When I first heard the suggestion of scheduling sex I thought " I want to be spontaneous and wild". I didn't want to schedule sex every Monday, Wednesday and Friday as the excitement would be non existent. Doing more research and I have found that with extremely busy schedules and all the stresses we encounter on a daily basis I feel the best way to reconnect as a married couple sexually is scheduled sex. Here is why. After a long day of cleaning the house, running the kids around, shopping for groceries, preparing dinner, bathing the children and getting them to bed by the time I crawl into bed my mind will start racing around. My mind says " you are so tired but you really should be intimate with your husband". Then I go to bed feeling guilty and my husband goes to bed feeling unsatisfied sexually. So the power of scheduling sex is that I know on Monday after the children go to bed we have it planned to be sexual. On Tuesday after the children go to bed I can crawl into our bed and fall asleep peacefully with no guilt attached. The days that sex is scheduled you can think about the evening you and your man will create. You can make sure that the sheets are changed, you are wearing something sexy and you can get your mind thinking about all the fun and sexual things you will be experiencing later this evening. Scheduled sex is of great value in a marriage. When sex has become a scheduled occurrence then the emotion and the sexually energy will continue to build and build. You can still have amazing sex even when it is on the calendar two to three times a week. Start scheduling and see what it does for your marriage!

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My name is Cameo .I have been married for 16 years and with my husband for 17.5 years. I know that the sexual connection in a marriage can create strength and happiness and I also know the lack of a sexual connection can leave you feeling empty and dissatisfied. Lets get real open and become sexually satisfied in our marriages!