DS is very hard to fit so we just go with pfs and some fitteds (for quick middle of the night changes). DH hates "stufferoos" so pockets are out and PUL makes our sweaty furnace baby too hot. Nobody else changes DS - well except my mother, but she has her own stash of sposies at her house.

We use mostly prefolds. We have a few pretty fitteds for fun and some AIOs for the diaper bag. DH uses the fitteds or AIOs when he changes her though. I hate pockets (though I would love to try a Marathon for the trim-ness if I could ever get one). I hate fishing the insert out and I like using mostly natural fibers against her skin.

i use all pfs during the day and some outings. I take my BG AIO if we're gonna be gone awhile or if someone else may be changing her. I use different things at night...sometimes pfs, BG pockets or happy hempy fitteds.

Sometimes i 'think' i miss using pockets or AIOs all the time but i really don't. Prefolds fit my dd perfect! And I just see no reason to use a fancy pricey diaper when your at home. I do hate bulk though. I've never used pfs on a small baby before so if they were bulky i couldnt' do it. But on my 2yo dd they are super duper trim and perfect for us

oh and my fave non wool/fleece cover for under clothes is the dappi nylon pullon covers. They are so trim and smooth under clothes