Monday, January 10, 2011

Another Maintenance Spanking

I got spanked yesterday. It was a maintenance spanking that had been delayed by the holidays and lack of privacy. However, one of our live-in children has found a job (hooray) and moved out, and the other was visiting friends for the weekend, so we had the house to ourselves.

I had a feeling C would spank me. She knew I needed or wanted one. Sunday morning however I wasn’t sure I wanted a spanking. I knew it would hurt. C hurts me a lot more than she used to.

As usual, I had gotten up early to walk the dogs, leaving C asleep in bed. When I returned, I walked back to the bedroom intending to take a shower. I got undressed and as I started into the bathroom I heard C say, “What are you doing?”

“I’m going to take a shower.”

“Well, I have to spank you this morning, but you can take your shower first. But first bring me a cup of coffee and the newspaper.”

I was naked at this point, but I walked into the kitchen to get the coffee, realizing no one would see me because we live in such a remote place. I also realized that it was fairly cold in the house, so I turned up the heat a little. My thought was that C would undoubtedly make me do some corner time in my punishment panties, and I didn’t want to freeze. I returned to the bedroom with C’s coffee and newspaper.

“Thank you,” she said, “but, I do have to spank you, so go take your shower and come back out here and get your punishment panties on.”

I took my shower and came back into the room. “What panties do you want me to wear C?”

“The pink and black ones,” she said.

I knew she would say that. She loves those panties for some reason. I think she thinks I look silly in them, and I probably do because they are too small for me. C of course thinks this is all a silly game, and that is belied by the tone of her voice when she gives me a command or tells me she going to spank me.

“Well C,” I said, “I don’t know why you love those panties so much. They are really too small for me, but if that’s what you want I’ll wear them.” I opened her panty drawer; she lets me keep the punishment panties at the back of her drawer now.

“Which ones do you want to wear, Throck?”

I looked into the drawer at all her pretty satin panties in front. I really wanted to wear her panties. She had been traveling the week between Christmas and New Year to help our daughter get set up at her new job. During that time I had worn her panties on two separate days. I have lost a lot of weight recently and they fit pretty well. They felt good too. They are much nicer than the ones I have ordered on line. It makes me think I should buy my punishment panties in a regular store, but I’m not sure that I have the nerve.

In any case, I had written in my punishment book that I had worn panties without permission, but I did not mention that they were her panties, and I decided to not ask to wear hers for my spanking.

“I think I would like to wear the white ones. They fit me best,” I said.

“That’s O.K.,” said C. “You look very virginal in those.”

“Hmm,” I said.

I put on the panties and started to climb back in bed.

“What are you doing?” C said. “You have to do your corner time.”

“Could I please warm up a little, C? It’s cold in the house.”

“O.K., you can get back in bed for a few minutes, but you’re still going to the corner,” C said, trying to be stern, and not very effectively.

She was reading the Sunday paper, and I was afraid I might freeze in the corner for an hour.

After about twenty minutes C said, “I think you have warmed enough. I want you in that corner now to think about how naughty you’ve been, and the spanking you are going to get.”

I climbed out of bed to go to the corner when C said “Oh, and give me your punishment book, I want to read about the naughty things you’ve done.”

“C you don’t really want to read that,” I said. “You know maybe this isn’t a good idea this morning. Maybe we should postpone this spanking, and just make love.”

“No!” said C. “You’re getting a spanking, and I want to read your punishment book.”

I handed her the book. I was concerned because in addition to the more contrived indiscretions, wearing panties without permission, masturbating with out permission, etc, I had noted the incident with the wine that I mentioned in the last post. It was the first entry after my last spanking. I thought later that that was not a good idea, but it was written in ink and there was no way to remove it. I was afraid that C would be upset about that and put an end to “our game” as she called it.

I went to the corner and C started to read out the indiscretions. She ignored the first entry and did not read it aloud. She read the remaining entries and then scolded me about being naughty, and told me to think about the sound spanking I was going to get. Then she went back to reading her paper.

I must have stood in the corner for fifteen minutes or so. It seemed like a long time. I finally heard her get out of bed and move behind me. She put her arms around me and pinched my nipples.

“It’s time now Throck. I hate to do it, but you have been very naughty and I am going to have to spank you. I want you to go into the bathroom and get the blond brush with the long handle.” She was referring the Vermont Country Store bath brush. It’s a pretty painful implement.

When I returned to the bedroom she was sitting on the edge of the wingback chair, not the best spanking chair. However she had been packing away Christmas ornaments and decorations, and all of the more usual spanking furniture was covered with boxes of decorations that I was to put in the attic latter in the day. I did not think much of that chair, but there was not much I could do about it.

I handed C the bath brush and she said, “Take down your panties and get over my lap.”

Usually C takes down my panties, but I did as I was told. When I pulled the panties down to my knees I noticed that I had an erection. God knows why, that usually does not happen. When C noticed it she spread her legs apart a bit so it would fit between them. However, she made no comment. The position was very awkward. I had to support my upper body with my hands on the floor and my toes were on the floor behind. I was basically balancing on C’s lap. I was not sure I could keep the position. I had nothing to clutch with my hands when the pain began, like a leg of the ottoman or a sofa cushion. I was soon to loose my erection.

C began with a few light swats, but soon increased the intensity. C does not have much of a warm-up routine. The bath brush is very painful. I was soon crying out (after only four of five spanks), and kicking and squirming. I was afraid I was going to fall off her lap.

Finally C said, “Be quiet Throck and take your spanking. I don’t want to hear another word out of you!”

I tried to claw into the carpet and stay quiet, but after three more swats I was yelling again. However, that didn’t stop C. I began to wonder when she was going to stop, and if I was going to have to use my safe word. C probably didn’t give me that many swats, maybe between twenty and thirty; I don’t know. She also spanked the backs of my thighs as well as my bottom. She has never done that before. I feel like it was one of the most challenging spankings that I have gotten. Of course, as I have said before I am a bit of a wimp, but it seems as if the spankings are getting progressively worse. As I mentioned earlier in this post, I had a few pre-spank jitters about this spanking, and I was not sure I really wanted it. Now I know I didn’t want it. I sometimes wish there could be something like a synthetic spanking, with all the submission ritual and the bonding rush afterward, but no pain. I suppose that wouldn't work however. Without the pain a spanking is not a spanking and everything before and after would become moot.

Finally C said, “O.K., it’s over. Get up.”

I just slid to my knees on the floor with my head in her lap. She held me for a while and then we went back to bed and she held me some more. While she was holding me in bed I said, “That really hurt.”

“Spankings are supposed to hurt. You were naughty,” she said with a little more realism in her voice.

We made love then, and C had one of her rare orgasms. She is now is two orgasms out of the last three spankings she has given me. I don’t know if there is a relationship, but if there is I’m willing to take more spankings for her.

My next maintenance spanking is scheduled for January 29. But who knows, she may find a reason to spank me before that. I hope so, I think. I still get my bonding rush. I have not had the experience of feeling remnants of the spanking the next day. That has only happened once with one of my very first spankings. I have also never experienced sub-space. I don’t know if I’ll ever have the fortitude to make it there. I do love submitting to C though, even if it is painful.

22 comments:

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It sounds to me like the reason your wife thinks this is something she does just to please you is because YOU seem to think it's something she does just to please you. The perspective this post is written from is entirely about what you want, what you get off on, not what your wife might enjoy, not how there might be advantages or pleasures for her in disciplining you.

If you want your wife to really get into spanking you, you need to start by asking yourself, and HER, what she wants.

Throck-First, this is a fabulous post. Your description was so good that I felt like I was there.

Second, I respectfully disagree with Anon. As I read your blog, I see in you a couple who is fully engaged in a Loving FLR where both of you are seemingly fully engaged. Certainly, getting spanked by C is something that is a large desire in you (as it is with me from my Lady, Cora). Your description speaks of many benefits your Lady is receiving as the two of you proceed along the FLR journey.

Third, getting into subspace is something I find a very enjoyable aspect of getting spanked by my Lady. The first time it happened was the most difficult. It happened with my eX and was an especially intense scene. But once I achieved it, further entries into subspace become easier and easier. I got spanked today; a not so intense scene, yet the endorphines had been engaged.

Finally, If you haven't already done something similar, why not send C flowers thanking her for the spanking she gave you.Ken

Thanks for the update.Loved your panty-selection discussion... nothing like punishment panties! You must have been in real anticipation as she read your Book.C, in turn, must be hitting hard if you just made it a couple spanks before yelling. Happy New Year, indeed! :)

Throck: interesting to read. Many males have the same reaction, as do many females if they are spanked. Thanks for sharing. Hopefully you have been spanked again, and will write about it soon. I do agree with anon that you should ask your wife how she can get more out of the spanking experience. Personally, I* believe that if you make love that day or later, that you should pleasure her orally until she orgasms.I totally agree with Danielle's comment. You should be sent to the store to buy panties for you. I did this while on vacation, and mumbled about a Valentine's day present.Lastly: if Danielle's hubby is boasting about getting away with being naughty, the boasting should turn into a roasting of his bottom.cheersRed

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Well, since we're sharing links... This is clips of me spanking my partner. We don't go so far as to say it's a female-led home, (I'm the female), but it's more like a loving, nurturing - but strict - home, if that makes sense. We have both signed an agreement - a modified version of the Spencer Spanking Plan - and when he messes up on the things he and I BOTH agreed on, he is spanked. He also gets corner time - sometimes without a spanking, but mostly with. I hope you enjoy our clips, though I have to say that these weren't taken for anything but our own enjoyment. They are much more "amateur" - but we both actually prefer that, anyway. There are free previews, by the way. Any proceeds will be for buying new toys and outfits to make more clips with. ;)http://clips4sale.com/studio/47666

We are interested in talking with other COUPLES - no single men, please - about this lifestyle, as we are just starting out in it in a meaningful way. Or will be soon. We live apart now, and privacy is an issue, but that should be changing. Definitely want to know how couples handle the male ego in everyday life, while still administering real punishment spankings and corner time. My partner is not "wimpy" at all, and I wonder if all I read here and other sites is for real. I guess we'll find out!!

My own paddling experience with in marriage is not sexual as your was--nor does it involve ritual or certainly not femine clothing---that would not be me---but once in a while I get my bare ass paddled when things have just gone to far on my part----and her frustration level has just run over---I get it on my bare ass over her knee and it hurts----but than things are good again---It works for us

Headmaster Tom is already annoyed when Lucy leaves his trousers in the laundry for two days. To add to his annoyance she has also accidently washed his glasses! This is her third mistake with the washing in two weeks. Watch full movie here

Hi, My name is Robin and my wife spanks me OTK when ever she feels I warrant it. She has one of the old fashioned hair brushes and she can really due a number on my bottom with it. No romance No cuddling me when she is done. Just a lot of bawling on my part as I spend usually an hour in the corner.

I keep my husband in panties all the time. When he comes in, he must strip to a shirt and his panties. After dinner I usually spank him and then insert a dildo in him which he sits on to watch tv. On the weekends, he wears a skirt and blouse. Often I'll have a girlfriend ot two over while he's dressed. Bit turns us in. He is told to change into his maid's uniform and make lunch. It's short and his legs look good in pantyhose. We will always find something wrong with lunch and he's spanked for it. He goes over a chair and we take turns spanking him, first over the pantyhose then on his bare cheeks. We enjoy ourselves

I agree that it is a good idea to have a couple of my friends over when I am going to spank my hubby! They enjoy with me the few noments when i undress him for his spanking, followed by a dozen or so of stinging strokes of my 36 inchlong rattan cane! I put him over my knees ,with the girls watching and eagre to take part in his smack bottom ! I slap him about 2o times ,before letting my friends give him their own spankings > He is very red faced and embarrassed during the spankings anhi botomis even redder! Then e has to bend over a chair for his caning, alsso on his bare bottom! We do like to se the vivid red rigdges rising afte reach of the 15 strokes I give him!I give extra for any attempt to cover his bottom or rub it! Someties he has afew teas in his eyes ,which we love to see!Afte he has to do an hour corner time !

My wife always find plenty of reasons to spank or cane me and does so! She has just agreed that her, Mum can punish me without waiting for me every time She considers I have been rude to her, or not done a good job on the chores I have to go to her house to do, for her! We have quite a number of rows and I will now face being spsnked or caned at least once a month in addition to my wifes, punishing me two or three times a month but I do like my wife to spank or cane me! It is always on my well rounded bare bottom and she has told my Mum in law she can undress me for punishment as well!I will find that awfully embarrassing and she will no doubt mmmake the most of it with extra cuts and spanks impose for trying to cover my buttocks or moving etc!She has alreaady bought a couple of new supple canes to apply to my bare flesh! I can anticipate a lot of very sore bottoms in future and she has told me she is practicing every day!

My wife encoraged her Mum to give me spankings over her knees if I argued with her when, rether inwillingly , I go ther to help her in her garden or house!I find her demands are unreasonable ans I have to spend far too much time doing everything she wants . THis leads e rto ringmy wife who tells me her Mum can now cane me and undress me, ie from the waist down ! She soon proceeds to do so and I blush a deep red as my pants come down and reveal my erection ! I hastily try to cover my self but she has seen it! .That is awful and so embarrassing!!My cock does not stay erect for long as she canes me very sharply ,makking me cry out loudly! After she thinks i have been caned enough-at least 25 strokes of the 1/4 inch thick rattan she puts into the corner and watches to ake sure I do not rub my buttocks and thighs! If id she will sla my bum hard by hand seveeral times ,even giving me more cuts of the cane! My wife will eventually arrive and add some slaps to my burning bum ,which makes my eyes water!andI even shed a few tears fromthe pain and humiliation sometimes!

My wife started to invite one or two of her friends over when she is going to give me a spanking for breaking one of her Rules ,which she wrote for me some three years ago when she decided to start spanking me, after she saw a friend spanking her hubby!!I find it both a turn on and very embarrassing being undressed in front of them! My penis always reacts and bounces out when my trousers and pants are removed! She starts with her wooden backed hair brush which she applies sharply, quickly making my buttocks and thighs very red,very sore and painful!She invites the friends to give me several slaps each on my bum and thighs! She then takes out her paddle and whacks me firmly and sharply which is awfully painful and I have to admit I sometimes cannnot stop myself crying out loudly ,stuggling and shedding tears ! It is very humiliating but she says it is for your own good! She is now going to buy a few canes for me aat te suggestion of her Mum who ahs also seen my bare bottom spanked and joins in sometimes!