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A gay mate who doesn't like giving/receiving head.

Thought I'd post here and get some other peoples thought on this matter, I didn't think any gay guy existed who didn't like giving OR receiving head but a mate told me the other day he's not really a fan of either....

Everyone I've ever been with LOVES head and so do I rofl.

Thoughts?

PS Sorry if this is the wrong section for this, the others didn't seem right though.

Re: A gay mate who doesn't like giving/receiving head.

Of course it is not required for a gay man to do either. But I wonder what physical attraction, if any, that he has of other men. Is it all an emotional or personality attraction rather than any sexual attraction? Is he celibate? Anyway, it does seem to spell certain doom for a personal relationship with him, unless you are just like him.

Re: A gay mate who doesn't like giving/receiving head.

I just had a hot session with a guy who loved getting his ass cheeks rubbed, kneaded, and spanked, and his hole licked and fingered (he also let me blow him to completion). But he didn't want to be fucked. I guess there are an infinte number of combinations and permutations and it's a case of "to each his own."

Re: A gay mate who doesn't like giving/receiving head.

Originally Posted by I Love Cock

Thought I'd post here and get some other peoples thought on this matter, I didn't think any gay guy existed who didn't like giving OR receiving head but a mate told me the other day he's not really a fan of either....

Everyone I've ever been with LOVES head and so do I rofl.
Thoughts?

PS Sorry if this is the wrong section for this, the others didn't seem right though.

Do you know him well enough?
Do you really know his private life and what he likes sexually ?

Re: A gay mate who doesn't like giving/receiving head.

I'm pretty sure I've made it clear that I hate giving head. I spend more time licking and stroking than I do with it in my mouth. Not only is that a lot of work on my jaws, but I'm not trying to throw up. Unless I'm digesting a big meal.

Re: A gay mate who doesn't like giving/receiving head.

Does he like that cock head up his butthole? If you tell me he doesn't like that or fucking a guy then he aint gay. It's as simple as that! But maybe he had a bad experience sucking cock though I can't imagine what it would be and that doesn't explain why he doesn't like getting sucked.

Have him over and put some straight porn on and see if he gets a boner? If asked why you have the porn just say "I was curious what goes on"...after the hottest part (OK straight porn aint so hot) reach over and feel to see if he's hard. If so he's straight...JUST KIDDING!

Re: A gay mate who doesn't like giving/receiving head.

I would be far more concerned if he didn't like anal sex than oral sex. I'm not a huge fan of receiving oral. I don't mind giving oral but I don't get excited over it. I'm just a lazy top that wants someone to sit and spin.

Re: A gay mate who doesn't like giving/receiving head.

Yea he's a top only that doesn't like give/receiving oral so basically I told him I feel sorry for him lol.

I guess there's no reason to feel sorry for him though since it's not something he's never tried and doesn't know how good it can be, it's something he can't get excited over. It is still really weird imo but each to his own I guess as everyone else is saying here.

PS To the person who talked about checking if he was really gay by making him watch straight porn, I'd like to point out that I'm gay not bi but I still get hard from watching straight porn... it does have a guy in it lmao.

Re: A gay mate who doesn't like giving/receiving head.

^The Mafia says that he gets to live, and here's why.

I don't get off most of the time by receiving because - and this is going to hurt some feelings - a lot of guys just don't understand HOW to give head... ESPECIALLY the guys that learned about giving head by watching porn - mostly STRAIGHT porn.

Most of the guys i've encountered don't understand that Rome wasn't built in a fucking day - it took time. So does good head.

So unless you're a bottom(and most guys around my neck of the woods now usually are), I'd rather give or i'd rather fuck.

"Thereís death on the horizon,and Iíll run to behold your sacrifice..."

Re: A gay mate who doesn't like giving/receiving head.

I've never been wild about oral sex, either. Giving gets boring after a while, and receiving tickles... like, I'd just as soon have my feet tickled, it's that bad. And I've had enough different skill levels going down on me to know that it's not lack of skill on my partners' part... it just doesn't feel very nice to me. Mouths are just not very nice places, the teeth and hard palate being too much of what's in there.

Fucking, on the other hand, was always fun, giving and receiving. And kissing. Frottage is nice, too. All that.

I'm trying to remember now why I've been celibate for fifteen years. I know I had a reason, but it escapes me just now...

Re: A gay mate who doesn't like giving/receiving head.

I wish the OP would tell us more about his friend. Is the friend in a relationship? Has his attitude about oral sex effected his sex life?
Is he willing to do it even though he is not crazy about it? What is attitude in general toward his sexuality? Does he think sex is dirty in general?

Re: A gay mate who doesn't like giving/receiving head.

I've been with three men in the past week, and giving head was probably the most dull thing I did with them. Receiving it was OK, but a lot of them weren't getting me in the right places so it just felt like I was in the shower or something, my dick was wet but not much was happening.

Re: A gay mate who doesn't like giving/receiving head.

Originally Posted by I Love Cock

Yea he's a top only that doesn't like give/receiving oral so basically I told him I feel sorry for him lol.

Is he from the Middle East by any chance? This "top only, no oral sex" is very common among arabs and muslims. Being a bottom and a cocksucker is just too gay, while being the top-only threatens them less.

Re: A gay mate who doesn't like giving/receiving head.

Originally Posted by sixthson

Is he from the Middle East by any chance? This "top only, no oral sex" is very common among arabs and muslims. Being a bottom and a cocksucker is just too gay, while being the top-only threatens them less.

Sorry for late reply but no he's not, he's an Aussie like me from Melbourne.

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It's taken me a long time for my boyfriend to get me used to him going down on me. I'm krazy oral and got mad skilz, so he loves it when I do him, but he usually only likes it as extended foreplay and likes coming in my ass better. I'm incredibly uncomfortable awkward when he's going down on me still. Not that it doesn't feel good. It's just like... what am I supposed to be doing while he's doing it? It's also probably a lot to do with most of the guys I've been with were either total tops or hung up on being gay. Before him I'd maybe only gotten blown a handful of times and had never fucked anyone, he was the 1st one I ever did that to.