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Topic: HIV Outing Of A Gay Porn Star (Read 20543 times)

Some of you may have already read this on poz.com. I've seen this guy in movies and it is unfortunate that he now joins our ranks. The article suggests he disclosed only after others outed his status. The part I find so ridiculous is that they accused him of having unprotected sex due to the fact that he didn't change his HIV status to positive on his Adam4Adam page. He may have just not had the chance to change the status. Or, he wants to wait to get to know people first before disclosing. I don't think you can blame someone for not changing their status. He claims he has only had sex with others who are poz and has not been having sex with people who are negative. The article mentions a friend who outed him as well and others being suspicious after he began to only do masturbation scenes.

Experience has taught me that "versatile" on MH and/or a4a actually equals bottom. Thereby he is not really lying.

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"I have tried hard--but life is difficult, and I am a very useless person. I can hardly be said to have an independent existence. I was just a screw or a cog in the great machine I called life, and when I dropped out of it I found I was of no use anywhere else."

Experience has taught me that "versatile" on MH and/or a4a actually equals bottom. Thereby he is not really lying.

To be exact, it really means that they can take it on their back OR stomach. So there's that.

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"Many people, especially in the gay community, turn to oral sex as a safer alternative in the age of AIDS. And with HIV rates rising, people need to remember that oral sex is safer sex. It's a reasonable alternative."

There are. I know of at least a few, from my own small subset of friends/former partners.

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"Many people, especially in the gay community, turn to oral sex as a safer alternative in the age of AIDS. And with HIV rates rising, people need to remember that oral sex is safer sex. It's a reasonable alternative."

That was the first. Followed by several. And now his elegant, brief announcement about HIV. Why would anyone who doesn't know him have an interest in saying he is "all bottom". We only know his media productions, and I saw him do a very convincing top. So bug off!

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ďFrom each, according to his ability; to each, according to his needĒ 1875 K Marx

It's a little known fact that Miss P got gonorrhea from this very prolific porn star in the late 90's. Now that was an interesting date -- we even had steak au poivre and an evening of drunken dancing at The Monster before doing the deed. He's a top in most all of his videos, but when we got back to my place he was the most voracious bottom I've ever seen, and the sex went on for hours offering proof that Miss P can be quite the Expert Pig Top when duty demands. And to top it off this was 1999 and he'd just won a Grabby for Best Ethnic Performer. I met him while he was stripping at Escuelita, and during one of his breaks he came over and asked for my phone number and told me I looked like Brad Pitt -- as if!

I also bagged this one in 1996, twice even -- actually quite a good top. He tied me up to a head board in a hotel in San Juan and I pulled it out of the wall. He's a bit of a lush though, but he did buy me dinner on our second date so I guess he liked my ass.

Oh, and then my anal warts came from another porn star, but he only made a couple of videos and I think he made them the year after I scored him. His name was Carlos and he banged me royally in a video booth.

Moral of the story -- don't sleep with porn stars because they will fuck you up!

I just read a story regarding him yesterday. http://www.advocate.com/News/News_Features/Mason_Wyler_Comes_Clean/

I have watched a couple of scenes with him, where he was a top and also seen a couple with him being a bottom. i like his style for the most part, he is cute and likes it rough. He was outed by a supposed friend who is trying to make a name for themself in the porn industry. He is intelligent and I am sure that he will be fine. Hopefully, he will use his celebrity to promote safer sex practices. D

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Nothing in the world can take the place of Persistence. Talent will not; nothing is more common than unsuccessful men with talent. Genius will not; unrewarded genius is almost a proverb. Education will not; the world is full of educated derelicts. Persistence and determination alone are omnipotent. The slogan 'Press On' has solved and always will solve the problems of the human race. Calvin Coolidge

I try not to comment on twenty-something guys (as to their "hotness" or lack thereof) for fear of being called a "dirty old man". I am so "out of the loop" on 'mainstream' gay porn, because all I see is Hot Desert Knights / Treasure Island Media, etc, that is all b/b and you assume EVERYONE is HIV+.

Great judge of character ! Some conclusion you draw, after downloading "by chance" just one of his pornos.

On second thought....

Since I noticed him in the clip, and I don't even like twink porn.

And since I paid attention to this thread in AIDSMEDS.

I just had a peruse of his blog. One drama after another. He gets props for wearing his heart on his sleeve, and relentless honesty about his life. But I guess he better toughen up a little now and "get real" given his age and porn prospects. There is no other means of support mentioned in the blog. Though he says he used to dream of teaching history....

As for the HIV conversion, he's been writing for years about his need for cum, "seeding" and "breeding", dick and sex, and his sex addiction, so I guess this is the usual progression. I hope he gets his mojo back, fucks again and makes some money in bareback porn, but I also hope he plans another future for himself.

OK I agree with the Howdy Doody esque face, by the way. Still I think he sexy (in an Edward Norton kind of way) and its hot to watch him fucking. Though I normally don't like twinks or blonds in porn.

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ďFrom each, according to his ability; to each, according to his needĒ 1875 K Marx

While you guys are discussing positions, I have a question. Pls don't laugh - i'm serious and clearly don't know about this. A friend of mine has asked me this and I didn't know the answer - feel like this is the place I may get an explanation.

How does the "bottom" guy come? Does he find the rectal stimulation enough to ejaculate or the "top" manually stimulates him?

While you guys are discussing positions, I have a question. Pls don't laugh - i'm serious and clearly don't know about this. A friend of mine has asked me this and I didn't know the answer - feel like this is the place I may get an explanation.

How does the "bottom" guy come? Does he find the rectal stimulation enough to ejaculate or the "top" manually stimulates him?

Tk u

A gay bottom can sometimes be stimulated to orgasm without any penile stimulation whatsoever. I can't speak for everyone but for me this is incredibly rare. I find it's more mental than physical though, if I'm more turned on I can cum without touching my dick. If I'm not well it might take a while and I'll have a death grip on it.

You know even as a straight man you can enjoy some prostate stimulation. Ann, take it away!

How does the "bottom" guy come? Does he find the rectal stimulation enough to ejaculate or the "top" manually stimulates him?

Um, why this question in this thread?

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Next time you play with yourself or the ladies, think about all the possible places that could be stimulated besides your head or shaft. Haven't you noticed you can have orgasms that seem to principally come from other places, even if your dick is being stimulated?

I saw you guys were discussing tops/bottoms, so I figured i'd pipe up. I was uncomfortable starting a new thread

So the answers seem to indicate that 'no shaft orgasm' happens sometimes - but what happens 'the rest of the time'? Does the top manually stimulate the bottom or the bottom just doesn't come? I'm just trying to understand the dynamics of it. Clearly we know how the top reaches an orgasm - but what about the bottom?

Myself - I need total stimulation of the dickhead to orgasm - 100%. I can find other caressing pleasurable but it won't produce an orgasm. Hence my puzzlement.

Texas/Dachshund - i don't get your animosity. I simply asked how people reach an orgasm and you get all aggressive. Just to be clear - I have no agenda, nothing written between the lines - simply curious.

I saw you guys were discussing tops/bottoms, so I figured i'd pipe up. I was uncomfortable starting a new thread

So the answers seem to indicate that 'no shaft orgasm' happens sometimes - but what happens 'the rest of the time'? Does the top manually stimulate the bottom or the bottom just doesn't come? I'm just trying to understand the dynamics of it. Clearly we know how the top reaches an orgasm - but what about the bottom?

Myself - I need total stimulation of the dickhead to orgasm - 100%. I can find other caressing pleasurable but it won't produce an orgasm. Hence my puzzlement.

Texas/Dachshund - i don't get your animosity. I simply asked how people reach an orgasm and you get all aggressive. Just to be clear - I have no agenda, nothing written between the lines - simply curious.

I'll play your silly little game. They come the same way a "straight" man comes when the woman massages his prostate, but you already knew that. If you're that bicurious go fuck yourself with a dildo and find out. It will all become crystal clear darling.

I'm really unsure why Boze is being met with such animosity. I know a ton of straight men who have no concept of putting anything into their ass. All he asked was a question and he asked it in very PC terms. What gives with all the put-on offense?

1 told me 'fuck you'. This was his post #5 on the forum , btw, post #4 said 'there are so many mean ppl here, i may not stay long'1 said something I couldn't even decipher3 told me to try anal sex 2 gave real, honest answers

Is this some sort of a secret? Clearly most ppl here know the answer, why not just explain it?

Some straight fellas (which you are) enjoy being rimmed by their female partners. Why don't you try that and provide a full report to this supposed friend of yours.

By the way, I don't think that Auntie D.'s comment was offensive. It was just a suggestion.

Have fun while exploring the wild side.

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"I have tried hard--but life is difficult, and I am a very useless person. I can hardly be said to have an independent existence. I was just a screw or a cog in the great machine I called life, and when I dropped out of it I found I was of no use anywhere else."

I'm really unsure why Boze is being met with such animosity. I know a ton of straight men who have no concept of putting anything into their ass. All he asked was a question and he asked it in very PC terms. What gives with all the put-on offense?

Probably because in the past he made a post about anal sex being "unnatural" which earned him an admonishment from the powers that be. Context here is important.

1 told me 'fuck you'. This was his post #5 on the forum , btw, post #4 said 'there are so many mean ppl here, i may not stay long'1 said something I couldn't even decipher3 told me to try anal sex 2 gave real, honest answers

Is this some sort of a secret? Clearly most ppl here know the answer, why not just explain it?

Honey I'm serious. Take anything that will fit (not your head) and stick it up your ass

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"I have tried hard--but life is difficult, and I am a very useless person. I can hardly be said to have an independent existence. I was just a screw or a cog in the great machine I called life, and when I dropped out of it I found I was of no use anywhere else."

Years ago a straight woman friend asked me the same exact question Boze asks here, but when I started to answer she started squirming uncomfortably and shoulting "TMI! TMI!", which, come to think of it, is what she generally did whenver anything gay-related came up.

Boze, there are really only two answers. Either manual stimulation is necessary (and I suspect it is most of the time) or the stimulation of the prostate is sufficient (which apparently is common for some and rare for others.)

Of course there's no law against the top giving the bottom a blow job after he's through himself, either.

It is not uncommon for straight men to get anally stimulated. A female friend of mine said that sticking her finger up her boyfriend's ass and massaging his prostate while giving a blow job is one of her favorite tricks: "It is great because it makes him shoot right away and I don't want to be down there all night."

No, I'm the same way -- and so are 98% of the guys in porn videos. I think the queens here just don't know what they're going on about.

It's an act. They probably think that they're going to lose their power bottom crown. I've yet to meet the first queen who doesn't play with their Twinkie while getting dicked.

I touch myself.

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