General DiscussionWhy do you live?

You don't find solace in a woman to "nurture" you. That's not how the role of a man works at all

A woman wants to submit to a powerful man, not a manchild. Nobody will "nurture" a weak man except for a desperate whale with no good traits. Someone "loving you for who you are" is bullshit. Nobody cares "who you are," without you first having income, looks, and status for men; and status has a relationship with money.

Never take a woman's advice too seriously

Women are the submissive gender

Nature created the patriarchy.

Your views are absolutely disgusting and are more in line with what people in the 12th century believed than what people believe in the modern world. You arent smart, you arent a real man and I can tell just from what you have written in this thread that you are lonely and incredibly insecure. Do not come onto this forum and pretend like you know anything about female psychology when you have clearly never spoken to a woman in your life. You are clearly an incel who has no idea what we want. I want a man who would treat me with respect as an equal and allow me to pursue my own goals and ambition as a woman, not a man who wants to submit me and treat me like some kind of broodmare. Perhaps if you were so supposedly intelligent you would understand a little bit better but considering how insecure you are about literally every aspect of your personality and your constant desire to remind us of your supposed intellect I am beginning to doubt there is anything inside your tiny brain resembling smarts at all, let alone the empathy required to understand other people. Get a grip on reality please you saddo.

^ This is you in a nutshell btw. I should probably attach a trigger warning to that cause I imagine it might resonate with you so hard you will get upset or something

Never take a woman's advice too seriously, OP. Remain independent and watch what they do, not what they say. They seem to push out a Machiavellian agenda without even realizing they're doing it. There's no damn reason to argue with a woman, they just make you go crazy and they're right because... they're right. Ugh.

Man, i suffered from this and i know its VERY hard to stand, but i have found a good way around it.
Just think that no matter what you think or feels, life goes on, so live it in the best way possible to YOU, do everything that you wanna do, if you like games, dancing or anything else, just do it, live doing everything you like, so when life comes to an end, at least you did everything you wanted to do.And speak to older people, like the old man that lives nearby to you, that is always sit in front of his door, or with a cigarrete, they have VAST experience and have for sure many histories that will make you think better of living.
Life is fun man, but just if you search right, stop doing what makes you feel bad, and live to make yourself happy.
And dont worry, everything comes and passes by, you will be better.

If he tries to actually reply to what I wrote in that thread then he will just make a fool of himself anyway. Hes a sad person with a sad outlook on life and thats a shame for him but I dont see what the point is in starting a thread like this is. The mods locked the last one for good reason and I am sure they will lock this too ~~

I will stand by what I said that the best way to deal with depression is to find friends/lovers. If you are unable to do that or lack the self confidence then exercise and get into shape and you will naturally feel way better about yourself. People can be shallow and whilst its better to find people that like you for who you are, getting into good shape would help you find people way easier :)

nihilism absolutely is a great way of dealing with existential crisis and resulting depression and almost entirely solves the "why are we here" question without giving u a bullshit fabricated answer or degrading into a masturbatory mess w/ no real answers

like people say all the time that "life is whatever you want it to be" when asked about the meaning of life but mention nihilism and everybody acts like ure some edgy 15yo downer know-it-all with head full of shit even though "life is whatever you want it to be" is EXACTLY what nihilism is about

^perma, are you trying to beat the record of shallowness on this forum?

Are you trying to beat the record of shit advice on this forum? How does pretending nothing matters solve anything, what a stupid way to live. Life is about searching for joy through meaning. Living like nothing matters leads to more depression and can actually be dangerous.

Are you trying to beat the record of shit advice on this forum? How does pretending nothing matters solve anything, what a stupid way to live. Life is about searching for joy through meaning. Living like nothing matters leads to more depression and can actually be dangerous.

im not simple enough to just pick some ism and it will fix everything. all those thoughts put into these isms and wrote down with tryhard big words are already thoughts ive had for maybe a decade now, doenst really change anything

Are you trying to beat the record of shit advice on this forum? How does pretending nothing matters solve anything, what a stupid way to live. Life is about searching for joy through meaning. Living like nothing matters leads to more depression and can actually be dangerous.

Living like nothing matters is NOT a concept of stoicism. Can you please read something before you open your mouth?

im not simple enough to just pick some ism and it will fix everything. all those thoughts put into these isms and wrote down with tryhard big words are already thoughts ive had for maybe a decade now, doenst really change anything

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