Its nothing wrong with changing, BUT the person has to respect your opinion enough to care to change and have the motivation and follow through to make it happen. In my mind boyfriend versus husband is different.

Yeah I agree with the bolded. But we made some of the changes before we got married. Some things had to change before that was going to happen. And they did. The changes weren't temporary or just for him and vice versa. They were changes that would have benefited us in any relationship if we were never married.

People watch too many romantic comedies and get things mixed up. If you say to some people well why you with him if he do ______, then you hating and don't let you not have a bf at the time then You a angry lonely bird. When people start discussing their relationship with me my face gets blank and I go to my happy place. It's like you know he cheating, got bad credit, a iffy job and two baby mommas wtf you want me to say ?

Are you the poster that had the thread about your man cheating and wanting him to call the other girl? Or am I mistaken?

Mistaken

I ain't bout that life of sitting there asking no fool to call the side vagina.

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