When I listened to the story, I could relate. Sex meant pain with pleasure. I thought that was normal. It wasn't until after the birth of my first child and two reconstructive surgeries did I have zero pain. I wish I didn't wait until my thirties. Unlike these women, I could still enjoy sex. I just thought that the pain was just a normal thing, pain with pleasure. I also thought I had allergies to Farmer's sperm. I thought everyone was dealing with such issues.