Talk it out with the person who opened the package and try to come to a understanding with the person and if he or she gets mad give him or her some time to calm down and let him or her come to you dont rush as this will only make things worse you dont know until you try also you could open a P.O BOX have all your stuff sent there so nobody knows and if the shipping is through ups when they deliver the package dont answer the door and take the sorry we missed you notice and pick up your stuff directly I hope this helps