You know it's hard to realise you've crossed some mystical boundary and now you're not a bloke with a normal healthy sex drive but ''a creepy dirty old man''. The positive side is the younger ones can know that it doesn't go away as you age. I also find the expression somewhat sexist as I've yet to hear the converse ''dirty old woman'' which probably would only connote some old bat who has no personal hygiene. To digress slightly a married woman in her 80's was asked at what age did she think men lose interest in the opposite sex and she replied that she didn't know.

I don't have a problem with it, like if its a little glance then that's fine. But i can tell when someone is staring at me, sometimes i like it, sometimes i don't. It's only when they stare for too long i get uncomfortable. It can be a turn on and a turn off.

Well it does give a girl an ego boost right? I'm quite short and petite with small boobs so not all guys look. They guys who can't help themselves give me a nice grin and it makes me feel a tiny bit special. Yeah I play it up sometimes and walk by them a second time or sway my hips a little bit extra. My mom scolds me sometimes at the store if she knows I'm teasing a guy. We both giggle over it later though.

I like it because I like knowing guys want me sexually, but I know it bothers many others. I also like it when girls look also. That really makes my mind do crazy things.If you ignore beauty, you will soon find yourself without it.................Frank Lloyd Wright

I love it when guys look at me with a lustful eye, especially because I'm pierced and do not wear bras... I thik it creepy when they stare however and do NOT like that."When its too kinky for everybody else, its just gettin' good for me."(Kinky Freedman)

Unless a guy says something or smiles - ill assume the worst when I catch someone looking. I'm fat, I shouldn't have worn this. My tits must be hoisted crookedly in this top. I have a stain on my clothes. I look like shit.

Those are the kinds of things I tend to think of when I look up and catch someone looking at me. Of course I don't mean when someone's just looking around and our eyes meet - but taking a few moments to observe me openly.

It makes me wish I could say "what are you looking at ?" To make sure my shits really together.

Why? Because one time I caught guys staring at my ass at the end of the school day. I assumed they were checking me out - I though 'i must look pretty hot.' lol. When I got home I realized they were staring at a huge bloodstain on my jeans. Yep. My period started and I wore a gross menstrual stain on my ass for hours and no one said a damn thing.

If I cath too many people looking at me I head to the bathroom to look myself over.

In my opinion though, what the man doing the staring looks like is the biggest factor to consider. The age difference is also important. If the two men above stare at a woman exactly the same way, the one on the left will most probably provoke some discomfort (or indifference), and the one on the right some enthusiasm.

The environment is another important aspect. Are you alone with this man, or in a social setting accompanied by a few of your friends?

I hate being stared at on the street...I hate thinking about what is going thru their minds...it can't be as simple as "nice ass", "nice body", "nice tits"...Boys scare me...Really what if they decide to take actions on their thoughts, you know the ones I mean.

Here's a somewhat relevant story for you. When I was 19 and in college I was visiting my girlfriend (age 20) who lived in Ottawa, Canada's capital city. We received an invite to a night out from some friends of friends, a much older couple in their early 40's. Did I mention that they were Old? The lady was quite attractive and I quietly mentioned to my girlfriend that the two of them looked hot together as we walked downtown searching for a restaurant. She smiled and gave me a playful smack. As we four continued on our way a car full of guys around 25 years old cruised by, gave the ladies a wolf whistle, and yelled "That's for you both". My girlfriend was pissed but the 40+ woman perked up and told her, "Honey, when you're my age I hope you remember this moment, only then will you understand".

Here's a somewhat relevant story for you. When I was 19 and in college I was visiting my girlfriend (age 20) who lived in Ottawa, Canada's capital city. We received an invite to a night out from some friends of friends, a much older couple in their early 40's. Did I mention that they were Old? The lady was quite attractive and I quietly mentioned to my girlfriend that the two of them looked hot together as we walked downtown searching for a restaurant. She smiled and gave me a playful smack. As we four continued on our way a car full of guys around 25 years old cruised by, gave the ladies a wolf whistle, and yelled "That's for you both". My girlfriend was pissed but the 40+ woman perked up and told her, "Honey, when you're my age I hope you remember this moment, only then will you understand".

This. When I was in grad school a male acquaintance of mine was following me up a long flight of stairs. I was wearing a rather tight skirt. I noticed that he was walking unusually slowly. I stopped to fix my shoe and he stopped too, several stairs behind me. I made a test of it and stopped again. So did he. I looked over my shoulder and asked him what he was doing. He said "just enjoying the view." At the time I was very annoyed for some reason. In retrospect it seems amusing and mildly flattering. Writer of amateur erotica since 2011..See the latest at:

When a cute guy looks at me I enjoy it.When a guy in a windowless van is staring at me I'm a bit scared.

Ha ha my thoughts exactly on this one.

I don't really like being looked at and the problem with being female is men do pose a very real threat, especially down here. But if a guy is just having a glance then it's flattering. I often check guys out an I hope they don't think I'm creepy haha“If a man can possess a woman sexually -really possess- he won't need to control her ideas, her opinions, her clothes, her friends, even her other lovers.” ― Toni Bentley

I think men and women stare at me especially when my body gives off my, "I need to be pleasured scent", along with the fact that I'm staring right back at them and wondering if they know that my mound is smoothly waxed and my nipples are rock hard.

For me it's hard not to stare at hot women and I have to keep the knowledge with me that it can make them uncomfortable.

I've had my best successes meeting women at the gym when I'm doing workouts. I often seem them working out nearby and will drop a compliment as I walk by them that they're looking really good and if they respond with a "you too" or a smile or something like that I'll make it a point to glance their way every once in awhile.

If they are usually looking at me when I glance I will usually say something else pertinent to what is going on and if they respond and start talking to me then I'm encouraged.

Sometimes they'll drop by where I'm working out and ask a question about why I'm doing what I am or something like that.

It's all about showing a woman that you appreciate her looks and that she takes care of herself and giving her the opportunity to respond with encouragement.

The fine line between being attentive and creepy is almost an art form to understand and even the best of us will make a mistake every once in awhile.

Being bold will help a man meet many more women and being shy won't get you any but the dominant ones but they can be fun too.... It's an art form and some men are much better than others at it.

Just one man's opinion.....Great minds think alike but dirty minds work together.... ;)

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