Anyone "trying" naturally *sigh* during the clinic closure?

Just curious if anyone else is sorta trying to get pregnant naturally while we all wait with crazy anticipation for the fertility clinics to re-open?

We're trying, but I have to say that, knowing the super low chances of natural pregnancy for us, I feel like I'm just torturing myself. I still pray for a glorious, frickin miracle bc hey, they happen, right? But I'm sure it won't happen until IVF again. Sigh...

Same. I have a very long and unpredictable cycle. But I was feeling a little off and more emotional in the last week so got my hopes up. Started my period today :( :( after multiple losses and IVF cycle cancelled right before the closure it’s starting to affect me. I had been doing so well emotionally for the last 6 weeks but today is hard. Had a 12 wk loss and my due date would have been in less then a month so that is also on my mind...

We haven’t tried naturally for over a year because of IVF and surgery I had. I’m also over 40, but it’s SHAMEFULLY amazing how quickly I reverted back to “oh maybe this time will work”! 🙄 Sure after 7 years of ttc, 5-10 miscarriages this will be it! 😂😓 I had a bit of spotting a few days ago and that started my brain. I’ve been having vivid nightmares, cramping and my temp
is still above dropping before AF. Took a test yesterday and it was negative/ the faintest line ever and only way past the 3 min. Cried, then I went for a run today (because eff it and my temp was a bit lower, chest isn’t feeling any signs) and had more spotting. AF would normally be in the next few days, but my cycle is out of whack from IVF and surgery, so who knows. Not me, about anything. Wish you all the best!!!

Yes, we are trying naturally ... even though we did IVF in January and were super excited to get 5 PGS normal blasts. Then covid hit and our dreams were put on hold.

I had 3 miscarriages last year due to egg quality, so I'm not exactly naive about the possibility I could miscarry again. We got clomid from our fertility clinic and I've been doing supplements religiously and using thyroid medication, so I'm slightly more hopeful.

That being said, we are just so upset to be in this position. I'm shocked fertility clinics are not considered essential based on the time factor. Currently we have 5 blasts sitting in a freezer that we have no access to. 18k later. :(

In reply to Mimi3211

26/04/20

Same. I have a very long and unpredictable cycle. But I was feeling a little off and more emotional in the last week so got my hopes up. Started my period today :( :( after multiple losses and IVF cycle cancelled right before the closure it’s starting to affect me. I had been doing so well emotionally for the last 6 weeks but today is hard. Had a 12 wk loss and my due date would have been in less then a month so that is also on my mind...

Oh I am so sorry for your loss. That is heartbreaking. I know it's so hard to stay positive when you can't help but get your hopes up, and then you're crushed again and repeat next cycle. I was supposed to have an FET in April- our last embryo. That obviously didn't happen. And I'm not getting younger over here... it's so tough. Thanks for replying- it's good to know I'm not the only one. Best of luck to you for the future!

In reply to cukor

26/04/20

We haven’t tried naturally for over a year because of IVF and surgery I had. I’m also over 40, but it’s SHAMEFULLY amazing how quickly I reverted back to “oh maybe this time will work”! 🙄 Sure after 7 years of ttc, 5-10 miscarriages this will be it! 😂😓 I had a bit of spotting a few days ago and that started my brain. I’ve been having vivid nightmares, cramping and my temp
is still above dropping before AF. Took a test yesterday and it was negative/ the faintest line ever and only way past the 3 min. Cried, then I went for a run today (because eff it and my temp was a bit lower, chest isn’t feeling any signs) and had more spotting. AF would normally be in the next few days, but my cycle is out of whack from IVF and surgery, so who knows. Not me, about anything. Wish you all the best!!!

Thanks for replying. That symptom spotting is so hard not to do. I do that almost every freaking cycle, like maybe somehow this time it'll happen, get my hopes up, and then of course nothing. Infertility sucks :( I'm 38 years old, and that clock just keeps on ticking (stupid clock). I sincerely hope for a happy ending for your journey. All the best to you!

In reply to jco9

26/04/20

Yes, we are trying naturally ... even though we did IVF in January and were super excited to get 5 PGS normal blasts. Then covid hit and our dreams were put on hold.

I had 3 miscarriages last year due to egg quality, so I'm not exactly naive about the possibility I could miscarry again. We got clomid from our fertility clinic and I've been doing supplements religiously and using thyroid medication, so I'm slightly more hopeful.

That being said, we are just so upset to be in this position. I'm shocked fertility clinics are not considered essential based on the time factor. Currently we have 5 blasts sitting in a freezer that we have no access to. 18k later. :(

Thanks so much for replying. It's good to know I'm not alone in this frustrating trying with infertility thing.

But wow- congratulations on your 5 PGS normal blasts! That is definitely awesome, and so full of hope :) It sounds like you're doing a lot to improve your chances of success too- I really hope everything works out! It's frustrating to have to wait to move forward though- I have one untested 5 day blast frozen right now. I was supposed to have an FET in April. If that doesn't work, we'll be doing IVF again. More waiting... hopefully it all works out. Good luck!

In reply to LovinTheMamaLife

26/04/20

Thanks for replying. That symptom spotting is so hard not to do. I do that almost every freaking cycle, like maybe somehow this time it'll happen, get my hopes up, and then of course nothing. Infertility sucks :( I'm 38 years old, and that clock just keeps on ticking (stupid clock). I sincerely hope for a happy ending for your journey. All the best to you!

You’re just 38! Sometimes even best Dr’s doesn’t know where it’s going to
lead.
I was 38 and was told that even though I’m healthy, but our male factor (younger than me!) leave us no hopes for natural one, or even IUI. Miracles happen and you need just one of those... but let’s face reality. Let’s not waste time.

Two months after his sperm improved. Yes we did all the pills meanwhile nothing happened. Also no explanation why it was bad!

I got a call with my funded cycle confirmed in May. Wasn’t sure if I really want to go straight to IVF without trying IUI, if summer is a good time. Took some time off to think about it. In any case 3 weeks later I got my positive test. Naturally! Everyone was shocked! It was a MMC later due to random not age related genetic thing. And actually my body did the right thing stopping it from growing. But at least I knew I can get pregnant! Yay!

I was positive it could happen again, my Dr was in doubts. Decided to try one letrozole cycle - nothing happened, next cycle I decided not to do it. Got a call to renew prescription for letrozole and planned to take it next cycle. Guess what?! I got a positive again. Without any intervention! Due in about a month.

After all you really need just one of those swimmers to reach out! I strongly believe some level of stress helps

my close friend was telling me that she won’t be able to have kids. That 3 years ago she was told due to endometriosis her chances are low. And if no action - she’s done in about a year. 3 years later after nothing was done she got pregnant from first try. The only try!

In reply to Gilly123451

We are not trying naturally due to our reasons for ivf are genetic. I really hope the clinics open again really soon

I wonder where they would place in reopening (with other necessities like dentists etc)

Hmmm that's a good question. I'm not sure. I think IVF is considered an elective surgery, so those need to back on the table. I think it all depends on the state of emergency being lifted. I'm hoping by the summer (crossing my fingers here) the clinics will open again. Here's hoping, anyway. Good luck!

In reply to Mmmoussy

26/04/20

You’re just 38! Sometimes even best Dr’s doesn’t know where it’s going to
lead.
I was 38 and was told that even though I’m healthy, but our male factor (younger than me!) leave us no hopes for natural one, or even IUI. Miracles happen and you need just one of those... but let’s face reality. Let’s not waste time.

Two months after his sperm improved. Yes we did all the pills meanwhile nothing happened. Also no explanation why it was bad!

I got a call with my funded cycle confirmed in May. Wasn’t sure if I really want to go straight to IVF without trying IUI, if summer is a good time. Took some time off to think about it. In any case 3 weeks later I got my positive test. Naturally! Everyone was shocked! It was a MMC later due to random not age related genetic thing. And actually my body did the right thing stopping it from growing. But at least I knew I can get pregnant! Yay!

I was positive it could happen again, my Dr was in doubts. Decided to try one letrozole cycle - nothing happened, next cycle I decided not to do it. Got a call to renew prescription for letrozole and planned to take it next cycle. Guess what?! I got a positive again. Without any intervention! Due in about a month.

After all you really need just one of those swimmers to reach out! I strongly believe some level of stress helps

my close friend was telling me that she won’t be able to have kids. That 3 years ago she was told due to endometriosis her chances are low. And if no action - she’s done in about a year. 3 years later after nothing was done she got pregnant from first try. The only try!

Awww that is so kind of you to say, and to pass on such words of wisdom. Thank you for your reply, and your hopeful comment. Congratulations on your pregnancy! You are right- it does only take one sperm! It's so hard to be hopeful when you've been through infertility and loss, but we keep trying. Best of luck!

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