Pretty is only ever defined by the very people who make you feel that way. That old fashioned saying that 'love is in the beholder' actually holds so very true!. People used to ask me if 'I was a model' in my 20's and 30's and skinnier than now, yet few of these ever asked me out on a date!. Now I am older and somewhat bigger, men look at me far more - maybe because of my perfect facial features and youthful appearance is unknown, yet believe me, whatever it is you are not consciously projecting - men like it and find you very desirable!. In fact, very few men prefer insects compared to shapely women, You are gorgeous in your very ow right and you need to carry that with confidence.