Struggling to cope

Hoping some of u lovely ladies have a few words of hope for me cause at the minute i am really struggling! Its been 2.5years trying for our 1st & i have only had a BFP (big fat positive (pregnancy test)) once which sadly ended in a MC!! I can see it started to cause problems in our relationship - we are getting married next year and i should be so happy but when u are TTC (trying to conceive) for so long & everyone around u is PG its really hard to stay positive. My friends baby shower is next month and i honestly dont think i can go as i was supposed to be due 1week after her. Sorry for venting im just having a really bad day inside my overactive mind xx

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I know exactly how you feel. It’s so hard at times. I’ve bed. TTC (trying to conceive) for over a year and had two mc in that time. Now undergoing tests to see if there is anything wrong. Have you had any tests?

So sorry to hear u have had 2 MCs - they really do break u 😔 Yes i have had all my intial tests done & DF (dear fiancee) has had his SA which came back better than good. I am just waitin now for my Lap&Dye and to get a cyst removed - was supposed to have it in March but it was cancelled until June/July!! Some days i am fine then others i just wanna cry and feel sorry for myself - also feel like i am letting DF (dear fiancee) down as all his friends are now expecting

So sorry to hear u have had 2 MCs - they really do break u 😔 Yes i have ha...

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22/04/2018

So sorry to hear u have had 2 MCs - they really do break u 😔 Yes i have had all my intial tests done & DF down as all his friends are now expecting

I’m sure he doesn’t feel you are letting him down. At least you have had some good results back and I’m sure once the cyst is sorted it’ll be all systems go! But I do know some days are so hard and it is just all consuming. I get so jealous of people with kids, even ones I don’t even know just walking around the supermarket! Think I may be turning into a mad woman!

My only advice is to try and force yourself to keep busy. And use this website and whoever else you have in your life to support you. There are so many couples who have experienced similar and gone into have their babies, there is no reason it won’t happen for you. X

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