In Highlights of Hadley Finch’s radio interview with success coach, Wendy Lipton-Dibner, they apply these 3 steps to revitalize passion in relationships.

Hadley: A common complaint I hear from men and women alike is that their sex life
has grown dull or nonexistent in a long-term relationship.

How does this 3-step success formula help couples revive passion and deepen
sexual intimacy?

Wendy: First, you’ll go through this 3-step formula as individuals.

This insures that you don’t lose yourself when you become part of a couple,
because that’s when you lose your passion.

Next, go through the 3-step formula again as a couple:

* Find out what you each want in your relationship (desire).
* Talk specifically about what has to happen to get your relationship where you want it to be (resources).
* Discuss what needs to be said or done or what rules need to be changed to help you improve your relationship (permission).
* Take those actions to fulfill your goals together (= action).

Hadley: Why else should couples take these steps together?

Wendy: Exploring the things you want and dream about in your life and finding rules that are holding you back, just talking about this develops a profound intimacy that brings you closer as a couple.

Hadley: How do you fast-track your success in life, at work and in relationships?

Wendy: Always analyze your action formula first:

* Look at your desire, resources and permission.
* Ask yourself what you are missing in any part of the formula.
* Once you identify what’s missing, then you can fix it and take actions to get your goal rapidly.

Hadley: I have a success tip for dating singles and committed couples who want to love deeply and live your dreams now.

Make a firm decision that you will never again settle for anything less than
what you truly want in life and love.

Once you make that decision, then follow this 3-step success formula:
Desire + Resources + Permission = Action

Keep doing what works. Stop doing what doesn’t. Then notice how quickly things begin to fall into place.

I also encourage you to teach this success formula to your children, so they get a
head start on finding and living their dreams and creating better relationships with everyone in their life.