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Self-Control Beats Birth Control.
Abstinence isn’t about never having sex. It’s about waiting to have the safest and best sex! Postponing sex until you are in a life-long relationship such as marriage can make you risk free, worry free and help you find true love and closeness.

Remember your first real crush? . . . The flush of your face, the pounding of your heart, the shortness of breath at your first touch? You were “in love” . . . or perhaps, more realistically, in love with love. Your heart was filled excitement at the anticipation of holding hands and receiving a sweet goodnight kiss. Such were the days of innocence—the ways of “puppy love”. But when infatuation turns to feverish passion, innocence can be lost.

When you’re caught up in the moment, saying no to sex can be hard! But you can take charge, even in the toughest situation. Check out the scenes below. The next time you’re getting pressure, stick to your limits by using these tips.

God intended the sexual relationship for pleasure within the protected confines of marriage. With pleasure as a goal, the number one question asked about sex (outside of marriage) is: “How far is too far?” Or to put it another way, “How close can we get without getting burned?” If the question is: “To what degree can we have any sexual activity outside of marriage?” the Bible’s limit is clear: “Among you there must not be even a hint of sexual immorality” (Ephesians 5:3)