So right now I want to share with you a list of 27 qualities that confident guys have.

I'll list them down one after the other, and as you read through them, I have a mission for you.

Try to notice which ones stand out to you the most.

The ones that do are probably the qualities that you know you have within you, but at the same time

you're not letting out on the surface.

Let's start.

﻿1. Ability to CONFRONT people,﻿ uncomfortable conversations and ﻿uncomfortable situations when you know that is the right thing to do. ﻿

﻿﻿﻿2. Staying CENTERED﻿﻿﻿ and keeping your power and not tryingto control the uncontrollable, like how other people respondto you. Walking your path without feeling like a ping-pongball, not being affected by the world around you. Keepingyour energy within things you can control.

﻿3. Ability to be PRESENT﻿in the moment and fully experiencea situation, whether it's a positive or a negative situation,be it with a person or by yourself without judgement.

4. Ability to STAND YOUR GROUND, protect something you believein be it a belief, opinion or a cause. Not let people push youaround and treat you like a baby. To be a strong force andstanding on your boundary.

5. Seeing yourself as the INFLUENCER rather than the victim. Recognizingyourself as the CAUSE of all things in life and your power to respondhow ever you want. Ability to influence something or somebody and knowing you have the power over the situation and not the other way around.

6. Being OK with feeling VULNERABLE and exposed in front of othersabout your ideas, desires and interests and being OK with peoplesaying NO to you.

7. Ability to handle FAILURE and accepting it as a natural part ofsuccess in anything. Not fearing it, but embracing it and workingwith the help of it.

8. Ability to ACCEPT YOURSELF fully, and be OK with you really arewithout feeling like there is something wrong with you or thatyou are not good enough.

9. Ability to VALUE yourself, your skills and abilities, yourin born qualities and characteristics and not de-valuing themin front of other people. To know what you have to offer and what you have to bring to the table.

10. Ability TO BE INDIFFERENT and not attached to a specific outcomeor a person. Knowing there is always ANOTHER person, opportunity etc.

11. Willingness to DO YOUR BEST and BE your best. Not slacking off or cutting corners. Not tolerating second best from yourself when you know there's more to you then what you're showing. To give your best value to people or your ideas.

12. The ability to PERSIST even when you want to quit. To keep on goingeven when it becomes tough and things aren't working out the way youwanted them.

13. The ability to DISCIPLINE yourself to do something even though you don't feel like doing it, because you know it is what you should do.

14. Ability to use COURAGE to do what you believe is the right thingto do or say, even if you feel uncomfortable or afraid or your voiceis trembling.

15. The ability to be INDEPENDENT and to think with your own head and notrely on others to tell you what to do. To make decisions for yourselfindependent of other people opinions.

16. The ability to NOT SEEK ACCEPTANCE and APPROVAL from other people but to accept and approve of yourself first.

17. Ability to be incredibly HONEST and BLUNT with people when it'stime to do so and say what needs to be said, even if it is extremely uncomfortable forboth of you.

18. The ability to MAKE TOUGH DECISIONS, especially whensome sort of loss or hurt is involved with making them.

19. Ability to STAY on your own COURSE even when other, tempting distractions are available - like new shiny opportunities.

20. Ability to produce your own feeling of SAFETY and SECURITY and affirmto yourself that you're going to be OK no matter what.

21. Ability to take FULL RESPONSIBILITY for your life and the results you get, and not give that power to influence your life to other people throughblame or playing a victim. Seeing yourself as the CAUSE of everything andbeing aware of how the actions you do create the consequences - positiveand negative.

22. Ability to be HONEST with yourself when it's time to answerthe question "What's really the right thing for me to do?".

23. The ability to be AUTHENTIC and who you really are, and not fakeor pretend or act someone you would like to be so you can appearcooler, more confident or better.

24. Ability to ASSERT yourself, to claim your spot in the world andfeel that you DESERVE to exist, walk with confidence, take space, speak up when you want to, have women, a normal sex life, friends, moneysuccess, to be listened to. Feel that you DESERVE and asserting yourselfand your right to exist.

25.The ability to COMMIT to a person or a cause and let go the equally attractive thing that you sacrifice by committing.

27. The ability to SACRIFICE momentary pleasure for a long term gain like not eating that delicious sandwich right now because you want to look fit in the future.

27. Ability to promise to yourself that you will do whatever it takes to succeed, that you will defy the odds and that circumstance is not going to direct your life and push you around. That you will persist UNTIL.

So these are the 27 qualities of confident men. Do you see yourself in any of these? Which qualities stuck with you? Which qualities would you most like to have?

You might want to copy and paste them into your word processor, print them out and hang them in your room. Read them often. Internalize them into your behavior.

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Hey I'm Omir, the guy behind VC, the author of The Natural's Way book, and here to help you liberate yourself from your fears, limitations and insecurities, so you can become amazingly confident with women.