Thank u mommas for checking in on me. It means so much. Its been a hard month for me. On top of the eviction and my SO gambling issue my uncle passed away 2 weeks ago so I've been really down. I went to court for my eviction case and explained my situation to the judge. He told me I would have to leave my apartment by the end of the month unless I could show him that I can pay what I owe within a reasonable time frame so I had to say that I was going to apply for the one shot deal because the lawyer I saw advised me to apply for it so when the judge asked it was the only thing I could think of to say because I really don't want to lose my apartment. So as much as I wanted to get through this without any help I had to apply for it. They said I have to wait 60 to 90 days to hear if I've been approved so I'm hoping in that time I can find a job and cancel my case. But the bright side is I brought in the letter to the court saying that my case is pending and they have given me until February to pay the rent I owe so at least I know I will stay living here for at least a couple more months. Thank god NY judges in the tenants favor.

I have definitely learned my lesson and will never trust someone so completely the way I've done with my SO. He has enrolled himself into a program for his gambling addiction and we are attending couples counseling but it is very difficult for me to even foresee being able to trust him ever again. But for the sake of my daughter I am going to counseling so that I can say I at least tried to save our relationship. The pain I feel when I look at him is very intense. He has been sleeping on the couch and we barely speak except for when we are in counseling. I have been very depressed about this. My mom and sister are no help at all all they do is pretty much say "I told you so" and blame me for not noticing what was going on. And my uncle although he doesn't live in the US was really the only person I could talk to that would just listen to me vent and not place any blame on me so his passing has be very difficult for me. I had to up my antidepressant dosage that I was taking for my PPD because I have been spending hours on end crying. But I am trying to remain positive because after loosing my uncle and hearing about the shooting in ct I am just grateful that at the end of the day my DD and I are alive and healthy. Seeing this post has definitely lifted my spirits and has helped me feel like I'm not alone.

Thank u mommas for checking in on me. It means so much. Its been a hard month for me. On top of the eviction and my SO gambling issue my uncle passed away 2 weeks ago so I've been really down. I went to court for my eviction case and explained my situation to the judge. He told me I would have to leave my apartment by the end of the month unless I could show him that I can pay what I owe within a reasonable time frame so I had to say that I was going to apply for the one shot deal because the lawyer I saw advised me to apply for it so when the judge asked it was the only thing I could think of to say because I really don't want to lose my apartment. So as much as I wanted to get through this without any help I had to apply for it. They said I have to wait 60 to 90 days to hear if I've been approved so I'm hoping in that time I can find a job and cancel my case. But the bright side is I brought in the letter to the court saying that my case is pending and they have given me until February to pay the rent I owe so at least I know I will stay living here for at least a couple more months. Thank god NY judges in the tenants favor.

I have definitely learned my lesson and will never trust someone so completely the way I've done with my SO. He has enrolled himself into a program for his gambling addiction and we are attending couples counseling but it is very difficult for me to even foresee being able to trust him ever again. But for the sake of my daughter I am going to counseling so that I can say I at least tried to save our relationship. The pain I feel when I look at him is very intense. He has been sleeping on the couch and we barely speak except for when we are in counseling. I have been very depressed about this. My mom and sister are no help at all all they do is pretty much say "I told you so" and blame me for not noticing what was going on. And my uncle although he doesn't live in the US was really the only person I could talk to that would just listen to me vent and not place any blame on me so his passing has be very difficult for me. I had to up my antidepressant dosage that I was taking for my PPD because I have been spending hours on end crying. But I am trying to remain positive because after loosing my uncle and hearing about the shooting in ct I am just grateful that at the end of the day my DD and I are alive and healthy. Seeing this post has definitely lifted my spirits and has helped me feel like I'm not alone.

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