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A Flight of Fancy Taken Unaccompanied

Question About Tagging Fics and Sex

I have a question about tagging my bookmarks in my Pinboard account. I’ve been going through and labeling stories with top!Sam and top!Dean tags. (I don’t care but some people do, and it makes it faster to do a sort when searching for a rec.)

Anyway, if say Sam is lying on his back and Dean is riding him cowboy-style, is Dean topping because he is literally on top, or is Sam topping because he’s the one doing the inserting? What is the determining factor?

Same thing with blowjobs, if the story basically is a PWP focusing on a blowjob. Who is the person topping – the person doing the blowing, or the person being blown?

And I need to file this under “Things I Never Thought I Would Need To Ask.”