How to Get Your Elder to Accept Help

Getting an elderly person to accept that they need help when the abilities they've relied on throughout a long life are diminishing can be difficult for you and the elder you're caring for. The tips in the following list provide guidelines for easing your elder into acceptance of a new role:

Approach gently and be understanding, but express your concerns firmly.

Don't tell your elder there's a problem; ask whether he thinks there may be a problem.

Before suggesting outside help, familiarize yourself with community services.