Everyone is different, but I don't think that this would suddenly turn into a situation years down the line where he becomes obsessed with you. Especially if you haven't talked in a year. If anything, I think the influence of the blood will diminish the longer he isn't consuming it.

I hope that answers your question, take care.

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Hello everyone,
I am desperately looking for help. On the 5th of this month will be 1 year I've been dealing with this man. He is now my ex but we still been seeing each other here and there since we broke up. I am now pregnant for him.
He cheated on me which caused us to break up. He is the type of man that women throw themselves at. It's not hard at all for him to find someone to mess with.

I want to do a spell on him so no woman will want him but I do not know which one to do or steps to take.
I also can't do one that I'll have to go to his place to put anything around it because he lives with his aunt at the moment getting himself back on his feet and a lot of people around knows me.
To be honest, if it isn't me, I want him with no one. So I really do not want anyone wanting him. I want him to be undesirable to all women but without harming him physically.

Can someone please help me? A spell kit I can buy or anything.
I am so hurt, betrayed, angry, disappointed. Plus I want our baby to have chance of having his or her mother and father together as a family. So I'll do anything.

I'm so sorry you're having to deal with this situation, my heart goes out to you. I moved your post to this thread about spells to keep your mate faithful, and i think you'll find it helpful. Just scroll up and you'll find lots of ideas.

So my boyfriend has left for basic training and AIT and im worried about all the fraternization stories that he might give into temptation and fraternize as well. So far i have a love honey jar with his hair picture and birthday also with some herbs to promote love amd a loving relationship. Ive been using pink and white candles dressed with stay with me oil burning on top and once in a while ill add a purple candle dressed with compelling oil along side the stay with me candle. I dress the letters i mail to him with stay with me, chuparrosa(so he can open up and be honest with me) love me and dixie love sachets so wen he opens and touches the letters to read them he’ll have work physically on him. I also have a poppet made of a skull candle with his hair inserted into that i talk to and convince to be faithful and honest while using stay with me and chuparrosa oils. Is there anything else i should do as far as work? I feel confident with the work that im doing now based on him expressing how much he missed me and loves(thats pretty much All he talked about in his last letter) i just want to make sure i have everything covered and im not missing anything. Im also doing protection work on him(so he doesnt get injured in basic training) and power work(to give him mental and physical power to get him threw basic without struggling)

I don' want to gross anybody out, but I have semen from a condom me and my man used. It is filled with it. I tied it up in the condom so it doesn't dry up, so I can use it when I get back home. I want to do a nation sack on him. I heard that I have to get a cotton string, or a piece of bedding if I'm correct, and put the semen on this, and tie it in knots while I call out his name when he sleeps. Is this correct? Need to know before I order a nation sack. Also are the dimes necessary with the year of birth?

Dazed-Confused,
Just a quick non-expert two cents on the nation sack... I ordered the triple strength nation sack and followed the directions exactly and I couldn’t be happier with the results! I wear it in my panties daily and sleep with it in my pillowcase at night, and dress it MWF with follow me boy oil every week. This little bag is like my own little personal man-tamer! My guy texts me throughout the day when we’re apart, and is in my bed every night no matter what, ever since one week after I made my sack back in November. I highly recommend ordering the triple strength nation sack if you can afford it, and following the instructions it comes with exactly as written. You won’t be sorry!

Dazed_Confused,
No, not at all, if he was a wanderer I would’ve dropped him. But... he was a bit inattentive. Just distracted and not great with being present as often as I like my man to be, if that makes sense. He’s monogamous but has a fear of full commitment beyond just dating and I’m looking for something serious at this point in my life. So, I tied his nature to me with the nation sack, buried his knotted underwear in my backyard to keep him returning to my home, and I burn candles on a honey jar every MWF. So far, so good. He’s much more attentive now and I feel us growing closer every day. Still some fear on his part but I’ve had a reading and now I’m starting additional work to get him to officially move in with me instead of just staying here nightly. But the nation sack is my favorite... makes me feel like I have him tucked up inside my pocket lol, right where I want him!

I did a forum search on this but couldn't find an answer so I apologize if it's already been discussed - I need to preserve my menstrual blood until I'm able to see my husband, we're currently on opposite coasts due to work. Would it be effective to store the blood in alcohol? Vodka or something like that? I was thinking of making a mixture and putting it in a dropper bottle. Would this effectively prevent the blood from "going bad" and still be effective? Sorry if this is a dumb question, I'm very new to hoodoo work. Thank you!

Yes, this question has been answered here many times. Whiskey, dehydration, freezing. All good options. For detailed and extremely effective ways to use menstrual blood in hoodoo folk magic, please see the chapter titled "Our Secret: Menstrual Blood " in the book "Women's Work" by Aura Laforest:

First, for those reading this from other nations or in the far-flung future, Kik Messenger is an app that ensures privacy and it is commonly used for sexting. So ... if he has installed Kik, that's bad.

Second, your problem may be with what he means by the word "love." If he means, "good food, raise my babies, do the laundry, and i will have sex with you when i am not busy sexting," then you may not actually HAVE a husband. You may have a parasite. I recommend that you get a reading from a reputable diviner who can see if the marriage is on a solid enough basis to be saved.

Third, if the reader gives you a go-ahead, i recommend some tying or binding spells. You can do them yourself, and there are SIXTEEN PAGES of discussion about such spells in this thread alone, plus some really fantastic marriage spells in Aura Laforest's book "Women's Work."

So I only have one night where we are physically together to win my man back. I will not have a period between now and then. Is there another kind of blood or bodily fluid I can use? Can I put it in wine or something for him to drink?

I think you answered your own question! If you are trying to attract this guy to you, bury the spell remains near your front door, not in a graveyard. To understand more about spell deployment, check out this page:

hello everyone, my bf and i are on the rocks and im not about to loose what we have. Weve been together for 8 years and i love him dearly but i can feel us growing apart. I havent put any binding or used menstral blood on him as i prefer him to naturally want to be with me. I had a protection spell done on him in february 2018 for a court case against false accusations gossip and false evidence, will that block the effects if i use my menstral blood in his tea or his food? I come now to realize you need to bind in todays society.

Hi Sister Jean, thank you so much for taking the time to view my post and help me out, I really appreciate it and will be getting to work right away!!! I’m going to do everything I can to keep the fire going. Please send prayers my way. Thank you again.

Hello, I was wondering if someone could explain what might have happened in this situation?

A couple weeks ago, I did a series of baths using Chuparrosa products to ensure my mate stayed honest and faithful to only me. I was fairly convinced that he had been faithful thus far. I know the spell was received because the morning after I finished the series of baths, I saw a humming bird that looked at me and then flew away - have not seen one in the area before or since and I am convinced it was a sign that la Chuparrosa had heard my prayers.

However, very shortly after that work was done, I found out he cheated on me. I don't know how long this has been going on, but I know he was cheating on me after the baths. So as for the work, I am confused

1) Did it not work like I was so sure it would?

2) Is this somehow related to the work?

I'm not very experienced and I would really like to understand what may have happened here.

The Chuparrosa or Hummingbird prayer is for honesty. It is not a curse intended to tie, bind, restrict, hinder, eliminate, or destroy a person's sexuality.

You got the honest truth. I would suspect that he had been cheating prior to the baths, and i think your suspicions -- which led you to perform the baths in the first place -- proved to be correct.

You now get to choose how you wish to work with this new truth, for instance, to break the relationship, adapt to polyamory, or try to perform a different spell, up to and including a curse intended to tie, bind, restrict, hinder, eliminate, or destroy his sexuality.

Miss Cat, thank you so much for your feedback, what you've said makes sense and this is helping me to understand the use of these products more.

I do have another question in regards to this spell:

Since I found out about the cheating, I broke up with him, but we still live together, at least for now.

I agree with you that he was most likely cheating before I did the work, but he insists that it was a one-time thing over the course of a few days and not before that. He says he has stopped and will not do this again and he wants to fix things between us.

I am of course more than a bit cynical, and I am wondering if I should believe him after doing the Chuparrosa spell. Does it tend to compel HIM to be honest, or does it work more in the way of revealing the truth, even if it doesn't come from the dishonest person's lips?

I ask because I didn't find out about the cheating from him, but from finding his messages to the other women.

You say that he says "it was a one-time thing over the course of a few days."

And you also say that you were, "finding his messages to the other women."

So there is no way that it was a "one-time thing" if it was with multiple women. In fact, it was a SEVERAL-TIME THING with SEVERAL WOMEN over the course of SEVERAL DAYS.

Until and unless you know what drove him to that, you cannot trust him at all. I would want to know --

Were you and he not having sex?
Was he using intoxicants?
Is he bipolar and this was a manic phase?
Was he hanging out with bad companions who convinced him this would be fun to do?

Because if this was really a short-duration event, then something tripped his switch -- and you ought to find out what it was, because if you agree to forgive and carry on, it could easily happen again.

In other words, i'll match your cynicism and raise you ten.

You could go ahead and try to tie his nature (that is what this thread is about), but, frankly, i think you should be glad you didn't marry him and have two children before you found out what a liar he is.

Thank you for sharing your two cents, miss cat, I need to hear stuff like that now to keep this in perspective. He says they were just sexts and he never met the women, but I don't know that I believe him. He has been unemployed recently and having mental health issues. We're talking about going to therapy. Thanks for your help clarifying the products, also.

I got my period today (full moon) and I've been working various love work. I plan on putting some come to me oil on my targets car tonight and starting the novena candle for the same purpose. I was thinking about *lightly* anointing his license plate with some of my blood... intent of brining him to me strongly, etc. what do you guys think of this? Any suggestions/ opinions? Feeding it to him is not currently an option as we are not in contact right now.

Amazing idea! I will do that. I was gonna do that with the oil but the blood is an amazing idea. I am a little nervous as I will be "sneaking" around his house but I did it a few weeks ago as well. I am also very excited and this full moon energy feels very positive for me! I will let you know how it goes!

I would like to start off with a thanking you guys so much for asking and answering all the questions before mine. This forum has given me hope again and made me feel confident that I can get him back.

Now this is my first time ever posting to this forum and I am very sorry if this question has been asked before but ...

My ex and I have only been broken up for about a month or two and I honestly cannot handle the separation anymore. I can get close to him three days a week and can easily sneak some into his drink.

1. After putting my blood in the refrigerator, I had to use a little water to loosen it up again; will that affect the strength of the spell? Will watering it down a little before adding it to the drink affect the strength at all?

2. Will giving him more foods and drinks with my menstrual blood in it strengthen the spell or will any foods/drinks after the first one not really do much of anything else to compel him to love me again?

I am very sorry if I am asking questions that have already been asked but I really need to know..

Welcome to the forum! There are 22 pages of questions and answers on the use of menstrual blood in magic, so do, please, go back and read this thread from page one. In the meantime, here are the answers i have to those questions, based on traditional ways of working:

1. Dilution of menstrual blood will occur in food and drink anyway, so pre-dilution will not damage it or dilute the magical intent.

2. Many women feed menstrual blood to a man every cycle, for years. There is a good, long, and true story about this in my book, "Hoodoo Herb and Root Magic," that explains it in detail. I suggest that you buy the book, for it will help you in many other areas of life, and will open new understandings of rootwork to you:

Inquiringminds128,
I tie the knot loosely on the dry string, without pulling it completely tight, and tuck the string away like that. Once I have his semen, I smear it on the string with the loose knot still there, then call out to him and pull the ends of the string to fully tighten the wet knot when he answers. I start in the middle, then each additional knot I just alternate sides, kind of like this: 7-5-3-1-2-4-6. Seven knots is my max for the length of string but it seems to work perfectly for tying his nature. I even have a few quick strings that I’ve only done 3 knots because I want to use them in a spell and they work great. And I just use regular knots, nothing fancy. Hope that helps a little, I’m definitely not a pro!

Thank you so much for your suggestions Amy. The string does have to be the same length as his penis when it’s erect correct? I just don’t want to miss a beat once I get this going. Lol. My honey jar came in the mail today and I can’t wait to get back to it!

Today i was asked, via private message, if there is any market for the buying and selling of dried menstrual "of virgins and sexually active women" in the context of my company, the Lucky Mojo Curio Co.

The reason given for offering menstrual blood for sale was two-fold:

1. Rootworkers do not have "easy access" to it.

2. "It is used in many love spells."

What follows relates only to hoodoo, and may not be relevant to other forms of folk magic.

First, i am sure that male rootworkers who are heterosexual DO have "easy access" to menstrual blood, unless their partners are older or have had hysterectomies. One of the basics of rootwork is to get you what you want, and if you use rootwork to get a female partner, you will have "easy access" to menstrual blood. You won't be some pathetic, warped wannabe buying it online, that's for sure.

Second, menstrual blood is a power of WOMEN and any particular menstrual blood is a power of a PARTICULAR WOMAN. Male rootworkers (and male practitioners in general) may fear the use of menstrual blood in rites of capture against themselves (for which reason there are spells to remove such capturage) but it is not used by hoodoo doctors to put two clients together. The woman client is instructed to use it herself, and the male client is instructed on how to avoid being captured by it.

Because menstrual blood is a personal concern and not a curio, it is a serious mistake to say that it is "used in lots of love spells." It is used by women in their own love spells and it is used by enemies of specific women to harm or kill them through attack upon their reproductive organs.

Within conjure, menstrual blood is not a rare, occult, difficult to find item. It is not the object of kinky or spooky spells. It is a personal concern, a magical link to a specific human being. Unlike herbs, roots, minerals, and zoological curios, which may be viewed as representative of the spirits or natural qualities of an entire species, within hoodoo traditions, the personal concerns of a living human being are perceived as specific to the human being in question. Chicken poo or black cat hair are generic, but a baby tooth, for instance, is "Billy's baby tooth," and a kidney stone is "Joe's kidney stone."

Once a person dies, there is a tendency toward generalization, however. Old-time workers, such as those interviewed by Harry Hyatt during the 1930s, many of whom were born in the 19th century, would advise getting the index finger bone of a gambler who was known to be lucky in life, if one wanted to make a lucky gambling hand, but urbanization gradually put an end to such particularized niceties, and many workers simply called for the index finger bone of the right hand of anyone, or just any finger bone at all, which is where matters stand at this time.

But you propose dealing with living women, so let me make an analogy. Selling a woman's menstrual blood would be like selling a man's semen. Who would want it in hoodoo? Only the person who was intimately involved with, wishing to establish a faithfulness bond to, or wishing to destroy the sexuality of that person.

As a practitioner, i would not want some random man's semen. I would want the semen of MY man, to work a love spell on HIM. Or he might use HIS OWN semen, to work a love spell on MR. But just "Joe Donor's" semen? Nope, it has no meaning for my love spells -- although i COULD use it to give "Joe Donor" a nasty case of stoppage of ejaculation, or erectile dysfunction. And for that reason, he should not be sending his semen out for sale.

To sell personal concerns related to the sex organs of living women may be undertaken for any number of reasons.

* It may be a significator of domination over specific women, alike and akin to pimping out their bodies for the performance of sex acts.

* It may be an attempt to capitalize on the marketing of edgy, shocking, or kinky curiosities in a culture that views menstrual blood as "dirty."

* It may be a form of eclectic ceremonial sex magic or divination, akin to the work attributed to Paschal Beverly Randolph, in which the conjoined sexual fluids of Randolph and his wife were reputed to have been mixed with opium derived from lettuce and used to sigilize the backs of scrying mirrors, which he sold.

* It may be a novel borrowing or adaptation from the folk-magic of other cultures that place their own unique meaning or value on certain personal bodily concerns, for instance as in the buying and selling of cauls among the British for the prevention of drowning at sea.

But no matter what "may be" uses menstrual blood may have in other forms of magic, buying and selling it is not part of African American folk magic love spells, for in hoodoo there are no spells that call for traffic in the hair, nails, teeth, skin, amniotic sacs, blood, sweat, or tears of people whose love you neither personally seek to enjoy nor personally seek to destroy -- because sexually-related personal concerns of human beings are treated as links to individual people, not as botanical, mineral, or zoological curios.

Hello ladies; this is my first time here and I am new to this new world of Hoodoo.

I really need help, please if anyone can answer me ):

Well my situation is that I am living currently with my ex, father of my 1st child. We are not together but we have been sexually active togther and sometimes we fall asleep and wake up togther. He has mixed feelings about me and sometimes is hot and cold. Previously when we were just boyfriend and girlfriend

I had found out about an ex still trying to be in his life. When she found out about me apparently she wallet him go but then eventually she came back and made things harder after I had my child. When I was first pregnant he let her go and tried making it up to me but I was very hurt as to what I found out.

He once told me she admitted to him she was going to do witchcraft on him & I don’t know what work she has done on him but I was told that apparently some has done some work on us and on him.

So I tried fed him my menses. I swished my tampon into his drink and injected some of my dilutated blood from my panties into the sauce of the pizza. Apparently it’s suppose to work quick but nothing has happened.

I read a lot of the replies here and I read that if someone has already done work on a man the next person’s work won’t be as effective.

Now this man I want and love, but he has trouble making up his mind. We were great before but it’s this girl who has no good intentions but okay with his feelings.

1) After everything I still want him and I would like to know if I can cleanse him in anyway with a spell without him knowing?

2) Or if the honey jar spell will work?

3) My period already passed & I already fed him my menses so it seems like it did not work /: or maybe I need more time ?

Can someone please help me, I’m stressing out and I’m very heart broken please and thankyou

1) Yes, there are cleansing spells to take off spells of sexual capture. They are called untying or uncrossing spells. You will not find them in this thread, because this thread is about using menstrual blood. Some of them are here:

3) If you would take the time to read the 22 pages of information in this thread, you would have already seen the answer to this question. I already replied to the same question earlier, but here it is again, copied-and-pasted for you:

Magic is not a simple child's game with set rules. Think of it as an art, like cooking or painting, or making music. Some people can repeat a song back, note for note, the first time they hear it. Some people have no sense of melody of tempo at all and can never sing a song back note-for-note, no matter how often they hear it. And most people are in-between -- with a little practice they can learn how to perform a song.

Magic is similar -- some people are naturally gifted for the work, some are steady-minded enough to develop a skill set if they practice for a while, and some are hopeless losers who never cast a successful spell. So there is no one answer to your question and it is not a reasonable question to ask.

I have seen folks get amazing results from menstrual blood the minute they fed the it to their lover -- and i have seen others who get gradual results, slowly improving over time. I have also seen menstrual blood spells fail.

Success or failure, like fast results or slow ones, do not only depend on the the gift of the workers, either. That's in part because, magic is unlike music in that two of you are playing to win -- whereas music is just a concept, not an entity. So menstrual blood may be more effective on a willing lover and less effective on one who has already broken up with you.

One knot it fine as well. I’ve read this entire thread, and the thread about nation sacks. My friend made a nation sack with just one knot. Her man is sextin her now. Before he would just talk normal convo that was not really intimate. In three days she told me after making it this happened. Also she says she keeps it her pockets at all times. She is using Follow Me Boy oil to feed it. I think feeding it every Friday is good. Also smoking it in follow Me Boy is good too.

People are tripping on these threads about if they have made a mistake or what not. Simple reading will help. Take the time and read through it. There is a lot of uselful info, tips, and tricks I found by reading.

Also I noticed there is a lot of people not using LM products and asking for help on here. I can tell by just reading how they post when they ask questions. Keep in mind this forum is solely only for the use of Lucky Mojo products.

Give spells a chance and time to work. Don’t freak out and obsess about it. Remember to feed the nation sack to keep it alive

So I fed my man my menses last month unsure about it working because I have read that it should work immediately.... now here I am on my flow again... Day one.. so he goes "are you on your period" and I asked him why because I figured he was going to say something annoying about my pads. But to my surprise, he begins to tell me how good my skin looks and how beautiful I am when I am on my flow.. then he begins touching me and we all know what happens after that

Now my question is, (just for assurance) would you say this was a successful MB spell and I should keep feeding him my MB?

I see that you are new here, so i would like to start you out by getting you to let go of the idea that you should believe everything you read.

Your statement, "I have read that it should work immediately" is problematic to me, as is the often opposite (but equally common) phrase, "I have read that these things take time." It signals to me that you may be new to this work and you may be learning from top-down web sites or youtube channels rather than from a network of experienced practitioners.

To return to your specific statement about fast timing (and its opposite, about slow timing) i want you to understand that i have been practicing this work for more than 50 years and although i claim NO AUTHORITY, i am a faithful transmitter of what i have been taught -- and i am as sure as i am typing this that any dogmatic belief in how long a spell takes to manifest (either slow or fast) is NOT a universally agreed-upon hoodoo belief. There are easy cases and hard cases. There are skilled practitioners and inept practitioners. There are prayers supported by God and there are prayer requests that God is just not going to grant. We do our work and pray for results in faith.

That having been said, i think your man's response was typical of a man who is reacting VERY well to a menstrual blood spell, so keep it up. You are doing great and are getting great results.

Yes I have been reading everything I can get my hands on but I actually spend most of my time on this forum! I love it here!

The fact that my MB is responding so well with my man makes me so much more confident in my work I'm so happy!

Does the MB cause my man to think more about family planning and/or marriage? Lately we have also been looking at buying a house together and I had to schedule a procedure on my cervix and he asked me if that would affect pregnancy later on when earlier in our relationship he used to be afraid of me being pregnant...

Quick question! I am in the process of making up with my man, and I thought what a perfect time to be sneaky and bake him something sweet...with my menstrual blood in it

I was thinking about showing up on our next date with fresh baked chocolate chip cookies because in my opinion, it seems easy to add a drop of blood in each individual dough ball and i am hoping the color would blend in with the browning of the dough and chocolate chips nicely!

BUT My question is, if someone else happens to have a cookie or two, like his son, would he be affected too?