Monday, June 6, 2011

Malaysian club urges wives to be 'whores in bed'

A group of Malaysian women launched an "Obedient Wife Club" on Saturday, urging members to be "whores in bed" and obey their husbands to curb social ills like divorce and domestic violence.

Islamic group Global Ikhwan held the club's inaugural meeting in Kuala Lumpur, giving women tips on how to keep their men satisfied and prevent them straying.

"A good wife is perceived to be prim and proper -- you just take care of the children -- but not much is emphasised on fulfilling sexual needs of the husband. If he needs sex, obey him," Rohaya Mohamad, the club's vice-president told AFP.

Rohaya said 30 percent of the club members were in polygamous marriages while the rest were in monogamous relationships and that the club was open to non-Muslims.

"You must satisfy your husband. A good wife should be a whore in bed," said 46-year-old doctor, whose husband has three other wives.

She said the club boasted 800 Malaysian members so far with another 200 from across the Middle East.

Over 1,000 guests and supporters turned up for the launch in a leafy suburb, held in conjunction with a mass wedding of ten couples, with the brides all members of the new club.

"If the wife is obedient, then the husband feels good and is entertained and this builds a closer relationship and greater love and no one strays," said groom Mohamad Shurahbil Amran, 23.

His bride Umuhani Lokman Hakim, 19, dressed in a golden white Arabic wedding gown, was unforthcoming when asked why she joined the club and would only say: "It is the right thing to do to keep the family together."

The club has come under criticism from Malaysian women's groups who say the onus on keeping a family together is being unfairly placed on women.

Women's rights group EMPOWER said the club was a step back for the progress of the equality movement.

"We cannot go back to caveman days where the man pulls the woman by the hair and takes her to the cave to have his way. We must recognise that women contribute a lot more than just being a sex toy," the group's executive director Maria Chin Abdullah told AFP.

Polygamy is legal for Muslims, who make up more than 60 percent of Malaysia's population, allowing Muslim men to take up to four wives.

In 2010, a study by a Muslim activist group found men in polygamous relationships find it difficult to meet the needs of all their wives and children, and that the result is often unhappy and cash-strapped families.

(Source: MSN frontpage)

I think the founding idea of this club is unreasonable. It amazes me how many women are still thinking things the wrong way. Women need to rise and protect their own rights in sexual equality, not blaming themselves for their husbands' betrayal. They never think it is unfair for a man to have many wives as it is legal according to Muslim laws. They never think it is unfair for a man to have other sexual partners besides his legal wives. They never think it is unfair for a woman to endure her husband's beatings and other barbaric acts. The world is constantly changing, and these women are promoting an idea that is obviously far back in the ancient period, if not the caveman's period. Wake up, ladies! Don't let your ignorance push you further into self-condemnation.

3 comments:

says a woman whose husband has x other wifes....ugh disgusting! The basic idea is good IMHO: it's essential to be a whore in bed to keep ones husband from straying....but not in polygamy for God's sake! #__# And BTW what they visionalize as the "job" of a wife is simply slavery!!! Beeetches!

Doctor, mind you, a Doctor, Rogayah is the third wife of some guy and this movement she is involved with, this UMNO affiliated movement, was a former Al Arqam movement where all women become ninjas. Only the eyes pop out. The rest of the body in darkness. So you can understand why she dared to say that because being a third wife, how will she keep her darling's heart if she does not behave like a prostitude 1st class when having sex with him. Definitely just open the legs cannot do. Must suck his penis. Must kiss his anus. Just like a prostitude. Must do what he wants. Such an ugly looking female doctor and yet want to keep his heart. You think he marries her for her looks and brains ? Tell you what. Tell MCA to leave Barisan Nasional and all their stupidness.

This mentality is completely disgusting to me! I am shocked at what is accepted in some parts of our society, and at the same time saddened that women are treated this way. It makes me so thankful that I have a good man who sees me as his equal and treats me with respect.

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