The Telegraph: Does your marriage pass the romance test? 20 romantic tips to perk up a long-term relationship

How romantic is your ­marriage? If this question makes your shoulders draw together in irritation at your spouse’s lack of chivalry and surprise trips to Venice, you won’t be alone. According to therapist and relationship expert Dr Jane Greer, countless couples complain that their happy-ever-­after is utterly devoid of romance. “It’s understandable – everyone gets inundated with the responsibilities of everyday life,” she says. “When you are dating you want the ­person to know you care about them so you make a point of doing romantic things, but once you’re married you stop planning.” Dr. Greer shares her thoughts in The Telegraph.