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no. I write, tell, repeat, call to repeat, call again to repeat, get him to repeat, call again, ask to talk to my DSs, get DH to repeat, call again...

and then still find something he did wrong.

by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster
on Apr. 19, 2012 at 3:33 AM

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by Anonymous 2
on Apr. 19, 2012 at 3:33 AM

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Write out the important things. But give him some breathing room. He needs this time time bond with his son and he needs to figure out those quirks on his own. They need to bond too! It's important, especially with little boys. They need their daddies!

by Anonymous 2
on Apr. 19, 2012 at 3:34 AM

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Wow you need to let go a little bit and let your husband learn on his own. He's a grown man and can take care of his kids - if you let him!

Quoting bustybee:

no. I write, tell, repeat, call to repeat, call again to repeat, get him to repeat, call again, ask to talk to my DSs, get DH to repeat, call again...

and then still find something he did wrong.

by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster
on Apr. 19, 2012 at 3:34 AM

Quoting Anonymous:

Write out the important things. But give him some breathing room. He needs this time time bond with his son and he needs to figure out those quirks on his own. They need to bond too! It's important, especially with little boys. They need their daddies!

I can give just the highlights. Heck, he can teach me something and maybe even make it easier for me . That is a thought.

You could write him out a list of things you think are important, but don't get too specific about things. I know some guys will feel like they can't be trusted. I mean I'm not saying your husband does that. It's not weird to want to do that though.

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