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QUESTIONS TO ASK YOUR BOYFRIEND / HUSBAND / JUMPOFF

Few Things to Remember Before You Question
While throwing up questions at your boyfriend one thing that you must keep in mind is the fact that you have to be patient enough to give him the time to answer. Further, you are required to be a very good listener. This would help him in expressing completely.

Certain things that you are supposed to keep in mind before posing your questions are make sure that it is the right time to ask him questions; he should be in that state of mind to answer. Your boyfriend should be given the time to respond. Remember this is not a rapid-fire session! You should not have the right answer or any preconceived notion about the answers, in your mind. Remember, it’s not about what you want to hear; it’s about what he has to say! Before really asking anything make sure that your man is not preoccupied in something else. Wait for him to complete his answer. Don’t run into deriving conclusions. Don’t interrupt him while he answers. This may break down the normal flow of answering. Don’t put the same question again and again in different ways.

All of these questions are open-ended and will help you draw your partner out. Try not to ask too many questions at once, so it doesn't end up appearing like an interview. If you're just getting to know the other person it's best to stay away from questions which may be seen as too personal. The best questions will depend on your individual personalities.

Do you discuss with your friends about our relationship and what we do together?

If it happens, due to a health problem I start looking ugly, would it lower your commitment towards me?

What would be that one thing that you would want to change in me?

What is that song that describes you and your life, the best?

What is the craziest thing that you would do for me?

Would you like seeing me in mini skirts and off shoulder tops?

Imagine, if my boss asks me out for a dinner date, what would be your reaction?

Would you want me to try smoking, alocohol and other stuff?

Do you get jealous when you see me getting close to one of my friends?

What is your wildest fantasy you have imagined about both of us?

What was your reaction when you saw me for the first time?

In future, if i start earning more than you, would it hurt your ego?

A tough one, Would you sacrifice your dearest ambition for the sake of our relationship?

A naughty one, If you were to kiss me then where you would want to?

In your next life, would you want to be my lover once again?

If i go far away for doing my job or for study, would you be able to hang on?

A tricky one, do you still see other girls and fantasize about them?

If you were gifted with a new ability, what would you want it to be?

Imagine yourself to be a well-known movie star. What kind of movies would you be a part of?

If you could be given another talent or ability, what would you want it to be?

Whom do you love the most? Father or your mother?

If you lose one of your 5 senses, which one would it be? Why?

If you have the power to be invisible for a day, what would you do and where would you go?

If today happens to be your last day on the Earth, how would you spend it?

As a kid, which TV character you had a crush on?

What is the craziest and the most beautiful gift that you have ever received?

If you are given the chance to trade jobs with anyone in this world, who would it be and why?

What would be that one thing that you would like to change about your family?

Imagine yourself to be Barack Obama for a day. How would you use your presidential power?

Which was the most embarrassing moment of your life?

As a teacher, which subject you would want to teach?

If you could invite only ten people to your party, who would be those ten people?

If you could get a plastic surgery done, whom would you look like? Why?

If I discover you lying to me, what will be your reaction?

Would you want to tattoo your skin for me?

What can you cook for me?

If you have to live your life as a popular fictional character, which one would it be and why?

If you were asked to be an animal right now, which animal would you want to be?

Would you mind building a sand castle on the beach with me?

Would you like to enjoy a bath with me amidst the yellow and pink rose petals?

People often say that men don't have any emotions. Is this true?

As a kid, what was your favorite eatery?

What’s your favorite stress buster?

What is your dream vacation?

What do you desire that you had some more time to do?

By the time you reach 60, what do you think you would have accomplished? Being the owner of 20 million dollars, what are the goals that you would want to pursue?

Which acts of your ex-girlfriends drove you crazy?

How would you characterize a perfect friend?

What have been the deal breakers for you in a relationship?

You prefer girl friends or guy friends?

How would you be as a father?

How do I know it best that you need a time alone?

While you were a kid, who was your best friend?

Any experience or trip you want to undergo with your family?

Given a chance, which award would you like t win?

What are your sexual fantasies?

Is there anything that you still want to learn but did not get the chance?

While in a relationship how would the money factor be handled by both the man and the woman?

How many times you want to have sex, in a week?

‘Having sex’- what does it provide you?

What are those few things that you have been always fantasizing that a woman would do to you?

What would be that special something that you would expect from me in bed?

Are you a virgin?

Would you want to have more relationships at the same time?

You come across a nice girl at a party but you don’t have the scope to talk to her. How can you make her feel that you like her without hurting my feelings?

You meet you ex-girlfriend suddenly. If you find her flirting with you, what would you do?

Would you want to do a strip tease for me?

If you and I were alone at my house, what would you do?

Are there any causes you strongly believe in?

Are you a member of any societies or or associations?

Are you a people's person or do you prefer your own company?

Are you a virgin? If not, how old were you when you lost your virginity?

Are you addicted to anything?

Are you afraid of ghosts?

Are you afraid of heights?

Are you short tempered?

Can you dance? Do you like dancing?

Can you keep a secret?

Do you believe in life afther death?

Do you believe in marriage? Why?

Do you believe in monogamy?

Do you consider yourself a neat or messy person?

Do you consider yourself lazy?

Do you drink?

Do you have a role model?

Do you have any siblings? If yes, are they older/younger to you? Are they male or female?

Do you have many friends? Are you in touch with friends from school/college? How close are you?

Do you like cooking?

Do you like eating out at restaurants?

Do you like going window shopping?

Do you like partying? Attending parties? Giving parties?

Do you like pets?

Do you like to go dancing?

Do you like to travel? Which has been your best vacation so far? What made it so special?

Do you love children?

Do you own or use a desktop computer or a laptop?

Do you read newspapers?

Do you read? Has any particular book influenced you or left a life-changing impact?

Which are your favorite authors?

Do you see your father as the head of the family?

Do you smoke?

Do you want to have children? Why?

Have you ever suffered any emotional, sexual, or physical abuse?

Have you ever been on a blind date?

Have you ever been on the wrong side of the law?

Have you ever been part of a not-for-profit organization and done volunteer work?

Have you ever been to a school or college reunion?

Have you ever had a narrow escape from death?

Have you ever taken a sabattical?

Have you ever undergone therapy of any sort?

How ambitious are you?

How do you like to celebrate your birthday?

How do you feel about divorce?

How do you like to spend New Year's Eve?

How important is money to you?

How important is your family to you?

How is your relationship now with your siblings?

How long are you on the internet every day?

How many credit cards do you own?

How many lovers have you had so far?

How often do you meet your parents?

How old were you when you started dating

How patient are you?

How religious are you? Do you pray regularly?

How romantic are you?

How tall do you want your mate to be?

If a relative died and left you a million dollars, what would you do with the money?

If you could change one event in history what would it be?

If you could go on a vacation anywhere in the world where would it be? What stops you?

If you could know one historical figure very intimately, who would that be?

What are your political leanings like?

What did you do during the summers when you were growing up?

What do you consider the five biggest drawbacks of your personality?

What do you consider the five biggest strengths of your personality?

What do you consider your biggest achievement to date?

What do you do for a living? What would you rather do, if money was not a consideration?

What do your parents do?

What has been your most generous act of charity, whether in cash or kind, yet?

What is the most adventurous thing you'ver ever done?

What is the most expensive gift you've ever bought for someone?

What is the most stupid thing you've ever done?

What is the movie you've loved the most and would watch again, given a choice? Why?

What is your favorite sport?

What is your idea of a perfect evening?

What is your relationship like now with your father?

What is your relationship like now with your mother?

What was it like, growing up with with your siblings?

What was your relationship like with your father when you were growing up?

What was your relationship like with your mother when you were growing up?

What would you do if your best friend disapproved of me?

What's the best compliment you've ever received?

What's the highest educational qualification you obtained?

What's the worst thing you ever did to a friend?

What's your earliest childhood memory?

When is your birthday?

When was the last time you cried

When was the last time you felt really proud of yourself?

When was the last time you really laughed?

When was the last time you told a lie?

Where you see yourself in five years time?

Which body part are you more likely to notice first in someone of the opposite sex?

Which celebrity do you admire?

Which has been your longest romantic relationship, so far?

Which is the largest loan you've ever taken?

Which is the largest purchase you've ever made?

Which is your favorite magazine?

Which personality traits do you want your partner to have? Which of these are an absolute must?

Which religion do you belong to?

Which was the last really impulsive thing you did? Are you an impulsive person?

Would you prefer to marry someone who belongs to the same religion as you?

Would you rather live in a large urban city, a small town or in the countryside? Why?

Have you learned something from life, is this that what you are today?

What are you looking for in a relationship? In the long term or short term?

If you have three wishes free, what do you wish?

If you have a super power, what do you want?

What was the most influential person for you?

What is your all-time favourite song?

If you could change one thing about yourself, what should it be?

What is the best advice you ever had?

What kind of music you like?

Why your last relationship did break? Are you still friends?

If you could meet a famous person, living or dead, whom would you like to meet?

Do you prefer reading books or watching movies?

What do you think is your biggest regret?

What do you think, is your ideal vacation look like?

What is your favourite movie?

If you are allowed to do just only one thing for the rest of your life, what would it be?

What is that thing, which you are most proud of in your life?

What is most courageous thing you have ever done in your life?

What is your first memory?

What do you like most about you?

If I am going to commit suicide, how or what would you say me to stop?

If I get sick, which first thong you will do for me?

When I fell from a cliff, are you going to follow me because you love me truly?

How would you describe yourself in a sentence?

How long lived your longest relationship?

If you could be an animal, which animal do you think you would be?

Have you ever regretted one of your “romantic encounters”?

Do you believe in soul companions (mates)?

Do you have a criminal record, any contraction of diseases?

Have you even a job? And if you wear a uniform and a hat in this job?

Who would you like to know if you can meet anyone in the world?

If you come to know that I killed someone, what would be your reaction?

If you know you are not going to get caught, are you going to cheat on me?

It may be honest and tell me if you think I have a fat ass?

What do you think about love at first sight?

Do you think my breasts are big and round enough?

You may remember if I have my hair dyed a different colour, as blonde or red?

If I am wrong and you said you can cheat on me and could even stay together, would agree?

What are the three girls I know that you like?

She believes that there is fellow soul for every person, what do you think about that?

Do you think dance with a boy in a nightclub is cheating?

If I do not want to have children there is still a problem?

Do you believe in God?

Have you ever taken drugs? You know, like marijuana, methamphetamine, or acid?

Do you have pets in your childhood?

What is embarrassing, but what has happened to you?

If you lied about something that could end our relationship, which I say, in the hope that you forgive me?

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