Even free members here CAN email people in RESPONSE. I don't think it's fair to say this site is treating BBW like second class citizens -- rather it honors BBW by existing at all -- and being able to respond to emails is more than a free member can do on Match.com!

Happy New Year ... to you all.
Rejoined site after a 2-year gap and shocked to see that I still have unread messages in my inbox dated back to 2008!
Chatted to a few peeps but most say that they don't use this site regularly - and sadly it shows ...

I'm not a gold member either & I find it so disgusting that we can't email anyone. There aren't that many dating sites out there that are 100% free & NONE for BBWs.
It's almost impossible to find someone on the "skinny mini" sites. IT's not fair that we are considered 2nd class citizens, even on here.

Oh em gee, yes! I'm new too and I've been browsing the forums here and I feel like I'm the sole survivor in a disaster movie! Why are there so many forum posts that are six years old? Do new posts not get precedence and bump older ones down the page like they do in other forums? Or maybe there should be an auto archive system to archive posts that no one has responded to in a month so people don't reply to a post at the top of a page and not realise it's from 2006!