8. Nice Guys Have Hidden Agendas

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In general, being a good person is attractive. The nice guy is something else. His niceness is not real; it's a social strategy, one that doesn't work, and he blames everyone else for that.

The nice guy lacks the self-confidence to ask someone out, or is otherwise after women who are not going to be interested in him. Such a guy may get into the habit of performing services for these women, trying to ingratiate himself into their company. But this never results in romantic interest. The nice guy may fly into a rage later since he is so frustrated and feels that he's not getting anything back for all his pains, but, really, he's just cheating himself.