I once read that it has to do with songs you are familiar with. I like studying in complete silence talking to myself but often this is not feasible and I'll just blast my favourite song on repeat over and over.

Imagine /u/spez changing Trump's post to saying "Fuck you Putin." Or could you imagine the backlash if Mark Zuckerberg on facebook changed a highly shared post of some far-right wing guy ... the outrage ...

I'm 5'10 and around the same weight as you. Nobody has ever commented sarcastically on my body except my girlfriend who says I should go back to the gym more (I really should).

So basically ... youre surrounded by assholes and idiots. You can tell them you don't like the comments and if some girl jokes about you just tell her she's too fat and should lose weight because she looks like a disgusting pig.

Personally I just think that they aren't aware of the fact that the comments make you feel bad, and you should tell them.

As someone who isnt a fucking dweeb/otaku (just kidding, I love anime but havent watched GITS yet, stupid backlog) the film looks visually pleasing. Should I consider watching the movie and THEN watching the anime or will I have spoiled myself too much by then?

Give your shit to people who need it more.
People with less than you. Charities who need the
money. Schools. Libraries. People who need materials for
experiments or making things. Do this on a regular basis –
every few months or so. Embrace the process. Constantly
review what you have around you. Does it really need to be
there? Over time, it becomes more satisfying to get rid of
things than it is to buy something new.

Sell your shit to people who need it more.
As above, with a touch less altruism.

Share your shit.
You might own some things (tools, vehicles or clothes
for instance) that can be used by more than one person.
The classic example is the power drill, which they say is
only used for 10 minutes or so, on average, throughout
its lifetime. Lend these things to friends, colleagues and
neighbours to maximise their usefulness. Trust people to
look after things, and they’ll trust you to look after theirs
in return.

Digitise your shit.
Collections of books, CDs or records, stacks of paperwork
and magazines – there are lots of things that can now be
stored immaterially. Scan and record them at the highest
possible quality, then get rid.

Fix your shit.
If you feel forced to throw away something you actually
need, see if it can be saved. It’s a sad fact that most of the
things we buy today are not built to last. It’s made more
economical to buy a replacement than to fix what you
already have. This is a deeply destructive cycle. If it’s worth
keeping, make it your mission to repair and hold onto it for
as long as possible.

Destroy your shit, trying not to fuck up other bits of the
universe in the process.
This is the hardest one. In trying this, you will become
acutely aware of how poorly prepared your shit is for
the afterlife. Most things you throw away are seemingly
doomed to sit in landfill for thousands of years, gathering
the Earth’s dust. Of course, recycle where you can. You
might be surprised at how many things you can recycle –
batteries, printer ink cartridges, glass, certain plastics, loads
of stuff. But the rest of the shit, the hunks of useless stuff
that you inevitably end up with – you’re better off with them
out of your life.

And lastly, if you get anything from reading this, please
put into practice the following in every day of your life from
this point onwards until you die:

William Morris famously said “have nothing in your
house that you do not know to be useful or believe to be
beautiful”.
Well, the shit is pretty much everything else.

SHIT, MEET FAN

I’m going to make an assumption that, because you’re
reading this, you live in the Western world. As such, it’s
more than likely that you own a lot of shit. I think that much
of this shit is bad for you, me, and everyone else on
the planet.
This is a short book. Most self-help books like this would
gently attempt to enlighten you towards a less materialistic
existence; promising not to judge you and show you a
cleaner, less cluttered way of life. Well, fuck that. I’m going
to judge you. Your life is full of shit that you don’t need or
use. Let’s go.

A LIST OF THINGS YOU
PROBABLY DON’T NEED

Free pens, mouse mats and mugs; your hidden stash of
takeaway menus; those glittery wine gift bags that you
keep in case you ever give someone else some wine; your
bag full of plastic bags; the office toy that forever sits idly
on your desk; a pile of long since subscribed-to magazines
that now more closely resemble the trunk of a tree; the
remote control car someone bought you for Christmas to
show that you still have a childish side; your plethora of
novelty electronics; unwanted Christmas presents that have
hung around too long; your CD collection (the CD is the no
man’s land of musical storage); boxes full of photographs
that you, be honest, will never look at again; rolled up
posters hidden from view; the musical instrument lying
against the wall that you never play; crap paperbacks; any
books you don’t intend to read again; worn-out trainers;
all the clothes you hardly ever wear; discarded broadband
routers; obsolete gizmos you keep lying around in case
they’re ever worth something; chargers and cables for
obsolete gizmos you keep lying around in case they’re ever
worth something; the car sitting in a garage all day; DIY
materials, bought for an unfinished project several years
ago; pretty much anything being stored in a cardboard box
or bin liner...
And so on.

WHY YOU?

On a personal level, having lots of shit is a problem when
you have to spend a lot of time worrying about it all. This is
not a desirable condition. For a second, imagine adding up
a lifetime’s worth of the hours spent cleaning your things,
finding the best insurance for them, worrying that they
might be damaged or stolen – that’s a lot of your energy
going into things that don’t really matter. If something
causes you more stress than it’s worth, get rid of it.
When you have less things you create more space – and
space is an increasingly valuable thing in this increasingly
cluttered world. It is possible to enjoy the absence of
things. Extra room to move, breathe, swing cats and all the
rest of it. Space is a thing, you just need to see it.
You’ll have noticed that I contrived a couple of paragraphs
there about freeing up more time and space. Well, when it
comes down to it, time and space is all you’ve got.

So what the hell do you do with it? Well, when you are
less encumbered by your possessions, you can spend
more of your life experiencing things: going to new places,
educating yourself, exercising, meeting people, eating good
food, drinking good drink, finding love. You will feel lighter
and freer; it becomes easier to travel and move around
without so many possessions in tow.
Without all this stuff to distract you, you are forced to
search a little deeper to find out what the fuck it is you
want to do with your life. Sometimes that leaves you staring
into an abyss.
Your shit isn’t going to fill the abyss, it will merely
obscure it.

KEEPING UP WITH
THE JONESES

It is the nefarious tag-team of greed and envy that spurs
on the material cock-measuring competition of life. We
spend our lives comparing ourselves to others, coveting
our neighbour’s ox – and getting into loads of debt in
order to buy a bigger, shinier ox than them. All in search of
some impossible life where you have the biggest, shiniest
collection of oxen, wives, manservants and donkeys and
everything is perfect.
Much of the fuel for this comes from the world of
marketing and advertising. Advertising impregnates objects
with our dreams and gives them the appearance of life.
These objects are not alive. They are things. Just things.
Just inert lumps of matter with no blood or organs or
thoughts or feelings.
Advertising preys on our fears. It is plastered on every
available surface and it shouts and shouts and makes
it hard to think clearly. It exploits our deepest anxieties
to convince us that we need to buy something in order
to make ourselves happy, that this product or that is the
magic solution to our problems.
There’s no such thing as magic.

MOTHER NATURE,
MEET YOUR MAKER

The archaeologists of the future will find themselves
excavating heaps of our discarded junk, picking through
mountains of DVDs and yoghurt pots and wondering: “who
the fuck were these idiots?”
The amount of stuff we consume as a species is insane. It’s
overwhelming to think about the amount of energy going
into the production of needless crap on a daily basis. The
environmental case is worthy of a whole other book, but I’ll
put it simply: the earth’s finite resources are, well, finite –
and if we continue to consume at our current rate, it won’t
be long before they’re gone.
Given this, it’s easy to feel little or no hope for the future of
mankind. That’s normal. It’s probably the correct response.
But begin to think about the ways you can improve your
own personal impact on the earth, and it becomes easier to
imagine that others might too.
Think about the amount of stuff that goes into the
manufacture and usage of one of your possessions over its
lifetime. Compare it to some alternatives. A bicycle, made
of 10-20 kilos of various light metals, rubbers and so on, is
a far more materially efficient way of transporting a single
human being than 1½ tonnes of steel, aluminium, glass,
leather, and thousands of gallons of fuel.
Now, I’m the first to admit that your individual ecological
efforts are going to do little to hold back the oncoming
shitstorm of global warming. You can recycle Coke bottles
or forgo plastic bags your whole life without putting
anything other than the tiniest dent in its surface. But when
those floods are a-coming, at least you’ll have less stuff
dragging you down into the murky brown water.

LIVING IN A
MATERIAL WORLD

Don’t get me wrong. I’m not proposing you sell every one
of your possessions and leave, forever to wander the
wilderness in nothing but a loin cloth. A lot of things are
really very good. To find real value in material things, it’s
helpful to discover a deep appreciation of the things you
use every day.

Everyday things are the things that you use the most,
so they’re the things truly worth investing in. Have hardwearing
shoes, comfortable chairs, knives and forks that
won’t bend or rust. Have a computer that won’t crash or
lose your work. Invest in your hobbies. Whatever it is you
spend most of your time doing, have things that assist in
making this better, all of the time.

Everyday things are easy to judge the quality of, in terms of
how regularly you use them, how long they last, and how
much they aid your enjoyment of life. The things that tick all
of these boxes are good things. Keep them and look
after them.

Not all of our possessions can be judged by their
utility: works of art, decorative objects, keepsakes and
souvenirs… It’s harder to objectively sift through these
things because they have a far more fluffy, subjective
means of judgement. We associate memories with them
and attach sentimentality to them. We use them to spruce
up our surroundings and communicate our individuality
to others.

A box of photos that you dig out every couple of years – is
it really worth having, at least in physical form? Or is it just
an emotional crutch that you no longer need?
Don’t feel bad about throwing out something ugly, broken
or useless even if it has a certain amount of sentimental
value attached to it. The grief won’t last. Granny will forgive
you. Of all the times you’ve ever thrown something away,
how many times have you really come to regret it?

NOW YOU KNOW
YOU HAVE TOO MUCH SHIT,
HERE’S HOW TO GET RID OF IT

Hopefully I’ve given you the means to separate the wheat
from the shit, and the impetus to go and send your more
trivial possessions to a better place. There are a number of
ways to part with something you don’t need. Here they are.

This is one of the more accessible ones ... I'm in a position to apply to these kind of firms (PhD applied math) and some of those fucking firms dont even have emails or any other contact info! It's like "hurr durr we're too important for you we will find you if we like you".

Honestly I think your best bet is to go to Google and start with kids lessons (i.e. for kids <5 years). Once you master that go up another age level. Master that again. While doing this search for a mentor who wants to teach you, I feel that a good mentor might help a lot. If you dont have money maybe you can offer to teach him English if he teaches you Japanese. Win-win right? Don't try to run before you can walk!