Hello people on the kinky webs. I am Panda, though nit really a furry - it just happened to become my nickname. This is my kinky account, I will use it the way I did over on the birbsite. Which means, I mostly want to share things with the people I know and trust - but that doesn't mean I will reject people I don't know yet! I just need a bit to decide whether I want you to see my lewd stuff.

Had a good conversation on the role of kindness in Dominance. Both how kindness outside of scene builds trust and shows strength, and how kindness in scene can be used both for care and as a tool (or even a weapon!) in building a scene

One of the more fun things about having a longer-term D/s relationship is seeing hints in a sub that they might be into something and patiently drawing it out

One of my partners has a tiny bit of a furry/pet-play inkling, and finally admitted it after a couple years of gentle guidance. Even though it's not really My Thing (I don't mind participating, but I'd not ask for it), it's lovely to see her figure out and start exploring something that turns her on