I don't think I approach it the same way others do and perhaps don't appreciate what makes other women feel good.

My husband and I have decided to be wild and check out a club. One of my concerns is that I won't mesh well and we won't walk away having felt it was worth the experience.

I am sure there are others out there who are uncertain in different personality and skill areas. That makes us human.

The Wife

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Mr.Sleepy would like to take a flirting class with Ms.Wanna

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@toptim - Overly busy with family and business stuff this month. :(

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What's wrong with this month?

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@curt - Aww. Thank you. Here's a pic for you. LOL

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@outdoors - For the last couple we met, maybe that was the case as they were dressed to meet us in whatever they wore that day. It looked like they had just come from grocery shopping, getting the car washed, etc. Meanwhile, hubby and were dressed for a casual, but nice evening out.

I admit that I probably overdress for things. Hubby claims I have a closet full of work clothes and "little black dresses". Not much in between! LOL But when meeting up with a couple, I am going to dress in whatever makes ME feel sexy and confident. And that's not in shorts and a t-shirt.

I know all this probably makes me sound like I'm fishing for compliments. I'm not. I'm actually really frustrated by this and would love to know what is going thru their heads.

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@toptim - Wow! You should totally come and see Maui. We've had rain so the waterfalls are amazing right now.

However...this entire month is not any good for hubby and I. :(

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Wanna,

May I touch your breasts? you are so beautiful.

Curt

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WannaTry, like many here, I find it almost inconceivable that just about any man would not be drawn into a flirtathon with you. So please believe my sincerity in trying to understand this, hoping to lend some insight.

Do most people who live on or visit your island dress casually? When they first see you, are you dressed to kill? Maybe this is just intimidating. Imagine showing up at a party as the one who's dressed casually.

I expect Hawaii to be inhabited by girls in flowers and grass skirts, men in shorts and flowery shirts. I might not even pack any clothes I don't expect to need. I also expect you'd look just as luscious in the most comfortable thing you own. Maybe it's time to browse your pictures.

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WannaTry808, I have a free day on the 22nd and 26th. I was thinking about island hopping on one of those days. Maybe I visit Maui?