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THANK YOU! for your interest in this subject matter and in my story. INTENT: #support for the #significant_others of #transsexuals and #transgender, to #advocate the necessity of being your authentic self, and to share information with others. By this, I hope to support your own journey, or add to your understanding of the journey of someone you know.
ABOUT ME: A 45 year old #heterosexual woman, divorced w/children, I met Jack and fell in love. Six years into our relationship, he confided his secret desire--Jack wanted to be a woman. Before his disclosure, I had no reason to suspect his interest. It was a shocking surprise! It was the decade of the 1990's. Little information was available to help ME understand 'Why' and 'What next". Not only was Jack in transition, but by virtue of the circumstance, so was I. Guided by my heart, I began a journey of my own. Stepping out of my comfort zone I challenged my attitudes and belief systems, as well as, my own sexual orientation
to help me decide
'Do I stay, or do I go"?

Disclaimer Note to Information and Video Links

Informational links and videos for chosen topics are provided based on conversations and experiences I shared with J and the challenges that we faced. If the information provided helps just one person who views, it was worth my posting it.

Not everyone's need, or experience, will be the same as ours was.

By your View and your click on a particular post, I am able to know which topics are of most interest to the reader and will make sure I include responses to your interest within my book.

Thank you for your support!

Sunday, August 31, 2014

I have written this blog from the perspective of a heterosexual female who discovers her male significant other wants to identify as female.
However, I have spoken to many lesbian women who find their lesbian partner wishes to be a male, and gay men, who find the man they love, wants to be a female. When it comes to accepting your significant_other as TS, we all experience similar thoughts, feelings and questions.

Some Lesbian women have said they begin to question their own sexual identity when faced with a partner F>M. Some gay men expressed they wondered if they would still be attracted to their partner when he became she. The visual aspect for many men is a huge factor of attraction. These are only two of the myriad of thoughts that go through the mind of a significant other whether you are gay, lesbian or heterosexual when a partner makes this change. If you are cisgender Lesbian or gay man and are experiencing, or have experienced this situation, I would appreciate your comments. Let your experience be insight for someone else. #gay #lesbian #trans #question #gender #identity #sexualpreference #attraction #significant_other #cisgender #LGBTQ

Homosexual = Relates to a tendency to direct sexual desire towards another of the same sex

Intersex = LGBTI

Lesbian = a female homosexual

LGB = refers to the community

LGBT = lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender

Metamorphosis = A change of physical form, or structure. e.g. caterpillar to butterfly

Pansexuality = Exhibiting or implying many forms of sexual expression

S&M = This term stands for 'sadomasochism' which is the derivation of pleasure from the infliction of physical or mental pain either on others or on oneself

The Community = In this story it refers to the S&M community

Transsexual = A person with a psychologiacl need to belong to the opposite sex, who may feel the need to undergo sex reassignment surgery in order to modify the sex organs in order to appear to be of the opposite and desired sex.

Transvestite = A person who adopts the dress and often the behavior which is typical of the opposite sex for purposes of emotional or sexual gratification

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