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Thursday, August 25, 2016

How women can manage their Home and Career

Written by: Ifunanya Maduegbunam

Dear ladies/women,

Yea... It's
good, as a lady/woman, to be strong, ambitious/a go-getter, independent, etc.
in whatever you do. It is, however, wise to know where to strike the balance.

Let me explain.

When you
step out into the society and into your field, please blaze the trail. Be
strong. Lead and Achieve. However, when you come home or when you are with your
man, drop certain traits. Your man is the leader.

As long as
you are in a relationship with him, he should lead you, guide you, protect you
and help you where he should. It is therefore, your duty to give him the space
to do just that.

Even, if you
know what to be done and you can do it, still seek for his counsel and actions.
Do not give him the impression that he is with another man. It will make him
feel he is not needed around.

Portray your
feminity. It is your residential territory given to you by God. Make use of it
well. It is not weakness but wisdom. It thrills them and boosts their manly ego
and makes them want to be with you always. Men always want to act and lead.
It's their nature to do so. Leave them to do just that.

This is part
of the reasons why some married men cheat on their wives with girls who are
nowhere near their wives in every ramification. There is something they saw in
the mistress lacking in the wife - feminine charm and the need to be cared for
and provided for. These two things make them want to be with a woman always
because it gives them opportunity to be really who they are meant to be - men!

Note, I am
not just justifying these men's extra marital affairs.

Behave like
a lady when you are with him. Don't boss him around. Ask for his help in
certain things and critical situations. If there is anything to do in the house
demanding masculine strength, let him do it even if you can.

Take care of your
body very well. Look and smell clean and beautiful. Have the charm and spread
the charm. By all means, make him understand that you need to be loved, cared
for, and provided for.

I know that
sometimes certain situations and orientation we grow with tend to mould some of
us into what we ought not to be as women. But it is not too late to make
necessary adjustments.

Please note
that I am not saying that you should become a weakling and good for nothing
except being physically beautiful.

Finally,
know this: It is in our nature to be loved. It is in their nature to love.