Calibre appears to be working properly, but my iPod is not connecting automatically. All attempts to connect manually have failed. Clearly I am doing something wrong.

* How can I check if I have the correct IP address? When I used "whatsmyipaddress.com" that IP address resulted in "cannot connect to server" error messages. I then went to System Prefs -> Network and used the IP address listed there -- as in "AirPort is connected to MyNetwork and has the IP address 192.xxx.x.y" This seemed to connect (at least, no error message), but no Calibre Library, either.

* Do I need to do anything in System Prefs -> Sharing? I'm afraid to touch anything there since I'm not sure what I'm doing.

Another not-so-bright question: how would someone who knows very little about networking and has a rather tricky home network (handled mostly by my DH) determine the IP address for the machine Calibre is set as server on?

Another not-so-bright question: how would someone who knows very little about networking and has a rather tricky home network (handled mostly by my DH) determine the IP address for the machine Calibre is set as server on?