Random musings #!

When people have problems (women having *man problems* or men having *woman problems*) they always seem to talk to me about them. Not sure why, but I'm a good listener and I don't judge. Based on what they all tell me, I know a lot about what DOESN'T work in a relationship...but what WORKS in a relationship? No idea...maybe that's why I don't have a girlfriend. I know what doesn't work - I have yet to find a woman that likes a pick-up line, and they all seem really cheezy to me anyways. Yet when I notice a woman that I like and want to talk to her...I get all tongue-tied and geberally sound like a goofball. It's weird...I have no problems talking to a woman if it's small talk but if I want to take the same woman out on a date - even if it's just for coffee - I get INCREDIBLY nervous. Am I afraid of rejection? Maybe that's a part of it...I don't take rejection well - which makes my job search interesting. Yet bit by bit I'm getting more confident, so hopefully before TOO long I'll find someone...hoping so!

Join the club. I am exactly the same. I hang out with married women and we have a great time because I can be myself, since there is no possibility of a relationship or hooking up. Same thing at work. I was just talking to my boss about this yesterday. How that I am so shy around women who I consider prospects, yet I can be so relaxed around other women. She told me that she felt that if I was to ac the same at the bars as I do at work that I would be getting laid every night. Unfortunately I just can't be the same.

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