porn
lots and lots of porn
however when this is over you'll still think of her (the porn got you into an emotional stasis mode)
next you should try to meet someone
if all else fails you should find some epic way to get revenge
if even that doesn't do the trick, genocidal rampage until the police have to kill you (i really hope you don't have to go that far)

Call me an asshole, but just move on? Obviously if she was THE love of your life, you would be together, merely by definition. So, why waste the time looking for them when you are dwelling on the past? And if the complications were inevitable, then you should know that there is no changing it. It takes time, but don't come to the internet for help.... That could be a mistake.