You could step out when he's smoking. My husband smokes a little bit and he always leaves the room. He always says he doesn't want our baby to come out retarded. But I don't really know how bad it is. Better safe than sorry.

Seriously, you know better than that. You shouldn't be visiting people who do drugs or smoke pot. Get away from that environment, it's not healthy for your baby or you for that matter. You deserve better than that. And if you just can't live without that friend and they feel the same way about you then they won't do drugs around you.

Personally, I feel second hand pot smoke is better than second hand cigarette smoke. At least the only chemicals in pot are natural and not arsenic and cyanide.

Best option, avoid it if you can but if you really want to visit your friend ask him to tone it down because you're preg. If he doesn't know you're preg and you dont yet want to tell, you can always need to use the bathroom or step out to make a call or some other random excuse when he lights up.

I don't think it is a big deal, honestly. And most stoners are pretty chill about stepping out or making accommodations for other people.

Whether or not I would go would depend entirely on whether I lived in a state that had lenient pot laws or not. If you are somewhere where possession for personal use is legal or no big deal that's one thing; if you live somewhere with draconian pot laws, that's a stupid risk to take.