The Allure of Nymphets chronicles famous and infamous age-discrepant relationships from Emperor Augustus to Woody Allen. And man's (i.e. hebephiles\ephebophiles) fascination with very young women (i.e. nymphets, Lolitas...) as shown in literature, films, plays, television, music, and the advertising industry.

Saturday, July 29, 2017

The Link Between Incest, the Rape of Nymphets and Lesbianism

Barret relates in her book Invisible Lives that Sarah Pearlman, a therapist based in Boston, said, “In clinical practice you see a higher incidence of [sexual] abuse and incest among lesbians.”

According to Loise Kaplan Pd.D, a New York City based psychoanalyst and author of the book Female Perversions, in approximately 98% of cases of incest, the father sexually molested the young daughter. Moreover, as Joan J. Johnson relates in Teen Prostitution, the incest could have involved the step-father, brother, uncle, cousin or grandfather.

Although every victim of incest is not a female, according to the book Juveniles in Prostitution: Fact vs. Fiction, seven out of every eight victims of incest are females.

And the reported numbers are unbelievable. Kincaid related in Erotic Innocence: The Culture of Child Molesting that Kahr reported in "The Sexual Molestation of Children: Historical Perspectives" that was printed in the Journal of Psychohistory 19 (1992): 193: "[...] that in Berlin the molestation rate among contemporary schoolchildren is 80 percent, and in England 90 of women reported childhood sexual abuse." Faller's wrote in her Department of Health and Human Services report, Child Sexual Abuse: Intervention and Treatment Issues, that up to 62% of American girls were sexually abused.

Ellen DeGeneres

Despite the fact that it is uncommon for sexually abused victims to reveal their abuse, some lesbian celebrities have confessed to being molested. People magazine reported that Ellen DeGeneres shared that she was molested by her mother's third husband while DeGeneres’ mother was in the hospital for a mastectomy. Ironically, the abuse started under the guise of giving Ellen a breast exam.

Anne Heche

Anne Heche, who had a four-year lesbian relationship Ellen DeGeneres, wrote in her memoir, Call Me Crazy, that she was sexually abused by Donald Heche - her father. She wrote, "He raped me [...] he fondled me, he put me on all fours and had sex with me."

Rosie O`Donnell

Rosie O`Donnell shared on the Howard Stern Sirius XM satellite radio show that her father began molesting her at the age of six.

Virginia Wolf

And per the book Secret Lives of Great Authors, Virginia Wolf was molested by her step-brother.

Unsurprisingly, Dwight Garner wrote in his New York Times' review of The Incest Diary: "You can’t swing an umbrella in the celebrity memoir section of your local Books-A-Million without hitting one that recounts sexual abuse at the hands of a father, a brother, an uncle or a stepfather. Incest is a fact in many lives; it must be written about."

Ironically, according to Nancy Friday's My Secret Garden: Women’s Sexual Fantasies some women fantasize about being raped. For example:

Gail was almost raped in her boyfriend’s best friend's car when she was a nymphet, now that she is an adult, she "frequently" fantasizes about being raped.

Stephanie fantasizes about very young girls being raped "by a mad professor" who decides whom he was going to rape by examining "their sexual apparatus".

When Alison was fourteen, she had an "unusual relationship with a close girlfriend." For example, Alison's girlfriend would dress her in a sexy bikini made of chiffon scarves, before she pretended that she was a "rowdy seaman" and raped Allison.

And since Bella was eight-years-old, her father had always been her "fantasy lover during masturbation".

Orgy Maid by Robert Silverberg, Don Elliott (pseud.) is yet another example of art imitating life. In the novella, while her husband is away completing his third year at Yale, twelve-year-old Lonnie Garth, who is described as being five-feet-five with honey blonde hair and big blue eyes, is continuously raped by her brother-in-laws; sometimes one at time and at other times, simultaneously via double penetration. (Lonnie's drunken father-in-law forced himself upon her as well.)

Eventually, just like a number of women confessed to in The Secret Garden, Lonnie fantasized about being raped by her brother-in-law. For example, in the novella it states "deep down, she had wanted to be raped by Gary Holston, she had wanted to be known by some man not her husband, somebody with Gary's elemental ferocity and force."

Consequenlty, twelve-year-old Lonnie even began to relish lipstick lesbian sex after her brother-in-laws forced her to have sex with a "slim, sixteen-year-old redhead named Peg Marron" who had "... lavishly voluptuous buttocks of a Rubens nude".

Orgy Maid is considered by some to be in the vintage sleaze genre, but the author, Brooklyn born and Ivy League graduate (B.A. in English Literature from Columbia), Robert Silverberg, is a multiple winner of the Hugo and Nebula Awards.

And staying in the "art imitating life" motif, here's the plot summary posted on IMDB for the film Daddy, Darling (1970):

A young Danish girl (Helli Louise) seduces everything in sight after daddy (Ole Wisborg) refuses her naughty come-ons. She'll have a lesbian affair with her teacher, pretend that her teenage boyfriend is dear old dad and finally get to her stepmother (Gio Petre)

The IMDB plot summary for Wicked (1998) states: "14-year-old Ellie Christianson (Julia Stiles) wants to make her father Ben her love partner. And when her mother Karen turns up dead, Ellie has a good opportunity."

And here's the IMDB plot summary written by Claudio Carvalho for Mimi (1979) [Italian: Un dramma borghese]: The fifteen year-old Maria "Mimmina" Luiza leaves the boarding school in Genève to stay in the Bechten Hotel nursing her father, the widower writer Guido [...] Along the days, Guido recovers from his illness and Mimmina has a crush on him and tries to seduce her own father. When her roommate and best friend Therese [...] comes to the hotel to visit Mimmina, she has a love affair with Guido with tragic consequences.

Interestingly, Charles Casillo shared in Marilyn Monroe: The Private Life of a Public Icon that Marilyn Monroe confessed that she wanted to "[...] put on a black wig, pick up her father in a bar and make love to him."

I Love Dick (s01e03)

On Amazon's I Love Dick (s01e03), Toby visits Devon to apologize for getting her fired. Previously, we posted that Toby was a nymphet when she was "touched" by her father and began watching pornography. Thus, it's no surprise that she referred to Devon, a butch lesbian, as "Daddy" before she said, “I want to suck your big cock.” (As of episode four, the I Love Dick writers hadn't revealed Devon sexual history.)

Unfortunately, it is well-known that nymphets are sexually abused by non-relatives as well. For example, The Guardian reported that US soldiers [allegedly] raped fifty-four Colombian nymphets andThe Telegraph reported that 15-year-old Emanuela Orlandi was allegedly the victim of a Vatican sex party.

Lastly, the majority of lesbians, not lipstick lesbians, but homosexuals - both female and male were sexually abused as children. (We're not implying that sexual abuse leads to or causes homosexuality. We're only sharing that there's a prolific and strong link between child sexual abuse and homosexuality.) And as we wrote earlier, the abusers are often close relatives. And Lauren Evans shockingly wrote in the Village Voice that: "A typical sex offender molests an average of 117 children in his or her life."

Thus, there are at least three types of men in relationship to hebephilia\ephebophilia:

DISCLAIMER

The Allure of Nymphets blog encourages all ephebophiles to obey the age-of-consent laws in their respective states and countries. For example, if you live in New York City, you cannot have a sexual relationship with anyone under the age of seventeen. However, if you prefer to marry a thirteen-year-old, move to Spain.