How to dress in your 40s

Ted Van Den Broeke

October 8, 2018

You've spent your 30s getting to where you are; this new decade is all about celebrating that success - and what better place to start than with your wardrobe? Here's GQ's pointers for how to dress in your 40s.

When it comes to clothing, there's a fundamental difference between "fashion" and "style" - and the key to dressing in your 40s is to favour the latter. In short, it's time to finesse everything you've learned over the past two decades (and filter out some of the more questionable purchases).

What's important this decade to to pay real attention to fit. Unless you're hitting the gym every day, you're probably going to have to relax your fits slightly from those drainpipe shapes you wore in your 20s and 30s. That said, don't immediately assume a bigger size is what's necessary (remember how good Steve Carrell's baggy, 40-something character looked when Ryan Gosling's character dressed him up right in Crazy Stupid Love?). There's no need to go overboard when you go shopping; simply make it your default to go to straight leg jeans instead of the slim ones - and for god's sake don't buy stonewash rinses.

Also make sure you really invest in the details this decade. As your style settles down and you find yourself wearing more of a uniform both causally and professionally, it's your accessories that will really add personality. Choose a palette of colours that work for you and keep it in mind when you're shopping.

And while you might not be able to bust out the full-on print shirts without looking a little try-hard, don't be afraid of deploying patterns in small bursts with your ties, pocket squares and scarves. Also think of the accessories you might have had little need to spend money on in younger years: really good leather gloves, a selection of smart hats, jewellery, and matching luggage that doesn't fall apart when it gets thrown in the hold.

Finally, if you haven't done so yet, now's the time to start that watch collection.

How to dress in your 40s: 5 golden rules

1) Edit (and upgrade) your wardrobe

You have spent 20 years building up a solid armoury of attire, so it's understandable if some of those items have fallen out of regular rotation. If you haven't worn something for a few years, give it to a charity shop. If you find you wear one item a lot, perhaps invest in a couple of alternatives for it so it gets a rest once in a while. And take stock of any gaps that might need plugging. Also take the opportunity to upgrade not only the items in your wardrobe, but also the wardrobe itself. Buy a wardrobe that's big enough to store all your things so they don't crumple up against each other and, if you haven't done so already, invest in wooden coat hangers, fabric suit bags and plastic boxes for your shoes (Muji make very good ones).

2) Don't assume you need a bigger size (but DO adjust your fits)

You're not 20 anymore, so chances are those clothes you used to wear when you were 20 are not appropriate any longer.
However, don't assume that means you should start going for the next size up! Usually
this will only mean that the seams of your suits need letting out ever so slightly (a minor alteration that can make all the difference), or that you need to choose a straight leg selvedge
rather than a slim fit (no bootcut, please).

3) Approach sportswear with caution

Sportswear is dominating menswear right now - and while injecting a dose of it into your wardrobe can freshen up your downtime attire, investing in this look too heavily in your 40s can end up giving off a bit of a PE teacher vibe. If you want to do it right, eschew the baseball hats and backpacks and invest in cool designer trainers from the likes of Valentino, Lanvin or Mr
Hare in pared-down colours
, worn with a loopback or cashmere jumper and indigo jeans on the weekend.

4) Perfect your wrist action

You might have one or two watches in your repertoire, but now's the time to take it to the next level. If you haven't done so already, your 40th birthday is a great time to treat yourself to your first high-end watch - and by that we mean the sort that you can pass down to your son one day (see some superb examples in the GQ Watch Guide 2015). Also invest in jewellery
that complements it, whatever you're into - whether that be a ring or a small stack of bracelets that you can wear on your downtime which feature subtle stones or highly-polished beads and metals.

5) Settle on your haircut

No more mohawks - the days of experimenting are behind you. When it comes to your haircut, decide on what works best for your hair type and face shape, and find a barber who gets it right every time. That's one less thing to worry about.

Items you should buy in your 40s

Formal trousers

You've spent most of your life so far in jeans, and while we're not suggesting phrasing them out of your wardrobe completely, it's worth investing in some grown-up alternatives. While corduroy is a young man's material these days (in your 40s it can get a bit GCSE Geography teacher), get a wide array of trim chinos in your repertoire. Beige and navy blue are great starter colours, but it's also worth investing in a couple of colours that will match nicely with a blue blazer or grey jumper on the weekend, such as dark red or forest green.

GQ recommends:

Ralph Lauren

Tommy Hilfiger

J Crew

Gant

Hackett London

Luggage

A true man of the world looks on-point whatever mode of transport he's taking - and a key starting point for this is getting your luggage game up to scratch. It's time to finally get rid of that beaten-up bag you bought on your gap year, find a quality luggage-maker that produces a shape you like and invest in a slick set that looks just as good together as it does apart. A good start would be a wheelie, cabin-sized carry-on, a larger suitcase for a week away and a smart tote bag for hand luggage. Extras include a leather suit-carrier or a mid-size wheeled weekend bag.

GQ recommends:

Antler Luggage

Tumi

Piquadro

Louis Vuitton

Coach

A Savile Row (or two)

If your 40s are about celebrating your success in the workplace, why not buy yourself something that you can wear there? When it comes to suiting, Savile Row is the pinnacle in bespoke tailoring - and you'll never have a suit that fits you better every time you slip it on (or gets you more compliments). Plus you've got a tailor for life, should you need any adjustments over the coming years.

GQ recommends:

Savile Row

Decent loungewear

You could get away with heavily-logoed boxer shorts in your 20s, but now it's time to upgrade your after-hours attire. If you're more traditional go for matching pyjamas
, or for something sleeker buy yourself a selection of soft, white T-shirts in both long and short sleeves and wear with light lounge trousers or thigh-length shorts. And make sure you have a decent dressing gown for the morning after (one in towelling
or jersey for the winter and one in cotton for the summer).

GQ recommends:

Sunspel

Calvin Klein

La Perla

Marks & Spencer

Hamilton & Hare

Turnbull & Asser

Workout gear that actually looks good

Those rugby socks and ripped T-shirts are no longer acceptable in your 40s. Whatever sporting activity you're into, look good doing it with an army of separates that match - as well as fresh trainers and compression garments that encourage blood flow. Also, if you tend to spend time in the gym, invest in your headphones - your session is gruelling
enough without poor sound quality compounding it.

GQ recommends:

Nike

Adidas

John Lewis

Orlebar Brown

Lacoste

Bang & Olufsen

Eye cream

You already started using your anti-ageing
moisturiser
in your 30s, now's the time to throw an eye cream into your grooming routine to ensure any bags or crows feet don't take root. A helpful hint if you're new to eye cream: dab it on until it is absorbed, don't rub it in like you would with a moisturiser
.