Threesomes, Adult Circumcision & More

the bad kind of 3some

My wife has asked me numerous times to let her use toys on me in bed. I'm just wondering what percentage of women find this idea to be a turn-on, and how many guys have given in and tried?

Also, did any find it enjoyable? She's also mentioned a 2-male, 1-female (MMF) threesome... do women really want to see us with another guy?

Refusing to Bend Over

There is no specific number as to how many women enjoy using toys with their men, but it is quite common indeed. Usually, women enjoy having the toys used on them as opposed to strapping on a dildo and having their man submit.

As for the MMF threesome, although it may excite her to see you and another man, I think that the idea centers more around her own self-serving sexual desires. If you are open to the idea and think that the two of you can handle the potential repercussions, then by all means, enjoy yourselves.

Donald Zimmer

orgasm brings pain

Hi, I am 20 years old and masturbate 2 to 3 times a day. Currently, my main concern is a terrible pain I feel on the upper part of my neck every time I'm about to achieve orgasm. What is this and why is it happening?

Jerk in the neck

What you're experiencing is caused by the deficiency of Dopamine and DHEA/testosterone in your rear head and neck. Because pre-orgasm, orgasm and ejaculation burn too many neurotransmitters such as acetylcholine and dopamine, and hormones like DHEA and testosterone, it's causing you to experience severe tension in your neck. When certain spots experience a deficiency of the neurotransmitters and hormones, the result is painful cramping responses in the given area.

See your doctor and tell him of your ailment so that he can prescribe the adequate medication.

Donald Zimmer

she's a supersoaker

I have a friend (of course you know how that works) who has a woman that has very wet orgasms. She squirts a bunch of fluid all over him. So much so, that it ends up soaking him, even all over his face (from the movement of their bodies) when she's on top. He knows she is having an orgasm, but he has never been with anyone else that has done that. I would like to know:

1) How common is it?2) Is it likelier at a certain woman's age?3) What is the fluid?4) Where does the fluid come from?5) How much is normal? (I know normal is a very relative term, but any generalization would be great.)

Curious About the Squirt

1) It's not very common, but now that more and more women are in tune with their sexuality and what feels good, the amount of women that ejaculate is increasing. As well, it's very important that she's with a partner she's very comfortable with. Basically, she's multi-orgasmic.

2) Not really, but women who are very comfortable with their sexuality and partners can achieve such results more easily than young women who are experiencing such feelings for the first time, or attach negative stigmas to sex.

3) This fluid is similar in composition to the fluid produced by the male prostate and is in no way chemically related to urine.

4) It's an expulsion of fluid from the urethra at the time of orgasm.

5) Well, it's hard to say — some women can ejaculate continuously while others only achieve it once during a session. Then again, she can have multiples.