Dealing with breakup

I'm 8w6d and my boyfriend of 2 years split with me a few weeks ago when he found out. Since then he has been texting almost daily with...How are you, good morning, etc. He has already informed me this is not what he wanted and he doesn't want to be a part of it. Should I ignore his texts since he already told me how he feels about he pregnancy or is that just pushing him further away???

I'm 8w6d and my boyfriend of 2 years split with me a few weeks ago when he found out. Since then he has been texting almost daily with...How are you, good morning, etc. He has already informed me this is not what he wanted and he doesn't want to be a part of it. Should I ignore his texts since he already told me how he feels about he pregnancy or is that just pushing him further away???

He sounds confused. He's probably just nervous about being a father maybe? I don't see why he would be texting about the pregnancy everyday if he wants no part of it. Just see what happens but don't get your hopes up I suppose.

He sounds confused. He's probably just nervous about being a father maybe? I don't see why he would be texting about the pregnancy everyday if he wants no part of it. Just see what happens but don't get your hopes up I suppose.

Thanks for the reply! He is definitely confused maybe about how he feels about me but he really doesn't seem to want to be any part of the pregnancy. His texts are directed at me and not at all the pregnancy. When I bring anything about the pregnancy up he really seems to shut down. I'm pretty sure I will be going through this completely alone. It only confuses me and makes it harder that he keeps reaching out through texts.

Thanks for the reply! He is definitely confused maybe about how he feels about me but he really doesn't seem to want to be any part of the pregnancy. His texts are directed at me and not at all the pregnancy. When I bring anything about the pregnancy up he really seems to shut down. I'm pretty sure I will be going through this completely alone. It only confuses me and makes it harder that he keeps reaching out through texts.

During my pregnancy my ex wanted to talk to me but not about my pregnancy. More than once he said "can't we talk without talking about the baby??" We eventually tried to work things out only to break up when our son was 5 weeks old. My ex was confused and actually wanted me to miscarry then when I didn't and had our son, he accepted that he was a dad. Now, we rarely talk about anything other than our son.

During my pregnancy my ex wanted to talk to me but not about my pregnancy. More than once he said "can't we talk without talking about the baby??" We eventually tried to work things out only to break up when our son was 5 weeks old. My ex was confused and actually wanted me to miscarry then when I didn't and had our son, he accepted that he was a dad. Now, we rarely talk about anything other than our son.

If its hard for you then block his texts or tell him he can't have his cake and eat it too. Do whatever is best for you and your baby. It's hard to go through pregnancy alone. I have for 7 months now and have only spoke to my soon to be ex husband a little here and there. He never asked about the baby. I did not appreciate that and think he's a selfish a hole for that! Best wishes

If its hard for you then block his texts or tell him he can't have his cake and eat it too. Do whatever is best for you and your baby. It's hard to go through pregnancy alone. I have for 7 months now and have only spoke to my soon to be ex husband a little here and there. He never asked about the baby. I did not appreciate that and think he's a selfish a hole for that! Best wishes

Thanks everyone. I really don't know why he's texting me but I will probably stop responding because it is delaying my healing process. I've just been reluctant to push him away further in case he eventually changes his mind and wants to be in the child's life. Btw, we are both 37 years old so he is not still growing up and figuring out what he wants in life. At least he shouldn't be!!! :(

Thanks everyone. I really don't know why he's texting me but I will probably stop responding because it is delaying my healing process. I've just been reluctant to push him away further in case he eventually changes his mind and wants to be in the child's life. Btw, we are both 37 years old so he is not still growing up and figuring out what he wants in life. At least he shouldn't be!!! :(

You can always tell him that if he wants to find out how his baby is doing and wants to spend time with his child he can call you anytime. If he's just texting to say hi tell him to stop it, you're busy raising a child. At 37 he needs to grow the eff up. Seriously.

You can always tell him that if he wants to find out how his baby is doing and wants to spend time with his child he can call you anytime. If he's just texting to say hi tell him to stop it, you're busy raising a child. At 37 he needs to grow the eff up. Seriously.

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