These kind of gross overgeneralizations drive me up a wall. Do some men cheat? Duh. Do some women cheat? Of course. But maybe it's time to start looking at the guys you are going out with. I read these chirrup postings from time to time and constantly seeing women looking for the bad boy type with a good heart. Which, I am sorry to say, is a rarity. This is one of those situations in life where you are just going to have to choose bad boy who may cheat or nice guy who treats you well. On paper that seems like an easy decision, but in practice, I have seen it go the opposite way 99 times out of 100. It's really pretty sad. On a similar note I find it odd, that as a single guy, my game seems to be most on, when I am being a complete asshole. It makes zero sense. If I approach a woman, and am nice, I get shot down. If I am a dick then you're interested. Maybe its time to reevaluate? That's my 0.02.