Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

30 November 2012 (F)
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41-50 -
I am seeing a man from Africa. I don't know how he feels about me nowadays. Nor if he loves me. We only see each other once a week. I am american and am used to a lot of attention when I am in a romantic relationship. He works and goes to school full time learning and en...
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30 November 2012 (F)
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22-25 -
I've recently started dating this guy who is 2 years younger than me. I'm 17, and he's 15. Now, I don't normally go for younger guys. In fact, for the past 4 years I have been in love with a man who is 9 years older than me. My current boyfriend knows that fact as well. ...
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30 November 2012 (M)
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26-29 -
I want to share this with you people and please give me your opinion I need some help here Thanks :). Ok so I started a course on July, its only 2 times a week and since the first day I've been talking to 2 girls that seemed to be friendly, I also talked to a guy but he left ...
(403 words)

30 November 2012 (M)
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18-21 -
I just found out that my mom is or used to be a porn star. Although, I've heard about this from my cousins who I meet once a year on thanksgiving. Naturally, I thought that was lies, and figured that they were just trying to mess with my head. They often do that. So, I tho...
(180 words)

30 November 2012 (F)
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22-25 -
My friend told this guy I like him. Ever since then, he's been staring at me, flirting with me, calling me pet names. Usually, this is the type of thing that would make a girl think that a guy is into her. But last I heard, he was still hung up on his ex. He told me he'...
(224 words)

30 November 2012 (M)
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18-21 -
I have been dating my girlfriend for over 2 months. At first everything was great, but now I'm not so sure. Things are off and on. One day she loves me the next she hates me. The only way she will ever say "I love you" is if I say it first. She also seems to always be inter...
(199 words)

30 November 2012 (F)
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26-29 -
I have this crush on a guy who I think gave me strep throat about a month ago when we hung out. How do I tell him? What if I'm wrong? I met this guy this past summer at an event. He body painted me and we became friends on facebook and I finally got a chance to hang out with ...
(487 words)

30 November 2012 (M)
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22-25 -
I am have been in a relationship with my girlfriend for two months, and things have been going a little off and on, One second she will act like I'm the best guy ever, the next she hates me. On top of that I catch her in lies all the time. She seems so excited to go spend ti...
(87 words)

30 November 2012 (F)
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36-40 -
My exboyfriend first cheated on me with a stripper, then lied to me saying that he longer had connections with her. Within 3 months the stripper is suppose to be pregnant with his child, and now it has been 5 months and she claims they are married. He denies a marriage, but ...
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30 November 2012 (M)
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51-59 -
I am a male in my mid 40s dating a woman about my age for about a year. We met online and we hit it off right away. I found out about 1-2 months into our relationship that she was still married but keeping her ex temporarily on her medical insurance. She told me this would last ...
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30 November 2012 (M)
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51-59 -
You guys have prevented me from making some monumental blunders in the past..see some of my past posts..But I've NEVER needed your help more than I do now! Scenario: I live in Wash, DC. I'm cycling back from tennis practice when I hear, from across the street, "Hey, you with...
(405 words)

30 November 2012 (F)
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30-35 -
I have been with my boyfriend for nearly 2 years. Whilst he behaves is respectful and caring, he never tells me he loves me, in fact he tells me he doesn't. Should I accept this at face value and leave, or I should be a little patient with him? He treats me with indifference ...
(71 words)

30 November 2012 (M)
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22-25 -
Hello, i am feeling guilty because i talk to a girl online through facebook, skype and sometimes over xbox live and i think she likes me where as i just flirt because i like it. i do not mean to sound bad here but i do not find her at all physically attractive but i really like ...
(307 words)

30 November 2012 (F)
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22-25 -
My boyfriend went away for college to play baseball and our relationship is falling apart, is it even worth the heart ache to continue trying? We dated for 2 years in high school, then all of a sudden he broke up with me the summer before we went to college, 3 days before my...
(476 words)

30 November 2012 (F)
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30-35 -
I love my boyfriend so much, and really want to keep him and have a life with him. But over the last year i have noticed that i sort of move around him. For example, there was one time when he said he didnt want to be with me, and i tried to say fair enough and let him be, ...
(215 words)

30 November 2012 (F)
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41-50 -
Well I am going to start off saying this I don't understand why married men seem to be attracted to me I don't flirt with them under no circumstances they seem to aim my way.I am not the one to break no ones home up I don't believe in doing this it is utterly sad .Anyway I ...
(197 words)

30 November 2012 (M)
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22-25 -
My girlfriend has recently started talking to another guy she goes to school with frequently and I'm beginning to question the truth behind their friendship. She says that he is merely her best guy friend since her and I don't go to the same school, but I've been told by many ...
(350 words)

30 November 2012 (F)
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36-40 -
i got involved with a guy in the university and in our final year i got pregnant and asked me to abort and i refused by then i was 29years of age so i told my mum about it an she called him to asked if he knew i was pregnant for him,accepted and that was it. in my all the ...
(243 words)

30 November 2012 (F)
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36-40 -
I have been with my bf for 1 and 1/2 years. He keeps me hidden from all aspects of his life. He doesnt want me to be around his friends, co-workers or his family. I have only met 3 of his friends and recently met some of his co-workers only because I showed up at a resturant ...
(293 words)

30 November 2012 (F)
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36-40 -
I have broke up from a 2 year relationship. It was my decision. He would not stop visiting datimg sites and always lied to me about it or said he went on them because I nagged him all the time. Now, the same account he said wasnt his is still there with his picture up. I know ...
(101 words)

30 November 2012 (F)
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30-35 -
I have a boyfriend (tgt about 3 years) and everything seems to work out ok between us. I don't know about other ppl, but I always need to feel "connected" to the one I love by having deep conversations, I love sharing deep thoughts, ideas... etc. I really enjoy talking ...
(609 words)

30 November 2012 (F)
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36-40 -
I have been divorced for three years and i am very frustrated because i cannot find a boyfriend. It is making me feel depressed and undesireable. i am a very shy person so i do not have many friends and i never go out..that is just my personality. a lot of guys try to talk to ...
(163 words)

30 November 2012 (F)
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26-29 -
there is this guy. he is a couple years younger than me. i'm 22 he is 20. i've known him for about 3 years. he has extreme depression and social anxiety. he is extremely shy and it was a lot of work to build a friendship with him. we have only hung out 3 times. and yet still ...
(846 words)

30 November 2012 (M)
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36-40 -
I met this girl a few months ago love at first site on both sides. She is still married and has a kid with this Guy. He lives in another state so I'm not worries but they saw each other a few weeks ago at their daughter's birthday party and she been acting different every ...
(132 words)

30 November 2012 (M)
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26-29 -
I have been talking to this girl I have known for two years. We have been chatting a lot recently and she has been asking me to meet her. I have been busy so have not been able to. She has been texting me a lot and hints she wants me to take her out. So i make a plan, s...
(342 words)

30 November 2012 (F)
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22-25 -
Is it normal for my boyfriend to not take my shirt off when we are getting frisky? He loves touching and sucking on my breasts but he will not take my shirt off.Is it because I am unattractive? I asked him about it and he claims he has no idea why he doesn't. Anyone know why or ...
(61 words)

30 November 2012 (M)
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22-25 -
I only attract the really weird and creepy ones that I don't find attractive. People have told me that I am really cute and that I can be a guy who girls are attracted to, but that's only a few of my friends because they're people I know and can be normal around. When I'm ...
(187 words)

30 November 2012 (F)
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26-29 -
We've been together for over a year, and because of this, I believe a text might be really bad. But the problem with that is that it is a long distance relationship, so I can't meet up with him to do it. Also, we very rarely talk on the phone. We're both really busy with things ...
(169 words)

30 November 2012 (F)
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26-29 -
Hi everyone, During my time off school I met a wonderful man who is now my boyfriend. He's a great guy, somewhat older and mature, and understands me better than anyone. Even though I moved to another state, we decided to remain together. We've been together for over a year n...
(502 words)

30 November 2012 (M)
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26-29 -
I have been with my bf for 2 1/2 years. I'm 22, his 23. He was a sweet guy and totally loveable in the beginning. I'm studying full time and I'm working part time and I currently live with my parents. I pay rent and bills and I'm getting my car soon for my birthday and I'm...
(589 words)

30 November 2012 (F)
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36-40 -
hello, i have a problem. i have been with my boyfriend for 7years. we only have sex sometimes once a week or once a month. he says it's because i've gained weight and it feels different. Can this be true? Also i sometimes think he's cheating on me, but i do trust him. Or ca...
(80 words)

30 November 2012 (M)
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30-35 -
how do you know when you're meant to be with someone? i ask this question because all my life, i've based my relationships on that intense "spark" or connection, which inevitably wears off and we wind up realizing that we have absolutely nothing in common after all is said and ...
(281 words)

30 November 2012 (M)
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18-21 -
So the other day my girlfriend broke up with me. So far I have tried to at least be slightly friendly with her and she has treated me like she doesn't even remember the good times we've had. We share a few mutual friends and they have treated me differently too. Everyone seems ...
(117 words)

30 November 2012 (F)
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26-29 -
Hello everyone. I have a problem which i would really appreciate it if you helped me out. My problem has been on going on 4 months and i want some clarity as i don't know what to do anymore. My problem first started when i found porn on my boyfriend computer whom i live with...
(497 words)

29 November 2012 (F)
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26-29 -
I have a situation. I am in love with two people. The big thing here is: I am in a relationship with a man and we have been together for a year now. The other person I am in love with is another woman. She is a professor at my school. She is soooo beautiful, inside and o...
(280 words)

29 November 2012 (F)
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51-59 -
My boyfriend, now fiance are planning our wedding and deciding on a wedding date. We have been engaged for one year. Dated for a year prior. I don't know if it is butterflies in my stomach but a few of his behaviors I am starting to question. I found out he lied about...
(301 words)

29 November 2012 (M)
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30-35 -
My girlfriend and I have been together for almost three years now. We have a pretty basic sex life, nothing ever too wild. One of my favorite things she does is let me finish in her mouth when she gives me oral. She doesn't give many blowjobs, I do wish I would get those mo...
(113 words)

29 November 2012 (F)
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26-29 -
Hello all agony aunts and uncles, I need your advice yet again! Long story short, I moved hours away from my finance to attend college. I was good for the first semester, but then I got really depressed (randomly) and withdrew from the fall semester. I've maintained a...
(155 words)

29 November 2012 (F)
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22-25 -
I've been with someone for a year and a little bit now, and we broke up and its been about two months, we still see each other and things and try and act normal, but we still do things with other people which may be weird. I don't want to be with him but I don't like the ...
(180 words)

29 November 2012 (F)
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30-35 -
Hi all, and thanks in advance for any advice you can give me. I have been with my boyfriend for over a year and we are generally very happy. In general, it is a perfect relationship. Unfortunately, recently I found out that he slept with someone else at the very beginning o...
(298 words)

29 November 2012 (F)
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30-35 -
Hi, I am a very honest person, in a good way. But i dont believe in lying or sugar coating. (im not an overbearing or rude person at all, i say everything as politely as possible i just know some people dont like it) So i dont understand why in relationships people play...
(146 words)

29 November 2012 (F)
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30-35 -
hi there, I have been with my boyfreind for three years, we moved in together last december and a few months later he said he needed space to figure things out, so to give him what he needed i moved back home with family. (he had more money so he chose to stay living in t...
(190 words)

29 November 2012 (F)
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30-35 -
There is a man who I think is attracted to me (flirts, smiles, let's off so much positive energy and shows interest in me etc), but he NEVER has once said my name. He even has written to someone else about me to discuss a detail and referred to me as "she" and then the person ...
(137 words)

29 November 2012 (F)
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26-29 -
Hi, my best friend and I recently revealed we had feelings for eachother, we haven't known each other long but clicked straight away. He's known I've liked him since we met but he only told me recently that he liked me because I admitted I still liked him. He said that he doe...
(270 words)

29 November 2012 (F)
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30-35 -
i'm the most horrible person in the whole world. i had a best friend(S) of 14 years i lived with for 7 years who did a lot for me, supported me in all ups and downs of life and even paid for my school and bills when i couldn't work just to make me happy. we lived together for 7 ...
(944 words)

29 November 2012 (F)
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26-29 -
What do I do about this guy? I really like him:(? There's this cute guy who works at the gym where I've been going for 4months now. He's cute and I really like him. He's quiet, keeps to himself and he seem really passionate about his job. He's really friendly wit...
(256 words)

29 November 2012 (F)
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41-50 -
I have a very healthy sex life. I loe to explore and try new things. I could have sex several times a day if my partner would let me. I have never had a man turn me down for sex before but my current partner stops me from touching him sometimes. He says jokingly he is on his ...
(91 words)

29 November 2012 (F)
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26-29 -
hello i know you have answered this similar question many times but i honestly need help to let this go! i met this guy on face book. 2months ago.he seamed so amazing. we talked a lot, exchanged many photos and videos, called each other all the time. we were planning to me...
(213 words)

29 November 2012 (F)
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51-59 -
I am married 24 years, and recently found out that my husband cheated on me, but he won't admit it. I have been going through treatments because I have cancer and he started a new job. Because of the chemo I was very sick and not thinking clearly so I did not notice anything ...
(595 words)