Think you're protected once you get Social Security benefits? Think again.

After coming home from my son's psychiatrist visit, my wife and I got word to contact a middle group for the Social Security Administration called Trust Management Services (TMS). The concern was about my son being entitled to VA benefits. That's what TMS said, anyways ...

But I felt there was a deeper plot!

I called TMS the next day. They asked if my son got any benefits from the VA. The only thing I could think of was I get money as a supplement for my son being a dependent. But that goes to the veteran, not the child; it's a supplement to the veteran. The lady at TMS seemed to get angry with me. I told her she could look it up on the VA website.

Why ask me this question? Why am I getting a phone call about this? It seemed strange to me. TMS said they get email alerts and have to look into these matters. I personally don't know of any other VA benefits. TMS said that if I'm not going to cooperate, they would tell the Social Security Administration that I was not cooperating and that they'll suspend money for my son, who has Autism. This would leave my son without a "care-home" that cares for him.

I thought back to myself about this and said: So, because I'm a "disabled war veteran" who, served his country and had a son who is disabled, Social Security has the right to bother my wife and me about whether or not my son is getting VA benefits?

The argument gave me bad chest pains and it seems like TMS wants to throw my disabled child out of his care-home and stop his money. What for? So the lady at TMS (Tammy) can receive a bonus or something from Social Security? It sure feels that way.

I get a letter from my congressman on the matter hoping for some help and some transparency and instead, his office just reiterated what TMS said. The congressman's office asked me to fill-out a "feedback report" on how good she's doing at the congressman's office. What?

The first paragraph of the congressman's letter says something like: While I understand that this is not the resolution for which you had hoped, please keep in mind that my office is unable to force an agency to act in your favor. Don't forget to leave us feedback about how my office is doing!

I feel this situation proves that TMS and Social Security treated me and my disabled family no different then ISIS is doing to the Christians in Iraq. Powerful- groups destroying innocent families who, don't understand their tactics ...