Wednesday, December 29, 2004

Pardon Me!

Was it bitchy? Maybe. Rude? Perhaps.

Rick came home and we were supposed to all go out and head to the playground where we could walk the track and then afterwards let the boy play on the equipment. He blew us off. Didn't feel like going. Thats fine. But then he chose not to be around us at all. He kissed me with half assed effort and acted like he didn't even feel my touch. He disappeared into the bedroom, closing the curtains. I knew this because we have those black out curtains that block all the light. Those curtains also made it obvious when the television came on, and when I couldn't hear the television, well, it became blaringly obvious what he must be watching/doing.

That annoyed me. Why have appetizers when you can enjoy the main course? I am more than willing to service him any way he deems fit. Thats why I didn't feel badly walking into the bedroom.

I carried in a pile of towels that needed to be put away in the master bath. He froze like a deer in headlights when I entered the room. I caught a tiny glimpse of what he was watching before he quickly turned of the television, completely darkening the room. I was correct in my assumption.

No words, no explanation, nothing. Of course I didn't expect him to say anything, what would he have said? I briefly thought of tending to him, but decided against it as he was such an ass earlier.

I'll have to put him to work later tonight though. I'm horny thinking of him playing with his dick, even if it wasn't with me. But when aren't I horny?

You know, GW, us men have to stick together...so on Rick's behalf, I offer up a "no comment"...LOL.

Did he realize you were ready and willing? I mean, taking matters into your own hands is fine when you have no other choice...but given the choice...it's no contest. You should have walked in with a camera...LOL!

Not that Rick needs to be defended, but what's wrong with him enjoying sex the way he wants to? Seems to me like he gets to choose. If he routinely ignored you, that would be different, but I don't see that happening. Just because you're willing to 'service him' doesn't mean that's what he wanted. OK, you didn't get what you wanted, but so? That's the way it goes sometimes. Seems like this is a relationship and sometimes your interests connect and sometimes they don't. Seems like he's drawing into his shell. So leave him be for a while.....I do hope that you connect sometime soon....see I do care.....

Men love Porno, there is no getting around it. Some men watch to get ideas, some watch to relax, some watch to see something they would like to have done to them but don't dare ask or will never get it. Its not a big deal but confront him friendly like and ask why and ask to be invited to see one and watch him do what ever he does, ask him what he likes about the film and what he dislikes, you also need to be honest about what you like and dislike. There are fantasies that will always be a fanstasy and will never be played out. There will be a high point in porno watching but will slowly go in a down slide. A man watching porno is really normal but with a wife like you he should not have to be an ass about it and invite you into the fun unless he is hidding something or not wanting to tell you something. Go ahead and confront.

Men love Porno, there is no getting around it. Some men watch to get ideas, some watch to relax, some watch to see something they would like to have done to them but don't dare ask or will never get it. Its not a big deal but confront him friendly like and ask why and ask to be invited to see one and watch him do what ever he does, ask him what he likes about the film and what he dislikes, you also need to be honest about what you like and dislike. There are fantasies that will always be a fanstasy and will never be played out. There will be a high point in porno watching but will slowly go in a down slide. A man watching porno is really normal but with a wife like you he should not have to be an ass about it and invite you into the fun unless he is hidding something or not wanting to tell you something. Go ahead and confront.

I must say, that as a male, I can rub one out in about 2 minutes. Especially if I have video stimulus. Where as if I'm with my partner... It's a much longer time. I focus on them, not myself. Plus sometimes I just want to wank one off. Keeps my forearms in shape.

Take it from me.. you ALMOST did the best thing. I'll always say, if you walk in on me while I'm pulling wood, join me, help me finish, then afterwards we can talk about it. But don't expect me to ask for help.

Does he pull so that he can last longer when he services you? Is he a bit of a premmie-creamie?

Sometimes I'm in the mood for steak.Sometimes Mexican. Maybe Italian.Last week I wanted Barbecue, but my lunch date wanted pizza. So we compromised.And other times, when I'm tired, I want something quick, like cerial. Hit's the spot and not much to clean up.

Sounds like Rick had a hard day. Wasn't feeling socialable Yet, and wanted to rest up and catch some zzzzz before being with his family.

I have on more than one occation, used masterbation to release those built up tentions, AND as a WONDERFUL sleep aid.

I don't always orgasm with sex. I almost always do with M. And I don't feel obligated to snuggle afterwards.

Your feeling left out isn't about Rick, it's about You. Rick's self entertainment is about him, not you.My mother was on occation would "bust in on me" as I took care of business. Will you embarass the boy when he comes of age. (pun intended)If it was obvious he wanted privacy, why didn't you give it him. It's such a small gift you can give him.