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Long nails. I don't know if any dude actually finds them sexy, but they are heavily featured in a lot of porn. I do not want to imagine talons like that wrapped around my cock, and it generally gets me out of the mood

Especially in lesbian porn. Whenever I watch a woman put her fingers with those long fake nails in another woman's vagina, I shudder. True lesbians don't have long fingernails on their "fingering" nails :)

And what the fuck is up with the spitting on the dick? It's fucking gross. I have no first hand experience, but if you are sucking dick I'd think the lubrication problem would be solved by having it in your mouth.

I had one girl try the spitting thing, and I was like "no, not sexy, don't do that". Not a minute later she was two knuckles deep in my ass. Can't a G just get a vanilla beej anymore?

Give a bj to someone else, then you'll understand the spit. Most girls don't want to deep throat because it's mostly horribly uncomfortable- an easy fix is to spit AND use their hand as an extension of their mouth. More enjoyable for both of you and encourages more bjs to be given. Get over the spit or forget the possibility of life long bjs.

The "behind the balls" angle in porn. I've literally never seen a video that didn't have it, and it's completely unappealing. On top of that, most of the poses and angles they use in porn are just weird... it's like they don't know how to be sexy or provocative and just go for weird and unrealistic.

I have a sort of foot fetish, but I don't wanna lick them or anything. And it's a very small one, but i think it originated because bare feet in my house were a strict taboo when I was young, and we had to wear socks. So I guess I find things taboo as hot. Which is where it originated from? O.o

Stripping...I just find it awkward. I've always said whenever I get engaged, when I have my bachelorette I do NOT want any strippers or I will be pissed. There's just nothing about it at all that I find appealing...it just...ugh, just no.

I've never understood the concept of strip clubs. I pay an x amount of money to enter the place to watch naked ladies dance. Ok I get aroused, I have a boner, can't do anything about it though. Now if I pay enough (I'm assuming) I get a lap dance. This stripper grinds on my erection and I jizz all over my underwear. So I've payed money to watch naked ladies dance and jizz in my underwear? Not worth it at all.

I went to a strip club in Vegas with some friends, cause apparently it's the thing to do. And while they're all dumping out their wallets vying for the attention of the pretty ladies, I'm just thinking, "I have internet access...you women here are powerless over me."

I completely agree. I have had the privilege of experiencing some upper middle class breasts on a woman, I could still tell. I'm not saying they are bad, I can just still tell and prefer real ones no matter the size.

I have always been someone who does all the work in bed. I dunno if it's something I do or the girls I date, but it's true. I'm almost always on top, and if I'm on the bottom I'm usually still the one working. I dunno, always been that way.

First girlfriend had never given a blowjob before, she was alright at it but didn't do it often. I would eat her out all the time but she'd rarely go down on me. Next sexual partner doesn't really like giving head, I got it like twice in over a year.

All of this is just backstory explaining why I don't like getting blowjobs- I think they're the hottest thing a girl can do for me, but I can't get one now without feeling guilty that the girl isn't enjoying herself/ she's just doing it for me/ she doesn't want to be down there. Rarely get off. They've kinda been ruined for me I guess.

My former boyfriend had this same issue. He had some bad experiences and just couldn't enjoy himself. But, with time and communication that all changed. It was something we worked on together and after a short time it was one of our favorite positions. Just find the right girl, take your time, talk with her...and soon your world will get rocked! And just as a side note, I am a girl and I love giving a great blow job, it is as fun for me as my partner!

My boyfriend is the same way, and he's an ass guy too. He says "Why would I wanna put my penis in a dirtier hole that hurts you more and that POOP COMES OUT OF when I could put it in a nice, soft, poop free ome that you enjoy?"

The vagina far exceeds the anus in terms of quality and friction. I used to like anal, but one I found a girl that was willing the desire faded. It's not like the vagina isn't accessible from behind. The vagina is easier, inherently cleaner, and it feels better.

If you don't like it, that's perfectly fine. Just clarifying for anyone who thinks this way, it's not supposed to hurt. You don't just ask your partner to bite down and deal with it. It should be and can be great for both of you. If you just try to stick it in like a moron, sure, it'll hurt. Just don't be a moron.

I've had anal with plenty of lube, lots of prep work, taking it slow -- and even done it more than once in case it was just a 'first-time' thing.

Some people really just fucking don't like it. It isn't that it hurts, it just feels like it shouldn't be up there and I don't like the feeling of having a guy's dick up my ass. I don't even like being fingered while he's doing it; I'd rather he just finished as fast as possible.

Seriously. Not everyone is always going to like anal when they 'do it right'.

BDSM porn where the sub is acting like they're not into it. Dude, if you don't want to be spanked you don't ask someone to spank you, I want to see a smile on your face every now and then or it breaks my suspension of disbelief.

Possibly even worse is when they do switch scenes where a girl has a guy tied up and then he overpowers her, but they've obviously just scrounged up some random hot actress who doesn't know how to do shit with a whip. If you can't get an actual switch for the job, what is the point at all?

I recently had sex with a girl who has HUGE breasts, and I honestly had no idea what to do with them. I'm used to small C/B cups, and her huge knockers were too much for me to handle. I understand your objections.

When guys 'gently' tug on my hair or push on my head to subtly tell me they want head. That makes me angry, and also makes me not want to do it anymore. "Dammit, I'm getting to that, hold your horses!"

Long nails. I don't enjoy having my back, chest and legs ripped apart. It may feel nice if you run them along my body gently but it always ends with you thinking 'dig in boys!' and then I have to pretend I've been cutting onions.