There should be a list you can put your name on - ask the greeter about this. Losing your closest friends and having a strained relationship with your father is more than a good enough reason.

William, are you in the process of converting (inquirer or catechumen)? If so, you will be prayed for when the Priest prepares the Lamb (Eucharist) before the service. If you will ask someone at your church, I'm sure they can show you and tell you more.

Conquer evil men by your gentle kindness, and make zealous men wonder at your goodness. Put the lover of legality to shame by your compassion. With the afflicted be afflicted in mind. Love all men, but keep distant from all men.—St. Isaac of Syria

North American Eastern Orthodox Parish Council Delegate for the Canonization of Saints Twin Towers and Pentagon, as well as the Propagation of the Doctrine of the Assumption of Malaysia Airlines Flight MH370 (NAEOPCDCSTTPPDAMAFM®).