The problem is the bathrrom is right next to my aunts room, she can hear someone fart from her room.

wow mama, where can you do it then? We co sleep with our DD, but she sleeps part time in her crib. I put her to bed by rocking her to sleep in her room/crib at night, and then she wakes up at anywhere from 10 -2am and sleeps with us.
My husbands always saying during the day on the weekends, " lets put her in her pack and play for a few min.", That horney man LOL

I never thought about the shower, we might be able to pull that one off.

I thought about the floor too, that is what we will try next.

She won't sleep ANYWHERE except our bed, which is honestly the reason we co-sleep now. Her crib is right up next to our bed, same height and everything and as soon as her little body touches the crib mattress she wakes up.

So at what age would it start to traumatize her? She woke up the other day and I didn't realize it right away so when I looked at her she was looking at us. I felt TERRIBLE

Originally it was a nice quiet place, DH, me and my aunt (she is our roomate). Then my cousin decided to move in, then my DD was born, then my mom got sick and my dad and her moved in so we could help with my mom. So my mom and dad have made our living room into their bedroom. We have a den that is used for the computer room, my aunt has a bedroom and my cousin has a bedroom.

I really like shower time too The couch, living room and even the kitchen! Just get spontaneous :P However if you share a house with someone I would suggest the shower. Surely that would give you a private place to go to

definitlly in the shower, after all you want to save water right? also i wouldn't worry about a 7 mth old seeing something. we did it in our bed or on the floor w/ dd sleeping in the bed till she was 3. i don't even think they'd notice until sometime after age 1. gl