I am getting really discouraged! Like I have said, this is my third time on this site and nothing. Is it something about my profile men are not attracted to. I don'tlike sports. My passion is music. Is it because of this fact that I won't find someone? I don't get it. What is wrong with my profile? I am getting views, but hardly ANY messages. I don't get it.

I agree with the other posters that theres nothing wrong
with your profile; you seem to know yourself well and be honest in your
personal description. But, while we
should not be trying to market ourselves as someone we are not, from my
perspective you (and probably lots of other CM members!) could make a few
adjustments to give your profile more personality and interest, thereby
inviting comments and questions from gentlemen while still accurately
portraying who you are:

--You studied English, so youve probably heard many times
that showing is more compelling than telling. For example, your mention of the country
music festival is a great detail. What
is it that attracts you so much to music?
Since thats your passion, it might be cool to include a couple lines of
your favorite song lyrics. What do you
treasure about being Catholic? Do you
have a favorite quote or two from Scripture or a Saint or theological work that
captures your faith well?

--You describe your interests, but how would you describe
your personality? This is a place again
to show rather than tell. (For example,
to demonstrate that Im a cautious rule-abider, I mention casually in my
profile that I always use my turn signals :)

--Maybe add some captions to your photos. Whats a significant memory from when the
photo was taken?

--Remember that the first couple lines of your About Me
section are what appear next to your profile photo in some lists of search results,
so make that first sentence count.

And, of course, you do not necessarily need to wait for
gentlemen to contact you. I know many
ladies are less than comfortable with the idea of initiating contact, but a
simple emotigram with a kind greeting and question or comment about something
in the gentlemans profile or photos gives him the opportunity to review your
profile and respond in turn with more substantial conversation. Best wishes, Tara!