All right -- took off the "casual sex" box . Didn't know it really
said "looking for" (thought it was "match if searched"). I've had
casual sex (good friends don't count) like.... exactly twice. Both
times sucked -- In Japan. Girls who wanted to try the foreigner.
I'm generally adventurous, though, so if someone were to propose it
(and they were a hot geek), I'd be down. Well, maybe not right now.
Anyway.... back to our regular ad:

Wow. There seem to be a TON of people who could hold down an
interesting (and, yeah, educational) conversation or three on
here-- and I'm a total sucker for anyone smart+curious.
Shit, I dunno-- I was thinking about inviting the similarly-weird
crowd to join a meetup or OKCupidSFArea LJ community or something.
'Be nice to take hike or otherwise hang out en masse. (I guess I
gotta go friend a bunch of cool guys, too; my "saved" list is
almost exclusively comprised of... the gender that gets my inner
bashfulness-vs-flirtation engine going).

===> Update: somebody did it (the meetup), and I had a great (!)
time, talking with with an unanticipatedly large number of people
who were geeky, attractive, and cool... and well-socialized, to
boot. Nary a boor to be seen.
Thanks, SFGuyyy and
associates.

-------------- OK: Back to "the weirdness that is me"
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NOTE: Clearly I am in the market for the poly-geek-friendly types.
Or at least for those open-minded enough to find out if they
might be. A few of the questions were so incredibly
tongue-in-cheek or brainless that I answered snarkilly, and will
have to wait and redo them, since my enemy ratings with people I
was interested in went from 0-4% on average to 8-13% on
average.
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Z: Members of either/both groups who will join/lead me in a regular
talkshow-centric pod/vlog-cast: interviews and other pieces
presenting or referencing "naive" takes on how to make things
better for people; a format that seems to imply that it is being
produced by people sharing an obscure/mysterious ARG-ish take on
things. Alt-techie artistic stuff, performance-art / documentary
border-blurring, and demonstrwastions, too And, of course, all the
aspects you'd have described here, yourself, if you had written
this.

Mainly, though, an adventurous and enthusiastic, curious creature--
cute girl variety; a creative and brilliant best-friend-and-cohort
to hold hands with, and explore with, and get to know new people,
things, places, and states/flavors of life/consciousness with. And
kiss :>

I'd like to do more improv, and meeting someone new, in-character,
in a life-as-theater role.... seems like an interesting art
project. 'Not sure that this is compatible with the above "A Little
Romance" one, though.

I am open to romance, however it starts, and to less-romantic
Friendships. And to guys who think we should hang out, collaborate,
or seek companionship companionably. (Same for girls, of
course).

'also very seeking a tech-heavy or faerie-conclave
Playa camp as
my multi-year home--- preferably one that builds an
evolving/involved environment that gets more so every time.

1) I'm basically a companionable and amicable guy, and geeky enough
that learning something new together or from one another is my idea
of play.

1) in person: I'm very tall, thin, deep-voiced, kindly, probably of
"serviceable" if not comely looks;

2) In voice-only: deep voice, two "native" registers [one =deeper
still], amicability, ability to make others comfortable,
high euphony and fluency in the foreign language we may be
speaking, ability to match speech levels, and, if appropriate,
erudition/vocabulary;

3) Textual: Two+ styles, multiple parentheses and
involved sentence structures, prone towards the theoretical,
multiple languages; 'figure it's more polite to write a lot and
let people read for a few minutes learning that I'm not for
them

A not-infrequent Friday's (also some Tuesdays') night out is:Dressed up to
the tens, as usual, at The Bar (12 Adler), enjoying the cast of
characters and self-selecting visitors in my favorite haunt,
wishing there were more than a few single-seeming women there, and
having good
conversations with the regulars and others to pass the time--
while imagining how to build the venue-scanner to video and
reproduce the textures and morphology of the place on-line. It's
the quintesential bar, and deserves to live on as one of the first
public metaverse sites.
Oh... and then eating Vietnamese at a neighborhood dive after the
place closes, and maybe singing songs with the local minstrels and
bohemians, in the Adler Place cul-de-sac or in their nearby
garrets.

I stumbled into the/my US pub scene relatively recently. 'Would be
nice to have someone to join me, occasionally. ('Lotta gals seem to
have a not-for-me or "been there, done that" attitude RE the bar
scene, but I'm talking about a non-"scene" pub/local)

I am an ever more consummate hedonist, and recently decided to
include singing as part of my career, and as a previous
non-musician-identified person, I realized suddenly that I'm going
to have the un-pre-imaginable pleasure of lying next to a beautiful
girl-voice some day, and stroking out harmonies on/agains her voice
that will be like lightly drawing a cool dry finger tip across the
lip of an eyes-closed THC-enhanced psychonaut. I haven't lived. Oh
well, if a brick drops on me from the sky, at least I'll have
enjoyed the "new" of the direction the ride was turning in. [And,
Oh: if you are looking for a male lead vocalist, and are a female
lead without an act, romance can wait or be pursued elsewhere....
hit me up]

And mainly: After all that blather, I've given way too much info about myself
to have maintained enough mystery for those who would have liked
some (except about my profound masterfulness;>|, past and work
life, I guess... so perhaps this is OK)

Are open to friendship, or want to
- discuss anything with me for any reason at all.
- get advice (or give it), kindly,
- to share yourgreat
ideas,
- to help the Steering Committee
steer;

You would be interested in helping/forming/joining/discussing a
[huge] group to rule the world,

Or if for any
reason you feel like it... (will I get the message? Should you
just email/call?)

I'm new here, so I don’t know how it works yet, but I EXPECT that
you will assume I haven't received your message if I am
unresponsive (try elivasan at iahhooood ottcom, or calling me at
SF-area-code, sixowe ate oaf Ives Icks fore).

Oh, and If you happen to have achieved high/broad fluency in a
foreign language that you learned post-adolescently and/or
out-of-country, then we should exchange expertise on something
we're both somewhat expert at.

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OH... and irrespective of all else-- I'd REALLY like to do a little
photo-shoot exchange with anyone who wants to collaborate on making
each other look attractive with some artful Profile photos. It'll
be fun.