What Is The Hero Instinct – And How to Trigger It Inside a Man

Have you ever wondered why men will go to fight and die in war yet will hardly put any effort into a relationship?

There’s a very specific reason why this happens…

And it’s called, The Hero Instinct. What is the Hero Instinct, you might ask?

Basically, this formula does one thing. It triggers his desire to be needed.

Imagine his drive to be needed is like a river. It’s constantly flowing. And like a river, it’s always going to flow down the path of least resistance. Letting him meet your needs opens a new path. An outlet. Water will naturally flow into that new opening.

If you don’t have these openings in your relationship, it’s like a large dam has been erected. Picture one of those huge dams that holds back a massive river. Imagine the amount of pressure that builds up behind that dam. That’s what it’s like when you don’t open up outlets for his drive to be needed.

It’s the top reason men have affairs (even men who are still in love with their partner). Some woman comes along and fulfills his need to feel important, significant, and capable. That other woman has created an outlet for the pressure building up behind the dam.

It doesn’t take long for that outlet to become a new river, a new channel. And then it becomes emotionally painful for him to shut it off. Close it down. And ignore that opening.

Male desires are not complicated, just misunderstood

Men have a natural, instinctual drive to be a provider. Instead of tapping into this instinct that so many men have, most women try to fight it…

They wish things were another way…

Well, I understand that desire. However, if you fight his natural instincts, you’re going to continue to get results that you don’t want with him.

Instead, learn how to tap into his natural instinct and use it to bring you closer together, without compromising who you are.

If you felt a special connection, then you were meant to be together. The key is to let mother nature run its course. But there’s a problem…

You see, In this modern age, a man’s natural instincts pull him away from you. In times past, a man’s natural instincts to take on the role of a provider made him seek out commitment to a woman. It was something attractive, something natural and instinctive.

Social reform has given women the rights they always deserved. Unfortunately, it’s also taken something away. In an age where women no longer need a man to chop wood, protect her from wild animals, and build a log cabin by hand, something has been lost. A man no longer sees a committed relationship as an outlet for his natural instinct to do something meaningful and to find his purpose.

You see, men have a natural instinct. Some have called it an obsession. His natural instincts call him to seek social recognition and status by finding ways to be needed, ways to feel important, and ways to provide.

What if you could bend that natural instinct in service of his relationship with you?