Who else but a crazy person goes over the last five hours of conversations or the last several weeks of dating with a fine-toothed comb to discover any hidden agendas, potential problems, references, inferences, meanings, between the lines subtext, Because we are aware that we’re on a tightrope and we can’t get off it alone! It doesn’t mean we are crazy, unhinged, psycho, nuts, toxic, or an actual hot mess. We know which wires to cut, and which wires will send our friend off into another mini-panic explosion. Even women who tend to be sought after by a vast majority of men will go through a Love Panic Attack when they find someone they really really like, or they realize they are being sought after in this particular relationship. I’ve seen it happen to models and women you would assume don’t have relationship concerns, so don’t assume. Which is why treating each other with respect is pretty much de rigueur.