Aki No Yuutsu

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Friday, February 20, 2015

Hi all!!! Spring and Summer coming!!! Well... every year there's going to be a new trend and sometimes old ones coming back, but that's the beauty of fashion trend.... it goes around. As for me this year, I'm really into sports inspired looks. But I'm also trying to add in more military taste to my wardrobe. So instead of my usual go to spring denim overall, I'm doing Military Overall. With this outfit, I tried to match them differently with 2 combination of shoes and bags.

Sunday, February 1, 2015

OMG! It's been a while isn't it. Sorry for the lack of post. So, if you saw my previous post, you know I have black hair now. And being a black hair isn't all that bad, but trust me, I don't think I'll be black for long. Within a few months, you'll see me with new hair color.

As for today's post, I just feel like the sports style is still 'it' for 2015, but since it's Spring Summer, I'll stick with pastel colors.

Tuesday, December 30, 2014

Hi all! So... if you guys are in my social media circles (facebook, Instagram, twitter... etc)... you already might noticed my absence. I'm trying to take a break from social media. I'm going for 1 month. Let's see whether it's possible... lol. But I'll keep blogging, so feel free to keep in touch with me here!

Friday, December 19, 2014

What is calling / texting too much? If you feel the need to tell him everything you’re doing… that’s obviously too much. I still see some girls wanting to call or text her BF multiple times per day, that’s sweet, but just be careful.

During the beginning of relationship, it is not weird if both of you text and call each other multiple times a day, and can’t get each other out of your mind. Men and Women have no difference during this period. But as time goes, there will be a point where you realise that you have to focus on your job, career, or whatever other aspect of life you have. At that point, relationship might not be his first priority. Not that he doesn’t love you, but he would want to be successful in order to have a better quality future with you. But you need to understand and be supportive about this. And you also understand that for man, they feel like they need to achieve something, be successful to gain respect from the society. Therefore, career plays a lot of part in men’s life.

Classic question: Why is it that when a man focus on his job , they put relationship later? I’m a woman and I can still go to work and think about him?

Tuesday, December 9, 2014

There are multiple situations and times in relationship where an incident happens and you are just so overwhelmed by the emotion that automatically made you march directly to that person and pick a fight immediately. Sometimes you end up understanding each other more, but I see that most of the times, regret of what being said and brought up.

Emotion makes most argument longer and unnecessarily drama. People say the more you are closer the healthier if you have a fight once in a while. I agree. But the fight should be sensible, not throwing emotions to each other irresponsibly. Some problem can be solve in a shorter time and a peaceful manner, if emotion wasn’t involve.

But you’re pissed! How can you not get emotional?

That is why I say, give yourself 5 minutes before you march over to pick a fight with him/her.

5 minutes of sanity question

Sample Situation:

You tried to contact your boyfriend from 9:00 pm to 12:00 am, but he went silent. You found out the next day that your boyfriend went out to strip club with his bosses and investors, from his co-worker.

Sunday, December 7, 2014

I know you can wear tartan and plaid any other time, but there's something about this season that makes you wanna where them even more. Or is it just me? FYI I'm not going for a Japanese school girl look. That seems to be how the ppl perceive in this country.

Wednesday, December 3, 2014

Let me tell you an irony. Men always say stuff like, ‘I like confident woman, but also a caring and homey one’. ‘I like a funny woman who gets humor, but doesn’t talk a lot’. ‘I like a beautifullooking woman, but doesn’t put on toomuch makeup’. ‘I like a woman who have time for me, but give me space’.And out of all these, the most annoying one has to be ‘I like a woman who enjoys food and eat a lot, but still skinny’.

TADA---!!!! Call it double standard or whatever, but these ideals are pretty true. When women hear these argument, most of them roll their eyes and secretly in their mind, goes… arrrrrgggg.

I tell you one thing. Men don’t even know what they want. But if you want them to express honestly, these would be it.

But after thinking and analyzing these ideals for a while, I came to a conclusion. They actually make sense. Today I’m going to focus on the ‘eat-a-lot but skinny’ part. So here are the thoughts behind.