>> In case you dont know about the "confirm" message:
>> send a message with the subject: <confirm> to a BB.
>> more here:

So I love this idea and read the blackberry documentation. Unfortunately, I haven't been able get it to work. According to the documentation, you can put <$Confirm,RemoveOnDelivery,SuppressSaveInSentItems > in the subject. It looks like $Confirm is a variable, but it doesn't say what it should be. Do you have any insight on this?

Regarding the software blackberry, I did try that, that was actually the first place I went to, but I wasn't able to get it to enterprise activate. I found directions for it and followed them, but it didn't work for me :( and I haven't had time to mess about with it since.