I think, for most men I know, that losing a son or daughter or grandson or granddaughter would be THE tragedy in their life. Losing a wife ranks the same, I’m sure. But losing what you’ve made — your flesh and blood must truly be unbearable. I understand that sorrow is an inevitable part of living.

But, I’m learning, even now at the age of 56, that suffering, sorrow, and loss are tools God uses to fashion in us hearts that follow Him.

So, when you click the link and watch the video, please take to heart that, as men, we need to “gird up our loins,” so to speak, and pass the test.