Tuesday, 22 October 2013

I Know my Mother Must Have been Furious about My Small Stature - - Osita Iheme.

He Bore it all in the Interview Below , See excerpts below:

You are one of the favourite faces in the Nollywood, but
recently, it seems you have diverted a title bit or kept a low profile.
What really prompted this?

No, I don’t think so. What do you
mean by I kept a low profile? That shows you have not fully been
following the movie. Have you been to Alaba for a while now? (…laughs)
Maybe you have not been watching some movies lately.

Do you ever query your mum why you have this stature?

Why
should I do that, my parents are not God. I don’t have to worry her
over that. I believe if she knows, she might have tried to do something
about it. I know she must have been furious about it when she discovered
that I am of small stature, but I feel good because what is supposed to
be a burden to her and the entire family is now a blessing. I am happy
and my family is happy as well.

How has this name and stature brought you fame?
I
thank God in every situation and place I found myself. The moment I
discovered that this is the way I am, I asked myself what was the next
thing to do, but the spirit in me said I should remain focused. The
secret is that I don’t see myself as short until when people draw my
attention to it. I have come to realise that it is not by size and it
requires that I will definitely get my own portion. It is always good to
know who you are and where you are coming from. Some people don’t
really know who they are and it is good to communicate with God to
discover yourself. If you don’t have a close relationship with Him, you
won’t be able to identify who you really are. You need to see yourself
as an important personality. Being a peculiar person attracts people to
me and I have never looked inferior due to my stature, it has rather
turned my disability into ‘This ability’ and it has helped me a lot. I
give thanks to God for giving me this wisdom that enabled me to think on
what to do at the right time. Opportunity is like a boy without a
parent or guardian; it means you can jam it anywhere, especially when
you come out from your comfort zone. My look or stature created so many
opportunities for me.

The
emergence of Aki and Pawpaw gave the movie industry a new face, both of
you usually command attention, it even got to a stage movie is not
complete without showcasing Aki and Pawpaw. What do you feel with this
development?
No doubt, Aki and Pawpaw gave the Nollywood
another name because of the peculiar nature of the actors coming
together in the movie world. Our coming together in the industry created
another perception of how people view and relate with people with a
small stature. We came to break the barrier and correct the wrong
impression and stigma placed on us. We were able to state clear that no
matter your disability, you can still make it in your life time. You
have the right to do what you wish irrespective of your environment or
discriminations. And with the grace of God, we did it and through this,
we have been able to educate a lot of people.

But it seems the intimacy is not what it used to be,
considering the rumour doing the rounds that Aki had dumped you for his
wife. What do you see to this?
Getting married is not a big
deal. It is a good move for a man to wake up one morning and say he
wants to get married. I don’t think we will have any barrier in our
closeness or relationship. I don’t know why the rumour is doing the
rounds that we have parted ways. You know people like to make news out
of what is not. If we were not in good terms, would I be his best man?

But you guys no longer live together as before?
Yes.
We were living together before, but we had to re-adjust our bachelor
life since he is married. As a matter of fact, we visit each other.

How did you feel when that woman suddenly came to snatch him away from you?
A bachelor must have it at the back of his mind that one day a woman will come in and take charge of the house.

Considering the intimacy, people thought you guys would also make a record by knotting the tie same day?
(…Laughs) God has a way of doing things and since God wants it that way it will definitely happen.

It seems you are enjoying your bachelor life?
I am enjoying my life. You know everyone has the right to enjoy life, either bachelor or not, that is why we are here.

People, especially your fans, can’t wait to see you get married?
It is a good thing. I am inviting all and sundry for a day like that and I know they will all come.

When exactly should they look to?
Is
that what we are talking about now? We are talking about political
issues in the country; you have to secure your life first before you can
talk about all these things. We are talking about the way forward. When
you get the way forward then you will now build future for the
children.

What is your take on the emerging nude films being produced?
That
is what I was saying. A lot of people came into the industry to do all
sorts with the mindset of making waves by all means. It is after one
gives them a hand that you see them going naked all in an attempt to
become a star. To me, it is uncalled for. You don’t have to show the
size of your boobs before people know that you have penchant for acting.
We are warning them, especially those girls and the directors that want
to use the industry as a medium to flaunt their bodies. We are taking
necessary steps to stop whoever wants to tarnish the image of the
association.

You are speaking authoritatively; have you also dreamt to become the next president of the association?
No.
I have not thought of that, but if tomorrow comes, I can go. For me, I
always nurture the idea to lead my people. It might not be Nollywood.

Are you comfortable with the governance of President Jonathan?
Fine;
I am comfortable with it, but you know when you are in governance,
there are lots of challenges and oppositions I think so far, President
Goodluck Jonathan has been doing well. Take a look at the power sector.
He is making sure that Nigerians enjoy electricity and other things. At
the same time, he still faces other political issues on the new and the
old but all these lies on the aspiration of the Nigerian youths. The
problem is that the new generations are no more asking questions and it
is until we begin to ask questions that our leaders will begin to think
right. The Nigerian dream we are talking about is the youths.

How is the experience like with your being close to the president?
He is the president and we are the subjects. I don’t think it is a bad idea to be closed to my President.

Even your intimacy with his children?
If
you are closer to a president’s child, that means you are close to the
president too. His children are still in their tender age. If you are
close to me now you will be close to my family as well. To me, it is a
great privilege to be close to the commander in chief of the most
popular black nation. It is an honour and I feel very proud to have such
opportunity. The experience has been awesome and interesting because
it is a big open family.