I didn't think you were, but just checking. If it did happen to you, would you report it? What would most boys do? Anyone else?

You're quite intrigued by this subject, aren't you? ;)

Well, all kidding aside, I would definitely report it. No one should be silent victims of hazing, bullying, sexual harassment, molestation, rape, etc.

If reporting it can stop the abuse, then it's the way to go. Also help the victim move past it and hopefully get the help they'll need to recover.

I'd like to think most guys would do the same, but you never know. At Penn State the incidence of sexual harassment and rape in the football program was decently well-known but enough people worked to cover it up and sweep it under the rug.

Just trying to figure out what's going on in men's and boys minds when this sort of stuff happens. "Intrigued" isn't quite the right word to describe my interest. I just strive to understand things that are thoroughly alien to me, esp. when they involve people inflicting pain & suffering on other human beings.

Being female, I'm at a loss to understand what's going on with men/boys in these horrible, all-male abuse/coverup situations. Understanding & knowledge are first steps toward making things better.

Haha. I've wondered that myself. You think guys who like guys are more likely to watch h.s. wrestling or participate in it? Just wondering.

Whoa, you quoted my post from 4 years ago. It's weird to see the grammar mistakes I made.

haha. So what's your answer?

Gay guys probably watch.

I lean toward agreeing with you. Or those boys who are at least questioning their orientation. I know someone who used to wear h.s. wrestling team t-shirts in middle, h.s. He wasnt a wrestler, but enjoyed watching, following it. Come to find out a few yrs. later...he's bi.