Indications That Your Spouse May Be Cheating On You

Indications That Your Spouse May Be Cheating On You

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O'Sullivan Law Group

You have a sinking feeling in the pit of your stomach, something is not
right but you can’t quite figure out what that feeling is about.
Your spouse has become distant, he/she is working late on a regular basis
or maybe your spouse has moved out of the house with no explanation. You
suspect there may be someone else, but every time you bring the topic
up with your spouse, he/she denies the possibility. All the signs are
there, but you don’t have any proof. So, pay attention to the signs
and your instincts. The following maybe a few indications that your spouse
may be cheating:

When they will not allow you access to their computer or they suddenly
shut down the computer when you walk into the room. They may password
protect their laptop or computer. Excessive internet usage, especially
late at night, is a red flag.

When they begin to put distance between you or show a lack of interest
in what has been the routine.

When they suddenly have to work late and have all kinds of new obligations
that take them away from home repeatedly or for long periods of time.
Or, they tell you they are working longer hours and discontinue allowing
you to view their paycheck or pay stubs.

When they are secretive about their cell phone or pager bill and pay it
themselves when you have always paid the bill in the past.

When they arrive home and head straight into the bath or shower.

When they have lipstick or strange hairs on their clothing or in the car.
Finding strange phone numbers or receipts can also be clues.

When they no longer want sexual relations or make excuses not to have sexual
relations.

When they talk to you, they treat you disdain, disrespect or excessive
sarcasm. They also may find fault in everything you do in an attempt to
justify their affair.

When they are always tired or demonstrate a noticeable lack of energy or
interest in the relationship.

When you notice that they are reluctant to kiss you or accept your affection.

When the passenger seat in the car has been changed and is not in the usual
position or the mileage on the car is more than usual.

When they begin to make sudden and excessive purchases of clothes or an
unexplained change in clothing style.

When you notice that your partner loses their ability and desire to show
the children the attention they need or a lack of desire to do the household duties.

When you notice an increased attention to losing weight or paying more
attention to their appearance.

When your partner shows up without their wedding ring or suddenly stops
wearing it and make lame excuses as to why.

When they get mysterious phone calls or when they hurry to answer the phone,
leave the room to talk on the phone and when you ask who called, they
say, “no one” or “wrong number.”

Simple trips, such as to the grocery store or bank, take hours rather than
the time it should take.

Your loved one suddenly deletes all emails from the computer where as they
use to accumulate. Same goes for calls on the cell phone or caller ID.

Your loved one seems to pick fights or finds reasons to fight only to stomp
out of the house and away from you.

If you suspect your spouse might be cheating on you, do some investigating.
Your intuition is frequently one of the best indicators that something
is wrong. You can talk to one of our
divorce attorneys in Morris County, NJ to learn more about your options for ending your marriage.