Tips for the Best Sex Ever

THE SEDUCTION FOR THE BEST SEX: When it comes to foreplay, there’s nothing racier—or more versatile—than the trusty hand job. You can engage in manual labor almost any time, and any place, and you don’t even have to get fully undressed.

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SETTING THE SCENE: Unless you know for a fact that your man likes you to stroke his penis dry, be sure to have a good lubricant nearby. Start by telling him that tonight, it’s all about him. With your most seductive voice, let him know that you’ve learned some new techniques, and you’want to test them out on him.

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TECHNIQUES FOR THE BEST SEX: Don’t just go right for his member. Get him excited first with lots of deep kissing. Caress his shoulders, chest, and back, and when the time is right, slide your hand down his chest and stomach to his bulge. Gently massage his erection. Undo his belt buckle, open all the buttons, or unzip the zipper all the way. Once you’ve liberated his penis, you’re ready to play.

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First, press one hand firmly against the base of his member, your thumb and forefinger forming an “L” to hold him at attention. Then grip him with the lubed hand, putting your forefinger and thumb at the bottom and your pinky at the top, near the ridge. Holding his staff securely, with the same pressure as you’d use on a baseball bat, slide up to the top. When you get to the head, instead of going back down the way you came, twist over the head and caress it with your palm and fingers in a swiveling motion. (Imagine trying to screw in a light bulb with an open hand.) But don’t linger: quickly descend the other side, pinky finger first. Keep your hand in contact with his staff at all times; he won’t want you to let go.

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THE SEDUCTION FOR THE BEST SEX: This seduction lends itself well to those long hot summer days when you want to get out of town for a little R&R. The sense that you’re almost in public, but not quite, makes fooling around in your car that much hotter.

SETTING THE SCENE: Go for a spin in the countryside, and head toward a secluded (but safe) road. You don’t want to have a police officer tapping on your window just as things get hot and heavy, or risk exposing yourselves to passersby. Dress for success: gals should wear a skirt and guys should wear loose, comfortable clothing.

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Throughout this scenario, keep in mind that while it’s okay to engage in limited foreplay on the road (if at all), save your orgasm for the roadside. Anything else could be distracting, and that equals dangerous. Sure, the risk is part of the appeal to this seduction, but we’re talking about the implied risk of exposure, not risk to life and limb.

TECHNIQUES FOR THE BEST SEX: Rev your engines by letting your hands graze across each other’s thighs and lap. Gals, rub your man once, lightly, through his pants—just enough to hint at the delights to come. Reach under your skirt and stroke yourself, but tell him not to look. Guys, once you’ve stopped the car someplace safe where you’re not going to be interrupted, you can let her guide your hand between her legs.

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Now the real fun begins. Be as naughty as you dare. Let your hands roam over each other’s bodies and take each other right up to the brink of orgasm. Lean over and take him in your mouth. If he was the one driving, pull him into the passenger seat, and climb on top of him with your knees on either side of his hips. Or turn away from him, so you can brace your hands on the dashboard as you bounce up and down on his lap.

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THE SEDUCTION FOR THE BEST SEX: In this seduction, a favorite vibrator turns great oral sex into fantastic oral sex.

SETTING THE SCENE: To heighten anticipation, pick out a vibrator. She won’t know exactly what you have in mind, which will make it even more exciting. A small battery vibrator will work best, because you won’t be tethered to an electrical cord and power outlet.

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TECHNIQUES FOR THE BEST SEX: First, make sure she’s relaxed and comfortable. Slide a pillow under her bottom to make it more comfortable for both of you. Don’t just dive straight for her clitoris: warm her up with lots of deep kissing and teasing. Then, turn the vibrator on low and put it under your tongue as you lick and probe her delicate folds, moving slowly up to her love button. After a bit, move the vibrator to her vaginal opening or anus as you continue to pleasure her. Communication will be key here. Encourage her to tell you where she would like you to use both your tongue and the vibrator, and to let you know if the toy distracts her as she gets closer to orgasm.

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If the combination of vibrator and tongue becomes too stimulating for either of you, you can put the toy aside and turn yourself into a human sex toy by humming as you lick and suck her. Even if you’re simply moaning in delight, the vibrations from the sound will underscore the pleasure you’re giving her with your tongue.

EXTRA CREDIT: When it’s your turn, let her caress you with her vibrator as she goes down on you. Ask her to hold her vibrator against the base of your penis or testicles, press it to your perineum, or circle it around your anus.