I've been with a guy for almost a year now and i havent been able to reach a orgasm through sex i can very well from oral. he has about an 8 in. erection and a slight under curverture. what's the problem and what can we do

Dr. Lin: 01/15/2003>

It seems his erection is weak although it is very long. A weak, long penis is very dumb since it can not pinpoint the G-spot (only 2-3 inches deep, hidden behind the vaginal gate) and the Epicenter (about 4-6 inches deep, hidden between the bladder and cervix). Also, a soft, long penis will follow the vaginal (horizontal,
reversed "S") shape to strike the cervix and rectum. This causes intercourse pain and uncomfortable. Unless he can erect his penis upward to 12-2 o'clock position, and stimulate your G-spot and Epicenter with an high attack angle as shown in
http://www.actionlove.com/image/attack.jpg
or/andhttp://actionlove.com/image/3-point.jpg
there will be no much chance for you to achieve a vaginal orgasm with him. In particular, most of women needs a simultaneous stimulation on the
clitoris and G-spot or Epicenter at the same time, as described inhttp://actionlove.com/love/method.htm
A penis longer than 8 inches hardly make it that way. In this regard, you can try my Finger Pliers Method to help you out -
The Finger Pliers method made her achieve multiple orgasm and vaginal female ejaculation; she wants it more frequently.
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A pair of 3-4 inches long finger pliers, with a 1/2-inch finger each, can
do a better job than a 8-12 inch long, 2-inch thick penis. So, as long as he can have a hard erection to stimulate your clitoris, G-spot and Epicenter at the same time, you will have a great chance to orgasm unless you are under the chemical castration effects of birth control pills/injection/implant , under the domination of estrogen or progesterone, or under the influence of the medication or street drugs.http://www.actionlove.com/extra/contracept.htmhttp://www.actionlove.com/extra/streetdrugs.htmhttp://www.actionlove.com/extra/ssris.htmhttp://www.actionlove.com/extra/drugs.htm
These problems can cause your orgasmic dysfunction too, but you can restore your sexual and orgasm function with our
formulas -
Formulas for supercharging the sensory, parasympathetic and sympathetic nervous circuits for sexual orgasm - the electric circuitry theory of sexual orgasmhttp://www.actionlove.com/cases/case10454.htm
Generally, he has to provide a hard erecting penis for you, but you must alsobe able to erect your clitoris and G-spot for your orgasm -http://www.actionlove.com/image/penclass.jpghttp://www.actionlove.com/image/lovetool.jpg
Women who can not erect the clitoris and G-spot (the urethral spongy tissue - the inner penis) are impotent.
No erection no orgasm. Men an women follows the same physical rule.