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PlayStation Store Pre-Orders

When will I get my pre-order?

Your pre-ordered content will usually be available for download 2 days before release. This is called pre-load. Note: pre-load content is locked, so you can’t play it early!

You can configure your console to pre-load your pre-orders automatically as soon as they are available.

If you prefer not to do that, your pre-order purchases will usually appear in your Library/Download List up to two days before release, so you can download it ahead of time and get playing straight away on the release date. If your content was not available to download ahead of release check your Library/Download List on the day of release to start downloading it.

Go to your Download List/Library to download your new content or set up automatic download on your PS4 or PS3 system.