Many people in relationships with narcissists, psychopaths, borderlines, histrionics and other personality disordered abusers often find themselves living by a set of rules, spoken and unspoken, determined by their abuser. Narcissists don’t force their victims to live by these rules. Adult victims comply hoping to preserve the relationship for a variety of typically misguided, unhealthy […]

Ding, dong! Ding, dong! Ding, dong! Ding, dong! It’s the most trigger-ful time of the year! With Narcissists yelling And Borderline dysregulation swelling, inducing fear It’s the most trigger-ful time of the year! It’s the crap-crappiest season of all! With fake Facebook greetings, emotional beatings And your family forbidden to call It’s the crap-crappiest season […]