Kendra is ‘ashamed and embarrassed’ that her husband, Hank Baskett, allegedly cheated on her with a transsexual. A source tells HollywoodLife.com EXCLUSIVELY that it wouldn’t have shocked Kendra as much if he had slept with a woman. Here’s why.

Kendra Wilkinson was hit with a double whammy earlier this year, when she found out that not only did her husband, Hank Baskett, allegedly cheat on her, but he reportedly did so with a transsexual. HollywoodLife.com has EXCLUSIVELY learned that, in Kendra’s eyes, Hank’s transsexual lover, Ava Sabrina London, is worse for her than a woman would have been.

“Kendra wouldn’t have been nearly as shocked if Hank cheated on her with a woman, rather than a transsexual. The fact that he cheated on her with a transsexual totally messed with her confidence. She felt like there was something wrong with her personally, like she wasn’t physically attractive enough, so he went on to try something different,” a source tells HollywoodLife.com EXCLUSIVELY!

We can definitely sympathize with Kendra. We’re certainly not discriminating, but we’re sure it was surprising and unexpected for Kendra to hear that her husband allegedly cheated on her with a transsexual. But that doesn’t mean Kendra would have easily forgiven Hank, had he slept with a woman.

“If it had been another woman, it still would have been painful for her, but Kendra wouldn’t have felt nearly as ashamed and embarrassed,” our source adds.

It must be heartbreaking to feel like your husband doesn’t appreciate what you have to offer.

Ava Sabrina London Encourages Kendra To Leave Hank

Furthermore, in a shocking twist of events, Ava reportedly wrote a letter to Kendra, encouraging her to leave Hank for good.

According to Radar Online, Sabrina wrote, “My advice to you, whether you asked or not, is to divorce Hank and save yourself from any future heartache and pain,” she wrote. “Hank is a lying, troubled person, and I believe, ‘Once a cheater, always a cheater.”

What do YOU think, HollywoodLifers? Should Kendra divorce Hank? Does it make it worse that Hank allegedly cheated on Kendra with a transsexual? Tell us how you feel!