Saturday, March 3, 2012

which hurts most

12 comments:

its more painful to not take a chance, you never ever everknow what could come of it, the benefits far outweigh the pain of a rejection, because at least you have an answer. live your life with out whatifs <3

I think that 'saying nothing and wishing you had' hurt more, because you'll never know the answer and you'll keep asking yourself ''What if??'' I feel like this right now.. and I really wish I would tell him that I loved him. Now he's completely hone out of my life and I don't know even if I'll ever see him again.It's been 9 months, oh God, when I'll stop counting?

i remember the worst things loved ones have said to me...but i don't remember all of them. i only remember one of two biggies, from one or two people, who i resent anyway. in my good, solid, loving relationships, i know bad things were said, but i don't remember what was said specifically. because they were forgiven, through and through. the words didn't break the love. BUT, there are words i wish i had said, and those are the words that haunt me. those are the words that make me wonder, wonder, wonder, what if? what if i had the courage to tell you...would we be talking now? so of course, you can't take back the words you said, but i hope love will overcome the bad ones, as it has it the past. but i will always remember the words i wish i had said, and the things i may have lost as a result of silence.

Nice question! My english is not very good, but here it goes.By my point of view, i think that is worst to say something and then knowing you cannot do anything about it. Is also an uncomfortable situation to be in extremely silence. So, I think the solution is choosing the correct words in the correct moment, knowing what you want, and say it in a low voice. And, for the other type, not beeing coward, and think that if you need to say something is better to say it than to keep inside the doubt. STOP BEING COWARD, AND TELL. STOP BEING IMPULSIVE, AND CALM DOWN.