What's the trick to being multiorgasmic?

There are two kinds of multiple Os: sequential orgasms, which are a series of orgasms that are two to 10 minutes apart, and serial orgasms, which come one after the other in rapid succession. Though all females have the potential to be plural peakers, not all women are able to master it.

However, that doesn't mean you shouldn't give it a try.

You might be more successful if you start experimenting during your solo sessions, since you'll be able to focus totally on yourself. The trick to compound climaxing: Don't stop. You want to keep your arousal level elevated. However, if your genitals become too sensitive to touch, wait about 10 seconds and then resume stimulation. You may also benefit from doing Kegel exercises (the rhythmic contractions of your pubococcygeus or PC muscles), which increase your orgasmic response. (For more info and how-to's, see Do Kegels really enhance sex? in the Carnal Counselor archives.)

Since the key to multiple orgasms is not stopping, you may have better luck with your man if he pleasures you orally. The reason: You get direct clitoral stimulation. Plus, the tongue is softer and more flexible than a finger or penis. So, if you become too tender, he can easily vary the pressure  alleviating any discomfort  and continue to turn you on  again and again.

Another way to extend the passion payoff with him is to mix things up. First have him bring you to climax with his tongue, then go right to intercourse (or vice versa). That way you'll keep your arousal level lifted without "wearing out" a particular erogenous zone.

While it's great to push the erotic envelope, you want to enjoy the journey. So try not to get too hung up on the destination. Just relax, have fun  and who knows? You might hit the multiple jackpot without even trying too hard.