Haha this is somewhat of a strange question but I feel uncomfortable asking it to any of my Korean co-workers/friends and I don't feel that my foreigner friends would give me sufficient answers. There is this Korean girl that I met a couple months ago in order to do a language exchange and things have progressed to where she is definitely interested in me, I just need to make the move.

However, therein lies the problem. I know how Koreans are about kissing in public and she doesn't want to come to my apartment just yet so we need to have the kiss somewhere, but where? There are always people EVERYWHERE, so where can we go to where it would be a good private place for a kiss? A noraebang? That's the only place I can really think off, or a DVD room I guess.........

Most Koreans are not into public affection. A few younger ones are, but even a lot of younger ones will do little more than hug/hold hands in public. It's definitely not something you want to try without getting it in writing first.

Try a room/booth cafe. Different than a DVD room which can have some negative connotations to some people, the room/booth cafes tend to be more like Private booths with a little door. They often come with a little computer or whatever, you can hang out and make your move in privacy.

Check the cafe ahead of time though as some room cafes are more like DVD rooms than booth style.

Haha this is somewhat of a strange question but I feel uncomfortable asking it to any of my Korean co-workers/friends and I don't feel that my foreigner friends would give me sufficient answers. There is this Korean girl that I met a couple months ago in order to do a language exchange and things have progressed to where she is definitely interested in me, I just need to make the move.

However, therein lies the problem. I know how Koreans are about kissing in public and she doesn't want to come to my apartment just yet so we need to have the kiss somewhere, but where? There are always people EVERYWHERE, so where can we go to where it would be a good private place for a kiss? A noraebang? That's the only place I can really think off, or a DVD room I guess.........

Ha ha! That's rubbish. You can find thousands of quiet places if you leave Itaewon. Jeez...

Find a quiet corner in a park and if things are going smoothly then lean in and hope for the best. Don't do motels or DVD rooms...they have obvious implications for Korean women - it took me a while to figure out the DVD room thing.

Find a quiet corner in a park and if things are going smoothly then lean in and hope for the best. Don't do motels or DVD rooms...they have obvious implications for Korean women - it took me a while to figure out the DVD room thing.

Parks are good. I got my first little kissy on with my ex-gf in Olympic Park sitting on a bench overlooking the water at sunset. Other than the random ajumma walking the paths there was no one else around.

Haha this is somewhat of a strange question but I feel uncomfortable asking it to any of my Korean co-workers/friends and I don't feel that my foreigner friends would give me sufficient answers. There is this Korean girl that I met a couple months ago in order to do a language exchange a..... .

Language exchange a.k.a. a place for dudes with no game to pick up chicks

newb wrote:

Unibrow wrote:

Have you tried a motel? They are private and discreet.

+1

The dude hasn't even kissed her yet and you're suggesting to take her straight to a hotel

Anyways, the park idea is probably the best for getting that first kiss. Or just anywhere where you are sitting comfortably beside each other.

And for heavens sake when you final do kiss here at least put your hand on her hip to show her you're not a total pansy.

Haha this is somewhat of a strange question but I feel uncomfortable asking it to any of my Korean co-workers/friends and I don't feel that my foreigner friends would give me sufficient answers. There is this Korean girl that I met a couple months ago in order to do a language exchange a..... .

Language exchange a.k.a. a place for dudes with no game to pick up chicks