friendship and sparks

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pj04Goldie

since this press debacle started and jassi is getting pressured to marry purab(all friendship and very little sparks), i thought i would find out what you guys and gals think.

my take is that sparks and chemistry are a product of certain moments and point of view but friendship is a stable column , you can lean on anytime, with a little work on relationship, it never changes. marraige should have friendship first and then you can hope you are caught in maelstorm of sparks forever( you will have some moments anyways)

anniegupta_Goldie

though i don't really know what's the difference between those two. I mean a friendship can start sparks and sparks can create a friendship and it works out both ways. But i think in a relation ship both things are responsibler in creating a strong relationship.

lakshmi_maruthiGoldie

I do hope to see many more precious moments between Purab and Jassi. Right now Jassi respects Purab and cares for his opnion. I see she is slowly becoming aware of Armaan's intentions.. I would like to see the relationship between Jassi and Purab blossom into love.. If done right it can be picturised in a very beauitful manner. I feel T & D can do a very good job of this.. You don't have to tell someone that I love to let them know we care.. Ek nazar hi kaafi hoti hai.. I hope that moment will come and all the Purab fans here will go crazy with broken hearts on that day..

raji_bSenior Member

i personally think in marriage friendship is more important, because when you grow old with your relationship all you have left is friendship with eachother. here in canada when children move out of parents house all parents are left with is each other. so when you are not young anymore, that spark is not there, you should be good listners to eachother, and that means you should be eachothers friends. a good partner is one who can listnen to the other one when they are needed and it happens when your husband or wife is good friend of your.

so i think friendship is very important, mind you spark is needed too to keep relationship going, but friendship is more important

pmaheshGoldie

I think both are important- one would need sparks to sustain the friendship. But in the long run friendship is definately more important. Spark is there for a moment and then gone but friendship is for keeps.

Ashwirya ShettySenior Member

Spark, to keep the relationship exciting and friendship, to keep the relationship going. I believe that spark can be kept alive, if both partners nurture the relationship. BTW, spark in my dictionary mean 'chemistry'.

Also, depends whether it is a 'love' (where one finds their own spouses) or 'arranged' (parents/relatives find the match) marriage. Normally, in a 'love' marriage, both elements, i.e. spark and friendship, are present, at least during the 'dating phase'. Whereas, in 'arranged' marriage there is a possibility that the 'spark' might not be present in the starting of the relationship and at times, even later. In 'arranged' marriage, the relationship is, most of the time, based on trust and friendship.

All said and done, I think all depends on an individual and many times on the circumstances.

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