Girls and Lies

The below article is in no mean directed to anyone or for general public interest. This message is intended for one person. But the article is written in a way of public interest so that others which is the same type takes note. Which is clear cut. No girls were harmed during the producing and publishing of this article.

Lies and girls. Sounds more like a rhyme ,right? But today’s topic is not going to be about rhyme. We shall see the interconnection between the both. We should analyze what had not been done before. Although the similarities is not so much visible now,but by the end of the article, I believe you should be able to grasp what I wanted to convey.

Lying if not considered as a sin, is considered being not truthful and often liars has a very bad name in society. But then, everyone lies. Oh please, do not tell me that you’ve never lied before in history because that will be like telling the most illogical thing on earth. For an example, like telling I’m pregnant. That’s not possible,isn’t it? So,it sits together under the same umbrella with lying.

Talking generally about lies would take me ages .So ,specifically pin pointing my needles, I decided to poke relationship lies . Relationship which is carried on with a lot of lies had always been there. In fact, I believe every each one of us would have lied to our partners. Be it minor or major, I believe it carries the same impact.

Indian girls usually lies to their partner about one common thing. Let us see:

About whom she spoke to

You’re the boyfriend and as usual you will be calling her. Usually you will be calling her around midnight right? So, lets put this at 2 am. And when you call her,the call will be waiting.

GF : Ya sayang
BF : Today also your call waiting so long. Who you talking to la?
GF : Talking to my course mate Lalitha da. She was having problems.
BF : Why do you have to interfere her problems?
GF : She is my best friend da. Anything also she will tell me.
BF : Oh, Then bla,bla,bla.

The next day :

BF : You’re pissing me off da. Everyday your call is waiting. And why is that?
GF : I already told you the reason da. Why you shouting now?
BF : Who you talking to today?
GF : It’s Selvi. She was asking about her assignment.

You girls will try to hide as much as possible if you’re talking to another guy. So,that your boyfriend would not doubt you. Which we hate so much.

Let us review it. Girls, we do not have lie detectors prebuild in our hormone system but this kind of lies is too lame. It’s too easy to detect. Why on earth you have to talk to another girl on the phone for so long and you’re claiming you’re talking about tips? What tips is that? Fingering? All right first round is acceptable. Another time when it happens wouldn’t you have some doubts? Why the fuck anyone would have to call you early in the morning to tell you her problems. Let’s put it yes to that too. Maybe it’s true. I know if I give this type of open statements without prove , the benefit of the doubt will fall to girls.

We do not care with who you’re talking to as long as you explain the truth to us. But as a matter of fact, we do not like you girls to be talking to anyone in the middle of the night. Be it about assignment, your friend’s boyfriend is not screwing her enough or she is asking tips for masturbating. No matter what reason you might give us, still a small doubt will always stay in our head on who you talking to. Deep inside,we’ll start to worry about the relationship.

The above story is not created .It was what truly happened to one of my working mate. This girl had been cheating with this guy for a long time and it took him some 6 months to find out this. She had coupled up with my collate and at the same time had spare time to let another guy finger her. True, relationship is build by trust. But the trust had been misused for so many of the wrong reasons until even the one speaking the truth is doubted. I would not give an exception to me on this. But, hey, we’re talking about girls and lies.

You might label me as being in a state of over possession and taking control of the girls life. You see, we wouldn’t bother to take care of your life if we’ve not fallen in love with you. We do not give a fuck unless it is written in our fate that we have to fuck you our whole life. Marriage I meant.

When guys cheat on girls, thousands of sad stories and hours of crying is done telling your story to create sympathy. But when guys are cheated,where do we head to? Drinking and smoking .And when we start that, there goes some bitches telling around that we’re a pest to the society. From best to pest.

If indeed you have to cheat someone, I believe doing that is equal to selling yourself. And I consider them worst than prostitutes because hey, prostitutes charge for their service , don’t they? You see girls, when guys does the same thing, they’re not looked the same way. People do not charge guys with the same thing like girls. When girls does that, we can call them all kind of names for example slut,bitches,prostitutes and so on. But when guys does that? What can you call them?

The impact when guys cheat and girls cheat in a relationship is entirely different. Guys might get out without having a bad name, but the girl will be carrying the bad name for the rest of her life. I believe by now you would have got an idea on what I was trying to talk about. Girls,cheating on your loved ones is no good. Your future is the one which will get spoiled. I apologize if any part of this article had hurt any of you. But then, do I give a fuck?

Sigh. What an arrogant bastard I can be.

P.S: Please my dear close friends,the topic is about girls and lies. Not Durai and lies. Do not post something about me to ruin my relationship.Nan nala iruntha than onggeleke pidikathe mukavasi nerem. Pathe seyenggepa.

Allah Malik.

May 10th, 2008 |

103 comments to Girls and Lies

Well Durai, I agree with what u said. As for me, i am siding nobody.
Gurls and guys are the same. U are talking abt girls, perhaps i have to
register myself as a blogger to **** up u guys in my blog. But, whats the use?
Are they gonna change by reading all this? Its just a waste of time.

bro,first of all let me give u a big applause…
if we calculate in statistic its a 8 out of 10 gals doing like that nowdays..
no offense please,k..its true..
So far,i has been witness a lot of case like what u have written..
but Brotha,u think this bitchas will change their mind after read this article??
hmm,let me guess..99.99% is no..juz for 2 or 3 days,thy wil act like good gal but after tat thy wil go back to normal..after all, bitchas is bitchas..u know…
they won’t give damn about this matter cos for them there is a lot guys out there to make fool..

Neway,i like the “from best to pest”..kinda a new thingy..
okie,bro..C U SooN..

Durai, just can’t understand ur intention.
First you kutuk like hell, then u defend pulak…
Hellboy, mind ur words pls…
If gurls are bitch, then what’s the calling for guys?
Just because it happen for you to be a guy, u call
this gurl bitchas? Well, if gurls are bitchas,
its u guys who make them like that.
Have some respectlah, bro… We hv sister’s and mother
who are womens too, rite?

Guest, I’m not in anyway against you. And i’ve always been very supportive for constructive criticism.

Everyone is verting their frustration through words here. What you might have experienced might not be the same on how other’s had experienced.

Perhaps that explains why sometimes harsh words is used against something or someone. And perhaps that explains Hellboy statement. While I wouldn’t agree wholeheartly with Hellboy’s statement, I couldn’t disagree either.

Why I kutuk like hell and then defend them is two different things. There is 2 different perception if you look closely . My post had always been targeted to certain type of audience. The writings are for the general public view.

This is just a mere explanation and not in anyway defending who is right and who is wrong here.

Well..Thanks for d reply,Bro Durai…
I think there is some misunderstanding over here…
I didn’t say every gals out there is bad or lying..as you said there is ‘rotten’ one..i’m talking about them..
some of i experienced in my own life and my eyes..

Congratz,Malar…I’m really happy for you and respect you..

Dear guest,
first of all,did i mention all gals out there are “bitchas”? or did i mention all gals born as “bitchas”?? No,rite..they became like tat cos maybe thy was raised like that or their hormone problem..I didn’t understand in what way you’re telling that we the guy make them like that?
We call them bitchas once we know their character not like we simply want to call them like that…I believe that gals also will call guys something bad when their realize his character..Am i rite?

About the respect thingy,i do respect all the good girl..
even if you are one of them,I’ll knee down for you..

Drama minggu ini….funny how indians have all the time on earth to argue things like this…who’s gonna attack me now?
Dah la..let the bitches be bitches and let the bastards be bastards..who cares who made them that way?Not gonna change anything rite?
Read,Laugh,close topic.
We argue when the world has less wars and more peace!
Too many fights we fighting now….

Well Durai….its true wat u have posted but again…do you’ll think that guys r perfect??? there r guls like this but not all..the same way there are guys like this but not all…i have been in this same situation before wif my ex’BF! n his reason for call waiting would be…..brother using my hp to talk to his gf..so over roll..no one is perfect man..guys girls all are the same…..its a good article that u have written but next time think wisely 1st…and yeah i agree wif LB’s last reply…
guess that’s all
peace to all

actually some girls lie for a reason….there are many boyfriends who are so damn suspective..as they cant accept seeing their girlfriends talking to a guy…so then is when a girl starts hiding stuffs from the guy…..but i guess in a relationship we should be open and be able to talk to each other and have no secrets…and in that way i guess there wont be any reasons to lie to your partner.

Durai, at 1st place it was crystal clear showing the girl is a lier / playgirl. No girl will talk at that hours. See as a guy who sincerely love her you shouldnt need to wait 6 month to find the truth. All you have to do is ask her straight. Ask her to show her hp to you.

See some people may think this mean you didnt trust the girl/guy. It was nt about trust. For example, if you husband normally back home at 9pm. The maximum will be 12am but he back only 2am. Dont tell me as a wife u wont ask him any question. By asking him, is it mean you are suspcious on him. No rite? is abt care.

Same goes to loving couple. They should know wat each other doing. So if the girls is always talking in that hours then as a bf you should ask her in nice way but then if she pretend like u r suspcious on her and shouting and even asking for break. Then my advice, please break that relationship. Is better than late! As sometimes people like to raise voice when they know they did wrong things.

However 8 of 10 is too much! i dont know how did you got this num. Not all girls are doing this. I belief among indians still true love prevail and live within them.

Just 1 advice to all girls out there, please change yr costume. By showing yr belly or yr shoulder or other parts, you are making yr sincere bf to think another way. He will always just wish to play and left you as he will label you as ‘modern’ girl who seems like no problem with breakoff. PLease i m nt that old to advice, as i m just 21 bt then pls, pls change yr clothes. 1st impression is always the best.

well said:) but i’ve got a question? at timez(NOT OFTEN) girls cant help but get calls at wee hours of the morning due to sumthing urgent or important(im pretty sure u have made those calls too?)..n den the girls actually tell their bf’s the truth…would they still be doubted??

bro,what you nave said is the truth,the same thing happened to my best friend and the guy resigned his job and left KL as he does not want to see the gal anymore,it may sound silly,but dia punya hati yang mati so tak guna sakit hati so dia pun blah la.

wat the hell..wat u hv to talk with a gal in d middle of nite..so long…while ur gf is waiting for your call..?? u hv such a wonderful gf yet u stil tongaran for another bitch ? here…a gal became another gal’s enemy also…..y making a guddy gal to a witch ??

girls have very close bond wif their girlfrens..if a girl has a prob she turns to her girlfrens..so girls do have lots to tlk to each other…jz bcoz ur call is on waiting all the time that seriously doesnt mean that she is cheating on u wif another guy..mayb u think she is cheating is coz u have done it b4 n u think she mite jz wanna do the same thg to u..its jz simple psychology…or mayb guys do not tlk on the phone as much as girls do..so guys naturally wld think that she is tlking to another guy if she spends jz a lil longer on the phone..come on la..i think b4 u make a general statement a lil research is required or at least a lil knowledge about girl psychology..or mayb u dont noe all this thgs bcoz u r gay or hv a major inferiority complex that u have to immediately judge a person n say that they r lying..there is a tamil saying..kangal pattatume poi,kaathal kettutume poi annal tire visarikete mai…

well..i do hang on the phone alot..v do turn to our boyfrens when v have probs but do u expect us to talk to u bout matters like shoes,clothes n make up??
dont tell me that u never have conversations wif ur guy frens dat u r very sure u cant have it wif ur girlfren..so thats jz it..a relationship is a relationship but everyone needs to have a personal life too..so our way of talking to our girlfrens are our personal life..jz because im dating a guy that really doesnt mean that i should ditch my girlfrens..anyways..my post was jz to clarify certain matters to make it clear..definitely not to piss anyone off..the blogger who put up the post certainly din piss me off..n being gay is not at all wrong..y do u make it sound like its an insult??
as guys,im sure u have ur beer nites wifout ur girlfrens n all..so i think its jz appropriate to allow girls to have the same kinda freedom too..
girls are natural talkers n v r naturally vain..so that will surely explain our long conversations to our girl friends bout minute details of our outfit or our trouble making certain decisions or anythg at all..
so its not at all lies..its jz some part of us u have trouble understanding..

Again I wish to make two points clear my dear dark chocolate , I wish no further blogging debate with you because it’s not getting anywhere.

1. It is certainly not an insult to be a gay, but it is if you call a guy who is straight a gay.

2. This is a targeted article.This is a targeted article. This is a targeted article.

I did not generalize .You missed the whole point in the article, the thing is not about why certain type of girls are hanging on the phone for so long, but it is all about Cheating in a relationship.The hanging-on-the-phone-situation is just a scenario.

Just In case you have not got it correct the first time I mentioned it.

if it is really going no where..y do u even bother writing bout it again? i guess in a indirect way i bother u n u have to continue ur ways of saying things even when it doesnt matter..what ever makes u happy mr durai..
jz like how u were blogging about everything and not exactly taking a stand because at the beginning u say girls r bad for cheating then u pity them for what the community will think of them later on..so i was just picking on your talking on the phone example..thats all..it was a chain kinda comments..not anything more than that…thought you might have realized that..i was commenting about your comments and you were about mine..guess we lost the main point of the article a long time ago..anyways..maybe im all wrong because i am a total newbie at this blogging stuff and all..so thanks alot for the lesson..i think maybe i should comment on the main article only and not comment on the comments..

u sound as mysterious as ur nick is BTW, m sorry for articulatin ur topics but i feel, u have no clue on wat u were talkin bout. The blogger was mentionin that “CERTAIN GALS” were cheatin in their rship, n he gave an innate scenario on how it usualy goes on.Thats al.He didnt mention that al da gals that has bf’s cheats al da time, jus a particular group of mock-ass bitches that tends to get their “kerang” itchy Sorry for da wordings Dark choc, but thats how we call gals like that

Gals, ofcos,is genetically known to be wide-mouthed , thus they tend to talk n talk even for hours without gettin tired at all. They can jus talk anything under the sun, above Mars n between Pluto n Jupiter, trust me.Hehehe. But wat the bloggie tried to say was that, y was there calls waiting at wee hours , at the time your ( or in this case , Kamachi’s bf ) wud be usually calling and talkin wit u ? Sumthing wrong sumwhere aint it ? Takkan ur galfrens call at that 2 am in da midnite n talk bout sales in Midvalley or about Hulk gettin undressed in that Hulk movie ? Come in , bring into your senses. It doesnt even ring a bell that your galfrens tlks to u more than few mins about al tat la wei. Now, doesnt that sound so stupid of giving a reason to doubt to your bf ?

Hopefuly this clears off ur misconstrued assumptions that the bloggie MR Durai was trying to say that all the gals are like that. No, get it clear, its jus “SOME” gals. Not all.Thanks and im leavn off now to another topic

Hi,
I know this is intended for a particular audience. But i feel that Durai u are a typical indian male chauvinist. It is because u think that we as women are support to take your bull shit and stay with u that is why u come up with an article like this. The friend u talked about was he indian. And did u get the girl part of the story? was she happy in the relationship? Please do not target a particular group and tie them up with lies. it is not like we are the only one doing it.

O so u want to let us know that if we cheat on guys that we will be called bitches and so on. but who are giving this names, i don’t think a rational person will say so after listening to both side of the story. i’m not denying that there are girl who cheat on their boyfriends but the underlining problem is not that they are bitches but that they are not happy in the relationship and don’t dare to speak out. Guys cheat for the same reason so why post GIRLS AND LIES. it only rimes because of the “S” at the end.

So maybe all the girls out there should call u guys who cheat as “mother fuckers” or bitches, but come to think about it, it won’t hurt u because u don’t care. So that is why most of the post i have read by u target girls because we react to them why don’t u write about how guys are, to afraid that no one is listening. i can give u an article i got that says how abused women live with ass hole man for 30 years but u Never happen to come upon such article do u. Stop criticizing people and look at yourself. See why are u so bitter against girls.

And to budak kampung tak tau English,
is it that u want girls to be better liars we cant because u guys have 100 years of practice before us. so if u know she is cheating just leave and get lost la. why sit around and mop.

GF : Ya sayang
BF : Today also your call waiting so long. Who you talking to la?
GF : Talking to my course mate Lalitha da. She was having problems.
BF : Why do you have to interfere her problems?
GF : She is my best friend da. Anything also she will tell me.
BF : Oh, Then bla,bla,bla.

The next day :

BF : You’re pissing me off da. Everyday your call is waiting. And why is that?
GF : I already told you the reason da. Why you shouting now?
BF : Who you talking to today?
GF : It’s Selvi. She was asking about
assignment…

well, i not only have a word for the writer of this article, but to all of you that agreed with him. First of all, you must be a sad sad guy which, i am sure is lonely, and whom jacks off watching indian actresses. secondly, there is so much sexual tension and confusion within yourself. I’m a guy, and usually, in an indian society, you do not consumate till after marriage. but who aare we kidding here right? if ur dick isn’t pleasing ur women, then i’d say tht she needs another man. so, lay off the women, and look at urself. i think u need very serious help. ur a depressed, molested by an uncle, beaten kid. Stop using the net to find women and be a man u asswipe.

p/s: stop trying to be cute and i see that u try hard to diss everyone to show tht ur strong… but u proved ur weakness by writing such an article. grow up asshole

this is my real name, and this is my real e-mail address, if u need to confront me… here is my IC number asshole: (edited – because only a fool publishes his IC no in www, I do not want it to be misused -admin)
i’d love to meet the guy whose gonna contribute to violence against women and be an alcoholic by the age of 32 and disown his kids to support his drug habit

Girls and Lies…Somehow, I think this topic is kind of one sided. I mean, seriously , the topic itself is Girls and Lies. Why associate girls and lies ? Obviously, I am not intending to offend the author of this post or whatsoever. But seriously, I dont think many girls are like this. Or atleast, thats what I think. Boys cheat too. So, its an equivalent phenomena. No point arguing over gender and lies. Because, when it all comes down to a certain point, both boys and girls do it all the same. So people, save your breath and fight over something more reasonable.

We can clearly see gender inequality in your write up. Even a girl can write the same thing that you have written above in an opposite way around. If you are going to write something let it be based on evidence and not merely on experiences. Both males and females cheat for various reasons. Therefore, it vital to know the causes for one to cheat or lie. You have to research on the evidence if whether they were really cheating or lieing and also on what are the root cause for them to act out the behaviour “cheating”…You cannot simply throw the blame on anyone, Neither male or female.

Blogging on human personality is interesting however, it is really sad to see an indian to spit on your own kind. Yes the world is full of bad people…, yes people cheat, people lie… but why not try to write on how we can change our community than rather criticizing. And yes please also try not to be a sexist.

You may oppose with my views… However, this is the fact.
You have a vast interest in human and their personality. In my view, you can write your articles based on your experiences however it is not sufficient. If you are going write an article like above you need to at least have some knowledge or research on the topic of your interest..

@Concerned Indian : I’m tired of explaining again and again and again. Stick to the context of the article. There is no such thing as being sexist just because I’ve wrote particularly about the lies girls have done in this article. Of course a girl can write up exactly the same thing, and can I know who’s stopping them?

Can you like put up a title that says “gays and lesbians” and then write up about temples and rituals? You can’t because that’s out of topic(title). Look Sir, it’s easy to ask order me on what to write and what not to.

Why don’t you do the following that you’ve said?

“why not try to write on how we can change our community than rather criticizing. “?

hmmm.. i’m just pointing out a view here ya… I’m not “ordering” you ya, it’s just an idea ..by the way there is no need to be angered over stuff like these….I’m just being polite and saying that we are all the same and rather criticizing each other, it better to find a solution that’s all bro..Chill ya…
P/S -yes i have written blogs on how we can change our community than rather criticizing…

Hi Durai
Please tell me bout it!! I had a friend who does this n i will become her victim most of the time. She will ask me to cover for her whenever her bf ask me. I have to lie to him saying that she been talking to me. I felt bad..Not once but all the time so I gave up!!! and I told her im not gona help her anymore. There is no point you lying to your guy and moreover she was caught red-handed by the boyfriend. I regret for being her friend.

Girls my advice if you enjoy cheating go ahead just dont’ regret if you get caught .. it’s like xtreeme sport. Fun and Dangerous. And guys common cheating is cheating no matter the gender. So it’s not ok for girls but if guys do it wah cool la,

now, for the rest. what Durai explained was true.. BUT there is a saying, IT TAKES TWO HANDS TO CLAP.. the left hand here is the guys and the right hands are the gals..
not only the girls are responsible for this matter.. if the Dude can give enough love and affection to his Babe, instead of masturbating in the toilet more, that girl wont be chating on him..
and girls, pls learn to trust your man if he is loving and understanding..
true, guys are playboys.. but TWO WRONGS DOESNT MAKE ONE RIGHT, wic i mean by taking revenge on the boys.. and guys, stop your Manmadhan neneps.. i had a few frens (girls)
who gave their body to the guys cos of the promises their “sincere boyfriend” made to them.. in the end, one of them became a local pornstar.. yes.. its true..

Guys: love your girl la bro.. dont ignore her for some other girl.. thats wen the prob starts.. we are not kings to have keeps, side chicks, gundiks and all.. we are common people.. if u hurt ur girls feelings, her frens will have the misconception that ALL guys are screwed up mudda fuckers.. and they will have the playgirl neneps n play a guy.. then the guy’s frens will have the playboy neneps n will play girls.. u see.. the cycle continues.. in the end.. Tamizh culture becomes a massive sex-crazy culture.. and those playboys there.. pls la bro.. we have mothers n sisters.. they are women also.. women are not sex toys la..

Girls: tamil culture is not so open to let you PALAGARAAN with guys freely.. but we allow you to cos the trust we have in you.. dont kill that trust.. if you are looking for a companion, try frenship first.. then consider love.. JUst cos a guy looks handsome or hes richor a big mandai nenepu pundek.. it doesnt mean he weill be with you till he dies.. and wen u meet a dude in friendster or Facebook saying his name is Madhan or has a Simbhu picture.. PLS dont layan that porenboku pundek.. he wants to put his anaconda in your mouth and make a porn movie.. thats ALL he wants from you!

y is this only ment for gurls… why is not for guys.. are they perfect..? they dot he same as when gurls ask why call is waiting.. even worse they even can have separate line without their own gf knowledge in order to flirt with another gurl….

bro…what you wrote was really happening around us. It’s not a matter of pin pointing”you and me”. Don’t know whether it’s already in girls blood to behave like this(sorry to say this girls) or not but mostly girls are corrupted nowdays.They should realize what they doing actually.A lot n a lot of stories had exposed to public eyes regarding this matter yet people are still same..no diff at all.Actually this same situation had happen to me n I faced the matter you said above.That girl dumped me till I went to suicide myself.Stupid right,dying for girls.All was past.But now I’m a medical student and gonna complete my studies, will be a doctor soon.This what I achieve to dumped her back,I took revenge. And she still an ordinary girl with bad name. this what she had been rewarded. So guys,plz don’t put yourself into dark just because of girls…improve yourself,make them feel shamed to faced you. As a guy we should be proud. And to girls.plz stop doing this, dont miss-used your dignity. You girls are special creature, try to keep your self up. REALIZE BEFORE LATE.

i liked msot of ur postings except things bot are equal to be blamed ….not only one parties ….guyzz also doing like this..so next time i hope sir uw ill talked guyzz lies also…tq if i did said soemthing wrng sorry:(

bro, tis article remind s me of sumone i noe.. js tat its from an opposite gender.. but i hv to agree that there gals who cheat but if we look at a bigger pictures, v can c that both have their own fault in this.. all i can advice guy and gals…. love ur partner… trust ur partner but not 100 % coz v wont know when they will changed… one day, they can be very loving and loyal… the next day, they are gone from ur life, literally….

your post clearly seems like tables has turned these days with women doing what men use to do in those days. Hope you don’t mind me pointing something out to you, to quote what you have said in your post “We do not give a fuck unless it is written in our fate that we have to fuck you our whole life. Marriage I meant.” My dear Durai, marriage is not based solely in coitus. The term ‘Marriage’ itself carries a whole load of responsibility. To say ‘Marriage’ and link it to having an intercourse with a women for the rest of her life shows ignorance of the meaning of the term ‘Marriage’ itself. Seems like you were saying marriage is solely based on coitus. I’m sure you might have written this post a long time ago and clearly I hope you have grown even more mature then you were. Wish you well my friend.

And for all your readers whom are hating on love and on low life women or men whom have cheated before, the tips here is: Don’t blindly fall for something you see on the outside, investigate about the person you love first (family background, upbringing, culture, religious knowledge) and pick based upon that. A person with a proper basic qualities (proper religious understanding, good upbringing, modest) would usually not turn into those mentioned above. A blind love is a love based on trouble from the very beginning. Beware!

hi Durai, i’ve read this article years back but today i really would like to comment on this.

I had this friend of mine whom i know for 6 years love this girl.Let me classify them to simplify my story.

This MR.A oreee kadhal for this MS.A, he proposed and the girl accepted “kathal malarnthatum butti kettu pochi” they deeply madly stupidly in love but after few years MR.A came to know that the girl is cheating on him by going out with multiple guys.

Since MR.A is one of your loyal reader he made up his mind and break up with her like a man. Fair enough the girl got what she deserve.

However, even before MR.A get to know MS.A there was a girl who really like MR.A which is MS.B but sadly MR.A more into MS.A.

After MR.A & MS.A break up MS.B thought her love will be appreciated and it was. But in turns out to be a regret for MS.B just because his ex cheated on him this MR.A suspected his current girl who he is attached to.

Let me list down few of his rules & regulation which were imposed on the girl:-

1) Should not talk to any guy including school friends relative & colleagues.
2) No lunch with colleagues because he belief working colleagues(Male)will f@#k the girl at the food court.
3) Password sharing Facebook, email, Working email, duty roster and etc.
4) Phone messages and calls being observed.
5) Not allowed to go out with cousins( male)

I am not defending woman’s or blaming man’s. Yes, relationship is built on trust but if one girl/guy cheated on you that doesn’t make everyone else cheaters!!

p/s I AM THE MS.B I STILL BELIEVE HE IS A GOOD GUY BUT I CAN’T BE LIVING LIKE THIS OR MENTALLY STRESSED FOR THE MISTAKE DONE BY HIS EX GF. FOR YEARS I TRY TO MAKE HIM UNDERSTAND NOT ALL GIRLS ARE LIKE THAT BUT SADLY I FAILED!! AND JUST BECAUSE I LOVE THE GUY I AM NOT READY TO GO TROUGH THIS MENTAL TORTURE.

Please do not judge and compare people this would be the best practice for relationship.

Hi Durai. Very nice article.. Its just the same happened to me 2 years back where my girl friend,who have been in relation with me for seven years,cheated me for a 40 years old divorcee. She also did the same during the final year of her uni where she started dating her Taekwondo Master. Each time I call her,she says she is out with her friend .Totally wasted girl….Anyway thanks for the article once again….