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Success is about getting all that you wanted to have. It's finding
that you have achieved your goals or fulfilled your plans and it's
waking up in the morning feeling victorious rather than feeling
defeated.

The feelings success brings will make you walk proudly in the streets with your head up high while being happy and satisfied.

How to Be Successful in Life

Contrary to common beliefs,
there are no successful or unsuccessful people but instead there are
people who have the potential to succeed and who do things that helps
them realize this potential and there are people with the same potential
who don’t do those things.

The only thing you need to do to succeed is to do exactly what
successful people did. When you go through all of the information below
you will acquire the mentality of a successful person and this will help
you reach success.

What Makes Me Unsuccessful?

If you really want to be successful then you should have a solid
understanding of certain concepts that can limit your potential and that
can make you unsuccessful.

Successful people avoid these harmful concepts and so should you:

False Beliefs: False beliefs are incorrect ideas you hold
about something or about yourself. An example of a false belief could be
“I can never find a job in such a country” . False beliefs act as
limiters to your true potential
and so to your success. Getting rid of false beliefs and knowing more
about them is the most important task that you should do if you are
serious about success. False beliefs can not only limit your success
potential but they can even ruin your life. Some people stay broken for
years after a breakup just because they have some false beliefs about
love that they acquired from the media. In my book How to get over anyone in few days
i explained how getting rid of false beliefs such as "the one" and "the
soul mate" can help you recover in few days. This happens because the
mind refuses to recover if it believed that it will never find a
replacement for the person you broke up with.

External Locus of Control: This is the way of thinking that
makes a person assume that everything that happens to him is the result
of external factors. For example: saying that an exam was too hard when
you don't do well or claiming that high unemployment rate is the reason
you can't find a job are examples of external locus of control. The flip
side to that way of thinking is Internal Locus of Control which is the
way of thinking that makes you believe that you are in charge and in
control of everything that happens to you. None of the successful people
have an external locus of control so if you are serious about success
you should learn how to change your way of thinking from being based on
external locus of control to being based on internal locus of control.

Lack of Persistence: What is good about having many qualities
and skills if you lost hope in succeeding after failing once or twice?
The only people who succeed in life are the persistent ones. Those who
continue working right to the end until they get what they want even if
everything was against them and even if they failed many times. If you
want to be successful then read the guide to persistence to learn how to stand up again even if you failed hundreds of times.

Lack of Flexibility: Flexibility is the ability to adapt to
external conditions. It's the ability to try something else or another
method when your current method fails. The more flexible you are, the
more you will adapt to changes and the higher your chances of success
will be. Read this guide to learn how to be flexible and how to change your methods when they don't work.

Lack of Planning: If you don’t have goals or plans then you
are going to be a part of other people's plans. If you don’t plan to be
the team leader at your work then someone else in your team will do so
and if you don't plan to get that high paying job then someone else who
planned and worked for it will take it from you. If you don’t plan you
will get swept away by the people who do. They will fill the positions,
make the money and get the fame while you'll just be a spectator.
planning is an essential item in the success toolkit. Read this guide to learn everything about planning and goal setting.

Lack of Self-confidence: If you don't have a high self-confidence then most probably you will be too shy of presenting your ideas and you may give up your dreams as soon as someone tells you that they are not possible. You may fear taking any risks
and so ignore many opportunities that could have made you successful.
If you want to increase your chances of being a successful person, then
you must build your self-confidence. You can build it from scratch using
the ultimate guide for building self-confidence.

Thinking that you lack resources: In my book How i did it
i explained how i managed to make a website that generates thousands of
dollars/month in less than 2 years with an initial investment that is
less than 50 dollars!! Don't fool yourself by thinking that you lack
resources because if you are serious about success you will do it
without having any resources. This website is one of the examples of
successful businesses that required no resources at the start up.

Success related Fears: The types of fears that can affect
your ability to succeed are the fear of failure and the fear of success.
While they both seem to be complete opposites still they can have the
same effect on you which is preventing you from trying and so leading
you to failure.

The Road to Success

If you have already been through the previous guides and have prepared your toolkit then it's time to know how the road to success looks like so that you don't find unexpected surprises.

The road to success will probably be full of rejection, pain, hard work, disappointment as well as many other discouraging things but when you reach its end you will feel really happy and victorious.

You will feel proud of yourself for overcoming all of these obstacles
and for reaching your goals in spite of the many things that stood in
your way. You will be tremendously happy and satisfied and you will
experience the feelings described at the beginning of this article. In
short, you will receive the reward of being successful.

Farouk is not only holding several degrees in psychology but he is
also an MBA holder, a stock market investor and an entrepreneur. The
information you are reading now can dramatically increase your chance of
increasing your wealth and becoming reach. If you have any doubts
regarding these statements then read The book How I did it
was written by Farouk and it explains how he managed to make a website
that generates thousands of dollars/month in less than 2 years without
paying a penny.