Five tips to help young adults cope with cancer

Dana-Farber hosts Young Adult Cancer Conference to help patients and caregivers

Getting cancer can be particularly difficult for young adults – classified by the National Cancer Institute as ages 15 to 39. Because the disease is relatively rare in this age group, these younger patients may find themselves isolated – too old to fit easily into childhood cancer programs, and too young to find peers in adult clinics (most people diagnosed with cancer are 55 or older).

But the outlook is getting brighter.

Doctors and researchers are working on finding solutions to the unique challenges faced by the estimated 72,000 adolescents and young adults annually diagnosed with cancer.

On March 29, Dana-Farber Cancer Institute will host its annual Young Adult Cancer Conference, a one-day event for young adult patients. The conference is open to all young adults — not just those treated at Dana-Farber.

Join a support group or program specifically for young adults with cancer. “It’s important to know you’re not alone,” Fasciano says. “This is particularly important because you’re dealing with cancer at a time when others your age are establishing relationships, starting careers, and finding their place in the world.”

Think about fertility.

Some cancer treatments alter the ability to have children in the future, for both men and women. Talk with your health care team and a fertility specialist to learn what options might be appropriate for you.

Use technology.

Keep in touch with other young adults — via email, message boards, or online support groups. DF/BWCC’s Young Adult Program hosts a secure website where members can exchange messages and tips.

Create a schedule that works for you.

“Cancer treatments can wreak havoc with work and school schedules,” Fasciano says. “Some patients switch to part-time at work or school, but you may also want to think about going on short-term disability or taking a leave of absence.”

Don’t be afraid to talk about intimacy.

If cancer is affecting your dating life or romantic relationship, seek advice. Talk with a professional who can help you address your emotional needs or ask your doctor to refer you to a specialist in sexual health.