Dr. Dennis Neder Article Archive

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How Do I Start Dating?You want to learn how dating rituals work and then know where you
can bend or break those rules to your advantage. If that seems
calculated, in fact it is!

She Texted Me, Did I Answer Her
Properly?You've got to realize that women are terrified of asking guys out.
So are guys too, but frankly, it's our job. But a text message may not
have been the best approach she could have made in asking you out.

A Sexual SituationThere is nothing so fundamental or powerful than a person's
sexuality. It is the basis of every other thing you are.

The Chase is The GameI'd just go find a new girl that is smarter than this one and
doesn't need the games in order to feel attracted to the guy.

Waiting in Line to be 100%
SureStop waiting for the perfect times or the perfect situations or to
be 100% sure of anything. That's what losers do - and these never,
ever come. Instead, go MAKE your dreams come true.

A Matter of HeightHere are ten things women look for in men. Height isn't at the top
of the list and the other attributes will certainly wake you up to
thinking beyond height.

Silently, And By
Herself She Can Have An OrgasmIf you want to take her to that orgasmic place you'll want to make
this fun and no-pressure and you're going to have to accept her giving
herself an orgasm. That's perfectly ok by the way!

Being Too Smart For
Girl GamesWe have to fight these natural tendencies in order to have something
better - and to be better partners for the women we love.

Which Guys are
Marriage Material?Any guy is marriage material if you can find out how to marry him.
Do you understand a guy's needs? What his expectations are? Those are
the questions that need answers before any thought of marriage.

Maybe He’ll Be Mine
If I Get Pregnant?As soon as he has you, he'll be totally done with it all and will be
moving on to the next hunt. You're never going to land this guy or end
all the games.

Do I Compromise To Get Him Back Or Bolt?
If he can't handle his own past insecurities, you're going to need to
reconsider what you want and if you can get it through this relationship
with his issues.

Why Women Love Men
This explains why so many women can be catty towards each other too.
It comes from a basis of competition with each other.

A Matter Of TrustYou can become your own worst enemy when you're dating someone and
you have trust issues.

Will He Marry Me?If marriage isn't on your man's mind, it is right to force him to
propose?

I'm Tired of Being "Too Shy"!You can choose to be confident any time you want, but you've
convinced yourself that your safe little shell is the best place to be.
We have to work on that first, the ladies will wait.

Help! My World is Crumbling
As soon as he has you, he'll be totally done with it all and will be
moving on to the next hunt. You're never going to land this guy or end
all the games.

How To Move On After A
BreakupReframe the emotional experience so it becomes a distant memory in
your mind, these are the techniques you need to know.

Getting Experience With
WomenWhen you've been dating monogamously during college without a doubt
you've missed gaining the experiences of being with other women, but you
have to ask yourself what is more important to you, the relationship you
have or the experiences you think you've missed.

Just Never Satisfied!You can easily cause restrictions on yourself that keep you single.
Now is the time to be honest with yourself and find those blockers and
get rid of them once and for all!

What Is Love?You seem to think this is good relationship building. You, my dear
are sadly, sadly mistaken.

Too Many Mixed SignalsYou seem to think this is good relationship building. You, my dear
are sadly, sadly mistaken.

Dating on FacebookNow, you have to play the Facebook game with her, going back and
forth and you STILL have to get her number anyway! That's terrible form
- and you'd better trust me on this one - she IS going to play you here!

Even Steven
Am I being self-centered or is my boyfriend just uninteresting?

Avoiding Dating GamesYou're looking for a way around the games rather than doing what any
woman will absolutely demand of you: plowing right through them.

Are Nice Guys a Dying
Breed?Nice guys come off as needy and wanting. They seem "sensitive" and
are more in need of mothering than an Alpha or a jerk. Now, understand
that this appeals to some women, but they are the minority.

Approach Women
Without NervousnessIt's like falling in love before you even know her. Trust me, she's
nice to look at, but she's just as dorky and strange as anyone else you
know. Don't be swayed by her looks or you'll lose all your power.