My BW and I have been separated for a little over a month now.
I have been staying at our business until I rent a house in November.

She has stated this was a deal breaker for her and she does not want to R.

We have a 6 year old son and I see her just about everyday. I was dropping my son off from school and spending time there for an hour or so helping out around the house. I was getting ready to go but she said I could stay for dinner and said something about "false hope". I told her that I didn't have any expectations and that I enjoy spending time with her and my son.

I told her that I want to stay too long because I wanted to be considerate and respect her boundaries. She said something about her being sad later.

It's not over until the D papers have been signed and even then, there could still be a chance. Continue to work on yourself and be the best father for your son. Consistency in your actions!

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knightsbff♀ 36853Member # 36853

Posted: 7:04 PM, September 23rd (Monday), 2013

There are some couples here reconciling or reconciled even after being D for several years.

Keep working on yourself and respecting her boundaries.

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D-day 27 Aug 2012. Kids 25, 17, 13. 2 dogs.

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Taurus517♂ 37958Member # 37958

Posted: 8:29 PM, September 23rd (Monday), 2013

Noglamour, this is going to take sometime for your BS to decide if its time to R. You will have the good and the bad. Sometimes it will seem like everything is going well and then majority of the time they will be sad and angry. You just have to give them time because it's no longer on your time. Just continue doing your best and take it day by day, but definitely still be there for your BS and son.