Not 100% sure about condom breakage but the Sliquid one especially does note that it is water-based and 'it's glycerine, paraben and petroleum free, latex, rubber and plastic friendly, 100% vegan and never tested on animals'

We've used 'yes' water based lube for a while now, it is non allergic and ecologically-friendly too. It is condom-friendly and also looks like spunk - when we use it with swinging friends they always comment on that! Yes do an oil based version for use without condoms.