A reader discovers she has feelings for her best girl friend and wants to know if she should tell her how she feels.

When I was 16 I realized that I might be bisexual. Now I am 17 and know I am. I am attracted to my best friend but she is always getting with guys. Then I saw her kiss another girl at a party. I feel really scared but I want to tell her how I feel. Should I?

__RS _

Dear RS, This is a tough one. Even though I get approximately 457 emails a day from girls who want to know if they should tell a guy if they like him, its different when youre considering spilling the beans to another girl. The headline here is: Proceed With Caution.