How often do you find yourself saying, I am not good enough? I am not what someone would want, I am not important, what I feel doesn’t matter. These ways of thinking about yourself take huge amounts of energy! Does this happen to you instead of you happening to it? Yes we are stating this in a way that you can absorb this as a way to take the first steps in healing. We are all never healed, we are constantly in a state were we can enable healing. When thoughts such as this come up how do you think it makes you show up for love? There is no way to make this happen until you become present with those thoughts. If you have too much past and too much future you are not enough present that is where not enough is really pointing to. You can always choose this as a way to make a significant change not just out of your life but out of the love you have in it.

You can do this! We are counting on you, if this isn’t seen in the connection you have to yourself all your connections, relationships and choices in your life will suffer the consequences.

If you need our help, we are here, we are listening and you can make the difference!

I am writing you this to know I never meant to be against you in my existence inside, you keep making my heart beat in moments that seem unbearable, pointing me to the air I breathe the shared energy with nature not just of nature in all such as the trees that share this with me but with the other radiant human beings around me. I can hear they are suffering just as I do. It is because I, just like them have labeled things inside me that may or may not be what it means to be a soul having a human experience.. I limit the ability to experience you more fully when I go in my mind, abandoning you and then making promises that never seem to be in this moment to keep or accept you as my motion in love. I never see the place inside where you wait for me to connect with you, I remember thinking that someone outside of me needed to come to me and save me from this space that I called loneliness inside and it left me abandoning myself or seeking rejection where there never has been any in truth… I used to try and seek a definition of love in my mind that my mind could never make or could ever point me to. I never saw the relevance of knowing that love happens beyond the mind not in it. You and I shared this dream of one day being connected more fully. The me that was in the mind pointed to time to say I had it to one day. How could I find me as though it was something that would happen with time. Where time kept the door closed. I didn’t see that time is and always has been a way to reject you now… I ask you to forgive me in this space that I know is filled with never seeing the freedom it would be to just stay connected to you without time and feel you as you touch me in ways that allows me to experience this existence more fully in this moment..

My Soul,

You are my wholeness and my truth in being. I know I throw lies at you and even though we experience things such as mind created heartbreak, you do everything within you to hold my heart in my absence. You know I never give you credit for holding me together when you continue to do so in my blatant disregard of being thankful to you to stay connected to me even though I am not aware of being connected to you. You know how to never give up on me in this existence whether I call attention to it or not. When this connection came into my life outside me, I never saw the vibration or frequency to know that inside is where I was to go to know what this meant, and what it was going to give me that was abundantly available to me by choice. How do we see the choice we don’t make in choosing ourselves became quite clear!

Beautiful Storm of My Existence,

As I sit here and write this, tears flow from me from this recent journey through a new dark night of the soul and I can hear you saying breathe through this, all the answers were always within you, emptiness was never empty it was always filled with love as I only labeled it empty… You could see this in the light the stars show you at night as you look up and see there night sky light up cause the light exist even when you don’t see it, it is still there. You just couldn’t feel this, your mind was making to much noise which made you choose this . What connection is to you is to be connected more fully to the soul no matter what your thoughts about it are. If you are in fear about what the future will give you, it is because you are lost to the illusion of what doesn’t exist in this moment and any outlook past the now is pointless yet your connection to it is considered normal as a human being.

My Patient Soul,

You wait patiently for me to figure out that my thoughts have me isolated and that I have all but lost my connection to you cause I am in my mind which still is housed by you soul.. Please forgive that I become lost to lose sight, sound, smell, touch and taste that you gift me and it is all through your will soul! It is not but to go anywhere but to the true anchor of me to not lose the experience. You have chosen experiences in my existence to help me see you when I knew you needed me to find you to go into a deeper state of healing! It is during these times that you carry me when I can’t see how I got somewhere. My want/need to be connected to the innocent child within that wants/needs me to hold me and stay with me and feel the love that is never out of reach to me is more than I could have asked for. More than I ever should have known you are always there waiting patiently for me to see this truth and to see that I can always choose me in the times that light may not seem to be something I can access you are the guiding light of all things me! You never leave me alone not in my waking moments or sleeping ones. If it weren’t for your never ending connection to me within I would have not found a truth in deeper connection outside me. I love you soul!

One has the ability to change you completely, the other will only keep you making the same choices over and over… come on over to here we will be starting on Jan 8 2017 for a entire series every month that will change your connection to yourself and show you a deeper more profound way to love ever more deeply… We will be interacting real time on these days so you can interact with us… Lee and Sherry

Into me see (Intimacy) Abandonment…
Recently we did a video on rejection and how rejecting rejection shows up. The trigger here is how we learned to abandon ourselves when we felt we created expectations. This was flawed because of what we experienced long ago. The hurt we never got passed is because we did experience abandonment of many kinds. Mostly from not understanding what happens when we are younger. A inner child was hurt and we didn’t see clearly, we explained it away so the things that happened to us, gave a reason that was outside of us but not inside of us! We did not even see why we made it a choice to do something opposite that would make sense to us in being. This was a lost voice in us that was not created because of the behavior that was done outside in such a way that we excused it and then said something to make it make sense to us! This didn’t make it hurt less, in fact it did the opposite!

It gave the story a place to continue to seek out validation, what that meant was that it was somewhere within me that I would seek out those that would abandon me and me abandon them not for the right or wrong reasons but for the reasons that would make what happen to me make even more sense. The loss experienced in this was about what I told myself inside, that what I was, was less somehow! The hurt suffered under this way created more suffering than it created relief from the hurt!

In the hurt I would say things about how I was left and how I was rejected, then I would say how I was not worthy of love or even life. This was entirely something I didn’t know how to resolve inside especially as I kept doing this to myself over and over and not seeing how the law of attraction was only attracting the same experiences, this attraction would bring the same kinds of people into my life that identified with exactly the same kind of misery I did to me! We want to share with others without knowing this is what we attract not knowing the truth that it was a undeserved karma.

It is not something you can see clearly until connection happens to you… You suffer under the connection making up what the connection wants you to have within your life, you will be free for moments in this connection usually in the absent phase of judgment which is the bubble phase or honeymoon phase of a new relationship or connection you experience. At some point though the trigger that could arise could be one that says, “What if I loose this person or they see the real me and don’t except me?” This observation deck creates the same silence done to you that you had when it happened to you! This is when the you (created ego in you) that is not you is able to return and all the stories you told yourself are allowed to make you hurt again to prove your words said in the universe. Not seeing this will start to create behaviors in you that tell the other that you are abandoning them.. “This is you actually abandoning yourself.” It feels more and more familiar as you keep the thought process hidden or the hurt has gotten so strong your behavior starts an erratic behavior that makes you start to judge yourself even more. (The open door to judge others comes from this judgment you do to yourself!) This art of suffering is so elusive to you yet it has to play out to make sense of what happened to you before.

This sanity is not just sane it is both insane and sane at the same time. It says you can’t be with, or that someone else is better and then it stays elusive to you because of the self fulfilling abandonment you do to yourself always made sense until now! Going deep into the truth of this would mean to develop a voice in you that would birth the hurt that was pain in the first place. You will truly see yourself in what you really wanted to say with the hurt happen when it first occurred.

We went deep into these things within our connection, it was what separated us from ourselves and what we thought connection was to begin with. I guess simply asking this the right way inside would be, do I believe those that are connected to me will abandon or reject me, if this is your truth, are you sure it isn’t a way to keep the story of what happen to you alive so you repeat the hurt over and over until you find the voice in the head that makes you make the same choices over and over? How do you find this voice? How deep can you go when it comes to soul searching do you know where the truth really is within you to experience your true intimacy (Into Me See)?

In your relationship to you do you say things such as No one gets me, No one understands me!

No one loves me! No one cares what I think or what I feel!

These are hurtful promises we make ourselves without even seeing we did the one thing no one else will be able to do for us cause in turn we are doing this to ourselves. If you could separate you from the inner child within you is this how you would treat the child you are in your soul?

You can always make a different choice! If you want to free yourself of your patterns that validate your story find us we are here! We get it!
Love deeply,

Lets face it, Union is what most of us are after. Union with the Twin is a focus. How do I get there? I am so frustrated, what do I do? I am ready to give up! I no longer want to be connected!
how do I stop obsession over this? OMG My Twin is marrying someone else, or is already married! I can’t stop looking at their social media accounts. I am trying to do the inner work, or I have done my inner work, why am I not in union? Why do I have to be the one doing all the work? These questions and statements are what we literally hear all day everyday. We enjoy what we do, and we spend many hours doing it. One thing we will NEVER tell you is who your Twin is or is not. We believe that is only something YOU know internally. What we do is listen, without judgement. We fall in love with you and show you how to fall in love with yourself.
Doing your work is something no one can do for you. What we do is give you the tools and guide you along and assist you and hold you and support you while you are experiencing difficult issues. We get this question all of the time and while it is a controversial question we have never really answered it publicly. The Question is, Can you help me get into UNION ?
Our Answer is we can “Guide” you to union. That means we start with you, and once that happens, well I will say this, 98.9 % of the time BEFORE we are even half way through, we get the email, “OMG YOU GUYS, YOU ARE NEVER GOING TO BELIEVE WHO CONTACTED ME, UNBLOCKED ME, E MAILED ME, CALLED ME, STOPPED BY. “Whatever the case is, TRUTHFULLY We are never surprised. Problem is the obsession sets in and then its time consuming and the coaching is the last thing on the “mind” and then shit hits the fan, and here comes an email, sorry guys I don’t know what to do.
We often have clients who take what we say to them, absorb it, but do not really like the “truth” often times and they finish out the package and do not really utilize the tools and we watch in the groups as they post the same questions over and over and we watch the obsession unfold in front of us, Hamster wheels racing against one another. We take a very truthful approach to this thing we all call the Twin Flame dynamic. We don’t sugarcoat anything. We do not catch you up in “mystical things” such as chakras or cords or rituals or anything of that nature, it is not that we do not believe in any of those things, it is because to much going on at once adds to way to much damn confusion, Our mission comes in the beginning. The clearing, The inner work, The self help, The understanding of it all, taking all of the confusion out of it, and breaking it down really simple. There is a time and a place for “mystical things”. The beginning is not it.
This connection is simple, it is a connection. Union is where it becomes complicated. We watch as couples break down over the internet, we watch families get involved and restraining orders and jealousy, and moving to different parts of the country unfold in front of our eyes, adding religion and drugs and all kinds of other things into the connection. Focus comes off Union and becomes very human and shit gets real, the public displays of arguing, the pissing matches, it all becomes overwhelming and makes it all the more confusing to those looking for something to cling to.
Our Journey was not all roses and unicorns. Literally there was manipulation, adultery, lies, jail, other people, manipulation, prostitution, womanizing, hateful words, separations, homelessness, disconnection, hate, jealousy. I could go on for days. The fact is We have been through the hardest parts, part of our mission is to help coach so YOU DON’T HAVE TO.
We can help you! We have a team of coaches we trust and who have been PERSONALLY trained by us to assist us in our mission and we have a hand full of them assisting in mission already! We CAN HELP YOU.. even if you have been in coaching with us before and you think you got it so you didn’t finish, we can still help you! even if you feel you cannot handle anymore truth, WE CAN HELP YOU. If you are married or your TWIN IS, OR if they are getting married to someone else.. or if they are a celebrity and you don’t think THEY even know you exist, WE CAN HELP YOU.
If you do not make an investment in yourself, who will? This is about you! IT STARTS WITH YOU! This dynamic is not NEAR AS DIFFICULT as most of you are making it, It is VERY simple…. YOU ARE THE ONES PUTTING OBSTACLES IN THE WAY!!! We can show you how to stop doing that!
Your Union does not have to be as difficult to obtain as ours was, we are here to help you avoid that. Will it all be roses and unicorns? NO. But it can be very simple, and peaceful.
We are in Union, We work side by side everyday, we have overcome obstacles most would not even believe. We are truthful, We are HONEST, We care, We are listening, We can help, We will not judge you, We will not sugarcoat your behaviors, but we can help you correct them and we can help you to stop judging yourself!!! We are Relationship Reinvented, ALL OF US!
We love you
Lee and Sherry