Hi back, tommy1955,
No offence, but I can't relate to "mystery" people. Please have a complete profile including a profile photo if you want me to respond to you seriously. If you do that, you may contact me again.
Take care,

I was in a relationship at a very young age (18) I thought it was perfect until my partner started having second thoughts about our lifestyle which in the 70s and 80s you were in the closet. Within 5 years it ended horribly and I ceased to live. Later I moved to Chicago and met people who are still my friends today.So now I just love my gay family get togethers. I'm still single and have a very protective life which I think is how I survived the plague that took a lot of good people away. Quiet evening with friends and afternoon cocktails telling jokes, that's what keeps me happy now.