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So, I just read a response to a question that included something about menopause onset by tubal ligation... How often does this happen? Anyone? And would you/have you had your tubes tied, & if so, do you regret it? How/what has it changed in your life?

I'm a 23yr.old Mom of three with one on the way, & two of my children (5yr.old twin boys) are autistic, meaning they require alot of attention & assistance. I also have a 1yr.old daughter, who is developing typically, yet also requires alot of help & attention, being the baby & only girl (new baby's a boy). I just dont think it would be fair or sensible to have anymore... Ever. Any other sure-fire alternatives to not procreating...?!

I had a tubal 7 years ago and have no problems. I was scheduled for one 18 years ago but couldn't do it and had 3 more kids ... You know in your heart when you are ready. Vasectomy is always an option!

Nothing is without risk. So you need to research what is going to be best for you. As far as the tubal and menopause, I always heard that after having a tubal you were at increase of having to have a hysterectomy. There are studies that show that men that have a vasectomy are at increased risk of getting prostate cancer. I didn't find anything linking tubal ligation and hysterectomy or cancer. You can also try Essure but, it hasn't been out long so, I am not sure if I would trust it. Anytime you stop the normal function of the human body, there will be side effects.

I got my tubes tied after I had our 5th child. My periods were terrible and then I ended up having an ectopic pregnancy in '10. Now I may have to have a hysterecomy, because I have endometriosis and cysts on my ovaries. The whole situation pisses me off, because my DH was suppose to get a vasectomy before he got out of the navy and never did.