What would you do?

Most Helpful Girl

Anonymous

i'd ask why the hell is he only bringing it up now. you don't just drop a bomb like that on someone (heh), you have to tell them as soon as you start even having thoughts about making such a big decision. honestly if a guy just springs something like that on me i would think he didn't respect or value me as much as he should and would probably break up with him even over that alone. and i wouldn't take him back even if he changes his mind and decides to stay. you don't just tell someone you're close to you're leaving for six months, like it's no different than stopping by the store on the way home. how would you like it if you girlfriend decided to study abroad and told you about it the day before she left?

What Girls Said 4

good for him. if our relationship is strong enough then we should be okay

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Anonymous

The fellow I'm seeing is in the army, so I gotta say I'd be ok with it.

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Anonymous

I'll support him all the way, and if he's busy or tired I'll understand. Perhaps on weekends I would be willing to crash at his house and keep him company whilst he rests. Do you mean voluntary military or national service? Some countries apparently have mandatory conscription...

What Guys Said 3

Well I can't answer as a girl, but if my girlfriend were going into the army, I think we would break up when they left in 6 months. Lots of inter-dating and mingling with locals where the training camp is- at least form what I have heard form those who are in.

Also I would not like to deal with the long distance and only sometimes seeing them. It would not be for me.