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Phone banking glitch

I have an account at the same bank for my massage practice. She is not on the account. So when all this started, I moved my direct deposit, etc. to my massage account. I transfer funds to the joint account to cover specific bills. I was minding her store while she was out, and an envelope came from the bank, her name only. I didn't open it, it was obviously a new account package with debit card. Fine - I meant to suggest she open such an account, just hadn't mentioned it yet.

But I realized there is a problem. Phone banking at this bank uses social security number as a username. And mine is on both the joint account and my massage account. So she has the ability to both check up on my account and to transfer from it. I think I need to open an account at another bank. Inconvenient - I won't be able to easily transfer funds to the joint account.

For this reason, I bank at a different bank altogether. Inconveint, yes....safe is better.
I also had to change as my stbx has a womans name and there has been mixups in the past. It's a pain, but workable. Best of luck and change asap :)

Limits on title length prevented me from indicating a ? at end. I have been a diabetic for 15 years. I have finally become active in controlling it through exe4rcise and diet DUH!. My current obwservation is that it has also had an impact on my mental status. I am experiencing something like a combination of both anxoety and depression. Starting to believe the holostic approach to mental health...

I'm not sure if it's different in every state but I live in NJ. Does social sercuity take your money away or limited your benefits if you go to Hospice?

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