PLEASE DO NOT MESSAGE ME UNLESS YOU ARE LOOKING FOR A LONG-TERM
RELATIONSHIP AND ARE SINCERE ABOUT IT. DON'T WASTE MY TIME.

PRECURSOR TO BELOW: Ok ok so I have reread my "Self-summary" below
several times and I've noticed that I come across as sort of
arrogant or cocky. I must clarify that this is so NOT the case. I
think it's a combination of trying to "summarize" yourself in few
words and also the way the questions are designed. So, this is my
lil' precursor or sort of "Caution: We're Hot!" to convey that I
really am not arrogant in any way. Just fun loving and spontaneous
;-). Ok, read on...

I am easy-going, spontaneous, mature, and passionate, and I want to
meet a mature man who possesses the same qualities. People always
tell me that "there's an ocean [of men] out there" yet I have never
seemed to be quite fortunate enough when it comes to love and
relationships, ie meeting the right guy, the decent guy who is
commitment-minded and family-oriented. But, I am convinced that all
it takes is one, THE ONE, quality guy and if he is you, well, I am
waiting for you, patiently but awakeningly. I'm not really
interested in meeting guys at bars and clubs...I am looking for a
real connection and friendship that could develop into something
more.

Like most people, I have my hesitations about online dating but, I
figure, what is there to lose? Hopefully, if anything, I will meet
new people and branch out of my current social circles, something
that is always fun. I like going to the beach (more in LA and SD as
we don't have real beaches up here), shopping, wine tasting,
watching movies on nights in, mixed with going out to fancy dinners
and lounges, most recently, wine bars, and hanging out and having
solid discussions with my close friends and family. I also am
deeply passionate about writing and helping others (I mean it
despite how trite it sounds). I've also always been a creative type
that thrives by thinking outside the box and am currently working
on starting my own company :-).

I am looking for a decent, wholehearted, genuine man who is ready
to meet someone who is genuine, mature, wise, hot, and super sexy
;-).

Oh, what a question! Can we talk about this in person, puh-lease?
Thanks. :-)

In short, I've definitely been living my life to the fullest
extent. Unlike engineering majors or pre-meds (forgive me, guys!)
who know exactly what they want and then follow a direct path to
get there, albeit with hurdles and obstacles here and now, I fit
the humanities stereotype somewhat because my life (and
experiences) until now have been sort of a windy path; I've tried
everything from masters programs in public policy to medicine to
public health and have finally settled on a career choice that I
believe suits me to a tee (and yes, I like clothes so I
intentionally chose to spell "T" with a "tee" ;-p)

working out and maintaining my physique, OH YEAH! I am a huge
fitness fanatic and inspire those around me to bust a muscle and
break a sweat! The endorphin rush you get after -- there is no
feeling in the world that can compare ;-).

listening to you talk about your bad day, but please don't be a
downer. My view is that everyone is stressed enough and has enough
shit going on in their own life, so what's the point of being a
downer? Just be happy and put on a nice smile, even if you don't
feel like it. It will do you more good than harm. Trust me.

Concocting delicious outfits for every occasion and then wearing
them to a tee :-p

I love Toni Morrison's Beloved, Leo Tolstoy's Anna Karenina. I like
The Step Mom and The Family Stone, and It's Complicated. Do you
notice a trend? I like movies about family, that have a good story
and great sense of humor. Oh, I LOVE food! I like just about
everything from Italian pasta to Thai and I LOVE sushi :-). Oh my
goodness, I have to add that my two favorite appetizers are fried
calamari (I prefer the creamy tartar sauce to marinara) and
guacomole with nice, warm, crispy tortilla chips! OMG, if you give
me those two things, I'm in heaven :-).