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Tinder EXTRA! EXTRA! Facts: Above pictures of a Tinder profile for “Eric” that were found on the evening of September 9, 2016. The 2 of the photos above look remarkably like Michael “Clay” Basham. I specifically remember Michael “Clay” Basham having a pair of light blue and white basketball shorts exactly like the ones that “Eric” […]

Sex with Clay, Part 2: Erectile Dysfuntion Facts: Throughout my relationship with Michael “Clay” Basham, he experienced issues with getting and maintaining an erection. When I tried to talk to him about it, he’d admonish me saying “You’re giving me a complex” or “you’re making it worse”. Rarely could Michael “Clay” Basham “finish” in one night […]

Sex with Clay, Part 1: Quarterback Sex Facts: Sex with Michael “Clay” Basham was unsatisfactory to me. Michael “Clay” Basham, would bark at me like a drill sergeant while having sex. Opinions and reflections: After having sex with Michael “Clay” Basham, much to my surprise, I was left horribly unsatisfied. It was what I call […]

Relationship Phases of the Narcissistic Sociopath: Part 3: The Discard Phase Facts from the Discarding Phase: Throughout our relationship, Michael “Clay” Basham, borrowed about $5,000.00 cash. On top of cash loans, I paid for about 99.9% of everything in my relationship with Michael “Clay” Basham. My first loan to Michael “Clay” Basham was under the […]

Relationship Phases of the Narcissistic Sociopath: Part 2: The Devaluation Phase Facts from the Devaluation Phase: Michael “Clay” Basham had frequent inconsistencies in his statements. Often, when Michael “Clay” Basham didn’t get exactly what he wanted, and how he wanted it, he’d make the Liver-Face (described below). If Michael “Clay” Basham wanted something from me, […]

Relationship Phases of the Narcissistic Sociopath: Part 1: The Idealization Phase Facts: Michael “Clay” Basham told me that I was his “dream woman”. Michael “Clay” Basham, told me that I was an exact replica of his favorite nude model that he used to masturbate to as a child. Michael “Clay” Basham told me that he […]

Sweat of a Salesman Fact: Michael “Clay” Basham suggested that we get a gym membership to workout together. Since I was the only one paying for anything, I realized that a monthly membership would be a cheaper alternative. As negotiations with LA fFitness went on, Michael “Clay” Basham shifted from the gym as something we […]

If You Like it, You Better Put a Status on it! Fact: Within a month, Michael “Clay” Basham told me he loved me and wanted to be with me forever. He said that he didn’t want to change our FaceBook status’ as “in a relationship” because of his ex wife’s prying friends. After we had […]

Jaggoff Fact: Clay Basham masturbated in front of me on the first date, right after he learned I wasn’t going to have sex with him. My Astonishments, opinions and observations: At what point, in the infancy of dating someone, is it appropriate to pull out your junk and masturbate in front of your partner? I […]

The Cocaine Dealer Fact: Michael “Clay” Basham told me that he had a friend that was a cocaine dealer, and used to do a lot of cocaine with him. Michael “Clay” Basham told me that he used to distribute cocaine to co-workers, as well as partake in it, at a job he had a couple […]