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PERVERSE OR NORMAL? Do your kids give YOU backrubs and backscratches?

I was raised by a single mom...who's boundaries are just about non-existent...our relationship has been inconsistent and unusual at best.

I had no idea she taught my 3 year old to scratch her back with a back scratcher...which is weird but here is the thing THE SOUNDS SHE MAKES ARE ALMOST SEXUAL...

And it occured to me while talking to a friend...how possibly inappropriate what my mom had been with me, SHE TRAINED ME IN ELEMENTARY SCHOOL to give backrubs with LOTION, and even as a little kid her moans skeeved me out...i stopped in middle school when I realized no one else did that...not even my friends who also were raised by single moms....

so my question is...is this common? is it normal? Is it weird??

I am not talking a quick itch, done in a few seconds...I am talking minutes or longer...

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