I think you got yourself an internet stalker. If this keeps up, your story can go into making a Hollywood movie.

Until then, it is good to consult the police on a restraining order for this guy…
Or you could fly to, say, the Amazonian Jungle. I’m sure blog entries about your exploits will be really cool. Even more if John here decides to follow.

Or how about posting morbid, wicked, sadistic stuff that you might do?
Maybe a psycho/basic instinct-inspired entry for Halloween?
Of course need to make it look like you are really a deranged serial killer or something.

Hey cheesie,not bad huh got a huge fan (admirer perhaps*).Hey this john abit gone case la..hehehe..he is either a lone ranger,a lonely guy who need love badly or a psycho!or even a nerd?hahah
i had faced this experienced before and what i been through is this guy turns out to be a nerd…

Scary? Well Some may find Love scary… Personally I think its great! (There is no higher power… Anywhere)

But –
A restraining order? Oh thats good! To..what? restrict my writing to Cheesie?
Hmmm. Have done what I can to make contact, but its not like I’m stalking her, not even on the same continent – same world? maybe///

I must admit a bit of surprise to see this here, but in truth it gives me hope that possibly…
Ah well, what can one say about someone like me? Seems many of you think I am “creepy” or “a lost basket” Thats getting closer I guess! JK!

Let a lot of things slip by in my life, but I had no real love of them… desire maybe. Joy maybe… but sometimes you just have to dive in head first and be bold. The worst she could tell me is NO. I only went looking – rather innocently too I might add. And Wham!

I’m not perfect, who is perfect…

In regards to this, and our other communications – perhaps it is time to write more on my own blog.
Attempted to give all opportunity to bail on me, and she could just ignore me yes.
Yet…
I am no harm to her, nor anyone else. I think some of you are just..well, impatient. And I know what thats like in a big way, and I got tired of it – so I threw it away. But it came back.

Chellcee – I agree with you there.

bullshit – “other than that, i dunno wtf he was rambling abt.”
Really? well, perhaps you should open your mindseyes more man. And a name like that wont score you points! OY…

lyn – You seem very nice, but its no wonder you gave up reading since you seem unable to type a complete word yet. It’s ok, I understand time constraints and all, but what is wrong with proper wording? I see its place in a chat box, but…in a post? Any way – no hard feelings eh? Love to You @+

Whatever! – I have no need to explain my self to anyone… except those I choose to.
Happy just to see she even acknowledges my presence.
Ok… Time for me to do other things today, busy sunday!

It’s good that you’re publishing things from him. It makes everyone who reads aware of what is happening, relieving the strain on you and perhaps making you feel safer.

Save all correspondance from him, just incase you need it down the line for any legal reason.

“John” is professing love in his e-mail and many many many many other things to someone he has never met. How would he feel if the tables were turned and a complete stranger acted the same way towards him, badgering him like this, giving him unwanted attention? He would be freaked out and want it to stop.

“John”, you’re scaring this girl. Stop it and get a life. Read her posts and enjoy her humour, then go outside and live a life of your own.

Chessie, I wouldn’t respond to anything he sends you. It would be a sign of hope in his eyes, even if it’s a “leave me alone”. Once you respond to anything, it will only get more frequent and worse. Take it from someone who’s had to change her home telephone number recently.

Cece…your post was one the best 1!juz mis-spelled cheesie’s name again..LOL

Well…john…if u read me….then stop replying our (readers of cheerland) comments will show your love and respect to cheesie…it is her blog dude…don’t be too much and get a life dude…if you don’t know how to…email kennysia….

I not trying to bring up any religion issue here…but I guess John is either Catholic or Christian….and if he is Christian..then it’s really humiliating…..sigh….

cheesie….天生美是罪……for the first time found that this phrase is applicable…LOL…so instead of feeling scare and dunno what to do….cheer up and continue to write good blogs for us to read

Cece – Are you always so cheery? Oh heavens yes, save my marital proposals for a legal case! Some people like to tell me to “get a Life” Excuse me.. I have one here. Like… oh I know, go to work or something, maybe go for a walk – or find someone I don’t feel love towards, and try to force myself in to a bad situation,,, nah. sounds like you been down that road, I’ve had enough abuse – thank you very much. If some one did this to me?
I would have to consider the situation, which, I am sure we all would do.. well ok some just run away. But! I have yet to find the one I wanted to be with, I have waited… and looked -Some are just impatient, and they wonder why they get burned?
All she needs to say is Leave me alone and go away.
It would be done, Honestly.
I have not heard that, so… / Besides whats wrong with attention? It can help one learn things even! :0

KingKongKang – I, am a Christian. Also many other things – Ignorance is bliss, correct. But so is acceptance. Prefer acceptance.

Albert – Have done. But thanks for the good suggestion. Are you sure they are not working? maybe, maybe not… Time will tell. Words only work up to a point anyway.

nat – Umm, police report? for what, Love letters? I’m sure they would be right over after they grab a donut or two. And, well there comes a time to grow into living your own life.
Why would she lose her mother? Sheesh! Do you think I’m going to run away with her and hide in a cave?
Granted, if she told me off – and I continued… bam! She has something to hang me on. In the meantime, just enjoy the show I guess.

I Love debates… but prefer conversation, or – even just talking!

But since most of you seem to like to try to keep her from thinking anything nice about me, and prefer to spread fear, mayhaps it best I do leave this blog alone. Maybe then you can be happy that the world is safer from my nasty, evil, terrible affections of Love.

Love You All, Anyway!!!
Yea, Even if you hate me. BOO! – Happy Almost Halloween!

This is easy! 4 words will solve your problem. That is “NO, leave me alone!” (unless you do want to marry him). He is just using you to get his fame. The more we talk about him, the more satisfaction he gets.

John how can u ramble all the way expecting her to give an answer without even showing her your face? kinda creepy i would say. You know what, i can give you some directions on how to go geylang, quite easy to get there u know. If you think writing all these letters is expressing love then cheesie is doing the right thing by ignoring you because this is not how to express love. insane guy but i live you courage, not bad.

So cheesie dumped you even before you got in a relation

cheesie, your flash chat still got the problem, remember i sent u the screeny the other day. Maybe its got to do with IE 7

Cheesie, suggest you block this dude from ever writing to you. He seemed like a total L-O-S-E-R who don’t have a worthy life you wouldn’t want to end up having to be stalked all time by a LOSER. Ask him to reveal his real name, his identity, his pic. You’ll get clearer picture

This is OBSESSION not LOVE. John is worshipping Cheesie more than God and the prove is in the first entry where the location of the cross and bible were located. Love at first sight is not ‘Would You Marry me’ all of a sudden. I don’t think a rational guy would ever do that. Sorry John but you already gave me a really creepy first impression.

This needy love crap doesn’t sit well with dames that you haven’t met before.

Its damn creepy. Imagine a girl does this to you…you’ll be scared too. I think you should really rethink your mode of courtship. Its Creepy and its Unwanted. And dun appear in front of her either…cause if its in front of Kenny (i doubt she’ll come to Singapore that often) I can promise you a broken nose and a dislocated arm.

well maybe u can meet him but bring someone along with u
maybe he might turn out to be a nice guy
or u can tell him u are not interested at all
if not u can ask him to to fu*k off?
or maybe even make friends with him
but who knoes he might turn out to be someone that stays at home and stares at the com whole day long

cheesie…i am ur loyal reader..i like reading ur blog.
think wisely!!i think that this guy is kinda mad n immature..how could a man express his love towards a girl through this way?it’s more like an EMOTIONAL ABUSE!!

Ahh i don’t get it O-0 why the hesitation to just say “no”. Think about it if someone who you don’t know just come up to and ask you will you marry me? will you say yes there and then?! Your obvioius answer will be “No”…It’s no brainer…Now i don’t know the details of your contact with this person but i think you should give him an answer. The longer you leave it the more misunderstanding it is for this person. Don’t need to meet with him or bother to write a thesis to give him a reason. Just Type NO and hit the send button.

heyy!cheesie!well he DOES have a great command of the language..XD but he seems to deviate… ALOT.haha.unless u want a longwinded person to talk to every.single.day.of.your.life. then you can accept his very long proposal.haha.oh its my first time posting here…stumbled upon ur blog a few days ago..and have been laughing, gasping, and rolling my eyes at the cheesieness.oh i realise that ive started using cheesie language(eg: wt cheese) ever since then..XD good job though!keep it up!

For Christ’s sake, Cece, she’s CHEESIE, NOT CHESSIE. John, are you sure you’re in love? Are you sssssssssssuuuuuuuuuuuuuuurrrrrrrrrrrrrrreeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee? If you do, then give up. To start with, you don’t know her in real life. The fact that your emails dont appeal to her means that she’s not interested in you. No interest, no love. The end. Fullstop. Btw, the fact that she’s posting your email here does, in fact, mean she’s acknowledging your presence. But please accept the complementary fact that she’s also seeking help to GET RID OF your presence. Lol. A post too long. Ciao man. Eat some cheese if you’re outta control.

Since John’s so madly over her, y not ask john to sponsor her xD
he might b able 2 use d chance 2 realli express himself over her
haahaah… but den again , it makes me wonder if diz john guy actualli
searches 4 hox cheeze’s blogs online n uh.. drool over ‘em??

I think SGD had the right idea…why on earth would you even consider marrying this guy?! why are people saying to go visit him? He’s just a guy who’s infatuated with a picture and some stories. The only logical solution is just to say no. He’ll get over it; the situation will be over.

Minor note – One, this and email are the only means available to me to communicate with her. If thats being “creepy” Then I guess we have a lot of creeps out there!

Two note – Still Stands. She says leave – I’m Done.

Three – As much as I appreciate the mud in my face from some of you, (She is very popular I have… discovered) none of you, well except Ching as far as I know – can speak for her as to her own personal choice in this matter.

Virtually none of you actually – know me… In my correspondance I have tried to express myself honestly. Honesty is always the best policy, learned this the hard way. She could probably ruin me if she cared to. / Gave her the ammo to do as she wishes… I do have my motivations,(purely innocent) don’t we all?
I extended trust, in faith that she would make the right decision. And time marches on.

“Desperate” – More a case of vision, and action – as I see it. (And no this not all a material matter.)

XH – Thank You for the boost. All I said before still stands.

Actually, I write more than speak, unless there is something good to actually speak about…
As for the rest, a lot of you seem to very opinionated on my “life”. And as far as contradictions,,, well maybe you should rethink your own postings, before bashing me in the face over my – fools drivel.

Oh yes. I AM a Christian, among other things. I have the papers to prove it. But who cares about papers?
Yea.. sure.

Oh – Cheesie, I would like to try that Diet Plum, but of course.. If I had your address…
I might…………*&( Send you Flowers or something! :0

Gotta admit, I was ignorant of who she was,(still kind of am – lol, tryin here!) before I hit Cheeserland. Still don’t know her truly, as a person. Just tryin to “Get a Better Life” here! Besides, She is quite capable of handling herself on this blog from what I’ve seen!

In a very minor way, kind of resent being called a “Bastard”, a “L-O-S-E-R”,
“Freaky Creepy Person”, and of course everyones fav – ” Pathetic”
I shall overlook those verbose, unknowing me sentiments and look to the correct action…. /// O.
Still, I would invite any of you to my site, where we could debate things outside Cheesies Blog – and her – in the crossfire. Cmon in, the waters fine! It is an unusual yes, Prefer larger concepts in general. Although – still Like to shoot the shite on light topics…
oh, did I just swear? whoop! http://www.thothmind.com/B2Blog/
Whatever. I am capable of defending my view also. But always listen to/respect anothers, I just choose to expand it if that’s possible. Quite open minded.

As far as Kenny goes, Papertiger – Don’t actually know him either, (Would read his blog, but I don’t want to marry kenny.) from what I glean from this blog, he sounds like a great guy!
Maybe they should get married? Really! …exactly –

What is important here?
It’s What she, as herself – wants to do in her own heart. That is all I can ask. I have no beef with Kenny or anyone else here.

It’s turning into a circus. John means no harm. In cases like this, a mature reply of “Sorry I’m not interested” will suffice. Then if he continues to write, that’s the time you post and we’re more than happy to give him a piece of our mind.

poor u john, are u sure it’s really L-O-V-E and not a mere infatuation? maybe fate tricked u, or maybe u 2 aren’t destined.i guess it’s all up to u to change it. but the way u approach our beloved ms chEEsiE here is really really not appropriate or to put it bluntly,freaky.
may u get all this all sort out soon. if fate is real kind, u 2’ll prolly meet i dunno y i got an impression that jonh is an ang moh. well are you, john?

1. Of or producing a sensation of uneasiness or fear, as of things crawling on one’s skin: a creepy feeling; a creepy story.
2. Annoyingly unpleasant; repulsive: the creepy kids next door.

In this case it would be annoyingly unpleasant.

Freaky Creepy Person = Strange Annoying Person.

And yes i agreed with you that there may be a lot of annoying unpleasant people out there. But it is kinda annoying when you receive an email from someone you don’t know asking you for marriage. It’s almost like Spam mails.

No Hard feelings John.. Just an expression man. Sure i don’t know you, none of us do but Cheesie put this up and we are here to discuss and express our opinions.. Just like you expresses yours. So i don’t know why are so work up over it ?! O-o We are not here to attack you.

hmm i guess the reason john is thought to be creepy is because 1. he wanted to marry cheesie 2. he didnt expose any personal details of himself. i guess john might really need to tell us more about himself.. but then again, i suppose when he say he wants to marry cheesie its more like saying ‘i’m interested in u?’. anyway, i dun really see bad intention here..

I stupidly read this over five times since yesterday before I decided to post. I’m freaked out. Good luck, Cheesie. And like joe17301 pointed out, John, Cheesie put this entry in the “Cheesorons” section… Oh yah. I just realised, aren’t you married to ching?

johnny boy.. why not u asked kennysia and some of cheesie’s blogger frens out.. along with cheesie of coz…
that way u get to meet cheesie in person and cheesie also wont worry about u being an obsesser, might eat her up or something… plus everyone gets to see u and find out how not weird and funny u are ???? what do u think?

John: This isn’t love, it’s something called “OBSESSION”. It’s scary, and what would you say if some stranger you’ve never met except for reading your blog (which seems useless enough) and seeing your pictures did something like that to you? Yup, we all know how beautiful Cheesie is, but you claim that you are Christian, and placing her pictures next to a cross, a Bible, a picture of Cheesus Crust etc.*more religious stuff*etc. really doesn’t show well. In other words, you worship her. 1) You already gave me a creepy stalker-ish first impression; 2) Why would Cheesie hook up with someone who worships her? 3) I doubt Ching would allow it. 4) I used to attend Christian school…and isn’t putting pics of Cheesie together with religious materials…sort of against the religion? Or at least that’s what my principal told me. Anyway, John, from the comments I see you’re kinda a nice guy, so I don’t exactly hate you, but I just wanted to point out what seemed out of place to me. I guess you should tell Cheesie more about you, instead of just jumping to sending her a really long letter (and I mean REALLY, REALLY LONG) full of poetic words and asking her to marry you only after reading her blog.
Wooh. That was long. -ish.

Lol! This guy is just attracted to Cheesie’s looks. I admit, Cheesie is ‘model’ quality, but making a marriage proposal so soon without even knowing what type of person Cheesie is makes John look desperate! Before sending a marriage porposal, get to know her first! Don’t ever trust all this blogging comunity ppl cos most of them will put up a different face when met personally compared to when he/she blogs. I bet Cheesie might be different from what you expected(character wise) that you might just feak out!(Unless u r into her for looks only…then that makes u a stalker). But then, you might just be the type she falls for…who knows?

Anyhow, I do admire John’s bravery and determination. You’ll nvr know what will happen in the future don’t you? Imagine a drama about an internet fan marrying her idol…dream come true? The future favors the bold! Good luck to the both of ya! Have a great time till then….:p

BEEN READING THIS BLOG BUT NOT THE COMMENT AS I FIND IT NAUSEATING TO READ SO MANY “oh cheesie, you are so cute!” COMMENTS. BUT FOR THIS, I JUST GOTTA READ. UM… I READ EVERYTHING…
APPARENTLY john DID REVEALED A WHOLE LOT OF HIMSELF TO CHEESIE BUT EVERYTHING IS WITHHELD IN THE POSTING OUT OF RESPECT TO HIS PRIVACY.
john COULD AT LEAST THANKS CHEESIE FOR PROTECTING HIS IDENTITY. ANYWAY…
1 POINT TO john FOR BRAVERY
MINUS 200 FOR POOR JUDGEMENT.
DON’T DENY THAT u ARE SCARING HER BECAUSE u ARE. IF u REALLY CARE, SAY u ARE SORRY AND STOP SENDING HER PROPOSAL. BUT DO CONTINUE TO DROP BY AND DROP A WITTY COMMENT OR 2 (IF u ARE CAPABLE OF ANY HUMOUR- I DON’T KNOW, NEVER MET you). MAYBE SOMEDAY (u MAY PRAY NOT 50 YEARS FROM NOW BUT PRAY HARD), SHE MIGHT THINK IT’S OK TO BE FRIEND. AND DON’T BLAME EVERYONE FOR WHAT WE THINK. OWN UP TO your ACTION. DIDN’T you SAID you WILL LEAVE THIS BLOG ALONE IN your SECOND REPLY? WHY IS THERE A THIRD?
TO ALL FANS, I THINK john GETS THE MESSAGE ON HOW WE FEEL. WE SHOULD STOP CALLING him NAME, OUT OF COURTESY, IF NOTHING ELSE. AND LET CHEESIE HAVE SOME PEACE.

P.S. WHAT IS 50 YEARS IF YOUR HEART IS PURE.
P.P.S. I AM NOT SHOUTING. I HAVE A REASON TO USE CAP.

For someone who just called himself the diplomat, I haven’t been very diplomatic, have I? My reply was obviously more anti- john. Per J.C, the future favors the bold and I believe many fans actually wanted to write similar letter but
a) chickened out
b) realised it’s not the right thing
John, think about what you done and how the fans reply & try to understand why…
Success comes from good judgement. Good judgement comes from experience. Experience comes from bad judgement.
Or something like that. Time to let go, John.

poor cheesie. I know exactly how a gal would feel. I think the fellow gals here had said my POV so there’s no need to repeat anything.

just one thing: c’mon cheesie you deserve BETTER!

and john: yup you keep on claiming you meant no harm but you have no idea how these kind of mails DO have an impact , DISTURBING impact. This is not a good way to express your “love”, especially when she has never meet you in person, if you really do love her, why disturb her like this?

oh yeah say whatever you like, I have seen countless commentors here trying to knock some sense into that head of yours and heck does it work? NO. You keep taking them as mean attempts to thwart you and answer them in polite words yet spiky underlying messages. Which John, sheesh, you are definitely not worthy to cheesie at all.

Dude you need to learn. Desperate and whiney guys will never get the girls. sweet guys wont either, girls like the bad boy. Treat them badly (but not too bad or abusive), dont make enough time for them, talk with lots of other girls, and act like they are lucky to have you and you can have just about any girl. Girls dont respect the nice guy.

WOW i am the 100th reply for this post….wuwuwuwuwu…cheessie do i get any special present for being the 100th?LOL….

Cheesie..i think hor..the best thing to do….although not the good thing to do hor..is to delete this post (which has 100 cheese!!) and cut the crap off….and may it be a sweet memory to you forever…(doubt so though)…

Enuf of john…now john this name sound so !@#$!@#% to me..sound like George in Desperate housewives season 2…….

Been away and whoa, 105 comments for the laziest post ever?
Thanx for all your feedback. Well, no intention of putting anyone down, seriously. It was just meant to be a filler post, you know, been busy!

wow. just wow. i thought one email would be enough, but an elongated, historic proportion of a proposal?

john mate, you might not think you are scaring her. consider all these comments then, and think how many people found it creepy. it gets scarier because you don’t even know cheesie beyond her blog, and what she has decided to show through her online persona. you have just “fallen in love” with her pictures and the side of her she is willing to show people online.

how superficial could this get?

then again, considering how many people before me have pointed out to you that you ARE creepy and scary, and those opinions have bounced off you, you probably wouldn’t care so much for this comment either would you?

before you start going, “oh it’s the power of love, what would you know…etc etc?” don’t give me that bullshit. everyone here have experienced love at some stage, and know how it feels.

not to side anyone but just treat this as a pastime humour lah. i dont see any hostility there in John’s email. Since he was ‘made’ public already I dont see there is a reason for cheesie to worry. cheesie is a smart gal & knows how to tackle this matter wisely. Anyway, its just a filler thou & i think john is no harm to anyone. Is just his desperation made him look..err..desperate? But overall i think he’s cool too cos he was able to come out with a long composition like that. As to john, i think if you really fancied cheesie & wanna win her over, the proper channel of doing so is waiting for u & I believe it was never too late to do the right thing.

I stupidly read this over five times since yesterday before I decided to post. I’m freaked out. Good luck, Cheesie. And like joe17301 pointed out, John, Cheesie put this entry in the “Cheesorons” section… Oh yah. I just realised, aren’t you married to ching?

Came by through a friend’s blog. Honestly, John’s courage to speak up is impressive, especially since he’s professing to someone he’s never met in person before. Then again, for that same reason, shouldn’t he slow down and take things easy a bit? The direct approach scares most people off, especially when you don’t know them too well.

Oh, I take things easy. Really quite laid back.
But I did not “place” the Christ handout on the first pic. I keep that on my table. It just sort of happened.(the smokey eyes pic) so I took a picture…
Yea, well believe it or not. Thats actually a minor motion to me these days as far as amazing goes.

The others I did set up, after that fact. I’ve had that card move around my apartment once after that also. back to my dads cedar chest he made…. hmm never thought of that, I should look in there again.
As far as worshipping Cheesie more than God, He is always #1. But I have moved past most worship and decided its better, and more conductive to be friends/partners. Do you “worship” your material father? Not saying you should not, or that its wrong.
So in that sense – perhaps I do worship her over our father.
Maybe.. all your choice, theres more than one way to relate to our Creator. In fact, relating is what its all about… God really wants to be your friend and guide over anything else.

You guys should watch One Tree Hill Season 4, the first few episodes. It bears striking resemblance to this “case” now. Lol.
If you guys watched it, you’ll know what I’m talking about. But I hope “John” won’t be really stalking her though. Cheers.

Hey ringo… it’s been quite a while i’ve visited ur blog, but after this post, i’m surely to come back for more. I’ve heard (and read) about guys and girls offering u stuffs, but a marriage proposal?!?! AHAHAHA!!! Guys like john don’t exactly know what you’d want, do they?? LoL… i propose u stick to Ching better. Haha…

(Even if you were Cheesie’s bf and if I were Cheesie (or any other girl) , and if you sent her an email THAT long… it’s seriously cheesy. (pun not intended.) WAY TOO CHEESY, AND IT’LL MAKE ANYONE CRINGE. )

anon –
Yes, amazing but there are “chics” and “girls” here. But please don’t send them to my place as I could go get some if I cared to. I don’t.
How many proposals have you seen? (just curious) This is my first and only one – apparently lamest one in your eyes. Maybe you could write one for me? Besides, I’m not done yet….
Peace, Light, and Love to You All!!!

Yeah your right, I’ve only seen like twenty of my friends proposed but I still stand by what I said. I would love to try your ‘technique’ to propose to my gf but I think she wouldn’t wanna marry me if I did. What do you think girls? Am I right or is he the best?

Somehow i took the liberty to read the whole mail. now i realize how stupid i could be. well maybe coz i just have too much time in my hand at the moment. ok here’s the layout:

1) u’ve not meet this guy. besides, u guys live in different continents
2) John is somewhat harmless. i dunno, it’s just instinct. it happens to me often and it’s oftenly accurate :p
3) u can give john a try in replying a short reply. well he did say he’ll be off if u do tell him off. so i guess we can hold his word for that.

i’m not sure how u want it to be cheesie but i guess no matter what people comment here, it’ll all boil down to what u want. relax and think about ur next move.

John, this is by far the weirdest way i see someone approach a girl. u’re being very direct. sometimes it’s good but sometimes it ain’t. maybe that’s the way u guys function back at your home but i do suggest that u should read up about asia and its culture before stepping in using yours. this is what respect is all about man. in order to gain someone’s love, u gotta gain someone’s trust.
to gain a person’s trust is to respect that person. u know what i mean, since u did mention that you’re old enough.

anon – wow! well congratulations to your friends in their marriages! +
Can’t speak for your gf either, but hey, every one is unique person and who knows?
If you want to, why waste time pandering?

Mandy – Actually, I told her before… she could blog about anything she wanted in reference to me. So this was fair game.

Calv – Thanks for the nice opinion!

1. True, but ultimately… so what?
2. Somewhat harmless is subjective, as far as Cheesie goes… totally harmless yes.
3. You may hold my word any day on that. But… I have not yet “heard” much of any direct reply as yet.
So I thought to not email her anymore, as I really don’t mean to pressure/disturb her. This also goes for posting here… but I’m slipping under the wire on this one. (maybe that will get a response… :)) *ducks*

While I do have a flair for the unusual, weird is relative actually. And…boy do I have some weird relatives… ehm, just kidding!!!
I was headstrong, but also somewhat limited in my approach options. -> and, trying to relate in emails/txt is not the best medium for conveyance of true feelings. Respecting her was easy, but I admit to being direct. – Guilty as charged!
If being direct, loses me respect points… I guess that’s the price I’ll pay then eh?
Trust is very important to me, and that’s why I have been honest to her. I don’t like fakes either.

Besides, I’m guessing – most presume I meant more of – “marry me” as in the immediate sense of the word. It is meant as a real possibility, (obviously up to her) but more to make the statement that I would do so, in time. A statement of intent if you will – so Cheesie is aware of my commitment to a relationship, of any kind. Keeping my feelings hidden is not something /I prefer to do. It did take me awhile to decide…, to actually propose

Not an expert on asian culture, but not completely ignorant either. And yet people are people all around the world are they not?
Truly, I am very gentle – she just kind of blew me away is all… from only her writings. Can I explain it? No, not really. Can anyone explain love to me in 100 words or less? Heck, take all you need! Call it what you will, only did what I felt the drive to do. So I took the chance, instead of slinking away like I almost did…

I’m a free spirit, and don’t plan to change that at this stage of the game.

Disregarding your sanity, your manners(being tactless or something else) your manhood at stake(no offense), reality and everything in between, be reminded that there is such a thing as a wrong place, a wrong timing and most importantly a wrong person.

ps: I have no grudges against you concerning the post might be a bit rude =) Just to give you some food for thought.

John seemed like a nice guy , his approach is Unorthodox , sure but his intentions are harmless. It’s not like he knows her address or anything that he would travel to malaysia and stalk her. I’m sure many of you have come across or read articles of cases where people just fall in love with someone online based on writings or what they say online , there was a recent case just a few months back where two person in youtube just fell in love with one another just based on video entries alone. Cheesie blog is a reflection of her character and of who she is , it’s quite easy to like someone based on that alone , don’t you think ? I don’t think Cheesie is the type to go all freaky paranoid just because she receive a proposal online , she seemed like a pretty cool person and while i highly doubt John will get the right answer he wants , it’s still sweet though perhaps a bit too bold but harmless in the long run.
As they said , one life , one chance , if you don’t try , you do not know. John , nice try but better luck next time. Haha !