Sadly is the word, my wife and I were discussing this and while I find this behavior so beyond the pale for anyone, I found I was getting angrier and angrier, that it was a man, someone I knew, that had made it harder for other men to work in this profession. I chose Education after being in business for ten years. It was a conscious, well-informed choice and one male's actions have now made it harder for others and me in Reno to teach. We will now have to watch every interaction with students to make sure we do not cross any line real or imaginary, just to educate kids. Now here are 4 very close together and no one will think of the thousands of guys just doing their best in the classroom and school, but of these people and slightly tar us just a bit more.