I may not fully understand open relationships, but by its own nature, doesn't it mean she no longer has any strong emotional attachment to you? If someone no longer wants to remain sexually exclusive to you then its a strong possibility that the same is true emotionally. Were you surprised by the breakup

Sorry about your loss, OP. In highschool, one of my closest friends dated a girl who was known to be a bit of a nymphomaniac. After about half a year of their relationship, he figured out that he was gay and broke up with her. He then stayed in the closet about it until two years into university, since he was afraid of being ostracized by his mother and his friends.

Seeing how hard it was for my friend to figure out and accept his sexual preferences, I believe your ex made the decision that will be best for her in the long wrong. Best of luck finding a new partner.

I may not fully understand open relationships, but by its own nature, doesn't it mean she no longer has any strong emotional attachment to you? If someone no longer wants to remain sexually exclusive to you then its a strong possibility that the same is true emotionally. Were you surprised by the breakup

For us, or at least what I thought we both shared was that our emotional bond was strong, and that the sex was separated from that.

Eh, I don't know haha. I wasn't too surprised by the breakup because after we went into that phase I think I saw the lesbian issue coming.

Two months ago my girlfriend of two years broke up with me. At first I thought it was just because we were arguing a lot and some other things. It looked like we were getting back together and then one day she said she didn't want to get back together with no reason why. I kept bugging her about it because it made no sense to me (The week earlier she wanted to get back together)

She finally said that she was wanting to try out girls. I freaked out. I mean we had always talked about having a threesome and who we would pick etc etc but I never thought it was serious. She had an OkCupid profile and that was that. I was pretty devastated for a while.

After a monthish of being broken up and a roller coaster of an emotional ride we ended back together. Apparently she was seeing a girl from OKC and realized that it wasn't her.

So I think you should just hope for the best, better yourself, work out, bang a few chicks and maybe you'll end up back together.

Yup, I should have never stopped fucking her. When I tried to switch the relationship from physical to emotional I didn't realize that when I stopped requesting sex from her she stopped caring about me.

And actually, if you continue into what happened to me. Her muslim parents and her lied to the police to get me deported. And the police continued to bully me into a guilty plee that I should have never taken. I was deported because of a shit system, because I never threatened or hurt her. I never did anything more than to try keep communication cause I thought I needed her.

Yup, I should have never stopped fucking her. When I tried to switch the relationship from physical to emotional I didn't realize that when I stopped requesting sex from her she stopped caring about me.

And actually, if you continue into what happened to me. Her muslim parents and her lied to the police to get me deported. And the police continued to bully me into a guilty plee that I should have never taken. I was deported because of a shit system, because I never threatened or hurt her. I never did anything more than to try keep communication cause I thought I needed her.

Truth is, she just liked being used.

Since than I know whats up. Sex is all there is to a relationship.

So you'd want to keep a relationship with that kind of person going? lol.

Yup, I should have never stopped fucking her. When I tried to switch the relationship from physical to emotional I didn't realize that when I stopped requesting sex from her she stopped caring about me.

And actually, if you continue into what happened to me. Her muslim parents and her lied to the police to get me deported. And the police continued to bully me into a guilty plee that I should have never taken. I was deported because of a shit system, because I never threatened or hurt her. I never did anything more than to try keep communication cause I thought I needed her.

Truth is, she just liked being used.

Since than I know whats up. Sex is all there is to a relationship.

Let me grab my Handy Dandy Notebook so I can maybe help you get a clue.