With the exception of Heather Dubrow, who is a bridesmaidat Bravo's insistence, Tamra is playing hardball about who will and will not be receiving a so-called coveted invitation. And she's even leaving Vicki Gunvalson dangling!

Kicking things off are Tamra Barney and Eddie Judge who are headed to Las Vegas this weekend for a joint Bachelor-Bachelorette party weekend. I hope Eddie left his bike at home…

The Real Housewives of Orange County star already had a 'faux' Bachelorette party last year which was basically a meet-n-greet for fans. “That was just an appearance,’” a source tells Wetpaint of Tamra's previous party, “but this weekend is the official one.” Eddie and Tamra's wedding is about a month away.

Tamra and the cast of RHOC also filmed a girls trip/bachelorette weekend for this season's show.