It's official: I'm an online dater! Never thought I'd say that sentence! Haha. A little over a year ago, I realized my life wasn't going in the direction I wanted, so I decided to take matters into my own hands.

Why am I on OkCupid u may ask? And I would have to answer that I know almost no single people anymore (all my friends are either out of state or married with kids) except for co-workers (who I see enough of everyday to not want to torture myself with outside of work). So I guess I'm looking for a little companionship. Aw, how sweet! But seriously, I have always envisioned meeting the girl of my dreams, just never thought I'd do it online. But she's here, I know it! Haha. Now all I have to do is join every dating site, chamber of commerce, and knitting club possible, until I find her. Step 1 Join OkCupid: check!

I'm also a huge music lover. I'm a drummer and no I'm not fat or stupid! Most drummer jokes are just recycled Polish or blonde jokes anyway. But putting my drumsticks on my dashboard does allow me to park in the handicap spot! Haha. I also can play a few real instruments, just not as good. I am currently in a band and I love going out to check out the local music scene. Don't ask about my favorite style of music or band. It changes daily depending on my mood. But basically it's any thing but country.

I used to be a pretty good athlete and I played baseball, basketball, and soccer. Even got into volleyball for a while. I still try to play whenever I have the time. I also enjoy watching sports as well though! I am a huge New York Giants and New York Yankees fan. I'm not sure if that matters to any of you ladies out there but it can't hurt to prepare you for Sundays spent on the couch with bloody mary's, mimosas, and more wings than any man should eat! Haha.

I guess the last thing I should say is that I'm a proud father of two beautiful, smart, and well mannered children. They are my world and first priority. That's all I feel comfortable saying online about the subject.

So that's some of me. I would like to know some, or hopefully all, of you!

My Tits! Hahaha. God I Wish One Woman Would Be Honest And Write That! But Seriously, I'd Say My Lips, Eyelashes Or Calves. The Calve Thing Is A New One To Me! lol

Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food

I'm A Huge Harry Potter Dork! But I Love All Kinds Of Books. Some Of My Other Favorite Books Are: To Kill A Mocking Bird, The Godfather (I Am 100% Italian So It's Kinda Required Reading In My Family! Hahaha), Dark Tower Series, Anything By Dan Brown, Stephen J Cannell, And Much More. And Just So You Ladies Know, I'm Starting To Read 50 Shades Of Grey Mostly Cause I Feel Like I'm Missing Out On All These References I Hear About On Practically A Daily Basis! Plus My Female Friends Say I Should. And Who Knows? Maybe I'll Learn Something!

The six things I could never do without

My Family & FriendsMusicMoneyMy iPhoneMy PetsSexThese Are Obviously First World Problems! If I Lived In The Middle East For Example, I'm Sure My List Would Be Very Different!

I spend a lot of time thinking about

My Future. Where Am I Going? What I'm Doing. My Family. Work. Music. And In Between All Of That, Sex! Lets Face It, I'm A Man And That Thought Crosses My Mind Quite Often! Hahaha

On a typical Friday night I am

Doing Something That Is Not Typical!

The most private thing I’m willing to admit

Is I Wish I Was In A Boy Band! Hahahaha

You should message me if

If You Want A Gentlemen That Will Treat You Like A Princess! (But Only If You Deserve It)!