Our Corrupted Generation

What do you hear hear when you turn on the radio or put a CD in a player? What do you see when you turn on the television, pop in a DVD, or Blue-ray disc? What do you read when you turn the pages of a magazine, or scroll down web pages? What do you hear when you listen to the way your peers talk? Most kids may not think much of it, but our way of life as teens seems to be prophesied for us by something known as the Media. TV shows or songs say that sex is great and you'll have kids doing it. Television shows and movies glamorize drug use and you'll see kids lighting up joints in-between classes. Songs rap, scream, or dare I say, actually sing violent lyrics out and the listeners start to feel more aggressive. And who can forget the commonly used f word that we hear both from the speakers of electrical devices and human lips? Is that as high as our teenage vocabulary is? Have we never heard of verbs, adverbs, adjectives before? I always thought that was why we have an English class every school year. Am I making any of this up? No, these things are all placed out there first and then they come true through the actions of people. Now, I'm not saying that things were going great before everything seemed to be about sex, drugs, violence, drinking, but what I am saying is that in our day and age kids are making less and less decisions from their conscience and instead look at the Media to see what is considered cool. The Media is a powerful force rather we choose to believe that or not. It can be used to promote good behaviors, but more often than not it is used to advertise things such as alcohol and how it makes you look gorgeous and popular. Hm, I wonder why they don't show any people with beer bellies or alcohol related car accidents in those ads. I'm assuming most of you know who the moron known as Lil Wayne is. I'm also assuming you know the ridiculously stupid song "Lollipop" is. And it's things like that that make kids curious on these things. Let get one thing out here about how a lot of guys view life as a teen. There's this thing spreading around that a guy is to go out there and get laid as much as possible before he becomes a full fledged adult. At which point he is probably married and has to stay with his wife for the rest of his life, (Assuming they take commitment seriously, which by the way they were as kids probably means they don't). And if a guy doesn't have sex that makes him a loser. This is more or less true at my school. I am an eighteen year old male and have NOT had sex. If I were to say that to the kids that I sit with at lunch I'd be laughed out of the cafeteria. What does that tell you about our teen peers? To give you an idea of how bad things are in my school let me tell you that the county that it is in has the highest percentage of both pregnancies and STDs of any county in Texas. And Texas is the biggest of the connected states! I'm not sure if it still is, but if you are curious the county is Kaufman county. Sadly that is not the only thing that the kids at my school are confused about. Drug use is also a serious problem. Several times I have walked down outside stair Trails and seen kids smoking pot. It's acridly sour, yet sweet smell is hard to forget once you get a big whiff of it. More than once I have been offered to try it. I have always declined and was unafraid to tell them how bad it is for their health. As of now I have only gotten one kid to stop smoking. The feeling of seeing someone become clean is amazing. It's still sad seeing our fellow teens smoking or doing worse kinds of drugs. When I asked the kid who had stopped smoking how he had become addicted to drugs in the first place he said it was after only smoking once. So to everybody out there the saying, "It only takes one time" is not a lie it is a truth that is too often ignored as kids try to satisfy their curiosity. Or more tragically to be used as a means to get over their troubled feelings. Or perhaps to get acceptance in our degrading youth generation. Don't get me wrong I am not saying that denying every wrong that the Media bombards us with will make our lives easier. I can tell you from my perspective that it can make for a very lonely life. In my school my morals have made me somewhat of a weirdo. I could count my friends with one hand, and I'd have to fold every finger making my hand a fist if I were to number only friends who would consider me close and invite me out with them. Although I'd probably decline all invites to a party. I have no desire to experience what goes on when teen drinking is at it's worst. Heck, I've never even had a girlfriend for pretty much the same reason. So many girls are moral-less and just as much aggressors as the guys. At least that's how it is at my school. And I have no desire to be with that kind of girl. But what you can count on is that those people will look back in the future and wish they had made better choices when they young. It never ceases to amaze me how many poor teenagers could not find any constructive ways to get over not being accepted in a vile society that values misconduct in favor of knowledge. Kids in our generation grow up so fast, and yet they stay as stubborn if not more so than before. Just recently I have put all my free time of lonely nights into writing time. And not just any writing, considering that I have all the time in the world available to me I have used that time to make a novel. I've written so much that it has had to be trimmed down in length. But writing solo comes with a drawback. Feedback is all but unheard of. Parents are busy, siblings are either too young or have moved out, kids in school don't like to read, teachers are too busy or just don't care about reading kids work that isn't going into the grade book. But I don't let any of that lower my spirits. I write on, no matter the barriers set by the limits. Remember my fellow teens, you are strong. You are not robotic drones that have to do what the Media motherboard says to do. You can tune out all the wrong that is constantly bombarded at us like an attack on our way of thinking. And you can make a difference. Standing up to the beast that is the Media is not a futile effort. We are not taking a knife to a gunfight, but a pen. And a pen is not only mightier than a sword, but even the lead belching dragon. Treaties have ended bloody never ending gunfights. So why can it not at least lower the amount of influence that the Media has on our youth? Because lets face it, are we expected to be the digitally altered perfect models we see in magazines? That's not even realistic and yet those things make it into print and distrubuted. How many eating disorders have been linked to negative body images brought upon by unrealistic images of too perfect bodies? That goes for both girls and boys. The Media is no longer just harmless entertainment like it once was. It is a dangerous teacher that kids pay more attention to then their school teacher giving that English or Science lesson. So the next time you turn on that radio, television, movie player stop and realize that what is saying does not just disappear. It does affect our way of thinking. The effects may not always be instantaneous but they can build up inside us little by little. Not everyone is gifted with the ability to not be swayed by these things. Even I who have seen and heard some of the worst that is has to offer and never been altered by it have found it sometimes difficult to keep my thoughts within my standards. So whatever you do should it be unavoidable that you not be exposed to the ever increasing number of bad influences around us, remember who you are. You are not expected to be like that singer singing about that highly suggestive topic. You are free to make your own choices. The right ones.

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Though I agree with some of your claims, do you consider the fact that referring to "your school" poisons you outlook on the whole subject? I sense a load of hasty generalizations in your writing. For example, when you mention "So many girls are moral-less and just as much aggressors as the guys. At least that's how it is at my school." you make an assumptions just off of actions in your school alone. Maybe strengthen your argument more by using some sort of outside source but every time I see "... (more »)

dude i dont mean to be rude but arent you doing exactly what youre against. individuality does not exist since everyone is already technically conformed. but they are split in groups. the bad kids, the good kids, you are on that borderline because you are trying to make people conform to not conform which is conformity

This is Sad to see our generation, We live on sex and drugs. Why cant we be nice people that work hard instead of doped out druggess living off the goverment check. I'm 18, and all i hear about is "Oh i got so high and drunk" and im sitting their with ane-cig(that i only started a few months ago) Think about how much we have fallen. I lsiten to Screamo cause it does calm me, but never stuff about killing or murdering, That stuff is just useless and stupid. I do believe we are all f... (more »)

HateMediareplied...May 23, 2014 at 10:40 am

Today's world revolves solely around social media. It's power is beyond compare and we'll never be able to truly use it for good. Our society has been shifted many times but our media will always manipulate us like clay. It is difficult to understand why people do all these bad things to influence the society. We, are the new age, we have the power to change this world, let's do it guys!!

Its sad to see this current generation of 12-25 year olds being so corrupted by what is force fed to them by the media. As a teenager in the 1990s we never had this rubbish. Most of us grew up sarcastic, despondent, apathetic yet peace loving. Yes you had that rap crap but it wasnt anywhere near as bad as it is now. we didnt really give a damn about anything. Now this current generation of Teens are perverted, violent, lack discipline and have no direction in life but to follow talentless attent... (more »)

I am thrilled whenever I see one of today's kids actually "get it". I grew up in the 80s and back then it was common to see advertisements endorsing things that educated kids to stop drugs, casual sex, etc.

But at some point in the 90s, it all stopped. Was it a coincidence that Clinton was President at the time? No idea. But it's worth noting.

While GW Bush was in office things continued to get worse. It seems to me that the Internet was a major turning point towards the worst. ... (more »)

I am doing a social commentary project on something similar to this topic. My angle is more on how teens are being influenced by media, but that it is because they are choosing the wrong types to be influenced by. Nobody is naiive enough to think that throwing a rager like the one in "Project X" is a good idea, considering that the film ended with criminal charges. the teens just ignore the consequence part. Why dont they choose the movies that are meant (or should) to be copied to act upon? any... (more »)

A heartfelt "Bravissimo" to WriterA.M. for his style of writing! Despite the fact that you have had little editing, you have created a masterpiece. Thank you for your Orwellian outlook on today's culture;I strongly agree with this article. I have been blessed with friends who agree with me most of the time. However, my closest friend, "Alaska," has a difficult stuggle with what the Media feeds this world. For a Creative Writing class, I wrote a first-person short story on a girl from 2053 Am... (more »)

I agree with the way you think. Just because everyone's doing it doesn't make it right. I myself don't have alot of friends too. Maybe I am just not the kind who likes to gossip and hurt other people's feelings. Furthermore, it so true that the media have given immense effects to teenagers. Even I myself have gone into the trap of Media, hoping to achieve that perfect slim body. It is so difficult to control my mind. At first, when you see some wrong messages, your reaction is like" Hey... This ... (more »)

FroBro, not only is that comment unhelpful, it's downright mean. WriterAM is expressing his opinion - it happens to be one I agree with, but even if I didn't, I still wouldn't treat him with that amount of disrespect.

In regards to WriterAM himself, way to be secure. You're an inspiration.

How is that mean? He is attacking people of a different lifestyle in his paper. I think it's perfectly fine for him to respond that way. Just because you want to live your life a certain way doesn't mean that everyone who lives by different morals is lesser than you.

He has the right to say what he wants as much as I have the right to state the exact opposite. It isn't disrespectful to disagree with someone, but it's very disrespectful to downplay someones lifestyle.

i don't study this stuff but in my opinion the reason so much in pop culture is related to sex is because its the big taBOO OF PREVIOUS eras. Although to be fair a lot a lot of books,music, and movies seem to glorify romance not sex

Great article. I'd definitely like to write with you on something I think you would interested in that's related to what you're saying here. However, since TeenInk doesnt like it when we share personal information and we can't message each other over this site, I don't know how to contact you.