Let it OUT and Feel good about it

I’m a 21 year old girl, never been in a relationship. I’ve had plenty of chances to date, but I haven’t felt the connection with the guys that I have with the men I read about in fiction. Now I’ve left it too long waiting for a guy I actually can connect to, that I’ve made it a thing. I wish It was easier to meet a guy, not on social media, but in a coffee shop. I just want to meet a guy in person, not swipe right :(. I believe social media has killed romance.