with Carol Look

Fall in Love Today…

September 12, 2010

What if you looked for things, people andsituations to fall in love with today?I wonder how much abundancewould flow in…

This newsletter is not about romantic love. It’s about the energy and vibration of love and how it can help us feel better and improve our lives. Let’s look at what happens when we fall or feel “in love.”

When people fall in love, their vibration improves immediately and dramatically. When you are in love, everything looks positive and cheerful, you have those “in love” feelings – nothing seems to go wrong, you give everyone the benefit of the doubt, waiting in line is no problem, traffic jams aren’t that bad, and problems turn into opportunities.

There is so much fun to be had when we’re in love! So why would we only focus on waiting for a mate? Why wait for the ideal person when an ideal situation or object or scenario is right in front of you?

Why not choose tofall in love today?

We don’t need to fall in love with a person or a mate to engage these feelings that will help us attract abundance. We have the freedom to fall in love with any part of our life, any object in our life, our pet, our current mate all over again, a plant or a flower, the sun, a favorite book – anything is open to you falling in love with it!

When we are in love, everything seems exciting, and there is that particular bounce in our step… (eventually reality sets in and we see the limitations of our partner, and our hormones go back to normal…) but what if we made an effort to fall in love every day? It would raise our vibration immediately!

When you are in love, you feelpowerful, happy, creative, and in sucha good mood. Just think, this could beyou, every day!

So why don’t we plan to fall in love every day with someone, something, any thing that pleases us. It is within our control to have an incredible day full of joy and gratitude, not to mention a day of delightful surprises and abundance!

Don’t forget to review the last two weeks’ newsletters, Expect an Exceptional Day and One Now at a Time. Combine their messages with this week’s topic, Fall in Love Today and make a profound shift in each day you get to experience in this lifetime.

The main reason I am suggesting or inviting you to Fall in Love is that I have noticed how much we all tend to focus on our own and other people’s faults, problems and shortcomings. So how about we focus on what we love? I invite you to try a new habit of falling in love at least once a day!

Enjoy falling in love todayand feel your energy shifting!

Please note that the habit of finding fault with ourselves or others is a “tappable issue” with EFT. So do you have any other blocks to this invitation to fall in love every day. Are you confused as to why we should bother with this idea?

Here’s what I know…People who fall in love every dayattract more success and abundance!

So it’s time for the yes, but section of my newsletter to help identify what we need to clear out of our energy systems with EFT/Meridian Tapping. Here are some typical yes, buts that surface when I suggest to clients in workshops to fall in love every day:

(1) Yes, but… there’s not much in my life to fall in love with right now!

OK, that is definitely a problem. Keep looking, maybe there’s a book, a scarf, a corner of your home, a flower outside, something that you could pour your attention over and yes, fall in love with right now. How about a concept? A truth? An idea? “Even though there’s not much in my life I love right now…”

(2) Yes, but… I don’t know how to choose what to fall in love with – which is better?

Anything goes here – remember, we are not focusing on romantic partners, but ideas, items, things, pets, kids, your journal, a pair of shoes… we’re going for the “feeling” of falling in love, so it really doesn’t much matter what the object of your love is.

(3) Yes, but… I don’t feel safe having those “in love” feelings.

Why not? If you don’t feel safe falling in love, you may have a few tappable issues regarding an old trauma or feelings of being hurt. What doesn’t feel safe to you about these feelings? “Even though I don’t feel safe with these “in love” feelings because of what happened last time…”

(4) Yes, but… I don’t see the point of this.

The point is simple – when you have those “in love” feelings, you will instantly raise your mood, or your vibration which means you will automatically open the door to attracting more abundance. “Even though I don’t see the point of falling in love… why bother?”

The good news is that you can treat whichever yes, buts you have with basic EFT tapping! Are you holding yourself back in your life because of any of these yes, buts or layers of resistance? If so, the yes, buts can all be formed into tappable issues with EFT/Meridian Tapping.

The question I invite you to ask yourself is:

Why are you still finding fault everywhereyou look instead of looking for things and peopleto fall in love with now?

Read over the questions below to help you uncover what may be blocking you from practicing this new habit – Fall in Love Today, each and every day…

(1) What’s the “downside” to falling in love today?

(2) Does it feel “unsafe” to fall in love today?

(3) Are you more comfortable with finding fault all around you?

(4) How does it “serve” you to stay critical instead of loving?

These are all powerful questions that I recommend you answer as best you are able… once you know the upside of not falling in love, you can make healthier choices about what you focus on each day.

In my newsletters, I like to include the benefits I have found to what I am proposing to my readers. Below are my favorite benefits of falling in love today…

(1)Falling in love today will help you access your incredible creative abilities at work and at home. Enjoy the expanded feeling you will have when you are “in love” with someone or something… it will expand your creativity and make you feel incredibly gifted.

(2) Falling in love today will invite the Law of Attraction to send you even more joyful, loving experiences and automatically raise your vibration! Remember, the Law of Attraction “hears” your vibration, not your words, so imagine what it will “hear” when you are feeling in love!

(3) Falling in love today will help your body feel more relaxed and rejuvenated because of all the joy that comes from this feeling. When you shift your energy into feeling “in love” all the chemicals in your body get interested in life again, and you signal the Universe that you have a greater capacity for abundance.

(4)Falling in love today will help you get clarity about your decisions and the next “yes” in all areas of your life. When we feel “in love” we feel certain, sure and secure, and this will help us be clear in all of our “next” decisions.

As Law of Attraction teachers say — it’s all energy. So change your energy by being inspired to fall in love today. It will automatically invite the Universe to help you create more abundance right now.

Remember, the Law of Attraction sends you situations that have the same energy of the vibration you are putting out… so when you are feeling in love, and that all is well in the world, the Universe will bring you additional experiences that will match this feeling.

Below you will find EFT/ Meridian Tapping setup phrases to help you be inspired to fall in love today.

When you change your vibration,you will change your life.

Go ahead, raise your vibration by falling in love today..!

1. EFT SETUP PHRASES:

The EFT SETUP Phrases for this topic are as follows:

While tapping the karate chop spot on either hand, repeat these phrases out loud, (or change the words to fit your exact situation).

“Even though I haven’t fallen in love in a long time, I accept who I am and how I feel.”

“Even though I’m afraid to fall in love with anyone or anything, I accept how I feel and who I am.”

“Even though it doesn’t feel safe to fall in love, I accept all of me now.”

I have indicated where to tap while saying each of the phrases below. You may repeat the positive round more than once if you wish. (Those of you who are new to EFT may view a chart of the spots on my web site under the EFT pages.)

***Now for the phrases that focus on the problem***

Eyebrow: “I’m afraid to fall in love today.”Side of Eye: “I don’t know how to fall in love.”Under Eye: “I don’t want to be too vulnerable.”Nose: “I feel anxious at the thought of falling in love.”Chin: “I have a habit of finding faults in others.”Collarbone: “I don’t feel safe falling in love.”Under Arm: “I wonder what would happen if I expected to fall in love.” Head: “I don’t want to fall in love today…”

***Now for the positive focus on the solution***

Eyebrow: “What if I intended to fall in love with something in my day?”Side of Eye: “I wonder how my vibration might change…”Under Eye: “I want to fall in love today.”Nose: “There’s so much to fall in love with every day.”Chin: “I choose to look for things to fall in love with right now.”Collarbone: “Maybe it would be fun to fall in love.”Under Arm: “I am considering falling in love today.”Head: “I choose to feel the joy of falling in love today.”

Access more positive vibrations with the Law of Attraction by repeating the following phrases (while tapping or not):

Thank You, Universe for showing me how to fall in love at least once a day.

Thank You, Universe for allowing me to feel safe when I fall in love with someone or something in my life.

Thank You, Universe for inspiring me to fall in love today.

Keep tapping, and enjoy using the Law of Attraction to bring more of what you want into your life!

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