My ds just exploded out of his Rumpsters...seriously enough poop to fill 3 diapers. I was way too grossed out to rinse the dipe..and there was too much to rinse anyway (not a clean spot on the dipe to be able to hold it) so I threw it in the washing machine with the 3 towels it took to clean the high chair he was sitting in. I put some TTO (to cover the stink and if it helps with anything else well...great, cuz I dont really know what its supposed to be used for anyway..aside from treating yeast infections) in the wash with it...is this ok or was there too much poop to be putting it in the washing machine without rinsing first?

no there's nothing wrong with using the washing machine to rinse dipes. Plus you used TTO which will kill anything. I do this all the time and then put my wets in with the just rinsed dirties and do a rinse cycle again. Then I actually do the wash part.