I was having amazing sessions with waves of pleasure. Then it just stopped. The last 4 sessions I get nothing. I have tried every model I have. I get the rolling contractions going and nothing happens.

I doubt that the type of lube you are using would make much difference in this case. Very many "Aneroseans" use either Vaseline and/or shea butter with success.

I have used both with equal success. Mostly, I use shea butter and reserve Vaseline for travelling or if I decide on an impromptu session early in the morning. The only problem with shea butter is that it does require a little preparation before going to bed at night.

Seems to me that you have just reached a dry spot and that this will pass. Try not to get too hung up by it and keep regular sessions going. I have been through this experience too. It seemed to last for a while but by keeping the faith, I came through it.

@xtimedt69, i agree with @pommie, probably just a couple of dud sessions. I had a string of duds last for almost 2 months! It happens, just dont get hung up on it. Everyone's different too, so it might only last a couple of sessions, the important thing is to just enjoy what you have and not let yourself get frustrated.

When this all stopped was right after this (I don't talk about her much here anymore because some guys are not as lucky as I am and I am sensitive to that) :

The wife gave me a BJ with it in, then a couple of days later she decided she wanted me to do her with it in and I did. Both were incredible. Then I didn't have a session at all for two days. Once I started having sessions again, that was when there was nothing. I was wondering if you can overstimulate the Prostate causing it to got into a state where it doesn't respond for a while.

@xtimedt69 just a idea maybe try a session and what ever the out come try a super T at the end. leave it in and relax for a hour and see what happens and if you can manage it wank another super t out.

Long shot but it might work like a reset switch you may have flipped your circuit breaker dude! :D

I dont give a rats what other dudes might say about your wife your are a very lucky man and she is one in a million.

I for one would love to hear how much pleasure you receive from your wife and not get upity about it coz I was not lucky enough to get the same. I am sure most guy here would. Some guys are just jealous.

I went through a dull patch at one stage and after a super T i would get the ghosting feelings which helped my brain remember the, oh that feels good feeling.

Your journey has been different as we both know but it will come good, trust me ( I have not let you let yourself down yet, have I) ;) My dull patch resulted in the purchase of the eupho but in your case you have other models anyway.

Man I can only imagine how hard the aneros was thumping you as your wife gave you your BJ and then you did her with it in. Poor prostate.

Sounds like a dry spell. It will pass. Did you encounter any new stress before things stopped? I've found that can be a real damper. Otherwise, enjoy with your partner and don't worry, let us know how things go.

Update: Still not getting much feeling. I can detect a little tingle every once in a while. I will continue to try. I imagine I will be forced by circumstances to refrain for a couple of days then we shall see what happens.

So then it looks like a rewiring event has taken place for you, thats not so bad and certainly good for your sex life (if it could get any better) 8-> Looks like wifey will get more of a mouthful too =P~

Well I started this post almost a month ago. I still am getting almost nothing. I get some little tickles occasionally and try to build on them, but not like anything I was getting before. I will sometimes get a deep contraction, but there is no sensation at the end of it, just pressure.

I have tried the PS-New, Maximus and Progasm. I suppose I will just lay off of it completely for a few weeks and see what happens.

Well I started this post almost a month ago. I still am getting almost nothing. I get some little tickles occasionally and try to build on them, but not like anything I was getting before. I will sometimes get a deep contraction, but there is no sensation at the end of it, just pressure.

I have tried the PS-New, Maximus and Progasm. I suppose I will just lay off of it completely for a few weeks and see what happens.

@xtimedt69, just remembere its a journey, not a destination. These periods of nothing happening are normal and will pass. I just got done with a long one, now things have improved immensly. Take a short break and come back refreshed.

Sounds like you got a bit bored of it maybe? habits aren't fun.. neither are routines :) Same happened to me after a few dud sessions. The brake I took lasted 2-3weeks and took a few weeks to get back to where I am now.

Nope, I really ment time off. If it could be that his muscles have toned up in a way that pulls it inwards. If so, then it might help to lay off contractions for a while to let them get weaker.

I`m just saying this COULD be the case, if he feels his prostate has moved inwards and won`t move back in place - like he says.

Kiropractors know of the muscletone bodypart stuff really well, and I actually had to tone up the muscles in my shoulder again to fix an old injury that lets my shoulder slip gradually out of its socket. I have to train my shoulders the rest of my life to keep the left arm in place. Unless I want to undergo surgery and install a metal piece.

I know it could be a bit far fetched, but if the muscles aren`t holding it back/inwards, then I don`t really know what could. My two pennies..

Well .... I am finally back with sensations and building again . Funny, it took the same thing that stopped it to reverse it .... A BJ with the Aneros in .... It was my birthday, she offered. It wasn't the fireworks as before, but something clicked.

When I tried an aneros session the next day, the old feelings were back. That was a couple of weeks ago and it is getting better. I have to say, it is much different, it is not as super intense but it feels better and I feel I have great potential.

@xtimedt69, Welcome Back! :-bd My experience over the last 2 years is when things seem to stop, they come back and tend to feel differently, like things have changed, but also more pleasureable. I have confirmed this with some others on here also.