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05 junio 2013

“He’s just not that into you” book. PART I

So, Yeah, I watched “He’s just not that into you - the movie” instead reading the book first, but hey! I’m a big fan of romantic comedies, of course I was going to watch the movie first, in my defense, I didn’t know the movie was about a book, a really good book that has to be read for all the females in the entire planet; this book was written
by Greg Behrendt, a comedian who has been seen on HBO, was a consultant for
three consecutive seasons on Sex and the City and the other writter was Liz
Tuccillo an executive story editor of HBO & Emmy-winning Sex and the City,
of course, they has to be part of Sex and the City, one of the best series of
the entire world, at least one of my favorite.

Well, that's enough about the authors; I’m here to
write about, what I learned of this fabulous book titled "He’s just not
that into you" AND post my favorite lesson.

WHAT I LEARN

Don’t let the “honeys” and “baby’s” and “I
miss you” fool you. His sweet nothings are exactly that. Bad boys are actually
bad, even when they say beautiful things, remember: Actions speak louder than
words. A man who’s really into you is going to want you all to himself. And why
wouldn’t he, hot stuff?

FAVORITE LESSONS

1.He’s Just Not That Into You If He’s Not Asking You Out.

If he likes
you, he’ll do the asking, he will take you out for a dinner a movie or
whatever.

2.He’s Just Not That Into You If He’s Not Calling You

Actions speak louder than “There’s no cell reception
where I am right now.” Or “I'mjust sobusy” but he’s not too busy to giving likes and comments to
sexy girls on facebook. “Busy” is another word for “asshole.” “Asshole” is
another word for the guy you’re dating. You deserve a fucking phone call. If
he’s not calling you, it’s because you are not on his mind.

3.He’s Just Not That Into You If He’s Not Dating You

Guys tell you
how they feel even if you refuse to listen or believe them. “I don’t want to be
in a serious relationship” truly means “I don’t want to be in a serious
relationship with YOU” or “I’m not sure that you’re the one.” (Sorry.) Better
than nothing is not good enough for you! Not good.

4.He’s Just Not That Into You If He’s Having Sex with Someone Else

Don’t ask what
you did wrong. Don’t share the blame. And in case he tells you that it just
“happened,” please remember, cheating doesn’t just “happen.” There is no excuse
for cheating. Your only responsibility in someone else’s lapse in judgment is
to yourself. It doesn’t matter whom it was with or how many times it happened. Cheating
gets easier every time it’s done. It’s only hard the first time, when one feels
the sting of morality and the guilt of betraying someone’s trust. Cheaters
never prosper, (Because they suck).

5.He’s Just Not That Into You If He’s Disappeared on You

There’s
nothing worse than having no answer, in business, friendships, and especially
romantic relationships, but his silence is a deafening “see you later and
that’s means, never again”. If he didn’t have the guts to tell you that the
relationship was over to your face. Well, darling case closed, move on. Don’t
text him, don’t call him, and don’t give him the chance to reject you again.

6.He’s Just Not That Into You If He’s Married (and Other Insane
Variations of Being Unavailable)

If that person
cannot fully and honestly return them and therefore actively love you back,
these feelings mean nothing. It’s not real love. You are not easily forgotten.
Let him find you when he’s ready.

7.He’s Just Not That Into You If He’s a Selfish Jerk, a Bully, or a
Really Big Freak

But any good,
mature guy better make an attempt to love your friends and family—especially
when they’re great. Being with somebody who makes you feel shitty or doesn’t
honor the person you are, is worse. You deserve to be with someone who is nice
to you all the time. (You have to be nice to them, too.) [1] cited in HJNTIY.

Well, those were my favorite lessons from the book 'He's just not that into you'. This book is like something that is going to save you from bad relationships, at least is going to help every female, to have all his senses really alert , to not be the foolish who believe in all the bullshit's that some BAD GUYS are going to tell you. Tha's why I recommend this book and it can be read really fast, is really funny, with too much wisdom and is equal or better than the movie.

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