Coaching

When it comes to your relationship, do you feel like you’ve tried everything?

Maybe you’re feeling stuck, like you know some outside perspective on your situation could make a world of difference?

Are you dragging your partner along for the ride in your relationship, rather than having your them show up fully for your adventure together?

Or perhaps you’re going through something particularly challenging – like a breakup, or finding out that your partner cheated on you – and need extra support and resources to get to the other side?

Or you could simply be wondering “is this all there is?” in your relationship – and not sure how to get it beyond “acceptable” to “truly amazing”?

Why try to figure it out alone?

One of the biggest problems is that most of us don’t learn HOW to have amazing relationships – ever. Even if you’ve got your own growth and healing covered – there’s a whole new level of skills required when you are interacting with another person. And that’s just something that we don’t learn in school.

A Custom Support Program for Individuals and Couples

That’s what coaching is for. To create a custom approach to not only help you get things back on track, but also to give you the healing, support, and skills required to take your life, and your relationship, to the next level. And the next. And the next.

My goal is to create a process that fits you and your situation perfectly.

In my work with couples and individuals as a coach and healer, I combine a variety of skills, training, and modalities to address your specific situation. I am fiercely committed to supporting you (or you and your partner) in being true to yourself, and experiencing the power of the alignment of who you be and how you are in the world. And finding ways to do that in thriving, intimate, partnership.

Our time together could include:

Practical “Coaching” (I’m certified in Strategic Intervention, developed by Cloe Madanes – founder of Strategic Family Therapy and Anthony Robbins, have trained with Katherine Woodward Thomas, creator of Conscious Uncoupling, and have also facilitated Gestalt Encounter Groups)

Healing Work rooted in shamanism and energy medicine (I have been studying Gabrielli LaChiara’s Infinity Healing Practice for four years, and I have completed training in Source Point Therapy with Bob Schrei)

Skills of Communication and Personal Growth/Healing work distilled from years of study, research, and conversations with the world’s top minds in this area (many of which you can hear on the Relationship Alive podcast)

Relevant exercises developed from improvisational theater and music

And more…I am always developing my skill set so that I can be the most effective supporter of YOU that I can possibly be

What you need to bring to our time together:

Openness to grow and look at yourself honestly.

Enthusiasm for the process.

Desire to take responsibility for your own life (don’t worry if you don’t have the skills yet – I’ll help you get there)

Commitment – typically three-six months is a good length of time. It can be shorter sometimes if what we’re working on is very specific.

Willingness to invest in yourself and in your relationship

If at all possible, and you want to work on an existing relationship, my preference is to work with you AS A COUPLE.

Due to demand, I am no longer able to offer discounted intro sessions. If you are interested in moving forward, please schedule an ACTUAL session with me. We will be able to get some great work done AND I will include a little extra time to get a feel for whether or not we’re a good fit to work together and chat about that. As I just mentioned, if you are in a relationship and it is possible for you and your partner to be there together, that would be my preference!

You can choose a 60-minute session if I’ll just be meeting with you OR choose a 90-minute session if I’m going to be seeing you with your partner.

The Thank-You screen will give you a link to my scheduler to set something up. If you don’t see anything that works for you, please feel free to email at the address provided (please be sure to include your TIMEZONE), and we will get something set up the old-fashioned way.

Podcast Reviews

I love almost all of the podcasts!! My only complaint is when he switched to putting his adds in the middle of everything after you’re engaged, tends to throw me off! Not sure about everyone else?

Not a Substitute for Therapy but Pretty Dang Close

July 4, 2019 by FreeziePop from United States

As a therapist myself, I use this as supplemental to my partner’s and my couple’s counseling with positive outcomes. Well produced show with extremely knowledgeable and well known/renowned guests (in the mental health field).

Remarkable Resource

July 1, 2019 by Brandon MS from United States

Neil is a gifted interviewer who brings information that is helpful for laypeople as well as professionals. I am a marriage and family therapist, as a busy mom and clinician I have found this podcast extremely helpful in pointing me toward what I want to invest time reading more about. I often forward podcasts to my clients to have them listen as well. Thank you Neil!

Great and helpful interviews

June 18, 2019 by Lazercats from United States

Neil has a great interview style and has interesting and knowledgeable people on his show. Very helpful for my relationships.

Self-help / relationship psych Podcast excellence!

June 7, 2019 by PNW_transplant from United States

Extremely professional interviewing style that lets the podcast guests shine and makes for informative, easy to absorb and learn from episodes. An excellent array of guests! Thank you for such a great resource!