Diotrephes style leaders brag about their giftedness and are selfish. They love the top, they “love the preeminence”

Christ like leaders love to serve and help wash the feet of the people who don’t even know their walk is dirty.

If you despise humble leadership, it’s because you love pride. We are attracted to what we are, and to what we want to be.

2 Corinthians 11:19 For ye suffer fools gladly, seeing ye yourselves are wise.
20 For ye suffer, if a man bring you into bondage, if a man devour you, if a man take of you, if a man exalt himself, if a man smite you on the face.