If our daughter turned out to be a boy, we were going to use the name Clark Leland. Hindsight, I'm glad we didn't use it. I'm not a huge Superman fan and I know everyone would associate it with Superman. I also really like the names Parker and Jackson.

My husband and I don't believe in spanking. I wasn't spanked and I feel like there are other effective ways to discipline your children. I think it teaches your children that violence and causing pain to others is acceptable. There's a difference between respect and fear.