What's it take to get into a relationship with someone that I can treat as an equal?

I mean equal in every way. She pays for herself and I pay for myself (go dutch). We take turns inviting each other out for dates. A relationship in which I don't always have to text first and boost her ego by always telling her she's attractive.Someone I don't have to entertain but who merely enjoys my company and I enjoy hers.

What's it take to find someone like that?I don't want a woman to be a burden but an equal partner.

What Girls Said 3

Well a long distance relationship wouldn't work out anyways.You've got an amazing personality but for me personality must come after appearance not before.Nothing I can do about not being attracted to anyone that is not light skinned. Tanned is the darkest I can go for but only to a certain extent.