I am new to flash building and somehow to managed to create a great flash on my website with help of opencart.but now i need to export it to use it on my other wbesiteim confused how to export it , where is it stored?Have a look at my website, the flash script that i want it the Red High Heels Banners that keep changing

Unless you can point to something specific on the page that is made using Flash, there is nothing I can see in that page that uses Flash. I am guessing you have some jquery working for you instead. You'll need to seek out help from the folks in the web design forums for that.