I am a woman.

21May

Like everybody else who has broadband connection in this country, I already saw three of Hayden Kho’s much talked about sex videos. Yep, the one with Katrina Halili, Maricar Reyes and the Brazilian Model.

Hayden Kho & Katrina Halili in Celebrity Duets

I have to start by saying that Katrina Halili’s predicament places me in the middle. A part of me says that she deserves it for dating the psychotic doctor even if she knew that he was already in a committed relationship with Dr. Vicki Belo. On the other hand, I also think that Hayden had no right to secretly videotape her during –to put it lightly– a compromising situation.

Just like adding coarse salt to a flesh wound, everybody’s trying to help Katrina by talking about the scandal on national TV. In any case, her reputation is not one of the demure and innocent type. This fiasco is probably going to do good for her career. It’s going to haunt her forever though. Digital media will make sure of that.

I pity Katrina but not as much as I pity Maricar Reyes. I won’t post her picture here because she doesn’t deserve it. The sex video was taken years ago and it should have been buried somewhere as soon as her relationship with Hayden ended.

OK, they had sex, big deal. Who doesn’t do that in this day and age? The problem is, the sex video was obviously taken without her consent. She probably had no idea that such a video exists until she saw it on the net– already spreading like wild fire.

My boobs weren’t featured on the video but as a woman, I also felt violated. I could only imagine the emotional damage it had caused her. She is a a commercial model and a doctor– two professions that require a faultless reputation.

Above all else, she is also a daughter to her parents. Heaven forbid she has other siblings or a boyfriend. They all probably have to see the shrink everyday for five years after watching the vid.

I have nothing much to say about the Brazilian model. I heard her name was Mariana del Rio. Hayden the pervert placed his camera at the wrong angle so we don’t know what they we’re doing half the time. “Dang!” he must have said when he reviewed the video.

Dr. Hayden Kho

As for Hayden Kho, to say that this is very unbecoming of a licensed doctor is an understatement. He is a disgrace to himself, his family, his profession and to all the women who fell in love with a douchebag. Enough said.