The Terri Schiavo case should have put to rest, I hope, any objections to paying attention to right wing stunt-stories that are flying through right wing media but not getting much mainstream attention. I’ve never been a fan of the “ignore it and they’ll go away” philosophy when it comes to these things. On the contrary, the fact that there are stories and theories known to pretty much everyone on the right but are rarely examined or even acknowledged by anyone else should trouble us. The urge is to ignore this stuff because it’s so clearly wrong/sadistic/morbid/stupid that you can’t take seriously the people who invest in it. Also, I think it’s painful to believe that your fellow Americans can be so incredibly mean-spirited, stupid, and nosy. (Certainly, an unwillingness to accept this has fed the mainstream tendency to ignore the anti-contraception beliefs of the anti-choice movement.) But millions of people are making their voting decisions based on these lies and myths. I do think increased media attention to birtherism and Glenn Beck’s ravings is helping wake everyone up to the fact that ignoring the right wing media and social media that flies under the radar of thinking people is just a poor idea.

With that disclaimer out of the way, I want to talk about a case that I doubt ignoring will make it go away: the baby Joseph situation. Kevin Keith has a rundown of the situation, and one of the most critical things to understand is most of the information coming out about it is coming through the anti-choice movement, and so it should be assumed up front that it’s full of lies, holes, and distortions. If you have questions about why anti-choicers lost the benefit of the doubt, please go do some reading and come back here. And remember in the Schiavo case that the right wingers painted Terri Schiavo as practically walking and talking, and it was only when the brain scans that showed how little brain she had left came out that it became clear how much they were lying about her condition.

So what’s going on is more a rough guess than anything else, but piecing together the right wing hysteria, the best guess is this: A bay in Canada was born with a disease that it seems likely put him in a vegetative state from birth on. As Keith explains, the odds are high that right wingers are downplaying the severity of this baby’s condition, but we don’t know the exact diagnosis. What we can be reasonably sure of is that baby Joseph is terminal, and the fight between his parents and the hospital is over whether or not to take him off the ventilator now or administer a tracheotomy and a home ventilator so that he can be taken home to undergo a much longer but just as certain death. As far as I can tell, once you peel away all the right wing hysterics, this is the crux of the fight. The right is painting the “die at home” side as “Save Baby Joseph”, but this is a lie. There is no saving baby Joseph. It’s all very sad, and worse, it seems this is the second child that this has happened to with these parents.

The problem is that Frank Pavone of Priests for Life—a truly wretched and ghoulish man who was practically dancing on Dr. George Tiller’s grave within hours of the announcement of his murder—has involved himself. (If the pedophilia scandals didn’t terminate any faith you have in the judgment of the leadership of the Catholic church, then spending some time with Pavone’s videos and writings should do it. That they gave this man a collar should indicate that they have no standards whatsoever when it comes to hiring people who are supposed to be ministering others.) Oh yeah, and so has Terri Schiavo’s brother. So we’re talking a three ring circus of lies and bullshit, and the people whose hard choices about their son are at stake are being swiftly reduced to pawns to use to score points.

And the people that are being scored on are, ultimately, Democrats. Even though Democrats have nothing to do with this. Not just because it’s a matter of a family versus a hospital bureaucracy (that may be in the right—read Keith’s post for more), but because this is happening in Canada. But for right wingers opposed to health care reform, Canada is a stand-in for Democrats. Bashing Canada is a way to bash Democrats. At least, it is when you’re talking about health care. Even though Democrats actually pushed for a system that preserves private health insurance, a high percentage of right wingers believe that we’ve got a Canadian-style single payer system coming down the pike. They also believe that this means that the government will be doing things like executing old people or retarded people in order to save money. That’s what the whole “death panels” thing was about. And so if they can find a story that “proves”—even through lies and distortion—that Canada is willing to kill babies that have a chance to live, they can score some points on the Democrats. That this is not what Canada is doing is beside the point. The truth never matters one bit. (What appears to be going on is that baby Joseph has been declared a futile situation, which is something that goes on in all sorts of medical settings, both private and public, and is more about medical ethics than funding sources.)

More advantages that blatant liars have

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Yesterday, I wrote a lengthy post debunking an almost-shockingly deception-thick article written by Kirsten Powers, and the reason is to show that this is what it, frankly, takes. Which is why lies get disseminated so far and are rarely checked in any way, because, as I estimated, it’s five times harder to actually check lies than to tell lies. (Which is why even egregious hacks like Powers make money in the lying business.) Which means it literally can’t be done, since most people in a position to check lies are busy with other work, and even as they’re busy fact-checking one lie, five more are being generated to take its place.But honestly, the time-effort gap may not even be the largest problem that those of us dedicated to reality-based politics face. What may be more disturbing is the increasing willingness of the mainstream media to entertain the lies of people who have been thoroughly demonstrated, through the painstaking and time-consuming work of truth-telling, to be pernicious liars who should never be trusted ever again. Like James O’Keefe. For what it’s worth, I thought paying attention to the ACORN videos without a thorough fact check was unforgivable. Maybe I could forgive some writers for it, but anyone who works in television knows for a fact that it’s easy to manipulate video, and could tell at 100 paces that these videos were not only manipulated, but not even that good at disguising their manipulations. (Distorted audio, weird cuts that indicate that something is being concealed, an unwillingness to show O’Keefe in the videos.) But okay, he got one pass based on the assumption of good faith.

But after it was demonstrated that O’Keefe had manipulated the ACORN videos beyond all recognition of what had actually happened? After investigations demonstrated that people in the videos were portrayed saying one thing, but often were saying the opposite? (Such as advice given to a woman to hide money from an abusive boyfriend/pimp was edited to suggest the advice was to hide money from the IRS.) And then it was discovered his compatriot Andrew Breitbart was willing to promote a video the purported to show Shirley Sherrod saying one thing, when she was, you guessed it, saying the exact opposite thing. Plus, O’Keefe’s arrests and his attempt to sexually harass and threaten, through implication, to assault a journalist, with the intention to tape the whole thing on the grounds that this would embarrass her. (Which really goes to show how distorted his worldview is, though I suppose with heavy editing to erase the man who is striking threatening poses in a woman’s direction, you could somehow make it about her, though how I don’t know.) After that, the only reasonable, rational thing to do is to take everything that O’Keefe produces, and put it in the trash without wasting your time. Whatever potentially “shocking” stuff on there is definitely going to be manipulated and dishonest.

We know this. This is not a mystery. There is no excuse any more.

Which is why I was shocked and appalled when the latest video trying to ding NPR came out, and people took it at face value, as if we didn’t know for a fact that it was deceptively edited. I saw people approach it with the assumption that it was mostly lies, but they figured they could somehow tease some relevant truth out of it, and judge it on that. This is especially true if you’re unwilling to watch all two hours of footage that O’Keefe got, which 99.9% of journalists are unwilling to do. (See: Lies, Time It Takes To Debunk Them.) Instead, people decided that Schiller said a couple of things that were inexcusable under any circumstances, and that was good enough for them. Never mind that the Sherrod example should teach us that context can literally mean that someone is saying “up” when, if you extracted just a fraction of their overall quote, it seems they are saying “down”.

O’Keefe has learned that he can come in, lie his fool head off, create damage, and when the accounting is done, it’s too late to fix all the damage he’s done. His is amply, and repeatedly rewarded for lying. Unsurprisingly, a few days after the NPR video came out and people were fired and all that jazz, a thorough accounting of the video demonstrates that it is stuffed with lies. Which anyone at this point could have told you, sight unseen, even people that bought into it. Lindsay did what almost no one else did, and watched all two hours of the taped con job.

If you watch the entire conversation, it becomes crystal clear that O’Keefe’s provocateurs didn’t get what they were looking for. They were ostensibly offering $5 million to NPR. Their goal is clearly to get Schiller and his colleague Betsy Liley to agree to slant coverage for cash. Again and again, they refuse, saying that NPR just wants to report the facts and be a nonpartisan voice of reason. Schiller pointedly informs the fake donors that NPR broke with some very generous Jewish benefactors who had supported NPR for over a decade because they tried to tell NPR that it “couldn’t have so much Palestinian coverage.”

“And we said, ‘sorry,’” Schiller says, “And we lost their funding, and it’s gone.”

During the ACORN days, O’Keefe actually tried to conceal the original videos, knowing that they proved he was a liar. Now he’s realized that being a known liar doesn’t actually make any difference. He doesn’t even perform a charade of being ashamed for being such a terrible liar. At this point, he releases a video, everyone knows up front that he’s a liar, and everyone will just pretend that he’s not for the 12-24 hours it takes for the video to ruin someone’s life. And he’ll basically gloat in public by releasing the full video, as if to say, “Hey, we all know I’m lying, but no one seems to give a flying fuck!”

This happens a lot, especially lately, when I write about right wing arguments and how to counter them, as I did this morning. Invariably, you get a form of nay-saying. “I’m not actually going to change his mind,” say the nay-sayers, “So why bother?” I don’t think most people nay-say to be pains in the ass or to feel superior, at least not in this case. I get that there’s burn out, totaly sick of signing daft petitions and following lost causes. I burn out a lot! I don’t argue with every fool thing I see someone say on Facebook. The idea of argument, in its Platonic form, is to get to The Truth, and to get everyone on the same page. In reality, people believe what they want to believe, and rationalize it. So, how can you “win” by taking away their rationalizations? We all know that when you do that, what usually happens is not someone saying, “You know, you’re right! I was wrong. I’ve completely changed my mind.” They usually keep trying to counter you, maybe try to get the last word in and think that counts as winning, or, if you completely decimate their argument, they sputter at you for being a meanie bear, or say something asinine like, “We’ll just have to agree to disagree.”*

1) Doing so for an audience of undecided people. As I noted in the comments, this can take many forms, and how you win the argument should depend on the form. For instance, if you’re forwarded an urban myth, it’s probably unwise to get into a values argument that involves hitting “Reply All”, because then people will just think you’re an asshole. However, you can hit “Reply All” and put in a link that explains the facts. If someone on the list isn’t really a fan or doesn’t know what to think of these forwards, this might actually push them into your camp. Other places were arguments for undecideds happen: Group situations, Twitter, Facebook, comment threads at blogs, etc. You don’t often know who’s listening. I’ve seen many people who were in a questioning mode learn from this.

2) Planting a seed. You may not change a mind right away by winning an argument, but if you can introduce enough cognitive dissonance, you can often get them to think a little more in the future. I’ve definitely seen complete about-faces on an issue months after someone lost the argument, and had to really think about it. I’ve also seen people moderate their views after losing an argument. Both are valuable. Cognitive dissonance is painful, but it fades over time, and in that time, coming around can and often does happen. Why do you think the polling has changed so much over the years on gay rights? Because people who were homophobic came around, bit by bit, a little at a time.

3) Getting someone off your back. This is not nothing. I know a lot of really incorrigible right wingers, and they get pleasure out of pushing the buttons of liberals. And they exploit the fact that liberals don’t want to argue with them, because liberals fall into this trap of thinking that it’s not worth it if you don’t get to a mind-changing event. But I have managed to get plenty of conservatives to back the fuck off me because I figured out that as much as I don’t like having my buttons pushed with bigoted or ignorant comments, they like even less being shown up in an argument. Reducing someone to sputtering is not fun for them, and will dramatically reduce the chances they’ll provoke you again.

A word of warning about this one: You have to be willing to see it to the bitter end. You can’t back out halfway, because they take that as a “win” and will come back for more. Either you go scorched earth and leave them with no arguments, or you don’t play. Upsetting liberals is something conservatives think is fun, and so unless they’re the one who is upset at the end of it, you will have lost even if your arguments were better. But if you really want someone off your back, this can be extremely effective.
4) Minimizing their influence on others. You may not have undecided people listening now, but there are potential undecideds in the future that your wingnut could influence with misinformation. And while you may not be able to change someone’s mind about underlying values, you can often be very effective in scaring them away from saying things that you demonstrated were not true. People repeat urban legends because it feels good to do so. If a particular urban legend, however, mostly reminds them of the time you made them look foolish, they’ll probably not repeat it. This reduces the chances they can, for lack of a better word, recruit with that particular story. You’re taking tools out of the toolbox.

You saw this happen with Mike Huckabee, a glib liar who is nonetheless interested in preserving his reputation that he enjoys as the Not So Bad Wingnut. Huckabee went into a conservative space, and let his hair down and indulged in a little birtherism, claiming that Obama was raised in Kenya. This got called out, and now he’s scrambling. Yes, he’s lying as he scrambles, but here’s what’s important: He is very unlikely to go there again. He got really burned on this one. You can replicate this effect on all sorts of wingnuts.

Are any of these sure things or silver bullets? I do feel there’s a tendency on the left to get sobby pants every time some one suggests a strategy that only works some of the time. Exceptions are brought up. The idea is pissed upon. Sure, shaming works in 50% of cases, but what about the other 50%?, we’re asked. Dream killing and circular firing squads are endemic on the left.

But here’s how I see it: 50% is better than nothing, and nothing is what you get if you don’t engage at all. Sure, there are some liars out there who will not be shamed, shut up, or budged. There are people who probably have psychological problems that make them impervious to caring about what anyone thinks of them, like Andrew Breitbart or Glenn Beck. But most conservatives aren’t monsters. (Those guys really are.) They are subject to the same concerns as everyone else: not looking like a fool, not being wrong all the time, not being considered a cheat and a liar. And these desires can be wielded by you for good.

Which is why I think that as tough and frustrating as it is, it’s critical to keep doing the day in and day out work of calling bullshit. It may keep coming, but I do think we’re at least limiting the quantities of it. If you disbelieve that, think of how angry someone like Bill O’Reilly gets when he’s called out for lying. If he was impervious, he wouldn’t care. Most conservatives are concerned that being called out limits their influence, and I think they are for a reason.

Obviously—well, I hope people read this and don’t argue as if I didn’t write it, but sigh—not every tactic applies to every situation, and not every situation is the same. Nor is it worth it to argue with every wingnutty thing you hear. Pick your battles. But these suggestions are just about giving a general idea of when taking this action could work and why. No one is saying don’t pick your battles. No one.

*As I noted in comments, if I’m committed to an argument and someone whips that out, in my mind, things are just warming up. “Agree to disagree” is an empty thing to say. What are you actually agreeing on? A lot of the time, what is being debated requires concrete action, usually in the form of choosing policy preferences and voting for candidates who will enact them. Agreeing to disagree is an effective emotional strategy when the thing being argued about is unknowable and not really that important, like if you remember someone’s eyes being blue but your spouse remembers them being green. But you can’t agree to disagree about policy, not really. Eventually, one policy will have to win out over another. You can’t agree to disagree if you’re being forced to live under a law that you don’t agree with. You don’t agree!

I get into this a lot with anti-choicers, who use “agree to disagree” when they lose arguments a lot. I never let them get away with this. I cannot agree to a ban on abortion. I already agree that someone who personally opposes it should have a right not to have one. The only acceptable “agree to disagree” policy is one where abortion is legal and easily accessible, and each woman decides for herself what she believes. But as they want to force their beliefs on me by law, no, we do not agree to disagree, and when they say that term, they are therefore lying. The term really only means, “I can’t win this argument, but I want the last word.” I fail to see why someone gets to have that. If you want to cause a conservative an aneurysm, don’t let them have this out. It’s fun, under the right circumstances.

Every year thousands of new bitcoins are mined and added to the market, but unlike other types of currency and valuables like gold, this digital alternative has a cap. As soon as their volume hits 21 million, that will spell and end on any further production. Experts have predicted that the day will come sometime in the year 2140, which might seem a long time away – but in reality the coins are already showing the signs of a slower production.

Why is this?

In order to sustain their value, bitcoins rely on their scarcity and although there will eventually be 21 million of them one day in the future – for now they are traded with in much the same way as gold and other precious metals. In fact, many experts have found themselves comparing the investment potential between gold and bitcoins.

Is Bitcoin a Good Investment Vs Gold?

As of March 2017, the average bitcoin is being traded for roughly £500. Unfortunately this digital currency doesn’t have a weight, so it isn’t always easy to compare the value to that of gold. What can be done however, is to work out how much gold could be purchased for (around £500) and then gauge whether it would be easier to get hold of than bitcoins.

Right now £500 could purchase one bitcoin on average, or just under 1kg of gold. What this means is that 10 kilograms of gold would cost roughly £5,000.

This would make 10 bitcoins equate to roughly 10kg of gold on average – making them pretty balanced as far as the numbers are concerned, but there is one important factor to consider. It can impact both types of resource; and it is depreciation. In simple terms, gold can vary in value depending on when it is purchased, or when it is sold.

Bitcoin Canada

As more and more gold is uncovered, the supply of it will be more readily available and the easier that something is to get hold of, the less competitive the market. The less competition is present, the lower the value of the particular resource – and as far as gold goes, this isn’t the most appealing prospect.

What it actually means is that in the future, gold could be far less valuable, so investing in it can be pretty tricky – unless things change and gold completely runs out. On the other hand the value of an individual bitcoin is actively increasing, as opposed to depreciating. This is because the digital coins are becoming less and less common and once they reach their limit, they will be at their most valuable; when supply will be at an all-time high.

Therefore, investing in these coins now can offer the potential for huge rewards in the future, with their value expected to almost double in just two decades.

Home Loans for People with Bad Credit

Credit scores are often overlooked until an individual wishes to apply for a loan and wants to gauge their eligibility. Unfortunately, even mistakes from a decade ago can come back to haunt a potential borrower. These events can often lead to what it commonly called a bad credit report – where banks will rate a potential borrower from 0 to 700. The higher the score, the more reliable the borrowing power and this can leave those with lesser scores struggling when applying for home loans.

Bad credit home loans

Fortunately there are still borrowing options out there for those that have low credit scores looking for bad credit home loans– although the availability of them will depend on several factors that banks will consider before lending money. Some of these options include:

Applying for a guarantor loan

A guarantor is an individual that can act to financially back an applicant with bad credit. By guaranteeing a loan, they will be accepting that, should the borrower be unable to meet their repayments, the bank will consider the guarantor to be liable to cover the costs associated with any repayments that are still due.

Working on a credit score

If someone realises early on that their credit history leaves a little to be desired, they might be in a position to dedicate several months (or even years) to improving their credit standing. A good way to do so is by taking out a small loan that doesn’t pose much risk and then meet the repayments steadily until it has been paid off. This might result in a minor loss from the interest repaid; but it can also act to boost a credit score simultaneously.

Seeking alternative finance

Although a home loan might be off the cards right now; some borrowers might find themselves in a position to take out other types of loans and financing options if they have a comfortable amount in savings to cover a deposit. Some banks might be willing to overlook a low credit score if the borrower can demonstrate that they’re willing to use a moderate to large sum of their own cash as a down payment.

These options might not be available to everyone with bad credit, but they can certainly be useful when attempting to receive a cash investment from a lender. Hiring a mortgage broker can be useful, as these financial specialists can often help to find cheaper home loans. With banks, there are situations whereby they can consider applications from those with poor credit scores – and knowing how to work around them can be very advantageous.

If you want to find out “How much can I borrow safely” then check out an online mortgage calculator which will factor your current income and expenditure.

There are a few kinds of drugs which are generally associated with parties, as they are often found at them. However, knowing what they are and their affects may help you to walk away from the dealer whilst having fun at a party.

The reason these substances are generally found at parties is because they can make you feel more active and energetic, or they may even cause you to see and hear more clearly, making the party experience even better. But, like most other drugs, many of them are addictive.

Ecstasy

Ecstasy (also known as MDMA, which stands for the chemical name of methylenedioxymethamphetamine) is probably one of the most famous of the party drugs, as it’s linked to dance music in the 80’s and 90’s. This drug is often abused by partiers to feel full of happiness, energy and the ability to dance even longer.

The effects of ecstasy generally last for anywhere between 3 to 6 hours, but it usually takes about half an hour to kick in.

LSD

Another famous party drug is LSD (which stands for lysergic acid diethylamide, its chemical name). LSD is a hallucinogenic drug and when a person abuses it, they will most likely see an altered version of the world around them. This includes seeing (and sometimes also hearing) things which aren’t really there. These experiences are hallucinations and can last for quite a long time.

These hallucinations are commonly known as trips and can either be good or bad. This can depend on how you feel at the time, who you’re with (and if you like them) and also what’s going on around you.

Cocaine

Cocaine is quite a popular drug – and although it isn’t necessarily a party drug, it is seen in and around areas where people socialise. Cocaine is one of the most addictive drugs; and it also has some deadly side effects. There are reports of multiple deaths linked to the use of cocaine, often from taking too much (overdosing).

When an addict has an overdose, it can raise the body’s temperature, cause a heart attack and even stop the heart from beating entirely. Also, abusing cocaine with other substances can increase the risk of experiencing side effects; especially as things like alcohol and cocaine mixed together can be very dangerous – producing a lethal chemical called cocaethylene within the body.

How to cope with dependency

Party drugs (aside from cocaine) are not usually associated with drug dependency and treatment, but you may feel that you are developing an addiction. In these cases, or in cases of concern for a loved one, rehab centres can cater to a range of specifications and needs for those who may want help. Contact your local healthcare provider about the types of rehab out there and ones that may be able to assist you in getting clean. Visit our Miami drug rehabilitation center if you have a problem with party drugs.

Making the Most of Your Gaming Set Up Using Your Smart TV and VCR

If there’s one thing that really separates the men from the boys, it’s how well their gaming set up works. It’s easy to keep things simple and settle for standard cables, basic hardware and bland accessories, but what about making a little bit of effort, so that your gaming experience is maximized? The greatest thing about it is that you won’t have to spend a ridiculous amount to get your set up performing to its maximum either! You can now easily fix up your HD TV, your gaming station, your computer and even your VCR.

Something that most people overlook is that technology is always changing. The cables that you used a few years ago might have been completely revamped recently. That’s never been truer than with HDMI cables. The great thing about an HDMI cable is that it’s all inclusive; it covers the audio and visual aspects, so you won’t have to put up with those flailing cables from your RGB set up. It’s not just the single cable that HDMIs boast; they excel at what they do.

They actually provide some of the fastest audio/ visual data transfer rates of any cable, if not the fastest. Combine that with the fact that the HD part of HDMI stands for high definition and you have a screen that’s displaying the latest graphics, exactly how they were intended to be viewed. Most modern consoles, televisions and computer screens are compatible with HDMI cables, so there’s really no excuse to avoid picking one of these bad boys up and enjoy the gaming enhancement.

If you’re really interested in making the most of your surround sound, what a lot of people ignore is that their surround sound system isn’t actually surrounding them. You might have a few speakers set up in front, behind and to your left and right, but you’re missing one of the most important places for sound to travel from; above!

Ceiling speakers won’t detract from your gaming experience – if anything, they’ll enhance it in a way that you’ll only appreciate from experiencing the real thing. If you’re playing one of the latest shooters, chances are that the sound of a grenade won’t stop just above your head. It will explode everywhere! So you can see why the idea of ceiling speakers is a good one.

If ceiling speakers aren’t for you then you still don’t need to lose out. Hifi speakers are a great way to get a bit of extra bass from your gaming experience, without taking up any more room than expected. The good thing about hifi speakers is that they’re compatible with all types of hardware, so you can plug them in to your PC, your console or even your television. Most hifi speakers also come with their own bass and treble controls, so you can find a setting that you like and then run with it.

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When buying a home construction set, most manufacturing agencies will work directly with their clients to ensure that the package will suit their needs in their entirety. Buying a kit can save hundreds of thousands of dollars; but as the pieces will need to be constructed in order to make the home functional, the time and effort required to complete the build can be quite substantial. When planning a kit home construction project, many buyers find themselves wondering how long the entire project could take.

Depending on the location within Australia, the waiting times for planning permission can contribute to the duration of the home construction project. There are several other factors to consider that may extend the duration of the project, so here’s a closer look at each of them.

Finding a suitable plot in Texas

In order for a home to be constructed, a suitable plot of land will need to be purchased. The size available will dictate the layout and shape of the home, so the buyer should definitely consider their wants and needs when thinking about the type of house that they will want to build. Fortunately, DIY home kits can be personalised from the ground up, so it can be possible to have a specific shape designed if the plot of land is especially awkward.

Laying the foundations

As simple as it might seem for a kit to be erected onto a plot of land and then utilised as soon as it’s ready; these builds are never advised. Seismic activity and even strong winds can take their toll on a property that doesn’t possess suitable foundations; and in extreme cases irreparable damage can occur. Although excessively strong natural disasters are unlikely within regions like Sydney, that’s not to say that all home owners shouldn’t take precautions. This is where having a block of concrete laid to be used as the foundation for the home can be beneficial.

Designing a home

With the plot purchased, the foundations laid and the space available for a construction, the final step is to complete the design of the home. This can be done manually by the home owner, or with the help of a manufacturing company. In general, the layout of the home should be decided first; including the position of rooms and facilities. Then a size should be assigned to each room (with a measurement in metre squares). Finally, the height of the home will need to be defined with a volume in metres cubed.

Overall, if the financial capabilities are present to take care of any land purchases, DIY packages and other transportation and set up fees; the total time to construct a home like this (including buying the land) can take up to 6 months. Less if the land is already available and the home owner can dedicate more time to the build; or more if the financial capabilities aren’t present and may require further investments.

When it comes to fighting the signs of ageing, most people are willing to do whatever it takes to enjoy a smooth, younger looking complexion. Some are happy to go under the knife, while others might prefer to use products and serums in a bid to look as young as possible. Of all of the technologies out there, one in particular seems to have experienced a rapid increase in popularity.

Wrinkle fillers offer a unique way to defy age lines and sagging skin – and you might have already come across the more well-known brands, without even realising. Have you heard of Juvederm? That’s a filler product. How about Captique, Restylane, or Botox? They are other ones! There are more than a dozen branded products that can be found online, in store and over the counter – but just how safe are they?

First things first

Before understanding how safe a product is, it’s a good idea to get to know how it works. In the majority of cases, if not all relating to branded products – these types of fillers are approved by the FDA, but are recommended for use by a trained and qualified expert. They work by injecting a carefully developed anti-ageing formula into parts of the skin (usually within the face), where the chemical composition will act to strengthen and stimulate muscle tissue.

The result will typically be a smoother looking complexion and one that features very few, if any, wrinkles. As long as the filler regime is kept up with, it will be possible to keep the signs of ageing at bay for months, if not years. This is how the majority of the fillers work, so now let’s move on to whether they are safe or not.

The concerns of using injectable fillers

One of the biggest concerns over using these types of injectable anti-ageing fillers, is that the chemicals that they consist of can sometimes have an adverse effect on human skin. Some people have been known to come up in rashes, while others can experience slight tingling sensations as the chemicals go to work within the dermal layers.

In the majority of cases however, this really is as bad as it gets. As the formulas are predominantly approved by the FDA, it’s fairly safe to assume that they are okay to use in general. The only real issues can arise if a particular product isn’t approved by the agency – or if a cheaper, lower quality alternative is being used instead.

To stay safe it’s a good idea to undergo a treatment at the hands of a fully qualified therapist, or a medical practitioner offering this type of service. Anything less than this can have unwanted side-effects – so no matter the appeal of the cost it’s always advisable to invest more into a reputable service, than one that could potentially be dangerous.

Google is widely regarded as the world’s largest search engine. In order to have achieved this status, the platform would have had to have undergone extensive growth and one of the main ways that it did so was by developing and introducing algorithms. These algorithms, such as the Hummingbird algorithm, are advanced pieces of software that can scan an entire website’s infrastructure in a matter of seconds, cross-reference this information and then gauge the relevance of a site and where it should be displayed within search results.

Outsource SEO

According to the SEO company Sydney Search Results whenever a new or existing website is scanned by an algorithm, the data will be collated and then organised based on what Google deems to be a priority. This is why certain websites display at the top of search results and others can be found within further pages. The higher the result, the more that Google sees the site as a priority.

Whenever a user searches for something in particular, Google will cross-reference the search in a matter of seconds and then present the most relevant results to the searcher. In order to ensure that these results are as relevant as possible, Google uses a crawler to scan and compare the on-page and off-page data, and this is where search engine optimisation comes into play.

How does the Google crawler work?

The crawler works by evaluating the data structure of any given websites and then cross-referencing this information with calculations and tools to gauge the position of search results. With SEO it can be possible to provide additional information to Google that can help to ensure that it sees a particular website as more of a priority.

With techniques such as backlink implementation, on-page content, off-page strategies and other methods, it can be possible to take full advantage of a Google algorithm for SEO purposes. As long as the techniques used are organic in nature and help to promote the reputation of a website in the eyes of a search engine, the risks can be fairly minimal – and even more so if a reliable expert is hired to take care of the technicalities.

Just a quick search for how search engine works step by step should provide further information on the exact activities of protocols such as Penguin and Hummingbird. By understanding these crawlers it can be possible to work within their confines and policies to minimise the risk that SEO techniques can have on a website’s performance.

What is Google Hummingbird and what is Penguin?

These are the names of two algorithms that Google released and both are still in action as of 2017. They each have their own responsibilities and include checking that a website is ranking naturally and without tampering – and this is why hiring an SEO expert can be so beneficial, as they will typically understand how best to adhere to the strict policies proposed by Google.

Many companies rely on digital facilities and equipment to operate on a daily basis and when these services go awry, it can often be quite challenging to get things back on track. As overlooked as IT support services are, more and more organisations are realising just how vital they can be when it comes to the maintenance of their internal systems; and that is why so many agencies are turning to IT experts for help when things go wrong.

If a network suffers with a fault, if a system breaks down, or if a particular facility becomes temporarily unusable – the results can often be catastrophic as far as a business is concerned. Being able to get in touch with an IT expert can help to get things back on track as quickly as possible. They will be able to advise and support those in need, to ensure that the matter is rectified and any risks of delays are reduced.

No need to call out the experts

Although IT services will typically offer call-out services as standard, many will prioritise their digital services to make it possible for clients to get in touch – wherever they are located. A good service provider will be able to offer guidance and assistance via the phone, email, or over voice over internet protocol services. This can reduce the cost of needing to call an expert out, without sacrificing the level of expertise needed to get things back on track.

A multitude of payment options

If a company prefers to keep their support close to hand, then it’s always an option to pay a monthly fee in return for a consistent report. There are other methods that allow companies to employ the services of IT professionals on an as-needed basis, too. Fortunately, service providers are usually happy to extend various options to their clients; whether they are needed for a longer period of time, or temporarily to help with an emergency event that may have arisen.

Expertise that won’t be found anywhere else

IT specialists are experts in the internet and telecommunications fields and as a result, they will be able to address matters of varying severities as efficiently as possible. Where network and system users might be proficient in particular activities, it’s unlikely that they will have a superior level of understanding in the same way as an IT consultant might. This means that even the most extreme of issues relating to computers and networks will be manageable by an IT expert – and they will soon be able to get any system back in functional order without delay, or risking further damage that might arise when undertaken by someone without the proper experience.

Social media platforms such as Facebook and Twitter may have been initially intended to help individuals interact with one another, but after realising the potential to turn a pretty profit from business clients, the majority of these services have now modified their features to incorporate commercial activities.

Nowadays, millions of businesses rely on these platforms to market to their clients, to promote their services and to develop a greater following – but as with most marketing attempts, there can be good results and bad ones. The reputation of a company on social media can play a huge role in its success and knowing how to keep on top of it can make a lot of difference.

How to manage your reputation on social media websites

Fortunately, most social media websites make it easy to control the types of engagement that can be practiced by visitors and audiences. For instance, if a business is suffering with a particular user’s unsavoury comments then they can simply block that individual from their company page. They can also restrict comments being made in the first place, or even add a filter to block particular terms.

As you might imagine this can be somewhat time consuming and it’s one of the reasons why many online organisations turn to reputation repair specialists. These experts will typically have a firm understanding of social media websites and their features – and after an initial evaluation process, most will be able to implement measures to restrict the causes of a reputation damage.

Are there other features available for controlling a reputation?

Some websites allow their users to apply filters to their pages that can completely restrict keywords being mentioned. Others let admin monitor comments before approving them. Although a business will undoubtedly want to maximise its reach by lifting as many restrictions as possible there are some activities that can do more harm than good – and this is where control measures come in handy.

These measures can be fairly technical by nature however, so it may be a better option to leave the processes to a professional reputation management company like MyReputationRepair.com.au. Although an abusive user or a competing business may always try to find fresh ways to target your products, services, or brand in general – by keeping on top of the latest features afforded by social media, it can be quite simple to block any negative efforts.

And just in case the toll has already been taken, rather than leaving it to worsen, getting on top of it and introducing features to stop any further damage from taking place can be a priority. When hiring a reputation specialist, the sooner that they can get started, the quicker reparations can be made – and this can make a world of difference to your companies’ online presence. For more information on Social Media Marketing visit Avant8.

Cold Steel Piercing in Cairns will not serve Israelis – is this kind of discrimination actually legal in australia?

Yesterday I had a shocking experience and I couldn’t help but sharing… I was so overwhelmed that it took me nearly two days to write but I think it’s important people should know…

Travelling around Australia my friend and I thought it would be cool to have our nose pierced together, so we heard about a good place nearby and went their excited for our new jowl. After 10 minutes of waiting anxiously for the guy to get off the phone, we came up to him and asked him how much would it cost. The guy looked kind off confused and asked us where do we come from? Israel.

At that moment that guy said he can’t pierce our nose because he doesn’t serve Israelis out of principal. He said he doesn’t agree with what our government does and therefore we are not welcomed in his shop.

Principal? You can’t descriminate people out of principal. He even pointed out a sign that we missed saying “No Israelis served here”.

A sign that means “I don’t want to listen, I don’t care who you are but if you are from Israel go away”. That’s sugarcoating antisemitism. That’s sugarcoating racism.

I remember learning about such things in history class but I never thought I would be in such a situation myself. Not alone at the other end of the world in the land of “no worries”.

By the way, when we left the shop he told us “no worries”. Well I didn’t, before I met you.

Whether you know of someone that is suffering, or if you are currently facing an alcoholic addiction yourself – you might be surprised to hear that the problem is actually a lot more common than many people realise. The thing about drug and alcoholism treatment centres is that although they seem pretty focused on helping their patients to recover; even they understand that no two cases are the same. Alcoholism might have one effect on a particular person, and a completely different one on somebody else.

But what is alcoholism addiction exactly and what unique factors that contribute to it make it different from addict to addict?

Well, it all comes down to the person’s physiological and mental status – as well as their tendency to cope with particular issues that can arise as a result of alcohol abuse. If there’s one thing that can be said about alcohol it’s that when consumed excessively, it can begin to take a toll on the human body – but with different levels of tolerance, as well as varying thresholds between people, it’s no wonder that some consequences take a while to surface, while others can go completely unnoticed. Help is needed and you can help by signing our drug and alcoholism rehab funding petition here.

It’s all in the situation

Imagine for a moment that two people are currently undergoing addiction recovery courtesy of alcohol, or drug rehab clinics. Envision that both people are forty years of age and have been consuming the same type of alcohol every day for five years. One of them may have started to drink to deal with grief, while the other may have simply enjoyed the feeling and developed a habit.

Would it be safe to assume that both individuals would be showing the same signs and symptoms of alcoholism? In the majority of instances the answer would be no, but why is this?

If the first patient had previously suffered with illness, if they possessed a weak immune system, or if they have a history of mental disorders running through their family, then their alcohol abuse may be affecting them in a completely different way than the other sufferer. If the latter person was an athlete previously, with a history of fine health and a great mental capacity, then the alcohol might take a little longer to affect their body and mind – so the first patient might appear frail and unwell, whereas the second might show no outward signs of struggle whatsoever.

And this is why a good clinic will approach every single one of their recovery courses with a unique and tailored approach. Anything less than this could have the same consequences that a person with the flu would face if they were given jelly-beans to treat their temporary illness; no results whatsoever. The more tailored the experience, the more likely the patient will be to recover from their addiction and this is something that rehab centres and medical experts swear by. See a TED lecture here on alcoholism addiction and treatment types

How Qualified Does a Beauty Therapist Need to Be to Work Professionally?

Within the United States, beauty therapists are graded based on their level of education and their expertise. This is referred to as the NVQ system within certain parts of the world, although most practitioners can receive similar qualifications depending on their region. In order to become a professional, a trainee therapist will first need to attend any number of beauty schools and specialise in a particular subject.

Although uncommon, as most specialists will go on to obtain higher levels of education; it can be possible to offer services in a professional environment as soon as a level one certificate has been obtained. These types of courses are often fairly basic in nature, so most therapists will use them as a way to enter higher levels of training – or go on to apply for work with a beauty salon.

Obtaining certification

The only way to obtain certification is by attending a beauty training school. Although salons can offer experience and training to some extent; in order to be recognised nationally as a professional service provider, a student will need to complete a professional level of education. The courses can vary depending on the curriculum and specialty, but in the majority of cases levels can be broken down as follows:

Entry level courses often last for a year and can teach the vital skills that a beauty therapist will need in order to progress in their career

Level two and three courses are more advanced in nature and by level three, a therapist can go on to specialise in a particular range of therapies; including laser treatments, massage, facials and even Botox injections

At level four, the therapist will be considered one of the most highly educated practitioners in their field, with less than 30% of all American beauty therapists possessing this qualification

Once level four has been obtained a therapist may go on to sign up for a diploma, which can result in them becoming some of the most highly sought after specialists in the country

There are short courses available that can often allow a therapist to better their understanding relating to a particular subject or two – but these qualifications are considered targeted and won’t often guarantee employment with a professional salon. At the very minimum, a therapist should possess a level one certificate in order to work within a professional environment.

If they want to specialise in a particular subject, then short courses can be taken if a higher education isn’t preferred – but with more career opportunities opening up depending on the level of qualification, it’s commonplace for a therapist to pursue a greater level of qualification from the offset.

An HR consultant is an individual, or a group of individuals, that are tasked with consulting businesses relating to their management and organisation of their employees. These employees are governed by human resource policies; a set of legislations that can be personalised by a company in a way that can maximise productivity, enhance the way in which members of staff are managed and assigned tasks, and handle financial data relating to payments and their frequencies.

The majority of HR (human resource) consultants will find their responsibilities being categorised into one of two subjects. Further information on these categories will be provided below.

Expert Resource Consultation

In instances where a business may wish to maximise its productivity, it may choose to employ an expert resource consultant to aid in the evaluation of specific processes and their functions. For example, a company will undoubtedly rely on its resources and features in order to operate. If these features aren’t being utilised to their fullest extent, then the agency might find themselves failing to take full advantage of the processes that have been afforded to them.

By hiring an HR consultant to evaluate these expert resources, it will become a possibility to recognise any potential discrepancies and then implement measures to rectify the situation, or enhance the level of productivity within any given activity. Furthermore, once these processes have been improved, the consultant could provide further resource expertise to replace outdated protocols within a business – in favour of implementing newer techniques that may be more effective.

This means that if a company is failing to meet its target quota for the amount of bottles that it produces for example, then a consultant may be able to suggest ways to rectify the situation and take full advantage of all resources available; including putting them to better use

Personnel Consultation

Many businesses considering hiring HR consultants to help them to manage their members of staff, and even their management. Depending on the size of the company in question, they could stand to benefit by shuffling particular departments around to ensure maximum productivity, or by evaluating the performance of particular employees and developing ways to put their skills to better use.

In the majority of cases, an HR consultant will strive to enhance the way in which a business is able to operate from the ground up. This means that they will typically evaluate the performance of a department one phase at a time, before developing a strategy on how best to maximise productivity. This model can then be applied to all sectors of a business, allowing a company owner to minimise their expenses by ensuring that their employees are being dedicated to the best roles.

It’s not just the ability to dedicate employees to particular activities that human resource consultants specialise in; it’s also their ability to reformat a business so that it is as productive as possible, whilst overseeing the day to day activities of employees and staff in general.

Talk Back, Ignore or get out the stun guns?

Back from Netroots Nation, and while I’m still a little tired, I’m energized as usual after the conference. As many of you no doubt know, the pathetic shadow conference Right Online was closer than ever this year. And by “pathetic shadow conference”, I mean it. Every year, Right Online finds out where Netroots Nation is and schedules near there, because there’s something about being conservative that requires being childish and petulant. This year, it was especially ugly, because the Right Online was closer than ever to Netroots Nation, and they were in fact in the Hilton that many of us—including myself—were staying at. Which means that the childish, petulant behavior kept spilling over. And also that I ran into Andrew Breitbart downtown and took a picture of him standing with a friend (with his permission, of course!). Breitbart showed up at Netroots Nation, which is irritating because while the vast majority of attendees react to such behavior the way you should—with scorn bordering on indifference—a handful of people got provoked and taped themselves yelling stupid shit at him. Which is what he no doubt hoped would happen, and leave media with the assumption that “both sides” are bad, even though only one side schedules an entire conference for the sole purpose of irritating their opponents.

False equivalence is particularly a problem when you consider that the one incident that everyone heard about was a Right Online attendee harassing some Netroots attendees. The main victim of the harassment told her story in a panel about fighting Islamaphobia (which was, by the way, a great panel that I learned a lot from). She was wearing a hijab while standing outside a bar that was having a Netroots event, talking to some friends, and at least one of her friends was also wearing a hijab, and some dude from a shitty right wing blog rolled up and started to harass her and her friend. When they told him to kindly fuck off, he started taking their pictures (at times like these don’t you wish you had some stun guns to deal with the situation?!>). (For what purpose, I’m not sure—he seemed to be under the impression that someone could use the photos as some sort of expose of Netroots Nation, or maybe he thought the police would somehow stop free Americans from wearing what they like as they stand around on the streets of Minneapolis.) At this point, a number of people at the party came to the women’s defense, and he was arrested. Marc and I walked up to the club right as the man was being shoved into a cop car, and I said something about it, since something about the situation seemed like it was more than a drunk-asshole-getting-arrested situation. Indeed, it was. And of course, someone got video of much of the confrontation between the man who was harassing the women and the Netroots folks who pushed back. You can see the confrontation (with my Texas buddy Matt Glazer!) starting at 4:30.

Here is a first person account. Here’s the harasser’s online profile, and here is his arrest record.

I want to highlight that the guy in question is threatening to call Andrew Breitbart, which again I don’t completely understand. Does he think Breitbart has some legal authority to stop people from standing in the streets wearing clothing items he disapproves of? I suppose I can see how you’d get confused, since all this happened the day Anthony Weiner resigned. But it’s unsettling to see how at least one of Breitbart’s fans imbues the man with nearly god-like powers. I’m inclined to think the guy is bluffing, by the way, and was just hoping the threat of calling the Breitbart cops who would make the women pay for wearing hijabs would make them, I don’t know, stop or something.

Anyway, the incident was understandably upsetting, and some people reacted by organizing a flash mob at the Hilton. I stood on the second floor and watched it; it was mainly a bunch of people milling around, many in hijabs. But it worked as intended, getting coverage for the incident and giving the protestors a chance to explain their point of view:

Jesse and I got in the elevator with some protestors after the incident and spoke briefly to them; they were excited and a little scared about everything that happened, but felt like they had made their point.

Of course, you can predict the right wing reaction, considering that what happened was a woman claiming a man harassed her: immediately hide behind claims that women are liars and not to be believed. John Hawkins of Right Wing News went straight to that strategy. Believe it or not, I was one of the liberal bloggers he was talking to, as was Jesse. I don’t recall if I explained to him that I had seen the guy getting arrested, but you know, if he was so skeptical, he could have asked if we knew anything. By the way, the characterization of Netroots as “90-95% white” is really laughable from someone who was there with Right Online, since when we were talking to him the entire conference was moving from one location to another. But I wouldn’t characterize them as 90-95% white, since that figure is way too low.

Hopefully, the right wingers won’t be as close next year. While it did provide from some really amusing encounters (liberals are apparently very frightening to ride elevators with!), it’s also scary, since there is the unhinged element of conservative activists, and a willingness to make casual death threats, as Melissa Clouthier did on Twitter, when she said, “Bunch of #nn11 folks in the elevator called me the enemy. I reminded that folks on the right pack heat. #ro11.”

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HPV, the public health, and sexual choices

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So, Mary Elizabeth Williams has called me hysterical and claimed I’m ruining feminism with my supposed irrationality because, on Twitter, I criticized a piece she wrote about her pediatrician accidentally giving her daughter the first dose of HPV instead of the scheduled meningitis shot. When a cascade of people attacked me, I defended my point of view, both that the heavy drama surrounding this was unnecessary and, far more importantly, that Williams’ choice to treat the HPV shot as somehow separate and more fraught than every other vaccine fed a very dangerous narrative about this vaccine, and she should have been more responsible. Her response minimized and distorted her original piece, and overplayed my reaction, in my opinion. But let’s take my objections one at a time, for clarity’s sake.

Objection #1: Dramatics

This one’s on me. I accused Williams of being overdramatic by turning a minor mistake into a big deal that upset her daughter so much that she was, in Williams’ words “scared and sobbing and, on a very primal level, angry and betrayed.” Even though Williams swears she was calm and acknowledges mistakes happen, she describes wanting to “throttle” the nurse, and claimed her daughter was “robbed” not just of a childhood so far free of minor medical errors, but of her right to make choices about her own sexuality.

I was raised in a “suck it up” culture, and my first inclination in situations like this would be to remember that medical errors are incredibly common, and be grateful that when my number came up, the worst thing that would happen to me is that I have a significantly reduced chance of dying of cervical cancer. But I fully admit this is a personal choice. There are good and bad sides to the chilled-out approach and good and bad sides to making a big deal out of stuff. My irritation at the dramatics was unfair; I should apply the “suck it up” mentality to other people’s dramatics and say, “No big deal. That’s just how they are.”

Objection #2: Toxic narratives about the HPV vaccine

In fact, sucking it up when someone else’s dramatics irritate me is usually what I do, with a side dose of reminding myself that dramatic people often stand up against everyday injustices to the betterment of us all. But the reason this pissed me off was that Williams juiced up her story by invoking a toxic narrative about the HPV vaccine, that it’s the “sex shot” and therefore is unique amongst all other vaccinations, requiring a lot of hand-wringing about personal choice. My problem with this narrative is that it feeds the notion that sexual health is separate from other kinds of health, and that continues the politicization of it and feeds right wing narratives that sexual health care is morally corrupt in a way that other health care isn’t.

I think that responsible journalists should not add to the pile. STIs are not different than other diseases; the only difference is political, not biological. HPV in particular is ridiculous to politicize, since it’s so common that it’s wise to treat getting it as an inevitability if you don’t get the vaccination. Indeed, the most important difference between the HPV vaccination and other vaccination isn’t the sex stuff, but the fact that you probably get more individual protection from the HPV vaccination. Most people have measles and whooping cough vaccines, offering the unvaccinated herd immunity. But with the HPV vaccine, there’s only 11% compliance, meaning that your unvaccinated kid’s chance of getting HPV as an adult should still be treated as an inevitability. Sadly, we’ll be seeing 4,000 deaths and 12,000 cases of cervical cancer a year for some time yet.

If you read that link, you’ll see that there are many reasons for the low vaccination rate, including cost and ignorance. However, the perception that this is the “sex shot” has a lot to do with it. The belief that getitng the vaccination has some sort of sexual implications for your child makes people uncomfortable and unwilling to engage; Williams added to the pile by using the sex aspects of the shot to turn up the interest in her story.

This particular criticism stung, I’m guessing, since Williams objected to it on Twitter and engaged in a little retcon about the sex stuff, claiming that this is solely about the fact that the HPV vaccine is “optional”. She minimized the way that she treated the HPV vaccine as somehow fundamentally different than other vaccines, and in her follow-up piece, continued to minimize and imply that she treats all “optional” medical decisions as belonging to an 11-year-old and not her parents.

But that is not how the original story read. Let’s start with Williams’ attitude towards vaccinations that prevent non-sexual infections.

Meanwhile, she still needs to get that meningitis shot, and I’m going to make damn sure that’s the shot she gets.

Light, fluffy, no big deal, right? Vaccinations are something responsible parents make “damn sure” that their kids get, because responsible parents understand not just the importance of preventive health care, but also that their kids are members of a large community and owe it to that community to do their part in providing herd immunity. You, as a responsible parent, would never consider skipping the MMR or the meningitis shot, because duh, vaccinations are a private and public good.

Interestingly, this common sense approach was in the same paragraph as this language about the HPV vaccination:

While my daughter and I are not ruling out changing pediatricians, she has decided to proceed with the course of vaccination. She didn’t come to it lightly; she slept on it and shyly told me her wishes the next day. She is a serious girl, and treated this is a serious choice.

I’m sure Williams was completely consistent and also had her daughter sleep on the serious decision of whether or not to take her chances with meningitis.

Williams’ claim was that she treated these shots differently because the HPV vaccine is optional and meningitis is not. On Twitter I pointed out that the HPV vaccine should be mandatory, and the only reason it’s not is sex hysteria. When things aren’t mandated because of political bullshit, but should be mandated, it’s different than something that can be considered truly optional. When I was a kid, it was legal to ride in a car without a seatbelt, but my parents didn’t believe it was optional in our house, because they believed it should be the law. I imagine if conservatives get their way and public schooling stops being mandatory, Williams would also keep sending her kids to school.

In a sense, all this is irrelevant, because in the original story, the fact that HPV is the “sex shot” loomed large as to why it had to be a big deal. A telling quote:

And though I believe in the logic of getting the HPV vaccine, I have also long felt strongly that any decision involving their future sexual lives should be theirs to make.

That’s the major problem. The choice of whether or not to get HPV as an adult is more about your future health than your future sex life. (And that’s setting aside the logic of giving an 11-year-old the right to decide for her 20-year-old self whether or not to invite the possibility genital warts, cervical scrapings, infertility and even cancer into her life.) Government officials and drug developers designed and regulated the vaccine to minimize the psychological association between the shot and having sex. Part of that is scheduling the first vaccination years before the average girl starts having sex, in part to get complete coverage, but also so that it’s not fraught like the conversation of whether or not to put a girl on birth control. You just start getting the shots at 12; if you have sex at 14 or 21, it doesn’t matter. The choice to have sex and choice not to get HPV are decoupled. And this is how it should be, since virginity is politically loaded, but that women shouldn’t die or lose their fertility to cervical cancer should be completely apolitical.

To be fair, I don’t know if Williams treats all vaccinations with this gravity. As I noted, perhaps her daughter was also expected to sleep on the decision of getting the meningitis shot, in order to make sure she knows that she could always have the option not to spend time around people who are sneezing or wiping their mouths. Perhaps the tetanus shot was only administered after her daughter spent a day thinking about her future life around rusty metal and biting insects; after all, we don’t want to presume for her that she wouldn’t consider simply avoiding the easily identifiable situations where you can get tetanus (rusty objects, hiking, tubing, outdoor barbeques).

To be clear, the emphasis on the “sex” aspect of the shot was heavy in this story. It wasn’t just the one strange sentence about her future sex life.

And then I’d had to, with all the calm I could muster, have a lengthy conversation about how the doctor had made a mistake, but it was OK, and everything was fine, and now we were going to talk about sexually transmitted diseases.

My daughters know the facts of life. They know where babies come from, and how people can get AIDS. Often, their knowledge hasn’t come from carefully planned birds-and-bees heart-to-hearts but from spontaneous opportunities — a confusing scene in a movie, a rumor a kid spread on the playground. Life does not always keep children in a bubble until both you and they are at your optimum moment of emotional preparedness. Stuff happens, and being a parent means being there to talk about it. It wasn’t the conversation I minded having. It was the harrowing realization of how easily a sloppy mistake, from someone we trusted implicitly, could have meant something far more serious than what we’d just experienced. It was being robbed of choice. Not mine. Hers.

Look, I get that talking about sex with kids is a big deal. I really do. I’m 100% sure Williams is responsible and tries to be natural about this stuff. I think the HPV vaccine is just as good a time as any to have this discussion.

But this isn’t about child-rearing practices. This is about responsible journalism about important public health issues. Williams did more than link sex and this shot with her daughter—which again, I can see arguments for it—but she reinforced the link the public mind. That’s another ball of wax. When discussing the HPV vaccine, we have two frames to work with: “sexual choices” or “routine health care”. The first is a loaded frame that allows right wing narratives about choice to seep in. If you’re working with the “sexual choices” framework, it’s easy for people to say that X isn’t really health care, because the proper choice is to abstain from sex, and there should be consequences for those who make the “wrong” choice. In fact, as I pointed out over and over again on Twitter, the fact that the vaccine is characterized as a sexual choice is a major reason it’s not mandatory. People are looking at it with the same nervous eye that they look at putting their kids on birth control with. The sexual choice frame allows people to think that withholding the shot signals sexual values.

I prefer the “routine health care” frame, which is incidentally the typical frame used in handling the effects of how widespread HPV is. When you get a Pap smear, for instance, it’s not really treated like a matter of sexual choice-making, but more like getting your oil changed, just part of being female. Once you characterize a form of health care as being about sexual choice-making, you start to have people not get the routine care they should, because they perceive that care as being something that’s only necessary if you’re a “slut”. Which is, incidentally, a big reason that a lot of women lose their fertility to chlamydia, because they don’t get care in a timely fashion due to unwillingness to believe STDs can happen to good girls like themselves.

And that is, above all other things, my main concern. Whatever private decision-making looks like in the Williams’ household is certainly not my business. But once you write something and publish it, it’s a matter of public concern. Endorsing the “sexual choices” frame of HPV over the “routine health care” frame is a highly political choice. You personally may not weigh one sexual choice more heavily than another, but that’s simply not true of most of the public, where the belief that women should avoid “sluttiness” is still the strongly-held majority opinion, as is the belief that STDs are indicative of immoral sexual choice-making.

In addition, in both of Williams’ pieces, she didn’t do a scrap of reporting on the actual safety and efficacy of the vaccination, just noting that there are “pros and cons”, without noting something important, such as the pros way outweighing the cons (with the cons mainly being it’s expensive and it hurts to get a shot). She mentions that she’s been “following” its evolution, but doesn’t mention that both the FDA and the CDC report that the vaccine is very safe, and that the only verifiable side effects of the vaccine are common to all vaccines—basically a reaction to getting a shot, like when squeamish adolescents faint in the doctor’s office. She didn’t note the widespread medical opinion that vaccinations are very safe, and in fact, invoked negative reactions to penicillin, as if the two were comparable, even though in terms of risk, penicillin is much more dangerous than vaccines. If we care about the health of the next generation, we should be more thoughtful than this. While most people who get HPV are fine and the infection clears up on its own, there are enough adverse effects that we shouldn’t be cavalier about this: 4,000 deaths a year from cervical cancer, 12,000 cases of cervical cancer. And that’s on top of all the various miseries women have to endure so they don’t become a statistic, including having to endure cervical biopsies and having cervical scrapings of pre-cancerous cells. Incidentally, those scrapings sometimes also cause infertility in cases where aggressive treatment to prevent cancer is the only real option. A woman who has to choose between not getting cancer and not having babies in the future is someone whose choice has truly been robbed from her—and all because she didn’t get to have the HPV vaccine when she was a kid as part of her routine medical care.

It’s been a couple of months at least since I’ve read a book that was so much fun that I resent any interruption from life, work, or sleep that requires me to put it down. But this weekend, I tore into just such a book: Reading Women: How the Great Books of Feminism Changed My Life. The book is billed largely as a memoir, but don’t let that fool you. It’s got great touches about the personal life of the author, and why she wanted to return to the feminist texts that she had left behind in college now that she’s a married mother and a freelancer whose life at home makes her often relate a little too much to the housewives that Betty Friedan interviewed for The Feminine Mystique. But what really makes it fun is to read someone reading so many great books, and really engaging the ideas. The personal stuff just adds color to the intellectual stuff. After all, for feminists, the personal is political, and Staal does a great job of relating fights with her partner over housework and struggles to balance motherhood with career to the text she’s reading while she audits a course called “Feminist Texts” at Barnard that she took when she was an undergraduate.

It’s also fun to read someone engage these texts with a sympathetic view towards the women who wrote them. I think, all too often, it’s easy to slip into the “criticize all the time” mode, and not take the time to praise, expand upon, or engage positively alongside our criticisms. This is particularly true in feminism, where a lot of discourse around feminist thinkers is about nipping at their weaknesses over discussing their strengths. It’s nice to revisit the strengths and insights of famous feminist writers, even as some of their ideas fall out of fashion or are legitimately disproved. This doesn’t mean being a Pollyanna and never seeing the flaws in someone’s work. But it was nice reading Staal engage with nuance these writers, and touch on what she really gets out of them even if something else in their writing doesn’t work. I particularly was engaged in her defense of Shulamith Firestone, who has some ideas that are really quite wacky in retrospect, but as Staal notes, her anger is invigorating. Indeed, the anger of the second wave is something that gets pissed on a lot, but it was absolutely necessary.

So, with that in mind—and a just general desire for positivity on what is a rather gray day—I thought I’d toss out this discussion question. I asked it of Staal when I interviewed her today, though you’ll have to wait for the podcast to find out her answer. What famous feminist, dead or alive, would you want to have a beer with? Not, who do you think is perfect and has no flaws or downsides to her thinking, or who would you want to confront. Who would you enjoy a conversation with? Whose brain would you want to pick, and have a friendly conversation where ideas are being teased out and exchanged? Who would you think it’s fun to banter with?

Me, I think my answer is pretty obvious: Simone de Beauvoir. Again, this isn’t me saying she’s perfect, but it’s also not me saying that I’d want to drill in and attack her for what I perceive to be the flaws in her thinking. I just think she had some amazing, provocative ideas and I’d love to ask her some questions and offer my thoughts. She also seems in general like she’s my kind of lady, with a whiff of peevishness to her, which often indicates that a woman has a spine. I appreciate that. I also like what Staal was surprised, in the book, to find that the professor attacks de Beauvoir for, which is the way she makes feminism an intellectual enterprise, instead of forever mucking around in her own feelings and emotions for analytical tools. I think that a proper feminist canon should have all types, and it makes me sad that someone thinks there’s a “wrong” way to do feminism. (I mean, outside of being straight up wrong or using make-believe instead of reality-based tools for analysis.)

But obviously, everyone is different. So, who’s your famous feminist? Why would you want to have some drinks with her?