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Thursday, February 27, 2014

Being HIS side chick!

Sooooo, I think this is a very sensitive subject to every
woman....the side chick! There are a couple of shows that are on television
that highlights the woman being the side chick (i.e. Scandal, Being Mary Jane,
etc). No woman wants to find out that
her husband has a side chick. Urban Dictionary defines the side chick as the
other woman; also known as the mistress; a female that is neither a male’s wife
nor girlfriend who has relations with the male while he is in another
relationship. Now I will admit, most women have been the side chick before.
Guess what you can again but only inside your marriage.That means only to your husband. Ephesians 5:22 says wives submit yourself to
your OWN husband. How do you do this? I'm glad you asked. Now every and yes
I said every woman has multiple personalities. So why not apply that to your
marriage? How? Ok, here goes...

1) Be the wife in the day time BUT send little sexy messages
during the day. Now make sure you send it to the right person. Yes you may have
a flashback before you got married...lol ok let me be serious.

2) When you talk to him, change your tone. Put a little sexy
in your voice. *by this time if the both of you have 8-5 jobs, make him
excited about coming home*

3) Prepare dinner. If it's possible see if you can turn it
into a candle light dinner. If you have kids, don't worry about the candles,
put the candles in the bedroom and/or the bathroom. *now if he volunteers to
help you clean up, then guess what, you have already made a difference! HA!!*

4) Now my household we don't like to have mobile devices out
during dinner but if your household is different, then continue to send him the
text messages. *prepare him for the night*

5) Give him the eye!!! Every man and I mean every man knows
the look! Trust me ladies, it works! Hahaha

6) During dinner time, sit by him at the table and take your
foot and go up and down softly on his leg. Trust me, it’s worth it!

Ok so after dinner, I'm not sure what your normal routine is
but make sure you keep him wondering. If you stop, then he is going to wonder.
Now by now, you should be getting ready to turn in for the night.

Ok, adult play time. You then are now the side chick. You
have a different name, different personality, and a different look. This is
where you then ask him what he wants. Why are you asking him because that is
what the other woman does? The men pretty much tells and shows the other woman
want he wants which is 95% of what the wife WON'T or DON'T do.

Now I can't tell you what to specifically do to your husband
because every man is different sexually but all men loves SEX! Give him a
massage, a warm bubble bath (that you two take together), lotion/oil him down,
and so much more.So you pretty much get
the idea of where this is going.If you
want to take it to the next level in just totally pleasing him, ask him for one
of his fantasies.But if you don't want
to make into an intimate matter, just make sure you take time out with
him.We always want them to take time
out of their schedule to be with us and do things for and with us but do we do
the same for him. Ladies we must learn and start taking care of our
husband.All the "side chick"
is doing is things that he wants and what you're not doing at home.These types of women prey on married men and
can't wait to find out that something is going sour in their marriage.

As I stated, you be the SIDE CHICK! Start putting him first
again and watch how things get better!! Take care of your man. Make your marriage
excited!! The same thing you did to get him, trust me, you have to continue to
do it to keep him!

Hebrews 13:4 Marriage
is honourable in all, and the bed undefiled: but whoremongers and adulterers
God will judge!

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