just for fun, do you think your guy would tell his pal if he found signs of her cheating on the computer?

yeah i think he would. we already saw one of his best friends girls riding in the car with another dude one day in traffic. he called and told him...i was LOLing but i think he did it bc he really doesn't like her.

If I really liked her and saw her as a friend, I would tell. Matter of fact, I probably woulda called her to come over right then and there so she could see for herself.

I would do it cuz I would wanna know.

If one of my friends found out my man was cheating on me and then waited til after the ish hit the fan to tell me she's been looking me in my face all along, I would feel some type of way.

If you do decide not to say anything, don't ever let on you knew and didn't say anything. She may resent you letting her be the last to know. Just play shocked along with everyone else.

we all hung out earlier today. i felt weird but i am not going to do anything about it and pretend as if i didn't see anything. there's really no way for me to feel comfortable enough saying it and i'm not about to go hunting for him on the site and fwd the info to her...it's just doing too much. im the type of person who lives with a heavy conscious when i feel like ive done something wrong but most ppl don't think that way so i'll have to ignore that side of myself.

If she doesn't know by now, she'll find out on her own. Allow her to do just that. Sad to say, there's plenty of women out there that'll go crazy over a man, and still keep him.....no matter how shytty he is. She'll be fine when she "wakes up".

if we would all quit this mindset, maybe the world would be a better place.--and that goes for everything

If she doesn't know by now, she'll find out on her own. Allow her to do just that. Sad to say, there's plenty of women out there that'll go crazy over a man, and still keep him.....no matter how shytty he is. She'll be fine when she "wakes up".

if we would all quit this mindset, maybe the world would be a better place.--and that goes for everything

Yeah......but in THIS case, ( unless she was being physically abused) her staying in it could backfire. Plus, she hasn't even known them that long, so what would be the point?

If you aren't going to tell her then don't hang out with them anymore. No need to put yourself in that awkward situation and it sucks that everyone in that group knows she is being cheated on now, but her.

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