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Exploring your sexuality is hard work. Exploring your authenticity is hard work. Both of these things kick up our fears an insecurities and I bet more than once you’ve heard a little voice in your head asking am I too much? Will I ever met someone who wants me as I am? Am I doing this whole thing wrong? And the on top of those doubts we might give ourselves a double whammy by shaming our fears, telling ourselves that we shouldn’t be afraid of rejection or fearful that we can’t hack getting to the root of ourselves, or the worst: If I was better, I wouldn’t be feeling this

And so we preach self care, and going slowly, and being gentle with ourselves. But do we risk going too far with that message? I’ve got more to say on that:

I’m not going to sit here and tell you that dating is always the easiest thing – especially as you get older and meeting people in general becomes after. But feeling anxious and stressed about dating doesn’t need to be your fate. There are some incredibly simple things you can do to move yourself out of fear and take back your personal power. Check out this short video below to learn more.

Because a sexuality empowerment coach means talking about anything you want to talk about; so when I was asked about how one goes about asking their partner to for a group sex fantasy, I had to give it my best answer.

Throughout the month of January on my YouTube channel we’re talking about making healthy choices when it comes to our sexuality – and I hope by now you know that means a lot more than knowing your STI status.

I’m pretty excited about where this is gonna go!

Youtube videos do make it up here eventually – but if you want first crack at them take a moment and subscribe directly to the channel. Don’t forget you can also send in questions for me to answer each month

What happens when what you want sexually isn’t what your partner wants? In this viewer question we’ve got a person whose partner is okay with a little kink; but not as much as they have been hoping for….

Oh my romantics – I feel for you, because I’m one of you. I love spending time daydreaming about what could be when it comes to my sexual adventures, and what happily ever after could look like for me this week.

But sometimes my romantic nature can get the better of me and stop me from seeing, or dealing with what’s happening in front of me. If you struggle with that too – watch on – I’ve got a challenge for you!

I hope you take me up on that challenge; and please comment about your experience so I know how you did!