Advice on occupation order and home rights

My husband and I are currently going through a divorce. We have our home
which was our matrimonial home. Although I am not named on the deeds, i
have registered home rights. We purchased the house together and equally
paid all the expenses of down payment and solicitors. He decided that he wanted to walk
away from the marriage and have a new adventure abroad, So one day just
packed his suitcases and left. Did not say anything, just left. We have
approached his solicitors on numerous occasions, to confirm when he
will be returning. To date we have not had anything officially confirmed.
We get contradicting replies, he will be returning one day to he has no
intention of returning anytime soon. Since this I have changed the locks. I
have recently told him that I have changed the locks after he wanted his
family to have access to the house.He virtually took all his personal
belongings from the house, leaving just furniture.

we have
recently had his solicitor demand that we give him a key or he will use
reasonable force to enter the property. he has been gone 3 months now and I
do not know when he will return.

There is a bit of unreported
domestic abuse, as well controlling behavior.

Divorce is going through. But he and his solicitors are demanding a key. Although we have
offered that you give us 7 days notice for when he is going to return. At
which point he can have access to pick whatever furniture he would like
from with in the house.