A union is a marriage – a joining in harmony or agreement. A Sacred Union is the most honored of all unions as it is the union of self with spirit, a divine union. When all duality is relinquished, the uniting of the inner and outer, the balance of the masculine and the feminine, to be in the grace of oneness.

The full expression of love for self may be viewed as a selfish concept and not in the manner of the spiritual community. For we have been guided to believe that we must be in service to others. How much can we give of ourselves to assist another. I have concerned myself with this for decades.

I can remember about 4 years ago I was asked by a medical intuitive if I loved myself. Quickly I responded with an emphatic “yes”. Then he had me ask my husband how much he loves me with a percentage. He too was quick to respond with a 150%! Good response, I felt. Then I was told loud and clear that it was impossible for my husband to fully love me for I was not loving me.

How could he know this I thought, how dare he presume that I did not love myself. I thought the correct answer was how much my husband loved me. Is it not the measure of ones’ love, by how much you are loved? Surely 150% meant I was a great person, worthy of so much love!

I was blessed by spirit then with this guidance and yet I could not accept this as my truth. I did not hear these words until………..

……..now, 4 years later – I hear the words of an angel. Spirit has brought me to a healing room to remember myself and to fully, completely love myself. To commune with my divine nature, my authentic self.

Each day, each moment I open my eyes to start anew, I remember a little more. I am allowing love to flow, rather than block it by externalizing. Understanding that I am the beloved one I have been waiting for all along, fully embracing this ultimate of unions, the divine sacred union.