The strength, self-reliance, hardiness, and resilience we see in Darrel and
Juanita Buschkoetter and their children are characteristics that have
traditionally been attributed to rural people. What's happening to them needs
to be understood in the broader context of the vast social and economic changes
taking place in rural America and within farming. The challenges the
Buschkoetters face, the hardships they endure, the stresses and strains on
their marriage and each other, and their prospects for the future are all, to
one degree or another, the result of the social and economic circumstances that
are affecting rural Americans today.

Darrel and Juanita were married and entered farming together in 1985, the
height of the farm crisis. In Nebraska, from 1981 to 1986, farmers and rural
residents went from having the best "mental health" in the state to the worst;
rates of depression for farmers and rural residents more than doubled and far
outstripped their urban counterparts. Nebraska and Iowa studies during the
1980s found over 20 percent of farmers and rural residents had evidence of
depression. Alcohol abuse, child abuse, spouse abuse, divorce, suicide and farm
accidents climbed along with the stress. Children became troubled and acted out
in various ways. Study after study documented the effects of the farm crisis on
individuals, families, and communities; there was strong evidence to support a
direct link between the financial distress of farmers and a variety of mental
and physical health problems. Constant financial pressure, the threat of losing
farms that had been in families for generations, and the feelings of personal
failure and guilt took their toll.

By the end of the 1980s the overall agricultural economy had improved and much
of the media attention to the farm crisis went away. Thousands of farmers and
their families had lost their livelihood and been forced off their farms. There
were, however, a number of farmers who were still hanging on. They had managed
to survive but they were not by any means free from financial problems. Like
Darrel and Juanita, many carried significant debt burdens and experienced a
series of weather-related crop disasters in the early 1990s. While the nation
turned its attention to other issues, many farmers and rural residents
continued to experience unrelenting financial distress.

Most have had to take extraordinary measures to try to maintain their farms.
Like Darrel and Juanita, many work at other jobs off the farm. Most have cut
expenses to the bone, giving up things like health and life insurance. Some
receive food stamps and others are forced to get emergency food assistance from
church pantries or relatives. Their children want for new clothes, and trips to
the doctor and dentist are reserved for emergencies. These were (and are) the
forgotten farmers. At least during the mid-1980s there was some national
recognition and response to the problems of farmers. By the 1990s, nobody
wanted to hear about the problems of farmers, and most of the programs that had
been set up to help financially distressed farmers had disappeared. The COMHT
(Counseling, Outreach and Mental Health Therapy) program mentioned in the film
by Juanita, which provided free mental health counseling to the Buschkoetters,
is just one example where the end of federal or state aid spelled the end of
services to farmers and rural residents.

The stress that struggling farmers experience is qualitatively different from
the work-related stress you or I might experience; it is even different from
the stress of a factory worker about to lose their job. Not only financial
distress, but also intergenerational conflicts about running the farm
contribute to this. Farming is more than a job, more than a career--it is an
all-consuming way of life, and a legacy that is held in trust from generation
to generation. "Losing the farm" is tantamount to losing one's sense of
personal and family identity. Many farmers see losing the farm as failing both
previous and future generations of their family. Farmers have equated the grief
from the loss of their farm to the death of a family member.

How we interpret the things that happen to us can also be a source of stress;
if we do so in a way that causes guilt or anger, we feel worse and add further
stress. It is difficult for farmers and rural residents not to personalize the
financial distress they experience. Because second-guessing is natural, farmers
and others often wonder if was "poor management" that created the financial
problems. On the farmer's part, this leads to an overwhelming sense of guilt
and may put them at risk of suicide. "Blaming the victim" has been the source
of much of the conflict that surfaced in rural communities during the farm
crisis.

If guilt is the result of self-blame, then anger is the result of blaming
others for one's circumstance. Many farmers experienced a sense of betrayal as
a result of lending practices that at one point in time encouraged them to
borrow money and later blamed them for getting in over their heads. Farmers
rightly perceive that government policies and corporate practices have
contributed to the situations they find themselves in, and many farmers and
rural residents blame urban-based and urban-biased policy makers for their
plight. This political disenfranchisement contributes to a growing anger which
can be expressed in either destructive or constructive forms. Farmers are not
just victims, they can direct their anger into effective actions, not just at
the personal level, but as a political force as well on the local and national
level.

Social support provides a buffering effect for stress; the greater the support
of friends, family, the community, and society as a whole, the less impact
stress will have on individuals and families. Everyone who eats has a stake in
family farms, necessitating rural-urban coalitions to support the preservation
of family farming.

Fortunately, in the film we see circumstances improving for the Buschkoetters
and there is every indication that they are recovering from the years of
financial and personal distress. There is also evidence that Darrel and Juanita
have changed in the way they look at their options and have a better
understanding of each other, which will serve them well in the years to come.
We wish them the best.