Hurt that my husband asked me for a threesome

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I am 47 years old. My husband and I are getting along very well. Recently, he suggested that we should spice up our relationship. I joked by telling him that we can buy the spices in the supermarket. And he said perhaps we could, but that won't be enough; he wants some fire in the bedroom. I suggested that we could have candlelight dinners on Friday evenings, and that we can watch movies together. Everything I said to him he said yes. Then he suggested bringing another woman to join us. I could not believe what I was hearing. My husband is very quiet and conservative. I told him that I would prefer to leave him than to see him have sex right before me with another woman. That was the end of the conversation. He has not raised it again. But how can I trust a man who would want me to engage in a threesome? Tell me, Pastor, is it right for my husband to suggest such an abomination to me?

S.A.

Dear S.A.,

Your husband told you what he had in mind. He wants something extra in his marriage. But suggesting a threesome is going much too far. However, many women have tried to please their husbands by engaging in threesome and invited girls to join them in bed. The girls have benefited more than the wives because the girls have continued to have relationships with the men, to the dismay of their wives. Do your best, my dear. Keep the house clean and lovely. Make love to your husband not only in the bedroom but anywhere in the house. Learn ways in which you can spice up the relationship, but don't engage in a threesome.