May 28, 2012

Unexpected Joys of Motherhood

The moment I saw the two lines in my pregnancy test I was so happy and I could not explain the feeling, all I know is I will be a mother soon but it was not a successful pregnancy. But God is so good and He gave me another chance and now I have a son. I always say that my son completes me because I know that without him I won’t be a mother.

“The moment a child is born, the mother is also born, she never existed before. The woman existed but the mother never. A mother is something absolutely new“ – Rajneesh

No one says that motherhood is a sweet journey and you never know how hard it is unless you become a mother. I hope there is Motherhood 101 lesson in school so I would be prepared but there isn’t any lesson but every day is a chance for me to learn how to raise my son, how to be a good mother and how to enjoy being a full time mom.

Being a mother is not easy because there are always challenges, trials and mistakes along the way. There are times that I feel that I’m not doing the right thing and I’m such a failure mom but I know that it is all part of life. Despite all of these hardships and challenges, I can definitely say that I’m grateful because God gave me the opportunity to become a mom and I will not trade this for anything because there are a lot of sweet moments, happy memories and joys of motherhood.

My unexpected joys of motherhood

1. I’m happy that I chose to be a stay at home mom because I have more time with my son and I can capture those first time moments. Witnessing his first smile, crawl, steps, etc. are priceless memories.

2. I enjoy taking photos of his developments, milestones and crazy moments.

3. The first time my son called me “mommy”.

4. Hugs and kisses from my son is enough to melt my heart even when I’m mad.

5. I have a companion when my husband is not around.

6. I know I will have separation anxiety if my son wants to have his own bedroom.

7. Our everyday activity and bonding.

8. I find blogging inspiration from him.

Motherhood is a lifetime journey and process. I learn and discover some things that I did not know that I have. I never thought that I could love someone unconditionally. Honestly, I’m not fond of kids’ maybe that is why I don’t want to be a teacher because I have very little patience but when I had my son, everything change. He changed me.

Thank you so much for your entry into our contest! We love your list. Especially having a companion when your husband is not around. I NEVER feel lonely anymore! I ALWAYS have these two little "others" running around keeping me company. Makes it so special, doesn't it?

I agree, sis. Of all the rights of a woman, the greatest is to be a mother. Motherhood changes women talaga. And yes, although it's hard, it's a wonderful journey. It may not always be a bed of roses, but there's nothing our child coudn't make up for. They just make everything better.

Although at times I think my brain is turning to mush, I have recently begun to pay attention to the new skills -- and stresses -- that have come along with motherhood. I have also learned to be more patient. Because I have more than one child, I quickly learned how to distract angry children and resolve conflicts.

Motherhood has not only changed how I view myself, but also how I view the world. It is refreshing to see ordinary things through the eyes of children. They can make the most mundane events seem magical. My children have taught me to love unconditionally and about pure joy. They teach me many lessons and they do it in very subtle ways.

Being a mother takes a lot of work and you have to give up almost everything but it so worth it! It's like our perception has changed for the better. We no longer exist on our own, we exist for our baby.

Just being a tita and seeing a kid grow is all sorts of happy.What more if you're the parent noh?I don't want a kid yet but I am preparing for it.Reading as much as I can and tyring to plan what I want to give my kids.

My Mom used to tell me I gave direction to her life. Maybe that's gonna happen to me too. :)

Motherhood is the best thing ever happened to me :-) Take many pictures Sis especially every month. Get that camera ready all the time. You can compare his developments if you take pictures more often :-)

Oh yes! Being a SAHM is really a gift. I started to be one last November 2010. A month before that, kaka-resign ko palang sa work then we found out I'm pregnant. I was devastated kasi iniisip ko sana pala di ako nag resign kasi kailangan ko mag work for 2 now. Pero sabi ng asawa ko to resign since I was so stressed that time na talaga and my passion for work is 1/10 nalang. So I give it all to God and trusted him on his decisions for me. Everything happens for a reason because after I resigned, I had problems with my pregnancy. I was in bed rest until 6th month. Imagine that? Ang hirap! It's really a blessing.

I guess there is no Motherhood 101 because every mother is unique in her own ways, and so is the child. Motherhood is a privilege, but some women squander on that. But for those who take motherhood seriously and with dedication, I commend all of you. :-)

I also was not fond of kids before I became a mom. God has a unique sense of humor and gave me three little ones! Now, I don't know what I would be if I am not a mother. They give me much inspiration and through them I experience more of God's love.

From a stay-at-home mom to anotherstay-at-home mom: We've got the most fulfilling career in the whole world! We don't have lunchbreaks, day-offs, bonuses, and other benefits that come with working in an office. But, we've got the once-in-a-lifetime chance of being with our kids as they grow up.

Wow.. congratulations for being a Mom, a proud and very responsible Mom must I say. :) Indeed you can't prepare for everything but you can learn everything one step at a time:) Have fun taking care of your kid and be sure to keep yourselves healthy and happy.. :D

Congratz! Take care of your kid. God has given you the opportunity to rear up His spirit children. Motherhood is joint stewardship with the Heavenly Father. Rear up your son according to the "nurture and admonition of the Lord." Train him the way he should go and when he grows up he won't depart from it.

I love being a stay at home mom too... ☺ And I have always believed that mommy duties is always the best job there is! Oh and I always find women to be soooo strong. Gahk it's painful to give birth whether NSD or CSD ☹