The Scarf

i didn’t plan on posting for another day or so, but had an interesting run-in at a convenience store.

i went to the local to have a pint with a friend and it’s recently gotten cold out here. which mean’s it was in the 50’s. lol. now what you may not understand about jacksonville is that it’s pretty red-neck. now, i have a relatively decent sense of style and like to dress nicely; especially during the fall/winter. i rolled my cricket sweater, nice jeans, and pair of camel colored desert boots. oh, desert boots, they look like this-

for whatever reason i decided to wear a scarf. i like scarves, don’t know why, but i do. see, i can dress nice when i want.

sorry, but i NEVER smile in pics.

well, after i left the local, i stopped to grab some beer. as i walked in there was a decent looking brunette walking behind me. i held the door for her as i walked in and she smiled and thanked me. no biggie, it is the south after all. but i noticed she held her stare a second or 2 longer than she needed. wasn’t feeling it. i walked to get my beer. i was in line and brunette and a blonde friend ended up behind me. i was waiting my turn when i felt a tug on my scarf. i turned around and brunette was smiling and said, “i like your scarf.”

well holy shit.

i smiled and asked her what exactly she liked about it. she looked away and smiled even more. she mentioned she liked the blue. shit test. i told her, well, there are 2 other colors and “the blue” was pretty lame, i told her she could do better. her blonde friend was TRYING not to look and was REALLY trying not to smile. i know the expression all too well. this was gonna be fun.

look, there was NO REASON for her to open me. most guys fuck up by jumping all over it and trying to engage her with positive ass kissing conversation. wrong move. if you REALLY wanna fuck with a girl in a flirty/alpha manner just ask her one question-

“why do you think that?”

most girls, especially ATTRACTIVE girls RARELY hear a man asking them why they think the way they do, or questioning their opinions. most guys will just, “oh yeah, i….blah blah blah.” in fact they should calling the woman on her decision. i’m not saying to disagree or be a dick, but stand out and call her on her shit. if you simply agree and try to relate, you’ll just be another face in a long line of men that have chatted her up and didn’t make her tingle.

again, get in the habit of doing this with ANY woman you talk to- friend or relative; whether you’re attracted to her or not. this needs to be internalized, i can’t stress that enough.

on a side note, finally had a chance to talk to with M3, cool guy. then had a call from ThePrivateMan that was pretty informative. we were talking blogging and red-pill and i mentioned the post about about approach anxiety and my technique and he had more than one, “that’s brilliant.” moments. lol. it really surprises me how so many guys don’t get it. and thats why this blog exists. i won’t talk SMP philosophy, i’ll tell you what worked and what HASN’T worked for me. i just hope it resonates.

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Why is this? Maritus is the same way and I have to really tease or mess with him to get him to smile in pictures. Now don’t get me wrong, I love to get him to laugh for the picture, but I don’t get the not smiling thing. Is it because it’s simply not natural?