"Dear Mother, this day was your special day. It is now our special day in your memory. I will prepare a spirit plate for you to help on your journey. All I can say is thank you for bringing me forth into the world. Maybe you can be more attentive to me and my sons from the Spirit world in positive ways than its opposite. We need your support now from the other side. Happy birthday, mother. We loved you and you are in our hearts now and always. xxxooo"

"Dear mom, you have gone away six months now. I know you are free of the body that was not useful too much for you in your Golden Years. Your strength was still in tact, however, most of the stressors of life weakened you. Life is what it was. You may not be present, we feel your presence in our hearts. I am happy we had our talk back in August 2010. We came to an understanding and we forgave each other. I love you."