But here’s the truth: While most guys think they’re blowing her mind, more often than not, they’re missing the mark.

“Women know that most guys want them to reach O-land, and they don’t want to disappoint,” says Dorian Solot, a sex educator and co-author of I Love Female Orgasm: An Extraordinary Orgasm Guide. “So all too often, women fake orgasms, or just let their partner assume they had one.”

But don’t settle for disappointing. So stick to these nine positions, man. Believe us: Both you—and she—will know that they work.

1. Missionary

According to sex experts, women get the most pleasure out of basic missionary sex. “Interestingly, when we surveyed women, good old-fashioned missionary position was the overall favorite. There’s nothing fancy about it, but women said they loved the closeness and the intimacy of having their partner’s weight on them,” says Solot.

But in order for missionary position to be most effective, make sure you’re entering her at the correct angle, says Los Angeles-based sex expert and radio host Lora Somoza. “By going in diagonally—rather than straight in and out—there’s more friction for clitorial stimulation, which is best, since that’s how most women achieve orgasm.”

2. Reverse Cowgirl

In this position, the man is either lying down or in a sitting position, and the female straddles him backwards — facing his feet instead of his face. It’s a key position that also allows easy access to the clitoris, says sexologist and sexuality educator Megan Andelloux. “Because of the easier clitoral access, this position is the one that is most likely to facilitate an orgasm because direct clitoral stimulation is easy to engage in.”

Doggie style is a great position for the woman because it allows her to have optimal control. “She is able to adjust her range of motion for an angle that feels best,” says Amy Levine, a sex coach and founder of Ignite Your Pleasure. “He can likely stimulate her G-spot and have access to her clitoris with his hand, her hand or a toy, like a small bullet-shaped vibrator.”

But make sure to use your hands for clitoral stimulation too while in the doggie style position, says sexologist Gloria Brame, Ph.D. “She will rarely have an orgasm if you’re not doing something manually in front at the same time,” she says.”

4. Girl on Top

Another position that allows her to have the most control of her orgasm is when she’s the one on top, facing forward. But the position still needs to be a joint effort, Somoza explains. “You can help her by moving her hips up and down. It’s a communication thing,” she says. Levine adds that when the woman is on top, “she’s in control of the depth and motion, as well as having easy access to her clitoris for pleasure.”

Another thing according to the experts, is a man with a straight penis that dosen’t have any curvature upwards or downwards can’t hit all the necessary spots for her absolute pleasure. With the uterus not being completely straight, that makes perfect sense.

Its like, the bigger the tower the more its leans. So a small penis is more straight then lets says a 16+cm. Ergo ppl with straight penises have small dicks and cant pleasure a woman anyway. Funny enough, most molesters and rapists have small penises. Coincedence?…

Nothing new in this article. The thing they need to change is to explain that a woman is in charge of her own orgasm. If a woman can’t give herself an orgasm then why would they expect or blame a guy if she doesn’t have one. Unless recieving a blowjob then a guy is taking responsibility for his orgasm and so should she by properly communicating what she needs because women need different stimulouses at different times

Men getting a hard rap again. It’s an individual thing. Some men are good lovers, others are not. Some men are empathetic and sensitive and others are not and the EXACT same thing applies to women. Trust me when I say there are plenty of terrible female lovers out there.

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Wow let’s just all be real here. No need to get defensive and ridicule your friends. Good sex takes open communication with your partner(s), willingness to please – there are some selfish people out there, and yes some knowledge on the subject. Be respectful and kind to one another. Sex is a natural desire for both men and women – make it good for both and you are sure to get invited back for more.

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