After six months of trying, if you are still single and are running into the same obstacles that most singles do during the dating process, then I suggest speeding up the process and making it much easier for yourself. Come in for your free consultation and see for yourself if we can help you.

Now in my 15th year of matchmaking, I have over 1,000 success stories from people just like yourself who are very happy they came in and let me do the work for them. But again, first give yourself six months of trying to meet Mr./Ms. Right on your own.

The typical “single person” who is successful, attractive, funny, faithful and loyal is usually also very busy with his/her job and tired after work. Image: iStock.

Does that sound easy? Yes, but in reality, the typical “single person” who is successful, attractive, funny, faithful and loyal is usually also very busy with his/her job and tired after work. In my program, I find that my singles go to work and then just go home. They do not want to find someone in the bar scene.

If you meet someone in a bar, typically one of you is going to want to continue that activity of going out and drinking. While most people think they will just go to a bar to find someone and then once they do, they’ll both stop going to bars and spend time together, usually that’s not the case.

Either one or both of the people that meet in bars wish to continue hanging out there. So you need to tell yourself if you do not wish to spend your time together in bars, then don’t go to bars to meet someone.

For more information on the services of Maureen Tara Nelson, Private Matchmaking, check out mtnmatchmaking.com.

*Originally published in 2013.

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