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Power? My gf is a former trained slave and has been more on the sub side in all her relationships. One of my goals is to help her find more personal power. She's in therapy and the therapist says I am the healthiest relationship she's had yet, b/c I am better at communicating than anyone else she's had LTRs with.

That's really interesting. I've had friends who's journey as a sub has been about learning their power and understanding it. In lots of ways that's kind of beautiful to see. My Dom/me friends often talk about how it is the sub who has the power in their relationships and the sub gives the Dom/me the privilege of wielding that power.