Any new parent knows to board a plane flight equipped with bottles, blankets, pacifiers, toys and any other gear to help keep their babies quiet. But should parents bring gifts for their fellow passengers as a way to say sorry for any noise their children might make?

That’s what people are asking after a Reddit user posted an image of a goodie bag that parents passed out on a recent flight from San Francisco to Washington, D.C.

Take a look at these cute little bags of candy with a charming note attached.

The parents of 14-week-old twins gave passengers a gift as a sort of preemptive strike to prevent dirty looks. The plastic bags included hard candies and chocolates and a note apologizing for any noise from the 14-week-old twins.

The Reddit posting immediately spurred a discussion and now has over 3,100 comments. The user who posted the image called the parents “brilliant and thoughtful” and many readers chimed in saying that they’d love for parents to give them gifts and buy them rounds of drinks on flights. But others felt the gesture was unnecessary and think babies on planes aren’t any more bothersome than an obnoxious passenger talking too loudly.

One user wrote: “My thinking is, the kids have to travel too (it isn’t like a movie theater where it is just for recreation), and as long as the parents are doing their best I really don’t mind.”