My SO makes less money than me right now! That is about to change though, he’s in a field with huge money growth and I’m… a librarian.

I never really thought about it, though I might if he were older than me, but I am 7 years older than him so I never really considered it an issue. And in October, he’ll make more than me and it will only go up after that.

I never really considered it dating down, it’s just the way things are.

If you defined dating down as dating someone who was not ambitious or driven or hard working, then no, I wouldn’t. Ever.

Also, he pays for everything, the only thing we split the cost of are big trips. Its a point of pride with him, though I try to sneak in paying occasionally.