Elle FHi all,
Kati, I have to say that you are pretty lucky to have Mrs T on your side. From my research into all this, there are precious few partners about, which is really sad. As the wife of Emma, I need other wives (partners, SOs, loved ones) to talk to. T... moreHi all,
Kati, I have to say that you are pretty lucky to have Mrs T on your side. From my research into all this, there are precious few partners about, which is really sad. As the wife of Emma, I need other wives (partners, SOs, loved ones) to talk to. They help immensely. Maybe you could suggest she check out here in the SO forum or if this is too close... Transpartners.co.uk is a good site and is only for partners as the name suggests.
Daisy is right though, keep it slow and understated. It is a huge thing to get your head around and accept. I am still struggling with Em, but it's getting easier, we support each other and we are much closer for it. I've also met some really lovely people here, and on other support sites for partners.
Elle x less

Kati DaviesThanks girls. Your comments have added to my feelings of security and being happy with where I have got to. The forward move, like an icecap, is slow and steady, but so much better than to be going backwards at any speed.
Elle - thank you particularly fo... moreThanks girls. Your comments have added to my feelings of security and being happy with where I have got to. The forward move, like an icecap, is slow and steady, but so much better than to be going backwards at any speed.
Elle - thank you particularly for contributing. I shall point Mrs T to the forum here, and to Transpartners. I have tried to facilitate her meeting other SOs but the result hasn't been terribly positive so far. Being more anonymous might be the way forward; she has many years of acceptance to catch up on (it took me years to accept who I am; I can't expect her to be cool with it straight away, and talking to others was key to helping me develop)
Let's all keep talking and helping each other and one day we'll all wonder what all the fuss was about.
Big hugs and kisses all round
Kati xxxx less

Kati DaviesAfter a lot of blog action and everyone being so very nice to me, I am now a lot more stable with Mrs T who is currently reading My Husband Betty and we are talking more openly about her husband being a Cross Dresser. It's been a month now, and we have a ... moreAfter a lot of blog action and everyone being so very nice to me, I am now a lot more stable with Mrs T who is currently reading My Husband Betty and we are talking more openly about her husband being a Cross Dresser. It's been a month now, and we have a long long way to go, but at least we have started on the correct road.

Morgan Stewart
So I got bored and decided to exploit myself, relatively tastefully, and do a tutorial on lock picking, because I am a locksmith....OMG......it's embarrassing but check me out!!
http://youtu.be/XygcPDIWflY