This is a question that people rarely seem to ask but probably should. Far too many times I see couples that are either horribly matched and destined for a failed relationship, or people who are so passively and moderately interested in one another that “settling” would seem to be an upgrade. Maybe it’s my nature […]

“I’m done with online dating.” “Men suck.” “I’m just going to meet him the old fashioned way.” Within the last two weeks alone, I have heard these statements boldly declared by both men and women (mostly women). Apparently, this is the common reaction to follow a slew of bad dates, a 3-month stint of casual […]

I have swiped left hundreds of times. Sometimes it would take 4 seconds. If it was really bad, it would barely take a second. According to the Telegraph, the human attention span is shorter than a goldfish. Since smartphones have entered into our lives, humans attention span averages to 8 seconds while goldfish are believed to […]

Texts should function like conversations. Don’t send someone a giant block of text. It’s hard to read, and it ceases to be conversational. They don’t want to read your novel. My suggestion is this: think of it like Twitter. You get 140 character to make your point. You can send a maximum of three before […]

This is a tough one. There are a few examples I can think of: You have a child You’re divorced You have certain sexual preferences You’re infertile You have a chronic illness You have an STD All of these can be potential deal breakers for some people. You can either hide them and bring them out […]