I was referring to the preference to have the husband spend the night as well...

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"sleep"

Lol. When I have an overnighter with a beautiful woman, what does sleep have to do with anything?

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Fun, please tell me you don't sleep in the middle??

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Damn man. You prefer your overnighters with the husband?

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If a single guy's goal is to have alone time with a woman, he needs to get off this site and out into the "real world."

A few times I have (somewhat reluctantly) had a private date with the lady when that's what the couple wanted. So far, I've declined overnight dates alone. I strongly prefer a husband being present.

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How many husbands have asked you for this private time you write about?

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I have my private time with single unattached ladies! As far as couples go, and I have been asked by both husband and wife, it will not happen. I prefer to keep my friendship with couples as they are, a couple.

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I never ask for private time. If the couple is up for letting the girl play alone and they both talk to me about, then I will consider it. I have with some, with others I have declined.

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Many times we have had it happen. Usually not right off the bat but my wife does most of the chatting once we decide we are interested in someone. (Its from a couples email that we both use) And more often than I would think it happens. I would say more guys try to hint at that than dont.

Thats an instant deal killer right there. Just asking is an automatic spot on the "do not fuck list"