books.google.com - There are situations in which we fail for a moment to recognize the person we are with, in which the identity of the other is erased while we simultaneously doubt our own. This also happens with couples--indeed, above all with couples, because lovers fear more than anything else "losing sight" of the...http://books.google.com/books/about/Identity.html?id=ioXFqlzsmK8C&q=Trotskyite&utm_source=gb-gplus-shareIdentity