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Grief or not, I would in no uncertain terms let him know regardless of gender, this baby will be staying. He can go to counseling, act like a man and come to terms or he can take his things and walk away. Period.

I agree with Kbb! After reading through all 9 pages of comments I think that it has more to do with gender than grieving for his daughter. Clearly because he made the statement about supporting the child.

That and the fact that they had another girl AFTER he lost his DD and this issue didn't come up then. If it were a grief issue you'd think it would have been a problem when she got pregnant 2 months after his DD passed.

Yes, and to add to Ortega, your friend has all boys, and that probably does bother him - manhood thing. Yeah, on the contrary, this baby was conceived 2 months after the death of his daughter, 6 months after OP's last daughter was born. Healing period is not relevant to the discussion.