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It's not like I'm asking these women where they live and what hospital they're giving birth at. I was just asking for their last name to see what whould go well with it and to avoid rhyming first and last names.

Looking back on it asking for their last names wasn't the best way to go. I don't want anyone to feel unsafe. I'd delete the post so people won't feel worried or judged for giving out their last name, but I can't.