You Don't Impress Me Much

I am reading a novel (more on it later) in which a woman is impressed by a person's title and status ... which got me thinking and hence this post - What do I get impressed with?

I am not impressed by titles. It does not make a difference to me if someone is a king or a colonel. I am not impressed by degrees either. I know a fair share of people (hello fellow south asians!) who have masters, double masters, Ph.D, and other medical degrees. It is their academic achievement. They deserve the credit for their hard work and more power to them for pursuing higher education, but it still does not necessarily impress me.

I am not impressed by wealth either. In fact I am least impressed by wealth. I am amused and may be a little curious about their line of work (if they are billionaires) but still not impressed. There are one too many rich people in this world with poor sense of style, absolutely no common sense and even little courtesy.

Which got me to a point, where I thought - boy I am a tough audience! ... but then not really. I soon reached the conclusion that I am impressed by action and intention. I am impressed by people who walk the talk. I am impressed by people who are able to achieve their goals and dreams in spite of the obstacles and adversities they might have faced. I am impressed by people who take stock of all their resources and strength and use it to make a difference in the world. I am impressed by people who are selfless.

So I guess, I am more impressed by a person's journey to their 'title, status, or wealth' but not really by the end result. Because it does not really mean anything to have all those 'things' until you also have some substance to back it up with.

p.s. I am mighty impressed by athletes. Their passion, dedication and discipline is something that really motivates and inspires me.

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Tanvi! Such a clever idea of wearing a dress like a suit. I didn't even realize that it's a dress till I read the details of the outfit. And the phulkari is super pretty as well. Very well put together outfit as always!

I am exactly the same, I am not impressed by titles, status or wealth and I find it quite annoying when people expect respect for a degree or a title....I am very impressed by people that developed inner peace within them and with the universe around.

I have to agree with you Tanvi, real people who fight for what they believe in and never give up impress me. Those ones who've conquered all the odds and wear their achievement like an invisible cloak. If you have to brag about your achievements or demand respect because you have a title, then there's something missing

You look beautiful! I'm definitely impressed by education. I think it's great and well, impressive, that someone has the will and determination to complete higher education of that level. Same goes for titles too. My best friend made it to a Director General position without a degree. She did so through hard work and determination. So yeah, if you are a hard worker, humble and grateful, and you achieve success, I'll be very impressed. I'd hate to downplay someone's achievements right off the bat because of preconceived notions.

I love this thoughtful post! You statement: I am more impressed by a person's journey to their 'title, status, or wealth' but not really by the end result. is so well said. Also, when I read your post title is immediately reminded me of an old Shania Twain song, "That don't impress me much" :)

Reminds me of the song by Shania Twain. I can't stop humming it now. I'm not easily impressed by title or wealth either since I believe in the depth of a person than the outer appearance or material stuff.

What a gorgeous outfit! The brilliant colors on white - absolutely stunning! And I agree that title and wealth are not impressive by themselves - it's what that person has accomplished and given to others in their lives that impresses and inspires me.

First off, you look FAB! I love this entire look! Second, I agree with most of what you are saying. I am impressed by ones journey to get to where they are, and if the end result is a lot of money, title or whatever, I am impressed with the fact that they have been able to obtain it. I f someone was just born into something then good for them. But if that person shows, humility, respect and kindness, I am definitely impressed.Great post!

Firstly I'd just like to address how amazing you look! I can't get enough!Secondly, I have to agree. Material things aren't that impressive. For me I try and look at it as a sign of hard work! It is nice to have nice things and be surrounded by the labours of your work.This doesn't mean that I aspire wealth. I just want to be comfortable and it always makes me think whenever I look at someone who has a fancier car than me. I just think we'll done on working hard for what you wanted.

First - you look awesome. Second - I couldn't agree more! I always want to hear about the struggle behind the success - and THEN I'm impressed with what someone's accomplished. I want to hear about the personal significance that that accomplishment has to them, too!

The red really make the outfit pop, but the white is such a good balance. I'm not impressed by titles or wealth. I'm not really impressed with degrees, but having one myself, I definitely appreciate everything that goes into getting one. I'm impressed by many of the same things as you.

You are absolutely gorgeous and that outfit looks effortlessly chic on you. You're more than right with saying that possessions, titles and wealth mean very little when there is nothing to back it up. I see them as a bonus, not as mandatory. Character and a good attitude is what I look for.

Your message is right on. May I add that it is not the journey but actually the ability to fight against our nature every day to get to the end result we put out there. So many of us fail because we do not realize the real opponent we face in getting things done. There is spirituality in everything if we do it with conciousness.

I like the vibe of this post: defiant and challenging. Like you, I am impressed by drive and by people who are making it in spite of their obstacles. Unfortunately, we do not always see or understand about people's hurdles and realities... So Indiscriminate Kindness impresses me tremendously.

I love your photos, your outfit is so pretty. I agree with you that a person with integrity is the most impressive thing in our society, we have so many people in or society that lacks principle. Thanks for sharing.

I think I must be a tough audience as well because I agree with much of what you said. For me it is a person's actions and the intent behind them that leave the biggest impression with me. I think these speak to the truest part of a person - far more than a title.

I completely agree with you! Action and intentions are what impress me more than any kind of wealth. I feel like most people think this way, but aren't always so open to talking about it with strangers! It was a great post to read, thanks for sharing!

I just had a debate with a friend who was impressed by someone's status and wealth, some thing I'm not really impressed by, same as you. I guess it's a personal preference how one judges the other. And I totally agree with you!

You wear those with confidence and I am personally impressed too. The books we read also have impact in our life. Somehow, it make us to be a better person by applying the lessons we gained from the novel. We can learn so many thing about life.

You and I must be twins that never knew one another! Lol. I don't care or get impressed by any of that hubbub either. I'm more impressed by if someone can act like a decent human being, regardless of their status. That outfit is too fabulous though and I must say it does impress me a teeny bit!