Tuesday, 23 July 2013

Mothers of today’s generation are
very active in every sphere of life, be it looking after her family, her child’s
well being, carrying out the daily chores with full proficiency along with
working into big multinationals. The mothers of our country are everywhere and
are hell making us proud. In this run race, one thing that many parents forget
is the pressure that they are sub consciously putting on their child. We all
agree to the fact that world today is full with the cut throat competition without
any doubts in our little heads.. and parents too are aware of this fact, but
they themselves become so handicapped when they see other children around
getting so smart day by day, thus thrusting all expectations on their child.

Now, the irony in today’s scenario
in our country is, there are mothers who are not well versed with the English speaking
and so do not converse with their children in the same, whereby, leading the
child to learn the mother’s language. Now, what happens in public is, these
children, all of a sudden are given orders and instructions in English (for
obeying their parents or may be, at times, get chided too in public. For example,
Rohan come here at once..!!, Eva.. behave
yourself..!!, Sakshi, I will give u a tight slap if you do this again, Eesha
listen to me in one go, etc etc etc ).
Now how on earth is the child expected to understand this language is the first
thing, and secondly, this sudden transformation in the attitude as soon they
step outside their homes actually confuses them as to how to react to their parents!!
It’s hilarious if you observe these things around you and have a look at the
child who becomes so bewildered at the sudden change in its parent’s language
and attitude..!!!

Monday, 22 July 2013

Over the years, I’ve seen the meaning of love getting
changed.. not from any other perspective but for ur beloved.. for me, love is
happiness.. love is being around him.. love is simply looking into his eyes and
watching him for hours and hours.. (to my surprise, I can actually watch him
endlessly..!!!). love is adoring him.. enjoying the fact that he’s all mine for
the life.. wen hes around me, I feel like doing all the things in the world
that a soul mate can do.. from clicking the stupidest pictures to sharing the
most mature conversations.. from caressing him to kissing him everywhr, from blabbering
lyk a nerd to feeling the silence between us and letting our eyes talk..!! my
god.. m such a hopeless romantic..!!!

I’ve never ever liked silence in my life.. but with him, i,
at times, actually enjoy silence.. saying nothing.. doing nothing, just sitting
idle and gazing each other..! and for
me.. he has got the best eyes in the world.. they speak so much to me.. all the
words that my ears yearn to hear, are all spoken through his eyes.. it gives my
heart so much of satisfaction.. there is so much of purity.. so much of
truthfulness, so much of faith, so much of love.. err.. unconditional love
hidden, so much of admiration, so much of positivity, so much of concern, so much
of value.. just everything hidden in those tiny beautiful eyes..!!

When he holds my waist (in public) or puts his hands on my
shoulders (in public again), I get this feeling of being all of his.. his small
questions, which may be very general regarding the day to day life, makes me
more close to him.. I just want to express every single emotion that is getting
developed in my heart for him.. but then lack of time.. uumm.. moreover, I feel
he may finds it really filmy or may be drama.. i feel shy.. and all these are not mere words,
but my feelings which I have for
him..!!!

His fragrance.. his breath.. whenever I sense it.. it makes
me go mad.. it makes me crazy about him.. I feel like getting drowned in him..
just lose myself completely into him..! I dunno what has happened to me..
people may call me nuts.. they may find me lost somewhere.. and yeah.. I am
lost.. completely lost.. in his love.. and I enjoy this feeling of loving someone
sooo madly.. and being loved as well..