so i have a problem
i have the nofetchall parameter
but it stil fetches all the mail
(if i use the default settings without the nofetchall
parameter i stil fetches all)
im using pop3 as protocol
any ideas waht can i do ?

There is similar problem, all mails are fetched every time. So, I came to understand that there may be some issues at ISP side, i.e. if ISP's servers are running some older version of softwares, then this might happen. The similar setup is running fine with other ISPs but just this ISP.