Well, start with her not enjoying anal as much. Talk with her about it. Ask her what she thinks about it and how she likes it and if there's anything you can do to make it better for her. Work together to improve her enjoyment of anal and she'll want to do it more often. She's not going to want to g...

Welcome, Farmboy , and thanks for sharing! There are certainly others here who have a similar arrangement, and it seems to be something that's growing in popularity. Do you think this dynamic of her as the giver and you the receiver is what you're going to stay with long-term or might you keep going...

Sweetsub So, I know that you talked with us a bit on Discord, but perhaps if you'd like this conversation to proceed further in this thread, you could introduce yourself a bit more with your past experiences, what led you to be interested in anal only, and what your plans and goals are for anal and...

Apologies for never responding to this earlier, but I agree that I'd like to hear continuing updates—rest assured that I and others have been reading this even if not responding. I agree it does sound like you're making excellent progress and her love for anal is increasing quite rapidly. Continuing...

I know some people do this already, and that's fine if it works for them, but I can't say I've ever been a fan. "Pussy" has such a long history of association with the vagina, and I'm not interested in or attracted to vaginas, so I find the term unappealing. I like and am attracted to asses, and tha...

Welcome, JmnB33 ! Congratulations on discovering how amazing anal truly is—once you figure that out, becoming anal-centric is pretty natural! How often would you say that you're having vaginal intercourse compared to anal now at this point? Is shifting away from that towards purely anal penetration ...

About the Anal Only Lifestyle

This community is focused on an anal only (AO) lifestyle, a term used as much to refer to vaginal abandonment as to anal sex. Whether you've already made a commitment to only have anal sex with a partner or are just turned on by the idea and were led here by perverted curiosity, you'll find yourself in good company. Everyone has their own little take on what anal only means to them, and the only thing that is strictly not allowed in the lifestyle is vaginal penetration. The transition to being anal only can take time and while some women may need clitoral stimulation along the way, the long term goal for many is typically to train the body to achieve orgasm from anal sex alone.