Is He Into Me? 8 Huge Signs He’s Into You And Likes You

You’re with a guy, and you want to know whether he’s ready to take the next step or not. Or you’re crushing on him and wondering if he feels the same way. Or maybe you just noticed him and you’re a little intrigued.

The point is, you don’t know exactly how he feels about you. How do you figure it out?

How do you tell if he’s into you or not?

Don’t worry – this can be simple. I’m going to give you the biggest signs a guy is into you, so you can tell instantly whether he’s really into you or whether he’s feeling something more casual.

That way, you’ll know exactly what to do when you’re around him… and where to go from here.

The 8 Biggest Signs He’s Into You

1. He Calls And Texts You First

This is one of the bigger, dead giveaway signs.

Unless he’s got legitimate, non-romantic reasons to be texting you and calling you (like if he was trying to schedule something for work or some other logistical problem), then him calling and texting you first is a huge sign that he’s into you.

If he’s the one usually trying to make plans to meet up, that’s a great sign that he’s into you and he wants to take things to the next level with you.

3. He’s Always In A Good Mood Around You

Are you sensing a theme?

Guys want to date women they feel good around. In fact, the biggest criteria for whether a guy wants to be with a woman isn’t how she looks (that’s surface level, whether he wants to casually see her), it’s how he feels around her.

Here’s another hint: if he’s in a good mood when he’s around you, it’s because he feels good when he’s with you.

It means that being with you and engaging with you puts him in a good mood. It makes him feel good. It makes him want to be around you more.

More simply put: it means he’s into you.

4. He Makes An Effort With You

When guys are really into a girl, the question isn’t “if” they’re going to put in the effort, it’s “when”.

Things that might have other guys rolling their eyes or sighing and disconnecting don’t phase him. He’s willing to go the extra mile for you, and it doesn’t even seem like he notices it’s an extra mile.

In other words, putting in work for you doesn’t seem like work to him, because he thinks you’re worth it. It’s not even a thought that crosses his mind.

Obviously, there’s exceptions here. A guy who’s really into a girl might disengage and shut down if every time they fight she fights mean. Or if she fights to tear him down rather than solve the issue.

But most of the time, if he’s willing to fight with you, he’s willing to fight for you.

6. He Wants To Make Future Plans

I’m not talking about him asking you to get married here – I would hope that you would know whether a guy who pops the question is really into you or not.

this is very true… the first thing i noticed to my bf that gave the sign that he really likes me was his effort. he’s willing to go the extra mile for me, it’s like he doesn’t care if he will get tired just to be with you…