Funny about the mirror thing -
I am always amazed that I can find a part of me in everyone....Even in people I like not so much...It's often scary to recognize a character trait I am very offended by - in me.....
Sooooooo!
If I am totally offended by someone I usually sit and think, now why am I so offended......It usually has something to do with a part of myself that once I find I can work on....
Once I find it and identify it, it doesn't seem to be so offensive for some reason....Ponder that one!