Tuesday, June 28, 2011

Is it weird to get all cloney??? Its really none of your damn business...

Ok so I randomly saw this picture of these handsome guys online and I decided to write about it because I had a knee jerk reaction, but I dont know that it was honest. You see I saw this picture and immediately thought CREEPY.. BUT... I wonder if Im really just JEALOUS. First off who am I to make a judgement on someone elses business? What two dudes choose to do that makes them happy is their business, not mine. So to even think Im entitled to an opinion on their life is weird. I mean it DOES come of a touch suspect initially but is that just because were not used to seeing to men who look nearly identical together? I mean Im attracted to guys with brown hair and eyes so why cant they be just because they actually have brown hair and eyes themselves? Also "mirroring" as its called does feel good and I think its perfectly healthy, in moderation like anything else. I know when I have dated dudes there is this weird joy you get from looking twinsy and it does bring some kind of happiness that i think comes from the concept that more then being loved people want to be UNDERSTOOD. So this kind of cloning is a physical example of understanding because if they look like you they in some way "get" you, so I think that is also a reason. Then on top of it you have that thing that happens with gay guys that in order to get what you are attracted to you have to BE what you are attracted to. I think its easy to have a strong negative reaction to twinsy behavior between adult males but I honestly think it might be because they look so SATISFIED that it makes you wanna UPCHUCK if you'd like the same for yourself and who wouldnt want to be understood like that... SO I say if you like it go for it. I for example like a twinsy effect, but in DRESS ONLY not in genetics. I wanna be the SNOWGRESS to some other dudes GREASY MEDITERRANEAN REALNESS. If the other dude has blue eyes its a NO, even though Id only want blue eyes for myself. In dress though I do like a similar look... So whats the moral to this story? If you have issue with it, check yourself before you hate on it, then feel l free to come to your own conclusion....

You're right; it's none of your business. And as and when you fall in love and STAY in love, the appearance of your partner will likely have less to do with appearance and much to do with the feeling of joy you get when he walks into the room.