on camping: a conversation with my kids

June 22, 2017

What do you love about camping?

Margot: Getting to go wherever we want. Like, when we know a place really well so we know the cool spots to check out and you and dad let us go alone. I love the fresh air and connecting with nature. I love to climb trees, swim in lakes, swing in the hammock with my sister. I love waking up in the tent in the morning and smelling the fresh air.

Ruby: Our hammock, waking up in the tent, campfires, s’mores, being with our family in the woods, playing with rocks by the lake. Floating in the river with friends, discovering frogs. I love making stuff out of things I find in nature. It’s so quiet. I love sitting on your lap and driving on dirt roads to campsites because that is so cool!

What about when we go to a new place?

Margot: You get to explore and it’s fun because you can usually find a little hideout so when you don’t want to leave your parents have to come find you.

Tell me about a camping adventure you loved?

Margot: I loved that site that we found by the river that night when you and daddy didn’t know where we would camp. We drove around and found that spot with a sandy beach and little river for Ruby and me to play in. And there was an awesome tree fort.

Ruby: The Little House trip two years ago. Pretty much all of that. And, the lake we went to last weekend. I love all the places we camp because they’re so fun. You really love to camp, mama.

What do you think I love about camping?

Margot: Everything! You love swimming in cold water, you love the outdoors and you love spending time with our family.

Ruby: Yes, all of that!

I seriously looked through photos from the last two years and couldn’t find a single image of me with my family, camping. And, only a few of me with my kin at all. Taking note, making an effort to get in front of that camera, especially with my kids. (this snap of me jumping in the North Fork of Flathead River by my pal Sarah)

Ruby: Don’t be scared because if you are scared, it will be scary. There’s nothing to be afraid of because every now and then you might see a bear but I’ve only ever seen a bear once camping and I go all the time. It’s pretty unlikely. And even if you do see a bear, chances are they won’t care about you because they’re just being bears! Go to different camp sites so it isn’t boring. If it’s really beautiful out in the night, do not use your rain fly so you can look up at the stars.

Margot: Yeah, you should always bring bear spray. But don’t ever use it if you just see a bear. It’s just good to have. Always bring a few cards games like Crazy 8 and Spot It. Always bring a bathing suit because if there’s a lake or creek near by, I suggest you go swimming. Even if it’s cold. And always bring a winter hat. And a few pairs of shorts, a few sweaters, a few short sleeves, a few pairs of long pants and a rain jacket.

What’s the wildest camping story you have?

Ruby: In the desert in Utah. My flip flops floated down the canyon in the middle of the night because there was a flash flood while we were sleeping. My mom and dad didn’t sleep. There were big puddles of water and it wrecked the beautiful couches we made out of rocks. Everything was wet! Then the next day we went on a hike and we went to a canyon that had an 8 foot drop and I was really afraid to go down there! It actually ended up being really fun (slash scary).

Margot: That time we went bike camping with our friends and there was a bear between Max and me and you, Kara, Graden and Ruby! We didn’t see the bear and Kara said, “Max! Margot! There’s a bear right there!” but we didn’t hear her because we were biking fast and laughing. But you guys were yelling and we stopped right next to the bear. And then it was fine and the big bear just walked away. What’s yours mama?

Nici: Hmm, I have a few but this one is exciting: One August night, when dad and I were 20 years old, we were backpacking in the Beartooth Mountains. It was super windy. We set up our tent in the most protected spot we could find and got in right away because it was so miserable outside. Soon after the sun went down we heard footsteps outside our tent. It sounded like people walking around. I said hello? and the movement stopped but nobody said anything. I was scared because I didn’t know what was out there and my imagination was going crazy. Then the animals started running away from us really fast. They turned and we could hear them running straight at us, skidding to a stop up against the tent while we leaned into the other side! They sounded big and strong. In a fit of courage, Andy poked his head out with his headlamp and saw a huge herd of mountain goats! We were so relieved. But those guys were upset we were camping in their sheltered spot. They kicked rocks on and peed on our tent all night long! Also here’s our smooching selfie from earlier that day:

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When I was twenty we had something big bumping around our campsite at night in the Mission Mountains. I never was brave enough to peek and never slept well the rest of the night. Also, we only packed dry soup for a three day hike. We planned on catching mountain lake fish. One small cutthroat in three days!! We ate a lot of berries hiking back out!

Oh yeah I meant to link to that! We bought it at REI and we like it a lot! We went with the giant one and I wish it was smaller although it’s great when you can easily fill with lake water (harder to fill if you’re dealing with a low creek). It folds up into nothing and dries in a flash.

So you totally got me searching campgrounds nearby for a weekend adventure…tomorrow! Just need to talk the hubs into it, the kids will be all for it but I’ll keep it a surprise. With a horrible back that has been acting up it might be a long shot but maybe just one night and an air mattress we can compromise. Keep it simple and light – no need for all the extra layers for summertime in South Florida! – and a mini adventure is hopefully in our future. We shall see…

Yay and yes to simple and light! This spring I camped in Utah with a totally thrown out back and I have to say…it ached fiercely in the mornings but I had all this time and space to stretch and ease into my day while camping that I probably wouldn’t have allowed myself at home. Anywhichway you have you mini-adventure it’ll be grand I’m sure!

Taryn

June 26, 2017 at 3:58 PM

The picture with Mabel in the lake and the clouds and trees reflecting in the lake is AMAZING! Love your blog and following you on Instagram.

Joan

June 30, 2017 at 3:08 PM

Well Nici I would tell you my story of camping BUT you have heard it a thousand and one times!! 😂😂