Not pathetic in the slightest. I didn't get mine until I was 19. That sounds odd, but I actually think it made it that much better. I could have had it way earlier a bunch of different times, but I just didn't feel like it was the right time with any other person. Waiting until I was with someone I really cared for made it that much more awesome. And a lot of people talk about how they got their first kiss at like 13 and how awkward it was, but my first kiss wasn't awkward in the slightest. It actually felt amazingly natural. Wow. That sounds so cliché. But it's totally the truth. I know people are going to be like "OMG!!!11!!1 You didn't get yours until you were 19?! Freak." But I really don't care. Bring on the hate, people. XP

I think that's pretty awesome, honestly. :) I got my first kiss when I was 13 and it was awkward and I look back at it now and laugh. XP Now, I wish I would have waited a couple more years when I knew what my feelings actually meant. :b

Why, thank you for thinking that's awesome. :) I usually get the response described in my original post when people find out. And I understand about the feelings part. There was no way I was emotionally mature enough at age 13 to really comprehend my feelings.

Yeah totally. I have friends who are 18 and complain "I've never been kissed." I always say "That's not necessarily a bad thing... I wish I could say that." And honestly yeah, because if I would have waited then I know my first kiss would have been special instead of looking back and laughing at it. So I think it's really cool. :)

Yeah, but I've never even been in a situation where a guy tries/wants to kiss me. Heck, I've barely even hugged any guys. And I know I'm not a weirdo or anything....people always compliment my clothes, hair and makeup, but when I even try to talk to a guy.... it fails miserably! NO NORMAL GUYS LIKE ME

Anonymous

Don't worry. I faced that issue as well. I had stupid guys who tried dumb shit around me during my middle school ages, then they just stopped appearing interested because they didn't get what they wanted from me. Guys didn't even start to really take any notice of me again until I was 17 or 18. I thought I'd never find any nice normal guys that would like me for me, but I eventually did. You just have to get out there and meet new people. I actually met the guy I had my first kiss with and that I dated for some time when I got a new job. Meeting new people is a key part of life and it will help you in your dilemma. Don't worry about it and keep your head up. :) I realized when I stopped purposefully seeking someone just so I could have someone and just went on with my life is when things finally started going right.

I just don't wanna die alone :( but I know, too soon to worry about that. I guess I just worry because I figure that since I don't even have a good group of friends, and never have, that no guys will ever want me either. I just don't know what I do wrong...

Anonymous

Kisses under 11 years old don't count, when you're that age you don't even understand what you're doing. I hate when people think they have had their 'first kiss' when they're like in kindergarten. Just no.

it's definitely more special if you're at least 15-16ish 'cause whether anyone admits it or not you've matured quite a bit since you were 12 or 13 and you'll appreciate it more if you're older and really have feelings for someone.

I feel like its better when people do it at like 13, just to get it out of the way. Then, if its awkward (which it probably will be), its reasonable, because you were only 13 ya know? Everythings awkward at that age.
I'm almost 18 and I've never kissed anyone, though.

Social

Amirite is the premier opinion-based social network where people from all around the world discover, debate and discuss today's hottest issues. Share your perspective to the world and interact with like-minded individuals on breaking news, hot topics and controversial issues now!

With that many angles, the discussions on Amirite will open your eyes to a panoramic view of your world that you won't get anywhere else, allowing you to see the big picture and discuss it.