Actually I wanted the headlights to stay up when I went to just parking lights to avoid the wear on the motors. I figured out today that if you the very top of the headlight part of the switch that you can pull it out, turning off the headlights and keeping the parking lights on. It's not easy but can be done. I'm thinking of gluing on a very small piece of plastic to give me something to grip when I do this to make it easier.

Anyway, thanks for that link. There is some great info in that post and actually something I might be able to use. My passenger side headlight is only going down about 10% of the time. I have to assist it the rest of the time.