I don't think you just know one day, like, I don't think you wake up, and go "oh my God, I've been wrong all this time! I don't like vagina! I actually like penis!"...it's a realisation process - well, for me it was anyway.

I've always been attracted to guys, like even when I was 8 or 9, I assumed I was straight, but just never had a physical attraction to girls, just guys, but I didn't really notice at the time. As I got older, and got into puberty, I began to fully realise that I was different. Other guys were saying how they fucked their girlfriends, and how hot that girl was...etc...yet, there was me thinking "I've never found a girl hot...I don't know what makes a girl hot...and I don't get aroused at all by girls..."; it was then that I put a name to these feelings I had experienced, it was then that I thought "I'm gay." I was 14.

So just to summarise, it's more of a realisation process - as is everything, especially sexuality, as over time you realise what you do and don't like. Not just guys or girls. But what you like in a guy: whether you like cute guys, hunky muscular guys, guys with long hair short hair, cocky confident guys or shy guys...etc....

there wasnt so much info for me when little so after feeling that i was the only one "lol" yes i though i was the only one ok, so after i made out with a guy i knew i like man more then women, then when i grow up after i was 17 and found bunch of queens all toguether i knew im not the ONLY ONE YAY, but i didnt like to be a flammer so i went and look for more, that was my clue i like man.

I never had a "moment" of realization, really. It's just something that I always knew. At least that is my recollection of it all. I think I was 10 and in 5th grade when I had my first, official crush and it didn't seem weird. It was very natural for me to look at Greg and just want to be with him and get to know him. I never even asked myself why I wasn't attracted to girls. Then, I remember having the biggest crush on two older guys (well, they were probably in their 20s) who were in my karate classes and I could not stop thinking of the penises I saw when I changed in the locker rooms

I never really experienced any one moment where I realised I was gay. I just remember realising that it wasn't how most of the guys I knew felt about other guys when I heard them start talking about which girls they found hot, etc. That's pretty much when I attached the word to it, I guess.

I knew since I was in kindergarten. My first crush wore this leather jacket and he was just too cute and he lived in the same complex as me. He would hang out at my house after school.. and my mother though it was just a friend until she walked in on me giving him a kiss on the cheek. -________-. I would take advantage of him. I was such a bad kid. Lmfao.. He never shied away though. LOL.

Probably when I was 12 I started noticing that I was attracted to other guys but I think I knew for sure in high school when I fell for my best friend [typical haha] funny story is that he's now the boyfriend of one of my few friends who knows I'm gay haha...

Heard the word gay used mostly as another substitute for "jackass" growing up, so it never occurred to me that it could have something to do with sexuality. However, I suspected I may be... but wasn't sure until the week before my 13th birthday, the day I realized I was gay. "Make a wish..."

I didn't even begin to dimly suspect what gay was until about age 16, when I also suspected that behavior & feelings I'd had since around age 8 might mean I was one myself. But I suppressed the thought until I was 45, when I finally knew all at once and fully embraced it.

I never fully understood myself that I was gay until college during that time of self-discovery. I did notice how I was interested in some of the guys in my grade school in that sexual way but never really put it past me. In high school, I grew close to two of my friends n we kissed (first gal pal was at the end of high school during my graduation party n other girl was in college) but while it was a shocker, it wasn't right for me. I soon began to hang out with some people who were gay and they kinda helped me find my true self in admitting being gay.

I soon realized myself that I was truly gay when I kissed a guy for the first time and it felt right. Ever since then, I never looked back and know that I am gay. Of course even looking back I could say I would fit in some of the gay stereotypes but it's only made me be a unique person.