I don't know where else to rant about this so I'm posting here! My boyfriend had a friend in college (a girl) who has ALWAYS been really cruel to me. The first two years I ignored it and didn't say anything to her, and he's so delusional he didn't even notice. After that, I couldn't handle it anymore. She went from ignoring me to saying cruel things to other people and whispering about me when I was around. He claimed that he couldn't stop being friends with her because they had all the same friends and were in all the same classes. Plus her father is in the field my boyfriend wants to go in and so is she, so he said he couldn't burn that bridge.

The graduated and both go to grad school in NYC (different schools) and their best friend who lives in California is coming for New Years Eve sooo they are going to all hang out. I also konw they have hung out a handful of times.

I never wanted to be that girlfriend who told her boyfriend who he could hang out with, but I'm so tired of this. How could he want to be around someone who has been SO cruel to me? I'm so mad at him and I'm not going to go visit him for New Years Eve. All through college I missed things because she was there. His 21st birthday, after graduation parties, etc. He's so anti confrontational, but this is too much.

Have you ever confronted her directly, face to face about this? Because if you have not, then it feels to me that you are the one being anti-confrontational. It's not his job to mediate that kind of thing. Absolutely I think that if you have confronted her, and if she's still a crasshole, then he should be in your corner as your boyfriend, but you have to manage your own relationship with this girl. Go to the party and if she says a rude thing to you, tell her to fork off. People who don't like each other can still go to the same parties.

I have a crush (Actually, I kind of have 2 crushes but one is an OKC crush I haven't met yet so whatever). I spent the afternoon and evening with him and it was wonderful. Now I just have to keep from feeling like I need to text every single day for hours just to make my paranoia disappear. That is going to be the hardest partttttt.... (I guess that's what the PPK is for? Sharing all my feelings so I can still look cool to my crush?!?)

SO I'm sick, and magic crush has been texting me all day asking things like: "are you drinking enough water? Epsom salt bath?" Wow swoon. And he offered to get me things from the store but I couldn't think of anything and felt silly to invent something just to see him. But he seemed persistent so I did say if he was feeling up for risking being around a sick person we could watch some Downton together. He said he wants to but he'd be too tempted to make out with me and that'd be a bad idea with me being sick. :}

It is so coooolld this morning. I'm at work and all I wanna do is cuddle and have make outs with my crush. Sigh. (So far, the only downside is that he's significantly older than me ~14 years, which is the largest gap I've ever had but WHATEVER BECAUSE HE'S CUTE)

It is so coooolld this morning. I'm at work and all I wanna do is cuddle and have make outs with my crush. Sigh. (So far, the only downside is that he's significantly older than me ~14 years, which is the largest gap I've ever had but WHATEVER BECAUSE HE'S CUTE)

My brother is 17 years older than his wife (kiddo number 3 was born in July they're working on number 4), it works for some people.

Is it technically a crush when you've been with someone for two months? I constantly swoon while looking at my lovely man and go pathetically limp sometimes when he holds me. Seeing him putting his lens on my work camera and start firing off shots at a music gig last week made me giddy with excitement. Biggest crush I've ever had in my life!

My brother is 17 years older than his wife (kiddo number 3 was born in July they're working on number 4), it works for some people.

Is it technically a crush when you've been with someone for two months? I constantly swoon while looking at my lovely man and go pathetically limp sometimes when he holds me. Seeing him putting his lens on my work camera and start firing off shots at a music gig last week made me giddy with excitement. Biggest crush I've ever had in my life!

booberthefraggle wrote:

woah morning text is hella good. I will pull that shiitake out for like 4, 5 people in my current social sphere max and they are all friends or family. morning texts are good news.

Fezza, I'm so excited for you! I'm not sure it's still a crush, but it could be. Crushes are fun! I've always done better with older guys (1st ex is 8 years older than me) so I'm gonna go with the flow and see where it leads (as much as is possible for me, a worry wort planner).

Is it technically a crush when you've been with someone for two months? I constantly swoon while looking at my lovely man and go pathetically limp sometimes when he holds me. Seeing him putting his lens on my work camera and start firing off shots at a music gig last week made me giddy with excitement. Biggest crush I've ever had in my life!

I feel giddy and swoony about biker boy still and if I want to call him a crush, I will!

woah totally inappropriate nap dreams about same object of impossible (because of life circumstances) crush. A+ dream, excellent break from the terrible ones, but WOW do I need to get back in to the studio, if my subconscious is getting bored enough to fabricate THAT.

_________________Space has stared into the tiny syrup holes of our shame and it does not judge us. - Amandabear

Sunday is a million years away. When I said I could hang out Sunday, he said that he was running a 25K that morning and then working in a neighboring town and wouldn't be back until 6, and I said that if he wasn't too exhausted that 6 would be fine for me, and he said 'oh, for sure' that he still wanted to hang out.

He is so dreamy. I just want to look at his face and listen to him talk. I wonder if he feels the same way about meeee.

_________________But if one were to tickle Pluto, I suspect that it might very quietly laugh. - pandacookie

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Oooh yeahh, this is why I love and hate dating. I get so neerrrvouuussss between dates and worry that they'll suddenly not like me anymore. And of course, I read into those little things (no morning text this morning!) and kind of make up stories in my head. I wanna be cool for this guy! I really like him! (Also the first I gave my # to in an exercise in adult dating that I actually really wanted to call me)

Geez, this thread is so full of cute it's like a pile of kittens and puppies wearing knit hats being watched over by goats in trees.

I want this. I want to gaze at this every day when I am stressed.

Also, this thread makes me so happy for all the happy people having happy crushy feelings!

I still totally have a crush on my boy. I'm cool with it. It's been five months! This is the longest thing that I've had in a long time. My last thing was six months and that ended a year and a half ago. Before that it was yeeeeaaaaaars since I'd even had someone who was a "boyfriend" and not just "a guy I'm kinda dating or something." Gosh I hope I don't fork this up!

_________________Your heart is a muscle the size of a fistKeep loving, keep fighting

I have a feeling I am like that in public with the special lady friend, sooooo cutepie together, moony eyes and noone else moments. eeeeee.

My crush and I were hanging out at a bar with a bunch of my friends recently and later they all said that they felt like they were just on a date with the two of us. Apparently, we were doing the same thing. Oops!

_________________But if one were to tickle Pluto, I suspect that it might very quietly laugh. - pandacookie

55k usd is like 4 cad or whatever equivalent in beavers you use on the island - joshua