Scene Boys & Headbands?!?

Ok so, i'm all for people expressing themselves, i get it. I personally love it and do it all the time. And in my epic style journies, i've found that scene chopped hair and headbands is extremely compatible. I wear slim headbands almost every time i go out. It helps with keeping your bangs in place and makes your makeup pop out more. It also just is a cute little accessory. But what i just can't seem to understand is when MEN, or "scene boys" wear little girly headbands. Out of every style or thing a boy uses to express himself, this one is the only that kind of freaks me out. I don't want my boyfriend to steal my headbands. And maybe i don't really get it or like it because i have ever had a boyfriend that does that. But i HAVE hada boyfriend do that AFTER dating me. I know this kid, and he likes to remain manly. Now, i may be mistaken, but GIRLS HEADBANDS are not manly, at all! So if someone can enlighten me when guys do it. Please do. Don't be rude, just give me your opinion.

NOTE: if you are a boy reading this, please don't be offended if you wear headbands, i'll still find you sexy as ever, i just dont get it (;