Remember that scene in Revenge of the Nerds when one of the nerds pretends to be a cheerleader’s boyfriend and has sex with her? In the movie world of Hollywood, this is supercool and awesome. She even falls in love with the nerd because…I don’t know. Sex? Here in the real world, however, that’s considered rape.

A panel of California judges overturned the conviction of Julio Morales because the woman he raped thought that he was her boyfriend. The woman had been drinking and she and her boyfriend had gone to sleep after consciously deciding not to have sex for lack of a condom. At some point in the night, the boyfriend left without the woman’s knowledge. Morales sneaked into the room and, pretending to be the boyfriend in the dark room, had sex with the inebriated and half-asleep woman. She realized during the intercourse that she was having sex with someone who was not her boyfriend.

Had she been married, this would be an open and shut case (no tacky pun intended). But, due to a law passed in 1872 (yes, Eighteen Seventy Two), an unmarried woman is not protected. In other words, if an unmarried woman has sex with a stranger without her consent, then too bad for her. The misogyny and rape culture is so obvious that it simply defies description. This is the kind of parsing of rape that leads to “legitimate rape” and “forcible rape” and allows rapists to, in all seriousness, argue that it was “consensual sex.” That’s not so bad, right?

In this particular, the prosecutors put forth two arguments: one, that it was rape because she was sleeping, and, two, that it was rape because she was tricked. The panel wants to be sure that the conviction was based on the part of the law that defines sex with a sleeping victim as rape and not on the part where tricking an unmarried woman is not rape.

The decision handed down overturning Morales’ conviction and ordering a retrial also calls for an overhaul of the law to remove this egregious loophole. This will be scant comfort to the victim if her rapist goes free and, even if he is convicted for a second time, the trauma of reliving the rape hardly seems to be what we would call justice.

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I was raped in ’05. In the course of the report I made to the police they asked me if I take any prescription medications. I said yes. They asked what. I told them. They asked what for. I told them that I’m bipolar. Well, they actually failed to pursue a legitimate, proven rape claim because I’m bipolar. They decided that I could have been manic and “asking for it” (I got a bit of vague, hinting “clarification” at a later time…). This guy raped 4 women, me and 3 subsequent victims, before the police called me back. Apparently they couldn’t give him an excuse to rape because of my mental health condition any longer. No longer, after 3 additional victims, did my mental health diagnosis equal a consent! 3 more women had to be raped for this man to be brought to justice.

He was tried for ONE count of rape in the first degree (only his most recent victim, excluding myself and the 2 other women) and was sentenced to 10 years without parole and deportation (he was on a temporary immigration visa). The other 2 victims and I were at the trial and were ready to testify for the prosecution, however they didn’t call us. He is serving his sentence in Ohio prisons and will be deported (finally some justice!) when he has served his time.

I cannot believe the disgusting excuses that allow rapists to rape women and not be prosecuted or held accountable for their crimes. This woman was incapable of giving consent, I was raped however happened to have a medical condition that is the cause of unlawful discrimination, and who knows what else happens in this country??!!!