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At least that's how it works for me. I feel at my best when multiple women are giving me lots of attention and coming on pretty strongly.

I feel least attractive when I step into a place and feel like the invisible guy.

I paid careful attention in my youth over what kind of fashion, hairstyle, physique, character, and attitude I needed to have to make the difference between these two scenarios, and cultivated the one that gets the most female attention.

I'm reminded of a female friend I have here in Japan. She's actually quite stunning and a minor celebrity (comedian on television), but she's in her late 30s. We went to a night club one time with her and it had a much younger crowd, like university students, and within an hour she broke down crying because not a single guy was approaching her (she's used to such male attention). :-D

So we switched to a club with a more mature crowd and then she got guys approaching her left and right and was happy.

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Also, everyone should be able to look at people of the same sex and objectively understand whether or not that person is more on the attractive or unattractive side. Thus, everyone should be able to look in the mirror and get a general idea of where a typical person might rate them in the looks department.