He said Robertson was not following Jesus’ orders that we treat others the way we want to be treated, with love. The man was deeply offended, labeling Robertson’s comments hateful and demanding that Robertson keep his opinions to himself.

Ironic — the gay man believed Robertson’s opinions of gays should be kept in the closet.

The real hoopla stems from lack of understanding of how love really works. Does love always feel nice? Do we always recognize a loving act and loving words?

If a parent believes a stove is hot and yells at a child, “Don’t touch that stove!” and perhaps swats the child’s hand away, does that parent hate the child? Or is that love at work?

If a parent forbids his 13-year-old daughter from dating a college guy, even if she objects and has a tantrum, does that parent hate the daughter? Or is that love at work?

I believe God has said that certain of our actions don’t fit his program very well, and that ignoring his wishes will have a negative effect on us, here and in life after death. When this belief is mentioned, it is not hate. It is love at work and is intended to benefit others, even if that belief is rejected by those hearing it.

If I don’t understand what someone says when it’s meant to benefit me, that doesn’t mean the person hates me.

I disagree with the gay man’s outlook. Robertson’s comments followed those of Jesus perfectly: Love others as you love yourself.

If something would burn me and someone encouraged me not to touch it, I’d thank Jesus that the person spoke up.