I think Last Crusade's "advice" was fairly pointless and doesn't address what "Forpetessake" was talking about.

First of all, FPS, what you're saying is not silly. Many people struggle with that fear all the time. I'm not saying that to minimize how you're feeling--quite the opposite. I want you to know that you're not alone in your fears.

I worry about that too, but I also have come to have enough wisdom to know that once I reach a point where I am truly content with myself; where I feel fairly balanced and on top of things within myself, then I will draw the kind of person I would like to be with.

There are so many great things about being single. And whenever I find myself feeling a little lonely (because I really do sometimes), I tend to snap out of it when I hear my married friends complain about the frustrations within their relationships. Grass is always greener, right?

Hang in there...use this time to work on your own health and peace of mind. It can really go a long way...

Hey FPS,
I wouldn't worry about it, you have a good personality and she will come along.. It just takes time..You are also probably a little more cautious because you were recently burned in your last relationship..Take care!!

I completely agree with Fern, this is something that has gone through my mind and it seems that you're the sort of guy who wants to have a connection with somebody, not just sex. So now might be a good chance to take the time to come to terms with everything and just allow yourself to be single and move on gradually without complicating it with sex and relationships. It's annoying because obv. you're missing it but at the same time when you finally do have it again (and you will), you'll appreciate it and the person you are having it with a whole lot more.
I know people who went for several years without sex, so 6 months isn't that bad. I reckon the longer it gets, the more productive you'll become, the more you'll move on and the less you'll miss it.