Miller, 19, says in the new issue of Out, “I’m queer. I have a lot of really wonderful friends who are of very different sexes and genders. I am very much in love with no one in particular. I’ve been trying to figure out relationships, you know? I don’t know if it’s responsible for kids of my age to be so aggressively pursuing monogamous binds, because I don’t think we’re ready for them.”

“I’m just trying to make sure my lack of responsibility no longer hurts people,” he goes on to say. “That’s where I’m at in the boyfriend/girlfriend/zefriend type of question.”