All About Chastity

Chastity belts and devices are for men and women. The control of the genitals is one of the ultimate bondage experiences. A properly designed and fitted chastity device will definitely prevent intercourse with another person. Devices also can be designed to prevent or enhance stimulation of the genitals. They can be a truely frustrating experience. Originally these devices were invented to prevent cheating and unauthorized sex. Nowadays chastity has evolved to enhance sex play, is used for bondage/BDSM purposes and is also used for sexual control.

Why Use a Chastity Belt?

Tease and Denial - Chastity play can be extremely exciting when used to tease and excite the wearer. With a chastity device in place it is not possible to get sexual gratification or have sex. For the man, he can not get a full erection. Teasing and denial are highly erotic games to play with your submissive. There is extreme pleasure in riding the repeated waves of tormenting and teasing a partner in a chastity device.

Chastity devices also effectively prevent masturbation, which gives one partner the control of all orgasms. This can be great fun for both partners.

Rekindling desire in a relationship - Chastity devices can help spice up those relationships that are now dull and lacking in desire. When someone gives control of their sexuality over to another, the arousal usually becomes extremely intense. Using teasing and denial to build sexual arousal gives for incredibly pleasant sexual release. Sexual release then becomes a treasured gift that both partners look forward to. Partners report experiencing feelings of passion, lust, heightened desire and caring love that they initially experienced in the early years of their relationship.

Stimulation - For both men and women, wearing a chastity belt is bothcontrolling and stimulating. Feeling a chastity device locked and secured around the genitals can be wonderfully frustrating. The thought that release and orgasm are controlled by the key holder creates a fantasy of eroticism. Release and orgasm is only when the key holder allows it.

Torture and Humiliation - The torture of not being able to ejaculate, orgasm or use the genitals is sometimes described as "maddening." Being tormented by the key holder for days, weeks or longer and never quite being allowed to have a release. Being humiliated is part of this erotic fantasy. Such as being forced to serve friends or guests while naked, just wearing the chastity device.

Control - The person who holds the key has control over the prisoner. The key holder owns the genitals and controls when and where their submissive is going to have an orgasm or be released. A partner can be trained to serve or please the key holder and be treated to release only after being "good." Sexual control can also keep the partner from having unauthorized sex while the key holder is away. Many people have their partners put into a chastity cage when they will not be seeing each other for long periods of time.

Games - Many exciting games can be played with chastity belts. Rules can be created to play on the different aspects of sexual bondage. For example, a woman has her male partner locked up. He must always stand up when she enters the room. If he forgets then she holds up some fingers and then he knows how many more days he will remain locked up before he can experience release. Take a look at your most erotic fantasies about being controlled or controlling someone sexually. Games for chastity play are only limited by your imagination.

Chastity Belt Buying Guide for Men:

Note: More information about male chastity, including demonstrations and discussion can be found at XR University.

In choosing the right men's chastity device, there are some key factors to consider before purchasing:

Long Term Devices: If it's going to be on for days, weeks or months on end, be sure your chastity belt is going to be comfortable and easy to clean. An example of a chastity device designed for long term wear is the Sado Chamber Silicone Chastity Device.

Comfort: Leather is a comfortable material for short-term confinement. The Leather Locking Chastity Belt is comfortable and you can wear the CB-2000, CB-3000 or the Curve underneath for extra security. Leather Chastity Shorts are also very popular as they secure both the penis and the anus.

Extreme Confinement: When it comes to absolute, secure confinement then you can't beat The Oppressor Chastity Cage . Not only is it a functional chastity cage, but it includes attachments for anal play and ball crushing.

Here's a video spotlighting the Oppressor Chastity Cage.

Chastity Belt Buying Guide for Women:

Chastity belts for women are much easier and simpler to purchase than for men. The main factor in choosing a female chastity belt is going to be if it is easily adjustable and comfortable. We offer two premium fully adjustable and comfortable chastity belts. The Deluxe Locking Leather Women's Chastity Belt is fully adjustable, most secure and locks in 5 places. The Female Chastity Belt is more affordable while being fully adjustable and lockable.

Disclaimer: XR. LLC sells these products as novelty toys only and is not responsible for damages due to use or misuse.