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Ok seriously, I think the answers are going to be biased towards BM but here goes anyway.

1. DH just had a MANDATORY TRAINING trip for his JOB that he was not in charge of scheduling that fell on his weekend with SS.

2. When he asked BM to let him see SS the weekend right before or the weekend right after BM said no and when presented on here everyone said it was DH's own fault he was missing the visit and why should BM say yes to the weekends before or after just to accomodate DH.

OK! Well now BM is getting married on DH's weekend to have SS!!!

SHOULD Dad say too bad, you should have scheduled it for a weekend you had him Mom?

Mandatory job training = too bad Dad, should have told boss no or picked a different job.

WHAT IF it were DH getting married on BMs weekend? Too bad Dad, should have scheduled it for a weekend you had SS?

**ETA...DH is NOT going to keep SS from BM's wedding. And for the rest of you DIMWITS I THE SM don't care WHAT DH decides, yes or no. NOT MY KID, NOT MY PROBLEM.

I think when people act like assholes in situations like this, it's only the child who gets harmed. Honestly, I think BM should have accomidated the father in the previous situation and he should accomidate her now.

I think when people act like assholes in situations like this, it's only the child who gets harmed. Honestly, I think BM should have accomidated the father in the previous situation and he should accomidate her now.

Childish bullshit on both parts, being spiteful will get you nowhere but to a point where the child hates both as soon as he's old enough to realize whats going on. Be an adult, suck it up and deal with it.

Husband should be the bigger person in my opinion. Let the child go to his mothers wedding.

My ex husband is getting married this year. It so happens to fall on the weekend after his summer visitation. I could be a bitch and not let the kids go because it is "my time". Or be the bigger person and let the kids go see their father get married.

I chose the latter, because you can catch more flies with honey, then with vinager.

Does he still have this training to go to? See if she is willing to make a deal now. She should have planned around it or at the least talked to the bd first. Y'all should still let he go though, its not a random everyday type of thing but tell him to be sure to remind her that she owes him one. Make sure his favor that she didn't want to do gets brought up.

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