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Re: Boyfriends and Girlfriends and Non-Specific Genderfriends

I currently am engaged to my male mate who is also a fur, and we are in a poly relationship with a female that is a neko... My mate and I have been together RL for 2 years now after a year online, and I moved cross country to be with him.

Originally Posted by Black Dragon

Me, my last GF was killed in a car crash 2 days before i was going to propose to her. Everyday i think of her. I keep her favorite good luck charm in my car. i know i should move on, but i have a fear of rejection now. And i feel like i am cheating on her.

I joined the furry community recently, and i feel that she would accept what i am now.

Been ... 4 years now, all single. been a long 4 years. I need to see some new people! hahahaha

Ugh... I've had a nightmares involving that... I drive a sportscar RL so every one I have is of my car rolling with my mate in the passenger seat. I am very sorry to hear that is the worst thing I can literally imagine happening...

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Re: Boyfriends and Girlfriends and Non-Specific Genderfriends

Originally Posted by Ozriel

You and me both, Brother. :V

Actually, I wish my boyfriend was more into the furry community. He's accepting of it, seeing as he's the one who introduced me to it, but he's not really interested in it beyond porn. So he just kinda snorts at me for being stupid whenever I talk about doing 'furry-like' things. I was lucky for a while because our roommate a few months ago was totally a closet furry. He had a wicked fursuit that he said he built as a 'halloween' custome, but would were randomly for no reason. And he wore a fox-hat ALL DAY EVERY DAY. And he would talk all the time about how he was totally a fox. And I was like...dude, you're a furry.

Re: Boyfriends and Girlfriends and Non-Specific Genderfriends

@Ozriel - My ex started cheating on me five days before we got together. I don't even know how that works :V

@Xanderous - Neh... you've not experienced the furfag side of furries. :V My ex thinks he's a demon and literally rps all the time, and his boytoy thinks he has three personalities. Both of them believe that they are fursecuted 24/7

Re: Boyfriends and Girlfriends and Non-Specific Genderfriends

Please make a strong independent black woman post so I can this it. Please?

Bite me.

Originally Posted by Sand

@Ozriel - My ex started cheating on me five days before we got together. I don't even know how that works :V

Sounds like he was cheating on him with you.

Originally Posted by Xanderous

Actually, I wish my boyfriend was more into the furry community. He's accepting of it, seeing as he's the one who introduced me to it, but he's not really interested in it beyond porn. So he just kinda snorts at me for being stupid whenever I talk about doing 'furry-like' things. I was lucky for a while because our roommate a few months ago was totally a closet furry. He had a wicked fursuit that he said he built as a 'halloween' custome, but would were randomly for no reason. And he wore a fox-hat ALL DAY EVERY DAY. And he would talk all the time about how he was totally a fox. And I was like...dude, you're a furry.

My last ex was converted into furrydom by a friend and I. What happened 3 years later was due to an anatomically incorrect Home-wrecker.
It was nice that I was in a relationship with someone with a hobby we shared in common.

Last edited by Ozriel; 06-08-2012 at 07:21 PM.

Originally Posted by Crusader Mike

Asking furries to stop being dumb is like asking China to respect human rights.

Originally Posted by Toshabi

Excuse me you run of the mill Deathknight? My mouth is simply the best! It's BEAUTIFUL! 4 out of 5 furries said they'd like to stick THEIR DICK into MY MOUTH!

Re: Boyfriends and Girlfriends and Non-Specific Genderfriends

Originally Posted by Sand

@Ozriel - My ex started cheating on me five days before we got together. I don't even know how that works :V

@Xanderous - Neh... you've not experienced the furfag side of furries. :V My ex thinks he's a demon and literally rps all the time, and his boytoy thinks he has three personalities. Both of them believe that they are fursecuted 24/7

Oh god, that sounds...horrifying. No, I could never date someone that's that deep into the rabbit hole. Though I love roleplaying; it used to be my passion for a long-time. It's how I met my first long-term boyfriend. And...what is fursecuted?

Originally Posted by Zoetrope

I have a boyfriend, it has lasted... 4 years? My one before that was 5 years. I never seem to be out of a relationship. This may sound crazy to some folks, but I would love to be single for awhile. :S

That's impossible for me to understand, lol. I'm a serial monogamer. Or...not really monogamous, since 2/3 of my LTR's have been open. But still, serious relationships and whatnot. I feed off of them like a vampire. Have you ever thought about being all...I'm on a break now?

Originally Posted by Ozriel

My last ex was converted into furrydom by a friend and I. What happened 3 years later was due to an anatomically incorrect Home-wrecker.
It was nice that I was in a relationship with someone with a hobby we shared in common.

Yeah, that's what I'd really like, I think. I just wish my bf and I had something to do together. Like, we have similar personalities but totally different interests. I'm active and like being outdoors and jumping off tall rocks and stuff, and he'd rather stay inside and do science stuff. Also...anatomically incorrect? Lol.

Re: Boyfriends and Girlfriends and Non-Specific Genderfriends

@Xanderous
Hahaha... yeah, our first conversation together should have been a hint (we met on the internet): I was talking with my friend about my friend who passed away and he said "at least he didn't die in your arms. My friend was literally ripped to shreds. His last words were "I have always loved you and always will"". Yeahhhhhhhh... I shoulda figured that he was nuts much sooner :V

Re: Boyfriends and Girlfriends and Non-Specific Genderfriends

Originally Posted by Xanderous

Yeah, that's what I'd really like, I think. I just wish my bf and I had something to do together. Like, we have similar personalities but totally different interests. I'm active and like being outdoors and jumping off tall rocks and stuff, and he'd rather stay inside and do science stuff. Also...anatomically incorrect? Lol.

Titties 3 times bigger than her head.

Also, you can try to mix your interests. Do some science stuff outdoors...you know. Experiment.
Just do not re-create Ben Franklin's experiment.

Originally Posted by Crusader Mike

Asking furries to stop being dumb is like asking China to respect human rights.

Originally Posted by Toshabi

Excuse me you run of the mill Deathknight? My mouth is simply the best! It's BEAUTIFUL! 4 out of 5 furries said they'd like to stick THEIR DICK into MY MOUTH!

Re: Boyfriends and Girlfriends and Non-Specific Genderfriends

Fiance and I have been together for like 5 years, and living together for like 4.
He hates the fandom, its art, and shit like fursuiting and other stereotypically furry things.
He found out I was one because of my art, and the fact that I like to wear ears and a tail for the fuck of it, sometimes.
He teases me about it, but really doesn't give a shit. I think it's just because I don't make a big deal out of it. I'm not trying to "convert him," or treat it like some kind of supar speshul club I'm in, or any kind of lifestyle, so it's not shoved down his throat.
He wouldn't break up with me over that, either way, unless I was a dogfucker or something.

I'm taking a break from FAF, because of personal conflicts.

But it's okay, because you can still hit me up on Weasyl,
or on their forums.

Re: Boyfriends and Girlfriends and Non-Specific Genderfriends

Originally Posted by Vaelarsa

He teases me about it, but really doesn't give a shit. I think it's just because I don't make a big deal out of it. I'm not trying to "convert him" or treat it like some kind of supar speshul club I'm in, or any kind of lifestyle, so it's not shoved down his throat.

Re: Boyfriends and Girlfriends and Non-Specific Genderfriends

I don't think my ex was a furry, it didn't seem so. Never told or asked him about it because I was barely involved with it back then, not that I was really afraid to tell, though (I don't think he would've minded). We had been together for about a year...then he lost interest in me god knows why. Beforehand there was some guy that had a crush on me I barely knew and was too far away, so I didn't bother.

Now I have two guys who have a crush on me, one isn't a furry and the other is well..kind of but he doesn't seem so sure about it, maybe he doesn't think he's involved enough to associate with it. Although I don't take much interest in him because I feel his personality in real life would be too different to mine, neither do I feel attracted to him.

Disclaimer: Yes these have pretty much been distant relationships, I had met up with my ex once but it was actually nice.

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I wish people would stop using the term "girlfriend" to refer to a non-lesbian platonic friend of a woman. To me a girlfriend is either a woman who loves a man or who loves a lesbian... or is not. "Boyfriends" are only referred to in the romantic sense by either the women they love or their gay male lovers, why can't "girlfriend" be used in the same context? It is so confusing.

Re: Boyfriends and Girlfriends and Non-Specific Genderfriends

Im single ATM, I'm trying to put myself out there but small town campy gays are just not cutting it and I'm pretty nervous about going to gay clubs/bars and whatnot. Asking guys to go out is just too awkward.
I dated a furry for a few months, didn't work as planned. Long distance is just to unbearable really. I might date another eventually, not really a priority. I'm pretty up front about it I DJ under the name "FauxFox" I have a set of fox jewelry, my keys are on a tail. Its hard to overlook and its a part of who I am. I just want someone who understands that.