Wednesday, July 8, 2015

Settling In

For me, the worst part of moving is what I think of as the "in between" part--the packing up and saying goodbye and moving and unpacking and setting up and starting. It's all chaotic and kind of unpleasant. I'm in the tail end of the process now, the unpacking and setting up. In no particular order, and because I'm feeling lazy:

The girls, and particularly Miss M, are really missing their friends. I think it's also structure and routine. We are working hard to create new routines, and thankfully we have our nanny with us, so there is that continuity. But I still haven't found the box with art supplies and we haven't made any neighborhood friends, so it's still a bit hard.

Our house looks like the inside of the kitchen junk drawer. We had the worst movers this time--they were dumping boxes upside down and leaving them. It was a total disaster. I had to ask them to stop unpacking us, and now we have mountains of boxes and piles of junk everywhere.

It's one thing when you have a place to put stuff. It's another when you are trying to simultaneously paint and unpack boxes and rearrange furniture and decorate. I hate unpacking. Really I do.

My new job has been insanely busy. I'm new. No one should expect me to work this much. Did I mention I'm new? What happened to easing in slowly??! I have missed dinner pretty much every night since I started a few weeks ago, and sometimes I miss bedtime, too. That sucks.

In all seriousness, I like my job thus far. It is challenging and interesting and I'm learning a ton. But given how busy it is, the learning curve has also been steeeeep.

It's really fun to be back in the U.S. But also expensive. I've been living a puritanical existence these last few years, compared to how much money I've spend this month alone. Good lord. I had forgotten that people shopped for sport. And I'm only buying things I actually need!

Groceries are insanely expensive here. My grocery bill has doubled or tripled over what I was spending. To be fair, all I bought in South America was rice, veggies, meat, and cleaning products. Here, I am buying hummus! And crackers! And ice cream bars! And milk that comes in big jugs! In large part because I can, and it tastes yummy. When you can't buy expensive processed food, you save a lot of money. And calories. I'm going to have to work on this bit.

Some of the house is coming together nicely. The playroom, the sitting room, the kitchen and breakfast nook are all in good shape, and it's going to be a really great place to live, eventually. You know, when we finish unpacking all of those damn boxes.

Okay, I have to go do something productive. Like sleep. All of the chaos is making me EXHAUSTED. Well that and the intellectual challenge and the small children who need the reassurance of my bed in the middle of the night.

2 comments:

I totally agree with you! The idea of moving to a new place is wonderful, but it is the process of moving to a new place that's exhausting. Between packing boxes, unpacking boxes, and setting up furniture, moving can definitely cost you huge amount of physical and mental strain. Anyway, I do hope you're settling in well by now, Queenie. Thanks for sharing the news of the move with us and good luck! :)

Aww, sounds like you are making some progress despite the chaos and great to hear that the house is looking like a wonderful place to live. We're in the same place as you - in a new house and trying to settle in and buying so many expensive things compared to what we bought in Asia - though our container hasn't arrived yet so we have less chaos inside the house. It takes 3-6 months to feel "settled," no?

Good luck with work too - hope it calms down and you can enjoy some of the summer with the girls!

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40-something married chickabiddy who just might have found her happy life. First we had the baby of our dreams after a very long wait, then came her amazing sister. And just to keep things interesting, I secured work abroad in an amazing place. Borneo, perhaps? Probably not (this time), but sure to be interesting!