first time receiving oral sex

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my boyfriend who I've only been dating for 2 weeks wants to have oral sex and believe it or not he doesn't care if I give it, but he only wants to give it to me. I'm worried that after school I won't be fresh, I shower every day and keep clean, but after all day of peeing and sweating, how can I make myself taste good. Also I've never been naked infront of a boy, is there anyway to make me feel confident.

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hi i might be able to help try and get a pack of baby wipes and keep them in a small ziplock baggie to clean up the area. You wil be surprised at how that will help and it also helps to clean the guys up too.

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i know this sounds weird but rather than just being clean, eating fruit especially apples make you taste sweeter and usually makes it yummier i guess you can say. my guy can always tell if im turned on cuz it tastes better good luck!

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Thanks for the advice, but I chickened out today. I brought the baby wipes and even wiped myself, but after making out he wanted to go farther but I was too nervous and scared. I still feel embarrassed being naked infront of boys, I don't know why because my friends say I'm pretty. I have no problem kissing and hime feeling by bum and boobs, but that's as far as I want to go. Thanks for your advice, I know I'll use it eventually.

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If you don't feel comfortable going that far yet, that's completely okay. Just make sure he knows your boundaries. I think that once you've been dating for a while longer, you'll feel much more comfortable around him and won't be embarrassed about being naked in front of him.

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Originally Posted by Suzanne

If you don't feel comfortable going that far yet, that's completely okay. Just make sure he knows your boundaries. I think that once you've been dating for a while longer, you'll feel much more comfortable around him and won't be embarrassed about being naked in front of him.

well stated. you don't have to rush anything especially in this area enjoy the little stuff and work your way up

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Originally Posted by Penny96

my boyfriend who I've only been dating for 2 weeks wants to have oral sex and believe it or not he doesn't care if I give it, but he only wants to give it to me. I'm worried that after school I won't be fresh, I shower every day and keep clean, but after all day of peeing and sweating, how can I make myself taste good. Also I've never been naked infront of a boy, is there anyway to make me feel confident.

Don't let him rush you.... take things at your pace, but when you are ready, just relax, and let it happen it is REALLY nice! Have fun!

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I'm sure that I'll enjoy it, my biggest problem is taking my panties off infront of him. I feel embarassed when I'm naked especially infront of boys. How do you get over that feeling?

I was a bit nervous the first time just because I assumed that he'd compare me to what he's seen in porn, but chances are, he's not going to care what you look like naked. Once you're more comfortable with him, you won't be nervous about being naked in front of him. If you're really that uncomfortable with the idea, maybe you should wait a while longer before you let him perform oral on you. Or you could always do it with the lights off.

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Originally Posted by eileen

you can let him finger you under the sheets to get started, and do it in th e dark or twilight so maybe you are not as nervous.

last night my boyfriend wanted to do oral sex on me, I said no, but allowed him to finger me under the blankets. It was great he stuck 2 fingers in me with 1 hand and the other he rubbed my clitoris, after a while I didn't care and he removed all the blankets and I wasn't embarrassed now I can be naked infront of him with no problems, thanks for the great advice it worked!!

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Originally Posted by Penny96

last night my boyfriend wanted to do oral sex on me, I said no, but allowed him to finger me under the blankets. It was great he stuck 2 fingers in me with 1 hand and the other he rubbed my clitoris, after a while I didn't care and he removed all the blankets and I wasn't embarrassed now I can be naked infront of him with no problems, thanks for the great advice it worked!!

congrats! it's a big step feeling comfortable naked with someone. but when it happens, it's a wonderful thing.