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To help a friend in denial?

Posted 15th December 2008 1925

I have this friend and I know that she is in major denial with herself. I dunno what to do honestly. I’ve tried before in the past to confront but all she did was yell at me telling me to shut the hell up its none of my business, yet she always came to me for advice on him… him being of her ex, who I know are more than just friends, I would declare them fuck buddies for the fact that I know they are having sex….whether she tells us or not. But the thing is, she claims she loves the guy, but how can you love someone that you know there is nothing more than and tore out your heart numerous times? When you know the only time the guy comes around is after his prior relationships are done with and knows you’ll give it up after he tells you some sap words? I want to honestly help her, but in the end how do you do help someone that is that far into denial to claim she loves someone, because after half a year or longer no other guy has hit on you and you worked your ass off to get over the ex that crushed your heart, to now being with him and “longing for him” especially for a future together?

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Posted by Anonymous 20th December 2008

Give her a break, its really hard to get over someone. Especially if you really loved him. I know I’m having a hard time getting over my ex and its been a little over a year. If my friends were like you I would yell @ them too. All she needs right now is for her friend to be understanding and stand by her. She may not know exactly what she is doing or how she is feeling, she just needs her friends…!!!