There are so many other sexual and satisfying things you might do in the intercourse abstinence time, for whatever reason it might be in your case!!! Some of the same ones are mooing that she's taking too long. Edit to post below: She never said she never wanted it to be sexual... But she told me that she had no intention of making our relationship sexual. Why would someone be so interested in me as she so often claimed, but had no interest in a sexual relationship? She already told you she wasn't going to make your relationship sexual, so you should probably stop dating her and just be her friend. It's not like she's not ready for sex because there's no commitment yet, she's rubbing all over him and kissing and humping, then he gets nothing but must understand she's not ready LOL Give me a break..