Now we're getting somewhere. So what do you do with them, once they're there? Once you feel them in full force?

Like the craving for alcohol or drugs, I talk about it. I recognize it for what it is. Call someone. Hit a meeting. I live with it. Apply the steps. Cravings pass. Each time a craving hits, and I don't run from it or act on it, it loosens its grip on me. A craving isn't wrong. It just is. A desire isn't necessarily good or bad. It is a desire.

Sexual feelings aren't wrong. They are feelings, urges, desires. The choices I make regarding what to do with them can be positive or negative.

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