Women often feel ashamed when they can’t orgasm or when it takes a ‘lot of work’. So they try to avoid it by being magnanimous and offering to wait. Instead of talking about it they will try to ‘redirect’ him and shift the focus. ...

Walker Thornton is a 62-year-old author and public speaker on a mission to help older women discover and enhance their sexuality. She specializes in women’s issues: sex, aging, and relationships. Her book, Inviting Desire is written for the older woman seeking to bring more enjoyment into her life. You can find her at www.walkerthornton.com, on Instagram as wjt62, on Twitter: http://twitter.com/WalkerThornton and on Facebook https://www.facebook.com/WalkerJThornton/