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In my interview with Richard a few weeks ago, we talked about what the local Singaporean girlfriend experience is. In this second part of the interview (which was already done a few weeks back but only released now), we will talk about the stigma within this industry.

Me: … There is still a lot of taboo around this topic of social escort services in Singapore, and in particular, a social stigma against social escorts. Why do you think there is so much taboo?

Richard: People like to say what’s popular. Since it’s popular to stigmatize social escorts, the general public does that too, blindly following the blind crowd.

Me: What about the idea that some Singaporeans think that ‘paying for companionship’ is immoral or rather, embarrassing?

Richard: If you’re wanting to debate about the morality or embarrassment of paying for companionship, I have a great way for you to think about this… And that is actually every man pays for companionship. He doesn’t necessarily pays his girl in cash, but in terms of small gifts, cars, houses, overseas vacations e.t.c. Some young men even lavish the girl they like with tons of gifts, and then the girl rejects the guy and leaves for another man. Isn’t that worse? You pay and get nothing in return. What a waste of time and money!

Me: Haha, that’s true. I’m quite sure that some locals in Singapore may feel agitated with that statement, but it’s definitely very true.

Richard: That’s the harsh reality about dating. Men want beauty. Women want wealth, power and stability.

Me: How about the escorts’ side? For example, do you try to help job applicants try to overcome the taboo?

Richard: I don’t think there’s a need to overcome it. People who are interested in wanting to be social escorts for the money are still going to do it regardless of what others think about them. It’s a perfectly legal service to engage and provide, and we’re also a licensed agency and very transparent about our dealings, so there’s absolutely no reason to overcome what outsiders think.

Me: That’s interesting, many people treat this subject as very taboo in culturally conservative Singapore. I understand that you are very open to this, but how about your clients and escorts? Are they more privacy conscious?

Richard: Yes of course. That’s why it’s of utmost importance to treat both the escorts and clients’ identity as top secret. Even though job applicants are comfortable with being a social escort, that doesn’t mean they want their identity publicly displayed.

Me: Of course, so it’s the marketing of the agency that you’re open about, but certainly not the identity of the clients and escorts?

Richard: Definitely.

Me: Ok sure… And what do you think is the one biggest challenge you face in this industry? Does the taboo and insane privacy conscious social escort industry in Singapore create more challenges?

Richard: Definitely. You cannot publish your advertisements in the newspapers like ‘normal’ businesses. Word of mouth marketing doesn’t work either. On top of that, insane amounts of new agencies are opening up and closing within a few months of each other. It’s an extremely competitive industry and the best agency is the one which can get the attention of the client base.

Me: How do you get the customer base from then?

Richard: I will say it’s from a variety of places, mostly online. If you Google for our brand, SG VIP Escorts, you will see it at the top of Google. This generally happens because we are popular with both existing clients and attractive to new clientele base as well.

Me: So it’s not easy money like what many people say?

Richard: It’s easy money if you can get the customer. It’s the world’s hardest business if you can’t get customers. A lot of industry specific challenges make it significantly harder to market.

Me: How much can a typical Singaporean escort make at your agency?

Richard: That’s private numbers, but I will say between $1k to $5k/month working a few hours a week, depending on popularity of the model and timing of the year. If their availability is higher, then it can reach up to low 5 figures / month. If there’s public dates (e.g. engaged by a celebrity for a red carpet event), then earnings will skyrocket. Normal dates at cafes, hotel bars, e.t.c. everywhere else is priced lower.

Me: Oh that’s pretty good numbers considering they only work 1-4 hours a week?

Richard: Yes.

Me: Can you show me some pictures?

Richard: Sure, if you want to engage the models.

Me: Alright, so that’s all for this interview. The pictures are private and the interview has officially ended here. I hope you enjoyed this interview transcript with me and Richard, a social escort agency manager from SG VIP Escrts!

Whether you are a local or expatriate looking to date a Singaporean girl, you should have realized that Singaporean girls are generally more clammed up, and appear more conservative and reserved. However, local girls are actually really flirtatious, if you know how to properly flirt with them… If you read this article and apply the 3 tips I teach you below, you will soon be able to date so many Singaporean girls!

1) Be rich! Of course, many Singaporean girls, like girls living in large cities around the world are materialistic. The easier way if you are just looking for a short term girlfriend is to turn to social escorts in Singapore instead to get the girlfriend experience, instead of wasting your time and not necessarily be able to get a girl.

2) Be smart. Singaporean girls like smart and educated men. Education is a form of status symbol in Singapore (to a pretty large extent), and if you are educated or are clearly smart, then girls are attracted to that. In Singapore, brains win brawns when you are trying to get a girlfriend!

3) If you want to date a Singaporean girl, there is another easy way, and that is get into the dating game while you are still in Polytechnic or University! That is the period of time where women in Singapore are actively looking for a partner. Women younger than that are not really looking to date, and women older than that are too busy or are career focused. If you are still in Polytechnic or University, grab hold of this opportunity and just be flirtatious with the ladies around you.

Although the above video is of the escort industry in America and Las Vegas, it is largely similar to that to many parts of the world.

Some may argue that escorts provide sex as part of their service, and that is severely untrue. Why? This is because if they did do that, they would be considered prostitutes and not social escorts! Social escorts from agencies such as https://sgvipescorts.tumblr.com/ simply provide companionship with their customers. That is the reason why social escort agencies are licensed in Singapore and their business activities allowed, as social escorts truly are just companions.

There are increasingly many men, especially wealthy and successful men in Singapore, who turn to sugar babies and social escorts from local agencies like SGVIP Services instead of getting a steady girlfriend. The following are some of the reasons:

1) You may not want the long term commitment to a single woman. Committing your entire life to 1 woman only can be a hard decision for many men to make. That is the reason why many wealthy men, who can have their pick of any women they want in Singapore, usually turn to dating social escorts and sugar babies instead so that they can have the companionship without the long term hassles and emotional issues.

2) In a normal relationship, men will also need to pay for many things for his girlfriend. This will include buying handbags, gifts, travels, meals e.t.c. In exchange your girlfriend will provide companionship to you. Of course, the additional thing is love. However, do you also realize that strictly speaking, a boyfriend and girlfriend relationship is about exchange in value as well? Your girlfriend’s value to you is her attention, care and beauty while your value to her is attention, protection and finances? That’s essentially the same as engaging social escorts. However, I’m not recommending you get a social escort. I’m only recommending getting one if you’re not yet ready for a full time relationship with a Singaporean girl, as the ups and downs and craziness can be insane, especially for a busy man like you.

3) Singaporean girlfriends can be a little crazy. Simply watch the following video and you will know what I mean! They are really that way in real life.

When it comes to dating social escort agencies in Singapore, there are actually very few really legitimate and goods ones.

SG VIP Escorts (www.sgvipescorts.com) – one of my favorite local agencies, SG VIP specializes in escort service only by local Singaporean girls. This is definitely something unique, and something I really like, because I love Singaporean girls. Most other agencies (existing and defunct ones) have a lot of foreign girls yet masquerade them as local girls. I can genuinely say that SG VIP Escorts is the only company in Singapore who sticks to their words. Additionally, their girls are actually socially adept, eloquent and educated, which makes them very good partners for social events as well.

SG Model Escorts – They used to be really good, but for some reason now, since July 2017, I cannot seem to be able to get through their agency hot line, and their photographs on their website have all mysteriously vanished as well. To be honest, I suspect something dodgy must have happened with them behind the scenes, and they may have been closed down permanently.

SG Call Girls – another company that’s good but they are completely unresponsive to calls and texts now. Additionally, I just called them a few days ago for a booking enquiry but the person who picked up the phone said I had dialled the wrong number. I genuinely am not sure what’s happening to them as well this year, as back in 2015 and 2016 beginning when I last engaged their services, they were still great.

The escort industry is always an interesting one to explore, and today, we have with us, Richard from SG VIP Escorts agency, a high end local agency for escort model service.

However, in Singapore, escort service is also affectionately known as the girlfriend experience. Today, we have invited Richard of SG VIP Escorts to share with us what this ‘girlfriend experience’/escort service really means in Singapore.

Interview:

Me: So, everyone knows what escort service is. However, why do Singaporeans like to call it the girlfriend experience in Singapore?

Richard: First of all, escort service is not inclusive of sexual services in Singapore. This law is much stricter in Singapore than any other country around the world. Social escort models in Singapore provide strictly non-sexual companionships and are thus more like a ‘girlfriend’ than a prostitute.

Me: Okay, but I have actually heard of cases before where there are escort models who have sex with their clients?

Richard: If any sexual relationships happen between the client and the model, it is strictly on their own accord. As an agency, we only sell nonsexual companionship and time, nothing else.

Me: Oh so it is basically kind of like a paid date, where strictly speaking, clients are only to go on dates with the models. If anything else happens, it’s on their own accord? So essentially, escort service is not the same as paying for like a prostitute at Geylang?

Richard: Yes, this is because we make it clear to both the clients and the models that it’s not part of the service and they have to accept before proceeding.

Me: So why then do people engage social escorts in Singapore?

Richard: Every person wants a companion who’s there for him, but without being naggy like a wife. The main reason people engage social escorts is because every man loves a pretty woman with no emotional strings attached to the relationship. Most men who engage social escorts are highly successful individuals and want to share some time with a gorgeous model after working so hard for a large part of their lives. You may ask, why not find a normal girl? My answer is, why would they work so hard in their careers only to go out with a girl who doesn’t even put in any effort into improving her appearance? Women like men with wealth, and men like women with beauty and elegance. It’s simply exchange in value, and both are happy with the companionship they give each other!

Me: Interesting. Alright, I guess we’ll leave the rest of this interview till next time!

So there you have it. The local SG girlfriend experience is basically the companionship and escort service that you get with very beautiful Singaporean girls. If you are having a hard time finding a girlfriend in Singapore, yet have no intentions to get married yet or don’t want a serious relationship, then getting a social escort is your best choice!

Check back in with us in a few weeks’ time for the 2nd part of this interview!

Here are some locally, Singapore tested and proven ways in which you can find a girl in Singapore, either for a fling or for a long term relationship.

Tip #1: Work hard at your career.

Yes, this is not a joke. In fact, if you really want to find girls easily in Singapore, the easiest way is to be successful and have a solid career path. Singaporean girls are very easily attracted to wealth, and even more than that, financial and emotional stability that a man can bring to her. Therefore, if you work hard at your careers in your 20s, you will be able to get nearly any girl when you are in your 30s.

Tip #2: Actually learn how to dress well.

If you look around, most men in Singapore dress poorly, even when going out to meet girls! This is bad, because girls do look at man’s dressing when judging him… not just his face and body. Therefore, it is highly recommended that you learn how to dress well as a man in Singapore. This is because if you really know how to dress well, you will already be leagues above the average gentleman in Singapore.

Tip #3: Don’t be a slacker at school!

Yes, this is a tip for those who are still in Junior Colleges or perhaps Universities. Unless you have superb connections, know how to build a business or able to take sales rejections, you probably need to rely on your academic qualifications to find a good job and income in Singapore. Therefore, make sure to work hard at school, so that you can still have a good income and attract girls.

Tip #4: Be yourself.

Most men in Singapore are too worried what girls think about them. As a result, they act in a way which is artificial, and in a way which they think girls will like. The truth it, authenticity is very easily spotted, and if you do that, you will show that you are fake. Be yourself, and don’t bother what girls think about you. Although it sounds like contrary advice, it is really the best way to attract a girl when it comes to your personality.

Tip #5: If all else fails, and you want something faster, just get an escort model.

The easiest, fool proof way to find a girl in Singapore is to simply hire and engage social escort services. You will immediately be able to have a girl in Singapore.