I feel horrible for being jealous

So my friend just texted me she's pregnant. I was the first person she told. Her hubby left 2 weeks ago for deployment and hasn't called home yet. So I just texted back yay. Honestly I'm completely jealous. They got pregnant on the first time and we've been trying for 7 months. I just wish she had waited until I got back from vacation to tell me. She knows the struggles we have been having and she sent me a pic of the test. Of course I am happy for her but I am a green-eyes monster right now. I feel bad for being jealous. I'll be there for her since her family is across the country and her husband is across the world.

It's def not horrible that you are jealous bc it is something that you are working so hard for and it just happened for her. I'm sure she couldn't wait to tell you bc she probably didn't really think it would happen since they only had one shot.

I know how you feel. My best friend said to me a couple months ago I think I am late then text me two days later to tell me she was pregnant. They weren't trying since they just had a baby in November.

O and at least they were trying. I hate it when people accidently get pregnant and then complain and cry about it. my sister did that to me a couple months ago and i wanted to punch her in the face. we actaully got in a HUGE fight, and I never argue with my sisters now that we are all adults. I was like 'WTF you are married and having unprotected sex and you weren't trying to have a baby? what did you think would happen???' UGH!

Yeah I get she's excited and now that I've gotten all the emotions out I feel much better. She just called me apologizing cause she didn't think about how long we have been trying. I told her it was ok and she asked if I would go to her first ultrasound with her and I said sure. I'm her "stand-in DH" lol

That is very sweet and considerate of her :0)
I know it is hard not to be jealous!! I just happened to finish whipping my tears away because my husbands friend is pregnant again for the second time!
They weren't trying on either pregnancies; they lossed their first one.... Do to her bad habits :(
I seriously am starting to cry again... Ugh!!
I have never felt this way before, but now coming up on a year of TTC w/ my hubby. It really got to me this time. I feel more hurt than jealous, just wondering why?? You know... I shouldn't jump to any conclusion yet, I mean I've got until next Thursday to test.

But wow this hit me with some kinda force!! I am not one to cry nor get jealous. I guess I did though and it makes me feel even worse.
I'm the kinda person who takes it one day at a time,
and always wanting to make another person
happy or just to leave them with a smile on their face ;0)

I do beleive God has a plan for each and everyone of us, but I would also love for all of us to have our sticky little baby this month.