Hi there
I love the idea of this thread. I enjoy the connection with a good conversation to a complete stranger as much as everything that will come from a good chemistry

I like the idea of exciting a woman with my words and painting a nice picture in her mind.
I also just enjoy making it more that just a sexual thing but I will admit the thought of a woman smiling from my voice in her ear turns me on jjust as much as the next guy I am sure

I am definitely into exciting all the senses and it gives me great pleasure to please a woman and to keep her entertained when we talk no matter what it is about.

I would love to chat about anything and see where it goes but I am an flirt

1) Are you the quiet, talkative, dominate or laid back type? Are you typically shy or outgoing?

2) Do you like to lead or wait for her/him to lead?

3) What's a trait you look for in a phone buddy?

4)What's your favorite food? haha

This is a great idea ...

1. I think I am pretty outgoing and talkative, but I can't tolerate a one-sided conversation for long. I am cool with (in fact prefer) getting to know someone a bit and getting some good banter going before things get dirty, but if someone is too shy to hold up their end it feels like an interrogation trying to get her to talk.

2. I don't mind leading but again, it's give and take with me. I can take charge sexually and be a bit dominant, but not really into roleplay on the phone. Prefer we talk about what we like and if we are a good match the scenarios will take care of themselves.

3. I mostly look for someone who is turned on by the same things and it comfortable enough to keep up talking dirty. I don't mind taking charge but not just because she is too self-conscious to talk much.

4. Wings (I used to live in Buffalo, after all ...)

EDIT: I also agree with AJ ... sometimes no matter how much you think you will click it just isn't right ... but to me that's no big deal ... just be honest and move on. Worth a shot.

I have only tried phone sex a couple times, and none of them were particularly successful. It is definitely something I want to try more of, but I will need to find someone that I click with first. If ant ladies would be interested in chatting, and maybe trying some on the phone, drop me a line. I'd love to learn with you.

I cant believe I have just found this thread, I love to chat over the phone or video with a sexy women who is having fun. 40 year old male from the UK who has had some positive and negative experiences doing this. Sometimes it is hit and miss, but when it works its amazing. It does take time to build a rapport, and would like women to be honest not just gosilent. If any women is interested send me a PM and we can chat.

1) Are you the quiet, talkative, dominate or laid back type? Are you typically shy or outgoing?
I am generally a laid back person. I can be shy at first but really open up when I feel comfortable with someone. I love to talk with friends, and I view phone sex as an extension of that. "Friends that like to get off while talking".

2) Do you like to lead or wait for her/him to lead?
I like to get to know the person first. I like to know what turns them on and how they are feeling. I think the fireworks happen once you know them. Anyone can say "oh yeah baby, i'm going to fuck you so hard" in the first 10 seconds. But really, who wants to hear that.

3) What's a trait you look for in a phone buddy?
Friendship. I think that knowing the person and them knowing you is the key to dynamic phone fun. It's amazing that once people open up...the nerves disappear and by the time you feel comfortable...both are ready to let go completely.

Have had phone sex several times over the past years.... mostly good experiences.... some amazing experiences... hearing a ladies voice as she becomes more aroused and tells you what she's feeling and doing conjures up some absolutely incredible mental pictures that make it incredibly erotic. I'm from the South, but have lived in different parts of the country.. so my accent may be a little hard to place..
Have had a few times that I've had some regular playmates.... but never lasted... I enjoy having the spontaneous fun of having a "fuck-buddy" but I'm also interested in the other person's life, so it usually ends up being a connection that is more than just phone sex... I haven't done it in quite a while... but I'd be lying to say the thought of it doesn't bring up very arousing memories.... Any lady wanting to indulge with a medium build, light brown/salt and pepper hair, green eyes and 47 year old male.... send me a PM, would love to chat and have fun..

Great Thread! Let's face it, phone sex for some is great and for others.. not their thing..... Nice to be able to narrow it down to people who enjoy.... so you're not offending someone who doesn't... Been there, done that...