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The ANSWER to the MOST

ASKED QUESTION

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an you guess what question teens ask us more than any other?

Give up? You probably guessed it as soon as you read the title! And yes, you are correct. The most asked question is: "I really like this person, but I don't know if he [or she] likes me. How can I get him to like me as much as I like him?"

Why should this be the most asked question? On the other hand, what is wrong with a teen wanting to know how to attract the opposite sex? Of course, nothing is wrong with knowing, at least as long as the reason you want to know is the right reason, and you apply the information in the right way, and at the right time.

And further, perhaps the reason so many ask this question is that no one has ever told you the answer! If that is so, and it probably is, then you strongly deserve the answer. So here it is, the answer to the most asked question.

Q. How can a person make someone of the opposite sex like him or her?A. You can't That's right, you can't. You cannot "get" members of the opposite sex to like you. Nor can you "trap" them or "trick" them into liking you, at least not for too long, and not for real.

Please don't misunderstand. We are not saying that you are helpless to find friends of the opposite sex, or that you are doomed to a life of loneliness as a bachelor or spinster. We are only saying that you cannot make someone like you, but there is much you can and should do if you are to someday find the person of your dreams to live with as husband and wife.

You cannot get someone of the opposite sex; you must attract him or her. And you can only attract others by becoming the type of person others wish to know, both now and in the future. A lot of people have tried to get others to like them. It's the usual approach in our society, and the approach probably most common in your school.

But in the end trying to get someone to like you doesn't work because it is based on temporary and superficial things: You must look a certain way or do a certain thing, rather than reallybe a certain way.