I FEEL LIKE I AM CHASING MY BF?

My boyfriend and I of 2 years had a big fight before he left for a 3 week work project in different state. We haven't talked up until a few days ago. I sent him a photo of how I bought his favorite drink, strawberries, cologne & I was constantly checking in to make sure he was ok... AND now that he is back (he came back this morning, and has been napping since...) he hasn't made a single effort to make any dinner plans for tonight. I feel like I am chasing him! Sure he is hurt, but so am I... What should I do if he doesn't get in touch tonight to make plans?