Life was designed to be lived in community.

Intro: Have you ever had someone look at you and say: “What happened
to you?” For a lot of us here today we have been guilty at one time or another of
wearing sadness all over our face. We have just been given some bad news or
something happen. Our world has been turned upside down, we are 30,000 feet in
the air and our life has been put in a holding pattern. We can’t land because
we haven’t been given permission. Something turbulent has happened and we are
holding. A large remote has pressed the pause button of our life and we can’t
move. Have you ever felt like that has happened to you? I don’t know how to
eloquently put what I am about to say other than just say it! “THINGS HAPPEN!”

“Beloved,
do not think it strange concerning the fiery trial which is to try you, as
though some strange thing happened to you; 13 but rejoice to the extent that
you partake of Christ's sufferings, that when His glory is revealed, you may
also be glad with exceeding joy.” 1 Peter 4:12-13

Text: 2 Corinthians 6:1-10
(NKJV)

“We then, as workers together with Him also plead with you not to
receive the grace of God in vain. 2 For He says: "In an acceptable time I
have heard you, And in the day of salvation I have helped you." Behold,
now is the accepted time; behold, now is the day of salvation. 3 We give no
offense in anything, that our ministry may not be blamed. 4 But in all things
we commend ourselves as ministers of God: in much patience, in tribulations, in
needs, in distresses, 5 in stripes, in imprisonments, in tumults, in labors, in
sleeplessness, in fastings; 6 by purity, by knowledge, by longsuffering, by
kindness, by the Holy Spirit, by sincere love, 7 by the word of truth, by the
power of God, by the armor of righteousness on the right hand and on the left, 8
by honor and dishonor, by evil report and good report; as deceivers, and yet
true; 9 as unknown, and yet well known; as dying, and behold we live; as
chastened, and yet not killed; 10 as sorrowful, yet always rejoicing; as poor,
yet making many rich; as having nothing, and yet possessing all things.”

Application:
God is in control!

1. Things Happen for our Benefit! Vs 1-2

“Don’t receive
God’s grace in vain.” Is salvation real in your life? Have you lost anything
and has Christ gain?

“Then Jesus said to His disciples, "If anyone
desires to come after Me, let him deny himself, and take up his cross, and
follow Me. 25 For whoever desires to save his life will lose it, but whoever
loses his life for My sake will find it.” Matthew 16:24-25

Things do happen,
but in reality we do not want to hear that. We don’t want to have someone tell
us these things happen. We don’t want bad things to happen, why me I want my
life to be perfect! Please don’t make me change.

2. Things Happen for our Discipline!
Vs 4

“But if you are without chastening, of which all have become partakers,
then you are illegitimate and not sons. 9 Furthermore, we have had human
fathers who corrected us, and we paid them respect. Shall we not much more
readily be in subjection to the Father of spirits and live? 10 For they indeed
for a few days chastened us as seemed best to them, but He for our profit, that
we may be partakers of His holiness. 11 Now no chastening seems to be joyful
for the present, but painful; nevertheless, afterward it yields the peaceable
fruit of righteousness to those who have been trained by it.” Hebrews 12:8-11

The
writer to the Hebrews encouraged us that our troubles are often a sign that we
are legitimate children of God, and He lovingly disciplines us to train us in righteousness.

These things that happen! Happen to give us the honor to strive towards
perfection to be Holy! “That we may be partakers of His holiness”

3. Things
Happen for our Maturity! Vs. 6

James encouraged us to rejoice in our various
trials, because as they test our faith, they produce patience, which ultimately
makes us mature in Christ.

“My brethren, count it all joy when you fall into
various trials, 3 knowing that the testing of your faith produces patience. 4 But
let patience have its perfect work, that you may be perfect and complete,
lacking nothing.” James 1:2-4

“By sincere love” Simple fact, growing up isn’t
easy and everyone must whether we like it or not! Things happen!

4. Things
Happen for His Glory! Vs. 10

“Beloved, do not think it strange concerning the
fiery trial which is to try you, as though some strange thing happened to you; 13
but rejoice to the extent that you partake of Christ's sufferings, that when
His glory is revealed, you may also be glad with exceeding joy.” 1 Peter
4:12-13

Peter knew by personal experience the kind of pressure that can cause
one’s allegiance to Christ to waiver. He warned us that “fiery trials” are
nothing strange, but that they actually allow us to experience something of
Christ’s suffering so that we can ultimately experience something of His glory,
too.

Conclusion: Things happen for our benefit, for our discipline, for our
maturity and yes even for his glory! God is in control.