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Friday, June 27, 2014

Group M4M Sex Parties for the week of Friday, June 27th to Thursday, July 3rd

My dear fellow group-sex aficionados:

Here is a listing of all the parties I *believe* to be happening this week. If the host/s has confirmed the details of the party directly with me then I list the details as "VERIFIED." If the hosts have not confirmed the party details with me, I list the details as "UNVERIFIED."

I highly recommend that you do not attend a party going solely off of the information here without contacting the hosts first, especially if the information here is UNVERIFIED. Most parties do require that you submit pics and stats and that you are added to an invite list before you can attend, and there is always the chance of last minute changes or cancellations. Another great source for finding parties is the "Parties and Events" section of adam4adam.com, so I recommend that you check that site for parties as well, especially if you are looking for parties outside of the NYC area.

A GUIDE TO DOOR POLICIES

Here is a listing of what the different “DOOR POLICY” terms mean. These should not be taken as an indication of how “good” a party is. I have been to some Very Selective parties where I have been bored because there were mostly men standing around acting like they were all too good for each other, and I’ve also been to Open Door parties that have been full-out fuckfests filled with lots of hot group action. These categories are simply intended to be a guide as to whether the party is one you would physically fit in to and an indication as to what kinds of body types you will likely find there.

Here are the Door Policy Categories:

Very Selective – Only good-looking men in good physical shape with toned bodies and visible muscle mass are allowed in. These parties also usually have a limited age range.

Selective – Only men with above-average to average bodies are allowed. “Average” refers to men who are height-weight-proportionate and do not have much visible muscle tone or muscle mass. But you will also usually find quite a few men in great shape at these parties as well.

Somewhat Selective – A wide range of body types. You may find some above-average athletic men and also some out-of-shape men with extra pounds on them, but not overly obese. Most guys at these parties tend to have average bodies.

Not Selective – All body types are allowed. You still need to be on an invite list in order to attend, and with some Not Selective parties you may need to meet some other entrance criteria such as age or race.

Open Door – General admission. Everyone is welcome and you don’t need to be on an invite list in order to attend. Just show up.

Here are the parties for this Friday through Thursday:

Friday, June 27th

THE OMEGA PARTY (Long Island City, Queens) Large party in a huge industrial loft-type space with private rooms, booths, a "cinema lounge" and one particularly dubious pitch-black area. Only 10 minutes from Manhattan. A good party for average guys.

LIGHTING: Mostly good, some spaces pitch blackA GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys into all different races especially Latinos, average and out-of-shape guys, guys into anon scenes.NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys with racial or age hang-ups, guys only into gym bodies.

PEAK (Chelsea) One of the “Chelsea Duplex Parties” held in a space close to Penn Station.THE HOST SAYS: “This is a spacious duplex apartment party for height/weight proportional (so please be) men of all ages and races. Most are over age 30, all are over 18. Relaxed, friendly, non-intimidating vibe. This is an alternative to the “stand-and-pose” parties. Lube and condoms always available. Two levels, three playrooms, leather sling, loft bed, glory holes. Diverse music. No one would be “required” to participate, so taking things slow or whatever, is up to you. Guys who are exceptionally nervous or have lots of questions are probably not right for the vibe of this party. You can bring a friend if he fits these criteria. Thank you."VERIFIED SPECIFICSDOOR POLICY: Somewhat SelectiveVIBE: Relaxed, friendly, non-intimidatingSS/BB: Safe SexDONATION: $10 (occasional comps for regulars or for a slow party)SUPPLIES: Lube and condoms always availableTIME: 8pm to 1am (doors close at Midnight)FREQUENCY: Every Friday and Tuesday (Mixed Safe Sex and BB parties every Sunday and Thursday.)CROWD: Height/weight proportional men of all ages and races. Most are over age 30, all are over 18. 15-30 men.AGE: Most are over age 30, all are over 18. Average age is early 40s.SPACE: Duplex: 1st floor and basement levelsLIGHTING: Not brightly lit, but enough light for the voyeurs. Candles, strip lighting, lasers, lava lamp, TV.A GOOD PARTY FOR: Middle aged men, 30-somethings, young guys who go for older, all races but two-thirds white, low maintenanceNOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys who are exceptionally nervous or have lots of questions. Also not for high-maintenance types, those who place great emphasis on the gym, or have an attitude.GETTING IN: Send age and pic to Scott at theorgyguy@gmail.com. Courtesy is always appreciated.GROUPAXXXTION (Downtown Toronto)THE HOSTS SAY: “GroupaXXXtion hosts safe-sex parties for attractive fit (from slim/defined to athletic/muscular) men of all races ages 20 to 40, although the main demographic are white, latin and middle eastern guys from mid-20s to mid-30s. Located in a central Downtown Toronto hotel with a large open comfortable play space with porn, 2 beds, couch, shower and washroom. Space limited and there is a screening process to get the right mix of guys. Members are required to strip to underwear after checking-in. No smoking or illegal drugs are allowed. Lube and condoms always available.DOOR POLICY: SelectiveVIBE: No attitude, friendly, relaxedSS/BB: Safe sexDONATION: $20 includes 1 alcoholic beverageSUPPLIES: Refreshments, latex condoms, water-based lubeTIME: 9pm to 1am (Doors close at 11pm)CROWD: 15-30 guys, 30 person maximum partyAGE: 20-40 years oldSPACE: Hotel near subway, large room with 2 beds and 1 bathroomLIGHTING: Ambient, you can see who’s there and whom you’re playing withA GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys who enjoy hooking up with masculine men no-attitude fun. Friendly, outgoing individuals who enjoy interracial interaction. Men who like to play safe in a drug-free environment.NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: Barebackers, drug users, out of shape guys.GETTING IN: Send stats and 3/4 upper body pic clearly showing face and torso to groupaction2005@yahoo.com ; and cam to verify. x-pics not needed

NYC NAKED WRESTLERS ( Gramercy)THE HOSTS SAY: "New York's only wrestling group where men go completely naked and give in to the ultimate sexual surrender at the end of each match while surrounded by naked members getting off with one another on the sidelines. Two floors: first one offering wrestling/sex matches, second one combined group sex party with the select men of TESTOSTERONE. Open to all fit in-shape guys who enjoy watching or participating in naked combat without restrictions or limitations, exhibitionists and voyeurs welcome to attend, and there is no pressure to participate in the matches unless interested in doing so."VERIFIED SPECIFICSDOOR POLICY: Somewhat SelectiveVIBE: Social and FriendlySS/BB: Both Safe Sex and BBDONATION: $25 entry, and clothes-check gratuities are appreciatedSUPPLIES: Condoms and LubeTIME: 9pm-3am, doors close at 11pmFREQUENCY: several times a month, usually every other FridayCROWD: 40-60 guysAGE: All ages (over 21)SPACE: Private Penthouse Duplex apartment with two bathroomsLIGHTING: 1st floor brightly-lit for wrestling matches on the mats, 2nd floor Viewing Gallery and darkened Lounge for the group sex orgyA GOOD PARTY FOR: Anyone who enjoys watching naked guys wrestle and have sex on the mats. Guys interested in exloring their desire to participate in these kind of matches. Guys who enjoy hooking up with masculine men for hot, hardcore, no-attitude fun. Friendly, outgoing individuals who enjoy interracial interaction.NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: Shy and modest guys. Men with racial hang-ups. Guys who parTy. High-maintance types with an attitude.GETTING IN: Send stats and a recent shirtless pic from the waist up to Nick at nycnakedwrestlers@gmail.com or check out www.gayguysglobal.net

NYJP PRIDE PARTY (Midtown) New York Jock Party is one of the largest parties in NYC and also widely considered one of the best for those looking for jocks with toned and muscled physiques. The host is very discriminating so the place is filled with hot men. It can also at times be filled with attitude, but that seems to come with the territory. This is not a party for the modest or shy as you are required to check everything including your underwear, and you will be given a small towel to cover up.RATING: Very SelectiveVIBE: Some attitudeTIME: 10pm-5amCROWD: 50-70 young, hot menAGES: mostly 20s and 30s, few in-shape men in their 40sDONATION: $28SS/BB: A safe sex partySPACE: Hot, clean, huge studio space, two bathrooms, showerSUPPLIES: drinks, snacks, condoms/lube.FREQUENCY: 2X a month, Fri, Sat, Sundays, sometimes ThursdaysLIGHTING: Good, sometimes too dark for such hot menGETTING IN: Send stats and pics to: thenyjp@gmail.com

20:20 (Prospect Heights, Brooklyn)THE HOSTS SAY: 20:20 is a selective, classy, sexy, drug-free monthly group party in Brooklyn. The event takes place in a large luxury condo with plenty of space. Guests are all 30 years old and under, and in very good shape only (no exceptions). This is a free party, BYOB, condoms/lube provided. This month's theme is *ART + STRIP TEASE PARTY*.VERIFIED SPECIFICSDOOR POLICY: Very SelectiveVIBE: Social and friendlyDONATION: Completely free but BYOBSUPPLIES: NYC condoms and lubeTIME: 10:30pm to 4amFREQUENCY: Roughly once a monthCROWD: Around 35 guys in their 20's, mostly white guys with some Asians, Latinos and Blacks. We don't discriminate as long as you're hot. Body types go from thin to muscular, no overweight or less-than-desirable body types. We typically get a few couples too.AGE: 18 to 30, all ages fairly equally representedSPACE: Large private and modern condo unitLIGHTING: Dark to good, depending on where you playA GOOD PARTY FOR: Anyone who wants to meet and socialize before playing with others. This is not a fuck-and-go party, you will not find it easy to play here unless you're willing to talk a little and make friends. We're very good at filtering creeps out, so expect similar minded sociable guys.NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: Anyone who want to have sex right away, creeps who can't or don't want to socialize, people who need to get high or drunk, guys who have unsafe sex.GETTING IN: You can find more info at 2020party.tumblr.com. Make sure you register for the email list in order to get the invite (RSVP needed as we limit the audience to 35 participants only).LE MYSTIQUEXXX (Gramercy) A masked nude event. THE HOSTS SAY: An evening of mystery, exploration and fun in a safe non-pressuring environment. Our events are masked and nude with a theme. This week’s theme is Masquerade! We encourage voyeurism. You may bring your own masks. Sexy underwear is ok.VERIFIED SPECIFICS DOOR POLICY: Selective VIBE: Social and Friendly SS/BB: combination of both safe sex and BB DONATION: $2o including coat check SUPPLIES: Condoms, lube, lite snacks and alcoholic beverages included TIME: 12am-3am, doors close at 1am FREQUENCY: Weekly on Fridays CROWD: 50-70 ethnically diverse in shape masculine men AGE: age limit is 50, most attendees are 26-35 SPACE: space changes to keep the party interesting. This week's locale is in Gramercy. The venue is a duplex apartment with two bathrooms, and plenty of room for exploration LIGHTING: dim/good A GOOD PARTY FOR: Friendly sexy guys who are looking for an event with a twist. NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: Those who like to parTy GETTING IN: Check out our website: www.Lemystiquexxx.com and send pictures to LeMystiquexxx@gmail.com

THUGS 4 THUGS SEX PARTY (Brooklyn) Hot party for Black and Latino guys, and guys who love big black cocks.THE HOSTS SAYS: "Weekly sex parties in Brooklyn NY for in-shape men of color and a very very select few whites who send pics and get approved....I have the biggest and best Safe Sex party that continues to grow and become more popular. My parties are discrete and well organized. No shirts or under shirts are allowed. If your stomach is too big, you will not get in. No weed smoking or illegal drugs are allowed. I provide a safe, comfortable, spacious environment for men of color."UNVERIFIED SPECIFICS

ENCORES PARTY (Chelsea). After-hours party. Often attended by restaurant and bar employees after those places shut down. You don't have to have an invitation or be on a list or anything. It can be incredibly hot, but sometimes it is hit or miss. This is not a mandatory clothes check party but it is highly recommended that you check your valuables. Pickpockets have been known to clean out pockets while pants are around ankles. I also find the level of aggression to be higher at this party than most and that it seems to attract a handful of men that do not know how to respect boundaries or take "no" for an answer. But as long as you go in armed with this knowledge and react accordingly, there are usually some hot early morning times to be had here. UNVERIFIED SPECIFICS

DOOR POLICY: Open Door

VIBE: no attitude

SS/BB: Safe sex and BBDONATION: $20SUPPLIES: condom/lubes

TIME: 3am-7am, (The party really takes off around 4am when many bars close)

FREQUENCY: every Friday and Saturday night

CROWD: Gets around 70 people on Fridays and 100 Sat. night (Sun. morning).

AGE: No restriction

SPACE: Paddles sex club

LIGHTING: Good, some dark areasA GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys who like a diverse crowd, voyours, average and out-of-shape guys, tourists/visitors, guys who want to get off after the bars before they head home.NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys only into gym bodies, guys with attitude.

CHASER'S CHOICE (Gramercy) A party for chubs and the guys who love them.

THE HOSTS SAY: "Chaser's Choice is a sexually-charged party for men of all ages (18 and over) who have large bellies, big tits, great chub cocks, and the horny chasers who love playing with them. All types of guys are accepted at this party: cute chubs in their 20s and 30s, daddy chubs, voluptuous extra large chubs, mature beefy bears, skinny and hot muscle admirers, all coming together for afternoon fun in a spacious penthouse duplex apartment. Our guestlist includes guys from all over the world. We extend a special invitation to men with small penises and their admirers! Everyone is welcome!

VERIFIED SPECIFICSDOOR POLICY: Open DoorVIBE: Social and Friendly

SS/BB: Safe Sex and BBDONATION: $25SUPPLIES: Condoms and LubeTIME: 2pm-6pm (Doors close at 5pm)FREQUENCY: Weekly SaturdaysCROWD: 30-40 guysAGE: All ages (over 18)SPACE: Private duplex apartment with two bathroomsLIGHTING: Good, some darker rooms upstairsA GOOD PARTY FOR: Anyone who enjoys playing with large masculine men.NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: Shy and modest guys. Men with racial hang-ups. Judgmental guys with attitude.GETTING IN: Request invite at: chaserschoicenyc@gmail.com. You can find more info at: www.gayguysglobal.net

GROUPAXXXTION (Downtown Toronto)THE HOSTS SAY: “groupaXXXtion hosts safe-sex parties for attractive fit (from slim/defined to athletic/muscular) men of all races ages 20 to 40, although the main demographic are white, latin and middle eastern guys from mid-20s to mid-30s. Located in a central Downtown Toronto hotel with a large open comfortable play space with porn, 2 beds, couch, shower and washroom. Space limited and there is a screening process to get the right mix of guys. Members are required to strip to underwear after checking-in. No smoking or illegal drugs are allowed. Lube and condoms always available.DOOR POLICY: SelectiveVIBE: No attitude, friendly, relaxedSS/BB: Safe sexDONATION: $20 includes 1 alcoholic beverageSUPPLIES: refreshments, latex condoms, water-based lubeTIME: 3pm to 7pm (doors close at 5pm); and 9pm to 1am (doors close at 11pm) CROWD: 15-30 guys, 30 person maximum partyAGE: 20-40 years oldSPACE: Hotel near subway, large room with 2 beds and 1 bathroomLIGHTING: Ambient, you can see who’s there and whom you’re playing withA GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys who enjoy hooking up with masculine men no-attitude fun. Friendly, outgoing individuals who enjoy interracial interaction. Men who like to play safe in a drug-free environment.NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: Barebackers, drug users, out of shape guys.GETTING IN: send stats and 3/4 upper body pic clearly showing face and torso to groupaction2005@yahoo.com ; and cam to verify. x-pics not needed

NEW YORK JACKS (Midtown) Safe-sex party for guys who like to jerk off.THE HOSTS SAY: "Get naked with us and enjoy man to man cock play....Mutual masturbation between consenting adults is legal and safe. Probably the safest activity you can do except for solo J/O. We are a friendly group of guys and we are all there for the same reason and to have fun. You'll see guys there of all ages, body types, sizes, etc. There will be tall, short, hairy, well endowed, young, older, all races, gay, married, bi-, etc. We don't discriminate against physical attributes, only inappropriate behavior."
UNVERIFIED SPECIFICSDOOR POLICY: Not SelectiveVIBE: No attitudeSS/BB: N/A DONATION: $25 ($20 with membership card)SUPPLIES: N/ATIME: 5pm to 8pm (door closes at 7pm)CROWD: Varies, all type of bodies, races, and ages from hot young guys to muscle guys to older guys. (Usual attendance numbers have not been given.)AGES: 18-60sSS/BB: N/ASPACE: Sunday in a loft-type space, Tuesdays at Paddles Sex Club SUPPLIES: N/ALIGHTING: GoodGETTING IN: Request location and directions at their site: http://www.nyjacks.com/

FOOTMENNYC (Hell's Kitchen) Private party for Men into Feet, Footwear, or Tickling.THE HOST SAYS: "These are the ideal social parties for Men into Mens’ Feet, Footwear, and Tickling ready for action! In an intimate private space. In order to attend, you must make a reservation, and make a commitment to be there. Our party regulars are friendly, and expert at making first-timers want to come again and again.Although party is foot-focused, safe sex is permitted in one room only."UNVERIFIED SPECIFICSDOOR POLICY: Somewhat SelectiveVIBE: No attitudeSS/BB: Safe sex onlyDONATION: $10 before 9pm or after Midnight, $20 9pm-Midnight ($10 ages 18-25 with a valid ID)SUPPLIES: Condoms, lube, snacks, juice, water, soda. (You can BYOB)TIME: 8pm-3am (must arrive by 1am)FREQUENCY: Every Saturday and Tuesday night.CROWD: 40 person maximum partyAGE: 18-50SPACE: Private apt with couches, bed, 2 playspaces, kitchen and bathroomLIGHTING: Good, darker in one playspaceA GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys into feet and footware, guys who like to give and/or get foot massages, guys who like to tickle or get tickled, first-timers, guys who like to play safe.NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys who are just looking for sex, barebackers, guys who aren't into feet.

THE OMEGA PARTY (Long Island City, Queens) Large party in a huge industrial loft-type space with private rooms, booths, a "cinema lounge" and one particularly dubious pitch-black area. Only 10 minutes from Manhattan. A good party for average guys.

THUGS 4 THUGS SEX PARTY (Brooklyn) Hot party for Black and Latino guys, and guys who love big black cocks.THE HOSTS SAYS: "Weekly sex parties in Brooklyn NY for in-shape men of color and a very very select few whites who send pics and get approved....I have the biggest and best Safe Sex party that continues to grow and become more popular. My parties are discrete and well organized. No shirts or under shirts are allowed. If your stomach is too big, you will not get in. No weed smoking or illegal drugs are allowed. I provide a safe, comfortable, spacious environment for men of color."UNVERIFIED SPECIFICS

ENCORES PARTY (Chelsea). After-hours party. Often attended by restaurant and bar employees after those places shut down. You don't have to have an invitation or be on a list or anything. It can be incredibly hot, but sometimes it is hit or miss. This is not a mandatory clothes check party but it is highly recommended that you check your valuables. Pickpockets have been known to clean out pockets while pants are around ankles. I also find the level of aggression to be higher at this party than most and that it seems to attract a handful of men that do not know how to respect boundaries or take "no" for an answer. But as long as you go in armed with this knowledge and react accordingly, there are usually some hot early morning times to be had here. UNVERIFIED SPECIFICS

DOOR POLICY: Open Door

VIBE: no attitude

SS/BB: Safe sex and BBDONATION: $20SUPPLIES: Condom/lubes

TIME: 3am-7am, (The party really takes off around 4am when many bars close)

FREQUENCY: every Friday and Saturday night

CROWD: Gets around 70 people on Fridays and 100 Sat. night (Sun. morning).

AGE: No restriction

SPACE: Paddles sex club

LIGHTING: Good, some dark areasA GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys who like a diverse crowd, voyours, average and out-of-shape guys, tourists/visitors, guys who want to get off after the bars before they head home.NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys only into gym bodies, guys with attitude.

THE HOSTS SAY: “This is an all-inclusive party for all big men of different shapes, sizes, races, and their admirers. Bringing the Bear Community together for hot steamy afternoon fun. A great way for anyone looking to get off before the weekend wraps up."VERIFIED SPECIFICSDOOR POLICY: Open DoorVIBE: Social and Friendly

SS/BB: Safe Sex and BBDONATION: $25, and clothes-check gratuities are appreciatedSUPPLIES: Condoms and LubeTIME: 2pm-6pm (doors close at 5pm)FREQUENCY: WeeklyCROWD: 40-50 guys, all welcome: bears, cubs, chubs, otters, wolves, and bullsAGE: All ages (over 21)SPACE: Private duplex apartment with two bathroomsLIGHTING: Good, some darker rooms upstairsA GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys who enjoy hooking up with hairy masculine men. Friendly, outgoing individuals who enjoy interracial interaction. Men into facial hair, tattoos, and fur-covered action.NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: Shy and modest guys. Men with racial hang-ups. Guys who like to parTy.GETTING IN: Request invite at: gothambearsnyc@gmail.com. You can find more info at: www.gayguysglobal.net

NEW YORK JACKS (Midtown) Safe-sex party for guys who like to jerk off.THE HOSTS SAY: "Get naked with us and enjoy man to man cock play....Mutual masturbation between consenting adults is legal and safe. Probably the safest activity you can do except for solo J/O. We are a friendly group of guys and we are all there for the same reason and to have fun. You'll see guys there of all ages, body types, sizes, etc. There will be tall, short, hairy, well endowed, young, older, all races, gay, married, bi-, etc. We don't discriminate against physical attributes, only inappropriate behavior."
UNVERIFIED SPECIFICSDOOR POLICY: Not SelectiveVIBE: No attitudeSS/BB: N/A DONATION: $25 ($20 with membership card)SUPPLIES: N/ATIME: 4pm to 7pm, doors open till 6pm CROWD: Varies, all type of bodies, races, and ages from hot young guys to muscle guys to older guys. (Usual attendance numbers have not been given.)AGES: 18-60sSS/BB: N/ASPACE: A loft-type spaceSUPPLIES: N/ALIGHTING: GoodGETTING IN: Request location and directions at their site: http://www.nyjacks.com/

THE OMEGA PARTY (Long Island City, Queens) Large party in a huge industrial loft-type space with private rooms, booths, a "cinema lounge" and one particularly dubious pitch-black area. Only 10 minutes from Manhattan. A good party for average guys.

NEW YORK BONDAGE CLUB (Chelsea) For anyone who has a taste for sex with a kinky side (leather, rope, spanking, etc) it's a good place to get satisfied on a Sunday night. Sex is no longer banned. Sucking, fucking, whatever, are all allowed now at all times. It's common to see guys tied down and fucked. Or a dom directing sex between two roped subs.

UNVERIFIED SPECIFICS

DOOR POLICY: Not selective

VIBE: no attitude

TIME: 7pm-2am

CROWD: Varies

AGE: It's always a mixed crowd in terms of age.

SS/BB: Safe sex

SPACE: Held in a BDSM club, the party scene includes cages, restraints, bondage crosses, stocks and all sorts of devices to aid in tying people up and getting them off.

SUPPLIES: Condoms/lube

FREQUENCY: Every Sunday night

LIGHTING: At 11pm they turn down the lights in all areas except the bar at the front. In these darker areas, there's now a dress code of no street clothes. You have to wear no more than underwear, or you can wear fetish wear (leather, rubber, and the like).

FUSION (Chelsea) One of the “Chelsea Duplex Parties” held in a space close to Penn Station.THE HOST SAYS: “This is a spacious duplex apartment party for height/weight proportional (so please be) men of all ages and races. Most are over age 30, all are over 18. Relaxed, friendly, non-intimidating vibe. This is an alternative to the “stand-and-pose” parties. Lube and condoms always available. Two levels, three playrooms, leather sling, loft bed, glory holes. Diverse music. No one would be “required” to participate, so taking things slow or whatever, is up to you. Guys who are exceptionally nervous or have lots of questions are probably not right for the vibe of this party. You can bring a friend if he fits these criteria. Thank you."VERIFIED SPECIFICSDOOR POLICY: Somewhat SelectiveVIBE: Relaxed, friendly, non-intimidatingSS/BB: Safe Sex and BBDONATION: $20 (occasional comps for regulars or for a slow party)SUPPLIES: Lube and condoms always availableTIME: 8pm to 1am (doors close at Midnight)FREQUENCY: Every Sunday and Thursday (Safe-Sex-only parties are Fridays and Tuesdays.)CROWD: Height/weight proportional men of all ages and races. Most are over age 30, all are over 18. 15-30 men.AGE: Most are over age 30, all are over 18. Average age is early 40s.SPACE: Duplex: 1st floor and basement levelsLIGHTING: Not brightly lit, but enough light for the voyeurs. Candles, strip lighting, lasers, lava lamp, TV.A GOOD PARTY FOR: Middle aged men, 30-somethings, young guys who go for older, all races but two-thirds white, low maintenanceNOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys who are exceptionally nervous or have lots of questions. Also not for high-maintenance types, those who place great emphasis on the gym, or have an attitude.GETTING IN: Send age and pic to Scott attheorgyguy@gmail.com. Courtesy is always appreciated.

BOXERS AND BRIEFS (Midtown) About once a monththe hot jocks of NYJOCK PARTY--NYJP meet the college dudes of GOLDEN BOYS USA in this huge sex party. This is one of the best parties for young in-shape guys. Despite the title, you are required to be completely nude when the party is held in the Midtown space, but if you are in good shape and not shy or modest, then this party is not to be missed.

UNVERIFIED SPECIFICS

DOOR POLICY: Very Selective

VIBE: Some attitude

SS / BB: A Safe Sex party

DONATION: $33

SUPPLIES: Snacks. Condom/lube.

TIME: 9pm-5am

FREQUENCY: About once a month

CROWD: Around 200 guys

AGES: Mostly 20s & 30s, few in-shape men in 40s

SPACE: Hot, clean, huge duplex space, two bathrooms

LIGHTING: Good, sometimes too dark for such hot men

A GOOD PARTY FOR: Jocks, in-shape twinks.

NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: Shy or modest guys, guys over 40 (unless you are in great shape), guys with average or below average bodies.

THUGS 4 THUGS SEX PARTY (Brooklyn) Hot party for Black and Latino guys, and guys who love big black cocks.THE HOSTS SAYS: "Weekly sex parties in Brooklyn NY for in-shape men of color and a very very select few whites who send pics and get approved....I have the biggest and best Safe Sex party that continues to grow and become more popular. My parties are discrete and well organized. No shirts or under shirts are allowed. If your stomach is too big, you will not get in. No weed smoking or illegal drugs are allowed. I provide a safe, comfortable, spacious environment for men of color."UNVERIFIED SPECIFICS

FINAL DESTINATION (Crown Heights, Brooklyn). From the host: "This is an all nude party. No exception and no negotiation about it at all. Strip at door. For fit men in shape only, no one waist over 36 will not get in."

JACKS OF COLOR "MASSAGE AND PLAY MONDAY" (Chelsea) Jacks of Color (often referred to simply as J.O.C.) is a New York City Club For Men of Color "And Their Friends."

One of my favorite of the "open door" general admission parties. It’s huge and has themed parties including leather, massage, and afternoons on weekends. And the host is one of the sweetest guys I've ever had the pleasure of meeting.UNVERIFIED SPECIFICS

DOOR POLICY: Not Selective

VIBE: No attitude

TIME: Doors 7:00 to Midnight, goes 'til 2am

CROWD: 50-70

AGE: 18-60s

SS/BB: some safe sex, but also quite a bit of BB

SPACE: Paddles

SUPPLIES: Condoms/lube

FREQUENCY: Every Monday night, and often other weekday nights and weekends.

HANDSOMENYC.COM (Astoria, Queens) Host Hunteur brings his party to Astoria on Monday nights to the Rainbow Playground, home of the Omega parties.

THE HOST SAYS: “So many parties out there are all about the ‘sleaze.’ What’s wrong with bonding with a great group of exceptional, intelligent men- the sexy 'guy next door' type? All races welcome. This is a place to enjoy the company of handsome and good-hearted great quality guys with sense of community. We are supportive of the artistic community with nights devoted to the arts. Guest appearance by porn stars, fantasy dress up, as well as fun giveaways (underwear and porn), and great promotions to pull in hotter guys."UNVERIFIED SPECIFICS

DOOR POLICY: Somewhat Selective

VIBE: No attitude

SS/BB: Safe Sex and BB

DONATION: $22

SUPPLIES: Condoms, lube, cookies/cake, refreshments

TIME: 8pm to 3am, doors close at 1am.

FREQUENCY: Every Wednesday night

CROWD: Average attendance is 30 to 60 great quality guys

AGE: 23 to 55-ish

SPACE: A large industrial loft-type space with many private cabins and rooms and a cinema lounge.

MUSCLE GROUP (West Harlem/w140s). This is a small sex party in a private apartment. This party can be hit and miss depending on how many and who show up, but when it's "hit" it can be a very hot party indeed. The best thing about this party is that it's one of the true orgies in the city. At most parties guys are having sex one-on-one or in threesomes--at this one there is more often than not a pile of guys fucking and sucking off each other.UNVERIFIED SPECIFICS

NEW YORK JACKS (Chelsea) Safe-sex party for guys who like to jerk off.THE HOSTS SAY: "Get naked with us and enjoy man to man cock play....Mutual masturbation between consenting adults is legal and safe. Probably the safest activity you can do except for solo J/O. We are a friendly group of guys and we are all there for the same reason and to have fun. You'll see guys there of all ages, body types, sizes, etc. There will be tall, short, hairy, well endowed, young, older, all races, gay, married, bi-, etc. We don't discriminate against physical attributes, only inappropriate behavior."
UNVERIFIED SPECIFICSDOOR POLICY: Not SelectiveVIBE: No attitudeSS/BB: N/A DONATION: $25 ($20 with membership card)SUPPLIES: N/ATIME: Doors open 7pm to 9pm, jerking until 10pmFREQUENCY: Every Sunday and Tuesday. (Check for different hours on Sunday.)CROWD: Varies, all type of bodies, races, and ages from hot young guys to muscle guys to older guys. (Usual attendance numbers have not been given.)AGES: 18-60sSS/BB: N/ASPACE: Paddles Sex Club SUPPLIES: N/ALIGHTING: GoodGETTING IN: Request location and directions at their site: http://www.nyjacks.com/FOOTMENNYC (Hell's Kitchen) Private party for Men into Feet, Footwear, or Tickling.THE HOST SAYS: "These are the ideal social parties for Men into Mens’ Feet, Footwear, and Tickling ready for action! In an intimate private space. In order to attend, you must make a reservation, and make a commitment to be there. Our party regulars are friendly, and expert at making first-timers want to come again and again.Although party is foot-focused, safe sex is permitted in one room only."UNVERIFIED SPECIFICSDOOR POLICY: Somewhat SelectiveVIBE: No attitudeSS/BB: Safe sex onlyDONATION: $20 ($10 ages 18-25 with a valid ID)SUPPLIES: Condoms, lube, snacks, juice, water, soda. (You can BYOB)TIME: 8pm-2am (must arrive by Midnight)FREQUENCY: Every Saturday and Tuesday night.CROWD: 40 person maximum partyAGE: 18-50SPACE: Private apt with couches, bed, 2 playspaces, kitchen and bathroomLIGHTING: Good, darker in one playspaceA GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys into feet and footware, guys who like to give and/or get foot massages, guys who like to tickle or get tickled, first-timers, guys who like to play safe.NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys who are just looking for sex, barebackers, guys who aren't into feet.

PEAK (Chelsea) One of the “Chelsea Duplex Parties” held in a space close to Penn Station.THE HOST SAYS: “This is a spacious duplex apartment party for height/weight proportional (so please be) men of all ages and races. Most are over age 30, all are over 18. Relaxed, friendly, non-intimidating vibe. This is an alternative to the “stand-and-pose” parties. Lube and condoms always available. Two levels, three playrooms, leather sling, loft bed, glory holes. Diverse music. No one would be “required” to participate, so taking things slow or whatever, is up to you. Guys who are exceptionally nervous or have lots of questions are probably not right for the vibe of this party. You can bring a friend if he fits these criteria. Thank you."VERIFIED SPECIFICSDOOR POLICY: Somewhat SelectiveVIBE: Relaxed, friendly, non-intimidatingSS/BB: Safe SexDONATION: $20 (occasional comps for regulars or for a slow party)SUPPLIES: Lube and condoms always availableTIME: 8pm to 1am (doors close at Midnight)FREQUENCY: Every Friday and Tuesday (Mixed Safe Sex and BB parties every Sunday and Thursday.)CROWD: Height/weight proportional men of all ages and races. Most are over age 30, all are over 18. 15-30 men.AGE: Most are over age 30, all are over 18. Average age is early 40s.SPACE: Duplex: 1st floor and basement levelsLIGHTING: Not brightly lit, but enough light for the voyeurs. Candles, strip lighting, lasers, lava lamp, TV.A GOOD PARTY FOR: Middle aged men, 30-somethings, young guys who go for older, all races but two-thirds white, low maintenanceNOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys who are exceptionally nervous or have lots of questions. Also not for high-maintenance types, those who place great emphasis on the gym, or have an attitude.GETTING IN: Send age and pic to Scott at theorgyguy@gmail.com. Courtesy is always appreciated.

Wednesday, July 2nd

REAL MEN ONLY (RMO) PARTY (Fresh Meadows) "Slurpee Coach has the parties in his apartment."

HANDSOMENYC.COM (Chelsea) This party from host Hunteur replaces Hard Drive on Wednesdays.

THE HOST SAYS: “So many parties out there are all about the ‘sleaze.’ What’s wrong with bonding with a great group of exceptional, intelligent men- the sexy 'guy next door' type? All races welcome. This is a place to enjoy the company of handsome and good-hearted great quality guys with sense of community, we also offer totally free STD Testing and referral to free health care for life and also referral to Harm Reduction Services. We have a permanent medical office on location. You do not need to pay the entrance fee to access our services- you may get tested and leave. We are supportive of the artistic community with nights devoted to the arts. Guest appearance by porn stars, fantasy dress up, as well as fun giveaways (underwear and porn), and great promotions to pull in hotter guys."VERIFIED SPECIFICS

THE HOSTS SAY: “Lunch-time party for businessmen looking to hook up weekday afternoons, offering guys who generally can't play during the evening hours (because of wives, girlfriends, boyfriends, or partnered) a chance to bust a quick afternoon nut in a large group setting.” VERIFIED SPECIFICS

DOOR POLICY: Somewhat Selective

VIBE: Social and Friendly

SS/BB: Safe Sex and BB

DONATION: $20 entry, and clothes-check gratuities are appreciated

SUPPLIES: Condoms and Lube

TIME: 12pm-3pm

FREQUENCY: weekly

CROWD: 30-40 guys, all races welcome, a mixture of gay, bi, and straight-curious men looking to explore their sexuality in a safe environment.

AGE: 21-55, most guys in their 30's and 40's

SPACE: private duplex apartment with two bathrooms

LIGHTING: Good, some darker rooms upstairs

A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys who enjoy hooking up with the suit-and-tie crowd. Friendly, outgoing individuals who enjoy interracial interaction. Men in their 30s and 40s and Jocks who like older Daddy types. Guys who find wedding rings a turn-on.

NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: Shy and modest guys. Men with racial hang-ups. Guys who like to parTy.

THE OMEGA PARTY (Long Island City, Queens) Large party in a huge industrial loft-type space with private rooms, booths, a "cinema lounge" and one particularly dubious pitch-black area. Only 10 minutes from Manhattan. A good party for average guys.

FUSION (Chelsea) One of the “Chelsea Duplex Parties” held in a space close to Penn Station.THE HOST SAYS: “This is a spacious duplex apartment party for height/weight proportional (so please be) men of all ages and races. Most are over age 30, all are over 18. Relaxed, friendly, non-intimidating vibe. This is an alternative to the “stand-and-pose” parties. Lube and condoms always available. Two levels, three playrooms, leather sling, loft bed, glory holes. Diverse music. No one would be “required” to participate, so taking things slow or whatever, is up to you. Guys who are exceptionally nervous or have lots of questions are probably not right for the vibe of this party. You can bring a friend if he fits these criteria. Thank you."VERIFIED SPECIFICSDOOR POLICY: Somewhat SelectiveVIBE: Relaxed, friendly, non-intimidatingSS/BB: Safe Sex and BBDONATION: $20 (occasional comps for regulars or for a slow party)SUPPLIES: Lube and condoms always availableTIME: 8pm to 1am (doors close at Midnight)FREQUENCY: Every Sunday and Thursday (Safe-Sex-only parties are Fridays and Tuesdays.)CROWD: Height/weight proportional men of all ages and races. Most are over age 30, all are over 18. 15-30 men.AGE: Most are over age 30, all are over 18. Average age is early 40s.SPACE: Duplex: 1st floor and basement levelsLIGHTING: Not brightly lit, but enough light for the voyeurs. Candles, strip lighting, lasers, lava lamp, TV.A GOOD PARTY FOR: Middle aged men, 30-somethings, young guys who go for older, all races but two-thirds white, low maintenanceNOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys who are exceptionally nervous or have lots of questions. Also not for high-maintenance types, those who place great emphasis on the gym, or have an attitude.GETTING IN: Send age and pic to Scott attheorgyguy@gmail.com. Courtesy is always appreciated.

MILK CHOCOLATE PARTY (Midtown)The host runs a number of different parties that vary from hot guys to average men, so be sure to check which party you want. They screen to invite men of all colors age 21-45. They have a number of theme parties from Latino, to Hung Men, to Black Out. This party is the July 4th blowout.UNVERIFIED SPECIFICSRATING: Not SelectiveVIBE: no attitudeTIME: 8pm - 2:30amCROWD: In shape to averageAGE: varies depending on the partyDONATION: $25 ($20 before 9pm with Hot Milk membership card)SS/BB: safe sex and BBSPACE: Paddles Sex ClubSUPPLIES: condom/lubeLIGHTING: varies depending on the partyGETTING IN: Send stats and pics to milkchocolatenyc@gmail.com

FINAL DESTINATION (Crown Heights, Brooklyn). From the host: "This is an all nude party. No exception and no negotiation about it at all. Strip at door. For fit men in shape only, no one waist over 36 will not get in."