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I'm 24 weeks and the father and I were together or 2 years and now he has decided he don't want the relationship I'm hurt we have had many obstacle which we overcame from his ex wife and finally when things settle and we an have the family he wanted he walked out but wants us to beat friends and talk everyday which I dont feel is Possible because I love him how should I handle this I want us to speak but it hurts cuz he has now been talking to another woman I don't want him to have me hanging on for when he is ready to come back if he chooses cuz he told me he knew he was making a mistake

I'm 24 weeks and the father and I were together or 2 years and now he has decided he don't want the relationship I'm hurt we have had many obstacle which we overcame from his ex wife and finally when things settle and we an have the family he wanted he walked out but wants us to beat friends and talk everyday which I dont feel is Possible because I love him how should I handle this I want us to speak but it hurts cuz he has now been talking to another woman I don't want him to have me hanging on for when he is ready to come back if he chooses cuz he told me he knew he was making a mistake

He is an ass don't let him have the best of both worlds. You don't owe him your friendship and he has no consideration for your feelings to ask it. You deserve to be treated better. Move on and get over him.

He is an ass don't let him have the best of both worlds. You don't owe him your friendship and he has no consideration for your feelings to ask it. You deserve to be treated better. Move on and get over him.

Tell him exactly what you've just said. You are still in love with him, you are not the one that decided to end the relationship and you need a chance to clear your head and get some space. Do not speak to him daily, he is not your boyfriend anymore. Let him come to appointments regarding the baby if he'd like, maybe text him a weekly update on the pregnancy, but limit your contact to baby related discussion only. Honestly, from what you've said, it sounds like he's setting you up. He's planning to f*ck around for the next 16 weeks, but keep things all stitched up with you so that he can come back to you when the baby's born. It's up to you whether you let that happen or not, but be under no illusion that he's not completely playing you. Don't put yourself through the pain of having him string you along.

Tell him exactly what you've just said. You are still in love with him, you are not the one that decided to end the relationship and you need a chance to clear your head and get some space. Do not speak to him daily, he is not your boyfriend anymore. Let him come to appointments regarding the baby if he'd like, maybe text him a weekly update on the pregnancy, but limit your contact to baby related discussion only. Honestly, from what you've said, it sounds like he's setting you up. He's planning to f*ck around for the next 16 weeks, but keep things all stitched up with you so that he can come back to you when the baby's born. It's up to you whether you let that happen or not, but be under no illusion that he's not completely playing you. Don't put yourself through the pain of having him string you along.

Hi I was 14 weeks pregnant when I found out that my bf had been cheating on me emotionally for 6 months. We got into a fight and he ended up cheating on me physically. We weren't together but he couldn't tell me the truth because he felt like he was cheating on me. I felt the same. we argued for 2 weeks we then stopped talking for 2 because I gave him time to decide between a girl that he "loved" more like lusted over or a loving girlfriend of 6 years, a daughter whom he raised for 6 years and an unborn baby. He came back home and cut all ties with her. It wasn't love like he thought or he could have abandoned us.I think you should be civil. He might come back or he might not. Prepare for the worst and hope for the best. Boys have a tendency to fool around once their lover is pregnant. 1/5 leave.

Hi I was 14 weeks pregnant when I found out that my bf had been cheating on me emotionally for 6 months. We got into a fight and he ended up cheating on me physically. We weren't together but he couldn't tell me the truth because he felt like he was cheating on me. I felt the same. we argued for 2 weeks we then stopped talking for 2 because I gave him time to decide between a girl that he "loved" more like lusted over or a loving girlfriend of 6 years, a daughter whom he raised for 6 years and an unborn baby. He came back home and cut all ties with her. It wasn't love like he thought or he could have abandoned us.I think you should be civil. He might come back or he might not. Prepare for the worst and hope for the best. Boys have a tendency to fool around once their lover is pregnant. 1/5 leave.

Don't see him until he breaks it off with her and proves he can commit to you and the family he created with you. Otherwise he will still have the best of both worlds. Prepare to be a single mom, create a support system of friends and relatives if you do not already have one. Good luck.

Don't see him until he breaks it off with her and proves he can commit to you and the family he created with you. Otherwise he will still have the best of both worlds. Prepare to be a single mom, create a support system of friends and relatives if you do not already have one. Good luck.

My opinion - you owe him nothing, he walked out. You are under no obligation to take his calls or respond to his messages - time and space from him to gather your thoughts and gain strength is what you need. He wants the best of both worlds and by keeping you so close in contact, you're too involved with him to realise making it on your own is easier than you think and he gets to taste-test all the desserts! Cut him off clean for a month - absolutely no contact and then see how you feel when he's not constantly holding an emotional grip over you xxx

My opinion - you owe him nothing, he walked out. You are under no obligation to take his calls or respond to his messages - time and space from him to gather your thoughts and gain strength is what you need. He wants the best of both worlds and by keeping you so close in contact, you're too involved with him to realise making it on your own is easier than you think and he gets to taste-test all the desserts! Cut him off clean for a month - absolutely no contact and then see how you feel when he's not constantly holding an emotional grip over you xxx

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