Monday, July 9, 2012

Disowned

Disowned!!!! Yeah, that is what my family has done to me. They have
disowned me for life... Why? Because I am in love with a British
Christian man and want to spend the rest of my life with him. Isn't it
strange? How can parents be so ruthless towards their own flesh and
blood?
Well, as you all know, things were not going very good with John, he
just wasn't willing to commit, so I sort of gave him an ultimatum. I
said either you commit to me or else I am leaving this country for good
and moving to the US, where I would be granted asylum based on my
apostasy. He got paranoid and agreed to meet my family, since my parents
are on a visit this summer and staying with my brothers, so I invited
mom and dad for lunch two weeks ago to a restaurant and told them that I
am bringing someone special whom I want them to meet and approve. They
were a bit skeptical, but I think they almost assumed it would be a
Pakistani or an Indian Muslim or maybe an Arab, but I am sure they never expected to see a white guy.

As soon as they entered the restaurant, John and I got up to greet them.
To say that my parents were shocked beyond their wits would be the
understatement of the year. Anyway, dad shook hands and we all sat down
for lunch and I must say that dad did behave pretty good, he was civil
to him and they both talked about cricket, food, England, the Middle
East and the crazy Arabs and their erratic driving. It went on pretty
smooth and then we all departed with a very civil goodbye. Then an hour
later, while John and I were watching a movie at his place, mom called
me up and said, "This is the last time I am calling you, because your
dad and I disown you: from this day onwards, you are dead for us. You
have really let us down by getting involved with a non Muslim. It's
over, so please
never even try to get in touch." And she just hung up on me.

I was devastated and started crying uncontrollably. John could not
believe it either, and poor guy has been extremely supportive since
then. Last week my mom sort of came around, she called me up, but now
she is pretending nothing happened. She always calls me when dad is not
around, which I am sure means dad has no idea she is talking to me. Both
my brothers are not talking to me either, but my sisters in law are,
and they have been very nice about it. I guess women are easier to come
around than men when it comes to matters of the heart.

John left for the UK last week and I then applied for a UK visit visa,
which I just got on Thursday, and now the next step is to apply for a
Schengen visa, as John and I plan to travel across Europe, but the most
difficult part is how in the world am I going to explain to my family,
friends, colleagues and everyone else that why the hell am I going away
on a trip to the UK and Europe right in the middle of Ramadan. They
don’t know that I am not a Muslim anymore and this time in Ramadan, for
the first time in my life, I won’t be fasting, so that part is going to
be tough.

I know one thing for sure, that I want to spend the rest of my life
with this man and I can do anything, just about anything for him and our
future together. I would like to request all my readers to please pray
for us and that my family would eventually come around and accept me for
what I am. So till next time, have a great week. Cheers.

58 comments:

As for the Schengen visa... could you not apply for it from England itself?

You've probably picked the best time of year to visit Europe. I recommend the Eastern part... Poland, Czech Republic, Hungary - or Croatia for a bit of beaches. Great cities and beautiful scenery. And they don't resemble the Middle East anywhere near as much as some of the countries to the West ;-)

Thanks God that u have arrived to this point. I will pray only for your safety and freedom.Don't worry about your family,just have a faith on God. He will arrange everything before your way. Don't forget one thing, God knows about you more than you might comprehend about you and your problems.

Awww, poor PUGLI has been disowned...how the mighty have fallen, from a COCK hunter to an ILLEGAL immigrant, hehehehehe....LOL. Oh well given what a shite person the fake blogger has been towards her family, is it any surprise

Okay, a word of solidarity from the lands of the Enlightenment. This is hard on a level no one else can imagine, but you are keeping the one thing, the only thing, that ultimately matters: your rational mind. Your own mind, that is no one else's. There is nothing in the whole world more important than that - and that religion can so poison a father against his own daughter says everything about how important that sanctity is.

Okay, I don't understand why you would leave your religion? Just because your parent's disowned you? You leave your religion just because your parent's disowned you? Just wow.

I'm a Pakistani girl myself, 18 and will most likely marry a non-muslim since I live in a country where the majority of the men are Non-Muslim. I will be lucky if I am not honor-killed by my parent's. Islam is against killing but they are going to be furious. Just as I am going to be (possibility) in love and breaking the rules by marrying a non-muslim.

If my parent's are civil and value their freedom and want to keep my siblings then they will not kill me. Instead they will disown me. I know that going through this is easier said than done but I have to make my decisions in life. If my parent's can disown me because I could be marrying a Non-Muslim (notice I am using Non-Muslim, instead of white/latino/asain because they don't care about race, only religion) then I'm unsure if I want to spend the rest of my life with them. I love them. I love them dearly but if they think they can control me than woe on them.

Even if this disown me I will forever stay Muslim. I was born a Muslim and will die a Muslim - even if I die a bad one because I love Allah. I might not agree with everything in the Quran but I still love him and try to follow most things. It's still better to be a bad Muslim than a non-believer.

Not sure where you coming from or where you going to, except I notice you are a typical selfish person. There are plenty of Pakistanies, including our resident clown aka skouti, who live in minority Muslim countries and 99.99& don't step outside their imaginary Paki bounds as if they are living back home, will NEVER allow a woman to marry any non-muslim. There are hundreds of cases of horror killing every year they call "honor" killing of young girls like you die of heinous death.

You say you are 18 (going on six). If you have cared to read liberated's postings you will know she finds Islam repugnant. You state that "if this (sic) disown me I will forever stay Muslim". If you are a reasonable person, you will never worship Allah as depicted by Mo in Quran but a God who is googilian times more superior than anything we could ever imagine, which does not require helping hands of Mo's army. You will be willing to find your own God like the Liberator. You will love God without hating a single soul no matter what. These are extreme requirements that are nearly impossible to fulfill.

What will be your children in the Majority non-Muslim country where you live? Suppose, your partner didn't want you to influence them would you accept his condition? Do you ever wonder what different paths other religions have to offer to help you guide through life? By the same token, do you ever wonder if you do or don't believe in God, will the wind stop blowing, will a hair stop in its track while falling, will the birds stop singing, will ...??

You can ask zillions of similar simple questions and if the answer to all of them is "no" then you ought figure you have been duped by the Alla-head-hitters and time to exit, like the Liberator and unlike the resident clown skouti.

Man oh man - our resident clown takes a peek here again - I got to hand to you, you are a true "comic" but pathetic. I live a long distance away from Sweden. I guess you took your sorry ass to demonstrate against the Freedom march, did you skouti? What is your excuse bitch not showing up to support Mo-fckers?

Ooooh easy dar schan old bean.....you letting your HATE get the better of you again, LOL

the global hate fest truly fizzled out in spectacular fashion.....you are the rest of the CUNTS in jw could not be bothered to turn up as we all know you lot are too poor, too stoopid and too embarrassed to show up to support the master LOONs......sad indeed :)

Big shout out to skouti!!! This blog is the funniest thing on the net. Shakila the blogger comes straight out of a comic book. Let's start from the top!The question you should be asking yourself is " how can a child be so ruthless to her parents? "This is how you repay them????Secondly the white boy is not willing to commit because he doesn't fancy a paki ball and chain around. What's he going to tell all his buddies at the pub? Thirdly, your fathers may have kept his cool but wait until white boys parents clap their eyes on you. DAMN! That's all I gotta say! So now all your family has abandoned you as you have abandoned them.Johnny boy has already scarpered, he will be changing address and mobile phone no as we speak! Look on the bright side you still have bible classes twice a week! :-)

skouti - "Oh well given what a shite person the fake blogger has been towards her family"

skouti - ".the fake murturd is available just for you BIG BOY"

I did not look very hard to collect your "intelligent quotes about life and love"

skouti, you are suffering from verbal diarrhea. Here are the symptoms - you have the habit of talking crap often; You spit out shit every time you speak. Really skouti, you are this character. I nearly forgotten to mention your are a "good" Muslim. ROFLMAO!

If you decide to move to the US, I'm sure you will be able to find many people who are happy to help someone in your situation. I have no doubt that some Christian group would help you find somewhere to stay temporarily - probably in some family's home - and help you find employment.

This is clearly a forged account. Mention of Robert Spencer and Christianity - with some random Arab-Muslim girl is just too big a coincidence.

Then there is the promotion of Ali Sina - who isn't averse to creating such persona. This person's alleged e-mail is available at alisina.org [As of 19/09/2012 - the site is offline] and the writing style is a bit too different.

I am not saying this is a forgery by Spencer himself - I don't know. But the comments about Muslims are suspiciously like the one's Sina comes up with. The only problem is that . . . I have never come across one of his articles that well written. Neither is his book so well written.

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You can tell a lot from the way a person writes - this is the post that made me suspicious:

Mo wrote - "This is clearly a forged account." ... wow... Mohammad... you are a genius. Can you explain to us how did you come to such a remarkable conclusion in a heart beat, yet you adhere to the forgery of thousand years staring smack centre between your wide open eyes? Take it easy feller if you can't figure the obvious.

There is difference between criticism of Islam and spreading hate towards Muslims . . . there is a clear undertone of deep seated hatred towards Muslims. Go to either . . . Spencer or esp. Sina - such blurring is so obvious there.

An ex-Muslim hatred towards Islam is understandable . . . but such vilification of Muslims? No.

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It doesn't matter how many smart-alec comments some people will write back at me . . . My suspicions will not reside.

Take the systematic stereotypical portrayal of, in particular, men - this is isn't done by those struggling with fundamental identity problems.

There are many blogs written by ex-Muslims - you will not find a single on written in such a style.

Then there is often clear cut separation from "objectionable" acts and behaviour - take the post talking about Israel for example:

skouti - you are wasting your time blogging here - save your breath, so am I. why don't you go on Jihad-watch and get your butt kicked like all those other trolls occasionally show up? I am interested if you have an opinion or just suffering from verbal diarrhea.

Mo-Amin : if you think you have done analysis about the blogger and concluded she is fake, you are no more clueless and mistaken about her than you were about skouti. Clown.

even the fake blogger aka spencer has given up..........this site is So-oooooooo dead...........a bit like jihad watch.........yeah i tore those fcukwits a new one over their global hate fest in Stockholm..and spencer couldnt face the truth so he banned me, when I broke the news that less than 50 of those wankers turned up, Hehehehe. Not even dar schmuck could be bothered. With fans like that eh........yeah that explains why spencer treats his support like mushrooms.......keep em in the dark n feed em shit all day long :)

read my lips - I am interested in whether you have an opinion. It is already known to public you have verbal diarrhea. I treat people like you regularly.

I saw a couple of your postings on JW - I thought the clown is addicted to abusing himself in the open. Out of interest, have you ever written a book about anti-Robert? Of course not - you could not write a single sentences about anything without flavoring with vulgarity. Shame on you.