Yes, I agree with what Chi Chi said. It is the thoughts that count. If you want to hold an expensive wedding in a 5-star hotel, you cannot expect or blame guests who only gave you less than your desired amount in mind. You may learn to forgo this thinking since you may have already considered using a 5-star hotel for your wedding or the wedding you are going to attend. In the 1st place, if all couples are only thinking of earning back the angbao money or to break even, then they should engage a 3 to 4-star hotel. That will really save the troubles and worries. Hope this helps. Thanks.