I think im gay what do i do

Sign up Get text and email updates. Some people realise they prefer people of the opposite sex, while others feel they prefer people of the same sex. I was thrilled the first time I saw someone wearing a pride pin and was able to get some information from her. Are my feelings for boys and men clear? This means that in any large group of people, there are usually several gay or lesbian people present. Men who call themselves gay are sexually attracted to and fall in love with other men. Did you ever fantasize sexually about a member of the same gender as you?

No one chooses their race or ethnicity just as no one chooses their sexual orientation.

Sexual health

Think about your past romantic experiences with other genders. If you are still figuring things out, but do know that you definitely are not attracted to the opposite gender, tell people that you are still figuring it out; but if they say you are just a confused straight person, politely correct them and don't let them tell you who you are. You can tell people that, and it's polite for them not to read too much into it. Search online for stories of people who are bisexual, gay, or lesbian. During puberty, you have lots of emotions and sexual feelings.

Always consult with your psychotherapist, physician, or psychiatrist first before changing any aspect of your treatment regimen. Be free to explore yourself and love and sex. It's better to be prepared with contraception than to put yourself at risk. You can attend anonymous support groups in your community. The most commonly used dictionary definition of sexuality is that it is defined by who you are sexually attracted to.