There is one way to receive those messagat Zion war... I had flags burned.. Over a year ago. I haven't been back on that server since until recently. When I showed up at my shrine I saw my flag quickly disapear and received notice that my flag had been destroyed by a player .. As well as 2 something has destroyed your flag messages.. I opened the one that listed player and saw that he set it on fire a year earlier and we had made peace.. The 2 something notices were from players that had gone inactive I believe.. As I looked at kd roster and noticed that a cpl ppl that I know had been burning were inactive.. That's my guess