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Only problem with those is they're going to have to last for some time (one rule breach is a serious one) and I've got a lot of stuff for her to do when I get home (pick me up, unpack, start laundry, fetch me lots of tea to keep me awake all day - stupid 8 hour overnight flights I can never sleep on - etc), not to mention I actually want to spend some time with her anyway.

akashayi

not big on scarification, but I did see a really beautiful job done.... made to look like cherry blossoms. so there are exceptions to everything.

in regards to gear.....

rope of any kind is easy to find but I very highly suggest Twisted monk and madam butterfly for hemp or hand made silk ropes (or the silk bamboo mix, it's quite good and maintains antibacterial properties). But I love hemp rope too much and I love twisted monk's rope! both here:

for leather... it's usually better to buy in person. Hand check the quality. I have friends in different scenes down here that work in leather. And living in LA/consistent visits to sf make it really easy for me to obtain good leather at shops. So happy to have the pleasure chest down here. Where are you, Keaoden?

One thing I noticed was a lot of leather in the exhibition hall at anime expo. These people apparently go con to con selling stuff. While I saw plenty of crap, some of it was pretty good, all overpriced but at least you can check it in person.

There's a difference between asking for it to be done to you and expressing the desire to try it. The first can be construed as topping from the bottom, the second one really isnt (depending on when you choose to do it of course).

I think that knowing what they would like to experience/try matters and is a useful thing to know. Doesnt mean you're going to do it for a variety or reasons, but something you should know and something you can always reward them with.

Got my punishment issue sorted.. lets just say she's going to be very frustrated for a few weeks.

akashayi

As far as suggestions from the dom/sub go, I agree with Night, depending on you do it there's nothing wrong with expressing desire. I know pro doms that use checklists before hand, and there's usually some sort of communication / agreement to begin with where you can express that sort of thing as well.

I should really get involved in this. I've recently stopped playing magic cards, so I need a new hobby?Is Bondage expensive, typically?I'm pretty poor. Also, there has been some concern that a lot of BDSM scenes are really cliquish. I am pretty sensitive when it comes to being snubbed in social environments. Any advice on that?

Well, as in anything you get what you pay for. I mean, theoretically you could just use a nice cheap roll of duct tape, right?

I'm mostly just concerned about cover charges to get into fetish clubs and house parties and stuff like that. Do they typically serve alcohol? Alcohol can be really expensive. As far as gear is concerned, I'm a bottom, so I don't think I need any gear.

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Easy, but problematic solution: start your own.More difficult, but better solution: Kidnap some BDSM folks against their will and force them to partake in your aforementioned self-started scene.

I'm mostly just concerned about cover charges to get into fetish clubs and house parties and stuff like that. Do they typically serve alcohol? Alcohol can be really expensive. As far as gear is concerned, I'm a bottom, so I don't think I need any gear.

Personally, I'd get some gear for yourself. Letting someone use their own gear on you is like letting some deal with their own cards in a poker game.

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Easy, but problematic solution: start your own.More difficult, but better solution: Kidnap some BDSM folks against their will and force them to partake in your aforementioned self-started scene.

I never said force them into sex, I just said force them to be a part of your group.

Most clubs/parties I know are bring your own booze Ronin. for cheap bondage get a packet of cable ties or some scarves. to see if there are any clubs near you look up munches on the net. its a good way of meeting others over a drink/meal.

Most clubs/parties I know are bring your own booze Ronin. for cheap bondage get a packet of cable ties or some scarves. to see if there are any clubs near you look up munches on the net. its a good way of meeting others over a drink/meal.

Well, That depends on the event.

Obviously for a home party - Like an tupperware party with leather and rubber cocks - You're most likely going to have to bring your own booze, if it's a drinking sort of thing.

For Munches, most commonly, they're held in bars, pubs, or the like, and you can most likely buy booze on site, but sometimes it's held in non-booze venues - I've seen them held in churches before, which was always a laugh - but most likely, it's a pub, front up the bar, grab your grog and go.

For Larger events, Such as the Skin Two Ball(first example that popped into my head, but I wouldn't recommend them except recommending to avoid them, they're elitist CUNTS and that sort of thing on the scene needs to die in a fucking fire) they generally have a bar of some sort set up, because it's a fantastic money spinner for the event. Drinks will vary in price, but they'll be there, 99% of the time.

CALLING NUMBER 57 YOUR TIME'S UP!!!!! (Dont worry Razzly just joking). My First either let me curl up and listen to my MP3 player at her feet until I had come out of my subspace or just let me hold her hand while I had my eyes closed.

I will note that My old housemate - the Hambeast - Claims that she invented the term subspace(sorry, but no, you idiot, you're about twenty years too late, if not more) and used to constantly, now I just find the word annoying.

CALLING NUMBER 57 YOUR TIME'S UP!!!!! (Dont worry Razzly just joking). My First either let me curl up and listen to my MP3 player at her feet until I had come out of my subspace or just let me hold her hand while I had my eyes closed.

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No disrespect to your Lady but that doesn't sound like very much at all! (Compared to what others have told me.) It certainly wouldn't be enough for me to just hold her hand.