Thursday, December 27, 2012

Pilar Sanders Pens Open Letter About Divorce

After being called the biggest gold-digger of all times by her estranged husband Deion Sanders, Pilar Sanders pens an open letter blasting Deion for his hurtful remarks...

~A person with any type of intellect or basic common sense would realize how low and desperate it looks to demean and verbally abuse your wife and mother of your three children of whom she has been raising period!

If spending 14years of sharing your life building a family, creating and managing our family brand and business’ means I was “digging for Gold” then I guess that would make us both diggers wouldn’t it?

Any digging done was us breaking ground together on our marital property in Prosper, Tx. And perhaps most recently by Mr. Deion Sanders reaching and grabbing for any kind of sheet or wool to pull over the media’s eyes, when photos of him and an 18yrs old teenager in a hotel bed surfaced Sept. 2011 instead of dealing with it like a man, Deion choose to hide behind smoke and mirrors by throwing our entire family under the bus!….That’s digging…digging yourself deeper and deeper into a black hole full cowardly acts, lies, deceit, manipulation, conspiracy, adultery and pure evil!

Taking my sons from school, disappearing for days without me knowing where they were or how to contact them is something Deion began doing throughout the entirety of our divorce to appear as if he was some kind of hands on “single dad” who can handle it all.

Deion staging and tweeting pictures our sons filling out a police report was all for his own benefit. His public appearances and desire to grab ahold of our sons increased as more light shown on the questionable validity of his jaded charter school endeavor.

Even when Deion and I agreed to follow a court ordered possession schedule, Deion felt as if he had the right to do whatever he pleased to do. This is how he always obtained and kept my boys from me. There is nothing lawful or respectable or manly about what Deion has done throughout our divorce. The court officials, the police, attorneys have all known about his mischievous behaviors and now it’s almost like he has been rewarded for it.

My LIFE and Livelihood have always been centered around being an extremely loving and attentive mother.

All things considered, even after everything Deion has done (physical, emotional, verbal, and financial, abuse) I have never kept our children from seeing or spending time with him. The custody arrangements were never heard by the court!

TEMPORARY issues including temporary custody were brought before the court however NONE of the issues were concluded or finalized. The judge called for a continuance of the hearing to take place at the top of the year.

For failure to have temporary orders to be followed by me and of course shat on by Deion, the Judge simply made orders to be followed for the holidays. I have all three of my babies for the first half and Deion has them for the later.

PS. OH!... by the way OUR Premarital Agreement (yes,..even all seven different version, including the forged pages) where solely drawn up/manipulated by Deion’s attorneys,… made its own declaration for an annulment all in itself.

Mmmm hmmm,..And if the agreement is ruled valid (which it’s not) I am only walking in accordance to Deion’s wishes as I have done for years.

10:29, So money is to be used to compensate for cheating and children? The coon logic of majority of you dumb ass broads. Pilar is a basic ass bitch who failed to STACK HER OWN BREAD. Instead, this bitch went out and bought titties and clothes. And Black women (not all) are always trying to defend this manly-looking whore by kissing her ass based on how she looks. This bitch got played like the average bitch, ugly, pretty and everything in between. Instead of opening your legs and mouths for these niggas, start investing in yourself. You hoes get dumber by each generation.

All things aside. She WAS His Wife for a considerably amount of time and put up with his BS. that’s gotta be worth a decent amount of money…She needs to move on though and do her own thing and stop making herself look bitter and angry by releasing "open letters"

They both failed. She failed to invest in herself and failed by trying to keep that fool happy when she should've been focusing on her career or business. You can't make someone happy, if they're miserable, leave em the f- alone.

and he FAILED by treating his wife like shit AND sleeping with a teen who don't want his ass. THAT was probly the Real gold digger Deion you blind bully.

Praise the Lord...King James Bible (Cambridge Ed.)What shall we then say to these things? If God be for us, who can be against us?***************************************************** So, what do you think? With God on our side like this, how can we lose? If God didn’t hesitate to put everything on the line for us, embracing our condition and exposing himself to the worst by sending his own Son, is there anything else he wouldn’t gladly and freely do for us? And who would dare tangle with God by messing with one of God’s chosen? Who would dare even to point a finger? The One who died for us—who was raised to life for us!—is in the presence of God at this very moment sticking up for us.** Do you think anyone is going to be able to drive a wedge between us and Christ’s love?**Pilar instead of tweeting and writing letters talk to God. God hears, sees and record everything we do but, you should talk to God NOT THE PUBLIC. God is a good and faithful. Pilar talk to God, he will talk to your spirit, heart, and guide your path.*****************************************************◄ Psalm 94:9 ► King James Bible (Cambridge Ed.)He that planted the ear, shall he not hear? he that formed the eye, shall he not see?

****************************************************D-SANDERS IS A LOSER...I'M NOT FAMOUS, I'M NOT RICH, I'M NOT BROKE, BUT THERE IS NOTHING LIKE THE PEACE OF GOd....PEACE WITH GOD.** GOD'S CHILDREN...NOT LUCIFER'S CHILDREN!

Y'all just mad cos Deion LEGALLY played the game better than Pillar.Had she taken him to the cleaners,y'all would've been cheerin',high fivin' and fist bumpin'.Pilar left her husband for Deion calling herself trying to upgrade.She signed for a million dollars ,a house and chile support but she wanted more.

Somewhere Tracey Edmonds is serving Deion some of her homemade chocolate chips cookies.There's a ginormous bald head laying between her thighs causing her to breathe hard,make her throat dry,gasping for air and blood pressure rise.She's using those ears to hold on for dear life.

S-SANDERS WON'T BE POWERFUL ALWAYS, HE WILL REGRET AND NEED,YOU ONE DAY. THAT'S HOW THE LORD WORKS. THE SAME PERSON THAT MISTREAT YOU.... GOD WILL SEND THAT PERSON BACK TO YOU FOR SOMETHING.**********************************************◄ John 9:31 ► King James Bible (Cambridge Ed.)Now we know that God heareth not sinners: but if any man be a worshipper of God, and doeth his will, him he heareth.**KEEP YOUR HEAD UP...TALK TO GOD NOT THE MEDIA!

@Nicole, are you following you own advice buy hiding/saving money from your loving (imaginary) husband? I would hope that you do, so that you can take a care of your children. Your logic seems to be that a woman should do all the work without and financial help from the father. There is not guarantee with marriage, so I hope that you are also preparing for a rainy day yourself. No shade.

11:37, Bitch, my husband is real. Has a man ever even called you back after fucking you? Do they acknowledge you on the streets after you serve them up in your 1992 Ford Escort? Didn't think so whore. I had a job before I met my husband. I saved then. I have a career and I save now. You dumb ass TRAMP, I never once said women should do all the work without the father. What I said was bitches need to start investing in themselves instead of in plastic surgery and material things. This dumb hoe Pilar saved no money and thought she could rely on her looks to get her by. Sorry. Deion has been in the game for long time and this tranny-looking bitch got played, LEGALLY.

Fiurst and farmost, Pilar is geting what she deserve. Karma is something. Just how she got him when he was married to his first wife, she was the mistress and in public with him while he was married, Now it is happening to her. Now Tracey is in her jplace now doing to her what she did to the first wife. Pilar is dillusional. When you break a nail from fighting or hitting it against something it will bleed…HELLO…Pilar need to stay out of the publice embarrassing her kids and herself. Do she even care about what her children might be going through. Walk away pilar, your time has expired. let go let God. you may find another sugardaddy if you stop being ignorant in the public.

@Nutcole@ 11:50, your potty mouth is beyond control. Do you kiss your husband with that dirty mouth? LOL. But seriously do you have a plan B like your own money and an education to fall back on if your husband leaves you? I think this is a reasonable question?

@ 11:50 please correct me if I'm wrong, but I read on another thread that you meet/married your husband at 18yr. So are you saying that you got an education, career and saved money during your marriage? If yes, then I commend you for being smart. I would also assume that because you have a nice career, loving husband and money in the bank that you would be a happy person? If yes, that would mean that life is great for you.....So why all the angry towards poor, loose moral Black women? I would think that a person with such a wonderful life would not even give a second thought to those beneath you. I’m just curious, that's all.

@12:03, Umm, I just have a Bachelors of Fine Arts/International Studies from Universidade de Brasilia. My job is pretty boring though. I work at a museum in San Diego, but I took a leave because I'm trying for a baby. I have a joint acct with my husband but then I have my separate one. Cali has a large Spanish population so if my husband decides to leave or whatever, I'll always be employable with my background/fluency in French, Spanish, English, BITCH.

1:26, I met him when I was 18 yes, but that was in Bahia and I had a job there, the same lil retail job I had in high school. Plus, my Dad had funds set up for me. As far as Black women, I never address YOU specifically. I say "bitches", "whores", etc. I feel like you shouldn't reply to me if my comment doesn't describe or relate to you. I also find it funny how Black women on this blog pick and choose what they want to complain about. MAJORITY OF THE BLACK WOMEN ON RWS hate Beyonce and try to talk mad shit about her, but as soon as I post my shit, you bitches want to reply to me. Nah. That's the shit I'm talking about. Get y'all shit together.

11:50 Did you say "do they acknowledge you on the streets after you serve them up in your 1992 Ford Escort? HILARIOUS!!!!! Pilar should have been putting some money to the side and handling her business.

@nicole - why are you so obsessed with black women? Are you a closet lesbun? Did ur hubby cheat on you with a black woman? Btw, your tirades and generalisations sound utterly ridiculous, esp for a woman who has her 'edumacation'. Oh, you're going to need experience along with that qualification to get a good enough job when (not if) your man walks out so I wouldn't rest on my laurels if I were you.

The way I see it, how a woman get a man is how she loses him. Pilar managed to get Deion by using manipulation during his weakest times and when we the scales fell off his eyes, albeit too little too late, he went back to being himself as she was just like most of the people he said he dealt with all his professional life. Hence, people who didn't really care about him but what he could do for them. In a sense, she had it coming. Therefore, if she felt that he was manipulating things to be in his favor, she should have taken self assessment as to the manipulation she did to be with him. She's just upset that he used the law to do it whereas she used sex, looks and extensive bible coaching. This should be a lesson to all people the importance of coming into a relationship, union, etc with your intention in hand rather than using deceit, manipulation to get someone because the end result could be your literally leaving with what you possibly came with...nothing other than your true colors on display for all to see. In the grand "scheme" of things, that is exactly what Pilar is owed. However, her having children as insurance gave her some leverage in collecting some support but not half of the man's fortune as she alludes to in her letter.

This isn't about kissing Pilar's ass, this is about right and wrong and what that judge decided is wrong. How Deoine did Pilar and his kids is wrong. Cheating, separating his kids, scheming his way out of giving her what she deserves - he and anyone who cosigns such behaviour is downright evil and dishonourable.

Congrats on your marriage, college education and the baby you and your husband are trying to create. I myself am a Black woman and at first I was offended by the things you wrote, but I think that a lot of Black women on here automatically label people like you "trolls" or "obsessed" because they can't admit that *some* of the things you write are true. I myself am married. My husband is White and we have 5 beautiful daughters. When I was planning my wedding, a lot of my so-called friends (Black women) were giving me so much hell about why I was marrying a White dude, will his d*ck be big enough, etc. Now Nicole, we can't judge ALL Black women based on the sour ones, but Black women, in particular, need to do learn to love themselves.

@Nicole, it seems to me that you are intelligent, educated career women. Most of the derogatory comment that you have made are against Black women. This is an urban blog so most of the stories post here are about Black entertainers. I don’t really think that when you make harsh comments that you are referring, White, Asian or Latin women. I believe they are mostly geared towards Black women. That’s just my opinion based on your comments.

I have only visited San Diego once many years ago. It is a beautiful place to live and visit. Since you live there may I asked if San Diego is culturally diverse. I would assume yes, but I don’t live there so I don’t know. May I also asked that during your life while getting an education and delovping your career have you come in contact with Black women who are educated and career orientated such as yourself?, and is your husband’s family educated as well (women included)?

Wow. You're doing so well for yourself, yet you're calling someone that is simply asking you questions out of their name. You may have a separate account (which is no way means there's enough in it to reasonably hold you over in dire times), but you're behaving like you have no class. Get off your high horse before he does leave and you end up back in Brazil.

RWS you all ignored Tracey with her words from God. I urge you not to entertain "Nicole" ignore it & eventually it will go away. It amazes me that you would rather co-sign Nicole instead of Tracey. You are all heathens & you don't even realise it.

2:11, San Diego is really nice. I think it's over-priced, but this is where my husband works. It's diverse but I don't see a lot of affluent Blacks here. I went to college in Brazil, so I didn't see many educated Black women there because we are a mixture of African, Portuguese, Spanish, etc., and we're not classified as "Black". In America, I have met a few cool Black women but majority of the other ones were just ridiculous. I do like the actress that played Clair Huxtable on that Cosby show. I like Oprah. But I hear Black women talking shit about Oprah. I just don't understand why y'all HATE your own people SO much, damn.

@!12:00...IF PILAR, WAS HAVING AN AFFAIR WITH A MARRIED MAN... D-SANDERS, AND KNEW HE WAS MARRIED, THEN, PILAR WAS WRONG. I AGREE WHAT GOES AROUND COMES BACK AROUND. I'M GOING, TO RESEARCH THIS INFORMATION, BECAUSE I DIDN'T KNOW SHE WAS HIS MISTRESS. SMH!***************************************************** A PERSON ACTIONS, WHETHER GOOD OR BAD, WILL HAVE NEGATIVE OR POSITIVE CONSEQUENCES FOR THAT PERSON.**D-SANDERS....NO-GOOD WHOREMONGER!

I wish people did their homework - her as in the case of Camielle Grammer, are woman who sat there and tried to raise more bread - al la jackie psycho christie. If this was any other couple, and she was a devoted housewife and business partner - she would be looked at as an equal. Throw in a male athelete and its always she is a gold digger. Home girl even had her own career in fitness before him. Its okay for him to ask her to give that up. But when he is busy fucking teenagers and she is over it - he cant give the woman what she deserves??

@Nicole, there is a small sub-culture of damage Black people that fit the description mentioned in your comments. Because you did not grow up here it is easy to assume that most of Black America is like what you see on the reality TV shows. Most Black women are smart, hardworking, will love you until the wheels fall off type of women. It’s unfortunate that you have not experience that yet. I believe you would be offended if most people would assume that all Brazilians yourself included were prostitutes and drug traffickers. Most intelligent people would not assume that of you based on what is in the media; new or entertainment. I would encourage you to get your information regarding the Real Black Women from reputable sources like Upscale, Black Enterprise, Ebony, Jet, Essence magazines. I would especially encourage this because you are going to have biracial children with your husband and they are going to be curious about their Black heritage. You and your husband should make this a priority. And yes I think that Claire Huxtable and Oprah are great.

4:15---Nicole NEVER stated that she was ONLY fluent in Engl, Fren and Span. Like she said, why mention what's already known? And yeah, I'm co-signing her because I like her intelliratchet ass posts, LMAO.

"I'll always be employable with my background/fluency in French, Spanish, English"--This means that while in America, Nicole will be offered more opportunities because she's multi-lingual. And since you want to call her out, what other languages do you speak? I'll wait...

Nicole, Nicole, Nicole, you are not improving your image by using such horrible profanity in any language. If a person was new to this site would read your comments they would assume that you are the same type of woman that you are trying so hard feel superior to. Your husband must got you that wide open. Dang girl. Are you going to teach your children to speak this way? This type of anger is not good for a woman trying to conceive a healthy child.

4:47, Ugh. Shut the fuck up already. I only talk this shit on here because 1. It's funny. 2. You bitches reply to it because you know deep down inside that it pertains to you. 3. There's a time and a place for everything. I can turn the "hood" on and off. Don't speak on my husband, fuck. Y'all bitches bring him up more than I do. Anyway, I'm off to the grocery store again. ~Nic

Don't let Nicole translation get you to believe that she is smart. She used a translation app on her Obama phone to write that....I went to Google translation and here is what Nicole's post says in English.

These sluts your dusty ass of RWS think they know me. But look! I got their asses rocked the FUCK up ugly. Hoes are coming out of left field, trying to patrol me. Thanks for listening, bitches!

@ 5:27, thanks for the update. I am beginning to think that Nicole is a child bride prostitute. Most highly educated women can read you from left to right without using any profane language. She truly has a gutter mouth with a gutter mentality to match. Well that is the Black man’s upgrade I guess. He should be so proud. I wonder would she talk like this around her husband’s family. I doubt it.

My question is why is this faceless poster Nicole running her resume down to a bunch of other faceless posters? WHO DOES THAT?

Ok, bitch if you're happily married and all that, why the hell would you brag about that on a message board to folks you dont know and dont give a fuck about you? Girl sit back on your neck. You need to self assess more.

Oh and LMMFAO at google translator. You are really really playing this sad part, huh?

@5:27, The sad bitch is you because my post does NOT equate to that. You whores are coming up behind me. BEHIND ME. What did Kim say? "I'm a leader, y'all on some followin' shit". Dumb ass thirsty Internet groupie ass Black Aunt Jemima bitches. I show my husband some of the shit you tramps say and he just shakes his head. This is entertaining though. Keep it up, bitches. You whores ran to Google translator? That's funny because Black Americans are like the only group of people who are NOT multi-lingual. I have my husband. I have my degree. I have my career. I have my home. I have languages under my belt. I'm good. You hoes need to invest in some lucrative shit. RWS is funny as hell to me, but it's HOME to you coon bitches. ~Nic

Are U pressed? Nicole has the upper hand because she has you scattering and scrambling on a blog. You're probably the pathetic Black woman she keeps talking about. Keep proving her right. *eats popcorn*

I think I'm wondering why does anyone care about what a poster thinks?

Only on a black-owned blog would other people care about a supposedly non-Black poster thinks.

I still think Nicole is fake and those who co-sign her shit are just as stupid as she is. Either your jobs suck or your lives do because I don't understand how anyone would spend hours going back and forth on some bullshit. The Brandy post was a pure example of that and this thread, too.

12:00 PM...SHM..After my research, I have a different opinion about, Pilar Sanders. Pilar, was D-sanders Mistress, when D-sanders was married to his first wife Carolyn sanders. Karma is a mother. Carolyn Sanders, testified in court against Pilar, IN THE CUSTODY BATTLE. TRACEY EDMOND AND CAROLYN SANDERS ARE FRIENDS, OR MAYBE JUST OUT TO DESTROY PILAR.

Deion Sanders’ Ex Wife Carolyn & Tracey Edmonds Celebrate Pilar Getting Kicked Out. These women are too old for all of this. Pilar, Carolyn, Tracey, the fake Aunt, The Baby Dee friend and etc. Just read the headline SLOWLY and you should realize how stupid they look. Why is Carolyn celebrating? Deion left her and their two kids for Pilar, but she is still carrying that torch a decade later (JocksandStilettoJill.com has info on who she is dating now and how it has something to do with Superhead).

Her anger seems to be toward Pilar, but she didn’t put a bullet to Deion’s head and say leave your wife and kids for me, so maybe that anger should be deflected elsewhere.

Tracey Edmonds publicly celebrating a mother being separated from her kids. That is so classy. The entire thing is a mess and has been played out in social media. It has shown the ugly side of celebrity marriages and how people will do anything for their 15 minutes of fame. They should be ashamed of themselves.