Tag: purpose

My desire is to inspire you to ‘do what you need to do’, in order to ‘be who you want to be’. If you ever need to stretch yourself, I highly recommend trying something brand new and out of your comfort zone!

You could pick something like running a half marathon. This will help to move you forward and bring up all the beliefs you have hiding about yourself. Some of those beliefs might be, “It’s hard, I don’t like running, I don’t know if I can do this.”

When these beliefs surface realize it’s just a part of you that can never do or be enough that’s getting triggered. When those beliefs get triggered go back to focusing on what matters the most to you. How you do that is by asking yourself a few questions…What do I want? Be crystal clear about what you want?

Why do I want it? Get really clear about why you want it?

What strategy will I use? Am I clear about the strategy to get my desire?

Am I creating from the future version? As if it is already done. If not, imagine what it will be like having it, being it or doing it.

Do you have the courage to do what needs to be done to create your desire?

Answer those questions and see what comes up for you. When you can answer the questions above you will quickly get back on the right track. Are you stuck? If you can’t answer those questions, ask for help. If you need help, I’m a phone call away. You can schedule a complimentary breakthrough session with me by emailing me at Jolen@lighterWithin.com.

Today is my birthday and I have decided that this is the year to be my authentic self and stop hiding.

I realized that if I am to play a bigger game. I have to step out, which means let all of myself be known and seen.

I want to share a secret with you, one that I have been keeping close to my heart. Hidden from the world, for fear of being judged.

Today I decided to go public to let everyone know that I’m intuitive and channel angels. I have heard the voice of God ask, “If I wanted to live?” This was before I found out that I had breast cancer. I knew enough to ask what the other question was before I answered. The next question was, “Have I loved?” I thought of my son and said, “Yes,” but thinking of him and realizing that he is only 10 years old. I couldn’t leave him. Then, it dawned on me that I have a purpose and I have to fulfill it. I haven’t done what I came here to do. I couldn’t leave.

I didn’t know it at the time, but I just signed up to go through the worst eight years of my life. I went through a really bad divorce. A couple years later I had breast cancer and chemo while fighting my ex for my son in terrible custody suit, with on income. A year later survived kidney cancer. A couple of years later I left my country home of twenty-two years and moved to the city.

In the middle of a dark night I had a break down. I couldn’t take any more, enough is enough. I decided this had to stop. I had to change my life. I had to turn it around, which I did and slowly dug my way out of it.

The reason why I’m telling you this is, because I just wrote an e-book “The Power of Your Dreams: 5 Steps To Aligning With What You Want.” This is the same step by step process I took to turn my life around. It is how I got out of the nightmare I was living. I had to focus on my dream. When you have something new to focus on your life will change. I invite you to check out the e-book at…

I want to help you turn your life around and become the bright, happy person that you are meant to be. This is for you, if your life is not the way you would like. If, you need clarity on your dreams, so that you can live your life on purpose, doing what you love. Well look no further! You are in the right place. “The Power Of Your Dreams” e-book is for you! You will discover your hidden dreams. How to decide on what you really want and then build the belief within yourself that it is possible, that you really can have it. Get it here today…

Stay tuned for more exciting things that will be coming your way. I will be talking about how to bring spirituality into your business and how to come from the place of service. How to breakthrough the limiting beliefs, that you have around money, so that your business will thrive and so much more.

Are You Stuck On A Plateau? Have you ever notice, when you are first learning something new. It is hard to understand and even harder to do it right the first time, but you keep trying. After a lot practice it gets easier. Then one day, you realize what once was hard, is now ease to do. It has become part of your everyday life. You do not even give it a second thought, until you have to learn something new again and the cycle continues.

After you learn something new have you ever noticed that you hit a plateau? It seems that you can’t go past a certain part. Take weight loss for example; you eat healthily and move your body daily. The weight seems to melt away, and then one day you plateau. No matter what you do your weight stays the same.

Did you know that when you hit a plateau it has a purpose? It gives you time to re-elevate what you have just learned, adjust to what you have just learned, and helps you get used to where you are now. Once that has happened you adjust and you are ready to learn something new again. Next time you feel a little impatient with yourself. Stop and check to see, if you are on a plateau. If so be kind to yourself, as you will be learning something new very soon.