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My sister and I have been very close since we were 17/19. We texted daily and saw eachother weekly (lived together for awhile and still hung out together).
I am now 25 (she's 23) and I am stationed with my husband out of state. She knows I will only be in a short time for the holidays but doesn't seem to care to see me at all. She's had a new boyfriend since March and has neglected our family because of him (and denies doing so).
She told me last night that "oh well" she was busy today because she'd already made plans and "it's okay, neither one of us are dying" when I said I did not know when I could come back.
Sounds trivial but she has just distanced herself and acts like she could give two shits about not seeing me anymore.

I know exactly how you feel. I live in the U.S, but I am currently in my home country for the holidays. Just today I got into a fight with my sister for not spending time with me. I have barely seen her since she moved in with her boyfriend. It's an awful feeling.