12 Prime Hangouts to Faithfully Run Into a Single African MILF

Have you been having a bit of trouble finding the best places to meet a single African MILF? Interested in dating one? If so, read on. We have been in the same situation as you and found a number of great places for meeting these lovely women.

It can be tough to find them without the right guidance but it is absolutely worth the effort. Give these spots a try and see what we mean.

Where We Have Met an African MILF

Give these places a shot:

African MILFs love a Trendy African Boutique

Older African women love to shop just as much as younger women. These older African women can often be found purchasing traditional African clothing, like dhuku, kanga, and dashiki. Go to an African boutique and consider picking up a gift for your mom or sister while you’re there. This gives you an excuse to browse, and it also makes you look generous and thoughtful.

Luckily, you’ll meet an attractive African woman. Go up to her and strike up a conversation by asking her opinion on a gift you want to purchase. Whatever you do, don’t plant yourself outside the women’s dressing room. This will make you look desperate and creepy, which is never a good idea.

No list would be complete without talking about the best site for meeting a MILF online (which you can try for free here). If you have not been having the results you would like it is time to mix up your approach. If you don’t, how can you expect to get different results?

The busy older women we are after don’t have much free time to spend in the usual bars or other meeting places. As a result, they need to be smarter with their time and that means dating online. A lot of them have given up on looking for guys in their day-to-day lives completely and are ONLY looking online.

In our experience, Cougar Life has been the best site to meet single older women, especially those open to dating younger men. Give their free trial a shot and see just how many single MILFs are in your area.

We have had a lot of great success dating online and every year we test and review all the top sites for dating a MILF. We take all of our findings and put together a complete review of all the top MILF dating sites. As you can see, Cougar Life has been the best for a while.

Other dating sites, you have to weed out the older women who may not be interested in younger men. But on Cougarlife.com, the women come there with the intent of meeting someone like you. Many older African women are dating online almost exclusively now. If you aren’t online, you’re missing out.

An African Grocery Store

Try a popular ethnic grocery store owned by Africans. These stores undoubtedly attract African women, which will increase your chances of meeting one you like. When you get to that grocery and find a cute woman searching for ingredients to make an African stew, don’t be shy to start a conversation with her.

Grocery stores are casual public places, so people are usually at ease in them. Ask her to help you pick out some plantains or yams, or whatever delicious-looking items you see nearby. Or maybe comment on something she has selected for her shopping cart.

Neighborhood Sporting Events

If you’re looking to meet a lovely African woman, consider going to a popular African sporting event, such as a cricket match, basketball game or football game. At such an event you’re likely to spot many potential love interests. Pick a sport you’re interested in, that way you’ll have something fun to chat her up with.

Ask her opinion on a local pro team in your area, or give her your opinion on one. Because sporting events are so informal, you could go right up and sit next to her as you discuss the game.

An African Hair Salon is a great place to meet an African MILF

Middle-age African women love to go to the hair salon. In fact, many won’t go an entire month without getting their gray hairs colored. Opt for an ethnic salon that handles both male and female customers. This way, you can get a haircut and shave while scoping out other patrons.

It’s tough to talk to someone while they’re sitting under a hair dryer, but if you wait around a minute until after she’s done, you will get the chance to admire her press and style or tell her how pretty her Bantu knots look.

A Book Club

Many African women join book clubs. Check with your local libraries for the dates and times of any book clubs that meet there. Community message boards are also good spots to go to for postings about book club meetings.

Joining a book club will not only increase your chances of meeting an intelligent African woman, but it will also allow you to read some intriguing books. You’ll be in a win-win situation, particularly if you’re interested in African authors like Achebe, Coetzee or Adichie.

A Local Park

Ty to find a park with a popular walking trail. Put on your sneakers and carry along your earbuds and music player. Many older African women can be found in parks, especially on walking trails in the afternoons or evenings. Some early risers wake with the sun and go for their walks first thing in the morning. Fall into step with a lovely African MILF and start a casual conversation. You don’t have to say anything profound during this first encounter. Just be attentive and listen to what she has to say. If she seems interested, ask if you can take weekly walks together in the park.

An African Library or Bookstore

Libraries and bookstores are perfect places to meet someone. You don’t have to pay an admissions fee or really do much of anything. Just go to your local library or bookstore, sit down at a table near the entrance, and watch the women who come in. Also, many African women work as librarians and bookstore cashiers, so you could possibly strike up a conversation with a woman who works there.

Once you find an African MILF you fancy, go up to her and ask about that book she’s examining. Smart women love to talk about their favorite books, and maybe you’ll learn something from her in the process. Offer to share a table with her or to have a coffee chat.

This is a casual way of getting to know her better without having an awkward first date. You’ll be in a public place where she feels comfortable, and you’ll chat about her favorite books.

A Local Gym

Many middle-age African women join gyms to get in shape or tone up. Go to your local gym and offer to partner up with one. Maybe you could alternate sets on the stair machine or encourage each other while you workout. Some women are even open to having regular workout buddies.

Once you go to the gym and find a woman you like, suggest that you work together a few times per week. This would allow you to get to know her over time. Meeting up with her each week at the gym would also help you meet your own fitness goals.

Beauty Supply Stores

One thing many African women have in common is their love of trying new hairstyles. Often, you can find them in beauty supply stores. In stores such as these, you will usually find more than one African MILF roaming the aisles at once. These women are in search of creams and powders or other beauty items.

They might have their hair done in a series of intricate braids, or they may have a pretty, flat-ironed hairstyle. Tell her how much you like her hair and ask if she can recommend a barber in the area. Don’t worry. These shops also sell hair care products for men. You’ll find shampoos, razors, combs, cologne and antiperspirants for yourself, too.

Local African Festivals

Does your city or town have an annual music concert or harvest festival? If so, be sure to attend the next one. This will be a very public event in which you can meet all sorts of people, both young and old. This is also the sort of event people attend to learn about Africa-themed art and history.

If that cute African MILF is standing with a group of other middle-aged African women, she may be single. The atmosphere will also be conducive to meeting people. This is because it’s a social event; you’re supposed to laugh and meet people and enjoy yourself.

Word-of-Mouth

Ok. This one is not a concrete or specific place. But think about it: people meet other people based on their peer groups. Ask your friend about that African MILF who is recently divorced and searching for romance. Or, ask about that African who just moved into your neighborhood and lives alone. Is she dating anyone? Is she open to dating a younger man?

If your friend or co-worker knows this beautiful African MILF, ask him or her to put in a good word for you. This will spare you the embarrassment of going up to her doorstep and getting rejected or learning that she’s already engaged. If your friend gives you a good report about her, then ask him to set up a casual meeting between the two of you.

The key to meeting a beautiful and intelligent African MILF is to try many options and not give up. If you go to an African boutique or grocery store and don’t see anyone you’re interested in, try an African festival or beauty supply store. You may not find what you’re looking for every time, but if you keep trying these options, you’re bound to find at least one suitable African MILF. Don’t get discouraged. Keep going until you find the woman you want.

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About The Author

Kristin Wang is a regular contributing author to BeyondAges.com. After spending many years dating both younger and older men Kristin loves helping couples find dating success. Kristin has found a lot of success meeting younger men online and sharing her insights with others is something she loves.