A Top's Eye VIew.
I hope this will be fun, funny, complicated, opinionated and occasionally irritating. Say what you will. Agree, disagree, complain, rant, rave. It's fine. If I say something that offends you, go somewhere else. If you agree with me or any of my musings, please share this with your lifestyle compatriots.

Wednesday, April 11, 2012

Ramblings...

I've been out of the country off an on for seven out of the last 12 weeks. I'm glad to be back, my work on the project in the UK done. Now I can focus on other projects in other parts of the world: the Middle East, Asia, the U.S. I can't seem to get my head above water since I've been back, just a little over a week now. So many things to catch up on: bills, a month's worth of mail...Oh look! The fridge is empty. There's (shockingly) a month's worth of laundry to do.

None of this has anything to do with kink or spanking or BDSM. In fact, the image I chose for this entry doesn't have anything to with it either. I just like the pic. I wish when I was overwhelmed or just focused on other things I could come up with something clever to write. But it doesn't seem to really work like that for me.

Catching up at work has been a bitch. Catching up on relationships even harder. I neglected a few things in all these recent travels. Worse, I've neglected a few of them even longer. Not good.

I'll get back on track. The words will return. The wit and mildly amusing charm will, too. Until then, as I've done in the past, I kindly ask that you simply bear with me, Kinky Friend. I have lots to say, it's just finding the time and mindset to say it.

About Me

Motto: Conversio Virium (latin for "exchange of forces")
I am a MDHL (Male Dominant Het Leather) and am a proud member of the Monarchs. I am a Master and daddy to Lizzie.
I believe discipline, caring attention, focused instruction and mastery of myself and my sub are the first steps in a meaningful D/s relationship. I'm enjoy bondage, impact play, spanking, erotic humiliation, humiliation & debasing, and scenes mixing sex and delivery of pain. I feel true protocol comes from respect, trust, communication and understanding.
Because of my work and family I live the lifestyle 24/7 as best I can and am happy to have the balance I have.
I enjoy not just finding play partners but meeting new people, making new friends and appreciating the connections that come from that. The serendipity I discover in meeting great people in the scene has been a pleasant surprise.