Mix lots of patience with large amounts of understanding and commitment. Blend in a tremendous amount of kindness and great big sense of humor. Gently fold in sensitivity and compassion. Add a huge handful of fun, but don't forget to mix in honesty and trust. Stir in many smiles, lots of hugs and kisses, and just a pinch of humility. Throw in a generous amount of loyalty for good measure. Add 1 heaping cup each of cooperation and passion. Add laughter and joy and a giant cup of generosity. Last, but not least, ample compromise is a must in this recipe, as well as faith and forgiveness. When all is blended and smooth, slowly add a bucket of love, making sure it coats all ingredients. This is your Happy Life Stater. Stir it daily and add to it often. Don't forget to feed and don't take any shortcuts... Shortcuts in cooking usually result in disaster... If you carefully follow instructions, the finished recipe will double in size if kept in a warm environment and it will never lose it's potency. Give a cup to friends and family so that they will enjoy a happy life too.