How Strange..

if i had a child i would have priorities..put aside all problems,i ll be in this world just for my child..first my child,then me..the whole thought just change me i think somehow...i wouldn change as person but the thoughts i think...

i would never ignore my child or hurt him/her..i would be a parent and a friend..i think thats how it should be..maybe an overprotective parent but yeah...

i would try my best to be a good parent.... whatever i miss,my child would have.. i would be the most lucky person coz i know kids are a gift.. they deserve the best..

then again....i dont think i ll ever be a mom for some reasons but sometimes i wish this..really a child would change everythin ..and i ll do my best to protect it. a bedtime story,a prince/princess in this world.. :) yeah that makes me smile ..

It sounds like you have your priorities in order and when you get ready to be a mom I think that you will be a great. Parents do put their kids ahead of them so much and it is the parent that comes out ahead in the long run... <br /><br />Great goals and they are attainable....

you'll be a great mom because you do feel this way. one caveat: from your yes and no answers, i get that you are not, for whatever reason, necessarily committed to having a baby WITH someone. unfortunately, children do tend to do best when exposed to the nurture of both genders. just make sure your child gets that somehow. :)

Oh Amy, you would be the most wonderful mother and your child would be greatly blessed to have all the love and attention you are so eager to give. I know you are full and over flowing with love and you are right... a child would change your whole point of view.<br /><br />I know because I remember having these very same thoughts for the many years before I was blessed with a full-term pregnancy. <br /><br />Despite some distress Sam has given me, I still wouldn't change anything... He was and still is, the centre of my world.<br /><br />Empty would be my life without him....<br /><br />I am living proof that single parents can do the parenting thing without a partner... though I wish I did have the opportunity to have a loving husband.... I wasn't going to let that stop me from having a child. <br /><br />There is so much joy in raising a child that you hardly ever notice that you put yourself last when thinking of their needs.<br /><br />I do hope you have this opportunity.... you would be such a wonderful mother, and your child would be so lucky to have you as a mom.

I hope you get your wish. <br /><br />Would you want a loving man in your family? I just noticed you didn't say anything about a father to help you. If that is none of my bussiness I am sorry to have said anything...DD

I was brought up with three siblings, the older two hated my father especially the older brother who was from a previous marriage. They egged one another on and accused my father of terrible things that weren't true and excitedly hoped they could even get him in prison - I will...

I read the forums where women are in abusive relationships, cheated on regularly, yet become pregnant by that same man, or keep their children in that situation and I get so angry.
They seem to care more about themselves and the relationship with the man, making sure he is happy...