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Loool. Linda dis ur question tire me o. This is a personal question na. Ideally one should have one sex partner (in marriage) which is biblically accepted. However, sex is now like a free gift for every relationship entered into. For a guy it's bad to have many sex partners. It is also awful for ladies. But you know what sex is na. Its urge is usually uncontrollable for a lot of people. This is where self-control is prime.

Hmmm. Linda I can't really say o. Personally, I've dated just 3 guys seriously. My 2 'exes' and my present man. I don't buy the idea of dating so many guys. Too much drama for me.You never can even tell, some of your ex might have been perfect for you and might want you back. Its just like this article I read HERE on 16 signs to know your EX wants you back

Linda is it smart to buy a car that has bin used by 10 different owners? Any decent gal shuld reach at least 18 b4 she starts dating and 21 b4 she receives d rod, let's do d maths»» so u slept with 10 different men in 9yrs, is ur name Cossy? That is how I met a 25 yrs old gal I wanted to date n I asked her how many guys she has slept with, she said-- "I can't remember" I said c'mon hun just estimate, she said "19" I just made it round figure(20) 4 her n dumped her NGO ass!!......T.

ONE THING IVE REALIZED ABOUT NIGERIA IS THAT ONE OF THE EASIEST WAY TO FAME IS TO BASH WOMEN BE IT ON THE MEDIA OR THROUGH OTHER AVENUES. LADY, WHO GAVE YOU THE MORAL HIGH GROUND TO GO ABOUT BLABBING. IF MANY NIGERIAN WOMEN ARE AS SAINTLY AS THEY USUALLY PRETEND TO BE E.G. MISS SHUGA HERE, MANY WONT BE AS DESPERATE AND GO TO ALMOST ANY LENGTH TO GET MARRIED EVEN IF IT MEANS SLEEPING WITH MARRIED MEN, MANY WONT SLEEP WITH ALMOST ANYTHING FOR MONEY AND OTHER FLASHY THINGS.

MANY GO ONLINE AND PREACH ABOUT MORALS BUT THOSE SAME WOMEN WILL SEND ALL TYPES OF NASTY STUFF TO ONE'S EMAIL AND FACEBOOK ACCOUNT OUT OF DESPERATION FOR MONEY. THEY WONT MIND TRAVELING HUNDREDS OF MILES TO GO MEET SOMEONE THEY HAVE NEVER MET ALL WITH THE HOPE OF GETTING "SOMETHING" FROM HIM. YET, THOSE SAME WOMEN WILL CALL OTHER WOMEN OUT AT THE DROP OF A HAT. ATTENTION SEEKER DO HAVE A SEAT...YOU HAVE BEEN NOTICED. SAINT SHUGA OR WHATEVER YOUR NAME IS. I WONDER WHAT PEOPLE WHO REALLY KNOW YOU WILL SAY ABOUT YOU.

ANY CURSE SENT MY WAY WILL GO BACK TO THE SENDER AND TO THE SENDER'S LINEAGE. I WILL KEEP CALLING IT LIKE I SEE IT. BITE ME IF YOU HATE THE FACT THAT I TYPE IN CAPS.

Sex is supposed to be a very special intimate moment with two people who are in a committed relationship and hopefully married, when sex with more than one person becomes the tale one wonders how the feelings waiver but with more than two may there is a sex -CV , sex with three is work-experence, sex with four is a sex- expertise status , sex with five is a sex- consultant status, sex with six is tigress status while sex with seven is an ungodly perfection , sex with eight to ten is an absolute orgy , while sex with more than ten may be subsconscious promiscuity.

na wa oh! 10 cha! Babes, when you've slept with four men and none has wifed you, please make sure the fifth one you wives you before he gets busy. No need to be giving free pussy except you see nothing wrong in it....my 10 kobo!

10,50,2..Who cares? To each his own.Totally unrelated tho but..call me up at 08098541659.. I'm not a make-up artist but I'll wow you and for no charge. You need to try out a new style of make-up. The one that dude has you on doesn't totally suit you. xx

In my opinion, the figure sounds huge but if u're unlucky with men I tell u the figure would be much more. Some things are inevitable. By the way (@ Miss goodmusic) people like u need a vjj rejuvination from having a billion sex partners!!!

It's not enough! U should. keep screwing until u find the one that will make u never want another. That's the one to keep! Nothing worse than bad sex in marriage. There's other aspects of course but is easier to compromise and forgive when the bed is fire. Practice safe sex and hump all the way to the alter. Enjoy!!!

At a single moment, having more than one partner is far reaching enough, one should do, but when talking about how many men in all a woman has dated in summation then I don't think the number being up to 10 is bad enough for an under 30 year old lady, we all know the relationships hitches we face on the way here and there which makes break up very easy

Not being a hypocrite like most women will come up here and lie here's the truth,your pussy your choice who decides what is too much or too many?its no longer private as long as 1 man has been in it or seen it so 10 or 1million doesn't matter.Now here's my answer its a personal thing,I am 27 I have the body of a goddess front and back,I am very pretty,I am rich,stylish all of the above and I have had just 2 men down there it's my choice I don't think I'm better than the next woman who has had 1million men and by the way hunny tweeting keep in mind these days,the hoes are winning aka the vagina that belongs to the government so get your sexing on lol

10 is way too much, please leave something for your husband to enjoy, when i was younger my limit was 5, any girl with more that 5 partners i'm not interested, now i extend it to 7, cause i'm older and i understand 1 or 2 girls would have lie to you to get in your pants

If you won't feel like you have slept with the whole world den u r free buh wait o won't the vagina wwalls slack??????? You wud just be like samantha in Sex nd d City....Buh really I think you should ve a capital S for SLUT if u r unda 30....

If mothers advise their daughters that punani read meter, i bet you a lot of girls will reduces the number of sex partners, thats why later in life they start looking for a guy with big dick after them done spoil factory

time as really change, my brother bring random girls to the house at list 4times a week all in the name of big boy, he don't even pay them, so i know they are not aseewo, if hes sleeping with them the same day he meets them, imagine how many girls is doing the same and he never calls them after that or pick their calls again.. girls are loose this days

Only Nigerians think like this I swear. White girls really don't care. They want it they get it. If a guy messes up u move on to the next one. Doesn't make u a hoe. If it's ok for guys to sleep with 100girls then it's ok for girls too. It doesn't have a meter as long as u take good care of urself.

I think two is too much; but it's dangerous to get married to a woman that dated another man for say 5 years. 'How she wan take forget that man even after marriage'. Especially if he was the one that disvirgined her. This will even drive the husband bunkers if he starts thinking about what his wife did with her ex and the number of times he banged her. Guys please if you have a choice don't get married to a woman that never respected her body.

I think two is too much; but it's dangerous to get married to a woman that dated another man for say 5 years. 'How she wan take forget that man even after marriage'. Especially if he was the one that disvirgined her. This will even drive the husband bunkers if he starts thinking about what his wife did with her ex and the number of times he banged her. Guys please if you have a choice don't get married to a woman that never respected her body.

10 is too much....are you a hooker? If not, you better start charging, because if you are going to sleep with so many men, why not make some money out of it? I'm in my late 20's and i have slept with only 1 man, my lovely hubby!

hahhhhaha! this is the most hilarious statement ive ever read! if uve slept with over 10 guys, uve lost the right to call ur vjay a private part , it now belongs to the federal govt. hhahhahato the question at hand. truthfully, even two sex partners is too many but in this our generation, people do pussy and dick sampling a lot hence they have 2,3,4,5,6,7,8.....sex partners.ordinarily the very person you loose ur virginity to, should be the only one but not in this generation. its hard to find a saint in this category. very few exists.

10 men for a WHOLE lifetime is too much!!! I completely agree with the twitter comment. Personally, I would have said 5, but considering how some females run these days, I guess 10 is a reasonable figure!

Hey guys, how many of you would be proud of your wives for sleeping with even one man? It's better to wait for the right man or woman. One is even to many for me. I can't stand the sight of another man that has banged my wife so manny times before.

Some women their husbands will never beat the number of times their boy friends slept with them. If sleeping around is good, why are women not proud of their past especially by telling husbands? 'A man and a woman are not the same. The last time I checked, men don't get pregnant and they don't commit abortions.

Sleeping around by women is partly responsible for most failed marriages these days. It sucks to get married to a woman that even 2 men have banged especially if she dated them for 3 years each. You can imagine the number of times she has done it. Please guys don't sleep around God will give you good wives to marry.

You kidding right? A young lady today who is between the ages 19-28 would have probably slept with 20-50 men and if she is a full time runs girl/olosho then that number could get anywhere over a 100 men in a few months to a year. And I'm not yet analyzing the lesbian games they play. Almost every girl has a bit of lesbianism in her, some of very small proportions that you might not notice, many are bi while others openly express it to their fellow girls. So asking about just 10 men is an understatement. There is crazy sex out there in the city. God help us- Rocky

Hell yes, to fuckin much a lot of 9ja girls ave slpt with more than 10 guyz. Even me as a guy ave slpt with abt 40 girls and dey are nt olosho. I meet a lot of crazy girls. M in my mid 20's. I ave slpt with to sisters and der frnd. 9ja Girls can av mad fun if dey want 2. Omar jumal

Not 2 many o, 4 her 2 hav an interestin lov life, 99 men wil b ok leavin 1 4 nt bein selfish.Seriously it depends on d gal, as 4 me i cant date mor dan a gal @ a tym, and if i find out my gal has sm1 else, i wil advise her 2 choose btw us or i leav her

Not 2 many o, 4 her 2 hav an interestin lov life, 99 men wil b ok leavin 1 4 nt bein selfish.Seriously it depends on d gal, as 4 me i cant date mor dan a gal @ a tym, and if i find out my gal has sm1 else, i wil advise her 2 choose btw us or i leav her

Linda did you say 10? I'm 26 and have had just 2, my ex and my current boyfriend and I'm freaking out. TBH 10 sexual partners if u're under 30 is too much. I don't know if u're having sex for Africa! *raised eyebrow

Let me start by responding to that tweet 1st;that is just your bloody opinion!whether it is 10 or 100 or even more,it is another person's choice and body.who are you to put such a law?some girls are highly sexualised due to various reasons;some pyschological because of the sexual abuse they had in their childhood days,some financial reasons and others might just love sex! Either way it is wrong for you to jurge them because your not God and am sure there might be something worse or equally bad you have also done before

Why are women always subjected to this?but if it is a man it is kool?I have had sex with over 10 guys and my vagina is mine infact it is with me as I write not the federal government.say what ever you like!

Yes!!! Ah ah! 10 men? Dats too much abeg. But den again it depends onn ur definition of the word "lover". Cos its possible to have ǎ̜̣̍ lover and yet nt have sex wt the person. So I think yu shld rephrase the question cos it doesn't completely correlate wt the tweet above. If having ǎ̜̣̍ lover means sleeping wt the persn, den having slept wt 10 men, supposedly as lovers under the age of 30, in my own opinion Ȋ̝̊̅§ bad! Jeez, 10 dicks? No dats bad

Lmaoo @ belongs to the federal goverment...Sex is sex,either with 2men or 20men...If u want to call it private as you rightly said,hold on till u are married and do it with that man who calls u his wife..Shikenah!

Having had more than 10 lovers for a woman under 30 might not be right but it is a personal decision you don't know and don't need to know. Whoever tweeted that crap is the type of person that will critize other people forgeting they are not perfect and might have done something similar or even worse in another scenario/situation

Hahahaa.Dis is hilarious.What about a guy who does the same?does he have d ryt to call his penis,a private part?or dats also FG property.I do think 10 men for a woman under 30 is too much dou.But hey!who am I to judge?

Well... It all depends on the reasons why she slept with 10 different men. Women are vulnerable, some could be relationships with a mixture of a 1 night stand, and some college craze. It happens to the best of people! If its cool for men to sleep with more than 40 women in a lifetime, i think its kinda ok for women to sleep with 10 to the time they settle down. Not that am advising anyone to do it. But for any1 who has reached 10 or about to reach 10, you are not a hoe! am sure there is a valid feminine explanation to it. lol

Well.. it all depends on why she slept with 10. Women are vulnerable, you can mix relationships, a 1 night stand, some old college craze, it could easily add up to 10 people.. If men can sleep with approximately 40 women in their life time, i think its kinda ok if a woman sleeps with 10 till the time she settles down. Not that am advising anyone to do it. It happens to the best and the classiest of people. So dear lady, if you have slept with 10 or about to reach 10, you are not a hoe! am sure there is some feminine explanation to everytime we sleep with 1.. lol

10 is quite a small amt actually!I think 'sexual partner' is being mistaken 4 'boyfriend'An under 30 can hav as many sexual partners as possible as long as PROTECTION is involved!Dat age bracket is wen u r supsd 2 ENJOY dick as many as u want!I mean u gatto taste a lot of country dick!And der r more dan 10 countries in d world!LolSo yeh..10 SEXUAL PARTNERS not BOYFRIENDS is SMALL!Billie jean

Just 10 men? 10 men isn't it like α man wen it comes to tins of de world nowadays? Abeg 10 men is notin, i cnt count how many i've slept wit to be honest & dat doesn't make M̶̲̅ε̲̣ less respected as long as my packaging is still intact but if u haven't slept wit M̶̲̅ε̲̣, am still α virgin to u. Dats my own opinion. #people shouldn't cum here & start claimin saint motherfuckers, make una talk de truth for once joorrrrrr.

Must all these questions be on women women women? What of men that can sleep with a whole community in their lifetime? Men have soooooo many sex partners some of them even forget they slept with and go back to the same woman on toasting levels!...............ng owerri

The human body is a temple of God. How many sould do u have to share your body with? Why not take protect the fearfully and wonderfully body.... If not at a young age, whrn will u start protecting yourself.

And what do you call the penis that has never rested till death? Men are the highest ashawo!!! I am a nurse and once had a patient down with paralysing stroke. I passed by his bed and the 80yr old grabbed by buttock and exposed his erect member. His wife who was right there caring for his sorry ass was so embarassed after I shouted at the pervert. I wonder how many women he slept with in his lyf that even on his death bed he was thinking of illicit sex.

The fact is dat a 30yr old gal dat has slept wit only 10 guys is extremely decent. If she started havn sex @ 20 then we're talkn abt an average of 1 guy per year. Dat is impressive. Girls on d average tripple dat number each year.

Our body is a temple of God, human beings r fearfully and wonderfully made. These are reasons why we sld jelously protect our body. Sharing your soul/body is an opinion and I can't Criticize others opinion if I dont av a valid reason.

The human body is a temple of God. How many sould do u have to share your body with? Why not take protect the fearfully and wonderfully body.... If not at a young age, whrn will u start protecting yourself.

This thing get as e be. Remember your post about child abuse some days ago. Some of we girls, and me too have slept wiv a lot of men. Not by choice. Some of us after being sexually molested at a very young age. Like me I was molested since 4 years old till like 10 so I was already in the Know about sex and I was raped at my teenage years too. I told u of my story in that child molestation post, how it felt like I cannot survive alone. So when a guy comes to date me, it felt like he was doing me a favour because I had very low self esteem. I believed sex is all what am good for. The molestation was so much that I just saw myself as a sex symbol, it was a matter of time before I got disvirgined. So any guy that comes to date me, we had sex. I have been having sex for real since when I was 13. Now am 24, by age 20 I had done over 20 men cus I could not keep a relationship for more than 6 months and I was scared of being alone. Infact I can almost say I was mentally unstable. The guys I dated were to young to understand what I was going through. I had no self control. I cried for no reason and looked for trouble when there was none. Been through hell men. Once one guy goes another one comes. I regret it soo much. Infact I hate to think of it. If I had someone to talk to when I was younger my life wouldn't be like this. I thought it was a normal thing. When I got to the university and heard a lot of stories I became thankful cus I saw that I was not the worst human being on earth. The guys I slept wiv, I know them and we dated no matter how short it was, never slept wiv a married man, never had a one night stand. But then in school I met girls who sleep wiv different men every single day and they looked normal and happy. Not to talk of the ones that did runs and all those orgies like 3some for moneyetc. I became conscious at age 21, I began to rehabilitate myself but this girls were way older than me when I entered school yet they do this things wiv reckless abandon. I thank God now, am no more that person. I love myself more and I just live my life to the glory of God and I don't judge anyone.

They say it is. I'd love to hear why tho. In my opinion, 10 men isn't outrageous.....for an adventurous woman under 30yrs as it is expected that from 30yrs on, you have found the one man you will sleep with for the rest of ur adult life.

While I understand the sentiment; 10 is kinda plenty if ur not whoring around; the truth is that some nice, decent girls could find themselves having slept with more than 10 not cos they are promiscuous but cos guys nowadays are such players. Therefore there you are trying to find your 'true love' but the guy is only after you cos of the sexing. So this is a tough one, one would definitely have to consider it on a case to case basis; can't generalize.

For a descent girl dat knws what she wants in lyf, 10 is outrageous. Yes a couple of relationships B4 marriage is healthy. Its pathetic most of out tennagers have more experience than their mothers when it comes to sex. I go with dat twit, once u have hd over 10 its no more a private part

I disagree. My vagina does not belong to the federal government. When your b/w the ages of 18-23, you are smart enough to know you cannot settle down in this year 2013. It's unrealistic. So you have fun...in my case a little too much fun. That doesn't warrant you start whoring yourself but you may find you have a little more partners than the generation of the 80's.

My thing is be safe and try not to increase your number this year and don't shit on your own door step.

For an average Naija lady, 10 men is not too much.Y did I say so? When a lady disvirgins she gets more than one man after that. In Skul several failed relationships, bringing d Men that has had her to 8 or there about. During service(NYSC), 3-4 guys b4 she wuld now settle for one when she gets a job!Inconclusion, 10 Men is still okay for a lady that's under 30years.

Truth is, most girls have had more than ten partners before they reach 30 yrs. And the number only increases as time progresses. Conclusion- Most single ladies are whores. Most of them. Guys beware. They'll lie. They'll pretend to be angels. But don't be deceived. They are all whores. Lord help us!

I'm sure this person has had sex with over 20 pple she thr talking rubbish. 10 men is much but then it depends. Was it 10 at the same time or at intervals? Abeg this aint an argument all woman and man for himself. That one no concern anyone. Even if uve had sex with 50 men. That na ur own business.

Once sex partner is more than one, then it is too much. I was made to understand that you can have more than two as friends from where you choose one and not to be sex-sampling them. But the way things are in this world now the real meaning of Girlfriend or Boy friend these days is quite different from what we have in the dictionary. may be there is need for a "New Modern Day Dictionary"

for a lady to have slept with ten guys.....i cant imagine my girl friend telling me she had had close to 10 sex partner within 30 years. any babe who has had as much as ten is either a public toilet or better still a public latrin.

Hmm! Well your right but their is a but you know we never plan to have many sexaul partners in our life. It just happens, but what will one do now. But I regret sleeping with all those men, if I heard know better, I wounld have kept myself for my hussy alone.

Of course.Its no longer a private part..How can you open ur legs for 10 men?5 men sef.. Nawa for this our generation o...Like say sex na food.thats why premarital sex is strongly discouraged, U can never be sure what the outcome of ur relationship with a man would be.What if it doesnt lead to the altar and uve slept with him, U may find it hard to move on because you feel ashamed considering the fact that he has seen ur nakedness.Im not trying to be holy here but ladies pls lets respect and dignify ourselves..No one else will make that decision for u..The ball is in ur court.