Try Messaging Women Older Than You

Men, 22-30 years old, focus almost exclusively on messaging women younger than them, according to OkCupid. As you can see below, even if a man has declared he won’t date someone under 20, he will still spend a significant amount of time messaging girls younger than his stated minimum. In fact, the average 30-year-old male will spend the same amount of time messaging teenagers as women his own age. According to these messaging habits, a women’s desirability peaks at 21, leaving a lot of fine women in their thirties and forties looking for matches like you. Simple probability tells you to go where all the others guys aren’t and message the women in the red zones.