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Hijackals™ traffic in uncertainty. They leave everything as vague as possible so they won’t be able to be nailed down. You know that’s true if you’re with one. Even when you make an agreement–or, think you’ve made an agreement–they will quickly tell you that you misunderstood. Right? Because they have to win in each moment,…

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Coming from a non-functional childhood, being able to learn healthy relationship skills and techniques allows me to feel confident in myself as I grow. Thank you, Rhoberta, for your openness, skilll, and kindness throughout the program. I am confident the skills I have learned will make me a better person in all aspects of life.

Marie

My partner offered me your video.. however, i am mind boggled that it is her that is the Hijackal.. it all makes sense to me right now.. i always knew that she doesn’t take responsibility for her actions and i am always to blame.. and eventually i started to believe her as i love her .. Oh my god! your video is incredible and enlightening.. i feel secure again within myself.

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Ah ! Because of this page and your help . You’re an angel, honestly. I would still be doing the same thing I was doing a year ago if I hadn’t met you.

From client who I helped leave a HJ relationship that had been dragging on for twelve years.

I love you Rhoberta Shaler; you have given me such power, inner strength, wisdom and invaluable insights. Thank you!

FB Group member

Thanks to you, I saw a pattern and realized I was being manipulated. After a very abusive day yesterday I ended the relationship. Thank you for the strength my friend.

FB Group member

I’m thankful you’re getting the word out, Dr. Shaler! It has made a life-changing difference for me.

FB Group member

As foretold, my ex got busy trying to engage me on Christmas Day. Thank you, Dr. Shaler for the heads up. Because of this page and your help, I was able to have a wonderful Christmas and not get sucked in ! That’s progress.

~ Client

That was such a well done interview and so helpful to me! –I took 11 pages of notes! –

Anne

Each week between classes, I was receptive to a lot of the concepts we discussed the previous week. Learning the concepts opens your eyes to them. Being able to recognize them makes them useful tools to build a better relationship.

Bill

I thought I may never have this freedom, I actually felt very little when he tried to pull me in. Thank You THANK You ?