4 Ways to Enhance the Missionary Position

I was going to write a post about all these crazy sex positions I came across in an article the other day, but then I realized I would have to post pictures or explain them in perfect detail in order for you to follow along, and they were just so complex! I also thought about whether or not I would try them out myself and my conclusion was, why bother? There’s plenty of hot action to be gained from even he most basic of sex positions. Why make things complicated?

Take the missionary position, for example. Even its name makes it sound boring and stodgy, but with these few small adjustments to your technique, I guarantee you’ll have your lady screaming for more.

4 Ways to Make the Missionary Position Mind Blowing

1. Place a Pillow Under Her Butt

This quick and easy step can turn your regular sex routine into a new and exciting adventure for both you and your partner. Just by changing the direction of your thrust a little and allowing you go deeper, the pillow will facilitate a near effortless stimulation of your lady’s g-spot. This will deepen her orgasm and feel amazing on the way there. You just might want to place a towel over the pillow, because things are going to get very wet.

2. Lift Her Feet onto Your Shoulders

Similar to placing a pillow under your partner’s ass, lifting her feet onto your shoulders will allow you to achieve deeper penetration. It will also make it easier for you to fondle your partner’s breasts, or for her to play with her clit as you satisfy her with your rock hard cock. I personally love this position because it stimulates my cervix, which feels amazing, provided it’s not stuck too hard. If your partner flinches or tenses up, be sure to adjust the depth of your thrust a little.

3. Make Eye Contact

One natural advantage of the missionary position is that it allows for lots of eye contact. This can really deepen your feeling of connection and turn the heat up a notch. Just be aware that constant eye contact can feel a little creepy, and that in the context of casual sex, it can make it harder to stay removed from the intimate aspect of things. Just feel it out a bit, and enjoy gazing into each other’s eyes if it seems right and natural for you both.

4. Alternate Between Deep and Shallow Thrusts

I’ve been with guys in the past who seemed to think that no matter what, harder and faster was better. It’s not true! While there definitely is a place for the hard fuck, it’s usually after a buildup involving a combination of hard and soft thrusts. It’s best to establish a rhythm and pattern; 3 shallow, 2 deep works well for me. Let your partner anticipate the sensation and if you feel her responding a little less to that you’re doing, mix it up a bit.

The key is to pay attention and establish something of a dance between the two of you. In order to do that, you need to show her that you have a knowledge of the choreography. Lead her in that hot dance of the flesh, and your simple missionary-position sexplorations will never feel the same again!

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