It’s this point in the season when we all start to get a little heavy-handed in our wine pouring. Why? Because Juan Pablo Galavis is about to meet the families of his four remaining girls, and from the promo for the February 24 and 25 episodes, we’re going to need a magnum to get through em.

We aren’t sure we were ready for all the emotions that came pouring out in the preview that aired right after Sharleen eliminated herself and JPG sent home Chelsie. Next, Andi Dorfman will take Juan Pablo to Atlanta, Clare Crawley will meet him in Sacramento, Nikki Ferrell will take him to Missouri, and Renee Oteri will romance him in Sarasota, Florida. After that, he’ll take the final three to St. Lucia for the Fantasy Suites and Finale.

But there’s a long road before we get to the March 10 finale, as we saw in the preview. Namely, it looks like Andi’s dad refuses to give JPG permission to be with his daughter, Clare’s family is not onboard the Juan Pablo train, and Andi even threatens to leave. And hey, what could have happened with them in the Fantasy Suites (apparently ABC is cool with everyone knowing she makes it through Hometown Dates) that she says,“waking up this morning, I could not wait to get out”? Because she says that. Does she go?