10. Just in it for the associations

Are you someone famous, in a band, or a sports team? Are any of your friends any of the above? If you find your girlfriend is more interested in what you do, the people you hang with, the events you get invited to or the networks you hang with, then it’s obvious she’s in it for all the wrong reasons. A good way to test it is to cancel all events for a month and just stay at home on the couch. If she’s still hanging around after that then she might be the real deal.