Life as a Psy-Eroticologist

The Truth About Female Desire: It’s Base, Animalistic and Ravenous

A MUST READ!!! – “Women’s desire — its inherent range and innate power — is an underestimated and constrained force, even in our times, when all can seem so sexually inundated, so far beyond restriction,” he writes. “Despite the notions our culture continues to imbue, this force is not, for the most part, sparked or sustained by emotional intimacy and safety.” In fact, he argues, “one of our most comforting assumptions, soothing perhaps above all to men but clung to by both sexes, that female eros is much better made for monogamy than the male libido, is scarcely more than a fairy tale.”

One of the key ideas behind my erotica series, based on my (male) experiences with my wife: a free woman is a sexual woman. There is nothing shocking, sinful or wrong about that. Relationships are important because we are social beings. But we as a society must come to terms with the power structures, the oppression and the fear that lies at the heart of traditional marriage, dating and sexual relationships. We need our relationships; we need our sexual experiences. To have them into the future, we must admit the lies we have told ourselves as a society. A free woman is a joy to love!