"... Maybe you would’ve been a terrible wife that disobeys her husband which can be the cause of the punishment of Allah. Maybe due to your patience for accepting this reality and being content with what Allah Has decreed for you, your rank will be raised in Paradise. Or maybe you would’ve been an awful husband, a wife beater or a terrible father. Remind yourself and others that one’s grave will not be any wider nor will their standing in front of Allah on the Day of Reckoning be any easier because of their marital status. It’s rather our diligence in guarding the boundaries of Allah and serving His religion that bring about true salvation. Scholars like Al-Nawawi and Ibn Taymiyah (May Allah Have Mercy on Them) were never married yet their legacy is with us today because of their services to Islam and Muslims.

We should therefore use our time wisely and strive to better the half of our deen that we actually have control over. Seek knowledge at every opportunity, learn the Quran even if it’s one verse a day, learn about our rich Islamic history and the great personalities that contributed to it, take up a new hobby, read beneficial books, travel, get involved in charity or dawah work , learn a new language etc. Have a fulfilling life before marriage for marriage is not just about being married, but also about how stimulating and blissful this bond should be. And if you’re happy single, you’ll be happier in marriage. But if you are miserable single, you’ll be just as miserable in marriage for another person doesn’t hold your happiness in their hands. And the Nikkah (marriage) contract does not come with magic potion! Asmaa bint Abi Bakr (May Allah Be Pleased with Her) eloquently expressed this when she said;

Finally, it’s very important to keep in mind that marriage is a beautiful sunnah that should be rejoiced and every Muslim should want to experience this blessing. However, if one doesn’t get married because he/she didn’t meet a compatible spouse or delays for valid reasons, there’s no blame on them. And if you die tomorrow single, Allah will not ask you why you weren’t married (for this was His decree) but rest assured that He will certainly ask you about your life and how conscious you were of the other half of your deen.

"The two feet of the son of Adam will not move from near his Lord on the Day of Judgement until he is asked about five (matters):- 1) about his life - how he spent it; 2) about his youth - how he took care of it; 3) about his wealth - how he earned it; 4) and where he spent it; 5) and about that which he acted upon from the knowledge that he acquired."

Marriage is something big, I mean, really big. It takes you to work with someone that, in a way,will determine whether you're going to Heaven or Hell. Plus, that someone is not the same as your gender. It's someone from the other side of the world. Different style of thinking, saying and whatever you want.

First thing first, the big question is not this marriage thingy.

It's about how do I spent my life?

How do I spent my youth?

How do I spent my money, my energy, my time?

and where do I spent it?

That's what I need to deal now.

Oh yeah, Ramadhan is coming soonnnn!! This is what we're waiting for!

So, how's your preparation for Ramadhan?

Get prepare, folks! Something big is coming!

When it comes to exam, we really get this nervousness and start cramming all the notes inside our brain that we can get imsonia out of it..so why not Ramadhan?

Thursday, 20 June 2013

Moga Allah teruskan kuatkan akak-akak. Both of you are really good at teaching me how to be a person or a daie with a big heart. To think big with a big scale. Moga Allah temukan kita kembali satu hari nanti biiznillah.

PARIS — A pregnant Muslim woman who was attacked for
wearing a facial veil on Thursday in the Paris suburb of Argenteuil suffered a
miscarriage and lost her baby, her lawyer said on Tuesday. Two men attacked the
21-year-old woman, trying to remove her head scarf and later cutting off her
hair, and reportedly shouted anti-Islamic taunts at her.

The woman, four months pregnant, had been kicked in
the stomach, her lawyer, Hosni Maati, told Agence France-Presse.

Kerna itulah, tidak ramai yang memilih jalan yang ini.

Kerna ianya terlalu asing.

Persoalannya, sudikah kita?

(Hamasah As-Syabab)

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As a women, I really feel for them. There's no one can protect us. Only Allah can protect us. This can be solved only when UA is happening.

What else are we waiting for? God, seriously this is killing me!

By hook or by crook, we gotta work hard for it. Yeah I know it's hard but can we just do something to curb this? Be patience, dear.

Alhamdulillah this really reflects that whatever I do I have to do for the sake of dnt. For the sake of wanting UA to happen. In simple words, I have to make sure what I do is helping dnt. Even marriage, of course!

That's it. Now, study utk dnt dulu please.

Tuesday, 18 June 2013

Alhamdulillah. Only Allah knows how happy I am when you guys did these. Alhamdulillah and thank you Allah for these beautiful people around me. Yet, because of You in the first place who takes care of me :')

Monday, 17 June 2013

I was honoured that on my birthday, there is a concrete help for the Syrians and FSA. It happened on my birthday. Actually, I was kinda sad before when my birthday is not selected as Syrian Day but Alhamdulillah Allah gave me a chance to feel that by this action from Egyptian government.

Saturday, 15 June 2013

Alhamdulillah Allah has given me a chance to live until this day. I am officially a grown up now I guess..haha. Whatever. Alhamdulillah till today, I still have loved ones besides me in every place that I go especially my family in my hometown.

I just want to celebrate my birthday by celebrating my parents so I write this for them.

Thank you very much mama and ayah for everything. Thank you for raising me up and thought and still teaching me how to be a good servant of Allah. From both of you, I get the chance to taste pure love that reminds me of how wide and beautiful Allah's love is. I know it's hard to raise a kid, I mean a human. D&T taught me that to 'build' a human is not easy. The fact that both of you had 'built' me since I was nothing really humbled me. I pray to Allah to pays all of your hardships with His Jannah.

Allahumma Amin!

Thank you Allah for giving me all these beautiful people in my life. Every single one of them really taught me something about life. May Allah repays all of the things that all of you done with His blessings, insyaAllah.

Can I ask a help from you?

Instead of wishing me "Happy Birthday", you can wish me by praying for my parents; May Allah gives them the true happiness here in this world and hereafter.

Please. Thanks very much, readers!

Well, I think that is all. Oh yah, one more thing..please pray that Allah gives me the best person as zauji..haha. This is totally awkward, man..but I already 22 and next year would be my third year. I cannot run from the fact that I'm a big girl now. hahaha.

Okay, ignore that part if you cannot relate.

Jazakumullahu khayr katsiran. May Allah bless all of you. Have a blast!