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Saturday, August 4, 2012

Parent kills 17 year old girl for refusing marriage

LONDON
(AP) — The girl was murdered by her Pakistani parents for her Western
ways. And it was her little sister who bravely told jurors how her
mother and father suffocated the 17-year-old with a plastic bag —
gripping testimony that led to her parents' murder conviction on Friday.

Justice
Roderick Evans sentenced Iftikhar, 52, and Farzana Ahmed, 49, to life
in prison for killing their daughter, Shafilea, in 2003. The couple —
first cousins from the Pakistani village of Uttam — were ordered to
serve a minimum of 25 years in prison.

"She was being squeezed
between two cultures — the culture and way of life that she saw around
her and wanted to embrace, and the culture and way of life you wanted to
impose on her," Evans said during the sentencing at the Chester Crown
Court in northwest England.

In Britain, more than 25 women have
been killed in so-called "honor killings" in the past decade. Families
have sometimes lashed out at their children on the belief that they have
brought their household shame by becoming too westernized or by
refusing a marriage.

Shafilea was only 10 when she began to rebel
against her parents' strict rules, according to prosecutor Andrew Edis.
The young girl would hide make-up, false nails and western clothes at
school, changing into conservative clothes before her parents picked her
up.

But it was the last year of her life that proved to be the
most traumatic. During the trial that began in May, jurors heard from
Shafilea's younger sister, Alesha, who said she witnessed the murder
when she was 12.

After an argument about Shafilea's dress, her
parents pushed her down on a couch, stuffed a thin white plastic bag
into her mouth and held their hands over her mouth and nose until she
died, Alesha testified.

As she was struggling, her mother said,
"just finish it here," according to Alesha's testimony. Although
Shafilea's other siblings contradicted the testimony, the last-minute
emergence of a diary convinced jurors.

The diary belonged to a
friend of one of Shafilea's other sisters, Mev. In it, the friend relays
conversations she had with the sister about the night Shafilea died —
details that supported Alesha's testimony.

"The strong message
goes out and should be very clear: If you engage in honor killings — if
you engage in forced marriages — you will be caught and brought to
justice," said Mohammed Shafiq, chief executive of the Manchester-based
Ramadhan Foundation, a Muslim organization.

When Shafilea became a
teenager, she became interested in boys — something that spurred
punishment from her parents. School officials alerted social services in
October 2002 after Shafilea came to school with injuries to her face.
That same month, Shafilea told a social worker that she was to be
married in Pakistan in February 2003.

In January 2003, she ran
away, telling friends her parents would not leave her alone. She
eventually returned. In February 2003, she ran away again and pleaded
with British authorities to allow her to move out of her parents' house
because, she said, they were abusive and trying to force her into an
arranged marriage.

Some of Shafilea's own words also proved
compelling to jurors. In the application form to move out, she said she
had suffered from regular domestic violence from the age of 15. "One
parent would hold me whilst the other hit me," she said.

Her
father snatched her off the streets, however, in the same month as the
application. He bundled her into a car and took her to Pakistan against
her will, Alesha said. In protest, Shafilea drank bleach and was brought
back to Britain in May 2003. She spent eight weeks in the hospital
trying to recover from damage done to her throat.

Even in her
weakened and desperate state, Shafilea's parents were relentless. One
night, her parents complained she was wearing a T-shirt and wasn't
properly covered up, according to Alesha. The younger sister said
Shafilea struggled and struggled as her parents held her down.

Alesha
described that after the attack, her siblings ran upstairs and she
watched as her father carried Shafilea's body to the car wrapped in a
blanket. She was reported missing shortly after, with her parents making
a teary-eyed media appeal for information leading to their daughter.

But
police were suspicious — so much so that they bugged the house.
Shafilea's decomposed remains were eventually discovered in the River
Kent in Cumbria in February 2004, but it wasn't until 2010 that Alesha
provided the key testimony.

Last year, the British government's
Forced Marriage Unit investigated more than 1,400 cases of forced
marriages, most of which occur in Muslim communities. Britain is home to
more than 1.8 million Muslims, most from Pakistani roots.