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Stupid Tipsy Regretting Stranger

Dear Baba Rumcake,
I was tipsy then met this guy. We exchanged numbers and now he’s called me twice in the past 2 weeks leaving voice messages. I’m really not interested in seeing him.
I really don’t want to call him to tell him I dont want to see him.
Should I just keep ignoring him and eventually he’ll get the hint and stop calling?
Yes I shouldn’t have given him my number in the first place, but he was kind of cute and I was a little drunk.
Too Drunk to Think
Dear TDTT,
Yep. Just ignore the calls and messages. He will eventually stop calling. It’s been done before by people in the same dilemma.

Or, go for it and you could take one of the calls and say you don’t really want to talk to him…. but in order to do that, you have to talk to them. Defeats the purpose, huh?
Anyway, if you are just not interested, you are not interested.
He will get over it and move on.

If he does not move on, then you have given your number to a cretin that will harass you for a long time and if that is true then it serves you right for being so drunk that you gave your number to someone you do no know and in a bar no less.

You found him cute, so what is the big deal? Talk to the schmuck you might find him cute again while sober this time.

In any case, as long as you were not so drunk as to give him your address, you should do fine. And you really should be more careful in the future. Sheeesh!