I'm not with you anymore but we've been there. Watch out though!! Whenever you're not trying (especially while not preventing) pregnancy just POPS up on you We were not trying, not preventing with dd and within 3 months of getting our own house I was preggers. With this one we tried for like 10 months, said forget it because I didn't want this baby due the same time my dd was born. Guess what?? This baby is due ON my dd's birthday Figures!!