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REAL BOYS:
Rescuing Our Sons from the Myths of Boyhood

"REAL BOYS is an important book...One that the parent of every boy should read."
--Robert Bly, author of Iron John

"This book does for boys and men what important books have done to help us better understand girls and women. Anyone who lives or works with boys and men should read William Pollack's revealing REAL BOYS."
--Gail Sheehy, author of Passages

"A thoughtful and sensitive discussion of contemporary American boyhood that calls upon the best of the psychoanalytic tradition and offers us a wisdom that comes from a long clinical tradition."
--Dr. Robert Coles, author of The Moral Intelligence of Children

"Just as Reviving Ophelia opened our eyes to the challenges faced by adolescent girls, Real Boys helps us hear and respond to the needs of growing boys. Illuminating, exciting, and courageous, this book should be read by everyone concerned about boys. It is a beacon of hope and a gift to all of us.
--Judith V. Jordan, Ph.D., assistant professor in psychiatry, Harvard Medical School