5 reasons you don't really want to win all that lottery money

Do you find yourself dreaming of the day your lucky lottery
numbers are called? Or fantasizing about what numbers lurk under the silver bar of
that scratch-off ticket you impulse-bought while gassing up?

The lure of a $500 million Powerball jackpot
has millions in search of, well, millions. And while it's fun to daydream about
what having more money than you can count would be like, winning the lottery
might not be all it's cracked up to be.

A windfall of widely publicized winnings that finally allows
you the luxury of affording a trip around the world, a fancy car or flat-screen
TVs for every room in your house just might ruin your life.

Here's a look at the ugliness landing all that loot can
bring to your life. And a reminder that being mega rich isn't all that it's
cracked up to be.

1. Your friends will take
advantage

Once word gets out that you had the winning ticket, you can
expect everyone to try to cozy up to you, from the college roommate you haven't heard from in 20 years
and the kid who tortured you on the kindergarten playground, to fellow
carpool parents and "friends" you barely recognize. It's common for
lottery winners to see a flood of online and in-person friend requests that
range from wanting to share a meal to suggesting a weekend getaway to relax or
catch up. Of course, these "buddies" all hope that you'll ultimately pick up
the tab for their good time.

After she was one of a pool of 12 people who won the Missouri
Powerball in 2006 and split $224 million, Sandra Hayes had to rethink her
social network. "It became necessary to be careful about who I make friends
with because some people can be cruel and have alternative motives for
befriending you. Some feel that just because you have money, you owe them
money," she says.

"When I would hang out with friends and we would stop to get
something to eat, they would order their food and then announce they did not
have the money to pay, which happened a few times," says Hayes. She quickly figured
out her friends' plan and stopped going to eat with them. "I eventually stopped
hanging out with them altogether."

Lottery winners get pleas from pals and hopeful BFFs in need
of a personal bailout, too.

While it may be counterintuitive, a large influx of wealth
without proper planning can easily cause people to forget the need to save for
the future.

--
Dan White
Daniel A. White and Associates

Hayes says one of her friends even expected her to rescue
their family from their serious financial woes. "I did not rescue them thanks
to the advice of my financial adviser, who told me if I bailed them out they
would continue to sponge off me. If I did not draw the line, I would go broke,"
she says.

2. Your relationship
could fail

Money woes can put a strain on a relationship. But those who
come into big windfalls find coming into a lot of money all at once can also overtax a relationship.

Alexey Bulankov, a certified financial planner who's worked
with a family who won a lottery jackpot saw this devastation firsthand. "Following
a string of unfortunate financial decisions, the family fell apart,"
he says. Bulankov says the husband, who was emotionally unprepared for the
enormous responsibility and pressure of winning the lottery, took to gambling
and womanizing to deal with the troubles adjusting to his new lifestyle. When his wife found out, she retaliated with vindictive shopping.

Eventually, they talked and sorted it out, says Bulankov. "Needless
to say, the level of trust was not the same and the fighting and blame-placing for
the squandering of their fortune became routine occurrence in this once tightly
knit family," says Bulankov.

3. You'll have an increased
risk of bankruptcy

Given the fact that you'd have enough dough to clear up your
debt, bankruptcy seems a long shot after winning the lottery. But experts say
lottery winners actually are at greater risk of bankruptcy.

"Winners suddenly have significantly more credit available
to them than they ever had. That makes them more likely to make purchases on
credit, rather than use cash," says Scott Dillon, a senior bankruptcy attorney
at Tully Rinckey in Albany, N.Y. "Winners are much more likely to make
significant impulse purchases far beyond their previous means. So the
purchase amounts will be much higher, making the interest accrued on those
credit cards much higher. And because they don't stop to think the money could
run out, winners don't generally think they need to create or live by a monthly
budget."

"While it may be counterintuitive, a large influx of wealth
without proper planning can easily cause people to forget the need to save for
the future," adds Dan White, founder and president of Daniel A. White &
Associates, a financial planning firm in Glens Mills, Pa., that specializes
in asset protection and transitional and retirement planning.

4. You'll have to fight
off a host of long-lost family members

Jeff Motske, a financial planner and president of Trilogy
Financial Services, headquartered in Huntington Beach, Calif., says lottery winners often become targets for long-lost
relatives who knock on the door with one hand and hold the other palm up. Somehow they think when one family member wins the lotto,
the whole family wins the lotto. "A family member who wins the lottery
will appear as a better option than a bank for fast cash that comes with the
price tag of little to no interest paid and no application process," says
Motske.

Given all the potential woes that come with winning a big lottery jackpot, would you rather not win?

Given the hassles sudden wealth brings, I would rather not win the lottery.

So many winners find themselves fielding pleas for help with
a pile of credit card or medical debt, foreclosure or car repairs.

"The majority of my family members treated me the same as
they did before I won the lottery, however, there were those family members
who suffered the entitlement syndrome," says Hayes. "A few of my family members with whom I did not have
a previous relationship with before winning the lottery came out of the
woodwork and started calling me to butter me up just for money."

Hayes says she faced her share of bad experiences, including
family members borrowing money that they felt they didn't have to pay back. "Some
family members I gave a monetary gift for a special occasion thought I should
have given more," says Hayes.

5. You'll be a target
for a litany of lawsuits and scams

Hoping to carve out a chunk of your fortune, Motske says lottery winners are often targets for
bogus lawsuits because everyone starts to come after them. "If the winnings are
public knowledge, winners can bet their phone will never stop ringing. Winners hear
from investors, reputable firms and scammers, and every planner/schemer under
the sun," he says.

They also need to be wary of people who purposely "slip and
fall" on their property, including claims of winners rear-ending them and so
on. That includes contractors, babysitters, friends and family who visit you,
borrow your car, etc.

Hayes says she endured some less-than-honest business deals.
"Some people I dealt with were honest, but others were not. I experienced contractors
changing their work bids to a higher price after they found out I won the
lottery," she says. "Now I will only work with people who have been referred from
trusted associates, friends or family."

Updated: November 28, 2012

Join the discussion

We encourage an active and insightful conversation among our users. Please help us keep our community civil and respectful. For your safety, do not disclose confidential or personal information such as bank account numbers or social security numbers. Anything you post may be disclosed, published, transmitted or reused.

If you are commenting using a Facebook account, your profile information may be displayed with your comment depending on your privacy settings. By leaving the 'Post to Facebook' box selected, your comment will be published to your Facebook profile in addition to the space below.

The editorial content on CreditCards.com is not sponsored by any bank or credit card issuer. The journalists in the editorial department are separate from the company's business operations. The comments posted below are not provided, reviewed or approved by any company mentioned in our editorial content. Additionally, any companies mentioned in the content do not assume responsibility to ensure that all posts and/or questions are answered.

Three most recent Credit account management stories:

How to fight phantom-debt collectors – Callers with details about you and your debts can be convincing, so it pays to know how to tell a legitimate collector from a phantom-debt scam ...

Did you like this story? Then sign up for CreditCards.com’s weekly e-newsletter for the latest news, advice, articles and tips. It's FREE. Once a week you will receive the top credit card industry news in your inbox. Sign up now!