Threatening

So SO and I had an argument over a week ago, we haven't hardly spoken to each other since then. For about 4 nights now he tries to have sex with me in the middle of the night. He tries taking my shorts off and I pull them back up and tell him to stop. He repeatedly tries and grabs my hand and throws it out of the way. I tell him don't think you can ignore me all day and screw me all night. I'm just not like that, why would I want to have sex with him when he's being a douche and won't make things better. Last night he tries again. Same stuff... He threatened to break my hand then he says next time he should do it no matter what I think about it. Oh ok so you're going to threaten to rape me... I told him if he did he'd be going to jail. SO says he doesn't think I'd call the cops. HA! I'm so sick of this crap. Where can I find a real man????

So SO and I had an argument over a week ago, we haven't hardly spoken to each other since then. For about 4 nights now he tries to have sex with me in the middle of the night. He tries taking my shorts off and I pull them back up and tell him to stop. He repeatedly tries and grabs my hand and throws it out of the way. I tell him don't think you can ignore me all day and screw me all night. I'm just not like that, why would I want to have sex with him when he's being a douche and won't make things better. Last night he tries again. Same stuff... He threatened to break my hand then he says next time he should do it no matter what I think about it. Oh ok so you're going to threaten to rape me... I told him if he did he'd be going to jail. SO says he doesn't think I'd call the cops. HA! I'm so sick of this crap. Where can I find a real man????

Why are you still sleeping beside him? I would be out of the house THAT NIGHT if my hubby (or anyone) ever said something like that to me. Try leaving and working on things from a safe distance, if you can

Why are you still sleeping beside him? I would be out of the house THAT NIGHT if my hubby (or anyone) ever said something like that to me. Try leaving and working on things from a safe distance, if you can

Holy crap he's threatening to rape you!!! That is the most insane thing I've bet heard! If any man I've ever been with had ever said anything like that to me they'd wake up to a frying pan wrapped around their skull. I hope he doesn't think this is some kind of joke. The problem is that if he does rape you you will have a hell of a time proving it in a court of law. Unfortunately we still live in a society that blames the victim. Please please please get some distance from this man. I am telling you from experience sexual violence is not a light hearted joking matter and it can really screw you up. I hope everything turns out ok.

Holy crap he's threatening to rape you!!! That is the most insane thing I've bet heard! If any man I've ever been with had ever said anything like that to me they'd wake up to a frying pan wrapped around their skull. I hope he doesn't think this is some kind of joke. The problem is that if he does rape you you will have a hell of a time proving it in a court of law. Unfortunately we still live in a society that blames the victim. Please please please get some distance from this man. I am telling you from experience sexual violence is not a light hearted joking matter and it can really screw you up. I hope everything turns out ok.

I'd call the cops and at least have some sort of record of this just in case. I've been in an abusive relationship and wouldn't take chance. get out and file for custody. technicaly he already attempted to rape you.

I'd call the cops and at least have some sort of record of this just in case. I've been in an abusive relationship and wouldn't take chance. get out and file for custody. technicaly he already attempted to rape you.

The comment about the frying pan made me lol. Really though you should have called and filed a report. Stay with family or friends. In my experience it's never good to temp the devil. If he said it then he's considering doing it, and he will if you give him a chance. Trust I was in a relationship like that for 2yrs before I got the courage to leave.

The comment about the frying pan made me lol. Really though you should have called and filed a report. Stay with family or friends. In my experience it's never good to temp the devil. If he said it then he's considering doing it, and he will if you give him a chance. Trust I was in a relationship like that for 2yrs before I got the courage to leave.

if you're so sick of it why are you still there? it doesn't matter what situation you're in there are always ways out. i suggest you find one. the words you're using to describe the situation have no place in a healthy relationship- threaten, rape, break, crap, jail, douche... etc. why are you still dealing with it if you're so tired of it?

if you're so sick of it why are you still there? it doesn't matter what situation you're in there are always ways out. i suggest you find one. the words you're using to describe the situation have no place in a healthy relationship- threaten, rape, break, crap, jail, douche... etc. why are you still dealing with it if you're so tired of it?

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