Relationship Problems or Couple Problems?

The relationship or couple problems and advice to give on this article is a complicated topic. Whether you give excellent or terrible advice you are likely to prolong a useless solution. What we would like to do today is make a list of problems that we have heard most often, assess their severity and their possible solutions.

Problem 1:

I like the idea of marriage, but I feel that I have not enjoyed life and I have not had any fun yet. When it comes to giving advice on relationship problems or a couple, that is really the main problem. You're in a relationship, but this is not consistent with the person you feel you are. The problem is not really in marriage, or the idea of a commitment, or any of the things that we are afraid of.

The problem is that you believe that your relationship limits what you do and who you wish to be. The first question to ask is how do you feel when you have not lived your life enough. To be honest, the essence of this problem is usually of a sexual nature. If you feel you need to go to bed with several men before you settle with a steady partner, then you either need to reevaluate the person you want to be, or end your relationship and become the person you want to be.

Problem 2:

My partner does not like the idea of marriage but it is something that I want very much. Anyone who has given any advice on relationship problems have heard this. When there is a fundamental conflict in what two people want the only way to solve it is by talking about it openly. Notify your partner specifically about what you want to happen and when you want it to happen. Be honest about why you want it and the consequences arising out of it. Will you stay with him, but will you feel satisfied with it? The reason that an open dialogue is important is to discover your reasons for wanting a marriage and to understand the point of view of your partner.

Problem 3:

I do not feel I can trust him, or he does not trust me. Whatever the category in which you fall, the answer is the same. There is never any benefit in not trusting someone.

If you make an effort to trust someone implicitly, he is a lot more likely to be open with you about his life, but if you continue to call someone fake, a liar, and so he is more likely to become introverted. If you are the partner who is suspicious, stop, or if your boyfriend is infinitely suspicious let them read this paragraph and explain that his attitude will eventually ruin your relationship. If he does not change then the relationship is doomed to fail.

The fact that you feel that your relationship is not working is probably because it is not working. The hard part is the realization of how much of the fault is yours and this requires great honesty.