Client Spotlight: Cary Mac Arthur

How did you hear about Frame of Mind Coaching?
I heard Kim Ades being interviewed on the Crank It Up podcast with David Wood. Kim spoke with such confidence and in a matter-of-fact kind of way. Much of what she said resonated with what I already felt and believed. I wanted to see if her description of Frame of Mind Coaching was accurate. It turned out to be just like she said and more.

What was it like having Kim as a coach?
I loved the journaling aspect and the daily interactions with her. I also loved how quick she was at getting right to the core without getting lost in the details. And I loved her way of asking questions that caused me to think beyond things that were already in my mind. She was really warm and I felt like I could develop a friendship with her.

What were you struggling with prior to coaching?
I lacked the confidence to own my power and to be an equal partner in my marriage, with my kids and in my family. Kim helped me to stop holding myself back.

How has FOM Coaching impacted your life?
My life has done a 180-degree turn. First of all, I am much more capable of having conversations with my husband. We had a good relationship before, but now it’s great and I can speak up. I no longer feel like I need to earn my place with him; I now know that I’m his equal.

I’m also more confident in every area of my life. I used to feel like I had to earn my place in my friendships too, but now I exude confidence in my friendships and relationships. I’m even speaking at events now as opposed to wishing that I could and feeling too afraid to do it.

As a coach yourself, has FOM Coaching changed how you coach?
I’ve adopted the journaling component because it’s so powerful, and I ask questions about what’s being said the way that Kim did with me. I often refer back to some of the questions Kim would ask me. I’ve worked on becoming more direct and having people answer their own questions instead of answering the questions for them.

Would you recommend FOM coaching to others?
I have recommended FOM Coaching to others and I will continue to. It was transformational for me.

Do you feel like you need to earn your place with others? Do you lack the confidence to speak up? Are you too afraid to speak in front of a crowd? We can help you overcome this fear once and for all! Start by taking the Frame of Mind Coaching™ Assessment.