I am a picky biotch, and I will never lower my standards. Why? Because it is my body and if I don't want to sleep with someone then I will speak up and let my husband know!

Lucky me I get a lot of support from him. Sometimes he has to laugh at my pickiness although he would never pressure me!

Beverly Hills CA

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I am by my own admission one of the pickiest women on earth. And it doesn't only have to do with looks. Luckily for me my spouse is ok with that and doesn't try to change me.

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"How or did you get your partner to lower her or his standards a bit? No I'm not talking anything major, just down to average"

Is that you Spanky?

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Have her give me a call.

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I'm in a great relationship with an assume woman. She is very kinky and pretty open minded. She and I have enjoy several MFM. The issue that we have recently started talking about is her standards for judging kissability or fuckability.

Most of us can agree that a large part of swinging is about attraction/fantasy and fun(sex). A lot of what makes this fun is having that attraction... that ego boast when someone you find attractive is interested in you... At least that's how I think...

Ok... So what happens when your partner has such high standards that she rules just about everyone out? She is looking for attraction in both sides of the couple since she's bi. She is looking for something special about them (heck if I have figured it out yet), but she seems to gravitate toward couples that are edgy or GQ models or the 20year olds or some quality that I have yet to understand, but don't match to those listed already. So have any other couples gone thru something like this? How or did you get your partner to lower her or his standards a bit? No I'm not talking anything major, just down to average or above for what you expect in the 25-40 age bracket. Perhaps not "HOT" but "cute"..? Or did you eventually find the "HOT" that you both were interested in? For the most part the ones she has shown me haven't been interested in us or the schedules have been two hectic to meet. So I pose this question to the group in hopes of finding some solution to get her to be open to more possibilities than just the couples that she thinks of as "HOT".

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