"This film provides a broad overview of !Kung life, both
past and present, and an intimate portrait of N!ai, a !Kung woman
who in 1978 was in her mid-thirties. N!ai tells her own story, and
in so doing, the story of changes in !Kung life over a thirty year
period."

"'Before the white people came we did what we wanted,'
N!ai recalls, describing the life she remembers as a child: following
her mother to pick berries, roots, and nuts as the season changed;
the division of giraffe meat; the kinds of rain; her resistance
to her marriage to /Gunda at the age of eight; and her changing
feelings about her husband when he becomes a healer. As N!ai speaks,
the film presents scenes from the 1950's that show her as a young
girl and a young wife."

"The uniqueness of N!ai may lie in its tight integration
of ethnography and history. While it portrays the changes in !Kung
society over thirty years, it never loses sight of the individual,
N!ai."

"N!ai was born in April of 1942, the only child of Di!ai and
Gumza. Di!ai, her mother, had been married once before to a man
named ≠Toma. They had had two children, both of whom died,
and ≠Toma was murdered in a fight in 1938. In 1940, Di!ai married
Gumza, N!ai’s father, a man from a group across the border in Botswana
(then Bechuanaland). Soon after N!ai was born, her parents
were divorced, in part because Gumza did not get along with Di!ai’s
older sister, a sharp-tongued woman named !U. Di!ai also said she
felt lonely for her own people, and so she went home to Gautscha
when Gumza returned to Botswana. In 1944, Di!ai remarried, to
a man named Kxao. Kxao already had a wife, but because he was
considered a steady man, Di!ai was willing to accept the role of
co-wife." -- N!ai Study Guide, p. 3