Being Gay Asian & Heavy

Wancy Young Cho is a writer who has been outspoken about race and dating in the gay community. But one thing he has written that differentiates himself from other similar essays is his take on body image. In short Wancy Young Cho is heavy. Rice queen like their Asian guys slim, thinner than Ghandi. I have always likened it to Rice Queen being closeted, bisexual or newly out after being with women. These guys want a guy with the body of a woman (smooth, soft & thin) but with the plumbing of a man. If you don’t have those qualities you might as well be invisible.

Which is ironic because if Wancy Young Cho was white, he’d have no problems finding a guy or getting lucky. But because he doesn’t have the think body image Rice Queen crave, he is pretty much invisible. I personally think Wancy Young Cho quite cute, and again if he was white guys would be all over him. That is a fact.

Mission Statement

As a Gay Asian Male I believe there is racial discrimination and prejudice in the mostly white homogeneous gay community. However I DO NOT think sexual attraction equals racism. I believe in sexual preference when it comes to dating or hooking up. Meaning white guys have every right to choose what race they wish to date or sleep with.

There will be many articles on racial discrimination in terms of dating or hooking up. My hope for Gay Asians is that they will read these articles and WAKE-UP. Realizing that the majority of Gay White Men are not interested in Asian men. Hopefully get some self-respect and stop chasing after every white guy because it is a waste of time.

The #1 focus of this site is raising awareness to other Gay Asians on how we are seen and treated in the gay community. Plus how some Gay Asians are combating stereotypes by making themselves visible within LGBT circles.