Is it worth it

11-21-2008, 06:53 AM

nc45

Is it worth it

Hello I’ve subscribed to this website for quite some time now and I have read many posts about PE, but one thing few people mention (or at least in what I have read) is why??Why this obsession to be big!! I mean don’t get me wrong I would like to have a big dick as much as the next guy(I wouldn’t be here if I didn’t) but what is the purpose, beside the obvious of having the pride of knowing that you have a big er dick that most people, I ask all of you out there that have an above average size.is it worth it!does it really make a difference!does it really help that much in the bedroom?? I mean since you started doing PE has the increase of size helped you significantly?. I want to know if it is that help full in plea sin the girls?I’m not that experienced yet and I’m just below average in size and I have only been with a few girls which I have satisfied(I think.or so I’ve been told),so I want to know if it is it really worth all those exercises 40 min a day, jelqing,stretching,etc.I what all of you who where below average and now are above average,all those experienced in PE to share with me your wisdom and tell me is it worth it?

Please answer honestly, and if it is worth it I have only 2 questions,how much can I expect it to grow and in how much time?

11-21-2008, 07:06 AM

Funderburke

Like you, I am not above average, but I’m about average when it comes to length and width, so I’m not sure if you want my two cents; however, there are many reasons for wanting a bigger dick for me personally. First and foremost, I want it because I am terribly insecure about it, as I feel most of us are or else no one would be here, and I have finally found a solution to the problem. Sure part of this insecurity stems from my desire to impress women, but I think a big dick has little to do with satisfying a woman. In all honesty, I think that I am a very good lover, but I just want her eyes to light up and think “that shit’s ferocious!” With all the innuendo and sex talk out there, I would rather be on the other side of the conversation in terms of people making remarks about little penises, so to answer your question, yes it is worth it, if only for piece of mind. I would walk to the ends of the earth, at 3 mph, to have a bigger penis. Hope this helps and good luck. Shit, now I’ve inspired myself all over again… got to get back to pulling on my dick.:thumbs:

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11-21-2008, 07:09 AM

Funderburke

I didn’t see the bottom portion of your comment, so I’ll answer that now. Don’t expect to gain anything in any specific time… some people gain fast and others slow. Regardless, one thing I have noticed from reading a ridiculous amount of posts on this site is that everyone, who has been consistent, has gained in some form over time. They key, they say, is consistency, and I for one believe them.

If you get invited to your first orgy, don't just show up nude. That's a common mistake. You have to let nudity "happen."

11-21-2008, 09:36 AM

Enich

Aside that it can help with EQ, and that implies help at the bedroom, the size of the unit it just for oneself, it’s something I do for selfsteem, for me, not for the others. On the other hand, it may like some girls to see a 8x6 dick, but you also can satisfy her with a 6x4 or less, so that’s not the point.

I hope I made clear my point, if you really do PE, you do it for yourself. You can expect to grow exactly the TIME you spend doing PE (months, years).

11-21-2008, 12:26 PM

marinera

If you are wondering, probably it’s not worth for you. Being a little bigger than average is good in sex, all other things being equal. Being huge it’s not helpful in sex, and could be a disadvantage in some cases. I’m basing on my own experience, of course, others could agree or not. Also, there are many thread about this topic.

Basically, as Enich said, we do PE for ourselves, not for our partners.

11-21-2008, 03:29 PM

kegeler elf

Originally Posted by nc45

Hello I’ve subscribed to this website for quite some time now and I have read many posts about PE, but one thing few people mention (or at least in what I have read) is why??Why this obsession to be big!! I mean don’t get me wrong I would like to have a big dick as much as the next guy(I wouldn’t be here if I didn’t) but what is the purpose, beside the obvious of having the pride of knowing that you have a big er dick that most people, I ask all of you out there that have an above average size.is it worth it!does it really make a difference!does it really help that much in the bedroom?? I mean since you started doing PE has the increase of size helped you significantly?. I want to know if it is that help full in plea sin the girls?I’m not that experienced yet and I’m just below average in size and I have only been with a few girls which I have satisfied(I think.or so I’ve been told),so I want to know if it is it really worth all those exercises 40 min a day, jelqing,stretching,etc.I what all of you who where below average and now are above average,all those experienced in PE to share with me your wisdom and tell me is it worth it?

Please answer honestly, and if it is worth it I have only 2 questions,how much can I expect it to grow and in how much time?

With a right-at or just above average starting size, I can say that personally it has been worth the time investment to get into the above average range. Prior to finding Thunders, I was concerned about the size of my unit, but short of surgery I didn’t think there was any chance that I could do anything about it. Because of porn, locker room jokes, and a couple of girls, I had allowed myself to have a distorted view about penis size in general. Reading these forums, full of stories from guys that have the same concerns/insecurities as I do has helped give me some perspective. As an added bonus it has made me determined to do something about my size, for a couple of reasons. Now I know that I absolutely can increase my size, and because I want to please my significant other in a way that I feel I haven’t quite been able to do. Since the world is full of different people, everyone’s answers and motivations will be different. But I think it helps to look for the similarities.As to how much you can expect to grow over time.. If you are into statistics check out a post by Tube Size’s PE data analysisThe data he used was collected from Thunders stats database, but the big unknown that the data doesn’t represent is, how dedicated to your routine are you. Because I think that is the biggest factor in answering the last part of your question.

I think the biggest increase will be in self confidence whether you gain .25 or 2+ inches. The knowledge that you are bigger and made yourself bigger is very comforting. To know that perhaps there is no limit will open many doors for you mentally. The confidence will translate into all things, work, social interactions, sex, goals in life. This is the bigger reward of PE in my opinion and not just a few more increases of dimensions in flesh.

Humans are competitive by nature, that is how the current gene pool has survived this long. Does it help anything if you looked more handsome, fitter, taller, leaner, smarter, confident? Yes, within sex and everthing else.

Thai, great point. The KNOWLEDGE that you can do better is really the most satisfying part of doing this. It makes your day in day out work easier…just knowing that you can get where you want if you work hard enough.

great responses. I can give my personal two cents worth. About two years ago I was getting into a lot of sex with women that prefered guys on the larger size. They were totally unrealistic about size and thought I was about 7” but would go on and on about this guy with a 9 incher and how much fun it was. it was ridiculous the women this guy got just because he was known as having a huge cock. I personally knew at least 25 very hot strippers that he got without even buying them a drink. So I’d say if one is married in a committed relationship then this pursuit is probably a lot less advantagous. If you can however sport an above average unit women will talk and u will get more opportunities.

One thing I will mention is that having a larger penis can open up more positions and make them easier to manage. I can get in good on the missionary position and probably please many women as much as a guy with something bigger. but taking a women from behind some of them don’t make it real easy for you. Depending on the angle of approach having an extra few inches would probably help.

Where I’m at right now though is that EQ is king. I’m doing this so that I can perform well and get the maximum out of the size I have. I”m expecting gains and will keep working on it but even just the EQ benefits alone are enough reason to do the work.

Yeah it’s good if you don’t have to worry about insecurities anymore. Yeah it’d be good to now that an ex couldn’t say “he had a small dick anyway”. Yeah it’d be good to have confidence when others see you nude. But I think all of that can be achieved with a 7-8 inch length x 5.5 + girth. Very few of the people here have 3-4 inch penises (the REAL people who need to be doing PE). If they are here, they are very quiet and don’t post much.

So why is it that most people (myself included) want 8-9 inches of meat between their legs? Vanity basically. Or Ego. Or body dysmorphic disorder.

Is it worth it? Depends if it’s worth it for you. What are your goals. It’s definately alot of time to be spending while obsessed on one body part. You can expect to gain 1 inch per year in a best case scenario, if you do consistant and patient hard work. And lots of reading and searching on this forum. I’m talking hours and hours of reading, to have a wide knowledge base to work from. Judging by the tone of your post I would say you are not ready for it, but maybe it might not hurt to give it a try.

I’ll expand a bit more on why I do PE. Even if I get to a size above average (or already have it) I will want more, because since I’ve been young I’ve been very horny and into sex. Maybe more then the average guy, or maybe every guy is like this I don’t know. For me having a bigger penis is more of a turn on and enhances the experience. If you are able to masturbate using your thumb and index finger that’s not much of a turnon. And might be more visually and physically pleasing for your partner. So having a big penis would be nice.

And yeah ego and vanity has a part in it as well. You do see some people though still thinking of themselves small when they have a monster penis, if someone with an 8 incher feels small how does Mr 4 inch feel?

I started out barely at 6” BPEL and a little less that 5” EG, which is more or less average. Not bad, but there were many reasons I wanted a bigger dick.

1.) I felt really small in the locker room. I’m a pretty big, hairy guy and I felt like my penis didn’t fit me. I felt that guys lost some respect for me when they saw that I wasn’t packing much (my flaccid was really small).

2.) I wanted to disprove the idea about foot size relating to penis size. I’m 6’ tall and have size 9 1/2 shoes, kind of irregular. I get a lot of jokes about having a small dick when people hear how small my feet are. Now that I’m a bit above average it doesn’t bother me anymore, but I’d love to have a girl have to tell her friends “ummm, by the way, foot size doesn’t matter…”. Because, honestly, it doesn’t.

3.) I knew that when I found a girl that I really liked, I would want to be everything she wanted. I could never stand for anything about me to just be “average”, she would deserve better than that. I don’t want her to feel like she’s missing something.

4.) There’s a certain sense of security having a big dick. You can shake off small dick jokes like nothing because you know you could show the guy up if you wanted. But you don’t because it doesn’t bother you.

5.) It would be fun. Use your imagination, I don’t think I have to say anything else.

All in all, it’s worth it to me. I don’t want to just satisfy a girl - I want to impress her. I want to have something that I can be proud of, something that I always have going for me. That’s it.

And I want to sing this song whenever I’m down :) :

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11-22-2008, 10:53 AM

CubanB

Bahahhaha great video. Should be the official theme song for Thunders and play in the background whenever you log on.