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Fri, 22 Feb 2019 12:46:38 +0000Joomla! - Open Source Content Managementen-gbnoreply@boddunan.com (Information Creates Wealth)The moment grandparents enter the room , discipline flies out of window. Do you agree with it?https://www.boddunan.com/answers/family-and-relationships/2467-the-moment-grandparents-enter-the-room-,-discipline-flies-out-of-window-do-you-agree-with-it.html
https://www.boddunan.com/answers/family-and-relationships/2467-the-moment-grandparents-enter-the-room-,-discipline-flies-out-of-window-do-you-agree-with-it.htmlAll when grandparents enter the scene discipline flies out of the window explain it with your sweet memories.]]>sreematrana@gmail.com (Sreematrana)Family & RelationshipsMon, 05 Feb 2018 17:15:07 +0000Once a thief always a thief...https://www.boddunan.com/answers/family-and-relationships/2452-once-a-thief-always-a-thief.html
https://www.boddunan.com/answers/family-and-relationships/2452-once-a-thief-always-a-thief.htmlThis is a saying that our society seems to believe in. However, is there any truth in this? Many a times people who commit a minor crime get penalised and have to pay the price for it all through their lives ...Is it fair ?]]>kiran8bhandary@gmail.com (usha manohar)Family & RelationshipsWed, 08 Nov 2017 16:01:52 +0000Do you believe in 'forgive and forget'?https://www.boddunan.com/answers/family-and-relationships/1824-do-you-believe-in-forgive-and-forget.html
https://www.boddunan.com/answers/family-and-relationships/1824-do-you-believe-in-forgive-and-forget.htmlPeople say forgive and forget but somehow I find it very difficult to practice it. For me, it is easy to forgive but I fail to forget the incident which hurt me tremendously. What is your take?]]>shampa.sadhya44@gmail.com (Shampa Sadhya)Family & RelationshipsSun, 13 Aug 2017 15:27:24 +0000If someone leaves you without telling anythinghttps://www.boddunan.com/answers/family-and-relationships/1821-if-someone-leaves-you-without-telling-anything.html
https://www.boddunan.com/answers/family-and-relationships/1821-if-someone-leaves-you-without-telling-anything.htmlI strongly believe that, if you want to end a relationship, either friendship, business or romantic, you should not leave it behind without uttering a word. You need to tell the other person, for these reasons I would like to leave you. I feel that ending a relationship abruptly without telling anything is nothing short of a revenge. Openly discussing many things without hiding in mind can give a new life to many falling relations. Do you agree with me?]]>sandhya.shaiju@gmail.com (Sandhya Rani)Family & RelationshipsThu, 29 Jun 2017 03:21:27 +0000House guests - how far would you go ?https://www.boddunan.com/answers/family-and-relationships/1798-house-guests-how-far-would-you-go.html
https://www.boddunan.com/answers/family-and-relationships/1798-house-guests-how-far-would-you-go.htmlMy neighbor is perpetually grumbling about the many adjustments she and her family has to make when there are house guests. When she told me that they all , meaning her husband and 2 children move into one bedroom and give the two other bedrooms to guests and change the menu and food preferences according to that of her guests , I felt that she was going too far..I definitely would never expect that from my hosts . In fact I would go all out to adjust to their household in every way possible ..What do you all think ? Shouldnt the guest adjust rather than the other way round.]]>kiran8bhandary@gmail.com (usha manohar)Family & RelationshipsFri, 20 Jan 2017 09:15:52 +0000Best substitute of a person in your life...https://www.boddunan.com/answers/family-and-relationships/1797-best-substitute-of-a-person-in-your-life.html
https://www.boddunan.com/answers/family-and-relationships/1797-best-substitute-of-a-person-in-your-life.html"One can never become a better substitute of other, but can continue your life story with a different script......" That's what I believe...it's not just a romantic relationship, but applicable for other forms of relations such as family, friends etc...Life goes on in the absence of one or many, may be in another direction. Do you believe so? Or what is your opinion for my quote :)]]>sandhya.shaiju@gmail.com (Sandhya Rani)Family & RelationshipsThu, 19 Jan 2017 15:46:30 +0000In your opinion who is a feminist?https://www.boddunan.com/answers/family-and-relationships/1796-in-your-opinion-who-is-a-feminist.html
https://www.boddunan.com/answers/family-and-relationships/1796-in-your-opinion-who-is-a-feminist.htmlI had a strong argument with someone on a social site. His opinion was somewhat like this - Nowadays even if we warn girls/ladies about dangers, they respond to it with abhorrence (loathing - I think I have used the word with correct substitution in English). But I responded saying, it's not a good procedure to judge woman kind by taking just one or two instances.

I also put forward some of my ideas while the discussion progressed. The main thing is - We often advise our girls to do this, don't do this etc for many centuries repeating the same story of leaf and thorn. But why can't we take a step forward and think, why can't we prevent that thorn? Isn't prevention better than cure? Aside girls, why can't we cultivate good habits in boys as well since early childhood, such as to protect girls, to respect the opposite gender as well, how not to behave with them etc etc.....If so it can bring big changes to society in future generations......

He believes, it's girls who should always remain vigilant. If SOMETHING HAPPENS SHE SHOULD NEVER BLAME BOYS because she didn't care?

Why advices to our girls only in our society? Can a person who dislikes such gender-biased comments be a feminist? In your opinion who is a feminist?

]]>sandhya.shaiju@gmail.com (Sandhya Rani)Family & RelationshipsFri, 23 Dec 2016 03:32:05 +0000Do you judge people?https://www.boddunan.com/answers/family-and-relationships/1778-do-you-judge-people.html
https://www.boddunan.com/answers/family-and-relationships/1778-do-you-judge-people.htmlIf we live in a society, it's not easy to stay isolated. We communicate with people, and based on the experiences we judge people, basically it's human trait. But it's possible to keep this behaviour in control, if we try so. We humans easily forget helps and remembers and recollects bad events most.

I feel that we should judge people after a long observation and it should never be a hasty act. It helps us to be vigilant against bad people, bad behaviour, outcome etc. I have less interaction with neighbours as I live in a strange city, and for the same reason I get less opportunity to judge others. Personally I don't judge people who have less to do with my personal life, though I stay alert. I give less significance to those who just stay in neighbourhood, I see him/her everyday etc etc.. I don't spent my brain energy on them, but on relations which need frequent monitoring. What about you?

]]>sandhya.shaiju@gmail.com (Sandhya Rani)Family & RelationshipsFri, 16 Dec 2016 20:25:42 +0000Freedom after Marriagehttps://www.boddunan.com/answers/family-and-relationships/1771-freedom-after-marriage.html
https://www.boddunan.com/answers/family-and-relationships/1771-freedom-after-marriage.htmlQuestion 1: Both men and women complain the same thing - I lost my freedom after marriage. What do you think about it? Who is correct and who is wrong? Who enjoys more freedom?

Question 2: In childhood too, kids don't enjoy too much freedom and restrictions are imposed on them by parents and relatives. Then why do they say they lost freedom after marriage? Though man has more restrictions in childhood and teens, he mostly complain about loss of freedom after marriage. Is it a real fact? Or what could be the other factors which force him to believe so?