The idea of this game/activity is to show the "games people play in relationships & marriages". Men are known to be better players than women as such they get away with pretty much everything & even brag about it in their songs, movies, books & real life.

Most times, women are perceived as the weaker sex with lot of emotional imbalances. This activity is for participants to find themselves in a scenario and battle it out convincingly from their own perspective. Maybe that way, people can get inside the heads of the opposite sex; be more understanding & knowledgeable about things happening around us. This is a challenge for women to showcase their IQ & tactfulness. It’s not meant to be offensive or crude; it’s a realistic activity that would be carried out by down to earth participants or "players". This is no bible club, fantasy or fairy-tale…………..but realities of relationships(the good, bad & ugly).

Ladies, men think they are the master of the game, show them who run sizzle!

1 boy & 1 girl would be paired up together as a team. The girls would pick 1 scenario question each from the list, They are to answer it or tell us steps they will take to resolve it(as per how they would play the game if they were in that situation).

Their team mate(guy) would rebut it and show the audience all the loopholes in the girl's game & how easy a guy will nullify her actions & have her kissing his palm. The girl & guy would argue back and forth to convince the audience who are the better game players- men or women.

The guy's job is to put his team player in a tight corner and maintain the superiority mantle for men. The girl's job is to stand her grounds to the last till she wins the superiority mantle for women. No holds barred- they will curse if they need to, use fowl languages, pidgin, ghetto & act straight-up gangstar. Street fight is allowed. Its going to be very real, down to earth & may contain sexual content. Men think they know it all but I know nairaland women are equal to the task. The following are participants/Contestants:

TEAM BROTHERHOOD:Okija_jujuDayokanuJaybeeTellwisdomMr EverestBreezy047KpolliCoogarDammytexDenzel2009Seedord247DonguuttiMasterpiecerBorn2fuck

TEAM CHARLIE'S ANGELSOgugua88RonkebpShollypopzSlimyemIdowuogboFreecocoaIleke-idiQueensmithCowgurlSosoluvPearl~hapiKandiikaneInked_nerdMichelin89

Participants/Contestants, please let me know your availability(i.e. date & time) for this activity. Also let me know if you are interested or not on time so that others can participate. If you are interested please let me know. I will update everyone as it unfolds.

playerA male who is skilled at manipulating ("playing&quot others, and especially at seducing women by pretending to care about them, when in reality they are only interested in sex. Possibly derived from the phrases "play him for a fool", or "play him like a violin". The term was popularized by hip-hop culture, but was commonly recognized among urban American blacks by the 1970s.

playera guy who: (1) doesn't understand the meaning of relationship (2) is in full reproductive mode (3) is very good at making girls think he is into them (also very proficient at breaking said girls hearts) (4) often "dates" several girls at several schools (girls are often unaware of each other) (5) is an asshole!

David was so sweet, and said the sweetest things. Then I heard horrible rumors about him. I tried confronting him and he just criticized me! Then, Jenny told me he was all over another girl at a party! I can't believe he turned out to be such a player!

"omg Andy N is such a player, he wanted to hookup with me and once we did he just stopped talking to me and moved on to the next girl!"

"damn, that guy just stole the other guys girlfreind and now she's walkin off with him and leaving the boyfreind in the dust!! and that was only after he talked to her for five minutes while the boyfreind went to get drinks!! that guy is forshiiiiiiiiizzzzzle a player"

"I fell in love with a player, he broke my heart... but yet, I still can't forget him"

"Hayden is such a player, he dated Aubrey then dumped her three weeks later for Kassie, then he broke up with her for you. Uou guys won't last a week. Said Jessica's concerned friend"

"Ladies, no gamer-player is going to admit to playing games and if a man is a player, he is not going to admit to you he is one, that will defeat the purpose. Any man will say he's a good man whether true or not. If a man sees a benefit in playing games and telling a lie, why tell the truth? Its so true, you can't tell a book by it's cover so you must take the time to look below surface, open the book, and see if you are on the same page".

Most guys are players until that one special girl comes along that makes them lose their game

"Guys that were once faithful arent so anymore just because of the simple fact that they want to look cool and be players like their buddies".

"Wow, I thought that guy was my true love, but after we had se x he left me...what a player"

This is very interesting and would really follow this thread to see how it goes, however its not my thing to participate in such things as am . . . . . I will let it pass but thanks so much for the invitation and looking forward to participate in your other games but not this.

Pharoh: This is very interesting and would really follow this thread to see how it goes, however its not my thing to participate in such things as am . . . . . I will let it pass but thanks so much for the invitation and looking forward to participate in your other games but not this.

1 boy & 1 girl would be paired up together as a team. The girls would pick 1 scenario question each from the list, they are to answer it or tell us steps they would use to resolve it(as per how they would play the game if it were them in the situation).awwww me I love dis

Their team mate(guy) would rebut it and show the audience all the loopholes in the girl's game & how easy a guy will nullify her actions & have her kissing his palm. The girl & guy would argue back and forth to convince the audience who is a better game player- men or women.

The guy's job is to put his team player in a tight corner and maintain the superiority mantle for men. The girl's job is to stand her grounds to the last till she wins the superiority mantle for women. No holds barred- they will curse if they need to, use fowl languages, pidgin, ghetto & act straight-up gangstar. Street fight is allowed. Its going to be very real, down to earth & may contain sexual content. Men think they know it all but I know nairaland women are equal to the task. The following are participants/Contestants:

TEAM BROTHERHOOD:Okija_jujuDayokanuJaybeeTellwisdomPhaorahBreezy047KpolliCoogarDammytexDenzel2009Seedord247DonguittiMasterpiecerBorn2fuck

TEAM CHARLIE'S ANGELSOgugua88RonkebpShollypopzSlimyemIdowuogboFreecocoaIleke-idiQueensmithCowgirlSosoluvPearl-hapiKandiikaneInked_nerdMichelin89

Participants/Contestants, please let me know your availability(i.e. date & time) for this activity. Also let me know if you are interested or not on time so that others can participate. If you are interested please let me know. I will update everyone as it unfolds.

1 boy & 1 girl would be paired up together as a team. The girls would pick 1 scenario question each from the list, they are to answer it or tell us steps they would use to resolve it(as per how they would play the game if it were them in the situation).awwww me I love dis

Their team mate(guy) would rebut it and show the audience all the loopholes in the girl's game & how easy a guy will nullify her actions & have her kissing his palm. The girl & guy would argue back and forth to convince the audience who is a better game player- men or women.

The guy's job is to put his team player in a tight corner and maintain the superiority mantle for men. The girl's job is to stand her grounds to the last till she wins the superiority mantle for women. No holds barred- they will curse if they need to, use fowl languages, pidgin, ghetto & act straight-up gangstar. Street fight is allowed. Its going to be very real, down to earth & may contain sexual content. Men think they know it all but I know nairaland women are equal to the task. The following are participants/Contestants:

TEAM BROTHERHOOD:Okija_jujuDayokanuJaybeeTellwisdomPhaorahBreezy047KpolliCoogarDammytexDenzel2009Seedord247DonguittiMasterpiecerBorn2fuck

TEAM CHARLIE'S ANGELSOgugua88RonkebpShollypopzSlimyemIdowuogboFreecocoaIleke-idiQueensmithCowgirlSosoluvPearl-hapiKandiikaneInked_nerdMichelin89

Participants/Contestants, please let me know your availability(i.e. date & time) for this activity. Also let me know if you are interested or not on time so that others can participate. If you are interested please let me know. I will update everyone as it unfolds.

Scenario 1-You forgot to drop the call after a conversation with your boyfriend. You started misyarning about him to your friends who are visiting, confessing how you play him and spend his money & how you intend to continue using him (You know the way women gossip and all).

For some reason you look down, you see he is still online and hasn't hung up, he probably heard everything.

A) Would you say "hello" to him or ask if he is still there or would you cut off the phone? What are the steps you will take to resolve the issue?B) Assuming you said "hello" and he replies, “yes I am here” and he cuts off the phone. What will you do?

Whatever steps you decide to take must cement your relationship. Ensure he doesn't break up with you!!!!

This is how I intend to resolve the issue:I will pay him a visit at his place immediately. I will explain to him that my friends & I were rehearsing a line from the church drama coming up soon. I will prepare his favorite meal & clean his apartment. I trust that would sort things out and our relationship will still be intact. I am so good at my game that I trust it would work like magic.

[b]Male Participant -

What do you take men for? Do you think men are stupid? That rubbish you just spewed won't solve anything or cement our relationship. I will have my fill of you sexually and dump you afterwards because you are a lying scheming b*tch.

Scenario 1-You forgot to drop the call after a conversation with your boyfriend. You started misyarning about him to your friends who are visiting, confessing how you play him and spend his money & how you intend to continue using him (You know the way women gossip and all).

For some reason you look down, you see he is still online and hasn't hung up, he probably heard everything.

A) Would you say "hello" to him or ask if he is still there or would you cut off the phone? What are the steps you will take to resolve the issue?B) Assuming you said "hello" and he replies, “yes I am here” and he cuts off the phone. What will you do?

Whatever steps you decide to take must cement your relationship. Ensure he doesn't break up with you!!!!

This is how I intend to resolve the issue:I will pay him a visit at his place immediately. I will explain to him that my friends & I were rehearsing a line from the church drama coming up soon. I will prepare his favorite meal & clean his apartment. I trust that would sort things out and our relationship will still be intact. I am so good at my game that I trust it would work like magic.

[b]Male Participant -

What do you take men for? Do you think men are stupid? That rubbish you just spewed won't solve anything or cement our relationship. I will have my fill of you sexually and dump you afterwards because you are a lying scheming b*tch.

....its looking more plausible..Lets go there!!...Errrm..Cuddles,are you going to give us different scenarios and make us pick which we'd love to work with or are we going to come up with our own scenarios??

slimyem: ....its looking more plausible..Lets go there!!...Errrm..Cuddles,are you going to give us different scenarios and make us pick which we'd love to work with or are we going to come up with our own scenarios??

When time does this start??Who does the pairing??How do i manipulate you, when I'm missing some basic character trait or valuesShouldn't my partner be required to tell me few things about himself?? (Key facts.)Do we switch partners after some time??Can you request a partner??