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TOUGH LOVE-APPLY WITHIN

yeah just enjoy yourself, keep on shovelling it in, keep on chasing the same old tail, keep on losing the same three pounds a fortnight, keep on sitting on the sofa watching stuff that ain't real, keep on wishing you had willpower, keep on trashing your head, liver and kidneys at the weekend, keep on posting how weak you are and keep on reaping the sympathy from the rest of the interweb weaklings who have the same keep on issues as you....

thats what they are telling you on the other threads. this might sound hard

but here, the truth runs about naked

I constantly read very sympathetic replies to people who are struggling with their various weight loss travails

Empathy and the ability to nurture is the most wonderful trait a human being can have and it's definitely prevelant in all you lovely ladies

I dont have any. I'm just a plain, simple man.

I rarely see anyone post cold, hard truth. If it's there it's wrapped up in warm, cosy fluffiness

All I want to do is get six stone off. I am over halfway there. Then I want to keep it off.

So I would like to offer my services

Be warned....

I don't know how you feel
I don't care if you think are addicted to chocolate. You're not and you can't have it
I'm sorry but if you put all that into your mouth in one day, that's your fault
There's no need to eat more because you moved house - plan your life!
Your body isn't weak, your mind is
If you eat the kids leftovers and it's bad food, why are you giving that to your kids?
Exercise will not kill you

and I don't know a damn thing about "lady's week" so please don't ask...

if you want sympathy because you've only lost 0.5lb this month, look elsewhere.

because I can shave that off with a razor....

edit 18.7.12

THE COMMANDMENTS (I can't think of ten at the moment)

1 - Thou shalt have a goal date if you enter here
2 - Don't post and run you chickensh!t
3 - If you argue with me, prepare yourself to fail
4 - Anyone can dispense tough love, don't wait for me, I'm away fishing a lot
5 - You must rule your head. Only you can do this
6 - There is no tomorrow. Only what you do NOW and NEXT

I'm in. Doing loads of exercise but can't seem to shift the weight. Currently 13 stone 9lbs and my waist is 103cm. Want to get down to about 12 stone. Doing plenty of exercise, running 2-3 times a week, gym twice a week and football so it must be my diet that is letting me down.

I am doing really well with my weight loss (even if I do say so myself ) so all my work colleagues now think I am some kind of guru or have a magic wand. Its simple - don't put it in your gob I say. I know they wail as they reach for another cake or biscuit! It does my head in! Ooh I feel so much better now.

I have been on plan 100%, but I am feeling enormous and have had toilet issues all week! I did a body test on my wii fit before my workout on the weekend, and it reckons I have gained 3 pounds. Since then, I can't stop thinking about it, and I have already mentally accepted a gain for tomorrows WI. I am feeling very sorry for myself and being generally pathetic.

I have been on plan 100%, but I am feeling enormous and have had toilet issues all week! I did a body test on my wii fit before my workout on the weekend, and it reckons I have gained 3 pounds. Since then, I can't stop thinking about it, and I have already mentally accepted a gain for tomorrows WI. I am feeling very sorry for myself and being generally pathetic.

OK Lisa-Jade, lets analyse why you think you will gain if you've been 100%. Is this generally really possible, or have you actually not been 100%?

I am not saying you are lying, I am wondering if you've missed something or upped a portion?

Because if you are 100% then mentally you should be strong and anticipating nothing worse than a STS!

I feel that you should ensure you stay totally on plan before tomorrow and treat yourself to something you like to pull out of the mood!

Your mood may be linked to what you call "toilet issues". There is no man alive that can deal with that, you're on your own! Jeez, i'm tough but I did say on the OP - I AM A MAN!!! lol

A trip to the cinema, a bracing walk or a good old catch up with a good friend could work wonders on that - maybe?

I am doing really well with my weight loss (even if I do say so myself ) so all my work colleagues now think I am some kind of guru or have a magic wand. Its simple - don't put it in your gob I say. I know they wail as they reach for another cake or biscuit! It does my head in! Ooh I feel so much better now.

Sue with oyur stats you are on the jazz, I dunno if you need tough love, I think we need you as inspiration here though, thanks for dropping in, please stay alongside, thank you