That was exactly the phrase that went through my head. This madam is making it very difficult for reasonable people to keep defending her. Toke, stop eeet. Fight the addiction to tell everyone online your joy. Sing a song of thanksgiving to Jesus,call a friend, in fact email all your close friends a testimony about finding a new boo if you must, but Put. The. Phone. Down. Your followers are not your besties.

Obere…..you don start again. No carry that boyfriend enter inside. You have started raising platform for on becoming ppart two. Besides Toke i don’t understand. Are u supposed to be datind or courting? Last time i checked they are two different things.

Hiding your boyfriend or exposing him isn’t likely to change the prognosis of your relationship. Keeping things private however gives you the opportunity to enjoy your pleasures, work through your issues or cry about your pain without being under the public lens unnecessarily. Especially if you’re someone who has flirted with thoughts of suicide over public criticism. We can’t exactly say you’re a thick skinned person who doesn’t give a s**t about faceless pseudonym using people on the internet can we?

I used to think you were a bit mature. Why would you say such about someone you don’t know? Someone who has never done anything to you? This is probably the first time you’re seeing him.
Totally unnecessary, this is bullying and it is childish.

Don’t run away please. Thought exactly the same thing when I opened the page. Toke does have a spec sha. If she was to send out flyers looking for a man. The qualifications part would read; must look like Maje. Wish her all the best on this new once again spotlight relationship

I feel Toke uses SM platforms to manipulate these men and pressure them into commitment. She literally stamped Maje with her SM campaign; by throwing him everywhere before they got hitched. She should let this dude breathe biko and as for the Uncle, Goodluck! God knows you’ll need it.

A girl and I both expressed our attraction to each other . She doesn’t live in Nigeria at the moment .when i went to the country she resides in, I didn’t tell her but she knew because I posted a picture and allowed Facebook to use my location . She didn’t react to my post and didn’t contact me . What is she thinking?
I recently saw a photo of her and a guy in a photo looking cute together . I don’t know if I should contact her and if she will reply me because of what I did . Is the guy her boyfriend ? Is she trying to spite me ? I feel bad to be honest . How can I get back on her good side if I am that is?
Please ladies , help a guy out . Thank you

This is the problem with men. Until it seems you are losing a woman or you’ve lost her, you don’t act right. It places an unbelievable amount of pressure on women to always play these games if not, you don’t make yourself appealing you don’t make him want you etc. Do everything to ‘keep a man’ that 9/10 will still do something that shakes you to your core. At what point do we enjoy love? Lord help women. I wish more of us lived for ourselves and God not these societal pressures

You’ve not starting hurting yet Mr Hurting.
I dislike guys that play games. Keep playing mind games on her while she stays scoring goals into another man’s heart.
Don’t worry she will soon post her “pre wedding pics” on Facebook.

I almost didn’t reply to your comment. I am tempted to gloat too lol. Well, ring her and tell her about your recent trip, then give a reasonable excuse on why you didn’t inform her you were in town (something happened, blah blah). She is already approaching the situation like you’re a f-k boy, so don’t blow too much lies. Then ask her if she is in a relationship. Please if you still have the playing games motive, stay away from her and continue hurting with a tub of ice cream and a check flick.

When u have low self esteem you need validation from rest of the world so you people should leave her alone, She is a work in progress, she doesn’t have the same level of self worth as you do so if showing off her joy makes her feel better then let her be. Someday she’ll stop.

A girl and I both expressed our attraction to each other . She doesn’t live in Nigeria at the moment .when i went to the country she resides in, I didn’t tell her but she knew because I posted a picture and allowed Facebook to use my location . She didn’t react to my post and didn’t contact me . What is she thinking?
I recently saw a photo of her and a guy in a photo looking cute together . She looked really happy and smiling with her eyes and teeth . I don’t know what the guy said to her but the way she smiled in the pic could light up a room. I don’t know if I should contact her and if she will reply me because of what I did . Is the guy her boyfriend ? Is she trying to spite me ? I feel bad to be honest . How can I get back on her good side if I am that is?
Please ladies , help a guy out . Thank you

What kind of response do you expect from BN girls when l they know is marriage and nothing more.

All of them have played guys in their young age now that time is not on their side they will be talking about u playing games and all that.

From your post, you did nothing wrong. You went to where she lives but your pic was only you mot with a girl while hers is with a guy.

What are you hurting for? Receive sense in Jesus name. There are a millions and one girls out there who wants a guy to even say hello to them. If she’s not talking to you again, throw her away like hand washing water….

It would be hard for her to trust you again so i think both of you should go your separate ways. If you don’t have something to hide why wouldn’t you tell her you’re travelling to her country?? Boy! Girls are not fools anymore. You misbehave once and they’ve moved on before you count up to 3. Good luck with whatever decision you make, I have none to give you.

Hmmmmmm,
When those this man has only said hi to start coming up and giving all sorts of sordid tales about him. Toke will say men are wicked.
As for me I never posted pics of my hubby while dating, even on my bb n what’s app profile.
Na once a yr on his bday I post. Next day I’ve removed it fiam.
I don’t just personally believe in posting pics of someone that I’m not sure of him being permanent in my life.
Until deres a ring and I’m sure ur going nowhere I MAY post.
What do I know sef. Do you Toke

Honestly,i can almost bet that someone has taken over Iyke’s moniker. The kind of comments he makes now, well i don’t know what to make of them, to think this was the same Iyke that would wax philosophical,add poetry and analyse issues. Back in the days BNers were even trying to matchmake him with our Mz Socially Awkward…..now this Iyke….that makes all these comments,what are you becoming?

I dnt believe in show off cos if it didn’t work.they will start couting……no upload until legally married…even engagement is not marriage.TOKE HOPE U NO GO DO BUTT N BREAST ENLARGEMENT SURGERY COS HE LIKE DEM BIG.TOKE God help u

Can we leave her to enjoy what she has. Maje was doomed from day one, this doesn’t look doomed. We r not her parent or her relative, so what right does social media have to dictate when and how to deal with her relationship.Its her prerogative to express love on social media not ours.