it sounds sneaky, i know.
but we had to do that with one of my lousy bosses. we had to add on our pay for unused vacation time or reimbursed travel expenses and bonuses that he had no intention of paying. it's not like it's stealing... i mean, it's our money, right? we earned it.

Sorry you had to deal with such a tough environment, Miss F - but a hearty congrats on the new gig. Sometimes we need an uncomfortable work environment to kick us in the butt and get us to make a move. That's what got me to leave California and move to Colorado. Well, that, and a really cute girl I met on a trip to Denver.

Here's my take; it can't hurt to ask about the bonus. Simply say "Remember the bonus you promised me for that extra work I did? Can I expect to see that in my final check?" If your boss says "Hell no." then politely say "Okay, I understand. By the way, I've done some thinking, and I'm afraid I won't be able to come in and help out nights and weekends as we discussed. Sorry."

That way, you give him a chance to honor his commitment to you. If he declines, he absolves you from the commitment you made to him. If he gives you what he promised, then you get a bonus! And either way, you've behaved in a completely professional and honorable manner.

Originally posted by Wayner Thanks Lobeck. I'd like to think I've learned something in my - good lord - TWENTY-SEVEN YEARS as an employee of one kind or another!!! Heavens, I should change my handle to "Geezer."

I'd mention the bonus, but pretty much look at it as lost money. I'd also be really cautious about the woorking for them on weekends thing. They will probably take advantage of you. Maybe a clean break might be better for you.Listen to your friends.
Good for you finding a new, better place to go!