Why not have him test to see if he really is positive rather than jumping the gun? Otherwise condoms if used properly is considered safe sex no matter the circumstances. Toys are another option. So is mutual masterbation. Doesn't matter if your pregnant or not still the same that's why you can't find information.

The problem is that his test came back as inconclusive, and he has to go through more testing. He has lupus which is making the results a bit less reliable. However, it is a very real possibility at this point so it's really not jumping the gun. If I wasn't pregnant this wouldn't be an issue to me. I love him, and his status will never change that. But we both want to make sure that the baby is safe.

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