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I'm curious to hear experiences of people who believed they were monogamous but challenged themselves to try a polyamorous love approach in order to make themselves comfortable with a poly partner.

Good and bad, share them all. No I'm not talking about swinging or casual sex but forming a true relationship involving physical intimacy in order to understand the nature of the person they love. Did it add understanding; did it take away from the relationship you were trying to enhance?

Let's have it folks, there has got to be some one out there who has

And no, I'm not challenging myself..I'm hopelessly monogamous and a complete sexual prude in so many ways LOL! ..me and Redpepper are so in love we practically share organs...well sometimes

Mono, my mono wife is going thru this, trying to accommodate myself and our best friend of 20 years. I know she's joined here but not commented yet. She may have something to add to the discussion but it can be tough to drag it out of her! I'll try!