DJ Ashba holds down the number 13 spot on my countdown. DJ is the guitarist for Sixx:A.M. since 2007. However, like most of the artists on my list, he has been associated with many other projects. I first noticed DJ when he joined one of my favorite bands of all time, Bulletboys, becoming their new guitarist in 1998. He later left to form his own band, Beautiful Creatures, and then in 2009 he took on the role of lead guitarist for Guns N’ Roses. He also released solo work and has done some collaborating with other artists. Also included in his career are his own companies and is spokesperson for an agency that combats bullying.

I would like to stray from my “norm” this time and talk about Bullyville for a moment. Found here: http://www.bullyville.com, the site is a place where those who are bullied in any kind of way can reach out for help and support. Ashba, a spokesperson for the organization behind the site, speaks candidly in an article about growing up with an abusive father. I knew where he was coming from, as my younger siblings (who are now deceased) and I walked on eggshells our entire childhood for the same reason. That’s why I think DJ’s pain is one of the things that makes him so beautiful. Instead of turning out to be a bully himself, he channeled that energy into his music and giving to others. He may not have children of his own, but he is looked up to by so many young people who feel like they have no voice. In a way, he is a father figure to some of these kids, and that is a beautiful thing. Currently, DJ and the rest of Sixx:A.M. are on tour.

I highly recommend buying your tickets well in advance if you plan on catching them, as they are selling out quickly. Please visit http://www.djashba.com for tour info and much more from DJ. Thank you, DJ Ashba, for breaking the cycle and being an inspiration to so many others.