Swift, 26, and Hiddleston, 35, have been seen everywhere from her parents’ home in Nashville, Tennessee to his parents’ home in Suffolk, England’s Ipswich this week in an effort to get in good with one another’s families. It could be they’re just wildly traditional this way, dead-set on getting “adult” approval before moving forward, or it could be their effort to craft the media sensation that Swift’s fresh ex Calvin Harrisclaims this all is.

“Taylor was hesitant to get involved so quickly after Adam [Calvin Harris],” a source toldE! News, “but she she felt that Adam was not giving her what she wanted for sometime so she was ready to move on towards the tail end of their relationship anyway.”