[edit] Your theme must have a place for menus also since it is theme specific. I see the theme is no longer supported, http://lettersandscience.net/Blix/ as far as I can tell. Might be a good idea to find a theme that has been updated for wp 3.4

Sorry, as I am at a beginner status when it comes to WP. But, I cannot find anything in my dashboard that says menus. I can find my links under 'pages' in my dashboard, but the drafts do not appear there.

Regarding my theme, I am in the process of looking for a new theme, but it is taking a little time, so I just want to fix this right now.

- deactivating all plugins (yes, all) to see if this resolves the problem. If this works, re-activate the plugins one by one until you find the problematic plugin(s). If you can't get into your admin dashboard, try resetting the plugins folder by FTP or PhpMyAdmin. Sometimes, an apparently inactive plugin can still cause problems.

- switching to the Twenty Eleven theme to rule out any theme-specific problems.

this theme does not seem to be compatible with wordpress, your only solution is to find another theme, there could be more problems than just this one and you dont want to waste time with unsupported themes.