7 Flirty Texts to Send Him

Wooing just isn’t the same as it used to be. While we love when Mom
regales us with stories of life as a Collegiette circa 1980, we can’t
help but go a little green with envy when we hear about the simplicity
of the dating scene. If he was into you, he called. If he wasn’t, he
didn’t. With all of today’s technology at our fingertips, things have
only gotten more complicated. Should you text him first? Will smiley
faces come off as cute and endearing or lovey-dovey and creepy? Should
there be a moratorium on Emojis?When it comes time to navigate the texting world,
we’ve got you covered. Whether you want to make it clear that you’re
searching for a FWB or want to communicate that you’re girlfriend
material, one of our favorite flirtatious texts can get your message
across (without scaring him off)!

“This class would be so much better if you were in it with me.”

Texting in class may be a no-no, but texting about a class after
class is more than just acceptable: it’s genius. Chatting him up on the
subject of your coursework kills two birds with one stone by firstly,
giving him hints about your interests and academics, and secondly,
making it crystal clear that you want to spend more time with him. Even
better, you’re letting him know that you’re thinking about him when he
isn’t around. If you haven’t talked about your classes at all before and
feel like you’d be coming out of left field with this one-liner,
however, just modify the text to fit a more universal activity like
seeing a movie, going to a party, or studying in the library (e.g.,
“Studying in the library would be so much less boring if you were here,
too”).

“Are you up for a library date?”
While we’re on the subject of libraries, we can’t help but take a
moment to sing its praises: there is no place quite like the library, a
comfy retreat where campus cuties and
collegiettes can come together to make small-talk and catch each
other’s eyes sans awkward first date jitters. Asking a guy to study with
you is innocent enough that you won’t come off like a stage-5 clinger,
but by using the word “date” – key word! – you casually hint that you’re
interested in more than just his superb note-taking abilities.

A photo of an event flyer + “Any chance you’re into [insert event here]?”
You see them every day: those flyers plastered around campus telling
you to join this club, attend that lecture series, dance at this
concert, take a seat at that open mic night, etc., etc. Chances are you
don’t follow up on half of them, and that’s okay – you’re a busy
collegiette! But open events like these are the perfect way to cozy up
to your crush. A photo of the flyer is eye-catching and infinitely more
exciting than a text that only explains the event. Plus, he’ll know you
went out of your way to make an effort and invite him to something you
knew might interest him!

“I had an awesome time with you when we hung out. Let’s repeat that, please!”
Translation: “I can’t stop thinking about you and have no intention
of stopping anytime soon, so let’s hang out.” Whether you chatted
outside of the classroom, grabbed a coffee together, or engaged in the
DFMO to end all DFMOs, you’re making it clear that you’re hungry for
more without coming across as a creeper. By saying, “Let us” instead of,
“Do you want to?” you eliminate the awkwardness of the follow-up text.
Now the two of you are an “us” without ever having to have “the talk.”
Works like magic.

“So tell me honestly: do you wake up with your hair looking
that perfect or do you have some kind of secret? My lips are sealed.”
This text can be manipulated to fit the cutie in question. Variations
include, “Are your arms naturally that nice or do you work out?” or
“Are you naturally this witty or are you holding the improv troupe
hostage?” Like us, guys love a little ego-stroking every once in a
while. Compliment him on something he’s proud of, tease him a bit...
hook, line, and sinker.

I started to text you about grabbing a coffee this morning, but I got distracted. Rain check?”
If you’re fresh out of inspiration and have nothing else to say, turn
to this last resort. The text is essentially fool-proof, and the genius
lies in the fact that you’ve successfully made it seem like grabbing
coffee together was really his idea (and that you were too busy living
your fabulous life to attend). The question of actually going out for
said coffee is already decided; now it’s just a question of when.A blank text

Have something to say? Sometimes silence is the best policy (and a
little mystery never hurt anyone). If you’re too nervous to start up a
conversation all by yourself, “accidentally” send him a blank text.
Chances are, he’ll eventually text you back asking if you had meant to
say something, and when that moment comes, surprise him with, “Oops,
accident! How are things going with you, though?” He may or may not see
through your “innocent” act, but even if he guesses that you did it on
purpose, he’ll be flattered by the fact that you wanted to talk to him.
Then all that’s left for you to do is chat!

As Victor Hugo once wrote, “The first symptom of true love in a young man is timidity; in a girl it is boldness.” Be bold. Drop some heavy hints. Then drop some heavier hints. The t
exting world is no place for timidity anyway, so tailor a flirty text to fit your crush and press send!

Zinat Hanna is a full time writer who spends most of his time in
the coffee shops of Texas. Zinat has a BSc in psychology. Her
other interests are self improvement, general health, trans-humanism and
brain training. As well as writing for websites and magazines, she also
runs her own sites and has published several books and apps on these
topics. She lives in Texas, USA with her boyfriend and in her spare
time she enjoys climbing, travelling, playing games, reading comics and
eating sandwiches.

About Me

Zinat Hanna is a full time writer who spends most of his time in
the coffee shops of Texas. Zinat has a BSc in psychology. Her
other interests are self improvement, general health, trans-humanism and
brain training. As well as writing for websites and magazines, she also
runs her own sites and has published several books and apps on these
topics. She lives in Texas, USA with her boyfriend and in her spare
time she enjoys climbing, travelling, playing games, reading comics and
eating sandwiches.