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Have you heard about “Positive Psychology”? Psychology used to be a study of how to heal people with mental diseases. However, in the 1990’s psychologists started focusing on a positive way to use their field. Now their movement is getting more popular since they are sharing ways that average people can live happier lives, something that everyone wants to know about. Here is the Summary of “Positive Psychology”. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Positive_psychology Here is an interesting Ted Talks speech by Mr. Martin Seligman. https://www.ted.com/talks/martin_seligman_on_the_state_of_psychology?language=en “Positive Psychology” really helps us to create happy relationships. It is based on scientific studies. ...

Recently, a former male member rejoined our service. During his first membership, it was 2006 and he was 43 years young. He wanted to have children and start his own family at that time. Somehow, he said, he was too busy to take action as a member. So, he gave up on his dream of getting married to a Japanese woman even though we provided him with many excellent opportunities. Now it is ten years later, he is 53 years young, and he has rejoined our service as he still has his dream. He is still young and it ...

The relationship between a husband & wife in Japan changes after having children. They now call each other “papa” and “mama”. They never call each other by their first names again. This is a video made by POLA, a cosmetic company in Japan. In the video, the company shows the results from an experiment of what happens when a husband calls his wife by her first name instead of “mama”. According to their experiment, when Japanese women are called by their first name by their husbands, oxytocin, the beauty hormone, increases in her body. So, the company recommends that ...

MJL will host a Speed Dating Event in NYC on Sept. 17th. Here is the link for signing up for this special event. https://meetjapanlady.com/nyc/ The time and place haven’t been decided yet, but the event will be in the afternoon of September 17th. We will announce the details later. At this time, the event is separated by different age ranges as Part I and Part II. You can join both Part I and Part II if your age is in both age ranges. Part I : Men 30-50 y.o. and Women 21 -35 y.o. Recommended for men and ...

Right after reporting about “We are engaged!” in our newsletter last week, one of our couple members contacted me by Skype in order to show me their marriage ring, and said, “We are married!” It was almost midnight at that time, and I was about to go to bed since I was leaving for Japan the next day at 6 am. However, I was so glad to see their happy faces on Skype before I flew to Japan. I am sure that he read our newsletter and knew that other members were engaged. As a matchmaker, this is ...

We received wonderful, happy news from one of our MJL couple members’. He lives on the East Coast of the US; she is from Japan. When he first contacted me, it was more than 5 years ago. He talked with me for more than an hour. He explained how he is sincerely looking for a Japanese woman as a lifelong partner. At that time, he sounded very depressed since his ex-fiancée’s Japanese parents didn’t agree that he and their daughter’s marriage plans. So, he reluctantly canceled his marriage to the Japanese woman he loved. After feeling depressed and a ...

One of our female members who had a meeting with one of our male members gave us the following feedback. “I felt some kind of chemistry, but I was uncomfortable when he touched my body. “ “I have never experienced being touched by someone whom I just met for the first time.” Even though they had been communicating together by email and skype for a few months, it was the first time they had met in person. So she was wondering why he touched her hands and knees, and held her shoulders. It doesn’t mean that she ...

It was my ○○th Birthday on May 27th. I received lots of greeting messages from my Facebook account. Thank you very much! I do enjoy receiving birthday greetings. Please do not ask how old I am 🙂 Even though I was asked what I want for a birthday gift, there are no special things that I want. Recently, I have begun to think that I would prefer to enjoy things that are not materialistic, rather I would like to enjoy abstract things, such as, fun experiences, my family’s health, feeling love, and my own relaxation time, and ...