Free all the time, free for all the features, unpaid members (we have no paid members) get everything on here.

100% free, now, later, for everyone all the time, no jokes, no bait and switches, no fraudulently tricky this or that or the other thing, just . . . free.

100% lesbian owned and operated

As lesbians, we would prefer to make our important social connections on sites run by other lesbians, or at least other lesbian-friendly queer folks.

We're 100% lesbian owned and operated, and a lot of our members appreciate that.

no busywork, no bullcrap,
no infinite noise

You will NOT need to:

wade through a swamp of total wankers never screened first by any human

hear from anyone outside your geographic area, if that doesn't interest you

hear from anyone outside the demographic you choose

take quizzes about totally unrelated stuff

rate the profiles of complete strangers

read 45,000 feeds about what somebody's hamster is having for lunch, etc.

play online games involving imaginary farm animals

much more private than most social sites

We will never publish anything about you anyplace that's public viewing. We will also never sell or share your information with any other company or website.

Unlike many social sites, none of the information here originated elsewhere, nor will it be sent or displayed elsewhere. Nothing here came from any other site or will be subsequently posted on any other site. Nothing whatsoever will be syndicated, sold, or disseminated elsewhere.

In other words, our personals & social networking is as private as it could possibly be, yet still function over the internet. If you want to meet new folks even more privately than this site, you'll have to go off internet only.

time sucking rejection slashed . . .

. . . via reality-based filtering. We don't waste your time showing you folks who will NOT be interested in your demographic. Everyone is NOT tossed on the same huge heap. Everyone in your search results will have already stated THEY want to meet someone like YOU.

No, we're not gearing up to charge later. We'll still be free for all the later that will ever exist during which this site continues to exist as well.

We can be your "traditional" or "old-fashioned" personals site

. . . but our more clever members use us for more, and more creatively.

They don't JUST find ONE person for ONE sort of relationship, then socially disconnect from other like-minded members.

You can ALSO use us to:

build a better social life overall, with and without dates in tow

meet new like-minded members to invite to events, or get invited yourself9>

expand your social circles, on the internet and off

keep in touch with your local lesbian community

discover other members of your tribe

lesbian social network

add new members to your gang of friends

We have adopted a broad definition for "lesbian" as it applies to whom we will accept as a member.

In addition to women who exclusively love other women one-at-a-time, we accept women as members who identify as bisexual, who are married to men, who are non-monogamous and/or polyamorous, etc. (Consider the "etc." to mean whatever you think it means.)

HOWEVER, YOU can choose to adopt whatever definition YOU choose for the purpose of YOUR own dating and relating, including and/or eliminating any of the above as it suits YOU.