Ten Habits That Are Helpful in Keeping Marriages Strong

Don’t Try To Change Each OtherHappy couples know their partner’s differences, and have somewhat stopped trying to change the other person. Instead of trying to fight your partner’s personality style, focus on each other’s strengths.

Frame Your Demands as FavorsYour partner will be more likely to change their behavior if they feel they will get relationship brownie points. Present it like ‘here is what I need to make me happy.’

Vocalize Your AppreciationGive your partner positive reinforcement at least three times a day, being specific.

Focus On the PositiveIf you look at what your partner is doing that’s right, it’s easier to find what you’re looking for. It’s a choice to flip your mindset.

Take Trips Down Memory LaneReliving memories verbally to your partner changes your mindset, and how you view them and think about your relationship. Focus on the happy times.

Never Side With the EnemySupport your partner when they need to vent. Don’t try to fix the problem, but instead be a listening ear. Never take the side of the person they are venting about.

Don’t Get Too ComfortableRelationships can be fragile. Happy couples continue to date, complement each other, and have fun together.

Have Rituals of ConnectionHappy couples seem to do a lot of mundane things together. They have their own little habits they decide to do together.

Know Your Partner’s Calls for AttentionUnderstand those little verbal hints your partner makes for attention, and respond to their need to connect. Do something special to show your care.

Keep Doing the Little ThingsWhat matters are all the small things that add up, such as noticing when your partner needs a hug, or making their favorite meal for no special reason.

~ Remember, marriage is about trust, commitment, and knowing each other.

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