These tweets she received are awful. Women, if you get things like this, the one thing I can say about it that’s positive is that you’re doing feminism right in some way if men who would write this kind of thing attack you. You’re pissing them off because you’re good at what you do.

Thank you for your contribution, Caitlin.

If you, too, have received threats like this or anything else you’d like to submit, here‘s how to submit via e-mail. You can also use the hashtag #youvegotmale on Twitter.

]]>https://wegotmale.wordpress.com/2013/07/29/lets-all-rape-her/feed/4sistertrinityImageHighly Original Man Tells Feminist To Stay Home and Cookhttps://wegotmale.wordpress.com/2013/07/27/highly-original-man-tells-feminist-to-stay-home-and-cook/
https://wegotmale.wordpress.com/2013/07/27/highly-original-man-tells-feminist-to-stay-home-and-cook/#commentsSat, 27 Jul 2013 12:09:00 +0000http://wegotmale.wordpress.com/?p=221This submission comes to you via my dear friend Paloma Sharma, a young feminist writer from India. Follow her on Twitter at @PalomaSharma and check out a sample of her work here: Open Letter To Rape Apologists (content note for horrible violence).

Yeh journalism aap se nahi hoga = You will not be able to do (this) journalism.

If the journalist he is trying to put down is so unimportant and incapable, why is he getting worked up about her? Because misogynists are afraid of intelligent, outspoken women, that’s why. And it is such women who will ensure that men like ‘appleinpie’ have many more sleepless nights, trembling in fear of what is yet to come.

Thank you for your contribution, Paloma. If you too have experienced something like this, we want to hear from you. Here‘s how to submit.

“I blacked out the city / state that were posted with the screenshots because they belonged to me, and the name of my workplace. This individual has been stalking and harassing me for weeks now. Threatening me, saying vile things about me, posting addresses that I’ve lived at along with pictures of houses that I’ve lived at, along with my workplace information, names of my relatives and their addresses.

He’s even gone so far as to insult my daughter (calling her inbred, autistic, saying that she’s the daughter of my father who he knows died in a car accident when I was a teenager, et cetera).”

Thank you for your contribution, Femitheist. This is really awful and we’re sorry you have had to see all this when you go online.

Have you, too, been stalked, harassed, verbally abused, threatened? Here‘s how to submit.

]]>https://wegotmale.wordpress.com/2013/07/27/a-misogynistic-stalker/feed/0sistertrinityImageImageImageImageImageINTERNET MISOGYNY: How Online Patriarchy operateshttps://wegotmale.wordpress.com/2013/07/27/internet-misogyny-how-online-patriarchy-operates/
https://wegotmale.wordpress.com/2013/07/27/internet-misogyny-how-online-patriarchy-operates/#respondSat, 27 Jul 2013 06:54:44 +0000http://wegotmale.wordpress.com/2013/07/27/internet-misogyny-how-online-patriarchy-operates/sisterhoodispowerful: Men define how women should use the internet through a range of complex behaviours. The behaviour includes all-pervasive re-enforcement of sexist stereotypes. Our truths are lost, submerged in twisted, patriarchal tales. The internet had much promise in the golden age of initial exploration. There was potential for gender to be irrelevant.…]]>

Men define how women should use the internet through a range of complex behaviours. The behaviour includes all-pervasive re-enforcement of sexist stereotypes. Our truths are lost, submerged in twisted, patriarchal tales.

The internet had much promise in the golden age of initial exploration. There was potential for gender to be irrelevant. . And yet, sadly, it’s become increasingly obvious to radical feminists that the internet mirrors life. Women are marginalised, misrepresented, and harassed online by men. Isolated, individual women challenge the status quo in numerous ways within particular cyber spaces. As with the real world, men respond by demonizing her.

I’m going to use my own story from an experience of an LGBT, male-dominated, website to illustrate how a woman can be harassed, and scapegoated online. I will call the site “UC”. It’s a good example because there are fewer anti-feminist women cheer-leaders than elsewhere to muddy the waters. Patriarchy…

]]>https://wegotmale.wordpress.com/2013/07/27/internet-misogyny-how-online-patriarchy-operates/feed/0sistertrinityYou’ve Got Search Terms Pt 2https://wegotmale.wordpress.com/2013/07/26/youve-got-search-terms-pt-2/
https://wegotmale.wordpress.com/2013/07/26/youve-got-search-terms-pt-2/#respondFri, 26 Jul 2013 15:34:09 +0000http://wegotmale.wordpress.com/?p=208Here are all the search terms that have led people to this blog since its inception. Make up your own mind whether the world has a massive problem and whether men using porn is a good thing for women.

(Hint: yes, no)

]]>https://wegotmale.wordpress.com/2013/07/26/youve-got-search-terms-pt-2/feed/0sistertrinitysearchesSexist, Lezbophobic and Full O Dirt Hatehttps://wegotmale.wordpress.com/2013/04/28/sexist-lezbophobic-and-full-o-dirt-hate/
https://wegotmale.wordpress.com/2013/04/28/sexist-lezbophobic-and-full-o-dirt-hate/#commentsSun, 28 Apr 2013 20:12:19 +0000http://wegotmale.wordpress.com/?p=190
]]>https://wegotmale.wordpress.com/2013/04/28/sexist-lezbophobic-and-full-o-dirt-hate/feed/3dirtywhiteboiImage 13Sisterhood – A thorn in their misogynist sidehttps://wegotmale.wordpress.com/2013/04/21/sisterhood-a-thorn-in-their-misogynist-side/
https://wegotmale.wordpress.com/2013/04/21/sisterhood-a-thorn-in-their-misogynist-side/#respondSun, 21 Apr 2013 23:16:50 +0000http://wegotmale.wordpress.com/?p=181Our good sister Rusty sent out a tweet of solidarity after MRAs and trans activists tried their best to shut down a radical feminist conference that is to take place in London this summer. This is how much these men hate the fact that we are sisters who support each other with love and solidarity.

You need a really sick mind to even come up with this.

-ST

]]>https://wegotmale.wordpress.com/2013/04/21/sisterhood-a-thorn-in-their-misogynist-side/feed/0sistertrinitySisterhood - A thorn in their misogynist sideLesbian Rape-Porn for Sick Men!https://wegotmale.wordpress.com/2013/04/13/lesbian-rape-porn-for-sick-men/
https://wegotmale.wordpress.com/2013/04/13/lesbian-rape-porn-for-sick-men/#respondSat, 13 Apr 2013 20:12:51 +0000http://wegotmale.wordpress.com/?p=177My blog received this sick fucking search when some fuck from Aruba wanted to jack off to lesbians being raped.

]]>https://wegotmale.wordpress.com/2013/04/13/lesbian-rape-porn-for-sick-men/feed/0dirtywhiteboiImage 1You’ve Got Search Termshttps://wegotmale.wordpress.com/2013/04/08/youve-got-search-terms/
https://wegotmale.wordpress.com/2013/04/08/youve-got-search-terms/#commentsMon, 08 Apr 2013 03:01:42 +0000http://wegotmale.wordpress.com/?p=174Considering the ugly subject matter of this blog, it should come as no surprise that we get very ugly search terms here at You’ve Got Male.

Brace yourselves.

Can you spot a pattern?

Very, very many male individuals all over the world enjoy the idea of raping women and girls, actual footage of women and girls being raped, and actually raping women and girls themselves.

Don’t you agree that we should probably be doing a lot more about this and other pressing problems? Specifically, where are all the men who don’t enjoy rape, fighting this terrible culture with all they have instead of minimizing it, making light and joking about violence against women?

]]>https://wegotmale.wordpress.com/2013/04/08/youve-got-search-terms/feed/1sistertrinityYGMterms1Joanna’s Search Termshttps://wegotmale.wordpress.com/2013/04/08/joannas-search-terms/
https://wegotmale.wordpress.com/2013/04/08/joannas-search-terms/#respondMon, 08 Apr 2013 01:49:55 +0000http://wegotmale.wordpress.com/?p=170Today’s reader submission is from Joanna. She shared some search terms from her blog yourdaughterswillbenext.wordpress.com, which you should check out.

For our non-British speaking readers, ‘fancy dress’ means ‘costumes’, by the way. So someone was looking for some rape victim dress-up fun. Great.

This is what happens when you write things against rape and rape culture. You get plenty of men in favor of those things frequenting your site.

Thank you for your contribution, Joanna.

Do you, too, have to see disgusting search terms on your blog or website? Share them with the world to shine a light on the problem.

We welcome submissions of any length, meaning you can include commentary or even a full blog post about your experiences.

E-mail us at hatemale [at] hushmail dot com, and don’t forget to link to your site!