Consent is probably the most important word in the BDSM world. Consent describe the agreement of all sides to everything that happens during a scene, which is a mandatory condition for any BDSM encounter. A scene must always be consensual and have clear boundaries. In order to provide a safe environment for BDSM participants, a safeword is often agreed upon prior to a scene. In some cases, partners may write down what activities they are willing to participate in, in what’s sometimes known as a BDSM contract.

A written document wherein partners agree upon the BDSM activities they are willing to participate in before a scene takes place. Though they are called contracts, they are not legally binding in any way and are just meant to put in permanent copy what the partners discussed beforehand. For the

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A type of roleplay where a person is taken prisoner, ostensibly against their will, but of course with prior consent and limits set beforehand. As part of the play, the “prisoner” is taken, often kicking and screaming, to a remote location, and is then “forced” to do various acts on