pregnant alone

4 days before I found out I was pregnant my boyfriend left me for another girl... And this is not the first time. The only thing different this time is he changed his number and removed me from Facebook. Literally cut me out of his life and I still don't understand what happened or why. And now I'm 9 weeks pregnant 20 years old and my family and friends want me to have an abortion. But I can't do that and I feel like I can do this. My ex doesn't even know I am pregnant and don't think I want him to know. He is not a very good person and back into drinking and using drugs again and I don't feel like telling him would do anything but cause drama that I don't need right now. I guess I'm posting this to know I'm not alone and maybe making the right decision.

4 days before I found out I was pregnant my boyfriend left me for another girl... And this is not the first time. The only thing different this time is he changed his number and removed me from Facebook. Literally cut me out of his life and I still don't understand what happened or why. And now I'm 9 weeks pregnant 20 years old and my family and friends want me to have an abortion. But I can't do that and I feel like I can do this. My ex doesn't even know I am pregnant and don't think I want him to know. He is not a very good person and back into drinking and using drugs again and I don't feel like telling him would do anything but cause drama that I don't need right now. I guess I'm posting this to know I'm not alone and maybe making the right decision.

I say you are making the right choice.. You don't want a man like him near your hold even if he's the father. You are actually a strong woman with what you're deciding. Your child will be lucky to have a mother like you if you continue on with your decision.

I say you are making the right choice.. You don't want a man like him near your hold even if he's the father. You are actually a strong woman with what you're deciding. Your child will be lucky to have a mother like you if you continue on with your decision.

Sweetheart you are not alone by any means. I am 26 weeks pregnant with my son & I've been doing this all alone with the help of my wonderful mother which I am grateful for. It would be nice to have a father in the picture but my bd does not qualify at all & I do not want him around my son with his irresponsible behavior. I love my son & he deserves better. I am sure you are making the right decision , single mothers are the definition of truly strong women. Take this pregnancy as a blessing , keep your head up & everything is gonna be alright. I promise!

Sweetheart you are not alone by any means. I am 26 weeks pregnant with my son & I've been doing this all alone with the help of my wonderful mother which I am grateful for. It would be nice to have a father in the picture but my bd does not qualify at all & I do not want him around my son with his irresponsible behavior. I love my son & he deserves better. I am sure you are making the right decision , single mothers are the definition of truly strong women. Take this pregnancy as a blessing , keep your head up & everything is gonna be alright. I promise!

Keep your spirit up. I was married for 17 yrs, 2 kids before this pregnancy(32 weeks) and doing this alone. A lot of people including my bd(husband) wanted me to have an abortion but I refused. Stay strong.....stay encouraged.

Keep your spirit up. I was married for 17 yrs, 2 kids before this pregnancy(32 weeks) and doing this alone. A lot of people including my bd(husband) wanted me to have an abortion but I refused. Stay strong.....stay encouraged.

Keep your spirit up. I was married for 17 yrs, 2 kids before this pregnancy(32 weeks) and doing this alone. A lot of people including my bd(husband) wanted me to have an abortion but I refused. Stay strong.....stay encouraged.

Keep your spirit up. I was married for 17 yrs, 2 kids before this pregnancy(32 weeks) and doing this alone. A lot of people including my bd(husband) wanted me to have an abortion but I refused. Stay strong.....stay encouraged.

Good for you! You are very strong! I'm 25w and ready to be a single mom but I'm having a hard time letting my anger go w bd. he finally wants to be in LOs life which first I thought was good but now it's hard knowing he has always had a prob w drugs so maybe were better off w out him. I want him to pay cs though! Anyways stay strong girl. You can do this! As for your friends and fam talkin you into abortion or adoption don't let them! About 90% everyone I knew wanted me to too. They've all came around though and are very supportive of me now! :)

Good for you! You are very strong! I'm 25w and ready to be a single mom but I'm having a hard time letting my anger go w bd. he finally wants to be in LOs life which first I thought was good but now it's hard knowing he has always had a prob w drugs so maybe were better off w out him. I want him to pay cs though! Anyways stay strong girl. You can do this! As for your friends and fam talkin you into abortion or adoption don't let them! About 90% everyone I knew wanted me to too. They've all came around though and are very supportive of me now! :)

I feel the same. I told my mom yesterday that I was pregnant and the first thing she did was say to have an abortion. Something that I don't or even thought of doing. I'm also 20 and if I don't have her support I guess I'll do this on my own if I have to.

I feel the same. I told my mom yesterday that I was pregnant and the first thing she did was say to have an abortion. Something that I don't or even thought of doing. I'm also 20 and if I don't have her support I guess I'll do this on my own if I have to.

Let me tell you........Your making the right decision! I think your very smart and brave to be making the decisions your facing. My ex just put me and my 2wk old baby out on the street cause I caught him cheating. YES he put us out! I wish I'd never been with this man nor told him I was pregnant. While you still have a lot of time, get things into perspective. Have your own home in your name. If you working save as much as possiable, if not try to find a job. And finally just don't stress about this man. Make you and your baby a home, an be safe and secure. I'm praying an wishing the best for you. :-)

Let me tell you........Your making the right decision! I think your very smart and brave to be making the decisions your facing. My ex just put me and my 2wk old baby out on the street cause I caught him cheating. YES he put us out! I wish I'd never been with this man nor told him I was pregnant. While you still have a lot of time, get things into perspective. Have your own home in your name. If you working save as much as possiable, if not try to find a job. And finally just don't stress about this man. Make you and your baby a home, an be safe and secure. I'm praying an wishing the best for you. :-)

A baby is a baby. Yes everyone may be saying abort right now. But once this baby comes they wont say "You should have aborted" they will say "Aw.. A baby!". My mom wasn't excited at all about this second pregnancy. She sighed. My friends were pushing me to abort. But once I made my decision they started realizing I was serious and started getting excited for the baby.

A baby is a baby. Yes everyone may be saying abort right now. But once this baby comes they wont say "You should have aborted" they will say "Aw.. A baby!". My mom wasn't excited at all about this second pregnancy. She sighed. My friends were pushing me to abort. But once I made my decision they started realizing I was serious and started getting excited for the baby.

Hey love !!First off I'd like to let you know I'm proud of you for making such a selfless decision to keep the baby ! I'm 31 weeks pregnant and my daughters dad kicked me out of his apt just so he could move in his current girlfriend ( who's now 5 months pregnant ) roughly about 4 days before I found out I was pregnant. Of course I could've gotten an abortion but then I wouldn't be expecting a beautiful baby girl :)!! My BD isn't the greatest of guys so I know the feeling. But all you have to do is remember your not alone. There's more single mothers out than there are those "living the dream". Also you are young so there's still time to meet the ONE. Just be happy and stay healthy and get prepared for your new bundle :)

Hey love !!First off I'd like to let you know I'm proud of you for making such a selfless decision to keep the baby ! I'm 31 weeks pregnant and my daughters dad kicked me out of his apt just so he could move in his current girlfriend ( who's now 5 months pregnant ) roughly about 4 days before I found out I was pregnant. Of course I could've gotten an abortion but then I wouldn't be expecting a beautiful baby girl :)!! My BD isn't the greatest of guys so I know the feeling. But all you have to do is remember your not alone. There's more single mothers out than there are those "living the dream". Also you are young so there's still time to meet the ONE. Just be happy and stay healthy and get prepared for your new bundle :)

You should be very proud of yourself for making such a selfless decision! Although it will be difficult, it will all be worth it when you are holding your precious angel. And like a pp said, once your baby is here, your mother will love him/her like her own.

You should be very proud of yourself for making such a selfless decision! Although it will be difficult, it will all be worth it when you are holding your precious angel. And like a pp said, once your baby is here, your mother will love him/her like her own.

I'm 19 and 7 weeks pregnant and doing this on my own. BD after he found out said he didn't feel the same anymore and just disappeared. It hurts and is difficult, but you and baby's health and happiness comes first. Make the decision best for you, it is you're life and your child's after all, and keep looking up. You have each other!

I'm 19 and 7 weeks pregnant and doing this on my own. BD after he found out said he didn't feel the same anymore and just disappeared. It hurts and is difficult, but you and baby's health and happiness comes first. Make the decision best for you, it is you're life and your child's after all, and keep looking up. You have each other!

do not quit.......am in my 29th week and BD is long gone, constant arguments and fights made me think is this the kind of life i want my baby to be born into? it took time and alot of hurt to decide to be alone and it was my best decision ever recently BD felt a bit guilty and brought home some baby shopping which i accepted and said thank you but it goes nothing further than that, he already showed me his true colors when i am pregnant so why should i entertain him? Am now over him and i just cant wait for this baby to come my family is very supportive and i don't need anything else........my first born son is 16yrs and his daddy ha never even set his eyes on him and this didn't prevent him from growing up to be a very handsome, god fearing and respectful boy.....

do not quit.......am in my 29th week and BD is long gone, constant arguments and fights made me think is this the kind of life i want my baby to be born into? it took time and alot of hurt to decide to be alone and it was my best decision ever recently BD felt a bit guilty and brought home some baby shopping which i accepted and said thank you but it goes nothing further than that, he already showed me his true colors when i am pregnant so why should i entertain him? Am now over him and i just cant wait for this baby to come my family is very supportive and i don't need anything else........my first born son is 16yrs and his daddy ha never even set his eyes on him and this didn't prevent him from growing up to be a very handsome, god fearing and respectful boy.....

You are definitely not alone. I am only 19 and I am 21 weeks pregnant with my baby boy. Unfortunately, I made the mistake of telling my BD that I was pregnant and now he threatens me all the time, which is not what I need. Just hang in there and stay strong. It will all work out in the end. :)

You are definitely not alone. I am only 19 and I am 21 weeks pregnant with my baby boy. Unfortunately, I made the mistake of telling my BD that I was pregnant and now he threatens me all the time, which is not what I need. Just hang in there and stay strong. It will all work out in the end. :)

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