When it comes to romantic relationships, there are so many ways you can mess it up. Even the best couples make mistakes in their relationships. Some of these mistakes, if continued for a long time, can ruin a relationship. So, it is important to know the biggest mistakes most men make in their relationships. Staying away from these mistakes will not only help to get your girlfriend and keep her, but will also make your love life a lot more fulfilling in the long run.

Below are the four big mistakes men make in relationships:

1. You don't feel her presence.

We all have qualities that make us feel good. We feel great when we know who we are and what we want. You feel like you are at the top of your game when you mean what you say and get what you want. Well, it’s similar for women, too. Ladies who navigate by feminine energy and love desire this more than men. It’s sexy, and when you make women feel good about themselves, they will literally swoon over you. The reason is that it makes them feel safe and secure. She trusts that you will be by her side no matter what. So every time you act fearful, uncertain or indecisive, it breaks that connection, and she feels less attracted, less trustful and sometimes even repulsed by you. So, guys, take note of this one. It’s important.

2. You don’t understand women.

Women are emotional. They navigate the world with their feminine energy, and that is emotion. So, one moment you will find your girlfriend all over the place, happy one minute, angry the next hour. Yes, us men think that this makes no sense, and women are “crazy”. You would do the same if you had her body chemistry. When you realize that her emotions aren’t interrupting your boring status quo, instead it is making your world alive, fun exciting and spontaneous, and is a welcoming diversion, you will see that she is actually making your world better every single day.

3. You made something else more important than her.

A woman responds to adoration and praise. You girlfriend craves for your presence and attention. A conscious focus and a sweet, heartfelt commitment will make her light up and glow in her beautiful feminine radiance. So, if you ignore her, overlook her, don’t make her feel special, take her for granted, and made something else more important than her, then prepare for some serious trouble in your relationship. Never be oblivious to her feelings, be too self-absorbed, break her trust or make her feel unsafe.

4. You are intimidated by her.

This one is more common than you think, but it is true nonetheless. In dating and relationships, guys want to be in control, but the reality is that feminine energy is all about flow. It doesn’t matter what you do, you can't really hold back the flow, and feminine energy can’t be controlled. Even men tougher than you have tried it, only to fail in the end. A smart man, instead of controlling it, channels that energy. They respect it, ride it out, and they know that it is a part of life.