Bethenny Frankel’s wedding (and, um, marriage) is ancient history, but with her imminent return to the Real Housewives of New York City, we get to rehash all sorts of fun details from her past. Like that time she hiked up her wedding dress to pee in a champagne bucket at her wedding, a fun tidbit that was recapped in a recent Us Weekly story. Bethenny wore Kenneth Pool’s curve-hugging fit-to-flare Romantic wedding dress—and she was pregnant with daughter Bryn on her wedding day—so doing her business would definitively have been tricky, but I’m happy to report that there are easier ways for a bride to relieve herself. I discussed the process in detail with Fahionista, but in the case of a super-tight wedding gown like Bethenny’s (I wore one too!) your best bet is to shimmy out of your dress and do your business. Which means you’ll probably need: 1) An out-of-the-way bathroom. If there’s a bridal suite, it’s worth the trek to avoid getting bathroom-floor filth on your wedding dress. 2) A hanger. PLEASE don’t toss your gown on the floor, no matter how badly you gotta go. 3) An understanding bridesmaid. The whole operation is going to go read more

Exactly two years ago, terrorists tried to take Malala Yousafzai's life. Instead, they created a global powerhouse fighting on behalf of girls everywhere. In a Glamour exclusive, Genevieve Roth traveled with the 17-year-old activist to Nigeria--and saw her in action. read more

Congratulations! You have a great guy, and when it comes to intercourse, this dude knows how to push all the right buttons and has no problem pleasing you. But there is one thing that’s missing: oral skills. His leave a lot to be desired. No more excuses—and no more telling yourself you can live without it! This is a tricky subject that must be approached with caution. No guy wants to hear that he is doing something wrong, especially while he is doing it. Be mindful and compassionate. Remember that some guys just don’t like it. When you don’t like doing something, you don’t care about getting better at it, which is why these guys are a lost cause. So test these tactics, and if he still shows no interest in your pleasure, on to the next one! READ MY TIPS HERE: How to make him better at oral sex. Emily Morse is a sexologist, host of the Sex With Emily podcast, and cofounder of Emily & Tony. She has a doctorate in human sexuality and is the author of Hot Sex: Over 200 Things You Can Try Tonight and a weekly cohost of the nationally syndicated radio show Loveline read more

When awards season ends, we go into a bit of red carpet withdrawal. Luckily, the Emmy Awards swoop in just when we're feeling our least glam, and they never fail to bring out some seriously gorgeous gowns. This roundup of the best Emmy dresses of the 2000s (so far!) proves that although the screen is small, TV-star style is anything but. read more

Reader questions: "For all those ladies who are or have been with a man with a larger penis, which positions are most comfortable?" For those of you who think bigger is better but experience more pain than pleasure, there's hope! Many times deep penetration feels amazing; however, those large-and-in-charge men don't always know the right angle or position to make women feel good. The most important thing to do: Make sure you spend a lot of time on foreplay getting warmed up. The more turned on and lubricated you are, the easier it will be, regardless of the position. In fact, this goes for all sex, no matter what size the member. Foreplay is a requirement, not a suggestion! If your guy is larger, you'll need to always have lots of lubricant on hand. Even if you’re already turned on and wet, adding a little slip and slide will help him move in easier, prevent chafing, and make it more comfortable for you throughout. Positions that incorporate shallow thrusting are best—that way, his penis won’t hit your cervix, which can be extremely painful. Here's what I recommend: 1. Since the G-spot is located only a few inches inside the vagina read more

If you don't think much about hand jobs, a.k.a. the sex world’s nostalgic throwback to high school, you’re missing a big opportunity to blow his mind. Hands are capable of great things—promise. Plus, when you add a top-notch hand job to your repertoire, he’ll wonder what else you have up your sleeve. I learned this move when I saw the live show Sex Tips for Straight Women From a Gay Man, based on the book of the same name. I was immediately intrigued. After all, who could give better hand-job advice than someone with a penis? Without further ado, here's the move: 1. Apply some lube to your hands (or to him). Grip the base of the shaft so that your pinky finger is closest to his body. 2. Twist your hand as you move upward, flipping your palm over the head and twisting your hand again as you go back down. The circle of your thumb and pointer finger should be leading the way on the return trip down. It’s such a simple motion to master, but he’s most likely not doing it to himself unless he’s very creative. 3. Continue twisting and flipping without interrupting the flow of read more

If you’re not happy with your sex life, it’s time to take matters into your own hands. Nothing is as disappointing as seeing someone promising and then finding out he's bad in bed. But here's the good news: It’s most likely not that you’re with a bad lover—just that you don’t know enough about your own body to have the kind of sex you dream about with him. The good news: There is an easy fix. It’s called masturbation. Not just the same-old run-of-the-mill way you’ve been touching yourself since you first discovered that you could. I’m talking about getting to know your body on a deeper level—and the amazing capacity it has for pleasure and orgasm. You probably haven't explored in a while, right? Well, once you learn more about your body, you can better communicate to your partner what you need or require to have incredible sex. So many women have the attitude that “Someday my prince will “come”, and know exactly what to do. But your prince is not going to ride up on a white horse, much less dismount and then mount you exactly the way you secretly hope for. You have to show him how read more

The other day, I was walking up the staircase in my building when I heard a woman let out a sharp yelp. I froze and listened hard, trying to figure out where the noise was coming from. It sounded like she was in major pain, or potentially even danger. After a few seconds, another squeal erupted behind a door on my left, which lengthened into a moan. After that, the wails came rapid-fire, and I realized what was going on. She was having such a good time in bed that it sounded like she was shriek-moaning (I did not know that was a thing, but trust me, it is) right in front of me. I stifled my laughter and kept climbing the stairs, fiercely curious about what kind of bedroom moves can elicit that kind of reaction (if you know, please share!). I don't think being overheard having loud sex is something to be embarrassed by, but when I told a few friends what happened, they were mortified for this woman. I get it—perfect strangers hearing how you sound in your most private moments is not ideal. But there’s something so stifling about holding back; isn't part of the beauty read more

Men’s favorite pastime (next to sex or possibly the Superbowl) is getting a blow job. Even better, an unsolicited, impromptu he-didn't-even-have-to-ask-for-it kind of job. Some guys consider it even more intimate than sex; your warm mouth, tongue, and lips can bring him some of the most thrilling sensations possible. The last thing he wants to think is that it’s a chore for you. Most often, a woman's resistance to giving one has to do with his hygiene, the taste, or simply not having the confidence of knowing the "right moves" to please him. The good news is that all of these problems can be solved. I promise you can learn to love or at least like giving a blow job. First you have to target what’s holding you back. Maybe you had a bad first experience. You might not like swallowing, or maybe you’re convinced that you just don’t know what you’re doing once you get there. Here are some tips to help you go down like you mean it (which is the only way to do it): 1. You’ve got him by the balls: Being so completely in control of someone else’s pleasure is a powerful feeling. You can read more

Whether you're looking for the best way to have a little fun alone or trying to spice things up with your guy, there's a sex toy for that. Here are 10 sex toys to try, ranging from classic favorites to innovative new designs. read more

Hi, guys! You look like you just saw a Ghost. But don't worry—Glamour.com has just been Beyoncified for the day. Happy April Fools'! Now, I feel a little bad, because I'm betting 90 percent of you got here by clicking on the post about how to wake up Flawless, and Mine is definitely not about that. But really, who wants beauty tips for while they're sleeping anyway? Pretty Hurts enough once we're awake. Eyelash glue debacle of '09, we're still Haunted by the sting of your betrayal. The sting I speak of was in no way metaphorical. No, I'm here to tell you why we did this. Today we just wanted our site to look the way our hearts do every day: completely taken over by Yonce. And also because—let's face it—between now and midnight, you're gonna be confronted with some April Fools' tricks that truly Blow. Like when your fiance says he hit the MegaMillions, and you're leaving for Hawaii tomorrow. Head straight to Neiman's and embrace your new identity as a person who buys $300 bikinis! Then he snickers and says "April Fools'" and you generously try to muster a fake laugh that comes out sounding like a read more