Husband's comment to friend

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Please help,, i saw this remark on my DH wassup to his friend ( an old man ) me and my DH we are in our late 30s,,now my DH has diabetes so with his strict diet ,,he has become skinny and looks very young, whereas I have become voluptuous and chubby.

Now I saw that he SMS to his friend,that when we were teenagers, we both looked very young ,but now I look like his sister…

can anyone tell me what he means by that ? I felt very upset. but i nvr told him that i saw the wassup message

chixchix wrote:Please help,, i saw this remark on my DH wassup to his friend ( an old man ) me and my DH we are in our late 30s,,now my DH has diabetes so with his strict diet ,,he has become skinny and looks very young, whereas I have become voluptuous and chubby.

Now I saw that he SMS to his friend,that when we were teenagers, we both looked very young ,but now I look like his sister…

can anyone tell me what he means by that ? I felt very upset. but i nvr told him that i saw the wassup message

please take action to lead a healthy lifestyle and go on a healthy diet to look younger and sexier. Guaranteed to change how your husband think of you.

chixchix wrote:Please help,, i saw this remark on my DH wassup to his friend ( an old man ) me and my DH we are in our late 30s,,now my DH has diabetes so with his strict diet ,,he has become skinny and looks very young, whereas I have become voluptuous and chubby.

Now I saw that he SMS to his friend,that when we were teenagers, we both looked very young ,but now I look like his sister…

can anyone tell me what he means by that ? I felt very upset. but i nvr told him that i saw the wassup message

chixchix wrote:Please help,, i saw this remark on my DH wassup to his friend ( an old man ) me and my DH we are in our late 30s,,now my DH has diabetes so with his strict diet ,,he has become skinny and looks very young, whereas I have become voluptuous and chubby.

Now I saw that he SMS to his friend,that when we were teenagers, we both looked very young ,but now I look like his sister…

can anyone tell me what he means by that ? I felt very upset. but i nvr told him that i saw the wassup message

I think it is very insensitive of him to make such comments. He could have suggested that u join him for exercise or dress up to cover imperfect areas etc..

Mine would bring me for exercise whenever I slack.. Many years ago I lost 9kg within 6 months when I remove carbo from my diet.. I just had lots of lean meat, vege and fruits.. Maybe u can try the diet.. Stay far far away from sweet drinks.. They are the fastest way to put on weight..

I just gave birth and I'm almost back to my pre-pregnancy weight.. Just one more kg to lose.. You can do it too!

Don't be so upset by it. He didn't say it to you. Just quietly update your looks and start a healthier lifestyle. Partners influence each other. I started making time to exercise again because of DH's influence, and he started a skincare regime because of my influence. We don't criticize each other, just observing the improvement in each other is enough motivation. I will ask him for exercise tips and he will ask me to go and buy scrub with him. It is also a good example for our kids.