I am curious about the "files" ....does BDC actually keep files on a member? How would you know this andie....I'm just curious.

soxchamps,

BDC has a file on each and every screen name.

This includes, among other things, all the comments you have posted including the ones that have been deleted.

So, if a poster deleted his of her own comment, that post is still in the file.

For. eg., each and every time redmass posted he was the one deleting comment, then went back and deleted that comment, it is still in his file.

andie....how do you know this?

This is kind of creeping me out.

Oh.

I wish the message system was working.

I really do not want to put anymore on an open thread.

I hope you can understand that.

BTW, babytut please oh please put me on ignore.

You too GODVERMENT.

I ask only because you keep mentioning the files..... I don't know how someone would know about that?

I don't understand why you can't explain, especially since you keep bringing it up.

Come on....you can tell me.

I think it's a case of "calling for attention".

46&2,

Please do not start in on me. I am not in the mood.

I am also not going to be goaded into saying anymore on an open thread.

If this is one your 95% not being serious things, I fail to see the humor.

I actually wanted to try and get along better.

This is not helpful in that area.

SB called GODVERNMENTS "spouse" a saint.

Maybe your wife has a bit of a saint in her as well???

Me thinks you forget sometimes that the rest of us are not married to you.

I call it like I see it. Not my problem if you don't like it. You act like you're giving away state secrets if you tell soxchamps how you know there are "files" on everyone. If you're not going to tell people then stop going on and on about it.

46&2,

See above.

It was an awful time for my family and myself.

I had no idea people could be so vicious and scary on a commentary forum.

Also one of those times when I?we had to make a decision whether to use self-help to profect our family or do it strictly thru channels...BDC, BPD, our police department.

Also, turning our home into a fortress...without going into what we have now we did not have before.

Satisfied?

O RIGHT THE FAKE THREAT AGAINST THE FAKE CHILD. BACK TO THAT AGAIN? LIAR

She must be one of those doomsday preppers

Really, 46&2?

And reducing me to a pronoun as well.

Your wife must love it when you do that.

What the heck do you think people do to make their hmes safer?

If "doomsday preppers" is also a term where you are in that 95% not serious, it fell flat.

Maybe your wife is just a heck of an audience?

Or maybe for the sake of domestic tranquility, as many of us do, we basically zone out our partners, put a smile on our face, and remember we took a vow for better or worse.

You wanted to know more. Now you know more.

I know you do not give a rats a** how much all this has taken out of me, but I do.

So talk amongst yourselves.

And 46&2, remember your father's own struggle with cancer and the treaments.

If he had liked posting on a forum, and two trolls targeted him, than a regular member joined them, how happy would you have been?

We may not get along great, but I think what you are doing is kicking someone when she is down.

And do not tell me I started anything with you, because I did not.

Have a grand rest of the day.

WHY DO YOU KEEP BRINGING UP HIS WIFE? SOXCHAMP RIGHT. THIS IS GETTING CREEPY

I am curious about the "files" ....does BDC actually keep files on a member? How would you know this andie....I'm just curious.

soxchamps,

BDC has a file on each and every screen name.

This includes, among other things, all the comments you have posted including the ones that have been deleted.

So, if a poster deleted his of her own comment, that post is still in the file.

For. eg., each and every time redmass posted he was the one deleting comment, then went back and deleted that comment, it is still in his file.

andie....how do you know this?

This is kind of creeping me out.

Oh.

I wish the message system was working.

I really do not want to put anymore on an open thread.

I hope you can understand that.

BTW, babytut please oh please put me on ignore.

You too GODVERMENT.

I ask only because you keep mentioning the files..... I don't know how someone would know about that?

I don't understand why you can't explain, especially since you keep bringing it up.

Come on....you can tell me.

I think it's a case of "calling for attention".

46&2,

Please do not start in on me. I am not in the mood.

I am also not going to be goaded into saying anymore on an open thread.

If this is one your 95% not being serious things, I fail to see the humor.

I actually wanted to try and get along better.

This is not helpful in that area.

SB called GODVERNMENTS "spouse" a saint.

Maybe your wife has a bit of a saint in her as well???

Me thinks you forget sometimes that the rest of us are not married to you.

I call it like I see it. Not my problem if you don't like it. You act like you're giving away state secrets if you tell soxchamps how you know there are "files" on everyone. If you're not going to tell people then stop going on and on about it.

46&2,

See above.

It was an awful time for my family and myself.

I had no idea people could be so vicious and scary on a commentary forum.

Also one of those times when I?we had to make a decision whether to use self-help to profect our family or do it strictly thru channels...BDC, BPD, our police department.

Also, turning our home into a fortress...without going into what we have now we did not have before.

Satisfied?

O RIGHT THE FAKE THREAT AGAINST THE FAKE CHILD. BACK TO THAT AGAIN? LIAR

She must be one of those doomsday preppers

Really, 46&2?

And reducing me to a pronoun as well.

Your wife must love it when you do that.

What the heck do you think people do to make their hmes safer?

If "doomsday preppers" is also a term where you are in that 95% not serious, it fell flat.

Maybe your wife is just a heck of an audience?

Or maybe for the sake of domestic tranquility, as many of us do, we basically zone out our partners, put a smile on our face, and remember we took a vow for better or worse.

You wanted to know more. Now you know more.

I know you do not give a rats a** how much all this has taken out of me, but I do.

So talk amongst yourselves.

And 46&2, remember your father's own struggle with cancer and the treaments.

If he had liked posting on a forum, and two trolls targeted him, than a regular member joined them, how happy would you have been?

We may not get along great, but I think what you are doing is kicking someone when she is down.

And do not tell me I started anything with you, because I did not.

Have a grand rest of the day.

Since you brought my dad up I'll answer. I wouldn't care one bit about anonymous people "targeting" my dad on a message board because he could not have cared less if that happened. Again....it's a MESSAGE BOARD for christ sake. You act as if people have you physically cornered in a room and are threatening you with actual physical violence. You know how many times I've had mulitple posters trying to give me a hard time? I've lost count. Want to know how many times it affected me.....ZERO! It's just WORDS.

46&2,

Words have meaning, 46&2.

That is where you and I differ.

The "N" word is just a word, but it is a powerful word.

The "C" word is a word, but it is a powerful word with no equal regarding men.

The list goes on.

You do not get off that easy in my book. Perhaps you should read a book about the power of words.

And perhaps that is why so many times muliple posters have targeted you. Some of it has to do with the words you use on this board and how you use them.