​Popularized by the 1999 film, The Matrix, the "red pill v. blue pill " option in life supposedly symbolizes the choice between embracing the sometimes painful truth of reality (red pill) and the blissful ignorance of illusion (blue pill).

In divorce court the red pill v. blue pill symbolizes a more disturbing trend in American society: The red pill symbolizing the medication many women often take to combat depression commonly faced in mid life and the blue pill many men in midlife take in an effort to maintain their youthful sex drive and masculinity. use of these medications are used to discredit and marginalize one spouse, for a litigation advantage and that serves to allow courts to continue the discord and fighting between spouses.

​Evidence shows that it is not long after medications are brought into the divorce record, that false claims of domestic violence, and character assignations implying mental health instability that should preclude fair custody and property divisions, can rage out of control . Court files show bad, incompetent and biased family court judges mismanage cases such that they effectively become the mental health judges of parents and spouses appearing in divorce court.

​Too often, a judge presiding over a case for years, takes one side because of medication bias, thereby taking one side, conduct that fuels unethical lawyers bringing these battles to courtroom instead of allowing people to privately address such matters with their health care providers. This is often done in modern divorce cases as real violence and debilitating mental health problems, formerly concealed in the secrecy of the family and intimate relationships, are sidelined through years of ineffective and biased family court management.

Spouses arrive in divorce court when something goes terribly wrong in a marriage; infidelity, cultural clashes, parenting differences, disability, mental impairment and even sexual dysfunction. Divorce court is the sobering reality that very private matters once contained in the secrecy of the family are suddenly thrust into a public record where courts of equity act more to pit one spouse against another than to fairly and equitably divide and separate them.

​When spouses first arrive in divorce court the are often daze and confused at the sight of a courtroom. Many see these courtrooms for the first time in life, and for 70% of people involuntarily forced into a divorce, do so without a lawyer, and with no education or training in the law.

​Individuals terrified of public speaking , the most common fear in all humans, are terrified to find that while they needed only a court clerk signature to get married, they need to speak to a judge, in a room full of strangers, and communicate in a foreign language , just to address their most protected rights.

It quickly becomes a sobering reality for school teachers, professors, tech gurus, CEOs, engineers, musicians and community leaders that they don't know their way around a legal pleading or have the faintest notion of what a void order means. Those who have never been to college may even find that in order to assure their time with their children, or their rightful share of a marital estate, they have to get a crash course not only in basic writing, but in legal writing and laws, as they face a represented spouse in control of community funds.

​Newcomers to the American legal system, entering through the gates of family courts, enter starry eyed, armed with a third grade understanding of the Constitution and hope, of faith in God, that the single presiding judge in their case will fairly divide their property, act in the best interest of their children, be subject to public transparency and insist on the truth. God and family courts are legally separated.

​By a second appearance in court, the sobering reality of the dysfunction of the family court begins to creep in. Overworked court clerks can't give direction on filing out paperwork , self help centers are overcrowded, pro bono services are non existent and understaffed and spacious modern courthouses feel designed more to keep the public out than to conduct the business of the people .

​Passing through security screening litigants find that the law enforcement they expected to protect them, act more to obstruct access and transparency to the courts. Courts set local rules designed to protect incompetent government officials more than due process in the court system and tax dollars are spent for inaccessible speaking courthouses , lawyers and judges, and not on the staff who do the majority of the legal work.

​The greatest reality check is the legal lying, permitted under Civil Code 47, which allows lawyers and litigants to lie in pleadings , income declarations and never be checked.

​ As ....."But he is a liar" ......... " She is insane" " echo through family court hallways day in and day out , and these lies , legally permitted, are tolerated by judges to the point that it impacts the outcome of the case. Fueled by unscrupulous lawyers undisciplined by the State Bar, and family courts are the legal disaster of the United States Courts.

Impacted court calendars, blamed on lack of state funding, are responsible for dragging divorce cases out 5- 7 years , when a middle class divorce has real estate or business assets that nefarious lawyers use to convert to millions a year in personal fees and income. Family lawyers, the least regulated and disciplined in the California Bar Association, are now among the highest paid in the legal profession.

​Family court fees, charged on the future of our children, are generating the largest component of California's modern court budgets. Courts are covering budget shortfalls on the backs of community property estates.

Lawyers requesting and paying experts, judges continuing hearings for months or years at a time earn more money for local court budgets and lying to keep those fees churning are an important part of the modern legal system's financial plan.

​The most alarming trend in the modern family court is the sheer lack of transparency. Guarded by litigation privilege, judicial immunity and court staff refusing to comply with even the most basic public records requests. The deck is stacked against the family law litigant, and the stage is set to literally drive the innocent and reasonable people into permanent depression and mental health impairment.

​Q researchers are currently collaborating with medical experts, and obtaining grant funding to investigate the impact the family court process has on the mental health of those having to go through a divorce for longer than a one year period.

If you have a divorce or custody case in Contra Costa , Napa, Sacramento of Santa Clara County and feel you have suffered PTSD, depression or any mental or physical health symptoms are a result of your divorce matter, please contact us to participate in this important research : caljohnqpublic@gmail.com

I've been dealing with family court for 2 1/2 years now.
It's the most corrupt atmosphere I've ever been in.
I get angry just thinking about how family court took advantage of a situation that was already toxic.
They made money off our misfortune for years now and their not done!
They reduced my preshous time with my 7 year old son to one hour a week, provided I pay and give body fluid that must also be payed for.
Every time I leave family court I feel violated!
They should change their name to anti-family court.
They don't care about family just money and destroying black men period!
I've never I'm my life been treated so disrespectful!

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Jennifer Horne

3/23/2017 04:39:54 pm

Is there something like this for Texas??

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Nada

3/23/2017 06:46:52 pm

One hour? There is more story going on

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Jenni Reid

3/23/2017 09:01:24 pm

They choose the good parent to loose knowing that will cause the most litigation. How do they not give us the credit for that, we would give up if it were just. Fighting a loosing battle and with every punch we just stand back up in the ring, completely drained, and if we dare to muster a misguided swing, we get no contact, all air....Feeling so hopeless right now, but the record as it is, fabricated, unsubstantiated, and devastating to my life and the lives of my legally kidnapped children, CAN NOT stand. It seems the only thing more off-target than my legal prowess would be the judge's discretion.

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