Stop my spanking fetish

Though once considered deviant and shameful, today most psychologists lend us an entirely different view. Sexual fetishes are far more common than we think. A recent study published in the Journal of Sex Research, finds that one in three people in the US have taken part in one, at least once in their lives. Sex researchers are just starting to delve into the fetish world to see what can be gleaned from it.

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We were in bed, still in those heady, lust-filled days of a new relationship. I really liked her, suspected that I might even love her, which meant I had to tell her the truth about myself. She sat up to listen, and I trailed my fingers over her thigh, eyes down, nervous as a teenager. I was 30 years old and for the first time in my life I was going to tell a girlfriend that I wanted to spank her. No, not wanted to, needed to.

Is it Possible to Get Rid of a Fetish?

When I first wrote this post on 2 October I had no option but to password protect it. Family members read my blog, friends read my blog, and I was ashamed — no, terrified — of such people finding out the intricacies of my internal psyche. Three years later and I am not so ashamed. I have grown and evolved as a person.

October 12, Even before I really understood what sex was, I wanted to be spanked and punished. My family was a relaxed one and discipline very rarely featured; I was never spanked by any family member growing up, but I yearned for that experience.