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I was talking about this with my close friend... mostly cause we were joking around and penis size came up... I usually rant about that and she asked me if mine was small because of that. I said no and told her how big I am. Mostly got a look and she blushed.
I showed her how big nine inches is (my forearm). Her forearm was about eight. She said... "Holy shit. That's fucking huge. Way too big for me."

I think this is probably reason #1 why most guys don't speak up about penis size and how it can really make a lot of guys feel insecure. As soon as you do that, everyone automatically assumes it's because you're small. There are obviously some cruel women out there (just as there are guys) who know what penis comments can do to a guy and use it as a weapon, but I think the majority of women who comment on penis size or maybe tease a guy about it simply don't know the psychological wounds it can cause.

Every guy knows that you never comment on a woman's weight, and if a guy does, he is immediately scolded. I kind of wish this was the case with penis size because all the stories I read on here about guys who are too insecure to have sex because they are worried about the size of their penis or how how long they can last are kind of heartbreaking.

Starting as of 2/1/11: 6.4 BPEL x 4.8 MSEG (5.6 NBPEL)
Just hoping to put together one full month of actually sticking to a routine and go from there.
My goals mainly revolve around developing high EQ erections that last during sex.

I think this is probably reason #1 why most guys don't speak up about penis size and how it can really make a lot of guys feel insecure. As soon as you do that, everyone automatically assumes it's because you're small. There are obviously some cruel women out there (just as there are guys) who know what penis comments can do to a guy and use it as a weapon, but I think the majority of women who comment on penis size or maybe tease a guy about it simply don't know the psychological wounds it can cause.

Every guy knows that you never comment on a woman's weight, and if a guy does, he is immediately scolded. I kind of wish this was the case with penis size because all the stories I read on here about guys who are too insecure to have sex because they are worried about the size of their penis or how how long they can last are kind of heartbreaking.

She did say, "I thought you had a small dick the way you talk about that. I find it hilarious that you're actually fucking huge. But you don't brag about it, which is weird." Said that today. Oddly enough because I'm dating her friend right now and she knows... well... yeah.

I think this is probably reason #1 why most guys don't speak up about penis size and how it can really make a lot of guys feel insecure. As soon as you do that, everyone automatically assumes it's because you're small. There are obviously some cruel women out there (just as there are guys) who know what penis comments can do to a guy and use it as a weapon, but I think the majority of women who comment on penis size or maybe tease a guy about it simply don't know the psychological wounds it can cause.

Every guy knows that you never comment on a woman's weight, and if a guy does, he is immediately scolded. I kind of wish this was the case with penis size because all the stories I read on here about guys who are too insecure to have sex because they are worried about the size of their penis or how how long they can last are kind of heartbreaking.

I think for the most part the women obviously know the effect it has on the esteem, whether or not they are doing it subconsciously I think is generally more the question. I was talking to my friend Melissa the other day and she said when women say those kind of things(not just about penis'), it's not like men just say something it in the heat of the moment, with women there's more often actually a malicious intent to do real harm. I think it generally arises from the fact that a lot of girls have lower self esteems

I find it hard to believe that any woman on earth doesn't know the effect this has. The fact they routinely get away with it, has resulted in them useing it. The advice to turn the other cheek,take the high road etc, has led us to where we are.

I find it hard to believe that any woman on earth doesn't know the effect this has. The fact they routinely get away with it, has resulted in them useing it. The advice to turn the other cheek,take the high road etc, has led us to where we are.

Agreed. As I mentioned before, if a guy makes a joke about a girl's weight or age, then everyone in the room, guy and girl, will look at him like he's a complete asshole. On the other hand, it seems to be fair game for women to comment openly on penis size. Usually the women have a good laugh and any guys in the room probably nervously smile while feeling really self conscious, and if a guy tries to claim that the comments are wrong then he is probably called "small" and laughed at as well.

I think gender roles might play a part as well. Women are seen as sweet, delicate flowers who should be treated as such while men are supposed to be tough and just let slights against them roll off their back. The fact is though that guys have insecurities and feelings too and penis size and prowess in the bedroom have taken on such a life of their own that these things have become almost central to how much of a "man" you are which is pretty ridiculous. But alas, as you mentioned, that is how we got to where we are.

I respect the women on this forum who give their input and often have to put up with so much crap from us guys. At least they are making an effort to understand things from the male perspective. Unfortunately for most women, their experience on the internet regarding this subject is probably limited to the types of discussion seen on that Cosmo thread where every girl is led to believe that 8-10 inch dicks are common and that your guy is a chump if he doesn't have one.

Starting as of 2/1/11: 6.4 BPEL x 4.8 MSEG (5.6 NBPEL)
Just hoping to put together one full month of actually sticking to a routine and go from there.
My goals mainly revolve around developing high EQ erections that last during sex.

First, This thread is hilarious and funny!
In my own experience I have noted that most women are very poor in estimating size in inches. Do an experiment and tell a lady to point 6 inches on their arm, many deviate with as much as +/- 2 inches i.e. some 6 inches might mean 8 inches and others 4 inches!
That said, I would hardly rely on a woman to tell my my size, I would rather tell her. I had one lady tell me, "Yours is too big it is is going too deep to my stomach!"....and I swear that was Pre-PE and I was a little lower than 6 inches, but hey, she was also very small lady.
My current lady happened to have lost her virginity to a guy more girthy than me (By about 0.5 of an inch based on her estimates), and she swears to me it was always painful. So I once told her to estimate my girth and she pointed at something close to a her 2 fingers closed. Well, it may look ridiculous but that told me that she is also horribly poor in estimating girth too, since am closer to her forearm width at my widest point and she says her ex was also close to that size but a bit larger than me.
With size, I feel it is all about in the woman's psychology, if she thinks it is big, then it is (Regardless if it is merely 5.5 inches), if she believes that it is small (probably 8 inches) then it is small according to her. Do you also know that most women do not even know what they want in real life until they get it and it feels good for them? As a man have confidence and make her feel that you are the best for her and I tell you she will venerate you as a god of love and sex.