Most Helpful Girl

This depends on why the person cheated. I think most people cheat because they’re unhappy in a relationship. It’s not to hurt the person they’re with. Yes a cheater can change if they find what they want.

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Yeah, they can.. or I did. I've cheated and been cheated on. But now if I find myself in a position where I feel like cheating, instead of doing and break up afterwards, I just break up. When people feel the need to cheat, usually it means things are not going that well... So people can change, cheaters.. if they mature then yes..

In retrospect cheaters and those who were cheated on realize the situation and the need for making said decision. It changes both of them. But after all the changes the question really asked here is does that change affect you?