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Yes. I was married to a N for about 3.5 years and realized he was treating others better then he would treat his own wife. I confronted him on this and his explanation of this was "your making a bigger thing out of this and there is no need for it" he also said "why do we fight about such stupid things when other couples have more valid reasons for fighting". They will always find an excuse because they will know that you will just take it and not get over it. He knows you will always be there no matter what. I have had my husband tell me that he was going to help a coworker move when there were a bunch of guys helping her and our marriage was falling apart. He just figured that I will get over it even though I told him you would rather help a coworker move than to save our marriage? He said I promised this coworker and than just walked away. He figured I will get over it and soon I will forget about it. Well, I didn`t. I once again confronted him and we got into this huge fight and I decided that this was one too many times to have leave me be last in line. I always wanted to be number one in his life and I realized as petty as that was that I will never and I mean never be number one. So you just have to ask yourself if you want to be ignored for the rest of your life with him or if you want to find somebody that you deserve that will make you number one in his life.
Take care hope you find what your looking for:
Hope.

Someone said: When my ex narc. pulled that on me, by giving more attention to a woman 30 plus years his junior, there was no question to ask. I`m not putting up with that. I don`t want a dirty old man in my life. I am repulsed.

Because they dont understand that no means no. They are are still following their own agenda. I eventually rang mine to say a final goodbye because they refused to sit and have closure and a few hours later they would text have you seen my dvd or xmas decorations etc, Same as after a major outburst as if it never happened No idea about whats really going on.

Someone said: I dated a N for a year and clearly a commitment from him was not happening. After he was doing his usually "missing in action" episode, I broke up with him via email. He has since constantly called and texted about stupid things such as movies, and other random everyday stuff and never addressed anything points in my email. That solidified I was dealing with a crazy person and although I do sometimes miss him, I completely ignored him and got my sanity back!

rhondaoliver820 said: You are such a N and you know it on stop off it all that person truly liked you but from what I read you can handle goodness you must have been a bully when you were younger cause you still act like one how disappointed I also see she has made an outburst resenly may be she not all into you like you think lol

Someone said: I just ended a five year on again off again relationship with a N. Prior to this I caught him with six dating profiles on internet, inappropriate behavior on Facebook, mysterious and sudden departures...i told him that I knew who he was and what he was and that there was NO chance of reconcilliation. I believed that I had sufficiently humiliated him enough to keep him away....It has been four months and he sent me a text asking for my hand in marriage...UNBELIEVABLE! Of course there was no mention of his crimes or even any apology. I realized that there is no chance of getting through to a narcissist. It is like trying to have an adult conversation with Koko the chimp....Pigs will fly over frozen Hell before I willl let myself respond, and if my hand reaches for the phone, I will cut it off!

Someone said: Your ending to this messg. was priceless! I laughed my keister off! Thanks for that! I am with the same exact N capricorn man. I have NEVER dated a man like him. What it boils down to is his insecurity....a small man....coward......that is why he has to turn everything into your problem.....he is a whimp. He also uses his money to coerce young woman to be with him and he is 67 y/o. He lies about anything and everything and it is every few hours.

Someone said: They will never apologize, they will convince you that there is something wrong with you. It`s a tough urge to resist, but never ever contact them. Lose the zero and find yourself a hero!

Don`t be surprised She probably Isn`t has into you as you think she probably tired of your none knowing how to be a real man with some back instead off a bully who hides behind thing You are A true N may be all she feels for you is pitty.

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