I took the wife and the daughter out again tonight in the front yard for live fire training.

We came home from going out to eat, we walked in the door, and I told the wife, grab the rifle I want you to go shoot the targets,
(we have two upper body cut outs from 3/4" plywood screwed to the trees on the side of the drive way) I have been forcing this on them about weekly for months now. I do not get much discussion any more and they are getting faster at it.
I do not believe they will ever become as adapted to firing as I am but I hope by sticking with the same weapon, I can get them used to quick grab, shoulder, safety off, acquire target, and fire.