5 Easy Steps To Get A Date At A Big Fat Indian Wedding

Weddings in India are a great time to go overboard with whatever you like and want. Be it a drinking spree, or a dancing spree, or just dressing up, you have it over the top every which way. If you've ever been to a big fat Indian wedding, you'd know the laws of attraction there, very easily. If it's a second or a third cousin, stay away! If she's from the opposite side of the party, make your game stronger! Besides dressing up to look like you belong at a wedding, women subconsciously dress up to be noticed by single men, because of course, the occasion calls for it!

So men, if you're ever at a big fancy wedding affair, and are looking to talk to or flirt with some women, there are some dos and don'ts and a shaadi decorum to follow through. You can't just go there are start hitting on every woman you see! That's just bizarre and unacceptable.

So, here are some tips to talk to those beautiful women at weddings , without feeling awkward and being weird!

Don't Get Too Drunk

Yes, alcohol is everywhere you breathe. It's a big fancy Indian wedding and unless the families have an issue with alcohol, it's probably more prevalent than some draught stricken areas in India. But that doesn't mean you drink the entire fountain! While getting drunk is great, it loosens your inhibitions, it's not okay to get too drunk also. Maybe you can offer the lady you're crushing on a drink and give her company with your drink? That way you drink with her and you don't go overboard!

Ps: Don't get her too drunk also! Reserve that for another time, when she consensually wants to go out drinking and have a fun evening with you.

Don't Be A Cliché

Women look beautiful at weddings so don't go starting with 'hey, looking beautiful' or any other cheesy line like that! Start with a proper conversation or a 'hi, are you enjoying yourself' and somewhere down the line, tell her she looks gorgeous. Of course all women want to know they look gorgeous, just don't start with that!

Make Her Comfortable

You may spot someone you like who probably knows no one else except the groom or the bride. If you are talking to her, make sure you keep her company and don't make her feel left out, just because she's awkward. Make her have some fun and introduce her to people, so she can converse with them too. Don't hit on her randomly and go away, she will feel a lot more awkward if you do that.

Do Your Due Diligence

If you like someone , go for it but also find out who she is and if she's from the same side of the party as you! If she's not, then ask someone who knows her about her and get to know who she is. Make sure you're in no way related to her, before you go talk to her. You might just be talking to your 5th cousin, you've never met, without you knowing it! So, it's always a good thing to find out whatever you can about the girl.

Ask For Her Number & A Possible Date

Don't just meet her and demand for her digits right then and there. Spend an adequate amount of time with her and get to know her better before you ask for her number or even for a date! Have fun with her at the wedding, take part with her in the ceremonies and dance your legs off with her.

Getting to know someone at a wedding isn't a head-scratcher at all, if you play your cards right. If she's into you, she will definitely hang with you, or find a way to you. Just follow these five simple steps and you're good to go!