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Tuesday, February 27, 2018

Bible Reading Reflection (Deuteronomy 1): Age of Accountability

In my reading, I was reminded of a question that comes up
regularly.At what age should my son or
daughter consider being baptized?When I
was younger, I remember discussions about reaching what people called the
"age of accountability," which is a point in a person's life where
they become mature enough to be held accountable as an adult.Of course, the problem was that no one seemed
to know what that age of accountability was.Some placed it as young as 10, others placed it closer to age 16.I always felt a little uneasy about baptizing
a ten year old for the simple fact that in no other area of life would we even
dream of holding a person that young accountable as an adult.We would not support marriage at such a young
age nor would we hold someone legally accountable as an adult at that age.If being baptized is analogous to becoming
married to Christ, then it is a very adult decision.

When God redeemed Israel
from bondage in Egypt,
he led them to freedom toward a new home.However, they were rebellious and stubborn and initially refused to
enter the land, opting to elect a new leader and return to Egypt.As a result, God told them this:

“How long will this wicked community grumble
against me? I have heard the complaints of these grumbling Israelites. So tell
them, ‘As surely as I live, declares the Lord, I will do to you the very thing
I heard you say: In this wilderness your bodies will fall—every one of you
twenty years old or more who was counted in the census and who has grumbled
against me. Not one of you will enter the land I swore with uplifted hand to
make your home, except Caleb son of Jephunneh and Joshua son of Nun. As for
your children that you said would be taken as plunder, I will bring them in to
enjoy the land you have rejected. But as for you, your bodies will fall in this
wilderness. Your children will be shepherds here for forty years, suffering for
your unfaithfulness, until the last of your bodies lies in the wilderness. For
forty years—one year for each of the forty days you explored the land—you will
suffer for your sins and know what it is like to have me against you.’ I, the
Lord, have spoken, and I will surely do these things to this whole wicked
community, which has banded together against me. They will meet their end in
this wilderness; here they will die" ( Numb 14:27-35).

The children under 20 years old
would suffer for the sins of their fathers by being stuck living in the
wilderness for forty years.However, God
does not hold those under twenty years responsible in the same way he does
those who are twenty and older.Those
under twenty would enter the land after their parents had all died in the
wilderness.

In Deuteronomy, those who were
under twenty are now adults and their parents have all died in the wilderness.
Moses is preparing them to enter the land God granted to them.Moses recounted their history, and how their
parents had rebelled against God, refusing to enter the land, making plans to
return to Egypt.Then Moses reminded them of what God had
said:

"When the Lord heard what you
said, he was angry and solemnly swore: 'No one from this evil generation shall
see the good land I swore to give your ancestors, except Caleb son of
Jephunneh. He will see it, and I will give him and his descendants the land he
set his feet on, because he followed the Lord wholeheartedly.'

Because of you the Lord became
angry with me also and said, 'You shall not enter it, either. But your
assistant, Joshua son of Nun, will enter it. Encourage him, because he will
lead Israel
to inherit it. And the little ones that you said would be taken captive, your
children who do not yet know good from bad—they will enter the land. I will
give it to them and they will take possession of it" (Dt 1:34-39).

This text jumped out at me: "
And the little ones that you said would be taken captive, your children who do
not yet know good from bad—they will enter the land…"This group included everyone under twenty
years old.God did not hold those who
were under twenty responsible as an adult.

This reminds me of some of the
scientific literature I have seen on human growth and development.Apparently, the brain is the last part of the
human body to physically mature.Even
though the rest of the body looks like an adult body, the brain is still
developing until about age twenty.This
is why a seventeen or eighteen year old might respond to a situation more on
emotion and impulse rather than sound judgment.Perhaps this is why God does not hold them responsible as adults.They were not yet fully mature.

As I think about the implications
this has for the conversion of children, I wonder about the wisdom in pushing
teenagers to be baptized.If it is an
adult decision, and if it is the most important decision one will make in life
more than even marriage, then pushing a teen toward it may not be the best
course of action.Expecting a life-long
adult commitment, with adult understanding that requires an adult level of
emotional maturity may be setting a teen up for failure and discouragement, not
because he or she is not committed, but because he or she may not yet be
emotionally capable of such a decision.This
means that if a child wants to be baptized, a parent may hold them off for the
same reason they would hold them off from getting married.One would not disfellowship a child for the
same reason one would not try a juvenile in an adult court.The child is the responsibility of the parent
until he or she begins to transition into adulthood.Childhood is a time of preparation, training,
instruction, and encouragement.

As a practice, I do not discourage
children who want to make that commitment.They love God and want to please him, which pleases God.They want to follow Jesus, which I
encourage.However, it is a marriage,
and I explain it in terms of marriage.It is a very adult decision.I
have often thought about whether starting a tradition of a formal period of
betrothal up till the day of baptism would be a good thing.This would involve instruction and guided
growth in service and ministry.Something to act as a symbol of that betrothal might help to strengthen
a child's faith and commitment.This
might help with the child's desire to express his commitment to Christ even though
he or she may not be emotionally or spiritually ready for baptism.

In the end, I suppose the
encouragement for parents in this regard is to not get bent out of shape if a
child is not yet beating down the doors to the baptistery yet.The more important thing is not so much
whether they have been baptized, but whether parents are instructing them
regularly, whether parents are including them in service and ministry in the
name of Christ, and whether parents are modeling love for God and for the neighbor.I have known kids who were pushed toward
baptism by parents, but they were never really committed.Baptism is not some magic ritual that equates
to commitment.

I think of my own experience with
my own children.I included them in
ministry, service, and discussions about God, scripture, and service.I had not yet considered the age twenty
marker that God identified in the text from my reading.My younger two children were older teens when
they made the decision to be baptized.However, they had reached a level of emotional maturity that they
understood the level of commitment this would take.They were what some people called, "an
old soul."They have been involved
and committed and are still faithful Christians today.

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Proverbs 9:1-5

Wisdom has built her house, she has hewn out her seven pillars, she has prepared her food, she has mixed her wine, she has also set her table, she has sent out her maidens, she calls from the tops of the heights of the city: "Whoever is naive, let him turn in here!" To him who lacks understanding she says, "Come, eat of my food and drink of the wine I have mixed. Forsake folly and live, And proceed in the way of understanding."

About Me

I have been a minister since 1996 and have ministered in Vermont, Texas, Kansas, and now in Nebraska. I am married with three sons, a daughter-in-law, and three grandchildren. I believe that every Christian is a minister and that spiritual growth is tied to scripture, meditation, prayer, and service alongside other Christians. Please feel free to read and respond to any of the posts on these blogs.