Pointing out to some they are fat is just plain stupid

Most people who are fat know they are fat. And who are you to even say anything to a fat person about their weight if you are not even asked? If you want to say something real, then talk about what people do in the world. Talking about looks is just useless. I happen to think anyone may have what ever shape they want. Most of the time there are many reasons to why people have a certain body shape of look. For one, DNA decides what you look like from the beginning. Life decides your options in life and here they are all different between each person. Some live a hard life and the genes compensate everything. They are lucky. Some live healthy and still cannot have a normal body shape, some struggle to keep up weight and others struggle to keep down weight. Imagine having to be on a diet each and every day. Pretty boring, but some genes are like that.

Some have a calm life and sit down at work, then they come home and need to take care of their families, there might seldom be time to go to any gym and since you are busy you might go up in weight. There are so many reasons to body shapes and looks. I happen to think that people have an inner glow, some choose to show it and others do not. I happen to think there are beautiful big people and I even find some of them more attractive than a superskinny model.

I happen to think that you can say to someone if their garment has a thread hanging, or if you think their outfit today is nice. Either give some good advice, like the telling someone if their zipper is open on their trousers or a compliment, like Nice skirt! or just keep quiet. I think that family members are often good at giving critic to family members, so having to get critic for looks by strangers is just fucked up. Just keep quiet and keep it to yourself. Some opinions are not constructive, they are just breaking down people’s confidence.

In todays Expressen.se I could read a article about a female that is a weather presenter at a TV Channel. She had gotten a letter from a viewer that thought she wasn’t a good role model since she was fat. She however argued, live on air, that she was much more than just some numbers. Her husband, also in TV, placed the letter on Facebook. Many people have supported her on Facebook.

And she happens to train regularly three times a week and has problems with the thyroid, according to the article. The thyroid is part in weight regulation systems in the body.

There is also a common problem 15% of women in the world have, that is PCO. That can mean that they have problems keeping down weight on a normal regular diet since PCO effects hormones and such. So people that talk about overweight people have no idea of what that person has or does not have. Better you just keep quiet. If you start learning things you will discover the world is not all black and white and that things are more complex than you really think.

I happen to think people like Mr Krause (the person responsible for the letter according to the article) should just learn more about the world before opening their mouths about stupid remarks about body weight. He has said he is sorry. But I happen to believe saying he is sorry is doing it in the wrong order. He already hurt people by his remark.

We are all different and we all like different things. I happen to not enjoy skinniness. I like curves much better. However I accept people as they are lookwise.

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