3 Easy Steps To Divorce-Proofing Your Marriage (Yes, Really)

No one goes into marriage looking to divorce, but sometimes it's inevitable. You both have a list of expectations and non-negotiable goals, and if they aren't met and shared, that can be dangerous to your marriage.

With such a high divorce rate, it's important to take the time to reflect on your marriage. See what's working, what's not working and what could cause conflict in the future. Perhaps, because you're committed and love each other so much, you're willing to work these issues out and negotiate certain terms that'll keep your marriage thriving.

For those of you looking to marry soon, divorce coach Dr. Karen Finn explains how to divorce-proof your marriage before you tie the knot. She says, "There are a couple of economists out of Emory University who found that the number of guests who attend your wedding, the length of time that you dated before you married and whether or not you went on a honeymoon can all impact your risk of divorce."

What Can You Do To Avoid Divorce In Your Current Marriage?

Dr. Karen Finn expertly explains, "The big global answer for that is you need to reconnect with your spouse if you want to divorce-proof your marriage."

Here are a three guaranteed tips she says will definitely help you rekindle the bond with your spouse AND prevent divorce :

1. Have Fun!

The best way to reconnect is to maintain the fun that you had in the beginning of your relationship. Try new things to together — both in and out of the bedroom — and start new hobbies. Go on exciting getaways or spend a night in together binge-watching your favorite TV show. Do things that you both enjoy together. You'll have something to discuss and share, which will help your bond strengthen.

2. Communicate Compassionately

Not every disagreement has to be a heated argument or a screaming match. Relax, listen — without interrupting! — and then, respond. You'll be able to better understand your partner. When you calmly discuss an issue, your head is clear to better articulate your grievances and come to a resolution.

3. Share Your Goals, Dreams And Desires

You can have your own goals, dreams and desires, but having a shared list will keep the bond strong because you're on the journey to achieve those goals, dreams and desires together. You'll better understand your spouse's path toward that goal because you share it.

Want to hear some more great tips to help your marriage survive? Scroll up to the video above to listen to some more of Dr. Karen Finn's expert advice to divorce-proof your marriage.