I am planning to go on vacation with my girlfriend (We are both in our early twenties) in a 5 star hotel in Cancun, Mexico.

My concerns:

I've seen a documentary where a young guy got drugged in Mexico at a restaurant and woke up missing a kidney.

Everyone tells me Mexico is dangerous

I've read that some places in Mexico are dangerous i.e. Ciudad Juarez

I am afraid that we will look vulnerable (2 young adults alone). Some of the hotel we want to go include prepaid restaurant coupons. I am afraid that we will have to travel outside of our hotel to the restaurant, dine and get drugged and wake up missing some organs.

UPDATE: The vacations were amazing. Although some places might look sketchy, the overall experience was very safe. The trip is well organized by the travel agency/hotel so there is nothing to be worried about.

You hear the same kidney story for various Southeast Asian countries, and on my last trip I was told it yet again, very sternly, just before I went and had an amazing trip hitchhiking through Albania (-: (I still have both kidneys and even my liver.)
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hippietrailNov 26 '12 at 7:52

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One of Miss Mexico just killed yesterday by gunshot during a gang war.
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Rudy GunawanNov 27 '12 at 7:10

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@Conrad C: you're just being ridiculous. Cancun is no more dangerous than any large city in the USA. It's practically an American colony anyway.
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Michael BorgwardtDec 4 '12 at 10:18

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@MichaelBorgwardt - be nice. Many people are new to travel and understandably concerned given all the stories and scare-mongering in the media. Those of us who have travelled lots have experience, sometimes that includes problems as well (getting mugged or worse), but many of us have also been lucky. Conrad C is new to it and asking for assistance. Address his concerns, don't call him "ridiculous" :)
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Mark MayoDec 4 '12 at 17:22

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While the kidney thing is almost certainly nonsense, there have been quite a few (by Canadian standards) Canadians murdered in Mexico, and the police investigations verge on nonsensical. Like the young man found in a ditch covered in injuries and the police said "he must have fallen off his motorcycle, and then perhaps someone stole it since there's no sign of it around." A lot of families feel their loved ones were murdered but the local police say things like "it looks like he fell from the third floor balcony then walked from there to this deserted parking lot before lying down and dying" and ruling it an accident.

That said, Mexico is an enormous place and this may be more a perception than reality. If I go to Bing and type "Canadians murder" it offers me "Canadians murdered in Mexico" as the first suggested search. Articles like this one in the National Post are easy to find. But this other one on the CBC website shows that India, for example, is actually far more dangerous.

The vast vast majority of people who holiday anywhere come home unscathed, or maybe with a sunburn. Relax and enjoy your holiday.

Avoid the police (except tourist police) whenever possible in Mexico. Yes there are definitely many good cops, but your chances of running into a bad cop, or several bad cops, is far too high. Mexico is still my favourite country in the world, but they really need to clean up their police force - at all levels.
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hippietrailNov 26 '12 at 7:56

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First time I've ever seen someone say "When I go to Bing"
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MarkoFeb 7 '13 at 23:59

@Flimzy The first link in my answer contains numerous stories of Canadians killed in and near Cancun. It's a nice theory, that you're safe in a tourist town, and it's probably true, but "zero in decades" is most definitely not true. The police are happy to record beating deaths as accidents to make Cancun look safer, but that's not the same as being safer.
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Kate GregoryMay 8 '13 at 12:30

Mexico is a great place, and for the most part safe. Obviously you should use common sense, but you will be fine. The resorts and tours are also safe, so enjoy yourself.

I lived in southern Mexico for a couple of years and never had a problem (I'm a tall, blonde, white American), Mexicans are very friendly. I do speak Spanish though, and have always felt that this helps people warm up to me.

So,

learn some Spanish and be friendly

Avoid obviously dangerous areas, and carrying valuables like Peter said

Know travel regulations

If it makes you feel more comfortable, plan your whole trip out ahead of time and stick to the touristy areas

I haven't been to Mexico myself yet, but I've given this some thought recently, from the perspective of visiting Yucatán peninsula (incl Cancún) and maybe other places like Puebla and Veracruz. (Specifically, I've read news and blog posts, and talked with Mexicans and others who've been there.)

Currently it is best to avoid the northern parts of the country, close to the US border. Especially the state of Chihuahua and the city of Ciudad Juarez. This is also what several Mexicans have told me.

Going to Cancún and elsewhere on Yucatán peninsula (especially Mérida and the rest of the Yucatán state) should be safe. A Mexican woman I talked to just two days ago said it's segurísimo (extremely safe) for a tourist to visit that area. This is especially true if you plan to stay in the tourist areas all the time, near your hotel and the beach (though otherwise I personally wouldn't recommend such boring way of travelling :-P).

On the other hand, if you look for it, you will find some disquieting news from Cancún too. E.g. here or here (though those are a couple of years old).

Mexico City is huge but actually quite safe. Both the stats and people I've talked to seem to agree on this.

For other areas, do some research beforehand. For example Acapulco and state of Guerrero, though not near the US border, have seen considerable rise in violence in recent years.

If you want to follow news about Mexican gang violence (probably increasing your fears in the process), see the "Hell on Earth" blog.

Despite what many think, much of Mexico is still very safe. Much of
the violence in the last year has isolated itself to border area
states and southwest Mexico.

Even border state, Baja California, has become safer than many U.S.
states, as well as Ciudad Juarez being on the path to a much safer
community.

Typical tourist beach cities have seen little to no violence, Acapulco
being the exception. Major cities like Mexico City, Guadalajara, and
Puebla have escaped gang style violence for the most part, leaving
them still perfectly safe for the conscious business traveler.

Definitely good reading for those planning to visit Mexico. Specifically of note (for OP) is that for Quintana Roo and Yucatán states, "no advisory is in effect".

Before I visited Mexico for the first time, I also heard many stories about how dangerous it is, especially from Mexicans living in L.A.

Then I spent three wonderful months all over Mexico without anything bad happening to me.

I consider the part of Cancún where all the hotels are an even safer place. There are only hotels, shopping malls/restaurants and the beach. And it's full of tourists. Nice beach but boring. Cancún town proper is much more like a normal Mexican town and still perfectly safe in my experience, but I haven't been there late at night.

Use common sense when going out, don't take your valuables or any bags when going out at night.

My experience with Mexico is if you try to find trouble, trouble WILL find you. I have been to Cancun (Playa del Carmen actually) and there were lots of tourists and also military police (they call them Federales). If the AK47 isn't any indication, then you know that they don't mess around when it comes to breaking the law. I have been to Cabo quite a few times now, and there's been some security concerns there as well. I stay away from Cabo San Lucas because of how its crazy busy and the loads of people there. We stay in a smaller town called San Jose del Cabo and the scariest time was February, 2012 when Hillary Clinton (then USA Secretary Of State) showed up for a pre G8 meeting and stayed at the resort next to ours. There were Navy ships patrolling the shore line, military helicopters flying around and if that's not scary enough, there were Armored Personnel Carrier's (APC) all around the hotel. There were also metal detectors for anyone leaving or entering the hotel. However, nothing has happened to us so nothing is preventing us from going back again. I also don't go out clubbing or bar hopping late at night because that is where the pick pocketers and druggies go. Some friends went out to a club in Cabo San Lucas and even though they carried their purses with them wherever they were, someone managed to sneak up behind them and take everything out of it without them even noticing.