ok heres what u do if u REEEAALY wannna turn a guy on tell him 2sit still 4a little while &just relax then while hes doin that gently &softly run ur pointer(the one by ur thumb) up &down the back of his neck &behind his ear lobe then once he starts shivering(lol) blow slow warm air just behind hes ear lobe!!!!but dont like blow spit or nything on his ear cuz i doubt he would like that!