When you have never had a female in your life and likely never will do, due to unchangeable looks and personality traits.

When the potential carefree years of your life have been spent in recluse.

When you are at/soon at an age where you will need to work from 9-5, and come home to an empty home.

When you have spent the better part of 10 years being excluded, bullied, rejected, humiliated, scorned.

When every single attempt at socialization and social reintegration has been met with more faliure and humiliation.

When you realize that the big bad world is just high school all over again, where the good looking and high status people are rewarded, and the low status are treated like shit.

THIS is why there is a male suicide epidemic. It's not because "men don't seek help". It's not because "men are more impulsive/use more lethal methods of suicide". It's not because men "bottle things up". It's because only we know the pain of incel. Only we know the feeling of being the scum that society wants to die.