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Do we get attracted to what we think about? Or do things and persons send vibes that make us get attracted to them?

I think we attract what we think about, whether it’s a person, feeling or a thing. We are the strong magnet in this process. The world is full of things from all kinds and people with different traits and characteristics. But we don’t see all that. We only see what we think about; our own horizon shrinks to include things and people we have something in common with and on the other hand detach what may be odd to us.

And I think it’s fair enough!

So, it all starts in your head and heart. When you fill these organs with love, passion, and positivity, you’ll get it. However, when you just go in life aimlessly, holding a grudge toward others, and with a bunch of complaints, you’ll get just the same as you feel.

But what about times of being depressed, sad, or anxious? How can we during these times change our sails to the positive while we are unable to take any action or see anything away from BLACK?
I think during good times, we should write down what makes us happy, motivated, and eager to achieve new things and go on living. So during hard times, we can get back to those notes and make use of what we wrote before. Of course, it’ll be hard to be so objective and detach yourself from your current mood, but it can help in some way.It’s your own job!
You’re the one who is responsible for directing your sails and drawing lines of your steps towards your destination.

So every time you feel things are going the other direction you’ve been planning on, just think for a second; what was my main thought for the day?

1- We, unaccustomed to courage
exiles from delight
live coiled in shells of loneliness
until love leaves its high holy temple
and comes into our sight
to liberate us into life.
— Maya Angelou, Touched By An Angel

2- By night, Love, tie your heart to mine, and the two
together in their sleep will defeat the darkness.
— Pablo Neruda, Love Sonnet XXIX

3- Not easy to state the change you made.
If I’m alive now, then I was dead.
— Sylvia Plath, Love Letter

4- I carry your heart with me (I carry it in
my heart)
I am never without it (anywhere
I go you go, my dear; and whatever is done
by only me is your doing, my darling)
— E.E. Cummings, 100 Selected Poems

5- I exist in two places,
here and where you are.
— Margaret Atwood, Corpse Song

6- She walks in beauty, like the night
Of cloudless climes and starry skies;
And all that’s best of dark and bright
Meet in her aspect and her eyes:
Thus mellowed to that tender light
Which heaven to gaudy day denies.
— Lord Byron, She Walks In Beauty

7- And I don’t know, don’t know, if we belong together or apart, except my soul lingers over the skin of you.
— Anne Sexton, The Complete Poems

8- I would spread the cloths under your feet:
But I, being poor, have only my dreams;
I have spread my dreams under your feet;
Tread softly.”
— W.B. Yeats, He Wishes For The Cloths Of Heaven