So to recap: (1) Tami casts us out of God's purview; (2) Tami thinks only God has the power to grant legal rights to our civil marriages, despite the fact that religious ceremony is an ancillary (even if oft-utilized) component of everyone's civil marriage; so ergo, (3) we have no hope of ever being equally-statused couples in Tami Fitzgerald's North Carolina and, by extension, America, unless her personally-held vision of God swoops down and grants us permission.