8 thoughts on “Getting used to be lonely.”

I preface this knowing I have a totally different set of circumstances…but I can tell you I understand. I would never say “it gets better” because I am not sure it ever does. What I do believe is that you learn to live with it. I imagined it something like livin with a bullet you can’t remove. The pain is there and it never really goes away but as scars form and you move you start to live with it an eventually can function – not the same as before, but in a new way.
I wish I had words I wisdom but at least you know you are not alone.

Thanks. As weird as it is, it is actually good to know that other people are struggling with similar things. Not that you want anyone else to be having a hard time but just to know that you can get through it.

I was so afraid of being alone (because it sucks and it’s painful and scary) that I stayed in an emotionally abusive relationship for years.
Leaving is the greatest gift you can give yourself, and no matter the struggles that may come with visitations with his dad, it’s a gift for Lincoln to have two parents who are (eventually) happy apart, then miserable together.
I’m proud of you.