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should i trust??? whats the deal

i been marry a little over a year but lately my hubby is been acting weird theres a girl from ork thats also marry leaving him msgs on fb and now he also always delete any text he gets from her... should i trust him or ask him whats the deal....

Are you kidding? FOA, he wouldn't be deleting them if they were innocent. Don't count on the other woman "getting it" just because she's married & a mother. Don't stick your head in the sand. Deal with this assertively.

Although I do have to ask how do you know who he's getting texts from if he deletes them?

There is definetly something going on. You need to stop it now before it goes any further! Make it perfectly clear to your husband that you will not deal with any type of cheating-be it emotional or otherwise. If he needs to get a "womans" point of view than that woman needs to be you, his mom or his sister! Sometimes guys say they were just talking about things he needed advice on. if he tries to act like talking to her is helping your relationship he is lying! ok I don't want to blow shit out of proportion but I would be online checking out the phone records/account and finding out just how much he is really texting/talking to this woman. if he is talking to her more than you than something needs to change. if you don't draw the line NOW then he will keep doing it. something is not right and he is hiding it from you. trust your instincts! that womans intuition is correct 99% of the time. and if he tries to convince you they are just friends than there should be no reason she can't hang out with you both. maybe you guys can have a double date with her and her husband. he is your husband. there is no reason he should be hiding things from you.

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