I'm a big fan of foreplay and all, but yeah, so approximately how long, in minutes, do you think a first-time fuck with a girl should last, assuming you start once you stick your cock in her vagina and finish once you blow your first (and only?) load? Don't give me any "as long as you feel like". What is expected?

If I am consciously thinking about it, then less than ten minutes (with no foreplay/oral involved)

I banged this cutie two weeks ago and I actually came three different times, so it lasted longer than that. Plus there was a shit ton of foreplay so that was like close to two hours.

If I'm not drunk, then it usually last like 15 minutes. But I know how to hold it in and if I 'hold it in' for about 4 times (stop thrusting/pull out when you feel your about to ejaculate, but then hold it in) then I can seriously go on for hours. But who wants that?

I like it around 25 minutes

In saying that though, theres been times where I came in less than 5 minutes...

I'm a big fan of foreplay and all, but yeah, so approximately how long, in minutes, do you think a first-time fuck with a girl should last, assuming you start once you stick your cock in her vagina and finish once you blow your first (and only?) load? Don't give me any "as long as you feel like". What is expected?

This is going to depend largely on how sexually active you are.

I'd say if you're having sex at least 2-3 week month in and month out - you can really go as long as you want because you have the reference experiences that teach you how to calibrate your sexual behaviors.

If you haven't had sex in awhile (i.e. over a 7 days without or so...) or you're having sex with a woman who you think is out of your league (btw, stop thinking this - its self destructive!) or any kinda new sexual experience (i.e. 3somes, sex in "taboo" locations) I'd say you'd probably cum in 15 mins or less.

This is due to the abundance of excitement you are feeling based on the novelty of the experience.

I must add that this is something all guys must overcome in order to have an abundant sex life in perpective with the rest of your life.

Some things I do to make the sexual experience last longer:

1. Wear a condom - cuts down on the sensation. And you should be wearing one anyway if you're not exclusive and/or both parties have gotten tested

2. Change positions frequently - sometimes when I get into a position I really like, I don't wanna stop cause it feels so good but I'm more likely to cum faster this way

3. Take it slow - or at least vary the tempo of your thrust. I like to go hard and women love it when you pound the shit out of them but its not worth it if you're pounding lasts 2 mins! LOL.

4. Be present - this is based on tantra but the premise is that when you are involved in the sex act - you can make it last longer if you focus on the sensation being an end unto itsself. If you are thinking about the sensation rising and rising - then you are on your way to cumming. Think of sex as a plateau high not a mountain high and valley cum.

5. Get pass the "I wanna cum indifference threshold" - guys with a lot of sexually experience and/or practice tantra know what I'm talking about. Use the above techniques to achieve this but you should get to a point where you can break all the rules (minus be present) and go as long as you want. I would say it takes roughly 15 - 25 minute to get to this point.

6. You are the fucking leader! Even in bed - I learned this the hard way. I would have women dictate how they wanted to have sex - usually breaking all the above rules and it would lead to me cumming too soon and the woman being frustrated and wanting to blame you. Now when I get a woman who's super aggressive in bed I tell her "I'm the director and if you don't behave I'm gonna spank the shit out of her" After I get past the "I wanna cum indifference threshold" I'll aquciese a lil control of what she wants but at that point she's usually not asking for anything but for me to jizz my load all over her face :p

Of course at some point we all want to be relieved? right? or if you practice tantra, not.
I won't go into tantra today.

If you do the above almost every woman will cum before you (and in a lot of cases multiple times) and then she'll want........... no no she'll be begging you to cum too!
And I don't know about you, but that is one of the biggest turn ons for me.

I'm thinking of a lot of random things, but I'll leave this comment as it is for now. HOpe this helps...