Smooth vs. UnSmooth: How To Project Smooth Without Showing Off

Here's The Real Reason Why You're Successful In Life But Not In Dating

You already know there’s a fine line between confidence and arrogance -- but do you tread lightly on it? When it comes to dating, eating out, what you wear, how you act at work and around people in general, you might wonder if you’re coming across smooth or bragging. Luckily for you, we’ve spoken to the ladies and they’ve candidly expressed the Do’s and Don’ts of being a savvy guy and being someone that turns people off.

Dating: Don’t Split The Bill, But Say Why You’re Getting the Tab

When she does the coy reach for her wallet -- even though you’re not going to let her -- don’t just put up your hand to let her know that you’ve got it, tell her why you’re picking it up. It can be as simple as ‘I had a really nice time and it would be my honor to treat you. I look forward to a second date.” Now that’s smooth.

Relationships: Don’t Block Her Out, But Explain How You’re Feeling

The biggest strength you could ever have as a human? Being candid, open-hearted and strong enough to put into words what you’re feeling. It’s not always easy -- in your work life or personal life -- to dictate what gets you going, what drives you nuts, what matters to you or why you do the things you do, but in difficult times, it can make the difference between being heard and being misunderstood.

It might be all the rage to grow out your facial hair, but in order to pull off smoothness you need to keep it on the cleaner side. We don’t mean hack it all off, but shaving with the BIC® Flex 5™ razor and its precision edging blade, which can reach those tricky spots, will help you get rid of any unwanted facial hair strands and help you sculpt something that both you and the world can appreciate.

Style: Don’t Just Wear A Baseball Cap, But Wear A Conversation Starting Accessory

When it comes to style, a smooth move is making sure you have something that sets you apart. While every dude -- and yes, we mean every man everywhere -- has a pair of jeans, a blue shirt and a baseball cap to wear -- not everyone has an interesting watch, or a wristband, or maybe a tie that has significance. Whatever it is, claim it as your own and let it spark a conversation.

Food: Don’t Just Stick With Meals You Know, But Expand Your Culinary Palette

One of the best parts of trying new restaurants is having the opportunity to expand your palette. From international dishes to culinary concoctions you wouldn’t typically nibble on, being smooth means you don’t just go after what you know you already like, but you’re willing to step outside of your comfort zone to see what you could love.

Though you might be able to score a cheaper mattress, won’t you - and your partner - sleep better on a great one? Or instead of buying throw-away items that you’ll forget about, wouldn’t it be better for your mental state, happiness and relationship to have an amazing experience on a fun trip or even a series of cooking classes?

Travel: Don’t Be Too Stingy With Your Money -- See The World And Travel

Planning for your future is important -- but one of the most valuable experiences you can invest in is your memories. That’s why saving the money -- and making the time -- to go on lifechanging vacations that you’ll remember way into your retirement are essential to your overall happiness. And taking your partner along for the ride? That’s priceless.

Career: Don’t Just Take The First Offer, But Do Understand and Explain Your Worth

At the office, in your career -- or really in any situation -- the epitome of cool and smooth is knowing how to explain your worth. What are you awesome at? What makes you feel inspired, motivated and your best self? What light do you shine to everyone you meet? This can lead to a raise and if you really fight for it and not just take the first offer, you could get even more than you were anticipating.