Am I clingy if I want my boyfriend to call once a day?

Am I clingy if I want my boyfriend to call at least once a day and meet once a, week

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I tried talking to him about this and he doesn't seem to understand. Said he's going through some personal problems. 3 days passed and nothing. I got majorly pissed with him and kinda gave him an ultimatum today and no reply till now.

i think it´s fine to expect seeing your SO once a week but calling daily is too clingy. just give him his space. did he tell you what personal problems is he speaking of? did you ask him why he won´t tell you?

I don't think that's clingy at all. I expect to see them everyday lol But if he's going through some things try to be a little supportive. Though I do think you deserve at least a call a day. 3 days is a long time (for me anyway) and the last few relationships that ended badly, I got no contact for a week and it ended in a break up because I was already over it.

It's only clingy if you get super pissed if a day goes by once in a while when y'all forget to call.Wanting to talk once a day isn't clingy, it's not being able to deal with it not happening every now and then that's clingy.

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I got pissed cuz a week has gone by and nothing. He replies to my texts ( one word). I called twice and he didn't pick up cuz he was asleep.

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No. That's what a girlfriend should do. If you didn't do any of those things then it'd sound you didn't care about your boyfriend. Once a day is normal. If you went a day without talking to your boyfriend then he'd probably wonder about you. It's good to see what you're up to and once a day is nothing. Once a week is good too. I've seen people who were clingy and you're not even close. My brother and his girlfriend can't even go a few days without talking to each other. The longest they been away from each other was 3 days and they live like about an hour away from each other. They have to call/text each other everyday. If my brother can't go down there then she gets upset and then she'll try to come down here it's the same way with my brother too. I think that's a bit clingy but if you love someone sometimes you enjoy being around the person you love.

Ehh a little bit to me. I mean, my boyfriend and I don't see each other every day. We only get to see each other once a week and that doesn't even happen all the time. During the time that we are apart, we could go 3-4 days without speaking with each other. It's just how we are.

I think texting good morning and calling at night to ask how your day went is good and not clingy at all. I expect this in a relationship. But I also can understand when someone needs space, they just need to make it clear that they do.

I don't think that's clingy. But everyone will have their own definition of clingy. Some people are more introverted or need a lot of space, it's no ones fault, and sometimes people go through stuff that they need to deal with on their own first... So give him some space while he sorts stuff out, but if he continues to not call/come over maybe you two are just not compatible in that way and it's time to move on.

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Anonymous

Nope, but if he has said this to you, he doesn't see you as long term.

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My friends with benefits always text me once a day and fucked me once a week. I'd say that you would be in this categorisation