I would like to add a prayer request. My oldest DD and her DH are trying to get pregnant. There have been lots of issues and now they are using fertility drugs. They went today to have artificial insemination. Please send up prayers that it works. I know that she will be devistated if it doesn't. Thanks in advance.

There is a wonderful webiste "A place for Mom". It is where I found the asssisted living facility for DLMIL. The people there are so helpful and knowledgable. They take care of YOU as you take care of the elderly parents.

Nan prayers up. Such is scary time. I could not ocncieve a child. Will we were going through fertility drugs., my DS2 and DDIL both becaome pregnant. I as rock bottom. Wanted to be a Mom but those around me found it so easy. I worte a letter to my DFil and DMIL apologizing for my inablilty to have a child. I was that broken. So, thoughts and prays. I am thinking of she and her husband. This is terrible to go through. Those who can not concieve are the only ones who can truely understand the heartache each month, month after month after month. It still gieves me to this day. We finally adopted. Though, I don't think a true bond was ever there.

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Nana, My prayers are going out to your DD and DSIL for success with procedure yesterday. And for Gods Grace to see them through this heartbreaking experience. I personally have not had this problem, however after having a stillborn baby boy, the hurt is most devastating. I know the prayers and support of my church, family, and friends I would not have handled as well as I did. The Lord carried me through that one! As He will do for your DD. Hugs to all of you! Susan

Nana I just saw your request today. I'm sending prayers your way for your DD and her DH. my sister lived through the stress and frustrations of the fertility drugs. After a tubal pregnancy that almost killed her, they were blessed when they adopted a 7days old boy. He is their pride and joy and even though his biological mom gave him permission to find her after he turned 21, he never wanted to. My DS and her hubby are his parents. I know that all adoption don't end that way as my DB and his wife adopted a 5 year old boy. As much as they love him, he cannot love. There was just too much damage and there are things that even love cannot fix. They found him a group home where he is somewhat happy. He calls when he wants something but because of his uncontrolled rages, he only comes there when my brother is home. He met his real sister and his dad a few years back. But as soon as they were gone they were out of his mind. What I find so frustrating is that you sense the intelligence that is locked behind such heavy doors and we can't find the key.

Susan, you have an angel in heaven. A close friend, from church, has a daughter who left home and moved in with her BF. Then they found out she were pregnant so they married. The baby was not viable and was lost at 5 days. My friend says she has an angel grandbaby in heaven that she will someday meet and hold in her arms. What a beautiful way to look at it.