"Sex
Confessions" is a series featuring your naughtiest bedroom secrets and
fantasies. Some will sound familiar, others may give you ideas, some
will turn you on, and some are dark and twisted. You might want to sit
down for this.

Once you're married for a certain amount of years, for some your sex
life could wane, maybe even get a little boring and expected. This is
definitely not the case for Cara*, a 40-something mom of two, who has just unleashed her inner sex kitten.
Her husband Roger* is certainly not complaining. It all started one
night recently when both kids were away at camp and they found
themselves in an empty house with a bottle of wine. I'll let Cara take
it from here.

I've always thought that Roger and I had a great
sex life. We did, and we do. I've always been satisfied. But we've been
together for over 10 years and we've probably done it all a few times
and nothing could really shock us or make us have that new relationship
feeling. Or so I thought. I'm not sure what's going on with me or us but
things are crazy good.

About a month or so ago, Roger and I had a bottle of wine without
eating any dinner while the kids were away at camp. We had the house to
ourselves and were just picking on some chips and drinking wine while
trying to decide what to make for dinner. We ended up drinking more
wine, not eating, and making out in the kitchen. Something felt new
between us. I was sure it was the wine since I rarely drink. But that
newness carried on to the next week and the next even without me having a
sip. That night we tried some out of the norm stuff.
He went down on me for longer than he usually does. He even put a finger
in my butt. Things we hadn't done in a really, really long time and
with a focus that we were setting time aside just for us. We had music
on, lit candles ... all that romantic stuff that sort of went by the
wayside long ago.

That night changed everything. I'm wearing lingerie now ... again. We
make more time for each other and for making love. We are trying things
I never thought I'd try. I love it. I need it. I feel sexually
energized and amazing. So does Roger. And it's obviously brought us
closer. We are more intimate and loving to each other even when we are
not having sex. It's exactly what our marriage needed -- exactly what we
both needed.

so jealous! i can relate to cara but my husband is not roger, unfortunately. after years of marriage and a lackluster sex life i've confronted my husband a few times that i want to spice things up in the bedroom and explore some things. time and time again i've been turned down. i think i've given up at this point. sex, particularly good sex, is a pipe dream for me now. :(

11 years marriage/25 year relationship, and we are constantly going through the rollercoaster of settling into a quiet, and then things pick up and our relationship is renewed again. It's one of the great things about a long-term relationship!

We both are constantly wanting to try new things. Nothing extreme, but if one of us wants to try something, the other is open about trying it as well. We have done things and enjoy things that I NEVER would have imagined anyone enjoying, much less me.

If women don't hit their sexual peek until their 40's, SO is in trouble! lol I could have sex several times a day and still want more. SO makes sure I orgasm at least once, but often 2-3 times.