i have been dealing with perfectionism/perfectionist tendencies since … oh, well BIRTH. And this space right here — my blog — is DEFINITELY one of the biggest spaces that perfectionism rears its insane standards head. i’ve left my blog empty for months and months (hell, YEARS) because i couldn’t get whatever it was that wanted to be… Read more →

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I want to be a drag queen. Do you have advice for getting started? It’s THE number question i get asked in my email, messenger, and Insta DM’s from women who want to be drag queens (often called female drag queens, faux queens, divas, lady queens, and bio queens) — and the #1 question i’ve set my career sites… Read more →

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Yesterday was World Mental Health Day. Today is National Coming Out Day. Two big days that mean big things to me. Yesterday, i decided to release part II of my interview with Lillith Grey for The Drag Show Podcast early because the topics we covered (online bullying, performance anxiety, and self-care) needed to be a part of the national conversation.… Read more →

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i’ve always been the kind of person who has to retreat into themselves, into their art for periods of time. This week has been one of those (although i feel like the entire month of August has been that way). Reclusive. Reevaluating. Realigning. Redefining. Something that you may not know about me is that i LOVE astrology… Read more →