Most Recent Update: January 30, 2017
Qommunity is publishing its own queer anthology called Hashtag Queer: A LGBTQ Anthology.... moreMost Recent Update: January 30, 2017
Qommunity is publishing its own queer anthology called Hashtag Queer: A LGBTQ Anthology. And if you're a writer or artist, Hashtag Queer wants you!

Many people know the Mars symbol for Male and the Venus symbol for female, but do you know the symbol for transgender or pans... moreMany people know the Mars symbol for Male and the Venus symbol for female, but do you know the symbol for transgender or pansexual? Take this little quiz to see how many gender and sexuality symbols you can identify, and find out how "worldly" you really are.

Here are 7 New Year resolutions we invite all our LGBTQ and straight ally friends and neighbors to adopt with us for the year... moreHere are 7 New Year resolutions we invite all our LGBTQ and straight ally friends and neighbors to adopt with us for the year ahead. Let's make 2017 the year we turn obstacles into opportunities, and uplift the entire community of humanity and life on Earth.

With more LGBTQ visibility comes more people wondering what is LGBTQ exactly. If this is you, wonder no further. Read the mea... moreWith more LGBTQ visibility comes more people wondering what is LGBTQ exactly. If this is you, wonder no further. Read the meaning and history of the LGBT acronym, and find out all about the Q in LGBTQ.

In the big science fiction spoiler alert of the year, in the next Star Trek movie, releasing soon, the character of Sulu will... moreIn the big science fiction spoiler alert of the year, in the next Star Trek movie, releasing soon, the character of Sulu will be revealed to be gay. Why should you care? Read on...

Part of the PTSD Poetry Project, this month is about Traumatic Brain Injury. Bree's personal journal entries and poetry for t... morePart of the PTSD Poetry Project, this month is about Traumatic Brain Injury. Bree's personal journal entries and poetry for the day share the inner workings of a healing brain injury.

Evidently some folks have decided to label today, June 29th, as Heterosexual Pride Day. This is the biggest affront to humani... moreEvidently some folks have decided to label today, June 29th, as Heterosexual Pride Day. This is the biggest affront to humanity, morality, and common decency since the "All Lives Matter" movement cropped up in reaction to Black Lives Matter. Here's why.The following are 12 reasons why Straight Pride Day counts among the most ridiculous and offensive concepts ever:1. Straight people don't get murdered FOR BEING STRAIGHT.2. Straight people don't get thrown in prison FOR BEING STRAIGHT.3. Straight people don't grow up teased and bullied and isolated and ostracized FOR BEING STRAIGHT.4. Straight people don't get kicked out of their homes and abandoned by their families FOR BEING STRAIGHT.5. Straight people don't get fired from their jobs FOR BEING STRAIGHT.6. Straight people don't get refused service in public businesses FOR BEING STRAIGHT.7. Straight people don't get beaten and raped in the military FOR BEING STRAIGHT.8. Straight people don't get shunned by their religious communities FOR BEING STRAIGHT.9. Straight people don't get denied proper medical treatment FOR BEING STRAIGHT.10. Straight people don't get thrown off buildings and publicly stoned to death FOR BEING SUSPECTED OF BEING STRAIGHT.11. Straight people aren't targeted by terrorists FOR BEING STRAIGHT.12. Children aren't taught to think less of straight people FOR BEING STRAIGHT. less

Want to show your support for Qommunity? Print up these full-color quarter-sheet cards/flyers, conveniently placed 4 per shee... moreWant to show your support for Qommunity? Print up these full-color quarter-sheet cards/flyers, conveniently placed 4 per sheet on standard 8 1/2" x 11" paper. Print them on paper or card stock and then hand them out, wherever you think they might be needed or appreciated. [Tips/Requests: Please just make sure you have permission before you leave them or post them anywhere. And never use glue or permanent adhesive.]Let's expand Qommunity to reach the world's entire LGBTQ+ & straight ally community. Thank you for your constant devotion and support. And thanks in advance for helping get the word out there with these postcards.TO PRINT:1. Cick on "Photos" Tab below this post.2. Click on either the single sheet flyer or the 4 per sheet quarter-sheet flyer.3. In the Options dropdown menu in the lower left of the image popout window, select "Download". 4. You now have a print-ready, standard 8 1/2" x 11" copy of the latest Qommunity to print and distribute at your pleasure. Just remember: Please Promote Responsibly! less

Based on criteria set by Apple & Google, and due to the overwhelming call from parents, teachers, and other adult loved-o... moreBased on criteria set by Apple & Google, and due to the overwhelming call from parents, teachers, and other adult loved-ones of queer youth to open our doors to teens in need of a safe and supportive space to explore and express themselves, we felt it appropriate to expand Qommunity's membership to include those aged 12 years old and older.In a semi-related development, in order to allow members to restrict who can see their profile and/or the content they post, we've also simultaneously enabled a functionality called "Networks". Networks are like membership groups based on geographry, gender identity, sexuality, or age-range (among others we can create together in the future.) Members are free to join no networks at all or as many as they wish. Of particular interest regarding Networks in light of Qommunity's membership opening to 12-17 year-olds: there are two age-related networks:

a Youth (under 23) Network
and an 18+ Network

To join Networks, go to your Settings (the gear-shaped icon in your top mini-menu if on the desktop site). Then go to Network Settings and click the Join Network button next to all the Networks you wish to join. You may exit any Networks you wish at any time. To be sure that only your Friends and members of the same Networks as you can see the content (albums, videos, blogs, pages, wall updates, etc.) that you post, just be sure that when you create the content you set the View Privacy to "Friends & Networks". It's as easy as that.For those members with kids of their own aged 12 or older, and anyone else who knows a queer, questioning, or supportive alliy youth who might be interested in joining you here, please let them know they are now welcome!Before signing off, this would be a good spot to remind everyone that Qommunity is not only monitored by those running it behind-the-scenes; it is also a community-monitored community. That means we count on each other to keep this space safe for everyone. All content has a Report button, and we rely on you to let us know if you find anything inappropriate. What do we mean by "inappropriate"? Anything that defies the Member Agreement that we all checked when joining Qommunity--namely:

No "Haters" (i.e. No Bullying or Harrassment)
No Pornography
No Illegal Activity

From the bottom of our hearts, and on behalf of all those who will now be able to enjoy and benefit from Qommunity thanks to these changes and our shared trust and support in one another, thank you!--Image Source: Esparta Palma Marcha Orgullo LGBT. Taken on June 30, 2007 less

We all have a lot to be proud of lately, and what better time to celebrate than Pride month? President Obama reaffirmed the proclamation in the U.S. on June 1st and already the haters are acting as if this is the first anyone's dared think of such a thing. That's why it's more important than ever for us to stay strong and united while we step out proudly to reaffirm our right to exist, to love, and be loved. To educate and raise awareness for those who still think they're all alone and somehow bad and wrong. Our co-founder Sage even wrote a blog post on just this topic. Please take a moment to read it, like it, and share it across all your social networks. Meanwhile we've got tons of causes to celebrate and be proud about here at Qommunity. Membership is approaching 300. Pageviews of the site are approaching 1.5 million. And best of all, you all are getting on the site day after day and sharing your beautiful selves with each other. That's what this community called Qommunity is all about. Thank you! Of all the things we take pride in this month, perhaps what we are most proud of... is YOU!!! With all our love, Sage & Curry Kalmus Qommunithy Co-founders

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QONTESTS with a "Q"

Including past winners & a slew of new chances to win!

PRIDE ACROSS the PLANET

What's happening where for Pride Month 2016.

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Introducing video channels at Qommunity. Create your own now!

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Buy or Sell, with discounts for Qommunity members & no listing fees for sellers.

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Introducing video channels at Qommunity. Create your own now!

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Qommunity is on your other social networks too. Join us there as well & help qontinue the qonversation !

May Causes Page Contest

Last month, members built pages to honor their favorite nonprofit organizations or social issues. All our thanks -- and a Qommunity mug -- go out to each of the following participants:

TrudieBarraza I'LL GO WITH YOU

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Lucky CHILDHOOD SEXUAL ABUSE AWARENESS

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Granny ROCK ONE SOCK

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May Photo Challenge

Also last month, members sent us their pink and purple pictures in honor of the Qommunity colors. Thanks to all who participated. Each one gets a Qommunity bumper sticker. Check out the galleries this challenge and its predecessor, April's QPic Challenge, launched on Qommunity. Then add your own pics to the mix. These challenges are ongoing, which means a bumper sticker can still be yours!

Pink & Purple Gallery

It's pink! It's purple! It's pink and purple! Found or made, it might be in here!

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Gallery of Qs

Pics of the letter Q. Things that start with Q. And a cavalcade of Qreative Qs galore!

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JUNE PRIDE MONTH Qontest Extravaganza!

This month there's prizes for bloggers, photographers, and videographers. And if you happen to be all 3, then there's a chance for bonus prizes too!

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RAINBOW PHOTO CHALLENGE

Why are they so many songs about them? 'Cause like queer folks, rainbows are everywhere! Se... less

Happy LGBT Pride Month! In celebration, Qommunity is holding a bevy of contests to award even more and greater prizes than ev... moreHappy LGBT Pride Month! In celebration, Qommunity is holding a bevy of contests to award even more and greater prizes than ever before.There's 1 photo contest, 1 video contest, 1 blog contest, and an additional prize for those entering all 3!Qontest #1: ALBUMS/PHOTOS - Rainbow Photo ChallengeTake a picture of a rainbow or something rainbow-inspired. Be it a real rainbow, a drawing of a rainbow, a rainbow of tulips or t-shirts, or a picture poetically suggesting a rainbow--all rainbows apply! As always, the more creative the better!Post them here on the Qommunity Photo Challenge page (the same way you would post any regular update on your own wall.)RULES: You must have either taken or created the image you submit yourself. No copyrighted or trademark-protected images will qualify, unless you own the copyright or trademark; this does not include photos of others' copyrighted or trademarked images (such as a photo of a store's sign) which ARE acceptable.And be sure to give your rainbow pic a title!PRIZES: ALL ENTRANTS WILL WIN A QOMMUNITY BUMPER STICKER.

Qontest #2: VIDEOS - Pride Videos ContestIn honor of the launch of our new Video Channels, we have created a Pride Channel and we want your help in populating it with fabulous Pride videos. Whether your local Pride parade or festival happens this month or already took place last month, upload a video of the event.The Pride event you record need not be your own local event to qualify, as long as you were present. If you are unable to record a Pride event in person (for example if the event doesn't happen until after June, or it happened already and you werent' able to attend) you may alternatively submit a video of one of the following:

You with others at a local LGBTQ community center (with the community center's name, logo, or sign in the video)
You with others at an LGBTQ charity or awareness event

To upload your Pride videos, do following:1. Go to videos2. Click Post New Video3. Under Categories, choose "Travel and Events" and then in the submenu that appears under that, choose "Pride"4. Click the select box next to My Computer and follow the instructions on the screen to upload your video from your computer.5. Click Save Video to finish6. Then share your post throughout Qommunity and your other social networks to generate as many views, likes, shares, and comments as possible. RULES: To qualify for a prize in this contest --* Videos must be ORIGINAL and UNIQUE. That is, they must be yours or you must have the copyright permission to upload it as if it were your own. In other words, do not upload a recording of your local news broadcast of the event.* They must be uploaded directly to Qommunity, not shared or embedded from YouTube, DailyMotion, or Vimeo.And be sure to give your video a title!
Also, if the event in the recording is not from 2016, please tell us the year the video was taken. PRIZES: We will award a pair of QUEAR BUDS to the makers of the videos with the most --

Views
Likes
Shares
Comments
and the Highest Rated
One prize per entrant.BONUS PRIZES: will be awarded to ALL ENTRANTS who appear in their own submitted videos. ADDITIONAL BONUS PRIZES will be awarded to ALL ENTRANTS who give an audible shout-out to "Qommunity: The Queer Social Network" in their video.Qontest #3: BLOGS - Pride Blog ContestPost a blog post of at least 350 words to Qommunity during the month of June on the subject of My Pride Experience. This could be about your first LGBTQ pride event. It could be about your experience at this year's event. It could be about how you overcame your struggles with self-acceptance for being queer. It could be about why you're proud of being queer. The rules are loose, the specifics are up to you. As long as it makes sense and it's somehow related to your personal experience(s) of or about queer pride, it qualifies.To post your entry:1. Click Blog in the Qommunity main menu2. Click "New Blog Post"3. Pick whatever Category you feel is best for your post, but be sure to include "Pride" as one of the TAGS.4. Be sure to click Save to complete your entry.5. Then share your post throughout Qommunity and your other social networks to generate as many views, likes, shares, and comments as possible. PRIZES: We will award a ceramic QOMMUNITY MUG to the creators of the blogs with the most --
Views
Likes
Shares
Comments
and the Highest Rated
Bonus Qontest: The Pride TrifectaEnter all 3 contests and be entered to win a QOMMUNITY QAP or a canvas QOMMUNITY Q-WORD TOTE BAG. (One of each prize to be awarded.) less

Of late, as the queer community has made many notable strides in public awareness and acceptance (marriage equality in the U.... moreOf late, as the queer community has made many notable strides in public awareness and acceptance (marriage equality in the U.S., transgender leaders in world governments...) many are beginning to ask whether LGBT pride parades and festivals are still necessary. Isn't the struggle over? many decry. To which I'm here to say, unfortunately: far from it, honey.To those who answer the question of whether or not pride is now--or ever was--necessary with a "No", be it resounding or tentative, I'd like to say to you, first and foremost: I get it. While I admit to holding, and presenting here, an alternative belief to your own, I want to make sure you understand ahead of time that I do understand: as do many of my fellow queer folks and allies. We understand that Pride parades are eccentric. That there's no real equivalent in any other group or culture--and more, that most who would deign to try to organize one would be even more disdained and chastized than we. We understand that the world has changed, to a large and undeniable extent. We understand that, in the United States and many other countries around the globe, the cultural need for an outcry that LGBTQ people exist--and more, have a right to exist and love and contribute and thrive exactly as we are--may possibly be in large part behind us, and let me be the last to have to pray that it is. Nothing... I repeat: nothing that I say in the following paragraphs will alter or dispute all this. The reasons why I feel strongly that Pride is still relevant, useful--and yes--necessary are twofold: the first on a personal level, the second, on a global one. On a personal level--and this goes for every single person who comes out, or considers coming out, if even at first only to themselves--it's always a difficult, and even traumatizing, process. Even those of us fortunate enough to be born into loving, open, and accepting families still know that we have to face a whole world out there not nearly as supportive. We have to face schools, workplaces, religious institutions, public figures, political parties and government bodies, even friends, neighbors, and other family members who will now look at all of us differently--not just the queer one but those who still love and associate with him, her or them. Even shun us, try to fix us, tell us we're broken. And we have to watch our friends and families confront those very fears, for us if not for themselves; and Heaven forbid we have to watch them face the realities too of some of those fears coming true. The other night my husband and I watched with bated breath as a 62-year-old grandmother who we know came out of the closet for the first time in her life--and on Periscope, no less: streaming to thousands of viewers. It was one of the most powerful and meaningful moments of our lives--and probably the most important moment of our friend's life. Most interesting for this discussion is that all of her fears were familiar--they were the same as ours when we came out in our late teens, when we were more than 40 years younger than she is now. Her sense of shame, accrued from a lifetime of conditioning, poured out of her as she struggled to accept her own message of truth, even as she shared it with all of us. She feared losing family and friends. She even had to deal with real live homophobes injecting their hate into her brave and touching revelation. This is all to say that whether you're 16 or 62, the struggles are one and the same. All this woman's life she had been denying herself to herself, and now she--like so many of us before her--has taken the first tenuous step toward self-love and acceptance.Until no person ever has to go through an experience like that again, a safe space to step out as one's true self--if perhaps for the first time ever--in an atmosphere of guaranteed total, unequivocal acceptance, love, and--yes--celebration, will continue to remain essential.As for the global level--most people reading this live in a country where it's at least okay to talk about being gay, lesbian, and bisexual (if only just opening up to discussions on being transgender and other noncomforming genders or sexualities) but not all. That's right, some of the people reading this--which we know because they've told us, on Qommunity, where they belong--live in a country where such discussions (and in fact membership in an online community like ours) are discouraged or even downright forbidden. Imagine not even being allowed to read this essay. Or worse, being locked away for even coming out in support of homosexuality, or being thrown off a building and stoned to death by a crowd for just being suspected of being gay. These are very real realities: situations that continue to occur as recently as your latest local weather report, whether in your front yard or not. These are also the people we're marching for in these parades, and who we're dancing for in these fest... less

Many of the events we announced in last week's edition are still raging as this edition goes to press, namely:

Belgian Pride... moreMany of the events we announced in last week's edition are still raging as this edition goes to press, namely:

Belgian Pride 2016 in Brussels - Still on the agenda are loads of queer film screenings, including classics like M. Butterfly, Hedwig and the Angry Inch, The World According to Garp, as well as a number of panels, performances and parties, not to mention the Belgian Pride Parade itself on Saturday, May 14th in downtown Brussels. Post and view social updates for Belgian Pride 2016.
Maspalomas Pride 2016 in Gran Canaria - Still on the docket for Maspalomas Gay Pride on Gran Canaria are the Women's Pool Party, the T-Dance, the International Gala, Eurovision Night, the Freedom Gay Festival Pool Party, the Pool Party, and...oh yes, let's not forget wedged into all that somewhere (May 14 17:00-20:00, to be exact) is the official Maspalomas Pride Gay Parade itself. Post and view social updates for Maspalomas Pride 2016.

Esprit 2016 in Port Angeles, Washington - Still to come in this enormously comprehensive transgender conference is a fashion show, a talent show, a keynote luncheon speaker, and the conference graduation ceremony, along with a Black and Gold Gala on Saturday night and a Farewell Brunch on Sunday. Post and view social updates for Esprit 2016.

Also taking place in the queer, queer world this weekend are:Kamp Key West 2016 - Key West, FloridaWednesday, May 11 - Saturday, May 14

Getting away from it all to have fun isn't just for kids. There's an adult summer camp as well. It's in Key West, Florida and it's happening this weekend. After an opening Kampfire on Wednesday kicking the weekend off right, this summer camp...sorry, kamp features nightly sunset cruises of different varieties from dinner to tour to partying to wine and wind; it features daily land activities, including women's flag football clinics, "Sushi & 801 Girls", "Reality is a Drag", and the infamous "Haunted Key West" and "Ghosts & Gravestones Trolly Tour". Then each day from Thursday through Sunday has its own original spate of activities, the bulk of which take place in or on the water, including danger charters, dolphin tours, gulfstream fishing, jet-skiing, eco-tours, backcountry kayaking, parasailing -- not to mention ample dance parties on dry land. Share pics and updates on Kamp Key West 2016.Amsterdam Festish Pride 2016 - Amsterdam, Holland (the Netherlands)Thursday, May 12 - Monday, May 16If you're within reach of Amsterdam this weekend then it's time to get your kink on, at Amsterdam Fetish Pride 2016, when everyone comes together to let their kink flag fly. All day and night the city is brimming with themed parties and events designed to attract link-minded individuals for cameradie and fun times. They carry inviting names like Friday the 13th: Your Luck Day, Freaky Fetish Friday, Underground Fetish, Eagle's Pride Night, Fetch Puppy Paradise, Fetish Flea Market, Fist Farm, Undercover, Cheeky Leather, Horsemen & Knight, and Spank!. There are also an abundance of workshops on such useful skill-sets and rope and bondage, Rubber Play, and how to "Make Him Squirm". Share pics and updates on Amsterdam Fetish Pride 2016.And then there's one day this weekend on which one of every year's most celebrated charity and awareness events takes place again:New York City AIDS Walk 2016 - New York, New YorkSunday, May 15The route starts and ends in Central Park, between which it covers 10k. The participants raise funds for over 40 AIDS service organizations in the tri-state area include the GMHC. If you can't attend to walk, you can always donate to sponsor those who are walking. Click the image above to be taken directly to the official NYC AIDS Walk site. Then come back here to share pics and updates on the New York City AIDS Walk 2016.P.S.Before wrapping up another week(end)'s Queer, Queer World, if you happen to be in or around New Hope, Pennsylvania: New Hope and Lambertsville Pride week starts up on Monday, all gearing up for the big Pride parade and festival next weekend. Stay tuned here for more details on that in next Thursday's It's a Queer, Queer World.So what's happening this week(end) in your part of the queer, queer world? less

A gay spring break, an LGBT Pride, a transgender conference, and a drag conference. It's another exciting week in the great b... moreA gay spring break, an LGBT Pride, a transgender conference, and a drag conference. It's another exciting week in the great big queer, queer world. Delice Dream 6 - Sitges, SpainWednesday, May 4 - Tuesday, May 10
Gay Spring Break is underway in Sitges, Spain at the 6th annual Delice Dream, but there's still plenty of time to find your dream date or lover or anything else your gay heart desires. Just head south of Barcelona where myriads of Europe's hottest and most available gay men have converged for a weekend of ribald revelry. And lest you think Delice Dream is only for gay men the organizers made explicitly clear on their website that this is an all-inclusive event with straight allies, and boys, girls, and trans* all partying together. Lounge by the pool or in the sauna, tour Sitges quaint gay-friendly village atmosphere, enjoy garden parties and barbecues, Grindr parties, and even an afternoon at an "attraction park" during the day, and then get your blood pumping at night with parties that include Doctor Delice (with a nurse or doctor dress code), Kluster, 25th Anniversary New CanCan in the Navy (with a Navy dress code), Crazvores+, and Bearsbox Espuma Party. Share pics & updates for Delice Dream 2016.
Tokyo Rainbow Pride 2016 - Tokyo, JapanSaturday, May 7 - Sunday, May 8Japan's capital city celebrates Pride this weekend with Tokyo Rainbow Pride Parade & Festival 2016, to be held at Tokyo Yoyogi Park. The theme is "Over the Rainbow". Rainbow Week is in full force right now, with over 60 events attracting some 5,000 attendees, leading up to Saturday's Festival and Sunday's Parade. And don't forget to keep your eyes out for Toby the Flying Squirrel, the mascot of Tokyo Rainbow Pride. Share pics and updates for Tokyo Rainbow Pride 2016. RuPaul's Drag Con 2016 - Los Angeles, CaliforniaSaturday, May 7 - Sunday, May 8The drag event of the year is all set to begin in Los Angeles for another sashay up and down the runway. RuPaul presents Drag Con, the pre-eminent drag convention. Present will be the likes of RuPaul herself, Michelle Visage, Ru's right-hand woman, and tons of your favorite drag race alumni, including Jeffree Star, Amber Rose, Violet Chachki, Daniel Franzese, Alyssa Edwards, Katya, and Mrs. Kasha Davis. Over the course of the weekend, attendees can enjoy their choice of over 50 panels, social events, performances, and more. Now go and "sissy that walk!" Share pics and updates on RuPaul's Drag Con 2016. Esprit 2016 - Port Angeles, WashingtonSunday, May 8 - Sunday, May 15Also this weekend starts a new weeklong event in Port Angeles, Washington. It's Esprit 2016 and it's one of the leading trangender conferences in the country. But in truth, Esprit is so much more than a conference. To quote from the website: "Think of Esprit as a combination of college, sorority, shopping and sightseeing tourist fling, high society parties, and slumber party all rolled into one." It's got classes, resource providers, events, excursions, a clothing exchange, Big Sister/Little Sister program, and more. Classes cover the gamut of issues pertaining to transgender lives, from dealing with family and health care concerns to dealing with fashion and makeup issues. Share pics and updates on Esprit 2016.
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Several "seeds" planted here at Qommunity have taken root, sprouted, and now are starting to bloom. As you'll read more about in this month's Qs-letter, there's the launch of Qommunity Qorner Market & its flagship store, Qommunity Qorner Store; there's contest winners and new contests starting; and Qommunity now has a presence on YouTube. Read all about it below.

Before that, though, a quick shout-out to all the new members who have signed up at Qommunity.org (or on the Qommunity iOS & Android apps) over the month of April. Welcome! And thanks so much for being here. That goes for all of our members, and those of you who have yet to sign up. As our new bumper sticker now available at the freshly launched Qommunity Qorner Store says: "It's not the same without YOU!"

GRAND OPENING: Qommunity Qorner Marketplace

On Sunday, May 1st we launched Qommunity Qorner Marketplace where anyone who has a product or service to sell can create their own store with NO LISTING FEES! Visit the Marketplace here. And click here to get started launching your own store on Qommunity Qorner.

GRAND OPENING: The Official Qommunity Qorner Store

The flagship store of Qommunity Qorner is where you can come to get all your Qommunity gear. Qommunity members get a 5% discount always & everyone gets a free gift with every purchase. Check out below just some of the products you'll find there.

Congratulations April Fan Page Contest Winners!

Thank you to everyone who created a Fan Page on Qommunity for the April Contest and thank you to all of you who Liked, Followed, Joined, and Shared them. The winners of Qommunity mugs & the fan pages they created are:

Check out their fan pages below, and Check-in, Like, Follow, Join, Share, and contribute to them.

May Contest: Promote Your Favorite Cause!

Last month we asked you to create Fan Pages on Qommunity. This month we're asking you to create Causes Pages. These are pages that show your love and support for your favorite cause not that different from fan pages except it promotes a belief for positive change in the world and/or those people working towards it. Once again on June 1 we will send the most Viewed, Liked, Joined, Followed, and Shared Causes Pages created in May a purple ceramic Qommunity mug. Just click the link on the image above & in the Category dropdown menu, select Causes. [NOTE: Pages can only be created on the website Qommunity.org. Once created, however, they can be managed from any device, including the apps. If you need help creating a Page, please contact us.]

Join the Qommunity Photo Challenges - Win a Bumper Sticker!

Last month we launched our first photo challenge; this month we launch our second. Both are active & ongoing. Post your pics on Qommunity.org or Instagram with the given instructions below and earn yourself a free bumper sticker.

Photo Challenge #1: #QPic

Take a pic of a Q, anything starting with a Q, or anything else Q-inspired & post it to Qommunity or Instagram with a TITLE @Qommunity #QPic. We'll add it to the growing Gallery of Qs that includes these member-submissions.

There's a lot going on this week in the queer, queer world, including 3 gay Prides, 3 fetish parties, events for men only and... moreThere's a lot going on this week in the queer, queer world, including 3 gay Prides, 3 fetish parties, events for men only and women only, a charity dance, and a trans and queer gender conference.Dinah Vegas 2016 - Las Vegas, NevadaThursday, April 28 - Sunday, May 1
"It's All About the Girls" at Dinah Vegas, a weekend gathering of queer women in Las Vegas for parties, socializing, and relaxation, Whether in the pool, lounge, night club, between the two host hotels (the LINQ and Flamingo) and several other event venues getting in on the action (including the Rio, Tropicana, and Luxor), there will barely be time for sleep. See Kaya Jones formerly of the Pussycat Dolls performing live on stage singing her hit songs that include "Dance All Night" and "Angel". Dance to DJs Dawna Montell, Dirty Kurty, Whitney Day, and DJ Du Jour accompanied by the 8 sultry Dinah Vegas Dancers. Featured events include the Opening Party, Glitter III, Infinity Pool Party, Vegas White Party, and of course Sunday Funday. Share your pics and updates on Dinah Vegas 2016 at Qommunity.
Austin International Drag Festival 2016 - Austin, TexasThursday, April 28 - Sunday, May 1
"Produced by the world's first nonprofit charity dedicated to the advancement of drag artists" the Austin International Drag Festival is widely considered the drag event of the year. Headliners and ambassadors for this year's festival is too long to list, but if you want an idea of what to expect at the Austin International Drag Festival just listen to the list of special drag events crammed into this extraordinary weekend: The Bubblegum World of Biblegirl, Underground Filth Showcase, Majesty Showcase, Maddelynn Hatter's Tea Party, Cynthia Lee Fontaine's Celebration Showcase, Shyanne's Global Party, #Painted For Filth Showcase, Mimi Imfurst's Reinvention Showcase, Superstar Stage, Drag Film Showcase, Diva Deluxe Showcase, World Showcase, Royal Kiki Showcase, Fashionista Showcase, Emperor Showcase, Chad Michaels & Friends, Day Drag Showcase, and let's not forget the After Party. There will also be workshops and panels and a drag market. Share your pics and updates on Austin International Drag Festival 2016 at Qommunity.
Cleveland Leather Annual Weekend 2016 - Cleveland, OhioThursday, April 28 - Sunday, May 1
Cleveland Leather Annual Weekend gathers leather fetishists worldwide for a weekend of parties and socializing that's sure to cover the gamut of leather-loving activities. Featured events include Flexxx Asylum, LHoF Bruch and Induction, Strip Bingo, Love Slave, Broadway Bound, and even Love the Goddess. Yes, that's right, this is an event for leather lovers of all genders and sexual persuasions. In addition to the parties, there will also be skills and education workshops, as well as many opportunities for dating and organized play. So come one, come all, just come wearing your finest leather gear, and plan on taking it off soon after arriving. Note that CLAW has a zero tolerance policy for illegal drugs of any sort at this event. Share your pics and updates on Cleveland Leather Annual Weekend 2016 at Qommunity.
International Bears Meeting BSC 2016 - Sitges, SpainThursday, April 28 - Sunday, May 1
Sitges Bear Club hosts its annual International Bears Meeting 2016 this weekend, where the program includes organized pub crawls, meals, saunas, and of course, dance parties. Squeezed in there is also a raffle, a Segway demonstration, and more. Share your pics and updates on International Bears Meeting BSC 2016 at Qommunity.
Sleazy Madrid 2016 - Madrid, SpainThursday, April 28 - Monday, May 2"A Gay Meeting of Fetish and Music" Sleazy Madrid is a chance to let it all hang out in Spain's capital city. With events like Into the Tank, Kluster, Substation, Playgrounds, Recon, and Dies3l Red, the long weekend is sure to be a hot and heavy one that never fails to attract a large fetish crowd from across Europe and around the world year after year. Share your pics and updates on Sleazy Madrid 2016 at Qommunity.Dallas Purple Party - Dallas, TexasFriday, April 29 - Monday, May 2Shake your thang on the dance floor all weekend long in support of HIV/AIDS services and awareness at the latest installment of the famous Purple Party, this time returning to Dallas, Texas. "More Than a Party...Making a Difference" is the motto of the Purple Foundation that organizes this event and events like it all throughout the year and across the continent, and the attendees are nothing if not fully behind that objective. Beneficiaries of this weekend's event are AIDS Services of Dallas, Resource Center Dallas, and Legacy Counseling Center. Starting with an Opening Party, the weekend sees a Pool Party, the Main Event, a Tea Dance, and the Closing Party, keeping the energy high, the vibes good, and the temperature hot all weekend long. Share your pics and updates on Dallas Purple Party 2016 at Qommunity.Belgian Pride 2016 - Brussels, BelgiumFriday... less

This weekend's queer world centers on veterans converging in Albuquerque and bears converging in Atlanta.American Veterans fo... moreThis weekend's queer world centers on veterans converging in Albuquerque and bears converging in Atlanta.American Veterans for Equal Rights (AVER) National Convention 2016 - Albuquerque, New MexicoThursday, April 21 - Sunday, April 24

Veterans gather from around the United States in Albuquerque this weekend in support of equal rights for LGBT veterans and service-people. Attending will be Major General Patricia Rose, Coloner Maragrethe Cammermeyer, Sergeant Eric Alva, Sergeant Danny Ingram, Lieutenant Colonel Steve Loomis, and others. Planned activities and events including training on mobilizing the vote, VA health care benefits, and benefits status for transgender service members, among others; camaeraderie times such as a Thursday evening catered BBQ social and a Military Banquet on Saturday night; and sightseeing adventures including optional trips to Sante Fe, Old Town, the Indian Pueblo Cultural Center, the NM Veterans Memorial Park, and the National Museum of Nuclear Science. Share social media and updates about AVER National Convention 2016 on Qommunity.Atlanta Bear Pride 2016 - Atlanta, GeorgiaThursday, April 21 - Sunday, April 24

Atlanta Bear Pride promises three days of events and parties for bears, cubs, and those who love them. The weekend is packed with events and activities, from the Kick Off Party to the Closing Party, including a Bear BQ and Beer Bust, a Bear Invasion dj'd dance party, Bear After Hours, Beef Bar, and more. And like any bear or Pride event, when it says it ends on Sunday, April 24th, what that really means is it ends in the wee small hours of Monday morning, April 25th, so get your last bit of hibernating in, because it's going to be a long, hot weekend. Share social updates and media about Atlanta Bear Pride 2016 on Qommunity.What's going on this week in your queer, queer world? less

Where do I even start... I could start with: my parents had me very young, mum 19 and dad barely 21, my brother was born 2 ye... moreWhere do I even start... I could start with: my parents had me very young, mum 19 and dad barely 21, my brother was born 2 years later.. but thats not very interesting. How about: by grade 3 around the age of 8 I was already seeing my own personal therapist, I can't remember what events led up to it or how long I was there but there I was. Only 2 years earlier I was molested and raped by a family friend who was supposed to be caring for me while my parents worked long hours to support us. I had only been made to stay with him as a last resort after my live at home nanny and my mother's best friend suddenly passed away from a brain tumor. As a child that young experiencing trauma usually does I had mentally blocked it out and continued my childhood as if nothing had happened, or so I thought. I suffered insomnia as long as I can remember and would spend hours wandering the halls at home in the dark. When I did sleep I would have recurring nightmares of my parents dying in horrific ways. Since I can remember, it was normal for us to move house every 6 months or so and change schools every few years. I learnt to not worry about making close friends and instead enjoyed exploring the different neighborhoods we moved into. By the age of 13 I had attended 8 schools and started high school. After a semester of high school we moved and I changed schools once again. It was at this high school that I met a boy. He became one of my closest friends, we talked constantly and he would play his guitar to me under the tree at lunch time. As my feelings developed so did my anxiety. I began having nightmares where I was sitting in a hallway, the house felt huge and empty, I was wearing overalls and I remember big hands undoing the clips roughly. I was terrified and knew what was happening was bad somehow but I didn't know what to do. I felt confused and afraid. The dreams became more frequent over the following months and would slowly reveal more. Eventually the guy asked me out on good old MSN and I was beyond ecstatic until that night I went to bed. I had the same nightmare as most nights but the big rough hands belonged to my now boyfriend. The nightmare affected me more than I could have imagined. The next day when my new boyfriend went to hold my hand I felt panic envelop me. I knew he would never hurt me but I couldn't make my brain stop. I ended it a week later. But I still had feelings for him. He couldn't understand and neither could I. So how was I to explain it? I started getting depressed. I was running on less than 2 hours sleep a night. I was at that shitty, confusing teenage age, having nightmares I didn’t understand, and on top of it all I was getting bad anxiety around guys. Eventually I stopped feeling anything, I just felt empty. Now, before any one judges my actions, you weren't there, you weren’t in my shoes and you had not lived my life. I accidentally cut myself one day and for a second I felt something, I can't even explain it but it was something! I began to cut myself occasionally when I couldn’t take feeling so empty anymore; it became more and more frequent over the months until my thighs were covered. The more I cut, the deeper they became and the more alive I felt. If you have ever felt dead inside, you would understand how you would do anything to feel something again. Lets skip forward a year: my parents move us to Queensland and it's hot! So hot I am forced to wear shorts, which revealed some of my cuts, so I would wear long pants even in the middle of summer. My loneliness and depression slowly festered and began eating away at my mind. Eventually I was forced to confront my mum. I told her about the nightmares and the cutting. She responded better than I thought, almost as if she had already known. She hugged me and went to get something from the other room. She came back with a police report that dated back to 1996. She told me my nightmares weren’t nightmares and that they were memories. With the information I had been given I didn’t know what to think or how to feel. My parents suggested therapy. I started therapy along with antidepressants; the antidepressants turned me into a living zombie. While I no longer wanted to take my life, I felt nothing. I would zone out constantly. My days in class were spent staring at the wall or out the window. I started forgetting small things at first, then the days became blurs. It was that year I started dating a guy we will call S. He was your typical class clown. I told him everything and he still accepted me. We went slow and he accepted that I would take a while to feel ok with certain things. We shared everything: hopes, dreams, nightmares, stories, fantasies—everything. After six months of dating I trusted him with my life. We decided we were both ready to take the plunge and have sex. I will neve... less

Places to be in your queer, queer world this coming week and weekend include San Jose, California; Ft. Lauderdale and Tallaha... morePlaces to be in your queer, queer world this coming week and weekend include San Jose, California; Ft. Lauderdale and Tallahassee, Florida; Washington, DC; Cape Town, South Africa; and the whole United States.Spectrum IGLTA Conference 2016 - Cape Town, South Africa
Wednesday, April 13 - Saturday, April 16Hosted this year at the Belmond Mounyt Nelson Hotel at the foot of Table Mountain in South Africa's Cape Town, the 33rd Annual ILGTA Global Convention brings back the world's "premier educational and networking event for LGBT tourism professionals." Queer-owned and queer-friendly travel and tourism buyers and suppliers from around the world will connect through a variety of programs, including networking receptions, educational workshops, and a hosted buyer and scheduled appointment program. This year's keynote speakers are the South African Minister of Tourism and the President/CEO of World Travel and Tourism Council. RSVP, check-in, and share social media on Spectrum IGLTA Convention 2016 on Qommunity: The Queer Social Network. International Ms. Leather 2016 - San Jose, CaliforniaThursday, April 14 - Sunday, April 17This year marks the 30th anniversary of the International Ms. Leather competition. The program kicks off on Thursday night with a sexy performance aptly titled Seduction, followed by a full day Friday that includes the opening ceremonies, day-long intensive classes, and judging for the 2016 IMsL title. Saturday offers all-day workshops, a silent auction, and the IMsL competition continues into its second half. Then Sunday is all a fun-day, with a Sunday brunch featuring keynote speaker Vi Johndon and entertainment provided by comedian Shann Carr, as well as a pool party, poker, and even a raunchy storytelling slam. Vendors will also be present throughout the weekend, as well as hospitality parties and mixers hosted throughout. See whether this year's title will be held by Auroroa Lee, LasciviousJane, Miss BEEHave, slavegirl marion. In addition will be the 2016 International Ms. Bootblack contest. RSVP, check-in, and share social media on International Ms. Leather 2016 on Qommunity: The Queer Social Network.Cherry Weekend 2016 - Washington, DCThursday, April 14 - Sunday, April 17
An annual weekend-long dance to raise money for HIV/AIDS related charities, Cherry Weekend returns to D.C. with DJs from Spain, Germany, Mexico, NYC, and DC spinning mad beats (as in Mad Hatter mad) as this year's Cherry Weekend features a Wonderland-inspired whimsical playground theme: trip down the rabbit hole and caterpillar smoking a hookah included. A special afternoon tea dance will also be held to honor Dr. Moody Mustafa, physician and Cherry founder. HIV/AIDS testing will be available free onsite. RSVP, check-in, and share social media on Cherry Weekend 2016 on Qommunity: The Queer Social Network.Prides of the Southeast 2016 - Ft. Lauderdale, FloridaThursday, April 14 - Sunday, April 17Prides of the Southeast hits Ft. Lauderdale this weekend. The event kicks off Thursday with a meet and greet at Wilton Manors "The Gayborhood" followed by an evening bar hop. Friday sees the activities really kick into full swing with a day full of workshops and seminars for LGBTQ organizations and businesses and community members. Saturday sees more educational events throughout the day, with the night featuring a gala held at the Embassy Suites Fort Lauderdale with DJ Jalil Z and a host of live performances. RSVP, check-in, and share social media on Prides of the Southeast 2016 on Qommunity: The Queer Social Network.Tallahassee Pridefest 2016 - Tallahassee, FloridaThursday, April 14 - Sunday, April 17Tallahassee's annual Prdefest attracts hondreds of locals and travellers, with proceeds from the event going toward The Family Tree Community Center. Events and activities featured as part of this year's Tallahassee Pridefest include an art show and panel discussion, the Miss Tallahassee PRIDEFEST Pageant 2016, a family skate party, a drag brunch, and a meeting of people of color and faith. Of ourse the highlight of every year's Pridefest is Pride in the Plaza, held in Kleman Plaza and featuring mainstage entertainment, vendors, food, even a Kids Zone. Then the fun and excitement is all rounded out on Sunday with the Afterparty at the Mint Lounge. RSVP, check-in, and share social media on Tallahassee Pridefest 2016 on Qommunity: The Queer Social Network.GLSEN Day of Silence - United StatesFriday, April 15In the effort to raise awareness of how anti-queer bullying and harrassment in schools forces people into silence, GLSEN will once again sponsor an annual national Day of Silence. First held in 1996 at the University of Virginia, this year's 20th GLSEN Day of Silence sees over 8,000 schools, from middle schools through universities, taking part in an act of silence -- whatever form that may take -- in order to stand in solidarity with all who support LGBTQ youth's rights to enjoy their life and education in as s... less

The docket of queer events this weekend cover the gamut from the decadent White Party to the somber National Youth HIV/AIDS A... moreThe docket of queer events this weekend cover the gamut from the decadent White Party to the somber National Youth HIV/AIDS Awareness Day.Miami Beach Gay Pride 2016 - Miami Beach, FloridaFriday, April 8 - Sunday, April 10

This 3-day beach party, festival, and parade with the slogan: "Because Life's a Beach" boasts over 125 queer and queer-friendly venders and exhibitors, star-studded performances (including American Idol Jordin Spakrs), of course food and refreshments, and even kids and family activities. Grand Marshal for the 2016 Miami Beach Pride Parade is radio host Elvis Duran. Visit the official Miami Beach Gay Pride site to view the digital version of the official 2016 Miami Beach Pride Guide and find out about all the weekend's events, including locations and times.Planning on attending? Check-in, RSVP & post pics and updates on Miami Beach Gay Pride 2016 here.White Party Palm Springs 2016 - Palm Springs, CaliforniaFriday, April 8 - Monday, April 11

The traveling party of wall to wall scantily-clad men makes its Palm Springs return this week, with the only tone more prevalent there than white is skin! Scheduled events include Pool Parties, a Commando Military Ball, a Wet 'n' Wild excursion, a Sunset T-Dance, a Game of Thrones inspired main party -- all in all 8 parties scheduled over a 72 hour period. You can sleep the rest of the year--this is the White Party, dammit! But to help you maintain the energy for all this hot and sweaty fun, there's even a yoga class on Saturday morning to help you refresh and recharge for the rest of the partying weekend. Planning on attending? Check-in, RSVP & post pics and updates on White Party Palm Springs 2016 here.BECAUSE Conference 2016 - Minneapolis, MinnesotaFriday, April 8 - Sunday, April 10

"My Identities, My Life" is the theme of this year's BECAUSE Conference, to be held at the University of Minnesota in the Coffman Memorial Union. BECAUSE is organized by the Bisexual Organizing Project, devoted to the empowerment of those identifying as bisexual, pansexual, gender or sexuality fluid, queer, or bi+ (or unlabelled). The 3-day conference includes speakers, workshops, and entertainment, as well as providing youth and child-care services and a clothing drive for homeless youth. The keynote speakers lined up for this year's event are Dr. Herukhuti, Apphia Kumar, and Elise Mattheson. Workshops will cover community building and leadership, intersecting identities, health and wellness, elderly and aging, social justice and solidarity, trans identities, Bi+ beginnings, religion and spirituality, sex and sexuality, and youth (specifically regarding middle and high school). Entertainment includes dance lessons, crafting, game rooms, and a Saturday evening performance of spoken word, music, and other performance. Planning on attending? Check-in, RSVP & post pics and updates on BECAUSE Conference 2016 here.National Youth HIV / AIDS Awareness Day, 2016 - United StatesSunday, April 10

This Sunday, April 10, all around the United States, people will be educating each other and themselves on the toll the HIV/AIDS crisis has taken and is still taking on our young people in the 3rd annual National Youth HIV/AIDS Awareness Day (NYHAAD). Organized by Advocates for Youth, free HIV testing services will be offered and promoted, youth and their loved ones will share their experiences about how HIV & AIDS have affected them, and educational resources will be widely distributed. There's even a NYHAAD Bill of Rights that people can download and sign to add their voice to the many wishing to make education, prevention, treatment, and care available to all youth without the interference of criminalization, discrimination, stigma, or oppression. Planning on participating? Check-in, RSVP & post pics and updates on National Youth HIV/AIDS Awareness Day 2016 here.And already underway...Gay Snow Happening Solden 2016 - Solden, AustriaSaturday, April 2 - Saturday, April 9This weeklong skifest for gays and lesbians in breathtaking Solden, Austria wraps up this weekend, So if you happen to be in the area, there's still time to get a few big queer runs in. And of course, don't forget to check-in and post pics and update on Gay Snow Happening Solden 2016 on Qommiunity.So what's going on this week(end) in your queer, queer world? less

We hope you've had a wondrous (or at least welcome) change of seasons; we know it's been one of our best new years ever, in large part because of you! Qommunity has grown to nearly 200 registered members and the Qommunity.org website has already notched up over 1,000,000 pageviews! Our morning show on Periscope is also growing a devoted audience who've helped us achieve over 350,000 hearts! Thank you all so much for joining Qommunity & making us a part of your community.

Read on to find out more about all the latest excitement taking place at Qommunity. We know we're particularly excited about the coming of Spring to the U.S., when we can crawl out from our hovels into the sunshine and start experiencing all that this great queer world of ours has to offer!

Discover Your Queer, Queer World - Weekly Local Events Column

Did you know Phoenix Pride just came & went? Don't be out of the loop on queer events near you or elsewhere ever again! Every Thursday in Qommunicate: The Qommunity Zine we publish another edition of "It's a Queer, Queer World" bringing you queer events taking place over the next week around the world. Catch every edition to be sure you're in-the-know on all the queer events happening in your part of the world. And to make sure your local queer events always appear in our column when they come around, be sure to post them in our Events listings.

The Qommunity Blog & Qommunicate: The Qommunity Zine need you! Writers, Artists, Photographers, et al.: post your work to the Blog directly through or submit material for the Zine to qommunity@qommunity.org.

Qommunity Qoffee Qlatch -- 6 days a week on Periscope

Join Qommunity Co-founders Sage & Curry every morning from 8:30am-9:30am ET & 9am-11am ET for coffee, music, and queer conversation. Just download Periscope onto your mobile device, log in using Twitter or your phone number, follow @queerqommunity on Periscope.tv, and make sure your notifications are turned on, so that you'll never miss a broadcast.You never know what'll come up on the Qoffee Qlatch!

All April long we are inviting our members to create Fan Pages for their favorite celebrities, groups, sports teams, what hav... moreAll April long we are inviting our members to create Fan Pages for their favorite celebrities, groups, sports teams, what have you! They don't have to be queer, you don't even have to be queer. Just create those Fan Pages (we'll show you how in just a moment) and then get as many people as possible to check it out and interact with it throughout the month. What do we mean interact? Like it. Check-in to it using geo-tagging. Comment to it. Join it. Follow it.PRIZES:We will be awarding a purple ceramic mug with the Qommunity logo on the front & "You Belong Here" on the back in pink. (Because, after all, pink & purple is #TheNewBlueAndWhite.) [Note: Purple of mug not necessarily the same purple as image background.]

7 prizes will be awarded for the:
Most Liked
Most Commented
Most Joined
Most Followed
Most Shared
Most Check-ins
Queerest (by group consensus of our Periscope audience for the Qommunity Qoffee Qlatch (@QueerQommunity)
HOW TO ENTER:Creating a fan page on Qommunity is super-simple! Just follow these easy instructions:
Go to PAGES
Select CREATE NEW PAGE
Fill out the form to create your Fan Page, making sure to select "Fan Page" under CATEGORY
Start adding content & updates to it (music, pics, videos, etc.) & share, share, SHARE!
RULES:

You can enter as many times (i.e. create as many Fan Pages) as you like
Each Fan Page is eligible to win as many prizes as it can & each entrant is eligible to win as many prizes as they can
Sage & Curry are not eligible to win. And although the Troye Sivan page shown in this post & other promotions for the contest is not eligible to win either, its creator Paul has already earned himsef a mug (to be sent out with the rest of the prizes) as an Honorable Mention and with our gratitude for being the first Qommunity member to create a Fan Page, with no contest even to prompt him. Thank you, Paul!
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A question we commonly get asked in our travels is about the purpose and point to Gay Pride (or LGBT Pride, or just Pride). T... moreA question we commonly get asked in our travels is about the purpose and point to Gay Pride (or LGBT Pride, or just Pride). The wording will vary: "What's the deal with Gay Pride?" "Can't you just be gay and keep us out of it?" "Why do you have to proud about it?" "Why do you got to have a parade? Straight people don't get a parade." Well, here is one gay man's take on that subject, and we think he speaks for a great many of queer folks--men, women, intersex, genderqueer, and genderfluid alike!

The next week sees a spectrum of queer events with the continuation of this week's Leather Pride festival in Los Angeles, Div... moreThe next week sees a spectrum of queer events with the continuation of this week's Leather Pride festival in Los Angeles, Diva Las Vegas (not a conference, a vacation -- as they're sure to point out, and the next Pride and transgender events to arrive on the 2016 calendar, in Phoenix, Arizona and San Jose, California, respectively.