HAPPY FULL MOON in Cancer & Sun in Capricorn 16.1.14

We are 16 days into the new year. How fast the days are moving. Are you feeling this too? If you are feeling overwrought with emotions and feel your home is a box of volatile emotions waiting to erupt you know you are being influenced by this Full Moon in Cancer and the solar flares that have been happening above us. Even if you are in relationship you may feel uncontrollable emotions ready to erupt at the drop of a pin with feelings of aloneness, loneliness and self doubt. You may try to rationalise your feelings with the influence of practical Capricorn but you know this is just an unsteady train at the moment …one end emotional and the other end practical…. How do you merge these two extreme feelings?

Testimonials from last meditation: New Moon & Sun in Capricorn 1/1/2014

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Greed, anger and stupidity are the 3 great evils that befall man say the Buddhists. These 3 great evils affect our relationship we have with people, money, sex, work and addictions like smoking or weight problems.

Are you swimming with ease and joy in your life or are you drowning in your emotions with this Full Moon in Cancer? This is quite a question to cover in a blog. It takes a lifetime to cover and live these answers, with all the process involved in healing our pain and

Your dream is inside you no matter how much failure you have experienced. Please remember that. Your failure has shown you what did not work. Congratulate yourself on the learning from your failure. Remember failure is just saying “That did not work.” It is not saying “You do not work.” Being overwhelmed by your failures, doubts and indecisions can make you feel like you are drowning in a wild perilous sea.

Dreams and Success

Your dream is inside you no matter how much success you have experienced in other areas of your life. Your successes show you what has worked in your life. It says “This idea / action worked.” Can it be repeated again or shall we do something different? It says “This works.” Do you keep doing it for now or for always? This energy may make you question your successes as well! This is the time to really celebrate your success and the dreams you have made a reality. Why not list a few now just so that you know you have had some dreams come true. Well Done

What are Paradigms?

The Full Moon makes us look at the energy of paradigms and the effect it may be having on our emotions. All year we will be working with paradigms to help move and shift us to where we really want to be. When you look at the picture of the pendant how has that affected your state: feelings, mind, body?

A paradigm is a mental program that controls our habitual behaviour. We all have multiple habits which we carry out unconsciously in our daily lives. We all live on different habitual paradigms on a daily basis e.g. different ways of getting up from bed in the mornings, different ways of behaving in the office, on a date or in a meeting. These paradigms are habitual routines in our subconscious mind we are living in our conscious mind. Below are examples of habitual routines. Which ones apply to you?

Habitual Routine

What habits have you got in your morning routine? You wake up with a routine. What is your routine every morning when you wake up? How do you wake up in the morning? Do you jump out of bed immediately or do you take a while or a very long time to get out of bed? What do you do? What do you do first? What do you do next, then next, then next? What time do you get up? Do you shower, brush your teeth or shave first? Are your grumpy?

What habits have you got at work? Are you always late for work? Are you early for work? Do you go immediately to make a cup of tea or coffee? Do you say the same words to your co-workers? What do you do?

What habits have you got when you get back home? Do you put on the TV immediately? Do you take off your shoes first and then wash your hands before you enter your home? Do you throw your clothes on the floor? Do you grab a beer?

What habits have you got when you go out on a date? Do you look at everyone around you ignoring your date? Do you drink too much? Do you have one night stands? Are you very attentive and jealous of anyone looking at your date? Do you fart?

What habits have you got in your intimate relationships? Do you pick your nose? Are you unfaithful? Do you hold hands when you walk in public? Do you buy each other little gifts? Do you still ‘date’ each other even though you have been going out for a while?

What influences our Paradigms?

We are influenced by our environment such as our family up bringing, social, economic and political environment. We are influenced by TV, advertising boards on the streets, Obama, Michelle, Oprah (pic from Wikipedia), magazines, newspapers, movies we watch. We are influenced by our friends, neighbours, and strangers we meet.

We are programmed by our life style and the language we are brought up in. A Japanese man can speak like an American because he lives in America. A Nigerian man can speak with a posh English accent because he went to a private expensive school in UK.

Many people inherit beliefs about black people, Chinese people, Japanese people, Africans and Americans. What beliefs have you got about ‘foreigners’ in your country? Where you once a ‘foreigner’?

This Full Moon is about looking and celebrating areas of work and areas of relationships we have triumphed in. It is also about looking at the extreme side of life! What influences your thinking in you life at the moment?

How do I Change My Paradigm?

Effort from You Changing your paradigms takes effort from YOU. You can get the help through various positive life affirming activities such as attending a workshop, a seminar, and seeing a practitioner like Toks, a Spiritual Life Wisdom Coach. You can use various alternative methods like mediation, mindfulness, Thai ch

Awakening Activation You can activate your thinking, intuition, perception (how you see the world), will power, authenticity, your real self, your higher self, your creative faculties, imagination, reason, your judgment, your use of time (be effective with the use of your time), your effectiveness, your productivity, your logic, and happy self with your paradigm shift. It is easy when you work on it like water flowing over the rocks as in this picture. But you must work on yourself continually.

Write your New Paradigm One of the things you can do to change your paradigm is YOU need to write your new paradigm and get to know yourself.

What Others Think My client called me saying he was worried about what his friends would think about the changes in his life…….. He went on of a while and I let him. When he finished and he had let it all out of him I said slowly “Stop worrying about what others think. Only worry about what you think. That really is all that matters.” I went on to say that “The only person who puts a lid on your income is yourself.” I encouraged him to flow with his life and move with his heart. After x8 two hours sessions he is on his way to really living his dream and life. Congratulations young man. Love Toks xxxx

Believers who see greatness in You Surround yourself with believers who see greatness in yourself even when you do not belief in yourself. Someone who sees greatness in you is the person who helps you change your paradigm. Our behaviour is changed automatic when we are surrounded by supportive loving energy.

Healing Heart Living from your healing heart is living in the future. The heart activates belief and momentum. Remember do not live from your head because this is mainly about living in the past.

Do the Work AFTER you attend all these activities and read all the books and attended all the seminars ONLY YOU must do the work to keep the new habit in place. No one can do it for you – you are the only one who will keep this new habit active in you. Changing your paradigm involves taking action and practicing a new habit constantly till it becomes habitual. You change paradigms with time and effort and repetition of new ideas. You have to be willing and able to do the necessary work. Everyday is another opportunity to change your life. Change takes time. Make the time to make the change you want in your life. Make a timetable of the new actions in 2014. This is very Capricorn practical energy making plans and timetables

Changing Friends You may have to change friends with your new habits e.g. you choose to no longer take

cocaine and binge drink so you stop hanging out with your friends who take drugs and drink. Be vigilant when you decide to live the life you want to live. Stopping smoking, losing weight, making more money, being more aware of yourself, activating your spiritual energetic power within you will cause a great personal shift within you and around you. Be prepared to loose some people along the way who may not like to see you so successful and happy. When you change your paradigm your friends may leave you, they may resent your success, let them go. New better friends will come in.

Changing Mind Set The programme in our mind is controlling our lives. This is the paradigm. Stop Doing Some things We do things we do not want to do; and yet we keep doing it! ‘We cannot stop ourselves’ is the statement we keep telling ourselves or others keep telling us. Excuses We find one excuse after another for not doing or for doing! These things we do, when we do not want to do them, keep producing results we do not want. We keep procrastinating. We keep saying we will do something and never do it. We keep saying we will deliver on time and we are always late. Our actions do not match our words. We know we want to change our mind set but we have no means of doing it.

Self Talk YOU SAY: “Success keeps escaping ME.” We are ALL conditioned to fail or succeed. THE CHOICE IS YOURS. Most people on welfare benefits stay on welfare benefits and have a generation of this family habit. Many battered wives stay with their husbands for years; and even if they leave will go back an average of seven times before they find their will power to finally leave an abusive relationship.

Prison of the Mind There are many types of prison. There is the prison you put yourself in and there is actual prison. Both prisons have keys that lock you in! Many people who go to real prisons go back again. I once worked with a lady who proudly told me her father and brother where in prison and had been in prison many times. She loved telling me stories which I listened to in awe! I had never met a person like that before then! I was too afraid to tell her my father was a professor and doctor who was invited to royal functions in UK the 1950s. I was so glad she did not ask me what my brothers did; as I would have to to tell her the truth, that one is a surgeon and the other other a charted accountant; each running their own successful business. I allowed her her Being. I did not intrude my own private lifestyle or beliefs on her. She said I was a great friend and a great listener.

Just Change To change your mind set you need to change your subconscious mind to change your habits in your conscious mind! There are various ways (mentioned above) you can do this depending on the root cause of the problem.

Shield Energy: Be aware of any shields, blockages, discomfort around your body. Knock them down! Knock any thing that tells you that you cannot achieve or do or afford……All blockages melt away like ice under the sun. Feel and sense all blockages in the cold ice melt away right now.

Universal Energy: Now feel yourself connected to everything in the universe. The rhythm of life is around you and you are living with the rhythm of life. Do not define it. Remove this definition e.g. some call it God, Buddha, Allah. Some call it Nam Myoho Renge Kyo, OM. Just flow with the energy and choose to do anything that you want. Sense yourself as invisible like air and ONE.

a new life and a new you. Anything you want is already here. Get in harmony with what you are wanting. See the Tree in your Heart – your wishing Tree – giving you what you want – connecting to it to give you want you are wanting. In this relaxed state you can connect to what you want. You are becoming lighter and you can see clearer and your mind is getting confident, and stronger and happier. You are powerful and you unlock the power in you, your DNA, your breathe of life, you power of beyond, and you need no approval to BE. You know and you know and you know. This power is deep within you, flowing into your consciousness. Activate your infinite power from your cells, your flow of blood, your inner breathe. (Be aware of the exercise no. 3).

Physical Energy: When you open your eyes you will feel tremendous energy move through you. You live the way you know you can live not the way someone else wants you to live. You feel the power of the energy flowing through you. Your mind is sharp. Feel a power in you that is yours and feel a smile in your body.

ANIMAL TOTEM – HORSE

Horse is energetic, beautiful, confident, can be showy and precise. Horse will help you battle a ‘war’ and will lead you to peace. A Horse can be ferocious as well as gentle. Horse is warm, loving, intelligent, and powerful. Use the horse energy when you need help and protection and you are going on a long jou

rney or an adventure or shamanic retreat or vision quest. Horse energy is good luck energy bringing good fortune and love to ones home. Horses like to play and mix with others. Call on the horse energy to pray to the cosmic galactic energy of the Spirit and Soul! Really awaken to the beauty of you with this energy.

HOMEWORK: What other stories or insights or Gods/Goddess do you know that work with the horse energy? Please post below. Thank you.

QUOTEs: Full Moon in Cancer & Sun in Capricorn

Full Moon in Cancer with Sun in Capricorn energy likes tradition. I have chosen quotes from people who hold great family tradition and great work ethics. Cancer is emotional family. Capricorn is practical work. All these quotes vibrate with the Energy of Now.

The way you help heal the world is, you start with your own family. Mother Teresa

Be the Change you want to see in your life. Ghandi

To be able to shape your future, you have to be willing and able to change your paradigm. Joel Barker

Any idea that is held in the mind, that is emphasised, that is either feared or revered, will begin at once to cloth itself in the most convenient and appropriate form available. Andrew Carnegie

Two Books to Treasure

I am sharing two fabulous books that eco the energy of this full moon. Most of you may know them already. Have you read them recently? If not then read them again. The Two Books to Treasure are Paradigms by Joel Barker and Think and Grow Rich by Napoleon Hill.

How about spending an evening dancing to live music

Or spending the evening in a more relaxed way. A romantic evening. A relaxing evening in a candle lit room. A soak in the bath. A glass of wine to soothe and reward yourself. A lovely soft duvet to sleep under. Or a meet-up with friends to have a lovely meal and catch-up? Full Moon in Cancer wants to celebrate you.

What will be covered in this Meditation Workshop?

We will cover all the above exercises and more…..

We will have lots of lovely crystals for sale to help you with the Energy of Now – how you are feeling now in your life and what you need to help you in the future and for what you are wanting e.g. new baby, new home, healing, peace, safety, protection, etc.

What will we cover this year 2014

This year 2014 we will decree your future with the New Moon and Full Moon Mediation Workshops. We will work together to change your paradigm. You will build a happy life, a supportive happy relationship, a successful business and we will make a lot happen together. We will make a decision to do something and we will do it. You will realise that you are an ordinary person doing extraordinary things.

Every New Moon and Full Moon we will have fabulous crystals for sale to help you on your journey. If you see a crystal you want on this blog just email me and I will let you know the price. You will have to pay for postage.

Each meditation will carry 2 CPD points. Build up your points here.

Pay in advance for 4 moon meditation workshops and receive the fifth one free. 5 for the price of 4!

Homework

Andrew Carnegie gave Napoleon Hill homework. He asked him to commit to saying everyday morning and evening for 30 days: “Andrew Carnegie, I’m not only going to equal your achievements in life, but I’m going to challenge you at the post and pass you at the grandstand.” Andrew Carnegie was training him to believe in himself – when you believe it then it will happen. Andrew was saying IF I CAN DO IT YOU CAN DO IT.

30 DAYS CHALLENGE

Choose a crystal (e.g. an apophollite cluster, a wand, a directional point, a pyramid, a tumble stone) to help you with this process.

Work on one thing e.g. your time management – master the management of my activities. How will that affect your income, your health, your relationship?

What you are doing is working on the limits you are imposing on yourself. You are creating a breakthrough. You are working on informing the old habits that you are doing things you do not like to do! You are changing your paradigm.

Choose someone you resonate with and say: “…………………., I’m not only going to equal your achievements in life, but I’m going to challenge you at the post and pass you at the grandstand.” Affirm this for every day morning and evening for the next 30 days.

Affirm every day morning and evening: I am going to change my paradigm and the change will be huge and permanent. I am going to change my time management within the next 30 days or sooner.

Statements of fact:

I am so happy now that ……I no longer….

I am so happy now that I am winning in the following area/s of my life………………..

HORSE ENERGY:

Read the notes above on Horse Energy.

Do the healing exercise above. EXERCISE TO CALL IN YOUR HORSE.

What other stories or insights or Gods/Goddess do you know that work with the horse energy? Please post below. Thank you.

Testimonials: New Moon and Sun in Capricorn 1/1/2014

eresting and energetically moving class. I feel I have a greater clarity to start my New Year 2014 and look forward to making this year a very successful joyful year for me and all the people I meet on my journey. Thank you Toks. Indira Raj-Guru

Great session helping us to let of of any 2013 energies that no longer helps us. More importantly, it was great to acknowledge and anchor lessons / blessings for 2013 and the 2014 vision. Beautiful, loving and nurturing energy throughout the session. Toks was amazing holding the space and leading us through this journey. Powerful mediation anchoring the new year’s energies that we ant to bring in our lives. Thank you very much. Maria Fotiou