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Having sex really often! We had sex at least every other day when I was trying to concieve. Decided to put it off for a few months, but I was already preggo. Ended up with a girl though, I heard if you're trying for a boy, it helps to only have sex every 4-5 days :P

When my husband and I were trying to conceive our daughter, we had sex every single day. Sometimes 2 or 3 times a day. After having sex, I'd shove a pillow under my hips and lay there with my legs straight up in the air for about 30 minutes. I didn't want any to fall out. lol. You should avoid going to the bathroom right after sex too. And just relaxing and enjoying it! It was more difficult for us to conceive whenever we were constantly thinking about getting pregnant.. but when we finally just decided whatever happens, happens. If I get pregnant, I get pregnant and we got pregnant! I think just letting lose and nothing worrying about it makes it a lot easier.

Whenever I tried to concieve, and I was really into , and thinking about every possible symptom I was having, I never got pregnant. We always got pregnant when we really enjoyed the sex, and never really thought about it. We just figured if it happened, it did. When i was waiting around for period, everrry singleee month, it dragged onnn! So, i quit doing that, and left it alone. Good luck!