I've given myself to the age of 35- although I'm really flexible with that age. Ideally- I'd like to just have bought a caravan (happening next year) and perhaps have bought a house somewhere and maybe be working in my own business so I can be flexible with hours.

Until September was the plan, but now it might not be until December. DP had a minor freak out last night about money and I told her we could wait until she'd officially graduated in Dec. The whole time thinking "you won't fail, if you pass!" - very logical.

Honestly I'm hoping if I tone down the baby talk for a while and prove we can save for all the things she's worried about it.

I was a little confused though because I said we can push it back if you want, and then she said she didn't want to push it back? Ummm...but everything else you said implies just this!

Yes I know how it feels it's hard I have an Infinite wait because I'm single. I'm starting to think dd will be my only child. Which is really sad because I would love one or two more and dd would be a fantastic loving sister. She often asks me but it's out of my control.

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