100 questions for couples to ask each other

These 100 best questions for couples can be used when you first get to know each other, or they can be used as refresher for people who have been together for a long time. Some makes sense to ask when you first meet. A few questions are better asked when you get more serious. Some may be more appropriate for married couples. Communication is the best tool to help develop intimacy, so ask these questions, or make up variations, or invent your own questions and then use them on each other!

Best questions for couples to ask so they can grow closer

What are your best qualities?

Which are your worst qualities?

When did you first have your heart broken?

Are you still friends with any of your ex-boyfriends or ex-girlfriends?

Are platonic friendships possible with members of the opposite sex?

How read to be monogamous? And if so why?

Can you define cheating?

What are your unfulfilled sexual desires or fantasies?

If you won the national lottery, how would your life change?

What’s your fondest memory ever memory?

Describe the scariest moment of your life.

What is your biggest fear?

Do you have any phobias?

What can instantly make you feel better if you get bad news?

Which tricks do you use to fix a bad day?

What is the most amazing advice you have ever received?

Besides or parents, who do you respect most in your life? Why?

Are you a cat person or dog person?

Are good or bad at keeping secrets? Give me an example.

When is it ok to tell a lie or fib?

Do you bottle things up or do you ever over share?

What do you wish you knew more about?

If you went back to school or could study anything what would you study?

Which of your body parts do you like the least?

Which of your body parts do you like the most?

Would you ever have cosmetic surgery?

What are you most passionate about in life?

Would you say you live to work, work to live, or neither?

How would you respond if one of us got a job that required a lot of travel?

Would you be willing to relocate for a job? For your partner’s?

Would you prefer to run your own business or to work for someone else?

What is the best customer service experience you ever had?

What was the worst flight you ever took?

Do you like to work more during the morning or in the evening?

How many hours of sleep do you need to fully function at your best?

What was your first pet’s name?

From this list of best questions for couples, what has been your favorite so far?

How often do you like to see or speak to your parents or siblings?

Have you ever lost someone or something you truly loved?

What’s your ideal weather or climate?

Describe your ideal holiday: Sun, snow, city or beach…or other.

What would or best day ever be like? Start from when I opened my eyes

How do you feel about travelling with other couples?

Condo or house?

What drives you every day?

Do you know purpose in life?

What do you value more: planning or being spontaneous?

Do you prefer certainty or uncertainty?

Do you believe in life after death? Or reincarnation?

Do you believe in a god or a higher power?

Do you believe in ghosts?

What religion were / are your parents? How devout were / are they?

How would you react if we had a problem getting pregnant (or getting pregnant again)?

Would you consider adopting children?

How many children do you want, or how many more do you want?

Do you want to raise your children in a particular religion or form of spirituality?

Would you ever be a stay at home parent?

Do you expect a partner to be a full time parent?

How do you feel about hiring someone to help with childcare, cooking or housecleaning?

Are birthdays, anniversaries, and holidays important to you?

How do you expect to split holidays between your family and your partners?

Which chores do you most like to do the most? The least?

Are you a saver or a spender?

How much debt do you have? Or would you like to have in a year?

What was your first job?

What was your worst job?

Were you ever fired from a job as a kid?

Who was or favorite teacher or professor?

What age do you want to retire?

Where do you want to be and what do you want to do when you retire?

When you die: Cremation or burial?

Favorite boy’s name?

Favorite girl’s name?

Are there any twins in your family?

What names would you give twins?

Are you scared of pregnancy or giving birth?

What was your worst date?

Have you ever been interviewed in TV or radio or for a newspaper?

Who was or best boss ever?

What group of kids did you hang out with in high school?

What dish would you like to learn to make?

Who was your first kiss?

Guns keep you safe? Gun control keeps you safe?

What was the most zen moment of your life?

Which behavior from others makes you angriest?

What question from this best questions for couples list would to like to be asked that I haven’t asked you yet?

If you wrote this list of best questions for couples, what questions would you add that is missing?

What makes you most happy?

What books were you into when you were a kid?

Tell me about the most profound book you ever read?

What is the one memory that makes you cry?

What kind of parent or grandparent do you think you will be?

If I died, would you remarry?

What is the hardest thing you have ever done?

What would be the title of your autobiography if you ever wrote one?

If money was no object where would you live?

What is the one thing on Amazon that you want right now that you would buy if you had a $500 gift certificate?