"He wasn't what I pictured in a husband; he had tattoos and piercings, he didn't believe in marriage, religion or many of the things I thought were important to me. In spite of that, there was something about him that felt like I met him for a reason."

Priscilla explains that as her relationship with Jak evolved, so did her sense of self, leading her to admit she was interested in having experiences with women.

"We eventually decided to experiment together - we had never heard of polyamory at the time, but this would turn out to be a life-changing decision for us both," Priscilla explains.

"Something's hurt, like my friend uninviting me to her wedding because my relationship 'isn't appropriate' for a religious wedding. Or some of our other so called 'friends' disowning us, talking behind our back, judging or disrespecting us for who we are, even though our relationship doesn't actually affect their lives," Priscilla writes.

"The biggest thing the three of us offer you to take away from this is, please, do what makes you happy and makes the most sense to you. This is your life, you can't live it for anyone else.

"Be true to yourself, follow your bliss and give your heart to the person or persons you want to share it with, because like life itself, there are no rules to love."