Should Elin Nordegren do it? Should Tiger Woods’ wife have revenge sex as retribution for his numerous infidelities? I didn’t think much about this issue until a woman, living Elin’s nightmare herself, called me asking, “What are the pros and cons of revenge sex?”

Revenge sex involves sexual exploits pursued for the sole purpose of getting back at a lover (or a romantic or sexual interest) who has hurt you in some devastating way.

While one of the least talked about trysts in the sexual discourse sphere, it’s actually quite popular. Male or female, lovers have been known to pursue these retaliatory affairs to punish a partner for violating the relationship.

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I usually only have sex because I want to. If it pisses someone off, or hurts them, it's just a bonus.

What do you think?

Constitutionally Speaking

01-22-2010, 06:36 AM

I am married, love my wife, and monogamous.

Revenge sex in my world is her withholding it when I screw up! :D

lacarnut

01-22-2010, 06:58 AM

Go ahead if you want to get down to the cheater's level. Kinda stupid if you ask me. Elin taking Tiger for half of everything he has and child support would be revenge enough.

RobJohnson

01-22-2010, 07:17 AM

Go ahead if you want to get down to the cheater's level. Kinda stupid if you ask me. Elin taking Tiger for half of everything he has and child support would be revenge enough.

Tiger is in therapy and will be cured soon. They will stay married! :p

lacarnut

01-22-2010, 07:22 AM

Tiger is in therapy and will be cured soon. They will stay married! :p

She is headed for those $$$$$$$.

RobJohnson

01-22-2010, 07:36 AM

She is headed for those $$$$$$$.

It's all about the love she does not care about the money.

noonwitch

01-22-2010, 09:17 AM

It depends on the situation-I don't know if it's the best thing for married people, but if it's an unmarried couple. It depends on who the offender slept with. If he slept with her best friend (or vice versa), than she is entitled to sleep with his best friend, if she desires to do so (and vice versa).

It's not necessarily something I would do, but I might threaten to do it to keep a roving eye in line.

Gingersnap

01-22-2010, 09:59 AM

It depends on the situation-I don't know if it's the best thing for married people, but if it's an unmarried couple. It depends on who the offender slept with. If he slept with her best friend (or vice versa), than she is entitled to sleep with his best friend, if she desires to do so (and vice versa).

It's not necessarily something I would do, but I might threaten to do it to keep a roving eye in line.

What? What kind of a threat is that? The only question that needs to be answered in infidelity is whether or not the offender is worth taking back after a suitable period of remorse and apology. I can't see how revenge sex could strengthen the victim's moral position or repair the relationship.

If the relationship is beyond repair, why would any normal person waste 5 seconds thinking about emotional status of the offender? :confused:

I've never understood jealousy. Either the other party is with you because they want to be with you or not. Crawling all over Guy B to get Guy A's attention is a loser ploy. If it doesn't work, you've just stamped your own official slut papers. If it does work, you've just proved that your partner has all the deeply romantic instincts of an intact dog.

FlaGator

01-22-2010, 10:11 AM

That's a brilliant idea :rolleyes:

Become what you abhor in order to punish some else.

lacarnut

01-22-2010, 10:13 AM

It's all about the love she does not care about the money.

After she put a good ass whipping on him, he may not want to get back together.:eek: :D

noonwitch

01-22-2010, 11:51 AM

What? What kind of a threat is that? The only question that needs to be answered in infidelity is whether or not the offender is worth taking back after a suitable period of remorse and apology. I can't see how revenge sex could strengthen the victim's moral position or repair the relationship.

If the relationship is beyond repair, why would any normal person waste 5 seconds thinking about emotional status of the offender? :confused:

I've never understood jealousy. Either the other party is with you because they want to be with you or not. Crawling all over Guy B to get Guy A's attention is a loser ploy. If it doesn't work, you've just stamped your own official slut papers. If it does work, you've just proved that your partner has all the deeply romantic instincts of an intact dog.

I'm kidding, and what do I really know about relationships, anyways? I threatened a guy I was involved with once, kidding, that if he messed around on me, I'd sleep with his best friend. It was a joke because I never slept with the guy I was involved with at the time, or any other guy ever.

Gingersnap

01-22-2010, 12:26 PM

I'm kidding, and what do I really know about relationships, anyways?

Well, you have a dog. :p

Actually, your relationship with your dog is probably more emotionally satisfying and less destructive than a lot of "starter" marriages I've seen. :D

RobJohnson

01-22-2010, 03:07 PM

I never have really declared any of my buddies a "best friend" unless him and his wife were having problems.

noonwitch

01-22-2010, 04:13 PM

Well, you have a dog. :p

Actually, your relationship with your dog is probably more emotionally satisfying and less destructive than a lot of "starter" marriages I've seen. :D

As Hunter Thompson once wrote, "Dogs don't call lawyers".

BadCat

01-22-2010, 06:39 PM

Absolutely. But you have to time it right.

She has to have come crawling back to you, begging you to give her another chance. You have to "accept" her infidelities and state that "our love will get us through these difficult times".

Once she's feeling comfortable again...screw all of her friends, screw her mother if she's still hot, screw her sisters. Then kick the bitch to the curb.

You get brownie points if you get pics or video of you screwing a best friend or relative.

Rockntractor

01-22-2010, 06:54 PM

I'm kidding, and what do I really know about relationships, anyways? I threatened a guy I was involved with once, kidding, that if he messed around on me, I'd sleep with his best friend. It was a joke because I never slept with the guy I was involved with at the time, or any other guy ever.
Your a virgin? In Detroit!

She has to have come crawling back to you, begging you to give her another chance. You have to "accept" her infidelities and state that "our love will get us through these difficult times".

Once she's feeling comfortable again...screw all of her friends, screw her mother if she's still hot, screw her sisters. Then kick the bitch to the curb.

You get brownie points if you get pics or video of you screwing a best friend or relative.

LOL

It might be revenge against the new person she wants to sleep with....I like goodbye sex, knowing I'm going to get it at least one more time, while she starts off in the new releationship as a "cheater"

MountainMan

01-23-2010, 01:27 PM

I am married, love my wife, and monogamous.

Revenge sex in my world is her withholding it when I screw up! :D

Funny. That sounds oddly familiar. :confused:

MountainMan

01-23-2010, 01:29 PM

Absolutely. But you have to time it right.

She has to have come crawling back to you, begging you to give her another chance. You have to "accept" her infidelities and state that "our love will get us through these difficult times".

Once she's feeling comfortable again...screw all of her friends, screw her mother if she's still hot, screw her sisters. Then kick the bitch to the curb.

You get brownie points if you get pics or video of you screwing a best friend or relative.

Some days BC, I wonder if you are mentally stable.....Then I realize that you are just the little devil on everyone's left shoulder. :D

RobJohnson

01-24-2010, 10:30 AM

Some days BC, I wonder if you are mentally stable.....Then I realize that you are just the little devil on everyone's left shoulder. :D

He's stable & a blast to hang out with. :)

BadCat

01-24-2010, 01:09 PM

I just always try to do everything the best I can, Mau.

That includes revenge.

Speedy

01-24-2010, 01:13 PM

Having been married to a serial adultress during my first marriage, I will never again be played the fool. If Yvette, my second wife, had ever decided to cheat on me, I would have beat her to it many times. Married or not, I will hit anything with a skirt as fidelity is overrated and short lived. A lesson my first wife taught me well.

SaintLouieWoman

01-24-2010, 01:17 PM

Having been married to a serial adultress during my first marriage, I will never again be played the fool. If Yvette, my second wife, had ever decided to cheat on me, I would have beat her to it many times. Married or not, I will hit anything with a skirt as fidelity is overrated and short lived. A lesson my first wife taught me well.

With that attitude, why bother getting married? :rolleyes:

RobJohnson

01-24-2010, 01:18 PM

Having been married to a serial adultress during my first marriage, I will never again be played the fool. If Yvette, my second wife, had ever decided to cheat on me, I would have beat her to it many times. Married or not, I will hit anything with a skirt as fidelity is overrated and short lived. A lesson my first wife taught me well.

It's hard for me to remember any girl that I never cheated on, at least once, up until a couple years ago.

Speedy

01-24-2010, 01:29 PM

With that attitude, why bother getting married? :rolleyes:

Marriage is about companionship, togetherness and all sorts of yucky but necessary stuff like that. Fucking around is about getting the numbers up and no being made a fool of. Whoever I marry is not going to cheat on me first unless she does it at the reception.

RobJohnson

01-24-2010, 01:53 PM

Marriage is about companionship, togetherness and all sorts of yucky but necessary stuff like that. Fucking around is about getting the numbers up and no being made a fool of. Whoever I marry is not going to cheat on me first unless she does it at the reception.