You should ask your husband to tell him, with his wife present, that this is the last time he will contact you directly - in no uncertain terms.

On a sidenote, DAAAAYYYMMMM!!!

You're saying dayyymmm at my sunburn, aren't you?

I won't be able to talk to my husband about this until he returns from his business trip. If I say something to him while he is away it will more than likely upset him so I have to wait it out a few days. But yes, I think getting my husband to say something in front of his wife is a good idea.

Publicly funded health care system, which is mostly free. "the primary objective of Canadian health care policy is to protect, promote and restore the physical and mental well-being of residents of Canada and to facilitate reasonable access to health services without financial or other barriers."

Hmm yeah tricky, on the one hand you want this friend out of you're life for good, and on the other you don't want to hurt her feelings. You could be blunt and honest by telling her the truth, in the long run it will be better for you, but that might make you feel like shitt . If you don't want to be straight to the point you could make excuses every single time she comes around by saying something like "Sorry it's not a good time right now I'll see you later" and next time say "Were just sitting down to tea right now and having some family time I'll call you", little things like that, you dont call though, your fobbing her off, but you're not hurting her feelings and eventually she will get the message, but never let her in once or the message will never be received in her mind.. For me personally I would be straight with her and say it how it is(not in so many words), but still they will know..

I haven't allowed her in since January. She insists on coming back or will literally wait for me outside (if I walk my daughter to school). This sounds funny but I've even hidden from her when I see her coming to the door. She's a nightmare.

I haven't allowed her in since January. She insists on coming back or will literally wait for me outside (if I walk my daughter to school). This sounds funny but I've even hidden from her when I see her coming to the door. She's a nightmare.

"LOOK WILL JUST FUK OFF FOLLOWING ME ALL THE FUKING TIME, JESUS FUKING CHRIST YOU'RE BECOMING A PEST!!!"

Lol, I can do that... It just takes me a little time to push me that far. I hate being mean. Lol

Lol. It's straight to the point, if you're friends ask you about her and what you said, then you just tell them that she drove you to say it like that, with constantly following you etc and tell them you know what she's like?, don't bittch about her and your "Real" friends that already know about her anyway will understand..

If that doesent work then you might have to consider getting her "Whacked"

Lol, I can do that... It just takes a little time to push me that far. I hate being mean. Lol

Oh and by the way, if you flip the script and flip the fuk out on this friend, make sure it's out of ear shot of your daughters, you don't want to be accused of being one of those mothers you always hear about lol..

Lol. It's straight to the point, if you're friends ask you about her and what you said, then you just tell them that she drove you to say it like that, with constantly following you etc and tell them you know what she's like?, don't bittch about her and your "Real" friends that already know about her anyway will understand..
If that doesent work then you might have to consider getting her "Whacked"

Hahaha!

I may have the opportunity to have a good chat with my friends tomorrow evening, as we're taking our girls to the school BBQ/fair for a couple hours.

Oh and by the way, if you flip the script and flip the fuk out on this friend, make sure it's out of ear shot of your daughters, you don't want to be accused of being one of those mothers you always hear about lol..

Okay. Just got another text with another photo attached. He said, "I've got more"! Wtf???

You haven't got any pet rabbits by any chance have you? lol

Tell your friend that if you're husband doesent stop sending me pictures of me and texting me then I'm telling my husband and even the police. Tell her that you're disappointed in her that she thinks that this is normal behaviour and as a friend you should understand that I'm pissed and upset..

Tell your friend that if you're husband doesent stop sending me pictures of me and texting me then I'm telling my husband and even the police. Tell her that you're disappointed in her that she thinks that this is normal behaviour and as a friend you should understand that I'm pissed and upset..

Do you want me to come down there and do him in for ya?

Oh G0d no not anymore, Henderson (my daughter's evil pet bunny) died of old age a couple years ago.

I phoned hhome and spoke to my stepfather, he advised me to phone the police, so I went ahead and sent a voice mail to a friend of mine who is a local police officer, just waiting to hear back from her now.

Yes, I will once he's home. He went away on a business trip and won't be back for a few days.

Lol, I hate to disappoint you but it's basically the same picture I have already posted.

Oh G0d no not anymore, Henderson (my daughter's evil pet bunny) died of old age a couple years ago.

I phoned hhome and spoke to my stepfather, he advised me to phone the police, so I went ahead and sent a voice mail to a friend of mine who is a local police officer, just waiting to hear back from her now.

You called him Henderson and he died of old age?, OMG I hope Dan Hendersons gonna be ok, now that you've fuking jinxed the old bastard haha..

You've done right, show you're police officer friend exactly what he's showed you and get these 2 freaks out of your life for good.

I do feel bad for her deep down. She's a very insecure & unhappy woman. I don't want to hurt her, but I feel like I have been left with no other option.

Of course shes unhappy, her other halfs a freaking Nut Job, but your family comes first no matter who you're hurting. God knows what this guy is capable of, this is not normal behaviour, she needs to realise that on her own and eventually leave him instead of turning a blind eye and laughing about it. Honestly some of you're friends are weird, where the hell do ya find em PCT? lol

And that's all the time we have this week, same time next week yeah?, I really should be a shrink ya know