10 Things only people who parent in New York understand

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5. They play in the world's biggest backyard

People who cite "nowhere to play outside" as a reason to avoid the city when you have a family are too shortsighted. There are some amazing parks in NYC — especially Central Park, which never seems to be out of swings and has a freaking zoo.

6. And who says grocery shopping is a pain?

Another big city bonus: Relatively inexpensive grocery delivery. Shop online or call in your list during nap time and have your goods delivered to your door. Never experience another cookie aisle meltdown again.

8. Bonus: You won't need to teach the kid to drive

9. Of course, the subway is also a little terrifying

Just like in a car, they can go anywhere. Unlike in a car, if they stay out too late and take the wrong train too far from home, they could find themselves alone and scared on a platform for upwards of 30 minutes before they see another train. (And that's if everything is on schedule.)

10. But they'll be smarter, braver and bolder because of it

That night on the platform and the many nights that follow will teach your kids a lot. They'll learn to sense sketchiness better than kids from the 'burbs. They'll also have a better grasp on talking to strangers (cabbies, waiters), meaning they'll be properly prepared for functioning in the real world.

We're not suggesting that the city is for everyone. Plenty of kids flourish in the suburbs each and every year. That said, we definitely think our little New Yorkers have some major advantages and that parents of city kids luck out, too. Now, if we could just find a bigger apartment...