Sexual Abuse Support Group

Sexual abuse is a relative cultural term used to describe sexual relations and behavior between two or more parties which are considered criminally and/or morally offensive. Different types of sexual abuse involve: Non-consensual, forced physical sexual behavior such as rape, incest or sexual assault, or psychological forms of abuse, such as verbal sexual behavior or...

Dark Fantasies....HELP! :o(

Ever since I was sexually abused at a tender age, I have had dark thoughts (me dying, imagining my funeral,etc.). I have also had very dark sexual fantasies. They are almost always about me being forced into sex, vampires attacking me in very sensual and seductive ways and in violent ways, pretty much anything involving domination of me at any cost.

Um, okay, what is WRONG WITH ME???!!!???

I used to think it was innocent fantasies, but they are in my head ALL THE TIME!! Sometimes I find myself in a daze in the middle of work from these thoughts. They are exhausting. It is negatively impacting my life. I know it must be because of the sexual abuse I suffered as a child.

Has anyone else suffered from these problems due to prior sexual abuse???

I hate to ask such a question and I don't want to make anyone uncomfortable, but I don't know where else to turn. :o(

I've had those same fantasies, but they've never interrupted my work day. I say that because if anything interferes with a work day or normal comings and goings I suggest finding a therapist who you are comfortable with in sharing everything. Good luck, keep up the talking because that is a huge healing factor. Much love and acceptance for you.

I have a similar problem. I never fantasize about wonderful loving relationships. It's always about me getting hurt and someone saving me. The weirdest part is that I always imagine that the person saving me is my brother and he was the one that abused me in every way possible. Now, it's not my actual brother but a made up one. It's easier to imagine that my bro would love me no matter what and that if I were in trouble he would drop everything to help me out. It's not the best thing for me I know but quite frankly it is what gets me through some of the rougher days.
I don't know if this helps in anyway. I just thought I would add my story.
((((HUGS))))

hi there,
yes, sometimes i do have dark fantasies. i never used to tho, i always had to be in control and feel powerful, but now, i am starting to like being dominated. always had the vampire fantasy and have recently had fantasies of a home invasion with the guy forcing me into sex. i think when a young person is sexually abused, it is normal for the victim to have &quot;issues&quot; with sex such as masterbation addiction, porn, and so on. you have to keep moving tho and never give up! bless you.

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