Restricting Condoms, Where To Ejaculate

condoms ruin everything

Sometimes I feel that I don't get as much sensation when I use a condom, and I feel constricted when making love. It gets really annoying because I feel so ready. Sometimes I also experience premature ejaculation, but I don't think it is a result of sexual dysfunction because I get it up so easily.

I'm only 17 and this is my first sexual girlfriend, so I think it has a lot to do with anxiety. It only seems to happen when I'm fully naked and not when I have clothes on. I feel a lot of pressure and I always think of pleasuring her before we are actually doing anything, and my penis sometimes leaks a little bit.

John

With time, you will gain more control sexually. But you need to concentrate on what's important here. Take your time with foreplay; take the focus off of orgasm and place it on enjoying each other. Kiss her body, lick her neck; don't worry about her orgasm or yours for that matter.

With time, you'll understand both your body and hers more. And yes, a condom is very constricting, but in this day and age, it's the best thing for both of you. If you plan on remaining strictly monogamous and you have both been tested for STDs, then she can take the Pill and you can stop using a condom.

And she's with you because she wants to be, so don't be embarrassed about being naked; enjoy her body and let her enjoy yours.

Donald Zimmer

men get yeast?

My girlfriend gets a yeast infection every time I go down on her — I have no clue why. Is there any way to prevent this? I don't want to use a latex barrier — we are absolutely monogamous.

Dano, MI

It's quite possible that you have a yeast infection or a buildup of candida (yeast) in your mouth as well (commonly referred to as thrush ). If you do, then you'll keep passing it back and forth. See a doctor and get treated.

Donald Zimmer

i smell like hot garbage

I am a female and I smell really bad. I am so embarrassed when I get intimate with a guy. How can I reduce the odor or just get rid of it?

Help me please.

Gina, IL

Body odor is usually caused by anger, bacteria, drugs, heat, menstruation, nervousness, physical activity, sexual arousal, strong smelling food, sweat, and a zinc deficiency. In other more severe cases, it may indicate more serious conditions such as fungal infections, diabetes, or gastrointestinal disorders.

Use antibacterial soaps and deodorants to start. As well, I recommend that you visit your doctor and tell him or her about your problem. Although douching is not the healthiest alternative, your doctor may recommend doing it on occasion.