Today the topic may be creamed soup recipes. Tomorrow it could be the love and sacrifice of Jesus Christ for our sins. Next week it could be how to bottle and sell all the energy our grandchildren have. Whatever the topic, there's surely something to please you.

Thursday, September 20, 2012

Tonight I'm wanting to talk about Baby Boomers. Hey that's me too. I got in on the tail end of the Boom Line when I was born way back there in the mid-fifties.

First tonight I want to share with you all a neat (we said "neat" in our day) website about Baby Boomer-ettes...that's us lady boomers. It's called The Feisty Side of Fifty and I just love that title. The first article I read on the site today is about whether or not any of us ladies are suffering from AAADD. Now what's AAADD, you ask? It's Age Activated Attention Deficit Disorder and the website has an article explaining all about AAADD that I believe you will enjoy reading.

The other thing I want to talk about tonight is about a friend of mine who has been totally screwed over (yes we boomers say that too) by her daughter and her mother, although I believe it was more the daughter than anything else. This friend of mine is one year shy of being able to collect her Social Security benefits. For most of her life she has spent it taking care of her son who had Muscular Dystrophy and passed away at the age of 20. During that time she also cared for her grown daughter's children when the daughter was unable to do so. After my friend's son passed away, my friend continued to care for the other kids as well as help her aging mother. Having been so busy taking care of everyone else in her life, she didn't really have time to make a life of her own outside of her home and family. Eventually her daughter was able to take care of her own children again and moved them all several hours drive away from her mother and grandmother. In July the grandmother turned 96 years old. She, herself was still quite feisty from what I knew of her. My friend turned 64 yesterday. So here is what I want to discuss now that you have the back story. The past several weeks, my friend's mother has not been feeling so well after having a fall. She didn't break anything but she didn't really complain too much of anything being wrong. My friend has stated many times over the past couple of years that her mother did not like doctors and would never agree to go see a doctor about anything. Well a couple weeks ago she surprised my friend by asking her to get her to the hospital because she did not feel right. So my friend got the ambulance and off they went. After some time and tests, the doctors determined that my friend's mother had several medical issue but the most pressing one was a skin cancer. My friend had pushed her mother to go get it checked but she always refused. As it turned out, the tumor was the size of a tennis ball when it was removed the other day. Skin grafting surgery was also performed a few days later. During all this time, my friend, who has no transportation or money for bus or taxi, has not been able to visit her mom. Her daughter made a trip to visit after being away for 6 years and suddenly decides that she is going to take over grandma's care by whisking her over 4 hours away instead of keeping her there in town where she has been living. She manipulated the mother in her poor medical state to agree and together, in the process of making this move, have left my friend totally out in the cold, so to speak, without income, job, to be possibly homeless in the very near future, and now without her family. The way this young woman has treated her mother has been despicable to say the least. There are so many things I could say at this point, so many details I could talk about here, but none of that will serve the purpose. Just know that the whole situation is bad and the daughter and mother have behaved in a totally heartless manner. My friend was half-heartedly invited to go with them and live with the daughter, but after the abusive way the daughter talked to my friend, she has no intention of going.

So here we have a 64 year old woman who can take care of herself, but it sure would have been a lot more decent thing to do to give her more time so she could get closer to getting her Social Security. This lady has had jobs before but mostly before her son was born. After that she has spent the rest of her life taking care of her son, her daughter's children, and her aging mother. We have spent the past few days going over every possible thing we can find where she might be able to get help while she goes out and finds work. Her landlord is being very helpful and caring as he knows she and her mother were very good tenants so he is going to give her time to get on her feet. Those of us who care about my friend are just in shock and trying to deal in our own minds how a daughter can do such a thing. We do have our ideas but I won't say what those are right here and now. This daughter has put the grandmother into danger by insisting she make the over 4 hour trip so soon after her surgeries and ended up having to take her by car as the ambulance transport cost too much. Imagine, a 96 year old woman who just came through cancer surgery and skin graft surgery being forced to ride in a car for over 4 hours. The daughter refused to even take her grandmother's clothing, purse, or any other personal belongings with them and told her mom she would not be coming back but that she was welcome to come up there and live. There are good reasons not to go up there to live, with the basic one being that there is no room in the small apartment along with all the other people who live there. After the way the daughter treated my friend, she said there is no way she will ever go live with her now.

What is happening to people today? I know the Bible predicts that in the Last Days, people would be rising up against each other in anger and fighting, but whenever I see it happen, it just shocks me. As hard as it can be to find a job at 50 or 55, think of how difficult it might be for someone who is 64 and doesn't have much of a work history to fall back on because she spent her life doing the right thing taking care of her family. Then her family turns their backs on her like this. Finding any services available to her is difficult as well. It's going to be a rough road for her this next year plus. But she has one thing going for her besides her landlord being willing to work with her. If she can't make it where she is, she is welcome to come stay with me and start over here. I just can't see a friend of mine end up in the street, especially at her age.

Saturday, September 15, 2012

Today when I took Jonah outside for his afternoon/early evening duty there was a pretty little kitten on my porch. Of course Jonah wanted to catch it, I hope to play. But the kitten ran straight up one of the walnut trees out front. It didn't climb up far and as soon as I got Jonah to a safe distance, it actually came down and tried again to get close to the porch. Jonah did what he had to do and then kept trying to get to the kitten who hid itself in the shrubbery of the flower garden. Jonah tried to get to it even though he never did. The cat was not disturbed at all as it seemed to know it was safe. It sat there and posed for me while I took as many pictures as I could. It was so cute. I have posted all the best of the photos on my Capirani Photography Blog but I just have to post at least some of them here too. It was almost like he came to me just so I could photograph him. Later on I did not see him around. As I said in the other blog, sometimes I think God brings things to me to photograph since I have problems getting out to go places where I can get some nice photos. So I just want to say Thank You Jesus!

I tell you I could not have posed this kitten any better than what it did on it's own for me. It would not let me pick it up or really touch it, but it let me get in really close with the camera and behaved like this was totally normal while the whole time Jonah was barking and trying his best to get close to the kitten too. Jonah got groomed today so he was looking especially spiffy for the photos too.

Thursday, September 13, 2012

Busy, busy, busy. Okay so not as busy as most of you out there, but for me this past few weeks have been busy. This year has been so different than last year was. It's hard to believe this is the middle of September already and the end of the year is nearing. Some believe the end of the world? (Mayan calendar and all that.) Okay well I am not going to get into talking about that.

I have resigned from the Scams of the Heart group and since then I have found so much time to be doing things I have been wanting to do. Don't get me wrong. I still support the group and believe in what is being done there. So if anyone reading this needs help because of romance scams or friendship scams, that's the place to go for help.

In the past two weeks I have spent more time with my family than I have in months and that is the best change of all. Last year my family and I spent a lot of time together. This year was different in so many ways, but it seems to be back to the normal routine and that makes me very happy.

Working on my photography and now adding graphic design to it all has kept me pretty busy too. I've updated, remodeled, changed, and even deleted blogs I had here. Some needed work, and others just needed to be gone. All the ones that remain got worked on and hopefully improved.

In addition to working on the photography and the blogs, I have also been busy at Squidoo updating existing lenses and creating new ones. In the past few days alone I have created three new lenses. You can see all my lenses as well as all my blogs in the right-hand sidebar on this blog. The lenses I created the past few days include one about cookies, one about Star Trek and Stargate television shows and movies, and one about what a pescaterian is. I used to have a blog about being a pescaterian (spelled pescatarian and pescetarian but not the way I spell it--LOL) but I removed it and decided later to create a lens about the subject instead. I also created a lens about how to use Corel PaintShop Photo ProX3 to change bad, blurry photos into good graphic designs. So I guess I counted wrong and have actually created four new lenses in the past few days. I haven't made any money yet with Squidoo but prior to this I haven't really had the time to devote to the project. Now that my full focus can be on that instead of other things, maybe I will start making some progress, as I know it can be done.

Tonight will be my first meeting at our local art center's Camera Club which I am excited about. I've wanted to try this group for a long time and finally got the chance, thanks to my daughter who had them include me on her family membership. Hopefully I will learn some good tips to make my photography better.

In addition to all this, since the weather has gotten much nicer, Jonah and I have been spending quite a few mornings sitting outside enjoying it all as well as some afternoons too. It's nice to finally be able to get outside and breathe some fresh air and enjoy some sunshine without roasting. All I can say about this past summer as it comes to a close is that it has been absolutely brutal. The birds and squirrels are really hungry right now too, it seems, as they are eating up the bird seed a lot faster than they did the rest of the spring and summer. I can't keep up with them.

Oh I can't forget this. I uploaded my first YouTube videos this past weekend. My grandsons each have a robot-type toy called a Turbo-Fighter and the adults at my one grandson's birthday party went wild letting these two toys battle it out. Have a look before you leave my page.

Come on over, sit a spell. Relax and enjoy the ramblings of a small town grandma and I will share with you the wit and wisdom gained over years of attendance in the school of life. Maybe we will even have some fun!

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I am a photographer specializing in abstract, still life, landscape, nature, wildlife, and other genres. Also a mother of two adult children who have given me eight grandchildren. I am a Christian first and foremost, a patriotic American, who loves the Bible and the wisdom within the pages.