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Do you ever think people let you join a group here just so they could make fun of you behind your back?

I'm a paranoid person and I'm so thinking this very thing about a group I joined a little while ago. There are those subtle hints that may be real or may just be in my head... I wish I knew for sure, but don't want to just come out and ask for fear of looking like a nutter.

Has this really ever happened to anyone here? Have you joined a group only to find out they only accepted you to make fun of you?

I don't understand personally why women have the need to bash other women, I come in here with an open mind and am respectful to everyone understanding that ppl want honest opinions and it's not nice to make fun of ppl because of questions they ask I don't think I'm a "know it all" and I feel ppl that rag on others when they want our opinions think they are why else would they make fun of others.

you were brave not to post this anon?? what if these people see your question? you're feeding the fire??

Answer by
Anonymous
at 8:39 PM on Jan. 9, 2010

I don't personally know them and I NEVER post anon because I'm not a coward. If they ARE making fun of me, then so be it. I would just like to know so I could perhaps join in and make fun of myself with them.