silver_bullet saidHad a hot time at the sauna with a handsome married guy on holiday here from San Francisco. He talked a bit about it, thought his wife must know because he couldn't help staring at all the hot kiwis here, lol.

Didn't want to come out because he was sure he would lose his [ Catholic ] family. I warned him that the gay 'community' was a bitchy, lonely, troubled subculture and to be careful, he said he already suspected that.

He was like the proverbial kid in the candy store at the sauna and the bars we drank at afterwards.

Isn't it great that you were part of a scenario where a man cheated on his wife, instead of with those awful gays?