Kerr says, "You can probably tell I’m a Virgo, thanks to all the aforementioned planning and research, but that doesn’t mean this process should be joyless—anything but!"

"While you should definitely be on the same page about 90% of what you’re registering for, remember to be a little flexible with your significant other and allow for indulgences, even ones that might seem slightly nonsensical," she recommends. "Everyone has some random thing that they’ve secretly always wanted to register for, and even if it doesn’t fully make sense in your overall plan, just go with it. A little flexibility will go a long way. Promise."