My brother is a really nice guy. He's sweet, he's handsome, and polite. However, at 14 he's already had 4 girls dump him for no reason whatsoever. The first one used him to cheat on her bf with, the second one did the same and then stopped talking to him wile she was using him, the third dumped him becuase she thought he wasn't christian (we're catholic lite) and the fourth just dumped him for no reason what so ever.My brother remebers their birthdays, he calls them all the time, he dotes on them.so why do they treat him like so much refuse? It is really making me sick and I want to go out and snatch these little brats baldheaded for hurting my brother.Anyone have any advice on what to do or is this just a case of nice girls like bad guys?

May you never lie, steal, cheat or drink.
But if you must lie, lie in the arms of the one you love.
If you must steal, steal kisses.
If you must...

The problem may be that he is just too sweet and too nice to the girls that he has been attracted to. Teenage girls his age can be just as much of a creep as boys. They often are more influenced by what others think. Being too attentive and too giving takes all of the challenge from the girl. If he allows them to get by with their crap then they will continue.I am not suggesting that he change but I am suggesting that he looks for love in different places. The big mouth popular girls and not too reliable in my opinion. The quiet smart girls offer so much more in my opinion. For some odd reason the worse that you treat the "ditzy" ones the more they like you. Perhaps an older girl or a younger one would be more suited to him.

Young girls have the ability to be the biggest bitches in the entirew world. They do and say anything to remain popular with their friends. But when they grow up a bit, they will regret it. I know your brothers type, hell I'm the same as him. Things will get better when he gets into his late teens, when the girls decide to mature mentally and emotionally.And I am so glad this wasn't an incest story.

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