Here are some photos of Kaley Cuoco and her husband Ryan Sweeting out and about Wednesday night. They went to a party at Vera Wang’s boutique (Kaley’s ensemble is by Vera Wang) and then they went to Mr. Chow’s. Um, we need to have a conversation about Kaley’s hair. She chopped off a lot of her hair a few weeks ago, and then she got a series of trims finally getting her hair to this length. What do you think? It’s awful, isn’t it? This is the problem with girls with “baby fat” faces (and I’m saying this as someone with a baby-fat face) – we do not look good with short hair. Really. It emphasizes the roundness of Kaley’s face, plus it just looks like a really cheap, awful haircut (and badly styled to boot). Even if you disagree with me about the awfulness of this particular haircut, can we agree that she looked much better with longer hair?

In other Kaley-and-Ryan news, Star Mag says that she’s a jealous mess and their marriage is already in trouble:

Kaley Cuoco and Ryan Sweeting are already showing major signs of trouble. They were spotted bickering at a friend’s engagement party in Florida earlier this month. A guest at the bash – which was thrown for one of Ryan’s pals – tells Star that Kaley became annoyed when her husband began socializing and didn’t include her.

“Kaley looked like she really didn’t want to be there. Ryan told her to relax, and that’s when all hell broke loose. She snapped back and told him where to go. She didn’t known many people at the party and felt like he was being irresponsible for not looking after her. It wasn’t pretty.”

Sources say the blowup may be just a small taste of what has been going on behind closed doors, as tension over her jealousy issues has been building for quite some time.

“The novelty has definitely worn off,” according to the insider.

Kaley recently accused Ryan of getting too close to Zooey Deschanel. “Ryan doesn’t have many friends in LA, so he’s reached out to Zooey a few times to get together.” But pals admit that Kaley, who was enraged by Ryan’s innocent actions, took it as flirting and now forbids him to hang out with Zooey unless she’s there too.

[From Star Magazine, print edition]

The tabloids always take it a step too far. I would have totally believed it if the story was simply “they rushed into the marriage too fast, now they’re getting on each other’s nerves.” But the whole thing about Kaley being jealous? Eh. But I totally believe that she snaps at Ryan and gets pissy in general (and Ryan being a douche sounds right too). That, to me, says their marriage is the real deal!

A married man reaching out to another woman? Sorry, but even if Zooey’s a mutual friend, it’s not a good sign. Are we supposed to believe he’s just hanging onto Kaley’s coattails and has no male friends in LA? That’s not a recipe for a success, either.

Why not? I am a woman and have some male friends that I hang out with and I still do when I’m in a relationship. And I would be really turned off if my boyfriend expected me to take him with me whenever I see them. And my boyfriend has some female friends and I would never ever think of attending their every meeting.
If it ever came out that he cheated on me, I would of course chop off some of his favorite parts

I agree. And i’m not a jealous type. We can play the cool girl card and claim why can’t he have female friends? That’s not realistic though.

If he’s choosing to spend his time with only Zooey and not in a group it’s him looking to emotionally cheat. And Zooey has had the rep of liking that attention.
I’m not saying it’s fair for him to ban him from seeing her unless she is also there. That’s bad. It could have been approached differently. And he should understand why Kaley feels this way.

She also might be a bit too jealous and possessive and that’s her relationship pattern. She moves too fast and gets possessive.
Still, every relationship has issues. No one has a marriag without some fighting.

I have a lot of male friends, but I only hang with them in a group, or going to lunch from work because we share a lunch break. I do not seek out time to meet up with them outside of work alone. But I agree, that if that was Kaley’s approach, that’s stupid and unfair.

Now, I think it might be slightly different if he’s known Zooey for years, and has always been close to her. It’d be more unfair of Kaley in that case.

Erinn
Agreed. If hes known Zooey outside of Kaley for years then it’s different. Even so, it would be odd if he was still seeking that time away from KAley and just with Zooey. Even worse if he confides his relationship issues with her over late night drinks… Bad news bears.

Tiffany
If there’s 0 chemistry you’re likely not even friends. Everyone has to have a bonding point with everyone else to connect. On some level there must be chemistry. Maybe not romantic, but enough to make you enjoy the others company.

And you are taking it way too far. I didn’t because that’s bringing the conversation to a hot button issue that doesn’t apply here.

Bottom line. If Ryan is prefering alone time with Zooey to his wife and will leave Kaley to meet up with Zooey, knowing Kaley takes issue with this it sounds like Ryan is pushing her buttons. A lot of “if”s there I know. Just saying.

it has nothing to do with a cool girl card, it’s just trust. how is it emotional cheating if he confides in a female friend, but if it’s a male friend it is just “normal” talk? if someone cheats with a friend, he (or she) would probably have done it anyway sooner or later.

I so don’t get that. I have male friends I hang out with one on one all the time. We’re just friends and my husband understands that and is cool with it. He also has female friends he hangs out with as well. The only ‘chemistry’ is that our personalities are compatible enough to be friends. Once someone is married their spouse should indeed come first but not at the expense of existing relationships if there is no indication of anything suspicious, that’s just controlling and insecure. Whether or not that’s the situation with these two I don’t know but I’m not going to ding him for merely having a female friend.

Angular with, ideally, an oval face. I’ve found defined cheekbones really help with a shorter cut. And just a little info from me to you, I had a pixie cut for about ten years (think Halle Berry) and it takes approximately two years to grow out to one length. So if you cut it and don’t like it, you’re looking at least a year to grow it to your chin. Sucks.

@Jen-this is just my opinion, which counts for sh*t. But I think a stronger jaw, and a more aquiline nose, sharper cheekbones. Also, I think this is a bad version of a fab cut, and whoever did i,t did it badly. I think most people can wear a similar cut, but it has to be tailored to their face shape by a good stylist, and this was not. Her face and her features are VERY rounded, so I’m just not liking this on her at all.

Agree the haircut is not that flattering. She’s been chopping it off since her marriage and for some reason I equate constant, radical hair changes to generalized unhappiness. Just my experience, and I’m not in the business, but she’s not doing anything else but BBT right now and they haven’t started taping next season.

I’m glad this is something that Kaley did for herself, especially if she’s been wanting to do it for awhile. I do remember her saying, however, that she wore her hair down at her wedding because it was the one thing Ryan had asked her to do.

Also, I think a lot of brides cut their hair after their weddings – a lot of women grow it out for the wedding and then are super ready for a change.

@punky
I respectfully disagree. I think a lot of times a woman will cut or otherwise drastically change her hair after a major change in her life — marriage, a breakup, a baby. But I don’t think it necessarily means she’s unhappy. I cut 12 inches off my hair after I got married and I’ve been blissfully happy with the hubs since day one. Same with other women I know.

I’m with you, Stef, I just cut my hair incredibly short for summer. My entire thought process consisted of “it’s hot and I’d be less hot with really short hair”. No deep meaning whatsoever. Husband loves it and thinks I should have done it years ago; no crisis on the horizon, just a sweaty neck.

I had a snit fit in Feb and cut 8 inches of hair off, then lost another 2 straightening the mess I made. It went from the small of my back to my bicep. I was bummed for almost a month afterwards. I really don’t deal with winter well at all.

Agree every time I see a chick with a dramatic hair change it’s because of needing a life change after the age 25. Early 20s and teenagers do it for trends, self discovery and boredom-we”ve all been there… Dont get me started on the ones who get bangs…

Oh c’mmon girls, if an actress smiles with open mouth: “why does she always have the mouth open”; if it’s closed: “why doesn’t she open her mouth?”
lol… you’re all hard to please, ladies… so, so hard….

I think that cut isn’t full enough. Hair needs a bit more body to even out her face. Truthfully, they had a pretty quick marriage. I think it’s reasonable for any woman that feels excluded by her hubby when in his social circle to feel unwanted & maybe even a little jealous of his female friends when he doesn’t valadate her properly with his buddies.

I am also a member of the baby fat face club, and short hair looks OK on me. But, I have to be very careful…a couple of inches here and there and I’ve suddenly aged by 20 years. It’s a tricky balance…

And Kaley’s haircut looks like one of those haircuts you still inexplicably find in hairstyle magazines. Ones that look like they were taken in 1992 on the set of a cheap soap opera – a haircut that whispers ‘middle-aged’.

Same here, round face all my life. The one time I cut my hair into a bob, I felt hideous for months – never again! Only long hair for me now. My best friend is a hair stylist and he is desperate to cut my hair short. Nope, sorry, a few moments of fun for him is not worth feeling gross about myself until I grow my hair out again!

Kaley looks terrible in this haircut, I feel bad for saying that – what was her stylist thinking?!

VERY few women look good with short hair. And KC is definitely not one of them. It’s amazing how the wrong hairstyle can detract from an otherwise beautiful woman’s looks!

I think it’s ridiculous to speculate on the state of her marriage based on one questionable article from a questionable source like Star. And even if it’s true…that doesn’t mean her marriage is on the rocks. All couples fight/have disagreements once in a while. It’s not the end of the world. And the first year of marriage is really tough!

Yeah, it’s far too easy to jump on the “shotgun wedding fails again!” bandwagon. I mean, I got married not that much slower than Kaley, diff. circumstances but it has worked out ok so far! And at the time I didn’t think it was a big deal, I was young and dumb and in love. No question that the spats when you haven’t been together a long time and commit fast can quickly escalate, in all honesty you are still getting to know each other and don’t know each other’s boundaries that well. And in Hollywood the “my way or the highway” attitude probably prevails in most of these scenarios. But I think Kaley has wanted to be married for a long time so I think she will stick with it. I hope for her sake it works out, it can’t be easy with so many people rooting against you.

Funny, because really long hair I think looks terrible on a lot of women too. I’ve had short-medium hair from middle school onward. Every time it gets past my shoulders, I lop it off. The only people who have ever liked me with hair past my shoulders/boobs were people who have had the same dated long hair for 10-20+ years (I’m 33).

Zooey and Kaley just did the Hollywood Reporter Roundtable — I have to say, Zooey was beyond annoying. I used to think she was so sweet, but now I can believe those stories about her being difficult and crazy. Emmy Rossum was also just too damn much.

Ooh I need to watch. I like Zooey as an actress but she does seem like someone you would just roll your eyes at in real life. And I love Emmy in Shameless, seriously, is she super cloying though? I’ve never really seen her interviewed but can see that.

Emmy just seemed like she was trying too hard to be the cool girl. She did another one a couple years ago, and Julianna Marguiles and Claire Danes clearly didn’t like her. Then, I felt bad for her, but this time she was just a little too big for the room.

I thought most of them came off terrible in that interview! Kaley seemed a little quiet/intimidated. Taylor actually seemed to have some perspective. The rest of them seemed to be really caught up in their own screechy Hollywood/actress lifestyle.

I don’t agree that no one with a round face can pull off a pixie (I know I can’t, been there done that), but there are exceptions. Ginnifer Goodwin, super round face, looks cute. I even liked J.Law’s short hair. I think Kaley’s big blonde hair has just always been such a thing for her that she looks weird without it – plus the haircut is horrendous. A real pixie might look ok. At the moment it’s sort of David Bowie in Labrinth gone wrong. She needs to pare back the loud clothes and makeup too, short hair demands a certain elegance and restraint, like “Call me a boy, I don’t care!”

Am I the only one who loves this cut??? I liked the bob too! I’m guessing she has thinner hair so the long locks can look stringy! She’s actually encouraged me to try this cut…i dont know if I will bc I don’t have a great deal of time for styling in the am. But I think this is fresh & fun!
I follow her on IG & she makes this cut look good!

If she gets visibly pregnant when shooting Big Bang Theory, maybe they wouldn’t go for marriage but torment poor lovesick Leonard by having her character still refuse to get married… He’s been wanting to get hitched to her from the first time he saw her! No shotgun required.

If a person has you in a chokehold from behind then what you do is bend both of your knees and become a deadweight this will make them move forward and bash their head so you can escape. In the first pic it looks like he does have her in a chokehold.

I really think her hair looks cute. I think it being a bit longer would suit her better, but I don’t think it’s a disaster or anything, but I’m partial to short hair lol. I think it looks fresh and cute.

As for the marriage, assuming that story is even true, I have to be Team Kaley. I wouldn’t be thrilled if I found out my fiancé was “reaching out” to a cute, single chick to hang out with. I guess it would depend on the context, but I’d at least want him to show me the respect to talk to me about it first. I have an ex-boyfriend (like, 10 years ex) with whom I’ve remained good friends. When we planned a lunch to catch up, I asked my fiancé (then boyfriend), explained the situation and invited him along. He said no, he didn’t need to go, and I took the ex back to the house and introduced them. I’d be cool with it if he had an old friend who was female and handled it like that. But just hanging out, making plans, with an attractive female on the regular would bug the crap out of me. It would definitely become an issue.

I like her haircut a lot. She looks cuter with it short than SO, SO MANY other people would. Plus – it’s just hair. It bugs me that people can feel so strongly (usually in a negative way) when a woman cuts her hair much shorter. I mean, when she (or any other gal) wears her hair all pulled back in a bun – you can easily imagine how she’d look with NO hair . . . but (thankfully) not as many people will feel the need to proclaim that “She doesn’t look good bald.” It just seems SO SHALLOW (plus, if you haven’t guessed, the whole topic definitely hits a sensitive spot in me).

Here’s my thing with her, Jim Parsons loves her. If he loves her, then that is good enough for me. I can’t adore him, and think he shows incredibly good judgment in virtually everything, and then think he’s been incredibly fooled by this woman he has spent years working with. So she gets a pass from me, bad hair and all.

I think it’s silly to say she’s in a bad relationship due to her haircut. In fact i think it’s silly to say anything at all. I regularly mix up short and long styles regardless of the state of my romantic entanglement. I do however hate the show that she’s on and maybe my face is amenable to both short and long as i’ve done a pixie as well as long down to half my back.