Sexual Surrogate

The other night I was watching a show on TLC (what? I told you guys before I am a closet junkie) that talked about the use of a Sexual Surrogate. Essentially, this woman (in this case) came into a couples home and helped them with their intimacy problems. This was a devout Mormon couple that had a hard time getting passed the fact that sex is not just for procreation like their religion states. The female was also assaulted at a young age and found it difficult to get beyond that fear.

She taught them about breathing, relaxing, touch, massage, and how it is all ok.

She sits on the bed with them and guides them - "try this" as she demonstrated nibbling and tickling the husbands back with her long hair.

From reading around the net, they can be used in many situations. Help with sex and intimacy that is strained by physical or mental problems.

So, my question to you all is, have you ever heard of such a thing? Have you considered using a sexual surrogate? Would you feel awkward with a stranger sitting on your bed and showing you how to better your sex life?

I have heard of sexual surrogates before, but have never considered using one. However, if I had issues that a surrogate could help with, I would definitely consider it. She acted almost as a sexual therapist, helping each partner to overcome certain fears and inhibitions, teaching them that what they were feeling and experiencing was alright. I think that in our sexually repressed society, feelings of guilt are probably not that uncommon. For the man it was even more so given his Mormon upbringing.

Yeah, I've heard of it, and having a degree in Psychology, and having worked in health care, I have little respect for them. I wouldn't use one in a million years.

Any problem we'd be having in the bedroom could be treated with regular therapy with a licensed psychologist. Most real therapists would lose their license if they make any sexual advances on a client and I think the chance of clients being abused further or taken advantage of is pretty high.

Although I have nothing against upright, honest sex workers. However, imo, "sexual surrogates" are high paid prostitutes who took a few psychology classes at the local community college.

I've heard of it (closet TLC lover here) and they are used often in a strange twist on behavioral and other types of therapy. I think it makes some sense but it would weird me out to have another person all up in my junk like that. It has the eau de quack about it but different strokes, right?

I've heard of it (closet TLC lover here) and they are used often in a strange twist on behavioral and other types of therapy. I think it makes some sense but it would weird me out to have another person all up in my junk like that. It has the
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I've heard of it (closet TLC lover here) and they are used often in a strange twist on behavioral and other types of therapy. I think it makes some sense but it would weird me out to have another person all up in my junk like that. It has the eau de quack about it but different strokes, right?

eau de quack LOL

totally, I mean if it works for them.. great! But i would find it very weird to have a "professional" in our bed.

I have heard of sexual surrogacy before, but have never considered using a surrogate because we just don't need that sort of hands on approach to anything in our sex life. To each their own though. I can't say that if we thought we needed help with something, we wouldn't consider or at least talk about it. I think just taking that step in and of itself, bringing in a surrogate, would be freeing and a big step to overcoming whatever might be keeping someone from experiencing what they need or want. If done with the right care and respect for the couple, I see nothing wrong with it and see how it could be beneficial.

Yeah, I've heard of it, and having a degree in Psychology, and having worked in health care, I have little respect for them. I wouldn't use one in a million years.

Any problem we'd be having in the bedroom could be treated
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Yeah, I've heard of it, and having a degree in Psychology, and having worked in health care, I have little respect for them. I wouldn't use one in a million years.

Any problem we'd be having in the bedroom could be treated with regular therapy with a licensed psychologist. Most real therapists would lose their license if they make any sexual advances on a client and I think the chance of clients being abused further or taken advantage of is pretty high.

Although I have nothing against upright, honest sex workers. However, imo, "sexual surrogates" are high paid prostitutes who took a few psychology classes at the local community college.

I watched the same episode and I have to agree with P'Gell. I was pretty uncomfortable with her methods and doubly-so when it came to her touching either member of the couple. And her rates? Outrageous!

Yeah, I've heard of it, and having a degree in Psychology, and having worked in health care, I have little respect for them. I wouldn't use one in a million years.

Any problem we'd be having in the bedroom could be treated
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Yeah, I've heard of it, and having a degree in Psychology, and having worked in health care, I have little respect for them. I wouldn't use one in a million years.

Any problem we'd be having in the bedroom could be treated with regular therapy with a licensed psychologist. Most real therapists would lose their license if they make any sexual advances on a client and I think the chance of clients being abused further or taken advantage of is pretty high.

Although I have nothing against upright, honest sex workers. However, imo, "sexual surrogates" are high paid prostitutes who took a few psychology classes at the local community college.

I agree with everything that you have said. I'm no psychologist,or even someone with a psychology degree, but from what I have learned about them they are pretty much prostitutes for the sexually misfunctioning people of the world. There are a tone of stories about a sexaul serrogant on this website. Read some and judge for yourself.

And just like you I could care less about people in the sex industry. Who am I to tell people that they can't sell themselves.

I saw that one. I think I would rather pay a prostitute than have someone dictate what my partner and I should
do in bed. I would worry we would blame the surrogate if anything went wrong in the future and just give up.

The other night I was watching a show on TLC (what? I told you guys before I am a closet junkie) that talked about the use of a Sexual Surrogate. Essentially, this woman (in this case) came into a couples home and helped them with their intimacy
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The other night I was watching a show on TLC (what? I told you guys before I am a closet junkie) that talked about the use of a Sexual Surrogate. Essentially, this woman (in this case) came into a couples home and helped them with their intimacy problems. This was a devout Mormon couple that had a hard time getting passed the fact that sex is not just for procreation like their religion states. The female was also assaulted at a young age and found it difficult to get beyond that fear.

She taught them about breathing, relaxing, touch, massage, and how it is all ok.

She sits on the bed with them and guides them - "try this" as she demonstrated nibbling and tickling the husbands back with her long hair.

From reading around the net, they can be used in many situations. Help with sex and intimacy that is strained by physical or mental problems.

So, my question to you all is, have you ever heard of such a thing? Have you considered using a sexual surrogate? Would you feel awkward with a stranger sitting on your bed and showing you how to better your sex life?

I saw this. I think it could work for a lot of people. others, not so much.

Yeah, I've heard of it, and having a degree in Psychology, and having worked in health care, I have little respect for them. I wouldn't use one in a million years.

Any problem we'd be having in the bedroom could be treated
...

Yeah, I've heard of it, and having a degree in Psychology, and having worked in health care, I have little respect for them. I wouldn't use one in a million years.

Any problem we'd be having in the bedroom could be treated with regular therapy with a licensed psychologist. Most real therapists would lose their license if they make any sexual advances on a client and I think the chance of clients being abused further or taken advantage of is pretty high.

Although I have nothing against upright, honest sex workers. However, imo, "sexual surrogates" are high paid prostitutes who took a few psychology classes at the local community college.