Found empty condom wrappers

I usually don't post things like this, but today I made a discovery that I'm not sure what to think about. DH and I are packing to move. As I was clearing out the dresser I came across a big stash of used condom wrappers. We have been ttc for 2.5 years, so the only times we've used condoms were right after my miscarriages when we had to wait to try. I brought it up to DH and he said that was where he put them after we had used them cuz he was too lazy to throw it away. It makes no sense considering there is a garbage 3 feet from the dresser and the dresser is about 10 feet from the bed. If he was going to stash them somewhere it seems like it would be the nightstand drawer. The amount of wrappers makes no sense either as we've rarely used condoms the whole time we've been married. I have a bad feeling and not sure what to think. Maybe he uses them to masturbate? He says he doesn't masturbate though so not sure...any opinions out there as to what's going on?

I usually don't post things like this, but today I made a discovery that I'm not sure what to think about. DH and I are packing to move. As I was clearing out the dresser I came across a big stash of used condom wrappers. We have been ttc for 2.5 years, so the only times we've used condoms were right after my miscarriages when we had to wait to try. I brought it up to DH and he said that was where he put them after we had used them cuz he was too lazy to throw it away. It makes no sense considering there is a garbage 3 feet from the dresser and the dresser is about 10 feet from the bed. If he was going to stash them somewhere it seems like it would be the nightstand drawer. The amount of wrappers makes no sense either as we've rarely used condoms the whole time we've been married. I have a bad feeling and not sure what to think. Maybe he uses them to masturbate? He says he doesn't masturbate though so not sure...any opinions out there as to what's going on?

It sounds like he's just been ridiculously lazy after wearing them with you. It might seem like a lot but if he's stashed them every time you've used one I'm sure it adds up to more than you think. I honestly don't know why a guy would create the extra hassle of wearing a condom to masturbate, and if he was cheating then he suuuurely would've thrown them out?

It sounds like he's just been ridiculously lazy after wearing them with you. It might seem like a lot but if he's stashed them every time you've used one I'm sure it adds up to more than you think. I honestly don't know why a guy would create the extra hassle of wearing a condom to masturbate, and if he was cheating then he suuuurely would've thrown them out?

If he was having a Affair he wouldn't leave evidence where you would find it. I would say he really did just leave them there out of laziness. When I found a condom in my dh's car I panicked a little bc we do use them but soon remembered he had a life before me

If he was having a Affair he wouldn't leave evidence where you would find it. I would say he really did just leave them there out of laziness. When I found a condom in my dh's car I panicked a little bc we do use them but soon remembered he had a life before me

Don't underestimate the laziness of a man. My hubby is always leaving his soda cans right next to the stupid recycling bin. Ditto with hitting the garbage with his coffee cups, leaves them right next to the garbage.

Don't underestimate the laziness of a man. My hubby is always leaving his soda cans right next to the stupid recycling bin. Ditto with hitting the garbage with his coffee cups, leaves them right next to the garbage.

I think we know our partners and if you don't think it's innocent and it continues to bother you talk to him about it again not when you are upset though otherwise it's going to eat you up. Yes men are lazy but they can also be very careless and not to upset you but it might not be as innocent. Are you ready to face an unpleasant truth too and what are you going to do about it?

I think we know our partners and if you don't think it's innocent and it continues to bother you talk to him about it again not when you are upset though otherwise it's going to eat you up. Yes men are lazy but they can also be very careless and not to upset you but it might not be as innocent. Are you ready to face an unpleasant truth too and what are you going to do about it?

I agree and sounds like laziness. Ugh. Men!! And I think other posters are right in saying that the condoms you guys used probably adds up more then you think. If he were cheating he would have worked super hard to throw them out so you wouldn't find out. Regarding him not masterbating....BIG FAT LIAR!!! Lol they ALL do! He might just be too shy to admit it to you.

I agree and sounds like laziness. Ugh. Men!! And I think other posters are right in saying that the condoms you guys used probably adds up more then you think. If he were cheating he would have worked super hard to throw them out so you wouldn't find out. Regarding him not masterbating....BIG FAT LIAR!!! Lol they ALL do! He might just be too shy to admit it to you.

We had a tiny trash can in my room, but my ex was lazy too and so I found condom wrappers stuffed everywhere after he left. He probably opened them in the drawer, dropped the wrapper in the drawer and got back to business. When it comes to sex, Guys have a one track mind. lol I wouldn't worry too much. Now if you find a bunch in your new house. Then redflags can't fly.

We had a tiny trash can in my room, but my ex was lazy too and so I found condom wrappers stuffed everywhere after he left. He probably opened them in the drawer, dropped the wrapper in the drawer and got back to business. When it comes to sex, Guys have a one track mind. lol I wouldn't worry too much. Now if you find a bunch in your new house. Then redflags can't fly.

I'm not sure I believe her dh. If you notice, op said that the dresser they were under is 10 ft away while there is a nightstand next to the bed. It wouldn't make sense for them to be under the dresser and not the nightstand.

I'm not sure I believe her dh. If you notice, op said that the dresser they were under is 10 ft away while there is a nightstand next to the bed. It wouldn't make sense for them to be under the dresser and not the nightstand.

So was he hiding them in the dresser so she wouldn't see then in the garbage?It sounds absolutely ridiculous to save the wrappers in a place that you need to get up and walk to. I can see just dropping them in a night stand but not by passing a garbage can and hiding them.

So was he hiding them in the dresser so she wouldn't see then in the garbage?It sounds absolutely ridiculous to save the wrappers in a place that you need to get up and walk to. I can see just dropping them in a night stand but not by passing a garbage can and hiding them.

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