It's Christmas here now, beautiful and sunny and warm. My warmest wishes to all of you freezing your butts off over the other side of the world :-) xx

I have more patience with RG. He's hurting and I know the desire to make the hurt go away by clutching onto whatever is available. Then when that doesn't help there is a strong need to have everything return to the perceived safety of monogamy.

RG I think the fact that Bree is in a Seminary does make a huge difference. I know some people with strong religious beliefs can make peace with polyamory but it's a much bigger thing. :