I’ve been having a lot of issues the past few months having and keeping an erection with my wife. I don’t understand it, I can masturbate just fine alone watching porn all the time but when I’m with my wife, it just, doesn’t happen like it used to.. My wife is starting to think I’m not interested in her anymore, or cheating on her, I need to figure this situation out..

It sounds like you might have a psychological problem, perhaps you’ve become addicted to porn and masturbation. Your brain might be wired to that stuff right now like a drug and when it experiences the real deal it just isn’t the same as what your imagination / the porn is. I would drop the porn, cut back on the masturbation, and talk it over with your wife, there may also be some options available for therapy / counseling.

First off, you got to sit down with your wife and explain the situation as best you can with her so you can get the stress of her thinking you’re messing around or not interested in her off your plate. Second, dude, cut back or go cold turkey on the porn watching, it gives your brain all kinds of impressions that don’t fit reality.