You posted a reply to me under the post misscarriage, and I am extremely sorry to hear that :0(. I was just wondering if you don't mind me asking, L, had you heard the heartbeat at all before the baby passed at 9 weeks? I am 16 now, have not been to the dr since 10 and did hear the heartbeat then. But I am always extremely nervous, and I have ALLOT of stress

No I I had never heard the heart beat but I had an u/s at 6 weeks and was told that every thing looked great. I think ou should call your dr. and ask to be seen asap. If that dr. wont see you I would see a different dr. Your dr. should have brought you back at 12 weks to try to get the heartbeat again or at least ordered an u/s to ease your mind. I know what your going through, I worry everyday that something is wrong with my baby. I hope everything is okay for you. Good Luck and let me know what happens.

Thanks L. I actually do have my 4 month check up today, I did hear the hearbeat at 10 weeks and dr said everything looked good. I also had an u/s at the ER 3 days before I went to the dr last time for spotting and extreme cramps and the u/s tech there did like an hour long u/s and said that everything looked good and then I was not able to hear the heartbeat but I was able to see it and the baby wiggle all around like it was dancing, that all gave me hope, but of course every week that goes by I still worry. I have a heavy feeling in my lower abdomin, and sometimes I almost think I can feel the baby move, but I will tell you what, it is no soft flutters, this is a heavy movement, am I nuts?

Well I hope they are right to, and I will tell you how the dr apt goes today on Monday. I am on this thing all day at work so I don't usually touch a computer on the weekend, haa haa.
What I don't get is how drugged out and completely stressed, I mean OVERLY stressed people can have normal healthy babies, and us that do everything right and panick a little and worry and stress because we want everything to be so good have problems most of the time :0(