Sunday, July 10, 2016

There are TWO STAGES to this week's chat, beginning with an early stage at 8.00PM BRITISH TIME, to accommodate our European members, although anyone from anywhere is very welcome. .Click on the link below to find the equivalent time in your area.

choose your name and colour, fill in password: "chitchat1" (EVERYONE USES THE SAME PASSWORD TO GET INTO CHAT) and click on "Enter Room". When the new Chat Room screen appears, click on "Join Chat" and you should be all ready to go! ALERT! IF YOU CAN'T GET INTO CHAT THE FIRST TIME YOU PUT IN THE PASSWORD, TRY PUTTING IT IN AGAIN!

~~~~~~~~~~~~THERE IS NO REQUIREMENT OR EXPECTATION THAT WE WILL ALL AGREE ON EVERYTHING AND IT IS THE VARIETY OF EXPERIENCE AND UNDERSTANDING THAT MAKES OUR DISCUSSIONS INTERESTING AND PROFITABLE. HOWEVER WE DO ASK THAT PARTICIPANTS MAINTAIN CIVILITY AND CONSIDERATION FOR OTHERS WHEN CONDUCTING DISCUSSIONS IN THE CHAT ROOM.

There are TWO STAGES to this week's chat, beginning with an early stage at 8.00PM BRITISH TIME, to accommodate our European members, although anyone from anywhere is very welcome. .Click on the link below to find the equivalent time in your area.

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Tonight's informal topic will be to discuss what you personally consider to be the most important qualities in an HoH/Dominant or a taken-in-hand/sub. As an example, what I valued the most in my husband as an HoH was his ability to override my sometimes irrational emotional take on things and replace it with a much less stressful calm that enabled me to back off and deal with things more logically.

choose your name and colour, fill in password: "chitchat1" (EVERYONE USES THE SAME PASSWORD TO GET INTO CHAT) and click on "Enter Room". When the new Chat Room screen appears, click on "Join Chat" and you should be all ready to go! ALERT! IF YOU CAN'T GET INTO CHAT THE FIRST TIME YOU PUT IN THE PASSWORD, TRY PUTTING IT IN AGAIN!

~~~~~~~~~~~~THERE IS NO REQUIREMENT OR EXPECTATION THAT WE WILL ALL AGREE ON EVERYTHING AND IT IS THE VARIETY OF EXPERIENCE AND UNDERSTANDING THAT MAKES OUR DISCUSSIONS INTERESTING AND PROFITABLE. HOWEVER WE DO ASK THAT PARTICIPANTS MAINTAIN CIVILITY AND CONSIDERATION FOR OTHERS WHEN CONDUCTING DISCUSSIONS IN THE CHAT ROOM.

Sunday, January 24, 2016

There are TWO STAGES to this week's chat, beginning with an early stage at 8.00PM BRITISH TIME, to accommodate our European members, although anyone from anywhere is very welcome. .Click on the link below to find the equivalent time in your area.

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Tonight's informal topic will be "Differences between labels (such as D/D, D/s, M/s Total Power Exchange etc) as YOU perceive them". Even though it is likely that we won't all agree on this, you are asked to respect each other's point of view and to neither take differences personally, nor to criticise others for having a different 'take' on things and/or conducting their relationships accordingly.

choose your name and colour, fill in password: "chitchat1" (EVERYONE USES THE SAME PASSWORD TO GET INTO CHAT) and click on "Enter Room". When the new Chat Room screen appears, click on "Join Chat" and you should be all ready to go! ALERT! IF YOU CAN'T GET INTO CHAT THE FIRST TIME YOU PUT IN THE PASSWORD, TRY PUTTING IT IN AGAIN!

~~~~~~~~~~~~THERE IS NO REQUIREMENT OR EXPECTATION THAT WE WILL ALL AGREE ON EVERYTHING AND IT IS THE VARIETY OF EXPERIENCE AND UNDERSTANDING THAT MAKES OUR DISCUSSIONS INTERESTING AND PROFITABLE. HOWEVER WE DO ASK THAT PARTICIPANTS MAINTAIN CIVILITY AND CONSIDERATION FOR OTHERS WHEN CONDUCTING DISCUSSIONS IN THE CHAT ROOM.

Sunday, January 17, 2016

There are TWO STAGES to this week's chat, beginning with an early stage at 8.00PM BRITISH TIME, to accommodate our European members, although anyone from anywhere is very welcome. .Click on the link below to find the equivalent time in your area.

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Tonight's informal topic will be "maintenance spanking". Do you use it your relationship? If so, was it imposed, requested and/or mutually agreed between you? What form does it take in your particular relationship? (that it is to say, do you see it as a "reset", "role affirmation", "connective" tool etc. or many things rolled into one?

choose your name and colour, fill in password: "chitchat1" (EVERYONE USES THE SAME PASSWORD TO GET INTO CHAT) and click on "Enter Room". When the new Chat Room screen appears, click on "Join Chat" and you should be all ready to go! ALERT! IF YOU CAN'T GET INTO CHAT THE FIRST TIME YOU PUT IN THE PASSWORD, TRY PUTTING IT IN AGAIN!

~~~~~~~~~~~~THERE IS NO REQUIREMENT OR EXPECTATION THAT WE WILL ALL AGREE ON EVERYTHING AND IT IS THE VARIETY OF EXPERIENCE AND UNDERSTANDING THAT MAKES OUR DISCUSSIONS INTERESTING AND PROFITABLE. HOWEVER WE DO ASK THAT PARTICIPANTS MAINTAIN CIVILITY AND CONSIDERATION FOR OTHERS WHEN CONDUCTING DISCUSSIONS IN THE CHAT ROOM.

There are TWO STAGES to this week's chat, beginning with an early stage at 8.00PM BRITISH TIME, to accommodate our European members, although anyone from anywhere is very welcome. .Click on the link below to find the equivalent time in your area.

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For Tonight's informal topic, I thought we could talk about how whether our understanding of the purpose and process of DD has changed or evolved from our original vision and expectations. If not, then would we like it to change in any way.

choose your name and colour, fill in password: "chitchat1" (EVERYONE USES THE SAME PASSWORD TO GET INTO CHAT) and click on "Enter Room". When the new Chat Room screen appears, click on "Join Chat" and you should be all ready to go! ALERT! IF YOU CAN'T GET INTO CHAT THE FIRST TIME YOU PUT IN THE PASSWORD, TRY PUTTING IT IN AGAIN!

~~~~~~~~~~~~THERE IS NO REQUIREMENT OR EXPECTATION THAT WE WILL ALL AGREE ON EVERYTHING AND IT IS THE VARIETY OF EXPERIENCE AND UNDERSTANDING THAT MAKES OUR DISCUSSIONS INTERESTING AND PROFITABLE. HOWEVER WE DO ASK THAT PARTICIPANTS MAINTAIN CIVILITY AND CONSIDERATION FOR OTHERS WHEN CONDUCTING DISCUSSIONS IN THE CHAT ROOM.

Sunday, January 3, 2016

There are TWO STAGES to this week's chat, beginning with an early stage at 8.00PM BRITISH TIME, to accommodate our European members, although anyone from anywhere is very welcome. .Click on the link below to find the equivalent time in your area.

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For Tonight's informal topic, I thought we could talk about how the ways in which DD or D/s has noteably changed our relationships for the better (or the worse) and what plans and aims we have for the New Year.

choose your name and colour, fill in password: "chitchat1" (EVERYONE USES THE SAME PASSWORD TO GET INTO CHAT) and click on "Enter Room". When the new Chat Room screen appears, click on "Join Chat" and you should be all ready to go! ALERT! IF YOU CAN'T GET INTO CHAT THE FIRST TIME YOU PUT IN THE PASSWORD, TRY PUTTING IT IN AGAIN!

~~~~~~~~~~~~THERE IS NO REQUIREMENT OR EXPECTATION THAT WE WILL ALL AGREE ON EVERYTHING AND IT IS THE VARIETY OF EXPERIENCE AND UNDERSTANDING THAT MAKES OUR DISCUSSIONS INTERESTING AND PROFITABLE. HOWEVER WE DO ASK THAT PARTICIPANTS MAINTAIN CIVILITY AND CONSIDERATION FOR OTHERS WHEN CONDUCTING DISCUSSIONS IN THE CHAT ROOM.

Sunday, December 6, 2015

There are TWO STAGES to this week's chat, beginning with an early stage at 8.00PM BRITISH TIME, to accommodate our European members, although anyone from anywhere is very welcome. .Click on the link below to find the equivalent time in your area.

choose your name and colour, fill in password: "chitchat1" (EVERYONE USES THE SAME PASSWORD TO GET INTO CHAT) and click on "Enter Room". When the new Chat Room screen appears, click on "Join Chat" and you should be all ready to go! ALERT! IF YOU CAN'T GET INTO CHAT THE FIRST TIME YOU PUT IN THE PASSWORD, TRY PUTTING IT IN AGAIN!

~~~~~~~~~~~~THERE IS NO REQUIREMENT OR EXPECTATION THAT WE WILL ALL AGREE ON EVERYTHING AND IT IS THE VARIETY OF EXPERIENCE AND UNDERSTANDING THAT MAKES OUR DISCUSSIONS INTERESTING AND PROFITABLE. HOWEVER WE DO ASK THAT PARTICIPANTS MAINTAIN CIVILITY AND CONSIDERATION FOR OTHERS WHEN CONDUCTING DISCUSSIONS IN THE CHAT ROOM.

Sunday, November 29, 2015

There are TWO STAGES to this week's chat, beginning with an early stage at 8.00PM BRITISH TIME, to accommodate our European members, although anyone from anywhere is very welcome. .Click on the link below to find the equivalent time in your area.

choose your name and colour, fill in password: "chitchat1" (EVERYONE USES THE SAME PASSWORD TO GET INTO CHAT) and click on "Enter Room". When the new Chat Room screen appears, click on "Join Chat" and you should be all ready to go! ALERT! IF YOU CAN'T GET INTO CHAT THE FIRST TIME YOU PUT IN THE PASSWORD, TRY PUTTING IT IN AGAIN!

~~~~~~~~~~~~THERE IS NO REQUIREMENT OR EXPECTATION THAT WE WILL ALL AGREE ON EVERYTHING AND IT IS THE VARIETY OF EXPERIENCE AND UNDERSTANDING THAT MAKES OUR DISCUSSIONS INTERESTING AND PROFITABLE. HOWEVER WE DO ASK THAT PARTICIPANTS MAINTAIN CIVILITY AND CONSIDERATION FOR OTHERS WHEN CONDUCTING DISCUSSIONS IN THE CHAT ROOM.

Sunday, November 1, 2015

There are TWO STAGES to this week's chat, beginning with an early stage at 8.00PM BRITISH TIME, to accommodate our European members, although anyone from anywhere is very welcome. .Click on the link below to find the equivalent time in your area.

choose your name and colour, fill in password: "chitchat1" (EVERYONE USES THE SAME PASSWORD TO GET INTO CHAT) and click on "Enter Room". When the new Chat Room screen appears, click on "Join Chat" and you should be all ready to go! ALERT! IF YOU CAN'T GET INTO CHAT THE FIRST TIME YOU PUT IN THE PASSWORD, TRY PUTTING IT IN AGAIN!

~~~~~~~~~~~~THERE IS NO REQUIREMENT OR EXPECTATION THAT WE WILL ALL AGREE ON EVERYTHING AND IT IS THE VARIETY OF EXPERIENCE AND UNDERSTANDING THAT MAKES OUR DISCUSSIONS INTERESTING AND PROFITABLE. HOWEVER WE DO ASK THAT PARTICIPANTS MAINTAIN CIVILITY AND CONSIDERATION FOR OTHERS WHEN CONDUCTING DISCUSSIONS IN THE CHAT ROOM.

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Welcome to the blog page for the 'DISCIPLINE & LOVE' all free domestic discipline discussion forums and information site.

D & L was designed to provide a safe and secure place for people of 21 years and older to explore and share their expectations, experience and knowledge of consensual domestic discipline and domination and submission as a means to improve and enhance a loving adult relationship.

Whether you are simply exploring the concept as a possibility, are new to DD, or have some level of experience, you are welcome at the 'D & L' forums.

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