Why

Is it that men what us to come to there rescue and help them out and do almost everything, but when it comes to our pain or needing their help its like u have to suck it up, i kove my dh very much and yes he was very close to having a minor heart attack tuesday and i been doing my best to keep his stress kevel down, but i have felt pain and pressure and it gets to the point were i just want to lay down and i have called my dr about it all they say is oh u need belly belt or suppott but u cant were it at night and not everyday, then whats the point of buying one, oh well, i guess ill just keep doing everything and rest when i can and i can rest when kids r in school.

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Yep that's me too. I have spd though.. you can look it up but sounds like you may have it too. A minor heart attack sounds pretty serious to me... I'd be more concerned about that if I were in your shoes. On another note I know the maternity band is a bit pricey but you should buy one, they really do help. And if you do have spd go to a chiropractic that works on pregnant women.... soooo worth the cash and they show you how to put your pelvis back in place with the help of your dh.

. Minor heart attack way trumps pregnancy pain. I have the same pelvic pain you are talking about and I'm very sorry honey but you need to get over it. Heck I even manage to work on my feet full time, keep my house clean and take care of a one year old without the whole world comin crashing down around me. Smh.

Is very important than mine but he is on medicine and slowly getting better,me though i have talked to my dr and they told me oh what ur experiencing is normal im almost 26 weeks.and it feels lije the baby is very low , and i have felt this pain sense sunday, i just would like so relie that is all cause i take care of a full house.

My dad almost had a major heart attack. He went to the hospital and they were able to stop it from happeneing it. He started having chest pain, his friend that had chest pain, died the week before a heart attack, they tried to revive him, but it was too late. My dad had to have surgery and he is better now, so that is how you almost have a major heart attack.

OP I know how you feel. I bet your under a lot of stress. Specially with having other kids. It can be very stressful when DH gets hurt and can't help out with the kids. With me it's not so much about the aches and pains, it's just being put under so much stress, when I was already under a lot and having nobody to turn to or lean on and being the strong one. It gets hard. Sorry your going through this. Hope it gets better soon and your DH gets better.