The Player: How To Pick Up Women At The Gym

The Player: How To Pick Up Women At The Gym

Keeping it real

Be empowered, because a key element of any worthy Player is the knowledge that he can approach and engage almost any woman at anytime, anywhere. This is not arrogance, but an understanding of the key skills brought to the table — confidence, good looks and personality. Even if you may be lacking some of these abilities, have no fear: You can still approach the cutie across the gym. Today we’re focusing on teaching the average guy how to approach and pick up women at the gym.

While you are developing your Player skills, understand that this strategy at picking up a “Pilate Hottie” will take time, trial and error, and patience. Let’s get your skills right and set you out for a few reps, a few sets and a shot at the luscious ladies in leotards and cable-fly cuties.

Now gym-e some booty

Contrary to popular belief, a gym is one of the easier places to meet women. Knowing the underlying culture in a gym can lead a Player to meeting and dating any single woman working out. Worst-case scenario: You may befriend a great girl who becomes a good friend — and even possibly meet her single friends.

One of the key aspects to picking up a girl in the gym is for you to be at the gym for the same reason: to actually train. If you go to the gym as a watering hole for your next conquest, you’ve screwed yourself from the word go. However, if you go to the gym to workout and focus on your own physical fitness, you will be surprised at the number of females that you are able to approach and engage with.

Your first objectives

Health clubs are now about their own culture and their own rules of etiquette. Breaking these rules and going against the flow will lead you to find permanent status as the gym jackass and lead you to being kicked out.

The following suggestions are five objectives for you to shoot for to aid in your pursuit of gym hook ups:

Befriend the gym management and staff. Start with just saying hello. Be pleasant and sincere and engage in small talk every time you walk in. Attend gym events if possible and become a positive presence in the facility.

Learn the proper techniques of exercising. This is a key objective for two reasons: First, this ensures your body is actually getting the physical exercise it needs. Also, knowing how to exercise correctly enables you to give assistance to the struggling beauty needing help with her workout.

Get in shape. A gym is full of competition, some of which is swollen and full of steroids and their own ego. Women do not respond to giant no-neck apes, but they will notice a man who keeps in shape.

Socialize with everyone, including men. Once again, become a presence. When you become a person to know in the gym, it will make approaching that gym cutie much easier. She will see you with less threat and will likely allow you to approach her.

Speak to all women. Regardless of their looks, you have to talk to all of the women in the gym. This is important because it separates you from the douches that are only out scoping the hotties; you’ll cultivate an image as a good guy, which you are. This also plays on the natural jealous reaction that women can have. Seeing you talking to every woman will initiate an approach and interest within the beauty that you haven’t approached. She’ll want to be the next girl that knows you.

understanding women

Essentially, there are two types of women that work out in the gym: the mutes and the chatterers. Knowing one from the other will help you focus the right charm and the correct moves on the woman you want with minimal trial and error.

The Mute

Consider this woman one to avoid. She is there to exercise and will see your approaches as an annoyance. She’s there to workout, not to be bothered by your attempts at game. Leave her be.

Spot the mute: Her workout attire normally includes a baseball cap, earphones, an MP3 player, and water. She avoids eye contact and conversation with others. She looks at the floor as she moves from machine to machine.

The Chatterer

Here’s your target. The Chatterer is there to meet people and you’re there to meet her. She likes to socialize and converse. The Chatterer enjoys working out, hanging out with friends, checking her Facebook status, getting some male attention, and boosting her self-esteem.