Saturday, March 31, 2012

Mum-in-law is top reason why couples fight

Apart from household work and money issues, mothers-in-law remain one of the top reasons behind arguments among couples.

A survey has found that they are one of the most common causes of fights between British couples.

The poll of 2,000 adults discovered that only rows over money and disputes concerning household chores occurred more frequently than bickering about each other's relations.

The study by electronics firm Philips found that poor budgeting and a lack of savings regularly cause couples to fall out, as does women being lumbered with too many domestic duties.

The top ten reasons also included drinking habits, hoarding objects, doing the washing up, deciding what to watch on the TV and the time it takes to get ready.

Researchers also found that one in ten of us have a fight with our partner daily, while one in twenty has several fights per day.

"Couples will always argue. Even trivial things - like who looks after the TV remote, leaving wet towels on the floor and taking too long to get ready - rile us," the Daily Mail quoted spokesman Deneice Harwin as saying.

Marriage is the bringing together by God (through some mysterious law which operates in this universe) of two souls in this vast, vast phenomenon called life in this vast stream of existence where countless millions of souls are moving in their individual planes of spiritual evolution towards the Divine. Through the Grace of God, through the Divine Will, and through the operation of certain laws that govern this universal life, two souls are brought together. That is the meaning of marriage.

JANMA BHANDHAM BEGINS at VASUKI MAHAL

AND CONTINUES FOREVER.........

MARRIAGE IS SACRED

Marriage is sacred. It is not to be treated lightly. It is not to be considered in a vulgar sense. Marriage is an alliance which is for something more than mere physical enjoyment, for something more than even the all-important purpose of the propagation of the race. The offsprings of the husband and the wife are also to be spiritual beings, because they are other souls coming into this earth-plane to work out their own evolution.

TRUE INNER MEANING OF FAMILY LIFE

Through the coming together of two souls in marriage, God means an important process to be worked out and that is the sharing of the spiritual impulse between the two.

What they have earned, what they have learned, and their spiritual potential—the husband and the wife are to share. The husband is to enrich the spiritual life of the wife and the wife is to enrich the spiritual life of the husband and both are to go hand-in-hand toward the Supreme Attainment of the Divine Consciousness.

VASUKI MAHAL WELCOMING YOUR AUGUST PRESENCE IN THE DAYS TO COME........

Vasuki Mahal is a landmark in Coimbatore’s TVS Nagar and Edayarpalayam with over a decade of its existence. Well planned wedding hall is east facing to facilitate bride/groom to make rituals by facing towards rising sun. Ideally built with spacious wedding hall and dinning halls ad-measuring 9000 sq.ft with 35,000 sq.ft internal parking space within its fenced compound.

You can reach the mandap within 500 meters on west side street of Thadagam Road at TVS Nagar bus stop.

ON OUR WEDDING

Let our love be ever our beacon star,On curvy path and terrain unknown.Let our faith be the shining torch,To show us the way on a stormy day.

Hand in hand let us walk in unison,And correct the step when need arises.Let us pray together on this anniversay day,That together we stay till our dying day.

We know we have but one witness,Who bonded us together on our wedding dayLet us together raise our hands,That bonded we remain every night and day.

A MESSAGE TO YOU

May this message be engraved in your heart and be enshrined in your thoughts!

Live with understanding and wisdom.

Understand the meaning and purpose of life.

Understand your real nature and why you are here.

Here on earth you are but a passing traveller.

Your real abode is that realm from whence you came.

Here all things are temporary.

All things pass.

Therefore seek the Eternal.

Your Real Nature is not earthly. It is spiritual and deathless.

To realize your Reality, your eternal identity is the purpose of life.

While you strive diligently for this inner experience, cultivate Ideal Relationship with this world around you. To all beings relate yourself with nobility, sympathy, kindness, love, selflessness and the desire to serve all, SERVE HUMANITY AND SEEK DIVINITY.

Compassion to all is the key to blessedness. Humility is the highest virtue.

Truthfulness is the greatest treasure.

Self-control is the supreme wealth to possess.

Egoism is the worst blemish.

Be an ideal individual.

Become a spiritually illumined soul. Thus crown your life with Wisdom, peace and blessedness. You will then become a blessing to all mankind.