Would you feel up a girl this size?

Okay so Im really self conscious and am planning to get into shape, but its not going to happen over night. Im not here to ask for medical advice because I know that I'm slightly "overweight" which is still bad. Recently I've scored myself a boyfriend and we are pretty touchy feely, but Im really self conscious. His felt up my leg, which was nice, and on my stomach, but I always squeeze it in so its not as bad. He hasn't mentioned anything other than noticing Im resenting his touch. Would you guys be okay if I was like this woman, or is it a turn off? Any advise on how to get over this self consciousness?

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Girl, it's all about how you carry your weight. That girl in your photo is beautiful. And let's face it, he knew what your body type was when he started dating you. You have no reason to feel so self conscious. You have to stop agreeing with your negative thoughts and remember no one is scrutinizing you harder than yourself. Learn to accept and love yourself unconditionally for all that you are.

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Aww thank you <3 I know she is beautiful, very beautiful, but like me, she isn't your typical Victoria Secret model, isn't that what most guys crave?

Expecting all guys to only want Victoria Secret models is like expecting all girls to only want body builders! Everyone has their preference and I know plenty of guys who prefer girls who are a little thicker than girls who are skinny.

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I think she has a pretty good shape. It's curvy which makes it more interesting to feel - Moving my hand around her body. When compared to my body size and shape she is a little too big. But that's only because I'm skinny. But I'm sure other guys would be happy to feel her up.

First things first: she still looks hot, and is borderline into fat land.

Second, when a man is with a woman, HE KNOWS !! what she looks like. He knows if she has a belly. He knows the size of her legs, ass, boobs, arms Everything!

He already knows what he is going to touch, and he is willing to do so. So please, do not be self concious when they do touch you, and don't retract your belly, cause he'll notice. When he doesn't touch you -> that's when you should start to get self-conscious

I don't want to live on this planet anymore. This woman is hot as fuck. The only men who wouldn't like this are virgin teens who'se only reality is the porn they watch and instagram models they fap to.

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You have very normal female proportions and I see muscle, so you certainly do not carry excessive fat. Its up to you to decide where you want to end. Just remember: training fat down is loosing female curves.