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At at safe moment, ask your friend, coworker or family member a question that applies to the situation, such as:

Is everything ok at home?

I noticed that you were injured. Did someone do that to you?

Your partner seems to be making you sad/scared. Is everything ok?

SUPPORT

Listen, and believe what they tell you.

Say "I am concerned about your safety."

Remind them that no deserves to be abused.

Don't judge. Remember, it is very hard - and often dangerous - to leave an abusive relationship.

Provide practical help, such as a safe place to stay or help with the children, if you can.

Be patient; it can take a long time for somone to get help or leave a relationship.

Encourage them to call our 24 hour Helpline at (206) 522-9472. Our Helpline isn't just for those experienceing abuse, others can call to get more resources and tips on how they can help a friend, colleague, or family member.