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so mad all i could do was cry..(vent)

so my ass of a husband and i were doing fine no arguing nothing well we went out and i said we need gas first.. so we stop and get gas and he comes back in after paying going off on me saying he gave me the money last night to get gas then and why didn't i do it then and how i have to do things on my own time and never listen when he tells me when to do shit, and started just going off on me.. and i mean ok maybe i should have gotten it last night but really that big of something to go off that bad on me and my 8 month old child was in the backseat as he screamed and then punched me in the arm as i was driving! all over some b.s. went into gas station dr.Hyde came out dr. Jekyll.. and said that i have to have it my way or no way (which aint true) but im like wth you went in to pay for gas and come out and start this??? idk how to take this..but it got me so mad i just cryed

I would have made him get out the car and drove home.And if i ended up with a bruise i would have turned him in for it.

Answer by
Anonymous
at 9:59 PM on Jul. 25, 2009

I am very sorry that you are this unhappy. The punching was not acceptable, and for him to carry on like that in front of the baby isn't right. From what you say, he sounds abusive and perhaps you should consider if this is what you want your life to be like.

i told the last man that raised a hand to me to make sure i didnt wake up cause he had to sleep sometime and when that time came i would kill him. needless to say he put his hand down because i am crazy enough to do it and get away with it.

op here- it is his baby im 29 as well(although not sure what that means) been with him for 9 years.. and just lately hes been this way.. so idk what the deal is

Answer by
Anonymous
at 10:27 PM on Jul. 25, 2009

He punched you?? WTF?!! I don't care what you did, unless you hauled off && punched him in the face then you didn't deserve to be hit. Some serious talks or counseling would be in order for me to even consider staying with him.