Marriage is a reflection of your life in general: how you treat people how you argue how secure you are in your own thoughts. How vehemently do you argue your point of view? With what disdain do you view the other’s point of view?

My kids say if there’s any family dinner that doesn’t result in somebody crying it’s not a good dinner. They cry because it helps relieve them of a guilt or some onerous emotional burden. It’s like a family tradition.

There’s a joy and a pain about directing where the dreams you have are becoming concrete but the attention to detail the need for time is such that it’s overwhelming at times and the stream of responsibility.