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Sunday, December 21, 2008

It is a human need to have companionship and love. We spend our lives seeking it through friendships and lovers, and we all have our own personal qualifications as to what consists of our ideal companion. Many of us spend our lifetime hunting for our soul mate.

When we find someone that we want to partnership with, we are always hoping that everything will turn out right, and that they will never reject, abandon, hurt, or betray us. We want our partners to spend varying degrees of time with us, but also to give us space to pursue, and nurture our own individuality.

Then there are body types that we prefer, consisting of body shape, skin color, eye color, hair color, height, weight, great ass, big boobs, small boobs, perky boobs, you get the picture.

In addition, there are so many different varieties of sexuality we all prefer, where some of us only want a member of the opposite sex, some want either, some want the same, some are looking for one individual that has both.

Well, I think I came across the near ideal solution to this life long problem. Okay, so I’m not the one who invented this, more on that later in the article.

Today I was researching the psychology of attraction, and low and behold through Googling the term (and this is a scary thought, I might add), I came across "Realdolls". What is a “Realdoll”, you might ask? Well you all have heard of the “Judy Doll”, you know, the one you buy your lonely friend for a gag gift, or the groom at his bachelor party. Well, the “Realdoll” is the lifelike pose able, $6,000 and up, version of the “Judy Doll”.

Barbie, move on over…

You can choose her or his eye, hair, skin color; weight, etc., right down to pubic hair or not. You can order him/her with a vagina and a dick, or not. The choices are nearly endless, and best of all, you no longer have to worry about whether or not your “Judy Doll” springs a leak, and blows out the window. Should you run into some problems though, there are replacement parts.

Hell, buy two and you can even sit back and watch two of your dolls having a liaison together, if you are into that. No more worrying about finding someone that is.

The possibilities are endless. The only draw back I can see, is she/he won’t be the best conversationalist, but hey, you won’t have to worry about those arguments, and good communication skills. They aren’t the best housekeeper, but they don’t make any messes either.

And if you would like to go on a double date with other couples, just like you, or exchange your girlfriend tales and relationship problems with someone who understands? That’s not a problem, join the forum.

If you want to read about “Realdoll” adventures, keep up to date with CoverDoll is the premier eZine for life-size dolls, featuring a monthly CoverDoll, articles, reviews, member’s blogs and galleries. So if you’re a doll admirer, then check it out…. You won’t be disappointed.

If the Realdoll company doesn’t have a model that suits your fancy, not a problem, maybe you can find the guy or gal of your dreams at one of these other sites.

Anyway, this guy Davecat seems to be the leading authority on the subject.

If you would like to learn about her founder and daddy, Matthew McMullen, and read an interview, pop on over Monk Magazine and read all about him.Christmas is right around the corner folks! For those of you who can’t afford one...there’s still Judy.

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Love note(s):

Having a Doll in one's life isn't for everyone, but if you're open-minded and creative enough, they certainly can fulfil a lot of emotional and sexual needs. A fellow iDollator said it best: 'Dolls reflect the love that you give them'. Frankly, I couldn't agree more!

I think this is one of the better articles I have seen on life sized dolls. One thing that wasn't mentioned, is the fun experience a couple can have with a doll as a 'third' partner. Such a threesome opens up fantasy possibilites that otherwise 'shy' people would not experience.

The only, and I mean the only drawback these dolls have is their weight.. As more people become familiar and accustomed to dolls of this quality the more innovations such as a "light weight" doll can come to fruition. Alternatively, there are some people that make "lighter" dolls, but with wire skeletons like TBs (Teddy Babes) or RSSDs (Real Solid Sex Dolls). Granted they are not up to par with Mechadolls or RealDolls but they are great places to start to see if one is "into" dolls.

True, as Playtime said, they ARE NOT a substitute for a real person, but they can help a situation someone may find themselves in. (ex. being "alone")

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