genderqueer

Definitions

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adj. Of a person who identifies as (has a gender identity which is) neither male nor female, but outside of the gender binary and/or gender spectrum.

n. Someone who is genderqueer.

Etymologies

gender +‎ queer (Wiktionary)

Examples

I use the term genderqueer as a self-descriptor at times, both because it fits better than most alternatives and because of a desire for solidarity with others who feel to varying degrees comfortable with that particular label… but the gender-identity label I feel fits me best of all possible options is Jack.

For awhile I questioned why I identified as genderqueer, wondering if maybe I was being complicit with the misogyny of our culture - hating my body because I was told by the patriarchy that it was disgusting and vile.

I identify as genderqueer in a rather relaxed way, but I read AfterEllen because I view it as a queer inclusive space and I think there is a difference between a space being transpositive and transinclusive.

If it's OK to identify as straight while really being bisexual, or define yourself as "genderqueer" while being married with 2.4 Roombas (and it is, don't get me wrong), then I don't see why I can't define myself as a gay woman.