My name is Christian, and I am firm believer in independent
thought.There is just not enough of it today.Confidence in who you
are, despite harsh stereotypes and rough opinions, is always a plus
with me.It's hard to stay true to these beliefs in a world where
nothing is truly made clear,and those with the courage to stand
above are subjected to persecution of some kind. Shallow women need
not apply. Not that I have anything against them, I just find that
it would be more beneficial to them to find someone who is in the
same mindset as them to get together. After all, happiness is
everyone's ultimate goal, as if never to feel any pain again. A bit
more about me; I love a good,deep story.One that I can chew on for
days after reading/watching/listening to it.I have a really random,
twisted sense of humor. and random humor is always best,simply to
get people's reactions.I am an artist. That being said, everything
is much more epic for me. Everything is more vibrant, feelings are
more intense and it causes me to dream often.Dwelling on "what
if's" and "what could be's." I love to think, imagine and create
things that specifically tell everyone who I am.I am a great
conversationalist and just as good a listener.I have been through
my share of hard times and I have come out of it in one piece
because I am a survivor.Looking back on those times makes me
stronger as well, I see those memories as trophies and just another
trial that I have overcome. I am looking for a relationship at the
moment, and so I checked out several websites and came upon two
that didn't charge for service.( honestly,I think it is in bad
taste to charge someone for something as pure as love.) The woman I
seek would have to have a good head on her shoulders, knows what
she wants, and seeks knowledge. She would also have to be goal
oriented, ambition in short.But most of all, she has to be
comfortable with who she is. I would never pressure a woman to
change who she was so that I may feel more attracted to
her.Relationships don't work that way.She would have be strong
willed to be who she is, and that is what it is all about; living
for yourself, and not because someone told you to.

I have been a professional butcher for 3 years now and am currently
employed at a Palm Bay BJ's. (that's right off of exit 176 on I-95
SB)The work is good, the pay is good and it is something I can
build on and most of all, it teaches a trade to use outside of
work.As well as that situation is going, I aiming to go to either
art school, or film school, since I have a fiery passion for
both.Having a back up plan and a steady income is what my butcher
job is providing.(example; in the Tri-State NYC area, professional
butchers can earn a wage of $30/hr)So I feel both optimistic and
confident about my future prospects.

My art, first and foremost.Five years ago, I was voted as one of
the best artists in state of New Jersey for the year of 2004,so I
hold that victory close to my heart. I am a good listener, I love
to hear other people's opinions and reflect on them.Being
individuals, we are entitled to be listened to, respected and to be
understood. People find that when they are around me, they are
relaxed and comfortable.They take a liking to me easily.

The way I talk.I am really animated with my speech.Using lots of
gestures, and swearing; both of which are for the listener's
enjoyment,doing both adds to their experience and gives the
conversation some life for you.I am also passionate about what I
happening to be talking about at the time, and I have a lot to say,
but that shouldn't suggest that I wont let anyone else talk.As a
much as I talk, I LISTEN. I love hearing other people's views, it
always makes for a healthy exchange of views.Well, that and my New
Jersey accent. "How You DOIN'?"

Several people I have run into over the course of the years, that
are wiser than myself tell me that I have a purity about
me.Something rare in society today,and something that seems to be
unspoiled.I have no idea what they are talking about, but I keep
hearing it from lots of people,and they reacting to it, which
points to the possibility that it just might be true.