"Part memoir, part caring and practical advice, this book is written by a spirited woman who has come to understand the importance of self-actualization through daring personal experience exploring her own desire, sexual liberation, and self-expression.

The overall structure of the book supports the reader’s journey from identifying what one might be lacking in life to feeling empowered by kindly - and often humorously - offering practical advice that encourages us to create new habits to develop paths towards identifying and attaining personal desires that ultimately will help result in more enjoyment and satisfaction in life.

Possessing a keen awareness that talking about sexual desire can trigger a wide range of emotions for different types of people, Foster shares important real-life examples of how she navigated pushing boundaries of what she thought was possible and lends a voice to help others speak out and unearth vivid and captivating desires that reside within them. Highly recommended for anyone looking for ways to develop positive self-image, self-confidence, and self-esteem while living a more fulfilling life."

​- Sara

At first, I thought this was a book written mainly for women, but if ever the saying “don’t judge a book by it’s cover” applies, this is the time. Jaclyn’s honest and open writing style not only challenged me to rethink my own definitions of sex, it also allowed me to read through the chapters as if I were listening to a close friend share her deepest thoughts, feelings and life changing experiences with me. This book is equally as important for MEN to read as it is for women.