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Yes, people are very close minded...Im not even sure why thats a real question. Everyday you see this in the real world and even on the site when reviewing profiles.

People have preferences and their experiences/perspectives manifest in the form of categorizations. We all categorize people that we see/meet and most allow those preferences to dictate their interaction...its human nature. Examples: 1) I spoke to a woman recently that is 5'11 compared to my 5'9. She likes to wear those jazzy heels and prefers men that are 6ft+. Ive dated taller women and can understand/respect her preference. 2) I corresponded with a woman that said she preferred black men (for whatever the reason). We exchanged pics and she then stated that she would pass b/c I didnt look black enough. I assume she was only interested in Shaka Zulu looking black guys, so I wished her luck and again, understood/respected her preference. There is absolutely nothing that I can do about my height or my complexion, so I dont dwell on it.

I didnt read all the posts here, but Im sure that some have suggested to simply be comfortable with the way you look and the rest will follow. The other option is to work towards changing, but never expect someone else's preference to shift.

Also, why worry about how other men/women view the BBW category? While BBWs vary wildly, I say be happy that there is a preference for women this size. How many others out there dont have a category and would love to have something specifically for them? I dont see anything for 'Women with Extremely Small Mouths, That Cant Suck Dick', 'Very Unattractive Men', 'Black Guys with Small Dicks', etc.

People have always allowed their preferences to dictate what they find attractive and people will always categorize others. There isnt anything anyone can do about that, but there is plenty that you can do to increase your own chances of finding solid people on the site. Start by not projecting your own preferences on others and focus on activities and those that are interested.

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i absolutely adore a woman with a few extra pounds, i always have and always will. i find the curves sooo womanly. a tummy, sensual derriere and the breasts are fuller and so much more luscious. So women... if you are into men that finds you sensual and sexy..

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well said. Agree 100%

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I have curves and I never have trouble attracting men. I prefer being with a man who also has some meat on him! Soft and cuddly is a turn-on. Hello ya!!!

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I have to say I agree with ANN20. People of any arrangement of physical attributes can be damned sexy (or not) mainly by how they handle themselves. It is mostly between the ears. If you are having fun and really enjoying yourself, the chances are much better that those around you are, too. But people just do have certain preferences, some things just do or don't turn them on. Sometimes it isn't even a specific attribute you can write down. For example, I once met someone who reminded me a LOT of someone I had a bad experience with in the past (not swinging related). No matter how hard I tried, I really couldn't get aroused by her, she was an instant turn-off to me and it wasn't anything specific about her except she was a spitting image (to include a similar voice) of someone I really didn't like.

Personally, I don't have a "type" that specifically turns me on or off, it is all about that specific person. A perfect knockout could be a turnoff if she has a bad attitude or it seems she is being pushed into something she doesn't really enjoy doing. Some of the most amazing sex I have ever had has been with larger women. They make the rockin' world go round!

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olive oyl?

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Bah..I can't type....

Richmond VA

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For me it doe spent matter, it's more about a connection. Best sex I ever had was with a lady with curves, she knew how to use them.