I hate that feeling when you are not sure about the wheel choice. I'm obsessed with wheel and tire designs and if doesn't look perfect I get serious buyers remorse. I got over the deep, polished lips as another member stated it does make the wheels look smaller visually. I prefer the spokes to go to the edge as the wheel looks full, almost larger. However the polished lip sets a contrast between wheel and car. Classy look for sure. Lower the car first. It could make up the vision you anticipated for.