We have a large problem and don't know what to do about it. Several years ago when planting up this garden, we put in an evergreen honeysuckle. We realised after a while that it was intruding on our neighbours leylanii hedge, so we immediately got rid of the original plant on our side. However, it has grown and grown on her side, and now covers the full length of the hedge, growing at a very fast rate. Our neighbour is a dear old lady, who says she doesn't mind. The hedge needs cutting often because of the honeysuckle.
We cut it, and so does her daughter, but we feel so guilty causing so much work. Please advise us .