How do I deal with employee I’ve been sleeping with?

I’m a married man and a dad. I’m also the manager in an office. For the last few months, I’ve been sleeping with one of my employees.

She has now given me an ultimatum. She wants me to go to my boss and request that she be given my job, with me being demoted to her job. She says if I don’t, she’ll tell my boss I’ve been sleeping with her and she’ll tell my family.

Can anyone give me advice on how to get rid of her? I don’t want to be demoted. I hate the thought of her being my boss. But I don’t want to lose my family. Help.

55 Answers

Tell her you are going to tell your boss that she is a **** and that she is trying to BLACKMAIL you into your job and she said she is going to LIE AND SAY YOU HAD SEX with her when you have told her over and over numerous times to stay away from you or you were going to report her for sexual harassment. BEAT HER TO IT and claim sexual HARASSMENT against her..

Hm.. you got yourself in a really tough situation. What I would do is tell your family and boss. If she has your job, she would still tell your family and boss anyway. Be smart about your choices and take everyone else’s advice.

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