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Yeah. If we both like her, why should I stop myself from dating her so that he could date her? I've been in this situation a couple of times and it never turned out in a fight between us, it was like "well, she likes you, so you go out with her".I've been both the guy that date her, and the guy that got nothing. If you get nothing it kinda sucks, but you're not gonna stop your friend from being happy just because you can't be, it's selfish.

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In the past I've respected my friend's interests and avoided intervening, and as a result I ended up going "lefty" on many nights to help cope with the loneliness.

Now I'm currently not involved in such a situation, but in the future I won't hesitate to go for what I want. After all, none of the friends who I "cared for" are actually still my friends to this day.

In the end, go for what you want. Especially when you're young. When you go through life, people come and go based on where your life path leads. Cherish the journey and don't think so much about the end game, especially if the benefit is love.

It depends. If she didn't really know him and had a minor crush on him then yeah I might. But if it was a guy she seriously liked I couldn't do that. I wouldn't want one of my friends to date a guy I liked that much.

Well, here's the thing, she met him a few days earlier then invited me to go meet up with them too so she didn't feel as awkward, while we were there, he showed interest in me instead, The next day we all hung out at my house and he showed interest in me again. We actually kissed XD later that night we went to the movies, and him and I moved away from the rest of our friends cause I didn't like being so close to the screen, and wanted to sit further back, so we were sitting separated from everyone else?

oh don't do it... I mean how long have you been friends with this person because friendship comes before everything for me personally and are you ready to put that in jeopardy because you like some guy I mean who like the first how cool are you with your friends because maybe she be cool with it and tell you to send her pictures of his abs after you get them so it might turn out good am I to know bet it depends