Should I stay hairy or shave my pussy?Im a natural redhead with a REALLY hairy pussy, I have felt self conscious before but recently I started seeing a guy who says he loves the way it smells/looks but I cant sto thinking that having this messy red bush is somehow unnattractive.

I suggest you start by trimming it. Clean up the hairs around the lips and trim the top shorter. See how he feels about it.