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Foot fetish?

January 3rd, 2018, 10:02 AM

So it turns out my partner has a little bit of a foot fetish. I've never been with someone who has a foot fetish-- or any fetish really. I want to explore this fetish and see if it enjoyable to me. I know he's told me what he wants to do... but I'm kind of lost on what I can do. He's not a sub and all the pointers I find online are geared towards a sub/dom situation.

Any ideas out there on what I can do to help him discover this fetish with me? Thanks guys!

It's not always rainbows and butterflies, it's compromise that moves us along.

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He won't say what exactly. He's definitely shy about it, but he told me he thinks my "feet are sexy as fxck" and he "wants to experiment with them". I said I was game, but I don't want to be caught off guard or not know what to do to help him explore the fantasy. He says he's only tried it one other time (foot job) and it really turned him on. Also said he can't stop looking or wanting to touch my feet when we're together. Apparently this is preceding us being together and he's been holding it in for months. lol!

I don't think it is weird and am definitely willing to explore just about anything that makes him feel good. I just don't know how to help him or what I should do. Just go with the flow?

It's not always rainbows and butterflies, it's compromise that moves us along.

I'm just nervous about it I guess... there isn't much I find taboo so this should be fun-- but it's new and uncertain ground for me.
I've been watching some amateur foot fetish porn as well to give me ideas on what some guys might like done in those situations. All a great help!

It's not always rainbows and butterflies, it's compromise that moves us along.

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i have been with men that simply want to rub my feet to ones that want to lick them and suck on my toes one at a time. all that feels good. just feel him out on his definition of foot fetish. I think almost anything you will enjoy.

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And for me I just massage my wifeís feet and thatís pretty much it, I donít do anything crazy because I think it would turn her off but she knows I really get off on massaging her feet while she has a glass of wine or two which of course I serve her. She makes comments about my strong hands and she loves the attention and massages after wearing those damn sexy heels all day!