3 Reasons Dads Should Do More Housework

When dad and the kids do the housework together, the payoff is more than just time off for mom. Children who clean, cook, and run household errands with their fathers are better behaved and have more friends, University of California sociologists report. And the lure for dads who pitched in: Their wives find them more sexually attractive.

"Dads sharing chores may make a big impression on children because it counters traditional attitudes," says Scott Coltrane, PhD. "Kids learn new lessons about cooperation that help them in all areas of life."

When Coltrane analyzed national data on more than 3,500 preteens and their parents, he found that these five weekly chores helped kids the most: washing dishes, cleaning house, doing laundry, preparing meals, and running errands. Meanwhile, moms see Dad's willingness to help as a sign of love--and they respond.Here's Coltrane's advice for families forming dad/kid housework teams:

For Dad: Make it fun. Put on music while dusting. Offer kids a healthy reward: a trip to the movies, time together at the local pool, a game of Monopoly.

For Mom: Get out of the way. Fight the urge to hover and give advice. Let them own a task or two, even if the laundry comes out oddly folded or the kitchen floor is streaky.