I'm fairly confident I'll meet someone over the next while, but I don't really go out of my way to. If I'm single, it allows me a lot of freedoms which I enjoy. The ability to travel for however long I want, and go wherever I feel is the biggest of these.

I enjoy being in a relationship, and I enjoy being single. If I meet someone who I fall for and it works out, cool. If not, then so be it. I'll still be enjoying my life.

I wish I had the balls to. Even if I did though, I don't know what'd come of it. I don't know if she's with someone else now or not. I worry if we tried things again, the same problems we faced the first time would just come back. If we lived in the same country, I know we'd work, but the long distance thing just doesn't go well with who we are.

Travelling, half way around the world. Met a gorgeous woman with an incredible mind. The night we met we completely ignored the party we were at and just talked. Her and I hit it off instantly and fell very hard for each other. I've yet to meet another woman who I felt so connected to. She was never afraid to call me on my bullshit, and her sense of humour matched mine perfectly.

We spent two months together. After I had to leave, we tried the long distance thing. It went on for another two months, but eventually it crumbled.

It's been a year and a half and I still haven't gone more than 6 hours without thinking about her. I wonder if it's the same on her end, but I'm too scared to ask.

I really hope you get the help you need. If you do, you'll make someone really happy one day. Those times when your true personality showed through were great. The rest of the time, you were terrible. I hope you figure things out and end up happy.

I was at a bar in Madrid once. This girl was walking by and we made eye contact. She stopped and turned towards me. After about 2 minutes of talking, she asked me if I wanted to go to her place since she had never fucked a Canadian. I said yeah, and about 10 minutes later we were in her room having sex.

So I have never gotten laid that way, but I've been laid by someone using that method.

Absolutely. If they won't put the work in though, it gets far too tiring to try to save them on your own. I spent so many nights unable to sleep and so many days unable to eat because I was stressed about her problems. I missed work due to her issues. I tried to take all of her weight and put it on myself thinking I was helping. In the end, all it did was drain me from my happiness and she continued doing the same shit.

My first one taught me that the past is the past and you have to focus on the present and future.

My second one taught me it isn't worth it to settle. Just because a girl likes you doesn't mean you need to date them. I spent a while with a girl pretty much because it was convenient.

My third taught me true love can exist. It taught me that you can meet someone who completely changes the way you look at the world. You can meet someone who makes you want to be the absolute best you can be. There are people out there who you just click so perfectly with it's hard to comprehend. It also taught me long distance relationships don't work.

My fourth, and most recent, taught me that I can't save someone from themselves. I cared about her deeply, and our good times were great. In the end though, due to her various emotional issues etc, we didn't work out. I tried so hard to be her rock, and to put all of her issues above my own in hopes of helping her. In the end, she wasn't willing to help herself, so it ended.

All in all, I like it. Sure it could be bigger, thicker, whatever. In the end, it's treated me, and those I've been with well. It's the only one I have and the only one I'll ever have, so I don't see the point in getting upset about it. I'm about average, maybe slightly below, but I've never had any complaints. He's treated me well so far.

Buffy and the rest of 'em. Between Buffy and all the other slayer's abilities, Willow's magic, Angel and Spike likely not even being noticed by them since they're dead, and Giles' knowledge, they'd be fine. And Xander would be wisecracking through it all.

I've been playing for two months. I am by no means an amazing player, but I'm not terrible. Every game I learn more and I get better and better. Although the game has been out for a while, you can definitely learn it. I've recently figured out some more advanced tricks. It just comes with time.

I know it is easy to say doctors, farmers, power grid workers, but here is my reasoning.

Everyone in politics dies. We now no longer have people controlling the world. Our engineers, doctors, scientists, etc. still exist. They can now implement better structure. More co-operation between countries. Better infrastructure for helping out the world. Focus on climate change, and real issues. Various things which are causing huge problems world wide.

I think losing all those in politics would cause the largest impact because they're the ones who control the world. Their death would cause a massive change in how the world operates.

I don't believe you understand the point I'm making. There is a difference between creepy confidence, and actual confidence. If a guy who is genuinely confident and who doesn't put out the creepy guy (And this does not mean they're attractive) goes up and tries to talk to a girl, they'll often be receptive.

I used to be quite ugly, but I always had confidence. I never had much of an issue going and talking to girls, and didn't often get instantly rejected. I've since started to take better care of myself, but I still don't find it has changed a whole lot.

If you're putting out creepy vibes, so like desperation, neediness, etc., than that will turn the girl off. An attractive guy who puts out these vibes will get the same result. An ugly guy who puts out confident vibes, as in assurance in themselves, seeing value in what they're saying, etc., can attract women.

This is of course not 100%. There are the girls who are shallow and don't care if you're in the greatest guy in the world, but if you're ugly they'll ignore you, and if you're hot it doesn't matter. But in my experience, I've found physical attractiveness isn't a major factor.

That being said, personal hygiene is. If you're super confident, but less than great looking, yet you don't shower, wear well-fitting clothes, etc. etc., than that telegraphs other things which will, so to say, disqualify you. But an ugly guy with a good hair cut, clothes that fit right, who smells good, has something worthwhile to say, and is confident, will more often than not get the girl over the great looking, boring, smelly, unhygienic guy.

TL;DR - Take care of yourself and your hygiene. Be confident and interesting. This will do more for you than looking like a George Clooney who does none of that.