beyond feelings

Month: November 2014

“i wont argue with you” famous last words of the sociopath. if i ever showed any anger or conflict about the lying and cheating it somehow was always turned into being my fault. i was the bad person. i never realized how much this happened until i removed myself from the relationship with a sociopath. a sociopath cannot handle confrontation of any kind. it will usually set them off into a sociopathic rage if not worse. they will blame you, put you down, say you are crazy whatever it takes to take the blame off of them and onto you even when its about all there unfaithful actions. dont be fooled by projection.

Bullying: A bully may project his/her own feelings of vulnerability onto the target(s) of the bullying activity. Despite the fact that a bully’s typically denigrating activities are aimed at the bully’s targets, the true source of such negativity is ultimately almost always found in the bully’s own sense of personal insecurity and/or vulnerability.[25] Such aggressive projections of displaced negative emotions can occur anywhere from the micro-level of interpersonal relationships, all the way up through to the macro-level of international politics, or even international armed conflict.[20]

in other words he will blame you for what he is actually doing.

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ghosting, the act of deleting a person you are in a relationship of some kind with, like they never existed and without any closure. so easy to do now a days with text messages and email. i think it is evil, cruel and disgusting. if you cared once for someone you wouldn’t just remove them from your life without a good by or “hey it just wasn’t meant to be. how tough is it to say that compared to just removing someone from your world that you have been involved with and supposedly loved. its all about control and leaving you without any closure making you wonder what is wrong with you or what did you that is so unlovable about yourself. cruelty at its finest.