Dating sites

Just about to join a dating site. Only want to do a paid one as im looking for more serious people who actually want a ltr.I am 37.My questions are what is the best paid site for like minded people. And even though im 37 I dont want to really date men older than 41. Am I being realistic in this? Ive seen so many threads on here about women only getting contacted by much older men and I know the older you get the harder it is to find decent single men. Any advice would be much appreciated.Just to add I was thinking of setting my age limits 35-41.

But a lot of men on free sites are not so serious they think its free so fuck it might as well try my luck.If your paying a monthly subscription i would think you are taking things a little bit more seriously.Seen profiles on pof.....most men cant even be bothered to fill out the about me section....which speaks volumes on how they would be in a relationship.....zero effort.

Free sites include:A - men who you don't want to meetB - men who would like a relationship if they met the right person but are fine being single so don't want to pay moneyC - men who are actively seeking a relationship (and probably many other categories as well)

I get where you are coming from but I would do both paid and free sites. There is a lot more traffic on free sites (especially Tinder), don't exclude this option from the start. It is a numbers game and the more people you get to talk to, the more likely you are to find a decent one who wants a LTR, aka the holy grail. Happy swiping and yes, come join the dating thread!