I fully intended to talk about Aliens in this article, but I realized that I had unintentionally omitted some of the most important material about spirit “communications” that I had intended to include in the article on Ghosts, Spirits and Aliens, so that will be our next subject and I will take this opportunity to add this to the preceding material as it should have been a part of it.

This is something that you will undoubtedly be interested in that I suppose falls under the category of “spirits” and that is communication between recently departed “survival personalities”, those who have recently died and those close to them still focused on the physical plane. It only makes sense that those communications are generally between those with very strong emotional feelings for each other, whether family members or others held close. The old adage that “Love is Eternal” is very true indeed.

Those kinds of communications do exist of course, and I wanted to point out a few things that might help in facilitating contacts with the deceased. You must remember that emotional values are the connective between you and any survival personality and they have not moved away from your reality so much in physical distance, but in psychological distance and that distance is immense in terms of separation. In terms of physical separation, they are as close as next your next door neighbor and it helps to remember that space is an illusion.

I realize that this is a concept that is hard to grasp, but remember, time and space as you apply it in your reality, simply doesn’t exist in the same way in other realities, so separation cannot be measured in terms of distance. In that respect, I can tell you that a survival personality can still observe you and your environment for some time after their death.

Usually, but not always, and each case is different, but usually after the survival personality has passed, there is an initial disorientation for them and some confusion and in some cases the personality may not even realize that he has passed since he will still have a physically appearing “astral” body. Now, don’t think for a minute that this subjective astral form is any less in quality than the physical form that you now have, it is just constructed differently. Remember that even your physical image is a camouflage, an overlay of your subjective form with atomic structure and is no more real than the astral body. It is only indicative of your specialized type of reality; the physical body is temporary and the inner image endures forever.

Once the survival personality has come to terms with his death, he will be met by other close friends, family and acquaintances that have gone before him and are more familiar with the new environment and will help him to adjust during the transition. This is hard to explain, in that these personalities will find themselves in a new dimension that does not recognize a time structure such as yours, yet, this place is a temporary environment and the survival personality will still remain aware of the time significance in the world from which it has recently departed for some time to come, but it simply will not place as much emphasis on times significance on events as you would in your world.

There is then, an optimum time when communications between survival personalities and their families or close friends still in physical reality, and that time is not immediately after the death, but after the personality has had some time to acclimate itself with its new surroundings. Immediately after death, there is usually some confusion, disorientation and also elation at re-uniting with old friends (and I mean really old friends), that the idea of communication with those left behind just doesn’t seem that pressing a matter.

It is important to know that these kinds of telepathic communications between realities cannot be forced to happen at will or imposed on anyone dead or alive, but will usually come as emotional intuitional surprises when least expected, in other words, these types of communications are usually accidental, sparked by emotional thought of the other person. So it is best to recognize the possibility of such contacts and keep your belief system open and flexible with high expectations, but not in any demanding or rigid way. Another very important thing is to “PAY ATTENTION”. These inter-dimensional messages take place quite frequently, but in such an innocuous way that they are usually missed by the intended receiver.

The survival personality will at some point be fully involved in planning a new life experience, either in your world or another so communication will usually take place before the personality begins to lose its affinity for the physical plane through involvement with its new business at hand. When the planning work is done, the details agreed upon, the personality will reincarnate while it still has a fondness for earth’s sunrises and sunsets, seas and forests, friends and family and identities usually choose to return for a new earth experience before one or two hundred years your time, of course by that time you wouldn’t be around to receive those communications anyway and your relative positions may be reversed by then. There is nothing except good sense that would keep an anxious identity from reincarnating within months after its previous death.

In answer to a question many may have, it is possible then, and has been documented countless times in your past, that a reincarnated personality, a new identity in physical terms, returns to a familiar, town or area and feels a certain familiarity with some of the same inhabitants that knew him in his last life. His past friends and family still alive, although all recall of that previous life would have been forgotten by the ego consciousness. Details of these circumstances can be recalled under hypnosis and have been well documented. This is not the usual case however, because the main reason for multiple lives on earth is to provide a variety of experience in new environments with new challenges, new racial and gender experience and not to keep repeating a carbon copy representation of a previous life.

For any identity to wait any longer than a hundred years to reincarnate, the desire for earthly physical existence could wane to the point that physical life would begin to lose its attraction. So the ideal time for you to make contact with a survival personality would be between a few weeks after the passing up to a few years after, and remember, in the after death plane, beginnings and endings, cause and effect and time based appointments have little meaning. If the interval is longer the personality would have most likely moved on to other interests and possibly even another life on earth or even another dimension entirely and from that new platform, communications would be almost impossible. Communications are best made then while the personality is still in the psychic neighborhood.

Survival personalities will not speak their communications with words using tongues and lips as you might expect. They communicate of course, telepathically, by sending complete thought concepts, so these messages from beyond, will come in flashes of instant knowing. It is important to understand that you can’t force these communications; they will come spontaneously, like a small explosion or instant illumination and sometimes at very strange and unexpected times.

These personalities have an advantage that you don’t have, at least for some time in that they can see you even though you can’t see them, so they know what is going on with you and your life for some time after physical death and they are interested in communicating with you. You can communicate your feelings through the use of thought-words, but emotional feelings will be paramount in the contacts and there is usually a deep desire to initiate these contacts by the survival personality, to assure those left behind that everything is just fine with them. It is quite true to say that death is easier on the person doing the dying than it is on the ones left behind.

I have said this before and I know it is hard for some to believe, but no one has ever died who was not ready to die. Death is not forced on anyone, but is a necessary progression, a step taken, the reasons well known by the inner self and soul. When the identity cannot handle any more data in one lifetime, when all challenges have been met and experienced in one way or another, then the available energy previously made available by the soul/entity decreases, the entity loses interest and turns its attention in other directions, causing the physical image to blur in its materialized form, exposing weaknesses and lessening psychic focus never before experienced.

You know how I love analogies, so imagine if you will, what happens when you overload your computer with too much data, it shuts down, so in other words, the personality over his lifetime reaches a point where he essentially experiences an overload of data and switches into a minimum maintenance mode, sensing that no more real progress can be gained in this one lifetime, and there is a lessening of purpose within the personality. The personality therefore sensing that no real beneficial creativity or progress will be made, shuts down “temporarily” and hits the “Reset Button”. There is no such thing as failure in any lifetime, just some things not yet fully explored; they will be explored again and again until you get the right answers, and there are many more reset buttons to push.

The famous baseball player Yogi Berra once said “It ain’t over till it’s over”, and in cosmic terms, “It ain’t ever over.” There are more lives waiting in the wings.

Meditation is not just simply relaxation and remedy for fatigue. It does relieve the stress and anxiety and improve the health of the body. Meditation is something more than that. The real meditation is a process of changing the state of consciousness. It’s a way to transform your personality, a way of self-discovery. You can not do the meditation. The real meditation happens to you. However if you practice certain techniques it will happen more and more often. Such meditation can improve all aspects of your life.

In the beginning it is a technique. By practicing that technique regularly you will soon discover that meditation actually is a quality of the consciousness and your being. This process can be roughly described by the following scheme: (1) Deep relaxation – (2) Quieting the mind – (3) Witnessing without making any judgments – (4) Entering the meditation state.

There are certain things that can help you in the beginning of your practice. First you need to choose a meditation technique that would be right for you. All techniques have been perfected for ages. All of them are functional. But it is you who chooses which one can work better for you. If you picked a technique listen to yourself, to your feelings while sitting in meditation. The answer will come from within that let you know if this technique is right for you or not.

The second thing what you need to do is to setup a meditation space. If you sit at the same time in the same place it will become easier to enter meditation state over time. Of course the best choice is to meditate outdoors. However it is not always feasible therefore chose a room or a corner in your house that will be devoted only for meditations. Very soon just sitting in this place will bring you into the right state of consciousness.

“What am I to do?” Do you have a tendency to feel stressed as you think about all the possibilities? Once you finally made a decision, do you then wonder if you made the right choice?

If you are like me, you weigh everything, see both sides, and find it difficult to make decisions. For my sanity and reduction of stress that causes dis-ease, I fortunately discovered a better way. I call it Intuitive Problem Solving.

Everyone is intuitive and has the ability to tap into this 24 hours a day, seven days a week, year round (even on holidays) free consultation.

Intuition is the wise part of us that has all of our answers. How convenient it is to innately have this valuable resource.
Creativity is one way we tap into our intuition. To solve a problem, you can first write it down as a question, and then “brainstorm” all the answers that come to you without thinking. Sometimes the funniest, strangest creative ideas turn out to be the most brilliant solutions.
For example, if you feel tired or overwhelmed, your issue may be that you are working too much. The question can be, “How can I balance my life?” Some answers may be to play on Saturdays, plan a vacation every 3 months, or hire help. After you have written down all of your options, cross off the ones that you do not choose to do. Then take the necessary actions to carry out your solutions.

The following are four other ways to connect with this “wise service”. Everyone has at least one dominant method and a secondary one. See if you can identify your natural strength of your sixth sense.
If you are clairvoyant, you are visual or “see” things or people with your minds eye. Clairaudient means that you hear things that are not on the physical plane. You are clairsentient if you have a gut feeling of something being appropriate or not. Finally, you are Telepathic if you have a knowing of something.

No matter which mode you have of receiving your intuitive messages, they are all equally valid. Your intuition offers you very important information. There are many stories of people’s lives being saved, as well as problems prevented or solved because they listened to and acted on their intuition.

If it is so valuable, why do so many people disown this part of them? Our society mainly values our thinking minds–left part of the brain–and requires physical, logical proof. Intuition is in the right part of the brain and is metaphysical—beyond the physical. Like feelings, it is not based on logic. Therefore, it can be more difficult to accept. However, that does not mean that it is any less valuable.

In fact, intuition is wiser than the mind. That is because the mind only knows what it learned and bases information on the basic five senses. Wisdom comes from beyond thoughts and physical perceptions. You can give people information, but you cannot teach wisdom which comes from an inner source– your intuition.

You can learn how to listen to your inner messages and tap into your wisdom. There are many ways to do that. However, they have some common guidelines.

The first important process is to overcome any fears you have of the situation. For example, if you want to purchase a house you may be concerned that it is the only house you will be happy in. You can let go of that limiting belief by saying, “I release the fear that this is the only right house for me.” Follow that with, ”I trust that if this house is right for me, I will be able to purchase it. Otherwise there will be another one which is better for me.”

Then it is helpful to let go of any attachments your mind or emotions may have to the house by saying, “I am not attached to the answer. I know and trust that the perfect house is available to me at the perfect time.”

The next step is to close your eyes and take a few deep breaths. Then tap into your intuitive messages by asking, “Is it for my highest good to purchase this house now?” Once you receive your answer, have the courage to act on it.

I personally often wait until the morning when I first awaken to check in with my intuition. That is because my logical mind has not “kicked in” yet as I am still in that semi-conscious state.

If I need to make an important decision, I will check in with my intuition for a few days. If I am facing a crucial issue, I am likely to contact an intuitive friend who has no emotional charge on the issue for a more objective answer. It is even fun to get a few intuitive opinions to see what happens.

Another way I connect with my inner wisdom is through kinesiology– muscle testing. The general rule here is that a strong muscle means, “yes” and a weak one means “no”. For example, you can have someone try to push your outstretched arm down as you say a question out loud.

Finally, I pay attention to the center of my chest as I ask my question. If my chest feels tight, I know that it is a negative answer. An expansion tells me “yes”.

The more you practice listening to your intuition, the easier it becomes. Have fun with it. For example, when I awaken in the morning, I guess what time it is before I open my eyes. When the telephone rings, I sometimes tune in to my intuition to find out who is calling.

I suggest that you value and trust your inner wisdom, no matter what other people say or do. Choose an easier way to resolve your problems—your intuition.