How To Be Seductive

If you aspire to become someone quite desired by women, all you have to learn on how to be a seducer is changing your mind.

Many believe that being a seducer is a matter of learning certain formulas or strategies. They think that they can seduce women just by saying some magic words, when in fact it is more complicated than that.

It all starts with thinking how women think, trying to guess what they want and trying to understand what they feel. And it goes on and on.

If everything is done through words, then writers, poets, orators are sure winners in this aspect. Other people will just be mere spectators if this is the case.

To learn how to be a seducer, you must first understand the logic of seduction, and the logic is that everything has to be illogical and emotional. Less arguments, more lack of control and emotion. Seduction is not understood. It just happens or things should happen by intuition, guided by emotion.

Everything begins with a thought, and this should be the center of all that is governed in seduction. The idea here is to think like a seducer, not to talk as a seducer. You have to internalize the mechanics of seduction and know the nature of attraction.

To begin to be a seducer, I recommend you start to improve your outlook of how you see things, not only with women, but the world in general. To achieve this, I suggest the following:

Stop seeing so many news broadcasts, newspapers and opinions about love and seduction, nor believe the scientists or “experts” who are not really experts in the field of seduction and try to clarify something that you need to understand.

Believe in women only if you have created in her a sexual interest, that is, believe her when she tells you things while you kiss or have sex with her, because that’s where they are sincere and say what really attracts them. If you ask them in any other situation, they may tell you things that they want you to hear. Some of those things may not be true. They may just be avoiding hurting you.

Be guided by your intuition, but also bear in mind that you also have to see how others do it. You may be able to pick up some techniques that you may find useful.

Focus on what you believe in. it is okay to learn something from others, but you also have to have your own way of doing things. Discover your own seductive weapons. They are the greatest secret of how to be a seducer.