body hair

I was born in the San Francisco Bay Area in the Summer of Love--1967. My mom told me to never shave. Of course, I did not listen. But in the late 80s, I saw this really hot softball player at an after game party. Her legs were hot. Since I was also an athlete, I thought to myself, "Damn. If it is that hot on her, it will be that hot on my legs." I have not shaved since that time. I have had several partners. I had a few who wanted me to shave but my legs are so much softer and retain more oil without shaving. I wear shorts often and I am in my forties and I am still not looking back.

I love the feeling of being smooth after shaving or waxing. I wish i didn't have to at all, but I love that feeling so its worth it, mostly, even though i have issues with razor burn/ ingrown hairs, and sensitive skin, i like being smooth. I think i prefer it in someone im dating, but you know, sometimes hair is ok. I once dated a man, that liked to play with my arm hairs, and you know, i kind of liked it. and so even if in the future I date someone male or female, whatever, and they choose to not shave /wax, i think it ultimatley wouldn't matter, and id probably grow to like it, just because I like them.