In case you momentarily lost your mind and don’t remember, Pete bought Ariana Grande’s engagement ring, like, the day they met. As he told the story to GQ, it started as a joke. ‘The day I met her, I was like, “Hey, I’ll marry you tomorrow,”‘ he said. ‘She was calling my bluff. I sent her a picture [of engagement rings]. I was like, “Do you like any of these?” She was like, “Those are my favorite ones,” and I was like, “Sick.”‘ The rock reportedly cost Pete roughly $100,000.

Unfortunately, now that the two have officially called off the engagement, Ariana has reportedly returned the ring to Pete, which makes her comment above almost funnier.

Remember, when you think you’re ready to go find the perfect ring, take Ari’s advice and just… don’t. Cheers!