Take-Aways from Rudolph

Happy holidays. Regardless of whether you observe and celebrateChristmas or not, I send all good wishes for joy, prosperity and
fulfillment during this season and the New Year. As many of us begin to
dim the holiday lights, I’m pushing the pause button to take a last
fond look at our friend Rudolph the Red-Nosed Reindeer.

I’m
taking a fresh look at Rudolph after talking with a family friend,
Julian Sinclair. Julian believes that story of Rudolph's triumphant
run transcends the holidays; Rudolph's story is a parable for dealing
with obstacles, popularity contests, and the everyday decision of
whether to quit or stay the course. As Julian sees it, the story of
Rudolph is all about the “then” clauses: Rudolph stood out from the
crowd, was shunned by his peers for his difference in appearance, and
was only fully accepted after his help was solicited by his boss
("Santa") Once he saved the day by using the source of his “weakness”
as a beacon to guide the way for everyone, then other people paid
attention. It took a foggy night for others to see and appreciate the
benefits that being different could bring to his team.

If you’re
like me, you, too, can empathize with Rudolph: Ever worked in a job
where your skills didn’t line up with the job? Or where you felt you
were writing with the wrong hand all the time as your job didn’t
require you to do the work that came most naturally to you? Or where
you just weren't a fit with your peers?

If yes, you know how painful it is to work in the wrong role—and if you’re still stuck in that situation, you have two choices:

Wait for the equivalent of a “foggy night” at your organization in
which you can show your strengths and demonstrate your skills to your
peers.

Start pursuing new opportunities that align with your natural work style, strengths, and preferences.

As it's hard to predict opportunities to prove your mettle at work,
I've found option 2 is quicker and more efficient--unless you have a
work situation in which you can voluntter to take on new
responsibilities that do fit with your strengths. Want help getting to
the next step? Contact me, and I will help you move forward to find
your best fit. It’s cool to be Rudolph—one day of the year—but it’s
even better to have a career you love, for the 250+ days a year you
are likely to be at work!