Dumpees Gone Wild! (Think before you dump your lover)

Nobody likes to be dumped. Especially when you're madly in
love with your partner, and had no idea whatsoever the relationship
was in any trouble.

Not only do you have to get through the inevitable feelings
of loss and disappointment, but you'll also have the cope with
feelings of rejection, and sometimes even humiliation.

What are you going to tell people when they ask why the relationship
ended? Can you face admitting you were dumped, or will you make
up a story to save face?

While we all hate the idea of being dumped by a lover, most
of us would "Get over it" in the end, and could move on with
our lives left with nothing more than a slightly bruised ego.

For some however, swallowing the bitter pill of rejection
is just too much to take, and as you're about to find out can
push some people over the emotional edge.

You're about to see what happens when "Dumpees Go Wild!"

The Ultimate Humiliation

In years gone by, seeing a woman throwing her ex's belongings
from an upstairs window would have been considered shocking,
but that's nothing compared to the length jilted lovers will
go to today to show their partners how unhappy they are with
their decision to end the relationship.

Down in southern Texas a few years ago, a dental surgeon
came home to find a note from his fiancée telling him she'd
left him, and had moved out to live with her sister downtown.

He raced off in his Hummer to try and talk his lady round,
but when he arrived at her sister's house he got the news that
would tip him over the edge.

His fiancée wasn't going to be living there at all. She'd
instead moved a few blocks down the street to make home with
her new lover, a 60 year old truck driver!

He decided to pay his ex and her new man a visit, but instead
of using the front door, he drove his Hummer straight through
the front window of the house, and into the shocked couple's
living room!

Last year saw a controversial story of revenge hit the headlines
when a man jilted by his woman paid for a huge billboard to
be put up near their home in New Mexico, claiming his ex girlfriend
had had an abortion, not a miscarriage as she'd claimed.

While the truth behind that story remains a mystery, it's
not the first time dumpees have used billboard advertising to
embarrass those who dared dump them.

A couple of years ago over in the UK a woman plastered her
local town with adverts with a picture of her ex-boyfriend and
the text, "Ladies, this man is a cheat and he's rubbish in bed!"

Although the adverts were pulled down within the week, I
think it's fair to say her ex would have been recognized on
more than one occasion.

Do Women Do It Best?

When it comes to wild dumpees getting vicious revenge, guys
do some pretty extreme things to make their point, but in 2006
a 23 year old from New York went as extreme as you can get.
Punishing her boyfriend for cheating and planning to leave her
by slicing off his genitals, only to find out his infidelity
was a lie!

It was late winter, and while out at a Christmas party Jenny
was cornered by one of her boyfriend's so-called "friends".

This friend proceeded to tell Jenny how he'd spotted her
man out with different women, and had overheard him telling
someone he planned on leaving her in the New Year. It was later
discovered the guy had made up the story in a bid to split the
couple up. He had a crush on Jenny and wanted to come across
as the knight in shining armor.

Heartbroken, and slightly the worse for wear after a number
of vodkas, Jenny charged out of the bar in tears and made straight
for home, where her unwitting boyfriend lay asleep.

It was only on feeling the shooting pain of a cold metal
blade across his manhood that he woke up to Jenny's uncontrollable
screams. It was suggested he actually got away with deep lacerations,
and some minor tissue damage. Thank goodness he wasn't a deep
sleeper!

It's not known how much truth there is in the story, or whether
it's just a myth to scare men from being tempted by the fruit
of another.

One thing's for certain, in a world where dumpees will go
to extremes to get their revenge, you should think very carefully
before you decide to dump your other half.

Is the relationship really that bad?

Could your problems be sorted out with better communication?

If you think the time really has come to end your relationship
then our very serious advice is to be completely honest and
open with your partner about your feelings. Let them down gently,
and do everything in your power to ensure their pride isn't
too badly damaged.

Do the dirty on them and you could find your face plastered
all over town, or even worse you'll be calling in the builders
to replace the front wall of your house!

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