In addition, there is pressure around being in the know with current lingo around sex.

So while most people know what a bj is (it’s OK if you don’t), 8C or bbw might be a little more elusive.

Sometimes abbreviations are ignored, especially if someone doesn’t know what they mean.

If you’re in a chat room, and someone types “c2c,” you might google “c2c” online and think the person might be talking about rail train service to London, or asking if you “care to chat.” If, however, they are looking for cam to cam action or cock to cock play, you might be caught off guard.