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advice please

Ok so my husband has been kind of on his phone a lot lately and I just checked his email which I never do I trust him! Or at least I use to... found that he has online cheating accounts. How do I handle this?

Don't ask or judge. Just pray you don't get into such a position one day.

Quoting drowningmama: What! How do you ladies get in this position?

by Anonymous 2
on Nov. 4, 2014 at 2:55 AM

I didn't think I'd get in that position either, but I found out my husband has been sleeping with a coworker for a year. I was totally clueless. I trusted him 100%

Quoting drowningmama: What! How do you ladies get in this position?

by Anonymous 3
on Nov. 4, 2014 at 2:56 AM

has he cheated on you in the past? can you look at bank records and credit card statements to see if there is any unusual charges something that would be out of the ordinary from what he normally would buy like hotel or eating out or out of town charges. are there any messages in these accounts like hes actually hooking up with these women?

No nothing like that... well that I know of. I went on the website and he was logged on still. He didn't have messages that had him cheating just a profile set up.

Quoting Anonymous 3:

has he cheated on you in the past? can you look at bank records and credit card statements to see if there is any unusual charges something that would be out of the ordinary from what he normally would buy like hotel or eating out or out of town charges. are there any messages in these accounts like hes actually hooking up with these women?

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