Single Mom, Budget Your Way to an Amazing Life

Pay Inequality Makes it Difficult

Figuring out a single mom budget is one of the first challenges after separation. Being able to pay the bills and have something for extras won’t happen by magic.

It was one of the first challenges I faced as a newly single mom. I felt like one of those people in the circus trying to keep one more plate spinning on top of a pole. Worrying about what was going to come crashing to the ground next took up way too much energy.

It is a challenge to make ends meet financially. According to the AAUW, in 2016 women in the United States made between 70 and 89% of what men made. The pay gap varies by state.

Traditionally, there are still more men who are the primary breadwinner in families than women, and even if you both made about the same amount of money when you were together, one income is half of two incomes.

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Unemployment Complicates a Single Mom Budget

In my own single-mom journey, not only did I go from two incomes to one during the process of my divorce, but I also found myself out of work.

My soon-to-be ex-husband and I had already agreed there would be no child support because we both had similar earning potential. We agreed that we would each have the children as close to equal time as was possible given the distance between our homes.

I felt like I was up a creek without a paddle as we say here in lake country. I was white-knuckle scared for months (truth be told, it was probably years). Thankfully, that’s behind me now and it all worked out fabulously. It worked out because I set goals, broke big goals into small steps and kept putting one foot in front of the other until I made a new life for us.

Cash-Based Budgeting

Do you wonder where to start? Financial gurus preach that we should manage our money on a cash system. (Look up Dave Ramsey, who seems to be the grandfather of living a cash-based budget.)

I know this is a good idea. Unfortunately, I find the whole thing overwhelming. The situation is complicated by the fact that my income varies widely from month to month.

Are you like me and know it is a good idea but you hate the idea of starting a cash-based budget more than a root canal without novocaine? Or do you feel clueless about how to start? I have a solution for you.

Here is the Solution to Make A Single Mom’s Budget Work

The answer is Cash Fueled Life. This is a fantastic course on how to stay out of debt and move to a cash-based system. Currently, it is super economical, so you may want to grab it now. It may not stay at this price for long.

One of the most inspiring things about Kim’s story is that she went from being a stay-at-home wife to the primary breadwinner of her family. (Even more impressive, she did it while adding three children to her family, including a set of twins.) Another inspiration is that she and her husband paid off $93,000 in debt while living on one income.

What I love about the book is that it focuses on budgeting not as a deprivation, but as a way to fund the life of your dreams. In the book, Kim guides you through how to set and prioritize your goals. These goals give us the needed motivation to budget. I love this approach.

Advantages of Single Mom Budget

She points out an advantage to a single mom’s budget: you are the only adult. That gives you total control of your money. You set the priorities, make the plan, and work the plan. No one is sabotaging you by sneaking money or overspending and not following the budget.

Are You A Saver or a Spender?

Frequently in a relationship, there is a spender and a saver. If you were the saver in your relationship, the financial situation after divorce can actually be a relief. Budgeting as a single mom, it may be easier for you to live a frugal lifestyle and cut expenses. There are probably expensive things that were important to your spender partner. Going through the steps of budgeting one by one with Kim will help you evaluate expenses that may have been non-negotiable in the past.

On the other hand, if you are a spender the Cash Fueled Life is perfect for you. You identify how much spending money you have in your budget and have that spending money in cash. When it is gone, it is gone. You stop spending.

When you follow the plan in the course, you will no longer wonder, “Can I afford this?” You will know whether you can or not. You will no longer worry about whether or not you can pay your bills. Will the lights or heat be turned off? Will my cell phone be cut off? You will know that your bills are covered. This will be a huge stress reliever for you. Tell your money where to go and stop worrying about it.

Reduce Stress

Having enough money is a gargantuan stress. For single moms, budgeting is a necessity. If you have never had a budget or if your partner always took care of the finances, Live. Save. Spend. Repeat. and Cash Fueled Life are the resources you need. They are the best tools to help you manage your money.

Confessions:

I have not lived totally on cash in the past, but I do follow many of the book’s guidelines. When I went from 2 incomes to one I got super clear on wants and needs. Things that I took for granted like going out to eat, became rare treats. It is so much easier than overspending and worrying about having money to pay for needs like housing, utilities, food, and transportation.

Even though living a Cash Fueled Life doesn’t sound fun, will you have the courage to give the idea a three-month test drive? It will make you the boss of your money and relieve a lot of your stress.

I wish these resources had been available when I started my single-mom journey because it would have been so much easier to deal with budgeting. Lucky you, the resources are here for you. Start today and fund the life you dream of having.

Are you willing to try a cash-fueled life and tell us how it goes for you? You can try it out for the price of dinner, so snatch it before the price goes up.