AAAAAAAAAAAargh!!!!!!!!!I totally sympathise withthis. He does not respect you at all, have another serious talk with him it will get worse because you will eventually hide yourself and not be naked around him and dread going anywhere near him im the end so please explain this.He needs to grow up and respect you and your body.

My DH does this too, when I'm getting changed at night ready to go to bed. When I take my bra off my nipples go rock hard (temperature change I think) and if DH see's this he gropes them but it really bloody hurts.

I've had to tell him that I'm not actually turned on (as he ocviously thinks I am!) it's just because of the temperature change!!!!

So your husband still finds you physically attractive and you are complaining?

Err, I suppose you could try the "If you don't do X (where X seems to be fairly standard husband wife interaction) for a week I will give you the best Y (where Y could be some some fairly non standard husband wife interaction, BJ perhaps) of your entire life."

CyradisTheDMSlayer - All I can say is that univited groping, both ways, is a regular feature of daily life of the three married couples living in this house (plus the soon-to-be-marrieds) and I would be more than slightly worried about the health of a marriage where it would "makes me want to stab him with a spork".

I sort of wonder what type of spontaneous sexual activity is allowed as far as some posters to the thread are concerned??

I would FAR rather have a grope when I am not really in the mood than no grope at all.

' All I can say is that univited groping, both ways, is a regular feature of daily life of the three married couples living in this house (plus the soon-to-be-marrieds) and I would be more than slightly worried about the health of a marriage where it would "makes me want to stab him with a spork".'

And some of us are more than slightly worried about how healthy a relationship is when sexual favours are used as a bargaining tool to regulate adult behaviour, your living arrangments aside.