7 Ways to Turn on Your Man (And You)

No matter how steamy sex was in the beginning, most couples settle into a relaxed routine once they've been together for a while. And that can make you feel a little less connected with your guy. Luckily, there are simple tricks to turn on your man and reignite the spark.

Do the "Swirl"

Do the "Swirl"

In a nonsexual setting, lightly trace your fingertips in unpredictable patterns against his arm, his lower back, or even his thigh (like, say, when he's driving). Guys go nuts for unexpected touches because they never know where you're going to put your hands next. And the vaguely sexual touches in public will feel naughty for both of you, leaving you both eager to get back home, where raunchy behavior is not only okay, it's encouraged.

Just Touch More

Just Touch More

Hugs, kisses, booty swats, shoulder rubsthe more loving touches you give your partner, the more oxytocin you'll both release into your bloodstream. Known as the cuddle hormone, it will boost the feelings of intimacy between you, guaranteeing that you'll feel less like roommates and more like honeymooners.