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THE AUTHORThe author, a single mother and divorcee, offers suggestions to men on how they can strengthen their relationships with women.[December 2010]

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Advice To Men On Their WomenPaula Barta-Schielke

“P’s PHILOSOPHY”
~Women require considerable loving attention and, as with men, acknowledgement of what they contribute to the relationship.~
~We love it that you come home at night, bring us your paycheck, take us on vacation, clean the garage, and so many other things. We also do our fair share. Today more so than ever before, we also bring our paycheck home, and for the most part raise the children, clean the house, cook meals, pack lunches and more. Never forget to acknowledge that.~
~Women require a different manner of attention We need more than a “‘thank you.” We like flowers, cards, little reminders of your love and appreciation for us. We want you to do little things for us without having to ask.~
~We know how great you feel when we appreciate your efforts and don’t give you any hassle about hanging out with your buddies. That is how we feel when you do those romantic little things for us!~
~Little things may seem inconsequential to you because your focus is on the big stuff that includes making money, building a house, buying nice cars, and so forth. The little things that seem miniscule and pointless are to us essential. We certainly appreciate the big stuff but the little stuff is what keeps our passion alive, our fire burning, and our love everlasting!~
~If you build us a beautiful home, we will appreciate it. If you bring home your paycheck we’ll thank you for it. If you work overtime in order to take us on vacation, we will enjoy it. But if you buy us a card or send us flowers just because you want to show your love, that is what keeps us in love with you forever.~
~The beautiful home, new car, and money in the bank won’t keep us happy. Our love comes from feeling desired, adored and appreciated.~
~If your woman is requesting little things, listen. She needs you to do something for her and to continue doing it. She doesn’t want to beg for the little things. It’s more meaningful to her when you do one of those little things because you want to do it.
~Trust me, if you start doing little things, you’ll see a remarkable difference in her attitude, and in the bedroom! Yes, I said in the bedroom! For women, little things are the greatest foreplay and aphrodisiac.~

Those things begin with the morning coffee. Don’t laugh, it’s true! The little things you do throughout the day will determine what we do for you at night!
If you text your women once or twice during the day telling her how beautiful she is, she will be more willing to get intimate with you at night. If you slip a card in her gym bag, she may slip into something more comfortable for you at night. If you have supper cooked for her when she gets home, she will get something cooking for you in the bedroom. I don’t want to overstate the examples but if you get in the habit of doing something little for your lady once or twice a week, you will see a different lady in the bedroom.
Keeping a woman happy for the long-term means maintaining happiness for the man. It’s a function of the following:
Show and tell us how special we are.
Tell us you love and appreciate us.
Show us you love us by taking us out and showing us off, and by doing the little things that we desire.
Pretend that we are that favorite toy you proudly demonstrated for Show and Tell.
Pretend that we are the fancy new car that you polished and shined for Show and Tell.

It hurts our feelings and damages our confidence when you brag more about your new house than you do about your new wife. So too, it hurts when you pay attention to the details of your car, lawn, garden, and golf clubs but not to the small details that are important to us.

To see big changes in your women, do little things!

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