I can see why people get nuts while planning weddings. We've sent out reminders since last year, and not one person has actually booked their lodgings ahead of time. We've had people very kindly volunteer to help with arrangements and so forth - and so far not one of them has actually followed through. While it's a lovely gesture to volunteer to help, and we certainly need the help, it's actually worse than doing nothing if you don't actually take care of it.

Herself is getting very stressed, so I'm just taking it over. From here on out, if you need to know something about the wedding, ask me. I'll take care of it, or delegate it to someone who I know will actually do it.