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Why I Take a Summer Break from Homeschooling

For years, I didn’t take summers off from homeschooling my kids. But in recent years I’ve changed my tune. Why I take a summer break from homeschooling and what changed my mind…

I used to think it was silly to change my homeschooling routine based on the public school calendar. I wanted my kids to understand that learning never stops. How was I going to teach them to be “life-long learners” if we didn’t have formal learning for 3 months out of the year? And what about “summer slide” – when children forget things they learned in the last school year and have to spend weeks re-learning them once school begins?

Why I Take a Summer Break From Homeschooling

Things changed several years ago when I got remarried. My stepdaughter, who was living with us at the time, was in public school. So, I decided to let my homeschooled children have summers off. I knew there would be mutiny otherwise! Or at the very least, it would be difficult for them to concentrate on schoolwork while their stepsister got to hang out (and boring for her as well).

I quickly realized that taking a summer break from homeschooling has many benefits for me and my family, and I now look forward to it with relish. Among them:

The kids have more time to dig deeply into their hobbies and personal interests

“Can we build a fort in the living room?”

YES.

I’m much more likely to let them begin projects, crafts or other activities that will require making huge messes and take hours to complete. I simply don’t have the energy or time for that during school.

I’m sure that in the next few months, Caleb will make major progress on his guitar and woodworking, Julien on his bike, PVC moped and other building projects, Ilana on her crafting and reading, and Sadie on her French and gardening, among other things.

Me taking Julien’s Baja Buggy, made from PVC pipe, for a spin

I have time to plan, think, and strategize deeply for the next school year

I like to take plenty of time to do this, without the stress of feeling that I have to change something now (as I would if I did my planning during the school year).

More time for socializing

Some of my children’s friends are in public school, and it’s harder to see them during the school year. Most of their homeschooled buddies also take summers off, so there is more time to hang out with them as well. (Homeschooling socialization. It happens!)

When my 3 oldest were little, hanging out with friends. Wow does time fly!

More time and energy for extra curricular activities

During the school year, my kids don’t take extracurricular lessons. But during the summer they’ve enjoyed music lessons, pottery, dance, gymnastics and the like.

Time to flâneur

There isn’t a neat way to translate this French word. It means to stroll, loaf, waste time, lounge, saunter, see what turns up. Afternoons at the pool. Long siestas in the afternoon. Free kid movies when it’s too hot to be outside.

Every day feels like a mini adventure

With a loose routine, we can decide what we feel like doing. There is more room for spontaneity. Last minute picnic at the park? Trip to Grandma’s? IKEA for lunch? Bike ride to the library? Yes, please.

Suddenly, math concepts that younger kids were having difficulty grasping just gel. They make connections between seemingly unrelated disciplines. (The brain does this when you learn new things.) So a child who spends hours a day working on making homemade slime will suddenly “get” her times tables.

Because we don’t fill the time with screens, the kids are still learning constantly. (I do find it helpful to have a flexible routine during summer, otherwise the kids will start to get on my nerves.)

Are you a homeschooler who takes summer breaks? What are your favorite perks?