Trust him.
Somehow a man instinctively knows if you believe in him–or not. For instance,
how you respond to his decision-making speaks powerfully to him. Is your first
response to question him? Challenge him? Or do you save that “coupon”
carefully? He needs you to trust him and his final decisions.Admire him. He’d
like to know that you are his biggest fan – hands down! No one should admire
him more than you do. My personal goal? I never want anyone who works with my
man to think more highly of him than I do. I want him both to see it in my eyes
and to hear it from my mouth.Be loyal to him.
Fiercely loyal. You’ve got his back and he knows it. Your children should know
it too. In fact, there should be no doubt in anyone’s mind where your loyalty
lies. No one would dare say anything disparaging about your man in front of you
because that is simply not done.Honor him. Both
in private and in public. So that he doesn’t have to concerned about what you
might say to him or how you’ll represent him in front of others. You
never want to demean him or bring him down a notch. Quite the opposite. He can
even be confident that you’ll respect his wishes when he’s not around—your
regard for him goes that deep.