I have two jobs. The main thing I can suggest is make sure you take at least one day per week for YOU time. When I first got my second job, I was working nonstop, 14 or 15 day stretches (some of them were double shifts), and I got burned out fast. Make sure you put aside time to do things for yourself. If you do that, you will have things to look forward to, and working the two jobs isn’t so bad 🙂

Make sure that you set a certain amount of time aside for your relationship each week – like a special dinner or a chore day or both. If you start getting tired/run down, try to come up with a routine to leave some of that stress behind when you walk through the door. Get enough sleep. Make your FI give you hugs – I know, make sure he knows he needs to give you more.