First was the Top 10 Emerging Influential Blogs and comments made in the first episode of the Fobcast. Are the defenders of the top 10 emerging influential blogs too sensitive or were Mike and Marco the site guy too insensitive? [I'm more interested in finding out who was that Mika and Marca trolling Mike's blog, hehe]

But hey, if you're going to lash out at Malu, please heed Doc Tess' advice: let's not stoop to name calling. And look, even Bryanboy, who also posted something about the Malu Fernandez bruha-ha, says "I *understand* that a lot of people were offended by her article(s) but if you are gonna attack someone, please don't resort to petty and immature remarks about her looks, her body size etc. At the end of the day, we're all going to be thick, fat and obese."

I agree with Bryanboy and Doc Tess. It was not Malu Fernandez' looks or body size that contributed to the article. It was the fault of her miniscule brain which couldn't produce the sarcastic tone for the article. Because she wrote badly, her true matapobre self came out. Because she was a bad writer, she couldn't hide her true self. Her "acerbic wit" was not enough to cover up her bad intentions.

Hypothetically speaking, what would you do if you found out that your SO was hiding the number of a girl under somebody else's name for more than three months already? And the "hidden" number was being called more times than your number. And more minutes spent on calls too for the hidden number (a 23-minute phone call for the "hidden" number vs. the average 2-minute phone call to your number).

And then he will 'fess up they were just "close friends" [quotation marks are mine]. He will tell you that he didn't tell you about the "friendship" because you would get jealous of his girl friends na "may itsura".

What do you do?

Will you spit back at his face that his overblown ego is distorting his logic because he knows you only get jealous of girls he flirts with, that the attention of the other girl must be blinding him to the fact that he's trying to make a fool out of you, and that the admiration of his other guy officemates for "getting the girl" is distracting him from the obvious conclusion that HIDING HER NUMBER FOR THREE MONTHS WILL DEFINITELY AROUSE SUSPICIONS.

Or, will you accept his explanations, and swallow your pride, and think, "yeah, I'm a jealous paranoid freak that's why he hid her number from me, and yeah maybe they're just close friends"? Will you actually believe they are just friends, and not "friends"?

i just firmly believe that the man am involved with cannot spend more on another girl :D and considering that am a girl who goes dutch and what-not, the nerve talaga of a guy to be spending more load on some other girl no!

:D

seriously now... if he really believes he wasn't doing anything wrong, then he wouldn't have kept this from you... and you'd probably have heard him talk about the girl in some offhand way... same way that any new friend he makes, boy or girl, you'd hear about...

one of the reasons why i married the man i married is that.... he'd even tell me if the girls am actually jealous of calls... because he doesn't want me finding out later, when it will look like i caught him in a lie, or he tried hiding something from me... he was always upfront and transparent that way, w/c goes a long way in trusting him completely...

to tell you the truth...what would work really well is, just ignore the girl's existence, don't be mad at him. let him know the fact that he's hiding things from you is not okay with you, but don't make it sound like you're jealous. then drop the subjhect. don't talk about it anymore. then be very very busy. go out with your friends, go on a vacation. get away. let him miss you.