Just need someone to talk to maby a little flirting. Decide who you are, what you want, what you can accept and what you can't. It starts with the Personality Test that lets the site get to know you and your ideal match in a fun, fresh way.Tinder, founded in 2012, has become one of the fastest growing social startups and mobile apps of all time.It would be nice to make a connection with someone. Hi all, not sure how to get started so I'll spit it out I'm a 29 yr. old black female in a very controlling marriage and I'm not happy in the least. Tinder was launched to address the social and physical barriers of forming new friendships and relationships.