“Today’s reality shows have given people the wrong impression of an Italian American from Staten Island. Various reality shows portray the Italian community of Staten Island as uneducated, rude and classless. I, however, beg to differ.

“Most of the people I know are educated, polite and considerate. They would present quite a different picture to the public than the one that is sent out by these shows. Of course, many shows are only looking for ratings, and scandal, unfortunately, sells better than appropriate behavior.

“Almost 40 percent of Staten Island is made up of people from Italian ancestry. Italian Americans have made substantial contributions to American life. As harsh as these shows make us look, I am very proud of where I live and where I come from. I have lived on Staten Island my whole life and as much as I love getting away, I always look forward to coming back home.

“I feel that people from Staten Island always have to defend themselves from these typical stereotypes. I must say it is quite upsetting how ignorant and close-minded people can be.”

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