I'm 18 and I'm still spanked by my mother when she decides I've been naughty so I understand what you're going through. It's tough when you've got a strict mother or aunty because we're never going to get things right all the time. We got to try our best and try to live up to their expectations. My mother is forever going on about how standards these days have slipped and teenagers get away with too much. I guess what I'm trying to say is boys like us should be thankful we've got parents who care enough to correct our bad ways because they only want the best for us. I wish you and your aunt Poppy well.