2017/07/02

Be careful!Don't do the 4 things on your first bi date.

Be careful!Don't do the 4 things on your first bi date.

Online dating is nice way for everyone.I like the feeling that you never know what kind of person you are going to meet.But as a bisexual,I hate the person who tells me that he or she really never believe in bisexuality on our first date.Therefor dont do 4 things on your first date with you bisexual partner.

"I don't believe in bisexuality"

I remember the first bi date with my partner,and he told me that he never believe in bisexuality,because he was failed at his first date.Since the expierence,he don't believe in bisexuality.And I politely explaint that not everyone is like you,in fact bisexual is real and exists.I told him I understant him,but I am not going on the second date with him.He is so surprised,and I explainted that we have not common belief,becuase I'm bisexual,but you are not.The date is over.

In fact the reason I refused to date with him for the second reason is very simple,he opposed my faith,and he is not bisexual.

"I cannt have a relationship with you"

If you are not bisexual,you should listen and understant others when you date with a bisexual partner.I have a sad date for 3 years ago,I known a man on a date website.Fisrt our conversation was very smooth,however he became confused and not firm when I told him Im bisexual,then he told me I cannot make him meet,because he is gay,but Im bisexual.He think it is not so strong that the bisexual man love women and love men,and he told me he cannot have a relationship with me.I accepted his suggestion,but then I told him that he should not say that word,because he hurt me.

"I have never tried anything sexual with man,because I don't turn gay"

When you date a bisexual man,please keep your mind that he is bisexual.If you not bisexual,just listenning and nodding when the bisexual man shared his bisexual stories with you.If you rashly refuse him,it is not polite.just like "I have never tried anything sexual with man,I don't turn gay",before you say this,you should think twice.Whether you can hurt him,whether you know bisexual,if not,please respect him and listen.

"Prove to me that you are bisexual"

The word is very hurt bisexual partner on the bisexual date.Bisexual is bisexual,he dates someone who is girl,he dates someone who is boy.bisexual is freedom,but on your date,you say to him "prove to me that you are bisexual",I think that you are going to lose the bisexual friend.