Actually....

Me joining this group is inaccurate

As I never had believed in real love. I believe that romantic comedies were very much based on the premise to hold women into a trap in which they would lessen their chances and preoccupy themselves with searching for the mythical construct of 'the one', whilst then males would be enabled to move ahead in powerful jobs and roles (I used to be a feminist, believe it or not)

I believed you settled and you done with what you could. That a relationship was a balancing of odds and opportunties - who could fit in with this, live here or do this etc. And such decisions demanded thought.

Then I found real love. Not the love that I had fancied myself having before only to find that the tears didn't come with the separation and that if i had truly been in love, it would not take me a grand 3 hours to pick myself up again.

A love that enwrapped me, that I knew would survive, and a love that for once was being actioned with me, no doubt, no despair, complete faith, no feeling of being insuperior, of wondering of motives, knowing that it was organic, that it was mine, that my home was discovered not as a place but within a person.

I wish for all those who know there is more to life than what we are taught and see, to have the chance to gain the knowledge required for you to become free and all that u can be.
Religion and many people at power have used mind control and fear to manipulate us and keep us...

Well this is my update on I still believe in Real Love..it has finally happened to me loi and it feels good. Not only did I write about it I applied it as well. I did have some help from the book by Rhonda B. called The Secret a must read and if you do not like reading its...