About Me

I am Kara! I am the fearless female co- leader of our family. I strive to be a proactive and productive parent to both my children and my step-children. I am a compassionate Friend, Sister, daughter, and Auntie. I can be resourceful when needed and a little rebellious when I feel like it. I like to drink good tea and eat great food. I blog to vent and share and maybe even brag a little. Thank you for reading and I hope you stick around for a while!

November 3, 2013

For the past several months we have been dealing with a couple of allergies that Zoie has come up with.

The first is MILK.

Easy enough to avoid.

She can eat dairy products, but can't drink plain milk.

We have experimented with all different kinds; raw, organic, homogenized...

You name it, she has tried it.

Same reaction every time.

Horrible tummy ache and diarrhea for days, followed by blisters covering her bottom area.

So sad. Breaks my heart.

So... we avoid milk. Which is easy and she loves Almond Milk.

Crisis Averted!

Her second allergies is APPLES.

Not so easy to avoid.

Apples are in everything!

They are a cheap, easy to grow, natural sweetener.

We do a pretty good job avoiding the obvious; apples, apple juice, and apple sauce.

The not so obvious we tend to struggle with.

I read all the labels.

I thoroughly check all sweet products that may or may not have apples in it or may be sweetened with apple juice. Apple as a sweetener is in everything from fruit snacks, to most juice drinks.

My big issues came a couple weeks ago when Zoie ate a Twizzlers.

I read the label. Nothing.

She ate 4 of them. They are my favorite and we shared a pack at the movies.

The next day.

Reaction.

So I called the Hershey Company, who makes Twizzlers.

They did a little research and got back to me with this:

There is no direct way of knowing whether or not apples are used in their product. They receive their sweetener from a company that makes "Artificial Sweetener". That company is only required to list the top 4 allergens in the ingredients list of their product. Which does not include apples. The other ingredients are not revealed to them.

ARE YOU KIDDING ME!?!?!

My daughter had an allergic reaction to on of their products!

AND THEY DON'T KNOW WHAT IS IN THEIR PRODUCT!

The only thing I want from them is knowledge. And they can't offer me anything to help.

So here I sit... wondering what I can and can't give my daughter to eat. She loves food. She will try anything I give her.... but how am I supposed to know what is safe when the company that makes the product doesn't even know what they put in it??

October 17, 2013

When I was a kid, my dad would buy these amazing granola bars at Costco. They were covered in chocolate which made them more like a candy bar than a granola bar and made by some no-name company that probably isn't even around any more.
Does anyone else remember these? They were in a black or dark brown wrapper?

Anywhoo...

yesterday for some unknown reason, I was thinking about those granola bars.

So I jumped online and started looking for Clean Granola Bar recipes.

I couldn't find anything that sounded really good.

So I decided to make my own. I took a little of several recipes I found online.

They didn't turn out too bad... quite tasty in fact.

Here are my:

Extra Nutty Coconut and Cran-Strawberry Granola Bars

Mix together in a large bowl:

1 cup Chopped Walnuts

1/2 cup Chopped Almonds

1/2 cup Peanuts

1 cup Coconut

1 cup Dried Cran-Strawberrys

(I found these at Win-co in the bulk section, but regular dried cranberries will work too.)

1 teaspoon Cinnamon

Then Boil (stirring occassionally) in a small saucepan:

1 cup Organic Brown Rice Syrup

1/4 cup Honey

1 teaspoon Vanilla

This stuff is fairly expensive. We only have one store in all of Spokane that carries it. It doesn't taste great on it's own, but once mixed with the honey and vanilla it is de-lish!

Once liquid has boiled, pour over dry ingredients.

Stir together until well mixed,

Pour into a 9x13 greased pan. (I used a light coating of coconut oil.)

Press firmly using waxed or parchment paper. It'll still be quite warm.

Let cool in fridge or freezer for a couple hours.

Cut into bars. You can choose the size. The bigger I cut them the more flimsy they became when room temperature. So I kept mine small.

They turned out really sticky, so storing them in the fridge would be a good idea.

With mine, because I was really wanting chocolate. I melted some dark chocolate chips and dipped the ends in it and let cool again. Then individually wrapped in wax paper for storage.

Although, I used chunky applesauce (since that was all I had), mine turned out to be more of a Apple/Pumpkin Spice Mini Muffin than just a Pumpkin Spice Muffin. I also used just plain Whole Wheat Flour instead of Whole Wheat Pastry Flour, so they were a little dense. But I like that!

September 27, 2013

It is gorgeous and yet I can't help but feel such a pang of resentment for why I travel here. I can't fully appreciate its beauty.

You see, a month ago, my step daughter moved to Montana to live with her mom. Her mom made the move here in June and after spending the summer at our home in Washington, Ryleigh went to be with her mom.

We didn't want her to go and wish every day that she was closer but at the time there was nothing we could do. The decision was made, the move happened, and now we have a long distance relationship with her.

Every month her school has a three day weekend. Those weekends she will spend with us along with major holiday breaks and summer vacation.

So now we are headed to this beautiful country that I can't help but look at with a twinge of anger. Maybe some day I will let it go if the anger and resentment and see this place for the beauty it is. But until then, it's just okay.

September 22, 2013

and pick the perfect pumpkins for my porchand watch the kids play soccer

and go on a hay ride at the orchard.

Seriously People, I have never been more ready for Fall!With Fall comes Halloween.With Halloween comes CUTE Halloween clothes.I made this adorable Halloween skirt for Zoie and couldn't wait to show it off.

The Chasing Zoie Halloween Boo SkirtAvailable now on the website for only $15!

For the next week, to get us ready for fall and in the Halloween spirit,I am giving you a coupon code for $5 off!It's only good until Saturday the 28th!

Use coupon code HALLOW5You can find it on the website, HEREHappy Fall, Ya'll!

September 19, 2013

The only thing about it I have not looked forward to; well except the teenage attitude of course, is potty training.

I'm not really big on cleaning up potty from my living room carpet.

While we were on vacation Zoie did a pretty good job at Nana's. Went in the potty several times on her little toilet. But since we got home on Sunday afternoon, things haven't exactly gone to plan.The last couple days have been good. She's only had one accident and quickly ran to the bath saying, "pee pee potty, pee pee potty." It was so cute I couldn't help but laugh.

August 29, 2013

We even created a blog for ourselves to keep track of what we are up to and our progress. Just for us!

Today.

I finally got off my butt and got in a little exercise.

When I say, "A Little", I mean, "A little".

I'm not SO lazy, I've just been swamped the last couple weeks.

Finishing up summer break with Ryleigh.

Creating dresses and skirts for the website.

Meeting with my friend and web designer for some much needed counseling and business input.

Sewing... a lot of sewing. Can't wait to share what I've got coming out for Christmas.

Yes, I'm thinking about Christmas already.

Any-hoo...

Back to getting off my behind and getting in a little exercise.

Zach took off for work early this morning and after listening to the dog whine after hearing the truck leave her behind, I decided to take Zoie and Zive (the dog) for a walk.

Walking down our road with a stroller this time of year, isn't exactly easy.

It is the best example of a washboard dirt road I've seen in a LONG time. Pushing the stroller down the road is a challenge all in itself. But Zoie LOVES it. Which I can tell from the, "More Mama" screams.

At the end of our road, there is a cemetery on one side, and a field with goats and a llama on the other side. The cemetery, which in the evening is a bit scary, during the morning hours was somewhat peaceful. beautiful actually. I found myself thinking of people there. The beautiful stone that were chosen by loved ones to remember family and friends. The stories of all the lives there, wishing I could have a conversation with someone from the late 1800's and hear about their life in our area. Wishing I knew their history.

The llama, who normally runs to greet us on our journey, wasn't in the big field today. That didn't stop Zoie from yelling Hello to him. The horses down the road remind me to call someone about getting Zoie some riding lessons. She loves horses and I hope that is something that she will like to learn about.

Can you see him? Hiding in the distance.

At the end,

we only made it a little over a mile. I would have liked to go further, but at the end of the road was a dog that didn't take to kindly to Ziva. So we were forced to turn around.

Recorded with the MapMyRun app.

Hopefully, we can go further tomorrow. I need to keep this up if I'm ever going to be a #fitmom.

August 16, 2013

I've been reading a lot of blog posts about pre-school lately, or school in general.

It seems to be a popular topic this time of year.

The time when mama's all over the blog-o-sphere start writing about back to school shopping and preparing to get back into the swing of the fall routine.

Crazy to think we're already nearing fall.

Even crazier to think that Zoie is old enough to even start thinking about preschool at all.

These last two years have flown by!

She's going to be 2!

Ahhhhh!

So... Back to subject.

Zach and I have been talking A LOT about sending Zoie to preschool this year. She isn't quite two yet, so it might be a bit early. Our thoughts though, are that she could really use the socialization aspect of it. I don't want to send her to daycare. I want to send her to a place where she will learn something and maybe make a few friends.

Don't get me wrong, we teach her every day. She is always learning something.

But, it's kind of hard to get Zoie to play with kids her age.

She is very independent.

We have older kids in our house. She loves playing with my niece, Maci, but she is 7. With Maci, Zoie does more following than playing together. It's hard with that big of an age gap.

Most of my friends have older kids as well. When she is around kids her own age, she tends to sit by herself and read or play quietly. It was really cute the first time, but now it sorta breaks my heart a little. I want her to run and play and have fun with kids her own age and own size.

Plus,

Preschool is Cool!!

Now I just need to find one in our area.

What are your thoughts on preschool and what age do you think kids should start?

On another subject

Zoie went to her first movie in a theater the other day!

My mom and I took her to see Disney's Planes.

It was super cute and Zoie did a great job.

She sat in her seat with her popcorn and Twizzlers and watched almost the whole thing. She got a little restless near the end of the film, but overall she behaved and did much better than I thought she would.

August 12, 2013

I was only going to take a break for a month. Then the time away kept getting longer and my thoughts on blogging and topics of what to blog/share further onto the back burner. Today I sit here (by the pool mind you) and I have about a gazillion topics and ideas running through my mind.

I am supposed to be relaxing. Well, I guess I've had the last two months for relaxing and it's time to get back on the gravy train.

I'll give you a more detailed explanation as to my absence as soon as I can figure out how to put it in words that won't upset or anger anyone. I'm still gettin there. The wounds are still fresh (so to speak) and I'm not sure I can explain without portraying the anger and betrayal that is still so fresh in my mind and heart.

So for today I'm just going to sit here and enjoy the view of my girls swimming and having a blast thanks so much in part to my dear friend, Suzanne, for letting us borrow her pool.

May 29, 2013

I forgot it was Wednesday! Thank goodness for calendar reminders cause I would have forgotten a lot this morning. Always something to do.

So last night, Zach and I made it away from the house, without children!

It was great... sort of.

Poor Zoie started crying as soon as Sarah (Our wonderful neighbor and babysitter) walked in the house. Zoie usually LOVES Sarah.

It was heartbreaking to leave her behind.

Zach and I don't usually leave any of the kids a lot. For the last ten years, I can probably count on two hands the number of times we've left the kids with a babysitter. You're probably saying, "What??" I know, I know... But when we only had the big kids for weekends, why would we leave them with a sitter. It's always been important for us to spend time with our kids. Isn't that why we have them? To be a family? Together?

Don't get me wrong... I am ALL FOR a Mommy and Daddy night out!

Just not all the time.

So last night, we really wanted to see a movie.
It's been months since we went to a movie... alone... without kids.

Needless to say, Zoie was not thrilled with being left behind.

Zoie started crying and poor Sarah hasn't dealt with that side of her before. She screamed for Mama. She screamed for Dada. She screamed

and screamed

and screamed.

And I became that mom!

You know the one. The lady in the theater with the cell phone tucked under her coat. Texting and not watching the movie we just paid $11.50 for.

I hate that lady!

Not my proudest moment.

This time, it was me texting.

Ignoring my giant cup of Diet Strawberry Fanta.

Ignoring my Reeces Pieces.

Ignoring the movie.

Boo!

Pathetic.

I know.

Poor Zoie...

Dinner didn't work.

The bath didn't work.

But finally,

after about 45 minutes and 1/2 of the move, the texting stopped as Sarah took Zoie outside for a walk with Ziva.

And then it started up again.
She locked herself out of the house!

Don't be alarmed... It's easy to do!

We have one of those door knobs that still turns on the inside, even when it's locked on the outside. In fact, locking herself out of our house is how my mother met Sarah in the first place.

In this instance, Sarah was lucky that Ari, my step daughter, was only a mile away and able to come to her rescue.

And we were able to catch the end of the movie without any further interruption.

I have come to realize though, that we have entered that stage of Zoie's life.

A little thing I like to call, the "Cling-On" stage.

All of you moms should know exactly what this is. The time in a toddlers life where your little one wants everything to do with you and nothing to do with anyone else.