Friday, December 30, 2016

A year has gone by. When I look back this perhaps was the most turbulent and the most jubilant year. I remember last year on the same day I hurt my leg, dragged myself with a hairline fracture to have a darshan of Lord Balaji at Tirupati...limped my way to start a first of its kind community awakening caravan to combat trafficking Swaraksha!

The shock of getting a Padmashree lingered for a long time, I still wonder after a year who actually nominated me.Being recognized by our own government is a massive leap for my mission, after years finally a cause like ours is acknowledged! Significantly this year also saw government recognition from several countries such Germany and France.

But the year was also about struggling to construct our new campus, the mounting debts, an attack on our new shelter home, challenges with FCRA,some weird and painful rescues and of course the most depleting one personal slander. I do not think I have overcome all of it, but I know from the deepest of my being "this too shall pass".

I will forever cherish 2016, for bringing me closer to my soul family...a large community of wonderful human beings who believe in my mission as much as I do...

Now as I get ready to usher in 2017, I more stronge...more wise...more bright...more empathetic...more humble....and most importantly more grateful for life...I surrender myself completely to that creator who chose me for this mission...every moment is a blessing!

Wishing you a another year of great moments...of new learnings, hope, triumphs & failures!!!!

Sunday, December 25, 2016

On
Nov 8th 2016, when the Hon’ble Prime Minister announced demonetizing
of Rs500/ & Rs 1000/, it did not ring any alarm bells in my ear. My only
concern was the Rs 7000/ in 500/’s which I had to deposit. After a while, when
it started finally sinking what this is all about, I was super thrilled-finally
black money in various forms will be targeted. I remembered the trauma and
struggle I had to go through while purchasing land for Prajwala when we could
not even find one seller ready to do a
complete white transaction. Infact we lost over two months just in search of a
land owner who is willing to sell his land on a white transaction. It was a
vindication of a sort thinking about the thousands of real estate agents who
were in deep lurch that day.

In
the days to come, my thrill and happiness grew by leaps and bounds when I
noticed a drastic fall in the number of women and girls rescued from
prostitution being admitted in our shelter. After 15days we were able to see
for ourselves that there was a drastic reduction in the number of sex buyers as
there was currency crunch and in Hyderabad where prostitution is more
decentralized in apartments and hotels suddenly there was a lull. My colleagues
in other parts of the country also reported the same.

We
felt this acutely in Yadadri a temple town where a small community of women
practice prostitution as a way of life. We have a learning center for their
children in that area. On one occasion this month when I had to meet the women
they sheepishly requested me whether midday meal could be given to the children
as they were practically starving. Using that as an opportunity I once again (I
had done this many times before too) offered them exit options. And to my utter
surprise over 46 of them who had come for the mothers meeting readily agreed
that it was time they choose an alternative life option. Definitely the entire
sex trafficking industry was shaken by demonetization! To me the best surgical
strike ever to counter this crime.

But
on an another level I started feeling the pinch. We run three very large
shelter homesfor child and adult
victims of trafficking. Although as part of transparency & good governance
in the last three years we had systematically ensured that all our transactions
are cashless including fruit and vegetable vendors are paid online, still cash
is required on a regular basis. We have tried to deal with all the small
inconveniences but when you have hundreds of lives dependent on you, many of whom
being HIV positive it is not that easy to be cashless. Our crises started when
banks continued to be filled with long queues(In Hyderabad, I don’t know why
most nationalized banks are in a state of perpetual chaos).

We
started sending a staff to stand in the queue early in the morning so that
atleast by midday small requirements is fulfilled. The second problem came with
ATM’s practically over 50% of the ATM in Hyderabad don’t work, and the ones
which do, they do not have enough cash to last the day. So when staff whose
monthly salaries is their only sustenance could not even pay their rents in
December as they could neither go to the banks nor the ATM’s it became not so
very pleasant. We declared a working day as a holiday so that the staff could
go the bank, but only some of them could finish their work. This situation with
the banks and ATM’s continue to pinch us in multiple ways. I guess it becomes
slightly upsetting after a month when you cannot even use the cash that
legitimately belongs to you. The hours in banks and ATM’s after a while is not
that “feel good” as you are able to withdraw only a little although you might
have a higher requirement.

I do
not think any Indian is against demonetization, provided one does not require
to go to the bank every week or hunt for an ATM in several cities!!! I am also
fairly positive with interactions with thousands of Indians that everybody is
happy to be subjected to inconveniences for a temporary period of time for the
larger good.

But
when mind-sets do not change and people find millions ways to cheat it gets on
to your nerves. My blood boils when new currency notes are unearthed during IT
raids. When the larger public is struggling for Rs 2000/ there are selected few
who are siphoning in large scale. I think these characters should be dealt
separately and the punitive measure should be on the lines of aggravated crime.
At one end you respect Bankers for doing their best in these difficult times,
but you also want to get hold of those who are responsible for siphoning.

On
my mission ofcourse the most important takeaway-if the demand is hit the entire
organized crime will be hit and the supply chain will crumble. I know right now
this is temporary and criminals are applying their minds creatively and innovatively
how to bridge this phase, but if the Government on a war footing initiate
interventions to address demand ie if sex buyers are deterred, I do believe
trafficking of millions of women and children for the purposes of commercial
sexual exploitation will drastically reduce. Maybe it is high time Government
looks at a singular option of criminalizing demand. This ofcourse should be
simultaneously backed by holistic package comprising of psycho-social support,
health care services including de-addiction, employability training, employment
options, educational support and therapeutic safe homes for adult and child
victims.

Definitely
if the all the ministries, corporates and the civil society organizations joined
hands, it is possible. But is the Government willing to take this bold move to
end sex slavery?

Monday, May 16, 2016

Ages since I blogged, no excuses...just laziness to peg my thoughts...
For a few months now I have been very concerned about the 'Tolerance' debate, great people have returned awards, there have been a lot of talk all round about the increasing 'intolerance' shown by the present Government. There are state governments who are interfering with people's food habits...etc. All these are definitely a matter of serious concern.

But to me a more serious concern is the way people behave on the social networking platforms. If one does not agree with a particular viewpoint, there are people who will become very nasty and mean start a personalized attack on the person questioning their integrity and their credibility all because they differed from what you had to say. I faced it couple of times this year and last year, when some posts I made had people agreeing and disagreeing. But some of the persons who differed would not leave it at that, they would start personally attacking me...one even said "after she has got her padmashree she has become right wing" or "how much was I paid to make the comment" or "worst still if you running a NGO just do that" one woman even said "I used to respect her, now I don't".

I am baffled and wonder what riggers such mean aggression. I have seen people calling other names in such derogatory fashion that you actually cringe. Can you not state a point without abusing somebody? Is this not intolerance? I understand freedom of speech and the need for it. I have travelled to China and many other countries where freedom of speech is greatly curtailed....But does freedom of speech means you abuse anybody and everybody and call them names...all because you do not agree with a particular perspective.

Social media has taken visibility to greater heights. Today if people like me are known even among a few, it is because of this dynamic platform. I use it, respect it and nurture it as tool for me to connect with the larger world. Whether I am impacting anybody here or not is something that I am not seriously concerned, but definitely I use this platform to share my thoughts and my opinion...maybe some of it may have a wrong timing...maybe I have my own agenda to do the same...but of late I am becoming a little wary of this platform and have started thinking that suppose my honest opinion about something is not appreciated by somebody, I may not just get a differing opinion, which of course is truly enlightening for me, as many a times these differing thoughts have made me look at the same issue from a different way...but I may be abused and my integrity might be questioned...

Is it that we don't know how to differ? or we feel anonymity grants us the freedom to use a language and expression which can be very hurting and painful...

As much as the world pays attention and respects to my comments, I also do the same to the world and maybe that is why I read offensive comments about me as much as I read the ones that appreciate me..