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What I want- Cosa voglio

(EN) One day I did a chat with a friend.I was wondering how to understand a person dear to me.I asked to that friend how to do. He answered me: ask him what he wants. I did this and this person told me : ” I do not know .”

Most of the times it happens so, I think. We often want to show others who we are, we want to be seen and appreciated for who we are but judgments affect us , restrict us .

I believe that each of us wants to be a little what others want. But if others do not tell us what they want, if we imagine what they want instead of really know it?

Sometimes we get angry because others have not figured out what we want, because they offend us with the way they act .

But do we know what we want?Have we said what we want? Are we doing what we want?

When I say ” what I want ” does not mean that I have to influence whole world. I can’t force someone to be as I will, I can’t expect that it is what I want :people want something, something that is not mine.

Where to start then?

I would start to say and do things that are my own .

An example ?

Breath is mine, my smile is mine , my hands are mine.

We often smile when others smile. If they do not smile at us, but if I want to smile, why not do it ?

Why do we feel alone or considered doing it?

Here comes one of the most dangerous human qualities: imagination .

Imagination does not see.It judges and misjudges. That smile can bring pleasure maybe to someone who we can not see , we just have to see it .

We are always divided between what others want or think and what we want and we think.

Among others and us, who is it that we can touch , see really without imagination?

I think the answer is : ourselves.

In people we often see quality , defects, answers to our needs ecc.So that I wonder : is not too easy to look out the window instead of inside our house?

Usually we leave ours when it is unlivable , when we fail to bring order in it.

If I start saying: I want a table in the kitchen , bed in bedroom, that my clothes are in that place and not in another , my house will be a nice place and there will be no need to run out.

If I want to put a sunflower in my house I cando it, because I like it , if I want to put my house on a helicopter because I do not like where it is,I do not succeed and I fall to the ground,I smash myself.

I think that we should always start from what we already have, there ‘s our only safety, there on the ground where I can say ” what I want ” .

Most of the time, what others have , the new or far more and more it’s that we look for. ” What we nalready have ” is not worth anything or worth little.

But why?

Satisfaction in life is to say what I want and with that things I already able to enjoy, to live .

What I want: the most difficult thing to say, the most useful and beautifulthing to do.