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Sunday, 27 November 2016

LIB Exclusive: How Maje Ayida gave me STDs - Toke Makinwa

TV personality Toke Makinwa released her much talked about book "On Becoming" a few hours ago, and it's quite revealing.
If and when you do get the book, you may want to breeze through chapter 8 of the book. The chapter is titled "Hurt" and it tgives detailed insight and shocking revelations of her relationship with her ex hubby who she says gave her STDs.

113 comments:

He gave u STDs and ur still living an shining all these while huh? TOKE ALL THESE apc cook LIES PLEASE IS IT TO SELL UR BOOKS OR WHAT HUH? i understand how u feel but don't accusing the guy of some thing he didn't do. IF HE GAVE U STD THAT MEANS HIS BABY MAMA AND SON ARE STD PATIENCE TOO. Reading this book will create more hatred for this gu freeborn will not read it i better read how TO DEVIDE NIGERIA THAN FUCKERS,BABY MAMAS AND STD PATIENCE.

Super story season 2!He gave u STDs and ur still living an shining all these while huh? TOKE ALL THESE apc cook LIES PLEASE IS IT TO SELL UR BOOKS OR WHAT HUH? i understand how u feel but don't accuse the guy of some thing he didn't do. IF HE GAVE U STD THAT MEANS HIS BABY MAMA AND SON ARE STD PATIENCE TOO. Reading this book will create more hatred for this gu freeborn will not read it i better read how TO DEVIDE NIGERIA THAN FUCKERS,BABY MAMAS AND STDs PATIENCE.

lmaooo. women oh women!! women are so cheap! see how this fool has come out to cry foul. I'm sure this bitch is the one who gave the man std, because bitches would do anything to get public sympathy. Now that we know she has STD, I will advice all sane men to stay away from this bitch before she gives them STD too.

Abeg, Toke Makinwa should go and pack shit jare. When she was byforcing Maje to marry her she did not know. When he stood her up the first time at the registry because he did not want to marry her, She did not rest. She still byforce herself to snatch and marry him, now she's writing rubbish books upandan. What of all the "Zakwa" and "sweetie" she gave him? Was she not a sleeparound girl herself???? . The scratchie scratchie she got after Maje left her nko? Who gave her? Maje's picture abi??? Mtschew

Abeg, Toke Makinwa should go and pack shit jare. When she was byforcing Maje to marry her she did not know. When he stood her up the first time at the registry because he did not want to marry her, She did not rest. She still byforce herself to snatch and marry him, now she's writing rubbish books upandan. What of all the "Zakwa" and "sweetie" she gave him? Was she not a sleeparound girl herself???? . The scratchie scratchie she got after Maje left her nko? Who gave her? Maje's picture abi??? Mtschew

Abeg, Toke Makinwa should go and pack shit jare. When she was byforcing Maje to marry her she did not know. When he stood her up the first time at the registry because he did not want to marry her, She did not rest. She still byforce herself to snatch and marry him, now she's writing rubbish books upandan. What of all the "Zakwa" and "sweetie" she gave him? Was she not a sleeparound girl herself???? . The scratchie scratchie she got after Maje left her nko? Who gave her? Maje's picture abi??? Mtschew

So Toke has turned this her breakup and divorce from Maje to a money making venture? Why is she just embarrassing the guy? Does she think she is in America where you write tell all book? How would her current man rate her? That she will also write a book on him when they break up? She is a big fool. Maje you better sue her if she embarrasses you. It's not do or die thing. Let her move on without dragging your name in the mud. I see her actions as a bring Down syndrome . If she can't have you then let no other. Devil of a woman.

Bia this wanna be go and sleep....make we hear word...you are.not the only divorcee on earth..you think say marriage na by forming English and the yeye ajebota wey you no be...do you ever wonder why the so called local babes keep their marriage while you wt all your fake makeup and fake accent kud not..abeg leave. Maje and Anita alone.go find person wey go manage you for third wife...Yeye lagos adamma...originality is d key..abi you no dey shame for all dez nonsense wey you dey post for here. How sure are we you did not give Maje the Std...abeg go park well jor...reality don hammer you..old mama youngy..you dey find tall guy..i still love you though no hating..but stop seeking attention like a baby...inbox me beau..

Linda you are so disgusting, nosy and stupid. You exhume a lot of negative energy, so of all the book content, this is the part that you chose to review? Please don't post this....but you at least get to read my comment.

Hian...Do we need to know all this? Seems like her whole life was centered on this one man. And she had the galls to give relationship advice to women. Rebuild yourself and forget this story please. Telling this story will not add anything to your life..IMO..and if really this book was about letting go and not a money making franchise from an overpublicized divorce..it should be free...on your blog or where women who could 'learn' from it can easily access it.

Toke, she claims she is a Christian and if so, no matter what the husband might have done, she needs to let sleeping dogs lie. Her ex found Love in another woman, Toke should let the man be. She has gone to a new low by saying Maje gave her STDS. Even if it is a fact, tarnishing his image in such fashion wouldn't win her much sympathy. She is only succeeded in making people sympathize with the man. Toke, try and be a Christian and leave Vengeance for God. Just like Kim Kardashian Humiliated her former Husband, Kris Humphrey to the World by divorcing him after 72 days in their marriage, she is now been Humiliated by God by her new husband

Loool.. My darling Freeborn is STD and not HIV. STD, she must have treated it before having her baby. Still laughing @ the mother and baby being STD patient.. Oh you said patience.😂😂😂. You Rock sometimes Freeborn, keep making us laugh!

If you like write an encyclopedia there are three sides to every Story,ur own version,the accused version and the truth version,writing a book does not tell us the truth u have said your own if mr hubby open your own can of worms...U are not as innocent as u make it look,if u marry ur husband well, no woman would take him away from you.he choose wot is beta for him abeg deal with it biko....

I'm sorry but all this is leaving a bad taste in my mouth. If I were a man interested in her I would run like hell. Who is to say she won't write a tell all book about him too. I get that she wants to make money by force but this is is too much. There are some things that should stay private

Hmmmmm everything nowadays na ventures ohhh Toke now using ibo sense to turn break up in book and bizness. Even movies So the ladies or guys that have been hurt in d past or are hurting should start book launch? OkMe no job has been hurting me since so I'll start writing articles buh who weeee buys?

Dear Linda please help me ask ms toke that she bleached her skin cos of a man,from black to white,she was ready to do all to please a man why then is she shouting when her effort where not good enough,writing epistles would never make a Kia be like a Mercedes no Mata how fine the Kia is.the Mercedes stand out and he hve chosen a mercedes.EQD

*Goosebumps if its trueAll these just to be Mrs. SomebodyI can imagine Maje telling each of them that the other is better than them in bedSo Toke trying to outdo AnitaAnita trying to outdo TokeWhile he the master if ceremony enjoys both women, eeew

Stay away from fornication, people won't hearPresent your bodies a holy and acceptable sacrifice to GodNot easy but possibleLet us all return to God in sincerity and see how better lives will be

I really think this is not way to go. Let ur past be ur past. U went thru it and u came out alive. This is way to low. U r still giving him toomuch credit. A strong woman ll never go this route. Don't empower ur past one minute Toke! Women go thru worse situations. U must learn from it, move on and move up. I do hope to speak to u someday. U ve just empowered Maje with all this book. I promise u that. U have made him a hero. Where r ur advisers? This is not way to go my dear

Toke is just behaving like a sore loser, why write all these about him? Were you not ready to stay put, if not that the pregnancy of the intruder Anita surfaced? You're just trying to cash in on this and probably punish him. Does it mean that you didn't do some stupid things during your affair with him? Should he write his own book and drag You? Should intruder Anita write her own nonsense book and also expose your own fuck ups? Let the writings begin......yeye people. Pity people who will but this dumb book.Losers!!!!I'm not interested, bye Felicia.

Toke is a loser, a bitter ex, who wouldn't move on. You fought for his love for 12 yrs and forced marriage and yet lost out to Anita his heartrob and now you want to make money from your 12 years loss. Shame on you!

Toke is just behaving like a sore loser, why write all these about him? Were you not ready to stay put, if not that the pregnancy of the intruder Anita surfaced? You're just trying to cash in on this and probably punish him. Does it mean that you didn't do some stupid things during your affair with him? Should he write his own book and drag You? Should intruder Anita write her own nonsense book and also expose your own fuck ups? Let the writings begin......yeye people. Pity people who will but this dumb book.Losers!!!!I'm not interested, bye Felicia.

Maje is a hero, Toke a loser, this book shows how weak she is, and they keep calling her a strong woman, I can see why he refused to settle with Toke even with her popularity and bleaching and make ups. I can't deal.

Maje is a hero, Toke a loser, this book shows how weak she is, and they keep calling her a strong woman, I can see why he refused to settle with Toke even with her popularity and bleaching and make ups. I can't deal.

Maje is a hero, Toke a loser, this book shows how weak she is, and they keep calling her a strong woman, I can see why he refused to settle with Toke even with her popularity and bleaching and make ups. I can't deal.

Toke wants to buy a house in banana island like Linda, carry go. After this one write another one on how he was drinking and sleeping with ashawo, this is so low. Wow! And some nosy Nigerians will buy this book. Waoh, I used like Toke, but this is it for me. Not responsible at all.

I am beginning to loss my respect for Toke; how could she write a book just because she had a broken marriage? It means other women/celebrities that had broken marriages should also write their own books, flooding the books shops. Writing a book about how she got STD/STI. Toke you have no secrets, your next partner will be scared on how you would expose your bedroom secrets in future. You fall my hands dear, wisdom is not knowledge!!! Sorry you

Linda has her annoying moments but this case is not one of them...this section of the book was going to go viral sooner or later.

If I were anita..I will sue her to hell and back for mentioning my name in her book. MstCheww. I can pity some women who have been misled in relationship but not toke. She likes forming I too know...giving stupid and unnecessary advices to gullible women..advices she didn't even take...now everything has fallen apart and she's looking for sympathy from the public. Strong woman my foot. I have met strong women..toke makinwa is not one of them. She is an attention seeker. And maje was completely wrong to cheat on her...but she laid down the groundwork for her embarassment all through the 10 years of her relationship. I'm actually starting to feel sorry for anita.

The way they are even ignoring her is making sense. I mean it's okay for her abeg. He was seriousy crucified for cheating already. There is a kind of case that requires this kind of story...not when you acted like a pushover for more than a decade, then you are suddenly demonising the man and crying wolf to attract pity.

In this recession someone (a non-entity) decides to write a book on some useless and wayward way she lived her life...and her fellow foolish celeb and socialites will attend the senseless book launch and I am sure even give millions to buy the book, some young Sisi trying to hurry to get the book . And carry over their school work in the process.Fueling mediocrity and foolishness....while some smart people write books and invent things daily, they are not noticed. I wonder what people take us for...I am sure the likes of wole Soyinka will just be disgusted. I am really sad!!!

STD and STI are the same, well am not enthused about the book. But maybe that's her way of dealing with it. She should sit tight cos of the back lash. Toke am not justifying what he did, but some have done worse, try and forgive, you may not forget. And live your life. You've given him too much time.

Much respect for Toke's brutal truth telling at the hands of a good-for-nothing man. Let those who have ears hear bcos this is not for the faint of heart. Indeed, many Naija women go thru this, if not worse, at the hands of many randy men (abi he-goats) but lack the courage to speak up bcos they must maintain the status quo. Even more sad, is how these same women attempt to intimidate and hush Toke from speaking her truth and perhaps, healing. Talk about yeye pipo. The Lord is your strength Toke now and always.

It's amazing how some anonymous are flooding the comment section to abuse Toke. Everyone goes through heartbreak but how many people do so publicly ?No one forced this guy to get married, no one forced him to marry her, and no one forced him to cheat. If the book is going to help her heal, let him take it like a man.

Toke, i wanted to keep calm all this while but this your write up has pushed me to say a word. Swear if you have not cheated on Maji ever since you knw him as ur husband. If u dear swear, you will die before day break. On 27th of July 2014, don't forget what happened between us while you are still married to maji. From that 27th till you divorced Maji we have being getting along .if you dear say a word about this i will release some photos online. Don't push me to do that. I guess you knw who is writing by now? Have a nice day. Write me here for private conversation if you wish to have more details. Risonferguson@yahoo.com

this Toke is so stupid to think she is destroying maje but she will end up destroying herself. can you imagine what she said about someone u were once married to. you shared some part of your life with this guy for Pete sake. pls Toke stop trying to be relevant in d society bcos u are not. I can clearly see the reason Maje seek attention outside you are such a bitter old lady

People are very dumb in this country if a white person writes an autobiography and spills lots out y'all will hail him or her but one one of you has some that you're here putting her down awon oloriburuku gbogbo

ooooh TOKE this chinch of a woman stfu! you are irritating the heck out of us. did maje hypnotize you? did he tie you to him? come one girl your low self esteem is a world record breaker my gosh! fyi men dont come out straight to tell a woman it is over, they act up and then a lady see's the signs that he is no longer into them and walks away. maje gave you enough signs ooo that he dosnt want but you forced your self on him. and to think that you have a vlog that advice's ladies on relationships. to all the ladies to listen to her stupid advice see your role model!!! Your book is stupid and you are as well.attention seeker MTN! See the way you are talking like a saint as if you didnt date married men. your nemesis is just beginning.

Ms Toke for too long, sold an alternative life to young girls via her YouTube videos not knowing she was going through bad experiences with a man she couldn't let go off. I feel her pain but her gullibility played a large part here. She's gone on to give several other terrible advice to young ladies to engage in 1 night stands and so. Well, I hope you heal and start a new phase.

Toke, i tot u are a 1-nite-stand proponent. wetin concern agbero with overload? Notwithstanding, u dint think of the boomerang effect this info will cost you. I tot you have class but u are so cheap even to have contacted STI.

I too know Toke.Fakest person in Lagos,thinking you know anything when you don't know nothing.Go siddon well for dirty. Where you not aware of Anita while you were dating Maje,this is what happens when you force yourself on a guy.

In the history of my existence, i have never seen a woman as bold and courageos as Toke Makinwa, it took 6months of pains, tears and 44min of washing one plate for my friend to upon to me on her abusive relatiuonship, we live in a society where ladies dont say it the way is in such relatioships, Toke did not only confide in her friends nor family, but the world at large, thank you for speaking the minds of many women acrosS the Globe who are passing through or have passed through such "BUT ARE NOT AS BOLD AS YOU", i encourage ladies to pick a copy of Toke's book, it might help in a way, #yougotmyrespectbabe#

My Surprise; is that a babymama was able to keep the man TOKE lost. Why, bcos she's got the cool.My Disappointment;is that, after TOKE lost out, she went on a blame noisy game.My Advice;Toke search your soul, are you a lady enough to keep a man. And if things were wrong, HOW CAN YOU ADDRESS THEM.**We're tired of all these baby with feeding bottle (TOKE et al) grabbing a dick way too early.

Grow up young lady

And next time you meet a MAN; Learn how to keep him...guess not with this show of lousiness

My Surprise; is that a babymama was able to keep the man TOKE lost. Why, bcos she's got the cool.My Disappointment;is that, after TOKE lost out, she went on a blame noisy game.My Advice;Toke search your soul, are you a lady enough to keep a man. And if things were wrong, HOW CAN YOU ADDRESS THEM.**We're tired of all these baby with feeding bottle (TOKE et al) grabbing a dick way too early.

Grow up young lady

And next time you meet a MAN; Learn how to keep him...guess not with this show of lousiness

All these personal info in your book are for what please? What do you want us to say? That it was obvious you were not mature enough to understand that he loved Anita more than you? You thought that marriage was going to make him stick to you?

Please Toke, park one side because we all have our personal problems but we should not go around telling everyone

MAY GOD PUNISH ALL THE WOMEN WHO HAVE DECIDED TO BE ON MAJE'S SIDE. WOMAN KILL WOMAN, WHEN ARE WE GOING TO EVER SUPPORT OURSELVES?? WERE YOU THERE IN THEIR MARRIAGE?? WHAT HAPPENED TO STAYING INDIFFERENT, MUST YOU TAKE SIDES?? ANYBODY THAT SAYS SOMETHING DISRESPECTFUL TO MY GIRL TOKE, MAY AMADIOHA FAYA YOUR YANSH DIA...Linda, take note. Luv you too gurl.

Back to sender in Jesus name Amen. I should side with Toke right? A woman who decided to belittle her self for 12 years fighting over what does not belong to her, now that she has totally lost out, and wants to make money out of her wasted stupid years, you want me to start clapping for her. Please if anybody is not on your side, don't take it personal, We have our own different perspectives. Women supporting women is over hyped.

illiteracy is better than half baked you know? An illiterate will admit his or her ignorance but, the half baked will see himself as the best and will be living in a fool's paradise. Toke said she contracted stds from the man and someone in his ignorance said in that case, the man's wife and kids would have stds too. Stds are diseases yes but not one disease. it means Sexually Transmitted Diseases. It might be gonorrhea, it might also be a such of toilet diseases or syphilis not necessarily HIV. Please this platform is opened to none Nigerians too, therefore before we comment we should be informed about the subject matter. Because i've realised some people are just attention seeker they just want to say something.

Women, be careful of where you feed and take your advice from. The fact that a woman went through such, does not mean that is gonna be your portion. It is your life. Live well. Avoid negative thoughts. Your boyfriend or gf aint a suspect. Chase your dreams within the circle of your love ones.

She is not trying to tarnish him, she is trying to be strong and reach other ladies. These USELESS Nigeria men will always see reason why u should cover up their dirty deeds. The old fool is 44 years old , 44 for heavens sake and toke is just 31 now. These useless guys going for gullible younger girls. Like he honourned the marriage, pls shut up