Monday, April 30, 2012

Me Men Meeting

ME MEN MEETING

Me and men meet well. I am a feminine woman with many delicate attributes. I am a petite person with small bone structure and I am rather shorter than statistically the average person. I like my feminine ways, soft heart, poetic reading, fashion flare. I am also a lover of jewels of many kinds and have array of different fabrics and feelings. I have a rather girlie cheery voice.

HOWEVER, I like to shoot guns, watch fighting, I come alive in emergency situations. I adore professional meetings with either gender discussions at hand, focused. I like the sports of contact. I like to learn about all kinds of people, places and things. Some of the time things I care to learn about could be categorized as a “man thing”. My husband works as a Fireman with 14 men. When I have visited in the past there was a sense people would not show their true face due to my gender and respect to Steve. As the years have gone by words “slip” the joking is real and my gender is no longer obviously noticed at least. I have crossed the line and now I am part of the “brothers”. Like a Fire-woman would have to be. I like to be treated like a woman and love the chance to role with the punches too.

I really enjoyed the movie Moneyball with Brad Pitt,: http://www.moneyball-movie.com/site/ . I admired the no nonsense direction in the movie too. It was focused on statistics (I fancy numbers) building a team, obtaining a goal. There are no scenes or close to no scenes that I can remember with any women in it. I favor how a lot of men meet and do not beat around the bush and discuss out ideas and solve problems. I seem to get a long with men very well and it is not what the main stream world would think as to why. I like to get to the issue and topic at hand. Women can do this too and incorporate great ideas in an integrated group, character etc.. I have had the fortunate experience of that in the past and it is in men leadership that have taken part in encouraging me to roar. In my career history it is the men managers that have taught me well and an admirable woman too.

Women have the make-up of our female bodies which should not be an issue in tackling, tasks working business obstacles but it can be and is a reality. My eyes were raised on a news air that came over the public wire not to long ago. It was regarding a woman by the name of Debrahlee Lorenzana here is the link to the article: http://www.cbsnews.com/8301-504083_162-20006646-504083.html. I have mixed opinions on this subject matter. She was fired for being too sexy. I know from study and being married to a man that men tend to be more visual. Mrs/Ms Lorenzana is a voluptuous sexy woman who was playing with the big bank dogs. If you are going to be in such an environment you are going to have to work even harder to be taken seriously. It is the fact of life. We are flesh and blood humans with scientific physical, emotional responses. However, we are more than just animals we are human beings continuously renew your thinking and mind. I have to.

I respect how the military has covered cookie cut uniforms. I understand why schools in demographic areas that have been gang related wear uniforms. It all makes sesne to me. Some of the outfits Debrahlee Lorenzana wore are perfectly covered others really formed to a flattering eye. I am not attracted to my side but even I would have my eyes widen as if to say that is round and sticks out there and there. Funny for me it would be like putting a straight line with three circles in different places you don't notice the straight line but bump then round, round, round or viewing a graph at a glace and you notice the raise in what is high on the graph, peak, peak, peak. Sometimes I think geometrically:). I don't know Mrs./Ms Lorenzana.I hope she careers and personalizes beneficially for her own life and goals. It is a shame, if she was fired for her looks. I do wish her blessings on her endeavors.

I meet with men well but don't just look at just the shell. One may sound like a mouse but have a spirit bigger than a house. :)

4 comments:

Great post. I looked at her pictures and she is well covered. She is a beautiful woman with God given curves in which she should not be punished. Should she be punished because she is a fit woman who dresses professionally? I've seen this before...BUT women who are "heavier" wear tight fitting clothes and nothing is said. I've seen heavy women with big breasts and their cleavage and NOTHING is said. I had a friend who by nature was petite and well endowed and was given the "talk" about her breasts. She was mortified to say the least. My daughter recently wore a dress and pantyhose with a design and was scolded. WHY? Because the woman is bitter. And this stuff angers me. Good looking people get hired and then later judged by their looks and attire. I'll never understand. Goes to show you should never judge a book by it's cover...women vs. men...

Gratitudes for giving your portion on this subject, I think it is interesting about different attires and sizes and responses you have noticed. I don't think I will understand completely either. We all have stereotypes, myself included. I am continuously surprised through my experiences. I am sorry your daughter was ostracized I have been myself. I try to think about what color I am for the day like a camelion mold to the environment, but work on staying true to the core of my own soundness. You are correct do not judge a book by its cover, sound, gender etc. etc.,:). Thank you for the response and encouragement Lola it is always received gladly. I hope you are having a great Tuesday.

Amen to your post! You are the little firecracker! That's one of the reasons I admire you so. Great post and it got mind mind going and inner self heated. I agree with Lola. She looks fantastic and should not be the talk of useless gossip. Keep having your spirit be bigger then a house. I love that! Happy Tuesday!

Oh know, I got Lucy heated watch out don't get the two firecrackers lit together bahaha. Lets go stop a war or help the animales, sestosas. We are visually loud houses with voices y Lola tambien. Thumbs up Thank you. Oraleh mi amiga con verdades. :)