I Want To
Share My Wife With Another Man

Question: I read your horny hot wife story
about the woman who wanted another man or two. But in my case, I am
the instigator. My wife is somewhat interested, but feels like it
would be cheating. This may sound awful, but I actually fantasize
about her going out on dates with other men - and coming home "full"
for a another round. Is this weird? Is it normal? Do other men feel
this way?

Answer:
Many
Florida swingers share this fantasy; others are repelled by it. Is
wanting to share your wife with other men normal/weird/awful? This
is really a concern for relationship security.

When two people agree on where the
boundaries of their relationship lie, who are we or anyone else, for
that matter, to tell you otherwise? Now, if a person wants to abuse
another in a selfish manner that is not a shared fantasy, that's one
thing. But wanting to share your wife and play with her after the
fact - as opposed to participating in the moment - that is something
the two of you must agree upon.

If either of you dishonestly relate to
each other, then that is not acceptable behavior. Unless you think
being lied to is normal. Few people would think that it is. After
all, swinging is the opposite of dishonest affairs - it is open,
honest and transparent.

Thus your wife share fantasy has
two components: Your comfort and that of your wife. Your comfort
is clear. Her comfort level is not: She has a reason for her
concern. What is it? We have run into this issue before, and
came to a consensus that you need greater dialog. She may be
concerned that you may change your opinion of her, that she may be
tempted to cheat rather than share, or that you may want the same
and she is not prepared to go there. The whole idea may excite her
as a fantasy, yet the reality is too frightening. In fact, this may
be her real concern: She may believe that you think you want
to share your wife with another man, but that if it happens, you may
not find it as exciting as you think you will.

After several years of contests,
SwingLifeStyleremains your best bet for finding single men - and couples
who play separately - for genuine
swingers who have been certified by other members. You can also contact those other members for
references, suggestions, and ask how they have dealt with the same
situation. We could recommend a "one size fits all" answer for you,
but you and your wife deserve several different opinions so that you
can make a decision that fits your relationship needs. Note:
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to create a User Name and Password before you can start using the
website. A trial membership is free.

The whole "share my wife with another
man" thing is not new, but it has surged in popularity over the last
couple of years. Some attribute the newfound popularity as a way to
"get the wife involved" in the swing lifestyle. For long time
lifestyle members, it is actually startling to some, normal to
others, and threatening to several. Most long timers got into it
when the only threesome contemplated was a couple and a unicorn
(single female). Now that single females have come out of the
woodwork and women now dominate the decision making in most
couples' swinging activities, the whole lifestyle is undergoing a
transformation.

Florida Social is a swingers
club that respects diversity of choices. Just don't ask us to
condone dishonesty and lying. Your wife has done you a favor by
speaking her mind on this issue. Return the favor. Non-sexual
affection, open and honest communication, and a willingness to be
patient will make for a more fulfilling relationship.

STEP 1: Create a
SwingLifeStyle Account, if you don't already have one.

STEP 2: Login, go to the Event Calendar to RSVP or start
meeting local swingers right away. This party will sell out, and when the tickets are gone, they are gone. People were turned away at the Halloween party, and you don't want to miss the biggest event of the year!

You MUST have or create a FREE user account to RSVP for all events or
meet other local swingers.