So I have a cousin. Well she’s not really my cousin, more like a long time family friend. Like since birth. She’s obviously older than me. But for the longest she’s been the type to always talk smack about people and judge , including me. It happens very often on social media. I used to confide in her and noticed she would bring up what I would tell her to bring me down? Or idk what for. For example personal stuff that I would tell her or just talk smack about my life in general. Basically always had something to say. For example something really dumb. I purchased a vey expensive cat litter and started calling me and my bf lazy for doing so so we won’t have to clean up cat litter but cmon who even has time? To calling be frigid for not having a sex drive. As well as saying my house decor was very plain and had not style. As well as talking crap about my bf for a issue he had that was very personal to him that I can not mention. But pretty much calling him stupid. To telling me to save my money cus I buy expensive stuff that I actually need! Unlike her that purchase collectibles and doesn’t even have her own place and she’s almost 40. Not saying it’s bad but doesn’t really have the right to advise when she doesn’t even have her life together. I’m just wondering why she does this??

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Jan 917:38

You’d have to ask her.

Jan 917:47

You should talk to her about it and tell her what you think, you know you need those stuff and you know you’re doing great the way you are, just ignore her! Something similar happened to me and I just kept on woth my life. Don’t let her grag you down you do you 😊

Jan 917:47

Drag*

Jan 917:51

Honestly she sounds like one of those people who gets a kick out of putting others down. Or else she’s just jealous of you or something.
Just avoid telling her any personal stuff and ignore her talking bad about you