It's partly an American thing I suspect, where I'm from, if you start talking about 'energy or 'soul mates people look at you funny. It's not that we don't talk about emotion, just not in such quasi-mystical terms.В

But our society is also litigious to an extreme. In your example, the lovely woman you wrote on responded seemingly affirmatively (though not verbally to your proposal to write on her body, and you promised to respond in future if her mind were ever changed about sharing the act in the video. In this scenario, you promised to erase the evidence of the activity by removing the video (if she chose to in the future). But could you, in the future, promise to UN-write on her body?В