Episode #609 — June 26, 2018

A woman's boss did something so nasty that she successfully prosecuted him and got him on the sex offender registry. But how can she get a new job with such an uncomfortable story to tell about her last one? Dan brings on Rob Walker, a.k.a. The Workologist from the New York Times to strategize.
A skinny, insecure gay dude likes big muscle men. But he can't understand why they like him.
On the Magnum, Dan interviews sociologist Eran Shor about his work analyzing pornography and whether it is getting more and more violent.
And, a caller asks Dan to write his wedding speech. Dan has a better idea.

Episode #581 — December 12, 2017

The kinksters have their "aftercare"- time after a rough sexual encounter to reconnect and comfort each other. But what about after casual vanilla sex? A woman wants to instigate an aftercare revolution for all.
Dan gently, patiently explains away some men's rights nonsense to a man incensed at at a fictional "double standard."
On the Magnum, a woman who tends to choose abusive men wonders how she can prevent herself from making this mistake over and over again. Dan brings on Lynn Fairweather, domestic violence consultant, speaker, and author of "Stop Signs: Recognizing, Avoiding, and Escaping Abusive Relationships" to help pick this lock.
A caller used to be a terrible person with terrible friends. How can she start over?
It starts by calling 206-302-2064

Episode #539 — February 21, 2017

A gay man has had small breasts ever since he was a kid. His lovers aren't so into it. He doesn't want to get them removed because he feels they are a part of him. How should he explain his extra bells and whistles?
A woman getting into bondage wonders how to communicate a safe word when she has a gag in her mouth. Mmrrrmmff!
On the Magnum, Dan chats with a professional dominatrix about the hazards of doing sex work and raising children in a conservative country.
And in an unsurprising but satisfying intro, Milo gets his ass handed to him.

Episode #504 — June 21, 2016

A tortured gay man can’t envision a world where it’s better to be out than to stay in the closet. Dan tries his darnedest to convince him. Hey fellow homos: call us and pitch in, won’t you?
A woman catches her boyfriend signing up for a hook-up app. What does this mean?
On the Magnum, Dan chats with the Queen of Ireland, a.k.a Panti Bliss- the drag queen who took on Irish homophobes and won big. A true hero who looks fabulous in heels.
And, hear the wisdom of a Trump supporter!
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Episode #487 — February 23, 2016

A mature 18 year-old has somehow failed to tell her real age to her new boyfriend who thinks she’s at least 20. How can she come clean?
A man is totally into being cuckolded. Does his girlfriend have to tell her other lovers that they are part of a bigger picture?
We are honored to welcome Dr. Sara Pentlicky from Planned Parenthood to help answer a plethora of medical and reproductive questions. Herpes! HPV! Birth control for transmen! We’ve got you covered.
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Episode #476 — December 8, 2015

It’s the One-Minute Wonder Show! You asked your questions in one minute or less, and Dan tried to keep his answers brief, with diminishing success.
Here’s a smattering of topics: The dangers of road head, olive oil as lube, haggling with your sex worker, tingly come, excluding dog-fuckers from your orgy and so much more. Also, Nancy gets riled up!
On the Magnum, the long-suffering Dr. Barak gently explains that no, men cannot get bacterial vaginosis, and answers a requisite question about pee.
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Episode #474 — November 24, 2015

As you gather around the Thanksgiving table to bask in the warmth and glow of your loved ones, here are some reasons you might feel thankful: Your sister’s boyfriend isn’t beating her up, your wife isn’t a transphobic Russian, your boyfriend’s father doesn’t beat him up, your mother isn’t a toxic evil mess and your step-father (who is also your boss,) doesn’t kick your dog.
If any of these things are true for you, well then this show will offer company for your misery. It’s the Families Show!
Also, the preternaturally delightful Ken Jennings, 74-time winner of Jeopardy!, for heaven’s sake, explains how he can reconcile his big, big brain with his Mormon faith.
And, on the Magnum, Dan breaks some disturbing news to his big brother Billy.
Listen in, won’t you?
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Episode #463 — September 8, 2015

It’s the “Let’s Decriminalize Sex Work” episode! Dan chats with Vox writer German Lopez on the evidence which shows the benefits of legalizing sex work. (Like duh…)
And on on the Magnum, Dan chats with adult film actor Dirk Caber about the real effects of the federal raid on Rentboy.com.
Also, you’ve heard what Dan thinks about the Republican field, but what does he think about the Dems?
And, how would you deal with a roommate who shows up in your room wearing nothing but a lecherous smile?
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Episode #444 — April 28, 2015

A priest and a rabbi come onto a podcast…
This week Dan welcomes the retired gay Episcopal Bishop of New Hampshire, Gene Robinson, as well as a Rabbi Jeremy Gerber to tackle some thorny religion/sex issues.
How should straight men act at gay pride parades?
Are facials inherently misogynist?
A woman has just discovered that her husband had an affair. But when they finished fighting about it, the sex was hotter than ever!
A married man notices that when he and his wife fight, she tends to withhold sex. Is this a strategy, and how can he make it stop?
And a ton more.
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Episode #410 — September 2, 2014

What do you do when your potential new roommate comes with his very own stalker?
Dan chats with Dr. Vy Chu about the real risks of sleeping with honest, HIV pos guys.
On the Magnum, we are delighted to bring back fashion force-of-nature Simon Doonan, to discuss the feminist implications of camel toes.
And a ton more.