(Closed) DH's brilliant idea that came two days too late…

My DH mentioned this idea on our ride home from our wedding weekend, and now I’m so sad we didn’t think of it before our wedding. But, I thought I’d post it on here so maybe someone else will try it!

I realize that many Bees dislike the idea of a money dance, myself included. I also realize that I’m probably not the only Bee whose family pestered her on more than one occasion to have a money dance. When they’d spout their favorite argument of “I’ve NEVER been to a wedding without a money dance!” I’d come back with “Well, in a few months you won’t be able to say that anymore” and move on.

However, there’s a charity that our venue partners with, and donates all their proceeds to. DH’s idea was to have a money dance, and donate all the money we receive to the charity. I feel like this would have been such a wonderful compromise, to get to dance with the guests and please my family, but not feel bad about taking money from guests, since it would be going to support a great cause!

So if there are any Bees feeling torn or uncomfortable about having a money dance, and there is a charity or cause close to your heart, perhaps this is an option for you.