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Wedding Traditions Explained: bridesmaids & groomsmen

Wedding traditions are traditions for a reason: they’ve been around a long time. But where did they originate? Our Wedding Traditions Explained series attempts to find out. We have no real evidence to back up these claims, but they were gathered from various online sources. Take them for what they’re worth, and if you’ve heard differing explanations, please share.

Bridesmaids & Groomsmen

Centuries ago, the purpose of the bridal party was to fool evil spirits who threatened to capture the bride. Bridesmaids would dress similarly to the bride in order to confuse the spirits. The bridesmaids also had a duty to fend off other suitors so the bride could focus on the groom. Another legend suggests that the attendants would walk to the church with the bride and groom, dressed in identical garb to protect them from anyone, perhaps a rejected suitor, who might want to curse them.

Today bridesmaids and groomsmen are dressed up to demonstrate the beauty and pageantry of the event, and they act as support for the bride and groom before and during the wedding.

The Best Man

In ancient times, many weddings were by capture – men had to forcefully take their chosen bride from their family’s home. Because there was sometimes resistance by the bride’s family, the groom would often take his “best man” to aid in the fight. The best man might also accompany the groom up the aisle to defend the bride, and stood by his side during the ceremony, ready for action.

Today the best man is an honorary position, and he usually holds the ring(s).