Wednesday, 10 February 2016

5 Biggest Phone Sex Operator Mistakes

If you have ever taken phone sex calls then I guarantee that
you have made one of my top 5 mistakes which can severely limit your call
durations! As we know longer calls equate to more wonga so it is imperative
that you squeeze every minute out of every call (of course whilst being totally
immersed within the caller and still acting your sexy self!) Omitting these
crucial mistakes from your phone sex calls can really improve your call
durations, increase your confidence and even make the caller feel much happier
with the service given!

OK so here goes:

You ask
the caller if he has a wife/girlfriend. My friends unless the caller has
specifically told you he has a wife/girlfriend (normally part of his fantasy)
DO NOT ASK! It adds nothing to the call and in fact starts to make him feel
guilty and this will eventually end in a hang-up. You are there to entertain
the caller and you really have no place to ask him about personal life, it
really is off putting! The same applies for children, do not ask him if he has
any children unless he offers you this information!

You
tell the caller that you are a size 20 when he wants a size 8. Yes ladies
we all know that curves are sexy but when it comes to phone sex it is what is said
that matters. If this caller tells you that he likes hot blondes, size 8 with
small tits then you definitely do not tell him that you are a size 20, brunette
with huge melons! It’s not what the caller is looking for and ultimately he may
hang up the phone. Try to gauge what he likes and then miraculously turn into
his favourite sweetheart!

If he
lives in Scotland, don’t say you live in Portsmouth! The caller wants a
connection with you if only briefly. He wants to feel that somehow and some way
you two can actually meet up (believe me this is just fantasy play here) so
when you tell him you live in Portsmouth and he lives at the other end of a
different country - the connection will feel weak. Tell him that yes you do
visit Scotland and that your best friend has just moved there and you often
visit. You love the scenery and then quickly look up a Scottish town and tell
him you go there every other month. You are looking for the suspense factor,
keep it exciting for him.

You are
very abrupt with the caller. Unless you are taking a domination call,
abruptness should not be present in a normal sex call. If he wants an abrupt and moody woman he will either go to his wife or mother. He is paying to be
entertained by you and yes that means you have to have a friendly persona that is alive and
bubbly. So no abruptness should ever be present on a normal phone sex
call....EVER!

You do not
engage in his fantasy. The caller has chosen you because he likes the sound
of you! Do not let him down by not having any imagination about his fantasy. He
probably can’t talk about this to anyone else and you are the last resort so
make sure you put some effort into it. If he loves to wear silk knickers then
please without fail tell him about the hundreds of silk knickers you possess!
Tell him about your amazing shopping trips to the large department stores and
how you could spend hours gazing at all of the lingerie. Whatever you do don’t
just say “That’s nice!” It’s not what he is looking for. Research, engage and
entertain that man!!

There are other mistakes phone sex operators can make however I am
not making the list above to make anyone feel anxious I am just informing
operators that if you are doing the above mistakes ... STOP IT NOW! After
you've taken a million calls your drive can decrease (no not sex drive!) your
focus can be off and sometimes you end up saying the same thing over and over
again. It’s always good to take some time and to visualize what you are saying
and how it will make the caller feel. There are plenty of things you can do to
change the outcome of your calls including their durations.

As always if you
are an operator with LiveLines UK and you would like some further tips you can
always call us and we will help. If you are thinking about taking that plunge
and becoming a phone sex operator from home I would always research and check
out this blog so you can become accustomed with sex chat before you start
taking the calls. Any woman on the planet that can speak can become a phone sex
operator, you can too! Apply here.

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