Many attempts to communicate are nullified by saying too much. The mind can only process up to a certain extent thus leaving all the excess, excess. Although it seeks to appreciate the ideas and thoughts expressed by the mind, it should not be done excessively thus not only wasting words and opportunities but most of all, time.

To waste a portion of your life is like wasting your life in general. You may not know of it but the moment you do, you become prone to breaking down in pieces and be disturbed. Chaos is but one of the most feared states of the self as it connotes a self that could easily be destroyed thus emitting a sense of negativity in the self. If this happens, the self becomes fragile to an extent that it could not function as one entity.

In the case at bar, the many nullified attempts to communicate signifies a waste of time. Instead of establishing rapport with another and finally expressing what you have processed, you either end up beyond your aim or vice versa. There should be moderation; it shall be present in the self as to warrant control.

However, with Neuro Linguistic Programming (NLP), Time Line Therapy® (TLT) and NLP Hypnosis (Hypnosis), the self is able to regain his ability to control and be in control. To say the least, it lets the self grope on his innate ability to control thus permitting him to be in control. Once done, the self is able to withstand encumbrances and surpass them with positivity than with negativity. Although the aforementioned self-improvement methods does not guarantee a total rehash of the past and correct it, such dwells on making both your present and future according to your perspective thus allowing you to live the life that you have always wanted.

To say control appertains to an act that connotes discipline of and in the self. More so, it signifies the ability of the self to be balanced; a characteristic that enables the self to do what it must and be who he must. In other words, it is through control and balance that the self realizes his abilities and capabilities to satisfy, attain and maintain his happiness through the achievement of his goals and objectives in life.

To yearn for control in the self takes more than will power and patience. It is not searchable like that of a Bluetooth device but rather it is something inherently innate and needs to be empowered to be utilized. Yes, we are all in control but with the many dictates and demands of both our innate and external selves, we become lost and thus end up frustrated with ourselves. That instead of developing the self in general, we end up trying to learn how to control ourselves – an inherent waste of time.