Tag: value

What’s holding you back isn’t what you don’t have. What’s holding you back is the choice and decision to have that which you want.

You see, in order to acquire and have what you want, will ask of you to do the work, put a plan together and take the steps necessary to have what you want.
What holds you back is the story, and beliefs you tell yourself about money, about spending money or putting money towards what you want.

Money is a tool. it is used to build and invest into things, qualities that will help you, to aquire the thing you want. Money is the vehicle, when you spend and invest in services, program and products thathelp you get there. Now the choices you make on the products, services and programs are up to you. The point is saying no, and being unwilling to move money towards your desires, hold you back.

You don’t commit. You’ don’t hold yourself powerful enough. You don’t see the power you hold in the decision you make to have what you want by placing money towards having it.

Now the steps, require action. So when money is put in the plan, you have a sense of urgency a sense of purpose. Take the steps. Go to the groups, take the classes, show up. These are all important aspects that move you towards your desire. It take courage and it shows commitment.

In order to have what you want, you must be doing things different than you are doing them, so this plan puts that in place.

Practice. Practice feeling what it feels like having what you want. Practice expriencing who you are having this. What does it feel like. How do you stand, how do you act? What becomes important to you. Do more of these things.

You see having what you want is in your control What it takes is letting go of the story. Letting go of the excuses. Stepping into curiosity and courage, the 2 qualities necessary to find a new way, to find what it is you desire and want. Every other way- has you in the old beliefs that hold you back and don’t support you and your wants.

Other people will have a story why you can’t do it, why it won’t work.

Stop listening to them. They don’t hold the power, you do. Your power requires actions in alignment with your goals and desires.

What holds you back is your inability to take the actions, to be bold and hold yourself powerful in action.

Now, today, what are you going to do, what action are you going to take on in alignment with your goals and desires.

There is a pathway, a process flow moves through. Often when there are blocks in the way, blocks such as limiting beliefs, faulty habits and patterns, and blocks that are negative self talk, this pathway becomes stuck, stagnant and empty.

It is here, often people try to fill this void, this stuckness with things, relationships and other toxic actions, unaware how to step into surrender, allow, receive in order to have the flow moving again.

I want to break this down into simplicity, and yet fully aware of the magnitude these thoughts and actions are, for they ask you to step outside your comfort zone.

So if you have thoughts, actions and beliefs that weigh you down, that feel heavy, these are creating blocks, interfering with your growth, development and flow. In order to move, to grow, shake off the limitations, you must take a new action, create new thoughts and beliefs. You must remove the old in order to clear space, create and receive the new.

So, here is where surrender, allow, receive come in. While you recognize the limitations, you take a new action. In this new action, entering the unknown, you build courage, strength and develop trust and faith. This is laying the pathway to the new. Consider it laying a new foundation or digging out a channel that’s been backed up. Once you have developed the new habits, patterns and beliefs, and taken actions, there will be a bridge to cross. This is the threshold into the new. This is through your courage and commitment to move forward. It is here, as you cross this threshold, the work is complete, you must lay down your actions, your movement, and surrender your will to the bigger vision. To the vision you are going towards. This surrender is peaceful, authentic and truly a gift from the Universe for you to be seen, heard and validated. As you accept surrender, you allow. Allow is a beautiful practice of clarity, clear on what you want to receive and clear of what is not acceptable, as you hold strong, discerning boundaries. Allowing only that which is in direct alignment with your desires, growth and new. This sets the ground, and foundation to receive- a nest to receive that which you desire, the new. And to receive what you desire becomes simple and effortless. It comes in in the most miraculous ways.

Be strong. Be powerful. Trust in your desires and take action.

It is up to you to cultivate a relationship with trust, faith, surrender, allow and receive.

Over the past week I’ve had 2 men stop, for me. They couldn’t put their finger on what was different about me, only that they were very attracted to me. They wanted to spend time with me, finding me mysterious, curious. The attraction was more than physical, something greater than external. These men where attracted to my light. They were charmed by the radiance of my inner feminine, the Priestess within, illuminating out in all I am. I find women notice it, and often have a hard time seeing the reflection within themselves. It becomes unsafe for women to see another women so wildly accepting of herself, her joy, her passion and her pleasure.

What is the recipe for women to notice their own inner worth? The value they have inherently within that doesn’t seek approval, has no need to be right, perfect or unkind to herself? For a woman to be so unapologetically all she is, Happy, Free and Radiating Joy

Within you, your Divine Feminine, Inner Priestess hold more power than you could ever imagine.

The first state of affairs is to release the belief that outer things, money, high end luxury car, big home, top level career, designer handbags hold more value than you do, or that they give you value. Sure these luxuries add to your quality of living, but when you sacrifice your own truth, your own worth in exchange for these things, you give up your power. You give up your power to the things you believe make you who you are. They don’t and they can’t. Only you can do that for you.

Let’s get back to value and worth. A woman’s worth is marked on her ability to hold good boundaries, use discernment when making decisions, not judge others, and most importantly honor her body mind and spirit with healthy positive habits, thoughts and actions.

And guess what? Honoring your body mind and spirit as a woman will take an investment of your resources, time, energy, and money. Resources are given to us to exchange for building, creating and investing in what matters most to us. If you complain about “being fat” or “not having enough time”, well it’s a call to action to invest, step forward, spread your wings and jump. If you believe buying another pair of shoes will do the trick, or getting your nails done, you’re missing the point. A woman, who holds power, who knows her value and worth is willing to invest in herself. No excuses. Period. Sure she’ll be uncomfortable, yet with faith, a courageous heart and the trust of her self, she steps forth into the unknown onto a journey of self discovery which brings her more life than she could ever imagine.

When we begin to understand money as a tool, it’s put to use to provide for us what we need in life, that includes spiritual maturity of using money to grow our own health, well being and spiritual practice. One that keeps you happy, healthy and radiant. Money, provides the luxuries necessary to nourish, nurture and support your greatest asset, your Inner Priestess, Your Light. You’re too valuable, and you know it. Quite the excuses and the whining.

How do I keep my Inner Priestess so Bright? I cultivated a deep, passionate and loving relationship with my emotions. Ones that like any relationship have their ups and down, yet, with a knowing they are my emotions, I am responsible for them and they support my living from my habits, thoughts and actions. I’d better know how to use them to my advantage.

I’ve let go of attachment of what I think I need and what I want to focus on what I feel. What feels true to me. What inspires my soul. Where is my passion, my joy and my freedom. That is my source of connection to my Inner Feminine and I unabashedly share it, and Be, in it.

Being in my Feminine means, letting go of the push, any sense of insecurity, holding centered, rooted and balanced in Trust. It means listening to my intuition, watching the world around me from a higher perspective, and it means leading my life from flow with ease and grace. I hold sacred with value my resources, my relationships, my business, my health and my life. If there is no trust, honor or respect, I make a conscious choice to end the relationship and walk away.

I believe men appreciate and need woman to take a stand for their own feminine. I believe our world needs women ready to take a stand for her own feminine, to honor her own self, releasing her toxic behaviors thoughts and patterns. I believe it’s time for women to reclaim a part of herself she abandoned for things, the idea the outer world would provide for her.

The honest truth. A woman must be ready. She must be so tired, exhausted, drained of her energy, her life force. A woman must be so unhappy in her life, miserable at wits end and really feeling unworthy and defeated to say, YES, Yes I am ready to claim my value and worth.

Trust as a Resource

Building a new economy with trust, value and commitment

Oftentimes we look at resources as time, energy, or money. What if we expanded our version of resources to include Trust, Values, and Commitment?

When building a relationship with someone, is it important to you where their commitments are? What do you notice about their values in the way they carry themselves, speak about themselves and others, connect with others, and relate to their work?

Imagine for a moment being in Trust with others regarding your values and commitments; taking action, making decisions, and building these relationships through your resource of Trust. How would your relationship dynamic shift when investing in inner resources rather than outer resources? What if your choices, decisions and actions are processed through your operating system of Trust?

Rather than sitting in a business meeting negotiating time and money for services or products, build a partnership based on Trust, Values, and Commitment, for the benefit of all. Instead of expending precious energy locking horns with loved ones, for example, you could engage in productive communication in alignment with your values and commitment, grounded in the context of trust. In relationships, appreciating people and services for the value they bring, the commitment they have, and the trust they promote, results in positive growth in time, energy, and money! Your time with the ones you love would be enriched. Your business relationships would flow with purpose. The income you earn would be more satisfying. Your energy, your ability to feel so good and inspired, would increase. Envision the positive impact building partnerships through Trust, Values, and Commitment could be for your lifestyle.

The skill set of Trust, Value, and Commitment, are taught through positive coaching, as early as childhood. Recognizing these are skills we learn when it’s required of us to push through, move beyond, and step into a greater version of ourselves. In childhood, it’s expected for children to learn new skills, and grow. As adults, it’s expected you get a career, a job, even a relationship, and fit into a standard model~ executive, business owner, parent, wife, husband, etc… We stop looking at resources of trust, values, and commitment as priorities, and live mediocre lives preoccupied by time, energy, and money.

My role as a Transformational Executive Coach is to Illuminate Your Personal Values, Maximize Your Strengths, and Support you in Achieving your Commitments. My commitment is working with clients through a relationship built on Trust and Values, recognizing my clients’ greatest skills, contribution, and most importantly, the Value they bring to people and business. Through this working relationship, my clients are coached into manifesting opportunities leading to increase in time and energy, decrease in stress and worry, and owning your value and contribution. My game is on in positive growth.

All increase, and positive growth, happens with confidence, focus, and Trust in your Skills and Values.
I can tell you that my Trust in myself, Valuing my passion for Success and Committing to my greatness is unwavering. It’s the Passion that lights my way.

ATTITUDE

A little goes a long way

Attitude– clear focused vision of where you are and where you are going. Attitude, Purposeful discernment of right use of your energy and true power. Attitude reveals your values.

When you are clear on what you value, your business, career growth, health, and body, family, personal relationships, intimate relationships, community, and even, my favorite, your skill set, you are able to define the attitude you decide to have. I can assure you, men and women that have a passion for success always have an Attitude of Excellence in everything they do; it is a state of mind. Through understanding how your Values impacts your Attitude, you can move your energy and true power forward, achieving results and success.

Attitude comes from your Mindset. Mindset is the belief system you hold, it’s how you think. By paying attention to positive thoughts, you are setting your mindset and attitude in the right direction. Since your mind is one of the most powerful tools you have, you can create the most fulfilling, positive experiences, and do things you didn’t believe you could do. Your mind can set you up for success. You must build your Mindset to hold the Attitude You Want. You can create experiences using your mind, by how you think. When you choose positive beliefs and apply purposeful focus, your mind powerfully aims straight towards your goal. Of course, holding yourself this powerful takes an attitude of success to match.

Henry Ford said, “whether you think you can or you can’t, you’re right.”

So if you have goals you want to achieve, either you are taking action and making them happen, or you are being lazy and taking an easy way out- finding excuses why they’re not happening, and buying into your own excuses.

I am known for my Attitude in work and business. I hold a high value system that honors and respects my skill set, while having a high standard of excellence and a drive for success. I hold these values, not because I need to, but because it is who I am at My Core, where I am authentic, present, and fiercely connected to the Best Work I do. Quite honestly I love how my influence positively inspires, motivates, and drives my clients to their Best Work, increasing business and personal relationships, revenue, quality, and passion for their work and overall well-being, getting results. My Attitude spilling over into my clients; that for me is Success.

I know every day I make a conscious choice with My Mindset to focus on My Values and My Attitude for MY Success.

Here are 5 tools to Tune Up and Tune In to Your Attitude:

Be clear on what you value. What in your life has meaning to you and why? Look at what these people, places, businesses, communities, things or qualities of yourself bring and add to your life. Your Best is required in all experiences, interactions and communications within what you value. Define your Attitude. Incorporate Right Use of Energy; be focused and clear with intention and true power, knowing your own worth and values. What an awesome feeling to be so passionate and powerful in your Attitude for what Fills You Up!

Clean Up and Tighten Up your Mindset. Your Mindset must be impeccable with what you believe, feel, and value…..psst…no one is going to do it for you. Take your time and practice, through exercise, meditation, and quality time with the ones you love. Focus on building a Positive Mindset that supports your desired results. Read books and listen to podcasts on Mindset. Be a believer in You, your passion, and your true power, and hold your Attitude high, meaning hold your Attitude to a high standard. Just as “you are what you eat,” you are also what you believe. Keep your mind fresh, clean, and focused on the Biggest Attitude you can have.

Put your Attitude out there, Trust in Yourself. I get that not everyone is going to understand, value, or see your Attitude the way you do- it does not matter. The ones who do see and value your Attitude will also see your level of drive and desire to succeed. Your Attitude is your power and passion, and only you can choose to own it.

Don’t be afraid to ask for the support, help, or reinforcement from a friend, partner, or mentor. Holding your Attitude High is very rewarding, and it can also be a bit challenging and rocky at times. Requesting backup gives you a flash of energy, reminding you of your Best, your greatness, and why you hold Your Attitude so High. Sometimes it is just what you need to blast you forward.

Each and Every day live bold in Your Attitude. Starting your day with a clear vision and intention of who you are, what you value, and how you are succeeding, sets the ground work for your Attitude. When challenges, setbacks and interferences can and often do occur, you are ready. When in your Positive Attitude, Nothing can shake your peace of mind, disturb your focus. Attitude is the space in which, no matter what is happening in the world around you, you are Fierce within, choosing Your Attitude over the disruption.

Be Driven to succeed. Love your Attitude and be true to your Power and Passion.Illuminating the Riches WithinMonica Heiz
Priestess of Passion