There's an exception for his artist because of the family unification program.

Melissa Howell works for the Oakland Livingston Human Service Agency. Once every two weeks, the agency brings toys, lesson plans and the special guests.

"Just because somebody makes a mistake does not mean they're not a dad," Howell said.

There are two goals. The first is to help the children.

"Sometimes they want to skip school, or they're withdrawn, butt heads with teachers," Howell said. "Sometimes them understanding what's going on and being able to see their parent distresses them a little bit."

The second goal is a reality check. Rafael Acosta has two girls.

"When you're out there, you don't really appreciate all the small things," Acosta said. "But when you're locked, you see all the small stuff."

Acosta's reality check hits a little harder with every visit and every drawing.

"As a dad, how much does it break your heart that you can't be there for them?" Local 4's Nick Monacelli asked.

About the Author:

Nick joined the Local 4 team in February of 2015. Prior to that he spent 6 years in Sacramento covering a long list of big stories including wildfires and earthquakes. Raised in Sterling Heights, he is no stranger to the deep history and pride Detroit has to offer.