Taking place next Thursday, February 12th, the bar will put up to 16 local dudes on the auction block to raise money for AIDS Law Project, a “a nonprofit, public-interest law firm providing free legal assistance to people with HIV/AIDS and those affected by the epidemic.” AIDS Law Project is a favorite charity of Boxers PHL’s, who was able to donate $500 to the nonprofit following their Super Bowl tailgating and viewing party last Sunday.

The auction starts at 9 p.m. on Thursday, February 12th. There will be performances by Cherry Pop, Roxy VonFresh, Alana X Treme, Audrey Hoang Ai, which, bar manager Keith Stiles tells me, is the first time Boxers has hosted drag performances. There will also be $6 Stoli drink specials and over $1000 dollars in raffle prizes up for grabs. And of course there’s the lineup of sexy singles who you could take out on the town for the right price. Because I know you’re wondering, you can check out at least nine of the confirmed bachelors in the slideshow below. Happy bidding, boys!

Joe Facenda

Trevor Powell

Tyjuan Pierce

Edward Benner

Timmy Shreffler

Colin Irving

Gay Bachelor Blog asked a series of good-looking men to describe their first sexual experience with another man. Here is what followed:

I found the video on The Gaily Grind, which threw up an accompanying poll asking readers to share how old they were when they had their first sexual experience. Surprisingly, as of press time, the most popular answer by far is “Between 8 and 12,” with a more reasonable 17 following about 10 points behind. Check that out—and weigh in—here.

The New York Times is reporting that the F.D.A. will lift the ban that prohibits all gay men from donating blood; according to the new policy, only men who have had sex with other men in the last 12 months will not be able to donate. Lifting the current ban will add an estimated 317,000 pints of blood to America’s blood supply.

According to the report, “The F.D.A. enacted the ban in 1983, early in the AIDS epidemic. At the time, little was known about the human immunodeficiency virus, which causes the disease, and there was no quick test to determine whether somebody had it. But science — and the understanding of H.I.V. in particular — has advanced in the intervening decades, and on Tuesday the F.D.A. acknowledged as much, lifting the lifetime ban but keeping in place a more modest block on donations by men who have had sex with other men in the last 12 months.”

The agency, which is said to issue a draft detailing the change in early 2015, said it had “carefully examined and considered the scientific evidence.”

Experts believe that if the ban was completely lifted and all gay men could donate, the 317,000 pints of newly-donated blood would double.

Every week, Philly gay gents share their local picks for Man Crush Monday. This week: Adam J. Williams (aka Adam JW), a multilingual Chinese food-enthusiast who spends his day working in public health outreach for a local nonprofit.

Adam J. Williams

My name is Adam, and these are my local picks for #MCM:

Adam Towle

Some tastes are just … acquired. Possibly the lovechild of Kanye West and Lady Gaga, Adam is about as unconventional as they come, and in all the best ways. Outspoken, yet charming; Adam is the guy for you if you’re interested in moving beyond the mainstream. He could win the Summer and Winter Olympics in cuddling (that alone should win him the title), and if you’ve ever been on the kickball field with him you’ll know that he’s not afraid to let you know what he thinks. He’s got all the qualities you’d want in a boyfriend and so many more. Pro-tips if you’re looking to woo this gentle giant: He loves Burger King and Root Beer floats. As all acquired tastes, Adam only gets better over time—and did I mention he comes with an adorable puppy?

Glenn Knight

This guy’s name says it all. Not only is he smart, sweet, and handsome as all hell, but he’s mysterious, too. When asked about the Harry Potter-esque scar on his forehead he’ll tell you an unlikely story about a childhood injury. Don’t believe him. As his last name suggests, it’s an artifact from an epic battlefield injury involving a dragon. And as if all that weren’t enough, his sense of style is unparalleled.

Alex Peters

Every once in a while you meet a guy in Philly, and you think to yourself, “What the hell is he still doing here?” Alex has more talent in an eyelash than most of us can hope for in our lifetimes. But as humble as he is you’d never know it upon meeting him. Breaking any and all negative stereotypes that might come along with working in the arts, Alex is well-read, down-to-Earth, cosmopolitan, and not afraid to go against the current. He’s been featured in The New York Times, on PBS, and even on our very own SEPTA bus stop ads for the Pennsylvania Ballet. Don’t wait too long if you’re interested in him, because it’s only a matter of time before he makes it big. Oh, and did I mention he’s got a body-ody-ody?

Grant Berger

Grant is the guy your parents always hoped you’d get with. He’s attractive, successful, compassionate, and about as nice as they come. And if the rumors are true, he’s pretty damn good in the sack. The downfall? He’s straight. But since every gay guy gets a constant barrage of women asking them, “Why are there no straight guys as perfect as you?” It makes sense to remember Grant’s name. He won’t disappoint.

Mark Schmid

With an unmatched sense of humor, a willingness to get out there and actually experience the world, and stunningly blue eyes that could mesmerize even the most jaded queen, Mark is the man that got away. As loyal as they come, Mark is that guy who sticks by your side when the going gets tough. He’s got a penchant for cooking (even if he does leave crumbs behind), a contagious laugh that will grow your heart three sizes, an aptitude for all things Philadelphia, and he’ll walk you to your door at the end of the night. Oh, and did I mention he’s a pilot? He’s about as hot as they come.

Submit your Man Crush Monday!

Here are the rules: (1) Name five to 10 guys you’re crushing on, and tell us why they have your heart aflutter (2) You and all men involved have to be from Philadelphia (3) Email your crushes to jmiddleton@phillymag.com.

Chris Pompilii

My name is Chris. I am a fourth-year Drexel student, a former swimmer and an avid gym-goer. I like to balance my summers between working at my engineering co-op and going to the beach.

Ryan Brown

Ryan is an accountant in Philadelphia. He, like Chris is also into fitness and weight lifting. He also enjoys cooking, and spends a lot of time in Philly clubs and the beach.

Saeed Manley

I have known Saeed for a while. He is such a joy to be around. His bubbly personality can make anyone smile. He is the type of person who will improve your mood no matter how bad of a day you have. And like my other crushes, Saeed is a gym junkie. He works so hard to keep his body in great shape.

Giovanni DiGabriele

Giovanni is a young and super-energetic guy. His laugh is contagious; he knows how to liven up any room. He is a busy college student who still finds time to pursue his passion of ballet, and is a great support system for his friends in Philly.

Dakarai Glascoe

Dakarai is quite the character. His wit and humorous, sarcastic personality keeps everyone on their toes. He is an amazing dancer and steals the show whenever he is out of the town.

Submit your Man Crush Monday!

Here are the rules: (1) Name five to 10 guys you’re crushing on, and tell us why they have your heart aflutter (2) You and all men involved have to be from Philadelphia (3) Email your crushes to jmiddleton@phillymag.com.

Fruit flies, also known as fag hags, queen bees, homo honey, fruit loops, Goldilocks, flame dames, fairy princesses, gabes (a sweet combo of “gay” and “babes”) and cherry fairies, are frequent companions of gay men and visitors to the Gayborhood. Historically, these are the girls who surround themselves with gay men, usually only associating with gay men. They’re everywhere, they love us, and I want them to get the hell away from me.

Every week, Philly gay gents share their local picks for Man Crush Monday. This week, everyone’s favorite shirtless twink photographer, Alexander John, shares the stories behind some of his favorite local photo shoots.

Alexander John

Hey, Qweens! My name is Alexander John and I am sharing my “Model Crushes” with some of the fabulous boys I have worked with.

Matt O.

Matt has gone from being my biggest crush at 18 to one of my best friends. I mean c’mon have you seen his Siberian husky blue eyes?! When he isn’t hosting shows (on and off and on again), he has constantly been a support in my career. The first photo shoot I did in Philly when I moved here was with him. We traveled around the city looking for weird locations and found an abandoned alley in Northern Liberties. We got this awesome shot and it’s still one of my favorite photos of him.

Bobby P.

Bobby is one of those boys who sneaks into the Gayborhood once in a while and you think to yourself “damn, who is that handsome homo?!” I took photos of him last summer at Penn's Landing to build on our portfolios. He was on that Tyra Banks School of modeling game, because bitch is fierce!

Stephen K.

So many of you may know Stephen as a sexy member of the “Pit Crew” at Philly Drag Wars. Last year I did a photo shoot with him for PhillyGayCalendar as one of its calendar boys. From formal wear to his undies, Stephen looks amazing either way. However, I chose to use the undies picture for obvious reasons.

Tyler P.

So what hasn’t already been said about Tyler? Yes, he is a gorgeous piece of man, but he is truly sweet and down-to-earth, and that is what I love about him. For my photo shoot with him we were doing promotional photos for Tatteeboy a local Philly brand. However, I don’t think any of the people at Race Street Pier gawking at him cared much about what he was wearing (me included). He was a good sport and has been one of my favorites to work with.

Every week, Philly gay gents share their local picks for Man Crush Monday. This week, Billy Cavallo, bartender, student, and reigning Most Original Stoli Guy. You can see him passing off his local title this week, when five guys compete to represent Philadelphia in the national competition. Details here.

Rick Naughton

Rick is amazing, because no matter what he is always happy to see you. He's one of my favorite people to run into because you can sit with him and have a conversation about literally anything. He has such a kind heart. Any guy would be lucky to catch him.

I sometimes wonder when this one finds time to sleep with all that he does (and judging from his 5 a.m. Facebook statuses. I don't think he does). Not only is he one of the most hardworking and visible activists in the community, he has the looks to go along with it. I think it has something to do with those eyes ...

Mikel Pop

This one can easily light up a room with his smile and laugh. Such a happy-go-lucky person, and so hardworking at the same time. As a flight attendant, he's constantly flying all over the world (which I'm super jealous of). He's off the market but if he wasn't I'm sure there would be a whole slew of suitors lined up to take him out.

Sam Rodriquez (Sammy Boy)

This hunky Latino gets me hot and bothered every time I see him. Sexy, stylish, and a complete sweetheart, this guy is the whole package. We bump into each other in the city a lot, but always in passing. Maybe next time we can linger for a longer chat.

I've known Drew going on five years now, but we've become the best of friends this past year. He is one of the most down-to-Earth guys in this city. Handsome, chill, and a downright sick DJ and producer, he's definitely someone the boys should keep an eye on. Be sure to check out his Soundcloud page, and see him at iCandy, where he can be your entertainment and eye candy all night long.

Chris Urban

I've met Chris in the recent months and he is one of the funniest people I've been around in the city. With his "All T, no shade" attitude, he's one of the most open and honest people to sit down and have a kiki with. Alongside that he's also a Philly DJ and a sick dancer.

Submit your Man Crush Monday!

Here are the rules: (1) Name five to 10 guys you’re crushing on, and tell us why they have your heart aflutter (2) You and all men involved have to be from Philadelphia (3) Email your crushes to jmiddleton@phillymag.com.

R. Eric Thomas

I’m R. Eric Thomas and I have a crush on every boy. Last night I performed my show, Always the Bridesmaid, about marriage and cake so I figured this was the perfect time to passive-aggressively hit on strangers and casual acquaintances. Narrowing this list down was so hard for me. (That’s what she said. Oh God, this is already a train wreck.) Anyway, here’s a bunch of guys I want to make out with and/or who owe me money.

Drew Compaine

Drew, also known as Drootrax, is not only one of the most exciting, innovative DJs in the city, but he’s also a genuinely nice guy and super cute. He’s doing big things in the music world and he works hard for it. Every time I’m around him I seem to lose my ability to speak English. I’m like, “Oh, there’s Drootrax! Beep beep, toot toot, vroom vroom.” Because my go-to flirtation method is to turn into Herbie the Love Bug. It’s working.

Brendon Jobs

O.M.G. Brendon is the BEST! He’s one of those guys who is everything all at once—super socially conscious, effortlessly charming, a fantastic dancer and very funny. He’s also a teacher, which is great because educators tend to have better credit scores than I do—and impeccable grammar. What more can you ask for? Oh! And if you’re lucky, you’ll catch Brendan singing at karaoke; he’s got an amazing voice, too!

Dan Callahan

Speaking of singers, Dan has one of the most phenomenal voices I’ve ever heard. I got to know him while he was competing in Songbird and every week he came with something inventive, emotionally mind-blowing and pitch perfect. He’s also great at stage banter. And, I guess, regular banter, as well. All kinds of banter!

Nathan Stanchak

Another Songbird alum, Nathan is so fun and so cute. During the contest I gave him the nickname Sexy Biscuit, because I sometimes forget the definition of sexual harassment. Nathan is always nice, always funny, a fantastic performer and, apparently, a great bowler. Oh, and also, a very sexy biscuit.

Kev Gallagher

Every MCM seems to have one guy whom the author doesn’t actually know and yet fawns over anyway. This week that spot belongs to Kev! I’ve only met him, like, twice but he’s got a cute face, great tattoos, a charming personality and I wanna kiss him. I could never say this in person, though. I’m so shy! That’s why I’m posting it here on the Secret app. This is the Secret app, right?

Kevin Aldridge

Kevin is always shirtless and the world is a better place for it. Beyond his impeccable body, however, he has one of the greatest personalities I’ve ever encountered. He’s so funny, he has a seemingly limitless joie de vivre, he’s a great writer and gives amazing (frequently sassy) advice. Kevin is one of the true highlights of this city and I just adore him.

Foster Longo

Foster, also known as Lili St. Queer, is so phenomenally talented I don’t know whether I’m obsessed with him or I hate him! I have so many emotions. He’s terrifically inventive performer—always funny, creative and smart—plus he’s one of the best drag performers this city has to offer. And he’s a great singer! On stage he reminds me a lot of Jinx Monsoon. Off stage he’s just as gracious as can be. He’s happily engaged to Mr. Fahrenheit, so screw him and his perfect life.

David Amodei

Another DJ! This guy is the beat behind the Nitty Gritty party at Venture Inn and frequently spins soul and 60s rock at Sissy Hop, Philly’s best dance party. I’ve twisted, shimmied and go-go’d the night away to the funky sounds of his 45s. He’s ridiculously attractive and has a great sense of style, as all DJs should. The only time I’ve actually spoken to him has been when yelling over the DJ booth “Do you have any Beyonce?!” but I’m sure we’re in love.

Jack Cooper

This is the best guy in Philadelphia. Cooper is amazing. He has a filthy, sardonic sense of humor and the beatific soul of a Buddhist monk. That’s unbeatable! He’s got great tats and the sexy swagger of a cowboy. He’s recently married and I couldn’t be happier for him, but no MCM would be complete without this man. He makes me want to be a better person.

Kurt Souder

Oh, geez. I have such a crush on Kurt Souder. I turn into Tina Belcher around him, just mumbling random things and winking. It’s embarrassing. Kurt has the best sense of style; this guy can rock a partially unbuttoned shirt likes nobody’s business. He always looks like he’s just returned from a fashion photo shoot in Ibiza. And that chest hair! I die! I am deceased! Kurt is so nice and so friendly and he gives great hugs. OMG I have such a crush!

Neal Santos

Brian Sanders

I recently got the postcard for Brian’s latest FringeArts show, “Suspended” in the mail. It features a super ripped dancer wearing nothing but boxing gloves and a strategically placed sirloin. I got so excited. BECAUSE I LOVE STEAK! Brian, through his company Junk, creates contemporary dance pieces that are stunningly erotic, daringly acrobatic, and delightfully cheeky. My favorite piece of his is "Dance of the Dead," which was simultaneously elegiac and life-affirming. He’s also a really friendly, really good-looking guy whom I love running into.

Submit your Man Crush Monday!

Here are the rules: (1) Name five to 10 guys you’re crushing on, and tell us why they have your heart aflutter (2) You and all men involved have to be from Philadelphia (3) Email your crushes to jmiddleton@phillymag.com.