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Wednesday, June 24, 2015

Tyrelle Shaw, Dylan Roof, Eliot Rodger- When Simpin Gets Violent

Over the last few years men have been committing murders and
assaults all because they couldn’t get laid or get a woman paying attention to
them.

A year ago Eliot Rodger went on a shooting rampage where he
murdered people because he couldn’t get sex out of his dream woman.

In that same year in Long Island a teenage boy murdered a
girl just because she wouldn’t go to the prom with him.

It’s also rumored that Charleston Church massacre killer
Dylan Storm Roof murdered those nine people because a White woman he was
interested in was involved with a Black man.

And recently here in New York Tyrelle Shaw went around asking
random Asian women for their phone numbers. And when these freaked out females
wouldn’t give him the time of day he assaulted them by hitting them with a
weapon. Many required stitches to their faces from the attacks.

All of these cases are clear examples of Simps taking things
to extremes because the girl of their dreams wouldn’t pay attention to them.
And because these guys couldn’t control their emotions they had violent
tempertantrums where they attacked innocent people.

What most people don’t understand are that most Simps are
like Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde. Yes, most Simps are friendly and pleasant when
they’re getting their attention from a woman they like, but they also dark
side. And when they can’t get the girl of their dreams to be part of their
fantasies they can make everyone’s life a waking nightmare.

One of the big problems a Simp has is that they tend to
fixate on one type of woman and chase that ideal. Some even obsess over them. In the case of Eliot Rodger and
Tyrelle Shaw they fixated on a tall blonde White Women and Asian women. And
because they wanted an ideal of a type of woman presented to them from Madison
Avenue advertisers and Hollywood movie studios and even porn, they got tunnel
vision. That tunnel vision prevented them from seeing anything but that ideal
woman they fantasized about.

Regardless of whether or not that was the right woman for
them. In both of the cases of Rodger and Shaw, the women they were pursuing
were clearly out of their league. And out of their league didn’t mean they were
more attractive than Rodger or Shaw, it meant that they had absolutely nothing
in common with them.

And because neither had the social skills neither knew how to
approach women they wanted to approach they became frustrated. In most cases of
these Killer Simps like Rodger and Roof they didn’t even know how to introduce
themselves to an average woman let alone the woman of their fantasies.

As their frustration turned into bitterness they began to
hate the object of their affection. And if they couldn’t have her, they sought
out to hurt her.

Even though she
didn’t exist in anyplace but their heads. In the cases of Rodger and Shaw, most
of the women they liked had no idea they were even alive. Rodger didn’t even
have the courage to introduce himself to anyone. In Shaw’s case most of the
Asian women he pursued didn’t know he was even interested in them until he rushed
up to them and made his thirsty pleas for their phone numbers.

All of these cases also show a disturbing trend regarding how
men are being socialized. In each of these cases it’s clear that none of these
males were taught any social skills regarding how to communicate with the
opposite sex at all. Because they weren’t taught how to interact with women,
they became frustrated and went on to throw a violent adult tempertantrum when
they couldn’t think of a way to get the object of their affection to respond to
them.

Men like Eliot Rodger, Tyrelle Shaw, and Dylan Storm Roof
never grew up to understand that there’s a lot of rejection when it comes to
dating and relationships. Just because a guy likes a girl or a kind of girl
doesn’t mean they’ll like them.

And because these men didn’t have any coping skills, none of
these men knew how to move on after being rejected. Instead they wallowed in
their self-pity making themselves out to be a victim of an imaginary woman or
kind of woman who they thought did them wrong by rejecting them.

It’s clear to me many men today aren’t learning a basic tenet
of dating and life in general: It takes a lot of NO to get to YES. And a man is
going to have to get used to hearing NO from lots of women to hear that YES
from one single woman. This is why it’s never smart for a man to fixate on one
woman or one kind of woman. The women that may be attracted to him may not have
any of the physical attributes of his dream woman.

And in most cases his dream woman simply doesn’t exist. The
images Madison Avenue advertisers and Hollywood movie studios produce are ALL
FAKE. So pursuing women who fit that ideal is a fallacy.

Men are also not
learning another tenet of dating and life: Sex is not everything. In the cases
of Eliot Rodger, Tyrelle Shaw and even Dylan Roof, all these guys probably
thought having sex with the girl of their dreams would elevate their social
status. And because they chased sex, they objectified the women they pursued.
What they actually wanted wasn’t sex. It was what they thought sex would get
them: Social currency with more popular men and women and acceptance by them.

Most Simps believe that if they date and have sex with an
attractive popular woman they’ll be seen as attractive and popular as well. Not
understanding that neither sex nor relationships are social currency. If an
attractive woman does take the time to go on a date with a LAME they’re STILL
LAME. And if a man is a LAME and by chance he has sex with the girl of his
dreams, HE IS STILL A LAME.

And what makes guys like Rodger, Shaw and Roof LAMES are the
guys themselves. And that’s something most Simps never come to understand. The
reason why guys like Eliot Rodger, Dylan Roof and Tyrelle Shaw couldn’t get the
attention of the women wasn’t the women. It was THEM.

Because all these guys lacked self-confidence, self-esteem
and had no sense of self worth they were INVISIBLE to most people. And because
they radiated no masculine energy none of these guys appeared attractive to any
woman.

And as they faded from the sight of both men and women they wound
up brooding in their own rage.

What’s most disturbing about this trend with violent Simps is
that we’re seeing more and more men having meltdowns because they couldn’t win
the affection of the girl of their dreams. It’s clear to me that parents aren’t
teaching boys how to pursue relationships with women. In the real world the
dating scene is filled with a lot of rejection, and if men like Rodger, Roof
and Shaw are the rule these days it’s clear many haven’t been taught how to how
approach a woman nor have they learned the discipline or resolve to move on
after hearing her say no to them. There are four women for every one man on
earth and most of these guys don’t see any of those women because they’re too
caught up in a fantasy created by Madison Avenue advertisers and Hollywood
movie studios.

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I go into detail about these Kinds of Simps in my eBook Stop Simpin-Why men don’t need Finance to Get Romance. The second edition of this
book is FREE on Smashwords. I urge every man out there to download this eBook
and read it, it’ll change your life and possibly change your perspective on
women and relationships.

2 comments:

I want to than you for taking the time to address the evil side of simping. Most simps have an entitlement complex and cannot take rejection. They tend to focus on one type women at the expense of others. When his ideal woman reject his advances, he gets angry and violent.

There are more of Elliott Rodgers, Storm Roofs in the country than we realize. They are walking among us every day. They could be our co-worker, "friend", etc.

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