My friend has just lost their baby. Her waters broke at 7 months and her little baby hasnt suvived

Just been asked if we want to go to the funeral, but Im kindly gonna decline, I have no-one to look after Jack and I dont think its a place for little children to be especially as its not a family funeral. The main reason is I dont want to see a tiny coffin again in my life, its just too upsetting for me.

I will be there for my friend but we are not that close, There my OHs friends and OH cant get time off work as someone else is going to the funeral who is alot closer to them. I know he could get time off if he really wanted to go but he hates funerals as they remind him of his dads.

Of course I will be thinking of them and will send my best wishes.

RIP little angel

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Mon Sep 24, 2007 12:35 pm

lisamummy

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Joined: Wed May 03, 2006 6:59 amPosts: 1701Location: Gosport

thats terrible rip little angle and im sure the family will understand

RIP little one.
I'm sure your friend will understand why you don't want to go. They probably wont even notice that you're not there iykwim?

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Mon Sep 24, 2007 12:59 pm

shylass2006

ED MEGA BABE

Joined: Mon Aug 14, 2006 2:19 pmPosts: 1183Location: Chesterfield

Aww thats so sad R.I.P LO so sorry for your friends loss xxx

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Mon Sep 24, 2007 1:01 pm

ZowieChris

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Joined: Mon Dec 11, 2006 9:28 pmPosts: 338Location: Wigan

RIP LO! So sorry for their loss - I'm sure they'll understand. x

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Mon Sep 24, 2007 1:03 pm

debbie4979

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Joined: Wed May 17, 2006 8:15 pmPosts: 5149

OMG I have just re-read my post and how selfish do I sound, all about me me me and how I am going to feel, the day is about my friend and her LO. So ive decided alough I still am not gooing to the funeral cause of having no-one to look after Jack I am going to send a text message to let her know that I am there for her and ask if she wants to vist.