Wednesday, 20 March 2013

7 Concepts That Shape Who You Are, How You Think About Yourself and Others

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Our world of duality is slowly changing. More of us are seeing each
other for who we are and why we're here. Every aspect of our lives
revolves around how we think and feel about ourselves and those around
us. If we understand what we need to accept in our lives to move on,
life is just so much easier. Practice accepting these seven things and
your outlook on life will change very quickly.

1. Accept ResponsibilityGuilt is a trick of the mind. Accept responsibility for yourself, your life and your actions. You are response-able. You are an adult. You are account-able,
meaning, with every action you take, you account for it. You chose to
do it; you must accept the consequences of it and you did it all for a
reason...to learn. If you continue to feel guilty, you stop
learning. You attract every single experience in your life, regardless
of how positive or negative your perception is of that experience. You
must come to terms that there are no negative experiences, only
experiences.

2. Accept That Others Need To Experience Their Own Reality

Stop trying to bring people over to your team. They are on your
team...they're just playing a different position. Everybody has their
own version of the truth and your version is no more correct than
theirs. Your version of the truth is dictated by your path and
learning experience which is completely defined by your vibrational
state. That is why we are so unique and capable of creating our own
realities. We are what we think and feel. It is much wiser to agree to
disagree than impose your truth on another person whose learning
experience may be the polar opposite of your own, after all your truth
is only YOUR TRUTH and not anyone else's. Think of every person as
having their own Earth and your just another player in their game.
They're making the rules, not you and they may possibly see and feel
what you do one day, but until that day comes, be kind, respectful and
share your knowledge in the most courteous way possible. The goal is to
open doors, not close them
3. Accept That You Can't Change or Control Anybody Else

Be willing to let go of your need to always control everything that
happens to you and around you -- situations, events, people, etc.
Whether they are loved ones, coworkers, or just strangers you meet on
the street -- just allow them to be. Allow everything and everyone
to be just as they are and you will see how much better that will
make you feel. You can never control anybody but yourself. Your need
to control others stems from your own fears and lack of control in your
own life. As soon as you are able to let go, your need for control will
end. "By letting it go it all gets done. The world is won by those
who let it go. But when you try and try. The world is beyond
winning."
~ Lao Tzu

4. Accept That Money Is Only Energy And Nothing MoreMoney has become a symbol of oppression, control, restriction,
greed, but is it really? What is money? Money is only energy and it is
only what we make it. If you feel you are always lacking money and
financial freedom, it is only a reflection of other problems in your
life. Most people that desire financial wealth and don't have it are
not allowing energy to flow. They have emotions and programs running
that are blocking their ability to attract wealth. It has nothing to do
with their job or income. Is has to do with how they feel about
themselves and others. The key is to put ourselves in a frame of mind
where we don't associate money with anything negative. However you
choose to generate money, let it be doing something you really enjoy
without a NEED to do it. When you NEED to do anything, energy will not
flow. It must be because you WANT to do it and you ENJOY doing it.
Positive mind, positive energy and the money will flow.

5. Accept That Your Expectations Will Filter Your Experience

Let go of any expectations of yourself that will limit your growth.
If you hold high expectations for how others should behave, you will
often be disappointed if they do not represent themselves in the
manner you expected. It is only your expectations of people that
cause you to judge them which ultimately is a judgement of yourself.
Far too many people are living a life that is not theirs to live.
They live their lives according to what others think is best for
them, they live their lives according to what their parents think is
best for them, to what their friends, their enemies and their
teachers, their government and the media think is best for them. They
ignore their inner voice, that inner calling. They are so busy with
pleasing everybody, with living up to other people’s expectations,
that they lose control over their lives. They forget what makes them
happy, what they want, what they need...and eventually they forget
about themselves. You have one life -- this one right now -- you must
live it, own it, and especially don’t let other people’s opinions
distract you from your path.

6. Accept That You Don't Have To Be A Right-Fighter To Be True To Yourself

There are so many of
us who can’t stand the idea of being wrong -- wanting to always be
right -- even at the risk of ending great relationships or
causing a great deal of stress and pain, for us and for others. We
love to right-fight. It’s just not worth it because the state of
being right is all subjective with so many layers and perspectives of
truth. Whenever you feel the ‘urgent’ need to jump into a fight
over who is right and who is wrong, ask yourself this question: "Would I rather be right, or would I rather be kind?" ~ Wayne Dyer.

7. Accept That You Will Never Stand In Your Full Power, Unless You Release Your Fears

Constantly reliving and reacting to your past, attachments,
resentments and fears is what keeps you from growing. We often assume
the past looked so much better than the present and the future looks
so frightening, but you have to take into consideration the fact
that the present moment is all you have and all you will ever have.
The past you are now longing for -- the past that you are now
dreaming about -- was ignored by you when it was present. Stop
deluding yourself. Be present in everything you do and enjoy life.
The moment you detach yourself from all those material things you
don't need, you become so peaceful, so tolerant, so kind, and so serene.
You will get to a place where you will be able to understand all
things without even trying--a state beyond words. Let go of your
internal resentment towards people, situations and events. If you hold
a grudge, you only take power away from yourself and learning stops.
Fear is just an illusion, it doesn’t exist -- you created it. It’s
all in your mind. Correct the inside and the outside will fall into
place. Most of the limiting factors on this page stem from fear.
Release your fear and everything will change in your life, almost
simultaneously. Many successful people have achieved great heights only
because they have let go of their fear of success.