Q Of Day 26 Talks About His Dawn Tattoos+More Images From The NoH8 Campaign

Everybody was trippin' over Q's tattoos that he showed off in his newest photoshoot with girlfriend Dawn. He has her name on his waist and her lips on his neck. And here's the explanation he gave GG:
Speaking of love and tattoos, whose lips are those on your neck?
I figured I would get DAWN's lips because she will be mine forever and I’m hers forever, so why not. It's the best example of how honest I am in my relationship and about our love. Her lips and her name is an example to others that it’s ok to LOVE YOUR GIRL. It’s an example on how to be HONEST. I actually got her name when we started getting serious , so I had that way before the lips on my neck. I’m sure there will be more tattoos to come.
With all the celebrity break ups and hook ups. What do you think makes your relationship different? Why did you decide to go public instead of hiding your relationship?
It is what it is. I have to be real with myself. What ever is meant to happen will happen. But our relationship is built off of trust, honesty, and love. It’s definitely that fairytale ending that people don’t believe in anymore. There's no hiding that. There’s no point in fronting when you are happy.
Snaps in a heart...
And here's some images from the NoH8 campaign. Certain celebs decided they wanted to express how strongly they believe in same-sex marriage by (tastefully) baring it all for equality!:

mmmm Que, those tats are amazing on the places they are
Him and Dawn are totally adorable!
If people support gay marriage, that's fine for them.
If the bible says it's wrong, it is, but I also don't go around yelling at openly gay people.
I have problems of my own that I have to straighten out.

No Hate!!: I’m feelin like pushing that american idol chick off a bridge for that man candy Steph Jones!! Ummm can I say Yummy!! Sheesh
Damn Dawn, i hope my next boo is as sprung as Q. I'D LOVE THAT... I'm wet as it is.LOL!!

jennielove: I agree. Why is it hate when you choose to God’s intent for marriage? This is nonsense.
Everybody talkin bout heaven aint going there!...Let everyone have equality and you should not let your biased religious beliefs (beliefs that all americans do not share) stop that.

I am happy at a sexy black man speaking out about how he loves his sexy black woman. If he was talking about a white or spanish girl y'all would be ready to rip his head off. But he's talking about how great black love is and y'all still aren't happy WTF.
And those who are fortuate enough to have REAL love in their live no it doesnt fade, no you dont grow apart , you grow together. I am just as in love with and attracted to my husband now (and he with me) as I was the first time I laid eyes on his sexy tail at the gym. My sister n brother in law had been married 12 yrs and havent faded my parents married 35 and havent grown apart, rather they have a bond like no other

To all the people against gay marriage...
How does that affect you?
What does it take away from you?
Does it EVEN have ANYTHING to do with you?
It doesnt you say?
Nothing you say?
No you say? ooooOOoohh... i see.

GAYS/LESBIANS ARE NOT A SIN: I CAN’T WAIT FOR U ALL TO DIE OR TO HAVE A NEAR-DEATH EXPERIENCE AND REALIZE GOD MEANT FOR THE WORLD TO HAVE GAYS, AND IT IS NOT A SIN AND U WILL ALSO FIND OUT IN THIS LIFE THERE IS ONLY ONNNNNNE YES I SAID ONE RULE. I won’t tell u. If u nearly die or fully die u will find out what that isim straight but an experience changed my life!!! And u haters need to STOP cause it will all come back all this hating and hurt u cause other ppl when u leave this earth so work to be the best person u can be. take this post into consideration or not BUT TRUST! Dont hate DONT HATE ANYONE dont waste that time! GAYS/LESBIANS ARE NOT A SIN, and they will be right beside u in heaven I PROMISE.

I CAN'T WAIT FOR U ALL TO DIE OR TO HAVE A NEAR-DEATH EXPERIENCE AND REALIZE GOD MEANT FOR THE WORLD TO HAVE GAYS, AND IT IS NOT A SIN AND U WILL ALSO FIND OUT IN THIS LIFE THERE IS ONLY ONNNNNNE YES I SAID ONE RULE. I won't tell u. If u nearly die or fully die u will find out what that is
im straight but an experience changed my life!!! And u haters need to STOP cause it will all come back all this hating and hurt u cause other ppl when u leave this earth so work to be the best person u can be. take this post into consideration or not BUT TRUST! Dont hate DONT HATE ANYONE dont waste that time! GAYS/LESBIANS ARE NOT A SIN, and they will be right beside u in heaven I PROMISE.

2 REDD:
I apologize that I couldn't quote you, but why support the marriage and not adoption? There could be plenty of love and support in a homosexual home. That doesn't mean that the child would be influenced wrongly or pressured into that lifestyle. Whats really horrible is a child who, like you said, was beaten, molested, etc. but stays in foster care forever because no one will release them to a homosexual home.

Wowww...this post went on forever...lol
Cl*t lickin and stick dippin really gets folks upppset :lol:
Let us all pray for one another.
After all, God loves each and every one of us...no matter how stupid and ignorant and judgmental WE are ;-)
"Kumbayah my Lord....Kumbayah..."
:lol:

TyTy:
@If another hater says SHIT about my sexuality y’all gon make me get my vaseline and sneakers!
Don’t call me a HATER coz I don’t believe in HOMOSEXUALITY!
If my asss be hating , then GOD is a hater too for damning Homosexuality.
Grow the fukk up! My opinion, belief and faith is just that. You can have yours too but grow the fukk up. STRAIGHTEN up!
WOW... my long ass post and that's all you got from it? I called you a hater? Did I even make a mention to God in my post? Yeah I didn't think so, run behind your religion for all the good it will do you. It's funny how you don't have any real arguments to what I said... I guess ignorance really is bliss.

I support gay marriage but as for yall adopting kids. HELL NO! Divorce, child abuse, no parents at all are already hard on a child's life. Now why should a child have to explain to her friends why she has 2 mommies or two daddies? When its already difficult for them to have to explain why they have no parents at all. Or why they are in foster care. If it ever goes through then be that as it may. But you can't have everything when you don't follow the rules.

mrs p: honey, i agree all the way, gays can do what they want but marriage no! i wiil never support it! gay people really don’t want marriage, this just gives them something to do during the day (pickett) why they go clubbing at night. i know gay people who wouldn’t think of being in a monogamous relationship ever.
Are there no heterosexuals who feel the same? I'm one, in case you've never heard of a heterosexual who does not want to get married.
I guess, you can add that to your list of newfound marvels.
LOL

TyTy: BSStinks
I think that if it was just left at that, an opinion, then this wouldn't be an issue. It's one thing to differ on opinions, but when a group of people, or government, decide to take that opinion into ACTION by stating that every person/group, the act pertains to, can or can not take part in something, then that's a problem.
I don't know why a lot of you all are so confused by the notion that your opinion isn't what most have an issue with.
Also it doesn't matter what you accept or what you don't accept, you have that right, but, turning that intolerance into something that will prohibit another human being from doing something, simply because they are not marrying a specific gender, is wrong. Not wrong as far as religion goes, but it is wrong as far as this country is concerned; because as countless of people have already stated, America's citizens are all supposed to have the same rights, and there is supposed to be separation between church and state.
And one more thing, I'd like someone to explain how gay marriage will personally affect you, since you won't be taking part in a gay marriage, a same-sex ceremony, or will not likely be bonded, whether if it's as a close friend or otherwise, with homosexuals.

(insert witticism here) COPPED THAT MAXWELL ALBUM TODAY!!!! IT IS FIRE....: ohhh hellll!!!how did i miss kadeem hardison?!?!dwayne wayne!!![cue music] “I know my love me…stand behind me come what may…”Damn that was my show!!And I still love me some him!! And that gray is makin me finna fall out
lmao! a different world was the ish, but i lived for the theme song alone! lol

mrs p:
honey, i agree all the way, gays can do what they want but marriage no! i wiil never support it! gay people really don’t want marriage, this just gives them something to do during the day (pickett) why they go clubbing at night. i know gay people who wouldn’t think of being in a monogamous relationship ever.
I AGREE. I WILL NEVER SUPPORT GAY ANYTHING AND I FEEL NO GUILT BECAUSE OF IT.

N8???: Why is these days that everything thats bad has now turned good and whats good is now trash. No wonder why all this bullshits happening to us Katrina, Global warming. younging these days having no manners and killing oneanother. Damn are morals are down the drain and Gods showing little to no mercy. now if you dress conservative you look tacky and old.If you remain a virgin until married You are pathetic or stuck upyou cant watch t.v. without booty up in your face or seeing gay people on t.v.NOW GAYS want marriage to be legal????Thats a wrap worlds really coming to an end. what was once good has been turned into trash. one bad apple spoil the bunch. God spare me please because i aint supporting that ish no way no day.
honey, i agree all the way, gays can do what they want but marriage no! i wiil never support it! gay people really don't want marriage, this just gives them something to do during the day (pickett) why they go clubbing at night. i know gay people who wouldn't think of being in a monogamous relationship ever.

Leah: all folks are doing in this thread is marginalizing a group of people. who says that you deserve certain rights and privileges because you were born straight? DISCRIMINATION.regardless, the majority vote cannot override the constitutional rights of the minority. so eventually gays will be allowed to be married, and the religious folks will have to deal with it.
agreed. thank you.

all folks are doing in this thread is marginalizing a group of people. who says that you deserve certain rights and privileges because you were born straight? DISCRIMINATION.
regardless, the majority vote cannot override the constitutional rights of the minority. so eventually gays will be allowed to be married, and the religious folks will have to deal with it.

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Lombard allegedly used the adult Internet service to conduct his video chats. According to an affidavit in support of the arrest warrant, the Internet service indicated that Lombard's profile "stated he was interested in "perv fam fun," a reference to "incestuous child molestation." The service also told investigators that a customer service complaint had been sent to the company in January 2007. A customer who had chatted with Lombard complained to the company that Lombard said he was "into incest" and had adopted two African-American children, court records said.
A Washington, D.C., police detective who was investigating the case set up undercover chats with someone matching Lombard's description during which the detective says he was invited to fly to Raleigh to have sex with the person's 5- year-old adopted child. In his affidavit, Det. Timothy Palchak wrote that he engaged in a chat with someone using the screen name "FL" who provided nude pictures of himself. The pictures matched Lombard's North Carolina driver's license photo, according to the affidavit.
During the chats, according to the affidavit, "FL" told undercover investigators that he had himself molested his child, whom he adopted as an infant, and that he had allowed others to molest his child. "FL" stated that "the abuse of the child was easier when the child was too young to talk or know what was happening, but that he had drugged the child with Benadryl during the molestation," Palchak wrote in his affidavit.

MAN OFFERED UP ADOPTED 5-YEAR-OLD BLACK SON FOR SEX
A Duke University official has been charged in federal court with offering his 5-year-old adopted son up for sex. Frank Lombard, associate director of the Center for Health Policy, was arrested Wednesday in Raleigh, the FBI said.
An unidentified informant who already faces child porn charges in a different child sex case pointed investigators to Lombard, according to court documents. The informant told investigators he had met Lombard on the Internet four years ago. The informant described in graphic detail how he allegedly observed Lombard molesting an African-American child on four occasions over an Internet video chat service called ICUii.
The informant said, according to court papers, that Lombard, who is white, said that he lived in the Raleigh-Durham area of North Carolina and that the child was one of two adopted African-Americans in his custody.
Lombard has been charged with attempting to induce someone to cross state lines to engage in sex with a child, punishable by a maximum sentence of 20 years in prison.

There's a white man who adopted 2 black baby boys. He adopted them for the sole purpose of raping them. He raped the 5 yr old LIVE on the net. Tried to solicit him for sex. This pedophile said its easier to molest them when their young and they cannot speak. I read about this last week....I will look for the article and post it.

I dont see what the problem is MOST mayjor religoins dont agree with gay marriage and Homosexuality and most people religious or not dont agree with this.but the media makes it out like most people agree with gay marriage and we dont.its unatural and not right

Mike Adams, writing on Townhall, lays out the facts the MSM won't:
Frank Lombard is the associate director of Duke's Center for Health Policy. The university administrator was recently arrested by the FBI and charged with offering up his adopted 5-year-old son for sex. I tried to contact Frank Lombard over the weekend to probe his expertise regarding the health benefits of raping small children. So far, he's declined to comment. University administrator Lombard is accused of logging on to a chat room online and describing himself as a "perv dad for fun." The detective who wisely looked into the suspicious screen name says that Lombard admitted to molesting his own adopted son. All this was before allegedly inviting a stranger to travel to North Carolina from another state to statutorily rape his already-molested adopted son. It gets worse. The allegations are stunning and sickening. Adams spares us what he says is the worst. However, identity politics are probably also involved in understanding the media response. Again, Adams:
The Associate Press (AP) did not mention the fact that the five-year old offered up for molestation was black. Bringing that fact to light might be damaging to the political coalition that exists between blacks and gays. Nor did the AP mention that the adopted child is being raised by a homosexual couple. Bringing that fact to light might harm the gay adoption movement. I am afraid that as far as the media and academic communities are involved, it is not the crime itself that matters, but rather whether the alleged perp is a member of an "oppressor" group. Although white, Lombard is gay, so in the interest of avoiding unpleasant stories involving homosexual adoption, the media is anxious to shut down public interest in the affair.
Stanley B. Chambers of the Raleigh News and Observer (hat tip: C. Edmund Wright) brings is the following nugget: Lombard, a licensed clinical social worker with a master's degree in social work, is a health-disparities researcher who studies HIV/AIDS in the rural South. This means that Lombard toiled in fields of the victimology industry, mining data for correlations that would underwrite government favoritism of victim groups. A victimologist victimized at least one child in the most heinous way. The ultimate victim(s). And the media see no hypocrisy, and want to make sure the public doesn't either. Nothing to see here, move along.
All this coming in the wake of another highly publicized incident at the same prominent university? I don't think they can suppress this one. The conservative media have the power to put this case on the national agenda. It is too dramatic.

WWJD
HE WOULD VOTE HELL NAW TO GAY MARRIAGE...
I DONT GET THIS WHOLE LETS SUPPORT THIS CRAP THING! MOST PEOPLE DO NOT SUPPORT THIS...VERY VERY VERY FEW STATES ALLOW THIS VERY VERY VERY FEW PLACES ON EARTH SUPPORT THIS. DONT FALL FOR THE HYPE. ITS ALMOST LIKE THE MEDIA TRY TO MAKE IT LIKE PEOPLE ACTUALLY SUPPORT THIS BUT THE NUMBERS SHOW THEY DONT...AND DONT EVER DISRESPECT THE CIVIL RIGHTS MOVEMENT...THIS DOESNT COMPARE AT ALL....

@If another hater says SHIT about my sexuality y'all gon make me get my vaseline and sneakers!
Don't call me a HATER coz I don't believe in HOMOSEXUALITY!
If my asss be hating , then GOD is a hater too for damning Homosexuality.
Grow the fukk up! My opinion, belief and faith is just that. You can have yours too but grow the fukk up. STRAIGHTEN up!

YBF is too much sometimes: THIS POST IS FUNNY!! WHY ARE PEOPLE SAYING WE ALL SIN AND SO BECAUSE HE SINS AND I SIN I GUESS WE ALL SIN FOR SINCREAM Since we all sin we should glorify in our sins? OR BETTER YET do more sins since we already sin? OH YEAH AND MAYBE WE SHOULD JUST REMEMBER GOD ON SUNDAYS OR WHEN US OR LOVED ONES ARE SICK THAN PULL HIM OUT THE CLOSET RIGHT.. forget what god says because HEY we smoke a cigarette here or there, HAVE SEX so that means were GOING TO HELL SO WE SHOULD JUST DO MORE THINGS THAT ARE WRONG??? THATS PLAIN STUPID. YES WE SIN YES NO ONES PERFECT BUT ATLEAST WE KNOW ITS SIN. Try hard not to do it but our environment or surroundings mess us up god knows that.. if you have love for a gay person than you better love a pedophile and a serial killer. because they all have the same disease, they all think its right and enjoy what they are doing. only thing Gays get more love than the other too because alot more people are gay and in power and they are not hurting anyone accept confusing our children and hurting themselves.MURDERRERS have hearts, families are nice. but what they do is it right? should we not dislike them cause their nice peoplePEDOPHILES alot of them are sick , some have 2 personalities should we accept them too? Than agin their harming someonei hate liars and those who lie to me for no reason but i guess because i lie from time to time i should just start lying every sentence.i hate theifs but hey when im hungry i theif a thing or two in the grocery store so i guess i should just beocme a theif?because people do it some people even like it doesnt make it right. nor should we not tell people are dislike for it because we do other things “That are sinful” whats wrong is wrong
@YBF is too much sometimes
Amen, please say it again, Amen!!!

Can we all just get a long and b thankful 4 the blessings that our heavenly Father did give us like the freedom to make our on decisions and still b accepted by him with no discrimination, although it's through this heated cause I am just so grateful 2 see so many young ppl really know the word but so shame bcause we don't act as we should, as for the gov't that's why the world is hell on earth now because without Jesus Christ leading there is and will b nothing to trust in.

TyTy: That’s what my BF asked me too!
What next? pedophiles will be demanding for their rights to fukk with a “concenting” child!
This is a sexual preference. That’s what it is. Just as some folks like to fukk with dogs. It’s a preference and people need to deeply understand what they signing for. It’s not just glamour.
I don’t need to be bullied into it cozam black by reminding me about slavery. Two immensley different issues at hand.
You REALLY need to be educated about homosexuality. It's not some choice, did you choose to be straight? Did you just one day wake up and decide you like the opposite sex? I didn't think so. You've known you're whole life, right? From the first time you were a little girl and had your first crush, to your first date with a boy, to your current relationship. It's not something you had to think about and make any choice about, it's just who you are.
That's exactly how it is when you're gay, it's not anything to think about, it's not wrong and you don't choose who you are atracted to. I can look at a girl and nothing happens, but when I look at a guy I'm attracted. Did I choose to be? My first crush was a boy in the first grade, are you saying I made a choice about the rest of my life in the first grade? That would make an extremely advanced first grader!
Gay people only start to have problems when we meet people like you who try and tell us something is wrong with us, or make fun of us for the way we are. Or worst, beat us up or kill us for what's natural to us.
Bringing pedophiles and people who want to have sex with dogs isn't even relevant! For the record, most pedophiles are straight white males, do your research sweetie.
Stop spreading your hate around, it's 2009. Love your fellow humans or it will come to bite you in the ass, not all of us faggots are so nice :)

(insert witticism here) COPPED THAT MAXWELL ALBUM TODAY!!!! IT IS FIRE....: Daaang…what Bible do you read?!?Is it all about gay people?!?Does yours not teach about accepting people for who they are?!?Have you NEVER sinned?!?Do you pray as often as you should??Umm..let’s be honest…I really hope that you don’t think you are BETTER than a gay person because you are heterosexual!!And PLEASE son’t you EVER think God favors you more because you are not homosexual!!GOD LOVES EVERYBODY!!Let’s try to get like HIM

Marriage isn't a religous act it's a legal act. You don't have to go through any chruch or religon to get married. A COURT OF LAW will do it. So religion isn't a facotr for everyone who wants to get married.
America has people of all races, religions, creeds, beliefs, ect... Seperation of church and state! How many times do people have to say it? The govenment can't tell you how to pray or who to love. It's bigotry!
You don't have to agree with homosexuality, but everyone should have equal rights.
If any group of people should understand bigotry it's us black folks. Get it together and leave the hate in the past!
*****google Bayard Rustin, Martin Luther King Jr. was FOR the lgtb struggle*******

So do many of the common women. But lets be educators not finger pointers. That girl could be your sister, your aunt, your little cousin. Let's teach women that their worth does not rest between their legs. Aside from the fact that I have a 9-5, I also mentor young women in my area and counsel single women at my church. i certainly don't pretend to be better than anyone because some young women were just not taught. So let's spend our time and wisdom on helping each other become better,. Remember all it takes it one time or one mistake and it could be YOU or even ME. Have a little mercy dear.
MissMokaLatte: Speaking on women letting dudes hit it raw being the reason for the sky high HIV rates, look at LL, Nivea, and Lil’ Wayne.They are a perfect example.These women know how he sleeps around amongst them and plenty of groupies, but they still let him hit raw.THIS is why the HIV/AIDS rate is so high.They better hope that a baby is all that got from him.They act like HIV doesn’t exist.

Trust I completely agree. I am a 25 year old professional Black woman who is proud to say that I have abstained from sex for over 2 years. One, because I am a Christian and two because I care about my temple. This does not take away from the fact that we have husbands, boyfriends, etc. out here doing only God knows what with God knows whom. Notice that I put "ONE" in caps. I don't have time to go down the list of things that cause HIV but this was relevant so I brought it up. Now u can BS all u want but if a man wants to have sex with men he should be MAN enough to tell the person he is having sex with. Period.
MissMokaLatte:
Dishonest men who are on the DL may be one of the reasons that black women have such high HIV rates, but it’s far down the list.Don’t let the media hype about the new DL craze fool you.There have been DL men around forever.The number one reason so many black women are contracting HIV is because they are not making the men they sleep with wrap it up.Point blank.Even if most of the women who have HIV contracted it from DL men, if they had made them wrap it up; they might not have it.So, we as women have to take responsibility for ourselves. If we don’t who will?As far as Dawn and Que go, if he loves her so much and is gonna be with her forever; why not just marry her instead of getting all of these tattoos?

(insert witticism here) got home and saw hubbby had bought a sex swing!!! thats why the f**k i married his a$$!!! oooohhhweeee!!! :lol::
DAWG…in most states…u can get married before u can buy beer and cigarettes!!Sacred??? Ha!!
YOU MUST BE A LESBO OR FAG. GO TO CANADA, THEY LET FAGGOTS AND CARPET MUNCHERS GET MARRIED LEGALLY.

I have no problem with people being gay, just don't think they should be allowed to get married, man really need to stop changin God's word, just my opinion !! But the pics are nice, Kadeem Hardison even looks hawt....lol

Bytch Plz: Funny thing about gay people,they want the dignity and title of a religious ceremony, but they want to demean the God and Bible it comes from with all it’s precepts because it indicts their lifestyle as morally wrong. They’re saying, “We don’t believe in that God stuff because He says we’re evil, BUT we want His marriage title though”. This is the crux of the gay marriage issue no one wants to address. The cognitive dissonance is slightly thick and nauseating.
Wait til they have the right to change the bible to suite the "universal man" Just wait, one right handed after the other. It's all in the making.

(insert witticism here) got home and saw hubbby had bought a sex swing!!! thats why the f**k i married his a$$!!! oooohhhweeee!!! :lol::
DAWG…in most states…u can get married before u can buy beer and cigarettes!!Sacred??? Ha!!
That's what my BF asked me too!
What next? pedophiles will be demanding for their rights to fukk with a "concenting" child!
This is a sexual preference. That's what it is. Just as some folks like to fukk with dogs. It's a preference and people need to deeply understand what they signing for. It's not just glamour.
I don't need to be bullied into it coz am black by reminding me about slavery. Two immensley different issues at hand.

Just Me 808: *rolls eyes* Gimme a break… all this “No8hate” campagin nosense if you dont aagree with it how is it hate??
True. I am not for all this homo stuff but I don't be hating on no-one. To each his own. Sometimes it just seems like they forcin' you to accept stuff that each person has a strong religious belief system about.
I don't have to accept homos coz I might be seen as a hater if I don't. I am not God so I don't judge who's right or wrong. I just know what my BIBLE and soul tells me and have strong faith in that.
If the Bible, Quaran etc, says it's wrong, why would a man be condemned for believing that it's wrong?
The sad part is just that. You are a hater for having faith in the Lords teachings. I know it's wrong for people to harm others coz of their sexual preferences but don't call me a hater coz I am deeply religious, feel me.
Hollywood has a way of making a statement and sometimes it's just forced on folks.
Be who you are and let others be. Simple. Mind your damn business "silently"
Let's see this promotion aired on the more religious continents like Africa and the middle East! Think not! Everyone knows where they fit in.
Does Q have a twin? Dawn is one lucky lady. I didn't know they made bruthas like this. They always seem more macho but Dawn must be doing something awfully right to this man.

im done.
babies ready to go to sleep.
have stopped kickin.
thought today was a great day for an open discussion on gay rights...
hopefully none of us die tomorrow...cuz we seem to be livin some mighty righteous lives ;-)

West Coast: Girl, if the gay community is relying on our vote, then they might as well give up the fight.Once men and women are allowed to marry one another, where does it stop? After same sex marriage is passed, then there will be something else. People wanting to marry their pet, marry your computer, marry your sibling, marry your house, marry your tv remote control, marry your father. I’m being facetious , but you get the point. I mean where does it stop?????This world is changing, and changing fast, at least keep something traditional and sacred.
DAWG...in most states...u can get married before u can buy beer and cigarettes!!
Sacred??? Ha!!

i really dont care if gay people get married..but i def dont believe they should be adopting kids...kids already have enough trials and tribultions to face w/out having to explain why they have 2 mommies/daddies..the whole idea is kinda selfish if u ask me ( tho nobody did..lolz)...its kinda like saying "I couldnt have you any other way but im still going to get you becuz I WANT u and in my SELFISHNESS I will pretend I dont realize how difficult this will be for both/all of us.. I will pretend its the worlds fault for judging us and not my fault for making this decision in the first place..."