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Thursday, July 16, 2009

The strength of any building is its foundation. In fact a foundation determines the strength, height and design of a building. The truth of the matter is that when we look at a building we rarely consider the foundation; we look at the design and are mesmerized. We look at the windows and glasses and are struck with awe. When we see the interiors we are captivate by its beauty. This is the layman’s point of view but the builder’s point of view is absolutely different.

Marriage is like a building and if you want to have a successful marriage you need to approach it like a building; and the first thing you will need to consider is what kind of foundation you what to lay for your marriage. The foundation of any marriage begins at courtship so when the couples intending to get married spend time together in getting to know each other. The success of any marriage therefore will largely depend on how well the couple will handle their courtship.

Let me show you some important things any couple needs to know in courtship. I know you have heard of the saying “ignorance is not bliss” that’s very true in marriage. On several occasions I have had married persons come to me saying something like, my husband is not the same man I got married to, he has changed a great deal. I have come to learn the reason is because most of the couples don’t open up to each other during courtship. So they begin marriage as total strangers to each other.

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Achievement - Power And Ability Of A Positive Mind

“Attitude is everything!” This statement carries so much truth that if every one took time to think about it and make necessary adjustment in life, then our lives would change for the better. Many times in our quest for self improvement, we have concentrated on changing and improving many things but our attitude.

Attitude is a person’s frame of mind. It is the mindset that a person has that helps him to develop a world view. Attitude is expressed by how we respond to issues. One person once said, “Life is not what happens to you but how you respond to issues”. Two individuals may encounter a similar negative situation but how they will each respond will determine the outcome.

One of the main attitudes we need to embrace is cultivating a positive mindset or attitude. As you read through history you encounter ordinary individuals who did extra ordinary things. Moses in the Bible was known to stammer in his speech but he became the deliverer. Abraham Lincoln on the other hand educated himself; he had no formal education but became the most acclaimed president in the history of the United States.

Mother Teresa, a simple nun in Calcutta also became an icon through her acts of mercy and philanthropy. The list could go on and on. What characterized these people was a positive mindset, they all believed in possibilities and they responded decisively for the good of humanity.

Regardless of your present status and condition, you can accomplish anything with positive thinking. There is power that is released through positive thinking and once it is released, it will always work for you. Positive thinking acts to enhance your abilities and virtues. Nothing is impossible to him that believes.

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