these "alien" lights are called projectors... thus when you wanted "black projector headlights" that is what you get
as for what you want...
ebay has some. not sure on the quality tho. always taking a chance there

bizkd, u didnt say what year u have , the headlights changed in 06 to projectors & as far as i know, no one makes black ones for 06-09, if u have an 05, i hear those "alien ones" are terrible, but if u still want projectors, u can swap in a set from 06+, but will still need to have em painted if u want black.