2. Lend Her Something

OK, so this move is a bit Costanza-esque. But what if you meet a girl through friends or at a party that you know you desperately need to see again, but you're not ready to formally ask her out right away? Or what if you're already on the date but you feel awkward bringing up a second date so soon? If you lend her something, like a book, or your hat, to keep her ears warm, you'll have a built-in reason to see her again.