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There several kinds of assessments;
wives, husbands, parents/teens, single, children and the language of
apology.

These love languages are
the best way for each individual person to feel love and their love tank to fill
up!

For example:

My love languages are in order…

1. Words of
affirmation

2.Acts of service

3. Physical
touch

4.Receiving gifts

5.Quality time

My husband’s love
languages are in order…

1.Physical touch

2.Words of affirmation

3.Quality time

4.Acts of service

5.Receiving gifts

So this means when I clean
the house and do all the extra things around the house it doesn't really fill
his love tank up. But if he cleaned
something or did something handy that will fill my love tank! I now know that my words and touch mean a lot
to him. I sometimes I have to literally
put it to action each day because my love language is different my husband’s love
languages and they don’t come automatic.

Let’s dissect the love languages…

1.Words of
Affirmation

a.Bibles says…

i.Luke 24:50-51:
Jesus blessed the disciples prior to His ascension

ii.Matthew 26:10-11: Jesus stated the woman who washes His feet

iii.Ephesians 4:29: We are commanded
to speak only words that will communicate grace to people

iv.1 Corinthians 8:1: Build up words

v.Proverbs 18:21:
“Death and life are in the power of the tongue”

b.To confirm something means to tell the truth
and strengthen it

c.A positive statement—saying the assumed and
unspoken about someone

d.Examples

i.Thank you

ii.I appreciate you

iii.You look really nice today

iv.I love you

v.I am so grateful for you

vi.A note of Thank You

2.Receiving
Gifts

a.Bible says…

i.Ephesians 5:25: “as Christ love
the Church and gave Himself for it.”

ii.Matthew 7:11: Jesus said god love to give good
gifts to His children

iii.Matthew 15:35-37: Jesus fed the multitudes

iv.Luke 6:38: “If you give, you will receive. Your gift will return to you in full measure.”

b.Sometimes words don’t mean as much. Holding something in their hands mean “Look, he was thinking of me”

c.People understand that gifts come as a part of
friendship

d.A gift is not about the value of the gift but
about knowing that you are loved

iv.Hebrews 10:25: “Let us not neglect our meeting together, but encourage
one another.”

v.Luke 24:36-46:
Jesus spent time with the disciples

b.Focusing your energy on the other person and
being PRESENT

c.Experience life together

d.Quality Time No’s

i.Watching TV

ii.Reading

iii.Playing on the computer/video games

e.Examples…

i.One on one dinner

ii.Go on a walk

iii.Go shopping

5.Physical
Touch

a.Bible says…

i.Matthew 8:14-15: Jesus touched
His mother-in-law when she was sick and she was healed.

ii.Matthew 8:3:
Jesus touched the leper

iii.Mark 10:16: Jesus took the
children into His arms and put His hands on them

iv.Romans 16:16: “Greet one another with a holy kiss.”

b.Studies say a person needs 7 hugs a day to stay
healthy

c.Most powerful way of communicating love

d.Examples

i.Hugs

ii.Kisses

iii.Hold hand

iv.Touch shoulder

So
now what? Easy….Learn your friends,
family and loved one’s love language and then act on them. Don’t waste time doing what you think they
like or what you think will fill their love tank up. Learn it and then do it!