Ray Lewis after that incident definitely reformed and did a lot of good for the youth of both Baltimore (and the Miami I believe). Baltimore for sure. He also was never hesitant to trying to help out at-risk players who might do something stupid by giving them his number if they ever needed to talk. He may not have always been a model citizen, but he got the reality check he needed and was able to change his ways. That is admirable considering he could have done what many many people do and just go back into old habits.

So you buy a woman drinks all night, she is clearly to intoxicated to make a rational decision weather she wants to be with a man. At this point its immoral for the guy to try to have sex with her (my own belief), but its to much of a grey area to convict him of a crime. (again my own belief)

I know most men would not sleep with a woman who was clearly over-intoxicated. But alcohol has been used by men to get laid since it was invented.