I imagine that if you put up ads at ten different online
dating sites you will get 20 replies.

Then you have another person go out on the dates, then
fill
in a statistics sheet on things like vivacity, mental
stability, appearance, good-personness.

Then you have a date with the three highest
scorers. You
get just 3/20 of the anxiety and most likely a better
time.

Now the thing is you are upfront about this in your
personals ad. You advertise at craigslist to find a neutral
cyrano similar to you (personality:MBTI) to go on the
dates. Each
date pays them $20. Not only that, they have the option
of dating the person too if they like them. Thus some
fortunate person gets paid to go on dates.

So among those with an extra $400, the three most
wonderful people are located and warmed up.