Much trauma is caused by unfair uses of power in groups, particularly by moderators of online communities, who often act with unfair bias. This is a place to make such cases known to try to deter them from happening.

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You know how important facts are sometimes unpublishable ? A quote to remember all your life: “There is no greater agony than bearing an untold story inside you.” – Maya Angelou.

Hans Asperger controversy by affecting wellbeing so deeply ethically, requires discussing only in an uncorrupted unbullied scene, and to make that possible exactly requires upholding this site’s mission !

a definitive call from a survivor, that you are needed more than you may know, to support anyone you see a group rejection happen to. Defines this site’s point. Record it, always remember it, always be impressed.

Autistic Pride Day why it has not ceased to matter ethically that a damaging purge-happy cult invented it.

Fairness in every situation ever! stands cited How in Scotland it stands publicly circulated that an insertion of an actual corruption case into the autism strategy’s work ties authorities including the police to only ever take decisions that uphold personal fairness, in every situation! A breakthrough principle, human rights come from autism, worth spreading elsewhere.

Westminster Commission on Autism Introducing a good survey by it, into bogus treatments – but not designed the survey to easily receive as full and thought out answers as the topic merits!

NAS openly washing hands of child cruelty National Autistic Society’s Scottish office, in an openly emailed answer pressed for by an aspie society, aggressively shuts down contact about a still unanswered simple action of preventing a cruelty to kids. All other autism projects and workers can no longer afford to have any connection with an organisation like that.

on requiring typing into PDF forms + trying to email them by means of their own button! An unnecessary erratic technical obstacle, it happened in a consultation on new medical guide notes for autism, and affected its public accessibility.

Aspies For Freedom Never was a site so opposite to its name, as this unfree ban-happy cult. SF’s most important success was in giving voice to AFF’s victims throughout AFF’s existence, so helping to shorten its duration.

GFCF Kids UK An unexplained purging. Any GFCF group where that can happen is doing medical harm.

he-special-uk An email list on home education for kids on the spectrum, where mob psychology and exclusion of an opinion happened with the leader’s active indulgence. 2003.

! Posts about troubles in other groups or services affecting autistic folks:

The Icarus Project, when a group supposedly part of a “support network” on “mutual aid” and “healing” can do rejection that can cause suicide.

Place2Be its promotion to kids by TV news is misleading because its contact email addresses all bounce, which makes a wall for it against questions about the kids’ safety from treatment powers.

applying a law where it is factually evidenced not to apply A notice that our communication needs hold in the face of this distressing absurdity and should be used to prevent it. From the Justice Mill pub in Aberdeen holding that a bearer of a photographic bus pass you can only have if over 25 might be under 18.

MeToo on social media Sky News’s poll finding that 22% of men admit experiencing sexual harrassment proves wrong the MeToo campaign that was only about women victims and treated all men as the threat. PC prejuduce against men has impacted on aspies who struggle to connect socially.

TripAdvisor Its forums on air travel have been swamped and taken over by planted members working for the more passenger maltreating airlines themselves, contain attitudes against aspergers and outrageously against all public right not to miss their flights!! They are aggressive and hostile against folks who bring bad airport experiences there expecting support, and TripAdvisor itself is openly happy for this to happen, approves of it and bans saying that there are plants.

New College Lanarkshire petition supporting a social media share of a petition exposing mediaevally corrupt selectivity with, and ignoring of, a student’s evidence in a dispute.

NAPAC this is the last thing you wanted to hear about the national charity for abuse survivor support in adulthood right at the moment of the Smith report on the BBC coming out.

Anders Lee A comedian whose message is against autism specific recognition and support.

Shown used in a letter on Abellio trains skipping small stations unpredictably: an autism based claim to the duty on public bodies to give FAIR + COMMITTAL STRAIGHT ANSWERS.

for a hate crime law covering autism, a British petition campaign for the legal,protections of a minority against threat and bother. It could potentially have the good effect of banning the macho behaviour of being aggressive against getting looked at.

! Some items that just came across as part of the ongoing picture of struggling with unfairnesses: items that could easily impact on autistic spectrumites’ lives, so it seems within the spirit of a fairness watch to share them:

Don’t fund actively causing youth homelessness ! With an autism PhD as an evidence source, this denounces an appeal for a youth homeless service in Wales, that rested on repeating an extremely nasty misconception, the idea of arbitrary throwing out powers by parents. Circulating that could actually cause it to happen and victims not to know rights against it.

Family Courts the link, which had been circulating on Facebook, for a presently suppressed video evidencing deliberate bias by British family courts to remove kids from their families for bad reasons.

a “clicktivist” cult: a warning case showing that an online political campaign (Korean Dogs) arrogantly overloading the followers of a high conscience cause, with impossible quantities of campaigning work, that would take over their lives and exploit them.

BBC openly prevented a question on sectioning from being included in politics, and saved the panel in an election debate from having to answer it, 12 Apr 2016. Shows starkly how controlled and filtered TV politics’s content is.

Frying tonight Stephen Fry cares a lot now about injustices that are not the victims’ fault. Yet when you turn the fine words in his famous atheist interview back onto a Blackadder episode he was in, in 1986, which treated bullying in exactly that way…

The British law on adult vulnerability, against exploiting or taking advantage of us, imposes on the autism scene, its self-organised groups and its services, that in order not to take risks with suicidality they may never break the standard of integrity upon anyone. All aspie groups hàve to look out for each other keeping uncorrupted, aided by this law’s citability, so that they can be in any position to hold autism services and charities to uncorrupted fairness. It means, for example, that to follow the vulnerability law:

everyone is entitled to have their crisis issues agreed to matter, a group can’t decide it has grown bored with having individuals singly raise issues from their service problems and no longer wants to bother with them,

everyone who suffers any hostile accusation is entitled to the presumption of innocence, and nobody can ever declare that their last word to anyone is a refusal to undo an action breaching that,

breaching of these red lines of integrity is always aggressive, and it’s always corrupt to instead call it aggressive for the affected person to keep saying it has to be put it right.

As is flagged up in Bittersweet On the Autism Spectrum (Jessica Kingsley, 2017), p215: when there is a nationally linked up aspie scene, knowing the vulnerability law applies to it, then whenever one group goes bad, the rest of the scene is a failsafe and back-up for the affected group’s members. Autism Network Scotland‘s free-issued book An Ordinary Life Too also covers the duty under the vulnerability law for no group to stop having integrity about fairness: and that book’s existence is intended to help to keep the rest of the scene and services responsible to react and support affected folks whenever any piece of the autism scene goes wrong.

These works and developments point to a logical conclusion, that to comply with the vulnerability law, some types of answer that officials give us all the time can never be given. It’s great for democracy, and should be popular, to say that officials can never give the following toxic types of answer. But it’s not only officials who can never give them, ordinary aspies running local groups can never do the following to each other either:

Use the word “unfortunately” or synonyms of it. It has become a hurtful weapon for asserting that unfairnesses shall happen.

Be noncommittal.

Declare any matter of personal fairness closed, or unilaterally close down contact on it, before its entire content has been fairly answered, and at a stage preventing this from being ascertained from logical scrutiny of answers given.

Deny that they should do anything or answer substantively until an indefinitely deferrable eventuality.

Ignore, or omit to answer, any of the entire content of the evidence available from the person being answered.

These things also serve as practice models in countries lacking an explicit vulnerability law -they evidence practices that impact and worsen vulnerability, and there is always the responsibility not to risk causing suicides, to force compliance with these standards. It is always an act of toxic bullying, guilty of that improper risk, and breaking the vulnerability law wherever it exists, for the holders of leading offices in any group ever to declare a last word refusal to take a fair position, and ever to accuse of harrassment their own victim for pursuing them for a fair outcome. Remember that any of us who commit that calculated wrong, and crime of corruption, gift to every malevolent bureaucrat a basis to copy it. The entire safe and ethical autism scene in the world is defined by uncorrupted compliance with this standard.