Artifacts is a term I first encountered while working in the world of museums, galleries, and archives in the early 1980s. Since then the word has epitomized aspects of my life story. Not only do I collect artifacts, I create them, use them, and sometimes recommend them to family, friends, and acquaintances. Try a few on for size.

Friday, September 11, 2009

An Unwanted Journey Day 1389 - "Slip"

As is to be expected with all terminal diseases, Don's condition is deteriorating. Expected but not any easier to comprehend. But what had been a gradual slip is beginning to become a quick slide. Don is now very weak and jaundiced. He has a difficult time focusing and can only speak in whispers. He sleeps for much of the day and conversation tires him quickly. Don is no longer as cognizant of what is going on around him. This is not to say that he is suffering; The pain management at Freeport has been excellent and he is comfortable.

Visitors are still welcome but please adjust your expectations accordingly. Either myself or my brother are checking and moderating comments on the blog and have been passing on your wishes and comments to Don.

Don. Thoughts and prayers are what we the well speak of. Having been at the door which your are about to open I do not know what to say or just smile for the memories. I will raise a glass to you when the time comes for the dignity with which you leaving us. Tears are running down my cheeks as I write this, I am sure if I weep for time lost or for those memories. others with articulate the remember whens in greater detail, I will just remember when, Ken

We have just heard the bad news that my brother, Don has passed away at about 8:30am today. Please know that your comments and affection and support were appreciated. I am sure that Ian or Patrick will post one more blog.

About Me

Although cancer doesn't define my life, it has certainly affected it dramatically. In November 2005, I was diagnosed with rectal cancer and treated throughout 2006. Until recently, there was no evidence of disease after treatment. Now, after unsuccessful attempts at palliative chemotherapy (including Avastin), I have opted for home palliative and hospice care. Quality of life is the goal of my treatment program. My unwanted journey thread will continue to document this significant aspect of my life journey.