同桌/tóngzhuō/deskmate座位/zuòwèi/seat将就/jiāngjiu/to put up with目瞪口呆/mùdèngkǒudāi/be dumbstruck大丈夫何患无妻/dàzhàngfu hé huàn wú qī/an ancient saying, but still common today, means a real man never worries about looking for a wife.