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I wonder if they intentionally make profiles that sound like 'PLAY WITH YOURSELF NOW' just because they can, weather they just want to stimulate as many guys as possible and get a completely rowdy disfunctional collection of replies.

women in their 30s/40s generally are still quite attractive sexy women.

that being said, they know their physical looks are going to be diminishing rapidly [/qutoe]Gee... I looked in the mirror today even with one eye right now I don't think I am diminishing rapidly...It there a particular area I should be watching a bit more closely than others.

It seems that now and again,we see an attractive, experienced 30 / 40 something, looking for a soulmate etc, that fills her profile entirely with the hottest dirtiest little description of what she expects of a guy, how he must be just like this and just like that, trendy bars etc.

Some people have a very hard time distinguishing between the following:

No seriously, why are you so stuck on smut and starting a topic about it? I'm more amused that you are trolling the adult underworld playground and only commenting on those that are most likely "keeping it real" over those that swear they got it going on and are paranoid skitzo off their meds

Or maybe, in all your attempts to contact the smutty profiles you were rejected???

I wonder if they intentionally make profiles that sound like 'PLAY WITH YOURSELF NOW' just because they can, weather they just want to stimulate as many guys as possible and get a completely rowdy disfunctional collection of replies.

Maybe they dont realise at first, they are just oversexed because they have not had it properly in a while, and yet have to deal with the consequences of being too horny on a dating site, when actually what counts is finding someone with the same temperament.

I usually get a kick out of reading those profiles then move onto the next profile. The odd time i'll get a msg from them (when they noticed I read their profile) They don't take too kindly to rejection when they are at the height of their horniness. But it makes for great entertainment. The more desperate they are.. the funnier it is.

.. it made me realize that women can get blueballs too. (or blue meatflaps.. whatever its called for women)

Just like men "ask for it" when they put it in their profile.. so do women.

i don't make a snap judgment based on provocative photos. i know women IRL who are anything but skanks even though they have an overt sexuality and like to show skin; why wouldn't they represent themselves honestly here?

the guys who are the best catches like sex and are visual too, so why wouldn't a smart woman play that angle, if she doesn't mind wading through the chaff messages? people forget the only thing a profile is for is to get you an email. it's not your freakin life's resume.

Indeed.

there are also as many women that don't realise how to write a profile as men. Some of them are horrified when they realise they are sending out a different message, some don't care because they think they know it all.

As a rule I don't normaly write them anyway but I do know that some jump heavily on the moral high ground. I just don't have anything to do with them is all. It's not a problem. I would rather meet a woman just out dancing or even at home depot. Tons of women there.

I would like to say I have been on this site for over a year and never received an email that suggested I run over and have sex with him.

As to the thread, if you want to post semi-porn pictures of yourself, that is your choice. I know it send the wrong message unless you are just looking for a series of one night stands and or short, fitful relationships.

However, what makes it completely comical is the fact that I see these same women, with the hooch shots in the forums posting threads like “Why do all men want is sex”, “I don't understand, everything was great for the first two dates”, “He doesn't call or text me anymore”, blah blah blah.

I see the "meaning" of this post that it is "false advertisement." When a woman (any age really) posts pics on her profile that scream "LET'S SHAG" then they read the entire profile once they see that they are attracted, side note if I'm not attracted I don't read the profile, then get to the bottom of the page and it says that "must not be looking for intimate encounters. So the guy is like wtf.

This is not about a guy surprised that a woman is "into" sex as much as he is, in fact sign me up for one of those I'm in love

If we admit to liking sex and wanting it often, we're not mate material, we're considered sluts.

I think the issue is something different...

If a woman has a profile that b!tches about guys writing her about sex ("Well, I never!"), and writes on and on about how good and proper they are, etc...

... then on the front page of their "brochure" have pics of them in lingerie making a seductive face on their bed followed by a few more -- YAH. No sympathy. Total contradiction.

One can advertise themselves looking sexy... but advertising oneself as a sex object shouldn't be followed by complaints of guys finding them just to be a sex object. If that is how they feel, to be a sex object and has an understanding of that -- great. It's just that one can't advertise two conflicting messages.

why is everybody hiding behind theyre gender?? thats what I want to know..whats that "we" and "they" crap about..??are there no induviduals here?

also, the "lust" based profiles ( that phrase just makes my skin crawl..what a politically correct BS way to put it)..arent just "mature" women..at least in this hick town I reside, there's those kind of profiles in every age cathegory..but yeah it is funny to see..

Im definately missing these profiles and personally dont see a problem with it anyway. The people that **** about these things are the same narrow minded half-wits who call a woman a slut if she sleeps with one guy.

It seems that now and again,we see an attractive, experienced 30 / 40 something, looking for a soulmate etc, that fills her profile entirely with the hottest dirtiest little description of what she expects of a guy, how he must be just like this and just like that, trendy bars etc.

you get the idea.

It seems that the profile is intended to make any ordinary guy get abit confused and heady and write something just as a revenge for being mentally molested because she is asking for it.

I wonder if they intentionally make profiles that sound like 'PLAY WITH YOURSELF NOW' just because they can, weather they just want to stimulate as many guys as possible and get a completely rowdy disfunctional collection of replies.

Maybe they dont realise at first, they are just oversexed because they have not had it properly in a while, and yet have to deal with the consequences of being too horny on a dating site, when actually what counts is finding someone with the same temperament.

have you noticed such profiles? are you one of them?

Not sure about the age part, but I have seem profile of women in my age range describing what they're looking for in a man, and the description gets close to some kind of Harlequin novel, lol. Or something along those lines,enough to get ya hot and bothered actually, it's kind of sexy, but sutble inneundos sometimes.

But to put it publicly in a profile for all the world to see, I dont know about that, I figured it's TMI.

Then she has a ton of guys emailing her to meet right away for one reason, and one reason only.

I have several incarnations of my profile...some are more "outgoing" than others...and my pictures are a mix of my various facets. That being said I think you misunderstand the 30/40 something yr old woman. I happen to feel very confidant and comfortable in my sexuality. I dont care if conservative guys judge me for it because frankly I am not attracted to them. I am only interested in men who are comfortable with sex, intimacy and a confidant woman. Its not about being a tease...or pretending to be an online sex personality....its about being in a stage of my life where I dont apologize for who I am or finding pleasure in life.

Personally I find the OP and some subsequent posts extremely close minded and judgmental. We are inundated with guys posing in their boxers and flexing their abs who have very little to say except that they love UFC and are "open minded" but not looking for anything serious....apparently that is fine but I cant show that I am looking for a man who likes a confidant, fun woman? Strange world indeed.