When it comes to dating women, one of the easiest ways to do it is either by being confident or by pretending that she is the answer to all of your questions. Women love being right. They also love it when you come to them for help. Women a woman feels like you need her, it tugs at her heart and makes her want to be there for you. However, there’s a difference between needing her and being too needy. You don’t want to be a nag or a bother to a woman; rather, you want her to know that you value and trust her opinion so much that you’re willing to swallow your pride and ask for her help whenever you need it. You can play this role easily, especially when you’re at a nightclub or restaurant either alone or with your friends.

Give Her a Story that Makes Her Want to Protect You

“Show her that you need her”

A real simple and easy way to make women want to show you a good time is to pretend that she’s saving you from an awkward or stressful moment with your ex. The next time you are out at a club, restaurant, or some other place filled with various people, you can put this plan into action. When you spot a woman that you’re interested in, make sure that she’s not with another guy before you approach her. Once you’re certain that she’s not there with another guy, wait until you catch her alone and then make your way over to her. Say something like, “I’m back,” or “Here I am,” to make it seem like you were already there with her. Afterward, lower your voice and beg her to play along because your ex is nearby. Tell her that the two of you had a bad break up and that she cheated on you and made you feel weak and miserable. Offer to buy her a drink if she plays along. She’ll automatically want to know more about you and your bad break up since you’re going through so much trouble to avoid your ex, so make sure you’ve fully thought out your story. Don’t be surprised when she starts playing along because women love to make other women jealous.

Tell Her She Reminds You of Someone You’ve Lost

Another great story is to mention to a woman how much she looks like someone special to you that you’ve lost. You can tell her that she reminds you of your wife who died, or your younger sister. If you’re going the younger sister route, make sure to tell her that her mannerisms remind you of your fake sibling and not her appearance. You don’t want to creep her out, after all. Don’t try to come onto her. Rather, just try to chat with her and make her feel comfortable around you. You want to charm her enough to the point where she wants to know more about you and the relationship you had with your fake deceased friend or family member. Always have a complete story and remember it from beginning to end. Don’t let your lies get you into trouble.

After you’ve shared you’re made up stories with women, you’re going to want to play it bashful and cool. Don’t suddenly get overly confident. Keep up with the same role from beginning to end. No matter if she’s only a fling, or if you end up dating her, we recommend that you never reveal your lie unless there is absolutely no way of avoiding it.