Year: 2018

When conversing with married folks, I’ve noticed they’re quick to remind me of all the ‘can’ts’ of marriage. ‘I can’t do this or that because I’m married,’ or ‘If you get married, you’ll have to give this or that up.’ By the end of such conversations, I’m thinking, ‘Is marriage […]

Men do talk. And when given the space, the time and the license, we will freely talk about our feelings our flaws our fears our failings. Whatever. Just as we must continue freeing women from oppressive social norms and treatment, men also need to be freed from postmodern ideals of […]

D’Arreion did well not to lose his head. Not to react how I wanted to. No words. Forcefully shoving my way through the door. He (I) just wanted to go home. To rest, to be safe. Land of the free? Home of the brave? All-American? Oh no, not if you’re […]