I am sorry for your loss, Rachel. I also lost a brother last October. For both of them i will like to say this prayer again:

God our Father, Your power brings us to birth, Your providence guides our lives,and by your command we return to dust. I pray forthe dead,especially for N. May those who have been dear to me in life find a place with you in Heaven.Lord, those who die still live in your presence:their lives change but do not end. I pray in hope for my family, relatives and friends, and all the dead unknown to you alone.In company with Christ who died and now lives may they rejoice in Your kingdom where all our tears are wiped away. Unite us together again as one family,to sing Your praise forever and ever. Amen thet