I got Oral Herpes from my best friend. She had no symptoms at all of herpes neither was she aware she had it. I shared my lip gloss with her and two days later she had her first out break. Looks like her boyfriend cheated on her again. And all because of lip gloss I have it. And I have done everything I could to prevent an STD. I have been abstinent for a year since I got out of a 4 year relationship and now I have this freaking std Dont share your stuff with anyone. And how you get it is from contact with the virus. I suggest if you have any friends or partners who show red flags stay away from them be cautious with your body its the only one you have.. Anyways the after effect for me finding this out I had a nervous breakdown cryed for a few hours and now Im trying to pull my emotions together. It changes everything.