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Neither of us talk easily about feelings and oh has never said he loves me. We've been together 3yrs and our son is 11weeks old. I'm 35 and oh is 38 so we're not teenagers. Up until lo was born oh was affectionate and loving. This seems to have stopped and he's more matey. I feel like we're flatmates and not a couple. I feel like it wouldn't make any difference if he were here or not as I do 99% of lo's care. I go to him for kisses and cuddles which he tolerates but he doesn't seek anything from me. I get the impression I'm an inconvenience to him. I feel sad and am going to visit family next week for a break. It's my house so I could ask him to move out but he needs to be here as the agreement was that he's taking over primary care of lo when I go back to work in September.

I love oh and my little boy to bits and I just want us to be a happy family not going through the motions. I know the obvious answer is to talk to him but I'm scared of what he'll say. He seems happy pretending all is okay.]]>Sun, 26 Jul 2015 19:47:43 BSThttp://community.babycentre.co.uk/post/a28134247/were_more_like_flatmates#comments_formhttp://community.babycentre.co.uk/post/a28134247/were_more_like_flatmatesim pushing my newly pregnant gf away because im paranoidhttp://community.babycentre.co.uk/post/a28131049/im_pushing_my_newly_pregnant_gf_away_because_im_paranoid
I'm pushing her away although I'm aware of it and I try so hard to forget! I don't know what to do.. I love this girl and she is 11 weeks with our baby... How can I stop her feeling anxious, feeling like a prisoner etc.. I don't want to be an abuser or a bully.. I'm in need of advice....how can I make this woman know I love her and make her feel a million quid again ?
Thanks
The Useless idiot]]>Sun, 26 Jul 2015 02:53:17 BSThttp://community.babycentre.co.uk/post/a28131049/im_pushing_my_newly_pregnant_gf_away_because_im_paranoid#comments_formhttp://community.babycentre.co.uk/post/a28131049/im_pushing_my_newly_pregnant_gf_away_because_im_paranoidBoyfriend lying &amp; many other things! New baby, Need advice!!!http://community.babycentre.co.uk/post/a28108031/boyfriend_lying_many_other_things_new_baby_need_advice
Need some serious advice please :(

Me & my fiancé have got a 6 week old baby boy, couldn't be happier about it. We are currently living with my sister as we are trying to find our own place to live at the moment and my partners work is in his old hometown which is a 40 minute drive away (so this is putting a slight strain on us yet we do manage).

I have major trust issues and huge jealousy problems wen it comes to any partners past, their exs and past sexual partners/encounters. It's something that I find very hard to live with yet I do try my best and am getting help for it.

My partner knew this when we first got together and promised to treat me properly & aaid he would never cheat etc etc.

Throughout our relationship he has lied a lot! Not about anything too huge I suppose. He knows how I feel about his past and so he took all of his exs and past sexual partners off his Facebook.

Now I won't go into what he used to lie about and our past arguments because I've gotten over them now but when our baby was 3 weeks old, he went out for his best friends birthday (best friend had been planning it for weeks so I didn't have a problem with him going) he had to stay at his parents house that night as his best friend lives in his old hometown.

Whilst he was out, I text him for the first time just asking him if he was okay and having a good night.

He didn't reply yet he had time to go online on Facebook. So I decided to log onto his Facebook & I saw he was messaging one of his friends asking for drugs.

I was of course very angry as he used to take them but when he got with me he stopped. Then the next morning I noticed he had added a girl he had slept with before back on his Facebook.

I text him in the morning asking if he had taken drugs and his exact reply was

"Why would you even think that?"

I came clean & asked why he took them and why he added the girl back on fb & his excuse was that he was drunk.

I then found out his best friend had decided to go for a curry and my partner didn't want to so had gone round to a girls house (where the girl he added back on fb was) to chill there until they were done.

We spoke about it and I moved on...we have been arguing none stop recently and we had a few days apart. We sorted out our differences and spent abit of alone time with each other and things started to look better.

Then I saw he had been watching porn whilst I've been in the house and even on our anniversary. I told him it makes me feel like I'm not enough for you etc etc. I wouldn't mind if he was staying at his own house but he's been watching it whilst I've been with him :/

Anyway, a few days ago, he had a dodgy text from a number referring to a dodgy site and he claimed he didn't know what it was. We had a discussion and he said I'll show you my emails to prove I haven't been signing up to dodgy sites.

He showed me one of his emails then when I asked to see his other email he started making up excuses and looked really worried, after forcing him to show me, I saw he had signed up to a site called localmilfselfies whilst baby was 3weeks old. I got very upset and we worked things through again!

Then I logged onto his email to look for myself cos he wouldn't let me look anymore and I saw he has been signing up to these sort of sites since I've been pregnant, i don't understand why as our sex life has always been good apart from after birth (obviously) and on the one he signed up to recently, it asked what he was looking for and he chose the 'sex' option.

He doesn't know I had a look myself, and I've also seen images on his phone he's downloaded of very naked women. Again I don't mind him having pictures of women on his phone but I do mind when it's very close up of their private parts! Sorry for tmi lol!

I just really need some advice, now that this has all happened I can't trust him in the slightest and I think about going on his phone, Facebook bs email constantly! And I was never like it before.. I always tried respecting his privacy.

Sorry for long post l, thank you in advance for any comments :)]]>Tue, 21 Jul 2015 13:37:29 BSThttp://community.babycentre.co.uk/post/a28108031/boyfriend_lying_many_other_things_new_baby_need_advice#comments_formhttp://community.babycentre.co.uk/post/a28108031/boyfriend_lying_many_other_things_new_baby_need_adviceCan't cope with it allhttp://community.babycentre.co.uk/post/a28099059/cant_cope_with_it_all
When I was pregnant with my second child, my older child found my boyfriend's payslip and when I looked at it, there were child maintenance payments deducted.

When I asked him what's all this is about, he admitted he has a daughter who was born 4 months after we got together, but he didn't find out about it until later when we were together for about 9 months. Apparently his ex just put his name on the birth certificate without him knowing.

Well, when I found out I was so stressed I was hospitalised on and off throughout my second pregnancy. He said he'll sort it out, but it's been over a year and he's done nothing about it. Not even a DNA test to be sure the child is his.

We've been 10 years together and I feel like I can't trust him anymore. It's hard to believe he's been keeping something like this a secret.

Any suggestions, advice, much appreciated.]]>Sun, 19 Jul 2015 20:10:17 BSThttp://community.babycentre.co.uk/post/a28099059/cant_cope_with_it_all#comments_formhttp://community.babycentre.co.uk/post/a28099059/cant_cope_with_it_allnew bf and shock pregnancyhttp://community.babycentre.co.uk/post/a28087159/new_bf_and_shock_pregnancy
not sure i want this baby.

would never terminate or do anything bad for baby, but i just dont feel ready for number 2 so soon!