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It’s time to stand up in NY. Gov. Pataki wants to extend the Domestic Relations law and make certain parts that were only temporary into permanant law! What the Police commonly call “you call, we haul”. If your ex or soon to be ex files for an order of protection and before you get that chance to defend yourself she will use it as a weapon. Once she calls the[…]

I’ve been divorced for about three years and my ex-wife is a classic case of an abuser of the court system. How do I defend myself against this? She keeps taking me to court for more child support but my kids are not seeing the benefits. They live in a dump but recently purchased a purebred German Shepherd to add to the seven cats and four birds. Am I paying[…]

Does anyone have any experience with grandparents’ rights in Minnesota? I’ve read the Minnestota Family Code and it does not included very much info. Grandmother of baby refused visitation by mother unless father flies in from Cali. and it’s his visitation period. Lawyers told Grandmother she had no rights. Divorce and custody taking place in Cali. in two months. Any ideas? Thank you.

Being a DAD and in FAMILY COURT, is a high stress situation. Some say that the intensity is higher than going through a death of a close family member… in view of maintaining survival and success: ‘If you ever experience a bout with depression, it is crucial to keep your body well nourished. Poor nutrition is strongly linked to depression and can trigger it or exacerbate depressive symptoms. If you[…]

Any woman can go to the courts/police etc. and they take their statement, and then act. It could mean arrests etc. If the man goes, they get talked out of it. I was harassed, my ex called me one night 22 times in 2 hours. The police talked me out of having her locked up. I bring my daughter home 22 minutes late and because the visitation is attached to[…]

Two years ago my inlaws tried to sue me for custody of my children. They dropped the case. Since then I have moved to New Jersey. They have found me. Now they are suing me for custody again. Next week is my court case. I have an attorney. I just wondered is there any law if they don’t show up in court again, that can stopped them from filing another[…]

Need information on cases that were won by fathers using the constitutional rights act. Can the state ‘TENNESSEE ” Take children from me and place them in a ” Baptist Children’s home without having any proof of abuse ? need this information as soon as I can get it please !

It is terrible that someone died because of the family court system. I am afraid to state this but I think that the only way that real reform will happen is when non custodial parents (unfortunately men mostly) stop committing suicide, stop killing the ex’ etc and turn their attention to the real culprits and that is the family court judges – I think if I were a judge and[…]

Hi all – today i got another idea for adding a cute nic nac type of thing to my 9 yo dd’s room that i re-did earlier this week. I have this bubble bath that is almost used up (I got it from the Salt Lake City discount store after successfully applying for online payday loan in Utah) – it is a clear plastic triangular – tall bottle – i figured i could[…]

Thank you for the links and the links for your club. My brother was arrested for harassment because he yelled at her because of the gambling. All she had to do was to say she feared for her life and she knew the police would get him out of the house and get her some time to plan. His lawyer is trying to get the harassment order overturned but so[…]

Rent for a studio is 1000$ per month. Food gas and electric are another 200$ per month. This does not include transport and basic living needs. Mandatory medical ordered by court is 263$ per month. Taxes are 950$ per month. Court ordered slavery is 520$ per month for child support, another 300$ per month for alimony. Wife is illegal in the country and court ruled that she cant work so[…]

Animal cruelty, domestic violence are often connected, agencies find NEW YORK-One man fried his children’s goldfish. Another broke into his estranged wife’s home and microwaved her kitten. A wife who fled to a battered-women’s shelter received an audiotape from her husband; on it were the howls of her dog being tortured. In all three cases, say the antiphonies familiar with them, family members not the pets were the primary targets.[…]

We do need to band together and fight for what’s rightfully ours. Maybe we need to look at some “women” organizations and see how it is done, I do know that this will be a long battle because us men have been silent for so long and have allowed women to voice their concerns as well as their opinions. I’m going to start writing to my local state representative and[…]

I for one, as a woman, call tell you not all women are out to get men. I am just as much for the men’s movement as any other man in here. Through my husbands paternity case I have seen first hand, the injustices that men, and all non custodial parents, face in Family Court, all the payday loans they need to take to stay on feet. If my husband and I[…]

Hello all just checking in with my son and I am very happy to have replies to my previous posts… I would very much love to try and organise all of us, all 2 million plus of us, and stop the courts from their blind crusade… against us. Many times we are ALL bitter about what they are doing to us, but we all have to realise that politicians lobby[…]