Category: Self Growth

Black transgender men. It is my humble opinion that this group of individuals, from a societal perspective, are the most overlooked, underpaid and socially “unimportant” social group on the planet. Why? Well we know that “black girls don’t matter”. So how about “black girls who feel trapped in the wrong gender marker”. Now we really …

Shame – it has power. What is the power of shame? Control. Shame has the amazing ability to control. It’s the only way we control in fact. The birth of shame starts with religion. Namely the monotheistic religions – Christianity and Islam. The monotheistic religions taught us how to feel shame. Especially if ‘us’ is …

How to earn respect? Interesting question. Perhaps you’ve been a match to a lot of disrespect in your life. See I think about respect a lot. As a trans person who is also black I think of the postulation that my respect quota might be capped. How dare I expect to ever be respected. Why …

Hey guys. So as you may have noticed on the homepage I am now a self-proclaimed “hatred expert”. Lol. Sounds fun huh. Hell no. But boy oh boy I feel like I know everything there is to know about hatred. I am now at a point where I can convert hatred into sexual energy. It’s …

Neediness might be one of the most difficult vibrations to see within yourself yet the easiest vibration to feel within yourself. The way we free ourselves from neediness is first through honesty and secondly by learning to fall in love with the present. Learn to fall in love with This. Love “This”. The only reason …

If we hold a vibration which says that life is unfair, we must also hold a vibration which says that we are in some way wrong. The seed emotion for this belief is fear. I have found this to be one of the most difficult things to realise and see. The only way to see …

The spiritual battle is now over and all the pain has gone. I sort of can’t believe it. Just now I thought about the fact I still experience rejection and I was preparing myself to “go into the darkness”. Going into darkness and experiencing intense pain and / or difficulty has been normal practice for …

I have learnt much about the true self and what true self-importance is. Since the age of zero I experienced chronic and systemic emotional neglect. It’s not that my mother didn’t love me, it’s that she was unable to. This is something I’ve known for a long time but only recently have I accepted it. …

Hey guys. So I already explained in my Instagram profile that as the last messenger I am aware of this idea of the end times but I don’t really know what it’s about yet. I explained that I am a normal person who is experiencing and learning in life as we all are. I also …