I need real help ladies!!!

I need the wide variety of hot topics. My newly promoted baby daddy kept telling our 2 month old daughter I didn't love her. So I finally blew up and told him to cut it out. Finally he kept taunting me until I couldn't take it anymore and I had to get out and long story basically only way I could leave was with out our daughter and barefoot with only shorts and tank top run in the snow to my dads house it took me about 6 minutes. But now I'm freezing my feet are cut up. Hit most of all I'm worried about our daughter. If I leave him since we are not married what will happen with her of course I'm going to fight tooth and nail tomorrow to bring her with me but idk what all I can do or if I call the police what they will do. He already told me he will have my things packed tomorrow for me to come pick up but I'm pretty sure he will not allow me to easily take our daughter with me. I just need any input on what could happen if anyone has seen of heard about this before.

I need the wide variety of hot topics. My newly promoted baby daddy kept telling our 2 month old daughter I didn't love her. So I finally blew up and told him to cut it out. Finally he kept taunting me until I couldn't take it anymore and I had to get out and long story basically only way I could leave was with out our daughter and barefoot with only shorts and tank top run in the snow to my dads house it took me about 6 minutes. But now I'm freezing my feet are cut up. Hit most of all I'm worried about our daughter. If I leave him since we are not married what will happen with her of course I'm going to fight tooth and nail tomorrow to bring her with me but idk what all I can do or if I call the police what they will do. He already told me he will have my things packed tomorrow for me to come pick up but I'm pretty sure he will not allow me to easily take our daughter with me. I just need any input on what could happen if anyone has seen of heard about this before.

I think the situation is very immature, honestly. My husband jokingly tells my son that I was an alcoholic and easy. I tell my son that my husband is a meth addict (never has done meth). It's a joke. My son is four month. He has no clue what we are saying. It would be different if your child was old enough to understand what your boyfriend (now ex?) was saying. I think you should call and try to talk things out like adults. If not, no judge will give full custody to the father. A two month old needs his/her mother at this stage in his/her life. Call your local police department and get information from an officer on what you need to do in order to get your things and daughter back.

I think the situation is very immature, honestly. My husband jokingly tells my son that I was an alcoholic and easy. I tell my son that my husband is a meth addict (never has done meth). It's a joke. My son is four month. He has no clue what we are saying. It would be different if your child was old enough to understand what your boyfriend (now ex?) was saying. I think you should call and try to talk things out like adults. If not, no judge will give full custody to the father. A two month old needs his/her mother at this stage in his/her life. Call your local police department and get information from an officer on what you need to do in order to get your things and daughter back.

Ps- don't want you to take that the wrong way. We just need more info here. Court would also be asking you to explain the same thing. I am so sorry what you are going through right now but the dad can also say you took off not caring and left the child there with him....not saying that is what happened but he could paint that picture for court and you will need to say exactly why you had to leave like that, they aren't going to just accept "well he was taunting me"

Ps- don't want you to take that the wrong way. We just need more info here. Court would also be asking you to explain the same thing. I am so sorry what you are going through right now but the dad can also say you took off not caring and left the child there with him....not saying that is what happened but he could paint that picture for court and you will need to say exactly why you had to leave like that, they aren't going to just accept "well he was taunting me"

He was blocking the doors. Had my car keys in his pocked and wouldn't willing let me leave. He wanted me in the house just so he could further torment me and belittle me so I pretended to run to one door than dashed to the other and that was my only chance to go.

He was blocking the doors. Had my car keys in his pocked and wouldn't willing let me leave. He wanted me in the house just so he could further torment me and belittle me so I pretended to run to one door than dashed to the other and that was my only chance to go.

Also- I wish you would have called authorities right away. I hope he does not use that against you. Every situation is different so I can't promise your situation will go a certain way but I do hope the best for you. Call the police ASAP/a lawyer too. If you cannot afford a lawyer your city/county should be able to refer you to low cost or free legal aid

Also- I wish you would have called authorities right away. I hope he does not use that against you. Every situation is different so I can't promise your situation will go a certain way but I do hope the best for you. Call the police ASAP/a lawyer too. If you cannot afford a lawyer your city/county should be able to refer you to low cost or free legal aid

If I can sum it up, he was being a d!ckwad, you couldn't keep your cool, so you ran off, improperly dressed and left the baby. I see a lack of maturity on both sides, but do not leave the baby again. If he is so bad you are concerned for your safety, you should be concerned for the baby too. Who owns or is on the lease for the apartment?

If I can sum it up, he was being a d!ckwad, you couldn't keep your cool, so you ran off, improperly dressed and left the baby. I see a lack of maturity on both sides, but do not leave the baby again. If he is so bad you are concerned for your safety, you should be concerned for the baby too. Who owns or is on the lease for the apartment?

She was sick all day and I finally got her in bed asleep so I left her there to sleep since she hasn't slept all day because we have been at the hospital all day getting poked by needles. I couldn't wake her up after spending 2 hrs getting her asleep. And if I would have tried to leave with her he would have just yanked her carseat out of my hands and blocked the doors for me to leave.

She was sick all day and I finally got her in bed asleep so I left her there to sleep since she hasn't slept all day because we have been at the hospital all day getting poked by needles. I couldn't wake her up after spending 2 hrs getting her asleep. And if I would have tried to leave with her he would have just yanked her carseat out of my hands and blocked the doors for me to leave.

Her being asleep is no excuse if you felt you were in enough danger that you needed to leave. I'm sorry. I just couldn't have left my kid if that were me and I were able to grab my kid. If he were preventing that too as soon as I got somewhere safe I would immediately call the policw

Her being asleep is no excuse if you felt you were in enough danger that you needed to leave. I'm sorry. I just couldn't have left my kid if that were me and I were able to grab my kid. If he were preventing that too as soon as I got somewhere safe I would immediately call the policw

Call the police NOW (and get off line) to meet you and go back to the house. Your number 1 priority should be your daughter and her safety. With his state of mind (from the way you described it), you never should have left your daughter there.

Call the police NOW (and get off line) to meet you and go back to the house. Your number 1 priority should be your daughter and her safety. With his state of mind (from the way you described it), you never should have left your daughter there.

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