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Re: Who do you bareback with?

Originally Posted by Speeds

No one.

You shouldn't even bareback with your boyfriend unless you trust him 100%.

If you have been in a relationship for months and both gotten tested then it's pretty much a declaration of distrust if you can't bareback at the point. That's how I see it and I'm not sure if I could continue being with someone who couldn't share that trust with me.

In my opinion one of the pro's of a monogamous relationship is that you can have natural skin to skin sex. I can't imagine not doing that ever in my entire life.

Using a condom in one night stands is worth it because of the risks but to be honest it's just not as good as doing it without it.

Of course it is possible to catch HIV from a disloyal partner but I don't wanna live my life expecting something like that and not be able to trust my lover.

Re: Who do you bareback with?

Two people so far voted for one night stands sometimes...this is shocking unless they just voted that on purpose to skew the poll.
Please folks practice safe sex. There is another thread about HIV neg to pos and it isn't a pretty discussion. I believe the official position of this site also advocates safes sex.

Re: Who do you bareback with?

Originally Posted by medic1

My Hand...................

beat me to it. was trying to learn how to use my finger. even though the beginning part of my asshole felt like i had to take a shit, my middle finger didn't feel as bad as i expected. it didn't help while i was jerking off though.

Re: Who do you bareback with?

Sure but for me fucking is the main thing and it's not as good with a condom both physically and mentally.

I won't settle for fucking rubber my entire life.

You are using a condom for life just in case your lover cheats on you. How is that not distrustful?

And yes it IS THAT different. The sensation of rubber and flesh are very different.

I'm all for safe sex but I think some of you are way too paranoid and taking it too far.

Fine...I understand your priority in sex. I don't share your opinion. I can't/won't/don't speak for anyone else on this. Oh yeah and in my view a condom is plenty enough sensitive during penetration though a tad less so than without. But the difference is not significant for me (notwithstanding the risks involved). Again IN MY OPINION.

Re: Who do you bareback with?

Boyfriends I have always. Some established FB, and only a couple of mistakes with hook-ups. I've said no to many other hook-ups where the bottom wanted me to top them bareback. It amazes me how bare crazy so many of them get just because I naturally precum enough where I can slide in without any lube.

Re: Who do you bareback with?

Originally Posted by cgymike

Two people so far voted for one night stands sometimes...this is shocking unless they just voted that on purpose to skew the poll.
Please folks practice safe sex. There is another thread about HIV neg to pos and it isn't a pretty discussion. I believe the official position of this site also advocates safes sex.

I voted one night stands sometimes because it happened twice, by accident, one time I didn't realize I was actually inside of him, the other time, bottoming, I was caught in the moment... although bareback ejaculation never occurred.

Re: Who do you bareback with?

I guess I should point out that I never considered it a trust issue, either. I just consider it part of the process, like prepping the guy. It never seemed like some sort of awful concession. It's just "Wanna fuck?", "Sure", lube on cock, condom over lube, lube on condom, stick it in, go to town. And neither I nor my partners have ever complained about lack of sensation.

Re: Who do you bareback with?

Yes, statistically I would suppose that risks are higher with one night stands (complete strangers)
But sex usually doesn't work with logic, the settings where you meet one night stands are more often situations where your judgement may be clouded (alcohol, overwhelming sex drive, contextual mental conditions etc), one may not have condoms and lube in their pockets while they do at home where they meet fuck buddies etc etc

Re: Who do you bareback with?

I just completed the poll. I would agree that during bareback where the guy cums I don't feel any real difference when he cums with or without a condom. the difference is afterwards when I feel the cum moving around in my ass as I keep it there. that is the hot feeling. The only guy I let cum in my ass was my former boyfriend who he and I were both negative and tested regularly.