"Ain Soph Aur" was a phrase I was asked to remember in the dreams. Remember, remember, remember. My mind had no file for this but my heart seemed familiar with the power of this love. Last year, I found this word in a book and my mind fell into my heart. Ain ("Light"); Ain Soph ("Without Limit"), and; Ain Soph Aur ("Limitless Light"). Within, or beyond, these Veils is everything that is not.

Unbelievable to discover in 1945 the ancient wisdom illustrated in the Nag Hammadi text survived the churches decrees of destruction. Although the patriarchy has tried to destroy her, the divine feminine mysteries of life and love were passed from mother to daughter, generation to generation, a vast lineage of underground wisdom. Stories, songs, jokes and prayers held the sacred truths in the hearts of this feminine wisdom. Allow this article to awaken these truths of love and knowing within you. Our world is calling for you to remember!

My grandmother would make a case for those who were "ill spirited" in saying they can't help who they are. She'd not refer to it as "bad" or "evil" but just misguided. "They only know what they know, maybe their families didn't show them love in the same way yours did. Make no difference with the poor or the troubled, we are all equal in the eyes of God. " She would tell stories of how my great great grandfather would go visit the hospitals and prisons, sit and have prayers with those less fortunate, regardless of their condition or faith. He and my great great grandmother would apparently also house those needing a place to stay and share food and clothing with the sick and hungry. They would challenge that which suppressed equality and helped those remember goodness when they may have forgotten their way.

I remember asking her if we are all equal, why did the church not allow women and homosexuals to be ordained? Why did the congregation fuss over a collar-less minister wearing an earring? and Why was there inter domination rivalry? She simply smiled and said, "they are following old doctrine and set in old ways, it is not the way of God, don't worry about that, they are learning, things are changing." There was a rather rude "joke" I heard repeated a few times close to my home that "it is not God that cares about these trivial details but the God dam people." Truest truths are found in humor. Even after a lifetime in the United Church and 56 years in the choir she allowed the light and love of God to expand out beyond the literal words or the man-made gospels to the fairness and justice of the world. It is to this grandmother wisdom in all of us, to which I speak in this article. It not just the wisdom found in the Sunday morning service but the hidden treasures in the tea cup of the Saturday night stories.

The Nag Hammadi library was accidentally discovered by an Arab peasant in the mountains of the Eqyptian village of Nag Hammadi. Some believe these books are the oldest examples ever found dated somewhere between 60 and 400 CE (Common Era), meaning many were created in the year just after the crucifixion of Christ. Unlike the old testament that was written 500-700 years AFTER the events were supposed to have occurred it was likely a more accurate document. These earlier writings had many of the original teachings that included the Secret Gospel of John, the Gospel of truth and the Gospel of Mary Magdalene just to name a few. The Nag Hammadi library relayed a balanced picture of the masculine and feminine wisdom with the love, honor and respect of women, children, animals and nature that had been removed from the later writings. Nag Hammadi texts captured God as all loving entity one with nature, unlike the many of the Old Testament Scriptures that portrayed the "all-fearing" punishing God witnessed in war, death and disease. In the linear masculine philosophy, God wants you to take an eye for an eye and a tooth for a tooth. Turning the other cheek and loving them anyway, is a feminine concept. Losing the nurturing feminine lens created confusion, lopsided thinking and hindered the holistic vision found in the first writings.

The Inquistion of the Middle Ages, was a brutal example of this perceptual distortion. There were reported five to nine million women put to death by the church for the crime of being attuned to the natural energies of the earth! The natural power of earth medicine was buried in the millions that were killed and driven into silence by those that survived. The "man knows best" idealism took over and the medicine women were replaced by the "all-knowing" male doctor. Still today we see man-made confusion in medicines, vaccines, genetically modified foods and in the geoenginnering of our weather. It would only take a minute to click on these words to know the dangers of glyphosate, naglase, and geo-enginnering for yourselves. The masculine has dominated us because, we have allowed it. To remain dependent upon outside authorities to dictate your destiny, you are at their mercy. Educate yourself, Use natural rhythms as your guide and Take back your power. Despite popular belief, Nature still knows best!!

The wars and injustices continue as our children now born are sicker than the last generation and the predictions for the year 2025 is looking grim. Sistars, I ask you to remember those vows that were born into us, that which was nurtured in you as a child and that which you now pass on to your children..... "DO NO HARM TO OTHERS; TAKE CARE OF THE ANIMALS, PLANTS AND THE EARTH; PROTECT THE CHILDREN." If we are following the 7th generation principle taught by Native Americans, we make no decisions without considering the impact on the next 7 generations. With this commitment, likely you'd be venomously oppose the use of glyphosate found inside our genetically modified foods and in so called "medicines" for public health and be willing to do what it takes to stop the poisoning of the people and the planet. By killing the "good" bacteria in our environment, via the shikimate pathway, we are sterilizing our oceans, destroying soil and the killing the helpful bacteria that maintain the immune system within your babies gut.

In refusing to acknowledge the divine spark within us and around us, we are deaf to this innate wisdom. We pollute waters with neurotoxins of chlorine and fluoride, we alter our food supply and destroy our seeds, we are cruel to the animals we eat, and we surrender our power to a man-made intelligence that is no match for the forces of nature that created our earth. Listen to the whispers of the breeze, the cries of the trees, the law of the land and lead with your heart! The shift of this consciousness, simply begins with your awareness. Remember.

You may have heard that Monsanto is being charged with crimes against humanity but what you may not have heard is that they are going under the covers into bed with the Bayer company. The old boys clubs are joining forces and this merger gives them a monopoly over food and our seed supply. Ladies, pull out all the stops to bring these misguided boys back home. Let them know power and profits are useless pillars without a healthy planet. Educate and illuminate for darkness only survives in our ignorance. Eat non-GMO organic, filter your water, follow nature and share this information.

You can not depend on the medical profession or health departments to help you with these decisions, as their licenses and regulations depend on them injecting your children, ignoring the dangers of genetic modification and following the profit protocol of the pharmeceudical companies that run the government departments. If you question why I know this to be a truth, scroll down to my last blog entry to know my current reality. ( Which reminds me, to take a moment to write a claimer/disclaimer. The views presented here in this blog are mine personally and do not necessarily reflect the views of any associations to which I hold membership.)

The strongest love that has created our humanity to which I can think to appeal is that of YOU...THE MOTHER and FATHER. It is this love for your children and their children's children that I'm certain is shifting the paradigm. Let go of the victim mentality for all that has happened to you in the past. In every crisis there is a blessing. Your crisis was there to shine your certainty, strengthen your love and wisdom and bring you where you are today- armed with wisdom and powered by love. You simply had forgotten your own power and bought into lesser wisdom and understanding. There is no time for judgments, wallowing self pity and emotion, empower yourself, take the lead and make a change.

Mothers, sisters, grandmothers and other keepers of the sacred flame, ask, believe, receive and awaken. My grandmother would probably say..."these rule makers don't know any different, they are disconnected from this feminine knowing of all energy being intertwined. Lovingly, take them by the hand and show them the way." The Nag Hammadi text would seem to concur, "sin" and "evil" are misalignments in our nature and actions that create our own suffering, misfortune and illness. Align to your power and bring your family and friends home you your heart. The new world doctrine is being birthed. The uniting of the feminine and masculine lenses as equal partners in the co-creation of our world vision is the Vescia Piscis, the portal to our new reality.

Notes:1. A well-researched book on this subject that inspired this article is, Return of the Divine Sophia. I highly recommend it for those who wish to know more truth. 2. Nan, you said I would remember you long after you'd gone, and I do. I love you!

The recent events and media attention has prompted this blog post to clarify the details and offer sincere heartfelt thanks for the love and support I've received over the last few weeks. There has been an overwhelming response from friends, patients, parents of vaccine injured children, colleagues in chiropractic and other health disciplines. The degree of challenge meets the magnitude of support in this loving universe. Thank YOU!

I am being investigated by the governing board of my chiropractic profession for social media posts concerning vaccines. There was a complaint made to our local health authority and in doing their due diligence the Board of The Nova Scotia College of Chiropractors must investigate. The situation has attracted international attention as you can see in these three articles. It has been an emotional week sifting through the letters, notes and e-mails arriving in many different moods and colors. I'm having to process my own personal destiny in the midst of defusing and redirecting what is incoming now from an international stage.

As requested by my chiropractic board, I have deleted any vaccine posts on my Oxford Chiropractic Facebook page and Dr. Dena Churchill Innovator... page but to ask me to refrain from sharing health information with my family and friends on my personal page or to close down this blog seems like a breech of my personal rights and freedom of speech!

"Do No Harm” is not just part of the Hippocratic Oath of doctors it is an unspoken truth of humanity. To remain quiet about an issue that the research shows is harmful is not just a moral issue of conscience but makes us accountable to those which we serve. For informed consent to be given ALL the information must be presented not just that which favors the pharmaceutical companies!

The chiropractic board has sent me a fine, will charge me for all administrative costs of this investigation as they decide the fate now of my livelyhood in keeping or removing my license to practice. Going toe to toe with my regulating body, the government and the pharmaceutical companies seems like a perfectly good way to be extinguished but there must be a loving way through to truth and justice, heart to heart.

"The Nova Scotia College of Chiropractors recognizes that vaccination and immunization are established public health practices in the prevention of infectious diseases. Vaccination is not within the scope of chiropractic practice. The appropriate sources for patient consultation and education regarding vaccination and immunization are public health authorities and health professionals with the scope of practice that includes vaccination."

What if the resources to which we are being given are incorrect, outdated and not portraying the complete health picture. Are we negligent in withholding reputable health information resources that we know is important to health? This is not only an assault to ethical and moral obligations but it is an infringement of human rites of freedom of speech. I have sent multiple letters to Prime Minister Justin Trudeau and both provincial and federal health ministers asking for safety studies on glyphosate poison in GMO foods and vaccines and there have been no independent studies presented. Apparently the government guidelines for safety and use of these chemicals appear to be given by the chemical and pharmaceutical companies that make them.

If you have a glass of wine or a cigarette, you know it contains chemicals and heavy metals that are not good for your body, tax your system and repeated exposure contributes to disease. We are familiar with fetal alcohol syndrome or lung cancer because we have lived it. As we learn, we have developed laws governing the age of majority and limited its exposure as many public places are now smoke-free. You have a choice to partake or not. If no one tells you that toxic chemicals are being put into our food, water and vaccines, how will you be able to make an informed decision and act accordingly? For the first time in history this generation being born is sicker than of the last and in 2025 it is expected that 50% of baby born will be autistic if the current trend continues. It seems outrageous that the highest concentration of glyphosate and vaccines are put into babies and baby food and the public health department can't produce any safety studies! On the contrary there are hundreds of studies warning of the harmful effects.

Dr.SexyMom.com title of this site has not been popular in some of the "fan" mail and media I've received, however, the title simply represents the healing wisdom of the feminine divine in a language that will attract those that need it. I chose this rather intimate name to separate my personal views from that my professional designation, as the subject matter I address here may not be appropriate for a general audience. Reader discretion is advised. What I present in this blog is a combination of my personal ideas, inspired thoughts, resources and research findings on intense subject matter that I hope will stimulate independent thought of leaders and free thinkers. You may scroll down the page to see articles on GMO food, cancer, vaccines, sex, sexual slavery and child pornography. I am not claiming to be an authority or give advice on any of these topics, it is simply an invitation to review the research and resources to enable you to author your own life.

I've taken a while to reply to this situation as I've given great care to how my position may have ramifications for the livelihood of my family and friends, my patients, my colleagues and my profession. (Given the recent mysterious deaths of 60 holistic health doctors, I use livelihood in the widest application). Several e-mails have reminded me of this reality. So as not to be burdened with fear, I imagine holistic health doctors are like a wild rose bush, for every rose that is pruned, two more blooms grow back stronger to strengthen the message. Love and truth has a way of surpassing any of the lower realm interference. Love trumps fear. To love deeply and to be committed to a cause greater than ourselves is part of a higher service. Those that know, love and trust in this, will understand my intention. Those that don't, require more love and light.

Photo and message of hope from Collective Evolution website. Share this & Open the lid! http://www.collective-evolution.com/2017/05/09/another-giant-pedophile-ring-busted-900-arrests-300-kids-saved-corporate-media-ignores-it/.

Why are there child sex slave rings? I ask this question because to know why it is present, we may discover the key to it's end. If we believe in a loving universe and that everything is serving a purpose then if we balance our mind to see a way through the darkness of despair, we find answers beyond the fundamental paradigm of black or white thinking.

Reasons for child sex slaverySupply and demand.

1. Money. Sex slavery is the fastest growing criminal business in the world. Sex slavery and human trafficking is a 32 billion dollar industry! Of course those that hold the money also hold the power for making the rules, governing the land and policing the provinces, so it is a challenge to infiltrate or escape the ring. Solution: Transparency for billion dollar industries. Finding them new ways to make money that cater to the greater good of health and evolution of our species and the planet.

2. A society, such as ours, disconnected from purpose seeks pleasures in other forms. It is no different than a drug addiction. The customers of the sex slave business must be missing something of fulfillment from their lives to be needing these services. Solution: Share this information and educate. A society connected with intrinsic pleasures of purpose and intimacy has no tolerance or need for this service.

3. Children are an easy target. Solution: Educate yourself and Teach your children well to protect them. They may be ambassadors for the cause in helping friends escape the glass coffin.

How do you recognize it?Awareness of child sex slaves may be the key to prevention and to the cure! This one article gives the following signs that may be present in a child sex slave. Childhood prostitutes can be of any age but most commonly between the years of 11-18. If they make it to adulthood, they are usually suffering great physical and mental trauma.

1. Working excessively long hours.2. Seeming especially scared, anxious or depressed.3. Not knowing much about his/her whereabouts.4. The person may have few personal possessions.5. Isn't allowed to speak on his or her own behalf.6. Unexplained injuries.

How to report it?Reporting is relatively easy. However, some agencies are more efficient than others so you may report to several to be sure everyone is on the same page.

How to escape the child sex ring. 1. Run away and tell the police. 2. Send notes or messages in an anonymous call to a person having a duty to report (teacher, doctor, nurse, lawyer) or one of the agencies listed above. 3. Keep hope alive in a loving universe that is supporting you through these dark torturous days. Know you are a child of God and this too will pass and make you stronger.4. Know you are not alone but one of 2 million children/year introduced to the the sex slave business. Awareness is growing and the tide is turning. Be brave, stay strong and keep fighting for your freedom. There are many who are here to help you. I love you. You are worth the fight.

The photo is quite telling of our global health crisis. The inspectors of genetically modified corn are wearing biochemical hazard waste suits to protect themselves from the water-soluble glyphosate poison that is being applied to the food, that you will feed your children. Studies with GMO corn shows rats have a 300% increase in tumors and more than 50% decrease in life expectancy.

Glyphosate is the mostly widely sold and applied pesticide in Canada. As of 2016, there were 194 products listed with glyphosate as an active ingredient registered with the Canadian Pest Management Regulatory Agency (PMRA). Of these, 39 are registered for domestic use. The trade names that glyphosate is sold under include: Round-Up®, Rodeo®, Xtreme®, ByeBye Weed®, TotalEx®, Wipe O. It is sprayed over all GMO food and our Nova Scotia government sprays our forest regularly despite public petitions. 38 countries have banned GMO foods and products and 64 countries around the world require GMO labeling. Unfortunately, Canada and USA are not on either list. I'll discuss later in the article, some political agendas that likely account for this negligence.

Up until 1950 there was only organic farming. We weeded, rotated our crops and naturally fertilized soil. Since the development of chemical pesticides and herbicides, our generations have been the test subject in this chemical experiment. Despite our advancements in medical technology, chronic diseases and cancers are on the rise, in kids as well as adults. 1980 added the next layer of the first GMO patent and 1994 the first GMO/ crops went to market.

What is GMO? A Genetically Modified Organism may be plants, animals or humans- whose genetic material has been altered using genetic engineering techniques. GMOs are used to produce many medications, vaccinations, and genetically modified foods. Merging DNA combinations from viruses, bacteria, and other species, scientists play dice with the genome, mixing and matching to create unique outcomes. We have new species of foods and animals created with this modification.

On the surface this testing and playing with nature is intriguing until you understand the ramifications and longer term consequences of our experimentation. Yes, in nature there is the process of natural selection and mating and cross-pollinating of species but it all occurs under the laws of nature. The man-made genetic combinations of problems and the excess for which it allows maybe in a realm for which even nature, knows no cure. Glyphosate in our environment is a planetary example of arrogance to the laws of nature, producing disastrous consequence.

The GMO story. There are three types of genetic modification with foods. 1. BT toxin.Monsanto’s “Bt corn” is equipped with a gene from the soil bacteria Bacillus thuringiensis (Bt), which produces Bt toxin--a pesticide that breaks open the stomach of certain insects and kills them. Not only does this toxin kill the bugs that would eat the plant but it kills healthy bugs and bacteria that live in you. 80% of our immune system is this microbiome. These probiotic bacteria in our gut protect us against invasion of viruses, parasites, harmful bacteria and inhibits cancer cell growth. Exploding the bellies of bugs eventually exploded the belly of the carry host.....you! There are also reports now of this type of modification creating super-bugs resistant to the BT toxin.

2. Round Up Ready. These plants are injected with genetic material from bacteria and e-coli creating unusual and unique risks from traditional breeding. They are engineered to withstand the spraying of the herbicide glyphosate active ingredient of Round Up. A normal plant would die if sprayed with these toxic water-soluble poisons but these "plastic- like" genetically modified plants withstand spraying every 6-8 weeks when there are new weeds. The most detrimental finding is that this water soluble toxin doesn't just sit on the surface of the plant it is goes into the soil killing everything in its path and then is sucked up into the plant so that by the time it reaches your table it has layers of toxin on in and in it that can't be washed off. Glyphosate is a toxic chemical with many health concerns from cancers to autism. These hardy 'Round Up Ready' plants now can take alot more pesticide so the usage of glyphosate has gone up! In addition to increasing poison profits, the Monsanto Company that makes this chemical also patents the GMO seeds. The mega conglomerate has been known to sue organic farmers who may accidentally had the GMO seeds blown in to contaminate their natural farms. What will happen to our natural seed banks that preserve life? Will our food supply be taken over my Monsanto, the maker of DDT and agent orange?

3. Desired trait promoters.The third type of GMO is a crop that doesn’t contain an injected pesticide. Instead, it’s genetically modified for a desired trait. They inject this desired trait, but the problem is that it has two promoters on either end of it. These promoters’ jobs are to wake genes up. Some theorize that these promoters may also wake up latent cancer genes in our bodies. They can create the most vibrant colors, the biggest uniform varieties of most nutrient deficient plastic food and trick you into thinking it is of better quality.

This subject is not as joyful as a sunrise and I regret having to report a little more rain before it gets better. Ready? There are other more global concerns with this glyphosate herbicide. Because it is water soluble poison, it absorbed into the soil, ground water and eventually makes it's way to our oceans, water supplies and humans, animals and other plants drink it. Glyphosate is like a planetary Anti (against) biotic (life) so as it finds its way into our global oceans it is killing our coral reefs and sea life. Here in Nova Scotia we have a real life warning of the "Canary in a Coal Mine" as our birds are getting sick with weakening of their immune systems. Fungal infections in the birds, the trees and the soil flourish without the natural bacteria to keep them in check. Have you noticed the black spots on the leaves of the trees and more weird mushrooms in your yard? 93% of Americans have glyphosate present in their urine and studies are showing increasing concentrations in breast-milk. But there is hope- Eating organic even just for 2 weeks can clear the pesticides from your body. Now we just need to lobby the governments to save our land.

Let's bring out the sun and talk about how you can heal your body and protect against this poison.

1. Don't panic. Eat Organic Non-GMO.

2. Nature’s solution to pollution is dilution! Filter Water + electrolytes Himalayan or Celtic rock salt. Ionizer or reverse osmosis are good systems.

3. Put Back the Good Bugs. Take Probiotics. Natural bacteria can be found in supplement form or in Non-GMO fermented foods. Cultured coconut, sauerkraut, Kimchi, kombucha.

5. Eat like a cave man....live from the land in the most natural forms without chemical processing. Good fats (coconut, avocado and olive oil), Good plant protein and maybe occasional grass-fed animal protein. Keep in mind, animals that are higher on the food chain will store more environmental toxin in their bodies.

7. Live with Original Evolutionary Intent. Co-creating. Think, where did this food come from? How was that animal treated? How is it impacting the environment and the future of the planet? What you do to your body you are also doing to the earth. Get into the 'holy flow' as David Wolfe calls it and began to GROW your own food, ask for quality from your food providers, lobby governments and media to spread the word. Your life and the life of our planet depends on YOU.

Political conundrum.

President Obama passed a law 2013 that gives judicial immunity to Monsanto against any liability for death, disease or injury caused by GMO foods and products. I know this sounds crazy that this corporation could create their own legislation protecting them from the law but this is how the Monsanto Protection Act was born. Monsanto relinquishes accountability to its consumers. The unassuming public eats up the beautiful looking food, enhanced with desired traits of color and size, thinking the government is protecting them. Why was the Monsanto Protection Act created? Was Monsanto expecting the GMO food to have problems?

This reminds me of the law that was passed in 1986 by President Ronald Reagan absolving vaccination companies of any liability or death related to vaccines. How can a companies that are supplying medicines, food and vaccines to the world not be held accountable to the public it is serving?

I have sent multiple letters and e-mails since Sept 2016 to Prime Minister Honorable Justin Trudeau, Health Ministers Honorable Leo Glavine, Honorable Eric Hoskins, Member of Parliament Honorable Andy Fillmore, Pest Management Departments and the College of Physicians and Surgeons seeking answers to these health concerns. Thus far, none have been able to provide independent safety studies for glyphosate in GMO or in vaccines. MIT researcher, Dr. Stephanie Seneff says if this glyphosate picture doesn't change 50% of baby boys born in 2025 will be autistic! We need to act now.

What is becoming clear, is that the only one that is protecting you is you. Even the medical system, the media and governments seem to be bought out by big business. These chemical companies hold power because of the ignorance they create. They bury their names within these Mega conglomerates like Monsanto. It took quite a bit of research to even find the names of three of the world's most powerful families on the shareholder list. After all, who wants to put their family name and face on a company killing our planet? The hope lays in the next generation of these same families.

As we are entering the age of Aquarius, inventors and co-creators will arise with humanitarian hearts to bring new age ideas to old faulty fear-based structure. The avalanche has already began. Hold on! Customer demand dictates company supply. The Truth and the Greater Good always prevails. Read, research and SHARE this information there is power in knowledge and numbers! Start buying and asking for non GMO foods. You the consumer controls the market. The gluten-free industry took off quickly, this will too with your help. By supporting organic farmers the GMO guys will lose business. [Incidentally, it is the genetic modification of the wheat that had caused the gluten sensitivities so please share this information to the celiac market too. Non-GMO food is the real upgrade to retrieving their health.]

Tami Canal, stay at home mother of 3, founder of March against Monsanto was recently interviewed on a fabulous series entitled http://www.gmosrevealed.com/. One day she learned the cereal she was feeding her baby contained glyphosate and in wishing to make a difference she began a facebook page hoping to share this message of protest with a few thousand friends. Within 2 months there were 3 Million people that did the first March against Monsanto protest in 51 different countries. There is a March against Monsanto Nova Scotia division too that I encourage you to "like" to keep abreast of new developments. Never underestimate the Power of ONE.

With these current challenges, we have been given the opportunity to balance the equation and become empowered health care consumers. Just as you would shop for the best car, evaluating which is safe, effective, most economical, people are educating themselves about the best health choices for themselves and their families. This system goes astray when we give up our personal power to perceived authorities who sometimes know less than what we do. Slaves to the system are dis-empowered individuals. This can shift simply with education and courage. Slaves fear the fire, empowered individuals become the flame. LOVE trumps fear.

What does a Cuban cigar, a glass of Italian red Chianti and a slice of fresh baked bread have in common? They are all addictive drugs. The cigar and wine we know as such, but the bread drug is marketed as a healthy dietary choice!

Allow me to step backwards to fill in the details so that you may better understand the connection between bread, sugar and addiction.

Sugar causes heart disease not saturated fat. The hydrogenated fats like corn oil, cottonseed, canola, safflower, sunflower and soybean oil do cause arteriosclerosis, heart disease and cancer. But the health fats like avocado oil, coconut oil, flax seed oil, fish oil and olive oil actually help prevent heart disease! The idea of cholesterol “clogging up” arteries and causing heart disease came from a diet-heart hypothesis proposed in 1953 that has since been proven to be completely wrong by hundreds of studies. Sugar is the real culprit.

Sugar feeds cancer cells; increase insulin resistance and diabetes, creates obesity, increases inflammation in your body and also decreases your body's PH levels. This inflammation (suffixed by "itis") is not limited to the ileitis and colitis of the colon but can manifest systemically in any area. In the tendons, inflammation is called tendonitis, in the heart- carditis, in the skin- dermatitis, in the joints- arthritis. Inflammation and acidity in the body also increases degenerative processes and aging.

So how are sugar and bread connected? Outside of the fact sugar is often an ingredient in bread, the bread itself in the digestion process is converted to sugar. Amylopectin A, the complex carbohydrate in wheat is quickly digested by amylase to glucose. Because of the speed of this conversion, this type of amylopectin in wheat and grains creates more of a spike than other carbohydrates such a beans (amylopectin C), bananas and potatoes (amylopectin B). A study done in 1981 at the University of Toronto measuring the Glycemic Index of certain foods, reported 2 slices of whole wheat bread increased the blood sugar more than a Mars or Snickers bar! The GI index for white bread= 69, whole grain bread GI=72, Mars bar GI=68, snickers GI index=41.

Are you wondering why you haven't heard about this issue about bread being a sugar? If you haven't heard of this idea, you are not alone. I'm not sure the so-called heath authorities even know yet. The Canada Food Guide is still recommending grain products as one of the healthy food choices. Our educational systems have been given this information as a guideline of healthy eating. Schools, dietitians, medical doctors and diabetic counselors continue to recommend whole grain products, seemingly unaware that once it is put into your mouth it is liquid sugar with all the same detrimental qualities of the well known white poison.

The second issue in the wheat is the protein called gluten. Gluten is a protein present in grains, mainly in wheat, rye, oats and barley. In many people these proteins do not get digested properly and in addition to causing immune system strain with the gut challenge, gluten is broken down into substances with similar chemical structure to opiates such as morphine and heroin. These gluteomorphins cross the blood-brain barrier and may play havoc with mental health conditions of schizophrenia, depression and attention deficits and autism spectrum conditions. Injecting patients with opiate blocking drugs, blocks the addiction to wheat! Because these components can cross the blood brain barrier and attach to opiates receptors, wheat addiction is similar to that of crack cocaine!

The third issue that makes wheat harmful is that it is genetically modified. There are 38 wise European countries that have banned GMO and ingredients that may not fit completely into this category but in North America we are still living the Monsanto American dream and sucking back the toxic chemicals. Recent independent studies have shown a 300% increase in tumors and a >50% decrease in life expectancy in rats fed genetically modified corn. Scientist modify the genes of the plant so that it can withstand the herbicide Round Up (glyphosate) so not only are you ingesting the plant with gene changes that play havoc with our immune system and gut bacteria but you are also ingesting the plants covered in the toxic herbicide that it has been bred to withstand.

If you choose to eat bread and the other sugar forms you will likely require medications to counter the effects. You may need an anti-inflammatory for the inflammation, a diabetic medication to modulate the blood sugar, a pain reliever for the joint pain and if you buy into the outdated diet-heart hypothesis of cholesterol clogging your arteries, a cholesterol lowering medication may also be recommended. Chiropractor, Dr. Dane Donahue says "we can't medicate ourselves out of a problem we've behaved our way into" but the pharmaceutical companies love us to keep trying.

Cholesterol is an important substance in our body. It is an integral part of cell walls, it makes up 25% of brain and it is the substance in myelin sheath that is an insulator for every nerve cell in the body. If you take a lipitor, crestor or other statin drug you are not just lowering the cholesterol in the blood but in every cell in your body. Memory loss, multiple sclerosis and other neuro-degenerative conditions may result with prolonged use. Avoiding grains and hydrogenated fats and adding healthy fats, insoluble fiber and more exercise are safer ways to reduce your risk of heart disease.

This post was inspired by an article in USA today suggesting coconut oil wasn't healthy and seeing that the American Heart Association has endorsed coco puffs as a heart smart choice. We obviously can not depend on those at the top to keep our bodies healthy. Our governments, media and many of our current medical systems are old sickness care models. The genetic modifications and food recommendations of these agencies are often policy proofed and generously guided by the larger pharmaceutical/chemical industries. The onus is on you to educate yourself and share it with others. Like in any industry, it is the consumer demands that push the market. This revolution is a bottom up process and begins and ends with you. Let's "be the change we wish to see" and manifest a healthier planet. Eat fresh, be healthy and share it with others.

I've just finished watching an amazing documentary series entitled “The Truth About Cancer”. While the details are still fresh in my mind and my heart stirred by purpose, I thought I’d put my thoughts to paper. The magnitude of detail in this collection is unlike anything I’ve ever seen so know the ideas I’m about to present is just a glimpse of what you may wish to own for yourself. This weekend the docuseries is still being offered for free viewing. Click on the word docuseries for the link.

The best way I can see to summarize is to suggest a few of the foundation principles so you can then create your own healing masterpieces. Once you know the functions you may add, subtract. multiply and divide your health equation and dictate your own health destiny. This information is not just for those with cancer but to the half reading that statistically will have cancer in your lifetime. I used to say, if I had cancer I’d fast, meditate, do natural therapies of juicing, coffee enemas and activated charcoal but then I thought, why am I waiting for cancer to embrace health and vitality. It’s a more enjoyable experience if you are not waiting for the manifestation of a disease to enjoy the abundance in life.

The Mathematics of Cancer

1. Cancer is a symptom. It is a sign of dis-ease in the body. We all have cancer cells (rogue uncontrolled cell division) growing in our body but our immune system through a process of apoptosis keeps cancer cells in check. The “big guns” of the immune system, known as T cells are normally on the prowl for suspicious looking targets such as bacterial invaders and potential tumour cells. If they recognize one, they sound the alarm, inducing the immune cells to mount a larger response.

[Incidentally, this is how vaccines have an effect as well. Bits of the virus are mounted in an adjuvant base of heavy metals to evoke an immune response. The body recognizes the aluminum, mercury and other animal DNA in the vaccine as foreign and invokes an immune response of what they call a T2 immune response. The only problem with this type of challenge is that the body is in a constant state of immune system irritation so people are walking around in a constant state of chronic inflammation. Studies show higher incidences of asthma, allergies, autism and cancer with increased numbers of vaccines due to the toxic effects of the adjuvants and the bodies response to them.]

We can cut out the tumour, chemically inject the body with mustard-gas derived chemotherapy, irradiate the tissue adding more tax to the immune system but if we do not address the real reason the cancer developed in the first place, the deficient immune system, it will return. It is like cutting of the top of the iceberg and leaving the hidden underlying base to sink the boat suddenly without knowing from where the blow came. In his book Cancer is Not a Disease, Andreas Moritz talks more about this idea.

2. Why will there never be one cure for cancer? Because there is more than one cause. There are layers of health. The physical body and the immune system can be taxed with genetically modified foods, in medications and vaccines, poor nutrition and neurotoxins chlorine and fluoride in water. The emotional body also effects the physical body. Unresolved conflicts, anger and other emotions create a cascade of hormones that directly effect your health. One study showed a minute of anger can suppress your immune system for 4-6 hours!. As we move out from the physical body we encounter air pollution and electromagnetic radiation in computers, cell phones, satellite and even cosmic radiation of space. Some even theorize that this invisible stress is more dangerous because we can’t see it and therefore neglect to protect against it. You may take responsibility for your own health and design your own unique mind-body-spirit solution based on your lifestyle and values. The chemotherapy options may look more attractive because it is easier to pass over your health to someone else to treat, but when you read the data and see how the chemo bus drives, you may wish to take back control of the wheel. Did you know 75% of doctors interviewed would not do chemotherapy or radiation for themselves or for their families!

The field of epigenetics (above or beyond the genes) has revolutionized health and given hope for the cures. No longer are we held captive by our genes. We now know the factors beyond the genes like our thoughts, beliefs, environment, diet and lifestyle can turn on and off gene expression. Even identical twins can have shown differences in cancer occurrences based on the choices each makes in their own environments. Empowering to know the choices we make, directly effect our genetic expression and our health destiny.

3. Cancer healing is top-down inside-out phenomena. Albert Einstein says, we can not solve our problems with the same level of thinking that created them.

Our man-made fundamental understanding of health as a linear process is incomplete. Medication A effects B is true. But medication A also effects C, D, E, F, G and every other letter in a body’s alphabet. Pharmaceutical companies recognize these other effects and call them side effects but as long as A effects B, other quantum effects seem to get lost in the shuffle. Tamoxifen, a medication used to treat breast cancer is also carcinogenic. It may prevent one cancer and then causes another. The statin drugs lower cholesterol but causes neurodegenerative conditions like dementia and a fatty liver. Pharmaceutical medicine is a shot gun approach- they keep shooting and eventually get the effect you need but how much damage does it do in the process?

Organic fruits and vegetable plants, essential oils, seeds, spices, nuts have a specific, bidirectional approach to healing that stimulates our own innate healing wisdom. Supplying our body with the right fuels and avoiding the obstacles to health, the body heals itself from the inside out. If we cut our finger, the homeostatic intelligence in our body, recognizes there is a problem and sends white blood cells to the area to solve the problem. Plants also have this natural healing wisdom that can modify the response for exactly what the body needs. If a patient has low blood sugar, the spice cinnamon can elevate it or if the blood sugar is too high it can lower it. There are also a wide range of antioxidants that demonstrate this homeostatic balancing regulating mechanism. Curcumin in turmeric, catechins in green tea, sulforaphanes in crucrificious vegetables, reverseratrol in berries and red grapes skins or BEC-5 in green pepper and eggplant all have this homeostatic intelligence that target the cancer cells, modulating an appropriate response while leaving the healthy tissue in tact! In contrast to the 'shot gun' approach of pharmaceuticals, that may destroy everything in its path, the plant kingdom is the 'sharp shooter'. Spiritual beliefs, faith in a greater power and the intention of prayer/mediation seems to correlate to better cancer recovery. Disciplines, such as homeopathy, chiropractic, acupuncture, naturopathy and holistic nutrition, that honour this wisdom are working with the power of our universe, those that don’t work against it.

An old foundation chiropractic principal is that all living things are born with this innate intelligence that healing comes from the top down, inside out. Universal healing from the brain to the body and from the smallest cell to an outward expression. Ancient hermetic principle of “all effects all” is another concept that can be witnessed with this more expanded awareness.

4. Expanding your awareness, dissolves the shackles of the fear based model. The Flexnor report of 1910 discusses how this strangle hold began and why the fear based model was created. Basically the Carnegie and Rockefeller foundations donated large amounts of money and filled the medical school governing boards with pharmaceutical representation, enabling them to engineer the curriculum. They began dismantling and discrediting natural therapies like homeopathy, chiropractic, naturopathy and nutrition from the schools and began focusing only on the profitable pharmaceutical aspects to which they owned company shares. Some medical doctors, even today, grow up in schools with limited knowledge of nutrition and believing medications are the only way to heal. Under a pharma hat, quick cures are not that profitable. Powerful home healing therapies like coffee enemas that were recommended for a hundred years in the Merck Manual (the oldest medical text book) was removed in 1977. How can oaths from the Father of Medicine- Hippocrates of “Do no harm” and “Let food by thy medicine” suddenly go missing from the foundation? One could jump into a judgmental rant about money motives being the root of this injustice but the truth of the matter is that we as health consumers drive the supply market. Wanting quick fixes and blindly believing that the artificial intelligence of pharmaceuticals is superior to the God given gifts of nature, comes with a price tag. BUT now that you know the real story, it is time to Reclaim Your Power!

5. The leaves of the trees are for the healing of the nations.~ Revelations 22:2. There is a nutrient and micronutrient synergy, an orchestra of effects of healing into the body. Eating the rainbow of different colors and types of foods help foster a healthy immune system, giving cancer cells two options 1. be normal or 2. die (in a process call apoptosis). The homeostatic intelligence that we mentioned earlier creating the cell and body specific effects makes the plant kingdom a definite contender to the artificial intelligence of the nature- twisted pharmaceutical copies. Many of our medications are derived from naturally occurring plants.

The problems with this picture is in the quality and quantity of the plant and other foods we are currently consuming. Our genetically modified, pesticide/herbicide laden foods are wreaking havoc with our health. Studies of rats that were fed genetically modified corn had a 300% increase in tumours, decreased life expectancy by more than half and all had kidney and liver damage. Non-organic crops that are sprayed with carcinogenic herbicides and pesticides are not safe for consumption. According to PhD research scientists, vaccines and other sources containing an active ingredient in Round Up- glyphosate- is creating a dangerous epidemic of Autism.

Why are we being fed these foods and vaccines? Why has our health department allowed this? Why are we not made aware of these problems in our schools and media? I have asked the same questions to our provincial and federal health departments and given these stories and resources to our local media for further investigation and public health announcements. The pesticide department did confirm… “glyphosate is a registered pesticide that is not expected to pose unacceptable risk to human health or the environment”…. but no one can seem to produce the safety studies suggesting the glyphosate in the herbicides and vaccines are safe but there is plenty of research that talk about the dangers to human health and our environment. The short answer is that cheap, genetically modified food is more profitable and pesticides make weeding more efficient. The Monsanto group of companies, that manufactures Round Up containing glyphosate, is comprised of 3 of the world’s most powerful families. Perhaps, governments and media may be owned or persuaded with donations from these same sources.

Now that you know the research and assuming you believe it, the next obstacle we often see is price and availability. How can you afford to eat organic? Given the research I’ve just shared, how can you not? If I may offer some solutions. 1. Shop local at our farmers markets or take part in community shared farming programs. The food has greater nutritional value fresh from the earth without the long travel and storage times, the cost is less and you are supporting our local economy. Consumer demand of healthy produce will call in a supply of organic, non genetically altered food. 2. Grow your own food. Potted herbs, sprouts on your window sill or blueberry bushes and garlic in your back yard not only gets you moving but gives you the magnetic energy from the earth and sun that the plant also uses for energy. 3. Eat less. Dr. Mercola talks about the importance of intermittent fasting liberating energy for your body to heal. If you only eat from 9am-5pm not only will you reduce you chances of cancer but it also acts as an anti-aging and weight loss strategy as well.

8. Cancer thrives in an acidic body. Making your body more alkaline is helpful. (I use a water filtration system that is listed as a medical device in Japan that produces alkaline water) or try this method of adding baking soda to your water.

What else can you do? Educate yourself. There are still supplements, herbs and probiotics to study that support the immune and chemical warfare in our water, air, and vaccines that you must uncover and discover. Don’t believe a word anyone tells you but research it for yourself. An educated mind unleashes the free thinkers on the planet with enough power to transform the current thwarted medical industrial complex into the real earth science based care and cures. Join this movement so you have a handy resource to share with your loved ones and keep abreast of current research and recommendations. I’ve shared this information with my family, friends, patients, media, medical doctors and health ministers. The first step is seeing through the illusion, the next step is to live it, then the mission is to share it. Love trumps fear!

Writing about vaccines, heavy metals and cancer is not too sexy but as a doctor and a mother, I believe this is information you need in order to make informed health decisions for you and your family.

The last month has been quite challenging in learning more about vaccine safety. In this article, I would like to share the facts as presented by some of the world greatest vaccine researchers, scientists and President of the National Vaccine Center in this landmark series vaccinesrevealled.com and The Truth about Vaccines documentary series. These resources as well as other links are empowering you and your family to new levels of understanding and health.

I've watched and bought every episode of both these documentary series, and cross referenced with other sources to confirm reliability. I've posted to face book, sent e-mails to our politicians and health authorities and even contact media for a news story regarding this new research. After nine months of e-mails and social media tags, May 24, 2017 I received a letter from the Prime Minister Justin Trudeau's office, thanking me for my concerns. I'm still waiting for the safety studies that I'd requested but I am grateful for reply and hopeful this is an indication of a healthier future. Please research the facts about vaccines, check out the links, read, ask questions and become an authority so you can make informed choices for you and your family. Share this information with your health care providers as many of them may have been kept in the dark too! Find your tribe to support and challenge your views, seek holistic health providers that will help your body detox from heavy metals and surround yourself with those who honor the wisdom of your own body's healing potential.

The views which I am about to present are more anti-chemical than anti-vaccination. Genetically modified foods and herbicides also contain harmful chemicals such as glyphosate that can also create harm to you and the environment. Vaccines are just one source chosen for the purpose of this article.

One criticism of parents that choose not to vaccinate is that they are anti- pharmaceutical, uneducated and putting their children's health at risk. Quite the contrary, most parents that have chosen not to vaccinate are among the most educated in society and the research shows the greatest risk for not vaccinating is internet access. I imagine this correlates to the ability to acquire research and information. Medications and pharmaceuticals certainly have a place in emergency medicine and sickness care but Informed Consent is the essential piece that is missing in the current vaccination story.

In attempting to stay open to new information and research, I'd invite other studies. The facts and figures I am presenting is based on the research that I have done thus far, but I'm open to collecting objective double blind studies on both sides.

Below are a few highlights from the series vaccines revealed and other resources listed at the bottom of this article.

1. Never before in the history of the human race has the immune system been asked to cope with the assault of the current vaccine schedule. There are no long term safety studies reviewing the combination of 68 vaccines by the time the child is 16 years old.

2. In 1986 Ronald Regan passed a law that absolves vaccine companies of any liability against injury or death. How can a company who is entrusted with the health of our population not be held accountable to the public for that purpose?

3. Since introducing the MMR vaccine in 1989, autism has exponentially increased now to 1 in 50. Despite the research from Dr. Andrew Wakefield and others confirming this relationship, government agencies deny it and the internet is littered with articles trying discredit these and other findings. Stephanie Seneff PhD, senior research scientist at MIT, suggests if current vaccine program continues the autistic ratio will continue to rise to 1 in 2 by the year 2025! Without us making a change, half the boys born in 2025 will be autistic!

4. Is the CDC (Center for Disease control and Prevention) introducing a conflict of interest by becoming a vaccine company purchasing 4.6 billion dollars of vaccines? Can an agency who has invested billions of dollars in a vaccine campaign also be objective in matters of vaccine public safety?

6. Vaccines are attenuated and multiplied in monkey and dog cells therefore a vaccine contains formaldehyde, aluminum, mercury and animal parts of cells. Nothing in vaccines biochemically supports our immune system. In fact these adjuvants, added to aggravate an immune response, often create symptoms similar to that of a chronic infection. Asthma, allergies, autism and other neurodegenerative disorders are higher in vaccinated populations. See Simian virus 40 to understand the transfer of animal DNA in the vaccine story.

7. PhD researchers, medical doctors and parents and who are investigating and challenging the vaccine program are severely reprimanded. Losing their licenses, getting fired and jailed seem to be the best repercussions. One of the most disturbing finding of my research shows researchers that were correlating the nagalase enzyme in vaccines to cancer, type II diabetes and autism had mysteriously been killed. (PS. If I were to disappear, I'd want some one pick up this ball and run with it too. Love trumps fear! )

8. Many examples of reports, documents and research that have been manipulated and massaged to appear safe. There is a conflict of interest if the company selling the vaccine (or one of its active ingredients such as glyphosate) is also the one doing the research!

9. Historically, many infectious diseases were already declining before the advent of vaccines. Sanitation, housing and good nutrition appears to be the real reason for the decline. When you study how diseases are transmitted you understand how the unvaccinated population poses zero risk to the general public.

11. Gary Goldman Phd and former CDC scientist shared statistics that when the H1N1 vaccine was given to pregnant mothers in 2009 fetal deaths increased by 4000%!!! Please share these new findings with our medical provider friends, they obviously have been kept in the dark too. Apparently, the flu vaccines have not been tested on pregnant women to assess safety!

12. The HPV vaccine was FDA approved without any trial validation. Gary Goldman Phd and former CDC scientist quoted the CDC's own research statistics that one child a month dies from the HPV vaccine. Despite it having the highest amounts of adverse effects, there is a trial purposed for 2017 to vaccinate new born infants. Why would they inject an infant with vaccinations for sexually transmitted diseases of Human Papillomavirus? As ridiculous as it appears, you may be confused because of the conflicting information. Below are links where the CDC states there are no side effects of HPV vaccine and in another link the College of American Pediatrics are warning against it. Who do you wish to believe, the doctors that will be held liable for the health of your child and have no monetary investment in the vaccine or an agency who has spent 4.6 Billion dollars in vaccines and because of the 1986 law is absolved of any negligent responsibility?

13. Robert Kennedy Jr has been recently appointed to the Vaccine Safety Committee by President Donald Trump. Mr. Kennedy has worked as an environmental laywer on The Mercury Project and was asked to look into vaccines from a family member for child that was injured by vaccines. His research shows the mercury content in a flu shot is 250X more than what the Environment Protection Agency recommends for the environment. If fact, if you drop a vial of the flu shot on the floor in your doctors office the Hazmet biochemical waste team would have to be called for proper clean up! How can we be injecting a biochemical hazardous waste into our pregnant moms and children? Robert Kennedy Jr has gone so far as to offer $100,000 a reward to anyone who can produce vaccine safety studies.

This information is difficult to hear as it challenges our beliefs and introduces distrust in the current system. Don't blindly believe any of these details, research it for yourself ! We need to hear it multiple times in different ways to counter the fear that has been instilled by the powers that currently be. There are natural ways to support the immune system. You have a choice between natural VS artificial immunity. The current system rests upon fear of nature in favor of trust in artificial. Ask questions, learn new information, share what you know and love deep. The world needs a new paradigm of trust and love....in the natural YOU!

What can you do?

1. Trust your maternal instinct. Report problems.

Send your questions to Canadian Health Authorities. Jane Philpott is the federal health minister. What compensation exists for those who suffer injury or death from vaccines in Canada? Hearing this information, President Trump elected Robert Kennedy Jr to head a commission on vaccination safety? Who will Prime Minister Trudeau appoint in Canada?

2. Research this topic and be an informed health consumer. Even if you have vaccinated already, read and evaluate your findings before you have more. Research shows with each subsequent shot the heavy metals accumulate in the system and cause further damage. The age of the child seems to correlate with the onset of certain symptoms. According to the CDC's raw data, waiting until 2-3 years of age, when the nervous system is more mature, carries less risk. Perhaps this why in certain countries the vaccination schedule is delayed. Waiting until you have collected more data and asking for safety information to make an informed choice is the landmark of a responsible parent.

3. Detox your body from heavy metals. I have reported on this in the link to the live Facebook presentation but I'll share a detox protocol in a follow up article. E-mail me to be added to our database, to ensure you receive it.

The level of toxicity in the infant's system and the condition of the gut (which supports the immune system) seem to be the important factors determining those that have Autistic presentations after vaccine injections. One study identified 287 toxins in the umbilical cords of infants born today. The most responsible action would be to assess the child's immune system and toxicity before the vaccinations are given, to identify those at risk.

Hon. Prime Minister Justin Trudeau and Hon. Health Ministers Leo Glavine and Jane Philpott, could we not develop at least a screening test for the immune system before we inject more chemicals into our next generation? Is it possible for Health Canada to publish a warning about this issue so that parents are able to make an informed decision knowing the possible risks for developing Autism and Cancer? Thank you for your thoughtful consideration.

]]>Sun, 14 Aug 2016 04:19:42 GMThttp://www.drsexymom.com/blog/how-does-incest-or-sexual-abuse-serve"The word 'incest' has a definite meaning, and designates a definite thing, and as a general rule can only be applied to an adult who is psychologically incapable of linking his sexuality to its proper object." ~ Jung.

This is an article with a crazy title and questions you may not have entertained. How does incest or sexual abuse serve us? If we assume divine perfection in the universe then to ask this question and find the answers, liberates us from the perceived power it has over us. We dissolve emotions and fears and cut through the story into the heart of the matter. My intention is to discuss this phenomena without judgment or prejudice as I do believe that we are given these opportunities to grow and that in every perceived crisis there is a blessing. In discussing these sexual variants perhaps we sort through our ideas and find love amidst the trauma.

Incest is described as sexual activity between family members. In some cases this may also be classified as sexual abuse or pedophilia if it is unwanted or performed with a minor. Why does it happen and what is the service to those involved? I'll refrain from using the term "victim" because to do this dis-empowers. Just as there is day and night, positive and negative, a happy and sad, an up and a down, there must be a blessing in every curse. When we find the silver lining the cloud fades into the blue yonder and you experience love. Love empowers.

Let's begin with an example of incest in childhood curiosity, for in this example I have some personal experience. It is likely 1977-78, in the back seat of my parents parked car when my fourth cousin Byron (who was 2 years older than me) showed me how to french kiss. It must have been an awesome lesson because I have been enjoying practising french kissing ever since! I even married a french man. I didn't feel assaulted or harmed in anyway. In fact, I felt I was being educated. I was feeling accomplished and special, until my younger sister told my mother about one of the "you show me yours and I'll show you mine" incidences with some neighborhood boys and then I was shamed for my behaviour. Was it a crime to have had this incest experience?

Another example I've just recently read about in Britain, when a young lady was ‘caught’ having sex with her brother, both siblings blamed the other, citing alcohol, desperation and so, on as motivations. This apparently was not of concern to them. What was of concern is that “the pair were convicted of committing incest under section 1(1) of the Criminal Law (Consolidation) (Scotland) Act 1995”. The brother was 21, while his sister was 18. Now, according to the law, they should be convicted. Is this a crime?

A common justification for prohibiting incest is avoiding inbreeding and collecting genetic disorders suffered by the children of parents with a close genetic relationship. Even the father of evolution himself, Charles Darwin married his first cousin and witnessed some of these deformities in their children. What makes it wrong or right? Is it the law that dictates what is just and true? Is it the morals and ethics of society? Is it the individual beliefs? Once again, I believe justice rests upon informed consent. Two men, two women, one man and two women, two cousins, two siblings ……if there are consenting adults and neither are pressured or influenced towards this sexual act, then these situations may morally color the criminal code.

The third example of incest is apparently the most common. Imagine there is a husband and wife who are happily married but after having the children, the wife shuts down her sexuality. According to laws of balance, when one half of the equation is deficient then the other half has a surplus. So that, as the mother is less interested in sex, the father becomes obsessed with it. For a while he is masturbating, but finds that looking at his daughter is creating an erection. There are several different options. He can go for therapy, he could rape his wife, he could go have a extramarital affair, he could watch pornography and continue to masturbate or he could entertain sexual relations with the daughter. His values and the cultural or religious authority to which he gives power, determines his decision. In Japan, extramarital affairs are accepted, in some Hindu traditions the father may be encouraged to take the son for sexual pleasure in place of the mother. Does this situation of a parent having sexual relations with a child disturb you more than the previous examples? As I try to disconnect from my own prejudice and imagine myself being in that situation both as the father and as a daughter or as the mother and son, the first feeling that comes to my heart and mind is that is it not natural. There is a discord in my body and an ache in my heart just imagining it. In my research, I found even wild animals do not have sex with their offspring! Animals smell pheromones on their genitalia to detect who is most closely related to them to avoid copulating with family members. Species propagation in survival of the fittest doesn't support the genetic mutations of inbreeding so nature puts in place mechanisms to avoid incest. I believe subconsciously as humans we have the same mechanisms in place. We can all appreciate the good looks of our parents but I believe it is rare that a young child finds their parents sexy. There are Matthew McConaughey types or older men that may fill my fantasy but my father would certainly not fit into my sexy line up! Most find it disgusting to even talk about sex with their parents so the thought of a child being forced or manipulated into a sexual act with a parent or parent-type figure creates anxiety. It is not so much that it is a crime against the law but feels like a crime against nature? Jungian psychologists report that it is a difference between the conscious and the subconscious that creates neurosis.

Anxiety is only one of the many possible neurosis. Medical signs and symptoms of incest include: depression, obsessive-compulsive disorder, self mutilation, personality/bipolar disorders, urinary tract/vaginal infections, temporal mandibular disorders, aggression, drug/alcohol abuse, eating disorders, post traumatic stress and suicide. We also know chronic stress contributes to inflammation and cancer so there maybe many other latent conditions that present as a result of this trauma.

The inequality of parent to child would be similar to teacher to student, priest to parishioner, doctor to patient, employer to employee. In these situations, one holds power over the other. To use this power for their own gratification, sexual or otherwise, seems like a crime against humanity. But what if, as in Japan, mothers argue they are teaching their son sexuality with safe sexual practices that are enjoyable. They talk about it openly without shame, blame or criminal implications. Does this mindset lessen your judgement? The issues for me is informed consent. A child is not able to give informed consent. Sexuality like breathing and crawling is an act of self exploration, following mile stones of curiosity. Baby boys seem to know that pulling on their penis gives them pleasure, this is not a skill I felt I had to teach, coach or watch. Providing a space for their sexuality to develop naturally is to educate then step back and allow nature to take its course. The child exposed to double standards of what is done secretly at home different from what the law suggests and what society accepts, creates an emotional blame-shame cycle. A responsible, evolved caring adult is able to step outside their own perspective and anticipate the anxiety and incongruity of this situation. They put the child's welfare first and find an appropriate outlet for their own desires.

The motivation to over-power comes from a deep feeling of powerlessness. In our world today, we see many of examples of this narcissistic behavior where the "I" is more important than the "we". It is in our politics, in our religions and in our families. This separateness creates a lopsided dynamic from which these situations manifest. If there is no difference between you and me, we reach a homeostasis of equality where love rules and we own our power. When the father, the mother, the doctor, the boss, the preacher or teacher is able to expand their vision into the eyes and hearts of those within their care the dynamic changes, the "I" disappears into the "we", the shackles of fear falls and the natural balance of power is restored.

There are many psychological theories into the dynamics of incest and sexual abuse, as it is a phenomena that has spanned every culture, every religion and every socioeconomic class in the past and the present. Sigmund Freud was one of the first noted to tackled the issue and although I don't agree with his theories of sexual seduction to the opposite sex parent, I do believe that to identify with a victim mentality is dis-empowering. Jung has a more advanced, global interpretation of the Oedipus complex to represent the attraction to the "personality" of the opposite sex parent. He points out the literal sexual attraction and incest activity is an incorrect interpretation of this Greek myth.

"The word 'incest' has a definite meaning, and designates a definite thing, and as a general rule can only be applied to an adult who is psychologically incapable of linking his sexuality to its proper object." ~ Jung.

For those readers who have experienced incest, know you are not alone. 30-50% of the population has experienced incest in some form. In treating and coaching patients and clients dealing with this old trauma, physically it may appear in any area but usually a strong correlation to pelvic asymmetry. Clinically, once the physical restrictions have been released with chiropractic adjustments and the nervous system is normalized, the buried memories often surface for re-processing. With some patients we use this opportunity of 'remembering' to re-frame the trauma with mind-body coaching or with a psychological referral. When we can see that the advantages and disadvantages are exactly equal the trauma disappears from your body and mind. Dr. John Demartini has developed a scientific method that I often use to quickly move coaching clients through this process.

How did this incest serve you? Did the incest give you some pleasure? Did it make you strong and resourceful? Did it bring you closer to some other member of the family? Did you leave home early and become successful because you had this challenge at home? Did the incest act take you away from some other chores that you didn't wish to do?

For those readers who have encouraged incest within their families, know too you are not alone. You too may suffer emotional consequences with this trauma and unlike the person you incested or allowed to be incested , you may never talk about it, leaving you a prisoner of your own mind. The same exercise applies to you. Look for both the negative and positives for you and your family members. Most that participate in incest have themselves been incested. Your beliefs about love are now being challenged so it is normal to feel vulnerable, angry and resentful. Instead of loving as you were loved, now you may rise above your mind to see how to love in a greater realm. What has been done has sown the seeds for transformation and your emotion may fuel the desire for this change. As we evolve more into a spiritual realm the physical desires are tamed and you are able to manipulate them to the most appropriate object for maximum growth. Recent studies show that the EQ (emotional quotient) more than the IQ (intellectual quotient) is a better predictor of success, when we care for the emotional health of our loved ones it moves us all into a higher realm.

For those who may be captured within a matrix to both give and receive weird sexual practises, the same exercises apply. Find the benefits of your particular situation. Ask yourself how this has served you and your family in all areas of your life. How has it strengthened your relationships? How has it fueled other success? How has it benefited you financially, socially, physically, spiritually? Keep writing out benefits until you have tears of gratitude to know even in the darkest days you are love and you are loved. Know that someday those creating the web will meet themselves. Send the web makers love and prayers for they know not what they do will eventually be done onto them. We live in a loving universe that always provides a balance.

Action Step: In your geographic area there is always a government department that will accept anonymous information if you suspect a child is being physically, sexually, emotionally abused. In Nova Scotia, the number is 1-866-922-2434 if you believe a child is in immediate danger.

]]>Tue, 08 Mar 2016 10:52:36 GMThttp://www.drsexymom.com/blog/how-to-love-a-woman-into-a-sexual-magiIf I am serving you and you are serving me, who is it that is being served?

Recently a man e-mailed to ask me the question, of how to love a woman. Likely, he was mixing me up with Dr. Ruth but I am a Dr. and I do have four letters in my name :) This article adventure is an intuitive journey through this question. Love has so many different meanings and depending on your experience and education it has many angles. Let's take the widest lens possible to turn love, love-making, and sex into sexual magic.

Level 1 : Provide a safe non-judgmental environment where she feels accepted and admired. If you are critical of her body, her habits or desires she will not be able to open up to you. It is human/animal nature to go into our shell and protect our soft, vulnerable, private parts. What you judge is what you haven't loved within yourself, so a judging person suggests someone with low self esteem and low self awareness which is also unattractive. Safety first.

Level 2: Know what it is she loves, needs and desires and provide it. If you can't accommodate it, then admit it and be willing to let her go to find it. Loving enough to let go is as honorable as loving enough to stay. With unconditional love like this, you win either way, securing her love with or without you. She may be aroused by a lotion, a potion, a large penis, nipple nibbling, sex talk, sweet smelling cologne, music, flowers, a poem or a heavy wallet. If you don't know her, how can you love her. How is it you find out her values? Ask her and observe her life and actions. It caresses the heart to know someone is thinking of you, appreciating you and caring enough to respond to your values. A malleable heart is one of the magic ingredients.

Level 3: Communicate your desires to her. If she knows that you like a particular sex position or action, she is likely to create it. Building a conversation about love-making is building love. Like you, she feels purposeful and secure to know she is able to pleasure her beloved like no other. Help her be your best lover.

Level 4: Be authentic. She may not always like what you say but it builds trust for her to know you will give her a straight answer. Q: "Honey do you like this dress?" A: " I'd like you in or out of any dress, but I prefer the red one". This reply is being sensitive, caring and honest. Being you, liberates her to be her.

Level 5: Humor. Women are emotional creatures. Nature sets it up this way I'm sure to help keep men awake to the phases of the moon ;) When times are tough, love her more by making her laugh. Don't be pulled into the drama. Ask her how you can help but be content to sit quietly and hold the space for her to find her balance. She may not need you to fix anything but simply to listen and hold her. Laughter in a sacred space is the best medicine.

Level 6: Honor her requests. I was coaching a lady who was getting repeated urinary tract infections due to doubling dipping in anal and vaginal sex. Her partner was ignoring her requests and dismissed his sexual pleasure as being the cause. Another case of a lady with a similar E.coli infection was hospitalized for weeks, likely arising from ingesting this bacteria in an anal/ oral dip combo. There is a reason for separate openings. Honor the order sequence that must be respected from the top down, front to back for good health. Certain sexual positions may be painful due to mechanical dysfunctions in the hips, knees or back so conversing about this and being sensitive to the parameters lays the foundations for amazing orgasms. Stop, look and listen.

Level 7: Spiritual sex. Sexual Magic, as the ancients called it, holds the mysteries of all creation. Creating energy not only on the physical plane but connecting with a universal power. These special rites of passage were preserved for the purest of mind and heart. Access is only possible for those who have met all the basic levels of love and wisdom mentioned above. Saying and believing the following statements helps you honor body, mind and spirit of you and your partner. I am safe. I am creative. I am strong. I am love. I am expressive. I am connected. I am divine.

Tantra involves the distillation and transformation of sexual essence into enlightenment. Egyptian Alchemy teaches high states of ecstasy strengthens the energetic body, unleashing serpent energy into all the body chakras and connecting up through the crown into a cosmic orgasm. The higher your combined vibration and consciousness, the greater the mysteries available to you. Treasures await those who have the courage to enter the depths of themselves and their partners. Tom Kenyon reports it requires an unusual type of holy trinity- mutual safety, psychological honesty and appreciation of the beloved.

Sexual magic begins in stilling the mind, hearing the heart, traveling through the body and connecting to divine. Training your mind to witness your rudimentary judgments and behaviors and integrating them into your divine nature is a fundamental step. In essence, this magic is reserved for high priests and priestess who know and honor their power in creation and that of their partner. It is a sacred act, a true communion of energies creating a vortex from sacral earth to crown of heaven. The best sexual position for this communion is for partners to align their chakras, pelvis to pelvis, face to face, eye to eye, heart to heart. To coordinate their breath as they together rise into a greater love. Holding and breathing through the physical human orgasm is the vehicle for higher expression. Sitting is likely the best position as you are then aligned earth to base and head to heaven but there are those of us who play within the horizontal plane. (It is my sense that an energy ground of a penis within a vagina closes the base circuit for a more powerful connection. Same sex couples may argue the opposite.)

I've written previous articles about sexual repressions and expressions...so to put this into a paradigm in which you may already be familiar, this channel is the mean between all extremes. The average of all, into the path of least resistance. Those surviving in a superficial world (of "wam bam thank you mam for your suck and f**K" ) may not have the courage or desire for this torturous journey. It is not for the faint-hearted. But for those who develop the patience, love and wisdom in the process and can endure the training, the rewards are simply divine.

The phrase sexual repression and expression carries with it power and truth in the balance of opposites. The idea of mean between extremes is a universal principle whether you are talking about sex, the stock market, emotions, politics or weather patterns. There is no loss or gain just a transformation of energy. If you push on a balloon (or a penis in a tight pair of swimming trunks), it bulges out expressing itself in another area. The over all form remains constant but the balloon will take on the shape of the forces placed upon it. This demonstrates the physics principle of conservation of energy. Yes yes conserve your energy, you'll need it for what is cumming next.

So what does physics have to do with sexual repression and expression? Everything. It is a lot more than up and down, in and out, hump and pump. It is the foundation for an equation we'll explore together in the next few paragraphs. Before we begin this journey, I'd ask you to forget everything you have imagined as normal up to this point. Just for the next 3 minutes remove judgment and prejudice, so you can ride with me into the depths of desire to truly experience love making. Ready?

Imagine the most erotic scene, something that will make your sex organs tingle. It may be watching a lady caressing her nipples and stroking her clitoris between her fingers or maybe it is a man sliding his hand up and down his oiled shaft hardening himself for his mounting lover. Let me stop typing for a moment and allow you to find that image of ecstasy for yourself- same sex, different sex, other sex .... Every one of us is different so my description may not tickle your fancy. Take a moment to think about what really turns you on. There is no right or wrong. Simply go into your desire.

Imagine your sexual fantasy scene and feeling the blood rushing to your private parts. You are feeling warm and damp now in those areas. Giving yourself further to this process you may fall so deep into my words, that we are internet love making. Your breathing is changing and this sexual heat is radiating from your loin to the rest of your body. Where does this energy wish to manifest? This sexual tension that we have built together loves an expression. It may be a sexual act with a spouse, boy/girlfriend or if you are alone masturbation (it is the most flexible sex option, with a guarantee of anywhere any time pleasure) Perhaps, it is in the form of a creative energy, art, sport or fitness as a way to express these tensions. Once again our job is not to judge but simply to witness and allow your form to surface.

Sexual desire is an evolutionary intention, strategically placed to ensure the continuity of our species. Because its existence is so basic to survival of humanity, your sexual desire is a good indicator of your will to live and your fulfillment in life. It is also the cemetery for your past trauma and unresolved emotions so knowing and understanding your sex life empowers you in all areas.

Our society is a sexual balloon. If you push on one area, it will bulge in another. The Catholic Church repressing priests ability to have adult sexual relations gave way to the expression of pedophilia. If one parent is shutting down or repressing their sexuality, the other expresses it in the next available outlet, usually an incest with the kids. Societies that repress sex, making it a taboo, have a steamy prostitution underground expression. If there are no humans around and you are living on a farm maybe Bessy the cow ends up being your Friday night expression in an act of bestiality. If you are severely repressed, with many past traumas you may create a business where you can express (watch or create) all the forms. Without judgment but remaining true to our mantra, what is repressed gets expressed in another form.

The statistics in these sexual variants are not reliable as there is much that will go unreported under the shadows of shame and in the fears of reprimand. In fact it is our prejudice, judgments, punishments that perpetuate many of these sexual societal issues!

Alfred Kinsey's comprehensive (though dated) studies of sexuality are some of the only data we have on bestiality. After conducting 6000 exhaustive interviews with participants on their sexual histories, Kinsey published his findings in 1953, which included this data on zoophilia:

Eight percent of men and four percent of women reported having had a sexual experience with animals at some point in their lives

For women, the animals involved were most commonly dogs and cats, and the sexual activities most often reported were general body contacts with the animals, and cunnilingus performed by animals

Female intercourse with an animal was rarely reported

Eight percent of men brought themselves to orgasm with an animal

The 50/50 rule is generally a best guess when dealing with any construct of matter. Half will and half won't. In a marriage 50% of parents will be repressed and find alternate ways to express, usually with the kids in some form of incest, masturbation or in an extramarital exchange. Some research suggests 44% of kids are involved in incest. I imagine the true number to be 50% and divide by two, 25% into females and 25% males. It is not bad or good, right or wrong it is simply physics in the law of conservation of energy and business principles of supply and demand.

The problem and concern arises because of informed consent. Can a child or an animal give informed consent? If you are forcing an act, upon another who is not able to give consent then it violates human and animal rights. There is another universal principle called fair exchange. This is necessary to maintain a balance in your body, in your mind, in your family, in your work, in your community and in your life. True love making is a give and take between consenting parties.

Human behaviorist, Dr. John Demartini has done noble prize worthy work in this area. The Demartini Method is a psychological science that reveals the equation of repress (subconscious) and express (conscious). Generations of imbalance can be addressed in a few hours. Understanding this equation, humbling yourself to an eternally balanced Divine Matrix, empowers you to see the perfection in all that is (no matter what it may be) and allows you to transform and create the life you love.