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THE DIARY OF A CHICK WHO WALKED AWAY FROM ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS (THE CULT)

Go-Go Rach once was a girl whose world was controlled by the idea that she was POWERLESS. After a chain of events, she realized she'd been lied to. Now she does whatever she wants, whenever she wants, with whomever she chooses to do it with.

Her blog chronicles the horrors she experienced in the halls of Alcoholics Anonymous (THE CULT) and the wonderful things she does now that she's escaped. *IF SHE BIT HER TONGUE ANY LONGER, IT WOULD BLEED!*

Tuesday, May 17, 2011

I'LL TELL YA WHO'S A SLUT!

SLUT.

What do you think about when you hear that word?

The image I cannot dispel is of CUNTESSA'S contorted face, calling me a SLUT, after she read SAVE IT FOR A CHICK WHO WANTS TO HEAR YA TALK. She insists it's SLUTTY to have NO STRINGS ATTACHED (NSA) SEX. At this stage of my life, I think it's SLUTTY not to.
I'd be LYING if I offered any other option. I'm picky and not afraid to be alone. I value my time and body too much to wait for the guy who gets me, wants to be with me and that I WANT TO BE WITH, TOO.

At nearly forty, few men have proven what it takes to convince me to give up the lifestyle I enjoy. Not to mention the fact I have too little time to waste.

So, I could SLUT around, pretending to be into something I'm not - just to be a greedy bitch and get all the men. OR. I can save my time for the ones who are like me and *GET ME?* hmmm...

What is a SLUT?

Like most ignorant people,Cuntessa considers someone who enjoys multiple partners, without a committed relationship a SLUT.

To her and anyone else who hasn't a clue to REALITY, I'll fill ya in.

A SLUT is someone who fucks around with a person they know is in a committed, monogamous, relationship or, is in a committed, monogamous relationship and fucks around. PERIOD.

ANYWAY.

One thing I gotta tell you is that I subscribe to the idea that monogamy is a MYTH, created by deceit or inexperience.

*YUP. I SAID THAT.*

You can be pissed at me, or whatever, but I firmly believe men cannot help their reaction to desire. They NEED to act on what happens to their bodies, physically, when they get turned on. Imagine what a nightmare it would be to have a penis?

What must it be like to have something hanging from your body that jumps to attention with or without instigation from you?

I hate most of the chick stuff (I gotta bleed from WHERE? Every month! Really?), but I'll take it all instead of that, any day of the week!

I am so glad I'm a girl!

Erection happens, whether men want it to, or not. Men act on it because THEY NEED TO. If their "partner" is not sexual, they will do it alone, until they find someone who will reciprocate.

I'm sorry, but it's true.

Men cannot help it.

Besides that.

Everyone gets bored.

And, NO ONE should have to be!

If you're lucky enough to be in a committed relationship, GIVE SEX! People need it. Make them happy. It's VERY IMPORTANT!

Just know, if you are not getting it on, this is when the relationship is on the brink, or deep in disaster! Really. No sex is a major sign that your relationship needs work.

Unfortunately, people are asleep to how much of a time-waster deceit is. They are willing to do and say anything to avoid dealing with TRUTH.

WHY BOTHER?

I just don't *get it*.

If you're in a sexless relationship with an able bodied partner, I encourage you to check yourself for the smell of deceit. It's coming from you (denial) or your partner (SLUT). OR BOTH.

Just sayin'.

One thing I know for sure, I would only commit to an OPEN RELATIONSHIP. When the honey moon ends, be upfront about status, don't talk to me about details (unless I'm in that mood, ahem), and keep it REAL with me. The man I'll commit to knows the difference between heads, heart and what's mine.

Please, don't make shit up!

I'd rather you hurt me BRIEFLY ONCE.

Liars think they are controlling something.

I'm the only DIRECTOR of my LIFE.

*GET IT?*

Anyone who claims to be in a relationship, but seeks outside entertainment is a LYING SLUT, which is the worst kind. Believe me when I tell ya, if a person is cheating on their mate to be with YOU - you aren't special, just the next idiot to add to a long list of them.

You may "win" the object of your affection (YOU SLUT), but be prepared to be cheated on, too. Cheaters are cheaters FOREVER. This is a flaw that will never go away - NOT EVEN FOR YOU.

Personally, I've never been into cheaters, or been one. Cheating seems stupid to me. I'd rather not be in a committed relationship (like now - and probably forever). Men deal, or don't deal. Good news, there are lots. And, I never go near anyone I think may be in any kind of relationship status. I just don't dig taking second place.

There is a big difference in being second fiddle in a relationship (number one priority slot is taken - BADLY!) versus just seeing different people (no priority). For example, cheater will not answer the phone OFTEN to hide their fling from their "true love."

My regular readers know my N.S.A. tat resulted in a relationship with Sherlock. He was a LYING SLUT, who led me to believe he was about to be divorced, while he toyed with my emotions for months. His manipulation was the final straw in a string of bad "relationships" that made me decide I DON'T WANT ONE.

No strings attached works for me. Save the drama for your mama, boys. Your lines of bullshit are lost on someone like me, I could care less. FOR REALS.

Sherlock was the third married SLUT I've been propositioned by in my life. The first two were honest about the women they used to raise their kids and do their chores. They were greedy PIGS, for sure, but at least they respected ME enough to be upfront WITH ME about their status.

Sherlock stole, then promptly lost, what committed men will never have: ME.

I have no respect for anyone who cheats because it represents a wimpy way to live. I am of the school of thought that LIFE IS TOO SHORT TO LIVE A LIE, or avoid myself for anyone. Even someone who pays the bills, cooks, cleans or does my laundry. That's just LAME, fellas! So, fuck OFF.

I'd rather be upfront. Heck, that's why I got my tattoo. Any questions, check the back. It ain't going anywhere...

My Tolstoy Has Gone To Heaven

COMMENTS POLICY

You people are ill equipped to contribute to any intelligent conversation on my site, as long as you subscribe to dogma and lies.

Your comments are trite and boring and do not belong here.

Also, I will not allow you to assault my readers with the filth and perversion you call "well."

Please Note: I did not ask for your advice, yet you keep coming back in your precious free time away from meetings as a way to indulge the feelings you used to drink or drug over.

I encourage you to get some authentic help with your issues so you may get to the bottom of why you've replaced your substance abuse with the incessant need to troll the internet for places to spew your insecurities and rage.

Why bother with such a waste of time?

Some are sicker than others.

I do not welcome, nor appreciate your obsession with me.

I put up with your insanity for much too long as a member of Alcoholics Anonymous. I have a right to protect myself from those of you who insist on doing it here.

Go-Go away now and get some help before you find yourself in jail, dead or in an institution.

With love and an epic internet hug.

I do hope you feel better soon.

Go-Go Rach

SOMEONE WHO HATES YOU NORMALLY DOES FOR ONE OF THREE REASONS. THEY EITHER SEE YOU AS A THREAT, THEY HATE THEMSELVES, OR THEY WANT TO BE *YOU!*

*SMOOCH*

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HEADS UP, PEOPLE!

THIS IS THE DEAL.

THE SUBSTANCE IS *NOT* THE PROBLEM.

The *REAL* issue is whatever pain the abuser needs to kill.

The substance of choice works (until it doesn't).

If we take the pain out of the equation, substance abuse will disappear.

POWERLESSNESS is a billion dollar business that has spread across our hearts and minds like a venom.

The "disease concept" kills people, lives and families every single day.

Labels LIE.

Ask "WHY?"

It's your life.

How do you want to remember it?

Don't get "sober."

Get WELL.

Revolutionary Recovery, baby!

Go-Go Rach Says:

ONE SPOKE.THEN, ANOTHER SPOKE.WE ALL SPOKE.AND IT STOPPED.

CHANGE IS COMING.

*BUCKLE UP*

"There's nothing to writing. All you do is sit down at a typewriter and open a vein." Walter Wellesley "Red" Smith

Get Me

I am a grown woman with a foul mouth, sharp wit, and lots of stories to tell. I will never apologize for what I write, or how I write about what interests me.

Life is not all roses and butterflies; I am fascinated by the darker side of it and the fucked up shit people do to each other in the name of "love."

I find it incredibly humorous when people read my work (over and over), then bitch about it, as if I have, somehow, tricked them about my content.

Finally, this blog is not about healing for me. I've moved well beyond the need or expectation that I might heal from the way I've been betrayed.

There is no healing from the shit I've been through.

Instead, I choose to embrace and accept the pain as a vital and appreciated part of myself.

I am a writer. I write. It's what I do and will continue to do until I take my last breath.

Until that time I will always call to the carpet the injustices I see via stories about the perpetrators. If you don't like it, don't read it.

If we behaved better, I would have nothing to write about.

That's What's Up.

“Confront the dark parts of yourself, and work to banish them with illumination and forgiveness. Your willingness to wrestle with your demons will cause your angels to sing. Use the pain as fuel, as a reminder of your strength.” August Wilson

"First they ignore you, then they laugh at you, then they fight you, then you win." Mahatma Gandhi