What would be the correct way to show everything in category id 14, except for category 45? I want to treat 45 differently and show all of its sub categories in a different way. To try and help describe what I want :

#12
- #14
- #14
- #14
-- #45
--- #50
---- #60
--- #51
- #14

instead of cat=- should I be using conditional statements instead .. !in_category ?