Kanika | The PandaKanika | The Panda2018-03-19Have you ever seen someone's relationship pictures or their travel images and felt bad thinking why you have none? Have you silently envied them for having such a perfect life? Have you ever felt alone feeling miserable for not having what they have?
I love social media, but there are few things I find really toxic on it. RelationshipGoals is one of them. Social media has made an imaginary image of what our life should look like and I feel everyone is following the crowd. Social Media is filled with pictures of cute quotes, couples taking a vacation together, someone getting proposed and all are tagged with “relationship goals”. Most of us look at these images and wish for the perfection that is captured at that moment, forgetting that in reality, nothing is perfect. Most people are so busy making other peoples relationships as their goals and they are not even looking at what they have.
Basically, there's way too much comparison happening. Pick one picture of a couple and you will find a zillion of GOALS comments flooding it, girls tagging their partner in something that someone else's boyfriend did for them and seemingly expect their boyfriend to do the same.
The problem occurs when people start celebrating celebrity relationships, thinking that this is how relationships actually are. They feel disheartened and sad if they feel their relationship isn’t like theirs. They somewhere want all of it.
Just because a couple posts a picture of a beach at sunset does not mean they have a perfect relationship.Anyone can post a cute picture with their significant other on social media. It doesn't mean their relationship is better than yours because how do you know the story behind that relationship? How do you know of their struggles to build that relationship? You know nothing of their relationship and their struggles to keep it. Understand it's just silly to aspire to be someone that you're not and wishing your relationship looked like someone else's just undermines all that good that you and your partner already have, so please stop comparing the two.
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Have you ever seen someone's relationship pictures or their travel images and felt bad thinking why you have none? Have you silently envied them for having such a perfect life? Have you ever felt alone feeling miserable for not having what they have?
I love social media, but there are few things I find really toxic on it. RelationshipGoals is one of them. Social media has made an imaginary image of what our life should look like and I feel everyone is following the crowd. Social Media is filled with pictures of cute quotes, couples taking a vacation together, someone getting proposed and all are tagged with “relationship goals”. Most of us look at these images and wish for the perfection that is captured at that moment, forgetting that in reality, nothing is perfect. Most people are so busy making other peoples relationships as their goals and they are not even looking at what they have.
Basically, there's way too much comparison happening. Pick one picture of a couple and you will find a zillion of GOALS comments flooding it, girls tagging their partner in something that someone else's boyfriend did for them and seemingly expect their boyfriend to do the same.
The problem occurs when people start celebrating celebrity relationships, thinking that this is how relationships actually are. They feel disheartened and sad if they feel their relationship isn’t like theirs. They somewhere want all of it.
Just because a couple posts a picture of a beach at sunset does not mean they have a perfect relationship.Anyone can post a cute picture with their significant other on social media. It doesn't mean their relationship is better than yours because how do you know the story behind that relationship? How do you know of their struggles to build that relationship? You know nothing of their relationship and their struggles to keep it. Understand it's just silly to aspire to be someone that you're not and wishing your relationship looked like someone else's just undermines all that good that you and your partner already have, so please stop comparing the two.
All relationships are messy and complicated. ( Read the first comment for full content )

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