2012 Hero: The Toronto Marlies

Torontoist is ending the year by naming our Heroes and Villains: the very best and very worst people, places, things, and ideas that have had an influence on the city over the past 12 months. From December 10 to 19, we’ll unveil the nominees, grouped by category. Vote for your favourites from each batch, every single day! On December 19 and 20 the winners from each category go head-to-head in the final round of voting, and on December 21, we will reveal your choices for Toronto’s Superhero and Supervillain of the year.

That was unfortunately by no means an exhaustive list of homophobic events in sports over the last year. We could have kept going—and going and going—because professional and collegiate sports are the last places in society where blatant homophobia is still tolerated or even encouraged. When a player gets caught using a slur, they’re fined or punished, most of the time at a level that is at best a slap on the wrist, because pro sports has a culture of homophobia that, while changing, still has a long way to go before we reach anything like true acceptance of a diversity of sexual orientations.

This is why the Toronto Marlies this year need to be celebrated for doing their part to make a difference. Merely punishing those who utter slurs or attack gay people isn’t enough: it’s the Band-Aid method of dealing with the problem. What we need is to promote a culture of inclusiveness: not only to make it clear that unacceptable behaviour will not be tolerated, but also that accepting equality is a positive in and of itself. When the Toronto Marlies pledged to make their locker room a “place of unity” and to refuse to judge players by their sexual orientation, they made a difference, and one that is still embarrassingly rare in professional sports.

Maybe not a big difference—the Marlies are still only one small minor-league hockey team, after all. But every mountain gets worn down eventually. You just need to start dripping water on it, and somebody has to be the first drop. Good on the Marlies for not waiting on everybody else.