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Friday, November 18, 2011

No matter how manly you are, every girl wants to have a cute boyfriend to be adorable and sweet to them. A little cuteness goes a long way when trying to impress and win over a girl. So hide your manly pride and try out these cute tips.

1. Write little notesGirls love to receive messages especially in a note form and in your handwriting, these small gestures just make them go crazy. Leave a little note on her mirror or dresser saying how much you love her, wishing her a beautiful day, or saying how much you miss her.

2. Text messaging Text messaging has become extremely popular these days and also more romantic. Texting your girlfriend a short message during your work day or while out with your friends can show that you have her on your mind, thinking about her, and anything else you want to include in the message.

3. Give her flowersYou don’t have to be a rocket scientist to figure out that girls love to receive flowers. You don’t have to be rich to buy a huge bouquet either. Just run to your local convenient store or grocery store and pick up a few roses or flowers and send them to her office to leave them for her when she comes home.

4. Get her creative giftsBesides flowers and jewelry, try to come up with odd and unique gift ideas that she will never think of receiving. Maybe a fancy new phone, a new pair of slippers, anything really that you can think of that you can picture her liking. This is a way to show you care and that you are interested in making her happy.

5. Spend time togetherPutting aside quality time is essential in creating a bond between you and your girlfriend. Put aside one night a week for a movie night either at home or at the theaters, go for walks, go out for dinner and so on.

What characteristics do you look for in your adorable cute type of boyfriend? Is the cute aspect of a guy more important to you than his strength, macho, and manliness? Does being cute make you even less than a man? Write your comments below!

It’s a paradox but the more we learn about the science of dating the less we can implement in practice. Trying to become guru of dating we seem to forget the simplest rules, so let’s take a closer look at them one more time.

Just SmileRemember, no gorgeous outfit will work if you leave your smile at home. Any woman seems to be much more approachable having her smile on.

Don’t Forget about Your Face while Making Your Best ShotIf you are going to become an online dater, have your makeup and hair done. In order to make a good impression on your potential partner you should do your best to look attractive in your profile picture. As, unfortunately, we are unlikely to have a second chance to leave a first impression. And one more tip here – no friends on the photo, only your beautiful face.

Have an ObjectiveBear in mind that love at first sight may happen but may not. That’s why you should always have a bright picture of your ideal partner in your head. It’s like in business – at first you set a certain goal, then you try to achieve it. You will never get anything if you yourself still don’t know what you really want.

Browsing the Internet I was really surprised to find out how many people wrote they hated dating. Hmmm… when millions of people join numerous dating websites and other communities just to find their one and only, there are still tons of singles who prefer spend their time on “more useful things”.

But can a person be really happy staying alone?

Maybe some of ardent love seekers will be surprised, but there really lots of people who are absolutely satisfied with their single life. “Love is all we need…” says the famous song. But is love worth turning our life into a constant search for someone special? Numerous dating fails, unpleasant relationship experience or some other reasons may turn each of us from dating seeker to dating hater. Thus, we can divide people who are not interested in dating into two groups – those who are just really happy to be single at the moment devoting their time to career, children, friends and hobbies, and those – who feel unhappy staying single but have a fear to launch new relationships.

Yes, dating is not everything; there are too many things that can make one happy. Self-realization is not less important for most of us than finding a life partner. In our modern world we’ve got a bunch of things that make our life complete – good job, interesting pastime, self-education etc. I bet, each of us felt happy being single at a certain stage of our life. If you feel there is no need to invite someone into your life at the moment, just don’t do that just because others tell you to do.

But if you belong to the second group of singles, don’t make hasty conclusions. There hundreds of reliable, honest interesting people who are not going to break your heart out there. Of course, no one can guarantee that your heart will not be broken again; no one can guarantee you eternal love. But why at least no try to become happy? Samuel Butleronce said: “It is better to have loved and lost than never to have lost at all.” Just don’t miss your chance to share your love with someone special.

I bet no one will argue that true love has no limits or frames. And today it’s absolutely natural to have a life partner 10-20 years younger or older than you. However, having a deal with age differences you should stick to some simple rules in order to avoid misunderstanding in your relationships. Let’s look at the situation when a female partner is older than her lover.

1. If your boyfriend is younger than you, avoid calling him any slighting nicknames. Even if he is younger he is a man and doesn’t need a second mama to call him Cutie or something like that. I think you won’t also appreciate if he calls you mummy.

2. Stop constant emphasizing you age difference like “When I was kissing with my group mates on the party you were in the kindergarten.” Believe, that won’t bring a lot of good to your relationships.

3. Be prepared to feel like a foreigner while meeting his friends, colleagues or family. You were brought up on different values watching different movies and maybe reading different books.

There are thousands of happy couples with more than a decade age difference. Some of them have learned how to overcome problems caused by their age gap, but for others these difficulties become crucial steps on the way to break up.

Wednesday, November 2, 2011

First things First !!!

Attracting girls is often difficult for many people so don’t feel alone if this applies to you. Whether you are looking to land a playmate or the girl next door type, you can do it, no matter what you look like, as long as you follow some simple rules. Follow these suggestions and you will learn how to attract girls.

The sooner you realize that not very girl is going to be interested in you, the better off you will be. Don’t be disappointed or shocked if a girl you target shows zero interest in you. It doesn’t matter because as long as you keep trying, you will attract a girl. Your realization of this fact is the first step you need to take.

The Best Time

When you find a girl that interests you, make sure to smile at her. Girls love a guy who smiles, as it shows confidence in himself, which women really like in a man. If she smiles back, it usually means it is safe to approach her. But, make sure you choose the right moment to go forward. If she is busy in conversation already, it could be a mistake to approach, because nobody likes to be interrupted. Just be patient and wait for her to go for a drink or separate herself from the person or group before you make your move. While you wait you can keep eye contact going and smile easily when you look at her.

Knowing What You Will Say

This is not the time to use some cheesy pick up lines you found on the internet about picking up girls. Before you approach any girl, you must consider what you might want to say. Think of something simple and appropriate to the environment you are in. Anything easy like commenting on the music at the club should help you to start the conversation.

Approaching Her

Well, of course, the next thing to do is to approach the girl. Relax, do not be nervous or self conscious when you walk over. After you have initiated the conversation, be sure to listen to her and what she has to say. Continue the conversation by building on what she has said. You should try to show your sense of humour without being crass or rude. Do not act needy or appear desperate. Girls want what they think they can’t get. Once you feel comfortable with her you should try some light physical contact, like touching her arm or hand. If she doesn’t retreat or pull back, you are showing intimacy and doing well. At this point you should ask for her number and make your exit. You want to leave her intrigued and wanting more.

The key to successfully approaching any women is to relax and not become panicked every time you find yourself in close contact with a pretty girl. While there may be times that you fail, don’t let the fear of rejection hold you back from conversing with and approaching women. Be confident, follow these rules, and eventually you will learn how to attract girls anytime you desire.