K3D315 What is meant by focussed attention, why this is important to children’s self-esteem and how you provide such attention

Posted by admin on December 6th, 2010

Focussed attention is important for a child’s self esteem. Focussed attention is dedicating some one on one time to be with a child and play with them, chat or just listen to what they have to say. Through doing this you can develop a positive relationship and respond more sensitively to them. Focussed attention helps a child feel valued as a person and gives them a sense of identity.
You should make time to spend one on one time with children and this can be achieved through the key worker process. When giving focussed attention you may just sit and play with the child or chat to them about what they are doing. This should not be a rushed process and you should take it slowly. You can help a child’s self esteem through talking about their achievements or what they are doing at the time. You should find ways of encouraging and valuing children without interrogating them. It is also important that you do not overlook quieter children and also spend some time with them.