Thursday, February 24, 2011

Actually...

"I'm not going to have a doula because I'm having a VBAC."

"She doesn't need a doula; she already has an OB."

"That's like a midwife, right?"

There are a lot of misconceptions out there about what doulas are and what exactly we do. One thing that probably contributes to this is that the doula's job description varies from doula to doula and changes depending on the needs of the family.

Birth Arts International describes the doula this way- "A labor support doula accompanies the woman in labor, providing emotional and physical support. The doula suggests comfort measures, provides support and suggestions for the partner. When possible, the doula provides pre- and post-partum education, resources, emotional support, to include information on practices and procedures, and information that can assist in the client making informed decisions about her care." http://www.birtharts.org/sop.htm

CAPPA answers the question, "What is a Labor Doula?" this way- "A doula is a person who attends the birthing family before, during, and just after the birth of the baby. The certified doula is trained to deliver emotional support from home to hospital, ease the transition into the hospital environment, and be there through changing hospital shifts and alternating provider schedules. The doula serves as an advocate, labor coach, and information source to give the mother and her partner the added comfort of additional support throughout the entire labor."http://www.cappa.net/get-certified.php?labor-doula

To answer the statements I quoted at the beginning, I would say that a woman having a VBAC (vaginal birth after Cesarean) would benefit from the support that a doula offers. Having an OB doesn't replace the need for a doula, as the OB and the doula have completely different job descriptions; and no, a doula is not a midwife (though some midwives serve as doulas and some doulas eventually become midwives).

Some people ask, what does a doula actually do? Here are some things that I've done and that other doulas do for their clients at a birth:

sit with them

bring a birth ball to the house

give mom sips of juice and water

suggest changes of position

heat rice socks for back pain

play Uno

explain procedures

give nurses a copy of their birth plan

help mom relax

give mom a back/leg/hand/shoulder rub

give dad a shoulder rub

look up information for the parents

suggest that mom try the shower/tub

get lunch for dad

encourage mom to keep going

suggest resting during early labor

and much more...

If you or someone you know lives in or near Syracuse, NY, feel free to come to the Doula Connection meeting to ask questions about pregnancy, birth and doulas. We meet every second Thursday from 6-8pm. You can also call me at 443-690-6212.

Birthing Fabulousness

If you're in the Syracuse, NY or the surrounding area and are currently pregnant or considering another baby, send me an email or call me to learn about what a doula can do for you. I'm currently offering free in-person consultations and will hold your spot for up to one week while you decide if you want me to attend your birth.

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Below is my handy "calendar of availability," hosted by doulamatch.net. You can check to see if I'm available around the time that your baby is due. Then just email me at naturalparentingsupport@hotmail.com to set up a consultation.