Versions of this have been said by both guys and girls. Logically, they think that they should be attracted to each other since he’s being so “nice” and doing everything he can to be sweet and caring for her. Trying to be, what in his mind is, the perfect boyfriend.

So many girls(and guys) think the problem is the partner they’re choosing. I’m sure we all have friends or known people to say “my ex was a psycho” or “I’m going to choose a more mature guy, my ex was so immature”. That’s not the problem, it’s just a symptom.

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Before your blood starts boiling this is not a misogynistic piece. Stay with me. Screw political correctness for a moment; dating and relationship equality is not a good thing. Socially, economically, and in every other way, yes there should be equality between men and women.

Every human being regardless of gender or creed should have the same opportunities.

That said, we’ve all heard of the sexless marriage and the fact that passion eventually fades. So what does that mean, should things be equal or unequal?

In relationships equality is an awful thing. It means there’s no polarity between the masculine and feminine energy. This doesn’t mean there should be INequality in a relationship.

It means there should be two distinct different energies: masculine and feminine.

This post is inspired by a movie I just watched “Our Souls at Night”. It’s a story about a man and a woman that are in their later years and start sleeping with each other platonically. Just as a way to not feel lonely anymore initially.

It’s this part that really made me think about loneliness, neediness, and connection.