...I have not had intimate-sexual relations since April of 2003 (just over 10-years). Like everything else, I go through times where I like the idea of it...or even fantasize...but it doesn't seem to be anything that I can't take care of all on my own... Most often, it's not worth the risks involved (IMO)...that can be emotional, or STD's/pregnancy, or ruining friendships...

I'm not one to really have 'flings'... and I've become quite accustomed to going without long-term/romantic relations...

I attribute this ability to go without, and not believe that sex is necessary for anything more than making babies, and marketing...as largely a social-constructed need...

In fairness though...I also have a much diminished physical health...so I can't say for certain that I wouldn't get more sex driven, if I was to get a significant increase in my physical health...

But, having had this evidence that I don't seem to need sex to live...I think that I would still remain celibate...sans the occasional self-pleasure...

it seems that i'm an aromatic asexual (don't you dare turn your nose up at that!)

i'm not bothered about sex, either. and i'm especially not wanting any involvment (of any kind) with anyone else. don't get me wrong, i tug like a chimp, it's just that idea of involving anybody else in that department is yucky.
i put it down to my being selfish and much of a physical-snob, but my self-focus is also deeply rooted (and ingrained) in my childhood experiences with my wonky willy (another story).