Dear Harlan: I met this guy about two days ago, and I like him. I’ve thought about trying to start dating him. I haven’t seen him since I met him, and I’m afraid that I’m going way too fast. I’m not even sure he’s interested.

He did ask for my number and gave me his, but I don’t know.

Should I try asking him out now or should I wait until I get to know him better? What’s an appropriate way to ask someone that you just met to hang out? Thanks for listening.

— Clueless Crush

Dear Clueless: Do you ever get hungry? Talk to this guy. See if he’s hungry. Tell him you should get something to eat together some time. It’s not a date; it’s just a meal. Keep sharing some meals together. Eventually, you can go to a movie after dinner. Who knows, there might even be a kiss, too.

Just don’t forget that you live in a world of options — meaning there are lots of guys who will want your number and be hungry to share a meal with you.

Don’t worry about him liking you. See if you like him. Then decide if you want to eat together again.

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