LESSON ONE: Don't pimp out your guests. While the 200-strong party was filled with musical talent including Jay Z, Hudson, Monica, and Kelly Rowland, the night's entertainment was provided by a band. Remember: your friends and family are there to have fun, not work! (However, as Miss Tina did, feel free to offer karaoke as an alternative for those who feel the urge to belt something out.)

LESSON TWO: Make an entrance. The House of Deréon designer arrived – with boyfriend, actor Richard Lawson, at her side – in a horse-drawn carriage. Enough said.

LESSON THREE: Choose a venue with personal meaning. Why New Orleans? Knowles traced her family's roots to Louisiana, so the place has always held special meaning. In fact, Beyoncé has shot music videos there.

LESSON FIVE: Add in some multimedia. During the party, a video her friends and family put together was played. The birthday girl's granddaughter, Blue Ivy, may not have been in attendance (the party went from 8 p.m. until 2 a.m.), but we have a feeling she made a cute cameo!