Dealing With Flakes - Be the One That Got Away

It's this new thing I'm doing... and when I say 'new' I mean new for me, not new for the world.

As some of you know, I had the ridiculous thought recently about a girl I've been one-itising for:
"...fark, I think things are falling apart between me and one of the three chicks I had back to my place this weekend... Oh, wait... LOL"

And here I sit this afternoon, on the verge of texting any one of four somewhat flakey sets I've had recently. But then my frame control checked my negative thoughts - I'm not getting flaked on by these girls, I'll go NC because I'm the one that got away.

One was a kiss close who is cautious to be aroused - she'll feel her window of opportunity closing
One was a kiss close who I think had a date last night - odds are the other guy has less game, she'll be feeling buyers remorse
Two were f-closes that I quit paying attention to - I'll grant them second chances

Point is, in a solid frame, a flake is only a regretful girl who realizes you're the one who got away. Giving her a second chance is optional

Re: Dealing With Flakes - Be the One That Got Away

I like this way of looking at things, Iv started just not texting back if she isn't being interesting, they then end up sending me texts later obv trying to hold my attention and chase me, no contact works sooo well sometimes lol