I am struggling to find my strengthens at school. I have changed my major twice and I still am not satisfied with my choice. The instructor I have right now is not helping at all. Her syllabus isn't clear I have asked for further instructions many times in person. I am not the only one who is struggling. I hate it.

School can be extremely frustrating. I have had instructors like that and it is really a challenge. It helps if you can find another student or group of students to discuss what you are all feeling unclear about - maybe as a group you can either come up with a solution, or go to the instructor and explain that you are all in the same boat.

As for changing your major, don't feel bad. The third time was the charm for me. Many people don't know right away what they want to do. Use all your classes as a chance to ask yourself if this is something you want to learn more about - that way you help find what you are interested in.

i know many people that have changed their majors more than once before settling down and finishing one. my dh's cousin changed his like 5 times before settling on the degree he has now.

if you are struggling with a particular instructors method of teaching and they aren't being helpful it may be time to drop the class and retake it with a different instructor. i failed eng.2 just because of the instructor.. (she was a feminist that didn't like my writing style and i got married while taking her class so i felt she had it in for me, turns out i was right) i took the same class with a different instructer and got a b without too much effort. so the right instructor makes a BIG difference.

Sorry you are struggling. It can be very hard when you have a difficult instructor. I had a professor in college who literally laughed when I came in for help and went through all I had done to try and improve my grade, including following his advice for how to study for his exams. It was my one and only D in my entire school career. I still to this day wish I had dropped the class when I had the chance. There were lots of other science classes I could have taken that would have earned me the same credits with a lot less hassle. I hope you can retake the class with a better instructor who has a clearer method and is more understanding.