Economic insecurity is not only a consequence of family violence, but is itself a form of family
violence (as economic or financial abuse) (Corrie, 2016), where there is a deliberate strategy to keep the victim economically unsafe in order to control them. .
UN Women describes economic abuse as a
specific type of family violence that is “causing or attempting to cause an individual to become
financially dependent on another person, by obstructing their access to or control over resources and/or independent economic activity (UN Women, 2012).”
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Economic abuse is often, but not always, part of a pattern of abusive control that incorporates other forms of IPV, including physical, sexual and psychological. --- Excerpt regarding findings about NZ economic abuse Read more: http://goodshepherd.org.nz/media/1975/economic-abuse-in-new-zealand-gsnz-2018.pdf .
Why did I post this? .
Because financial security means so much more to women, whether in an abusive relationship or not, it's about Freedom. It gives us freedom to choose our own pathway, not because we are reliant or obligated to another path that isn't suitable nor appealing. .
Having autonomy should be a given, but it isn't. So make it so. .
What you need to do or be to enable freedom of choice?? .
This is a huge part of why I am building a soulful oils business, for my own freedom of choice and to lead and support other women to achieve autonomy.
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Want to chat about how this could be exactly what you've been looking for? Send me a message 💜💜 .
Let 2019 be all about Freedom! 💜💎

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Everybody needs that one real asshole homie that talks shit while simultaneously telling you this is where you’re fucking up....and this is how we’re going to fix it. Love u @emoryroosevelt #tagyofriends

Are you able to be happy all by yourself? Can you feel at peace without the presence of an intimate partner in your life? Do you feel confident without needing the attention of others? Do you have the strength to leave an emotionally or physically abusive partner? Can you imagine the thought of being without your partner, without thinking that death would be better than losing them? If the answer is no, or if there was pause or hesitation, this means that there are traumas requiring your attention; traumas centering around abandonment and worthiness/deservingness of love.
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Can you cope with your anger or your fear without lashing out at another, whether verbally or physically? Do you feel confident enough to refrain from possessive behavior, and the need to know where your partner is at all times? Can your partner have friends of the opposite sex? Be honest with yourself, you know the truth deep down. If the answer is no, then there are traumas that require your attention; traumas centering around loss of control..or rather, the fear of not having or being in control. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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Are you able to open up within your intimate connections? Can you express your feelings freely; can you let your partner in without tensing up? When your partner gets emotional, do you feel comfortable addressing their emotions without feeling the urge to run away, or shut down and shut them out? If you answered no to any of this, or if you hesitated.. then there are traumas that require your attention; traumas centered around safety and trust. You either don't trust another with your deepest feelings and thoughts, or you don't trust yourself enough to be honest. You don't feel safe enough to be vulnerable, vulnerability is scary. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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Mind you: no one is perfect. Perfection is not what I'm ⬇️CONTINUED⬇️

I had a lovely elderly man ask me what I would tell someone who asks; "How do I love myself?" Here's what I said:
Slow down and become aware of this present moment with gratitude and feel safe being in your physical body.
Tune in and listen to your inner wisdom from your heart and soul.
Accept yourself as a beautiful worthy human being right now, with the inner most knowing that you don't need to change anything to feel loved or validated. You are perfectly whole and worthy as you are.
Speak your truth and honour your needs and desires.
Become healthily selfish in your own emotional well-being.
And always do what makes you smile. ----- What would you tell someone who asks;
How do I love myself? ❤

I am truly grateful to share magical and transformational space with beings who say yes to their breakthroughs. Together, we cry, laugh, scream, turn on and breathe into new possibilities. Healing is truly possible on all levels and it begins with a question. A quest of inquiry, if you will. "Am I willing to swim in the depths of my experience and witness all it has to offer me? Can I receive in this moment? Can I be grateful even in my rage?" and so on. The break down begins through radical curiosity and allows for the breakthrough to emerge.
My job (Joy Of Being) is to be present. In full presence with self with another with others. These quantum healing sessions coming through are unlike anything I've ever experienced and offered and yet a culmination of everything I've remembered and am remembering. My job is one where I surrender to the how and let it unfold before me. My job is to help you remember yourself, a royal sovereign being, the honor of your physical vessel. The releasing of the tightness that has become comfortable in the discomfort. The creation of space to allow more of your joy and heart in. Expansion. Expressed. To bring clarity to the desires underneath the pain/story, already ignited within you. A reminder that you have the permission to be fully expressed and witnessed, however you are in this moment.
This looks like a myriad of ways. Body work, sound and song, energy healing, tears, meditation and visualization, coaching, breath work, movement, a mixture of it all in one epic session. Nothing is off limits. All is welcome. Sacred devoted time is the container that holds the infinite possibility of it all. Consistency and devotion bring forth the manifestation into present waking reality. And it's quantum. Right now. Healing in real time.
All you need is a clear intention and a desire to really face yourself. And off we go to radical Divine EmBODYmeant.
EmBODYmeant. I am not interested in leaving the body. More so, I ask the question, how can I/we be more in this body, more in this human experience and welcome all the psychicness and intuition and super powers to be here too? There is no separation.
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Step into a state of being self aware, peaceful and illuminated.
Untangle the complexities of your little ‘self’ story. Get genuine. To be genuine means to be actual, to be true, to be sincere and honest. You will share about your hurt and anger and use it to build a new relationship with yourself. You will be gentle. You will need your whole heart for this. You will work to release the mental attachments to ideas and expectations you have built around your fears, about who you are and who you’re allowed to be. You are going to stretch your mental and emotional reach, so that more possibility can filter into your life. You will find new ways to weave the intricacies of grief, pain and love into the tapestry of your life. Bravely exploring your inner landscapes.
The mind can only take you so far in your healing and then your heart must play a bigger role. The heart must carry you through to the other side because the reality is, the mind can not fathom all the possibilities that exist. That is the mystery of transition and healing, you want more and you courageously move towards it.
You will develop the emotional intelligence to support yourself in relationships, at work and in the real world.
Join me for An Honest Transformation. Because of this work, you will know what you feel, what you need and will be able to take action; setting healthy boundaries, asking for support with clarity, and setting foundations that are congruent with the direction of your vision for your life.
Registration closes December 31st.
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Yes, you read that right! Coming off my 3 day break for this. So, apparently @ocasio2018 is already so tired that she’s taking a week off? Seriously what have you done @ocasio2018? Her term does not even start tell January the 3rd! If this does not tell you about the type of person in office she will be then I do not know what I can use to persuade you that she is not someone you want in office. Honestly, early we saw that she was having money issues and was having a hard time paying her bills before she was even sweared into office. Yet, we are going to put her in charge of our budget?! What are your thoughts? #community#government#news#wakeup#cnn#sovereignty#onenation#stopillegalimmigration#fox#foxsnews#coverage#immigration#realnews#news#fakenews#wakeup#donaldtrump#hillaryclinton#berniesanders#republicans#democrats#conservatives#liberals#progressives#libertarian#repost#regran#newdawn#thegreatawakening#q If you like any of my content, drop me a follow @mr.politics101————————————-—-Follow my partners: @true_meninist @christianconservativepatriot @conservative_extremists @conservative.girl
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Our garden collards patiently waiting 1/1/2019. (Hop’n John, Collards & Cornbread for this SC babe)
Health, Wealth & Prosperity.
2019 and YOU. • What Choices can you make to Up-Level each and every day? • What are you breathing life into this year to change your physical wellness, your spiritual/energetic wellness ~ your financial wellness as well as community wellness? • What needs to shift to add a daily ritual Just for YOU to simply PRACTICE YOU? • How can you deepen your own Self Care, Self Awareness ~ Self Teacher?
How about a full year of practice to do just THAT & feel into YOU?
A YEAR OF CEREMONY.
That’s Exactly what I am breathing life into in collaboration with other humans that raise the bar.
Monthly gatherings ~ Chez Rebecca for Deeper Connection, Deeper awareness in FEELING & understanding ~
WE ALL HAVE THE POWER TO CHANGE OUR LIVES.
January will Kick off with Analyzing where you Are... Nutrition, Sleep, Exercise, Digestion & Elimination and your JOY meter.
Then setting Intentions and commitment around where your main priorities fall.
(Then ~ breathing into YOU to create the changes you desire.) Nourishment & Awareness from the inside out ~ Honoring the process of discovery ~ Lessening the Power of Circumstance and Helping each other THRIVE.
Who is ready to Circle?
#ceremony#wellnesslifestyle#lifestylemedicine#ayearofceremony#connection#sovereignty#healing#you#justfeelsdamngood#ritual#thrive#nourish#plantmedicine#youareyourteacher

Be fierce about who or what you allow around your energy field because it will affect the fate of your dreams.⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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Because it means they just might have to take responsibility for themselves and step into their own wholeness too. And living your life as a sovereign being vs. a victim that gets tossed around by the Universe is scary because it means we have to stop blaming other people for the circumstances we have the power to change.⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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Are you willing to take a fierce stand for your heart, your intuition and your dreams by stopping the pattern of allowing people who neg you to rule your life?.
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This is all about Boundary Capacity. We’ve been talking about boundary capacity in our Capacity Conversations in the last few weeks— did you catch my video on this? If not, head over to my IGTV channel and look for the video called “your hidden guardians”.

So last night I had the best to date ,.. while still difficult,.. smoothest transition into “trance” or what I call “trauma tunnels”.
When in some instances, no action is the best choice, strongest intention & softest form of action.
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I strapped my palms down to my yoga mat ,.. and just started repeating to my True Ancestors to anchor me in.
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I could sense there was manipulation.
Technological & frequency airwaves related.
And I had just restarted the Candida juice Protocol after 2-3 weeks of various herbal fasting , juice fasting , & ‘no-sugar’protocols.
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The day before I had bought my cousins healthy Chocolate Almond Amazing Bars ,.. and the Candida was whiffing out the subtle smell of egg powder/non-fat milk in them from the garage.
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I stalled for 4 hours on having them,.. I started website spiraling into the likes of Twitter & Barstool. My traumatized teen was looking for nourishment , nurturing-men & clarity.
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I called upon my Toltec Ancestors for their dream meditation of “planting a dream” & “cleansing the Nagal(?)3D body”.
After finishing,
“I am a dream warrior.
I am able to lucid dream.
I will remember my dreams.
I direct and steer my dreams.”
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Off to snooze I went, remaining away from the coil springed bed or comfy soft couch, with a nearly empty stomach, a stretched back on the ground with supports, and Native flutes / frequencies ranging from 13-74hz.
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Then I wake up 2 hours later & like on auto pilot, ...
dive into this Maple Almond Amazing Bar with honey ,although no added chocolate sugar.
And a bag of Fermented Cabbage Chips.
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These use to my healers and nourishment.
But now they are a crutch.
So I dropped blame, shame , and guilt steadily,... drank a half cup of my ‘Lacto’s’ Salt Cabbage juice and began practicing Tara Brach’s R.A.I.N method of reparenting my emotional framework.
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I really don’t enjoy the overcompensation game of sub-stances and temporary bandaids.
Although it was my best trance yet , ...
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I woke up remembering really rough dreams of being in competitive sports & the programmers had me in looped games , lost traveling on the road, and evil coaches playing mind games with me.
The dream ended where a “groupie”~>