Ah, now you are starting to make sense. You hate the younger, hotter, local girls as you lost against them... that must hurt. But don't blame it on yellow fever: He was just not that into you...

You might also like to know that my ex only dates western girls. He said to me about local women:- "I just don't see the attraction. There's nothing going on up there." Point is dating is supply and demand so he's now dating another Caucasian English girl (older than me). However guys like him who view women as a package rather than tits and arse a few and far between here. Most seem to be concerned only with superficialities. Maybe a result of so many local and ecpat women pursuing a small pool of expat men. By the way here's what an expat male friend said to me about local men:- "I feel sorry for local women." So again Trevarus if you want others not to adhere to stereotypes do the same yourself.

Tits and arse are important.... What's wrong with liking it? I told you things are sometimes very simple, why do you have to make it so complicated? And sex is good so better learn to like it. Oh no, you want him to love you for who you are not how you look? Wait, this will be difficult.

I asked if you like men but I think I have the answer.

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Tits and arse are important.... What's wrong with liking it? I told you things are sometimes very simple, why do you have to make it so complicated? And sex is good so better learn to like it. Oh no, you want him to love you for who you are not how you look? Wait, this will be difficult.

Aah, this is what I love about the Polish..very intelligent yet very uncomplicated..(plus they add lots of rich food and alcohol ).

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So merciless people could be when crossed...
In all fairness Treverus, OP doesn't have to see the Asian culture (whatever that is) as you see it.
I don't think she'll be changing her mind any time soon.

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Yeah you don't know me. My last (English Caucasian) boyfriend who left me earlier this year said the following to me: we have different goals. I'm very ambitious and you're not as ambitious as me so I don't think we're compatible. You're too sweet and laugh at my jokes too much without contributing. I'm not ready for a serious relationship and want to be free to enjoy Singapore."
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You should have dumped him first!

I take it you've been badly hurt in the last few years, but please, for your own sake, don't become a bitter, undatable woman.
My guess is you were attracted to the wrong type of men, at least "wrong" for you and that had nothing to do with their culture. It's up to you to see if there's any pattern you follow when choosing a certain man and if that pattern inevitably leads you to the same results i.e.- broken relationships.
Anyhow, racism is the last resort for terribly unhappy-with-their-life people, you don't want to become like that, do you? And frankly, coming here for advice, or any other online forum as a matter of fact, when you're broken-hearted and depressed it's not the best idea IMHO.
Take a decision, move to Zürich or London and try to connect with normal guys, not the overly ambitious, or the not-interested-in-a-serious-relation, or the mommy's boy, or goodness know what.
You're still young, you have plenty of time to experiment. 34 years of age is young, for God's sake.

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