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Honestly, just think this before you go and talk to them "Balls To The Wall Baby" ...It's worked wonders my friend...like it 1)puts you in a confident mindset which when you talk to women, be cocky and funny but not a complete jerk (def. is the magic ticket) 2) it loosens you up so you can really believe "Hey, I've got nothing to loose so Balls to the Wall Baby"...3)It's funny so you are in a good mood which basically is why it is the secrete to many successful nights I've had at parties with the ladies

The thing is swizz, is that we want a in between guy. A inbetween guy is a cross between a bad guy and a good guy, the bad guy likes to take us on adventures we've never consider and has swag an confident. At the same time he's a good guy who nos how to wine and dine us and no how to turn the charm on and is sympathetic, ect... We just want a well rounded guy with a little of everything.

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Hate to break it too you but if, your not a jerk they won't show interest. Like today I was at Target with my sister, I happen to notice these two very good looking girls. If I were to go up to them, I would of gotten laughed at. I could tell they were only interested in douche bags.

Sorry I'm not buying it, women just say they want confidence which is a bunch of bull sh*t, Its a made up word some bimbo told some guy who had no chance and it stood. And you said it best your funny, and have a way on focusing on them something not all guys can do.

You seem to have low self-esteem when it comes to flirting and such. That's why it's called flirting. It's low-risk high reward. Just do it a lot more. You'll de-sensitize yourself to it, and it'll become easier. Also, become more confident in yourself in general and that should translate over to the girls.