Episode 19: Marriage IS REAL! w/ Damian & Jamie Johnson

An episode of The Black Daddy Podcast

By Donald Gadson Jr

The Black Daddy Podcast is a show created for ALL fathers and those they love. If you are looking for weekly encouragement, inspiration, or challenge, tune in every week for a fresh take on Fatherhood, Faith, and Finances.

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Take A Leap! Just over a year ago, we took a bold step to launch the Black Daddy Podcast. http://www.blackdaddypodcast.com We went from just hitting the record button to an all out production of what has become for us a labor of love. So much has been learned about the art of communication, the importance of excellence in media and the invaluable and transferrable skill of working together. All three of these have yielded the result of going far. Through this process we have, to put it in a catchphrase, “gotten better together.” The Black Daddy Podcast has been a tremendous step in our journey to the next RIGHT thing. In this video we discuss what we, through an amaz

You have to have principles OVER feelings! With the holiday season upon us many people are starting to ponder their New Year’s resolutions. Whenever we seek inspiration, encouragement or motivation , the man we look to is Eric Thomas AKA etthehipohoppreacher. His podcast, curriculum and simple quotes help us to refresh our focus on the goals we set .With 4 more weeks until the end of the year, we will share our favorite E.T. quotes to help motivate and jump start your goal setting. Check out ET at: http://www.etinspires.com http://www.breatheuniversity.com https://twitter.com/Ericthomasbtc Questions or Comments? hello@blackdaddypodcast.com

It's not what happened to you that broke you. It's how you responded to what happened to you that broke you. With the holiday season upon us many people are starting to ponder their New Year’s resolutions. Whenever we seek inspiration, encouragement or motivation , the man we look to is Eric Thomas AKA etthehipohoppreacher. His podcast, curriculum and simple quotes help us to refresh our focus on the goals we set .With 4 more weeks until the end of the year, we will share our favorite E.T. quotes to help motivate and jump start your goal setting. Check out ET at: http://www.etinspires.com http://www.breatheuniversity.com https://twitter.com/Ericthomasbtc Questions or Comments? hello@blackda

Talented? Smart? So What! Be Consistent! With the holiday season upon us many people are starting to ponder their New Year’s resolutions. Whenever we seek inspiration, encouragement or motivation , the man we look to is Eric Thomas AKA etthehipohoppreacher. His podcast, curriculum and simple quotes help us to refresh our focus on the goals we set .With 4 more weeks until the end of the year, we will share our favorite E.T. quotes to help motivate and jump start your goal setting. Check out ET at: http://www.etinspires.com http://www.breatheuniversity.com https://twitter.com/Ericthomasbtc

Are you the HUNTER or the HUNTED? With the holiday season upon us many people are starting to ponder their New Year’s resolutions. Whenever we seek inspiration, encouragement or motivation , the man we look to is Eric Thomas AKA etthehipohoppreacher. His podcast, curriculum and simple quotes help us to refresh our focus on the goals we set .With 4 more weeks until the end of the year, we will share our favorite E.T. quotes to help motivate and jump start your goal setting. Check out ET at: http://www.etinspires.com http://www.breatheuniversity.com https://twitter.com/Ericthomasbtc

Talaat & Tai McNeely are America's #1 Money Couple! As Founder's of His & Her Money, they are passionate about helping others with Money, Marriage, and Everything in Between. Listen in as they discuss: 10 Hacks to winning financially. "The two income trap" What single men and women can do to build solid foundations for their future family. The hottest tips for saving money during the holidays. Visit the McNeelys' @ http://www.hisandhermoney.com Questions or comments ? email us @ hello@blackdaddypodcast.com http://www.twitter.com/blackdaddynow

Talaat & Tai McNeely are America's #1 Money Couple! As Founder's of His & Her Money, they are passionate about helping others with Money, Marriage, and Everything in Between. Listen in as they discuss: 10 Hacks to winning financially. "The two income trap" What single men and women can do to build solid foundations for their future family. The hottest tips for saving money during the holidays. Visit the McNeelys' @ http://www.hisandhermoney.com Questions or comments ? email us @ hello@blackdaddypodcast.com http://www.twitter.com/blackdaddynow

In this Episode Mikala Streeter and I talk S.T.E.M. Schools and : Empowering and teaching your child to solve real world problems Ways to expose your child to computer programing How parents can use project based learning at home as a part of their child's educational experience How to develop 21st century skills (such as critical thinking, problem solving, and working in multi-disciplinary teams) in your child and more! http://www.thelifeschool.co/ https://www.facebook.com/thelifeschool Questions or comments? hello@blackdaddypodcast.com

In this Episode Mikala Streeter and I talk S.T.E.M. Schools and : Empowering and teaching your child to solve real world problems Ways to expose your child to computer programing How parents can use project based learning at home as a part of their child's educational experience How to develop 21st century skills (such as critical thinking, problem solving, and working in multi-disciplinary teams) in your child and more! http://www.thelifeschool.co/ https://www.facebook.com/thelifeschool Questions or comments? hello@blackdaddypodcast.com

Welcome to Episode 27 of the Black Daddy Podcast After a break, we are back and stronger than ever! It hasn’t been simple, easy, or all roses but we are advancing forward. Listen in as we talk about 1. Our mourning process for the last few months 2.Ava Duvernays’ Hit Documentary “13th” 3. Some reflections on the movie "The Birth of a Nation." Intro/Outro Music : Lecrae's Church Clothes 3 'Can't Do You"

Welcome to Episode 27 of the Black Daddy Podcast After a break, we are back and stronger than ever! It hasn’t been simple, easy, or all roses but we are advancing forward. Listen in as we talk about 1. Our mourning process for the last few months 2.Ava Duvernays’ Hit Documentary “13th” 3. Some reflections on the movie "The Birth of a Nation." Intro/Outro Music : Lecrae's Church Clothes 3 'Can't Do You"

Join us as we continue our convo from Episode 25. We get into: 1.Principles over feelings / making a plan and executing vs. going with your feelings -working the plan to payoff debt 2.The emotional toll it can take when you feel like it's never going to end ... How to push through . 3.The journey from being distracted to getting on the same page and how that attracted blessing of God ( oneness/unity). 4.The principle of Giving . The saying goes: " you take care of Gods business , he'll take care of yours" 5.Living like no one else so you can live like no one else. The reality of normal being broke. How to overcome. Questions or Comments: hello@blackdaddypodcast.com http://www.instagram.com/

Join us as we continue our convo from Episode 25. We get into: 1.Principles over feelings / making a plan and executing vs. going with your feelings -working the plan to payoff debt 2.The emotional toll it can take when you feel like it's never going to end ... How to push through . 3.The journey from being distracted to getting on the same page and how that attracted blessing of God ( oneness/unity). 4.The principle of Giving . The saying goes: " you take care of Gods business , he'll take care of yours" 5.Living like no one else so you can live like no one else. The reality of normal being broke. How to overcome. Questions or Comments: hello@blackdaddypodcast.com http://www.instagram.com/

In This Episode (Episode 25) we open up about the REALNESS of getting rid of "our" student loans. WE also cover : 1. Good debt vs. Bad Debt Debate - credit cards , student loans , mortgages, consumer debt etc. 2. My (Donald's) Dual enrollment story - "How I could have saved 30k and 2 years of paying Sallie Mae and how it led to $60,000 in student loan debt! 3. The secret to "waking up" :Our conversations about MAKING MORE to " GET OUT" AND 4. The Debt Snowball Momentum ( hank you DAVE RAMSEY) Questions? Email us : hello@blackdaddypodcast.com Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/blackdaddynow Twitter: ht

In This Episode (Episode 25) we open up about the REALNESS of getting rid of "our" student loans. WE also cover : 1. Good debt vs. Bad Debt Debate - credit cards , student loans , mortgages, consumer debt etc. 2. My (Donald's) Dual enrollment story - "How I could have saved 30k and 2 years of paying Sallie Mae and how it led to $60,000 in student loan debt! 3. The secret to "waking up" :Our conversations about MAKING MORE to " GET OUT" AND 4. The Debt Snowball Momentum ( hank you DAVE RAMSEY) Questions? Email us : hello@blackdaddypodcast.com Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/blackdaddynow Twitter: ht

This is the continuation of my conversation with Dr. Joe Martin of the Real Men Connect Podcast. If you need to check out Episode 23 where we unpacked the beginning of this conversation, check it out. In this Episode we talk about: Leadership as a man. How having a baby affects a relationship. THE HOT SEAT: Joe Martin's M.A.N.U.P. Questions. Check out Joe Martin's Podcast here : http://realmenconnect.com/ Listen to the archives here : http://www.blackdaddypodcast.com

This is the continuation of my conversation with Dr. Joe Martin of the Real Men Connect Podcast. If you need to check out Episode 23 where we unpacked the beginning of this conversation, check it out. In this Episode we talk about: Leadership as a man. How having a baby affects a relationship. THE HOT SEAT: Joe Martin's M.A.N.U.P. Questions. Check out Joe Martin's Podcast here : http://realmenconnect.com/ Listen to the archives here : http://www.blackdaddypodcast.com

What makes a man a real man? If you take time to answer that question you'll uncover some truths , deep rooted beliefs and even some lies . Today's episode is a special edition as I found myself in the hot seat with Dr. Joe Martin founder and host of the real men connect podcast . Joe and I have a very candid and transparent conversation about Our experiences and real men. We talk through the effect my dad has had on my life. The lack of emotional IQ many fathers struggle with. And How foster parenting prepared me for fatherhood -and the good bad and ugly that comes along with it. This and more on episode 23 of the Black Daddy Podcast! *Join us next week for the continuation of our conversation with Dr Joe Martin of the real men connect podcast there's so much more we cover including Leadership as man. How having a new baby affects a relationship And Joe puts me in his hot seat for what he calls the Man Up Questions

What makes a man a real man? If you take time to answer that question you'll uncover some truths , deep rooted beliefs and even some lies . Today's episode is a special edition as I found myself in the hot seat with Dr. Joe Martin founder and host of the real men connect podcast . Joe and I have a very candid and transparent conversation about Our experiences and real men. We talk through the effect my dad has had on my life. The lack of emotional IQ many fathers struggle with. And How foster parenting prepared me for fatherhood -and the good bad and ugly that comes along with it. This and more on episode 23 of the Black Daddy Podcast! *Join us next week for the continuation of our conversation with Dr Joe Martin of the real men connect podcast there's so much more we cover including Leadership as man. How having a new baby affects a relationship And Joe puts me in his hot seat for what he calls the Man Up Questions

Last Week on Episode 21 Sam and Desirae Ofori sat down with Mama and I to talk about Marriage, Parenting and Ministry. Well today on Episode 22, The Daddy, Sam Ofori sits down with yours truly to talk about all things Daddyhood. Join us as we talk about The power of being intentional in your relationship. What he's learned in his first year of being a first time dad Why he says men need to stop being superman and be themselves Why the church gets it wrong when it comes to the Sunday morning experience and what they can do to get it right. The power of embracing the background and more Right here with my bother Sam Ofori on The Black Daddy Podcast!

Last Week on Episode 21 Sam and Desirae Ofori sat down with Mama and I to talk about Marriage, Parenting and Ministry. Well today on Episode 22, The Daddy, Sam Ofori sits down with yours truly to talk about all things Daddyhood. Join us as we talk about The power of being intentional in your relationship. What he's learned in his first year of being a first time dad Why he says men need to stop being superman and be themselves Why the church gets it wrong when it comes to the Sunday morning experience and what they can do to get it right. The power of embracing the background and more Right here with my bother Sam Ofori on The Black Daddy Podcast!

Welcome to Episode 21 of the Black Daddy Podcast! Today's special guests are Sam and Desirae Ofori. The Ofori's are Church Leaders, Marriage Advocates and founders of the M1 - Marriage 1st. M1 (Marriage First)(http://fb.me/m1marriagefirst) was founded as a bimonthly group date / meet-up for married & engaged couples in the Central Florida area. Join us as we talk about: Their 1st year as parents to their beautiful baby boy Their #1 secret to keeping your spouse as your best-friend. What life is like proving the Nay-Sayers wrong about their view on marriage. and Desirae's secret to launching and maintaining a popular blog for mommies. This and more, with Sam and Desirae Ofori on the Black Daddy Podcast. Don't forget to check out Desirae's blog http://sincerelymrsmommy.wordpress.com and her Instagram page @madamof

Welcome to Episode 21 of the Black Daddy Podcast! Today's special guests are Sam and Desirae Ofori. The Ofori's are Church Leaders, Marriage Advocates and founders of the M1 - Marriage 1st. M1 (Marriage First)(http://fb.me/m1marriagefirst) was founded as a bimonthly group date / meet-up for married & engaged couples in the Central Florida area. Join us as we talk about: Their 1st year as parents to their beautiful baby boy Their #1 secret to keeping your spouse as your best-friend. What life is like proving the Nay-Sayers wrong about their view on marriage. and Desirae's secret to launching and maintaining a popular blog for mommies. This and more, with Sam and Desirae Ofori on the Black Daddy Podcast. Don't forget to check out Desirae's blog http://sincerelymrsmommy.wordpress.com and her Instagram page @madamof

Marriage is a beautiful thing right? Isn't it all about the happily ever after? Well, not quite, MARRIAGE is Real! Today's episode is the second installment of our conversation with Damian and Jamie Johnson, founders of the Marriage is Real Movement. In today's episode they are taking over and giving us their top 5 reasons for WHY marriage is real .They will be candid, humorous, and transparent about some of their early struggles, present day victories, and future hopes as they continue to stand for the beauty, value, and necessity of marriage in today's culture. Get ready for Episode 20 of the Black Daddy Podcast with Damian and Jamie Johnson.

Marriage is a beautiful thing right? Isn't it all about the happily ever after? Well, not quite, MARRIAGE is Real! Today's episode is the second installment of our conversation with Damian and Jamie Johnson, founders of the Marriage is Real Movement. In today's episode they are taking over and giving us their top 5 reasons for WHY marriage is real .They will be candid, humorous, and transparent about some of their early struggles, present day victories, and future hopes as they continue to stand for the beauty, value, and necessity of marriage in today's culture. Get ready for Episode 20 of the Black Daddy Podcast with Damian and Jamie Johnson.

Welcome to Episode 19 of the Black Daddy Podcast where we welcome special guests of the Marriage is Real Movement Damian and Jamie Johnson! We sit down with the Johnsons and get REAL about How things change after you put the rings on. What they call “The Expectation Shift” The opposition faced after getting married and what its meant to build in your relationship. How important VISION is in marriage. And how challenging your spouse helps YOU in the end instead of the perception that it's a threat. This and more with Damian and Jamie Johnson of Marriage is Real on the Black Daddy Podcast! Contact Damian & Jamie on twitter :

Welcome to Episode 19 of the Black Daddy Podcast where we welcome special guests of the Marriage is Real Movement Damian and Jamie Johnson! We sit down with the Johnsons and get REAL about How things change after you put the rings on. What they call “The Expectation Shift” The opposition faced after getting married and what its meant to build in your relationship. How important VISION is in marriage. And how challenging your spouse helps YOU in the end instead of the perception that it's a threat. This and more with Damian and Jamie Johnson of Marriage is Real on the Black Daddy Podcast! Contact Damian & Jamie on twitter :

African vs. African American: It Runs Deep. Join us today as we continue our episode on being African versus African American. Listen as we unpack what it is like to be married to a black man in America. Her childhood experiences of not fitting in as an African with the black kids. The remedy to self hate and how the slavery narrative plays a big part in how we do or don't see ourselves What we call "The racial totem pole." Raising a black son compared to raising a black daughter This and more on the Black Daddy Podcast!

African vs. African American: It Runs Deep. Join us today as we continue our episode on being African versus African American. Listen as we unpack what it is like to be married to a black man in America. Her childhood experiences of not fitting in as an African with the black kids. The remedy to self hate and how the slavery narrative plays a big part in how we do or don't see ourselves What we call "The racial totem pole." Raising a black son compared to raising a black daughter This and more on the Black Daddy Podcast!

My wife and I were brought up having two totally different Cultural influences and identities. What's interesting is that in the good ol' USA of A we can be seen as one in the same : BLACK. Interestingly enough there was a stark difference between being African and African American . Listen to this episode as we unpack some of the meanest things kids would say during our elementary years. The differences between our household culture and the larger cultures that we were a part of. How our early upbringings affected our self worth going into our early adult years. And What happens when a European born West African and South Florida born African American fall in love . On this episode of the black daddy podcast! Listeners, wed love to hear from you! Have questions, concerns or comments? .Email us hello@blackdaddypodcast.com and follow us on instagram and twitter @blackdaddynow. And as always

My wife and I were brought up having two totally different Cultural influences and identities. What's interesting is that in the good ol' USA of A we can be seen as one in the same : BLACK. Interestingly enough there was a stark difference between being African and African American . Listen to this episode as we unpack some of the meanest things kids would say during our elementary years. The differences between our household culture and the larger cultures that we were a part of. How our early upbringings affected our self worth going into our early adult years. And What happens when a European born West African and South Florida born African American fall in love . On this episode of the black daddy podcast! Listeners, wed love to hear from you! Have questions, concerns or comments? .Email us hello@blackdaddypodcast.com and follow us on instagram and twitter @blackdaddynow. And as always

This is a very special edition of the Black Daddy Podcast - THE FATHERS DAY EDITION! And we are counting down 4 Descriptions of what a father is from four of our previous guests. If someone asked you to fill in the blank... A FATHER IS ________ WHAT WOULD YOU SAY? Well, if you didn't have an answer or you want to hear what others think, listen up! A Father is a Shepherd. -Episode 3 Pt.1 w.Dr. Preston Adams A Father is a Guarantor of the Future Episode 4 Pt. 1 w. Dr. Charles Cooper A Father is a man of Vision -Episode 8 w. Joel Boggess A Father is a man who Accepts responsibility -Episode 12 w. Dr. Joe Martin Listen.... Here is a special challenge to all of the dads out there! We are running a little giveaway competition as both a thank you and a celebration of you for listening! So for the next 5 days we are going to run a little contest. Email us @

This is a very special edition of the Black Daddy Podcast - THE FATHERS DAY EDITION! And we are counting down 4 Descriptions of what a father is from four of our previous guests. If someone asked you to fill in the blank... A FATHER IS ________ WHAT WOULD YOU SAY? Well, if you didn't have an answer or you want to hear what others think, listen up! A Father is a Shepherd. -Episode 3 Pt.1 w.Dr. Preston Adams A Father is a Guarantor of the Future Episode 4 Pt. 1 w. Dr. Charles Cooper A Father is a man of Vision -Episode 8 w. Joel Boggess A Father is a man who Accepts responsibility -Episode 12 w. Dr. Joe Martin Listen.... Here is a special challenge to all of the dads out there! We are running a little giveaway competition as both a thank you and a celebration of you for listening! So for the next 5 days we are going to run a little contest. Email us @

In this bonus episode of the blackdaddy podcast on the heels of our hit episode Supernatural Childbirth we wrestle with questions like : Where does the cultural belief in God part ways with genuine heart felt, Jesus- centered faith? When we step into a deeper trust of God, what are the possibilities? How does this affect our daily lives in a real way? "Faith is the confidence that what we hope for will actually happen; it gives us assurance about things we cannot see." - What does that mean? In today's episode we will touch on the highs and lows of faith, loss, and finding God in the midst of it all! Listeners, we'd love to hear from you! Have questions, concerns or comments? .Email us hello@blackdaddypodcast.com or if you're on twitter @blackdaddynow. And as always subscribe, rate and review the podcast in the Itunes app. See you n

In this bonus episode of the blackdaddy podcast on the heels of our hit episode Supernatural Childbirth we wrestle with questions like : Where does the cultural belief in God part ways with genuine heart felt, Jesus- centered faith? When we step into a deeper trust of God, what are the possibilities? How does this affect our daily lives in a real way? "Faith is the confidence that what we hope for will actually happen; it gives us assurance about things we cannot see." - What does that mean? In today's episode we will touch on the highs and lows of faith, loss, and finding God in the midst of it all! Listeners, we'd love to hear from you! Have questions, concerns or comments? .Email us hello@blackdaddypodcast.com or if you're on twitter @blackdaddynow. And as always subscribe, rate and review the podcast in the Itunes app. See you n

Supernatural Childbirth by Jackie Mize is referenced in this episode. (http://amzn.to/1RVOHjz) In Episode 14 of the Black Daddy Podcast we were able to share the AMAZING Miracle of our daughter’s birth. If you would like to, We would encourage you to go check it out. In this episode we want to clarify the difference between natural childbirth and supernatural childbirth. Natural childbirth usually involves special breathing and relaxation techniques with the goal of minimal medical or technological intervention. Many women have found success using these methods. Natural Childbirth is good but God always has a better way of doing things. Supernatural always exceeds natural in any area and deciding to do it HIS way yields amazing results. We've totally had to changing our thinking by renewing our mind with the word of God on the subject of having babies the same way we renew our mind concerning, finances, health, and ev

Supernatural Childbirth by Jackie Mize is referenced in this episode. (http://amzn.to/1RVOHjz) In Episode 14 of the Black Daddy Podcast we were able to share the AMAZING Miracle of our daughter’s birth. If you would like to, We would encourage you to go check it out. In this episode we want to clarify the difference between natural childbirth and supernatural childbirth. Natural childbirth usually involves special breathing and relaxation techniques with the goal of minimal medical or technological intervention. Many women have found success using these methods. Natural Childbirth is good but God always has a better way of doing things. Supernatural always exceeds natural in any area and deciding to do it HIS way yields amazing results. We've totally had to changing our thinking by renewing our mind with the word of God on the subject of having babies the same way we renew our mind concerning, finances, health, and ev

Witnessing the Birth of your child is a blessing by itself. What happens when you experience it : At Home Without ANY Medical Staff Without any Meds and with GOD ALONE ! This is our Daughter Gia's BIRTHSTORY. It is a MUST LISTEN!

Witnessing the Birth of your child is a blessing by itself. What happens when you experience it : At Home Without ANY Medical Staff Without any Meds and with GOD ALONE ! This is our Daughter Gia's BIRTHSTORY. It is a MUST LISTEN!

In Part 2 of our time with Dr. Joe Martin we talk about: Growing up in poverty and it's effect on his view of manhood. Being raised and Seeing alot of daddy's but no fathers. Walking in integrity. What the absolute must is for women who are waiting for a man in their life. AND MORE! Joe Martin had it all he, was the first in his family to graduate from high school; graduate from college (early, at the top of his class); purchase his first home as a college senior; started his first business at the age of 22; became the youngest professor in his state by the age of 24; held an administrative position with the Governor’s Office; and completed a doctorate degree all by the age of 30. Visit Joe Martin @ http://www.realmenconnect.com

In Part 2 of our time with Dr. Joe Martin we talk about: Growing up in poverty and it's effect on his view of manhood. Being raised and Seeing alot of daddy's but no fathers. Walking in integrity. What the absolute must is for women who are waiting for a man in their life. AND MORE! Joe Martin had it all he, was the first in his family to graduate from high school; graduate from college (early, at the top of his class); purchase his first home as a college senior; started his first business at the age of 22; became the youngest professor in his state by the age of 24; held an administrative position with the Governor’s Office; and completed a doctorate degree all by the age of 30. Visit Joe Martin @ http://www.realmenconnect.com

Joe Martin had it all he, was the first in his family to graduate from high school; graduate from college (early, at the top of his class); purchase his first home as a college senior; started his first business at the age of 22; became the youngest professor in his state by the age of 24; held an administrative position with the Governor’s Office; and completed a doctorate degree all by the age of 30. He would say , "the first 33 years of my life resulted in me wasting my wealth, risking my health, ruining my marriage, disappointing my family, undermining my integrity, and almost destroying my life." Join us as we have an intense in your face and redemption filed conversation about going from the hood to the governors office, living on top of the world, fatherhood, marriage and real manhood with Dr. Joe Martin on the Black Daddy Podcast Visit Joe Martin @ http://www.realmenconnect.com

Joe Martin had it all he, was the first in his family to graduate from high school; graduate from college (early, at the top of his class); purchase his first home as a college senior; started his first business at the age of 22; became the youngest professor in his state by the age of 24; held an administrative position with the Governor’s Office; and completed a doctorate degree all by the age of 30. He would say , "the first 33 years of my life resulted in me wasting my wealth, risking my health, ruining my marriage, disappointing my family, undermining my integrity, and almost destroying my life." Join us as we have an intense in your face and redemption filed conversation about going from the hood to the governors office, living on top of the world, fatherhood, marriage and real manhood with Dr. Joe Martin on the Black Daddy Podcast Visit Joe Martin @ http://www.realmenconnect.com

The greatest achievement was at first and for a time a dream.The oak sleeps in the acorn; the bird waits in the egg; and in thehighest vision of the soul a waking angel stirs. Dreams are theseedlings of realities.

The greatest achievement was at first and for a time a dream.The oak sleeps in the acorn; the bird waits in the egg; and in thehighest vision of the soul a waking angel stirs. Dreams are theseedlings of realities.

The dreamers are the saviors of the world. As the visible world
is sustained by the invisible, so men, through all their trials and
sins and sordid vocations, are nourished by the beautiful visions
of their solitary dreamers. Humanity cannot forget its dreamers; it
cannot let their ideals fade and die; it lives in them; it knows
them in the
realitieswhich it shall one day see and know.

The dreamers are the saviors of the world. As the visible world
is sustained by the invisible, so men, through all their trials and
sins and sordid vocations, are nourished by the beautiful visions
of their solitary dreamers. Humanity cannot forget its dreamers; it
cannot let their ideals fade and die; it lives in them; it knows
them in the
realitieswhich it shall one day see and know.

He who has conquered doubt and fear has conquered failure. His
every thought is allied with power, and all difficulties are
bravely met and wisely overcome. His purposes are seasonably
planted, and they bloom and bring forth fruit which does not fall
prematurely to the ground.

He who has conquered doubt and fear has conquered failure. His
every thought is allied with power, and all difficulties are
bravely met and wisely overcome. His purposes are seasonably
planted, and they bloom and bring forth fruit which does not fall
prematurely to the ground.

Having conceived of his purpose, a man should mentally mark out
a straight pathway to its achievement, looking neither to the right
nor to the left. Doubts and fears should be rigorously excluded;
they are disintegrating elements which break up the straight line
of effort, rendering it crooked, ineffectual, useless. Thoughts of
doubt and fear never accomplish anything, and never can. They
always lead to failure Purpose,energy, power to do, and all strong
thoughts cease when doubt and fear creep in.

Having conceived of his purpose, a man should mentally mark out
a straight pathway to its achievement, looking neither to the right
nor to the left. Doubts and fears should be rigorously excluded;
they are disintegrating elements which break up the straight line
of effort, rendering it crooked, ineffectual, useless. Thoughts of
doubt and fear never accomplish anything, and never can. They
always lead to failure Purpose,energy, power to do, and all strong
thoughts cease when doubt and fear creep in.

To put away aimlessness and weakness, and to begin to think with
purpose, is to enter the ranks of those strong ones who only
recognize failure as one of the pathways to attainment; who make
all conditions serve them, and who think strongly, attempt
fearlessly, and accomplish masterfully.

To put away aimlessness and weakness, and to begin to think with
purpose, is to enter the ranks of those strong ones who only
recognize failure as one of the pathways to attainment; who make
all conditions serve them, and who think strongly, attempt
fearlessly, and accomplish masterfully.

A man should conceive of a legitimate purpose in his heart, and
set out to accomplish it. He should make this purpose the
centralizing point of his thoughts. It may take the form of a
spiritual ideal, or it may be a worldly object, according to his
nature at the time being; but whichever it is, he shouldsteadily
focus his thought forces upon the object which he has set before
him. He should make this purpose his supreme duty, and should
devote himself to its attainment, not allowing his thoughts to
wander away into ephemeral fancies, longings, and imaginings. This
is the royal road to self-control and true concentration of
thought. Even if he fails again and again to accomplish his purpose
(as he necessarily must until weakness is overcome), the strength
of character gained will be the measure of his truesuccess, and
this will form a new starting point for future power and
triumph.

A man should conceive of a legitimate purpose in his heart, and
set out to accomplish it. He should make this purpose the
centralizing point of his thoughts. It may take the form of a
spiritual ideal, or it may be a worldly object, according to his
nature at the time being; but whichever it is, he shouldsteadily
focus his thought forces upon the object which he has set before
him. He should make this purpose his supreme duty, and should
devote himself to its attainment, not allowing his thoughts to
wander away into ephemeral fancies, longings, and imaginings. This
is the royal road to self-control and true concentration of
thought. Even if he fails again and again to accomplish his purpose
(as he necessarily must until weakness is overcome), the strength
of character gained will be the measure of his truesuccess, and
this will form a new starting point for future power and
triumph.

A particular train of thought persisted in, be it good or bad, cannot fail to produce its results on the character and circumstances. A man cannot directlychoose his circumstances, but he can choose his thoughts, and so indirectly, yet surely, shape his circumstances.

A particular train of thought persisted in, be it good or bad, cannot fail to produce its results on the character and circumstances. A man cannot directlychoose his circumstances, but he can choose his thoughts, and so indirectly, yet surely, shape his circumstances.

Good thoughts and actions can never produce bad results; bad thoughts and actions can never produce good results. This is but saying that nothing can come from corn but corn, nothing from nettles but nettles. Men understand this law in the natural world, and work with it; but few understand it in the mental and moral world (though its operation there is just as simple and undeviating), and they, therefore, do not cooperate with it.

Good thoughts and actions can never produce bad results; bad thoughts and actions can never produce good results. This is but saying that nothing can come from corn but corn, nothing from nettles but nettles. Men understand this law in the natural world, and work with it; but few understand it in the mental and moral world (though its operation there is just as simple and undeviating), and they, therefore, do not cooperate with it.

Men are anxious to improve their circumstances, but are unwilling to improve themselves; they therefore remain bound. The man who does not shrink from self-crucifixion can never fail to accomplish the object upon which his heart is set. This is as true of earthly as of heavenly things. Even the man whose sole object is to acquire wealth must be prepared to make great personal sacrifices before he can accomplish his object; and how much more so he who would realize a strong and well-poised life?

Men are anxious to improve their circumstances, but are unwilling to improve themselves; they therefore remain bound. The man who does not shrink from self-crucifixion can never fail to accomplish the object upon which his heart is set. This is as true of earthly as of heavenly things. Even the man whose sole object is to acquire wealth must be prepared to make great personal sacrifices before he can accomplish his object; and how much more so he who would realize a strong and well-poised life?

The outer world of circumstance shapes itself to the inner world of thought, and both pleasant and unpleasant external conditions are factors which make for the ultimate good of the individual. As the reaper of his own harvest, man learns both by suffering and bliss.

The outer world of circumstance shapes itself to the inner world of thought, and both pleasant and unpleasant external conditions are factors which make for the ultimate good of the individual. As the reaper of his own harvest, man learns both by suffering and bliss.

In "White Privilege" : Unpacking the invisibe knapsack Peggy McIntosh gives us a glimpse into the world through her eyes.
In this episode we have a converstation about :
Arranging to be in the company of people of my race most of the time.
Why I am asked to speak for all the people of my racial group.
The lack of my culture giving me little fear about ignoring the perspectives and powers of people of other races.
and more:
Referenced Essay : http://nationalseedproject.org/white-privilege-unpacking-the-invisible-knapsack
Holla at us : http://www.twitter.com/blackdaddynow
Email: hello@blackdaddypodcast.com

In "White Privilege" : Unpacking the invisibe knapsack Peggy McIntosh gives us a glimpse into the world through her eyes.
In this episode we have a converstation about :
Arranging to be in the company of people of my race most of the time.
Why I am asked to speak for all the people of my racial group.
The lack of my culture giving me little fear about ignoring the perspectives and powers of people of other races.
and more:
Referenced Essay : http://nationalseedproject.org/white-privilege-unpacking-the-invisible-knapsack
Holla at us : http://www.twitter.com/blackdaddynow
Email: hello@blackdaddypodcast.com

Thought and character are one, and as character can only manifest and discover itself through environment and circumstance, the outer conditions of a person's life will always be found to be harmoniously related to his inner state. This does not mean that a man's circumstances at any given time are an indication of his entire character, element within himself that, for the time being, they are indispensable to his development.

Thought and character are one, and as character can only manifest and discover itself through environment and circumstance, the outer conditions of a person's life will always be found to be harmoniously related to his inner state. This does not mean that a man's circumstances at any given time are an indication of his entire character, element within himself that, for the time being, they are indispensable to his development.

Just as a gardener cultivates his plot, keeping it free from weeds, and growing the flowers and fruits which he requires, so may a man tend the garden of his mind, weeding out all the wrong, useless, and impure thoughts, and cultivating toward perfection the flowers and fruits of right, useful, and pure thoughts.

Just as a gardener cultivates his plot, keeping it free from weeds, and growing the flowers and fruits which he requires, so may a man tend the garden of his mind, weeding out all the wrong, useless, and impure thoughts, and cultivating toward perfection the flowers and fruits of right, useful, and pure thoughts.

Man is made or unmade by himself; in the armory of thought he forges the weapons by which he destroys himself; he also fashions the tools with which he builds for himself heavenly mansions of joy and strength and peace. By the right choice and true application of thought, man ascends to the Divine Perfection; by the abuse and wrong application of thought, he descends below the level of the beast. Between these two extremes are all the grades of character, and man is their maker and master.

Man is made or unmade by himself; in the armory of thought he forges the weapons by which he destroys himself; he also fashions the tools with which he builds for himself heavenly mansions of joy and strength and peace. By the right choice and true application of thought, man ascends to the Divine Perfection; by the abuse and wrong application of thought, he descends below the level of the beast. Between these two extremes are all the grades of character, and man is their maker and master.

Just like the plant springs from, and could not be without, the seed, so every act of man springs from the hidden seeds of thought, and could not have appeared without them.
Could it be that our lives are a direct result of our thoughts? James Allen thinks so. We hear it all thetime:
1. It aint the size of the dog in the fight, its the size of the fight in the dog.or fake it till you make it. One thing is for sure, there is a direct connection between the results of our lives and our thoughthabits. On this first day of the black daddy boost, I want you to join me in throwing offthe weight of negative,toxic, and defeated thinking. There’s another saying that you are what you eat, well today , rememberYOU ARE WHAT YOU THINK!Just like the plant springs from, and could not be without, the seed, so every act of man springs from the hidden seeds of thought, and could not have appeared without them.

Just like the plant springs from, and could not be without, the seed, so every act of man springs from the hidden seeds of thought, and could not have appeared without them.
Could it be that our lives are a direct result of our thoughts? James Allen thinks so. We hear it all thetime:
1. It aint the size of the dog in the fight, its the size of the fight in the dog.or fake it till you make it. One thing is for sure, there is a direct connection between the results of our lives and our thoughthabits. On this first day of the black daddy boost, I want you to join me in throwing offthe weight of negative,toxic, and defeated thinking. There’s another saying that you are what you eat, well today , rememberYOU ARE WHAT YOU THINK!Just like the plant springs from, and could not be without, the seed, so every act of man springs from the hidden seeds of thought, and could not have appeared without them.

What is it like to grow up under the pressure of being ( or not being) Black ? In this episode, listen closely as we unpack a suitcase of thoughts, old-expectations, and a new-found identity. If you are African American (or a person of "color") , you may or may not feel the same way. If you aren't African American ( or a person of "color") , I welcome you to listen. ( Intro and Outro Music- "Welcome to America" Lecrae ( Anomaly) Resources: "Free at Last" {Carl Ellis} http://amzn.com/0830816879 The Sankofa Experience {Podcast} https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/remembering-tomorrow-robert/id970259368?mt=2 http://www.twitter.com/blackdaddynow

What is it like to grow up under the pressure of being ( or not being) Black ? In this episode, listen closely as we unpack a suitcase of thoughts, old-expectations, and a new-found identity. If you are African American (or a person of "color") , you may or may not feel the same way. If you aren't African American ( or a person of "color") , I welcome you to listen. ( Intro and Outro Music- "Welcome to America" Lecrae ( Anomaly) Resources: "Free at Last" {Carl Ellis} http://amzn.com/0830816879 The Sankofa Experience {Podcast} https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/remembering-tomorrow-robert/id970259368?mt=2 http://www.twitter.com/blackdaddynow

James Allen authored the book " As a Man Thinketh" in 1902.
Inspired by the Biblical Verse Proverbs 23:7 ; "As a man thinketh in his heart, so is he," it has proved to be an awesome resource to me and many Men that inspire me.
The next 13 Minutes will unpack what our mindset does to our daily existence.
We will also unleash the plan for the " BLACK DADDY BOOST."
Intro Music: "FEAR" by Lecrae ( Anomaly)
http://www.blackdaddpodcast.com
http://www.twitter.com/blackdaddynow

James Allen authored the book " As a Man Thinketh" in 1902.
Inspired by the Biblical Verse Proverbs 23:7 ; "As a man thinketh in his heart, so is he," it has proved to be an awesome resource to me and many Men that inspire me.
The next 13 Minutes will unpack what our mindset does to our daily existence.
We will also unleash the plan for the " BLACK DADDY BOOST."
Intro Music: "FEAR" by Lecrae ( Anomaly)
http://www.blackdaddpodcast.com
http://www.twitter.com/blackdaddynow

After a 2 week hiatus ( and the birth of our daughter!) Joel Bogess and I are back for part 2 of our discussion where we dive into a few things including:
1) the importance of being yourself and growing in your skin.
2) finding your voice and dealing with the fear of being accepted.
3) the tragic moment of Joel’s life as a troubled youth that led him to where he is today and how it affected his relationship with his father for the better.
Visit Joel at : http://relaunchshow.com/joel-boggess
Follow Him on Twitter: https://twitter.com/joelboggess
Purchase his book: http://amzn.com/1937879305

After a 2 week hiatus ( and the birth of our daughter!) Joel Bogess and I are back for part 2 of our discussion where we dive into a few things including:
1) the importance of being yourself and growing in your skin.
2) finding your voice and dealing with the fear of being accepted.
3) the tragic moment of Joel’s life as a troubled youth that led him to where he is today and how it affected his relationship with his father for the better.
Visit Joel at : http://relaunchshow.com/joel-boggess
Follow Him on Twitter: https://twitter.com/joelboggess
Purchase his book: http://amzn.com/1937879305

Do you want to discover who you are?
Do you want to find your passion and be clear about what direction you want to head in ?
Well, Joel Boggess the host of the Re-Launch Podcast is on the black daddy podcast and he's unpacking the keys to
1) Vision.
2) The importance of Being true to yourself and not shrinking back.
3) The stewardship of your gifts and how it is related to farming. and being engaged and present in the season of life that you are in.
Visit Joel at: http://relaunchshow.com/joel-boggess/
Follow Him on Twitter : https://twitter.com/joelboggess
Purchase His Book : http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B00HP5D6PO/ref=dp-kindle-redirect?ie=UTF8&btkr=1

Do you want to discover who you are?
Do you want to find your passion and be clear about what direction you want to head in ?
Well, Joel Boggess the host of the Re-Launch Podcast is on the black daddy podcast and he's unpacking the keys to
1) Vision.
2) The importance of Being true to yourself and not shrinking back.
3) The stewardship of your gifts and how it is related to farming. and being engaged and present in the season of life that you are in.
Visit Joel at: http://relaunchshow.com/joel-boggess/
Follow Him on Twitter : https://twitter.com/joelboggess
Purchase His Book : http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B00HP5D6PO/ref=dp-kindle-redirect?ie=UTF8&btkr=1

Dem kids dem kids!
Children are a gift and man oh man can hey teach you a lot. Whether you have kids or not, this is an episode that can prove to be insightful and quite entertaining and
Wifey and I unpack some of our biggest lessons learned from being foster parents .
Need more Patience? Kids will show you how much you need!
Want to learn about yourself ? Kids will be a huge mirror for you!
Want to get angry, laugh, and enjoy life in ways you never imagined?
This episode is sure to be a good one as we pack our journey in foster care and the lessons learned coming up on the black daddy podcast
Intro Music: Trip Lee -" For my Good" (Reach Records)
http://www.twitter.com/blackdaddynow
http://www.blackdaddypodcast.com

Dem kids dem kids!
Children are a gift and man oh man can hey teach you a lot. Whether you have kids or not, this is an episode that can prove to be insightful and quite entertaining and
Wifey and I unpack some of our biggest lessons learned from being foster parents .
Need more Patience? Kids will show you how much you need!
Want to learn about yourself ? Kids will be a huge mirror for you!
Want to get angry, laugh, and enjoy life in ways you never imagined?
This episode is sure to be a good one as we pack our journey in foster care and the lessons learned coming up on the black daddy podcast
Intro Music: Trip Lee -" For my Good" (Reach Records)
http://www.twitter.com/blackdaddynow
http://www.blackdaddypodcast.com

"Go get that money!" It's what we hear all day long. What do you do when your grind /side hustle / or paper chase gets in the way of your relationship?How can you be successful and have the support you need to reach the goals that will benefit those around you?What happens when it's a threat? what happens when it causes friction?Oh but what haloes when you get on the same page and your grind is met with support, understanding , and the tools you were missing the whole time ?If you wanna get that paper, start your side hustle, need some extra encouragement to go pursue that side job to earn some extra cash,this episode is for you!It's the side hustle coming up on the Black Daddy Podcast.
http://www.twitter.com/blackdaddynow
http://www.blackdaddypodcast.com

"Go get that money!" It's what we hear all day long. What do you do when your grind /side hustle / or paper chase gets in the way of your relationship?How can you be successful and have the support you need to reach the goals that will benefit those around you?What happens when it's a threat? what happens when it causes friction?Oh but what haloes when you get on the same page and your grind is met with support, understanding , and the tools you were missing the whole time ?If you wanna get that paper, start your side hustle, need some extra encouragement to go pursue that side job to earn some extra cash,this episode is for you!It's the side hustle coming up on the Black Daddy Podcast.
http://www.twitter.com/blackdaddynow
http://www.blackdaddypodcast.com

Jay Mayo , Host of The Right to R.E.A.L. love podcast radio show joins us to break down 5 of the top fears related to marriage. You are in for a treat!
What can we learn from the high divorce rate?
What is the significance of BECOMING the right person instead of FINDING the right person?
What does a single man look for in a lady? What is important to him and why?
These questions and more are answered .
RTRL on Twitter : https://twitter.com/rtrlradio
RTRL Homepage: http://righttoreallove.com/

Jay Mayo , Host of The Right to R.E.A.L. love podcast radio show joins us to break down 5 of the top fears related to marriage. You are in for a treat!
What can we learn from the high divorce rate?
What is the significance of BECOMING the right person instead of FINDING the right person?
What does a single man look for in a lady? What is important to him and why?
These questions and more are answered .
RTRL on Twitter : https://twitter.com/rtrlradio
RTRL Homepage: http://righttoreallove.com/

The last 8 weeks have been absolutely phenomenal! our hearts are grateful for the support and love! We wanted to take 11 minutes to say THANK YOU FOR tuning in and helping "The Black Daddy Podcast " climb to the top of the i-Tunes charts! The best is yet to come!Notable Slots:#2 i-Tunes New & Noteworthy Family#3 i-Tunes New & Noteworthy Religion ( Christianity) http://www.blackdaddypodcast.com

The last 8 weeks have been absolutely phenomenal! our hearts are grateful for the support and love! We wanted to take 11 minutes to say THANK YOU FOR tuning in and helping "The Black Daddy Podcast " climb to the top of the i-Tunes charts! The best is yet to come!Notable Slots:#2 i-Tunes New & Noteworthy Family#3 i-Tunes New & Noteworthy Religion ( Christianity) http://www.blackdaddypodcast.com

Men and The Church.
Why aren’t they there?
What are the issues for their low dedication?
and What can we look forward to in the future as churches become more focused on reaching men.
Pastor Charles Cooper is back and we are talking Men and their:
-Church Attendance
- Church Dedication
-The need for Church Planting
- The wisdom contained in Granddaddy's last words.
We answer a few questions like…
Why do only 3 out of 10 New Church Plants succeed
Why do people STILL go to church?
What is the ultimate purpose of Church.
How the church becomes irrelevant
Why the CHURCH will succeed

Men and The Church.
Why aren’t they there?
What are the issues for their low dedication?
and What can we look forward to in the future as churches become more focused on reaching men.
Pastor Charles Cooper is back and we are talking Men and their:
-Church Attendance
- Church Dedication
-The need for Church Planting
- The wisdom contained in Granddaddy's last words.
We answer a few questions like…
Why do only 3 out of 10 New Church Plants succeed
Why do people STILL go to church?
What is the ultimate purpose of Church.
How the church becomes irrelevant
Why the CHURCH will succeed

A man on fire! Charles Cooper is an author, church planter, lecturer, and church consultant. Preaching since the age of 15 and honoree of the Harry A Ironside Expository Preaching award, here’s a man who when he talks, people listen!
HOPE. THE WHITEHOUSE. and The Biggest Issue Facing The Black Single Christan Woman.

A man on fire! Charles Cooper is an author, church planter, lecturer, and church consultant. Preaching since the age of 15 and honoree of the Harry A Ironside Expository Preaching award, here’s a man who when he talks, people listen!
HOPE. THE WHITEHOUSE. and The Biggest Issue Facing The Black Single Christan Woman.

1) Overcoming inadequacy as a father and believer
2) Overcoming identity crisis,
3) How social media is killing our sense of what is real and what’s not.
The Golden Years part 2 with Dr. Preston Adams.
At 72 years young he's dropping more nuggets on not so favorite tv dad, overcoming the naysayers, and accepting WHOSE you are.

1) Overcoming inadequacy as a father and believer
2) Overcoming identity crisis,
3) How social media is killing our sense of what is real and what’s not.
The Golden Years part 2 with Dr. Preston Adams.
At 72 years young he's dropping more nuggets on not so favorite tv dad, overcoming the naysayers, and accepting WHOSE you are.

"The Golden years" , True Success, and Identity.
How does a father in his later years of life 1) define what a fateher is? 2) Describe his proudest fatherhood moments and 3) View his weaknesses?
At 72 Years Young Dr Preston Adams brings godly insight, that you don't want to miss, this is Episode 3 part 1 of the black daddy podcast.
Dr. preston Adams
The only way you get my age (72) is... You Live!
"A Father is responsible for Protection, Providing, Shepherding"
"If you father a child,you need to take full responsibility of that child. That is your responsiblity."
"There are certain words that I have taken out of my vocabulary, proud is one of them. What if we used the term pleased instead?"
"My most pleasing moment was the brith of my son."
"I'm not going to keep going to the well trying to get a son."
"He was born when I was 44 years old."
"If my children have done something against what I have

Baby Mamas...Baby Daddies... and Marriage. Should a couple "tie the knot" after conceiving a child together? Why does it seem like we have so many "mother of my child" situations? Is it better for the child that the parents "walk down the aisle?"
In Episode 2 we we will tackle
1) The debate that (almost) divides a home.
2) The legitimacy of marriage as an institution.
3) "The Turn Up Moment" you wont forget.
and More.
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http://www.blackdaddypodcast.com

Baby Mamas...Baby Daddies... and Marriage. Should a couple "tie the knot" after conceiving a child together? Why does it seem like we have so many "mother of my child" situations? Is it better for the child that the parents "walk down the aisle?" In Episode 2 we we will tackle1) The debate that (almost) divides a home. 2) The legitimacy of marriage as an institution. 3) "The Turn Up Moment" you wont forget. and More. http://www.blackdaddypodcast.comhttp://www.twitter.com/blackdaddynow

Foster Care(FC/FP). We all "know about it" but we really don't " know about it."Join us for this episode as we dive head first into :1) Why foster children are the biggest "dirty" blessing. 2) 3 Reasons why we took the leap into being FP. 3) The Plan "B" Struggle4) The answer to "THAT" question.and More! http://www.blackdaddypodcast.comhttp://www.twitter.com/blackdaddypodcast

The Black Daddy What?!? Join us as we unpack the Who, What, When and Why of the Black Daddy Podcast! Fatherhood. Faith. Finances.
"The Black Daddy Podcast" has launched and in your speakers. Take a seat with us as we answer:
1) Why the BDP? (Black Daddy Podcast) 2)Who should LISTEN to the BDP? 3)How frequent will the BDP be broadcasted? and More.
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