boxlink will say awaiting connection until u are logged onto xlink on ur pc - all boxlink is, is a program really for people to join games using xlink thru there xbox (cos not everyone has there pc next to there xbox-this saves people having to run back and forth)

Im afraid ull have to wait till the server is up

Ill see u in xlink!

I hope im clear enough, if not ask agen and some1 else will help u better