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Mom wakes up to sick toddler vomiting, never expecting new boyfriend's reaction

Kristina Kuzmic was having a very rough night, so she called her new boyfriend late at night and asked him to come to her house.

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Mom recalls the moving moment she realized she was in love with her husband

By Kayla Dalsfoist

December 1, 2017

For most couples, it's difficult to pinpoint the exact moment when they realized they were in love. Of course, there are those rare stories claiming "love at first sight," but the vast majority of relationships require time to develop that everlasting connection and the process of falling in love happens over a vague, indeterminate period. Kristina Kuzmic, however, knows exactly when she tipped over the precipice and fell in love with her husband, Philip.

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In the heartfelt story below, Kuzmic shares her moment of realization, which occurred during a particularly challenging night:

This is an old photo, but just curious...how many parents can relate to this?

"I remember when I first started having feelings for my now husband. The stronger the feelings got, the more I fought them. After a rough divorce a couple of years prior, I was done with this whole love thing. I was perfectly content with my personal romance with cynicism, and I wasn’t going to allow anyone to get in the way of that.

"But Philip was different. He wasn’t just different from any man I had ever dated, he was different from any man I had ever known. He was selfless, and patient, and never once did he pity me. No matter how weak or pathetic or defeated I felt at that stage in my life, he saw my strength and my light, and I wanted so badly to see myself in the same way that he saw me.

"I kept pushing him away, and giving him reason after reason not to be with me. From the very beginning, I aired all my trash, all my flaws, all my drama – I put it right in front of him, sure that he would run. But he stayed. And he embraced the hard stuff, the really, really sad stuff, the complicated and the exhausting – he embraced it all.

"After a while, when I was secure in my feelings for him, I introduced him to my children. We never showed any affection in front of them, not even holding hands or hugging. In my kids’ eyes, Philip was just another friend of mine.

"A few weeks after he met the kids, I had a particularly hard night. I was sick, and my 3-year-old woke up in the middle of the night throwing up all over the carpet, which, of course, woke my 5-year-old up, who screamed and cried in exhaustion. We were a mess, all three of us. It was one of those single-mom moments where I thought I would go insane. I looked insane, probably smelled insane, and my head was pounding from all the screaming. I was trying to calm my children and clean up my daughter and the carpet, and I thought, “Why would any man sign up for this?”

"I called Philip and woke him up. “Come over. Come over right now. You say you want me, you say you want my life with everything that comes along with it, then come over.” He was at my apartment within 20 minutes. The kids were still screaming, and I was on all fours on the floor, scrubbing the carpet. I expected a look of shock or disgust, maybe even anger that I had woken him up in the middle of the night for this. But instead, without missing a beat, he got down on that floor, grabbed the rag out of my hand, sent me to bed, and cleaned up my daughter’s vomit. Then he tucked my children in and got them to sleep. And then he tucked me in, kissed my forehead, and said, “Yes, I want this. I want every part of it. All three of you.”

"It’s been almost seven years since that night, and Philip is still quick to clean up the vomit, to stay up late talking my pre-teen through a rough day, to take my daughter’s phone calls at work when she needs help with a math problem, and to love them unconditionally as if they were his own.

"This man, this wonderful man had the nerve to come along and interrupt my bitterness. I am forever grateful to him for that. And so are my children."

Kuzmic is the winner of the 2011 television competition “Oprah’s Search for the Next TV Star,” and has amassed a huge online following for her charming personality and thoughtful yet hilarious insights on food, family, and life in general. This blog post, titled "Philip," can also be found on Kuzmic's website.