How to win your ex back? Make him jealous!

Sometimes, the best way to
win back your ex is to make him jealous. There are just some guys
who respond to this, after a breakup. This is something that works best
with guys who aren't super-inclined to jealousy. If when you were together,
he was jealous all the time whenever you were talking to guy friends,
then making him jealous now is just going to make him mad. But if he's
a guy who is not the overly jealous type, a special effort to get him
jealous could be just the trick.

Making him jealous is something that's going to work best with an
ex who is aware of you in day-to-day life, at school or on the job.
If he doesn't have a way of knowing what you're doing, this
technique won't work. He doesn't have to see you in person, but
he at least needs to hear about what you're doing from someone else.

Don't be thinking that the only way you can make him jealous is by
spending time with another guy. That's not true. There are a lot of
things you can make him jealous of.

You can spend time on the internet, and make friends, even with strangers.
It's fairly safe if you don't give out personal information. Spend time
on Facebook or another social network. Get in touch with people you
know, and do some networking. Join forums, and start talking to people
who have common interests with you. An online social life is something
a guy can be jealous of.

Another thing a guy can be jealous of is the time you spend with
your girlfriends. Use your time as a newly single woman to go out in
the evenings, to dinner or happy hour. You don't have to try to pick
up guys. Just spend time with your friends in the evening, or on the
weekends hiking or at a park. Take a road trip with them. As a plus,
if you're hot and your friends are hot, he might start thinking lesbian
thoughts, and that'll turn him on.

If you do want to make him jealous by spending time with another
guy, you can start spending time with an old friend who is male, or
with an old boyfriend. Talk about the things you do with the other guy.
If you had a previous relationship with the other guy, your ex is all
the more likely to get jealous.

If you see your ex at a party, be really sociable. Circulate, and
talk to lots of people.
Flirt, and make a lot of friends. If he sees
other people being attracted to you, he'll be attracted to you too.

If you're shy, and don't have many friends, or go to parties, and
the thought of trying to meet new people makes you panic -- then you
can try to make your guy jealous by obsessing over a TV or movie character.
Pick someone you think is perfect, and talk about his good qualities
and how crazy you are about him. This will work best if your ex is also
someone who is able to make an emotional connection with fictional characters.
If you're lucky, and jealousy brings him back to you, the fact that
he knows exactly what kind of guy you're attracted to can be an added
benefit.

Bottom line: the main secret to
getting back together with a guy by making him jealous is to put
a lot of energy, and time, into anything that isn't him -- and make
sure he knows it.

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