Sharyn Wolf Psychotherapy

You know your partner. You know what it is that you do that ticks him off before you do it. For example:

Bob knows that Serena hates loud music. Every time he puts in a heavy metal CD, he can count how many seconds it will take for her to come into the room yelling, “Turn that down. Does it have to be so loud?” Bob loves loud metal and most of the time he listens to it when he is in the car going to and from work. But, every once and while…