My ex gf has been acting strange lately and has suddenly told me she wants nothing to do with me and for me to leave her alone. No explanation given but i will respect her wishes. Maybe she just needs time. I am still toiling with my feelings for my friend. We talk a lot more now and the flirting has become more intense. I tell her everything and i dont know what i would do without her as a fiend, my best friend. She has been getting jealous now when i talk about other girls which has got me confused a bit. We arent like that but sometimes she makes me wonder. I love her.... deeply.
There is no doubt about that. I think we need to keep it as friends.

My ex gf has been acting strange lately and has suddenly told me she wants nothing to do with me and for me to leave her alone. No explanation given but i will respect her wishes. Maybe she just needs time. I am still toiling with my feelings for my friend. We talk a lot more now and the flirting has become more intense. I tell her everything and i dont know what i would do without her as a fiend, my best friend. She has been getting jealous now when i talk about other girls which has got me confused a bit. We arent like that but sometimes she makes me wonder. I love her.... deeply. There is no doubt about that. I think we need to keep it as friends.

I think your first problem is Not tell your friend everything. Sometimes it better to not share your deepest secrets not even with your bestfriend, because people can take it one way and you could mean it a whole different way. The second problem I see here is you need to make up your mind who or what you want to do and who you Really want to be with. If you "wifey" decideds she wants to be with you now, what happens to this person you have been flirting with? You must know she is gonna want to be more than Just friends, then where will you go? Think about it, and Stop trying to have your Cake and eat it too!

I think your first problem is Not tell your friend everything. Sometimes it better to not share your deepest secrets not even with your bestfriend, because people can take it one way and you could mean it a whole different way. The second problem I see here is you need to make up your mind who or what you want to do and who you Really want to be with. If you "wifey" decideds she wants to be with you now, what happens to this person you have been flirting with? You must know she is gonna want to be more than Just friends, then where will you go? Think about it, and Stop trying to have your Cake and eat it too!