In Love?? Maybe not

I bet you are wondering what am going to write about.. I mean love, who doesn’t know about it right? Hah! Tell that to your exes. See, I wouldn’t say I know so much about it, but I know enough to…..tangle my neurons into a knot! And did I mention that Cinderella,Tangled, Cuando seas mia, Better Days and even Rio didn’t help much!!

Have you ever been in love? Horrible isn’t it? It makes you so vulnerable. It opens your chest and opens your heart and it means someone can get inside you…and pretty much mess you up. And mess you up bad. Thats when you build all this defenses, you build up a whole suit of armour, you build up this wall, so that nothing can hurt you and nobody can harm you. Then one stupid person, wonders into your stupid life …actually, amazingly awesome calm life…you give them a piece of you. They didn’t ask for it. No they didn’t. They did something dumb one day, like kiss you or smile at you or call you or sms you or DM you or mention you or inbox you, and then your life isn’t yours anymore..
Love takes you hostage! It gets inside you, fills you up, it eats you out and leaves you crying in the darkness. So simple a phrase like ‘maybe we should just be friends’ or ‘It’s over’ or ‘ I’m sorry I cheated’, turns into a glass splinter working its way into your heart. Every second becoming unbearable. It hurts, the real gets-inside-you-and-rips-you-apart pain. Leaving you hopeless, full of sadness, almost Lifeless.

I Know, I bet you’ve been there done that. But Hold Up! Despite all that, Brad Pitt and Angelina Jolie are real. So is Khloe & Lemar, Obama & Michelle, Will & Kate and Nameless & Wahu. (Sorry, I tried looking up for more local couples but I came up nil.) So Yeah! True Love, apparently exists. Sometimes it doesn’t just happen in fairy tales. Love is an amazing thing. Love, can be the best thing ever. Elevating, lifts and lightens you up. A special world for you, making life more bearable, always hopeful. You get warmed by their presence, even when they are away. (Somebody probably popped up in you head huh?) Miles don’t separate you. You have so many wonderful little films in your head that you keep replaying…and keep making up. Knowing you could never find that feeling with anyone other than them. Even when they annoy you, you just cant seem to stay mad at them. That one person you can be completely stupid with. One you are completely yourself with.
Your hearts, always one. I’m talking Fondness. Happiness. Satisfaction. Trust. Love.

I think what I’m trying to say is, maybe you should give it a try. It wouldn’t break a bone. Good Luck! You’ll need it!