My Thoughts and Feelings about using Magick to FORCE someone to love you.

Why do some of you feel the need to force someone to love you?

I was with my ex for 10 years and I have known him for many more. We may have broken up but we are the best of friends. I refused to do any magick to get him to come back to me. We were not meant to be together as lovers yet we are meant to be together as best friends. How is it?

My ex is my soul mate ask him and he will tell you the same. Now just because we are soul mates does NOT mean we have to be lovers. We both know we have to be in each others lives.

In all honesty I had a broken heart for a long time it took me almost 2 years to be able to move on without him. Please take my advice and give yourself time to heal your heart and soul. Please do not rush or force him to talk to you. I waited and he came to me on his own and I would not have had it any other way.

Then there are those of you that think it is all fine and dandy to do love spells that forcing someone to go against their own free will is no big deal. Think about this for a minute please.

Say things were turned around. Meaning you wanted nothing to do with your ex that you only wanted to move on with your life. Ok?

Then your ex thinks well I want you back and I do not care about what you want it is all about what I want. So this means it is perfectly ok for me (the ex) to do whatever I think I must. So I cast a spell on you to force you to come back to me. I make you go against what you and your heart truly want because I only care about what I want. Your now under my spell and there you will stay.

Now tell me How would you know for absolute certainty that the ex is with you because they truly love you or are being forced and blinded because you put your needs above theirs and used magick?

I sure hope I have not wasted my time by saying this. I honestly hope it helps you see how truly wrong it is to force anyone to fall in love with you using magick. Now that being said move on with your life and maybe try a spell like "Bring My Soul Mate Near" This will bring the right person to you and you will not be forcing anyone to go against their free will.

You can pay someone to cast for you, we have many such offers in our advertisement section, though I would not recommend such as I personally feel they are, for the most part, scams. You may also cast for yourself, though to have success you will have to work long and hard to become proficient in the craft. I will try to refrain from giving you a full blown lecture on the hypocrisy of freeing this woman from the guy who is "just using her" only to bind her against her will magically to you....at least she chose the other guy herself. How do you think she would feel if she were aware that you want to break up her current relationship with the man of her choosing and force her magically to be in one with you? Dont fool yourself that what you are feeling is love, and if it is you have a really poor way of expressing it. To you love must be selfish, inconsiderate and disrespectful, because your grand plan is all those things. Do as you will, but at least be honest about your motivations. Yours are greed and selfishness, dont try to rationalize it as "for her own good" and call it love. You want her, she is with another and you want to take her from him. Your motivations are selfish, and you are being inconsiderate of her wishes (she chose him, not you) and you have no respect for her decisions or free will.

You are being too selfish. This spell you want is not for her, its for you to get her. Don't you see that? Its not your place to break her up with her current bf so you can have her. Think of this: What if you did the spell, and she found out, would you think she'll be ok with it? I wouldn't. I would be furious! Then you would lose her anyway...