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Wednesday, 20 July 2016

Grieving Mother Cry Over Her Stillbaby For Fifteen Days

The last
thing Lynsey Bell remembered before she was rushed into theatre was
being given the devastating news that her baby would be stillborn.

Following
a difficult pregnancy, the nursery nurse began haemorrhaging just
minutes after doctors revealed baby Rory would not come into the world
alive.

But,
after plucking up the courage to hold Rory when she awoke from a coma
two days later, Mrs Bell, 32, resolved to make the most of the short
time she had with her little boy

Over the
next 15 days, nurses kept Rory in a cold room so Mrs Bell and her
technical operative husband, Mark, 32, could see him as often as
possible.

The
grieving couple changed his nappy, rocked him in their arms, read him
stories and bathed him to help grow a bond and say goodbye to their baby
boy.

Last
night Mrs Bell, of Newcastle-upon-Tyne, admitted she was 'scared' to
look at her son at first, but eventually realised she owed it to Rory to
nurture him – like she would her other children – before his funeralRory was my son,' she said. 'I needed to care for him, I needed to change his nappy and get to know him.

'I
drank in every perfect little feature of his body. I took photos of his
face, the back of his head and his tiny fingers and toes. I changed his
nappy and rocked him in my arms, and my bond grew and grew.

'For 15 days as I recovered, we saw Rory as much as we wanted.

'My only fear was letting him get too warm. I wanted to preserve my boy for as long as we possibly could.'

Mrs
Bell said that, when it was time for her to be discharged from
hospital, the couple visited Rory in the ward and later at the funeral
home, before taking him home for the first and last time.

She added: 'For one special night, we did everything we would have done during his first year.

'We
cuddled him in bed, we read him stories and we changed and bathed him.
Our families came to say goodbye, each taking a turn for one last
cuddle.'

Mrs
Bell and her factory worker husband already had three children, Daisy,
ten, Max, seven and Poppy, four, when she fell pregnant unexpectedly
with her fourth child in December 2013.

After
developing the potentially fatal condition pre-eclampsia with Poppy,
Mrs Bell knew her pregnancy was likely to be problematic, and she kept a
close eye on her health.

Scans
at 28 and 32 weeks, however, revealed the baby was not growing
properly. As she neared her due date, her blood pressure soared and her
hands and feet became swollen.

Then on
August 1 2014, five weeks before the baby was due, Mrs Bell was struck
down by terrible pains and went to the Royal Victoria Infirmary in
Newcastle, believing she was in labour.

However,
when midwives tried to find the baby's heartbeat, there was nothing
there. Doctors confirmed Mrs Bell's worst fears – that Rory was no
longer alive.

Minutes
later, as she prepared to deliver her son stillborn, however, she began
to haemorrhage and was rushed into theatre. She lost 15 pints of blood
and doctors were forced to perform a hysterectomy to stem the bleeding.

She also
needed dialysis after her kidneys began to fail and spent two days in an
induced coma, before waking up to be told she had almost died.

Doctors later revealed that the pre-eclampsia had caused her placenta to detach from the womb, causing the haemorrhage.

Mrs Bell admitted she was terrified of seeing her son at first.

She
said: 'I didn't know what he was going to look like. I was scared.
[When] I reached out and touched him, he was cold and his cheeks were
hard.'

Rory is buried alongside her grandad and she keeps a candle burning in a glass lantern for him.

Although she and her husband still have bad days, she said she feels lucky to be alive.

She
said: 'People often feel awkward about mentioning Rory's name around
me, but I love talking about my son. He's just as much a part of our
family as our living children.

'I'll never forget my special baby, and for as long as I'm able I'll keep his candle burning.'

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