Rihanna's lost any sympathy she had with me. If you return to your abuser (especially in her case – no children involved, she is massively financially independent), you cease to be the victim and become an accomplice.

ChasingHeaven, I totally agree with you. However, if they did have children together I would at least understand why she would ever have to have any contact at all with him. Plus, sadly I know some women who seem to think their kids "need a momma and a daddy" when daddy is a grade-A psychopath! I don't understand it, but I have seen it.

Genuinely sorry, Enty. Drudge has done the same thing to the entire national press corps, taking their headlines and running them in real time to compete against the people who actually get the content and break the news. Has made the entire public think information just magically appears with no effort online and takes no work and will that this will always be the case.

@ Ms Snarky: I get the impression that Jay-Z may be close to washing his hands of Rihanna. Just a hunch, but I can't remember I've seen him attend one of her concerts or her attending one of his parties.

If Jay walks away from her, Rihanna's career will be over in two years, tops.

Interesting theory, Layna. Rihanna sure does make some stupid personal decisions, but in my opinion she is huge right now, and that means dolla signs for Jay Z. He seems to really just be all about the mighty dollar, so as long as Rihanna's bringing him bank, I think he'll be loyal to her.

Yes, her actions scream stupidity. But she's young. She probably thinks this loser is her one and only.

I think Eminem really did capture the nature of these situations in the song he wrote about it with Rihanna singing. It's sad, but what are you going to do? So many women do not know what it's like to have a good man. Sad.

The young are so stupid when it comes to relationships! Rhianna is probably being histrionic about the whole thing and romanticizing their relationship as some sort of forbidden love "No one understands"! Hopefully she comes to her senses before he beats the hell out of her again. He's not even cute and seems dumb as a rock!

come on. As if no one here ever had a fist fight with their teenage years boytoy. Sh*t gets real heavy during those years. You still believe in "forever," etc.

I'm not saying I condone, just that I understand.

(and this is why I tell my kids, you guys can f*ck, but remember, there are far worse things than STD's you've got to worry about, like killing yourself when the relationship ends, getting pregnant-dealing with having an abortion, and all that jazz, cheating partners-and killing yourself over that…suffice to say, I've got the only "chaste freaks" in the 'hood. They say I've shared too much of my "story" and have repulsed them for good.) -but believe me, they're no angels. Just not sexually active. And I've said, truthfully, 16yrs and above is when sex, if you must, should begin. Anything before that is just not right.

I co-sign everything Susan said. If this is true, she will look back at this time in her life when she is in her 30s and feel sick. I know I do, and I did exactly what she's doing right now – went back with a guy who smacked me around. I was in my early 20s and so, SO dumb.

I have never hit or been hit. My daughter called me once while her SO was throwing her into a wall. She clocked him with the phone. When I got there he was long gone and she never saw him again.It had been a "love match" up till then. She was smart enough to know that once is enough.

"come on. As if no one here ever had a fist fight with their teenage years boytoy. Sh*t gets real heavy during those years. You still believe in "forever," etc"

Sorry Omama, never got into a fist fight with a boyfriend or anyone else for that matter… I did however punch a mirror when I was 16 when I found out that my (older) boyfriend was sleeping with someone else cos I wouldn't. So I do agree with your second sentence

I think the people condemning her are disgusting as if anyone here is exempt from making bad decisions. I remember reading once that Rihanna has the hallmarks of someone suffering from trauma caused by abuse. I mean the signs are there- A drug addicted violent and emotionally abusive dad, one of her first BF's in the industry (a dancer) allegedly treated her like dirt and of course her attraction and relationship with the psychotic Chris Brown. All anyone should really hope for is if this new info is true, that she has the strength to finally see sense and walk away.

beginning to ponder if the guy who chewed her head off was also a publicity stunt? you know makeup artist? this could all be to create a bad boy image for chris brown? while in the meantime this is a way for riri to get some acting chops as she is entering the feature film world after the wheels fall off in the music business? i dunno just a thought?

"As if no one here ever had a fist fight with their teenage years boytoy."

Are you kidding? This is not normal human behavior. If this happens something is bad wrong. No I have never hit ANYone. It's just wrong. The people who DO hit have a severe problem. These people are the gutter trash, like Chris Brown and Amber Portwood. They need to be kept away from all of us.

well my teenage years boyfriend and I had many a fist fight. We also did a lot of cocaine together, and LSD…which I'm sure added to the fights, as well as had two abortions (w/one pregnancy being created from a "rape," I said no…we didn't have protection).

But yes, it happened. No I'm not proud of it, but hey, I've learned a lot from all my stupid behavior and bad mistakes and I'm not afraid to share the lessons learned.

If you're wondering the ages, 16-18. (and we were the "rich" kids. he even lived across from Dottie Bush, Bush II sister) So don't think it's only the "poor" uneducated kids doing these sort of things. Just sayin'

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