Re: The Attacker speaks! ;-) » judy1

Thx, Judy, I appreciate it very much. But you get past a certain point and it's easy. Ofv course I've been blessed with a non-shaming pdoc and a non-shaming therapist for a number of years--after going thru any number of Truly Awful docs. You want to say to them, I thought you were in the business of *helping* people. Anyway, I'm surprised to find actually graceful of spirit--most of the time-just as a result of their active listening, their total acceptance, their love.

Funny, tho, this is how I raised my kids--but one just cannot do it to oneself.

Haven't seen you for a while; hope everything's going well. Oh! The baby! Right? How exciting!