TwistedFark:I need to stop fapping it to ultra dirty porn all the time. It's making it very hard for me to get sexually aroused around women who aren't into cum baths, anal fisting or don't have tits the size of zeppelins.

I've had sex with 5 different women in the last two weeks and I've actually been having trouble getting it hard enough to have sex with them unless I visualize extremely demented or degrading stuff happening to women. One girl even went so far as to go right down on me and give my balls a tongue bath and I still had a hard time popping a wood.

Now, I know it's not just garden variety impotence or whisky dick because I can easily get it up within 2 minutes of browsing the internet. I think what's happened is that I've basically desensitized myself to sex unless it's "extreme". I'm actually experimenting right now seeing if I can avoid all porn for a month or two while just railing chicks normally. It'll suck for me because the most I can probably organize is something like 3-4 times a week if I am putting on the full game (I am juggling like 8 girls at one time) and I really normally masturbate like 2 or 3 times a day. I don't know how I'm going to do it but I feel very strongly that I need to just have straight sex for a while in order to reclaim control of my erections. Either that or I wimp out and just get a Viagra prescription...

rev. dave:It is topics like this which he can be both technically right and practically wrong at the same time.Yes, addictions are bad and you should avoid them. But how much qualifies as an addiction? More than zero is not an answer.

Typically as most farker's do, ignore this guy because he has an Amish attitude towards technology.

There is only one person who I have ever met that I would say was a porn addict. I was in college, in my mid-20s living in the dorms. I was there for about a year and a half when this kid who's name I don't even remember any more (called him Monkey because of the way he'd act when he'd get pissed) moved into the dorm to start school. He was 18, fresh out of high school, first time away from mommy. He and I were in similar majors. Similar enough that I and a few of my friends had offered to help him with the basics that he was taking his first semester (we went through it, got A's, so why not help out those who need it?). He was a bit weird to begin with. Anyone who had offered him help with classes he avoided. He didn't socialize with anyone. Sometimes we wouldn't see him for days, just locked in his dorm room.

We later found out that he wasn't going to class. One day he told me that he didn't go to class because that morning there was a light drizzle, so he assumed class was canceled. But the night before, during a farking thunderstorm, hail and tornado watch he drove 30 miles to the porn shop to rent some movies. His roommate explained that he visited the porn shop more than he attended class and the only sounds he ever heard coming from Monkey's computer or television was the moaning from porn movies. No video game sounds, no television shows or regular movies, no silence either. By mid terms he had missed enough class that he wasn't going to pass anything. He didn't even know which professors were male or female. The week of mid terms he was moving out. Roommate laughed and told us about how his mother chewed him out for two hours over the porn. She was giving him $100/week and he was spending it entirely on porn. He never bought text books. I bought his meal card for the semester for a $30 prepaid visa card. That really pissed off his mother. He also told us that she was threatening to put saltpeter in Monkey's food. She did throw away all his porn and she actually took the computer to the third floor fire escape and threw it onto the parking lot. She was pissed. Five garbage bags full of DVDs and magazines.

I need to stop fapping it to ultra dirty porn all the time. It's making it very hard for me to get sexually aroused around women who aren't into cum baths, anal fisting or don't have tits the size of zeppelins.

I've had sex with 5 different women in the last two weeks and I've actually been having trouble getting it hard enough to have sex with them unless I visualize extremely demented or degrading stuff happening to women. One girl even went so far as to go right down on me and give my balls a tongue bath and I still had a hard time popping a wood.

Now, I know it's not just garden variety impotence or whisky dick because I can easily get it up within 2 minutes of browsing the internet. I think what's happened is that I've basically desensitized myself to sex unless it's "extreme". I'm actually experimenting right now seeing if I can avoid all porn for a month or two while just railing chicks normally. It'll suck for me because the most I can probably organize is something like 3-4 times a week if I am putting on the full game (I am juggling like 8 girls at one time) and I really normally masturbate like 2 or 3 times a day. I don't know how I'm going to do it but I feel very strongly that I need to just have straight sex for a while in order to reclaim control of my erections. Either that or I wimp out and just get a Viagra prescription...

he does have a point, because it is almost impossible to avoid porn if you have a computer and an internet connection. if i wanted to stop watching porn, getting rid of my computer would be the first step. i just have no reason to stop. one thing i hate is how anti-porn crusaders throw around the word "addiction." i suppose maybe .001% of porn watchers might actually be addicted and unable to stop, but the rest of us aren't. here is a paraphrased conversation i had once:

friend: you are addicted to porn.me: no, i'm not.friend: but you watch it all the time. you probably watch it every day.me: i probably do, but that doesn't mean it's an addiction.friend: how can you say that? that's what it means to be addicted!me: really? well you watch sports every day. are you addicted to watching sports?friend: well, no, but that's different.me: how is it different? you watch sports every day, and i watch porn every day. same thing.friend: but sports are my hobby.me: exactly, and watching porn is my hobby. it's something i do for fun that i enjoy.

jaytkay:silvervial: jaytkay: ReluctantPaladin: would it be too much for him to express some concern over the effects that pornography might have on women?

The porn he is watching doesn't affect women.

Ah, so it's my kind of porn.

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You got it! Just watched a hysterical "behind the scenes" from a bear/twink porn and the twink was quite a character, really funny. He should do stand up (instead of lie down, on all fours, on his side, upside down, etc.) Anyone who can be that funny while upside down with a dildo up his ass is a natural.

Go with the plastic surgery one. The straight pastors preach against porn, the gay/bi ones preach against gays. Since he's ranting about porn, it means he's probably wanking it to the nastiest hardcore straight porn.

It's almost as if looking at porn is a natural impulse that has been present and documented for thousands of years and this guy's oppressive inhibitions are more likely indicative of a mental health problem than any of his follower's "porn addictions".

FTFAHe said that porn is a "weapon" that threatens "husbands, dads, fiancées and even church leaders." And warned that there was an "almost 100 percent chance that your son will be exposed to some type of pornography"

... would it be too much for him to express some concern over the effects that pornography might have on women?