Still don't understand how his song was so consistently ahead of Get Lucky. Same singer, same general idea, and Get Lucky was better IMHO. But every week it ended up on top of Get Lucky. Crazy if you ask me.

Getting old is a mixed blessing. Yeah, the body changes and you have to put more effort into staying fit and feeling good. The upside though is in the mind: I'm way smarter now than I was 20 years ago, and to jso2897's point, less distracted by minutiae. For example, I'm a much better guitar player than I was 20 years ago. I just approach the instrument differently, with more focus and less urgency.

H31N0US:Getting old is a mixed blessing. Yeah, the body changes and you have to put more effort into staying fit and feeling good. The upside though is in the mind: I'm way smarter now than I was 20 years ago, and to jso2897's point, less distracted by minutiae. For example, I'm a much better guitar player than I was 20 years ago. I just approach the instrument differently, with more focus and less urgency.

I'm not saying I like the song, but the author of this article seems to think that single men in their 40s are under some sort of moral obligation to either meet a nice gal at church or else sit home and commiserate with each other on the internet. Calling hanging out in bars "lurking" implies that there's anything else you can really do in a bar. Some nightclubs attract women in their 30s (and even 40s sometimes!) and middle aged people have the right to go out and take part in society and try to meet someone too.