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escorting

some jerkbag recently told me I didn't have what it takes to be an escort (without even knowing what I look like).
So I was curious, do I? I need a new computer
how much could I get away with charging?

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I have hired many escorts. Yes, you would do well and could charge in the 250 or 300 an hour range. Many escorts make a good living for many years. Rentboy.com is the best place to advertise. Reviewing that site should give you a good idea of what it is like.

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Originally Posted by Benvolio

I have hired many escorts. Yes, you would do well and could charge in the 250 or 300 an hour range. Many escorts make a good living for many years. Rentboy.com is the best place to advertise. Reviewing that site should give you a good idea of what it is like.

That's a lot of money. The escorts on Adam4Adam seem to only charge about $100, and that's in NYC. You must have found some fine looking escorts, Ben!

Correction: I just checked Adam4Adam. Seems to be a fair amount in the $200 to $300 range. I had no idea there were so many 10" and 11" cocks in this city.

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haha well I realised I don't, simply because escorts can't be picky and I am really picky. And the self respect thing, good point!
But thankyou! haha its clear some people have weird standards or something.

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I get paid occasionally to top. My selling point is I am a well spoken guy who won't embarrass a client if we bump into someone. Also I fuck hard for a long time... Have been called an expert! All business through word of mouth. Mostly out of town older guys.

Decent cock - not huge - and average looks. Don't make a living but do make spare cash and get taken out to nice places.

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I have done escort between my 22 and 29. Your body is suitable from what you show on these pics. For male escort my youthly look was my biggest advantage: i was listed as 18 for some years. But your body is one thing, you need to feel well with a live as slut: you don't chose your clients.

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Rentboy is a good site.

You can be as picky as you want. I get subs wanting my services a lot, but I'm not meeting some slob, or someone that seems shady, or that demands things I'm not willing to do, etc. It's about what you can live with, but being picky and a bit exclusive makes you more desirable for many because they know you're not out working rest stops and seedy areas. You get a better, safer class of guy that will treat you better. But you have to invest a little in yourself. Don't show up looking like you just spent all day at the local skatepark, unless your getting paid to do that.

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Sexually transmitted disease is the most common, certainly. Despite one's best efforts, this is too frequent an occurance. Condoms do not always work. You may have a defective condom, or you might put it on wrong in the heat of the moment. Condoms also don't protect against everything you might be trying to avoid... crabs for instance. That's just gross.

Then there is the risk of violence. Not everyone on the internet saying they want to have an escort is being upfront about their intentions. There are cases of straight men luring gay men into a situation where they seek to hurt or even kill them. There's also the chance that the customer is a self loathing gay man, and after services rendered, takes out their self hate on the escort. Then there is secondary source violence; where the customer's wife or friend, son, etc discover what is happening and they strike out violently against the escort.

Lest not forget the sexual violence aspect of escorting. Choking, bondage, rough sex... dangerous enough when you know and trust the person, but when thet person doesn't know you and objectifies you by "purchasing" you... Well, limits and boundries tend to be a little more gray than when you are in a relationship with the person. Accidents happen. And even if sexual violence doesn't end in death, you can get roughed up pretty bad. It's not a pretty sight to see.

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I have never been into this because I feel like random sex is well not fun and leaves me feeling disgusted but to each their own. Why would someone pay for sex when you can now get it for FREE from so many places?

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In the first place, it's not as if being an escort, even a quite successful one, actually means you're "hot." If you're looking for validation, you are DEF looking in the wrong place.

I used to do a little porn on the side in college to make extra money, and in porn you get to know a lot of hookers (many if not most porn "actors" are only in porn to advertise their hooker business). All of them were attractive of course, some of them what you'd call "super hot," but the same could be said of a lot of guys. To be successful as a hooker is more a question of psychological than physical type if you ask me. I could never have done it. I don't think you HAVE to be dead inside, but I can see why it would help. You have to be able to have sex mechanically with your clients and make it at least passably convincing, and this really isn't as easy as it might sound.

I mean I think people imagine prostitution is "easy work" - just lie on your back all day - or "fun," like "Yeah I like to have sex, why wouldn't I enjoy getting paid to do it?" Well, most hookers I knew weren't even into sex. Do it all day for a living and it loses its luster. They were just able to get it up and perform in any situation with anybody, but they didn't "enjoy" sex at all. Like I say, mechanical, dead inside. And have you ever, say, waited tables? You know how grueling it can be, not just physically, but dealing with people and their fucking crazy personalities and demands and hangups when they know they've "got you"? Being a ho has to be that times 1000.

Not to say there aren't any true sex-maniac hookers who love their work, but I don't think that's the usual story. You sound way not jaded enough for that profession. BTW I think you're cute, just leave it at that...lol.

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I've served both with a support group for gay and lesbian youth and also at a crisis center for gay adults. The amount of times I have seen escorts (and sometimes Johns) beat up, robbed, infected... it's heartbreaking. No exaggeration I assure you. And if so many horrible things can happen in a small region like New Brunswick or Newfoundland, what do you think happens in larger regions with a more diverse population?

I find it rather demeaning to the victims of violence and the sick to dismiss these events so readily. One really must consider these things when making a decision as critical as this.

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Originally Posted by FanofFiction

I've served both with a support group for gay and lesbian youth and also at a crisis center for gay adults. The amount of times I have seen escorts (and sometimes Johns) beat up, robbed, infected... it's heartbreaking. No exaggeration I assure you. And if so many horrible things can happen in a small region like New Brunswick or Newfoundland, what do you think happens in larger regions with a more diverse population?

I find it rather demeaning to the victims of violence and the sick to dismiss these events so readily. One really must consider these things when making a decision as critical as this.

How many were street hookers or from craigs list as opposed to Rentboy and similar professional sites? I think there is a difference.

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Originally Posted by FanofFiction

I've served both with a support group for gay and lesbian youth and also at a crisis center for gay adults. The amount of times I have seen escorts (and sometimes Johns) beat up, robbed, infected... it's heartbreaking. No exaggeration I assure you. And if so many horrible things can happen in a small region like New Brunswick or Newfoundland, what do you think happens in larger regions with a more diverse population?

I find it rather demeaning to the victims of violence and the sick to dismiss these events so readily. One really must consider these things when making a decision as critical as this.

How many were street hookers or from craigs list as opposed to Rentboy and similar professional sites? I think there is a difference.

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None were street hookers. One was on Craig's List. Craig's List never really took off in my region. And frankly, it wouldn't matter either way. It's not how the escort advertizes themself, it's the john picking them up. It's dangerous. I've seen it first hand. And sometimes it is dangerous for the john too- let's not forget that.

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I have hired hundreds of escorts over the years an the horrors you describe are outside my experience, nor have they been reported to me. They are possible, of course, but to suggest they are common is misleading.

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I have hired hundreds of escorts over the years an the horrors you describe are outside my experience, nor have they been reported to me. They are possible, of course, but to suggest they are common is misleading.

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A lot of nonsense about escort work: if the photo's are like you are your body is perfect for escort service and you can make good money without any or minimal risks. Being escort-boy is completely different from what you find in gay bars where boys do many clients for just a small fee per client. If you like the idea go ahead, you'll not regret.

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Hmmm. I got offered money (and took it) only a couple of times. It was weird, cuz that wasn't my perception going into it, and both dudes were better than average, and one of them actually hot. Both I think were married, and I know they did not have much experience with mansex. Well, that was before their session with me....lol. You can sure escort. Youth pretty much trumps all. I would advise using pix 4 and 5 for publicity shots....If you are serious, you should consider how you feel about trolls. Like this is a job. Like men's accessories at Bloomie's, OK? Be real clear up front (sorry) about what your deal and their deal is and what THE DEAL i$.

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I dont know.. your profile is good.. but not sure if you are good looking seems like your ass is better than your face since you prefer showing them! i demand straight shot of your face but im sure youre not ugly as what i have said your profile is good and the body is SEXY!!

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Originally Posted by drew11921

haha well I realised I don't, simply because escorts can't be picky and I am really picky. And the self respect thing, good point! But thankyou! haha its clear some people have weird standards or something.

That's probably the most important quality for an escort's success: being able to be convincing with someone they aren't attracted to. Because let's face it -- and I say this as someone who has hired escorts before -- the Johns are rarely attractive Richard Gere-types from "Pretty Woman."

If you were able to not be picky, I think you would do very well indeed. I would pay for you. But it's hard to charge and be picky.

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Many escorts advertise without a face shot. Rentboy allows you put some photos in an area requiring you to to provide a password if you want to allow some one to see them. Or you can email a photo to serious clients.

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Being young, good looking, and in shape doesn't always mean that you have to "put yourself out there" for sex.

I know a few gay male strippers who don't mind taking a few extra bucks, and in fact welcome the "extra tips" after hours.

But being a escort takes much more than that.

You're being asked to "escort" someone somewhere as a 'known companion' of that person hiring you.

There's a big difference between whoring yourself out to the highest bidder, and being an escort.

As has been stated most respectable escorts are "hard to get."

And friends that I've known who've worked as "escorts" NEVER give it up on the first appointment.

Usually the first "date" is like an "interview" where both the escort and the client are sizing each other up.

If the "escort" finds that the "client" is legit; and usually that entails no demands for sex, because none were offered when they put themselves out there as an escort (boundaries and parameters when advertising), and the client is willing to meet in public first, then you take it from there.

But it is risky for the escort, and the most successful guys that I've known who are escorts aren't in it for being "paid for sex."

With the right attitude and frame of mind, they can make a lot of money at it, and not once have to take off their pants.

It's the lure that they might on the next "date."

Some "clients" are perfectly comfortable with that.

Others can go into a rage because they feel that in effect that they've been paying for a cock tease.

It can be messy, and has been pointed out can do damage to one's soul, and character.

There has to be a balance of power/control in it.

And if you don't know who you are, and aren't grounded in something, it's possible that you could get yourself lost in a traumatic experience.

I know what it feels like to be physically objectified, and I've worked that to my advantage.

But I knew going in that they didn't care about me as a person.

No matter how much money, gifts, or trips that they were willing to throw my way.

They just wanted my body, my dick, or my ass, and for that I always charged extra!

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It depends on your definition of "escort". I think most guys have in mind a call boy such as you will find on rentboy. Texpatriot seems to have in mind a companion for concerts, parties and the like, without sex necessarily. Nice work if you can get it, but harder to get into, I I would think.

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If I thought I could be satisfied by hiring a prostitute, I might pay a few hundred to fuck you hard and ejaculate on your face and in your mouth. All the better if I can freely switch the fuck back and forth between cunt and mouth and make you swallow my urine at the end.

As a slim, young bitch, you are physically qualified, but would need to grow back all of your cunt and body hair.