Just as a computer glitch can scramble data, the experience of being human in today’s world can affect your curiosity, distorting it from its original purpose. For example, many children learn to be more curious about how to please the adults in their lives than about...

Psssst. Yes, you, Coach. You with the huge heart so deeply committed to helping others be their best. It is possible you are – inadvertently – robbing your coachees. (Keep breathing and stay with me here.) When you put the elimination of discomfort ahead of learning,...

People hire you for results, right? But here’s the paradox: chasing results can set you and your coachee up for outcomes that don’t quite meet the mark or don’t sustain. So how do you as a coach integrate purposefulness in your coaching with non-attachment? And, for...

Multi-dimensional listening is the ability to hear simultaneously on multiple levels and to track multiple threads in what you are hearing. You listen consciously rather than unconsciously, and use listening as a form of mindfulness practice. The most surprising thing...

If you've bought into the cultural myth that faster = better, then A) you’re SO not alone and B) it is costing you and your clients - dearly. It sounds misleading or paradoxical: slow down so you can reach desired outcomes more quickly. But here’s why I’m banging the...