Anal intercourse is widely practice by many heterosexual couples to
enhance pleasure and orgasm and it is not considered homosexual act.
Some men enjoyed the experience as much as women and for some couples
anal sex is part of their normal sexual activity and they enjoyed it as
much as
oral stimulation
or sexual intercourse.

Many people considered anus to be a very
important erogenous zone because the anus consists of numerous nerve
ending and when stimulated properly can be very erotic and pleasurable
that can also lead to intense orgasm. Anal tissue is very delicate
because of high number of nerve ending and proper technique should be
follow to reduce pain and increase pleasure. When anal stimulation is
done correctly it can be very pleasurable or it can be very painful when
done incorrectly.

Most of the time people who complained they
had bad experienced with anal intercourse are not doing it properly. In
order to enjoy this experience both partners should be genuinely
willing and want to participate with each other to explore and
experiment this type of sexual activity together to enhance each other
sexual experience.

When mutual consent has been established
between you and your partner, it is always a good idea to begin with
soft anal stimulation before you begin with any types of anal
penetration. This technique applied to both men and women. You want to
build up the pleasure first and you can do this by massaging your
partner’s anus with your thoroughly cleansed fingers. The idea is to
make sure your partner relaxed enough to allow for easier anal
penetration and by relaxing it also allow your partner to experience
more pleasure rather than pain caused by tightening of the sphincter
muscles.

When you have massaged your partner enough to cause
him/her to relax you can insert well lubricated finger slowly by sliding
it in. You can begin by sliding one finger inside and if your partner
is comfortable with one finger slowly slide two fingers inside. If your
partner is comfortable with two fingers inside, you can slide your well
lubricated penis inside slowly beginning with the tip of your penis.

Once the head of your penis is inside and your partner is comfortable,
you can slowly slide in your entire penis shaft. Keep in mind when
sliding in your penis, this process should never be force as it can be
very painful for the recipient. Your thrusting motion depends on the
comfort level of your partner as some enjoy slow thrusting motion and
others prefer fast thrusting motion during anal intercourse.

This
process should be stop at anytime if your partner is uncomfortable
because any force penetration can cause more damage than pleasure. Some
people may not enjoy any type of anal penetration in the beginning and
this is normal as they are not used to this type of feelings, but with
more practice they will soon get used to the feelings and learned to
enjoy the erotic sensation and pleasure from anal penetration.

Anal
penetration should not be limited only with the use of fingers or
genitals as you can also use sex toys and vibrators made for anal use
only. Make sure to use enough lubricants to reduce pain and to avoid
causing nerve damage on the anus. You can apply lubricants on the
penis, the anus, or the objects used for anal penetration.

It is not a
good idea to insert any objects that is not made for anal use as it is
unsafe and it may cause infections. It is always a safe practice to
begin with slow and gentle penetration and increases the pace that is
comfortable with the recipient.

Some may only prefer anal
stimulation on the outside of anal opening during sexual intercourse
and some may prefer anal penetration with one or two fingers and may
dislike penetration with the use of penis or sex toys. Some people with
high sex drive are able to achieve orgasm directly from anal
penetration alone.

Some people also enjoy anilingus or rimming which is
also known as oral stimulation of the anus. This type of stimulation
can be very pleasurable for the recipient and it is also very risky as
it can increase the risk of sexually transmitted diseases and other
infections that can be transmitted from oral to anal contact with
infected individual.

It is always a safe practice to wear condom
during anal sex even though both partners are disease free. If both
partners are disease free there are no risk of infections from sexually
transmitted diseases, however the anus consists of bacteria that are
produce naturally within the body and if the bacteria is introduce into
the vagina it can cause
vaginal infections
and for this reason vaginal intercourse should be avoided right after
anal intercourse.

Another safe practice is to have vaginal intercourse
prior to anal intercourse or by using condom during anal intercourse and
washing the genital area thoroughly with soap and water before
switching to vaginal intercourse.

Anal sex is not a dirty sexual
activity but we all think it is because of the way we were brought up
to think that anus is dirty. Proper hygiene can easily be maintained by
washing the area with soap and water on daily basis.

Anal sex have
high risk of transmitting the HIV virus to the recipient because anal
tissues are delicate and can be broken easily during thrusting motion
and therefore increasing the risk of transmitting HIV virus and other
various infections. The risk can be reduced by using a condom or by not
having anal sex with multiple sexual partners.