Vaginal spasms with orgasm

I was always told that it is impossible to tell when a woman is orgasming during sex. But I saw this video and it looks like her vagina is "pulsating" and she can't control it. Does this happen to you ladies?

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I was always told that it is impossible to tell when a woman is orgasming during sex. But I saw this video and it looks like her vagina is "pulsating" and she can't control it. Does this happen to you ladies?

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I have had some men ask me if I came and I always look at them like they are crazy. How can you guys not tell? I can feel when a man ejaculates while wearing a condom.

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I just went through that a couple of weeks ago... I was plowing her from behind and she was cumming and I couldn't even tell... she came earlier when she was on her back and I couldn't tell either till I turned her over and her ass was all wet! lol!!! I think I was focusing so much on my performance and delaying my orgasm that I was just not noticing much... all in the name of her pleasure! lol!!!!!

if you cant tell.....then she didnt have an orgasm,and if she tells you she did and you didnt feel it then shes a terrible faker also,i personally can uncork a champagne bottle when i climax(ive even vaginally pulled condoms OFF of men accidently),you dont even have to be IN the house to be able to know

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If you cant tell.....then she didnt have an orgasm,and if she tells you she did and you didnt feel it then shes a terrible faker. That's BULL SHIT! Every woman is different, my orgasms vary in intensity. In retrospect I suppose it's possible a man might not notice one of my smaller orgasms. :redface: Also,i personally can uncork a champagne bottle when i climax That's fucking weird! (ive even vaginally pulled condoms OFF of men accidently)Yup, same here.,you dont even have to be IN the house to be able to know.

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if you cant tell.....then she didnt have an orgasm,and if she tells you she did and you didnt feel it then shes a terrible faker also,i personally can uncork a champagne bottle when i climax(ive even vaginally pulled condoms OFF of men accidently),you dont even have to be IN the house to be able to know

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This woman is an ex of mine who usually has a hard time getting and staying wet. The amount of fluid she secreted is right along the lines of two orgasms... trust me, I have known this woman for years and she doesn't do the fake orgasm thing, especially with me! lol!!!! Plus, I am a pumper and that is kind of like using a bit of numbing cream... I lose a bit of connection with my cock (that's totally fine with me because we are usually too close! lol!) so I can in turn, miss subtle changes in the vagina... plus, I was all of the way up her and the first few inches of her vagina were clamped down on the base of my cock most of the time anyway.

I also had a discussion with her before we had sex that I have a 7.5 inch girth and she needs to harness every faculty she has to relax and open up her vagina to allow for easy penetration. If I can't get in without too much difficulty, I don't even wanna screw it, so she was concentrating on relaxing herself and not in the business of "no hands walnut cracking" like some women seem to be.

This chick just doesn't have strong, pulsating orgasms, it's really as simple as that... I mean, not all women are the same... njqt just got finished explaining how her boyfriend sometimes misses her orgasms too, and then here you come all talking smack... whatever...

I can feel my wife spasm every time she has an orgasm. She likes for me to stop pumping and let her roll through her orgasm, when I do I cam feel every contraction her pussy makes. Many times it has sent me over the edge too.

I'm not that big in the girth dept., but she is very tite and my 6" girth stretches her nicely, I think her being stretched makes me be able to feel the contractions better. I can also tell when she orgasms because she gets dripping wet.

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My wife has problems with my girth and so has never had an orgasm during vaginal penetration. Two years ago she started dilating her vagina and ass with the hope of being able to acommodate me, she can take me in her ass sometimes but still no luck vaginally. The first time that she had an orgasm, with a vibrator on her clitoris, while I was in her ass was absolutely amazing for both of us. I had no idea of how long and strong her contractions are with both her vaginal and anal muscles contracting in unison.

I was always told that it is impossible to tell when a woman is orgasming during sex. But I saw this video and it looks like her vagina is "pulsating" and she can't control it. Does this happen to you ladies?

Yeah....it is suppossed to, that is how you know she actually came and didn't fake it

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some women have more pronounced contractions than others...I had one g/f whose pussy got so tight just before that it put me right on the brink, then when she went over and those "milking" contractions started I would come almost every time right when she started....WOW

You really should be able to tell but how strong the orgasm is does make a difference.

I am naturally tight so when i orgasm it can tighten to almost a point of crushing if he is thick, so if he couldnt tell id orgasmed he would have to be VERY stupid or to immersed in his own sensation to care about mine

I loved the sex with my ex gf. Her pussy was so wet, my balls would be coated in her juices in no time. When her pussy started to spasm, it really clamped. In the early days I'd cum as soon as she started.. My softening cock would just be squeezed out of her pussy with quite a force! After practice I could keep control and power my hard cock through her spasms, keeping my cum on the edge of boiling over. I wanted to last as long as I could because her clamping felt so good. I'd keep sliding into her, her pussy being so wet meant that I could keep sliding through her clamped vaginal walls, and this made me so hard. Shed have more spasms, but I could just keep going.. With her eyes wide open, shed usually start shaking her head, telling me no..no.. as she built to another orgasm. Her eyes would remain wide open, as she rode through an orgasm, opening even wider when the climax really hit, her mouth would then open as powerful spams passed trough her body and pussy, her body shakin. I'd look deep into her eyes which would remained locked, it was as if we were looking through each other. I could feel more of her pussy juices gush and flow over my cock as I maintained constant deep strokes. Only after she had gone through a series of pussy spasms, usually the fourth series, would I feel I'd earn't the right to cum myself.
Nothing has felt better than her pussy rippling, clamping and spasming around my cock. I crave that feeling and looking into her eyes while in orgasm is something else..
She could also 'Break Wind' at times while she was convulsing....'Sorry', shed mutter.... I just loved the way shed loose control.. She was the most intence 'Love making' I've ever had... Loved her

Women can do them for various reasons. The only thing that is predictable during orgasm is the uterus contraction. It often worries women when pregnant and it's really noticeable.

For any man to decide they know whether a woman has had or has not had an orgasm, is ridiculous.
To make sex about "did you or didn't you" is counter productive. Who wants to be put under a microscope. Sex is to be enjoyed and women especially need to be more mentally involved. Stimulation of the clitoris is still first for most women. Where it goes from there is individual.
For you men in long term relationships: many women enjoy the emotional closeness of intercourse (with someone they love) even if they know they're not "horney" enough to have an orgasm. It can be for many reasons, hormones and pregnancy. Don't discount her feelings even if you don't understand them.
Women are individuals, all different and yet unique. Stop worrying about her orgasm, start thinking about her. Listen to HER, she knows her body.

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Mumzi, your post about mid and lower vaginal contractions are fascinating. My wife's been practicing different kinds of kegels with the help of a physical therapist. Long story as to the why, but suffice it to say she's had adhesion issues since her hysterectomy and these exercises seem to be helping.

Anyway, the kegels make it possible for her to contract the upper chamber of her vagina. It's the soft pillowy part after all the muscles. Kind of hard to describe, but as I enter her it's naturally tight at the introitus, then further in it gets firmly snug. Going even further in, my head feels like it pops into a soft almost loose portion, and then the end.

I could think of this spot as her posterior fornix, but having undergone a hysterectomy, not sure if that's the proper vernacular. It's definitely a separate space deep deep inside her.

Anyway, to my point, she can now isolate that area and squeeze just that area around my glans. Totally drives me crazy when she cums and squeezes this set of muscles.

My second point is about doing kegels on an erect cock. I've felt kegels when I was half or semi-erect and I can definitely tell when she's squeezing. If I have a full blown 100% rigid erection though, she can strangle it with both hands and I barely feel it. Just an FYI on why some men may ask.

My second point is about doing kegels on an erect cock. I've felt kegels when I was half or semi-erect and I can definitely tell when she's squeezing. If I have a full blown 100% rigid erection though, she can strangle it with both hands and I barely feel it. Just an FYI on why some men may ask.

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This is really interesting, because I've felt a similar thing from the other side of things. If I squeeze on a single finger, it feels as though the finger might just break (when it's my own finger) and have had comments from my partners that suggest they feel the same thing. I can feel the pressure strongly right along my vag walls at any points where I'm touching the finger (plus some other feelings extending up the walls).

But if I squeeze against a very hard cock, I can hardly feel the extra pressure in my vag at all. I've always found it rather weird.

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This is really interesting, because I've felt a similar thing from the other side of things. If I squeeze on a single finger, it feels as though the finger might just break (when it's my own finger) and have had comments from my partners that suggest they feel the same thing. I can feel the pressure strongly right along my vag walls at any points where I'm touching the finger (plus some other feelings extending up the walls).

But if I squeeze against a very hard cock, I can hardly feel the extra pressure in my vag at all. I've always found it rather weird.

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I might be able to throw a little light on this. There are devices used to measure hand grip strength (dynanometers), and the biggest numbers are pulled when the grip is closed - like making a fist around a pencil. Once you open your grip (like gripping an aerosol can), grip strength is reduced. There's probably stuff to do with levers and optimal situations but that's not my forte.

Used to have a fuckbuddy whose cunt was naturally tight and she also mastered kegels... She could squeeze my cock during intercourse and sometimes squeezed so strong that my cock went out of pussy... the feeling of a cunt squeezing your cock is simply amazing and I reckon such a cunt is able to orgasm many times in a row.. she is , actually, the only multiorgasmic chick I've ever fucked