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or even using drugs. I know he is though I have no legitimate proof. He has done drugs in the past and has told me he is clean now and I know he was a heavy drug user in the past from what I've heard from other people.

My proof is by what he has told me in our conversations. I give him money when he asks for it. Once he needed it right away and it couldn't wait the next day. He was being demanding about it I don't talk to him unless he iniates the conversation via phone call.

He hadn't had a job in over a year and is living with a relative

He isolates me from his family and his friends. He usually doesn't tell me what to do with my time. Got mad at me for talking to one of his relatives. Though when he sees me he's treats me like his girlfriend even though Im not, he's very affectionite with hugs and kisses including on the mouth. I don't want a relationship with him, never gonna happen

One of my friends used to be involved with him for a few years before she broke it off so I do know a little of what he's like.

or even using drugs. I know he is though I have no legitimate proof. He has done drugs in the past and has told me he is clean now and I know he was a heavy drug user in the past from what I've heard from other people.

My proof is by what he has told me in our conversations. I give him money when he asks for it. Once he needed it right away and it couldn't wait the next day. He was being demanding about it I don't talk to him unless he iniates the conversation via phone call.

He hadn't had a job in over a year and is living with a relative

He isolates me from his family and his friends. He usually doesn't tell me what to do with my time. Got mad at me for talking to one of his relatives. Though when he sees me he's treats me like his girlfriend even though Im not, he's very affectionite with hugs and kisses including on the mouth. I don't want a relationship with him, never gonna happen

One of my friends used to be involved with him for a few years before she broke it off so I do know a little of what he's like.

Don't confront him. Do you think that if he is using he will even give a rat's ass what you say or think?

Walk away and let that person go. It will save you yards of grief.

If you've never met up with an active druggie or a drunk before, let me tell you this: Do not ever rationalize that the person is basically good-hearted, or a nice person who just went a little wrong, or fall for any other window-dressing they may present to you because they see you as a potential sucker. They are all exactly the same person in different disguises, and that person cares nothing about you or anyone else or anything except getting high.

To Katie....you have as many or more issues than your "friend" but don't realize it. Apparently you let a jobless druggie steal from you and occasionally hump you and yet he is still your "friend".

Someone needs to confront you about your own self-destructive behavior before you wind up pregnant with his kid or maybe getting shot when some guys come looking for him and you happen to be around at the time.

To Katie....you have as many or more issues than your "friend" but don't realize it. Apparently you let a jobless druggie steal from you and occasionally hump you and yet he is still your "friend".

Someone needs to confront you about your own self-destructive behavior before you wind up pregnant with his kid or maybe getting shot when some guys come looking for him and you happen to be around at the time.

I can't get pregnant so there according to the doctors

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