Selena Gomez Is Done With Justin Bieber...For Realz This Time, Guys

In a recent radio interview, Selena Gomez finally put those are-the-or-aren't-they rumors to rest concerning her relationship status with the Biebs, saying she's "available in every way." (Get it, girl!)

While there was some talk that she and Justin were together again when he posted a photo of her cuddling up with him on Instagram, Selena is making it super clear that this is so not the case.

Trombetti says that the most common reason women in particular hang on to a relationship—and keep going back to a guy—is because we hope he'll change. And when you find yourself hanging on to an idea of who you want a guy to be, that's a sign you probably need to cut him loose.

"Think of what you want and need, and see if that fits with what he is offering. If not, don't go back," she says. "You wouldn't take a job that refused to pay you near what you are worth. Why take a man that won't give you what you deserve in a relationship?"