Tuesday, January 15, 2013

Grooming and Etiquette

yeayhhh siap dah essay.. lps midsem pun kena belajar lagi kan.. but its true. what we got today for what we will be for tomorrow. so dont be pressure or stress eyh. be cool and trying the best for today. bawah neh essay pasal grooming. nak share with uols.. hee.. ok x? erkk, esok i have to be a teacher.. oh God so nervous. xleh tidur. bt essay pun xtenang asyik igt psl esok jer. hopefully everything is well.. oh yeayh.. ALL IS WELL ALL IS WELL. Aamiin ;)

my ESSAY

All of us at some point in our life have
admired leaders having a charismatic personality and secretly wished that we
had some of that charisma in ourselves. Though charisma or inner charm cannot
be acquired superficially, it is still possible to develop a well liked and
admired personality through proper grooming. There are other qualities that a
make a fulsome personality than sheer physical beauty. This is not to undermine
the importance of a beautiful face but it is not everything. The inner charm or
personal magnetism is what actually makes someone very special. However when
the two are combined the combination is irresistible.

A good attractive personality is always an
advantage in any situation. People are drawn towards magnetic and attractive
personalities and want to know all about them. It is exactly the reason why
people are crazy about celebrities and devour every bit of news regarding them
with interest. The most important trait of good personality is its confidence. This
is what I had learned from grooming and etiquette. Self confidence or having
confidence in myself can make a huge difference in how people perceive. If I
unsure of myself, I will be projecting the same image outside to others as well.
So, it is important that I am trying to cultivate confidence in myself and I am
sure this can only happen if I really believe that I can be capable of handling
in any situation. Self belief and prepared nests are the keys to self
confidence.

Next grooming and
etiquette affected on how to pay adequate attention to my personal grooming. Be
clean and neat all the time. Dress up properly for the occasion. I believe that
no one wants to talk to persons who are shabbily dressed. A neat and clean
personality always radiates a confident attitude. Someone who takes care of
himself can also take care of others. Clothes also should be comfortable but not
necessarily fashionable. Every fashion does not suit everyone. I should not be
a blind follower and must choose only outfits that i can carry off confidently.

As a conclusion, I believe
“The first impression is the last impression”. People take only a few seconds
to judge others and in these first few seconds, what they note is the
appearance. When I was a fresh and well groomed, it creates a positive
impression. Research has shown that good looking people have a 20% advantage
over the not so groomed ones. As Dale Carneige in his best seller “ How to win
friends and influence People” said “Everyone can spot a fake and it does not
help to be one”. Be kind and gentle to people. Sometime, everyone makes a
mistake, be forgiving and importantly. Differentiate between the mistake and
the one committing mistake. True, it may cause a lot of trouble, but it is not
going to end the world. So I should be forgiving and be gentle. Develop my character
by inculcating good behavior and discipline in my life. Let the inner charm and
faith flow out and embrace others in its magnetic wrap. I am going to charge myself
with strong willpower and have full faith in my abilities.