I gotta say, the storyline about Dad Song and Dad Oh’s history that’s developed in the next batch of episodes is probably one of my least favorite parts about this show. I thought it was a bit too pedestrian, and frankly, it’s not all that convincing (more on that after the recaps). But luckily, the other subplots more than make up for it (e.g., Sun-pung and Eun-ji’s love affair/internet scandal) and the show is still really enjoyable.

So, without further ado…

Episode 19

As it turns out, both Mama Song and Oh-Ma are not pleased with the idea of their children getting together. Both think it’s ridiculous, especially because the dads are bitter enemies. Also, Oh-Ma thinks Sun-pung and Eun-ji are not a right fit, and makes her point by saying that the Dostoevksy that Sun-pung loaned her is too difficult for Eun-ji. (Way to encourage your daughter there, lady.) Instead, Eun-ji should think about reading Romeo and Juliet, the story about a girl who marries the son of her family’s enemies and dies as a result. HA.

Mi-pung is still desolate and pining over Hana, and he wanders around daydreaming about her. Meanwhile, as we suspected, Su-Hee is a less than stellar mother, neglecting to feed Hana properly, and leaving her home alone while she goes out to meet a friend.

Lonely, with nowhere else to go and hoping to catch some time with Dae-pung, Bok-shil hangs around the Song house on a quiet Sunday. Unfortunately, Dae-pung is gone for most of the day, so Bok-shil ends up helping Mama Song make kimchi pancakes all day. When Dae-pung and Jin-pung finally come home, instead of being welcoming, Dae-pung is exasperated to find Bok-shil there on her day off.

Dad Oh and Dad Song both bug Jung-ok for the proper address to the mysterious woman’s house, and both end up getting there on the same day. It appears that they fought over this ajumma, Eun-jung, in the past, and she’s the reason they ended their friendship (of course it’s over a woman). Both are none too pleased to see the other at Eun-jung’s house, and they bicker the whole time, with Eun-jung scolding them like children.

Despite Oh-Ma’s warnings to Eun-ji, she goes to visit Sun-pung at work and asks him to take her out to dinner. At dinner, she fusses over him, cutting his food, feeding him, plucking gray hairs, and finally kissing him. Unbeknownst to the couple, a young fan has spied them and surreptitiously takes pictures and video of them. The next day, the videos end up on the internet, causing a huge scandal. Both families see the videos online, and both mothers have extreme reactions in line with their characters– Oh-Ma faints, and Mama Song goes batshit. (I love it.)

Episode 20

Dad Song and Dad Oh continue to visit Eun-jung. They go to her beauty shop on the same day as an excuse to see her– Dad Oh gets a haircut and Dad Song gets a perm. Dad Song comes home to find his family having a pow-wow about Sun-pung and Eun-ji’s internet scandal, and the family fills him in on the details while collectively berating Sun-pung.

Meanwhile, the Oh family has a pow-wow of their own. Oh-Ma’s anger at Eun-ji will not be assuaged, even as Jung-ok tries to reason with her that others have survived far worse scandals. In an effort to control Eun-ji, Oh-Ma takes away her cell phone and makes her stay at home (who knew it was possible to ground a 25-year-old grown woman??).

Jung-ok calls on Sun-pung at work to size him up. She asks him directly how much he likes Eun-ji. Flustered, Sun-pung is unable to answer properly. Jung-ok later goes home and relays their conversation to Eun-ji, and then asks her if Sun-pung has even tried to get in touch. When Eun-ji says no, Jung-ok tells her he’s not worth her time because he obviously doesn’t find her worth his effort. Feeling like a fool, Eun-ji steals Jung-ok’s phone while she’s sleeping and calls Sun-pung. She apologizes to him for causing a scandal, tells him that she’ll leave him alone from now on, and quickly hangs up. Sun-pung tries to call her back, but it’s too late, as Eun-ji has replaced the phone and gone back to her own room.

Mi-ran tells Mi-pung that he saw Su-hee with Hana at the local sauna. He rushes off and finds Hana wailing while Su-hee is passed out next to her surrounded by a bunch of empty beer cans. He rescues Hana and brings her back home.

And of course, we have our love triangle. Er, love square. It appears that as Su-jin’s feelings for Jin-pung are getting stronger, so too are Dae-pung’s feelings for Su-jin. Meanwhile, Bok-shil has taken notice of Dae-pung’s attentions to Su-jin and tries to make him notice her. Dae-pung asks Su-jin to a musical, and asks Jin-pung to pick the kids up and babysit for the night. Instead of going to meet Dae-pung, however, Su-jin rushes to get the kids from the pharmacy and trips and scrapes up her knee in the process. Jin-pung dresses her wounds and treats the family to pizza at his pharmacy. As Dae-pung rushes out from his office upstairs to meet Su-jin (with Bok-shil trying to stop him by telling him she has something important to tell him), he glances through the pharmacy window and witnesses the cozy scene…

Episode 21

Dae-pung goes to the musical alone after seeing Su-jin having fun with Jin-pung in the pharmacy and realizing that Su-jin and Jin-pung might be developing feelings for each other. Su-jin never shows up for the musical, and later reminds Dae-pung that she never actually agreed to go with him. All of this puts Dae-pung in a foul mood, and he picks fights with a clueless Jin-pung the next day.

Dad Song and Dad Oh both show up at Eun-Jung’s house bearing yummy treats. The trio decide to go for a ride in a row-boat. Of course, this leads to bickering between Dad Song and Dad Oh, and they end up tipping over the boat into the water. Later, both go home and carelessly cast aside their wet clothes (silly boys). When their wives discover the clothes, they also discover ticket stubs from the boat ride and their suspicions are aroused. After a bit of investigating, Mom Song and Oh Ma both find out that their husbands have been visiting Eun-jung and they head to her beauty salon. Mom Song and Oh Ma run into each other in Eun-jung’s neighborhood and after a bit of discussion, they realize that their husbands are both cheating on them with the same hussy. Mom Song makes an executive decision to go into the salon and tear shit up, and Oh-Ma helplessly follows in her wake. But, when Mom Song sees Eun-jung and her decidedly un-hussy-like demeanor, she loses her nerve and announces that they’re there so that Oh-Ma can get a perm. Oh-Ma ends up going home with a frizzy mama pama and each wife tears into her husband at home.

Sun-pung and Eun-ji are both suffering over their breakup, but neither knows how to fix the situation. Sun-poong goes to the mountains to clear his head, and when he gets back he consults Jin-pung. Sun-pung tells Jin-pung that he’s sorry and thankful to Eun-ji and that he thinks he might love her. Jin-pung tells Sun-pung that he should just tell her exactly how he feels, explaining that his biggest regret was not being honest with Hye-rim about his feelings. Sun-pung rushes over to Eun-ji’s house and when she gets home, he lays it all out for her in his dorky, sweet, earnest way. Eun-ji, still miffed, drops an elbow on his back but Sun-pung grabs her to him in a hug.

COMMENTS

The thing that struck me in these episodes is that quite a few of the characters are lonely in their own little ways. Of course, Bok-shil is the loneliest character (her loneliness is literally palpable at times), but so is Mi-ran, the only young woman in a house full of sons, and who is constantly disappointed by failed auditions. So it makes sense that they eventually become friends. We also see Jin-pung’s loneliness lessened a little by the time he spends with Brutus’ kids, particularly Mari, whom he dotes on. And Granddad Song, who still misses his long-dead wife, finds some solace in his relationship with Brutus, and more recently, Sung-jin, who also suffer from loneliness not only because of Hye-rim’s death, but because of their outsider status in Korea. And vice versa. In this context, the drama is very much a tender story of the comfort that people find in their non-romantic relationships.

Now, about the Dad Song/Eun-jung/Dad Oh trio. I think Miss Eun-jung is really a bit of a hussy. I mean, she knows that the men both have puppy dog crushes on her, they both bicker over her like little kids, and instead of discouraging their behavior, she seems to enjoy the attention. And whatever, I get that she’s lonely because she lost her husband and son. But STILL. It’s not cool. And same goes for Dad Song and Dad Oh. They should be mooning over their wives, not a hussy who played them 30+ years before, too. But, I suppose there has to be some way of explaining their past and bringing them back together again. I just wish it had been a little more creative.RELATED POSTS

yay! thanks so much! ive been waiting for this! i just finished ep 21 and i have to agree, the whole dads fued thing started out cute but now i find myself wanting to fast forward through their scenes. but i sooo love seonpung and eunji! theyre so cute!

also i find the jinpung/mari relationship absolutely adorable! i love their scenes together

ah thank you. this is a reminder for me that I haven’t continue to watch this drama.
😀 It’s still entertaining, I just got distracted by newer ones.. 😛

I love Eunji and Sun Pung! they’re so adorable… and Mari – I remember her and keep her appearance’s video on Star King where she picked Siwon as the most handsome oppa! She has very good taste as a kid!

Ah, long weekend here, I think I will start watching this again tomorrow~~

I love this drama so much.. I watch it every week as soon as the subs come out (sometimes, I even watch it without subs.. lol)

*spoiler*
Now that they are concentrating on the other three brothers’ romantic interactions (with a heavy emphasis on Daepoong-Jennifer), I miss the fact that the romance between our young newly weds has sizzled out!!! =( I wish we had more cute sun-pong/eun-ji interactions and less Ma Oh/ Sun Pong interactions (even if they are kinda funny)…
*spoiler ends*

I love this show a lot and I would definitely recommend it to anyone.. who wants to watch 30-ish minutes of pure fun and cuteness.. all the characters are endearing and there is always something interesting going on.. anyone who wants to watch a family-interaction-heavy romantic comedy SHOULD watch this show!

I’m really enjoying this show, the interactions between all the characters are so cute and endearing!
But for some reason in the recent episodes the Dae-poong and Bok Shil set-up feels like it’s going a little too slowly, and is anyone else getting annoyed by the music that always plays when “Jennifer” comes on? Before it was ok when they started using it for Bok Shil’s exercise/socializing scenes, but now it’s a little off putting and a little too noticable when it’s used in transition scenes and the beat suddenly comes on..

Anyway, still loving the show, and hopefully Bok Shil will really put Dae Poong in his place soon!

I thought I was the only one totally displeased over the real reason behind Dad Oh and Dad Song’s fight and on-going rivalry! Considering this drama is really about family relationships at its heart, they heavily downplayed the negative consequences of their actions and turned it into a comedy in the hopes that people won’t think about it too much, but it just made me angrier.

They never dealt with the fact that these two grown MARRIED men constantly lying to their wives and going out with their high school crush is just wrong. It might not be quite on the level as someone bringing a mistress to a hotel room, but still… neither men are remotely apologetic, nor do they seem to have realized that’ve done anything bad.

I just wish they would have at least made the timeline more plausible. The three oldest Song boys are about 35,38, and 40 but the Papas supposedly fought over this woman 30 years ago, before they met their wives? Hello people… a little bit of high school algebra could have made me a little less upset about this. I always wondered how they’d been married for 40 years and only fighting for 30 years, yet the families didn’t know each other. But I decided to let it go. But come on, maybe it’s the engineer in me, but a total disregard for the laws of mathematics kind of irks me.

I will say, I’ve watched a little beyond this and I love the way this storyline ends and some of the results from it so I’ve forgiven it for being so stupid!

There were some moments that were not that stellar, but overall, I greatly enjoyed this drama. And I also enjoyed your recaps too!

“In an effort to control Eun-ji, Oh-Ma takes away her cell phone and makes her stay at home (who knew it was possible to ground a 25-year-old grown woman??)”

Heheheh. My mom loves this part. Each episode she must go on her lecture how no matter what age you age, it goes as following: In terms of respect, your parents are always above.

Like the four sons – the oldest is forty, but there is absolutely no such thing as “I’m an adult now – don’t tell me what to do”.

She must even picky me at the slightest idea, how at each morning, “Did you notice how all the sons gave respect and said good morning? It was never the parents that had to say it first, but the sons.”

My MIL is so much like mother song due to raising 3 boys. I have new found sympathy and respect for my MIL after watching this show and what she must have endured with “three useless sons” as she says

Though it is not a great show, I have a lot of fondness for this show due to its focus on family and the endearing moments it provides is really touching.

In terms of punishing your son. My grandma spanked my dad with a shoe when he was 45 yo so in korean culture, there never is an expiration date to disciplining your child.

Now for annoying parts.

1. Jennifer’s theme. ahhh. more like annoying noise. Wish they would stop playing it as it is really grating.
2. time discontinuity. The whole grudge timeline doesn’t make sense as people pointed out. I hate when shows make mistakes like that because it shows the writers are not paying enough attention that viewers will pick out in a heartbeat.
3. Dislike the daepung/bokshil plot. These people are not my favorites in the show to start with and I have always found daepung annoying as hell but we are in episode 35 and I still find them annoying. .