Month: August 2009

Since 3 days ago my connection to internet is down and i can’t connect to internet. This internet black out cause by people which is cut down bts cable in 16 location in Bali which is not professionally work and causing 88 location of bts error. And this problem make me skip 3 days to blog and missed the nablopomo event, but it’s okay there is next month to join the nablopomo. But this black out make me think that internet had been addictive thing in my life and i need to make priority.

But with so many thing i want to do in life and so little time to enjoy time for myself. Then i will start by gradually make my 101 thing to do in 1001 days list, and i will start now. By time goes i update thing in the list while doing the other thing in list. It’s a dynamic list and i can change it if don’t feel suitable before i had do the task. But i can’t change the list after i do the task. Cause i often lazy to do routine thing and idea can come from anything but to become reality we must do the thing not just dream. And by written down the wish it will make easier to achieve and the universe will help us to make real.

And to tell other how i’m progress and what is the task i will make publish in one page, and make special tag for post the progress update which is “101/1001”. And because it’s my personal life and it can be very boring then you can just skip it, or if you feel interested to know the progress and give me courage you can read it and make comment. Thank for reading.

When we in a disaster then we will try our best to keep our life if we think there is hope that miracle will happen and we will survive the disaster. But if we think there is no miracle will happen and we will die soon, so we will lose faith and actually it eventually will happen because we don’t try to keep our life. Or when we have problem that look like it never solved and it’s haunted our life, just keep your faith that problem will solved cause miracle is happen. And miracle just happen to person that believe that miracle is real, and then just wait to happen. Cause when you really hope and believe it than nature will give respond. Then is up to you to take the chance or just let it go, and if you take the chance then miracle will come to your life. Keep believing and then miracle happen.

This is actually came from my personal experience when talk with some of my women friend but i think is funny. In Friday afternoon, me and some friend talked about fitness center near our office which is had 2 different tariff which is women member tariff is more cheaper than man member tariff. And i say that it’s exclusivity to attract more men not just women. Then one of my woman friend is not agreed that is not exclusivity but just to attract women to come fitness. Then i explain they give the exclusivity(lower price) to women and then many women came. Which is indirectly attract more men to come. So actually the fitness center is use the offer to attract more men. She still not agreed, then i explain more that even club have girl night out which is give free pass to women. And i said this promotion not just to attract women but to attract more men to come. She still arguing then i asked do you still fitness there if the price is same. She said that of course not cause she like the offer but she still not agreed that called exclusivity.

Nah, that the funny thought of women, they love to get free pass to club or lower price to become member but don’t want to called that some kind of promotion. Or it’s like when women wear sexy clothes to attract more men to look at them but get annoying if every men look at them, or they use high heel just to be looked more beautiful even it’s hurting them. So actually women love to have the attention but they being annoyed when they have the attention. And it’s funny, do you agree that women thought is funny?

Love is hard to explain but not love is easy to explain. Because not loving is will always come up with hatred or not care. And to express hatred is easy you can scold people, kick people, ignore people or even worse you can kill people. But our topic is love, and love is many kind depend on our relation with other. Love to our child, love to our spouse, love to our family, love to our country, love to our friend, but greatest love is love to humanity. Love is hard to give cause it can be wrong interpreted or wrong understand. Like when we want to help clean our spouse table but our spouse is angry cause our spouse hard to find the important notes or we want to help our child to happy by giving them present but they don’t like it cause it not toy they like. But by giving love to everyone you will be feel peace in mind cause you don’t keep hatred in your heart and you can eat, or do something without worry. And we must choose carefully to giving love cause it can be wrong understood or interpreted but not afraid to giving love.

Everyday we heard and read in news that people being robbed, stolen, killed, pick-pocketed, injured, had accident, and other bad thing happen. And when we look more deeply we know that actually almost all the danger can be avoided if we more keen to situation. But also there is danger that just happen and we can’t avoided, for this danger we just can pray and hope that not happen. But for danger can be avoided, then we must try harder to avoid, like this example: we pass the quiet street to make come home faster, but in the middle of the street, then from nowhere came a robber and threat our life to take our valuables, or when we being stolen it’s because we don’t put our valuables carefully and so on. So to avoid this danger we need keen mind and by having it we will less encounter danger. Because with keen mind we will know something is not right before it’s happen and we can take another action and the danger is passed. So, let keep your mind keen to help you out of danger.

why there is successful people and unsuccessful people in the world? we feel jealous when we see successful person and feel ashamed when we not success. But actually what is the difference between successful and unsuccessful person in work? of course it is a joy in the work we do. With joy in work we do, we will give our best effort to do the job and do the best work we can. But if it is no joy in the work we will just do the job. The result of the work will be different just by there is joy or not in the work. It’s like people who love fishing, they will know when it’s tide, where to find the fish, cause they have joy in their work. But people always afraid to do what they love in the job cause they afraid the job is not pay enough and it’s not right cause you will enjoy your job and you will rocket your income. So, Let’s chase joy in your work.

Problem always happen to everyone and can be easy, or it’s very hard. And problem can take long time if we don’t know how to solve, and sometimes it make our life worse. And sometimes people thinking the easy way which is run from the problem but as you know it will always come then it will be mountain of problem. So it’s better to solve problem when it’s little. But we can find people which is look like almost not have problem, what they have? Insight, ability to perceive clearly of something. Then to have insight we must practice with easy problem first and we must use logic not emotion. And soon you will have the ability.

As we know we hard to change our habit, so we must have a good habit at the first. to have good habit we must know what is it good or bad habit. Bad habit is drink or eat something that make our awareness down, use drugs, gamble, do asusila(cheat with other person) thing. And good habit is do sport regular, sleep well, not smoking, not gamble, not use drugs, and so on. With good habit we can make our life value better cause we are healthy. So how to have good habit? to have a habit we must do one thing every day until it automatically happen. It like when you take a bath usually you must do the same thing and you not aware of that, or when you eating you always do the same way to eat and use same technical to grab the spoon or fork. So easy to have good habit just do good act until it is automatically happen.

When we are in bad condition like poor, fired, break up, and other bad condition, usually we forgot to express our gratitude to god that we still life and can do thing. But it is weird even when we in good condition like rich, promoted, hook up and other good condition, we still forget to express our gratitude to god for good thing happen in our life. So gratitude is not related to our condition but to our mind, which is if we awaken then we will always express our gratitude to god for bad or good thing happen in our life. And by show your gratitude to god slowly we will increase our wisdom capacity, which is to find positive thing from our life. Later we can show our gratitude not just to god but to people in our life to show thank you, and we will know how important they are to our life.

Friend is very important for us when we want to do something, because we are not 100% all the time and if we are down, we need someone to keep our spirit high and reminded about our goal. But the other effect of friend is if your friend is cruel person then you will be change little by little to become cruel without your consent. if your friend is hard worker then you will slowly become hard worker too if you are lazy before, and if your friend love to play game then you will become gamer too. It’s true when we become friend then we have something in common but you need to choose friend carefully because friend have great effect to your life. So, when we want to make our life full of meaning find friend that good for us but in other hand we also don’t need to be picky when making friend.