The Nuances of Online Interracial Dating For Singles

Online dating has definitely made our lives easy but still, there are people struggling with the online dating, they don’t know how to have a first good impression. We all have that one friend who gets more matches, and we are really not sure why he is getting more matches than us, today we are going to debunk all those questions.

An average user take 2-3 seconds to decide whether to like you or dislike your profile on the online dating platform and do you know that our brain decided subconsciously whether the person is going to be a right partner or not? And while surfing on an online dating site, people are very conscious about the good vibes of a person with whom they are spending time.

Some refinements in your online dating profile can help you make your profile stand out from others and have the better first impression, today we are going to discuss each and every those small thing that our mind scans to make the final decision.

Be yourself while dating on an interracial dating site

One of the biggest reasons for breakups in most of the relationships is losing your self-identity. Most of the people fall in love with someone but totally lose themselves, this turns into the beginning of an unhealthy relationship. Staying yourself in a relationship helps in achieving better satisfaction and self-esteem.

Tips to be yourself while dating:

Respect yourself before you start loving someone else.

It’s important to specify the boundaries of your conversations and don’t let any newcomer trespass those boundaries.

Never loses your real character for being in a relationship, trying too much diplomacy in a relationship can prove to be a fatal mistake in the long run

Learn to say ‘No’ to things you don’t like, saying “no” is not rude anymore; learning to say no will let your partner know your likes and dislikes.

Reply within the first 24 hours of receiving a message

No one like to wait forever, if you are genuinely interested in the conversation then you should prepare yourself for the prompt responses and you should never take more than 24 hours to respond back. If you are not able to check the particular chat platform then feel free to invite the person on different chatting platform.

There are many people who have no idea about what to talk and how to hold long conversations with someone new. I personally love the idea of playing short rapid fire round with the person I am trying to have a conversation, I always invite her to play a game of short questions asked alternatively and it’s a great way to know more about the person.

Do not discuss sensitive topics (Race, Customs, and Religion)

It’s a huge mistake and can prove to be an instant turnoff for your date, especially when you are trying to meet someone different from your cast and religion. I have seen many people try to act ignorant about the culture of other person and that is definitely not advised.

What kind of conversation to have until you get frank with the person.

You can talk about the hobbies

Education and their goals

Plan some activities instead of trying to engage in long conversations

Stay away from stereotyping and let them know that you are genuinely interested in knowing their culture.

Stay away from any kind of arguments on the first date.

Try and let the other person do the talking

One of the best ways to improve your success rate in a relationship is to improve your communication skills, most of the people are too much inclined towards speaking but the biggest trick to success in the first date is to learn to be a good listener.

Art of listening:

Keep your phone away to concentrate on the talk.

Ask questions to show a keen interest in the person.

Maintain good eye contact to save yourself from distractions.

Summarize the talk.

Do not get too nosy about personal life and family matters

It’s understandable to ask a question to know more about the date but you should be aware of the degree of your intrusion in their personal life.

Discussing family matters and personal life in the first or second date is absolutely not advised, you can share your personal experience on the first date but never force your partner to share theirs on the very first date. Even while sharing your personal experience, stay cautious about the details you disclose.

About Anthony

As a motivational speaker, singles and relationship coach, internet marketer and an author, Anthony Adeokun offers individual and group couches. He has written many relationship articles and books. He also has special blog for MEN at Come Show Love, where he discuss real men’s issues. You can hook him up on Facebook Fan Page, Twitter, Google Plus. You can also Get his daily update.