This is weird. What would she have to gain by doing this with a bunch of kids? Unless something more was going on. Creepy.

^this. It's amazing how many adults lack appropriate boundaries.

That's because thiss person is a predator.

An adult who befriends children and uses their position of authority to create a secret with a kid that their parents don't know about is a predator. I bet this coach is probably carrying on secret sexual relationships with some of the students too. The weed creates a sense of "we're in this together" and you can't tell on me because you'll get in trouble too.

Because she's a teacher and coach, I'd report her. It could b deeper than that. Sounds like grooming.

This is what I was thinking. Often time predators befriend their victims and try to gain their trust with gifts.]]>
Tue, 25 Feb 2014 15:19:54 +0000http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/teacher-gives-weed-to-ur-kid-help_topic368765_post10744513.html#10744513http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/teacher-gives-weed-to-ur-kid-help_topic368765_post10744507.html#10744507
Author: slayfreshSubject: 368765Posted: Feb 25 2014 at 3:19pm

greenttby wrote:

What would u do if u found out your teens cheer leading coach introduced her and 9 other girls to weed during summer band camp? You also found out that she gave ur kid another joint during a captain meetings. So over the course of a yr. she has given ur kid 2 joints and a few other loyal kids who are her weed buddies on a regular. During cheer camp she called about 10 girls and said she wanted to reward then for being leaders. Your kid said that she and others never thought about weed before them. 4 out of 5 of the girls are well respected in ur small town. In addition to getting her fired as teacher and captain would u pursue charged at the expense of ur kids rep.

Weed and alcohol given to children is a sign of greater mischief to come. Namely sexual molestation. I would report her. Tell your friend not to worry about her getting in trouble. She should know better and the children need to take it as a lesson on lines adults are not supposed to cross. Right now she is blurring that line hard.]]>
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Author: FindingmymeSubject: 368765Posted: Feb 25 2014 at 12:59pm

I smoked in college and I wouldn't even let my younger family members smoke with me, I always told them that I would not be the one to turn them out, find somebody else to do it because it won't be me!]]>
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Author: carolina cutieSubject: 368765Posted: Feb 25 2014 at 12:06pm

Take your child out of the situation, tell the other parents (hopefully they will make report her too), make a police report and get your child out of that situation.

Who knows who she invites over to hang with the kids while high, drunk or whatever. She needs to stay away from kids.]]>
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Author: keepgrowingSubject: 368765Posted: Feb 25 2014 at 10:34am

greenttby wrote:

Im_oh_so_hott wrote:

The parent in me feels like she needs to be reported and some kind of charges should be bought against her, however i'm not sure i really believe the teacher gave the kids weed.

She is actually the parent involvement coordinator and received a stipend to work as cheer coach. Yes it's true. She's sound like a very intelligent woman, but we noticed that she is always late, and absent minded. 18 kids turned in 350 for dance uniforms back in sept and never received uniforms. Money is constantly missing. 7 of the 10 kids have admitted to this. The other 2 ( a gay boy) and her closets dance girl admitted to it, but will not tell. They hang out like friends and smoke together often..<~ seniors and less involved parents.

My friend wanted to best her butt!!! It makes me thinks she may have been grooming the kids, because she lies to them constantly, they get mad, but they REALLy don't want her to lose her job or get in trouble. The kids are 14 and 15, so they have been played well. They know it was wrong and kept her secret for almost a yr.

I even remember hearing a child saying, "C" needs to stop smoking and order our uniforms. I didn't think she was really smoking...I volunteer at school as a mentor, so I know all involved.

Ok no. She needs to be gone. Smoking weed with kids and money is going missing. Nah.

What if these girl become addicted to smoking weed. College scholarships are gone. Nope I'm snitching. She probably having sex with the boys also. Nope I'm snitching......And she stealing money!!!!

The boy is gay, but he her ride or die FRIEND!!! Parent is afraid child will have to testify, be exposed to small community, tarnish her reputation as a leader. Again, their are academic and behavioral standards to get on the team. This was a ONE time and only time smoke for some girls, but a 2nd time for my friends daughter. The only two times she smoked was in their presence, the other times her daughter did not join in on smoke, but was at captains meeting at gay boys house]]>
Tue, 25 Feb 2014 10:31:29 +0000http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/teacher-gives-weed-to-ur-kid-help_topic368765_post10744085.html#10744085http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/teacher-gives-weed-to-ur-kid-help_topic368765_post10744078.html#10744078
Author: greenttbySubject: 368765Posted: Feb 25 2014 at 10:26am

mizzsandra00 wrote:

Call the cops but I side eyed the hell outta those kids saying they never thought about smoking weed before the teacher.....todays kids....yeah okay......she wrong but they still lying.

That's probably true, but most was first time making team and so dam excited. I do think some of them would not have used if teacher didnt give it to them. Only 2 of them ( her favs) had been on team before. She could have set a pattern of something really ugly, or exposed the kids to laced weed or something. I know NOTHING about weed.

Kids and parents acknowledge guilt and how they didn't have to puff puff pass.. They could have walked away... But then again she is a " nice teacher" in behavior very well spoken and was a teen mentor for YEARS!!!]]>
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Author: mizzsandra00Subject: 368765Posted: Feb 25 2014 at 10:18am

Call the cops but I side eyed the hell outta those kids saying they never thought about smoking weed before the teacher.....todays kids....yeah okay......she wrong but they still lying.]]>
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Author: sugabananaSubject: 368765Posted: Feb 25 2014 at 10:15am

Call the police. Just like I'd do if she handed them a beer. ]]>
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Author: ModelessDivaSubject: 368765Posted: Feb 25 2014 at 9:32am

An adult introducing minors to anything that they have to do behind a parents back is WRONG!]]>
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Author: goodm3Subject: 368765Posted: Feb 25 2014 at 9:12am

If it were my child I would definitely try to press charges...and i would put the story out on every local and national news outlet I could. I would end whatever career that woman thought she had.

I do not condone any type of drug use. Heck, I wouldn't even be ok with other adults drinking around my kid.

This is weird. What would she have to gain by doing this with a bunch of kids? Unless something more was going on. Creepy.]]>
Tue, 25 Feb 2014 09:08:03 +0000http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/teacher-gives-weed-to-ur-kid-help_topic368765_post10743964.html#10743964http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/teacher-gives-weed-to-ur-kid-help_topic368765_post10743962.html#10743962
Author: Im_oh_so_hottSubject: 368765Posted: Feb 25 2014 at 9:04am

greenttby wrote:

Im_oh_so_hott wrote:

The parent in me feels like she needs to be reported and some kind of charges should be bought against her, however i'm not sure i really believe the teacher gave the kids weed.

She is actually the parent involvement coordinator and received a stipend to work as cheer coach. Yes it's true. She's sound like a very intelligent woman, but we noticed that she is always late, and absent minded. 18 kids turned in 350 for dance uniforms back in sept and never received uniforms. Money is constantly missing. 7 of the 10 kids have admitted to this. The other 2 ( a gay boy) and her closets dance girl admitted to it, but will not tell. They hang out like friends and smoke together often..<~ seniors and less involved parents.

My friend wanted to best her butt!!! It makes me thinks she may have been grooming the kids, because she lies to them constantly, they get mad, but they REALLy don't want her to lose her job or get in trouble. The kids are 14 and 15, so they have been played well. They know it was wrong and kept her secret for almost a yr.

I even remember hearing a child saying, "C" needs to stop smoking and order our uniforms. I didn't think she was really smoking...I volunteer at school as a mentor, so I know all involved.

Well damn, i say call the cops. I'd have an issue with the school board too, are they not drug testing these people ?]]>
Tue, 25 Feb 2014 09:04:40 +0000http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/teacher-gives-weed-to-ur-kid-help_topic368765_post10743962.html#10743962http://Forum.BlackHairMedia.com/teacher-gives-weed-to-ur-kid-help_topic368765_post10743953.html#10743953
Author: greenttbySubject: 368765Posted: Feb 25 2014 at 8:49am

Im_oh_so_hott wrote:

The parent in me feels like she needs to be reported and some kind of charges should be bought against her, however i'm not sure i really believe the teacher gave the kids weed.

She is actually the parent involvement coordinator and received a stipend to work as cheer coach. Yes it's true. She's sound like a very intelligent woman, but we noticed that she is always late, and absent minded. 18 kids turned in 350 for dance uniforms back in sept and never received uniforms. Money is constantly missing. 7 of the 10 kids have admitted to this. The other 2 ( a gay boy) and her closets dance girl admitted to it, but will not tell. They hang out like friends and smoke together often..<~ seniors and less involved parents.

My friend wanted to best her butt!!! It makes me thinks she may have been grooming the kids, because she lies to them constantly, they get mad, but they REALLy don't want her to lose her job or get in trouble. The kids are 14 and 15, so they have been played well. They know it was wrong and kept her secret for almost a yr.

I even remember hearing a child saying, "C" needs to stop smoking and order our uniforms. I didn't think she was really smoking...I volunteer at school as a mentor, so I know all involved.

Everybody loves weed cuz its healthy and harmless (sarcasm ) but if it made you mad I would get her fierd pursuing charges will be long but if your up for the challenge go head or she could just plead guilty.

is this what you take from the weed discussions,weed equals breastmilk?

like alot of things its not appropriate for children.

Why you doing this?

It literally says sarcasm......

yes I know that. But she's saying it like well if y'all think weed is so harmless then why would this matter.

The parent in me feels like she needs to be reported and some kind of charges should be bought against her, however i'm not sure i really believe the teacher gave the kids weed. ]]>
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Author: greenttbySubject: 368765Posted: Feb 25 2014 at 6:35am

I think she wants to report her to school admin.. She wasn't sure about criminal because of exposure if her kid been labeled. I will find out more today.]]>
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Author: dazed&Subject: 368765Posted: Feb 25 2014 at 6:33am

I'm super pro marijuana but not for young kids... Adults that try and intoxicate minors who have gained their trust...no idea what their true intention are. Report her ass. Could prevent something worse from happening to one of the kids in the future at the hands of this woman.]]>
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Author: mizzsandra00Subject: 368765Posted: Feb 25 2014 at 5:48am

jonesable wrote:

juniper angel wrote:

Everybody loves weed cuz its healthy and harmless (sarcasm ) but if it made you mad I would get her fierd pursuing charges will be long but if your up for the challenge go head or she could just plead guilty.

is this what you take from the weed discussions,weed equals breastmilk?

Everybody loves weed cuz its healthy and harmless (sarcasm ) but if it made you mad I would get her fierd pursuing charges will be long but if your up for the challenge go head or she could just plead guilty.

is this what you take from the weed discussions,weed equals breastmilk?

Because she's a teacher and coach, I'd report her. It could b deeper than that. Sounds like grooming.

My thoughts exactly. You know why pedophiles abuse kids for a long time? Because they are charming. They become the kids' best friends, and giving them weed, getting them into wanting more of it, will lead to other things.

I would have reported the moment I heard about it. ]]>
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