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Just an update from me....My tx did work.....kinda.....just got out of hospital after having yet another ectopic.Both tubes now gone.
Im ok though...onward and upwards as they say
Got to go back in 3 months to have a scan as they think that I have a cyst on one of my ovaries.
We have 4 blasts on ice so have to talk to them about fet....must admit im a little scared of another ectopic,but we shall see what they say.

I never realised this thread existed! Wondering whether there are any other trying again ladies who are finding things hard? I always thought that once I had managed to have a child that the pain of infertility would go but it doesn't does it?

It certainly doesn't ct...I was read an article about infertility that was certainly thought provoking saying that you don't ever lose those feelings they just aren't so relevant as time goes by. It sort of stays with you. I think I agree although I hope I don't always live my life dwelling on it. I didn't know this existed either!
I am surrounded by pregnant people at the moment...everywhere!

Curly tails I totally get where your coming from, I know I'm very blessed to have one I read some stories on here and feel ashamed that I want another when so many girls on here don't have any, I'm very greatful for ds but before fertility issues I always thought I'd be a mother of three, I didn't assume I could have three it's just something I though would happen, and I haven't given up hope that one day maybe I will, but right now if one more person in works asks if I'm preg and if not why not I may punch them lol
Life can be cruel and unfair but I'm luckier than a lot of others on this site who my heart breaks for when I read their journey, reading these stories sometimes buts it onto perspective sometimes.
I personally think these feelings will never go away, not for me anyway, I don't think it will take over my life but when friends start having baby number 2 I think it's gonna slap me in the face if I can't have anymore