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Decoding Guy-Speak

Technically, you and your man both speak English. And certain phrases — "Would you pass the salt?" "Do you know where the remote is?" — can pass between you without ambiguity. But let's face it, the language of love can sometimes get confusing. We've compiled a list of some of men's most cryptic statements, as well as questions that will help you uncover the real deal.

"I'm afraid of commitment."

"So it's me. I'm calling you."

What He Could Mean: "I don't particularly want to talk, but I want to get credit for calling." What You Should Ask: "Would you rather talk another time?" or "I get the feeling that you're calling because you think that you should and not because you want to, is that true?"

"It's not you, it's me."

"I'd like to cook you dinner at my place."

What He Could Mean: "I'd like to dazzle you with what a caring, nurturing renaissance man I am, so that you'll have sex with me." What You Should Ask: "How important is emotional involvement to you prior to being sexual?"