Latency stage. You're 7-13 yrs old

You are stuck in the Latency (asexual) Stage , the stage you are supposed to be in when you're 7-13 years old. The latency stage is the period of relative calm. In this stage you are leaving the former stages behind you. You don't really feel any sexual need now because you successfully repress them. You stop masturbating. Instead you focus on other things like school, sports or hobbies. You only play with children of the same sex. In this phase a human learns to forget, to relativate, and what his/her priorities are.

Well, something went wrong here and resulted in a Latency Fixation. Solving the Oedipus/Elektra complex, and overcoming castration anxiety or penis-envy are difficult, stressful tasks and often children fail to complete it successfully. Especially when other stressfull things are happening at the same time in their lifes. But you are dealing with the fixations from the former stages, and you will probably be alright in the future!

A fixation at this stage could result to the fact that in adult life, they never feel comfortable around the opposite sex and they may avoid sexual relations with the opposite sex or else they perform sexual activities in an emotionally detached or aggressive manner. According to Freud masturbation, oral, anal and toys fall into this category!