On my iPhone is a motley collection of music and part of it is always spit out when we are traveling by car. It may happen that suddenly starts a song that is not suitable for the ears of my less-minor passenger. Some of the songs are not valuable with education - except for the educators!

Doctors, midwives, parents, teachers and other "experts" know for sure much better than we what " a good mom "or a good dad must necessarily do. You get the greatest responsibility for life- and will constantly dejected in what you are doing, "What your child is sleeping with you in bed What your child needs to sleep alone in his room What, you breastfeeding or What, you do not want??? silent? etc. "

It is absurd! But why is it so hard for us not to let it approach us? An example: We had decided that our daughter (3 months) is sleeping in our bed. This is practical and great. Moreover it is simply our decision. Just told my friend and we had a long-term plan to resettle our daughter in her own bed. When I asked him how this plan looks like, he replied: "Well, long term!" But then it began to gnaw the pros worry about him yet: What if we never get this small creature out from our bedchamber? And then we tried against each other to change something to the baby and against all reason, to a working situation. Not because we wanted to but because we somehow "had" to do it. It certainly wasn't the last time that we've forgotten he only important rule in life: Never change a running system.

Dear wisenheimer and experts: There is only one golden rule: I have nothing - except to feed my child, keep it warm and show him that I love it. We already know what we do and why we hear some songs even when the little monsters sleep - wherever.