Re: 3/12 Bachelor 16: The Finale and ATFR **West Coast Spoilers**

Originally Posted by Eastcoastmom

Yes, she really is angelic. She always has such a big smile on her face, in contrast with Ben's constant morose state. Ben is very guarded and not the least bit open. It's incongruous to me how he wants everyone to open up to him yet reveals so little of himself and his feelings. I know he can't tell the women what his feelings are towards them, but he is very closed off.

People want what they value but lack. He wants people to open up because he has such a hard time expressing his own feelings (evidenced perhaps by everyone saying he is so emotionless). Courtney has what seems an almost total lack of foresight and needs someone like Ben's steady advice. They are suited for one another but that doesn't mean things they did are right. You can be carefree without "twisting the knife" as it were.