I’m unabashedly taking a cue from fellow lovesite, Tango, and their 10 Men to Run From – Not After, because the man-on-man dating landscape is just as treacherous, and filled with traps. If you like to date just to date, and screw, consider this a walk down memory lane, and congrats. You’re probably better at the delineation between tricks and boyfriends than I ever was. If you date with an eye to commitment, monogamy, and a Crate and Barrel registry, take heed. Here’s a list of whom not to do, based on my own experiences.

The Closeted: Apologies in advance, but dating a closeted man is the funny uncle to dating a married man. It even feels pretty much the same, especially around the holidays, no matter how good and kind he is, or how he tries to make it seem otherwise. (See also 2, and 3.) Come out boys, it’s 2008. Continue reading ’12 Gay Men to Run From’

Lots of people in the Los Angeles area are selling their homes and moving: to another part of town, out of the madness, or to Canada, where most of the productions are done anyway.

The first thing to remember is that you’re ‘staging’ the house, in much the same way a set decorator would, and remembering that helps you make good decisions about what to do to present your home in its best light. That said, our friend Robert Carey offered some advice to home owners who are soon to be home sellers: Continue reading ‘Sex Up Your House to Help It Sell’