I'm not sure why, but over the years I have come to be embarrassed of my body (physically) and to hate physical touch. This is a real problem, mostly because I am married, and am having obvious issues doing what I should be (I don't want to be explicit on a public forum). I have managed to hide it thus far, but I need help desperately. Is there anything I can do (short of therapy, because I don't want anyone to find out, and anyway I'd be way too embarrassed)?

I think you'd have to explain it more. How does it feel? Did you enjoy being with your husband before? How long have you been married? Has anything changed at all? Do you have any other mental health symptoms? Do you have kids? Are you on any medication? Are you on birth control?

i dont know if this is helpful but i was looking at a book in the library called 'to touch is to live'. she explained why people dont want to touch in this society and the reasons behind touching, the effects etc. Im sorry if this is not my place here. just wanted to mention the book in the slight chance it might help.

Sorry, i didn't understand your question. No, I never enjoyed intimacy. I use Camilla, no it is not hormonal because I am nursing. My child is still a baby. I am ok with him completely but not with my friends or any other adult.

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