Lights on or lights off? Top or bottom? From behind or traditional missionary? Tethered or slithering hands? There are interminable erotic reverie both men and women crave. Yes, including women. It’s a common fallacy that women barely think about sex than men, let alone fantasize about it. By default, men look at women and react sexually to them, but we may be missing the fact that women look at men and can respond sexually too. Men’s magazines are packed with inviting photos marketed for men, yet how many exist for women? It is well established that men have wayward and quirky sexual ideas but women do not because they are maternal, not sexual – Wrong! Women may get aroused and stimulated by porn videos. It’s not a negative press to get dirty and inject some excitement into your lewdness by acting out your sexual mirage. Whether they are rooted on past events or ultimately imaginary, sexual desires are rampant among all, no matter how women feel about them. If you want to fulfill those deep-rooted intimate desires, here are three ways you can become the man of her dreams for one night (and every other night or given any opportunity).

Flavor of the night

“Whose your Bride looking at?”

Women who ache for straying away from bedroom tedium can be gratified by a rousing catalyst readily available in your refrigerator: Ice cream, chocolate, champagne, and ice. Ignite your steamy night by blindfolding your lady love and keeping her immobilized (because this could elicit extensive amount of sensation). Enter your room of pleasure together with your pick. Let’s say you chose strawberry ice cream, get your woman naked and start spreading the arousal: Behind her neck, shoulders, breast, abdomen, navel, her toes, and the ultimate powerhouse of sexual fantasy – the area between her thighs. Then start licking the ice cream either cephalad to caudad direction or vice versa but remember to leave the area between her thighs always the last to be licked. Notice her halted and staggered breathing, the involuntary uneasiness, and lewd screams brought by her extreme arousal and deep anticipation of penetration. This method is more of like delaying gratification wherein your partner builds her desire coupled with wanting for more, resulting in a splendid climactic explosion. Your sex kitten will surely add this to one of her best-loved salacious acts and will purr for some more. Start stuffing your fridge with your most coveted flavors!

Not-so-public affair

“Keeping it a secret”

Did you know that women have this vile obsession of doing it in public? Let her experience the sudden drive of making out in a public place and allow her to peak like she has been to heaven for the first time. You may want to tease your woman on the way home in the car or ramp up her desire in a car or in a public transportation. Bring her to the public – for example, the park or the fire exit of your apartment and start your secret sex soiree. This act is also known as the “quickie” which greatly pumps up your partner’s sexual yearning. The dread of getting caught at a prohibited location is what restricts some couples relish sex than the usual thing they do behind closed doors.

The lion sleeps tonight

Tonight, you are the outrageous lion that needs proper taming. Roar! Roleplaying is a staggeringly thrilling act for women. Internalize the whole day the role you want to play for tonight. Say, you want to be a lion, enter your room creeping like a four-legged salivating beast seemingly ready to attack anyone he sees. Your woman then lashes a flogger (could be a whip, belt, or crane… ouch) then act according to the spur of the moment until you are sore and purring to submission. Roleplaying is fun and exciting, elicits creativity and even humor between you and your partner. Don’t forget to ask your woman for any suggestions. She could have some other sexual fantasies waiting to be unleashed.

Who says men are the only creatures with wild carnal desires? Women crave for some fierce sexual acts too. Women are born naughty kittens but only concealed due to social influences or tradition, and only men can help them live their sexual reveries. Since women tend to hold back on revealing their carnal delusions, it will be best to initiate the move. Build your own sexual paradise to keep your relationship burning with desire for each other – exercise the much-coveted things that will surely keep the both of you faithful, and to live each fantasy day as if curiosity will never kill the cat.