Bah, I got cut off. Anyway, the book can come in fairly handy. My husband says it teaches you how to cope with the difference in personality and how to address relationship issues as well. Some people are just not good communicators, and the book like that could help develop their communication skills. So I guess he would have to read the book as well.

Belle -- "Please Understand Me II" ? (Sorry you have to hear all of this, I know you've heard it before ... I was just hoping to bury it on page 13 of 100 in this thread!!!)

Hubby is working nights this weekend, so I hope he will read the Five Love Languages book. I really like the way relationships are presented in it -- especially the beginning where it talks about early stages of relationships and how people act stupid in them, and then settle back into their normal needy selves. We got married pretty quickly because we thought we were all grown up, but apparently we didn't think through things to the furthest extent.

Yes, that is the book. And don't apologize for venting these kinds of things stay on our minds for so long, that they consume all conversation. It's perfectly normal, hopefully discussing these things will help you come to a resolution. You know, without the cost of a relationship therapist.

Gosh... Soon we are going to have in sync cycles ladies! I'm have a shitty day too. I'm fucking sick of my SO. He thinks sense he rarely goes out and is faithful that he is just the perfect damn partner. WRONG!

Today I made dinner and afterwards I wanted the family to go on a walk. Me and the kids usually go alone but I waited til he was home and settle to go. Well, he was on Facebook the entire walk, pouting and complaining. So I say something to him and he goes OFF!

Why did you just say you don't wanna go walking??? Did I hold a fucking gun to your head??? I wanted to push him into on coming traffic... Idk if you guys saw the things I posted about our relationship in the thread about biblical ideals of a wife (dunno what it was called) but I'm at my wits end with him...