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I originally wanted to do a post about how, when we’re dating, we keep making the same mistakes that keep us single.Then I realized that these mistakes usually don’t go away.We continue doing the same old sh*t time and time again, until we find someone who can tolerate it.

Dating relationship marriage

I don’t think we really ever stop doing those things that our friends say are the reason we’re “still single.” I think those habits just translate themselves into marriage, taking on a slightly new form. He hates that you light candles that smell like cupcakes.

But as we move from dating to relationship to engagement to marriage, I think holding onto these habits continues to hurt us. Why it’s not a good idea – This manifests itself from feelings of mistrust and an inclination to assume the worst. But it annoys you and you need to say something lest your mind explode in frustration. You’re annoyed that he eats unhealthy food and only wants pizza or burgers for dinner. Oh yeah, he had that bad habit of leaving water bottles all over his house and car. Also, why are Sarah and Sam living together already, and Kevin and I have been dating, like, 3 months longer? Oh gosh, they’re getting married and they’ve only known each other a year? – See “Dating.” Also: Sally’s husband is so much more helpful around the house.

That is, until our spouse sits down with us and says, “This is really bothering me, and it’s not working for me in our marriage.” Then we might realize, “Hey, I’ve been doing this since I was eighteen. In writing this, please note that I have probably done all of these things. Below, the things a lot of us keep doing wrong: – You play that text message game, waiting for him/her to respond to you in just enough time that you don’t freak out, but not so soon they seem desperate. We want to feel wanted, loved, and appreciated, and when we don’t get exactly what we want, we think maybe the person we care about doesn’t want to provide it anymore. She leaves her stuff at your place and there’s really no room. Why it’s not a good idea – It’s one thing to say, “Listen, I know you aren’t super organized, but could you just pick up a little bit when I come over? Jamie’s wife has such a great career, and my wife just stays home and doesn’t seem to care about having a job.

Maybe it’s why Hot Guy #1 stopped calling.” Or we might say, “Hey, I’ve been doing this since I was 25. You sit by your phone, actually being desperate, because you want confirmation that they are still into you and really like you. Sometimes, relationships or marriages may seem too good to be true. ” It’s another to nitpick and say, “This is disgusting. Also, how come Sally and Tony are buying a house and we haven’t gotten one yet? Why it’s not a good idea – Do I really need to get started on this?

Maybe it’s why Okay-Looking Girl with a Great Personality didn’t want to commit.” The point is, we keep doing it until someone calls us on it. – Usually a continuation of the text message game, with a little less stress. But sometimes, they really just are great, and there’s nothing more to a late night than a workout with some friends. You’re so messy, I’m not coming to your place.” Instead of criticizing the little things, why not be gentler about it? Every relationship, even a dating one, is a special snowflake. Comparison leads to jealousy, which is a hideous thing.

But when you try to make plans and don’t hear back, you worry that suddenly they’ve lost interest. No one wants to feel judged, and if it’s something small like being messy in his own apartment or leaving his socks on the floor all the time, help him fix the problem. And realize there’s usually a compromise that can be reached if you approach the issue nicely. Also, you don’t know the full story behind someone else’s life. But drinking, at least when dating, can lead to bad decisions that you really regret. In relationships, it just makes it harder to get to know someone when you go out and drink instead of talking about things that matter to you.

On dates, you expect compliments on the regular, from “You look beautiful tonight” to “You were great in that soccer game.” – It’s been years of wearing elegant dresses and putting on makeup. We expect it when we can’t provide it for ourselves, and rely too much on outside affirmations. If you’re dating and already picking someone’s little quirks apart, maybe you don’t really like them. Maybe they’re getting married because they are more financially ready for the commitment. Forget about that other guy you could have gone out with. Why it’s not good – Especially when we’re young, going out is fun. I mean, how much meaningful conversation can you really have when you’re plastered? At this stage of your life, dates may be rare to begin with.

You don’t do it as much, but when you do, you expect him to notice. He wants you to be proud of him for dressing up for dinner, but you think he needs to do it more anyway. If you feel pretty, that’s really all that matters. If you don’t, you’ll never see the great things someone new has to offer. When you have them, it’s about creating new memories and shared experiences.

Why it’s not a good idea: Yes, we all want and deserve praise, positive reinforcement, and confirmation from our S. If he doesn’t say it this time, it doesn’t mean he’s not thinking it. O., or that guy who isn’t texting you, a little credit. It’s just about not thinking to say anything (especially when it comes to dudes).

– He or she didn’t make plans with you on Saturday night and you wonder what they’re doing instead of hanging out with you.

You stalk their Facebook and Twitter, maybe even their friends’ social media, to see if he/she is hanging out with someone else. You call several times in a row to no avail, then you text and even email.