Most Helpful Girls

It's the little head in charge of all thatand often it's getting signals from his eyes suggesting you are hot & "needing" little head attention (actually the reverse)Often an embarrassment in public to the big head not having control over it, becomes just the opposite when you indicate it's a turn on to you... which give little head free rein to "advertise" in hopes you'll give it attention... massage... happy ending

Mean get boners due to Morning wood, Being horny, or No reason boners. Which they are the most evilest things to happen to men. Mainly due to how women react and assume things. Once they see it. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LOYQtbz_pPg

I know you want a guy's opinion but I'll give you mine anyway. Guys get erections when the wind blows, when the wind doesn't blow, when the sun is shining, when the sky is raining. They have no control over it sex is in their minds.

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Most Helpful Guys

A boner doesn't always mean we want sex. Sure you can make us want sex if you start playing with it but it doesn't immediatly mean we are ready to go. Some extra foreplay may be needed. I even get boners when i hug my girlfriend. But that doesn't mean i immediatly want to have sex with her. Just random boners, confusing as hell

They can sometimes happen without any sexual cause at all. I know that's weird but it happens. And most girls know about guys waking up in the morning with an erection. So yeah, they can just happen but usually there's something that's turning the guy on.

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It is both really. Especially at our age. Men tend to get the "involuntary" (and unprovoked) boners from time to time for no reason at all. I've gotten them from reading my course work and there's nothing exciting about that.

On the other hand, we definitely get boners when we want and are thinking of sex too. We learn to live with it. So basically its both. You won't know so just assume whatever makes you feel better.

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There are many type of boners...Sometimes we get a morning boner... It can be because the testosterone levels are full in the mooring or maybe simple because I want take a piss...

Or maybe I am in the bus and the vibration is causing me to get a boner which is completely... unwanted...

So it depends... Not everytime I get boner it's because I wanna have sex... Lol

Both lol. You wake up with a boner. Sometimes a warm shower gives you a boner. Get a boner after working out and sometimes during. Boner when you're horny. "Just cuz" boners. Breeze comes in the window, boner. Lol

It can be both. There are some random boners that happen only to cause blood flow in the area, nothing to do with sex. Actually those are kind of awkward boners that can happen any time and create awkward ocasions.