Swiderski posted a sweet Instagram photo of the pair in downtown Chicago last year. “Would make a nice engagement photo,” one commenter wrote.

Swiderski, 36, is best known for winning the heart of Season 5 BacheloretteJillian Harris in 2009. He popped the question on the finale, but the couple called off their engagement when it was revealed that he had cheated with two different women. Harris later left Swiderski’s Chicago hometown and moved back to her old apartment in Vancouver.

“It was the last thing I wanted to do,” Harris exclusively told Us Weekly in September 2010. “It’s terrible to leave because the other person doesn’t know what they want. [We] fought very hard [to save the relationship].” She added: “He’s not a bad guy. He’s just not quite ready to grow up.”