how far will you go?

how far you you willing to go when dating someon. i meant in terms of first date, second date. just a kiss at the door, or would you go further. and this is for a realtionship that you want to go somewhere.

I like the whole drinks, dinnner, conversation first date...builds up a lot of sexual tension. Then, I build on the sex play at the end of each date....one glorious male on male experience after the other. No movie dates or anything where we can't get to know each other. Intimacy starts with the brain.

It has been my experience that sex on the first date is usually a sign that thats all the other guy is looking for. If youre serious about dating each other, things tend to go slower, and theres no need to rush into sex because theres plenty of time for that. I will say though, that a couple of times I was so attracted to the guy and I didnt want the evening to go to waste because the date didnt turn out so well and hes just not interesting enough to get to know, so i have gone all the way in those circumstances. Might as well get something outta the evening LOL.

If I want a serious relationship then I save sex for later.. what's important is to get to know each other better and to the smallest details. and connect better .... early sex may just send wrong messages .for me.. meeting the families is the really "going far" into the relationship.

First date, a kiss, maybe a really hot one, MAYBE a little groping if there amazing!

Second date, well, there allowed to explore a little, but they aint getting into my pants, everything above the equator.

Third, well, if I am still able to maintain self control (unlikely) then I'll be cruel as hell, you'll only get so far before I boot you out the door.Otherwise, I'll need some padding for my knees and you'd better come prepared!