feeling irritated

If anyone remembers a few weeks ago I said I found a brown recluse. Well I found about a dozen more since. Today we practically moved out of our house. House is currently being bug bombed and we are staying at my MIL (mother-in-law) for the night LO (little one) is staying with my mom tonight (because we are exhausted and she has slept like total shit lately.) So fast forward to now...I told my husband I wanted him to come cuddle with me (his MIL (mother-in-law) offered us her bed instead of her old hard couches.) we haven't slept together in a long time and he gets up early to go to school. I have no idea how he isn't ready to go to bed. I really don't think I interest him anymore. I mean he would rather play video games (which don't get me wrong he gets to play all the time.) I said to come cuddle and he says no I'm going to stay up all night? He is 30. I am so fucking tired of this immature bullshit. I don't mind him playing games but you really gonna stay up "all night" playing games then come to bed with your wife who you never get to sleep with anymore? I'm seriously thinking about just going to my mom's to cuddle with my baby girl. Even though it's like 45 mins away. I hate sleeping alone. But that's not even the point...Point is I want to cuddle with my DH (dear husband) who I miss who apparently does not give a shit. I mean if he missed me he would right?

He couldn't even take a break to at least lay with you until you fall asleep? What a jerk. :(

My SO (significant other) used to do the same shit. He works nights, so it's pretty understandable that he would be up when I'm sleeping even on the weekends so he doesn't throw off his work schedule. But to NEVER even lay with me for a few minutes each night was just mean. We had our share of issues back then though and things are better now.

It kinda hurts my feelings ya know? He could play anytime really...He knows he hurt my feelings. Sometimes I just want to be married to someone who is about me...If that makes sense? I feel like I married a kid. His excuse was "I've had a hard week at school and a hard day bug bombing the house". Which is TRUE. But I have had a hard almost 7 months getting up with our daughter every night, running in circles with that girl and just trying to be the best mommy I can...and also had a long day helping pack everything up. We have only not been sleeping in the same bed for a month or so now, (per my request cause our bed isn't very big and I like to bed share most nights, plus he likes to sleep all night and I let him for school.) But really? Do video games matter over me? At 30 years old, do fucking video games he's played his whole life rule over me? My feelings are hurt.

Exactly! I'm tired of this teenager shit. I just turned 20 and I feel way more grown than this man. And yes I am pregnant again. It is just ridiculous. I need a partner. I don't even know what to call this, ridiculous?

Mine is the same exact way. He's 31, still obsessively plays video games, and seems to think he's the only one in the world that has to work and (occasionally, when he feels like it), do other shit. He's gotten a little better but most days I feel like causally dropping his playstation from the balcony.

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