About him

I'm over sensitive and wear my heart on my sleeve; I try to avoid doing this, but seem incapable of doing so - forewarned is forearmed! I'm sarcastic for a pass-time and tend to use humour in uncomfortable situations; again forewarned is forearmed! I think I am a kind hearted person and this is a good and bad thing; it seems to backfire on me more than it works in my favour.

I find the simple things in life are the way forward for me; complications and drama tend to rub me up the wrong way, so if you like to flail your hands in the air a lot and talk in a whiny high pitched girls voice, we really probably will not get on. I work long hours and take my job very seriously; accept that and we are on the right foundations for a good start.

I am a nerd, a geek, a sci-fi fanatic and yes I own three light sabers.... if this makes you groan, move on, we're not compatible. I enjoy time with my family and have very few friends; this may make me sound like a recluse; I'm not, I can be extrovert with the best of them, but historic experience of friends has left a bad taste in my mouth (not in a good way either). So I choose carefully and tend to be quite guarded with new acquaintances.

I'm looking for a guy who sees more to life than being 'gay', I'm tired of it being an issue before someone even gets off the starting blocks; your gay get over it and don't use it as an excuse to destroy a relationship before its begun. I look for monogamy, stop laughing, there are surely 'some' gay men who don't want to share with others, if not, the priesthood it is!

I tend to go for guys my own age or younger and yes that is the way it is; can't help who you are attracted to so if you are older than me, chances are that unless you are Jason Statham I'm not going to be interested (shallow yes, honest yes, you'll cope)