sensual, if you decline a couple in a polite manner and they get an attitude its their problem, not yours. Simple as that.

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Why is it that whenever you feel the need to decline an invite, someone always has to take it personally? We recently contacted a couple and as of the second email we decided that there wasn't enough in common for us to want to meet. Clearly stated in their email was a statement that read that they expected to play on the first date and that they wouldn't accept any excuses for not playing. We found them to be very controlling and demanding....nothing like us. If you had never heard of SLS or this lifestyle would you go around sleeping with everyone you came into contact with or would you get to know someone a bit before deciding if there was truly an attraction there or not? We've had people who just wouldn't take no for an answer and who continued to stalk us on the site and other messengers. Then we've had people whom we've turned down for one reason or another only to have them badmouth us to other couples. We've been turned down too and we just move on. It's all about personal choice people. We, as adults, have the right to personally choose who we want to befriend, socialize with and bed. It's that simple. It doesn't have to be a personal thing. We approach the lifestyle in a way that allows us the chance to get to know some really great people and share in some really great experiences.....because we CHOOSE to spend time with those people and explore along the way. We prefer to meet people who share in our interests as well as bringing some new interests into the relationship. We're not much for one night stands but that being said, we've been known to play on the first date many many times. However, that's not in writing!!! We reserve the right to CHOOSE!! Rejection is never pleasant but it is a reality. Like we always say, " We can't appeal to everyone out there; nor do we want to!" Life happens and sometimes things do get in the way....that's LIFE!!! We're committed to one another and committed to the lifestyle we've chosen and we will always CHOOSE who we want to meet and whether or not we want to develop a long lasting relationship with those people. NOTHING PERSONAL!!

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It is sad when a buff man gets all TyrannosaurusofGuano of the mouth.

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Wholeheartedly agree on that * snap :)

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EZ, anyone that turns you down with that body needs to have their fucking eyes examined. Snap. I like tats. Just sayin lol.

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lol Mjma Have you ever tried to drive wearing a day glo saftey shirt on a sunny day? Pffft

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EZ, I like tats as well. But like y'all said, its all in what we are looking for I suppose.

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