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Monday, January 26, 2015

I remember how daunting the prospect was to leave high school and start my college career. I felt like I was standing on the edge of a cliff called Childhood and asked to jump into the ravine below called Adulthood. My toes curled on the edge of the rock, touching the open air. It was scary.

As the co-leader of the college/career group at my church, I was asked to go to a high school senior retreat to share some of my top three tips to the anxious seniors. These could probably apply to life in general, so I thought I'd share them with you all.

#1
– Be intentional.

In high
school, almost everything is predetermined for you by adults or conveniently
and readily available.Your schedule is
set by the school, you see (most if not all of) your friends five days a week,
and your parents drive you to church on Fridays and Sundays.

When you’re
in college, the proverbial Pandora’s Box is opened and all of the sudden you
are in charge of your life.Especially
if you’re a commuter to campus (as I was all 4 years), you have to be really
intentional about how you spend your time, who your friends are, and what is
important to you.The decisions you make
say a lot about your priorities.Decide
what those are and intentionally make decisions to demonstrate that.

#2
– Remember where you came from.

Whether you
go out of state or live on campus, don’t forget your family and friends back
home.They shaped you and will continue
to if you make a place for them in your life.While you don’t need to come home every weekend or call your mom every
night, don’t forget that your support team back home misses you and wants to
know how you’re doing.Make time for
them (part of being intentional) and don’t forget how much you’ve learned and
gained from your home team.(PS – this
is also Biblical advice!)

#3
– Challenge yourself.

College and
independence give you a lot of new opportunities, both bad and good.Keep your head on straight and think, but
also don’t be afraid to take a step of faith.Do something that may be different from the norm.

Join that
club, volunteer, sign up for an extracurricular class, get involved, talk to
someone new, befriend someone different, go to professor office hours, be Jesus
to those around you.You probably won’t
ever again have as much freedom and available opportunity as you do in this
season of life.Going to college is a
privilege, not a right, so make sure you take advantage of the gift God has
given you.

Saturday, January 10, 2015

It's been over a year since I've posted regularly on my blog, and while I do not intend to keep up with my regular weekly updates, I think its time to revive this thing.

The past six or so months, I've struggled with my writing. I am a very busy person. For the most part, I enjoy staying busy, but I've been juggling tasks at my limit for quite some time now. I'm not sure what items I can drop; they are all very important to me.

So, writing took its place on the back-burner of my schedule. I'm ashamed to say I haven't really worked on fiction in months either. People have asked me how my novel is going. I have to tell them that truthfully its going nowhere fast. I feel like wincing every time I have to say it.

Maybe its the coming of the New Year, hearing everyone else talk about resolutions (even though I dislike resolutions personally). Perhaps it is the rising out of the ashes of the holiday season, tired and lethargic. Or maybe, if I am brave enough to say it, from the dissatisfaction with the present comes a desire for change.

So, I thank you for your patience and understanding. I'm going to need the encouragement to fight the uphill battle of self improvement. Thanks for the likes and the comments. Much appreciated. I look forward to the future.