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My hot roommate flaunts it around me...

I knew Casey before he was my room mate. We have mutual friends. I'd see him out at bars and always thought he was a hot and sexy guy. He's tall, lean, muscularly toned but not too much, he has dark green eyes and wavy dirty blonde hair. He oozes of confidence and sexiness. He's the type of guy who knows he's got it and loves it. Among our friends, he was known as the "pussy magnet" because he always got laid whenever he'd go out. I used to be intimidated just talking to him. But having said all that, he really is nice and always treated me friendly.

So fast forward 2 years later, and I'm living with a friend I've known for a long time. We needed a third room mate to help with expenses and Casey needed a place to move. So it was an obvious choice.

Casey and my other room mate are as straight as they come. I'm bi, but they don't know that and I am very 'straight acting.' I have had one night stands with a few girls in the past so they would have no reason to suspect anything about me.

But lately, I've been more on the gay side of being bi and I haven't had a girl over in quite some time. So here's what my room mate Casey has done lately.

For the last year he's been dating the same girl and she stays here at least 3-4 nights a week. Every night they have sex and he could care less about being loud about it. We live in a townhouse but my room is beneath his so I always hear when he's fucking. He sounds so aggressive.

We had some friends over to watch the Super Bowl and right after it was over, in front of everyone, he told his girl friend he wanted to fuck and they went upstairs and started to go at it. I could her a few slaps in the midst of the bed thumping. I went into my room and couldn't do anything else but jack off. After 45 minutes of this, he came down to get a drink and was only wearing mesh sport shorts without any underwear. I could see his huge bulge and he was a bit sweaty. He looked at me without saying a word and just smiled like he knew he was the shit.

One time he came home really drunk and had a fight with his girl friend. She wasn't coming over. We were in the kitchen drinking a few beers and in front of our other room mate and a friend he kept getting really close to me and staring me down. He looked at me and said, 'you know I hear a mouth is just a mouth, buddy, and I really just want to fuck something. You want me whip my cock out for you?' I was suddenly speechless but I felt belittled in front of our friends who were laughing. Casey grabbed his bulge right in front of me and said 'c'mon I know you do. I just need to shoot my load.' I tried to play it off and just laughed along and then went into my room to jack off again.

A few days after that, we were just sitting around watching TV and out of no where he starts to tell me how he 'skull fucked' his girl friend this morning. He described the whole thing like I had asked him or something. He said how he kept pulsating his dick and hitting her in the face. Then he said how much he liked making her gag. He asked me if I've ever been able to make a girl gag on my dick. Before I could say anything, he said, 'my guess is your just average in size aren't you? well let me tell you buddy, I'm what they call hung and it feels great to watch a bitch struggle to take it.' Then he said how he shot his cum on her face and in her mouth and he took some pics with his phone if I wanted to see. He says all this with a huge smile on his face. I did see one picture of his girl friend with his cum on her face but his dick wasn't in the pic.

Just about 2 weeks ago, I had come home from work and Casey was in his room with this door open and talking to our other room mate. I have to walk past his room to use the bathroom and he said, 'hey buddy how ya doing?' I popped my head in his room to see what they were talking about. Of course, it was sex. He was standing at the foot of his bed and was explaining to us how he likes to fuck his girl friend from behind while he stands with her bent over the bed. He tried to grab me and use me as an example but I fought him off. He said in such a sexy voice, 'I like it when bitches try to resist, but they all give in.' Again, my other room mate starts laughing and I just said nothing. He then said how he likes that position cause he can pull her hair and slap her ass at the same time. Our other room mate asked if Casey's girlfriend lets him fuck her in the ass. He frowned and said, 'I've tried a lot, but she won't let me anymore because she says it hurts too much.' Then he laughed, grabbed his cock and balls and said, 'That's cause I got a big cock.' As I walked away, he said how he'd love to fuck a real tight ass though and commented that he thought I'd have a tighter ass than most pussy he's fucked.

The other day I had just gotten home from work, and Casey came in a few minutes after me. He does construction and painting and stuff like that, so his work clothes are always dirty, torn, and too tight on him. He looks amazingly hot with an I don't give a fuck attitude and swagger. He comes in and starts complaining about how he hates wearing underwear. He took his shirt off and went into his room. He left his door open and took his pants off. I saw him in his boxer briefs and from a profile side, I could see his huge bulge. Right as he turned to look at me, I turned and walked away. When he came back out, he was wearing only those mesh sport shorts and no shirt or underwear. He asked if I got a good enough look, to which I played dumb about.

A few nights ago, he came into the kitchen while I was in there. He was only wearing those cotton Polo pajama pants. I know he wasn't wearing any underwear cause the pajama pants were riding so low. He had a HUGE bulge in his pants that I just couldn't resist looking at. I know he saw me checking him out and then he came up real close to me again and constantly grabbed his bulge to 'adjust' it in his pants. He had this sly smile on his face knowing that I wanted to keep looking. He started talking to me about stupid bullshit that I didn't care about. He just wanted to have a reason to keep me there staring at him and his defined chest with a nice happy trail that led to his bulge where he made sure to keep grabbing in front of me. As I walked away to go down into my room, he said, 'hey, I'm gonna go fuck my girl friend now. I'll try to keep it down, but I can't promise anything. I'm sure you really enjoy the performance though, don't you?' I replied as if I didn't notice or care. He said, 'damn buddy, you haven't had a girl over in a while so I know you're not getting laid which means you gotta be beating off down there, right?' I said what's it matter to you? He said, 'It doesn't matter to me, but I'm sure I'm giving you plenty to work with.' Then he smiled, laughed, grabbed his bulge again and went into his room.

I had been thinking about starting this thread for a little while now, but I finally decided to because just earlier today, I walked into another conversation Casey was having with our room mate about if they've ever taken a Viagra or Cialis or something. Casey said, 'fuck no, I've always got an erection all the time as it is.' I walked in right as he said that and he again, grabbed his bulge, looked at me and said, 'you know I do, don't you?' I said nothing but just laughed it off again. Casey said, 'don't lie, I've seen you try to compare yourself with me.' I said he was crazy, but he laughed and said it's cool and he doesn't care, but if I keep it up he's gonna start 'charging me for looking.' I walked away and came here to get it all out.

I really don't know how this will end up. He's very straight and I feel like he's on to me about being bi or curious about him. There's no way I'd ever believe he'd be willing to let me suck him off or anything. I just think he loves the fact that I want to and that I can't. He clearly knows I've jerked off to him having sex. Does anyone else have similar experiences? It's driving me crazy how he does this.

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I agree with Mano. Casey sounds like a first class A-hole. He enjoys showing off and taunting you. Honestly, I don't think he suspects you are bi. He is too full of himself to even think about anybody else--witness his treatment of his girlfriend. She must have low self esteem to put up with that crap. Casey will have even more power over you if you reveal interest in him. That would be a big mistake. There are plenty of hung, hot, bi and gay guys out there who would love to mess around with you. Please go find one of them!

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I think your friend casey is an asshole and he constantly pushes the line with you. Maybe he suspects something about your sexuality, maybe he doesn't. In either case, its disrespectful. you dont need to be taunted like that.

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I'm somewhat inclined to jump to the 'he is a jerk' line too but there a few things that give me pause. First off is there was this line

But having said all that, he really is nice and always treated me friendly.

You indicate that you were friends well before he became your roommate. Just how much of a friend was he? Best buds or just casual social friends? Is he showing off to you because he knows your bi or just to flaunt his prowness to another straight guy? Is his frankly 'dominating' displays to tease you, embarrass you, juvenile strutting or is he really trying to come on to you?

The answers to most of these questions say jerk but you really need to step back and try to determine what the truth is based on your history. On the remote chance that he might actually be interested in you there a couple of things you would really need to consider. One he is clearly not into long term monogamous relationships. Don't expect true love from him. Two, he is very clearly dominate! Which boils down to any relationship is going to be him using you as the earlier posters suggested. If you can accept that and are willing to be used AND you are certain of your friendship then something might be possible. But if you aren't certain, I wouldn't go there.

ďYou canít con people, at least not for long. You can create excitement, you can do wonderful promotion and get all kinds of press, and you can throw in a little hyperbole. But if you donít deliver the goods, people will catch on.Ē

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Originally Posted by mano

Casey sounds like self-centered trash to me and I wouldn't give him the time of day if I were you.

Agreed. And that girl must have no self esteem if she allows him to smack her in the face. She ought to get him drunk, tie his sorry ass to the bed, and insert the biggest dildo she can find up his butt. LOL. Maybe that would take a bit of the swagger out of this self centered bully.

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Originally Posted by Stardreamer

You indicate that you were friends well before he became your roommate. Just how much of a friend was he? Best buds or just casual social friends? Is he showing off to you because he knows your bi or just to flaunt his prowness to another straight guy? Is his frankly 'dominating' displays to tease you, embarrass you, juvenile strutting or is he really trying to come on to you?

The answers to most of these questions say jerk but you really need to step back and try to determine what the truth is based on your history. On the remote chance that he might actually be interested in you there a couple of things you would really need to consider. One he is clearly not into long term monogamous relationships. Don't expect true love from him. Two, he is very clearly dominate! Which boils down to any relationship is going to be him using you as the earlier posters suggested. If you can accept that and are willing to be used AND you are certain of your friendship then something might be possible. But if you aren't certain, I wouldn't go there.

Originally Posted by harristate

Your roommate sounds like a jerk.

I really can't make up my mind about two of these posts. Both sound like reasonable advice. But me being me, I'd probably have let Casey know that I tend to play for both teams - mostly by flirting back, which usually makes straight guys blush and make a run for it.

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Think he suspects you are gay or bi and wants to out you. He has obviously picked up on the fact that you haven't had a girl in your place for a while. Unfortunately some people need no reason to be vindictive and manipulative except just to get their own kicks. To me you have 2 choices:

1. Continue playing Mr 100% straight (you better start bringing some girls home though otherwise he will continue to "test" you) or

2. Tell him straight out that you are bi

Come to think about it he probably gossips about your sexuality to your other roommate. And you don't help your cause since you are clearly "besotted" with him and any adult would be able to pick up on this easily despite your efforts to appear indifferent or unaffected

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Tell you what Casey, wrap those succulent
lips around my average cock and skull fuck yourself.

Come on buddy..I'll take notes and then after
maybe I'll take a test on your equipment...
fuck man..lets get Casper here to see who does
the best overall. Maybe he'll want to tryout our
test facilities and donate too.

Man up Gibby. he is wanting some or he is trying
to ALPHA Male you...OR BOTH. Butt, keep it on
smart ass wise cracking level...play his game.

The way he treated his 'girlfriend' as a sperm bank in front of the boys shows he is insecure
regardless of his 'special' accessories} and is
needing the validation the flaunting gives him.

Personally, next time he did that shit in front
of me I would just say something like.

Casey, Here's the deal,
Skull Fucks are for 20 minutes and I only charge
$50.00 per inch after the flat rate first 6 for $200...
No discounts for less than 20 or less than 6....
SO, How much can you afford tonight Casey Boy?

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If he likes to flirt, give him a taste of his own medicine. When he says anything sexual, say "You're such a tease". If he talks about tight ass, say "you couldn't handle a tight ass". Life is short, tease him too. You can always laugh it off.

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Casey sounds like a bully. He belittles you in front of your other roommates, makes fun of you, insinuates that you want him or to be like him etc etc etc. I guarantee that if you come out to him as bi he's going to make your life hell. He's an asshole. He does those things in front of others just to make himself look cool. Just like saying he wanted sex after the super bowl. he chose to say it loud and in front of the entire room. He's a juvenile show off and just plain mean.

He doesn't sound like a friend at all. Why you want to be around him is beyond me. I'd be looking for a new place to live by now. No way in hell I'd tell him anything personal. He's going to tell all of your friends and use it to make fun of you. Get away from this jackass. He's trouble.

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Thanks everyone for your responses. Didn't expect this much to be honest, but I really appreciate it.

I have considered other places to live, but can't do anything about that until May - the earliest.

Casey and I were just casual friends because of mutual friends. The only time we hung out was at a bar and we got along fine. It wasn't until a few months of living together that I saw this side of him.

Also, I should be clear that this is not an everyday thing. In fact, because of our different work schedules, we really only see each other every other day and his remarks and actions that I've described happen about once a week, but they've become harder to handle lately.

The truth is, I would love to suck on his dick and let him dom me. I think that would be hot. But I'm smart enough to realize how bad that would end up being in the long run. I don't think he has any interest in using me as a cum deposit. I just believe he enjoys the fact that he has this sexual power over me and that I somewhat lust for him. Him making reference to me jerking off while he fucks would indicate this.

Either way, I'm gonna play it cool the next few days and wait for an opportunity to start teasing back. I'll see how he likes it when the tables are turned.

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Do what you want but I've been around morons like this guy. He's like Stffler from American Pie. Juvenile and narcissistic. His entire world revolves around him and getting his kicks out of treating people like they owe him something. Anything you do or say to him is going to be turned around and used against you. Guaranteed.

I'd have as little to do with him as possible. It's your call. I'm not in your situation but just be ready for the insults & stuff to increase. The more you challenge him the more defensive he's going to become and he's going to involve your other room mates.

Don't get me wrong. You shouldn't have to be afraid of him or put up with his b.s. I'm just saying get ready for him to retaliate when you do stand up for yourself. Guys like him get off on making others miserable. They look for something, anything they can use to make you look bad. If your other room mates were any friends at all they'd stand up for you or tell him he's out of line. They're probably just glad he's bullying you instead of them.

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I was the only gay guy in a fraternity house for 3 years -- and I've seen, heard and been subjected to WAY MORE than what you have described...

The thing with me was, I was HONEST about my sexuality (or -- confusion at that point) -- which gave ME the UPPER hand...

Have you considered explaining to your room mates that your sexuality is a little conflicted right now -- and that you are actually thinking about picking up a HOT GUY -- and would they mind if you brought him home???

That would be a GOOD START in MY opinion...

Best of luck -- and keep us posted...

"Whatever you do, or dream you can, begin it. Boldness has genius and power and magic in it..." Goethe

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Originally Posted by spunk-junky

I agree with Mano. Casey sounds like a first class A-hole. He enjoys showing off and taunting you. Honestly, I don't think he suspects you are bi. He is too full of himself to even think about anybody else--witness his treatment of his girlfriend. She must have low self esteem to put up with that crap. Casey will have even more power over you if you reveal interest in him. That would be a big mistake. There are plenty of hung, hot, bi and gay guys out there who would love to mess around with you. Please go find one of them!

I have to agree 100% with this comment if you tell him he will have power over you and you donít want that.

I know itís difficult to be in your situation and have been there myself, itís difficult not to feel a little panicked at times when youíre being asked directly but the best way to fight this is to try and not want him and be confident in yourself.
There are plenty of other guys out there and I know lusting after something so close is difficult just try and find an interest in a different guy that is more likely to lead to something other than just being used.

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The next time he is talking with you with an obvious bulge in his pants and questions your not getting laid and what you masterbate to...Tell him it has really been such a long time and your beginning to feel that any port in the storm will do also.. and ask him if the next time he fucks his girl can you watch so that you will have something to really beat off about....Tell him your fantasy is to watch sex...be general..maybe he will offer to beat off in front of you if he gets hot right then and there.

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Originally Posted by Bi Married Male

The next time he is talking with you with an obvious bulge in his pants and questions your not getting laid and what you masterbate to...Tell him it has really been such a long time and your beginning to feel that any port in the storm will do also.. and ask him if the next time he fucks his girl can you watch so that you will have something to really beat off about....Tell him your fantasy is to watch sex...be general..maybe he will offer to beat off in front of you if he gets hot right then and there.

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Originally Posted by Bi Married Male

The next time he is talking with you with an obvious bulge in his pants and questions your not getting laid and what you masterbate to...Tell him it has really been such a long time and your beginning to feel that any port in the storm will do also.. and ask him if the next time he fucks his girl can you watch so that you will have something to really beat off about....Tell him your fantasy is to watch sex...be general..maybe he will offer to beat off in front of you if he gets hot right then and there.

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I would also add that if you are tough enough to take his teasing and not let it get to you then by all means, do what others have suggested and play his little game. If you can stand what he dishes out then I would be giving it right back in his face. The only other thing I would say is for you to brainstorm a little on what drama might lie ahead if y'all do become sexually active. If you both have the type of personality that can keep it casual then that's one thing. If you are upset by the stuff he says or jealous of his activities with his girl or think he would freak out if he did something with another guy then you'd better steer clear. It's on thing if it's somebody that you don't live with, but it is a MAJOR mess if this thing gets complicated and y'all have to live within the same four walls.

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First of all, do NOT assume he Knows ANYTHING about you, what you're thinking or feeling! The ONLY way he could know anything is if you let him/told him! He's only poking about, looking for gaps in your armor, something that will give him a little bit of leverage to kid you about, just to make himself look 'better' in the eyes of others.

And, I'm pretty sure you're not the only one he is, has, or will be, picking on. I'll also bet he's as nice as pie when there isn't an audience around, be it only one, or more. What he's doing is "Grandstanding", and seems to think you're the easier target as opposed to your other room mate.

By your not countering him, coming back in his face, mounting any kind of defense, and simply walking away, you're giving him the impression there might be some ammunition there for him to 'work' with. He's just 'searching'/prying. By letting him continually do that, you're actually only encouraging him to keep at it.

"The best Defense is a good Offense!" Take him up on his provocations. "If you think you're so hot, and have such a great dick, then whip it out! Right HERE and NOW!" And, if he does ... "That's all you're working with?" Then shake your head and walk away. Or something along those lines to pop his bubble and take him down a peg.

OR ... just the opposite. Hold out your hand and say, "Hey! Put the beauty right here!" OR ... "Since you've gone that far, let's ALL show off!", and then proceed to whip yours out, too. And, if the other room mate is getting all shy say, "What about You, too?"

The point is to "rise" to the challenge, one way or the other, and not just slink away with your tail between your legs.

Granted ... he's "hawt", but the problem is he KNOWS it, and uses that to inflate his own ego even further, at your, or someone else's expense. And, he'll keep doing it until he runs into some resistance, or someone 'trumps' him, calls his bluff, and ups the ante.

From everything you've told us, I really doubt if there's any chance of 'getting' with him. And, if you did get 'lucky', it's likely going to cost you dearly because he's probably going to blab it all over town. Would that really be worth it?

You shouldn't have to put up with that kind of treatment, but since he's there doing that, you do have to decide how you want to deal with it. You can continue as you have been. You can pull the rug out from under him. You can call him on it, and not back down. I don't see many other choices for you.

I'm wishing you all the Best!

And ... Most Importantly ... no matter what ...

Keep smilin'!!
Chaz

(How do you and your other room mate get along?)

WISDOM is the Knowledge you've gained ... After you could have used it!_Me

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Seriously, just tease him back. Tell him next time he's fcking his girlfriend, make sure he stops thinking about you jacking off. And ask him why the sight of you makes him touch himself all the time. Etc. etc.

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A lot of good advice given, but I, too, would tease back or at least scare him. The next time he "propositions" you, grab his bulge and casually say "Ok, let's do this and see if you can keep your promises." and proceed to pull him upstairs. Make sure he thinks you mean it and not in a jokey-way.

Two things will happen; he'll either go for it and you'll get your secret wish or he'll get such a scare he probably would stop for good realizing he's lost control over you in particular. (By not confronting him you are his personal doormat after all.)

If he starts to argue about not doing "gay shit" just tell him to fuck off then with his BS come-ons since they stopped been funny after the second time and then walk away.

I can't predict what wil happen when you do become sexually active together, but maybe his asshole attitude could soften once he discovers more about his own sexuality. It is known that guys who act like Casey often repress one side of their sexuality while over-enhancing the other resulting in typical douchebag behavior. A good fuck over the fence usually irons them out a bit.

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You could also tell him that if this is his way of trying to get you to have sex with him it won't work. He should just come out and ask you nicely and take the chance that you might reject him. Then move in real close and say in your sexiest voice, "but who knows, big guy, I might say yes." When he turns red, just laugh.

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shit if that were me I'd have punched him out already. I know violence isn't the answer but it would teach him! Then when he's on the floor all bloody, you get on top of him and turn the tables around. Tell him it's HIM that wants your dick then tell him to stop hitting on you

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I see two ways to go, he is an A-hole, full of himself, and gets off about bragging about his sexual conquest. Second he is bored with fucking women thats why he braggs about humilitaing them in sex, and maybe wants to explore, he knows your BI but he is in denial. Tell him what you are be proud no matter what the outcome, but be ready for the consequenses, maybe moving out. Depending on the other roomates. Good Luck.

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Here's the flip side of that coin ...

Guys like Casey, as "hawt" as they may be, that act out like that, can be quite insecure individuals, seeking self 'validation' from others, through picking a 'victim' to publicly humiliate, in order to attempt to make themselves look 'bigger'/'better' than they, themselves, 'secretly' think they are. It's not only a shame, but also quite pitiful.

However, in order to 'reach' them, you first have to 'prove' that you can stand up to their deplorable (public) treatment of you.

That can be quite "tricky" though. Depending on the weakness of their own self esteem, turning the tables, humiliating Them in public, could possibly turn them into a real enemy that will only heighten their attempts to socially 'harm' you.

Then, again, standing up to them might earn their 'respect', and get them to back off, and, perhaps, even become a "real" Friend.

In that light, it may be best to walk away when others are around, but, when the two of you are alone, ask him if he really meant everything he said, and, maybe, even intuit that you might be willing to 'accommodate' his "guy on guy" curiosity, but only if he'd promise to keep it on the 'quiet' side.

Of course, if he agrees, and goes along, that still won't guarantee that he'll keep that promise, and not bring it up publicly in the future.

However, if that should happen, and he does "let the cat out of the bag", all you need to do, to drop him down a peg, or two, is to fess up to it, and ask why he seemed to enjoy it so much. It's THEN that you don't back down, or back off!

He'll LEARN! And, YOU will emerge as the Stronger of you two.

Either way, it's a difficult situation. Give him a 'private' chance, but also prepare yourself for a 'public' stand! (Should that become necessary.)

Since I don't actually know you guys, I can't predict what might happen in either scenario. And, the approach you may choose to take is entirely up to You!

However, in either case, do please let us know how things are going. And, I'm wishing You all the Very Best in this matter!

And, Yeah! ... As I've said before ... no matter what ...

Keep smilin'!!
Chaz

(It'll keep Everyone wondering what the Hell you're up to! )

WISDOM is the Knowledge you've gained ... After you could have used it!_Me

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Thanks for the input everyone.

I think I've realized that maybe I like his behavior a bit too much, but not in a good way. We were friendly before living together but I also was more sexually active with girls then. At this point I guess my sexuality is questionable to some people - especially those I live with.

As Chaz asked, my other room mate is really cool. He doesn't take sides or provoke anything at all. He's straight, nice, and a great friend.. thankfully I'm not attracted to him.

As for Casey, I've only encountered him twice since I posted this and the interactions were not combative or sexual... though he still walks around like he's hot shit and knows it. But part of that IS because I allow him to have that over me, which as I just admitted is mostly my fault for having that guilty pleasure about him. Either way, I'm not going to confront him til something arises again and whatever my reaction is, it will probably be a "game time decision" so to speak because I don't what the predicament would be.

Secretly, I would obviously love for him to just dom me, use me for sex, and then go back to normal without anyone knowing. But this is reality and there's a lot more at stake. So I'll just settle for the occasional jerk off imagination and move on.

Also, to whoever asked about me posting a photo, that is ridiculous. I would never do anything like that because I would not want that done to me. Weather I knew about it or not. Just cause I think he's hot, doesn't mean everyone else would. It's just the fact that I do think he's hot and that's a problem for the situation.

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How important is it for you to stay in the closet? If you admit anything to him, he will broadcast it around. Even now your other friends are starting to wonder, I suspect. Consider bringing a girl home to prove him wrong. And consider moving.

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Unlike most of the people responding, I'm seriously turned on by this guy.

This is what I'd probably do (not telling you to do it, just what i'd do), since he already knows I checked him out before I'd let him catch me checking him out all the time.

There's nothing to lose in that department. He already saw and knows, so might as well have fun and keep doing it.

Then as long as he knows I'm checking him out, I'd be game to see how it would develop.
I'd get with him for sure.

I'm at an age now where I'm always looking back on the missed chances. I've had so many and passed on them because I was afraid of being found out.

When you don't care about being found out, you'll take chances. Because there's nothing to lose. The guy already knows you're into his cock. He knows it. So what would be so shocking if you dropped to your knees in front of him.

Next time you're alone with him and he says shit, I'd probably drop right in front of him. Nothing to lose and one hot time to win.

All my regrets are what I did NOT do. I'm not sure I have any regrets of things I DID do. Even the painful ones, time has healed. I only regret NOT taking opportunities.

Re: My hot roommate flaunts it around me...

while yielding to him fulfills your short term fantasy, it will shift the balance of power to his side - and by the way you describe him, i think he will be looming this infront of your friends eevery chance he get. and while fantasies and desires fades, what you're left with is disappointment and humiliation.

also, he might just want to get you to admit you'll suck him off. he migght rebuff your offer just to show that he's got the upper hand. that is worse.

Re: My hot roommate flaunts it around me...

I don't agree with this "giving him power" nonsense. What power? The hot roommate ALREADY knows his roommate is into guys. He's ALREADY seen him checking him out.

The hot roommate ALSO is into guys or he'd never be doing what he's doing. There's no "power" over anyone here.

Take it from me. I let fear keep me from so many times over the years where really good looking studs made passes at me. And the result is me jacking off to what could have been, years and years after the fact.

The original poster has nothing to lose. The "secret" is not a secret at all. Hot roommate already knows. Original poster should take advantage of the situation and have a great time. Now that would be HIS power.

Original poster: Fear nothing, except years from now saying I was too afraid. I didn't do this because I was afraid. I didn't do that because I was afraid. Seize the day, my friend.

Also, i learned in life that when you're comfortable being you, really being you, then this irrational fear of others "finding out" goes away! It really does. Happiness is yours if you allow it.