All of that points to your own uneducated status. You must the one of those losers that have left that have failed in this country. Another I know is Viking. Echarcha left due to personal reason so I wont call him failure. But it is really hard to fail in this country unless you screw up and you did.
Looking at how active you are in virtual world, I am sure you don't have good friends in real world.

Most of the points you make above are signs of your personal failure and not failure of the country. I came here as H1 and went the journey to citizen. I can today afford Bai, Ramu kaka , plumber , handy man all of it. Of course not like the Indian slavery model but my maid comes three times a week to help my wife with house work and jhadu pocha and if we have a party she stay whole day. we pay her $12/hr. I have a plumber, handy man I call when I need to fix anything. We pay him $15/hr. Its simple, because if I stop my business and do house hold work I will lose around 250/hr and that makes everything justified.

SO you just need to be a little smart and not worry about gap in toilet but worry about gap in your ass to make life work.....