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February 9, 2011

Lately I have been talking about how much Reagan has changed since she has come home. Eventually I plan to do a post about some of the developmental and emotional progress we have made with her, but today I thought I would talk about Sarah.

I look at Sarah today and feel like she has grown up so much over these last few months. Becoming a big sister has definitely matured her. You may not be able to see it in her photos, but we can see it in her actions.

We really thought that she was going to have a difficult time giving up her role as the baby of this family. We hit a few bumps those first few weeks, we noticed she was trying to seek out some additional attention and I am sure you all remember the little TOY INCIDENT but she got over all of it rather quickly and really seemed to love that she was now officially the "Big Sister"

Sarah has really taken Reagan under her wing and has begun to show her the way. Even with a three year age gap, they play and get along so well. On a few occasions as I was getting Reagan ready for bed, Sarah asked me to let Reagan stay up so they could play a little longer and I thought it was a true indicator of how much Sarah really loved and adored her new sister.

The girls have not been separated since they have met.They have been together almost every waking hour of every single day. Pat and I thought long and hard about sending Sarah to preschool this year. We ultimately decided not to send her so that the girls would go to the babysitter together.

I am so THANKFUL we made the decision that we did because it has really allowed the girls to form an incredible bond. After having Reagan by her side these last few months, I think Sarah would seriously be lost without her and vice versa.

"A sister is a gift to the heart, a friend to the spirit, a golden thread to the meaning of life"~Isadora James~

I tried to attach this video to FaceBook last night and for some reason I could not get it to upload, so I figured I would just include it in this post. You can only see Reagan in the video, but what I love about this little clip are the giggles that you hear from both of the girls. You have to listen closely to hear them because there is a lot of loud splish splashing going on!

Note: For those interested in the upcoming photography classes/workshops that will be part of theHalf the Sky project, I will be posting the details Friday morning and enrollment will officially be open. Class space is limited and I will be filling on a first come, first serve basis. There is also going to be an exciting giveaway tied to this class offering so make sure you stop back to see what it is all about!

I love the relationship between them and it will only go stronger and stronger! I often think that the age difference between Jacob and Jenny hinders their fun but it doesn't...the laughter that comes out of the play room sometimes just puts me in a puddle of tears! Loved that video!! Laughter is so good for the soul!

Wonderful! And the video clip is the icing on the cake!Sarah has grown up, stepped up to her role, but it's because you've helped her and shown her the way,been sensitive to her needs and let her know that you love her no less for Reagan's arrival.Did you ever make it to the Nutcracker?My youngest two had 3 years + 3 days between them, and they had so much fun playing together in the same way!

What a wonderful site to see your two girls enjoying sisterhood. You & Pat made the right decision to keep them together for the first year. The bond they have made will last a lifetime. What an adorable video....loved hearing their squeals of joy!

I have to admit.... I have watched that video clip at least 30 times and it almost brings tears to my eyes.....especially if you leave the background music playing while you watch it. I keep thinking about that somber scared little baby we met in China and to see her full of joy and laughter now that she has adjusted to her new life just makes me SO INCREDIBLY HAPPY. We are so blessed.....all of us.

Mimi, no....unfortunately we did not go to the Nutcraker this year. I was not ready for all that was facing us when we returned from China....two birthdays, thanksgiving, and christmas....plus the return to work. Poor planning on my part....shame on me. Next year for sure:) You have such a great memory!!!

That's what sisters are for! The fighting over toy...or clothes, shoes, etc...will happen from time to time. But the love is always there :) So happy Sarah is adjusting to her role as big sister so wonderfully!

First, I LOVE the colors you chose for the girls to wear. They look gorgeous together! Secondly, what a blessing to see Sarah embrace her role as big sister!!I pray that she and Reagan will always be inseparable!

Being the big sister has it's up and down days in our house. My kids are 3 and 5 and some days my 5 year old daughter embraces being the big sister and some days she wants to back track and be the baby :) Wonderful pics!

Adorable! My 11 yr old daughter loves to "check in" on your blog! :) She adores all the photos of the girls. Those tu tus are tutu cute!ps she's gonna love that splashy video when she gets home from school today.

What a precious post and beautiful images captured! Sarah has bloomed so beautifully and my EK has as well! She too has become more of a big sister than I thought she was capable of... isn't it wonderful to see them become so close and love each other so much!!! Our girls have been together the whole time too and it is absolutely wonderful!Blessings and Joy!!!

It's been a long time since I participated in b/w wed although I check your blog all the time to see your sweet family. I'm so glad to hear Sarah is adjusting well in her role as a big sister. Reagan is such a doll! I have two girls and there is nothing sweeter than watching the two of them play together.

HEY LISA!! It's been a long time since I have joined you guys on B&W Wednesday & I've missed you!! Sarah is such a sweet big sister & looks like she is lovin' her new role! We need to chat & catch up very soon!!

I was just thinking of Sarah this week and was wondering how she was doing with being the "big sister". Pictures speak a thousand words. She looks as if she takes that job very seriously and loves that sweet baby of hers! SOOOO sweet! I just pray they remain to be the best of friends for a long time!!! Blessed, my friend!

The pictures and video are precious! Both girls are adorable, and it is so nice to follow the wonderful relationship that is blossoming between them. I look forward to your next post abour Reagan's adjustment!

Lisa, no shame on you at all re Nutcracker. I'm sorry I mentioned it now, but was amazed that you might have been able to fit it inwith all you've had going on.And, now I'm amazed and in awe of your organisation, talent and generosity re the photography classes. Only getting online at this late hour (23.49), but delighted they've sold out. You are fantastic!

It is so wonderful to see the big sister and little sister together in these beautiful and heartwarming photos! Our Anne has a big sister, too! Her name is Katie and they absolutely love each other - when they are not fighting, that is! LOL!!!!