Most Helpful Girl

I won the "Your #1 Deal Breaker" Contest after three days from joining the site. I thought, "What the heck, might as well keep my mind off until I get my own question answered." I sped forward to level 9 easily and got XPER 3000 points. Most of my points got eaten away from my inactivity, though.

This was my answer (excuse my Engrish):

"I believe that disrespect is the main source of any relationship breakup. Everyone is kind, patient, tolerant, forgiving, or hopeful to another, but if they feel disrespected, resentment, distrust, and fear follows it.

I experienced people who have been rude, said hurtful things to me, or lied to me, but I would forgive them. After a few times of them repeating their attacks at me directly or indirectly and after they apologized many times, I realized they were disrespecting my kindness. They kept asking what pushed my limits when I was giving up a lot for them and only asking them to stop doing what was hurting me."

Then I wonder what contests you have taken. I find only iq tests or doing great in studies show more accuracy in how smart you are. Anyone can win a contest really, you just have to have a lot of luck I find.