When we lead with our Hearts there are no expectations there is only Eros.

The following article I am about to write is not gender specific and I am addressing anyone who desires a true healing to take place with their partner just for the sake of healing and not for any secret agendas.

There is no great mystery about the sacred rites of unconditional love but many are challenged if they did not taste that loving energy from their parents. We all suffer from small healthy doses of narcissism because if we did not we would not have that desire to remain here and survive or defend ourselves.

How do we learn to love selflessly when we did not receive that healthy, comforting womb of protection as children? I work with adults who either were showered with positive reinforcement as children or who were molested, neglected completely or raised without hugs and kisses.

When you never had that safety net as a child how can you approach you approach a potential lover with confidence? If you were never comforted by either of your parents as a child how will you know the right cues or how to make your partner feel safe and loved?

I have been traveling for 16 months and enjoying my stays in various cities but there is a common thread I see. I see so many men having problems breathing fully or having issues gazing into my eyes when I am teach tantra yoga.

I am currently visiting Virginia Beach, Virginia and I have met some super people here fully in touch with their male and female energies and excited to create a bond and be nurtured.

I am also meeting men who feel to me as if they are rediscovering their spiritual nature and trying to grasp what it feels like to be out of their body and connected to Source.

What is Source? When I try and become a vessel to receive energy from Source I see it as Universal flow that I can use anytime I wish when I am low on personal energy. I am eventually going to run out of energy if I go without rest or if I neglect my diet. Sometimes the men I work with do not know how to send energy to me and that’s okay because I am constantly connected to Source and by breathing deeply in and out I am constantly refueling my body and the cells of my body.

I only ask that when new guests arrive to see me that they let go of their need to be in control. Let me worry about coaching breathing techniques and let me be concerned with the time as it passes. When you worry about the minor things you are not there with me in Sacred Space.

Many men falsely believe that Goddess Worship ceremonies are about pleasuring the goddess only. Men get lost in their own needs and desires because they can be overwhelmed with anxiety or get too aroused to really focus on the woman they have right in front of them. When a man is truly desirous of a goddess worship he is going to need to learn humility and letting go of what he thinks he already knows about the female body so that he becomes a vessel of pure healing and good intentions.

When you are only focused on the carnal aspects of Goddess Worship you are shortchanging yourself because there is a certain energy and afterglow that comes with complete trust and that can only be achieved when you learn how to touch from a place of deep respect and integrity for your partner.

I welcome all new guests who have a natural curiousity to learn goddess worship here in Virginia Beach. You can connect with a woman better by believing in her, by listening to her without judgements and by touching her tenderly without any hidden agendas and motives.

Let me reteach you how to heal the goddess or help you learn more about being fully responsive when I work with your unique energies.