Through the
years I’ve discovered something about writing that I never expected. I always
believed that to be a successful writer you had to learn to write better,
be diligent about networking and keep submitting. Those are all important,
but it turns out the biggest things that affect my writing happen in my head.

By allowing all
sorts of negative thoughts, emotions and habits creep into my mind I was
defeating myself before I put the first word on the page. I’d like to share 8
things that will derail your writing goals the fastest, and invite you to learn
from my mistakes.

1. Looking
Back, instead of ahead.
It’s easy to get lost in the past, rehearsing old mistakes instead of looking
ahead. You can’t make much forward progress if you spend all your time looking
in the rearview mirror.

2. Believing
You’re not Good Enough. I
have trouble looking at what I do and being satisfied. This is a business where
you need to have confidence in yourself and in your calling to be a writer.

3. Comparing
Yourself to Others. There
are always going to be people out there who are more talented, who got the
break you hoped for, who are further ahead on the writing journey. Learn right
now that THEY are none of your concern. You need to focus on you, not others.

4. Spending
Time Talking about Writing Instead of Writing. This is a tough one. It’s so much easier
to spend time with writers, to read writing books and blogs, even attend
writing events than it is to put your butt in the chair and pound out words.

5. Setting
Goals with Strings Attached.
Set your goals and go for them all out. Don’t set limits or conditions.

6. Negative
Self Talk. I am way
harder on myself than others are. I can rattle off about a million reasons that
I’m not good enough, won’t be able to succeed, shouldn’t have the chances that
come my way. I have to work hard not to defeat myself before I get started.

7. Not
Returning to Writing after a Break. There are times when we have to step away from writing. The reasons
can range from illness, to family commitments, to all sorts of things. And
truthfully the longer I’m away from regular writing time, the harder it is to
come back. But even that’s no excuse for putting in the time I need to move
forward with my writing goals.

8. Expecting
Talent to Get You Where You Want to Be. Raw talent is a good thing. BUT it’s not the best thing. The best
things are discipline and an unwillingness to give up. Trust me, with writing,
good things come to those who persevere.

These are some of
the things that have kept me from moving forward with my writing career. I’ve
learned—often the hard way—to avoid them at all cost. How about you? What has
kept you from writing success? Be sure to leave your thoughts in the section
below.