My Fantasy Came True

How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Martha was a buxom white Australian whom I met at a convention in Singapore. It was the first time we ever met. I was very attracted to her as I had always fantasised about having sex with a white buxom lady. She too seemed to respond when we first met each other over lunch.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? Later that day I met her at the hotel bar where we were staying. I joined her at the bar and we got talking. After a few drinks we had dinner together. She shared he woes in life. A husband who had abandoned her for another woman after 6 children. I felt sorry for her and listened to hear very attentively. During dinner I reached out across the table and held her hand to comfort her.

Since we were in the same hotel she suggested that I join me for a cup of coffee in her room to continue the conversation.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? In her room we made ourselves coffee and continued to chat. The more I listened to her the more I felt the need to comfort her. It started with my putting an arm around her to hug her. That triggered it off.

Soon we were kissing each other passionately. I slipped a hand into her blouse while kissing her. I could feel her nipples grow in my fingers as I squeezed her breast and caressed and pulled at her nipple.

We undressed each other in a hurry.

She was a big built lady. She was about 5feet 6 inches tall. She had huge breasts, big ass, thick thighs, a very hairy pussy. Very pretty face and eyes. Because of her size she probably considered herself sexually unattractive.

She wanted me to make love to her and asked me to fuck her as soon as we were undressed.

I resisted that and started a long foreplay session. Kissing her all over. Sucking her breasts. Kissing her navel. Going down on her pussy and kissing and licking her clit. That really got her going and she came in my face. Her juices bathing my face.

Later I finger fucked her and stroked her clitoris. This made her cum on and on. Her juices had wet the sheets.

I then asked her for oral sex. She was awesome and sucked my cock hungrily.

Later I got on her and fucked her slow and deep. I could feel her climax a few times as her pussy muscles gripped my hard cock. Eventually I climaxed deep inside her.

Later that night we made love again.

The next day we both caught our flights back home.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? She fulfilled a fantasy I had which was to make love to a buxom white lady. I felt wonderful the next day. Was sad to see her go knowing that I would never meet here again. I always have a special place in my heart for Martha.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Learning new things, experimenting, Thought it was an important experience to have, I was feeling lonely, Making new friends, Just happened, I don’t know why, just went along with it

How intoxicated were you? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it

What substances did you consume? Alcohol

How intoxicated was your partner? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? None

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? I lived a life long fantasy.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Nothing.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Yes. Especially when she told me that I was a caring lover who satisfied her needs. She told me she had never had so many orgasms in a night.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? Society has strong norms against casual sex that are outdated.

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Its a wonderful project to bring out what I think is pretty common.