Saturday, May 23, 2015

It had to happen eventually, the point when friends become more important than family. It started for "T" in March of 2014. He didn't really have a lot of friends (namely friends that were boys) or have a great desire to hang out with anyone often. The "husbird" and I worried about him finding some great guy friends. He finally found one and they started spending a lot of time together, every weekend, and sometimes during the week as well. His new friend came from a good family and the two of them had a lot in common. We were thrilled. "T" started to see some things in his new friend that he didn't like. After about 6 months (the honeymoon phase) they spent less and less time together. I tried to tell him that he won't find a perfect friend and to try to be understanding of others faults. This was the second time this had happened with a friend. To no avail, by the end of the summer they never saw each other anymore. I had to trust him to do what he felt was right.Thank goodness school was starting soon and he made friends with another guy. His friend has had some issues in his life, but so far they have been friends for about a year. Yay! They have made friends with a few amazing girls as well. I wish I had a picture of the other girls in their little group. There are a bunch of girls and then the two of them, the only boys. Ha ha. They all get along so well and hang out as much as possible.

When the boys had to work on making a video for school all day one Saturday the two girls above came over with all kinds of food and made them waffles. How nice is that?! They are also teaching "T" how to treat me better. They call him out when he talks back to me and tell him, "Go give your mom a hug." Gotta love those kinds of friends.

Even though I don't always see him as much as I'd like I'm so grateful he has found such great friends that are positive influences in his life, especially going into his high school years this fall.