Monday, August 06, 2007

Beware

Perez Hilton said somebody told him that Mel's new man is bad news. They say because of him, she's pulled an Usher ain't even speaking to her own mother plus fired her longtime personal assistant. They also say his last name is really Standsbury and not Belafonte and that he changed it so everyone would think he's Harry Belafonte's son. He also reportedly has a very shady past. Mel says she's known him for seven years, but her track record on choosing men has never been that good, so.....

uh oh...here we go again, i hope this time she made the right choice..bc this girl really needs to leave the assholes alone...i swear, in the pic of them kissing, he is trying to break her face(bad sign right there) lol...

I hope she reads this blog, because I agree with everybody's comments, so far. Anybody who pretends to be someone else, especially the child of a celebrity, has some issues. Mel, don't do it. If you must marry this fake-ass man, PLEASE get an iron-clad pre-nup. Afterall, you don't want to share Angel Iris' child support checks with this loser. Just sleep with him; marriage ain't all it's cracked up to be.

Yeah I'm sure Mel is going to change her mind about a man that nobody on a gossip blog know anything about. None of us know Mel nor do we know her man so please stop sounding like a fool.."I hope she reads this" WTF?? HAHAHA

Just did some research no mention of him in the list of Harry Belafonte's children. I definitely do remember reading that he was Harry's son on some blog, but I don't think he is and that is kinda shady that he changed his last name.

Also...He is a "movie producer?" the only truly notable work he has done is "Thank You for Smoking," which was only mildly popular and he co-produced that. Other things he has done are like rap video type things or rap documentaries.

Why are people hating on this brother? He does have a legitimate resume. He may not be Eddie but dang. He nor she ever said he was related to Hary Belafonte. The man was a friend in her time of need. He has proven himself. At least he is a gentleman. Best of luck to them both. Eddie is the bastard who denied his child and their relationshp and is engaged too.

i. When Scary met Eddie...She was coasting into the gas station on the last fumes of her music money.She wasn't broke—not technically—but she'd had to part with a substantial portion of her fortune when she divorced Jimmy Gulzar and she knew her high-income earning days were long past.At the time she met Murphy, no one was even thinking about a Spice Girls reunion tour, so Scary was on the hunt.

Early on it was all good. Problem was, the "relationship" was over before it really had a chance to take off.Scary's positives—her humor, raunchy sex appeal and British accent—were overshadowed by an unfortunate truth: she's as common as dirt: loud, tacky and two steps up from the ghetto. Murphy's kids didn't care for her and after she argued with his mother, Murphy decided Scary was done. No explanation necessary. He simply stopped returning her calls.

Within days he began to hear rumors that she was pregnant with his baby. Rumors that Murphy simply couldn't believe because hadn't Scary assured him she was on birth control pills before the handful of times they'd had sex?So, when a Dutch reporter questioned him about the baby, Eddie snapped. But deep down he knew. He knew that Mel B had played him like a violin, just as Elizabeth Hurley had likewise played billionaire Stephen Bing.

II. Months later DNA test results revealed the truth: Eddie was the father of Mel B's baby and she'd made it clear she had played to win. She stepped up her public relations game by talking to anyone who would listen about how Eddie Murphy had done her wrong; she floated the false rumor that she had decided to name her baby girl Daphne "Fortuna" Bay; and had, incredibly, succeeded in having her labor induced—just minutes after midnight—on Eddie Murphy's birthday.

By now no one could doubt Mel's seriousness about getting paid. While Murphy had never seriously considered the idea of marrying her—let alone fathering her baby—Mel spun their brief relationship into an engagement gone bad. She demeaned him in public statements every opportunity she could and began laying a groundwork of suspicion about Murphy's "lifestyle," in addition to alleging that the size of his manhood was insufficient to meet her needs.

Enter Mr. not-the-son-of-Harry Belafonte, aka Stephen Stansbury. If it's true that like attracts like, then Scary and Stephen are made for each other. Both are street-smart, complicated players with very checkered-pasts. For Mel B, it's a relationship based as much on her wounded pride as anything else. She'd been very publicly dumped by a movie star, and after she proved capable of tricking him into a serious financial obligation, she was branded used and dangerous goods by anyone noteworthy who otherwise might have considered dating her.

III. Ironically, Mel's big Eddie payday comes just at the time her music career seems on the upswing. With a concert tour scheduled for the fall, she may once again find herself with a fat bank account. Even considering that, her wealth is still microscopic when compared to her band-mate Posh, or Eddie, for that matter, but Scary's expanded purse will prove more than adequate to keep Mr. Bela-whomever in the picture, at least for the moment. Remembering how badly she has been burned by California's community property laws in the past, it will be interesting to see how she conducts her business and personal affairs in the future.

As far as Murphy is concerned, it's a closed chapter. When push came to shove he was able to demand that Scary take-or-leave a (hefty) lump sum support payment to bring the matter to a quick close. He has no intention of building a relationship with baby Angel at this time, since that would mean dealing with her mother. But it's probably a safe bet that the public has not yet heard the last of this story, at least from the standpoint of Mel B. Her ways of fighting for what she wants are straight from the gutter and those tactics have served her very well.

Finally, if Murphy can feel grateful for anything in this situation, it's this: when Eddie chose Nicole Mitchell to be his first wife and the mother to his five oldest children, he chose very well. Anyone who thinks Nicole would intentionally embarrass or humiliate Eddie doesn't know the couple at all. They remain friends. At the end of the day, it was Nicole who had the job of agreeing to a very public meeting with Scary Mel in order to clear the air and open the door to settlement negotiations. While some have branded Murphy's behavior as no better than that of a jackass, Eddie probably wishes he were more like his character "Donkey" from the enormously popular "Shrek" movies. After all, asses though they may be, donkeys are sterile.

Anonymous said... Hope SHE made the right choice? Ever thought that maybe Mel B isn't the best woman to settled down with? Always blame the MAN. Maybe she's the ASSHOLE.

5:19 PM -----------------------------------Really. She already has one failed marriage under her belt. Plus she "planned" a child with a man she'd only been dating for two months. She needs to pump her brakes._________________________________

Anonymous said... Yeah I'm sure Mel is going to change her mind about a man that nobody on a gossip blog know anything about. None of us know Mel nor do we know her man so please stop sounding like a fool.."I hope she reads this" WTF?? HAHAHA

6:10 PM ----------------------------------Correction: YOU don't know Mel nor her man. This is cyberspace - you don't know WHO is reading/posting on this blog nor on many other gossip blogs. It is well-known that many celebrities and industry insiders do read and post on gossip blogs and forums anonymously.

as long as she don't get pregnant, who cares. Its soon for anything serious with mel and a man anyway. She needs to focus on fucking with tracys head, show her what happens when you overstep your boundaries.

Correction: YOU don't know Mel nor her man. This is cyberspace - you don't know WHO is reading/posting on this blog nor on many other gossip blogs. It is well-known that many celebrities and industry insiders do read and post on gossip blogs and forums anonymously

Woman should be happy yet you have to be very careful with bringing men around your children. My former neighbor had two children, a son that was about 8 and a daughter that was about 7. Her apartment was a revolving door when it came to men coming in and out. I will tell you no lie, I had to see about 300-350 fellaz go up her crib in a matter of years. If I am gonig in or out my crib I see them and she f**ks while her shortiez are home. I am not feeling that. She was a ho for sho'. I could not get mad at her though because the fellaz do it all the time and get praised for it. I love to have sex yet I am a one d**k chick. Well I love girls so I may surprise my fiance with a three some once in a blue moon.

^^ actually he's from St Kitts, which is a much smaller island, in The Winward Islands.. i know because, my mother's from there, and she also lives near Mel's parents, in Leeds.. ( a whole lot of Kittian people, emigrated 2 Leeds, West Yorkshire)

yo i live in point pleasant nj and grew up w steve i dont know how he wound up anywhere but jail he has no education and was nothing but a liar and cheet always looking to run a scam ...just what he is doing