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Meet your penis and discover your sexual virtuoso…

I have been reading a book by Dr. Barbara Keesling, and she is talking about a man’s penis, I thought I should share the information with you.

Traditionally, men are intensely preoccupied with trying to learn the secret of mastering women’s bodies, yet they spend so little time trying to understand their own. The typical man is prepared to burn the midnight oil studying the intricacies of the female anatomy. He will happily pick up a flashlight and search endlessly for G spots, sun spots, or any other spots that will help him be a better lover, yet he barely knows his own equipment. For a man to be a good lover he needs to know your own penis.

How much do you like your penis?

Do you like your penis? Are you proud of it? Or are your positive feelings mixed with feelings of embarrassment, shame, and doubt? Don’t feel bad if they are. The truth is, very few men are truly comfortable with their own penis, I don’t mean they don’t like their penis but they really don’t spend time to learn it and know it. When it comes to their most private parts, most men feel extremely self-conscious and extremely vulnerable.

We need to change that. Why? Because a positive attitude about your own body sets the stage for a radical change in your sexual power. Every man needs to understand the following fact: the secret to being a good lover lies not within a woman’s body, but within his own. Any man can become a phenomenal lover if he understands that his greatest sexual power lies in his ability to understand and control his own penis. If you want to become a sexual virtuoso, the first thing you need to do is master your own penis. Everything else will follow very quickly from there. To ignore the power of your own penis is to waste your greatest asset, and that’s a shame.

Aren’t You Tired of Having Sex with a Stranger?

You have known your penis all your life. You have known your penis longer than you have known your partner, your boss, your best friend or your car. Yet, for all the time you’ve been together, you barely know it at all. Even though you probably take a good look at your equipment every single day, the real potential of your own penis has continued to elude you. When was the last time you spent any quality time with your penis? When was the last time you two had a real heart-to-heart? I’d guess you were probably eleven or twelve years old at the time. Chances are that back then you were fascinated with your own equipment. It didn’t seem like there was enough time in the day for the two of you to get to know one another.

But once you had your first few orgasms that probably started to change. Once you discovered what felt good to you at the time, your curiosity began to wane. You found a formula that worked, you stuck with it, and that was that. Even if you were tempted to experiment over the years, your attempts were probably more frustrating than fulfilling. A lack of helpful information and an abundance of misinformation could only discourage your natural interest. Living in a world with so little to offer you, you did the best you could. You made peace with your penis and forged a working relationship that continues to this day.

Sure, you might have tried something new once in a great while when you met a new partner or when you got a little bored, but chances are that ten, twenty-five, or even fifty years later, you’re doing pretty much the same thing that you did as an eleven-year-old. But you’re not eleven anymore. You’ve grown up and your body has grown up. Your needs have changed, and now you have a partner who also has needs. Don’t you think it’s time to develop an adult understanding of your own equipment? Don’t you think it’s time to expand upon the mindset of that enthusiastic but naive eleven-year-old and get excited again about your sexual potential as a man?