I don’t necessarily totally agree with this, I don’t classify
those with a genuine interest in the person as another human being as a chaser.
Some are attracted to transgender specifically for their spirit and mind, having
had so many struggles, transcending genders and our unique broader view of the
world, and are just attracted to that person regardless of gender. This I can
understand but when it is hyper sexualized, that is the typical “chaser”. Heterosexual
Transwomen and gay trans-men may suffer the most because of their direct
contact to men, who are often viewed as doing and saying whatever it takes to
get laid. Not that all men are dogs, but if it barks and walks like a dog, it’s
a dog.While we as transgender people desire, love, respect and companionship;”
Tranny
Chasers” are the bane of Trans existence.Ask any trans-woman respectfully and she could tell anyone the stresses
of enduring a life plagued with t-chasers. Unfortunately, many out and
open trans-women, are commonly preyed upon by these abusive ignoramuses. Due
largely to these ignorant cretins, the public has been handed a misinformed
view of what it means to be Trans.What that says to me is that because of the very same men
that have a hyper sexualized fantasy, of Trans people, are more to blame for the explosion of the transgender sex industry.Transgender porn is currently the fastest growing
form of porn. Because of laws preventing easier ways of changing legal
documents, many transgender people find themselves trapped in the sex industry,
desired, yet degraded by these types of men, leaving mainstream society to label
us, more than ever, as constant sexual creatures that should be rightfully
denied equality, down to a growing urge to deny many transgender people using
the restroom. Even the transgender community itself has been torn by these
exploiters of trans-feminine beauty, by dividing those in the sex industry from
being fully accepted by the mainstream transgender society who blames them for
the over sexualized image of the transgender person, but these are all because of the “T-Chaser” who claims they worship us. Transgender people should not be blamed for T-chasers, sexual fantasies gone wild.

How do you know when you’re faced with someone with a
sincere interest in you as a person and not as a “thing to explore?” What do
the words of a chaser really mean? After discussing this with several online
transgender women, a post of questions on a popular Trans dating site, I’ve come up with a quick beware list of what chaser’s say
and what it really means.

Translation:I have no respect for you as a human being so I continue to use derogatory labels to dehumanize you.

3.I never been with a t-girl, but would like to try.

Translation: Again, I think you’re less than human, with no emotions or feelings. I think of you as equal to a lab rat. Also, you should feel grateful I’d want to be with you. (Many are under the impression they are the only Cis-gender hetero-male to be attracted to a trans-girl.)

4.I’m a versatile bottom. Are you a top?

Translation:I'm a bottom whore, I could never be faithful because I'd have to sample every shape, size, width, length etc. etc. etc...

5.I’m looking for a long term relationship with
specifically, a t-girl:

Translation:Since your not a working girl, I have to try and say something nice to convince you to fall and let me "try you" with no strings attached.

6.I want to get to know you better:

Translation:I may live in Timbuktu, but hoping you'd cyber with me and get me off and I'm only intrested in what's between your legs, I could care less about you as a person, or I'll lie to you about wanting to meet you, but will let you down because I don't consider you a person with feelings.

7.How big are you?:

Translation: Again, I just want to sample you, I have a penis fetish but straight.

8.You’re not my first t-girl:

Translation:See, I get around and will probably do your friends next if given the chance.

9.I'd like to come over and spend time with you. I
really like you: Translation:This is really a 2 am booty call. I'll never meet you and take you out on a proper date because I don't respect you the same way I respect a cis-woman, your less to me.

10.Wow…Your pictures are so beautiful, your the most beautiful t-girl ever:

Translation: I expect you to live up to my trans porn image of you, twenty-four seven. If you ever slip, I'm outta here.

Now this may seem harsh if your a man and if you aren't guilty of any of these in your dealing with trans-women, then congrads, your not what we consider a "T-Chaser". This may be easily dismissed by men as just hateful, bitter t-girl male bashing. I assure you I'm not and when dating anyone new, I do keep an open mind with out placing all men in that catagory, but when I asked 8 other trans-women to tell me what they hear the most from T-chasers, these came up, and when posted on a trans-dating site 76 trans-women helped pick ten of the 17 things they know t-chasers say and the meaning behind it, so not just one girl is feeling this. In fact I was inspired to do a post like this by a video from Raven Wear, whom I've coined the Wendy Williams of Trans youtube, discussing T-Chasers.

My personal advice, if you truly prefer or very intrested in meeting a trans-woman, avoid these types of statments. Be open and honest about your intentions and remember we are human beings with feelings and emotions just like you and any genetic female you have dated.

TMP blog post are assisted by the editing of my better half, TMP Co-Editor Aurelius Mark Angel, a trans couple working together to continue our excellence in being an informative voice within Trans society.

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