(Closed) He is intentionally torturing me

Okay, maybe not intentionally. For the past 2 weeks, the only movies he wants to watch with me are romantic comedies,mostly with a wedding theme. Tonight? The 5 Year Engagement. I wasn’t really part of the shut-it-up pact because I have been that way for the most part anyway. However, it still isn’t nice to see all these movies when he has had the ring for what seems like FOREVER!

I don’t think it would be bad for you to say, “I want you to be able to propose in the way you want to, in your own time. I haven’t brought it up for that reason. But seeing these movies makes it really hard! Want to watch Mythbusters/basketball/NCIS instead?”

Mine has the ring too. I don’t know what’s holding him up. I’ve tried not to say anything. He even showed me the ring but still NOTHING. This weekend he even stopped by the jewelery store and had them size me. I don’t need some special romantic moment that he has to plan. I just want simple and honest and loving between us. That’s it. In the meantime.. yes it does feel like torture. I feel that when he brings it up and still won’t do anything about it that he’s dangling a carrot in front of my face. I’m not a patient person by nature so the waiting is now starting to make me angry.

Ugh that is torture! Tell him only action and horror movies until that ring is on your finger! The good thing is at least you know he has the ring! I on the other hand am going bonkers because I have no idea if he has the ring or has even purchased it! That ring will be on your finger before you know it!

@MissGreyhound: It’s time for him to give it up!! You don’t need a huge insane proposal, just propose! If he knows how he wants to do it, get the show on the road. Ugh that would drive me insane! You are a much better woman than me!