1. Do you think that acting out a fantasy can sometimes cause damage to a relationship?

In my opinion, it can only get better! As long as you still have something to fantasize about because if you did it all, what would there be left?

2. Some couples role play their fantasies rather than introducing another person into the relationship to live out their fantasies. Do you think that this is an acceptable substitute?

Did you read this blog? Yeah? No? Well let me tell you that I find either fun.Role play? Hell yeah! Another person? Yes please!

3. Is there a particular movie or TV series or character from a movie or TV series that you fantasize about?

Oooh wel I have quite a few, one of my favorites is this guy though:

As you might have thought, I have a total soft spot for geeks and nerds!And among those is Matthew Gray Gubler, if you don’t know him, you should, he’s awesome!

4. Apart from the obvious things like child abuse, are there some things that are ‘off limits’ for a fantasy e.g. incest fantasies, age play, rape fantasies. Why/ why not?

Well I’d say with fantasies the sky is the limit, but of course things that aren’t legal and socially unacceptable like child molesting is certainly out of the picture for me. But age play, rape fantasies, as long as they are fantasies…. or with consent 😉

5. What is the most taboo thing you have ever fantasized about doing?

*thinks* Mmmm this is an interesting one, I most certainly have to say kidnapping and rape are at the top there. But of course with consent, not actual kidnapping or rape. Wouldn’t want you lot to get the wrong ideas of course 😉But the real question is of course then, who would be the kidnapper and who would be kidnapped? I will let you guys think about that one on your own!

6. Tell us about a fantasy that you have that you don’t ever see yourself actually acting out. Why do you think you will never act it out?

*points to the answer above* Ooh I’m a shy person, did I mention that. And less kinky then people seem to think! I’m pretty boring actually, no really! *looks very innocent*

7. Have you ever pretended the person you were having sex with was someone else without telling them?

Trust me I tried, having an ADD brain doesn’t make that one easy though! Concentrating is already hard as it is!

8. Have you ever tried to make a fantasy a reality only to have it fail miserably? What happened?

Not that I can think off, I’ll just mention laughing attacks while having sex instead. Total mood killer, especially if you can’t stop laughing!

Bonus: Tell us about your most cherished fantasy. Did you ever live it out? Please give us all the juicy details because that is the kind of people we are.

Oh this is an interesting one..Well I did share some fantasies before here like The desk and What if?I’ve got a dirty mind, and a lot of fantasies…..maybe you’re in it next?

If you would like to see more of TMI Tuesday and see what other people have answered, just go over to the blog and find out!

What if I didn’t hold back and I kept dating you? What if I wasn’t afraid of hurting you and just continued to have a good time with you? Will you ever know that you still keep crossing my mind, wondering what could have been…..

Your body pressed against me, feeling every slight movement. Kissing each other passionately while our hands wander. Mine explore your back while yours enjoy my ass. Slowly your hand under my skirt while you press me against the door that we just entered.
‘Didn’t you want to show me the house first?’ I said while I wrapped my arms around your neck.
‘If you want to, of course’ he said as he suddenly picked me up, grabbing my ass.

He started to walk carefully and we walked into the living room.
I took a quick peek and teasingly said ‘Mmm that couch looks comfy’
‘Of course it is, I’ll show you’ he said as he walked over to the couch, bend over while holding me and pressed me against it. His lips slowly made their way to my neck.. soft and gentle and suddenly a playful bite that made a shiver go through my body.
Smiling as my hands got a hold of his shirt.

Slowly pulling it upwards and showing more and more skin. He undid my blouse and as he took care of my bra, he kissed my neck.
I decided to take control and rolled over, sitting on his lap. I grabbed his belt and undid it along with his pants. I started kissing his chest and worked my way down while taking his pants. After I stripped him, I straddled him and pressed myself against his erection.
He cupped my breasts and started stroking my body. I would stop him and grab him by the wrists as I would tease him. Just enough to drive him crazy. Grinding my wet pussy over his hard cock. So close and yet so far away. I would softly kiss his neck and make just that he wanted me even more.

Until he would go crazy, free himself and would take me.
Hard.
And I would love every second and every push deep into me of it.

That would I imagine could have happened and till this day I still keep wondering how it would have been. How it could have been.

After some chatting online and exchanging mails and numbers we agreed too meet each other. We chose a city in the middle and set a time and date.He told me that he liked lingerie and stocking suspenders/hold ups. I promised him to wear something sexy. He really wanted to know if I would put on panties and I left him in the dark with that.

Sitting in the train I was excited and a little nervous. He texted me that he was on his way and he was looking forward to meet me. I texted him that I arrived and he said that he was on his way. Standing at the platform waiting I saw him walking up the stairs. He was very sexy and the perfect height. We walked towards each other and we started kissing. He kissed me gently and he surprised me with his tongue

After we where done kissing, we walked out of the station and into the city. We sat down in the sun and ordered a drink. We talked, very relaxed and we got on pretty well. While we were talking his hand went over my legs and under my dress until he reached the edge of the hold up I was wearing. He smiled and asked if I was wearing panties. I didn’t answer his question and said that he had to find out on his own.For the rest of the time that we sat there he tried to find out if I was wearing panties.

When we finished our drinks we decided to walk back to the station. While we were walking he put his arm around me and he slowly went lower and lower with his hand. Until he found what he was looking for; a thong line. Now he tried to find out what color it was. While we were walking we stopped and started kissing. The second time he pressed me against a wall and I felt his hips pressed against mine. He clearly was horny and he asked if I had time to come to his car.

We started kissing the moment we sat down in the car and his hand went under my dress. He wanted my panties and I let him take them off. Then his hand slid up my legs and he started fingering me while he felt that I already was very, very wet. I was soaking wet and he had to pull my dress down a few times because people were walking by. We decided to go to a more quiet spot with the car.

While we were driving, I kept rubbing his pants and I felt his cock growing in his pants. He kept fingering me and he even managed to hit my g spot a couple of times, while driving. We reached a quiet parking spot and we kissed each other. He moved me and he started licking me. His lips felt so good and his fingers went inside me. He wildly licked me and I could feel my orgasm coming, that was how horny I was. He sensed that I was close and thrusts his fingers wildly in and out. Moaning loudly I came and I started to undo his pants. Unleashing his cock I immediately started sucking him. He moaned and enjoyed my mouth around his cock. I took his cock all the way in my mouth and started to go faster.With a loud moan he released all his sperm in my mouth. I took it all and swallowed it. He loved it.And that concludes my sexy story for now, I’m sure that we will date again and do more sexy, horny things.

Before I knew it I was waiting for D in the city. Just a few hours before we agreed meeting and we went through the options together. We could meet, go for a drink, go to his place, go to a sauna and more. We agreed meeting and decided on the spot where to go.My heart was racing when I saw somebody pulling over and then I saw him. He was even sexier then in his pictures and he had a big smile on his face when he saw me. I probably did too. We walked over to each other and started kissing right away. While we were kissing, I smelt his nice scent and I felt his body against mine. My hands wondered over back and I felt his cute butt. Nice and firm, just how I like it.

We stood there kissing for a few minutes and then he stepped back and looked at me.With heels on I was slightly taller then him and he noticed that. He didn’t suspect that but he thought it was cute.Together we decided that we wouldn’t bother with going for a drink but straight to his place.Arriving at his house I walked up the stairs before him. His hands went underneight my skirt and I paused on the stairs. He started feeling my ass and gave a kiss on my cheeks. I started walking up the stairs again and he offered me a drink. I took of my coat and took the drink. We kissed again and quickly decided to go to the bedroom.

We put down the drinks and fell on the bed. He immidiately started me kissing wildly and while I returned that our hands were all over our bodies. His hands went under my skirt and he felt that I already was soaking wet. My hands went from his ass to the front and I felt that he was very horny. D started to stroke me while kissing and I moaned slightly.He pulled my thong off and I took my shirt and bra off. I undid his buttons of his shirt and opened his pants.

We took off all the clothes we had left and we started kissing wildly. I could feel his passion and also could see it. He went down on me while kissing and I felt his lips on me.

Finally I had some time to finish my experience with my date with a couple.

We headed off into the town and decided to go sit somewhere to have a drink.

It was nice and sunny so enough place to sit outside and watch some people on the go.We sat down and I sat next to the woman and the man sat down on the opposite side. She was wearing a little dress that was really short when she sat down. While we were talking she pulled it up a bit so she could enjoy the sun some more. Al she had her legs slightly opened so he could peak.

We talked some more and we really got along. They were nice fun people and had the same kind of ideas about life and everything. They both talked very open about other experiences they had and it got me even more curious about having sex with another couple or girl.

Didn’t feel sexually attracted to them but it was still nice to share experiences and stories.

Never hurts to be able to talk to people about sex, I think everybody should have people like that to talk to.

When we were done drinking we decided to go shopping. She needed a bathing suit and being a woman who loves shopping I came along. The men had to fill up the parking meter so we would be alone for a while.

Looking at bathing suits and bikini’s I spotted some hot bikini’s and bathing suits and decided to try one myself. We headed off to the changing rooms and we took separate ones but on the opposite sides so we could see each other easily.

I slipped into the bikini bottom I took and opened the curtain and waited for her. She tried on several bathing suits and I even helped her with putting one on.

It was pretty sexy to help her with her bathing suit and exciting too. Looking at the time I knew I had to go back soon so we hurried a bit. He found us in the store and peeked at her while she was changing too.

Eventually I bought the sexy bikini top and she didn’t find anything she liked so she would continue shopping with him. They walked me to the station again and we said goodbye.

Yesterday was the day that I had a date with a couple. First time ever I did that.Which was pretty exciting.

We agreed to meet at a station, I went there by train and they would wait for me there. The day started with me taking a shower, getting all wet of course. After a lovely shower, quickly put on some sexy clothes. This was a skirt, a sexy thong, strapless bra and a sexy top. Also brought my blazer cause it was a bit chilly.Took my bicycle to the station and stepped in the train towards the meeting point. We agreed to meet at a different station where they would be waiting for me. The train ride took forever in my mind, and I felt nervous.

We agreed that nothing had to happen and anything could happen but I prefer to get to know people first. I’m not the jump straight into bed kind of person. I might be tempted if the other person was really hot but then the flirting would be enough to get to know each other. Getting back to the date, when I got out of the train I was very nervous. My legs were a bit shaky and wearing heels doesn’t help then. I walked towards the meeting point and I saw them standing there.Walking towards them, I saw the smile on their faces so I knew they like me. Only thing I noticed is that they were a lot smaller then me. (I’m a pretty tall girl with my 6’1 (1.83 in meters) and I didn’t see that one coming)We said hi to each other by 3 kisses on the cheeks (that’s how it’s done in Holland)And together we walked while talking into the city.