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What if we get a girl and he really wanted a boy?

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My boyfriend and I both have 4 year old girls from previous relationships. We were both really excited when I got pregnant, and like most men, he wants a boy. I'll be happy with either but I'm afraid he'll be really disappointed if it's a girl. We have an ultrasound next week when we should find out; how can I tacfully handle his disappointment if it is a girl?

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I think every guy wants a boy. It's totally up to chance though and they understand that (You can remind your boyfriend that it's up to him what sex it is--whether his sperm had an X or Y). Hopefully if he is disappointed it won't last very long. Good luck! Either sex is great... I'm sure he'll be happy either way.

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