Finding her attractive is perfectly fine, but this — these comments — is not finding her attractive. It’s placing her on a pedestal for not being thin. It’s objectifying to her because your comments are making her an idol of what a girl should look like. Its no better than what every other beauty industry does. It puts out an image of the ideal that they think women should follow. But just because this is a more achievable goal does not make it any better. Not only is it harmful to the average woman, it’s also incredibly harmful and demeaning to girls who are naturally very small. Just because someone does not look like this picture does not make them less of a human being. Treating plus size women like such does make you a better person. You don’t get social justice brownie points for finding her more attractive, sorry, no, doesn’t work that way. Rant over.