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5 New Ways to Network (That You Won't Dread)

If you want to groan every time you hear the word “networking,” well, I don’t exactly blame you. The word conjures images of uncomfortable schmooze-fests, where suit-clad business executives work the room, wine glass in hand, feigned interest at the ready. Who would enjoy that?

But guess what? Networking doesn’t have to be that bad—in fact, it shouldn’t be. The goal is to meet new people and expand your professional network, and there’s no reason those activities have to be confined to conferences and industry happy hours.

All it takes is a little imagination, and networking might even be kind of fun. These five ideas will help you get started.

1. Reinvent the Meet-and-Mingle

Is there an activity you’ve been wanting to try, or a new skill you’d like to learn? Pick an activity—like taking up golf, learning to make your own wine, joining a book club, or anything else that other stressed-out professionals might do to unwind—and try it out! (Groupon is a great place to look for new ideas.) People in a relaxed, social setting are usually more open to conversation, which makes this the perfect opportunity to open up, ask questions, and build new relationships.

2. Be In With the In Crowd

In nearly every big city, there are at least a few restaurants where the politicos, the PR people, or the state workers like to go to mingle with their own. Even professional chefs have their favorite after-hours haunts. And a little legwork or friendly conversation with a knowledgeable bartender will give you some ideas of the hot spots in your industry. So, pick your place, grab a friend, cozy up to the bar, and strike up a conversation with the person next to you. Putting yourself (literally) next to other people in your field will increase your chances of networking success.

3. Take Up a Cause

Consider volunteering your time where your heart is. Pick a local church, animal sanctuary, or non-profit where you can put in a few hours after work or on a weekend alongside other people in your area. Or, lend your professional expertise to a neighborhood school: Put together a presentation (complete with handouts) about your field for career night, when parents (read: new contacts) are also in attendance.

4. Work It

Fundraisers usually have no trouble finding people who are happy to fork over $200, get dressed up, and enjoy the wine and hors d’oeuvres—what they really need is extra hands. So call your favorite charity and offer to work the registration desk. You’ll get to be there for the entire event, you’ll have a built-in chance to meet and talk with the (often high-profile) attendees, and you won’t have to pay a dime to do so.

5. Reconnect With Your Past

College and high school reunions or alumni events are the hidden gems of the networking world. They offer a room full of people with diverse interests and careers who you already know (or at least, who you have something to talk about with)! So, after you reminisce with your former classmates, club-mates, and sorority sisters, strike up a conversation about their careers, and talk about yours. Your old friends could be (or at least put you in touch with) valuable connections.

Whether you’re looking to leave your dead-end job or just want to connect with people who may lead you to your next career move, face-to-face networking is still one of the best job search tactics out there. And if you’re willing to think outside the box, it might actually be fun, too.

This article was originally published on The Daily Muse. For more smart advice on nailing the job search, check out:

About the Author: Patti Sewall is a longtime writer, editor, and foodie who never has less than four kinds of cheese in her fridge at any given moment. After 20 years as a writer for a nonprofit, she is enjoying life as a freelancer, and is combining her love of writing with her joy of cooking and baking on her food blog, http://www.stewedragsandbuttermilk.com. She lives in Northern California with her two rescued golden retrievers.

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Another way to network without having to fake interest is to develop a blog. You can hand a business card or tell the new people you meet about your blog. This way you can express yourself and talk about the things you like and are good at without having the pressure of having to fit in. We’ve posted a piece http://academy.justjobs.com/job-search-guide-checklist/ that discuses this, as well as other tips that will help you find a job. – Erich

Great piece! I’ve been working on a company to disrupt traditional networking and give people fun new effective ways to engage for a little over a year. My partners and I use some of these tactics to create unique events. Thanks!

An important addition to #5 – don’t forget people you worked with at a previous employer (assuming you’ve had previous employers). “Corporate alumni groups” are alive and kicking, and GREAT networking!

Find them on LinkedIn (Groups), on MeetUp.com, and I’ve got a list of 250 of them on Job-Hunt.org. Just Google “corporate alumni groups” and you’ll find them. And they aren’t limited to “corporate” – also non-profit, military, and government.

An addition to #3 – 2012 is an election year in the USA. Great opportunities to support candidates and/or causes important to you. Even if your cause loses, you’ve connected with people who have similar interests and beliefs. Excellent for building networks!

With the exception of #3 and #5, these all sound exactly like the “uncomfortable schmooze-fests” described in the introduction. Or, I should say, advice to take the schmooze-fest out of random corporate events (the [Figurehead]‘s Christmas Tea) and bring them everywhere else. That is not to say that people you already know (or meet/befriend in the future) are not excellent networking tools, but I’m not sure about going out to meet people with the sole purpose of attempting to further your career.

Patti, thanks for a great, inspiring article! My brother and I had an argument that started as your first sentences. I just couldn’t reason to him why networking can be fun. Now I can, definitely sharing the article with him!

Great article! I always find networking terrifying and frankly scary. I am somewhat shy and have a really hard time just walking up to someone I don’t know and starting a conversation. Joining a fundraiser is a great idea!