Being a “BETCH” – The Guide to take Control of your happiness

When you hear the word BETCH you might think of it as a prostitute or a whore. But today’s modern world there are mainly two types of woman:

Yes Girl / Nice Girl

Feminist / Betch / Bitch

Some of you might think that it takes to be a NICE GIRL to get what you want. Being NICE or saying YES that sounds everything so good will bring you the normal happy life you would always wanted. And being Nice to men and to everything in your life will eventually brings you good luck. And that you are okay being just a housewife who stays at home and take care of the children. Cause you know your happy by being Nice.

But in my world, things does not turns out the way it is. Yes obstacles are not a rare thing to find but it is what made me stronger. My failures are my solid ground and to pass that and certainly to not be involved in shitty relationships, I became a betch who works in her own way to get what I want.

Lately I have found to read books which I find so interesting.

These books taught me a lot of stuffs when dealing with issues and learning how to manipulate people. Remember that people are so fake and superficial, where we have the right to be fake and superficial but in a way that you can control where it goes.

Yes, you are grateful but there are times you have to do it in a certain way to get what you want.

For example I have always been mistreated as a woman because I am a soon to be dentist whom traditional men can enslave me. I thought that if I keep saying yes (I was once the yes girl) I would eventually turn him to do what I always do. But instead men kept controlling and I kept being UNHAPPY (and yes I am not grateful for it). I thought that love was out there, instead traditional men wanted me to be their dearest SLAVE.

I revolutionized. And I knew somehow I needed to rebel.

I rebelled but didn’t know that I was headed to be a BETCH.

I am your truly BETCHY ANGEL.

When I read these two books I was already half a betch I was now. I already know what I want and these books guided enough to get me where I am.

Being a BETCH is about self-control and not letting yourself be cheap. Because as a woman, I know I am worth it, and I am your winning prize. And everyone who has you on their side of the game are lucky enough.

Being a BETCHis about taking over the world, controlling your status, controlling the people around you, and being a leader of herself, family and friends.

By all means, you are a HIGH QUALITY WOMAN with no doubt is an assets.

If people are so superficial, then you have the right to be superficial too, beat them over.

So… As the BETCH STUDY would say…

Don’t be EasyCause if you are anyone can get you and that anyone is average people

Don’t be PoorAt least don’t tell people you are, cause eventually even religion studies tells us to be rich to serve the poor too

Don’t be UglyEveryone judge, either it’s subjective or objective, even in health fields we judge our patient too. Your image and what you bring into the table defines who you are.

If you are happy with being Nice and being a Yes Girl, it is totally fine. I am sure that is enough for you. But even successful people have their own way.

The person in fancy hijabi isn’t easy, poor or ugly, there are times when they are not nice. Somehow being nice is a manipulative way to get what we want. Believe it or not, you manipulate people into thinking that you are the person you projected to be.

The woman sitting as the CEO knows a way to stir the boards, and you won’t even able to say no to her. She can say NO to you but you won’t be able to say NO to her.

Being a betch is about controlling your own happiness and what’s right for you without being dependant to others.