thanks guys. *hugs* i dont know why hes being like that. i know he knows it bothers me, so i dont know why hes being like that. ive felt like he doesnt care much about her... he was bummed that he was away for work for her birth, but then he didnt hold her for a few wks, and i had to force it. and hes only held her a total of 2 times! he doesnt live far away. i dont know... he has NO connection with her at all, and now this =(

thanks charlotte.
i tried to be mean when he wouldnt shut up and told him that he wasnt gonna be her godfather (which is true right now b/c i dont know if im doing baptism w/ her) like he is to nick, and he was like whatever. =( god, shes only 11wks old, what did she ever do to him =(

thanks guys. *hugs* i dont know why hes being like that. i know he knows it bothers me, so i dont know why hes being like that. ive felt like he doesnt care much about her... he was bummed that he was away for work for her birth, but then he didnt hold her for a few wks, and i had to force it. and hes only held her a total of 2 times! he doesnt live far away. i dont know... he has NO connection with her at all, and now this =(

and yes to the pp... please come beat him up

I hate to say it, but the above might be why he is doing it. Some people like to push buttons, siblings especially think this is fun to do sometimes

While not everyone sees the beauty in even the most beautiful babies, us Mommas always know the truth, all babies are beautiful!

Your baby is beautiful, tell her brother to sit & spin on it. he sounds mean spirited and she is a baby, she will understand and he has no business acting like that. does he have kids? is he jealous of her?