How To Pick Up Foreign Women

Dress well. Even if you're backpacking, always have one versatile, all-purpose styling outfit that works for you.

Go to the local bars and avoid tourist traps. It has happened to me a number of times where, as the only foreigner in a bar, I was a novelty and soon became the center of attention. An outgoing personality and sense of humor (in this case, often more physical than verbal) can leave you with your pick of the litter.

Use American dollars. Bear in mind that your American cash is also appealing in many parts of the world, but that in certain instances could be more of a liability than an asset. Not to sound like a father with obvious advice, but still, don't get taken.

If all else fails, tourist traps may be your best bet, considering other foreign chicks, perhaps neither from your own country or your current location, will be looking to hook up as well. Then, the same principles apply as with the locals.

She's the tourist Without any time to prepare, you may or may not have some interesting facts about, say, Martinique when a Caribbean goddess walks into one of your favorite hotspots. But you can still demonstrate an interest.

Talk about a woman's favorite topic. Any player knows how to balance the right amount of interest in a woman: ask questions about her, where she's from, and if she's enjoying her vacation/stay. Don't ask too many follow-up questions, especially of the "how does that make you feel?" variety, or you'll quickly find yourself heading for the friendship dip. Remember; traveling is an adventure: make her trip that way.

Flirt with her and mention how you like her cinnamon tan (given that she has one), and play into her ego by highlighting her positive traits. No matter where they're from, women love to be complimented.

Dance with her. If you pick her up in a bar, it's a good opportunity to get on the dance floor and see if she has rhythm. On the flip side, show her how you shake your moneymaker. Steer clear of any Dirty Dancing moves, unless she initiates them.

Keep your eyes and ears open. Always remember one thing that women around the planet have in common: they like guys who are observant. Pay attention to what she says, what her body language reveals about her (it's universal) and feed her need to let loose.

final word

Keep in mind that, with a foreign babe, you can step up your sexual antics and get kinkier than usual because she's not worried about her reputation as much as she would be at home. Also, chances are she won't be looking for a long-term thing, so you can tap and go easily.

However, all players know that sex with anyone ain't worth dying for, so always use protection.