Physical & Emotional Abuse Support Group

Abuse is a general term for the treatment of someone that causes some kind of harm (to the abused person, to the abusers themselves, or to someone else) that is unlawful or wrongful. No one deserves abuse, period. Abuse can be emotional, physical, or sexual.

Why!?!

i've been emotionally abused ever since i have been a lil kid and i cant take it nemore and i dont know y they do it and y they think it is funny when all it is doing is hurting me and shit i've tried telling them how it makes me feel but they dont care and i cant stand it...

i know i've went to a counselor and i did that for 2 weeks and no1 did or said nething they just said that it was just me and my sister has slammed my head in the wall 3x and she knocked me out 4x and it sux and it hurts bad

I am so sorry. If you teachers are not taking you seriously, please think about calling your local child protective services. You need to be safe. Am I understanding you right, your sister slammed your head against the wall repeatedly until you passed out? That is horrible. You have to tell someone that will take you seriously and protect you, even if it means calling the police and telling a cop about what you are going through so he can call as social worker or someone to protect you.

i know but than like i go to the same skool as my sister and that wont work than bc like she's a major b!tch to me and sh!t and like if i tell someone like a cop or something than like i just cant do that i just cant

Honey, as hard as it is, you have to protect yourself. What you went through is both emotional and physical abuse. You need to find just one adult that will take you seriously and do what it takes to protect you. Seriously, I don't want you to keep on being hurt like this. You have an obligation to anyone that cares about you to protect yourself. What if your sister goes too far one day and actually kills you or injures you permanently? Slamming your head like that is dangerous.

Sweetie, the only way I can help you is by being there for you while you do the very difficult thing and tell someone about what is happening to you. If I lived near you, I'd take you to a counselor myself, but that isn't possible, so you have to be brave and believe in yourself. I know you can do it. You are a strong girl who has gone through hellish things. If you survived all that, I know that you have the strength and courage to do what you need in order to protect yourself, tell someone that you trust.

Is your sister the one who's abused you since you were a kid? or are there others?

You have a right to be safe. Unfortunately, you can't control how injured you will become. It's not like you can say, well, I'll let her beat me because it won't to any permanent damage.... because it only takes once for it to go to far. It's not your fault, and PLEASE! FIND SOMEONE TO TALK TO. Is there anyone at your school or at your church or synagogue who you trust?

yea my sister is, i've told a counceler at skool but she just said it was a phase for her and sh!t, im a pk=pastors kid and my dad knows about all this sh!t but of course he doesnt do nething and i cant handle this nemore

Let me get this straight. The counselor at school said this is just a phase your sister is going thru? .......okay.... he/she gave you ANY resources?

is your sister abusing the whole family? how old is she? the level of violence DOES meet the criminal requirement for aggravated assault. AND domestic violence. you CAN call the cops on her, even as a member of your family... if it happens again, document the incident in detail yourself, and consider making a formal report.

I'm guessing here, because I don't know your specific situation.... but I'm gonna start by presuming that everyone is struggling with the sitch.

but it sounds like your family is in turmoil dealing with your mom's illness and your dad might be terrified to act against your sister because he feels he's supposed to protect his children. Guilt stops a lot of parents from taking serious action with their kids, and yet... often the kid who's acting out is really wanting help for themselves, too.... and ignoring the violence can escalate things.

I get the feeling from your post and profile that you are right now the most stable person in your family. YOU are the one seeking help. YOU are the one not making excuses for your sister. YOU are the one who SEES THIS BEHAVIOR IS UNACCEPTABLE!

I think YOU are the hero here. I think it may be up to you to save your family. your anger and frustration are your strength. MAKE THE ADULTS LISTEN. YOU actually HAVE A LOT OF POWER HERE BECAUSE YOU ARE A CHILD. There are federal laws to protect you, AND making a stink is probably the only thing that will get your sister help, which will get your parents help, too.

I suggest this approach:
first, get yourself some professional support, privately, and anonymously.

The National Domestic Violence Hotline: 1-800-799-SAFE (7233) can help you find local resources in your area. they will direct you to a local hotline number. Program that local number into your phone. THEN CALL IT. FOR GUIDANCE, TO VENT, AND TO FIND SOME FREE, one-on-one COUNSELING!

Hotlines are crisis lines, and information lines to learn what is available in your area for your specific needs, what the laws of your state are, etc. all anonymous if you want it to be, though they will ask some info like age, city, etc, as this is how they get their funding by keeping generic data on who they have helped.

Do this for your whole family! You ARE the shero, here. Stand up for yourself, and for your family's right to be happy and healthy. All the stress of constant fighting CAN NOT be good for your mom's MS.... stress might be causing her great harm!

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