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I just got back from court.

Posted by Anonymous

20 Replies

Good afternoon everyone,I am the one who was hurtful to my daughter. I had a heart felt conversation with her telling her that without treatment for bipolar and drug help she can't live here. She was very disgusting to me. She even told me to go suck a dick and some balls when I asked her to go to rehab.

Well,I got right up and went to the family court house. The judge gave me an order of protection and also stated that if my daughter comes here high,with drugss,or harrasses me I need to call the cops and press charges.

I am at my breaking point right now but like that the judge listened to me. I called my daughter to let her know I was in the court house. I can't do much other that tell her how angry I was and how fd up I am. Well,as I sit here and type this there is no anger in me.

I just feel like I might need to save up for a move out of state to relocate by myself. I saved $200 so far and as poor as I am that is great. I thank you all who understood my last post. Thanks for all the comments and the wonderful help.

P.s I told the judge that I feel like we are both a danger to one another living together.

Im so sorry hun for everything you are going through , you are not a bad mom u love your daughter ... Ihope it works out for your daughter , i have bpd i take meds everyday ... I will pray for you both , my thoughts are with you ....

by Anonymous 2
on Feb. 19, 2015 at 9:00 AM

Moving is a good idea and I suggest you change you phone number as to not hear from her. Start making plans and saving up for that move. =)

You absolutely did the right thing. I know it's hard and heartbreaking, but truly, you have to save yourself. I've been in your shoes before and it is awful. My DD is getting evicted from her apt soon and I will not allow her back into my house. Been there, done that.....never again.

by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster
on Feb. 19, 2015 at 10:37 AM

Thanks very much for understanding. Take care.

Quoting Velisity:

Wow. I understand your situation. You have to do what you have to do. I hope it works out and she finds the help she needs.

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