I'm not in the same boat, but we are advanced maternal age, so we might be (our quad test is negative, so we are not likely, but you never know), and I think about it a lot.

I'm not going to say "I'm sorry to hear it" because my attitude is that there is nothing to be sorry about. All children are wonderful in their own way, and while there will be challenges, I would not let this affect your attitude one bit. I know that's easy to say, but stay positive and focused. I grew up with many DS friends (family and neighbors), and they are all great in their own way, as we all are, and I consider myself lucky for knowing them.

Our plan has always been that if it does happen, we want to have a good support network in place to help us. Our first step would likely be to contact the local ARC, and make as many connections there as you can. Let them know that you are expecting this, and you want to be as prepared as possible. If they are a good group, they should put you in contact with other parents who can provide help, assistance, and advice.

A real concern will be the health of your young one. I am not very familiar with DS infants, and so do not know what issues they face, but do know that as they grow, there can be complications that are associated with DS, and with body care. But if you have a good support network, they will be able to provide a lot more assistance in these regards.

Good luck!

I'm not in the same boat, but we are advanced maternal age, so we might be (our quad test is negative, so we are not likely, but you never know), and I think about it a lot.

I'm not going to say "I'm sorry to hear it" because my attitude is that there is nothing to be sorry about. All children are wonderful in their own way, and while there will be challenges, I would not let this affect your attitude one bit. I know that's easy to say, but stay positive and focused. I grew up with many DS friends (family and neighbors), and they are all great in their own way, as we all are, and I consider myself lucky for knowing them.

Our plan has always been that if it does happen, we want to have a good support network in place to help us. Our first step would likely be to contact the local ARC, and make as many connections there as you can. Let them know that you are expecting this, and you want to be as prepared as possible. If they are a good group, they should put you in contact with other parents who can provide help, assistance, and advice.

A real concern will be the health of your young one. I am not very familiar with DS infants, and so do not know what issues they face, but do know that as they grow, there can be complications that are associated with DS, and with body care. But if you have a good support network, they will be able to provide a lot more assistance in these regards.

Hi there!,
I don't know an awful lot about the testing for ds, but I do know that it's all based on chance it's not 100%. Only time will prove it!
I agree with the previous post as a teaching assistant in a 'special' school I get to work with some of the most caring and generous children, it's a hard road but worth it!
Can I ask how far you are with the testing and wat probability you have been given?

Hi there!,
I don't know an awful lot about the testing for ds, but I do know that it's all based on chance it's not 100%. Only time will prove it!
I agree with the previous post as a teaching assistant in a 'special' school I get to work with some of the most caring and generous children, it's a hard road but worth it!
Can I ask how far you are with the testing and wat probability you have been given?

He said he already had the amnio. That is the end of the testing road. Chances are nearly 100%.
Close friends growing up had a child w Downs syndrome. Not going to say it was easy for them but he enriches their lives and currently lives semi independently, has a job and should be an example to the growing segment of society who choose to sit on their rears and claim disability for far lesser obstacles.

He said he already had the amnio. That is the end of the testing road. Chances are nearly 100%.
Close friends growing up had a child w Downs syndrome. Not going to say it was easy for them but he enriches their lives and currently lives semi independently, has a job and should be an example to the growing segment of society who choose to sit on their rears and claim disability for far lesser obstacles.

after all the fiqures are thrown out, and all friends and family with thier stories of "well my friend had it done and they said he would be, but he turned out fine" we are just taking it in and preparing ourselves... we know we will love our son no matter what! and we will be here for just the same as we are for our other children!

after all the fiqures are thrown out, and all friends and family with thier stories of "well my friend had it done and they said he would be, but he turned out fine" we are just taking it in and preparing ourselves... we know we will love our son no matter what! and we will be here for just the same as we are for our other children!

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