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Helping children to be happy

Written by: Esther Miralpeix García

Published: 02/09/2016
| Updated: 03/08/2018

Edited by: Top Doctors®

What most helps children grow up feeling happy is the affection that parents can give them and show. The Psychology of children reveals that feel loved will give strength to grow up feeling more confident.

Affection is transmitted listening, being there when they need to solve something or when they feel scared calmándoles:

Helping children manage emotions

Help them learn how to manage your fears will enable them to overcome them .

Help them identify the emotions they felt, it can help them live that situation as more understandable. When they express their feelings of worry about something that has happened to them also listen carefully, it is important to ask who felt in those circumstances they lived.

If the situation that we speak was traumatic for them to verbalize what happened and identify emotions helps them to rethink what they could have done and will make them better able to react to difficult situations. This will be useful for future situations that may arise.

Identify emotions also help them to have more empathy with others. They will be able to get into the skin of another and grasp what the interests and intentions of others are, which will help them better communicate with their environment and have greater capacity for social relationship.

Encourage curiosity of children

Encourage them pleasure Search. Children feel natural curiosity and try to figure out how things in their environment. Power accompany them in discovering the world through the game is a way to help them in their learning. They will feel safer from the new and that will boost your craving search and discover and learn more.

Discipline to make the happiest children

To make the child feel more confident and happy is important an environment in which there are clear limits. That means you can identify clear patterns of behavior, you know what to do and what not at different times throughout the day and life in general.

Children help them to encourage them discipline, concentration and effort. These three aspects of behavior they will be useful for life from the moment school age begins. In young children often see how they feel very satisfied when they have achieved success as a result of discipline, concentration and effort. Discipline is especially important to help persevere in what you want to achieve and be able to find what you like.

Success in this case can be to solve a game for them is a challenge, have good grades in school or get tie his shoelaces. Any of these three situations or others that might think require discipline, concentration and effort.

Help them to persevere to reach the final result will favor discover that for them the successful experience will bring them satisfaction of achieving something that has been difficult as well as the satisfaction of discovering something new.

Get something you want through their own efforts, working with discipline and concentration, it helps to discover how you can achieve things and they do not happen by chance or the result of luck.

No less important it is to help them assess how positive they have in themselves without falling into the trap of comparing yourself to others.

The psychologist Esther Miralpeix is ​​a renowned expert in Clinical Psychology and Psychotherapy. He has spent 40 years working as a psychologist helping people trying to find solutions to their problems. He has participated in numerous conferences on psychology and communications presented several conferences organized by the EFPP (European Federation of Psychoanalytic Psychotherapy). And was a founding member in good standing of the Catalan Association of Psychoanalytic Psychotherapy (ACP...

The psychologist Esther Miralpeix is ​​a renowned expert in Clinical Psychology and Psychotherapy. He has spent 40 years working as a psychologist helping people trying to find solutions to their problems. He has participated in numerous conferences on psychology and communications presented several conferences organized by the EFPP (European Federation of Psychoanalytic Psychotherapy). And was a founding member in good standing of the Catalan Association of Psychoanalytic Psychotherapy (ACPP) from 1994-1997 and Minister of the adult section of the EFPP from March 1993 until May 1996 bring new perspectives to your life will help you open new Horizons.