My G/F is interested in being tied up and blindfolded. We have talked about this several times and have laid a few ground rules and have a SAFE word. The big question I have is, should I tie her loose enough that she can get untied by herself, or should it be tight enough that she will have to be let go. We have known each other long enough that trust is not an issue, I just want her to feel good with it the first time or two. <img src="/forum/images/emoticons/dontknow.gif" alt="dontknow">