DenialMethod

DenialMethod

About this Guide

Preparation

About this Guide

The Denial Method works by bringing your partner close to orgasm then denying her it. During this method, you will use a type of stimulation that you know brings her to orgasm, once close to orgasm, you stop all stimulation and either move to low-reactive areas or even go make a coffee or head out to dinner.

This serves to put your partner in a rather uncomfortable, yet excited state. She wants that orgasm right now, but you will not give it to her just yet. Your partner is therefore in a beautifully aroused state and you can push her close to orgasm several times, denying each time. When you decide to deliver the orgasm, it will be thunderous and intense.

Preparation

Set aside some private time for you and your partner. Try to ensure you will not be disturbed for at least an hour. Put on some chilled music as this will help you and your partner relax. Dim the lighting or light some candles and burn some incense to set the mood.

Grab your, or your partner’s, favourite lubricant if you will be using your hands on the vulva.

About this Guide

The Denial Method works by bringing your partner close to orgasm then denying her it. During this method, you will use a type of stimulation that you know brings her to orgasm, once close to orgasm, you stop all stimulation and either move to low-reactive areas or even go make a coffee or head out to dinner.

This serves to put your partner in a rather uncomfortable, yet excited state. She wants that orgasm right now, but you will not give it to her just yet. Your partner is therefore in a beautifully aroused state and you can push her close to orgasm several times, denying each time. When you decide to deliver the orgasm, it will be thunderous and intense.

Preparation

Set aside some private time for you and your partner. Try to ensure you will not be disturbed for at least an hour. Put on some chilled music as this will help you and your partner relax. Dim the lighting or light some candles and burn some incense to set the mood.

Grab your, or your partner’s, favourite lubricant if you will be using your hands on the vulva.

The Denial Method works by bringing your partner close to orgasm then denying her it. During this method, you will use a type of stimulation that you know brings her to orgasm, once close to orgasm, you stop all stimulation and either move to low-reactive areas or even go make a coffee or head out to dinner.

This serves to put your partner in a rather uncomfortable, yet excited state. She wants that orgasm right now, but you will not give it to her just yet. Your partner is therefore in a beautifully aroused state and you can push her close to orgasm several times, denying each time. When you decide to deliver the orgasm, it will be thunderous and intense.

Set aside some private time for you and your partner. Try to ensure you will not be disturbed for at least an hour. Put on some chilled music as this will help you and your partner relax. Dim the lighting or light some candles and burn some incense to set the mood.

Grab your, or your partner’s, favourite lubricant if you will be using your hands on the vulva.

Step 1Choose your method of stimulation and denial

Before embarking on this method, have a good think about what stimulation brings her close to orgasm. Is this penetration with groin pressure on her clitoral area? Is this oral stimulation of the clitoris? Is it G Spot stimulation?

Now think about what denial methods you can use. Are you going to just move to kiss her gently or move fully away from sex and go do something else. This all centres around the time you want to leave her waiting for her orgasm. Some couples spend a full day on this method.

If you are using your hands for stimulation, ensure that you have lubricant nearby.

Step 1Choose your method of stimulation and denial

Before embarking on this method, have a good think about what stimulation brings her close to orgasm. Is this penetration with groin pressure on her clitoral area? Is this oral stimulation of the clitoris? Is it G Spot stimulation?

Now think about what denial methods you can use. Are you going to just move to kiss her gently or move fully away from sex and go do something else. This all centres around the time you want to leave her waiting for her orgasm. Some couples spend a full day on this method.

If you are using your hands for stimulation, ensure that you have lubricant nearby.