Thai Girls And Safe Sex

So as you know i've been giving the Thailand Dating Sites a whirl and have been coming up with some surprising results. No it's not the amount of easy available girls willing to give it all up for a bowl of noodles which i'm known for. It's the amount of Thai girls who seem to care so little about unprotected sex that safe sex doesn't seem like something they care too much about. It's not only diseases that these girls don't seem to care about they are not even on the pill.

What I havn't mentioned is that my girlfriend started her new job as a waitress at a new fancy hiso style pub and restaurant at the bottom of soi 11 and since she starts work at 4pm and finishes at 2am it's given me plenty of time to get out and try some of these girls out from ThaiCupid.Com and ThaiLoveLines.com.

So since Tuesday I've had a new girl every night and Thursday I actually had 2. All the girls were from Chiang Mai if not Chiang Rai and Phayao. All northern girls. The other girls who were from different provinces I didn't care to try out because well, they are always too easy and very warn by the Farang, and I like a bit of a challenge 🙂 Not that these girls presented much of a challenge as it turned out.

So back to the story about Safe sex and Thai girls. First there was Bree an 18 year old who is starting Uni next year waved dinner and drinks to hang out at her friends house who I managed to get out of the room to get us alone (what a nice girl). Now for an 18y/o you'd think she'd have it in her head that safe sex is the only way to do it, when I said I had to get up to get the condom she says to me (no don't worry I won't baby just put it on my stomach). Hmmm I wondered at that point what they taught these kids at school, she can't have been that far away from sex ed, then I read online that sex education is not compulsory and it's at the discretion of the school. Well she must of went to a school that didn't teach sex education.

Next was a girl 35 2 kids just moved back here from Bangkok she told me because of the floods. Her kids were still in Bangkok and really I don't like older chicks but that's all i could come up with on a Friaday night at short notice. Really not that great looking at all but she had fair skin which was OK with me. My mate came out and I didn't really think I was going to do anything we had some beers listened to the monotonous loud music they play at the bar. When my mate bailed so did I but instead of driving the girl home I just took her to Bises resort. So we get there and into the room when I realised I had no condoms and the room didn't either she says "don't worry is OK I clean can do without". Huh! What's with these girls and when a girl says that to you can you trust her? I'd rather not, had to call up for the attendant to bring me some small 60 baht or large for 80 baht!! I'll never go empty handed again!

And so tonight was my favourite was a 22 year old from Chiang Rai doing training at the Duangtawan hotel and has a boyfriend named Ben owns a bar down in the night bazaar apparently...whoops did I let that out? ouch! lol. She's the one in the photo. So I met up with her tonight I picked her up and went down to the Anusarn market for a bowl of 50 baht spaghetti she declined to eat. Bonus! She suggested to sit at Tapae gate but I thought that was a crap idea so took her to a park beside the Ping river better feel and less people. We talked about her boyfriend and my girlfriend until I got the feeling that she'd be a good candidate for the Bises. I suggested we get a few drinks and go to my place, she said forget the drinks let's just go and by the way I don't care if your girl shows up. I started to like this girl.

Well my place is far so we went to the Bises and the whole thing was rather too easy, i prefer the challenge. Well before I could go for a condom she's like grabbing it trying to put it in. I asked her "Are you on the Pill" answer "No". OMG what's with these girls don't they know about safe sex? And don't they care that they could get pregnant?

Now I'm sure you guys don't want to hear about all my sexual escapades about how cheap ass charlie me finds these girls tells them the TRUTH and gets it all for free without any hassles or follow up phone calls for that matter. But my whole point here was to show you how many Thai girls obviously practice unsafe sex. I mean I met these girls off the internet 1. Get them into a short time hotel in a matter of hours 2. And have sex with them on the first date 3. These are all signs of something bound to go wrong for THEM let alone me.

In the end I honestly don't think that there is a good sex education system in Thailand no wonder there are so many single mothers out there and the amount of Aids to boot. It's got nothing to do with the sex industry either think about it, all these girls I get with have nothing to do with the industry and yet they all seem to open themselves up and be overly trusting.

Next time you hook up with a Thai girl and she says she is OK going bare back think twice before you let yourself go down that road. You never know who she had before you, she ain't no virgin and if it was anything like the guys I know then your going to be in for a big surprise. Always throw on a rain coat I don't care if you've been with her with a while, even if you live with the girl! Be safe guys!

Here's some facts to chew over:

Most Thai youth reported that their first sexual experience, whether within or outside of marriage, was without contraception

About 70 Thai women out of every 1,000 aged 15-19 - or about 7% - already have children

Each year in Thailand Eight girls became mothers at the age of 10, 15 who become mothers at the age of 11, 75 aged 12 years old, 481 aged 13 years old, 2,781 aged 14 years old, 8,999 aged 15 years old and 19,402 aged 16 years old

Nearly 200 teenagers under the age of 16 become mothers in Thailand every day.

Thailand has the highest rate of teen pregnancy in all of Asia!

28000 people die from Aids in Thailand every year

There are 66,720,153 people living in Thailand and 530,000 of them have aids or roughly 0.8% of the population.

210,000 women over the age of 15 are living with Aids in Thailand as of 2009.

I wonder if anyone else there has had similar experiences and/or agree with the results that Thai girls don't practice safe sex?

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Chris founded LivingThai.org in 2011 and has received over 3 million visitors. In 2017 he stopped writing new content (although does update the site) and is now focused on writing for his new website SlyNomad.com.

15 Responses to Thai Girls And Safe Sex

Hi Chris,
It seems over the last 6-7yrs this is the case.And it does,nt matter wether they are working girls or well educated.
This trend is not inconsisted with the rest of the world, farang youth are just as irresponsible.
Enjoy the site btw

First, I think you have a typo in one of your statistics. According the UNAIDS Global report 28,000 people die (AIDS-related). I think you have an extra zero and in fact I think your numbers come from the same report so you can see the error by just looking at the bullet points. Although deaths have been reduced 46% since 2001 and people living with it have been reduce by 17% in the same timeline, the percentage of peope living with AIDS in Thailand is more than 2x of those in America and 10x of those in Australia. Thailand still has the highest percentage of the population living with AIDS in (at least) Asia and is only beaten otherwise by African nations and a couple Caribbian countries.

It must be different up where you live and I have generally been meeting girls in person in restaurants etc., but I have rarely met a girl that wasn’t super keen to wear a condom. Not saying it is 100% but maybe like 95%. Now their will could be bent or distracted etc, and it could be slipped in without much fuss and sans raincoat, but if you are thinking of doing it, go back and read my first paragraph.

The story is 100 % correct.
I have done research on it in order to find out is it safe to have sex with a Thai girl
the answer is no .( even with a condom )
If your condom breaks there is a big change you will catch a STD .
I had several encounters with some Nurses of big hospitals they were quite happy if I didn’t
use a condom easy to convince there is no need for a condom
but of course I had always a condom with me and just pretend that I had all forgotten about it
It was just part of my investigation .

When I was planning to have a long relationship with a Thai girl I got her tested on STD and HIV after using first 6 weeks a condom ( incubation time )
After I could tell if it was safe to have sex without condom often it was but do not think you will be safe !
If you go away for one week on a business trip without your girl it is quite possible that she fucks an other guy without condom and you still will end up with a STD !

The bottom line is all Thai girls are easy with not using condoms and there for can’t be trusted

Haha great.
Personally…. I’ll do anyone without a condom
If you look at the statistics for most STDs it is extremely difficult for a male to get anything from vaginal sex. HIV not even one case can be proven of a straight white male getting it. The diseases that are easy to get are chlamydia (one pill cures it) and herpes, but you can get that even with a condom on.

As for pregnancy…. Yea…. Ok. But… If you actually know how to pull out the risk for that is very very low as well.

Ive had sex with hundreds of girls without condoms and never got one pregnant.