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how do you feel affection?

Posted by Anonymous

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Are you a physical, mental, or emotional? I'm a physical. I need physical touch to feel love and affection from my fiance. I also have skin hunger? I think that's what its called. If I go a few days without sex with df I get really aggitated and moody. I need the closeness. Wet used to always have sex and snuggled. But lately sex is once a week. And I go to snuggled him, and he says no. He thinks everytime I touch him its sexual. Like I'm a sex addict. No, I'm a physical contact addict. I need warm skin to skin contact. God I'm moody right now.

I need the emotional contact along with the physical contact. For me, the physical act of sex has zero meaning if I don't also have an emotional connection to my partner. Yes, I might experience a physical release w/having just sex, but w/o that connection to my partner, mentally & emotionally I'll still be feeling dissatisfied & left wanting more, kwim?

You need to get your DF to communicate his feelings/needs to you to find out why the sudden change in his sex drive. Is he feeling pressured & stressed? Is there a problem at work or with family? Or is he just bored with your sex life? If you can get him to talk & open up, it will be better for both of you.

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