Give Your Woman Sexual Control

Picture it: your woman is on top of you, slowly moving up and down on your member, driving you crazy with her moisture. The feeling is so intense that you feel like filling her up with your liquids so you grab her, put her on her back and start penetrating her at your tempo until you feel yourself explode. Sound familiar?

If not, then it's likely that your woman always expects you to initiate the foreplay, the lovemaking and the cleanup. Believe it or not, you're probably so accustomed to dominating in the bedroom that you've never even given it a second thought. And even if you give your woman temporary control, in the end, she'll end up on the receiving end of your sexual wrath.

But today, you're going to do things a little differently. Maybe if you let her take creative control in the bedroom, you'll discover things about yourself and her that you never took the time to realize before.

For a lot of guys, a woman taking control not only increases the intensity of their orgasms, but it also makes them feel more desired because she's initiating the lovemaking session. Are you ready?

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Of course, there are some women out there (maybe one is your girlfriend or wife) who are somewhat inhibited and don't express what they want you to do to them or what they want to do to you. As well, there are those women who fear that you might think less of them or assume that they've been about town if they start fulfilling their fantasies.

Discuss your bedroom habits and let her know that she can feel free to do anything with you; after all she is your woman. Ask her about her fantasies; better yet, tell her about yours. And for God's sake, don't mention anything about her best friend, her sister, or butt plugs — at least not right away.

You have to keep in mind that if she's hesitant to take control, it's because she's feeling timid about being dominant, or she might assume that that's not what you want (you might think she's a skeezer). Mention that you fantasize about her coming on to you and ravishing you. Women are good listeners and she won't soon forget your fantasy.