This is exaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaactly my problem.
I always put my phone on silent, because It's the same tune as my phone's alarm. And whenever I hear it (in public) I go ******* .
So I considered playing a song I like. But it would probably end up the same. So yeah I prefer getting woken up by this ****** iPhone tune, I don't care if I'll hate that one sooner or later.