Tag Archives: South Carolina

For those of you who knew him, and those who didn’t get the chance, my father, Chuck Mayers, passed away a few weeks ago. Fortunately, I got to see him before he left us. However, I realized upon seeing him, his condition was not one in which he’d have desired to remain in. The prognosis […]

I’m retiring. I said it a while back and the day is upon me. It’s only one thing I am retiring from, the job I have worked at for three and a half decades, but in that time I have seen a lot. I will continue doing other things, but that’s not what I wanted […]

I was reviewing an article on Forbes.com about compassionate leadership today. While I tend to resist what is “trendy” regarding leadership, the traits that author Margie Warrell shares as a best practice are really time-tested ones. Her article points out that mindful and compassionate leadership actually expands your own creativity, memory, and attention, and decreases stress. […]

A zen saying goes roughly like this: “The use of the wheel is where all the spokes form to make the hole.” Another: “The most useful part of a bowl is the empty space within.” As a leader, my role hasn’t been to necessarily build things, but to facilitate the best in the people I […]

I was given an opportunity to retire after 35 years on the job and pursue some new challenges. “Retirement” is nebulous to me. All that term means right now is closing this chapter and moving to the next. But the timing is such that I found myself questioning, “When do I really pull the trigger?” […]

What is bravery? As a firefighter, we understand that our first act of bravery is accepting the authority and responsibility of the badge, and everything after that is just part of the job. We serve as role models to our community because our watchwords are “integrity”, “honor”, and “selflessness”. In these times where self-centeredness seems […]

This year makes thirty-five that I have been a career firefighter and thirty-seven since I first walked into a firehouse as a member. That doesn’t take into account the years I spent growing up in the business, with my father, uncles, grandfather, etc. all serving in various roles and departments. I was asked the other […]

Heuristics are valuable in permitting us to make quick decisions. In 2005, Malcolm Gladwell (in his best seller, Blink) described this ability as being a very powerful tool in decision making.Â If we can trust that the information is reliable, we can act on it with some certainty.Â Conversely, acting on information when we lack […]

I own a Jeep and there is a tradition among Jeep owners to wave to one another when we pass each other on the highway. Â I don’t know many of these people, if any at all, but what brings us together is a love for a vehicle in which many of usÂ express our lifestyle. Â Mine […]

As leaders, we face ethical challenges every day. Â Ethical frameworks exist to provide some systematic approach to govern decisions. Â While the study of ethicsÂ frames this question in â€œHow should we live our lives?â€, I want toÂ examine right now the â€œWhat am I going to do?â€ question, especially as it relates to the individualÂ in a companyÂ leadership […]

As a Jeep owner, you find yourself in a community of others who like the Jeep lifestyle.Â However, I happened to go to a Land Rover website and found Jeep owners bashing the Land Rover owners. â€œHateâ€ doesnâ€™t always come from fear, but it most certainly comes from a lack of understanding. I doubt the […]

Just as things go badly in life, they go badly on emergency scenes. The problem is, people are geared to being optimistic- either hopefully so or blissfully so – and don’t anticipate bad things happening. Whether rolling through life with rose colored glasses on is our thing or not, I have a beliefÂ that if we […]

By failing to understand our weaknesses, we permit their exploitation. Their exploitation by others isn’t what we have to worry about though- it is our own hubris that will be our downfall. We are all vulnerable to ruin and it is our ego that sets us up for failure. A rock is subject to the […]

Engaging others is difficult sometimes. Engaging others requires time. But whileÂ time is a valuable resource to a leader, the relationships we develop areÂ valuable resources in and of themselves.Â So weÂ can pay on the front end or weÂ can pay on the back end. Regrettably, I have found this out the hard way. Iâ€™m finding it out now, […]

One of the things we probably donâ€™t do in our lives is to take the opportunity to reset ourselves, especially after experiencing failure, or disappointment, or other setbacks. To an extent, we can all reinvent ourselves; we can look to improve by being kinder, by creating new experiences, by learning, or by just looking into […]

Simon JavizianThe Roto-Ray: Beauty or Beast?I just found you!!! The rotating lights are an indelible part of my memory. I was born in Detroit in the '30s and our Detroit Fire Dept had the rotating lights above the front bumper, or high up, on the end of a vertical staff. YOU COULD SEE THEM COMING BLOCKS AWAY!! What memories. I…
2017-05-22 23:54:18

Carol Mayers WingeierEnding or Beginning?Beautifully said. I know how hard it is to move on to another stage in your life but there is always something new out there, something more to learn, something more to teach another. All those skills you've learned and taught have a purpose and you never know when one of them will come in…
2017-05-06 17:30:16

BostonfireFirefighting Today HangoutWhy is it that when members of the public want to initiate a great lifesaving program, Fire Chiefs ignore them and will only work with FF's? I know a former Air Force medic who is really trying her best to initiate a Pulse Point AED program in New England, but none of the Chiefs will…
2017-01-07 00:04:19

oldnukeThirty-Five“What the **** are you thinking?” Man, you sound like my first Chief (in a good way). He never raised his voice to me or threatened me, but he got my attention (in a good way) every time. It has been forty years and I still think about him, even though I've left the (volunteer)…
2017-01-03 01:43:39

Michael "Mick" Mayers' Discussions

DISCLAIMER

Although I am affiliated or employed by certain entities, I in no way speak in this forum or others on behalf of those entities unless I have specifically stated such. Any implication otherwise is doing so contrary to my agreements with those entities.
The result is that the observations and opinions by myself or on behalf of Firehouse Zen are not sanctioned by any other entity other than Graffiti Train Sherpa Publications and are protected by the copyright laws of the United States of America.