Is being average good or bad?

is being average good or bad? a lot of people say i look average i think its bad tbh its like a good looking ugly thats what i think. it seems that way on the dating site i am on. no one has yet message me but they have looked at my profile

Most Helpful Girl

Being average looking is probably a good thing because most people consider themselves average too! That means you've got a wide selection to chose from. If you're SUPER good looking then you might intimidate those who are interested in you. They may not even try getting to know you because what's the point? You (someone incredibly handsome) might just reject them right away.

Online dating is so bogus, too. People can be very superficial and judgmental on dating sites. So don't beat yourself up over that! You seem really handsome anyway- above average, actually. Maybe YOU should start messaging people you're interested in. Won't hurt to try!

Most Helpful Guy

you should know: In dating sites girls have the big balls. they decide who they want to talk to due to creepy waves approaching them. In real life you go to the girls and they are the lucky ones to get approached. girls are timid so dating sites give them some kind of ego boost. the hot girls get approached by ugly guys, in real life they would never have the balls to do so. what dating app are you using?

it's called pof? I use lovoo, searching for fuckbuddies, I hate it when they think they have the balls but I'm not searching for something valuable. just some average looking fuckbuddy. dating sites are shit, and your confidence is dropping my friend ,)

look at you. asking this question on gag and looking for people to say average is good, you need validation. get of this shitty online dating site and approach girls in public. your chances are 2-10 times higher then online. never heard of pof-BS

I think you're attractive.. I'm not hitting on your or anything haha but i wouldn't refer to you as 'average'

I don't think you should take peoples opinions based on your looks so seriously as everyone has their own idea and perspective of what 'average' and 'attractive' is. Besides, everyone has really high expectations nowadays.

Can't please everyone. I think I'm pretty easy on the eyes, some people think otherwise. Everyone has their own opinion. It's whether or not do you let it affect you. I'm pretty confident with the way I am so you can call me a piece of shit and it still won't affect me. Have a little confidence (: its your looks , only you can dexide whether u like it or not.

To me it never even matters about what the guy looks like. To me it matters on personality and how he treats me. So to the the girls that are not messaging you but checking your profile they are just superficial girls that expect a guy to have a six pack which honestly is ridiculous but that's my opinion.

Yep, so when girls say you're average it means: You're not my first option, and if you want me to drop my panties you're gonna have to work for it buddy. AlsoI ran out of options and I'm drunk and horny so I'll settle for you tonight.