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Where are you waiting for permission?

I’ve got three questions for you to decide if this episode has some gold for you…

Where are you waiting for permission, before you can take that next step forward?

Where do you tell yourself you have permission – but still act small or unsure?

Where are you waiting on an external authority to say YES, before you begin?

Most women have a problem with permission.

Not feeling like we have the right, the readiness or the resources to take that next step forward.

In today’s blog we’re exploring the 3 key reasons women are waiting for permission. It might be permission to own your desires and your dreams, permission in the bedroom or the boardroom, permission to do things your way & break some rules – the embodied way.

1. Your body never received the permission slip

It’s easy tothink“Yes, I have permission”, but it’s quite another thing toembody it.

Our mind is capable of understanding/believing all kinds of ideals thoughts like:+ You are enough+ You have permission+ You are beautiful

This is the first biggest challenge for permission –Your body never received the permission slip

Our body is a barometer of who we truly are. What we are holding in there is what really defines the decisions that we make, the actions that we take and how we spend our time.

If you didn’t giveyourbodya chance tofeelthe permission slip.If you didn’t allow your body toreceivethe permission slip fully.Then it’s like the permission slip was written in invisible ink.A fleeting thought or idea which was here one minute, gone the next.

When we want a belief or a permission to be true indefinitely we’ve got to allow it to land in the body.

But that’s hard when there’s something or someone standing in the way of your permission slip…

Experience has shown the second biggest challenge to receiving permission is that the power of permission is with someone else

Permission is an act of power. And the most frequent challenge standing between women and their power is shame and sin.

This is a challenge I know well.

Recently I was pondering if I had permission to do a certain something in my business. I mean – who was I to claim/be/do this wild thing that I wanted.

Part of me was waiting for permission from an external source before I could move ahead. Until IrealizedI was waiting for that person‘s blessing,to absolve the shame and sin I felt.

There was an icky, uncomfortable, unflattering part of me that felt ashamed for wanting what I wanted. There was a heaviness in my heart that made me wonder if what I was doing was okay. And I didn’t want to feel those feelings.

Most of us avoid the uncomfortable sensations in our body.And when we do, we shut down that shame and lock it away.

Yet it’s that exact uncomfortable shame and sin that’s standing in the way of our power, and our permission.

So instead of waiting for an external authority to tell me yes, Jenna you have permission to do this. I decided to instead confront and commune with the uncomfortable shame I felt.

To tenderly unravel why I felt secretly felt the way I did – and to liberate it.

The practice I used for this is an embodied movement practice called Primal Feminine Flow, if you’re interested in starting your embodied journey it’s a digital download you can grab on our website atwww.jennaward.co/flow

As I sat with this shame and shifted it through my body. Irealizedmy own permission was already here – and this is the permission that I need FIRST, before anyone else’s.

This is key.

If you haven’t liberated what’s standing in your way. If you haven’t authentically accessed your own permission FIRST.

If you haven’t embodied that permission slip somatically.

Then no one can help you. No one else’s permission slip is going to help or going to stick.

Permission is an inside job first.

I’d love to hear from you. Where are you waiting for permission in your life right now – and what is required for you to embody your own permission slip first?

+ Is it simply a case of feeling it fully in your body?+ Do you need to take back the power of your permission+ Or is there shame standing in the way?

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I'm Jenna Ward, founder of the School Embodied Arts. As an ex-pharmacist turned embodied woman I intimately understand what it's like to live life feeling dis-connected & dis-embodied AND what's required to get out of your head, feel empowered by your emotions & claiming your sensual power. In this space you can expect to hear about real-life, practical applications of embodiment for the modern woman.