How to Lick Pussy

Oral sex can make a great foreplay activity or it can be a great sex act
all on its own, and not just a prelude to sexual intercourse. Not all
women can have an orgasm from vaginal stimulation alone—in fact, the
vast majority can’t. Surveys have shown that something like three
quarters of women require clitoral stimulation to have an orgasm. There
are other reasons that some women may prefer oral sex as well; some
women find intercourse painful (this is more common than you might
think). Oral sex is also a great way to have safe sex without worrying
about birth control. Practical reasons aside, it offers you yet another
way to connect to your partner and have a good time.

For some partners, oral sex is a form of foreplay, while for others
it may be the main activity. If it’s going to be the main activity for
you and your partner, you might want to do some additional foreplay
first to warm up for the main act. If oral sex is your foreplay, it can
really give your sex life a boost if you have timing problems during
intercourse. Premature ejaculators can sometimes solve their problem
just by getting their timing to match with their partner’s this way.
Women typically need significantly more time than men to get aroused to
the point where they can climax, so licking pussy can help your partner
get to the point of arousal where she can climax at the same time as you
during intercourse.

Getting Into Position

One thing which
is sometimes overlooked in discussions about oral sex is getting into
position. It’s difficult to give good cunnilingus if you’re not well
positioned to do it. There are actually dozens of different positions
you can get into for cunnilingus. These positions can all be fun to
try; only by experimenting will you find the positions which you and
your partner find most comfortable, effective, and enjoyable. While the
simplest position is just for your partner to lie down on her back and
you to lie down on your stomach between her legs, there are many other
ways you can do things: You can lie on your back and she can lie on top
of you with her legs spread, she can sit on your face, you can try
licking pussy while standing up and so on. Check out our sex positions
guide to get some ideas. You can also try to improve positioning by
using cushions or pillows to raise your partner’s pelvis while she’s
lying down. This will help open up her genital area and give you better
access.

What To Do When You’re Down

ThereThere’s a lot you can do when you’re delivering oral sex. While this
article is titled “how to lick pussy,” that’s hardly all there is to
it. You can try other techniques as well, like kissing or sucking or
even (if she’s open to it) lightly biting. You can even use your breath
to generate arousal by blowing on sensitive parts. You also will want
to learn your way around; men sometimes make the assumption that a
woman’s genital area revolves around either the vagina or the clitoris,
but it’s a complex area and every sexual partner you have may have
different centers of arousal.

The clitoris is the main organ of
arousal for the majority of women, and most women need clitoral
stimulation to have an orgasm, so that’s a good place to focus your
efforts if you don’t know where else to begin. You can also try
penetrating your partner’s vagina with your tongue, and stimulating
areas nearby like the inner thighs. Many women have very sensitive
labias as well, so try stimulating the skin around the clitoris.
Another
thing to consider while you’re giving oral sex is what you’re doing
with your hands. Oftentimes men make the mistake of thinking that oral
sex and fingering can’t go together. You can use your hands while
you’re using your mouth however to provide even more stimulation. This
can be helpful if you’re having precision problems. A lot of women have
trouble getting off during cunnilingus because it’s difficult to
achieve enough precision and friction with the mouth. Fingers can be
more effective. So try combining both to get an even better effect.
You also can use your hands to stimulate other parts of your partner’s
body.

Getting Feedback

There is a lot of feedback you can get from your partner with or without
asking. Pay attention to signs of arousal in your partner, such as her
breathing, any sounds she’s making, her pulse, and tension or
contractions in her abdominal or pelvic muscles. Some of the best
feedback you can get is verbal, however. Your partner might give you
specific instructions when you’re licking pussy. If so, by all means,
take those instructions into account and deliver. Don’t be afraid to
ask your partner for feedback during the experience either.

Sometimes
men and women both make the mistake of believing that they are expected
to perform perfectly when they give oral sex. This is very silly in
light of the fact that everyone is so different. There is no way you
could deliver amazing oral sex without getting to know your partner’s
body, no matter how many partners you’ve had in the past. You may be
nervous about asking for suggestions, but you shouldn’t be. Odds are
your partner will be glad to help you learn the ropes of her body, and
will appreciate that you’re willing to learn instead of just assuming
that you’re perfect at what you’re doing. It may seem deliberate and
may make you self-conscious at first, but most people adapt once they
learn how to talk about sex. Learning about how your partner
gets aroused is part of the intimacy of sex, so look at this as yet
another way to get to know your partner better and enjoy more
mindblowing sex.

Zinat Hanna is a full time writer who spends most of his time in
the coffee shops of Texas. Zinat has a BSc in psychology. Her
other interests are self improvement, general health, trans-humanism and
brain training. As well as writing for websites and magazines, she also
runs her own sites and has published several books and apps on these
topics. She lives in Texas, USA with her boyfriend and in her spare
time she enjoys climbing, travelling, playing games, reading comics and
eating sandwiches.

About Me

Zinat Hanna is a full time writer who spends most of his time in
the coffee shops of Texas. Zinat has a BSc in psychology. Her
other interests are self improvement, general health, trans-humanism and
brain training. As well as writing for websites and magazines, she also
runs her own sites and has published several books and apps on these
topics. She lives in Texas, USA with her boyfriend and in her spare
time she enjoys climbing, travelling, playing games, reading comics and
eating sandwiches.