Sheela Bhatt on waiting for President Obama, and the baby

The buzz about Obama's visit is missing

Sheela Bhatt finds out how the India-US relationship's initial zing has been replaced by a calmer, matured relationship.No one in New Delhi doubts it that when United States President Barack Obama and Indian Prime Minister Manmohan Singh meet one-on-one, the United States-India story -- now in a consolidation stage -- will embark on a new chapter.

An economically growing and stable India is confident about receiving the world leader in India.

Obama is coming. That's as big it gets this time

"Don't ask for big-ticket issues," says a senior official at the US embassy in New Delhi, adding, "President Obama is coming; that is the big-ticket event."The absence of hype so far may -- or may not -- be a calculated decision.

American experts are defensive and hopeful; the Indian side is keeping a low profile. But thinkers from both sides see the absence of hype as maturing of the relationship between two giant democracies.

"It is a reflection of change that is settling in the relationship," says Dr Khare, adding, "It shows the maturing of the relationship and greater understanding of each other. In 2005 and 2006 the relationship was new and the warmth it exuded was new. Now, we have internalised the warmth."

Sebastian Mallaby, director of the Maurice R Greenberg Centre for Geo-economic Studies and the Paul A Volcker Senior Fellow for International Economics at the Council on Foreign Relations, echoes Dr Khare's views.

It's like how two lovers are 5 years into marriage

"In 2005-2006," Mallaby said, "due to the nuclear deal, everybody could see the one big thing."

"It is a bit like two lovers," he quips. "When they get married, it's one big thing. But five years later, they are still together, they are so happy, but no one big thing anymore."

Brajesh Mishra, India's former national security adviser, differs.

"As of today, I don't see the Obama visit being successful," he says.

The withdrawal of American troops from Afghanistan is going to impact India, Mishra continues. Pakistan and China's 'all weather friendship' is now becoming an alliance, and America's military largesse to Pakistan is weakening India.

"Its impact on India is as adverse as the impact of China-Pakistan military deals," says Mishra, a retired Indian Foreign Service diplomat, adding, "When India is facing such serious issues of security, Indo-US relations cannot be smooth."

Obama's speech in Parliament will be key

For the last two years, China has become unusually assertive, Mishra points out.The Indian government has gone on record in saying it. China's interest in Pakistan has increased manifold.

In view of this, says Mishra, "It is imperative to know what Obama's views are."

Security is the key issue, he emphasises repeatedly -- not the economy, not trade-related cooperation.

Mishra is looking forward to Obama's speech to Parliament.

"That's the most important event," adds Mishra.

"I want to know what he has to say on the issue of India's security. Does America want India to play an important role on the global stage or will it allow Pakistan and China's attempts to bog down India in South Asia?"

Image: Obama on board Air Force OnePhotographs: Pete Souza/White House

Has Obama been sending the right signals to Delhi?

During his visit to India, US Assistant Secretary of State for South and Central Asia Robert O Blake said the ongoing important negotiations with Pakistan regarding military aid would not impact India, as the weapons supplied by America would not be allowed to be used against India.

"Nobody would believe this argument," fumes Mishra, adding, "In the 1965 (India-Pakistan) war, Patton tanks were used against India."

Obama, Mishra insists, has not sent signals to make New Delhi feel that he is as favourably inclined toward India as President Bush was.

Mallaby, however, disagrees.

"It is not that the Obama administration is uninterested," says Mallaby. "His visit here will tell you that. When President Obama comes here it will be part of the hope that India will play a bigger role in global governance, especially in G-20. It is US strategy to bring India in."

"Partly because India is a democracy and the US likes to have an alliance with a country having shared values, and partly because it is a balancing act against China."

'India is reluctant to take up responsibility'

The US, Mallaby insists, "wants India to play a big role. But my sense of being here in New Delhi is that the Indian side is somewhat reluctant to take up the responsibility."

New Delhi cannot overlook the ever-increasing evidence about the US looking the other way as David Coleman Headley helped carry out the Mumbai terrorist attacks.

Nor can India overlook negotiations in Washington for $2 billion in aid to Pakistan.

Mallaby agrees Headley's revelations would have an impact in India.

"I think that's unfortunate, and that shows that the relationship needs to be matured," he says, adding, "You can go to European capitals, and you will find the same kind of complaints against America -- that it is not sharing intelligence with allies and the NATO. This is not unique to the Indo-US relationship."

'Don't expect any fantastic breakthrough'

"We should not expect fantastic breakthrough on any particular issues," Mallaby argues."On a range of smaller issues, I think, we will get a package that will include common global issues of sea-lanes security, cyberspace issues," he says.<>P>"We have to remember that a matured and close relationship like India and the US's means that while working together you do not have breakthroughs, but you always have a good relationship."

"We (the US and India) are married; so we are matured," he adds. "Maybe in future we will have our first child. Till then, we will go steady."