From http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ezra_Miller:
Miller has described himself as queer. He has stated “The way I would choose to identify myself wouldn’t be gay. I’ve been attracted mostly to ‘shes’ but I’ve been with many people and I’m open to love wherever it can be”; and that he has “a lot of really wonderful friends who are of very different sexes and genders. I am very much in love with no one in particular”.[15] He has also detailed, “I’ve had many, you know, ‘happy ending sleepovers’ in my early youth … my period of exploration—I think that’s essential. Anyone who hasn’t had a gay moment is probably trying to avoid some confrontation with a reality in their life”.