Let's face it, if you're reading this then you're probably feeling a little creepy. Especially because it implies you want to meet them exclusively. But many people do want to meet Chinese girls for various reasons, so here are some tips for how to get started in a quasi-responsible and self-improving way.

Note that by the language "Chinese", this article is referring to Mandarin Chinese.

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Learn your “Asians”. Believe it or not, not all people of Asian descent are the same. What western culture calls “Asians” make up about 60% of the world population. Korean and Japanese culture has the strongest similarities with Chinese culture.

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Learn what offends the Chinese. It’s a bit of history and research, but that’s better than offending someone. To make things a little more confusing, the past century has created certain stigmas within Chinese groups. For example, Chinese people from Hong Kong often set themselves apart from “mainland” Chinese. It also goes without saying that the subject of Taiwan is touchy and best avoided in conversation (but do read up on it). Tibet is also another topic to avoid, due to the fact that many mainland Chinese do not even know this is an issue.

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Get your culture on. Chinese culture alone has been around for 2,000 or so years. So as uncultured as the old ladies on the bus may seem, they have descended from a proud history of great art, cutting edge technology, and culinary expertise. So watch Chinese films, go to Asian art museums. Besides learning the culture and for getting some language practice. This should not be seen as something 'bad', it's simply within their culture this is acceptable. Make sure you understand more about Chinese girls and dating first or you may end up a bit confused or even heartbroken.

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Get her to take you to “real” Chinese food places. Nothing makes a Chinese girl happier than being handed opportunities to bitch about how awful Chinese food is in Western countries while simultaneously showing off her knowledge in authentic Chinese food.

Chinese people love food. Meals are what bring us all together. Use this knowledge to your advantage -- and bonus points if you love food, too.

It also pays to know the difference between someone's nationality and their ethnicity.

Language courses can be expensive, so if you're time poor then self-taught options like Rosetta Stone are handy and work with your schedule.

Warnings

DO NOT approach Chinese girls at bars asking if they can practice Chinese with you. They often turn out to either not be Chinese, or they (or their boyfriend / friends) will slap you in the face.

Be smart about where you post your ad. Chinese girls hang out in places like bubble tea shops and cute stationery stores. They do not hang out at community centres or Asian supermarkets.

While this is a good way to meet Chinese girls, it doesn't mean that it will lead to love, or anything resembling it. And it certainly won't if you foster "love me long time" Suzy Wong stereotypes about Chinese women. Chinese women are well aware of these stereotypes and can often play along to their own personal advantage.

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