Multiple Personalities Support Group

Dissociative identity disorder is a diagnosis described as the existence in an individual of two or more distinct identities or personalities, each with its own pattern of perceiving and interacting with the environment. At least two of these personalities are considered to routinely take control of the individual's behavior, and there is also some associated memory loss,...

what can I do?

I am James a proctor I guess. I have never posted here. I am concerned about MeL (the main). She uses to cycle a lot. Make friends, Go to therapy, Try to get well And then it would all stop. She or another alter would alienate friends. MeL would stop therapy and it would all go to shit. This time she has gone longer learned more. Starting to come to grips with being a multiple.

In the last few day I have seen her make some very bad decisions altars are starting to misbehave again. 2 missed therapy sessions. I fear that she is going to make some bad chooses that will cancel out any healing that has made.

She has some great friends on here most are not multiples they are cheering her on in things I am not sure they know anything about. I opened her last journal entry for any who want to read. She is no longer communicating with me. What can I do? How can I stop this?

Hi James,
It is very good of you to come on and want to help MeL. We all do. Can you talk to be parts inside that aren't behaving well? Can you talk to MeL? Is she aware of what is happening? I know this is a very, very difficult journey, and the healing process takes a very long time. She will not lose what she has learned, she may forget it for a while, but it will come back, I know I have been there. There are lots of ups and downs with DID/MPD, there are so many different feelings, emotions, memories that come into play when living your life. Keep trying to communicate, I'm convinced that is key. If she won't talk, write to her. But keep trying, don't give up. We love all of you, so keep up the good work.
Karen

Sometimes you can write notes to the main and they will listen to you. You can have meetings inside and ask everyone who is willing to come and so you guys can all work together to be safe. Not going to therapy is not safe and one person should not make that choice by themselves. Let her know that you all want to be safe and that you have rights, too!

James, please do not give up...I know that it is tiring and the thanks are few, but try to have another big to help you. Try writing notes to Mel....try to make her understand that her life HAS changed...it will never be the same...just different. Let her know that she cannot give up...she has so much good in her life.

I will try to help as much as I can....it is hard, the ups and downs...but there has been significant progress. XXOO

I wrote her a note last night she still missed therapy today. MeL is the only one that drives so it makes it hard to send anyone eles. We are supose to go twice a week she feels that is just to much wants to go once a month. The ones that are misbehving agreed to behave I am not sure how that will go.

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