People tell you who they are. And when they do, believe them. And when their words may be lies, their actions are the absolute truth.

I once foolishly got into a relationship with a guy that wouldn’t let me into his place to use the bathroom. He told me from the get-go that it would “cause too many problems.”

Well, I don’t always USE the best judgment, but I knew the deal. And I got in a relationship with him ANYWAY!

The shadiness only grew. And as time went on, my suspicions were WELL founded. But it was all about what I was willing to put up with. We blew up when I couldn’t take the half-truths, selective sharing of information, manipulation, broken promises, Indian-giving (the list goes on).

Pay attention to the signs. Your gut won’t stare you wrong. Hell, sometimes it doesn’t even take your gut, it just takes damn common sense.

Don’t judge me for this video. I grew up with white people, I listened to Tesla. Sing along and read the damn signs!

Sis, learn from me and others that went before you. I know it’s hard to say, but please do. People will tell you WHO THEY ARE. Believe them.
I’m happy that we are learning and relearning some of these lessons together.
((Hugs))