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Thursday, September 27, 2012

Neil and I met at Youth Group at the Church of Christ
in Wollongong,
I was 15 years old and Neil, 17. He was one of the young leaders and within a
year we were ‘girlfriend and boyfriend’, which meant that when
the youth group went on outings we sat together and held hands.
When Neil got his driver’s license he began to take me home after youth group - along with the two or three friends who came with me.

However, it wasn’t long before we had decided that we were
in love and wanted to spend our lives together. We were married in July of 1967
and over the following four years had our two children. I had never wanted any
more for my life than to be happily married, with a family, and supporting my
husband in his work life and his Christian service. Neil was quite ambitious
and was studying to be an engineer. He was a natural leader at church and soon
moved into a position on the church board. I was the happy homemaker and
mother.

When our second child was almost ready to start
school, I began to sense a call from God to do something more with my life. It
was as much a surprise to me as it was to Neil, and didn’t sit easily with him
at all. It was with a great deal of prayer and consultation, that I applied to
go to University and study psychology, and a difficult stage of our marriage
ensued. I battled with how to obey God and honour my husband, and for the first
few years of my studies, there was tension in our relationship and I went
through times of great doubt.

Eventually we both realised that God was leading us into a
different kind of life and relationship than we had originally anticipated – a
fuller and more satisfying life. God showed Himself to be faithful to us both.
He helped us both grow into the people He needed us to be, for each other and
for the service and giftings He had for us.I have been practicing as a psychologist now for over twenty
years and currently have a part time practice which operates from my home. It’s
a great blessing to help others with their problems and
suffering, and my calling in that area has been confirmed over and over.

A great bonus came for me twelve years ago when
God led me to turn a hobby – researching my family history – into authoring
historical novels. This has been a wonderful blessing to me and has been fully
supported by Neil. Stepping into new and unexpected roles and adventures has
been a hallmark of our lives as we look back. Even though we have had the ups
and downs that most couples face as new stages of life and new challenges
arise, both of us have experienced more than we could ever have imagined, and
we’re very grateful for the life God has given us. As parents and grandparents,
as partners in Christian service, as husband and wife, we thank God for His
grace and providence.

Thanks Carol for generously sharing what it takes to make a marriage work. And how the Lord blesses us.

Rita Stella Galieh

About this Blog

It's exciting to trace God-incidences in lives, especially the unique way He leads His own children. He not only directs their paths, but also causes their path to intersect with the one person who will love and cherish them forever. This blog is written to encourage both young and mature women to pray about and wait for that special person God places in their path. Proverbs 3:5-6 holds a definite promise for a joyous and purpose-filled life. Why not share your story with me so I can publish it here? Email me: ritagalieh(at)gmail(dot)com.

Those We Love

They say the world is round,And yet I often think it's square;So many little hurts we getFrom corners here and there.There is one truth in life I've foundWhile journeying east and west,The only folk we really woundAre those we love the best.

The choicest garb,The sweetest grace,Are oft to strangers shown;The careless word,The frowning face,Are given to our own.We flatter those we scarcely know,We please the fleeting guest,And deal full many a thoughtlessBlow to those we love the best.