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Dating women with kids advice

You’ve decided to try online dating and found yourself talking to a man that seems promising.

I had touched on a similar topic last year in my post my boyfriend has kept his online dating profile active.Moving Towards an Exclusive Relationship Assuming the “let’s be exclusive” conversation hasn’t happened, I would recommend you start to slowly but intentionally determine if he feels your relationship is headed in that direction.Where does he see this relationship going, exactly?While I still believe what I wrote there, I’m finding that many of the women who are contacting me are not at the point where they are sure if the man is their “boyfriend” or not.With that in mind I wanted to review one of the recent emails I’ve received from a reader and offer some additional advice for this problem.My issue comes with him still having his profile up, and with my curiosity getting the best of me, I check almost everyday just to see when he last logged on – seems to be every few days or so.

I have read what you have written on this subject and I know you said that men are slower to remove their profiles than woman – so my question is how long is reasonable to wait for him to do this before you say something or begin to feel offended by it?

In some cases, this could cause what he saw as a healthy, budding relationship to end abruptly.

I’ve had several readers write me they argued with the man they were dating to ask if I thought they had made the right choice.

First off let me say that many men keep their profiles active even though they are interested in the woman they are regularly dating.

Men are slower to commit and many also need their ego “stroked”.

They like having women contacting them…even if they are rejecting all of them as it makes them feel desirable.