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"You are not required to send anything unless you are legally separated..."

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You are not required to send anything unless you are legally separated, also if you do not send a portion or any monies to you wife and dependent it will not look good on your behalf and can be used against you in court the best thing to do is send something anyway before you are legally separated.

"I divorced my abusive army husband this year..."

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I divorced my abusive Army husband this year, divorce was final November 16, 2011. I can tell you she is entitled to the majority of his BAH. My husband was an E4, and had to pay me $694 per month until our divorce was final. That was almost all of the BAH he received. All she has to do is call her local Inspector General office, or call his Company`s Commander to make the complaint of FAILURE TO SUPPORT. If she calls IG, they will issue a complaint and he will be in trouble. If she calls his commander directly they will probably be easy on him. IG doesn`t care who you are, those people wreck days and get the job done. They will contact his commander, and within a few days she will get a call from his commander asking her for contact info so she can receive the Memorandum stating that he has been counseled for Failure to Support, and ordered to pay her. It`s very easy, go to the post website, where ever they are stationed at, and look up the number for their Legal Aid office or JAG on the website. The IG office number should be listed there, or just call Legal Aid and they will give you the number. To call all you need is the husbands name, rank, unit info is optional if she knows his SSN. They can look him up.

"The daughter was allowed to see her mother..."

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Isn`t America great. The land of the Free. We have full Freedom, until government bureaucracies take them away from us. There is part of the story you are leaving out. I know of a man who was married and had a daughter about 10 years old. The daughter was diabetic, and the mother was an alcoholic. The daughter had some high glucose readings into the 800`s . Apparently (can`t be certain) the doctor had to report the findings to CPS. In CPS opinion the mother was letting the child either overindulge in sugar products or not monitoring the child`s glucose readings. The upshot was CPS told the Father that if the Mother stayed with him at home, they would remove the daughter from the home and put her in foster care. He had no choice. He had his wife stay with his father in a different place. The mother continued to drink. They stayed married until she died of cancer several years later. The daughter was allowed to see her mother ONLY if the visits were monitored by someone being there. There logic was since the mother drank she could not watch to make sure that her daughter did not consume sugar in excess. They also surmised that a drunken mother could abuse the child. Sometimes I think CPS abuses there power and makes unwise decisions.

"Child custody and paternity" the military however cannot forcibly take income to give to you..."

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Army Regulation 608-99. "Family Support, Child Custody and Paternity" The military however cannot forcibly take income to give to you. If he does not provide financial support to you, he can be punished by his command. Without a court order for payment, his wages can be garnished, but the military has no authority force him to pay you without a court order. Nonsupport is highly frowned upon and he could lose rank, be denied promotion or even be discharged. I suggest taking the regulation to JAG and discussing the situation with them.

" also she is entitled to all the same benefits..."

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His obligations DO NOT CHANGE because be bandoned her. He is still married and has all the obligations he did before. Also she is entitled to all the same benefits. Only a divorce will change that and then the court will assess all these issues and make a (hopefully) fair judgement as part of the divorce proceedings.

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America is a democratic country, and democracy is freedom. so if you want to be with your husband again, so be it. if you don`t, don`t come back. it is still your decision, because you are legally married to your husband. i yhink, your mom is only concerned about you, but you had still the last word.

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How much of my bah is my spouse entitled to?

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If af spouse leaves you am i entitled to half of his bah?

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