Main Office Musings 12-4-15

Inspiring a Community of Learners

Main Office Musings 12-4-15

Inspiring a Community of Learners

When We Fail a Child by Pernille Ripp

He was dragged into my classroom, clutched firmly by the arm as if he would try to escape. “I don’t know what you will do with him, but we have given up,” I was told. “He is done with school.” I extended my hand to the mother in front of me, told her my name, and welcomed her and her son into my class. It was the first day of school and my first introduction to Peter.

For the next five minutes Peter stood in front of me while his mother told me all the things he needed to work on. She told me how she was ready to give up and hoped I could fix him – but she wasn’t holding her breath. With every word she spat out, his shoulders slumped further and his eyes stared more intently at the linoleum floor. I smiled, and did my teacher talk, soothing the ruffled feathers as best as I could. Then I thought to myself: “This year will be great. I will make a difference. Wait and see, he will love school again. I will fix him.”

I had every intention of keeping my promise, but I didn’t. I tried to connect with Peter. I tried to make him participate, to find his voice, to fall back in love with learning. But when he did not do his homework, or messed about in class, I followed my rules for punishment. He lost recess, pizza privileges and had to speak to the principal on many occasions. When he did not conform, I punished him. When he did not work, I gave him Fs. After all, that was what teachers did when a child didn’t follow their rules; they handed out the consequences whether they made sense or not. At the end of the year, when he was suspended on the very last day for yet another bad choice, I knew that I was not meant to be a teacher – or at least not the type of teacher that overrode her own common sense to conform to what society thought good teachers did.

So that summer I found the courage to change the way I taught. I realized that the nine-year-old me would have hated everything about the classroom I had created. I would have been the child with the failing grades and the marks against them. I had to change. I had to create a classroom that I would want to be a student in, that I would want my own children to be a part of.

When we started the new year, I threw everything out. I got rid of my punishment system – no more lost recesses or phone calls home in the middle of class. Instead we would have a conversation and I would ask my students why they acted the way they did, rather than just assuming I knew. I got rid of almost all homework and made a deal with my students that if they gave me their best during school then they could have their after school time back. If they worked hard in class then we could learn what we needed to.

I limited grades, pushed back against classifying students by letters, and instead invited my class to reflect on their own learning, to take control of how they needed to grow and what they needed to do to get there. We discussed when assignments were done and we set goals. And slowly, my students started to ask why they were doing these things, if we could change what we were doing, and whether they could try something new. I said yes, instead of no, and then tried to be the very best teacher I could be.

I won’t lie, it was hard. It still is because every year, I am honored to teach a new group of students who ask me why I teach this way. Every year I help students realize that they have a right to a voice within our classroom, that their voice matters and that school should be a place for them to thrive, not just survive.

But the system fights us every step of the way – school is made of boxes to define our students. My district is doing everything we can to break those boxes and tear down the notions of what it means to be a traditional school, and to truly make it about students again. We want to make school about curiosity, discovery and about each child, not just each teacher.

A few years ago, I saw Peter again. He had grown up and was no longer the kid with the slumped shoulders. I asked him how he was and he told me just fine. He had switched districts, but he liked his new school better. “I am sorry.” The words slipped out before I could catch them and he stared at me, confused. “I am sorry for not being a good teacher to you,” I said. He stared at me and then finally said, “No big deal, you tried.” And I thought to myself, yes, I did, but it does not matter how hard we try if the path we are on is wrong. And that is why I changed the way I teach. That is why I try to give the classroom back to my students and make school about the kids.

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Reminders & Points to Ponder...

Giving Trees are up in the faculty lounges. Please stop by and take some tags!

Also, remember that all Fridays in December are Dress Down Days for the Giving Tree Program. Please Note: These dress down days ARE NOT one of those included in the annual or monthly fee you may have already paid.

TODAY will be the only time we’re accepting cash/check donations for the Giving Tree. Checks need to be made out to CTA.

Dress Down Day on Wednesday 12/9 to support the Kovalovsky family. Sign-up for meals in the Main Office. Thank you for your love and support of Lori, Brad, Nicholas and Anthony!

Holiday Breakfast is Friday, 12/18 click here http://bit.ly/1XDB8OJ to sign up to bring an item to share!

This is just a reminder that when you sign out and use any of our carts through Booked, you must get them back to where they belong on the day you finish using them. They need to have time to be plugged in and recharge batteries for the next class that signs them out. Thank you for your help in this matter.

Please see the schedule TCI training sent out by Andy Hart.

Faculty Meeting on Tuesday in the South Auditorium at 8:00 a.m.

Kid President’s 25 Reasons To Be Thankful!

Missed the chance to share this before Thanksgiving... but every day is a great day to be grateful! Enjoy :) Thanks to Sue Burgess for sharing!