Love & Sex 2013

Love & Sex
During passionate lovemaking, according to the Kama Sutra, “Animal sounds may also be used like those of the cuckoo, the parrot, the dove, the green pigeon, the flamingo, the sparrow, the goose or even the be...

Love & Sex 2013

Love & Sex
For this year’s Love & Sex issue, SFR considered hiring actual people to have sex with each other, but then realized that—bendy-arms or not—you can do so much more with dolls, for much less money and ...

Experiences with love and sex in the City Different

Love & Sex
This is surprising, in a way, because Santa Fe is the type of place where people can smoke pot under the bridge, and everyone who smells it just smiles and keeps walking. Maybe you can’t put a satellite dish ...

A determined bachelor welcomes fatherhood

Love & Sex
A year ago next month, my girlfriend of six years issued me the ultimatum—marriage and kids or a breakup. I chose the latter, telling her that, as much as I loved her, I couldn’t envision a life with childr...

Get your sweetheart something sweet

Love & Sex
In the Victorian era, flowers, and indeed much of life, symbolized something. With the right dictionary, one could read the flowers and colors of a bouquet like a book. OK, it’s a nice thought, but since ever...

How to get down in a small town

Love & Sex
Dating in a small town can be pretty miserable. Since I moved here from the East Coast six months ago, it’s been difficult to meet new people. But this doesn’t have to be a bad thing. Everybody knows everyb...