One thing that really really confuses is me. Is that science, psychology pretty much every discipline would suggest the male that is "percieved" as the most dominant. Would get something like 90% of the females. How is it they would feel attraction if they don't "percieve" you as the dominant male.

This also leads to who is the 'most dominant' male?

If you look at examples around you, it is rarely the person who psychology, popular culture and films would have you believe.

So, what you are asking here is:what is hardwired into females and males as the dominant traits?
What trips those triggers in them to 'percieve' someone as the dominant male?

What trips those triggers in them to 'percieve' someone as the dominant male?

Actions {{{}}} Vibe

_________________"...There is only one thing you can do. Master that one thing!...What you must be doing is visualizing yourself at your most powerful. You don't need any external enemies. The only opponent you must fight, is none other than your own image."

Thanks for reply Flux,
Freedom, unrestricted self-sufficient as dominant traits for men i agree.
Why you think this applies for females too?

I was responding to what was attractive in men but those traits could be attractive in women as well. They may be packaged slightly different to appeal to men (More feminine and open) but the core would be the same. [Mirror] Actually, I'd add acceptance to that list as well. Mix all that up and you basically get indifference.

Besides looking good most of the girls I'm attracted to tend to have some version of such traits. Either that or I've projected them onto them. I don't think I do that much anymore.

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What do you understand under 'vibe'?

What's internal is projected outward, this decides what you may or may not do from deliberate actions to small subcommunications.

_________________"...There is only one thing you can do. Master that one thing!...What you must be doing is visualizing yourself at your most powerful. You don't need any external enemies. The only opponent you must fight, is none other than your own image."

Somehow I think she must feel like you will take care of her emotional needs (needs, not what she says she wants) and you won't try to use her to take care of your emotions (which also destroys space etc), she somehow becomes naturaly submissive if you are in ready to do this. And you are naturally dominant

Does it have to be harder than this ? I Think everyone can become dominant in their own way by finding who they are, by doing inner work (and also outer work)

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