go through hardships 苦痛

It is hardship for me to go to see my son's soccer games.

Many bloggers seem to have smart children, but I'm in the opposite side.My son is not good at only studying, but also playing soccer.According to his sports tests or some other events, I believe that his exercise capacity is better than average in his class.However, I have to admit that he is the worst soccer player in his team of his club.

There are two teams in his grade. One is a stronger team, and the other is the second. They often have games respectively with other club teams on weekends. And each team has not only the same grade(age) players but also several younger players. Members are often changeable.

My son isn't sometimes chosen even in the second team. In winter, they can't play outside because of the snow, then they play futsal now.When the members chosen go to play on weekend, my son and a few members not chosen sometimes play at homegym, but sometimes they don't have. Then he plays DS games at home.Better players have many games, but worse players have fewer games. It causes that the better players become good at playing more, and vice versa.

I'm not good at driving, so it's good for me to not drive my son to the venue. On the other hand, I'm sorry for him. I want him to be good at it, but it's difficult to find a place to practice it.

If my son is chosen as a team player, it is also hardship for me. During the game, I'm worried if how long he might be at the bench. The hardest thing for me was that the last game he played last month. I was glad that he played the game at first, but at the last part, the match went into a penalty shootout (PK). Then his coach made all members in his team but my son play it. I was about to cry then.

My son has never cried from his mortifying feelings. I don't know his feelings, but he doesn't say that he wants to quit playing soccer. To tell the truth, I want him to quit it, but I'll never say it to him. I have to wait for his graduation.My brother said to me that I should burn this moment of my son as he was into my memory. It is only short time in my life. And he also said to me that children went through hardship would grow a lot in the future, so, don't worry!.My feeling became better to hear that.

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When I read a post like this, I think of my mother -- did she think of my hardships like this? I was not so popular and I didn't do any sports at all. But we couldn't afford the money to do sports either.

This is not a criticism, just a comment. Because I'm not a mother, I can't think like one. I'm interested in hearing about your thoughts as a mother.

English Corrections

Original Article:

It is hardship for me to go to see my son's soccer games.

Many bloggers seem to have smart children, but I'm in the opposite side.
My son is not good at only studying, but also playing soccer.
According to his sports tests or some other events, I believe that his exercise capacity is better than average in his class.
However, I have to admit that he is the worst soccer player in his team of his club.

There are two teams in his grade. One is a stronger team, and the other is the second. They often have games respectively with other club teams on weekends. And each team has not only the same grade(age) players but also several younger players. Members are often changeable.

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It is hard for me to see my son's soccer games.

Many bloggers seem to have smart children, but I'm on the opposite side.
My son is neither so good academically nor is he so good at playing soccer.

According to his sports tests and some other sports events, I believe that his exercise capacity is better than average in his class.
However, I have to admit that he is the worst soccer player on his team.

There are two teams in his grade. Team One is the strongest team. Team Two comprises the rest of the players. Each team often has games with other club teams on the weekends. Each team not only has the same grade(age) players, but also several younger players. Members are often swapped between the teams, or with non-playing members of the club.

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My son isn't sometimes chosen even in the second team. In winter, they can't play outside because of the snow, then they play futsal now.
When the members chosen go to play on weekend, my son and a few members not chosen sometimes play at homegym, but sometimes they don't have. Then he plays DS games at home.
Better players have many games, but worse players have fewer games. It causes that the better players become good at playing more, and vice versa.

I'm not good at driving, so it's good for me to not drive my son to the venue. On the other hand, I'm sorry for him. I want him to be good at it, but it's difficult to find a place to practice it.

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My son sometimes is not even chosen for the second team. In winter, they can't play outside because of the snow, so, they will sometimes play Futsal indoors.

When the chosen members for the teams compete on the weekends, my son, and a few members who were not chosen, will sometimes play at a home gym, but one is not always available. When this happens, he just plays DS games at home.

Good players compete in many games, but the not so good players compete in far fewer games. This causes the good players to become better, and the not so good players to become worse.

I'm not good at driving, so it's good that I do not have to drive my son to the weekend games. On the other hand, I feel sorry for him. I want him to be good at it, but it's difficult to find a place for him to practice.

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Original Article:

If my son is chosen as a team player, it is also hardship for me.
During the game, I'm worried if how long he might be at the bench.
The hardest thing for me was that the last game he played last month.
I was glad that he played the game at first, but at the last part, the match went into a penalty shootout (PK). Then his coach made all members in his team but my son play it.
I was about to cry then.

My son has never cried from his mortifying feelings. I don't know his feelings, but he doesn't say that he wants to quit playing soccer.
To tell the truth, I want him to quit it, but I'll never say it to him. I have to wait for his graduation.
My brother said to me that I should burn this moment of my son as he was into my memory. It is only short time in my life. And he also said to me that children went through hardship would grow a lot in the future, so, don't worry!.
My feeling became better to hear that.

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If my son is chosen as a team player, it is also a hardship for me.
During the game, I'm worried how long he might be on the bench.
A difficult time for me was the last game he played last month.
At first, I was glad that he played in the game. However, near the end of the match, the game went into a penalty shootout (PK). His coach then had all the other members in his team participate, except my son.

I almost cried when I had seen that.

My son has never cried from being left out. I don't know his feelings, but he has never said that he wished to quit playing soccer.
To tell the truth, I want him to quit, but I'll never say it to him. I have to wait for his graduation.

My brother told me that I should burn these precious moments with my son into my memory, as life is so short. He also told me that children who go through hardship would gain in maturity because of it, and so, to not worry!

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Hi, Always visiting.

Any mothers go through hardship more than once when they raise their children. Probably, your mother had the kind of experience for you.
When my son gets older, I will have another hardship. That is a mother.