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Be Happy With What You Have

by Sindhu George

It is easy to think "If I could just get a new car, a bigger house, a better
job, or more money, then I'll be happy." We tend to view happiness as a
commodity attainable by wealth. However, as the old saying goes, "money cannot
buy happiness."

Indeed, no amount of money or things will ever give you lasting joy or
contentment; that's because joy and contentment are not based on circumstances.
Therefore, if you're not content with what you have, you won't be content with
what you want.

Although at first it may seem difficult, it is very possible to be content even
during harsh circumstances. Paul said, in Philippians 4:11-12, "I have learned
to be content whatever the circumstances. I know what it is to be in need, and I
know what it is to have plenty. I have learned the secret of being content in
any and every situation, whether well fed or hungry, whether living in plenty or
in want."

In those two verses, Paul is saying that he could be content
-that is, have
joy - regardless of his circumstances. Joy should not be dependent on
circumstances; it should be present regardless of them.

When Paul said that he could be content "in any and every situation," he truly
meant everything - even the tough times of testing. In 2 Corinthians 11:24-27,
he lists some of the tough times that he has endured: "Five times I received
from the Jews the forty lashes minus one. Three times I was beaten with rods,
once I was stoned, three times I was shipwrecked, I spent a night and a day in
the open sea, I have been constantly on the move. I have been in danger from
rivers, in danger from bandits, in danger from my own countrymen, in danger from
Gentiles; in danger in the city, in danger in the country, in danger at sea; and
in danger from false brothers. I have labored and toiled and have often gone
without sleep; I have known hunger and thirst and have often gone without food;
I have been cold and naked."

Even in all these things, Paul had "learned to be content." Clearly, it's not
our circumstances that steal our joy. You, too, can learn "to be content
whatever the circumstances."

Stop thinking that you will have joy after you buy a new house, after you get
married, after you buy a better car, after your in-laws treat you right. Don't
put off joy until after everything goes your way; decide to have joy now! For
you can have joy whatever the circumstances!

See Also:

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throws at them whilst others get knocked back at every little setback? It's all
down to the way they see life.

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our life is directly linked to our personal fulfillment. If we are avid in
pursuing our own personal growth and development then we will experience
authentic happiness.

True
Happiness: Find Happiness Wherever You Can
To find the true meaning of happiness is by far every man’s ultimate goal in
life. Of course, we all want to be happy—who doesn’t? They say that true
happiness is such an elusive thing. Sometimes, you don’t really have to find it
but it’s up to you to feel happy in even all the small things in life.

Finding True Happiness: Part One
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part of?