Advice Goddess: Don't obsess about boyfriend's ex

11:03 PM,
Mar. 25, 2013

Written by

Amy Alkon

Question - I've been with my boyfriend for a year. We were best friends and talked about everything - what our kids would be like, projects we'd do together, magical worlds, and even other people we found attractive. Then, on his computer, I accidentally clicked on what I thought was just some porn video, but I recognized his blanket and realized it was he and his ex-girlfriend having sex (when they were dating). I had a very hard time seeing him with someone else and have become very sensitive and jealous, and this has set our relationship on edge. We don't talk as we used to. So many areas have become ...