When my friend Anna returned from a vacation in Hawai'i I asked her
what it was like. She said:

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Hawai'i was very beautiful. I had a beautiful two weeks. What else is
there to say about Hawai'i? It's just beautiful. It's beautiful
visually as well as ontologically. It's the land of "nothing's wrong".

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She's right, of course, about the beauty of Hawai'i. Anyone who's been
there knows it's almost impossible to not be struck by its
unique
paradise.
But what got me about what Anna said was the almost casual way she
likened Hawai'i to 'the land of "nothing's wrong"'.

What if there really was such a place as The Land Of
"Nothing's Wrong"? Like
money,
"nothing's wrong" doesn't grow there on trees - you take "nothing's
wrong" there with you. In fact, the ability to create "nothing's wrong"
is a requirement to get a visa to go there ...

the willingness to get that this is the way it turned
out; it didn't turn out any other way; this is it, and it's
OK the way it is;

3)

the recognition that barriers in life are prewritten into the human
condition: they're cultural, they're plural, they only show
up personal - and they're not personal;

4)

the generosity to give something up when confronting a situation
that doesn't work; it doesn't mean anything; the only problem is
positionality;

5)

the courage to come from your own experience - not as a way to win,
to be right, to dominate, to look good, or to survive but rather
simply as a way of being which honors Self as the gift of Life just
because you're alive;

6)

the audacity to stand for something great without agreement, and to
keep standing for it until the impossible becomes possible, until
the ain't gonna happen becomes commonplace;

7)

the risk to try on new paradigms without regard for ease or comfort
until the paradigm that becomes you is the one everyone else is
enrolled in you being;

8)

the compassion to be with life raw: rather than granting space to
its stuff while letting its being be, granting space to its being
while letting its stuff be;

9)

the humanity to regard your transformation as a gift you see other
people already having which they're being rather than as something
you see other people missing which they're needing;

10)

the magnanimity to invent "nothing's wrong" as a stand, as an
opening, as a possibility.

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Welcome!
Enjoy
The Land Of "Nothing's Wrong". This is it. Here we are.