You are never gonna see people like Condi Rice or
Michelle Obama showing everything God gave them. People will think they are
cheap and will treat them that way and then they are gonna be insulted and
start shouting about how it doesn't matter how you are dressed - it's who you
are on the inside.

Yes, and that is my point.

The clothes you CHOOSE to wear, tells people
exactly who you are - sends a message loud and clear. How come men can read
this message … but women can’t?

My father used to tell me to always look, act and
dress like a lady because guys do not have to respect you no matter what you
wear. That is MORE than naive. Grow up.

So if you are showing everything, it leaves nothing to
the imagination for men and they will think you are ADVERTIZING. It looks
like attention seeking, desperate behavior like you've got daddy issues
and whatnot and just want a man .. any man.

I repeat .. the way you choose to
dress tells everyone you encounter EXACTLY what's going on with you on the
INSIDE.

If you look bananas on the outside ... that is
what you are like on the inside no matter how much you deny it.

You are never gonna see people like Condi Rice or
Michelle Obama showing everything God gave them. People will think they are
cheap and will treat them that way and then they are gonna be insulted and
start shouting about how it doesn't matter how you are dressed - it's who you
are on the inside.

Yes, and that is my point.

The clothes you CHOOSE to wear, tells people
exactly who you are - sends a message loud and clear. How come men can read
this message … but women can’t?

My father used to tell me to always look, act and
dress like a lady because guys do not have to respect you no matter what you
wear. That is MORE than naive. Grow up.

So if you are showing everything, it leaves nothing to
the imagination for men and they will think you are ADVERTIZING. It looks
like attention seeking, desperate behavior like you've got daddy issues
and whatnot and just want a man .. any man.

I repeat .. the way you choose to
dress tells everyone you encounter EXACTLY what's going on with you on the
INSIDE.

If you look bananas on the outside ... that is
what you are like on the inside no matter how much you deny it.

I completely agree. And im sure people are going to chime in with the "dont judge a book by its cover, yada yada"...but the cover is all I have.

I do love the idea of people going back to the style of dress in the early 60s. Everyone was clean and took pride in their looks. However, I love being free to dress as I want and I really don't care about being judged for it. If I wanna wear coochie cutters I will. I've become more confident going bra less lately.

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