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did he take it to far? *a bit long*

Posted by Anonymous

20 Replies

My bf and his co-wokers were joking around one day and just trash talking each other (childish I know). Out of no where one C said 'that's why I f****d your girl' to my bf. Well his other friend Jr said that's messed up. My bf just laughed it off. He told me about it once he got home. It made me uncomfortable since I just met the dude a week before. So tonight my bf said he was telling Jr and C how I turn him on and brought up the example of how im laying in bed with my lingerie and the back part has a long slit that shows my butt. Well while he was saying everything his friend C sat there saying mmmm and ohhhh. My bf and Jr turned around and was like wtf dude. Where you just imagining my gf naked. C TURNED RED AND HAD AN OH SH*T FACE. C didnt notice he was saying it out loud. My bf didnt say anything after that to him and dropped it. So while my bfs telling me this I stop him and reminded him that I invited Jr and C to our super bowl gathering. Not only does it make me uncomfortable that his friend is going to be in my home but also that my bf didnt say anything to him about taking it a bit to far. I don't want to be rude and tell my bf to un-invite him. My bf agrees he did take it bit far it did bother him also. What should I do? Do you think his friend took it to far?

You're cool with him talking like that to his friends. Not cool with them responding. That's pretty stupid, if you're okay with him sharing intimate details like that , why be bothered when the men he's sharing with comment back.

by Anonymous 3
on Jan. 26, 2013 at 4:20 AM

Your bf shares way too much info......

by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster
on Jan. 26, 2013 at 4:22 AM

Yea because my bf expected C to respond the way he did. Jr shared the same thing with my bf and C and C didnt respond to it.

Quoting Anonymous:

You're cool with him talking like that to his friends. Not cool with them responding. That's pretty stupid, if you're okay with him sharing intimate details like that , why be bothered when the men he's sharing with comment back.

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