I'm a new member...just created my site last night. When I went through to see a list of the new members my name is not in there. Do you have to have a picture to be listed?

Also...I invited my step-mother to view my site. She has not visited it yet but...on her profile as a member it shows a man's picture. Does she have to correct this or can I? I have her listed in my family tree with the correct generic picture.