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Always been a scientist; trial and error!
Nah, in my days you would never admit to wanking, prevailing authority stated it would cause you to go blind and deaf.
These days I wear specs and in noisy environments need to wear hearing aids which proves the point exactly but it took 60 years of self abuse to get there

I guess where I was going with this question was specific to my experience - as a young teen, truth or dare with some guy friends led to a year or two of us messing around with each other, which eventually resulted in "hey, look what happens if we put this slippery stuff on it and rub it up and down for a while".

So now many years later, generally straight (I'm curious, although I'll probably never act on it), I'm wondering how many other people messed around and learned to masturbate with friends?

I just started with anything I that would fit in there that I could have control over.......cucumbers, zuchinni , hairbrush etc........(the bigger the better, even back then....) I discovered the joy of clit stimulation by trial and error...... but there is no substitution for a hard cock and a clever tongue.....LOL

I started masturbating early i was still in diapers and i discoverd early i felt good if i rubbed my self down there. So i took any oppertunity i could. And my hand would rub my self thru my diaper and i would only stop after my mom yelling at me. Telling me thats gross. I know this to be true becauses my mom use to tell me storys how i embrassed her with my masturbating. I did it in the stores while mom was shopping i did it in the doctors office. I one time pulled it out of my diaper stroking it at my grandmas house during a fourth of july family bbq. In front of aunts, uncles , mom , dad , everybody. Mom told me the males all laughed and the females all were eewww make him stop. My mom yelled at me and spanked me hard. Ever since that day i always feel a twinge of guilt after i cum. Even to this very day i feel slightly bad for doing whats natural.

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I can't remember how old I was other than I was fairly young. I was stroking it in the locked bathroom while standing near the sink and I remember having my first dry orgasm. I stopped at first cause I wasn't expecting it (whole body shook and I almost fell to the floor) but it did not take me long to realize it felt incredible and I picked up where I left off.

Just explored myself really, I started with a hair brush which i think most girls do.

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OMG, I will never look at a hair brush the same.

I learned by trial and error. But it was probably one trial. haha. I don't remember my first time rubbing one out, but it didnt take much for me to figure it out. When I was in high school, I was hard probably 50% of every day, and mostly for no reason. It was actually really annoying, try walkimg around with a boner at school. And back then the jeans I wore were not baggy at all. I never really thought about it that much at the time, but looking back, I'm sure people noticed a bulge in my pants.
Anyhow, walking around with a boner that often I came to realize that simple stimulation, pretty much any kind, felt good. So when I was in the privacy of my home, I had to release, and I probably did release almost daily all through my teen years.
I was always at home, and did it solo. No experimenting at all. In fact, in my neighborhood, no one admitting to jerking off, it was something that others would rip on you for if the word got out.
I was super horny though, and at times, it would drive me crazy. Plus, being a teenager walking around with a bulge in my pants in public like schools or malls was extremely annoying. But I didnt dare relieve that until I got home.
It was better to deal with flack for walking around with a bulge, and at least I could brag about the size of the bulge, vs admitting or getting rumors started about jerking off. But in my neighborhood, guys never looked a each other pants, cause if you did and if you were caught staring at a guys crotch, there's a good chance you would get a lot of flack for that.
It really was something that no one talked about in my neighborhood.
If a guy wasn't getting off by having sex in the high school days, he just didnt talk about it.
My neighborhood was a combination of blue collar mentality, with kind of old school mixed in. Basically any kind of rumors outside of sex would pretty much ruin anyone's reputation to the main social circles at my HS.