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My mother passed away today, on Mother's Day. She was 89. It wasn't completely unexpected, but still so terribly hard.

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SisterMilkshake♀ 30024Member # 30024

Posted: 12:28 PM, May 12th (Sunday), 2013

((((Too_Trusting)))) I am so sorry. No matter how old we are, no matter how old our mothers are, they are and always will be our mothers and our soft place to fall. The one person who will always love us unconditionally, the one person who has loved us from the day we were born (if not before). I am so very sorry for your loss.

I am very sorry for your loss, Too_Trusting, especially today. But think of the wonderful memories you have of her, and, from now on, every Mother's Day will be extra special for you.
~ lf

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ThoughtIKnewYa♀ 18449Member # 18449

Posted: 1:56 PM, May 12th (Sunday), 2013

(((((((((Too_Trusting)))))))))

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gonnabe2016♀ 34823Member # 34823

Posted: 1:59 PM, May 12th (Sunday), 2013

I'm so, so sorry.
{{{TooTrusting}}}

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tryingagain74♀ 33698Member # 33698

Posted: 2:03 PM, May 12th (Sunday), 2013

I'm so sorry for your loss.

(((Too_Trusting and family)))

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sisoon♂ 31240Member # 31240

Posted: 2:10 PM, May 12th (Sunday), 2013

I'm very sorry for your loss.

(((Too_Trusting and family)))

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wildbananas♀ 10552Member # 10552

Posted: 2:23 PM, May 12th (Sunday), 2013

(((((TT)))))

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