How do i get revenge?

Okay so, basically my partners ex wife is doing everything she can to ruin my life. She has rang social services on me numerous times and tries to ruin my relationship. She is now married to someone else and i dont know where she lives. I need ideas on how to ruin her marraige or **** something up in her life. Ive... show more Okay so, basically my partners ex wife is doing everything she can to ruin my life. She has rang social services on me numerous times and tries to ruin my relationship. She is now married to someone else and i dont know where she lives. I need ideas on how to ruin her marraige or **** something up in her life. Ive ignored it all for too long and she wont stop! Has anyone got any ideas? Thanks

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If you can prove these calls to social services are malicious in nature you may be able to file a police report about that. In all likelihood she'd just be warned to stop. But if getting her to stop is your goal that might be one way to accomplish it. Feeling the need to ruin her marriage or destroy her life is a bridge too far.

Why isn't your partner handling this? And why aren't you holding your partner accountable for fixing this? Finally, when you mention social services, this implies kids are involved. If they are, you have no business even thinking about revenge. No wonder today's kids are so messed up.

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Just LIVE. Most "bullies" or instigators are trying to get a rise out of you. Try your best to ignore their waste of life in making another's life just as miserable as theirs and LIVE your life as free as possible of their mess. Smile, be happy, ignore as much as possible. Defend yourself if you must, just do it with a "whatever" towards the troublemaker. Good luck :)

Your partner is the one who should have shut this down and protected you from her. The fact that you feel she is a threat to your relationship and that you need to fight back on your own speaks for itself. He is the one who has failed you. He is the one you need to confront. She is a problem because he allowed her to be one.

If you absolutely need to take some kind of action, talk to a lawyer. The false accusations and harassment might be grounds for a civil suit. Her strategy has been to use the system against you, so do the same to her. If you lash out in some petty or violent way, she can paint herself as the victim and sue you first. It won't matter that she instigated the conflict if you choose to escalate it.

Revenge isn't the answer; nothing good will come from it — Whenever you contemplate your actions, you should consider, "Will anything good come from this? Are these thoughts constructive or destructive?"

Revenge isn't worth it; just live your life and leave her alone — If she harasses you through social services again, consult with a lawyer and see if anything can be done about it.

If you lower yourself to her level, you will do a deed which you will regret and find yourself worse off through accountability — Revenge won't truly satisfy you and will create a thirst that cannot be quenched.

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How do i get revenge?

Okay so, basically my partners ex wife is doing everything she can to ruin my life. She has rang social services on me numerous times and tries to ruin my relationship. She is now married to someone else and i dont know where she lives. I need ideas on how to ruin her marraige or **** something up in her life. Ive ignored it all for too long and she wont stop! Has anyone got any ideas? Thanks