Hair To - DIY Braided Bun And A Mini Vent

And as for a little venting, I actually missed linking up with Alyson yesterday because our littlest one has been battling a cold for the last few days so instead of writing a post I took a trip to the pediatrician's office - luckily all is fine. But it brings up an important topic, obviously most of you know I'm a mom of two, so the topic of "how do you do it?" comes up a lot. Obviously I've gotten emails about how I probably don't actually wear what I post, which is funny because I don't know why I'd bother getting dressed in the first place if I only wore things for pictures, it's a waste of time and make up, something I don't have a lot of (the time..)

When it comes to getting dressed, I spend most of the time standing in my closet deciding on what the heck to wear, I'm the first to admit I don't always dress appropriately for the occasion (I'm a over dresser, which is better than under, never know who you're going to run into). But it takes time on most days, make up is quick but getting out of the house is a hot mess, aside from me I have to get two little people dressed (and on somedays my husband) just to go to the damn grocery store or for whatever errands we have scheduled. I swear it would be easier to just not go, but I guess we would starve and I like to eat too much. So we go, yes I wear heels, just like I said throughout my pregnancy they're just more comfortable than flats.

If I have to run around with the boys I'll throw on wedges that keep me steady, and wear something I don't mind getting roughed up, because these two fellas are all boy and love all things dirt, mud and chaos. It all comes down to planning with making the 'stylish mom thing' work, I've never been able to see how people have told me "oh just wait until you have two you'll definitely be in sweats and tennis shoes" (they said that about one too). So I waited around and we have two, still not in sweats and tennis shoes (I actually only own one pair and they live in my trunk, and were worn 3+ yrs ago). I understand that a lot of people aren't dictated by fashion, I mean gosh, I wasn't until I was ending high school and decided that if I was going to a fashion designer I better get my act together - so I did, and it's still ever changing. To me It's all about finding your self and being creative with clothing and accessories, while having fun and not taking it too seriously. That's what it's about right? And well, feeling (& looking) fabulous.

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27 comments:

Yes, it's all about feeling and looking fabulous. There are so many simple ways to do it. I know many mothers who are stylish, and I feel that just because you have children (though, I do not) it doesn't mean that being stylish has to be non-existent. You have great style ... I love the video as well! -xx

I really appreciate this post - the hubs and I are planning on a family one day soon and it's one of my biggest fears - since I love clothes and creating the perfect outfit so much, all the things you hear make you think it's impossible to be a mother and still keep yourself together. It's nice to hear that it's not impossible to do! Thanks for sharing this - I never for a minute thought you didn't wear your outfits!! That would just be crazy!

Very well said and I completely agree with you - as moms we don't have time to get all dolled up "just to take pictures". The only reason why I'm able to keep up with the blog is because we've found a way to work it into everyday life without it being too intteruptive. Love your honesty! :)

Well, firstly, wonderful tutorial! I can't wait until my hair is long enough to try this. Since my hair's so fine, I need lots of it to pull off this look. Just a few more years to go! lol

Secondly, people are idiots. There, I said it. Not all of them, of course, but I'd venture to say most. :) Especially on the internet. It's easy to say things you'd never dream of uttering to someone's face when hiding behind the anonymity provided by a computer (I think it's along the same lines as why I don't see many people picking their noses in public, but when they're in their cars, they go digging for gold. Still don't really understand that since they're surrounded by clear glass, but whatever). I think you look freaking amazing, and you have 844 other readers (on gfc alone) who agree with me.I wish I could rock heels as often as you do!

Oohhhhhhh perfect Megan! I get those kinds of comments too - sometimes they are genuine, and sometimes they are backhanded. And everything you said is exactly right. I am often the overdressed one (if wearing a dress that is more comfy than any tee and jeans combo is 'overdressed' then yeah, I'm guilty). I do take pride in what I wear and how I look!

I think you do it all very well! My own style is a bit more classic, less edgy than yours, but I still like to think I at least try to look cute, even on days when my kids are sick or on the weekends, when I'm just running errands with them, instead of going to the office. Like you said, it takes time, but as a mom, you make time for it if it's important!

I totally agree with you! I didn't know you were a mom of two until now and I'm amazed really. I hope when I get there I'll be like you too and I guess I will. I'm like you, a bit of a over dresser, but it's like you said you never know who you're gonna run into, but that's not it, I dress for myself, because it makes me feel good and more confident and because I have fun with it and that's what it's all about :)Love your hair tutorial by the way, I have short hair so I can't do it but it looks great.

Love this! You always look so fantastic, and I love that your a fashionable mom that actually wears what she posts, rather than set up a photo shoot. You know I love you! Don't ever change :)xxLia Smart n Snazzy

I agree... I go shopping in my heels, and always try my best to look nice because when I look great, I feel fantastic!

Now, I'm not a mother, but I've always felt that in American culture, when a woman becomes a mother, that becomes her primary identity. As if her only worth to society is of how good of a mother she is. My family is Dutch, and I was taught that a woman does not stop "being a woman" after having children. (This is worded odd, but I don't really know how else to say it. Maybe I should say that their is no term for MILF in Dutch because the they believe that there is absolutely no reason why a woman would suddenly become less attractive/less feminine for having children).

People should not be surprised to see a sexy, put-together mother of two. They should not be surprised that you take the time to pamper and treat yourself. Being a mother is a wonderful, amazing thing, but you are not JUST a mother. You're a woman too.

It's funny how so many people seem to think if they don't do it, no one else should. I live in the Midwest, so anything other than a tee, jeans and sneakers is LITERALLY some radical, earth-shattering event. Awkward. But yeah, it should be what YOU want, not what the majority has apparently deemed "appropriate," whatever that means. I do not get why it's so common to look down on someone just because they like fashion. I'm sure if I cared enough to judge, I'd find their half-assed ensemble just as offensive as they apparently find mine, yet you don't see me giving looks or making comments.

Agree with you about being overdressed than under!! And balancing the fabulous outfit with kid proof(read wrinkles, stains and lot of pulling)outfit is the trick! I am learning as I go:-) BTW loved the textured bun! Good tutorial! And no, I don't mind you speak fast:-) Love the mustard top!! Hope you are having a wonderful day!-JyotiStyle-Delights Blog

Second, ugh! Really?! REALLY?! What's so wrong with wanting to look and feel good about yourself -- even if you're a mom of boys. People say the same thing to me at times. And some even think that I don't play with Aiden because I have nice clothing on. HUH?! I like to look good. And I LOVE to spend time with my son. Like yours, he's ALL boy and he loves all things dirt and chaos. I, on the other hand, am ALL girl. And that's quite alright.

I never once thought that you got dressed JUST to take photos! I can't believe people sometimes...

Love this video! Definitely a great take on the top knot! Wish my hair (and layers) were long enough to try it this summer! And if I am ever a mom, I hope I don't go to sweat pants and tennis shoes! Props to you for pulling off being so stylish and beautiful and being a mother of two!

Wow! I can't believe what people say to blogger sometimes. Your style, while super fabulous, doesn't seem out of reach for a mom. It isn't like you are running around in pencil skirts and stilettos. Your outfits flow and move, your shoes, while high are pretty sturdy looking and in every outfit your boho glam style comes through. I always love seeing what you wear. Keep it up, girl! If I could still wear heels regularly without them killing my feet, I totally would! ;)