usually the booze is the given, what grill arrangement and what to bring for food is the dilemma. chilis, stews, meatballs, even pulled pork is good if theres a big burner, on a grill sausages tips, even a pork loin

Plus one on the Pepermint Schnapps. I drank a whole 1/5th when I was a teenager. It's still kind of hard to eat peppermint candy, funny how stuff like that works. Another good one is the Root Beer Schnapps