What Do Men Fantasize About? 12 Guys Reveal Their Secret Sexual Fantasies

If you've ever wondered, "what do men fantasize about?" you're definitely not alone. Movies, TV shows, and pornography might give you the impression that the majority of guys have the same kinds of sexual fantasies. While Princess Leia costumes, naughty schoolgirl role-play, and FFM threesomesare plenty popular, the idea that all men are into the same things in the bedroom is far from true. Just like women, men are interested in exploring all kinds of sexual fantasies, from kinky acts to scenarios that would be considered "vanilla."

Maybe you want to give your male partner a sexy surprise, or perhaps you're simply curious about what actually goes on inside a guy's mind. Whatever your reasons, knowing what sexual scenarios real men secretly fantasize about can be truly eye-opening. Not to mention, it might give you some fun ideas to discuss trying out with your partner.

I sourced quotes from Reddit and spoke to guys in their 20s who provided a range of answers to this common question. While some men had similar fantasies, others shared some seriously unique ideas. These ideal situations range from totally plausible, to pretty unlikely. For example, unless you're an astronaut, it's probably going to be pretty difficult to make number nine happen. Number five, on the other hand, is much more feasible. Before I give too much away, here's what 12 guys had to say about their hidden sexual desires.

7For this man, having a woman take charge is a major turn-on.

I feel like any situations where I’m being "used" just for her satisfaction gets my heart going. Specifically in the context of a superior coming at me. Like a work supervisor/boss or college professor. Something about not being the main initiator has always felt refreshing. That...and in my mind they are always glasses-wearing ladies which always makes my knees weak.