Want To Pick Up A Barmaid?

Step 7: Have an interesting conversation; talk to her about something other than the bar scene. Ask her what she does in her leisure time. Ask if she has a day job or goes to school. Ask how her boyfriend handles so many men hitting on her (purpose — to find out if she's available). The idea is to show authentic interest in her life, not her body.

Step 8: Dismiss any false buying signals. Remember, she might be flirting with you for a juicier tip. Look for other hints that might illustrate that she's not interested in your money (more on this to follow).

Step 9: Asking for her phone number will lead her to believe that you are like all the others trying to get into her pants. Never ask for her digits; it's a dead giveaway that you're trying to pick her up.

Step 10: After developing a good friendship (usually takes a few weeks), ask what she's doing after work (assuming she has no boyfriend). Then ask if she'd like to go for coffee; if she's tired, ask if she'd like to hang out on a Sunday afternoon. If she says "no," at least you tried and won't have any regrets. If she says "yes," now is the right time to exchange phone numbers.

There you have it: a pretty simple yet effective approach. But before you make a move, make sure that she's actually interested in you , and not what's inside your wallet. You can avoid this by being aware of most barmaids' secret intentions and how they work.

buying signals don't apply

The only way to fully understand this phenomenon is to take a step back and further analyze the situation at hand.

Remember the first rule of approaching women — looking for buying signals (body language and flirting)? Well you can throw all that away in this particular case. In fact, by following this rule, you'll only be leading yourself to an empty wallet.

The first thing to realize is that the barmaid is in a completely different environment. Her job is to attract as many men as possible to both order as many drinks as possible, and tip the highest possible amount. So what can we conclude from this?

they're attracted to everyone

The best way for a barmaid to achieve her objective is to use her body language, beauty and sexual appeal to convince men to be a little nicer — and open their wallets.

When you see that she's flirting and giving you the positive body language, she's in fact giving the buy-a-drink-and-tip-me-well body language. It is important to see this in order to avoid mistakenly thinking that the barmaid is genuinely interested in you.

Most barmaids act in the same flirtatious manner with all their clients — especially the well-paying ones. So if you're getting the VIP treatment, chances are you're paying for it.

What would normally be good buying signals, but don't mean jack when trying to pick up a barmaid?

She remembers your name Of course she does; it's "George Washington"; you're the guy who keeps tipping her with the juicy greenbacks.

She offers you a free drink Most barmaids are allowed to give away a certain amount of drinks per night to the good customers. If you're a big spender, then don't give it much value — you've more than made up for it in repeat purchases.

She smiles at, touches, waves, or even kisses you It's called flirting for a dollar. The better she makes you feel, the more likely you'll tip better.