Quick Attachment and Instant Commitment (instant commitment may mean rapid detachment from you in the future).

Other common signs of a controller include: cycling from mean to sweet, blaming you in everything, making you drop outside interests and hobbies, tracking you, embarrassing you in public, and threatening you.

The controller uses their partner to satisfy their selfish need for control, making you lose your identity and peace of mind. If you feel unhappy, damaged and worthless, it might be time to break free from this relationship.

Maintain a positive attitude, follow your own dreams, and you will meet someone who will honestly and truly appreciate you.