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Needing advice bout getting my tubes tide

Hello, I am currently 22 years old and will be turning 23 in May. I will also be having my 2ND child in May. So i will have my boy and my girl.. I'm really needing advice about if i should get my tubes tide or not.. I always wanted 3 kids but my body doesn't handle pregnancy well (words even came from my doctor) and i also have other medical problems that by getting my tubes tide might fix or help the problem.. So please help me with any advice you could give. Thank you.

this. but i had mine done. For me the benifits of a tubal out weighed the risks and a third child I KNEW we could never afford confortably. just make a pro con list. that might help make your decision for you.

I personally would never get my tubes tied but in your position... maybe. It's ultimately your decision. Have you talked to your hubby about it ? I've always wanted 2 kids as well. But Dh wants a big family and even tho being pregnant sucks sometimes, I'm still going to aim for about 3-4 kids.. I'm 22 as well so I know that if I get it "out of the way" now then I wont have to worry about pregnancy in the future. Good luck in whatever youu decide and congrats :)

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