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Thursday, December 10, 2015

“Have you put up your Christmas tree yet?” That’s an often-heard question this time of
year. I saw a few homes with trees up
well before Thanksgiving this year. Of
all the Christmas memories of childhood, I think my favorites are the beautiful
trees my daddy would find and cut down for our family room. Well… most of them were beautiful. There were a few Charlie Brown trees along
the way, but mostly they were perfect.
Always a highly-fragrant cedar tree, with the old-fashioned colored
lights. I loved those old-timey lights
that we use to have before the miniature lights came out. They were so heavy that my daddy had to
attach them lower on the branches of the cedar trees, as the frail ends couldn’t hold the weight. Besides, we needed the tips of the branches
free for the tinsel, or “icicles”, as we called them back then. I remember my grandaddy sitting in the
command seat, navigating placement of the icicles to be sure that not one tiny branch
went unadorned.

One year, we ended up with a tree that was so large it
covered the double-windows! We didn’t
have enough ornaments, so it was somewhat sparsely decorated. There’s an old black-and-white picture of my
snaggletooth self, standing proudly in front of the mammoth tree, with my hair
in sponge curlers. We were so proud of
our giant tree!! (tried to find the pic for the blog, but no luck with that)

Our family room was on the back of
the house, which meant that the travelers up and down Broad Street were not
able to see our tree. One year Mamma
Lorene, my dad’s mom, gave us one of those fabulous trees made out of
aluminum. We proudly assembled the tree,
added the fuchsia-colored balls, and put it in front of the double windows in
the dining room, on the front side of the house. There was this lamp that sat in the floor,
with a rotating plastic disk of different colors. The disk would turn slowly, and the colors
would fade from one to the other. I much
preferred the live tree with the multicolored lights, but was delighted to have
TWO trees in our house each year.

As the years went by, some of the
ornaments were lost or broken. Seems
that we always managed to hang onto the ones my brother and I made at school,
and those were hung each year with love.
At some point, we swapped out the chunky lights that I loved for the
newfangled miniature lights that were becoming so popular. It was the end of an era, and even though the
tiny blinking lights were beautiful, I’ve always been partial to the old chunky
ones.

The first Christmas tree after I
got married in 1980 was a special tree.
Not a cedar tree like I had grown up with, but some kind of pine tree
that we cut at a tree farm. With little
money to spend for decorations, I opted for DIY ornaments, and our tree was
covered with homemade felt snowmen and clothes-pin reindeer, a few fake red
apples, and some candy canes. But there
were lots of colored mini-lights!!! And
because it was our very first tree together, it was the most beautiful thing I
had ever seen.

There have been many trees since
then. I remember scoring a really expensive
fake tree after the holidays one year.
It was perfectly-shaped, and looked better than some of the real ones we
had used in the past. I was so excited
to have this flame-retardant tree, meaning we could put it up earlier, leave it
up longer, and it also meant I could put my favorite chunky lights on it! I went to the store and bought a gazillion of
them, and put them on our new tree.
Couldn’t wait for the hubby to get home and commend me for our
old-fashioned Christmas tree. To my
great disappointment, he made me take them off, and return them to the
store. What with being a fireman and all,
he only saw the fire risk, and not the beautiful ambience I was attempting to
achieve. So I had to undecorate the
tree, remove the lights, and take them back.
I pouted for days, and only half-heartedly redecorated. But by then, it
was Whitney’s third Christmas, and she was at such a fun age I couldn’t stay
mad for long.

The year that she was in
first grade was the first Christmas that she and I lived alone, and we carried that fake Christmas tree with us during several moves through the years. We had a tradition on tree-decorating day –
there was an old VHS Disney tape of Christmas songs. We’d listen to it every year while we
decorated. When she was in high school,
the old tree finally died, and I replaced it with a tall, skinny tree that she
laughed at, but once decorated, admitted it was a really pretty tree.

Nowadays, it is the eyes of my grandchildren that sparkle at
Christmastime. One of my favorite spots
to photograph them is in front of a Christmas tree. Last year found me feeling a bit overwhelmed,
and not really interested in much holiday fanfare. I didn’t put up my tree until the week the
kids were out of school… which was one
week before Christmas! Normally, I’m
very persnickety about the ornaments being placed just so, but not so much last
year. Because of my indoor kitties, I
use a small 4’ tree on a table, in an effort to keep them away from it. Last year, though I kept my precious,
breakable treasures safely packed away, I let the kids decorate the tree. They took turns using the step-stool to reach
the higher branches, but 90% of the ornaments are on the lower half of the
tree. A job obviously done by
children. But… the joy I was lacking
crept back into my heart as I watched them decorate “their” tree all by
themselves. They were so proud, and the
occasion was, of course, marked by many photographs and videos. Because the tree is so small, when I got
around to taking it down (don’t even ASK!) I just picked it up and set it in an
extra bedroom. Still decorated.

So now it is Christmas 2015!!! My little tree was delivered from the extra bedroom
to its place in the living room. Still
decorated from last year. It was my
intention to undo the kids’ handiwork and re-decorate it with at least a little
symmetry in mind. But every time I reach
to take something off, I am reminded of how much fun they had decorating it
last year, and how excited they will be to see that I am using it that way
again this year.

Yes, Christmas trees are my favorite part of the
holiday. And one of my favorite sayings
about Christmas is this: It’s not about
what’s under your Christmas tree that matters, it’s who’s around it. I hope you will share special moments with
special people around a tree this season.

Sunday, December 6, 2015

There were two empty chairs at our Thanksgiving gathering this year. Aunt Peggy and Aunt Carolyn are no longer with us, and this is the first holiday season without them. I think of my cousin Elaine, and my friend Lewiss, who are missing Miss Reba this season. And so many others. My article in last week's Journal spoke of our losses. Here's the article. Hugs to all my friends who also have empty chairs at your tables.

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Empty Chairs

The turkey is gone, and the pumpkin pies are but a sweet
memory. Black Friday bargains are
waiting to be wrapped, and Christmas trees are going up in homes all over
town. The holiday season is officially
upon us! Twinkling lights reflect in the
eyes of excited children, as the anticipation is almost more than they can
bear. A friend on Facebook recently posted a photo
of a vintage Sears Christmas catalog.
How many of us remember poring over its pages as kids, dreaming of the
toys we’d find under the tree? The rush
of adrenaline we’d feel at the sight of that jolly old Santa? Even all these years later, those Santa
pictures conjure up happy memories of childhood. I vividly remember a “Night Before Christmas”
coloring book, and a new box of crayons.
Hours were spent coloring at my grandmother’s dining room table, being
careful to stay between the lines. Every
now and then, one of the adults with sit and color with me for a while. What is it about a new box of crayons and
coloring book that brings about such pleasure?
The smell of new crayons never fails to take me back to those days, and
coloring with my own grandchildren is one of the few activities from my
childhood that we can enjoy together.

For most of us, the holidays are synonymous with
family. As children, we are focused on
the excitement factor- the lights, the hustle and bustle, and, of course, the
gifts. At some point, the childhood
magic fades, and we begin to understand the deeper meaning, and experience a
new kind of magic. The kind of magic
that makes us tear up at Publix commercials on TV. The
soldier returning home in time for Christmas dinner. The new baby’s first Christmas, all decked
out in their precious outfits. The family
who realizes that this will be the last holiday spent with a loved one. The long-overdue reconciliation of a strained
relationship. For some families, the
only time everyone gets together is at the holidays. We look forward all year to the time when we
can sit down together and share a meal.
While our tables may not be Publix commercial-worthy, I doubt any of us
would trade our family gatherings for the picture-perfect scenes that invoke
such emotions on TV.

And yet, while we are focusing on all our blessings and
loving on our families, we need also to remember those who are hurting. As unfathomable as it seems, there are people
who do not share in our bounty of family members, and the warmth of hearth and
home. The sound of bells and the sight
of red kettles outside stores during the holidays is an ever-present reminder
of those in need.

Then there are those who, though they have no lack of
necessities, are sad and lonely during the holidays. I can’t imagine spending the holidays alone –
yet there are those who endure the loneliness year after year. Day after day the loneliness haunts them –
though more acutely so when colorful lights are twinkling, and Christmas music permeates
the airwaves.

There were two empty chairs at our Thanksgiving table this
year. We lost two beautiful ladies
within four months of each other, my Aunt Peggy, and my Aunt Carolyn. Aunt Peggy was my mom’s best friend. The holidays, while wonderful and joyous,
also accentuate the absence of those we love.
We all know someone who is hurting this year because of the loss of
someone they love. I think of a good
friend, who lost her battle with cancer, and the devastated husband and best
friend she left behind. So many empty
chairs. Loss is part of life. Death, divorce, estrangement,
deployment. So many reasons for empty
chairs.

This year, as we celebrate the Christmas season, may we
first remember that Jesus Is The Reason For The Season, and then may we
remember to pray for those who will be seated at tables with empty chairs.

Sunday, September 6, 2015

I must confess. I'm a double dipper. Sometimes I'll use an article from "my column" as a blog post, and sometimes I'll pull blog posts from the past to create a new article for the paper. My blog doesn't have a large following, and lots of those don't read the paper, so I think I'm fairly safe. At least if accused with plagiarism, it will be my own words that I'm stealing. HA! Here's the column from this past week's edition of The Barrow Journal. Several of my facebook friends have told me, "I was there!", and they remember exactly what I'm talking about. Fun times!!!!

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Friday Night Lights

Given my choice, I’d much rather read a good book, or piddle
around in my craft room than sit in front of the TV to watch “the game”, with
few exceptions. Sports have never been a
huge priority in my life.

Check that. If we
could turn back the clock, oh, let’s say about a hundred years to 1969, I
believe you’d find me as passionate about a ballgame as any fan between the hedges could ever hope to be. Back in those days, there were six elementary schools throughout the county. Our schools went through the 8th
grade – no middle school, except for the Winder crowd. Sixth, seventh, and eighth graders were
allowed to try out for the basketball team and the cheering squad. I can dribble bounce a ball while
standing still. That’s about the extent
of my basketball skills. Forget
walking/running and dribbling. Talk
about a comedy of errors!!! However, you give me some saddle oxfords and some
pom-poms, and I could cheer with the best of them. And cheer we did!! Every Friday night during
the fall and early winter, we’d pack the gymnasiums all over the county, and
Play Some Basketball!!! Each school
would play the five other teams – once at home, and once away. There would be standing room only in the old
gymnasiums, with tiny concession stands stocked with candy bars and soft drinks. And you’ve never seen such rabid fans! Parents, grandparents, members of the
community would come out and pack the place, and the screaming and shouting,
I’m sure, could be heard all over town.
It was Serious Business. We
screamed, we cried, we hollered at the refs, and we stormed the floor after
every win. On the way home from away
games, we’d to go Dairy Delite for ice cream. Sometimes we’d sneak and sit with
a sweetheart and maybe hold hands on the dark bus ride home. Gives a new appreciation to the phrase “Those
were the days”.

I wasn’t fortunate enough to make the cheer squad in high
school. One year I made the first cut,
but not the second. I couldn’t play an
instrument, so there was no marching band for me. So, I was relegated to The Walk. You know the one. Walk from the concession area to the stands. Then back again. A thousand times. Throughout the entire game. Sometimes we’d stop on the sidewalk and talk
with friends. If we felt really brave,
we’d walk into enemy territory to check out the cute guys. Then one year I got myself a sweetheart who
played football, so I felt compelled to watch the game – though I knew nothing
about it. Everything I know about
football, I learned from his parents, who patiently explained the basics and
answered my questions. I must say that
after I learned about it, the game became much more interesting.

Interesting enough, in fact, to start attending the GA games
in Athens. I wasn’t a season ticket
holder, but I missed very few home games.
Before the stadium was enclosed, there was a little side gate over by
The Bridge, where students could get in for $2.00. Then there was The Hill. Yes, you remember The Hill!! Hundreds of people would sit on the grassy
hill to watch the game. (And I think
most of them were from Winder!!!!) The fact that it happened to be right next
to the opposing team’s seating area only added to the fun. There was a special little song we used to sing
to the Vandy fans…. Anyone
remember? So many fun times on The
Hill. I also got in big trouble one
time on The Hill….. but we’ll just leave it at that.

Years later, I would again find myself in the stands every
Friday night to watch the Double-G Doggs.
Whitney was in marching band in high school, and I was a Band Mom. I loved every minute of it!! And though I really went for the band, I
enjoyed the game as well. More fun
memories.

This year’s season is upon us, and the excitement in town is
palpable. I don’t expect I’ll be
attending any of the Dawg or Dogg games this year, but I’ll have the TV on for
the GA games. Here’s to a fabulous
season for our favorite red and black teams!

Monday, August 31, 2015

The worst thing about being me today was putting on clothes and shoes at an ungodly hour this morning. HA!! What a lucky girl I am, to be able to say that!!!! The best thing about being me was starting a new job that I can already tell I'm going to absolutely love. Working from home for all these years has kept me in hermit mode, and while I do enjoy my alone time, I'm happy to be working among those who can converse with words other than "meow". (Although I do believe my kitties missed me terribly today!)

Having already gone into the office on a couple of earlier occasions made today a little less overwhelming. There is still MUCH to learn, but the gals who have been working with me are a.w.e.s.o.m.e., and I want to be like them when I grow up. :-) Or at least within the next few weeks. It's a great concept, and a total win-win-win for the patient, the physician, and ME! I'm only a tiny bit impatient that I haven't already mastered the EMR software. I know it will take time, but I can't wait to learn it all!!!

After sitting at a desk all day for a couple of decades, NOT sitting at a desk is going to be a challenge. But I'm consoling myself by thinking about all those steps I'll be taking, and all those calories I'll burn. (Silver lining, you know.) Advil helps, and even though my shoes are hideously ugly, they're pretty comfy. I'll hafta get me some sho-nuff good shoes for the long haul, but avoiding pain is top priority for the moment, until I can get myself better conditioned. It didn't help much that I'm terribly sore from doing yard work this weekend - serious tugging and pulling (by hand) a large patch of rogue weeds, and some runaway spearmint plants. Not to mention the hours and hours (well at least 20-30 minutes) of weed-eating, lots of bending and stooping, etc. My arms still haven't recovered from holding the weed-eater. My legs scream whenever I sit down or stand up. That should be gone by tomorrow, though, so I'm looking forward to some serious improvement in mobility.

Another great thing about being me today was some incredible bargains I found!! On my way home, I stopped at Bed, Bath, & Beyond. My vision is so terrible that I have to use a very strong magnifying mirror for girly stuff. I can't see my eyelashes, I can't see my eyebrows, and I like to keep an eye out for all the new gray hair that keeps popping out. On the dark side, the mirror also exposes terrible things on my face that I really don't want to see - like the giant pores large enough to land the space shuttle, the broken capillaries, and the wrinkles ravines etched into my face. Do you remember the song "Mama Told Me Not To Come"? Yep, I kinda feel that way when I look into this mirror. But, alas, I need the mirror. I seem to have misplaced the one I had been using. So I went into BB&B to pick one up. My last trip to Wal Mart netted me a 10x, and I wanted a 15x like my prior one. BB&B didn't have 15x ones, but they had a bin full of 20x ones. OH NO. The ravines will be canyons now. Nevertheless, I was delighted to see that they had been marked down 50%, from $19.99 to $9.99. Now, let me tell you, I almost wet my pants when I saw the tag that said 75% off the lowest marked price. Are you kidding me? $2.50!!! So, of course, I grabbed several. One for each bathroom, and one for work. On account of you just never know when you might need to watch a space shuttle landing up close and personal.

Also on the 75% off rack, I found some little wine bottle dress-up thingies. Like you'd drape over a bottle of wine when giving as a gift. My brother makes his own wine, and will sometimes give the wine as gifts. I thought these would be cute for him. Go on. Ask me. How much did I pay for them?? Well... The original price on them was $7.99. They had been reduced many times already, and when she rang up the first one it was .12 cents. Yes. T-w-e-l-v-e cents. I told her to hang on just a minute - I wanted to grab a few more of those babies. I went back to the clearance shelf and grabbed up the remaining ones. So for less than $2.00, I probably have enough wine-cover-thingies for my brother's entire line this year. So much fun!!

I'm in serious thrift mode these days, what with the job change and all, but I'm thinking I might be stopping by BB&B fairly regularly now to check out that 75% off rack, seein' as how It's right on the way home from work. Santa will be coming before long, and who knows what cool items might end up on the clearance rack?!?!? The store is moving, and she told me they are putting a lot of items on clearance to prevent having to move them. SWEET!!!!

AND the same route that takes me to BB&B also takes me right by Aldi's. I've recently discovered that I can save tons of money by shopping there, so I'm super excited about that. Time to stock up on the produce!!!

So, yep - it was a great day to be me! I'm home now, all fresh and clean and once again in my jammies. I've got a little bit of clinic work to do, and then it's off to bed.

Please remember to say prayers for and/or send happy thoughts to my co-workers, as they continue the job search. These things tend to move slowly, and transition time will be here before we know it. While I'm very thankful to have landed what I'm confident will be a fabulous job for me, my heart still lies with my sister eagles, and it won't seem "right" until we've all found our new nesting place.

I hope today was a great day to be you, and that tomorrow will be even better!!

Wednesday, August 26, 2015

In the spring of 1992, I started working part-time at St.
Mary’s Hospital as a radiology transcriptionist. I’ve never looked back. I still have my original employee ID number, and
have been on the employee roster all these years, either as part-time, full-time,
or prn.

In the spring of 1999, I came on board with St. Mary's full time. Except for a three-year stint in a local ortho office, I've been full-time ever since.

The date eludes me now, but sometime in the early 2000s, the
hospital embraced the growing trend of remote transcription, and sent us home
to work. So, instead of working in
little cubicles in a room of six to eight medical transcriptionists, we set up
our offices at home, and spent our days working in PJs and socks. It was fabulous!

When the first home-based computer connected to the hospital
for the first time, an e-mail was sent that said simply: The Eagle has landed.

From that day forward, we have called ourselves The Eagles,
and we’ve been very happy in our little nests at home. We are scattered over
six different counties, yet we have remained a very close-knit family, and
every now and then we pack up and go to our Home Nest (the hospital) to work
for a day in order to attend meetings, gatherings, etc. We’ve seen babies born, grow up, graduate high
school and college, seen them get married, have us some grandbabies, and we’ve watched
our parents grow old. We’ve suffered
heartbreak, life-threatening illnesses, celebrated victories, and held each
other close in times of sadness. We
greet each other via email each morning, and strategize the game plan for the
day’s work. We cover for each other when
someone needs to be out. I do believe we
have been closer than some actual blood-related families. And like families
will do, every now and then, we have our spats and disagreements (and the
occasional accidental “reply all” e-mail incidents that can go badly), but love
and respect always win. We forgive and
move forward. And we perform our jobs as
best we can, always with the patient’s best interest in mind. It’s what we do. And what we have loved for many, many
years. It has also been a wonderful
blessing that we all share the same faith, and are able to encourage each other
in that regard. Nowadays that’s a rare
thing. What a joy that has been!

It seems impossible that it could be coming to an end. As you may remember from an earlier post, our
jobs are being outsourced to a very large corporate-endorsed transcription
agency. We were given the option to go
with the company, but none of us want to do that, and we’ve all been seeking
other employment.

One of the Eagles has already left the nest due to medical
reasons, so we’re down one person already.

And now it’s my turn.
Today will be my last day in the nest.
On Monday, I’ll be landing in a new nest as I go to a new job. I’m praying my wings will be strong enough to
carry this old bird into a new land, to learn new things and work with a new
family. I’ll be working in a family
practice office, and will carry my transcription skills with me as a medical
scribe. It’s kind of the same thing I’m
already doing, except the doctor won’t be dictating the words for me to
transcribe. Instead, I’ll go into the
room with the doctor, and listen to the interaction between physician and
patient, and document the pertinent information into the EMR. I’ve been in the office with him on two days already,
and find this concept to be very liberating for the physician. When I visit my PCP, she is hardly able to
make eye contact with me, because she is constantly switching from screen to
screen on the laptop, trying to find the information she needs, while asking me
questions and trying to take care of me.
Not the case with a scribe in the room.
When I was working with Dr. J., I was ecstatic to see his interaction
with the patients. He could sit on his
little stool right in front of them, look into their eyes and really see
the patients. They could feel it too. They
know they have his attention, and that he is really listening to them. I’m
there to document everything, and try to anticipate anything he might need,
such as prior lab work, and can have that ready for him to view, saving him
from having to search for it. It is a
WONDERFUL concept, and I love it already.
It makes me want to be his patient, too!
It’s so sad nowadays that doctors can’t be doctors because of all the
red tape and hoops they have to jump through.

While I am very excited, I’m also very sad. I wasn’t sure of my last day as an Eagle, as
there were several factors that determined my start date at the new job. The phone call came yesterday morning. I had already cleared with my immediate
supervisor to be off the Thursday and Friday before whenever my start date
would be. So that means today is my last
day. The process seems to have taken
forever, but it got real when I told my family of co-workers that Wednesday
would be my last day. I cried like a
baby. Some of them did, too, and it
ain’t over yet. I expect we’ll be
leaving one by one, until there’s no-one left.
At least that’s the plan, because none of us want to go with the agency. (Nasty company to work for!!) So instead of ripping the bandage off in one
fell swoop, and all transition into the agency together, we’ll be going our
separate ways one at a time. It will be
more like taking the bandage off a little bit a time - a slow and painful
process, as one by one we leap from the nest into skies unknown. We vow and declare that we will always be
close, and nothing has to change. We
don’t see each other every day anyhow, so we can still e-mail and
Facebook. But there’s just something about
being in the nest together, sharing a common goal, knowing someone always has
our back. That part will be gone.

The office where I’m going is within the St. Mary’s system,
so I’ll still be an employee of the hospital.
This is a good thing because I get to keep my years of service, leave
accrual rate, benefits, etc.

But still, it is very bittersweet. I’m going to miss my family: Tammy, Pam,
Cheryl, Jeneine, June, and JoAnn. Tammy,
our transcription supervisor, has grieved right along with us, and worried
herself nearly sick that we have lost our jobs.
She has been wonderful through this entire process, and we have been so
fortunate to have a fair, compassionate, hard-working, supervisor who
appreciates us, and tells us so very often.
While there is nothing locally we can do about corporate decisions, I
feel safe in saying the hospital is losing a dedicated group of loyal,
long-standing employees. The trade off for saving money by outsourcing will be
offset, I’m afraid, by strangers - many of whom live overseas- who have no
vested interest in our hospital, and care not one bit about our patients. Sadly, in corporate America, the bottom line
is the almighty dollar.

But, as I have always believed, everything happens for a
reason. We can fret and be bitter about
the change, or we can take it as an opportunity to get out of our jammies, and
get our homebody selves out into the
world. Shake things up a little
bit. Meet new people, learn new
things. Make a difference in the
world. Even if we do have to wear
clothes and shoes.

I’m truly grateful that this job came along – and in
retrospect I can see that it was orchestrated (I believe by God), many months
ago in a casual conversation with a friend from church - long before I knew I would
be losing my job. There have been a few
moments of anxiety, but for the most part, I’ve been very calm and assured that
everything would work out, and that God would provide what I need. And I’m still counting on that heavily, as
there is a significant difference in compensation. (If you look for me and can’t find me, I’m
probably living in a refrigerator box under a bridge, surfing the internet for
different ways to prepare ramen noodles. Haha!) Nah…. I’m pretty sure my mama and DJ won’t
let me go hungry, and my dad would probably let me and the kitties live in the
basement with his electronic stuff if it comes down to that. So I’m not worried. Well, maybe a little about the ramen noodles
part – never developed much of a palate for that…

To my Eagle Family:
As we go our separate ways, may our journeys from the nests we’ve known
for so long be safe and prosperous, and may we always remember this: The Eagles will land again, and God will be
the wind that carries us until we arrive safely at our new homes. We can do
this. We are The Eagles!! Thank you, ladies, for loving me during the
best of times and during the worst of times.
You are all a part of me, and I will carry you with me as I go.

Today it is my turn to fly. I’ll turn off my computer one
last time at the end of my shift today, and say goodbye to a career that has served
me well, and which I have loved, for many, many years. Monday morning I’ll walk through a new door,
get to know my new family, park my car at a new address, and do my best to make
a difference in someone’s world each day.

And all the while, I’ll remember this verse from
Lamentations: “The steadfast love of the
LORD never ceases; His mercies never come
to an end; they are new every morning; Great is Thy faithfulness. I say to myself, The LORD is my portion, therefore will I
hope in Him.”

Thursday, August 20, 2015

Fall is my favorite time of the year! Sadly, school starts back in the middle of summer!!! Earlier and earlier!

For Barrow County, the day was August 4th. I was so thankful to be able to take Leyland and Corey to school on the first day for one last time. (See pictures in a previous post!!) Working from home has afforded me the most wonderful opportunity of doing little things like that, and attending special school functions, that I wasn't able to with Whitney. Since my days of working at home are swiftly coming to an end, I was especially happy to be able to enjoy it one last time.

Every year when back-to-school time rolls around, I am carried back in time to those days when I was a school kid. One summer in particular comes to mind. I wrote about it for "my column" in the Barrow Journal, and it ran last week. For those of you who don't read that paper, I'll share it here, in hopes that it will trigger your own childhood memories of hot summer days and the anticipation of going back to school.

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Back To School

“I’ve got a brand new pair of roller skates, you’ve got a brand
new key. I think that we should get together and try them out, you see.” Does
that bring back memories to you like it does to me?

That was a silly song popular the summer before I entered 7th
grade. It wasn’t a particularly favorite song of mine, but the lyrics and tune
were quite catchy. What I did like about it was that it made riding a bike
pretty cool, and the “person” in the song was probably about the same age as we
were that hot summer of 1970. We rode our bikes everywhere. And like the song
says, we didn’t go too fast, but we went pretty far. All over Statham, to be
exact. The dirt sidewalks laden with centuries-old tree roots were a favorite
obstacle course. We’d bounce along, expertly avoiding the roots, or if we felt
really brave, we would drive over them, bouncing around like popcorn kernels in
a pan of hot oil. At that time, the streets in Statham were paved, but not with
asphalt. I don’t know what it was called, but it was an irregular, gravel-type
material, with uneven rocks. I remember this vividly, because sometimes I’d
lose chunks of my big toes to the offending street surface.

My bike was an ugly, old-fashioned, blue bike. I remember it was
my dad who ran along behind me, holding onto the back of the bike to keep me
from falling, and then finally let go when it seemed like I had the hang of it.
He was so proud! A rite of passage never felt so good. I loved riding the bike, but I hated the
bike. It was so old-fogey. All my friends were riding the newfangled “banana
bikes” with the sleek seats and high-rise handlebars. And I’m still on Old Blue
with the wire basket and battery-operated headlight that jutted out about 6"
on the front looking for all the world like something off the Batmobile. I
longed for a new bike with all my heart. One Sunday my mom and dad called my
brother and I outside. What a surprise!
Brand new bikes for both of us! I almost had a heart attack right on the spot!!
I got my snazzy new banana bike with the white wicker basket on front (and no
stupid battery-operated headlight). It was hot pink, had a white seat with
flowers on it. AND it had pom-poms on the high-rise handlebars. I don’t expect
a teenager with a brand new car could have been more excited than I was with my
new bike!!

I would love to know how many miles we logged on the streets of
our little town. We all wore out two or three bikes over the years, and would
celebrate whenever someone got a new one. We would decorate the wheels with
brightly-colored beads that would slide up and down the spokes with every turn
of the wheel. Sometimes we’d take playing cards and fasten them on the forks
with clothespins. We sounded like a pack of Harleys cruising up and down Broad
Street.

Back in those days, the school at Statham went 1st through 8th
grade. We always had two classes for each grade. We stayed in the same room all
day, and had the same teacher all day. Always female. But as we prepared to enter
the 7th grade, we were excited to learn that we would have different teachers
throughout the day, and some of them would be MEN!! We were really moving up in
the world!! A few weeks before school started, Bobbie Jean and I rode our bikes
down to the school house. We went inside to check out the classrooms, and to see
if we could scope out the new teachers. Once inside, we met Mr. Austin, and learned
that we would be in his homeroom. He teased us unmercifully about riding our
bikes, and told us we reminded him of the
I-Ride-My-Bike,-I-Roller-Skate,-Don’t-Drive-No-Car song. We dutifully informed
him that bikes were the preferred mode of transportation for upcoming 7th
graders, and we were proud of it. But after that, the bike song was kind of our
theme song.

What a different world we live in today. I cherish my memories of
growing up in Statham, and bike riding is one of my favorites. Every trip down
Bike Memory Lane always takes me to that 7th grade classroom, meeting my first
male teacher, and I hear that silly song again.

Next week the kids return to school. Some will be excited, some will be
sullen. Summer doesn’t last nearly long
enough these days. Cell phones and
social media keep them connected, so it’s like they’re not apart at all. Not so
back in the olden days, and I always missed my non-Statham friends over the
summer. I always loved the hustle and
bustle of back-to-school preparation, and the anticipation of seeing everyone again.
Of course, that lasted about a week, then I was looking forward to the next
summer break.

Here’s to all school kids, teachers, and the many other staff
people who make educating our kids happen.
Hats off to all of you. In just a
few days, the future of our nation will be sitting in your classrooms. Thank you for all you do to make our world a
better place. Have a great year!!!

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By now, the kids should be settled in their classrooms, and parents are hopefully adjusting to the new normal. Football season is upon us, and soon it will be time for sweaters and Pumpkin Everything!!!

Saturday, August 8, 2015

In years past, our family would gather as often as possible
for holidays, birthdays, and just because we liked each other’s company.

Labor Day weekend was spent “in the mountains” (Seed Lake) at Aunt Carolyn and Uncle Bill’s place. We'd go there for a weekend in April, too, to celebrate the official opening of trout season. <(((<

Fourth of July always meant going to “The Lake” (Lanier) at Aunt Joyce
and Uncle Gene’s house. Aunts, uncles,
cousins, and boxer dogs everywhere. Fireworks at dark, hand-cranked ice cream from a churn. When it fell on a weekend, we'd all crash at the cabin and stay until Sunday. I
never knew that this was a rare and precious thing. It was just what we did. So many happy memories of our times
together.

Since the passing of my grandparents, the gatherings have
become fewer. There are only three occasions
that we now celebrate with a gathering:
Thanksgiving, held the Sunday after Thanksgiving, Christmas Day, though that
crowd is smaller each year, and 4th of July.

I’m not sure how our celebration of Independence Day got
moved to August, but, I guess that’s just how we roll. Today was the day for our Annual 4th
of July Family Reunion At The Lake.

My morning started out the best of all possible ways – with Leyland
and Corey giving me wake-up snuggles and love.
Mary and the littles had a sleepover with me last night. Just in time! I was about to nut UP from not seeing them for days and days. Leyland hung around with me this morning to
help with the cooking, and then we rode to The Lake together. She is a natural in the kitchen, and loves to
help. She did an entire batch of fudge
by herself, and assembled the green bean casserole. She mixed all the
ingredients for the hash brown casserole, too, and was a great help to me. It’s so much fun to have her in the kitchen!!

The weather was great, the fellowship was awesome, and it
was almost the perfect day. Bittersweet, though, –
as this was our first gathering since we lost Aunt Peggy. We miss her every day, but it sure didn’t
feel right without her there today. And
it’s so sad to see Uncle Billy not doing well.
I don’t like this getting old stuff – not so much for what it is doing
to me, but because it means their generation is getting into some serious
elderly years. I’m not liking that so
much.

It was cool to sit down by the water today, knowing that
four generations of Dunahoo people have played there, sunbathed, skinnydipped, learned to ski,
swim, and dive, and spend untold hours on the dock, riding in the boats,
fishing, feeding the ducks, etc. We'd lie on those cheap plastic rafts and bob up and down with each passing boat, delighted when they'd come close enough to churn up the waves. We’d spend nearly every weekend in the summer
at the cabin. The folks who owned the neighboring cabins did so as well, and it was
like our little family community of Lake People away from reality. Some of the neighbors still come back to visit, and several of them still live there.

One of my favorite
moments of the day was looking out over the water and letting the memories
flood my mind. Our family has been so
blessed. My grandchildren’s
relationships with their cousins won’t be anything like what my generation
was. My immediate family gets together
on a more regular basis, but still not nearly enough. Time is the ever-elusive treasure that,
sadly, enslaves us.

Which is what makes days like today so extra super special. Happy 4th of July, y’all!!

Tuesday, August 4, 2015

New Beginnings.
Remember when I wrote about that a few weeks ago? Well – here’s what one of mine looks like!! And there are more on the horizon!!

Today was the first day of school.
No grandchildren in my house, giving me hugs and kisses, “styling” my
hair while I work, creating beautiful artwork with markers, and sharing their
stories and discoveries.

During the summer, I have one or more of them with me every day. However, during the school year, my afternoon routine is to pick them up in the car rider
line, bring them back here, feed them a snack, and settle in for a little TV
time and homework time. Because of my
impending job change, we’ve had to make other arrangements for afterschool care,
so I didn’t pick them up today. My house
has been very quiet. All. Day.
Long. How I miss those sweet hugs and
kisses, and “Greemaw, guess what?” I
think I’ll even miss the occasional whining and tattle-tale moments.

It has been such a blessing to be able to get
involved with their school activities, parties, ceremonies, having lunch with
them, etc. I’m trying to balance out my
sadness at losing this with being grateful that I was able to do it to begin with. I wasn’t able to do nearly as much with their mom when she was growing up, so doing it with the grandkids has been fabulous
beyond words. It has been a true
blessing to be able to share their lives on a daily basis.

Here are a few of my favorite memories from school days: (tried to keep in some kind of order, but it just didn't work - sorry!)

It’s kind of a nostalgic day all the way around. Today is the three-year anniversary of the
day I moved back to The 409. It was not
a good time in my life, and I wasn’t certain I’d survive it. I don’t suppose I’ll ever understand why
things sometimes happen the way they do, but I stand firm in my belief that
everything happens for a reason. What I
lost that day three years ago was very difficult to overcome, but with my faith, my friends … and time… I was able to get through it. Before long, I began to realize
that it provided the opportunity for me to focus my devotion on the most
important thing in my life (besides Jesus, of course!) – and that is my
family. Moving back to Statham was
always the goal, though I never imagined moving back alone. However – the pieces fell together, and once
I was able to breathe and function again, I realized that this is where I
belong – even if it meant living on my own again. Working from home allowed me to be here for
the grandkids, to do things for Whitney, to be there when my parents needed
me. So – whatever the reason – I’m HOME,
and I wouldn’t have it any other way.

New Beginnings are scary.
Hearing that our jobs have been outsourced to an agency has been a bitter dose of reality. We knew it would happen at some
point – but we were hoping it would be years down the road, maybe to make it to retirement
before the bomb dropped. But, alas, we
have become victims of technology, and there are four of us actively seeking
other employment. It’s kind of scary in
today’s world to be at the mercy of corporate America, especially at my
age. But once again, I must have faith
that everything happens for a reason.
While working at home in my jammies has been FABULOUS for all these years,
I’m almost looking forward to getting out in the real world and interacting with
people again. [To be clear, I’m NOT
excited about clothes and shoes… but I’m thinking it will be nice to be around
people again.]

But in the meantime – until the day that I have to get
dressed and drive in to my new place of employment – I’ll be here at home working in my jammies, in
my quiet house, and miss those sweet grandkids who bring such pleasure and
joy into our lives. I can’t wait for the first sleepover, to hear them
laughing, talking, even bickering- every bit of it! To feel their presence with me, to smell them
and to love on them. To having girl time with Mary - who has gone and grown up on me in the blink of an eye. They are my
heartbeat. And I cherish the memories we’ve
made together.

Here are The Veal Kids on the first day of school 2015. Mary is in 8th grade, Leyland is
in 3rd grade, and Corey is in 2nd grade. They are Greemaw’s sweet babies (no matter
what grade they are in!!)