For a long time, I’ve wondered what really happens when our Loved Ones cross-over and now as a medium, I know and have accepted some basic truths regarding the crossing-over process:

I know that our Loved Ones are picked up by other Loved Ones in Spirit when they cross.

I know that, for the most Part, when our Loved Ones cross, they go to be in the Light.

I know that our Loved Ones in Spirit are available to help us with all sorts of things while we finish continue our own time on Earth.

But, I was still wondering, this major question,

How, exactly, does this happen? What does the scene at the cross-over point look like, to a newly crossing Spirit?

Are our Loved Ones just waiting for us on the other side? Hanging out, until you or I crosses-over and then at that point, do we all go somewhere together? Is there a group of people waiting over there, and if so, are they part of our soul group or something? Or what?

And yesterday this question was answered for me in reading.

Soul groups, are collections of people, individuals who are learning, growing and developing on Earth with each other. These are often referred to as ‘soulmates’ and are generally people who are friends, enemies, family members, lovers, challenging bosses and great teachers. They are people who we connect with - on a Spirit-to-Spirit, soul level.

When each of us is born onto earth, at varying stages, we are born into a soul group. Either the parents that we have, or eventually, the children that we create. These are the people who influence who we are and shape our development, both while on Earth and when we transition into Spirit.

So, when a person in your soul group dies, not only is it painful and reminiscent of a missing blanket or thread in each of our lives, but this person, once in Spirit - hangs out. And they hang out, before moving forward in their soul’s journey, onto another life or another lesson or another path - until everyone in their soul group returns back home.

Think of it this way.

You are a player on a baseball team, currently on the field. There are other people also on the field with you right now, living on Earth and playing ‘the game’. And from time to time, one person from the field, leaves the game of actively playing baseball, and goes, to sit on the bench for a time out.

None of the players fully leave the field until everyone leaves the field.

Until the game is over, the entire team, on the field and in the dugout, is together. Once the game is over for all, and all the innings are complete, then, the team, collectively goes together, to start planning, creating and preparing for the next game. The next leg of the journey together is started and ended with the whole team as a group. No one gets left behind.

2. When you leave the field, they’ll be greeting you, high fives, and pats on the back, and you too, enter the dugout. This means you’ll be greeted when you eventually cross over into Spirit, and they’ll assist you in Guiding you into the Light. They’ll show you the ropes and teach you all you need to know about being Spirit.

3. Once everyone is together again, either in the physical world or in Spirit, then everyone, together, gets ready for their next game - wherever that may be.

When your parents cross-over, with you still on the field - they are still cheering you on, hoping you ask them for support from the dugout, from the Other Side. Then, once you arrive, and your children and all of your soul group arrives, everyone - moves forward together.

The soul group, your baseball team, stays together, on Earth and in Spirit. You always have the team, no matter where they are.

They’re simply cheering you on, from just outside the outfield fence line.

Reader Question Addition: Are the soul groups, technically infinite? With grandmother waiting for daughter, waiting for children and so on?

There are soul groups of all different sizes and relationship sizes. For example, in a personal example, my grandmother and grandfather on my mothers side, I nor my siblings ever knew very well, even when they were on earth. So, it's possible they're in another soul group and will continue on prior to when I do. Even with family, not all members are as closely linked, where some have more connections outside their own family line. The groups, are vast and complex and depend on each person and their connection or non-connections with relatives and friends here on earth. Rather than being a uniform circle for each person, a soul group may mirror more of a jigsaw puzzle.

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