The world is set to crucify you even when life is at its lowest. I awoke at 5a.m today, so agitated with the world. Facing pressure from every angle of my life; family, education, finances, career and relationships (friendships included). Everything seems to be crumbling down.

Dear ladies, it is at this point that you have a prep talk with yourself and choose to leave anything toxic that does not aid in growth behind. Dump it in the dust bin and focus on you because now you are reclaiming back the power you once placed in wrongful hands that did nothing but take advantage of you. Remember how you had little time to study and your grades were now, now you do. How fake friendships used to make you feel bad, now they do not. How lovers played and took advantage of you and you would get upset. All this is nonsense and is not irritating your skin any more. That’s the beauty of overcoming storms.

Tables have turned and are now in your favour. Baby girl, you are in control of your world. Pour yourself a good glass of red wine, or pineapple juice, listen to your favourite song e.g. he’s able, while you dot up your goals. Then dance a little because it’s all about to come to fruition. You are a queen, only you, can define you.