5 Signs Your Sex Life May Need a Makeover

Are you in a relationship? If you are, are you pleased with the amount of sex and intimacy that you are receiving? Are you unsure? For many men and women, this question is a lot harder to answer than it looks.

If you are unsure as to whether or not your sex life is good, it may be time for you to find out? Why because if you are pleased with the amount of intimacy that you receive, you should be sure to tell your partner on occasion. Doing so can help to improve your relationship. On the other hand, if you are not pleased with the level of intimacy received, it may be time for you to make a change, like experimenting in the bedroom.

So do you have a good sex life? To help you get an accurate answer to that question, five signs that your sex life may need improving are outlined below.

Sign #1 – You Find Sex Boring

Unfortunately, many couples, especially those in long-term relationships, get to a certain point where sex just isn’t fun anymore. Does it seem more like work or a chore to you? Being intimate with your partner should not seem like a responsibly that you are required to fulfill. Instead, it should be fun and exciting.

Do you reject being intimate with your partner? Do you put off going to bed with them in fear of being intimate? If you do, your sex life may need an improvement or a change.

Sign #2 – You Are Left Unsatisfied

If and when you do get intimate with your partner, do you achieve maximum pleasure? If not, your sex life may be in serious trouble. This is most often the case with women. Some women find it more difficult to achieve maximum pleasure in the bedroom. But, know that it is possible. You may need to offer suggestions to your partner or guide them. Whatever you do, just be sure to take action right away. A relationship where only one party is pleased, is likely to fail.

Sign #3 – Sex Feels Like a Responsibility

As it was previously stated, being intimate with your partner should not seem like work or a responsibility that you must fulfill. If it does, it is time for you to change. Be spontaneous. Initiate sex yourself, as opposed to waiting for your partner to do so. Spice up your intimacy by experimenting in the bedroom with a new position or simply just have relations at a different time and place. Whatever approach you do take, be sure to do something. Do not let an otherwise healthy relationship fail because sex is something that you would rather avoid.

Sign #4 – You Don’t Have It

To have a good sex life, you must first be having sex. Are you? If you are in a relationship, you should be. Whether you get intimate with your partner on a daily basis or even just once a week, this closeness is important to your relationship and not just in the physical sense.

If you are currently not in a relationship, that doesn’t mean that you shouldn’t have or not get the opportunity to experience intimacy and closeness with another adult. Take action to start feeling wanted, needed, and loved today. This may involve using an online dating website or just visiting a bar with a bunch of your friends.

Sign #5 – Your Relationship Is Failing

Do you and your partner spend most of your time arguing? If so, your relationship may be in serious trouble. Despite arguing about a topic not related to intimacy, such as money or work, did you know that your lack of intimacy may be to blame? Couples who are happy inside the bedroom are likely to be happy outside of it as well. The two should go hand in hand.

So do you have a happy and healthy sex life? If not, remember that there are a number of steps that you can take to make an improvement in your levels of satisfaction.

I've been in the Adult Industry for 12 years, selling lingerie and sex toys. I have seen the many toys come and go, no pun intended. Also all the fun, passion, love and conflict that sexual relationships bring.