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Am I in trouble?? help!

Ok I am receiving welfare benefits right now. I have a boyfriend who owns his own home and pays his own bills at his house. He comes over to my house all the time, but we don't live together and he doesn't pay bills at my house. Well a fraud investigator from the county came over two weeks ago and asked if I had a boyfriend living with me. I explained to the guy that he does not live here, and my boyfriend who was over at the time even had to show him his drivers license to verify that he didn't live here. Now what happens? I'm like freaking out here because I don't want to get in trouble over something that I didn't do. I report my income each month truthfully. will i get arrested? im still getting march benefits so im assuming they didnt pursue charges? im scared and need comforting.

If he does not live there they, can not do anything to you. Someone you know or a neighbor turned you in. Make sure he leaves nothing of his over at your house. Maybe you should start visiting him.
Stop worrying. If they haven't been back. they probably droped it.

He has a couple pairs of jeans and some socks and underwear at my house in my dresser. nothing else of his is here, he is pretty much here every day that he doesn't have to work, which is 4x a week that he has off, and he spends the night. I have anxiety disorder so that is why i am worrying, i cant help it to be honest with you guys. he doesnt give me any money or contribute to my household.. i just hate that i feel watched.