I had a rough birth, I ripped and was stitched from one end to the other.

My daughter was a big baby and had a different look;

cone shaped head, swollen face, bruises around her eyes (she had a reaction to the eye drops), broken blood vessels in her eyes, The whites of her eyes were mostly red. She had big full red swollen lips and clear looking skin which exposed her veins.

I breast fed her and I had eaten pineapples during the first week home; she's allergic to pineapples so her skin broke out and dried to look like flaky scabs. She also had a very deep voice when she cried.

My friends and family spared me no insult, they tried to bring others over to see and ridicule my baby. I showed off my baby and took her out and people would look at her a turn away. She was a good baby and I knew she looked odd but she was mine and I loved her. After the first month my beautiful daughter's eyes and skin cleared, the swelling went down and her curls hid the pointy head.

I also healed and went on a full (at times, ASS WHOOPING) rampage.

Thank you sharing your story . I would never talk about a person baby . My daughter was a month early without any complications thank God . People would ask me if i ate enough . India was only 4lbs . I would come back with you need to stop feeding your 3 year old obese child 10 meals a day . I think all babies are beautiful . The article made me curious of how other folk think. I was really shock parents think the baby is ugly . Happy you and your baby are well now .

So my facebook is always flooded with newborn baby pics, seems my fb friends are always pumping out babies. Usually the pics do numbers (likes), but Im reminded of this girl's daughter pictures. She always has like 2 likes, (one from herself, and one from her mama/grandma). No comments no nothing. But I guess we all just go by the "cant say nothing nice, dont say sh!t at all rule."

So my facebook is always flooded with newborn baby pics, seems my fb friends are always pumping out babies. Usually the pics do numbers (likes), but Im reminded of this girl's daughter pictures. She always has like 2 likes, (one from herself, and one from her mama/grandma). No comments no nothing. But I guess we all just go by the "cant say nothing nice, dont say sh!t at all rule."

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