Jealousy Support Group

Jealousy typically refers to the thoughts, feelings, and behaviors that occur when a person believes a valued relationship is being threatened by a rival. This rival may or may not know that he or she is perceived as a threat. If you or a loved one may have an issue with jealousy, this community is a good place to start exploring the issue and get support. We're here for...

Cheating?

I don't know why I can't seem to just trust Brandon but I just can't. I sit there every night while he is at his AA meetings(supposibly) and all I can think about is if hes actually just out with some girl. I am 9 months pregnant and with my last pregnancy my ex cheated on me because he said I had gotten fat and that he couldn't even stand to be near me.
Now that I'm here in the situation again Brandon is all of a sudden keeping his distance and staying out late and leaves every single night. He used to not do that. He says that he isnt cheating but I cant seem to actually believe him. I mean I've never had any reason not to believe him. I just dont know if its just me that is driving him away because of me freaking out of what. I just dont know.
I am just so confused and this fantasy or whatever the hell it is drivin me crazy. I wake up some nights and have to go get on the couch because I just feel like I am lying next to someone that has been fn someone while I am at the house with my daughter and with me having a part of HIM growing inside of ME!
Honestly am I loosing it? What am I supposed to do???

your 9 months gone and he's an alcoholic, no wonder he's freaking out and become distant. He's going to be a dad any day and he cant even sort his own life out. I cant tell you whether he's cheating or not all i can do is give you another possible reason for his behaviour. You've asked him if he's cheating but have you asked him how he feels about everything else?

Yes. Its just like hes shutting down on me and doesn't want to communicate. I've tried talking about this pregnancy and tried to get him to open up and let me know what he is feeling but its like he thinks if he ignores it that itll go away or soemthing. Idk

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