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Fri, 20 Nov 2015 18:34:36 +0000https://www.ispyyou.net/?p=536With estimates pointing out that nearly a third of US’ employees steal from their workplace, then it is apparent that employee theft is a menace equally as big as shoplifting. But that notwithstanding, you can easily protect your company’s bottom line against this menace by setting clear procedures and policies. Do You Know What Your employees […]

]]>With estimates pointing out that nearly a third of US’ employees steal from their workplace, then it is apparent that employee theft is a menace equally as big as shoplifting. But that notwithstanding, you can easily protect your company’s bottom line against this menace by setting clear procedures and policies.

Do You Know What Your employees are up to on the internet?

Are you a manager or a business owner, and you are suspecting that your company’s confidential information could be leaking from your company yet you don’t know when and who is behind it? Again, do you know exactly what your employees are up to on the internet? At minimum, it is likely they are watching YouTube videos, chatting, or spending time on Facebook.

At worst, your employees could be steering your firm toward financial ruin. That is why you need to read this quick guide because it will teach you how to monitor virtually everything that your employees do with their computers, and also learn how to keep an eye on your employee internet use.

The Only Monitoring Software You Will Ever Need

mSpy is a comprehensive software that is tailored at ending your anxiety. It is designed for purposes of restricting inappropriate

behaviors and detecting potential abuse. With this software, snapshots and recorded logs can also be used as evidence whenever there is any misconduct. Most importantly, the spy software helps increase productivity and prevents data leaks as well.

Here are some of its major computer features:

Screenshots

User activity

Keylogger

Web mailer

Applications use

Installed applications

Why mSpy is the most powerful and comprehensive employee monitoring solution

1. Centralized employee monitoring solution

The software has the ability to monitor several computers and employees from a single computer.

With mSpy, you can tell when and who is copying your company’s data to a laptop or USB drive, monitor every single email/webmail and see who is sending emails with attachments. Furthermore, you can track chat details and every print job, prevent data loss and distinguish employee detail.

3. Prevent productivity loss

Employees are used to watching movies, chatting, running other non-related programs, and playing games during working hours. This doesn’t only lead to serious productivity loss, but it also leads to wastage of bandwidth and also slows down other things that use the internet as well. But with mSpy, you can easily add filters for purposes of blocking websites and applications on work computers during working hours.

Features of mSpy

The creed “forewarned is forearmed” doesn’t only apply to your employees, kids, and computer usage, but it also applies to other areas of life as well. If you are wondering exactly why your kids keep minimizing their computer screen each time you enter into their room, or if you have a difficult time managing employees who regularly waste working hours on their computers, then it is the high time you consider mSpy as the ultimate supervision tool for both your business and kids alike.

The comprehensive monitoring software can monitor virtually everything that takes place on your computer while you aren’t around. The computer tracking application is ideal for business owners and parents who are keen on ensuring that there isn’t any sort of mismanagement of computer use.

The software combines essential computer monitoring features, and further supplies you with all the information you need, consequently giving you peace of mind.

Below are some of its features in detail:

Screenshots

The software automatically takes the screenshots of a desktop, meaning that you can easily see exactly what a computer user is up to. Moreover, it helps you stay informed on the specific computer applications and programs being used.

How will I find this feature useful?There are a number of reasons as to why you will find this feature quite useful. Key among them is that, by having it take computer screenshots, you can easily eliminate the need to constantly monitor your kids as a parent. Again, you will no longer need to shoulder check whether your kids are visiting inappropriate sites or doing their homework. Secondly, this feature will help you get a clear picture of what every employee is doing during working hours even when you aren’t physically present.

Keylogger

The monitoring software lets you check each keystroke that is being typed by a computer user even when it has been deleted immediately. With this software in place, you can easily tell exactly what is being searched on search engines such as Bing or Google. You can also view all chat messages that are sent by the computer user through any instant messaging application, scrutinize all texts that are typed in word documents and check all sent emails.

Will I find this feature useful?You will definitely find this feature useful due to a number of reasons. Among them is that, it helps you ensure that your kids are safe online whenever they are chatting with strangers and visiting social networks. Secondly, this feature can be quite useful particularly if your main concern is staff monitoring, thanks to the fact that it will help you weed out untrustworthy or dishonest employees and most importantly prevent them from leaking confidential data.

User activity

The employee monitoring software lets you know the duration of time users remain active in a given computer session. It can also help you generate detailed statistical reports on your employees’ or kids’ computer usage.

How will this feature help me? It will help you find out how your employees and kids spend their time on the computer. It will also help you find out how your kids are utilizing their leisure time, or if your employees are slacking off at work.

Applications use

This feature helps you take a closer look at all the applications and programs that are running in a target computer. It also lets you know the internet browser that has been used and further find out the amount of time that has been spent on individual apps. You can also access any data you wish to any time, regardless of the type of internet-enabled device that you are using to access the mSpy control panel.

How is this beneficial to me? This feature will help you monitor your kids and ensure that they aren’t accessing any sites that may contain adult content. If you are an employer, it can help you ensure that no employee is compromising sensitive data or abusing company’s time.

Installed applications

This feature helps you view all installed applications on a target computer. With this feature, you can easily track the name of any installed application, when it was installed as well as its version.

Why will I find this feature useful? There are numerous applications out there these days. For instance, there are some harmless plant-eaters (official entertaining and educational applications that are tailored at simplifying your everyday life). There are also real predators (applications that inflict damage in moral and financial respects).This feature can be beneficial to you because it will help you figure out the applications that simplify your life and those that can easily inflict damage in moral or financial respects.

Web Mailer

This feature helps you gain access to comprehensive information regarding all letters that are opened on all target devices in Internet Explorer, Chrome, Firefox and Safaris browsers. It can also help you monitor the usage of web-based email services such as Oulook.com, Yahoo Mail and Gmail.

How is this feature useful to me? You will find this feature useful because it will help you filter letters by time frames, mail services and types of letters (sent, income, favorite etc). It can also mark separate letters, view detailed information on the letters and further undertake different operations with them. These operations include: save, delete the letters, print and download the attachments among others.

***Please note that there is a temporary shortcoming of this feature, but mSpy team is currently working hard to get rid of any drawbacks revealed. Currently, mSpy can only monitor Gmail app.

See What Employees do on Company Computers

With mSpy software, you can easily see everything that your employees do on their computers. The software can also record each employee’s computer activities including clipboard activities, keystrokes, clipboard, file documents (move, paste, create, rename and delete), print jobs, E-mail, webmail (Yahoo Mail, Gmail, Hotmail among other popular webmail), FTP file transfer, online storage usage, searches, websites program usage and time, file downloads, Skype, removable storage usage, Google talk chat, System events, application network traffic, and so on.

This powerful report module will help you keep track and analyze computer usage and distinguish unwanted employee computer activities that can hurt your business. It is also crucial to giving you evidence that you need to prove that some of your employees could be abusing their working time. As such, it is the ultimate solution for protecting your business against employee theft.

]]>Review of mSpy Software. Why mSpy?https://www.ispyyou.net/mspy-software-review-why-mspy/
Wed, 18 Nov 2015 17:44:19 +0000https://www.ispyyou.net/?p=432With several million satisfied customers worldwide, mSpy is the most popular application used for monitoring and safety. The software tracks all of the activities on the phone that is monitored by controlling its background which includes GPS location, web history, videos, e-mails, texts, Skype, WhatsApp, images, keystrokes and many others. MSpy starts working immediately after installation and can even […]

]]>With several million satisfied customers worldwide, mSpy is the most popular application used for monitoring and safety. The software tracks all of the activities on the phone that is monitored by controlling its background which includes GPS location, web history, videos, e-mails, texts, Skype, WhatsApp, images, keystrokes and many others.

MSpy starts working immediately after installation and can even block websites and apps that are not appropriate. It has another amazing option – it can stop unwanted contacts from calling you.

Trying to keep your children safe offers a great opportunity to use mSpy to achieve your goal. The never ending wish to live in a perfect world where everyone could be friends, everyone would be happy and nobody would try to hurt others is still very much alive but the idea is slipping away with every second that passes. In reality, there is no such thing; every stranger represents a potential danger and every turn you make could be potential risk. When tracking the phones and devices of loved ones with mSpy you are getting closer to your goal – keeping them safe.

ABOUT

Essentially mSpy makes it is possible to keep an eye on people you love the most and keep them safe from danger. The worries filling your day are simply gone and all the energy that is left can be focused on much more productive things.

Using mSpy you can be informed about your kid’s safety even in your absence, what is troubling him and with whom is he having contact, where is he going, where he has been and know about the online searches he is making. In the workplace it helps you with the information on how to reduce the risk of stolen identity and to see how much your employees are working. Employers trying to keep integrity intact should be using mSpy but monitoring must be work related only and employees must be notified about monitoring.

When monitoring a device you can easily check on it from any other device with an internet connection. You simply check the control panel. Also, supervising an iOS device gives you two options by either using mSpy for jailbroken or using non-jailbroken devices.

KEY FEATURES

Managing calls – you can monitor all incoming as well as outgoing calls and see right away how long the call lasted, the time it was received, who called and how many calls were made as well as accessing call logs without jailbreaking the iOS device. When trying to avoid people making contact you can block any number or person and prevent them from calling you.

Track text messages – you are able to see the content of each message, who the sender or the receiver was, whether it was a sent or received message, the time and date of message and also all the texts on non-jailbroken iOS devices.

Read email– you are able to see the content of all email, incoming and outgoing, the date and time of every email and the name of the sender together with contact information of the sender/recipient.

Track GPS location – while monitoring the phone you can also check on the owner’s current location and see where they are located on GPS, check the route history of the owner and identify the location when normal GPS is not available. You can access all features from the Control Panel. There is also a possibility to identify forbidden areas without a limit and check how often are these area visited. You will receive email notifications about entrance and exit of each zone. There is also a clear map where you can see previous movements of the device.

Monitoring internet use – You will have control over browsing history because you will be able to see logs of visited websites and also see the date of the action and be able to analyse browsing history directly from the Control Panel. While monitoring internet usage you will also be able to check all bookmarked sites and find favourites.

With online content filtering you can block inappropriate sites and restrict access to certain sites you are monitoring. Another possibility is to track a device by identifying the name of a wifi point and finding its location as well as establishing the type of connection (Public, WPA, WPA2, WPA-PSK, etc.). Monitoring wifi is also possible on iOS devices that are non-jailbroken. In addition you can prevent connections to dangerous Wi-Fi hotspots and find out the time and date of any previously established connection.

Read Instant Messages – You will be able to read and track Skype chats & calls. The same goes for WhatsApp, iMessage and social networks where you can check the chats with other users. When checking Viber from the Control Panel you can access the information of free calls, see all the messages (sent and received) and see logs for group messaging.
The Snapchat app can also be monitored on the rooted device, if the app is installed (when you purchase mSpy you also get a way to track Snapchat). The proper installation of mSpy is easy when following the instructions. When tracking the Line app you can not only see the information of the sender or recipient and see all the messages (incoming and out coming) together with the time of sent/delivered message, you can also track hidden chats in the app.

Controlling Apps and Programs – you can monitor everything from games to social networks and make sure your children and employees are safe from the Control Panel. Protect the kids, information at your office and at home while controlling all the apps and decide to which apps user can access. In addition, you can see every keyboard stroke made on the monitored phone from the Control Panel.

View Multimedia Files – you can browse and see every picture or video downloaded from the monitored device, find out when they were taken and access all of it from your Control Panel.

Remote Control – If your device is stolen, you can wipe data on the device from the control panel but should know the act is irreversible and should only be used in an emergency. Alternatively you can lock your device on command if the device is stolen and lock/unlock from the Control Panel.
In addition, you can see the battery status, the type of internet connection and check the mobile operator of the device. Control Panel provides you with the dashboard view option, the possibility so see individual activities, a comprehensive help option page and search options. You can also track more than one device, restrict and grant the access and export data into several different files as XLS, CSV or PDF.

Analyse it– you will be able to create reports for devices, user or group of users, activities, time and type of file.

Support – comprehensive reports can be created via email, live chat or the toll-free number. Support increases with the number of possible ways to extract information (logs storage data backup, etc.). It is available for any mobile devices running iOS and Android platforms.

The Control Panel is amazingly easy to use and together with 24/7 live customer support and 256 bit encryption mSpy becomes the best possible solution to make sure your youngsters are not in danger.

HOW DOES MSPY WORK?

First, you choose the device you wish to monitor and from it the app collects data to which you can gain access through the Control Panel. Second, check if the device you want to monitor is compatible to mSpy. You need to know that when you install mSpy you confirm you will use this app legally, which means install mSpy on your own device, use it for monitoring your underage kid or if the owner of the monitored device agrees, he / she to being monitored. After you install the app it starts working immediately in the background of the device.

It is important to know the legal use of mSpy. It can be used as parental control over underage kids, it can be installed on your own phone or used in a company to monitor the devices the employees use – but they have to be informed about it. The responsibility of using the app legally is yours; you need to know what kind of authorisation you need to use mSpy and know if you have it – mSpy or ispyyou.net cannot give you legal advice on how to use it.

After you have installed the mSpy app on the targeted device (either iOS, Android, Windows and Mac OS) you can access to the monitoring data in the Control Panel to which you can access using any internet browser. The data updates within 24 hours since the latest backup if you are using mSpy without jailbreak but if you are using mSpy with jailbreak, you can select the update interval and receive updated data within the chosen time. Please note that the updates also depend on the signal strength and the quality of wireless internet connection.

If you need technical support you will not be left waiting on the phone. mSpy offers four level of high quality technical assistance. You will get e-mail support, live chat support and phone support to provide you with personalised service. Having a great support team, mAssistance or VIP assistance gives you all the help you need with the mSpy app.

COMPATIBILITY

Using mSpy on iOS is easy – if you are using mSpy with jailbreak, it is compatible with iOS 6 – 9.0 while mSpy without jailbreak is compatible with all of the iOS versions. The device on which you are running mSpy must have be connected to the internet. It is possible to use mSpy on iPhone or iPad as well as on Mac OS, but there are some differences whether you are using mSpy with or without jailbreak. MSpy with a jailbroken device supports more features than not but you need to have physical access to the device in order to install the app. You can install mSpy via iCloud on unbroken devices. Please note that mSpy with jailbreak and mSpy without jailbreak are not the same – you can change the version you are using freely but the data you captured until this point will be lost.

With Android devices gaining popularity it is only logical that mSpy is compatible with phones that run on android operating systems like Nokia X, Samsung Galaxy S3, S4, Sony Xperia and HTC One. Still, some conditions must apply in order to use mSpy on Android device; the device you target must be using Android 4+.

]]>How To Spy On Someone’s Cell Phonehttps://www.ispyyou.net/how-to-spy-on-someones-cell-phone/
Mon, 16 Nov 2015 19:19:15 +0000https://www.ispyyou.net/?p=421If you have a child or a spouse who appears to be hiding secrets you should learn how to spy on someone’s cell phone. There are a number of mobile phone services that make remote cell phone spying easy. They allow users to discreetly collect information on their targets. Taking advantage of these services will […]

]]>If you have a child or a spouse who appears to be hiding secrets you should learn how to spy on someone’s cell phone. There are a number of mobile phone services that make remote cell phone spying easy. They allow users to discreetly collect information on their targets. Taking advantage of these services will give you guaranteed access to SMS messages, voice mail messages, call logs and more. Best of all you don’t even need to be in possession of the subject’s cell phone or have his or her mobile phone password. Instead you can access and view all of this information online from any computer or mobile device of your choosing.

The Benefits Of Being Able To Spy On Someone’s Phone Without Being Detected

In the past it was necessary to have a person’s phone password in order to access his or her information. Now, however, you can get all of the data that has been sent on a device without even having the actual phone in your hand. There is no sneaking and no fear of getting caught. You simply need to log onto the remote cell phone spy service while you’re alone and start browsing the information that this software provides. You can know whether or not the people you care about are being honest with you and you can take actions to reprove them.

Cheating Spouses

If an individual wants to learn how to spy on someone’s cell phone, he or she is most likely worried about a flirtatious, romantic partner. Few things are worse than suspecting that your significant other is having an affair and not having enough information to back your suspicious up. Remote cell phone spy software can help you get the confirmation and peace of mind that you need to start moving forward with your life. You simply need to install this on your loved one’s phone, whether directly or remotely, and then wait for the texts and calls to come in. Given that most people conduct the majority of their conversations through written messages, you will have the info that you need in almost no time at all.

Teenagers Who Aren’t Following Your Rules

This software is also extremely popular among concerned parents who believe that their teenagers are making bad and even potentially dangerous decisions. You can use these programs to learn whether or not your teen is hanging out with the wrong friends, engaging in illegal activities or involved in any other unsavoury activities. Best of all, given that your teen won’t know that you’re spying, he or she will continue to be candid and forthright when posting pictures, sending SMS messages and leaving voice messages for friends.

Checking Online Activities

Spyware for cellphones can provide a broad range of functions. In addition to tracking the call logs and the incoming and outgoing text messages of a cell phone user you can also get detailed information on the online activities of your subject. For instance, you can see which photos have been uploaded, learn more about his or her Internet browsing activities and even see which sites are being visited most frequently.

If you suspect your loved one having an affair, the first place to check for evidence of this affair is the Internet. You can even track mobile phone apps like Whatsapp in order to see whether these tools are being used to connect with local singles. Thus, no matter how careful your partner is at covering his or her tracks, you are bound to stumble across the details that you need to either prove or disprove your suspicions.

Why It’s Important To Know How To Track A Cell Phone Without Them Knowing

Remote mobile spy gives people the secrecy and spying abilities that were once formerly reserved for top, government organizations. You can collect data unobtrusively so that people are not altering their wording or their behaviours in order to avoid getting caught engaging in unacceptable activities. Given the vast range of financial and physical health issues that can be caused by extramarital affairs, having the ability to discreetly spy on mobile phone activities is important for protecting yourself. Without these tools, you could remain in the dark indefinitely, with both your well-being and your financial security at risk. Thus, if you value yourself, now is the time to learn how to use an SMS mobile spy program.

Spy Mobile SMS Can Help You Catch Your Spouse Red-Handed

Tools like these also make it difficult for cheating partners to lie and cover their tracks. This software allows you to collect real evidence against your target. If you are tired of going back and forth about suspicious behaviours and of being accused of being too distrustful, this is the right tool for you. After a few days of reading your spouse’s text messages and tracking his or her online activities, you should have more than enough information to determine exactly what is going. You won’t have to worry, wonder or guess any longer. If your spouse is cheating, you will also be able to find out exactly who he or she is cheating with. A remote install cell phone spy will deliver up all of the details that you want and need to know and you spying activities will never be detected.

Get Started Right Away

If you have ever asked the question, “How can I spy on text messages,” you’ll be happy to know that the answer is both simple and straightforward. You can install a mobile phone spy program that will give you ongoing access to all of your target’s information. You can see which messages have been sent and received along with their transmission times. If any files or photos have been attached to your target’s messages you’ll have access to these right away. After you have remotely installed spyware for cell phones software you’ll be ready to start collecting information. Best of all your provider will supply helpful assistance throughout every step of the installation process. Once you learn how to spy on someone’s cell phone there is absolutely nothing that this individual can hide from you.

You have a bad feeling in your stomach that something isn’t right in your marriage but you can’t put your finger on it and you can’t shake the feeling. If you suspect your husband is cheating then it may be time to start looking for signs that he is having an affair. Women have very strong intuition and should trust their gut instincts. However, you should conduct your own investigation and gather the facts before you confront him because he will most likely deny any affair to the bitter end if you come out and ask him so you have to be prepared. Don’t make accusations you cannot back up.

1. Is he putting a lot more effort into his appearance?

All of a sudden he is whitening his teeth, getting a new hair style, manscaping his private parts to name a few. He has also started to work out more or he has even joined a gym. He has changed up his wardrobe with younger, hipper styles? Maybe his new love interest is significantly younger than he is.

2. He avoids emotional and physical contact with you.

Aside from the bedroom he seems reluctant to kiss you. He no longer holds your hand, gives you hugs, touches your face and so on. He barely looks into your eyes and he seems emotionally detached. He may feel like he is cheating on his new love interest or perhaps he has just lost interest in you.

3. Is he very moody?

Have you noticed that your husband is moodier than before? Do the slightest things set him off? You look at him the wrong way and he explodes. He picks fights with you, seems angry and is critical of you most of the time. He picks apart your clothes, your weight, the way you speak and is generally unkind towards you. Everything you do seems to annoy him now. He might be looking for reasons to justify his affair or he might be comparing you to his new love interest.

4. Look for a change in your husband’s sex drive.

Both more or less interest in sex can signal infidelity. Is he tired all the time and “not in the mood”. Is he suddenly shy about taking his clothes off in front of you? He may be trying to hide an unexplained bruise or scratch or he may feel like he cannot share himself completely with two different women. Alternatively, has his sex drive increased dramatically and have you noticed any new moves in the bedroom? He may have learned a few tricks from his new lover.

5. Look through his things like his car.

Are there any unusual hairs? For example you have straight brown hair and you find a few really long curly blond ones. Is the chair adjusted differently to the last time you were in the car? Has he taken the child seat out for no particular reason? Take note of the mileage. Look through his wallet for unexplained receipts. Perhaps he is taking his new love interest to nice restaurants.

6. How much time is he spending on the computer?

Is he spending a lot of time on the computer especially late at night? Check his browser history. If he is clearing his browser history on a daily basis this could suggest they are communicating with their love interest. Has he created a private email account? You will be able to see if he has not cleared his browser history. Does he minimize the screen when you enter the room? There are also programs you can install on your computer to monitor activity and find out what is really going on.

7. Take a look at his phone.

This is a big one. Does he take the phone with him everywhere he goes – even the bathroom? When you have the opportunity get a hold of his phone and look through it. If he is being possessive about his phone you may have to wait until he falls asleep. Check his phone to see if he is deleting his text history. Most people do not delete texting history unless they have something to hide.

Check to see if he has any dating apps such as Zoosk, Ashley Madison or Tinder to name a few. Also check to see if he has any instant messaging apps such as What’sApp, Viber or Kik. He could be using these as a secret way of communicating.There are also programs that you can put on his phone that will track all of his texting, phone calls and even record his voice calls so you can find out exactly what’s going on. This way the truth will be indisputable.

If you think your husband is cheating on you he probably is. Ultimately the number one sign that someone is cheating on you is your intuition. However, your gut isn’t necessarily fool. proof. While checking off one sign alone isn’t reason to call off the relationship if there are several in play you may have some serious cause for concern. Conduct your own investigation it’s better to find out if you are being cheated on now rather than 1, 2 or even 10 years down the line.

]]>How to Catch a Cheating Wife – 7 Red Flagshttps://www.ispyyou.net/how-to-catch-a-cheating-wife-7-red-flags/
Thu, 12 Nov 2015 00:07:55 +0000https://www.ispyyou.net/?p=400Have you ever wondered if your wife has cheated on you? If there is something about your wife’s recent behaviour that doesn’t seem quite right and your gut is telling you that there might be another man in her life you should conduct your own investigation before you confront her. There are many red flags […]

]]>Have you ever wondered if your wife has cheated on you? If there is something about your wife’s recent behaviour that doesn’t seem quite right and your gut is telling you that there might be another man in her life you should conduct your own investigation before you confront her. There are many red flags that could be indicative of a cheating spouse.

Here are a seven of the most common ones:

1. How much time is she spending on the computer and more specifically social media?

If your wife is spending more and more time on Facebook or similar sites this may be a red flag. Take a look at her posts on Facebook and take note if you see a lot of interaction with any particular man in general. Take a look at your wife’s internet history when she isn’t there. If she has erased her browser history there may be something there that she didn’t want you to see. Remember that smart phones are the most commonly used devices for cheating.

If you can get access to her phone see if she has downloaded any dating specific apps such as Tinder, Zoosk or Ashleigh Madison. Social apps like Whatsapp, Kik, Snapchat, Google Hangouts or Skype may be ways she is hiding communication with another guy. Pay attention to see if these apps are always being deleted after use. Take a look at her cell phone bill if you can. Take note of the same number that is being frequently dialed.

You can use a reverse search online to find out the name and location for the phone number. You also want to be on the look out for new email addresses that she has created for herself. Again you can find this information if you pay attention to her internet history.

2. Changes in her grooming habits

The longer a couple stays together the more relaxed they become with their appearance. If your wife suddenly gets a make over and is making a considerable effort to improve her appearance she may be trying to make herself look good for someone new. Watch out for excessive shopping sprees. If she is coming home with bags of new clothes pay attention. Is she wearing these clothes in front of you?

A really big sign of infidelity can be if your wife is suddenly buying sexy lingerie but not wearing it for you at all. Has she joined a gym or recently started working out excessively? If your wife takes a sudden interest in trying to improve her body she may be doing so to attract another man. Is she showering as soon as she gets home or worse at the gym? She may be trying to cover up the scent of another man.

3. She is suddenly withdrawn or aloof

Over all you are noticing less intimacy, sharing, talking etc.. She may be speaking in terms of “me” and “I” instead of “we” or “us”. She stops sharing all of the small details about her day. As a general rule women love to talk about the small details of their day. She may be getting the emotional support from someone else.

Another big red flag is eye contact or lack of. It is part of human behaviour to avoid eye contact when you feel guilty about something. Try to make eye contact with her throughout the day. If she is cheating she will find it very difficult to make and maintain eye contact with you.

4. Changes in sexual behaviour

You might think that your wife would show less interest in making love. This may not necessarily be the case. She may want more sex as a way of alleviating her guilt or she may be using you physically if she is having an emotional affair with another man.

Is she using different techniques? Maybe she has learned them from a new partner. Maybe there is less affection and passion. Even if you are still having sex regularly it may seem more like a chore to her.

5. Is she getting easily annoyed, defensive or argumentative?

Her guilty conscience may have her trying to justify the affair to herself. Finding fault with you and making you the bad guy to make herself feel better. She may even try to accuse you of cheating to transfer the guilt back onto you. On the other hand she may be displaying indifference towards you, which is not good at all. This is an indication that she no longer cares.

6. Smoking or drinking

Has your wife developed any new less than desirable habits such as smoking or drinking or perhaps she is smoking and drinking more than before. If she has then she may have met someone who has introduced these habits to her. Pay attention to when you smell alcohol on her breath. If you smell it on her breath when she is coming home from running errands or a supposed late night at the office there may be a problem.

7. Does she have a new friend?

In general women get very excited about meeting someone new. They feel a need to talk about them because they are so excited about the new relationship. She may be giving you a fake name to throw you off. Her new friend “Allison” might actually be “Al”.

Before you confront your wife you must conduct your own investigation to confirm your suspicions. If your wife has not been cheating on you and you accuse her, your problems could become much worse creating problems that never existed beforehand.