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Friday, November 03, 2006

First timer escort encounters

I do not tend to see that many Firsttimers .Some escorts tend to get a lot of Firsttimers.

I have seen three Firsttimers since I started escorting. I have a friend who will not see them at all. Her view is that they are very demanding, and put you on a pedestal, and then you are used as a comparison. This is her choice, and clearly it is important that she works in a way that fits for her. I do not have strong feelings about Firsttimers.

I met Mr Insurance this week. I had no idea when he called me that he was a Firsttimer, but he mentioned it, as soon as he sat down. He told me that he was really nervous, and all I could say was it would be alright.

What can you say?

Mr Insurance is a man in a suit that you would take a second glance at. He looks good and does not flaunt it, and has piercing eyes that made my heart flutter.

Do a client's looks matter to me?

Not at all. How you look is of no importance to me, what I am concerned about, is how I am treated. I like gentlemen who treat me with respect.Mr Insurance was so lovely. He had done his research, and mentioned some things about my website,blog, and reviews. This is always a good sign in my book. I love a man who does his research.

He says he came to see me, because he was looking for a real person.Funnily enough, Mr Swot said this is why he booked me, too. I think I have a sense of what he means.

What are escorts who are not real like?

I guess they go through the motions, and you are unable to get a sense of who they are. I just cannot do fake. He had expected me to give him a list of things that were not possible. I found that weird, but on reflection when it is your first time, I am sure you imagine all sorts of things.

Mr Insurance is the sort of man that I could snuggle up with , and really have no need to say anything to. What I found amazing was that in no time Mr Insurance had shifted from Mr Nervous, to Mr This is what I want, and how I want it. I reminded him that Mr Nervous had disappeared, and we had a giggle.

He had managed to slot me in between several meetings that day. It adds a whole new meaning to the business lunch. The next time a male colleague tells me that he is going for a long business lunch, and returns with a smile on his face, I will wonder where he has been.

Mr Insurance made me promise not to be critical of the Insurance industry on the blog. Sorry, folks, I keep my promises. I will get him to clarify some unanswered questions, on how the industry treats their policy holders next time we meet.

My only concern with Firsttimers is that if they become serious converts, the first experience has influenced that in some way,I believe. So, as an escort I hold some responsibility there. Yikes!