ugh, I never can finish a book. I read a book halfway then start a new one, then read a quarter of that then start a new one, then I want to read some other book. And by that point I have 5 books that are only partially read. lol, I always do this.

So far I realize I've erected boundaries where there were none before, and I also realized there are still many areas where I need to do work! I still have a lot of anxiety about facing people when they are violating my boundaries. I am an adult convert to Christianity, so the "doormat == good Christian" mentality the authors talk about is alien to me. I haven't seen that mentality within my church either.