“It is the law of nature that woman should be held under the dominance of man”

------------------- Confucius, 551-479 BC

"If there is one thing that turns women off more than anything else, it’s a man with a lack of dominance. And an attractive woman can smell a lack of dominance like a shark smells blood.

No one is attracted to someone who conveys a sense of being powerless. When it comes to being a man, however, power is not only important, it’s everything. ...A woman is never attracted to a man who seems to be ‘equal’ with her. In some major way, he has to be more than her. ...To feel feminine, she must be with a man who is masculine.

When a woman is with a guy who is not dominant, she feels like he is just another girl.”

———-——— W. Michael.

I am writing this article primarily with the everyday Nigerian man in mind. Just like other men around the world, we want our wives and girlfriends to respect us, honour us and defer to our Leadership. However, in may relationships, this has failed to be the case. We have men who have failed in their rightful duty to ‘wear the pants‘ (Note: we wear pants, they wear panties! ).

Ask most woman in Nigeria today, and they will openly tell that they want men who can ‘control’ or ‘handle’ them. And by control, they don’t mean they want Boko Haram terrorists who will hit, trample and intimidate them at the slightest provocation. Only WEAK MEN hit or even shout at women. There are far more, effective, long-lasting ways of extracting, constant, consistent compliance from your wife or girlfriend. And I am going to expose all of that to you in the series of articles I am going to be writing on this forum.

The average unthinking Nigerian male believes that it only takes money (and maybe looks) to attract and keep women. Really? What they also fail to realize is that:

•There’s always a richer guy.•There’s always some poorer guy, somewhere, willing to spend more than you.•There’s always someone with a bigger car, a bigger house, a bigger title, a bigger office etc.

The Secret Ingredient...

What you really want are personal attributes that will guarantee your woman sticks with you come rain, come shine. Personal qualities that are not dependent on your money or your status – which you may not always have. Personal traits that will give you peace of mind that your woman will come back to you, even if she makes $10 million tomorrow and travels abroad for a 1 year course.

Most of the problems we experience in our relationships as men stem from the simple fact that we’ve not been firm enough, we’ve not been putting our foot down enough, not been saying NO enough and then OVER-REACTING or acting inappropriately in certain situations where we should actually tease our wives or girlfriends and toy with them when they throw silly tantrums.

“Half of your mastery of Power comes from the things you don’t do, what you do not allow yourself to be dragged into”

-------------Robert Greene, (The 48 Laws of Power)

The biggest factor in how a woman reacts to and responds to you in the long-term is heavily based on your BEHAVIOUR. The way you ACT. In this article, we are going to unravel everything together, step-by-step, action-by-action, inaction-by-inaction. We are going to explore EVERYTHING in pin-point, specific detail.

This is not about manipulation or anything close, it’s about becoming the Very Dominant ALPHA male that you were designed to be through your actions…and inactions. The kind of man that ALL women secretly desire and always submit to. Don’t confuse this with becoming a bully. Being Dominant and DOMINEERING are two entirely different things.

Your Woman Cannot ‘Decide’ To Respect You…

Respect works a lot like attraction, you don’t see a HOT women and ‘decide’ if she’s hot. The moment you set your eyes on her you KNOW she’s HOT. Same with respect.

Certain actions, behaviour and attributes command our respect, and we just act accordingly towards that person. Your wife or girlfriend cannot ‘decide’ to respect and be under your ‘control’. You MUST earn this by the way you ACT.

The level of respect you get from your woman and the amount of ‘control’ you exercise over her is the direct result of your actions since you met, AND how you’ve trained her.

Alpha Males & Beta Males…

As far as a woman is concerned, there are only two different types of men. Alpha males & Beta Males.

The alpha male is the guy who is confident, firm in decision making, NON-REACTIVE, asserts himself more, takes more risks, makes plans, doesn’t whine, is non-needy & approval seeking, non-clingy, protects and is the leader in his relationship.

The Beta male is the exact opposite of the Alpha, he whines, is always REACTING (nothing screams Beta as much as reacting to your woman – I’ll get to this below in ‘poo Tests‘), follows, not firm in his decisions, needy (calling your wife or girlfriend 2,000 times in a day is very bad) and generally does most things the Alpha wouldn’t do.

To a woman, dating a beta male is like being forced to marry a very fat ugly old woman with bad skin and bald hair.

Legit1: Classic Bullshyt!, the fact that u need to do all this, shows u lack confidence within ur self. Respect starts with oneself!.

do u know dat at times u fail what u feel u are good at. True respect starts with oneself but how do u promote urself in the face of people? Personally i believe one mans meat is another mans poison so i have no need bantering words with u. Just want to say kudos to u. Nice write up.

Legit1: Classic Bullshyt!, the fact that u need to do all this, shows u lack confidence within ur self. Respect starts with oneself!.

The topic is obviously beyond your ballpark. @OP, that title does undermine the content thereof. I only came in here cause I was bored and felt like victimising you only to be disappointed upon opening.Our brothers need to read this shitt. It's the gospel.

+ you have to be to women what they want you to be. Women want different things at different times. Their like, preferences & choices change regularly. U gotta be 1 step ahead. If they want Alpha, give them Alpha. If they want Beta, give them Beta. If they want AlphaBeta, give them Alphabeta. You gotta be flexible. YOU GOTTA BE PATIENT.

Nice idea you have there.. But hey..Not everyone have things work out for them same way.. Even some men lie in between the Alpha-Beta thingie..While some are not into being any. So I guess the bottom line is, take things as you see them, react if you please. Let it be if you're not interested. Before you end up making yourself more of a rule-book robot than human.

lol. My bad. I didnt really bother to read the post cos i had no time, just saw the topic and assumed it will be the normal bullshyt. Sorry bout that.Actually its a very nice piece, well constructed (i hope its not copy and paste) though i dont believe that alpha males (according to your definition) are necessarily better than beta males in so many other regards.Maybe i'd just open a new thread altogether so as not to derail this one.Subcribing......

I must commend you op,this is a nice piece of writing. If we have alpha and beta males,i think there is need for gamma males,the ones that fall in between the alpha and beta. #More like physics and chemistry.