Escaping Loneliness- The Basic Instinct

This instinct of human being starts right from the birth. I can feel the loneliness of a child before the birth for such a longer period. Birth is the first step of the child to get rid of loneliness. After it the child expects the company of the mother round the clock.

Loneliness at an initial stage is painful but surprisingly, after sometime persons start loving it or say get used to it or say develope a relationship with loneliness.The instinct of loneliness is of its peculier type. you can feel alone even in a gathering or at any social occassion.

Loneliness is a state of mind that too of a typical type. I can tell about it because I am suffering from it. Now at the stage I am at, I have established a good interaction with my loneliness.In loneliness too I find someone to interact my innerself, it has been several times.

I must accept that I am an introvert person, I think a lot, it is my freedom. I accept that it takes much time for me to tell any person that I see him or her as a friend far beyond a relationship. When you are not able to tell tell or express your feelings, it means the loneliness has grabbed you.

Sometimes you don't have words to express at such a situation, the person opposite you too have own limitations.

Feelings which I could not express are the jewels in my crown. I have kept such feelings in a soft corner of my heart. Loneliness is not being alone, it is being alone at the heart and I feel the sweetness of the the pain of loneliness.

I want to clear one thing, if you are feeling alone, only togatherness is the remedy, if you are feeling alone in the crowd, you are heading towards being spiritual. NAMASKAAR