Tag Archive: fear-based

In truth, it does not matter where you go, or what you do, but only how you are feeling at each moment. Of course, you already know that. What has been the root of your discomfort for so long is that you are not allowing yourself to be who you really are, because for too long you have been being someone else for the benefit of others. You stay sweet and kind and giving, for the people you wish to be a light for. You try not to speak negatively, even when dealing with negative situations. You try not to bring others down, even when they are dragging you with them. But this is not what anyone needs. Not you, not those around you. Everyone needs to see the real YOU.

SO.
What does that mean for your future?
Don’t you already know?

Until you fully allow yourself to be as you want, you will not be able to grow your business or be fulfilled. Until you have helped yourself to fully blossom, how can you do the same for others? If you are not living a joy-based life, un-mired by fear, how can you change the thinking of other fear-based people? As you have seen, you can not, not at the scope you are wanting. So you must begin with yourself. Pushing past material constraints. Pushing past emotional dependencies and illusionary obligations. Pushing past your own fear of freedom.

Let go of planning, and focus on being.

Then, the people will come to you, for healing, for guidance, for joy-based relaxation and retreats. Everything will grow out of that: when they say, “if you build it, they will come,” they do not refer to building the business or structure. NO. They refer to building your self. To be-coming yourself. Because when you are tuned in, turned on, tapped in, you become a BEACON that others mired in dark cannot ignore, and they begin to flow to you like moths to a flame.

Do you see now? Do you see how it all comes together when you are BE-coming and BE-ing YOU? Always, always, do that. Be you. Be where you are happiest. Be HOW you are happiest. Release fear-based planning and safe-guarding and preparing and allow the only strategy to be getting in your happy place. The rest will follow.

You are not on the wrong path. You have not made mistakes. All has happened as it must. The slow way was necessary for the greatest growth, and now it is TIME to claim your life.