Agreed felicia, part of me thinks he married the new chick because she fits the "image"...these mofawkas always kick to the curb the women who held them down when when were nobodies. Theyll be divorced in 16 months. These nuccas aint loyal.

Once again Black women & girls will never learn. We give up the vagina that too easy & get nothing in return A committed relationship is not Baby I love you. Its standing b4 a judge or minister. You have sex b4 marriage, get pregnant don't complain when you get left high & dry.

That goes both ways hoes and dogs are winning the saying used to be "Good men are hard to find" now it goes both ways..to my ladies out there lying to there men and vice versa... There is a new strain of yeast infection that is resistant to antibiotics

@4:48...umm you sound beyond foolish.Trust, they screwed B4 marriage. Know that.This is not 1916 ok it's 2016 men are NOT waiting for sex & THAT's reality.Most Men marry because it is more of a benefit for them...its not about the woman.That wife title is really a live- in maid/ cook/Nurse/ Baby sitter.Marriage is NOT what it used to be

Honestly I wish that things were different BUT today as an woman ( especially an AA woman)You ARE being cheated on OR you are screwing a man who is cheating.

Very few relationships are monogamous as they should be ideally.THIS is why I've chosen to be celibate...

These men do not value US until they are old,fat,with unattractive smiles and non- working penises.

Marriage IS what is used to be. But we have people getting married who shouldn't be. Marriage is not a game. God don't like ugly..aT SOME POINT during this entire 10 years she knew about this other chick. Both of them did. But because he is a football player these chicks accepted the BAD BEHAVIOR.This is the kind of man who will NEVER be faithful.NO PRIZE here!and if he is this triflin in his personal life he won't last long in the NFL. Good things never come to men like this.

Marriage has existed before yall and will go on to exist after yall are in the ground. Period. Yall can sulk and be single, stay with someone who doesn't respect you, or find someone who actually LOVES you. Your choice. And no "hoes" aren't winning, because God ALWAYS has the last word.

Thank you @8:28AM. Marriage is what it used to be; PEOPLE (in this case black people) aren't what they used to be.

Please tell me how prior to the 1960s black neighborhoods were thriving (with those neighborhoods having a town center with mostly black businesses), 90% of black families were living in the same house, conversely there was a 10% illegitimate rate (even lower than white people at the time), and black treated each other with dignity and respect? But hardly any of that exists now!

@4:48 You are getting trashed by WHORES but you are exactly right! People act like marriage is outdated but what exactly is coming out of being a baby mama and baby daddy and living on the system?! The morals in this world are trash and all you have to do is look on instagram to see that the black community of this era is a joke. It's just a bunch of whores, hookers, niggas, homosexuals, trannies, you name it...and believe it or not there ARE people who wait til marriage before they sleep with someone. TRUST and believe not ALL of us are low self esteem WHORES that are used up by the time we're 22. And the niggas who walk around with sagging pants make it so hard for the black men who look and carry themselves professionally. And these NIGGAS will try their best to holla at you with their lazy, ghetto, nonachieving arses. LOL

^^^11:32 So in other words your Husband is cheating on you too,and you know about it.It makes you feel better to call her or them Whites when in fact he is leaving your house to go and have Sex with them (Most likely raw dog)...then comes back home to you. Yeah ok.

Whites (as you call them) are mou pulling out guns chasing him.These men are pulling out their "guns" and chasing other women.#FACT

Most women are not against the sanctity of Marriage as God designed it to be because we are wired for companionship.

It's not Wives vs Whores.It's men taking advantage of the Male shortage and it's not fair.If there were enough men, things would be different.

It takes two to have sex before marriage. Please stop this slanted ass commentary. Both men and women scheme like a muthafugga, so stop acting like black women are the only victims, cuz you females be on some bullshit just like these dudes. People not having the character to get married and stay loyal to their spouses doesn't make marriage whack. It's pretty simple, actually. People's selfish desires make the shit difficult.

Maybe when these rich athlete niggas remove the superficial values they place on females that are "marriage material," they'll lose the corny image of what an athlete/celebrity's wife should look like and appear to be. Maybe when females stop regarding these athlete niggas as automatic husband material just because they got a pro contract, they'll give a real man a chance and find real happiness.

Until then, the saga of side bitches and side niggas will continue to play out and be a major theme of "black love".

"Yes, I'm a Black woman but I refuse to "find" a man. Either they come find me or it doesn't happen."

Then WTF is your problem? Sit and WAIT. Spend your time praying. You just sound butthurt to me. And yes my comment was meant to encourage those who think "hoes be winnin" and other nonsense. Charlie Sheen was "winnin" at one point as well.