trying again : @wyomama0427, 1st of all your cookies didnt make me nauseous, they made me wanna get out of my pjs and run to the store get some !!On a much serious note, i have been there before. During my 1st marriage. Dont get me wrong im sure it had NOTHING to do with your situation because my ex was an a hole trying to take advantage of the fact that i was young, with no fam around, vulnerable, to get his citizenship. What i mean is i know how the porn thing makes a woman feel. I was a little overweight. When id try to seduce him before work hed reject me. Then id come home from work to find on my laptops browsers history all those porn sites. Makes you feel so unsexy and undesired it kills you. As for your happiness issue im sure you guys will get through this, with or without therapy. Just keep talking, and try to understand eachother. Like the ladies say, it takes WORK. as long as you re both trying, ull succeed. Hugs n thoughts!!

OMG I swear I'm going to go crazy. How do I still have no appetite, all day nausea, and dry heaving at 15+2? It's absolutely maddening. And if I don't gain at least a few pounds between now and my next appointment on the 30th I know the Midwives will not be happy

@Carebella i wish i could give u some of the weight i did put on. only 13 weeks and ive already added 10 pounds ! got lucky didnt throw up ....yet !edited because when i use my mobile app half of my post disappears !

@wyomama0427@DPandMB My life in college changed when I discovered the rolls of cookie dough meant to be eaten raw. Also, I just had a cup of chocolate milk to satisfy my chocolate craving brought on by those cookies. Hey, at least I'm getting my calcium, right?

Being pregnant is the only time I can show a semblance of restraint with raw cookie dough And cookies this round have helped me down more milk in three months than I usually do in a year. Cereal has helped with that too.

@SayaSana I'm trying to stress a little less since I started this pregnancy up about 4 pounds from where I started my last one. But I was still at a healthy bmi and they definitely want to see me gaining now. Let me know if you figure out a way to send a few pounds my way! ;-)

@wyomama0427 omgsh lady.. I'm just catching up. My heart breaks for you that he dropped this bombshell on you as well as his porn use.. It does sound like you guys don't spend quality time together. Get a babysitter and go shopping or to dinner and movies.. go to the gym together? An activity he might like.

@Sugargirl1019 we have had some really good talks in the last few days as he's coming home from work. He admitted that a lot of it is that he's really unhappy at work and he says I'm hard to talk to, also he thinks that the workload was really unfair and he felt like he was doing more. We talked through a lot of things and he apologized and said he was being selfish and not really even trying to acknowledge how much I do. Last night DS fell asleep and we stayed up and watched Hacksaw Ridge because he said he really wanted to see it, (it doesn't sound like a big thing but we almost always go to bed early because we are lame...) but I told him we need to get a babysitter and have a real date! Also maybe tmi? But we had a really good time last night after the movie... lol. I feel like we're taking baby steps in the right direction.

Side note here, is anyone else as obsessed with 90's and 2000's music as I am? I've got a whole playlist on Spotify called throwbacks of a random assortment of pop and rap and hip hop... it's got everything from like A thousand miles to Miss new booty, the spice girls to lil Jon and the east side boys, vertical horizon and matchbox twenty... it's very interesting lol. I can't stop listening to the same songs that I have been for the last like... ten years lol.

Lol @babyschopf yesss I remember burning CDs! I have a whole case full of burned CDs! I used to be obsessed with the Now that's what I call music CDs. My mom would rip the songs to the computer and then burn them to discs for my sister and I because we had those portable CD players haha!

@wyomama0427 That's so great that you guys got to talk and make progress! I understand how much a job can stress out a guy. My DH went through three jobs last year, and his second one was the worst. It really put a stress on our relationship because he would bottle it all up and just shut down. If things don't get better with his job and he really wants to do the EMT work, it might be a good thing to talk about. Also, 90s music is my jam.

I've spent 90% of the morning so far in bed moping because I'm beyond over food never sounding good anymore. I'd always walk down a food aisle and have multiple things sound good to me. The trouble was narrowing down options. Now, even dessert aisles do nothing for me. I'm officially broken.

I've mentioned before that we go to my MILs every weekend DH is off (every other weekend) She knows how sick I was, and that I'm still having a hard time eating. I just found out we're having taco salad tonight. This will be the 3rd taco dish in a row that we've eaten there. What part of "taco" makes someone think a nauseated person can eat it? I know I'm being ridiculous, but I'm starting to think she's doing this on purpose.

@HollyGolightly09 if DS got married and his wife got pregnant and they were coming over for dinner and I knew she was still having morning sickness and nausea, I'd probably make something like chicken noodle soup or something.... or I'd check with DS about what foods she could eat. But that's just me and also DS is only 14 months old lol

@HollyGolightly09 I'm so sorry. Taco stuff actually is one of the few things that occasionally sounds good to me. But as someone struggling to eat, I would definitely be frustrated and upset to go somewhere and have the same thing that hasn't sounded good being offered.

@wyomama0427 That's exactly how my mom is... she always tries to accommodate everyone's needs/wants, especially if they aren't feeling well. Maybe that's the problem... I'm spoiled and used to being catered to when I don't feel great.

@bridge-and-wall I really would have been fine not eating... chances are I won't be hungry any way, but DH called and asked her if she could figure something else out. I'm not sure what she said.. guess I'll find out in a few hours.

This probably belongs in the TW thread this upcoming week but a girl I've been friends with for over 5 years let me know today she unfriended me because I didn't RSVP to her baby shower. All you first time moms, don't do this lol. People with babies don't revolve their lives around you! We have enough crap to keep up with. She didn't invite me to her wedding a couple months prior which hurt my feelings, but I get a baby shower invite. I'm calling it tacky and saying she just wanted a baby gift, which I was going to buy her until now. So ridiculous.