Over Kill!!

So first time posting on here so here I go. My boyfriend and I are expecting our first (12 weeks) in July and are very excited! We both are 20 and are TOTAL goofballs with each other, which has always been fine. Since I found out I was pregnant I have been on a more serious note the past month, but the boyfriend not so much. He has started acting more like a kid than ever! Whining, calling me names( not means one just stupid s*#t), picks on me for eating alot, and is sometimes over touchy feely. He even won't let me sleep if he's not tired, literally shakes me to stay up. I know it's probably not coming into perspective for him like it has for me but seriously I want to punch him in the face everytime he starts acting like that and I have never felt that way before. Plus every time I get upset from it he starts off with"I'm sorry I was just playing" and of course I want to reply " did you not see my face? Obviously I didn't like it" but I don't. Am I over reacting? I don't want to be serious all the time. It's just acting that way right now, towards me, I can't seem to find the humor in it.

So first time posting on here so here I go. My boyfriend and I are expecting our first (12 weeks) in July and are very excited! We both are 20 and are TOTAL goofballs with each other, which has always been fine. Since I found out I was pregnant I have been on a more serious note the past month, but the boyfriend not so much. He has started acting more like a kid than ever! Whining, calling me names( not means one just stupid s*#t), picks on me for eating alot, and is sometimes over touchy feely. He even won't let me sleep if he's not tired, literally shakes me to stay up. I know it's probably not coming into perspective for him like it has for me but seriously I want to punch him in the face everytime he starts acting like that and I have never felt that way before. Plus every time I get upset from it he starts off with"I'm sorry I was just playing" and of course I want to reply " did you not see my face? Obviously I didn't like it" but I don't. Am I over reacting? I don't want to be serious all the time. It's just acting that way right now, towards me, I can't seem to find the humor in it.

It will all pass hun. Me and my boyfriend are the exact same! Always being idiots and goofing around. I took it so serious, in my first trimester. In my second I started to go back to my normal self. Now that I'm almost into my third trimester, I'm getting into the dont piss me off mood! It's just hormones. Hang in there :)

It will all pass hun. Me and my boyfriend are the exact same! Always being idiots and goofing around. I took it so serious, in my first trimester. In my second I started to go back to my normal self. Now that I'm almost into my third trimester, I'm getting into the dont piss me off mood! It's just hormones. Hang in there :)

yea. like PP said, it's his last chance to be a kid, plus your hormones make u more grouchy about everything. cuz that's how me and my bf are, I probably get mad at him about 5 times a day, and he doesn't quite understand that I'm more agitated because of my hormones, so when he gets mad I get even more mad, then it turns into a huuuuuge mess lolgood luck tho, hopefully your feelings will change

yea. like PP said, it's his last chance to be a kid, plus your hormones make u more grouchy about everything. cuz that's how me and my bf are, I probably get mad at him about 5 times a day, and he doesn't quite understand that I'm more agitated because of my hormones, so when he gets mad I get even more mad, then it turns into a huuuuuge mess lolgood luck tho, hopefully your feelings will change

definitely hormones. I was a total B my first trimester. I felt so bad for my bf because things he used to do to make me laugh would annoy the S*** out of me! I know how hard it is. Usually, advice would be talk to him, but when I talked to my bf about it he thought it would be better to just stop playing with me at all... then that frustrated me cuz I wasn't in a bad mood ALL THE TIME. It will pass though.

definitely hormones. I was a total B my first trimester. I felt so bad for my bf because things he used to do to make me laugh would annoy the S*** out of me! I know how hard it is. Usually, advice would be talk to him, but when I talked to my bf about it he thought it would be better to just stop playing with me at all... then that frustrated me cuz I wasn't in a bad mood ALL THE TIME. It will pass though.

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