The Other Woman

Your husband has an affair with a woman who KNOWS he's a married man. You find out, and confront your husband. Now you want to talk to the other woman. Most people will tell you not to have any dealings with her because it was your husband who had the obligation to you he's the one who strictly needs to be dealt with. True, however is it okay to talk to the other woman to let her know the pain & damage the affair she participated in has caused in your marriage or relationship?

Sick to think that alll the while the bitch was thinking, soon all this will be mine when she was accepting your hand offs.

Blech, I know. Sad thing is my sister is kind of going through the same thing. She took her nanny shopping and loved to buy her things. She even takes her with them on vacations so her and her husband can do non-kid friendly things (obviously they do kid friendly things as well) and they paid for everything including entertainment. They go out of their way for their employees. Turns out this little bitch was stealing everything from under them. My sister's clothes, jewelry, cash.... you name it. I'm so proud of my sister for sticking up for herself and firing this girl and her assistant (the girl's sister who knew about the stealing). She isn't the type to do that. Why do people feel so self entitled to things that aren't theirs?

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-Blanche

I can get you milk and cookies, but if the oven is broken then just get milk.

Because they know that they are not good enough to go out and create that life for themselves. The only way they can have it is if they steal it... At least she left your sister's DH alone.

Probably has a lot to do with the fact that he's 55 and she's 20. Otherwise, I'm not so sure she would have left him alone.

She'd also pick the kids up from school and not correct them when they called her, "mommy." (I think she encouraged it) The kids had been there six months before the lady who supervises pick ups and drop offs learned that this girl was not mommy.

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-Blanche

I can get you milk and cookies, but if the oven is broken then just get milk.

Back to original question: I went to therapy for a little while, and the therapist recommended that I write them both letters even if I never gave them to them. I only did it recently and didn't give them to them. It was painful but also cathartic. I would recommend doing that, but, for me, I wouldn't give them to them

Glad you got the help. You know in AA we sometimes are encouraged to write letters even if we never send them.

I did confront her! It was great. "We're just friends", yep cuz you know I send all my friends naked pictures of myself! "He loves you", yep, that's what all those emails say right?? Bitch wanted my husband AND children. I didn't share my hurt with her, I shared my anger, happily. I even used it to be very productive, lmao!! She had nothing by the time I was done with her. He had alot to handle too. OW are nothing but trashy whores.

Now, three years later, the slut is trying to sniff around again, my myspace stalker, lmao! Not to mention my page is a memorial to my daughter, whose first birthday is friday. She just wants her and my husband to be friends because she misses him. F*ck you bitch!

Sorry to vent!

Blanche, I commend you for not harming the skank!

To the other girls who did get a hit in, Way to go!!! If I ever ran into the skank, I would probably do more than just hit her! She would be toothless, hairless, and hopefully in the hospital!