Raise your voice. Rebel. Make a change. Love. Have lots of good sex.

I remember being in the school courtyard at age 13 (or 17. I can’t really remember. Either way, I was ignorant and too innocent) and hearing a girl who was a year older talk to my friend about girls “taking it from the back”.

And I remember telling myself: “What IS taking it from the back? Ohhhh, it’s getting fucked through the asshole and NOT the vagina!!!! :O :O :O But WHY would a girl do that??? Oooohh, she doesn’t want to lose her virginity. Well, that’s stupid…”

And I still think it’s stupid. Yet, over the years I’ve noticed that most of my girl friends have done it at some point. But WHY?? It’s uncomfortable and not AS pleasurable as getting fucked through your vagina (I’m assuming).

Now listen…if you enjoy it, do it and have fun with it. But if it’s all about “I wanna remain ‘PURE’ until marriage”, then what the fuck?? I can’t handle the HYPOCRISY of it all. So taking a dick up your shit hole is remaining pure until marriage? Just get fucked the good old way and stop calling yourself a virgin! It’s perfectly fine NOT to be a virgin.

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I definitely agree. I heard about the same thing happening in Iraqi Kurdistan from a few friends. What’s more amazing is then they go and talk shit about gays for assfucking. Like really? What makes a girls asshole more pure than a man’s??

It all comes to society, and it doesn’t only show on girls. The society here is male empowering , in a sense of aggressiveness as a male quality. ( I won’t discuss the causes but it’s not only due to paternal hierarchy) she doesn’t want to carry a physical stigma mentally of being dominated by a guy who passes in her life , since she can reassure herself her virginity is intact. A pity, definitely !
Anyway, we all belong to this society so the gay scene here parallels it with being top only when it comes to psychological assessment of role (am excluding preference)
As means of “I haven’t played a submissive role” or even with some people holding there role as the closest to heterosexuality.
The more I date the more I feel people are so god damned stressed that they either split into homosexuality or to an over dominant hetero … ( yes am a believer that some cases of homosexuality are psychologically formed)
I hope by amending the law against homosexuality we might see less bullshit in people’s minds
A comment on such a post can go endless … Am just saying its a pity were dealing with the effects of unbalanced and incorrect ethics in our society that ends up disfiguring our dating experience😦 even for the people who claim being free and independent in choice of sexual conduct
too bad

I completely agree that ass sex is sex and having anal instead of vaginal does not mean you are still a virgin.
That said, as a female, I sometimes enjoy ass sex. Admittedly, part of it may be psychological- a power play dynamic. However, if I have plenty of foreplay and the right situation, anal sex can be very pleasurable. We ladies may not have a prostate, but there are still nerves up there. Though, it, of course, differs from woman to woman.