But sometimes I wanna know what the ladies have to say & then if I respond does that make me less of a man? I just feel a little out of place, like being in the girls bathroom or something. Please tell me that men are welcome to share the occassional view point. Please...

Sure you're welcome to share an occasional view, but make it a point to turn it into a personal agenda. BTW- Don't forget to put the toilet seat back in the down position when you leave either. ( Or you'll have to be punished )