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The main reason I work out so much to get a perfect body is one day of having my sexual fantasy of having hard, rough, dominative bondage sex with a girl. But not just any girl. She has to be kinda chubby. It turns me on knowing that my body is physically superior to hers in every possible way, having her hands all over my chiseled abs and pecs while her cushioned skin pounds against me. we'd do it in every position imaginable, even in positions she's never done before. We'd get so addicted to it, whenever the other asked, we just go at it like animals. She'd never need another man ever again in her life, and if we did, she'd be ruined, because she's already had Adonis, why would she go back to a mere mortal? Ive never told anyone because it's such a weird fetish. Not many guys are into curvy girls like I am. Every time I work out, I get a hard on just imagining a scenario like this.

Go into any gonewild thread with a bigger girl, or any conversation on reddit about bigger girls and you'll see. At least redditors like big girls more than skinny girls. It's sort of the opposite of what you would expect. They mostly dislike girls with makeup who are in shape.

The funny thing is, girls are always thinking they need to lose weight. I am surrounded constantly by girls who think they are straight up dog shit because they have a few extra pounds on them. When in reality guys generally don't care, and are more attracted to confidence. From my experience guys don't care what you look like naked, just so long as you're naked with them.

That's fortunate its a little late to be keeping it quiet haha. Can't have skinny girls I'm too heavy handed I'd snap them and they are no fun. Not sure why its seen as weird I got ribbed for weeks about preferring a larger lass but I know I'm right so I win.

So, do you find chubby girls attractive at all? Or is it only that you want to feel superior? Like, it doesn't matter whether or not she's pretty. Just as long as she's chubby so you can feel like you're better than her.

Also, I assume you would make sure whatever chubby girl you go after, that she finds guys with a body like yours, attractive and what they want. Because not all girls, skinny or chubby, like a guy with a so called "perfect body". So your whole "she'd be ruined" wouldn't work on them and you'd have failed to fulfill an aspect of your fetish.

Omg...I am doing the exact same thing. I have actually achieved a great and healthy body. I also only date curvy girls, on fact I don't like skinny girls. All my friends say I'm a chubby chaser, but that are missing out! Curvy girls are amazing in bed, and they are very kinky. They are open to much more sexual adventures. I love bondage and s&m, my current lovely gf is a total freak in bed. We have crazy perverted sex and its great!!

Good for you buddy and keep up the work at the gym. It's great motivation and don't forget to do cardio. Also triceps lifting is the fastest way to get huge and cute arms.

I should correct myself, I don't believe I'm physically superior. I just like girls who are curvy. I do keep fit to help attract ladies, but I enjoy curvy girls because the sex is so much more satisfying. Also i think curvy girls are prettier than skinny girls. We enjoy porn star dirty sex!!

Also I find by not having the "superior" body that working out and doing sport has given me more confidence than anything else could have. Its not just the body its also the mine. Also kudos on the missus situation my good man

I think you're confusing stuckup asshole with domination. I understand your situation, but if a girl wants to be dominated, she doesn't want to be treated like shit. This comment makes you sound like a dick.

It's one thing to like curvy girls b/c their sexy, but to want to be with them so you can feel superior to them is kind of disgusting actually. I know that it would be incredibly hurtful if I found out my boyfriend felt I was less attractive, that I was sexually inferior to him.

I get what you're saying. Although there is nothing wrong with being attracted to a certain body type or look, but to go after someone with that certain body type just to feel superior to them seems cold.

I just hope that people who do this are careful to keep their true intentions to themselves. I love that my boyfriend finds my body sexy. But if I found out it was purely because he feels superior to me, I'd be very hurt.

That being said, it's my understanding a lot of bodybuilders who aren't at the level where they can work out as their job (which is almost nobody) make money on the side by charging body worship fetishists.

Hahaha and out there there is a chubby girl who can't wait to dominate you and make you hers, knowing that despite the fact that society considers you hotter, you'd be putty in her hands. And she'd be able to walk away if she wanted to with no regrets.

I have a thing for girls that many people consider "thick". I love it when a girl has over-sized ass, hips, thighs and breasts but still manages to have an incredible hour glass shape and a relatively flat stomach. If she's a latina, even better.

That's not chubby at all. At five five and 150, I'm pretty thin. I have curves, but in NOWAY would I be considered chubby. I just have an ass and a large chest. I'd be considered chubby at my current weight which is 165. I think you're looking for an average girl, not a chubby girl.

You work out for aesthetics. That isn't a bad thing. I work out for strength and aesthetics. Primarily aesthetics but not by a wide margin. Whatever is your motivation, so long as it doesn't wavier, it isn't better than someone who has a motivation to become an Olympian. You're measured by how far it takes you, not its origin.

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Not many guys are into curvy girls like you are? That's just flat out wrong. I'm very into that. I think a girl with curves is a billion times hotter than the Hollywood bitches that adorn a million magazines. However, I think we are very similar. I completely get your fantasy. I like it.