Ever wanted to learn how to talk dirty in bed? How to sound like a sexy temptress? Perhaps you are someone who just wants to spice things up.

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Steps

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Relax

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Forget your worries about being sexy. Think about the moment. Focus on what you are feeling, physically and emotionally. Emotions are key to this.

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Have fun! It's not supposed to be serious, and it's more fun when you can play around with ideas and words.

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Research different adjectives (describing words) and get yourself comfortable with them. Say them out loud to yourself or try using them in a sentence like normal. Really, the more you become comfortable with words like sexy, breasts, vagina, penis or just different body parts that seem taboo, the less frightening the words are. They're just parts of the human anatomy.

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Add verbs to your adjectives. Doing so will give an air of personality. Verbs commonly used are ones like 'stop' and 'squeeze'.

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Use slang terms too. It becomes less scary and less taboo as you realize they hold no power over you.

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Overtly dominating isn't sexy, being in control is. Saying, knowing and asking for what you want is hot, being overly aggressive isn't. Say it plainly and get to know yourself and what you like. If you're both assertive, it will be more fun.

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