Do women do it, i.e. female masturbation

bylessonon25 September 2013

This information may be helpful to you in such a sense that when you see a woman you will clearly realise that she has the same sexual needs than you and hers may be even larger.
Studies indicate that 70 to 80% of women masturbate or have masturbated. It is true that women mature sooner than men because at the age of 12-13 years, but they begin to give themselves pleasure later. They do this either after their first menstruation or the first sexual intercourse. On average this happens not sooner than at the age of 16 years and often much later.

They do it for exactly the same purpose as men. To get to know their own body, this is certainly the beginning. Later they discover that their own body gives them pleasure and and they start to take the advantage of it.
You also benefit from it. Because if the woman in your life has not experienced an orgasm masturbating , it will be hard for you to bring her to this. She does not really know what it is like. When she does it herself parts of her body receive stimulation. Some people claim that if a woman only stimulates her clitoris it is then virtually impossible to bring her to orgasm through vaginal stimulation. Believe me, that's not true. There is an array of techniques and sexual positions that contradict this nonsensical theory.
Interestingly, the frequency of masturbation of women with sexual partners is similar to that of those who are single.
Using this knowledge you can actually masturbate your woman. Best do it like she does. You might ask her to tell you or show what gives her greatest pleasure.

Usually women stimulate their clitoris and specifically the glans clitoris. If you want to do this use either saliva or lubricant because rubbing it with dry fingers will be painful for her. If you are afraid you can’t do it ask her to guide your hand or fingers. You can do it by taking her hand and putting it on yours. You can be sure she will know how to take care of herself by guiding your hand and fingers. Learn from her.
Unfortunately, every woman is different, and what you learn from one will not necessarily work on another. Keep that in mind. And absolutely do not pretend at this point that you know something better.
“No, Ann/Kate/Sophie… it's not done this way, because I know that if I rub here it’s going to be fine.” Never say that.
In this case rely on what she likes .
If you stimulate her orally, you can allow yourself to do your own tricks but try to tease her with your tongue in such a way as you did with your fingers before and you knew that she liked it .
Besides clitoris women masturbate their labia, especially at the entrance to the vagina and the vagina itself. It is true that only about 15 % put fingers or another object into the vagina, but I wrote about what you can do in the article about the G spot.
Additionally, you can rub and caress her breasts, women might do it themselves while masturbating .
To me, the confirmation of how sexually conscious women are that their body is designed for pleasure is the fact I know many women who can reach orgasm by just squeezing their thighs together in the right rhythm.
Speaking of rhythm, when you masturbate your woman, change the both the rhythm and the pace. The procedure must not be monotonous but varying. Read about it also in my text about fractioning.
Masturbation is so important for women because it not only allows them to feel pleasure, but also to explore your own body .

Unfortunately, a lot of women have complexes associated with the appearance of their genitals. This often results from what they have seen in pictures or pornographic films. Keep this in mind when she forbids you to look at her or behaves in a way that seem strange to you.
Actually, porn actresses very often have operations of labia so that imitate the look of the little girls. This is because apparently guys like such look most or maybe it just looks better on the screen. I do not know about you, but for me it is of no meaning.
If you see that your woman masturbates do not reproach her for this. This works to your advantage. In this way she increases the power of the pelvic floor muscles and therefore you will have more fun and her orgasms will be more intense.

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