Man do I love his wisecracks :D

Sunday, May 15, 2005

How did it all start?

Me: So why did you hold my hand on our first date?He: I dont know!Me: How can you not know?He: I dont know!Me: Now you have gotto tell me.He: OK.....He: Cos you were walking slow and I was just leading you.Me: WHAT?? #$W%#^%$%^&&*#%#%$He: OK OK stop beating me.Me: Do u mean to say, that I was in this relationship for a year, cos you dragged me across MG road on our first date?He: Yes :DDMe: grrrrr.... :DD

Sunday, May 08, 2005

Always knew thaaat!

Your Seduction Style: The Charmer

You're a master at intimate conversation and verbal enticement.You seduce with words, by getting people to open up to you.By establishing this deep connection quickly, people feel under your power.And then you've got them exactly where you want them!

Practical LIfe

Its been quite some time since I have given some useful gyan. So here it is-"Most often the fear of something bad happening, is worse than the actual event".

Like, whats behind that dark closet?Who is the killer among all these guys in this horror flick?What is that big black thing floating in my sambar?Shit?Will I ever be able to move on if we break up?

I guess most of us have faced these questions and many more like them, sometime or the other. And most often than not, the fear of something going wrong is worse than the actual event. Agree?

One such fear kept me under bondage for two years. I kept myself chained to this imaginary relationship, taking on all the hardships and holding on to broken promises, for fear of not being able to cope on my own if that imaginary hand ever left me. But that day did come and it came so swiftly that I did'nt even realise that everything was over. The relief was awesome, but what was so unbelievable was the painlessness of it all. There was absolutely no regret, loss, tears or even sleepless nights. I was back to my good old self, actually much better, a state I like to call Maturity.

So guys even though it seems like an impossible task, never lose heart. You will be surprised how powerful your survival skills are.

Ok one last piece of advice before I finish this blog.I live by this sentence everyday. Atleast I try to-"Whatever you do, make sure that at the end of the day YOU are happy."

Wednesday, May 04, 2005

Practical Love

A very dear friend once told me, that I should be very 'practical' in relationships!Because, if I am practical and think with my head, rather than let my heart decide, I will not get hurt. He said that all that pain I put myself through is totally unnecessary. Sometimes my head tells me that too... But the romantic fool that I am, never give a damn to these warning signs.

Somehow I believe that relationships cant run on practicality. There wont be any relationships if everyone was practical. Because trying to 'fall' in love would be a very stupid act, then. Why would you willingly do something, which has such a bad reputation, such low success rates and such disastrous results?

OK, Have u ever leapt into the unknown?Just spread your arms in the air, looked up to the sky, taken that last step of the cliff and leapt into oblivion? Well falling in love is like that. The leap is blind, the leap is impractical, the future is unsure and the past is forgotten. Most often than not that leap ends in a disaster.

But we learn to brush aside our bruises and walk on. Who knows some day we will find someone worthy enough to take a leap for, again.... Hope keeps us impractical fools alive, it keeps us going.

Never stop my friend because one leap went astray.Learn from each, cos only then you are going to be stronger for the next and remember,"The woods are lovely, dark, and deep,But I have promises to keep,And miles to go before I sleep,And miles to go before I sleep."

Monday, May 02, 2005

The most potent set of words I ever encountered

After a While

After a while you learn The subtle difference between Holding a hand and chaining a soul And you learn that love doesn't mean possession And company doesn't always mean security.

And you begin to learn That kisses aren't contracts And presents aren't promises And you begin to accept your defeats With your head up and your eyes ahead With the grace of a woman Not the grief of a child

And you learn To build all your roads on today Because tomorrow's ground is Too uncertain for plans And futures have a way Of falling down in mid flight

After a while you learn That even sunshine burns if you get too much So you plant your own garden And decorate your own soul Instead of waiting For someone to bring you flowers

And you learn That you really can endure That you are really strong And you really do have worth And you learnAnd you learn With every good bye you learn...