Paul and Lucy Spadoni periodically live in Tuscany to explore Paul’s Italian roots, practice their Italian and enjoy “la dolce vita.”
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Saturday, November 1, 2014

I come to a pleasant realization while snacking on snails

May 2, 2014It was during a lunch of snails that I realized Lucy and I
were close to accomplishing our goals in Italy. I had earlier related to Suzye
how I had once encountered Ivo as we walked by his field. His hands had been
full of live snails, but—always outgoing—Ivo still stopped to talk to me,
sharing his plans to eat the snails later and giving details about how he would
prepare them and what other foods he would be having for dinner. As he spoke,
some of the snails slid out of his hands, and he had to stop to pick them up
while readjusting his grasp on the others.

I sample fried snails for the first time, with Suzye and Linda.

A few days ago, we were showing Linda and Suzye an old house
in San Salvatore that was for sale, and Suzye noted a mob of snails milling
around on the shady stones of the back wall. Recalling my Ivo encounter and snail’s
tale, she found a discarded tin pail and plucked up a dozen of the mollusks,
saying she wanted to look up some recipes and sample her first taste of escargot.
However, in reading online recipes, it turned out that making escargot is not a
simple process. Preparing the snails takes several days using a procedure that involves
flushing out their systems and feeding them herbs or corn meal before putting
them in salt to remove the slime. We didn’t have time for all this, so Suzye decided
to give them to Ivo instead.

We had recently met Ivo’s brother Celestino and his family.
In previous years, we had only met Celestino’s wife, Antonella. But about a
month before Suzye found the snails, I had seen Ivo out in his field and stopped
to show him my research that explained how he and I were related as fourth
cousins. As we spoke, a young man working across the field walked over to meet
us. Ivo introduced him as Matteo Seghieri, one of Celestino’s two sons. A few
days later, we were invited into Matteo’s house, where we had espresso and
biscotti with Celestino, Antonella and Matteo.

Linda with Ivo and his homemade wine.

While looking for Ivo to give him the snails, we saw his car
parked by his field, but he wasn’t in the field or his farm sheds. But by now,
we had realized that if Ivo’s car was parked by his field and he wasn’t around,
it’s because he was visiting his brother’s family in the Casone di Marcucci,
which is right next to his field. Sure enough, he was there, and Lucy, Linda,
Suzye and I had more espresso, this time with Ivo, Celestino and Antonella.
Lucy and I served as translators, and Ivo expounded on one of his favorite
topics, which is food from the cucina
povera—the poor kitchen—which he explained uses traditional ingredients
that can be found in the wild. Before we left, he had given us two bottles of
wine—one red and one sweet and white—and some cantuccini, a type of biscotti that he made from his own special
recipe. Even better, he promised that next Saturday, we would come back with
the snails, cooked in two different meals.

We waited around at the Casolare dei Fiori during lunchtime
on Saturday, and when he didn’t show up, we realized he probably expected us to
go back to Celestino’s house. Sure enough, he was there with the snail dishes,
and we took them home to savor together. One meal was snails fried in batter,
but Ivo had also deep-fried pieces of zucchini and broccoli, so only one bite
of every three was actually a snail. Linda, Suzye and I downed this course in
about five minutes, while Lucy, who has a more sensitive stomach, passed on
these delicacies. The other recipe was lumache
in umido, stewed snails, which we decided to save for a later meal.

And what was my impression of the snail meals? I loved the
fried zucchini and broccoli. As for the fried snails, I tried not to think of
what I was eating, which was difficult. The snails themselves had little taste;
the predominant flavor was that of the batter and oil, which I liked. But the
snails were definitely chewy, kind of like biting into a soft chunk of fat in a
steak. Because of the different texture, I couldn’t help but recognize when I
was eating a snail as opposed to a vegetable, and I think that spoiled the
experience. Perhaps if I had grown up eating them prepared this way, I would
have no problem, but I can’t say it is something that I will go out of my way
to eat again. As for the snail stew, we never got around to sampling it. We
told each other that we had just been too busy, and then we had waited too long
and it wasn’t fresh any more, but I think that if we had liked the fried snails
more, we would have made time to eat the stew as well. Sorry, Ivo, that we
wasted your time making it. Luckily, he doesn’t read English, so maybe he won’t
find out. We told him we really enjoyed the snails, which is true in the sense
that we greatly enjoyed the experience of finding them, talking to him and
eating them for the first time.

The outcome of this experience is that I came to several
important realizations. Because I had been learning Italian gradually over the
past four visits, I hadn’t noticed my improvement. I could see that even though
I still didn’t consider myself anywhere near fluency, I could now communicate
well enough to be invited over for espresso. I had once been at about the same
level of language ability as Linda and Suzye, but now I can translate for them.
I had wanted to make friends and find relatives in Italy and discover how we
were related, and now I knew very many, and I considered some of them friends
as well.

I also wanted to understand and appreciate my Italian
grandparents, who had grown up in this exquisite country but chose to leave
their homes so their children and grandchildren could have better lives. I
never met my nonna and hardly knew my
nonno, but I had come here to explore
the culture that had made them what they were. That culture has changed
dramatically from what it was when they left Italy 100 years ago, because now
my cousins are policemen, chemists, lawyers, professors, business owners,
dentists, hair dressers and employees at stores and factories. Those raised on
the farming life of my grandparents are either long gone or retired and on
pensions.

But it dawned on me as I munched on the snails that there is
one relative who still lives the life of a contadino,
a humble farmer like my ancestors before they immigrated in the early 1900s.
Ivo has been raised to embrace the old ways, and if I want to know the kind of
lives great grandfathers Pietro Spadoni and Torello Seghieri may have led, I
need look no further: Ivo is the very embodiment. He forages for wild herbs, vegetables,
mushrooms and snails. He raises and slaughters his own rabbits, chickens and
ducks and makes wine from his vineyards. His fields supply him with fruits and
vegetables and grain for his animals. Anything he can’t provide with his own
hands he finds at local open air markets, and he loves to work outdoors and talk
about his food and recipes.

I have come to San Salvatore for four winters now, a total
of ten months. Lucy and I can speak passable Italian. We have a few friends and
many acquaintances, and people recognize that we are part of the community. I
have found more relatives than I know what to do with, and I have traced my
ancestral roots back nearly 1000 years to this very street. We have decided
that we don’t want to move to Italy full time; we love our lives, our family,
our home in the United States. But San Salvatore called out to me almost
imperceptibly through the first fifty-five years of my life, and I finally
answered the voice inside of me. This place is also our home.

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First off, before you hassle me about our title, Lucy thought of it. Yes, I know some people may think broad is derogatory, but the etymology is uncertain and she doesn’t find it offensive, and it made me laugh. We have been married since 1974 and are empty-nesters now, which allows me to bring my submerged Italophilia into the open. We first came to live in Italy from February-April in 2011 and have returned during the same months every year. From 2011-2015, we lived in San Salvatore, at the foot of the hilltop city Montecarlo, where my paternal grandparents were born, raised and, in 1908, married. In late 2015, we bought a home in Montecarlo. We come for a variety of purposes: We want to re-establish contact with distant cousins in both Nonno’s and Nonna’s families, we want to learn the language and see what it is like to live as Italians in modern Italy, we like to travel and experience different cultures. Even if we aren’t successful at achieving these purposes, we love Italy and enjoy every moment here, so there is no chance we will be disappointed. I am grateful to God for giving me a wife who is beautiful, clever, adaptable and willing to jump into my dreams wholeheartedly.