Dear Deidre

I LEFT a note under a work colleague’s windscreen wiper and now she has reported me for harassing her.

I’m a guy of 21 and I work in a care home.

I have a girlfriend, work with lots of women and generally get on well with them.

One colleague is 28.

I see her as a friend but we had a row about making tea for a resident and she wouldn’t speak to me afterwards.

She was due to go on holiday the next week, so I left a note on her car saying I hoped she would have a good time and that I would miss her.

Now she’s reported me to management. I feel so hurt.

DEIDRE SAYS: You did catch her on a bad day but to protect yourself talk to your manager or the Human Resources officer and put your side of the story.

Take a friend with you as a witness.

I hope her holiday sees her come back in a better mood but keep your relationship professional from now on.

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