Her 13-month-old son, Max, died a few days after falling into
the swimming pool at his grandfather's house in Upland. Max's liver, kidneys
and heart were transplanted into three Southern California children in need of
new organs.

"It's a tragedy and we lost him. But we didn't, part of him is
still alive," said Bowe-McLeod, 29, who lives in Palmdale. "It was a way for us
to not absolutely have to say good-bye."

One of the children saved by Max, 9-month-old Alexandria CaHoon,
had been slowly dying of a weak heart at Loma Linda University Medical Center
until the March 22 transplant.

Now she's out of the hospital and living with family in
Riverside, cooling her emerging teeth with banana yogurt and babbling on the
phone to relatives.

Alexandria's
mother, Danielle CaHoon, has written to the donor family.

Bowe-McLeod urged more families to think about organ donation,
something she and her husband, Wayne Bowe-McLeod, 29, never talked about until
the tragedy. Last week was National Organ Donor Awareness Week. Loma Linda and
San Bernardino County will celebrate Organ Donor Awareness Day on May 9.

She also urged families to put fences around their swimming
pools.

Max had just learned how to run a couple weeks before the
Saturday morning when he disappeared for a few minutes while his dad was
watching him, his 3-year-old sister and two young cousins, Carolyn Bowe-McLeod
said.

The night before, his family had caught him a couple times
trying to get into the pool, she said. Just before 10 a.m. Saturday, Max took
another run at the pool, fell in and never regained consciousness.

"Max loves swimming, he loved the pool," she said. Her father
has since put up a black, 4-foot-tall mesh fence around the pool, she said. "If
there's going to be children, have a fence. I thought this could never happen
to me."

Max's sister, Jorden, used to pick out his clothes and carry him
around, she said. "She talks about him every single day."

Max's kidneys went to a boy in Los Angeles and his liver went to
a child in Orange County, she said. "They're all doing great."

Miles away in Riverside, the mother of Max's heart recipient
said her daughter has suddenly come alive again.

"She looks like a different kid, you wouldn't even recognize
her," Danielle CaHoon, 21, said about baby Alexandria. "She's eating her toes.
She's screaming when she hurts. She's really doing what a normal child does.
She has the energy to be ornery if she wants to."

CaHoon said she's received support from family members and from
strangers who have donated money to help cover medical costs.

Alexandria's heart had been weakened by a viral infection when
she was 2 months old. Doctors predicted she would die within a year.

Her mother had brought her from Seattle to Loma Linda three
months ago in the hopes that university hospital's resources and reputation
would increase Alexandria's chances of getting a new heart.

The father, Sterling CaHoon, 25, had stayed in Washington to
keep his courier job and the family's life insurance. He flew in for the early
morning transplant operation.

Carolyn Bowe-McLeod said maybe Max's heart donation to
Alexandria was predestined. She said that if Max had been born a girl, they had
picked out the name Brooke Alexandra.

"He did more than most people," she said about Max and his full
first year of life. "We believe he had a bigger mission than what we
comprehend. He saved three people."

Meanwhile, the wait continues for three children still hoping
for heart transplants at Loma Linda University Medical Center: Brenden Currie,
a 9-month-old boy from Vancouver, Canada; Asato Tsuji, a 4-year-old girl from
Japan; and Zackery O'Kessen, a 20-month-old boy from Ramona in San Diego
County.