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This week

Two of my friends have given birth this week and whilst I am so genuinely happy everything has gone well - I feel so left out and its hit me at what could have been. Everytime i've been on Facebook this week there's been photo's and comments left and its made me feel so sad.:cry:

It is hard not to be jealous - my friend is pregnant and our babies would have only been 2 months apart and while I am genuinely happy for her it does cut me up to see her scan pics and the fact they have just bought a house and will start decorating a nursery upsets me soooo much but on the surface I smile and try and get on with it when I see her!One day our time will come - got to keep the PMA!!!Big hugs to you hun xxxx

Thanks for the support. As usual you girls always know the right words to say.

I feel a little better today. Its so complex my best friend (who gave birth on Sunday) had a miscarriage a week before me in October whilst i was stil pg. There I was worrying about her and how she would cope with my pregancy! She then got pg after 1st AF whereas I got pregnant in Jan and had another mc. We've shared everthing over the years and apart from making sure she is ok I have not been able to deal with her pregnancy because I really can't bear to even talk about it. I have felt like such a bad friend and whilst I know she understands it's sad that I can't be there for her.

Now officially in 2ww and I am determined not to test this time ntil my af is late (lets see how long that lasts!).

I hope everybody gets their sticky BFP's soon as we all really deserve it. I really believe all this heartache wil make us much more apprechiative once we have are little ones.

Hi LittleMoI just wanted to let you know I entirely understand. It is so hard seeing anyone with children / babies / pregnant when you are TTC and after a MC. It makes it harder when it is someone close. In the past couple of days I have had to really try hard to put dates in the diary to see friends with children but I decided I couldn't let all of this harm my friendships. It is easier said than done though.I keep hoping in a couple of years it will be me with a baby and I can look back on this and remember how strong I was.Thinking of you

We have all been there lovey and we can all sympathesise. When I am having a bad day I tend to stay away from the internet altogether because it is just so stressful. It will happen again, it has happened before, there have been so many successful graduates of this forum and most seem to have gone on quite quickly. I have been stuck here 13 months now but I know that eventually it will happen and when it does it will be so special and precious because of what I have been through and I will not take it for granted. In the meantime the important thing is to keep on living sending hugs hun, chin up xx