When non Jewish people set up Menorahs, take pictures of it and post it on Instagram wishing everyone a Happy Chanukah....then someone comments "that's a candelabra, right" and you have to correct them.... wtf.... I really hope she Read more

Posted by MiZLeoB I've had A.....let's just say we ended in couples therapy because he was "afraid" to tell me and I was more pissed off at that point then I would have been if he had just told me. Plus, if you tell me in a certain way it won't turn into an argument in the first place.

that's true. that is one of the main reasons too why I wait to say anything..

I need to say it in a way that isn't hurtful or will embarrass the other

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Just don't bottle it up or wait to long to say something about it. If it's like a year from now she's going to get pissed. If it's a week later than it should be fine, as long as you don't attack her about it.