Candid it's so kind of you to compliment. .Thank you this message lifted my spirit after another hard day..I don't harm my mother at evenings she subconsciously programmed by my father I think hurts I forget everything when I wake up..It's confusing but something happens and my mood deteriorates anyway my mother says she will come in a week or two..We made trip plans to izmir and foca..It will be nice I think..Thanks again candid and have a great evening

Hearing from you makes everything better thank you..to clarify things the harmer is my mother she hurts in a subconscious different state I think she forgets it too. I believe my father programs this. I hope this time she doesn't do anything and I enjoy my trips

Right..I know it's called paranoia. But in this case what I suspect is true. My mood seriously deteriorates after a night under same roof with my mothet after this thing started. I'm interesting I just can't understand whats really happening to myself it's ignoring escaping or something else just can't understand what's really going on its a big problem..

Have you been able to talk to her about it? I know you told her you were worried about her and she made it clear she isn't going to leave your father, but have you explicitly told her you think she's been programmed?

I know men can be very controlling of their wives. My husband is very strong-minded, has definite opinions on everything, and I've found myself changing to accommodate him. Is that the kind of thing you mean?