A female friend of mine just rung me, and told me some bloke is harassing her and frequently calling her, accusing her of trying to break himself and his girlfriend up. She swears to me that she only went out with the guy once with some friends, and he did not tell her he had a girlfriend. I believe her, and now I have taken on the responsibility to sort this guy out.

I'm wondering what the appropriate steps to take in a matter like this are? I've sent the guy an SMS Message telling him he has a chance to back off her now, and avoid any problems. So far so good, but according to my friend he is pretty persistent. So I'm wondering if he keeps this shit up, what steps I should take?

Paint_It_Black

01-05-2006, 04:57 PM

I think the first step would be to stop pretending you have friends.

yay

01-05-2006, 05:00 PM

ring him up on his phone (get the number from your girl-friend) & threaten him with the cops on his arse. & when he's calmed down, you can always play it cool & ask to meet him up in a café or someplace ostensibly to chill but really to keep an eye on him & make sure he's heading up the right path.Nice. That will be great if this gets out of control. Thankyou.

the_GoDdEsS

01-05-2006, 05:00 PM

Last time I had this I made the guy run off in tears. The frequent number of unanswered phone calls ranged anywhere from 50-100 a day. And that was just an innocent illustration.

There's not a single thing that generally works. Except maybe dragging him off to the woods and feed him to the wildreness.

yay

01-05-2006, 05:03 PM

Last time I had this I made the guy run off in tears. The frequent number of unanswered phone calls ranged anywhere from 50-100 a day. And that was just an innocent illustration.

There's not a single thing that generally works. Except maybe dragging him off to the woods and feed him to the wildreness.50-100 a day? That sounds like a stalker. How did you make him run off in tears?

the_offsprings_monkey

01-05-2006, 05:04 PM

50-100 a day? That sounds like a stalker. How did you make him run off in tears?
No sex?

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Paint_It_Black

01-05-2006, 05:06 PM

oh my dear a paint-it-black. to think I made a video after your avatar... :o

Hi Maria, how are you? Oh, and by the way, what the fuck are you talking about?

the_GoDdEsS

01-05-2006, 05:08 PM

I got sick of his emotional blackmail. Sometimes they tell you shit they won't really do. All it took was to yell at him hardcore and accuse him of everything he had done and pointing out you never ever wanted him and it'll stay that way. Just be hard on them. No pity, pity will make them go on. He backed off. Not completely but life was far more peaceful afterwards.

Paint_It_Black

01-05-2006, 05:21 PM

That's actually pretty damn cool.

Igniton

01-05-2006, 05:37 PM

A female friend of mine just rung me, and told me some bloke is harassing her and frequently calling her, accusing her of trying to break himself and his girlfriend up. She swears to me that she only went out with the guy once with some friends, and he did not tell her he had a girlfriend. I believe her, and now I have taken on the responsibility to sort this guy out.

I'm wondering what the appropriate steps to take in a matter like this are? I've sent the guy an SMS Message telling him he has a chance to back off her now, and avoid any problems. So far so good, but according to my friend he is pretty persistent. So I'm wondering if he keeps this shit up, what steps I should take?

i think pretend he is your friend and just talk about what your female friend is like and give reasons why they shouldn't be together

Paint_It_Black

01-05-2006, 05:39 PM

Does anybody know if orange juice actually needs to be refrigerated?

XYlophonetreeZ

01-05-2006, 05:39 PM

What Would You Do was such an awesome game show.

That's gonna be a trip to the Pie Wash for you.

Igniton

01-05-2006, 05:40 PM

Does anybody know if orange juice actually needs to be refrigerated?

personally i would refridgerate it... off topic lol

Paint_It_Black

01-05-2006, 05:42 PM

Yes, I generally would too. But say your orange juice had been out all night by accident (out on your counter, not out partying), would you still drink it?

Igniton

01-05-2006, 05:44 PM

i would have a taste, if its good, drink it, if its bad, just give it to a friend

TheUnholyNightbringer

01-05-2006, 05:44 PM

Have you seen what happens to orange juice if you leave it out?

Deep-freeze dat shit, y0.

WebDudette

01-05-2006, 05:44 PM

I would put it in the fridge then drink it a little later.

Igniton

01-05-2006, 05:45 PM

Have you seen what happens to orange juice if you leave it out?

Deep-freeze dat shit, y0.

whoops you heard the guy, just give it too a friend lol, or else you will die or get aids or something

Paint_It_Black

01-05-2006, 05:46 PM

Well it's not cold in my apartment, actually come to think of it it's not cold outside either. I actually have the windows open right now.

Anyway, the juice tastes fine, especially mixed with alcohol as it is now. I was just wondering if I perhaps shouldn't be drinking it.

TheUnholyNightbringer

01-05-2006, 05:46 PM

Leave a glass of orange juice out in a warm, bright room for say.. 2 days and a night. It's funky.

Paint_It_Black

01-05-2006, 05:48 PM

Hmm, never tried that. I have had things growing on almost empty bottles of beer though.

TheUnholyNightbringer

01-05-2006, 05:50 PM

What happened with me is some gloopy white stuff collects at the bottom and becomes almost solid, and the yellow stuff all sort of congeals.

That's after about 5 days, btw. I did an experiment. After 2 weeks it tried to take over my house so I had to throw it away.

WebDudette

01-05-2006, 05:50 PM

The alcohol should kill anything bad. Hopefully.

Igniton

01-05-2006, 05:50 PM

buy a fish, put it in the orange juice and see if it lives

Kitten

01-05-2006, 05:50 PM

Yes, I generally would too. But say your orange juice had been out all night by accident (out on your counter, not out partying), would you still drink it?

I'd drink it. Over night is not too bad, I wouldn't recommend drinking if it had been out all day in summer or something like that though.

Paint_It_Black

01-05-2006, 05:52 PM

buy a fish, put it in the orange juice and see if it lives

And if it lives, we can asume the juice is good to drink right? Brilliant. Wait, then I'll have to drink orange juice with a fish in it. Got anything else?

WebDudette

01-05-2006, 05:53 PM

I find it funny that PiB's Orange Juice question has more replies then Yay's question about his girlfriends stalker or something.

Paint_It_Black

01-05-2006, 05:53 PM

What happened with me is some gloopy white stuff collects at the bottom and becomes almost solid, and the yellow stuff all sort of congeals.

That's after about 5 days, btw. I did an experiment. After 2 weeks it tried to take over my house so I had to throw it away.

Actually that sounds sort of familiar. I think I may have once seen that in an old glass and didn't know what it was.

Nirushika6789

01-05-2006, 05:54 PM

I find it funny that PiB's Orange Juice question has more replies then Yay's question about his girlfriends stalker or something.
Haha yes, I don't think I've ever seen a thread get so off-topic

TheUnholyNightbringer

01-05-2006, 05:54 PM

I find it funny that PiB's Orange Juice question has more replies then Yay's question about his girlfriends stalker or something.

Let's face it, it's more interesting.

Paint_It_Black

01-05-2006, 05:55 PM

Haha yes, I don't think I've ever seen a thread get so off-topic

Isn't it odd? You could almost suspect it was intentional or something.

Igniton

01-05-2006, 05:55 PM

And if it lives, we can asume the juice is good to drink right? Brilliant. Wait, then I'll have to drink orange juice with a fish in it. Got anything else?

umm.... buy a snail?

WebDudette

01-05-2006, 05:56 PM

I was offered 25 dollars to drink milk that had been left out for a day or so today. I didn't do it because I really hate warm milk and I doubt I would have been paid even if I did do it.

WebDudette

01-05-2006, 05:56 PM

Let's face it, it's more interesting.

Sadly enough thats true.

Nirushika6789

01-05-2006, 05:56 PM

Isn't it odd? You could almost suspect it was intentional or something.
Ah yes...Like a conspiracy just the throw Yay's thread off topic....*ponders* :p

Paint_It_Black

01-05-2006, 05:58 PM

Apart from the awesomeness of being able to say "I just bought a snail", what would be the point? That would be awesome though.

Bad milk is more disgusting than the prospect of eating a sandwich made by wishomie. Well, it at least comes close.

yay

01-05-2006, 05:58 PM

Haha yes, I don't think I've ever seen a thread get so off-topicLOL, I was just about to say the same thing.

Paint_It_Black

01-05-2006, 06:00 PM

Ah yes...Like a conspiracy just the throw Yay's thread off topic....*ponders* :p

The guy's a nutjob. He'll probably believe we all planned it out beforehand. I once jokingly (oh so obviously joking) told him that I was Lodat. He went insane, saying he should have noticed before and it makes so much sense and shit. He has issues.

Igniton

01-05-2006, 06:00 PM

wow i wonder if its possible to do this to all the threads

Paint_It_Black

01-05-2006, 06:01 PM

Possible? Yes. Worthwhile? No.

WebDudette

01-05-2006, 06:02 PM

I don't suggest you try some threads have potential this one well this one was made by Yay.

Igniton

01-05-2006, 06:03 PM

yeah do it the my name is earl thread i made that totally sucks

Nirushika6789

01-05-2006, 06:04 PM

yeah do it the my name is earl thread i made that totally sucks
haha no it has to be a thread with LOTS of potential....just destroy its potential *evil laugh*

Igniton

01-05-2006, 06:06 PM

okay ill just try it

yay

01-05-2006, 06:53 PM

The guy's a nutjob. He'll probably believe we all planned it out beforehand. I once jokingly (oh so obviously joking) told him that I was Lodat. He went insane, saying he should have noticed before and it makes so much sense and shit. He has issues.Up until now I still thought you were Lodat.

Paint_It_Black

01-05-2006, 06:57 PM

Yay, not everyone has spam accounts. I've only ever had two accounts, this one and scared_wolf. You so readily believed I was Lodat because you are a spammer and cannot stop thinking like one.

yay

01-05-2006, 07:13 PM

Yay, not everyone has spam accounts. I've only ever had two accounts, this one and scared_wolf. You so readily believed I was Lodat because you are a spammer and cannot stop thinking like one.Actually I don't think that is my problem. I think my problem is that I am gullible. See as soon as you just said you weren't Lodat, I quickly believed you, even though I've thought you were for months. I don't think everyone is a spammer just because I used to be one. So quit trying to make a statement.

0r4ng3

01-05-2006, 07:18 PM

Bad milk is more disgusting than the prospect of eating a sandwich made by wishomie. Well, it at least comes close.
Bad milk is only more disgusting if you don't ask for mayonnaise in your sandwich.

Paint_It_Black

01-05-2006, 07:28 PM

You bastard, I love mayonaisse.

Yay, I'm not yet convinced that you have reformed. See, I'm not gullible. I'll give you a chance though. If you'll remember, I have been nice to you before, then your behaviour became irritating. If I become convinced that you've changed your ways I'll give you another chance.

0r4ng3

01-05-2006, 07:30 PM

You bastard, I love mayonaisse.
Don't get me wrong, I also love mayonaisse. However, in the case of wishomie, it's questionable.

Paint_It_Black

01-05-2006, 07:41 PM

The point was, you may have temporarily ruined mayonaisse for me. It may be hours before I can force myself to not use only mustard. Please don't ruin mustard too.

0r4ng3

01-05-2006, 07:43 PM

Nah, I won't, I'm not a fan of mustard.

I don't think I'll have any kind of sandwhich for a looong time. Thanks a lot, me!

Paint_It_Black

01-05-2006, 07:46 PM

But there are so many types of mustard! Perhaps you just haven't found the right one.

Omni

01-05-2006, 08:17 PM

0r4ng3, you look a lot like me, man (sorry if that insults you). Provided that's you in your avatar. Everytime I see you post I have to look twice.

Paint_It_Black

01-05-2006, 09:30 PM

Cottage cheese would be interesting.

killer_queen

01-06-2006, 05:48 AM

Stalkers and perverts can be real troubles sometimes. At those situations asking for help to a strong male friend is the best thing to do. Just call your friend and tell her that she needs a real man to protect her and that is not you. I'm sure she'll understand, if she exists of course.

TheUnholyNightbringer

01-06-2006, 10:30 AM

Check out the PM yay sent me.

You are being such as massive jerk, you are meant to be preventing spam, although even when I make a genuine thread you go and along with several others, encourage it to be spammed off topic. I have NEVER targeted you, although recently I see you are targeting me all the time. Quit it, and please start doing your job properly.

Got Estrogen?

Paint_It_Black

01-07-2006, 12:47 AM

Just call your friend and tell her that she needs a real man to protect her and that is not you. I'm sure she'll understand, if she exists of course.

I think I love you. Want a real man?

killer_queen

01-07-2006, 01:12 AM

Yes please.

Paint_It_Black

01-07-2006, 02:50 AM

Bah, don't tease me.

killer_queen

01-07-2006, 07:27 AM

Who's teasing?

BATWT

01-07-2006, 07:29 AM

Got Estrogen?

Haha smooth.

Paint_It_Black

01-07-2006, 07:30 AM

You can't fool me, you've already told us what a flirt you are in your "evil bitch" thread. You she-devil temptress.

Edit: Not referring to you Andy.

killer_queen

01-07-2006, 07:35 AM

I'm doing that only to simple people. You know I can't do something like that to you.

BATWT

01-07-2006, 07:37 AM

You can't fool me, you've already told us what a flirt you are in your "evil bitch" thread. You she-devil temptress.

Edit: Not referring to you Andy.

Yeah, ok, *sure* ;)

Paint_It_Black

01-07-2006, 07:38 AM

Dammit Andy, I have to flirt with Killer Queen so our love can remain hidden. Stop dragging me out of the closet!