Girls - have you cheated?

have you ever cheated? if so, can you explain why any more satisfactorily than a man might? if you have not cheated, how close have you come...have you thought about it? how often? are we really different as men and women? i have the feeling that we are not that different...and that there is no shame in admitting that we have a little animal in us. sometimes a lot of animal.

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have you ever cheated? if so, can you explain why any more satisfactorily than a man might? if you have not cheated, how close have you come...have you thought about it? how often? are we really different as men and women? i have the feeling
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have you ever cheated? if so, can you explain why any more satisfactorily than a man might? if you have not cheated, how close have you come...have you thought about it? how often? are we really different as men and women? i have the feeling that we are not that different...and that there is no shame in admitting that we have a little animal in us. sometimes a lot of animal.

Not a cheater and I'm strictly against it. I'd never consider it, and if I did, I'd do my partner a favor and leave him. I would not deserve him if I wanted or thought of cheating on him.

Let's just say that I've done things that I'm not super proud of. I think that the most important part of any relationship is honesty, and as long as you're honest with each other, it doesn't have to be the end of the world.

I have cheated, and it was in the beginning of the "relationship". I'm not trying to make excuses for myself, but in those two instances, the lines of the "relationship" weren't clear...and I'm using quotes because I didn't even know there was a relationship to begin with other than that I was sleeping with that person on a somewhat regular occasion (which I assumed was 'friends with benefits')...howev er they obviously had a different idea of what was going on.

Though once the relationship had been clearly established (by them saying that this was what it was), I did not cheat. So I guess the answer of whether or not I cheated in the first place will depend on who you ask.

I have cheated, with my current husband. Our respective relationships were not good--but it was no excuse not to wait until we were single. You cannot break what is already broken, but you can wait until it is permanent....

We have been together 16 years, so it was not a fling but it was still a situation that we are less than proud of.

have you ever cheated? if so, can you explain why any more satisfactorily than a man might? if you have not cheated, how close have you come...have you thought about it? how often? are we really different as men and women? i have the feeling
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have you ever cheated? if so, can you explain why any more satisfactorily than a man might? if you have not cheated, how close have you come...have you thought about it? how often? are we really different as men and women? i have the feeling that we are not that different...and that there is no shame in admitting that we have a little animal in us. sometimes a lot of animal.

I've thought about it, but since I've been cheated on extensively in the past, I knew how much it hurt so I've never acted on it. I never plan to. It's a really messed up thing when you can just talk to the other person you're in a relationship with and fix your actual problems, or come to a non monogamous solution with each others consent.

I answered, "I have thought about it," but there was never any danger of my acting on my impulses. I don't think this is a men/women issue - I think it is a self-control issue. Crushes/temptation within relationships are normal. Just don't do it. Stick to your agreement with your partner.

have you ever cheated? if so, can you explain why any more satisfactorily than a man might? if you have not cheated, how close have you come...have you thought about it? how often? are we really different as men and women? i have the feeling
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have you ever cheated? if so, can you explain why any more satisfactorily than a man might? if you have not cheated, how close have you come...have you thought about it? how often? are we really different as men and women? i have the feeling that we are not that different...and that there is no shame in admitting that we have a little animal in us. sometimes a lot of animal.

have you ever cheated? if so, can you explain why any more satisfactorily than a man might? if you have not cheated, how close have you come...have you thought about it? how often? are we really different as men and women? i have the feeling
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have you ever cheated? if so, can you explain why any more satisfactorily than a man might? if you have not cheated, how close have you come...have you thought about it? how often? are we really different as men and women? i have the feeling that we are not that different...and that there is no shame in admitting that we have a little animal in us. sometimes a lot of animal.

i kissed another guy 2 days before me and my boyfriend broke up, i pretty much knew the relationship was over