The biggest mistake that wedge us from achieving what we want for our businesses and lives is NOT SETTING CLEAR GOALS.

How do we expect our brains to focus on finding the right resources without giving them the directions they need to take us where we want to go?

How do we expect to get somewhere without knowing where we are going?

It’s funny, because we set goals every day. We know that when we jump into our vehicles, we set goals to get somewhere at a particular time, and for a particular reason—whatever that could be.

Why then do we find it hard to set concrete and realistic goals for our businesses?

What do you think blocks you from setting those goals, and then developing the strategies you need to help you get there?

As you ponder on the above question, I have a resource for you. As a Success Coach, I have some great and unique personalized tools that we can employ to help you set articulate, clear and realistic goals.

You can also contact me for a 30 minutes complimentary success coaching session.

It’s as simple as sending me an email at author@tapthegood.com with the subject line – “Goals” and I will respond within 24 hours.

5. They don’t try to please everybody.

How do we stand up for ourselves with all those internalized voices telling us that we are not good enough?

How do we do the best we can, with all our might, when we feel like the world has robbed us of all we have?

Well, the answer to all the above questions is clear: “it’s by taking our power back.” How do we take our power back? –you may wonder! We take our power back by investing in our emotional, and mental liberation, and evolution. It’s about being so tired of being tired. It’s about being sick of being sick and tired.

Is it hard to believe that miracles are unfolding all around us? And that we have access to co-creating our lives and goals with the divine?

Yes, sometimes it is hard! Hey, I know it can be hard for me some days!!
Sometimes life, money and our goals can seem heavy and overwhelming! Do you ever feel like, “it’s all on me to do everything”? This is a great time to tap–as this is a particular vibe that literally blocks miracles from showing up. Whenever we feel weak, it just means that for a while we’ve forgotten about our abilities to co-create with the divine. This also implies that we are disconnected from the infinite magnificence…the kingdom of God that dwells with us. When we tap on these negative feelings, we remove the emotional blockages to our inner confidence; and are then able to tap into divine intelligence for direction, inner drive, and will power.

So let’s do that now; shall we?
Firstly, let’s dive into an exercise to examine where we are in regards to our goals.

Now, test this phrase by saying it aloud in two ways: “I have to make it happen.”
With all the emphasis on ‘have,’ notice the feeling in that…and how true it feels.
What is the emotion?

Now say the following statement again with the emphasis on ‘make’.
“I have to make it happen.” Notice the feelings in your body when you say it that way.

Now start tapping!

Round 1: We are going to tap on the statement: “I have to make everything happen
on my own (there’s no support!)”

Karate Chop Point:

Even though, the truth is I have to make it happen; it’s all on me. I’ve got to do it,
I accept all of me now.

Even though, I have to make this happen. I feel that pressure, that constriction,
but I can’t just let this go. I accept all of my feelings now.

Even though, the truth is, it’s all me. There’s no one supporting me, no miracles showing up. I have to make this happen. Otherwise I will fail, and that will be all on me. I love and accept myself anyway.

Tapping Through the Points:

Eye brow (EB): It is all on me. It’s always been on me. I can’t just trust. I can’t let go.Side of the Eye: (SE) That would be slacking off. I have to make this happen. Make it happen with my will, with my own two hands, my blood, sweat and tears.

Under the Eye (UE): It’s exhausting. But I keep doing it. I’ve got to make this happen.
Not a lot of fun in that.Under the Nose: (UN) A lot of pressure…a lot of desperation. I’m always battling failure–so much at stake.

Chin (C): I can’t just trust in the Universe. That would be crazy

I’ve got to do it. It’s all me.

Collar Bone (CB): I feel isolated. There is no one to help me.

Under the Arm (UA): Why is all this happening to me?

Top of the Head (TH): I don’t think I can ever achieve my goals.

Round 2: We are going to tap on a more positive round with this statement in mind. “I am open to the divine co-creating with me!”

Karate Chop Point: (Tap on this point and repeat the statements below)

Even though, I’ve built a life making stuff happen. And I often say, oh I’ll just do it myself. I usually do it better, and I do it to my standards. I’m open to the idea that there’s a conflict in this for me. Because I’m not very open to help.

Even though, I love getting stuff done. I love making great things happen. I’m open
to the idea, that I could be an amazing achiever, and have an open window to streams of divine
brilliance, divine guidance, inspiration, and even miracles. That makes all my achieving fun.

Even though, I’ve operated this way for a long time; saying, “No thanks, I got it. I’ve got to do it all myself.” I’m now opening a window, and I’m propping it open with a stick, so I
can’t close it easily. This window is open to the divine co-creating with me. I actually don’t need to do everything myself.

The truth is I can’t always see the big picture. And although right now, I’m disconnected from the mind of God. Maybe the Divine is trying to give me more than I’ve even dreamed of.

Tapping Through the Points:

EB: I’ve been doing it this way for a long time.
If I trust and let go, would I judge myself a slacker? Or naïve?SE: I wonder what would happen, if I open this window and allowed the Divine to stream into my life–bringing me more brilliance, more inspiration, absolute miracles, and co-creating with me.UE: I wonder how that would feel. I wonder how it would feel in my body, to achieve my goals that way.UN: This would feel different. …REALLY different.

Chin: I surrender my control. I surrender my old story.CB: I surrender my doubt in divine power.UA: I open myself to help.TH: I open myself to miracles. I open my connection to the divine to co-create with me!

If you can go through this exercise for the next couple of days, I’m certain that you will see some positive results in your life.

6 Steps to Retrieve Sustainable Success:

It is common that whenever we are experiencing some discomforts in our lives, we state that “we are going” through some stuff. What is so great about the previous statement are the words “going through.” This implies that we are resolving the prevailing issues and moving towards our desired futures. However, it is easier said than done. “Going through” things for some people, might mean “going through a numbing process.” And what I mean by “numbing” is when people are investing in the denial process—where our negative emotions and fears are stored in ignorance of the consequences. What is depressing about this process is that these negative emotions never go away. We have to do the work to dissolve the negative emotions, and/or negative programming before we can be able to install the good inner stuff.

Below, are six steps that will help you start letting go of the unwanted programming in order to install new positive inner programs that will upgrade your live.

List three self-limiting beliefs that you have about yourself.

List three self-limiting beliefs that you have about money, success and/or your business?

List three reasons why you think these self-limiting beliefs are serving you.

List five reasons why you should let go of these beliefs.

Explain how you think you will feel when you let go of these beliefs.

Read the answers to question 5 every morning and evening for the next 5 days.

Remember that the mindsets that land us in the messes we find ourselves into, can never be the mindsets that get us out. We have to let go of who we are for who we want to become. We have to make the changes, or our situations will stay the same. Fortunately, we have the power of choice to tap into in order to either upgrade, or retard our lives.

I also understand that counseling and success coaching can be expensive: Reason as to why I have put together an online Life Liberation and Success Coaching program, discounted to help as many people as possible; easy to use in the comfort of your home, and most importantly, affordable.

Have you tried searching for love in all the places you can, but failed to find it?

Do you attract the same douche-bags in your life?

3. Do you end up attracting the same partner who makes you feel like committing suicide?

I have been there. It took years before I could figure out what I was doing wrong. I blamed myself and the entire world for the recurring love misfortunes. With that in mind, I embarked on a long search for solutions. And today, I live with an amazing man who thinks the world of me. And I attracted this man. I realized that I had to deal with my inner world in order to create a better outer world.

Now, I have a resource for you. You are lucky that you don’t have to do the research like I did. I have put together a healing program called The 14 Days Love Liberation Boot Camp. This program digs deep to deracinate the root causes of emotional baggage, and other underlying issues that block true unconditional love. In this program you will benefit the following.

Well, the answers, and more, are included in my newly re-published book – Do not Force It, Tap The Good: How to Tap Into One’s Inner Infinite Intelligence, Develop a Profound Positive Mindset, and live life on his/her terms.

To get yourself a copy, please visit http://tapthegood.com/books/. You can also get the book on kindle.