Sunday, February 1, 2015

A word with Myself

Change is inevitable. People, Situations and Life, all are
bound to change. Embrace the change with open arms. When you resist, it creates
friction which could cause unnecessary wear and tear. Moreover, whatever you
resist, it persists.

If you expect something from someone, you are but bound to
be disappointed atleast some day or the other. So, at first place don’t attach
any expectations from anyone. Agreed that expectations can’t be completely
given up; But the lesser the better.

Be contended with what you are. It does not mean that don’t
strive for improvement but what it means is that, don’t strive too hard, be
easy on yourself. Sometimes things will happen at their own pace.

Be contended with who you are. Desperate attempts to please
others or change yourself according to their liking are not going to fetch you
anything. It creates disharmony. Don’t push yourself into a war against
yourself just because of some odd desperation for approvals or acceptance.

You are unique, You are special, You are one in a million.
Don’t trade in yourself just in order to fit in. Don’t ever give up the Real
You for the sake of some superficial and cursory opinions.

Sometimes situations and circumstances will demand letting
go. Letting go of people, of some old dreams, of dormant feelings. Don’t hold
on to such things or feelings which need to left behind. A fresh start is very
important. Every once in a while, make sure to clear all the mess, both on the
physical plane and the mental one.

Forgetfulness is important for the soul. When you let go
certain things, it should be totally impersonal. Not an iota of feeling should
be associated with it.

Love yourself in order to be loved. Respect yourself in
order to be respected. Appreciate yourself in order to be appreciated. Treat
yourself with dignity and you will be treated so by others as well.

About Me

finding it hard to figure out myself,m longing to chase the infinity the undefined,understand the enigma associated with the being,with the existence of self .sometimes i feel the tyrannical impulse to power and yet another times i land up with a quest for a life imbibed with the true colors of love.