“You really understand what life is all about,” the actress, 41, told Us Weekly exclusively at the A Perfect World Luncheon. “You go from your young, narcissistic mind as a 20-year-old and come into womanhood and you realize that nothing is about you. It’s all about the world and all about keeping it intact for your kids. You all of a sudden feel like you have a purpose.”

As for Sebastian and Donnelly, they’re “inseparable,” the Dollface star told Us in October 2018. “It makes my heart warm,” she said. “I’m very glad to be bringing Jack into our lives for good. It’s nice for my son to have a boy in the house constantly after being raised by a woman. I’m not the best at play fighting. Jack’s a better person to play fight with!”

With reporting by Meagan Sargent

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