I would rake his ass over the coals! I'm getting everything I can get outta his ass: child support, alimony, and money for our kids therapy. AND his punk ass is gonna tell them the truth. Let them see the type of man they shouldn't grow up to be or love.

And fukc visitation. I wouldn't want him or that nutty ho he's dealing with around my children. Ain't no telling what they're capable of.

And call me a hoodrat all you want, I'm fukcing the both of them up on sight. What kinda good for nothing woman tells a man to leave his children behind, and what sorry bastard actually does it? I'll be at their doors with my taser and a sock full of change...would say a lock, but I don't wanna kill nobody.

I would rake his ass over the coals! I'm getting everything I can get outta his ass: child support, alimony, and money for our kids therapy. AND his punk ass is gonna tell them the truth. Let them see the type of man they shouldn't grow up to be or love.

And fukc visitation. I wouldn't want him or that nutty ho he's dealing with around my children. Ain't no telling what they're capable of.

And call me a hoodrat all you want, I'm fukcing the both of them up on sight. What kinda good for nothing woman tells a man to leave his children behind, and what sorry bastard actually does it? I'll be at their doors with my taser and a sock full of change...would say a lock, but I don't wanna kill nobody.

IA about making him tell the kids himself since I'm sure said man will probably try to get out of telling the kids and leave it up to their mom to tell them what's going on.

]I've had quite a few friends and family members in similar scenarios, and it is not easy. But if you keep living life is bound to go on.

my heart sunk. How did these ladies make out? Did these no good mofos leave them for younger hoes? Did they get their man back or get revenge or just cry their hearts out

lol

I got stories for days but like I said, if you keep living then things do tend to work themselves out. My sister's ex-husband left her and their children to be with a Brazilian woman yeeeeeeears ago. They had been married for 14 years and their children were 13, 9 and 4. Once she became a U.S. citizen the Brazilian beauty queen bounced and petitioned for her Brazilian husband to move here. Anyway, my sister has been happily remarried for 11 years now and her children are adults. Their father recently tried to get back into contact but they don't really want anything to do with him anymore (my oldest daughter's father tried the same thing and she felt the same way).

My niece's ex-husband left her and terminated all parental rights to son after 9 years of marriage. Mind you, they're both in their forties. He went and married a 22-year-old who is now 8 months pregnant with twins boys. My niece has not been in the best place because you can imagine the type of blow that is, but she is coming out of it and rebuilding their life. It's just a matter of time before things really begin to turn around for her.

Sometimes the best that you can do is live. As much as we love to say he'll turn out miserable, there are times when he and the new woman end up very happy. Once you realize that you have to be the main concern in your life, the thirst for his misery really becomes irrelevant.

]I've had quite a few friends and family members in similar scenarios, and it is not easy. But if you keep living life is bound to go on.

my heart sunk. How did these ladies make out? Did these no good mofos leave them for younger hoes? Did they get their man back or get revenge or just cry their hearts out

lol

I got stories for days but like I said, if you keep living then things do tend to work themselves out. My sister's ex-husband left her and their children to be with a Brazilian woman yeeeeeeears ago. They had been married for 14 years and their children were 13, 9 and 4. Once she became a U.S. citizen the Brazilian beauty queen bounced and petitioned for her Brazilian husband to move here. Anyway, my sister has been happily remarried for 11 years now and her children are adults. Their father recently tried to get back into contact but they don't really want anything to do with him anymore (my oldest daughter's father tried the same thing and she felt the same way).

My niece's ex-husband left her and terminated all parental rights to son after 9 years of marriage. Mind you, they're both in their forties. He went and married a 22-year-old who is now 8 months pregnant with twins boys. My niece has not been in the best place because you can imagine the type of blow that is, but she is coming out of it and rebuilding their life. It's just a matter of time before things really begin to turn around for her.

Sometimes the best that you can do is live. As much as we love to say he'll turn out miserable, there are times when he and the new woman end up very happy. Once you realize that you have to be the main concern in your life, the thirst for his misery really becomes irrelevant.

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