Sunday, September 21, 2008

Reading the Kama Sutra or the Perfumed Garden and learning the positions outlined in them will bring you numerous sexual positions to give you and your partner huge satisfaction in your sex life.

The 3 top best sex positions are culled from the two works above, and also the life of Casanova.

There seems to been, in our ancient past, an extensive knowledge of a lady’s erogenous zones, including by not limited to the clitoris, the G-spot and T-Zone…all having to do with pagan sexual rights and knowledge, as well as the sacred writings of India and China.

In fact, the early treatise such as the Tantra has classified the sexual act in much greater detail than even could be imagined in our own day.

There are three powerhouse positions that stand out in the human experience as very special, and they are indeed the top 3 best sex positions in history. They are the Crab (modified doggy style), Dok-al-Arz (translated from Arabic as ‘pounding the spot’, a sitting position), and the Horse position (a modified missionary position).

The Crab:

This is NOT the doggy style, as in that pose - the woman has her head parallel with the floor (or the bed). She is on all fours, but her head is down, touching the bed, and her arms stretched out in front of her for balance and support.

The man enters from the rear, and begins a slow and rhythmical thrusting. In this position you have some clitoral stimulation, but lots of G-spot stimulation if aim for this area. You will also have the thrill of pure sex.

You have deep penetration, and your hands are free to explore your partner’s body. You can also raise the head of your partner till it is parallel with the bed, or even higher, adjusting your thrusting the whole time.

Dok-al-Arz.

This is the most famous position mentioned in the classic Arab work on sex (from the early 1400s), called the Perfume Garden.

This is recommended if you wish the woman to love you afterwards. It is quite simple to achieve. The man will sit on the edge of the bed, with his legs firmly on the floor.

The woman will mount him, face to face, inserting his penis as she mounts. She will then wrap her legs around the man’s waste.

There is no thrusting in this position, only some circular motion, as in a belly dance. The woman is in control, and there is maximum clitoral and G-spot stimulation, even T-Zone at the back of the uterus. When orgasm arrives, it is profound and long-lasting.

The Horse.

This is a favorite mention in works of Tao of Sex, and gives the man a maximum time for this erection, and the woman has a deep penetration, and super G-spot stimulation, as well and full T-Zone.

The woman is placed on her back on a high-raise bed or table. The man must be standing and able to offer a full pelvic swing.

The woman’s legs are spread apart and raised at knee length towards her chest, exposing her genital area.

The man then penetrates the woman, and begins thrusting. The thrusting should follow four short thrusts followed by one or two complete and deep thrusts. The motion must be slow and rhythmical and not forced.

Sooner than you might expect, due to all the stimulation, the woman will arrive at a spectacular orgasm.

Naturally there are almost endless variations to these, but throughout the ages, there are the top 3 best positions in history.

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Monday, September 15, 2008

Throughout history, there has always been sex. Moreover, there has been sexual education. Though it seems to me it is completely ineffective. I find that I am not alone, most people of sexual age have been given little education on what to expect in an actual sexual encounter. What is taught mainly relates to menstrual cycles, as well as general male and female anatomy, but it tends to stop there. This is likely due to the constant stigma connected to adults teaching young men and women that sex can and should be a pleasurable experience for both parties.

As a young boy, a close friend crudely introduced me to masturbation on my front lawn. He ran the garden hose between his legs and stroked it in a gesture that indicated the concept of masturbation along with various moans and groans. It seemed he knew what he was doing. So being young and easily influenced, when it was time to go inside I went directly to the bathroom to try this process. Wow, it worked I remember thinking to myself. The first orgasm for me was around 11 or 12 years old, and there was no explanation need. I followed the rather cryptic lead my trusted friend had demonstrated on the front lawn. Before ejaculating I felt pressure building in my genital area, I felt like I had to pee, but I trusted my friend knew something that I did not, so I continued and did climax.

Women in contrast are never, ever, given even the smallest hint of what makes them have a pleasurable orgasm. It is my experience women are shunned from sexual conversation or interaction as often as possible from early childhood. There is no wonder emotional scars develop due to the behavior of our society. We tend to create such taboo associated to female sexuality that it actually has a voodoo effect on women. Voodoo only works if it is believable to the recipient. Our society has done exactly that, causing woman to expect little pleasure from sexual relation. As I see it, American scientists and doctors as well as parents are the cause of this problem. If there is no empirical proof beyond personal experience of our scientific community they discounts any findings. We all know that scientists, doctors and parents know everything. (LOL)

My mission is to put the confusion to rest. Most if not all women can ejaculate, barring medical or physical problems. There is and always has been evidence on Female Ejaculation. Dating back to ancient Hindu Tantra teachings, they called it clan fluid (kuladravya) or clan nectar (kulamrita) translating to "Nectar of the Goddess" they believed it to be flowing naturally from the woman’s womb. Lacking any actual data to support this belief, the simple fact that it occurred was enough to enlighten their society. Over the past 4 years I have been on a mission to uncover as much factual information on the subject of female ejaculation as I could.

My first encounter with a woman ejaculating, was about 20 years ago, I am 41 now. Something happened during cunnilingus (oral sex) on my girlfriend of 2 years that sort of shocked me. I could feel a gush of fluid with my fingers inside her. I truly had no idea what it was. Since that time I have longed to repeat the situation. For the past 3 years I have been able to make any willing woman ejaculate and have a true climax. With women so often playing a role in the bedroom it is very difficult for anyone to really know what is going on inside their heads or their vaginas.

Sunday, September 7, 2008

Blog Taman Wangi provided information and links about Sexual Dysfunction Information in English and Malay about sexual dysfunction. In malay sexual dysfunction is called mati pucuk. Sexual Dysfunction is not only for man. Sexual dysfunction can be related to woman that can't reach orgasm with penis penetration or simulation.

This is an Online Orgasmic Simulation. How does the other sex experience pleasure

Perfume garden Blog or Taman Wangi in malay is a blog about the advices and tips from old and modern bedroom knowledge for married couples relatiopship. This guide in Perfume Garden blog or Taman Wangi Blog is in Malay and English for married couples that want to have a family that can last for long time. This blog not only about tips and advices related to activities in bedroom it's included tips and advices related to family matter. It's can be used as dating and relationship tips