That’s exactly like what happened to me, but I wasn’t…” So, I looked up sexual assault. The guilt, the aversion to touch, and hyposexual desire.

Apparently if someone touches your vagina against your will, that’s sexual assault. I read about what happened emotionally to people who had been sexually assaulted, and a lot of it fit with my experience. They were all common responses from people who had been sexually assaulted. These mysterious things that I had been feeling had a source.

Dan Savage told her she’d been the victim of sexual assault or attempted sexual assault.

And, when I read that, I was like “how can she have been sexually assaulted?

Or to be so up front.“I may be a lesbian because of what happened to me, I don’t know.