Friendship is harder

Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old MaleI tried my plan and it worked, but one thing came up. She said i would love to go out with you, but i barley know you. We should try to be friends first, and flirt alittle to let people know we like each other, then she walked off. I would like to do this, but i'm a shy person, and i can't really talk to girls that well, what do you think i should do?

RomanceClass.com AdviceCongratulations for making such good progress with her.

It only took a little bit of guts, so talking with her won't take much more.
Be sure to leap into this friendship immediately or she will think you have changed your mind.

You must walk up to her and make conversation and flirt with her. Flirting is simple... you joke around with her, poke her, tease her (gently, gently) and tell her how pretty she is. Take a look at our webpage on what to talk about:
http://www.romanceclass.com/miscr/howto/whattalk.asp

Get her phone number and internet contacts so you can spend some time getting to know her without the extra nervousness of face-to-face. But don't forget she told you that it is important for other people to see you two together as a couple, even if it is friends at first.