Today, my boyfriend of a year dumped me. In my opinion, the relationship was going so well and I really thought we loved each other. When I asked why, he told me he never loved me. He just wanted to get in my pants which after a year of refusing, he finally did. FML

@mitch707 - Well why wouldn't she think that? If a guy sticks it out for that long it usually means that they're in it for more than sex, because most guys would not wait that long if that's ALL they were interested in.
Though I do agree that she might've been able to tell if that's all he cared about, but you never know, he might've been very good at hiding it 'cause he knew she wouldn't have sex with him unless she thought there was something in the relationship.

You have friends? Alice, Peter, and Shilo hanging out with you in imaginationland don't count as friends you uptight, conservative prude. I'm not advocating whoring yourself around town; but seriously, casual sex isn't to be scorned. It's fuckin 2010, wake up pussy.

I'm going to have to agree with dobbypop. who cares if she wanted to wait? you all are a bunch of lowlife sick fucks for bitching out the OP for not having sex. not everyone wants to have sex and a relationship can still be healthy for couples who prefer to wait. congratulations that your dick is bigger than your brain

@Joey7361 - because it's not all about sex? I know that might be a difficult concept for you to grasp, but there are other things. I'm not saying it's not a factor, but it's nowhere near everything to a relationship. This is why communication was invented, so that you can tell how well it's going.

Well I guess it depends on what we are calling communication, I was using it to refer to a common language, and that was therefore invented.
If you're using it to include all kinds of things like nods, pointing, gesturing etc then yes, you're right and it's more of an ingrained thing.

you guys are fucking distaceful jesus, u guys are judging a girl because she let him in her pants, it was a year most people dont even wait past the first month for sex, she said the relationship was going well she trusted her and he took advantage, and u guys are calling her whore for waiting, i like to point out no one in this comment section doesnt call out the guy no insults torwards this guy but the girl gets all the shit for, this just shows the sexism of todays society.

I get the ugly bit, but why would being poor have an effect on your sex life? Have you ever seen Maury, Jerry Springer or similar shows? Most of their guests don't have a dollar to their name and yet seem to have some of the richest sex lives in America.