Catalina 'upgrade' a negative experience.

I'm 62. I don't want emojis. I don't play games. I want a sold work station that I can carry around. My late 2013 MBP was good enough when using Mohave, but I have lost so many featutres – like the ability to sort mail correctly – the tabs have gone – and the loss of 32bit backwards compatability killing lots of software make the upgrade a negative experience.

Am I alone in this ?

I have Parallels and and have set up a Mohave virtual OS machine to get round the 32 bit problems but, heck…