The remote screen sharing feature of OS X is extremely convenient. I can access my office machine from home when I need some software that can only be installed on on-campus computers.

However, I noticed that if I log in to the office machine through screen sharing, everything I see on the shared screen is also mirrored on the machine's physical screen. Logging in using screen sharing unlocks the machine's physical keyboard and mouse as well.

Is it possible to avoid this security risk if someone can see or manipulate my Mac while I am not in the office?

Is it possible to access a remote computer through a graphical interface (not terminal) without exposing directly that machine to anyone who is in the office at that time? Of course they could steal the machine, but I don't want them snooping on grades or email or whatever when I unlock the screen remotely to access the Mac.

When I connect via the first method, the screen comes on and it prompts for the alternate user's password. After a few seconds it times out and goes back to sleep, but then wakes up again any time there is activity in the VNC session. Aside from alerting anyone in the room of activity, this also could cause wear on the backlight. Is there some way to disable this?
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MichaelJan 5 '14 at 5:21