I knew this girl for over a year now.but they parked into our compound some months back.to cut short the story,a friend of mine was/is interested in her but she told him that they could be friends.Four days ago,i got a call from a private number.she said she was my old friend but refused to tell her name.Yesterday she called and ask if i had not stil recognise her voice.I was able to pick the voice but pretended not to.She sent an sms and still used a private number asking if her voice is not familiar.I told her am not 100% sure.I checked the number she used in sending the sms on my sisters phone, it was same with the one she sent the message.Now am confused because my friend loves her and i also feel for her.What am i to do?advice needed please!

Dude! U want to fall for a babe Babes are inconsistent in thier thoughts, today its you, 2mrw it mite be some oda guy. Somethimes, thier emotions is triggered by the most stupid detail( by a guy's standard). Unless u want to put a ring in her finger n very sure about her character n person, abeg dont even think of falling in love, u jus gonna look stupid.

@Florena sincerely sometime ago i feel 4 her but i kept it 2 myself.my friend was interested,so i told him to go ahead.Yesterday we discussed the issue.Not until dis morning i realised she was d one.@mitwitdot thanks for the advice

Ok.but dont u think my friend will not be happy with my action.because i told him about d private number.but now that i know who she was.i dont know what 2 tell him if he ask about the so called invisible lady@Izukwu

I think u shall let ur guy know what is going on so that u guys will know what action to take I am talking 4rm my experience cus it has happen to me some years ago my case was that I met her thru my friend I never had any intension towards her but found out that she was interested in me than my friend who was asking her out, she could call me any time send sms any time of the day yet refuse to return calls 4rm my friend or reply his sms. I have to let him know what was going on btween me and the gal and he realise that he is nt going to get her and gave me a go ahead order and I was single then I took the chance, so my advice is let ur guy know

Ucheosefoh: I think u shall let ur guy know what is going on so that u guys will know what action to take I am talking 4rm my experience cus it has happen to me some years ago my case was that I met her thru my friend I never had any intension towards her but found out that she was interested in me than my friend who was asking her out, she could call me any time send sms any time of the day yet refuse to return calls 4rm my friend or reply his sms. I have to let him know what was going on btween me and the gal and he realise that he is nt going to get her and gave me a go ahead order and I was single then I took the chance, so my advice is let ur guy know

.Good advice my guy.You are highly appreciated.But do you think i should call her 1 on 1 to discuss before telling my friend?

Thanks peepz for your numerous advice.At the end i discussed with my friend and finally talk 2 her and she agreed after confessing that she loved me since before they parked 2 our compound and got my number from my sisters phone secretly.End of the matter is that we are now lovers.Thanks 4 ur various advice.