BTW I'm downloading the game from the main site, but since they are in Australia it's unbearably slow, even when I have a 60MBps speed. it's only going 300kbps....you aussies must have spiders nesting in the servers.

Enough with the referral's, you guys its case sensitive.
Check your spam check your junk mail.
If you could please post your logs.

This file is saved in your default DOF directory under the name of Log1.txt.
"C:\Program Files (x86)\Steam\steamapps\common\Dawn of Fantasy"
If you are not running the game on Steam, screenshot will be in this folder instead: "C:\Program Files (x86)\Reverie World Studios\Dawn of Fantasy"

In some case you might want to attach all of your available Log files, they are located in the same folder named Log1.txt, Log2.txt, Log3.txt, Log4.txt and Log5.txt,