My 'best friend' was living at my Dads since her Mother kicked her out. My Dad didn't mind, Didn't bother me as i've recently moved out. She's since moved out and got her own flat.

I still pay for the Sky, Broadband and Phone bill (All in one bill) as it's a pain in the bum changing the direct debit back over to my Dad. He phoned me and told me Sky had been cut off and had my direct debit gone out. I said no and was going to phone him the next day to tell him. He'd phoned Sky and they told him there wasn't enough money in my account and it had bounced so to speak. I said this was rubbish as i always keep enough money in my account to cover bills. Then my Dad told me it was because the Phone Bill was £192.98 and that next months phone bill is £151.76.

I phoned my friend and told her it wasnt on, she had made 90 calls to her loser boyfriend in one day. All the calls were between 4 and 30 seconds long.

We had a arguement about it, and she managed to turn the arguement round so i was the bad person in this and she was the victim. I gave my Dad some money, what i could anyway. I've gone over my overdraft for the second time in two weeks, £35 each time i go over. So i literally have no money. I text her and said that i wasnt being funny, but we needed the money back pretty soon. And she replied sarcasticly that she was rolling in it. I'm that broke I cant even afford to buy my daughter a new Juice cup.

I know she has no money. But i also know that she was meant to be getting £200 at the begining of the week. But i have a nasty feeling she's decorated her new flat with it. Her Facebook status said that she had finally finished painting and it looked great. Where would she get the money for paint?

Am i been unreasonnable in wanting the money back straight away? Is it not fair that I think she should of given me and my Dad the £200 instead of decorating?

In her words, am i been a selfish 'female dog' for wanting the money back imediatly?How do i go about making sure i get the money back?

And i know, money and friends dont mix lol.

You know you're a mum when the thought of food shopping alone becomes exciting.

When you and your significant other are having an argument, just take all of your clothes off during the spat and stand there. Something is bound to happen!! =]

tel, her you will take her to small claims court for the money backshe ran up the bill and she is therefore responsibleher attitude stinksyou bailed her out by giving her a place to live and this is how she repays youyes it is her responsibility to pay it, she ran up the bill, meanwhile your dad suffers as he has been cut offIt may be worth talking to sky and explaining the situation they may be able to go after her as you have an itemised bill showing which calls are hers

God how horrible! I really cant understand where people get off behaving like that when it comes to money. I was living with a girl for a while, she owes me nearly £700 from not paying her share of bills, borrowing cash and putting internet shopping on my credit card (that one was incredible, she asked to use it once, kept the number and then just kept at it until i had no choice but cancel it!!!!). Its been 6 months since she moved out and despite me asking about it several times she wont pay me back! I figure i have to say goodbye to the money, i dont have it in me to be a debt collector and people like that can hold out forever. Seriously though, I really hope you pursue it in the small claims court and get sorted. People shouldnt get away with that kind of thing. Good luck!

and in case you decide to pursue it write down what she gives you and the dates, keep any texts refering to the money so she can't deny she owes ityou can threaten to take her to small claims (if she stops paying) based on the texts and that may be enough to make her pay up if she knows you have evidence