Wish I knew in H.S. and college that I'm not as stupid as I think I am. That I had potential to do something more than clerical work or be a housewife. I wish I knew that I would regret depending on my husband to take care of me financially. I wish I got my degree when I was young and didn't have 3 kids and all the worries and responsibilities of raising them on my mind on top of term papers and mid terms. <br><br /><br><br />Girls .. forget about boys .. don't be afraid of having brains and using it. Be strong, be confident, be aggressive. Grab life by the B*lls!!!! Otherwise, you will regret it one day; I promise! I've seen it time and again, abusive controlling husbands. Even my husband who is very charasmatic, charming and successful is controlling me. I want out; I can't afford out! My father always said; your husband's career comes first. I should have never listened.

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