Do you want to make your life dramatically better as of right now? If so: decide to be completely positive about everyone and everything, every day, starting this second. At the very least be neutral. Replace phrases like "I hate…" and "this sucks" with "I prefer…" If you frame all things in a positive way you will always see a positive outcome. Make this decision every day until it sticks.

No, not at all. I am trying to understand, but I think you might be taking this a little too seriously and are caught up in thinking you already know what is right, and not trying to understand what I am saying. And what I am simply trying to point out is that trying to re-frame "everyone" and "everything" (the words you used) sounds all well and good on paper. It is a frou-frou sounding "deepity" that sounds nice, and looks good on paper, but is actually not feasible in the real world. As I keep re-iterating, this exercise will work well in some instances, but to make the entirely over-generalized blanket statement that it can work in all instances is impossibly simplistic. It is a one-dimensional view of the world. Also, the word "judgment" connotes the attachment of a critical value to an entity, and as I mentioned earlier, it is not judgment when one accepts an X, and sees it as such-- as X, nothing other than what it is, X. Trying to re-contextualize "everything" and "everyone" into something positive [or even merely neutral, as you suggest] is still, not a plausible thing in the real world. I would suggest re-wording it to "sometimes" or even "often times" this works, but not always and not for every scenario. Because one-size-does-NOT-fit-all and consistently trying to play mind tricks may very well cause a nervous breakdown and a one-way ticket to the insanitarium.

I also want to apologize for being a jerk. It wasn't intentional. I really admire you, which is why I wanted to start a real conversation with you, instead of the one-word-back-and-forth "conversations" which are so prevalent around here. So, I am sorry. I do want to say though, that I never, for one second, even thought we are arguing. Disagreeing with someone doesn't equal argumentation in my book. I was actually really having a fun time going back and forth with you. And I am sorry, but I didn't realize that it was a one-sided fun. I like to press every button, turn every knob, and pull every lever to see what happens, but apparently I went too far, so I am sorry. <3