While returning a call to a colleague, I was intrigued by his voicemail, "... and make it a great day." In other words, don't sit back and just let things unfold. Instead, be proactive and take charge of your day.

It seems like a simple difference, but if you allow yourself to sit back you're likely to be buffeted by the demands of others and your own agenda will fall by the wayside.

Watching the Olympics brings home the message that we must set our own course. Without a doubt, these athletes wouldn't be competing if they hadn't taken charge of their destiny.

Take a page from their book: Don't leave anything to chance. Visualize your goal. Find a way to shift the odds in your favor. Oh and make it a great day.

I like this advice, unfortunately, I'm at the mercy of others' agenda's at work. The idea of setting my own schedule is unheard of (and frowned upon), the best way for me to take charge would to find work elsewhere... just not an option for me! (least desired college degree for any job: B.S. in Architecture, my degree)

Steph

August 15, 2012 5:29 p.m.

Well spoken. I think if more people followed this advice, the happiness and fulfillment index would rise. I am finally getting a chance to do this in my retirement.

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