June 6, 2014

21ST CENTURY RELATIONSHIPS: Nude selfies lead to rape rap against Saugus mom. “A married mom betrayed her family’s trust by having sex with her daughter’s teenage friend in a hotel room and a parked car before swapping the nude selfies that were her undoing, authorities said. Heather Salines, 38, has pleaded not guilty to six counts of aggravated rape of a child, one count of enticement of a minor and one count of dissemination of pornography to a minor. She confessed to two instances of sex and sending photos, according to police reports. . . . ‘(W)hen I looked at him, he did not act like a 15-year-old … he acted like a grown man,’ she told police.”

If a 14-year-old girl got talked into sex by a 38-year-old man, nobody would be saying such idiotic things. But when it's a 14-year-old boy talked into sex by a 38-year-old woman, people say idiotic things like "Reasonably hot older lady has sex with teenage boy. Where's the crime?"

Well, f**k that. Abuse of a minor is abuse of a minor, period. Try saying that to a certain friend of mine, who was taken advantage of by an older woman he should have been able to trust. And count yourself lucky afterwards if he doesn't punch you into next week.

him too. He didn't jump to mind as quickly as the husband is presumably an adult. But the daughter is what ? 14 or 15, probably. A child betrayed by its parents is even worse, in my mind, than a spouse betrayed. There is the age, the dependency, the fundamental biological trust. There is also the injury to feminine pride at a very young age. So, after Mrs. Robinson-or-worse does her time for statutory rape and child abuse, once she's out of prison and employed she can be paying alimony to her husband. LOTS of alimony, with double child support. And therapy for both of them.

It's all about youthful stamina and the heightened sex drive of a women in her 30's. She has a teenage daughter, which means she married fairly young for this era. If I were her husband, it's time for the DNA test. And I wouldn't be surprised if this happens more often that reported, but some boys/women have enough sense to cover their tracks.

That poor daughter. Betrayed indeed, on all sides. The mother should go to prison, yes, for the usual term for statutory rape. Then mama can start her second term for child abuse. That poor daughter . .

If a 14-year-old girl got talked into sex by a 38-year-old man, nobody would be saying such idiotic things. But when it's a 14-year-old boy talked into sex by a 38-year-old woman, people say idiotic things like "Reasonably hot older lady has sex with teenage boy. Where's the crime?"

Well, f**k that. Abuse of a minor is abuse of a minor, period. Try saying that to a certain friend of mine, who was taken advantage of by an older woman he should have been able to trust. And count yourself lucky afterwards if he doesn't punch you into next week.

It may well be that the two aren't remotely similar. No, men and women aren't the same. Boys and girls aren't the same. This woman would not have had to talk me into anything when I was 15. I would have done it willingly, and with no regrets.

We (conservatives) take gender disparity for granted when discussing why women should not be in combat units. Sometimes gender disparity favors men. Sometimes it favors women. You cannot expect women to "deal with it" when it favors men. No, a woman having sex with a 15-yr-old boy is not the same as a man having sex with a 15-yr-old girl, period.

As someone who was once a 15 year old boy, take it from me when I tell you that the young man will be just fine. He's not a victim. In fact, there is a 100% chance that he is the envy of every boy in his school.

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