My girlfriend is the most beautiful girl I've ever know I love her to death. She's so perfect that I would do anything for her. She hates that she weighs about 100 pounds more than i because I weight 150 pounds but I don't care. She doesn't want me carrying her because she's embarrassed and when we cuddle I want her on top of me but she thinks she squishing me when she's not. I don't know how to get her to realize that she's amazing and that her weight doesn't bother me physically or mentally.

it's kinda of an instinct for the woman to look for a men who's bigger/stronger/taller etc. it doesn't make much sense in our modern age but it's something inherited from many centuries ago. so yeah even though it's not rational,it's there and you and her will have to deal with it.

I have the same problem with my boyfriend, he eats so much junk and is slim, I feel chubby in comparison and hate how I look next to him. It's not his fault, I'm just not happy with how I look. My boyfriend got around this by telling me that he wanted to get in shape and was nervous about doing it on his own so we both cut back and did some exercise and my confidence is growing as my size is shrinking (also he's a lot stronger now so it works both ways).