"Test everything; retain what is good.” (1 Thes 5:21) A laywoman expresses concerns about issues in the Roman Catholic Church to foster positive dialogue by posing and exploring questions.
Please remember that Canon Law says it is not only a right but a duty to question the church. Also, Canon Law provides an over-riding power to the sensus fidelium (sense of the faithful). By this, Canon Law says that if the sensus fidelium (collective of the faithful) reject a law, it is not valid.

For those unfamiliar with this Friday’s referendum in Ireland, the proposed
constitutional amendment would insert the following text in a new subsection to
Article 41 of the Irish Constitution.“Marriage
may be contracted in accordance with law by two persons without distinction as
to their sex.”

Anyway, I was the first person to arrive for Mass – the very first -
though I arrived about 10 minutes prior to Mass.The parking lot had but one vehicle as well
so I began to question the accuracy of the Mass time posted on the
internet.No worries, a priest greeted
me at the door and reassured me that a Mass actually would start in a few
minutes; I was just early, said he. Despite his reassurances, as I opened the door
to the empty sanctuary the lyrics from Pink Floyd’s “Comfortably Numb” popped into my head…“Hello, hello, hello, is there anybody in there?”

I thought, “O.K., the stampeding herds here must slide into their pews just
before Mass…kind of like Ty Cobb sliding into home base on a steal.”I sat awaiting the rush.

Well, if the teeming masses came to this Mass, they were invisible because
what I saw was barely more people in the pews than on the altar. We had two
priests, a deacon, a lector, an altar server and an old guy whose role never
became clear to me – all to attend to just a few dozen mass goers.The PPP (priest per person) ratio was pretty
high today, enough so to cause me to doubt lamentations about priest shortages.

As the deacon read the Archbishop’s statement, I found myself musing
about what must be going through his mind as he reads this pastoral reflection
practically to himself. I again heard Pink Floyd playing in my head, ”just nod if you can hear me…is there anyone at home?”

The Archbishop’s reflections included advising people to reflect carefully
upon same sex marriage’s implications for the family and parenthood.He also admitted, “…the severity with which
the Irish Church treated gay and lesbian people in the past – and in some cases
still today – makes it difficult for some to understand the Church’s position…”
on homosexuality and same sex marriage.

Yes, witnessing the mistreatment of homosexuals does make it difficult
for many Irish to understand the Church’s teachings on homosexuality.Adding to their confusion, in this part of
the world many people recall Scotland’s Cardinal Keith O’Brien’s resignation on
March 3, 2013, in which he said "I ... admit that there have been times
that my sexual conduct has fallen below the standards expected of me as a
priest, archbishop and cardinal."

His sexual conduct that had “fallen below the standards” expected of
him?He repeatedly made homosexual
advances towards seminarians and young priests.You see, like many clergy, Cardinal O’Brien is gay…yet he preached about
the perils of homosexuality all while living a closet homosexual’s life. Unlike many gay clergy, Cardinal O’Brien’s
sexual orientation is no longer hidden in the closet.But his expression of truth meant he couldn’t
hang with the homosexual clergy deniers club any longer.I can only imagine what kind of self-loathing
occurs when a person preaches as indisputable truth that one’s very self is “intrinsically
disordered.”

Since gays are people’s beloved children, relatives, friends, co-workers
and neighbors, I can also imagine people – were they in attendance – responding
to the Archbishop’s reflections by borrowing from Pink Floyd, “You are receding
- a distant ship smoke on the horizon…”My
dear bishops… your relevance and credibility seem to be fading like the distant
ship smoke on the horizon.This sentiment
echoed in today’s cavernous empty church.

I’m uncertain which statements by the Archbishop most inspired my mouth
to hang agape – the “We’ve historically treated homosexuals like crap but,
trust us; we’re the experts on what’s best for them...” or the ones about family
and parenting.I thought it took a
special kind of gall for the dear Archbishop in a country more severely and
recently damaged from the Church’s vast clergy sexual child molestation and cover-up
scandal than the U.S. to think people might actually care what the Church had
to say about children’s well-being.Granted,
Archbishop Diarmuid Martin personally has been more of an advocate for victims than
most bishops, but he still represents an institution that has repeatedly
botched handling sexually abusive clergy and shown deplorable insensitivity
towards sexual abuse survivors.

I wonder how many people view the hierarchy’s advice about marriage,
family and parenting as being akin to Pink Floyd's lyric, “Your lips move but I can’t hear what you’re saying…”

I spent a lot of time meditating upon the church’s vast emptiness
today.I think the majority of laypeople
feel the bishops have become comfortably numb – to their concerns and
contributions.And still the bishops
preach…to increasingly empty pews...assuming the laity are who have become comfortably numb.

Have you become comfortably numb? Is numbness to an organization that has become comfortably numb to children, homosexuals and women a bad thing?

“Hello, hello, hello….is there anybody in there?Just nod if you can hear me… Is there anyone
at home?”

7 comments:

Second attempt. Censorship?Author ought be archbishop of Dublin. More pastoral than the chief pastor.Martin preaching to empty pews! How pathetic! But, he's not missing his superb supper, served by servants paid by the surviving pew potatoes. PHEW!

Do not know what you mean by second attempt and censorship but all comments posted to this blog are moderated before being posted. That means I must see the comment and physically click on a button before they are published. Therefore there is a delay between when someone submits a comment and it appears. I switched to moderating comments because of the personal attacks. If you mean you tried to submit your comment twice, I do not know what became of your first attempt. I only had one comment appear in the box for moderation.

Do not assume that people attending Mass are contributing financially to the church. That seems very sweeping of a judgment and inaccurate. I do not know in which country you live but many highly Catholic countries are funded via tax dollars...regardless of who sits in the pews.

The pews are empty because that's the way people vote, with their feet. Hierarchical religions are irrelevant in a 21st century, educated society. Nobody really cares what bishops and priests say anymore, and that is progress, cultural evolution.

I firmly believe that people and institutions are “only as sick as their secrets," and the Vatican and its clergy abound in secrets. Therein, they have lost any semblance of the authority they once claimed. People are much smarter and more innately moral than they want to give them/us credit. Knowing the truth about things has set us free of the institution's rule over our lives. Pax et bonum is where it's at!

About Me

I am a single mother of three who from the eyes of the Roman Catholic hierarchy is in full communion with the Church. But I question if any woman is capable of being in full communion with the Roman Catholic Church due to clericalism, sexism, and the marginalization, and emotional abuse of women.
I hold a master degree in theology from Loyola (Master of Pastoral Studies, M.P.S.). I am not employed by the Catholic Church but rather am an executive consultant.
Some ask if I want to be a priest. We are baptized priest, prophet and king. I feel I am more called to exercise my prophetic voice than a priestly one.
(Artwork supplied courtesy of one of my daughters.)