The OH and I use to talk about me and another guy getting it on. But for some reason she lost most interest in sex she says it hurts to bad and im not endowed at all. short and skinny would best describe the little guy. We had a great sex life till menopause hit now its gone.

Does nothing for me,.I am not sure it has something to with walking in on a friend and his bf when I was very drunk, I actually asked them what they were doing and asked for a diagram...every time I see m & m action I cringe....

I'd suggest that some people maybe try to be more mindful that there's a difference between not being aroused by m/m sex, and being vocal about how you 'don't like the idea' or how it makes you 'cringe', as the latter is pretty offensive.