How To Approach A Hot Girl And Start A Conversation

Here’s a useful video about how to approach women, because it contains some very smart specifics on starting conversations with women in an effective way. In order for you to become more successful with women, one of the first things you need to do is triumph over your “approach anxiety” and stop freezing up when you see a girl you want to meet. Let’s face it: if you’re too scared to walk up to a beautiful girl and start a conversation, you’re going to find it very difficult to expand your network of women and meet the girls you want to date.

Let me give you a few of my own short tips on how to approach ladies…

– Stop asking permission to talk to women! This is huge. Don’t say things like, “Excuse me, do you mind if I ask you something?” or “Pardon me, can I know your name?”

When you do this you are starting the interaction from a position of weakness. As a rule, you shouldn’t seek permission from women or try to get “approval” to talk to them. Go right into your opener!

(Also, you don’t want to give her the opportunity to say “no.” Instead, hook her attention by using an interesting opener and get the conversation going!)

– Show confident body language. Stand up straight, keep your hands out of your pockets, and make eye contact with her. Most importantly, you need to smile!

– Always know what you’re going to follow up with. The purpose of your opener is not to be incredibly funny and clever. Its purpose is to enable you to “bridge” into a conversation in a smooth way. Most guys make the mistake of trying an opener that doesn’t GO anywhere. (Such as, “So what’s your name?”) You’ll have much greater success if you use a Mack Tactics opener that frames you right off the bat as a cool, confident guy and creates a BRIDGE into an interesting conversation about a fun topic.

Want some killer examples of openers you can use to approach women and start awesome conversations, in any environment? How’d you like to learn more than a dozen cool openers to use at nightclubs, bars, parties, coffee shops, gyms, and even on street corners?