5 tips to practicing Body Positivity

I think self love is super
important and talked multiple times about ways to become more body positive,
but I’m finding a bit of frustration within that. A particular problem I find is individuals preaching self love and body positivity but also preaching size-based
goals and who promote daily ab checks, before/after photos, half naked body
check ins, etc. This is a way in which we police our own bodies, checking every
single day to see if one part we have deemed problematic is getting better or
becoming worthier. I’m not saying there is anything inherently wrong with
wanting abs, but if it becomes to the point where you are policing your body every
day to see if it’s “better” while at the same time talking about self love, are
you practicing what you preach?

Some tips to help you practice
self love & body positivity

1.Be authentic:

If you’re struggling, talk about
it. We all struggle, no one feels 100% happy with themselves 100% of the time,
that doesn’t make you less of a body positive advocate. It makes you human.

2.Stop policing your body:

Progress pictures can
totally be helpful, especially when starting a new training protocol, but if
that’s the only way you’re measuring success, that might not leave you in a
very happy mind set. Try not to weigh yourself everyday, if you don’t take an
ab check selfie every morning it won’t stop your progress.

3.Make your goals for you:

My goals and success
are for me and me alone, the internet does not need to hear about it all the
time. Certain milestones? Sure! A particularly gruelling workout where I thought
I was gunna die but didn’t and it’s a miracle? Yasss, support that shit. But if
your goals are in place to make others happy (especially when that’s the internet)
that’s no good. Or if you feel your success is based on how many people comment/like a post, that's a horrible way to measure yourself.

4.Find like minded people:

I don’t follow any fitness
accounts that are all selfies, before and after pictures or gratuitous body shots.
Why? It’s not helpful for my mental health, it makes me feel bad. I am a strong,
fit, amazing person and scrolling through that makes me feel terrible, I don’t need
it. I follow individuals who are jazzed about working out, who come up with fun
workouts, who inspire me, especially people who offer scientifically sound advice
on injury prevention/rehab.

5.Talk to yourself like you’d talk to a friend:

I
would never tell a friend their love handles were looking flabby, why would I
say that shit to myself?