Hidden cameras were my weapon of choice.I decided there had to be something going on while I was gone. Not because I noticed any over the top ** you don’t have permission to see this link ** like found on this site or anything from my wife, but because my friend started making green jokes about how hot my wife was, how i was a lucky man and eventually started taking sick days at the same time my wife took hers.

here’s how it all started. At first I took all his green jokes about my wife as a compliment, what man doesnt want to be told he married a gorgeous woman. This kept on for months : man your wife most be great in bed, bet she cleans your pipes real good buddy. One time when i paid him back money I owed he said:”it’s ok buddy, i’ll take an hour with your old lady”. Now that was the last straw I told him to cut the crap. I wasnt mad or anything just weirded out because not a single day goes by without the word (your wife) being used in a sentence.I stopped inviting him over after work because i figured if hed stop starring at my wife he’d stop with all the inappropriate comments, common its fine once in a while and I appreciate and take it as a compliment but over and over and a man will get POed. well..after a few months i have noticed something disturbing. everytime i get a text from quinn saying not to pass by him in the morning for work i also get the same text from my wife later on in the afternoon telling me not to pass by her from work because she didn’t go cause she had a headache or some other excuse.

i did not notice this until it happened 3 times in the same month. i was convinced they were screwing when i tested my theory by calling my wife up a few hours after i arrived at work. quinn sends me a message either early in the morning before i pass by his house, or the night before. since he texted me that morning, i decided to check whether or not my suspicions hold any water. i called her and wouldn’t you know it she said she wasn’t feeling well and just got out of the shower and is about to take a rest. since i really love my wife i believed her.

the next month the same thing. quinn texted the night before, called wife after arriving at work, she wasn’t feeling well. thats when i turned to the internet for advice, i didn’t want to go to friends or family because its embarrassing and thats a whole nother issue i don’t want to get into. i picked her over my family and have never spoken to them in 12 years. after reading some advice from the internet i decided i wanted a hidden camera sine it seems like the most apt gadget to use. ordered them to be delivered to a neighbor who was a good friend. i installed the hidden cam in the living room where the couch was, and the kitchen.

turns out I married a floozy. i didn’t capture any actual sex on the hidden cam, but i did get them kissing on the couch and hugging. i just assumed the rest in my head after they headed to our bedroom.

what i the first time i saw the video captured, i cant put into words. it was like they strapped my body to a rocket ship and launched it to space. my face got hot, reality sunk in, and i ended up crying and had to hide in the bathroom to regain my mind and figure out what to do. i stopped talking to my wife for the next few days, i stopped picking up both quinn and for work and after work. i completely shut myself off. she kept asking what was wrong and if i was okay and what can she do to help and inside i was telling myself that she should go die. eventually i went to see a priest, he told me to forgive her and start anew. inside i told him to go f*** himself cause that’s not possible. i contemplated more in the following weeks when i noticed that quinn wasn’t working today. It’s been exactly 7 weeks since the hidden cam caught anything, the same amount of time since quinn didn’t show up to work.

Guess what these dense floozies didn’t even suspect me of knowing about their screwing around behind my back. I got new footage, this time I caught them actually doing it on the couch.

That same night I made her watch the two videos. I pushed her on the couch and told her to sit. turned on the laptop infront of her and told her to watch it and not talk until it’s done. told her to explain that to me or get the hell out. no matter what she did i’d still divorce her anyway. all she did was say “i love you, I’m sorry”. that infuriated me even more and threw the laptop at the wall. i shoved her out the door.

Learn something from my experience, and stop it before it happens. there is no amount of therapy that can make me stop feeling disgusted when i think of her, just by mentioning her name ruins my day. i contemplated marriage counseling but she doesnt deserve it and i am thankful i did not have kids with this fluzy.

This felt good to let out. any feedback is fine. i already have a shrink if anyone is going to suggest that. i currently have anti depresants and was diagnosed as depressed and suicidal, therapists says she thinks im too full of hatred for her that i will not ever be able to enjoy her company again.

Have you tried going back to dating again? Another thing that helped me back when my ex-husband had an affair is intense workout. I think you handled it good, all I did when I found out was isolate myself from my family, lockup and cry. A therapist would have helped me, I hope your condition gets better.

I had to edit out their full names, that is against the rules to post their identities, sorry Ant.

Have you tried going back to dating again? Another thing that helped me back when my ex-husband had an affair is intense workout. I think you handled it good, all I did when I found out was isolate myself from my family, lockup and cry. A therapist would have helped me, I hope your condition gets better.

I had to edit out their full names, that is against the rules to post their identities, sorry Ant.

I am currently dating, yes. One of my co workers has been my shoulder to cry on and we got attached. I have always found her nice and attractive in her own way. couldn’t have coped without her and I am truely grateful. Good things come to those who are honest, and i just found mine. I think I’m in love again.

cant seem to sign up here, says my connection timed out? wanted to send you a PM. sorry about the name dropping and the absence, but i would like to share what hidden cameras i used.