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August 1, 2010

A special BIRTHDAY surprise

We are BACK!

After our MONTH long vacation, I made it home just in time for a little someones birthday. I couldn't WAIT! Our baby girl, who isn't so baby-ish anymore celebrated her 7th birthday on Wednesday. I have looked forward for this birthday EVERYDAY for the past 2.5 months.

Why you ask?

I guess I am jumping the gun of future posts, but Ryan made videos for the kids for special birthdays/milestones. When Ryan was making the videos, Hallie's birthday was right around the corner. He knew he probably wouldn't still be here for her birthday and he wanted to be sure she would have a special surprise from him, so he made a video for her 7th birthday.

I am so grateful Ryan took the time to make these special gifts and memories for the children. I know they will be forever grateful...

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Ryan adored his baby girl and they both shared a special bond. I'm not sure if it was because she was the firstborn, a girl or just his little princess? But one thing I do KNOW for sure is that

Hallie will ALWAYS be a Daddy's girl

Told ya:

L.O.V.E

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Wednesday morning came and I woke up with butterflies in my stomach. I was SO excited for Hallie to enjoy the special gift from her father and so excited to see the love of my life again. I couldn't wait to hear Ryan's voice, hear the advice and words of love he would give Hallie and most of all, to see Hallie's reaction...

When Ryan made the videos he went into the room and taped them alone. While he was taping, we put a note on the door to be quiet and Hallie remembered back to that time. As she was looking at the DVD and with a BIG smile on her face, she said, "Is this the videos that Dad was making? Is Dad on here?"

She was very EXCITED, although I think I was just a TAD bit more than her... (I could have easily gone and watched all the videos but have chosen to wait and watch them as they are given)

...the ANTICIPATION

Ry!!!!!

I had no idea what he was going to say, but he had lots of advice for Hallie for this upcoming year with school and preparing for her Baptism. He talked about when she was born and the love he has for her... it was wonderful, absolutely wonderful!

I love that Ryan came as a special guest on Hallie's big day. I bet he had been anxiously awaiting that day as well. I am sure he loved being able to send some love your way. What an unforgettable birthday gift.

This is one of my favortie posts ever. As I read the Spirit reminded me again of how close Ryan really is.

What a wonderful surprise. Being a daddy's girl myself, I understand that special bond and will always cherish our relationship. Hallie, I hope you had a fantastic birthday and enjoyed seeing your special surprise as a perfect way to start your day. Margie, 4 words: "you are truly amazing"

Hallie is daddy's little girl but looks exactly like her beautiful mother. I remember you telling me about these tapes and I am so happy that Ryan was able to that for all three of you. How special to have him come into your lives just when you need him most. We love you!!!!

So sweet! What a precious spirit was felt as I read through this post. What a sweet little memory to cherish on her birthday, one she/you can view often for comfort. I can only imagine the smiles on your faces,followed by the tears.Love you guys so much! Happy Birthday Hallie!!!

I walked in when Tim was reading this and I could tell it was a great post from the look on his face. I LOVE reading that. What great picture too! What a wonderful Birthday suprise!And such a Great idea!Hallie looks so beautiful in her birthday pictures! Hope your Birthday was everything you wanted happy Happy Birthday Hallie!

Margie glad you're back Nice job with all that driving! We want to come see ya this month I'll eamil or call you with the date!Can't wait to catch up! We LOVE YOU GUyS!!!!

OMG Marg, you make me cry every time I read your posts! They are so heart felt and I love it!! Thanks for sharing all the memories of Ryan. It's so neat that I knew him at BYU-I and then he got married and then has two adorable kids. Just soo fun to see all these miracles that are happening to your family. Thanks again for sharing!!! It puts a big smile on my face to read your blog!!! I don't think you'll ever know how many hearts you have touched. Thank you.XoxoxoHeather

Margie, she is absolutely beautiful! What an amazing gift Ryan left and how fun for all of you to get to look forward to those. I can't believe your self control. I would so want to watch them all! Hope Hallie had a great birthday!

What a great birthday present. I can imagine how excited you all were to watch the video. I had such a good feeling inside as I read this post. I know Ryan was there as you watched. I hope it was the best birthday. I love being able to continue to read about your family and how things are going. Thanks for still sharing!

hi, found you thru blog luxe award... I started blogging this November and one of my first posts was to inspire men and women to write letters to their children about their love for them , how proud they are and about their birthdays and or being born,...lots of people called me morbid... but I feel it's important.. and then tonight I stumble on your beautiful blog and beautiful daughter...and I sit crying but am thrilled about him leaving the children cd's for milestones and a chance to get a glimpse... of him again.. my dad died suddenly of a heart attack in 2003 and i wish he had left me a note, cd or anything more than my minds memories... I will be placing you on my blog roll... Lisaeatmywords40@yahoo.comhttp://nf1andpre-kwhisper.blogspot.com

She is GORGEOUS... just like her mama. I am so happy you made it home safe. I have really missed you! I think it is so cool you are waiting with much anticipation to see Ryan's videos. Once you reach that date they should be free reign though so you can get some sunshime if you need it :) Hallie is such a sweet spirit & the Lord knoew that she'd go through this with you & sent HER to YOU, and YOU to HER! What an adventure you will share. She inspires me just as much as you do! LOVE YA!

it was so sweet to hear he was talking to hallie about preparing for baptism! that is the best gift, thank you again for sharing and yes, your photos are amazing!happy 7th birthday, hallie!!we miss you here in Kenosha, Wilove the delavans

Ryan was diagnosed in June of 09 with Hepatoslpenic T-cell Lymphoma(HSTCL). After 3 rounds of chemo and a Bone Marrow Transplant he went into a brief remission. Unfortunately, the cancer came back and he fought through 2 more rounds of chemo. He peacefully passed away on May 17, 2010. Thank you for the continued LOVE and SUPPORT!
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