Things that every WS needs to know

What an amazing post. Spot on. I don't think I could express how I feel any better than what you have here. These are exactly the things I need. I am printing this to give to WW. I hope she reads it, gets it, and uses it.

Truly amazing. Thank you.

stilllovinghim posted 8/1/2011 20:15 PM

BUMP!!!

andywalks posted 8/1/2011 21:54 PM

Oh do I need to reread this and be reminded. Thanks. Its so hard to listen! I'm so drained.

Offhispedestal posted 8/3/2011 07:58 AM

This is EXACTLY how I feel. I wish I could get by H to read this.We are in R but there is more than 1 DD. So the NC has been NC as far as I know. I think it may take me longer to heal because there are still things that I know that he has not brought up on his own. Me bringing it up will only cause an argument and Im tired of arguing. Its only been 1 month since NC(emails,text) its been longer NC ,H has not been with her physically in months. Maybe one day he will read this. HE HATES TO READ.

MrsSprky99 posted 8/3/2011 09:34 AM

Absolutely amazing post...and a must see for any WS. Speaks volumes when sometimes us BS can't! THANK YOU!!!!

Mommy23 posted 8/10/2011 00:03 AM

This is the best and most accurate description of exactly what I, BS, have been feeling!! I emailed it to my WS and he is reading it as I sit here. It is PERFECT and I think many would agree. Once a WS reads this, they cannot claim they do not know what to do to help heal the pain they have created.

Textbook Case posted 8/22/2011 17:03 PM

bump

bestbecameworst posted 8/23/2011 17:49 PM

What do you do when you give this link to your WS and they don't read it, it's too long, then you never hear back...

What do you do when you give this link to your WS and they don't read it, it's too long, then you never hear back...

You 180. Big time!

Dallas2 posted 8/25/2011 07:57 AM

HUFI-PUFI:

Thank you for you post. It has helped my FWS understand where I was at and believe me without this we would not have celebrated our 20th Anniversary or be looking forward to a future together.

Thank you again

betrayer47 posted 8/26/2011 18:59 PM

Bump for HUFI

SisterMilkshake posted 9/13/2011 07:23 AM

starstruck posted 9/16/2011 05:13 AM

hathnofury posted 9/26/2011 13:51 PM

bump. And thanks, OP.

fromthisdayfwd posted 10/2/2011 19:46 PM

Bump

lostandloster posted 10/3/2011 18:59 PM

I am a new BS who just had his own DD about a week ago.

I want you to know that that post is the most beautiful thing that I've read and I so wish my WW would do these things.

I hurt so bad, that post made me cry terribly.

I pray that many WS read this, learn and understand.

Birima posted 10/4/2011 04:15 AM

Dear all,

Thank you for posting this important first aid kid that should be of use the rest of our live.

SisterMilkshake posted 10/11/2011 16:33 PM

bump

CF1111 posted 10/13/2011 21:08 PM

Read this today and think it's awesome. Hit the nail on the head with everything I'm going through. Emailed it to my WW, but she's too tired to read it tonight she says. Ugh! Hoping for a 180 tomorrow when she reads it. Thanks for posting.