Have a fulfilling life sexually and every other way!

Just one look

And I knew. Ever have one of those moments with your SO and think- this is it. This is why we go through the hard times. It makes the good times so much better!

The hubbs and I tend to look at each other during funny parts in movies and TV shows when we are watching them together. I so love this, because it’s like we’re looking at each other for that validation. I liked this moment, do you? We both have a pretty good sense of humour and spend quite a bit of time laughing. I mean life must be pretty terrible if you aren’t enjoying it. But, it also makes me smile because we tend to look at each other at the same time. It makes me feel connected and in tune.

It may seem like a small action, but connection is important. I have talked about Maslow’s Hierarchy of Needs. On the bottom, the things we must have in life to survive- food, water, shelter, clothing, sex. The next rung contains items relating to safety and security- health, employment, family, etc. The next step is love and belonging- friendship, family, intimacy, and a sense of connection. This is the need that is met when you feel in tune to your partner. The sexual intimacy and connection you can feel with your partner will take your relationship to another level. Many times I will think a thought and the hubbs will voice this thought on his own seconds later. It happens a lot, but I have noticed that it happens more often the longer we are together. We are connected on so many levels, but our connection grows every day and for that I’m eternally thankful.

It doesn’t happen overnight. We have been together almost fifteen years. But, if you are willing to put in the effort and work it will happen. Make no mistake, marriage and relationships are WORK and they will wither and die without attention. So add water and stir!

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My name is Anna Levenson. I have a wonderful husband of almost 15 years and we have three children, David (22), Kristin (20), and Gavin (11). And my 22 year old is about to make me a grandmother! Although, I insist on being called Bubbe (Yiddush for grandma), because I'm not old enough to be a grandma! lol I went back to school after I had my first two children and completed a BPS at University of Memphis for Sociology and Health Science. During this time, I was a dancer, an exotic dancer. I was able to obtain my degree, work the hours I needed to work, raise my children, and revel in my sexual power. A mother with sexual power! Yeah! I met my husband, online playing card games, 3000 miles away, when I was in my last year of my bachelor degree. We married and had a son. He broke my pelvis when I had him and
in the past ten years I had three major surgeries. I was able to obtain my Master of Science in Psychology from Kaplan University. In July of 2015, I am returning to school to obtain my terminal degree, A PsyD in Psychology! My working thesis is Disposable vs. Forever Relationships: The State of Relationships in Modern Society. I began to write and found that people enjoyed what I wrote. I hope you do too.
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