If everything is enabled and you're not seeing Swype, try a reboot. I will say that Swype was not consistently popping up for me ever. I have tried it several times since their release and it hasn't worked consistently, so I kept deleting it. Found out last time that there is a known issue with Swype popping up if you use enterprise sync or something like that. I definitely use that for work emails, so that explains a lot. Until that's resolved, I won't be using Swype.