I am embarrassed for the experience you've had by just asking for some advice. It's definitely not a good representation of the climbing community. Very unfortunate.

Bullshit. There's been tons of good advice (not "advices", btw) in this and her other threads. The OP is choosing to not listen to a lot of it for whatever reasons, impatience likely being one.

1climbergirl: in a nutshell, people in this thread have told you 1. it's going to take longer than a month....or 2....or 12 - get used to it. 2. you're going to hurt at various times for as long as you climb - get used to it 3. some climbs are going to totally spank you and this will happen for as long as you climb - get used to it 4. dynos are used pretty infrequently on real rock, so stop obsessing over them 5. master techniques on easier climbs first so they are internalized and they become part of your toolkit. If you keep using poor techniques on climbs that are currently too difficult for you, all you're really doing is reinforcing poor technique 6. get that book and dvd that was mentioned 7. quit whining - it puts people off