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probably because, most women would rather suck and (rhyming word) then to get a cramp in their hand jerking it for 30mins....Even though it feels great when you get that lucky one that knows exactly how to do it.

I have never gotten a good handy. Infact many times its painful, but just like too much teeth in oral, you really dont care at the time, you're glad you're being done the favor. Many times my****has had this swollen puffyness and numbness after particularly vigorous handy's.

You would think a woman's soft dainty hand would be better at that, eh?

- Keep the stroking fast and steady.- Keep it wet.- Some ball play with the nonstroking hand when it's not working along with the stroking hand is a good thing.- Work the head but don't overdo it and realize we get sensitive in that area after orgasm.

It's something we can already do better ourselves! so leave us to it, most other things are much better with 'you' in the picture--, oral, vaginal, anal and more.

and remember if your hand or forearm gets cramped while doing it remember that's God's way of telling you:

"You have a mouth, use it!"

most women when giving an HJ with a bored stroking motion, sound like this: " does it feel good?, are you gonna cum yet? are you gonna cum yet? are you gonna cum yet? are you gonna cum yet? does it feel good?, are you gonna cum yet? "

OutofControlMan on 2/18/2012 211 PMSubject: decent hand jobMessage: ^ are you saying you would ever prefer an HJ to a BJ or intercourse?

OoCM,

I like to mix it up a bit, some intercourse here, a blowjob there, a handjob at other times, sometimes only one on any given occasion, other times mixing 2 or more together during a "session", but if I had to choose only one of the three, yes I prefer a blowjob ending with a messy facial over sexual intercourse any day of the week.

I don't have much if any occasion to jack off when in a sexual relationship but if I do, (usually during those rare times in my life when I'm single or she's not around for a few days), it's usually to a DVD or internet porn, almost always a video of a woman sucking a d-ck and getting her face pasted. I always mentally place myself in the video so it's me getting my d-ck sucked and me giving her the pasting, I try to time it along with the movie, sometimes having my astroglide sticky hand on the remote or the computer mouse which can sometimes result in technical difficulties.

I understand this is a very subjective thing and your mileage may vary.

ITWYLD were you talking to me? because a clit and MY penis are two very different things, namely i have access to all nerve ending information coming from it... which is PROBABLY why YOU can get YOUR self off so quick.

Now if you can get ANOTHER woman off in 30 seconds, bravo. But don't act like men are ignorant slobs because we can get ourselves off much faster than you can too. it's just not as much fun.

I like to mix it up a bit, some intercourse here, a blowjob there, a handjob at other times, sometimes only one on any given occasion, other times mixing 2 or more together during a "session", but if I had to choose only one of the three, yes I prefer a blowjob ending with a messy facial over sexual intercourse any day of the week

got you, I figure I already have a hand (2 actually) . I don't have a vagina, I don't have a mouth capable of taking my unit into it (nor would I want to).

on the rare occasion I want hand I'll do it myself, I love vaginal or oral with a woman

really, it is not just hand jobs, it is everything!!BJ'ssex in general, women have really changed, they are not very good at anything, nor do they care, except of course laying backI blame it on the times....,and the fact that at my age all the great women are still marriedthe reverse could be true for the women!!

really, it is not just hand jobs, it is everything!!BJ'ssex in general, women have really changed, they are not very good at anything, nor do they care, except of course laying backI blame it on the times....,and the fact that at my age all the great women are still marriedthe reverse could be true for the women!!

1, pretend you are the boston strangler - yes get worked up and nasty2 now get a strong grip of his schlong3 imagine that holding on to his schlong is the only thing keeping you from freefalling into a pit of hungry alligators and republicans.4. maintain the squeeze now jerk him like there is no tomorrow

Watch Charlotte Gainsbourg in Antichrist she has such a great technique - Willem Dafoe ejaculates while unconscious

I guess it's important to some men, but not me...I prefer to do the touching and take control. Of course I was born with "Hank" and know exactly what to do...I don't expect a woman with limited access to him to be able to do what my left hand can do. The same goes for a man touching a woman, but I have to say that talking me through it and allowing me time to practice is incredibly erotic!

Probably because she is not sure what feels best for you. I once had a woman take hold of my penis and put my hand over hers. Then she asked me to move her hand with my hand, the way it felt best for me or the way I would do it myself. She learned quickly. This was actually pretty enjoyable.I ruined the mood though. She fell asleep with my****in her hand and I used it to jerk myself off. She got angry, when she woke up and found that I had made a mess all over her hand.