I can't make a logical leap from a story about this girl getting an abortion and OP wanting to be a lawyer. Ok, so she has this boyfriend who is not willing to accept any responsibility for raising a kid and does not want it. We don't know whether she got pregnant accidentally (condom broke) or negligently (no condom at all). What exactly will OP do as a lawyer in this situation? Force her boyfriend to not dumb her if she goes along with pregnancy? Would you really want a dad that wanted you aborted present in your life and a mom who didn't have her shit together to be dependent in one way or another on a person like that?