It is common for couples to
focus on one another’s flaws.
While the goal of pointing out our partner’s weaknesses may be to change
the flaw or help it go away, focusing on the negative often leads to bitterness
and resentment. Rather than
picking out your partner’s defects and feeling ashamed of your own, this
intervention is designed to help you to build your personal strengths. Identifying personal strengths can be a
very empowering process.
Strengths-building exerc...