My question was whether or not the message that was sent with my e'mail address attached will make it through as a notification here on the site or in his e'mail inbox on his Blackberry -I checked the status of the sent messages and only the "Private Message" was confirmed, not the "e'mail message"; that's why I asked whether or not the original message itself might have been lost or misdirected, otherwise he did not receive any message at all, just a private message saying "Hello again" -I didn't want to confuse. And -about the suggestion- in my buddy list all I get is a name beside a box that I can have checked or unchecked to update my list...no way to click the name/link to direct me directly to the users page. I thought that could be handy for keeping up with your buddies.