❤️ 3 Clues to Know When You Find The Right Man God Has For You ❤️

Hey, what’s up everybody? This is Stephan Labossiere aka Stephan Speaks. Here with another video. Today we’re going to be talking about three clues for you to know you’ve met the man God has for you. Now, there’s so much I can explain, there’s so much information I can give you, but I’m going to try to give you three strong clues. that let you know you’re moving in the right direction. Also, be sure to watch to the very end end of this video because I have a very special announcement. That I want you to hear, that you’re going to be very happy you heard about. With that said let’s jump into it. Actually, actually, one second before we jump into this let me say this. Trying to evaluate who the man is that God has for you can become very frustrating, and very difficult. The reality is that there are plenty of people who claim they thought this man was sent from God and it ended up being a situation where he was pretty much sent from hell. I mean, let’s just be real. It did not work out and ended up causing more damage than good and it’s created a situation where many of you can’t even trust your own judgment. The reality is that, I don’t really need you to lean on your judgment, I need you to lean on God’s understanding. However, these clues I’m going to give you will help. They will help in at least starting to recognize if something potential is there. This could be that guy if you’re possibly moving on the right path, but of course, you have to always include God in the process. Without wasting more time let’s get right to it. Three clues on how to know you’ve met the man God has for you. Clue number one. You will be able to talk to him. Now, I know we’re kind of jumping steps because for you to even know you’re able to talk to him you’ve got to find interest, you’ve got to have a desire there, and I’m going to get to that. I want to start with this because it’s so important. I can’t even begin to explain to you how many women are in relationships with men they can’t even talk to. Not just relationships even marriages. With a guy that they can’t have a good healthy conversation with. Not just conversations to talk about the deep issues and how you feel, but even just life, and interesting things that you guys are interested in, and whatever is going on in the world around you. This is extremely important because listen, God is not trying to set you up with some man that you can’t have good conversation with. That doesn’t mean he’s going to be the best speaker and all that kind of stuff, but you two should be able to talk, and especially when it comes to; when there’s issues, when something is going on in the world that needs to be addressed by you two. That should be in place for relationship to thrive, and without it the relationship will fail without a doubt. Being able to have conversation is extremely important, and it is definitely a clue that you’re moving in the right direction. Because when you sit down and you speak to individuals, who have met that man God has for them, so women who have met that man, they will all tell you how they could speak for hours on the phone with this man. How they enjoy speaking to this man, how he’s able to open up to them more. Again, there might be things they had to work through initially, but conversation was strong from the jump, so being able to talk to him definitely one of the clues. Clue number two. You’re attracted to him. Now, that may sound like of course. Of course, I have be attracted to him if I’m going to be interested in him. I hear you. However, so many women try to entertain men they’re not attracted to. Try to make themselves believe that well, maybe God wants me to give this guy a chance. He’s a nice guy, he has a good job, blah blah blah, but ultimately, she’s not truly into that man the way that she needs to be for that relationship to be amazing and successful. God does not want you to be in a situation where you’re lacking a desire, you’re lacking a need that’s going to only help fulfill or help create that great relationship, and attraction is important. Now, understand attraction, looks, two different things. I’m not telling you to be stuck on, he has to be this height or stuck on he has to have this much muscles or whatever the case may be. What I am saying is you have to be attracted to him. As a woman you can find out attraction in various ways. It may be his personality that makes him so irresistible to you. It may be his ambition and his success that has allowed him to walk in a confidence that draws you to him. Whatever it is as long as there’s an attraction, okay, we’re moving in the right direction, but when there is not an attraction. When you’re trying to force the issue abort mission. You’re in the wrong place. That’s a setup for disaster every single time. Tip number three or clue number three. That you are or you have found the man God has for you is that you guys share the same values. Now, again, this is extremely important. I’m sure many of you have heard the term equally yoked. Though it’s really referencing spiritually it really is for everything. Now, it doesn’t mean we’re going to agree on everything but our values – our core values – need to be in alignment with each other. Those values need to also be in alignment with God because again, if you want God’s best, if you want the man, God has for you. Then that man has to be someone who’s in alignment with God. That doesn’t mean he’s perfect – the same way you’re not perfect – but he’s someone who has a relationship, he is someone who is moving in a better direction in his life. He is tapping into his growth and his understanding of who he needs to be or the man that God has created him to be. The same way you’re tapping into becoming becoming the woman God created you to be. When you guys share the same values and want the same things. This is a sign that, okay, we have something here. This could be the guy. Again, I never want you to look at this clue or any of the other clues as a 100% stamp of approval that this is the man God has for you. They are great signs that we’re moving in the right direction, and this very well could be the guy. Those are three clues. Let’s go through them again; being able to talk to each other, being attracted to him, and sharing the same values. As I told you earlier, all of this has to be done with also including God in the process, and there’s so much more for me to explain to you and break it down to you. 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My guy isn’t so big on communication but I love that from time to time he tries. I discover new things about him every time. He owns up to his faults when I complain about something he did to hurt me & I love how he’s quick to say sorry and I know I was wrong, I apologize 🙆‍♀️. I’ve been with men who won’t own up when I confronted them about issues

When you say how to manifest the man God has for you do you mean God manifesting it if it’s God’s will for me? We don’t have the power to manifest anything without God first. I was just wondering if I misunderstood ?

I have forced attraction before but through self reflection and honesty I just put that down or whoever it was and dude that same attraction stuff is real bruh. That’s been a big obstacle for me because it’s so much deception out there and ppl believe and live in some crazy ways nowadays. And I’m NO WHERE near perfect but God has restored a lot of morality and consciousness to me from His Word and Spirit

Tip 2 was a great reminder. 🙈The majority of guys that I've 'entertained' in the past I was not ATTRACTED to them at all. At the time It was more about having the attention than really figuring out whether I really like this person or not. I was lying to myself really. But yes great tips! 😍

I had to stop midpoint on on point number two to comment! My mother and I were talking and she asked me “so why don’t you like this guy” I said “eh! Because I’m not attracted to him” she said “well you weren’t attracted to Alex… like that before” and I realized she was telling the truth! Once we got closer and I saw his ambition, his care for people and his family, his strong work ethic , his patience etc etc I am now EXTREMELY attracted to him !! (Now in the looks department he is cute) but I am definitely attracted to those qualities above PLUS some! So GREAT point that many people look over because we equate attractiveness to looks! I know PLENTY of guys that are super nice looking and I am not attracted to them! Boom! That’s how you know they at times have no correlation… ok! Going back to watch the video lol

Facts!! Thank you for elaborating on the attraction part. Equally as important as the other two. When God's in involved, there is an undeniable peace and natural flow to things. Nothing and I mean nothing in a relationship put together by God will feel forced.

🔴🔴🔴🔴🔷🔷🔷🔴🔴🔴🔴💎 comparison , in the case of woman : between 🔸1🔸⤵🏫 Western civilization, and 🕋 Islamic civilization .

This is the case for many girls in the West and Europe :

1- Her mother is very happy with her but no one knows her father .

2- She goes to Kindergarten and doesn't know who is her father .

3- She goes to Primary school and doesn't know who is her father .

4- She goes to Middle school and doesn't know who is her father .

5- She begins teenage and Secondary phase and doesn't know who is her father .

" During this stage , her mother moves from one man to another to try to get a husband before the end of life ."

6- When she reaches to the age of 18 , she Choose one of the two options : The first : Continue to live with her mother and pays housing rent ;

Or she is come out of mother's house .

7- Often she leaves mother's house because she is university student and want to live with her current boyfriend .

8- She is forced to work in any field of ​​work , in order to get money to pay for housing and university expenses . If she continued in her illegal relationship with her boyfriend.

9- The girl is harassed daily , and she has only two options : either to become a perverted girl, or continue to move from one accommodation to another and friend to another !!!

10- Some Western companies are exploiting a lot of girls to make porn movies !!!

11- Many girls are raped and possibly killed in the street !!!

12- – When she grows older , her children leave her , and she remains alone to take care of herself , or that her children put her in the homes of the elderly !!!

⚘⚘⚘⚘⚘⚘⚘⚘⚘⚘⚘Stages of life of the Muslim girl .

1- When she is born ; her father , mother , grandfather and grandmother …. etc : they will be very happy .

2- She enter all stages of the study by living with her familly (father , mother , sisters , brothers , grandparents .. )

3- She studies and finishes her studies and stays at her parents' home ( Iives with father and mother in the best conditions ).

4- When a fiance comes to her , her father asks for everything about this man , especially the religion and morality of this man ( Is he a good Muslim ? Is he committed to Islam correctly , because the good Muslim will implement God's command and obey God , then this Muslim will be a good husband , He will give the wife her rights , he will love her and respect her and save her . It will not oppress her .

5- She is married and she going to has children ,

6- She repeats the happiness with her daughter and repets the same stages of her age .

7- When she is up for age for aging ; her sons will compete in her service and care .

8- in all stages of her life she doesn't need to be working or earn money to spend on herself -" Only for the necessity , Just in a field of work save her human dignity , rights respect, modesty and her chastity -" Because her father , husband and sons , spend on her , . brothers also spend on her if she need .)

🔇 Afterthat , the boobs come to us and proclaim " women's rights "What are the rights of women in their views ⁉ They say ; that she is a closed woman and a backward woman, not civilized because she conceals her body and face and keeps herself , and keeps her society from sedition (the woman when her body appears to people , it is causing strife to society ).

🔊. O people , wake up from your stupidity and the hoax of freedom that they promote to deceive you and exploit you, and exploit your wives, sisters and daughters .

Following 👇🏻👇🏻👇🏻👇🏻⤵🔸2🔸⤵

🚫 In Western civilization , they actually consider women a means to their desires and Personal interests at the expense of the dignity of women . They consider her as a commodity .🔺 But Islam has honored women and preserved her rights and her status in society .

Do you have jealousy towards your women , ?? !! Do you have a fear of insulting their dignity . Do you accept that someone is exploiting them?

Did you know that the status of women is very expensive in Islam ?!

✊. the full masculinity is in good morals , avoid doing what God has forbidden, and keep men and women ( mother , wife , sister , daughter , grandmother …..) and take responsibility toward God then towards them .

🌹. The full femininity of women in chastity and modesty , dress covering the body and , away from the eyes of men , keep the husband and family ,. and she do what Allah commanded.

Muslim women , such as the Queen , and as a precious jewel , are the most feminine among women in the world , and are more obedient to her husband and retain him and her devotion to him .

To learn more about the status of women in Islam, you can visit the links

Praise be to Allaah for the blessing of Islam and it is enough for us .(Islam is the greatest gift from God for all the people … but many of them don't know it . !!In Islam: You will win this life , your life in the isthmus (in the tomb after the death), and finally the eternal life in Paradise)

GREAT video!! These are most things I go by as well….if I can't talk to someone and they don't have the same passion for people and life and showing God's love, it's a hard no and I won't pursue it. The older I get the more I realize what I need in a spouse, and how I need to be the wife that reflects the type of husband I would want. great video

Okay, I have a question. What if all 3 clues are there and you are truly believing that this man is your husband, but unbeknownst to you he has already been confirmed and established as someone else husband? I'm asking because I was about to share this video with someone I know who is in this situation, but if I send her this it will only give her grounds to continue believing that this man is her husband.

I really need to talk to you about some things I want to do and the things you did say about a relationship God showed me already but the things I want to be able to talk to without charging money so if you want to talk to me this is business and it's also knowledge for both of us get back with me ok

I was with a guy 8yrs. n when i tried to talk it would turn into a fight. So i would shut down. He would yell at me.. I tried what i could. I think i felt bad for him so i kept him around. It ended bad. I became afraid of him. He spit at me n on the floor n told me to clean it up. Verbally abusive.

Even if God sent you this man, that doesn't mean he is perfect, He maybe be perfect for you, but you aren't perfect either. That mean you still have to work at it, you always have to work at being on one Accord, but if God sent him to you, that should be factors that help with, like being able to communicate, being evenly yoked as far as being similar in what your ideas are.

God sent me to the one he has for me and I'm messing it up. And still I can't seem to mess it up cause he still here for me and won't let me go when I want to give up because our situation is complicated. I say I'm messing up because I was impatient and seeking attention, i have been single and celibate for 13 years. It's was till last year after I found my boo, that the kind of guys I would want to be with started paying me attention. Because me and my guy are so far away, never been intimate, he is very young, I got impatient and starting getting attention from guys my own age, the kind of attention I never got before, the kind of attention I wasn't getting so I'm became insecure but I never could settle, I don't care how alone, 13 years of being alone, I always had faith, shaky but I had it. So long story short, I found that beautiful attention in some one who feels he needs me in his life, someone who is awesome I every way. but I have actually committed my self to another, he knows this but we are so compatible , I won't go see him tho, but I would be wrong. He said we are best friends but I'm sad for him because I want him to have the woman in he needs in his life, it just can't be me, even tho sometimes I want to go to him. If I did go to him I would feel I'm going against God. IAM having a guilty pleasure indulging in his friendship knowing he wants more. I just pray for him a mate and a way of escape for me without hurting him or me. I want to be genuinely happy for him without longing for him. My selfishness got me in this trouble in the first place and the people I discuss this with can't understand you can't just follow your lust and infatuation and hurt people feeling just because that person isn't in front of you. What's wrong with people , I see why your services is needed cause people got the game screwed up thinking it is a selfish game.

Thank you for validating the Attraction part. I feel like people always tell you to give someone a change after you've tried and its just not there and tell you love can grow. Yes it can grow but there has to and should be attraction both inside and out there. Just bc someone is good doesn't mean they are for you if you aren't attracted to the person. it is still settling and you won't truly be happy.

I’m so glad you talked about attraction!! I’ve never been a shallow person, I’ll always give someone a chance. I’ve found myself in positions of trying to force it, thinking it will come later, knowing deep down I’m not attracted in anyway.

I love this topic.. I’m alone with God and waiting on God until it’s my time ..😇🙏🏽😇sometimes men / woman rush into a situation because they are afraid to be alone and forced into staying in a toxic relationship and becoming unhappy..God is telling you to wait on him ,continue to stay on your spiritual journey while he’s preparing the right partner for you .. God knows best for you ..Amen 😇🙏🏽🙏🏽❤️❤️❤️❤️

i sooo love the 3rd clue😍😍….exactly what i needed…as I speak..God diviningly protected me from a horror i almost got myself into😂…He made it clear to me using this aspect of values..expecially those that go with God's will

I met a man and we are moving in that direction we just met we talk for hours on the phone i can talk to him about anything, we share the same moral we are attracted to each other it's very refreshing to call him and we talk about everything and i dont have to explain myself and theres no talk about sex.

Been with the father of my son for 6yrs now. I knew about 3yrs ago he wasnt the one I was suppose to be with. My spirit just isn't connected with him. He hasnt done me wrong in no way like cheating etc. Stayed with him anyways now I'm not happy and want to leave. But he doesnt understand why I want to leave him. I'm a God fearing woman and he isnt into all that. So we just view things differently. He doesn't posses any of the three things above. So its time to let go. But he cries so much because he doesn't understand and ask what is he doing wrong. I don't know what to do with him. :-/

I dated a guy for 8 months. God then convicted me to give my life to him, so that ended our physical relationship. My boyfriend made adjustments in our relationship as if he was on board with everything, then broke up with me. He really didn't love me like he said he did.

There are too many what if!. They can't do that! They do this! YouWill drive yourself crazy withThose thoughts!. WomenIn past decades were happyWith the man they met!.There was no second guessing And jumping to conclusions aboutEvery little detail about a person!.A woman was satisfied withA can of beans and a chicken!.

All stephen is saying is that these are the values of a true relationship with a king. We know men can be deceitful by using these values to trick women but those type of men always tend to show red flags in the mist of doing so. Big or small. It's up to us to pay attention! I know! I'm very attentive!

That’s totally me. Entertaining men I’m not attracted too because I’m trying to be open and not shallow but at the end I cut them off because I just can’t do it. It feels too forced. And now I’ve just wasted everyone’s time.