Thoughts, When 30Min Isn't 30Min It's Shorter Or Longer?

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garifto 2

After 15min I ejaculated. She said I only get to cum once. I still had an erection. She said If I want to cum again it's another £20. 1hr is £120

I gave her another £20 the next 15min so now £80 for 30min. I had had an erection the whole way through the next 15min.

Then after 30min she stopped sex and started jerking me off. Took her 15-20min to get me off and that was with me giving her some advice,

So session was about 45-50min. I wonder if it'd have been 2 hours if i'd just let her try

Personally, I can't be bothered with massage or handjobs or blowjobs.

It was like.. At £60 30min I get the short end of the stick from the cum once rule. Then adding £20 it becomes cum twice, and she gets the short end of the stick 'cos she could go on for over 30min trying to jerk me off, i'm not sure why. Maybe thinking that she hasn't done her job if I haven't cum twice 'cos she charged me for cumming twice.

I wouldn't have minded just 30min and if I cum once I cum once, and if I cum twice I cum twice.

Cum is a precious resource after all

A lot of girls don't speak good English so perhaps saying "I cum once or twice for 30min" won't work so well. I could just say cum twice 30min. And if then after 30min I leave it. It's not ideal because Do you think they might feel guilty like they haven't done their job? I suppose it's that or I get ripped off with a cum once rule.

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Chloe Kisses 3,786

30 minutes is 30 minutes including but apart from when its less than but especially but only occasionally when its more than.

No we dont feel guilty or that we have not done our job properly if you dont cum twice so long as we have tried out hardest to make you and everything within our power to get that 2nd pop, its your body, we dont control it. However the exception to this case is the girl who doesnt try hard at all and doesnt give a flying monkeys wether you cum a 2nd time or not but again she doesnt feel guilty or that she hasn't done her job properly because she doesnt give a flying monkeys.

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SizeisntEverything 73

Iam personally very happy with the fact that I can no longer, shoot my load multiple times in a session.I much prefer my much reduced sex drive, even though that is too much! I could cum twice in an hour session if I wanted, but I like just once now.So once on 30 and 60 minute sessions.

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Bibi 599

Yes 30 mins is 30 mins and I don't get the only cumming once rule. However it is better to make sure you can cum twice if you wish and you saying that many girls don;t speak good English so you can't check..perhaps it is better to see girls who do speak good enough English to answer basic questions about heir service.At the end of the day you chose to pay the extra for another pop...perhaps you should have voted with your feet. It sounds like a bit of a routine this lady uses to get more money.

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Jasmine of London 267

I can understand the rationale behind cum once in 30mins rule. I don't offer 30mins appointments, but from what I've heard from ladies who do they get frustrated when a client is determined to cum twice, which results in him usually trying to cum at the eleventh hour (so to speak). And we all know that when it is being hurried and forced it isn't as relaxed and often does take longer due to the urgency being experienced by both. We can use our discretion and leeway when time permits, but it is cheeky to opt for the cheaper 30min option and expect the lady to exercise her discretion, when in reality it would've been more sensible to arrange to see her for an hour. Some gents can comfortably cum twice in 30mins, which is fine, but for the majority it is cutting it fine, hence why the once in 30min rule.

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Chloe Kisses 3,786

So basically OP, you paid £80 and ended up having 50 minutes even though she charges £120 for the hour. What are you actually complaining about here? You didnt pay 80 for a 30 minute cum twice you paid 80 for a 50 minute come twice…sounds like you actually got a good deal. Had she kicked you out after 30 minutes then you would have recourse for complaint but she didnt, you paid to cum a second time and she kept at it even though you ran almost twice as long over time as you had originally paid for, you got an extra 20 minutes for 20 quid.

Occasionally you have to consider that perhaps the glass is actually half full

Edited July 15, 2014 by Chloe Kisses

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SizeisntEverything 73

I suppose that the Op can be a dodgy so and so, and try and get more out of 30 mins than is reasonable.Again it's about getting the balance right.Most 30 min appointments I've had have been over 30 mins and not under.However I always leave extra money after my punts, usually a tenner.

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skyscraper 85

I can easily cum 3 times in 30 mins. Especially if I'm backed up a couple of days no cuming. The loads decrease to barely anything but the orgasm is still there.

4 times might be pushing it in 30s mins, admittedly but for sure I could do 4 times in an hour. I think I came 5 times in 2hrs at the last party I was at. Probably if you're old or physically overweight it'd be more of a problem? I dunno. Maybe I'll find out when I get closer to my 40s and the metabolism slows down. Hasn't so far!

Also cum once rule is nonsense. 30 mins is 30 mins. You should be able to come as many times as you like. Maybe she doesn't want you using all her condoms? It's a shitty rule anyway.

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Chloe Kisses 3,786

I can easily cum 3 times in 30 mins. Especially if I'm backed up a couple of days no cuming. The loads decrease to barely anything but the orgasm is still there.

4 times might be pushing it in 30s mins, admittedly but for sure I could do 4 times in an hour. I think I came 5 times in 2hrs at the last party I was at. Probably if you're old or physically overweight it'd be more of a problem? I dunno. Maybe I'll find out when I get closer to my 40s and the metabolism slows down. Hasn't so far!

Also cum once rule is nonsense. 30 mins is 30 mins. You should be able to come as many times as you like. Maybe she doesn't want you using all her condoms? It's a shitty rule anyway.

It may be a shitty rule but guys by now are well aware that some girls have it so if they think they may want a second pop they should ask shouldn't they. I have plenty if guys asking me this so it's clearly well known
Edited July 19, 2014 by Chloe Kisses

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Ebonypru 100

This thread shows the danger of charging for "project creep" during a punt. I charge for my time. Not what is done. As soon as she'd accepted that extra £20 for him to have another pop, she had a sitting tenant on her lap!

I steer clear of 30 minute appointments because I find the timing gets abused without a cum once rule. I don't like telling a guy he can only cum once, but I've had it abused once too often to go without it if the guy is booking only 30 minutes.

If you're paying 30 minutes but secretly assuming it'll be 40 to 45 minutes, does that make you smarter than the gentleman paying for the full hour? When I price the 30 minute option, I make the cost such a turn off. But when a guy takes me up on it anyway, and truly is done within 20 minutes and is dressed and ready to leave with minutes to go, I always offer him a tenner back to honour the fact that he hasn't taken the piss. And they're welcome back at a more realistic rate for the 30 minutes in the future. They always appreciate the explanation and I've never had one of them come back to abuse it.

Believe me, the look on a punter's face when you hand him £10 back as he's leaving is priceless. The money-grabbing hooker stereotype crumbles in that instant.

I don't want to be paid a stupid amount of money for so little work when I know the guy's had to work really hard for the money. At the same time, for the guys that do want to take the piss, the premium on a 30 minute booking is the piss-takers tax.

With the one hour booking, the timing's more flexible. An extra 10 minutes for a shower before and after is factored in. The clock starts when he's back in the room with me and the towel gets whipped off.

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davidgood 26

When i started punting a few years ago I was still in my late 40s and still had a lot of spunk in me, but not so much money so used to only go for half hour punts and hoped I could get 2 pops in that time on the basis of knocking one out early and then another towards the end of the time as my first few punts were with very obliging ladies.

When I came across those who were 'one pop and you are out' I got very frustrated, never went back to them and then started to ask in advance what the rules were so I could make a decision.

All seemed to go well for me and I felt like I was getting good deals. I was particularly happy with my meetings with a semi professional Brazilian lady I started seeing in North London who provided just the services I craved at what seemed a very reasonable price and who I got on with really well.

However on about our third meeting she said 'look I will charge you for the half hour service today but you know you are taking the piss' I was horrified and asked her to explain. What she told me was that to achieve that second pop I was going well beyond the half hour time slot. After that I started booking her for an hour, which to be honest was more relaxed and enjoyable. I would still be seeing her now but like all the best ones she got a full time job and retired from the scene.

Since then I have always gone a for a full hour for my 1 to 1s and it works well for me.

Regards,

davidgood

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Chloe Kisses 3,786

When i started punting a few years ago I was still in my late 40s and still had a lot of spunk in me, but not so much money so used to only go for half hour punts and hoped I could get 2 pops in that time on the basis of knocking one out early and then another towards the end of the time as my first few punts were with very obliging ladies.

When I came across those who were 'one pop and you are out' I got very frustrated, never went back to them and then started to ask in advance what the rules were so I could make a decision.

All seemed to go well for me and I felt like I was getting good deals. I was particularly happy with my meetings with a semi professional Brazilian lady I started seeing in North London who provided just the services I craved at what seemed a very reasonable price and who I got on with really well.

However on about our third meeting she said 'look I will charge you for the half hour service today but you know you are taking the piss' I was horrified and asked her to explain. What she told me was that to achieve that second pop I was going well beyond the half hour time slot. After that I started booking her for an hour, which to be honest was more relaxed and enjoyable. I would still be seeing her now but like all the best ones she got a full time job and retired from the scene.

Since then I have always gone a for a full hour for my 1 to 1s and it works well for me.

Regards,

davidgood

Well you see this is the problem. So many times guys think they are getting VFM when in fact they are taking the pee a bit. If a girl is still wanking you off or sucking when the half hour clicks as finished then you are automatically going to go over time by default that you have to get dressed. Some guys then even still expect a shower after giving you the side eye for telling them time is up which leads me to suspect that they expect to get extra time and are used to getting it too.

The concept that "you get what you pay for" is often claimed not to be true in this industry and whereas when it comes to quality of experience this is true but when it comes to the time you book it should be true. If someone is pushing their luck with me then they get shut down fast with no option for misunderstanding. They can still have a shower but Im not getting in there with them and they may find Im not even in the bedroom to chat after their shower. If someone is not pushing their luck and trying to fuck up to the very last second deliberately then they are the ones who will still be relaxing on my bed ten minutes later and be able to have a nice leisurely shared shower and a slow chatty dressing time.