Quoting: Originally posted by bountylover
Good lord , a lot of you ladies sound lazy... waiting for the bloke to get you there with out no source of inspiration?... it was common enough to hear a lot of the past comments stated here that the guy, bloke ... sorry fellow was not worth the effort but ladies, you fail to realize that for a guy to do that which you wish... lying there with the ark doors open ain't going to cut it. However, i did hear one lady say.. she was willing to teach as well as learn. she's not complaining.
Well ladies the 'o' comes with a sense of a lighter load to the heart and the percept that sex is an open book..we're all learning .
To crown this, teach that knows not and a magician you shall see. brood and moan and a snorer you will definitely get

ark doors? ARK DOORS???????

Quoting: Originally posted by bountylover Good lord , a lot of you ladies sound lazy... waiting for the bloke to get you there with out no source of inspiration?... it was common enough to hear a lot of the past comments stated here that the guy, bloke ... sorry fellow was not worth the effort but ladies, you fail to realize that for a guy to do that which you wish... lying there with the ark doors open ain't going to cut it. However, i did hear one lady say.. she was willing to teach as well as learn. she's not complaining. Well ladies the 'o' comes with a sense of a lighter load to the heart and the percept that sex is an open book..we're all learning . To crown this, teach that knows not and a magician you shall see. brood and moan and a snorer you will definitely get

Quoting: Originally posted by AmuseMe
See what I mean? You men are selfish bas... meanwhile a woman speaks freely about men not being able to get his partner off and SHE'S the selfish, complaining one. Well, go figure!!!
What would posess a man to attempt to take a woman to bed that either he wasn't physically attraced to, or was such a skank that he couldn't even go through with having sex with her? Is this the power / influence of the penis?? The EVIL PENIS?????
I am glad you didn't fill those condoms, hornyd. At the very best neither of you walked away satisfied. Serves you both right.

ROFLMAO!!! The evil penis...LOL. You crack me up...

Quoting: Originally posted by AmuseMe See what I mean? You men are selfish bas... meanwhile a woman speaks freely about men not being able to get his partner off and SHE'S the selfish, complaining one. Well, go figure!!! What would posess a man to attempt to take a woman to bed that either he wasn't physically attraced to, or was such a skank that he couldn't even go through with having sex with her? Is this the power / influence of the penis?? The EVIL PENIS????? I am glad you didn't fill those condoms, hornyd. At the very best neither of you walked away satisfied. Serves you both right.

Quoting: Originally posted by hornyd2000
you got it right first time. i took off the condom (both times in the dark) and after a minute or two of apologising for coming so quick, went to the bathroom to dispose of what the ladies in question thought was a sperm filled condom. serves me right anyway for not being a bit more selective in the first place.

Now, ladies...
In the midst of all this flame throwing, we neglected to appreciate the fact that this young man has graced us with some most delicious eye candy !
Nice speedo shot ! Keep them comming Hornyd2000 !

Quoting: Originally posted by hornyd2000 you got it right first time. i took off the condom (both times in the dark) and after a minute or two of apologising for coming so quick, went to the bathroom to dispose of what the ladies in question thought was a sperm filled condom. serves me right anyway for not being a bit more selective in the first place.

Now, ladies... In the midst of all this flame throwing, we neglected to appreciate the fact that this young man has graced us with some most delicious eye candy ! Nice speedo shot ! Keep them comming Hornyd2000 !

Quoting: Originally posted by AmuseMe
See what I mean? You men are selfish bas... meanwhile a woman speaks freely about men not being able to get his partner off and SHE'S the selfish, complaining one. Well, go figure!!!
What would posess a man to attempt to take a woman to bed that either he wasn't physically attraced to, or was such a skank that he couldn't even go through with having sex with her? Is this the power / influence of the penis?? The EVIL PENIS?????
I am glad you didn't fill those condoms, hornyd. At the very best neither of you walked away satisfied. Serves you both right.

Quoting: Originally posted by AmuseMe See what I mean? You men are selfish bas... meanwhile a woman speaks freely about men not being able to get his partner off and SHE'S the selfish, complaining one. Well, go figure!!! What would posess a man to attempt to take a woman to bed that either he wasn't physically attraced to, or was such a skank that he couldn't even go through with having sex with her? Is this the power / influence of the penis?? The EVIL PENIS????? I am glad you didn't fill those condoms, hornyd. At the very best neither of you walked away satisfied. Serves you both right.

Quoting: Originally posted by hornyd2000
you got it right first time. i took off the condom (both times in the dark) and after a minute or two of apologising for coming so quick, went to the bathroom to dispose of what the ladies in question thought was a sperm filled condom. serves me right anyway for not being a bit more selective in the first place.

See what I mean? You men are selfish bas... meanwhile a woman speaks freely about men not being able to get his partner off and SHE'S the selfish, complaining one. Well, go figure!!!
What would posess a man to attempt to take a woman to bed that either he wasn't physically attraced to, or was such a skank that he couldn't even go through with having sex with her? Is this the power / influence of the penis?? The EVIL PENIS?????
I am glad you didn't fill those condoms, hornyd. At the very best neither of you walked away satisfied. Serves you both right.

Quoting: Originally posted by hornyd2000 you got it right first time. i took off the condom (both times in the dark) and after a minute or two of apologising for coming so quick, went to the bathroom to dispose of what the ladies in question thought was a sperm filled condom. serves me right anyway for not being a bit more selective in the first place.

See what I mean? You men are selfish bas... meanwhile a woman speaks freely about men not being able to get his partner off and SHE'S the selfish, complaining one. Well, go figure!!! What would posess a man to attempt to take a woman to bed that either he wasn't physically attraced to, or was such a skank that he couldn't even go through with having sex with her? Is this the power / influence of the penis?? The EVIL PENIS????? I am glad you didn't fill those condoms, hornyd. At the very best neither of you walked away satisfied. Serves you both right.

In your rocking-chair, by your window dreaming, shall you long, alone. In your rocking-chair, by your window, shall you dream such happiness as you may never feel. –Theodore Dreiser

Quoting: Originally posted by bountylover
Good lord , a lot of you ladies sound lazy... waiting for the bloke to get you there with out no source of inspiration?... it was common enough to hear a lot of the past comments stated here that the guy, bloke ... sorry fellow was not worth the effort but ladies, you fail to realize that for a guy to do that which you wish... lying there with the ark doors open ain't going to cut it. However, i did hear one lady say.. she was willing to teach as well as learn. she's not complaining.
Well ladies the 'o' comes with a sense of a lighter load to the heart and the percept that sex is an open book..we're all learning .
To crown this, teach that knows not and a magician you shall see. brood and moan and a snorer you will definitely get

Hey, we're not asking for a miracle here. Chances are that he's not in my bed without some clue as to what to do when he get's there. Most of us are not talking about adolescents, we are talking about adult, thrity-somethings to middle aged men who by chance of existing as long as they have should show the smallest interest in making sure his bed-partner is having just as much fun/enjoyment as he is. There is only so much a woman can do to help out a man in this area. We don't expect you to read our minds, just our body language.... such as VA has explained. The "hmmnns" and "Oh, yeah, right there, don't stop!"'s are meant to indicate what's working and what isn't. If I am going south on a man, you can damn well bet I am reading his body language and doing what I know he wants me to do... is reciprocation too much to ask for then?

Quoting: Originally posted by bountylover Good lord , a lot of you ladies sound lazy... waiting for the bloke to get you there with out no source of inspiration?... it was common enough to hear a lot of the past comments stated here that the guy, bloke ... sorry fellow was not worth the effort but ladies, you fail to realize that for a guy to do that which you wish... lying there with the ark doors open ain't going to cut it. However, i did hear one lady say.. she was willing to teach as well as learn. she's not complaining. Well ladies the 'o' comes with a sense of a lighter load to the heart and the percept that sex is an open book..we're all learning . To crown this, teach that knows not and a magician you shall see. brood and moan and a snorer you will definitely get

Hey, we're not asking for a miracle here. Chances are that he's not in my bed without some clue as to what to do when he get's there. Most of us are not talking about adolescents, we are talking about adult, thrity-somethings to middle aged men who by chance of existing as long as they have should show the smallest interest in making sure his bed-partner is having just as much fun/enjoyment as he is. There is only so much a woman can do to help out a man in this area. We don't expect you to read our minds, just our body language.... such as VA has explained. The "hmmnns" and "Oh, yeah, right there, don't stop!"'s are meant to indicate what's working and what isn't. If I am going south on a man, you can damn well bet I am reading his body language and doing what I know he wants me to do... is reciprocation too much to ask for then?

In your rocking-chair, by your window dreaming, shall you long, alone. In your rocking-chair, by your window, shall you dream such happiness as you may never feel. –Theodore Dreiser

Quoting: Originally posted by hornyd2000
i`ve done it, just the odd couple of times. on both times because i didnt really enjoy the experience and didnt want to seem unkind by revealing quite why my erection failed to be maintained

Now, this is the fun part. This is where the women get to learn a thing or 2 about men.
HOW do you fake it ? Do you throw away the condom before she can see ? What if you aren't using a condom ? I hope you don't spit on her back ! LOL !

Quoting: Originally posted by hornyd2000 i`ve done it, just the odd couple of times. on both times because i didnt really enjoy the experience and didnt want to seem unkind by revealing quite why my erection failed to be maintained

Now, this is the fun part. This is where the women get to learn a thing or 2 about men. HOW do you fake it ? Do you throw away the condom before she can see ? What if you aren't using a condom ? I hope you don't spit on her back ! LOL !

Quoting: Originally posted by bountylover
Good lord , a lot of you ladies sound lazy... waiting for the bloke to get you there with out no source of inspiration?... it was common enough to hear a lot of the past comments stated here that the guy, bloke ... sorry fellow was not worth the effort but ladies, you fail to realize that for a guy to do that which you wish... lying there with the ark doors open ain't going to cut it. However, i did hear one lady say.. she was willing to teach as well as learn. she's not complaining.
Well ladies the 'o' comes with a sense of a lighter load to the heart and the percept that sex is an open book..we're all learning .
To crown this, teach that knows not and a magician you shall see. brood and moan and a snorer you will definitely get

Thank you very much for representing a male point of view. It would weird me out if man and woman were both dead quiet.Personally like my laugh, I have different levels of noises that represent different feelings. I can do the
" Mmm..that feels good type whisper ",I can also reposition the man to a different angle to work towards what I know will touch my G spot and then I would say " Oooh Yeah, right there, don't stop " Stuff like that. Now when he does kick the "O " into gear then I am very vocal about it and my muscles tighten so he can feel it as well.
I do agree you have to help a man. I mean if you already gave him the time of day to be in your bed..what's a few more minutes ?
Then again, I hate wasting time and I think having a lousy time in the sack is a waste of time. There was a time when I was younger and I would not say anything to the guy, and I would just prey that it would be over soon. Can you imagine how many other women he went on to and gave them a lousy time too ? Then if they also did not help him he would just keep going on like that !
So, we have to help the man not just for us but for all the ladies in the future too !

Quoting: Originally posted by bountylover Good lord , a lot of you ladies sound lazy... waiting for the bloke to get you there with out no source of inspiration?... it was common enough to hear a lot of the past comments stated here that the guy, bloke ... sorry fellow was not worth the effort but ladies, you fail to realize that for a guy to do that which you wish... lying there with the ark doors open ain't going to cut it. However, i did hear one lady say.. she was willing to teach as well as learn. she's not complaining. Well ladies the 'o' comes with a sense of a lighter load to the heart and the percept that sex is an open book..we're all learning . To crown this, teach that knows not and a magician you shall see. brood and moan and a snorer you will definitely get

Thank you very much for representing a male point of view. It would weird me out if man and woman were both dead quiet.Personally like my laugh, I have different levels of noises that represent different feelings. I can do the " Mmm..that feels good type whisper ",I can also reposition the man to a different angle to work towards what I know will touch my G spot and then I would say " Oooh Yeah, right there, don't stop " Stuff like that. Now when he does kick the "O " into gear then I am very vocal about it and my muscles tighten so he can feel it as well. I do agree you have to help a man. I mean if you already gave him the time of day to be in your bed..what's a few more minutes ? Then again, I hate wasting time and I think having a lousy time in the sack is a waste of time. There was a time when I was younger and I would not say anything to the guy, and I would just prey that it would be over soon. Can you imagine how many other women he went on to and gave them a lousy time too ? Then if they also did not help him he would just keep going on like that ! So, we have to help the man not just for us but for all the ladies in the future too !

Good lord , a lot of you ladies sound lazy... waiting for the bloke to get you there with out no source of inspiration?... it was common enough to hear a lot of the past comments stated here that the guy, bloke ... sorry fellow was not worth the effort but ladies, you fail to realize that for a guy to do that which you wish... lying there with the ark doors open ain't going to cut it. However, i did hear one lady say.. she was willing to teach as well as learn. she's not complaining.
Well ladies the 'o' comes with a sense of a lighter load to the heart and the percept that sex is an open book..we're all learning .
To crown this, teach that knows not and a magician you shall see. brood and moan and a snorer you will definitely get

Good lord , a lot of you ladies sound lazy... waiting for the bloke to get you there with out no source of inspiration?... it was common enough to hear a lot of the past comments stated here that the guy, bloke ... sorry fellow was not worth the effort but ladies, you fail to realize that for a guy to do that which you wish... lying there with the ark doors open ain't going to cut it. However, i did hear one lady say.. she was willing to teach as well as learn. she's not complaining. Well ladies the 'o' comes with a sense of a lighter load to the heart and the percept that sex is an open book..we're all learning . To crown this, teach that knows not and a magician you shall see. brood and moan and a snorer you will definitely get

Quoting: Originally posted by aimeefla
Faking it or is that the process of learning how to achieve an orgasm?
Yes, I faked it, not to get it over with - but because it was apparent that it was not happening at that time. Why men "need" to hear the moans to prove that he was victorious in his endeavor to bring his lady to her ultimate orgasm. Maybe feminism has not been too kind.
Do you have to have an orgasm everytime? Why not enjoy the sensations, float in the feelings. Experience the touching, the different ways you can feel. Either on your own or with someone special.
I never thought of it as faking, but rather as learning more about me each time. I've told the guy that it's just not happening this time.
AimeeFla

Now the intimate time, the pleasure overall, etc. I'm all for. Whether it leads to orgasm or not. Anticipation can be a wonderful thing.

Quoting: Originally posted by aimeefla Faking it or is that the process of learning how to achieve an orgasm? Yes, I faked it, not to get it over with - but because it was apparent that it was not happening at that time. Why men "need" to hear the moans to prove that he was victorious in his endeavor to bring his lady to her ultimate orgasm. Maybe feminism has not been too kind. Do you have to have an orgasm everytime? Why not enjoy the sensations, float in the feelings. Experience the touching, the different ways you can feel. Either on your own or with someone special. I never thought of it as faking, but rather as learning more about me each time. I've told the guy that it's just not happening this time. AimeeFla

Now the intimate time, the pleasure overall, etc. I'm all for. Whether it leads to orgasm or not. Anticipation can be a wonderful thing.

Quoting: Originally posted by AmuseMe
If he's not doing the job, I damn sure ain't gonna make him think he is!! lol!
Good one VA

I agree amuseme!!!!!! I'm not moaning for his enjoyment. He's not going to get his w/o me getting something. Why should I sweat for someone that can't make me have an "O" or allow him to sweat on me, don't think so!

Quoting: Originally posted by AmuseMe If he's not doing the job, I damn sure ain't gonna make him think he is!! lol! Good one VA

I agree amuseme!!!!!! I'm not moaning for his enjoyment. He's not going to get his w/o me getting something. Why should I sweat for someone that can't make me have an "O" or allow him to sweat on me, don't think so!

Never faked it, I'm arealist and YES I believe in savoring each sensation, frankly good intimacy and kissing, holding, etc... far outweigh reaching the "O", I think the "O" is overrated, yeah it's great but enjoying the time with your partner is much more satisfying. 10 minutes with an "O" or 4 hours of pleasure with no stress of achieving the "O", far better!

Never faked it, I'm arealist and YES I believe in savoring each sensation, frankly good intimacy and kissing, holding, etc... far outweigh reaching the "O", I think the "O" is overrated, yeah it's great but enjoying the time with your partner is much more satisfying. 10 minutes with an "O" or 4 hours of pleasure with no stress of achieving the "O", far better!

Quoting: Originally posted by aimeefla
Faking it or is that the process of learning how to achieve an orgasm?
Yes, I faked it, not to get it over with - but because it was apparent that it was not happening at that time. Why men "need" to hear the moans to prove that he was victorious in his endeavor to bring his lady to her ultimate orgasm. Maybe feminism has not been too kind.
Do you have to have an orgasm everytime? Why not enjoy the sensations, float in the feelings. Experience the touching, the different ways you can feel. Either on your own or with someone special.
I never thought of it as faking, but rather as learning more about me each time. I've told the guy that it's just not happening this time.
AimeeFla

Well, that's a quickie, Aimee. lol... no "O" needed for us women, who do like the sensations, and a great gift to your bf/lover/so. If men ever found out that women enjoy sex without the "O", women everywhere would never have another one!

Quoting: Originally posted by aimeefla Faking it or is that the process of learning how to achieve an orgasm? Yes, I faked it, not to get it over with - but because it was apparent that it was not happening at that time. Why men "need" to hear the moans to prove that he was victorious in his endeavor to bring his lady to her ultimate orgasm. Maybe feminism has not been too kind. Do you have to have an orgasm everytime? Why not enjoy the sensations, float in the feelings. Experience the touching, the different ways you can feel. Either on your own or with someone special. I never thought of it as faking, but rather as learning more about me each time. I've told the guy that it's just not happening this time. AimeeFla

Well, that's a quickie, Aimee. lol... no "O" needed for us women, who do like the sensations, and a great gift to your bf/lover/so. If men ever found out that women enjoy sex without the "O", women everywhere would never have another one!

In your rocking-chair, by your window dreaming, shall you long, alone. In your rocking-chair, by your window, shall you dream such happiness as you may never feel. –Theodore Dreiser

Faking it or is that the process of learning how to achieve an orgasm?
Yes, I faked it, not to get it over with - but because it was apparent that it was not happening at that time. Why men "need" to hear the moans to prove that he was victorious in his endeavor to bring his lady to her ultimate orgasm. Maybe feminism has not been too kind.
Do you have to have an orgasm everytime? Why not enjoy the sensations, float in the feelings. Experience the touching, the different ways you can feel. Either on your own or with someone special.
I never thought of it as faking, but rather as learning more about me each time. I've told the guy that it's just not happening this time.
AimeeFla

Faking it or is that the process of learning how to achieve an orgasm? Yes, I faked it, not to get it over with - but because it was apparent that it was not happening at that time. Why men "need" to hear the moans to prove that he was victorious in his endeavor to bring his lady to her ultimate orgasm. Maybe feminism has not been too kind. Do you have to have an orgasm everytime? Why not enjoy the sensations, float in the feelings. Experience the touching, the different ways you can feel. Either on your own or with someone special. I never thought of it as faking, but rather as learning more about me each time. I've told the guy that it's just not happening this time. AimeeFla

The "big" O - faked it to get it over with - haven't faked it since my separation/divorce. It takes two to tango with a lot of toe stepping/crunching in between - I am always willing to be a student and a teacher.
PS I think you rock brunette Vegas Angel

The "big" O - faked it to get it over with - haven't faked it since my separation/divorce. It takes two to tango with a lot of toe stepping/crunching in between - I am always willing to be a student and a teacher. PS I think you rock brunette Vegas Angel

Thank you, Qadesh---I thought I was the only one... :(
I, too was a late bloomer, and since I have only been with my husband for 15 years (God, has it been THAT long???!!!), I have had ample opportunity to hone my acting skills. However, like I said, once I find someone I deem a worthy love interest, I will surely check to see what all is working... :) --Here's hoping! True

Thank you, Qadesh---I thought I was the only one... :( I, too was a late bloomer, and since I have only been with my husband for 15 years (God, has it been THAT long???!!!), I have had ample opportunity to hone my acting skills. However, like I said, once I find someone I deem a worthy love interest, I will surely check to see what all is working... :) --Here's hoping! True