Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

30 June 2008 (F) -
About a year ago i dated this boy for about a year, we were both 17 at the time. I broke up with him during the exams because we were both really stressed out and werent getting along. Neither of us got over it for a long time, we havent seen each other since but we talked a ...
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30 June 2008 (F)
age
30-35 -
been with my boyfriend 4 years, and in the last 6 months or so have discovered it is mainly me that initiates sex, as soon as i touch him sexually or kiss him passionately he gets an errection so there is no problem with attraction (i dont think), but he never starts anything. ...
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30 June 2008 (M)
age
26-29 -
I want to last longer in bed and was wondering if there are any techniques to help me? I've heard of strengthening your PC muscle and Jelqing, do these work? Everytime i try to find my PC muscle i can't seem to find it :S Is there any other way of exercising your PC r...
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30 June 2008 (F)
age
36-40 -
I'm 16 and i'm having a bit of trouble. Well my best friend(lets call her A) was diagnosed with a brain tumor a few months ago and this news hit me really badly, i stopped eating started failing in some of my subjects at school etc. And i have needed a friend to help me out i...
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30 June 2008 (F)
age
41-50 -
My problem is that I would like to get back with my ex but he won't even talk to me. We broke up 9 months ago-he said he wasn't ready for a relationship and broke it off suddenly after getting heavy, making long term plans for us etc. I texted him shortly after because I found ...
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30 June 2008 (F)
age
36-40 -
Ok, so the guy that I am dating (but he claims we are not in a relationship "JUST dating") stopped speaking to me for two weeks. I thought he was not coming back. History: Long story short, (about 3 years ago) I was married for a year and my now EX-husband got up and left ...
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30 June 2008 (F)
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26-29 -
I've been with my boyfriend for 15 months now and at first the sex was great and just about every night! Now its hardly ever, which I guess is normal but recently I haven't been enjoying it as much and it has also become painful. I have been to see my GP and asked for ...
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30 June 2008 (M)
age
22-25 -
Hi, i am a 15yr old male incase the above says otherwise. I masturbate frequently but recently have had a problem. I occasionaly get sharp pains in my head for a short while (for about 15-30mins). Also, I don't know if this is relevant but I think I am goign through puberty but ...
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30 June 2008 (F)
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I have been married for 22 years not happy and i have a boyfriend. my husband and i still live together just for financial reasons. I have 2 sons one 16 and another 13. the 13yr old has had severe anxiety problems that has resulted in him being a non attender at school fior ...
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30 June 2008 (F)
age
41-50 -
I'm married and I have been married for 16 years now.I am trying to figure out what's the best thing to do.My husband comes to bed around 4 in the morning instead of spending time with me.I have told him time and time again to please come to bed.He will do it for the first 2 ...
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30 June 2008 (M)
age
22-25 -
yeah i have a 2nd cousin thats had a crush on me since we were little. i never really thought much about it but now im starting to get a crush on her... the problem is i dont know if she still likes me or how our friends and family would take it......
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30 June 2008 (F)
age
22-25 -
ok my brother and his girl just had a baby and i love her dearly and i want one but you see im only 13 and they live far away so i dont get to see her that much and i really want one what should i do ...
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30 June 2008 (F)
age
26-29 -
i started my period on june 7 finished on june 11, has sex (unprotected,and he came in me) on june 13 and 18. i should have ovulated somewhere around june 21. we also had sex on june 28 and he came in me then as well. my boobs are a little sore, i feel like i have heartburn...
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30 June 2008 (F)
age
30-35 -
ok i got a problem...ive been with my boyfriend for 1 year and i love him to death, but he dont work he is kinda immatuire and we fight about stupid things...well i met this other guy he is so sweet to me he is all i think about he does everything he can to make me happy he is ...
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30 June 2008 (F)
age
30-35 -
I just recently moved into a house with a good friend (Steve), and his best friend (Kevin) that I don't really know too well. Before this, Steve was living with his girlfriend of several years. They had a long drawn out break up, and I don't know all the details, but it ...
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30 June 2008 (F)
age
26-29 -
me and my new bf have been dating for a month and my parents still don't trust him sleeping in the same bed as me even if they are in the same room. what should i do since my parents don't trust me.please help...
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30 June 2008 (F)
age
26-29 -
i think i am having major security problems or confidence problems, i feel im really ugly and thats why i havent got a boyfriend and i feel everyone is constantly laughing at me like the other day i was walking past a few guys and i was looking at them and they were looking at ...
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30 June 2008 (F)
age
41-50 -
Hi everyone. I am seeking some advice on how to get beyond the things that have happened to my marriage and my self esteem. My husband of six years (together for 10) cheated on me with an 18 year old girl. He actually left the kids and I for about three months before coming ...
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30 June 2008 (F)
age
26-29 -
I'm considering ending my relationship of 8 months because I have become so paranoid about my boyfriend cheating. Four months ago he suggested going on a break for a few weeks, and later admitted it was to see another girl who he took on dates and slept with. He apologised and ...
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30 June 2008 (F)
age
26-29 -
hi! i am very worried! about a week a go my boyfriend fingered me! everything was ok ... then i started bleeding 4 a short while then it stopped.i have not started my periods yet but now there is this short discharge(marroon colour) and about 1 table spoon of blood comes out...
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30 June 2008 (F)
age
30-35 -
I've been dating this guy for a few months--he is WONDERFUL. I mean I don't even have to ask for anything, he just does it. He's like a prince charming. Everyone in my family loves him and so do my friends. There is only one problem....I don't think I feel the same way!! I ...
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30 June 2008 (F)
age
26-29 -
i need help plz.recently have been sleeping more than usual.i sleep like 12-16hours a day and even at that,i get someone to wake me up not me waking up willingly. i get tired easily and all i wona do is lie down and rest.whenever i stand up to go get something,i become weak and...
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30 June 2008 (F)
age
30-35 -
I'am an emotional mess....I dated my first love and everything for almost 5 years...he cheated,lied....you know the deal....i forgave him the 2 times he cheated,,,i always felt resentment but i loved him and decided to continue with him...after all that he dumped me...i was fed ...
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30 June 2008 (F)
age
30-35 -
i need help. i'm getting married next month and i want to find the best way to avoid getting pregnant. i heard that the pills sometimes has some side effects is it true? what r they? thanks....
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30 June 2008 (F)
age
30-35 -
I used to be such a strong-willed person. Now I feel weak and pathetic. I really feel like such a mess all because of a guy. I have been in a thing ( i call it a thing because I don't know what it is!) with a guy for many many months now and its taking such a toll on me. IT ...
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30 June 2008 (F) -
im in a new relationship after breaking up with my fiancee of a year and a half and i cant remember how i should act for the first few dates like how much is too much or too little texting and how much is too much or too little seeing each other. as i dont want to seem clingy ...
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30 June 2008 (F)
age
26-29 -
i have a mental block that prevents me from coming during sex or fingering, i can come no problem from oral or masturbation...when my bf fingers me it feels amazing and he knows just how to hit my gspot, but when he goes at it for a while i get the sensation that im going to ...
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30 June 2008 (F)
age
26-29 -
Does he fancy me? I have known this guy for 4 years and over the past couple of years we have become good friends, especially in the last 6 months. He has always had mostly female friends and so is comfortable around us all and the more he seems to know someone the more h...
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30 June 2008 (F)
age
36-40 -
This is my first post. I am in a dilema. I love two men... James and Will (not real names). Dated James for two years when I moved offices and met Will. Me and James were fine until I met Will, me and Will clicked and sparked and everything that should happen. He had 3 ...
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30 June 2008 (F)
age
22-25 -
hello ! i have a freind and shes my best freind and she has started to be mean to me for no apparent reason. she comments on things i say even if they dont involve her she constantly has a little go at me for no reason.today a girl who i am not fond of said something mean a...
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30 June 2008 (F)
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I am a woman in her fifties. Do men really want LOVE these days or just pure sex. It seems to be love has flown out of the window. Obviously sex is part of any relationship but it seems the men of today ONLY want sex. Is this true? it would be nice to hear some mens ...
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30 June 2008 (M)
age
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Years ago and 1 or 2 years after we started dating there was a situation where I have never been able to believe that my girlfriend told me the truth. She was at a last day before Christmas work party at a tavern where there was always action and I have always believed that she ...
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30 June 2008 (F)
age
26-29 -
i could be a week pregnant but im not sure. but my question is what is the chance? i have the feeling that my worrying is delaying my periode from the stress so thats why i need an answer soon. me and my bf been having sex this past week and im on pill, used condoms, and he ...
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30 June 2008 (M)
age
30-35 -
My boyfriend and I have been together 4 years now. I moved to Europe so that we can stay together. But since moving here our relationship has been falling apart. We have spent a lot more time together since moving (Since neither one of us friends out here) and I think for the ...
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30 June 2008 (F)
age
36-40 -
Please help me. I have this boyfriend and I love him very much but he doesn't seem to care that much about me. Its my birthday coming up and he said that I shouldn't be surprised if he forgets - which upset me because I made a real fuss over him on his. I asked him to tak...
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30 June 2008 (F)
age
26-29 -
Okay so I have kissed three guys. The first was just a kiss at the end of a date but the last two guys I made out with. I am scared though becasue I don't know how to do anything else. Is something wrong with me because I am scared to get undressed in front of a guy and am ...
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30 June 2008 (F)
age
26-29 -
Not really a love question but a career qustion, but thought I would give it a go here anyways. Last year I took a year out - a gap year - before going to university to study for a degree in History, starting in September. I am really excited about university and everything ...
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30 June 2008 (F)
age
41-50 -
The guy I am seeing has asked me to do a threesome with me. I am not into it and have said no. I mean I know it is suppose to be every guys fantasy, but, I just wondered how many other girls have been asked to do them by guys they are seeing? What did they do? How did it w...
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30 June 2008 (F)
age
26-29 -
hey everyone my name is Clare i live in surrey in englnd, i went to a party at a pub the other day and there was this really hot guy who works in there of course being a girl i was wearing a low cut top, anyhow he kept looking at me but i was too embarrased to look at him as im ...
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30 June 2008 (M)
age
30-35 -
we have known each other for 7 years now. I cheated on all my girlfriends with her and allowed her to ruin the relationships. Never made it official with her. I finally have in 2 months ago... About a few weeks ago we've grown distant. We meet up no kiss or hug just arguing. Ke...
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30 June 2008 (M)
age
26-29 -
My dad is about to get married and she has a daughter and we really like each other and have been keeping a secret relationship for 2 months. they just found out and they want either their relationship to end or ours. Either way i wont be living in the same house as them. What ...
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30 June 2008 (F)
age
36-40 -
I have been seeing my boyfriend unofficially for over a year. Our official 1 year anniversary is coming up on July 6th. I'm very happy with him. He is very affectionate, treats me very well, spends lots of time with me and is just all around a good-hearted, sweet guy. We are in ...
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30 June 2008 (F)
age
30-35 -
ok guys i need help - although i dunno if there is a solution! ok, i was with my boyf for 3 yrs and we broke up - on friendly terms. just before we ended, i was in brazil and met this amazing guy. we were with eachother for only 3 days but swapped details etc. im going back in ...
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30 June 2008 (F)
age
36-40 -
How do I get my boyfriends dad to move out or make my boyfriend realise it's time for us to find a place of our own? I've been going out with my boyfrind for 18 months, and moved in with him and his dad 7 months ago. My boyfriend and his dad have been living together for 9 y...
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30 June 2008 (?)
age
36-40 -
I have serious confidence issues, and today I went to my first day of a new school. Unfortunatley I have been at the same school previously my whole life. Yeah I have mates outside of school and that, but that one day has just altered everything about how I feel. I thought ...
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30 June 2008 (F)
age
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I am aged 53 and would love to meet a nice man please tell me it isnt true that all men want young girls. I like to think I am attractive and hopefully nice company but it seems a shame if I have to resign myself to the fact no one is ever going to want me because of my age. ...
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30 June 2008 (F)
age
30-35 -
A guy i've been seeing occasionally came to visit me this weekend. He drove 1.5-2hrs to get here. This would've been our 4th "date". During our first two we had just cuddled but on our last date we made out a lot. I wasn't sure what was going to happen this time since he'd be ...
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30 June 2008 (F)
age
26-29 -
i have been with this guy now for over 12months, but we are not a couple, so in other words he wont commit to me and make me his girlfriend, he hasnt met my family and i havent met his, we are both not seeing anyone else and he is very much in love with me, im just not ...
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30 June 2008 (M)
age
30-35 -
I'm 20 and Ive just broken up with my girlfriend and I'm crushed. We had known each other for bout 9 months but been together six months. In which time she has been telling me that she's so in love with me. However the other day she told me she hasn't been in love with me ...
(190 words)