- when she knows that you love her, she's happy. Yet, she never shows it. Because she doesn't want you to feel that she feels the same way. Some women feel the same way, but some don't.

- when you care for her, she feels good. But when it gets too much, she hates it. You better watch your moves; don't overdo it.

- when you worry about her, she likes it. But, once again; don't overdo it. 'Cause it'll turn the 'like' become 'dislike'.

- when you give her gifts, she's happy. She wants to give you gift also, but she doesn't want you to feel that she feels the same way (in case she doesn't). Yet, she still wants you to know that she's happy. Some women let you know, but some don't.

- when you keep sending her SMS, she feels that she is loved. But woman's mood doesn't always stay still. It changes everytime. Sometimes it looks like she loves it, but sometimes it looks like she hates it. Deep inside she wants you to know that she never really 'hates' it. It's the mood, once again.

- when you're no longer showing her that you care and worry, she feels that something is missing. It happens both ways: whether she feels the same way or she doesn't feel the same way. Yeah, though she doesn't feel the same way, she can still missing it.

- when she knows that you already gave up on her, there are two possibilities: * if she doesn't feel the same way, that would make her so selfish. * if she actually feels the same way, that would make her realize it.Fact is: both can make her GALAU.

Problem is: between those two, it is DIFFICULT for a woman to find out WHICH ONE that she is FACING.