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It’s the holidays and you feel utterly and miserably alone without a man in your life. Christmas music depresses you. Cold weather isolates you. Holiday gatherings intensify your aloneness. You need friends, happy hour and parties to fill your holiday void because you don’t know how to be alone and enjoy your own company.

If you truly want him out of your life him, you MUST block all communication. Don't answer his phone calls. Don't return his text messages or emails. Don’t open your door to his surprise visits to give him the opportunity to slither back into your life.

Men are extremely visual. Women over 40 must look their absolute best if they want to outshine other attractive women and get a man to notice you. Shallow? Perhaps. But a man's sexual prowess is controlled by his eyes.

Faulty mental filters create problematic emotions and disruptive behavior that damage our relationships. Our mind convinces us that we are flawed and undeserving. We jump to pessimistic conclusions about others. We magnify and catastrophize a single negative event.

It’s normal for a man to spend money to impress and even seduce a woman. But some men flash cash to charm women during the courtship and when he relationship is cemented, they will use money to power over and control the woman.

How you behave on a date matters because you may be sabotaging your second date chances—without even realizing it. According to Match.com it takes men only 15 minutes to decide if you're worth a second date. Don’t blow it by unwittingly doing or saying the wrong thing.

You ALWAYS choose the wrong men. You find yourself repeatedly in relationships with dysfunctional men. Men who are users, losers, players, cheaters, Mama’s boys, addicts, or the types who are unable to commit. Click here to learn how to stop your cycle of toxic relationships.

Verbal abuse can begin as small digs disguised as jokes. He teases, ridicules and humiliates you with sarcastic remarks about your appearance, personality, abilities and values. When you ask him to “stop,” he tells you, you’re too sensitive or you can’t take a joke.