Men are turned on by simple pleasures, wear sexy lingerie, be the first to initiate sex, and plan time for the two of you to spend alone together each week.

Men usually become more affectionate and loving after sex, while women need to have their romance prior to sex. Women can take advantage of the moment and enjoy the extra love and affection that their husbands give them after sex. Wait until after sex to ask your husband to rub your back or make your favorite treat. This is a good time to have your favorite loving talk.

FOR MEN - Learn what women need to easily warm up for sex. Women need to be charmed and romanced. They enjoying talking and snuggling before sex. Do the things with your wife that she enjoys to warm her up for the moment. Take her to her favorite restaurant. Slow dance in front of the fire and tell her how beautiful she is.

FOR BOTH - Understand that men and women are different and have different needs. Both men and women should make an effort to please each other because sex is beneficial to both. Having sex is good for everyone mentally and physically. Having a great sex life is one of the best things that you can do for your marriage. Enjoy life more beginning with the most important person in your life, your spouse.

Make a point to spend more time with your spouse just enjoying each other. If you are busy, take the time to have a date night at least once per week and make sure that you have plenty of privacy. Also take the time to be romantic and just snuggle on the couch instead of racing to the bedroom.

About Me

My paternal grandparents were both born in Cardiff, Wales, my father was born and raised on the island of Aruba and immigrated to America when he was 15. My maternal grandmother was born in America to Italian and English immigrants. My maternal grandfather's family has been in California since before the goldrush. So I am both a first generation American and native born American. My husband is part Iroquois Indian.