In the Little Women: Atlanta episode ‘Not So Little Surprises,’ Tanya has a baby shower/gender reveal party. She told Nico (the father of her babies) that he could come but she really didn’t expect him to show up. (See awkward photo above.) When he does, Tanya’s mother brings Nico outside on the porch and confronts him. She gets in his face, points her finger at him, and says, “You have not been a contributing factor.” He says he has. Party guest Sam says, “You can cut the tension in the room with a knife.”

Tanya goes out on the porch and breaks it up. “I’m done with this right now,” she tells both of them as her mother goes back inside to the party and Nico is left outside. Tanya wonders: “Are we ever going to be able to put our differences behind us for the sake of our kids?” Little Women: Atlanta airs Wednesdays at 9pm on Lifetime.