There is a difference between lust and love. It can feel the same, but you know when it is lust when you wake up and say, "I impregnated my best friends daughter . . . . . please tell me what to do". You also are now concerned about how this will affect your wife and children, so it is amazing how lust, not love, can snap you out of fantasy land now that she is pregnant. If it was true love, it could be an OPEN love, where you do not have to hide or sneak around. It was lust . . . .brother!

What should you do . . .my God have mercy on you all. I cannot imagine what I would feel like to know that my husband impregnated a girl in my own home behind my back.

You have to face whatever comes to you, for you did not care enough to even use sexual protection, but you just laid down with her and let it flow . .never mind that you had a wife . .and she was a girl under the protection of your home. She was under you protection. The father expects other males to make advances towards his daughter, but my God not the man he put in charge of her welfare. You should have made her go back to her home if you were losing contol over youself!

I am not condeming you, for you must stand before God and not me, but I feel for you, for LUST got the better of you and the girl. She too knew that you were married and you had a wife. It is not just YOUR FAULT ALONE. If she is over 18 years of age, she knew and could control what she was doing as well.

I will pray for you. Please keep us informed, for I want to know how it went with you. I pray your marriage and life, and that of the girl can be put back together. Your friendship with the girls' father is probably over, and if I were you, I would be fearful for my personal safety. That was the worse betrayal of a male friend. You know you men will get very violent over something like this. Watch your back!

ALL,This guy is playing with us here his profile is reading 23 years old and i cant beleive he is the person that performed this action.it is better he tell us the truth before we can advise him on what to do.thnks

Your daughter if you have any should be taken from you cos You can do the same to her. You are going down whether you like it or not, You have destroyed your family and your frinds family already. Only suicide can help you now. Idiot.

wat arrant nonsense,ur carelessness caused it all, are u not matured enough to know when u impregnate a lady or not[/b]BANANA DEY SWEET FOR HOT WEATHER,BUT U KNOW REMEMBER SAY THE BACK PERSON NO DEY THROWAY FOR UR DOMOT,U GO FALL SOON.[b] I GO KILL U IF I BE THAT UR BESTFRIEND, NOT EVEN THE SISTER,BUT THE ONLY,ONLY DAUGHTER, MAN,U GET HEARTH OH,

as SISTA said am sure it's some1 elses's story because u sil are a mere 22years old.And if truly it's u then BIG SAHME.you are married and u to must ahve a daughter that same age.So why did'nt your daughter entice you.Guy you fall your hand oh big time.As some1 said now you know and suddenly that part of your brain popped that you have a wify.

My advice come clean own up don't ever encourage ana bortion.Things may be hot now but with time it will blow over.Accept the baby and raise like you have done your own kids.I pray God see's you through.

Your case sounds very strange at first sight but I think is a reflection of thousands of such happening. Yours is probably known because the girls pregnancy was discovered in her parents house. Who can tell how many times she had aborted preganancy for you.However, your problem can be solved. 1. First confess to your wife2. Then after your wife has accepted, it could take sometimes, tell your friend ( if may be more catastophic if the girl confesses her father)3. By now it must have become a public issue for sure4. You may then be rejected by almost everybodyTHEN TURN TO JESUS TO PREVENT MORE SHAMEFUL ACTS AND GET A NEW HEART AND A NEW LIFE

hello you would have controlled your feelings this girl is your best friend's daughter for christ sake and you are even married. Anyway its not time to blame you but look for solutions to the problem. You will have to tell your friend and your wife too. tell your friend u will take care of the pregnancy. it will now be left on the girl's parents to decide whether to keep the pregnancy or terminate. Its not going to be easy but the tension will soon calm down, your relationship with your wife and friend will be jeopardize but u have to take it easy matters may be fine some day.

@EchidimeGod has nothing to do with this. The man open im eye do the thing. Not once, not twice but persistently. He was enjoying the ting, abegiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii. God has no purpose for irresponsibility.

Either you are about to do this to someone's daughter or you're just looking for a storyline for another nollywood movie. For starters, your black a$$ is only 22 and you wanna tell me you've been procreating since the age of say 13 or 14? By the way, you never mentioned how old this friend's daughter is, which tells me you might be making this up or maybe thinking of doing it. If the latter is the case, then get the thoughts off your perverted mind because I'll tell you now, that's very sickening and you do need some medical help. So, think before you do it and if all what you said is true, then you don messed up big time bro. Seek help ASAP and like someone said only oga God go fit forgive you for this o; think about how you would feel if someone did this to your own child. That's what you should have been thinking whenever the perverted thought comes to your mind. Peace!

Why should you impregnate your friend's daughter after she takes you as her father? You should have control your sex orgy or whatever your feelings may be.

There is nothing you can do now, because it is too late to find solution to the pregnant. But girl too is a LovePeddler, she should have resist you in the first place even if it can cost her to go back to her parent.

MEN, you are not ashame at all. What features does she have and not with your wife. You shame me too much.

Why do i get the feeling this story was lifted from Hints or Hearts Magazine. It just doesnt add up. Ur age, ur claims that u have not even a kid but kids and that u helped groom the gal. Guy, quit the show and write sumtin more real pls