With HP over and me starting a new job, while single parenting, with buttons both at secondary school, plus finding a new house... too busy... I am going to have a huge flist cut of people I don't know.

Sorry, lurkers, but I want this to be under control.

If you're here for fic, which I'm not sure there'll be much of, in the future, anyway, then there is some way of doing a new post alert on shocfix on InsaneJournal.

I'll leave this unlocked, for people who wonder why I'm not posting, so if anyone gets cut by mistake you can comment and say, 'pfffrt, shocolate, I'm the one you had that long conversation with about Prince Bertil of Sweden!' and I will correct my error...

ETA : I now have 171 people on my flist, yet am still on 754 - this was not in one cut - this is over the last eight years... so if anyone hasn't seen a post from me for ever, and suddenly this unlocked one has popped up - feel free to remove me, and we'll both be tidyer for it.

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I really wish livejournal let you view the people you have friended, instead of everyone, because I have lots of journals in my list who I defriended years ago who haven't defriended me, and it irritates me so much!

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It's a hassle to set up in the beginning if you have a huge flist but reading on a filter is how i manage my comms/people I'm not longer friends with. It makes it a bit more manageable even though it still frustrates me to know they're there.

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I'm so proud of you. I often find that to be true, but your life has upended several times over the last few months, and the fact that the last HP film was the minute least of those... And, I'm not ashamed to admit it was a kick in the gut for me and, at times, a very small part of me feels like the last guest at a party that ended an hour ago, and I'm desperate not to go home...

I just... Look at you :) Look at you being amazing :) I live among amazons on this flist of mine, in this lovely little LJ world. They can do anything.

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Thank you for all the fic and Dan Rupert news/interviews over the years and info about the theatre trips. It has been a wonderful way of keeping in touch with home and city life since my move to being a country bumpkin in Tasmania.

Good luck with the new job and house hunting - I hope I am not cut but che sera!!

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Particularly thrilled because I just watched both Cherrybomb and Wild Target, solely because of you, and ended up falling in love with both. Though I only shared Wild Target with the hubby, as I didn't think he'd be able to fully appreciate the beauty of Rupert's accent and the Luke/Malachy ;)

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Hey, just wanted to say good luck and thanks!I friended you for the fic when it was still here and stayed for the HP stuff you always posted. I confess I did not read the family and personal stuf because , well, it felt weird and intrusive, not knowing you, so I completelly understand the cuts you made.I`m just sad that now some of the HP posts I had in my Favorites will be gone! :)Bye!

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Well, since I'm only just now reading this, I can see why you would cut people like me -- I'm a fan of de-cluttering, so I completely understand. I've enjoyed reading your posts during the release of the books over the last several years, and I've also enjoyed reading your well-written fic. Before I go, however, I just wanted to mention that my children and I saw Dan yesterday in "How to Succeed", and he was really wonderful! Not only was his singing and dancing far beyond my expectations, but his comic timing was perfect, and it was a joy to watch someone who is so clearly thrilled to be on stage! Best of luck to you, and thanks for keeping me around for so long!

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I did friend you and I will take you off my list. Just wanted to let you know how much I did appreciate all the wealth of information you provided regarding the "Harry Potter" years. I really liked your take on things which is of course why I followed you. I had nothing interesting to 'say' though so I didn't 'talk' much.

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I have enjoyed reading so many of your stories. I love Pluperfect Gentleman and Billet Doux and just about anything else of your's that I've read. I came to fan fiction late and am still reading stories, challenges, collections from years ago. I love your stories and hate to think of what I never had the chance to read. Is there any place to read your fiction now?

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I saw you defriended me a while back. I get it though--lives take different directions but I think of you often and fondly. Have a fantastic future and though I'm very seldom around I still love your work.