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My friend thinks that his girl is cheating on him. She has been shady for the last couple of months, and nobody knows why.

Her sent messages in her phone are always empty. When he was standing next to her once, while she was checking her email, she freaked out. Recently she said she is going out with a group of 10 girls, and made it quite apparent that he should not be there.

All of this is after going out for 1 year. She knows most of his friends, but he knows 1 friend of hers, and never talks to her. That sounds shady to me!

Should my friend get a private investigator to figure it out, or not? Any idea how much it costs???

the problem with relationship nowadays is the dependancy on a relationship outweights the security of the actual person, which is sad. people would rather go through the trouble and headaches of the inevitable rather than taking a step back and saying "this is not working out, have a good life"

ask your friend what good he'll get out of it, and tell him to think about it for a while
1 year relationship and he can't even communicate well enough to discuss a serious matter? to me, that isn't even a relationship

this is a lose/lose situation

talk to her about it, and if she doesn't confess, break up with her anyways because trust issues (like stated about) will burn a hole in your heart more and more every day

the problem with relationship nowadays is the dependancy on a relationship outweights the security of the actual person, which is sad. people would rather go through the trouble and headaches of the inevitable rather than taking a step back and saying "this is not working out, have a good life"

ask your friend what good he'll get out of it, and tell him to think about it for a while
1 year relationship and he can't even communicate well enough to discuss a serious matter? to me, that isn't even a relationship

this is a lose/lose situation

talk to her about it, and if she doesn't confess, break up with her anyways because trust issues (like stated about) will burn a hole in your heart more and more every day