Think you’re the only one who struggles?

Why aren’t you putting your message, YOUR TRUTH, out there?

Do you think you’re the only one who has days when you question everything? You think you’re the only one who gets disappointed when things don’t succeed, or don’t look the way you envisioned them? Do you REALLY think you’re the only one who just has bad fuckin’ days?

SERIOUSLY?!?!

Do you think you’re the only fricking human on Earth who loses their patience… with EVERYTHING… in one day… or that no one else has days where they want to just quit?

THROW.

IN.

THE.

DAMN.

TOWEL?

YEAH. You’re totally unique. No one has any idea what you could be going through. NOT AT ALL.

So, please… just KEEP IT TO YOURSELF, would you?!?!

Nobody here wants to know that, like you, they AREN’T ALONE… Dangling in the nether space between jumping off the cliff toward their dreams and drowning in the FEAR OF FAILURE.

Or worse… SUCCESS!

Nope. No one here has any clue what that feels like.

We’ve never had a manager out sick on the day our kids go back to school and we’re asked to step in and miss both kids leaving for the first day of school. We’ve NEVER had a social media site just not run our ads even when they’re approved, have funds, and have been running fine for days.

We’ve also never had days where we felt we were fighting a completely UPHILL BATTLE to make any progress in our business, relationship, weight loss, or personal development.

And, we’ve NEVER had days where we were just PETRIFIED that we made the wrong decision, took too great a chance, or spent too much money trying to make something happen. Or… that no one would find value in us or what we had to offer.

No. We totally Do. No. Get. You.

So, honey, please… just keep your message inside so no one can see your STRUGGLE. No one can benefit from seeing you STRUGGLE. And, quite honestly, NO ONE can even offer to help you with it.

Belabor the STRUGGLE. Prolong the journey. And, by all means, continue to PREVENT OTHERS from learning their way through by your example. Cuz’ you just weren’t brought here to HELP anyone, were you?

You came here to just live in silence… in your own LONELY SHELL at times when you could benefit the most from interaction with peers and a supportive network of friends.

But, maybe… JUST MAYBE… you didn’t.

MAYBE you came here to PUSH HARD through the struggle and become the SUCCESS on the other side! Maybe you’re actually THE ONE who came here to FIND THE WAY THROUGH… to HELP OTHERS find their way too.

MAYBE.

YOU’RE.

A.

FRICKING.

LEADER.

And, maybe NOW is the time to start SHOWING UP like one. Stop hiding behind your FEAR, your STRUGGLE, or your doubt. Please, please, please move forward, open up, and share your journey with us.

If you don’t, we will NEVER see how incredible of a LEADER YOU ARE. And, what a shame – an ABSOLUTE TRAGEDY – that would be… for none of us to share in your gifts because you CHOSE to die with your music still inside you.