husband, I discovered many emails, Facebook messages, linkedin messages, and other links to messages to other women. They were very explicitly sexual in nature-propositioning and indicating the want for a "discreet" encounter. There were very blatant physical details in the...

I found out after 17 years of marriage (19 years together) that my sweet kind caring husband wasn't who he said he was. He had two affairs! One with my so called best friend after 2 years of being married and for the past year with his secretary. He also had online affairs and...

and together for 8 and have two sons. But throughout the whole marriage i have at least found out about one woman for every year. He jus doesnt stop. Its always a cycle with him. He usually starts with ignoring me, always on his ipad or phone. Doesnt pay me much attn. Then...

He was smart and cute and we got along great. As time passed my husband seemed to grow board. This I didn't realize until when I was 33,the day I found out he was cheating on me. I was devastated and I was even more upset with myself. I then realized I needed to put in more...

anymore. I have completely lost faith in everything. I don't much care to even take care of myself. Before the affair I was completely into fitness, crafts, the outdoors, now...nothing. I have no want need or desire to do anything for myself. I find no point in trying. Because...

It was December 27 2006. A cousin I rarely see came over to visit with me and told me she had seen my husband at her obstetricians office with another woman. She said they were holding hands and laughing like a loving couple. I was positive it had to be a case of wrong...

Hello I'm in my early twenties and I've been in a relationship for 4 years, but 3 months ago i found out through his Facebook messages that he was cheating on me with another girl for over a year. He wouldn't admit anything, and he is still claims that there where just...

and never stop.
Can't you see this is killing me and I don't know if I can survive this pain my heart torn to pieces my soulf shatted I wish I could drown you in the rain of my tears.
How could you do this after so many years.
Please someone take my pain away. Don't think I...

Ive been married for 3 years I found out this year in June that my husband was cheating on me with the mother of his daughter... I also have two kids with him... the day i found out was the day I died inside im still with him but the pain is there everyday... They way i found out...

for almost 30yrs and married for about 18yrs with 5 beautiful children. He venture to Philipine for business and love to settle there. He's got quite a strong personality and often raged over the slightest issue. To my surprise, I got to know that he's cheating on me with many...

for ten years and he has cheated on me for most of those years.
I believe that the cheating started after the loss of our first child. I was seven months pregnant with our daughter when I went into premature labor and she was stillborn. After that he pulled away and the...

for the past 8 years. I tried to bring my daughter with me but she did not like the country where I work that's why she went back to our home country. I have been married for 11 years and did not have a problem until recently when me and my husband got separated because of...

on me for the past year (as far as he has admitted, anyway). Various women, random hook ups, no reason other than "he wasn't thinking". I feel I could get passed it with less difficulty had it been one time, a weak human moment. But this was multiple people, more than enough...

x web site chatrooms starts talking to the girls then exchanges messenger ID's to private chat with them so he can tell them what he wants them to do while he watches. When he found out I was hurt and mad about it he told me that's what he likes to do and he didn't know what my...

I am almost 25 years old and was with my husband for almost 10 years. We had been married for 2 years and I am almost 9 months pregnant. In the begining of April of this year he all of a sudden had a need to go out with single guy friends that he just met. He...

I won't bore you with all the details - so here are the highlights.
>I suspected he was having an affair and confronted him. Of course, he denied it. This went on for 2 years until the other woman called me. It was also an attempt to get me to leave him since he wouldn't leave...

I just found out for sure May. 27 an I can't think of nothing else , the girl was his sons girlfriend and she is pregnant supposed to b by my husband , I can't cope I cry all the time , he swears it's over was just a fling or midlife crisis but he's changed his number 3 times...

i was 6 months pregnant with our first child when my husband cheated on me or at least tried to cheat on me. we both work overseas but i had to come home to our country and he had to stay where we were so i could have our baby around family. while he was there he asked someone...

and told me April 21, 2013. In October of that same year after getting me and my children to leave the home, I did a difficult pregnancy alone and all the drama he caused he begged for us to come back. it lasted till the divorce I had filed for was vacated then he let it drop he...

, I got engaged with my boyfriend after 2 years on Christmas Eve an since then our relationship has sucked , he's fooled around , I went through his things and trust has been broken , atleast for me . He never wants to break up and he does try to be sweet but he tells his...

for ten years. I was 17 and he was 24. We have always been so attached to each and so much in love. We were best friends and told each other everything. We had our ups and downs just like any other relationship. At the end of the day, we always had that love for each other. He...

He wasn't my type at all, when we first met. He was loud, arrogant, cocky and thought he was a bad mf. We were friends at first, but then I was able to see the side no one ever did. The sweet side who was vunerable and human. Like a fool, I fell in love hard. Harder then any...

I recently discovered my husband's multiple affairs over the last 10 years.We have been married for 30 years.We were high school sweet hearts.To others he seemed like a doting husband and many female friends and family members envied me.I had sensed he is not "all that into me...

as if it were yesterday. I knew it was happening. I was in school, college, and I was doing very well. Our lives had diverged, it seemed. I began spending more time at school, more time studying, and he began spending more time at his important after work activity. (I don...

that he hit on my sister a few years earlier when she was 17 while I was at work and he was 'interview coaching' her for jobs in our apartment.
Apparently he talked her into teaching her to kiss, put his hand down her pants and they played truth or dare where he dared her her...

My husband meet this person through his job. She lives in another state he told me about her early on because we share the same name. Their relationship turn into and emotional affair I am not sure when, but the text messages started around Thanksgiving this year. I didn't find...

First of all, i never get on forums like this or write about my problems on the internet. but i just feel like letting it all out. i dont want to tell my family so i will vent on here. My husband and i have been together for almost five years. i was married before and had one...

when he left me for another woman that he had just met. She was wicked and manipulative and he bent to her whims by saying truly horrible and mean things to me such as " I never knew what love was until I met(sic) cuntface". The OW also told me about other times in the past five...

We pace, we worry, we question, we call friends for advice. For what? WHAT IF HE IS CHEATING? You are getting yourself into a lather and emotionally you are driving yourself nuts. Well IF MEN ARE GOING TO THINK WITH THERE LITTLE HEADS, YOU HAVE TO STOP THINKING WITH YOUR HEART...

hi.im 25 and when i was 4months pregnant i found out my partner of 4years was cheating on me with some one he worked with. we were over the moon when we found out we were having a baby,started making plans and reading all the baby books.like you do.then when i hit 3months my...

he told me things to make me stay. I believed him, and stayed through my pain. A few times throughout the year I found out more lies and mainly about how long he had been perusing an affair. I finally explained to him how broken I really am from what he had done, he said he...

I can barely bring myself to think the world mistress because that makes his cheating feel even more real. But I suppose that’s what she was.
Ten years younger than me. He wasn't just attracted by her young body but by her "funny" and "interesting" personality. She's...

I was so excited! Then 2 months ago I found out that while we were engaged and our first 2 years of marriage were a lie. He was cheating on me with a w$ore online. I feel so betrayed! How do I get over this?

I forgave him and moved on. he's given me several other reasons not to trust him so I created a fake Facebook page and he took the bait. I feel like I was wrong but I needed to know. I'm leaving him now but it hurts like hell

three month affair with a girl 16 years younger. he's my ex now and I hate him...he ruined my retirement from my job, he took all my money, and he's a big phony on his new Harley. he's messed my son up mentally. I keep waiting for karma to get him. I'd never take him back I'm...

Julian,
I hate what you have done to me. I hate that you betrayed my trust, my love, and our relationship. When I thought you told me you loved me I thought it was for me and me alone. I can't believe that you lied on me several times and had many adulterous affairs. All I ever...

I feel totally lost! So my husband met this girl on chat 2 years ago and started talking. I didnt think anything of it cause she didnt live close by. Well she was a mutual friend of a family member so they continued to talk and get to know each other. Well after a year and a half...

for highschool. So he won't have to be near or live with the kids and mom (to whom was a neighbor "friend/acquaintance") that his dad has decided will move in with them. I feel bad. I also don't want them to live with or be near my kids either. I know them, I babysat them and...

9years, been together 13. We have 2 beautiful children together and a year ago he moved out and in with a girl he works with who is more than 10 years younger. He never tried to see the kids, doesn't call them. Most days I am well and happy without him, knowing I'm probably...

Dear ladies you are really really a good wife.If i am in your shoes i would kick him out and give him a black eye.If you want to make the marriage work, he has to do something.First, he has to work harder to support the family. Don't let him get away so easy spending your hard...

I have loved you so much. I know i am not the best wife or the nicest person. I do know there is no one else in the world who could love you more than i do.
I wish we could erase this all From happening and from our memories.
I want to be enough for you. I know I have let myself...