menimgitis

When my son was born he had menimgitis. he is now nearly two and doesn't seem to have any side effects from this however, I can`t seem to forget how scary and upsetting everything was.

We are now planning to have baby number 2 and I am really scared that the same could happen again especially the birth as this was the worst experience of my life, even with my baby laid in my arms after.

How do you get over something like this?I am reminded by my sons start in life everyday and it makes my stomach turn just thinking about it.

Has anyone else been through something like this and how did you get over it?

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BRENDALINE - posted on 07/18/2013

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Hello Sarah! I haven't been in your shoes before but I definitely understand your fears and worries. You need first of all to understand that all pregnancies are not the same and that each child is a single human being who is unique gift that God blesses you with. Thus, there is no law that stipulates that what happened to your first angel will happen to the next one. My advice will be that you turn to God and put everything in prayers. Ask God to take away those fears and worries in you and also pray that God should bless your next child so he or she will come into this would with no traces of that illness.God Bless.