I always start the arguements

Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female Me and my boyfriend argue all the time, and usually it is my fault. I always start the arguements, and he tells me i am childish. I don't know what is wrong with me, but i know i have a problem and i want to fix it. I love him so much and i want our relationship to work. I'll do anything to make our relationship work. I know if I don't change our relationship will end. We are so in love and our love is so beautiful except for the fact that I have to argue with him all the time. I have very low self-esteem and that could be part of the problem. Help please!!

RomanceClass.com AdviceIt's mature of you to admit you start the arguments.

Maybe you'd be better off starting discussions? What do you think?

-- from MarcOne of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com

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