As you can see the facebook like box keeps switching sizes, the aweber email form doesn´t appear in 2of the 3 pages and i just don´t get why...

does anyone have any ideas? and please keep in mind, that i´m completely new at this stuff.

Also, is it normal that when you change something in the widgets area it takes a couple of days to show up that way on the page? On wordpress.com i could change something and it would show immediatley.