Study Abroad

What’s your gender? ManHow old are you? 21What’s your race/ethnicity? White / CaucasianWhat continent do you live on? North AmericaWhat country and/or city do you live in? USAHighest education received: Some college (currently in college)What’s your occupation? StudentWhat’s your current relationship status? In a serious relationship (monogamous)Religious affiliation: AtheistHow religious are you? Not at allWhat’s your sexual orientation? HeterosexualHow many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 2How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

Study Abroad

How long ago did this hookup happen? Almost a year

What was your relationship status at the time? In a relationship (monogamous)

How would you best classify this hookup? Short fling

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a month

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? She was 20, blonde, and skinny with beautiful eyes. We were studying abroad together in South America and she was on the trip with me. We had hung out in the big group for a while, but then started spending time alone and one thing led to another.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? One night, we were coming back from a dance club. Other people decided to go look at the stars in the jungle, but I wanted to get to bed. She stopped by my room to “ask me about an assignment.” I had been flirting with her previously and I knew she could tell.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We started making out and eventually, I started fingering her. She was very close to cumming, but then we decided to start fucking. We were quiet because we didn’t want anyone to find out. I had and still have a girlfriend and she had a boyfriend at the time. She eventually came from me fucking her from behind. I pulled out and came in her mouth, which she swallowed.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We were still friends and made out whenever we got the chance but we never had the chance to fuck again while in South America. We met up once upon returning to the USA, but it only led to some fingering because she wanted to be more loyal to her boyfriend she said.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Withdrawal, Birth control pill / patch / ring / injection / implant

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Learning new things, experimenting, Thought it was an important experience to have

How intoxicated were you? Drunk/high but not wasted

What substances did you consume? Alcohol

How intoxicated was your partner? Drunk/high but not wasted

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? My friend when we got back. He was surprised but happy for me.

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? The thrill of cheating while studying abroad

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative