Less than nubile, happily partnered damsel of the sapphic persuasion waits too long to attempt pregnancy. Enlists the use of donor sperm and donor eggs.
One fresh cycle and one frozen embryo transfer later and the dreamed of BFP happens.
She walks down the aisle and marries her sweetheart while 7 months pregnant.
Out comes baby girl , and a whole new life (for all of them).
Fast forward 3 yrs. Baby boy is born, her marriage is made legal and the adventure continues....

Wednesday, December 14, 2011

We are all touched by cancer one way or another. I wrote about the Hartfords here and asked for your help and support as they negotiate this difficult journey together, as we lift them up and send love and blessings to them. And soft, warm, restorative... cash. Which they need to help them through and to provide the concrete things that we all need in our daily lives, plus help with medical bills and such-like.

Hello Everyone!
I realize it has been awhile since I’ve updated everyone on my process,
and wanted to reach out to share where I’m at these days.

After my experience at Seattle Cancer Care Alliance, I set out to
find someone who could be of better assistance to me in regards to
overseeing my whole care. After some research, I found a body of
practitioners called naturopathic oncologists. I wish I would have know
about this field 2 months ago! There are only 9 in Washington, and
they train alongside medical and radiation oncologists to serve the
population of folks who want to integrate individual holistic care with
conventional cancer care. A Dr. named Leanna Standish was referred to me
by a friend who is cancer free from Stage III colon cancer. I met with
her last week and I breathed a sigh of relief, feeling a great weight
off my shoulders from managing this on my own. She is very experienced,
skilled and gracious. She immediately sat down and said, “Well, it
looks like you’ve had a little brush with breast cancer!” We talked at
length about all of my options and agreed to take it one step at a time,
do surgery, get reports back and talk again, She was very reassuring
about my health, good prognosis, and has little concern there would be
any surprises with my cancer. I left her office with a prescription for
walking and journaling everyday. That’s much harder than I thought!

So, from a timeline point of view, here’s what it looks like. Surgery
on the 15th to do a lumpectomy. I’ll be doing it here in Bellingham
with a skilled surgeon I trust. He’ll remove the lump with 1cm margins
and what’s called my sentinel lymph node and test it to see if cancer
has spread there. They will know that result immediately. The surgery
is at 8am, will last 2 hours and unless there is lymph node involvement,
I will go home the same day. They will send test results out and I meet
with the surgeon to interpret them a week later. That’s when we come up
with an initial follow up treatment plan, that may include a 7 week
course of radiation. I think my recovery time should be quick, but I’m
not to lift for 1 week. We’ll see how that goes in my house!

I wanted to thank everyone for your warm wishes, prayers, and
generous donations to help with costs. I can’t share enough how much
your contributions are helping our family. This diagnoses came at an
unfortunate financial time and we have been month to month with expenses
and rising medical bills. While it can be an awkward and uncomfortable
position to be in, asking for help, if I hadn’t, I wouldn’t know the
extent that my friends, family and people I’ve never met are rising up
to encourage and support our family. Please accept my deep
appreciation. We will update everyone post surgery and hope to send
good news your way.