Fourth Date and Sex with Dream Girl

YOUR MANTRA!
Let it happen, don’t make it happen!– R. DON STEELE

The purpose of dating? It’s something to do until she decides if she is going to take the last step of courtship and enjoy sex with you!

Everything is about building her anticipation and tension as you move toward the first kiss of this date. Before and after, take your cues from her. Use my start-stop method until she’s white hot. Then, take her by the hand and lead her to the bedroom.

Suggesting her place or yours requires you were kissing and hugging and fondling and pushing your crotches together in the parking lot or in the car or outside of her place on the previous date. If there were only minor previous kissing and hugging go into Dr. Zipp’s “Favorite Sister Routine” no matter whose home you’re in.

A Gift?

At this point, no matter what you’ve seen in movies or on TV, giving her flowers, chocolate or anything “standard” makes you a dork in her eyes. The only gift acceptable at this time is, as explained previously, a very simple “I see you, I know who you are,” present like a team t-shirt or book or CD.

In her eyes, the gift assures her you’re a Man who (A) Listens to her and (B) Sees her. That’s something she’s probably never experienced! Not kidding. This alone, paves the Road to Reproduction with smooth, high-speed, reinforced cement! When I go to her place I also bring an ICE COLD bottle of champagne! The universal aphrodisiac!

Kissing and More

However it gets started, remember it takes females a much longer time to get warmed up. So, it’s like on the third date in the parking lot, or by the car or wherever the first kissing started. A little kiss. A bigger one. Embrace and hug. Kiss more, hug more, shift to get her tits on your chest. Then more until you have your hand where it makes her breathe hard. Kiss some more and then STOP. Follow my start-stop method.

She must resist and test! In her own mind, that proves she’s not a slut! This is somewhat like when she was testing by turning her cheek as you moved to kiss her. Your behavior then was just right. Don’t push. Don’t try. Your attitude was perfect. If not now, soon. At the same time resistance proves to her she’s a good girl. Once she’s resisted, and you have shown The Right Attitude, “doing it” becomes OK. In her mind she says, “After all it’s the fourth or fifth date!”

The less experience she has, the more unsure of herself she is. That means patience is mandatory! She has to take one small step and then another.

By testing and resisting she assures herself you are not going to fuck her and then never call again as many before have! When you pass all the tests and have persisted gently thru all the resistance, she knows you WANT her. The principle? Females want to be desired not admired!

Most guys, once it gets this far, just keep trying until they get mad, then pout or quit. Instead use my start-stop technique. It keeps her off balance. She’s suddenly unsure of her desirability! Nobody ever behaved like that before. Her resistance is neutralized. She’s confused. It’s a microcosm of The Right Attitude, I can take it or leave it!

Sex with Her

She loves sex. She wants a cock inside her, thrusting. The first few times you two have sex is a time when each person is somewhat restrained. It’s like the first few kisses. Neither of you starts by ramming your tongue down the other’s throat. During sex, it’s the same. She wants to be sure it fits! You want to be sure you’re “doing it right”. Eventually, like the third or fourth time both of you will have a “feel” for each other.

During the fondling and hugging and titty kissing and squeezing and rubbing her juicy lips and sliding your little finger in slightly. That’s little finger, okay! She moves and makes noises to guide you. Somewhat like kissing and making ummmm sounds, she let’s you know that’s right, keep doing that. Or she pushes her pelvis forward trying to get more of your little finger in there.

Very, rarely, if ever, does a women say clearly what she wants. That means you have to take your cues from her! Heard that before?

The second time you two are going at it, everything is far more sensual and sexual. She knows “it fits” and you will be able to sustain the rhythmic thrusting longer, making it far more probable she comes with you inside her. When that happens, she gets a major oxytocin dump! You get so turned on by her coming that you explode right after or possibly as she’s coming! Ta Dah!

What does that mean? It means she’ll be back for more in less than two days most likely. Maybe she’ll spend the night and you two can start of the day with a bang, so to pun.

What does that mean? Oxytocin will flow again and again! And that means even more oxytocin will flow after that! That means she’s going to be yours when you want, that’s if you maintain The Right Attitude the attitude she is dying for you to maintain! It makes her wet in the right way!

The next book is Relationship with Dream Girl. It works with and for any woman you want to keep as your girlfriend until Dream Girl “just appears”.

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