Girls how often do you go out of your way to text a guy out of the blue?

Me and this girl have been exchanging texts for a couple days and for the most part it's been going pretty well. I'm fairly confident that she liked me at first at least, because she would answer my questions fairly detailed, and she would add a lot of lols, hahas, and smileys, and she'd ask question back at me.

She hasn't responded to my last text from yesterday evening though (and on that day, when I sent a text, I didn't reply back to her until 6 days later). She never initiated tho.

I'm afraid I could be boring her.. I don't feel like texting back and initiating the conversation again. Ughh.

Should I call her or wait for her to text me back (what if she never does)?

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I text him when I feel like it which is ALOT. When I like a guy, I go out of my way to express my feelings to him. I don't calculate or over-think about things like "I don't want to seem clingy", "Will he get bored of me?", etc...I think spontaneous love is what is best. If the guy didn't love/like me like I do, it is his loss or it was never meant to be.

The fact that you didn't reply to her text until 6 days later is not cool. I think you should drop a message saying you miss her and hope everything is fine and that you are looking forward to hear her voice/talk to her soon. Then, wait for her to get back to you even if that means waiting for days.

lol OK that's better! In that case just do the text thing I mentioned earlier or wait a day or two then call her to check up on her. As for the texting, you should have a fun time together. If you think she likes it, then keep on doing what you are doing but if not then send her short and general fun things.. I prefer a guy to call.

Nah, I don't want to text her back that I miss her. The ball is already in her court. It's bad enough she's making me initiate all the conversations. I'll seem really clingy if I do.

I'm just scared that I don't want to come off as boring. But it's not fair. I'm not the best conversation texter in the world, but I do ask her questions, and I'm doing all the damn work. leading the conversations. Its infuriating and makes me wanna give up. >_>

Ok then, wait for a day or do then call. You don't have to come up with the most interesting questions. It's not a quest, you know. Just be yourself, ask her about herself and things you are interested to know, etc...if you are not a good texter, then call her more often. When you call her, be nice and check up on her. That is not clingy at all.

I responded to her text last night at 8pm She hasn't responded since(11am). This also happened on Thursday too. We were going at a nice volley. I didn't text her a question to keep the conv going though.. But she didn't reply to that one. So I ended up waiting 2 days and sending her a text(which would be yesterday), and she replied 40 min later.. Which I then replied 6 hours later.

. And We're FB friends too by the way, but she's never online on FB chat.

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I wonder if I should ever call her.. Thing is, we're on winter break and we won't be seeing each other for a month. I did ask if she wanted to hang out before winter quarter started, and she said she was totally down.