My husband has a low sperm count and motility. We don't know if that is the only reason of our infertility since I haven't had any tests for me. we have tried a few autoimmune procedures, both iui.
the doctor I have now only offers ivf and with only a few eggs. theres another clinic here that does zift and uses more eggs. any advice?

I imagine this a late reply for you, but i think you should do what you can to pursue your dreams. The interesting thing about these issues for a man (which is the only point of view I can offer, is that the urge to have a family is just as strong, but not as personal as it seems to be with a woman.