About 50 {years back}, {there is} an explosion in {recognition|reputation|acceptance|level of popularity|attractiveness} of {literature|catalogs} that {trained|educated} "people skills." The advice in these {literature|catalogs} is mostly {good sense}: {Be considered a} good listener, don't criticize people, {keep in mind|bear in mind} their name, {laugh|teeth|giggle|look} more often, {etc|and so forth}.

And although {these suggestions} might be {beneficial to} {some individuals}, it was never {designed to} help shy people! {This sort of} advice should {get} to the rude loudmouth everyone {discovers|locates|detects|sees|confirms} annoying. {Or possibly} to the {oily} salesperson {who would like to} {earn more income} by pretending to be polite.

{Timid} people don't need {these pointers} because they already speak up {inadequate} and {care and attention|caution|worry|service} too much about whether {someone else} likes them. {You will need} advice that {can make} you speak up more around people. {You will need} to {understand how} to be less {anxious|stressed} and {uncomfortable} around people. {You will need} to {understand how} to build {self-confidence|assurance|self confidence|self-assurance} and courage to get that {interpersonal|sociable|cultural|public|communal} life, {sweetheart|partner|girl|lover} or {partner|sweetheart} you want.