Cliches usually anger me, confuse me, or both. Take the classic 'Too many cooks spoil the broth.' Who are these chefs who are so incapable of making a simple dish like broth on their own?But such aphorisms exist for a reason — they often are quite relevant. I recently discovered this during the classic experience of crafting my college-application essays. After a few hectic 2 a.m. writing sessions, my mind finally gave birth to more than a few treasured creations. Then came the all-important revision process. Desiring as many perspectives as possible, I gave my essays out like candy. Teachers, classmates, friends, even a stranger I met on a train, all became privy to my innermost secrets poured out onto nine pages of paper.Often, I felt like a father proud of successful offspring; other times I was ashamed of the flaws I had not seen. I listened to each person's comments and criticisms, and soon realized that many actually contradicted each other. Some liked the more creative writings, but others preferred a traditional style. I was lost.In the end, I compromised, managing to polish things but maintain my individual voice. Now, when I submit these essays, I will know that this dish is definitely my own creation.