The 7-Minute Marriage Solution

Till Death Do Us Part …

Till Death Do Us Part …

Secret Number One: Your spouse is more likely to change when you stop trying to change your spouse. “When you try to change your spouse the natural reaction is one of defensiveness,” writes Arterburn. “Rather than appreciate your effort, your spouse is more likely to dig in their heals and protect their territory. They will not only justify why they are okay or right in what they do, but they will attack you and point out the most blatant things you need to change about yourself.”