Keep true to your own style and personality …girls who wear aggressive asymmetric earrings and multiple studs with severe haircuts have that Miley Cyrus rebellious ” I’ve lost my way in life ” look that is not actually appealing to most men ( gentlemen ) . Unless you are a chain smoking wild rock starlet why portray that image ? There is something so rare and refreshing about women who give a look of purity,refinement and classic femininity. Don’t give that up if you have it.