The voice of a female is an important aspect.The reason(s) why you hesitate is/are worth an investigation (BTW, the same applies to me)

well man, i have a pretty good idea why, and it stems from me being absolutely terrified of "emotional closeness" with a female, and just in case she starts to get too close i either flee like a pussy or say some stupid shit to her to drive her away from me and make her hate my guts

too bad, it can't be just "free and easy" with nice feelings and nice times, kinda like the vibe which this tune seems to put out

just be "free and easy" girl, but alas...

most females ain't gonna put up with that for too long, and they'll most likely want something stronger and deeper...

i have a question for you brother... do you seek to find different females for different parts of you?

for example, i want one girl to be my hot sex toy, and another girl to be my sweet soulmate/friend, and another girl to share some occasional deep and romantic moments with me

well man, i have a pretty good idea why, and it stems from me being absolutely terrified of "emotional closeness" with a female, and just in case she starts to get too close i either flee like a pussy or say some stupid shit to her to drive her away from me and make her hate my guts

too bad, it can't be just "free and easy" with nice feelings and nice times, kinda like the vibe which this tune seems to put out

just be "free and easy" girl, but alas...

most females ain't gonna put up with that for too long, and they'll most likely want something stronger and deeper...

i have a question for you brother... do you seek to find different females for different parts of you?

for example, i want one girl to be my hot sex toy, and another girl to be my sweet soulmate/friend, and another girl to share some occasional deep and romantic moments with me

Than discuss those feelings of emotional closeness and your desires with a woman(!) I was pretty honest about this with my ex right from the beginning (lesson learned..). I think this is one of the main reasons why many relationships won't survive on the long run; most guys want to be free without obligations/questions and most women want to WORK on friendships/relationships. I've said it before, it's always a little give and take...

That's an interesting question. It sounds very attractive on paper, but -just like polygamy- will it work on the long run? Only when you're able to keep those given intentions separated (I would prob fuck them all and not only once) and when you're not a jealous person by nature, since it's not realistic that these women don't have relations with other men.

Than discuss those feelings of emotional closeness and your desires with a woman(!) I was pretty honest about this with my ex right from the beginning (lesson learned..). I think this is one of the main reasons why many relationships won't survive on the long run; most guys want to be free without obligations/questions and most women want to WORK on friendships/relationships. I've said it before, it's always a little give and take...

That's an interesting question. It sounds very attractive on paper, but -just like polygamy- will it work on the long run? Only when you're able to keep those given intentions separated (I would prob fuck them all and not only once) and when you're not a jealous person by nature, since it's not realistic that these women don't have relations with other men.

i do man, and at first she's cool with the terms of our relationship, but after awhile she changes her tune and wants something "stronger and more involved"... guess that it just must be my romantic charm but i know that i'm a fucking handful and all, being the Wild Horse that i am lol

i think that Christie may have seen me in her minds eye when she penned these lyics

"your mood is like a circus wheel, you change it all the time, sometimes i can't help but feel that i'm wasting all of my time"

i do man, and at first she's cool with the terms of our relationship, but after awhile she changes her tune and wants something "stronger and more involved"... guess that it just must be my romantic charm but i know that i'm a fucking handful and all, being the Wild Horse that i am lol

i think that Christie may have seen me in her minds eye when she penned these lyics

"your mood is like a circus wheel, you change it all the time, sometimes i can't help but feel that i'm wasting all of my time"

You see, that's the "work" part I was talking about, its in their genes. You're a blessed person when you find 2-3 women who can deal with this desire on the long run. You will prob have better chances with older women, they are better capable to rely on themselves, emotionally & financially, and have the necessary confidence. I don't know you in person, but I think you need more inner peace (just like me BTW, LOL), and a good woman (yes, just one) might help

You see, that's the "work" part I was talking about, its in their genes. You're a blessed person when you find 2-3 women who can deal with this desire on the long run. You will prob have better chances with older women, they are better capable to rely on themselves, emotionally & financially, and have the necessary confidence. I don't know you in person, but I think you need more inner peace (just like me BTW, LOL), and a good woman (yes, just one) might help

actually man, i think that younger women are better suited for me, since they usually aren't so serious and aren't looking for such a heavy involvement generally speaking

and yeah, you're probably right about finding all these traits within one woman, but then if i do so i won't be able to be this wild and free Wild Horse although my therpist tells me that this Wild Horse really isn't so free since he is caught within his own trap

"she is like a cat in the dark, and then she is the darkness" mmmmm... SO HOT maybe you can tell me where i can find her?

You see, that's the "work" part I was talking about, its in their genes. You're a blessed person when you find 2-3 women who can deal with this desire on the long run. You will prob have better chances with older women, they are better capable to rely on themselves, emotionally & financially, and have the necessary confidence. I don't know you in person, but I think you need more inner peace (just like me BTW, LOL), and a good woman (yes, just one) might help

btw man, i've got a new female student and today is her 1st lesson with me, so do you think that i should wear my "Shake your ass for Me" t-shirt

actually man, i think that younger women are better suited for me, since they usually aren't so serious and aren't looking for such a heavy involvement generally speaking

and yeah, you're probably right about finding all these traits within one woman, but then if i do so i won't be able to be this wild and free Wild Horse although my therpist tells me that this Wild Horse really isn't so free since he is caught within his own trap

"she is like a cat in the dark, and then she is the darkness" mmmmm... SO HOT maybe you can tell me where i can find her?

But imagine yourself with that "modern harem". How would you deal with mood swings? Let's say you're with your platonic partner, and not she but YOU want some more? (yes, I've been in situations like these, makes you wanna fly away, LOL) This can make things very complicated & confusing. Yes, your therapist was dead right. After all, control over your mind is everything, esp in these circumstances.

But imagine yourself with that "modern harem". How would you deal with mood swings? Let's say you're with your platonic partner, and not she but YOU want some more? (yes, I've been in situations like these, makes you wanna fly away, LOL) This can make things very complicated & confusing. Yes, your therapist was dead right. After all, control over your mind is everything, esp in these circumstances.

that's a good question man, i had a really good friend/soulmate a few years back, and i remember me, her and a few friends of mine all meeting up together and my friends pulled me aside and said "dude, can't you see that she REALLY likes you?" and maybe i could, but i just choose to try and ignore it...

It's always a good idea to start with some entertainment, just to break the ice. Don't forget to make a picture if she's "team great face & ass" approved

lol

it's kinda funny, coz i told Mr. N about this new student and he asked me "what if she's a fat pig?" and i told him "man, stop thinking like an american with this idea that most women are fatasses like a big percentage of american girls ie. 40% of american chicks are fatassses, while less than 10% of Polkas are fatasses"

that's a good question man, i had a really good friend/soulmate a few years back, and i remember me, her and a few friends of mine all meeting up together and my friends pulled me aside and said "dude, can't you see that she REALLY likes you?" and maybe i could, but i just choose to try and ignore it...

it's kinda funny, coz i told Mr. N about this new student and he asked me "what if she's a fat pig?" and i told him "man, stop thinking like an american with this idea that most women are fatasses like a big percentage of american girls ie. 40% of american chicks are fatassses, while less than 10% of Polkas are fatasses"

anyways, if she's team great face and ass approved, i'll let ya know

You told me also about that female student Any updates on this matter?