Desperate for No-Strings Sex

I've just ended a painful relationship and want to have some easy-going, no-strings-attached sex. I always thought guys were up for one-night stands but when I suggest it, I don't see them for dust. What's going on?

If you want to know why men are unwilling to take you up on your offer, put yourself in their shoes. Imagine a guy saying to you, "Hi. Fancy a shag? No - don't bother with your name, I'm only interested in sex." Wouldn't you turn on your heels, too? Men may seem like aliens at times but they're only human - almost just like us! You're confusing your fantasy with reality. It's insulting to be wanted only for sex, whatever your gender. I don't mean to be a party pooper but I suspect this has more to do with your painful ex-relationship than a search for fun. Do yourself a favour and take some time out to heal from the last fall before you get back on the horse.

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