I moved here in July of 09, drove across the US to get here. I still love it here, but it would be nice to find someone to enjoy it with!

I'm really just looking for friends right now. If something develops over time that would be great but things seem more meaningful when you go slow.

I'm introverted in the sense that I need time to recharge after a social outing. I'm really hopeful that I may find someone I don't need to recharge from.

I'm terrible with names, like ten second Tom terrible.

I was raised with integrity and I keep my word, if a loved one needs help I'm there. I listen to peoples problems and try to help them through it, most times just listening is enough.

I've begun to get into digital photography and really enjoy being able to show others the beauty we see every day here in San Diego. If you know somewhere amazing let me know, I'm always up for visiting a new spot! I'm also attempting to learn how to photograph people, having new subjects would be great!

Love animals and want a Corgi and a Munchkin someday.

I have several scars, luckily most of them are on the outside

What I’m doing with my life

Have some great housemates, live in a nice house in a decent neighborhood working a solid job.

I’m really good at

Thinking

Compromise, (why is that so difficult for so many people?)

Accepting people for who they are

Actions always speak louder than words.

The first things people usually notice about me

I'd like to find out!

Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food

I listen to (hard) rock, alternative rock. I grew up on country and enjoy listening to it every so often.

Fantasy books, Robert Jordan, Piers Anthony, Asimov etc

A bit on the picky side when it comes to food, not a fan of spicy. I'm happy with good old fashioned home cooked American food

The six things I could never do without

I think this should be the six things I wouldn't want to do without

Friends and familylove/intimacytechnologymy mind(it would be a lonely world without it)You?

I spend a lot of time thinking about

what you're thinking about

I've been thinking about how much I've changed, physically, mentally and sexually. What I want versus what I need.How we aren't actually who we feel we are, but who we are perceived to be

"I have no soul." Tom said gingerly.

"I think I have multiple personalities." Said John being frank.

On a typical Friday night I am

Sorting through and editing photos, relaxing on the couch watching a movie, playing a video game. Out photographing something, out for a drive with the top down.

I'm not a partier, quiet nights at home are enjoyable or nights spent with friends.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit

I call BS on okcupids match percentage accuracy

You should message me if

you're interested. I can't read minds and admire the courage it takes for a woman to put aside the gender stereotype that she shouldn't message first.

you read my whole profile

Please do NOT message me if:-You partake in an organized religion. Believing in a god is one thing, thinking any religion is better than another, or none at all is pretty ridiculous.-You do drugs, yes pot is a drug-If you think homosexuality is bad, take a long walk off a short cliff. Seriously, you're an idiot.