MUST READ: Marriage Is Like An Olympic

Two things church folks don't want to talk about, Money and Sex. Yet it's the basics that everyone need. Let us talk a little about sex in marriage.

Most married people have sex and are frustrated and a few make love and become satisfied. Which one are you?

Let's look at scripture to see the difference:

"She threw her arms around him and kissed him ...
“I’ve got all the makings for a feast..... I’ve spread fresh, clean sheets on my bed, colorful imported linens. My bed is aromatic with spices and exotic fragrances. Come, let’s make love all night, spend the night in ecstatic lovemaking!.” Proverbs 7:13‭-‬20 MSG

Another scripture:
"Until the day breaks And the shadows flee away, Turn, my beloved, And be like a gazelle Or a young stag Upon the mountains of Bether. Song of Solomon 2:17 NKJV

2. Pre-games Activities and communication - She threw her arms him and spoke words. Foreplay all day long. Ka text, ka touch pagumbo muri mumota, twuma selfie... prepare each other for the big event. Kwete ma ambush mubedroom. To get to heaven at eleven start at seven. Men are microwaves , just switch it on its ready but understand our women are ovens it requires time.

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3. All night long both scriptures talk about it. Provide is a woman speaking and in Songs it's a man. The expectation is from both sides.

"Until the Day breaks" - all night long says Solomon, let your marriage be like the Olympics. A mix of sprints, long distance and mid distance not only short sprints. Rova ngoma mtavara . .

4. Gazelle leap which means activity and action like wrestling, synchronized swimming, not darts where the idea is hitting the mark faster than your opponent.

The goal is to not finish but to finish the desires of each other and to be both fully satisfied during that night.

Itaiiwo zvidavado ... l know you went to mission school asi verengai mabook erudo mese. There are some Christian books on sex that are good and teaches new position. We don't recommend porn as it often leads to adultery. 5. It's a mind game more it is physical. The physical is the expression of the mental. Touch her heart before her breast,make her feel special, in Prov 7 notice, it's the words and atmosphere. Just like boxing, the Mayweather fights never go all the way, but what makes them big it's the preps, the mind games and the actual day though it might be just one round, people will be satisfied. So make love to her mind, heart and lastly finish off with gazelle leaping , stad mountain jumping action.

Let the games begin and may your bedroom turn into Olympic stadium. I pray that you fulfill one another's sexual desires. May God increase your wisdom and knowledge of one another. May you never stop pursuit of record breaking love making. As God takes you from glory to glory,let your love grow from strength to strength. May you prosper in love making as you shall prosper in your spirit. Stay blessed in Jesus name.Guest Writer Pastor Pride Choruma of Strong Bonds Johannesburg, RSA

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