We’ve all heard the term “passive-aggressive” and I think most of us have experienced it. When someone is being passively aggressive to us we “feel” that something is wrong, but we just can’t put our finger on it. Maybe sometimes we use passive-aggressive ways to deal with someone. But just what IS “passive aggressive” behavior, […]

In my journey toward healing from life’s pains, and from the PTSD and the pains caused by the trauma from the offenders in my life and family, I think one of the hardest things has been to forgive myself. I was raised in an abusive Christian atmosphere with a terrible, impossible definition of “forgiving others,” […]

What if the offender in your family has a drug and/or alcohol problem? Do you believe that is the primary cause of the offensive behavior? That if they would just stop using they would magically become loving and kind? It is a fact that some people have a genetic tendency to become addicted to substances […]