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My daughter just had a shower for her third child, first boy. I don't know, in my day it was 1st baby only, now so many are having them with every one. Technically, since the mom-to-be isn't the one who is supposed to be throwing the shower, if she has friends who want to do that for her, what is she to do? (tongue in cheek)

I only had one shower, but a 2nd would've been super helpful to us since our 1st was still using everything the 2nd needed. We barely even received a "congrats" from family when the 2nd was born. It sucked to feel like she didn't matter.

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