i hate being jealous!!

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Original Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Femalei need help i`m always jealous about my boyfriend if a girl tries to pick him up or if he talk to a girl or anything i think it has something to do with my parents cuz they were toghether for ever and then my dad just left her for some other chick after 20 years me and my boyfriend have been dating for 3 almost 4 years we are living toghether now and i hate being jealous i always get mad and crabby about everything little thing and i HATE it so please give me advice i dont want to screw up this realationship
Thax

User Submitted Advice from a 21-30 year old MaleGive them an inch

I think that is ridiculous advice. Give them an inch and they take a mile every time. So what happens if the man cheats after giving them this freedom. What a devastating blow that would be. How is someone supposed to recover from that? Putting all your trust into one person, just to have your heart crushed into a thousand pieces. I say never let your guard down.