Question about cumming outside

This quest came up in strange way. My buddies wife asked me about this. Apparently my buddy likes to cum outside of the vagina when they are having sex. They have two kids already. She says it is not a birth control method for them. She wants me to bring it up with my buddy to see what is up and why he does it. She would rather he cum inside. This guy and I have been close for many years. I know when they were first getting together she was really enjoying his size and his ability to please her sexually.

So, my questions: how should i bring it up with him without making him feel bad? Why do you think she asked me? Do you think she is hoping i would jump at the chance to cum inside? wink?

Maybe he got sick of her letting it drain and stain the sheets? lol, honestly I have nothing.

As far as talking to him about it, encourage her to talk to him about it. If she won't, use your best judgement. Is he the sort of person you can talk to about it? Will he be mad you talked to his wife about this? Will he be angry with his wife?

She's right. The problem of "women's issues" forum is you get in for curiosity, and you forget where you're into the same exact moment.

About the topic question, IMO the easiest solution is to talk to your friend introducing this as a problem YOU have.
Say your gf prefers you cum inside, which you don't, and ask his opinion. He'll answer plain and easy that he likes outside too, and then suggest to check his gf's opinion. At least they'll talk about it.

[however, why on earth aren't the discussing this by themselves? Is it so difficult?!?]

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OK, I thought this post was about outdoors sex, and I was all ready to post!!! LOL!

I had to re-read the post to see that it was the guy who wanted to do that and not the girl. I had a girlfriend who always said she would never let a man climax in her. She thought it was too unhealthy. Ooookaaaay. I never took her for a germophobe, but we all have our idiosyncrasies.