I'm sorry that your (ex) boyfriend did that to you.Although it is thoughtful of you to not want him to be homeless ... what about you? Do you have a place to go? If so, you might want to line that up before you confront him.

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When you have somebody dying because they are poor and black or poor and white or because of whatever they are ... that erases everything that's great about this country.

If yes, then I figure stick out the lease with him if you can. Confront him about the truth of course, but tell him that you both need to be mature in this situation (Which sucks and will be hard).Stay in the apt and then go to Case. No need to stay at Syracuse any longer and Case is a better school.

I personally couldn't live with my boyfriend if our relationship fell apart. I think the hardest part would be staying mad at him when he's there and kind of looking cute ... I think it would be a lot easier to be mad from afar (and IMO mad is good right now.)

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When you have somebody dying because they are poor and black or poor and white or because of whatever they are ... that erases everything that's great about this country.

I know how you feel.I'll be 28 in the fall and entering law school this year and I'm also in a relationship that probably won't end up in marriage. I also want to have my first child by 32 latest so I know I'll probably have to find someone else soon.. Don't worry about it. Everything happens for a reason. He's probably not the best person for you anyway. It's better if things end now than for you to end up divorced and raising your kids by yourself. You'll probably meet someone better for you soon in law school or through your friends there or wherever. It's not that hard. Good luck.