Would you like to become a better submissive? In this episode I talk about four foundational ways you can improve in your submission, including: respect, acts of true service, obedience and gifts. I’ll also talk about a few things to avoid. Help yourself stand...

In this episode I answer some audience questions about: what is my perspective on gender play, how can someone get involved in their local BDSM scene, how to introduce D/s (Dominance/submission) dynamics into a long-term relationship and a brief intro on how to be an...

Strap-ons are a popular topic and activity, but some people may be unfamiliar with them (and unfortunately, some people have a stigma about using them). In this episode I introduce strap-on play – what is it, how do you do it, what do you need to do it –...

The topic of foot fetish is more popular than many people realize. I’m a foot fetish Top, which means I enjoy having my feet worshiped by my submissives and play partners. Why do I enjoy it? Here are my top 10 reasons for why I’m a foot fetish Top. Listen...

Chastity training is one of my favorite kinky topics. On today’s podcast episode, I talk about why I love putting my submissives into chastity. You might be surprised at some of my reasons! Listen to this episode here on iTunes. I also have an exciting...

This is from my current newsletter. If you’d like to be on my mailing list, sign up here. Hello my kinky lovelies! How are you? I hope this note finds you well and enjoying the new season upon us. Can you feel the first whispers of autumn in the air? I definitely can....

10 steps on how to explore feminization and discover what you truly enjoy. In this podcast episode I focus on genuine femme exploration (not fetish). I am welcoming and affirming of people who are crossdressers, LGBTQ+ and/or questioning their identity. Listen to this...

How do you manage stress when it seems that everything around you is falling apart? It can be easy to shut off all your feelings and stay in your head. This episode is a reminder that you have a beautiful resource within you: your unique sensuality. Let’s...

Podcast episode: Many people have a misunderstanding about BDSM and assume it’s just whips, chains and heartlessness (or worse, get their information from mainstream media). They might also mistakenly assume all Dominants work the exactly same. Let me guide you...

This is from my current newsletter. If you’d like to be on my mailing list, sign up here. Hello my fellow kinkster, Since this is my first newsletter, I should probably reintroduce myself to you. My name is Zahvia and I am a BDSM Dominant. If you subscribed a...