Thought is the force underlying all. And what do we mean by this? Simply this: Your every act - every conscious act - is preceded by a thought. Your dominating thoughts determine your dominating actions. In the realm of our own minds we have absolute control, or we should have, and if at any time we have not, then there is a method by which we can gain control, and in the realm of the mind become thorough masters. In order to get to the very foundation of the matter, let us look to this for a moment. For if thought is always parent to our acts, habits, character, life, then it is first necessary that we know fully how to control our thoughts.

We all find ourselves falling into the procrastination mode at times. When this becomes our main way of life, however, we become disorganized. Success is not achieved out of the blue. It is a orderly, purposeful course of deciding what you want to do with your life, what you will do after you get there, and what the steps are to get you where you want to be.

Some people need compass readings to direct them in developing self-organization skills. Other people do not need point of references, rather than depend on self. Despite what type of personality you have, you still need some measure of references to assist you on the right path.

Never expect more from you than you can manage: Expecting more than you can manage makes you an over determined person. You need balance to stay strong.Do never expect more of your partner or child than you would expect of you: Follow this golden rule will help you develop in a relationship and keep the relationship growing strong.

Why it is important to think before you act?It is important to think before you act, since you do not want to go through life regretting every decision you make. When you make spontaneous decisions, often you will look back at the consequences and regret the decisions. Although you will make mistakes along the way, you want to learn to think before you act to limit your consequences. Instead of feeling like a failure when you make a mistake, use the failure as a weapon to take back control of your life.