That was a decent post until "god help..." They do stuff and help people in more ways than op ever will, but they are still human. As an ff/emt i can say that sometimes they only way to deal with some of the shite we see is drinking. But 9.5 out of 10 of us know that even if you smell a drink you stay home if there is a call. Give her the benefit. She sounds good to me. Nice try, Jackass.