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He self-deleted? That sucks. I disagreed with him like 2/3 of the time but I enjoyed his presence.

Oh man, I can't believe I forgot how awesome Married with Children was. So glad I randomly found it on VH1Classics.

Non sequiturs are awesome.

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Originally Posted by Ram

I disagree with him on practically everything. There was one thing that I agree with him but I decide to disagree with him because it was easier that way.

I didn't get his whole "here I'm going to start a discussion, but no, I don't want your input, and I can't be bothered to go to twitter or blogspot." "Oh and then I'll put you on ignore for disagreeing with me." Why even be posting in a forum.

I didn't get his whole "here I'm going to start a discussion, but no, I don't want your input, and I can't be bothered to go to twitter or blogspot." "Oh and then I'll put you on ignore for disagreeing with me." Why even be posting in a forum.

Are we still talking about Enchanted here? This sounds so much like NaughtyArousal.

Actually, no. I know FallenArousal will return and he will read this but I am not exactly looking forward to him. One thing I do like about him was that he is nice to a lot of the newcomers at JUB. I do admit he is a nice guy but I cannot put up with adults acting like teenagers. He reminds me of a teenage who does everything out of the mainstream because he hates his parents but wants his parents to notice that he is a special snowflake.

Don't know why he was obsessing about his penis size SO seriously. Really so silly to define himself over something like that, which, in the grand scheme of life, is just NOT IMPORTANT. And anyone could see from his pics that he was a really good-looking guy (I even had a crush on him) and yet he called himself ugly? And he'd never accept that people might like him for who he was as a person.

This was my biggest aggravation with him as well. Why even start a thread asking opinions/advice, if you didn't want to hear it?

I think most people don't really want to fix their lives, they just want to whine a bitch about them... which is ok, to an extent. Just word your threads in a way that isn't asking for advice.

YUP. There was some discussion about advice-- I can't remember where it was, if it was this thread or another earlier back. Where I said I don't get it when it starts to become obvious someone doesn't want advice and just wants validation of what they're going to do anyway, even if it's self-defeating--- but phrases it as looking for advice when they clearly don't want to hear anything but one answer.

If people just want moral support, okay cool. But then it's kinda b.s. to act like "oh what do you guys think what should i do" and then proceed to argue wtih all the answers you don't want.

Even though we're basically on the forum of a porn site, I get prudish about very explicit avatars/signatures. Or random nudity in threads when you're not suspecting it. The forum ads I've ad-blocked ages ago but yeah. Odd, I know, but whatever. No offense to anyone, and yes I just scroll past really quickly so I will live. ~

I feel the same way. I also think it's rather contradictory to disallow nudity in Hot Topics, yet we can have naked bodies and such in avatars and signatures.

^I don't like making personal attacks but your white knight syndrome should have been a passing phase and there needs to be some soul searching on your part why you still have it. Most people after getting knocked down several moral pegs in their 20s get over it. I realized this way back in high school when I spent a few years in therapy realizing that you can't change people [in this case, my dad] unless they want to change themselves. Just because someone is bitching doesn't mean they have a real problem or want to even solve their problem. Again, life experience taught me this when one of my own friends was a "Florence Nightingale" [female equivalent to the white knight] thinking she could change "bad" men. When most of her friends, including myself, confronted her about her engagement, she thought we were crazy but she luckily came around. "Putting a ring on it" does not change the guy into this majestic prince.

^I don't like making personal attacks but your white knight syndrome should have been a passing phase and there needs to be some soul searching on your part why you still have it. Most people after getting knocked down several moral pegs in their 20s get over it. I realized this way back in high school when I spent a few years in therapy realizing that you can't change people [in this case, my dad] unless they want to change themselves. Just because someone is bitching doesn't mean they have a real problem or want to even solve their problem. Again, life experience taught me this when one of my own friends was a "Florence Nightingale" [female equivalent to the white knight] thinking she could change "bad" men. When most of her friends, including myself, confronted her about her engagement, she thought we were crazy but she luckily came around. "Putting a ring on it" does not change the guy into this majestic prince.

There's nothing wrong with trying to see the good in people per se like I think Johann sometimes does. I find it more annoying when the forum en masse tries to silence people or jump down their throats for pointing out that someone isn't legitimately after help or whatever, and is just attention ploying. I don't think Johann does that at all if that's the kind of white knighting you mean.

It is my perception that I see someone who is just after attention fairly early on... but I have to just keep quiet and wait for everyone else to realize it weeks later. If I say something sooner I'm a dick even though it winds up being true.