THE CPS PRETENDS THAT THEY LOVE THE CHILD MORE THAN THEIR OWN PARENTS .

This is what they teach
in US public schools-- “In juvenile
cases the adult has to prove his innocence, the state does not have to prove
your guilt ”

Here is naked
truth: “I overheard in a shopping mall a
teen girl threatening her mother that if she didn't buy her a dress she will
call (while waving her cell phone) CPS right now. The mother bought the dress.”

IN THE WEST MOST OF THESE CPS WOMEN ARE LESBIANS AND PMS MISANTHROPES FROM UNHAPPY HOMES .

Many violent acts are
perpetrated by the "good guys," whom kids have been taught to admire.
Even though kids are taught by their parents that it's not right to hit,
television says it's OK to bite, hit, or kick if you're the good guy.

This can lead to
confusion when kids try to understand the difference between right and wrong.
And the "bad guys" on TV aren't always held responsible or punished
for their actions.

Small children are
scared of violent images. At their age
they cannot tell the difference between fantasy and reality. REM sleep is
affected by exposure to media violence. Small children develop behavioral
problems.

TV is surcharged with
visuals and commercials that depict poor and risky behaviors (including
homosexual and premarital sex) as cool and
exciting.

The yank canned
laughter serials where the son insults the mother, the daughter is sarcastic with
the father and wife ridicules her husband is most damaging to the young mind.

Small children in LKG
and UKG initiate sexual activity, as they think it is normal.

Children can't
distinguish program content from ads, especially if their favorite character is
promoting the product.

WE HAD MADHURI DIXIT
JUMPING AROUND LIKE A SACK OF ROTTEN POTATOES —EXHORTING CHILDREN TO EAT HEALTHY
MAGGIE NOODLES FOR BREAKFAST.

Once my younger son at
the age of 5 asked for more Wriggley chewing gum. Myself
and my wife were taken aback as he normally does NOT ask for anything . He is delighted with what we give him.

Later my wife showed me
the empty carton from the dustbin.

At the bottom is was
printed - When chewing gum gets over ask for more

Stock the room in which
you have your TV with plenty of other non-screen entertainment (books, kids'
magazines, toys, puzzles, board games, etc.) to encourage kids to do something
other than watch TV.

Keep TVs and internet
connections out of bedrooms

It is common for parents and caregivers to use TV as a substitute babysitter.

TV provides no
educational benefits for a child under age 3.5.

Worse, it steals time
for activities that actually develop her brain, like interacting with other
people and playing. A child learns a lot
more efficiently from REAL interaction – with people and things, rather than
things seen on a TV screen.

TV viewing takes away
the time that your child needs to develop important skills like language,
creativity, motor, and social skills.

These skills are
developed in the kids’ first 42 months (a critical time for brain development)
through play, exploration, and conversation.

Your
kid’s language skills, for example, do not improve by passively listening to
the TV. It is developed by interacting with people,
when talking and listening is used in the context of real life.

TV viewing numbs your
kid’s mind as it prevents your child from exercising initiative, being
intellectually challenged, thinking analytically, and using his imagination.

TV viewing takes away
time from reading and improving reading skills through practice. Kids watching cartoons and entertainment
television during pre-school years have poorer pre-reading skills at age 5
. Kids who watch entertainment TV are
also less likely to read books and other print media.

Kids who watch a lot
of TV have trouble paying attention to
teachers because they are accustomed to the fast-paced visual stimulation on
TV. Kids who watch TV more than they talk
to their family have a difficult time adjusting from being visual learners to
aural learners (learning by listening).
They also have shorter attention spans.

Children who watch too
much TV have a higher chance of conduct problems, emotional symptoms and
relationship problems by age 7 than children who did not. TV exposes your kid to negative influences,
and promotes negative behavior.

TV shows and
commercials usually show violence, alcohol, drug use, sex and homosexuality in
a positive light. The mind of your kid
is like clay. It forms early impressions
on what it sees, and these early impressions determine how he sees the world
and affect his grown-up behavior.

The NEW WORLD ORDER
wants your child to be a conditioned zombie.
They own the media. In India most of the media barons are mere fronts
for Zionist Jew BIG BROTHER.

Yesterday evening it
was pathetic to see Modi accepting a shawl from the MD of this newspaper.

It was the PITS !

Children who are more
exposed to media violence behave more aggressively . They are taught by TV that violence is the
way to resolve conflict – as when a TV hero beats up a bad guy to subdue him.

Also, they are not burning
calories and increasing metabolism. The
more television a child watches, in the first years of life, the more likely he
is to be less physically fit and socially misfit.

Kids’ brains grow
profoundly during the first 3.5 years of life, with the brain tripling in mass
in just the first 12 months.

The stimuli
children experience during this period profoundly influence brain development. Images
on screens behave in ways that differ dramatically from those in the real
world.

Infants may stare at
the bright colors and motion on a screen, but their brains are incapable of
making sense or meaning out of all those bizarre pictures.

It takes 30 months for a baby’s brain to develop to the point
where the symbols on a screen come to represent their equivalents in the real
3D world. If your baby wants to grab a ball in real life he’ll lunge for it,
grasp at it, or crawl after it.

The
stuff on the screen just disappears, to be replaced by some other stuff.

Children
are programmed to learn from interacting with other people. The dance of facial
expressions, tone of voice, and body language between a toddler and parent is
complex.

Children up to age 3.5
learn better from the real world than they do from any screen, especially when
it comes to language. They do seem to
learn a little more if they’re watching in the company of a person who is
talking to them about what they’re seeing, in the same way you would while
looking at a picture book.

The critical time for brain growth is the first 3.5
years. Kids need to interact with their parents, or real people eye to eye, and
not with a screen.

MRI brain scans showed
children who spent the most hours in front of the box had greater amounts of
grey matter in regions around the frontopolar cortex - the area at the front of
the frontal lobe. But this increased
volume is a negative thing as it is linked with lower verbal intelligence

Below: Kosher SON OF A BITCH Leon Eisenberg -- Almost all western step father / step mother put small children on ADHD drugs--- for showing genuine dissent , scoring poor grades in school or not obeying their unreasonable orders

These unkind step
parents run over by LUST, never gave the children good parenting , love,
fairness . They fed them with toxic unhealthy cheap food which gave them poor
gut health. , food / environmental allergies , nutrient deficiencies etc.

All
of these issues mimic the signs and symptoms of ADHD and other psychiatric
disorders. Yet the symptoms are all
lumped together and labeled as one big fake disorder helping EVIL PHARMA earn
billions while sacrificing the health of these unfortunate kids.

Years ago, if a kid was
bored and didn’t listen well in class, he was considered lazy, a daydreamer or
perhaps a bit rambunctious. These days, he’s labeled with a mental disorder.

Every child who’s not
doing well in school is sent to see a pediatrician, and the pediatrician says:
“It’s ADHD; here’s Ritalin or Adderall XR .” In
fact, 99 % of these unfortunate kids don’t have an abnormal dopamine
metabolism.

Doctors are regularly sent
by EVIL PHARMA on sex jaunts. They are trapped by honey pots.

When EVIL PHARMA makes
a drug is available to doctors, they’ll make the corresponding diagnosis.

The best part was
Indian tribal children in forests were
used as guinea pigs ( by Trojan Horse NGOs and missionaries ) before these mind
drugs were unloaded on western children

One of the ADHD drug
ads put all over the west on big roadside hoardings read THANK YOU SON, FOR TAKING OUT THE GARBAGE.

Below: JEW Winston Churchill spAke

Below: When Haji Mastan smuggled gold , he would deliberately sacrifice 2% of the shipment to customs/ police , so that the remaining 98% gets off FREE.

ALMOST ALL US SCHOOL
SHOOTINGS HAVE BEEN CARRIED OUT BY CHILDREN ON ADHD DRUGS. ROTHSCHILD MEDIA WILL NEVER EVER REPORT THIS . .

Criticize the behavior,
not the child. When your child makes a
mistake, don't say, "You were bad."

Instead, explain what the child
did wrong. If 2 parents are raising a child, both need to use the same rules.

Just as a diabetic
needs insulin and an asthmatic child needs help breathing, the ADHDer needs his
learning environment regulated.

At school don't believe
all the "bad news" about your child. Teachers who lack merit blame
their students. They encourage students to take tuition , to save their own
jobs.

It's no fun to hear
vested teachers describe your child as "slow" and a “troublemaker”

EVIL PHARMA caused
doctors and to say “ For children with ADHD, the right medication makes a huge
difference in school “

99% of the time , a
child that has been diagnosed with attention deficit hyperactivity disorder
(ADHD), chances are the child is actually just fine.

The "father"
of ADHD, was JEW Leon Eisenberg. On his death bed, this
psychiatrist and autism pioneer confessed that ADHD is essentially a
"fictitious disease," which means that millions of young children
today are being needlessly prescribed severe mind-altering drugs that will set
them up for a life of drug addiction and failure

Even after this Jew’s
confession , modern psychiatry continues
to profit as well, helping also to fill the coffers of EVIP PHARMA by getting children addicted early to
dangerous psychostimulant drugs like Ritalin (methylphenidate) and Adderall
(amphetamine, dextroamphetamine mixed salts).

ADHD is more of a
social construct than it is an objective "disorder."

IN REALITY , ADHD IT
WAS ALL ABOUT POOR PARENTING AND ABDICATION BY FOSTER PARENTS .

EVIL PHARMA mints money
by two ways. Invent new drugs, and invent new diseases already invented drugs
can treat.

MIND NUMBING DRUGS THAT
MAKE A CHILD OBEY ORDERS . FOR A STEP PARENT AN OBEDIENT ZOMBIE CHILD IS
GOOD NEWS.

ADHD drug Adderall had
subsidized 50,000 copies of a comic book that tries to demystify the disorder
and uses superheroes to tell children, “Medicines may make it easier to pay
attention and control your behavior!”

More than 13 billion
USD worth ADHD drugs are sold to children today.

Like most psychiatric
conditions, A.D.H.D. has no definitive test, and most experts in the field
agree that its symptoms are open to interpretation by ulterior motived parents
and doctors.

The American
Psychiatric Association, which receives significant financing from drug
companies, has gradually loosened the official criteria for the disorder to
include common childhood behavior like “makes careless mistakes” or “often has
difficulty waiting his or her turn.”

The idea that a pill
might ease troubles and tension has proved seductive to foster parents, who do
NOT care for children throwing tantrums and prone to crying often.

Here is a sample smart
ass advertisement. --

“All For A.D.D. A.D.D. for All. Adderall”—see it is an inclusive kinda thing.

The “ADHD diagnosis” is
based on a list of signs and symptoms related to inattention, hyperactivity and
impulsivity. Things like, “is easily distracted,” “doesn’t like to sit still,
blurts out answers, and talks alot. But all of these “ADHD signs and symptoms”
are basic everyday child behaviors.

There is no objective
way to measure a child’s behavior.

99.99% of members on the panels of ‘Mood Disorders’
and ‘Schizophrenia and Other Psychotic Disorders,’ had financial ties to EVIL
PHARMA

ADHD drugs aim to boost
levels of dopamine and serotonin in the brain, which most often is not even the
root of the cause.

Your child may not
realize the stress they can cause to a parent, by quirky behavior .

Remember, your child
may lack self control now , but it won’t
last forever.

Have confidence in your
child and be positive about his future.

MY ELDER SON USED TO
COME HOME FROM SCHOOL AT THE AGE OF 7 AND THROW HIS HEAVY SCHOOL BAG FROM A
DISTANCE OF TWENTY FEET ON THE DAY ROOM SOFA, AS SOON AS HER ENTERED THE HOME.

I HAD JUST COME ON
LEAVE FROM THE SHIP.

WHEN MY WIFE SAW MY
PUZZLED FACE , SHE WHISPERED – “ I ALLOW
HIM TO DO THAT, HE WILL GET OVER THIS PHASE . NOTHING IS DAMAGED, NEITHER THE
BOOKS NOR THE SOFA. PROBABLY IT GIVES HIM
SOME RELEASE”.

IT WAS NOT THAT HE
HATED HIS BOOKS— HE WAS ALWAYS A TOPPER IN CLASS. HIS BEHAVIOR WAS ALWAYS IDEAL . HIS TEACHERS COULD NOT STOP SINGING HIS PRAISES
.

I GUESS IT GAVE HIM A
KICK.

Try to ignore mildly
disruptive behaviors as a way for your child to release his or her pent up
energy.

However, “consistent” destructive, abusive, or intentionally
disruptive behavior should always be punished.

Parents must first
decide which behaviors they won’t tolerate, like killing / maiming a bird or an animal for
pleasure. It’s crucial to stick to these
guidelines.

Punishing a behavior
one day and allowing it the next is harmful to a child’s improvement.

Don’t expect electrical
switch ON-OFF reactions.

Give some time for the
child to weigh his options and get his act together. 99.9% he will do what you want him to do on
his own terms and timetable .

IF HE DOES NOT PUT OFF
THE TV OR GET UP FROM BED WITHIN 3 SECONDS OF YOU HOLLERING AT HIM , THE SKY
WONT FALL DOWN.

IF AT ALL HE DOES IT IN
2 SECONDS— IT JUST SHOWS THAT HE IS AFRAID OF A MEAN PARENT.

Below: Time reverses this equation -- one day your child will be stronger and more powerful than you.

Don’t sweat the small
stuff. Not everything is a big
deal. Ask yourself, will this matter a
year from now on. Time solves most
things.

If you are a good dad,
your child will honor you and you will be his ULTIMATE HERO. There is NO prize
bigger than this.

The biggest punishment
for a man is when his own son treats him like shit. The greatest sorrow for a
man is to see his own son wasting away.

No man likes to lose.
But when his own son beats him in a game of chess or tennis, for the first
time, he feels on top of the world. Remember
this - It is a paradox you must understand !!

AN INDIAN PARENT
TEACHES THE CHILD THE MEANING OF PRAYER
EARLY IN LIFE

For this the child must
see the mother praying to arouse the curiosity.

Later the mother must initiate the child to prayer. Let
the child pray with the mother till it becomes a habit at dusk ( sandhya
vandanam for Hindus ) OR before bedtime.

Below: When my mother brought the evening lamp Sandhya Vandanam it was compulsory to see it towards east. So we would rush towards the west with eyes closed.

As children myself and
my two sisters prayed ( singing Sanskrit/ Malayalam bhajans ) every single day at twilight sitting in front of a lamp ( palms together ) ..

When praying, try to
keep the details and words appropriate to your child's age level.

Start off by thanking
God for being with you and your family,
thank him for his great, unconditional love. Ask him for guidance to follow the path of
truth , love and fairness. Ask God to forgive your mistakes.

Helping your child develop
a daily prayer is one of the greatest gifts a mom can give.

Teach your child how to
lay down their worries and seek wisdom.

Below: Everything spiritual in Hinduism has GRATITUDE infused in it

IT IS SO TOUCHING TO
LISTEN TO MY YOUNGER SON - A HUGE 20 YEAR OLD 126 KILO HULK, AS STRONG AS A BULL, PRAY WITH DELIGHTFUL CHILDISH SENSITIVITY AS
SOON AS HE HITS THE BED, IN DARKNESS .

I LOVE TO EAVESDROP ( my wife does not allow this ) .

IT MAKES MY DAY , WHEN
HE FORGETS HE HAS TOLD GOD SOMETHING AND REPEATS THE SAME THING TWO OR THREE
TIMES MORE.

This is NOT the type of
prayer when you allow the child to sin recklessly and wipe it off with one
Friday “solidarity display” prayer. What type of prayer is that , where immediately after praying you run out as a marauding gang and start killing people enmasse?.

The credit for teaching
my two sons good values , gratitude for the past and HOPE for the future goes
to me wife, as I was at sea most of the time.

Hope anchors the child’s soul.

There are no nuts and
bolts to good parenting. It is a broad philosophy.

Below: REAL mother's love cares not for the camera or FAAALTHU publicity !

Below: My name is Kailash Satyarthi , Nobel Prize winner-- I love children so much -- and I have photographs to prove it ! It is OK for a white parent in USA to push a child into torturous full time tennis / gymnastics in an academy at the age of 4 -- --but in India it is SLAVERY if a child learns from his father ULTRA SKILLS of silk saree weaving (after school and play) in their own home. Ultra skills requiring deft fingers moved by the subconscious brain lobe, must be learnt early -- or it is gone ! See we Indians must strive to make our children doctors, lawyers, chartered accountants etc who contribute nothing to a nation's development , right ?

EFFECTIVE PARENTING MUST BE ESSENTIALLY PRO-ACTIVE NOT REACTIVE

Children learn by
watching and are influenced by friends and classmates.

I took my elder son for
admission to the school where I studied.. The
principal was a teacher when I studied in that school. She
remembered me and asked about my sisters taking their names .

She spoke to my small son
and told me quietly “ Do not admit this child in this school. Standards and
quality of students have come down. “

Probably she was right.

My son got the rolling
trophy for the BEST OUTGOING STUDENT when he passed out of school -- general proficient in studies, athletics, games, speeches, math olympiads , extra –curricular activities
etc

Oprah fuckin’ Winfrey
has made 4 billion USD by selling shit as chocolate. She has been actively
involved in giving HAJAAAAAR parenting advise.

She does NOT have any children
and has missed the bus at the age of 62. What does she know
about being a mother ?

At least she does NOT rattle off "verse numbers" like Zakir Naik to get faalthu applause.

If parents don’t know
whether or not their child is being bullied, the warning signs may be :-

You small child loses
or has damaged possessions

You child hates going
to school

Parents can help their
children deal with bullying by:-

Asking their child what
is wrong;

Telling the school and
demanding action

CHECK OUT HOW I MANAGED
A BULLY IN SECOND SONs SCHOOL.

In my son’s case the school principal and
teachers were scared of the bully’s father .

Ajitji, My FB friend shared this "Bad Parenting" slides yesterday and found to be relevent to this post: https://www.facebook.com/media/set/?set=a.923158111136797.1073741894.188144997971449&type=3&pnref=story

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