I'm really vain( I'm a leo so...), however I'm realizing that being into your looks means that you're confident in them at all. It's the opposite. I'm trying to find a balance because I'm really subconscious of my flaws and I've been told it's in my head. It's a struggle. So I'm cruising in this thread and I agree with trying to not judge people. I realize that although I don't say what I'm thinking, I'm still internalizing the judgement, so that will have to stop. I also am trying to not taking everything personal( it really can make your life miserable). I just tell myself, "It's not all about you." But I also don't think it's all about the other person either. I just take the situation matter of fact and look at it objectively. I also have to tell my emotions to STOP. Because they really can cloud your judgement.

I used to have really poor self esteem( lord, my ratchet past). But it's gotten much better with age, but I know its a daily process.

Build up on my talentsImprove my looks without obsessing over itStop trying to please everyone/ stop giving a fckBeing happy with what I already haveBeing more comfortable with my weirdness and only accepting people who accept me Strengthening my spirituality and connection with GodLearning new skills/tradesGoing out by myselfCutting people out of my life that are toxic or don't communicate with me anymore...Acknowledge my accomplishments in case the "I am a loser" thought comes into my headExercise/detoxing regularlyEmbrace people/situations/locations/ideas/items that entice my imagination. Busy work (house cleaning, organizing papers, etc.) Don't take criticism and negativity too seriously

Build up on my talentsImprove my looks without obsessing over itStop trying to please everyone/ stop giving a fckBeing happy with what I already haveBeing more comfortable with my weirdness and only accepting people who accept me Strengthening my spirituality and connection with GodLearning new skills/tradesGoing out by myselfCutting people out of my life that are toxic or don't communicate with me anymore...Acknowledge my accomplishments in case the "I am a loser" thought comes into my headExercise/detoxing regularlyEmbrace people/situations/locations/ideas/items that entice my imagination. Busy work (house cleaning, organizing papers, etc.) Don't take criticism and negativity too seriously

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