I had to use a blowtorch on the garage door to get it to open thismorning so my housemate could get his car out, this is after having to do the same to put it in there in the first place. I'm thinking of getting some de-icer to spray in the lock.

I was telling folks on this one forum that words about sexual preference should not be used when they obscure the complicated truth. I think it's really easy to pigeon hole people into huge, vague, bludgeoning catagories when real life doesn't correspond to such black and white simplicity.

I was telling folks on this one forum that words about sexual preference should not be used when they obscure the complicated truth. I think it's really easy to pigeon hole people into huge, vague, bludgeoning catagories when real life doesn't correspond to such black and white simplicity.

But...but I can't handle that kind of complexity!

But yeah. Like the whole gay/straight dichotomy that doesn't have room for bisexual, or pansexual, or whatever they "identify" as.And yeah, the whole "identity" thing adds to the confusion, cuz you could be a chick attracted to guys but still identify as "lesbian" because you exclusively have relationships with women.

That's why I don't identify as anything when it comes to sexual/gender identity other than just 'me'.

Some guys like girlssome guys like guyssome guys like blondssome guys like brunettessome guys like redheadssome guys like skinnysome guys like voluptuous

The simple truth is that each and every one of us has a different set of criteria for what turns us on in others and the sex we're attracted to is just one of many things. Obviously you can draw SOME conclusions on anyone based on any preference they have for anything. But there will still be those who deviate from those common conclusions and there are a great many other variations that define an individual.