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Ok, HUGE shoutout to Skills who continues to be my main supporter. Thanks to his link on openers, I have been trying one of them out. Observe:

In a grocery store. Walking around, see a woman who I get nervous thinking about approaching her. I circle back and then approach. Unfortunately, once she shows her face I realize she's too old for me, but I continue with the approach regardless because I had to get at least one in today:

Me: Excuse me...

Her: *looks at me*

Me: Hi, how's it going, I know this is a bit random but *pause*

Her: …

Me: Are you the kind of person who can take a compliment?

Her: *smiles* sure

Me: Cool, me too. You go first

Her: *smile vanishes but she's not frowning*

Me: *after a slight pause* ha, I'm just kidding. No I REALLY like your style *look at her body*

Her: *smiling* oh thank you

Me: No problem, take care *walking away*

As I'm walking away she says "You made my day!"

Me: *stop, turn around slightly* What?

Her: You made my day *while picking something off the shelf*

Me: Oh, thank you. *continue walking*

No idea what to say when someone tells me I made their day.

Anyhow, I was gonna approach a few others with this line buuuut didn't see any I liked except one but she was on the phone.

Anyhow good stuff. I will keep testing this one this week. I like it because it's not some weird story like most of the openers. Those kind make me cringe.

EDIT: Also, I had talked to another girl who was at the cashier when I bought some white t-shirts. I'm wearing a white t-shirt today fyi.

Her: Buying more white t-shirts to match the ones you have now?

Me: You got it... you must be psychic.

Her: Yeah for sure *said something else about psychic but I forget. Convo died out*

well nice, number 1 do not hesitate and approach (you will feel your heart raising a bit)

throw some cold reads or i like the question so what do you like to do besides sleep eat and party?

answer: oh sweet, want a grab a drink or coffee so you can tell me more about it....

If you want memorize bachaus story he uses (new to city, and reharse it) i like it cause women love either guys new to a city or guys just out of mono....

After the opening 90% of the convo is on you...

most guys just open and have nothing to say (i think you are here)

I love that opener here are my go to openers (when i do day game which is rare, or after hour street game post clubs):

HI, i know this is kind of random but we do not know each other or have any friends in common, so i decided to take the initiative and introduce myself i am skills...

Hi, i think you are attractive and i wanted to find out if your looks match your personality? i am skills

hi, you seem interesting wanted to come say hi, i am skills

i like the sexulhero one.... quick question, have you ever seen someone you wanted to meet but did not, went home and regreted it, there is something intriguing about you and i want to find out what it is.... i am skills

inderect opener.- quick question what do you think about skinny jeans on guys??? whatever she answer "but does not make you look kind of gay?"

love your opener(something i would love to try)... look at glow archive were he talk what is important post opening, i love situational more than any other opener

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Bang on Skills. I need to process but this is full of golden nuggets! Thank you!

I like the question "what do you like to do besides eat sleep and party?" WAAAAAY better than cold reads. Cold reads never worked well for me. Almost came across as me trying to impress the girl with how good I could cold read her (most people are too easy to cold read for me)

Ok so I haven't tried any of that stuff yet Skills because I'm trying to get the opener down. Maybe this opener isn't good and I won't know till I field test it a bunch. Once I'm sold on it, then I can add more stuff.

Hsaving said that, did another approach today:

Me: Excuse me... I know this is a bit random but *pause for a second and put a "I'm unsure" look on my face*Are you the kind of person that can handle a compliment?

Her: Haha, yes, of course!

Me: Oh good... me too! You go first.

Her: *laughs and looks up at ceiling* I';ve never heard THAT one

Me: *taking that as her compliment* Thanks... nah I just wanted to say I LOVE your pants

Her: Oh thanks! Thaier my golf pants... I'm a golfer.

Me: Like Tiger woods? *making swing motion with hands*

Her: No, not that good.

Me: Cool. Well you have a grwat day

Her: Thank you! You too!

FEW THINGS TO NOTE: When talking with girls, I hold my hands together a lot. Like rubbing them together or clasping them with the thumbs pointing out to make a sort of dick. No idea if this is hurting me or not but it feels like just standing there would be worse.

Also, she was mostly looking at the shelf she was shopping from while I talked to her. Obviously not catching her interest too fiercely, this is what makes me think the opener may be no good.

Afterwards, I went into the parking lost and saw the HOTTEST ass I've seen in a long time. She was taking her cart to her car. I was going to approach but I felt stalkerish and creepy for following her to the car to do the opener so I didn't. How would you PUA's suggest I do that? It's a tragedy I didn't get things going with that woman. It's like all the fat she had in her body was in her ass while the rest of her remained hourglass!

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Ok so I haven't tried any of that stuff yet Skills because I'm trying to get the opener down. Maybe this opener isn't good and I won't know till I field test it a bunch. Once I'm sold on it, then I can add more stuff.

Hsaving said that, did another approach today:

Me: Excuse me... I know this is a bit random but *pause for a second and put a "I'm unsure" look on my face*Are you the kind of person that can handle a compliment?

Her: Haha, yes, of course!

Me: Oh good... me too! You go first.

Her: *laughs and looks up at ceiling* I';ve never heard THAT one

Me: *taking that as her compliment* Thanks... nah I just wanted to say I LOVE your pants

Her: Oh thanks! Thaier my golf pants... I'm a golfer.

Me: Like Tiger woods? *making swing motion with hands*

Her: No, not that good.

Me: Cool. Well you have a grwat day

Her: Thank you! You too!

FEW THINGS TO NOTE: When talking with girls, I hold my hands together a lot. Like rubbing them together or clasping them with the thumbs pointing out to make a sort of dick. No idea if this is hurting me or not but it feels like just standing there would be worse.

Also, she was mostly looking at the shelf she was shopping from while I talked to her. Obviously not catching her interest too fiercely, this is what makes me think the opener may be no good.

Afterwards, I went into the parking lost and saw the HOTTEST ass I've seen in a long time. She was taking her cart to her car. I was going to approach but I felt stalkerish and creepy for following her to the car to do the opener so I didn't. How would you PUA's suggest I do that? It's a tragedy I didn't get things going with that woman. It's like all the fat she had in her body was in her ass while the rest of her remained hourglass!

keep this opener since is working for you, but you are ejecting, why did you eject, try to stay until the girl tells you to fuck off.... do not eject the set...

also i told you most important part is not to hesitate the approach 3 second rule, specially with hotter women...

if you feel stalkerish say, "this is kind of unusual and i do not usually do this, but i had to come say hi and introduce myself i am sarge and cont. untill she tell you to fuck off"

Stay in set till the end do not eject no matter what...until she tells you to fuck off.... and stay talking... (till you get rid of approach anxiety)....

introduce yourself, and also for you not to feel creepy use a time constraint, "hey real quick i am on my way to a meeting, but i had to come say hi and introduce myself blah blahb"

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Thanks Skills, just reading it now, but it seems like the exact thing I was doing for a while and getting nowhere with. I don't get it. Everyone (including you I believe) told me my convos were boring and too small-talky. This (glow's post) is exactly what I was doing (open>talk based off her resonses) so I'm confused.

Ok, HUGE shoutout to Skills who continues to be my main supporter. Thanks to his link on openers, I have been trying one of them out. Observe:

In a grocery store. Walking around, see a woman who I get nervous thinking about approaching her.

Dude I've been there. I was at a Walmart and there was this HOT tall black girl (I'm 5'11, she's easy 6'2) Saw her twice and I said "F* it I'm going to talk to her" So I circle around to where she was at and she was there with her friend who was shorter but even hotter... I said "You know I saw you over there and I had to come up and tell you how beautiful you look, what's your name?" and I just kind of froze after that and after talking with them for a few moments I bailed out

It sucks when that happens but I am just going to have to go with my gut and be more "Alpha" in the future.... in other words say like "You know what, I don't know what you guyz are doing after this but I would love for you to come over to my place and go swimming" THAT'S what i will say in the future and just take the bull by the horns because Girls LOVE to be led

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Yeah I remember seeing a lot of post where you used that opening Sarge I think its a good opening because its not REALLY about the opening, its about just saying SOMETHING, Anything, just say something because you can't get laid unless you talk to them :-D (and I never had my head bit off by any of them)

Also, I think it lets the girl know that you are interested in them on a sexual level and not looking to be "Just Friends"

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So today had a girl open me at the library. We were sitting beside each other on the computers and she eventually asks me if I know how to find out how many characters are in a word document. As I looked it up on google the guy next to her told her and she thanks him then turns to me

her: well thank you anyways

me: no problem, glad I could help *chuckling*

then she re-engaged and we had a long convo about her career goals, how she speaks 10 languages, travelling, etc.

i tried to go sexual by asking about her ring. I was like “that is a big fucking ring” but she just chuckled and that was that. I hoped she’d explain more about it and I could grab her hand to inspect it.

anyhow she re-engaged 3 times when things went stale and when she left she was like “well, good luck to you and your stalking” (I was using google maps to inspect houses for my work and we joked I was a stalker)

anyhow:

1. She seemed into me but I was dead inside. I need touching and flirty banter or the girl is a Rock to me

2. She had so mAny talents and shit I honestly felt inferior to her. I mean I say all the tine I’m doing my dream job but it seemed like a shit job today. She kinda harped on it saying “oh... is that your dream job?” I just smirked sheepishly and said “it’s a living” which is retarded because I actually love what I do but I think this mindset cane about because:
a) I’m trying hard not to talk about boring stuff, like work
b) I’m trying not to qualify to the girl, when I get talking about sales I get really into it but I’ve noticed it comes across as me qualifying. MAny convos go dead after I go on my “I love what I do” rant OR it turns into a conversation (argument) about money. Last tine I talked about sales on a date it ended up being this lengthy argument about money, materialism, rich people, etc. Me being for all that stuff and her being against it. I got a heavy nakeout from that girl but she blocked me on the app.
c) she kinda harped in it like I said and I felt shitty

so that was that. Prolly could have went for a drink with her as the library is right next to the mall that has pubs and coffee places but yeah, I dunno. I’d really like to know how you alphas handle times when you’re not feeling the girl and are even a bit turned off by her. How do you turn that into a lay? Or do you just mentally tell her to fuck herself and ignore like I pretty much did?

i mean I wasn’t trying after a while and when she left I didn’t ask for her number or anything despite it being obvious she’s making an effort to talk to me.

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went to a mall food court. The girl working the till of my most frequent kiosk is cute. I definitely wanna fuck.

recently she showed me how to get an item off the menu for much cheaper by using the special for another item and just adding to it. When I get to the kiosk the woman ahead of me is getting that exact thing then she takes it and walks away. I step up.

Kiosk girl: hey! You’re back! (I was there previously in the day, that’s when she showed me the trick)

me: *smirking* did you miss me?

her: *cant remember what she said, maybe nithing*

me: *in hushed voice after making sure the woman is gone* you didn’t don’t give her the special thing

her: yeah I did!

me: oh, cool haha. I’ll just have a [different item] this time

her: ok that will be $

me: here.

*as I’m paying*

me: so have you been working here long?

her: uhh yeah, I’m off at [time]

me: is that an invitation?

her: nooo

ne: no I mean... is this your career?

her: haha! Nonono... blah blah

me: so how long have you been working here?

her: about a year

me: wow, a year is a long time! But I guess you gotta make money somehow

*at this point she seemed angry at me and quickly gave me my food and I left*

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Saw a girl wandering the parking lot just outside my home (car). Decided to get out. She was walking away parallel to me. We locked eye contact, I said “hey” she said hey and disappeared behind a wall. I went inside the store as if I had planned to do so all along.

Not sure how I could have gotten her in my car with me but that was the goal.

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Today there was a girl totally hinting at me in a gas station. She was getting loud and playful at the counter saying “you can’t win em all!” Then when she turned around she gave me a devilish smile a few times. Then when I left she was pumping gas facing me and she smiled again. I chickened out cause I didn’t know what to say. Any suggestions? This kind of thing happens to me every now and again. I need the right frame to set as potential fwb with her.