Well, I am 43, feel like I'm 28 and I enjoy the little things in
life. I am a finance manager for a large auto dealer and play
guitar in a heavy metal band. I have a beautiful 9 year old boy
from a previous disaster and worship the ground he walks on. He
lives with me 3.5 days a week and the other days I spend as a home
body. I lived in Las Vegas for 10 years, Southern Florida and
California for a couple and for some reason I ended up Back in
Syracuse. ( Grew up in Buffalo) I hate being in a bad mood for any
reason so I avoid most people because most people are pretty phony.
I love to laugh and also love deep conversation about anything at
all.

Honestly I am just trying to be the best father that I can be. I
live for music and am pretty happy with my career. I balance it
fairly well. I wear a suit to work and wear ripped jeans and a
Pantera tshirt when I get home.

I'm a great listener. My friends call me the voice of reason. I
hate to be labeled as a good solver of other people's problems, but
I always seem to be the one they call. Some say I am a pretty good
guitar player but thats just rumor. I think I'm a very good dad and
actually a great cook:)

Most people know, after talking to me for about 30 seconds, that I
am genuine. Coming from an old fashioned Italian family, I learned
as a boy not to pull any punches. What you see is what you get, and
I speak my mind. Respect it. It's better than the alternative.

I can read anything by Ann Coulter or Glenn Beck. Please don't hold
that against me. Ann makes me laugh with some of the things she
wrights. She's pretty extreme. I love drama and action. A good
horror flick is always welcome. As far as music is concerned, I
have always been an 80s metal guy and some darker music. I can
listen to anything but rap, hip hop, or country. I can listen to
Avenge Sevenfold and go right to a Billy Joel cd.

your not looking for a guy who's belly button is eye level to you
or a muscle head. I'm 5'8" and weigh about 170. Or if you are not
the kind of girl who wants their guy to torture them mentally or
physically. What can I say, some girls like it. I'll never
understand that.