Questions for you:
Status Quo? or Question / Challenge the Status Quo?
Pizza & a Movie? or Gâteau Breton aux Pommes, Champagne & Flash Mob Practice?
Big Trucks & Football? or Yoga & Hug and Talk with The Trees?
Big Box Retailer? or Local Handmade Produced?
Microsoft? or Apple?
Job? or Entrepreneur?
Hang out with Martha Stewart? or Ellen Degeneres?
Orthodox Church? Or “Do what I want Sunday?”
Methodical and Routine? or Creative multi-tasker with many projects going on at once?
Fit in? or Do you dare to misbehave?

What is all of this bringing up for you?
First of all, let me point out, that neither of these are wrong. What if they are Just different ways of being?
If you are anything like me, you really, really tried to make the first one work for you. when, all along, you were outside the box…not just a little, but, ALL THE WAY!
Hi I am Victoria. I am very weird. For a lot of my life, I have hid this fact. I thought it was my job to listen to and be controlled by authority. But, turns out, fessin’ up to that wee voice inside and starting to choose for me has so far been the best thing for me.
Chance are, You haven’t been acknowledged, let alone appreciated, for how different you are.
If you picked 2 or more of the later, chances are, you are a rule breaker, or you enjoy being outside the box. If you are like me, you secretly wish it was much, much, easier to choose to be incredibly wildly joyful…maybe even a noisemaker, when those around you are folding there arms and going along with the program.
What if you could have the joy and freedom and ease and fun of being way outside the box?

“How do I do that?,” you say.
Don’t Feel Badly. You tried to fit in so well. That’s just not cuttin’ it for you. This is why I’d like you to be on my telecall on Wednesday at 7pm.

“Here’s to the crazy ones, the misfits, the rebels, the troublemakers, the round pegs in the square holes… the ones who see things differently — they’re not fond of rules… You can quote them, disagree with them, glorify or vilify them, but the only thing you can’t do is ignore them because they change things… they push the human race forward, and while some may see them as the crazy ones, we see genius, because the ones who are crazy enough to think that they can change the world, are the ones who do.” Steve Jobs