He is always out with that girl yeah he just says their friends"roll eyes". I have caught going out with her and not telling the truth about it. Then he expects me to socialize with her yeah right like I want to.

See same thing different point of view.

Look around you will understand why the girlfriends dont like you, you represent an opportunity for their partners to cheat. Not to say all men cheat or all women cheat but it does seem very common.

as to the one who said his ex was an evil b!tch well wonder what he was like. You are outside looking in and you dont actually know what is going on in the relationship. He might say that about her but I wonder why she was that way. Oh yeah I know he wants to hang out with his female friend and not with her. I know I would become a major b!tch for that.

he final contacted the pic queen of his dream and now is gone from here.

Also you do have to wonder about the ones who never change a picture even when they have been on here for a year or more. What you didnt go anywhere, do any thing that had a picture taken of? I would be more concerned about them.

You dont have to have her live with you. She is old enough to get her own place and yes that would mean she needs to grow up. What does the other person who lives with you think? What about her feelings in this?She could also go to school in Europe and live at her fathers unless he is tired of her crap too.

It really does depend on how many times they have been out. If its a first date Yes it would creep me out that this stranger knows where I work or where I live. Now if we have been going out for several dates and No i dont have a number here but more than 3, yes flowers would be great and romantic.

No father is better than one who is a bad person, who is abusive, who uses drugs especially around the children, who is a chronic alcoholic. Children watch and they learn from their parents including the bad ones.Its better to raise the child alone that with that kind of drama in their life. You will need to make sure their other postive male role models around especially if the father is not.

You should have not cancelled the other date also you should not have told date #1 that you were going out with date #2. These are all first meet and greets and dont really count as dating. They are just meeting to see if they are what they said they are on the net.

As to the poster who said he wouldnt see her again if he knew she was dating other men. I doubt that you are exclusive when you first meet someone, or even after the 2nd, 3rd date. These are dates not arrangements for marriage, you are just getting to know a person.

Signs that your family is stressed.1. most of the conversations start with "What were you thinking"2. the school calls and the first reply is "What has he done now"3. cant understand them since they all talk too fast 4. think you are going deaf since no one seems to hear you

I dont know how I would handle it finding my partner in bed with someone else. I can bet it would not be very nice for him. The last one I caught cheating got his stuff thrown out and the locks changed.

HE stood you up. He wasted your time. He wont get another a chance. Throw that fish back into the pond and keep on fishing. My time is very important to me and to waste it with not showing up for a set date is something that gets a person deleted. He doesnt respect you or your time, NEXT.

I know some will say what if........ so what thats what a phone is for and most people carry them all the time.

Thats just the way it is, you have to decide on how you will handle people who do stuff like this. Just wait till you have a great date then he goes "POOF" on you.

I will send emails to men that interest me. If they want to chat then they know they can email me back and we see where it goes. It actually gives them a boost since they dont have to worry about being rejected since I contacted them. It means I found something I liked and want to know more.

I perfer to date one at a time but sometimes that one is not sure so they keep their choices available. Its not game playing but there are many on here that are very misleading. You go out and think maybe this one then nothing "POOF" so back to the pond you go.

I dont know how long you have been on here, but I can understand her point of view.

She has finally met a man that1. appears as his photo2. didnt lie about his age/weight/height3. seems really interesting/funny/nice what ever4. has what she is looking for

I can understand her frustration at not knowing if he even thinks she is someone he is interested. She wanted to date him. It gets very hard sometimes to even hope there is a fish out there that you actually want a relationship with.

I thought ok kill the giraffe and cut it up small so it could fit, guess i had to debone it first to get it to fit and did that include all internal organs. As to elephant why bother you have a fridge full of meat already so you dont need to put it in the fridge.

As one of the other postters said you would have to kill them since I dont think a live animal would let you put it in the fridge.

mysterious is something you can work on but when someone asks a direct question they want an answer not a game of trying to figure out what the person really meant.

As to it fading or things becoming boring... this world is huge and there is so much to do and see in it that you can not experience everything. Find something new to do and go do it. Try a new hobby, go someplace you have never been, explore, read a book or two. There is so much to talk about there is no way you can find out everything about everyone.

I like to order my own food and I will pay for my own food. As to sharing food go right ahead and help yourself. I wont eat most of it anyways and why waste it. Its good since I can order desert since he ate my dinner. Fair trade.

You need to get rid of the alcoholic that you are with and get a person who is not a waste of time and energy.Second dont bother going out with a married man you are just asking for some major drama. You said you dont like cheaters make up your mind if you want to see a married man that is CHEATING.