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How To Better Know An Escort

Many assumptions are made about escorts, but especially the women who choose the profession. If you really get to know someone who earns their living in the world of in call or out call services, their take on most things is not what you would expect. There is a huge gap between someone who says, “I have considered escorting” versus someone who says “I am going to start working as an escort”. Mainly it is the difference between their desire to make a $100 hourly and wanting to get strangers off for a living.

If you really want to know a girl, lady or woman who is an escort, ask yourself this question. What were her reasons for becoming an escort? She may have been enticed by the allure of fast money or quick cash, but it wasn’t that which kept her working after a short time. The money isn’t everything that it might seem like, at least from the perspective of the clients and gentlemen callers. In fact, the average day is spent with lots of down time, waiting for a brief window of actual pay offs. Only some escorts actually are in their field because they enjoy the physical and intellectual challenges, or because they get to be an exhibitionist, touch people, use their dirty minded personality or simply like being a sex object. Those few that feel such things are the lucky ones.

Yes, there is the advantages that come with being in charge of yourself, some women become escorts to be their own employer or boss. It is somewhat like running a small business, but with a whole different set of perks and downfalls. Although working independently isn’t a lifestyle for everyone that tries it. Independent escorts spend most of their days screening calls, placing ads, weeding out clients, or dealing with unwanted communications. Even good clients can become possessive and ruin the working relationship, so that it turns into one more situation to deal with.

There are also the concerns and risks associated with being an escort. Such as health problems, violence, getting caught up in the party lifestyle, but mainly things like getting arrested or run-ins with the law. All escorts take these risks, but when something actually goes haywire, usually the woman gets the blaming end of the stick legally. There is very little recourse, even if the girl wasn’t engaged in anything improper, she is guilty by association. This is the biggest hypocrisy for women working as escorts.

Women who are escorts shouldn’t have to justify their lifestyle or the kind of work they do. Most are doing it for a living to make enough money to feed themselves, take care of their children, get away from their ex’s, get an education or just get away from whatever got them there in the first place. The stigmas that are always surrounding any woman who escorts for a living, those are exactly the reasons why you should treat her like a goddess, as her potential client. Check out pleasure-escorts.com for more info.