I'm average height. But based on what you're saying I might as well not even bother taking that into account in choosing where I might want to move next, and just look at pro-am options. I have to wait 3-4 years before I can actually move somewhere anyway. My two top picks at the moment are Kansas City and Denver. The next logical choice is greater NYC area (for employment reasons), but I am not very keen on moving back there.

Well, one definitely has a greater chance of finding an am partner in the greater NYC area. The dance scene is much bigger there. However, I spent 8 years of my life in its vicinity, IMV it's not a nice area to live in and an increase (but not a guarantee) in am partnership prospects is not worth the trade-off. Even a guarantee of an am-am partnership is not worth it.

Well, one definitely has a greater chance of finding an am partner in the greater NYC area. The dance scene is much bigger there. However, I spent 8 years of my life in its vicinity, IMV it's not a nice area to live in and an increase (but not a guarantee) in am partnership prospects is not worth the trade-off. Even a guarantee of an am-am partnership is not worth it.

Well, one definitely has a greater chance of finding an am partner in the greater NYC area. The dance scene is much bigger there. However, I spent 8 years of my life in its vicinity, IMV it's not a nice area to live in and an increase (but not a guarantee) in am partnership prospects is not worth the trade-off. Even a guarantee of an am-am partnership is not worth it.

... but still tempting eh?...

To relocate to NYC? No. In fact I have already made up my mind that I will stay in Midwest.

What an interesting thread This is the first time that I have heard anyone talk about pro-ams that prefer to stay pro-am because am-am is too much of a pain in the butt. lol. That's a perspective I hadn't considered.

What an interesting thread This is the first time that I have heard anyone talk about pro-ams that prefer to stay pro-am because am-am is too much of a pain in the butt. lol. That's a perspective I hadn't considered.

there are a lot of them - they are dedicated, competetive, independent (and usually rich). But you don't wanna mess witih these mammas...

Depending on your partner it can be a great experience or a pain-in-the-ass.

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Everyone tries to rush up through the syllabus levles and think once they are at the top they have arrived. What they don't realize is that by doing this it is like skimming through a book, you may get the gist but you will never understand the story.

This is a bit off tangent - but since we are talking about pain in the ass for am/am partnerships...

I think being a good partner is a learning process (not the dancing skills. But the whole bunch of interpersonal/communication skills), or a trial of failures. We learn and hopefully become a better partner for the next partner. It is kinda like dating. You learn through each relationship.

I could see that having a pro partner solves alot of problem - less drama, to start with...unless you start one as a student. Less argument, which equals to more time focusing on dancing. And much less work to go through to find a pro partner than to find an am partner (from what I have read, if you start dancing as an adult, actually, after college, and if you are a female, basically you can throw the whole idea of finding an am partner outa the window...almost).

I think as far as inter-partner things go, it could reduce to lower level - it is sorta a learning experience, imho.

I could see that "practicing" with your pro could be far more efficient in terms of work done per hour rate, since (hopefully) you only have to work on yourself, instead of two people both trying to figure out what went wrong. But for me, unless the efficiency is 4~8 times higher than practicing with an am, I would stick to an am. Beside, I am a male, I am suppose to have better luck to find a partner .

I could see that having a pro partner solves alot of problem - less drama, to start with...unless you start one as a student. Less argument, which equals to more time focusing on dancing. And much less work to go through to find a pro partner than to find an am partner (from what I have read, if you start dancing as an adult, actually, after college, and if you are a female, basically you can throw the whole idea of finding an am partner outa the window...almost)..

I agree to what you've said, but especiallt this. Good partners are hard to find.