I’m also highlighting a few favorite summer recipes from the archives here for those of you who haven’t been around as long.

Three years – thanks for hanging around, my friends.

Life hack: Vacation food storage

At the end of the winter, when all the snowbirds in Florida pack up their condos and return to their East Coast or Midwest homes, the smart ones don’t throw away their extra food staples. Instead, they empty their refrigerators and pantry cupboards into the freezer – cereal, peanut butter, pasta, sugar, cheese – everything except canned goods. And the next winter, they take it all out again.

A helpful trick if you are leaving your home for an extended period this summer, or if you are in a summer place that will be unoccupied again for a while. Because it’s sad to come back to stale food.

Hydrangea trick

I love hydrangeas when I’m in Ohio for the summer, especially because they are not as common in dry California. For those of you lucky enough to live in hydrangea land, Mrs Wheelbarrow has a nifty tip for extending the life of cut hydrangea blooms: dip the stem ends in boiling water for 15 seconds first. Apparently this rids the stem of a sticky substance that can prevent the cut flower from drawing up water to stay alive.

The bracelets, customized for the beads and color of thread you like, cost less than $20, and shipping to the US costs less than $5 per order. They are easy to wear, alone or layered with other bracelets, and they give me a happy little boost every day.

It’s hard to see scale without context, so I took a picture of them on my arm, even though it makes me cringe a little. Here it is, because I love you guys.

Mother Daughter Me

I’ve been a lifelong fan of biographies, but Mother Daughter Me, a new memoir by writer and New York Times contributor Katie Hafner, is something different. Instead of the usual timeline of personal and career milestones, this beautifully written book takes on the meat of real life – the hard lessons of emotional growth and personal understanding.

The book begins when Hafner, widowed with a teenage daughter, invites her mother to move in. Hafner thinks she has put their difficult history – her mother’s past alcoholism, her abandonment of her young daughters – behind her and is dismayed to find that she is wrong.

It sounds like a heavy story, but Hafner’s touch is light and true. I marveled at the difficulty of her journey – overcoming such a painful and complicated past, breaking the cycle of dysfunction – but most of all Hafner’s ability to understand it well enough to write with enormous clarity and compassion.

We don’t choose our family, and no life is without mistakes. But to move forward with honesty – that is the real achievement of a life well lived. This book is thoughtful discussion fodder for a book group, or simply for friends or family.

Macklemore and Ryan Lewis

I am fixated on this hip hop duo – two white guys! – from Seattle, who buck the usual misogynistic, bling-saturated stereotype of the genre to sing about thrift shopping, Malcolm Gladwell and gay rights. Macklemore (real name Ben Haggerty) gives an earnest, passionate, live performance of three hit songs in the NPR Music offices, as part of NPR’s Tiny Desk concert series (there’s a free audio download too), that is so much better than hearing it on the radio. (Warning: they don’t perform the “clean” version, so don’t watch if you find language offensive.)

But aside from the music, this is a notable success story. In an industry still controlled by a few major music labels, these guys built their YouTube audience over years, a following that powered two #1 singles from their first full-length album, “The Heist,” released last fall. “Thrift Shop” was the first independently released song to reach #1 since 1994 – in other words, that never happens.

(And for those old enough to remember, the 1994 song was Lisa Loeb’s “Stay” which gained fans when it was featured in the movie “Reality Bites.”)

I also admire how Haggerty and Lewis have shined the spotlight on fellow Seattle artists. Twenty-five-year-old singer-songwriter Mary Lambert has gotten attention for her soulful vocals on “Same Love”; 22-year-old gospel singer Ray Dalton, featured in “Can’t Hold Us,” has since left his job teaching tennis to pursue music; and 51-year-old Michael Wansley, who sings the baritone hook from “Thrift Shop,” was a software test engineer who had long ago given up on ever being able to have a career in music. A new start at 51 is even more awesome than a thrift shop find.

Not all struggling actors have the writing chops to pen a screenplay for themselves to star in, as Matt Damon and Ben Affleck did with “Good Will Hunting” or Jason Segel with “Forgetting Sarah Marshall.” And not all musical artists have the savvy to produce and market their own music. But it’s liberating to know it can be done.

Dang Google

I’m behind on my blog reading ever since Google discontinued its RSS reader on July 1. I managed to move my subscriptions over to Feedly, but I haven’t quite figured out how to read it the way I used to on Google Reader.

I’m a Google fan, but it is so irritating the way they start something really useful, like GOOG-411, which I used to use all the time for phone number lookups, and then shut it down without remorse or apology.

Hard to complain about free, though. I’ll have to organize Feedly soon, so I can catch up with the world.

Maybe I should also sort recipes by season on my recipes page too. What do you think?

Blogiversary giveaway

Entering the giveaway is easy – just talk to me! Use the comment form below to say something about chinese grandma:

A favorite recipe

Something useful or memorable you picked up here

A suggestion for improvement

Or whatever!

Leave your comment by next Friday, August 2. As always, winners will be picked using this fair and geeky random number generator. I’ll contact winners by email to coordinate prize selection and delivery.

Come out of your quiet reading corner and talk to me – you have no idea how excited I get to hear from you. Good luck, hope you win!

Congrats on 3 years CG! I always click through to your new posts right away. I enjoy your writing style, topics covered, photos, and, perhaps most of all, that I learn something new in every post. Excited about what year 4 will bring!

That book sounds wonderful as do the other two prizes. I just read two very good books myself — The Death of Bees by Lisa O’Donnell and Where’d You Go, Bernadette by Maria Semple. They are both written in alternating voices so the events are revealed by characters with different viewpoints.

I love that you mix up your content with recipes, anecdotes, product reviews, and book recommendations. It makes your blog more multidimensional than most.

Hi there and Happy Blogiversary, what fun! and thank you for all your labor and love that is put into your blogs with your very creative thoughts and food ideas/recipes. I am a newcomer and looking forward to many days of good reads!

Happy Blogiversary, Chinese Grandma! What I love about your site is that I really enjoy every post. Seriously. And sometimes you have an uncanny ability to write about stuff that I’m thinking about. Like I was just reading about Macklemore after I heard “Same Love” on the radio… and just a few months ago, I discovered I like grits. We must be soul sisters or something. 🙂

Happy Blogiversary (1st time I’ve heard that term)! Your writing style, which always includes great history/background and your delicious recipes keep me coming back to check your blog every week. I have tried several of your recipes and right now the family favorite is the Chicken Green Bean Stir Fry. I also loved the meatballs. Your pasta recipes are always fresh and delicious too!

I really enjoy your food posts, and have made your Mac and cheese and taco spice recipes several times! Your last post about Nashville really interested me, since I just flew back from there on Monday – I had the exact same thoughts about everyone being so friendly to this out-of-place Asian girl!

I’m so happy to have found your blog!
I’ve stolen 4 recipes, several kitchen design
ideas, and have a new interest in Ohio! 🙂
Also, my beautiful amazing mother passed away
5 years ago. Your posts on the passing
of your father are well written and moving. Thanks
for sharing your experience so beautifully.

hi anna – i am so sorry about the loss of your amazing mom – 5 years, but of course things are never the same. on a lighter note, my husband will be so pleased to hear i’m interesting people in ohio! thanks so much for reading…and keep stealing away.

My daughter in law introduced me to your website by showing me the recipe for the fresh tomato, shrimp and feta dish. I made it for the family immediately. Since then, it is truly a favorite for us and friends. I keep a container of the sauce ready in the freezer, the I can just add the fresh ingredients. So delicious and easy. I’ve shared the recipe with friends who need a dish to “impress”, without all the fuss.
Keep the recipes coming……all are extraordinary and easy to follow.

hi linda – your daughter-in-law is a sweetie (your son too)! i am glad she brought you here, and i am so happy you have found it useful. it’s fun for me also to get fantastic recipes – like the shrimp one – from my amazing friends and be able to share them with others.

thank you for so generously sharing your experience and wisdom these last three years. your work inspires me to engage beyond the privacy of my safe places. fresh ‘food’ keeps us in motion…cheers to another nourishing year!

Love the St. Dalfour products, your delicious but easy recipes, your dream kitchen, but most of all, your touching tribute to your father–touches the hearts of all of us who have lost a parent, or who are lucky enough to still have one to treasure.

Well, Happy Blogiversary! I enjoy your posts so much, and the famous balsamic vinaigrette is pretty much all I ever use for salads anymore. In fact, several friends of mine now have you to thank for their favorite dressing — once they try it, they’re hooked, too. Also, the orzo salad with zucchini has been my “fancy” side dish of the summer. So tasty!

I love that you constantly get me to try new recipes (not my strongest suit!) and that your recipes always work ( so my family thinks I am a better cook than I really am). I just made the meatballs this week and was very happy that I did – they were delicious and everyone loved them.
I am a big fan of the idea of recipes sorted by season although so many of your recipes have become year round staples around here.
HAPPY ANNIVERSARY!

Happy blogoversary! always a joy to read. You draw people in, entertain and inform in such a natural way – it’s like sitting with you in the kitchen over a cup of tea and listening to you chat. love ak

Congrats!! Will have to remember the hydrangea tip for next year. Cut them back in early spring (when we moved in) when still sticks only to find they are the light pink version and only flower on old growth. DOH! White ones I had in Seattle didn’t have that issue.

I learned how to make the most delicious oatmeal lace cookies from you. I really like your recipes – they’re so wholesome and simple. Keep them coming! Oh and pics of your kitchen (old and new!) as well any decor/design tips. Love your easy, breezy style.

Your balsamic dressing. Hands down! I usually have some on hand, have shared your recipe countless times because everyone who tries it, loves it! I’ve made it as a hostess gift (on your suggestion.) It. Is. The. Best.

Congratulations! I love seeing your mail in my inbox. The thing that I always have in my refrigerator is your balsamic dressing. I cannot remember how many people that have tasted this and asked for your recipe. Thanks!

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