If he's gone 85% of the time, don't you think it would be better to hold off on a child until he's more stable? No shade at all OP. You would probably want him near during your pregnancy and the first year of the childs life. Also, have you guys talked about long term plans? marriage? civil union? Have you guys made some kind of legal or spiritual commitment to each other?

I just can't imagine being so nonchalant about bringing a life into the world without some VERY serious conversations happening with the would-be father.

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