What Is The Issue With Pro-Domination Being Associated With Prostitution?As you know, there has been a recent raid on numerous Pro-Domination Mistresses' and establishments. There was a Mistress recently arrested for operating "sexual activity for money" in Boston.

Why is dominate sexual activity treated like an illegal prostitution act? They are explicit in their rules that no sex of any kind is given and paying somebody to whip and humiliate you doesn't qualify as prostitution.

Many dominatrix households run totally legal and legit but are always under the watch of the law (mainly here in NYC) and protective moral groups. Why is this the case?

I'll say it doesnt qualify. the government does it to us all the time and the way i want it. more taxes, smack!

Is seeing a mistress just for domination sessions cheating? no fluid exchange ever and i am there to submit?i am there purely due to my submissive side that i wish to keep totally secret and crave the submission and my wife isnt a part of that and is naturally submissive and not agressive at all

Considering that there is no fluid exchange I would think not. Although if your wife doesn't know I would try to explain it to her, maybe allow her to watch a time or two so she understands what it is your doing. Obviously it's a difficult subject, but if you're asking the question here then you are doubting yourself and if nothing else that creates guilt from the sessions when they should create a completness about you.

Looking for script for domination from Mistress to slave. I am a phone sex operator. I need a little help!?What sites can i log on to for scripts for my clients. I have some dialog fromon hand experience but i would like more scripts HELP!!!!

...... bend over!.......... " Spank!".....

For BDSM domination and humiliation what are good sites for supplies?I am a budding domme once again having been out of the lifestyle for a long while. I need to know of some decent and legitimate websites for various supplies and goodies with which to use on my new submissives I am now getting! Thanks in advance,
Mistress Sharon

www.sub-shop.com

Very good site. I bought one of my slaves collars here and just recently bought a very good bit gag and a lot of other toys.

How might I get involved in the dominatrix lifestyle in Alberta?After years of being a shy little insignificant I met a man who introduced me to the pleasure of domination and submission. Now I would like to get further involved and possibly turn it into something professional but im having a heck of a time finding anyone to show me the ropes in or around the Edmonton Alberta area. Anybody have any suggestions in terms of clubs or people to talk to to take on an enthusiastic new mistress in or around the area?

Call some of the ladies listed on this search page and seek instruction from them:

search.yahoo.com/search?p=dominat…

About fetish?(Domination or something like that) is it real?Does that slave fetish exists or it is just in peoples minds and they are told like they are real? I was looking for some weird fetish, people have(don't ask me whats mine but I can assure you it isn't as "extreme" as this), and found out a very weird one, MAN that are treated like a piece of nothing, and some weird Women domination! And they don't do anything to defend themselves they are kicked stomped whipped, the are forced to make things that nobody wouldn't do, I was just wondering why it is like that? and if it is real? Any of you have a mistress, and would lick her dirty shoes and be her "slave" and do her shores, and watch her while she is with other man?

Yes, it is real. There are real fetishes for just about everything. I personally think the weirdest one is the scat fetish, which is absolutely disgusting.
BDSM is a very broad umbrella term with many others large umbrellas underneath. There are many ways that domination is done. The sub (submissive person) can be male or female, just as the dom can. Don't believe what you see on porn sites, though.
The stuff on BDSM porn sites are not what happens in real dom/sub relationships. In real relationships, even though sexual activities are like that, the rest of the things in the couple's life are not. Sometimes, the two people will alternate who acts as dom and who acts as sub. During sexual activities/fantasy roleplaying, if the dom breaks the trust of the sub, treats the sub horribly(in a way the sub doesn't like), the sub can and will leave the relationship for good. The servitude goes both ways.

What Is Financial Domination?What is financial domination, people are handing over huge sums of cash and in return are being blackmailed, insulted, humiliated, degraded etc. all to please there "domme", "mistress", "princess" or "goddess" to be honest this is the most bizarre thing I ever heard of (hey, that's just me) I've been doing allot of Google searches but, it's so hard to find info on this subject so I even talked to a few "slaves" and most of them been that way for years but, don't know how to stop :( Man, I heard of some really twisted fetishes before but, this one TAKES THE CAKE !!!! Can someone please help me out. I'm lost here.

Think it's well explained on here -

en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Financial_d…

What do laura want from her date azzurri man ?i know my other three babes

PLEASE FEMALES ANSWER THIS QUESTION FOR ME!?Ok, so I understand and noticed that a lot of guys on here post domination/Mistress and slave fetishes on here (including foot fetishes). But it seems that NO female ever posts the same things...
Are there ANY females out there who also like the idea of dominating a male "slave/submissive" and forcing foot worship etc?
I'm just curious because I never see that...

Thanks for your responses!

Best detailed response receives the BIG 10!

That is because we know this is not the right website for that discussion. There are on this site and that kind of subject is not suitable here. If you want to discuss fetishes there are plenty of adult chatlines for people like you.

We enjoy our sex life, but have discussed trying swinging as a way of spicing it up; has anyone tried it?We have been quite adventurous between ourselves, and tried outdoor sex, bondage & domination games (my wife as the 'Mistress' mainly), dressing up in various ways, role reversal, etc., and other things, and have talked about trying swinging, but do not know anyone who has tried (as far as we know, at least!). We would be interested to know if anyone has experienced this and what it was like, as well as any practical advice on hows, dos, and don'ts.

swinging is very much up to the individual couple.
There is two schools of thought, some say u cant be happy in ure relationship if ure swinging or thinking about doing so. They say it will lead to a split in the partnership. On the other side they say that swinging is only for those who are strong in thier relationship and have a clear understanding of the difference between making love and having sex

As we swing we fall into group two. We make love to each other and we have sex with others.

Before u start u have to have a talk about it. If one or both of u think u will be jealous, don't do it. You both have to have an agreement of how far u would go when u meet others, ie what u will and wont do.There is all differnt forms of swinging. form couples who like to see other play in the same room without contact to soft and to full. We have a safe phrase is one of us isnt happy with the wat things are going. We always meet people in public places 1st, ie a pub to see if we get on.

My best advice is to look for a site for swingers. There is hundreds that charge a membership fee but if ure lucky u will find one that is for swingers run by swingers and is free of have nominal charges.

Also keep in mind there is idiots, fakes and time wasters in every walk of life, including the swinging scene.