I Believe

When you learn how to access your own right best choices, fill yourself with love from your Source and take loving action in your own behalf, you can then share love in a deep and profound way with others. Learning how to love yourself heals shame, inner emptiness and neediness, leading to sharing love rather than trying to control getting love, which creates inner peace, joy, and loving relationships.

Margaret holds a Ph.D. in psychology and is a relationship expert, noted public speaker, workshop leader, educator, chaplain, consultant and artist. She has appeared on many radio and TV shows, including the Oprah show. She has successfully worked with thousands of individuals, couples and business relationships and taught classes and seminars since 1967.

Margaret continues to work with individuals and couples throughout the world -- mostly on the phone. She is able to access spiritual Guidance during her sessions, which enables her to work with people wherever they are in the world. Her current passion is working on and developing content for her Website, as well as distributing SelfQuest®, the computer program that teaches Inner Bonding® and is donated to prisons and schools, as well as sold to the general public.

Margaret is passionate about helping people rapidly heal the root cause of their pain and learn the path to joy and loving relationships.

In her spare time, Margaret loves to paint, make pottery, take photos, watch birds, read, ride horses, and spend time with her grandchildren.

Margaret Paul Success Stories

Gratitude for our Inner Bonding® Membership Community

Women seeking spiritual guidance

We provide a compassionate and supportive community to learn how to heal yourself and your relationships. Here are some of the recent comments from members about our Professional Advice section and other aspects of the member site:more

"I just want to thank all of you who answer our questions so regularly, promptly and lovingly. Not once has a question of mine not been answered and often quickly. It's been a very important component in my healing. To have this kind of access to specific questions was a great idea. It's probably also a huge commitment on your end, but please know the impact it is having on at least this life. Thank you for being available and understanding the importance of it."

"We are SO lucky and fortunate to have this kind of support. I doubt if we could find it anywhere else!"

"Yes, thanks to Margaret, Cindy and Merry (Inner Bonding Facilitators who answer questions) and for all of us who ask the questions too! It is such a blessing to be able to learn from each other and gain a perspective that we might not have entertained if the question had not been asked and answered. Many blessings to our community! We are all teachers!"

"I agree as well, it's great to know there is ALWAYS a friend close by, to lean on, vent & share.. Blessings!! xoxo"

"I, too must echo my appreciation, for the timely support, caring, insights and coaching in your advice column! Very much a part of my healing, having a place to turn to that is always available and loving!"

"I can't even begin to say how much I have been helped here at Inner Bonding! The love and caring is amazing. You three are always here for us and the love, appreciation and gratitude that is felt by me is huge!"

"Thanks all my Inner Bonding family! This the best thing that has ever happened to me. I have always told my friends who would dump on me in times past that life is a learning lesson and it will even itself out....I really believed that and waited sometimes impatiently but can say now....this is my time in my life and I am loving the journey!!! Each time I hurt and just don't know what to do the way is made so clear to me....thank you Inner Bonding for showing me how!!"

"I just love Inner Bonding. The image that is coming to mind, are eyeglasses smeared with vaseline. As I learn to love myself, the glasses get cleaner, and cleaner,and it is like I see something for the first time and say "Oh Wow! I SEE it now!" (Amazing grace, how sweet the sound...I once was blind, but now I see.)"