tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8218001543032204975.post6980144668616464455..comments2019-05-08T12:43:12.068-05:00Comments on Shay Jenny: 7 Reasons Why You're Still a Single WomanUnknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger10125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8218001543032204975.post-36541661819276640942015-04-01T22:53:15.040-05:002015-04-01T22:53:15.040-05:00Hi Caribbean Queen,
I think that would fall under ...Hi Caribbean Queen,<br />I think that would fall under reason #6, because that&#39;s a major issue. At least now you know what you&#39;re doing wrong, and can make better choices in the future. I hope God will guide you in the right path. Thanks for stopping by. :)Heartmama Vihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12135131274445269235noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8218001543032204975.post-31219778808658580622015-04-01T22:44:07.298-05:002015-04-01T22:44:07.298-05:00Hi Ms. Single,
Yes this would be considered somewh...Hi Ms. Single,<br />Yes this would be considered somewhat fearful, but I totally understand why. With all the crazy people in the world, you can&#39;t trust any and everybody around your children. Some women are happily single, and that&#39;s awesome! True happiness can&#39;t be found in a man, only in God. Thanks for stopping by and leaving a comment. You are awesome!Heartmama Vihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12135131274445269235noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8218001543032204975.post-60210233384493954492015-03-30T22:04:15.607-05:002015-03-30T22:04:15.607-05:00Reason #8 You&#39;re attracted to the wrong type o...Reason #8 You&#39;re attracted to the wrong type of men.<br />If you like players or bums, you&#39;re going to be unlucky in love.Caribbean Queennoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8218001543032204975.post-42267267574959065222015-03-27T13:24:32.308-05:002015-03-27T13:24:32.308-05:00I&#39;m single because I choose to be. As a single...I&#39;m single because I choose to be. As a single parent , I can&#39;t trust any man around my two daughters. I guess that would be considered fearful, but I really don&#39;t think I need a man to complete me. Guys approach me all the time, and I shut them down. I don&#39;t have time for games, and I just feel men play too many games.Ms.Singlenoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8218001543032204975.post-22584531706216884212015-03-27T08:30:49.954-05:002015-03-27T08:30:49.954-05:00Hi Traveler,
This is so true. Sometimes after a wo...Hi Traveler,<br />This is so true. Sometimes after a woman is married, she &#39;lets herself go&#39;. When in actuality, this is the time she should glam it up, and be better than before. There is always room for improvement. I&#39;m glad you&#39;re making these improvement. God&#39;s speed in your relationship. Thanks for stopping by and commenting. You&#39;re fantastic! :)Heartmama Vihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12135131274445269235noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8218001543032204975.post-64417442083687125162015-03-27T08:13:19.186-05:002015-03-27T08:13:19.186-05:00Hi DITG,
Welcome back! I will try my best to addre...Hi DITG,<br />Welcome back! I will try my best to address everything you mentioned. No one wants to be told that they&#39;re single, because of themselves. And that&#39;s okay. Sometimes a woman can be drop dead gorgeous and still single, location and many other factors can play a part in this. <br /><br />I&#39;m sorry that you were deceived by a man, this has happened to me in the past. It&#39;s never a good feeling, but don&#39;t allow it to keep you bondage in fear. I did a lot of research, analyzed my experiences, and did some observation, and one of the things I realized, when relationships fail, the women had red flags about the man, even before she married him, yet ignored it. So before marrying a man, date him for a while. Truly get to know him. Find out his weaknesses, his past issues, learn his character(his history),...etc, because chances are the same flaws he has while dating you, or had in his past relationship, he will carry it into your relationship with him. So find a &#39;true man of God&#39;, lots of fakes going around, God will give you signs. Don&#39;t assume all church men are bad, but don&#39;t assume they&#39;re all good either.<br />To address your second point, you&#39;re not doing the looking, you are simply preparing yourself for the man that you deserve. If you don&#39;t work on the things mentioned above, you can attract the wrong types of men(wolves in sheep clothing). I believe a woman should be her absolute best self, to truly know her worth, and not settle. For instance, if a woman thinks she&#39;s ugly, and a man realizes her low self esteem, tells her she&#39;s beautiful, just to get in her knickers, you can see how wrong this can go. Now if that same woman, took care of herself, knew that she&#39;s beautiful inside and out, it will be hard for her to easily fall for someone that&#39;s all about manipulating her, for the wrong reasons. Yes you should dress to please yourself. But if I did that all the time, I&#39;d be in pajamas all day. Lol! There are so many good looking single women. Some of them are dressed to kill, and still single. I&#39;m not saying you should be dressed to kill. But you should dress to please the man you want to attract. If you wear mini dresses, with loads of cleavage exposed, you might just attract a sleaze bag. On the other hand, if you are more conservative, yet well put together, you will more than likely attract a stand up gentlemen. You don&#39;t need make-up and hair extensions to be attractive(he won&#39;t see you with all that on at home), but you should still take care of your body, look your best, feel your best, have a balanced amount of self confidence...etc. Because ultimately a man will only approach a woman that is attractive in his eyes, but if a woman is busy walking around with your hair a mess, smelling funky,clothes a mess... she will be overlooked. <br />I hope I cleared up some of your concerns. I pray that you will find a genuine man of God. Thanks again for stopping by and commenting. You&#39;re fabulous! :)Heartmama Vihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12135131274445269235noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8218001543032204975.post-1294712993637258992015-03-27T02:18:02.200-05:002015-03-27T02:18:02.200-05:00I gotta spruce up some of these things, because yo...I gotta spruce up some of these things, because your husband can still leave u and find some one better if you&#39;re lacking in these areas travelerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09097713431669548706noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8218001543032204975.post-57277078570914864262015-03-26T19:58:33.173-05:002015-03-26T19:58:33.173-05:00Hi again. This is quite the interesting subject yo...Hi again. This is quite the interesting subject you&#39;ve got here. I think that main issue for me is fear but the overwhelming sub-issue is lack o f trust. I just don&#39;t believe you man. Part of that stems from the fact that the &quot; man of God&quot; I was dating turned out to be just the &quot;man of FLESH&quot;&#39;, and he&#39;s not the only &quot;MOG&quot; doing dirt with various and sundry women. I know we&#39;re all human, needs etc. But if the men in the Church are acting this way, what is a girl to do? I guess I am a bit jaded. Another thing, the Bible says &quot;He that findeth a wife ....&quot; Since this is the case, what, if any, looking should we as women be doing? Finally, I dress to please me. However, when I take a little extra time and gussy myself up, someone always says &quot;you looking out&quot;? Give me a break!!!! I always say,if a man is interested when I&#39;m just in chill mode on my looks, that&#39;s great. That means he&#39;s looking past clothes, hair and make up cause being dressed to kill 24/7 is not my thing. Whew!! Where did that all come from? LOL.Dancing in the Gloryhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03002075177223516259noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8218001543032204975.post-67045281121889390942015-03-26T12:46:02.153-05:002015-03-26T12:46:02.153-05:00Lol! I was in the same boat for quite some time, b...Lol! I was in the same boat for quite some time, but the tips I gave really helped me out. I&#39;m not saying to settle for an uneducated, broke man, but don&#39;t assume that a guy is this by his job title, his clothing... Etc. Even in relationships/marriage, some of these tips can still be applied. I&#39;m glad you love this blog, I do too..hehe. I pray you will find true love, because every woman deserves it. Thanks for stopping by, and taking the time out to comment. You&#39;re awesome! Heartmama Vihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12135131274445269235noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8218001543032204975.post-36348292037793061792015-03-26T10:30:31.592-05:002015-03-26T10:30:31.592-05:00I guess I&#39;m single because I&#39;m Ms. Indepen...I guess I&#39;m single because I&#39;m Ms. Independent. :( Thinking about it, I might brag about my accomplishment, because I&#39;m so proud of myself. But you&#39;re so right, that&#39;s keeping me single. And guys I&#39;m meeting, they&#39;re not smart enough, and don&#39;t make enough. I might be too picky also, but that&#39;s because I don&#39;t want a guy to use me. Oh my, I&#39;m also fearful. I have issues. lol Thanks for the tips. Definitely an eye opener. I will try my best. Love this blog, no sugarcoating. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com