I had a best friend when I was going to college he would not listen to anyone who said anything, instead he know was right. but he loved one girl and he think she is world and dreamed of something but that she did not love him. I was tell about more times girl(love) is't life it just part of it there is love in every relationship like mother,father,sister and brother etc. try to know the truth but he's not acceptes and again he trust it self .finally she married someone else, he left his life as so many young people In the same way ...Sir my argument is life isn't one thing it not end one thing..

All people are each on their own journey through life, learning their own spiritual lessons by experiencing the life of their choosing. We learn through experience. Let each person have their own experience from which to learn.

Yes, you may lend the advice of your wisdom, and yet, the other will not learn from your wisdom but through their own experience where the wisdom then becomes their own. You may point the way; the other must have their own will to follow the way. You may take him to the water; you can't make him drink.

I think he must have been very young. As people grow in wisdom they understand that not everyone they "fall in love with" will love them in return.

I think you are still young, as well. I know how frustrating it is to see someone you care about making silly mistakes. Not many people are willing to listen to the Voice of Reason, especially when they have fallen "in love". Again as we grow older, we understand that other people have to live their own lives.

I believe your friend's problems started long before you and he were college age. To quote Mother Teresa, "Loneliness and the feeling of being unloved is the worst kind of poverty".

"She is my life" was nonsense. You knew that; your friend didn't.

I too had a best friend who killed herself, when we were both 19. That was a very long time ago, and I still miss her.

Nothing you can do will bring your friend back. There was nothing you could have said or done to stop him ending his life the way he did.

Once again, I'm very sorry this happened to you. I hope you have a sensible older person in your life who you can talk to about it.

quietvoice wrote:All people are each on their own journey through life, learning their own spiritual lessons by experiencing the life of their choosing. We learn through experience. Let each person have their own experience from which to learn.

Yes, you may lend the advice of your wisdom, and yet, the other will not learn from your wisdom but through their own experience where the wisdom then becomes their own. You may point the way; the other must have their own will to follow the way. You may take him to the water; you can't make him drink.

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Candid wrote:I'm sorry you lost a friend this way, charan. Did he die recently?

I think he must have been very young. As people grow in wisdom they understand that not everyone they "fall in love with" will love them in return.

I think you are still young, as well. I know how frustrating it is to see someone you care about making silly mistakes. Not many people are willing to listen to the Voice of Reason, especially when they have fallen "in love". Again as we grow older, we understand that other people have to live their own lives.

I believe your friend's problems started long before you and he were college age. To quote Mother Teresa, "Loneliness and the feeling of being unloved is the worst kind of poverty".

"She is my life" was nonsense. You knew that; your friend didn't.

I too had a best friend who killed herself, when we were both 19. That was a very long time ago, and I still miss her.

Nothing you can do will bring your friend back. There was nothing you could have said or done to stop him ending his life the way he did.

Once again, I'm very sorry this happened to you. I hope you have a sensible older person in your life who you can talk to about it.