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Oh okay I was confused whether you meant you just needed to go GET one or if you needed to learn and test first. That's sad you don't have anyone that would help. :( I don't know you but if you were near me I'd help u! :(

Quoting BelleVernonGirl:

Well yeah...you need someones car to drive and someones car to take your test in...I mean it takes times to learn and no one wants bothered...So I take the bus everywhere.

Quoting kittiecat88:

How do you need help? Like someone to drive you to get one? Or someone to take you to take the test?

Quoting BelleVernonGirl:

I'm 35 and don't have mine...No one would ever help me get one...Not something you can do without help...

I am 32 and don't have my license either. I have a terrible fear of driving. I have been behind the wheel several times, and have tried again and again over the years. But, once I'm on the road, I panic. Sweaty, shaking, tunnel vision and all. I actually looked into anxiety therapy about a year ago, unfortunately it is expensive and our insurance won't cover it. I've practiced in parking lots, drove around the block, been forced to get on the highway. It doesn't really bother DH, although sometimes he makes a comment. He has to do all the shopping, but who cares? I pay all the bills, keep the house clean, do the kids' homework with them, cook dinners, etc etc. Besides, if I shopped I"m sure we'd spend alot more. The only time it really inconveniences us is when a kid is sick and DH has to take them to the doc, or when kids' conferences come up, we both have to go. I think it keeps us close as a family. We are forced to do things together! :)

I had my permit for 3 years a while ago,and used it a few times, then last year I got it again and it just expired and I never used it once...Not having a license really puts a stop to my life. I want to move out of my shit hole town and get a new job but I can't b/c there are busses here...

Quoting kittiecat88:

Oh okay I was confused whether you meant you just needed to go GET one or if you needed to learn and test first. That's sad you don't have anyone that would help. :( I don't know you but if you were near me I'd help u! :(

Quoting BelleVernonGirl:

Well yeah...you need someones car to drive and someones car to take your test in...I mean it takes times to learn and no one wants bothered...So I take the bus everywhere.

Quoting kittiecat88:

How do you need help? Like someone to drive you to get one? Or someone to take you to take the test?

Quoting BelleVernonGirl:

I'm 35 and don't have mine...No one would ever help me get one...Not something you can do without help...

:( I'm sorry hun :( I hope you find help soon. I can't imagine feeling that held back. I really hope things look up 4 you and someone in your life steps up and helps u

Quoting BelleVernonGirl:

I had my permit for 3 years a while ago,and used it a few times, then last year I got it again and it just expired and I never used it once...Not having a license really puts a stop to my life. I want to move out of my shit hole town and get a new job but I can't b/c there are busses here...

Quoting kittiecat88:

Oh okay I was confused whether you meant you just needed to go GET one or if you needed to learn and test first. That's sad you don't have anyone that would help. :( I don't know you but if you were near me I'd help u! :(

Quoting BelleVernonGirl:

Well yeah...you need someones car to drive and someones car to take your test in...I mean it takes times to learn and no one wants bothered...So I take the bus everywhere.

Quoting kittiecat88:

How do you need help? Like someone to drive you to get one? Or someone to take you to take the test?

Quoting BelleVernonGirl:

I'm 35 and don't have mine...No one would ever help me get one...Not something you can do without help...

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