No style for me

My Hair is a dieaster

Ok so I wake up in the morning and my hair is volumized and a mess. I can never get my hair to take any style even with products. I tried blow drying it straight but as soon as moisture hits my hair it goes crazy on me. I used a straightener but then again the moisture attacks my hair leaving it helplessly puffy. So I put my hair up in a ponytail and its to volumized and it looks like a bush in the back of my head sticking out. I sometimes decided to just shave my head and by a wig. Oh the life of a girl with boring puffy and messy hair.