How do I make my boyfriend/fiance get a real job?

Okay. We've been together for 5 years. We've been engaged for 2 months, but haven't even started planning the wedding. I'm 21 and he's 22.

He just graduated from UIUC with a degree in electrical engineering. He has a million job offers, but has declined all of them. One of them offered 6 figures - that'd be so awesome to pay down our student loans start putting money away for a house. Instead he's decided to go touring with his band for a few months. Ugggghhh.

"Yourangryfriend" is pretty angry, but seriously, there's no race with your how your parents did things. Why would you want to have a downpayment on a house so early in your life? That's mental. Live your lives, go on tour with him!