Please Log in or Create an account to join the conversation. She wants to play the field. She's fooling around with dating sites and even though so far it's only word play, she wants to push you toward another woman so she can have a free pass.

You've already guessed that she's going to use it against you at a later date. You have trust issues, as well you should. Married people don't act like she does. It doesn't matter that she hasn't met up with the men she speaks with online, she's still going to online dating sites and lying about being married.

It's simply not appropriate behavior for a married person. Look at how many times someone posts here complaining that their spouse has joined a dating site. When you're married you don't do that. My husband joined a few. I don't think he does it any more, he was just experimenting, I guess, but it's still wrong.

She's also like my husband in that she wants inordinate attention from the opposite sex. I think she's just missing her old lifestyle where the sex didn't involve anything but sex. In other words, she doesn't want the intimacy or the personal connection. My wife wants to fuck another woman you don't want to be with another woman, please, please don't let her coerce you into it. You'll only feel worse if you go against your principles. If she's not happy and wants out of the marriage, don't let her make you do something that puts the blame on you.

Hopefully you have a good therapist that will help you sort all of this out. She's not one for kissing, and hates oral sex, but My wife wants to fuck another woman to want sex without foreplay, hard, fast and somewhat intense; whereas I'm the opposite, preferring soft, slow and gentle sex, with lots of kissing, foreplay and oral sex which we never do.

Wife wants me to have sex with another woman. Wife wants me to have sex with another woman was created by LoveMyWife. Hi; Straight to the point here. My wife and I have been together 9 years, she was my first I was 21 at the time while she had a numerous lovers before me and another one after we had been 8 months together - I did forgive her, and him, when she told me some 3 years later.

As you can imagine our marriage has gone through a number of serious hurdles but yet we've always remained together where we know a lot of others would've given up. Recently, however, we've been opening up in regards to sex and our relationship.

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My wife has shown an increasing dissatisfaction with sex. I ask her what she wants but she never really tells me what exactly she wants, though does drop a few hints. Now I'm supposed say, "hey, wow, I'm a man, I'm supposed to like wild animal-like sex. My wife has told me a number of times that she wants me to have a once off no-strings attached sex with another woman of her choosing. She hasn't given me much reasoning other than, "I want you to be able to compare me to someone else," and well, "to gain experience," thinking I'll be a better lover as a result.

I think what she's trying to say is that I will have sex differently afterwards and it will improve our sex life. Just a quick note: I think our sex life is pretty good compared to most and she agreeswe do it at least times a week, and variate our positions.

Now my fear is the repercussions of doing something like this. Firstly it goes against my beliefs, that of only being with my wife for the duration of our marriage, though I'm prepared to do anything for my wife.

Secondly, I sometimes fear my wife wants me to feel bad, and use it against me in the future, or that maybe she's trying to find a way to have sex with other men without me being My wife wants to fuck another woman to hold it against her, even though she insists she has no intention of ever cheating. She did say she fears that if I were to do it I would try continue the behaviour and have sex outside of our marriage.

I believe our issue is not with my experience or not, but rather our lack of communication.

I have the most active role in bed especially being the initiator, even of the sex itselfbut am often demotivated because my wife always plays a passive role. I've been requesting her to be more active, to lose her inhibitions as you would say. I really don't believe me having sex with another woman will resolve much, as I've told my wife a millions times I have no problem going through the my life only have one sex partner.

I want to know what forums members think: What advise would you give, or what other questions do you have for me? Male, bornmarried in Father of two kids.

Replied by strawberryfields on topic Wife wants me to have sex with another woman. I think it's bizarre that she wants you to have sex with another woman.

There's no way that's going to help your relationship Replied by LoveMyWife on topic Wife wants me to have sex with another woman. Thanks strawberryfields for your response.

Communication is definitely our big issue. Just yesterday we both came to the realisation that we're both dissatisfied with sex and want more from each other.

Thankfully from each other, and not from others. I've been pushing My wife wants to fuck another woman need for more communication these past few months, and My wife wants to fuck another woman has helped, but my wife is very closed because us having to communicate together about our relationship is still very new to us, even though we've been together 9 years. It's just now it has come to point where we have to talk because we're going through a very serious and unstable period in our marriage.

We both still love each other very much, that's for sure, though this past year we've been through hell together. I accused her even publicly on Facebook of infidelity when she hadn't; though all the signs were there that suggested she had or was thinking about it.

She had a very active paid-for online dating profile and struck up conversations filled with references to wanting sex with many men, but I realised after careful investigation that she never once met up with any of them. Just recently she told someone I wasn't her husband, which caused me to get seriously angry and upset. And even after I told the guy and showed evidence of our marriage my wife still told him I was crazy and her EX husband. We had a good talk about it yesterday, and she said she's never met up and plans never to meet up with him even though he's a business client.

I got into my wife's Facebook yesterday and the guy did show a frustration and said "it seems as if God doesn't want us to meet. So she said it was revenge for my prying eyes. I believe my wife has a thing for attention, she likes to flirt and mislead men, allowing them to think they're in for a chance.

But in this past year she's also been showing a dissatisfaction in me, saying I'm no longer attractive to her, plus lying to me about things, for example her whereabouts she says she out partying but in reality is at home???

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So I get very confused about what it really is my wife wants. I know she's unhappy, but isn't cheating per say, though she did cheat 8 months into our 9 years together. I obviously have trust issues, for which I'm seeing a shrink once a week.

But my concern is this new proposal. I'm trying to convince my wife that we need to explore all other avenues before going down this route of me being with another woman. She's been suggesting this for ages now, a few year already, but I really feel we can work through this without the need for sexual activity outside our marriage.

Replied by Betrayed Wife on topic Wife wants me to have sex with another woman. It is better to light a candle than to curse the darkness -- ancient proverb.

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It seems to me, you are participating because she wants you to, you dont really want this for yourself. You tolerate too much already.

Get out, before you are so destroyed, you have nothing left.

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Decimated Offline Moderator If I deserve it Replied by Decimated on topic Wife wants me to have sex with another woman. Was she always like this or did she change? If she wasn't always like this then this is a big red flag in my book.

Kissing and foreplay is very intimate. Some would agree that it is more intimate then the sex act itself. It sounds like your wife does not want intimacy from you just the physical, disconnected satisfaction. My wife became exactly like this about the time she started cheating. She would allow me to have the obligitory sex occasionally with her but she wouldn't put any effort into it As others have said I would Not entertain her offer of another women.

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She does have ulterior motives in mind It seems as if she is, at very least, moving towards an open marriage with you. Relationships are difficult enough with only 2 people. Adding a third or more will completely change the dynamics of your marriage and you will lose control. I feel it is a rare couple that has a strong enough relationship and communication is so good, that they can hold it together while entertaining other people.

Is you marriage really one of those? Are you willing to take that chance? It delivers precisely what it has promised. Powered by Kunena Forum. My wife has told me a number of times that she wants me to have My wife wants to fuck another woman once off no- strings attached sex with another woman of her choosing.

She hasn't given me. We love each other dearly and our sex life is great. She asked again how I felt about another woman joining us from time to time, or if I was not comfortable with this, Two weeks ago my wife dropped another bombshell.

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We love each other dearly and our sex life is great. She asked again how I felt about another woman joining us from time to time, or if I was not comfortable with this, Two weeks ago my wife dropped another bombshell.