Every Black Mom Is Worried About Diversity In Schools, & You Need To Understand Why

Every year of high school, I had a different group of friends. As a freshman, most of my friends were well-liked and white. As a sophomore, most of the girls I clung to were Latina. By junior year, I had a group of friends for each class of the day. By my senior year, I fell into a group of mostly white friends that would remain my group of friends all the way through my freshman year of college. Aside from one other black girl, I was the token. I was the resource for all things black culture. It felt like an interview on loop. Why are black girls so mean? Why do you guys wear weaves? Why can’t you just grow your hair? When I wasn’t being drowned in questions, I was left feeling like the butt of the black jokes or incredibly insensitive comments like I get as dark as you in the summer or oh no she di'n’t (with the even more inappropriate neck roll and finger snap to underline the point). While I was in it, I remember feeling sad and annoyed but I never felt like I could speak up. I was the token after all — there to fulfill the black girl role in the friend group like Dionne Davenport; obviously different from the friends around me but a special kind of black girl, unlike the rest. Now as a mother to a black boy entering the school system for the first time, I look back on those times where diversity felt elusive and I worry about my own child's access to a diverse education.

Courtesy of Latifah Miles

Diversity is one of those topics under the race umbrella that many feel as though we finally have under control. There is a diversity department in almost every school or job, there are laws to help drive diversity, and at this point the sound of the word itself feels like a dull stabbing in the side of your ear, like, OK OK, we get it already. Because it feels like a problem that has been checked off of the to-do list of society, I find that many parents that I talk to don’t even think about it. It’s one of those it’ll work itself out kinds of things. However, diversity within our school systems is more important now that it has been in the last several decades.

He is robbed of seeing himself in his peers in an academic setting instead of just seeing himself in Trayvon Martin and Tamir Rice.

Diversity within my son’s kindergarten classroom is not an afterthought for me. It is a priority right along with security and qualified staff. When my son is robbed of a diverse classroom, he is robbed of the experience of knowing and interacting with people of other cultures. He is robbed of seeing himself in his peers in an academic setting instead of just seeing himself in Trayvon Martin and Tamir Rice. He is robbed of seeing his face in the faces of the educators that are leading him, molding him, and guiding him. That is not a robbery my son can afford growing up as a black boy in America.

This will have various effects — on his soul and on his performance.

The so-called "achievement gap" between black and white students persists across schools with a high density of black students and those with a low density, per research by the American Research Institute, but overall student achievement is lower in schools with a high density of black students. And when you control for socioeconomic factors, the achievement gap is worse in high-density schools. Further, looking at the effect along gender lines, white males are virtually unaffected by the density of black students, and females see a much smaller effect, but black males are greatly disadvantaged by the system.

But minorities are still capable of wielding power over a majority, and demographic change is not enough to help our kids.

Diversity among school staff is an ongoing source of worry. Teachers of color are incredibly important and offer students a sense of familiarity, someone to look up to, and comfort. Researchers have found that lower-performing students show improvement when they are taught by educators of their same race, per a study published in Economics of Education Review. But the NCES reported that in 2011-2012, 80 percent of teachers identified as white, which puts black students at a steep disadvantage. Thinking back to my high-school experience, I couldn’t name five black teachers.

Courtesy of Latifah Miles

As a country, we are not in a place where we can scoff at the topic of diversity as being overdrawn and handled. I look forward to a time when that is the case and my grandkids can hopefully enroll into kindergarten with the confidence that some of their teachers and friends will look like them.

For now, diversity is still hot on my brain and a worry that, unlike many white parents, I will carry around with me. I never want my son to be the token black kid like I was or be afraid to speak up out of fear of being ostracized. Until I don’t have to, I will continue to worry about my son’s access to a diverse educational experience.