Fat people are people too. They deserve some kind of respect. It's when they start begging for sex that's when you should shoot them down like you would to any guy who you do not want to have sex with.

On a side note:

new_guyme saidso I only get hit on by morbidly obese guys.

Seriously? No good looking guy finds you attractive? You're kidding, right? Not even the lobster-catching sea-hunks?????

The so-called "FATTIES" may or may-not be "desperate".....and there may be a bit of exaggeration or misrepresentation going on, on both sides of the conversation. But the OP responded in order for this to happen.....certainly you can ask questions that would get to the heart of what you are looking for.....from, say "tell me what you like to eat over a day", to "what is your favorite activity, gym, bike, hike, run, climb, etc?"....lots can be inferred from this. If he says that he watches TV all day and eats chips and pizza and pop or beer, and smokes constantly..... I would expect him to be a bit on the round side....and not meet him.

I find it interesting that this is the second thread by you in less than a week, on the subject of being disappointed on a first meeting with a guy because he was heavier than you expected.....maybe YOU need to change something in your profile to attract a different type? ...regardless, if you aren't attracted or have reservations about someone, why hang around or do something that makes you uncomfortable?

"...how do these guys continue to eat knowing its their own morbid fatness that's getting them rejected?"

Do you always eat proper portions? Do you always eat the right foods? Probably not. Those not blessed with a high metabolism have a hard road ahead of them. Plus, food addiction is just as powerful as any other addition, except you can't cold turkey food. So it makes it a lot harder to control.

"Or do a lot of guys actually let them come and just keep their eyes closed?"

Yes. Some guys have no backbone and would rather have sex with someone they're not attracted to than to hurt their feelings. (I am not one of those guys!)

I have respect for fat people who know they are overweight and are trying to rectify it, but those heffers that go through the McDonald's drive-thru everyday and order 3 McDoubles, a large fry, and wait for it, wait for it... oh a DIET COKE because they are watching their figure, piss me the fuck off. Get real.

KardioKing saidI have respect for fat people who know they are overweight and are trying to rectify it, but those heffers that go through the McDonald's drive-thru everyday and order 3 McDoubles, a large fry, and wait for it, wait for it... oh a DIET COKE because they are watching their figure, piss me the fuck off. Get real.