I am afraid of going out there again. Help?

I am afraid of dating guys again. I've never been in a relationship but I've dated guys and i get attached very fast and i hate it. Last guy i dated was in january-february and im still not 100% over him..I have a date on Tuesday and im scared.. i feel like blowing him off because being alone is so much easier... but than i shouldn't go around moping about not dating anyone etc. I dont know what to do :(

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They havnt treated me poorly except one who hurt me a lot.. and now he has a gf and he still wants to have contact with me.. and he is back and forth all the time. I am so over him , its been 4 years, but the last guy i dated and i really liked was amazing but he didn't want anything serious due to no time.. and he is in a another country now doing work. But i get used to them. . im use to be alone all the time so when someone does give me attention i get attached.

He can only use you if you let him use you! Dont sleep with him or any guy so quickly! For every relationship I've been in, I've wanted 6 months before we would make love and that was my decision! When it finally happens, the love making is so incredible, it feels like we are just one body!