The Best Way to Recover After Your Girl Catches You Watching Porn

You’re up late one night. You’re tired, but you can’t fall asleep. You look at your girlfriend. She’s sound asleep. She looks so pretty.

You think about waking her for a little midnight action, but you remember the conversation you had with her before you went to bed. She was tired from a long day at work. She couldn’t wait to get to bed. That’s why she headed to bed so early.

So you head into the living room with a drink and start watching some sports on television. All of a sudden, you get an urge. You switch on your computer and start checking your emails.

Before you know it…

You’re on your favorite porn site flicking through the clips. You start getting a little turned on. You turn the volume down and decide you’re going to take care of your urge.

From the corner of the room without any warning, you hear your girlfriend say, “What the hell are you doing?”

Not only has she caught you watching porn, but she’s also caught you starting to take care of yourself, too. You slowly turn around. You’re embarrassed. You don’t know what to say or do.

You assume she’s angry like most women would be. She’s going to think you’re a secret porn addict.

“You can’t pretend it didn’t happen. The only

thing you can do is to try to engage her.”

What do you do in this situation?

There’s no way you can deny it. She could have been standing there watching you for ages. She knows what you were watching, and she saw you taking care of yourself. She knows you watch porn.

The best thing you can try to do is say, “Come here. Let’s watch this together. We can have fun together.”

You can’t pretend it didn’t happen. The only thing you can do is to try to engage her. If she’s angry, then you need to look at her and say, “I wanted you, but I didn’t want to disturb you. I got an email with this link in it. I just started watching it and got carried away.”

One way or another, the situation is very clear cut.

Some women are into porn and others hate it. Some women like seeing a guy turned on and touching himself, while other women don’t. All you can do is try to figure out who she is and what she’s about.

You’re going to have to admit the truth and try not to hide what you did. Either she’ll forgive you or she won’t. I’m afraid there’s no escape from this one, my man!

David Wygant is an internationally-renowned dating and relationship coach, author and speaker. To find out more about David and all of his dating and relationship-building products, visit www.davidwygant.com. Connect with David on Google+.

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