I'm new here and decided to post when I read the detail about your Psychopath's reliance on texting as the primary mode of communication. (I am a lesbian, too, and am just getting out of the mind-boggling, brainwashing experience, of "the world according to the Psychopath". thankfully, it has not been a very long experience, though i was not able to dodge the marriage-bullet.)

i'd be very curious to know how you understood this coercion of texting over any other form of communication...