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Friday, January 21, 2011

LADIES TIP #3: LOSE THE WHORE CARD

I WAS INSPIRED TO WRITE THIS BLOG AFTER A MAJOR DISCUSSION WITH SOME LADIES ABOUT THE INFAMOUS QUESTION ” WHY ARE MEN SUCH LOSERS/LIARS/JERKS/ASSHOLES ETC???” WHILE IN DISCUSSION, ONE YOUNG LADY STATED THAT, IF GUYS WERE JUST MORE STRAIGHT UP AND HONEST IN THE BEGINNING ABOUT WHAT THEY WANT AS FAR AS A RELATIONSHIP, THEN MAYBE A WOMAN WOULD STILL MAKE THE CHOICE TO DEAL WITH THEM OR NOT. “JUST GIVE US WOMEN AN OPTION” SCREAMED ONE CHICK! LOL **CHUCKLES**NOW I CHUCKLE BECAUSE, AT ONE POINT IN MY LIFE, AS I WAS THAT CHICK THAT SCREAMED THAT SAD YET DISHONEST LINE. LADIES, WE WERE NOT BUILT TO BE UNEMOTIONAL CREATURES. DEAL WITH IT. IF A GUY HONESTLY TOLD YOU THAT ALL HE WANTED TO DO WAS HAVE SEX WITH YOU AND THAT’S IT, YOU WOULDN’T DEAL WITH HIM BECAUSE YOU WOULD THINK THAT HE IS A JERK. WE CAN’T TAKE THE HONESTY, SIMPLY BECAUSE WE CAN’T TAKE THE PAIN. THEREFORE, DON’T ASK FOR SOMETHING THAT YOU KNOW YOU CAN’T HANDLE. LADIES, LETS STOP MINIMIZING OURSELVES TO BEING SIMPLY SEX OBJECTS. WE ARE WORTH WAY MORE THAN THAT. WE DESERVE TO BE WITH MEN WHO VALUE US, RESPECT US, AND DESIRE TO SHARE MORE WITH US THAN AN ORGASM! IF YOU KNOW A RELATIONSHIP IS WHAT YOU WANT, STAND UP FOR IT, DON’T BACK DOWN FROM IT FOR THE SAKE OF SOME TEMPORARY AFFECTION.KNOW YOUR FACE VALUE AND THROW AWAY THE WHORE CARD!