forgive n forget

Praise God members, kindly advice on how to forget about my wife who cheated on me with a friend n confessed to have gone to bed with him, I find it difficult to be with her in the same house even after we talked n left the issue as solved

Reply #1
by LetHisLightShine on 13 Mar, 2015 13:48

From my personal experience you should ask god how to forgive her it may take a long time but if your asking the lord to help you youll get a result eventually Id say pray for your relationship pray for your wife god will provide for you friend.put your faith in him ! I hope everything works out <3

Reply #2
by styn on 19 Mar, 2015 06:25

They is nothing like forgetting my man.you can forgive yes but if you see the person everyday they is no forgetting unless u separate maybe After some years

Reply #3
by bocziloc on 20 Mar, 2015 04:59

Dear brother, I'd advice u not to dwell on it,as in do not be thinking so much about it.As long as u have forgiven her,u have done your part,forgetting comes on it own so don't b so much concerned about forgetting it because dat only keeps on reminding u each tym.Find some fun activity u share with her n try to make new memories rather than dwell on old bad ones.

Reply #4
by scrappyscrapart on 20 Mar, 2015 15:59

It's not easy to forget when you're still hurting. My husband had an affair like you We thought we're ok but we're not. I lost my trust on him and he's being so cold to me. Things are not the same anymore. We have 4 children ages 5,3,2, and 9 months old that is the reason why I could not left him. It's tearing me apart day by day to be with him in one roof.

Reply #5
by Collins Kenya on 22 Mar, 2015 11:32

Thanks guys for your responses

Reply #6
by temmy on 23 Mar, 2015 06:40

We must learn to forgive, no matter how hurt the situation, not forgiving is like hurting one self. Remember Jesus died for us so we may live. Put all odds behind and think about the children's future and what you want for them, then you can move on with your partner.