I don't want to sound like I'm hating on Tulisa, but when she said she was sharing an 'intimite moment', why was the moment being recorded? she said they talked about marriage and kids, were the two of them going to sit down and watch the footage on an anniversary or something?

Tulisa did not handle the whole situation properly. her and herr team first denied that it then later admitted it. That alone tarnished her image. When the tape was released

she relesaes a new music video called we are young which shows her licking ice cream of a table, doesn thelp the situation.

She let him record it because it was a naughty thrill. I've been there and done it when I was younger so I can really sympathise with her because I know how I'd feel if I bumped into it online one day. I also know how easy it is for a girl whose young and relatively inexperienced in the process of their sexual awakening to be persuaded to do things by somebody they love and trust.

I don't think she handled it badly to be honest. If it was me then I'd deny it initially out of embarassment. I'd need to come to terms with what had happened before I'd be in a fit state to admit to it and talk about it. The point is: she shouldn't have had to handle it. It should never have been released and I think we need to remember that it doesn't matter about her image or any of that stuff... the fact is that she is still the victim here.

Loads of people tape themselves doing things, just like loads of people send nude photos or even just take nude photos. The thing they have to understand is, once it's been taken, it will get out at some point if it isn't deleted straight after.

If people are willing to face the consequences of what happens when said footage is leaked, then so be it. But there are so many celebs who do this and seem to think it will never get out into the public eye which is a very naive and pathetic belief, tbh.

(Original post by Delta_Aitch)
Loads of people tape themselves doing things, just like loads of people send nude photos or even just take nude photos. The thing they have to understand is, once it's been taken, it will get out at some point if it isn't deleted straight after.

Tbh I doubt that many people would want to see any sex tape involving me, and I highly doubt that anything I've made will ever see the light of day beyond the people involved.

People on here are so prudish. Sex tapes exist, a lot, if not most people with a fairly open mind will have made, or will make them. Just cos shes famous its neither here nor there. Is she not supposed to have a private life? Anyway, it was done when she was young, before she was properly famous.

(Original post by Riderz)
Tbh I doubt that many people would want to see any sex tape involving me, and I highly doubt that anything I've made will ever see the light of day beyond the people involved.

People on here are so prudish. Sex tapes exist, a lot, if not most people with a fairly open mind will have made, or will make them. Just cos shes famous its neither here nor there. Is she not supposed to have a private life? Anyway, it was done when she was young, before she was properly famous.

I'm going to bet that at some point, something you've taken will get out. I've seen it will all of my friends (regardless of if it's just them showing me themselves) these things never stay private. Whether it's a few months down the line, or a few years, the chances are, it will get leaked. That's just life, tbh.

Tape yourself having sex, have a ball with it. But just be prepared for what happens if said tape gets leaked. A lot of people go into this thinking it will never see the light of day, and that's just silly, imo. Always prepare for the fallout of anything you do