The longest title I will ever have, a.k.a. “Behind every great woman is a strange creature that sort of looks like a muppet.…well there is more than that actually, it turns out to be a complicated balance, of which, in the standard range of social interactions (love, career, rearing etc), the s.c.t.s.o.l.l.a.m. term typically dominates. oh and one more thing, heat your pennies and then the zinc will fall out”