It didn’t take me long to realize that Scott was special, a different type of breed, of a completely different caliber.

His work, writing, messages, all he stood for, and more than anything, how he lived his life, immediately grabbed my attention.

Scott believed that together, we could all change the world by doing work we loved, work that matters to us and surrounding ourselves with the people who could help make it possible.

Scott’s enthusiasm for what he believed was infectious.

Settling for the status quo seemed to never be an option with Scott. He had a knack for motivating and inspiring people, myself included, to ditch their dead-end jobs in favor of finding work they were meant to do, work that mattered to them.

He believed it wasn’t only a privilege to do so, but a right.

Scott Being Scott

Before I ever even met Scott, I reached out to him for guidance via email as I was deciding on what direction to go in long before The Wellness Bucket ever came to be.

To my surprise, he would email me back every single time.

Just about a year later, I would go through his Connect With Anyone course where I not only got to connect more with Scott and develop an awesome friendship with him, but also meet so many amazing people from all over the world whose friendships are still a big part of my world.

I remember before actually taking Scott’s Connect With Anyone course I was also debating attending World Domination Summit. Financially, I wouldn’t be able to do both.

Once again, I reached out to Scott and asked if he were in my shoes, would he take his Connect With Anyone course or attend WDS?

He of course said as much as he’d love to have me take his course, he thought I would be better off attending WDS…as he put it, “it is a mecca for connecting with like minds.“

I not only took his advice and attended WDS, but I also decided to do whatever I needed to do financially to register for his course – which I did.

His honesty and humility was incredible.

When I finally did meet him at WDS, as I walked up to him to introduce myself, I can still hear his voice say, “MIKE! Hey man!” With such genuine enthusiasm and excitement.

He knew who I was, remembered my name, and greeted me as if we had been best friends for years.

That was Scott – that’ll always be Scott.

Gone To Soon

I really do wish I would have gotten the opportunity to spend more time with him. I always felt we would have clicked really well as friends and together, done some serious damage in the way of doing good in this world.

I always saw bits of me in Scott – or at least I hoped that to be the case.

I love the fact he did what he wanted to do, always put himself out there, and embraced vulnerability.

He was who he was, no facade.

He cared, he genuinely cared about people and making a difference.

He was giving, grateful, and ridiculously humble – so freakin humble.

We both shared the same birthday (April 3rd) and just recently, I found out that he too was a big Tupac fan (haha) I never knew that. It made me smile.

As silly as it may sound because of the limited time I did hang out and communicate with Scott, to me he was like the brother I never had or always wished that I had.

I Hate That He’s Gone

I rarely, if ever, use the word hate – although in this case, I really do hate the fact that Scott is gone. I hate it.

I know at some point I will break out of this lull I’m currently in. It’s definitely going to take some time.

I am more committed now than ever before to help serve others, to continue doing work that truly matters to me, to help make a positive lasting difference in the lives of others, and to live my legend – the legend that I was put on this earth to live.

So Much Love

It’s amazing to see and read all of the stories, pictures, and personal messages from everyone who was in some way or another, touched, inspired, or affected by who Scott was, the way he lived, and all that he created.

I’ve been glued to his Facebook tribute page and in awe at the surge of messages that continue to pour in honoring him and the legacy he leaves behind.

Many of his closest friends have also written heart felt tributes. Here’s just a few of them:

author: Mike Goncalves

It is so hard to believe isn’t it but the one massive silver lining from this is just how much of an impact he’s made and how many people are willing and able to carry on his legacy forever. Thank you for including my tribute here and for writing your own too. It all makes a difference.

Hey Natalie – thanks so much for being here and your words, they mean a lot to me and many others I’m sure.. I appreciate it. It’s absolutely my pleasure to include your tribute here along with mine. You’re awesome and I couldn’t agree with you more… it all does make a difference. Thanks again – cheers!

I can hear the pain in your words, Mike. Thank you for sharing this with all of us. It helps make this loss a little more bearable.
I am still too numb to put words to paper. What can I even say to honor one of the best people I knew?

Einstein’s words come to me when I think about Scott,

“Generations to come will scarce believe that such a one as this ever in flesh and blood walked upon this earth.”

Hey Debashish – thanks so much for being here and for your words. Having great people to speak, connect, and mourn with, great people like you, does help to make this loss a little more bearable. I can see how Einstein’s words come to mind when thinking about Scott – grateful that I got the opportunity to walk upon this earth with him, even if only for a short time. You’re awesome man – cheers to you.

Well said Mike. I’m a firm believer that everything happens for a reason, and especially when that “something” seems so unfair. Scott’s passing seems about as unfair as you can get, and while the pain is intense and raw now, in the future we’ll find something beautiful has emerged and grown in his absence. It may still not take away the pain of his loss, but hopefully provide some comfort and hope, like a rainbow during a rainstorm.

Hey Dave – thanks so much for being here man and for your words… they mean a lot to me. I agree, everything does happen for a reason. I know Scott was a big fan of the following Steve Jobs quote as am I – “We can’t connect the dots going forward, we can only connect them looking back.” Definitely unfair although as you mentioned, the future does hold even more beauty within it because of Scott, all he’s created, and the legacy he leaves behind. You’re awesome – cheers!