tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3701901100852210686.post1152140508090864219..comments2013-11-03T21:00:58.405-07:00Comments on No Apologies: For My Son, On Finishing LastMr. Giggleshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05641950854577035374noreply@blogger.comBlogger1125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3701901100852210686.post-17514804086858804962012-03-18T08:20:58.145-06:002012-03-18T08:20:58.145-06:00I&#39;m glad you wrote this because I wanted to re...I&#39;m glad you wrote this because I wanted to respond also, but couldn&#39;t figure out what to say. I guess part of my problem was that I wasn&#39;t sure what aspect of his life he was talking about. Did he mean with girls? Because being nice alone, in order to get the girl, doesn&#39;t work. If you &quot;act&quot; nice, but deep down inside are a different person, the act will wear off. I&#39;m not saying he is that way, I&#39;m just saying that is how girls view it. <br /><br />The other thing that struck me was something you said about the original &quot;Nice guy&quot;. I really truly think that what attracts people, both future spouses, and friends, is Christlike traits. The more we are like Christ, the more people will want to associate with us. This is something I struggle with. In some areas of my personality I am Christlike, but in others I&#39;m not. That&#39;s the main reason I keep going to church and praying and reading the scriptures. I want to become better than I am. And someone who is trying is far more attractive than someone who isn&#39;t.<br />(Disclaimer...I don&#39;t know anything about his life really, so I didn&#39;t mean any of this to sound judgemental of him) :)Delirioushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01564398770468606675noreply@blogger.com