Sorry, But This is Why You Can’t Be Friends with Your Ex

Ask yourself: Why do you really want to stay pals with your ex?

This morning, I ate two for breakfast. I have had a terrible stomachache since then.

You may ask why I eat them, even when I know they will make me sick.

The answer is simple: I love them.

This is the same reason why we get into trouble and do things we know are bad for us. In other words, this is why we befriend or try to befriend our exes when we know we shouldn’t.

If you are reading this, shaking your fist, and saying: “I am friends with my ex, dummy!” Then this article is clearly not for you.

According to a 2004 NBC.com poll, 48 percent of people surveyed said they stayed friends with their ex after a breakup, while 18 percent said they tried to, but it didn’t work out.

I’m speaking to the 18 percent of you (myself included) who have tried, but failed to stay friends with a former flame.

First a disclaimer: I’m not saying you can’t be friends with any exes. Some people are perfectly capable of being chums with their past loves, particularly if their break-ups were mutual, the relationship was more platonic than passionate, or if they jointly outgrew each other. In fact, I am friendly with a couple exes, but it is because they fit into one of the above categories.

Those exes that I cannot be friends with are the ones who broke my heart. And too often, they are the only exes that I actually want to be friends with.

“Why would you even want to be friends with those people?”

Please refer to the Reese’s peanut butter cup statement from earlier.

Love is the reason we try so desperately to remain in their lives, yet, it is exactly the same reason we should not.

According to a recent YourTango.com poll, 71 percent of people surveyed admitted that they thought about their ex “too much” – and more than 57 percent of singles said that “thinking about their ex prevents them from finding new love.”

Obviously, right? If you’re still hung up on your past, it’s going to be difficult to move on to your future, especially when the person you’re hung up on is still a regular fixture in your life.

In “Celeste and Jesse Forever,” the title characters Celeste and Jesse explore the notion of friendship after a breakup. After growing up together and eventually falling in love and getting married, Celeste and Jesse decide to separate and file for divorce. However, instead of going their separate ways, the two continue to live, hang out, and spend all their time together, which prevents either from truly moving on.

Yet, each remains friends with the other for different reasons. Celeste is comfortable with Jesse and still enjoys all the benefits of his companionship, whereas Jesse believes that Celeste will eventually come back around.

For a while, it seems the pair are genuine pals – until one fateful night, when they start building IKEA furniture together, get drunk, and hook up.

Intentions are muddled. Feelings are hurt, and the couple finally comes to terms with the fact that their “friendship” is in fact, a complete fantasy.

While watching this film, I couldn’t help but relate to Jesse’s character. I too once had a similar experience, where I thought that the other person would eventually come around – if I had just waited long enough. Years passed and the guise of “just friends” became more and more difficult to muster, especially since he continued to date other people, while I pretended not to care and only tried to focus on looking as amazing as possible for the next time we would platonically see each other.

No amount of weight loss, makeup, or new wardrobe was able to revert his feelings for me. After all, we were just friends now, and he had moved on.

But where was I? I was in pain. You might say, the equivalent of eating a 1000 Reese’s peanut butter cups.

But then I had an epiphany. At last, I admitted that I didn’t actually want to be “friends” with these exes – I just didn’t want to lose them. A part of me believed that we could still be in each other’s lives, in some capacity – big or small. And if we stayed "friends" long enough, we'd eventually get back together. Everything would go back to the way things were, which is precisely why I tolerated those miserable stomachaches.

Now is the part where I tell you that I don’t know what’s going to happen in your future. Perhaps, you will get back together with your ex, after all. Amazingly, my third-grade boyfriend and I ended up rekindling our romance our first year of college. (Though it still didn’t work out the second time around either...)

But the real question is: How long will you wait to find out? How many more stomachaches will you endure for someone who has already hurt you so much?

Would it be best then that the person who has fallen out of love push away the one who clearly still has feelings regardless of their desire to stay 'friends' or would it be best to let them outgrow the broken relationship at their own pace?

I am surprised any of you guys could get through this article. It is full of spelling mistakes, I really wanted to read it and then realized that its content is probably not accurate with all the mistakes!

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My wife ran away from me from her hair appointment and called me several hours later and 150 miles away and said she's never coming back. I literally found her lost in the woods 20 years ago and we got along so well. We talked a lot but would never yell and scream at each other. We just got along and as much as I may still love her in a true sense, she broke my heart so bad that the ambulance took me away and I spent a night in the hospital. It was so wrenching that I had a seizure and later couldn't walk. The whole thing was so unexpected exept for one thing. Her first x was stalking her and through a used phone and their mutual interest in church and grandkids the nut (sociopath) was able to bring her back to himself.
She wants to call me up and say "Hi, sweetheart" and talk like it is no big deal. To me it is a very big deal and I have simply decided on a strict cut off with no communication. She changed her name back to her maiden name after two weeks and sent me two condescending emails to which I did not relply but simply deleted. That's how I will remove her from my mind. Protecting myself plus refusing to be humiliated by her and her x husband Steve.
Cut him/her off.

Or get a large BBQ. Why would you want to do that to yourself? My x thought she was funny calling me up and saying stupid things like, "How's your new girlfriend?" Stupid stuff like that caused me to say BYE! She only called about 6 times before she got the message.
Originally she told me on the phone that she was going to call me every month to check up on me. Check up on yourself you dumb ass beach! Ghost me and you are not!

Or get a large BBQ. Why would you want to do that to yourself? My x thought she was funny calling me up and saying stupid things like, "How's your new girlfriend?" Stupid stuff like that caused me to say BYE! She only called about 6 times before she got the message.
Originally she told me on the phone that she was going to call me every month to check up on me. Check up on yourself you dumb ass beach! Ghost me and you are not!

Or get a large BBQ. Why would you want to do that to yourself? My x thought she was funny calling me up and saying stupid things like, "How's your new girlfriend?" Stupid stuff like that caused me to say BYE! She only called about 6 times before she got the message.
Originally she told me on the phone that she was going to call me every month to check up on me. Check up on yourself you dumb ass beach! Ghost me and you are not!

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I really enjoyed your article. When you were comparing your situation to the candy, what came to my mind was that sometimes, the things we love are just not good for us. For example, some people love their Jose Cuervo, and they know its bad for them so they stay away because they know no matter how good Jose taste, and how good Jose makes them feel, sometimes the things we love or loved arent good for us.

I really enjoyed your article. When you were comparing your situation to the candy, what came to my mind was that sometimes, the things we love are just not good for us. For example, some people love their Jose Cuervo, and they know its bad for them so they stay away because they know no matter how good Jose taste, and how good Jose makes them feel, sometimes the things we love or loved arent good for us.

I really enjoyed your article. When you were comparing your situation to the candy, what came to my mind was that sometimes, the things we love are just not good for us. For example, some people love their wine, and they know its bad for them so they stay away because they know no matter how good wine taste, and how good wine makes them feel, sometimes the things we love or loved arent good for us.

I find I tend to think about ex's only until I meet someone new. Soon as I meet someone new and fall for them the last ex is moved out of my mind. The old saying, "If you fall off the horse just get back on" really is true, at least in my case. Also, I only tend to think about ex's (plural) when I'm not in a relationship. As soon as I'm in a relationship again they all disappear from my mind. Its kind of freaky really. Its like a mind erase or something. LOL.

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My Name is Dan Anelos ..I never believed in Love Spells or Magics until I met this special spell caster when i contact this man called prophet viky of victorylifelovespelltemple@gmail.com Execute some business..He is really powerful..My wife divorce me with no reason for almost 4 years and i tried all i could to have her back cos i really love her so much but all my effort did not work out.. we met at our early age at the college and we both have feelings for each other and we got married happily for 5 years with no kid and she woke up one morning and she told me she’s going on a divorce..i thought it was a joke and when she came back from work she tender to me a divorce letter and she packed all her loads from my house..i ran mad and i tried all i could to have her back but all did not work out..i was lonely for almost 4 years…So when i told the spell caster what happened he said he will help me and he asked for her full name and her picture..i gave him that..At first i was skeptical but i gave it a try cos have tried so many spell casters and there is no solution…so when he finished with the readings,he got back to me that she’s with a man and that man is the reason why she left me…The spell caster said he will help me with a spell that will surely bring her back.but i never believe all this…he told me i will see a positive result within 3 days..3 days later,she called me herself and came to me apologizing and she told me she will come back to me..I cant believe this,it was like a dream cos i never believe this will work out after trying many spell casters and there is no solution..The spell caster is so powerful and after that he helped me with a pregnancy spell and my wife got pregnant a month later..we are now happy been together again and with lovely kid..This spell caster has really changed my life and i will forever thankful to him..he has helped many friends too with similar problem too and they are happy and thankful to him..This man is indeed the most powerful spell caster have ever experienced in life..Am Posting this to the Forum in case there is anyone who has similar problem and still looking for a way out..you can reach him here: victorylifelovespelltemple@gmail.com... CONTACT THIS GREAT AND POWERFUL SPELL CASTER CALLED prophet viky ... HIS EMAIL ADDRES IS :victorylifelovespelltemple@gmail.com... CONTACT HIM NOW AND BE FAST ABOUT IT SO HE CAN ALSO ATTEND TO YOU BECAUSE THE EARLIER YOU CONTACT HIM NOW THE BETTER FOR YOU TO GET QUICK SOLUTION TO ALL YOUR PROBLEMS...

my Names is Daniel brown ,AM from Canada .i never believed in love spells or magic until i met this spell caster once when i went to Africa in June last year on a business summit i ment a man called Prophet Lord, is powerful he could help you cast a spells to bring back my loves gone misbehaving lover looking for some one to love you bring back lost money and magic money spell or spell for a good job i m now happy & a living testimony cos the man i had wanted to marry left me 4weeks before our wedding and my life was upside down cos our relationship has been on for 3 year i really loved him, but his mother was against me and he had no good paying job so when i met this spell caster, i told him what happened and explained the situation of things to him at first i was undecided,skeptical and doubtful, but i just gave it a try and in 6 days when i returned to Vancouver my boyfriend (is now my husband ) he called me by himself and came to me apologizing that everything had been settled with his mom and family and he got a new job interview so we should get married i didn't believe it cos the spell caster only asked for my name and my boyfriends name and all i wanted him to do well we are happily married now and we are expecting our little kid and my husband also got a new job and our lives became much better in case anyone needs the spell caster for some help his email address: solutionoflovespelltemple@gmail.com

My Name is smith wood.I will love to share my testimony to all the people in the forum cos i never thought i will have my girlfriend back and she means so much to me..The girl i want to get marry to left me 4 weeks to our weeding for another man..,When i called her she never picked my calls,She deleted me on her Facebook and she changed her Facebook status from married to Single...when i went to her place of work she told her boss she never want to see me..i lost my job as a result of this cos i cant get myself anymore,my life was upside down and everything did not go smooth with my life...I tried all i could do to have her back to all did not work out until i met a Man when i Travel to Africa to execute some business have been developing some years back..I told him my problem and all have passed through in getting her back and how i lost my job...he told me he gonna help me...i don't believe that in the first place.but he swore he will help me out and he told me the reason why my girlfriend left me and also told me some hidden secrets.i was amazed when i heard that from him..he said he will cast a spell for me and i will see the results in the next couple of days..then i travel back to US the following day and i called him when i got home and he said he's busy casting those spells and he has bought all the materials needed for the spells,he said am gonna see positive results in the next 2 days that is Thursday...My girlfriend called me at exactly 12:35pm on Thursday and apologies for all she had done ..she said,she never knew what she's doing and her sudden behavior was not intentional and she promised not to do that again.it was like am dreaming when i heard that from her and when we ended the call,i called the man and told him my wife called and he said i haven't seen anything yet... he said i will also get my job back in 2 days time..and when its Sunday,they called me at my place of work that i should resume working on Monday and they gonna compensate me for the time limit have spent at home without working..My life is back into shape,i have my girlfriend back and we are happily married now with kids and i have my job back too,This man is really powerful..if we have up to 20 people like him in the world,the world would have been a better place..he has also helped many of my friends to solve many problems and they are all happy now..Am posting this to the forum for anybody that is interested in meeting the man for help.you can mail him on this e-mail; omonuaospelltemple@gmail.com i cant give out his number cos he told me he don't want to be disturbed by many people across the world..he said his email is okay and he' will replied to any emails asap..hope he helped u out too..good luck his email;omonuaospelltemple@gmail.com

i am Mrs mercy i am hear to give testimony of how i got back my husband, we got married for more than 2 years and have gotten two kids. thing were going well with us and we are always happy. until one day my husband started to behave in a way i could not understand, i was very confused by the way he treat me and the kids. later that month he did not come again and he called me that he want a divorce, I asked him what have i done wrong to deserve this from him, all he was saying that he want a divorce and that he hates me and do not want to see me again in his life, i was mad and also frustrated do not know what to do,i was sick for more than 2 weeks because of the divorce. i love him so much he was everything to me without him my life is incomplete. i told my sister and she told me to contact a spell caster, i never believe in all this spell casting of a thing. i just
want to try if something will come out of it. I contacted DR. joy for the return of my husband to me, they told me that my husband have been taken by another woman that she cast a spell on him that is why he hates me and also want us to divorce. then they told me that they have to cast a spell on him that will make him return to me and the kids, they cast the spell and after 3 days my husband called me
and he told me that i should forgive him, he settled to apologize on phone and said that he still love me that he did not know what happen to him that he left me. it was the spell that the Dr joy shrine casted on him that made him comeback to me today,me and my family are now happy again today. thank you DR. joy for what you have done for me i would have been nothing today if not for your great spell. i want
you my friends who are passing through this kind of love problem of getting back their husband, wife , or ex boyfriend and girlfriend to contact :omoyespelltemple@gmail.com and you will see that your problem will be solved.

I was crushed when my lover of three years left to be with another woman. I cried and sobbed every day, until it got so bad that I reached out to the Internet for help.And i saw a testimony of a spell caster who help a girl called michelle and i said let me give it a try so i contact him for help and he cast a love spell for me which i use in getting my love back and now i am a happy woman.For what you have done for me,i will not stop to share your goodness to people out there for the good work you are doing.I hope God blesses you as much as you have help me to get my Love back,visit him on oriomonspiritualtemple@yahoo.com is the only answer to your problemS
EMILIANO BABARAH_USA

I want to testify of what a spell caster did for me and my hubby.we have been married since 2007 without a sign of pregnancy.I went off birth control then and did not have a period.my gyro gave me progesterone to jump-start a period and it did.,but i did not have another one.we did another round of progesterone followed by 100mg clomid for 5 months,we followed all doctors instructions but all to no avail.I have been buying ovulation kits pregnancy test AND i finally got 3 test when i was ovulating! So ever since that we been trying for years now! Well i was very confused because i keep taking ept test AND they all keep turning out to b negative! I really want a baby girl while my hubby want a baby boy LOLL! I think maybe we are just trying So hard, What i can tell you is that its been so many years now and i still yet do not have my period??nobody to help because every body around us was already at the verge of losing their faith on us.no were to run to until one faithful day i was reading a magazine and i stumble on a page were i found topic or a head line {A SPELL CASTER} who can heal someone from HIV AND AIDS,bring back your EX,enlarge your BREAST,help you win a VISA LOTTERY,losing your WEIGHT and even get six PACKS AND flatten your BELLY,I gave her a try and before i could no it Mama Isiabel rescued me from my problem by casting a spell for me and told me to go and make love with my hubby,then i did,and after nine months i delivered a twins A BOY AND A GIRL. after all this , i said to my self that i wont just testify on line, but make the whole world see and hear of her.This spell caster name is Mama Isiabel. so many people have witness her wonderful work..She is nice, contact he on:mama4africanspell@gmail.com if you are in any predicament email her immediately without doubts•Thanks so very much!!

Hello i am john Caparas,I am out here to spreed this good news to the entire world on how i got my ex love back.I was going crazy when my love left me for another girl last month,But when i meet a friend that introduce me to Dr vovla the great messenger to the oracle that he serve,I narrated my problem to Dr vovola about how my ex love left me and also how i needed to get a job in a very big company.He only said to me that i have come to the right place were i will be getting my heart desire without any side effect.He told me what i need to do,After it was been done,In the next 2 days,My love called me on the phone and was saying sorry for living me before now and also in the next one week after my love called me to be pleading for forgiveness,I was called for interview in my desired company were i needed to work as the managing director..I am so happy and overwhelmed that i have to tell this to the entire world to contact Dr vovola at the following email address: drvovolaspellcaster@outlook.com and get all your problem solve..No problem is too big for him to solve..Contact him direct on: drvovolaspellcaster@outlook.com . and get your problems solve like me..

I am Mrs joy blessing from USA, i want to share a testimony of my life to every one. i was married to my husband john smith, i love him so much we have been married for 5 years now with two kids. when he went for a vacation to France he meant a lady called Maryś, he told me that he is no longer interested in the marriage any more. i was so confuse and seeking for help, i don't know what to do until I met my friend miss Lina and told her about my problem. she told me not to worry about it that she had a similar problem before and introduce me to a man called Mrs joy who cast a spell on her ex and bring him back to her after 2days. Miss Lina ask me to contact Mrs joy. I contacted him to help me bring back my husband and he ask me not to worry about it that the gods of his fore-fathers will fight for me. He told me by two days he will re-unite me and my husband together. After two day my husband called and told me he is coming back to sought out things with me, I was surprise when I saw him and he started crying for forgiveness. Right now I am the happiest woman on earth for what this great spell caster did for me and my husband, you can contact Mrs joy on any problem in this world, he is very nice man, here is his contact drodumoduspellcaster@gmail.com. He is the best spell caster on the internet so far

Hello friends,my name is EMILIO i want to give thanks to the great Dr lala who helped me allot in getting back my love and also helped me in my financial problem.i was in relationship with ANTONIA both of us lived together in love and in happiness, suddenly she just work up one morning telling me that she is sick and tired of me i was so shocked and confused cause i never did anything wrong to her still i had to plead to her because i love her so much, but she still insisted to breakup with me, i tried all i could to get her back but it was not possible, after she left i was some how financially down i did not know what happened to my finance, so i decided to contact some spell casters which happens to be scams, i was frustrated then decided not to contact any spell caster again, one day i was watching a show when i saw a woman named TINA was giving testimony on how this great man named Dr lala helped her in getting back her lover within 24 hours so that was how i decided to give a try and i contacted Dr lala and told him about how she left me and my finance,the only thing he said was that i my lover will come back to me and my finance will come up again, that he is going to do all within 24 hours, so just decided to watch and see. in the next 24 hours which he said i got a call from her and she was pleading to me that she is very sorry for what she did to me, the most surprising thing was that the job i applied for in a company for almost 4 months, they just called and told me that i should come and start the work that am capable of doing the job, i was so surprised a tears of joy rolled down from my eyes,i was very very happy and she just came to my house and she started pleading to me, so i accepted her apology and now we are living happily together now, and am working in the company now am happy again. all thanks to Dr lala for helping me and for making my dream to come through. for help and for appreciation you can contact Dr lala through his email, lalapumena@gmail.com or cel phone +2348158270343

I was crushed when my lover of two years left to be with another man to me i felt the world has come to an end. it got so bad that i have to reached out to the Internet for help.and i saw a testimony of a spell caster know as Dr Obom who help a girl called Michelle and i said let me give it a try maybe he can bring back my woman so i contact him for help and he cast a love spell for me which brought back my lover and now i am a happy man because of what you have done for me,i will not stop to share your goodness to people out there for the good work you are doing. keep it up pls there are still people out who need your help doc, reach him now on homeofsolutions1@gmail.com or call +2347053319835 for he is the only answer to your problems

My name is patrick stella, I have been through hell and pain,looking for a good and real spell caster who can help me get my husband back.I have been scammed so many times,by some who claimed to be real spell casters.until i found the real and great spell caster (DR.cuba) who helped me,and solved all my problems concerning my husband who left me since eight months ago.and after that i also took my friend along,who was also having the same problem concerning her husband,who left her since five months ago,and the problem was also solved by the same DR.cuba. Cant you see! the real and great spell caster is here,all you need to do now is to contact him when ever you are in any problem related to spell casting.It took me a very long period of time,before i could get this real and great spell caster.So right now is here,and the best for you to solve your problems all thanks goes to drcubatemple@gmail.com.......

I want to thank and appriciate Mrs joy for restoring back my marriage.My suddenly happened this week! My husband and I had been seeing each other over the past few weeks. He texted me on Monday to tell me he was at a crossroads and was thinking about giving notice at his apartment to move out. He said he would lose his rent deposit by leaving early but it was worth it. He felt life together would be better this time. He asked me what I thought after Mrs joy spell. I told him that I had always said the door was open and this was his home. Two days later he was bringing belongings over and has been staying ever since! The Mrs joy has transformed both of our hearts. I am trusting the Mrs joy timing in all of this and so very thankful for His spell work and grace! All the glory goes to Him! I have never been happier! Mrs joy did a great thing in my life and i will always thanks him any day any time please contact him and see what a wonderful spell caster email him via drodumoduspellcaster@gmail.com or call him +2348144812002”from (Canada)

I want to thank and appriciate Mrs joy for restoring back my marriage.My suddenly happened this week! My husband and I had been seeing each other over the past few weeks. He texted me on Monday to tell me he was at a crossroads and was thinking about giving notice at his apartment to move out. He said he would lose his rent deposit by leaving early but it was worth it. He felt life together would be better this time. He asked me what I thought after Mrs joy spell. I told him that I had always said the door was open and this was his home. Two days later he was bringing belongings over and has been staying ever since! The Mrs joy has transformed both of our hearts. I am trusting the Mrs joy timing in all of this and so very thankful for His spell work and grace! All the glory goes to Him! I have never been happier! Mrs joy did a great thing in my life and i will always thanks him any day any time please contact him and see what a wonderful spell caster email him via drodumoduspellcaster@gmail.com or call him +2348144812002”from (Canada)

I want to thank and appriciate Mrs joy for restoring back my marriage.My suddenly happened this week! My husband and I had been seeing each other over the past few weeks. He texted me on Monday to tell me he was at a crossroads and was thinking about giving notice at his apartment to move out. He said he would lose his rent deposit by leaving early but it was worth it. He felt life together would be better this time. He asked me what I thought after Mrs joy spell. I told him that I had always said the door was open and this was his home. Two days later he was bringing belongings over and has been staying ever since! The Mrs joy has transformed both of our hearts. I am trusting the Mrs joy timing in all of this and so very thankful for His spell work and grace! All the glory goes to Him! I have never been happier! Mrs joy did a great thing in my life and i will always thanks him any day any time please contact him and see what a wonderful spell caster email him via drodumoduspellcaster@gmail.com or call him +2348144812002”from (Canada)

I am surprised any of you guys could get through this article. It is full of spelling mistakes, I really wanted to read it and then realized that its content is probably not accurate with all the mistakes!

I disagree with this article. The thing is: unless someone has been abusive, mean, cheated, or actually lied to you, nobody "breaks" anyone's heart. We're all responsible for our own hearts. I've been heartbroken lots of times, and it hurts like nothing else, but I always come around to the fact that my ex- didn't "do" anything to me except not feel the same way I did. That's not a crime. I'm lucky in that most of the guys I've dated who I've then broken up with have not been mean, nasty, liars, cheaters or abusive. One of them was, and you're right, I would never want to be friends with him. But I'm friends with two men who I was heartbroken about after our relationships ended. One of them has become a really good friend and my lovestruck feelings about him have faded. The other one, I still have loving feelings for, so I do keep my distance to a certain extent. But we're definitely still friends.

Admittedly, it takes time and you doing your own emotional work before you can become real friends with someone who "broke your heart". And I think it's really necessary to acknowledge that both people have contributed to the dynamic that ended in pain, not just one.

I want to remain friends with my exes because I enjoy their company, and I still like the things about them that I liked about them when we dated. Why give up potential friends - especially friends who know you far better than other friends who have always been platonic - because there was once pain between you? Barring an ex- being an abuser, a liar, or a cheater, I will always at least attempt to remain friends with exes.

My name is Sharon Johnson and i want to testify of the good work done by a faithful Dr uko a spell caster. in my life i never thought there is such thing as spiritual intercession. my problem started nine months back when the father of my kids started putting up some strange behavior, i never knew he was having an affair outside our matrimonial home. it dawn on me on that faithful day 19th of April 21st 4:23pm when he came to the house to pick his things that was when i knew that situation has gotten out of hand and he then told me he was quitting the marriage which i have built for over five years, i was confused and dumbfounded i called on family and friends but to no avail. two months after i started having problem with my kids welfare rent-age and all of it, i really went through hell. until a day i was browsing on the internet and i happen to meet a spell caster i never believed on this but i needed my man back so i gave the spell caster my problem at first i never trusted him so i was just doing it but you know a problem shared is half solved after a week my husband called me telling me that he his coming back home and that was all. now we are living happily and i still do contact him on this email:ukospelltemple@yahoo.com

i am giving this testimony cos l am happy My name is mrs. Lara Mark from Houston,taxes.i never believed in love spells or magic until i met this spell caster once. when i went to Africa in December this year on a business summit. i ment a man called dr. UKOSE.He is powerful he could help you cast a spells to bring back my love’s gone,misbehaving lover looking for some one to love you, bring back lost money and magic money spell or spell for a good job.i’m now happy & a living testimony cos the man i had wanted to marry left me 3 weeks before our wedding and my life was upside down cos our relationship has been on for 2 years… i really loved him, but his mother was against me and he had no good paying job. so when i met this spell caster, i told him what happened and explained the situation of things to him..at first i was undecided,skeptical and doubtful, but i just gave it a try. and in 6 days when i returned to taxes, my boyfriend (is now my husband ) he called me by himself and came to me apologizing that everything had been settled with his mom and family and he got a new job interview so we should get married..i didn’t believe it cos the spell caster only asked for my name and my boyfriends name and all i wanted him to do… well we are happily married now and we are expecting our little kid,and my husband also got a new job and our lives became much better. in case anyone needs the spell caster for some help, email address ukosespelltemple@yahoo.com Great UKOSE i thank you very much thank you in 1000000 times.. if not you i would have been losted and wasted thank you. please make sure you contact him for any financial difficulties okay.. What a powerful man such as DrUKOSE.. he is so much powerful..\\ email him for any difficulties.. ukosespelltemple@yahoo.com

Thank you for writing the article on being just friends. It was well thought out and true to the situation. It is difficult to lose a loved one, probably the most difficult loss in our adult lives. I've written a couple of blogs on the topic at www.aspencenter.org . This article is a great resource for many who are going through this loss.