John Predmore, S.J., is a Northeast Province Jesuit and was the pastor of Jordan's English language parish. He studies art and directs BC High's adult spiritual formation programs. Formerly a retreat director in Gloucester, Massachusetts. Ignatian Spirituality is given through guided meditations, weekend-, 8-day, and 30-day Retreats based on The Spiritual Exercises of St. Ignatius of Loyola. Ignatian Spirituality serves the contemporary world as people strive to develop a friendship with God.

Wednesday, August 31, 2011

Twenty-Third Sunday in Ordinary Time

September 4, 2011

Ezekiel 33:7-9; Psalm
95; Romans 13:8-10; Matthew 18:15-20

Advice
is easy to give and often difficult to follow. Jesus says, "if your
brother sins against you, go and tell him his fault between him and you
alone." While it is good advice, it can be risky business. Sometimes
people react irrationally even when we try to spoon-feed them hard criticism
with sugary words and careful concern. The power imbalance inherent within
relationships makes it difficult to speak difficult realities with courage. We
often stay silent when we have been harmed or sinned against - often swallowing
our pride as a path to peace or at least an absence of aggression. In an ideal
world, the words of Jesus sound nice, but I am challenged to stand up for
myself.

He
asks us to persist. If I cannot win over my brother to help him see his
transgressions against me, I am to bring a few others along with me to help him
see the error of his ways. If that doesn't work, I am asked to bring him to the
church, and if that still doesn't work, I have to treat him as I would someone
of a different tradition. When do I know if I am being the one who is
strong-willed and not seeing the error of my ways? In all relationships, the
error typically doesn't lie on only one party. I am probably complicit in
creating the atmosphere for the transgression. While this may be so, I still am
not responsible for the other's actions. Nothing is ever neat and tidy. Seldom
is anything clear-cut or crystal clear.

One
of the faults that Jesus is pointing out is the brother's refusal to listen. He
is becoming hard of heart and closed off to an enriched understanding of
wisdom. Failing to listen is a great sin. Ezekiel, the appointed watchman over
Israel, was asked to warn the wicked and turn him from his ways. By doing so,
his soul was saved. We are asked to intervene in a person's life when he or she
goes astray. Our gentle intrusion can save their souls and our own.

Paul
tells the Roman Christians that "the one who loves another has fulfilled
the law." Loving one's neighbor as yourself is the answer to most of our
moral dilemmas. Paul writes, "Love does no evil to the neighbor."
However, loving another person demands constant work. We want it to be easier. We
think of love as coming easy, but it is a sustained effort on our part,
especially if the person is not flesh and blood. Jesus points out that to love
well means that we must diligently work for the good of our neighbor. I tell
you that the persons you are trying to help might not be dissuaded from their
approach, but they will know your continued concern for them. If their hearts
are touched, it will be due to your good-will efforts towards them.

Moral
theologian Jim Keenan defines sin as "a failure to bother to love."
If we write someone off and give up on a person, we sin as well. Sometimes that
is the right course of events, especially if we are the one transgressed. We
don't want to keep banging our heads futilely against some mad bugger's wall. It
is a delicate balance between knowing when to move on and when to persevere. We
know the stakes are high - the salvation of our souls are in the balance. Jesus
asks us to try. He asks us to try again and again until the desired
reconciliation occurs. Figuring out the right strategy with a gentle technique
may help, but our offending neighbor will never be able to dispute that we
tried our best. This memory will linger in his or her consciousness; it will
linger in God's. So let us try - with wisdom and a pervading, expansive love.
We will know that in difficult circumstances we bothered enough to love.

Themes for this Week’s Masses

First
Reading: In Colossians, Paul assures the faithful people
that he is suffering for their sake and that he is working hard to bring other
people to the faith just as the Colossians came to faith. Paul is very
encouraged. He asks the people to be wary of empty, seductive philosophies and
to remain faithful to Christ who has been laboring to remove obstacles for
their reception of the Gospel. Think on what is above and put away the earthly
parts of you: immorality, impurity, passion, evil desire and idolatrous greed. Paul
greets Timothy as his child in the faith and reminds him that through God's
mercy Paul was converted from a blasphemer and persecutor to a new way of life.
He was treated mercifully because Christ came to save sinners. Christ was
patient with him in his conversion.

Gospel:
On one Sabbath, Jesus healed a man with a withered hand in opposition to the
schemes of the Pharisees. He flaunted it in their face because he wanted them
to see that it is right to do good and to save life on the Sabbath. Jesus then
departed in solitude to pray. The next morning he chose twelve from among his
disciples to be his inner circle. With them, he went down to a plain and a
large number of people came to hear him and to be healed of their diseases and
exorcised. He then began to teach them by calling out those who were blessed
and those who would be reviled in the kingdom of God. As he continued his
sermon, he spoke about the way of life a person is to live. These are some of
his sayings: A disciples, when trained, will be like his teacher; a good tree
produces good fruit (a heart full of goodness speaks only of goodness); the one
who listens to good advice from a teacher and acts in accord and integrity will
honor the teacher.

Saints of the Week

Thursday: The
Birth of Mary was originally (like all good feasts) celebrated first in the
Eastern church. The Roman church began its devotion in the fifth century. Her
birth celebrates her role as the mother of Jesus. Some traditions have her born
in Nazareth while others say she hails from outside of Jerusalem.

Saturday: Peter
Claver, S.J. (1580-1654) became a Jesuit in 1600 and was sent to the
mission in Cartegena, Colombia, a center of slave trade. For forty years,
Claver ministered to the newly arrived Africans by giving them food, water, and
medical care. Unfortunately, he died ostracized by his Jesuit community because
he insisted on continuing the unpopular act of treating the slaves humanely.

This Week in Jesuit History

·Sep 4, 1760. At Para, Brazil, 150 men
of the Society were shipped as prisoners, reaching Lisbon on December 2. They
were at once exiled to Italy and landed at Civita
Vecchia on January 17, 1761.

·Sep 6, 1666. The Great Fire of London
broke out on this date. There is not much the Jesuits have not been blamed for,
and this was no exception. It was said to be the work of Papists and Jesuits.
King Charles II banished all the fathers from England.

·Sep 7, 1773. King Louis XV wrote to
Clement XIV, expressing his heartfelt joy at the suppression of the Society.

·Sep 8, 1600. Fr. Matteo Ricci set out
on his journey to Peking (Beijing). He experienced enormous difficulties in
reaching the royal city, being stopped on his way by one of the powerful
mandarins.

·Sep 9, 1773. At Lisbon, Carvalho,
acting in the king's name, ordered public prayers for the deliverance of the
world from the "pestilence of Jesuitism."

·Sep 10, 1622. The martyrdom at Nagaski,
Japan, of Charles Spinola and his companions.