Hey guys! I got a a question! me and this guy hooked up a lil while ago well actually about a month ago....and um...I gave him head and he fingered me and we were in his car, which isn't that big of a car. and he asked me "you wanna have sex?" i was like "yea" so then he got out the condom and he was like "jump on" which was pretty funny but we couldn't get lined up. and when we finally gave up. He found a string of Discharge on his pubic hair. it wasn't that embarrassing for me. I mean it is normal for me but he said it was gross. Now, he doesn't want anything to do with me. I wanna hook up with him again but i don't know what to do to get him with me again. Any suggestions? Oh yea! we almost got it lined up and he was so hard that he stretched out my vagina or the skin and it hurt a bit but not too bad, So yea. I almost lost my virginity!! lol anywho got any suggestions? I need some info.

Seriously, i agree with aMuse, i dont even know what to say or where to start. No offense squirleyslilsis, but you need to have a reality check. I mean i dont know quite where your priorities or morals are, but for you to talk about hooking up with a guy and almost losing your virginity that nonchalantly "jump on!" makes me worry a little. And again, without trying to sound harsh or condeming, but you really need to consider possible consequences of hooking up with random guys and your apparent haphazard view of sex.

Yeah, that scenario was a bit too carefree/careless. It sounded like a porn set-up lol. I just have one question, how grossed out was this guy by your discharge? Like "get out the car" grossed out or "what the h*ll" grossed out?

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Lol! Sorry guys i forgot to mention, I have liked this guy for about 2 years....lol So yea. We finally hooked up after talking about it for a few months so yea. It was sorta planned in a way, and for the discharge part, it was more like "what the heck is this" kinda grossed out well he actually said "That is gross" and picked it up and threw it out the door. So yea!! lol but now that i think about i left out a lot of details. But yea i have been wanting to lose my virginity to him for the past two years it wasn't just some random guy off the street. Sorry for not including that. So yea...Is there anything else i left out? if there is just reply. But what do u guys think i should do?

Lol! Sorry guys i forgot to mention, I have liked this guy for about 2 years....lol So yea. We finally hooked up after talking about it for a few months so yea. It was sorta planned in a way, and for the discharge part, it was more like "what the heck is this" kinda grossed out well he actually said "That is gross" and picked it up and threw it out the door. So yea!! lol but now that i think about i left out a lot of details. But yea i have been wanting to lose my virginity to him for the past two years it wasn't just some random guy off the street. Sorry for not including that. So yea...Is there anything else i left out? if there is just reply. But what do u guys think i should do?

I have a great idea! How bout you do some constrctive things with your time other than have sex. Its quite obvious to me that u cannot be much more than 16 or 17. Sex should not be a priority in your life. Trust me your not missing anything anyway.

Most guys would not let a little "grossness" stop them from having sex. I wouldn't mention it, unless he brings it up. Just act like things are normal and, if you want to try sex again, casually mention how excited he made you that night.

If you are a virgin, I would think you might want to be a little more romantic about it, though. If you have been friends for this long, surely you can arrange a better place for this special event.

Just because you have liked the guy and have been eager to lose your virginity to him for two years doesn't make it sound much better (possibly worse, depending on how old you are). How does he actually feel about you? For all we know, you're not even legal and the guy could be committing statutory rape.

HI, yea, not to be mean or anything but we wouldn't really know if you left out any details, b/c we werent there with you.

As for the getting back with him, if he wasnt that grossed out then he would still talk to you. But it sounds to me that you were just another girl for him. But if he still talks to you then i would talk about this to him ask him how he feels about you and tell him how you feel. This shouldnt be that hard since you almost had sex.