Miscarriage Support Group

This community is dedicated to those who have experienced the traumatizing event of a miscarriage or a stillbirth. Miscarriage remains one of the most common complication of pregnancy, but that doesn't make it easy to deal with. Join the group and find support in the company of others who know what you're going through.

I am ever going to get pregnant again!

Geez, this is a question I have been asking my self for almost 7 months. I know about the whole 20% chance each cycle. But man I am so discouraged! I am not TTC this month, just taking a mental break. I guess I shouldnt worry about it too much.
Does anyone feel like this sometimes?
Does anyone else drive themselves crazy and then ended up pregnant?
This sucks. Again, I know I am complaining and I know I am probably not broken but it sure does feel like it sometimes. lol.

I am sorry it's tough for you each month. I feel extremely lucky because I did become pg again quickly after my m/c. The only thing I would say is that the month it worked was the month I gave up.
I had been using ovulation sticks and they didn't show any happy faces at all that cycle so I ended up saying, &quot;Oh well, what's the point?????I didn't even ovulate!!!!&quot; Next thing I know...BANG.
I definitely think that I became pregnant from making love without thinking about it. All the other times were scheduled in my head and related to cycle days.
Also, my close friend TTC for a year and discovered she wasn't ovulating at all. The docs prescribed Clomid and the month she was due to start taking it her AF didn't come....She was preggo.
I know it's easy to say but I think that if you can fix your head, the rest follows. I am a firm believer in affirmations. Get up every day and say, &quot;Someday I will get pregnant!!!&quot; AND MEAN IT!
Best of luck x

yeah, it's tough. Not everyone gets it too... when I talked to my friends about how long I had been trying for my last pregnancy, they thought I was crazy. (got bfp on the 6th cycle) But, I totally understand. When you really want something, and have no control over it, it's totally fustrating. Then, I would say to myself... &quot;that's it! I'm taking a *mental break* and not going to ttc this month&quot;... but then, I would drive myself crazy as I approached that all important date... since we never used protection, even if we weren't *ttc*. what's the difference then?! LOL Good luck to you!

I totally understand how you feel. Everyone's advice is to try and relax, yadda yadda, and you know that is what you should do, but when you want something so badly it is next to impossible to completely forget about it! I was ttc for 6 months and we went on vacation to California last month. I was so relaxed and calm when I got back that I honestly didn't care what happened this month and was really lazy about trying. (The calm feeling only lasted for a few days but apparently it worked because I finally had success and got my BFP!) So hang in there you will make it!

Thanks guys. hearing success stories really makes me feel better. I am really going to try and really not try. I think I am going to save my money and not get the OPK. I know I am ovulating. I feel that little pain. I am going to the doctors tomarrow...nerveous because of a blood drawing oppertunity. Blah. Hopfully I will concieve before october : )

I am in the exact same situation as you. I miscarried the day after thanksgiving. We got the go ahead to try again in March. Every month I keep trying and it doesn't work. I guess I wasn't blessed with the patience gene. It made it even harder when everyone around me was getting pregnant. Finally, my doctor told me that I was just going to have to stop worrying about it. That is when it happens. She says the body is so sensitive to stress (imagine your immune system- you NEVER get sick during a really hectic time, your body is in attack mode...afterwards though, its automatic to end up sick). It really is impossible to not worry about it. I keep trying to forget about trying myself but I can't help it. If you anyone knows the trick to forgetting, let me know. I have to take clomid and prometrium every month to ovulate so dropping the meds and my fertility regimen is not an option. Just know that you are not the only one having these thoughts. Some days I get so discouraged. Hopefully, it will happen for both of us soon! Good luck! If you ever want to talk about it, let me know!

after my m/c I realy thought I would never have childrena nd I was incapable of getting pregnant but I got pregnant again and all is good. But at first I was so convinced i couldnt get pregnant I thought it was a false pregnancy until I saw the ultrasound.

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