Before I begin, Please Note: The phone number given on this website is my mother's. So please do not add her on WhatsApp or send flirty messages. Also please do not add me on WhatsApp either. This is not meant to be rude, but is being said out of bad past experience.Thanks.
A little about me.....
I was born and educated in beautiful Bangalore. And now I work here as well, as a management accountant for an investment bank.I love spending time in nature, seeing new places and learning about new cultures, visiting historical sites, cooking good food, watching movies, singing and reading. I also love spending time at home. My home is my sanctuary and it is the only place in the entire world where I feel comfortable, surrounded by my things.
I hold a very deep appreciation for music of all kinds. Music for me, is nourishment for the soul. Spiritual music and literature of all world religions from carnatic to sufi enchant me.
Me:I love home and family and hope to find a good man to build it with. With the right person, I'd be the best friend and companion, someone who will hold your hand and walk beside you through the ups and downs in life. I'm adaptable and very affectionate in nature but it takes a sizeable amount of time and patience to get me to open up.
However....
I am highly introverted, intense and an extremely private person. I totally abhor intrusions on my privacy...Which is why advertising myself on a site like this to find a life partner feels totally weird, unnatural and overwhelmingly foreign. I'm usually very happy spending time by myself or in the company of people whom I can relate to. I can spends hours by myself or amidst nature and feel very recharged and rejuvenated.I find small talk incredibly cumbersome and wasteful even. Phone calls from unknown numbers scare the hell out of me which is why I screen all of them even if it's from friends or family; although Ill call them back as soon as I'm mentally prepared and have gathered the energy for the conversation. In fact small things like this frighten me quite often.
I'm also highly sensitive and intuitive to people and my surroundings. That's why I feel very uncomfortable in large gatherings of people, large family functions where you're expected to interact and make small talk, crowds or malls...or any situation where one is constantly being subject to scrutiny. To think of being forced to talk to people in unknown social settings is very very unnerving for me. I'd rather have an authentic sincere connection with One Person than endure pointless talk in a crowded room full of unknown people.
The biggest turnoffs for me are arrogance, superficiality, not being genuine, being manipulative, pretending, aggressiveness, being dishonest, withholding important stuff, taking decisions for me without my consent, being quarrelsome and negative all the time, putting others down in order to feel good about oneself, insecurity, possessiveness, religious fanaticism, being passive aggressive, being biased, prejudiced and narrow-minded, acting like you're my best friend before you have earned my trust....things like this.
And the biggest turn-ons are well...pretty much the opposite of what's written above: Being genuine,kind and caring, being emotionally mature, making the other person feel important, being able to hold a conversation, charm, wit, decisiveness, being secure in oneself, humility, being liberal/open-minded, taking responsibility for things in one's life, being a man of virtue, being articulate, purity of heart, chivalry, being affectionate, knowing and understanding the Value of things in life and what place each deserves.....things like that.
Marriage.....scares me. Honestly. I'm terrified of it. I'm very frightened of making the wrong choice in the midst of parental pressure and then suffering for it for the rest of my life. I need to feel emotionally and psychologically safe with someone before I can even start to open up with them. And that usually takes time. And the way arranged marriages are structured is that they don't allow you that sort of time. Which only adds to my anxiety.Making an emotional connection is supremely important for me, especially for a relationship such as this to survive. Without that, no amount of money or financial security or family support can sustain it for long. I need to feel "at home" around this person, there should be a quiet sense of peace when we're together...And it should be Mutual. Really, what is a marriage without an emotional bond between two people who don't feel anything deeply for each other....we may as well agree to be roommates and sign an agreement!

About her Family

We're a close-knit family of four. I'm the eldest daughter and have a younger brother who is doing his final year of M s in Engineering in Sweden.
My parents ensured that my brother and I got good education, and we both have had a fairly traditional, no-frills upbringing.
We speak both Kannada and English at home.
My parents are traditional and religious and have done their bit to give my brother and me a sense of tradition, culture, religion and heritage.
But both of us are pretty liberal in our outlook. We do respect tradition, but we don't overdo anything.

Given that I'm an introvert, I need a man who takes initiative. Someone who is willing to make the effort to really understand me....someone with enormous patience. Someone whom I can respect and share a sense of deep friendship and affinity. Who can respond well to my emotional cues. Who is capable of being emotionally vulnerable. Someone who knows and understands pain and struggle. Who can stand alone in the face of adversity and yet is brave enough to follow his moral compass.
It's a challenge yes, and also a very delicate balance he will have to maintain between not frightening me and yet being gentle and persuasive enough to catch my attention. Atleast till we establish a connect with each other that is.