This is me in one of my darkest moments... When i was in public school & my friends were being total bitches and my bitch mother wouldn’t pick me up. But I got through it and in the process became hotter and smarter, I survived. So whatever you are going through right now, you’ll get through it, i promise💋 When life gets tough just remind yourself that you are a bad bitch and quiche as fuck (not as quiche as me though like obvi) 💕 Love from Ja’mie💕

THE MOST RIDICULOUS THING I'VE EVER HEARD.. Say it with me... It's absurd to think I would ever not show up.
It's a silly thing to dream I would ever quit.
Money is simply a resource always available to me and I easily release any worry about it.. I easily release the little fleeting feelings. They simply pass.
I have a clarity that I always make the right decisions. There is just no way to screw it up.. and if I ever felt for a moment like I did it wrong and screwed it up.. I just exhale it away... and it evaporates into the Universe that is holding me so lovingly.
Sometimes as I show up so powerfully in life.. there is this little voice saying.. "Who do you think you are?" and I give it a wink and respond... "I am permission. I am the one who creates this level of thriving in the world." ... and I sense that the question has been answered fully.
And as I am decisive and clear on my purpose and backing myself day to day.. there is this little noise that I notice every now and again that sounds like.. confusion. It's so small and fleeting and I simply close my eyes and feel the clarity and step.. and as I step I feel it fall away.
I know who I am.
I know why I am here.
I know what my work is.
I speak my truth powerfully.
I make incredible income doing what I love.
I impact lives all over the world.. And this is simply an extension of who I am.
Those around me can feel and sense the joy, the power, and the freedom in my aura.
The legacy I leave is one of pure and utter acceptance.
Resistance free living.
The rest is silly.
It's so little and so insignificant.
YOU have always had everything that you need to live to your true potential.
love you
mandy xx
Ps. Refocus is here. Jump over to my Facebook to learn more - ‘Mandy Perry’ .
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2019-04-09 13:05

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❌A NICE GUY ISN’T THE SAME AS A GOOD MAN❌ You need to know the difference.
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When I first realized that I had a pattern of being attracted to and attracting men that were emotionally unavailable (to me) I tried to reverse the pattern. I thought, maybe I’ll just stop dating jerks and I’ll go out with really nice guys instead and that’ll be that. 💁🏽‍♀️
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So I did.🤦🏽‍♀️
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I went out with self-proclaimed nice guys and I didn’t feel anything. I mean, not that I didn’t feel anything. More like, I didn’t feel anything good. Being with a nice guy did not create some seismic shift in my universe where I all of a sudden recognized the error of my ways and resolved to never date a jerk again because I realized I deserved to be treated nicely and I’d be treated nicely by nice guys.
⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ It was almost the opposite. Being with nice guys didn’t make me want nice guys — it turned me off from nice guys and made me want jerks and I started to think there was something seriously wrong with me.
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I mean there was something wrong with wanting the jerks. But it actually made sense that I didn’t like the nice guys…
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A nice guy isn’t the same as a good man and although we can often feel this intuitively, it can be hard to put your finger on and actually *get* conceptually. Turns out, nice guys are jerks with suppressed anger, less charm, and better manners (at first).😳
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A nice guy is a man who’s deep in his victimhood. He’s entitled and frustrated that the chips haven’t fallen in his favor as much as he thinks they should have. He covers up that there’s seething anger a quarter of an inch below the surface niceness, but you can feel the anger and desperation lurking beneath.🤬😤😡
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The energy is palpable but his Nice Guy Act creates confusion: you meet him and he’s “such a nice guy” it feels like you *should* give him more of a chance. And it’s not just that you’re not attracted to him (although you’re not) it’s that you don’t feel at ease.😕
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