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Hi ladies, and thanks so much for stopping by :) Hope we get a chance to chat to get to know each other. My name is Christian and I live in San Francisco. It's beautiful and I really enjoy it. I've lived here for 17 years.I am a writer and public speaker and I do a decent amount of interesting travel. Recently, I have been to Brazil and China. I've also visited much of Europe, Moscow, and Tokyo. I also get to several cities around the US. I enjoy seeing new places but I also love returning to home sweet home.I go to baseball, NBA and NFL games a few times a year. I have also been known to take friends on guided tours of the beautiful wineries here.I don't have one right now, but I also like gardening quite a bit. I'm a dog lover but don't own a dog because of space considerations... Someday I will.I love to try out new restaurants, which is easy here in San Francisco. I am equally comfortable in expensive restaurants and cheap holes in the wall and am infamous for my love of spicy food, although I am certainly accommodating of those who can't take the heat :) I love Thai and Vietnamese food in particular, and Mexican and Indian/Pakistani on occasion. I also love shellfish and hit fish shacks often -- Oysters, Clams, Mussels, Lobster, etc...I also love to go hear live music of any kind, whether it be Jazz, Blues, bluegrass, the symphony or opera in the park.Hope you send me a note :)

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Why am I asked to respond to the questions as a child?

Any woman who has more than one child can tell you how different each child is from birth. You are born with your personality intact. The Color Code is based on your natural, innate personality type. Of course, people may change over time, but your Core Color will always remain the same.

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