Monday, February 1, 2016

Jan: Hi Hermione, yes we talk about it often and often in code when we are out and about! No problems here.

Roz: Talking about spanking has never been a problem, we talk about it often, or at least used to. Probably mostly instigated by me.

Leigh: Yes, as Roz said, talking has never been the problem. Doing is the problem.

abby: Yes we talk freely about it,,,and also sometimes a messages gets passed just with a 'look'. We both initiate.

Minelle: Yes, we talk about it. However I think we come at it differently! He
doesn't give a wit about analyzing it or reading or thinking about it!
Now me.... I want to talk about it all!

Dr.Ken: I can't really comment on this one, as I haven't had a partner for many
years. When I did, we would freely talk about it--along with everything
else, for that matter!

Lindy: We talk about it often Hermione. Probably I bring up the topic and then we go from there.

Baxter: both of us bring it up that one of us needs a spanking. Sometimes we don't follow through.

Ella: In the beginning, it felt awkward, and I was doing the initiating. We
talk about it often now, and Sam brings it up, too. It is a part of us
now, just like sex. However, it is intimate like sex, too.

I am
with Minelle. Seems I often want to analyze it, especially the "why."
Sam does like for me to read to him. If I come across something that
speaks to me, I print it off. We will sit together when we both get
home from work and the post or story or article will spark a discussion.

Good Question, Hermione!

Eric51Amy49: We are still new enough that I'm shy about talking about it but Eric
initiates the conversation regularly. I want him to "do" it. He wants
me to tell him he's "doing it" right or in a way that works for me.
Lately, we've discovered I'll say a lot more if we are on the phone.

Thanks for this one, Hermione. It's nice to read that open communication about spanking could be in our future.

Anon: No time for talking, when a shapely bottom is bent across one's knees. Action is better than words!

Ronnie: Yes we talk about it often. We both initiate.

Anna: I am a wife who disciplines her husband. We speak of it often and sometimes with children about. The more we have made this a part of our talks, especially late at night for us.

Welcome Anna!

Jack: Spanking is not a big part of our lives. We talk about it some, as I
find it erotic to deliver a spanking to my wife, but she does not find
it erotic. So we have a vanilla marriage - although with a little
topping on it every now and then. If we talk about it, I initiate it.

Thus was a good question - and great answers. Love your blog.

Sir Wendel: Talking about it usually ends with one us getting a spanking. So we talk often.

Hermione: At one time I was very reluctant to talk about "it" and felt shy about bringing up the subject. Then I got past that stage and very much wanted to discuss it. Now we have reached the point where it's not necessary to discuss spanking. We just do it!