Preferences

With all the redecorating of My space this year, the urge to update and renew doesn’t seem to end with architecture. Lately, I’ve been very much into giving willing and worthy subs total-package makeovers. From outfit selection to haircut, eyewear, and body hair grooming, I’ve got opinions on how the gentleman should present himself for a Woman’s aesthetic pleasure.

I see too many of you poor things walking around with the same haircut that Mom gave you literally decades ago–as if this is an appropriate way to present yourself to your Boss! And if caring about your appearance doesn’t sound like “you”, then “you” don’t sound very considerate…this process is an opportunity not only to update your appearance, but to change your perception of and relationship to yourself. After all, the more self-esteem you have to surrender, the more satisfying your submission is to Me…

Come join Me in 2015, won’t you?

If you’re ready to learn how to present yourself for the pleasure of the Me and the other Women in your life, I invite you to let Me lead you into the 21st century. Taking place in public, our makeover session dynamic can range from nurturing to humiliating, and can stand-alone or be incorporated as part of a more intensive male re-training program. Ironing out budget and details in preliminary communications, we would then spend a half-day together, remaking you in My image.

To celebrate our remodeling job, we can arrange to cap off our time together with a social hour and/or session. As a versatile and diligent Dominant, I enjoy bringing My submissives through the entire cycle of power exchange–putting My little Ken doll to good use after dressing him up to My liking!

Perfect as part of an extended, overnight, or multi-day training session, My fashion rehab, aesthetic overhaul is for the discerning submissive who recognizes the transformative power of a Woman’s touch. Life is too short to stand still; submit yourself to My discerning eye and become a living, breathing extension of My will…

Lots has been going on lately and I am happy to report that I attended My very first munch yesterday! For those of you who don’t know what a munch is…if you don’t know, now you know. This particular munch was at a Sherman Oaks restaurant, and it was a pleasure to get out and meet other pervs in the SoCal area. I highly recommend attending at least one or two just to check it out–it can be quite liberating to take over a vanilla establishment with others who love BDSM and the dynamic it can create.

Also, My dungeon, SubmissionLA has a NEW WEBSITE! Beautiful isn’t it?
To celebrate this accomplishment and to cap off a prolific year, we are throwing our very first Holiday Open House Mixer! The event will be on Sunday, December 15th from 4-8pm. We’ll be having an outdoor fire pit, BDSM gear giveaways sponsored by Fetish Toy Box, a catered spread by Sublime Cuisine and spiced mulled wine! If you’ve been to our dungeon before, feel free to stop by and say hello! Better yet, get in touch if you would like to help out, or if you know someone who may be interested in receiving an invite.

If you didn’t already know, December is My birthday month and I’ve been getting some of questions about what I would like for My B-day. It’s on the 21st, which falls exactly on the the winter solstice this year, making it longest night/shortest day of the year. If your winter solstice tradition includes celebrating Me on this day that is short & sweet, I’d like to share with you some of My favorite things any time of year…

PeridotThis is a lovely little gem of a spa that is staggeringly close to My dungeon, and specializes in facials. Run by a team of Japanese women, you know those porcelain-skinned beauties take their skincare seriously! I recently got the Winter Luxurious Moisture Facial and couldn’t be more pleased with the results.

All Saints
All Saints is a British clothing line based in London. Their lines are crisp and strong, but minimal and organic at the same time. I love how they play with the tension between feminine and masculine details in each garment, and their line for men is also very good (hint, hint).

Wi Spa
If you’ve never been to a Jimjilbang, you’ve never lived. This 4-story Korean-style spa is great for relaxing, eating (yes, there’s a restaurant in the spa), and recharging. My favorite service they offer is the body-scrub, which keeps My skin bright and soft from head to toe. You’re welcome ;)

DeltaAs some of you may remember from My European tour this summer, I love to travel. There’s something about deliberately displacing oneself, that is intensely generative. If you live far from LA, there’s no better way to encourage a trip to your neck of the woods than the gift of wings.

I think that about does it for now! I’m pooped and am ready for bed. I hope you all enjoy this very mean birthday tease as much as I do ;)