I've been living in Japan for the past 10 years and I have developed an attraction to Japanese/Asian men, and I'm wondering if I'm the only one out there?
I've had a Japanese boyfriend before, and although I speak Japanese fluently we still had communication issues. He wasn't very good at being romantic or "the little things". You know, e-mailing to ask how my day was, calling just to say hi, buying flowers. He also wasn't very good at talking about his feelings.

Most guys are too shy to even approach a girl that they are interested in, much less talk about their feelings. They are especially intimidated by my race and size.

If there are any girls out there who feel the way I do, I'd love to hear from you.

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I'm in a similar situation as you are. I've been in China for the past 10 years and I really like Asian men. The problem here is that most guys here are married by the time they are in their late 20's. I've had Chinese boyfriends in the past and have also had the same issues that they are just not very romantic. Well actually they start off very romantic and within a month, it disappears. I am still hoping to find a good guy out there.