What You Want MOST In Life, Based On Your Zodiac Sign

If you were a character in a novel or a screenplay, it would be a lot easier to figure out what it was that drove you forward. Unfortunately, it’s not so easy to tell what it is that we seek in our lifetimes. Even our horoscopes cannot predict a long-term goal.

What is the one thing that shapes the quality of your life, gives you purpose, and makes you feel whole?

We all seek different things. For some, it may be love; for others, it could be harmony. If the thing you need above all else clashes with your partner’s, there will be structural damage in your relationship, like when an earthquake has caused the foundation of your house to crack. The house will be unstable if the crack isn’t repaired or completely replaced.

When you know what it is that you’re ultimately looking for, you can become focused and you don’t get consumed by the things that don’t matter. As with a fictional character, you have something to work toward and that something is usually the thing that causes you the most growth.

Check out the TEDTalk below for tips on how to achieve your goals:

You may think that air to breathe, food to eat, and some kind of shelter is all you need to survive but that’s not necessarily true. We all need something to keep us going, a want that forces us to get up in the morning and carry on. It doesn't need to be some huge issue like ending world hunger; though that would be admirable, it could just be something as small as feeling supported when you strike out on your own.

You need to pass tests, win at games, and push yourself to not only meet challenges but to surpass them. You can't just do okay, you've got to do the best and you need to keep challenging yourself in order to stay interested, excited, and stimulated. As long as you keep trying to do better, you'll always stay engaged and excited about what life has to offer.

You need to have a comfortable home, good food, and lovely surroundings. You need them and you'll do whatever you must to do to get them. You probably wouldn't survive if you didn't indulge yourself from time to time. You're willing to work hard for what you want so it all balances out.

You need to feel like people understand you and the stimulation that comes from communicating with another person. You need to express your feelings, ideas, and experiences and know that others "get" you. There's no better feeling for you than when you connect with another person. It doesn't matter if you debate, rant, or simply explain, you need to share with other people.

You need to feel that your feelings are valid and that those closest to you understand not only what you're going through but why you feel as you do. You want them to empathize, to feel what it's like to be in your shoes and to see things from your point of view. You need others to treat you with sensitivity and kindness.

You don't just want others to be devoted to you or to only look up to you, you want them to revere you and hold you in high esteem. You know that you're a shining star but you need that validation from others to really thrive. When you're adored, the spotlight is always on you and there are always those around to praise you and lift you up when you need it.

You need to be the best at what you do. You don't have to kill at everything, just the things that you're interested in. If you're a writer, you're a gifted writer and teacher; if you're a musician, no one can touch your prowess of the instrument. You can be self-taught or take many classes, but it doesn't matter as long as you know your stuff.

You try to practice moderation with all things, though you don't always succeed. You like for your life to be as balanced and harmonious as possible. You try to have a peaceful home life and you surround yourself with people who are positive and enlightened. If someone is toxic, you have a tough time disengaging them from your life but eventually, you'll triumph.

You have a passionate intensity for the things you prize most in life: love, sex, knowledge, ability, and opinion. You do feel or do anything half-assed and will throw yourself wholeheartedly into a task or goal. If you want love, you will pursue it doggedly and if you want knowledge, you will learn at an accelerated pace. There's not much you won't get if you put your mind to it.

You are an experience junkie — you want to see as much of the world as you possibly can, try new things, participate in various traditions and customs that are different than yours, and taste the delights that life has to offer. When you're old and looking back on your life, if you experienced as much as you could, even if you have no savings, you'll feel that you lived a life worth living.

You want to do the right thing, be there when someone needs you, and provide a secure future for yourself and your family. You work hard and are very conscientious. You do the right thing and your word is your bond. You take care of the actions you take, the words you use, and how you treat other people.

You have to be up on the latest trends in technology and other sciences. You enjoy experimentation, invention, and working on improving already existing items. You don't like for things to be stagnant and never-changing. You get excited by not only the innovations made by others but by your own. You definitely love to tinker — to take something apart, see what makes it run, and put it back so that it's more efficient and works better.

You don't necessarily need to be an artist to have an overwhelming desire to express yourself artistically. Sure, you may be a gifted artist and paint or write plays or you could be artistic in the way you put a store display together or create an ad campaign. You need to be able to express beauty and art, even if it's just in the way you arrange your furniture or the clothes that you wear.