the learning how to speak korean suggestion seems like a lot of fuckin work.

Quoting: Anonymous Coward 25729345

yeah, ignore that guy... Learn to speak korean and get a date or three (hell maybe a Wife...) but its going to be lots of work.

Use the Chloroform and its the gift that keeps on giving- Plus you dont want to really hear what she has to say anyway. After awhile you will have to tune that shit out. Getting bitched at to put the Toilet lid down in korean is a hassle...

Suggest you get together for coffee or a drink after work on Friday. Last day of the week.

Do it one Monday, then don't make a big deal out of it.

No matter what don't let it stress you, and keep in mind that you still have to work with her later.

If she asks why just smile at her and say that you want to get to know her better.

If she turns you down twice, at least without making a counter offer, let the idea go. If she says yes, your set, at least for the first date.

It's very low risk for you, since you're just saying you should hang out. (Even if you do want to bang her, which she should be able to guess. Hot chicks really do know that already.) If she isn't interested, move on, since life is too short to mess around with anyone that doesn't want you there.

Be bold, stay in control and be willing to toss her aside if she isn't serving your needs closely enough to bother with. Or at least act like it.

The return rate is less certain than chloroform, but on the good side there's virtually no chance of prison time for it.