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This cross cultural family

I am an Adult Third Culture Kid. I live in Thailand with my German-Thai husband and our three kids.

Our kids are born and raised in Thailand and have from birth been interacting with the household staff and Thai relatives in Thai; with me in Japanese; and with their father in German.

Linguistically, the older two can read and write in Japanese, especially since starting Japanese school. The eldest, Engineer (9), can also read a bit of German and - extrapolating from the German rules! - English words, while Tigerlily (7) arguably speaks the best English out of them all. The youngest, our bouncing Entropy (3), talks Thai non-stop followed by Japanese, and has about four words in German.

I myself am English-Japanese bilingual, with rudimentary understanding of German and Thai, and some remnants of Spanish learned as a student.

As you can imagine, it's a big linguistic experiment in our household...but as a TCK, I'm also worried and fascinated with how these children are going to process their self-identities.

Will they identify themselves primarily as Thai because they've been living here all their lives? As Japanese because that's what they inculcate in you when you attend Japanese school?