Happy Hump Day! Today the Hump Day Challenge is to get out of your comfort level. Well for some of you, anyway. Since it’s the beginning of the year I want to ease into things sort of and get you communicating differently. The Hubs and I struggle hard core on communication. Believe it or not he is more sexually driven than me. He likes to have dirty talk and like sexual innuendo and most of the time I am stuck and confused about how to answer. Many times I respond with LOL or send back and emoji but he really wants is for me to get involved with the conversation. So, the best advice I can give you is PRACTICE and just do it. Write something back until if feels normal. The hump day challenge this week is, we are going to sext each other.

Start off by sending a text that says something like “I can’t wait to see your naked body” or some partners may want (or even need) more. Point is: Know your audience. If your man likes the details of how long and where you will put his member when you get home by all means go for it. However, if your wife is a stay at home mom who sometimes lets your kids play with her phone while she is shopping give her a warning first. “Hey, babe. Little man is not looking right?” she responds with “no” Then go ahead with “when he goes to bed tonight I’m going to lick your luscious pussy until you beg for my cock” then she can respond back with a pic of her pussy (after she escapes from Little Man of course)

Sexting is a fine art. You have to be careful what and when you send texts and if your partner has a work phone probably don’t want to send it there…or maybe you do for some extra danger (but don’t say I didn’t warn you if negative backlash comes). I love the idea of sexting my spouse. He loves it. There’s not a whole lot of anything that can’t be cheered up with a nice shot of my tits… Get my smile in there too then he is set for the day!

If sending photos don’t worry about how you look there are not too many sexual positions you are in that you will think are attractive, but he will. I know it’s usually the girls who have that self consciousness. Men, some ladies love a good dick pic, however many of us can live without. My preference is to not get them. However, I love a good six pack paired with boxer briefs… I love my husbands smile and I love a guy in sunglasses. My point is that we women are a little harder to understand and please, so do your homework and find out what your gal likes before sending the dick pic.

Your hump day challenge today is to sext up your lover! Give them a story or just a short tease what ever you feel like and make sure you know it is something they are into. The point is to start a playful conversation that leads to foreplay that leads to sex that leads to two orgasms!

Shit! It’s Hump Day at 11:57 and I haven’t posted yet! I have e been thinking about the Hump Day Challenge all day and I think I settled with sexting! Last week we talked about con ection and (for me anyway) I feel connected and not so alone when I receive text messages from the hu a letting me know is what he is up to where he’s going etc. It makeses me feel like part of his life when I’m not with him. I like sending the random boob shot or a quick pussy shot after I get waxed. He likes that too, buy Sexting is not limited to dirty pictures, but who doesn’t like the boobie pics? Sexting can be story taking or forecasting what’s to come to tonight or just fantasy.

So for this challenge start by sending your lover a flirty wordy text. Something like “I’m gonna lick your dick like a lollipop tonight.” Then add details, in the corner of the couch after the kids are sleeping or when you finishing up your work at you home office etc… Get as graphic as you like. Then after a couple “I’m going to ______” texts send a sexy picture. Then talk more about your sexy plans. Even if your lover can’t respond he/she will get to their phone at the end of the day and be pretty excited to see you. That wait from the time they get the texts to when the kids are finally in bed will be electric and filled with excitement and anticipation.

It’s also fun to send sexy messages across the living room with the Disney channel on too (as long as the kids don’t intercept the messages).

Take time today to stop once an hour or so and sext your lover. He may want to get detailed and respond back with what he’s going to do to you. I like the texts that say how he’s going to “come in the door press me up against the wall kissing and making out with me, unbuttoning my shirt and tearing my clothes off while pulling my hair” then we go back and forth for a while and it’s exciting. Then we realize we have to play that out in real life after kids go to bed or when they are at Grandmas but it’s so sexy and exhilarating in the moment.

So spice up your lovers work day with sexting. You will encounter and encourage anticipation, foreplay, role play and some sexy selfies! Enjoy!

Happy Hump Day! Let’s break out the sexting for today’s Challenge! So text your lover what you want them to do. If you like passionate kisses at front door as he gets home from work, tell him, in detail! Where do you want them to touch you, how do you want them to kiss you.

Here is what I sent the Hub’s “I want to fuck your big hard cock! And make you smile, When you walk in the door I want you to kiss me romantically and madly just enough to be firmly pressed against the wall, rub my body and gently yet firm pull my hair and take off my clothes without taking your lips off me…”

You don’t have to copy mine but you can! Feel free to include any naked photos you’d like or your lover would like!!! Naked pics are always a plus (unless the person you are sending them to does not like naked photos, yes some do not, weird I know!). Be detailed and think of what the person you are sexting would like, but don’t say something you won’t back up in real life! That makes them frustrated… But dream and fantasize a bit and enjoy!

So if you read my blog daily I am sure you saw this coming! Today’s Hump Day Challenge is Sexting! Send him or her a dirty photo or just a one liner that will spice up the night. Tell him what you want him to do to you behind a locked door! Tell her how badly you want to caress her breasts. Ladies be a freak Better yet show him! Men be romantic!

A study was released this week that says in monogamous relationships Sexting helps increase sexual interest and satisfaction. Anything to add a little fun and excitement goes a long way. And that text telling you, you get ‘some’ tonight is good enough to get you through that mid-day slump! Better yet a sexy picture to help you get through the mid-day slump.

I love the excitement of having to hide my phone when the Hubs sends me a sexy text and I know he enjoys my naked pics he gets from me. So spread your legs and send a really dirty one or just start out by saying “Hey Baby, Do you have plans tonight!” Or “I want to go sleep with you naked and by naked I mean part of you inside of me”…

Happy Hump Day! Today’s hump day challenge was inspired by a moment I had last night. It is a Sexting challenge.
Take a photo of you and your lover in the act and send it to your lover tomorrow when you or they are at work. This is a good way to brighten your’s and your lover’s long day at work!

Couldn’t resist this photo, this couple had an awesome sex selfie!

If you are shy, it can be simple up close of just your face so only you know what is going on if by chance a co-worker sees it. Or you can take a pic of your face all up in her pussy slurping her wet juices or with his cock in you mouth, your chin by his balls! There are some really pretty artistic ways you can do this too. The key is to experiment! It doesn’t have to be pretty though. You lover will be brought back to that moment of fun and the feeling of ecstasy that is your sex!

So in order to do this you have to have fun adventurous photo taking sex. Take some photos of your lover posed for you too, you can scroll through them on a long tedious day and send them to her/him with a caption that says “What gets me through long days without you”.

There you have it, short and sweet, your Hump Day Challenge. Photo Shoot Sex tonight, Sexting tomorrow and throughout the week!