WAIT BEFORE CALLING EX

Getting back with someone who broke up with you really is an artform. It requires skill and luck, patience, perserverance and knowledge.

Most of all, it requires near perfect timing.

Knowing when you should get back in touch with an ex boyfriend is a tricky thing. You want to leave him alone for a while, but you also want to keep yourself in the back of his mind.

Wait too long to get back in touch after the breakup, and you could lose him for good. But try calling or contacting too soon? Well, that's sure to drive him hard in the opposite direction.

So when can you call your ex? How long should you wait before texting or getting back in touch with him? Is there a hard, fast rule?

Even better, are there ways of getting HIM to call YOU?

Why No Contact is Important After a Breakup

Right now you're probably going through some of the worst heartache of your life. You're not hungry. You're not interested in anything. All you can think about is your ex boyfriend, and how lonely it is without him.

That's because you MISS him.

In order for your ex to want you again, he's first going to need to miss you. And in order to miss you, guess what?

You're going to have to go away.

It only makes sense: if you're still hanging around, if you're still making yourself visually and emotionally available, if you're still trying to call or contact or text your ex boyfriend, chances are good he doesn't miss you at all. That's because he still has you. In one form or another.

Now let's pretend you haven't called your ex at all. You didn't run to Facebook to change your status, like a jilted little girl. You haven't been stalking his Facebook page, or liking his posts, or checking his Instagram or any of the things you used to do when the two of you were together.

Your boyfriend, of course, knows this. That's because after the breakup, he's looking back at you. Knowing you still want him is comforting. But not seeing you at all? it's discomforting, disquieting, and over time, it can even make him question the decision to break things off.

There are 12 unforgivable mistakes people make when trying to fix an unwanted break up. Make more than two or three of these, and getting him back will be an uphill battle. Learn what these mistakes are, which ones you're guilty of, and how you can stop making them. Do all this, and in no time at all, your ex will be missing you so much it'll make him see you in a whole different light.

Rekindling Old Feelings After the No Contact Phase

If you think back to the origins of your relationship, you'll remember a time when everything was golden. You and your boyfriend never fought. You couldn't stand to be apart from each other. The two of you texted and called all the time, he did sweet things for you, and every time you fell into bed you had mindblowing sex.

This stage of the romance is where the two of you forged deep-seeded connections and emotional bonds. Those types of feelings blossomed as you continued seeing each other. They grew roots. They formed the foundation of the relationship.

Now, when your boyfriend broke up with you? It's not because these connections suddenly evaporated. They didn't disappear overnight; in fact, they didn't disappear at all. Your boyfriend BURIED THEM in light of his decision to break things off.

Burying these feelings doesn't kill them. In time, yes, but not in the days or weeks that follow your breakup. Your ex is intentionally NOT calling you and NOT seeing you because any type of contact would only stir those feelings back up.

But wait... isn't this a good thing?

No, not if you want him back.

Throwing those emotional connections in your boyfriend's face will only make him angry right now. Right now, in his book, anything efforts like that on your part are purely self-serving. You're throwing those things at him to MAKE him love you. Not only will that not work, but in all honesty, you don't want to "make" your boyfriend do anything.

You want him to come to those conclusions on his own.

Any new relationship you have with your exboyfriend needs to be built on what he thinks to be his terms. With some knowledge on how to do this, and a little bit of practice, you can actually manipulate him into thinking this way.

There are fast-forward techniques you can use to accelerate the making up process, but only if you implement them subtly. They must be used carefully, and they must be executed at exactly the right time.

Starting With a Clean Slate - Ex Back Tips & Tricks

By far, the greatest voice when it comes to reconcilation is author T.W. Jackson. His e-guide, The Magic of Making Up has helped tens of THOUSANDS of people get back together through reversing an unwanted breakup.

Jackson is the inventor of the clean slate technique - a devious way for you to not just get your old relationship back, but to convince your exboyfriend to wipe clean the mess of the past and want a NEW relationship with you. Best of all, he'll want this more than anything else in the world.

Be sure to check out T.W.'s free opening moves video. It lets you figure out exactly which stage of the break up you and your ex are currently in, and then choose the right moves from that point foward. Get the on thing you need more desperately than anything else: a step by step plan.

After all... you weren't going to just dial your exboyfriend and totally wing it, were you?