Advice 1: How to stop being jealous

In order to understand why we feel jealous, you should understand what jealousy is. Jealousy is doubt, fear to lose.

Therefore, if you are not sure about the feelings of a loved one, you don't trust him and were jealous.

Trust, but verify! Even if your relationship is just wonderful, and still you do not believe, because sometimes even do not trust, you will certainly find a way to mess with the jealousy of not only yourself, but your loved one.

Learn to trust your partner. Do not be afraid, Fear destroys feelings and gives self-doubt.

You are sure that your loved one is experiencing the same feelings for you as you are to him? Sooner or later he will get tired of your constant jealousy and you're even going to lose.

In order to stop being jealous, think only about the positive. Don't let any chance of jealousy overwhelm you.

Often you are jealous and look at everyone as potential rivals or opponents. Isn't that proof that your loved one is with you, then he don't need anyone else but you. Love yourself, you are no worse than others, even better, since he chose you. Convince yourself that you are the most suitable couple for your partner, he will not find. And to convince partner that you are the best couple for him is valid, try to be the best.

Jealous just weak. Do not feel jealous of people who are confident in themselves.

Jealousy is sometimes mistakenly referred to as a sense of ownership. Love is not the market, the right to property you are buying.

If you love, love unselfishly, and do not show your ego. Your loved one has the right to freedom.

No need to call him every five minutes to ask where he is. It can be really busy. If considered necessary, he will tell you what he was doing. Or maybe he just protects you from unnecessary troubles and worries.

Arranging jealousy, and accusing your partner of all sins, you can only hurt. After all, evidence of infidelity you do not, there is only a baseless suspicion.

To be jealous and to suspect infidelity of the partner may be those who do change or can change.

If a person is able to change, no scenes of jealousy and scandals will not stop him.

Do not waste your nerves.

Jealousy kills love. But how to stop being jealous?

Stop beating yourself up about the constant speculation. Better take some interesting work to distract myself. Make new interesting acquaintances, it is a great way to make jealous your partner.

To get rid of jealousy, you need to trust your partner.

Remember, if the reason for jealousy not something to be jealous silly, but when you already have some later.

Advice 2 : You have to deal with jealousy?

Jealousy is considered a negative character trait. However, without it, no relationship, even if the person claims not to be jealous. Each is required to present this feature. The statement "Jealous - it means love" not without thoroughly?

In the event of even a cursory relationship, when there are no declarations of love and fidelity to each other, always very hurt, see if his chosen one next to the other person. And if there is a vow in the love and faithfulness! Maybe jealousy can be compared to the feeling of ownership is only mine! There is another side, when people are completely indifferent to the manifestations of attention to their partner to other women (men). That is absolutely not experiencing jealousy, so he is very confident, or he doesn't care. He's just indifferent to her chosen.

The distinction of male and female jealousy

Male and female jealousy is done are two different concepts. The woman that sees that her man pay attention to other women, there are many thoughts: rival may prove to be more interesting or more beautiful; why he looks at her; he should look only at me; perhaps they know each other. It is unlikely that it will come to mind that her Beau gallant and just lucky for her that he belongs only to her. And externally, it will not show and that is jealous, maybe just a little hint.

The man who sees that his beloved pay attention to other men will think: look, look she's mine (if for no other reason to pay attention: open neckline, very short skirt, sheer blouse or other striking manifestations of appearance).

How to deal with jealousy? And is it necessary?

Sure! If the relationship is important for both, you need to negotiate those boundaries beyond which it is possible to hurt the elect. Perhaps for one absolutely irrelevant flirtation, and for the other implies a collapse of confidence. For dealing with jealousy necessary love and trust each other. Be careful about your choice, and there may be a small gesture, a kind word or compliment will extinguish the raging fire of jealousy.

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