Lol, I'm more confused about why you'd insist on a condom for receiving oral, but will give it with no problem.

Long story short, though, it's going to depend on where you live. Check a site like m4rn.com and see what other people in your area are charging, you don't want to price yourself much below it, or it doesn't become worth the time for all the risk, too high and you never have any clients.

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If you're the same quality of the guys on www.rentboy.com you can get up to $300 per hour. But many of them are porn stars. If you're not a porn star or porn star quality, you'd need to dial back your fees accordingly.

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Philosophically I have nothing against prostitution at all. But I've never seriously considered it as something I'd consider as a way of earning my living although I've had times of hard privation in my life.

Bear in mind that your clients will be paying you to perform things that they cannot get on the open market for free. As such, I believe that your menu of limits would fall by the wayside very quickly. And have you ever considered that you'd need to respond (get hard and cum) no matter how unattractive the client would happen to be?

Lol, I'm more confused about why you'd insist on a condom for receiving oral, but will give it with no problem.

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He is talking about a prospective client receiving oral wearing a condom. Probably doesn't want to taste cum although he may argue it's a safe sex issue.

As far as the original question is concerned - you won't make a lot of money - you might get lucky and find someone prepared to pay you a lot because you are straight and lack any same sex experience but most guys are not going to be interested.

I suspect most guys who hire escorts want an escort who knows what he is doing and at least give the impression that they are enjoying it. They also want someone reliable - craigslist is full of 'straight' guys who want using or want teaching or want initiating. Why is someone going to pay for this?

He is talking about a prospective client receiving oral wearing a condom. Probably doesn't want to taste cum although he may argue it's a safe sex issue.

As far as the original question is concerned - you won't make a lot of money - you might get lucky and find someone prepared to pay you a lot because you are straight and lack any same sex experience but most guys are not going to be interested.

I suspect most guys who hire escorts want an escort who knows what he is doing and at least give the impression that they are enjoying it. They also want someone reliable - craigslist is full of 'straight' guys who want using or want teaching or want initiating. Why is someone going to pay for this?

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i assumed my only advantage is that i get hit on gays a lot...they tend to IMO have a thing for very young boyish skinny guys....

but yeh i suppose gays are known for promiscuity etc...and easy to find partners after all men are men lol...so yeh could be hard...lol

but yeh i suppose gays are known for promiscuity etc...and easy to find partners after all men are men lol...so yeh could be hard...lol

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Gays (and all queer people, I'd imagine) are only known for promiscuity because, IMO, we are more sex-positive and open to other systems than monogamy. (Please, save your arguments, LPSG is skewed towards the liberal, sexually educated side, but I'm sure people can agree on what I'm saying as far as the average American goes.

And honey, ask yourself - are all women women? In your case, if you are a young, boyish, skinny male, you are not getting so much as a second glance from me. Everyone has standards (or as much as I hate the word, "type"), queer or straight.

LOL, there was an older retired military officer who lived in my neighborhood used to pay me $100 bucks to have sex with him when I was much younger and cuter. He originally hired me to do yard work and keep his yacht clean...but I guess seeing me doing yard work and scrubbing the boat shirtless got to him. I honestly would not have done if he had not been hot though. This was back in the pre-internet days of the late 1980s when closeted gay guys had to leave messages on stall walls and do the Larry Craig foot tapping thing in mens rooms to meet guys. LOL

You will probably find that most guys these days who are so desperate that they have to pay for it in the age of Craigslist, Adam4 Adam, and Manhunt...are probably either REALLY FAT, REALLY UGLY, or REALLY OLD...or perhaps some combination of all three!

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You will probably find that most guys these days who are so desperate that they have to pay for it in the age of Craigslist, Adam4 Adam, and Manhunt...are probably either REALLY FAT, REALLY UGLY, or REALLY OLD...or perhaps some combination of all three!

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Some are, but several of the guys interviewed in the book I'll Cover You in $20 Bills: The Male Body Beauty Business I'll cover you in $20 bills: the ... - Google Books
say that many of their clients they would have sex with for free if they had met them in a bar etc. Apparently a good percentage of them are workaholics who don't have time for cruising. Some are married businessmen out of town who want to play discreetly and they find escorts less seedy than adult theatres. And apparently some guys have a fetish for paying for it, which I'll admit I don't understand but whatever rocks your boat.

Also if you want porn stars and don't live in LA, you'll probably have to hire them. I've only hired a few escorts but in every case they were either top ranked porn stars and/or Playgirl models. They each came to Dallas for a few days specifically to do escort work. There is little chance that I would have run into them on the street.

Other than the workaholics or the closeted famous guys, most guys who hire escorts also have sex with lots of other guys as well, so it's not really a question of being desparate, although that's the prevailing mythology.

I beg to differ with some of the above posts. I really like the comfortable barrier to intimacy that money provides in a sexual encounter. It makes it much more honest and often less subject to games. I can get sex pretty easily but it often is not as affectionate and focused on my wants as I can get with a paid date. I had a young porn star over tonight who almost made me cry with the rapturous quality of his affectionate hugs and kissing. For a terminally single dude like me, a rentboy can be a tall glass of ice tea on a hot, sultry day

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Ok so as an actual Male escort whos been in the industry for 5 years I can actually give some constructive advice I would have done so sooner but I thought you were asking about paying for it not getting paid for it.

My first piece of advice would be to find out if its legal where you are.... if its not legal where you are i wouldnt bother its not worth it becuase its far too dangerous and the law wont protect you.

If it is legal where you are then find out about what kind of protection the law provides and what attitude the local police have towards the sex workers becuase essentially the more professional the local establishment the safer you will be.

Secondly once you know that part of the deal figure out your what kind of client your appealing to, if your in a metropolitan area or a large city a large percentage of your clientelle will be older gentlemen or overwieght gentlemen with the occasional married guy or gay workaholic.

Set your rates by the clock not by what you do for example i have three rates I have an erotic massage which $60 for the massage body rub and hand job, I also have Half hour full service which is $70 for half hour whatever they want not including kink and $110 1 hour full service which is 1 hour of whatever they want not including kink.

Then you decide what you will and wont do for example I will kiss I will touch I give and recieve oral without a condom but i wont do anal without a condom either giving or recieving.

There are some definate things to remember when working, I have always said there are tweo types of workers... those that tune out or those that tune in......

If you tune out and try to pretend like you not there the client will notice and wont appreciate it and you wont keep many clients for long and you will start to attract the unsavoury side of the business and the clients that dont really care whether your enjoying yourself as long as they are

It makes the more emotionally exhausting but learn to tune in.... learn to find things you enjoy about the job so that you start to look forward to each job you do and if possible try to find something appealing about the client themselves, this will show in your work and the quality of client you attract will also reflect this the other bonus is if you work this way you will enjoy it more so you will be able to work longer

The last post gave good advice, but in this regard, while there are some protections generally under law even when certain types of escort services are illegal, the best protections are proactive.

Talk with clients using a telephone (and its best to have a 'work-only' mobile), and get their information before meeting them. Many escorts, both male and female, perform background checks on their clients as well. It is wise only to work with clients who you can be reasonable certain are not going to present a danger to you.

Double ++ on the condom issue; but more than this- be prepared for regular medical checkups. And yes, you'll need to be frank with your doctor about what you want to be checked for.

Lastly- many people are drawn to the escort business because they think its easy money. It very much is not.

No, I've never worked as an escort, but a long time friend of mine did spend several years doing this when she was younger, and was very willing to tell me about how she proceeded.

Adding to what the poster above said about the types of clients you will attract, a lot of it is related to your characteristics; mental, physical, and your 'lifestyle'. Lifestyle meaning drug use, among other things.

As a final note, the 'kink' factor- some things require actual training- especially BDSM related activities. They can be potentially dangerous if you don't know what you're doing. Educate yourself about ANYTHING before agreeing to do it- and don't go outside your comfort zone. People know if you're not comfortable with what you're doing, and will not feel that their experience has been enjoyable.

yeh on second thoughts the fact im skinny boyish could be more dangerous...also Im pretty much straight so if Im only doing massage handjobs whos to stop them trying to force more..if its not legal...who can i turn to

Being a man I know that we think with our diks more than our brain...and if im in a situation with a hot cute girl giving me only a handjob more would be hard to resist and many men would get aggresive and force acts..thats a fact

Also, as for saying gay people get around more

i was basing that on fact as men we are alwasy wanting sex..if we are gay must be easy to find other horny up for sex guys.

Cuase many times girls wont put out or made to feel slutty etc...therefore gay males can have sex rampantly im guessing

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I have an acquaintance who is a masseuse and he charges $60.00 per hour for a "full body" massage (tip not included). He said his tips are anywhere from $25 for a hand job to $100 for anal (give or receive). I have visited him for a massage and got an awesome blow job and fucked him up the ass free of charge because he liked my penis. It is wonderful to get a relaxing massage and then as you are about to fall asleep feel a nice warm mouth swallow your cock. I did one time let him fuck me, but his cock was on the small size and not too enjoyable for me.