There's a hottie who I have been going out with to the club with friends lately probably 4 of the last 5 weekend nights. Shes a flirt. I want to ask her about Valentine's Day but I do not want her to say no and I do not know if she has a date. Suggestions

There's a hottie who I have been going out with to the club with friends lately probably 4 of the last 5 weekend nights. Shes a flirt. I want to ask her about Valentine's Day but I do not want her to say no and I do not know if she has a date. Suggestions

Exactly what Rob said....who gives a ****? If she says no...its on to the next one.

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Or don't. Next time, after you suck some face, ask her out some other night, if you've only seen her at the club a handful of times, asking her out on valentines day might be too big a thing for it to go well. If you just don't want to be alone on valentine's day then just ask her.

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hook up buddy is getting weird. texting me way too much to hang out and stuff. making valentine's day hints.

It's at the point I wanna find a girl I actually like to be with.

until then, i want hook up buddy to stay easy but back off with this whole hanging out thing. she's just not very bright. so dumb. i mean, dumb enough to keep hooking up with me, so that's how you know

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hook up buddy is getting weird. texting me way too much to hang out and stuff. making valentine's day hints.

It's at the point I wanna find a girl I actually like to be with.

until then, i want hook up buddy to stay easy but back off with this whole hanging out thing. she's just not very bright. so dumb. i mean, dumb enough to keep hooking up with me, so that's how you know

Just take her to, like, Pizza Hut and buy her a Hershey's mini. Fair compromise in my book.

Well we all pregame at my spot and I talk to her at school. Ill probably bring it up when i see her tomorrow. Valentinrs day isnt the big deal. Im trying to talk to her and putting my interest out too early would be bad. Might not ask.

I thought this was an interesting conversation I had with a girl last week. The background she was complaining that guys are too complicated and emotional. She gave the example of how she'll cuddle with one and then they'll think that she's into them when she's not and she was just cuddling. We told her that she had way too many guys in the friendzone and she was making everyone her cuddle *****.

11:38am
Darnell Brady
Don't. Its life. Every guy has fallen to be a cuddle ***** at some point and every girl has had someone be their cuddle *****.
I guess thats not the most comforting of responses.

11:42am
Girl
have you been a cuddle *****?

11:43am
Darnell Brady
Absolutely and before I even knew what a cuddle ***** was, so I thought the girl was into me. That made things pretty weird.

11:43am
Girl
ah I'm sorry!

11:44am
Darnell Brady
Its all good. I learned a lot from it.
For instance, if a girl says something to the affect of, "you remind me of my brother/dad" then youre probably on the friends ladder and prime to be a cuddle *****.

11:46am
Girl
haha yeahh

11:48am
Darnell Brady
So you when you said to me, "You remind me of my dad" I knew instantly where I stood with you so you were actually being pretty blunt and non-confusing (you were preaching about how youre blunt all last night so props)

Well we all pregame at my spot and I talk to her at school. Ill probably bring it up when i see her tomorrow. Valentinrs day isnt the big deal. Im trying to talk to her and putting my interest out too early would be bad. Might not ask.

gotta ask dude. what's the harm in asking? she says no. then you move on.

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Originally Posted by PalmerToCJ

BTW, if it's 3rd and 97... I'm throwing a screen pass to Brian Leonard and he will convert.

Well we all pregame at my spot and I talk to her at school. Ill probably bring it up when i see her tomorrow. Valentinrs day isnt the big deal. Im trying to talk to her and putting my interest out too early would be bad. Might not ask.

The ****? No, waiting too long to show your interest is bad. Confidently telling her you wanna spend time alone with her is a good thing, as long as you don't make it into too big a deal by making it on v-day and being all hesitant and desperate.

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JPP is a better and more productive player than Brandon Graham

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Originally Posted by abaddon41_80

Is Shaun Hill a top 10 QB? Definitely not. Is he a top 20 one? Almost certainly.

I thought this was an interesting conversation I had with a girl last week. The background she was complaining that guys are too complicated and emotional. She gave the example of how she'll cuddle with one and then they'll think that she's into them when she's not and she was just cuddling. We told her that she had way too many guys in the friendzone and she was making everyone her cuddle *****.

hook up buddy is getting weird. texting me way too much to hang out and stuff. making valentine's day hints.

It's at the point I wanna find a girl I actually like to be with.

until then, i want hook up buddy to stay easy but back off with this whole hanging out thing. she's just not very bright. so dumb. i mean, dumb enough to keep hooking up with me, so that's how you know

Why? Because hes a guy? and likes sex? but doesnt want to get into something too seriously? but still wants to have sex?

Scotty is doing it right.

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Originally Posted by 49erNation85

I wouldn't be sir prized if he passed McCoy on the depth chart. I think he might have a better arm and accurate arm then him from the highlights I thought. He also got some wheels too help us prepare for QB's as Wilson , RG3 and other runners etc.

Of course fagenci says something like this. Plenty of people just want sex and don't start picking out their wedding dress after a first date. If he realizes there's no long term future, good on scotty for not getting sucked in and giving this chick false hopes.

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JPP is a better and more productive player than Brandon Graham

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Originally Posted by abaddon41_80

Is Shaun Hill a top 10 QB? Definitely not. Is he a top 20 one? Almost certainly.

So most of the veteran guys here know that I was engaged for the longest time. That did not turn out well at all. I know i know, you all told me that it was a bad idea to get engaged while I was still in high school, but she turned into a huge *****, sold the ring that I bought her and then started hanging around with one of my co-workers.

We break up, go a month without talking and then try it again. Unfortunately she already had another boyfriend. I dated her for some 4 years and this is how it ended....Maybe my red hair???

So since then (it's almost been two years), I have had random flings with girls I met at bars and friends from high school but nothing ever worked out and it was pretty much meaningless flings (not that I was looking for anything special the first year after i and my ex-fiancee's break up). But I started seeing a girl about a year afterwords. Nothing really serious ever happened and I told her I wanted to take it slow and she was okay with that. Finally about 9 months into it i asked her if she wanted to be in a relationship and she said no. This was semi-crushing. I figured by this point I wanted to be in a relationship, but I knew the time wasn't right.

Fast forward 3 months...my roommate (my female roommate) asked me to go up to our former college town with her because she wanted someone to drive her back to our house after she got wasted. I had been putting off going there with her for the longest time, making excuses not to go up there.

Rewind about 2 months, Jenna, my roommate comes home from this same place and meets this girl at a party. Jenna tells me all about her and her personality, and the added bonus she likes gingers. So I go up to brookings with her and meet this girl, we hit it off and find out that we have very similar personalities and like a lot of the same things.

Something about us clicked really well. We end up kissing that night and then she came home with me.

Now I know i'm not supposed to bring up "church" on this forum (mods feel free to edit post if it is inappropriate). I play bass in my churches contemporary worship service and I play two services every other sunday. The week that this girl came home with me happened to be a week that I have to play at church. She came to both church services with me. The thing that is just awesome about this, is that the girl that I was seeing for 9 months refused to go to church with me. And I would be lying if I said it wasn't a deal breaker.

Long story short, me and this girl are still together and doing really well after only knowing/ dating for two weeks. I've only known her for two weeks, but I feel like i've known her for two years. She has her complete trust in me and I have my complete trust in her.

I feel like i'm in high school again since I haven't had a serious relationship for almost 2 years. I'm really happy and I feel like this girl is totally right for me. The relationship is moving extremely fast, only in a good way.