Saturday, May 29, 2010

I work with young teenage girls and I am constantly drilling into them that they must love themselves before they will ever have the ability to love anyone else or allow anyone else to enter thier space to love them. These girls are very similar to me, I think we are butterflies with broken wings and no one wants somthing or somebody that is broken. So other butterflies see our beauty on the outside then they begin to see the other side that is broken and not whole so, the others fly away because honetly what can you do with a butterfly who cannot fly, be free, be in the open, be liberated, and just be what it was meant to do fly free...I always say to my girls you better love you, learn to love (yourself) first and everything that is broken, God will begin to mend those broken wings. I've been saying that for so long to others that sometimes I fail to realize that as I try pouring into others my vessel has all kinds of cracks and I have to allow God to put me back together before I can hold all that He is filling me with. But in the meantime, I still pour what I have into those who are broken just like me, waiting for their wings to be mended so they are ready when the time comes to fly free.

We too often think, everything will be alright--but it does take working on those areas in life that need mending, fixing, and putting back together again. We don't want to really pull back a few layers in our lives (like an oinion) because it will cause tears to flow, things that had been repressed to come to the surface that need to be dealt with. Life is all about mending those things that have been broken at some point in time. No one is or will ever be perfect so we all have some mending to do.by TKay, author of "TKay's Inspirationals: Waling In Your Seaosn" www.tinakay.net

About Me

Renaissance Woman is how many describe me!My roots are in a city steeped in rich
history and culture.However, I grew up
in a home that always pushed me to move past what many would think should stunt
my growth.So the way I think, dream,
& aspire catapults me much further than my fore fathers ever dreamed!I live with Sickle Cell Disease.I am a National Advocate for the disease, a
mentor to young ladies living with SCD like me, a published author, freelance
writer, blogger, and a national inspirational/motivational speaker as
well.I'm also a spoken word artist with
a self-titled CD (Tina Kay).... I am the NAACP Health Coordinator for the state
of Alabama, member of National Federation of Press Women, ASCAP, National
Congress of Black Women, and the Sickle Cell Consortium.I think of myself more as a community
organizer (bringing people together) to work together for the good of all
people. However, my most important job
on this earth is being a Mommy! Find out
more about me at www.tinakay.net

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Renaissance Woman is how many describe me!My roots are in a city steeped in rich
history and culture.However, I grew up
in a home that always pushed me to move past what many would think should stunt
my growth.So the way I think, dream,
& aspire catapults me much further than my fore fathers ever dreamed!I live with Sickle Cell Disease.I am a National Advocate for the disease, a
mentor to young ladies living with SCD like me, a published author, freelance
writer, blogger, and a national inspirational/motivational speaker as
well.I'm also a spoken word artist with
a self-titled CD (Tina Kay).... I am the NAACP Health Coordinator for the state
of Alabama, member of National Federation of Press Women, ASCAP, National
Congress of Black Women, and the Sickle Cell Consortium.I think of myself more as a community
organizer (bringing people together) to work together for the good of all
people. However, my most important job
on this earth is being a Mommy! Find out
more about me at www.tinakay.net