... It depends if you want to leave aletter for the benefit of the dyingperson or the benefit of yourself. As writeleft said, she treasures the wallet. It makes her happy. But it does nothing for great grand father. ... (5 replies)

... ally makes me feel better about making this video for my son. I am recording it in stages. I recorded about 12 minutes last night, and then I ran out of things to say. I have so much I want to tell him, but I get nervous when the recorder is rolling and I lose my train of thought and forget what I wanted to say. ... (30 replies)

... My dad is 94 and failing.......no matter how young or old they are they are our Dads.......it is going to hurt.......they are going to die and it is going to hurt bad. People say all the time to me He's lived a good life and that is true but it is still hard letting go of him...... ... (11 replies)

... While it is hard for your husband both of you have to understand that you can't change what happened. You can either fight it and make yourselves sick or you can deal with it and go on with your lives. ... (3 replies)

... been so many years and when him mom died, I tried and he was young but he never wrote back, I thought in time he would, but never happened, will try again with aletter or maybe get his email. ... (28 replies)