Vibrators equate love. Wait no. Vibrators equate orgasms and women LOVE orgasms. Vibrators made out of different materials will transfer vibration in very different ways. Try this heart-embossed silicone vibe, or a ceramic vibe or even an aluminum vibe — and explore the differences.

And just because it’s my new found love… check out the Cush. Feels so lush, yet it’s made of totally hypoallergenic, dual density silicone. This means it’s full of pleasurable fun and is body safe, boilable, or bleachable.

I have had two men who know and love sex toys tell me (independent of each other) that they love the Cobra Libre. They both said the control functions have a bit of a learning curve, but once you sort that out, then this is one of the best frenulum massagers on the market.

Then reach for his prostate with a 100% premium silicone Pro-Touch Vibe by Tantus. The Pro-Touch features a curved tip that when pointed toward his navel will massage his prostate. It’s about the same size as your finger so it’s a comfortable fit for beginners and advanced butt players alike. Be sure to pair his high quality sex toys with an equally high quality waterbased lube. Like Dude Lube.

These Lucky Love Dice are a simple way to flirt with your lover, initiate sex or jump out of the rut. This Sweet Heart Box gives you lots of excuses to explore with your tongue. Simple and sensual ways to bring new energy into your sex life.

You might also try to play with your positions. This Heart Wedge is just the thing to tip those hips up high for more direct G-spot and prostate play. A little power in your play can be fun! This I Like It Doggie-Style Strap not only gives awesome control to the person penetrating but it is comfortable for the lover who is receiving as well. You can play a little tug-o-war with your hips!

Love hurts with these Butterfly Nipple Clamps. The more you tug on them, the tighter they squeeze. A blindfold not only heightens your awareness, but with a trusted lover can help you forget your inhibitions and lose yourself to the experience.

Hot Wax burns at a cooler temperature. If your partner is laying down, the higher you hold the candle, the cooler to drips will be when they land. So start buy creating some distance and if they are enjoying the spontaneous little warm wax splashes, move in closer and see how much more heated your adventures become! Be sure to only use wax that is made for skin play, as standard wax candles can cause burns. That totally ruins your sex thing.

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I am so excited to announce that my workshops are being made available on demand, online! Bit by bit they are being filmed, edited and posted in snippets that are available on PassionateU. We have shot my presentations on female orgasms, guy’s bodies and my presentation on how to create sparks in your relationships and raise your sex drive. Click the images below to watch!

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I already own a couple of these items but have not yet played with or reviewed them. Others I have yet to acquire. But I swear to you… in 2014 these items will be devoured and the reviews spat out for you to enjoy. Why? Because a girl has to have goals.

It’s called the Pulse by Hot Octopuss! How can I NOT have sex with a Hot Octopuss? It’s designed as a guy solo toy or as a couples toy. The photo looks sort of strange but there are more images that really show the range of possibilities. I am so curious! Buy it here.

A friend just got the Limon as a gift and immediately sent me a facebook message singing it’s praises. She has never done that before, so I think there has got to be something to it. Buy it here.

I just did a sex toy training with a flock of sex toy brainiacs. (It’s a big sex toy brain exchange!) There was a resounding love of the Tantus O2 line. I vow to try the Cush O2 and learn more about the O2 toys. Buy it here.

The Love Paddle is just so cute! There is a picture of a woman being spanked on it! It’s gonna look awesome hanging up with all my other paddles. And hopefully the sensation it delivers will live up to my expectations as well. Buy it here.

The Eroscillator has always sort of freaked me out. It looks like a vibrating toothbrush! But I have many friends who swear by this device. I’m gonna bite the bullet and do it. I’m going to have sex with it. For you. For science. To live on the edge. To no longer stand on the outskirts of society. I will have my way with it. Buy it here.

I saw this in a sex shop but I could not justify buying it at the time. (I have so many sex toys!) The Iroha Midori Vibe fits in the palm of your hand. It’s soft and smooth, not unlike the Japanes mochi treats. Made of silicone. I love the simplicity of it. It’s rather unique. I have to try it. Buy it here.

This is how you officially make an ass cute! (Or cuter!) I already own the Hello Kitty Glass Plug by Crystal Delights. And I am excited to properly review it for you. Buy it here.

The Key Pyxis Finger Vibe a little vibe that pops on the tip of your finger. Another item I saw in a sex shop and denied myself. But it is so strong and smooth. I love how it attaches to a finger so it will not slip out of your hands. When ever I can’t stop thinking about something it is to me a sign that I have to try it. Buy it here.

These new Ceramix toys are very interesting to me. I have seen ceramic dildos that you could fill with warm or cool water and cork. But I have never seen a ceramic vibe before. Again, I need to know what this is! Buy it here.

I can’t remember which one of my blogger buddies was talking about this Pure Aluminum toy on twitter, but I was intrigued! I like metal toys and I want to feel how the vibrations move though aluminum. Buy it here.

The Revel Body has gotten some very mixed reviews online so of course I have to try it for myself! One never knows until they try something. The “sonic” power, shape and attachments have me curious enough to take the leap! Buy it here.

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Here they are… the 13 toys that found themselves in heavy rotation around here in 2013… In alphabetical order because I can’t rank my love of these toys…

This 100% silicone Beginner Ball Gag is more comfortable than your average gag, as it sits behind the teeth. Leather strap snaps off so you can thoroughly clean the ball bit. Looks cute in your face! Buy it here.

Did you know that you can make your butt even cuter!?! This super smooth Bunny Tail Glass Butt Plug fits snugly in place. The fluffy tail is attached with a magnet that makes it very functional. You can pop the tail off to be able to see what you are doing while inserting or removing the toy. You can also pop the tail on and off to clean the toy. A genius design. Hell… pop the tail off and you can attach any of your favorite fridge magnets to the thing! (Come on, do it!) Made by Crystal Delights, my favorite glass toy maker in the whole world. Buy it here.

A bit more slim than your average insertable, silicone toy. The Charmer has four well defined G spot speed bumps! The idea is to mimic the sensation of fingers, while giving full depth of penetration with each thrust. Despite being a classic Tantus design, I have fallen in love with it again. But isn’t that how one defines a classic? Buy it here.

I say it again and again… If you have ugly panties THROW THEM OUT! I believe you should feel beautiful and panties are the first thing you put on in the morning… Of course panty beauty is in the eye of the beholder, but this year my panty of choice has been Cheeky Panties. They look awesome on big butts and small butts. They are super comfortable. They give every butt a nice round look because of how they circle around the cheeks in the back. And that little V at the front of the waist line makes your hips look vavavvoomy and your tummy look tighter. Win. Win. Win. Buy ’em here.

The *new* EVI is a simple vaginal toy that brings stronger, more badass orgasms and pelvic strength – all in one awesome little package. My all time favorite toy of 2012 year. But now they have upgraded the design to have a more flexible neck. You still get that tight fit once it’s in place but the flexible neck makes it much easier to insert and remove the toy. Buy it here. Use checkout code DUCKY20 and get 20% off.

The Harmony by Fuze is unique. Smartly designed for solo and harness play. The shaft has enough curve to deliver pressure on the G spot or prostate. The silicone is super smooth. (Great for play but can be a lint collector if left out in the air for even a short time.) But what I really LOVE is the base. It has a hole that can be filled with a small vibrating bullet or during solo play pop your finger in that hole and you get awesome leverage for thrusting. And the base is also an oval curve that aligns nice with the curves of the pubic bone when harnessed. Stunning design twists, I say. Buy it here.

Never say no. Always try new things. Why do I say this? Because the Liberator Flip Ramp was never something I was excited about. Then I was sent one to review and I FELL IN LOVE! It creates subtle changes in your positioning ability that can result in lots of fun and orgasms! Try it on the floor, on the bed, bound with rope… I could go on and on. The cover unzips and washes with ease. Buy it here.

Shut up. I know the Magic Wand is on my list every year. It keeps me from becoming criminally insane. It is perfection. It will stay on my best-of list always. Buy it here.

The smoothly tapered tip on the Neo Plug make for easy, comfortable entry. Your muscles will hold on to the tight neck and the narrow anchor fits perfectly between your cheeks. A little piece of butt plug perfection. Buy it here.

For skin-on-skin play, Sliquid Silver is my favorite. But when it comes to playing with toys, silicone lubes like Sliquid Silver are not the best option. When I know toys are going to be a part of my fun, I use Sliquid H2O. Healthy, simple lube made by a company that cares about my health. Love that. Buy it here.

Oh dear, sweet Panty Play, one of the unsung heroes of the vibrator world. Shaped to press up against the whole vulva, cupping this whole responsive area- from clit to perineum. Tuck it inside your panties for hands-free fun. Rope it tight against the vulva to deliver inescapable sensation. Playful, simply and full of sensation. Made of 100% silicone. The bullet vibe pops out so you can boil or bleach the toy and have a super clean toy. Love that. Buy it here.

The king of all cock rings. The Super Soft C-Ring is stretchy yet gives a nice solid grip on the base of his cock and perineum. 100% silicone so it will last forever and is easy to clean. The fact that it is flat means it does not roll as he puts it on or takes it off, so it does not pull at his skin or body hair. The best easy-on, easy-off cock ring you’ll ever own. Looks sexy on him too! Buy it here.

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Oh hell yes. I have a new awesome-powered sex toy boutique of my own! It’s good stuff, at great prices, shipped by people you can trust. How could it get any better than that? And look at that cartoon of me. You will also look like that with these goodies between your thighs. I’m serious.

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Last night I was lucky enough to be the very first workshop teacher at the new Pleasure Chest location in NYC. I knew it would be nice, but I was a gasp at how stunning the new store is in person.

Everything is curated and displayed with such care.

A huge, circular chandelier reflects off the glass cases that present a luscious collection of high end kink accouterments.

Lots of leather tethers of various kinds.

Beautiful lingerie and leather harnesses of every variety. (There may be parts of you that need to be harnessed?)

The largest selection of lube I have ever seen. (Including my favorite brand – Sliquid.)

The walls of toys go on and on… including a wide collection of Tantus. I love them!

They have the Aneros products for male and female bodies.

Never trust a sex shop that does not sell books. Here is there library of literature.

They have all the basic vibrators plus little boutique brands, like Seagrape… one of absolute favorite massage oils.

The store is vast. Perhaps six times the size of the flag ship West Village location. There are also lots of pubs and restaurants up the avenue. I highly suggest making this spot a date night destination.

The Pleasure Chest Upper East Side is located at 1150 2nd Ave, between 60th and 61st.