Make a good first impression is the mantra that is chiseled into our minds from a young age. So if we don’t land the job, don’t seal the deal, or don’t get the date, we often blame it on blotching it up in the first meeting. Just as we are so worried about creating a first impression we’re equally precipitous about forming an opinion about the way a person dresses, speaks, greets others or carries himself. All in the matter of a few seconds and if we’re wrong, we’ve shut ourselves from what could have been another beautiful human interaction.