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Re: How Do You Deal With This?

There is always two sides to every story I feel like your leaving out some details to make yourself look innocent.... That's my opinion. No one just does that with no justification unless they have something wrong with them mentally. If that is the case then this would have gotten her into trouble before and thus has been approached about it most likely. Also it's a freshman girl... They are very hormonal and unpredictable lol

Re: How Do You Deal With This?

Ignore her, and tell a mentor.
Don't get violent, since that will only make you look like the bad one.

If she doesn't back off after you've calmly told her to go away and why, then give her three warnings. If she doesn't quit annoying you after those warnings, take action. Nag your mentors about it every day if you have to, so long as they sort the problem out.

You could always rant and insult her until she cries, but I wouldn't advise it.

Re: How Do You Deal With This?

So a girl goes to school, sees you, and decides to single you out to follow and hurl curses at.

I think we're missing part of the story, here.

She's a freshman at my school whereas I'm a senior.

*shakes head* You kids these days... Probably some silly game she came up with among her circle of friends.

She refuses to leave me alone, I'm sick of her by now...

Honestly, I'd try and have as much fun with it as possible.

I remember how stuff like that used to irritate me to no end... but after a while, you realize that they are just words and there's nothing you can do about stupid people.

And soon enough this will get violent, but before it comes to that...

Nah, don't do that.

Anyone know what might help? Note: I've already told the school about this.

The way I'd handle it? Stop, turn around, and give her the time of day.

Ask her who she is. What her favorite color is. What shows she likes.

She will either A) start acting something like a normal person is expected to act or B) be thrown for something of a loop. If she's just trying to annoy you, it may get her to lay off a bit.

She obviously wants your attention. See what happens when you give her a little (neutral attention - not hostile attention or overly supportive).

Or... if you know something you would rather not mention that could cause this girl to act in such a way (or otherwise single you out for such displays), then you should probably take whatever action you need to in order to help heal the damage that has been done.

Re: How Do You Deal With This?

So a girl goes to school, sees you, and decides to single you out to follow and hurl curses at.

I think we're missing part of the story, here.

*shakes head* You kids these days... Probably some silly game she came up with among her circle of friends.

Honestly, I'd try and have as much fun with it as possible.

I remember how stuff like that used to irritate me to no end... but after a while, you realize that they are just words and there's nothing you can do about stupid people.

Nah, don't do that.

The way I'd handle it? Stop, turn around, and give her the time of day.

Ask her who she is. What her favorite color is. What shows she likes.

She will either A) start acting something like a normal person is expected to act or B) be thrown for something of a loop. If she's just trying to annoy you, it may get her to lay off a bit.

She obviously wants your attention. See what happens when you give her a little (neutral attention - not hostile attention or overly supportive).

Or... if you know something you would rather not mention that could cause this girl to act in such a way (or otherwise single you out for such displays), then you should probably take whatever action you need to in order to help heal the damage that has been done.

Re: How Do You Deal With This?

If I were you I would confront her in public and tell her to stop doing that, she won't be able to make a scene in public. Try to make it clear that you don't like her back (if she does like you in the first place, though I think she most probably does).

If you don;t do this she'll become like Sakura, pointlessly wasting her time being infatuated with you while her studies (in Sakura's case power level) go down the drain. But don't be too harsh or she'll start wasting her time hating on you. i know... girls are complicated but we seriously don't want to make her a Sakura so just be clear.