failure, learning from past mistakes,

In other words, we put so much pressure on ourselves to succeed that if we DO fail we are led to believe our world will come crashing down on us and we won't get another chance to redeem ourselves. If you're walking across the Grand canyon on a TIGHT ROPE, that may be true, but for the majority of us, we WILL have another chance to try again! No matter what some may think or believe, NONE OF US are perfect. Don't think of failure as "final." Instead think of it as another chance to perfect whatever you're trying to to.

A failure is a man who has blundered, but is not able to cash in on the experience. Elbert Hubbard

For some, failure occurs when you attempt to do something and it doesn't work out as planned. It doesn't matter if it's the first try or the 20th, they get frustrated and give up. Sometimes giving up is wise, but when the dust settles, it's crucial that you learn from the experience. Too many of us keep making the same mistakes, or refuse to listen to those who have gone down the same path before you. Don't be afraid to ask for help or admit something isn't working out for you. (It ahppens to ALL OF US.) Keep an open mind and you might be pleasantly surprised at the new opportunities that come your way! Not being successful in the endeavor of your choice isn't the end of the world. The key is gaining something from that experience that you can build on in the future!