Every year on my birthday I like to take the time to reflect on how much I've grown and think about areas of my life where I want to be better. I treat my birthday as if it's my own personal new year where I like to think about my goals, wins, opportunities, etc.

I've learned a lot over the years so I tried to narrow down some of the most important lessons that stand out and hopefully you'll be inspired to create a list of your own.

Ok, here we go...

1. My past doesn’t define me. I don’t have to accept what happened to me as the end all be all.

2. Live life now. There’s no such thing as a perfect time. Whatever I want to pursue in life, NOW is the time.

3. Face your fears even with the butterflies in your stomach and know growth is coming.

4. Being connected to positive like-minded women is SO needed and will help you in more ways than you’ll ever know.

5. Be honest with how you really feel. Don’t silence your voice to make others feel comfortable. Speak up for yourself.

6. Don’t spend all your time working. Take time to LIVE and have fun.

7. Create rich experiences. Do things that will make you feel good on the inside.

8. Don’t sweat failure. You will make mistakes and that’s ok, you’re human.

9. Don't compare your life to others. Everyone is on their own personal journey.

10. Take care of your mind, body, and soul.

11. I am stronger than I give myself credit for.

12. Gratitude is medicine for the soul. Big or small always take the time to simply say “thank you.”

13. Stop being so hard on yourself. You are not your mother nor will you ever be. Focus on being the best mother and wife only you can be.