Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

30 September 2011 (F)
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Hi people here is my problem I met a man at the beginning of the year who I really liked I thought he felt the same but he just wanted a fwb sort of thing so as I liked him that much I hoped it would turn into something more so that was that anyway last week he asked me if I ...
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30 September 2011 (F)
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30-35 -
My babies daddy lied to me about being in a relationship with someone else. Then we slept together. When I found out about her, he still denied he was in a relationship until she told me directly. Now our whole friendship is shattered, he can't even speak to me when he picks ...
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30 September 2011 (F)
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Dear Cupid, I'm an average sized 15 yr. old girl- 5'6", 130lbs, ect.. and I model on the side. But guys at my school have never showed interest in me. I'm outgoing and athletic and generally easy to get along with, but they find me unattractive! My brother is 18 and is always...
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30 September 2011 (F)
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26-29 -
I'm engaged to a guy that couldn't possibly make me any happier... except when it comes to the bedroom. It seems that my libido is much higher than his, despite the fact that he's only three years older than me.It seems unfair on both ends since I'm constantly dealing with a ...
(143 words)

30 September 2011 (?)
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22-25 -
Hey, Okay, I've had a thing with this guy for a year and a half, he still was in love with his ex so we decided to wait. Finally, he asked me to be his girlfriend again, I said no be because he was going to college soon. Also, I'm not good enough for him and I didn't want him...
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30 September 2011 (F)
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26-29 -
How can I keep my man satisfied in our relationship? Including all factors. How could I make him want to marry me? ladies or fellas, thanks in advance! :-)...
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30 September 2011 (F)
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22-25 -
im rlly feeling bad ... i just broke up with my boyfriend ..i loved him to death but i think he cheated ... our relation was within distance ...and one day we were talking on msn and i told him im going out with friends ..he agreed and he asked me to ask friends for something ...
(457 words)

30 September 2011 (F)
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41-50 -
My husband and I walked in on my 17 year old son performing oral sex on his girl friend who is 16. My husband and I disagree on what we should do. I think that we should call her parents and tell them what happened. My husband on the other hand said I should forget about it. We ...
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30 September 2011 (M)
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30-35 -
I'm a indian one and my GF is a sri lankan girl. We are planing 2 have sex next week but my GF is sooooo shy. She is told she is shy to be naked in front of me. She is a sri lankan and because of her cluture she haven't even were a bikini. I don't know how to make her ...
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30 September 2011 (F)
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26-29 -
What do you think, I want to send my ex boyfriend this email..please help.? i want to send my ex boyfriend this email. broken up for 6 months and he has been playing with my head. telling me he loves me and coming to me when hes lonely. should i send this? is it good? ...
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30 September 2011 (F)
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30-35 -
I met this guy in June and we started seeing each other until he dumped me through email in August. In his email, he said that he was leaving the country to rekindle things with his ex-girlfriend. I didn't reply to his email because I was very disappointed. After we broke...
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30 September 2011 (F)
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30-35 -
Hi. I'm 27, I've been with my boyfriend on and off, for four years. The first two years he turned me on so much, I loved sex with him. In year three we split up - totally unrelated to sex, but it had started to slow down a bit. Anyway, had a fling with another guy, and...
(224 words)

30 September 2011 (F)
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30-35 -
How can I get over being so insecure? Especially about the way I look. I simply hate the way I look, I hadn't realized how ugly my body and face are until now. And it's making me miserable. It hurts my relationships. But I can't seem to make it stop and therapy hasn't helped. I ...
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30 September 2011 (F)
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41-50 -
my husband accidentally left a voicemail on my cell phone where he is talking to his friends and saying " the dumb bitch won't answer her phone" I feel very hurt I never thought he would refer to me as a dumb bitch and I feel disrespected and he won't even talk to me about it. ...
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30 September 2011 (F)
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26-29 -
Is it okay for my boyfriend to be out with his friends drinking and discussing our personal problems with them? He says it's normal and that maybe I should start telling my friends more of our personal issues to vent or whatnot. I think it's completely uncalled for, and that ...
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30 September 2011 (M)
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41-50 -
well.. i cant believe after nearly 2 years (1.8) my gf and I have broken up :( two weeks ago now. at first i asked her to leave my flat, and said we would talk in a month. (there were a series of things that led me to that point - at the 6month point - a guy tried to s...
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30 September 2011 (F)
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41-50 -
Hi all. I have been with my bf for almost two years. I suffer from terrible insecurity and have often wondered if he has cheated. Anyway, I know it’s wrong but I decided to check his facebook account. I found nothing untoward in the last two years but there was a string of ...
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30 September 2011 (F)
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30-35 -
Hey , im not really sure what to do so im asking for some advice ..My ex broke up with me about a month ago due to still having feelings for his ex of 7 years ..its hard coz we wanna b together still ..The other day when we were chilling he told me he wants me but he's ...
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30 September 2011 (F)
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26-29 -
Last night I went on a date with my boyfriend. At first it seemed kinda boring and I,m pretty sure i seemed annoying. But then we were all over each other and he was feeling me and I gave him a BJ but the thing was I never really gave a BJ Before and well he seemed to be doi...
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30 September 2011 (F)
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26-29 -
This is a very complex question and I hope it gets posted soon! I don't know what you'd call my relationship with a guy i,m dating. I at first assumed we'd be boyfriend and girlfriend but he doesn't want a relationship. We meet each other weekly or maybe 2 or 3 nights a week....
(170 words)

30 September 2011 (F)
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36-40 -
What should I reply to this guy who last year broke my heart (he doesn't know that) he said he was single when he actually had a girlfriend and he never replied to my text at the time. He has got in touch asking about me. I want him back in my life but not sure what to say, ...
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30 September 2011 (F)
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26-29 -
I have the ultimate dilemma! Lately, for some reason I've been getting out of the ordinary male attention. Firstly it started with my ex, we went on a date recently, as bad as it was we agreed to see each other again. Which may or may not be a good idea but I feel like givi...
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30 September 2011 (F)
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26-29 -
I haven't been married to my husband for very long (just over 1 year), and we don't have kids, but I still feel like I'm his cook, his maid, his sex toy, and his mother... I mean, he's more of a clean freak than I am, but I still like a clean house. I'm in school full time, ...
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30 September 2011 (M)
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26-29 -
Well I'm unsure how to handle or even approach this matter lightly. Once every few days I go to this place "jesters pies" for a treat and there is this girl. Now I'm aware that smiling is apart of customer service but this girl smiles at me alot and won't stop taking glances in ...
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30 September 2011 (?)
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26-29 -
I have been with my boyfriend for 6 months, we have been friends for years before this. The relationship is excellent and I really love him and I know he feels the same. 3 months ago P started his job and I started my placement year (he has finished uni, I have a placemen...
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30 September 2011 (M)
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22-25 -
I am 18 and have had tight foreskin all my life. Three days ago, I had a circumcision, recommended by urologists. I seem to be healing, but, like I was warned, erections are very uncomfortable at the moment. Anyone know how long it will be before an erection feels normal again? ...
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30 September 2011 (M)
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30-35 -
I'm married for 4 years and since there i had good moments and bad moments too, like every marriage is. But the last months it's getting hard keep the balance. Work, finance, family, relationship, pressure to have kids, i dont know if i'm up to keeping moving! Guys, we'are ...
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30 September 2011 (F)
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30-35 -
Hello all, I have been with my man for 5 years, married for almost three. We havent been actively trying to have a baby but we havent not been trying either. For years I thought my husband had issues downstairs, and I found out I have fertility issues as well. Recently I had sc...
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30 September 2011 (F)
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30-35 -
my ex and I used to be best friends and then we decided to go out together. they were the best months until once he told me that he is afraid of commitment. he feels trapped when he is serious.at the same time he does not want to lose me. he didn't know what to do so i told him ...
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30 September 2011 (F)
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22-25 -
It was like, "OMG, is this true?..'' or "maybe I'm dreaming or somethng".. etc.. I opened my FB account and saw a single friend request.. I used to think who it might be, and guessed that maybe it was just someone from my old school whom I don't know, it's the usual case a...
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30 September 2011 (F)
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30-35 -
My partner pays maintenance for 1 child + ex. He’s a salesman so income varies. I just had to lend him money to replace his stolen phone because he couldn’t afford to, and then he also needed extra money to tide him over until his commissions were paid at the end of the ...
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30 September 2011 (M)
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36-40 -
I am 30 and feel really embarassed recently because i have these fantasies of sleeping with my sister(cousin). This makes me extremely worried when i face her and i am almost scared of talking to her. In the past i had expressed good feelings i had about her and now i feel as ...
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30 September 2011 (M)
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36-40 -
Before I come to my problem let me take you to its history. I was 11 and fell in love with 9 years old girl who happened to be orphan living in orphanage in front of our old house in our hometown. We would meet in the park and played there for hours. My parents broug...
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30 September 2011 (M)
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30-35 -
Please can you help me.I have been with my partner for 2 years she was my soul mate my best friend and my lover, we had planned our life together, and I was going to ask her to marry me. I have had a very difficult 3 months, with work and my health, I have had 3 operations, and ...
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30 September 2011 (M)
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26-29 -
So hey all aunts and uncles So.. I'm visiting my estranged grandma and grandpa, see I haven't seen them in 17-18 years...I'm 19 years old Like I'm nervous, I'm going to a town called flint its in Michigan. I vist them next week.. I'm so scared and nervous My mom had ...
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30 September 2011 (M)
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30-35 -
My girl friend used to love some guy before we met but didn't start relationship.she said she only loved him because of peer influence and she was a fresh man student and alone.this was before 5 years.now they are friends on facebook and i don't know who requested for ...
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30 September 2011 (F)
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26-29 -
I've had relationship after relationship and most of them were at least 19 years older or so... i've also been with some my age. I currently am 20 and my intimate other is 28 years older. I know the whole being depeived of a father figure is the only reason i seek a older man ...
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30 September 2011 (M)
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22-25 -
I'm currently talk to a girl and we've known each other for almost 2 months. We talk a lot and we hang out a lot. We always hang out and I'm starting to like her and I feel like she is feeling the same way but I'm not sure. We would always talk and always go out together and ...
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30 September 2011 (M)
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26-29 -
I met this girl 9 months ago, and we had class together several times a day, everyday for that entire semester. I started to develop infatuation for her around midterm, but never had the chance to express myself due to exams and other stuffs. So, the semester ended and we went ...
(172 words)

30 September 2011 (F)
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41-50 -
Hi all, I have a long distance boyfriend and everything is great. There is just one thing that I have a problem with. He keeps adding his ex to facebook every time that she sends him a request, then she will get the shits with him blocks him, and then later on sends a request ...
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30 September 2011 (F)
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22-25 -
I really need some help here. I'm in love with the most amazing girl in the world but, I feel like I am walking on eggshells. It feels like I have to think before I even do anything, because the most random things, like falling asleep on skype and not being able to pick up her ...
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30 September 2011 (F)
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22-25 -
Me and my ex have known each other for about 3 years now , we have always flirted and kissed , but we decided to take things serious 3 months ago , and ended up braking up in one month. i was devastated. what hurts the most is that i still see him around cause we live in the ...
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30 September 2011 (F)
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22-25 -
I just started my junior year of highschool about a month ago (I've been at the same school since my freshman year) and there's a new guy in the same year as me. He's only in my chemistry class and we've never actually talked or even made direct eye contact. Aside from looki...
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30 September 2011 (F)
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22-25 -
so my mother is starting to get on my nerves about my boyfriend. i know thats hes not cheating on me , and she keeps on erking me telling me she hopes we brake up. she thinks im changing when i know for sure im not. if she keeps on with her bull i dont know what ima do.. any ...
(98 words)

30 September 2011 (F)
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22-25 -
Dear cupid, my bestfriends brother is gay and he tried to tell me that my boyfriend let him feel on his body one day. And that pretty much that my boyfriend let him. At the time my he wasnt my boyfriend yet we was just talking for almost 6 months. I broke down cry and ended up ...
(135 words)

30 September 2011 (F)
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18-21 -
Ok so I'm almost 14, I first got my period right before I turned 9 so my periods should be normal by now right? Well it has been a month or two since and I have not had my period. I still get the PMS symptoms. But I dont get my period and I am NOT sexually active. So what do ...
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30 September 2011 (F)
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41-50 -
Hi. I am currently in a relationship with this really awesome guy. We are really happy and its been almost 4 months that we have been together.( both of us divorced with two kids each ) I don't know how to handle how I feel. I feel jealous whenever it comes to other women. My ...
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30 September 2011 (F)
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18-21 -
Ok so I'm almost 14, I first got my period right before I turned 9 so my periods should be normal by now right.?. Well it has been a month or 2 sicen I hav gotten my period I still get the PMS symtomps but I dont get my period and and I am NOT sexually active. So what do I ...
(75 words)