I recently went on a cruise with my three children, niece and parents to the Bahamas. It was so memorable and the views were nothing short of breathtaking! No one in the group had been on a cruise before and I learned so much in the process that I wanted to help others who might be first time cruisers as well and write A First Timers Guide to Taking a Cruise.

A First Timers Guide to Taking a Cruise

My parents had always wanted to go on one, but they aren’t very well-traveled, since I am, I was extended an invite! Happily accepting, my mom and I began the planning process. We did end up booking the cruise via AAA Travel agent, locally, however it was still up to us to figure out when/where/how long, etc. Here’s the steps that helped us narrow things down:

Choosing the time of year to go: My Dad is a farmer, so that narrowed us down to cruising right after planting season. Spring, early summer or winter wouldn’t have worked for him to take vacation(a little insight about Farmers-THEY DON’T EVER TAKE VACATION)!!! So the fact that he had agreed to go, was a miracle! If your job works around weather or only allows you to take vacation at a certain time of year, you can narrow this down fairly easy. If you’re not limited, then decide, do you want to go somewhere where its warm or cold(such as Alaska)?

Narrow down what your vacation budget is– Throughout the year, prices change on the cruise lines. Most of the time there are discounts offered in one way or another. Driving can sometimes be cheaper than flying if you don’t live close to a port where the ship leaves from. In our case, Missouri is nowhere near any port and I was able to find airlines tickets via Southwest Airlines cheaper than what it would have taken to drive a Suburban(taking in effect 7 people) to Port Canaveral, via Orlando International Airport. Taking in consideration the cost of hotel, gas, food and car seats for my 3 children and what to do with those car seats once we are on the cruise, re-renting a suburban for the trip home, etc. If you’re having trouble figuring out what time of year to go, this step can help you. Having a budget in mind will further HELP YOU DETERMINE THE LENGTH OF CRUISE you want to take. Same thing as I mentioned before, you can save a lot on an inside state room vs. an ocean view with a balcony!

What destination do you want to go to- this is one of the hardest decisions! If you’re wanting to take a 2 week or more cruise, then you have plenty of options besides Alaska, Caribbean or Mexico. I personally would love to cruise the Mediterranean since I’ve been to the Caribbean and Mexico a few times. That’s also something else that can help you narrow things down- if you’ve been to a certain area already, maybe you want to see something new!

What Cruise line to go on- If you know the above info, this further helps you to figure this out. Certain cruise lines only leave from certain ports, only have certain length of cruises available at certain times of year. For us, we had a few options for cruising to the Bahamas(Celebrity, Princess, Carnival, Royal Caribbean or Disney) Disney and Celebrity were significantly more expensive, and I had done a lot of research comparing Carnival to Royal Caribbean, and RC seemed to have a better track record, reviews, etc. I have had tons of friends go on a Disney cruise and there’s not been one person disappointed, however. They are supposed to be amazing!! Expensive, but amazing!!! Same thing with Celebrity Cruise lines, great reviews, great cabins, food, entertainment, etc. but significantly more expensive than RC.

What are you looking for in a cruise– Is it the nicest/largest room, the best entertainment, or specific activities when the ship docks at a destination, or it might be certain activities on the boat! It really is a lot of research and it became another job for me when researching and comparing everything! Are you looking for a girls only trip, couples trip, or specific theme? Say you’re a family with young children, but you can’t afford a Disney cruise- what cruise ships are best to take with children? Also decide if you would like a ocean view with balcony or if you dont care about that, you can save a ton of money with an inside facing room!

If all of these fail you and you are still struggling, visit a Travel Agent. They don’t charge anything on your end to book through them and most likely they have been on a cruise, themselves and can help you narrow things down. I swear, we sent numerous emails and tons of phone calls to ours at AAA with so many questions!!! One key thing that was nice to have, was Insurance for the trip-if for some reason we couldn’t go on the trip, we could cancel and wouldn’t be out all of our money. So consider taking the insurance! Especially if its winter and a flight is cancelled due to bad weather!

What to expect when you get ready for your cruise

I was shocked at how much time and effort went into the planning once we figured out where/when/which Cruise line to go on! We finally decided on a 4 night cruise via Royal Caribbean, leaving through Port Canaveral and cruising through the Bahamas with 2 stops. 1 day at Nassau, and 1 day at Royal Caribbean private island; CocoCay. Since there were 7 of us travelling, we did 2 balcony rooms and 1 inside room(you can save a significant amount of money by choosing an inside room). You arent in your room much, other than sleeping or cleaning up!

Since flying into Orlando was going to be cheaper than flying into Miami or Charleston, we would fly into MCO(Orlando International Airport), and need to get to Port Canaveral to board the cruise. This is where doing your research comes in handy. Even if you do book your cruise via a travel agent, booking your airfare, shuttles and excursions aren’t necessarily the cheapest through them! I booked our own flights via www.southwest.com, since they were the cheapest. A round trip shuttle from Orlando airport to Port Canaveral and back would have been $70 per person. I was able to find a reliable shuttle service for less than half of that, round trip(Cocoa Beach Shuttle). I called them a few days before we were leaving, just to verify everything, printed off necessarily documents, phone numbers and confirmation number. They were at the airport right on time, ready to pick us up and take us to Port Canaveral. They also were waiting for us at the Port on our return trip to drop us off at Disney Springs in Orlando, since our flight wasnt leaving until several hours later, we needed to kill some time. Side Note: Disney Springs Guest Services can store your luggage for you FOR FREE, while you walk around and shop(this was AWESOME)

***All cruises don’t come equal, meaning our drinks, spa treatments, specialty restaurants, meet with a trainer in the workout facility and off shore excursions were not included. If we wanted any alcohol, even a glass of wine with our dinner, it was extra. Any soda, or specialty coffee(such as Starbucks) was extra! This was quite a shock to find out. Once we docked at Nassau, it was up to us what we wanted to do for the day. Of course you have the option to stay on the ship while you are docked(but who really wants to do that)? Also, don’t forget to RETURN YOUR BEACH TOWEL to the towel kiosk on the ship or you’ll be charged per town that isn’t returned!!! One other thing that shocked us was you are charged a set gratuity per meal, per person, per day. Yes, you read that right! And before you ask, no, kids are not discounted for their gratuity. There’s no way around it!

Off Shore Excursions

Typically, all of your off shore excursions are not included in the price of your cruise, this was a shock to us!!! Again, since I had done my research ahead of time, I found that it was cheaper to book an excursion outside of Royal Caribbean. We decided to visit Atlantis Resort while we were there, since we had kids and we were there all day. I noticed the price of Atlantis went up a week before we left via the Royal Caribbean app(on my phone) Most cruiselines have their own app that you can book activities, view a map of the ship, itinerary each day, etc. and not need WIFI for. It will work once you board the ship to scroll through the app, all you need to do is login with your confirmation # and go through the needed steps. I booked our tickets to Atlantis Resort and Aquaventure at Atlantis via www.resortforaday.com If you book via this site, make sure and print off your confirmation sheet and bring this with you(having a picture of the email on your phone is not enough) Be prepared for the long line and wait once at the ticket window(I read horror stories of this ahead of time and so it was no surprise).

So wherever you are cruising to, you can save some money by researching online ahead of time and quite possibly can find your excursions at a cheaper cost(just be sure they’re legit and come with good reviews). P.S. I recommend always using your credit card when you travel, so you have fraud protection of any kind as well. Another tip is to check with your credit card to see if there is a foreign transaction fee when you are travelling abroad(this may make you want to look into another card co.). ***Also-its best to alert your credit card company and personal bank(if you’ll be using your debit card) when you are travelling, so they don’t freeze your account and think its suspicious activity on your card(s).

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Documents needed

To get on and off the ship, as well as through the airport, take your passport. My niece, however made sure(since it was a closed loop cruise) that she could use her driver’s license and Birth Certificate(not a black and white copy, an authentic notarized one). A closed loop cruise means you get on and off at the beginning and end, at the same port. We got on at Port Canaveral and the cruise ended at Port Canaveral. Each day that we docked (which was 2 days) we needed our SeaPass card(aka room key) and our Passport. The SeaPass card can act as a charge card to your room when you’re on the ship(its handy to wear it on a lanyard like this one). Once off the cruise, take a credit card for food purchases, souvenirs, etc. There were lockers available to rent while at Nassau, however one of my parents were with our beach bag at all times. My Dad is Type 1 Diabetic and put his insulin, blood meter in a sealed baggies, inside a belt bag(since it was the utmost importance to keep near him at all times). It’s always best to have a printed copy of any online tickets or reservations, & passport, to travel with you just in case someone can’t find you in their system or your purchase!

Wifi and Using our Phone

It was important for at least one of us to have wifi to communicate with family, back home, while we were cruising. Many cruise lines will have their own wifi packages per day or the week that you can purchase. I believe mine was around $19 per day. We were able to face time or use any app via wifi to video call if we needed. I was also able to post to my social media while cruising.

Motion Sick???

The big concern since none of us had been on a cruise before was WHETHER OR NOT WE WOULD GET MOTION SICK. So we stocked up on a ton of “non drowsy” motion sick pills before the cruise, and much to my surprise, I only needed it minimally. I recommend it 30 minutes before you board your first day, and possibly the next day. I only noticed it the first day, and mostly on the upper 2 decks. I did see several people with the patch behind their ear(but had heard that can cause vision problems while it’s on). My 3 young children felt completely fine the entire time and didn’t need anything, so that was a BONUS!!

-Packing Tips-

My 3 children were staying in the room with me(which, I think the capacity was only supposed to fit up to 3 people in the stateroom) but we made it work. My biggest advice is to pack wisely and only pack things you’ll be using, because there is MINIMAL SPACE for luggage. For a 5 day cruise, I packed a large checked back, a medium size checked bag, and a backpack for all of us. When travelling with our children, I purchased thesepacking cubes, which are a complete game changer for trips. I can’t recommend them enough!!! Each child’s clothing pieces, hair accessories, and bathroom toiletries stay organized and there’s no rummaging through 1 bag to find an item! I am linking some items that I found very helpful on the cruise to bring, as well as( Extension cord(I almost always pack one when traveling), Disinfectant wipes(for the plane and Room/toilet, etc), Hand Sanitizer, Beach tote, PLENTY OF SUNSCREEN(linked some great ones), Swim Cover up, sunglasses cord(you wont want to lose your expensive glasses on a water slide, etc. and another thing I always like to bring when I travel is a Tide Pen & a sealed plastic small container or laundry detergent(in case you need to wash something). Below are some things I used on the cruise and recommend:

Since school is right around the corner, as well as cooler weather(hopefully), choosing a good insulated container for your kid’s school lunch is important! There’s so many things to take into consideration when choosing the right one. First and foremost, how easy is it for my child to open at school, by him/herself? Does it keep the food warm? Or is it too large for my child’s lunch box? Here are 8 of the best insulated containers to choose from.

THERMOS FOOGO double wall stainless steel food jar features THERMOS vacuum insulation technology that keeps contents cold for up to 7 hours or warm for up to 5 hours; Vacuum insulation maintains temperature of the contents longer, which inhibits bacteria growth and spoiling

The FOOGO food jar was designed with kids in mind: the stainless steel interior and exterior is durable and withstands the demands of daily use; The double wall design allows this food jar to stay cool to the touch with warm foods and sweat-proof with cold foods

Food jar is compact and portable and features a 10-ounce capacity – perfect for toddlers on the go; The food jar’s ergonomically-designed lid has a rubber grip for easy handling; The base of the jar is non-slip and scratch

INSULATION INNOVATION: The double-walled, vacuum insulated TempShield Insulation, the same technology used in all Hydro Flask products, will ensure that your meal of choice maintains its temperature for many hours to come. The Food Flask will keep contents hot or cold up to 3 hours. It will even keep your food at temperature if stored inside a box-style cooler with other food or drink items.

JUST THE RIGHT SIZE: The newly designed Food Flask is just the right size for snacks and in-between meal temptations. Also great for kids’ lunches at school & summer camp or ready-to-go office lunch (Say goodbye to that gross office microwave!) The Food Flask is like a mini-fridge that you can actually carry, small enough to easily throw into a backpack, book bag, or purse.

BUILT TOUGH: These Food Flasks are engineered to last, and are made from 18/8 food-grade stainless steel. Now you can finally enjoy your hot soup or chilled fruit on the trail or at work. (Note: The Hydro Flask Food Flask is NOT microwaveable safe)

SAVOR THE FLAVORS: Take your time and enjoy the rich flavors and aromas of your favorite gumbo or stew. Keep your food hot or cold for longer so you don’t have to feel rushed when eating. Eat at your convenience knowing that your Food Flask will be waiting for you.

BE PREPARED: With the excellent insulative qualities of the Food Flask, you will be able to fill your flask with hot soup before heading out the door, and by lunch you can enjoy your still-hot soup or stew. In addition, once you realize how great it is to have a flask that keeps your food hot, you will be less tempted to eat out for meals.

UNIQUE BOWL SHAPE: Insulated thermal food containers may keep meals warm, but their tall, narrow dimensions make lunchtime a little awkward. Our 16oz Thermal was specially designed to mimic a bowl shape, making it easy to eat from and convenient to fill! It stays warm for 4 to 5 hours, but it’s also great for cold salads and fruit.

ALL STAINLESS STEEL INTERIOR: Enjoy a warm bowl of soup without your food touching plastic! The Thermal’s interior, including the lid, is made of durable 18/8 stainless steel. Hand wash only for a no-hassle cleanup.

HOLDS A FULL MEAL: At a convenient 2-cup size, the Thermal serves up a perfectly portioned serving of soup! Its 4.5″ diameter is ideal for chunky stews or fruit salad, and it makes it easy to fill with your lunchtime favorites. At 3.5″ high, it goes great with the LunchBots Uno, Duo, Trio, Quad, Cinco and Pico containers and fits in our Duplex thermal lunch bag.

LEAK PROOF DESIGN: When you have a hectic schedule, you need a food jar that can keep up! Completely leak proof, the Thermal is a must-have for grab-and-go mornings. You can drop it in your purse, briefcase or backpack without the worry of accidental spills or messes.

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Large Capacity Food Container – This stainless steel lunch jar has a 13.5 oz (400 ml) capacity. The right size for a child lunch or a side to an adult meal. Our stainless steel food containers are BPA, phthalates, lead and PVC free.

Reusable, Versatile – Eco-friendly, reusable, easy-to-fill wide mouth is also easy to clean. Excellent choice for taking soups, pasta, fresh fruit and much more to school or to work.

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IMPROVED COLD/HEAT RETENTION – Made with insulating double walled stainless steel, keep your soups and coffee warm for up to five hours, or your milk or water cold for up to 10 hours; all for a fresher, more delicious taste at home, work or school.

AIRTIGHT, LEAK PROOF DESIGN – Great for lunch boxes or your backpack, our premium travel thermos is leak proof, stain resistant and odor resistant to make taking all your favorite foods and beverages with you without causing a mess.

ACCESSIBLE WIDE-MOUTH OPENING – Easy to fill, pour and clean, our food container is ideal for hot soups in the winter, cold ice water during the summer, and some spicy chili when fall sets in. Remember, hand wash only with hot, soapy water.

BONUS RECIPE E BOOK COLLECTION – Every order of our premium double-walled insulated thermos comes with a free eBook packed with easy to make, healthy recipes that can go right inside your new food and beverage container!

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Everyone in the country is so excited again for the Nordstrom Anniversary Sale this year, including me! So much, that I even set my alarm to shop it right when it opened up CST!!! I thought I would break it down by categories of my Nordstrom Anniversary Sale Picks. I tried to be very wise this year, and put the items that I knew would sell out the fastest, in my cart and checked out the fastest I think I have ever checked out! haha

Nordstrom Anniversary

Sale Picks

There are a few items already sold out, but I think Nordstrom has done a great job of restocking some big sellers! The sale is over August 4th, so be sure to shop it now while things are discounted!!! Below are a few of my absolute favorite purchases from the sale. I wasn’t able to get a few items that I had hoped for, because the nation was going CRAZY to shop the sale!!!

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Last year I stocked up on several sweaters and jeans, but what I really had my eye on first were these perforated snake skin booties! Probably my absolute #1 favorite item from the sale, they are SO COMFORTABLE, stylish and pair well with so many outfits!

Great Everyday Fashion–

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Since I workout almost every single day, I am always looking for a good deal on athletic clothes. These Zella leggings are beyond comfortable, so much that I repurchased them in black as well! This black adidas tank accentuates my shoulders are is so breathable and lightweight!

Athletic Styles

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Again, I hope you get the point about the perforated snake skin booties of how amazing they are!!! They sold out once and Nordstrom was so awesome to restock them!!! If you can’t tell, snake-skin & Leopard print is HUGE FOR FALL!!!!

Shoes-

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A popular item that I had my eye on for over a year was the T3 1.25″ curling iron, and I grabbed one before it sold out, so I’ve listed the white version in it. They get RAVE REVIEWS, and I so badly needed a new one!

Beauty-

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Though I didn’t purchase anything for our home, this BAREFOOT DREAMS blanket is all the rave due to how soft & cozy it is. I’m afraid I would snap at my kids if they tried to take it off of me on the couch!!! haha

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I hope my

Nordstrom Anniversary Sale Picks

helped simplify your shopping and made it easier!

I am so excited to share that I am FINALLY a REWARD STYLE Team Member!!!! So now it’s easier than ever to shop my looks! If you haven’t already, download the LikeToKnow.It app on your phone, create an account and you can literally screenshot any look of mine on Instagram, then visit your like to know it app and the item will pop up to shop, OR you can simply follow me on the liketoknow app at www.liketoknow.it/awellpacedlife