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15 December 2014

I highly recommend a daily practice of "I AM" affirmations- even and especially at the times when you don't even believe in what you're saying. Then seize the emotional power when you're feeling good in your heart and say your affirmations, again and again. I say mine when I get up and as I lie in bed, and sometimes several times during the day. What to say?I have a mixture of phrases I have learned from "The Master Key System" by Charles F. Haanel (pub. 1916- It has been updated with "modern" language, but I have found the original text to be much better to read.) and from "The I Am Discourses" (channeled in the 1930's, here is a link to a free PDF to download http://www.bahaistudies.net/asma/iam.pdf), as well as ones I have added to suit my own needs and where I am in my physical/spiritual life. Much love and assistance during deep spiritual transformation... XoXo

11 October 2014

(An excerpt from the spiritual memoir I am working on, called, earth-spirit.

All text copyright 2011-2014, Ursula Carrie)

Or, “more lessons in Surrender and Faith and Trust-
through losing my car (actually, the transmission blew up on June 20th),
having no money and having to hitch hike to get around”

Note: October 11, 2014: I realize that my experiences with
hitch-hiking place me in a position of Surrender, of Faith and Trust in my
Larger self, and the Universe. And that every inner direction leads me to the
right places and the right times. Even how long I linger in any one place is
all Divinely Orchestrated to perfectly set me at the place and time when I will
“catch that ride”, with the right person, who needs what I have to offer in my
Energy and Presence….

Thursday September 11, 2014- Hitch to town #3

I left the apartment today at 12:08pm.

I had pressed the snooze button on the phone alarm, deciding
to encourage myself out of a three hour “nap” at 11:11am.

I’m hitching, again. I haven’t checked the mail at the post
office in two weeks. There may be something I need to read in there. I have a 1
o’clock appointment with Diane at the Laundromat. I’ve applied there on three
occasions in the past year, already. Each time someone had just been hired.
This time I sent an email. It received a response, an email and a phone call. I
don’t know what time to leave to get to town on time. What if I have to walk
the whole way? I should leave time for that. But, how long would it take for me
to walk four miles? I need coffee. I need to clear out. Guides, Masters,
Angels, Beloved I AM, are you with me?

I feed the cats. Mumu’s meowl when I get up wrings my nerves
out. If I get into a bad mood, it’ll be harder to get back on a good track.
Feed cats. Shut him up, quickly, and retreat. I take the hot cup of coffee to
my room. It’s still dark. I haven’t pulled up the blinds. The Tibetan bowl
music is still playing. I can still drift as if I were still cozy and asleep.
But I drink the hot cup, and I am careful not to lie down. I straighten my
back, don’t let any thoughts materialize on the tickertape. I am starting to
feel more awake after a few deep sips. I look up on the wall and read quietly
out loud, “I AM the Commanding Presence. I command this I AM Presence to govern
perfectly my mind, home, affairs and world.” I say this tentatively the first
two times. I repeat it until I feel an opening in my chest and I am saying this
meditation with a feeling of full belief in its truth. Any seepage of the
negative energies that I often wake up with (guilt, pessimism, whatever) has
dissolved, and I am ready to Intend my Journey into town.

I take up my pendulum from where it sits on the table. I
ask, “Higher self, are you with me?” Yes. “Guides, Masters, Archangel Mi-kha-el
are you with me?” The pendulum swings wildly, “Yes.” It almost flips around,
like a swingset swing. Ok, then. I feel that in this moment, my mind is
uncluttered, my heart feels open. I feel trusting. I proclaim, “I will get a
ride to town by the third car.” I feel a bit hesitant, as I feel a trace of
some fear/worry in the left side of my neck and cheek. I inhale through my nose
and exhale sharply through pursed lips. I focus on my heart like I am doing CPR
on someone. OK. I am regrouped. I repeat, “I will get a ride to town my the
third car.” This time I feel unattached to it. If I get a ride, I get a ride. I
know that god will do what is best for me.

The pendulum is swinging strongly in the “Yes” direction.

I then imagine that I have already been to the post office
for the mail, the Laundromat for the interview, the store for the tamari that
we have been wanting, and I am now at the food pantry. I have my bags. I have
managed to get the cat meat, toilet paper and other things we may want and
need. I am feeling happy. I am feeling light. I say, “And I’m gonna’ meet
someone at the Food Pantry who’s gonna’ give me a ride home.” The pendulum
again swings strongly in the “Yes” direction. I say, sort of tentatively,
“O-kay…” One last question, “Am I bringing this pendulum with me?” It swirls
around in the “No” direction. I ask, “Is it because I don’t need it?” “Yes.”

I go into the kitchen to look at the big round yellow clock.
“Land o’ Lakes” is printed in an arc on a red background at the top under the
11, 12 and 1. I found it at the dump years ago. I adore this clock. It makes me
feel homey.It’s 11:55am. I say out
loud, “I’ll leave within ten minures. Ok, ten minutes. Get going…..” I run my
eyes down the right side of the clock. I imagine that I am seeing the short
hand on the three and the long hand is somewhere near or after the twelve. I
say out loud, “… and I’ll be home by three.”

I need to see about going to the bathroom and getting out
onto the road. I packed a small bag last night. It is a fairly small bag
designed with many handy pockets and compartments. I have folded up two cloth
shopping bags inside, a rain poncho, my little pink clip top purse that holds
our SNAP card, a marker and several pieces of paper scribbled with “to do”
items. I add the prepaid cell phone to one of the outer zip pockets and slide a
bottle of water in the water pocket under the rear strap. It is truly an
adventure bag.

There is no room for meaningful activity in the bathroom. I
am too tired, and I have to start walking. I check the time on the kitchen
clock. It is 12:08. I choose the plain black, medium sized umbrella from the
hook near the door and turn the door handle. I turn the lock on the knob to
lock the door and pull it shut, giving it two firm pushes to make sure the lock
had catched. My legs feel heavy and my right hip feels stiff, but I adopt a
determined stride up the walkway and drive. I am not feeling sure of how this
will go, and so I, in my mind- more with my emotion- release any notions. I
just walk.

There are no cars just yet. I decide that I will jump on in,
not like the first time I decided to hitch, and I felt shy for a good part of
the road. What the heck.

I hear a car behind me. I say, “Ok, here we go.” I’m feeling
pretty good, feeling unbound, as I turn to face the oncoming car. I walk
backwards a bit and raise my right arm and hitching thumb high in the air (a
45° up from my shoulder level). The driver takes the left set of tires over the
yellow line. I observe that the top of her head is almost in line with the top
rim of the steering wheel. Her face is deeply wrinkled. Her lips are moving as
she passes me. She doesn’t look at me. I feel fear in her energy field. I
chuckle to myself. My chest feels expanded. I feel happy for some reason.
Something feels beautiful.

There is another vehicle turning out of the road by my
apartment. It is a Kosco van. Now my thinking brain chimes in, “Well the Kosco
guys are tough.” They roll up the window before they get to where they will
pass me. The passenger looks at me from the corner of his eye. “Oh, there’s two
of them,” the thinking brain says. “Probably no room in the back, either.” Then
I chuckle again, this time because I am amused by my ego. I say out loud,
“All-right, if I make it, I make it. I’m doing the best I can.” My whole body
feels heavy, but I encourage myself to continue with a stride that defies the physical
feeling.

I am walking a bit further, but not much. I hear another
car. It doesn’t really matter. I turn around to face the traffic, walk
backwards a bit and hoist my right arm and hitching thumb high in the air (a
45° up from my shoulder level). It’s a silver cube shaped vehicle. And it stops
about 20 feet beyond where I am standing.

The third car.

I am entertaining a smug sort of inside giggle. I know that
this is a game. It is a game that I am playing with Beings unseen, with Laws
and Universal forces that no one else that I know believes in. Well, except for
my son, but he was born like that and raised like that, to never forget.

I do a light trot to
the car, pull up the door handle and settle quickly onto the passenger seat,
saying, ”Thanks so much!”to the man
who is driving. He gives me a sideways glance out the corner of his right eye
and a smile as he steps on the accelerator. Keeping his eyes upon the road, he
asks, “Where are you going?”

“Just into town.” I reply.

He half says, then winds up muttering, “Oh, town….. that’s
where…”

“Well, the post office.” I say, “Woodstock post
office.” I remember Terry, on the motorcycle, thought I meant the Bearsville
post office. I am clearing up any confusion, should there be any again. I realize
that I am basing this moment on a moment past…

We have a lively conversation. I find out that he is
divorced and relatively new to the area. He is relatively new compared to that
I have lived around here all my life. He says he would have wanted to home
school his daughter, but he and his ex wife have too differing styles. He’s a
quasi-socialist. She is right wing.

“What do you mean by socialist?” I ask. This word I know can
mean different things to different people.

He says that he is meaning as far as healthcare in our
country. He feels that the government doesn’t do enough for the people.

I chuckle, and place my hand on his shoulder, “Well, we have
food stamps, so don’t worry too much. The government is helping some people.”
And I laugh.

He laughs.

Soon we are at the post office. I gesture to the side of the
road and say, “You can let me out here if you want.”

He says, “I think I should pull in and turn around.”

And, so he does. He pulls up to the curb, in the same spot
where Terry let me off of the motorcycle. He says, “What’s your name?” I am
asking this question of him almost simultaneously.

“David,” he says.

I am shaking his
hand.

“Ursula,” I say.

“Maybe I’ll see you again,” he says, as a statement and a
question.

“Maybe,” I say.

I am bouncing out of the car and up the post office steps.
What I know about life is I never know when someone is going to cross my path.
But someone definitely knows…I am opening the door to enter the post office. I
haven’t checked the mail in two weeks. There may be something that I need to
read.

There is a woman exiting through the other door. I smile at
her, no I beam and smile. She looks me down and up again, fixing her eyes on
the small pile of mail in her hand. I feel the scowl. I adjust myself and focus
my attention on the space at the center of my chest, which was a moment ago
feeling pretty expanded and light, like a helium balloon. I am starting to feel
a slight constriction there. I am resisting that feeling.

There is someone complaining rather forcefully, or bitterly
“they” say, at the counter. All of the clerks here are negative, unfriendly. I
do not like coming here to get my mail. I avoid doing any business at this
counter, especially when I had my car available to me. Now, with no money, I have
no business to conduct anyway. I turn the little corner and duck over to my
lock box and pull out the mail. It is mostly junk mail. I am feeling thankful
for that. Perhaps my high spirits have not yet been crushed. I realize that
interacting with anyone that I meet will not find itself in a workable space.
This energy I am connected with is bouncing other people off like rain on a
waterproof surface. So far I am waterproof. I pull myself back to the center of
my torso, and I exit the post office. I check my cell phone. I still have
thirty minutes to get to my appointment at the laundromat.

I have begun to perspire by the time I am down the hill and
am walking past the old gas station, now simply an auto repair shop. I have
been walking briskly because I can feel the energies of every human that passes
me, either in their automobile or on the street. I am beginning to worry that
the extreme positive, hopeful energy that I left the apartment with has
diminished. The third dimensional mass consciousness is full of fear, anxiety,
impatience, anger. I spot the owners of the station and say hello. I ask by
mouthing, “Can I use the rest room?” They are engaged in conversation with a
man in shorts with his arms folded across his chest. I do not want to interrupt.
The owner’s daughter smiles and waves me on. I hurry across the small crowded
lot of cars and defunct gas station parking spaces and duck into the bathroom
on the side of the building.

It is dark and quiet in here. The only light is provided by
a window above the door. This light is diffused by an umbrella of trees at the
edge of the lot. I am thankful for the dark and quiet. I inhale sharply and
force the breath out of my mouth. I do this several times. I reconnect with the
feeling I had when I was leaving the driveway of my apartment. I remember that
I am being Guided. I remember how a short while ago, the third came for me,
just like I knew it would. I am quiet, now and unrattled. I pee just for the
heck of it and I again feel settled in to positive thoughts and feelings. I
really want this job. I wasn’t sure the first three times I’d applied for it.
Someone had already been hired by the time I got there those times. Just hired,
actually. This time I have talked with the owner. I am going to an interview. I
take a paper town from the dispenser, crumple it, unfold it again and sweep it
over my forehead several times. I am starting to worry about appearing
unseemly. The boss is a proper LL Bean kind of woman. I have heard this already
in her voice. I am sure that she does not sweat, ever. I really need this job.

I pause now outside the laundromat. I wonder which door I
should use. I have gone up the wheelchair ramp before, but the sign says,
“Wheelchair access only. Other patrons use other door.” I wonder if I am being
watched. I am fifteen minutes early. So far I haven’t had to open my umbrella.
I asked Archangel Mi-kha-el if it would rain when I was out. He said, again
through my pendulum, “No”. I believed him, even though the forecast said 80%
chance of rain. I brought the umbrella as a precaution.

I go through the front door and wander to the back. No one
pays attention to me and so I sort of drift around the back of the laundromat
where the laundry service is dropped off and collected.A woman in a khaki trenchcoat is walking up
the wheelchair ramp. She looks in the window as she passes. I start to become
aware of my neediness of being hired. I am aware of the fear that is causing my
heart to beat a little harder now. I reach for the paper towel that I have
shoved into my day bag and wipe my forehead again before the door opens.I tell myself, “Just be cool. It doesn’t
matter if you get the job. Just Breathe.”

After the interview, I walk to the local health food store.
I want to buy a large bottle of tamari so my son will eat the pasta. I decide
that we haven’t had a nice snack in along time, so I scoop some chocolate
covered pretzels into a plastic bag and place it on the scale for the stick on
label to print out. The short grain brown rice looks good to. I haven’t bought
“nice” rice in a long time, so I buy some of that too. We could use to have
some cheese, too. I do not know when I will be able to get the additional 3
miles to the “regular” grocery store, which is not that regular, but the dairy
prices are very good and my preferred regular grocery store is another ten
miles away and I definitely don’t know when or how I will get there again. I
look all through the cheese display and the regular cheddar cheese, which was
still more expensive than the not so regular grocery store, is gone. It
has been replaced with a piece of cheese one-half the size and three times the
price. I decide that cheese will have to wait. I feel a wave ofbitterness at how the new wave of “city
people” has changed the stock of this store. I switch my thoughts to the tamari
since that is usually the only reason I would ever come in here, anyway. If I
create any more negativity I may not get a ride home the way I envisioned. I am
getting unfocused. I make a decision to stick to the task. But, I grab a
package of seaweed snack, which is on sale, for my son, and I am checking out
now.

I am waiting for the Food Pantry to open. It’s only
one-thirty. And at the beginning it’s going to be crowded. I don’t really know
what to do. I don’t see anywhere to sit without going to the green. I don’t
feel like being on public display. I keep walking up Mill Hill Rd. My legs have
never stopped feeling heavy on this trip, but going downhill was easier. The
public restroom is open still, so I go in there to use up some time. I pee for
the heck of it then take my time walking out across the tiny lawn. I turn
towards Family. I can’t really take anything if it looks good. I can’t weigh
myself down too much in case I don’t get a ride and I have to walk the four
miles home. My right hip joint has been bothering me the whole time, but I tell
myself that if I pull up from my abdomen and lead with my left leg, I will
decrease the focus on my right leg and hip and I can walk all the way home if I
have to. We need toilet paper anyway, and I have no money to buy toilet paper.
The paper dispenser in the public bathroom was locked with a padlock, so
whatever I am doing, I still have to go to the Food Pantry for toilet paper.
And, we need “cat meat” so I can cook for the cats.

It’s not too crowded in Family, just a couple of people
going through clothes and one sitting. I don’t need to get any bread here
because I’m on my way to the pantry. I feel so vulnerable today and there’s
nothing very pretty or engaging in the Free Store that I would want to drag
home. Another blessing. I go out to the porch where is a row of four empty
resin arm chairs. I sit down in the one second from the door, straighten my
back and fix my gaze on a point on the rough cut wooden siding of the building
across the street. Then, a generator grinds up on the property next door to
Family. I think, “It figures.” Then, two people come strolling up, talking
loudly to each other. They seem to both look at me with some apprehension. They
probably are startled to find someone sitting on the porch.

I check the time on the phone. It’s 2:05pm. I can go over to
the Food Pantry now. I am feeling some nervousness about not finding a ride,
and I am aware that I want to eliminate these feelings from my energy field,
because this will cause me to not get the ride that I was sure to get at the
Food Pantry, back when I was leaving the apartment.

The door of the Woodstock Film Festival office is open. I
rarely see this. I decide to wander into the office to see if they have printed
material of the schedule. I filled out the online application to volunteer
several months ago, because I have hated the film festival for many years now.
I am a grumpy local that hates the traffic jams and the snobby city bitches who
act like they own everything, and act like small town locals are “stupid”, when
they descend. I thought that, if I could accept one of these detested
activities that obscond upon my somewhat peace and quiet, then maybe I would
figure out the energy that will eventually release me from this place, and I
can move on to a place that feels like Home to me.

A salt and pepper haired man, beard and all, sits behind the
counter. I recognize him as a former member of my CSA, which is not “my CSA”
anymore. I ask of there is any printed literature on the film festival
schedule. I am trying to distract myself from whatever negativity has bombarded
me. He says it is at the printers and goes on to bemoan many things, from the
difficulties of having the schedule proofread, to the scheduling, in general of
everything. I am launching into what I seem to do best, maneuver his energy
field to find a way to assuage him and bring out a ray of light somewhere. I
speak about the CSA. He mentions that he misses the CSA, but it was a lot of
money to have a subscription. He speaks of his son who is in college in
Massachusetts, just over the border from us, and that he bought a CSA share for
his son over there and how it’s cheaper for a share in MA. I say how lovely it
is that he cares so much for his son to make sure that he always has good food
to eat, even though he is far from home.

He seems to brighten a bit at that notion. I remind him,
even though I say that he is probably not open to such a suggestion, that
everything works out. I mention that I am hitch-hiking for food today.

He raises his eyebrows, and is staring out the door,
presumably at the empty sidewalk across the street, “Hitch-hiking? Well, now I
feel better….”

I feel an urge to move on to the Food Pantry. Since I have
begun turning myself over to needing to hitch, I am listening more to the urges
that tell me when I must walk, when I must go to this place or that, because
every move I make, and every moment that I stand still, has everything to do
with where the Universe wants me to be- at the right place at the right time-
to meet that one who is going to give the ride. At this point in the journey,
however, I have decided to let go of the idea that I will get a ride with my
packages all the 4 miles home. Even though there is some pain in my right hip
joint every time I take a step forward, I have resolved that I will find a way
to take each step in such a way that my body will be able to carry me home. I’m
here in town, now, so I have no other choice. I reason with myself that, if I
transfer all or most of my weight onto my left leg as I take a step and lead
with my left, then the burden on my right hip will subside. I walk with my
l;eft leg leading my advancement all the way up the next couple of blocks, down
the hill to the church basement where the Good Neighbor Food pantry is housed.

The line of people waiting in the Food Pantry runs down
along the corridor unto the back office door. Twenty or so are leaned up
against the wall, bags in hand, waiting to be called into the pantry room. I
walk halfway down the hall to the sign in table on my left, print and sign my
mane, and mark in the columns to the right of my name how many adults and how
many children in my household. One, and one. The volunteer asks for my name and
twice I must phonetically repeat my last name to her, “Will-kerr-son”She finds the index card bearing my name on
the front underneath of which is marked, “1A, 1C” This marking lets the
volunteer who oversees the coolers of frozen itemsdetermine how many of frozen items I am allowed to take. One
package of frozen meat, perhaps one package of fresh frozen pasta, etc. I
continue down the hall, cheerfully greeting the many people I know from town
standing there. After making a selection from the coolers, one package of
frozen ground turkey and a package of plain cheese ravioli, I take my place at
the end of the line.

Almost every long time Woodstock local is either in this
line, or will either be in this line later this afternoon, or they were here yesterday.
Artists, writers, single mothers, older women, guys on the street- we are all
here. We are standing in line for many minutes it seems and it has not been
moving forward. I hear some folks near the front of the line talking about,
“What’s taking so long?” and this talk of course quickly spreads down the ranks
to back where I am standing. I could easily be swept up in the mass complaint,
seeking camaraderie through negativity.I know that I do not want to participate in this sort of movement, so I take
a deep breath before I am swept away in it, and move the focus of my attention
to the area of my thymus. This has become a regular opportunity for me to stay
Present. I focus on how thankful I feel for all of the women who volunteer
their time to be here. I know that they need this appreciation and light. And
who really could complain about Free Food? Well, apparently most of the people
in this line can. I have witnessed much negative energy directed to their
energy fields. I find a point on the floor a few inches in front of my toes,
let my eyes rest upon this point and I breathe into my heart and out of my
base.

The older woman standing in front of me in line is the
mother of 6 or 7 children, a few of whom I knew from around town, many years
ago.She is talking with the woman who
is overseeing the coolers about sex education. The volunteer, who regularly
barks good humored “orders” at the people in line, has said several times, “Can
you tell I was a high school teacher?” Since she has mentioned this frequently
in the quarter hour that I have been here, I am noting that this is a part of
her life was of an importance to her. She is now retired. The mention that she
taught Health, although I would have thought “Gym”, has sparked this discussion
between herself and the woman ahead of me.The woman ahead of me is complaining that sex education was never taught
to her generation in school, and that it doesn’t seem like the schools are
doing a very good job at it now.

I continue to focus on keeping my energies drawn unto
myself, for I have nothing to contribute to this line, although I can sense
that I am silently being invited to chime in on how horrible it is.

I am listening politely when the glances land on me but I do
not speak until it seems that the women have exhausted all that can be said in
the matter, and my former friend’s mother turns to me and asks, “What do you
think of this? Were you taught about this in school?”

I pause to myself, draw a breath and slowly open my mouth to
reply, carefully measuring the output of my emotional energies with utterance
of each syllable, for I sense that the way that I choose to now engage them is
being heavily scrutinized.

“Well… I grew up with a single mother, who had very
promiscuous friends…”

“So you heard a lot…” the woman ahead of me jumps in.

I take another breath and pause. “Well, yes. I knew about
sponges and such and what music they had sex to.”

They both just look at me, waiting. I continue, “And when I
was fifteen and I decided I was going to have sex with my boyfriend, I asked my
godmother to take me to Planned Parenthood, and I had an exam and got all of
the stuff.”

She asks me if my son has learned about this in school.
Another obligatory answer I give, “Well, we homeschool,” this draws the same
half horrified, half fascinated yet astonishedfrown that most people give when I make this statement, “And I have
already taught him about everything, I bought books and had been reading them
to him since he was little. He knows about all of the diseases and how to
protect himself, and be healthy and safe. But he’s a long ways away from those
things.”

Fortunately the line has advanced since this discourse began
and any other chit chat about the usual talk that nearly everyone who doesn’t
homeschool has to give about “socialization” and such, I am able to fluff off.
And soon it dies down to silence. The woman who was ahead of me is called into
the pantry, and I am first and next in line.

“Ok, next two,” calls the woman who I regularly see working
the pantry room.

I, and the woman behind me, go in. I give my usual greeting,
and I am feeling as cheerful as I always do when I am at the Food Pantry. I am
deciding now as I go along how much I should load myself up with, because at
this point I have resolved myself to walk the 4 miles home with my parcels and
aching hip. And I have decided that it doesn’t matter, because I am doing what
needs to be done to get some food for cats and kid.My heart feels so open, and the pantry and the ladies are so
wonderful to be here. I say to the volunteer in the pantry room, which is
really me talking out loud to myself, “I’d better not take too much today. I’m
hitch hiking.”

Another woman is called into the pantry, since someone else
has gone out, and I have nearly made my way around the clockwise circuit of the
room. There are so many wonderful things today: the big Italian heroes that my
son loves, boxes of chocolate milk, parsnips, leeks, scallions, fresh stone
ground sliced wheat bread, yogurt, butter and of course toilet paper and canned
beans and soup. It is such an abundant day. I already have tomatoes and corn
from my CSA share, which I am getting for free this year as a thank you for all
of my years of service to the CSA, so I leave those items. But my bags are overflowing!

“My lady” (the volunteer) says, and I can tell she’s amused
“I thought you weren’t going to take that much- aren’t you hitching?”

I exclaim, like the foolhardy soul that I am, “YES! I am!” I
am laughing at myself, and I don’t care. I’ll take hours to get home with these
awesome bags of food if I have to!

“Do you need a ride?” comes a woman’s voice from behind me.
I turn in that direction to locate the source of that voice.

“Why, YES! I do!” I exclaim in joy.

It feels so natural to me. Like, of course, someone
is offering me a ride at the Food Pantry, because I knew someone would,
and the pendulum and Archangel Michael told me so before I even started
today’s journey. And I am laughing at myself and all of the worry and
foolishness I put myself through in the interm, but such is the way it goes
when one is learning the lessons of Faith and Trust, and Surrender.

The woman, who is older than me and slight in frame with a
tussle of auburn hair, I scurrying about the pantry room gathering up her choices
into her bags. I collide into her a bit as we are getting up items from the
same bin, and I am trying to select which hero my son might like best, the end
piece of the hero bread or the middle section. The woman turns to me and says,
“Ok, well, we have to go.”

I snap to attention and chirp, “Ok, Ok, I’m coming…” and
hurry a sandwich into my bag and one last item or two.

My Gramie, Carrie, never learned to drive, and after my
grandfather died, her sister in law, or sometimes her younger sister, or one of
her children or older grandchildren would come to pick her up to take her
grocery shopping, or to go to the public well to fill up the big jugs of water
for the washing and to drink. She told me once when I was little to “never keep
people waiting when they’re doing you a favor.”I have found that to be sound advice.

I bound into the hallway and the woman calls over her
shoulder, “I have to go to the bathroom, then we’ll go.”

I am happy to wait. Enthralled.

When she comes scurrying back up the hall, I turn to follow
her out of the front door, which always slams closed in a manner I find quite
startling. I follow her to a bright blue Toyota of some sort, and she instructs
me to put my bags wherever. She tells me that she is going as far as the Bearsville
Post Office, which is still two miles from my apartment and I enthusiastically
say that that is just fine and that I am so grateful for the ride. I start to
move over the letters and papers and mail that is on the passenger side seat,
but she barks a bit not to move anything. I inquire if she is sure that she
doesn’t mind me sitting on all of her papers as I might crush them. She replies
that it is fine, so I sit on down and then find somewhere to place my feet
amongst the things that clutter the floor, careful not to disturb or to harm
any of it.

I am aware of my energy field here. I am aware of scaling it
back. The joy of the manifestation of this ride has made me feel very large,
expanded. I observe that the woman is shirking a bit. I do not wish to upset
her balance, so I pull myself in again, like in the waiting line. I am careful
not to be too forward with any small talk, keeping it to my usual of what has
happened to my car, that I am a single mom and such, and how that is why I am
hitching. She says that she has also hitched a lot in the past and that she
told herself that when she got this car that she would give people rides. I
tell her that I also used to pick people up and how I sure appreciate it.

There is a car traveling very close to her rear bumper. I
see her looking in her rear view mirror. She is not driving slowly, nearly
about the 45 mph limit.

“Maybe I should speed up,” she says to herself. The car
behind pulls out to pass on a double yellow line.

I say, “They’re just impatient. It’s not your problem.”

She says that she likes to drive slow because she feels more
comfortable with that. She tells me that the first time she ever drove really
fast, or faster than the speed limit because she was “trying to keep up” with
the other speeding traffic, she got a speeding ticket.

I chuckle. I say something to reassure her that it is always
best to follow her own feelings about things.Never mind what everyone else is doing. She smiles.

We are at the place where the highway forks right. My road
forks left.She slows down, I am
assuming because she wants to prepare to pull into the post office parking lot
which is on the immediate left after the highway takes its bend.

“Which way?” she says.

I’m confused for a second, because I think that she must be
confused. I thought that she knew where the Bearsville Post Office was.

Pointing off to the right, I say, “The post office is over
there.”

She says, “No, to your house.”

“Oh, I thought you were going to let me off at the post
office… Really, it’s ok… I’m just a couple miles up… I really appreciate
getting this far….” I answer.

She says, “No, I’ll take you home. Which way?”

“Left.”

She tells me that she used to live much further up my road,
that she used to drive this road every day and as far as I live is no big deal
to take me there, and did I know the Birch Tree apartments. That is where she
used to live. I say yes, I knew some folks who lived there, and I’d almost
considered moving there, but the walls seemed to be like paper, and “Is that
true?” I ask. She says that it is true about the walls and I say how incredibly
disturbing that must have been, to hear everything that goes on next door. She
says that it was. I should know, but I don’t tell her about where I used to
live. There is no need for me to initiate negative commiserating.

It’s a two mile ride and we talk a bit more, mostly about
some of her troubles and I reassure her. I show her where to slow down to be
ready to make the turn into the driveway. She stops her car at the end of the
driveway.

I say, “What’s your name?”

“Robin.” She says.

I reach out my hand, “I’m Ursula.”

She shakes my hand, “Nice to meet you.”

I say the same.

As I am gathering my bags from the back seat, I tell her of
my “wish’ to get a ride home from the pantry, and how she was the answer to my
prayer. Incredulously, she replied, “Well, I could use some prayers.”

I said, “I’ll pray for you.”

“Thank you,” she says.

I say, “Do you want me to help you get out? There’s a lot of
bushes at the end of the drive…”

“No, I’ll be fine.”

“Well, have a good night, Robin. Thank You!”

She takes a three-point turn to right the direction of the
car and is soon turning right out of the driveway. In a moment her car has
disappeared from view.

I walk across the lawn and climb the stairs to the
apartment. I put the key into the knob and turn the handle. It’s quiet, but I
know that my son is in his room doing something on his computer. I go to the
kitchen and set the heavy bags down on the linoleum floor. I take in a deep
breath and let out an audible sigh. I look up to check the time on the big
yellow clock.

06 July 2014

I am very appreciative that, when I was 24 years old, Susun
Weed﻿ had ASKED me to apply for the scholarship for women of color and come
apprentice with her, which I did over the summer of my 25th birthday. ONE of
the important lessons I learned was the POWER and Importance of the words,
"I HEAR YOU" And not just saying them, but REALLY Hearing, some call
it Deep Listening.

Human beings go through a gamut of experiences while
incarnated- there is pain and loss, elation and joy- and you know what? NONE of
it is "Wrong"- GROWTH is a PROCESS, and the Wise Woman does not seek
or attempt to fade or fix the pain that another may be going through on their
growth journey.

But to lend an ear, to be an impartial Witness to another's
rage, tears, anguish- without shirking away, without running to hide, to stand
with a Kindred in the fierceness of that transformative fire and not be burned,
and say, "I Hear You. I See You. I can't change this for you, but I am
Here. I am Present."I have been
this person. People have been this person for me.

And then, sometimes, there is someone, or someones, who have
been in your experience, who are now at a higher plateau, who not only say,
"I Hear You." They say, "Take My Hand. I Will Guide You to the
Next Threshold." And you go, and at the point of crossing, you let go of
the helping hand and you Cross to the next level. I have been this person too.
And people have been this person for me.

Today, not for the first time mind you, I realize that I am
NOT going to be perfect, though I am pretty God-Blessed GOOD. I have a lot of
Light and Love that moves through me unto the world. But, I also have pain and
darkness because I am Human. I do not mind sharing my vulnerability, for there
is truly no human, nor dark soul who can hurt me. But it is in this sharing,
this baring of truth, that all of can feel more comfortable with the warts (ie-
darkness, negativity, depression, sadness, imperfection, etc.), even while we
are applying the soothing balm of healing medicine to them…

I have been a very solitary being all of my life, never the
one to run with a crowd. I cherish my alone time, and I tend to need a lot of
it, for I seem to spend the bulk of my days in some sort of meditation or
prayerful state. BUT the events of this life over the past year have shook me
down, shook loose so much- if not all- of the structures by which I have been
living my life. And in the way that is the Universe/Life- I am being TOLD that
it is Time to get out of this cave, be brave, and Ask, instead of being afraid
of being hurt (as I have been again and again in my pre SR past), or not
wanting to risk being vulnerable- for Spirit is ALWAYS here no matter what- and
this Awakening into the NEED for Community to get on Together, even as small
clusters of Soul Families and Like-Souled-Minded Individuals, is GLOBAL. It is
the Future of Humanity. We are the pioneers taking those tentative steps
forward, and many steps back, like a toddler learning to be confident with the
new skill of Walking. This is the Mandate of the Soul of the World Herself. And
I, one of her Sister/daughters, even in my tiny human, yet Vast Eternal
Beingness, AM indeed one of these “toddlers” trying to take these new steps.

Community does not mean at all that anyone is going to be
robbed of their individuality, or individual needs or expression. It is a
coming together, in non-judgmental support of Others, be they others with whom
we feel resonance are to whom are drawn, and even those with whom we share
nothing except the Planet.

A Musing on the Blessings (hopefully) of Hardship, and
search for Community

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Our Soul's alignment with our Highest Path and Purpose can sometimes be blocked and/or restricted by choices we have made while in a physical incarnation. Oftentimes these choices were made lifetimes ago but the energetic effects are still being felt in our lives. The information that I received in my own Soul Realignment TM Soul Profile Reading resonated with me deeply, and my perspective immediately shifted. As I looked back over the events of my life, I could understand the how's and the why's of certain behaviors I exhibited in a broader context- from the perspective of an eternal being in a co-creative experience of being human. It was no longer an intellectual concept, the eternal nature of my essential self- it became an Inner Knowing, right down to my cellular structures. I began to feel more compassion towards myself and less judgemental about choices I made, or didn't make, and a growing appreciation for my life just as it is. I arrived deeper into the knowledge that I am indeed the creator or the writer of my life story, and so far it's a pretty good one. I anticipate the story to unfold in epic proportion! Yours can, too! Wow!

Within one month's time after my own Realignment, I experienced a strong inner prompting to enter the course myself to become a practitioner. This nearly drove my rational mind mad with doubts- why would I do such a thing, spend my last hard earned dollars on this course? What a leap of faith I was being asked to take. I looked over the edge and knew that I was being asked to jump, but I didn't see any net. I jumped anyway. The inner push was so strong, undeniable- I had to follow it into the unknown. My life has begun to change in the most beautiful ways, and I feel like this journey is just beginning...

How about you? There is so much we can do, be, have, experience. Your Higher Self is calling. Shall we become the Human Beings that our Precious Earth is asking us to become, to be of assistance in this Time of Planetary Transformation? Can we rise to the challenge of this Great Work? Yes. We have many helpers in Spirit who want to assist us, and we have an innate ability to tap into the Stream of Divine Love that is the substance we were created from. It is Infinite and always available. Double Wow!

Any healing of the Earth and Her Creatures must start within each individual human being. There is much Love and Support for you...
Blessings,Rev. Ursula Carrie

"Mastering the Art of Manifesting" Wayne Dyer at Wanderlust's Speakeasy