Post by cleo29 on Sept 10, 2019 18:27:59 GMT -5

Unexpected: Max blaming his RX use on Chloe is rich...what a POS. I’m not sure why Reddit hates her mom so much, but they are starting to see her side, I think.

I agree. The only thing that annoyed me was how dismissive Chloe was of therapy. Their relationship is not fine and finding a better way to communicate for their daughter's sake is not a bad thing.

Also, the mom of Hailey who was all, "I always thought she would have several boyfriends, but now I guess this is it" or something like that. Why? Why should they stay together because just because of the baby? Also the Grandma and Great-Grandma who woke up Tyra's baby Layla?? Umm no fucking way. They were annoying me to high heaven.

Post by Jalapeñomel on Sept 10, 2019 19:18:22 GMT -5

Unexpected: Max blaming his RX use on Chloe is rich...what a POS. I’m not sure why Reddit hates her mom so much, but they are starting to see her side, I think.

I agree. The only thing that annoyed me was how dismissive Chloe was of therapy. Their relationship is not fine and finding a better way to communicate for their daughter's sake is not a bad thing.

Also, the mom of Hailey who was all, "I always thought she would have several boyfriends, but now I guess this is it" or something like that. Why? Why should they stay together because just because of the baby? Also the Grandma and Great-Grandma who woke up Tyra's baby Layla?? Umm no fucking way. They were annoying me to high heaven.

Oh I forgot about how stupid it was for Chloe to say her relationship is fine...typical 16 year stuck in a bad situation.

Post by cleo29 on Sept 10, 2019 21:15:20 GMT -5

I agree. The only thing that annoyed me was how dismissive Chloe was of therapy. Their relationship is not fine and finding a better way to communicate for their daughter's sake is not a bad thing.

Also, the mom of Hailey who was all, "I always thought she would have several boyfriends, but now I guess this is it" or something like that. Why? Why should they stay together because just because of the baby? Also the Grandma and Great-Grandma who woke up Tyra's baby Layla?? Umm no fucking way. They were annoying me to high heaven.

Oh I forgot about how stupid it was for Chloe to say her relationship is fine...typical 16 year stuck in a bad situation.

Post by NomadicMama on Sept 10, 2019 21:36:24 GMT -5

Unexpected: I nearly fell off of my couch when Max blamed Chloe and her family for his drug use. He’s the son of an addict. I feel for Max’s dad, that’s got to be hard as hell to see happening again.

Baby Layla’s grandmother and great grandmother were awful…waking the baby against the wishes of the parents and demanding to know how often they’ll see the baby. Grandma didn’t even bother going to the hospital.

90DF, Before the 90 Days: I feel for Ben. Sure, a gift for Akinyi would have been nice…but let’s give the guy a break, he spent a ton of money on his plane ticket, and likely had to eat the cost of the AirBnB he’s not using because Akinyi wasn’t upfront about the role her brother was going to play. They seem to be good people, but they’ve got a lot of differences between them to work out.

Avery is a little girl who is clueless. I cannot imagine her moving to another country, let alone Syria.

Rebecca needs to learn to respect the culture where she’s visiting. You’d think she’d have learned something given her first international marriage. Guess not.

Post by pumpkin on Sept 10, 2019 21:59:14 GMT -5

AYTO - I was so happy with how it ended. I hope they'll do a reunion show as I want to know about some of the couples. I think this was truly one of the best seasons and liked how everyone there was genuine and really trying to grow and find what they needed in a partner.

Post by slcjess on Sept 10, 2019 22:44:51 GMT -5

Oh man jenny sobbing in the preview for next week broke my heart. I feel like she even kind of broached the subject of him being married a few weeks ago when she said she felt like a side piece. I assume he will say they are separated or something. I felt awful for her. That is just so unfair to do to someone.

unexpected: I’m kind of starting to lose sympathy for Chloe because she is being so unsupportive of therapy. I’m not 100% sure max is doing it for the right reasons but to tell someone ‘you’re fine now you don’t need therapy and neither do we as a couple’ is so short sighted. I was also really uncomfortable with the mom that was talking shit about the boyfriends mom (ugh I don’t remember their names.) I don’t remember a ton of that kids family story but I was just like damn chill out lady different people have different resources and stories.

Marrying millions: whether the cubic zirconia guy is rich or not he’s a dbag and I hope she leaves him. She seems really sweet.

Post by dancingnancy on Sept 11, 2019 9:11:06 GMT -5

Sumit is next level...evil? I don’t know if that’s the right word, but to allow a 60 year old woman to leave everything she had to move to your country knowing you’re married takes a very, very messed up person.

She is one of my least favorite housewives ever. She seems to have major insecurity issues that she is covering up with excessive exercise and dieting. I guess pregnancy will be her story line since the rest of her life is not interesting enough for TV.

Post by litskispeciality on Sept 11, 2019 12:42:49 GMT -5

I should wait to catch up on 90 day the other way, but Sumit you're a moron. Why would you go on a TV show documenting marrying a woman if you're married to someone else? Did he think his wife wouldn't find out later? I mean yes it's India, but his family or friends or someone would be like "hey I heard/saw you on tv" *sigh* poor Jenny. I can't say I'm that surprised, but it just seems like a lot of wasted time and money.

She is one of my least favorite housewives ever. She seems to have major insecurity issues that she is covering up with excessive exercise and dieting. I guess pregnancy will be her story line since the rest of her life is not interesting enough for TV.

I don't love her, but I don't find her exercising excessive and the reality is as we get older you have to do more just to maintain where you are. The food thing... that is tricky.

Post by Jalapeñomel on Sept 11, 2019 16:52:38 GMT -5

AYTO - I was so happy with how it ended. I hope they'll do a reunion show as I want to know about some of the couples. I think this was truly one of the best seasons and liked how everyone there was genuine and really trying to grow and find what they needed in a partner.

Post by pumpkin on Sept 11, 2019 17:54:12 GMT -5

AYTO - I was so happy with how it ended. I hope they'll do a reunion show as I want to know about some of the couples. I think this was truly one of the best seasons and liked how everyone there was genuine and really trying to grow and find what they needed in a partner.

No idea what this stands for!

Are You the OneThough maybe I have the name wrong and that's just what I call it in my head

Post by loira on Sept 11, 2019 18:12:11 GMT -5

Sumit is next level...evil? I don’t know if that’s the right word, but to allow a 60 year old woman to leave everything she had to move to your country knowing you’re married takes a very, very messed up person.

Didn't they meet because he catfished her? I wanted to like them despite this, but his behaviour was off the charts weird even allowing for the cultural differences in family expectations. I feel bad for Jenny and especially bad for her daughter who so badly wants her mum back home.

I cannot believe Deavan moved to S. Korea knowing nothing about Jihoon's finances, although at least she has the excuse of being really young.

I guess I'm glad Paul got to see the birth of his son? He's still creepy AF.

These people are so, so dumb. I said to my H the other day that the show must cast the most tragic cases, because there are tons of people (Americans even!) who manage to marry foreigners and live abroad and not have any of this happen.

Post by scm1011 on Sept 11, 2019 19:03:31 GMT -5

Sumit is next level...evil? I don’t know if that’s the right word, but to allow a 60 year old woman to leave everything she had to move to your country knowing you’re married takes a very, very messed up person.

Didn't they meet because he catfished her? I wanted to like them despite this, but his behaviour was off the charts weird even allowing for the cultural differences in family expectations. I feel bad for Jenny and especially bad for her daughter who so badly wants her mum back home.

I cannot believe Deavan moved to S. Korea knowing nothing about Jihoon's finances, although at least she has the excuse of being really young.

I can't believe she moved without confirming they had a place to live! Also, is there a reason he couldn't move to the States? Since she seemingly had a decent job, place to live, and a young daughter, and Jihoon speaks English (where as she doesn't speak Korean), it seems like it would have make a whole lot more sense for him to move to Utah.

I feel really awful for Jenny. They're pretty much the only couple I was rooting for because they both seemed to legit love each other.

Post by gummy on Sept 11, 2019 19:24:14 GMT -5

Didn't they meet because he catfished her? I wanted to like them despite this, but his behaviour was off the charts weird even allowing for the cultural differences in family expectations. I feel bad for Jenny and especially bad for her daughter who so badly wants her mum back home.

I cannot believe Deavan moved to S. Korea knowing nothing about Jihoon's finances, although at least she has the excuse of being really young.

I can't believe she moved without confirming they had a place to live! Also, is there a reason he couldn't move to the States? Since she seemingly had a decent job, place to live, and a young daughter, and Jihoon speaks English (where as she doesn't speak Korean), it seems like it would have make a whole lot more sense for him to move to Utah.

I feel really awful for Jenny. They're pretty much the only couple I was rooting for because they both seemed to legit love each other.

This is what I've been wondering about Deaven and Jihoon. She seems to have a lot of family support too.

Post by loira on Sept 11, 2019 19:32:44 GMT -5

Didn't they meet because he catfished her? I wanted to like them despite this, but his behaviour was off the charts weird even allowing for the cultural differences in family expectations. I feel bad for Jenny and especially bad for her daughter who so badly wants her mum back home.

I cannot believe Deavan moved to S. Korea knowing nothing about Jihoon's finances, although at least she has the excuse of being really young.

I can't believe she moved without confirming they had a place to live! Also, is there a reason he couldn't move to the States? Since she seemingly had a decent job, place to live, and a young daughter, and Jihoon speaks English (where as she doesn't speak Korean), it seems like it would have make a whole lot more sense for him to move to Utah.

I feel really awful for Jenny. They're pretty much the only couple I was rooting for because they both seemed to legit love each other.

Yes, I never really understood why Jihoon couldn't move to the US! Korea's an awesome place to live, but it seems like living in the US would make way more sense for them logistically. It is traditional for women in Korea to move in with their husband's family, but his parents don't seem too traditional (or else they would have had a fit at her being a single mum). I did wonder if he had a criminal background like Ronald that would prevent him getting permanent residency, but he was never denied entry to the States as a tourist... No idea what the official charge was for the phone thing. Maybe something quite severe?

Post by joy on Sept 12, 2019 15:34:10 GMT -5

Ohymgosh.Ohmygosh.Ohmygosh.

Max is a disaaaaaaaster. Bigger than I imagined. And my 16 year old self would not understand and probably defend him, too. I don’t blame Chloe, but I get her mom. He would not bring my daughter down with him if I could help it.