Are you living in the US? I have a friend in India who told me that it is against the law for their OB to reveal the gender of a baby or even to attempt to discover the gender at the ultrasound. How else would prenatal care differ there?

We had the same issues finding an Arabic name for our boy. Decided on Zakariya. I like Anish or Ayush, but Vivaan is too close to the girls name Vivian and I wouldn't want to open the little guy to teasing.