Get Your Partner In A Sexual Mood

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Offering to rub her body down or asking her to rub yours is another way to arouse the senses. The thought of your bodies touching and rubbing (not to mention breathing heavily on her back and neck) can turn a massage into an adulterated sensual romp.

Rubbing her back, neck, arms, and thighs can heighten her sexual senses like you can't imagine. Also, her loosening the tension in your muscles can stimulate your sensations, which will energize you for some heated action.

You can even incorporate scents (see above) into the mix by purchasing scented massage oils. An amazing massage and the smell of vanilla? She will truly be putty in your hands.

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What about some visual stimulation to get the mood started? Movies and erotic programs need not be graphic and blatantly sexual; perhaps just the innuendo can be enough to stimulate the senses.

Anyone who has seen 91/2 Weeks, Wild Orchid, Body Of Evidence, or Eyes Wide Shut knows that you don't need pornography to get aroused. Because brazen sex movies offend some women, opt for eroticism instead. And don't fast forward to the sex scenes — just wait a while and she'll begin to fidget soon enough.

Perhaps you can suggest that the two of you can mimic what you're watching, or better yet, turn the damned thing off and make your own home movie .

flattery, my dear watson

Everyone loves to hear wonderful things about themselves. If she told you that your biceps look exceptionally large today, you would have that extra boost of confidence, wouldn't you? Well if you tell her that her thighs look so toned and her lips look so full today, she may wrap those thighs around you and those lips around your member.

Don't be obvious with your compliments; instead try to flatter her in an original way. If she has been going to the gym religiously, make a positive comment about a body part. If she is wearing a new outfit, tell her how great her butt looks in it.

The point is to attempt to make her feel sexy without saying she's sexy . Men always tend to complain that their women don't want to have sex often enough, but no man ever thought of making her feel sexy. The fact that you want to sleep with her, as hard as it may be to believe, is not enough.

There you have it, all neatly wrapped up in a quaint little article. Buying her sexy lingerie, telling her she's hot and taking off all your clothes to hint at what you want is great some of the time, but to keep her interested, you must ensure that she knows you're attracted to all of her — not just her breasts and vagina.