Hello, my husband who I love very much, has turned against everyone, he wants no contact with family and gets angry when I speak to or associate with mine....he sees it as not being one with him. people say he is mentally ill, he wants no help, but will be silent or say awful things. I still love him, but don't know how to solve this, looks like we are heading for sep/divorce, which I don't want.

Saying to him to change/get help/counselling is on deaf ears. I must do it all myself without involving him, what can I do get kirpa from god and have my situation change to love and gracefulness that my home becomes happy and not broken........I pray for this.

One sided you mention you love your husband,other side you care about others,this is not right.If he turned really against to one you likes then there should be some reason behind this.Person can't clap with one hand same way there are some reasons in every broken relation.Don't listen people or you

I think he is going through a rough phase. Give him support and don't share things which make him upset. If you think it is taking longer than usual, consult a psychologist (you could go alone). As long as you are patient with him, your home should not break!

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I am trying patient for many years. And yes going to someone for help they say they can do nothing unless the person himself wants help. guruka Singh in his videos suggested sa ta na ma meditation with your partner but again he will not participate. I look to waheguru to help us

Don't listen to people and your family,think or understand by your mind.Every one has different views and experiences,but the real situation which you guys are going through includes your husband is not easy for both of them.
How can you assumed that he is sick or mentally only by telling your family.No that's not true.Same way he can predict about you also.If he still loves you and kids (if you have)that can finish this chapter,means marriage can be safe.
People and family(parents family)or (who is giving free advice)is not going to stay or survive with you on the long run,
If he is not in meditation or simran then help him,be with him all the time.Listen to him,same way he will listen to you but don't involve others or family members in this.They will always and only advice your betterment but not for both of you which leads you alone,or separation.
Dhan Guru Ram Das