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Leoh 0

I agree with adore1, as long as a guy is respectful and clean it makes no difference at all to how I would be during an appointment. I think when a gent is extremely shy/nervous it is part of my role to help him relax and feel at ease with the situation and to be able to express his likes/dislikes etc

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Pandora 19

I have no problem with however the gentleman chooses to be, loud, quiet, confident, shy....

However if the man does not talk - and I am not "talking" shy - it makes for a very uncomfortable booking. Only a couple of times have I had the misfortune to make the acquaintance of the "lies back on the bed, arms behind the head, get on with it" type. And they are not shy, they go for the whole hour without speaking or interacting. That's tough.

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Dexi Delite 10

As Adele said. Part of the excitement is not knowing what type of person they are. This could make for a slow sensual experience, or fun and frolicks. I like variety, and as long as they are clean and respectful too it doesn't matter.

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marksmith 10

I have no problem with however the gentleman chooses to be, loud, quiet, confident, shy....

However if the man does not talk - and I am not "talking" shy - it makes for a very uncomfortable booking. Only a couple of times have I had the misfortune to make the acquaintance of the "lies back on the bed, arms behind the head, get on with it" type. And they are not shy, they go for the whole hour without speaking or interacting. That's tough.

Give me some full on interaction and chat please, bring it on.

Does the talking and interaction include the time when you're having sex? For example ive grown in confidence and am chatty with the girl before we get down to anything, and im chatty afterwards, but im pretty quiet during the actual act.

Edited June 14, 2011 by marksmith

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Rojo 1

Confidence is one if the most attractive attributes in anybody as long as it doesn't stray into arrogance or inconsideration. Also confident doesn't mean loud, as often a lack of confidence is betrayed by being loud or cocky as one poster already said above. Being clean and respectful goes without saying and are the primary considerations for any wg I am sure. This is a business transaction not a relationship, so like any business they want well behaved customers who respect the product and the premises, you wouldn't ask a greengrocer if he prefers confident customers would you?

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JemmaLondon 0

I enjoy both, they make for variety, if I had the same temperament guy all the time I would be bored senseless. I like my shy/nervous clients and feel really pleased if I can help them relax and have a great experience, but it is a little more 'hard work' emotionally than confident, cheeky blokes who want to ravish me, and I do love a bit of banter and teasing, and interesting chats, that is what my ideal is. Equally, as many girls have mentioned over-confidence and arrogance is extremely off putting.

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JemmaLondon 0

@marksmith - I don't think it's weird at all, and I have the exact same thing, useless at letting a guy in a pub know I might like him, but totally confident with my clients. I really believe this is because punting is a very honest and transparent arrangement, we both know exactly what is required from the other, this is all agreed in advance, and there are very clear lines drawn. Dating, on the other hand is full of grey areas, unknowns, potential for great happiness or disappointment, and takes alot more courage, in my view.

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Colonel Bonkers 1,290

@marksmith - I don't think it's weird at all, and I have the exact same thing, useless at letting a guy in a pub know I might like him, but totally confident with my clients. I really believe this is because punting is a very honest and transparent arrangement, we both know exactly what is required from the other, this is all agreed in advance, and there are very clear lines drawn. Dating, on the other hand is full of grey areas, unknowns, potential for great happiness or disappointment, and takes alot more courage, in my view.

Exactly. In my quiet way I'm absolutely self-confident with wgs as I've been seeing them for so long now. I'm not actually interested in getting involved in any new relationships in the civilian world and haven't had an affair for years, but about three years ago I did find myself starting to fancy a girl I was in very close contact with for three weeks for professional reasons(spending most of the day with her - though not only with her), and I felt there was an answering interest on her part. Nothing happened, because it would have been professionally disastrous, apart from anything else, but I rediscovered all the emotions of a teenager all over again - becoming absolutely tongue-tied in her company, etc. And it really would not have been a good idea at all - apart from anything else, she was about 35 years younger than me.

Jemma's quite right: the relationship between wg and punter is reassuringly transparent, and also, I find, charmingly innocent.

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marksmith 10

@marksmith - I don't think it's weird at all, and I have the exact same thing, useless at letting a guy in a pub know I might like him, but totally confident with my clients. I really believe this is because punting is a very honest and transparent arrangement, we both know exactly what is required from the other, this is all agreed in advance, and there are very clear lines drawn. Dating, on the other hand is full of grey areas, unknowns, potential for great happiness or disappointment, and takes alot more courage, in my view.

Glad im not the only one then. Think for me too its the fear of rejection. I know a WG isnt going to reject me providing im clean and polite as thats what im paying for. A girl in a pub can tell me to go away tho, and this is what would scare me. Talking to WG's in the bedroom im fine with. Talking to girls on a frienship level im fine with. Talking to girls that could lead to more im useless