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Would you bring it up again?

Posted by Anonymous

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My SO cheated on my about 4 months ago..or that is when I found out about it and he was still going over to that guy and girl's house every weekend at the time. We just had a newborn and have been together for 2 years. He told me that they didn't actually have sex. That they just "messed around". And I asked him if there was anyone else. He said no, just her.

Well, I got back with him 2 months ago. Things have been well, but we still have not had sex. I told him recently I wanted him to get tested. He agreed, but it had been bothering me so bad... I asked her personally if there was anyone else and if they had sex. She said "yes, he came onto me. And he had sex with my best friend too on my couch."

I called him repeatedly, like a crazy person...I was just upset and regret it now.. I asked him "why?" One of them was a fat teenage girl. I am a very sweet girlfriend, young(21), I work hard. Our daughter is beautiful.

Would you have brought it up again, after inding out new info? Or am I just being immature??

He would have been kicked out the door the first time I found out and NO, I would not allow him back in my life. Once a cheater, always a cheater. Don't give him another second of your life. Don't call him save your dignity for someone who deserves it.

Walk away. Now while you're young because it'll only get harder with every passing year.
One of these days you'll look back and say to yourself " Holy F##k he cheated on me when I was carrying his child. He played me for a fool" . Then you'll be angry that you wasted time and tears on this jerk.

He would have been kicked out the door the first time I found out and NO, I would not allow him back in my life. Once a cheater, always a cheater. Don't give him another second of your life. Don't call him save your dignity for someone who deserves it.

Yes I would have brought it up again. He LIED to you. He told you it was just the one chick. And now you find out that it wasn't just her. Most important thing in any relationship is trust. First he cheated and then he lied. There is no way he should be trusted anymore.

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