wtf, can I help u??

Every time my boyfriend and I go out, we always get ignorant stares from people! It's pissing me off now! Is it because I'm light skinned (Spanish) and he's black and our baby is my completion? Do people think "that cant be his baby?" Do they see the age difference? (13 yrs apart) we always get dirty, ignorant stares and I almost blew up on a few people today! We brought our LO to a Christmas "Village" and the lines were long and we got stares from so many damn people! Wtf ! Im tired of going out and havinf to deal with this kind of ****! Can I help you??? Mind your damn business! I hate ignorant people! Get a fuxkin life! Vent over

Every time my boyfriend and I go out, we always get ignorant stares from people! It's pissing me off now! Is it because I'm light skinned (Spanish) and he's black and our baby is my completion? Do people think "that cant be his baby?" Do they see the age difference? (13 yrs apart) we always get dirty, ignorant stares and I almost blew up on a few people today! We brought our LO to a Christmas "Village" and the lines were long and we got stares from so many damn people! Wtf ! Im tired of going out and havinf to deal with this kind of ****! Can I help you??? Mind your damn business! I hate ignorant people! Get a fuxkin life! Vent over

I'm so sorry! People are so damn stupid! And mean!! It's sad that there's still so much racism and prejudice and judgement! And no one even has the decency to hide their ignorant thoughts! My 2 1/2 dd is really light skinned with toe head blonde hair and blue eyes and DH and I are both dark hair dark eyes and people would straight out ask me if DH was the father!! Wtf?! Yes but what business is it of yours anyways?! And now with our 2nd dd I lost all my baby weight in a week and I'm very thin (I'm a freak I know) and whenever I'm out with them people ask me if she's adopted! And I would get stares all the time! I've never been so insulted!! I can't believe people have the guts to assume and judge and straight out ask questions like that! My situation isn't like yours and I'm sorry people are racist idiots but just wanted to share how completely stupid people are in general! I know it's hard try not to take it too personal. They're not worth your time!

I'm so sorry! People are so damn stupid! And mean!! It's sad that there's still so much racism and prejudice and judgement! And no one even has the decency to hide their ignorant thoughts! My 2 1/2 dd is really light skinned with toe head blonde hair and blue eyes and DH and I are both dark hair dark eyes and people would straight out ask me if DH was the father!! Wtf?! Yes but what business is it of yours anyways?! And now with our 2nd dd I lost all my baby weight in a week and I'm very thin (I'm a freak I know) and whenever I'm out with them people ask me if she's adopted! And I would get stares all the time! I've never been so insulted!! I can't believe people have the guts to assume and judge and straight out ask questions like that! My situation isn't like yours and I'm sorry people are racist idiots but just wanted to share how completely stupid people are in general! I know it's hard try not to take it too personal. They're not worth your time!

That sucks. People can be so rude. My LO looks just like his father (who is Hispanic) except he is lighter. I've had people ask me when LO was in Moby wrap if I'm the mother. Wth. Also the damn ladies at the wic office keep thinking I speak Spanish. They ask me every time.

That sucks. People can be so rude. My LO looks just like his father (who is Hispanic) except he is lighter. I've had people ask me when LO was in Moby wrap if I'm the mother. Wth. Also the damn ladies at the wic office keep thinking I speak Spanish. They ask me every time.

Ignorant Chinese immigrant elderly folks made a back handed comment to me at the Walgreens pharmacy in Chinatown. I was waiting alone in line with my baby girl who was strapped to my chest via bjorn. These old folks swarmed around me and said tome in chinese, your baby looks like her father - who wasn't even in the store. Bc she didn't look Chinese to them. She has light brown hair, my (rare) big almond eyes and think long eye lashes like his father.

Ignorant Chinese immigrant elderly folks made a back handed comment to me at the Walgreens pharmacy in Chinatown. I was waiting alone in line with my baby girl who was strapped to my chest via bjorn. These old folks swarmed around me and said tome in chinese, your baby looks like her father - who wasn't even in the store. Bc she didn't look Chinese to them. She has light brown hair, my (rare) big almond eyes and think long eye lashes like his father.

People are so stupid, I deal with this too. I'm fair skinned with light blonde hair and my husband is black, people have asked my children before where their mommy was... HELLO! I'm right here people holding their hands!

People are so stupid, I deal with this too. I'm fair skinned with light blonde hair and my husband is black, people have asked my children before where their mommy was... HELLO! I'm right here people holding their hands!

Haven't dealt with ppl staring since i gave birth(not the elephant in the room anymore) lol but I was in a beauty supply store and the Chinese lady asked me what my daughter's name was. I told her skylar grace. Her and her Chinese friend start saying some **** in Chinese. Then she looks at me and is like.... That name is so.... Proper. Excuse me??? Bc I'm black, were u expecting some ghetto **** to come outta my mouth? *****es!!!!! Have a good day LO mein and chow yung

Haven't dealt with ppl staring since i gave birth(not the elephant in the room anymore) lol but I was in a beauty supply store and the Chinese lady asked me what my daughter's name was. I told her skylar grace. Her and her Chinese friend start saying some **** in Chinese. Then she looks at me and is like.... That name is so.... Proper. Excuse me??? Bc I'm black, were u expecting some ghetto **** to come outta my mouth? *****es!!!!! Have a good day LO mein and chow yung

I feel like people are always staring at us too. I'm not sure why. Maybe they'd be starring at you guys if you all had the same skin color. People are weird. I think we both have DDs born 8-12-12 though. If I remember right! Don't worry about stupid rude people! :) they're probably jealous of you're pretty baby!

I feel like people are always staring at us too. I'm not sure why. Maybe they'd be starring at you guys if you all had the same skin color. People are weird. I think we both have DDs born 8-12-12 though. If I remember right! Don't worry about stupid rude people! :) they're probably jealous of you're pretty baby!

Racism is such a touchy subject for me I hate how people can be so rude and inconsiderate....so far i have not had any comments like that with my son ( his father is Jamaican) I did have one elderly man say one day "oh my gosh he is handsome and he looks like he has had some fun in the sun"...i just chuckled and said yes he has a wonderful tan wish i had one!!! lol

Racism is such a touchy subject for me I hate how people can be so rude and inconsiderate....so far i have not had any comments like that with my son ( his father is Jamaican) I did have one elderly man say one day "oh my gosh he is handsome and he looks like he has had some fun in the sun"...i just chuckled and said yes he has a wonderful tan wish i had one!!! lol

That's funny karkar! My husband and I get exactly the opposite comments. LO looks very Asian (my husband is white Australian) and people can't believe that he is the father! I've even over heard some complete stranger joking that the baby must be an "anchor baby"- as is have the baby to get green card!! That got me so angry since I am already an Australian citizen!! So yes, ignorant people are everywhere :(

That's funny karkar! My husband and I get exactly the opposite comments. LO looks very Asian (my husband is white Australian) and people can't believe that he is the father! I've even over heard some complete stranger joking that the baby must be an "anchor baby"- as is have the baby to get green card!! That got me so angry since I am already an Australian citizen!! So yes, ignorant people are everywhere :(

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