Putting a cock in your mouth dose NOT make you a bisexual in spite of what the posse and forum police say about it.

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Beyond curious, SLS offers only two categories of orientation, straight & bi. SLS guidlines say to pick the one that best describes you. If you consider yourself to be more straight than bi, you are perfectly within honesty to list as straight.

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I'm listed as straight, and never have participated in any bi play. However, the more we play, the more the thought of it intrigues me. I suppose I may truely be bi-curious because I don't know if I would enjoy it, but want to find out. Does that make my profile dishonest? I don't think so. We try to be as honest as we can. Even with face pics open to all. I suppose if I discover I enjoy bi play then I would condider changing my profile.

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Just came across this. And I'll post another "Amen". (The guy here). I've NEVER been with a guy. Never had the opportunity... never had a question. But really... if we're all here to try new things, and be with other people, aren't we all what others would call "deviants?" Therefore, aren't we all "try-sexuals?" I post bi-curious on my preference because of this. I speculate that I honestly don't know if I like dick or not because I've NEVER tried it. If you are truly open to trying new things... aren't you curious? C'mon... be honest now. Even though you've never sucked a cock... kissed a guy's chest, or touched a man... if the situation was right... you might... NOT would... but might. IF everything was right. That's the definition of curious.

Finally... great point about "if they're lying about that... what else are they lying about?" Do we believe disease free? Because THAT would inhibit "action" too!

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We will say that everyone tells fibs or strech the truth some when it comes to sex. When it comes to sex everyone lies, if you look at all studies and interives no one is gay, no one swings,ect,ect,ect, when we all know that it is BS.

We prefeer mw. but in the heatof sex he has sucked cock and she has lick pussy but like to end up with mw. So should be be listed as bi or as straight that get carried away in the thros of sex. Maybe thats why we haven't be active lately because of the way we are listed..

But to be honest what cock cares whos mouth is sucking it or whos tounge is lickimg their pussy, just lean back and enjoy. If people would be honest with themselves all of us have at lest a little bi in us.

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It is sad but true.

there are many in this lifestyle that consider themselves open minded but are not even close to overcoming our societies prejudices.

it has always seemed weird to me that people lie about Theirpreferences when seeking out playmates.

better to be honest up front for everyone's pleasure

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ofcourseiwill, you are another who seems to confuse sexual actions with sexual orintation. And by the way, not all men lie. Now sitting around the fire, topic is fastest car; bigest buck; or most fish, I may take liberties with the facts. but no one would lie

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Everyone needs to understand ALL MEN LIE! It our hobby. We sit around drinking beer and swapping lies. It's fun.

But, that's not the topic.I label my self Bi, but some days I'm straight, just not in the mood to play with a guy, or I don't like the guy. There have been times when I loved the woman, but the Bi man she was with, no way. Now am I lying about being Bi, because I'm fussy about what I put in my mouth, or what dark cavern I might insert myself?

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I would agree. I list bi to weed out the homophobes, they tend to bebigoted judgemental in other areas as well. They also become downright hateful when a guy like myself, that in their view is bi/gay, lists as straight. A lot of bi/gay guys have told me in their view I am straight, but none have ever done so in a negative way. I've never met a gay guy that would call another gay guy a liar for claiming to be gay when he eats pussy once in a while. Life's too short to hate, we want no parts of it.

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M yes, in my most humble opinion you are straight. You are a sensual man, a sexual guy you like to give pleasure and naturaly recive it also. You make peoplle around you relax and have fun. You do not have silly problems about being next to another mans naked body You are very friendly but you are not bi sexual according to the conventional definition of bi sexual.