This question will haunt Jake Pavelka during tonight's Bachelor finale, but he'll get some much-needed advice from his family, who will join Jake in St. Lucia to meet, grill and judge his final two. And they don't hold back!

Check out four sneak peeks of tonight's finale (courtesy of E! Online) and be sure to follow along tonight as I live-recap the dramatic Bachelor conclusion here at BuddyTV, starting 5pm EST.