What is my Fate? My Destiny?

Don't buy into the "bull" that you are "fated" to experience what your horoscope "predicts" for you; for your "Fate" is the consequence (meaning: "what follows in sequence") of your own past choices. Your "Future" is the consequence of your present choices. You always have Free Will to make your own choices in life; but with the freedom comes a responsibility to live with the consequences.

A wise astrologer once said, "Character is Destiny" - meaning that the character you were born with (and can mold through your choices in life) is what influences the choices you make - and thus determines the consequences they lead to.