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How to Tell Someone They Suck and Need to Be a Better Parent

It’s been said that “to have a child is one thing, but to be an actual parent is another thing entirely.” Unfortunately, and most probably due to a fear of eugenics, there is no limit on the number of children that one may have, and rarely are children taken from their parents absent extreme circumstances. This leaves the door open for some of the most inept and unfit people to reproduce at they see fit. Not everyone knows how to be a parent, and some people aren’t even aware of just how bad of a parent they are. It can very difficult to watch a child suffer due to neglectful, ignorant parents. So in the event you happen to be a bystander in this scenario, you definitely need to find a way to suggest to this person that they re-think their parenting strategy or overhaul it entirely. Unfortunately this is often easier said than done. What if the parent lashes out and threatens you? What if you’re told to mind your own business? Maybe you’ll be told that you shouldn’t be raising other people’s children. Or perhaps you’ll be cut off before you even get a chance to complete your first sentence.

These are all very real possibilities, but they still shouldn’t stop you from getting your point across. So stop staying silent, and let The Incognito Help give a bad parent your opinion of them, so you don’t have to tell them yourself!

If you’re not familiar with the service, The Incognito Help Line, is an anonymous message provider that will personally call and deliver any message to anyone with the promise that it will not be traced back to you. As the number one professional anonymous messaging service, The Incognito Help Line knows that sometimes its easier to let someone say things for you, (which is why The Incognito Help Line was created- for people & situations just like this). It’s one thing if someone gets a random phone call or text when they can’t validate where it comes from or if it’s meant to be taken seriously or as a joke. But if they get a personal phone call, email or letter from The Incognito Help Line, they’ll know the message is serious and isn’t a joke, and it’s that personal touch that makes all the difference.

At the end of the day, people too often love to shoot the messenger instead of just focusing in on the message. Yet remember, while this is not an easy job, it’s a matter of a child’s life and well being. Things only get worse over time, so the sooner something is said, the better. Good luck!