Saturday, October 23, 2010

﻿﻿﻿﻿﻿﻿﻿﻿A lot has happened since my last post..... It seems that life is moving on.﻿﻿

Our foster bird, Lucy, has
returned to her mom after
three years

My long-term foster bird, Lucy, has returned to her mom. I knew from the moment she came here (in November of 2007) that she would return to her mom at some point. Lucy was with us for one month short of three years. That's a long time....a long time to get attached to a sweet little green face and body and adorable chatter. We miss you, Lucy! We all came to love you. I did my job and now she is where she should be. That doesn't mean that it wasn't difficult to give her back. I spent an entire half day crying when I was packing up her things. Most people would think I'm nuts, I'm sure, but that's how I am. I see, I love, I get attached, I cry. Ask anyone who knows me - Connie, Robin, Jenny, Lorraine? Just ask them!

﻿﻿﻿﻿ ﻿﻿I had my (hopefully) final reconstructive surgery this past Monday. The hospital experience was great, as usual. The Abbotsford Regional Hospital is wonderful - at least all MY experiences have been (and I had a few TOO many experiences, in my opinion). I'm so grateful that we live so close to such a great hospital where we get such great care. My surgeon, Dr. Brown, is great - I highly recommend him and he is outstanding in his field. Recovery is going well, but it seems that each time I have anaesthetic, it knocks me down for a bit longer. I don't get sick or anything, just VERY tired. I guess that's normal, in a way, but frustrating when you want to be up and doing everything. It's difficult to just lay on the couch and rest as the body heals. I still have the bandages on - will until Tuesday. Can't shower until then, either - YUCK! :-) I saw the surgeon on Thursday and he said that things are looking good and healing nicely. What more can I ask for? This is the way I can move on from breast cancer. My body will be somewhat complete again, even if things aren't as they were originally and I have some saline implants where my real breasts used to be - at least they won't try to kill me! LOL! And, for the record, they are a fair bit smaller than what I was expecting, but that's OK!! Many thanks to DH for his love, support and help while I'm down and unable to fulfill all my duties as a wife/mom/whatever. I want to thank my friend Lorraine for getting up at 4:30 a.m. so she could be here to drive me to the hospital for my surgery and for being there for me. Thanks also to my sister, Karen, who was also there while I went "under the knife", and then drove me home. Then, my dear friend, Connie, who was there while I was recovering, then brought dinner over later for our family. Thank you to all of you. I am so blessed.

And so, life goes on. As I think about life going on, I am reminded, at this time of year of an anniversary coming up. November 14 will mark one year since my friend, Wanda, died of her cancer. Wanda was a wonderful lady, so full of life and optimism. She loved her family, she loved her birds, she loved her friends, she loved life! What a special lady she was, and what a lucky person I was, to have known her. I miss you, Wanda. I miss your contagious smile and positive attitude. You were a blessing to me and I wish we'd have been able to spend more time together.

As life goes on, I encourage you to enjoy each and every day. Each and every moment. For every moment is a gift and that's why it's called the 'present'. A cliche, for sure, but very true.

Saturday, October 2, 2010

A lot has happened since I posted last. I had another birthday yesterday too. Can't remember now how many times I've hit 29 AGAIN!! LOL! Since having had cancer, I figure that each and every birthday now is a bonus! Sounds a bit grim, but unless you've been there, you won't understand. Each day is a gift.

So, yesterday was my sister's birthday as well as mine. She's five years older than me. Yep, I was born ON her fifth birthday!! Imagine being a five-year-old and having to share your birthday - not only that day, but all the birthdays for the rest of your life! I must say that my sis, Karen, has been very gracious about it - she is never anything less than gracious and I thank her for that. DH and I and the kids and my Dad met Karen and her DH last night at a restaurant in Langley and we had a yummy dinner at the best fish & chip joint around. It was just nice to spend time with family - another thing some people don't appreciate until faced with a life-threatening illness. Karen quilted me a gorgeous table runner and gave me a beautiful tin mini pie plate to keep the little dried miniature pumpkins in that she also gave me. Thanks, sis!

My friend, Connie also gave me a wonderful gift yesterday of an autumn spray of pip berries, mini pumpkins and primitive stars - just beautiful. She also gave me a lovely autumn dishtowel and a bowl of my favourite chocolate/butterscotch and marshmallow squares that she baked. Mmmmmm! I don't really have to share them with my family, do I???? She had me stop by on our way to dinner last night to pick up my birthday gift and between when I spoke to her in the morning and when I stopped by, she had picked up a gorgeous flower arrangement for my sister! Talk about thoughtful! Thank you, my dear! My sister was thrilled and the flowers were just gorgeous!

DH and the kids got me a beautiful pot of Chrysanthemums - my favourite flower - especially in the fall! What a great birthday it was!!!

Smokey, our new kitty!

Oh, I almost forgot! I gave myself a kitty for my birthday! That's right! A KITTY!!! In March of 2009, we lost Thomas, our last remaining cat. It was a horrible accident, and a horrible time because I was going through chemo and really not feeling well. Losing him was very difficult. He was an awesome cat, and we miss him so much. He really was one in a million PLUS he didn't mind the birds. It's not easy to find a cat that is OK with birds. I mean, it's REALLY NOT EASY! Our cats were here BEFORE our birds, so they just kind of grew to accept them. Yesterday, Smokey the cat was brought here by her previous owner. I posted an ad that I was looking for a bird-experienced cat. I posted an ad three different times over the past six months. I got some strange responses. I ended up not responding to any of them until....last week. A lady responded to my ad for a bird-savvy cat. This lady has birds and said this cat was very good with all their animals. They have several types of animals in their home and she said the kitty is great with all of them. To make a long story short, we now have Smokey. She is a sweetheart and even Lucas seems to like her.

So, Smokey is a little shy and will take a while to warm up to everyone. She hides a bit, but has been out quite a few times to visit with us. She just needs to get used to the sounds and smells of our house. She's an indoor kitty and knows where the litter box is, so that's the biggest thing. She seems like a lovely, clean, well-mannered little girl. She certainly loves attention and head scratches! She will give you a head butt in the hopes that you will give her a head scratch or two. She even does it to Lucas, who just doesn't know what to do with that! So funny to see the surprised looks in his eyes when she does it!!! I'll have to try to capture it on video!

On a bit of a sad note, my foster bird, Lucy, will be leaving us probably next weekend. The beginning of November marks THREE years that I will have had Lucy. Her mom and dad moved to New Zealand for a work stint, but were unable to take their three birds with them because of New Zealand regulations regarding their native birds. No outside birds are allowed in. So, all of the birds were placed in foster care. I took Lucy. Lucy's mom is a fabulous lady and I love Quakers, so it seemed only natural. Seems like we haven't had Lucy that long, but it IS almost three years. It's gone really fast and Lucy has been such a joy to have here. Yes, I've gotten my share of good bites from her, but really, when you have birds, you are going to be bitten. No different with Lucy! So, we shall all miss Lucy when she goes to live with her mom again. I'm happy for her AND her mom, though, as they belong together and I know Lucy's mom has missed Lucy terribly! So, while we are thrilled to welcome Smokey the kitty, we will be sad to see Lucy leave us. Such is life and especially life with critters. Each one holds a special piece of our hearts that can never, ever be replaced by another one.

Speaking of kitties, have a look at my OTHER sister's blog to see their new kitty. What a face! Her name is Izzy - is she not THE cutest little one????? And to think that she was DUMPED by somebody!!!!!

Fall has arrived here - on the calendar anyways. We've had beautiful weather and very warm - almost like summer all over again! It's been warm and humid. I'm sure that fall and winter will be here soon enough, so we'll enjoy this nice weather while it's here!

About Me

I'm a stay-home mom of two children – one biological and one adopted. I'm a breast cancer survivor and wife to a wonderful hubby. Also Mom to 7 parrots, 1 Jack Russell Terrier, 1 cat, 4 goats and multiple farm fowl. We have a Maremma livestock guardian dog who takes his job VERY seriously. Daughter to the King only by His grace.