Getting pregnant without partners permission?

I brought this up in my birth board months ago.. Because someone I knew did this... But a mutual friend updated me on the girl I know's situation, so I thought it would be interesting to ask in here.

The debate question: do you think it a girls responsibility to notify her sexual partner if she is intentionally trying to conceive... Or do you think it's HIS responsibility to protect himself regardless and she holds no blame as it is HER body?

Poll question is your own PERSONAL experience.. Not your opinion.

When I talked about this in my birth board, the responses were really different than I assumed they would be, and the opinions were interesting.

i never intentionally got pregnant w/o my partners knowledge; however, I did get pregnant becaues I had sex & wasn't on BC & left him in charge of the condoms. he wore them, I just wonder if theyw ere expire, he didn't put them on right, t ook them off in the middle ofs ex. I have absolutely no idea, but some how I ended up pregnant. I was debating on leaving therealtionship & I think he knew it, so part of me thinks he did something intentionally.

I also knew a guy who didn't want his wife to leave him (she was talking about seperation) so, he put hole in her diapraghm & she ended up pregnant.

When you say partner I am going to assume relationship. Within a relationship BC is usually discussed. If a woman says "I have no problem taking the pill/the shot/whatever" then IMO a man has every reason to trust her, considering they are in a relationship. If they decide to use condoms then it is up to him, and the woman has every right to expect he will use them 100%.

Outside of being in a relationship it is on each individual to protect themselves. There is no agreement on what you will do as a couple, you have individual responsibility.

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Mom of two wonderful kiddos, turning the page and starting on a new chapter.