hiwhen debug is stop when i righ click on a variable i can't added to watcher for next run debugplease add to watcher (aslo when debug is stopped)but it can possible select variable and drag and drop into watcher boxmay be it can be an offer

also exclude direcroty and files from search and renaming

some directory or files exists that i don't want phpstorm checks them for confilict

Yes -- such option is only available while debugging session is active. I think it's normal -- I do see (or remember seeing) similar behaviour in all IDEs I have used. Keep in mind -- once debug tool window is closed, all watches will be removed (that's how IDE currently behaves).