I was 14½ when I had sex for the first time (with my 18yo boyfriend). It wasn't consensual but nor was it forced. I had decided that if he asked, I would say "no". He was gentle but just didn't ask. I froze up and was basically a puppet.

After that it was expected to continue, so those future encounters were consensual.

I am female, and him male. I do believe it was very wrong but that he was misguided not malicious.

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When I was 18, my boyfriend (28) discovered that I had missed out on a real first time, so decided to give me one. It was really special and a moment that I treasure. FTR it wasn't our first time together, but I was able to give myself into the part and felt all the feelings that I would expect for a proper consensual first time.

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