Men judge mostly on looks. We see a boy with long hair, tight jeans and generally feminine clothes on, we scratch our heads, wonder which gender it is, and go with that the boy is probably homosexual. Then there are the moral/social judgements where we shake our heads at close friends and family's actions. Maybe our friend told some girl she was ugly trash. Despite how unlady-like she is, we can't condone that, therefore our friend in particular has magically just turned into a douche-bag. But any judgement is out-of-sight - out-of-mind.

I feel that women will do whatever it takes to get into someone's psyche and tear away at what's important. I feel they specifically try to find something their victim cares about whether it's their looks, self-confidence, or maybe just their dog. And they will push whatever buttons they can to make you want to breakdown and either cry or murder them. Little mind ninjas.

You can see this behavior in children. Boys break everything that costs money. Girls will only seem to destroy what really can never be replaced.