The pop diva has the platform to empower an entire generation of young girls, but we mourn the fact she’s using her influence to communicate that being strong means burning bridges, seeking revenge, and harboring anger. Real strength lies in the ability to forgive, reconcile, and move on. Ask your daughter what takes more courage: to live in anger with classmates who have wronged her, or forgive them. “To forgive is to set a prisoner free and discover that the prisoner was you.”