“I was taught to leave my personal problems at home. Be whomever I choose, deny nothing, but do not bring it into the workplace. Dealing with school and both physical and mental health, I learned what a privilege that attitude is. But nothing has shaken me quite like dysphoria. I'm fine being unprofessional if that is *my* choice. But I'm terrified... that there is no professional way to have a nonbinary gender presentation. I have student loans, and if i transition, I'll have medical expenses...”