I first met Catalina when I was going to college in California. I was new in town and I really didn’t know the lay of the land. I was just completely clueless. Also, I really didn’t bang many chicks in high school and women were just a complete mystery to me. So I used to go to this place called Top Dog. It’s a hotdog stand down the hill so you develop some serious calf muscles walking from the campus to Top Dog and back. The campus of the college that I went to is located on the top of several hills so it was quite a workout and it was actually quite a lot of fun because on the top of those hills and from many of the buildings located on those hills, you can see a beautiful view of the San Francisco Bay area. It’s also awesome when there’s the sunset and you can see like a wide vista all lit up in red. It’s as if somebody set the horizon on fire. It’s something else.

Anyway I was hanging out at Top Dog ordering a vegan dog. It’s a hotdog with absolutely no meat products in it. The chick who was serving me struck up a conversation. She said, “Yeah, I’m a vegan too. So how long have you been a vegan?” And I told her that I was just experimenting with a vegan lifestyle. I’m not really too keen on the fact that the last emotion my food experience was extreme and abject terror. There’s something about the prospect of cow getting its throat slit open or being tortured to death that gets to me even to this very day.

And she and I bonded on that and I’m telling you right now, she’s not the best-looking woman, okay? She’s not Kate Upton. She’s not anywhere near Kate Upton territory. What drew me to her was her Gothic look. It’s not even so much her look, but her attitude. She had this, like, black lipstick, black eyeliner and what really drew me to her is that she just wants to be herself and she had many politically incorrect views and she burped a loud lay and she just was comfortable in her own skin. I mean, physically speaking, she was a knockout. I mean she had a great body, nice abs, big pair of tits. But it was really her personality and her personal aura that attracted me to her.

I’m telling you this story because she became a fuckfriend of mine. We’d like to go to poetry readings, we go to art shows in San Francisco and just have a great time and the night would end with her sucking my dick. I mean it was awesome. It was a great way to experience college and I still look back fondly to those memories and she’s still a friend now. So what’s the secret to all this? Develop a friendship first. I’m not talking about a friendship that’s like romantic friendship. I’m talking about like a real friendship.

The secret is to keep the door open to physical connection so that way nobody is surprised when sex enters the picture. This way both of you are not disappointed when the sexual element of your friendship disappears. I may not be fucking Catalina now, but she’s still a good friend of mine. I still consider her one of my dearest friends. And I know that the feeling is mutual. So learn from my story. I know it’s very easy to get all excited about having a fuckfriend, but the reason why you are excited is you are focusing on the word “fuck”. If you want that relationship to outlive the physical attraction, focus on the friend part of that relationship. Luckily nowadays things are so much more easier then it used to be, today you just register for free at FindFuckFriends.com and you’ll probably end up with a fuckbuddy in just a matter of days..
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