looking for my big poppa (92260, Palm Desert, CA, Riverside County)
Well I am a 29 year old not long ago separated lady. I'm hoping to meet someone who would be interested in talking for a bit, if we hit it off maybe have some drinks. I am really not looking for anything serious at this time, simply hoping to have a bit of fun. Message me if your married affair

latina (Palm Desert, California , Mojave Desert)
Title is misleading to prevent people from flaggingQUESTIONS TO ASK A DOMME BEFORE YOU CLEAN HER PLACE:Ask her to describe what she expects from you in some level of detail. Don't ask her to have phone sex with you, do be polite, and do realize a lot of jerkoffs are probably wasting her time. But do expect her to give you a good idea of what YOU can expect if you provide her with the service she desires. Keep the conversation as polite and non sexual as possible to let her know you are sincere about providing your service. If she thinks you are jerking off to the conversation she will hang up on you and she is right to do so. Key words: expectations, polite, non sexual.Women who yell at you, who don't provide clear answers, or who don't let you talk claiming that they are the Domme and you shouldn't ask questions are going to use you and waste your married flirt Anyone worthwhile should be willing to communicate with you as long as you ask respectful questions. Key words here: communicate and respect.Any Domme who tells you she makes 0 or more an hour for her services and that your cleaning services are only worth an hour and she will play with you only long enough to cover the time you worked for her should just hire a maid. For every hour you spend working for her, you should expect AT LEAST 15 minutes of her undivided attention. No matter how much she charges your time is still worth something. Key words: go hire a fucking maid you cheap bitch, 1 hour your time = 15 minutes her time.Dommes who tell you that they are looking for a long term submissive and tell you that if you do a good job they will consider making you their slave will never call you back- unless they play with you that day. This is an old trick to tell you what you want to hear so you do their work for them. Negotiate work and play time for the first meeting so if they never call you back you still feel satisfied. Any Domme wanting to test your worth should be willing to make it worth your while as long as you do right by her. If she can test you then it's only fair that you can test her.Most Dommes but not all are willing to send a vanilla face pic. If they don't, or if they don't look like the pic they sent you consider this red flag #1. When you see red flag #2 you know it's time to leave before you waste any more time with her. You don't owe this woman anything, if she is using you cut your losses and leave. It doesn't matter that her floor is half mopped and wet, that's her problem.RED FLAGS:She does not communicate. She is indifferent to your needs. She is rushing you to finish so she can go out (when you are done she will tell you she has an appointment and will play with you another time but this never happens) Also:Look at how she keeps her place, if she doesn't respect her things then she won't respect you. Is her place a dump? Expect it to be dirty because she's having you over to clean, but is it disgusting? Is the sink gross? Are there more than 2 bags of garbage that need to be taken out? This is a big one- is the cat box gross? If she don't take care of her cat she's not going to take care of you. Key words here are gross and disgusting. Expect messy, that's why you are there in the first place.Remember not every Domme is going to be Angelina Jolie and not every Domme is going to play with you exactly the way you want. Kink is like sex; not everyone is compatible but that doesn't mean that both parties didn't try. If she appreciates the service you provide her and does what you negotiated before you started then that is all you can expect. Treat these women with respect because trust me they deserve it.REMEMBER YOUR TIME IS VALUABLE TOO!

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