I am a 25 year old female Masters student at Bangor University, Wales. I find traditional dating difficult because I am very serious about settling down to have a family very soon.

I am looking for someone who would be interested in being in a relationship with me if we are compatible and like each other, and letting love grow as we plan for a family and life together. I believe love grows and we can work together for a lovely life and "fall" for each other in a stable, strong way as love often comes later - I am willing to work for this!

Most normal dating involves showing off your best side and hiding your flaws but I believe the best thing to do is to show ourselves as we are and figure out from the start if we are compatible and can deal with those flaws together.

Yes I am looking for love not just co-parenting but i hope someone out there understands what I mean. Please reply if you do.

I absolutely get what you mean about not only looking to co-parent but also to grow love, bonds and attachment for the baby and the father.I am of the same point of view and if you would like to hear more, please contact me.