It may be that they are looking at your best interests and simply want to make sure your dreams and aspirations and clearly thought out.

They may also be looking out for your safety.

From the years 11-13 I found myself in a very difficult position with many thoughts of suicide. I thought my parents didn't love me because of similar reasons. They spent so much time and effort with my brother's because they were in sports.

In reality, they just didn't know how to bridge the gap between us because I had become so distant with my youthful frustration. They had tried, but with hormones so high I would fly off of the handle and run to my room yelling and crying.

Try to listen to what your parents are saying beneathe their actual words, and ask yourself what you would do if you were a parent with children.

I'm not sure what the issue is, but I'd like to talk about it more if you would.