This is exactly the problem, Lacy. You only speak of YOUR reality. What about those who aren’t as fortunate as you and your husband? We are asking you to expand your perspective beyond yourself and empathize with those who are struggling through inequalities that are much more difficult to overcome. I am happy that your husband found success, but it is very narrow perspective to feel that because your husband made it through some negative comments, his situation is equal to all those who face prejudice. I found a very cool article addressing the bias in the OB/GYN field as well as other fields of medicine that was very educational! So thank you for opening my eyes to a new issue for me :)