So how big of an asshole am I, if when visiting a friend while her BF is away, a BF I know she has been getting frustrated with, I hook up with her? Mind you I'm not seeing anyone at home that I'd be cheating on, although that's because I've carefully avoided asking out my dance teacher, who's really into me, until I get back.

If you are asking yourself how big of an asshole would I be, you should already have your answer.

It really doesn't matter what any of us say, you're going to do what you want anyway. Whether you want to not feel like an asshole and get some easy ***** or not is up to you. Either way, you live and you learn.

If you are asking yourself how big of an asshole would I be, you should already have your answer.

It really doesn't matter what any of us say, you're going to do what you want anyway. Whether you want to not feel like an asshole and get some easy ***** or not is up to you. Either way, you live and you learn.

So how big of an asshole am I, if when visiting a friend while her BF is away, a BF I know she has been getting frustrated with, I hook up with her? Mind you I'm not seeing anyone at home that I'd be cheating on, although that's because I've carefully avoided asking out my dance teacher, who's really into me, until I get back.

Are you friends with the BF? If not, then its totally cool. Not even a question or doubt. Fill her up.

I don't know the guy, but they've been together for a while. Almost met him once, but I passed out while they were driving through town. Anyway, I've known her for a long time and I'm pretty sure it's not like she's growing apart from him because of me.

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I think the bro code is if you've never shaken hands with the guy, then his girl is fair game. It gets grey whether or not she has to be the one to initiate the encounter or if you can do it, and the "unless she's really, really hot" argument is always perpetuated by scholars.

Gentleman's code would be to refuse her regardless, but don't be a *****.

My friends and I were talking about this the other day. Could you date **** or a girl who has ****** a lot more guys then you have girls? Personally I said no because im a big of a old school kind of guy.

My friends and I were talking about this the other day. Could you date **** or a girl who has ****** a lot more guys then you have girls? Personally I said no because im a big of a old school kind of guy.

I think the bro code is if you've never shaken hands with the guy, then his girl is fair game. It gets grey whether or not she has to be the one to initiate the encounter or if you can do it, and the "unless she's really, really hot" argument is always perpetuated by scholars.

Gentleman's code would be to refuse her regardless, but don't be a *****.

I'm such an asshole. I slept with my buddy's ex-girl on my birthday. He already had another girlfriend and was on the other side of the country though.

With that said, she had a new boyfriend, but they just broke up. Hopefully if my media credentials for the Temple-Nova game comes through, I'll be able to see her next week.

My friends and I were talking about this the other day. Could you date **** or a girl who has ****** a lot more guys then you have girls? Personally I said no because im a big of a old school kind of guy.

Ummm...it really doesnt matter, as long as she's clean. The character of the person is what matters....and if we're talking about wifing this girl up. You better be sure you can trust her. Learned from experience. If we're talking just straight hooking up w/ a girl like that...def. not my thing. I think that's pretty gross...i dont want to be just another number or notch on some girls belt. I know plenty of girls like this, and I wouldnt touch any of them. If I truly liked a girl, who has had a **** ton of experience, or a history of sleeping around...I would want exclusitivity and a real relationship. And that could be hard to come by, with a lot of these girls who sleep around. But just because a girl has a history of banging a bunch of people...doesnt mean, I would write them off completely. I dont think like a lot of these people do...but some girls are just wild when they're not tied down, but can remain faithful and be a great gf, if they were in a relationship. It really varies on the person.

I'm pretty old school...so I hate the fact that I know so many girls, who dont want relationships. They just want to live it up, **** around, and leave all the "serious stuff" for later. Summer Finn? ha. I dont get it myself...I would love a true companion...If I find a girl I want to be with...I wouldnt feel like I was missing out on anything. I cant do the random hookups anymore. Give me something real, over that **** any day. I want someone I could share everything with, not just **** from time to time and get drunk with. It gets old.

I've always found it easier to keep a nice separation of needs, become friends with the girls I actually like just hanging out with and talking to, bone the ones I'm attracted to but could never be "just friends" with. That way when my relationships go to hell, as they inevitably do, I'm not losing the people that really matter to me and being friends with so many beautiful woman makes it a lot easier to find someone new.

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JPP is a better and more productive player than Brandon Graham

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Is Shaun Hill a top 10 QB? Definitely not. Is he a top 20 one? Almost certainly.