I hate face slapping. I have a violent reaction to the point where I've tried to bite and claw my way free from Master when he did it to me. It's something that Master likes though, so he's trying to get me over reacting so strongly to it. Doubt I'm ever going to enjoy that particular thing, though.

my dad used to hit me in the face as a kid, so it brings back some violent mechanism in me and i really cant hardly stand it. a friend once did it to me playfully, but hit me kind of hard. guess he thought i was like one of the guys. took me a while to get over that.

I've recently discovered that I love when my man slaps me across the face while we're having sex. Just enough to make it sting a little bit, but not enough to hurt super bad.

I recently discovered the same.. It was weird though. It made me cry, but I really liked it. I wasn't crying because I was hurt.. I'm not sure why it made me cry at all... it wasn't very hard, like you said... anyway, I say yay

I've never tried it. I don't know if I'd like it, I think it would have to happen in order for me to know. I only DON'T have a problem with it because if it happends between me and him, I know it's not comming from a rude or hateful place. I don't know how I could make it happen. I don't know if I could just be like "SLAP ME IN THE FACE" during sex. I think doing that would make things VERY weird.

I really don't know on this one. I've learned that over the years that my guy and I have been together there are all sorts of things I enjoy that I didn't think I would a year or two or three earlier. I would be open to it as long as we talked about it first and boundaries were set, how hard or soft etc. And then there are times we try something and it's like ....no, I don't like that at all-never again, but hey at least now we know! Most of the time though, I find I'm unexpectedly really in to our new ventures.

I really like it. We get into some fairly intense scenes and it really adds to those.

I cry, too, but not because he's hurt me or because I'm upset. It's just... the amount of intense emotion that gets built up and released in the kind of scene in which we would be doing this needs an outlet and that's it.

My partner, of course, is amazing - he is very observant of the differences between that sort of crying and "I'm hurt/I'm too upset/That's not good" crying and is always ready with a warm blanket and cuddles if he crosses a line. And, bless his heart, he learned to make tea specifically so he could bring me tea when I'm coming down from that stuff.

Maybe not all the time. My husbands not a very violent person. I beg him to do things like that all the time. When he gets in the mood for it and I'm all for it he will. Those are some of the best nights.