More correctly I encourage people to self-manage their expectations in accordance with reality. And I say it because at the end of the day, missed expectations are self-inflicted. Nobody can set an expecation within you unless you consent to and accept said expectation. They can offer, but only you can accept and install an expectation within yourself. It's why human beings can reason and have free will of thought and feeling.

"Self-manage their expectations"?? Really?? Pseudo-philosophical claptrap that completely slides past the point that the communication on certain issues, such as SGRAs, has been abysmal. And what's worse, it's so consistently abysmal that I don't anticipate much, if any, improvement.