Author's note: This guide is not the definitive guide
to fellatio as there will never be a guide written that can cover every aspect
of the art of cock sucking. Just as all women are different the same is true
of men. This guide is merely meant to be just that, a guide. There is no written
text that can compensate for having a gentle patient man who is willing to
communicate with you as you perform oral sex. What this guide is intended
to do, is point you in the right direction...

Introduction
Ask most men and they will tell you that one of the aspects they most enjoy
when it comes to sex is receiving oral. In fact, there are very few men that
don't enjoy the sensations experienced from this very special and intimate
act. Why? It's primarily because the mouth can produce a sucking sensation
that the vagina cannot. Giving your lover head should be a gentle mixture
of both technique and assessing his response pattern. Use your senses to guide
you, listen to the sound of his breathing and channel his energy with each
touch. Cock sucking is not something that is learnt overnight and one of the
most important things a guy can do for a women, especially if it's her first
time, is to be patient and supportive.

The Basics:
For the boys: A lot of chatter goes around when it comes to the distinctive
aroma of a woman's pussy. The same is equally true when it comes to the male
jiggle stick. Taking a bath or shower prior to getting a blowjob ensures that
your genitals are clean & hygienic and you will be greatly rewarded by
her talented tongue.

Showering can easily be incorporated into oral sex as not only
is it exciting to sensually lather each other up, but it's also a great way
to ensure that you're both comfortable and relaxed - especially important
when you intend to do some cock sucking later -)).

Back to the lesson. Humans have five senses; taste, touch, sight,
smell, and hearing - use them. When it comes to giving good head, you should
be using at least three of these senses at any given time. Receiving a blowjob
is a combination of physical and visual sensations. Many men find a seductive
gaze from their partner while performing fellatio highly erotic. Draw on your
ears; listen to your partner's reactions as you touch various areas of his
body. Listen to his breathing patterns as you work your way down towards his
most prized possession. Feel him jump with anticipation as you softly caress
various areas of his body.

Take your time! Many women think that the quicker they can make
a guy come the better. Whilst it's true that a fair percentage of men enjoy
this approach, this is not the best way to give your guy a great orgasm. In
actuality, it's probably the worst way, but as I said a moment ago, some men
do enjoy the quick and fast method. The longer that you can keep your partner
sexually energized without allowing things to become unexciting, the deeper
and harder his orgasm is likely to be.

A word to the guys here, be patient with your partner. Being
able to give good head is very much a learnt talent and as such the more expressive
you are when your receiving it the better the whole experience will be for
both of you. Your partner wants to give you pleasure, help them by showing
that's is exactly what you are receiving. A moan or soft words of encouragement
can go a long way when it comes to showing your partner what you like. If
she hits a particularly sensitive area then don't be afraid to tell her.

Lubrication, lubrication and again I say lubrication. I can't
stress how important that one word is when it comes to giving head. Makes
sure your partners cock is well lubricated when you give head. Try this little
test and you'll see why lubrication makes so much difference. Take your finger
and rub it with your hand, it might feel okay, but now put that finger in
your mouth and cover it in saliva, now rub your hand across it. Feel the difference
that saliva makes to the sensations you receive? Now imagine your finger is
your partners cock and you'll have some idea of why lubrication is so important
for not only ensuring that your partner does not end up sore but also he has
the most pleasurable experience you can give him. It's a good idea to take
a sip of a drink [non-alcoholic] before you start, as this will naturally
make your mouth moist.

Another way to add lubrication is to use a shop brought lubrication
of some kind. Remember you are going to be putting this in your mouth, so
make sure you choose an edible one that is specifically made for the purpose.
They also have the advantage of making your partner's taste more to your liking
if this is something that worries you, as they come in a huge variety of flavors.

Use your hands as well as your mouth. Yes, this is oral sex
we are talking about here, but using your hands as well can only add to your
experience. Why limit yourself to just using your mouth, tongue, and lips
to provide him with pleasure? Your hands can be used in multiple ways and
we'll look at specific techniques a little later.

Something that many men complain about is that women forget
that a cock is a three-dimension object. It has a back, a front and two sides.
For most men the underside of their cock [the part that faces their body when
flaccid] is by far the most sensitive of the four but often receives the least
attention.

Be Safe: Whether you choose to use condoms when giving
oral is a personal choice. It is worth noting however, that brushing your
teeth before giving a blowjob is probably not a good idea. This is because
the brushing action leaves tiny cuts in your mouth, and although they heal
in minutes, it's something worth considering.
That's covered the basics, and these points are all worth remembering if you
want to give or receive mind blowing fellatio.

Advanced Techniques

Variety is the spice of good oral.
Many people are under the impression that to give good oral all you have to
do is suck hard and move your head up and down. Whilst this works with a good
number of guys, I have to say this is not the best route to take. Instead,
try varying your techniques - but I don't mean every two seconds. Instead
of just pumping for all your worth, slow down and take your time. Enjoy the
sensations as his cock jumps to attention. Not only will it feel good for
him, you are a lot less likely to end up with jaw ache if you use your hands
and tongue as well as your mouth. As one of the guys I interviewed when writing
this guide commented:

"Use hands as well! Mouths are very soft and squishy
and sometimes some extra firm pressure is nice/needed. When used to slowly
stroke the shaft as a tongue plays with the head is very nice (kind of like
a blowjob and hand job combined)!"

Doing the vacuuming
This technique has nothing to do with housework so stop panicking. Some guys
enjoy being sucked really hard whilst others hate it. But it is worth mentioning,
as this can be a useful technique when it comes to adding variety to a blowjob.
You might like to try sucking hard as you move your mouth up his shaft or
alternatively as you move down it. As always, let your partner be your guide
and don't be afraid to try different variations.

"I especially like suction on the penis. The more that
is in my lover's mouth (as much as she can tolerate), the better. Tongue motion
during the sucking action helps quite a bit."

Fancy ball work
To say that all men enjoy football would be a generalization but it appears
overall that most men enjoy a little ball playing whilst you perform oral.
Girls, ask yourself this: if a guy is giving you oral, do you enjoy it when
he reaches up and pays attention to your nipples and breasts? The chances
are the answer is yes, so all you are doing is returning the favor when you
play with his crown jewels. Just be careful. While his balls can give him
great pleasure, too much pressure can have the opposite effect to the one
we desire. I thought this comment was rather poignant from another interviewee:

"It is like the whip cream on a piece of chocolate pie.
The chocolate pie alone is good; the whip cream makes it just that much better.
A little licking, sucking and squeezing in that area is great."

As a foot note to ball work, it's worth mentioning that although
many men don't like the thought of having their anus touched, this can be
a very sensitive area and one worth exploring with your tongue if you are
comfortable doing so. If you're not comfortable with the idea of licking his
anus then try just licking his balls and the surrounding area. This should
include the area called the perineum, which runs between his scrotum and his
anus. This area of his body is packed with nerve endings and can add greatly
to his pleasure.

Deep-Throating
There are few men that will tell you that having their cock buried down their
partner's throat is not an extremely pleasurable experience. For many women
though deep-throating can cause problems, the most serious one being the gag
reflex. It is possible to over-come this reflex however, and practice in this
case can certainly pay off. Next time you want to try deep-throating first
start by getting a feel for how far you can comfortably take his cock into
your mouth without gagging. Then grip his shaft at that point to prevent him
thrusting any deeper into your mouth. Each time you give him a blowjob try
taking a little more of him into your mouth. Another important part is to
try and breath through your nose and not your mouth. This makes life so much
easier and you're less likely to gag.

Guys, be patient! Grabbing her head and yanking it towards your
crotch will not get you the results you desire. This is one time when you
need to allow your partner to feel in complete control, especially if this
is her first attempt. I think the comment below says it all:

"There have been LOTS of discussions on this
over the years. I recall reading time and again that when you're highly excited
the gag reflex abates, so why force the issue? - Wait for the right moment,
see if it works, and if it doesn't, so what?"

Handiwork
Many techniques involve not only using your mouth, but your hands as well.
Whilst there is nothing wrong with simply using your mouth, using you hands
in conjunction with it can only add to your partner's pleasure.

The most obvious way to use your hands is simply by caressing
your partner. This can either be over their whole body during both foreplay
or as you give oral. I've listed some techniques below that are worthy of
a try.

For this one your partner will need to be really lubricated.
Either with your own saliva or with a good shop brought lubricant. To begin,
start at the base of his cock and slowly slide your hand towards the tip,
whilst you place you're other hand at the base. Just before you're first hand
reaches the tip start moving your second hand {the one at the base of his
shaft] upwards towards his tip, then place your other hand down at the base
once more and repeat. Start out slowly and then begin to increase the tempo.
This is one of those tricks that is great for getting him from flaccid to
fully erect. Of course, the technique can be applied the other way around,
IE: starting at the tip, but my advice is only try this when he's fully erect.

As I mentioned in the deep-throating section, using your hand
to stop his cock slipping further down your throat than you desire or can
manage is handy as well. Most importantly though, you can use your hands whilst
concentrating your oral effort on the spot where most guys are highly sensitive.
The spot I'm referring to is where his head meets his shaft, technically known
as the corona. Try swirling your tongue around this area as you firmly squeeze
his shaft with your hands and watch his reactions. Another great technique
is to concentrate your sucking actions only on his head, bobbing your head
up and down, so your lips roll over the ridge where his head meets the shaft.
Whilst at the same time moving your hands up and down his shaft. This technique
takes a little practice but it's worth the effort, and is great for beginners
as it requires only taking a small amount of his cock into your mouth.

Licking:
Imagine your guy's cock is a flavor of ice cream you adore. It even looks
like an ice cream when you think about it. [Use your imagination a little
here] Take your ice cream and savor it, lick it, tease bits of it with your
tongue and explore its tastes and textures with both your tongue and mouth.
Apply lashings of long licks to the shaft area and then grip it firmly with
your hands and begin slowly moving your hand up and down. Whilst your doing
that begin licking his head, before taking the whole head into your mouth
and applying a suction motion while moving up and down. Use your mouth and
hands in unison for an exquisite all over effect.

Spit or Swallow?
Many people say this is not a big issue, but the truth is in many cases it
can be/is. As with everything else, for many guys it's not a big deal. But
for most it does make a difference. Not even so much in whether you choose
to spit or swallow but the manner in which you do it. In other words, there
are polite ways to not swallow. It's similar to being in a restaurant and
you find your steak has a little bit of gristle in it. You're not likely to
spit it back out onto your plate out of good manners. Instead, you'll most
likely discreetly place it in a napkin or your hand before disposing of it.

If you don't want to swallow, then I suggest you either have
a napkin or something similar handy. Either that, or you can simply place
your tongue in such a position that it acts as a barrier between your mouth
and his cum. To do this, place the underside of your tongue over the head
of his cock as he's about to come, and allow it to dribble back down the outside
of his already lubricated shaft. You might also consider finishing him with
a hand job, but keep your mouth close to him, maybe even rub your cheek along
his head, whilst your eyes meet his.

Something worth mentioning here is that the trick to swallowing
is often not to taste his semen at all. Although some women enjoy the taste,
as mentioned before many don't. To avoid tasting it when your guy starts to
cum the natural reaction is to hold it in your mouth for a moment before swallowing
it. This is the only reason you actually taste it. Next time, right after
he comes, just try swallowing immediately and hard. Even better, if you can
deep-throat, just make him come whilst it's in the back of your throat. Using
both of these techniques means all you will be left with is a vague aftertaste
instead of the full monty. The hard swallow technique also feels good to a
lot of guys.

Seismic After shocks
Hopefully your guy has just erupted due to your excellent oral administrations.
Most guys will tell you or rather they won't that it's great for you to keep
up the sucking, moving action whilst they are erupting but once they are spent
their head just like your clitoris is inclined to become very sensitive and
is best left well alone. As one of the guys I asked put it:

"Keep sucking/licking, during the climax phase (Ejaculation)
is great, but when the squirting stops, the head of the penis becomes super
sensitive. That is when you should give it a rest for a few minutes, until
after the sensitivity subsides."