How to Give a Good Blowjob: 15 Moves to Make Him Blow His Load

You want to rock your man’s world, I get it. If you want to do that, you’re going to have to know some tricks for how to give a good blowjob.

I don’t know what it is about blowjobs, but guys are obsessed with them. I mean, I get it, they probably feel great, but I could live without them. Apparently, though, this isn’t the case. Blowjobs are the gift from the high heavens, so best to become a master of this art that’s so respected in the male world. Here is how to give a good blowjob and blow your man away.

You may be thinking, “Why do I have become good at giving blowjobs?” Listen, have you ever had a guy go down on you, and he didn’t know what he was doing? It’s a tragedy. You spend every second trying to figure out how to get his face out of your crotch. It’s not a pretty picture.

In fact, when a guy starts poking his head down there, you’re probably having flashbacks of that one bad experience. See, it’s the same thing with blowjobs. So, it’s time to learn how to give a good blow job.

How to give a good blow job – 15 tips to blow his mind

Use these tips for how to give THE blowjob to end all blowjobs. You will rock his world.

#1 Stop thinking it’s a job. If you don’t want to give blowjobs, don’t. If you really don’t like giving them, it’s not going to be a good experience for either of you. Now, if you like doing them, but you feel like you have to, stop that thought pattern. No one tells you that you have to do it, don’t think of it as a job. Because it’s not.

#2 Started from the bottom, now that we’re here. If you’re comfortable with your man’s penis and giving blowjobs, try starting your blowjobs from the base and work your way up. Use your tongue to massage his balls. Also, lick and kiss them as well.

While you’re doing that, use your hands to rub the shaft of his penis. If you make your hands wet, it feels better.

#3 Use your hands. Many women focus the blowjobs around their mouth—which obviously makes sense or why else would it be called a blowjob? But, don’t forget you have two very functioning hands that can jump in and help.

Use them to grab, squeeze, and rub his lower region. You can also use them to squeeze his inner thighs or his chest/stomach. You don’t have to focus all the attention on his penis.

#4 Take some breaks. Oh, I know. Giving blowjobs are a lot of work, contrary to popular belief. Usually, guys think that it’s just a couple minutes, but they’re not really paying attention to the clock. Some guys really enjoy the moment, and that moment can last over 10 minutes.

So, when your jaw is cramping, stop and rub his penis with your hands. You’re not a dick-sucking robot, so cut yourself some slack.

#5 Take a couple licks. Licking is hot. Start your blowjob by just starting to lick his penis from the base to the tip. If you want to up the visual effects, have him lay down on his bed so he can see you and your mouth in action. Plus, licking also helps create a rhythm that builds up the excitement and sexual tension.

#6 Get into it. If you enjoy giving him a blowjob, don’t feel like you must hide it. In fact, you should show your excitement. If you’re getting wet, tell him. If you want to moan, do it. This gets him even more aroused seeing you enjoying yourself. What guy wouldn’t want to see you enjoying yourself while you’re going down on him? Exactly.

#7 Use your assets. Want to know how to give a good blowjob? Well, for starters, you can use what your momma gave you to get him even more aroused. If he’s laying down on your bed, wear a sexy bra, lace underwear, and give him a little extra to look at. Blowjobs are more than just his penis. It’s about you and your sexuality.

#8 Don’t forget the balls. Ah, yes, those little guys. Don’t forget them, they need some loving too. Use your hands to hold them and gently massage them or you can suck on them as well. Either way, he won’t complain. But remember, be gentle with them, they’re very sensitive.

#9 You can use it as an intro to sex. A blowjob doesn’t have to the be one and only act that happens that night. You can use the blowjob as a warm-up and then move onto having sex. Many women think that once they start giving a blowjob that it should end with him getting off, but that’s not the case at all.

#10 The penis isn’t like the vagina. You obviously know that, but really, they’re different. The penis isn’t self-lubricating so this means you’re going to have to lubricate with your spit or with lubricant. I know, we women are lucky in that sense, but be mindful that they don’t have this gift.

#11 Find your rhythm. You need to find your rhythm if you want to give a good blowjob. That way, you’ll be able to get yourself into a groove and develop your own flow. Regardless of what the rhythm is, find what feels comfortable to you. Once you find a rhythm, you’ll be able to really get into it.

#12 All men are different. Your ex may have liked it when you went slow or used a lot of lubricant. However, the new guy you’re dating prefers when you play with his balls. All men are different, just like women. What one guy likes, another guy won’t. So, you can either see what he likes by trying different things out or you can just ask him.

#13 Don’t forget the anus. The anus is still a slight taboo topic, but it’s a very sensitive and pleasurable place for men. You can use your finger to just press gently on it, lick it, or use a sex toy. Now, not all guys are going to be down for this, so you’ll have to slowly work your way to this point.

#14 Choose a position you’re comfortable in. You’re the one giving him a blowjob, so, you decide how you’re going to give him a blowjob. You don’t have to be on your knees. If he wants the blowjob, it goes by your rules. The most comfortable is when he’s lying on the bed, you have some cushion.

#15 Nonverbal communication. If you want to know how to give a good blowjob, remember that nonverbal communication is huge and actually arouses him even more while you’re giving him a blowjob. Make eye contact with him, smile, laugh, whatever you want. This makes him enjoy the experience even more. Plus, it shows you’re having a good time as well. Don’t be scared to show your emotions.

Remember a couple of these tips and use them next time if you want to give a good blowjob. He won’t be able to last more than a couple minutes, if he’s lucky.