tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7592940650694664042.post3465514947069873162..comments2017-08-25T16:08:37.746-05:00Comments on Queens of Islam: Want Ads: New Muslim seeks supportive replacement to friendships lost in life transition. Full Time Only Please...Nicole Queenhttps://plus.google.com/110972244336794335447noreply@blogger.comBlogger20125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7592940650694664042.post-87775398440286629142012-08-10T00:46:21.916-05:002012-08-10T00:46:21.916-05:00Alssalamualaikum my sister Nicole:
God softest yo...Alssalamualaikum my sister Nicole: <br />God softest you By the grace of Islam and alhamdulillah about that. Difficulties you encountered Nicole occur to each person who enters in new religion we know you faced many of the difficulties When you entered Islam. Difficult to talk to friends and family about entering a new religion but you are very brave Nicole and god softest you of Marriage from your husband Hassan and have a baby as beautiful as talal . And you publish the Islam to muslims and you learn principles of Islam to the muslims.. really you are great ..Nicole . Prophet Muhammad said (Reached the about me even if aya) Islam is truly the greatest blessing Nicole .. I hope to you and your husband hassan and your beautiful baby talal and your family .. safety and security always from my heart.. Nicole..jazzaky allah khair and Ramadan Mubark inshallahemad mostafahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01934324830082022714noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7592940650694664042.post-9188982419818101042012-06-15T12:51:12.785-05:002012-06-15T12:51:12.785-05:00Masha-allah &lt;3Masha-allah &lt;3Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7592940650694664042.post-41022363183679462112012-03-15T00:54:48.683-05:002012-03-15T00:54:48.683-05:00Assalamualaikum,
MashaAllah i resonate with this ...Assalamualaikum,<br /><br />MashaAllah i resonate with this so much. It doesnt have to be a revert sister to experience this transition. Sometimes making a choice to change your lifestyle or at least your attire from a non-hijabi to a hijabi requires u to assess friendships and ud come to a conclusion on who are worth keeping and who aren&#39;t. Alhamdulillah a few of my friendships from pre-hijab days are still worth keeping. You&#39;d be surprised at how accepting your true friends are about your choice. They are often the friends who would remain supportive of whatever decisions you make that would make you happy. They are the ones who know the real you beyond your partying. I agree that &quot;replacement&quot; friends are important, friends who would walk hand in hand with you in your journey to strengthen your iman. But how about keeping those meaningful friends who&#39;ve known u back in the days, the ones who&#39;d understand you. while at the same time,gaining new friendships with sisters who&#39;d actively seek u out when there are Islamic talks and Islamic events or who you know would be there to assist you in your spiritual pursuits.<br /><br />Wassalam.Unknownhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11142277770177944528noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7592940650694664042.post-67300520608804682882012-02-16T17:57:44.654-06:002012-02-16T17:57:44.654-06:00your such an inspirationyour such an inspirationAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7592940650694664042.post-23030993800816743322011-12-28T16:28:15.116-06:002011-12-28T16:28:15.116-06:00AsSalam Alaikum Nicole,
Wonderful story, I can r...AsSalam Alaikum Nicole, <br /><br />Wonderful story, I can relate to just about everything you said, &quot; FLASHBACKS&quot;. I love your spirit, never lose it. If you need another friend, I am here ( Orlando, FL) OPPS, 1100 miles away. <br /><br />Kimberley <br />(klightbo2000@yahoo.com)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7592940650694664042.post-91292328836127884172011-07-28T05:16:59.738-05:002011-07-28T05:16:59.738-05:00Assalamo alaikum sister Nicole
congragulation
I kn...Assalamo alaikum sister Nicole<br />congragulation<br />I knew about you only today on youtube website, I feel happy &amp; proud of you; a person who looks for truth of our existence and follows strongly the right road .I admire your persistence &amp; perseverance hoping ALLAH to protect you and keep you a good Muslim untill you meet him .azminoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7592940650694664042.post-53145386954840459412011-06-11T01:35:45.435-05:002011-06-11T01:35:45.435-05:00Assalamu alaikum,
I can feel how difficult it must...Assalamu alaikum,<br />I can feel how difficult it must have been for all new Muslims to Islam, especially sisters. My heart goes out for you! May Allah SWT help ease all your trials and difficulties, and make them a source of your strength and the support for your faith.<br /><br />I found this wonderful website/program that especially helps Revert/Convert Sisters find help in times of difficulty in the UK. Wouldn&#39;t it be wonderful if such a project was started here as well! They do have international advice line...<br />http://www.solaceuk.org/Seekernoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7592940650694664042.post-91170759797450732722011-05-10T09:37:25.539-05:002011-05-10T09:37:25.539-05:00Assalamu &#39;alaikum, to the sister who converted...Assalamu &#39;alaikum, to the sister who converted while married to a Christian man, please contact me at 972.812.2230, ext. 1005. This is the Islamic Center of Irving Outreach department, where we assist new Muslims. Thank you.premedhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07142970176158085762noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7592940650694664042.post-37522521507008589052011-05-07T23:05:11.554-05:002011-05-07T23:05:11.554-05:00I would like help from someone. I got married to a...I would like help from someone. I got married to a Christian man because at the time I was christian, but I have recently converted to Islam and have found the most peace and love with Islam. My problem is this my husband doesn&#39;t want to convert as I have done, what shall I do as I want a believing man but I understand we both were Christian going into our marriage and 9 years later I converted. <br /><br />Please help me<br /><br />ThanksAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7592940650694664042.post-48576727386079722112011-04-13T17:16:00.265-05:002011-04-13T17:16:00.265-05:00notice in the last picture that you are the only o...notice in the last picture that you are the only one who is wearing a scarf! and you are the new convert! hopefully you can give insight on wearing hijaab to these young ladies inshallah.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7592940650694664042.post-24674921936923573332011-04-06T19:04:11.924-05:002011-04-06T19:04:11.924-05:00Sister, I am holding a Hijabi Giveaway. I was wond...Sister, I am holding a Hijabi Giveaway. I was wondering if you or any other Muslimah who reads this would like to enter! It&#39;s really simple all you have to do is send me email all the details are on my blog <br />http://muslimahbloggers.blogspot.com/<br /><br />WORLDWIDE ENTRIES<br /><br />jazallah khair RabiaRabia Ashrafhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17953699719660318359noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7592940650694664042.post-87615540277070189672011-03-03T04:00:47.395-06:002011-03-03T04:00:47.395-06:00Assalamu alaikum
Very nice blog Maasha Allah kee...Assalamu alaikum <br /><br />Very nice blog Maasha Allah keep up the good work.<br /><br /><br />Bangalore(INDIA)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7592940650694664042.post-22749590990161207812011-02-22T11:00:22.873-06:002011-02-22T11:00:22.873-06:00Assalamu alaikom Nicole and sisters reading the bl...Assalamu alaikom Nicole and sisters reading the blog/comments, <br /><br />I&#39;m a 6 year old revert to Islam, Alhamdullilah and I had replacement friends where I was living. Then 2 years ago, I met a man who became my husband, moved across the country and started a business. In recent years, all my original replacement friends have spread through the country and I have not yet replaced my replacement friends. And to be honest, I don&#39;t have any new friends here, Muslim or non-Muslim. Sometimes, it gets sad and lonely and other times, I really don&#39;t notice because of my crazy schedule. I miss my friends but I haven&#39;t sought out new friends either because I&#39;ve been so busy trying to get my business off the ground and nurturing my marriage. I&#39;ve felt it wouldn&#39;t be fair to the &quot;new&quot; friends if I wasn&#39;t around to work on the friendships. Insha&#39;Allah I&#39;ll find new (local)replacement friends when the time is right.Kristinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10548665206834577808noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7592940650694664042.post-90813991190649442942011-02-21T16:48:04.727-06:002011-02-21T16:48:04.727-06:00Assalamu alaikum Ukhti Nicole.Jazak Allahu khayran...Assalamu alaikum Ukhti Nicole.Jazak Allahu khayran for this blog and all you contribute to the muslimah&#39;s out there! This was so relative to my experience..:)) nice story.<br /><br /> Noor Al Hayat if any new muslimahs need a new friend friend me on facebook nourhayat161@gmail.com... peaceAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7592940650694664042.post-75260524426047405232011-02-19T17:41:22.592-06:002011-02-19T17:41:22.592-06:00Assalam Wailaikum!
You have a very nice blog. I ...Assalam Wailaikum! <br /><br />You have a very nice blog. I can relate to everything you just wrote in this post. I converted to Islam about a year ago, and I&#39;m still kind of looking for some new friends who share the same interests, goals, and want to live an Islamic life. I met a few women at my &#39;new Muslim&#39; classes, but our schedules are so different that we hardly get to hang out.<br /><br /> The other day some really nice girls (non-muslim) invited me out for margaritas with them. Of course I didn&#39;t go, but I must admit that I kind of wanted to.....just to have some women my age to talk to. They have so much fun together every weekend, and I don&#39;t have that anymore. Until that moment, I never realized how much I missed female companionship. Having consistent friends with similar life-goals and interests is crucial for new Muslims. <br /><br />Also, I watched one of your videos on youtube and it briefly discussed an &#39;Islamic Village&#39; being built in Dallas. What&#39;s the status on that? Do you know what year it might be finished Insha&#39;Allah? <br /><br />Thank your for all that you do for the Islamic community and to help us &#39;new Muslims&#39; not feel so alone!NOORISHhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08069695882766372474noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7592940650694664042.post-40974416302632027512011-02-19T09:57:33.056-06:002011-02-19T09:57:33.056-06:00Asalaamwailaykum, I reverted to Islam 1 month shy ...Asalaamwailaykum, I reverted to Islam 1 month shy of a year ago, and I can relate to everything you are saying. I love this sisterhood in Islam, and am blessed to be a part of such an active masjid here in Florida. I have more friends now than I ever did as a Christian, Alhumdulilah! I must also add that I watched your videos a lot, before reverting, as a part of my &quot;Islamic&quot; research....may ALlah bless and reward YOU!Diamond Girlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04952081097032822255noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7592940650694664042.post-69906402225791489872011-02-19T02:46:29.703-06:002011-02-19T02:46:29.703-06:00NICOLE ur blog nd everything is soo beautiful..MAA...NICOLE ur blog nd everything is soo beautiful..MAASHALLAH..keep it up sister:)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7592940650694664042.post-83659782274013127642011-02-18T23:27:03.498-06:002011-02-18T23:27:03.498-06:00Assalamu alaikom, So nicely put! I reverted to I...Assalamu alaikom, So nicely put! I reverted to Islam 7 yrs ago, Alhamdulilah. Been married that long as well, but I am still seeking those replacement friends. Insha Allah. This article put things in perspective to me and I&#39;m sure it will help many others! Jazak Allah KhairAshleynoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7592940650694664042.post-59480855816835342432011-02-18T08:14:34.775-06:002011-02-18T08:14:34.775-06:00Wow, mashallah sis this is a beautiful story. I lo...Wow, mashallah sis this is a beautiful story. I love the way you expressed the experience of being a convert. It has helped me to understand a little more of what they go through. I have heard this issue talked about so much especially with the opinion that new muslims receive more suppport. I do think there are more nuances to it other than just being ignored and forgotten. I think there needs to be more indepth dialogue of why this often occurs. Friendship is more then just obligation, it should be about connecting on a deeper level as you alluded to. If two people can not find that then friendships can not be strong enough to forge. It is important to have trust, respect, and mutual enjoyment of ones company to open yourself to another person on both sides. I am wondering is it that the high gets blown down because people become disappointing or is it that the high brings with it expectations and maybe entitlements that are not met which then crumbles the original good feelings? I hope that makes sense sister and I would love to know what you think :)Umm sou souhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03753345744137027239noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7592940650694664042.post-21237470797031891382011-02-18T08:12:27.966-06:002011-02-18T08:12:27.966-06:00As salaam alaikum Nicole, such a beautiful blog, r...As salaam alaikum Nicole, such a beautiful blog, really u answered all my questions. i am a Revert Muslim. i sent u mail about the friendship issue i was having, and here i get the answer!! :):):)thank you so much:) Inshallah, i will find my &quot;replacemnt&quot; friends soon :):)Thank you once again for such a wonderful blog :) Jazakallah Khayr :)Ayesha Ambreennoreply@blogger.com