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If it helps at all, you might want to look at this entry on やい. Just from the line given, it almost sounds like someone is telling someone else: "if you can't eat (this), you could have just said so (in the first place)". But... is there any way there could be more context given for this phrase? And, welcome to the forum ^^
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summeaMay 28 '13 at 5:54