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J&C Video has seen some pretty stressed out brides over the years. However, they have also witnessed other brides who stepped into the day, relaxed and ready to watch all their planning fall into place. While it is true that when an aspect of the wedding day goes awry, it can cause a ripple-effect that can delay the wedding and quickly elevate a bride’s stress level. However, here are some tips that can help your wedding day be stress-free and start right on time!​

Get enough sleep the night before. While pre-wedding jitters may make restful sleep seem impossible, try bathing in warm water with lavender essential oil. Turn off electronics, reading or journaling—these “home remedy” techniques can help you have as restful night of sleep as possible. Plan, also, for at least eight hours of sleep. Whether you get them all or not, at least you have the time set aside to do so!

Eat breakfast. You have heard that breakfast is the most important meal of the day—and this is especially true on your wedding day! A balanced breakfast that includes protein, good-for-you fats, and even some carbs will help keep your energy strong—especially if there is a long time until you get to your wedding meal.

Pack a wedding survival kit. Yes, survival is key on your wedding day! Practically speaking, you will want to gather a kit together ahead of time that includes a first aid kit, stain remover pen, needle and thread, safety pins, tampons, and anything else that might fix a minor emergency.

Avoid drinking too early, or too much. You may want to imbibe on your wedding to reduce your stress. However, it can be a long day and drinking early can make you tired and not clear-headed. In addition, drinking too much at the reception can cause unnecessary drama—and you do not want that!

Set expectations for arrival. For those who are participating in the wedding, it is recommended that you tell everyone to be there 30 minutes before you really want them there. This includes hair dressers, bridesmaids, groomsmen, family members … everybody!

Expect the unexpected. Yes, some things will happen that you just cannot anticipate. Plan a rain location for photography, videography, and even the ceremony. Get all contracts for vendors in writing so everyone knows what they are supposed to do. Test candles before your big day to make sure the wicks last as long as your reception. It is best to have a “Plan B” for as many details as you can, should something unexpected arise.

Let the little things go. This is likely the most important piece of advice for your wedding day. Do not get so bogged down with details and expect perfection on your wedding day. Doing so will only prevent you from enjoying your special day to the absolute fullest!