As promised in the previous post , about me and my Stupid posts , I thought to lighten the mood I’ve been thinking of the conversations we have with other people its funny how people respond. This is a very good example that comes to mind if someone asks you what is the most the biggest important cause, Chief Cause of divorces…

(before continuing think of it yourself and reply to the question ) ..

I am sure many will say that it was the relationship between the couple.. and plenty of more reason. Each reason is a valid one for sure.. but my dear friends here is a point to think about.. To me

Marriage is one of the chief causes of divorce.

Ok tell me if I am wrong 🙂

Moving on, I am sure everyone reading this note would also have heard the famous proverb that there is a light at the end of the tunnel, but is it true – Does it hold true to all situations , not always because The light at the end of the Tunnel could be the lights of a TRAIN coming towards you at full speed, that changes the whole meaning of the proverb.

Does it not?

and oh boy you are buggered because you are in the middle of the tunnel as in your eagerness to go towards that Light , which is at the end of the tunnel , you were running .. that surly is a oooops moment
Tell me if I am wrong 🙂

Another thing , of which I am equally guilty is telling people to smile , I say it a lot SMILE .. Smileeeeeeeeee and the world smiles with you.

Now imagine this scenario, There you are Walking up or down the road depending on what you are doing , going out of the house or coming inside the house.. Because depending on that you will either be GOING UP the road or GOING DOWN the road 🙂 (I bet you are ready to kill me here now).. anyway

where were we yeah on the road , all dressed up .. That again can be a UP or DOWN .. you can dress Up or Dress DOWN 🙂

Right… So you see every person who is coming your way smiling .. NOW frankly it would probably be ok for the first couple of times but suddenly it will become a bit of What the hell moment , I am sure you will be thinking .. is that person genuinely smiling .. Should you be smiling back at them .. or is that person Smiling at YOU.

Because if he is genuinely smiling then maybe he believes in the proverb that smile and the world smiles with you .. BUT WHAT IF HE IS NOT and then the OH MY GOD moment when you will try to figure out what is wrong with you, what have you done .. have you got your hair in shambles , is some clothing off (remember the dressing up and down I was talking above),

you know it could be anything .. so here’s a naughty thought .. from now on say

Smile, it makes people wonder what you are thinking. 🙂

Last but not the least, another thought and I am sure everyone reading this would have heard it all before too.. why do people say, and I have seen big slogans too that Alcohol doesn’t solve problems well if you think and give it a GOOD THINK..

neither does Milk

.. so why are there no posters saying Milk doesn’t solve any problems

Right I am off before someone takes offence in this politically correct rich world and takes me on.. moreover don’t want to use up all my thoughts in one post and then wonder what to right next..

Gah…hahahaa..this was some sunshine on a blue monday! 😀 and about “Alcohol doesn’t solve problems well if you think and give it a GOOD THINK..” bang on 😀 😀 such an imp statment for me, today 😀
made me laugh all through… lovely post…splly that marriage n divorce bit. I have no comment in my mind for it.. i have an entire blogpost… ill write it sooooon 😀 thanks for the trigger..

yayyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy 🙂 hey hey no drinking in the weekday 🙂 he he he he he and YEs I read your post toooo .. so I know what you mean if i get it right 🙂
Thank you so much.. looking forward to the blogpost ..

It has some valid points, Bikram.
When people smile without any reason…zaroor daal mein kuch kaala hein. And yes, if alcohol and milk cannot save a marriage then why bother on restricting 😉
btw, I just published a blog talking about marriage/live-in choices!
Relationship sure can be tricky huh!

Yes u r wrong.
i won’t agree that it was a stupid post firstly.
HAHAHAHA…very valid points raised but i’m sure very few can discuss it without lolling. But you jolly well were sure u didn’t want it to be contradicted either. Sweet Sharartee Bikram !!
You have been successful enough in eliciting quite a many laughters. i am laughing reading ur post.
Wonder why i never thought about it before…hahaha how come i had plenty of milk and all those milk products and still have those aches and pains and undergoing treatment for a condition called arthritis. i know i know it is degenerative…old age…all that gas but wasn’t milk supposed to take care of all that vitamin and calcium that the bones need. Hahaha…
This post i have enjoyed it. Really. So now let’s have Glenfiddich… get tully and that way we won’t be bothered whose smiling at whom and which light we are running after …Cheers !!

well that was the point to have a laugh.. life is pull of sadness and bad things .. so if we can have a laugh then at least it will bring some sadness down …

seeeee I knew milk is not good now on other had a few pegs of alcohol the patiala one’s.. would have had a better effect he he he he .. they do on me for sure I can walk talk and everything in ENGLISH.. after a few patiala pegs he he he he he

and glenfiddich how do you know its my favourite .. its the best scotch i tell you 🙂 very true .. cheersssssssssssssss he he he he he

Bikram. I have become an irregular blogging…There, I said it. So, haven’t forgotten you…realllyyyy!!! Trust me!
With this, I take up a challenge to force myself to post more often….and visit your space too 😀
Happpy….??????? 🙂

I know it will for sure .. the problem is I find it difficult to put the thoughts to words..
do BOTH .. have a great laugh and then have a think .. why you laughing .. then when you are thinking .. have another good laugh 🙂 he he he hehe

Since you brought up the smiling thing up. People normally toss this question to me “Why are you smiling?”.
The reply I give is that I’m a happy person that’s why I’m smiling.
The reply which I actually want to give is “I smile because I’m not an animal, I’m human, I’ve the privilege to smile 🙂 “. I avoid saying it because I don’t want to be rude.
And one more thing:
Milk is cheaper than alcohol.
Milk is healthier.
Milk doesn’t give you hangover.
You can drink milk sitting in-front of your parents.
So, milk is better than alcohol. 😀
No hangover means, you have one less thing to worry about the very next morning.
Ananta Narayan!

hmmmm very well said Krishna. .but even animals smile they have their own kind of smile 🙂 which only they understand .. yeah milk is definitely better than alcohol but the question was why no posters 🙂 and i like that line .. no hangover means one less thing to worry about so very trueeeeeeeeee..

hi bikramj!! 🙂 on the first read it totally hilarious!! but also these thoughts popped up 😛
1. about light at the end of the tunnel- surely train does honk so we could somehow try to prevent the ooops moment
2. milk solves few health problems whereas alcohol doesnt!!
waiting for more posts!! 🙂
p.s. how are you?

Heloooooooooooooooooooooo .. how are you .. I am doing good … good to see you here and you posted even after an year .. actually i too have come after a long long time ..

nooooooooooooo i doubt if any trains blows the horn when entering a tunnel but even then if one is in the middle of the tunnel then surly the train will reach faster the other end then the person running for safety 🙂
he he he he he he .. hmmmmm .. not sure if i believe that , milk solving .. 🙂 but I take your word for it ..