my wife uses a vibrator almost every day so it's not new to her. I got her a Satisfyer Pro II and I just threw it away after trying it 2-3 times over the last year. It's way to powerful in a bad way for her. It's also extremely loud and it sucks on her clit really hard. That might sound good but it's different. She loves for me to suck on her clit but this a sharp machine type action that's more frightening that anything. Too late. I already took the trash out.

We continue to use toys in the bedroom a lot. Vibrators are by far the most commonly utilized, but we have a toy from pretty much every category that we’ve tried or use periodically. My wife has gotten a little more comfortable in recent years of occasionally using a toy by herself when I am not there (and I am like all the other guys here that love to hear those stories).

It’s just exciting to know that my wife craves sex and orgasms like I do and her orgasms are probably my favorite part of sex. We use a vibrator on her about half of the time we have sex, and she has definitely had plenty of times where she is able to have multiple orgasms from it. That didn’t used to be the case, but to see her know her body better than she used to and to have the confidenct in herself to do that is the sexiest thing in the world.