My name is Diana. I am 37 yrs old and I live in La Miranda. I am only looking for friendship. My life is difficult enough right now and I want to meet new people. Its not that I don't have any friends, actually I've been told I have too many, but it's the type of friends I have that I think I need to change.

I am not the smartest person and I know it but I have morals and heart and am very loyal. I am a firm believer in honesty, although the rules don't apply when it comes to work (the boss), the law, and parents. I have a drinking problem... i do it very well I just have a problem being able to afford it most the time.

I am a hairdresser, not currently working in a shop just doing house calls. so its been slow but I always seem to be busy doing things for other people. I have been told that I am an enabler (not sure if thats a bad thing or a good thing).

I am a bit of a tomboy and I don't mind getting my hands dirty. I prefer to talk about cars and learn about motors than to put on make-up or play dress up.

My pets are very important to me... VERY IMPORTANT. I like almost all animals, reptiles, and some bugs or insects (bees, wasp, spiders, roaches, earwigs, etc. I could live without but won't go out of my way to kill them.

Anything else you want to know you will have to ask.

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hi diana, my name is alex i am a divorced male living in southern ca. i am looking for friends also. it can be hard being a white nationalist here in southern ca. feel free to contact me if you like we have to stick together.

hi Diana, the more racially aware friends the better. i'd like to get to know you and i hope the feeeling is mutual. I'm new here and don't have any racially aware friends or even aquaintences so getting to know you would be an extra bonus. PM me

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Re: so cal friends wanted

Hello Diana!

I am from the Netherlands, so it is hard to get in contact with this distance..I only want to give a few hints to you, because I understand from your first post that life is hard for you at the moment...

First of all you mention a drinking problem...drinking isn't that bad,but if you do it every day, it will cost you customers. Also, as you mention yourself, it costs a lot of money. And maybe the most important thing, it will cost you friends, contacts and people will begin to see you as a drunk. Especcially with much pets around, you can come across very easily as the crazy drunk pet women. Hope your not at that point in your life. I know it is very hard to get rid of this kind of behaviour, but I have to advise to do so ! Just begin to limit your drinking, and keep limiting it time by time.

Second thing is, from what I understand you have contact with people, it is only that it isn't very personal. Just invite neighbours over to your house if you feel they will be good friends. The key in getting close friends is not to know everyone, but to pick out the ones you feel comfortable with and trying to get in closer contact with them. And this is not an easy job when you're drinking half the time, people will see you as unreliable.

Of course it would be very nice to get in contact with people who have the same political tought as you do, but in the end, you just want a good life with some friends around...so don't get stuck in finding friends who believe the same, as long as they respect your opinion it should be good enough.

Not everyone have to agree with me, but I think for a woman like yourself, it would be great just to have a warm home, family and/or friends who you can talk to in trust at the times you need them the most.

I also want to mention this is not in any way an attack on your drinking...just want to point out it can (and probably is)get in the way of making new friends, and keep them.