Wolff, the daughter of a prosperous family, ran away with a naval officer at age 17, only to return home in a few days, deeply hurt by the experience. In 1759 she married Adriaan Wolff, a minister more than 30 years her senior.

The first writing she did was classical poetry in imitation of Alexander Pope; she also wrote lyrical poetry and satire. She directed most of her satire at her conservative, provincial neighbours. From 1767 to 1769 Wolff contributed to the periodical Gryzaard. By the time she met Aagje Deken in 1776, she was a well-known and widely discussed writer. After the death of her husband, Wolff set up house with Deken. Five years later Sara Burgerhart, an epistolary novel inspired by Samuel Richardson’sPamela, was published. It was a realistic, subtly developed character study and included circumstances drawn from the lives of both women—particularly from Wolff’s youthful adventure with the ensign.

After the success of Sara Burgerhart, the two women continued to work together, producing among other works three more epistolary novels. The nature and extent of their literary collaboration remains a matter of some dispute. Some critics, reflecting on Deken’s mediocre output prior to the publication of Sara Burgerhart, maintain that Wolff was the principal author of the joint works. Wolff in fact had a far greater catalog and reputation.