What is your Love Personality?

Written by Alina Ruigrok - www.love-sessions.com

It is an obvious fact that we can learn and know what true love is. What we are often not aware of though, is that there are different love trends. Does it even matter if we understand love trends? If we are in a happy relationship, then that means it is all fine, right? Yes and No. Although, your love with your partner might run smoothly for a while, it can take a turn we often never expect. This is why knowing about love trends is helpful.

What may have turned you or your partner on at first, might not be a turn on later. How is this possible if they seemed so crazy over certain things before? The reason is quite simple and reasonable. When we first get involved with people, attraction and lust is so strong (not that it would not be later), that way one seduces other is not truly focused on, but simply instantly appreciated, since they are so drawn to one another.

As relationship proceeds and bond builds, you will start getting in touch with your own style of loving and expecting your partner to match up to it. At times, this will be just case. Couples can share same love trend, but at other times, they can differ. If your trends do differ, do not look at it as negative, but as a way to combine them and form a creative love trend together. It should not be one way or other. There is no such thing as wrong way to love, except for obsession, controlling and abuse, of course-which is not love anyway, although some feel it is.

How do you even come about recognizing love personality of yours or your partners? It is not difficult, but does require quite a bit amount of observation. Start by making notes of your romantic qualities and ideas of what great romance, sex and seduction is to you. Do you like walks on beach and dining at cozy, romantic restaurants? Or do you like setting up your sexual activities by setting up a scene and playing along with it, or just going with flow? By knowing what trend you follow, you will then be introduced to your romantic identity and know what you need from your partner.

There are several types of love trends that you should know about. It will help you come to a deeper understanding of what type of lover you are and your partner as well. People, whose personalities follow emotional trend, are lovers who pay attention more to meaning behind things, instead of thing itself. A man who does not really care for picnics on beach may still love event due to intention behind it. He sees effort his mate put into it and sees love and caring meaning that his mate had when idea was thought of and planned. Emotional lovers are sensitive and love sharing with their partners and are also very spiritual. They do not hold back from expressing their true feelings.

A Creative trend follower on other hand, may have some of same traits as an emotional lover, but focuses more on discovering new things and trying them out, taking risks for a bigger thrill. They love to plan and be a part of interesting activities with their lovers because they like going through adventures and new territories together. These types of lovers are found to be quite exciting because they seem to be more mysterious and full of surprises and imagination.

Then you have traditional trend follower, who likes to follow rules of what society considers right way to handle a relationship. They believe in having one partner, following dating and romance guides to point (bringing a girl some flowers when picking her up at door for a date, just to mention one). They also believe in being organized, being financially responsible and planning events that will take place in their lives with their partners.

Those are main trends that most people fall into following. This does not mean that a person who has a certain love trend cannot carry qualities from other trends, however. It just means they in general carry that love personality. There is no trend better than other either. Each trend is unique and interesting in itís own way. When two people follow same trend, it is fabulous because they both know exactly what other is fond of and what to expect as well. There are hardly mixed signals. Having different trends is also a wonderful thing. When a couple has their individual love personality, it opens door for each one to learn new ways to love expressions and can create a great trend combination!

Are you Addicted to Bad Relationships?

Written by Alina Ruigrok - www.love-sessions.com

Do you often find that you involve yourself in relationships that disappoint you? Are you not getting what you need and desire from people you choose to date? Does there always seem to be something missing? If you answered yes to one or all of those questions, you could very well be addicted to disappointing and bad relationships, setting yourself up for failure without even knowing it. There are ways you can determine whether you are addicted or not, and ways you can break addiction and start getting what you have always wanted from a relationship.

Before we cover symptoms of addiction, it is important that we cover dangers of staying in a bad relationship. Since bad relationships lack what one or both partnersí need, stress becomes a regular part of your life, as well a gradual lowering of your self-esteem, which will make you unable to focus on your career and personal life with concentration and care needed, in order for you to be happy. The constant stress will produce chemical changes in your body that drain your energy and make you more eligible for physical illnesses. Physical abuse in a relationship is obvious to cause a lot of physical harm, along with great psychological damage, but in spite of these facts, many people still choose to proceed with such relationships, finding themselves trapped and incapable of leaving. They find themselves depressed, on a search for some relief and unfortunately becoming depressed and possibly turning to drugs and alcohol.

So what are symptoms of this addiction? Ignoring truth would be one. If you truly know that relationship you are in is making you unhappy but make no effort to exit from it, then you are in denial and are holding yourself hostage in a situation you do not have to be in. Making excuses for your partnerís disappointing and bad behavior will keep you trapped and is another huge symptom of bad relationship addiction, especially if excuses you produce do not back up facts and are unrealistic. If you do finally build up courage to confront your partner to leave him or her but are overcome with fear and therefore back off from confrontation, you are a high and sure victim of addiction because no matter what you attempt, you find yourself always giving in and holding on to what you know is bad for you. Suffering from both physical and mental discomfort once broken up, unless you get back together, is yet another symptom of addiction and should not be denied or ignored.