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Wednesday, July 6, 2011

Cancer Doesn't Correlate

We so badly want cancer to be caused by something other people do that we don’t. She used to smoke. He eats so poorly. She’s a worrier/has a lot of anger/doesn’t express feelings. He was always in the sun. Maybe it’s a family thing? Was there cancer in his family? Didn’t her sister have cancer?

It’s our voodoo hope. “If I don’t do the things the things they do I won’t get cancer.”