If this happens, I will do this.This could happen and I will do this.And on and on and on. Ruminating, obsessiong and worrying sometimes feel like a hobby to me. I really have to work hard at not doing it.

Thanks for the link!Great points. It seems like being Thankful puts us in the present... not the past (agony) or future (dread).Kind of like George Bailey at the end of the movie"It's a Wonderful Life".

You are an encouragement to me (and I am sure many others too) and a great help to your husband.

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