Narcissistic Observations of the World that Revolves Around Me

Thus, I have come up with a simple checklist to allow someone to continue to party like it’s 1999, while avoiding the…snags that can occasionally accompany partying like it’s 1999. Which, incidentally, without giving away my age, I was actually able to do in 1999 without breaking any underage-drinking laws. Whatever.

1. The Post-It. Prior to engaging in drinking activities, it is important to leave reminders for yourself, lest the memory begin to fail in the wee hours, under the influence of…whatever. (Whatever.)

Suggestions:

a post-it on the bathroom mirror reminding you of the early-morning meeting that you really shouldn’t blow off. (It may be helpful to place one of these on the inside of the toilet lid, too, just in case.)

a post-it on the telephone which reads something along the lines of “DON’T DO IT!!!” (referencing, of course, the infamous drunk-dial. Never a good idea.)

a similar post-it (only larger…much, much larger) on the computer. (The reason for the larger size being that the results of drunk emails/blog posts/Facebooking are potentially much more detrimental, due to the fact that while slurred speech might be forgiven and forgotten, things in writing are forever. And trust me, while you might think your spelling is okay while inebriated…it isn’t. Trust me on this.)

2. Staging. The most important setting is your bedroom. There are many reasons for this (see #3 and 4), but the most important one is…hangover prevention. This is why you will place the following items on your bedside table:

a large vessel of water; drinking glass optional

a large vessel of oral analgesics (something coated is nice)

a dark sleep mask (trust me – the sun, while fun to watch coming up, will burn like,…well, the sun, once the liquor wears off)

a bucket (again, just in case)

3. Protection. Okay, first of all, I know you are not a slut. I do. But let’s just think outside the box. Let’s just say, you are hijacked en route to your home at a not-unreasonable hour by, oh, I don’t know, a sexy vampire who deeply resembles Johnny Depp, and he mesmerizes you with his supernatural gaze and you end up home in bed with the dude. The last thing you need to worry about are sexually/blood-transmitted diseases and/or half-demon spawn. Thus, condoms. Place them strategically. Suggested locations:

on your pillow; use tape

on the other pillow; just in case

scatter a few across the bed and under the covers, just for good measure

within reaching distance of the sofa, the dining room table, the lawn furniture, the bathroom counter

taped to your forehead if you hang with a liberal crowd who won’t judge

if you happen to have a pair of those funky little panties with the built-in condom pocket, by all means go for it; under no circumstances, however, do I recommend using duct tape anywhere in that area

4. Sexy stuff. You are not a slut, and do not intend to end up in bed with someone, but if you do, do you really want them seeing what you really wear around the house? Put out the slinky V.S. robe and the cute tap pants/cami set for the morning. Just because you are hung over is no reason to let yourself go.

5. Place your phone on its charger so you can phone your best friend in the morning to commiserate/make plans for breakfast. Make sure not to dislodge any previously placed post-its.

6. Food. Nothing staves off a potential hangover like a late-night snack. If you are really together, you could try ordering a pizza ahead of time and leave it near the bed to be ready to be consumed cold just prior to pass-out. I do, however, realize this requires a great deal of foresight. Therefore, it may be prudent to simply stock up on an emergency supply of quick fixin’s. Recommended: Chef Boyardee, Mr. Noodle, or anything in the toast family.

7. Danger Prevention. Give away, hide, or bury your car keys. I’m serious about this one. It is altogether too tempting to careen homeward under your own steampower when Prince Charming gets toadish or you just feel the need to crash. (Macabre pun intended) If you lean toward accident-prone, you may want to move any really pointy furniture well out of the way and maybe lock the cat in a safe room.

8. And finally, it is highly recommended that you tell your mother in advance that you will be out of town and out of cell phone range for the next 48 hours on very important business. Because nothing harshes your mellow like a hangover migraine being split open by your mom’s insistent voice wondering why you haven’t called her in the past two days.

This list is an ever-evolving entity, so by no means consider it complete or written in stone. Feel free to apply any modifications you deem necessary (and if found to be highly successful, it is expected that you shall not be stingy and shall share in kind). Stay tuned for updates.

Your Check-list is without peer. The only advice I ever got which was of any use was when we were about to have our first child. For what it’s worth I pass it on to you in part exchange for your own excellent advice:
Only ever buy your children washable markers.

On October 2, 2008 at 4:09 pm Drea M. said:

That is excellent. In fact, I’m not actually sure that rule should only apply to children.

Haha, I like your thinking outside the box. And do you know what I have found out about drunk Facebooking? It’s repercussions are felt for days. Suddenly someone will accept my request as a friend and I will have no recollection of asking them in the first place. And then I will remember that I did it on a dare – not the best start of a friendship, really. Thanks for the funny entry 🙂

On October 2, 2008 at 4:24 pm Drea M. said:

Ah, welcome to the Age of the Post-It, grasshopper. They call it the Information Age. They have been mis-informed. It is, in fact, the Age of the Post-It. It is better to have learned the lesson late than to have never learned it at all.

just randomly came across your blog and wanted to say I really like your posts (I’ve been reading back through earlier ones).
I’m not sure about the taping a condom to your forehead advice even in liberal company. Whenever I try that guys think me easy and/or desperate. I guess you could tape the supermax EXXXtra LARGE condoms instead, in which case you’re just advertising your standards.

On October 4, 2008 at 7:31 am Drea M. said:

You really shouldn’t encourage me.

*muttered as she quietly adds extra-large condoms to her shopping list*

On October 6, 2008 at 11:33 pm Mindy said:

I totally agree with anotherblogger. That’s a fabulous idea! … as far as taping condoms to your forehead goes. 😉