It's funny how it works. In her perfect world... my sweetie would have me lose a few pounds. Not for her sake, visually, but because she wants me to live a very long time (all the better to take care of her in her declining years, methinks <G>). And, conversely... when I met her, she was about 120 - 125#. Now... with all the running, walking, and such... she's been at 100 - 105 for years. I'd rather have my plumper muffin back <sigh> OTOH... when I met her she had long hair. I like long hair, but she decided years ago to keep it short... and it really works on her. I love it. SOME change is good, I guess.