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At its best, bottoming is a mind-blowing and carnal experience that feels really good. But while PrEP has the potential to lower HIV transmission rates among the people who can get access to the costly medication, rates for other STIs like chlamydia and gonorrhea and syphilis are soaring among gay men. If you choose to do drugs, remember that the most common sex drugs — Ecstasy, Molly, GHB, and the like — will act as accelerants. Steer clear of injection drugs. I was a bottom. Too much fiber can dehydrate you and cause cramps and hemorrhoids, so do not take more than the recommend dose.

When I first started receiving anal, I thought all you had to do was take a dump and wham — you were ready to get plowed.

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Then start with anal toys, gradually working up to larger and larger sizes. Try different lubes to figure out which one you like the most. One of the best ones you can buy is the 4 in 1 shower cleaning system. While his tutelage never stuck, he might be surprised to learn that I still grew up to be a hunter. My name is Alexander Cheves, and I am known by friends in the kink and leather community as Beastly. I am a sex-positive writer and blogger.

Bareback bottoms should get tested regularly. Experiment with lubes until you find your favorite. I cannot stress this enough: Most of them are too hard, and many of them have a rough, porous texture. My vegetarian friends say that they hardly need to clean before sex — they simply use the bathroom and are good to go. Metamucil is part of my daily routine.