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Oh I don't know, happy as a pig in shit ring a bell? Ever done a bit of rimming? Dirty Sanchez? Cleveland Steamer? I hate to hijack my own thread but the topic of poo is very popular around the forums. And your post proves he who smelt it dealt it.

each of us who live and have sex find a way that satisfies our desires. what is hot to one person is completely disgusting to another.who are we to judge how a man or woman get off?I accept and appreciate all types of sexual practices.......well, let me take that back. I cant accept sex involving a child or an animal.outside of those boundries, who gives a shit.....oops maybe wrong word to use in this case.

I still don't understand the physical mechanics of this. Does the suckee put his member under the divider, and the sucker have to lower his face to near ground level (yuck) to get at it? I can't imagine there would be glory holes in an airport washroom.

I'm not judging, but just the smell in most public bathrooms, even clean ones, would render me limp in about 2 seconds.

each of us who live and have sex find a way that satisfies our desires. what is hot to one person is completely disgusting to another.who are we to judge how a man or woman get off?I accept and appreciate all types of sexual practices.......well, let me take that back. I cant accept sex involving a child or an animal.outside of those boundries, who gives a shit.....oops maybe wrong word to use in this case.

NO JUDGEMENTS PLEASE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

It's perfectly legitimate to judge public sex vs. private sex. I mean really -- where do you draw the line? Having sex on the equestrian statue in front of City Hall?

I still don't understand the physical mechanics of this. Does the suckee put his member under the divider, and the sucker have to lower his face to near ground level (yuck) to get at it? I can't imagine there would be glory holes in an airport washroom.

I'm not judging, but just the smell in most public bathrooms, even clean ones, would render me limp in about 2 seconds.

yes that is usually the way it works. thanks to msm, everyone now knows our dirty little secrets as to how we go about sucking dick in a public washroom.after the foot tapping and then the ever so innocent hand motioning, the sucker will generally get down and peer under the partition to find the suckee sitting on the toilet jerking it and then showing his wares to the sucker. if the sucker then deems the tool in question worthy of a bj, he will motion for the suckee to bring it on down. at this point, the suckee gets as close to the wall as possible and comes down to his knees and adjusts himself so his tool is under the wall and available to the sucker who gets on down and does his thing. a few minutes later, its all over and each is on his way....I dont get the (yuck) part of your question as, i would say, 95% of us here got infected by taking an erect penis in our rectums.....now to most of the population, nothing could be yuckier than that!! I dont partake much if at all in anal anymore because the thought of that actually sort of grosses me out. unless your partner took a major irrigation and is colonoscopy clean, its pretty nasty when you really think about it. but again, no judgements please.based on personal preference, id much rather be on a bathroom floor sucking dick than being a bottom boy.

re: glory holes in an airport bathroom, when the subway first opened at O'Hare, there was a bathroom at the end of the hall past the subway entrance that sported a glory hole so big you could actually crawl through it. same with the old denver airport.....near baggage pick up was a mens room with a huge glory hole that stayed for years up until they closed the airport. judging airports on the availability of bathroom sex, chicago led followed closely by denvers.as iggy mentioned before, most bathrooms that have the sex thing going on were seldom used for anything else. some find the smell of urine a manly turn on...me not so much, but it just came with the territory.

It's perfectly legitimate to judge public sex vs. private sex. I mean really -- where do you draw the line? Having sex on the equestrian statue in front of City Hall?

hhmmmmm you just gave me an idea!!!!! although not much into equestrian references during sex, that would be pretty hot.....

still have to respectfully disagree with you about sexual judgements of any sort. having a finger pointed at you because of the way you became infected has turned me off to judging any sort of activity.again, one persons idea of the perfect fuck is anothers idea of utter perversion.

Well, I was in the hospital once and my first husband came to visit me and we had sex in the bathroom. I'm not sure if a hospital room bathroom is considered public or private? I'm sure it didn't have the stench of a regular public restroom.

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hhmmmmm you just gave me an idea!!!!! although not much into equestrian references during sex, that would be pretty hot.....

still have to respectfully disagree with you about sexual judgements of any sort. having a finger pointed at you because of the way you became infected has turned me off to judging any sort of activity.again, one persons idea of the perfect fuck is anothers idea of utter perversion.

I don't judge what any two consenting adults do in a private space, and I think generally the majority of Americans do not actually either. I don't find trying to draw a dubious equivalency with sex in public in the least convincing, regardless of HIV.

last word from me.......regardless of where it is performed and by who, judgements of sexual activity (other than children or animals) is just so........conservative fundamentalist blah blah blah.......

last word from me.......regardless of where it is performed and by who, judgements of sexual activity (other than children or animals) is just so........conservative fundamentalist blah blah blah.......

This article says it all for me. What do you ladies of the stalls and backrooms and parks think? Or maybe some of our "straight" brethren can chime in?

Anonymous sexual encounters are sorta like drugs in my experience. I did enough of both for so many years that most discussions regarding either activity implying "judgments" will seem disingenuous if not hypocritical.

However, even when it seemed like I had few limits, I did have a few. I never injected heroin, for instance.

Boston had several TeaRooms (as public toilets where men sought sex were known in the 70s). The most infamous were at City Hall and in the basement of the main branch of the public library in Copley Square. The Fens and that part of The Esplanade closest to Beacon Hill (between the Hatch Shell and Charles Street) were basically one big open-roofed backroom, teeming with men after dark. I was well acquainted with these park areas and the fact that I could get anything I could have wanted there. But aside from a few brief tours accompanied by friends, never actually cruised those places looking for sex.

No medals, please...

I was, however, the darling of several porn theaters and a late-teen denizen of Boston's backrooms as well as a habituť of the Regency Baths in the financial district. These venues were certainly no cleaner than the men's room at City Hall, but they seemed somehow more appropriate to me (if not the Police Department which raided these places with regularity, except for the baths which were "private"). One of the first articles I ever wrote for The Spin Cycle discusses a place called South Station Cinema and the sorts of things one saw and did there.

I even coined a term I though unique: "Parisian Manicure", which is the inevitable accumulation of Santorum under one's cuticles. Matty tells me that the expression is known in Oz, which either means that gay slang travels around the world or that great minds really do think alike. "Parisian Manicures" are strictly an operational hazard of sex without the benefits of running water nearby.

These places were all swept away in response to AIDS in the early 80s (expect for The Fens, which had a fanatical following) in Boston. It wasn't until I moved to New York in 1988 that I saw that the traditions died harder elsewhere, and Paris in 1990 that I picked up where I'd left off ten years previously.

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By the way, I should clarify that I consider sex clubs and video peep show booths to be "private" as you have to pay to enter and you know what is going on there.

Agreed.

I am all for sex - by yourself, with someone, or with a group - and at times no holes barred sex is great. I have seen some pretty unusual things, not for me, but if someone wants to shove a stool leg up there ass that's fine and I certainly pass no judgement. However I think there are appropriate places and then there are inappropriate locations. I have no desire to walk into a public restroom and see a couple getting it on nor would I want my niece or nephew to have that experience.

I am certainly by no means being prudish because I have spent my fair share of time in the bushes and woods of parks, however that all ended after an encounter where the guy flashed something other than his dick at me. An experience I prefer to not have again.

Woods

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If there's one thing for which straight men envy gay men, aside from that fashion-sense stereotype, it's that we have institutions that promote no-strings sexual encounters, and that on nights when we haven't gotten lucky by last call, we can stop off at a sex club, a bar with a back room, a park or a public bathroom to find like-minded guys, usually at no charge beyond admission. So if you're a slut and all you want is a mouth on your dick, it might not matter to you whether that hole's wearing lipstick, a goatee or both.

sorry philly you misunderstood my post..... i am by no way calling you a CF.....not at all!!what i am saying is "in general" judging one by ones sexual actions is so CF.

I'm not judging your "sexual actions" just the location you seem to want to do such things. The same as I would do if the woman sitting next to me on an airplane started to yank at her labia lips with her pants down around her ankles.

I am certainly by no means being prudish because I have spent my fair share of time in the bushes and woods of parks, however that all ended after an encounter where the guy flashed something other than his dick at me. An experience I prefer to not have again.

Whoa, you are not getting off (tee hee) that easy Woodles, we want the details...all of them. With mugshot photo if available.

I am certainly by no means being prudish because I have spent my fair share of time in the bushes and woods of parks, however that all ended after an encounter where the guy flashed something other than his dick at me. An experience I prefer to not have again.

Whoa, you are not getting off (tee hee) that easy Woodles, we want the details...all of them. With mugshot photo if available.

Agreed, Woosdie...details, we want salacious details!

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I have never told this story but here goes. In late summer of 1983 I was out at Muse Park here in Jackson. This park is well known as a cruising spot here in West TN. Anyway, I was out there on a hot August afternoon & this good looking man pulled up & parked next to me. He got out of his car and walked out into the woods. I followed... When I caught up with him we kinda chit chatted for a minute. He was tugging on willy inside his pants. I thought it was an invitation to touch it, so I did. He slapped the handcuffs on me, took me to the police station. They arrested another guy the same day. The Jackson Sun ran an article about it on the front page. They listed our names & addresses. I was fired from my part time job at Parks Belk Department Store. I recieved several threatening phone calls at home so I moved to Memphis a few days later. I tried to get home to get the news paper before my parents read the story. I didn't make it in time, when I walked in the back door my Dad started reading the story out loud.

Whoa, you are not getting off (tee hee) that easy Woodles, we want the details...all of them. With mugshot photo if available.

Just for you Auntie D,

It was November of 1992, Chattahoochee park in the Vinings area of Atlanta. This nice looking guy was walking around the park. He walked back in the woods to the river and I followed. We were about 15 feet apart he stopped, started groping himself first, so I did the same, he kept groping but never pulled it out. Well I did then he opened his jacket to show a nice big badge. It is not entrapment I guess, but definitely he was enticing his prey. I learned never to make the first move. Funny it was my first visit there, knew I should have stayed at Piedmont Park that afternoon.....

Probably will regret posting this, but I don't plan to have a public life so no big deal,Woods

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i'm also kinda confused, though. on one hand, you seem to say that anyone who gets caught doing this gets what they deserve. on the other, you seem more than enthusiastic about it.

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hhmmm sort of lost on this one....dont recall saying anything about those who get caught deserve it... I think that anyone who is HYPOCRITICAL and gets caught deserves it and the attention focused on them. getting caught is sort of the rush that fuels the action. I wouldnt say 'enthusiastic', only relating experiences as so many here claim not to be aware of any such behavior.... anyhoo im pretty much done (buca says again) with this subject.

hhmmm sort of lost on this one....dont recall saying anything about those who get caught deserve it... I think that anyone who is HYPOCRITICAL and gets caught deserves it and the attention focused on them. getting caught is sort of the rush that fuels the action. I wouldnt say 'enthusiastic', only relating experiences as so many here claim not to be aware of any such behavior.... anyhoo im pretty much done (buca says again) with this subject.

i think i am referencing another post you made in one of the other shitter threads currently running, but i'll be damned if i care enough to go rummaging through all of your old posts to try to dredge it up, so have it your way.