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I lost so many clothes and personal items from my divorce. I got my laptop back…broken. He refused to send me my things “on his dime” even though it was in the divorce papers to send me back my things. I ended up having to pay for my broken laptop being sent to me. I eventually just told him to donate everything because I knew I would never get back what I had asked for. At that point the divorce was final and I just wanted to end any contact.

I was ok with it. I knew it was his last attempt at controlling me. He wouldn’t sign the divorce papers for 3 months and kept delaying it. He somehow took me off the joint bank account and car insurance without me and I hadn’t filed for divorce yet. Was furious I took half of our tax return(which was in the divorce papers) from our joint bank account and we legally were still married. If I would had tried to get my things back it would have been a nightmare and I just wanted out.
You are tough just for getting out! It’s hard and I commend you for it!