A. we become increasingly less able to cope with these feelings
B. we break up difficult tasks into manageable chunks
C. we can bear it
D. we don’t do them
E. we don’t like being told
F. we end up causing ourselves more discomfort and anxiety
G. we experience no excitement and joy because we fear risk and anxiety so much
H. we know people may dislike us
I. we make our wishes known
J. we must give ourselves a reward for doing them