Question 22: Sarah's got a crush problem

Friends like to share lots of things but they don't like sharing crushes very much. Check out Sarah's question.

Dear PLS,My friend is convinced I like her crush, but I don't. She won't believe me + my other friend is getting her period soon and she's worried. What do I say?Sarah, 10

Sarah has two questions here, but let's take on the first one. It sounds to me like you've already told your friend you're not crushing on her crush. Keep acting normal and try to move on. If you do like the same guy, that's OK. It happens. But maybe it's best to keep it a quiet crush. In time, you and your friend may move on and have a different crush.

Any other advice about friends and crushes? Have you ever liked your friend's crush?

I have the same problem, except I like both of my friend's crushes! She- or anyone else doesn't know! So ya I'm using Angel Cake's method! ( My friend is the type who would get mad over that sort of stuff- especially if she knew I liked both of them!)LOL

I sure hope you girls read these comments because I need help advice anything! I sort of have a crush on a guy im friends with but he acts like a guy around me so how do I know how he feels about me? Everytime I bring around the subject of crushes he gets a little shy.

Well, just remember that it is completely normal to like a boy who is your friend. But has he ever kept eye contact with you for a little longer than anyone else would? Has he tried showing off to you? Those are some signs that he DOES like you. Also maybe one reason why he gets all shy when you bring up the subject is a sign because if you two are good friends, he might be more open aboutit to you, so maybe he has a crush on you and does'nt want you to know so he gets shy. Just keep being a good friend and if your feeling really brave, you could try getting a friend to ask him for you. Good luck! :)

I really like my friend's crush, but he likes her. I feel really crushed when I see them together and I feel like dirt. She doesn't know that I like him though. But I have never had a guy crush on me ( where she had tons crush on her)so I'm really unconfident and have low self esteem. I'm always jealous of this friend and I don't know how to stop! Help! :(

Don't feel bad :D. I've had the same thing happen to me, and I just decided to let it go. I know it's hard, and will take a while, but you have to try. Your other option is to tell your friend you like him and apologize to her and ask what she thinks you should do. Warning: She may get a little angry, but if she helps you, she's a good friend, and if she doesn't and hates you, she is not a worthy friend. A good friend would understand. ;) Good Luck!

Just a few days ago i invited my friend up to stay at my house for a while the first day she came up she KISSED my crush!!! I was so upset and i had to pretend nothing was wrong. The worst thing was she knew i liked him :( My advice wait untill she gets over him or your friendship could be in trouble.....

2. If your friend is starting her period then tell her to let her mom know and she will provide her with the right equipment. If she is still scared of it, tell her not to worry as lots of girls are afraid of starting there periods, and just keep reasuring her!

for your 1st problem,relax this might blow over.if not,tell them that if they can not believe what you say,then ask why.if this still does not work,talk to the school guidence conseler.they will know what to do

Don't make this a big problem, this happened to me is 2010 with my friend, as her crush kept asking me to play basketball. I did and he developed a crush on me. I then decided to ask my friend if she wanted to join us, she did, then she decided I liked him aswell, every time she brought up the subject, I told her he was only my friend and that I wouldn't steal him off her, so she could become his girlfriend. After a while, he wasn't my friend and we had a big fight. Afterwards, my friend told me she was happy I told her the truth. Good Luck, don't worry if it takes a while, this took me 6 months!You'll do it!Chloe

i was on on messenger and i was talking to my friend and she had a friend over and her friend said that i was boring! It really hurt my feelings! All my other friends and family think that im funny and fun! :( what should i do?

@holly266 u shouldnt worry bout her opinon. i need help i like jack (my guy friend) lea likes jack (my friend siince i was 4) jack like ea alo but he likes me 2. oh and this random kid colllin likes lea. what do i do

I have the same problum exept different. my friend that is 2 years younger then me has the same crush that I do but the guy we're both crushing on is my age. she thinks she's his girl friend because he thinks she's like 5 or something and he dosn't care she likes him. what do I do???

i really dunno if i like someone or not...sound crazy...u c the post about jack and lea...im not sure if i really like jack or not...hes my best friend from pre-skool. we didnt c each other after we went to all girl/boys skools. but our moms hav been trying 2 get us 2gether since we were little. now is the time 2 say something bcuz cottilion is coming up and i dunno if i should ask jack 2 dance. if i do will he b freaked out. wouldnt u if ur best bud asked u 2 dance. i cant ask my friends 4 advise bcuz were a group of 20-ish girls...in other words gossip travels. i cant ask my mom...i tried 2 and jack's mom and my mom started txting and giggling like they were 5. HELP!!!!!!!!!!!

i am having a crush problem right now. it seems as if everyone in the school likes the guy i like. im complelely invisible to him exept when he sais hi,hey or why did you have to do that! and im kinda worried that he might like one of the popular girls that like him. im sorta just some rock that gits in the way.

Believe me I know how you feel. If you ask him to the dance (which I think you should... go for it!) then maybe he will say yes! And if he says no... atleast you've gotten that settled. As for your mom, tell her the texting hurt your feelings.

i know it is hard but try to egnore the guy ur friend thinks u like and if u do then whatever egnore ur friend.then if she dont belive you dont be her friend what type of a friend says that??hope this helped

first of all just tell ur friend tht u would like a guy who has ( qualities) and her crush doesent have it so he is not ur type. second is maybe u should surf the web find tips abt a first period and then advice ur friend on it! its simple and dont forget chill!!

It happens. If you dont like your friends crush and she thinks you do tell her why doesnt she believe what your saying. Also tell your friend that she shouldnt worry about her period becuz it going to happen to every girl at some point in their life. Hope you take my advice!

I had a crush on the same boy as my best friend. Fortunately, she was so nice and understanding about it. Since you don't like the same person, tell her that. Be honest and serious. And why would it matter if you did? You can work this out. If it really bothers you that she doesn't believe you, tell her that! It really helps to be honest.

If you have had your period reassure your friend and give her tips. If you haven't, say, "It won't be so bad. Just be prepared and you'll be fine." If you feel uncomfortable talking about this, change the subject.

This year me and like 6 of my besties had a crush on the same guy. I wanted to tell them to back off but I didnt want to mess up our friendship. So I waited until the rest of them didnt have a crush on him even though I liked him first, sooooooooooooooooooooooo cccccccccccuuuuuuuuuuuuuttttttttttttteeeeeeeeeeeee!!!!!!!!!!!!! Trust me if you saw him you would know what I mean.

OMG @ cuti2I know EXCACTLY how you feel! There's a boy in my class who like, ALL the girls have a crush on (inculding me) and he is SOOOOO cutteeeee! He's really sweet and funny and he's popular. He never really noticed me untill this year. I think I'm pretty ugly and I don't think he likes me, but my friends keep saying he does. Anyways, to describe his cuteness: Chocolate-brown hair, pale-ish skin, adorable freckles AND THE DREAMIEST EYES EVER!!!!!- sky/baby blue! I could stare into them all day! <3 :-o

There are a lot of cute boys in my class and I crush on all of them!! My advice, Sarah, is to look your friend straight in her eye and say that u don't like her crush. If u know your going to smile then just think of something really sad like a dog being run over or someone dying, (I know that's totally gross and horrible) and then she'll believe you! hope this helped!

Heyy i was just reading this saying to myself, wow im going through the SAME thing.Like me and my best friend are close... But im kinda sorta crushing on the guy she's crushing on =(So im like idk WHAT TO DO!Plus, me & him have an awesome connection :)

i have a crush on the same guy as my friend. i havent told her though. also i want 2 become friends with him without my mum thinking he is my boyfriend which she is totally against. we r in the same group for science, but so is my friend.

My friend and I like the same guy. I havent told her though. we (my friend and my crush) r in the same group for science. I don't want it to be obvious that I like him but I want to be friends. any advice?

I have a crush on this guy that I have known since the fourth grade and we are in seventh grade now. He has always been mean to everybody but he picks on me the most. On sixth grade winter break he got my number from a friend and we flirted and he was really nice. When school started up again he was a jerk. I think he is a jerk to gain popularity and have an ego-boost because he isnt tall or skinny (kind of like Theodore from Alvin and the Chipmunks). I think he likes me (which he has told me before) still. Please help!

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