(Original post by pheebs101)
basically recently i've been getting ripped into by a bunch of guys in my year, the ones who are leaders of the pack really, for not getting with enough people. first of all they started talking about how i was 'stuck up' to which i asked them what they meant by that, and they went really cowardly when i asked them what they meant and said it was just 'banter', but when one of my close guy friends asked, they said 'she never lets anyone have a go on her'. then today, they started using the term.. 'south pole'... i got told this afternoon that i was the south pole, and it basically meant because i'm 'frigid' and it's hard to get there. they were talking in front of me saying 'yeah i was planning a trip to the south pole but that failed!' and 'damn it's hard to get there isn't it?' and basically just being *****. i didn't realize at the time they were on about me, but now i've found out. why the hell do that though? either a girl is a ****, and they get ripped into for that, or they get called stuck up. the truth is that they are all ugly little ******* and i wouldn't let any of them 'have a go' because they are *****. but what do i say back to them, and what do i do? i'm pretty offended and pissed off. they are all making such a massive deal out of it. and also why me?? i have a bunch of close friends who aren't ****s at all but no one even mentions it. so why do i get abuse for it?? btw we are all sixteen, recently all the boys have been absolute knobs, please PLEASE tell me they grow out of it. and when!!

All of your friends openly tell you that they want to shag you are you sure these are friends? Anyway find a hot guy preferably one they hate or at least don't know and would look down on making them jealous, after this just tell them the reason why you won't let any of them 'have a go'

(Original post by pheebs101)
basically recently i've been getting ripped into by a bunch of guys in my year, the ones who are leaders of the pack really, for not getting with enough people. first of all they started talking about how i was 'stuck up' to which i asked them what they meant by that, and they went really cowardly when i asked them what they meant and said it was just 'banter', but when one of my close guy friends asked, they said 'she never lets anyone have a go on her'. then today, they started using the term.. 'south pole'... i got told this afternoon that i was the south pole, and it basically meant because i'm 'frigid' and it's hard to get there. they were talking in front of me saying 'yeah i was planning a trip to the south pole but that failed!' and 'damn it's hard to get there isn't it?' and basically just being *****. i didn't realize at the time they were on about me, but now i've found out. why the hell do that though? either a girl is a ****, and they get ripped into for that, or they get called stuck up. the truth is that they are all ugly little ******* and i wouldn't let any of them 'have a go' because they are *****. but what do i say back to them, and what do i do? i'm pretty offended and pissed off. they are all making such a massive deal out of it. and also why me?? i have a bunch of close friends who aren't ****s at all but no one even mentions it. so why do i get abuse for it?? btw we are all sixteen, recently all the boys have been absolute knobs, please PLEASE tell me they grow out of it. and when!!

They grow out of it between 16-40. Hopefully by then you'll have stopped being such an insecure, easy to upset little girl who frets about what 'boys' think of her, and more someone who is happy with herself and her choices.

(Original post by Muffinz)
They wont until sixth form/college. Until then, tell them to go take their noodle-sized cocks elsewhere. If I were you I'd seriously consider smacking them.

[QUOTE=Thrasymachus]They grow out of it between 16-40. Hopefully by then you'll have stopped being such an insecure, easy to upset little girl who frets about what 'boys' think of her, and more someone who is happy with herself and her choices.

haha pretty sure if i was an 'insecure, easy to upset little girl' i'd be crying a river over that comment... actually maybe not, it was a bit of a poor shout.