We will leave satisfying your wife up to you. But if your temps are similar to what I posted prior at the dryer vent discharge If you are averaging 155-160 ish on regular, and a lower temp then that on Medium and a lower temp then that on low, your are probably within specs. Delicate is not just a breath of warm air. It usually will have an average of 135-145 depending on make and model. , your going to be about right. Again, the only time you get temps averaging 125 or so is when the unit is equipped with an ultra care setting which operates off of a separate 120-125 degree t-stat or a thermistor and board style unit. With wet clothes in the unit, we should get approximately 155-160 average on Regular, medium should be lower then that temp, and then low or delicate lower still. Good luck on what you decide to do!