Should I leave my reliable boyfriend for my passionate ex-lover?

This week Metro’s sex and relationship experts help a woman who is trying to decide between two men (Picture: neilwebb.net)

This week Metro helps a reader who is trying to decide between two men.

Two years ago, before I met my boyfriend, I had a series of one night stands with a guy from the States.

I then met my boyfriend who adores me and although I’ve never felt an incredible amount of passion for him, I have grown to love him. The American has now moved permanently to the UK and we kissed at a New Year’s Eve party.

I’ve never had a kiss like that with my partner. My friends says I’m lucky to have a reliable, loving boyfriend and that I should focus on work (I’m about to start studying again) and come back to the situation in a few months to see how I feel.

I’m 30 and feel the pressure to make a decision soon.

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