The therapist asked me a very strange question "without looking at all the past events right now, or anything he might have done to make you mad, why are you mad at him?"... when giving my answer I had to say I was mad "because"... I was mad at him "for this reason"... is it me or is that a nonsense question to ask? She seemed to take apart all the connections I had with the moment of anger and dissect the act without looking at the build up. Isnt looking at the build up how we figure things out? Why would she isolate the incident, was that the therapists way of manipulation?