If you want to win, you can't focus on winning. You must focus on the process and execution of the little things. Keep your eye on the ball and the opposition. Not on the result you're trying to achieve.

No as my mental game is rock solid. I put them under so much duress both physically and mentally that my opponents prepare themselves to return serve as if they were standing for execution by firing squad. I have the talent and the heart and mental fortitude to go with it.

The OP reminds me of the typical talented 5.5s with no match play skills that I grind down to dust every second tuesday!

Just figure out how to beat everyone around you and cry and moan all you want. As long as you win. So just forget about your antics and figure out how to win. Look at Mac and Connors. They were terrible at times.