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To find out how much of a statistical outlier you are check out the below pdf by the CDC. See pages 17 and 18 (for female and male respectively) for what percentage of people in your age range are still virgins. This pdf also has a lot of other great statistics such as average number of sex partners, type of sex etc...

Thing is it wasn't his fault. He has been in love with this girl for SIX years and that can't be lust.

It was her tastes that were a problem. She just likes people who have a lot of duis and don't go to college. Perfect reliable man for relationships. Nothing wrong with that of course. Whatever floats your boat.

I see so many people here complaining about girls not wanting "nice guys" and only wanting jerks and it's totally off base. Girls love nice guys, they just don't respect doormats.

Seriously, if you're not a total dickhead you're immediately ahead of like 80% of your competition all else being equal. The problem arises when people think that being nice is the ONLY thing that you need to interest someone. "Jerks" succeed in spite of their jerkiness because they have other things to offer, not because of the jerkiness.

These are non-exhaustive and averages so any one person might have radically different values for those variables but those are the qualities that your "average" person finds attractive and unattractive.

If it doesn't make sense or you want to look at the methodology read the whole article. It's good.

Look at the top 2 for positive. Jerks wouldn't do so well in those 2. "Frank" is a little higher than I expected.

So this really doesn't prove anything to me. Study looks like a joke to be quite honest. Girls can lie all they want, but they prefer the hawt looking guys that are alpha. This isn't a sexist observation, because obviously Men care a lot about looks as well. The difference is....Men are upfront about that while women continue to try and stroke their ego by pretending they care about things like "sensitivity" and "caring". They say this right before they text the Dudebro from Omega Phi who has a trustfund, a shiny red convertible, plays on the Lacrosse team, etc....

Serious and honest question. What is your game here? You're obviously not FA, and you seem to take any critique(fair or not) against western women personally. A non FA trying to tell everyone how bad their personalities are and that looks and status don't mean anything.

A long time ago I was hopelessly foreveralone and bought in to a lot of the self-pity traps that keep people posting on this subreddit. I believe that things like blaming the opposite sex or blaming society or circlejerking about how hard you have it only entrench you deeper and deeper into being alone.

I know how seductive those thoughts can be to your typical, frustrated dude on a very personal level but thankfully I have the gift of time and hindsight. I see how wrong I was and how counterproductive those attitudes were. My goal is to keep people from falling into those same traps and to encourage people to disown some of the bitterness and insecurity that is so enticing for posters here engage in.

Girls can lie all they want, but they prefer the hawt looking guys that are alpha.

Most women are unaware of what they like. Instead of asking them what they like we should instead look at what they chase and partner with. Actions speak louder than words and this is certainly a case.

They say this right before they text the Dudebro from Omega Phi who has a trustfund, a shiny red convertible, plays on the Lacrosse team, etc....