Hi, I'm new here, so please forgive me if this has already been discussed previously.

I have what might be considered an unusual BDSM-related kink and I have looked high and low online to find websites or other individuals with the same interest. So far, my search has been fruitless. Hopefully, folks here will be able to point me in the right direction.

Anyway, I find the notion of "forcing" a male-to-female transgendered individual who lives as a female to dress and act like a man very erotic. The humiliation aspect of it drives me wild.

Cynthia, the exact details of your fantasy might be unique to you, but there are probably others out there who share part of the fantasy. You might look for a trans-woman who's simply into humiliation and see if she's game for that specific type of humiliation. Or as a last resort, hire a trans-woman or drag queen prostitute and pay her to play through it.

"We hurt the ones we love the most. It's a subtle form of compliment."

Sparrow, if I read Cynthia correctly, what she wants is actually forced masculinization, which is not something i've seen discussed elsewhere. She wants to humiliate a transman by "undoing" his mtf transformation.

The problem is that a woman cannot be humiliated by making her dress as a man, because it's a boost in status according to our society's views (that's why mens clothing frequently gets co-opted by women, and why female cross-dressing is often eroticize, a la Dietrich or Madonna, whereas the reverse is not). The humiliation here comes from denying the transman his desired stays as a woman, so it's a little more abstracted than normal forced fem.

"We hurt the ones we love the most. It's a subtle form of compliment."

I would call Cynthia's fetish "Reverse forced feminization". Say, Cynthia, would it turn you on to any extent to fake this one ? What I mean is, a guy who isn't into transgendered could pretend he was. Most guys will do ANYTHING in private, although getting him to fem-dress in public might be tricky. Unless it is a convincing disguise, and even then he wouldn't want to do it in his usual neighborhood. Then, you could "force" him to dress normally again . I think I hurt my brain on this one.