"Many people talk freely and easily and fluently, but if you had a stenographer record their remarks you would wonder what they did with the periods, the ends of sentences, and that sort of thing. People do not talk in complete sentences; they talk in ideas. In working with hypnotic subjects you want to communicate an idea. You want to communicate it in a very simple way and in a most effective way. And you want to use the greatest possible economy of words. Furthermore, you want to know exactly what it is you are suggesting." Milton H. Erickson MD

I think that some of the best writing is when it feels as though the person is telling you a story as though they are sitting right in front of you speaking, rather than it feeling as though a great distance seperates the story teller and the listener.

I think that some of the best writing is when it feels as though the person is telling you a story as though they are sitting right in front of you speaking, rather than it feeling as though a great distance seperates the story teller and the listener.

It's true, that's not how you talk. It also, however, isn't the way a writer should write dialogue. If they did, it would be almost impossible to read and understand. So writing style isn't that literal.

It's true, that's not how you talk. It also, however, isn't the way a writer should write dialogue. If they did, it would be almost impossible to read and understand. So writing style isn't that literal.

Years ago I did telemarketing as a part time job. There was decent money in it for what it was and I got a kick out of it.

One thing that used to get me to roll my eyes Is when I would talk to people from down south and they would say "Y'all got to be from Boston"

I would say Rhode Island and they would say "where?"

Apparently the east coast ends at Massachusetts

All those locations you mention I'd also say "where?" - sure I've heard the names before, but won't be able to point them out on the map. Somewhere in that huge chunk of map with the letters "USA" printed big on it. Having never been nearer than a complete ocean away to the USA might help.

And for that exact reason I do not use place names in my stories. Not even distances. "His town" and "her town" that are "a three-hour drive apart". Let the reader fill in what THEY think would be suitable for "town", and how far three hours drive is (in Europe that will be further than in the US as we drive so much faster).

And I'm sure you natives will sometimes chuckle on my language use. I'm pretty much sticking to UK spelling having been taught that in school, but have picked up plenty of US, Australian, British and other expressions and slang from various sources. And will use them regardless of origin.

My son in law and his family are from RI, and none of them talk like people I know from Boston.

The difference is Boston has that "ahhh" sound. If you watch Jaws in the beginning Rob Schneider does that the "Cah is not to fah from yaahd."

Rhode Island what we do is drop the R's in words. Its not water its watah,

The tough one is "Porn shop" vs Pawn shop they sound the same. Especially tough when my mother wanted to appraise some jewelry and said "Hey I just went to the pawn shop! you should see all the cool stuff.":

Good point. Word choice can go a long way to describing a character's attitude and education, even without explicitly mentioning either.

Yep. Erickson filled a book with suggestions and observations about speech and movement and observations. One of the interesting points he made involved attention to detail, he said people frequently miss the big stuff; his example was 6 medical interns and one old woman. In 3 hours of looking at her none of the interns had a clue what her problem was, both her legs were amputated close to her hips (diabetes). They didnt see the amputations!

I had a serious fight with an MD about this. The child had a saddle injury, and a witness who saw the child jump from a ladder onto a sawhorse. The doc said someone kicked the kids groin. I argued that it was almost impossible to field kick a kid's crotch without two people holding the kid. This same MD killed a kid with pneumonia, he insisted it was a cold, dismissing the penumonia diagnosis made by a health department MD who saw the kid.