The Advantages Of Make-Up Sex

Although breaking up is hard to do, the prospect of make-up sex sure can make it all worthwhile.

Engaging in a sexual reconciliation after a long, gut-wrenching argument makes the entire acrimonious experience worthwhile. Experts all over the world agree that having uninhibited sex after a spat is a common way for couples to resolve conflict.

Whereas some people believe that make-up sex can be healthy and that residual anger can add a little spice to what's already a great experience in and of itself, others argue that it's just dysfunctional behavior. Yeah right, I believe that there's no greater sex than that angry, raw, animalistic sex that a couple shares after having laid (no pun intended) all their cards on the table.

There are different varieties of make-up sex in every relationship. Everything depends on what works for each couple and what makes them feel more comfortable. So the next time you and her have a flatware-breaking argument, keep these useful tips in mind for afterwards.

don't touch me, i'm angry

There is a very thin line between anger and sexual excitement. For some people, pent up aggression, just like sexual frustration, must be released every so often. And after lashing out with angry words, why not jump her bones with sexual desire?

Now she may be a little hesitant to let you touch her, in fact, she may even smack your face (which I personally think is even more of a turn-on). If she does, ask her if it makes her feel better. If she says "yes" (most women would), tell her to do again until she's satisfied because you want to satisfy her.

If she does, then take it like a man. After she's done or if she doesn't smack you around at all, hold her face firmly with your hands and kiss her deep and hard. Don't let her anger dissolve completely — that's probably the best part of the sex altogether. There's nothing like a horny, angry woman...

who's the man?

Depending on the argument (whether it's your fault or hers), you can take control of the sexual situation. For argument's sake let's assume that she's to blame for the tiff.

One of the extremes in after-argument sex is the "remember who's in control here," domineering sex. Grab the bull by the horns and have your way with it (you have to admit, that's a great analogy).

I'm not suggesting that you throw her around like an inflatable doll until she passes out. Rather, be a little aggressive by grabbing her by the back roots of her hair when you kiss her or hold her hips tightly when you're penetrating her.

Plenty of women love aggressive sex and if your woman is one of them, then show her that you're boss in bed and give it to her until she's sorry... so to speak.