Friday

Sometime this week, while pretending to work but actually surfing through Facebook or Reddit or a random writers’ group in which my fellow writers were also pretending to work, I saw a meme that struck a bit of a chord with me. Its creator proposed that instead of New Year’s Resolutions, we simply state our intentions for the coming year.

Admittedly, my first thought swirled around Sure, yep, the pathway to Hell and all that, but the more I thought about it, the more sense it made to me. Resolutions sound so stern, like if you don’t get to all of them, you’re a failure. Intentions…it’s flexible. A list of intentions feels like the things you’ll get around to, and really want to do, but if you don’t? Eh, no harm no foul.

So I have some intentions for 2017. Realistic things, I think.

♦ I pounded out 1205 walking miles in 2016, and that was without a lot of effort. So for 2017, I’d like to break 1300. That feels doable.

♦ We’re looking at switching gyms. I really, really like the gym to which we already belong, but the pools are outside and it’s too easy to make excuses on chilly days. New gym has indoor pools and an indoor track. So, change gyms.

♦ Go to the gym a couple times a week.

♦ Ride my bicycle more. I’m not talking long, sweat-powered training rides. Just…take the damn thing out and have fun. Ride it to Starbucks instead of driving. Get a cooler-backpack (as opposed to a cool backpack, which I already have) and take it to pick up odd things from the grocery store.

♦ Finish and publish the next two books in the Wick Chronicles…though one might not be part of the Chronicles series, but perhaps a new Wick After Dark edition.

♦ Write something stupid fun, just for myself. It never needs to see print. It will be awful and wonderful and not-literary-at-all and glorious. A story with no real point other than why the hell not write it.

♦ Visit San Francisco more often and do fun touristy things. I love the city, love walking around it, but it’s definitely more fun when you’re seeing things and not just walking or shopping.

♦ Disneyland.

♦ Be a bit kinder; that’s always a work in progress.

♦ Not die.

Yeah…all intentions, except maybe that last one, which is really more of a begging the cosmos kind of thing. If I finish 2017 having checked off everything, spiffy. If not, eh, no biggy.

Wednesday

In a few days, California's newest law on hand held devices while driving takes effect. In essence, it's a giant STOP DOING THAT, another attempt to get people off their phones while behind the wheel. It's aimed at literally getting phones out of hands--no more using the speaker phone while holding it in hand--and getting attention back onto the road.

I don't have a problem with this. Truthfully, if you talk on the phone or text while driving, my level of respect for you plummets. There is nothing--nothing--that requires you to use your phone while driving, with the possible exception of a true, gotta-call-911-NOW emergency.

With the law taking effect on January 1st, people are talking about it, and what surprises me are the number of people who are pissed off about it. But I'm really good at it! I can multi-task! I haven't engaged in any of the arguments, but I've lurked in a few threads at various spots online, watching the back and forth, the spittle-flying anger some are generating over the simple idea that they're no longer allowed to do more than touch-swipe their phones while the car is in motion.

I grit my teeth and move on. But my loathing for those who can't stay off their phones goes back many years, at least 13, when cell phones were common but hadn't quite saturated the market as they have in recent years. I wrote about it, and nearly every time the argument surfaces, I revisit the piece, which originally appeared in the anthology Clear Horizons. It's long, but... here it is.

Being Regular

I spent $1.15 on a soda so small it could send a thirsty toddler into a
major meltdown. And they call it a “tall,” not “microscopic, two sips
and you’re done, small” as they probably should. The cup—and I just
measured—is just a tad taller than my middle finger is long. And trust
me, I have small hands.

Still, because I sit here in the café, taking up space, I felt
compelled to buy the drink. It’s not as if I don’t really want it, I
do; it’s the idea of dropping over a dollar for less soda than I could
get in a 25 cent can of WalMart’s house brand (which, in my esteemed
opinion, is pretty darned tasty.) I’m not the only one. There were
seven or eight other people in here, doing what I’m doing—pretending to
work or study—and all purchased the obligatory cheapest menu item to
feel justified in taking up space.

Somehow I doubt the bookstore police (oh, yeah…the café is in a
bookstore) are going to storm in and beat us all about the head and
shoulders with wet sweat socks if we wander in and sit down without
buying anything. It’s the principle of the matter: you take up a
business’s space, you buy at least a small part of their product.

I do this a lot. I wrote at least half of a novel sitting in this
café (but hey, not all in one day…), and have taken notice of
the regulars here. Many seem to be students of the university down the
road, in search of a quiet place to study and work on class
assignments. I’ve often felt the impulse (but never acted on it) to
point out that the McDonalds just across the street from the school, is
usually just as quiet, and a whole lot cheaper.

I know that because I wrote part of a novel there, too.

Come to think of it, of the three novels I’ve written, most of them
were penned in McD’s, the café, the food courts of Travis AFB
and Wright Patterson AFB, Burger King, and Taco Bell.

Of all the regulars, the most visible is Douggy. I know his name only
because some of the employees greet him with the same infectious
enthusiasm that the regulars on Cheers greeted Norm. They gleefully
call out his name, and instantly have ready for him his favorite
beverage along with a cookie or brownie. They watch for him; when
someone notices Douggy in the parking lot, it’s a race to the door to
let him in, and accompany him to the café where his favorite
table, or one close to it, is cleaned off, and where he is served.

Douggy is most visible because he arrives via the county bus-taxi
service in a large and brightly painted motorized wheelchair, and
because he is carefully fed his cookie or brownie by the blonde girl
who works behind the counter, as they carry on a conversation only she
can really understand.

People stare, and whisper, as people are wont to do. Most of the
regulars smile and wave their fingers when Douggy arrives,
acknowledging him as one of us. A person and not a sideshow.

The day I inadvertently sat at Douggy’s table, engrossed in my own work
(or perhaps a game of computer Scrabble; it’s hard to remember, but
with my work ethic…it was probably Scrabble), no one said anything, but
as the door to the bookstore was held open, my internal voice piped up,
and I casually moved to another table.

Confetti did not pour from some hidden spot in the ceiling. No one
cheered or offered me a bright and shiny mylar balloon for my
consideration. My moving was expected; not required, but expected. Kind
of like what anyone would do if they were perched upon Norm’s Cheers
stool. The courteous thing to do is move, without fanfare and without
expectation.

There’s another guy I see here quite often. He sits with his back to
the window, holding a coffee cup between his hands, and watches people
in the café. Well, he stares. And he doesn’t seem to care that
people not only realize he’s staring at them, but it makes them
uncomfortable. I tend to think of him as “Creepy Guy” (not to be
confused with the old man at the YMCA pool who stares at me while I
swim. He’s “Creepy Old Guy.”)

I’m not sure I’ve ever seen Creepy Guy take a sip from the coffee cup
he holds possessively between his hands. As far as I can tell, he just
buys the thing to have a reason to sit there and stare.

There’s an older couple (older than me, in any case, and these days I’m
quite happy to find people older than me out and about) who are here
almost every time I am. They each buy a coffee and a freakishly huge
cookie, then sit at a table for two, where they talk about their
grandkids (perfect little angels, of course, even the one who whipped
it out and peed on the fake tree at the mall food court), the trips
they’ve taken (making me want to go see the World’s Biggest Ball Of
Twine, too), and their finances. That last one usually sparks a tense,
teeth-clenched, under-the-breath argument about shoes she doesn’t need,
and tools he’s too stupid to use correctly. As far as I can see, he
hasn’t yet cut a finger off, but she reminds him that he did sand a
hole through one of the chairs that goes to her grandmother’s antique
dining set.

That shuts him up for a minute, and I’m pretty sure she’s headed to the
mall and every store that sells spiffy new shoes. Often—though not as
often as I see other people—there’s this young woman (25 or
thereabouts) who brings her young son; most of the time she has just
bought him a new book, and he sits at the table, pretending he can
read. His face is unusually serious for a three year old, but it’s a
seriousness borne of determination: he will read the entire text of If
You Give A Mouse A Cookie before they leave. When he’s done, he slams
the book closed and proclaims “That’s just not right.”

I’m not sure what’s not right. Mice do like cookies; I’ve seen one try
to carry off an entire Oreo. And I’d think that if you did give a mouse
a cookie, or a part thereof, you’d be obligated to follow through.

There’s usually an odd assortment of FrankenWalkers, kids just learning
to master their own feet, and quite often they’re fascinated by what
must be extremely new shoes. They walk with their heads down, staring
at the contraptions Velcroed in place; I now understand this, having
recently acquired a spiffy new pair of red, white, and blue Converse
Chuck Taylor’s. Yes, for the first day or so, I frequently watched my
feet, enthralled by the canvas pseudo-flags sticking out from the
bottom of my jeans.

It’s not a midlife crisis thing. Not even accounting for the fact that
last year I bought a shiny red convertible. Nope.

Do I wonder what the other regulars think about the middle aged
housewife who sits there with a notebook or sometimes a laptop
computer, scribbling away, dressed like a backwards teenager?

Sometimes. But I’m fairly sure I’m not as interesting to them as they
are to me. At least not on the days I’m not talking to myself.

Once in a while, kids (especially those who are there often) will walk
up and ask what I’m doing (and as tempted as it is, I’ve never answered
“writing porn, go ask Mommy what that is!”) and start a conversation to
the horror of their parents—parents who were paying such close
attention that they failed to notice when their precious offspring
wandered away.

Most of them are attracted by my jacket; that’s my assumption, spurred
on by a two year old who pointed at me and squealed “Fag!”

That’s toddler-speak for “flag.”

Right?

The thing about the regulars: while we acknowledge each other, we do
not speak to each other. It’s silent courtesy; we know we’re not there
to socialize for the most part. Some of us are there to write the next
Great American Novel, some are there to scratch out the Perfect Term
Paper, some to unwind, to reconnect with the person on the other side
of the same table, but we’re not there to make friends. Any details we
know about one another are discovered only through bits and pieces of
overheard conversations.

Until today.

Douggy has not been seen in the café in over a week. His absence
has been noticed, definitely, but people miss days here and there.
Being at the café from 1-3 p.m. is not a requirement, and there
is Real Life out there. So the first few days of Douggy’s absences were
noted, but not with concern.

But today Creepy Guy put his cup down on the table, and asked of no one
in particular, “Where’s Douggy?”

Everyone looked up from what they were doing and glanced at Douggy’s
vacant table. Not only was Douggy not there, but the blonde who always
greeted him with an explosive smile and cookies, who patiently fed him
and wiped his chin of crumbs and dribbles, always with the utmost care
and respect, was also absent.
So today we talked, comparing mental notes. “When did you last see
him?” “How was he? Looking tired? Happy? What?” “What about the girl?
Anywhere around so we can ask her?”

We moved from our respective spots and sat together, wondering out loud
where the kid with the bright grin and killer wheels was. As far as we
could figure out, no one had seen him in at least a week. Neither had
we seen the blonde girl.

Our loud conversation caught the ear of the other girl working behind
the café counter; she set aside her towel and came over to us,
pulling over a chair from another table.

The blonde is Douggy’s sister.

And Douggy, who evidently refused to allow his disability to get the
better of him, bravely driving his brightly painted wheelchair on even
the busiest of streets, entered a crosswalk at precisely the moment the
driver of a minivan chose to answer her cell phone.

She took her eyes off the road just long enough to miss the fact that
the kid in the wheelchair had rolled off the sidewalk. Just long enough
for her to plow into him at full speed. At 45 miles an hour.

Douggy never had a chance.

The silence that fell over the two tables we occupied was an
uncomfortable pause of concern; in a movie it would have exploded like
a spent bubble, anger demanding retribution, the driver of the
minivan’s head on a platter.

One by one we retreated to our former tables. And then one by one
people left. Students went to their classes. The older couple headed
out, and as he shoved his empty cup into the trash can he commented on
the sale at shoe store just down the street. The café girl went
back to work, cleaning the counter.

I looked at my too-expensive toddler soda, wondering what I should
think. What I should feel. I did not know Douggy, not in the least. I
do not know what caused him to live out his life in a motorized
wheelchair, or even how long he had been in it. I never guessed that
the blonde was his sister.

I never thought to ask.

I never presumed to strike up a conversation with Douggy or his sister.
Or anyone else.

I’m here to work.

I come in here and pay too much money for too little drink, so I can
work.

Creepy Guy pushed himself up with a loud sigh, crumpling the foam
coffee cup in his hand. He paused before heading for the door, and
looked at me. Not in my general direction, but at me, he looked into my
eyes.

“I’ll see ya around,” he said. “Take care.”

*~*~*~*

You don't need your phone while you're driving. You just don't.

Get a dash mount if if use it for navigation, turn the voice commands on, and leave it alone. Pull over if you get a text you have to take. Pull over if you get a call you want to answer. But keep your hands off the phone and your eyes on the road.

Sunday

Wednesday

The second book of The Wick Chronicles hit the shelves in hardback and for the Kindle (and Kindle apps). If you liked The Emperor of San Francisco, you'll really like Ozoo.

Trust me. I wouldn't lie.

The paperback will be out...soonish, I suppose. It'll look identical to the hardback, but will be a couple bucks cheaper.

If you really want cheap, get the Kindle version. I highly recommend it. Why pay more? (though if you find it for free online, that's bootleg and I earn nothing, which makes me grumpy.

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The annual Battle for the Fireplace has begun. Every freaking day, whether it's cold or not, Max pesters the snot out of me to turn it on. Half the time (when he wins) he bakes in front of it for five minutes, then hops into his little cubby to cool off, but I don't dare turn it off or risk the wrath of his holiness.

I sit here sweating, because the thermostat is already set to 76 (Spouse Thingy is always cold) but hey, happy cat.

He's 15. For the most part, he gets what he wants.

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Facebook is eating my comments. If you think I post too much as it is, it's worse, and FB is deleting them randomly. It's bad enough when comments made on other peoples' posts go missing, but they're disappearing from my own. I have important chit to say, people! There are quizzes to take! How else will I know that I'm a genius when it comes to made up literature, and how else will people know what I think about the fact that their 8th cousin 6 times removed got a tattoo of feathers blowing in the wind?

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18 Days until the Doctor Who Christmas Special.

Whovimas!

And some of you are surely upset because people are telling you Happy Holidays instead of Merry Christmas, in spite of the fact that there are, like, 25 religious holidays this month. But no one seems upset that not a single person has ever wished me a Happy Whovimas. LIKE IT DOESN'T COUNT.

Am I offended?

Well...no. Not really. I'm not offended by being wished Happy Holidays, Happy Hanukah, Joyous Kwanzaa, or anything else. If you do get upset, it's probably time to check your sense of privilege. And your assholery. Because if it really bothers you that some people don't automatically wish you a Merry Christmas, or they have something other than a Christmas tree...you might be an asshole.

Embrace the spirit of the season, peoples, not the letter of your own religious law.

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Max's annual Toys For Tots run will be done this week; if not today, then tomorrow. The goal: fill the back of the CX-5.

And if you need another reason to pick up a copy of his books, that could be it. His royalties are truly used for charity and not his nip habit. The toy run every year is the Main Event, the one we have the most fun with.

Now, I'll be honest...if he ever hits it really big, we may ask him for a few bucks to pay off the house, but for now, he makes the charitable donations throughout the year.

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Doctor Who Quotes

There's something that doesn't make sense. Let's go and poke it with a stick.

We're all stories in the end. Just make it a good one, eh?

Every time you see them happy, you remember how sad they're going to be. And it breaks your heart. Because what's the point in them being happy now if they're going to be sad later? And the answer is, of course, because they're going to be sad later.

The way I see it, every life is a pile of good things and bad things. The good things don’t always soften the bad things, but vice versa the bad things don’t always spoil the good things and make them unimportant.

Do you know, in nine hundred years of time and space I’ve never met anyone who wasn’t important before.

If it’s time to go, remember what you’re leaving. Remember the best. My friends have always been the best of me.