Best Sex Positions for a Bright Orgasm

THE SEDUCTION. BEST SEX POSITIONS: Men love women-on-top positions. In fact, for at least one-third of men, this is their favorite position. In this seduction, you’ll again be on top, but with a racy twist: you’ll face away from him in what’s known as a “reverse cowgirl.” What makes this seduction even sexier is that you’ll perform it sitting in a chair.

SETTING THE SCENE. BEST SEX POSITIONS: Make sure you choose a chair that’s comfortable and sturdy, ideally with a supportive back. Have him take a seat, and tell him not to move—yet. But don’t just hop on him. Warm him up by kissing him passionately, brushing your nipples against his chest. Tease him. Build anticipation.

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TECHNIQUES. BEST SEX POSITIONS: When he’s fully erect, turn so that your back is to him, and put your legs on either side of his. The T’ung Hsüan Tzu, an ancient Taoist pillow book, calls this position “the Goat and the Tree.” You can also place your legs inside his, although it’s more difficult to maneuver in this position.

Reach behind and take hold of his penis, rubbing it against your silky buttocks and your clitoris. If you’re blessed with strong legs, you can even tease him by lowering yourself a tiny bit, then standing up so that he slips out. Slowly slide down the full length onto his erection, wrapping your legs around the outside of his thighs.

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From here, he won’t be able to move much, so you’re in charge. Use your feet for leverage, and vary your speed as you bounce up and down, gently rock back and forth, or swivel your hips. Caress his scrotum and inner thighs. As you move faster and faster, squeeze him with your vaginal muscles, as though you’re “milking” him. Lean forward slightly and put your hands on his thighs, which gives him an even better view of your derriere and lets him watch his member sliding in and out of you.

THE SEDUCTION. BEST SEX POSITIONS: In this seduction, use rhythm to create a spontaneous, sexy dance of lust during the actual act, so that your bodies flow from one position to another as you build to an earth-shattering climax.

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SETTING THE SCENE. BEST SEX POSITIONS: While you can fill your CD or MP3 player with whatever music you find most seductive, for the purposes of this seduction, focus on Latin American music like the mambo, one of the most rhythmic dances of all, and the samba.

TECHNIQUES. BEST SEX POSITIONS: Because mambo tends to have a faster rhythm, use it for flirting and foreplay. Start out by dancing standing up (“Babarabatiri” by Pérez Prado works perfectly). You don’t have to know the steps. Just dance. Laugh. Shake your bodies against each other. Bump and grind. As you warm up and get hotter and hotter, remove one piece of clothing after another. When you can’t stand it any longer, pull him down to the couch or your bed.

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Here’s when your erotic samba starts. Kiss and fondle each other, feeling the sinuous sounds of the music enter your blood as he enters you, and you become more and more excited. Intertwine your limbs. Thrust in time to the music. From there, bend one leg around his, weaving yourself around him and drawing him close. Press your leg against his thigh to hold him against you. Do the same with the other leg, gripping him tightly. Now you can move your legs up, over and back down again as you bump and grind against him in time to the pulsing of the music.

THE SEDUCTION. BEST SEX POSITIONS: Like most woman-on-top positions, the Race of the Member puts the female in charge, with an added twist. Because the man will be almost helpless on his back, he must be willing to explore what it feels like to be dominated sexually, and the woman must be willing to dominate. This sense of role reversal can be tremendously exciting, as it allows you to push your sexual envelope, to move out of your comfort zone into the realm of erotic possibility.

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SETTING THE SCENE. BEST SEX POSITIONS: No special props are required for this seduction other than a firm but comfortable surface, like a not-too-soft bed or couch, or even a carpeted floor. You’ll also need a cushion to support your man’s head and shoulders.

TECHNIQUES. BEST SEX POSITIONS: Start by engaging in a hot and heavy make-out session. When he’s fully erect, have him lie on his back with a cushion under his shoulders. Ask him to draw his knees up to his chest; then, placing your feet flat on the bed, lower yourself onto him so that you’re sitting on the back of his thighs—with his erect penis inside you. Imagine that you’ve mounted the saddle of an untamed Arabian stallion. By flexing your knees, you can move up and down on him, slowly and tantalizingly. Don’t put all your weight on the back of his thighs unless he’s really limber. He won’t be able to move much, but that’s part of the appeal of this seduction. He can help you “ride” him by putting his hands around your waist or under your butt as you stroke up and down on his shaft. He can also wrap his legs around your waist.

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THE SEDUCTION. BEST SEX POSITIONS: Many people fantasize about having sex in a place where they might get caught. “Danger arousal” happens when fear causes the body to produce adrenaline, the same chemical your body makes when you’re horny. Recreate this thrill by having a party quickie.

SETTING THE SCENE. BEST SEX POSITIONS: Party trysts by definition preclude the possibility of long, drawn-out lovemaking: the longer you take, the greater your chances of being discovered. Underwear is an obstacle, so ladies, if you’re wearing a long fancy skirt, go without. If you’re wearing a shorter skirt, wear a G-string or thong that can be easily pushed aside. Guys, consider going “commando-style.”

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Meanwhile, scope out possible locations: a guest bedroom, an upstairs bathroom, a secluded corner of the garden. Any room should have a lock; in a pinch, push a chair up against the door.

TECHNIQUES. BEST SEX POSITIONS: When the time is right, inform your date that you have to have him or her right now. Drag him off to whatever secluded spot you’ve chosen. Then get busy. In a bathroom, you can sit on the counter while he stands. Or turn around and brace yourself as he enters you from behind. This has the added, extra-hot benefit of letting both of you watch your reactions in the mirror. Standing positions also let you “recover” more easily if interrupted.

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In tight spaces, like a walk-in closet, the gal can lie down and pull her knees to her chest while her guy kneels in front of her. At the office party, lock an office door and back a chair up against a wall, and lie back on the desk or conference table. After you’re done, don’t linger. Just rearrange your clothes and return to the festivities, a big smile plastered on your faces.