Ideal first meeting location

Here is an interesting question, what do you think is the best place to meet someone that you have chatted with on AdultFriendFinder. While you are pondering the question, this would be a good time to post any meetings you have had, (good and bad)

My first meeting locals:

2 guys were invited over to our house4 guys and one couple we met at a hotel room1 couple we met at a dance cluba large number we met at a house party

Back when Borders existed, getting a coffee there was a great first meet. In fact, on any given weekend night you could identify the guys waiting to meet someone new by the way they looked up every time the door opened.

I've mostly met new ladies at local bar/restaurants, as the provide a nice place to chat and we don't need to worry if the discussions become a bit naughty.

Three favorite "meeting" memories, that don't follow the scenario above:

1. The VERY FIRST lady I ever met via A*F*F - It was a classic story of starts and stops / conflicting schedules. FINALLY one day she just told me to meet her at a local park. We did, and she immediately grabbed my hand and lead me down a walking trail. Very soon, she lead me off the trail, pulled out my cock, and sucked me off till I came, and gave me the "look I swallowed it all" view. I was "thinking - MAN, A*F*F is fun!!"

2. The third A*F*F lady I ever met just told me to get a room. She showed up and we were having sex within about 5 minutes.

3. A blogger lady I'd never met, invited me down to her ranch for a long weekend. For reasons STILL not clear to me, she told me to get a room at a local hotel for nights 1 + 2, after which we'd go stay at her ranch. The week before my visit was full of mutual speculation as to how long till we were nekkid after first meeting. I reset the clock a bit, but being nekkid when she showed up at the hotel room.

Much like Cleavage fan, I met a few off the old AOL chat rooms. Mom's online was a good one. Had a few instant connections if you know what I mean..But mostly coffee or lunch meetings to start out.Met one woman with her husband and played golf with them. Great time. Still friends today.

I've had about a dozen meets since I joined in 12/13. Most have ended up having sex in various places (hotel, park, their place, my place). Of those most led to multiple meetings. A couple became sort of regular things. A*F*Fs been good to me so far.

I think that it is easier to meet in a public place that allows one on one interaction in order to establish expectations. Restaurants and coffee shops provides great environments with minimal distractions.

Where you meet is entirely dependent upon the mood generated whilst chatting. I normally choose a discreet coffee shop, but recently met at my contacts home as it was obvious that we would be ripping each others clothes off within minutes.

I voted mall, but that is because typically it gives options (food, movie, and general walking). Anywhere that is public and neutral is good. I want to make sure the person I am meeting is as comfortable as they can be. I mean, meeting someone for the first time in person is a stressful event in of itself. Why add additional stress with a place that implies expectations.

For myself, it's a restaurant or bar if it's her preference. Am not into jumping into anything real quick and gives both time to find out more about each other. I've had those that were "meet greet and lets go"!, sorry, is just not my thing, it takes me a little while to warm up and want to know more about someone before all that happens. I don't need to know a person's whole life story either, but it helps me define if that person is a good probable match or not, just to chat awhile and be as open as possible. I guess in this day and age that makes me somewhat old fashioned, but hey, that's who I am..As for meeting here on this site, yes, have had 4 meets from over the past 2 yrs, all of which began pretty well, but ended in disaster because of the untold stories and misleading information found after the first several dates and it wasn't on my part, thankfully to say.

Meet and greets are the ideal meeting place. I have met many people from here at arranged M & Gs. It is a great opportunity to put names to faces and also takes the expectations away from the meetings. It is a social gathering so if we are attracted to one another we can take it further if we wish. If not, then we had a great time getting to know each other anyways.

my first meetings are always in public to make sure there is comfort level.you can write or talk to someone till your blue in the face but you never really know until you actually meet.my meetings are always under the pretense of not jumping into to bed after two minutes lol.

My preference is a park bench if I am not going to their home. Monitoring who is listening to a private conversation is important to me. Some coffee shops have audio surveillance (Dunkin' Donuts). A waitress or bartender doesn't need to know the details of my sexual life. I've tended bar, you hear a lot.

damn, anywhere where the clothes could be shed withing five minutes, I hate formal interactions, and I found the best way to get past that is with a good fuck, suddenly, its as if we've known each other for years.

Coffee shop or sports bar. Can chat and see if you are compatible with the person. Always meet in public first for safety reasons. Also if they are no shows,and there are many, you can read the paper while eating breakfast or lunch, or watch a game on TV.

Of course, we meet only at a public place - restaurant, coffee shop, bar, park - anything. Only once in Bangkok, we were invited directly into a condo for a group setting ------------- AND BOY, we did enjoy ourselves.

After being on AdultFriendFinder for almost 15yrs I most always will arrange a Meet N Greet at a Bar.. I went to this system after being stood up way to many times and I would be left there sitting alone.. So now I arrange for 3-6 guys to meet me at some watering hole.. Those that show up and impress me I will arrange a playdate with.. Works much better than just 1 on 1..

I've met up with women (from online) at bars, restaurants, a pool hall, a coffee shop, a hotel, a mall, one woman's home, the home of a friend of a woman, Meet & Greets and probably a few other places that I'm forgetting. I think the most important thing is picking a place that satisfies her (and your) security needs. That tends to leave out meeting at your home.

I say Coffee Shop. cause if things don't click. still ok cause it won't take too long. and both can go on their way after that. short and simple.

But I have to say that I have met several members from this site at my my place. that is because I have talk to them some much over the blogs and talk to them over the phone that I felt comfortable to do so. but I always let my roommate know when someone is going to visit, that way he knows just in case. and sometimes he is here in his room just to make sure. but so far every meeting has been very pleasant.

as a single man i have met 2 AdultFriendFinder couples at there homes one female was naked as i walked in and the other was fully dressed but not for long and as for now as a couple we have not got to that point of meeting yet so cant answer

My first meeting was in a parking lot in my car. She was very nervous as we went to a hotel room. We spent the time in the room with me kissing her and talking about what I would do to make her happy. We never had sex that da but for every week after that for two years I got a room and we fucked for four hours each time.

We usually meet at a bar. There have been several times when the guy doesn’t show up or he does and doesn’t look like his pictures, so it’s safer and easier to meet in public.

But we were at a hotel out of town on the last evening of a business trip/vacation this past Friday and we invited a guy over that we had chatted with online. He had sex with my wife for quite a while and then he left. We made love afterwards. Very erotic.

Always meet at a coffee shop that also happens to be near some hotels. First meet, we chatted for about a month before deciding to meet at the coffee shop. Once we met, we chatted more, liked what we saw and decided to head over to the hotel. He was already fingering my pussy while we were on the elevator and once in the room , he walked me over to the bed, bent me over and started eating my pussy from behind. Suffice it to say, we had a great time

One meet, was a guy who lived farther away. Again we chatted for about a month, decided to meet at a 1/2 way spot (park). Once we arrived, he came over to the drivers side, gave me a kiss and some flowers. We drove around in the park, me stroking his cock and he fingering my pussy until we decided to get a hotel room. Again, as soon as we entered the room, he led me to the bed, bent me over and started eating my pussy from behind, he was some of the best oral ever! 10 tongues up for him, LOL

First meeting is a restaurant , somewhere that is public. Safe place. Try to get off the rush timing so you can actually hear the conversation without yelling over the sport bar places. Going to a restaurant gives you more time to have a conversation with that person. See if there is any interest or connection for anymore to follow.

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