2011年1月8日星期六

The female orgasm has been a mystery to us for centuries, all around the world. So far, there has not been any qualitative conclusion about the G-spot, vagina orgasm and clitoris orgasm in modern sexology, although too many scholars like psychologists, physiologists, anatomists, sociologists have studied female orgasm through theory, experiments, investigation and questionnaires. In recent decades, female sexual dysfunction has received growing national attention. Fortunately, people have reached an agreement that orgasm is a normal sexual function, whether you’re a man or a woman. I will explain to you the orgasmic differences and similarities between both men and women in this report. I will also propose a new perspective to query the traditional views about the G-spot, urethra ejaculation, multiple orgasms and the so-called female orgasm. Finally, I will conclude that female ejaculation is the same as male ejaculation but not as its been previously reported. I believe my findings will intrigue all women and men just the same and I encourage you to forward my findings to all your family members, friends and associates.

What exactly is an orgasm and does female orgasm really exist? Let’s dissect the men for a minute. They have said that during their orgasms, they ejaculate fluid out of their penis' during the final stage of sexual stimulation. For many preceding centuries, a belief was adopted with the notion that ejaculation is a unique privilege for men only. In contrast, many women have emphasized the importance of orgasmic experiences but no one can identify these feelings clearly. Why is it that women experience various types of female orgasms oppose to their male counterparts? Firstly, women don’t obtain orgasms in the traditional sense, they gain pleasure. Pleasure depends on a lot of subjective factors such as time and mood, but orgasm is an objective physiological phenomenon in which its rhythm is not controlled by human feelings. Secondly, women can ejaculate as easily as men. I will explain in detail about the female orgasm in chronological order to clarify the differences and similarities between male and female.

Foreplay. This is the most common word in the study of female orgasm. It’s been overtly stated that men think about sex in 15-second intervals. Women, however, think having sex is more like a chore and are least likely to initiate sex with their partner. It has also been said that foreplay is gender-based. It serves as a purpose for women only. It is also a common misconception, nonetheless! When your senses are aroused by an external stimulus, such as porn films or fictions, you will experience physiological responses from the nerve endings and nerve conduction systems. First, the body is stimulated through visual and/or auditory processes. Then, it travels through the afferent nerve system to the brain, and finally, it affects your genitals area by the efferent nerve system. This process can take less than one second flat. Additionally, a liquid secretion from your vagina is probable but not necessary in order to achieve an orgasm. It is essential to feel excited and want to ejaculate subjectively. Most women don’t accomplish this because they have never experienced a real orgasm and within time, they lose this physiological function. This is the first and primitive obstacle in preventing female ejaculation and honestly, it is a really hard thing to change.

We have reached to a consensus that male orgasms need a series of continuing stimulations until an ejaculation has been achieved. On the other hand, female orgasms are intermittent and often multiplied during a sexual encounter. I completely disagree with this conclusion and I will explain to you as to why. The so-called female multiple orgasm does not exist! Instead, it’s simply a series of pleasure many women hope to enjoy. A true female orgasm needs continuous stimulation until ejaculation, in which feelings are spread throughout her body like an electric current, accompanied by heart acceleration and body relaxation. Women may even wish to slow down and take nerve breaks to prevent premature ejaculation and although this may extend time, it is not necessary. Most importantly, the last ten seconds during ejaculation has the highest significance in both men and women and everything else is just a pathway towards it. Another phenomenon about premature ejaculation for men, I find difficult to agree with. You will ejaculate fast if you have strong reactions to the sexual stimuli because your nerves in that area are particularly sensitive to ejaculate. Women need a long time to achieve orgasm and are unable to achieve vaginal orgasm because their partner can not maintain arousal long enough to bring them to that point. Unfortunately these premises are not tenable. Women can also ejaculate quickly, in just 1 to 2 minutes or less! This awkward situation, all thanks to Freud, the father of psycho-analysis, have made people believe that vaginal orgasms were what mature women experienced and clitoral orgasms were what young women experienced. His theory classified female orgasms as clitoral and vaginal orgasm (G-spot) until recently, since the G-spot has not corroborated by any anatomical evidence in modern sexology. Perhaps it never existed in the first place? I’m not sure. I question how one be certain of having a vaginal orgasm. On the contrary, the clitoral orgasm does indeed exist, and can lead to ejaculation every time.

Another misunderstanding about female orgasm is where the fluid comes from. According to various literatures I have researched, orgasmic secretions (fluids) stem from the urethra. If you’ve ever watched female porn stars squirt fluid across the room, it’s easy to assume this. However, the truth is, your eyes are playing tricks on you. Fact: this fluid is coming from the vagina instead. The quantity is less than that of males albeit, but your vagina is certain to feel something during those last ten seconds of ejaculation. If you wondered what expelled out of that porn star’s urethra, it is called urine, plain and simple. Women are incontinent when their bladders are squeezed. In terms of the vagina, its fluid is colorless, odorless and viscous liquid, less than one milliliter. Another note I’d like to mention when watching a pornographic film, I noticed the women always moaned from the beginning to the end of their “script”. The fact is, the female moan is incontinently in last phase of ejaculation, just like the male.

Passion. When ejaculation has been achieved, most men will lose passion to their partners immediately, also known as the roll-over-and-sleep syndrome. Women are often left dissatisfied and will either complain to their partners (or friends) or suppress their urges as if nothing happened. Why are men and women so different? It’s because the woman didn't have a real orgasm afterall. A woman will endure the roll-over-and-sleep syndrome just like any man but only if she’s had a real orgasm. They will then enter a rest period; become unresponsive to sexual stimulation and will be unable to get into another phase until after some period of time has elapsed. The length of that rest period varies on many factors such as age, health and individual sexual desire. It may take anywhere between a few minutes to a few days. It is also impossible for men and women to reach orgasms at the same time so stop with this illusion immediately or you will be a receptacle forever. Who wants to ejaculate and who wants to control the rhythm? A woman will also have symptoms such as frequency and urgency of micturition and soreness of the waist after ejaculation. She will not be able to ejaculate after 6 or 7 times in frequency but will recover after having a rest for one to two weeks. Surprisingly, the kidney plays an important role in the orgasm of both the male and female. Why, I do not know at this time.

So why does the female orgasm perplex so many men and women for so many years? The fundamental reason is because the attention is paid to the vagina and is believed that if men obtain orgasm through the female vagina, then the women should also obtain orgasm from the male penis. In fact, everyone has ignored a very important organ, the female balls, located on the insides of the labia majora, about 0.3 cm in diameter. Many women aren’t even aware they have them and anatomists have neglected them as well. Why? Firstly, it’s because they are hidden on the inside instead of being exposed on the outside like the male testicles. Secondly, according to the use and disuse theory, most women never use its function and they are atrophic little by little. Finally and importantly, living in a male-dominated world, men don’t want to think of women possessing the same homologue in their bodies, whereas women have become admirers to the male penis. Maybe it's just my opinion. Next time you’re ejaculating, pay attention to those hard little balls inside you, as this finding will be the strongest evidence to subvert all previous theories about female orgasm.

Love vs. sex. Women often say that men are the sexual beasts who think with their penises instead of their heads, whereas women can ejaculate just as easily. Love is love and sex is sex. You can fall in love with whom you desire, despite age, race, gender, or religion. Sex is just about achieving a 10 second ejaculation! There is no relationship between love and sex.

Menstruation vs. ejaculation. In my opinion, one can not enhance or prevent the other. They are not directly related. Women can ejaculate during their menstrual cycle and the only consequence of this is with the added “bonus” of bleeding during the ovulation period.

Urination vs. ejaculation. Frankly speaking, I don’t think there’s a direct link between them, well, maybe indirectly? Many women describe their ejaculation experiences like a need to pee on their partners. Truth is, the female can not urinate at all when she’s aroused. Her ejaculation will come quickly if she holds the urine in, on the contrary if she urinates before sex.

Reproduction vs. ejaculation. The female plays an important role in reproduction. Their vagina is used as a receptacle means to give birth to a new life. What they fail to enjoy is the real orgasm of ejaculation. A woman can get pregnant without herself ejaculating and that I haven’t been able to figure out why.

This paper leads us into the mysterious castle of female orgasm. We've spent centuries looking for its entrance, however, just recently we've been able to open its doors and are eagerly waiting to discover the unknown. Here are some examples has come to mind: the composition of the liquid; whether fluid contains female germ cells like sperm in semen; some other genital organs still unknown; the existence of female prostate; the mechanism of female ejaculation; and maybe if ejaculation can help fight against breast cancer, uterine cancer or menopause syndrome. I suspect these are some of the secrets hidden in this castle, waiting for us to expose one by one.

This has been a great ongoing project. Not only for the many scientists who’ve been involved with this research, but for all people world wide. The universe has its own laws filled with unclear understandings of our humanity. People have questioned about the female orgasm during the 19th century. Now, let us try our best to get the answers we’ve been looking for. Let’s start with the truth.

2011年1月4日星期二

I apologize in advance for any grammar mistake. This paper is dedicated to women around the world, as a New Year gift in 2011. I wish all women can get what they really want.

Breaking the mystery of female orgasm

The problems of female orgasm always trouble all people of the world, not only the female but also the male, who are all eager to figure out this incomprehensible question. So far, it is still a mystery which become intertwined with G-spot, vagina orgasm and clitoris orgasm in modern sexology, and there have not been any qualitative conclusion on this topic, although too many scholars like psychologists, physiologists, anatomists, sociologists have studied in the female orgasm through theory, experiments, investigation and questionnaires, since Freud in the 19th century, but it is still ambiguous. In recent decades, female sexual dysfunction has received growing national attention. Fortunately, people have reached an agreement that orgasm is a normal function as sexual beings whatever men or women. Here I show what exactly the female orgasm is and what differences and similarities between the men and women in orgasm. I propose a new point of view to query the traditional views about G-spot, ejaculation from urethra and multiple orgasms during a sex, hard to ejaculation for female, so called female orgasm. Finally, I conclude that female can ejaculation as same as male, but not as previously reported. I also believe that my findings have an important significance to all women.

The most controversial issue which is the core of the problemis whether female orgasm exists. Before answering this question, we should figure out what exactly the orgasm is. As human beings, let’s look at the definition about male orgasm. Almost all of the men said that orgasm is ejaculating a spurt of fluid out of body at the last moment. For many preceding centuries, there was widespread belief that ejaculation is a unique privilege to males, not to females. In contrast to the unanimous conclusion about male orgasm, there have been a lot of various statements to female orgasm. Many women have emphasized that the experiences of orgasm is significant importance in their sexual lives, and how much they love this feelings, but no one can express the feelings in orgasm clearly. Compared with the unanimous male orgasm, why are there too many different types about female orgasm? This is mainly becausemostlywomen don’t obtain the orgasm, and they just get the pleasure during a sex. Pleasure depends on lots of subjective factors, maybe you have different feelings because of different time and mood, but orgasm which is objective event as a physiological phenomenon certainly has an inherent rhythm not controlled by human feelings. Now I can answer the question before, not only the answer is absolutely positive, but women can also ejaculate as easy as men. Next I explain the details of the female orgasm in chronological order to clarify the differences and similarities between male and female.

Foreplay, this is the most common word in the study of female orgasm. Obviously, mostly men think about sex at 15-second intervals, but mostly women think having a sex is a chore and they never initiate sex with her partner. So all people whatever men or women think that the males don’t need foreplay, it just belongs to the females, furthermore the longer the better. But that is not the case what you think. When your senses are stimulated by something like porn films or fictions, you will have physiological responses and feel nerve throbbing on your vulva. There is a huge area of nerve endings and nerve conduction system, first stimulated by visual or auditory then through the afferent nerve system to brain, finally affects your genital area by the efferent nerve system, it can just happened less than 1 second fastest. Additionally there will be some liquid secretions from your vagina if you feel very intensely, but it is not a necessary condition to achieve orgasm. It is essential that you should be excited and want to ejaculate subjectively. Most women don’t feel this because they never have a real orgasm before, and as time goes by they lose this normal physiological function. This is the first and primitive obstacle to prevent female from ejaculating. To be honest it’s really hard to change.

When you have a physiological reaction, you want ejaculation to satisfy yourselves. All people have reached a consensus that the male orgasm needs a series of continuing stimulations, until they ejaculate to achieve the orgasm, but female orgasm can be an intermittent and multiple orgasms during a sex. I state that this is a completely and totally wrong conclusion. This so called female multiple orgasms are not a real orgasm, is just series of pleasure. The real orgasm for female is also that way needed continuing stimulations until ejaculation, and then the feelings spreads every place in your body like an electric current, during that accompanied by the heart acceleration and body relaxation. Women should slow it down to let your nerve take a break, if you do not want to ejaculate too fast. This way may extend your time, but I don’t think it is necessary. Only the last about 10 seconds during ejaculation have significance in a sex, not only for males but also for females, and what you have done before is all for the feelings of the last ejaculating. I don't think there is a phenomenon called premature ejaculation for males. You will ejaculate fast, if you have strong reaction to the sex stimulations, because your nerves in that area are too particularly sensitive to ejaculate. The reason why have this premature ejaculation disease, depends on that women need a very long time to achieve orgasm, women are unable to achieve vaginal orgasm because their partner can not maintain arousal long enough to bring them to orgasm. But unfortunately these premises are not tenable. Women can also ejaculate quickly maybe just in 1 or 2 minutes or less, if you have the right way to stimulate. This awkward situation all thanks to Freud, the father of psycho-analysis, make people to believe that vaginal orgasms were what mature women had, while clitoral orgasms were what immature women had. His theory classified female orgasm as clitoral orgasm and vaginal orgasm (G-spot), but up to now, the G-spot is not corroborated by any anatomical evidence in modern sexology, maybe it does never had existed, I don’t know I guess, maybe it’s just an imagination. Who can stand up and say what it like when she has the vaginal orgasm? On the contrary, the clitoral orgasm does exist indeed, and it can lead to ejaculating for every time. More time is all in vain, if you don't know where is correct to be stimulated. Where the fluid from, is another misunderstanding for female orgasm. According to the previous literature, all papers said that the fluids are to be ejaculating from urethra. That because people saw the girls in porn who squirt a lot of fluid from urethra, so they think female orgasm is ejaculating from urethra. But the truth is not as you wish again, and eyesalways lie.In fact it is from the vagina not urethra, when female is in ejaculating. It does not squirt so much fluid like the males, but you can really feel something out of your vagina during your last about 10 seconds in your ejaculation. What you saw in the porn expelled through the urethra is totally urine. The women are incontinent, because of the hit in a sex and her bladders are squeezed. What the fluids expelled through the vagina look like? Yellow? Watery? No. It is colorless, odorless and viscous liquid less than 1ml, maybe you can just only use toilet paper to dry. But it definitely not looks like urine at all, yellowish and watery. Women always keep moaning from beginning to end in porn, but the fact is that the female moan incontinently just in last ejaculating like the male.

After ejaculating, most of men will lose the passion to their partners immediately and they roll over to go to sleep quickly. Whathappened to women after having a sex - dissatisfied, complaints or go back to do some housework acting like nothing happened? Why is there so different between men and women after sex. The only reason is women didn't have a real orgasm at all. A woman also falls asleep in seconds and loses the passion to her partner immediately like a man, if she has a real orgasm. After one orgasm, the females also must have a so-called "rest period"; they become unresponsive to sexual stimulation and cannot get into another excitement phase until some period of time has elapsed. The length of "rest period" depends on many things, such as age, health and individual sexual desire, etc, it needs a few minutes shortest or a couple of days longest. So men and women both reach orgasms at the same time in one session is impossible. Women should stop the illusion immediately ejaculation together with men or you will be a receptacle forever. Who wants to ejaculate, and who must control the rhythm.A woman will also get some symptoms like frequency and urgency of micturition, and soreness of waist,after she ejaculates frequently. She couldn't ejaculate anymore, after 6 or 7 times ejaculation frequency, but she will recover after having a rest 1 or 2 weeks. Obviously, the kidney plays an important role not only in male orgasm but also in female orgasm. Why? Sorry I don’t know.

Why does female orgasm as a normal physiological function perplex so many women for so many years? The fundamental reason is everyone pays attention to the vagina and they believe that male obtain orgasm through the female vagina, female should also get orgasm through the male penis. In fact, everyone ignored an important organ - the two small balls, located inside the labia majora, one on each side, touches like about 0.3 cm in diameter. Many women do not know them, even anatomists neglect them neither. Why? It is not hard to find. I don’t know why so many year no one can find them. First, the balls are hidden inside, not exposed outside like male testicles. Second, according to use and disuse theory, most women never use their function, and they are atrophic little by little. Finally and important thing, in a male-dominated world, men don’t think women have a same homologue in her body, and women don’t believe they can be like men, because they have become admirers of the male penis.You will feel them obviously, when you are excited enough and want to ejaculation eagerly. Maybeboth sides are not in the same big. This finding will be the strongest evidence to subvert all the previous theories about female orgasm. Maybe there are lamps in my body, but I don’t think so. I am kidding to myself.

Women will stop to say that all men are the sex animals which think about using their penis every time, when all women can ejaculate easily. Women will know why the pornography is so unfailing, when they can ejaculate easily. That is a simple theory: love is love, sex is sex. You should love his/her soul, when you are falling love with somebody, whatever the age, race, gender, or religion, these all should not be a problem, but sex is just about 10 seconds for the only purpose of the ejaculation, and there is no relationship between love and sex. Besides the relationship between love and sex, I should clarify some other misconceptions. Firstly, the relationship between menstruation and ejaculation, in my opinion, they are not directly related. Women also can ejaculate as same as usual in their menstrual period and the only consequence is that you will be bleeding through vagina a few days in the ovulation period, if you ejaculate in your menstrual period. Secondly, the relationship between urination and ejaculation, frankly speaking, I do not think there is a direct relationship between them, maybe little indirect. Many women described their experiences of ejaculation they have to pee on her partners, when they ejaculate. That is a totally mistake. The female can not urinate at all, when you are aroused, until completing ejaculation. You will ejaculate fast, if you hold the urine not to pee, on the contrary, you will ejaculate slowly, if you urinate before sex. Whatever, you should always urinate after ejaculating, but you can not pee so strongly as usual, because of your ejaculation just now. The reason I don’t know. Finally, we talk about the relationship between reproduction and ejaculation. The female has played an important role in reproduction, and they provide their vagina just as a receptacle to the men, and then they give a birth to new life, but they ignore to enjoy the real orgasm of ejaculation. Because women can get pregnant without ejaculation, sorry I can’t figure out why and I just guess there should be something in the fluid, it must be.

This paper leads us into the mysterious castle of female orgasm, which previously we are just always around and looking for whether there is a door. However, we only just opened the door of this ancient castle, and there are many things we do not know and wait us to discover, e. g. the composition of the liquid, whether fluid contains female germ cells like sperm in semen, some other genital organs still unknown, the existence of female prostate, the mechanism of female ejaculation, how the nerve conduction during ejaculating etc, and maybe ejaculation can make women against from diseases of breast cancer, uterine cancer or menopause syndrome. These are the secrets hidden in the castle, waiting us to expose one by one. This is a great project, not only for scientists to research, but also for the all world people to confront. Anything in the universe has its own laws, but some is not a clear understanding of our humanity, The 19th century, people put up this question of female orgasm, the 20th century, people have been intertwined for a whole century, then to the 21st century, let us try our best to get the truth back.

This is my whole paper. Because of my poor English and I am not a big deal, I can’t publish it on a journal. At the same time I record an audio use my old phone and I want to put it on youtube. But youtube is forbidden in my country. Can you give me some advice? It sounds not good enough. It is first time I do a record, so forgive me.

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