Spice Up Your Next Date With This No-Fail Sexy Move

Picture it: You're on a third date (second if you're extra spicy!), and you excuse yourself to the ladies' room. As you scoot past your guy, lean down and whisper, "Do you want to know a secret?" As he leans in, cup your hands around his ear and…

Slowly lick his ear! He will LOSE HIS MIND.

Now, how you lick his ear is crucial. Don't jam your tongue in there like you're digging for gold, and don't just barely tickle the rim—that's going to make him giggle and trust me, that's not what you're going for. Be deliberate, yet gentle. Think: sensual, but not over-the-top slobbery.

And the key is to lick and run. Before he can catch his breath, you've disappeared to the ladies' room, leaving him in stunned silence at your awesomeness. Confidence is also crucial: Don't giggle or blush when you get back to the table. Just ask very calmly (while looking into his eyes) how that risotto is or if he's interested in tiramisu.

This is my go-to move that never, ever fails to amp up the sexual tension and lead to a verrrrrry interesting evening!