So many guys have the wrong idea about wearing stuff like this, they think it will hurt their 'manliness' when in fact it makes them even more attractive to be able to show confidence in something that isn't the norm.

Very much so. He's not normally my type, but I was absolutely won over. I spend so much time round actors at work that I don't really get bothered by them, so when one comes along who make an impression, I remember them. And in the creepiest thing I might ever type in a public forum....he smelt really nice too!

And in the creepiest thing I might ever type in a public forum....he smelt really nice too!

Not to outcreep you here, but he does look like he smells really nice!

Speaking of encounters, my friend saw him yesterday at a coffee shop in LA, and he just told me this morning (twihard-esque fan over here!), he said 'I saw that actor that you like', and I'm like 'who? Louis Garrel? Ryan Gosling?', 'yeah the guy from the Notebook, right? he was drinking coffee on a table in front of me'.. .. what's annoying is that he called him the guy from The Notebook , he's the guy from The Believer/Half Nelson/BV!

Yes thank you so much for the anecdotes, I have heard from people who have had the pleasure of meeting him that he is extremly lovely.

I love his fashion sense as well, so nice that he takes risks in terms of the red capret, kind of like Robert Downey Jr, he has a certain flair and a sense of humor about it all, he does not seem to be taking himself too seriously.