Just breathe…And trust that you are right where you need to be.

Important announcement! The Princess is pooped.

I posted this on facebook and just wanted to let you all know where I’m at right now:

Hi all, I hope everyone had a beautiful Thanksgiving. I just wanted to let you know that I’m really exhausted. I have been doing this for four years, 365 days a year. I think few people really know just how much work goes into this. We put out a reprint of the book and few other things a couple of weeks ago as so many of you have been asking for various things for years. This isn’t a big company so this required working 12-18 hours a day for seven months. (Those of you who have ordered, please, the site says the goodies don’t start shipping until November 22nd. With the holiday, this means some of you will start to receive them next week. You will receive a confirmation email when they ship.)

There are so many of you who are so supportive and wonderful but unfortunately there are some who think I owe them something and who let their fingers fly on the keyboard without really stopping to think that there is real person on the other end. I just wanted to let you know that I’m going to be seriously thinking about where I want to go with all of this over the next few weeks and I don’t know if I’ll continue this work or not. So if you want the products, I suggest you get them now. tangledtwinkle.com

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As I watch here in America, I am deeply saddened by the disaster going on there. My heart ,my thoughts and my prayers go out to all those affected. If I could find a way there, I would be there helping. Australia has always been there for America and its time for America to be there for Australia.

Hi Princess Sassy Pants and Pups!
Please do take as much time as you need to consider what is best for you, your life and your loved ones. You have given so much to all of us, spread so much goodness out into the world, and personally, you have made my life brighter, more beautiful, and more full of wonder. I am so grateful to you for sharing so much; you do make this world better by what you do.
I am so sorry that some people chose to be thoughtless, cruel and heartless in the face of your dedication, endless hard work, and kindness with sharing your sparkle with the world. You probably have heard this many times, but it is true, their hurtful and cutting actions truly, deep-down have nothing to do with you, but rather to do with their issues, unresolved problems, and hard feelings, in their own lives. It should not be the case, but people lash out towards the safe unknown people on the internet, in an attempt to soothe or heal something in their own lives, or release some of the tension they don’t know how to deal with. I am so sorry that you have been a victim to this, and I know it feels profoundly and horribly personal. I am sorry, I know it hurts and makes you question what you are doing. So many of us understand. And please do take care of you, whatever that means, you are very worth it.
So thank you for letting us know, and remember the ones who love your work, the people who look forward to what genius and profound whimsy you will create next, the followers who are excited and grateful for the work you do, far, far and away outweigh the internet “trolls”, and the nasty entitled commenters. You and your work are wonderful, vibrant, important, spectacularly unique and beautiful, and irreplaceable.
Wishing there was a way to take the hurt away, and to show you the incredible impact you have made. Thank you for all that you have done for so many years. I truly and wholeheartedly hope that you do continue on with Princess Sassy Pants and of course Prince Pup, for their wisdom and delight are deeply loved. But I also hope you find what is best for you, and if that means not continuing on with this work, then I wish you all the very best with a heart full of gratitude and so much love. Big hugs to you and one more thank you for all that you do and goodness you bring into so many of our worlds!

You must always do what is best for you. But let me encourage you not to let the naysayers and negative ninnie’s to overwhelm you. There are so many in your “Princess Kingdom” who love you because we love your work. Folks should understand when ordering from a private business. The attitude should be “I’ll wait because it’s so special”.

You hang in there Princess, and know there are many of us who love your work. I use Princess Sassy Pants in many of my daily encouragements to others!! Have a Magnificently Marvelous Monday. This little old lady grandmother will be praying for your spirits to be lifted! Hugs to you!!!!

How sad that people do not know how to edit themselves. Your postings are an inspiration to many (including me) and it will be a sad day when I do not get my daily dose of hope and enjoyment that i receive when I see your creations.

Your work is adorable and presents such joy and comfort. I am a teacher and have experienced what you are expressing in my world. It’s very hard to let go of the hatefulness that you experience. Try to remember that there are far more people who share appreciation and thankfulness for you and what you do. Move forward without giving any attention to those nasty comments. Know that those people have far more going on in their lives than being nasty to you. Say a prayer for the meanies and do what you love to do. Thank you for spreading joy to all Malt lovers who appreciate you!!

Please don’t stop!!! Your sunshine is needed by so many!! I look forward to your post every single day and can’t imagine starting my day without them!! On my bluest of blue days your post make me and so many smile!! A break is well deserved but please don’t stop!!!

Oh, please, please, please don’t surrender! Your posts have lifted up so many weary spirits and brightened the hearts of legions. You have a wonderful gift. Rest whenever you need to, and know that countless numbers of admirers wait with patience and compassion while you do so — but please try to resist letting the thoughtless and self-centered behavior of some impact your loving intentions. They can take their bitter selfishness and misdirected hostility elsewhere. You don’t need them – you have all the rest of us, and we cherish you!

Love your post. I have only been aware of you and your post in the last 2-3 months. Repeats of previous post would be great. I look forward to the daily post. It seems to always hit the heart in the right place,

Don’t break – take a break…….Princesses need vacations and digital detoxes.
Don’t let a small group of idiots stop you doing what you love.
If you really don’t love doing it anymore, then walk away in another direction with your tiara held high.
Thank you for brightening up my life, especially when it got a bit dark.

Hi sassy pants, Melissa here from Down Under in Australia. You need a break kiddo. Your jaded, I get it, boy do I get it. I have a progressive disease and I spend all my time running our little non profit on a shoestring budget and team, all of us volunteers. I’m tired and jaded too, people can really suck the joy out of you so it’s important to care for yourself. I have loved your series and they have bought me much joy, giggles and smiles at the quotes. Every time I share them with our members on FB they get a great response. Don’t make any snap decisions ok, but re-evaluate for sure and do what makes you happy, life is short my lovely. God bless Melissa CEO phna.info xx Merry Christmas

I just found you this year and have so enjoyed your posts. Some days your posts reflect the day I have had and offer the encouragement I need to hear. Thank you so much for all you do. Please take time to reflect and get rest as you really extended your time and energy during the process of making your products available to all of us. I wish for you and yours Christmas Blessings and New Years Blessings that last all year. God Bless You.

I am sooo sorry to hear about the people who are rude and think you owe them something! Shame on them! This is the time of year people are supposed to be filled with joy & giving for it’s the spirit of Christmas.
You’re posts are amazing and whatever you decide to do know that you made my family & friends hearts warm with Love.
Whether I am going through a tough time or just need support your pics and wonderful posts always touched my heart! You truly have a gift and I will follow you wherever you go!
A fan and friend always xoxo
Patty A
Mass USA
Have a wonderful & Blessed Christmas 🎄

Thank you for the love and kindness you have shared with all of us. I have regularly consulted the Princess and Pup for the gentle and nurturing reminders we need to be kind and forgiving to ourselves, so that we may extend such actions to others. Whatever your desision I wish you happiness and peace.

Princess Sassypants & Co. You will be so missed if you stop. Your posts are always so timely for my own personal needs and I truly love them. It’s almost uncanny how your message is so on point. I, too, wish you a restful and peaceful Christmas break and pray you will return. Maybe post only once a week or twice a week. Please don’t go away completely. Merry Christmas to you and your family.

Thank you for all you do. I would dearly miss your daily posts but I understand the need to step back and regroup. I pray you take time for you this Christmas season. And if we are blessed you will miss sharing with us. A blessed and peace-filled Christmas to you.

I hope that after a well deserved rest you will choose to continue your page. Yours is my favorite! I’m sorry that some people are giving you a hard time. The rest of us love you and your sweet characters.

I enjoy your posts…I have tons of them saved in my picture file!! I ordered your book last year too. I so wish you well whatever you decide to do and will certainly miss you if you decide to stop. Human Kindness is everywhere…but sadly, there are those who thrive on negativity and delight in ruining it for the rest of us. Positive love & light coming your way, chin up! THANKS for everything you’ve done and the lives you have touched with your words.

Beloved you are amazing you have helped me get through some hard times. Your post light up my day. I m on holiday and I get so excited to read your post. I will keep you uplifted in prayer. God bless you and all the best to you and remember you are AMAZING! !!!

I do enjoy your posts and repost them to FB to give uplifting messages to others. Your artwork is devine and much admired. My suggestion is rather than stop posting every day (it can take a toll on the mind and body) why not limit your sends to every other day as an example. You apparently love what you do, sharing your talent with us and we love seeing your work. Whatever you decide must be for your own well being. Blessings: peace, love, laughter and lots of hugs! Annette

I have not known your work for very long, but I have come to appreciate you and love you! You inspire me, and I always am waiting for the next wonderful post! I hope you give yourself some time to think about your decision. Please do not people that are hasty, and not appreciative let you give up on your talent and dreams! I pray you continue your inspiring work! God Bless You!

I am glad you have let us know what is happening right now. You need to be good to yourself and take care of yourself too. I urge you to not to make a quick decision. I so enjoy your page. I hope you will continue and do so at your own pace.

It is always important to take a rest and regroup when people start to treat you like “you owe them”. Please know that from my end, you are an inspiration to me and the many people that I share the post with. Many have forwarded some of them to people who needed something to lift their spirits, or make them smile. I would miss the posts a great deal. I have been through what you are going through at some of my prior jobs. It was like “why bother?”. Then someone always came along to thank me, or tell me they made their day. I don’t do what you do…I face people everyday and have for almost 25 years. I have dealt with people face to face all those years as an event planner for a business and now in a small family owned retail business., I do my best to make everyone who comes in feel special and leave with a smile on their face. But, some people don’t want that. They just want to come and leave…no smile, no hello and even talking on their cell phones while I am trying to help them. So, hang in there…I still am even though I wanted to say “I have had it”. I really hope that you realize that the majority of us would really miss you.

I’m so sorry that some people are giving you a hard time by being rude and inconsiderate. That would be tough to take when you have invested so much of yourself and of your time and effort. I just want to echo so many other people who have said just how much we love and appreciate your work. You are AMAZINGLY GIFTED! Your posts bring a smile to my face every single day! I could not wait for your book to be released, and I ordered it as soon as it was available! I LOVE your work!

Princess Sassy Pants!!! Your email is ALWAYS the first email I open everyday! I share them with friends and they love them as well. I hope you know how much we will all miss them if you decide to quit. Please don’t let your light dim because of a few mean spirited knuckleheads! No matter what SHINE ON!!!!!! Your adoring fans and me…Carolyn Pedego!!

You are loved. You are weary. Please don’t make a life changing decision while you are tired or hurt. We love you and your work! You are amazing. Unfortunately, these others are selfish, rude and ungrateful. Losers. Probably have never sacrifice a thing for someone else. Thank you for all you have done!

Am sorry to read about this miserable selfishness here…but it does exist, and we either will or we won’t put up with it…you do not deserve this type of treatment, your work is appreciated, I am sure, by over 90% of us…and your best bet is to eliminate each nasty, selfish, email….delete that person’s membership. BUT,,,if you do NOT want to continue, believe me, I do understand you…and hope to support you all the way on this. Most of us care a great deal for you and your work…and we LOVE your work for sure….but that other nasty small percentage will always exist everywhere…Let us know what you decide…Good luck and love…and thanks always for everything, Cathy

You and the pup are a bright light in an increasingly dark world. Your lovely artwork and your clever and often profound words of wisdom never fail to put a smile on my face each and every day. That said, follow your heart, my friend, and do whatever is best for you and your family. Just know there are many MANY of us who recognize and appreciate your hard work and dedication. Should you choose to step away, I’ll treasure the book even more. Peace to you and yours — and thank you.

As you can see from all these replies, you are loved, your work is greatly appreciated, and if you need to take a break-take a break. I love reading and sharing your posts daily. Your work makes my heart sing. You will be missed, but we’ll patiently wait because this is who you are. You will be back. I firmly believe that you do what you do with a passion that comes from your heart. I’m sorry there have been hateful people out there. I’ve seen this happen to my favorite authors. We now live in a society of selfish people who say whatever they want to say behind the shield of social media and the internet. But you are an example of the good the internet can provide. Don’t let the selfish, instant gratification desires of those people bring you down. YOU ARE LOVED ❤️

I love the work you do. And understand how exhausted you may be. Take some time to take care of you. We will be here waiting when you come back. You have a gift my hope is you continue to share it in whatever why refreshes you and gives you joy. May your holiday season be renewing and relaxing. Thanking for sharing your gift with me.

If you heart remains in this you should stick with it regardless of what others feel. If this is your legacy you should be very proud although exhausted I’m sure. Small companies do not have the backing of large ones therefore the product is often times more expensive. I will admit I look for your posts but as yourself there are those busy days I pass it by. But somehow they cheer up the soul reading them. Good luck with your decision and I hope you take time for yourself and daily this year to enjoy the season upon us.

I can’t image how much work is behind this. I have to say I looking forward reading this every morning. It is very positive and come from the heart. I really resonate with your message. I appreciate all you do. I know you will do what is best for you. 🙂

I open my princess email first thing every morning you brighten my day and give me lots to think about. Please take care of your self. I love your emails and your artistic talent is beyond compare. But please put you and your family way ahead of the rest of us.

I am so sorry people have to be so rude! I have been following your posts for about a year now. Everyday, I post the newest post on my Facebook! Don’t let the haters get the best of you! I absolutely LOVE getting your emails! You make ALOT of people happy, and you have ALOT of fans! Take the time off that you need. Everybody needs that! I hope you decide to continue! Much love and hugs to you! 💖🎄🎉🍁🍂⛄🎊❤😙

Oh my goodness. This is not good. You do what you feel is best for you. As you know you have many many followers and would be missed terribly especially for those that read your inspirational message daily not to mention how adorable you illustrate. No one can compare. I hope you will think this over and continue your talented work. We all love you and the pup.
Margie

Hello… I don’t know if you will have the time to see this… I have been following your posts for more then a year and I share them with my friends each day… I have not written before, but your hard work that you do each day is greatly appreciated by many, more then you know… Thank you your post bring a little too bit of sun and lots to think about… So lots of hugs to you❤️…. You have made a difference in lots of people’s lives…. Pat….. 🌈

I can only imagine how exhausted you must feel!
I have absolutely loved your art and uplifting words every day!I share them with friends everyday and we all enjoy them.
Thank you soooo much for the joy you have provided to so many. I understand exhaustion so please take care of yourself. Remember to stop and smell the roses on this life’s journey.
Love, hugs, and abundant blessings to you❤️🌹

NOOOOO, PLEASE do not leave, I go to see you EVERYDAY! 🙂
You are EXTREMELY talented and always have beautiful messages for everyone! ❤
This saddens me sooo much Dear, I know you need a break now and then but please, do not leave us! Yes, those that appreciate what you bring to us everyday KNOW how hard you are working, don't think we don't…Some sitting behind a monitor "think" they can say & do anything they like because they ARE just sitting and trolling…but Honey, YOU need to keep doing what you are doing, and don't let idle comments get in your way of spreading the love we ALL know you have in your heart!
Something we ALL need now a day for sure!
I know none of us know you personally, but you WOULD get LOTS of Hugs from us and you already have LOTS of Love from us thru your works! ❤ ❤

I will understand if you need to take a vacation, but the Princess brings so much pleasure and fun on a daily basis. I look forward to seeing what she has to say, what she is wearing and what the pup is up to. I hope you continue!!

Oh dear. Rest and take the time you need. I have to tell you that your sayings and pictures saved my life. I lost.both my parents last year and some how you always for me through the day When I could not do it on my own. Bless you

Oh dear. Rest and take the time you need. I have to tell you that your sayings and pictures saved my life. I lost.both my parents last year and some how you always for me through the day When I could not do it on my own. Bless you

My little Maltese and I will miss you and your precious little one more than words can describe. This just saddens me horribly and for the reasons you have described, I am not on any social media at all. It is disturbing that people think they have the right to type the things they do on these digital devices and never have to take responsibility for the things they say. The first thing I do every morning when I wake up is anxiously open my email to see your heart warming and uplifting post. I hope and pray that you do not leave us, but I do understand, love and miss you lots. 😓💔
Opal & Ava

I have enjoyed your postings for a long time now. They are often thought provoking, they are cute, they make me smile, they are positive ( which we all need). You touch the hearts of soooooo many people. I do appreciate the work you do. Take some time to rest and enjoy the season that is upon us. I hope you find peace and joy in whatever decision you make. Have a joy filled dsay.

Oh Princess, I’m so saddened and heartbroken for you that you are experiencing such vitriol. I don’t understand where some people go with their own unhappiness except that I too have experienced the hurt of those who are hurting. Having said that, there are people who feel entitled and there is nothing one can say to chance that ugly character flaw.
I know I’m confirming what others have posted here, by saying that you bring so much light, love and beauty to my world every day! I also agree that you have to take care of yourself. If that leads you into another direction then we’d all miss you greatly but understand that your Twinkle is more important to keep shining ✨ Thank you, thank you, thank you for all the beauty you have created for us and put out into the world for generations to enjoy. I pray you have a joyous Christmas with people who can love on you and celebrate what this season represents🙏 Oh, and a GINORMOUS THANK YOU for printing your book here at home👍✨🌹

People can be incredibly cruel. It’s so easy to speak your mind when it’s just them and a keyboard. People have lost respect for one another. I look forward to your positive messages every day. Like you, I struggle and your words are so encouraging. These people will have to pay some day for their awful ways.God Bless You. 💕

I can only imagine the amount of work you put into this. I absolutely love it and I have just recently found Princess Sassy Pants. I’m so sorry to hear people are treating you unkind. You’re health is definitely most important. If you don’t continue you will be greatly missed but I’d wish you only the best ❤️

I apologize. I did not see about November 22nd, or if I did, I had forgotten. Please disregard my question about arrival. I guess I enjoy your daily posts so much, I just wanted to share you with my friends as soon as I could.

Your health should always take priority!
I gave Very much enjoyed The Princess, and have looked forward to it everyday. If you do decide to stop doing this, I’ll understand. You will be greatly missed!!!

Your health comes first! If you are working this many hours a day, you aren’t taking care of yourself. I am a new fan of yours and can’t wait to see your work each day. However, you know what direction is best for you. I am shocked and sorry that people are rude to you on line. For what? You are doing such a nice thing for us each day. I truly appreciate you and your work. I hope you continue spreading uplifting thoughts, wherever that may be.❤️

Oh dear! I so appreciate and love your dedication to your beautiful work! I have looked forward to sharing your work on a daily basis on one of my Maltese sites. There are soo many of us that truly appreciate your hard work and dedication, please don’t let a “few bad apples” ruin it for those of us that have grown to love you and truly appreciate You!
Some of my friends have told me they thought your poems, and especially the art was made for me… I own two Maltese, am a petite blonde.., and share my Timmie and Twinkie’s adventure with them..
I call them T’n’T Mama’s DynOmite Duo.

Please take time to rest, recharge your batteries, know that there are soo many that love and appreciate what you do, and have done!!
We adore and love your creativity 🐾🐾❤️

I LOVE everything about your site. The Pup, the uplifting posts, the art work (so adorable) and your hard work. It is very appreciated. I ordered the Twinkle Bundle when the reprint of the book came out. Can’t wait to receive it. I understand your hard work and all that you do. You are a positive post for many people. I always share your posts and many of my friends enjoy them and some have you on their face book page now. God Bless you and I pray that you make the decision that is right for you. Love and Hugs!

You and pup are a bright spot in my life each morning. I love sharing your posts on my FB page and know others enjoy the uplifting and humorous messages. I didn’t realize there are people making unkind comments to you, but consider the source. They are unhappy, insensitive people who should keep their negative thoughts to themselves. YOU are sunshine! Do what you feel is best for you and your family. Take care and God bless you!

There is a multitude of us who appreciate how much time and effort goes into bringing joy to others through your hard work. Take a sabbatical and renew yourself. I personally look forward to seeing the sassy one daily and love and appreciate your steadfast postings. Be at peace and REST.

I love your daily posts. They uplift me when I am down, but I will understand if you need to stop and go in another direction. You are such a blessing to so many and we are grateful for the time you have given us to this point. Hugs and Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year to you and Pup and all.

I think your work is wonderful… live it and share it every day!!! While I understand how you must feel.. you must follow what is right for you…! I have ordered your things…. I can’t wait to get them!! I hope that we can continue to see your drawings.. if not… best in life to you!!!!❤️

I love and look forward to your postings. I can’t believe people have been cruel to you know that for everyone one of them there are tenfold of us who appreciate and love you. But you need to do what is best for you.

Sounds like your at a point to move into mastery. Your craft is so special but you need more help. Get the help you need, start to delegate more and certainly never let a few bad and rude people dampen your flame. Onward and upward always ❤️

How sad to read how some have been so rude to you. I don’t understand the world these days,except what I have been taught through the WORD. I pray for peace to cover you and HIS wisdom to guide you as you decide your next step. One thing I know is you have more who love what you’re doing each day, than those who don’t.
Thank you for the Princess and her dog, just love them! Get lots of rest.

I love your work so much. Please don’t stop. Some people in this world just don’t understand and or care. Take a break then see how you feel. Many blessings to you very talented lady. You always brighten my day

I am so sorry that some people are rude and think Life owes them. I have been through so much and never feel tha the world owes me. The days that I have been depressed the Princess always has something fun to offer. They days I think I’m so tired, so angry, I always get an email from the princess and the world is right again. You do what you have to do for your own self. Your Health both physical made mental are very important. I hope I really did order the new book but may order again to be sure. People feel so entitled and it’s sad, because we Should all be kinder to each other. Thanks for keeping aa smile on my and my moms face ! You do what’s best for you. ❤️❤️

Thank you for your uplifting messages. They have gotten me through a lot of tough times and sometimes I felt they were just meant for me. If you feel it necessary to stop because of rude, thoughtless people, that is sad for those of us who looking forward to your posts. It is always easy now with social media to be cruel and demanding anonymously. As my mother use to say, “if you don’t have something nice to say, don’t say anything”. So to all of the folks that were unkind to you…heed the words of my mother.
If you choose to stop, know that some of us will miss you.

Thank you for all you do! You are greatly appreciated! I hope you follow your own good advice and don’t let any negativity get to you or keep doing something out of obligation. You have really inspired me to follow my heart and be myself and love myself. Thank you!

Awww, I’m so sorry. You are the best thing that’s happened for me and thousands +, you cheer us up. My prayers are being said for you and that God will give you the ready and peace you so deserve. Thank you so much. 💝💜😇

I’m so sorry that some people can be so insensitive. I love your work and I hope you can find a way to receive more peace. Thank you so much for your positive thoughts and energy. Your work has inspired me on a daily basis!