Tag: The Only Child

I went to an employment agency today, Trandon Associates. I’ve been to this place like two times in my career of looking for employment. The place is total bullshit, at least, that is, for African Americans. Here is their routine. They have you fill out this little card with your name and employment history and post your resume behind it. They call you back to a little room where they mark down your qualifications. Now both times as I remember it; once five years ago when I was first trying to move to New York, and again today, they noted that I didn’t have charge back experience. So I’m figuring that must be the excuse they give to the black applicants they mistakenly call because they have regular American names. The lady says she had a position which requires charge back experience so they are probably not going to be interested in my resume, but they will contact me later if another position should happen to come up. Of course, I already know that I will never hear from Trandon Associates again. This also seems to be the case with the all the employment agencies in New York.

In my three experiences of looking
for employment in New York City, visiting many agencies, only one has
gotten me a position, and guess what the catch was to that agency: it was
a British agency, all the people had British accents, had just moved from
Britain to start this business in New York, and my guess is that oversees,
they aren’t as racist and prejudice as the white Americans from the United
States. I’ve gotten many calls from agencies, which all somehow, never got
me any work after I went into their office, or they didn’t let me come
into their office in the first place.

Like this lady called me two days ago from Access employment agency. She says that she got my resume which interested her, and then she asked what salary I was looking for. I says $45,000.00 and she says the only position that she has available is for 40,000.00, but she still would like me to come in for a meeting. Now me, knowing these agencies, I said to my girlfriend, “this is another bullshit call from an agency” and I tell her the situation. My girlfriend tells me to call her back and say that I would not like to come in until she has something more suitable to my salary range and qualifications. She wanted me to call right away so that the lady would respect me more, but I said I would call her the morning of the meeting and tell her. My philosophy is that she does not respect me anyway. She does not intend to get me a job anyway. My girlfriend says “you’re the one who is looking for a job, not her.” So I says “and she is not going to give me a job in the first place so it doesn’t matter.” I called the lady today around 4:00 P.M. and tell her what my girlfriend suggested. The lady called me back an hour later and said that she would call me when she gets a position in front of her that fits my salary.

Another situation happened about
two weeks ago. A lady called and e-mailed me from Gothem Search Group and asked me to give her a call concerning
my resume. I called her back but did not leave a message because I know that
once she hears my Black voice that she is not going to call me back as has
happened before. I went out of town, and when I returned I had receive
another e-mail as well as a voice mail message for me to call her. So I
called her and explained that I had been out of town but I was back
now and we could set up a meeting. At the sound of my black voice, she
says, “I’m sorry, but we have many Michael’s on file, why are you calling,
in reference to what, could you please send me your resume as a word
document and call back.” I says, “I already sent you my resume as a word
document
when you e-mailed me the first time.”She asked
me to send it again. I laughed and said, “O.K.” and hung up and sent her a
message about her obvious discrimination. How are you going to e-mail me and
call me twice and then when I call you back, you don’t know who I
am? This is the type well-hidden discrimination that I faced within
my year of looking for employment in a tight economy.

I’m seeing that 40 years later from
the 60s and civil rights action, integration of schools, etc. that today in
2004, it’s the same shit. No one wants to see black people prosper or give
us a chance. The economy is down and black people are the last people who
are going to be employed and helped out. And even when the economy is
good, we still get the same treatment. If these companies aren’t made to
hire us due to affirmative action programs, they do not hire us,
especially not in New York City. So I’m figuring that New York is not the
place for me, but it’s the place that I want to be. No one, not even black
people are trying to help achieve your goals and dreams. Everyone is
selfish and dreaming to get theirs first before they even think about
helping you get yours. I have been interviewing for a year now, and
only a few interviews at that. I’ve gotten like
five interviews and only one resulted in an offer for $34,000 which would grow
to $37,000 with incentives.

I just am not making it here. I’m living off of my girlfriend who likes to spend all of her money on her daughter, jeans, and expensive boots for winter. She’s covering me as far as a place to stay and food, but not leisure money. She claims that she is by my side, but I don’t think so, especially since I’m not working and my unemployment has run out and I have to ask her for any money that I need. I’ve tried going and handing out resumes for a part time position somewhere, but that is not working either. I would like to work in a Hip Hop clothing store or one of those high prices foreign wear stores downtown like the Atrium or The Lounge, but they don’t seem to want to give a brother a chance either. I applied at Eckerd drugstore the other day and they seemed to brush me off with a “we are not hiring right now.” I still applied and gave them my resume. You’d think that a little company would love have a college degree accountant working part time for their store, but knawl, it doesn’t seem to be the case in New York City.

I was thinking of trying to get some work as a security guard during the day. Right now I’m thinking of all the options I can to get some income in my pocket. If don’t find a job making $40,000 or more, I’m not going to be a happy man, as I already am not happy living here off of Watrina and her having the power over me knowing she can just kick me to the curb anytime and I’m out on my ass or back to Ohio, which I really don’t want to go back there. She has told me to get out a couple of times because I ain’t going to be no bitch ass walking around here treading water. Like I showed her when the New Year hit and we had an argument, If worse comes to worse, I’ll just move my ass to Atlanta and stay. And the next time I am forced to go there, I will stay there.

So I’m just now starting to study to take the GMAT exam to get into graduate school. One thing about graduate school is that I don’t want to get into debt and have to pay it back when I start working again, starting out in debt, leaving me where I once was. I was full of debt with rent, my car payment and utilities and I had no money left to live. I don’t want to go back to that shit. I have a few good looking pictures that Watrina took of me three years ago. I’m going to take them to a few modeling agencies and see what they say about representing me. I kind of feel that I don’t really have model looks, just a handsome look for a man my age. I feel like I have a deep smile wrinkle line on each side of my face and my cheeks are starting to droop a little. You know, just getting old, not that old, but seeing and feeling the effects of — years on this earth.

I wrote a documentary about Puffy’s revolution of Hip Hop that I have sent off to be copyrighted. I want to incorporate my production company named for my mother, my grandfather (R.I.P), and grandmother (on her death bed as I write this) “Leann, Michael & Ella” Productions respectively. And for those dumb fucks who don’t know what “respectively” means, it means that the name of the production company matches the order of the relatives I mentioned before it. I want to incorporate the production company for the documentary to be under and also for my music production company to be official to receive checks and write expenses off against, etc.

I have scanned “The Only Child”
Logo into the computer and designed a CD cover with it. I have dreams
that I could use that Logo as a strong marketing tool. To me it seems
noticeable, memorable, and marketable. I see it printed on T-Shirts. There
could be different versions of the T-Shirt, each one with the Logo printed
in a different place; just simple T-Shirts with the Logo in different
places each time. They could become collector’s items. And the name “The
Only Child” also seems powerful to me and memorable: simple and unforgettable.
If I had the money, I would start the whole campaign. I would go ahead and
record my album.

I got skills in rapping I feel I really do. But at the same time, I do feel that my rhymes do have a little old school flavor to them like my friend J Johnson and my girlfriend Watrina used to always say when I first started writing raps again like two years ago. But this nigga Kanye West is inspiring me. If he can have a whole album out and it sells 400,000 in the first week, I can release an album and at least create a name for myself in this music industry. But I don’t have money so I don’t know what I am going to do about putting out my album and starting a record label. I feel that I have the knowledge and know of these streets to run a label. I know all the flaws of the current labels that are out right now and are failing to make hits and losing their distribution deals.

I have an idea to put together a business plan and take to a label like Def Jam to have them sponsor me and once I create enough buzz for my name, I will sign with them. The good catch to that is that they don’t even have to give me money, they can pay for my beats and have artist use them on their albums. I don’t think anyone has ever done that; propositioned a label to sponsor their pre-career so that in turn they could sign with that label. And since I’m about to be out of professional accounting work for a year and will have to take some shitty job that I don’t want, I will definitely be motivated to put some of these ideas into motion.

I’ve been trying to get my album recorded for the past six months but the guy whose studio I go to is jerking me. I’ve only recorded three songs in six months and that is no good. I need to move faster than that, I can move faster that but he is slowing down my progress. I don’t have the money to go to any other studio.

MONEY, I so tired of that fucking word. NO MONEY I DON’T HAVE ENOUGH MONEY. If I had this MONEY I would do this; if I had that MONEY I would do that. FUCK ! No money, no job. This shit is ridiculous. I think I would rather be dead. That is one reason why I didn’t want to have any children, putting them in this world to go through all this bullshit without a single advantage in the world. If my life continues like it is, I won’t be able to help my daughter with shit just like my parents didn’t help me with shit: no house, no car, no money, no business knowledge or any other knowledge. Having kids is some selfish shit on the part of women just to make them happy. With my life right now, I’d rather not been born. This life is bullshit!