Just finished reading Ghosting: A Double Life by Jennie Erdal — her memoir of twenty years or so ghostwriting for an influential publisher in the UK. A good read. In closing, she muses on her own efforts at telling her story, and life stories in general.

“Everyone tells stories. And all story-tellers are liars–not to be trusted. They have an excessive need to make sense of experience, and so things get twisted and shaped to suit. It need not be deliberate, but it’s as well to admit that it happens. We fumble about in the fog, and patterns come to us eerily like distant foghorns over water. We put forward versions of ourselves. And versions of others.”

That rings true, doesn’t it! I would say that the need to make sense of experience is the common thread that binds together those of us who write about our lives.