If she's trying to change you that's a surefire indicator she's not the one for you. Especially if she wants you to change everything about yourself but she's not willing to do the same for you. That's bad juju, right there.

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Never talk to such kind girls. You must respect your identity and ideology.

If you're feeling mean, you say you're going to change, you start to change and then ... naw, you slip back. Each time it happens, you say something like "Oh, I thought you were joking." Repeat until she screams with frustration.

Man up, tell her you are comfortable with the way you are and you don't want to change. Sometimes we have to sit down with people and have an actual conversation and lay down boundaries. Maybe you can meet her halfway. Maybe you can work on changing some things but not others, maybe you change this if she will change that... Or maybe neither of you are right for each other. Simple as that. Break it off and move on.