I want to modify the coop maps so that I don't have to run/drive across the map to get back to the fight. What is the quickest/easiest and/or best way to make all the capture points on the map allow you to spawn at them, BF2 style?

excuse me, but do you know if there's a way to increase the bot
count to like 100 or 255 (and still have even number of soldiers on
each side?

that's the primary question, the secondary question is do you know how
i could make it so the server does not force me to stay on the side with the
lesser amount of units? because i don't want to fight along side the talaban

The max number of bots on team 1 (opfor) is 48 this is hardcoded. The max number on team 2 (bluefor) is 200 orso. However if you would to go above a certain number bots do not and cannot join a squad. As result they will simply stand idle until they sence an enemy themselfs.

The reason they do not move would be because they get no orders (no squad)
This tends to bug the game.