I have had s_x with my boyfriend and i am 10 weeks pregnant . I got very worried as i didnt know if it was "safe" , so i searhed around looking for answers and every post i came to said that they had misscarried after having s_x. I cant stop crying , i didnt know this could happen and i we have been longing for this baby for so long.I havent got any bleeding or cramps after we had finished. Am i safe and is there others out there that have been fine . Please reply .

I think s_x in your first trimester is perfectly safe - providing it's a "normal, low-risk pregnancy" - which yours sounds like it is.
I've read that s_x is not recommended if you've been bleeding or spotting. Check out these two website addresses below which say s_x is fine.
http://www.amomstouch.com/firsttris_xissues.htm
http://www.drspock.com/article/0,1510,5271,00.html
Take care
JemX

kk i had s_x in all three trimesters with my daughter and am with this child the only time i would not have s_x is if you are in high risk or the doctor says no s_x. otherwise it is safe and healthy UNLESS YOU ARE BLEEDING