Best Dating (not sex) app or website....

Does anyone have any reccomendations? It's really tough for me, for whatever reason to meet guys here in NYC -- I have an account on Scruff, but it still is very sex oriented. I've never met anyone on OKCupid I thought was legit attractive. Anyways, any help would be much appreciated -- and don't say RealJock haha because I've tried that and most guys I hit it off with....live across the country (here's looking at you SpiritReaver and OhFitness)

lol...Dating apps are the worst.IMO you should just go out and meet people in bars or maybe clubs but take my advice lightly im only 19 years old and i have never dated or had sex with a guy before lol

LoveAndPeace saidlol...Dating apps are the worst.IMO you should just go out and meet people in bars or maybe clubs but take my advice lightly im only 19 years old and i have never dated or had sex with a guy before lol

You really think that gay men are more likely to date at a bar or a club than Grindr?

LoveAndPeace saidlol...Dating apps are the worst.IMO you should just go out and meet people in bars or maybe clubs but take my advice lightly im only 19 years old and i have never dated or had sex with a guy before lol

You really think that gay men are more likely to date at a bar or a club than Grindr?

Please, elaborate as to why...

LOL when I go out to bars/clubs, which is not often, I recognize most of the guys from online

SOO no different, you just see them in person I guess and they can't block you

LoveAndPeace saidlol...Dating apps are the worst.IMO you should just go out and meet people in bars or maybe clubs but take my advice lightly im only 19 years old and i have never dated or had sex with a guy before lol

You really think that gay men are more likely to date at a bar or a club than Grindr?

Please, elaborate as to why...

LOL when I go out to bars/clubs, which is not often, I recognize most of the guys from online

SOO no different, you just see them in person I guess and they can't block you

on every dating site u go on, 90% of the users will be looking for hookups, or at least open to it. Its impossible to separate the sex from a gay dating site, for the simple reason that we are all guys lol