dissapointed not knowing what to believe

Hajira - posted on 02/04/2013
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my husband and i are so confused right now. we went for the ultrascan at 9 weeks and was told that there are two sacks and will be expecting twins. we were shocked but happy at the same time as my husband is also a twin. we went to the doctor again when i was 12 weeks and saw my two babies all moving up and down and it really brought tears in our eyes. then when i went to the gyne at 18 weeks he said theres only one baby but he was only focused on my abdomen. we were shocked and had a lot of negative thoughts about all this. i am now 21 weeks, i went to another doc at 20 weeks and was told that there is only one kid.. i honestly don't know what to believe. i keep having dreams of me having twins and all that but now i feel down and sad, i notice the disapointment in my husbands eyes as we had both fallen in love with both kids.. i'm now confused and still shocked. dont know what to believe

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Hajira - posted on 02/04/2013

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@ angie, yes thats true. one baby is better then none.. i'm so in love with the baby but still a little bit scared due to all the tough times ive been through. feels like i'm not having any peace in my pregnancy.. thanks alot

@Holly. the doctor couldn't understand herself because she says that there's movement on the other side but just can't see the other baby so she best thought that she should rather refer me to the gyne. when i went to the gyne, he mistakened me for another patient thats there to have an abortion, i was so scared at that moment because if i didnt speak up i am 99% sure that, the gyne was going to process the whole abortion. however i was not satisfied at the way he did the scan,, i also told him about my the drops of blood that i have been spotting for a while but he just said that everything is fine, and said that i can leave because theres nothing to worry about and i should just know that theres only one healthy baby

They will be able 2 tell by the heartbeat. I'm wondering if your first doctor made a huge mistake or if it just somehow looked like their were 2 babies in their. I hope u get your wish & u do have twins but 1 baby is better than none & u could hopefully have more later. Congratulations & the best of wishes on a happy pregnancy!