Tuesday, August 12, 2014

DIET COKE ROCKS will be back soon.With me trying to focus on what is good in my life, and how I can go about making my life and those who want to be in my life... better. What I cannot change, I will move on from.Knee jerk reactions are my speciality ... and this one is a classic even for me. It took me AGES to revert all 2,800+ posts of mine to draft! Maybe one day I'll put them back? Until then...

I will continue blogging, but I have to stop and think WHY I blog.

And I'm not sure any more!

But I will sleep on it and have a positive post tomorrow I hope.

Watch this space (diet-coke-rocks)... cos I'm going to try to be a more positive person.

See you soon... like probably later on today! Or tomorrow...seeing as it's already 8.20 pm on Tuesday night here.

End of Day: it's turned into a really wet and freezing night! I think we just had hail too.I'm off to bed ... electric blanket ON.nite nite

6 comments:

You do whatever works best for you - it is YOUR blog. But so so many people have found strength, like interests, kindred spirits in your previous posts that it seems such a shame that these posts aren't available any more. Can only repeat what so many others have said - you've gone way above and beyond for your family - but sometimes you aren't helping them develop their own set of life skills and at the same time you're making huge dents in the time you and Stew get to spend together. So you're dead right sister - this is your time now. Grab it and hold on to it and let the rest of the family sink or swim - it's a fact of life that each one of us should make our own decisions and then live with the outcomes or consequences. It's time to let them make their own choices and live with them. Some will be good choices some won't be the right ones but then they'll be able to work out where they went wrong and come up with a plan to make it right. Meantime be gentle with yourself xx

ME AND STEW

Both struggling to lose weight and be healthier. Parents of 6 adult 'kids' and 13 Grandkids. We have raised two of those grandkids since their births and they are now 16 and 17. December 2017: We have been caring for their 5 year old sister for over a year as well, but at the end of 2017 she will be moving to her new permanent home with our son Steve, and his wife Bex.

WHERE I LIVE:

New Zealand, it's in the South Pacific... and it's NOT a part of Australia! We are home of the All Blacks rugby team, the Kiwi (bird, but can't fly) and lots of bloody neat people!