I’m amazed by Jesus. His work on the cross makes me right with God, and His life example in the midst of imperfection and disappointment shows me how to live. For instance, many loved Jesus; others loathed Him.* But that didn’t stop Jesus from fulfilling His purpose in life. He seemed unsurprised by it all. Although He cared about others, their opinions didn’t alter his plans. I’ve discovered a misbelief guaranteed to make me (and you!) miserable: In order to be happy, I must be loved and accepted by everybody--or at least most people. Obviously, this isn’t a belief that Jesus espoused. When adhering to this misconception:

We try too hard to guarantee everyone’s love and appreciation.

We may give in even though to do so conflicts with our values.

Or we may attempt to control others’ reactions to us by hedging the truth.

Sometimes we’re shocked and upset when someone else doesn’t believe as we do and react as we would.

(This can impact how we behave at home, at school or work, in our communities or even in response to our government.) Not everyone loved and agreed with Jesus; not all will love and agree with us. This isn’t surprising. But by living out our God-given dream, purposes, and convictions, we can live satisfying and significant lives, regardless of the reactions of those around us. We don’t have to be loved and appreciated by everyone to be happy, content, and blessed. Lord, it’s a relief to know that I can be who You made me to be and do what you've asked me to do even though others may disagree with me. Please help me to be courageous and consistent, even in the face of opposition from those I care about.What do you do when others don't agree with your ideas, dreams, plans, beliefs or convictions?

* Thus the people were divided because of Jesus. Some wanted to seize him. (John 7:43-44)

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Joan C. Webb

Writing, teaching, coaching to empower and set free.Joan is an inspirational speaker, Bible teacher, Life Coach, and author of 13 books includingIt's a Wonderful (Imperfect) Life,The Relief of Imperfection,The Intentional Woman. She does consulting, as well as Life Coaching, for writers, speakers, ministry leaders and entrepreneurs.Connect with Joan.