Breakups & Divorce Support Group

Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.

ANGER

THIS IS THE "FIRST" DAY, AFTER FILING FOR MY DIVORCE. WHAT AM I SO ANGRY AT MY SOON TO BE EX-HUSBAND?

I THINK PART OF MY ANGER IS BECAUSE OF LEAVING ME ALONE, AND ALONE PRETTY MUCH TO RAISE OUR CHILDREN. HE SIGNED OVER TO GIVE ME FULL PHYSICAL AND LEGAL CUSTODY WITH LIBERAL VISITATION. THIS MEANS HE HAS NO SAY IN ANYTHING AS FAR AS HOW I RAISE THEM. MY ANGER IS THAT HE COULD HAVE TAKEN AN ACTIVE ROLE WITH ME IN CO-PARENTING THEM HE DIDN'T. I AM ANGRY BECAUSE I FEEL SO ALONE WITH THE WEIGHT OF MAKING SURE I RAISE MY CHILDREN RIGHT.

TODAY I HAVE DECIDED TO LEARN TO LET GO OF MY ANGER, BECAUSE IT ONLY IN THE LONG RUN DEFEATS THE PURPOSE OF GETTING AWAY FROM SOMEONE THAT DIDN'T LOVE ME OR OUR CHILDREN THE WAY WE DESERVE.

You have a right to be angry, just be careful that the anger doesn't consume you. Except for helping to kick us in the a@s and get us moving each day, or to help ensure we don't repeat the same mistakes anger will easily cloud our vision and slow down any possibilities to rediscover who we are.

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