The American author H Jackson Brown Jr once said “Don’t waste time waiting for inspiration. Begin, and inspiration will find you.”

Well that’s all very well. But if you are anything like me, the actual beginning part is actually really hard. Even when I sat down to write this blog . . . hmmmm maybe I will make myself a coffee before I start . . . now I’m making my coffee I should quickly clean the kitchen bench down . . .just noticed I’m almost out of cleaning spray so better add it to the shopping list, that wont take long . . .

And that’s indicative of a lot of things I do. Sure, all those things that distracted me are worthy of some sort of action. But they are all pebbles that should fit around the big rocks in my life – not the other way round. So I decided to research the subject of writer’s block. Is this common and what are the ways that people have found to overcome this phenomenon?

Wikipedia defines writers block as a condition, primarily associated with writing, in which an author loses the ability to produce new work or experiences a creative slowdown. The condition ranges in difficulty from coming up with original ideas to being unable to produce a work for years.

As far as I could find out, writers block isn’t a medical diagnosis in itself. But some may exhibit writers’ block type symptoms as part of mental illness - such as anxiety of depression for instance. And yes its common. Wikipedia lists authors F. Scott Fitzgerald and Joseph Mitchell, pop culture cartoonist Charles M. Schulz and British songwriter Adele as just some who have ben known to suffer from this affliction.

1. Get an hourglass

I read that Dan Brown keeps an hourglass on his desk - every hour he takes mini-breaks to do some exercise. Others make a plan at the beginning of the day with times for writing and times for doing other stuff. One tip that apparently works . . . don’t make writing the first thing on your plan; instead do the thing that is nagging most in your brain first (like paying a bill that’s overdue).

2. Write gobbledegook

The Artists Way is a book, and course, all about bring creativity back into the lives of artists (or anyone for that matter). One of the core exercises for three months is to write 3 pages every morning. And as soon as you put pen to paper you must write. Write about anything. Write that “I don’t know what to write” seven times. Its amazing how the power of just writing, about anything, lubricates your inspiration and creativity . . .

3. Dress for the occasion

Roald Dahl climbed into his sleeping bag to begin writing. It was the “uniform” he associated with his craft. Into the sleeping bag – its writing time . . .

Another approach, try dressing up. Like it’s a job where you are meeting and working with people. Would you go to a job like that in your sweat pants and hoodie? Put on some decent clothes, brush your hair, check yourself out in the mirror. Writing is something you are serious about, so dress up for the start of your writing time.

And another thing about electronics. Electromagnetic fields (EMFs) have been found to disrupt the natural energy flows in your body – affecting the nervous system and increasing stress. Insomnia, anxiety and depression have all ben linked to exposure to EMFs. Feng Shui thinking says leave electronics out of the bedroom. Now that isn't always easy with writing in this electronic age – just something to be aware of . . .

5. Quit

No not quit permanently. Quit the situation or the place for a while. Find a new and energising place to be creative. Go for a walk to clear the brain. Meditate or practice some yoga. The idea is to come back refreshed and renewed.

You have two choices to achieve your big audacious dreams. Plan, or not plan. Not planning means being mindful and aware of your goals. Acting and being in accordance with the important things you wrote in your mission statement. And that may work really well for some people - but if you are anything like me, you will stand the best chance of achieving your dreams if you plan for them.

Getting Started - How long's your timeframe?

Good planning involves thinking about both the longer term and the shorter term. But in my experience really long term planning rarely works. Have you ever seen a five year plan last five years? Things change and you therefore need to be flexible and adaptable in your planning . . .

I was talking a number of years ago to an international advertising agency about planning. Their use of of a "rolling" 9 month system really resonated with me. It works on the simple basis that you plan for the next 9 months - and then every three months your "refresh" and publish a new/amended 9 month plan. Believe it or not, a lot can happen in three months - particularly when you are embarking on a personal change programme. This system therefore allows you to constantly have a plan that is real, relevant and timely.

Getting your plan out of your head . . .

OK so once you have agreed your planning timeline, document your longer term goals (whether it be 9 months, a year or something else) based on your mission statement. So for instance if you have decided in your mission statement that you will be financially self-sufficient, then you may set yourself a goal that . . . by March next year I will have started my first business. You then need to think about what actions you need to take to reach this goal - what, when and how. So for example you might decide to carry out some research in August by talking to similar businesses, attend a marketing course in September, write a business plan in October, hook up with a business mentor in November etc etc.

The point is - you are tying together: a) your mission statement, b) your longer term goals and c) your shorter term actions. In other words - planning!

Three Great Free Online Planning Tools . . .There are some really amazing (and free) planning tools available on the web. Take look and spend some time before making your decision. Because once you choose one planning tool - its hard to change!

Remember the Milk

Remember the Milk is essentially a to-do list. Created in 2004 by a two-person Australian company. Now has 5 millions users.

Remember the Milk allows users to create multiple task lists. Added tasks can be edited (or not) to include various fields; locations can be added, and an integrated Google Maps feature allows users to save commonly used locations. Tasks can also be organised by tags. Users must pay a subscription to synchronise among multiple devices more than once a day. Remember the Milk offers integration with Microsoft Outlook, Gmail, and other services.

Lifetick​

Lifetick allows you to add and track multiple goals, build plans and steps for each one, and then look back on your progress over time to see how well you're doing . You can filter your goals based on the part of your life you want to work on, and review your progress in each individual area.

Todoist

Todoist is one of the more established sites which allows you to manage your planned tasks across a variety of devices. There is a free version or your can pay extra for more options.

You can create "projects" and then tasks and actions within those projects. For instance your project may be to be an inspiring parent - and within that project you may choose to take your son or daughter to places that make them them think about the world they live in - and then you may have subtasks of planning visits to an office of Greenpeace or an upcoming exhibition. You can also track your progress on a daily or weekly basis with Todoist Karma - you even get "points".

​I have been observing what it means to be happy for many years now. And one thing I have noticed of late is the veritable plethora of articles and blogs claiming the road to happiness, contentment, success (or whatever your goal may be) can be achieved through the application of “X” things or “Y” steps. X or Y equalling anything from three to one hundred.

​Incidentally for some reason a lot use the number seven which may come from its association as a lucky number in some cultures.

Actually there is one reason why we might be seeing so much more of this. Because apparently, according to a number of blogs about how to write good blogs (believe me there are a lot of these . . .) people more often click on titles that have a number in it.

Yes my title is provocative. “Ignore” probably isn’t the right word – what I am actually suggesting is you should ignore the “how” until you have understood the “what”. Another way of saying this is that to know where you are going in life you first need to know where you are right now.

​"Until you make the unconscious conscious, it will direct your life and you will call it fate" - Carl Jung

​Think of a time when something great happened to you. You won a prize, gave a speech for the first time in front of a room full of people, entered and competed in a running event. These are just examples – think of a time in your life when you underwent change for the positive.

My example was running a half marathon. I was reasonably unfit, had a sedentary job behind a computer and had never run more than about 5km in my life. So after talking to some friends (ok some beer was involved) I decided to enter myself into an upcoming race. It was in 8 weeks and involved running 21km. Gulp! I set myself a training schedule, roped a friend in to do it with me and lo and behold in 8 weeks time I crossed the finish line. Not a particularly stupendous time – definitely in the last 20% of the field.

But what an amazing feeling . . . In eight weeks time I had gone from being a pretty unfit person to being capable of running 21km without stopping (shuffling still counts as running in my book). And that was the ultimate buzz. The change I had undergone was dramatic. I remembered how I was and how unfit I felt. And most of all I remembered back 8 weeks ago to this person who had never contemplated doing a race like this and probably hadn’t imagined they were capable.

So it wasn’t really the run that made me feel so amazing. It was the difference in how I felt and the change I had undergone. And I could remember that because, hey, 8 weeks wasn’t that long ago. How I had been feeling and living my life back then became my yardstick – a way of gauging how far I had progressed and what changes I had made in my life.

And this is my challenge to you. Take time right now to stocktake your life and how you are living it. Your yardstick for the future new you . . .

"Observing yourself is the necessary starting point for any real change.” Chalmers Brothers

Here’s something that helped me do my own stocktake . . . The “me” board is like a vision board in reverse. Its meant to characterise your life and how you feel – right now.

Get hold of a big piece of card. A2 size is 42cm by 60 cm - or go bigger if you can.

Now get a pile of magazines and newspapers. It doesn't matter so much what they are, just make sure you have a good sample of different types.

The aim of this exercise is to build a poster which points to how you are feeling right now. It will suit those of you who are creative - or who just can't get their head around stats and questionnaires.

You need to cut out and paste pictures, words, headlines or art that talks to your present state of mind. Be intuitive - if something you see feels right about how you are - don't think, get cutting.

Remember this isn't about who you want to be (that comes later). This is about who you are NOW.

Author

Hi I'm Richard Norris. I live in Wellington, New Zealand, with my wife Jolanda.

After many years or working and observing human nature I decided to launch www.itsgoingtobegreat.org - all about happiness, mindfulness and feeling great. ​Much of the material is taken from everyday life experiences. My motivation is to give something back to a world that has given me so much - and the hope is that someone, somewhere reading this just might realise some of their dreams.