My ex boyfriend trusted me because I never went through his phone and medicine cabinet, I told him, I didn't have to. I knew everything about him without touching the phone, including the medications he was on.

sunnys husband is cheating on her. I just know it. with my partner we are open and don't care about looking at one anothers phones. So on somedays we will switch phones because mine has more data than his and he is able to have headphones in at work and its cheaper to do that with my phone. if you cant be THIS open about your phones in your relationship there is something wrong with YOUR relationship.

If you know your wife will NEVER check then you know you have a way. 1 out of 2 couples statistically has a cheater. If you go 10 + years and you haven’t cheated then it’s your partner.*Sometimes the cheating happens before marriage

Morelia Ayala I view more as a right to privacy. It’s none of his business what I am discussing with my friends and family and it’s none of my business what he discusses with his friends and family. we are not one person just cause we got married. If he is cheating I will find out I don’t need to invade his privacy or look through his phone. Lies have a way of coming out in one way or another

I've been with my guy for 11 years, and I have never checked his phone. Thing is, he often leaves his phone in my presence and when we are laying in bed, watching TV or whatever, if he is texting, emailing, paying bills, etc, he always seems to have his phone's screen turned in such a way that I would be able to see what he is doing. I usually look away, unless he specifically tells me to look. As a matter of fact, it wasn't until the summer of 2016 that I finally convinced him to put a password on his phone! Prior to last summer, he said he couldn't be bothered punching in a pin all the time. Thing is he lost his phone last summer while I was driving. Luckily, he was able to find it 15 hours later at night time. He did risk someone finding the phone and accessing his info. I still don't think he cared. He did finally got the password because he would periodically pocket dial people, me included. So, I said a password would help stop that (or reduce the frequently). So technically, I got him to lock me out of his phone! :-D

+Neptunes7485 How am I annoying? I jokingly/sarcastically said what I did about locking me out of his phone because it seems like some women need to see what is going on in their guy's phone when I don't. He has never done anything to cause me to distrust him. Also, as I said in my previous post that even when he is using his phone in front of me, I look away unless he specifically tells me to look. I am not at all down with being nosy. Besides, he always has his desktop logged-in, in case I need to do something, but I never use it because I don't want to be nosy. Beside, I would rather use my laptop, anyway.

His phone and all of his social media and financial accounts are open to me. I extend him the same courtesy. Transparency works well for us. HOWEVER, I also INSIST he clears his history if he's going to watch porn....I don't want to deal with my own insecurities and neither does he ;)

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Even if you dont check your SOs phone some signs they are hiding something are if they never let the phone out of their side, dont want you to look at it, put it away quickly when you come in, flinch when you reach for it or pretend to etc. It's so obvious unless they are shifty and have a second phone they only use when they're somewhere else so if they're too forthcoming it could be overcompensating..