The Secret Keepers developed from a little Bible study. Created by author Dannah Gresh, Secret Keepers has now blossomed into an evening event that teach little girls that their mirrors do not define them. Described as the "most fun that a mother and daughter will have together," the Secret Keepers show girls that they are not alone in their insecurities or struggles with body and heart.

Most of us have secrets that we never share, but the reality we find when we do share is that all of our secrets are similar to those of others.

Another part of this event that brings you or your kids into the secret club is the "secret word" that you get from the speakers. It can unlock private messages for girls 8 to 12 that will help provide them a plan for their life that God has set for each of them.

Our children grow up way too fast, and before we know it they have passed out of the years when we parents have the most opportunity to influence. Secret Keeper events help us to mold our kids’ minds and give them what they need before they know they need it.

Ace McKay, author of "The Marriage Playbook, has been a musician for 26 years and radio veteran of 21 years. During that time he won the GMA/CMB 2009 Radio Station of the Year. E-mail at AceMckay@gmail.com.