Ok,
I am really confused right now. I made tons of backlinks on No hands SEO but none of them are showing up. So then I heard that you need to ping them for it to count to your backlinks. How exactly does the pinging process work for these backlinks? Do I just enter the backlink url into a pinger and it will be like magic? I really need help with this...

indexing process - when actually spiders and crawlers see qualiti in your backlinks and index them in google (you can check if one backlink is indexed but typing the link in google search ;) )
my recomandation: www.indexification.com -credits to Hawk ;)

I don't recommend No hands seo because that thing just spams the sh*t out of platforms.BaStan is correct, you'll want an third party indexing service. Indexifcation is good, it can dripfeed links and even shows you if your links are bad.

Linklicious has a free plan, I use it with No hands seo. but i have a custom index site lists for my NHS. Some of my backlinks are indexed within hours. I have 0 backlink this morning and after i ran my NHS overnight, I ping and index the backlinks it created and then 38 verified backlinks showed up on ahrefs.com. Im using a cracked NHS.