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Sunday, 15 April 2012

Before Feminism and Femdom it was
always assumed by everyone that men were the natural dominant sex and this
belief still persists today. But is it
true? It might be like the Hans
Christian Andersen story of The Emperor's
New Clothes, where everyone said the Emperor wore fine clothing, but the
truth was, he was naked.

It is of interest that Femdom was
started and created by men. A man wrote
the first true Femdom book, Venus In Furs,
which was published in 1870, and up until recently it has been mostly men who
have written on the subject. It also has
been men who have paid Dominatrixes to whip and humiliate them.

Men have encouraged, paid and
even demanded that women dominate, use and abuse them to such a degree that
women have accused these men of ‘topping from the bottom’. This is because it seems that men have been
‘calling the shots’ in Femdom and not women. So why has it been men and not women who have
been the driving force in Femdom?

We must remember that men are
brainwashed from childhood to believe men are the dominant sex. So a man who submits to a woman is called a
wimp and would be ridiculed for being so timid.
So what drives these men to defy the whole of patriarchal society and conditioning
and publically tell the world they want to submit to women?

This is similar behaviour observed
in male lemurs in zoos. The wild lemurs
of Madagascar
live in matriarchal groups where the females dominate. So the females would learn from their mothers
how to continue the matriarchy. But
sometimes in zoos this connection is broken where lemurs are brought up in
isolation and do not have any role models when growing up. This means they have to rely on their basic
instincts to know how to behave.

What is interesting is that the
instinct of lemur males to submit to females is far stronger than the female’s
instinct to be in charge. So there have
been cases where males and females have been put in the same cage together and
the males immediately submit to the females, using submissive calls and body
language. But the females didn’t always
respond to this. Like in Femdom the male
lemurs have to persuade and reassure the females that they are genuine, in
wanting to be submissive to them.

Perhaps it might be that men are
the true natural submissive sex. It could be that slavery is part of men’s DNA,
because slavery has been commonplace throughout recorded history. Serfs and slaves are totally powerless
people, they are actually owned by other people and they have no rights and can
be beaten or murdered with impunity.
While the fruits of their labour goes to their owner and not to them.

If men are the dominant sex, why
have we had slavery and serfdom? We have
had slavery from the time of the Ancient Greeks and Romans up until the 19th
century. So men cannot be very
domineering, if it is so easy for other men to turn them into slaves and serfs?

We also find the same situation
in the military, where soldiers are seen as being tough macho men. Yet soldier will obey without question, the
most insane orders which will result in their deaths. The extremes of this are World War One where
soldiers climbed out of their trenches to face near certain death by machine
gun fire because they were ordered to do so.
Or in World War Two where Japanese Kamikaze suicide pilots deliberately
crashed their aircraft into enemy shipping because they were also obeying
orders. Patriarchy will spin this as
iron discipline, but it is also extreme submission to authority.

The surprising thing is that the
military can train men to kill themselves when ordered to do so, without any
intense brainwashing. All they do is
boss them around on a parade ground and they get so used to obeying orders that
they will obey the most insane orders on the battle field.

What is striking about all
patriarchal societies is that that they are all based on a hierarchal
structure, where it seems men cannot work together unless they appoint a leader
to tell everyone else what to do. These
leaders then get total obedience from other men, to the degree it is very easy
for all patriarchal leaders to abuse their power.

This is why in all male dominated
societies there is a vast gap between rich and poor because the ruling elite
find it too easy to exploit the people they rule. This is only possible because men have within
them a very strong instinct to obey orders from anyone in a leadership
position. We have had in the past kings
and dictators who have been obviously insane and yet still retain power. So strong is men’s instinct to obey a leader.

Another thing that is commonplace
in all patriarchal societies is the oppression of women. Where men are encouraged to use their greater
size and strength to dominate and abuse women.
So why is it so important for patriarchal societies to keep women

subjugated?

And extreme case is Muslim
countries where they have a custom where a man is ‘dishonoured’ if his will
does not obey and respect him. And they
only way he can regain his ‘honour’ is to kill his wife. So if men are so dominant why do they need
such an extreme doctrine to oppress women?
If men were the natural dominant sex they wouldn’t need such brutal
custom to ensure they were. Women would
instinctively obey men, if male domination was the natural order. The fact that they have to be forced to obey
through extreme violence, makes this questionable.

We use to have a similar idea in
Western countries where a man wasn’t a ‘real man’, if his wife bossed him
about. So up until the 20th century wife
beating was normal in all Western cultures.
Suggesting there was a lot of disobedient wives who could only be kept
in line through intimidation and violence.

So why do all patriarchal
countries keep women down? It might be
because if women are not actively oppressed, then they might quickly take over
and overthrow the patriarchal ruling class.
Men have a strong instinct to obey anyone in authority so if women take
over the leadership position and men obey them.
Then the patriarchal rulers of our world will lose all their power,
influence and wealth. We are starting to see this happen with the rise of both
Feminism and Femdom in Western countries.

This suggests that the only thing
stopping women becoming the dominant sex is patriarchal propaganda and
brainwashing. Even today with the rise
of feminism, many men still do not wish to admit in public that his wife might
be the boss in their relationship, for fear of ridicule.

They may even still have problems
in private and fight against their submissive Femdom desires as they fear that
his wife wouldn’t respect him. This is
because women have also have been brainwashed into believing men are the
dominant sex. We can see this when the
Femdom movement started and many women were very suspicious of Femdom men. Only because they believed that something was
wrong with them as they didn’t seem to be like ‘normal’ men.

So perhaps the reason why women
cannot dominate men is for the simple reason that they don’t believe they can
do it. Like female lemurs in zoos they
have to be persuaded by the males that they truly want to submit to them. This is why a strong Femdom movement is so
important to persuade women that it is natural for men to be submissive.

Women are not encouraged to boss
men around and instead are told they must use ‘feminine wiles’ to manipulate
men. Yet, there are women who find it
easy to order men around, so what is their secret? Is it because, they didn’t use feminine wiles
but directly told men what to do? Women
are encouraged to be ‘nice’ and ask men to do what they want, but is this
really the best way to get what you want from men? It seems that many men will respond more
positively, to the woman giving them orders.

This means we have to look to
both sexes being brainwashed by patriarchal indoctrination. Where women don’t use their power to dominate
men simply because they don’t believe they have this power, or are too frighten
to use it. Certainly, if a woman can
start to get a man to obey orders, the more she bosses him about the more
obedient he will become, because after a while, following orders will become an
automatic response.

THE INDIRECT APPROACH

Many women will find the direct
approach difficult to do or perhaps have tried it only to find it hasn’t worked
for them. Certainly a woman has to be
very confident to boss men around. There
are also men who have been totally brainwashed by patriarchy that men are the
dominant sex, that it might be hard to overcome this.

But there are other methods that
are not so blatantly obvious. Like a
Behaviourist Psychological trick of associating two stimulus together. (This came from the Pavlov's dog
experiments). The idea is that if two stimuli
are mixed together in a person’s mind, activating one of them will rouse the
other.

Women can use men’s sexual desire
to help her in this. When a couple first
meet, it is obvious the man will desperately want to get into bed with the
woman. Because of this he is willing at
first to accept any type of behaviour from the woman he wouldn’t normally agree
to. So she can be very bossy with him
from the start and get away with it, because he only has sex on his mind. This
then will associate in his head a bossy woman with sexual desires and may even
awaken within him Femdom feelings. Also
getting him use to obeying orders from a woman can quickly become a habit.

This can even work in an
establish couple where when the woman sees that the man has strong sexual
desires for her, she can be bossy with him. He is less likely to question this
then as he has other things on his mind. And again the result will be he will
in time associate his wife being bossy with sex desire. Once this has become a habit she can then
start to be bossy, without him wanting sex with her.

Some women may feel they cannot
directly give orders to men, but there is a NLP technique that may help. The idea is to feed orders within normal day
to day speech.

So a woman can say, “dinner is
ready, EAT IT NOW, before it gets
cold.”

Or she can say, “Can you, GO TO
THE SUPERMARKET, to pick up a few
things.”

The order part of the sentence is
at first just slipped in unnoticed, but over time if the phrases are used often, it can become more and
more empathised until the order is more clearly heard.

The man will then have obeyed her
orders without being aware she gave him an order. To do this a woman has to look at all her
speech patterns and see where she can feed orders within them. Then when the man gets use to this and she
can slowly be more direct and obvious in giving him orders. As the result, she can become more and more
bossy without him being aware of the gradual changes in their relationship.

CONVINCING A MAN HE IS SUBMISSIVE

If men are dominant because they
have been brainwashed to believe it is natural for men to be dominant. How do you overcome the brainwashing?

Indoctrination is very effective
if everyone believes in it, this is because all and sundry talks about it to
everybody else and so supports and reinforces it in each other. The indoctrination will also be passed down
the generations as parents teach it to their children. As the result, even if a man has submissive
desires towards women, he will fight against it because he believes that there
is something wrong with him. This is
because he seems to be different from other men. Not knowing that other men might have the
same secret desires.

It’s not for nothing that rich
people call the common people ‘sheepies’ because most people want to fit in and
be seen as ‘normal’. So the only way men
can express their secret desires would be to find like minded people. This then is the advantage of having a fairly
large Femdom community and finding people who feel the same way.

When we had only a small number
of men who would admit to their Femdom desires, then most people wouldn’t want
to be part of this small group of perverts.
But as the group becomes larger, then Femdom has become more acceptable
to more people. So the perception that
many men do have Femdom fantasies is helpful in getting men to own up to their Femdom
desires, as people like to be part of a crowd.

It is also be very important to
women, because if they find there is a lot of men with Femdom desires, then
they will feel that perhaps these men are not abnormal after all. Certainly women do have the attitude of
thinking, ‘what’s the catch’ when dealing with Femdom men and have to have a
lot of reassurance to know it’s all right.

It is important to put across the
idea that if a man is submissive to women, or has Femdom desires, there is
nothing psychology wrong with him.
Certainly pointing out slavery and serfdom in the past and the way
military makes men obey orders without question, is helpful in demonstrating
that patriarchal propaganda is very dubious.

Even, books like, 50 Shades Of Grey can be helpful. It is true it is a book about female
submission but it has brought the whole idea of BDSM into the mainstream and
making it more acceptable. So if people
can accept maledom they can also accept Femdom.

Certainly the internet is greatly
helpful in this. Men can go on porn
sites and although most of the porn they will see, is basically maledom porn,
they will also find Femdom porn on most of these sites as well. So they can look at this and see if they
likes it. It is well known in the BDSM
community that people do switch, so people who can start off in maledom can
easy switch to Femdom later on.

HYPNOTISING A MAN

Hypnotism is seen as a powerful
tool in gaining control over people, but how do you do it? The theory is that the mind has two parts the
conscious and unconscious mind. In
normal conversation the conscious mind accesses and judges everything told to
it and if it is told anything it disagrees with, it will refuse to accept
it. In contrast the unconscious mind
accepts everything told to it without question.
So if you want to brainwash a person, then you have to find ways to
by-pass the conscious mind. This can be
done in two ways.

Some hypnotists hold up a
swinging pendulum and ask their subject to focus on it. So while the conscious mind is busy watching
the swinging pendulum the hypnotist talks to the person. And then can feed ideas directly into the
unconscious mind idea that the conscious mind is not blocking, as it is too
busy watching the pendulum.

The second method is simply to
make the conscious mind relax. The hypnotists
ask the subject to lie down and relax, making suggestions to reinforce this. Then when the conscious mind is completely
relaxed then the hypnotists can feed suggestions that will by-pass the
conscious mind. This is why TV adverts
are so effective in brainwashing people to buy products they don’t need or
want. People became too relaxed watching
TV and consciously don’t question the misinformation coming from adverts.

So how can a woman use this
information? Women can easy hypnotist
men without them being aware of it. Many
women complain that men don’t listen to what they say. It can get even worse; some business women at
board meetings will put forward an idea but get no response. Then she will be shocked and outraged when a
man later on puts forward her idea and no-one will be aware that it was her
idea first.

It seems this has happened so often,
that it has become a well-known phenomenon. So is this just bad manners or is their
another reason for this? When the
businesswoman point out what had just happened, the men in the room deny it
completely. So the only time she will
get any support is if another woman is in the room. So what is going on?

Psychologists have noticed that if
a very attractive woman says anything to men.
The men are so interested in watching her, that they don’t hear what she
says. It is a bit like the hypnotist
swinging a pendulum to keep the conscious mind occupied. So, she is hypnotising them without being
aware of it. Because everything she says,
will by-passes their conscious mind and goes straight to the unconscious mind. But having put him into a trance, it is
important she knows how to exploit this, for her own gains.

This suggests that an attractive
woman, with say a low cut dress or any revealing clothing, with a man is
gawking at her, can say what she likes to him, without him being consciously
aware of what she is saying. So she is
then in a unique position to be able to brainwash him into anything she likes. It may even be possible to say outrageous
things like, “you will obey me at all times,” without him being consciously
aware of it. Though perhaps most women
will try saying things that are less direct at first, to see how he responds
first.

If a woman feels too shy or
frighten to be so direct with him she can feed what she wants into the
conversation. So she can talk about
something like dog training and explain about how important it is to get a dog
to obey. So in this conversation she can
put in phrases like, “I expect total obedience”, when talking about a dog. But if fed to the unconscious mind without
censorship from the conscious mind, then the man has in his mind that he has to
be obedient to her.

Though this phenomenon can work
against women who are not aware of what is happening. The problem for many women is that if they
have a partner who is not consciously listening to her, she could unwittingly
brainwash him is ways that she doesn’t want.
If she complains to him, about his faults as this could make them
worse. This means she has to think about
what she says and tell him things about what she wants from him, and not what
she doesn’t want.

For example, just saying, “you
never listen to a word I say.”

I might be true, but it will
brainwash him into becoming even more deaf to what she says.

She would be better to say things
like, “you always do as you are told.”

Even if it isn’t true, because
although he is not consciously listening, his unconscious mind will have heard
it and feed it back later to his conscious mind. And the more she say things like this, the
more it will indoctrinate him into what she wants him to be.

I will discuss this more in the NAGGING
section of this article. Also for further
research you can buy hypnotism or NLP books or and research it on the internet.
An example of this, is this video on
Youtube.

https://youtu.be/-RjoaNR4pjE

WORSHIP

What is interesting is that
nearly all patriarchal religions insist on worship, where people are expected
to worship a god. The Muslims take it to
the extreme, (like they always do) and strict Muslims are expected to worship Mecca twice a day. In the past people were even expected to
worship kings and emperors. So what is it about worship that is so important?

So it is of interest that we find
worship in Femdom where men want to kiss women’s feet, or even their bottoms. What is so important about worship is the
emotions it creates within the worshipper.
When a man worships a woman he feels a strong emotion of devotion. So it then becomes a powerful tool for a
woman to gain total control and dominance over him. For this reason Dominant Women need to learn
from patriarchal religions and get their submissive partner to worship them
once or twice a day.

The problem with Femdom is that
spanking, torturing or humiliating a man is more dramatic than just kissing a
woman’s feet or bottom and so it can be neglected. But the feeling of devotion that worship
brings is also very important.

But can it be used on men not
into Femdom? Perhaps it can at the
beginning of a relationship. We all know that at the beginning of any
relationship between men and women the main focus for men is having sex with
the woman. So many men have seduction
techniques like complimenting a woman and telling her what she wants to
hear. So a woman can play along with his
and use it to her advantage by saying things like.

“Am I beautiful,” and the man
will off course agree.

Then she can ask, “do I look like
a goddess.”

And again he will agree.

So she can then suggest, “I like
being told I’m a goddess.”

The man can then take the hint
and tells her she is a goddess.

She can then respond by saying,
“Oh I like that, tell me again.”

So she can get him to tell her
she is a goddess a number of times and she can show him she likes it and
encourage him to put a bit of feeling in what he says.

Then she can suggest, “Oh, I love
to be a goddess and have men at my feet worshipping me.”

Some men may respond to this and
worship her, others won’t. Some might
fear that she is trying to make a fool of him, and so she has to reassure him
that she is not.

So she can say, “it’s just a
fantasy of mine, to be worshipped like a goddess, I would like you to do it, as
it turns me on.”

Many men will do this because
they might fear that if they don’t, she won’t want to have sex with him.

So there will be two factors
working here. The first one is that, as
previously mentioned, that when men stare at an attractive woman the conscious
mind gets turned off. So her suggestions
that she is a goddess will go straight to his unconscious mind. But the very fact of going on his knees to
worship her can created feelings of devotion to her.

This can even work with a married
couple. After awhile the sex-drive goes
down and people don’t have sex so often.
The woman can then just wait until her husband wants to have sex, and
says she is not in the mood. But then
suggest what might turn her on, is to be worshipped like a goddess. So if she can get him to do that, she can
make it part of the foreplay every time they have sex. And while he is worshipping her she can feed
other ideas into his unconscious mind like, “I am she who has to be obeyed,”
and pretend it’s a joke if he mentions it.

So again this is another way
women can use sex to brainwash men by associating sex with female dominance.

NAGGING

Nagging is something women have
done for thousands of years and has something of a bad reputation. Many women complain they have nagged and
nagged their husbands for years and it never changed their behaviour. But perhaps the reason for this is that it is
being used wrongly.

Advertisers and propagandists
have noticed that if you repeat the same message again and again, people will
end up believing what you say, as the truth.
This is exactly what women do when they nag, so why isn’t it effective
for many women?

The reason why nagging doesn’t
work is because women start to nag men when they are doing something they don’t
want them to do. So if say a woman tells
a man repeatedly, “you never wipe you feet when you come in doors,” she might
be unwittingly programming him into never wiping his feet!

So for nagging to be effective it
has to be about repeating a message that she wants him to do and not what she
doesn’t want him doing. Therefore, she
has to tell him when he is doing the right thing for her. For example if she wants him to do the washing up after dinner. She can perhaps get him to do it once or
twice but then she can reinforce this by keep on reminding him, he did the
washing up for her. So by this constant
repetition, she can brainwash him into thinking of it, as his job.

This can be taken a step further
if she can get him to obey her at times.
Therefore she can remind him and praise him on how obedient he is. The more she tells him he is obedient, the
more he is likely to accept this and believe it.

It would be fair to say many
women do this anyway, and know how to nag in positive ways. Positive nagging will become even more
effective is a husband doesn’t always listen to his wife so whatever she says
will go straight to his unconscious mind without the conscious mind
interfering.

BEHAVIOURIST PSYCHOLOGY

Behaviourists believe that they
can change any human behaviour and make no distinction between human and animal
training. Some authors claim you can
train men like dogs and for people who have had experience in dog training,
this is probably true.

So how does it work? Just through rewards and punishment. So the principles of Behaviourism are really
very simple but what makes it complicated is the people or animals you are
trying to train. This is because what
exactly are rewards and punishment are not always obvious.

An example of this is when
parents have to deal with a naughty extravert child, where punishment doesn’t
seem to work. The reason might be that
the child being an extravert enjoys all the attention and drama associated with
the punishment. So the only way to
punish a child like this, would be to ignore it.

The same thing can happen in a
Femdom relationship where the man has persuaded the woman to spank him when he
misbehaved. But then finds his behaviour
is even worse. The reason being is that
the man enjoys being spanked and so does everything he can to get her, to spank
him more. This then means the spanking
is not a punishment but a reward.

B. F. Skinner one of the founders
of Behaviourism claims that rewards are far more effective than
punishment. This will suit most women,
as they are more able to give rewards to men than trying to punish them. It is totally impracticable for women to
punish men through violence, unless the man actively cooperates with the woman
to do this.

Training men using Behaviourism
requires keen observation and awareness.
So that when a man is doing what the woman wants, he is rewarded. This is what Behaviourists call reinforcement.

This means that if a man is say
doing the housework or waiting on a woman hand and foot. She needs to show her appreciation for doing
this, so that this behaviour is always reinforced. This means Behaviourism is not about big
dramatic gestures but just small things like a smile, a few words of praise and
good timing. So, that the reward is
always associated with good behaviour. Timing can be important as the reward is
far more effective if it is instant, rather than something later, when the
memory has faded.

So behaviourism is not about
being obviously dominant but more for women who wants to get her own way,
without shouting orders at a man.

ORGASM DENIAL AS A MEANS OF
DOMINATION

One of the strange things that
has come from Femdom is orgasm denial, where a woman can go as far as putting a
chastity belt on a man. Then go and have
sex as many men as she likes but deny him any sexual pleasure.

The weird thing about all this is
that Femdom is suppose to be a sexual kink for men but we are finding Femdom
men who are being denied sex completely.
So what is this all about? We see
a similar concept in ancient religions like Taoism in China and Tantra in India where men do have sex with
women but are not allowed to orgasm.

This is a big issue because for
most men being able to ejaculate inside a woman is what sex is all about, even
though they may not care what orifice it is in.
This is why so many men do not like condoms as the sperm doesn’t stay
inside the woman. So to have sex with a
woman without orgasm seems like asking too much.

Sex denial for women is
commonplace in so many patriarchal societies.
In Western countries in the 19th century if was actually believed that
women could not orgasm. Or if she did,
she was some sort of freak. This was
because the way men were encouraged to have sex with women, made it difficult
for them to enjoy it. The reason was
that it was over too quickly and the clitoris wasn’t stimulated.

Things didn’t improve much in the
20th century when the female sexuality was accepted, as women had to fake
orgasms because men’s techniques hadn’t improved much. Women even today complain about Internet porn
where porn actresses still fake orgasms, and this still perpetuates patriarchal
myths about sex.

The Muslims, have taken this to
the extreme and cut off the clitoris of girls to ensure women cannot enjoy
sex. So why do this? Why does patriarchy
want to deny women sexual pleasure? We
might find an answer from our animal past.

We know many male animals like
bulls, stags, rams, seals, lions and gorillas fight each other for dominance
and access to females. So the dominant
male gets to have a harem of females with whom he fertilizers, while other
males, whom are not big and strong enough, miss out.

We see something similar in
animals like wolves and meerkats that live in packs or gangs, where only the
dominant couple are allowed to breed. (The
meerkat is interesting because like most members of the mongoose family they
live in matriarchal groups ruled by the dominant female.)

So we see with many types of
animals, sex is strongly associated with dominance and submission where only
dominant animals enjoy sex. Surprisingly,
this seems to be true of humans as well.
Like many other animals, it seem that the individuals who are allowed to
freely enjoy sex however they like, are mostly dominant, while those who are
denied sex pleasure tend to be submissive.
So is this the reason patriarchal societies do their best to deny women
sexual pleasure? Because the denial of
orgiastic sex helps keep them submissive.

Femdom men talk about ‘sub-space’
where they feel very submissive towards a Dominant Woman. So perhaps being denied sexual pleasure by
her, helps make a man feel very submissive.
Also some women have noticed that some men with Femdom desires are very
submissive before sex but not afterwards.
So keeping them in denial is one way to ensure this doesn’t happen.

Now, some people will deny Taoism
and Tantra has anything to do with Femdom.
This is because both religions claim that the reason why men are denied
sexual orgasm is because sex weakens their spiritual energy. But they probably had to invent some spurious
reason like this, for them to survive in the patriarchal age.

This is because Taoist and Tantra
sex give women all the advantages. They
have sex with the women on top. She can
go as long as she likes with no fear it coming to an end, because he won’t
ejaculate. Also it means he will always
be, ‘on the boil’, because not having an orgasm, he will be ready for sex
whenever she wants it.

Also to be able to make a man
have penetrative sex without him being allowed to ejaculate, is strong
indication of the degree she is able to dominate him. So it’s no wonder both
religions had to invent other reasons besides female domination, to deny men
having an orgasm, if they were to survive in patriarchal societies.

Women today can use and exploit
the teaching of these two religions if they want to dominate their partner and
are into Eastern spirituality. They can
tell the man about all the stuff about sex weakening spiritual energy and
suggest they try out Taoist or Tantra sex.
Apparently women are allowed sexual orgasm in these two religions, so
she hasn’t got to deny herself. She can
then use it to control her partner’s sexuality. While the fact she is enjoying sex and he
isn’t, means that this will provoke submissive feelings within him.

BRAINWASHING AND THE INDIVIDUAL

One big problem is creating a how
to do manual is that every individual is different. For instance some men can be trained by ‘hard
to get’ games. That is the say, the
woman shows she is never satisfied and man has to work hard to please her. This may work for some men but not all of
them. For another type of man if the
woman is too hard to please, he will quickly become disheartened and give up. So what works with one man, doesn’t necessary
work for another.

This means a woman might need to
experiment with a man. Some men respond
to being shouted at, while others hate it and sulk. There are men who want to be spanked and
humiliated by the woman but others don’t like it and just want to be obedient
without the kinky stuff.

There will be men who want dominant
women to be cruel and sadistic to turn them on.
But others are just happy to serve a woman without the need the need of
any duress. It is possible for a woman
to be dominant without being cruel and nasty, but not all people agree with
this. The trouble is that no two people
are the same.

Many women have problems with men
coming to them with a list of demands on how they want to be dominated. These women feel that if they give into these
demands there is an issue about who exactly is in charge. But just because the relationship starts off
with the woman dancing to the man’s tune, it doesn’t mean it has to remain like
that.

So even though a relationship
might start off as a male Femdom fantasy, the woman still has the right to
demand changes after awhile, so she gets what she wants. After all she can point out that having acted
out his fantasies, it is time he acted out hers. This means the relationship can change and
evolve and go beyond fantasy into her dominating him in reality.

Although the vast majority of men
are submissive and will follow orders from anyone in authority without question
there are a small minority of men who are not like this. These are alpha men and they find it easy to
gain power. Examples of this are men
like - Napoleon Bonaparte, Adolf Hitler, Joseph Stalin, Benito Mussolini, Mao
Zedong and Pol Pot.

It is remarkable how a small
handful of men have been able to rule millions or billions of people throughout
the patriarchal age. But they can only
remain in power while obedient men follow patriarchal doctrine and suppress
women. Feminists and Femdom men are
questioning patriarchal indoctrination and are slowly destroying it. When this
happens it will be possible for women to take over the position alpha males and
dominate men and rule the world.