Category: Affairs

Andy sits at one end of the counseling couch, downcast, head in his hands, elbows on his knees. His gaze finally lifts from the space between his feet to settle on his wife, Cara, curled up in a tight ball at the other end of the couch. “How am I suppose to believe you?” he … Continue reading “Affair Confessions: What can you believe?”

I seem to be seeing more-than-the-usual number of articles or books promoting the idea that an affair might be an effective cure for a disappointing marriage. These writers suggest it might be just the spark needed to reignite romantic or sexual passions you’ve been missing. Is there any validity to this claim? Let me be … Continue reading “Can Affairs Save Marriages?”

John is stuck between his loyalty to his wife and his love for another woman. For the past few weeks, he’s been vacillating between them, hoping for a clear indication of which one will bring him maximum happiness or minimum regret. He spends a lot of time focusing on these two women in his attempt … Continue reading “Stuck in an Affair”

Last week I listened to a man describe the ways he was affected by his recent affair. “It change the way I experienced life,” he told me. “Each morning, instead of waking up with a sense of expectation for the day, my first thoughts were ones of self-preservation: Where’s my cell phone? Did I close … Continue reading “Wordwise: Security Through Integrity”

I find that people are often confused about the difference between forgiveness and trust. They are not the same. Forgiveness says, “I choose to let go of this offense and release you from its debt.” Trust says, “I choose to act according to the belief that you will not let me down.” There are circumstances in … Continue reading “I Forgive You, But I Don’t Trust You”

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