Richard: I started masturbating at about 13, I think. so that makes about 40 years

The Masturbatrix:: Do you recall the first time you masturbated to orgasm?

Richard: Doesn't EVERY male?!!!

The Masturbatrix:: I suppose they do! Tell me about it.

Richard: It was an accidental discovery. I had no idea that it was possible. I had a vague understanding of sex, but no idea I could have an orgasm on my own.

Richard: I had been having erotic dreams for several months, some of them wet, but no ejaculate noticeable Also, I had been playing a lot in the bath, trying to replicate the extraordinary feeling of the dreams, erecting my penis and thrusting it out, etc. No clue how to properly stimulate it. I was using soap as a lubricant (bad idea: causes rashes), and had myself really well soaped up.

I was sitting on the edge of the tub, feeling the tub rim slip up between my buttocks cheeks, and holding my penis, wiggling it this way and that. Suddenly, I felt the most amazing feeling. A tension I couldn't explain. My first thought was: I'm having a heart attack. My second thought was: If so, I don't want it to stop.

The Masturbatrix:: (laughs)

Richard: That was my first orgasm. I didn't even notice if I ejaculated; too much soap I suppose. I thought maybe I had broken something inside. But still I tried to repeat the experience. It was several days before I was successful...

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I enjoyed your interview with Richard. He must be the champion masturbator, or certainly one of them, of all times. I don't espouse all his ideas but I do love masturbation. However, I would never like to be in a situation where I couldn't have great sex with a woman. The need to be inside a woman will always be there for me.

Interesting interview. Are there other Masturbation interviews on this blog? Everyone in the masturbation community knows Richard, I think. He's a pioneer.

To his comments I would add, as a str8 male, I cyber j/o with other males all the time, but if there were women to be found, I would prefer that. In other words, my male-male activity is a result of the extremely limited availability of women.

Thanks for reading the interview. I hope it will be the first of many interviews with Richard; he certainly has a lot to say on the subject! I also hope his interview will be the first of many interviews with different people who have strong thoughts and opinions on Masturbation. Thanks for your feedback.

“The Masturbatrix:: Do you recall the first time you masturbated to orgasm?

Richard: Doesn't EVERY male?!!!

The Masturbatrix:: I suppose they do! Tell me about it.”

I’m 46 with active sex life and avid lifelong masturbator, but I do not recall my first time to masturbate to orgasm. I started masturbating at least as early as age 7 but all I knew to do was rub my penis – with my hand, against the sheets, against pillows – all without any inkling of the possibility of orgasms, which presumably I was too young for anyway. This was a nightly habit on which I would spend countless hours. (I even recall fantasizing about lying naked on a merry-go-round with my erect penis poking through the bottom to rub on endlessly a sheet – something that could go on without interruption). I was also a bit of an exhibitionist, but a shy one, letting my erection be seen by my sister or mother when opportunity arose but not so often that it seemed intentional. It wasn’t until I was 12 or 13 or so that I heard guys teasing another guy about masturbating, and began to put two and two together that this was what I had been doing for many years. I then remember that within a year or so of that I was coming regularly, often masturbating into a sock. But I don’t remember when that started or ever having a realization that there was a pleasurable resolution to the torturous hours of rubbing my thingy.

Actually, I do not recall my first time to masturbate to orgasm. I started masturbating at least as early as age 7 but all I knew to do was rub my penis – with my hand, against the sheets, against pillows.