Ottawa games

Hey so I went to a club the other night. In a naval officer's uniform. It can be a good thing or a bad thing sometimes. My strategy is to open sets in line so that you walk in the club with other girls.

Dance floor:

I then opened a group with Roxanne...she is gorgeous. Eventually, she had a boyfriend and I could tell she was sincere. Then when I was dancing with her and her friends, every single girl in the club was grabbing me, trying to get my attention, etc. Because Roxanne said she was with a guy I was disappointed and thought I'd give this other girl a whirl. She kept grabbing my ass and...you know the response. Then Roxanne and her friends left the dance floor and this new girl lost interest for some reason, probably no more competition. Since it was a very small club, I was doomed!!!!!!!!!!! Does anyone know what could have kept me alive? Although it was a successful night, and Roxanne looked for me to give me her number before she left, I felt like I missed something. And I wanted to take a girl home that night. Normally I'd just keep going around the club but a naval uniform really stands out in a club around 1000 square feet.

Re: Ottawa games

Originally Posted by Rye

Hey so I went to a club the other night. In a naval officer's uniform. It can be a good thing or a bad thing sometimes. My strategy is to open sets in line so that you walk in the club with other girls.

Dance floor:

I then opened a group with Roxanne...she is gorgeous. Eventually, she had a boyfriend and I could tell she was sincere. Then when I was dancing with her and her friends, every single girl in the club was grabbing me, trying to get my attention, etc. Because Roxanne said she was with a guy I was disappointed and thought I'd give this other girl a whirl. She kept grabbing my ass and...you know the response. Then Roxanne and her friends left the dance floor and this new girl lost interest for some reason, probably no more competition. Since it was a very small club, I was doomed!!!!!!!!!!! Does anyone know what could have kept me alive? Although it was a successful night, and Roxanne looked for me to give me her number before she left, I felt like I missed something. And I wanted to take a girl home that night. Normally I'd just keep going around the club but a naval uniform really stands out in a club around 1000 square feet.

first of all lets talk about roxanne:
A: she probably does have a boyfriend, she likes you, and wanted to be honest about it.
B: she doesn't have a boyfriend and she was giving you a Sh1t Test to test your frame/your reaction.
it doesn't really matter if she does have a boyfriend or not you should kept your cool and and continue gaming her (words can be deceiving). something like this could work.

her: "i have a boyfriend blah blah blah".
you: really...? "i have a gold fish name nemo you should meet him he does an awesome back flip when you tickle his belly. (then smile at her)(continue gaming)
or
her: "i have a boyfriend".
you: "don't worry i'm not gonna take him away from you, i'm not into men"(then smile,wink)(continue gaming)

it's also true that girls will compete for your attention and they did and will always do.

and lastly

(Then Roxanne and her friends left the dance floor and this new girl lost interest for some reason)

this other girl probably liked you also and you might have done something to her she didn't like and got her loose interest.
at the beginning while gaming her you should mirror her body language.(something like this could have happened) lets say she smiled at you while conversing (smile back) if she lean in do the same. and lets also say for some reason you lean in and try to go for a kiss and she moves away, you should lean back also smile and continue gaming her like nothing happened. because if you push yourself to her too soon without getting her comfortable around you and interacting with you first. girls will get turned off and loose interest and your night will be doomed. (i experienced all of these situations and learned from them)

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