Have you been feeling really down lately? Feeling like you’re the only one left out? Asking yourself why everyone’s finding their niche and you’re not? Feeling useless? Like you have no bright future? Tired of hearing “start your own business” when you have no idea what to start? They say follow your passion but you have no idea what that “passion” is?

Well, I’m here to tell you this. Don’t beat yourself up about it.

Doesn’t sound like much help yeah?

But let me ask you, how will worrying help you? How will feeling down and lashing out on those around you help you in finding your niche? I’m pretty sure it hasn’t helped anyone.

I totally understand how you feel – trust me, I’ve been there.

So now, I’m gonna share with you what I did – which wasn’t much to be honest.

I just lived my life. As simple as that.

I supported those around me who had found their “niche”, I didn’t beat myself up about not figuring out what it is that I’ve been “called” to do. Most importantly I worked on developing myself. How? Mostly by reading, listening to motivational talks and messages. Lastly but definitely not the least, I kept an open mind.

Let’s break some of those down a bit shall we?

1. SUPPORT OTHERS

This might prove difficult to do but you can and should. Don’t let jealousy bring you down, always stay above envy. I know it might be hard to see those around you doing so well for themselves when you have nothing going for you. Instead of feeling jealous and angry, turn that into something positive by being of great support to them. When those feelings creep in, learn to replace them with positives, instead let their success motivate you. Know that you have total control over your MIND.

There’s so much joy in seeing the people you love do well for themselves. Besides, birds of the same feathers flock together right? If your close friends are successful, then there’s a high probability that you’ll be successful as well right?

So now, instead of feeling resentful, fill you heart with joy when your loved ones are achieving great things. 💃

2. SELF DEVELOPMENT

This can never be overstated. You need to continuously work on yourself, always seek to improve yourself, and who knows? You might just get an idea or two while at it. Like I mentioned earlier, read books and/or listen to people who will inspire/motivate you.

If you have a religion, PRAYER also comes in here. Seek guidance from God.

3. KEEP AN OPEN MIND

Yes, this one. Literally keep your mind open. Some things might come to you and you dismiss it because you think “it isn’t something you can pull off” or better still, you don’t even recognize that it’s an idea because you’re not paying attention or open to different possibilities.

When you open your mind to different possibilities, you’ll be amazed.

ONE LAST TIP:

GO FOR IT

Is there one thing – or two – that you’ve had in mind for so long but you’re scared to take that step? Or worried about what people might think/say? I tell you, a few years down from now, you’ll regret not taking that leap of faith.

Better an oops than a what if!

OR

Just try something out. Maybe a hobby or something you think you could be good at and see how it goes. There’s no harm in trying, you know? Don’t underestimate yourself.

BOOK RECOMMENDATION: SO GOOD THEY CAN’T IGNORE YOU BY CARL NEWPORT.

As always, to my lovely readers, if you have anything to add to this post, do make your thoughts known in the comments section. Don’t forget to share. See ya!

Finally the day has arrived. It’s been a mixture of feelings – anxious, excited, nervous, elated. There ain’t no turning back now.

So here it is, My Inspirational Jewelry Line and Jaw-dropping website (Yes, I know it is).

Let me break down each section of my site to you.

HOME PAGE

This page contains short cuts to other pages on the site. This is also where you can sign up to my newsletter. Signing up will give you the chance to get notifications of any promotions, offers or giveaways I will have in the future.

ABOUT PAGE

Obviously a page that’s about me and why I do what I do. It gives you a little glimpse about who I am. Click hereto find out about me.

SHOP

Now this is a must click. As you may or may not know by now, I have a jewelry line, not your regular jewelry but an inspirational jewelry line. I’d love to go intoall the details of why I started this but you’ll fine all that here

My Jewelry is not about me but about you, in fact it’s about all of us. A piece to keep you going no matter how hard things get. So, do make sure to head to the shop page to get a piece for yourself and a loved one. Trust me, you won’t regret it.

BLOG

My first baby. Started blogging at the beginning of the year and I must say, it’s been amazing so far. I write about relationships, celibacy (I know right?) and everything in between. I’ve heard my writing is super amazing and engaging, so definitely stick around for that.

GET INSPIRED

Now this is a breath of fresh air. I’ll upload daily motivational quotes on here – You saw that right, DAILY. So everyday make sure you stop by to get that early morning boost. Sometimes we don’t even realize we need some boost or motivation until we get it. There’s just something about reading, listening or watching something can could change the course of your day. To ensure you don’t miss this, make sure to subscribe to my site.

WORK WITH ME

There are several you can work with me. We could work on a project together (collaborate), maybe you’re a fellow blogger and you’d like us to work together and make magic happen? Have a product you’ll like me to review and reveal and my site? or you want to place an ad on my website (where thousands of people can see what you have to offer)? Then contact me.

That’s it! But of course, as I grow and evolve so will my website and everything included. I’m super excited for this new journey.

Please SUBSCRIBE to my site and SHOPsome inspirational jewelries. If not for yourself then for someone you care about or both. Have a fabulous week.

When did being a smart, masculine, spiritual thinker become a thing to be ashamed of?

Where are the strong men? Where are the spiritually minded men? Where are our kings?

Ask any guy around you who they want to be in the future. – Go on, Ask!

I’m pretty sure most will say something like this “I wanna be able to take care of my family, be the man of the house/breadwiner, etc.

But how can you ascend the throne with a slave mentality? You want to be kings but you think like slaves! How on earth do you expect that to happen? Sticking with your slave mentality will do nothing but hold you back from being who you want and should be!

God never gives thrones to slaves. He reserves thrones for kings.

Guys!!!! Men!!! Boys!!! You have to stop being so damn easy. So easy to be swayed into bed, so easy to get your attention with a mere dress.

We always tell girls to keep themselves, to value their body and their dignity but I believe it’s high time we start to lecture the men as well. Where is your dignity man?

Stop being so quick and fast to present a woman with the opportunity to sample your scepter before you even establish whether or not she’s worthy to share in your power.

You as a man, are a powerful being, I mean, you are a King! You’ve got great power flowing in you but do you ever pause for a minute to ask yourself “who will I share this power with?” Whoever you’re sharing your scepter with is your queen. So before you share your scepter again with any lady, ask yourself, is she worthy enough to be my queen? And as a King that you are, ask yourself “Is this the right time to share my scepter with her?” – We all know what scepter is right? 😃

Don’t be the type who goes around dispensing his power in different hotel rooms, laying down his manhood for instant gratification. Kings do not succumb. Many of you would be great in life if you valued your penis more than you do now.

If you are familiar with traditional movies – for me, it’s Korean drama – you’ll know that a king usually looks to marry a woman with a powerful background. What do you look for in your queen? – Go on and right that down.

Now, do you possess half of your listed criteria? Are you the kind of man a woman like that would desire to be with?
Remember the story of Esau and Jacob? I wonder how many men are selling their birth right to be Kings over a bowl of sex-soup.

As a man, possess your body in honor.

You all are kings! Know your worth and walk proudly in it.

Fellas, don’t recklessly offer up your seed to a woman without determining if she is worth it or not. Most do it backwards; offer up their seeds first (all in the name of pleasure) before considering if she’s worth it – and by now, you’ve already run the risk of impregnating her.

It’s time men take a step back, think, breathe and start valuing their seeds for its worth.