Thought-stopping is a way to get rid of unwanted thoughts. You may dwell or obsess on thoughts that make you worry, feel sad, or feel bad about yourself. Research shows that thought-stopping works. It can change the way you think. In thought-stopping, you focus on the unwanted thought and then use a technique to stop it.

When you practice thought-stopping, the unwanted thought occurs less often. Over time, the thought will be easier to ignore or may not occur at all. In some cases, the thoughts may be worries. For example, you may worry a lot about your health or the health of a family member. Or you may think over and over about a bad grade in school or a comment by a supervisor at work. Thought-stopping can help you deal with these thoughts.

You can work on thought-stopping on your own or with a counselor or therapist.

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Thought-stopping can help you to not worry so much.

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Thought-stopping can help you to not worry so much. You learn how to stop a thought that bothers you and then think about something else.

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Thought-stopping can help you to not worry so much. You learn how to stop a thought that bothers you and then think about something else.

You need to see a counselor or a therapist to practice thought-stopping.

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You don't need to see a counselor or a therapist to practice thought-stopping. You can try it on your own or as part of therapy.

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You don't need to see a counselor or therapist to practice thought-stopping. You can try it on your own or as part of therapy.

Studies show that when you change what you think, you can change your mood. Thought-stopping is easy to learn, and it can help you feel better. Negative, unwanted thoughts can lead to anxiety or depression. They can keep you from sleeping well. And they can make it hard for you to work and enjoy your life.

Thought-stopping also can help if you already have anxiety or depression. It's one way to take an active role in your treatment. You can prevent some of the thoughts that make you anxious or depressed.

You can learn to do thought-stopping anywhere, so it can help you at work or at home. It's also easy to learn. But it does take some practice.

In some cases, you may need more help to stop thoughts that worry you or make you feel bad. Some thoughts or behaviors can't be handled by thought-stopping alone. Seek the help of your doctor or a licensed therapist or counselor if you can't stop unwanted thoughts on your own.

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Thought-stopping is an easy way to change how you think.

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The technique to stop unwanted thoughts is easy to learn. But it will take practice to make it work.

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The technique to stop unwanted thoughts is easy to learn. But it will take practice to make it work.

To stop unwanted thoughts, you focus on the thought and then learn to say "Stop" to end the thought. At first, you will shout "Stop!" out loud. Then you will learn to say it in your mind so that you can use this technique anywhere. Here's how to get started:

List your most stressful thoughts. These are the thoughts that distract you from your daily activities and make you worry more. You wish you could stop having these thoughts, but they keep occurring. Write down your upsetting thoughts in order of the most stressful to the least stressful. Start practicing thought-stopping with the thought that is the least stressful. Here's an example of a list, starting with the most stressful:

I'm always worried that something bad will happen to my child, even if she just gets a cold.

I just know that one of us is going to get laid off from work.

I'm so nervous about making a presentation at work that it's all I can think about.

Imagine the thought. Sit or lie down in a private place (so you can say "Stop!" out loud and not feel self-conscious). Close your eyes. Imagine a situation in which you might have this stressful thought. Then allow yourself to focus on the thought.

Stop the thought. Startling yourself is a good way to interrupt the thought. Try one of these two techniques:

Set a timer, watch, or other alarm for 3 minutes. Then focus on your unwanted thought. When the timer or alarm goes off, shout "Stop!" If you want, stand up when you say "Stop." Some people snap their fingers or clap their hands. These actions and saying "Stop" are cues to stop thinking. Empty your mind, and try to keep it empty for about 30 seconds. If the upsetting thought comes back during that time, shout "Stop!" again.

Instead of using a timer, you can tape-record yourself shouting "Stop!" at intervals of 3 minutes, 2 minutes, and 1 minute. Do the thought-stopping exercise. Focus on the thought, and then stop thinking about the unwanted thought—or anything else—when you hear your recorded voice say "Stop." Hearing your own voice telling you to stop helps strengthen your commitment to getting rid of the unwanted thought.

Practice steps 1 through 3 until the thought goes away on command. Then try the process again. This time, interrupt the thought by saying the word "Stop!" in a normal voice.

After your normal voice is able to stop the thought, try whispering "Stop." Over time, you can just imagine hearing "Stop" inside your mind. At this point, you can stop the thought whenever and wherever it occurs.

Pick another thought that bothers you more than the last one, and continue thought-stopping.

Other ways to stop thoughts

You can change how you do thought-stopping:

Put a rubber band around your wrist. Whenever you want to stop an unwanted thought, say "Stop" to yourself and snap the rubber band at the same time. After a while, you will be able to just snap the rubber band to stop an unwanted thought.

Make yourself aware that you are having an unwanted thought by saying to yourself, "I'm having the thought that I might lose my job." Or "I'm thinking that I might lose my job." This reminds you that these are thoughts, not something that will happen.

After you stop an unwanted thought, add a more pleasant thought or image that makes you feel more calm. This thought or image is not related to the unwanted thought. For example, you can think of playing with your children or going out on the town with friends. Or you might see yourself lying on a beach.

An example of thought-stopping

You're worried about a presentation you are giving at work later in the day. You're prepared. You know you're ready. But you can't stop worrying about it. You imagine making a mistake.

When you start to think of yourself stumbling over words, you say "Stop" quietly in your mind. You get up and move around, or you snap your rubber band as you say "Stop." Then you think of something pleasant to take your mind off the thought—such as a trip you are planning to take or a movie you saw recently that made you laugh.

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To stop unwanted thoughts, you need to concentrate on them.

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To stop unwanted thoughts, you DO have to concentrate on them. You practice focusing on the thought you want to stop, and then you use cues such as saying "Stop" and snapping a rubber band on your wrist to stop yourself from thinking about it.

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To stop unwanted thoughts, you DO have to concentrate on them. You practice focusing on the thought you want to stop, and then you use cues such as saying "Stop" and snapping a rubber band on your wrist to stop yourself from thinking about it.

At first, it's best to practice stopping the thought that bothers you the most.

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At first, it's best to practice stopping the thought that bothers you the LEAST. This will help you learn how to do thought-stopping. When you can stop the smaller worries, you will be more likely to stop the thoughts that bother you the most.

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At first, it's best to practice stopping the thought that bothers you the LEAST. This will help you learn how to do thought-stopping. When you can stop the smaller worries, you will be more likely to stop the thoughts that bother you the most.

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