A mindful toast.

New Year’s resolutions stress me out. I love the idea of writing them. I tell myself I’m only going to focus on two or three this year. But I always end up making this incredibly long list, to include even my future lives, if possible (and the names of all my hypothetical children).

As the year ends, I try to resolve myself as quickly and efficiently as possible and while I’m at it, save the world. Maybe it’s the pressure of having to come through, checking off the items on my new-me-list instead of letting the process of my becoming happen naturally.

I do believe in deliberate living, in knowing your “what”, in figuring out your “how” and in getting to your “where”. I believe in plans. In persistence, patience and consistency. In never giving up.

But resolutions seem to go just a little further than wishful thinking and yet they don’t quite make it to the planning realm. Most of them, as the year ends, are still ironically somewhat unresolved. Maybe it’s just a problem of perception; maybe this concept has been watered down over time and lost its imperative meaning. Or maybe it’s just me.

So this New Year, instead of resolutions per se, I’ve decided to plan and also to remember.

Try to update the future by deliberately choosing the present, whether this happens on December 31st, April 7th or July 54th. And try to highlight some of life’s most significant lessons, for daily inspiration. You know, heart fuel, life mojo, garage philosophy, a few bites of chewable meaning to put up on your fridge door.

Because in the end, it’s not what you’re fighting against that matters, it’s what you’re fighting for. Though important, it’s not the big aha moments that determine your fate, but what you learn from long, beautiful and painful years of human experience.

Your 99% happens as you’re doing your dishes, cleaning the house, taking care of your children, driving biking to work, buying your groceries, talking (and by that I mean listening) to a friend or co-worker, cooking dinner, kissing your other (or your dog) goodnight, getting the job done. The blinding light that brings you to your knees only accounts for the 1%.

I’d like to share some basic truths that resurface through each one of my drafts. Think Declaration of Interdependence, 10 commandments, seven prayers, 108 mantras… What’s occupying you on a daily basis?

What vows would you exchange with life if you could marry her again, for the first time? And guess what: you can. It’s all we do, all day long. ‘Cause every breath is a second chance.

Here’s to a mindful 2012!

1. You’ve got nature’s blueprint within you. You can’t exist or function outside your ecosystem. You need all the green you can get. Let the planet take care of you. She’s got billions of years of experience.

2. You’re not replaceable. Your loss is also mine. You’re not an island. There’s a “you” only because there is foremost a “we”. Open the door.

3. You have a purpose. It’s your life’s quest to discover and honor it. Start by finding out what moves you and how you can serve others through it. Don’t live somebody else’s life. Nothing you could ever accomplish means anything without your signature on it.

4. Be grateful, even when you’re not. Don’t resist the ugliness. Every beast can turn into a prince, and every hell become a heaven, when looked at with the right eyes.

6. Eat with your head. Your taste buds will follow. What you put in your body at least three times a day makes a huge difference.

7. Get creative with your food, your work, your exercise, your relationships and your spirituality. Art is not just a museum thing. Art is you and me, with a cup of herbal tea. Let your inner artist break through your skin. This life is your canvas. You don’t get to paint it twice.

10. Be genuine in the little matters, especially when no one’s watching. Life is made up of one small choice after another. The only thing that varies is the number of people paying attention to you.

11. Get away often. Whenever possible, go to other countries. It’s not as expensive as you think. You can always camp or couch surf. There are many different versions of you out there. And they are such interesting people.

About Andrea Balt

Co-Founder / Editor in Chief of Rebelle Society, Wellness Alchemist at Rebelle Wellness & Creativity Curator at Creative Rehab. Unfinished book with a love for greens, bikes and poetry; raised by wolves & adopted by people; not trying to make art but to Be Art. Holds a BA in Journalism & Mass Communication, an MFA in Creative Writing & a Holistic Health Coach degree from the Institute for Integrative Nutrition®. In her work she tries to reflect the wholeness of the human experience by combining Art & Health + Brains & Beauty + Darkness & Brilliance into a more alive, unabridged and unlimited edition of ourselves. She is also on a quest to reinstate Creativity as one of our essential Human Rights to (hopefully and soon) be included in the UN Declaration. Connect with her on Facebook, Twitter & Instagram and sign up for her Monthly Stroke of Renaissance.

And I looove you. In case you haven't noticed, I am redirecting everyone to your post in the first paragraphs to get treated if they suffer from the same “unresolved” disease. I wrote this without knowing you'd be posting, but often times we're like different (or same) sides of the same coin.