Friday, 8 October 2010

Cancer Moms

I love all of these women. Some of them I met for the 1st time last night, but it doesn't matter. Our situations have made us soulmates for life. I wish we had met under better circumstances, but I am grateful for your strength, for your love, and courage. You are the bravest women I know. We may be smiling in this picture, but we have seen each other at our very worst and it has only made us stronger. It is moments like last night where I am at the hospital for a good reason that keeps me going and keeps me fighting.

I love you ladies.

(We had another cute mom with us but she had to get back upstairs to be with her daughter before we could get a picture. It was so nice to meet you Marie and I am glad you decided to join us. I love you and I love Rachel. Keep fighting!)

I did not write this, but it's perfect.

I belong to a special group of womenMy friends and I have an amazing bond.We never wanted to be in this group,Yet we are in, for life.Maybe we have met, maybe we haven’t,Yet our love for each other is boundless.We know the pain the other one feels,And we share our victories small or huge.Words like chemo, IV, Zofran , bald headsAre always parts of our conversations,As well as roidrage, tears, and meltdowns…We always know where the closest puke bucket is,We can hold it in one hand and if necessary,Swallow the sandwich the other hand was holding.We can drive to the hospital,Park in the dark parking garageMake our way thru the halls of the hospitalAnd to the appropriate floor,Settle in a room, turn the TV on,Give instructions to the head nurse,Silence loud beeping IV pumps,Direct a wagon AND an IV poleTo the playroom without hitting anythingMake our way back to the correct roomAnd all this, mind you, With our eyes closed at any given time.We know how to draw blood from linesSticking out of little kids chests.We can hold them down with one hand,While a nasogastric tube is inserted in their little nose,And be on the phone with their dads at the same time.We can live for days on hospital food,And on maybe only one meal a day.We know the names of up to 20 different drugs,Their purpose, dosage and time to be taken.We are always on call, 24 hours a day,Seven days a week.We are used to not always looking our best,Hard to do with only a few hours of sleep.

Make up, hair styling, skirts are words of the past.We have become addicted to texting,hospital, clinic, home, wherever…We talk sometimes at all hours of the night,We know we can count on someone to be up.Then for one of us, the world stops.She has to walk away, broken.This job is over .The job is over, but the fight is on.Remember, I said we were in this forever.We are friends, sisters, temporary nurses,We are each others rock, each others punching bag,We listen, we vent, we cry, we laugh together.We share our lives and our deathsWe share our pain and our victories.We are strong, but not by choice,Sometimes we win, sometimes we lose,But never are we defeated.We are not nursesWe are not doctors,We are cancer moms…

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Quote To Live By

"Each morning when I open my eyes I say to myself: I, not events, have the power to make me happy or unhappy today. I can choose which it shall be. Yesterday is dead, tomorrow hasn't arrived yet. I have just one day, today, and I'm going to be happy in it."
-Groucho Marx