How do you find a boyfriend easily if you don't always know what to talk about?

Most Helpful Guy

That's not really an issue in situations where you have chemistry with him, which is something you can't really decide for it to exist - you can engage and communicate in many ways besides speech. Don't worry about lack of words in the beginning if you really like each other, that comes later when some time is put in by BOTH of you. Jordan B. Peterson (clinical psychologist) said once in a podcast that 19 minutes, twice a week, have to be put aside just for couples to talk about practical things (i. e. local economy, etc.) to really make for a good partnership. Don't worry about the trivial things if the chemistry is right, if you know who he is, if he knows what you're made of - you're good if you love each other and are genuine.

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Find someone who is happy to enjoy some time spent together, just staying silent.My plan for now is to have dates with an activity to do. Bowling, pool billard, baking, visiting exhibitions... if there's something to do, silence isn't as loud then as if you sit opposite of each other and have nothing else to do but to talk.