I think that the flaccid size varies greatly from person to person. I know for me that I'm probably an inch flaccid on a good day, but erect I'm just a bit more than 5 inches. But guys who are larger flaccid don't always grow at the rate we do because they'd probably be too large if they did! All that said to say, don't worry about it....flaccid is only used to urinate. When your friend becomes erect is when it matters, cause that's when it's time to go to work!