5 Signs He Is Absolutely, Positively And Without Question THE ONE

Despite what the movies and TV specials would have you believe, love is messy and complicated.

People annoy each other, argue, and do incredibly dumb things. It’s just part of being human.

Yet when you’re with the right person, certain qualities shine through. No matter how frustrating your partner can be, taking a step back to look at the big picture can help you decide whether the relationship is right for you.

Here are 5 ways to tell if you’re in love with the right person — for you.

Remember when you were a kid, and you and your best friend were inseparable?

You spent long days laying in the grass watching the clouds, stayed up all night talking, and shared secrets you would never share with anyone else. When one of you was in trouble, the other one was right there figuring out how to fix it.

When you’re in love with the right person, it feels a lot like returning to those simpler days. You might be dealing with the pressures of work, school, and conflicting responsibilities, and you might not have time to lay in the grass.

But you genuinely enjoy each other’s company, you tell each other everything, and you have the unshakable knowledge that if something goes wrong for one of you, the two of you will face it together.

You’re at each other’s side through laughter and tears, and you take comfort from each other. You’re not afraid to be silly, and you’re not afraid to be weak. You like each other’s quirks, and there’s nothing you wouldn’t do for each other.

You argue your points rather than attacking your partner, and you focus on conflict resolution rather than simply ending the argument. You look for points of common ground, and you seek solutions that work for both of you.

Some people have to learn this, which is possible and important to do. Learning these skills with your partner can make them the “right person” for you.

You feel like a natural part of each other’s innermost worlds, and you are the most comfortable and relaxed when your partner is around.

People fall in love for all sorts of reasons, and not all relationships are destined to last.

If you are wondering whether your partner is right for you, take a step back and look at the relationship objectively.

Do you feel most or all of these things, at least some of the time?

Does your partner feel the same?

Don’t worry if one or two components are missing, especially if your relationship is fairly new. Deep levels of trust take time to develop, and you and your partner need to find a balance that works for you.