When to call it quits: 25 signs you should break up

Sometimes it’s obvious when you need to break up. If you find your girlfriend’s ex’s underwear in the bed, it’s over.

But other times – most times – it’s not so clear. Boredom and dissatisfaction may slowly creep up on you like rainclouds from a distance. Or you might roll over one day and suddenly realize you’re not happy. You might even go back and forth on the idea for days, weeks or months.

Sometimes, the only way to know whether a breakup was the right decision is in hindsight. But to help you make the right decision now, here are 25 signs you should think about ending it.

You would rather spend time with your Netflix account, homework assignments or chores than with your girlfriend.

You’ve been on and off more times than you can count.

You feel relieved when you think about what life would be like without them.

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