As an icon of popular culture, Buck Angel's message of empowerment through self-acceptance and being sexually comfortable in your own skin has struck a passionate chord with folks all over the world.

Sunday, July 31, 2005

Men who want a pussy!

As you all know(or maybe not) I am a man with a pussy. I have mine because I was born female and had a sex change to male but kept my manhole. I get tons of shit from people (lots from the FTMs) for "exploiting" myself and my hole. Because they believe you cannot be a MAN and have a PUSSY. I beg to differ. Well, I don't know about beg!

Anyway I just felt like I need to let you know something that has been on my mind and really fucks with those guys who think that you can't be a man and have a pussy. I have been getting some emails from men (not FTM) who want to have their cocks surgically replaced with a pussy. They don't identify as women nor do they want to be women. They just want to be a man with a pussy.

Now just think about that for a minute. Pretty amazing don't you think? They have told me that they have always felt this way but could never tell anyone about it because peoplewould think they were crazy (sound familiar?). They tell me that I have changed their lives and that I have made them believe that they can do this and still be a man. WOW! That is just so amazing. I honestly never knew there were guys like that. But damn it just reinforces who and what I am!

I really feel like my porn work is turning into something more. I am changing peoples perspectives on sex and gender. It's a really incredible feeling!

4 comments:

Thanks, Buck, for the fine column on men who want to have pussies. You and I have corresponded about this and I really appreciate your encouragement as I seek to have my genitalia reassigned. It is amazing to learn from you that there are other guys who share with me this need to continue living outwardly as male but who need to be able to take another man the way a woman does. I know I will feel much happier when I lose the silly little stuff that dangles from my crotch.

Although you come to being "a man with a pussy" from a different direction, you are an inspiration to me...and, I am, sure to others like me.

I hope other men will respond to your fine essay and perhaps we can make contact.

I understand that. If it were feasable for me to gain a funtional cock and keep my girl body, I'd do it and then my brain would match up with the body, finally. But, as I'm sure you know, creating cock where there isn't one is a rough, unaesthetic process, and who wants to lose the ability to come? NOT ME!