There's a difference between knowing and accepting your body isn't the same and squeezing into your pre baby clothes to the point where it looks painful. Honestly, I don't know how that's good for her hernia. I still have a couple of my size 0 booty shorts, but there's no way I'd paste those pups on in public. First of all, I'm a mother and my bits don't need to be hanging out when I pick my kid up from school. Second, I'm wise enough to face the fact that that shit doesn't look like it did before having a kid, although I'm more damn fit and toned than I ever was. Things changed, I've got some hips and a round butt now. I have enough sense to know and embrace what size I'm in. She's clueless. For someone who is soooooo in tune with her body to the extent that she knows when she's four minutes pregnant, she sure doesn't realize she does NOT fit into her clothing.

Truthfully I don't see Landen or Kyson in the baby pic of Drake. But I feel like they look more like he looks now.. If that makes sense. I don't know how to word it. Like, they look like adult Drake, not baby Drake.

Not to feed the "who da daddy" debate, but on Natalie's Q & A the issue with Landen was brought up. Natalie said something like, they have the same eyes or squint in baby pics and offered to pm them out. I thought it was interesting, if there was a DNA test done she would have just come out and said, "lab verified" right? I don't think they ever did that. Landen doesn't look like ANYONE imo. Lol

Alyshaxx wrote:Truthfully I don't see Landen or Kyson in the baby pic of Drake. But I feel like they look more like he looks now.. If that makes sense. I don't know how to word it. Like, they look like adult Drake, not baby Drake.

Someone tell me that doesn't sound crazy.

Kyson looks like Drake as Drake looks like now as an adult, in the first picture of baby Drake that Nataliee posted, I see Kaden for the first time because it always seemed he looked like Ben.

Landen is a really odd mixture, I see the chubby cheeks, nose and pouty bottom lip but then bam his eyes are like saucers and I think that's more of a trait from Jess's side from her bio dad.

Just to add to the Jessica's body thing (I'm not asking to be yelled at for it, either, please) I think she looks okay. I mean, I've said it before, If my body was as small as hers I'd be happy. I must be a whale to you guys.. I wish we could cool it on the body shaming, she had 4 kids, at any age, your body isn't gonna be perfect. Her personal eating habits surely don't help but that isn't harming anyone but herself, so why pick? I hate body shaming, I grew up with it, I still get it nowadays at 17, though I'm trying my best to lose weight, and it scars you. Pick about her life, pick about things that affect her babies, but is calling her fat really necessary?

Thank you so much! I always wonder what the tapatalk links are, since they don't work when I click on them I can't copy and paste them because I'm on mobile. Thank you so much!!! Back to lurkdom now haha

My uncle married someone with a daughter, she was around 6 or 7. From what I know, her father was never around, I don't think she's ever met him. So my uncle took on the role as her dad. My aunt married someone with a daughter, too, around the same age. Her mom was never around, she lives in a different country and has like 7 other kids. So my aunt took on the role, too. They both ended up getting divorced but the thing is that even though my cousins aren't family by blood, they have never been treated differently. They're both around 30 now and have been in our family ever since. Blood related or not, there is no difference. The difference between these situations and Jess and Chris' is that these kids NEEDED a parent. Theirs already have two parents who love and care about them. Jess and Chris are nothing more than two selfish immature idiots who are playing house and trying to hurt and tarnish their exes and mother and fathers of their children. Jess did the same thing to Drake and Lilia that she's doing with Chris and Landen. I don't buy the whole thing on Gabe never being around when Lilia was a baby. Jess wanted to pretend and say that he wasn't so people would feel bad for her and she would get pity so that way, it was okay to force Drake on her as her father. I don't believe that Gabe has ever once forced one of his girlfriends that he might have had as Lilia's mom because he respects Jess enough not to do that. Drake has made some stupid choices in the past, but he genuinely loves his kids and Natalie is not trying to take Jess's place at all. She really cares about them and she's a special person in their lives. Jess needs to grow the hell up.

Anyone who pays attention to her is her "forever"...this situation is sad at this point. I can't tell if she and Tayler are long lost sister wives or having a Trash-Off. Wake up, Jess. You don't even know WHO YOU ARE as an adult. A man has always defined and validated your existence. What a sad way to live.

So much I could say, but Lilia was just adorable at the end. The bow thing just kind of struck me as odd but cute. Jess seriously has brainwashed her into gender stereotyping. I mean when I have kids, of course I'm going to dress my daughter like a typical little girl and my son like a typical little boy until they can tell me and show me what they want and don't want to wear, but Lilia saying that about the bows just shows how far Jess goes with it.

I'm might get shit for saying this but Lilia in high school is gonna be a bully. She might be one of those preppy girls that look down on other girls who don't go to school all dolled up. Or don't bother being their friends and only hang around the popular kids. Jess is teaching Lilia indirectly that looks is ALL that matter.

"Have your house looking disgusting is ok as long as you look like Easter is everyday"