everyone says they could have dated Obama...yeah right. when did black women start liking nice things?

u nearly made me choke on my gum.

yeah alot of females say that now because he's the president. would these same females have tried to holla if he were now who he was 30-40 years ago? *shrugs* i'd say most would not.

I absolutely would have, but Obama wouldn't have been checking for me. In his book he suggests that he experimented a lot in college, dating-wise. He didn't even really look for a mate in law school. I'm sure as the first Black chief editor of the Harvard Law Review, he was highly sought after on campus. I can tell you at my law school, the Black men are "hot commodities." But Obama was looking for a certain woman at a certain time. I don't know why people ask if we would have checked for Obama. The question is would he have checked for you?

you would think that this type of thinking wouldn't have trickled down to the teenage generation but it has. teenage black boys say things like black girls are dirty and nasty. they claim a preference for the latinas and asian chicks. it's like they're starting earlier now.

do we blame the media?

Yes. I definitely think the media has about 70% to do with this
type of mentality that some black men/boys have…. For instance, majority of the
mainstream Rap songs glorify women of other races or light skin. (Latino,
Asian, White, Mixed…redbone this….yellow bone that etc…)

There are also a lot of these same subliminal messages in Rap/
R& B music videos. Unfortunately, these factors influence the public’s way of thinking, and
overall lifestyle. (Both positively and negatively) In my opinion, you can find
beautiful and sophisticated women in ALL races, nationalities, and colors. So I’m
really not worried. There’s still a lot of black men out there that love their
black women both young generation and old. I’ve dated a several attractive,
college educated black men that love black women. And will only date/marry
black women.....Tis all

I have never, or will ever be jealous of any female let alone a white woman. Lol. From my personal experience their one’s jealous of us. I’ve been on several corporate jobs and a lot of them have put me through hell for no valid reason. I really think it’s because I’m very attractive, well dressed, well -spoken and intelligent….and I’m black woman. It kills them to see a black woman that looks better than them, and carries herself better etc… And to make matters worse a lot of my white male co-workers constantly compliment me, and flirt with me in front of these white women. I really think white women are some of the most insecure creatures. All my white female coworkers are always complaining about how fat they are (even if their a size 2) or how horrible they feel about themselves etc…. I just sit there and smh... then ……

, i saw a girl post a tweet just the other day saying guys who have a masters degree and above are terrible in bed. i so want to make a thread and survey u ladies.

there is a study that says women with advanced degrees have lower sex drives

I read the opposite. It's been about 2 yrs, but I read that women w/ advanced degrees and advanced careers have more sex, better sex, more freaky sex, and more sexual partners than women who are less educated and make less money.

My 16 yr old daughter has a crush on President Obama. It developed after she saw an interview of him and Michelle and he did this biting his bottom lip thing for a split second. She recorded the interview and plays that part repeatedly. I got home from work and she met me at the door to inform me of her new crush and said "you gotta see this".

For the sake of discussion, what kind of Black women do you see dating White men.

From my observation:

Usually darker skin tones

natural

slim

never curvy or "thick"

glasses

military or IT careers

sweaters, khaki pants and clogs

Women that look like a combination of Whoopi Goldberg & Tracy Chapman

I rarely, if ever , see a LS BW w/ a WM.

hehehe this describes one of my friends...hmm and another college friend

my friend was a long haired thick light skinned woman and claimed that white men only liked very black looking women--like extra black. well we told her black men would date her in a MINUTE but she was the one who saw her daddy's peepee and it took her decades to get over it.

everyone says they could have dated Obama...yeah right. when did black women start liking nice things?

u nearly made me choke on my gum.

yeah alot of females say that now because he's the president. would these same females have tried to holla if he were now who he was 30-40 years ago? *shrugs* i'd say most would not.

I absolutely would have, but Obama wouldn't have been checking for me. In his book he suggests that he experimented a lot in college, dating-wise. He didn't even really look for a mate in law school. I'm sure as the first Black chief editor of the Harvard Law Review, he was highly sought after on campus. I can tell you at my law school, the Black men are "hot commodities." But Obama was looking for a certain woman at a certain time. I don't know why people ask if we would have checked for Obama. The question is would he have checked for you?

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