How To Get Sexual Pleasure Without Intercourse

Whether you’re stuck without protection or just want to try something different, getting sexual pleasure without intercourse can sometimes be just as good as the real thing. It takes some ingenuity and exploration, but you and your partner can still get each others’ motors running without intercourse. Use some of the following ideas to spice up your sex life – no intercourse necessary.

Deep, sensual massages. Admittedly, this doesn’t sound like it’s very closely associated with sexual pleasure. But don’t knock it until you try it. Take turns getting and giving a long, relaxing massage. Use plenty of massage oil, and maybe even set the mood with some music and lighting. Focused in the right areas, they can be much more stimulating than you’d think. And as a bonus, she’ll absolutely love it.

Kissing, touching, and caressing. Everyone who’s ever been a teenager has enjoyed this form of sexual pleasure at least once. A soft kiss on the neck and ear are extremely stimulating, as you probably already know. So don’t be afraid to get in touch with your high school past. Put on a background movie or drive to your favorite spot and make out for awhile. There’s nothing quite like the chills you get when someone whispers in your ear.

Dry humping and manual stimulation. Just because you’re not having intercourse doesn’t mean you can’t imitate intercourse. It’s a different type of pleasure, certainly; but the hot-and-heavy, passionate kind of atmosphere that dry humping creates is akin with actual sex. If you’re really getting into it, use your hands to maximize the pleasurable experience and invite her to do the same.

Mutual masturbation. The first time you and your partner masturbate together, it can be a little weird. After all, it takes time to get the hang of being intimate with someone else while trying to focus on yourself. But don’t let that deter you. No one knows what you find sexually pleasurable better than yourself. And with mutual masturbation, you get control plus the extra stimulation of your partner close by. It’s pretty much just like having your cake and eating it too.

Oral sex. Of all the sex acts that don’t involve intercourse, oral sex is definitely one of the most popular. This, of course, is for good reason. Pleasure delivered orally is both potent and intimate. All things considered, oral sex is as close to intercourse as it gets stimulation-wise. If you and your partner haven’t done it in awhile, make the effort to get down there. Odds are you’ll be glad you did.