realdealru2 write: well this way we could meet him & him meet us. it would be like the bachelor, call it the millionaire bachelor...Hmmmm I think I'm on to something here..............lmao also a lil spoiling goes a long ways too.

OOOOHHHH you have a wonderful thought there Real. When the "bachelor" came out i often wondered after that why they could not get the older crowd in on it. I think it would be a wonderful show to have 45-55 yr olds with a older bachelor. There are many distingished good looking men in the 45-55 range. Maybe one day they will do that.

Mrs FT- I thought that dress was gorgeous. It's the kind that your man fantasizes about especially when you wear it for him and for his eyes only. Great choice on a night spending at home

You are right and you are wrong, Real. RIGHT: You ladies are all very lovely and I am sure quite deserving of that kind of treatment. WRONG: because some of us want to pair off with just that one perfect person.

well this way we could meet him & him meet us. it would be like the bachelor, call it the millionaire bachelor...Hmmmm I think I'm on to something here..............lmao also a lil spoiling goes a long ways too.

realdealru2 write: Heck...I think we should go to all them places & be wined & dined nicely. If there was a true millionaire on here, you'd think he would step up to the plate & take all the over 40 women who have posted on here somewhere wonderful. I guess is no true millionaires tho................LOL

You are right and you are wrong, Real.
RIGHT: You ladies are all very lovely and I am sure quite deserving of that kind of treatment.
WRONG: because some of us want to pair off with just that one perfect person.

Heck...I think we should go to all them places & be wined & dined nicely. If there was a true millionaire on here, you'd think he would step up to the plate & take all the over 40 women who have posted on here somewhere wonderful. I guess is no true millionaires tho................LOL

Gem it was our reaction also when ugly started posting. He is an attractive man for sure. hehe!!

Welcome to the"nuthouse" You are gorgeous i might add. MSFUNTENDER i might add also fits in that description and i love that dress. The shoes i really like(i'm a shoe person. Have fun and enjoy meeting many people here..S4U

I'm with yah there S4U, that dress in my opinion is HOT!

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder as they say.

Now if only I could borrow Beaulababe's legs and silver sports car, MsFunLady's stilettos shoes and that dress and play my cards right I could pull off marrying a CEO in less than a month.

Ms. Fun and Tender,
welcome....you are beautiful.
the dress is lovely....you should be painted in it with a glass of champagne....lying on a chase lounge.

But you must admit it does have a bit of shock value....and it commands attention...It says.."I am a woman and will not be ignored".....this is not a bad thing. We are adults.

Perhaps you who does not know Sharp did not realise that she posted just a raised eyebrow....not a "lets burn the witch at the stake"... She is a kind and intelligent lady, beautiful and gets more emails for just being the classy lady she is, even if she is tight with her "goodies"....

Men are very not into this...."DRAMA"
It gives them the heebbeegeebees and makes them think that we all have "BAGAGE".

I don't think it is necessary to delete the thread, but we need to get back on track. We have 2 women on here, Sharp and msfuntender, who are both over 40 and both look great. You both have different taste. If msfuntender likes a certain look and she obviously looks great in it, find something positive to say about her look. Or just tell her she looks great. Msfuntender, perhaps you can do the same for Sharp. Ladies, let's not forget the hard work it takes to look great after 40 in a world that caters to sex and being young. We should be sticking together and not fighting about who's taste is morally correct. The bottom line is you both look great within your own taste. Can you two shake on this?

Blowing whistle hollaring time out!!!...how come it is a good thread seems to always turn into a battle ground of insults? does anyone on here really know each other? chances are most could end really liking each other if they was to meet in person, but chances of being run over by a bulldozer would be more likely than the meeting & making a new friend in person. seems like we the ones who are divorced knows that the fighting isnt fun & search for a different relationship that doesnt include insults & bashing..so why not agree to disagree, afterall...would be a boring world if we all liked, dressed & looked the same. Right? just my counterfeit 2 cents....LOL

Whew! Msfuntender for one who claims to have better ways to spend her time and earn money than deal with someone's upset noodle frequently...you sure are long winded! Or did I hit a nerve? lol It must have taken a fair bit of time to compose and type that post!
Well, I stand by my two previous posts and have nothing further to add. We're each entitled to our own opinions. There will be some people who share your opinion and people who share mine.
Good luck to you! Now that I know you are just planning on staying at home...nice dress! :-)

Ms. Sharp1
wow...I have heard of a bad hair day before...and wicked sharp tongued before..must be your button you take personally...instead of judgemental and purcatory of others or myself, perhaps some insight - you are not perfect by any means to judge others, i think that is called a hypocrit..perhaps some of those negative energies could be transformed into something of value and of respect for others, whether you know them or not. I see a temper and maybe somewhere deep you may have jealousy of women, and desire others to take your views...I dont have a need to judge, you or others.

As for professional, ....managers control, leaders coach. I can almost guess your position.

I assist professionals in psychology and counselors to assist such issues for personal awareness for themselves and coaching others, to control such flares and conduct demostrated.....cordially, you are not anyone elses judge or their mouths.Each person is responsibility for their self. They dont need a mother or a pursecutor.

Geesh,kids would be expected to rebel under such parenting.Promotion of self and critical thinking is anniliated with such attitudes-and you are treating adults like this, comfortably?

I just think time and energy could be better served promoting women not spewing at the mouth, and of distane and demonstrating unstable and/or cyclic patterns of turmoil induced conversation. Speaking does not require defense or disrespect.

Cordially
MzFunTender

p.s. FYI, To the contrary, you may want to look a bit deeper at some of the pix of the exceptional women before demonstration of hysteria and/or believing such conduct is righteous and "losing it".

p.s.s. No I didnt wear that in public, the pix states that in the profile. It is for home dining, certainly doesnt need to blown into such proportion to support a negative, raw, or wicked intent...or whatever you wish to create.

If your counting skin, than more body skin is shown in a two piece swimsuit.

Many professionals are more comfortable with their own sensuality, than the pix you have posted, and up to each how they show it. Doesnt mean my values are your words of slander... yes, I get many hits from professional men of utmost respect and earning nice incomes from 100k to 10M and apparently you beleive they too should be condemned as from the men I receive emails from are simply looking for someone comparible or in their desire. Who are you trying to be? What possesses this attitude? Jealous? A slayer?condemning? ego? what?

I would laugh as I find your attitude utterly immature and of raged ridicule, and the opposite of professional. Appears more out of an tone of an emotional rollercoaster and immaturity without an operator.
Emotional stability is acquired through having complete control over ones emotions and keeping them in check so as not creates one into such 'triggers' that let your views become distorted or created and raised from emotions and/or poor insight. Emotions are not suppose to rule over you. That leads to dysfunction and unstability. Perhaps this is over your head.

Can you imagine businesses ran on emotion....instead of intelligence...geesh, better ways to spend my time and earn money than deal with someones upset noodle frequently.
The world would be in more trouble. I simply find you may not be aware or understanding the dynamics and hence so "react" or pursue in such fashion.

Hope your days go better, honestly.
Love & hugs.

Oh, in reference if we are talking about true HONESTY value and posting out of the blue.I simply posted a cordial post to meet the group. Here was your response posting on 28Sept and then your second posting placed 7Oct.

p.s.s.s Oh sweetheart, security comes from within.I cordially do doubt the women on here are needing to attain your personal approvals..or from anyone....

I am starting to understand how the meaning of the 'cathouse' could reflect in dual connotations with some...I didnt think that was the direction of the forums, perhaps fortunately that kind of poor conduct it is only in a few at most.

PEACE.

The very first conversation posting started like this:

msfuntender write:
lol...you gals are awesome....

NYCHICK write:
u are awesome too and i swear to u i am trying my hardest not to comment on that dress.. its hmmm lovely and my god the shoes what can i say?? ok i just fell off my chair so i wouldnt type.. u look great

Sharp1 wrote:
Hahaha! The dress leaves me speechless! The words, "You might not want to stand up straight, come to mind!" lol
Could it be lingerie? She's not really planning to go out in public like that, right? lol
Okay...falling out of my chair so I can't type anymore! lol