Needless to say at 45, I’ve become less hard-headed and I seek the lesson in everything , because my soul purpose leads me to explore life with all three of my eyes open. I didn’t just wake up one morning with this awareness, it was a process; in fact quite a long process that was painful and repetitive until I learned to listen to that voice within me. Call it intuition, call it God, it really doesn’t matter how you address it, but I’ve learned that the voice is always right and all I need to do is listen.

Being an unapologetic black girl supersedes a fetching Instagram hashtag , it is a lifestyle. A lifestyle defying the stereotypes, standards, and stigma's that seem to follow us on our journey; even when we're ten steps ahead. The movement of being "unapologetic" or "care-free" is a declaration that we're recognizing these implicit brandings and challenging them by living our most authentic lives, on our own terms, with absolutely no fucks given

There's so much beauty in being an empath. Yes, our feelings can be a bit complex & commanding, but our love is transcendent. I'm still learning how to navigate this life, but here a few lessons I've learned in the process.

Some of us mystics use crystals to shift the energies of specific aspects of our life- self, love, protection, friendships, family, career, health, finance, personal goals. The limit does not exist! Similar to people, every type of crystal has a story and purpose- it's origin, healing properties. Here's a guide to get you started on your crystal healing!

Cooking up that white Jay-Z, baggie jeans and white tees Jay-Z, V8 Range and icey Jay-Z, poppin Cristal- “Y'all be chasin', I replace them” Jay-Z. Unevolved he was, but his authenticity is what etched his footprints into a timeline of greatness that hasn’t slowed down. Lesson- When one lives authentically or in their truth, greatness is revealed and prevails. He was on a path, some call it destiny..The toughest lessons become blessings. I get it that not everyone is on this part of the journey, but we’re all on the same path, so why not embrace someone who’s willing to reveal and expose the error of their ways so that you too might avoid those hard earned lessons. I felt hopeful for my black men, the ones who weren’t given the tools, that maybe, just maybe they’ll begin to understand that “this spiritual sh*t really works”.