My Plans For 2019: Home, Abroad & Turning 30

2019 is going to be full of big plans.

We’ll be moving to a new city, hopefully permanently, and getting new jobs, hopefully permanent, and settling into an actual routine that resembles something of a normality for the first time ever – hopefully permanently!

While I think I lived my 20’s right, it was far from perfect; my 20’s can be split fairly evenly down the middle, separated by “shop” and “after shop” (or “pre-travel” and “travel”!). You see, at 20 years old I found myself with keys in my hand and a lease in my name for a freaking business. An actual brick-and-mortar high street shop. There is naturally a long story behind this, but this crazy life-changing event was the catalyst for many things in my life, both very good and very bad.

Even crazier – the shop was literally the other end of the UK to where I grew up.

At 25, I sold the business on, and resumed my life that I had been planning for years. It meant I went backpacking 5 years later than I meant to; but it also meant I went backpacking with more purpose and a lot less naivety. I feel like this can only be a good thing. Since then, I’ve lived and worked in Australia and Canada, and travelled around at least 12 of the (almost) 30 countries I’ve visited.

A very small dip in the ocean, but when you consider two of those were very long-term, it’s not too bad. The thing is, I’m glad I did working holidays while I could. I still have time to get a work visa for New Zealand should I find myself wanting one, but at this point I am sort of sick of arriving in a new country, figuring out bank accounts and tax, getting another temporary job (which I’ve been doing each time I return to the UK, too), and then worst of all, saying goodbye to the hundreds of people I’ve met and worked with.

No, I am ready for routine – because if there’s anything that merges the two stages of my 20’s together, it’s that I haven’t had ANY.

Edinburgh – can you think of a better city to settle in?!

So that is my main plan.

Settle down in Edinburgh, and begin my 30’s broke.

But I have lots of other plans too, and most of them obviously involve travel.

In an attempt to make up for the fact I haven’t travelled to more than two or three countries per year since 2016, I will be aiming to hit up at least five new countries this year, and more than that altogether.

It’s hard to plan anything exactly, because we don’t know where we’ll be financially in three months, let alone six.

But here are some that are on my very scribbled agenda:

Montenegro

I can’t remember the first time I saw a photo of Kotor Bay, but I have pined for Montenegro ever since. Every single photo draws me in and I breathe in every word I read about it. I worry about how popular it’s becoming, because I definitely saw that photo of Kotor Bay, umm… “before it was cool”, and I worry that I’ve missed my chance to see it for what it is. But realistically, lots of places are suffering from overtourism, and I don’t think Montenegro is high up on that list. I think it’s definitely still got an explore factor left in it.

Croatia

While Montenegro has been top of my Europe list for quite a while now, it makes sense to incorporate a whole trip of the Balkans. And that means Croatia is next on my list, because while it’s been growing uncontrollably in popularity in recent years, I still firmly believe it’s worth visiting.

Slovenia

Possibly in the same trip as above, or possibly not, Ljubljana and Lake Bled have been on my list for quite a while too. The fairytale photos of Lake Bled is probably one of my favourite views of Europe, and I’ve never heard a bad word about the capital. So it’s about time I went and checked it out!

Ireland

Can you believe that I have STILL NEVER BEEN TO IRELAND?!? I was actually supposed to go back in November, and even though I managed to get back to the UK in time, it just didn’t work out. So, Ireland is a must for this year! If I get to nowhere else, I WILL get to Ireland!

Japan

I really have no idea if Japan is just a pipe dream for 2019, because the reason it’s been stuck at the top of my bucket list for so many years while I haven’t even tried to plan to visit it, is because it’s a country I want to get RIGHT. It’s a country I want to spend money on. It’s a country I don’t want to pass through because it’s convenient; I want to make sure I have quality time there doing all the things on my list, rather than say “oh we can come back another time to do that” (because inevitably even if I make a huge list and cross everything off, the list will double in the time we spend there, so we’ll definitely be saying that anyway; we don’t need EXTRA things, for heaven’s sake!).

But I know it’s an expensive country, and that’s why I put it off for so long. And I fully expected us to be settled into full-time-job life by now, and kind of hoped we might finally make it there this year. So the fact we’re not makes this a questionable goal – but you never know!

That said, I have a lot of plans closer to home, too.

Living in Edinburgh will make the rest of Scotland infinitely more accessible than it was from Orkney. Hey, remember when I said that 2017 was going to be all about exploring Scotland, and then I worked a summer job that barely allowed me time off, so I… didn’t? We spent five days road tripping through Loch Lomond, Glencoe and Loch Ness, we dipped into Stirling Castle and Dunblane for a day, and… well, that was it. I DID explore a lot of Orkney though, so it wasn’t all a waste. (Before I had my quarter life crisis and went to volunteer in a hostel in Portugal. And go on a romantic break to Venice with my mum. Sometimes I think my life is a little strange.)

So this year, I plan to do EVERYTHING I’ve been meaning to do for years – including lots that most visitors to Scotland do on their first visit! (Isn’t that always the way?)

Stirling Castle – I only visited for the first time about 18 months ago!

Here are just a few:

Isle Of Skye (I KNOW RIGHT?!?!?)

Eilean Donan Castle

Climb Conic Hill, Loch Lomond

Visit St Andrews

Climb Ben Nevis (yep – pulling out the big guns, but I firmly believe I can do it!)

Drive the rest of the North Coast 500 (being from Orkney, I have driven the John O’ Groats to Inverness route a hundred times – but I’ve never actually done the west coast! For shame!)

Visit 10 castles

Visit a new island in Orkney

I’m sure I will find lots to explore in and around Edinburgh, and I’m also looking forward to visiting Glasgow as a “tourist” rather than just to visit friends. Something tells me I’m going to have a LOT of busy weekends this year!

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14 thoughts on “My Plans For 2019: Home, Abroad & Turning 30”

This is all so exciting!! I’m so excited for you!
Am also very intrigued how the whole business at 20 thing started…?

I definitely can believe you still haven’t been to Ireland because I HAVE NEVER BEEN TO SCOTLAND! It’s been on my list for an absolute age though, and whenever I’m back in the UK if I hit up Edinburgh we should meet for haggis or something (that’s a very poor taste joke…I would never eat haggis).

We travel-obsessed Brits are kind of stupid really. We’re always swanning off to sunnier climates and forgetting that we have 4 whole countries (and a bit) to explore. Silly us!

Also can’t believe you’re 29?? Why did I think you were early-mid 20s? You look younger.

You should DEFINITELY come to Edinburgh when you’re back!!! I’ll scout out some places for veggie haggis. 😉 (yes, that’s a thing!) It is crazy though isn’t it, that we ignore what’s close to home.

Buying the business is a bit of a tale, but long story short, I worked there and my boss was shit. He turned round one day and asked if I wanted to take it over, LOL. An obvious thing for a 19-year-old to decide to do, right?! (What is my life?!?)

Japan’s been on my list for years too, for exactly the reasons you say. I really want to do it right and it’s not cheap! I also haven’t visited the Balkans which seems like quite a big oversight. I’d like to spend the school summer holidays pottering around them, but that’s probably the worst time to go. One day I’ll get to all these places … *dream*

Oh I don’t know, I can think of worse places to spend the summer holidays! Croatia might be busy but I bet the rest wouldn’t be too bad, and I’m guessing you would end up hitting some real off-beat places. 🙂

I recently talked with some friends about the concept of “living our lives to the fullest,” and we came to the conclusion that “30 is the new 20.” True, we spend our 20s trying new things, traveling, working new jobs, etc…but that doesn’t mean that it all stops once we hit 30. Granted, the idea of wanting to settle is more imminent, but there’s still that opportunity to get out and explore between 9 to 5s, paying rent, and otherwise “adulting.” Your 30s will be another decade of adventure, whether in travel or life! Enjoy the ride, and I do recommend visiting the Balkans: touristy as they may be, there is a reason why (i.e. they’re stunning!).

I love that!! 30 is definitely the new 20! And exactly, just because I’m “settling” doesn’t mean I won’t be travelling and exploring, and there will be plenty of life adventures too. 🙂 I’m excited to see what my 30’s bring!

Looks like an exciting 2019! Like you I’m hoping to explore more of the UK, us brits are always to eager to hop on a plane to somewhere sunny 😂 Hope you get the chance to visit all these places especially Japan, would love to check out blogs from there! Good luck on your new adventures!

How exciting! There are some great destinations here which I am definitely looking forward to reading about. I completely understand what you’ve said about leaving all the friends you’ve made somewhere and going back to the drawing board. My life has been similar so far and it can be a little draining.

I am currently half way through a long trip and know I will have to return to the UK later this year. Not knowing what will happen after that is so scary though! I admire your positivity. I hope that regardless of where I end up for the latter part of the year, it will involve adventures. Thanks for sharing 🙂

It’s sooo draining. I’ve returned to the UK twice now with no clue what’s going to happen. But, I guess that’s all part of the adventure too! I’m sure it will all work out no matter what you end up doing! 🙂

I’ve just turned 30 and I think it has raised so many questions and emotions for me: some exciting! And some daunting. I have tried to write a little about it in my blog but I’m just starting out and I’m figuring how much I’d like to share and if what I write is interesting lol. Also I have visited Edinburgh and it has a little piece of my heart, that’s for sure 💜 perhaps that could be my next blog post?..