Abstinence

Abstinence may have different meanings for different people. In order for abstinence to be 100 percent effective, you should avoid any sexual contact that puts you at risk for STIs, HIV, and/or unplanned pregnancy.

Some individuals may choose to be abstinent, regardless of whether or not they have been sexually active in the past. Abstinence is a personal choice that should be respected.

Abstinence, when practiced correctly, is the most effective way to keep safe from unplanned pregnancy, STIs, and HIV. Abstinence requires self-control and commitment. If you want to practice abstinence, ask yourself a few questions:

How do you define abstinence? Are there some types of sexual intimacy that you are comfortable with?

When do you plan to talk to your partner about your choice to be abstinent? It's best to discuss your decision before you are in a sexually charged situation—it can be hard to talk about your sexual limits when either partner is aroused.

What values or reasons guide you to choose abstinence?

Can you stand up to pressure? There are some situations that might tempt you to have sex (i.e., peer pressure, drug use, alcohol use). Are you willing to avoid these situations to stick with your decision?

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