i want to look sexy for my husband

Amber - posted on 12/06/2012
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i got up today and i was thinking it has been along time that i have just looked like a wife and a mother.And that i missed the way my husband use to look at me when we where still dating.Now i know its going to be hard for me to look sexy at 18weeks preganant...i know that my belly has not gotting much bigger then it was be for but i still have the weigth from our frist baby.so im still a little bigger then i should be..I dont really have any thing sexy to wear...All i have is mama cloths..i would love to know how some of you all stay sexy for your husbands..Now i know that there is no point in me looking sex for him couse i cant have sex because im high risk right now...but i think if i look sexy i just might feel that way. im just really sick of looking like a old war out house wife when im only 25 years old. I want him look at me and go wow baby or man your sexy or my fav of his lines can i get that..lol...so what im asking for is there any way that i can look sexy and make myself feel sexy?

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Loraine - posted on 12/09/2012

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Amber I no you dont feel sexy or glamorous at the min & you say you are a little bigger than you were before your 1st child. Just remember, your hubby thought you sexy enough to make another child with you ;)

I think the photo shoot is a great idea.

Try & get yourself a child free day & pamper yourself from top to toe. Hair removal, moisturising etc... You can even set up camera to take pics yourself if you want. ( I couldn't face a photographer) My partners fav pic of me, I'm naked on the bed with a teddie on my belly & a huge cheeky smile on my face saying I know this is naughty but I like it lol I'm not exposed in any way but there is enough bare flesh to no I'm naked & even if i say so myself.... damn i look sexy lmao

Have a great time & enjoy it. It'll give you loads of confidence & you'll feel a million dollars.

I did boudoir pics for my hubby a couple of years ago for Valentines day and he LOVED them. My photographer put them in a really cute black and red album and put low resolutions images on a small key-chain flash drive that dh can keep with him--there is a little risk factor thrill to having naughty pics of me in his pocket.

On a daily basis, just vamp up your usual outfits with a cute scarf, dainty jewelry, and pretty make-up. Some days I will wear my usual jeans and fitted tee shirt, but I'll add a shiny belt, tall black heels, and really do up my eyes (Just be careful--there is a very fine line between "sexy" jeans and heels, and "trashy" jeans and heels. If you do your eyes, do nude or very downplayed lips, if you love your lips, go with a dark color and go easy on the eye-make-up.)

Also, for that little extra weight you have around your belly that is not quite "belly" yet, wear an Infinity scarf (it is a regular scarf, but the ends are sewn together to make a big loop instead of a long strip of fabric). It will add bulk to your top and make your waist look smaller. Once you have the belly, you can pair it with a cute long cardigan and accent the belly too.

Take some pin up or boudoir photos they are fun and the make you look and feel sexy. I took some for my husband five months after having my son and let me say i didn not have the picture perfect body i used to have i had baby weight and post baby weight i had gained before i had gotten pregnant so we can say i was not the pretty 131 flat belly i used to be but..... When he got the pictures on valentines day he was he was in awe not to minchin i made his dreams come true when i took some pics in his favorite football team jersey. These pics can be pricey but you also can find some studios with really great deals. oh and since your pregnant and you decide to do the pictures you should wait untill your belly is a little bigger. i hope this helps you feel better :)

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Ivy Lynn - posted on 12/11/2012

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something else you can try is get some elegant dresses not to fancy but that make you look nice while being comfortable so you feel good and put a little make up on untill you feel sexy to you then go about your day knowing you look good and knowing he notices

while he is at work, put on your favorite music and pretend you are giving him a lap dance until you get good at it then give him the real thing when he gets home... and that little bit of cardio you are getting by dancing will make you FEEL sexy too

thanks....I talked to my hubby about the pics and he said that we can do them at home because i dont want you being all sexy in front of anyone but me....thats he words to the litter.And i do need to make more time for me...so thanks you all again you all hd very good ideas