My girlfriend lisa, i love her with all my heart. But shes killing me. She has a horse and she has to ride it everyday. I am not trying to sound selfish but i really just want to hold her. It hurts me so much not to be able to. I cant break up with her cause i seriously love her this isnt some high school cutsey bullshit ILU

Wow I've never seen one of them they probably haven't reached England yet!!. Horses need a lot of looking after. My husband used to get fed up with me always being at the stables so he used to come down and help out and ride together or he would follow on his bike. It means you get to spend time together and she's happy plus there's always the lovely hay barn after!!

Definately possible but might depend on the size and breed of her horse whether the two of you can both ride together. It is a great feeling as well. Moving with the rythem of the horse. oooo am off to get my horse out the field!! :grin:

It is pretty hot but can also be really romantic riding through the fields just the two of you. Why not take a picnic along and have a lazy day? Unless the gentle grinding has put her in the mood so to speak!! :blush:

In reply to: My girlfriend lisa, i love her with all my heart. But shes killing me. She has a horse and she has to ride it everyday. I am not trying to sound selfish but i really just want to hold her. It hurts me so much not to be able to. I cant break up with her cause i seriously love her this isnt some high school cutsey bullshit ILU grow up

I am a dancer, and I am fully and completly devoted to my art. I realize how hard it is to work in dance and a social life. I've been dating my bf for nearly two years and though I love him dearly, dance always comes first to me. He knows this and because he loves me he doesn't take the time we spend together for granted and instead rejoices in the time that we are able to spend together rather than moping about hte time we spend apart.Also, think about how she feels? She's having to divide her time between that which she spends riding and that which she spends with you. It's not fun as it is, and if you make it clear that your unhappy when she's riding she'll probably feel guilty and then she wont be happy.If you really love her as much as you say. Just let her ride. It keeps her alive ( I have a lot of horse friends). You'll both be better off, if you let her ride, and she spends the time she can with you.

I don't think his attitude is childish. Passion is a roaring flame that needs to be quenched. He doesn't just want to hold her for the physicality of it, he wants that emotional connection that is reached by physical contact. And just find the best way to spend time with her. The above posts are very good.