Hi every one 1 im 19 will be 20 in july. Im 34 weeks pregant. me and my mate used 2 see each loads b4 i found out i was pregnant but since being pregnant and getting my own place she aint wanted 2 know me. However she has just found out that her other mate is pregnant and that is all she talks about. Does any one think this is a touch of the green eyed monster here!

when my best mate found out i was pg she cried cos she said she was feeling left out as my other friend is also pg.
she aint really spoke to me since. she said she was goig to try for a baby though, butphoned a few weeks ago to tell me she was having an abortion

Thu Apr 27, 2006 4:08 pm

ibby_leeds

ED MEGA BABE

Joined: Tue Feb 07, 2006 7:18 pmPosts: 1396Location: leeds

i'm the first of my friends to have a baby. i don't get a feeling of jealousy, they are just curious about loads of stuff. my baby will be majorly fussed over, being the first. it's a shame your friend can't just be nice.

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Thu Apr 27, 2006 4:08 pm

rubyred

ED MEGA BABE

Joined: Thu Jan 26, 2006 7:42 pmPosts: 1408Location: Essex

Maybe she talks to her other friend about your pregnancy all the time, don't worry,

You should definitely talk to her about this, just tell her that even though you have your family you don't want to lose her friendship, if she doesn't wanna know you're probably better off without her as a friend

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Thu Apr 27, 2006 4:12 pm

nikkihawkins84

ED BABE

Joined: Tue Nov 29, 2005 1:50 pmPosts: 843Location: Bristol

I agree, just talk to her. No point in beating around the bush. The longer you leave it the harder itll be.

My mate (size 22) just keeps telling me Im as fat as her. And Im like "no, Im a size 10 with a big belly!! Theres a bit of a difference!"

Friends show their jealousy in funny ways, I think they reckon ur friendship is over now that your gonna have a family, like ur gonna morph into a middle aged, middle class, not going to the pub ever again woman!!

i had a green eyed friend once, we moved from scotland down to the Isle of Wight together, lived together for a while then i got preg and my boyfriend moved in with us, any time he would buy me something he used to get her a small thing too as she would get grumpy she used to say things like i cant believe your gonna keep this baby who am i gonna go clubbing with now after a while she met someone and moved in with him! we stopped talking and went our seperate ways, 3 weeks after my son was born i found her sat on my doorstop crying, she was pregnant and wanted to be friends again i told her politely where to go

She's probably scared of being left behind as she see's you and her other friend starting families but that isn't your fault and if she can't be happy for you I would seriously reconsider your friendship with her