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I actually spent a fair amount of time trying to help people just because there was so much unbelievably horrible advice on there. Crap from people that had clearly only learned about relationships from watching idiotic TV shows rather than having any experiences of their own. Then there were the people that were clearly selfish IRL but told OP that they should just deal with whatever awful situation they were in so they could further their own agenda (as seen here). There were always a few angry people ready to tell them that ____ sex are all complete jerks. If it wouldn't break anonymity I'd say that the relationship advice subs should require some kind of age verification.

Woah, woah, woah. Those arguments are just meant to be attacks against people they disagree with, not evenly applied philosophies. The world can't actually function under their weird rules, those things are just meant to stir shit.

People need to realize this. It's your freaking life. When you're in a relationship there is give and take. If they have taken too much, or you do not like what they have done, or are doing, you are allowed to break up. You have no moral obligation to be in a bad relationship, or one that doesn't please you. This guy blew three dudes -- don't like that? Find someone else.

I think she's over-reacting. If my boyfriend sucked-off three dudes, I would think 'what the fuck?' and move on with my life. But I also agree with you, if she doesn't like it she can leave.

Edit: Calm down, people. I said "But I also agree with [/u/123_456], if she doesn't like it she can leave." What I mean is, she's a human. She's entitled to her own opinion. It doesn't matter whether you, me, that guy, or Putin agree or not. I'm not trying to force my own opinion down her throat. Far from it.

Edit 2: As an aside, if I believed that this girl didn't deserve to have her own opinions or interests, I would need a different username.

A straight woman wanting to date a straight man ≠ homophobe. OP isn't terrified of gay people, nor is she condemning their lifestyle... she simply isn't attracted to gay/bisexual men and doesn't want to be in a relationship with one. And that's totally okay, because it's not a fucking crime to have preferences and standards when it comes to choosing a partner. I'm neutral about smokers and while I support their right to buy/smoke tobacco, I don't necessarily want to date or kiss someone who smokes a pack a day... but that doesn't make me a capnophobe. What the fuck.

I seriously think OP just doesn't want to die from AIDs. That's no joke at all either, a lot of gay men do that secretly (look up "Tea rooms") while maintaining a single GF/wife for convenience. Considering these guys have a high chance of getting HIV, they can then pass this onto the wife/GF they are duping. It's pretty disgusting really and only a blind homophile wouldn't understand that it's wrong.

I think that is common for most heterosexual women, which I think is the reason who so much fewer men are bisexual compared to women, and I think it's where homophobia initially comes from. (a guy is afraid of being seen as bisexual as that would make it hard to attract women, thus he becomes afraid of spending time with homosexual men)

However, I do think all of that is biology and there is nothing we can do about it.

I wonder if they would extend this logic to their own lives. "Hey, just so you know, I fucked a few dogs before we met. Weird beastiality phase, but it happened before I met you, so we're cool, right?"

Dogs can't consent, other men can. Even SRS can see that there is a difference.

Not that I think this girl is a bad person for falling out of love after finding out about her boyfriend being a pole smoker. Love is shallow and fickle. This whole thing (including going to Reddit for relationship advice) just reeks of immaturity.

This is why I hate SJWs. They act like the she isn't even allowed to honestly have feelings. Like nope, you have to be ok with this and marry him or you're a homophobe. And you can tell OP isn't exactly carrying around "God hates fags" signs in her free time. This just happens to personally turn her off and they basically try to shame her into pretending it doesn't.

And dear god how could it not. I feel bad for the girl. She didn't know that every time she kissed what she thought was his soft lips she was wrong she was actually kissing his soft, dirty poop covered penis sucker..... poor girl. (And I say this cas I feel like chances are about 8/10 that the knob her bf was slobbing was an unwashed poop covered dastardly dirty dick!).......poor girlll