There are so many examples of bad choices and scandalous behavior in the news today. It seems that society has misplaced its sense of decency and, as a result, has lost touch with the value of shame. In my opinion, shame serves as the canary in the coal mine as it functions as an internal alarm that signals wrongdoing. Shame is also the antithesis of pride and, in my opinion, only truly exists in those who have a sound moral compass and a clear sense of ethics. A lack of shame is at the heart of much of the poor behavior we see around us in our personal lives and documented in the news.

Unless you have a true personality disorder, you have experienced the intense emotional pain that accompanies shame. Shame is a powerful, character-shaping phenomenon we develop in early childhood. It guides us in our daily lives, helps us build our identity, and enables us to make tough choices. A good sense of right and wrong, regardless of whether anyone is watching, keeps shame away. With that said, my thought for you today is twofold: First, do you believe there is value in shame? Second, how has shame played a role in your life?