My First BDSM Experience

Our member Lucy wanted to share with us her first BDSM experience, and how she became one of the most popular members on our BDSM dating site. Here is her story on how she got her first experience as a slave when she met Simon on a party.

Usually the missionary position

I’m Lucy and I’m 20 years old. I work as a dental receptionist – lots of white coats and hygiene masks! I’d always thought of myself as rather “vanilla” with regards to my sex life. I lost my virginity at 17 and have had a few sexual partners since then. Although it’s usually the missionary position, I like to think of myself as a “try anything once” kind of girl!

Which is why I ended up at a party where I hardly knew anyone. I was newly single and looking for some fun. And that was wear I met Simon. He was smartly dressed, a suit and a tie. After chatting for a while, he took me by the hand and led me upstairs. We found a bedroom and, at the foot of the bed, we stood kissing for a while. Gently he turned me around so that I was facing the bed and asked if I knew what BDSM was. The next thing I knew was that he’d taken off his tie and was using it to bind my hands behind my back. I should’ve been scared and I did feel a little nervous, but actually I have never felt so turned on in my whole life!

It felt so delicious!

He made me kneel before him and I found myself obeying. He insisted that I pull down his fly zipper with my teeth. It was weird to lose control completely but it felt so delicious. With his fly open, his dick sprang out and I gave him head. Not being able to use my hands felt odd and he was a bit rough with his hands on the side of my head, forcing his cock further and further down my throat until my nose was touching his pubes. He withdrew several times and slapped me across the face with his thick cock. It didn’t hurt but it was really erotic.

He was my first BDSM sex experience!

Then he returned the favour and made me lay on the floor, whilst he licked me out. The feeling of having no control was incredibly stimulating and I realized what I had been missing. I came so hard that I squirted all over him! He was definitely what I call my first BDSM sex experience.

He recommended that I join BDSM-partner.com to find other like-minded people and I leapt at the chance! I’ve now had dates with three different partners, all of which have satisfied my growing BDSM fetish. I love being the slave, but I have also turned things around and been the dominant partner. I have found that I can climax either way!