Commitment Phobic
Men

You want to love him and marry him for the
rest of your life but because of the idea of tying the
knot, man finds its way out. Commitment phobic men are
like souls getting distressed with full of fears and
unjustified reasons. Their baseless and somewhat unfair
reasons about love, commitment and relationship can create
pain, anger and hatred to the women who have been lovely
because of them but became a monster because of breaking
their hearts without rational reason at all. Imagine men
when mentioning commitment to them, you can actually make
them jump off the chair, open their eyes bigger, pump
their hearts faster and open their mouth so wider. Such
signs only indicate that men are too coward in love and
connection.

Women who have experienced getting a relationship with
commitment phobic men have finally realized how their behaviors
differ from those who are not into phobia of commitment. These
behaviors to be given will be a big help to those readers who
are suspecting a phobia to her boyfriend or friend and wants to
clarify it.

1. They usually have a history of short relationships and
have no plans of getting married with the same old reason, “I
am still looking at the right person in the right time”.

2. They have a history of infidelity.

3. They are mostly interested to long distance
relationships.

4. They are attracted to women, and look for another women
depending on who says yes first.

5. They are sometimes weird; when woman are far from him, he
keeps on looking and wants to involve with her again. But when
the woman is with him again, he finds his way out.

6. They are short-tempered and manipulative.

7. They tend to treat the relationship more of a routine
rather than love.

8. They consider their women as a low priority.

9. They may sometimes say, “I want a relationship” and
although their principle is, “no strings attached”, they will
not say it. That sounds so selfish.

10. They find women who are not of their type so that when
they want to end the relationship, they can make it as a
reason.

11. They always want to have more space.

12. They are more likely controlling in the
relationship.

13. They usually put a limit with their circle of friends
and working environment.

14. They choose not to include the woman in their weekend
escapades.

15. They are mostly unfaithful.

16. They always blame their women why the relationship is in
conflict.

17. They are moody and do not want to mingle much to so many
people.

With so many negative behaviors of men with phobia of
commitment, it is also necessary to all women readers that they
know what causes this problem to men.

1. One woman syndrome
This is the number one reason why men are afraid of commitment.
They do not want to be termed as playboy, so even if it’s
natural to men of being bigamous, they still find inadequate
reasons for them not to be called as such. When men commits,
they are obliged to stop their sexual options for the rest of
their lives causing sexual boredom in the relationship. A one
woman syndrome really scares them.

2. Past ExperienceThe true fear of
commitment can occur from a horrible experience on past
relationships. Such experience may have left them a scar
emotionally and psychologically. Healing the scar takes time
and committing again will also take time.

3. Incapacity to ProvideIt is the men’s
pride to be the provider of the family. Even before getting
into marriage, they are already thinking if and when they are
not capable of providing their family’s needs. So they begin to
fear the incapacity to provide by leaving them like a
loser.

4. Loss of FreedomCommitment means
cutting down of night outs and parties. Men by nature love late
night drinking. The idea of commitment fears them of losing
their own space and freedom.

Upon knowing all the behaviors and reasons of the commitment
phobic men, women may have somewhat an idea on how to intervene
with their men. Although signs are apparent to men that they
are really afraid of commitment, it is still essential to take
time to evaluate and understand them. For those men who are
experiencing and dealing with relationship because of fear, the
only key to go through this problem is to accept and
acknowledge that you really have it. Once you are done with
acceptance, it would be easy for you to change and see things
clearly. To the partners who are struggling because of the
fear, help each other and look at the brighter side of
life.

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