Chris Hemsworth, yep he is yummy as he can be. About dating best friends, I would vote yes. I think it is better. I was totally against it and somehow changed my mind and married him too.You dont have to put a show or pretend or be cautious and they know all your worst sides including our love interests and all. And if he still likes you, why not? Known devil is better than unknown evil.

We started off with a fight and huge drama and he is totally contrast to me. Introvert, polite, smart and very intelligent and his blood group is geek+ :)So, it was obvious that I couldn't pick up his signals for longgg time. :)But whether boyfriend or ex-friend or to-be-friend, both got to feel that "they cant live without him/her" not like "maybe I could live with him/her".

Well you have to split your time between Hemsworth and Enrique, I just get to stick with Kate, life is simple..lol

Yes dating your best friend is blah. We both thought about it, but no. The attraction just wasn't there for either of us when I attempted it in high school. The friendship was never really the same after that either. So I vote No way hosa.

Although friendship has to be there for anyone to date and keep dating, it should be easily or at least semi-easily be able to go in to something more. If not neither should waste their time.

ah, this is a very sensitive issue for me personally. I'm currently in love with my best friend, and have no idea what to do. I'm afraid to ruin our friendship, without which I couldn't really live, but at the same time the heart wants, needs, years, for more.... And to make things crazier, we're planning on moving in together this year... it could be the best, or the worst decision of my life... Keep fingers crossed for me, Jaxie sister.

I agree. I lost a best friend for knowing too much of her baggage. When she met a guy she was terrified that I would spill her secrets. While I was alive I was always a second away from ruining things with 'Mr Wonderful'. I hear she is unhappy still with him so things worked out good for me because I can say 'told you so'.

I've never had a female friend before but I think dating your best friend is a good idea! What is a relationship? Its the same as a friendship but with sex! My girlfriend of eight years is my best friend, sure we didn't start off as just friends but when you have interlocking parts and get along with eachother why start off as friends when you can be so much more!

I always thought your soulmate in life was supposed to also be your best friend. I have much to learn. I suck at life. Well, at least you gave your best friend in high school a chance. You at least tried. Looking at it from his perspective, he probably feels like he really blew it more than anything. I hate movies where some nerdy guy, by sheer luck happens to find some beautiful girl, who also is a closet nerd, and they fall in love. Ok, well I can only think of one movie like this off the top of my head, "Griff the Invisible." I hate them because that kind of thing never happens. I would think if a nerdy, average Joe Bag-of-Donuts wants to get the girl, it would have to be more like the reverse of "Grease" where Olivia Newton John nasties herself up, so she can win John Travolta's heart. Though I don't think this would work for the guy, because ultimately he is not being himself, and he will lose the girl eventually anyway. This is how God created romance...probably as some kind of joke.

I'm sorry, you lost me at Enrique. Seriously, I think as you get older...you may find that your best friend is the one you are meant to be with. As you are a lot younger, I think (as always) that you have a good head on your shoulders and know not to mess a good thing up by dating your best friend. If it is meant to be...it will be. Time will tell.

I dated and married my best friend. Almost 6 years now and he is still my best friend and lover.He is all I ever wanted in a man. Is it doable? Of course! I don't regret a minute of my life with him. Now that I have been super mushy on your blog I'm going to go through up. Way to much syrup! lol

Jac personally when I know a man I know or feel?? if we can do friends or not, you know This thing IS there, but is my experience ah and when a friend (man) change the rules normally was bad:( is confuss?sorry:)nice and smart post!

I'm lucky I think because I've been married to my best friend for 22 years now. The friendship really holds a marriage together because passion wanes with time. I know dating friends doesn't always work, but when it does it's fabulous.

very sad idea indeed. my best friend all through college and i finally started to date... without going into too much detail it ended badly and though we're "friendly" now, i basically lost someone really close to me. I often just think of that person as being a distant memory as the interactions I have him him now, mimic nothing like the close kinship we one had. sad.

and yes, i want her problem's too- kind of like Rose on Titanic. Cal or Jack? I'll take both!

I knew someone who dated their best friend but the relationship didn't work. They ended up not talking and she was so distressed by the whole thing that she tried to commit suicide. It works for some people but if you're weak emotionally, it could cause you more harm than good!