Why men should learn to dance, why women love a man who can dance and the best damn offer for men's dance classes around

Hello,​My name is Clint Steele and I am the owner of Destine Dance.

I have been dancing for some time now, and I know what dance can offer a man like you. The reason I know, is that I am a man like you. I will tell you more, but if you already know that you want to learn to dance, then check out the incredibly good offer I have for you below.

If you are still reading, then you need some more convincing about the benefits of dance before taking up my offer above. And that's fine. Before I started dancing I would not have understood it's amazing benefits either. I too would have needed a lot of convincing before trying dance for 4 weeks - even it it only cost $49. So let's talk more about dance.

Like you, I did not learn dance early in life. I came across dance later, when I realised I needed a hobby. Luckily, I tried dance first - it was an accident really, but a very lucky one. Because of my experience with dance, and how it helped me with things like meeting women, having a challenge, being social and simply having an enjoyable life, I want to help you enjoy the same benefits.

​This article is going to be kept short and get straight to the point – I am confident that dance is what you need, and I want to get you dancing. To make it even shorter, I am first going to tell you the main reasons why you should learn to dance:

It rounds you out and makes you a complete man

Women like a man who can dance – largely because of point 1

It’s incredibly good for your health

It’s very social, especially the type I do, so it helps you meet women and take full advantage of point 2

You can learn it at your own pace so you never feel that you are on the backfoot and it is the ideal challenge

However, there's one minor diversion I want to take before I talk more about why you should dance. Below is a slide show of photos I have taken at various dance events I have been to - some at my studio. I want you to take a moment to look at them and think about what it would be like to be like the men in these photos. To be able to attend such events and dance with any woman you meet there. That will help you understand what it is that I am talking about later on. These are real photos of real men like you getting real benefit from dance.

As you look through these photos, notice the diversity of men. Their age, their ethnicity, their dress. No matter these differences, as long as they know how to dance, they are all engaging in dance with all sorts of women. They have learned to dance and they now benefit from that. You can do the same.

Now let's talk about these benefits.

Being a complete man

​Consider two characters from (relatively) modern popular culture: James Bond and Rhett Butler (the guy from gone with the wind – I assume you know who James Bond is, but maybe not Rhett). Ask yourself this question: would you expect these men to know how to dance? The answer should be “Yes”. Why is that? It is because we expect these men to be competent in pretty much all that makes a man a man. It could be knowing how to get out of a tricky spot, how to fight, how to show a lady a good time and also how to dance. When you know how to dance, you have acquired a skill that we associate with men in the modern sophisticated world. That then leads to confidence (augmented by the sense of achievement I will talk about later), which helps round you out even more.

Note how in the above 2 videos the men seem so much more capable and manly because they know how to dance. At Destine Dance we want to help you have that same quality.

Women like (actually they love) a man who can dance

Why do women like a man who can dance? There are a few reasons. One is what I mentioned above. It rounds you out as a man. You have that quality of a more worldly man who is more sophisticated than the rest.However, it goes further.Women also like a man who has committed to learning something. You have probably gained a qualification for work. However, women do not get to see you at work that often so they do not typically get the chance to see how capable a man you really are. When you can dance with a woman, she gets to experience intimately how you have worked on something and become good at it.In addition, it is an easy way to show musical intuition without the need to learn an instrument. Women do like a musician. We do not know why, but you have probably already noticed that women move more to music when they hear it than do men. They simply appreciate music more it seems. When you can show this connection with the music, you become more interesting and attractive. Do not worry it you feel you have no musical ability; at Destine Dance we can help with this.Finally, it lets you take a woman on an adventure. Dance allows men and women to immerse themselves in traditional gender roles in a modern society. As the man you take the lead and guide her across the dance floor. She on the other hand gets to put her trust in you as she focuses on the sensation of the movement, the music and scene of the dance floor. You very quickly take her on an adventure where you take care of her. Women usually only get to experience that in romance novels and in the movies. Imagine being able to do that for a woman and what that would mean for you.

This movie is based on a true story - the woman in this scene might be taking some creative license, but it shows how women feel after dancing. When you learn to dance, you can offer any woman the same experience.

Positive masculinityThere has been much attention in the media recently given to issues of domestic violence (usually perpetrated by men against women) and sexual assault often perpetrated by men. There is dearth of positive examples of men being men and being masculine. Dance is such an example though. As a man, when dancing, you do take the lead, you take care of your partner, you help her to look good and feel good. You have power and you use it in a positive manner that makes you feel good as a man. And as I said before, women like it. If you enjoy being a man and masculine and you want to do it in a positive manner, then dance is ideal for you. In the Latin culture, often considered a very macho culture (the word "macho" is Spanish), an ability to dance is indeed considered a trait of the suave and masculine man. This is one of the reasons why the Latin styles of dance (tango, salsa, samba, rumba and such) make up such a large portion of the dance styles danced today.​How dancing enhances your masculinityTake a read of the article below. It is by a woman who has danced with hundreds of men and worked out how dance can make you more masculine. She focuses tango, but the same is true of all dance. This key to enhancing your masculinity is what we will teach you when you learn to dance with us at Destine Dance.

Health benefits

​It’s obvious that dance involves movement and movement helps keep you healthy. The good thing about dance is that it also focuses on posture and smooth movement. I know people who have actually grown (confirmed by medical check-ups) because they are now more upright. This improved posture puts less strain on your body, and you can enjoy greater health.But the benefits are not only physical. Dance requires you to hear the music, feel your partner, navigate the dance floor and choose the figures to be danced. This activates many parts of your brain at the same time. This mental exercise has been shown to be THE BEST ways to keep a healthy brain and fight dementia.Dance also simply makes you a happier person. I know from personal experience how going out dancing can simply leave you feeling better. The social engagement along with the mental and physical activity get all of your mind, body and soul working. With this trilogy activated, you can’t help but feel better. So dance is ideal for mental health as well.

Note this guy's age, how he moves and his happy demeanour. I don't really need to say too much more about the health benefits of dance.

Social avenue

​By its nature dance is social. You need a partner to dance with so dance compels you to interact with others. Also, others are expecting this interaction so there is a natural social process you can follow. Asking a woman you have not met to dance is far easier than asking her just about anything else. The only time I have ever been told "no" was when she did not know how to dance or was injured. The typical response to asking a woman to dance is a smile and a “yes”. I have met many women through dance and formed relationships as well. It is of course not guaranteed, but your ability to meet women is significantly improved when you dance.Of course, it is not just women. Many of the men who dance are, like you I assume, men who are out to live their lives and make the most of them. These are ideal men to befriend. I have made numerous friends and professional contacts through dance. You have both learned dance so you automatically have something to start talking about – the rest simply follows.It is also an excellent social tool for when you are travelling. No matter where you go in this world, you will just about always find a place of dance. In one night you can meet a handful of people and make new friends. I now have facebook friends from all over the world thanks to dance. The first thing I do when I go anywhere now is look up the local dance scene because I know it will connect me with the locals and get me some new friends.

Even though they are slightly different styles, when we tech you to dance you will have the foundations to pick up any nuances no matter where in the world you are dancing

The ideal challenge

​If you’re like most men, then you do like working on becoming better at something and you enjoy a sense of accomplishment. However, you are probably also weary of looking a fool – I know I am. The good thing about dance is that it has been codified. It can be learned in sages with each being a challenge that you know you can master and the first stages designed to make you able to dance quickly.That means that you can start experiencing the benefits early and still enjoy the sense of achievement that comes from continually improving at something that you work on.

This video shows how quickly any man (which includes you) can pick up the basics of dance and start dancing

​Learning dance

There are many dance schools out there where you can learn to dance. However, I like to think that at Destine Dance, we are just that bit better at helping you be the dancer you want to be. We also want to help you enter the world of dance so that you gain ALL the benefits that can come from dance – not just teach dance.If you want to try dance out, and I hope now you do, then book in for a free trial lesson at the top of the page or even sign up for the next dance course we have coming up – see them all here - where you can learn to dance in 6 weeks.

If you still feel you want to find out more about dance before taking the leap, then you can always contact us to talk about it some more. Or fill out the contact form below for your free lesson.When you do, I will arrange a female dance instructor to contact you and organise the free trial lesson. In his trial lesson she will take on the role as your dance partner/teacher. She will also show you just how quickly you can become a dancer, and enjoy the benefits above.