Best position

I am hopefully about to start using a larger dildo girth wise, only 4 inches but I am a virgin. If I lie on my back does it squish the vaginal opening a bit which makes insertion difficult? Am I better lowering myself onto it?

If you lay on your back with your knees bent you are able to move your hips and pelvis to adjust your position fairly easily, to allow you to maximise your pleasure. I quite enjoy being on all fours, but we are all different, so just play and find what you like best.

I find on all fours works better for me if I'm using/having used on me larger toys. They seem to be easier to insert and I can take them deeper. However, as stated, everyone is different....and part of the fun is trying new things/positions etc :) x