lists

1. Life is too short: if you find someone that makes you happy… just do it, already. Don’t underestimate the meaning of forever, but understand compromise.

2. The only thing that changes after marriage is your last name. I’m traditional, and I believe in the values of a family so I will be changing my last name if/when I get married.

3. Pressure. I am struggling with the fact that young girls and women think they need someone else to make them happy. I’m happy being by myself. I know I can make myself happy. And I hate that there’s even a slight chance that someone can let you down.

4. Sales. I say this all the time: you are your best advocate. Don’t sell out.