If i was being honest to myself .....i could seduce and would in the right cicumstances,a sexless marriage,where she wasnt being shown any interest,as a way to show her she could still attract interest.

There is only one married woman I would consider seducing and the only reason I would consider it is because she was my fiancé and she cheated on me with the man to which she is married and left me for him. But then I think I would rather sleep with a complete stranger because there is a chance that something bad wouldn't happen.

If i was being honest to myself .....i could seduce and would in the right cicumstances,a sexless marriage,where she wasnt being shown any interest,as a way to show her she could still attract interest.

How very noble of you for your self sacrifice. (That is sarcasm for the sarcastically impaired.)

I had a married friend that I would have loved to seduce but didn't try, although her girl friends told her how I felt. We remained friends. However, I may be a bit on the shy side but I like to flirt and tease and maybe girls take it the wrong way. I have had several married frineds (first names only of course and I know they don't come on this site; Bobbie, Kathy, Pam, Linda, Judy, Pat the Russia, Pat, Sherry, Katana) who are married and came on to me and tried to seduce me. I am not the type to break up a marriage, but I am a man and when a woman is willing to give herself to you it is very hard to say no especially if you have had some very naughty thoughts about her. I know, men are pigs. When I'm a 108 and look back I will kick myself for not taking each and every one I'm sure.

It's not necerssarily just about "getting their rocks off". Just like most escorts will say, it's rarely about the sex. For a spouse that isn't getting affection or respect at home, it's the closeness that he/she craves.

I can testify to that for the simple fact that i wasnt so much looking for a married woman but looking for someone to appreciate and WANT to share feelings and affections with. i cant speak for anyone else on here but the road of life can be a lonely place without someone there to share your ups and downs with and i think all most of us really just want someone to go down that road with. But thats just my two cents

I did it once and I'll never do it again. Sure, she was more than willing and her husband was not good to her, but in the end, you're just a thief taking what isn't yours. Maybe some people think it's cool or funny, but if so, they're little more than a parasite.

Well I've never seduced a married woman, but they've seduced me twice. Once was when I was younger (20) and she was older (34 but looked late twenties). That woman's husband was older, a bit of an alcoholic and ignored her. She was hot and needed attention, sex and comforting. It was wonderful for both of us as I recall. The second time I was older and I had hired a young lady (Joyce) who was engaged to an older accountant/finance executive who traveled a lot. There was some sort of unspoken attraction between us from the very beginning. I tried to ignore it, but Joyce didn't. She flirted shamelessly with me and I could not resist her. The sex was amazing and she made me smile and laugh a lot. However I was pining for another woman at the time (who I could not have) and eventually she married her fiancé, frustrated by my unwillingness to go beyond the sex. Joyce continued to seduce me after the marriage for a while, but then they moved to London. I hope she is happy now. There is even more to the story, but that is best left to an actual Lush story.

I've done it many times. I didn't feel any shame at the time. I have noticed however, that as I have aged that type of thrill isn't what I seek. I've pretty much sworn it off. There are plenty of fun loving singles out there that are more than willing to play not play around. I guess what I see now days it the fact that the person being cheated on signed up for a committed relationship. A cheater isn't considering the other person. The one doing the seducing could care less. Why would they? It's not their spouse who if found out would be crushed. Don't they deserve someone who will honor their vows?

Yes and works like a charm :-) much easier than single women any time of the day“When one door of happiness closes, another opens; but often we look so long at the closed door that we do not see the one which has been opened for us.” ― Helen Keller

Well I've never seduced a married woman, but they've seduced me twice. Once was when I was younger (20) and she was older (34 but looked late twenties).

if you think that YOU are the one who is seducing someone.. check again its Always the women who is incharge..and if they want to be seduced they will let you seduce them..

and married women are easier to get to that stage then singles“When one door of happiness closes, another opens; but often we look so long at the closed door that we do not see the one which has been opened for us.” ― Helen Keller

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Dementorkissed wrote:

and married women are easier to get to that stage then singles

WHAT, are you effing kidding me? So you mean to tell me that ALL married women are easier to seduce?Sounds like you have quite the ego there buddy.The night that changed my life, a four part series of a married man lusting after his co-worker

My thoughts... if you try to "seduce" a married woman, who is not clearly "on the market", you are an asshole. Sorry, got to call a spade a spade on that one.

However, I find most guys who do it and succeed THINK they really "seduced" the woman, when point of fact they did NOT. They simply made themselves available and chased the woman sending her unmistakable signals... but she either wanted it or she didn't. So the ego boost is in the head, but not real.

And anyone who thinks married women are "easier" to get in bed than single ones clearly are looking at a select group of those married women, not the whole group. Plus you have "club wives" and "club women", who are different than the general population as well. People often confuse what THEY run into all the time with how EVERYONE is. The world is a wide place and most of what we see is not an accurate reflection of the whole.

I would NEVER set out to ruin a marriage. I would NEVER set out to have sex with a married woman who was clearly NOT (as I said) "on the market". And as others have pointed out, nothing is more dangerous than a pissed off spouse, and I don't care how tough YOU think you are. Knives, guns, cars, and other things tend to be a great equalizer no matter how small the person is who is controlling them... more so when they are pissed off because you fucked their spouse. And trust me, they will NOT simply call you out to "fight", you will probably not see it coming.

People need to use their "big heads", and stop the chest puffing and ego talk.

Every one is very capable of cheating, all it takes is the right set circumstances to motivate . The Part time Receptionist i worked with that i had the hots for but never dreamed would cheat on her husband did so shortly after he came home one day and told her that he quit his job. I guess that was enough to get here to cross the line and who knows what other marital problems were goin on at the time but she was married for like 10 years with 2 or 3 children.

You may tell yourselves that you would never do such a thing but you never know what the future holds, so never say never.

yes I have had sex with many married women, my wife was married when I first started fucking her, and I liked it so well, I made her leave her husband and marry me. she had had several affairs before and she had several while we were married, by the way we are still married, and she always told me about them, as I liked her to fuck around, we had a friend who was fucking her pretty regular, and i joined in many times, sometimes he would come up early in the morning and I would let him in and he would get naked and crawl in bed with my sleeping wife and wake her up. She loved it. i still fuck married women.

Had it happen twice. First was with a woman who was miserable in a marriage that her father made her do because she got pregnant she wanted someone to pay her some attention and the second was a older woman who had a pothead for a husband. Husbands could'nt make them feel they were worthy enough which made it a shame they were and still are great women.

1. Mother fuckers have been shot over that shit. 2. If you two are caught and her hubby ends it then you have just helped destroy a family.3. Think of your wife fucking another man behind your back. Unless you are into that which many men think they might be but are not. Now an omarriagerage is a different story, but if you are not in an OM then it would be predevastatingting.

First let me say I do not believe in cheating in any form (sex with married people when the other is OK with it is not cheating to me).

But I can see LM's point. If you are in a sexless/loveless marriage and divorce is not an option for whatever reason, then maybe I can see why you would want to cheat. We all need to feel loved and wanted. But to be a single man or woman, and to knowingly have sex with married person and not care that you may be destroying a family just for a qick thrill, well that just doesnt sit right with me.

I couldn't do it, I've had a few offers over the years, I told one woman (who I thought sexually was a perfect match) that it would be so much fun, but it wasn't a good idea. If the spouses found out there would be so much pain, its not worth it.

If they're up for it, it's the woman who is doing the seducing. Getting them drunk or using blackmail is just shitty, so don't do it. By the time, she is ready to be "seduced" the wife has usually looked at all her other options and decided another lover is the only or best recourse; by then she has already emotionally "left" her husband. Learn these, practice these, and let your ethics be your guide. But danger lurks there (some people find that exciting).

Maybe some of you can't pass judgement on others who cheat I can and I will. Only animals fuck without thinking about it. We're people, and I'm not talking about religious beliefs, I'm talking about responsibility to to others. Yeah he or she is willing - so the fuck what! Fuck them and then go visit the kids who have to learn that their parents are divorcing, or one of their parents have to get psych treatment for depression, and can't work. Go to the divorce courts and hear about how so-n-so cheated on their spouse, and listen to the heartaches that both are being put through. Yeah it takes two to tango and they're both wrong. Bad relationship? there are ways out without cheating. Cheating because you're lonely is maybe the reason you are lonely - you don't know how to care for a relationship. I was a therapist and saw so many times what you so casually throw up as macho or whoring around as fun,or talking of being lonely. I think it's be fun to find a way to steal from your paycheck, so what if you can't pay your bills - HAHAHAHA, got one over on you. And those of you who do think it's fun to fuck vulnerable people, you for sure have a lot of issues - like Borderline Personality Disorders for one, you might even be a sociopath - get help.

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