The Heart Wants What The Heart Wants

â€œIf I could read your mind, love,What a tale your thoughts could tell.Just like a paperback novel,The kind the drugstores sell.Then you reached the part where the heartaches come,The hero would be me.But heroes often fail,And you wonâ€™t read that book againBecause the endingâ€™s just too hard to take!â€
If You Could Read My Mind- Gordon Lightfoot

â€œI have lived on the lip
of insanity, wanting to know reasons,
knocking on a door. It opens.
I’ve been knocking from the inside.â€
â€• Rumi

Someone once told me that the heart wants what the heart wants. I donâ€™t know if that is a line from a book or a movie, it could be. Then again it might be one of those pithy statements that people come up with. Iâ€™d ask the person who told me but I can quite remember who said it. Hell, it might have even been
me.

The heart wants what the heart wants. You know what that means? It is a statement made by people who canâ€™t explain why they are in love with person xyz. It is what you say when there is no logical explanation for your actions. It is a catchphrase, a tagline, a slogan and a motto.

The heart wants what the heart wants. It reminds me of Shakespeare, â€œLife is a tale told by an idiot full of sound and fury signifying nothing.â€ Somewhere my high school English teacher Mrs. McDonnell is smiling. Little Jimmy actually remembered a line from Macbeth. See maâ€™am, I told you that I could hear just as well in sunglasses as without..

The heart wants what the heart wants. It is the kind of thing you hear people say when they are trying to explain why they are hung up on someone from their past. Or maybe it is what you say when you stop denying the love that is in front of you.

If love were rational, if it were based upon logic life would be easier. When I think about some of the things I have done because of love I want to scream. When I consider the self-inflicted misery I have endured I want to cry because it seems so very foolish. How could I waste so much energy on such a silly thing as a woman, a single woman. The world is filled with millions of women. It should be easy to replace her. It should be as simple as changing shoes, but it is not. It is not, it is not.

The heart wants what the heart wants. It does and mine has chosen someone that is far more special to me than all of the others. My lips remember hers. I can still feel her touch. The pillowcase has never been washed because I have this fantasy that I can still pull it close and smell her.

Sometimes I think that reincarnation must be real and that in a past life I must have stolen fire from the gods or committed some other heinous crime. Because there is no logical reason why I would be punished in this manner. I found the woman that completes me. I found the person that makes me whole and I let her go.

She would have stayed. She would have held my hand. She would have helped save my soul but I couldn’t say the words. I couldn’t make myself do it. Even though I knew it to be a simple thing. A brief plea for help and she wouldn’t have left me. I wouldn’t have been left to live in shadow and night. I could have been whole. Her love was enough to let me believe that I could have been something more.

But like I said, in that past life I did something. I earned the wrath of those who sit in judgment. Or maybe it is nothing like that. Maybe there is no reason why. Maybe this is all there is and happiness is based upon some sort of random something or other.

The heart wants what it wants and mine has betrayed me. In a different life it lay in a green garden beneath bright blue skies and now it is filled with weeds and fields of shattered stone and black night skies.

Once I might have hoped for salvation. Once I believed that I deserved better than this but now I understand that not to be so. Hades has issued his decree. I stand next to Sisyphus. Tantalus is my brother. Happiness is something that I can see but can’t reach.

Whoa man, do I relate to this! I waited patiently for the one I loved for ten years. Ten years. Basically, my entire twenties, when I should’ve been screwing around and having fun, I pined away for someone. I couldn’t shake him, no matter how many friends told me it was stupid to hang on to someone who clearly didn’t want to be with me.
Though I wasted those years, the heart wants what the heart wants. I didn’t want anyone else.
It still boggles my mind that we ended up married, his mind changed somewhere just as I was about to give up.
What I’m trying to say it, I understand.

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