How to flirt?

What is the last time we are all about business, but about business. After all, it’s summer already in the yard. And it is only natural that we are being pulled a little bit to fool around. And indulge, for example, an unpretentious summer flirt. Although unsurpassed masters of flirting are women, men should also learn a few simple, but iron-fired receivers.

Well, for example, these: A meaningful and at the same time, as it were, a fleeting glance always reaches the goal. The point is to meet the “subject” with your eyes and … turn away blinded by her (his) beauty. After a few seconds you need to look at it again, saying this “I can not help myself …”

Walking on. The first phrase should be simple and direct, so that the matter immediately moved from the dead center. If the call is too droll, she (he) will immediately understand that you have been learning the words for several weeks by heart. Men, remember: beautiful women have long been tired of visits like “Are you not accidentally a model?” Try not to be banal, but do not overdo it, original. Naturalness is our ideal.

There is no better place to start the desired flirting than any party or disco. At a party or presentation, you should not stick to it at once and tight. After meeting and talking, apologize and disappear for a while (a sort of mysterious disappearance). And to appear before the sunshine is necessary at the moment when she (he) is bored and, looking around lazily, asks: “And where is this young guy (the girl) who is so well versed in snacks (wines, hang-gliders)?”

Well, and, finally, returning to the delights of the established weather, I want to advise the main thing: watch out for the climate. If it is warm and the weather whispers – enjoy. Well, if it’s cold, it’s better to immediately go to warmer places and indulge in flirting there.

How to flirt?

Since ancient times, women have skillfully used their beauty and charm to conquer the heart of a man. Coquetry has always been a sure way to please a chosen one. For some reason this is considered a disadvantage in our society, and not every woman is ready to say about herself: “Yes! I’m a flirt! “. But, if you approach the question wisely, if you observe the sense of proportion, coquetry can become one of the main virtues.

The essence of female coquetry – in the constant change of mood, in the manifestation of qualities, alternately attracting and repelling a man. A woman lures, charms, promises a lot of casual glance, a careless gesture. But suddenly her interest disappears, she turns away, as if forgetting about the fan. When a distressed admirer begins to recover, she again gives him her attention, pretending that nothing unusual has happened. Skillful and appropriate coquetry is not inherent in all. Perhaps, this, like many other things, one must learn. Here are some basic rules for starting a flirt:

1. Be natural: unrestrained lisping and babbling are able to take even the most reserved man out of patience.

2. Try to evaluate yourself soberly: chamanism and cooing, not backed by appearance or not age-appropriate, can cause ridicule and discourage any desire to continue acquaintance.

3. In order not to look too frivolous, focus your attention on any one man: do not smile at all indiscriminately, there is a big risk to remain with nothing.

4. If you decide to play on his nerves (late or not at all to go on a date, ignore his calls, bluntly miss his company , etc.) ), do not flirt. Remember that if today you are indifferent and cold, then tomorrow you must be ardent, loving and affectionate.

5. Do not be unambiguous and predictable, the best answers are to answer his questions: “maybe”, “I’ll think about it,” “this is unlikely.” Anxiety and uncertainty at certain points in your relationships will help to take care and appreciate the precious moments of tenderness and warmth.

6. Note that a man can easily use the same techniques with respect to you. For example, after throwing you bouquets of flowers and phone calls, he suddenly suddenly disappears. And when you are already going crazy with love for him, will again appear with flowers and compliments. And here you can turn it as you want. Do not fall for this bait immediately, otherwise you risk losing your head irrevocably.

These rules are pretty simple. But, first of all, listen to your own heart. It is not difficult to force the imagination of a man to work intensively. But to awaken true feelings in him is much more difficult. Be different, be unpredictable, be mysterious – this will save you from monotony and boredom. But most importantly – be yourself, then you definitely will not be mistaken in choosing a life partner.