aaaaand new favorite tumblr. I think I have to make 2 separate tumblr accounts so I can see only posts from blogs I love. Either that or deal with the shiitake show that comes from unfollowing a lot of my friends.

aaaaand new favorite tumblr. I think I have to make 2 separate tumblr accounts so I can see only posts from blogs I love. Either that or deal with the shiitake show that comes from unfollowing a lot of my friends.

Would they really notice? I would have no idea if someone unfollowed me (admittedly I am very sporadic with tumbling). And if i did notice, I wouldn't care. Maybe they didn't like my reblogs of awesome feminist quotes. Maybe they hate adorable, adorable kittens. Whatever. People need to set the boundaries that make them feel safe and I'm happy every time somebody does that.

_________________"I'd rather have dried catshit! I'd rather have astroturf! I'd rather have an igloo!"~Isa

"But really, anyone willing to dangle their baby in front of a crocodile is A-OK in my book."~SSD

aaaaand new favorite tumblr. I think I have to make 2 separate tumblr accounts so I can see only posts from blogs I love. Either that or deal with the shiitake show that comes from unfollowing a lot of my friends.

Would they really notice? I would have no idea if someone unfollowed me (admittedly I am very sporadic with tumbling). And if i did notice, I wouldn't care. Maybe they didn't like my reblogs of awesome feminist quotes. Maybe they hate adorable, adorable kittens. Whatever. People need to set the boundaries that make them feel safe and I'm happy every time somebody does that.

I think some of them (especially my ex) would notice. They pretty much live on Tumblr and I've seen at least one of them post some sort of when-I-lose-a-follower reaction GIF. I'm just concerned they'll notice and ask about it (probably assuming it's a mistake) and I don't want to go into my reasons with them, though I know I don't owe them an explanation. I should just do it anyway and see. It could just be ignored. Or maybe they'll just assume I don't like them. either way it's fine.

Has anyone tried Match? I know you can't tell if people are members because I have a profile and keep getting emails that someone chose me, whatever that means. But there might be some different guys there than on OKC which could be good.

I was on match for a sum total of less than two months. I liked it just fine and only stopped using it because I met my sweetie (on match.) I haven't used any other online dating, though, so I can't compare. There were tons of people in my age range and area but some others here have complained that the match pickings were slim for them, so your mileage may vary.

I joined OKC after splitting up with my GF in Portland (who forking sucks and who I just finally told off for all her crazy bullshiitake). My experiences so far have been ...interesting. I think I met a couple good friends who I'd never have met who are into the same movies and music I'm into. So I guess this whole online world works in some way or another. It's a cold lonely existence, and while getting laid is great and all, finding someone to cuddle up with to watch an obscenely disgusting horror movies is even more great.

_________________"oh by the way I'm in this band...""Your band sucks."-Rubella

Went from very happily seeing two people for about a month and then (within a week of each other) one dropped off the face of the earth with no real explanation and the other dropped a relationship ultimatum on me.

I HATE it when people disappear. I need closure! And this wasn't one date, this was seeing each other every week for a month.Who does that? Mars, the ultimatum would sound even more nuts if you knew the specifics. Dude was way intense.

Some guy who I talked to online maybe 6 months ago texted me today "single?". When we were talking online he was on of those flaky types hesitant to get anything going and then I was already involved with someone else. I find it interesting he still texts me every now and then, if it was me I would probably have forgotten about me if that much time had gone by and we had never met in meat space.