oh ffs i am feeling for her i hope all turns out well for her.could it be that before 6 weeks they can't pick it up, maybe she is not as far gone as she thought? or am i being thick?Have they not seen the baby at all? or just not the heartbeat?

she had a scan last week and a heart beat was seen but this week nothing was seen

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Mon Oct 25, 2010 2:26 pm

bunnistasia

Joined: Thu Dec 20, 2007 4:10 pmPosts: 0Location: London

oh sorry i didn't mean to sound insensitive if it came across that way, gutted

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Mon Oct 25, 2010 2:34 pm

talica

ED MEGA BABE

Joined: Sun May 28, 2006 11:53 pmPosts: 1769Location: chester

bunnistasia wrote:

oh sorry i didn't mean to sound insensitive if it came across that way, gutted

no no you didnt sorry if i sounded bitchy hun it wasnt meant like that, im just having a major hissy fit about mother nature xx

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Mon Oct 25, 2010 2:36 pm

bunnistasia

Joined: Thu Dec 20, 2007 4:10 pmPosts: 0Location: London

no i know what you mean it is so frustrating i can only imagine what she is going through bless her

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Mon Oct 25, 2010 2:39 pm

num3xxx

Joined: Thu Apr 29, 2010 6:44 pmPosts: 0

fingers crossed 4 next week!! thinking of u xxxx

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Mon Oct 25, 2010 2:41 pm

trulymad1978

Joined: Tue Jul 07, 2009 9:18 pmPosts: 0Location: taunton, somerset

this is the post i so didn't want to see this time, thinknig of you hun (((((big hugs)))))

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Mon Oct 25, 2010 2:46 pm

EmmaUK123

Joined: Fri Jun 26, 2009 7:30 pmPosts: 0Location: Chelmsford, Essex

Hi ladies

Lemme update properly cos I've caused some confusion.

Last week, I was bang on dates, 5 weeks, 5 days and they could see a heartbeat and fetal pole. On the abdo scan last week they couldnt see anything except the sac so did an internal.

Exactly the same this week scanning wise but they couldnt see the fetal pole or the heartbeat, just the sac. Yesterday I passed a small clot that looked exactly like the images u can see of what baba should look like at this stage and so this morning I just 'knew' iykwim.

They have also confirmed that I do indeed have a bi-cornuate uterus (heart shaped). Research Ive done shows that this makes it much harder to carry a child.

WELL, fkin stupid consultant, if you KNOW this, why cant u treat me?! It can be treated using lasers!!

Emmylee, I agree with you, waiting a week to confirm what I already know is pure torture but Mumsyto2 is right, they have to do it that way to confirm what this Angel Mummy already knows.

My consultant said she expected to see more at this stage than she has done today and the baby should be easily visible from an abdo scan, never mind an internal.

I am grateful for her honesty.

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Mon Oct 25, 2010 2:50 pm

kirstyyh

Joined: Mon Apr 06, 2009 4:56 pmPosts: 0

So so sorry that you are going through all of this xx

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Mon Oct 25, 2010 2:59 pm

lauraMum2be

Joined: Thu May 06, 2010 4:16 pmPosts: 0Location: Staffordshire

Emma...

I just want you to know that I am so so sorry for all you are going through, If i could take some of this heartache away from you I would, I promise.

I also want to say sorry for the current rants I am having on here at the moment, it is so damn insensitive of me to be speaking of such things when there are amazing women like you in the world who have such a heard time of things.

Just remember that I am here for you, whatever happens. I wish I could be there to help take your mind of things.

I am so sorry hun.

Love you

xxxx

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Mon Oct 25, 2010 3:02 pm

Emmylee

Joined: Tue Apr 13, 2010 1:02 pmPosts: 0Location: Doncaster, South Yorkshire when I'm not in my own little world ;)

You so don't deserve this!! Gah!

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Mon Oct 25, 2010 3:04 pm

Jordana24

Joined: Mon Jul 05, 2010 9:07 amPosts: 0Location: Bristol

What a lovely thing to say laura,its true,it really puts things into perspective,we re all thinking of you.xxx

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Mon Oct 25, 2010 3:12 pm

EmmaUK123

Joined: Fri Jun 26, 2009 7:30 pmPosts: 0Location: Chelmsford, Essex

Awww thanks Laura!

However, rant away. You are just as entitled to express your feelings as anyone else and if you're feeling crap and not sure about your future then I bloody well wanna know, got it?!

GOOD

I have soooo many friends on here and you all really help when life is being a fkin bitch.

I wish I'd stuck to my original plan, to get married then think about it all again.

Instead, I chose to let my heart rule my head and look what happens.

I am angry with myself. I suppose the grief will really smash into me later. I had a lil cry earlier, just to get rid of the ache in my soul.

David's havin a nap atm! MEN!! They can sleep thru anything!

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Mon Oct 25, 2010 3:19 pm

Emmylee

Joined: Tue Apr 13, 2010 1:02 pmPosts: 0Location: Doncaster, South Yorkshire when I'm not in my own little world ;)

I told Zac and he's had his sad face on since. He said he hopes you're not feeling too yucky xxx

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Mon Oct 25, 2010 3:21 pm

lauraMum2be

Joined: Thu May 06, 2010 4:16 pmPosts: 0Location: Staffordshire

Right....

Whatever the outcome now, whether you have another Angel or not, we are going to research this heart shape baby oven thing, get a knowledge of all treatments, medical and herbal... and we will get you through it, even if it means me taking up witch craft n stuff!!!

If it's the last thing I do, you are going to be a mummy and a fucking good one!!!! (sorry about the swear!!!)

So now go and kick David in the tits and tell him to get the eff up or.... or.....