The other day I was talking to a member and he correctly guessed that a photo I posted on here within the last 2 or 3 weeks was one of me.

For those of you who are new here, although I love sharing my speedo escapades, I am not out to most of my friends which means I am reasonably protective of my privacy. Maybe at some point in the future I’ll come ‘out’ but until then I don’t think it is any ones business.

Over the years I’ve had some people give me a hard time for not being ‘out and proud’.

Although most of my friends and family wouldn’t care if I told them I’m bi, then I would have to explain my sexuality. Anyone I ‘dated’, I’d have to explain that early in the relationship which could be a good thing, but I’d prefer to be able to choose if and when I told someone that stuff.

It is a shame I’m not 100% out though, I’m sure I could get laid a little more from the blog (although that still happens) and I’d love to film and photograph more of my sexual experiences. I still do take some personal pics and occasionally I throw one online in the mix just as a personal joke.