Ask Dr. Ava: Sexually Detached Boyfriend

Question: My boyfriend and I have been together for three and a half years and we used to have sex all the time. But recently, he’s been acting really weird. For the past few months, he’s been saying “no” to sex right before we’d have it. For instance, we’d start kissing and touching… and it’d go on for 20 minutes or so… up to the point where both of our pants are down and we’re obviously “ready.” Then, right before we begin penetration, he’ll say, “No, wait. I can’t. I don’t want to.” Again, he’s quite obviously ready for sex. And this leads me to believe that he’s absolutely insane. What does he mean he doesn’t want to? I can see with my eyes and feel that he wants to. Sometimes he’ll finish himself off, and other times he just lets it go. And he doesn’t want to talk about it. What do you think is the matter?

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