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A backhanded compliment might work for a one-night stand, but come on, this is a poisonous ingredient in trying to form a long-term relationship. For instance, on our first date, I knew Kristen was a vegetarian, so I took her to a vegetarian restaurant called Café Gratitude. If you’re at a club and she needs to go to the restroom, take her there and wait outside the door. Be a good listener Ask solid open-ended questions that include “what,” “how,” and “why.” If you’re doing most of the talking, you’re not getting very far with her. It was a special moment and I ended up proposing to her there. There won’t be much longevity if she’s fallen for a false persona, and why would you want that anyway?

We’re getting pretty serious but there’s something that is eating me up inside. Being 5’5″ and 115lbs and measuring 34-26-35.5”, I always assumed that I was in the same league as a lot of celebrities who boast similar bodies. The difference is that: a) My wife would never ask me to compare her to Angelina Jolie. b) My wife would not be surprised at my response, which is that she’s no Angelina Jolie. You basically set yourself up for failure on a couple of levels. • You insulted your boyfriend’s looks because he didn’t lie and tell you were as attractive as one of the most attractive women on the planet. • You actually feel that that a man who is truly into you would think you are more beautiful than all of the Hollywood celebrities combined? How much self-delusion do you have to have to say such things? So, to answer your question: Are you being insecure and shallow for zooming in on this issue when everything else is fine, or have you got a legitimate concern?

Granted, I am a little heavier towards my hips and have a bit wider frame but does 1″ really make a lot of difference here? He basically told me that I can’t even compare myself to an actress or other celebrities (this ridiculous conversation started while watching TV and making comments about some actress). “No, you don’t look fat in those jeans.” Men cut their buddies down. ” In fact, suffice to say, women are largely better and more sensitive communicators and men should really learn take a page out of women’s emotional playbooks. Because women are so kind and supportive, they don’t always speak their minds. c) My wife would not take it personally that I told her the truth, because she knows she’s no Angelina Jolie. • You expected your boyfriend to be “infatuated” with you because other men have been. I mean, let’s just take it to the extreme: A man with average looks, average intelligence and an average job gets pissed at his girlfriend who doesn’t think he’s the love child of Brad Pitt and Steve Jobs. Is your boyfriend recognizing that you may not be at the very top of his scale in terms of looks but are the best “package” he can get in terms of looks-personality-values-etc? You’re spot on in assessing your boyfriend’s maturity. The real question is whether it’s a deal breaker for HIM to stay with a woman who has such a hard time hearing the truth.

When you are walking alongside the street, you should be the one walking closest to the street. He’s also taken her to the Getty museum and the zoo, which are free.

Another idea is to take her to a place like Color Me Mine, where you paint your own pottery.

Disclaimer: This is not intended for the guy who wants a one-night stand.

There are books like “The Game” and “The Players Handbook” which can give you great techniques to hook up and end up with an empty life and a roster of regrets. She’s the type of woman who blew all of my expectations and checklists out of the water.

I sent her encouraging text messages and inspirational Bible verses. Speak well of her in front of other people Hold her hand. If she’s going on a jog or walk at night, tell her you want to go to keep her safe. When people ask where your first kiss was, you don’t want her to answer with the driveway or that you were drunk at a party.

I told her I wanted to be her man on our fifth date. I gave her the time she needed with no stipulations, while still pursuing her intentionally. Pick-up artists recommend saying backhanded compliments, but nothing beats a genuine and sincere compliment. If she’s going to the gas station at night, go with her. The night I kissed Kristen for the first time, I wanted it to be special. We stood on top of the city, and that night I was her very own Superman.

He “likes me and finds me attractive”, but by no means am I nearly as good looking as a movie star, and I am crazy to be even comparing myself to them. Of course, I felt hurt and I had a few “nice” things to say to him in response – as in “look who’s talking” kind of things and this conversation went downhill right away. Her wanting to be that woman doesn’t mean she has low self esteem; it means she’s a woman.