I got in trouble for calling someone a name but I have seen many pictures of sex toys and had many people say very inapporriate things towards me. I don't know where the rules are but I know many are being broken.

it was explaiined to you in the thread. certain section/subjects are for more serious conversations while other sections are free for all no holds barred. you misbehaved in a serious'or section and got scolded newbie.