Reese Witherspoon’s exes are shockingly casual about splitting from her! Doesn’t she seem like the type who would leave a guy heartbroken for life?

Reese Witherspoon is a Hollywood powerhouse of an actress — but she doesn’t leave much of a lasting impression on the men she dates!

Jake Gyllenhaal, who dated Reese for around two years, opens up to GQ Magazine (via HuffingtonPost.com) about their break-up. “”It’s … it’s okay …” he casually says in the interview. “It goes in either direction. I think it’s important for every man to find the right woman and every woman to find the right man.”

Hmm, doesn’t sound like Jake is crying too hard over their split! Then there is Reese’s ex-husband Ryan Phillippe, who told Howard Stern’s Sirius XM show (via E! Online) that he is REALLY sick of people bringing up his ex all the time! “I’ve been dumped on in the press for relationship stuff since Reese and I divorced,” Ryan said. “I’m tired of getting s–t on. I don’t feel like I deserve it. Things happen!”

Ryan and Reese remain friends though … unlike she and Jake! “It’s gotten to a place where we’re great friends and great co-parents,” to their kids Ava, 10, and Deacon, 6. “After I had my breakup, she called, and after she did, I called,” he admits.

Still, it’s shocking that these guys seemed to be totally over her! It seems like she is the woman of every man’s dreams! —Corynne Steindler