tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-90392831333445754342014-10-04T22:45:48.582-07:00Asi Es La Fe de Mi CorazonOf my Travels in Guatemala. My journey, my life and my love. Asi es la vida.Megan Sieverthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05178982284157302950noreply@blogger.comBlogger13125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9039283133344575434.post-38154544573075409932007-08-17T01:26:00.000-07:002007-12-12T12:29:40.173-08:00September 10, 2006September 10, 2006<br />Since I have been home, there is change that has gone underway since I have walked down the streets, through the rooms of home and even in the lives of loved ones, both family and friends alike. I have not been here for four months, and so much, even drastically, has changed. There are new relationships built up within my family unit, the ties between parent and son, that being my brother, are mending and a new dynamic is taking place. Most dramatically are the lives of the people around me, apparently not only my brother, but also close friends that right away I have seen such a clear and vivid renovation, if you will, of their hearts and relationships with Christ. God has done some big things while I have been away, which fits, as he has also done big things within my life. It is a new season. <br /><br />Within the idea that I almost did not leave Guatemala, the question of did I do the right thing is a constant in the back of my head. Yes, I know I did the right thing, but its as if I have to convince myself every five minutes as the question lingers as I begin to feel more and more that I do not belong in this society. As I continue to wake up every morning and just sob. It is all I can do to not turn around and go right back. I am homesick for Guatemala. At the airport, I had to use the little energy that I did have, as I was completely emotionally drained from having to forcibly put myself on that plane. I feel wretched, but I had to muster up everything inside me to be able to smile when I saw my parents and friends, to act, at least somewhat, that I was glad to be home. Yes, I was glad to see them, but the idea that I was seeing them just told me that I was not in Guatemala with my newly made family and friends. <br /><br />I am having such a hard time re-entering and just try to be content with being here. To the point that I could not give you answers as to what I have enjoyed the most about being home or for that matter, even the things that have bothered me about being home. I could give you superficial answers, I am sorry but its truth right now, about how it is so good to see my family and to use modern convenience to do things and get places. While it is good to see people, it only reminds me that I cannot see them. Yet, while many things do bother me, nothing even compares slightly to the fact that what really bothers me is that I am not in Machaquilá, Guatemala. I still feel as if I was not ready to come home, but I am somehow here, none of this makes sense to me. It is like one deep lull of depression, that I cannot fight feeling it and watching it slowly take me over. <br /><br />Since I have been home, I have encountered a series of different emotions. Many emotions of which wrap around this depression that seems to be taking me over. This journey, as I have said before, has engulfed me with a deep passion for right relationship with both God and humanity. While this is not at all my first time encountering injustice, the elements that I took from what I learned and saw, I compiled differently this time as my experience allowed me to do so. For so long, the injustices of this world broke me down so much, that by hearing them and studying them I had somehow become numb. But living with the people, and the intensity of injustice that I saw and heard about affecting the people that I love allowed me to draw something new this time. I feel like my heart has been ravaged all over again. It is as if I feel the rawness of humanity within the rawness of my newly transformed heart. <br /><br />So much has taken place throughout my journey, there is still so much that is left unsaid and still so much to process. I am here in the States for the time being, while everything inside me is screaming aching to get home to Guatemala. I continue to feel the pains of ‘home-sickness,’ but I guess that is something that is altogether beautiful. I will allow God to continue to ‘prune’ me for what I am to be in life, and I am not ready to say ‘Guatemala or not,’ but it should be true. Guatemala is all I can think about, it has tainted my view of the world and how I see everything in it. I have been taught about the idea that to know someone is to love them. To know their history and culture, power and struggle is something that is absolutely beautiful. There is such an impression that has been left on my now raw and tender heart, praise God that I can feel again. I have enjoyed, very much, having to write, my thoughts, fears, journeys, struggles and triumphs. I am glad to have recorded my journey and to have left God use this as a tool to help me process. I had wanted nothing more than to live the life that I no longer take for granted, to see, hear, taste and smell the richness and extent of God’s creation and beauty. To seek, search and find a part of His character that He left dwelling within a new people. And that is exactly what I did. It is a new season, I will take and walk with all that God has brought to light and taught me.Megan Sieverthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05178982284157302950noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9039283133344575434.post-24985841876786655482007-08-17T01:25:00.000-07:002007-12-12T12:28:34.378-08:00September 2, 2006September 2, 2006<br /> I need to be honest, I did not want to come home and in fact, I almost did not, at least for now. I just was not ready to return. Time slipped away from me, and three and a half months was just not enough time to soak everything in. There was still so much that I wanted to learn, that I did not have the opportunity to do. Leaving Guatemala, was forcible, everything in me needed and longed to stay, I had to talk to myself all day and consciously walk myself through the airport and on to the plane when everything in me yearned to just turn around and walk right out. To find a bus and go back; one of the hardest things that I have ever had to do, and now there is a complete void in my heart. <br /><br />Among many things that I loved about my host culture, three in particular stood out to me: the lifestyle, the relationship and family. The lifestyle is beautiful, it is something that I will continue to hold very dear in my heart as I am allowed to ‘just be,’ and everything that it entails. My lifestyle and priorities have been radically challenged and flipped upside down with the idea of leaving my agenda, that had my whole day planned to the ‘T,’ and to leave it to ‘just be.’ Yet through this remarkable challenge, I have come to prioritize my life, around what is truly important in life and that is right relationship with people and God and not just a checklist of meaningless stuff. Through this transformation and the shedding of years of toil to put my life in ‘right’ order, the Guatemalan value for relationship with both God and family has grabbed hold of me. <br /><br />Yet, there are many aspects of my host culture that I continue to understand and struggle with seeing as true, good and beautiful. The Church continues to weigh upon my heart; I am still processing many questions that surround my struggle with the Latin American Church. It is a conscious battle for me, one that I feel like I need someone just to sit with me, listen and bounce different ideas back and forth with me, as I sort out the mess of ideas within my head that need mere straightening up. I have made a conscious decision to go seek help in the Counseling Center here at school where I can talk without end and sort out the mess inside my head. Yet, within my struggle with legalism in the church, is also the idea of gossip both in the church and in small communities such as Machaquilá. The pure idea of ceaselessly talking about one another behind their backs eludes me as I still do not see beauty in such a way that this act is glorifying to God or their tightly knit forms of community. I only see it as the Devil out to destroy. <br /><br />There have however, been things that I do miss about home. But the fact that this takes me awhile to come up with them, shows that these are not really things that I consciously think about. Three of the things that I have missed the most are a hot shower, to converse in depth lengths in English, not to mention praising God through worship in English and in the American Church. A hot shower is self-explanatory, but just like the rest of these ideas, I have learned to deal without. To be able to speak with someone in English and to not have to constantly be challenged for how to rephrase my question or answer to fit into words and phrases that I do know. To be able to sit and talk, without having to always be thinking, would be amazing. However, most of all, being in the American Christian church is one thing that I have greatly missed. I want to shout and scream at the top of my lungs, to go and praise God through dance and song and in other ways of just ‘being’ with God, to be able to do that freely in the Church setting would be absolutely amazing and something I have been dreaming about. <br /><br />However, within the ideas of what I have missed the least about home culture are an assortment of topics and themes. I know myself, and the fast-paced American lifestyle has always had a tight grip on my life, I often have been known to get addicted to the very idea of stress in my life. I add things on until there is not looking back, there could be some very deep ideas and problems lying in these statements, but I will get to unpacking them later. This is why that as apparently I was supposed to return, I feel God telling me to quite my job, withdraw out of every form of leadership on Campus and ‘just be,’ for one semester. ‘Be’ in the presence of God and ‘be’ with people, with friends and family and rekindle what right relationship should look like. I feel called to just be silent, to sit and listen, something of which, within my whole life I have never taken the time out to do. However, this time I will listen, before God takes all of my ‘extracurricular’ busyness away from me. However, when I thought about going home, nothing inside me gave me the urge to do so. All I could think about was how I was not going to be okay when I returned, I pictured myself clinging to items from Guatemala and sleeping with them and holding them tightly throughout the day. No matter how hard I tried to change this viewpoint, the thought of me being there, only reminded me that I was not going to be here. <br /><br />All in all, as I look back at all that has been done and said, the transformation that has been brought upon in my life. I see someone different in the mirror. I see someone who has been stripped away of the pure selfishness that had once engulfed me. My hardened heart has been ripped to shreds and somehow God has graced me with the ability to again empathize and to feel. I have encountered so much struggle, hurt and injustice that I had become immune and numb to how they should affect me. I have built relationship both with God and man a priority in my life. I will no longer let myself constantly drown out ‘real life’ if you will. It is a new season, and I will have to accept going home only to continue being ‘pruned’ by God, in hopes of returning ‘home’ soon.Megan Sieverthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05178982284157302950noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9039283133344575434.post-4919179208668951572007-08-17T01:24:00.000-07:002007-12-12T12:27:03.028-08:00August 18, 2006Truthfully, it is so hard for me to talk about the things that I will miss the least when I return home from beautiful Guatemala. I wrestle with the idea of telling you, as I do not want you, to be mistaken and not be able to see the even greater side of joy. There is such a struggle, but also a pure beauty that is apart of my life here, they intertwine so that a peace consumes these shambles. Life here sometimes seems like a dream come true, an answer to prayer and everything I had ever wanted for my life. I mean what more could I want, the amazing Latin culture, warmth and love, beautiful people, exquisite food, the most serene river just a walk away, an amazing project with two-hundred and fifty kids that radiate with pure energy and joy, and new families and friends that have taken me in. Of course, when my patience has run out with whatever my struggle is for the day, my sentiments are quite a different, but ultimately life is full of struggles, whether in America or in a foreign land. While most of the struggles I continue to deal with here in Guatemala are wrapped and immersed within the culture of the Latin American Church. Yet, I sit here with a peace that only comes from God, knowing that he placed me here, in Machaquilá, Guatemala and in the Church for a reason, whatever that might be.<br /> The greatest trial I have faced in my time here is that of the legalistic Latin American Evangelical Church and the culture that it entails, through which nearly every one of the struggles I face, are derived from. Imagine being blessed with being able to live with the Juans of the Nazarene Church, and then taking on the responsibilities that come with that opportunity. I am required to attend every service with the utmost respect, properly wearing a longer skirt, with a respectful neat and clean appearance, expected to stand and clap without any other body movement, to participate by leading worship and sitting quietly during every sermon. Monday night is a prayer service, Wednesday and Saturday nights are regular services while each are two or three hours long, and Sunday always consists of Escuela Dominical, a form of Sunday School that lasts for nearly four hours while at night everyone returns for another service. The basic service begins with prayer and an unprepared worship where an elected member invites members of the congregation up to, on the top of their head, lead everyone in songs of worship. Any two that volunteer to take the offering and pray over it then take the offering. While the Pastor follows with his sermon that usually only lasts around fifteen to twenty minutes. Throughout this time, everyone is expected to volunteer and participate, even me. <br /><br />My struggle and frustration with the Church and its congregation came to me slowly. I believe some of which derived out of my expectations. Without knowing it, I set for myself the anticipation that, as I would be living at the Church and with the Juans that I would somehow experience God in a remarkable way, that I would undoubtedly feel his presence with me and reach and maintain a closer relationship with him. I assumed that I would grow spiritually, I mean attending Church nearly everyday, and being nearly forced to pray, kneeling on that bench for hours upon hours. While I have learned to pray, I am experiencing God in quite different ways. I do not believe I have ever tried harder to seek God and experience him more than I am right now in Guatemala, while I have never felt so alone, discouraged and empty of Spirit. It was as if I am completely dry, filled with nothing and left to wander alone despite my persistent cries for help. I feel almost deserted and desolate, but also in a place where I know that God still reigns and I will continue to praise and worship him in my times of struggle. I continue to look and relate to Psalm 102, where David cries…<br /><br />LORD, hear my prayer! Listen to my plea! Don't turn away from me in my time of distress. Bend down your ear and answer me quickly when I call to you, for my days disappear like smoke, and my bones burn like red-hot coals. My heart is sick, withered like grass, and I have lost my appetite. Because of my groaning, I am reduced to skin and bones. I am like an owl in the desert, like a lonely owl in a far-off wilderness. I lie awake, lonely as a solitary bird on the roof. My enemies taunt me day after day. They mock and curse me. I eat ashes instead of my food. My tears run down into my drink because of your anger and wrath. For you have picked me up and thrown me out. My life passes as swiftly as the evening shadows. I am withering like grass. But you, O LORD, will rule forever. Your fame will endure to every generation. You will arise and have mercy on Jerusalem--- and now is the time to pity her, now is the time you promised to help. For your people love every stone in her walls and show favor even to the dust in her streets. And the nations will tremble before the LORD. The kings of the earth will tremble before his glory. For the LORD will rebuild Jerusalem. He will appear in his glory. He will listen to the prayers of the destitute. He will not reject their pleas. Let this be recorded for future generations, so that a nation yet to be created will praise the LORD. Tell them the LORD looked down from his heavenly sanctuary. He looked to the earth from heaven to hear the groans of the prisoners, to release those condemned to die. And so the LORD's fame will be celebrated in Zion, his praises in Jerusalem, when multitudes gather together and kingdoms come to worship the LORD. He has cut me down in midlife,shortening my days. But I cried to him, "My God, who lives forever, don't take my life while I am still so young! In ages past you laid the foundation of the earth, and the heavens are the work of your hands. Even they will perish, but you remain forever; they will wear out like old clothing. You will change them like a garment, and they will fade away. But you are always the same; your years never end. The children of your people will live in security. Their children's children will thrive in your presence. (NLT)<br /><br />Within the Church community, due to culture, I experience the fight for a freedom to worship my God, our God, in ways that I found beneficial, but were culturally unacceptable. As a person who enjoys dancing in the Church during praise and worshiping his name, I struggle with locking my knees and putting a mere clap with my song. I can not dance or feel the rhythm of the music and I am left to sing songs that, I do not always understand or worse I stand, clap and am forced to listen to everyone else belt praises. When I try to put my mind somewhere else, to praise him in English, it just does not seem to work, the loud Spanish voices overcome all train of thought. What would be beneficial for me is to sit in the field in front of the Church or at the river, in silence or in songs of praise, but in solitude with God. I often do this in my free time, but I wrestle with the idea of being in Church that much every week and not gaining nearly anything from it. The congregation is not understanding of my handicap and inability to communicate fluently; that I continue to not understand every word, or even every sermon, I am lucky to get the gist of what is being said. It therefore takes me a long time to catch on to song lyrics, and I am often asked to lead worship and then rudely misunderstood or looked down upon as I try to explain that the language barrier sets a hard bar for me to reach and it takes me awhile to catch on. While many hymns are sung out of a Hymnal, never once has someone offered theirs to me, so that I could sing along for at least just one song. So I continue to sit here, in Church all the time, silent, alone, frustrated and to be honest just plain bored as I fight with how much I should sacrifice to be culturally acceptable. <br /><br />As to the legalism of the Church, if I did not attend a service, I would be constantly probed for my reasons behind my absence and where I had instead been. If was out with other ‘Non-Evangelicals’ of the community I would be criticized and looked down upon. Living with the Pastors, I knew that whomever I am seen talking with during the day, I would return that night to hear the worst of whomever I was talking to earlier that day. I would be told, even about those who came to the Church, and told all about their sins. I also struggle with not being allowed to go to different community events, at the schools or pageants without being looked down upon by Evangelicals. I am restricted to where I cannot leave the house, to be me and to make friends. I am constantly being watched and judged.<br /><br />Throughout this time, never once did I feel true warmth of the community of the Church, nor feel comfortable with anyone in the congregation, other than my family, the Pastors. Those whom I did see love and acceptance radiate from, were the ‘Non-Evangelical’ neighbors, whom I was scolded for spending my free time with. So I allowed myself to play with this boundary, I mean how sad and depressing is it that I feel more comfortable and more love from the non-Christians than the Christians do. <br /><br />There is always the constant always being the center of attention and everyone always worrying about me. I did not come to stand out; I do not like not being allowed to wash the dishes or to help cook or clean. I feel so dependent for everything, like I am such a trouble to have, but they will not let me change that. All I want is to be seen as a local, to walk down the streets without everyone staring, I want to immerse myself to the extent that I am one of them. However, is that ever possible or a reasonable goal? With only three months as a trial, I have not been successful. My skin, clothes and unfamiliar face make me an alien in this land. <br /><br />I never in fact was tempted to quit. I however have found myself saying that if I ever returned, I would not be able to be where I am now. There is no way that I could handle living with the Pastors, attending every service and living by the repressive rules of the legalistic Latin Evangelical Church, when I have known a different, more free Christian way of life. What I was tempted with was taking myself out of fulfilling the role of the ‘Super Christian’ in the Church, as I am seen as an American Christian and am assumed to be somehow more advanced in my walk with Christ. My actions proved that whether subconsciously or out of direct thought and motive I withdrew. The actions that did flow out of my experience, whether good or bad is that I find myself retreating. In my last month, I have found that I often miss a complete Church service once a week just to do homework, or I show up a little later and sit in the back, rather than the front. I find myself retreating in times of stress and conflict with the views of the Church to the neighbor’s house, who as non-Evangelicals but also believers in Christ allowed me to process bits and pieces of my struggle and confusion of the Church with an intellectual viewpoint. <br />While part of me feels terrible for slightly withdrawing from Church life, the other part recognizes that I would not have survived this journey, sanely, if I had not. My connection with the neighbors grew to be a deep friendship and understanding that I could not find anywhere else. I found comfort and relief in their house and I often feel as if I can just be myself, I can let my guard down and I am not always being watched and judged with a second eye. As I know, I am frowned upon every time I am found at their house and judged as they are not ‘Evangelicals.’ Therefore, it is then that I do not know if is should have taken that route, and built such a friendship. Nevertheless, the separation between religions, non-Christians and Christians, and denominations hurts my heart, right or wrong, I am still a visitor in their culture and that makes me unsure about my adamant decision to befriend the other and love them despite our differences. Whether I crossed a line, I might not ever know. However, it was the neighbors, through our intellectual talks about the culture, whom taught me to understand, to rearrange their history in my head and apply it to the now. <br /><br />I am uncertain about how I feel about me finding security outside of the Church, while I was living within the Church and how that must look to outside viewers. I would challenge future sojourners to seek God in every decision, In my case I bended what was culturally acceptable, and one of the extremes of the legalist society of the Church, while it is still not used by everyone. I would go as far as to say that while I believe that God lead me directly to work and stay in the Church, that the Third World’s Evangelical mentality is an extreme for a Western Christian to step into without much ‘real’ warning. I felt completely unprepared to handle this challenge, and I guess that is what happens when you change plans a week before arrival. I believe there is so much to the culture that I would not have experienced through my ‘non-Evangelical’ friends and for that, I am thankful. Nevertheless, I was told during my journey to find the medium “Alas, the challenge to be "in" but not "of" the world. (But we should not judge; most of us in the West are "of" the world and not "in" it.)”Megan Sieverthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05178982284157302950noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9039283133344575434.post-60902964936194408472007-08-17T01:16:00.000-07:002007-12-12T12:19:48.756-08:00August 11, 2006A deep look into the world God created, different people, creatures and terrain might lead someone to ponder why God made such an extensive assortment of cultures within each. You might come to believe that each was hand picked to each be given different characteristics of God, to be developed and manifested within each culture and group. The Latin culture clings tightly to various values, truths and traditions. <br /> <br />One of the most distinct values of the Guatemalan culture is the significance found within relationships. The value of people take a place of importance that is rarely seen in other cultures. People’s worth takes the importance off the individual and onto others; a focus is put on unity and community. Family takes priority above all, it is a unified system of love, support, trust and affection. Friends and neighbors hold a special place among the family and often blend into it’s very center. Time to just be with one another is one of the most treasured values. The laid back lifestyle of small town living allows the freedom to sit, relax and talk with family and friends. The value of time is not used with the mentality that time is money, how much one can get done within a set of time. Instead time is valued for its leisure, for the opportunity that one has to share life, talks, joy and community with one another. Food is often used as the center for which to spend time with one another. Both the act of preparation and the act of eating and dining with one another is apart of this form of daily life. <br /> <br />The Indigenous Mayan community plays a large part of nearly everyone’s culture and heritage. The Indigenous hold a true and rich value for people, family and friends. If someone began to plant a milpa, the community automatically joined to assist in the planting of rows of corn. If someone began to cook, food was made to share with the entire community. The entire community acted and continues to hold tightly to the value of unity, and it has played a large influence in the socialization of modern Guatemalans who have fallen out of most Indigenous traditions. All in all, the value of people is one of the most treasured aspects of their community. Unity and community share a large role in the character of God and the mentality and mindset that he calls the Church to use. <br /><br />The dedication and faithfulness of the people is a value most affluently seen within the Church setting, indifferently both within the Catholic and Evangelical world. There is an incredible faithfulness is attached to very label of an evangelical. Their dedication is seen in their loyalty to the church. While they attend nearly every service and dedicating their lives to the legalistic rules of the church, every thought goes throughout out the day is done so with faithfulness. Through looking at every part of their life through the eyes of the church their dedication to God is seen. In good times and in bad, authenticity of their hearts is seen. Both when there is no food in the house, no clothes to cover their children and nothing more than a roof to cover their heads from the fierce rain but also when there is enough to go around their true dedication is seen. As for me, in times when I have nothing I find it the easiest to be at the feet of Jesus, but at times when I lack nothing I find it the most difficult to be on my knees in prayer. The church prays on their knees, tired and desperate from a long and hard day’s work, they rest their bodies on hard wood benches. Sometimes for hours, they kneel praying and begging God for every need. <br /><br />Dedication to their family unit is an extravagant value of the Latin culture. The love, support and community found within the family is a direct affect of their utmost loyalty to one another. It is an unmistakable value of their culture. Seen through their close ties, affection and support for one another in all that they do. <br /><br />The Guatemalan culture holds many truths inside that obscure the direction and decisions that one takes. There is both beauty and unsightly things that come out of the truth that most abide by what it is to have faith like a child, as God calls us. At times, this is good and at times, it is bad. However, because of lack of proper education and the ability to think for oneself many are left with the inability to question. This has dramatic effects within the church, as everyone takes everything the Pastor says as truth. Many refuse to look up and read scripture for themselves and there is little challenging and questioning of what anyone says. Therefore, theology has wide ranges within this culture and there are such drastic differences between many of the churches. Many say that the other Churches are not Christians as they wear pants or play soccer. If the people knew scripture and knew it well, they would understand that different culture adhere to different rules however only God can be the judge of one’s actions and rules. <br /><br />Traditions is apart of the deep roots of the culture. I have lacked the opportunity to be apart of many of the traditions of the culture as the Evangelical Church claims that many of them are Satanic. However, I have had the opportunity to witness the celebration of the Quinciñera, or the 15th birthday of the girls. It is a once in a lifetime event to have your Quinciñera and it is almost like a wedding. However, it celebrates the coming out of the daughter of the family, from girl to women. In the church, her life is dedicated to God and after a festival takes place with a feast. This is a beautiful and highly important tradition in the Latin culture. <br /><br />Many other festivals and traditions occupy the year’s calendar in Guatemala. Semana Santa, otherwise known as Holy Week, is one of the largest celebrations in Guatemala. People from all over the world come to Antigua to view the large and extravagant processions. Their processions are miles long, walking on floral streets, carried by men and women of the Catholic Church on shoulder. The floats are some of the best in the world. However, all over Guatemala, the week and its traditions are not taken lightly and with all the community has they use to celebrate this week. Dia de Los Muertos, in October is a huge festival, where all join their loved ones at the cemetery to celebrate their lives, pray over the dead and feast with them, as they bring their favorite foods to the gravesite. During Dia de la Bruja in May, in Machaquilá there is a grand festival where everyone parades around the town to the Catholic Church with a roasted pigs head, and there is a young woman from the community nominated to be the Queen of this grand festival. There are many other festivals and traditions, each depend upon the town and area as to what pertains their community celebrates, what one town might celebrate is not necessarily what the neighboring town celebrates as well. <br /><br />As Machaquilá in the Petén of Guatemala holds these different values, truths and traditions found within the community, each are expressed differently both revealed and concealed within my home culture. The value of people and relationships in the urban streets of the United States is not usually a major value of the culture. Instead, we build walls, large doors and attach locks to keep out our neighbors. We construct bigger houses to push away our family and put doors on every room to shut out and privatize our lives. We manage our time as if every minute counts; time is money and therefore must be used as such. We spend our time running errands as fast as we can, scurrying through the streets and wasting our time in traffic jams. We have more inhuman contact with computers, digitalized machinery, cars and music than we have with humans. <br /><br />Our meal times are on the go, very rarely do we have the time to sit as a family and eat dinner together, as there are always more extracurricular activities to add, soccer games to play and Girl Scout meetings to attend. We eat fast food in the car while scurrying to the next event to check of our lists. Rarely is there ever time to dine together unless it is set out on the calendar or made special by a night at the Restaurant. <br /><br />The dedication and faithfulness of my home culture takes a different route than does the same value in Machaquilá. Dedication and faithfulness takes more of the form of responsibility and often obligation. Faithfulness to God normally takes the form of a very personal and often private relationship with Jesus. It is to him that all is answered, not anyone in the community. If one does not go to church on Sunday, the world does not fall apart and the whole congregation is not all over you. However, by having only to answer to God, this takes a new form of faithfulness as by having to answer to the community converts this faithfulness to a sense of obligation. <br />In the truths of the community, the greatest differences lie in the education factor. While the people of Guatemala have an extreme lack of education, many in the United States have achieved a much higher education as its accessibility allows. Higher education primarily teaches the principle to independently think and question everything. It is this that reflects the type of church and the type of faith that is carried out. While the Church in the United States is based upon scholarly Juans and a congregation who does not just accept everything they hear, but instead searches out truths for themselves.<br /><br />Each culture holds beautiful values, truths and traditions while others are little less than beautiful. The one value that I would give anything to apply in my life is the value of family, friends of people in general and relationship in the Latin culture. However, I realize that to gain this, I would be fighting against an entire culture and atmosphere to input this into my lifestyle. The greatest fight would be against the differences in the culture of time. Without time dedicated to one another, and a slow-paced atmosphere, there would be a large hindrance put on the formation of this type of relationship. The entire atmosphere of the culture plays a role in taking in these relationships, I would need to not only change the meaning of time, but also tear down the walls that stand between neighbors and break down the doors within the house. <br /><br />Intimate relationship and value of people is a beautiful thing, with time and perseverance it might be implemented into a lifestyle in a completely different culture.Megan Sieverthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05178982284157302950noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9039283133344575434.post-54859304459630720972007-08-17T01:14:00.000-07:002007-12-12T12:16:36.186-08:00August 5, 2006It is the victories and triumphs of our life that make and establish who we are and what we are to become. Our goals lead us through dark alleys where we must maneuver our way up down and around the unseen hits and blows of what seems to be our enemies. Yet we tread on, fighting the fight, to overcome. Through this passage, we are reassured of our being, of who we are and what we stand for. Often we find or confirm what we live for our passion and our future. Memories ravel themselves with the rest of life, and in certain journeys, rights of passage are earned. For this, life continues to contradict itself and the war of two world’s wages on. <br /> <br />In Guatemala, I must celebrate one victory. It is the beginning of new life and new love, as it is also the end to dreams and fairytales. My visions and dreams of foreign land have been short lived. As a child and throughout my life, I only dreamed of the moments that I would make a home in a distant land. It was there that I knew I would feel truly at peace and alive, with a different people. It never mattered what I would be doing, as long as I was in some way helping in unity with the people in whatever the need was. The possibilities were endless of what I could see myself pursuing, but none of that mattered as long as found a place with the people, and my life was serving our Lord. Life in Guatemala is now real to me, I know their stories and they in tern know my own. My dreams are no longer far fetched; my visions are not only words but also substantive verbs. <br /><br />Their lives have become reality, their struggle; beauty and celebration are real and alive in my mind. I have come to understand and to live, once unanswerable questions about their culture and lives I once learned and pondered. The people are no longer unfamiliar picture seen in books and films. They are people that have welcomed me into their lives, who I have spent days with passing by. People I have joined to both celebrate and to cry and faces that I have come to know and identify. The children have grabbed my heart and ripped it out; they have turned my life upside down. I join the children in the field to play, at the river to swim, in the street to ride bikes and ‘bailar trompos,’ and am often sought out for help with homework. I attend the church with the women, sing and clap to the same hymns and songs of praise. I often join them at the river to wash laundry by hand or to cook in the kitchen. Frequently I end up sitting outside by hammock delighting in the day’s beauty. I often join the men at the dinner table to chat, I sometimes serve drinks under the hot sun while they are hard at work, and have been known to pick of a shovel and mix cement. I can identify their struggle and celebration, as it one that I too have lived, if only for a short time. <br /><br />In Machaquilá, I have come to understand many struggles within the home setting. I know the faces of fathers who rape their daughters; I sit next to them in church every Sunday. In fact, he dedicated his new baby girl in Church just two Sundays ago, and yes, the Pastors know. Praise God that his eldest daughter continues to not bear her father’s child, as does another on the outskirts of town. I know the eyes of a brother who rapes his sister. I know a woman who is secretly are unfaithful to their husbands, and prostitutes her body for a higher education. I know a woman who, while her husband was in the United States sending money back home from New York, was enjoying her newfound wealth with another man. Her kids left in the street while she hosted men in her home on fine dining, while her children ate scraps and uncooked food. It is not unfamiliar to find women whose children are by other men and not their husbands. I know a man who has other children by mistresses, and his wife suffers financially as he has begun to support them with their hard-earned money. Most children run around in the streets without the firm hand of their parents needing to know where they are. The family system is a difficult aspect to understand, there seems to be no real patterns within infidelity as unfaithfulness is as prevalent among men as it is among women. <br /><br />Jobs in Machaquilá leave some families destitute while others are thriving. The fight and struggle for work is constant in this town, as in most of Guatemala. The history and discrimination found within land distribution, has left those working in agriculture to struggle. Farmers and lack of land have put a wedge within families, as it has forced landowners to travel to their land, men often leave home for the month or for the week to work their land. With men out of the house, this creates opportunity for infidelity for either one of the couple.<br /><br />Lack of a good income further yet allows for the options of unlawful activities such as drug trafficking and robbery to thrive in communities. Murders and violence are especially frequent. Within just the last month, my friends and family here have suffered the lose of so many. Just yesterday both a little girl was hit by a car and died and a friend of the neighbors’ family died by lack of medical attention. The pain that the people experience, I experience with them. Within this last month, two of Miguel’s co-workers have been murdered, a woman in Dolores was severely beaten and left to die, and a man was shot out on the street while riding his Moto. My heartbreaks with them as I watch poverty and violence tear apart families. <br /><br />Lack of education and good education has forced many to work fields, construction, transportation and education. The school system is made up of Kinder, Primeria, Basico and Diversificado that are very closely modeled after the educational system of the United States. It is Diversificado where a specialization is chosen such as Magisterio for teachers, Inginerio for engineers and so on. Most are trapped into Magisterio for financial and economic reasons, and this is where the cycle of bad education is perpetuated, for lack of passion and training. After nine years of basic education and three years of training as a teacher, they are sent out in the field on their own. Taught by teachers who often barely read at the sought out level of academic performance and care little about formal education the kids leave Basico with little more than the ability to read and write. <br /><br />There are two types of Churchgoers in Guatemala, Evangelicals and Catholics. <br />There is a distinct line between the two types of people, if anyone chooses one church over the other, his character is then determined by his decision. The Catholic is almost never considered a Christian; many participate in the things of the world, including many Satanic Festivals. If an Evangelical were to enter the Catholic Church and take communion, it is considered blaspheme to God, along with the other acts of the Church. The Evangelical Church system in Guatemala thrives itself on the legalities of the Christian life. A Christian, more specifically referred to as an Evangelico, is defined by the life he follows and every action he takes is closely perceived and then judged for him. Parties, dancing, drinking, non-Christian music, any association with this type of lifestyle is strictly forbidden. Attendance at nearly every service is the unspoken mandatory for being perceived as a ‘good’ Christian. <br /><br />I have accustomed myself to all of these things, and it is within this, that my victory is won. My heartaches and breaks with the people, as friendships have been built that will last a lifetime, for all their suffering and pain. I have lived, loved, cried and laughed with the people who have become my family. It is not that I agree with every action and every form of life, especially in my thoughts about the Church. In fact the Church’s legalism, has been my toughest trial, but I have endured the lifestyle. Paul writes in I Corinthians 9:20-21, <br />When I am with the Jews, I become one of them so that I can bring them to Christ. When I am with those who follow the Jewish laws, I do the same, even though I am not subject to the law, so that I can bring them to Christ. When I am with the Gentiles ho do not have the Jewish law, I fit in with them as much as I can. In this was I gain their confidence and bring them to Christ. But I do not discard the law of God; I obey the law of Christ. (NLT)<br /><br />While I am not bound to the same laws as the Church, I too must conform myself to their standards as to not offend them. However, I will not change scripture or compromise the truth. His concern was to win them for God’s kingdom, nothing more or less than eternal life. It is here that I have found true peace in my suffering; I proceed on obeying the laws of the church, to bear witness to our Savior. <br />The war between two worlds, my greatest triumph upon my journey, is also my greatest anxiety and heartache. I truly have fallen in love with the beauty of both the people and the land. When I think about the day I have to leave this place and everyday in between, at the very thought my heartaches. My only sense of hope is thinking about the day that I have the chance to return. In the past three months Machaquilá has become apart of me, my home. I have developed deep relationships with the people, both as friends and family. While there have been struggles, there always will be, but the more I come to know these people the more I fell in love with them. My future lays in the hands of God, but until I know my heart will ache as it has been torn in two between a people where I feel I belong, and the other that I have always had my home. I pray my heart will be silenced by time.Megan Sieverthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05178982284157302950noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9039283133344575434.post-8604790211907669422007-08-17T01:10:00.000-07:002007-12-12T12:12:54.298-08:00July 31, 2006Words of affirmation and love and indubitable belief in the Creator and his son were always spoken into my life, from both of my parents. Particularly my mother taught me to live by their lives example. The words my mother spoke were consistent with her actions; her life hardly ever was contradictory to the life she claimed. My mother is and was a prime example of what it was to live a life for Christ. Every morning my mother woke up, before anyone else in the house, to meditate and study the Bible. She often taught Bible studies at the Church, and somehow found it in her to see everything in light of the word of God. Right and wrong were nearly always black and white in her sight, as she had grown up in a legalistic Baptist Church. Somehow despite legalism, I learned to study, research and find out for myself what I believed and why. It was the very idea that my mother knew what she believed and where and how to defend her beliefs that taught me to not believe everything I heard. <br /><br />My parents led by example, I have such vivid memories of the generosity and compassion that flowed from my parents hearts. As a family, we would end up in Queen Creek; we lived in Arizona, many Sunday afternoons at a Migrant workers camp. At the camp, a group of families from our church would meet to serve them a small feast. Every year around Christmas as a family, we would buy thick and cozy blankets and sweatshirts and put them in the trunk of our car. We would drive to downtown Phoenix and hand them out to the people living on the streets. I remember very clearly one Saturday morning that my dad and I woke up around five in the morning to go help out at the food bank together. After working for the morning packing food, we drove through a McDonalds for breakfast. There was a man sitting by the speaker-box, a homeless man, he asked my dad for food or money to buy food, and without a question in his eyes, my dad reached in his wallet and handed him good chunk of money. While I am sure my dad does not remember this moment, it made an everlasting impression on my heart. My dad did not question whether or not he would use the money for drugs or alcohol, he simply gave what he could to the man who was hungry, he fed him. Growing up I was never allowed to say that I was ‘starving,’ if it ever slipped I was quickly hushed with the realization that I had no idea what it was to starve. Children around the world are starving and have not eaten in days or even weeks. These incidents along with many others I learned what it was to have give and have compassion for those truly suffering. If all I have to give is my time and myself, that is worth giving and I learned this from my parents. How better to love somebody than to learn about and know them. <br /><br />My mother always instilled in me the value of independence. Growing up I was repeatedly told and taught to stand on my own two feet. I was always told that I never needed anyone to complete me other than Christ, not a boyfriend or friend. I had the ability, the mind and the will, to educate, support and provide for myself. Not anyone could complete me or support me but myself and Jesus Christ, a daily theme in my house. <br /><br />The values and qualities that guide me through this journey have undoubtedly derived from the example and teachings of my parents. My parent’s hearts taught me to feel compassion and love the poor. It is from their guide that I have been given the spiritual gift of mercy. To give and give generously with anything I had. My constant struggle is dealing with the Latin American, legalistic Nazarene Church; it is my love for my mother and her journey of escaping of legalism that has given me patience to tread on. My mother always instilled in me self-dependence and reliance, and a strong belief system. From this, I developed the courage to venture off on my own, to go, to continue to tread on, and to strive to learn and just be with people. <br /><br />Upon embarking on my journey, I did not have many expectations of where I would find guides and mentors. I only knew that when the time came, God would provide. For some reason, I had the idea that I needed to be apart of a Church. Almost like a dream or vision that God gave me. It was where I would find a safe haven of brothers and sisters in Christ, where I would be able to let my guard down and be accepted without having to prove myself. What was different about this was that my plans had included nothing to do with a Church. I was to be working with a non-religious organization, at Lake Atitlán. However, my plans included this illusion of the need to find a home and place in the local Church. It was in the Church that I knew I had to go to find something, while I did not know what it was that I needed to find. <br /><br />When I arrived in Guatemala, my insecurities about my previous plans began to unravel. It was then that I began to urgently pray for God to ravel up a new plan, the one he already had prepared. As I expressed my concern to the Pastors of the Nazarene Church in Machaquilá, where my group had been working for the first month, they quickly began to assure me that Lake Atitlán is not where God wanted to use me. We sat and prayed for where God would have me, and they proceeded to assure me that they would continue to pray that God would lead me and help me find my place in Guatemala. Suddenly Hermana Elsy began to throw out all these different ideas. She excitedly expressed great interest in being apart of my journey and immediately decided she would take the role of my mother as I was away from my family. She told me “You can of course live with us and work at our Compassion Project.” Nevertheless, she decided that this was not the best idea, as she recognized that this Project was not well organized and needed a lot of help. She decided that one of the larger, more experienced organizations would be where I could learn the most. She began to throw out all these ideas, “You could of course live with my parents, who have a huge house near Rio Dulce, and work at the orphanage Casa Guatemala. This orphanage hosts street children from all over Guatemala and you would be able to work and live in the dorms it provides or with my parents. There is even a well-known NGO working with Keq’chi’s in Rio Dulce named Ak’Tenamit. Where you could both live and work.” She then offered to look into all of the options, and told me to continue to pray for God’s guidance. <br /><br />I returned to Antigua with my team and continued to pray. When the team left, I stayed there for a week, began my work and started settling in on what God had for me. After that week, I decided to make my way up to Machaquilá to see the Pastors. I called them to confirm my plans, and Elsy immediately was ready to come and pick me up in the City, a seven-hour ride from the town. I insisted that I would be fine making the trip on my own; it just did not make sense for her to come all the way there only to return. I then, alone, made the trip up to the small town of 4,000. When I arrived there was a complete trip planned to Rio Dulce, a room awaiting me at Elsy’s parents house, and plans to visit the projects. This unexpected help came to me by the grace of God. While none of the organizations worked out and there were huge lacks in communication due to language barriers, Elsy wanted what was best for me. She then invited me to live with her family in Machaquilá and work at the Compassion International Project. This unforeseen help came as quite a pleasant surprise, and while at times it is difficult to live at a church, I know this is where I am supposed to be. Ironically, my prior intuitions about my need to be apart of the Church in Guatemala, had been proven to be helpful visions.Megan Sieverthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05178982284157302950noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9039283133344575434.post-80487876734579815182007-08-17T00:40:00.000-07:002007-12-12T12:08:53.093-08:00July 19, 2006I ventured off on this journey with what I thought was a good context and knowledge of Guatemalan life and culture. While I now believe, I began with a good foundation it was only the beginning of a journey whose roads would twist and turn in all directions. What was this simplistic Latin culture, relational and family oriented, hard working but lax with time and machismo and affectionate, hurt and devastated by a 36-year long civil war. Somehow became complex, a people devastated by dictatorship, civil war the CIA, corrupt police, social cleansing groups, struggling with racism and oppression, drug trafficking, deadly violence, robbers, gangs, family struggles, divorce, mistresses and other men, lack of arable land, deforestation, landslides, floods, poverty and devastation. This society somehow developed into something so much more, a complex puzzle that I do not know how or if I will ever be able to solve. The reality of devastation and hurt of these people has slowly crept into my being. A series of events, each I clearly recall, have altered my view. <br /><br />Within the first few days of arrival, Hermana Elsy took me to San Antonio Seja, a small town just north of Rio Dulce. My previous view of their family and marriage was completely flipped upside-down, while I had it in my mind that everything in Latin culture was weaved around the family…it is not that simple. It is there that I met her whole family, and there were she grew up. The whole family, except Elsy and her younger brother, continues to live in San Antonio Seja with their families. I was welcomed into her parents’ house, and immediately I could feel tension well up inside Elsy. I met her father and whom I later came to know as her stepmother, whom tension and hatred stemmed from, as well as the stepmother’s mother who was also living in the house. We later walked through across the street to visit her brother and sister-in-law and children. We repeated this three more times, as four out of five of her brothers and their families live as neighbors in this small community. While the other, the youngest, is working in Puerto Barrios, only an hour away, for the Municipal. <br /><br />It was our last visit that I started to feel her hurting heart. It was at the house of her eldest brother, Tomás, who was often like a father to her. The only family that came to her wedding and the only family that has ever visited them in Machaquilá. This grand burly sort of man grandly welcomed us with his fifteen-year-old daughter Celia, who was ecstatic to see her aunt. We proceeded to sit and talk, when her sister-in-law walked in and proceeded directly to the back, where her mother lives, without greeting or making contact with anyone. I saw the hurt in all three of their eyes, especially in the eyes of Celia. Both she and her mother are pure Que’qchi, traje tipica, typical dress and all. I later came to find out that for over fifteen years Celia’s mother has been seeing another man. Elsy has caught her, many times both in this house and in Poptún, the city near Machaquilá, as that is where he lives. The wife has often lied, said she was going to Elsy’s house to visit, and instead goes to Poptún to see him. It is then that she resents Elsy, both for her knowledge and her faith. Both Celia and Tomás do not know, but Celia is not his biological daughter, but rather of the other man. <br /><br />Later on that evening, after all the brothers were visited, we walked back to her father’s large house. I had to soak it all in, it was such a blessing to be able to meet the whole family and to be welcomed in such a generous manner. Now, as I stared at this house, it was extremely large and kept so many secrets I still had to uncover. The front of the house was used for the father’s large and prosperous business, selling construction supplies. Just behind the shop lay the grand kitchen on the other side of which lay a grand open room where a large dinning table lay. Only up the stairs was a grand patio surrounded by more than eight separate bedrooms and two different bathrooms, unheard of here. The vast wealth of her father was clearly displayed, the fruits of a hard working person.<br /><br />All of a sudden, Elsy asked me to follow her as she whispered that she wanted me to meet her real mother. I followed her on what I assumed would be a long journey to the outskirts of the town, when we stopped right after her father’s property. Directly behind her father’s expansive building lay a quaint one-bedroom house made of scrap wood. Quietly walking into the house, lit by one light bulb, we sat waiting for her mother’s reaction. The she clearly wore her years upon her face, clearly displaying her age. She wore her poverty with her simple clothes and now simple life; the years had not been kind to her. The one prized possession was her chicken, who sat in a basket near the window. She was old, shaky and seemed disillusioned, it was hard to watch Elsy look at her, as the pain in her heart deepened. I still did not the past, but seeing Elsy’s heart so beaten and tired I could not help but feel the emotional drain of her pain. We only stayed for a few minutes, as one of her brothers entered in his underwear. I could see the embarrassment, disgrace and fear in her eyes. He was completely drunk, like most nights for the past five years; his wife had left him for an opportunity to go to the United States. He immediately wanted to play with his niece Lizbeth who had quietly been with us. He picked her up and took her outside, for a minute they were within view but as soon as they left our sight, it was time to go. I sensed Elsy’s fear for her daughter and quickly said goodbye to her mother, while Elsy’s goodbye was also quite brief, we snatched Lizbeth and walked around to the house. <br /><br />We snuck back into the house through a side door, and passed through two large business trucks, one of which I later found out was stolen, despite the families money. We wove in and out of the trucks and construction supplies until we reached the stairs. I could feel the pain seep out of her heart; she felt helpless. I followed Elsy into my room where she very quietly told me that when we returned home tomorrow she would tell me the whole story, as we would cause problems in the house if we were to talk about it here. <br /><br />After we returned home, she told me the whole story, as Elsy told me with tears in her eyes. Her mother had left her father and kids when Elsy was young, for another man in the City. Her father remarried only six months later to a woman who wanted him for his money. Ever since, the stepmother proceeded to hide the wealth and act as if the family had little to nothing, even though the children knew different. The kids often went hungry and never had the clothing, toiletries or school supplies they needed, and resorted to steeling from local stores. <br /><br />I later heard the story of Miguel's family, who is very poor and had seen the treachery of unfaithfulness. Miguel is the eldest of ten children, who Miguel calls father, is not his biological father as is true for many of the other kids. After Miguel left for Seminary in Guatemala City, his mother unhappy with his choice, decided to leave her father and children for another man. As the eldest, Miguel felt the pressure to return home every weekend to look after and often provide for his brothers and sisters, more than a seven-hour trip. His mother soon returned home, but the other men never faded. <br /><br />Throughout my time in Machaquilá, the social problem of unfaithfulness in marriage has been revealed to me repeatedly. I want to tell you of just a few, so that you may understand the intensity and density of the situation. I have seen the devastation of an unfaithful spouse, in nearly every family I have met and probed further into their family life. Beginning with Kendi’s parents, the nanny of the house. Kendi has five brothers and sisters, the first two are from her husband, who later left her, and the last three are from another man who is now her boyfriend. The impact of a stepfather in this culture is treacherous, as if a child is not of your own blood, then they are not treated well. Often stepfathers are known to be physically, verbally and sexually abusive to their children. Kendi’s stepfather is suspected, but no evidence can be held against him. Kendi knows her situation, but was blessed to receive a last name that does not submit her to public humiliation. It is Guatemalan tradition that all have two last names, the first from their father and the last from their mother. It is then obvious when a child does not know a father. On a small side note, this is cultural idea that you do not help or treat a child that is not of your blood well, is ultimately, why within country adoption is not accepted by society and therefore usually remains a secret. <br /><br />In the case of the Hermano, all is well in the house now, but a year ago, there was chaos. After years of marriage, his wife began to see another man. She would even bring him into the house while he was away working. So he decided that he could not put up with it anymore and fled to work in the U.S. in both Texas and New York. This was quite common, but to do so, he stole a large truck with some friends and ventured up through Mexico. During this time of his departure, the mother and fifteen-year-old daughter hosted men in their home, one for each. They were with men, drank and completely neglected the other three younger children who then spent the time in the street in front of the house. He would call the Pastors to check in on his kids, he was there less than a year when the Pastors pleaded him to return, as his children needed him. He finally returned three months after that phone call, to work things out with his wife for his kids. He ended up staying at the Pastors house for two-weeks, often the kids came over to visit and eat family meals with their father. He finally moved back in the house, and began to work on things with his wife. Cindy, their youngest daughter is not his biological daughter, Cindy does not know. He, despite his knowledge, treats her as if she is his own. Things between them are still not perfect, but he is willing to try. <br /><br />A Hermana and her husband have a two-year-old son whom they adopted together. On and off he leaves her for another woman. He lives with the other woman and sometimes returns home, a year ago, he claimed he would stop, but needed financial help. He had to have three other men with outstanding bank records cosign for a large loan to get him on his feet; the Pastor was one of these men. The other woman is now pregnant and he refuses to leave her as she is carrying his baby. He has now fled to Puerto Barrios with the lady, gotten an apartment and pays all her bills. A week ago, he returned to her, he stays throughout the day, and eats meals with her and and the boy. However, when the sun goes down he returns to his pregnant mistress. Last week there was a huge fight between the couple, he hit her and the Pastors were called to go over and help. <br /><br />Another aspect in which I have seen take a toll on the community, is its struggle with Drug trafficking. It just so happened that the Family had saved and stored all their newspapers for over two years in their still yet to be redone office. I had been searching through all of the newspapers, every Prensalibre that I could find, starting from most recent and working backward. When I started to notice a pattern, just about every other day was an article about Narcotraffico, or Drug Trafficking in the Petén. As we live in the Petén of Guatemala, this immediately alarmed me, and I proceeded asked them about everything I found. <br /><br />They told me of the drug trade’s expansive roots, and warned at the dangerousness of talking or expressing interest in the subject. As many in the community are blatantly involved, they would have no problem killing to get rid of anyone who had interests in taking down their prosperous business. Just last year three young teenagers from Machaquilá, involved in the trade, were killed over drug disputes. Many women loose their husbands and children loose their fathers to the violence that comes with the trade. Just last night two large trucks quickly flew down the road well after eleven o’clock; Hermana Elsy looked at me with a scowl and said ‘narcos.’ Every week or so, a helicopter lands across the river at a ‘tomato’ finca. While tomatoes are grown, there so is marijuana, hidden within the bushes. Many men in Machaquilá work in the mountains cutting xate, a Guatemalan plant, for individual sale in the cities. Not all but certainly most, work in trafficking drugs. The xate is used to package, transport and conceal drugs, especially cocaine and marijuana. With this said, drugs and the violence and wreckage they bring are apart of the un-talked about problems of daily life in Machaquilá. <br /><br />It is at these moments that I received the insight and knowledge, enough to allow me to feel a part of their pain and struggle. This is the daily life and struggle of the people in the Petén of Guatemala. There is the struggle for an ideal romance and family life where all passions are secure in faithfulness. The family struggle added to the struggle for civil peace, and freedom from the violence and brutality of the drug trade. Just these two subjects and my encounters with how greatly effect this community has taken my previous inferences about the simplicity of the culture to be turned upside down. The Guatemalan society is not a culture you can assign absolutes, or simply combine it as the same in all Latin culture. Life here is distinct, different and is made up of many layers that I am still trying to peel back and understand.Megan Sieverthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05178982284157302950noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9039283133344575434.post-68974366995230706352007-08-17T00:37:00.000-07:002007-08-17T00:40:23.643-07:00July 10, 2006The frustration that consumes my very being overwhelms my every thought and even proceeds to enter into my encounters with people. It cannot be possible to be anymore discouraged, and irritable than I am now. I am lonely, confused, tired and exhausted. An array of emotions swarms within me; so much that I feel the craze physically wearing upon my body. What I desire now, I cannot decide, as my wishes collide in confliction. If only just for one day I was to just be. <br /><br />I cry for doors on my walls instead of curtains, for even just a little bit of privacy. I just want to be alone, to not be touched, smothered or hugged. I desire, what is to me, a normal human contact, one that respects boundaries and is sadly somewhat distant. I crave the company of my family and closest friends. Nevertheless, a companion who speaks my mother tongue, really anybody would do. I desire to run far away, where no one can find me. I wish for no special treatment, to walk down the street without people staring. I dream of not being any different. I dream of solitude. I am lonely, but I want to be alone. <br /><br />Everything within my body aches of confusion. Why is this anxiety just now rushing through my system? A little context will help you to understand. I am living with the Pastor’s family at the Church, I live, eat and breathe what is good, right, just and holy. I attend service one or two times each day (except for Friday). The Church is not only Nazarene but is also influenced by Latin Culture and is therefore, extremely conservative and legalistic. The affects of this continually religious lifestyle and a legalistic and conservative church system have drained me. Every service is preached in a different tongue than my own. Yes, I do speak some Spanish, but I am by no means fluent. The praises, songs, prayers and sermons are spoken so quickly that it is hard to catch little more than the general idea that is purveyed. You then wonder why God put me here. He placed me in a Church and this constant religious lifestyle, to do what… allow me to grow in my walk with him. Then why is it that I cannot seem to benefit from these spiritual disciplines, songs of praise, the prayers, nor even the sermons. Is this a cruel and unusual punishment? It is then that you wonder how I could feel this spiritually unfulfilled. <br /><br />For me, each service is little more than times in which I must show up in a skirt, stand and clap and then sit. You must wonder why I cannot use this very time to sing songs of praise in my own tongue, read my bible during the sermon or pray in my thoughts. If only it were that easy. The Guatemalan culture asks for songs of praise to be belched from the stomach, leaving your ears and mind no room to block out their unison praise and focus on my own words and songs of adoration to God. I have at times managed to get some very prosperous Bible reading done during this time, but with the constant threat of the congregation wanting to see the text in English; it is hard to read from where I last left off. I have however, managed to use the kneeling prayer altar as my place of prayer, this, the only spiritual discipline that I have managed to repeat without fail or obstacle. <br /><br />Being religious is something that I will never strive to be. In fact, I struggle with what religion has done to spirituality. Religion has placed and trapped God in a box. Legalized what is good and bad, right and wrong in forms of worship, intimacy with God, and even lifestyle. It is so often that the Church completely misses the point of Christ’s words by burying what should be the lifestyle of a Christ follower in repetitious forms of worship. Rare is the Institution of the Church what Paul describes in Acts or even close to living the life that Jesus proclaimed. Who has the authority to declare what is and is not worship, to limit and categorize our spiritual life? <br /><br />I am tired and exhausted. More than anything, my head hurts from a constant need to translate Spanish to English and English to Spanish. I am the only person who speaks English, at least within ten miles. I attend Church service and am required to follow along, as even I am asked trivial questions that assure an attentive audience, during the sermon. I have even been hassled about how I do not yet know all the words to enough worship songs to lead worship, alone. Not only does my head hurt from translating, but also it as if I cannot turn off the inquisitiveness that lies within every pending thought. Sometimes I just wish that I left well enough alone, and did not have this need to go deeper beyond the surface. I just wish I could somehow drown out my thoughts and let my brain just rest in tranquility. <br />What brought all of this horrid emotion to engulf my soul? I am at a Youth Camp, a weekend of non-stop Spanish church service, to top them all off. Except I am a twenty one year old, rooming with thirteen year olds, listening to purity ‘sex talks’ with young teens. I am not the only young adult here, but I feel like it. The culture’s mixture of the ages and stages of life is quite drastically different from back home. If I am asked one more time if I have any questions about sex or purity I might just break out screaming. If I have to sit and listen to one more worship song or sermon in Spanish, these people are not going to like what is going to come out of me. I am about to have a nervous breakdown, I have held all of this in for way too long. I need an outlet.<br /><br />This is the epitome of it all. This is my wall, and I too will climb it, but only after I am allowed to retreat. My one weapon against the craze and rush of frustration is to retreat, which takes forms such as relaxation, sleep and a time to just be alone, silent and often meditating. My host family, God has truly blessed me; they encourage me to rest, relax and take time to myself. While they encourage me to do so, there is not much time for privacy to enter into solidarity between God and me. While the Church congregation has curiously probed as to why I am not always free to play, roam around or join in constant work. My host family, the Pastors, have taken to explaining to others, without my ever needing to explain to them, that the culture, food and lifestyle is one that I am not accustomed to and that I therefore need time alone to rest. However, at this ‘Campamento Juvenil’ or ‘Youth Camp’ I was left without my host family, in my greatest time of need. I knew then that my needing to flee the premises of the Camp, away from the blaring Spanish worship and presence of the youth, would truly offend many of them. It was either I stay, have an anxiety attack and show them a very unchristian side of me, or I retreat to the very touristy poolside hammocks. When I was found wandering back, I had to gently and quickly explain that the language barrier was hard for me to deal with. As soon as I explained, by the look on their faces, I was quickly forgiven and even encouraged. <br /><br />As I reflect on the anxiety and emotions that once took me over, they allowed me to reflect on my view of the world, how our culture and socialization defines who we have become. Different cultural behaviors and expectations are perceived and regarded differently in each culture. I am placed into a lifestyle and culture where there are little to no boundaries and relationships take the utmost priority. As there is no privacy, everyone knows everything about everyone, little is held back, and there is little to be embarrassed about. In Machaquila, this community shares their lives, experiences, struggles and their triumphs together. When a neighbor prepares a special meal or pastel, a good amount is without question brought to the neighbor to share in the joy and celebration. When a neighbor has marital problems and is left with no bed to rest, without question, he is given a home with the neighbors until all is resolved. When one needs prayer, he is prayed over. When one needs food, he is given food and so much more. This community lives in what might be a pure and simplistic solidarity. The love and community of Christ manifests itself within their unity. In a place where there is little privacy and little to hide. <br /><br />I now realize that for so long I have hesitated from living in true community. Whether it is how I was socialized or life experiences that have cause me to withdrawal from truly sharing my life with others, I have hardened my heart. However, it is a life in true community that reflects the unity in which Christ calls us. The light shed on this matter here in Guatemala has left me with a new concept of how a lifestyle of unity is simple. We build walls around our houses to keep others out, and doors on our bedroom and bathroom walls. We build walls around our lives, our minds and even our hearts. When we let someone in that only hurts us, we automatically retreat and harden our hearts to others as a form of defense. As a result, we have hardened ourselves to the joys of life found in simple and authentic relationship. <br /><br />It is my admiration and my belief that infusion will allow me the opportunity to adapt to this culture. At times it is hard and others refreshing. There have been times that I have taken to feeling sorry for my situation. It is only then that I am awakened to the truth. I asked to be here and I still want to be here. I continue to believe that it is where God wants me, to learn and serve. There is so much that he still has to teach me from this people and this place. This is my journey and I will cling to the healing power of Jesus to refresh my soul and awaken a new life of true and right relationship with friends and family. While at times I am forced to retreat, I cling to times of meditation to refresh and energize my will to proceed. I look forward to the day, when I am strong enough to apply all I have learned at home, a very different society.Megan Sieverthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05178982284157302950noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9039283133344575434.post-24424238051432810722007-08-17T00:33:00.000-07:002007-08-17T00:37:51.285-07:00July 5, 2006Last October fifth Hurricane Stan hit the Coasts and Highlands of Guatemala and other parts of Central America. This devastating event destroyed lives, land, homes and the health of many. Specifically in Lake Atitlán, Stan hit hard. Surrounding Lake Atitlán lay three large Volcanoes, large towns and villages; these saw the bulk of the devastation. The rivers that lead to the Lake all flooded and caved in, destroying every house that had lied within a mile. <br /><br />In Panabaj, a small village behind Santiago Atitlán sits directly between two large Volcanoes. Panabaj is where two thousand of its people lay buried in there homes. Stan hit at three in the morning, without any warning, there was a hug crash and with that, the Volcano’s soil ran crashing through two pathways and covered the village, fifteen feet high in most areas. It buried sleeping families in their homes, shops, schools and Municipal facilities. In this specific village, not much Government and International help was given. Internationally they claimed that this event could easily happen again and there was nothing stopping it, as there was grave danger in living in between two Volcanoes. Therefore, they would not give any aid to rebuild this hurting village. Many did not understand why they would live there in the first place, volcanic soil is extremely fertile and Lake Atitlán, by the Mayans, considered ‘the center of the universe.’ Internationally, minimal assistance was given to the rebuilding of Lake Atitlán and its infrastructure. The Guatemalan Government continues to send relief and construction workers to build cement barriers around the outskirts of the rivers. <br /><br />I had the chance to visit Panabaj last May, the destruction and death beyond overwhelming. I clearly remember that October fifth when the Hurricane hit, I remember my heart breaking as I sat watching the news. Drawn to these people and their pain, I could do nothing but pray that God would heal their hearts, families and their land. As I had the opportunity to come and witness with my own eyes their pain, a rush of emotions entered me. I walked onto one of the two ‘Campo Santos,’ ‘The Holy Fields,’ words would not form from my mouth; I stood in silence and in awe of the destruction. I was standing on a massive burial site, where people lay in their homes, forever sleeping. I was standing five or six feet above their roofs, on soil that drenched their lives both inside and out. I stared at the sides of the volcano, there stood one of the massive trails where the landslide had occurred, and it stood a wide gap between the lush trees. This now desolate place a grave, holy field, lay silent since then, I could not help but notice, the tiny sprouts of fresh greenery that began to form from misery. With death, God brings new life and thus heals the hurting hearts. <br /><br />Throughout the Rainforests of the Petén of Guatemala lay a fragile and diverse ecosystem. A large part still lays untouched, while cattle ranchers, timber merchants and migrants have settled within other parts of this jungle. The jungles are an extension of the southern Yucatan, where 40% is still primary forest. The largest environmental problem in Guatemala is the deforestation of the jungle, for the last thirty years this has been evolving. The Government has implemented a new Reforestation Act, where the people are reimbursed and paid to reforest the land when they are done farming. However, this Act is highly ineffective. <br /><br />The Land Distribution problems lie deep within history. According to the history recorded in Schlesinger and Kinzer’s Bitter Fruit: The Story of the American Coup in Guatemala, during the Colonial Era, the land was taken from the Indigenous Mayans and distributed between, roughly, forty prominent Ladino families. In 1945 as Juan José Arevélo took office the ware of these Colonial Times continued to gravely effect the Guatemalans. At this time, the population growth continued to force the people to live off the same amount of land. While “Two percent of landowners held seventy two percent of available land, and ninety percent of the people together owned just fifteen percent of the productive acreage” (38). Indigenous Mayans were forced to work the plantations by an old system that required 150 days of ‘debt labor’ each year “in lieu of taxes.” Land reforms while written in law did little to give the people land. This combined with Dictators and War that followed Arevélo’s reign in 1945 to 1956, left Guatemala, still now, suffering from fierce discrimination and many without enough land to farm. <br /><br />This history of indifference and war, combined with population growth has left families fighting for land, using the steepest mountains as fertile terrain, and clearing massive amounts of the forests. Lack of education and awareness has lead to poor crop rotation, and therefore a struggle to find fertile soil, resorting to the most inconvenient and extreme resources. The Rough Guide to Guatemala mentions…<br /><br />Once the trees are removed the soil is highly vulnerable, deprived of its main source of fertility. Exposed to the harsh tropical sun and direct rainfall, an area-cleared forest soon becomes prone to flooding and drought. Recently cleared land will contain enough nutrients for four or five years of good growth, but soon afterwards its usefulness declines rapidly and within twenty years it will be almost completely barren. If the trees are stripped from a large area, soil erosion will stilt the rivers and parched soil will disrupt local rainfall patterns (483). <br /><br />In Machaquila, the town has seen the toll deforestation has taken within the village. Just a few years ago, the climate and temperament of the town was quite drastically different. Covered in trees of the jungle, Ceiba, Mahogany, Aguacate, Ebony and Sapodilla, the town had shade that protected against the fierceness of the tropical sun. After an infestation of an insect destroyed many of the trees, many of the trees had to be removed and the sun and heat of the tropics attacked. As the amount of trees reduced, there was an abrupt realization of their vulnerability to landslides and flooding. Unstable soil does not only affect Machaquila, but is very common in within all of Guatemala. News reports are constantly showing flooding or landslides of villages, as the rainforest is just that, often a constant down poor. The roots of the trees and plants and large boulders stabilize the land. <br /><br />Guatemala’s mountainous highlands, forests, jungle plains, volcanoes and climate often act as if they are an enemy to the people. It is as if there is a constant struggle between the inhabitants and the land and climate. While the people have adapted to their land and climate, it is not a life easily and comfortably lived. The rain is always fierce and spontaneous as if the clouds are angry, even when the sun is shining. The land, muddy but often dry and infertile, temperamental in nature. Rivers are constantly working, giving productive energy to the people, a constant and reliable friend to the people. <br /><br />In the rainforest, it is always raining, hot, and humid. There are tarantulas, snakes, scorpions to say the least, not to mention the ‘Sanqudos’ and Mosquitoes that bite. In the morning, it is hard to sleep past seven or eight as the Roosters are constantly crowing, often beginning at three or four in the morning. When in Machaquila, there are always large puddles from the constant rain. If it starts to down poor then you are stuck wherever it left you, until it passes. I often wonder if it is even worth taking a shower, as you never stop sweating, and they are always freezing cold, even when it is this hot the cold hurts. When the sun goes down, there is no going out as there are no streetlights. There is always the ‘Pavillon,’ or ‘Bug Net’ that has to be draped across the bed perfectly before you can fall asleep. <br /><br />This new world and way of living has taught me what it is to live simply and flexibly. The environment has not been hard for me to cope with; it is only different from what is normal to me. Yes, it is less uncomfortable, as you must work harder and fight the environment to do the simplest things. It is only the larger sized versions of insects that occupy my room, the house and the outside world that have taken some accustoming to. It is only after watching the people who live with them everyday that I am able to mimic their reactions, and I am able to relinquish my fears. The jungles of Guatemala have allowed me to realize how interdependent the people are on their environment.Megan Sieverthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05178982284157302950noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9039283133344575434.post-46703804274175827562007-08-17T00:30:00.000-07:002007-12-12T11:57:04.315-08:00June 27, 2006The community and Church of Machaquila, Poptún, Petén, Guatemala welcomed me in extravagant ways. The Latin culture revolves around the community of family and friends, a culture in which I hope to embed myself and from this bring back apart of their community into my own. As the only one with a fair complexion in the town of four thousand, not only am I the only “gringa” but I am also the only one who speaks English, and therefore have a distinguishable accent. I rarely go unnoticed; receive many blank stares of confusion but many of a kind love. However, the Church that sits just to the right of the Pastor’s quant house where I reside has a wonderfully loving congregation that knows me. The Pastor’s family took me in and made me apart of the family. The two hundred some children of the Compassion Project welcome me with screams and embraces. <br /><br />The Nazarene Church of Machaquila has been overwhelmingly welcoming. They not only hosted my team of thirteen, cooked breakfast, snack, lunch and dinner, and washed our clothes in the river. They shared their lives, hearts and families with us. Now that I am here alone, many have invited me into their homes, and to the River to wash clothes. They are constantly embracing me, telling me how grateful they are that I am here. Many have brought over food; I believe someone brought us a chicken today. They have all been so kind and welcoming, I wish I could give and help as much as they say I do.<br /><br />The Pastors family has been more than amazing. They honestly make me feel right apart of the family and right at home. Elsy, the Mother, calls me her daughter. They prayed over where God was leading me when my previous plans in Panajachel with Guatemala Youth Rescue Center were not working. They then offered to take me in and allow me to work with the Church and Compassion Intl. or find whatever other organization they could for me. Elsy then offered her parents house as a place to live and I would be able to work in Rio Dulce at an orphanage called Casa Guatemala or at Ak’ Tenamit. She offered to come and pick me up in Antigua so I would not be alone or get lost, an eight hour bus ride, just to turn around and come right back. When I left Antigua, she had every bus arranged for me to take each with specific instructions, and when I finally arrived in Machaquilá, their son was waiting to carry my bags. We left the next day for Rio Dulce, where we found her amazing family, I had not expected to meet all of her five brothers, their wives and their families, but it was a wonderful surprise. When things fell through with the other organizations, there was no problem, because I was welcomed into their house. When I arrived Ramiro their son, gave his room up for me, I was given curtains and the freedom as if this was my house, to come and go as I pleased (while I knew that culturally, it did not mean much). When I was sick, just like my mother, she held my forehead as I knelt by the toilet and held me tightly. She sat on the side of my bed praying, and I knew I was never alone. She rushed me to the doctor, was worried sick about me, and made sure I received the best care. She continues to make me a special soup while I am sick, and still checks to make sure that I have taken all my medications. Miguel, the Pastor and Father, constantly goes out of his way to converse with me and pray over me. Not to mention, he will not let me pay for anything. Ramiro 14 years old and Lizbeth 3 years old, have done nothing but make me feel at home, they even call me sister. I have the privilege of praying with the family every night and being apart of everything they do. I consider myself beyond blessed in abundance to receive this amount of love and care from such a God fearing, faithful family. <br /><br />The two hundred children of the Compassion Project never cease to make me feel welcome. Groups of little girls and boys huddle around me as soon as I appear tugging on my shirt, poking at my sides along with ceaseless giggling. Mumbling questions such as, ‘Como te llamas,’ ‘Adonde eres,’ ‘Como me llamo,’ ‘Cuantos anos tiene,’ ‘Quiere jugar?’ The little girls adorn my hands with their plastic neon jewelry. There is a large soccer field that sits directly in front of the Church property. After classes, all the little girls beg me to join them to play, I always seem to be attacked from every side, I usually cannot move without fearing that I will tip over onto their little bodies. The joy that comes from seeing their little faces light up when we play tag or sing songs cannot be expressed in words. Their very beings are filled with the most contagious joy and peace that radiates from their smiles. <br /><br />Undoubtedly, I trust the genuineness of their greetings. I would be completely blind if I was not aware that there are some, who seek my sympathy and look for generosity in my pocket book. There is one family in particular that has sought to befriend me, clearly only seeking help. However, their have only been a scarce few who have spoiled the generosity of others. <br /><br />The hearts of the majority have been sincere and open. The hospitality I have encountered, deeply founded in the unconditional love of these God fearing people. This is the only explanation that even touches their generosity. The Latin Culture is weaved around the center of community, the foundation for which all interaction takes place. If ever such a loving community existed, it is within the hearts of these Guatemalans. Their respect and love for all is a clear representation of their lucid and defined culture of community. I do not know of any single Guatemalan that I would consider selfish, they are admirably a truly friendly people of course with exceptions. I am sure that a good amount of curiosity, gratitude, humanity, and love plays its part. Nevertheless, as for these people that long to serve God with the little they have, their loving kindness reflects their walk with Christ. <br /><br />The sincerity of their welcome, begs the question, why do we not show this kind of agape love to others? In the country, that claims its freedom and independence in the name of God, there is complete lack of community. The American Culture screams its identity in the individual self, in all its purely selfish desires and wishes. Many among our American Culture claim to be Christ followers while there are many who are not. Is there even a relative difference between those who claim their stake as followers of Christ and those who claim any different? The Christ we claim to follow speaks of love, compassion, dying to our selfish ambitions and in everything thinking of others as better than ourselves. Where is the love of Christ expressed in our nation built upon the sufferings of many men so that only a few would thrive? It is no wonder that our Capitalistic Society and American Culture have a lack of love for others, when our sole foundation revolves around the self. <br />It is by this Society that we often exploit and use those who are different from us. It is by our idealism founded in the self that we discriminate against guests in our country by their language, color of skin and even the clothes they wear. Many come searching for the opportunity for a better life, and in their search, we beat them down and use them as cheap labor. It is here that we have twisted the very ideals of our so-called Christ Centered Beliefs. I was welcomed here regardless.Megan Sieverthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05178982284157302950noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9039283133344575434.post-71469927714508310042007-08-17T00:19:00.000-07:002007-08-17T00:30:13.515-07:00June 22, 2006The time in which I am to leave and venture off into the unknown has been a long time coming. Each step I seem to take brings me closer to departure, and the more I felt like God has preparing me my whole life for that moment. This is the beginning of new life. In a time when everything inside me screams and aches to change, I know that soon enough that time will befall over me. There will be no more second-guessing; my ceaseless questioning will be long entertained. I know that what awaits me on the other side is peace, a peace only found in truth. For when I am reunited with home and the dear American tale I will forever be changed. <br /><br />I sensed crossing the “Rubicon” of my journey as I led my team of thirteen to the airport in Guatemala City. The team had only been there a month, yet days and weeks prior, the excitement to return to life at home and everything that was comfortable and familiar withstood what was in front of their eyes, the jungles of Guatemala. An adventure that God had for them to take and the chance to open their eyes to new life. There stood the road less traveled, was the road less traveled even considered? What could I have done to change their minds? The griping, grumbling and complaining not only wore on them but it was almost like an evil substance that sought to overtake my belief. Never the less, I tried to not be shaken. <br /><br />There the doors to Guatemala Cities’ Aurora International Airport stood wide open. As the team poured in through the doors without looking back, with one deep breath I marched in. I stood in line as the bags were checked, and again listened to the excitement and joy found in home, family and friends that I would have yet to see for another three months. A piece of me knew how easy it would be to run, all I would have to do is get in the plane and leave all my fears behind but I would be leaving my heart. When it came time to depart, we exchanged embraces, but very formally, I had to force myself not to feel, hoping the extent of what was happening would not hit. Hoping that reality of life in Guatemala now alone, and every type of comfort torn away from me, would later slowly sink in. After my last embraced, my breathe slipped out from inside me and tears began to stream my face. I quickly regained the conscious vision, my belief that this is everything I wanted and where I was supposed to be. I took another deep breathe, sucked every fear back in and mustered up the courage to turn around and look back at the doors wide open. Outside the doors displayed a bustling city that lay behind, but further out of the city held a much simpler and quiet life of Guatemalans. I took one-step towards the door and each one that followed became easier. I marched out the doors into the unknown, my heart pounding… <br /><br />Everything inside me was screaming the very words of a song from Switchfoot, <br />“I dare you to move, I dare you to run…Welcome to the fall out. Welcome to resistance. The tension between who you are and who you could be, between how it is and how it should be…Where you can run to escape from yourself...Maybe we’ve been living with our eyes half open…We were meant to live for so much more, if only we lost ourselves…”<br /><br />I forced myself into the Cab, while an overwhelming sense of pride rushed over me. I had finally embarked upon my journey that was a long time coming…I was finally here. I was off to experience the unknown and venture off into a future that would leave me forever changed. As the cab found its way out of the Airport and off into Guatemala, there was no turning back, my new life awaited me. <br /><br />There have been many willing and eager sojourners that have treaded before me, and many that follow. Each giving me a new and different inspiration to venture. One dared to soar on wings like eagles across the world. And another dared to fly where no one else had gone before. Journeys that took a whole lives preparation. To fulfill dreams and ambitions, in strength and courage. I too am ready to fight the joys and trials of the unknown. Leaving my old self behind, knowing that through this journey; I too would only find the restoration of a new woman, one only found in faith, trials and time.Megan Sieverthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05178982284157302950noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9039283133344575434.post-88728457433499849412007-08-17T00:13:00.000-07:002007-08-17T00:19:51.656-07:00June 14, 2006As I pack for this journey, this adventure, what is difficult is that I have only a very faint idea of what lies ahead. However, returning to a place where I have once been does help. Once known as one who always “over-packed,” I have to conquer my fear of leaving an item, however so slight. Instead I force myself to understand, that wanting something and not being able to indulge myself in it, is half the journey. The more I ponder the idea the deeper it grows. <br /><br />If I am so used to having everything, right at my fingertips, then how is it that I am to relate to the people and the lifestyle of the Third World, to a people that often do not have access to what we have labeled “basic necessities.” What if I was to try to undo who I was socialized to be? What would happen? Who would I then become? If ever my previous visit to Guatemala helped me it was in this respect. The Indigenous, more often than not, hand wash every article of clothing in the river, and hang it to dry. When I say wash, I mean they scrub with bare hands against a wooden plank until there knuckles are beaten and slashed, believe me…I have tried. <br /><br />Yet, this is normal, this is life, when the women wash clothes; they do not have an envious attitude, longing for the modern convenience of a wash machine. More or less, they have made it into a time of fellowship of being. Like-minded, when cooking, every item is not merely pulled out of the refrigerator and thrown into the toaster, microwave, or even the convectional oven. They cook it over an open flame heated by wood. They do not even buy the dead packaged and sealed chicken, in your choice of boneless, skinless, wings, thighs, legs, breasts, or any combination of your choice. The chicken is killed, with just enough time for it to be ready by dinner. First, you must use a knife and slit a single vein in its throat, rapidly submerge its lifeless body in boiling water, quickly pluck every feather out, then run its skin through an open flame. Then you must burn and peel the skin of its feet off, the texture you will not forget. Next come the insides, yes you take them out by hand, off comes the head, the legs and the feet, and then you cook the lifeless body that you killed. So much for modern conveniences that have entrapped and stripped our lives into emotionless machines, counting every second, searching for a faster and more strategic way of doing things, leaving us to resort to talking with family and loved ones by phone or email. What have we become? What have we done?<br /><br />All of that to say this, my hope is that I forget things, and leave them behind. I want to come back to the essence of life, something that precious time has stolen from me, relationship. I want to challenge myself, and this will be one of those purposeful journeys for me. <br /><br />With me, I have packed a large backpack filled to the brim with enough clothes to last one week, hot weather, cold weather, for water and even the rain. I also have a suitcase filled with my books, and a small backpack for my few personal items. I have packed one pair of flip-flops, sandals and some running shoes. As far as toiletries, I seemed to have packed a lot. I guess my one comfort item would be a travel size flat iron. How pathetic. What does this say about me, that I care about how I look or that I am self-conscious? I am sure there is a much deeper explanation, but over this, I will have to ponder. Not that I will even use the flat iron that much but at least I know it is there for the days that I have to look descent in the city. I also have my laptop, cell phone that I brought for my parents sake, ipod, my Bible, books and materials for school, and some watercolors to paint. <br /><br />There is not much that I wished I packed or did not pack. Sometimes I wished I did not have my cell phone, it is a comfort knowing that I have it in case of emergency, but should I have told my parents no when I am sure it calms there nerves extremely. It is debatable, but I do not think it is going to work when I am in the village, which makes it a good compromise! I think the one item I wish I had bought and taken here with me, is some pepper spray. I have already had a few bad incidents in the streets at night, that it would have calmed my own nerves greatly to at least have something at all to protect me. Its is such an interesting feeling, having such a horrid history with men, lacking trust in them because of what has been done. Adding my history to the present, being alone in a country with machismo culture, in a place where not even the police can be trusted. Excuse me for exposing my fears, but that sense of fear and mistrust is real. Knowing I have nothing on me to stop anyone, but only my legs to run is terrifying. Whether or not I ever used it, at least I knew it was there if I had to. <br /><br />It is hard to depict what I brought says about my expectations, assumptions and needs because I have been here before. However, my cell phone is not only a security for my parents, it is my security against loneliness. Knowing that it is there if I need it is such a comfort, I often wish it fell in the river. My ipod, I only use on occasion, is the quiet to much to handle for me? I brought it for a few reasons, I have Spanish music and it helps me learn and understand Spanish, as well as vocal praise and worship is a big part of how I worship God. Should I have taken this time to learn to praise Him in other ways? My prayer is that none of these items would become a hindrance to building relationships, talking and learning from others. <br /><br />The two items that have caused my embarrassment is this laptop and my ipod. I find it beyond embarrassing to have such things in this culture. When most cannot afford to go to college, let alone their parents providing them with not only an education after High School but also a laptop. I will not bring this laptop or even my ipod in front of anyone. There have been many times that I have wished to show someone pictures of my family that are only on my laptop, but felt so ashamed of owning an item that costs what is equivalent to years and years of their total combined family income. Whether or not is a norm in our culture, does that declare it right to own such an item? Is it even necessary to have one at school or is it just such an accessible convenience that we claim it as such? I have a laptop, when most of the children, whose every year after sixth grade is known as a luxury, do not even have their own books in school. Most of the time teachers or students have to copy the books by hand from one or two shared books for the entire class. Most of the learning in the elementary schools is done by memorization. Do we have any idea as to the extent of our privilege?<br /><br />Have our modern conveniences that we have claimed necessity strangled everything pure, true and right? Or are these material comforts merely sucking the life out of our culture?Megan Sieverthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05178982284157302950noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9039283133344575434.post-24564759326800793912007-08-17T00:02:00.000-07:002007-08-17T00:12:28.671-07:00June 13, 2006As I have begun pondering my reasons for embarking on this journey, a rush of emotions, questions and excitement is taking me over. This journey has been a long time coming, I am ready…I have been ready. There are many reasons as to why I choose to leave the physical, intellectual, and emotional comforts of everything I once knew; my home. The very idea, that this ‘home,’ this way of life is all I know, and knowing there is so much more to life hidden deep within the secrets of this world and its people. There is so much more to life than our belief in the ‘American Dream,’ material possession, and our selfish ambitions and vein conceit. Our vanity has swallowed us whole; who and what will pull us out if we do not begin to crawl on our own?<br /><br />When did we start believing everything we heard and take it as truth? Moreover, I ask you to understand that by claiming “we” I include myself. Why is it that, we believe we are “blessed” to live in America, that we are the elite of this world, because our money and heritage claims our stake? Then I beg to challenge our notion of “blessings.” Why is that we put a tag on our wealth in money, material possession, access to education and healthcare, that states “Blessing from God.” A journey back, to the context of why some have our definition of “wealth” and others do not, would have roots solely planted in the dirt of injustice that begins and ends in privilege, power and difference. Have not we then trapped God in a box and slapped on an ignorant statement of God’s character. Do we really believe God intentionally denies access to the bare necessities of life to the multitude yet grants a surplus to others, because of His undying favor for those in power? Do not misunderstand me! I am not condemning persons but rather the capitalistic system in which we live and are entrapped in, for who am I to judge? Have I not bound myself in its chains, the very chains I am struggling to crawl out of?<br /><br />Oh how ignorance is both our bliss and our destruction. These very thoughts eat me alive and all I am left to plead is …forgive us Father, for we know not what we do…for we are lost.<br /><br />I choose to leave as I choose to take up this journey into a world that allows me to question absolutes. By leaving, I am choosing to take off the chains that bind me to this complex society, and liberate my soul into a world where life appears to be simple and concrete. I leave to seek truth. I want to live the life I no longer have to take for granted, to see, hear, taste and smell the richness and extent of God’s creation and beauty. To seek, search and find a part of His character that He left dwelling within a people and their lives. Whether these beliefs are apart of the baggage, that follows me into lands unknown, or a mere stepping-stone in my journey to seek truth, we will soon find out.<br /><br />I have once experienced the life and love found on the streets of Guatemala. Why Guatemala you ask, well the story begins in my childhood dreams and passions. In the year of 1995, fifth grade began. It was this year that Arizona curriculum placed the study of the Ancient Mayan Civilizations, and it was then that I feel in love with their architecture, their lives and their story. It had been my dream to one-day venture off the discovered paths of Mayan Temples, Plazas and Great Ball Courts, in search of discovering more of who the Mayans were. For their Civilization fell and no one really knows the truth in what had happened to a people group who were so highly advanced in Astronomy, Mathematics and Science then the rest of the world. For I somehow had the staggering belief that very few Mayans remained on this world. I recall fearing that by the time I grew up, and was able to venture into the jungles of the Yucatan, the people would all be gone and their secrets in turn all discovered. Little did I know that God would later send me to a place where over sixty percent of the population is of Indigenous Mayan ancestry, with twenty two Indigenous tribes speaking twenty two Indigenous languages, with twenty two ways of life. Little did I know that God would send me, to learn about their life today, their struggles and triumphs of fighting against a Colonized world that continues to oppress and strangle their traditions. Little did I know that my dreams and passions as a child foreshadowed all that I am today.<br /><br />Last year, God sent me to Guatemala, through Azusa Pacific University’s Office of World Mission’s Focus International Team. I applied for the team in the fall of 2004, looking back on the steps of faith that I took that year I still wonder how I managed. Let me explain, I went to Biola my Freshman year of College, something about it did not seem to fit, for my previous major and many other reasons I decided to leave, in search of what God had for me. That fall of 2004, I decided to get an apartment in Fullerton with an amazing friend who also decided to leave, and we attended Fullerton College, lived on our own that semester, not having any idea if we would be accepted to APU. It was an amazing time that semester, for the road was full of twists and turns, but through them, I grew. It was during that semester that my friend and I accidentally made it into the Office of World Missions, we marveled at every option and country they had to offer. Guatemala did not stand out to me, I wonder if it should have, if I was blind to the idea. Both she and I applied to teams; Guatemala was on each of our lists, but certainly not on the top of mine. We had no desire to go together, for we each knew that this would be when we would be able to make friends in a new place. It just so happened that when I had my interview for Guatemala; I knew the man that would lead the team, we had met during a Mexico Outreach trip to Cuernevaca last spring, he had been apart of my journey in trying to transfer. We had an amazing time talking in that interview, and it was then that I felt a glimpse of my passion for these people, not only the Latin Americans, the people of Guatemala but the Mayans. The only team I was accepted to was Team Guatemala, my friend even managed to end up on the team as well. At this point, I still had not received my letter of acceptance for APU, but I already had the whole semester planned. I soon received the call of good news from my Admissions Advisor and the journey began. Last year the trip ended up being an amazing adventure, it is where God started making me question things. The trip left me with new ideas to wrestle over, but in the end when I left Guatemala, in no way did I ever intend or think for a minute that I would ever return.<br /><br />Little did I know, God had something very drastically different planned for me. In the fall of 2005, I began the year working in the Office of World Missions. It was on September 5th that I dealt with a lot of my anxieties about the trip last year, it was then that my mind would not stop thinking of new ideas for the trip next year, as our prior trip was nicknamed ‘the guinea pig.’ I would get so excited about the trip and what could be done with it, but after I would let my mind run off, I would have to come back to the realization that I was not going back to Guatemala, I had not even wanted to. My desire was to run off to some exotic country in Africa or even to India, so I could add to my list of places I have been. I came to realize what a selfish ambition this was. I sat at my desk in the office one day, and the idea of my co-leading the team with an old team member was brought up. I remember being scared half to death to admit that I was thinking about it. If I said it aloud, it meant I had to follow through but somehow, I mustered up the courage to tell them truth. This was the beginning of another rocky and long road God had me on, but it was how I got to where I am today, Guatemala.<br /><br />In Guatemala, they have faces that have captured what it is to love and be in true relationship, seen by their smiles. I want to be with and learn from those who have built this into their spirit, or ‘sea’ in their being. It is for this that I return. To throw every expectation to the wind, to try and have an open heart and mind as to what God has for me. For in giving up our hopes, dreams and expectations is where true life is lived, and truth is found for those who care to seek.<br /><br />How can I feel nervous or scared to venture off from a place where I do not feel I belong? How is it that the recollection of Guatemala feels like home, where I am supposed to be, to live, to learn and to love? The only things that it seems Guatemala is missing is my family and friends, neither of whom, I will venture to state; feel the extent of my passions. I will miss their company dearly, but will always know that they are found in my heart and I in theirs, despite the different paths our lives take. I have always feared, that if I ventured off on my own for too long into a land far away, that I would fall in love and never return. It is still my fear that I will not return in September for school. However, I believe I must… I have recently learned the importance of education, even in the midst of the Third World, and how shocking this was, for it went against all my prior beliefs. But even then, how refreshing, that not only am I graduating in one years time, but that I have not wasted the last three years of studies, of which have only secretly encouraged my knowledge in the areas related to my passion.<br /><br />As I embark on this journey in the midst of only myself, contradicting emotions engulf me. For I know that I will never truly be alone, for God is with me, while physically it is only me that travels ahead. I am eager to find out how I will react, when the team thirteen, that I am leading leaves on June 11th. Being alone is something new to me, something I have never done, but all the more reason to venture off into the unknown. I have this small addiction to taking my fears and anxiety and using them as a foothold to climb into everything that scares me, to conquer my fears. Antigua is a beautiful colonial city, with many travelers passing through, and to where God takes me after, rural Guatemala is home to some of the friendliest and welcoming Christ Followers. I only fear they will misinterpret why I have come. However, I know that the<br />people of the Guatemalan Church, which is where I will go, to get a foot in the door with the children and the men and women of Guatemala.Megan Sieverthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05178982284157302950noreply@blogger.com0