Despite the back-up dancer's assertions that he was just lost and went through the wrong door, the bootedAmerican Idol judge is apparently feeling a little on the fritz about the whole situation!

A source explains:

"She is taking some time to think about things. They are still together. But the photos have shaken her up. [She] has never been great at picking men, and this feels all too familiar to her. They have not split yet, but it's fair to say they are cooling off a bit. The pictures have created a distance between them. Even if Casper is telling the truth, and he didn't mean to walk into the doorway, it just proves how young and immature he is. He should have been more careful, he knows he is often being followed by paparazzi. Jennifer cares about Casper, they are certainly very close. But he is not the love of her life. She can live without him. If she does decide to split from him she'll be ok. She just needs some time to think about whether Casper is worth all this trouble."

Makes sense to us!

She's had a lot of very public break-ups, we'd want to nip things in the bud if they were looking like trouble, too!

Hopefully they can both just appreciate that it was fun while it lasted and not get too torn up about it!

Perez, when are you going to post pictures of your soooooooooo successful signing at Kitson? Was it hard for you to try to make a few staff members look like a crowd clamoring for your shitty CD full of gay music? The fact that you're not crowing about what a triumph it was is very telling. Please tell all of us how many CDs you sold at your signing … and don't inflate the numbers. Was it one? Maybe two?

So what happened to her suing? I guess she now knows that its the truth. If it wouldn't be for Selena and the producers of the Selena movie needing someone with an ample behind like Selena to play her, JLo would be a nobody. She made it on the back of Selena's death.

So its possible he's bisexual…is it that scandalous? Most girlfriends of celebrities have pics of themselves snuggling and being "friendly" with other chicks its always something to high five over…I dunno…..as long as everyone is being safe whats the issue? I think they had chemistry for real no matter what pics come out.

Did anyone ever question Is he a dick sucker ?
I doubt that, just some things we take for granted, and him sucking dick was one of them
Jen is a poor over the hill slut, who needs a man, any man to make her feel loved
Feel bad for her kids, I'M sure they already are so confused

How hard is it to dump someone? It wont take me a minute, honestly. But i've heard this news of JLo planning to dump her boytoy since last week. if what you're reporting is true then i wonder what's taking her so long?

Hey Butt Pirate Perez. You didn't answer the question. How did your signing go and did you see in the news what a collosal flop your gay friends had at the kiis in at Chick Fil A. Looks like the hetros are starting to take back the front page. Running scared aren't you queen bee.

Jlo is pathetic. She exploits her kids on her tour and Gucci ads, and exposes them to men that move in and out of her life. It's one thing to do it without kids (and not still technically married!) but to involve her kids is just stupid. In time, her kids will be a reflection of her stupidity.

Actually it was reported that he went to the ATM located right beside it because he was getting his hair cut. The barber supported the story saying he doesn't take debit/credit cards. What establishment doesn't take cards in 2012 is beyond me, but whatever.

So she wants to control his every move? what else is new? she so insecure in relationships. I cant stand her. She thinks she's all that but take away the makeup & Hair team and she'd scare us all dead. She has no talent and her movies go straight to DVD.

Well now you know who Casper is now, gay boy toy! I hope she get herself tested, she might be infected. Casper either foolishlyassumed he wouldn't be noticed…or didn't care. He strolled into the massage parlor entrance with his head held high as though he didn't care who saw him. Which means Jennifer should take this as a warning sign and motivation to learn who Casper really is. This could be a wake up call Jennifer needs. I don't think this relationship will last. She will end it! Well he may fun but is a far cry from marriage material. If i was Jennifer Lopez, I would be really careful, he is a snake!

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