Kate Moss with the children in her wedding party: Mario Testino for Vouge

Few things are more beautiful then a wedding. The dress, the flowers, the bride. All of these things are beautiful, but the most amazing part of any wedding we have ever been to is the love that fills the room. Everyone is there to support and celebrate a couple's love. Its pretty amazing.

The only problem is, usually... Your kids miss the whole thing. For children, its hard to notice that Mom & Dad are actually individuals that love each other! Being partners is a really big deal! And let me tell you, having children and making it through those first few years of craziness together is about the biggest test most relationships will go through.

Personally, in my life, having just hit 10 years of marriage, with our youngest boy about to be four years old next month, I just want to give my husband a giant high five!

We did it!! We made it through the woods together. We are done with diapers and bottles and cribs and strollers *for the most part. Our boys are all in school, they are all healthy and happy and guess what? We still love each other like crazy and we still laugh together everyday.

We have a long way to go, lots of unknowns to still cover, but at this point, we can look at each other across the chaos and the wildness and smile... We got this.

This all leads me to this post, why does the celebration of your union happen before the products of your union are there to appreciate it? You work so hard to build a family, would't it be wonderful to have your kids there at your wedding?

We think so.

We love blended families.. Yours, Mine Ours... Brady Bunch Style

If you are renewing your vows, if you are getting married for the first time after baby or if you have been through it all before and found a new love and joining your families together... Lets talk about weddings that celebrate your family and how far you've come.

First things first, this can be a super casual affair or a major blow out.

All you really need is your family and some love.. Maybe a rad outfit because, hey, you always can use a rad outfit. Let"s start small and work our way up in scale.

Adorable photo of adorable people from what publication we don't know. Please tell us in comments if you do.

Hit the court house with your man and your kiddos on a Friday afternoon and then go to a fancy lunch! Just you and the people closest to your heart having a fun and love filled celebration, you can't beat that.

Now lets say you have found your man, had your babies but haven't yet gone though with the actual wedding. Then you might want to have a huge celebration and pull out all the stops! You deserve it!. You've done the hard work and now you get to celebrate!

In that case your going to want to find your self an amazing once in a life time dress.