Alex Charmchi UBC’s very own criminal

Alex Charmchi UBC’s very own criminal

THE DIRTY ARMY: Hey Nik and dirty community! Alex Charmchi is no new news around here on the dirty community. He’s been accused of rape and continues to get away w. it bc Canada fails its victims. I gave Alex a benefit of a doubt and said yes to hang out after chatting on Tinder. He comes off a nice guy and put together but after hanging out with him countless times you can’t help but take note of how insecure he really is. He has a raging temper , crazy expectations and for sure is battling a lot of diff mental illness! His moods are unpredictable , even though he tries really hard to come off like he has his life together. But he’s 30 and is still on his 3rd year of uni. He talks like he’s going be someone big one day, but he does so much drugs that for sure it’s all talk he’s for real not gonna get anywhere. He was so encouraging at first but he only built me up so he could tear me down to nothing. He called me up one night begging to see me bc he said he was having a breakdown. I agreed to meet up with him and we walked around Stanley. He was complaining about his fam and how they don’t understand him. He begged me to kiss him bc he said he needed to get his mind off of all the stress. We made out a bit and that’s when he started to get pushy with his sexual advances. I’m 5’0” 95lbs and he’s 5’10” 170lbs as much as I fought him off I couldn’t win. He’s much bigger than me. He got fed up with me fighting him and punched me in the stomach. I was in so much pain and couldn’t move and that’s when he took my pants off and shoved himself inside of me. The next day he called me saying that if I’m pregnant he’ll be there for me for the abortion bc he would never want me to go through that alone! Alex Charmchi is a mental case! He’s so good at mentally abusing you that you always end up taking his abuse! He’s a sick person who takes advantage of anyone who’s kind! Went to the police but the injuries that provide “proof” of force aren’t necessarily easy to distinguish from those that result from rough , but consensual , sex. Getting a rape kit done is traumatizing and to be told in the end that my case was hopeless , I gave up and came here instead to warn everyone just as the other women Alex Charmchi assaulted did. Our justice system is discouraging. Even though I saw all those warning signs with Alex in the beginning I made the mistake of wanting to help him. Ladies if you’re a fixer like me , it’s time to stop giving people a benefit of a doubt bc you end up destroyed in the end! Love yourself first

Yo Alex ever think of apologizing to all them girls? Ever think about the damage you did to ppl? I feel bad for your fam bro. Your legit dragging your family name thru mud. Your fam prob feel like Jasper Trump. Your a bad person Alex Charmchi. You should make things right with all them girls you hurt.

This goof is such a try-hard. Wanna-be gangsta who’s pumped up on roids but doesn’t get any bigger cos he does so much drugs. Nothing but an insecure loser who likes to think he’s better than everyone so he takes the already-weak and breaks them down so he appears bigger. You’re a douche Alex Charmchi

Dated Alex several years ago & all I can say is that he’s an EXTREME SHOW-OFF! He’s possessive, jealous, impatient, rude & the BIGGEST MOMMA’S BOY! Even worse than Italians. We went to Langara together & he brought lunch that his MOM MADE. You’re old bruh, stop treating your mom like a slave! Make your own food. Grow up.

He likes to think that’s he’s a player, esp since he was dating some obese Chinese girl while he was dating me. He’s sexist, even though he says he believes in equality. His actions say otherwise. He always made me think twice about decisions just because he didn’t agree with what I thought. He made me feel like I always needed his approval because “men” know better, because he claims that women get too emotional. Reality, he was way more emotional. Always ran on rage & anger! Zero logic! Though he’s super skilled at hiding this side of him. He acts really nice & kind, but look deeper people! You’ll see!

Typical Persian guy who’s lazy & just mooches off his parents. He was like 27 & still drove his moms car lmaooo! Super materialistic. Always & only ever cares about how he “appears”. He’s an empty shell.

Cherry on top ladies, his d1ck smells! The one time we were about to have sex, he took his pants off, all I could smell was this raunchy smell that made me want to vomit! He demanded a bj, I said no & he got mad! Said that he treated me like a “princess” so I should give back lmfaoo. He only does nice things so you feel indebted! He tried to grab me after I said no to giving me head, but luckily I was able to get away. If I didn’t, for sure he would’ve raped me! Keep your smelly d1ck to yourself Alex!

Been watching all these posts about alex charm and none of them ever really looked like him. It’s true what ppl said before me he really edits his photos. His insta is packed with edited posts esp his nose! He’s got a really big nose! Idk who these ppl are that he’s attracting, must be low self esteemed desperate girls cause Alex charm has nothing good going for him. he’s awkward but plays it off like he’s normal. If you’re observant enough though you’ll notice how awkward he is. He’s weird in text kinda rude even and in person he talks so goddam much! Like he’s one of the guys who just talks AT you. He never shuts up cause he thinks he knows everything and he’s always “humble” bragging about bu11sh1t. Alex is an empty shell girls stop falling for his crap cause he’ll just rape you

Always such a shame to read experiences like this. The system isn’t refined enough yet for women like this to be heard correctly. Alex Charmchi probably doesn’t have any priors n let’s get real, authorities probably have done the same thing n are also trying to cover their own a55. My cousin got raped n her rapist got away with it because she was drinking n her rapist was someone she was seeing. So they wrote it off as “regret” and ignored all physical evidence. I feel for you op. Take some self defence classes maybe

Quite a few of my female friends have gone out with this guy and they’ve said similar things about him. Aggressive, pushy, really pressures women to have sex just a bad guy overall. Now there’s like 5 plus assault reports about him online. Ladies keep an eye out for this loser!

V true. My bff went through the same thing b4. So many things can make the rape kit null. Such as the way the evidence is gathered, if you’re a virgin (the line between “normal” first-time bleeding and “abnormal” injury from a rough assault is blurry and unclear), if you showered after the incident (which is what most victims do right after since the assault makes everyone feel dirty), as the op said rough consensual sex vs assault injuries is also hard to distinguish. Rape kits are portrayed as “fool-proof” but they’re not. Just as polygraph tests, sobriety tests, genetics test etc aren’t fool proof. Especially with rape kits bc with rape the whole issue is consent. There’s no kit that’s fool-proof that someone gave consent.

But OP know that I believe you. I’m sorry our system has failed another victim once again. I pray that god will heal you and protect you. You are beautiful. Reach out to rape relief centres, they are helpful in ways you wouldn’t dream possible. Remember this wasn’t your fault! May god bring you peace!