Friday, 11 May 2018

Why Lazy Men Love Hardworking Women

Everyone wants something good, attractive, classy. Lazy men are no exception: they want a hardworking woman in their lives, for very obvious reasons. The woman is making money.

Period! Isn’t that a shame? It is amazing and interesting to find out that hardworking women somehow accommodate lazy men in their lives. I have never understood ‘the physics’ behind this strange phenomenon.

A lazy man goes against the scriptural injunction which clearly states that ‘if you don’t work, you shouldn’t eat.’ A lazy man wants to burden his woman with all his life problems, not working at all but laying up bills. A lazy man has no vision and only lives for the “now” and not for the future. How can you as a lady plan your life with such a man? In fact, you should avoid them. The truth is ,love is not blind but the party involved only choose to be ignorant and being ignorant comes with a price.

Why Lazy Men Love Hardworking Women

Lazy men are those ones that gets angry unnecessarily when a lady tells them she is still busy @ work and can’t be available. They get angry because they are jobless and expect you to attend to them 24/7. They spend their time watching movies, they spend all day at the bar; they spend almost half of the day chatting with jobless friends.

A man is supposed to protect, provide for and nurture his woman. Any man who is not ready for this should forget looking for a girl let alone a wife. He is not ready for a real woman. Ironically, Some ladies have such low self esteem that they will do anything to get a man even the lazy once. They will buy the man’s food, clothes, house him, and give him sex as a reward! A man who has no job, no money; who is not out there doing his hustle; who has no drive, has no right whatsoever to talk to a woman about a relationship, talk less of marriage. A woman who listens to such a man is enabling his irresponsible behaviour. I have seen ladies get frustrated at the long run because these men don’t add to their lives but keeps reducing them(the ladies) back to zero.

As a Lady, If you like a guy who has no job, the best you can do for him is help him get a job otherwise you need to develop a “gate keeping system” to keep this men far off your live

A man, who is not ready to work hard, should not pursue a woman whose shoes he cannot afford to buy; whose Prada handbag he cannot buy. He should look for a woman he can relate with on his financial level and be happy with. A lady who enables a lazy man will set a dangerous foundation for their future.

Encourage him to pursue his dream. Support him. Be there for him. Pray for him. Buy him good books. But don’t encourage his laziness. Lady, If you really love him, push him to the streets to go find a job to settle the bills and handle his responsibilities.