Before your blood starts boiling this is not a misogynistic piece. Stay with me. Screw political correctness for a moment; dating and relationship equality is not a good thing. Socially, economically, and in every other way, yes there should be equality between men and women.

Every human being regardless of gender or creed should have the same opportunities.

That said, we’ve all heard of the sexless marriage and the fact that passion eventually fades. So what does that mean, should things be equal or unequal?

In relationships equality is an awful thing. It means there’s no polarity between the masculine and feminine energy. This doesn’t mean there should be INequality in a relationship.

It means there should be two distinct different energies: masculine and feminine.

There’s a ton of material out there around finding your passion. There’s books, tests, and even coaches that help you find your passion. It’s turned into an industry of its own. You take multiple personality tests and then it matches you up with the careers that it thinks you’d like.

When I was getting out of college I took multiple tests like this and read so many books that I could probably write one myself about finding your passion.

It gave me a few careers that I researched and I eventually decided on one.

I decided to go into advertising. Specifically, the strategy area of advertising. This is what all this reading and test-taking pointed to.