Sunday, February 17, 2013

Are You that "IT GIRL"???

Tell Em Why You Mad Son?!?

It kills me when I meet a woman of a particular age and they seem to be completely out of touch and oblivious to the idea's consistent with modern privileged womanhood. Its no fault of the woman, in my opinion I completely place the blame on the immature, talentless, classless, tasteless, unambitious, unmotivated guys that have been forcibly holding her hostage occupying her time and making it difficult for guys of my caliber to introduce her to "The Life".

Lets rewind though!!! See, me??? I haven't always been this braggadocios, stunning, ruggedly dashing, rakishly handsome trendsetting taste maker (#Boss) that you see before you and follow on various social networks (thanks again for the support...it doesn't go unnoticed). Believe it or not I too started as a blank, shapeless, un-molded lump of clay template and had to work myself into the (Insert any arrogant descriptive adjective here) and now that I'm able to claim to be the un-proclaimed "IT GUY"(Excuse the pretentious tangents that I keep venturing off on....there is a point to this blog post I promise lmao!!!) I am comfortable with elevating my standards and seeking more status appropriate partners. However quite often outside of the New York City (and I mean Manhattan), Miami (and I mean South Beach) and L.A. ( and I really mean L.A.) Hot beds quality females are slim pickings for a fellow such as myself. Occasionally you meet someone....yeah someone in one of those off areas/cities who either meets/exceeds your predetermined, unrealistic preferences or redefines them altogether. Then there are those who simply have the potential to be that "IT GIRL" and you can't put the proverbial finger on why they aren't "IT" at this point in their life already. Here lies the dilemma my friends!!!

Now do you...

A: CURVE HER???Walk away & conclude that if it were meant to be she would already be where she needed to be in life

OR

B: OWN IT???Find a Proprietary Interest in developing that person into a better more successful, desirable person

If it happens to be one of those life changing moments where "B" seems like the only answer your stupid uncontrollable emotions deems acceptable then what do you do??? The countless Guy(s) before you have already done irreparable damage and because you share the same gender you have to now be responsible for and somehow repair it. Now this is no easy feat this is a long winding treacherous road full of pitfalls and uncertainty that only the most experienced, tenacious individuals are able to triumph. Insecurity is a trait that most woman exhibit at some point or another in some degree and it is usually the beginning of the end...a destroyer of worlds!!! Not the Typical "baby does this dress make me look fat?!?" (there isn't any good way to answer that by the way) but the perpetual reoccurring accusations I.E. "Well go f**k one of your other girls then". This kind of behavior would have you think that she is stuck in the "He has to be too good to be true" mind state all this is because of that one dude before you who struck gold and didn't know how to invest the money!!! He cheated on her, made her feel worthless and didn't bring anything constructive or positive to the table. That is nothing short of emotional terrorism and most guys have been on the giving end of it at some point. Men lack that emotion gene and therefore can't recognize complex emotions let alone realize when they are inflicting damage to them. On a more basic level that men can usually understand...a level that is suppose to be innately apart of our daily thought process and our manly value system and its simple....PROVIDE! On any and every level possible. "Mama said you aren't a man if you can't provide" - Fabolous. One of my favorite lines because all though making sure your lady is fly, and enjoying the life style she deserves is just the surface of that idea. Security is the underlining concept that dudes almost always miss!!! (Get a clue my G)

And that's where my argument comes in.....if you can't provide the little things you can't provide the big things and therefor aren't improving the quality of life for them. So when a dude like myself (@taislumz) comes along and I want to treat them like special women they are and introduce them to a taste of the good life they either don't know that's what I'm about because its something they aren't accustom to or they chalked up as "He talks some good game" and that's sad. So in conclusion don't hate on the kid my nigga or the "IT GUY" become the "IT GUY"

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