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https://motivateyourinstincts.com/how-life-changed-in-a-decade/#respondSun, 24 May 2020 08:50:40 +0000http://motivateyourinstincts.com/?p=1238How Life Changed In A Decade How life changed in a decade with the sun rise on 1st Jan,2020. We have come to an end of a decade. We have progressed in all aspects starting from Technology to our Lifestyle. But what has happened to our humanity over this decade? We have really downgraded our …

How life changed in a decade with the sun rise on 1st Jan,2020. We have come to an end of a decade. We have progressed in all aspects starting from Technology to our Lifestyle. But what has happened to our humanity over this decade? We have really downgraded our humanity to such a level that even animals are better than us. Day in day out we see in news about Rapes, riots etc? Why? Have our humanity become so cheap that we do not feel about Pain that others feel?

Helping others :This have just become a trend to show off. We have seen people posting on social medias about these donations. It has become a tool to gain more followers on Instagram, Twitter etc. The only question I have is why we need to show off if we really want to help? A help that is done to gain some profit or advantages is not really a help, but it is a Pure Business. You are looking for your own benefit behind this donation. please help those who need your help, without expecting any in return. Please adhere to saying, “Service to Man is Service to God”. Do not trade the gesture of “HELP”.

Making fun of physically challengedperson: what is worse than making fun of a person is physically challenged? Most of the time, we have seen this in trains and buses, where people refuse to get up from the seats even from those, that are reserved for them. What is the meaning of our education, when we cannot help such people? Some of them even argue with them. Why? just try to answer this question. It is observed that some of them who make fun of such people, think that they look really cool, but in real they are degrading their worth.

Physical abuseThis has increased at lightning speed, whether it rape,molestation or Racism. This is applicable for all genders. Everyday we hear about Rapes and murder happening around us? Why is human becoming more worst then an animal? Even an animal understands the pain that others feel, but we as humans are becoming beast. Even toddlers are not being spared from such monsters. What is the use of our technology, when we cannot protect our children from such people? The technology that was meant to improve our life, has become a curse for us. Raping and uploading video on Porn Sites, why? Just to gain few bucks? Asking for Nudes from your GF/BF, is this what we call Love today? In the name of Love, we have stoop down so low that we forgot what really a human love is.

As I mentioned earlier, the technology that was meant to bring us closer is taking us to a different route altogether. Misuse of such technology have resulted in Riots, where many innocent people got injured, Public and private property destroyed? Why and for whom? Terrorism has increased over this decade, is this the humanity we learn in our schools?

We have just forgotten our roots. We have become too greedy for everything like money, relationships etc. To earn few bucks people don’t even hesitate to kill someone, people shoot videos of rape victims, so they can use it as a tool to blackmail them to get more from victims. Children are forced to beg, they are tortured to the same. We want everything before time. We have lost our patience, everyone wants to just Run, run and run. No one wants to stop and look behind.

It is still not late, we need to teach our children about these things and make them a better human being for future.

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https://motivateyourinstincts.com/how-to-deal-with-rejection/#respondMon, 29 Jul 2019 07:30:16 +0000http://motivateyourinstincts.com/?p=1105How To Deal With Rejection At some point of time each and everyone got rejected in some or the other phase. Some got rejected for Job, some for Promotion while some other were rejected for marriage, to become friends etc. There are some people who believe that their life has come to an end because …

At some point of time each and everyone got rejected in some or the other phase. Some got rejected for Job, some for Promotion while some other were rejected for marriage, to become friends etc. There are some people who believe that their life has come to an end because they were rejected. They take rejection so seriously that they even stop trying for that position or opportunity. We should realize that rejection is a part of life and not the end of Life. Your present attitude to deal with rejection will decide your future course There are some Pro Tips which will how to deal with rejection and come out of it with positive results.

Acknowledge where you went wrong:Rejection is a part of your life. When you are rejected you should not get depressed or discouraged. Neither you should get infuriated. Instead, you should calm down and make a list of all the reasons due to which you might have got rejected. You should have faith in your abilities.

Whether you were rejected for marriage proposal, or for job or for any other opportunity, rejection “hurts”. But you should make your mind, convince yourself, and take a step ahead in search of another opportunity.

Rejection is motivation:Rejection is always an evidence that you are trying. It proves your existence. Rejection should never be reason to demotivate you. In fact, it is one of the biggest motivations. It helps you to strive, to learn new things. If you are never rejected, then probably you are still living into comfort zone.

No matter for what you got rejected, you will always be able to figure out where you are placed at the time of rejection.

Treat yourself with benevolence:After the rejection, do not let yourself down. Never think that you were not eligible, or you lacked the potential to reach that place. Fight with your own negative instincts. Talk kindly with the negative talks that comes to your mind. Never create doubt on your potentials or take yourself downwards. You are a friend to yourself, be with your own company.

Rejection should not decide your destiny:Rejection is not a definition of what knowledge you possess. It is just a situation, where you were not suitable for the company or a person. If a company turns you down, do not think that you are incompetent. Every rejection should be kept in proper perspective. Always remember, one person’s remark does not define your competency. You should never let your self-worth down because of that one person. Everyone has different reasons, different situation to reject. Your destiny remains in your thoughts and the means you choose to come out of that rejection.

Empty road and sunset/sunrise sky, “destiny” text.

Stop overthinking on it:Whichever type of rejection it may, whether it is a job rejection or marriage proposal rejection, you have given enough time for grieving. You should keep that rejections in past and think of future. Sitting back and overthink will not help you, rather it will impact your own morale. If you start thinking, there will come a time when you will hate yourself. It will become a hurdle in your life. So, just think it was a bad time and overcome it.

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https://motivateyourinstincts.com/8-benefits-of-admitting-your-mistakes/#respondWed, 17 Jul 2019 08:40:49 +0000http://motivateyourinstincts.com/?p=10588 Benefits Of Admitting Your Mistakes Admitting your mistakes is the most courageous action. Not everybody out there has the will power or guts to accept their mistakes. It is also one of way of Reinventing Yourself.But it is one of the important parts of our life and proves that we are growing. Below are …

Admitting your mistakes is the most courageous action. Not everybody out there has the will power or guts to accept their mistakes. It is also one of way of Reinventing Yourself.But it is one of the important parts of our life and proves that we are growing. Below are the 8 Benefits Of Admitting Your Mistakes:-

Freedom from Guilt:This is one of the biggest benefits of admitting your mistake. The guilt which you have in your heart, doesn’t let you live normally. Once you admit your mistake, you relieve yourself from this guilt. This helps you live a normal life and focus on your daily stuffs.

Reinstate Trust:Admitting your mistake help you rebuild the trust you have lost. Not every person come and apologize for breaking your trust. If you have broken someone’s trust, just go and admit it. It will take some time to restore the trust, but it will work.

Save a relationship from sinking:You know, a simple “Sorry”, can help saving a sinking relationship not only between couples but also with your friends and family. Why do we hesitate to apologize? Just go an make them know, that you know you have done wrong and that you have accepted your mistake and apologizing for the same. Nothing in this world is more important than your love, friends and family. Do not feel “Small” to apologize.

Shows you are courageous:What does it take to say a “Sorry”? nothing much, correct? But it takes a lot of courage to admit your mistake and rectify it. If you need to come out clean, you need to work on your mistake. By apologizing you are facing your own self and fighting your own instincts to come out of it. Apologizing requires the same guts as that for forgiving.

Helps you come out of your Past:Until and unless you admit your mistake, your heart and mind are tied with the incident that occurred in past. Once you apologize your mistake, you come out of that incident and enjoy your present. If you leave the issues hanging, you won’t be able to focus on any of the new stuffs. Just accept your mistake and move on. There are many such incidents to occur in life and you cannot afford all of them unresolved. Release yourself and move on.

Keeps your mind healthy:Once you have done some mistake or something wrong, you will feel some psychological changes in you. Your mind constantly thinks about it and you can feel pain in your heart. Continuously thinking of this can have a direct impact on your health. Once, you apologize you can feel the difference in yourself. Your mind is restored to its original state.

Help you become humble:No one is perfect. So, when you apologize your mistake. It is small step you have taken to make yourself little perfect. Instead of having an arrogant kind of image, apologizing helps you create a positive image, where people see you as a humble and down to earth person.

Helps you learn from your own mistake:When you apologize, you get to learn where you went wrong. You learn and always try to make sure that you will never repeat the same mistakes again. Always remember, your mistakes are your best teacher. They teach you real values of life and how to face them.

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https://motivateyourinstincts.com/reinvent-yourself/#commentsThu, 11 Jul 2019 07:44:35 +0000http://motivateyourinstincts.com/?p=1046In today’s time we are losing our identity from “WHO WE ARE”. We are trying more to become like how others want us to be. Let’s stop and try to reinvent ourselves and become who we are. Below are the 8 ways you can try to reinvent yourself. Being Oneself Always be faithful and Do …

]]>In today’s time we are losing our identity from “WHO WE ARE”. We are trying more to become like how others want us to be. Let’s stop and try to reinvent ourselves and become who we are. Below are the 8 ways you can try to reinvent yourself.

Being OneselfAlways be faithful and Do not lie to yourself. You eventually become what you think. So, always start your day with a Positive Thought. The Lie you keep repeating to yourself will not help you grow. Always try to Avoid Negative Self Image and your Negative thinking. Do not pay heed to what other people think about you. Try to List down your strengthon a Paper and read it every morning, it will help you re-invent yourself and determine a goal for you. Create a list of your values, carefully analyse it, because your values will determine what you want to be. Learn to find happiness within yourself, don’t depend on other for your happiness.

Embrace your ImperfectionsYou know, the most difficult part is to accept your weaknesses. Your weakness could be anything like Stage Fear, weak memory, crowd phobia etc. Identify it and accept it. If you accept it, you can work on it to convert it in your strength. But, if you do not accept then probably you are not giving yourself a chance to change yourself.

Admit You Are WrongWe all make mistakes. Then why to feel shy or hesitate to accept it? You should realize and accept it because it makes you feel light. Apologize for your mistakes, do not wait for some to poke you for that. You did it , so you must Apologize it. Apologizing relieves you from the guilt.

Give Respect: Giving Respect doesn’t cost anything. It helps to create an image of yourself in someone’s life. When you give respect, you earn respect. Everything will go one fine day, even you will die, but, the Respect that you have earned will always stay Alive. There is a famous saying “As you Sow, so shall you reap”. You are not losing anything by giving respect, but you are earning respect, a soft place in someone’s heart. This act can change the person in you.

“Every day, you reinvent yourself. You’re always in motion. But you decide every day: forward or backward.” —James Altucher

Be Helpful:This is one of the ways to reinvent yourself. We need to understand that Donation is not the only way or mean to help. Always help others when they are in need. Always remember, knowledge is like River, let it flow and help others. When you help others, you are indirectly helping yourself. It helps you in finding your way. Helping others help you to achieve peace of mind and self-satisfaction.

Stretch Your Body:Start your day with exercise. Do some jogging or Yoga. Exercising refreshes your mind. Once mind is fresh it is open for new Ideas. Take out sometime daily schedule for work out. It will give you peace and keep you active for the day. It helps you to become proactive and prepare yourself to accept new challenges.

Set Goals:Setting goals can also help you reinvent yourself. By setting goals you are giving yourself a target to change the way of your life. You select new path for your goals that help you find new people, learn new stuffs. These new experiences help you find yourself and understand your potential much better. The challenges and struggle you face molds you into a new person.

Be Happy:Happiness is something we cannot purchase or steal. Happiness is a state of mind. There are times when we are in trouble or struggling, but that is a part of life. Time passes away, whether it is bad or good. It doesn’t last for ever. We should always find moments of happiness. A smiling face and a happy mind have the power to change the life to some extent.

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https://motivateyourinstincts.com/the-real-truth-of-love/#respondThu, 14 Feb 2019 11:44:11 +0000http://localhost/new/?p=898The Real Truth of Love The Real Truth of Love, “Love Is Biggest Hated Emotion”. Absolutely it’s not wrong. It gives pain as well with happiness, But not in all case. Sometimes all you need is love. Love may give you happiness in your bad time as well. Love is not just a guy holding …

The Real Truth of Love, “Love Is Biggest Hated Emotion”. Absolutely it’s not wrong. It gives pain as well with happiness, But not in all case. Sometimes all you need is love. Love may give you happiness in your bad time as well.

Love is not just a guy holding her girl’s hand and walk around the city. It’s love when a little girl puts her energy to give her father a head massage.It’s love when a wife makes tea for husband and take a sip before him.It’s love when a mother gives her son the best piece of cake. It’s love when your friend holds ur hand tightly on a slippery road.It’s love when your brother messages you and asks did you reach home on time. Love is actually the name of CARE.

]]>https://motivateyourinstincts.com/the-real-truth-of-love/feed/0898salty beach water has created the sweetest memories of lifehttps://motivateyourinstincts.com/salty-beach-water-created-sweetest-memories-life/
https://motivateyourinstincts.com/salty-beach-water-created-sweetest-memories-life/#respondFri, 16 Nov 2018 05:52:25 +0000http://localhost/new/?p=718salty beach water has created the sweetest memories of life Have we ever thought how beautiful nature? If not, then look around beautiful beaches. The salty beach water has created the sweetest memories of life. The best moments spent at beach are always remembered. As a lesson we can learn from nature. Although the environment is …

Have we ever thought how beautiful nature? If not, then look around beautiful beaches. The salty beach water has created the sweetest memories of life. The best moments spent at beach are always remembered. As a lesson we can learn from nature. Although the environment is salty, but still we enjoy because we love the sweetness of people we go with. same is with people, there are many people with flaws, but if we ignore them, then they will surely give us best memories of life. We have to learn to ignore the flaws in people and rather accept them with good qualities they have.

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https://motivateyourinstincts.com/no-one-perfect/#respondThu, 06 Sep 2018 11:37:58 +0000http://localhost/new/?p=518No one is perfect No one is perfect so accept the person you love as they are. The way they treat you is more important then their perfection. Every person on this planet has some or the other thing missing in them. But, rather than looking at the flaws in any person and looking at …

No one is perfect so accept the person you love as they are. The way they treat you is more important then their perfection. Every person on this planet has some or the other thing missing in them. But, rather than looking at the flaws in any person and looking at other side, life would be much happy. In today’s life, when people get into love or marriage, they look for perfection and not the nature. The flaws which we are saying can be anything starting from their features to financial status. Many a time a relationship is ended saying,”You are not a perfect partner for me”. What exactly is this perfection? Many a times this perfection means ,”You are not doing thing according to me”. There is merely a ego problem.

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https://motivateyourinstincts.com/everybody-has-flaws/#respondThu, 30 Aug 2018 15:44:20 +0000http://localhost/new/?p=491Everybody has flaws:- Everybody has flaws. And the journey to transform your imperfections to become perfect is definitely a memorable one.

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https://motivateyourinstincts.com/to-be-honest-is-difficult-than-to-be-dishonest/#respondTue, 28 Aug 2018 14:34:49 +0000http://localhost/new/?p=457To be honest is difficult than to be dishonest To be honest is difficult than to be dishonest .Since childhood we are hearing,”Answer Honestly” or accept your mistake Honestly. What is this Honesty and how does it make an imperfect person perfect? We have seen people who are respected more for saying lies and spreading …

To be honest is difficult than to be dishonest .Since childhood we are hearing,”Answer Honestly” or accept your mistake Honestly. What is this Honesty and how does it make an imperfect person perfect? We have seen people who are respected more for saying lies and spreading fake news. There are people who think dishonesty pays, but they are wrong.

To be honest is difficult than to be dishonest

To be perfect you don’t always need to excelling in academics or in profession. If you are a bit honest in what you do it will help you succeed. Whether it is school or office, if you have done a mistake, just accept it rather than playing volley ball. If you are dishonest, it will help you achieve respect and success temporary, but if you are honest, you will earn respect and success a bit late. Honesty will take time for you to go up, but I can bet , it will be permanent as you will win hearts of people. Hence we say ,”