In my opinion, the number of times is irrelevant. I suppose if you slept with 5 different people in a weekend, then a lot of people would look at you as a whore. But if you've had more than 5 relationships and sex was involved, who cares. It's about what you think of yourself, don't let anyone push their opinions on you.

ya that is also what i figured chef but like ive had my whole family tell me that i have only been with 6 people some were one night stands and some were relationships but i was just curious as to how many people on lush would be considered "whores" by my family's standards

More than 5? Really? You know, I've never really considered myself overly promiscuous, but by that standard I was a whore before I turned 20! Now that 40 is right around the corner, I honestly can't answer the question, because I realized that I stopped keeping track a long time ago - it's not like it was ever a contest. What I can say is that I've been with more people while in a relationship than without, so I'm ok with that.

Trying to identify yourself by the number of times you've had sex is a no win situation.. if you've only done it once you ask yourself "Geez.. what's wrong with me?" and if you do it a lot you ask yourself "Geez.. what's wrong with me?" In both cases the answer is absolutely nothing.. sexuality is an individual criteria based on desire.. some are content with a semi-monogamous relationship.. while others fancy themselves stormtroopers of love.. in the end only you can judge yourself...

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I think the number of people you have sex with only matters if you are doing them all at the same time...and then, of course it only matters in determining what size room to rent...You know you want it, you know you need it bad...get it now on Amazon.com...Lush Erotica, an Anthology of Award Winning Sex Stories

By your families standards I am definately a whore (grins)...if your family judge so much just don't tell them or let them know...it doesn't really matter what they think anyways...you're a consenting adult right?

ya that is also what i figured chef but like ive had my whole family tell me that i have only been with 6 people some were one night stands and some were relationships but i was just curious as to how many people on lush would be considered "whores" by my family's standards

Who cares? Set your own standards and stick to them. Use birth control, practice safe sex, and don't be hypocritical and judgmental about the people you have sex with, regardless of the number.

Think for yourself, man, and don't forget that if you've had sex with six people, do your family think that you're a "whore" for doing so? Or is it only appplied to your female sex partners? Also how much do you know about the number of sexual partners your judgmental family has racked up? The true numbers, I mean.

I don't give a flying fig what your family thinks about me, but boy, knowing how judgmental they are, I have my own opinion of them.

ya that is also what i figured chef but like ive had my whole family tell me that i have only been with 6 people some were one night stands and some were relationships but i was just curious as to how many people on lush would be considered "whores" by my family's standards

Seriously, unless you live at home, why do you tell them who you have sex with and when?

By your families standards I am definately a whore (grins)...if your family judge so much just don't tell them or let them know...it doesn't really matter what they think anyways...you're a consenting adult right?

ya that is also what i figured chef but like ive had my whole family tell me that i have only been with 6 people some were one night stands and some were relationships but i was just curious as to how many people on lush would be considered "whores" by my family's standards

Seriously, unless you live at home, why do you tell them who you have sex with and when?

Even so if you do live home it still ain't any of their damn business.

well honestly nobody knows how many people i have been with they just know im not a virgin lol but when i still lived with my mom she called me a male whore and i was just curious how many other people have been with and if yall would consider me a whore

I guess I'm the so-called-Saint by your family, as I've only been with three. That being said, I have to join everyone else's team in saying that it really doesn't mean jack. The last of my number is my wife, who's been with me 5 1/2 years. She was more promiscuous than I in our single days, and somehow I've kept her happy.

You're the only one keeping score of yourself, sunshine. Don't worry about what anyone else has to say. It's about the pleasure you and your bedroom partner(s) experience, no one else.Oh, and P.S., family is 9 times out of 10 the WORST judge of how sexually outgoing you should or should not be. You're always an infant in their eyes, so watch how much detail you divulge. I speak from experience.

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By your families standards I am definately a whore (grins)...if your family judge so much just don't tell them or let them know...it doesn't really matter what they think anyways...you're a consenting adult right?

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