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Re: What Women Look For In a Mate

Women are not more complicated than men. I guess that because we have the experience of being a "man" or a "woman", that we mistakenly assume that the others of the same gender are similar to us. And then by comparison all the different women / men seem to be complex, because we do notice the differences between them. And sometimes learn the hard way.

The butterfly counts not months but moments, and has time enough. - Rabindranath Tagore

Keep true to the dreams of your youth. - Friedrich Schiller

The only philosophy which can be responsibly practised in face of despair is the attempt to contemplate all things as they would present themselves from the standpoint of redemption. - Theodor Adorno

Re: What Women Look For In a Mate

My my...look who's been busy. Looks like I need to check in here more often...sheesh.

Originally Posted by TKDLady

I didn't make it impossible because then I wouldn't ever get anyone!! I like men and I want to enjoy their company. As for WDH and his 3 or 4 things I think maybe I should just let sleeping dogs lie on that one!

Yes you should and yet you don't.

Originally Posted by Vautrin

He wants a woman that brings him his beer
He wants a woman that brings him his beer
He wants a woman that brings him his beer
He wants a woman that brings him his beer

I guess it is fairly complete now

I see nothing wrong with that list. Simple and expectations are clear.

Originally Posted by TKDLady

Ha Ha Ha. I can't wait until he gets on and sees this. You could have added mows his lawn, does his laundry, cooks his meals, blah blah blah .... Hi WDH, Love ya!!!!

Laundry and cooking...more clear expectations....

Originally Posted by TKDLady

Ha Ha. He won't care. I did send him an email telling him we were picking on him. I figure he won't care about that either!!!

I LOL'ed while having dinner out with my daughter.

Originally Posted by Vautrin

He probably does not mind you picking on him. Me, however, is a different matter.

It's all good. But you know what they say about payback.

Originally Posted by TKDLady

Well since I don't know how a man's mind works real well I will have to take your word for it. Men say women are complicated but I think it is just as complicated the other way around.

All chicks are the same. I proved that yesterday when my daughter and I went to the grocery store together.

Re: What Women Look For In a Mate

I did. Her name was Danielle and she brought me all the beers I wanted with a big smile. And she never interrupted while the game was on. Darn near prefect...now if I could only get that sort of service at home. <sigh>

Re: What Women Look For In a Mate

Okay.. so here it goes.. don't be mad men..
I want someone who is kind, intelligent, sense of humor a must, takes care of himself physically, however health issues are no big deal to me, good teeth really help, and honest. Laughing is so sexy that I just can't be with anyone whom does not have a sense of humor.

Re: What Women Look For In a Mate

Originally Posted by sbr

Okay.. so here it goes.. don't be mad men..
I want someone who is kind, intelligent, sense of humor a must, takes care of himself physically, however health issues are no big deal to me, good teeth really help, and honest. Laughing is so sexy that I just can't be with anyone whom does not have a sense of humor.

Re: What Women Look For In a Mate

I don't know what I am looking for... I have never been married, and haven't been in a relationship in 20 years. I guess I am old fashioned and believe in open communication and real friendship first. I would love to get married.... But to be blunt and honest.

Todays women scare the hell out of me !!

About 5 months ago I answered a ad a women in my area had in the classified's, just for some companionship... And I told her I was looking for a lady to wine and dine.

She turned out to be a retired Marine, and a expert in hand to hand combat and small arms !! She's been married and divorced 5 times, and looking for number 6. She told me she has killed men with her bare hands, and expected me to take her bar hopping and to the Casino on the weekends. I am a recovered alcoholic !!

Re: What Women Look For In a Mate

Originally Posted by Alienated

Can we add WORST 1st DATES stories to this thread ?

That's a great idea for a thread!!!

I don't know what I want in a mate either. Maybe that's why I'm now divorced twice. LOL I know I'm attracted to men who can make me laugh. Men who can do things with their (preferably large) hands. Men who are gentlemen and open doors and argue when I pick up the tab. A man whom I feel safe with, that I know if someone kicked the door in at 3 am they're going to protect me and not hide in the closet. Men who is politically aware and not afraid to voice his opinion, even if his is the only one. A man who works hard and plays hard. A man who, when he finds someone he loves, loves that person with every fiber of his being.

And, if he could look like Alexander Skarsgard that would be great too.

Re: What Women Look For In a Mate

Lol.....

Alienated is talking about women scaring the hell out of him, and Ayla is talking about men hiding in the closet, my does time change! Or have times not changed yet truth's exposed? Something to think about!

I love this quote......

We come to love not by finding a perfect person, but by learning to see an imperfect person perfectly. -Sam Keen

Re: What Women Look For In a Mate

[QUOTE=BridgieBridge;158204]Lol.....

Alienated is talking about women scaring the hell out of him, and Ayla is talking about men hiding in the closet, my does time change! Or have times not changed yet truth's exposed? Something to think about!

I can answer and sum up both views in just 2 words......

Lindsey Lowhan

“When you have eliminated all which is impossible, then whatever remains, however improbable, must be the truth. ” Arthur Conan Doyle

" If you choose not to decide, you still have made a choice. I will choose Free Will " RUSH

2 Timothy 1:7 For God has not given us a Spirit of fear, but of power, love, and self discipline.

Re: What Women Look For In a Mate

Originally Posted by BridgieBridge

Lol.....

Alienated is talking about women scaring the hell out of him, and Ayla is talking about men hiding in the closet, my does time change! Or have times not changed yet truth's exposed? Something to think about!

I love this quote......

We come to love not by finding a perfect person, but by learning to see an imperfect person perfectly. -Sam Keen

That is a great quote!

Women definitely are more assertive now then they have been in the past, in my opinion. Some men are perfectly fine to sit back and let the woman take the dominate role. Some are terrified by it. Some men have just as dominate a personality. I guess it's getting harder to find that balance.