Collateral Attraction

Bar Investigation

A few years ago I moved to a new city. Whenever I go to a new city, one of the things I like to do is check out the local night spots. Not to try and meet anybody, I find that these places are good places to people watch. To kind of feel the energy of a place. To kind of re-calibrate my brain to be able to see the organic nature of things.

So I was in this bar, kind of leaning up with my back against the bar just kind of watching people. I wasn’t intending on meeting anybody. I wasn’t even intending on talking to anybody. I just wanted to get a feel for the place. The flow of the energy. To minimize my conscious mind as much as possible and soak up as much unconsciously as I could.

I noticed a guy was next to me at the bar. I didn’t notice when he came up. When I started people watching there was nobody on either side of me. I glanced over at him, and my first impression was that he was maybe some homeless guy that wandered in from the street.

Not Homeless – Super Rich

But then I glimpsed his watch and had to re-calibrate my assumptions. I didn’t catch the brand of his watch, only I realized it was very, very expensive. This guy went from being homeless to being so rich he didn’t care how he looked.

I found myself in a conversation with him. I wasn’t sure who started it. I asked him how long he’d lived in town. I was planning on asking him about his take on the place. Although his opinion would be that of a rich guy, and I didn’t now how useful that might be to me.

We talked for a while and he told me he’d recently sold his third business. I didn’t ask him how old he was, but he couldn’t have been more than 35 or 40. I asked what he did now, and he went over his plans for his next company. But by then I stopped paying attention to what he was saying.

All The Girls Loved This Guy

By then, I had noticed that all the girls in the place were seriously checking him out. But they were checking him out in a way that I had never seen before. I could tell they were insanely attracted to him. But I could also tell they were equally intimated by him.

The girls who were brave enough to walk past him seemed very, very nervous as they walked past. Like they had a combination of intense attraction, and anxiety at the same time. I don’t think I saw any of them make direct eye contact. A few looked up at his chest, but couldn’t seem to bring their eyes beyond that.

I asked him what the deal was. He smiled, and kind of noticed that I had noticed. He told me that in the middle of his first business, he had a ton of stress. So he hired a yoga teacher to help him deal with it. And this yoga teacher taught him a bunch about human emotions and the relationship between the conscious and the subconscious minds.

Breaking The Subconscious Barrier

It turns out that from a subconscious, instinctive level, humans are very, very simple. But we have this strange trait of needing to think we have a logical reason for doing things. But according neurologists who study things like the role of consciousness in human decision making understand that the conscious mind only becomes aware of decisions after they are made by our instinctive, subconscious mind.

Not only that, but we have to believe we have a logical reason for doing whatever we just did. The problem comes when we believe this logical, after the fact reason is the real reason. This is where all confusion, anxiety and social fear come from.

The trick is to get down below this level, and resonate with your subconscious. To think and feel on this true emotional level. And his yoga instructor taught him to communicate from this level.

Subconscious Communication

He quickly learned that when you communicate from this level, you will create a strange combination. One is people will be incredibly attracted to you on a deep, subconscious level. Girls will want to sleep with you. People will want to do business with you. Customers will want to buy from you.

But since they can only perceive this from above their post rational, falsely conscious decision making level, they will only feel it. They won’t be able to communicate it. If you give them an opportunity, they will take it. But if you are just radiating from this level, but don’t give them any indication of what you want, they won’t know what to do.

They will feel insanely attracted on one level, but almost terrified on another level. If you remain silent and radiate on this subconscious level, it will give you a very powerful feeling. A very emotionally gratifying feeling. A very ancient and primordial feeling.

Dude… How?

I wanted to talk to him, I wanted to ask him who this yoga teacher was, but part of me just wanted to continue to lean up against the bar. To watch these girls walk by, so attracted, yet so intimidated. I ended up just hanging out like that for another half hour or so. Just listening to this guy talk, but not really sure, not really caring, what he was saying.

Finally he left, and when he did, the entire energy of the place changed. And something else changed. I didn’t know how or exactly when this happened, but I think simply because I was standing next to him, I was getting a kind of collateral attraction. The girls were watching me like they were watching him.

But as soon as he left, it all changed. It had come on so gradually that I didn’t notice it. But when it was gone, it was fast. It was sudden. And it made me want to do everything so I could learn how to do this. So I could learn more about this. So I might be able to master this. To radiate deep and subconscious attraction.

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