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Monday, 15 August 2016

How To Start Up An Online Conversation With a Lady

Social media is an incredible place where one can meet anybody without having to go out of your house to make new friends. This helps especially for those who are extreme introverts who cannot express themselves easily in public.

There are certain things guys do which turn ladies off in a chat that makes them gets snubbed whenever they see your 'hi' message. In order to avoid this, certain things must be put in check to prevent this. They would be itemized below:

1. Work on your profile: Your profile is the first contact she has of you, so
putting out a good one determines if your friend request would be
accepted or trashed. You obviously want her to like you, it doesn’t mean
you should over polish yourself. Frauds can be easily sniffed out.
Little is more. Make a good first impression.

2. Study her profile: From studying her online profile, you get
some information about what she loves and hates. You can use this to
your advantage. For example, if it says on her profile that she loves to
travel, you can include this in your conversation and it also gives you
an idea of how/what to talk to her about. You could also find common
interest that you share and build conversations around it. This reduces
your chances of running out of things to talk about, keeping the
possible awkward silence at bay.

3. Be polite: This is very important! You don’t crawl up into a
ladies online space and leave messages “Hey baby”, ” Angel”, “Beautiful”
and the likes. That’s a very quick way down the drain. Don’t be too
presumptuous about her character. Being shielded by partial anonymity
doesn’t give you the right to be uncouth while chatting online.

4. Pay attention to the conversation: Who doesn’t love being paid attention to? Pay attention to the conversation. Avoid the embarrassment of asking the
same question over again just because you weren’t paying attention.
Plus, don’t dominate the conversation.

5. Don’t be a pest: You got yourself in, don’t kick yourself out
as fast. Let her be for a while. You have a life, live it. Even though
you want to talk to her all the time, be careful not to be the guy who
give her no space. If you are online all the time, she may think you’re a
loser without a life or job sitting on his couch all day, eating junk
and sharing your roommate’s WIFI.

6. Have a sense of humour: Being able to make a lady laugh even over the internet is a plus for you. So whip up your comic side and score.

7. Do not be in a haste to ask for her number: Guys always do this. The moment you are able to get her to laugh alone, they see it as a green light to chip in and immediately ask for her number. There is always nothing easier than taking things slow because things will fall into place at the appropriate time. There is no specific timing to when a guy can ask for her number. If you are lucky she is into you quickly, lucky you. Otherwise, the patient one always eat the fattest bone.