I can't imagine how frustrating it must be for single females and couples. Sorry you had to endure so many krby.

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lol@krby....maybe one day our tour buses will intersect, now that would be one helluva party!

Have fun and be safe!

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To the original poster--first of all, I would think the majority of the people are here to have fun, I don't think being in a couple necessarily gets the monopoly on having fun. There is plenty of fun to go around. Secondly, it's not that I am unsuccessful at dating, I'm just no longer interested in dating. I'm not sure I ever was, I've only recently decided to be honest with myself about it. 3, define "free pass".

There are a lot of benefits to swinging single for both parties. There is one less person that someone has to be attracted to in order for the impending situation to occur, which benefits everyone. A lot of couples have fantasies that entail only 1 other party and not couples. For a brief while I was considering getting a partner and maybe eventually I will, but I've also been advised swinging as a couple has its own obstacles.

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Krby, my fantasy is to retire, buy a tour bus and just criss cross the country looking for fun people to hang out with. Sounds like you are starting without me! lol

I hope you have better luck in other areas...perhaps traveling north a bit?

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Some couples are caught up in the old "swapper" mentality and figure a single guy has nothing to offer. I submit his wife would disagree.

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To the OP, please don't think that you have a patent on swinging just because your a couple. I, as I'm sure with most single males, do much better in the dating world. On here you find people who enjoy being meeting people, having friends and having sex with those people. That's what your here for also. If you say it's not about the "fun", your lying. The LS allows me to have "fun" without hurting someone's feelings.

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We own the largest group on SLS "Single Men Welcome Here".

It is open to single males as well as females and couples that are single male friendly. Over 14,000 members and growing fast.

Click on the "Groups" link to the left of this message and you will find us at the top of the most popular list.

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Hey Rdy xo ;-)

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'"So why is it that couples who indicate a preference for single males don't respond when you're really considered handsome?"

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1. Supply and demand. There are tons of single 'handsome' men around. 2. Location. Depending on the region, the ratio of couples to single men may not be as skewed. 3. A lot of couples are happy with their current setup, and aren't considering changing it any time soon.

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I'm recently divorced, but have a desire to play with couples. I find them to be more secure but still know that the fun is there under the right circumstances. Just because you're single doesn't mean you don't want to have fun. So why is it that couples who indicate a preference for single males don't respond when you're really considered handsome?