The Emmy Award-winning actor and Cheers alum have three children together: Lucy, 28,Grace, 26, and Jacob, 24.

Previously known for having one of the longest relationships in Hollywood, in the 80s Perlman told People magazine that “ours is not a fighting relationship. We both always feel terrible after even a small amount of harsh words.”

The two met in 1970 when Perlman went to see a friend in The Shrinking Bride, an off-Broadway play that DeVito also starred in.