INTIMATE RELATIONSHIP COACH

I specialize in helping my clients enjoy fulfilling intimate relationships… with themselves, their partners, and their children.

As a nurturing and intuitive Transformative Coach, I guide my clients towards a better understanding of who they are, and what motivates feelings of insecurity, judgement and disconnection. An expert in the workings of the human mind, I help them have more confidence, ease, and freedom, all while creating deeper and more meaningful connections.

This exploration into your most intimate relationships is not for the faint of heart. It requires a willingness to get curious. To be open and to look deeply at your most closely-held beliefs. A worthwhile endeavor because, if you let it, this understanding will dramatically shift your experience of the world for the better. A helpful side effect of healthy, happy intimacy.

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ABOUT ME

I’m Mindy Sonshine. I’m the mother to three beautiful souls, a wife to an amazing man, and a die-hard optimist. When it comes to loving relationships, I feel like I’ve hit the jackpot.

I know this probably sounds like the kind of cookie-cutter response you’d expect from a relationship coach, but I can assure you that it wasn’t always as picture perfect as it feels now.

Like every other human, I’ve lived under the weight of insecure thoughts, and struggled to connect with those around me.

For more years that I can count, I obsessively compared myself to others and worried about what people thought of me. For no other reason than it’s what I thought I was supposed to do.

Being naturally bright and growing up in a family that valued achievement, I was good at exceeding expectations. But I often found myself wondering why life felt so bland. I was smart enough to know that there was more to me than the tidy boxes I had been fitting myself into.

So I started to look for ways to feel alive. I took risks in search of confidence and excitement. Skydiving, swingers clubs, running multiple businesses, changing careers like I changed outfits, and packing up my little blue Hyundai and moving across the country because I thought southern California sounded nicer than New Jersey.

If you had told me ten years ago that this very same search for “something more” would lead me to become a certified Transformative Coach who runs her practice from a stunningly beautiful and remote island in the Pacific Northwest, I would have laughed at the idea. And yet, here we are…

I’m Mindy Sonshine. I’m the mother to three beautiful souls, a wife to an amazing man, and a die-hard optimist. When it comes to loving relationships, I feel like I’ve hit the jackpot.

I know this probably sounds like the kind of cookie-cutter response you’d expect from a relationship coach, but I can assure you that it wasn’t always as picture perfect as it feels now.

Like every other human, I’ve lived under the weight of insecure thoughts, and struggled to connect with those around me.

For more years that I can count, I obsessively compared myself to others and worried about what people thought of me. For no other reason than it’s what I thought I was supposed to do.

Being naturally bright and growing up in a family that valued achievement, I was good at exceeding expectations. But I often found myself wondering why life felt so bland. I was smart enough to know that there was more to me than the tidy boxes I had been fitting myself into.

So I started to look for ways to feel alive. I took risks in search of confidence and excitement. Skydiving, swingers clubs, running multiple businesses, changing careers like I changed outfits, and packing up my little blue Hyundai and moving across the country because I thought southern California sounded nicer than New Jersey.

If you had told me ten years ago that this very same search for “something more” would lead me to become a certified Transformative Coach who runs her practice from a stunningly beautiful and remote island in the Pacific Northwest, I would have laughed at the idea. And yet, here we are…

In all the wonderfully human, messy and fantastic ways that it took to get me here, I learned a lot about what it means to connect deeply with myself, to feel totally at home in my own skin, and to really show up and enjoy life with my husband and children. No skydiving helmet required.

Clearly, there’s no shortage of stories I could share with you about that journey. (Ask me about my days as a nerdy econometrics expert. Or those times I went to Burning Man.) But, instead of going into the details here, I’d rather open the floor, and ask you about your stories…

What brings you here? What are you looking for that would make you feel more alive? Who do you want to feel a deeper connection with?

In all the wonderfully human, messy and fantastic ways that it took to get me here, I learned a lot about what it means to connect deeply with myself, to feel totally at home in my own skin, and to really show up and enjoy life with my husband and children. No skydiving helmet required.

Clearly, there’s no shortage of stories I could share with you about that journey. (Ask me about my days as a nerdy econometrics expert. Or those times I went to Burning Man.) But, instead of going into the details here, I’d rather open the floor, and ask you about your stories…

What brings you here? What are you looking for that would make you feel more alive? Who do you want to feel a deeper connection with?

l bring a lifetime of experience to my coaching, and I know that navigating life gets better when we share the journey with others.

“I finish every session with Mindy with a feeling of warmth in my heart and knowing that an awesome future is ahead… My relationship with my husband has improved. I’m less judgmental of my kids. I have more compassion for my fellow humans. Anger really doesn’t make sense anymore. And the odd thing is…she doesn’t really tell me anything. She just points me back to what is true about me. And, as airy-fairy as this sounds, I kind of like myself a whole lot better since working with Mindy.”

– Patty T. | Minnesota, USA

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Ready to take the first step towards happier relationships? Fantastic!

Given that this is all about relationships, it’s probably a good idea that you get to know me a little better first…

You don’t want to dive into something this life-changing without a preview. So let’s talk about how this could work for you. No heavy-hitting sales pitch. Just two humans exploring what’s possible. At the very least, I know you’ll enjoy our conversation.