I lost my husband 7 months ago. Needless to say my hair has suffered. I have a plan to detangle the mess once I get the energy. My Royal Family 4: Grooming and Detangling Natural Hair: My Detangle Hair Plan I basically wrote out this plan to keep me from being overwhelmed. Natural hair can be saved even when it has been neglected. I have the plan. I know how to fix the situation. I just need the energy.

I am so incredibly sorry for your loss. One step at a time...you will overcome. You're on the right path of keeping your mind busy and making plans. I wish you all the best and hope your hair gets back to health soon too.

Sorry for your loss, don't let your hair overwhelm u. Just do one section at a time and use wide tooth comb and a detangler. I suggest trying some braids as a protective style b/c with proper care they can last months. You take care honey and condolences to you and your family