...The song that means most to you… Leonard Cohen's Dance Me To The End Of Love. I grew up in Sheffield with Cohen blaring out around the house from my sisters. He haunts me...

...The order of service at your funeral… I want Dance Me To The End Of Love, some great poems and wonderful music, and for someone special to make a funny speech taking the mickey out of me. They'd say, 'Finally, a social event she couldn't get out of'

The way you want to be remembered… 'Wherever she went, including here, it was against her better judgment.' [Copyright Dorothy Parker]...

Emily presents Newsnight on BBC2 weekdays from 10.30pm and is an ambassador for Centrepoint (centrepoint.org.uk) and World Jewish Relief (worldjewishrelief.org).