Soft Restarts via finder reboot my computer fine, But If I do A hard start from Complete power off or out of SLeep mode, I get a blue screen on my second monitor, and nothing at all on my main screen, no signal. After a few attempts I can get a log in screen and everything is normal

I havent put to sleep, or shut down my computer in months because of this.

There were some issues with the revision A of that ATI card. Have you taken a can of air to the inside of your case recently? Maybe the fan on the card has some dust build up and it needs a little spring cleaning. A clean Mac Pro is a happy Mac Pro.