again, i've never even had drugs (beyond the occasional bit of weed back in the day), so i have no idea. i'd hope though, if i ever found myself in the "first met on drugs" position, that when i saw them and wasn't on drugs i'd be emotionally mature enough to actually try and see what they're actually like

they're just big fat fails all on their own, so its just an observation

people who get all loved up at parties should not get together, i just kinda thought maybe this is part reason why people dont stay together anymore, you have to agree that the % of people who last the distance these days is minimal.

i dont even know why i started this, it was something someone said in that first kiss thread 'e's + girl + boy + blah blah'

I mean who honestly goes to the rigmarole of getting married and goes "for richer for poorer, for better for worse... yeah this'll keep me ticking over for a few years and then I'll bin her off for my secretary. Yeeeeah".

Anyone who gets married who doesn't reeeeeeeeally think it's going to work or is getting married as a means of 'saving' their relationship doesn't deserve any kind of life-long romantic happiness.

so, basically, you hook up with someone when youve taken some pills or something and then that means that you IMMEDIATELY START A FULL BLOWN RELATIONSHIP? or by 'relationship' do you mean when americans say 'have relations'? What i think USUALLY happens in the world, drugs or no drugs, before you start a relationship is that you get to know each other? and i think the MAJORITY of people tend to hang out at least once whilst sober before making that old commitment...

friends met his girlfriend when they were both gurning their chops off at some dub-step night and then they went on a two day ketamine binge. They have been seeing each other a couple of years now and are buying a house together-so it can work.

I went on a date once with someone I met at a nightclub when he was off his face/I was horribly drunk. He did turn out to be really fit - seriously AMAZING body-BUT we had nothing in common, except thinking 'hmmm, but we got along so well at the nightclub' and vaguely wondering what the point was.

that sentence makes no sense. if you meet someone when you're on drugs then all your future feelings about that person must be false because you weren't in a state of total 'consciouness' when you met?

you might meet up at a party/out when on drugs and get on well with a person and then you arrange to meet up with them and you meet them sober/perhaps have a few drinks and that's when any 'relationship' starts.

if all you did with a partner was shoot up or get high on E then perhaps you have a point but otherwise, what are you on about?

im not being defensive by the way, i was almost sober when i met my boyfriend.

not that i'm talking from experience or anything, really. i could imagine it to be potentially quite romantic. i'm sure there are loads of couples from the hacienda/rave days that are still together and probably met whilst completely off their faces. I am just guessing here, mind, maybe they all hate each other now!