Ok on a serious note I need some advice regarding my old neighbors

We moved from our old house, at the time I lived in our council house I was bullied and intimated in front of my dc's on a daily basis for three and a half years by both neighbors .

I was to scared to do anything and it made me very unhappy,and my dc's.

We gave our house back in the end and moved into a new house that we bought, today the old neighbor was at the end of our drive, its a dead end, she was watching me in her car and the dc's , I saw her and she that I saw her she then drove of quickly.

I know it is her I have then reg of the car so should I be worried it will start again, I do not think I can face it all over again,wwu do?

I'd try not to panic for a start, it is possible that it was coincidence. Did you report the past abuse to anyone? If you have the reg and she comes back you can go to the police and report it as harrasment.

Keep a log of everything with dates and times, registration number and make of car, note of who was in it and what time you noticed them and what time they left and contact the police if it happens again.

Make sure your security is good and perhaps let your new neighbours know if you find you get on with them well enough.

OP - that is a bit scary. Is it possible she is so fixated on you that she has followed you to new home? Why were police not involved when you lived at your previous address? Systematic bullying becomes harrassment, and they should have been charged with that. No one ever stopped this behaviour? I would call the police - they sound really unhinged. But if you never let the police know the extent of the problems before, they may be reluctant to do anything now.

I'm sorry OP, it may be innocent but might also be her wanting to continue the abusive bullying behaviour. If you see her again call the police right away and photograph her. Do you have a mobile? You can use the video function on that.

Jesus,sitting watching you?insane.You stand strong and dont back down.Maybe she is fixated on fighting you or maybe she was very curious to where you went and thatll be the end of it. Dont rise to any ridiculous behaviour,you are better than behaving like a yob.You will come out in top.All the best xx

Thanks Inlove i have gone to bed i am so mad right now my blood is boiling . I had to deal with it on my own i felt like i was trapped with no escape. I tried to say how it made me feel and its now my worst nightmare has come back over again i want to move again.

How scary, my heart goes out to you, last year we went through a really bad experience with a neighbour that eventually meant we had to move to get away, now my children are safe and I have my piece of mind which they took from me. One warning though, after one particularly nasty incident my DH told the Police he had wished he had filmed it on his phone, and basically they said we could be charged if we had did that, yes really! So check that out with your Police first.