But, first, I'd like to go over the fundamentals of male chastity and explain why it works so well for so many couples. The principle of male chastity is that men simply cannot control themselves. No matter how committed they are to a relationship, they will be cheating on you - either by masturbating on a daily basis or actively pursuing other women. In addition, over time, if they are not controlled they will lose interest in their partners or become selfish lovers.

This is unacceptable, and damaging to any relationship. Male chastity is the solution. By taking away his ability to orgasm without your permission, you are making sure all of his sexual and emotional energy is directed toward you. He'll become a better husband, do more chores around the house and go out of his way to sexually and emotionally satisfy you day and night. The romance will almost immediately return to your relationship.

In short, he'll become the husband of your dreams. Beyond that, you will be helping him transform himself from a little boy who can't help but play with his willy to a grown man who uses his sexuality to satisfy his wife.

It's a win/win situation for everyone involved - as long as you are committed to the lifestyle and making it work.

Come on down id love it for a woman to come and chase me, please lol that does sound a bit desperate there but i think its great that woman will be the aggressor for a change. Its about time the woman become a bit cave-womanish and bonked her man on the head and dragged him off. And I'm a 6ft male. I honestly think quite a lot of men would like that to happen them.

Well I certainly hope you sent the right color of roses. Please no mixed signals. For some 15 years I have been the more romantic of the two ..infact I would say that's mild; I have been the romantic one and like is was expressed by someone else, I am looking to have it appreciated rather than taken for granted. My wife is extemely practical and well lets face it there is no "bottom line" to romance. It seems to alway fall into the expense column.
Yet I seem to have a need to deliver it so I am look for someone who might appreciate it.

I think it's ok to do what feels right to you, if it's not right for the person recieving the gifts and roses, well they can either say so or get offended. At least you will know wether or not you can do what comes naturally to you and wether you want to advance with the person or not. As for me, I am so freaking tired of being the romantic , and having it underappreciated or not returned... I want some roses heades my way, I'm holding out for old fashioned romance.
good thoughts , thanks for sharing them.

A do think that Old Fashioned has indeed left the realms of life in most things.

Which is really sad as I still believe in old fashioned values, is a bit annoying when you are thinking Protect a female from a possible danger and you boss writes it up as a breech of her Equal Oppertunities and her civil rights .....

Leads me to only one sollution... STOP THE WORLD .... I NEED TO GET OFF !

Yours, as usuall, that Cuddly and Daft Scotsman (ats really phased off at the world and the way its going)

I think it is great that you were so confident to make a move like that. It does seem that some men sit back and wait to see what the woman will do. There are definitely men that like women to be aggressive. If you are comfortable with being aggressive go for it. I would love to find a guy that doesn't mind if I am occasionally aggressive. I don't want to be the sole aggressor but occasionally it is nice to mix things up. Good luck with the roses!