Saturday, 14 March 2015

What it feels to have a broken heart and try to love anyway

Paul Hudson has written on Elite Daily on
13/3/15 a related history of mine. I recently have split up with my boyfriend
and this new had really attacked my attention.

Paul Hudson is explaining that it’s not true or
correct to use the phrase “a broken heart” because, as he says, nothing is
truly break, nothing physical or psychological. He rectifies it as that we’ve
simply detached ourselves from the world we thought we knew and found ourselves
in a separated version of reality. And I couldn’t agree more with him. Moreover,
he explains how we feel when “our heart breaks” as that when we’re realizing
the realities we though to exist were nothing more than fantasy. Another fact can’t
deny.

In this time of “breaking heart” we aren’t sure
of what to do with ourselves because we don’t understand why the person we love
so much just walked out of us. And even if we fight till the end to keep going
on live we’ll never stop thinking on that individual. This is due to the high
influence he/she was on our life.

Moreover our personality makes a change. We aren’t
as optimistic as we were to the idea of love, we don’t have that trust we had
at the beginning. Nevertheless, sooner or later all this believes will become
mundane that we will feel like give love another shot.

Firstly, as Paul Hudson explains, we will find
every new candidate shorter than the person who gone away. But that’s love my
friends! As Paul Hudson says in the article, if love isn’t carried along by
ain, longing or worry it can’t be called love.

Then, when all those feelings we once had aren’t
present every day on our mind but it hadn’t disappeared either we’ll be ready
to move on. We’ll start thinking optimistically as that there’s someone else
out there for us.

If only I had met this writer before… it’s
simply awesome how he write and explains feelings and daily situations… just
fall in love with it. As you can see, I couldn’t agree more with him and I’m entirely
open and full of energy to help going whatever the problem it comes in front of
me. Thanks to Paul Hudson I feel comfortable and I believe in myself I’ll get
over this broken heart situation.