SerJR, I just saw this... I wish I could have read this almost 2 years ago!

At least there will be others who get to read it when they really, really, need it.

Your work is appreciated!

Posts: 128 | Registered: Nov 2007 | From: Ontario, Canada

SerJR♂ MemberMember # 14993

Posted: 9:35 PM, July 13th (Sunday), 2008

Me: BH - Happily remarried.
Hope is never lost. It exists within you - it is real. It is not a force in and of itself - it is something that you create with every thought, action, and choice you make. It is a gift that you create for yourself.

Me: BH - Happily remarried.
Hope is never lost. It exists within you - it is real. It is not a force in and of itself - it is something that you create with every thought, action, and choice you make. It is a gift that you create for yourself.

Posts: 17109 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: Further North than South

bbee♀ MemberMember # 17840

Posted: 12:23 AM, July 21st (Monday), 2008

bump

This above all: to thine ownself be true,
And it must follow, as the night the day,
Thou canst not then be false to any man.

Hamlet, Act I, Scene 3

Love all, trust a few, do wrong to none.

All's Well That Ends Well, Act I, Scene 1

Posts: 6664 | Registered: Jan 2008 | From: SE US

bbee♀ MemberMember # 17840

Posted: 8:19 PM, July 22nd (Tuesday), 2008

bump

This above all: to thine ownself be true,
And it must follow, as the night the day,
Thou canst not then be false to any man.

Hamlet, Act I, Scene 3

Love all, trust a few, do wrong to none.

All's Well That Ends Well, Act I, Scene 1

Posts: 6664 | Registered: Jan 2008 | From: SE US

bbee♀ MemberMember # 17840

Posted: 1:02 AM, July 25th (Friday), 2008

bump

This above all: to thine ownself be true,
And it must follow, as the night the day,
Thou canst not then be false to any man.

Hamlet, Act I, Scene 3

Love all, trust a few, do wrong to none.

All's Well That Ends Well, Act I, Scene 1

Posts: 6664 | Registered: Jan 2008 | From: SE US

DivaCC♀ MemberMember # 20382

Posted: 8:46 AM, July 25th (Friday), 2008

Wonderful and much needed! Thank you

Me- BS-35
Him- WH-38 EA Co-worker 2 months
Married 7 1/2 years
1 daughter-7
DDay-06/24/08 DDAY2- 08/03/08
The world's a rollercoaster
And I am not strapped in
Maybe I should hold with care
But my hands are busy in the air-Incubus

Posts: 71 | Registered: Jul 2008

Wanda23♀ MemberMember # 12919

Posted: 7:52 PM, July 27th (Sunday), 2008

Bumping because it is so important.

Can you tell by the way that I am no longer hunched over that I'm divorced?????

Posts: 1404 | Registered: Dec 2006 | From: Omaha, Nebraska

Flippa♀ New MemberMember # 20414

Posted: 9:53 PM, July 27th (Sunday), 2008

Great info, I'm 3 days out from D-day and still a computer crazed maniac gathering all the online support and information I can get. Thanks for your words.

Me: BH - Happily remarried.
Hope is never lost. It exists within you - it is real. It is not a force in and of itself - it is something that you create with every thought, action, and choice you make. It is a gift that you create for yourself.

Posts: 17109 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: Further North than South

bbee♀ MemberMember # 17840

Posted: 11:35 AM, August 3rd (Sunday), 2008

bump

This above all: to thine ownself be true,
And it must follow, as the night the day,
Thou canst not then be false to any man.

Hamlet, Act I, Scene 3

Love all, trust a few, do wrong to none.

All's Well That Ends Well, Act I, Scene 1

Posts: 6664 | Registered: Jan 2008 | From: SE US

SerJR♂ MemberMember # 14993

Posted: 10:44 AM, August 5th (Tuesday), 2008

Are we playing volleyball bbee?

bump

Me: BH - Happily remarried.
Hope is never lost. It exists within you - it is real. It is not a force in and of itself - it is something that you create with every thought, action, and choice you make. It is a gift that you create for yourself.

Posts: 17109 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: Further North than South

sparrowjackMemberMember # 20264

Posted: 12:40 PM, August 5th (Tuesday), 2008

This is exactly the post I needed to read. I think I am in a 'fog' of my own. I want so badly to believe her, but she is following the script of others to a 'T'. I want to believe that she is done with him and that she wants the marriage to work, but some of her actions just aren't reflecting that.

Me: 36
Her: 36
Married: 10 years
Kids: twin boys (8) 1 girl (3)
Found out: 1/1/08
d-day: 7/15/08
moved out: 11/15/08
Filed for D: 12/19/08
She still has contact with him as of today