Just found the thread. It was actually about if women could rape men. A lot of women in that thread expressed that they would be hurt if they tried to have sex with their man but he didn't want to. Some even said if he said no more than once then something was wrong.

Just found the thread. It was actually about if women could rape men. A lot of women in that thread expressed that they would be hurt if they tried to have sex with their man but he didn't want to. Some even said if he said no more than once then something was wrong.

i would be crush if i was rejected sexually. i am a very sexual person and that's one way i feel real close to my s.o.

that's why i test drive before i buy. i don't want to be in a situation where i am rejecting you or you're rejecting me.

Exactly. Saving it for marriage is a serious gamble.

My friend going thru this right now....she was celibate when she met her now-husband and they stayed celibate till marriage....her sex drive is nonexistent and he wants some everyday,so she calls me saying "hes selfish"....i fought the urge to remind her she called me a heathen for daring to tell her she better make sure they are sexually compatible b4 marriage as she threw bible verses in my face....oh well

yeah that's why she needs to communicate the REAL reason she is withholding sex. those flim flam excuses are ridiculous. she should do this whether they stay together or not...imo...

I noticed that 6 of the times it was about showering/feeling gross.

I wonder if that indicates some things...either about how she sees herself or whether he has said anything about the way she looks/smells. That might be the real issue.

And she did mention that she had gained some weight, so maybe her sex drive in down or she feels a certain kind of way. At any rate, if he's practically begging her for it, I don't see the problem. Sheit.....she could have sex as she's showering. JMHO!

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