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I'd say keep working on yours, Keith. As I pointed out elsewhere, the terms of use for Chris' site are reprehensible and I certainly can't use it, nor recommend it.

And I just decided to take up PHP and am eyeballing some content management systems to use for building social sites. If need be, I'll start building a site with reasonable terms of use. Unity is no reason to embrace unreasonable terms of use.

I built a free poly dating site and it does not get much traffic, maybe you guys could tell me why or is it just the the subject is very specialist?

Well, from poking around on the site, a more accurate description would be to say that it is poly-friendly--it does not appear to be a dedicated poly dating site. It does appear to be free. Because it is poly-friendly and free, I'll forgive you for showing up here just to pimp your site.

I have to say the search function is sub-par. The choices on age range to search for are few and oddly spaced--with a top age of 47! If the rest of the features are as poor, I don't imagine many people will hang around much.

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When speaking of various forms of non-monogamy...it ain't poly if you're just fucking around.

While polyamory, open relationships, and swinging are all distinctly different approaches to non-monogamy, they are not mutually exlusive. Folks can, and some do, engage in more than one of them at a time--and it's all good.

On a the technical side of things, were you considering building something totally ground up? What language?

I've been eyeballing using Drupal to build a site. I've got it set up on my machine here to learn how to use it and just haven't decided on a project to begin. A poly dating site is mighty attractive. Picked up some books on PHP and MySQL and need to start doing something before I forget it all.

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When speaking of various forms of non-monogamy...it ain't poly if you're just fucking around.

While polyamory, open relationships, and swinging are all distinctly different approaches to non-monogamy, they are not mutually exlusive. Folks can, and some do, engage in more than one of them at a time--and it's all good.