Reconciliation means that we both are authentic and vulnerable. I still have my H, and he's a better man than ever!

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hard_yards♀ MemberMember # 23549

Posted: 3:10 PM, July 31st (Wednesday), 2013

bump....

I feel like I'm in a parallel universe... everything looks the same... but something's just not right...

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hard_yards♀ MemberMember # 23549

Posted: 3:42 AM, August 6th (Tuesday), 2013

bump

I feel like I'm in a parallel universe... everything looks the same... but something's just not right...

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hard_yards♀ MemberMember # 23549

Posted: 10:30 PM, August 6th (Tuesday), 2013

bumping to page one again

I feel like I'm in a parallel universe... everything looks the same... but something's just not right...

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Joyless29♀ New MemberMember # 39824

Posted: 11:22 PM, August 6th (Tuesday), 2013

Thank you for this wisdom. My WH says he is remorseful, but his actions say differently. He is tying to make me feel sorry for him and at some point it was working. I needed to hear this. I need to keep the course. Thank you.

When life changes to be harder, change yourself to be stronger.

Posts: 18 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: Northeast

still confounded♀ MemberMember # 7826

Posted: 8:17 PM, August 20th (Tuesday), 2013

Bump for newcomers ...

"Sometimes, the rest of your life starts with goodbye."
D-day April 2005
(Married 33 years, together 35)
Divorced Dec. '05
Life is good, but it took a long time to heal.

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katherine41♀ MemberMember # 5792

Posted: 12:17 AM, September 16th (Monday), 2013

It still holds true for me.

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RRosemary♀ New MemberMember # 40682

Posted: 8:08 AM, September 16th (Monday), 2013

Great to read, thank you. I'm going through that 'but if I make him mad, he'll leave me' stuff, even though I'm considering leaving HIM - old habits die hard.

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hard_yards♀ MemberMember # 23549

Posted: 10:19 PM, October 2nd (Wednesday), 2013

bump

I feel like I'm in a parallel universe... everything looks the same... but something's just not right...