Co mil contacting dh

Co mil (mother-in-law) breaks the no contact dh (dear husband) has asked for on occasion. She sends him texts every couple months. She acts,like all is normal. She also tries to contact his ex. Very passive. Not aggressive or anything just asking to see the dsds.

Dh ignores the texts. As,does his ex. Thats the best plan of action, right?

mamabyrd06
Posted 1 hr ago
Co mil (mother-in-law) breaks the no contact dh (dear husband) has asked for on occasion. She sends him texts every couple months. She acts,like all is normal. She also tries to contact his ex. Very passive. Not aggressive or anything just asking to see the dsds.

Dh ignores the texts. As,does his ex. Thats the best plan of action, right?

Co mil (mother-in-law) breaks the no contact dh (dear husband) has asked for on occasion. She sends him texts every couple months. She acts,like all is normal. She also tries to contact his ex. Very passive. Not aggressive or anything just asking to see the dsds.

Dh ignores the texts. As,does his ex. Thats the best plan of action, right?

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'No' might make them angry, but it will make you free. —If no one has ever told you, your freedom is more important than their anger.

I don't get what you mean that your DH (dear husband) has "asked" for a CO "on occasion."

A CO is forever. A CO means that the person is dead to you. You don't see them. You don't speak to them. There is no question about BHing someone on a CO. The real question is why wouldn't you change your number so that this stranger who is harassing you no longer has a way to contact you.

And you don't ask for a CO. "Hi, MrMamaByrd'sMom. Would you mind if we never spoke to you again?" When you decide to do it, you do it.

So what is actually going on?

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'No' might make them angry, but it will make you free. —If no one has ever told you, your freedom is more important than their anger.

I don't get what you mean that your DH has "asked" for a CO "on occasio...

Posted
05/23/2016

I don't get what you mean that your DH has "asked" for a CO "on occasion."

A CO is forever. A CO means that the person is dead to you. You don't see them. You don't speak to them. There is no question about BHing someone on a CO. The real question is why wouldn't you change your number so that this stranger who is harassing you no longer has a way to contact you.

And you don't ask for a CO. "Hi, MrMamaByrd'sMom. Would you mind if we never spoke to you again?" When you decide to do it, you do it.

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