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Topic: what's your breaking point? (Read 16238 times)

sorry if anyone expected something 'thought-provoking' due to the title lolit's something my friends always comment on ( the prudes, virgins and such) that I have or like sex TOO much. which I don't see ( really I don't ), I think I have ( HAD )a normal and healthy sex life. I never saw it strange specially since me and a friend from H.S would have about the same amount with our partners at the time. but then again she's my female counterpart. . . so just wondering what everyone thought was too much, just right, or not enough.

Humm let me see hear, i want sex maybe once or twice a month, I'm 54, but my other-half wants it 3 to 4 times a week he's 54 and on high doses of inject able testosterone every week, I'm in HELL, and can't get outcan someone PLEASE help me out here

« Last Edit: May 03, 2011, 08:48:58 PM by denb45 »

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"it's so nice to be insane, cause no-one ask you to explain" Helen Reddy cc 1974

You are missing an option, so I will not be voting. There is NEVA' enough sex.

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"I have tried hard--but life is difficult, and I am a very useless person. I can hardly be said to have an independent existence. I was just a screw or a cog in the great machine I called life, and when I dropped out of it I found I was of no use anywhere else."

my age, your age, my dog's age. what I'm asking is how much YOU feel is good enough or "healthy" enough

I think you're confusing heaven and hell lol

Sweetheart your 20 going on 21 enjoy it while it last honey cause when it's gone, it's REALLY GONE, my battery died 5 yrs ago, and all I can do now @ my age is FAKE IT, somehow that still works and I don't get any complaints

« Last Edit: May 03, 2011, 09:28:48 PM by denb45 »

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"it's so nice to be insane, cause no-one ask you to explain" Helen Reddy cc 1974

Sweetheart your 20 going on 21 enjoy it while it last honey cause when it's gone, it's REALLY GONE, my battery died 5 yrs ago, and all I can do now @ my age is FAKE IT, somehow that still works and I don't get any complaints

hey hey now. that is not true for all. my last partner was 52 and we had sex twice a day ( he worked and I had too much school\ work so we couldn't do more). maybe you just need to recharge that battery there stud-muffin I've yet have to fake it

Humm let me see hear, i want sex maybe once or twice a month, I'm 54, but my other-half wants it 3 to 4 times a week he's 54 and on high doses of inject able testosterone every week, I'm in HELL, and can't get outcan someone PLEASE help me out here

YES! Send him to me, I do weekly doses of Test also, we will kill each other

hey hey now. that is not true for all. my last partner was 52 and we had sex twice a day ( he worked and I had too much school\ work so we couldn't do more). maybe you just need to recharge that battery there stud-muffin I've yet have to fake it

when I have a stable partner (with 2 that made up nearly 20 yrs of my life), we usually tried to have sex every night with an occassional afternoon or two thrown in there each week. So I agree with the Rev - you don't have the correct amount of options in your poll. Might I suggest "unlimited" or "as much as possible"

Now that I'm 49 and "dating", it depends on what you're defining as "sex". A four hour afternoon romp consists of getting off 3-5 times. sadly without a constant partner, there's just not enough chance for me to have sex daily right now (dammit!) so I usually have to take matters into my own hands.

prudish people are always going to say that "any amount" of sex is too much; but really there is no such thing. The right amount of sex is how much you enjoy and how much you can get. The "complainers" are just jealous.

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All the stars are flashing high above the seaand the party is on fire around you and meWe're gonna burn this disco down before the morning comes- Pet Shop Boys chart from 1992-2015Isentress/Prezcobix

when I have a stable partner (with 2 that made up nearly 20 yrs of my life), we usually tried to have sex every night with an occassional afternoon or two thrown in there each week. So I agree with the Rev - you don't have the correct amount of options in your poll. Might I suggest "unlimited" or "as much as possible"

Now that I'm 49 and "dating", it depends on what you're defining as "sex". A four hour afternoon romp consists of getting off 3-5 times. sadly without a constant partner, there's just not enough chance for me to have sex daily right now (dammit!) so I usually have to take matters into my own hands.

prudish people are always going to say that "any amount" of sex is too much; but really there is no such thing. The right amount of sex is how much you enjoy and how much you can get. The "complainers" are just jealous.

Ya'll young ens are killing me, SHIT I'm an old man

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"it's so nice to be insane, cause no-one ask you to explain" Helen Reddy cc 1974

Perhaps the sex drive is what determines sexual orientation? If I hadn't hard a partner for close to 2 decades, I would surely have been the town tramp. And the morning sex, always the greatest....ALWAYS!!

Perhaps the sex drive is what determines sexual orientation? If I hadn't hard a partner for close to 2 decades, I would surely have been the town tramp. And the morning sex, always the greatest....ALWAYS!!

how I miss morning sex. . . it's THE best way to wake up. next to a morning woodie lol

Perhaps the sex drive is what determines sexual orientation? If I hadn't hard a partner for close to 2 decades, I would surely have been the town tramp. And the morning sex, always the greatest....ALWAYS!!

Oh shit greg, you can be my town tramp, I'll even come thur your bedroom window and RAPE your ass

« Last Edit: May 03, 2011, 09:50:19 PM by denb45 »

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"it's so nice to be insane, cause no-one ask you to explain" Helen Reddy cc 1974

(Why do I have the feeling I was the one that inspired this thread...?)

Maybe there's something abnormal going on in my head, but I don't think I can even manage sex more than once or twice a week. Hell, I only jerk off about that much and I just turned 28 last week! I haven't had sex in over two years (early February 2009 if you want to be precise) and to be honest, I'm not bothered at all about it. I'm not above going down on someone at any time (or having someone go down on me, as has been the case as of late... ) but it's very, very rare that I do want to fuck someone and it's only because I really am into him on multiple levels.

Also... a vast majority of guys I know seem to want sex several times a week. It's very rare for me to meet someone whose libido is as low as mine. Klouny and I were texting earlier about this very subject, and I told him that I feel like I'm in the minority and that I'm not sexually compatible with most men. He says that I'm not, but I tend to desire less sex and more cuddling (and romance, I should add.) I dunno... like I said, it's very rare for me to fantasize about pegging someone, let alone actually want to do it.

Seroconverted: Early 80sTested & confirmed what I already knew: early 90s

Current regimen: Atripla. Last regimen: Epzicom, Sustiva (since its inception with NO adverse side effects: no vivid dreams and NONE of the problems people who can't tolerate this drug may experience: color me lucky )Past regimensFun stuff (in the past): HAV/HBV, crypto, shingles, AIDS, PCP

(Why do I have the feeling I was the one that inspired this thread...?)

weirdly enough, it wasn't you. but another REAL prude I know. I swear she's like a nun on crack or something. but you did * bump* me into this thread lol. you know how much I like it, "tease" so I just wanted to see how much other's enjoyed the nasty

Seroconverted: Early 80sTested & confirmed what I already knew: early 90s

Current regimen: Atripla. Last regimen: Epzicom, Sustiva (since its inception with NO adverse side effects: no vivid dreams and NONE of the problems people who can't tolerate this drug may experience: color me lucky )Past regimensFun stuff (in the past): HAV/HBV, crypto, shingles, AIDS, PCP

Seroconverted: Early 80sTested & confirmed what I already knew: early 90s

Current regimen: Atripla. Last regimen: Epzicom, Sustiva (since its inception with NO adverse side effects: no vivid dreams and NONE of the problems people who can't tolerate this drug may experience: color me lucky )Past regimensFun stuff (in the past): HAV/HBV, crypto, shingles, AIDS, PCP

Seroconverted: Early 80sTested & confirmed what I already knew: early 90s

Current regimen: Atripla. Last regimen: Epzicom, Sustiva (since its inception with NO adverse side effects: no vivid dreams and NONE of the problems people who can't tolerate this drug may experience: color me lucky )Past regimensFun stuff (in the past): HAV/HBV, crypto, shingles, AIDS, PCP

Seroconverted: Early 80sTested & confirmed what I already knew: early 90s

Current regimen: Atripla. Last regimen: Epzicom, Sustiva (since its inception with NO adverse side effects: no vivid dreams and NONE of the problems people who can't tolerate this drug may experience: color me lucky )Past regimensFun stuff (in the past): HAV/HBV, crypto, shingles, AIDS, PCP