It’s starting to get cold out, and I’m in a central London bar waiting for my next interviewee who is apparently going to give me a little insight into what it’s like being a Dominatrix working in London. On the brief I’ve been given ‘Evi’ loves nothing more than leather, chains, punk music and kittens. It seems an odd mix of interests, however nowhere near as odd as her looks! When she arrives at the bar I think she’s just another customer, until she fixes me with her stare and says ‘So, what do you want to know?’ She is 5 feet tall, has long caramel colored hair that falls in waves down her back and is wearing jeans, ballet flats and a frilly top. She is an astonishingly beautiful woman. She has a gentle childlike voice, and her nails are perfectly manicured. “I know, you were expecting a tall, dark haired butch woman” and she’s not wrong there!

“I’ve been working as a dominatrix escort in London for about five years now, and I love it. I don’t have low self esteem; I wasn’t a runaway or born to a teenage mother. I come from a middle class family, my parents have been married for 42 years now and everyone knows what I do. They weren’t happy at first but then I wasn’t happy working as a temp either. There is more than meets the eye with being an escort in London. People think it’s all about the sex but it’s really not. Not what I do anyway. I have men that run cutthroat businesses, who are the heads of their companies, and yet they come to me to boss them around. ME!” She squealed at the end of her sentence and it really is hard for me to believe that she’s a dominatrix. “It’s about how you hold yourself. When I’m dressed in my outfits and boots and whips I am in command. It’s great because it’s a character I play. Once all the leather comes off I get to go home and relax and walk my dog. It’s the only job in the world where I think you can do that. I can fulfil both sides of my personality and it’s what makes me and so many men in London happy. I’m cool with that”

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