How do I heal a broken friendship with my best guy-friend?

I'm not exactly sure why we drifted apart. I think it might possible be because our friendship was based a lot on sex. Then I didn't want to do that...
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I'm not exactly sure why we drifted apart. I think it might possible be because our friendship was based a lot on sex. Then I didn't want to do that anymore. He used to call me and talk to me till three or talk to me daily at school at any second he got a chance. Now he only talks to me once a day, never calls, and has sex with a ton of girls. He says I love you, and I say it back... I think he means it. I just called him to thank him for always being there and he said you're welcome. The conversation was one side and lasted four minutes. I. DONT. WANT. TO. LOSE. HIM. Did I break his heart? Did I offend him?

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i don't think that you broke his heart. I think like you said (the friendship was mainly based on sex) so he mightve felt that there was nothing that was connecting you guys any longer other than the sex. that's almost like someone being silly all the time and when they decide to be serious with you, you won't take them seriously because of their previous behavior. so once he got used to it, he moved on

Not really, you might have wanted to go anonymous for this question, if you didn't want me calling you out on your bullsh*t

Asker

What the f***? What bullsh*t? I have sex under the age of 18, SUE ME. I flirt with guys I like because I'm single, how is that bad? I didn't say I wanted to date my best guy friend I want him to be my friend again. What part of that aren't you able to comprehend?

Opinion Owner

You shouldn't be having sex under 18. You flirt with guys while having sex with your best friend (that's wrong).

Asker

Uh okay, almost everyone has sex under 18 besides Napoleon Dynamite, and you. I said I flirt with guys after we stopped having sex. I was flirting with that guy in the beginning of September we stopped having sex in August. Get off my back because you obviously aren't getting the details straight and you don't know what you're talking about.

Opinion Owner

Did I say I was under 18? No and like I said, why are you flirting with guys while having sex with others. That's wrong

Asker

Well you obviously never had sex under 18 if you're telling me not too, unless you're a hypocrit. Also you can't read, becuase I just clearly stated that I wasn't flirting with other guys while I was having sex. "I was flirting with that guy in the beginning of September we stopped having sex in August."

Opinion Owner

I didn't want to have sex under 18 and you shouldn't be having sex under 18. Still, it doesn't matter when it happened. The fact is, you were having sex with one guy while flirting with others. And I'm simply calling you out on it

Asker

CAN YOU NOT READ? I'VE SAID LIKE FOUR TIMES THAT I WAS NOT, I REPEAT WAS NOT FLIRTING WITH ONE GUY AND HAVING SEX WITH ANOTHER

Opinion Owner

Yes, you were. If you weren't you would have stopped replying to me a while ago