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To me, there is nothing more precious than our family.
We are all connected in some way, like the branches of a tree. This site explores those branches, sharing family stories and information - both known and yet to be discovered - so we can meet the people behind the names and gain insights into our own lives. If you have questions or wish to share your own memories or photo about a family on this site, please leave a comment, or contact me.

Tuesday, April 17, 2012

In her own words (Part Seven)

My mother, Joan Joyce (Schiavon) Huesca, was quite the storyteller all her life, a skill most likely passed down by her Irish ancestors, the Quinns, McCoys, Gaffneys, and McGinnises. Two months before her death in 1987 at the age of 59, she determined to put down on paper as many stories of her own life as she could, for the benefit of her four daughters and her future descendants.

Although she was unable to finish her book, what she managed to write was considerable and candid, even through her constant pain. In this excerpt from her book, Joan Joyce Schiavon Huesca: an Autobiography, she remembers childhood adventures with her best friend, Rosemary Reize.

"We were living in the home that my Grandfather, Thomas Eugene McGinnis, had built in Chicago, Illinois. The address was 8336 Drexel Avenue. I remember the house as what was then called a 'bungalow,' with a large garden and yard in back of the house. We had a large basement, which flooded almost every year. One time, a client of my Father gave us a pet duck, which we named after a radio comedian of the time, 'Joe Penner." On one of the flooding occasions, there was the duck, paddling along in the water almost to the top of the stairs! We had an attic, too! There were two rooms in the attic. One was a bedroom for my Brother Tom. The other room as a 'catch-all,' with many wonderful things stored away. I would spend hours there, playing many wonderful things stored away. I would spend hours there, playing 'dress-up,' or putting on little plays and charging my friends a pin to attend these fabulous productions.

"My bedroom was opposite that of my parents. I was just remembering the other day, how unique was my closet! There was a little window in the closet! I spent a lot of hours there playing with my dolls. There were twin beds in my bedroom, one which later was shared by my Grandmother Schiavone when she came to stay with us.

"I was about six or seven years old when I met my 'best friend.' I had taken my dolls for a walk, and wandered over a block from our house, and found myself in the back of a large apartment building, and saw a little girl through a basement window. Friendly me, called out, 'Hello!' and my 'soon-to-be-friend' proceeded to drench me with water. Thus began many precarious adventures with Rosemary Reize, my 'best friend'! Rosemary was a very pretty little girl, with light blonde curls, and lovely blue eyes. I was quite the opposite. By this time, my mother had begun to bob my hair, and I was a brunette with big brown (meat-ball) eyes. Rosemary was the leader, and I the dutiful follower, as you will see, as I tell you of our many misadventures.

"We collected milk bottles from the back porches of the neighborhood, with the idea of collecting a deposit for them. We walked blocks and blocks to the nearest dairy, only to find that there wasn't any deposit.

"Rosemary's Grandmother had been given a scrungy little dog who apparently had been mistreated. We took the poor animal down to the basement, to give him a bath, and put him in the old-fashioned washing machine! The poor thing emerged, alive, but minus all his fur.

"Rosemary lived on the third floor of the big apartment building, and decided to see how fast the dog could get down the back stairs, so she put roller skates (one for his front paws, and one for his rear paws) on the poor little dog. Then she gave a big PUSH! Needless to say, the dog soon died afterward.

My mother, Joan Schiavon, first row, far right. I do not know who the other children are - could one of them be Rosemary Reize?

"School Days in St. Joachim's suddenly became much more exciting for Rosemary went to school there, too! We were preparing to make our First Holy Communion, and during our religion studies, we learned all about the Poor Souls in Purgatory. Angels that we were, we dedicated much of our time praying for those poor souls. Then, we decided that maybe prayers really weren't enough...so we would go to church early in the morning before school began, again at lunch time, and finally after school. Each time, we would light ALL the candles in the church, kneel down and say a prayer as we lit each candle. Father Hanley (the pastor of the church) would come in and find the church ablaze with candlelight, altar included. We were finally apprehended, and our parents received a bill, 'For the Poor Souls in Purgatory.'

"One day after school, we stopped off at a funeral home. Neither of us had ever been inside such an establishment, and we noticed a crowd of people entering, so we followed. No one seemed to notice two little girls, so we continued to wander through one door and found ourselves in a room with a couple of dead bodies stretched out We ran out and emerged through another door which led us into another room. There were heavy curtains from floor to ceiling in front of us, and on one wall, a panel of buttons, which of course we decided to push to see what would happen. We pushed all of them at one time! Lights dimmed, the curtains began to open and shut, and music started to play, 'When the Roll is Called Up Yonder'! We peered from behind the curtains to see a casket directly in front of us, and a multitude of mourners, in a state of shock. We must have set a record, running out of there, for we fortunately never were caught."

- Joan Huesca

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Postscript: I will add my own memory of my mother and her friend Rosemary's escapades here. One Saturday afternoon, when I was about four or five years old, my father packed my sisters and me into the family car, and we took my mother to Rosemary's apartment, so Rosemary (who had married and now was Rosemary Mager) could color my mother's hair. At the time, the TV show I Love Lucy was popular, and Lucille Ball's red hair appealed to my mother, who was a natural brunette but dreamed of being a gorgeous redhead, like the comedic star.

We returned a couple of hours later, everyone excited to see the results. As we waited in the living room, I remember standing near the door to the kitchen, waiting breathlessly for my gorgeous mommy to appear. After what seemed like an eternity, she and Rosemary emerged, beaming. But for some reason, she was unaware that her hair was a flaming bright orange, nowhere near red. She did not look like a movie star at all. In fact, to me she was unrecognizable.

Frightened, I began crying, "Where is my mommy? What have you done with my mommy?" My father looked back and forth from her to me, grinning, his eyes wide as he tried in vain to console me that this was my mother. But I could not be persuaded.

My mother, who had expected all of us to love her new hairdo, just stood there for a moment in shock at our reaction. She walked over to a mirror and looked at herself, turned around and wordlessly walked back into the kitchen with Rosemary following closely behind her. My father, chuckling by now, scooped us up and spirited us out of the apartment again. He took us to a movie this time, probably to distract everyone from the hair-dyeing fiasco.

When we came back for my mother the second time, my father practically had to drag me into Rosemary's kitchen to see my mother, who was sitting with Rosemary at the kitchen table, drinking coffee. Her hair had returned more or less its natural color. I was so relieved to see my mommy again that I hugged her tightly. She sniffled softly, her cheeks moist, as she squeezed me back.

Our family moved in the mid-1960s from Chicago to Mexico City and a few years after that to California. My mother and Rosemary kept their friendship alive, exchanging letters and Christmas cards. Rosemary phoned my mother when she learned of her illness. They talked for over an hour, catching up on their lives and reliving memories (one of these being something about them as teens, many moons ago, freeing some horses from the county fair and then running for their lives to avoid getting caught). When she hung up the phone, my mother said she felt like a young girl again. After all those years, Rosemary could still make her laugh.