I would say 8. The husband is a bit kinkier than I like and though I do indulge him it would be nice if we explored what I might like a little more. #blush We have always been active people.

I'm like a vacuum bag
That holds all that old dirt
Remember that time we said we'd be together forever?
Don't hate me, don't regret me, don't ever forget me
Wherever you go, whatever you do, don't say I never loved you

Posts: 362 | Registered: May 2013

struggling3♀ 34671Member # 34671

Posted: 9:13 AM, June 22nd (Saturday), 2013

Ditto on that 10 plus!!! Always has been. We both marvel at the intensity and total satisfaction after almost 35 years together. Something to be said for totally knowing somebody and their body!!!

We were a 10+ up to 3 weeks before DDay when he cut me off completely. That's one of the many reasons I never had a clue about his goings-ons until then!

Now, we still hit 10+ most of the time. But for me, sometimes I'm at a 5 or 6. I don't think he notices every time it happens, but he has noticed. I still get mind movies regularly.

I know exactly what he did with OW#1 but I didn't ask for details about 2-4. So I wonder if he did this move or that move to them. Did he cuddle with #4 afterwards since they were "in lurve"?

Hopefully, one day the movies will go away!!!

I'm happy so many of you guys are 10s! Yay HB!!

[This message edited by TXBW68 at 1:55 PM, June 22nd (Saturday)]

Me (46) WH (42),2 boys 15 & 11
M 18yrs T 22yrs
Separated 10 months (4/12 to 2/13)
Final Total - #1/#2 ONS and #3/#4 EA/PA - left me for #4, didn't know about #2 and 3 until he moved back home
We are solidly in R now

Posts: 792 | Registered: Aug 2012 | From: Dallas, TX

LA44♀ 38384Member # 38384

Posted: 2:01 PM, June 22nd (Saturday), 2013

Today: 8-9/10

Before D-Day: 3-4/10 but it was improving in 2012 when I still did not know about the A.

I missed sex but couldn't/didn't tell him that. I feel as though finding out about the A broke me open and allowed me to release anger and break free from things holding me back.

trust no other human- love only your pets
She isn't and never was who I thought..I can't believe who I married and what she did to us.
Me 68
Her 64
Married 43 yrs (together 47)
18 yr LTA with bff/lawyer !!

Posts: 4414 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: the sad state of affairs

tuscandreamer♀ 17406Member # 17406

Posted: 9:04 PM, June 22nd (Saturday), 2013

I'm with scaredKat, -10. Non-existent. Too many issues that aren't resolved. Just don't feel the connection.

um, and just what kind of vitamins are y'all taking? Sometimes I feel like ours is +1000 too! I would have never dreamed that sex in our 50's could get hotter than in our 20's. It's fucking amazing, literally.

..the math teacher in me wishes to report a '10 to the power of 3', aka 10 cubed or 10 exponent 3, numerically = 1000..

..still alive.......but barely!!!!

smy

trust no other human- love only your pets
She isn't and never was who I thought..I can't believe who I married and what she did to us.
Me 68
Her 64
Married 43 yrs (together 47)
18 yr LTA with bff/lawyer !!