The Sexodus: The Men Giving Up On Women And Checking Out Of Society

thats kind of how it works
if nobody thinks about the situation (which is true of most) the only thing gleened from it is that you are willing to submit

The subconscious is a real b/tch. So is long term conditioning.

Basically, it's being said that selflessness warrants pity &/or disdain. We live in a world where we are innately driven towards coupling, but
coupling has become wholly corrupted by & dependent on the materialistic system we've all been oh so conditioned to worship. "Feminism" is just
another byproduct of Keynesian economic failure, where a persons value surely can't be equal to anything other than their wealth/status. If
selflessness = submissiveness then I'm happy to never be considered a dominant alpha male.

It really wouldn't hurt many men that want women to live with them like they are married to just go ahead and marry the woman. At some point the
virtues need to be valued and not the bad things used as an excuse for non-commitment.

There may be some justification to the argument that two many younger men these days have witnessed that ravages to a marriage gone very bad but this
argument doesn't cover the thing very well. In totality anyway.

My son is coming up 9 in 2015, and I have already sat down and explained sex to him, as he asked what it was. His mother lets him watch whatever he
wants. I can only hope I've educated him well, and that he remembers what I taught him.

I find that explaining something to him, allows him to broach a subject without feeling like hes bad or something.

I've said to him no matter what, he can always come to me with anything and I won't get mad, most parents get mad as # and their kids won't talk to
them.

So yea, people can say porn isn't an issue. I say 15 year old kids who have unfettered access to the most hardcore porn is a cause for concern.

Yepp. You're right. Children should not be exposed to such sexual things that adults have consented to equally, so as to afford themselves and
others an opportunity to explore and enact sexually mature fantasies.

When minors are involved, PARENTS have the RESPONSIBILITY of both educating minors as to their budding sexuality in par with that sexual
development (unique to each individual and proportional to their sexual maturity), as well as taking ACTION as the childs caretaker by
controlling what that child has access to.

And when it comes to such modern day things as electronic communication devices (phones) and the internet, there is something inherently wrong that
parents today do not prevent their children from accessing such things. Where most will say "How can I?", I say it is as simple as not giving them
smartphones, or selectively blocking access to various features.

All of this is readily available as options to such technology. It is merely inertia and complacency that cause this lais·sez-faire "who gives a #"
attitude of humans that shouldn't be parents in the first place due to there unwillingness to BE the parent that they chose to become, or
unwillingly become due to making wrong choices. Either way, it is their responsibility.

And to those who say "It's too hard to understand" or "how am I supposed to stay on top of this stuff?", I say, strap on a pair and ACCEPT YOUR
RESPONSIBILITY AS PARENTS.

-NF

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edit on 11-12-2014 by nullafides because: lord I hate the
editing lack of options here....

And on the topic of porn, the issue really comes down to parenting. Yes porn is easily and freely accessible on the internet. But parents should be
taking an active role in the online life of their children, educating them about what's right, what's wrong. Even installing the appropriate
"nanny" software to prevent children from accessing explicit websites. Explain to them that porn is a very a unrealistic depiction of natural sex.
There are tons of things you can do as a parent to help raise your child right.

Most do not. Average age of parents has fallen dramatically. Most parents now are in their mid to late 20s while their kid is coming up to teenage
years.

The problem is, the parents are often still young themselves, and don't really see that as being an issue. Only since I turned 30 this year have I
really begun to see my parenting in a different light.

I'm still a fun loving dad that does everything with him, but now I make sure his homework is done, hes making his bed and cleaning his room. Some
discipline will do him good.

For instance, he can play the Xbox on a Saturday/Sunday only when he has cleaned his room, and (weather permitting) has been outside to play football
or such.

He resisted at first, but now before I am even awake on a Sunday he has cleaned his mess, made his bed and is ready for breakfast and to go out.
Positive reinforcement, was the key for me. Happy son who cleans up after himself and actually wants to play outside making tree houses and such.

originally posted by: SoldierCarryingHashbrowns
Any man who gives up on society because women are too MEEEEEAAANN is nothing more than a loser getting weeded out of the gene pool. Natural selection
at its finest.

Think about it, do women avoid you just because you're a man, OR because you're a thirty something gamer living with your mother posting at MRA
forums?

Men are making conscious efforts to not pursue commitments that statistically are failing at a high rate.

Yes, exactly. Good parenting goes MILES for keeping kids informed and making smart choices. I also agree with you, young parents are becoming more
common, and many of these new parents were raised by the TV and Internet. The problem begins and ends with proper parenting.

originally posted by: SoldierCarryingHashbrowns
Any man who gives up on society because women are too MEEEEEAAANN is nothing more than a loser getting weeded out of the gene pool. Natural selection
at its finest.

Think about it, do women avoid you just because you're a man, OR because you're a thirty something gamer living with your mother posting at MRA
forums?

This goes to my point that "love" has become a deformed mutant that thrives purely on illusory status & materialistic priorities of
perceived self & projected value.

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