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Chebeir

Alexandre Chbeir, is a man some dancers have gotten to know because he harassed A well know dancer, we’ll call her Rey (because we like Starwars) via FB messenger. In fact he uses multiple social media sites to harass women. Multitasker!

Here’s the original exchange with REY that brought it to OUR attention. It’s been posted and shared multiple times on FB . It was then removed by FB. FB removed a subsequent post shared by a second dancer (let’s call her A for awesome) saying it “violated FB standards.” That post was SHARED 300+ times before being removed…so it resonated with people.

The following exchange went on between him and A after she’d shared Rey’s screenshots. Please note that he frames this all around how it affects him: how he’s the wronged party and women involved are being bitches, Blah Blah Blah. Needless to say, these were posted and deleted by FB as well.

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You might feel sorry for him…I almost did. Then I followed a hunch and did more searches on him. SURPRISE! He does this on twitter and instagram as well! Sometimes he gets his penis involved. His actions HAVE been screenshot and shared before and he ALWAYS acts the same way: begging that things be taken down, saying he’s afraid, and then getting angry if they aren’t.

Then I thought of how many more women must be out there. Women who didn’t take screen shots, who blocked without calling him out on his behavior because they just wanted him to go away. I got angry and started keeping notes.

Here is a harrasment call-out from the last three months. It was public a few hours ago but I guess he got active again and got another site to protect his harassing. Google Cache is my friend. By Alexandre’s thinking, Google Cache is probably a sadistic feminist.

He then went on to bother @mkkunk’s sister to ask her to make her take it down…with the usual “I’m scared and embarrassed” line but both were “Um…NOPE.”

And I’m sure there are people reading this who thinks this is petty and nothing. It’s not huge but it’s one of those small, VEXING, things women have to deal with. Harassment, escalation of harassment (in this case calls & dick pictures) and then being the recipients of anger. Add to that the fact that this behavior gets a pass on social media and it’s the people being harassed who are silenced when they speak up…EVEN when that speaking up is simply posting the word-for-word photo exchange of what they’ve had to put up with.

No. No more.

“Your Daily Dish” picked up the story on January 13th, 2017. Neither Rey nor A submitted it (nor did I). When your poor behavior gets shared 300+ times because it resonates with people who want this sort of behavior to stop…and gets removed? The internet doesn’t forget. Who knows who shared it? The Dish didn’t name names.

He’s at it again! We wouldn’t have known until he came into my account @onlinedating_sucks on Instagram to complain that another woman like me messed up his chance to be with a woman that he’d been in love with for years by “outing” him! I would love to somehow figure out a way to get more coverage of this guy because he somehow doesn’t learn

I along with other users got his Instagram taken down, so for now he will not be a problem there. I would try to report him to local police and Facebook as well but I believe in the past they (Facebook) have done nothing to help. They seem to be unconcerned with the harassment. You can message me @onlinedatingsucks11@gmail.com or contact me on Instagram @onlinedating_sucks I’m keeping track of everyone he contacts/has contacted.

Hey just started harassing me this past month and I took screenshots if you would like them for this story. I’m so pissed Facebook won’t do ANYTHING about this POS. Thank you for posting this and keeping us safe!

This guy is a fucking scum bag loser. He has major league embarrassed himself and men in general. Ladies, no one should talk to you like this, or to anyone like this. There has to be some sort of chemical imbalance or a few dents in his skull. If there are no dents… there needs to be. ALWAYS expose this behaviour. I feel sorry for any girls that have been messaged in any manor along these lines, the best choice is don’t message anyone you haven’t met or don’t know in real life or person or whatever…. you never know who is on the other side of that screen..

I think this guy goes by a lot of different names on battle.net, he been harassing me since I was 15 on battle.net he repeats himself non stop, nothing new, nothing funny, just hurtful stuff. he’s brain dead and likes to argue online. to bad he hides there 2

The first time it went viral I started recording friends of mine getting fallout . He was still using multiple accounts on FB then but had been blocked from Instagram.

I assume people using his Twitter to contact and I fort his family is part of why he left there.

This zombie resurgence of the article is months and months past the original time it occurred.

I haven’t taken anything down because I continue to get messages from women he’s bothered prior to the article and since. About once a month someone tells me another story or thanks me for keeping this up.

I’ve always said…if the stories of him harassing women stop and not a whisper is heard, I’ll let this quietly fold away.

Honestly, they should’ve put the exchange up with his name and profile pic blocked out. It wouldn’t have changed the message of what women have to deal with. Leaving it in sends a different message. What he did was wrong, very wrong. But THIS isn’t right either. The reason the posts are deleted are because they aren’t censored. He still would’ve known it was his messages up there, and may have been more likely to apologize. Him asking to be censored or, if it isn’t, have it deleted, is a reasonable request.

News about the harasser by the name of Alexandre Chbeir. His real name is Alexandre Chebeir. He lives in Gatineau, Québec, Canada. He has been brought to justice. He pleated guilty to charges of online harassment and will be sentenced in court March 15.

The complete information about the case is in French in an article from the daily newspaper Le Devoir from Montreal. The article is titled “Cyberharcèlement – Des femmes obtiennent justice” by Lisa-Marie Gervais, published Friday March 9, 2018.

Here’s a short passage from the article describing the case in French: