Please let us know how Kaitlyn or Kaitlyn's story has touched your life

Summer replies:
03/14/2008, 16:08:43
“Hi Cheri & Jon, It was such a pleasure to get meet and get to know you two this week in Washington at the National Inhalant Press Conference. I am amazed at your courage to spread your message about your beautiful daughter. We created a 1-pager information sheet about Kaitlyn's Promise orange bracelets. I'm going to give these out to the kids on Monday. I hope we keep in touch and feel free to email me anytime. Praying for you guys! May God Bless, Summer Deepe

Bobbi replies:
03/18/2008, 03:27:37
“It's 3:00 am, Tuesday, March 18th and I'm searching the internet trying to understand "huffing" and the use of Dust Off as a drug. My brother died Friday 3-14-08 and I just found out tonite that it was while using Dust Off. I had never heard of this before and am completely shocked at how much there is on the internet concerning this product. Can you tell me more about the National Inhalant Press Conference that you were at on the day my brother died?

Cheri Vallery replies:
03/18/2008, 06:35:34
“Bobbi,

I am so sorry to hear about your brother. Please know that your family is in our prayers. We were in Washington sharing Kaitlyn's story and like you we did not know much about inhalant abuse before Kaitlyn died. www.inhalants.org is a great place to start looking for info. Please contact me at cheri.vallery@gmail.com. I would love to talk to you more.
Cheri Vallery

Taylor replies:
03/28/2008, 23:27:47
“cheri,
Hi, i just heard your speech about kaitlyn today in one of my classes and was so heartbroken to hear her story! if something happened to one of my friends i dont know what i would do. i dont know how you could have the strength to talk about a loved ones death. i know i couldnt. i would just break down every time i tried. god has really blessed you with amazing strength! kaitlyn's story has really touched my life and i will never let my freinds get away with doing drugs (although i am proud to say i dont know anyone that has ever done drugs). your family will be in my prayers and i will pass her story on to lots and lots of people and have already told it to 3 of my close freinds. i know kaitlyn is now in a better place and is watching over everyone!

Destiny Bell replies:
04/04/2008, 18:04:18
“Man thats speech today you gave us at school is one thing i probably will never forget! Thank you lots for sharing that with us today
Hope you still talk to her at night with a good prayer

Lori says:
11/01/2007, 21:47:17
“The updated site looks great. Matt actually opened your email and was reading the site. His comment was that it was good but so sad. We talked about it some. You are a wonderful person, doing a great job. I'm proud to have you as one of my friends. Love ya all, think and pray for ya'll often...Lori

Randi Buckley says:
11/13/2007, 11:31:46
“i am currently struggling with a drug addiction problem, and leave tomorrow for a 60 day treatment in baton rouge.
kaitlyns promise bracelet was given to my uncle eddie to be given to me.
i greatly appreciate it
and will keep it dear to me as a reminder of the risks i take with my own life when i use drugs.

I greatly appreciate it, thanks so very much.

Jeremy Vallery replies:
02/07/2008, 06:29:49
“I hope you check this site again! this is Kaitlyn's older brother and i live in baton rouge, i wouldnt mind gettin together for lunch if you would like. and are able to!

Granny replies:
02/07/2008, 07:29:39
“Thanks for growing up to be such a fine young man....and don't forget to wish your sister a very Happy Birthday today. Love You!

Kaitlyn's Dad says:
11/25/2007, 16:32:01
“I would like to share a letter written by a dear friend of Kaitlyn’s. Courtney I am so proud of you for talking about Kaitlyn’s Promise and honored you invited us to attend the Ms Montgomery County Pageant to hear you read your monologue

Dear Kaitlyn,
I wanted to say that I am sorry. I'm sorry I wasn't a better friend. I'm sorry I strayed away from you when I should have never left your side. I remember the first time I saw you. We were in Geometry class together. All you could talk about was how proud and how happy you were that you were 9 months sober, yet I couldn't relate. I remember how we became such good friends. I would look forward to walking into first period every morning to hear your chipper voice say "Hey Girlfriend!"Most of all, I remember the last time I saw you. It was the Friday before your precious life was taken. We exchanged glances and smiles in the hallway, but there was no "Hey girlfriend!", for I allowed our friendship to whither away. Little did I know that would be the last time I would ever see your smile.

How did I lose you Kaitlyn? Never did I imagine that Sunday night, August 27, 2006, you would have breathed your very last breath. The immense feeling that came to me and has never left me since the day you died, is the feeling of knowing I could have done something to help save your life, but I didn't. Which is why, I will not let my mistake be someone else's mistake. You have created the desire in my heart to share your story, and I will. I will carry on your promise Kaitlyn, and that is my promise to you. Your death will not be in vain.
I LOVE YOUU GIRLFRIEND!!!

Estella DeLosh says:
12/06/2007, 19:42:39
“I Will Help Spread The Word Also,To Keep Her Memory Alive. She Was So Beautiful.

Beth Crocker says:
12/09/2007, 12:22:08
“What a great idea to share your story to save the lives of other teens abusing! Congrats on your courage & strength!!!

kaitlyn vansteeburgh replies:
5 days ago, 19:41:56
“i think you are so pretty i love that song

Tatante says:
01/06/2008, 23:23:07
“God, I miss you!

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Krystal says:
02/05/2008, 23:35:32
“Kaitlyn... Sweet heart, I miss you like crazy. Looking at this site reminded me of the good times we had. =]
You have affected so many lives.
I wouldnt be the person I am today If you werent in my life.
I love you with all my heart.
=]
You're my baby girl, my beautiful butterfly...
I think of you every single day.
I love you
I will NEVER forget you- ever.
I will tell your story and spread the message until the day I die.
<3 Krys

Josette says:
03/17/2008, 02:12:14
“Kaitlyns story really hit close to home because I lost my Best friend to inhalants almost 6 years ago. She was also only 16. She had been doing this secretly for awhile when it finally took its toll on her. It was one of the most difficult things I had to face in my life. I know that together we can all make a difference. I will definately keep this going for both Kaitlyn and my best friend.

Amanda says:
03/20/2008, 19:51:27
“Cheri, I thank you for your kindness. And wanted you to know I will share this site with all the people with teens I know. Your daughter was a beautiful girl with an wonderful smile. And now is a precious angel.

KAITLYN says:
03/28/2008, 17:09:41
“HEY MY NAME IS KAITLYN AND I LIKE THE NEW SITE

Victoria Castro says:
04/05/2008, 11:46:01
“Friday april 4th, Kaitlyns mom came to my school, York Jr. High, and she spoke to us and told us kaitlyns story and also about kaitlyns promise.. i had heard bits and peices of this story cause kaitlyn was my older sister,Taylor Castro's, very good friend... the speech really mad me relize how seriouse it is not to do drugs. I thank Kaitlyns mom for shareing her story I'm sure it is very hard for her! i will always and forever keep Kaitlyns family in my prayers!!! I hope yall continue to share yalls story and keep saveing lives.

Misty LeBlanc-Roy says:
06/01/2008, 13:21:50
“So I know that this time of year is hard for family and friends of Kaitlyn's. I am praying for all of you b/c this would have been the year she would have graduated. I hope Kaitlyn played a big role in each and every class mate's life. I hope her promise made them realize the dangers and gave them the courage to make her proud! I feel as if I knew Kaitlyn b/c she was my age and had a world of dreams just like me, so I wear her promise every day on my wrist. I tell her story very often and hope to make a difference.

kaitlyn l. says:
11/13/2008, 12:58:11
“i only clicked on this site because she spelt her name the same way i do, and now i think i may talk to my school to see what i can do to help raise awareness

Faye replies:
11/20/2008, 09:47:34
“Kaitly would be very happy to know that she is helping someone else....especially at this time of the year....Thanksgiving was a holiday she really enjoyed.

Granny says:
11/20/2008, 09:49:55
“I miss you more and more every day....but I know your Promise is helping an untold number of people understand what their loved ones are going through and what they should never have to go through.....love ya!

Carol Ragsdale Mom to Matthew Mullis says:
12/02/2008, 08:45:32
“A Beautiful Tribute of Love for your beautiful Kaitlyn. I too lost a child in 2006. I send to you my love, thoughts and prayers as we go throught the Holiday Season, and until we are all reunited in Heaven they will live forever in our Hearts.
Love & Peace,
Carol Mom forever to Matthew Mullis

Granny says:
02/09/2009, 10:54:19
“Did not forget....watched lots of "movies" with you in them....Happy Birthday....Love you!

Name: Caroline
Location: Texas City
Email: iveycj@bp.com
Date: 07/13/2007
Comments
Kaitlyn's Promise will NOT die. I'll do my part in spreading the awareness. My heart goes out to you all. May God Bless You and Keep You. Caroline Ivey (Jordan's Aunt)

Name:

Location:
texas
Email:

Date:
07/12/2007
Comments
i really miss you, and i cant get you off my mind lately, been cryin my self to sleep, and it hurts. really hurts i dont know how im still moving with out you somedays, and whats worse is i cant even remember this time last summer... i love you and i will see you when its my turn to join you. love doesnt even begin to describe how much you mean to me

Name:
Rachel Green
Location:
The Woodlands
Email:
dancejock2002@yahoo.com
Date:
07/10/2007
Comments
We miss Kaitlyn.. I knew her well, amd we shared some good time.. Im so sorry for her loss.. we'll miss her so much

Name:
Richard Mixx
Location:
Porter Teaxs
Email:
firedudemixx@yahoo.com
Date:
06/19/2007
Comments
My son came home from school one day and said dad i have something for you,I looked at him kinda funny and said what is it Justin? He said he had given one to Mom already and his brother too. He handed me a Bracelet that said "Kaitlynspromise" on it. I had no idea what it was and he told me the story. You see my son attended Shattered Lives @ New Caney High School and was so reluctant about participating in the program that he almost didnt do it, The advise I gave him was to go do it and he would understand so many things that he thought he already new aboout. Also I told him that I have never mislead him and I never would so just do it! He did and has since graduated and is looking at life so differently now, Not only did it open his eyes it changed his life. Thank You for sharing in your loss to help change the lives of others you dont even know, Your story touched my son and the rest of my family and for that i am eternily grateful. Thank You and God Bless

Name:
Angie Adams
Location:
dothan alabama
Email:
aadams216@aol.com
Date:
05/27/2007
Comments
Kaitlyn has been on my mind lately along with all of you. Her death is definitely not in vain. I know how hard the days without her are for you. I am so proud of what you are doing in her memory. By His Grace, Angie

Name:
Shannon McNeal
Location:
New Caney TX
Email:
i_love_@yahoo.com
Date:
05/27/2007
Comments
hey this is shannon from the shattered lives that you spoke at in new caney, i just wanted to let you know i have leared alot from what you told me and thank you very much! shannon*

Name:
Jonel
Location:
Lynn, IN
Email:
jonel0205@hotmail.com
Date:
05/24/2007
Comments
Wow, this story has touched me so deeply. I saw 13 the movie recently where the girls were doing it. Had no idea that it was this dangerous-thanks for educating me so I can pass the live-saving infomation on. God Bless you and your efforts.

Name:
Jessie Hobbs
Location:
Conroe
Email:
krathsbaby@yahoo.com
Date:
05/08/2007
Comments
Your story has touched my life and others around me thank you for spreading the word.

Name:
Monica
Location:
Spring, Texas
Email:
prepyangl13@yahoo.com
Date:
05/06/2007
Comments
I'm very sorry to hear what has happened to Kaitlyn! I havent been in the position of losing a loved one to something like this so i dont really know how it feels but i have lost someone in the family like family members like grandmas and grandpas but i still am VERY sorry about what happened. GOD BLESS KAITLYN!

Name:
Bonnie
Location:
Spring
Email:
rebelcowgirl05@houston.rr.com
Date:
05/06/2007
Comments
thank you so much for you speech, it made me realize that if your drinking that you don't need to be driving home to show your parents that you can be home on time. I'm very sorry for what happen to Kaitlyn! Your speech touch alot of people in Spring Texas. Thank you, BONNIE

Name:
Bonnie
Location:
Spring
Email:
rebelcowgirl05@houston.rr.com
Date:
05/06/2007
Comments
thank you so much for you speech, it made me realize that if your drinking that you don't need to be driving home to show your parents that you can be home on time. I'm very sorry for what happen to Kaitlyn! Your speech touch alot of people in Spring Texas. Thank you, BONNIE

Name:
Sandy buess
Location:
spring TX
Email:
sanderson412@yahoo.com
Date:
05/05/2007
Comments
Kaitlyn's Promise has touched my life i wanted to thank you even theo i didn't know kaitlyn i feel as if i did her story is very touching you will be missed every day kaitlyn r.i.p.

Name:
Shannon Davis
Location:
Porter, Texas
Email:
shannon_davis_79@yahoo.com
Date:
05/04/2007
Comments
My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family. You have forever touched my heart! You are a strong family and thank you for the impact that you make on the Shattered Lives Program. Forever a friend, Shannon Davis

Name:
ORHS Shattered Lives
Location:
27330 Oak Ridge School Road
Email:
tjohnson@conroeisd.net <tjohnson@conroeisd.net>
Date:
05/04/2007
Comments
We appreciate you talking with the students that participated in Shattered Lives. I beleive you have made an impact on them .

Name:
Sherrie Stafford
Location:

Email:
bankermom33@yahoo.com
Date:
04/27/2007
Comments
Just want to say THANK YOU for speaking to our children! I hope your words will change the lives of many! My heart is with you and your family! God bless! Mother of an Oakridge High School Junior

Name:
Deputy Tracy Normandin
Location:
Yulee Middle School & Nassau County Sheriff's Office, Yulee, Florida
Email:
glockfairy@aol.com
Date:
04/24/2007
Comments
We recieved Kaitlyn's Promise bracelets to help promote our National Inhalant and Poison Abuse Awareness Week. Our campaign was a great success and the kids are still wearing Kaitlyn's bracelets. Our teachers were given Kaitlyn's story about your tragic loss and used it to explain the dangers of inhalants. The photo's I sent show some of our Youth Crime Watch and Peer Mediation students wearing the bracelets. Thank you again for your donation of the bracelets, without you and your love for Kaitlyn our campaign would not have been as successful. God Bless, Deputy Tracy Normandin

Name:
Candace Farris
Location:
Jena
Email:
candy_cane_07@yahoo.com
Date:
04/16/2007
Comments
I LOVE YOU AND YOUR FAMILY AND I WILL BE PRAYING FOR YOU AND YOUR FAMILY. I HOPE YOUR FAMILY HAVE BEEN PRAYING FOR YOU AND THE REST OF YOUR FAMILY. I HOPE YOUR MOTHER, FATHER AND BROTHERS OR SISTER HAVE A WONDERFUL LIFETIME. I LOVE YOU KAITLYN (R.I.P)

Name:
Vivian Le
Location:
Houston, Texas
Email:
viviaannl@yahoo.com
Date:
04/16/2007
Comments
hey Ms. Cheri, my name is Vivian Le and you do not really know me, but i was a very close friend of Jordans. I went to Red River Academy and i got pulled on Friday afternoon to go home for good. I've heard many stories from Jordan about Kaitlyn. the goods and the bads. I know how Jordan and Kaitlyn were so close that I know that she would even consider her as her own sister. Jordan tries not to think about Kaitlyn as much in the program, but she does. Its not that she wants to push and avoid the memories, its more of her not wanting to dwell about something she can not change. I also hear Jordan talking about you as well Ms.Cheri. She feels like you are a second mom to her and how thank ful she was for you to be by her side when she was at home. Before I left, I got to say goodbye to everyone and I left behind my Blue Clues stuffed animal for Jordan to have, because we have became like best friends. She also wanted me to have something that meant alot to her as well, cause we planned on when she was coming home, that I was going to be a support system for her, and she was gonna be a support system for me as well. We planned on seeing each other soon, since i talked to Ms.Kim, and i can ask her what is going on and stuff. Jordan wanted me to wear kaitlyns bracelet for her. for now. i promised her that i would, it is on my right arm. I may not know Kaitlyn, but just hearing about her, makes me feel like i do. She had asked me to visit this web page, and she wants me to visit Kaitlyns grave. I also plan on doing that as well. Jordan was procrastinating whether or not she wanted me to hold the bracelet right now, she was afraid that she would be "betraying" Kaitlyn. I would reassure her that everything was gonna be okay, and that i had promised her that it was going to be in good hands. that when she came home, I would give her bracelet back and she would give me my bear back. it would be like a tradeoff. It was hard leaving Red River because I had built so many good relationships with the girls. but most of all with Jordan. This was my second time in the program and the first time I got sent away, I had just turned 14 years old. i went to Cross Creek Academy in LaVerkin , Utah for two months. Then i got transferred to midwest Academy in Keokuk, Iowa because I was getting to comfortable in the first program and it was around $6,000 a month and my parents felt like it was too expensive. I got in the program the first time for, drugs, drinking, fighting,sex, running away, disrespect, lieing, stealing, getting in trouble with the law, not going to school and wanting to drop out, i never had a relationship with my parents. I just chose not to talk to them. I put all my friends before my family and never cared about life. All i cared about was having parties and getting that high just so i could feel accepted by them. But I was in Midwest for a year in a half. I was a level 5 and i got pulled out of the program because we were suppose to go to PC2, but my mom a nd dad decided instead of using the money for that trip, she felt like i was ready to come home. My parents were never commited to the program. I came home for my Junior Year to a new neighborhood and school. I made new friends. this time, i was going back to being disrespectful, lieing, and i had a boyfriend. i went against what my parents said. they didnt want me dating at a young age, they thought that i was going to "give up" with school since i was so worried about a boy. On february 6th 2007, i got escorted to Red river during school. I've been at red river for only two months a 2 weeks. They pulled me because I had finished with high school and now i am home for good. and i plan to be home for good. right now, i am planning to go look for a job and save up for college. I just wanted to let you know about myself, and how I knew about you and Kaitlyn. because of Jordan, there are no accidents why i she was in my life, and why i had came into RedRiver. She has made a huge impact on me and how dreams do come true. i hope that you do get this message and email me back whenever you can. it was a pleasure talking to you. always and forever -Vivian and Jordan PS: Jordan loves you alot Kaitlyn, you were like a sister to her. You'll never be forgotten.

Name:
Bridgett
Location:
Yulee Fl
Email:
brdgttcook@yahoo.com
Date:
04/02/2007
Comments
Iam so sorry my friends aunt died the same way I would like to talk to you email me my mom said I am a good listener love Bridgett H cook

Name:
Jennifer Sharp
Location:
Jena, Louisiana
Email:
angel_babydoll_16@yahoo.com
Date:
03/29/2007
Comments
It has changed my life because of her family coming to our Jena High School and talking to us. I am glad to know that everyone is trying to get the message to teenagers that these kind of drugs can absolutely kill you and it only takes one time so why even try it! Thanks for all the help to everyone who is helping.

Name:

Location:
Conroe, Tx
Email:

Date:
03/27/2007
Comments
Everytime i meet someone knew and the subject of drugs comes up & what there going to be doing i never hesitate a second to share your story sometimes i think well i dont want people to think that she was just a user because your werent. You had such a great heart & telling your story sometimes i wish they could understand what kind of person you were and then maybe it would impact them a little more, but we both know no matter how much you try to change someone it doesnt work unless it is the change they want in themselves. You know your walk to get sober wasnt easy & i havnt got completley sober yet, but you know that you help me each and everyday to get better and stronger in my goal to get sober. i love you and miss you

Name:
Lisa Howard
Location:
Jena, Louisiana
Email:
anna082010@yahoo.com
Date:
03/27/2007
Comments
Last Friday ya'll came to our school to talk about your daughter and I just want to say that it touched my heart and that ya'll are in my prayers. She well always be remembered here at my school, even if we didn't know her. I'm sorry for your lost. I PRAY for you.

Name:
Lisa Howard
Location:
Jena, Louisiana
Email:
anna082010@yahoo.com
Date:
03/27/2007
Comments
Last Friday ya'll came to our school to talk about your daughter and I just want to say that it touched my heart and that ya'll are in my prayers. She well always be remembered here at my school, even if we didn't know her. I'm sorry for your lost. I PRAY for you.

Name:
Lisa Howard
Location:
Jena, Louisiana
Email:
anna082010@yahoo.com
Date:
03/27/2007
Comments
Last Friday ya'll came to our school to talk about your daughter and I just want to say that it touched my heart and that ya'll are in my prayers. She well always be remembered here at my school, even if we didn't know her. I'm sorry for your lost. I PRAY for you.

Name:
Lisa Howard
Location:
Jena, Louisiana
Email:
anna082010@yahoo.com
Date:
03/27/2007
Comments
Last Friday ya'll came to our school to talk about your daughter and I just want to say that it touched my heart and that ya'll are in my prayers. She well always be remembered here at my school, even if we didn't know her. I'm sorry for your lost. I PRAY for you.

Name:
Tara Schroeder
Location:
Fort Mitchell, Alabama
Email:
tschroeder4@gmail.com
Date:
03/27/2007
Comments
It took me quite some time to click on the link to get here, but I'm glad I fianlly did. I couldnt imagine the pain you and your family had to go through. I also didnt realize how big of an issue this was. Thank you for the information. I am SO sorry for you loss. I will say an extra prayer for Kaitlyn, and your family tonight. I enjoyed the video too. It literally brought me to tears to realize how special she really was, how much she is missed, and loved.

Name:
Kristyn Mitchell
Location:
Jena, La
Email:
kristyn_19@yahoo.com
Date:
03/26/2007
Comments
This website is beautiful and Kaitlyn was a very pretty girl. I know the family is still going through hard times and ever since i heard this story at one of the assemblies at my school i have prayed for her family. I had a friend that was once in drugs and gangs sisn't believe that God loved or anyone else. I talked to her about what she was doing to herself and her family. Till this day she is clean still fighting and i'm still there to help she has even gotten out of her gang and starting to get back with God. I talk to her everyday and I wonder if she didn't come talk to me would she stil be here. I would like to learn more about Kaitlyn and her life on earth and i wish that somehow i could go with you around schools and share this story that i have shered with you here tonight. God Bless You, Kaitlyn will never be forgotten.

Name:
Cheri Vallery
Location:
Kaitlyn's mom
Email:
cheri.vallery@gmail.com
Date:
03/26/2007
Comments
To Anonymous: Thank you for posting this -- so many people think that by sharing Kaitlyn's story with other teens it will be a negative thing -- your comment is proof that Kaitlyn's story should be told -- what happened to her should be used to get the message accross that this is a dangerous thing that kids are doing everyday and not just an isolated incident Please email me -- I would LOVE to talk to you -- Cheri

Name:
Anonymous
Location:
The Woodlands, TX
Email:

Date:
03/26/2007
Comments
I just would like everyone to know that me and my friends used to dust to :duster buster' is what we would call it....I never knew how dangerous it was or that it could be fatal...I remember hearing kaitlyns passing on the announcments at college park and it has really affected me and many others. Kaitlyn will always be in all of our hearts and she saved my life and got me on my feet again. God Bless the Vallerys....and Kep your head up Jerm!!!

Name:
Debbie Cole
Location:
Indiana
Email:
shawnanddebbie@sbcglobal.net
Date:
03/23/2007
Comments
Thanks so much for sharing your story. I am so grateful that you are making the world a better place by sharing Kaitlyn's story. I am a fellow CTMH consultant and that's how I found out about Kaitlyn. My son has been in a similar situation and friends did call. He is clean now and moving on. I know that your Kaitlyn is in heaven watching over all of you down here as your guardian angel. Take care and keep your chin up. Thanks for the tribute you are making in your daughter's name.

Name:
Ethan and Cameron
Location:
Jena,LA
Email:
drummerpearl09@hotmail.com
Date:
03/23/2007
Comments
OMG!!! This is so sad!! I feel for ya'll!! They just came this morning and told us about everything that happened to Kaitlyn.. We all realize she was just an ordinary girl like anyone else would be in high school... Ya'll will be in our prayers.. and i am sure that ya'll have had tons of people say we will be praying for ya'll.. but we truly do mean this!! Ethan B.. Cameron Ray..

Name:
April
Location:
Houston
Email:
april_fay21@yahoo.com
Date:
03/22/2007
Comments
Oh wow. Just hearing this song and seeing her beautiful face makes me want to cry. I have 4 very young nieces and I can only hope and pray that they have great friends that would rather worry about their well being than whether she will be mad at them for it. My heart goes out to Kaitlyn's family and friends whom I can only imagine miss her dearly. Hopefully Kaitlyn's death will help raise awareness enough so that someone else can live a long life. Love, April

Name:
April
Location:
Houston
Email:
april_fay21@yahoo.com
Date:
03/22/2007
Comments
Oh wow. Just hearing this song and seeing her beautiful face makes me want to cry. I have 4 very young nieces and I can only hope and pray that they have great friends that would rather worry about their well being than whether she will be mad at them for it. My heart goes out to Kaitlyn's family and friends whom I can only imagine miss her dearly. Hopefully Kaitlyn's death will help raise awareness enough so that someone else can live a long life. Love, April

Name:
janna Zuber
Location:
Bowie, Md.
Email:
jannazuber@verizon.net
Date:
03/19/2007
Comments
My deepest synpathies. We lost our 16 year old Justin to a can of air freshener on Feb.18, 2002. Your pain is still so fresh...time never heals the hole left behind, you just learn how to navigate around it. I am currently working on an inhalant awareness program directed to young teens. I am trying to find out from parents what goals, dreams that their child had. [at the end of the presentation I have kids read a slip of paper with the name of a child that has died from inhalant abuse, the date they died, where they lived, and would like to add what that child's goals were. Then they light the paper on fire, and drop it into a container of water. I conclude with the students pulling out their own previously written goals and dreams and have them reread them silently to themselves, and remind them as they continue in their lives here if their actions and decisions help them reach those goals... On a more personal note, I kept a journal for well over 2 years and wrote to Justin every night in it. For me, it was very helpful in my journey of grief. It has also taken me about 4 years to garner the strength to talk publicly about the dangers of inhalant abuse. I am in awe of those parents who can speak so early in the face of such tragedy.

Name:
Linda Butler
Location:
Bumpass, Virginia
Email:
Imdamoose@aol.com
Date:
03/19/2007
Comments
Thank you for using this sad and painful tragady to make something good come out of it. I hope the Crop to raise money for the scholarships. My son will graduate in 2008 and I want you to know your Kaitlyn will be in my heart as I am lucky enough to watch my son cross the stage. Remember... He turns mourning into Joy. Your CTMH Sister! Blessings, Lin

Name:
Linda Butler
Location:
Bumpass, Virginia
Email:
Imdamoose@aol.com
Date:
03/19/2007
Comments
Thank you for using this sad and painful tragady to make something good come out of it. I hope the Crop to raise money for the scholarships. My son will graduate in 2008 and I want you to know your Kaitlyn will be in my heart as I am lucky enough to watch my son cross the stage. Remember... He turns mourning into Joy. Your CTMH Sister! Blessings, Lin

Name:
stephanie waite
Location:
GRANVILLE, NY
Email:
stephrus@adelphia.net
Date:
03/18/2007
Comments
My thougths and prays go out to you and your family. I too lost my sister 12 years ago to a car accident when she was 15. She was a passenager. It's been the hardest thing my family had to deal with but just take one day at a time. Remember those great moments good and bad. I just wanted to tell you i am so sorry and i understand. My friend Betty burke is a CTMH consultant and she passed this wed page on to me. I loved the web page and read the story and look at the pictures. What a beautiful girl that was full of life. thanks for sharing.

Name:
Karen Ensor
Location:
michigan
Email:
friendsnstamps@yahoo.com
Date:
03/18/2007
Comments
I saw your link on our CTMH website and looked over the entire thing...I am so grateful to you...I have a younger brother who has been clean for 3 1/2 years now...he started using in jr high...and finally "got it" 37 yrs later. He is now 50....but I can tell you that he got a "new birthday" 3 1/2 yrs ago...keep up the fight...any May God Bless You All!!

Name:
Christine
Location:
Westlock, Alberta, Canada
Email:

Date:
03/17/2007
Comments
My heart goes out to Kaitlyn's family and friends. My hope is that all the people who visit this site -kids, parents, grandparents, even neighbors - will speak about this to everyone who will listen. 4 years ago my daughter was in the dilemma that Kaitlyn's friends were in. She came to me and was scared that her friend would hate her if she told anyone of her friend's plan to commit suicide. I convinced her that even if her friend hated her the rest of her life, she would be alive to do that. I was extremely proud of my daughter as she chose her friend's life over their friendship and today they are still close friends. I can't say that her friend wasn't very angry BUT she got over it and his here with all the people who love her. PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE do your friend a favor - tell! Tell anyone who will listen! Suicide, drugs, alcohol, whatever it is that YOU know is wrong...just tell. Chose life over anger.

Name:
Rene'
Location:
Las Vegas, NV
Email:
LvCubMom@aol.com
Date:
03/17/2007
Comments
Oh I must say I have spent the last hour on the site. I have sobbed, cried, smiled and wiped my tears. Your Story has touched me. I am a mother of 3 and grandma of 1. And reading the words as a mother 'it is not my fault' really helps. Your loss, oh my my how it must hurt. I cannot imagin not waking up knowing I don't have my babies. Don't stop the mission and the message to tell someone! Kaitlyn is beautiful. I do believe God has a plan, and Kaitlyn's weakness has turned to your strength Mom to get this message to others. Your family is in my prayers!!!! Rene', CTMH

Name:
Lori Drouin
Location:
Union, WA
Email:

Date:
03/17/2007
Comments
Blessings to you and your family. May God continue to surround you with his loving arms as you reach out to other children.

Name:
April Slusher
Location:
conroe, tx
Email:
babypoohbear12@hotmail.com
Date:
03/15/2007
Comments
Kaitlyn was a wounderful person and I miss her so much and so does everyone else who knows her. She knew how to make someone laugh. Kaitlyn's promise show how life is so much better without drugs in our lives and we can be so much happier. I know life is so good cause i dont do drugs but my family does and i dont like it at all but i stay away from all of that and people that do it. Kaitlyn you are so loved by so many people and you will be miss. Miss you girl.

Name:
Cheri (Kaitlyn's Mom)
Location:
Spring TX
Email:
cheri.vallery@gmail.com
Date:
03/14/2007
Comments
Here is another post on myspace -- another perspective AND just as important -- I am glad to see the dialog this has opened up. OAK RIDGE STUDENTS. [This isnt the same one everyone else is posting.] The way the other bulletin was written kind of pissed me off. They way I read it was, that because the deaths at Oak Ridge are drug or alcohol related, that we should look down on them. Guys, People make mistakes. And because they made a mistakedoesnt mean we should say "we need to learn from their mistakes" THEY ARENT PIECES OF SHIT. THEY WERE PEOPLE. JUST LIKE YOU. Just because Kaitlyn Vallery made the mistake she made, or Chris Wilmoth drove when he knew he shouldnt, doesnt mean we should sit around and be like "ALMOST EVERYONE IS IN DENIAL, AND ALMOST EVERYONE IS THINKING THAT IT COULDN'T POSSIBLY HAPPEN TO THEM." Dont sit there and say we should do something about it unless you actually are going to. Half of the people reposting that bulletin are probably getting high, or going to get drunk tonight. Thats bullshit. You dont say you are going to change because of the recent deaths when most people are just saying that to go along with everyone else. If you go to Oak Ridge, or have been to Oak Ridge, You know its like one big family. Everyone is connected somehow. Doesnt matter what race, what nationality, gender, or what grade your in. Everyone is affected by these deaths in someway. Whether they had a class with them, they knew them personally, or they have a friend who is greatly affected by their deaths. You cant just bluntly tell someone they shouldnt drink, or they shouldnt do drugs, because they are just going to either nod their head and pretend they wont, or they will just do the complete oppisite. WE ARE TEENAGERS. We arent fucking robots. We have emotions, and yeah, some think they need drugs or alcohol to cope. But just because they feel like they need that to feel okay, doesnt mean they are a piece of shit. Grieving is a long fucking process. You cant hurry it along, and you cant tell someone they need to be strong and that they should be leaders for all the students at Oak Ridge High School. ITS NOT GOING TO HAPPEN. Let people cry, Let people be pissed, Let people show their emotions. We should look up to the "Oak Ridge Angels" not look down on them. Obviously GOD took them away for a reason. And whoever wrote the last one was right about some parts. We dont need drugs, its just a high, and we dont need beer, or liquor, its just a drink. GOD is going to test us, hes going to use us as pieces to his big plan. He is going to teach us lessons, and yeah, some of those may result in us losing someone important to us. GOD isnt just taking the Oak Ridge students who drink, or do drugs. Shay Davis didnt drink, Robert Burchfield didnt get high. What about the Coach shelton, he was a coach and teacher at Oak Ridge, did he drink and drive, or get high? What about Kimmy's Mom?! NOT EVERYONE AT OUR SCHOOL IS DYING BECAUSE OF DRUGS AND ALCOHOL. We need to remember them all the same. for their smiles, laughter, and the memories we had with them. Theres a reason for everything. AND REMEMBER, GOD only takes the best. [RIP: Coach Shelton, Mrs. Kilpack, Jennifer Tyndall, Kaitlyn Vallery, Robert Burchfield, Shay Davis, Chris Wilmoth, and all the OR angels.] -Taylor Musgrove. you can repost this if you wish,if not, at least read it and think about it. thanks.

Name:
Granny
Location:
Louisiana
Email:

Date:
03/14/2007
Comments
Tataunte is so right....this just keeps on sucking. It is not any easier than it was on August 28, 2006.

Name:
candace & carol hearn
Location:
spring
Email:
carol@carolhearn.com
Date:
03/14/2007
Comments
Hey Cheri and Jerremy & family, this is candace and carol hearn we just wanted to let ya'll know ya'll are always in our prayers and we are praying for all of yall we love ya'll so much GOD BLESS YOU ALL LOVE ALWAYS CANDACE & CAROL HEARN

I find it very devistating that our fellow classmates are passing the way that they are. What are we not catching on to?ALMOST EVERYONE IS IN DENIAL, AND ALMOST EVERYONE IS THINKING THAT IT COULDN'T POSSIBLY HAPPEN TO THEM. And if I'm wrong, then I am definately right about us not living like we could be next.

Don't you think that Chris Wilmoth, Kaitlyn Vallery, Jennifer Tyndall, Danielle Bennetzen (and the list goes on) thought, too, that it would never happen to them? None of these deaths were necessary. If you haven't realized this yet, the majority of these deaths were drug/alcohol related.

God gives us free will. PLEASE, remember that, FOR YOUR OWN GOOD. Is it really worth it for you to risk EVERYTHING, just for one high or one drunk? OF COURSE NOT!!!!! DUH! YOUR life is too precious. I think it's about time for Oak Ridge to WAKE THE FUCK UP, and start looking out for ourselves, and for eachother. Live for tomorrow's satisfaction.

Please pass this on,(i.e. REPOST IT) if you feel that it could help. I'm sure that you have friends on your list that I don't. You really never know when someone needs to hear something like this.

If I regret anything in my life, it's not posting something like this from the beginning, after Amanda Martin's passing (Jason Kelly's wreck), or even before anyone had to die the way they did. I just pray that we can use these deaths as an example. And I'm positive that our "Oak Ridge Angels" would want this too. Learn from their mistakes.

Do you really think any of these precious angels would want us to "get fucked up" one more time and risk everything, just to help pass the pain of grieving? OPEN YOUR FUCKING EYES. PLEASE be careful out there, Oak Ridge.

Thanks, and God Bless All, Brittany Martin

Name:
Tatante
Location:
Katy, TX
Email:
mcstef1966@sbcglobal.net
Date:
03/13/2007
Comments
So today I was looking through your pictures and thinking that we need to put some more up. I was thinking that I'd just get your most recent ones from your Momma when I realized that I already have them and I won't be getting anymore. Dammit, Kaitlyn, this doesn't stop sucking, Sweet Pea!

Name:
Teresa
Location:
WA
Email:
mommamoe3@myway.com
Date:
03/07/2007
Comments
Such a beautiful girl...doesn't "look" like the typical user. Makes me scared for my own kids & kids a I know who don't fit the "user" mold. My heart goes out to Kaitlyns family. May you find peace knowing you are making other people aware. Thank you for sharing. Kaitlyn: You are alive & helping people to be aware. THANK YOU!

Name:
Carol Barry RN
Location:
The Wooldands
Email:
cbarry@conroeisd.net
Date:
03/07/2007
Comments
Cheri Thank you for talking at College Park, Feb 13th. I have a teen that has been involved in drug use. I would love to visit with you and talk sometime. Thank you for the web -site Carol Barry 281-785-7854(cell)

Name:

Location:

Email:

Date:
02/27/2007
Comments
today i was thinkin bout u. its been 6 months. just wanted to let you know im so very proud of you for being who you were. we were talking about you today at lunch and wondering if we would have turned you in or told on you if it would have made any difference and then Jeremy brought up the fact that you had been turned in before and we all did all we could and it helped for a while, but you and Jeremy were steadfast in your ways and knew that your day is already marked. Live life. What ever. Hope you are doing alright, and who ever posted that about wishin they could have done more and bout lettin her down... you have to know thats not true. even if you would have held her inside everyday and made sure she didnt do anything "dangerous" she was gonna pass. That was her day. much love for all the vallery family. <3 loverboy

Name:

Location:

Email:

Date:
02/23/2007
Comments
baby girl i miss you more and more each day its hard to realize that you are really gone i still cant belieive it i miss you.

Name:
Daniella
Location:
The Woodlands
Email:
danielladeath@yahoo.com
Date:
02/21/2007
Comments
hey girlie girl . i misssssss youuuuu. i remember always chilling up at pc with you. it's so weird to go there and not see your car parked in the exact same spot . asdfhawdhgkhselgh OG's of the PCP so cheri, where can i get those bracelets ILY!

Name:
Ashley Morrison
Location:
oak ridge
Email:
pinkbunny77385@yahoo.com
Date:
02/20/2007
Comments
I didnt know Kaitlyn that well but when i talked to her or saw her she was always happy and haveing a great time. I will always respect her and miss her for the friend and class mate she was. In 8th grade she gave me the courage to ask out a guy that we later called a dork and i guess thats just a fun memory that i have of her.

Name:
Cathy Carsey
Location:
Houston, TX
Email:
clc77469@alltel.net
Date:
02/18/2007
Comments
This is wonderful! There are so many substances today that takes kids away from their "problems". These substances are not a way out, they are killers. I pray that you and Cheri touch someone today and them that we as parents are not the enemies but here for them whenever they need.

Name:
Ashley
Location:
The Woodlands
Email:
htownzfinestlilshawty08@yahoo.com
Date:
02/15/2007
Comments
I LOVE KAITLYN TOO DEATH...I HOPE EVERYBODY IS DOING WELL...&& KEEPING KAITLYN'S PROMISE GOING... I WAS A LITTLE DOWN THE OTHER DAY & I WAS TALKING TO A FRIEND ABOUT IT & SHE WAS TELLING ME SOME THINGS THAT HAVE REALLY OPENED MY EYES...KAITLYN WAS PUT IN THIS WORLD FOR A PURPOSE...GOD HAD A PLAN FOR HER...KAITLYN DID HER PART && NOW SHE'S GONE...IT WAS ALL IN THE PLAN FOR HER TO IMPACT EVERYONE'S LIVES THIS WAY...THAT'S THE WAY I THINK ABOUT IT NOW...KAITLYN WILL ALWAYS AND FOREVER BE APART OF ME!

Name:
Paul
Location:
Gulf Coast
Email:
biblerest@yahoo.com
Date:
02/14/2007
Comments
Kaitlyn I only know you as a dear soul Our battle for the cause will never get old We know you rest squarly in the arms of Love When I work with our youth, I look above Darling family know eternity is now and forever Know many march to etend the light in our land For as we do so, its the love of Christ, his Hand.

Name:

Location:

Email:

Date:
02/11/2007
Comments
No one has a clue how much I think about all the things I might have done to make your life different....I should have argued more and not let you talk me into feeling guilty about the way I knew you should have been....I should have pushed you more in the direction both you and I know you wanted to go....I should have been there no matter what....I am so sorry I let you down....

Name:
Ileana
Location:
spring
Email:
ileana_a_101chick@hotmail.com
Date:
02/11/2007
Comments
hey sweetheart i miss u so much and wanted to wish u a happy late birthday...omg ill never forget that time we had that party at ur house for ur bday and we wanted to all go sleep outside in the moonwalk and then yall started tellin scary stories and i decided to go home...lol...greatest times with u hun...luv u!!!

Name:
Gran
Location:
Lafayette, LA
Email:
faye@fayelandry.com
Date:
02/08/2007
Comments
Hope you and PawPaw had a great day yesterday....thought about you all day....miss you something terrible...even miss the "loud days"....Happy Birthday....love you much!

Name:
Ginger
Location:

Email:

Date:
02/08/2007
Comments
Hi! Cheri! Just a short note to let your family know that I'm thinking about you and lifting you up in prayer. Take care and may God continue to comfort you during these strenuous days!

Name:
rebecca
Location:
california
Email:
reeherman@yahoo.com
Date:
02/07/2007
Comments
hey hun..just had my 17th birthday on the 1st!!i thought of u..knowing ur birthday is tomorrow..i miss u. everytime i drink a starbucks or jamba juice i think of u and the timewe first met in market street. we sat in the grass and just laughed forever and ever. i love u <3 rebecca

Name:
april slusher
Location:
spring, tx
Email:
babypoohbear12@hotmail.com
Date:
02/02/2007
Comments
you were a loving friend.. everyone loved you.. you made everyone happy.. you were special and you will be missed..

Name:
Andrea
Location:
The Woodlands
Email:
andreacm@earthlink.net
Date:
01/30/2007
Comments
I followed a link here from someone's message board posting. I live in the Woodlands. The odd thing is, I just started talking to my 6 year old about this kind of thing last night, when she picked up the bottle of nail polish remover and said it smelled good. She's young but she has friends with older siblings and you just never know what they'll see at a friends house. I am so sorry this happened.

Name:
Linda aka internetjunkie
Location:
Iowa
Email:

Date:
01/28/2007
Comments
How very sad. :( Prayers for your family.

Name:
Cheri (Kaitlyn's Mom)
Location:
Spring TX
Email:
cheri.vallery@gmail.com
Date:
01/27/2007
Comments
Hi everyone -- Just wanted to let ya'll know that The Woodlands College Park High School is putting on a panel discussion on teens and addiction and I have been asked to be part of the panel. It will be Tuesday Feb 13, 2006 at 7:00 pm in the school auditorium. Please join us if you are available -- it is open to Jr High and High School Students as well as parents. Thanks, Cheri

Name:
Jason
Location:
Conroe, TX
Email:

Date:
01/17/2007
Comments

Name:
Carol Sue Smith
Location:
The Woodlands
Email:
CarolSuesOn2@aol.com
Date:
01/15/2007
Comments
My Heart goes out to your family and others that have lost a child.

Name:
~Pv~
Location:
the woodlands
Email:
RoAdTrIp315@aol.com
Date:
01/10/2007
Comments
We miss you kaitlyn. I hope they are treaten you good up there. You will always be in my heart.

Name:
Penny Townson Proctor
Location:
Land O Lakes, FL
Email:
pmproctor72@msn.com
Date:
01/10/2007
Comments
I am so sorry that this happened. She was a beautiful young woman. Just know that all of you guys are in my prayers, and I plan on getting the bracelets for me and my kids. I love you guys.

Name:
Kaitlin Silvio
Location:
Cypress, TX
Email:
sk5257lvr@yahoo.com
Date:
01/08/2007
Comments
I only met Kaitlyn one time, not knowing that the one time i met her...would be the last. Me and Jeremy had been friends from church, and work...the one time i met kaitlyn she told me that my name was beautiful...haha...considering we have the same name...she was so loud and funny...she placed a lasting memory in my mind and i know she will be greatly missed!!

Name:
Carrie Lyons
Location:
Imperial Oaks
Email:

Date:
01/08/2007
Comments
What a tragic loss. I've never heard of this type of high until now. Thanks for passing on the valuable information. You have saved the lives of my two daughters will may one day become pressured into getting high like this. I promise to stay close and ask questions to my precious girls. A million thanks and a million hugs for your cause. Carrie Lyons

Name:
Tatante
Location:
Katy, TX
Email:
mcstef1966@sbcglobal.net
Date:
01/07/2007
Comments
Hey Sweet Pea! Today at Granny & Grampy's it was raining for most of the morning so all I could do was look out the back door. Sweetie, I swear I saw you everywhere I looked. We watched some old videos of Easter and Christmas. Oh Lord, I had some bad hair!! But hearing you and seeing you again was so nice...and so sad, too. I sure do miss you sweetie. And it's not getting better. I love you. With all my heart, Tatante

Name:
liz mouton
Location:
lafayette la
Email:
kescoot@bellsouth.net
Date:
01/05/2007
Comments
Cheri You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. I have a 6 year old named Katelyn,I think of your Kaitlyn so often,I am very sorry for your loss...

Name:
Tatante
Location:
Katy, TX
Email:
mcstef1966@sbcglobal.net
Date:
01/03/2007
Comments
Hey Sweet Pea! I'm sorry I screwed up your page for a while. I was trying to fix the guest board but this one will work just fine. I've been thinking about you a lot and I miss you every day. I love you, Sweet Pea. With all my heart, Tatante

Name:
danielle
Location:
spring,texas
Email:

Comments
just wanted to send the Vallery family christmas wishes.if there is anything my family can do for ya'll, don't hesitate to ask. you know we love ya'll. Kaitlyn, keep shinning like a bright star on your mom,dad, and jeremy ~danni and family

Name:
Maureen
Location:
McComb, Mississippi
Email:
mascrapbookimg@hotmail.com
Comments
My dear friend lost her brother just over 2 years ago in a similar situation. I know how hard it must be for Kailyn's family and you all are in my prayers. People, young and old, just do not know or understand the extreme dangers of huffing. We do a silent auction in memory of Matt and benefiting the NIPC and I take the opportunity to tell as many parents as I can about the dangers. Everyone needs to go to www.inhalents.org and learn all they can so that Matt & Kaitlyn's deaths may not be in vain. We all need to be aware of the dangers of inhalents to be able to prevent it. I would be glad to share any information that I have with anyone, please contact me.

Name:
Kerry
Location:
Pozzi
Email:
kpozzi@msn.com
Comments
I hit your link through 2peas and it brought tears to my eyes. I'm so sad for the loss of your beloved niece and I hope that this site will bring awareness to at least one person so that a life can be spared. God Bless You. Kerry

Name:
april
Location:
tyler, texas
Email:

Comments
Kaitlyn, I see your mom and your aunt posting on TwoPeas about how much they miss you and it kills me. I wish I knew what to say to them. I'm moving home to Houston soon and your mom has promised to meet up for lunch. Please give me some words to bring her even the tiniest amount of comfort. She loves you so much and misses you terribly. I was in town this week looking for a new house and one of the ones I looked at had an oRaNgE bedroom, just like your mom describes yours. It made me giggle and then I got sad because I never got to meet you. You touched so many lives, girlfriend, from here and from heaven. love-april

Name:
Gran
Location:
Lafayette
Email:

Comments
Hey Kid....I had to keep your Promise this week....and you know what...it is harder to do than I thought, especially when it involves your friends...I hope they are still my friends after the "ass chewing" I gave them...but saving a life is much more important...thanks for giving me the strength to do it....Love you more every day.

Name:
Granny
Location:
Lafayette
Email:

Comments
Christmas was quiet without you...I know you enjoyed the cold....I didn't. Mom gave us a beautiful butterfly windchime...I am keeping it in the dining room...breeze by whenever you can...Grampy is home most of the day and would love to hear from you...Thanks for the help last Thursday...your little "copy" comment made my life a whole lot easier. Love ya

Name:
Kalee
Location:
Spring
Email:
ilovulikafatboylovscake@hotmail.com
Comments
I new Kaitlyn a long time ago, and I would never think that out of everyone she would end up like this. She was always nice to me, when I would go over to my cousins house. (Taylor Moss) When I found I was very sad, she was very sweet. Be happy that she is gone because we know she is in a better place. Your family is in my prayers.

Name:
crystal umholtz
Location:
valrico florida
Email:
sweetteddy1989@yahoo.com
Comments
im vanessa umholtz' daughter and we cried when we watched this slid show! my mom could never fathom the thought of losing me, i am 17, me and kaitlyn were only 1year apart. im so sorry and my hart goes out to you and your family! love always, crystal

Name:
Leina(Jeff's daughter)
Location:
Alexandria, LA
Email:
asianscrewball@yahoo.com
Comments
She was my cousin and i love her to the fullest and always will. Thank you for sending the braclets. The whole family is wearing them. I even have my friends wearing them also. i make sure i always have it. I'm not that big on jewlery but i make sure i have the braclet on. i remember the last yall came to Louisiana and we were in my room and was all wow your room has changed alot and i said really? She said yea i remember you having a lot of barbie dolls. I laughed because i didn't remember and i thought did i really have barbie dolls because i wasn't that much of a girlie girl, i probably was and didn't want to admit it at the time. Then uncle john came to visit and we were all eating at Tunk's resurant and he had a tomato on his plate and i was all eww i don't like tomatoes and he said really my daughter eats them like an apple and in my mind i was thinking wow thats pretty awesome that someone can eat a tomato like that. Thank you again for the braclets and we'll keep Kaitlyn in our prayers. (^.^)

Name:
Kala Guidry
Location:
Pineville, Louisiana
Email:
rkguidry@bellsouth.net
Comments
Hi Cheri, John, and Jeremy, We got your beautiful Christmas card and the bracelets. I have been wanting to write and tell you how sorry I am for your loss for so long. You are all in my thoughts constantly. What can one say to ease the pain... I tried to think what words of consolation could help and realized there probably aren't any... Just being there for yall, praying for yall and spreading the word of Kaitlyns Promise are things Randy and I can do to help. I just want you to know that we LOVE ALL OF YOU SO VERY MUCH. I feel so blessed to be apart of your family. I am spreading the word of Kaitlyns Promise to everyone I can think of - Randy, Randon and I wear the bracelets all the time. We will miss seeing yall at Christmas but hope we can get together soon. Please know you are in our thoughts and prayers. I had not seen Kaitlyn for quite a few months before her passing-- what I remember more than anything about her was her beautiful smile and laugh. The pictures on the site of her are beautiful.. she had grown up so fast! Randy and I have some pictures of a BBQ at Mrs. Guidrys of all of us. As soon as I can find them, I will send them to you. We hope to see you all soon. Jeremey, I see that you have gotten so much taller now... is there a way I can talk you into coming over and beating up Randy? Vaughn comes over and roughs him up every now and then, but is too easy on him! Please tell everyone hello at Christmas. Randy, Randon, Kylie and I are doing fine. May this Christmas be one of peace for you... We love you and Merry Christmas. Love, The Guidrys.

Name:
Lilly
Location:
Woodlands
Email:
lillie-nicole@mugglenet.com
Comments
I only met Kaitlyn once, but she was very nice and very sweet.

Name:
Andrew Escalante
Location:
Houston, TX
Email:
vigilante-x@sbcglobal.net
Comments
My mother works with Mrs. Vallery and this is how i got to know Kaitlyn and Jeremy. I've been to their house and got to talk and hang out with them. i was glad to see these two kids because they were nice and cool. Jeremy and i used to work with perfect commerce and we talked a lot when we worked, he told me good things about his sister and family. kaitlyn was amazing person to talk to, she also worked at perfect commerce sometimes. She was sweet and funny. Mrs. Vallery is an awesome mom! So is Mr. Vallery because he can cook crawfish!!! well see you later kaitlyn, my family and i will always remember you.

Name:
Uncle Tim
Location:
Email:
Comments
Just wanted to drop in and say you are surely missed. Sarah talks about you all the time. We will be going through the store and Sarah will want to get a balloon so we can send it to you. So we write messages on it and we go outside and let them go. You may not be there physically at Christmas but we know your there with us. We miss you kid. Love Uncle Tim

Name:
Valorie Zimmerman
Location:
Black Diamond, Washington
Email:
valorie.zimmerman@gmail.c
Comments
What a beautiful tribute you have created for your daughter. I'm a myspace friend of Jeremy, and knew that he had lost his beloved sister, but didn't know the whole story. What a tragedy. I lost my favorite aunt the night she took "that last drink" forgetting that she'd taken a sleeping pill. I know that pain of that, but can't imagine what it would be like to lose a child, or a sister. {{{{{{{{{{{{{{{hugs}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}

Name: Lori Smith
Location: Idaho Falls, Id
Email: loribobsmith@hotmail.com
Comments
Wow I just saw a comment on Melody Ross's blog that brought me here to this site. Words can not even begin to express my sorrow for your family. I lost my 3 year old son Jaxon to childhood cancer and I know the loss that you all feel. It really stinks. I think what you guys are doing is wonderful. I think Kaitlyn is smiling down on you. We must do whatever we can to keep our children's memories alive. I am so sorry that you have to go thru this. I feel the pain you feel with the loss of your beautiful Kaitlyn. Our children are our greatest blessing, our greatest joy and in their passing is is our greatest sorrow. God bless you and your family. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

Name: Rae
Location: Spring, TX
Email: CrazieBlueMunkie@hotmail.com
Comments
Kaitlyn, you loser, i want you back. Im so sorry i didnt hang out with you that one last time. I miss you like none other. lol everytime i listen to "drama queen" i think about us dancing in your room. To me, youll never be gone, cause i miss you too damn much!

Name: Jennifer
Location: Midwest
Email:
Comments
What a tragic loss....I am so sorry that this happened. I am also grateful that you shared Kaitlyn's story in order to help other families avoid having to suffer through the same situation. I had no idea this was going on, and that it was so prevalent. Thank you again.

Name: von vallery
Location: pineville
Email: lcswv@aol.com
Comments
Missing you today kid,really missed you at Thanksgiving. I know you are in a better place but I would like you to still be here with us. Love Uncle Von

Name: Granny
Location: Lafayette
Email: faylan@bellsouth.net
Comments
I know you are having a good laugh watching me "peddle" your orange bracelets....but I am loving it...I actually stop people and tell them about you...and wear the braclet or sometimes bracelets every day....when I have four or five on each arm I look kinda like an old fluzzie...but it is for a great cause....so laugh it up....I love you....Gran!

Name: kelly
Location: huffman
Email: lovebug_0766@yahoo.com
Comments
i would like to tell you how sorry i am. a gentle man at a subway gave me a braclet and told me to spread the word. my ex use to huff antifreeze out of his ac unit. im a paramedic and i know how dangeious it is. i would like to tell you im so sorry but i dont think we should be sorry i think you sho8uld remember her for what a great daughter and friend she was.

Name: *Star[RR]*
Location: home
Email: livndien4christ9@yahoo.com
Comments
KK so, i know people are still using and its really starting to piss me off... im sorry but if your gonna ruin your own life... fine... thats your choice, but guess what, if you die... its more than just your life.. it affects your parents, your grand parents, your aunts, uncles, cousins, nieces, nephews, brothers, sisters, school mates, friends, and people who barely knew you... so guess what... YOUR NOT JUST AFFECTING YOUR OWN LIFE... well yea, I am now writing a book, and if anyone would like to be a part of it, you can check my blog on my myspace,www.myspace.com/effena, and ill be more than happy to give you more information...

Name: Tatante
Location: Katy, TX
Email: mcstef1966@sbcglobal.net
Comments
Happy Thanksgiving, Sweet Pea. It won't be the same without you. I know you're up there having a good time with the rest of the family but you are so missed here. I love you, Kaitlyn.

Name: Stacye
Location:
Email: nursestacye@msn.com
Comments
Kaitlyn, you always had a beautiful smile. I was your YMCA Counsler at Ford Elementary. When you came from La. I did my best to make you fit in. Then I saw you at CVS about 3 years ago. I had a long talk with you about drugs and how much you could mean to this world with out them and I also had a lond talk with you about your relationship with your mother. I prayed that I got through your thick and beautiful head when I left. All I could do was say Lord please help you. There was always something about you that I loved, I don't know if it was your eyes, your longing to do better or your energy, but what ever it was I never for got you. I will remember you the way you were and I am very heavy hearted about your death. I will pray to ask the Lord to give you my love. I hope that something I said to you made a difference somehow.

Name: megan bridgeman
Location: woodlands tx
Email: meganbridgeman@hotmail.com
Comments
i know that having somwone you no or love very much is gone i have the same thing my grandmother is dead but yet i was only about 4 years old and i only saw her once untill her sudden death.i no how it fels to have some one gone she died about 5 years ago in ohio some of you might no my mom like kaitlyns mom from splitrock i no that you miss kaitlyn alot and loved her so much and probably like her mom will never feel the same sincerly megan bridgeman

Name: Lauryn Altena
Location:
Email:
Comments
toching

Name: Susan Wells-Stevenson
Location: The Woodlands, Texas
Email: ohsnowbird@hotmail.com
Comments
Cheri, We met way back from the "Days at Splitrock". You were there for me and even opened up your home to me at a time when my girls and I needed. Now here I am saying I am there for you any time, DON'T YOU FORGET THAT! The love and closeness your family shared was great. When I saw you at the mall and you told me what happened, my heart cryed. I am so very sorry for your loss. I know how it feels to love and have friendship with a daughter. You and Kaitlyn looked so much alike. I am so very sorry for what happened, and for the loss you and your husband and son feel. Losing my mom 5 years ago was hard, but I have always been told it is harder for a parent to lose their child. You had an incredible amount of love for your family. You are a great Mom and Kaitlyn will always be with you. I can not even imagine how you feel. But you made me realize what goes on out there, even at College Park Hih School, somewhere my girls will soon go. I will share this story and the bracelets with Sarah and Megan, and all their friends. I share my sadness with you Cheri, and am here for you anytime you need. Love, Susan (ex-Hussey)

Name: Kayla Sargent & Megan Mokry
Location: Woodlands TX
Email: kaylaisdaboss@yahoo.com
Comments
hey.. we miss kaitlyn alot, i come to this website almost everyday and watch the slide show that was viewed at her funeral.. kaitlyns promise has changed alot of people from what i heard and seen. we love you and kaitlyn... <3333333333333333333333

Name: amanda
Location: the woodlands
Email: xxmandi44xx@yahoo.com
Comments
miss you sweety you were a good friend and you dont even know how much you helped me

Name: Momma Jones
Location: The woodlands
Email: bbwbuty2003@yahoo.com
Comments
I am continuing to stuggle everyday to keep my son off drugs..he recently has done them again..JOSH EWELLYN gave him weed to smoke and hid him at his house for 3 days..i had him picked up after several of his friends told me where he was..and to them i am greatful..i am trying to cope and be strong for him..i will fight for his life even if he has given up the will to fight for himself..ALL OF YOU PC KIDS..watch out for each other and keep kaitlyns promise..let parents know if a freind is using..its better to save them now than attend thier funeral later...when will this all end?..how many more of you have to die?..do not let Kaitlyns death be in vain..please

Name: Alan Rossetti
Location: The Woodlands, TX
Email: Alan Rossetti
Comments
When my friend first gave me the bracelet my only thought was that it was a sweet gesture on someone's part to honor Kaitlyn's life. This morning, I happend to notice it on my wrist and got curious so I looked at the website. I was both shocked and touched and came to realize how unaware I am about what some of the kids are doing today. I have know idea what dusting, huffing or whipits are. Talk about being out of touch. My child is grown and thankfully clean. I intend to learn more about it though so that I can recognize the signs if I see it in my friend's children. I will honor Kaitlyn's promise. God Bless. Alan

Name: ALEX GREENE
Location: VILLE PLATTE,LOUISIANA
Email:
Comments
I AM TRULY SORRY TO HEAR THAT SHE DIED BUT SHE WILL INSPIRE A LOT OF PEOPLE NOT TO DO DRUGS. IF SHE HAD SURVIVED, SHE WOULD HAVE TOLD MANY PEOPLE NOT TO USE DRUGS, THAT THE SAME THING HAD HAPPENED TO HER AND THAT SHE WOULD NOT HAVE DONE IT AGAIN. AGAIN I AM TRULY SORRY THAT SHE PASSED, BUT SHE IS NOW IN A BETTER PLACE HEAVEN. THE STORY THAT WAS WRITTEN ABOUT HER INSPIRED ME TO NEVER USE DRUGS. I HOPE THAT SHE STAYS IN YOUR HEARTS.

Name: Hal Heaton
Location: Lafayette, La.
Email: coolpoppa@cox.net
Comments
I work with Ms. Faye and I am so sorry for your loss. This web site is awesome. You all are doing a great job here and I hope that the fire that burns within each one of you keeps this web site going on forever. I have three grown children and one brand new grandson and you can believe me I will spread this around to them and their friends. You all have planted a seed here and now you are going to impact so many lives some you will know about and some you won't know. May god's blessing shower you with the widsom and knowledge to say the right things to reach out and help people that need help. Take care John 3:16

Name: Krista
Location: Ontario
Email: klriedel@hotmail.com
Comments
Kaitlyn was a very beautiful girl! I am working my way towards my diploma to be an Addictions Counselor and there have been some hard times along this path, but after hearing Kaitlyn's story it gives me another boost to get my diploma so that I can help others like Kaitlyn before it is too late. I am terribly sorry for your loss!

Name: Angela (Cleveland)Jacks
Location: Lafayette, LA
Email: jacksac3@yahoo.com
Comments
Cheri and Stef - Harold and Faye, Our thoughts and prayers are with you each and every day. Just wanted you to know that I will be spreading the word of Kaitlyn's death at the kids' school. I am chairman of a class that is taught by trained volunteers called Project Charlie. Charlie stands for CHemical Abuse Recognition Lies In Education. I am going to give all of the volunteers at our meeting on Wednesday a copy of Faye's beautiful letter to the editor and recommend that they visit Kaitlyn's Promise. I am going to make sure that her death will not be in vain and perhaps through the testimony of your web site, another's life may be saved. God Bless You all and know that mom, dad, and Uncle Russell think of you often as well! Love you all, Angela

Name: april
Location: tyler, texas
Email:
Comments
Kaitlyn...your Mom and Aunt Stef posted today on TwoPeas that the bracelets for Kaitlyn's Promise were ready so I zipped over and bought a few. I have a niece named Katelyn. She's 14 and I cant handle the idea of losing her the way your mom and tatante lost you. I'm going to give her a bracelet and beg her to call me anytime she even thinks about giving in to the pressures you kids face these days. I'm moving home to Houston soon, and if it means bringing her with me to bring you flowers to drive home the point to her, I'll do it. I know you're a busy angel, Kaitlyn, but if you could watch over my Katelyn when you have time, I'd really appreciate it. Love, April

Name: Ed Mooney
Location: Tyler
Email: ermooney@cox.net
Comments
Losing a loved one hurts forever. I lost my wife to cancer even though she never smoked or did anything that would encourage cancer. Her death also didn't make any sense. Two children still at home and a husband who struggles daily without her. I have asked myself a lot of questions in the last 5 years. My answer is to live life so that I leave people behind that I have touched and will love me and will also miss me forever but know that I'm ok being with the Lord. May God be with you in your lose and your Promise.

Name: Holly
Location: The Woodlands, TX
Email:
Comments
I'm so sorry for your loss! May you be comforted in this time of need!

Name: von vallery
Location: pineville
Email: lcswv@aol.com
Comments
Hey Kaitlyn I am missing you today. Had a hard day at work dealing with a lot of people with the disease. I need all the strenth you can send me. Love Uncle Von

Name: Sanja
Location: Houston
Email: thats_ok_im_good@yahoo.com
Comments
This has made me think about how important it is to watch all the stupid stuff my friends do. I know that when i where my Kaitlyns Promise wrist band i make sure to show everyone and let them know the story. And everytime i tell someone, there shocked. And i think it makes a difference in there own life. It makes me proud that by telling people about Kaitlyns Promise makes a difference.

Name: brittany
Location: texas
Email: gorgeous_brittany_09@yahoo.com
Comments
thats very sad..i dont know anyone that does that but i hope her family knows im praying for her and i wear the orange bracelet that say kaitlyn's promise every day

Name: Alayne
Location: Versailles, Ky
Email: alayne@myctmh.com
Comments
Our prayers are with your family. Watching the slide show made me cry for your loss but rejoice in the joy you had with her. God Bless you and keep looking upward. In Christ, Always, Alayne

Name: Rae
Location: Spring Tx
Email: craizebluemunkie@hotmail.com
Comments
Cheri, i am so very sorry i havent been over in a while. Ive been so scared to even think about her. I miss her so so much. I love you and Jon just like you were my parents.

Name: DEBBI LORD
Location: STAMFORD,CT
Email: debfirelady@hotmail.com
Comments
i just read this story,how sad.she passed 4 days after my dad. i hope alot of people read of everyones thoughts,and get a better understanding,and help someone before its too late!

Name: Vicki Cates
Location: Lafayette, LA
Email: vickicates@cox.net
Comments
I just finished reading a letter Kaitlyn's granmother sent to the editor of our newspaper. It was in response to the expulsion of several students at one of our middle schools for having drugs on campus, some of them honor students. This really hits home with me - I have 2 daughters, 17 and 15. We were just in the Woodlands last weekend for a band competition and saw the band from Kaitlyn's high school perform. There's so many great things for our kids to get involved in and we as parents need to take the time to be involved with them and let them know the door is always open to listen. My heart breaks for your loss and my thoughts and prayers are with you all of you that loved Kaitlyn. My thanks to Mrs. Landry for sharing her story with the people of Lafayette. This is something we all need to be aware of.

Name: Kirk & Ronda Domingue
Location: Lafayette Louisiana
Email: Rondmom@cox.net
Comments
We just found out about Kaitlyn and so sorry for your loss.Cheri and Stef we love and miss you both.You are both in our prayers.Take Care Ronda

Name: Thomasena De La Rosa
Location: Forney, TX
Email: thomasena.delarosa@forneyisd.net
Comments
It was hard for me to read the email I received with the link to this site when I received it. I was instantly saddened and the tears just rolled down my face. I work for Forney ISD and am the secretary to our school resource officers and was not even aware of something like this. You hear about the dangers of all the drugs, but this is something new to me (even as young as I am -21). The reason it scares me so much is because I have a daughter (still an infant) and it is so hard to think that after all you do to protect them, there are just things that you can't help because you simply don't know. She may still be small but these are things she will face when she gets older and I am so thankful for the information out there. I have forwarded this email and website to all my friends, coworkers, and anyone who has children. Kaitlyn's death will not be in vain and hopefully it will spare the lives of many others. Thank you so much for this helpful website and touching story. May God bless you and your family. You all are in my prayers.

Name: Andrea James
Location: Salem Oregon
Email: daionara@yahoo.com
Comments
My heart goes out to Kaitlyn's friends and family. When a beautiful life full of promise is cut short, it's always hard to understand. Losing a child to drugs is even more difficult. My prayers are with you. My loved ones in heaven will watch over your beautiful girl.

Name: Granny
Location: Lafayette
Email:
Comments
I miss you much.....

Name:
Lauren Lantrip
Location:
Spring
Email:
llantrip@houston.rr.com

Comments:
Hey i am so very sorry about Kaitlyn today as i was in my Teen Leadership class,my teacher was teaching us a leason on why not to do drugs.Because that is what teenagers get themselves into.Today i did a little project on Kaitlyn because i thought people need to know what is happening,and how we need it to stop.Kaitlyn is a very pretty girl and deservied to live a much longer life.And because of her and many other teenagers that have died of drugs more and more people learn not to do drugs.In one of the pictures i saw that she went to York junior high thats were i go to know.Again im sorry about what happend to her and best wishes to all! sincerly, Lauren Lantrip

Name:
Terrie Whiteman
Location:
Harleysville,Pa
Email:
reefun@verizon.net
Comments
Dear Cheri, I am so sorry for the passing of Kaitlyn, this certainly sends a message, but she is an angel now and in heaven with all of our angels. Love,Terrie (Joey's Mom)

Name:
Kris Moore
Location:
Colchester, CT
Email:
ctkris@sbcglobal.net
Comments
I am so very sorry for your loss. This website has made many parents, myself being one of them, aware of what they didn't know kids were doing. Kaitlyn's website will save many kids!!! God Bless and many prayers for you and your family.

Name:
Jeremy *Star[RR]*
Location:
TWCP
Email:
livndien4christ9@yahoo.com
Comments
annette, i can also relate to you. only im not a teacher... but i know 7 girls who are preganant/have kids this school year. I also know of people who were doing drugs, but now are getting help. One thing i've heard my mom discussing is the idea that when my sister's friends were getting caught, why didnt they tell my mom. why didnt they let the kid's friend's parents know that their kid was caught doing whatever drugs, warning them to check their own kids. </> Also if you know of students doing things, even if rumored, investigate it, once you hear someone talkin about it it almost becomes your responsibility to let someone who can help know or go straight to their parents, because i know there were teachers who heard me and my sister talking, i mean they've talked to be about after the fact, and yea, it may make em upset, it will probably get them in trouble but they need it... </> well good luck and thanks for showing your support </> - Big Bro aka *Star[RR]*

Name:
Annette
Location:
Willowick, Ohio
Email:
annette91361@yahoo.com
Comments
My thoughts and prayers are with you and Kaitlyn's family. I work at a local highschool and just the thought of knowing how many teenagers let alone preteens find doing any kind of drug is exciting. They talk about it as if no one else but them are around. I work with emotionally distrubed children some do have serious issues but it is not them that I hear so much from. It is the typical students. The jocks, the cheerleaders and the students you would never think of doing any such thing. There have been a couple suicides but I have yet to hear anyone doing inhalants. I know it is there but no one talks about that. Then with the drugs comes sex. There were 6 pregnant teens last year. The youngest was 14. Three years ago a 12 year old had a baby. It would be so much helpful if friends would tell their friends parents what is going on. But unfortunately their friends are probably doing it too and are afraid then that their parents would also find out. This generation has gone down hill. Children don't have respect for their parents let alone themselves. And we are responsible for their behavior.

Name:
Cheryl Johnson
Location:
Houston
Email:

Comments
Even though I never met Kaitlyn or her family, I feel as if I knew her mom from the scrapbooking website we both frequent. I was so sad to hear of her passing, until this was published I didn't even know how she died. I can't imagine the pain the family must be going through still today, my thought and prayers have been with them since the announcement of her death. God bless you all.

Name:
Lori Foster
Location:
The Woodlands
Email:
funjewelry@houston.rr.com
Comments
I am in awe of the strength that it took Kaitlyn's family to post this to the world. Kaitlyn's death brought "what could happen" to "what did happen" here in The Woodlands. Sometimes our teenagers think they are invincible, that it will never happen to them. Thank-you for using Kaitlyn's terrible death as a way for all of us to learn from it as parents and children. It must be so very difficult for you to share what happened, but it makes all of us look, read, share, and talk about it. Hopefully, Kaitlyn's story will save others' lives. Thank-you and God bless you family! Lori

Name:
Jeremy effen Star[RR]
Location:
home
Email:
livndien4christ9@yahoo.com
Comments
laura, i knew david, i also knew that he promised me he'd never do it again... i also knew he said he'd call... personally recieving phone calls at night from people telling me that my friends, the ones who promised, are out again. I completely understand how you feel and about how people are taking this as a joke. As long as i physically can i will help to fix the retard school system we have here and possibly all over the nation. It has become my goal in life to not let anyone else's siblings go through this bull ****. People. You have to get it through your f*****g heads, DEATH isnt a f*****g joke! I promise that the next time i hear of someone else going back out it isnt going to be pretty, im not letting anyone get away with it, and im not gonna let my school and as many as i can help, turn their heads. This is messed up and im fed up with it. Any one else?!

Name:
Laura
Location:
Woodlands
Email:

Comments
Well...David V fell off of the wagon again and all of his friends are helping him by protecting him. Thank you to the ones are giving out Xanex at school and thanks to the teachers and bus drivers that look the other way. He was close to dying this week and it is a joke and a game to you all.

Name:
jordan stuker
Location:
the woodlands
Email:
monkeegrl042yahoo.com
Comments
my name is jordan i was a friend of kaitlyn. its been a little over a month since she passed. i miss her so much. all of the pc kids made a promise to not do drugs ever again, but just recently a few of them did, they were cought.i was so mad and i dont understand why they did it, i never will,and i know that they care and stuff but i just dont get why they all promised not to do it but they did anyways.kaitlyn was such a badass, i loved hanging out with her and i think about her everyday and i think about what her family is having to got hruogh and i just want them to know that i pray for all of them<333

Name: Amanda Welch
Location: Madisonville, Texas
Email: amandawelch05@yahoo.com
Comments
So sorry to hear about your daugther if there is anything i can do to him let me know... my thoughts and prayers are with you... Amanda

Name: Amanda Harberson
Location: oak ridge
Email: xxmandi44xx@yahoo.com
Comments
kaitlyn helped me so much im me recovery and ive been sober for almost a year now i wish there is something i could have done to help he like she helped me maybe if i would have kept in touch more or asked her to go to more meetings with me i miss her very much and i deffinatly wont ever be doing drugs again

Name: Jasmine LeDoux
Location: Spring, TX (Oak Ridge)
Email: g3t_on_my_l3v3l@yahoo.com
Comments
Kaitlyn I FREAKIN' LOVE YOU AND MISS YOU VERY MUCH!! You were my dawg for real gurl, always smilin'! lol I hope you're watching over everyone as you reside in Heaven. I will always remember you, you will NEVER be forgotten. I think this site is a true blessing for the entire world to see and to prevent it from happening to someone else. Jasmine L.

Name: susan
Location: oak ridge
Email: susanhoppe1030@hotmail.com
Comments
i really do appreciate this site being made. i have known Kaitlyn since we were in the 5th grade. i love her to death and i still do. i wish that would have never happened to her and i wish that some one would have told so that she could have been helped. i understand now what drugs will do to you. i love you Kaitlyn and i miss you and every morning when i wake up i see you and when i go to bed i kiss your picture good night. i love you and ill never forget you. i just wish that i could have told you how much i cared about you and your well being before you passed away. i love you. Susan

Name: Marion Horn
Location:
Email: mhorn116@ev1.net
Comments
I just found out last night Oct. 6 that Kaitlyn had passed away. I cannot say that I had the privlege of ever meeting or knowing her. However, I did know Jeremy from Lifeteen and from just his presence at boy scouts. I remember I bought a Christmas wreath from him and he was so happy. He was always so kind and gracious and always said hello to me when we passed at church. I am sorry for not knowing this earlier and I cannot imagine the pain that Cheri and Jon and Jeremy must endure. But I do know that this website will never make Kaitlyn forgotten or invisible. She will be remembered and thought of often. My heart and prayers and daily hope go out to you and yours. I rememeber her face from St. Anthony's and although God has called her to Him, she shall not be forgotten. May God's grace and love HOLD you the rest of your lives and may you always know, God did not necessarily give Kaitlyn to you, but rather you to her. She is who she was because of all you gave her. This is a beautiful tribute to a beautiful soul!!! May she rest forever in His care and you also. Many prayers and thoughts,-- I am so very sorry especially to you Jeremy!!, Marion Horn -- Lifeteen Core Member 2003-2005

Name: bkk
Location: vallerys residence
Email: shakewhaugot69@yahoo.com
Comments
kaitlyn.. words cant explan how i feel right now but i miss you soooooo fuckin much shit we go way bak i love you n you will always be together i love you asshole!!!

Name: jew
Location: spring,texas
Email: whitejew62@yahoo.com
Comments
after reading the article i actrully felt something && i want to tell people about this i even submitted the ribbon on my myspace<3 bets of luck-jew

Name: Jeremy StarRR
Location: the hoodlands
Email: livndien4christ9@yahoo.com
Comments
wow, Daniella, thats amazing... she was so proud of that rehab, and me and her have some amazing memories there... all i know is she is, and i am, and plenty of people are so very proud that you took the first step... the right step, all you have to do is hold up your end of the bargin and keep going through it... its very tough but ya know... in the end its all worth it... to those of you who are still out there just reading these or just hearing about it, commenting and forgetting it, your clearly not gettin the message... if you are willing to type on here your commiting to helping the cause... we dont need anyone else to go through this because it just flat out sucks... so just a word of advice. Actions speak MUCH louder than words, and i cant tell you how many times that has been proven to me in my life. Kait -- i miss you... you know it... but you better be havin a good time up there... love you so effn much baby sis!!! muah!

Name: Daniella
Location: the woodlands
Email: myspace.com/daniellathegreat
Comments
A letter to Kaitlyn the Tuesday After she passed away:
Dear Kaitlyn, We all skipped school today, Kaitlyn. We couldn't and can't stand you not being right there with us. You changed our lives for the better in every possible way and you will be missed forever. We will never forget you, Kaitlyn. You will never leave my heart. You taught me so much, basically to enjoy life when the going gets tough. You taught me to hold my head high when no one was there for me. You were my friend. I will still talk to you about my problems all the time. You made me realize that no matter what situation you're in, there's always time for a good laugh. I just want you to know that your birth, your life, and your death have changed lives. Everyone you've met, everyone you've talked to had been touched by you and the laughter every second of your life brought. Basically, you're fucking amazing. I wanted to tell you that I loved you but I just didn't have the chance. I wish I could've known you better. I think we all feel that way. You were an amazing person and I've cried non-stop just thinking about how easy and fast someone so special to you can by brutally taken away. Everyone will come to your funeral, not to mourn, but to celebrate what a great person you were and always will be. I love you, Kaitlyn, I always will, and no one will ever forget you.
Kaitlyn's death has affected my life greatly. She made me realize that I had a problem and needed to go into rehab. I spent 25 days in an inpatient treatment facility. When you graduate from this place you put your hand in paint, press it onto the wall, put your name, and your sobriety date. One day when i was waiting for everyone to get ready so we could go to breakfast, I turned and saw her hand on the wall. "Kaitlyn V. 2004" . It was like a sign that what I was doing was clearly wrong and that if I graduate and put my hand on the wall, stayed sober for a year, and then relapsed, I would end up exactly like her. That's how Kaitlyn changed my life.

Name: Debbie
Location: Arkansas
Email: ricemom429@aol.com
Comments
My sincere sympathy to the family. The death of a child can be devastating to a family. But I believe that you are doing something positive in Kaitlyn's honor with this website. Her story touches many and if this can change the life of only 1 person, it is worth it, but I believe that it will change the lives of many. God bless you all.

Name: Shellie Nauling
Location: Midway Texas
Email: shelldrv@aol.com
Comments
Kaithlyns' story has really touch my life, because I was addictied to drugs about 4 years ago and now I know that I really did the right thing by getting drugs out of my life. I will be praying for you'll and I think this is a great thing you'll are doing.

Name: laura
Location: texas
Email: laurabelle22002@yahoo.com
Comments
The grief of losing a child is overwhelming. I commend you for this site. Hopefully children and parents will see this site and realize there is somethings out there that kids just want to do once, then move on. Unfortunately, sometimes God has other plans, my prayer for you is that this helps other parents of teens realize it can happen to just about anyone. God Bless you for this site. Laura

Name: Fuleasha Shields
Location: Lafayette, LA
Email: ms_caramel4u@yahoo.com
Comments
Thank you for this website, this is a great start of educating parents on the issues of dusting. I am a mother of 3 kids between the ages of 11 12, & 14 and I never knew anything like this existed. So I will assure you Kaitlyn's Promise will not be in vain. I will keep you in my prayers and God bless Kaityln's family.

Name: Gran
Location: Lafayette
Email:
Comments
I heard Vince Gill on Sunday night...and the words to this song just stuck with me.... "I know your life on earth was troubled; and only you could know the paid. You weren't afraid to face the devil; you were no stranger to the rain....Oh, how we cried the day you left us. We gathered round your grave to grieve; I wish I could see the angels faces when they hear your sweet voice sing...Go rest high on that mountain...your work on earth is done....Go to heaven a shoutin' love for the Father and the Son" I know you are happy and safe and are keeping others happy and safe....Love Ya!

Name: Mary Lou Kaczorowski
Location: The Woodlands, Texas
Email:
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My prayers are with Kaitlyn and all of her family. Sincerely, Mary Lou

Name: Mary Lou Kaczorowski
Location: The Woodlands, Texas
Email:
Comments
My prayers are with Kaitlyn and all of her family. Sincerely, Mary Lou

Name: Kristin Bowen
Location: Oak Ridge
Email: Kristin.Bowen@twrcc.com
Comments
My daughter was friends with Kaitlyn some years ago. I had the pleasure of meeting her when she came over after school. Maggie thought Kaitlyn was so sweet and liked her very much. She did go to the funeral. She was very sad. We talked of Kaitlyns trials with huffing and how maggie thought she had kicked it. My daughter is very aware now of what can happen. Thanks you for having this website.

Name: Christi
Location: The Woodlands
Email: christischmitz@yahoo.com
Comments
That is such a sad, horrible story. I am so sorry to hear about your loss. Hopefully this website will save a young persons life though.

Name: Aaron Hobbs
Location: Conroe/Woodlands
Email: funkatasticdude@hotmail.com
Comments
Hi, i havent met Kaitlyn but when i first saw/heard about that....and i go looked throught this website. I truly feel bad for it, she really beautiful young lady. It had touched my heart and i will pray for your family to go well...sorry for your loss... I will pass it through my friends.. God Bless your family...

Name: Jessica
Location: Pittsburgh, pa
Email: lpjcf@yahoo.com
Comments
I never Met or knew Kaitlyn, What a beautiful young woman. I also never heard of Dusting ? I know now and I will be passing this website on to my son when the time comes, hes 10. BUt I hope this helps him realize the seriousness of Dusting. Thank you for starting this website and May God Bless you and your family.

Name: Lyndie
Location: Marco Island Florida
Email: Lyndiesue57@aol.com
Comments
((((Cheri)))) I am so very sorry for the tragic loss of your beautiful daughter. I also lost a child, my son Joey in an auto accident. Life is not understood by those that have not traveled this journey. I am sending much love and comforting hugs to you and your family Lyndie Joey and Kaitlyn heavenly buddies

Name: Susan Milam
Location: Florida
Email: clintmsmom@yahoo.com
Comments
Dear Kaitlyn, I'm so sorry sweetheart. I hope your friends and their friends and their friends all listen to your message and make the promise not to mess around with things that can kill them. You are such a beautiful young lady and I know your family has to be completely broken hearted. Please send them lots of angel kisses and hugs. Love, Susan Clint's Forever Mom

Name: Lyn Hobart
Location: Bridgewater, NJ
Email: hobreh1@optonline.net
Comments
I'm the mom of Keith Liles and I'm a member of GP and I had to see your site. It is wonderful and your precious angel is beautiful. The thought behind the site is terrific. I can't take away your pain, but I want you to know how sorry I am and how I DO understand your loss. Hugs and Prayers to you.

Name: Terrie Whiteman
Location: Harleysville,Pa
Email: reefun@verizon.net
Comments
Dear Cheri and Family, I am so sorry for your family and for the beautiful life that could have been for Kaitlyn. I'll never understand, the younger group of children today. May she rest in peace, her work will be read and maybe even one person will profit from her site. Love,Terrie(Joey's Mom) A/A, in 2002(GP)

Name: Violet Quebedeaux
Location: Carencro, Louisiana
Email: babygurl70200@aol.com
Comments
Just Want You All To Have My Prays and i am sorry to hear that this has to happen in life i have two daugthers growing up and my fears are somewhat this them getting high and doing things to hurt themselfs on stuff that yo woudl not think of. i pray al the time that my kids never do this and i can catch it before it goes to far sorry yall have to go throw this and lets juts say that i hope and pray my girls never will end up doing sch a thing god bless the family and frineds og hers

Name: JANIE PATTON
Location: Kingwood
Email: zitpopper3@kingwoodcable.net
Comments
I am so sorry for your loss. It breaks my heart everytime I hear that a child is doing something destructive to themselves. It is NOT the parents fault most of the time...because most of the time the parents are the last to know. Hopefully your beautiful daughter will save other children because they will tell their parents about one of their friends. I hope that parent won't be afraid to GET INVOLVED. God Bless You. Thank you for sharing your grief so others will be more aware. I promise to tell others...and share your website. Janie/The Fountain Skin Care Centre

Name: Melinda Walker
Location: Dallas Texas
Email:
Comments
Great job on the site. I'm sure that it will help get the message out and hopefully increase awareness. Take care - Melinda

Name: Katie Acker
Location: The Woodlands, Texas
Email: ffalambgirl@hotmail.com
Comments
I didnt know Kaitlyn but it still shocked me that a young lady at my school has passed away. I know she died an unexpected way but her soul will always be with us. I hope that many and many people will read this whole website. I dont get high and after reading this I know I never will. My blessings are with each and every person who knew her. Im greatly sorry for you loss.

Name: Angela
Location: Missouri
Email: areid@agts.edu
Comments
Thank you for sharing Kaitlyn's story. I am so sorry for your tragic loss. I was moved by your beautiful tribute slide show and couldn't stop the tears. With your permission, I would love to use her story in our graduate course on substance use to help alert counselors, pastors and parents to the real and present dangers our kids face. With appreciation, Angela Reid

Name: Monica
Location: The woodlands
Email: m_civa@hotmail.com
Comments
I am so sorry for what happened to Kaitlyn. This page has touch my heart and my soul. I will pass on this promise to my 17 year old son and I'm sure he will pass it on to his friends. God Bless!!! Monica

Name: Connie
Location: Saxon
Email:
Comments
I do not know your family, but was touched deeply by this. As a parent and grandmother, all you want is the best for your children and hope and pray you can do the right thing. Then something like this happens and you wonder where did I go wrong and guilt just about destroys you, but know that you did not do anything wrong! it can happen to anyone any time, all we can do as parents is do the best we can, pray and talk to our children. God is there and he does see us and hear us. God bless you and stay strong.

Name: Colleen and Kaitlyn
Location: Australia
Email: ozi_gal@hotmail.com
Comments
My own little girl is named Kaitlyn, that's how we came across Kaitlyn's story. I also have an older daughter the same age as Kaitlyn was. So sad that this has happened. My deepest sympathy to all. Love and best wishes Colleen - Kaitlyn's mum www.caringbridge.org/ne/kaitlyn

Name: Rebecca K
Location: Katy, Texas
Email: elcaminobeano@yahoo.com
Comments
I don't know what to say honestly. I remember a sober and troubled Kaitlyn, last time I saw her. I knew she went back out, but never knew that this fate would befall her. I hope to learn from her mistakes and not forget to remember how tricky this disease is.. I'm sorry Kaitlin

Name: Jordan Pomonis
Location: Spring,Tx.
Email: baby_girl_j08@yahoo.com
Comments
Kaitlyn I didn't know you that well but you will be missed and you were cool to be around when I did see you. I will keep your promise.

Name: Jordan Pomonis
Location: Spring,Tx.
Email: baby_girl_j08@yahoo.com
Comments
Kaitlyn I didn't know you that well but you will be missed and you were cool to be around when I did see you. I will keep your promise.

Name: Patty Lewallen
Location: Granbury, Tx
Email: lewallengang@sbcglobal.net
Comments
I am 42 years old. I lost my best friend to dusting. Tonya died in 2003, she would have been 45 today. I want to let everyone know that this in not just tennagers but this is an adult killer too. I wish I would have know that she was doing this or that someone would have shared the knowlege of what dusting was with me. Now, I'm here still trying to deal with the death of my girlfriend. I would have never thought that someone like her would do something like that. I have a promise too, I promise to help Kaitlyn keep her promise.

Name: courtney mcgee
Location: Erath
Email:
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i loved kaitlyn dearly. she was soo sweet and we all miss her and you are all in our prayers this website is awsome im soo happy ya'll made it. well i guess i will talk to ya'll soon. I LOVE YOU and MISS YOU SOOOO MUCH! Love, Courtney

Name: reinimat
Location: USA
Email: reinimat@gawab.com
Comments
Thanks, I could not find anywhere that I have found at your site.

Name: Katthy Coyle
Location: Spring
Email:
Comments
Cherri, I am so sorry to hear about Kaitlyn. The kids and I have sat down and went through her web site. Call if you ever want to talk. 281-292-8504 Kathy

Name: Kathryn
Location: Spring,Texas
Email: katt2454@yahoo.com
Comments
I didn't know Kaitlyn very well. I had her in one of my classes when i was in 7th grade. Kaitlyn seemed like a great person. My older brother Ben expiremented in what Kaitlyn was doing. I'm sorry you lost such a beautiful and sweet person. I know its not easy to lose someone. Kaitlyn will always be with us in our thoughts and prayers. Kaitlyn truly will be missed. I really do think that this website is a great thing soo many people don't know the damage of what they are trying.

Name: april
Location: tyler, texas
Email:
Comments
Just wanted to let you guys know that you're still in my thoughts, constantly.

Name: kelly grider
Location: northwest houston
Email: kellygrider@sbcglobal.net
Comments
I will make sure my three children - 12 14 & 17 will watch this about Kaitlyn. Just watching that clip i could tell what a fun & silly girl she was. Im so sorry for your loss and will make every effort to pass this on to other kids and their friends in her honor. thanks for sharing.

Name: Kate
Location: Woodlands
Email:
Comments
Kaitlyn shouldnt have died the way that she did. she had her whole life ahead of her. i know for a fact that i will be keeping kaitlyn's promise. i dont want to see another one of my friends die because of drugs or something stupid like that. if i knew that she was doing that again i would have told someone. i wouldnt have cared if she was going to be mad at me or not. i could have saved her life. i would much rather have her mad at me then dead. PLEASE! if you know someone whos doing something like that tell someone. its sad that somehting like this had to happen before it opened up our eyes and made realize that its not right to do that. i wish none of this would have happened. theres no reason for you to go out and do that it doesnt do anything but hurt you. if you want to stop but you cant tell your parents tell kaitlyns parents they're there for you. they dont want for another death to happen because of drugs or something like that. if you're afraid to talk to them, then talk to jeremy, he's awesome he will listen. I LOVE YOU KAITLYN AND I LOVE YOU JEREMY STAY STRONG BABY!!!!!

Name: Kathryn
Location: The Woodlands
Email: srbkrb@sbcglobal.net
Comments
Cheri, Jon and Jeremy: Since I have heard the news of Kaitlyn's death, you all have been in my constant thoughts and prayers. I remember Kaitlyn's beautiful eyes and sweet disposition when she would help out with scouts at St. Anthony's on occasion a few years back. May God comfort your hearts with wonderful memories of Kaitlyn. The Bub Family Kathryn, Scott, Avery and Hannah

Name: Emily Sibley
Location: Spring
Email: emily35968@yahoo.com
Comments
First, I want to tell you how sorry I am for your loss. And I just wanted to let you know the website is being passed along. Your family are in our prayers.

Name: Aunt Joyce & Kathy
Location: Breaux Bridge
Email: lsukat@cox.net
Comments
So very sorry about your daughter, she was just beautiful, looks so much like Cheri, Stephanie and Faye. Always remember you are in our prayers. Love you. Aunt Joyce and Kathy

Name: Erin Heil
Location: Klein Forest High School Teacher
Email: eheil@kleinisd.net
Comments
I am a Woodlands resident and a teacher at KFHS in Houston. Kaitlan's Promise was shared with me by my daughter's Brownie Leader. I will share this with many coaches and other teachers who will have an influence on students here at our school.

Name: Melissa Williams
Location:
Email: melissa.williams@talenttree.com
Comments
I am a single mother of a 10 year old...and this web-site prompted some great conversation last night. Thank you! She asked allot of great questions. I am so sad for you all, and will never forget this story. My daughter and I THANK YOU! God Bless you all.

Name: S Swain
Location: Mississippi
Email: swaincountry@hotmail.com
Comments
I met Kaitlyn through my granddaughter Jordan. I thought she had a great personality & she always made Jordan laugh. I know Jordan will always miss her best friend. I hope this site helps other kids to avoid Kaitlyn's mistake so other families will not have to go through this. I hope her friends will see that just because they are young they are not invinceable.

Name: Kate
Location: The Woodlands
Email: lilbabe1766@yahoo.com
Comments
I knew Kaitlyn because she was in my english class last year. When I heard the announcment at school i couldn't believe that Kaitlyn was gone. I remember that Kaitlyn, Shannon and I used to sit by each other and joke around all the time. We never really did our work. Kaitlyn was a great girl who knew how to make you smile and she always stood up for you if someone was making fun of another person. she never took crap from anybody. i just hope that if someone has a problem with drugs or anything else then they would tell someone. nobody wants for this to happen to anybody else. I personally have never done any drugs at all and i dont plan on it. i miss Kaitlyn so much she was always there for you and she could always put you in a better mood. I LOVE YOU GIRLFRIEND!!!!! we'll see you soon. KAITLYN'S PROMISE FOREVER!!!

Name: Lisa
Location: Michigan
Email: thestampster@aol.com
Comments
Thank you for making parents aware of the dangers our kids are putting themselves into. As the parent of a 15 year old daughter who is a "good girl" as I am sure Kaitlyn was, it is a terrifying thought that she could be doing something like this right beneath our noses. And we'd let her all in the name of "privacy" thinking she was innocently taking a bath like any other day. I am sending this link TO my daughter and asking her to put it on her "MySpace" and to send it to everyone on her buddy list. Kaitlyn is a beautiful girl and what you are doing to honor her memory is a beautiful thing. Thank you from the bottom of my heart.

Name: tracy
Location: east hartland,ct
Email: leochic75@yahoo.com
Comments
I am a mother of three very little kids, 3, 2 and 8 months and stories like the one of kaitlyn, makes me more aware of what to teach my babies about and what to watch out for and to let them know that no matter what they can always talk to me.

Name: Terri Partain
Location:
Email:
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To those who loved Kaitlyn, my deepest regrets. I remember Kaitlyn and Jeremy from swim team, and was so sorry to hear of her misfortune. I can only pray that her life will save another through this web site and building awareness of how fragile life truly is. Terri Partain

Name: Heidi A. Taylor
Location: Gresham OR
Email: babbels@comcast.net
Comments
A friend from CTMH, and I will share Kaitlyn's story with all of my friends, and Friends with Children. My thoughts and prayers are with you and all who loved Kaitlyn. May God keep you strong and in his arms during this difficult time.

Name: Belinda Smith
Location: Shepherd Texas
Email: bdiane62@yahoo.com
Comments
This story and another I read about dusting two days ago have made me realize that I need to be more aware of what my son is doing. I plan on talking to him tonight about this.

Name: Donna britton
Location: Katy,Texas
Email: twobrittons@yahoo.com
Comments
I'm a grandma,a sister,a mommy.a daughter,a wife,a friend,and a neighbor...I LOVE everybody..All colors,shapes,sizes,nationalities,religions,and political parties....I have the most compashion for teenagers and children of all ages..It's HELL now days trying to figure it all out...I remember when I didn't even feel comfortable talking to ANYONE...I am 58 and I wish I new the words to say...The ones you love will still love you if you tell them something they don't like, it may hurt you and them, at first...BUT it will bring you closer together in the long run..Trust LOVE...It will conquer all...God bless and keep all of this beautiful girls family and friends..Peace be with you..Amen..Donna Britton

Name: Barbara
Location: conroe, texas
Email: barbschair@yahoo.com
Comments
I am a 42 yr. old mother of three. I am also a recovering drug addict. I have been clean for five and a half years now. The only things that have helped me get and stay clean are God and narcotics annonymous. It took me a long time to find out that there was a place that I could go for help. If you have a drug problem, there is help! The local # in conroe is 935-756-3171. Narcotics anonymous is worldwide. Look in your local phone book for a number near you. This is an annonymous program. I hope other people can find the help and support that I have.

Name: Stacey Walley
Location: Jackson, MS
Email: swalley@granthampoole.com
Comments
Making children and teens aware of these dangers will hopefully prevent this from happening to another young person and their families. This website and Kaitlyn's promise is a good thing and I am extremely hopeful that it will be very effective. God bless y'all

Name: von vallery
Location: pineville
Email: lcswv@aol.com
Comments
I am Kaitlyn's uncle and I still can't believe that she is gone. I have 18 years clean and I never would have thought that we would lose another member of our family to the desease of addiction again. I know she is in a better place. Thank all of y'all for your prayers and kind words. The world is less of a place without Kaitlyn.

Name:
Mary Ball
Location:
Columbus, Ohio
Email:
mary51662@columbus.rr.com
Comments
Kaitlyn's story touched my heart. What a beautiful child. How tragic the loss. I was not aware of "dusting". I have a 13 year old son and I will share with him her story and let it open the door to discuss the dangers of drugs with my precious son. I lost my brother tragically many years ago. I know how the loss affected my life and my family's lives. My heart hurts for you tonight. May God hold you tight while you grieve. I'm so sorry.

Name:
Amy Barber
Location:
Des Moines, IA
Email:
barbera@wdmcs.org
Comments
I am SO sorry for the loss your family has encountered. This has to be extremely painful. I don't know you or your family, but saw about Kaitlyn's Promise on a Scrapbooking Website and am touched by your willingness to help others! God bless you all!

Name:
Stephany
Location:
Louisiana
Email:
princessprincess1213@yahoo.com
Comments
This message has touched me because this show you the consiqunce of saying just one more time there should not be a first or a last. Thank you for this website it shows you to not go under peer preassure from friends and no matter what talk to your parents thank you this has taught me a lot i am 14 and in danger of many things going around for me to fall for but this just helps me be stringer and not try anything for the first time or for the last Thank you, Stephany

Name:
Justine Westich
Location:
Macomb, MI
Email:
stampinwithctmh@sbcglobal.net
Comments
God Bless you and your family. My thoughts and prayers are with you in this time of need. I saw a wonderful quote.... "When someone you love becomes a memory, the memory becomes a treasure" What you are doing with Kaitlyn's Promise is wonderful and so important. I am a mother to three boys on of which is in 8th grade. I will be sharing this with him. May your efforts to spread this important message bring you and your family peace. With Love, Justine

Name:
Katherine
Location:
Iowa
Email:

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Hey. Kaitlyn looks so pretty. I'm sorry for your loss even though I dont really know her. I heard about "dusting" my mom taught me about it and were talking about it in school. Anyways, I hope that she is happy in heaven and that my family are praying for her and your family. God bless you!! 0=)

Name:
Dede Powers
Location:
Tucson, AZ
Email:
dedepowers@yahoo.com
Comments
God Bless and keep you. What a blessing for the rest of us that you are courageous enough to share with the world. Strong work.

Name:
Courtney Norton
Location:
Barstow, CA
Email:
courtneynorton@myctmh.com
Comments
I am so sorry for your loss. I am going to share this web page with my younger brother. Who We think is also dusting thanks for the nice website. I think it will safe kids...

Name:
Catherine Wite
Location:
Australia
Email:
mummacathy@yahoo.com.au
Comments
I am a prayer partner of Rose from the Embraced by the Light Prayer Board - I want to reassure you that Kaitlyn is safe in the arms of Jesus - I pray that her mother and family gain comfort in that knowledge, despite their heart wrenching pain of losing her. I send you my prayers and love

Name:
Cristiana Myers
Location:
Conroe
Email:

Comments
Please accept my condolences on the loss of your precious duaghter, sister and niece Kaitlyn. It was with great sadness I received the news. I knew Kaitlyn when she swam with the Imperial Oaks Swim team. I thank you so much for Kaitlyn's promise. This is a wonderful website and I know through it young people's lifes will be touched. I will keep your family is in my prayers.

Name:
Kate DeMoura
Location:
Carencro, LA
Email:
demourakatelyn@stmcougars.com
Comments
I was so happy to see that this site was created. Thank you so much to the creators, and know that myself as well as my family, are all praying for ya'll and miss Kaitlyn dearly. God Bless your former neighbor, Kate

Name:
Annabelle
Location:
Hawaii
Email:

Comments
I am so very sorry for your loss. This website has made many parents aware of what they didn't know kids were doing. Kaitlyn's website will save many kids!!! God Bless and many prayers for you and your family.

Name:
Paula Miller
Location:
Spring
Email:
paulami@springisd.org
Comments
I knew Kaitly because she was one of my neices best friends. She was a sweet kid that baby sat for me a few times. I know the kind of person that she was.... she would never have wanted to hurt her friends and family like this. I believe most kids doing this stuff just don't think about the consequences that COULD happen. I hope all of her friends think about this and make better choices. It can happen to anyone, even those that don't have a history.

Name:
Jeanine
Location:
Granbury
Email:
jevansmk@yahoo.com
Comments
My son is 14 and when I get home I will show him what happened to this precious young lady. I am deeply sorry for your pain. God bless you and your family.

Name:
Diane
Location:
Spring
Email:
csz611@houston.rr.com
Comments
I am very sorry about your loss. I am 34 and have 2 young kids. I have heard about kids doing this and have been worried for them. Thank you for sharing and I hope it helps them relize they are not invisable. God Bless your family and friends. You will be in our prayers.

Name:
Jo Ann
Location:
Spring, Texas
Email:
jobobuno@houston.rr.com
Comments
I'm so very sorry for your loss - I know those words cannot heal or bring Kaitlyn back but from deep, deep within I mourn your loss. My prayer is that you will know God's comfort in this situation and I am in awe how you've already begun to make a difference for others by this website!

Name:
Penny
Location:
Texas
Email:

Comments
Thank you so much for sharing your daughter. Maybe this will help another parent. May God Bless you all.

Name:
Nancy
Location:
Spring
Email:
nlkugler57@yahoo.com
Comments
My sincere condolences to the family and friends of this young girl. My prayers will be with the family for peace that passes understanding in this terrible tragedy. N. Kugler Redeemed Ministries (Addiction Recovery) Spring, TX

Name:
Rose
Location:
Red River, New Mexico
Email:
jesusgirlnm@aol.com
Comments
Hello. I saw this "page" and Stephanie's prayer request for Kaitlyn's family on the EBTL Prayer Board. I am a prayer warrior there. I want you to know that I am praying for Kaitlyn's mother and family. I am really praying, that God comforts their hearts, and gives them a clear understanding of the fact that Kaitlyn is with Jesus. She closed her eyes here, and when she opened them, she was looking at the loving face of our Lord, with His arms wide open. You will see her again. May God Bless You all and heal your hearts. I am forwarding this page of your beautiful daughter and friend to all my prayer partners. Kaitlyn's life was a blessing, and she was here. But I am sure that even in death, she will accomplish as much as she might have in life on earth, by saving just one life; by stopping just one other child from a mistake. She is serving the Lord, and she is right next to Him in heaven, smiling down on all of you, hoping you can understand the purpose of her time here. With much love, Rose

Name:
Lynn
Location:

Email:

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Our prayers are with you...and yes I will pass this on to all my friends and my teenagers. May God bless you.

Name:
Charmaine Shields
Location:
Frisco,Tx
Email:
cmc1942@aol.com
Comments
I have known Kaitlyn since she was 3 years old. I was saddneed and would have never thought in a million years I would hear her mother tell me " Kaitlyn died 3 weeks ago". Her tragic death ended because of drug use that has left me stunned and shocked. She came from such a loving and caring family that I am surprised that no one ever told them what danger Kaitlyn was encountering. I hope these kids realize how hard it is for a parent to bury a child. There is HELP out there. One day you will want a family of your own and hope you never encounter what the Vallery's will have to live with for the rest of their lives.PLEASE GET HELP, PLEASE GET HELP... Kaitlyn you are sadly missed by all who knew you and I know you are up there watching over them. I guess your friends are the lucky ones who still have a chance to make a difference in their life. I just wish you were as lucky as them. Your spirit will live on among all of us...

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My name is Julie and I am 10 years old. My mom told me about what happened to Kaitlyn. I am not going to ever breathe in stuff that is bad for me. I will always think of Kaitlyn. If my friends are doing drugs I would tell my parents and theres so they are safe. Im truley sorry of your loss .

Name:
FAITH
Location:
LOUISIANA
Email:
LSUGALRN65@YAHOO.COM
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Name:

Location:
The Woodlands
Email:
blondie776@earthlink.net
Comments
Hi. I didn't know your daughter and she didn't know me. But the other day my mom told me about how she found a can of dusting solution behind our house. An empty can. She warned us (like she always does) about how this is so dangerous. I thought that it was scary that kids had such easy acess to such a dangerous drug. But I didn't think much more of it. The day at College Park that they announced that Kaitlyn had died, of course the rumors began to circulate. I figured I would never know which was true because I never knew Kaitlyn. To find out that the way she died was connected to my life struck something in me. The can behind our house said it all: Kids in my neighborhood were already addicted. It frightens me that things like this can happen so close to you. To the neighbor kids a few houses down. To a family member. Thank you for being so brave and spreading the knowledge could save a kid's life.

Name:
Kerry
Location:

Email:

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Name:
Shannon
Location:
Oklahoma City
Email:
Shandizzle2000@yahoo.com
Comments
I just recieved this from a friend. I am so deeply saddened that you lost your child to this. I am speechless, and know now that I must ALWAYS make my daughter aware of how important it is to tell me the bad stuff as much as the good. It may save a friends life as well as her own life. My thoughts are with you.

Name:
Tammy
Location:
St. Anthony of Padua
Email:
gtmorrow@gmail.com
Comments
Thank-you for sharing Kaitlyn's story. I will pray for your family's healing and ask Him to help with your emotional pain. I am the junior high coordinator, and I will use Kaitlyn's Promise as one of our resources. Thank-you for letting the community learn about Kaitlyn. Our kids are faced with so many pressures and temptations. Your website will bring awareness in hopes of it not happening to another precious child. Thank-you and God Bless.

Name:
Bonnie Schuetz
Location:
Woodlands
Email:
twinkletoesatbonis@yahoo.com.
Comments
Hello, my name is Bonnie Schuetz, better known as Miss Boni from Bonis Dance and Performing Arts Studio. We have l,l00 young girls that dance at my school throught the week. Many of them young teens. This was forwarded to me by a parent that thought I could help. My heart goes out to you and my prayers are with you. I have three teenagers still at home so I know the importance of tallking to them. I not only will talk to my own children but would love to share it with my girls at the studio. If there is anything I can do to help in anyway please let me know. Love Miss Boni

Name:
Debra
Location:
The Woodlands
Email:
Coopdjc@aol.com
Comments
I did not know Kaitlyn but her memory will live on....My daughter& I, a freshman at TWHS were overcome with saddness at this e-mail and this website. We pray for Kaitlyn and her family and thank her mom Cheri for caring enough to share at this incredibly painful and difficult time. I can not imagine what they must be going through. This has and will helped so many of us...open up the communication with our own children. My prayers are with you all at this time.......

Name:
Carrie Wilmes
Location:
The Woodlands
Email:
wilmescarrie@aol.com
Comments
My daughter, Taylor Wilmes, had the privilege of knowing Kaitlyn. She felt very blessed to have known her, if even for a short time. Taylor has always been against the use of drugs, however, due to Kaitlyn's death, she is even now more adamant upon getting the word out to all of her friends and anyone else to just say no. Taylor is a very strong young lady and I know she will do whatever it takes to ensure that Kaitlyn's promise will be fulfilled.

Name:
Melissa
Location:
Marion Ms
Email:
almanzac@bellsouth.net
Comments
I want to tell the family how sorry I am to hear of their loss. I heard about the story in the Houston paper, I have family that lives in the area so i keep up with things over there. I am so very sorry. I pray each and everynight for the family. She is greatly missed. This made me cry more than I have in a long time, I am a mother of two small children and I will keep this so I can talk to them when the times comes that they get a little older. I want to thanks for sharing. I have kept a copy of the orange ribbon and will use it always. God Bless Melissa

Name:
Krystal Baldino
Location:
spring tx
Email:
elmersluck@aol.com
Comments
Krystal loved Kaitlyn dearly. She misses her alot. Her and her family hope that your family is doing better. Her promise will live though Krystal forever. May God bless your family. Are prayers are with you always. The McClure and Baldino Family.

Name:
Laura Ann
Location:
The Woodlands
Email:
rwojtczak@houston.rr.com
Comments
Kaitlyn, if only you could see how many lives you have touched. You are loved and missed by so many. I know that you are watching over all of us even now. What does it feel like, I wonder, to be an angel? You have inspired many people through your loving and caring embrace. Kaitlyn's Promise has made an impact on so many lives. As for me, I regret that I never had the pleasure of knowing you, but the lessons you left behind will remain with me always. Though your body is gone, I beleive that your spirit still resides in everyone's heart.

Name:
joshua jones
Location:
the woodlands
Email:
findmynemo2001@yahoo.com
Comments
i just watched the video you guys have...and i miss her so much..she was a great person and best friend...she will never be forgotten...R.I.P kaitlyn vallery!! love you girlfriend

Name:
Kathy (Laura Ann' Mom_
Location:
The Woodlands
Email:
rwojtczak@houston.rr.com
Comments
Your sweet Angel Girl was very precious to so many. Her life lived served as a beautiful and loving soul. Oh child of God, may you continue on your journey with love, grace and finally, peace.

Name:
Marie P.
Location:
Mansfield, MA
Email:
marieparsons@yahoo.com
Comments
What a beautiful young woman. After viewing this, and wiping my eyes, I called in my three teenage sons to see her pictures and talk with them about what happened. I got them each to promise to tell me or another adult if they heard of any of their friends doing this. My heart and prayers go out to your family. God Bless.

Name:
Maggie martinez
Location:
tx
Email:

Comments
Hey girlfriend...i miss you and i want you back even though we hated each other. I'm sorry for everything i said kaitlyn. I love you you always made me smile and i still rememember that talk we had i rememember everything you said i pratically live by it. I love you kaitlyn. Kaitlyn's promise..

Name:
mickenzie
Location:
the woodlands
Email:

Comments
*I LOVE YOU KAITLYN!* You'll always be in my heart!

Name:
stephanie powell-lapham
Location:
the woodlands, texas
Email:
stephanie_lapham@hotmail.com
Comments
I am first of all, shocked that something so easily found around the house, can be abused to cause such a horrific tragedy. We as parents try so hard to speak to our children about the obvious (sex, drinking, drugs etc..) that sometimes we think that we have said it all...over and over... I myself have never even thought or even heard of this type of popular "getting high" method. Your message here is a powerful one. Kaitlyn's Promise has changed my way of thinking this morning. I cried and laughed at her precious pictures and mourn the loss of child...a child that could be any one of our children. Thank you.

Name:
Ashley
Location:
OakRidge
Email:

Comments
I miss you baby girl i cant wait to see you up there! I sit here and think about all the great crazy times we had together and still cant believe your acually gone! i miss you babby and meet me at the gates! I love you girl and dont forget about our gangster wedding you better be ready because no body can do like me! ha i love you baby girl and you always with me!

Name:
Patricia McDougall
Location:
The Woodlands
Email:
pmcdougall@earthlink.net
Comments
My heart goes out to all of Kaitlyn's family and friends.She was a beautiful girl and this is a terrible tragedy. I lost my father 2 months ago, and I am still coming to terms with it. He was 79. I have 2 daughter 17 and 14, and I can't even begin to imagine how I would get through, if soemthing happened to them. Thank you for sharing these painful events, but precious memories of your daughter. I will share them with my daugher's and their friends so that they can be aware of the dangers. May God help you at this difficult time and may peace be with Kaitlyn in heaven. PatriciaXXXX

Name:
Jamie
Location:
spring
Email:
love_sex_heartbreaker@yahoo.com
Comments
she was such a nice person that even though i didnt hang out with her that much before she died i still felt really bad that she died the way that she did..and i hope that from her death nobody will have to go though what her family had to go though

Name:
Tatante
Location:
Katy, TX
Email:
kaitlynspromise@sbcglobal.net
Comments
Sweet Pea, my heart feels better. I still miss you but I know that I'll see you soon...and I know that you're happy. I love you!

Name:
Brenda
Location:
NH
Email:
letellier1990@yahoo.com
Comments
I am so very sorry for your loss!! My heart goes out to all who knew and loved Kaitlyn.

Name:
Gwen
Location:

Email:
gwen@abform.com
Comments
Was really touched by this. I have 3 neices in your area and between her age. I am sending this to them. They need to know that things like this really happen to people close by. Her life will touch someone for the good. God bless you and your family in these hard times.

Name:
Robin Stevens
Location:
Sugar Land, Texas
Email:
anewsurface@aol.com
Comments
What a lovely child and what a tragic loss. I am so sorry this happened. It truly breaks my heart. May all who knew her find peace in knowing that she is in a heavenly place now and ultimately where we all wish to be one day.

Name:
8
Location:
montana
Email:

Comments
I'm so sorry for your loss, thanks for putting your story out there I'm sure it will save lifes. Trish

Name:
Emily Caldwell
Location:
Webster, TX
Email:
ecaldwel@ccisd.net
Comments
Thank you for sharing Kaitlyn's story. I work for a drug and alcohol prevention coalition south of Houston and admire your courage in wanting to make others aware of the dangers of drug use. May God Bless you and your family.

Name:
LAURA FORD
Location:
SPRING TEXAS
Email:
LALAGF@AOL.COM
Comments
MY HEART GOES OUT TO YOU AND EVEN THOUGH I DON'T KNOW YOU I FEEL PART OF YOUR PAIN. I AM SO SORRY FOR YOUR TREMENDOUS LOSS I CANNOT IMAGINE. GOD BLESS YOU AND KEEP YOU FROM ANY MORE PAIN.

Name:
Jennifer
Location:
Virginia
Email:
jennifernmills@yahoo.com
Comments
I just wanted to thank you for trying to raise awareness of this deadly new way of "getting high". I don't think that people realize how long this has been going on for. I've know about it since I was in Junior High in 1991. Similar to this situation is a popular activity of choking yourself while sex or masturbation to enhance your orgasm. I had a friend from high school who was choking himself while masturbating and hung himself on accident. So sad to hear about these things.

Name:
Adele
Location:
Sydney, Australia
Email:

Comments
I am so sorry for your loss. My daughter is 14 and my son is 13. Because of Kaitlyn, I have spoken to them about the dangers of "dusting". As a parent, we know that we have to educate our children about illegal drugs. It's mind boggling to know that we also have to teach them about the dangers of abusing household products. I am grateful that in your grief, you have helped me educate my children about this particular danger, before they were exposed to it.

Name:
Sherri
Location:
Minnesota
Email:
SLJ42LUV@aol.com
Comments
Thank you for getting the message out. I am so sorry for your loss. And, I am thankful both of my children are adults but I am scared to death for what is coming for my grandchildren. These are such senseless losses. Thank you for getting the message out that some day may save one of my grand children or someone else's precious child. Sherri

Name:
Amber Leonardi
Location:
Des Moines, IA
Email:
starbol_22@yahoo.com
Comments
Hi, I am the daugther of Pam VanWeelden and I think that this site is wonderful. I am sorry for you loss. My prayers are with you and your daughter.

Name:
Kelsey Rooney
Location:
Dubai, UAE
Email:
random_6969@hotmail.com
Comments
I only knew Kaitlyn for about a month, but her death really affected me... I remember whenever she would walk into the room people's faces would light up becuase they would hear the familiar "hey girlfriend!!!" Hehe ... Kaitlyn was one of the most fun, outgoing, caring people that i ever knew... And she'll never be forgotten... We love you Kaitlyn!! and you're really missed -- from everywhere around the world Love - Kelsey

Name:
Carmen Pina
Location:
Duncaville TX
Email:
scrap_therapy@yahoo.com
Comments
So sorry for your loss - Thank you for getting the word out to many people who did not know what this was before!

Name:
Dana
Location:

Email:
rubyslippers@swbell.net
Comments
I received information about this tragedy through a neighborhood email. I am so very sorry for the misery and suffering that your family is experiencing.I have watched Kaitlyn's video, listened to the music, gone to the links and read all of the love expressed in the guest book-such a beautiful light extinguished so needlessly. I am inspired by your strength and have shared the story with both of my teenage sons(and everyone I can think of). Through your efforts, your promise, Kaitlyn's life will make a difference. Jeremy, your courage as the big brother to get the word out and make others accountable will indeed be heard. I am praying fervently for all of you, Lifting your names to the heavens,asking God to comfort and hold you close.

Name:
Rhita
Location:

Email:
rhitaleblanc@hotmail.com
Comments
i'll miss you kaitlyn =( this shouldn't have happened to you

Name:
unknown
Location:
spring, tx
Email:
kaitlynspromise@hotmail.com
Comments
i was in spanish with Kaitlyn last year. that was a weird class for me because i sat in the corner with all the people that did drugs and stuff, including Kaitlyn. i did smoke but i didnt do drugs, i had never tryed it and now i never will. i have stopped smoking, and feel alot better. Kaitlyns death will not be in vain. im so sorry that she died. God Bless!

Name:
Ben Smart
Location:
The Woodlands
Email:
bensmart12@gmail.com
Comments
I am saddened by katilyn's death. I did not know her personaaly but have good things about her.

Name:
Lindsey
Location:
Katy
Email:
twizt3dminds@yahoo.com
Comments
I didnt know Kaitlyn but her story has really hit hard for me. Its a shame that happened to her she seems as if she was a wonderful person to be around. I have friends with the same problem as she had and its a sad thing. Kaitlyns promise is a good way to get information out to people and show all it takes is one time.. She will be missed

Name:
stacy
Location:

Email:

Comments
I am so very sorry, Kaitlyn is a beautiful young girl. She had so much life ahead of her. Kaitlyn is not that different from many other high school kids. Wether they are trying drugs, alcohol or dusting. Many kids "try". We all think that 'trying' something to get high is just that, something to try. No one ever "trying" something believes it will kill them. But it does, it can and eventually it will. One way or another, part of you dies. (your integrity, your character, your brain cells, or you) I pray for Kaitlyn's family, I can only imagine the incredible pain they must feel. It seems it would be unbearable, unthinkable. Thank you for the courage to share her story with us all. Maybe, just maybe, this will indeed change the mind of a teen who wants to "just try" it. Getting high is not something new, it is however, something illegal, dangerous and deadly. High takes away your control, it takes away your ability to make a good decision, it takes away some of your friends, it seperates you from your family, dont let it take your life! My prayers are with you, Kaitlyn's family, may god bless you and hold you so very close now and always!

Name:
Vicki Pledger
Location:
Huntsville, texas
Email:
fatcat1156@yahoo.com
Comments
I am sorry to hear about the death of this beautiful vibrant young women. I hope and pray that she will be an inspiration to all of the teenagers that her life touched. You and your family are in my prayers

Name:
Nicki
Location:
Woodlands
Email:
hottie6982024@aol.com
Comments
To the Vallery's I am so shocked by what has happend to Kaitlyn, I think this website is such a good thing and will help many other children. My hopes and Prayers go out to YOUR FAMILY Nicki Spease *I'll Always Love Kaitlyn

Name:
MYKE BROUSSARD
Location:
SCOTT, LA
Email:
GIRLMYKE@BELLSOUTH.NET
Comments
I THINK WHAT YOU ARE DOING IS A VERY GOOD THING. MY KIDS ARE 10 AND 5, I PLAN ON SHOWING MY OLDEST THIS TONIGHT AND I HOPE HE UNDERSTANDS THE MESSAGE AS WELL A I DO. IF NOT I'LL BE ON THE SIDE OF HIM TO HELP HIM UNDERSTAND.

Name:
Loana Mitchell
Location:
Sugar Land TX
Email:
loana@houston.rr.com
Comments
Cheri and family, I found out about the tragedy in Houscrappers(HAS) and I just wanted to give you my condolences.. I am truly sorry for your loss and I have placed your family in my prayers. May Kaitlyn rest in peace.

Name:
Angie Fontenot Beile
Location:
Baton Rouge, LA
Email:
AngieB25430@aol.com
Comments
I am devasted by the loss of this beautiful child. My deepest sympathies to Cheri and her family. With a 16 year old of my own, I cannot imagine the pain and sorrow. To the Vallery family, fall face forward into your faith and reach out to help other possible victims, like you are doing with this website. Great idea! This is all I can think of in the way of comfort at this point as I am in such shock. Again, I am so so sorry. Love, Angie

Name:
Sirrine Homan
Location:
Arizona
Email:
brainscraper2004@myway.com
Comments
I am so sorry for your loss and my hopes and prayers are with you and your family always. I had some friends that use to do those things and I got two of them to stop doing it. I'm trying to do my part and will continue now adding your daughters name to the list of reasons why not too. May god bless every soul in the pursuit to stop this eveil corrupting our children!!!!!!!

Name:
Caryn Graffo
Location:
Humble, TX
Email:
csg3278@aol.com
Comments
This tribute has really touched me. I have two daughters and can't even imagine the pain of losing such a young precious soul. What you are doing through this site is going to effect many lives and I'm sure, will help to save many more. Remember that our thoughts and prayers are with you all as we pray for a peace that passes all understanding...God bless you.

Name:
brroisaer
Location:
Arlington, TX
Email:
brroisaer@yahoo.com
Comments
I'm sorry for you guys' loss. That must have very hard, letting her parents know that ya'll knew she was dusting. I think it's very awesome that ya'll have created this website.

Name:
Rhonda Nesin
Location:

Email:
rnesin@gmail.com
Comments
Cheri, Jon, and Jeremy- I did not know Kaitlyn, but find myself in big, wet tears viewing your photos. My children are little, and not yet subject to the many dangers of adolescence and teenage years. I add my hopes and prayers to the many already going up that your efforts will make drugs, alcohol, inhalants, etc., a "non-option". Cheri, I've missed your smiles over at HOUscrappers (now HAS). We were all devastated to hear of Kaitlyn's untimely death. God bless you all, and let good memories and laughter heal your hearts. With much love, Rhonda Nesin

Name:
Stephanie Farnsworth
Location:
Huntsville, AL
Email:
wantsadventure@yahoo.com
Comments
This whole story breaks my heart. My prayers go out to your family. I plan to discuss this website and information with my own Caitlyn Nicole, who will be 15 tomorow (as well as her two younger brothers). We have never deeply discussed 'huffing", just as a side note to other drug related discussions. I had never heard the term "dusting" before seeing it here. Thank you for providing the information for others in the midst of your own pain and loss. We will make good use of the website and links it contains.

Name:
David W Allen
Location:
Lafayette, LA
Email:
davida@acadianasecurityplus.com
Comments
As a Dad of two children it saddens me to see youth taken away from us at such a young life. My heart goes out to your family for your loss, and I pray we can all help pass the word and help in this matter. My daughter recently married, and I was so sad about losing her from my home, however she is still in my life. I cant imagine your loss, but I will say to you that someone is with you allways, never forget that. I will committ to you a promise to carry this Promise from Kaitlyn of educating our youth on this matter. I serve on a Commission dealing with Crime Prevention, and it will be on my agenda for the 20th of this month. David W Allen & Family

Name:
Trish Fox
Location:
Berryville Va
Email:
treefarmers2@aol.com
Comments
I am very sorry for your loss. I have never heard of the term "dusting" before today. I now know and will remember your daughters story forever. I have 2 about to be teanage sons. I will keep you and your family in my heart and prayers.

Name:
Mary Goldknopf
Location:
The Woodlands
Email:
whiteashes320@houston.rr.com
Comments
My name is Mary and Kaitlyn was in my geometry class last year. I would sit next to her every day and we would talk about everything especially of how proud she was of herself for being sober for 8 months straight. I was so proud of her too. I regret not getting to know her better. She was a great friend to me. In that class i would get made fun of by a huge group of guys. It was Kaitlyn who stood up for me and told them to stop. She was a great friend to me even though i didnt know her that well. Kaitlyn was always jokin around about how stupid I was. She always made me laugh. She was just a ver easy person to talk to and to have fun with. She was a great girl. Kaitlyn was so smart too. Her only problem wa that she didnt try hard enough in school. I bet that if she tried she would have been really good at anything she wanted to be good at. Kaitlyn was an easy person to get to know. She was an easy person to get along with and become great friends with. She knew how to treat people the right way. I miss her so much. Seeing her at the viewing made me cry my eyes out because she looked like an angel. She was so beautiful that i couldnt take it anymore. I cried to people that i never got along with because a death brings everyone closer together. She showed me that life is short and you need to live life to its fullest. You need to love your family and always tell them that you do. You need to let them understand that you love them because one day you might be gone forever and you would never get to tell the people that you love how much you love them. So I want to thank you Kaitlyn. You showed me what love really is. You showed me that things can happen. You never know what could happen and you never could believe that bad things could happen to you until they do. I miss you terribly Kaitlyn. I love you dearly. You will always be in my heart. I will always remember you. I will always remember you smile and the happy times we shared together. Rest In Peace girl. I know that you are in a better place. Just know that I love you girl and that I will never forget you. You are in my prayers. Love, Mary Goldknopf goodbye Kaitlyn

Name:
MARY HOLT
Location:
TEXAS
Email:
mlholt44@sbcglobal.net
Comments
There is no understanding, no explanation, only faith that God knows what he is doing. Kaitlyn must have been very special for God to have chosen her. My heart & prayers to your family, only God knows the pain you are living with. I have a daughter myself & almost lost her recently, that alone was almost more than I could bear.

Name:
Jolie
Location:
New Orleans Area
Email:

Comments
I am sorry for you loss. I think that this is a wonderful way of showing her that you care about the things kids are doing and that you want to raise awareness. I will keep your family in my daily prayers. God bless you all.

Name:
Laura Diller
Location:
Vogel Intermediate
Email:
sweetpickle1963@sbcglobal.net
Comments
When I wear the ribbon to work, alot of the 5th and 6th graders ask me what that ribbon symbolizes. I tell them and most of them say they have heard of someone doing drugs. I tell them they need to let the counselor know so she can help them, but they will not know who told because the counselor will not tell on them. I hope this will help our feeder zone right here in Oak Ridge.

Name:
Stephanie Newlun
Location:
The Woodlands
Email:
newluns@yahoo.com
Comments
Dearest Vallery Family, I have never had the honor of meeting you but I work at St. Anthony of Padua Church and have been touched by your story. I have three young children ages 9,7 and 5 whom I treasure. I cannot even imagine the pain you are feeling right now. At some point in your journey I would benefit from learning how to look for signs/struggles from raising teens. I am concerned about that stage for my own children and I don't want to go into it blind. My God watch over your family during this terrible time and give you strength in your day. Please know many people care about you. God Bless, Stephanie Newlun

Name:
Lorraine rice
Location:
Spring, TX
Email:
lormcrice@hotmail.com
Comments
I want to join in the might! I was shocked as I spoke with several of Kait's friends at her funeral. They addmitted to me that they experimentaion with drugs began when they were my students at Vogel. There is something in young people that cries out for healing. They need to stop a pain so deep they are willing to risk their lives.....I believe the answer is JESUS. Not religion, not good works, but a SAVIOR! I am committed to help!

Name:
Gina
Location:
North Carolina
Email:
gmppierce@hotmail.com

Comments
I am so very sorry for the loss of Kaitlyn and God bless you for trying to help others.

Name:
Autumn K
Location:
Las Vegas, NV
Email:

Comments
I have forwarded you message on to my friends and family. Our thoughts and prayers are with you as you grieve for your dear Kaitlyn. Thank you for educating us in your time of need. She did not die in vain. As a teacher I will help spread the message! Thanks.

Name:
Munroes
Location:
Goodyear, AZ
Email:
kamunroe@msn.com

Comments
My two daughters are here reading this story with me. Thank you for sharing Kaitlyn's life and pictures. It opened a way for me to explain what huffin' is. I was glad to hear my daughters promise to talk to an adult if there is a dangerous situation, what it means to be a friend, and not to try this. We are so sorry for your loss and will continue to share Kaitlyn's story through this website.

Comments
well i never wanted to do this but you know i feel really good about the things that are being done in kaitlyn's sweet name... i just want everyone to know that simply posting on here and then doing nothing else wont get very far... after you post please send this to at least one friend... i garuntee its the one chain letter someone will be happy they opened!! i know its already saved at least one life, my own, and touched so many more. but please... dont be scared to turn someone in... i can promise you youd rather see your worst enemy in handcuffs than in a coffin... no matter what, and life is just way to short to care if someone is mad at you or not... if you know of someone who needs help LET SOMEONE KNOW!!! if you cant do it for any reason email me or message me on my myspace (www.myspace.com/effena) and i will help you get the help that is needed... I love you baby sis!!! no matter what you will always be with me!!! muah!!!

Name:
Crystal DeMoura
Location:
Carencro, La
Email:
rhdemoura@cox.net

Comments
Dear Vallerys, This is a beautiful tribute to the memory of such a special soul, Kaitlyn. You are right, she did not die in vain. I am going to have my "Kate" check out this website so she can have closure to the sadness she still feels for the loss of her old childhood friend. We mourn with you and we will spread the word about this kind of drug abuse. I just know that many lives will be touched and saved for what you are doing here, and that God will bless it abundantly.

Name:
Liz
Location:
Houston
Email:
elle2075@gmail.com

Comments
I read about this tragedy on 2 Peas. Just tonight my husband mentioned seeing our highschooler with canned air when he had no reason and this is the first thing I thought about. I am showing him this website and we plan on having a long discussion tomorrow. I'm very sorry for your loss but I am thankful for the information. It has certainly helped many people.

Name:
GREG HAMMER
Location:
DALLAS,TX
Email:
HAM1117@AOL.COM

Comments
CHERIE, I'M SO SORRY TO HEAR THE NEW'S.I'M A TEACHER IN DALLAS.I HAVE KNOW KID'S OF MY OWN.IF I CAN HELP IN ANY WAY PLEASE LET ME KNOW. GREG

Name:
Dawn
Location:
Blairsville, Ga
Email:
crlxs3@alltel.net

Comments
I am very sorry for your daughters death.Even though she died this way, I hope she is in peace in heaven. I had no idea that children were using such things to get high from. Why do our children feel the need to do these things? Thanks for the info. A concerned mother of three girls, Dawn

Name:
Kelly
Location:
Spring, TX
Email:

Comments
I have an 11 year old son and we have had the "Drug" talk many times and the stresses of just being above the influence of others or substance...but what if I don't talk about the dangers of inhaling things laying around my house...what if he learns about this from a friend who says it's not drugs...when it is a substance that can kill you...We will be revisiting the drug issue. I want to thank you for this site and the education it has given me. Thank you to Juanita for passing it on to me. Kaitlyn's promise will be remembered in my house. Bless you

Name:
MEA
Location:
Texas
Email:
munstersbaby@yahoo.com

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Name:
Sandy
Location:
HTE
Email:

Comments
Through my prayers, may you find the Peace of God, which passes all our understanding ((McSteff & Family)) ~sunni

Name:
angelprince
Location:
Home Talk
Email:

Comments
I lost my 17-year-old son when someone slipped some unknown street drug into his coke. Kaitlyn did not die in vain. The testimonies I've read show Kaitlyn is making a huge difference in the lives of others. As a parent that is still coping with the loss of a child, I commend you for trying to reach other teens through Kaitlyn's story. I will pass this on to my step-daughter who just turned 14.

Comments
Dear Cheri, I am so sorry to hear about your beautiful daughters death. My sister-in-law Juanita Smart emailed me the week it happened. This has opened my eyes to talk to my 3 young children about drugs. This totally opens my eyes to something I didn't think could happen to me. I just talked to my 10 year old daughter Alexa and showed her this website. Thank you for sharing. Again, I am sorry for your loss of your beautiful daughter. I can't even imagine the pain you are feeling. I will keep you and your family in my prayers. God Bless You and Your Family, Pam Smart

Name:
CindyLou'sMom
Location:
KY
Email:

Comments
I have a grand daughter named Caitlyn Nicole who is just turning 15. This has been an eye opener to me and I have passed this along to her mother and to Caitlyn as well. I'm so sorry that this sweet Kaitlyn had to die from this. My prayers to all of the family and friends of Kaitlyn Nicole.

Name:
Juanita
Location:
The Woodlands
Email:
email

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Jon, Cheri and Jeremy I hope everyone who reads this passes it on to a friend! Like you said if this saves just one person and family having to live with the sorrow you all are now feeling it will be worth it all. Know that you have many friends who have not forgotten and will always remember Kaitlyn. Love, Juanita

Name:
Veronica Jones
Location:
Arizona
Email:
candelabra@cox.net

Comments
Thank you so much for sharing Katlyn's story with us. I am a mother of three young children, your story has opened my eyes to the dangers that are out there. I was not aware of the new ways that preteens and teens are now finding to get high. Againg thank you for sharing your story.

Name:
Jodi
Location:
Colorado, USA
Email:
wayofthewitch@comcast.net

Comments
May the Goddess hold her in her arms, making a safe trip to Summerland. I am sending this to my teenage grandduaghter. Lighting a candle and sending energies to you. Blessings, Jodi

Name:
Tina
Location:
South Carolina
Email:

Comments
I am so very sorry for the loss of this beautiful young lady. I cannot even begin to imagine what her family and friends must be going thru. Please know that this website has opened and will continue to open many peoples eyes. As the Mother of a 13 year old boy, I thank you. May Kaitlyn rest in peace <><

Name:
Ashley
Location:
Chicago
Email:

Comments
Kaitlyn is in a much better place now. I will keep her promise and remember her story forever. God bless.

Name:
Mary
Location:
Ohio
Email:
MBryt1@bex.net

Comments
Cheri and family - I am so sorry to hear of your loss. Your daughter is a beautiful young woman who left this world before her time. I hope, through your efforts, other families will not have to suffer the same pain you are experiencing. God grant you peace of mind - my thoughts and prayers are with you.

Name:
Queenbee
Location:
HomeTalk
Email:

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To all who had the pleasure of knowing Kaitlyn, I am truly sorry for your loss. The loss of a young life is especially sad as their life will no longer be able to complete the circle of life as God intended. Hopefully, Katilyn did not die in vain and her memory and story will prevent other young lives from making this same mistake. Blessings and peace to all who are in pain over the loss of Kaitlyn.

Name:
EmsMom
Location:
WA State
Email:
souffoue@comcast.net

Comments
I am so sorry to hear about your loss. It is such a tragic thing to happen to such a vivacious young woman. I am saving this site and when my dd is old enough I will be showing her this.

Name:
Sapphire
Location:
Boston
Email:

Comments
I am so sorry for your loss...though hard to see now, everyone has a purpose, from the messages below, your Kaitlyn fulfilled her purpose...A beauty of a person who's life will live on by others...you have my sympathies

Name:
Emerson
Location:
Kansas
Email:
syd61@hotmail.com

Comments
I know this hurts but I'm glad you are doing it.

Name:
R.A.T.
Location:
HTE
Email:

Comments
I have read Kaitlyn's story and Promise. She seems like a lively and lovely young woman. I mourn your loss. Please accept my condolences. I have known too many people with addictions whether to illegal drugs, RX meds or alcohol. I hope that Kaitlyn's story can help with those that look at this type of experimenting with such casualness and see that it can lead to death so easily. If they cannot help themselves now I know it will be more difficult as time goes on...becoming more and more of an addiction that they can not conquer. Bless those that are using Kaitlyn's promise as the gift it is meant to be and hopefully to more as time goes on.

Name:
Lisa (bandit)
Location:
idaho
Email:

Comments
I am so sorry for your loss. I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers.

Name:
Feistydee
Location:
PA
Email:

Comments
So sorry for your loss. She was a beautiful girl and now she is a beautiful Angel. This is a wonderful tribute to her, hugggggs McSteff.

Name:
Tammy
Location:
Florida
Email:
blondey040300@yahoo.com

Comments
I heard about Kaitlyn thru 2Peas and I am so thankful for this wewbsite. I hope that parents and kids will read this and be as affected as I am. Kaitlyn I didnt know you but from everything I have read you were a wonderful woman and I hope that you can rest peacefully knowing that other kids will be saved from this terrible thing. Hugs to Kaitlyns family.

Name:
Autumnjoy
Location:
Home Talk
Email:

Comments
Kaitlyn died on my anniversary...I had no idea ((McSteff))

Name:
Susan
Location:
Alliance NE
Email:
scrapnsusan@yahoo.com

Comments
So sorry for your loss. Hope this site helps in the healing process for your family.

Name:
Judith Krippel
Location:
The Woodlands HIgh School
Email:
jkrippel@conroeisd.net

Comments
Kaitlyn did not die in vain. As a counselor at TWHS, we have seeen many lives changed forever because of her tragic death. Many students came to report drug pushers and abusers. They came pleading for help with their own drug abuse problems and have vowed never again to fall into that trap. Five have committed to substance abuse treatment centers. Kaitlyn will remain foremost in our hearts with her legacy which lives on. Her loss has made a profound difference in the lives of so many students. We want to memorialize her during red ribbon week in October at our school's program. Our prayers are with her family and friends.

Name:
Tatante
Location:
Katy, TX
Email:
kaitlynspromise@sbcglobal.net

Comments
I love you sweetie. You've been heavy on my mind tonight. Sarah sent you a pink balloon. She said all she wants is a rainbow since she can't get you back. I miss you, Sweet Pea.

Name:
Josie
Location:
Tn
Email:
star6_18@hotmail.com

Comments
If this reaches just one child then Kaitlyn will have not been forgotten.

Name:
Cheryl
Location:
Sunset, Louisiana
Email:

Comments
CHERI, THANK YOU VERY MUCH FOR PASSING THIS WEBSITE ALONG TO OTHER PARENTS AS MYSELF, I HAVE TALKED TO MY KIDS ABOUT THIS ALREADY, THANKS TO YOU. I KNOW YOU DO NOT KNOW ME BUT I'M ALWAYS HERE TO LISTEN TO YOU, PLEASE KNOW THAT THEY HAVE MILLIONS OF PEOPLE OUT THERE TO TALK TO TOO IN CASE I'M NOT AROUND THAT DAY, BUT REMEMBER I'M THERE ALWAYS JUST AN E-MAIL AWAY, OUR DEEPEST SYMPATHY GOES OUT TO YOU AND YOUR FAMILY......... KIDS, TEENS AND ADULTS PLEASE IF YOU ARE DOING THAT STUFF PLEASE STOP IT NOW, IT CAN HAPPEN TO YOU EVEN THOUGH YOU SAY IT WON'T LIFE IS TOO SHORT FOR THAT STUPIDY, IT CAN HAPPEN TO YOU, NEVER DOUBT IN YOUR MIND IT WON'T........IT CAN, NOW THROW IT ALL OUT AND START A NEW AND FRESH LIFE. DO IT FOR YOURSELF AND FOR OTHERS AROUND THAT CARES FOR YOU........ STOP NOW!!! IT CAN HAPPEN TO YOU..... STOP AND LISTEN!!!!!!!!!!!!! "OUR DEEPEST SYMPATHY TO THE VALLERY FAMILY"

Name:
Melanie Davidson
Location:

Email:
melaniedavidson@hughes.net

Comments
I'm a friend of Bill and Loretta Hickox. I'm so sorry for your loss. I'm going to send this webpage to my sons to have children. The oldest turns 13 on Sunday and I want them to read this and to be aware of what can go on right in their own homes. Thanks for bringing this to the attention of many unaware parents and grandparents.

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I know about Kaitlyn because her grandmother, Faye Landry, was not only my husband's secretary for many years she was a friend. We love her dearly. I have a 14 year old son we told him about what happened to Kaitlyn. He said he understood how dangerous this and other chemicals can be. I pray he uses this knowledge when it's time. The American community is very close here in Aberdeen. I will share this website with other families at the International School. Please know that Kaitlyn's promise has reached across the globe and has made an impact. Deepest sympathies, Glenda, Jacques, and Jacques Jr.

Name:
Rae
Location:

Email:

Comments
Bleh, I pressed enter on accident =D But I want to say, my mom and dad have never been able to confront me about me using and it wasn't till you passed did I really want to stop. I want to stop for my family, my daugther, and for me. It's been hard, but I've gotten through the rough part. I hope this can inspire more people to stop. Thanks for helping me last year. Always making me feel welcome in first period and helping me through the crap I went through. You were truly a good friend Thanks girl.

Name:
Rae
Location:
Texas
Email:

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Im so glad I had transfered back the week before you passed. I knew there was a reason to go back to CP and I had feeling if I hadnt of gone back I would've regreted it and now I know what it was. Very few people know, I'm a big user. I popped oxycontin, hydrocodone, adderall and many other things. I would mix pills and drink alcohol with them because I didn't care. I even drove my mom to pick up food when I was all messed up and lucky for us my mom noticed and took the wheel.

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Kaitlyn... i love you baby!!... and i will not let you die n vain.... Kaitlyn's Promise... i will live up to it.... I Promise You.... VAllery Family... I LOVE ALL OF YALL!

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Location:

Email:

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I am touched by this website. I am a mom of 5 kids - 3 early twenties and 2 still are teens. I am posting the site address to all my teen friends on myspace. Thank you for bringing this to our attention. God Bless! Linda Bumgardner Sneads Ferry, NC

Name:
shelby
Location:
twhs
Email:
shelby.lc@sbcglobal.net

Comments
i love kaitlyn, she was amazing! she brought everybody happiness..you could be having the worst day and all it took was a friendly smile from her and you were feeling better already. she didnt deserve to die, but her dying opened everyones eyes that were doing drugs and they all stopped...for kv's sake...she did not die in vain...she will be loved and missed greatly and im sure thought of everyday!

Name:
Kaitlyn's Mom
Location:
Spring TX
Email :
cheri.vallery@gmail.com
Comments
Kaitlyn was my best friend and I miss her more that anyone could even understand -- we are not courageous or brave because if given the chance I would trade places with all of you. I just hope that her death is a wake up for all of the teens that think that this will not happen to them. Much love baby girl -- I miss you.

Name:
Cheryl
Location:
Louisiana
Email :
thelavergnesjkcr@aol.com

Comments
Hello, I never knew Kaitlyn at all, sorry to hear the loss of your daughter, such a young age, my daughter's name is Kaitlyn as well, I just could not imagine that happening, Our prayers and thoughts are with the family. By her picture she is just too cute and sweet. Our Condolences is with all her family and friends!

Comments
I read about this on 2peas. I am sorry for your loss, and my thoughts are with all of you who knew and loved Kaitlyn. If just one other can give up an addiction then it not have been in vain.

Name:
penny
Location:
boyce, la
Email:
pmboykinrn@yahoo.com
Comments
I hope this stops another death,I am so sorry for your loss. You are doing the right thing

Name:
Amy Barber
Location:
Iowa
Email:
Comments
So nice of you to reach out and help other families that might be struggling with this! My prayers are with your family for healing and also for raising awareness!

Name:
Jackie Carranco
Location:
North Carolina
Email:
jlhoward59@cox.net
Comments
It has made me start putting my sprays away. I have grandkids and I don't want them to get into them. My children are all grown and have children of their own to worry about, so I don't think I need worry about them. I will say a pray for the family.

Name:
Jen & kaylem
Location:
the woodlands, tx
Email:
mansonfan001@yahoo.com
Comments
Kaitlyn theres so many things i want to say but i cant find the right words all i know is you defintly saved all of our friends. and i thank you for that. i love & miss you Love, Jen & Kaylem LOVE YOU GIRLFRIEND!!!

Name:
Debbie Coats
Location:
OKC OK
Email:
sprtsnannie@sbcglobal.net
Comments
So many teenager do this kind of stuff and don't think that they are doing anything wrong. they say the are not doing drugs and that it can't hurt them. I am here to tell you that that is a load of crap it can hurt them, it destorys your brain cells, brain cells in the end that will destory your life if you don't stop right this very minute . Teenagers listen to me, there is more to life, just because you are young does not mean you are invincicble. All it takes is, "I am only going to do it ONE more time and then I will quit," then the one more time turns into to weeks and months and then your parents are visting you in the emergency room from an overdose or worse yet because you have finally pushed the limit and got the ultimate high you have been looking for, now your parent will have to pick you up in the morgue.. STOP now, don't take that next huff, hit, pill. There are too many adults and peers out there who are there for you, who want to help you. Who have been where you are at and made it through only by the grace of God.. Who don't want you to take that next wrong step, find them, talk to them, get some help know, don't wait. Also know that God is always there, just fall on your knees, turn to Him, ask him to take this addiction away from you and give it to Him, he will bear you burdens

Name:
Colleen Jones
Location:
The woodlands
Email:
bbwbuty2003@yahoo.com
Comments
Kaitlyn touched my son joshua, And in that moment after her death he came clean about how deep his use of drugs was. He came clean to me..his mom. They hung out together and unfortunately, they also used together. Her death was a tragedy, but out of that tragedy i was given my son back to me..his road to recovery will be long and filled with peer pressure to use again..but whenever he gets to feeling like he wants to use..he turns to the shrine he built for her in his room and he asks her for the strength to say no.When he is at school..i go to her shrine and i thank her for the continued strength she gives to him..kaitlyn you will never be forgotten in our household..I have been talking to all of your friends kaitlyn..and i have made myself open for them to come to..i will help them get the help and support they need to stop using, this i do in your name...Big Momma

Name:
LUCY LAWS
Location:
HOUSTON,TEXAS
Email:
SWEETLUCY3352@SBCGLOBAL.NET
Comments
IT BROUGHT DEEP SORRY TO HEAR OF YOUR LOST OF A CHILD SO YOUNG. AND I HOPE HER PROMISE CAN BE OF HELP TO OTHER YOUNG PEOPLE. BECAUSE THEY ARE NOT ALONE. WE AS ADULDS ARE HERE AND GOOD LISTERNERS. GOD BLESS AND YOU ARE IN MY PRAYS..

Name:
MaryElla Wyszynski
Location:
NJ
Email:
purplerose613510@msn.com
Comments
Hope this brings awarness. And Can remind parents that we all need to get involed with our children and their friends.

Name:
Mary
Location:
Thibodaux
Email:
macmar@charter.net
Comments
I am a grandmother of 7 beautiful granddaughters. I am touched by Kaitlyn's Promise. Know that my prayers are for Kaitlyn and the family.

Name:
Kathy & JW Harrison
Location:
Lafayette, Louisiana
Email:
jerryharrison2@cox.net
Comments
We love you and are keeping you in our prayers daily. God has another ROSE in his garden looking our for all of left behind.

Name:
Mark Anderson
Location:
Whitesboro, Texas
Email:
mark.anderson2@halliburton.com
Comments
Steven Brook is our 13-year old son, and was a miracle-baby. I can't bear the thought of losing him to something so senseless just because I didn't think it could happen, that he wouldn't try it, or that I didn't take the time to talk to him about it. The promise has touched, and the commitment will be carried forward. Mark & Lynda Anderson

Name:
Ladyballplayer
Location:
Virginia
Email:
ladyballplayer@excite.com
Comments
To hear of such sadness is heart wrenching. I am happy that you were blessed with Kaitlyn for the short time she was on this Earth. Thank you allowing Kaitlyn to speak to us through this site and for reminding us about these dangers.

Name:
martha childs
Location:
Virginia
Email:
mch1550@yahoo.com
Comments
I heard of Kaitlyn through her aunt on the Home Talk message board. I am so sorry for your loss. Thank you so much for making the web site. I have 16 and 17 year old teens and had no idea of this dangerous practice. I will discuss it with them immediately. My prayers will continue with your family.

Name:
Anne Sheridan
Location:
Vancouver, WA
Email:
anneshrdn@yahoo.com
Comments
I'm so sorry for your lost. I saw the posts on 2peas and am shocked this was the cause. I think it's brave to share this with everyone in hopes to save others. Thank you so much for the information and I wish your family healing through this horrible time.

Name:
frank v.
Location:
Rainbow house detox
Email:
fvirden@dhh.la.gov
Comments
its important to know what the kids are doing these days. there are so many things that people use to get high. Many are not aware of the dangers or think that won't happen to me.

Name:
Julie Pettit
Location:
Ridgefield, WA
Email:

Comments
From Tim's little sister: My condolences for your entire family. I can not imagine the devastation of losing a child, especially to something like huffing. I pray that my four children are able to abstain from doing any types of drugs as all they do is hurt family. My prayers are with your family.

Name:
Bonnie
Location:
Pt Arthur, Texas
Email:
bonnieb166@aol.com
Comments
I am so sorry for you and your family. I have two very young children, and absolutely dread the day I have to start worrying about what they and their friends are up to. God be with you.

Name:
Angie Adams
Location:
Dothan, Alabama
Email:
aadams216@aol.com
Comments
I am in tears reading this site. Oh, how my heart aches for your family. I am so proud that you are directing your energy in a positive way...to increase awareness. Kaitlyn was someone you meet and feel like you've known her all your life. Precious girl with a sweet smile. Just know she is smiling down on you for all your efforts. Cheri, I'm only a phone call away.

Name:
Jamie
Location:
Denver, Colorado
Email:

Comments
What a wonderful tribute for a very special young woman. The links page is extremely helpful, too. Thank you, and God Bless.

Name:
Dawn Briggs
Location:

Email:
dawnannbriggs@yahoo.com
Comments
What a beautiful child. You would have to wonder what was going thru a childs mind that would make them want to "dust". I am not familiar with this but I hope your site lets everyone know what is going on. Best wishes with it Dawn

Comments
I was in shock, I have several kids some grown some very young but 2 that are teanagers, and I had no idea of this stuff and I so thought I was hip to things like this! This has been a major wake up call for me! I intend to tell everyone I know and send this link to them also! Thank you for this page and making this subject known to me. Im so sorry for your loss and defintly intend to help keep Kaitlyn's death from being for not!!

Name:
Monica T
Location:
New Jersey
Email:

Comments
I forwarded this to everyone. It is urgent to get the message out to parents. As parents, we need to step up and pay attention to EVEYTHING your teens are doing. My experience has been this: If you think your kid is doing something wrong....you are probably right. Follow your instincts! Also- if you are the parent of a teen and think they are not exposed to all of this...YOU ARE WRONG!!!!

Name:
Tammy
Location:
Virginia

Comments
I'm so very sorry you lost your daughter. What a beautiful girl. Nothing I can say will ever ease your pain, but I just wanted you to know that I have thought about your family a great deal since she passed away. Thank you so much for sharing her story with the rest of us. It may prevent another beautiful child from dying. HUGS to you all.

Name:
Connie
Location:
Oklahoma
Comments
I am so sorry to hear of this! My aunt used to sniff paint, gas, or whatever. She got off of the stuff a long time ago(I am very proud of her for doing this) but she still suffers from having done it. When she gave birth to her daughter, she had a hard time breathing. Now she is in her 50's and has a really hard time with everything. I will keep Kaitlyn's family in my thoughts and prayers. And HEY JENNA, keep up the faith and just take one day at a time! You can do it because you are stronger than you think! I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers also!

Name:
Silvia
Location:
Texas
Comments
Sorry for you loss please know that you will be in my prayers. I comend you for your bravery in making your pain so public it has to be so difficult. From reading the comments it is very obvious that by doing so you have helped others. Thank You.

Name:
von vallery
Location:
pineville
Comments
I sent this to all my people at work. Thanks Steff for such a good job. Love Von

Name:
Kristi Waggener
Location:
Pineville, LA
Comments
Hi, Just wanted to let you know that you are in our prayers! I am a friend of Vons and we have been praying for yall since we heard the tragic news! We work hard attempting to help suffering addicts but, we need all the help we can get! Addiction is such a powerful disease! God Bless You!

Name:
Kristi
Location:

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Name:
Kristi Waggener
Location:
Pineville, LA
Comments
Hey, I'm a friend of Vons and wanted yall to know that you are in ur prayers! We work hard to work with suffering addicts but, this disease is very powerful! We need all the help we can get!

Name:
S Henry
Location:
Texas
Comments
Wow! Thank you for sharing this information. I have children and I had no idea that someone could get high with this. Thanks Again, May God be with you and with him you will be comforted. He understands all pain. Be Blessed!

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Location:

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Hugs and prayers for your family. It takes a lot of courage to do what you are doing and I will be talking with my kids today again about the dangers of any kind of drug abuse. Better to share than suffer the loss of a family member or friend.

Name:
heather kilgore
Location:
Lumberton, Texas
Comments
I'm so sorry for your loss but I want to thank you for informing me of this dangerous fad. I have two sons and had never heard of it. I plan on educating myself so that I will understand how to prevent this from happening to others. God Bless you and your whole family, Heather

Name:
Kaye Farr
Location:
Nederland, Tx.
Comments
This is only the second time I've heard of this. Thank you for having the courage to share this story. I will pass it on to my loved ones. My prayers go out to Kaitlyn's family and friends.

Name:
Janet
Location:
Montreal, Quebec
Comments
God bless you for having the courage to share your ordeal. I have to wonder why kids don't believe us when we're telling them of dangers such as these. I think we (society) are letting them down somewhere by not being emphatic with our warnings. I will definately talk about your blessed Kaitlyn's tragedy to the young people in my life ! Thank You

Name:
Lesley Dagenais
Location:
Fergus,Ontario,Canada
Comments
I knew about "'huffing". I didn't know it was also called "dusting"....good to know...my kids aren't old enough yet but knowledge is the key ....right!!!!!

Name:
Sue
Location:
Texas
Comments
Thank you for making me, as a mom of a teen, aware of this danger. I have NEVER heard of this! I am so sorry for you loss. Thank you for sharing your story. You may save many lives! Your family is in my prayers. God Bless.

Name:
Tracey Blackwell
Location:
Red River Treatment Center
Comments
I will keep you all in my prayers.

Comments
You are all in my thoughts. ((((((hugs))))) to all of you. She was so beautiful.

Comments
I have 14 yr old twins boy and girl, i can't imagine going threw that. My heart and prayers go out to the family for there loss.

Name:
Tatante
Location:
Texas
Comments
I love you, Sweet Pea!

Name:
Carol
Location:
GA
Comments
I found out about Kaitlyn from the 2 Peas in a Bucket message board. Although my kids are grown now, my husband and I did go through having a child who was abusing drugs and inhalants. He is clean now but I understand the dangers of inhalants to young teens in particular. It is so sad that they just don't understand the consequences of abusing could mean death. To Kaitlyn's family, I pray for peace for you and healing over time. God bless you.

Name:
Stevie Lebeda
Location:
Houston, Texas
Comments
I may not have known Kaitlyn, but the tragedy broke my heart. I went home after learning of her death and I spoke to my children. I asked them to PLEASE come to me if anything like this is going on with them or their friends. I explained it is better for the friend to be mad for them telling, than for them to feel guilt for not speaking up and losing a friend foolishly. I do not wish upon any parent to learn of this in the way that Kaitlyn's parents had to.

Name:
Dianne Doyle
Location:
Groves, TX
Comments
This is just another example of how easily it is for children/teenagers to try something like this without any knowledge of what it could do to them. They see, or have heard of, their friends inhaling these products and think it is so "cool." Any of us can have relatives or friends who will lose their lives without any hint that this could be their final act on earth. It is important to educate everyone on the consequences. May God Bless Kaitlyn's family. You are in our prayers.

Name:
Joy
Location:
Pleasanton, CA

Comments
I learned of Kaitlyn's tragedy through 2Peas. Hopefully this website and Kaitlyn's story will save another life. My heart breaks for Kaitlyn and her family.

Name:
Teresa
Location:
Ohio

Comments
I learned of Kaitlyn's death through 2peas. I am so sorry for the pain you are going through. Nearly 30 years ago when I was in high school, a friend of mine did the same thing. Prayers to you, your friends, and family. Prayers to Kaitlyn. Kids--please tell an adult if you know this is happening.

Name:
Candy (cajuncandy from 2Peas)
Location:
Texas

Comments
Just wanted to let you know that your family is still in my prayers. I lost a dear friend in my early 20's to dusting, it was so tragic. I will continue to hold your family up in my prayers!!

Name:
Joan
Location:
SD

Comments
My condolences.....,my daughter and I have spoken against inhalants for the past 5 years. We were lucky and we still have our beautiful daughter. It is a hard addiction to break, but there is help out there.

Name:
Kristen
Location:
MA

Comments
Thank you for sharing Kaitlyn's story. I am so sorry for your tragic loss. Your website inspired me to talk to my ten year old stepson about the dangers of huffing and other drugs. I never thought I'd see the day when I'd have to talk to a 10 year old about drugs. But we too have these things laying around the house, and I know not talking about it could lead to tragedy.

Name:
Sam
Location:
Arkansas

Comments
I just wanted to express my sincere sympathy. I can not Imagine what it must feel like. My heart goes out to the entire family, But especially to Kaitlyn's Parents and Brother. Thank you for having the strength to put this warning out there and share your story while the pain is still so fresh.

Name:
stefanie--2ps--grate
Location:
Rhode Island

Comments
My heart breaks reading this page. I have passed on this message and I hope those who I sent it to will do the same.

Name:
courtney kimey face
Location:
the woodlands

Comments
kaitlyn was one of my really good friends. i just want to say that i love her so much and i'm here for any kids or anyone for that matter if they need help or someone to talk to. IF YOU'RE DOING DRUGS... PLEASE DONT KEEP IT A SECRET ANYMORE. i will live by kaitlyn's promise... and thats the way it should be. i love you jeremy! you're amazing. be strong for yourself and for her! C K F

Name:
Michelle Coonen
Location:
East Bend, NC

Comments
My heart goes out to the family and friends of Kaitlyn. My stepson was an abuser of huffing whatever he could get his hands on, but he was one of the lucky ones, he survived. From gasoline to paint cans to white out....kids just don't get it. It's so sad! Again, my thoughts and prayers are with all of Kaitlyn's family and friends. May God bless you with the strength to get through this.

Name:
Shelbee warren
Location:
the woodland

Comments
who ever mad this is very sweet and im glad they did

Name:
Sarah McGee
Location:
Katy, TX

Comments
Kaitlyn, I really miss you. Please don't smoke and please come home. I miss you a lot. I love you a lot. I love you Kaitlyn and Jeremy and Tauntie and Parain. Love, Sarah

Name:
sad your gone
Location:
texas

Comments
We love you and it shouldnt have ended like this.everyone learn from it

Name:
Jen
Location:
Austin, Texas

Comments
Another 2peas mom who is just so deeply saddened by this tragedy. May this blessing comfort you.. http://www.andiesisle.com/Blessings.html

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Location:

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Oh my GOD I am so sorry for your loss

Name:
Becca
Location:
The Woodlands

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i met kaitlyn this past summer and i can honestly say i havent met somebody as CRAZY as her.i loved her from the moment i met her and even though i didnt know her as well as i know other people, her death effected me greatly.i quit doing drugs and smoking cigarettes and i feel so much better.i miss her so much and i know that she would want everyone to stop doing the bad things they're doing.

Name:
Tami
Location:
Kentucky

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I am so sorry this is what happened to Kaitlyn. I warn my kids every day of such things. Every story I hear of and every bad thing I have to deal with in my ER. Having been a respiratory therapist since 1984 I have seen alot. I hope this story will prevent at least one more death. Your family has been in my thoughts and prayers the past 2 weeks. Tami

Name:
Jessica
Location:
Georgia

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I read about Kaitlyn on a message board I frequent, I am so sorry for your loss :(. I also had no idea that people did that with keyboard duster...thank you for sharing her story, it opened my eyes. Again, my prayers are with your family.

Name:
Jennifer
Location:
The wood;ands

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Kaitlyn my Barbie now ur in heaven n i love you and miss seeing you at school! Love yah BARBIE=]

Name:
Jenny
Location:
Grapevine, Tx

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I am so sorry fo ryour loss. As a single parent of teenagers this really hits home.

Name:
Candy Bronish
Location:
Houston Texas

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My prayers and hopes that this will touch kids lives and make a difference. God bless you Kaitlyn we will see you singing with the angels...

Name:
sarah loeffler
Location:
across th street from the vallery's

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Kaitly was awsome we used to be best friends but then as she grew older we split apart she was nice and sweet.Its a tragedy for he death to have happend.We will all miss her.

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Well i first met Kaitlyn througha friend. We were going to the same A/A program that my friend introduced me to.. There was a weekend called FRIO weekend. held by the A/A program and for lifeway kids. Thats when me and kaitlyn first got close. She had been sober for a year and she was helping me through my sobriety! She was amazing with her words and with her encouragement.. After Frio we kept in touch for a while... but not as well as i would have liked. The summer of 2006 we began hanging out agian. DOing the wrong thing together... Things started getting out of hand and it scared me a little so a week before kaitlyns death i became sober.. I have now been sober for 3 and a half weeks and i will continue to stay this way TO KAITLYNS PROMISE

Name:
Jenna Goddard
Location:
The woodlands

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Another way Kaitlyn has touched my life is for as long as i can remember i have always wanted to be some sort of journalist. But ive always been to busy getting high or doing bad things to get my butt in gear to write things. < wich is what i love to do. This past week i wrote an article for the woodlands high school, school paper " the calodonian" on Kaitlyns Promise... because it inspired me..... and my article made it into the school news paper wich should be out next friday the 15th of sept. i finally feel like i have accomplished somthing

Name:
Mindy
Location:
Austin, Texas

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This has been tragic for Kaitlyns family, fiends and people like me that never had the opportunity to meet such a beautiful young lady. They say things like this happen for a reason. Reasons that most of us here on earth just can't explain. My prayers go out to her family and her friends. Please never be afraid to tell on someone that could cause harm to themselves. I had a friend that passed away at 40 yrs old, last month from an over dose and no one, even at our age had the guts to tell on him.... Keep the love in all of your hearts and sometime the right things to do in life are the hardest. In time you that are young will see that life is very short and when we reflect we should have no regrets of doing the right things in life... GOD, will be there for each of you - and my prayers will be there too.

Name:
Cindy McElyea
Location:
Dallas

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I am so sorry to hear about Kaitlyn's death. I do not know you nor did I know her but it is such a tragedy that something like this should happen. I pray that God will Bless you all with peace and love.

Name:
Amie Straiton-
Location:
Spring, TX

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I am soo sorry for your Loss, I have 3 children myself and cant even begin to imagine your pain. I hope and pray that you will heal and continue to Honor Kaitlyn as the beautiful teenager she was ! God Bless you !! Amie Straiton Spring, TX

Name:
Janie Roman
Location:
Kerrville, TX.

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Name:
cami
Location:
Virginia

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I am so sorry for your loss! What courage you have to help others to become aware of this problem. I had never even heard of it. Thank you.

Name:
Lori
Location:
Texas

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I'm so sorry for your loss. I will talk to my 14 year old about this dangerous practice. Thank you for sharing the information.

Name:
Jeremy *[Star[RR]]*
Location:
Kait's computer...

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Hey guys, this is jeremy, kait's bro... you guys have no idea how much you need to learn to tell someone about a friend or loved ones drug usage... if i had any idea i could just tell my parents and it wouldnt have happened i would have done it... id rather have her never speak to me again then never be able to see her again... if you know some one who is using and you dont feel like you can tell their parents you can tell me, or another friend... my email is livndien4christ9@yahoo.com or myspace - www.myspace.com/effena <3 *[Star[RR]]* RIP BABY SIS!!!

Name:
Michelle
Location:
Port Coquitlam, BC

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This is such a tragic story. I have never heard of dusting before I came to this site. Now that I am aware of it, I will be sure to share it with others. I am so sorry for you loss and my thoughts will be with all affected by Kaitlyn's death.

Name:
Sue
Location:
Miami,OK

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HI, just read about this thru a link on my scrapbooking list message. It's so sad to read about this and my prayers go out to you. More people need to know about this 'dusting danger' to prevent more tragedies like this. Also like the song on site,but don't know the name of it or who's singing it. Can you tell me? thanks

Name:
dana
Location:

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I read about this on 2peas. I just wanted to let you know that I have been praying for your family. GOd Bless you all!!!

Name:
Debbie
Location:
Georgia

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What a beautiful website. I'm sorry for your family's loss. I think it is a wonderful tribute to Kaitlyn's memory to spread the word about "dusting". I will pray for all of you.

Name:
Mendy Mitrani
Location:
The Woodlands, TX

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Kaitlyn was a sweet and beautiful teen. She had many talents including scrapbooking. She will be in the hearts of her family and friends...

Kaitlyn Vallery Foundation is at 501(c)3 corporation who's mission is to bring awareness to the dangers of drug use and the long reaching affect of your choices. We also provide free drug screens and offer scholarships to local students.