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Wow, I had never heard of this before. For YEARS I have been sighing over the lack of decent lesbian porn ("lesbian" porn made for men, women in heels with long nails begrudgingly poking at vaginas and sucking on dildos while staring at the camera as if to say, "I sure wish this was you instead, STUD.") It's all so trite and blech, terrible. Looking at the previews here, though? Damn, I am sold.

This will probably be a lot more revealing than I probably want... but here goes.

Written: nifty.org, I also have "Early Embraces" books 1-3.

Auditory: I actually have some recordings a friend/cyber encounter/I dunno made and sent. It's like mp3 dirty talk.

Visual: Places like Xhamster, Xvideos, Hustler, few DVDs, and Beaver Bong on the explicit side. To Playboy on the mid grade section. Mild would be things like the swimsuit issues High Times occasionally puts out. Granted, I am apparently a bit of an outlier in that reading a text book about the physiological changes during arousal can actually set me off. Or nature videos. It's not like I want to sleep with the animals depicted, it just gets me thinking about sex in general and my mind fills in the rest from there.

Edit - Touch: Being drunk or otherwise intoxicated helps, but not always needed... Running my hands over different textures. Even a wall. I am weird. I know. I'll see myself out now.

Not into written stuff at all. Being completely honest, 9 times out of 10 I watch hardcore mainstream type het porn. Which makes no sense to me (I identify as stock lesbian) and I don't think about it during actual sex. But hey, if that's what it takes to get off solo.