Friday, 30 November 2018

It’s beginning to look a lot like flu season…… I’m sick, I
am miserable, and I have no time for any of this.

While trying to rest this evening like a good little
patient, my body decided it would be cute to wake me up by projectile vomiting.
Charming, I know. Luckily, I haven’t been able to eat in 2 days, so clean up was
less gross than it could have been. However, I didn’t really have time booked
for washing bedding today but needs must.

So, apologies todays post is short again, but unfortunately,
I am sick and the time I had set aside to write is now having to be used by
cleaning bedding and sleeping so hopefully I’m better for work on Sunday.

What are your home remedies for the flu? And, what do you do
you do to make yourself feel better when you’re stuck in bed sick? Let me know
in the comments below. And as always, stay and play safe.

Friday, 23 November 2018

I’m writing this post a lot later than I generally like to,
but this month has been a wee bit stressful. My mom had an infection which
knocked her numbers and took her out of commission for a week. Then, once she
recovered from that she had to have surgery on her fistula for her dialysis,
which knocked her out for another week and it’s just been busy and stressful
and just a lot.

It seems like every time I get by duck in the same pond,
(not row, I gave up on that dream years ago), one of the little buggers runs
off to Mars. I just can’t win.

Anyways, sorry this post, is short any crappy, but as you
know, sometimes life happens and blogging has to take a back seat. I will leave
you with this question though; How do you keep your ducks in the same pond? Let
me know your thoughts in the comments below. As always stay and play safe.

Friday, 16 November 2018

I made a comment a few posts back about looks not being a
deal breaker and this raised a few questions and bought on quite the debate, so
I thought I’d elaborate on my stance a bit.

Now, don’t get me wrong physical attraction is a plus and if
it’s there awesome, but it’s not the be all and end all. For me at least, being
attracted to someone’s personality is way more important. Sex with pretty
people who you want to stab when they open their mouths isn’t sustainable. Personalities
on the other hand tend to last. And, in most relationships anyways, you tend to
spend more time clothed than naked, so there needs to be more than looks build
a happy healthy relationship.

There are actually scientific studies that back up my
stance, apparently “traditional attraction” wears off after 18-24 months. And apparently,
that’s the point where a lot of issues tend to surface. When that “honeymoon”
or “lust” phase wears off relationships fizzle out if there isn’t something
else to draw them together.

I, on occasion, have chosen to skip that lust phase. I’ve
dated guys whose personalities I enjoyed, but who may not have been my idea of sexually
stunning. Don’t get me wrong, they weren’t monsters, but I also didn’t look at
them and want them naked either. That said, just because they didn’t make me drool
doesn’t mean they couldn’t make me scream. Just because I wasn’t into them
looks wise doesn’t mean the sex was bad. Actually, from my experience, what
they say is true, good looking men tend to not be great in bed because they don’t
have to be. While less stunning men, well, they develop skills to compensate.

Anyways, that’s my two cents on the matter. I’m going to go
and enjoy what remains of the last day of my holiday. I shall leave you with
the question though; Do looks matter? Let me know your thoughts in the comments below.
And as always, stay and play safe.

Friday, 9 November 2018

Some of you have been asking what happened with Mr. Block so
I thought I’d give you a quick update.

The answer is not a lot happened. We arranged to meet up for
the 6th time and for the 6th time he cancelled. At that
point, I lost interest. I’m far too old for games and frankly the price isn’t
good enough for the effort required.

To be fair, there was never going to be a future with Mr.Block.
After all the BS at most it was going to be a purely sexual sort of thing. Ok,
more of it’s been a while and I wanted to know if I could remember how sort of thing. I mean, why not?

Then Steve popped up with a point that played in my head. He
asked why I was wasting my time with Mr.Block when he could fulfil the same function
with a few a messages. As much as I hate to admit it, he was right. He also
reminded me the reason why not is I have self-respect and Mr. Block is prick.
Can’t argue with that one either.

Anyways, that’s the update or lack thereof. I am going to go
and enjoy the rest of my holiday, but before I go I have this question for you;
Are fuckfriends a good or bad thing? Let me know your thoughts in the comments
below. And as always stay and play safe.

Friday, 2 November 2018

Welcome to November and more importantly to the Q&A I’ve
been promising. I’m not going to waste a lot of time here, I’m just going to
jump into the questions you lovely humans have been asking.

How are you?

I am ok. I am in a better place than I was that’s for
certain. I am still not perfect, but all things considered I am doing well.

How is your mom?

My mom is a fighter and she’s hanging in there. Her kidney function
is back up to 11%, which is a relief. Her spirits remain high and that’s all
you can really ask for.

Are you dating anyone?

Nope. Not even flirting with anyone these days.

How are things with Mr. X?

Perfect. I haven’t spoken to him months.

Do you miss Mr. X?

Of course. As toxic as he could be, he was also a sweetheart
who could always get through to me when no one else could. Now I have to rely
on myself for that, and to be honest, recently that almost didn’t work. As much
of a twat as Mr. X can be, he has he’s good and I miss that.

How are things with Steve?

Things are ok. We don’t speak a whole lot these days, but
that’s to be expected. Peak has started at work and time is a premium. Plus, I
don’t like messaging him at home, so January will be when things start to show.

Hove things changed with Steve?

Yep. But, like I said I won’t really know what’s changed and
what’s just peak stress until January.

Is Steve going to do a guest post or a Q&A like Mr. X
did?

Nope. I asked the question for you and he’s not interested.

Given your firm no kids rule would you still sleep with
Steve?

In case you don’t know the rule this person is talking about it is birth control, condoms and a reasonable chance the guy I am sleeping with
is shooting blanks. When it comes to Steve I’d make an exception on this one.

Would you still sleep with Steve given how things have changed?

I would indeed. The whole Steve thing is about pleasure not
logic.

Do you think Mr. X and Steve are cheaters?

Every relationship is different and has their own rules. By
my standards in a relationship, yes, but that’s not to say that’s the case in
their relationships. And since I chose not to know those facts, I can only
assume they’re playing within the rules they’ve set.

Anyways, my dears, those are all the questions that you’ve submitted
for this Q&A, if you have any more leave them below and I’ll either answer
them there or save them for my next Q&A post. But that’s all she wrote for
this one so, as always, stay and play safe.