Since Monday is a holiday they called and left a message that DH has to report on Tues. I told DH this is as bad as the time they asked me if I was still BFing (I said yes, I go to my daughter grave each and every night and BF her!)... Nasty I know but sometimes I just can't help myself.

I'll let you all know how things go... Thanks again ladies, it's so hard to say anything to people who do not understand. They tend to think I'm just being nasty when I get all uppie

So sorry T!! All of this is like putting salt on
the wound. Let us know how this goes. I'm sure they
are going to feel so stupid. I kept
getting all sorts of baby things in the mail,
but the last straw was when a talent agency wrote
to me saying, - "Your child has been brought
to our attention." [}:)]

That's ridiculous. I'd give them a piece of my mind! Why would they send a letter anyway, aren't vaccinations optional?

When I went in for my 6 week check after Erik died, the nurse at my OB clinic sid congratulations and asked if the baby was a boy or girl - I said HE was stillborn and of course got the apologies and all that - how could she not know that??

Oh T! I am so sorry that happened to you. Not that it is the same thing, but for months after Chloe died I would still receive coupons, baby items and gifts in the mail from different companies. It hurt. To have a letter wondering why she hasn't received her shots is just heartbreaking. I am so so sorry. I know you will address it appropriately and make sure it doesn't happen again!!!