Author: Brett Shoemaker

Confidence is an attractive trait desired by many and mastered by few. If we are not careful, it’s easy to drift off the road of confidence onto the sidewalk of arrogance. Here are four quick steps to becoming more confident while avoiding arrogance: 1. Understand Your Identity There are few things more important in life…

If you really knew me would you still love me? That’s a question that has often plagued the caverns of my heart. If they really knew what I thought, or what I felt, or how I saw the world…how could anyone ever love me? As a result of this thinking, I started lying. I created…

Life is truly a journey, and sometimes that journey is tough. One of the most effective ways to make your journey better is to wisely pick the people you share it with. Below are three kinds of friends that everyone should have. 1. Friends who are ahead of you We should all have friends who…

Introverts are a different breed from their extrovert counterparts. Sometimes we are a little too nice to tell you what we really mean so let me translate for you: “I’m tired.” translation… “I have spent way too much time with you today and I need an excuse to go home, lock my door, and be alone.” “I…

Everyone wants to give a good first impression, sometimes even if it’s not the most authentic impression. I need to be confident, but don’t be cocky, be honest about myself, but don’t brag. Plan and take control, but don’t be overbearing. Commit to a relationship, but not too fast. Be present and engaging, but don’t be clingy….