@asker you should still try online dating but try to build a friendship first and say that you're not really looking for anything and then once you guys are attached to each other then you can try to meet up

& @myusernamerules he asked for my advice and I gave it to him. If you have a problem with this you can go tell it to someone who cares because last time I checked this was an opinion comment between him and I, not him I and you.

He didn't ask you, he asked me too and also everyone else on here. If you didn't care about my post like you say you don't then you wouldn't have cared to leave me such a silly explanation about opinion commenting like you just did. Your comment was given MHO by the asker so I posted what I had to post to help the asker. Because last time I checked, opinion comments in this site aren't just between the answerers and the askers but also others or else we wouldn't be allowed to post in other people's opinions.

Lol first you make a silly reply to me where you failed in attempting to sound intelligent and now this? You need to grow up. If you can't handle people replying to your comments then you shouldn't be on this site.

@asker lmao thank you!! Like is he really that mad that his dumb "become rich" answer didn't get most helpful opinion? Like I'm sorry online dating didn't work for you @myusernamerules... But that doesn't mean it won't work for everyone else

Asker, I understand but not many average looking guys have had success with online dating though. The success rate is even lower online than in real life. Girls' standards on the internet are actually much higher when it comes to guys than in real life because there are way too many guys in online dating sites who keep on messaging them. But yeah, you can take on her advice and check it out though.

I gave my answer after you got MHO. It seems like you're the real mad one here because I said your advice was the worst. And I actually meant no disrespect by it. Online dating sites just aren't for unattractive men because their chances are even less on the internet than in real life. And what's wrong with my answer? Making a lot of money is one of the biggest turn ons for girls because it shows that the man can be protective of her and her family by giving her financial security. That he can be a provider.

@myusernamerules I have no problem with people commenting on my stuff but I DO have a problem with negativity. If you don't like what I have to say then why go out of your way to be rude? Tbh your answer is the dumbest one on his question but you don't see me attaching you. Like "make a lot of money" really? Like that's just some easy thing to do

No but the more you wanna make money, the more you will likely be able to make money. Ambitious people are more likely to make money than unambitious people. The more money a man makes, the more likely he is able to attract women and this is a fact that everyone knows, even though a lot of women don't want to admit to it. Finding dates in online dating sites, especially if you're unattractive, is also not an easy thing to do by the way. My intention wasn't to be rude and I even said no offense after what I said but I guess some people can't handle brutal honesty.

@myusernamerules Speaking of brutal honesty I'm about to give you some. First of all of course ambition people are going to usually make more money than non ambitious people that's common sense. However, Ambition and success don't always go hand and hand. There are a lot of ambitious people out there who aren't successful because they don't have the funds to go to a good school, or they don't know the right people to advance in their career or whatever the case may be. The average person isn't "studying medicine overseas" just because you have it made doesn't mean everyone else has it made. & let's say his ambition does pay off & he does become extremely successful ten fifteen twenty years down the line what is he supposed to do in the meantime just be lonely as f***? No. That's why it's good to start online dating as a friend & see if it turns into something more & that is the reason I'm in a relationship now so don't tell me it doesn't work when it clearly has for me

True. I agree with you there. You wrote a lot of good things there but the thing is, online dating is much different for guys than it is for girls. For girls, no matter how unattractive they are they still have options due to lots of guys messaging them but for guys, looks matter a lot when it comes to online dating. I mean even an average looking guy has it almost impossible finding a girl interested in him on the internet, I can't imagine an ugly introvert's chances of finding a girl online since the asker claims to be ugly. Girls happen to be much more picky online due to the ratio of guys to girls on these sites and also due to having a lot of options.

@myusernamerules and that is why I said try to become friends with females first and then see if it goes somewhere. Yea girls might be pickier online about who they choose to date but that doesn't mean their going to be pickier about who they're friends with. If he becomes friends with the girl and she starts to like him even though he's ugly that's it. Girls are much more likely to date unattractive people than guys are especially as they get older like in their late twenties because they believe that they are running out of time to get married and start a family @myusernamerules

You said i wasn't ugly though shouldn't i see results off. Also im really self conscious and shy im terrified to approach a girl i like. This is depressing i have never kissed a girl, had sex, been in a relationship