(Original post by little_red_sox)
You sound like an insecure, possessive wierdo, to be honest.

I am not sure I will be quick to pass a judgment like this... Try dating someone whose ex is still in the picture and then pass judgments...

OP, although personally, I wouldn't have complained because I personally dont like feeling vulnerable and I don't show my emotions often, I however understand how you feel.....The best approach to situations like this, in my opinion, is to act nonchalant about it and be open minded..The biggest mistake you can make at this point is to "FORCE" her to stop contacting her ex....

My question for you is , how long ago they did break up... Regardless of anything, just make sure you dont FORCE her to stop having contacts with her ex.....If she doesn't see any reason to "limit" her contacts with her ex, then just take it like that...Be open minded and personally, I wouldn't expect too much from the relationship ( especially if she is still emotionally attached to her ex)....

(Original post by int_applicant)
I am not sure I will be quick to pass a judgment like this... Try dating someone whose ex is still in the picture and then pass judgments...

OP, although personally, I wouldn't have complained because I personally dont like feeling vulnerable and I don't show my emotions often, I however understand how you feel.....The best approach to situations like this, in my opinion, is to act nonchalant about it and be open minded..The biggest mistake you can make at this point is to "FORCE" her to stop contacting her ex....

My question for you is , how long ago they did break up... Regardless of anything, just make sure you dont FORCE her to stop having contacts with her ex.....If she doesn't see any reason to "limit" her contacts with her ex, then just take it like that...Be open minded and personally, I wouldn't expect too much from the relationship ( especially if she is still emotionally attached to her ex)....

Goodluck......

They broke up 3-4 months ago I guess.

I think I have already forced her to stop talking to her ex , lets see whenever she talks to him next, what do they talk about.