Feeling bored and lonely???

One of the Google search results for “how to spend time when feeling bored“. Had been feeling bored for some time so as Google has been the solution to all the problems, tried finding ways to pass time through the search engine. While surfing through the results came through a counselling webpage where some people expressed their reasons of feeling lonely expecting some solution to it from the counsellor. But none of the solutions were motivating enough and none of the reasons matched with mine. Some of the sample reasons – “feeling lonely because I don’t know what am I going to do when I graduate“, “feeling lonely because I am not aware what I want from life“.. Too serious reasons for me to get lonely… And some funny ones like A guy had expressed the reason as “feel lonely because I don’t have a girl friend“. I think for him the solution of dating can be useful. I think after reading these reasons my loneliness has disappeared. What was my reason for being lonely?? Let me think…Not that I’m around people that often. May be not seeing my friend since morning made me feel lonely. Not a bad reason for a tryst with boredom :)

But really tough dear to kill time when you don’t have anything to do, don’t have anyone to talk to, don’t feel like doing even things that you enjoy. Sometimes life is too busy to find time for anything, and sometimes it gets so boring that one has to find things to kill time. My favourite time pass has been surfing through internet but today didn’t enjoy that also. Tried killing time surfing through blogs, reading email archivals. Reading previous mails of your friends in your Yahoo, Gmail, Rediffmail can be a very good way of spending time through which you can relive some of the past good memories…How could I forget orkutting??? But unfortunately got bored of that also…. A hard day but could successfully end the day without any feeling like harming myself(it happens when ur loneliness increase :o Courtesy:Google) with this post..Now its 10 minutes to 0000 hours.

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hiiiiiii……… i m sachin.me studying at cochin university of science and technology.
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Uhm i read what the author wrote and i really feel the exact same way as himself lol i mean i dont know the reason behind feeling so bored all the time..i try to find things to pass the time …i surf d net alot but even surfing the net is boring now..all i can do is surf d net since im at work..i need to make some changes in my life BUT unfortunately i dont know what changes i would like to do…i mean i cut my hair for a change but still this boredom keeps knocking my door..its not that i donthave any friends..i have also a boyfriend but for some mysterious reason im feeling so bored all the time…maybe i work too much or maybe life has become only a boring routine…its so sad feeling bored..i mean its been for a week now..i feel as thouygh something is missing in my life..new things..i really need a change .. i really need to do something i really like..i love travelling but i cant travel too often..so what can i do..i need a hobby…:)

I’m evil and psychotic. When I get bored, I have evil thoughts running through my head. I need help, for I fear I will kill somebody. When I’m not lonely I’m fine, but nowadays, nothing I do fills the void.

well i think you need to search and find out why we are really in this world, what is the purpose of life? we are not here for no reason. do some research on different religions. what i say to everybody is, actually there is no such thing as depression. it is only there if you want it to be there. you need to find out what is causing all this.if anything happened in your past, then just leave it to God. But if it is fixable then try to fix it.i feel that time is running because it feels as if i have only started my duties and have a long way to go. i’m a Muslim, i hope i haven’t offended you by responding. but i think when you do what your meant to do then the time flies. we Muslims we believe we’re here to only Worship Allah and believe that Muhammed is the messenger of Allah. And to live peacefully by helping others. 1) to declare that there are no Gods but Allah, 2) pray 5 times a day, 3)give charity, 4)fast on the month of Ramadan and finally 5)going to pilgrimage to Mecca.beleive me the reason i’m telling all this my friend is because i use to feel exactly the same way as you. when i first got married i told my partner to stay away from me, cos i thought i was gonne hurt my partner. slowly i fixed myself now i’m a new person. i love life i feel it’s flying. everyday is a precious gift. I hope you start loving life, try going swimming. spend more time with your parents especially with your mum. any way if i have offended you in anyway’s please forgive me. believe me you are not alone. when one door of happiness closes another door of happiness opens!take care

hey this article was good but we all feel these kind of feelings some or other time of life even i have felt that all the topics of life had finished i am feeling all alone so something has to be done as even i have lot of frnds but i dint not felt any change at this moment of time ok time s great healer only time ll give me answer

hiii…i feel lonely beacause i dont find the meaning of my life..also i need someone who care for me and support me in all conditions..whomever it may be a friend or gf..but i have nothing..this makes me upset….????????????????????????

I was also feeling lonely and boring because I was not knowing what to get from life.Then I thought why not to do community services.Visit a old age home or NGO and do some work for them.Then you feel some happyness and definitely this feel goodness will give a new direction to life.

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