Most frugal thing my husband and I did was see how many days in a row we could go without spending money, back in the days when we were first married, paying off student loans, and saving for our first house.

As time went by we stopped playing the game, but it had the lasting effect of getting us into thrifty habits (going to the library instead of the bookstore, etc.) which have served us well for 25 years.

Started playing again when my husband lost his job last year, and it's amazing how much difference it has made in our monthly expenses. :)

I shop at Lunardi's only on Tuesdays and Thursdays, when we all get the senior discount of 5%. It may not sound like a lot, but it adds up. When you add the senior discount to the in-store specials, you can reduce your bill by a tad.

Frugal? How's this: After I wash my glasses I tear half a sheet of a paper towel to dry them. Then I tuck it back beside the roll. Later my husband reuses it to dry his glasses, and also returns it to be eventually used on a spill. As far as I can tell the effect of this odd behavior on the budget is not huge. But the mindset behind it is what keeps us in good financial shape.

epilnk wrote:Frugal? How's this: After I wash my glasses I tear half a sheet of a paper towel to dry them. Then I tuck it back beside the roll. Later my husband reuses it to dry his glasses, and also returns it to be eventually used on a spill. As far as I can tell the effect of this odd behavior on the budget is not huge. But the mindset behind it is what keeps us in good financial shape.

Obviously you don't wear glasses. Towels will just make them sirt again and probably result in scratches. Best thing is a dedicated microfiber cloth - many uses, or Kimwipes delicate task wipes - can be reused several times.

paddyshack wrote:I have no issue paying $20 for a haircut - (I've never liked the look of having my hair all one length - a requirement for the self-haircut).

You don't have to cut your hair to all one length if you cut your own hair. You can do the same thing a barber or stylist would do with clippers or scissors. It's a bit harder doing it with mirrors, but after two pretty bad self-applied haircuts and a few more mediocre ones I can consistently give myself a better haircut than most barbers will give me.

However, for those who already have a hair style that is all one fairly short length, it's particularly silly to pay someone $15 every few months when you could just buy the clippers and do it yourself.

Also:
Drying eyeglasses with paper towels is likely to scratch them. I've always heard that you should use a soft cotton cloth to dry glasses.

My kids used to kid me that I was so cheap, that I wouldn't drive thru a fast food place, even though we had a coupon for a "free" item. I figured as long as there were fewer coupons than people in the car, I'd end up paying for the item for those without coupons. Where I live, some of the businesses give coupon "rewards" for kids who read extra books or excel somehow in school. This is smart on the business's end, since the kids usually have to have at least one adult go with them who end up paying full price.

Library for books and DVDs. If they don't have something that I want, I write a suggestion, which sometimes works.

I used to buy books all the time. They were mostly used, but I still paid something for them. If I want to own a book and not just check it out from the library, I've built up credit trading in my old books at a used book store, so usually look there first.

1) Work the frequent flyer programs. You can get lots of miles by getting a credit card or opening brokerage accounts. I was able to fly to Bali for free (including long stopovers in Thailand, one time 9 months) three times.

The program I know best is United Mileage Plus if anyone has questions.

Outside of buying in bulk when possible, I enjoy life with the luxuries that many of you seem to scoff at. While you're smugly driving your 2002 Civic, I'm smugly driving my $85,000 Lexus and still putting more money away than you.

Not everyone who has nice toys is an idiot with their money. I chose to focus on growing my income as opposed to clipping coupons and cheaping out on popcorn at the movies, and because of that I have the best of both worlds. I also donate money to my favorite charities monthly.

Sorry if that seems mean or harsh, but some of you should consider putting more of an emphasis on making money as opposed to being so miserly with what you have.

Outside of buying in bulk when possible, I enjoy life with the luxuries that many of you seem to scoff at. While you're smugly driving your 2002 Civic, I'm smugly driving my $85,000 Lexus and still putting more money away than you.

Not everyone who has nice toys is an idiot with their money. I chose to focus on growing my income as opposed to clipping coupons and cheaping out on popcorn at the movies, and because of that I have the best of both worlds. I also donate money to my favorite charities monthly.

Sorry if that seems mean or harsh, but some of you should consider putting more of an emphasis on making money as opposed to being so miserly with what you have.

But the subject of this thread, as indicated by its original title, was "That Frugal Thing You Do," not "that grow-your-income conspicuous consumption thing you do." Perhaps you meant to post here:

Sophie Spence wrote:Most frugal thing my husband and I did was see how many days in a row we could go without spending money, back in the days when we were first married, paying off student loans, and saving for our first house.

As time went by we stopped playing the game, but it had the lasting effect of getting us into thrifty habits (going to the library instead of the bookstore, etc.) which have served us well for 25 years.

Started playing again when my husband lost his job last year, and it's amazing how much difference it has made in our monthly expenses.

I play this game with myself all of the time, but unfortunately I rarely win. I've tried to convince my wife that we should try this together but we always end up spending some small amount of money each day no matter how hard we try. Maybe we'll try again soon, I still think it would save us money in the long run.

I also thought about trying to do all shopping one day a week instead of little trips daily. I've noticed that the mid-week Target/Grocery runs always seem to add up to more than one large weekly run. I guess if we didn't buy it on Saturday we can wait until the following Saturday and if we still need it, then it's likely important.

Outside of buying in bulk when possible, I enjoy life with the luxuries that many of you seem to scoff at. While you're smugly driving your 2002 Civic, I'm smugly driving my $85,000 Lexus and still putting more money away than you.

Not everyone who has nice toys is an idiot with their money. I chose to focus on growing my income as opposed to clipping coupons and cheaping out on popcorn at the movies, and because of that I have the best of both worlds. I also donate money to my favorite charities monthly.

Sorry if that seems mean or harsh, but some of you should consider putting more of an emphasis on making money as opposed to being so miserly with what you have.

We have a sister thread going called "That Extravagant Thing You Do". Your post really belongs on that thread. Most people do some of both -- this one is for the frugal thing you do. So the buying in bulk belongs here...the Lexus is for the other thread. Thanks.

As far as making money, I suppose some people prefer to make less with less stress. Not everyone choses o work 90 hour weeks so they can drive a Lexus. There is actually a movement that became popular recently about people who make less on purpose but live a simpler life. I don't think it is for you to judge others when it come to decisions like that.

I'm not all that frugal when I see what the rest do. I like going to the barber. The 3 barbers are all over 70, mine is in his 80's, they are more fun then people my age.

I guess the biggest things would be... Not keeping up with the Jones. We drive Corollas, till they die.
Seldom hire anyone to do anything, we do most things for ourselves.
Rarely buy more clothes, don't really care what's "in style". I do like LL Bean stuff though.
Don't use credit.
Live in what would today be considered a small home.
I sock away much of our income, doesn't leave a lot to spend on a whim. I have to send off for the $$$ if I want something big which gives me time to change my mind.
I was going to put down, vacation in the RV, but it doesn't exactly fit in the frugal column.

Outside of buying in bulk when possible, I enjoy life with the luxuries that many of you seem to scoff at. While you're smugly driving your 2002 Civic, I'm smugly driving my $85,000 Lexus and still putting more money away than you.

Not everyone who has nice toys is an idiot with their money. I chose to focus on growing my income as opposed to clipping coupons and cheaping out on popcorn at the movies, and because of that I have the best of both worlds. I also donate money to my favorite charities monthly.

Sorry if that seems mean or harsh, but some of you should consider putting more of an emphasis on making money as opposed to being so miserly with what you have.

Not all of us are 29 years old either. How do you justify an $85,000 car with your still modest savings?

Living in a jurisdiction with a tax rate of 16% on salaries and net rental income (dropping to 15% this year as part of the government's plan to give relief against the effects of the recession) with no tax on dividends, interest or capital gains certainly helps (although partly offset by the very high cost of living).

I have never owned a car in Hong Kong. Given the duty of up to 100% (on the aggregate of the purchase price, shipping and various other costs) this has been a massive saving over the last 17 years.

For my first six years in Hong Kong I lived in very low cost accomodation. Given what rents are in this city, that was a huge saving.

I attend lectures/training courses at my employer for the sandwiches.

Given current rate of hair loss, I expect I will be able to save on haircuts in the near future.

Just for clarification ... I have my employer's permission to use the office supplies for personal use.

He is an attorney and I bring him title insurance revenue and help to make his practice more efficient. He is happy to have me. If I use a legal pad once or twice a year, or post-it notes or a hi-liter or a 3-ring binder it's inconsequential in the overall scheme of his $300.00 per hour billings and a couple of $3000.00 premiums on commercial real estate transactions I bring in in addition to the normal refi's, residential closings and searches for his legal work.

The last law firm I worked for the employees (40 or so) were provided with coffee and or juice and bagels every day. Most of them were diet conscious females who ate half a bagel. The firm didn't seem to hire the heavy weights.

May your heart always be joyful.
| May your song always be sung.
| May you stay forever young.
| ----Bob Dylan

I love the independence that frugal living provides. I have often told my grandchildren "I don't live "cheap" because I have to. I live cheap so that I won't have to"
They see me give a man under a bridge a $50 and in the same day use a half a paper towell when a half will do.
The frugal thing I do is teach by example "Waste not want not"
BTW I'm not at all cheap when it comes to their birthdays (except that they get homemade cards along with the $.)

I've raked through my drawers and pulled out about 8 full bars of soap from hotels, motels, hospitals. I had about half a dozen small hotel-sized soaps as well, along with travel sized shampoo, conditioner and deoderant.

I've got a couple of months of soap supply to use and I won't have to buy the body wash I prefer.

May your heart always be joyful.
| May your song always be sung.
| May you stay forever young.
| ----Bob Dylan

Check it out.... you can save a ton of money by selling all your stuff and moving into your vehicle. Well it helps if you have a nice, big vehicle, like a truck, van or SUV. If not, you can find one in decent condition for around $5K. If you want to make it livable, all you have to do is install an aux. battery system + solar panels, a small 12V fridge, an exhaust fan (A/C draws too much power) and a few other things. You can park it almost anywhere for cheap or even for free. No property taxes, no mortgage, less junk to keep track of, and more opportunities to travel. I lost my job a few months ago and this is exactly what I'm doing until the job market recovers. I don't care if it takes 6 months or a few years, because it's a very low-cost way of living and I can survive easily for a decade this way (actually much longer if I can find some part time gigs here and there). This isn't for everyone (it's easier if you're single) but I know quite a few people who are living this way, including an ex-coworker. Yeah, the one who lost most of his income and possessions due to divorce... I was never married and never will be, so for me it's just about saving money, adventure, travel, and making something positive out of a bad situation.

isleep wrote:Check it out.... you can save a ton of money by selling all your stuff and moving into your vehicle. Well it helps if you have a nice, big vehicle, like a truck, van or SUV. If not, you can find one in decent condition for around $5K. If you want to make it livable, all you have to do is install an aux. battery system + solar panels, a small 12V fridge, an exhaust fan (A/C draws too much power) and a few other things. You can park it almost anywhere for cheap or even for free. No property taxes, no mortgage, less junk to keep track of, and more opportunities to travel. I lost my job a few months ago and this is exactly what I'm doing until the job market recovers. I don't care if it takes 6 months or a few years, because it's a very low-cost way of living and I can survive easily for a decade this way (actually much longer if I can find some part time gigs here and there). This isn't for everyone (it's easier if you're single) but I know quite a few people who are living this way, including an ex-coworker. Yeah, the one who lost most of his income and possessions due to divorce... I was never married and never will be, so for me it's just about saving money, adventure, travel, and making something positive out of a bad situation.

I knew an engineer who hid himself out in the forrest in some hidden area... great way to live free and use gym showers and etc... of course you wont get girls this way but its more frugal to find hookers (divorce, dates, etc cost more). I have a laptop (x61s) which has mobile net access and 8 hour battery life which I can use in the forrest too.

I think I might try living homeless... its a pretty good idea. This forum is amazing!

In National Parks, generally you can't. In National Forests and BLM, you can, but have to move around because there are limits to how long you can stay in one place. Rules vary by location. They even vary from one NF to the one right next to it.

State and municipal areas have different rules from the above. You always have to be sure you know where you are and what the rules are for that little postage stamp of land that you are camping on.

Think you can get away with it? You might, but eventually some unexpected thing will happen and you're caught. Not a problem if they just say "move along", but if you've got something illegal going on, you'll likely end up in jail because without a local address you are considered a flight risk.

retiredjg wrote:Living in the forest? Nice, but careful where you do it.

That's why I'm heading out west, where most of the NF and BLM areas are and for that matter large expanses of wilderness where I can camp out in solitude, with only the local animals as companions. The animals won't give me tickets or look down on me or imprison me, etc. which is what would happen were I to try this in human-populated areas.

My vehicle is already setup with a towing package and can handle a decent-sized trailer (6500 lbs), so living in a cheap RV park will be an option once I decide to return to civilization. No trailer for now though, because the places I want to go are quite off the beaten path. Definitely no campgrounds or parks, that's for sure...

I'll have to move around every two weeks to reprovision with fresh food/water, so the typical BLM limits for staying at a given location aren't a problem. Not that the BLM police would have much chance of finding me out in the first place.

I currently have an old IBM Thinkpad, but will probably downsize to a smaller netbook that draws less power. When 100% of your energy is from solar panels, you have to conserve in any which way possible (the Engel fridge is the biggest power hog, but nonetheless critical for a balanced diet with fresh fruit, veggies, cheese, etc.) I'm not much worried about networking, since there probably won't be any GSM coverage in most wild areas. That leaves satellite, but it's probably not worth the cost.

Oh, I'm bringing my 12-gauge, just in case. And I'm going to pick up a Ruger 9mm also. I'll probably never need to use them, but it's better to be prepared... Ditto with standard survival gear, including two good knives, a fire-starting kit, and water purifiers.

retiredjg wrote:Living in the forest? Nice, but careful where you do it.

That's why I'm heading out west, where most of the NF and BLM areas are and for that matter large expanses of wilderness where I can camp out in solitude, with only the local animals as companions. The animals won't give me tickets or look down on me or imprison me, etc. which is what would happen were I to try this in human-populated areas.

My vehicle is already setup with a towing package and can handle a decent-sized trailer (6500 lbs), so living in a cheap RV park will be an option once I decide to return to civilization. No trailer for now though, because the places I want to go are quite off the beaten path. Definitely no campgrounds or parks, that's for sure...

I'll have to move around every two weeks to reprovision with fresh food/water, so the typical BLM limits for staying at a given location aren't a problem. Not that the BLM police would have much chance of finding me out in the first place.

I currently have an old IBM Thinkpad, but will probably downsize to a smaller netbook that draws less power. When 100% of your energy is from solar panels, you have to conserve in any which way possible (the Engel fridge is the biggest power hog, but nonetheless critical for a balanced diet with fresh fruit, veggies, cheese, etc.) I'm not much worried about networking, since there probably won't be any GSM coverage in most wild areas. That leaves satellite, but it's probably not worth the cost.

Oh, I'm bringing my 12-gauge, just in case. And I'm going to pick up a Ruger 9mm also. I'll probably never need to use them, but it's better to be prepared... Ditto with standard survival gear, including two good knives, a fire-starting kit, and water purifiers.

I actually researched RV's and Trailers... they are like studios! Which is what I'm staying in now to save money and its really comfortable and I'm happy though it costs 1 grand a month . I was wondering, would you know where in the Bay Area around SF or the surrounding cities could you peacefully park a trailer or RV so you could actually live there without any police problems in general but still be connected to the city to go to work, do laundry, etc... got any ideas? Or any ideas on how to find locations where people do that around here?

Sigh. All the folks not buying books means I and my fellow authors will be employing every frugality listed . . . and more.

If you have an author whose work you like enough to want to have future books from that person to read, I'd encourage you to:
-- buy their books new (buy at discount stores/use coupons!)
-- request your local library buy their books
-- check out their books from your local library (most libraries assess the traffic on a book in deciding future purchases)
-- use inter-library loan if your library doesn't have it.

Publishers look at an author's sales when determining whether to buy another book. That's new sales, of course, because neither the author, nor the publisher get anything when a book is sold used.

In thr third world, having a kid is like buying an annuity for retirement income. "Looking after your parents" is passed on proudly as a family value. Unfortunately this also leads to preference towards having a male child, and other horrendous social problems follow.