for me in this new chapter of my life, I ain't settling. I believe most stay for any one of several reasons. Here are some of them:
it's more difficult to leave than stay
fear of the unknown
don't want to be alone
at least they know what they've got w/ this partner
thinking they need to stay together for "the kids"
unwilling or fearful of taking risks by leaving
and some people are aren't even aware of the situation as it is
this isn't an all inclusive list, just some examples.

We seem to be hearing more of these stories and they make us wonder why some couples stay together??? Sex cannot be enough to found a whole relationship. At least not in our book.

What say YOU?

My ex bf was CRAZY in bed, and I mean, we would do everything, kink, hardcore, soft, etc. He was the only one I've ever been 100% comfortable with. (Even more that my husband, but we ARE newlyweds). And our outside relationship was a TRAIN WRECK. All we did was fight, and they were BADDDDD fights. I stayed with that turd for 12 yrs, and I have to say, it was definately for the sex. I was a size queen and he had a 9.5 incher. I LOVE MY HUSBAND DEARLY, but damn, that was some GOOOOOODDDDD sex!!!