Disarm Her Player Assumptions

Players hurt women

Yes, the one-night stand is part of a Player’s life, but there’s a very good reason why he has few enemies, if any. First of all, he doesn’t target women looking for something serious for two reasons: 1- He doesn’t want the pain and aggravation (let’s face up to facts); and 2- He has no interest in causing pain and aggravation. There’s only so many times I can say that Players respect women, and eventually, the readers are going to be forced to believe it. Not all women are out at the bars and clubs looking for a husband, and the Player seeks like-minded companions. His roster of ladies is always expanding and despite the occasional falling out (they are inevitable, after all), he remains on good terms with all of them. When a Player enters a club and finds four women he’s been with in the past, he has no cause to hide — all four will probably be happy to see him. This wouldn’t happen if the Player simply treated a girl like a used condom after sleeping with her, now would it?

In the end, there’s a lot of mutual understanding going on between the Player and his chosen goddess for the night.

no holds barred

Far too many women associate nothing but negative traits with the Player, and while we all have our faults and limitations, many assumptions are entirely unfair. The preceding are the most common mistakes, but there are many others. Unfortunately, due to some less-than-worthy men who adopt the label of the “Player” without ever passing the licensing exam, women are led to believe such falsehoods. There is nothing overtly aggressive or offensive about the Player; he’s simply a ladies' man and a pickup artist — someone who is confident, capable and respectful. He loves the females, but above all else, he doesn’t covet them; he appreciates them. He wants to disarm her Player assumptions. Remember that, girls.