What she probably wants more than anything else is about 48 hours a day. She tends to be a bit of an overachiever and takes on too much work.

She likes her steaks burnt to a crisp, she won't eat organ meat, and she is determined to make her own way in the world. So none of the three. When she's been dependent on my income she's constantly apologetic about it, even when it's no big deal to me.

She's also pretty low maintenance. Too bad she hates anything military. She's actually pretty good at strategy, she'd make a good opponent in wargames if she could get past the military aspect.