I'm trying to install Big Bike Parts "Lower Fog Light Kit" on 2009 gl1800 (w/o air bag). I've already installed and connected the lights into the existing wiring harness. But I cannot find the connection for the switch. According to the instructions I should find the "accessory black 4 pin connector" under the left control panel (the one with the headlight beam and preload adjustments). I've looked (i think thoroughly) and see no vacant, unused connectors. Anybody got any advice of how/where to find it?

FlyBoy... I just need to be sure I understand you correctly... you're saying the switch itself is part of the bike and laying in the general area you described?
I assummed it was provided with the fog light kit I bought... but missing.

I forgot that I had already solved the problem in the original post... and assumed the post you had answered was my new problem... which is "Now that I have the lights and relay harness connected, it appears as though my kit is missing the actual fog light switch itself".

Once my local bike shop opens up again (apparently they're all gone for the holidays) I'll ask them to cough one up.