You will lose that feeling, trust me. When you're 19 you can't help but feeling totally in love with every guy. He sounds like a surefire way to be unhappy in every way, he drinks/does drugs, has no job, cheats on you... Think about it. You are going to be a million more times in love with your baby. Just take a break from guys, be a mom and work on making your life stable and happy for you and baby. One day you will meet someone responsible and respectful that will make you happy.

You will lose that feeling, trust me. When you're 19 you can't help but feeling totally in love with every guy. He sounds like a surefire way to be unhappy in every way, he drinks/does drugs, has no job, cheats on you... Think about it. You are going to be a million more times in love with your baby. Just take a break from guys, be a mom and work on making your life stable and happy for you and baby. One day you will meet someone responsible and respectful that will make you happy.

Ive had my share of relationships and being "in love" and honestly it never took me long to get over any guy... i keep thinking its different with him. i know that the type of person he is right now is not the kind of person i want to be with though. thank you very much :) i am really excited to have my baby (july 7th) and that ill love it more than anything!

Ive had my share of relationships and being "in love" and honestly it never took me long to get over any guy... i keep thinking its different with him. i know that the type of person he is right now is not the kind of person i want to be with though. thank you very much :) i am really excited to have my baby (july 7th) and that ill love it more than anything!

It is not wise to try and change someone or wait for someone to change.
Picture your ideal mate. This guy had some of the good qualities but MAJOR flaws. He does not seem interested in committing.
Focus on LO who will consume your time.

It is not wise to try and change someone or wait for someone to change.
Picture your ideal mate. This guy had some of the good qualities but MAJOR flaws. He does not seem interested in committing.
Focus on LO who will consume your time.

Same situation I was in at 18. Thr hurt took a long time to get over(a couple of years). I was in love. But it was not meant to be. It will be hard bc he'll always be apart of your life if he's apart of baby's life. I am now 27, married 3 yrs, #3 (#2 for hub) on the way and couldnt be happier with an awesome guy. (who loves me and treats me like a queen) give it time, for time heals all.

Same situation I was in at 18. Thr hurt took a long time to get over(a couple of years). I was in love. But it was not meant to be. It will be hard bc he'll always be apart of your life if he's apart of baby's life. I am now 27, married 3 yrs, #3 (#2 for hub) on the way and couldnt be happier with an awesome guy. (who loves me and treats me like a queen) give it time, for time heals all.

He will not change soon. At least not as soon as you expect him to. So better to set your expectations now itself in order to avoid feeling hurt later. You are only 19. You will find someone who is a lot more loving and caring and who will not cheat on you (that too with your best friend .. What guts) .Sorry for being blunt but the sooner you realize this, the easier it will be for you to move on. Meanwhile, focus on your studies and get a good job. You will need all the money once baby comes. Good luck

He will not change soon. At least not as soon as you expect him to. So better to set your expectations now itself in order to avoid feeling hurt later. You are only 19. You will find someone who is a lot more loving and caring and who will not cheat on you (that too with your best friend .. What guts) .Sorry for being blunt but the sooner you realize this, the easier it will be for you to move on. Meanwhile, focus on your studies and get a good job. You will need all the money once baby comes. Good luck

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