I have never had the belt and think it is wrong to do that.
I would get a swat on the butt when I was little but they would still tell me what I did wrong and what to do or not do. When I was 7-12 my parents would sit down with me and tell my behavior wasn't acceptable or the right thing to do. They would try to help me see my wrongs or mistakes. There was always grounding or taking away TV time or friend time or something when I got into middle school and Jr high. I hope that you aren't "getting the belt".

I am gay and happy with that.
I love talking to people very open & willing to listen.
I am also glad to try help with questions or problems.
Hit me up for anything. I promise I don't bite.