joke about being "gay" in college! I'm down with the gays!

Well, call me crazy, but I see that type of behavior as stupid and douchebaggy instead of creepy.

The way I see it, "creepy" is defined as stupid/douchebaggy/socially awkward behavior + sexual intent. So that guy was pretty much the definition of a creep.

Fair enough. Maybe it's just me man, but I have a hard time finding sexual intent creepy, though I guess I could see how someone else would.....

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I mean, Xl, you're a cool dude, but you need to cool it on the hyper-liberal attacks on people [the same goes for the rest of you who ganged up on him ;_; ]

"Hyper-liberal attacks on people"? In plural? And I wasn't saying that he shouldn't react in any way to such behavior. I was, in fact, saying that there were less childish and immature ways to do so (but if he was a kid back then, I'd say it's somewhat justified), and even admitted that yes, the dude who teased him was acting like a douchebag about it.

He was being admonished for flipping out and being disgusted (the ugh) by a gay guy for simply flirting with him. The wiggling penis is too much obviously and the guy shouldn't have done it, but that being a reason to be scarred for life?

Also, this. All of it.

I'm perfectly okay with you Frog. I just can't bring myself to agree with you on this particular point.

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Crick wrote:

Years from now, no one will remember Gandhi. They will speak only of Fenriz.

Oh, I stopped following Gandhi's career since he left Gorgoroth.

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Yesterday was the birthday of school pal and I met the chick of my sigh (I've talked about here before, the she-wolf I use to be inlove with)... Maaan she was using a mini-skirt too damn insane... Dude you could saw her entire soul every time she sit...

I also agree with WaywardSon, I wasn't saying that what the gay dude did to Shouvince was ok (it wasn't and it was probably only to fuck with Vince), I was more admonishing his reaction, but he was a kid back then, so no biggie but still: " I don't know if it was his conscious attempt to flirt (ugh) with me but I played it cool coz I'm a nice guy like that. I tried not to offend him and talked back thinking that class would be over and I'd be out of there"

Yeah it's been pretty slow for me too but usually only when I'm on my phone not the pc. And yeah I've been getting those errors off and on too, all this since the crash though, so it's probably just some bugs that need working out.

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niix wrote:

'the reason your grandmother has all those plastic sheets on her furniture is because she is probably a squirter'

What's strange is that the biologist said that the phenomenon was normal. I wonder how the local Brazilians react to such things. Just another day I suppose...

Fuck you all. That's how.

I see.

Btw, I couldn't open MA till just now. Quite a stir my post caused. Hmm. Apologies to those who got offended or found it douchebaggy and for those who felt that that situation was weird enough to warrant me getting uncomfortable etc, thanks. No reason to take it too seriously and no I'm not "scarred for life" as someone put it. I did mention that I was being a bit dramatic.

What's with all the homophobic discussions all of a sudden! Did Halford nail Elton John?

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gomorro wrote:

Infact I use to have a relly hot friend from there but unfurtunetly the last party we have I was really wasted and grab her ass and it cause a huge problem. Her dad (that is a marine) wants to ripp my nuts... thinks are not the same...

Yeah, that works too. Iuvenes' Bathory-worship stuff (Sons of Mayhem, When Heroes Will Rise, Triumph of the Will) is insanely good. Unfortunately, their attempts at being Graveland-style epic really fall short.

Yeah, that works too. Iuvenes' Bathory-worship stuff (Sons of Mayhem, When Heroes Will Rise, Triumph of the Will) is insanely good. Unfortunately, their attempts at being Graveland-style epic really fall short.