Tuesday, 5 June 2018

9 Things You Can't Overlook in A Relationship

Every
relationship has ups and downs, be it a small one or a big one. Some issues in
a relationship are willingly ignored in a way to ignore arguments and some are
overlooked. The petty issues in a relationship can be ignored but there exist a
few things that should not be overlooked. Here are a few examples of those
things which are failed to be noticed:

1. No Time for Us

This
is a very common issue that arises in every relationship. This complaint is
usually from the females that the males do not give their relationship enough
time and either are they busy with their family or with their work. No guy
realizes that their girl or woman in their life needs time from them be it in
any way. This mostly happens in a case of long distance relationships where
they don't even realize that they are not giving time to their partners and get
engaged in their work so much that their relationships end breaking up.

2. Talk It Out

Most
of the relationships are very flat because they don't share things with each
other, be it their problems, their feelings about each other or anything.
Sharing everything with each other makes your partner more comfortable and he
or she doesn't have to think before they share anything. Sharing everything with
your partner makes you feel lighter and lets your partner know that you trust
him or her. Hence, you should share every bit with your partner even if it is
your frustration.

3. Importance

Importance
is another issue that arises most commonly in a relationship. Complaints about
giving importance to others and not their partners exist. "Importance to
others" is most commonly referred to the friends. Girls complain of their
guys that they completely forget about them when it comes to their friends and
no importance is given to the girls. Girls say that they feel like they don't
even exist in their partner's life whenever their partner is with their friends
and that the girls always give their partners importance no matter what.

4. Compromise

This
issue goes with both sides of the relationship, be it on the male side or the
female side. Both the sides have the same issue of compromising on things to
keep their partners happy. They say that they always have to compromise on
things that may be of some importance, but still they have to give up on it for
their partner's happiness. To compromise on things for your partners leads to
huge arguments in a relationship and thus people ignore this issue in order t
stay away from arguments.

5. Space

Space,
again, is a very crucial topic in a relationship. Giving space to your partners
is one thing that both the partners need. But there are a few relationships
which are just closed by themselves which can also be called being possessive
for your partner or even getting obsessed with your partner. There are times
when one partner is possessive about the other partner not giving his or her
space and they do not realise it, thus the issue being overlooked.

6. Dominance

This
issue also develops with both the partners, Dominance arises when your partner
only wants you to do as he or she says and they themselves do not listen to the
other one. They think that his or her partner cannot go against them no matter
what and will also listen to them and go according to what they say. Dominance
puts pressure on the other partner and at times they are even scared to let the
dominant partner know and they keep shut and just go according to him or her.

7. Loyalty

Another
major issue in a relationship is loyalty which is ignored when a partner is not
aware of his or her partner's whereabouts and doings. When any partner is not
happy in a relationship, he or she mostly find happiness with someone else, but
they even don't want to hurt their partners, so they date other people but in
hide and seek. To be precise, they double-date. The partners are unaware of
their double-dating partner's happenings and thus the problem is overlooked.

8. Misunderstanding

Relationships
with misunderstandings more often can be a problem which is overlooked in order
to avoid arguments. If one partner says anything which he or she may not mean
it as their partner misinterprets, can create a huge misunderstanding. This can
happen more frequently. When the other partner more often misinterprets the sentences,
the other partner does not argue with him or her because they know it would
lead to misunderstandings creating distances between them. More often this
issue is also overlooked when the partner does not argue or does not correct
the one who has misinterpreted the words wrong.

9. Trust Issues

Trust
issues are a general issue that arises in a relationship. If we take an example
of a couple where if the girl is seen with any guy, her partner has trust
issues. He thinks that she is cheating on him, but vice versa, if the guy is
seen with any girl, his partner completely understands him and has no issues
with it. When this happens, the girl thinks that even her partner trusts her as
much as she does and this problem is not at all disclosed or looked into These
petty issues if solved would bring happiness and joy in every relationship but
it should be looked into firstly for solving these issues. These overlooked
issues, if not solved, could be a huge mess for a long-term relationship.