I guess my problem is, I was born in 51, (close to the 40's) we live in a very small cozy home made house that heats with one heater. I have my own circle drive (dirt) so I never have to back out, and even on the main road 700 feet down my dirt drive there is no traffic. So there is no next door for me. There is no apartment complex in the village, not even a stop light. Living in the sticks has it's perks. Just like Delphi Classic. But I can't control what happens here so I will chill out a while and see what happens.

Magnet, thanks so much! Perhaps that's what happened; that the messages not sent through Zeta didn't convert to Zeta format? Or they were sent before there WAS a zeta, if that makes sense. I really want those messages back; like you some were from friends that have passed away and they mean more than just the message itself. I would have sent them to my email or saved them in some way if I had known they would go away--some went back as far as 2010. And I also have been seeing PMs I deleted long ago. Please CC anything you like--but if I am CC'd, the message appears in my inbox but I get a red "Error in attempting to delete" message and it stays stuck there. Any help much appreciated!

I guess I am behind.. My last thought on it would be this. Instead of an x by each message, it would be nice to have a empty box beside all messages in the conversation, then a "select all" button that selects all the empty boxes, then we could manually uncheck the ones we want to keep, and hit a delete button. That's how GMail and Yahoo mail work, and my online spam catcher. I do use PM's for later reference, so many I do keep. Just wishing. Thanks Gunter.