I am a preschool director and I observed a 5 year old child (boy) turning his head to the right, and looking through the left corner of his eyes to see a story book. Is this something visual or developmental? Do I need to alert the parents? Please let me know

I am awaiting an EEO hearing and received a letter advising me to send my former employer 'Discovery Requests' by a certain specified date. I do not have representation at this time. Can I do the discovery requests myself? and what information do I need to include in them?

My Grand daughter is 2 yrs old and ever since she started eating table food (about 10 months old) she breaks out in hives all over her little body. She has an Uncle on her Fathers side who is allergic to food dyes so I tried watching what she eats and I have noticed when ever she eats anything with yellow #5 or #6 in it she gets these little circles under her eyes and patches under her arms and behind each knee, and if she drinks anything with yellow in it her little diaper area is bright red. We have taken her to her Ped. but all he says it is dry skin and not to use soap on her and put baby oil or vasoline all over her, but that has not worked. Can you please tell me what kind of Dr. do I need to take her to? I have heard that maybe a chiropractor could help but I thought they were for back pain.

My husband and I are seeking divorce. We did share the matrimonial home. My husband has left the home and still comes into the house without warning, this makes me feel uncomfortable - can I change the locks without giving him a key?

It depends on any FORMAL separate living arrangements (court supervised).

If he merely lives elsewhere for the moment and unofficially, he still owns the property equally with you. If this is the case, he cannot be criminally charged for breaking in to his own house if the locks are changed.

At the very least, he should respect that he is living elsewhere and grant you some privacy. It would be respectful for him to call first and state a particular reason for the visit. He should honor your reasonable wishes regarding his reason. "Checking on the house" in the absence of any apparent problem is probably bogus. "I need to pick up a few things" is fine. Put them near the door so he doesn't need to rummage around for them.

Things are tough enough without letting them become complicated over a house. If nothing else, put the house on the market and sell it, divide the proceeds equally and get your own place to which he has no ownership or tenancy interest.