tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17247188827898699162015-09-16T12:44:26.252-04:00Melissashappyendingmelissa78http://www.blogger.com/profile/05586398988559207134noreply@blogger.comBlogger36125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1724718882789869916.post-17750984671851911522014-05-01T17:39:00.001-04:002014-05-01T17:39:18.382-04:00You know you are TTC when...You know you are TTC when your nightstand looks like this.<br /><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-zj1mFjgDJa8/U2K72t6edGI/AAAAAAAAAHQ/u-EbWbATRGc/s1600/melissa+table.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-zj1mFjgDJa8/U2K72t6edGI/AAAAAAAAAHQ/u-EbWbATRGc/s1600/melissa+table.JPG" height="240" width="320" /></a></div><br />And when you hear the term " Eggs white" and " school glue" you automatically think about your cervical mucus, and wonder if your recorded yours today.<br /><br />You obsess over you BBT chart.<br /><br />You have multiple TTC apps on your phone.<br /><br />You have no problem texting your husband, "get home early tonight it is go time". Or Telling your best friend " sorry we might be late it's baby making time"<br /><br />You never HATED getting your period as mush as you do when you are TTC.<br /><br />You secretly look up your EDD if you were to get pregnant this cycle, &nbsp;every time you get your period.<br /><br />You notice EVERYONE around you is pregnant!<br /><br />You keep on keeping on and know one day it will happen and if it doesn't you have an amazing husband who will be there with you to make sure you covered every base, &nbsp;tried every step, and every possible scenario. Even when you want to throw in the towel &nbsp;he will be right there to whisper in your ear &nbsp;" we got this". <br /><br />melissa78http://www.blogger.com/profile/05586398988559207134noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1724718882789869916.post-32683531194991971062014-02-16T16:50:00.000-05:002014-02-16T16:50:00.242-05:00Still here!!!<span style="font-family: inherit;">Life has finally settled down!&nbsp;We are loving married life, we are loving our new home and making it homey!&nbsp;</span><br /><span style="font-family: inherit;">We loving having our friends over and &nbsp;BBQing, playing horse shoes, watching the Phillies.&nbsp;</span><br /><br /><span style="font-family: inherit;">We have been talking more and more about having a baby. I had to make sure I was healthy enough to get pregnant and carry a baby. I went to my PCP and she sent me to a Fetal/Maternal doctor. I made an appt immediately and was in the office within 2 weeks. &nbsp;The PA and the Doctors were amazing!! They are very confident that with all my injuries I can carry a baby.I asked them about delivery, with my brain tumors can I vaginally deliver?? with my internal injuries from the car accident, can I have a c-Section?? They have no doubt but they just want to talk to my neurologist, &nbsp;( more on that later). The did say If i decided to stay with them for my journey they will have me meet with their trauma/surgical team just to be on the safe side.&nbsp;</span><br /><span style="font-family: inherit;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: inherit;">Not sure what if I ever talked about my brain tumors so I will briefly touch base.&nbsp;</span><br /><span style="font-family: inherit;">In Feb 2012 I fell down the steps ( after a few too many drinks) my friend and I were goofing off and BAM I fell down the steps. 2 day later I still had a nasty headache so I decided to go to the doctors, on my way I changed my mind and just went to the ER. The ran a battery of test and it was found that I had 3 brain tumors. That was a hard thing to hear. That hospital wanted to transport me to a hospital that can better assist with the treatment. I had the most amazing care EVER they doctors and nurses were amazing.&nbsp;</span><br /><span style="font-family: inherit;">The doctors decided to "watch" the tumors and redo the MRI &nbsp; at 3 months ( June) everything was fine, then at 6 months (Dec) I had a new growth so they decided to remove one. That surgery went fine and I was sent home with some meds and to follow up. &nbsp;I went back at 3 months again and everything was fine. THEN in June I had yet another new growth. My Neurosurgeon was concerned about the location of it and wanted me to see a M.S. specialist. &nbsp;So after months of &nbsp;test and follow ups it was determined that I have M.S. I started on medication immediately. But because we are going to " start trying" I went off my meds and started prenatal vitamins.&nbsp;</span><br /><span style="font-family: inherit;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: inherit;">We are very excited to start the next chapter in our lives and &nbsp;I hope and pray that we can make this dream come true. I will keep you posted!!&nbsp;</span><br /><span style="font-family: inherit;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: inherit;">Melissa&nbsp;</span><br /><br />melissa78http://www.blogger.com/profile/05586398988559207134noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1724718882789869916.post-16854171918739553032013-10-31T16:17:00.001-04:002013-10-31T16:17:40.219-04:00First comes love, then marriage, then ???WOW!!! Life sure had changed since I last posted! <br />Had the last of my car accident surgeries on March 13th, ( 12 hours) but, everything went great!!!<br />We got Married on May 3rd<br />Bought a House on August 2nd<br />We are enjoying life together in our new home. We have been talking more and more about BABIES!!&nbsp; We cannot wait to start that chapter in our life together.&nbsp; Hopefully it will happen without to much medical intervention. But whatever we have to do we WILL do it!!&nbsp; This girl was born to be a mommy!&nbsp; melissa78http://www.blogger.com/profile/05586398988559207134noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1724718882789869916.post-89143369227357611852012-11-13T00:58:00.002-05:002012-11-13T00:59:28.356-05:00Thankful!!<br /><br />Life is definitely moving forward!<br /><br />Wedding Date set.<br />Wedding Dress Picked out.<br />Wedding invite list complete.<br />Eric and I Were busy enjoying life when BAM our life was&nbsp;jolted!<br /><br />On August 19th Eric and I &nbsp;were coming home from spending a wonderful weekend down the<br />shore with friends, when we were pushed off the rode by a &nbsp;S.U.V and hit a tree head on going 70 miles an hour on Highway 55 in New Jersey. &nbsp;When we came to a stop I was awake and actually got out of the car after Eric pried it open. I even walked around, until I looked down at my left ankle and noticed it was the size of a small watermelon. Within 5 minutes of the accident 15 men ran to the car from a hotel off the high way. Get this- They were at a medic convention at the hotel. &nbsp;They helped&nbsp;stabilize me until the paramedic /ambulance got there. They say that after a&nbsp;traumatic&nbsp;injury your body releases&nbsp;endorphin's so you do not feel pain, this definitely happened to me. &nbsp;Once I was put into the ambulance the pain kicked in and I was begging them to " just go"&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;I was transported to a trauma hospital 48 miles away from where the&nbsp;accident&nbsp;&nbsp;happened and Eric was taken to a nearby hospital. &nbsp;The next think I remember was them cutting my clothes off in the hospital. I was then taken into surgery for 3 hours as they repaired my internal injuries and bleeding, caused from the seat belt. However, the doctors told my parents that if I did not have my seat belt on I would not be alive. ( Thank God for seat belts) &nbsp; I do not remember the first few days after surgery, probably because of the Morphine. ( Thank God for Morphine) Once I was&nbsp;stabilized&nbsp;and off the Morphine the sent me in for more surgery, this time on my ankle. They had to put screws into it because I fractured the Tallus. Waking up from that surgery SUCKED!!!!!! <br />&nbsp;Eric was treated and released from the hospital with in a few hours. ME? I spent 11 days in the hospital, then was sent to a rehab for 14 days. I then went to my parents to recoup because I needed so much help and I live on a 3rd floor apartment. My parents turned their 1st floor into a mini apartment for me. They even put a TV and cable in their dining room , where my hospital bed was set up. I have no idea what I would have done without them. &nbsp; <br /><br />Some of my injuries will require additional surgeries, they are saying&nbsp;probably&nbsp;March-April. I am praying they do it in March, since the wedding is May 3rd. In the mean time life is slowly getting back to normal. &nbsp;I &nbsp;Am back home with Eric, where I belong. I am &nbsp;working on the wedding plans again. I am still not cleared to go back to work so I have all day, everyday to do wedding stuff and watch&nbsp;reality TV.<br /><br />One thing I have learned is , you definitely find out who belongs in your life and who doesn't when&nbsp;tragedies happen. &nbsp;I was able to take some people off the wedding list after this&nbsp;happened.<br />It also makes you realize how short life is and how quickly it can change. <br />It also makes me SO happy to be alive and Thankful that God and my&nbsp;guardian&nbsp;angles were looking out for me that day!!!<br /><div><br /></div><br /><br /><br /><br />melissa78http://www.blogger.com/profile/05586398988559207134noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1724718882789869916.post-14245559518636836792012-04-11T18:31:00.002-04:002012-04-11T18:31:59.439-04:00updates on my lifeLots going on !!Where do I begin? <br /><br />February 25th Eric and I were having out with friends at their home, having a few drinks, goofing off. after&nbsp; "a few" drinks My friend Jenn decided to put on her wedding dress " to see if it still fit" As we were running down the steps&nbsp;I fell and banged my head HARD!!&nbsp;&nbsp; Instant headache, kinda ruined the night. I woke up the next day so sick, vomiting, killer headache, body was throbbing, I just stayed in bed taking Mot.rin. The next day when I still felt sick&nbsp;I decided it was probably best to call the doctor. I ended up going to the ER and getting all sorts of test and blood work done. After a few hours they came and told me they found something on my brain and they do not believe it had anything to do with the fall. They called it an " incidental finding" . after more test and more doctors coming in they said they wanted to transfer me to a different hospital with better Neuro Department.&nbsp; So a few hours later&nbsp;I was off in an ambulance to Tho.mas Jeff.erson , where I stayed for 5 very longs days.&nbsp; They determined that&nbsp;I have a 2 small " lesions,tumors, masses, ( pick your term) on my frontal lobes, a larger on in/on my Right Temporal lobe,&nbsp;and while they were at it they found on on my liver!&nbsp; I would not have survived those 5 days in the hospital with out my mom and Eric. They tool shifts mom stayed with me all day so Eric could work and so she would help me with&nbsp;the doctors. Eric would come after work and stay with me past visiting hours( best nurses).&nbsp;&nbsp; They doctors have decided the best course of action is wait and see. they are going to wait 3 months and then repeat the test to see if anything has changed. If nothing has changed they will do it again in 6 months, then a yr.&nbsp;If at anytime something changes they will do&nbsp;biopsy and then whatever else is needed.&nbsp; <br /><br /><br /><br /><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-VGxw_Ke7rn8/T4YF9YbbULI/AAAAAAAAAFk/9JbgaYpL8nc/s1600/photo+(4).JPG" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="240" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-VGxw_Ke7rn8/T4YF9YbbULI/AAAAAAAAAFk/9JbgaYpL8nc/s320/photo+(4).JPG" width="320" /></a>&nbsp;You can see how bloated my face is from all the fluids they were pumping me with!! </div><br /><br />March 16th Eric and I went to the shore for the weekend to " just get away". Little did I know he had bigger plans.&nbsp; He woke up on the 17th at 6AM yes you read that right 6 AM on a SATURDAY!!!! he wanted to go see the sunrise at our favorite spot but&nbsp;I was so sleepy&nbsp;I said no and rolled back over.&nbsp; 8am he came back in and was woke me up again, this time I gave in I got up and went with him to our spot.&nbsp; We stopped at Wa..Wa to get breakfast to enjoy at the gazebo on the beach.&nbsp; We were only there for a about 5 minutes when he asked me to go for a walk on the beach. So as we are walking he begins to talk about my doctors appointments and tell me that he loves me and he gets down on one knee,&nbsp;I then tell him to SHUT UP!!&nbsp; He pulled out the ring and said those 4 little words I had been asking for .&nbsp; I said YES of course.&nbsp;He said seeing me in the hospital&nbsp;hooked up&nbsp;to all those machines really made&nbsp;him think about it&nbsp;and made he realize " what the hell am I waiting for" . &nbsp; He then told me that he had a fun day of surprises for me! My best friend and her husband were coming down to celebrate with us &amp; to take our engagement pictures. We spend the entire after noon&nbsp;on the beach and back out the house celebrating and enjoying&nbsp; each others company! <br /><br />As of today we have set the date, May 3, 2013, &nbsp;booked the hall, and I got the dress!!&nbsp; Still have lots more to go but I am going to enjoy every second of it!! <br /><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-vglvSRl4ez4/T4YGLAyVmPI/AAAAAAAAAFs/SMNJVL_SsiA/s1600/photo+(2).JPG" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="240" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-vglvSRl4ez4/T4YGLAyVmPI/AAAAAAAAAFs/SMNJVL_SsiA/s320/photo+(2).JPG" width="320" /></a></div><br /><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-_c9Fn0JOLqE/T4YGM3DIm_I/AAAAAAAAAF0/FpZN8l-xMUs/s1600/photo+(5).JPG" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="240" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-_c9Fn0JOLqE/T4YGM3DIm_I/AAAAAAAAAF0/FpZN8l-xMUs/s320/photo+(5).JPG" width="320" /></a></div><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br />melissa78http://www.blogger.com/profile/05586398988559207134noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1724718882789869916.post-29367111563578196272011-10-14T18:13:00.003-04:002011-10-14T18:29:37.411-04:00checking in...<span style="font-family:georgia;">Wow! I have been gone for a long time! </span><br /><span style="font-family:georgia;">I love checking in on everybody and seeing what is going on beyond the 4 walls of my office where I spend way to much time. Lets see, what is new????</span><br /><span style="font-family:georgia;"></span><br /><span style="font-family:georgia;">School is in session- This year we are Kindergarten - 6<span id="SPELLING_ERROR_0" class="blsp-spelling-error">th</span> and 9<span id="SPELLING_ERROR_1" class="blsp-spelling-error">th</span> &amp; 10<span id="SPELLING_ERROR_2" class="blsp-spelling-error">th</span> this year</span><br /><span style="font-family:georgia;">I am taking a class ASL ( American Sign Language) at the Community College. </span><br /><span style="font-family:georgia;">I have my Associates degree in Education but have been thinking about going for my Bachelor's degree ( NOT in education) perhaps going to become an Interpreter ??????</span><br /><br /><span id="SPELLING_ERROR_3" class="blsp-spelling-error">Cloie</span> ( my goddaughter) is no longer living with me because her mom wanted her back and that is where she wanted to be, with all her siblings. :( but I still get to see her everyday at school.<br />Hope you are all well!!!!melissa78http://www.blogger.com/profile/05586398988559207134noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1724718882789869916.post-33127093960129046012011-05-14T23:31:00.002-04:002011-05-14T23:45:07.784-04:00Waiting for Superman?!?!I was finally able to see this movie last week! My school hosted an event where they were showing the movie and stopping it every 30-45 minutes and letting the 9th graders debate it. I have to say I really enjoyed this movie because it really does accurately portray(most) public school and the fight to get into charter schools. I see first hand the lottery and how so many people apply to get their children in because their neighborhood public school is failing them. I get to see first had the anguish in parent's faces while they wait to see if their child will get. I see first had the anger when parents realize their child did not get in. I also get to see the joy when a child does get it. I also get to hear a parent cry and scream out "thank you Jesus" when I make a phone call to a family on the wait list telling them their child has been accepted. I see first had the how Charter schools work and the difference it makes in the life of a child. I see a child who comes from a neighborhood public school with the mentality that nobody cares, to a child that walking in the door with a smile on his face . I see a child come from a neighborhood public school with all D's go on to get all A's and B's the next report card. I see first hand how awesome charter schools are and the difference they can make in the life of a child.melissa78http://www.blogger.com/profile/05586398988559207134noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1724718882789869916.post-32497083418418252122011-05-14T23:19:00.002-04:002011-05-14T23:31:51.309-04:00SchoolingSo Not sure if i mentioned it before but I work at one of the 71 Charter Schools in Philadelphia. I love my job, I love the people, I love the children. I love the diversity of the school. I grew up in a ALL white neighborhood, went to Catholic school all 12 yrs. I did not have a conversation with a black person until I was in college. I remember walking into my first day of school as a new college student and was in complete cultural shock, I mean COMPLETE shock. I found myself having a hard time even having a conversation with anyone because I had never been in such a unfamiliar setting. I vividly remember watching the girl in front of me braided her hair and being amazed that she didn't even need hair ties. okay let me get to my point<div><br /></div><div>I love walking the halls and seeing so many children from so many different walks of life having conversations, hanging out, being friends. I love that so many children will not have to wait until they are walking in to the first day of college to make friends pf different races, religion, and sexualities.</div><div><br /></div><div><br /><br /></div>melissa78http://www.blogger.com/profile/05586398988559207134noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1724718882789869916.post-78559722015224494412010-12-17T11:41:00.002-05:002010-12-17T12:07:57.429-05:00"The Club"Since I a child I dreamed of being a mom.<br />Since I was a child I have wrote down names I loved and had to name my future children.<br />Since I was a teenager I thought about "the club"<br /><br />Some women gain acceptance into "the club" by accident.<br />Some woman gain acceptance into "the club" without any problems.<br />Some women gain acceptance into "the club" after years of trying.<br />Some woman gain acceptance into "the club" after spending thousands of dollars.<br />Some woman gain acceptance into "the club" after seeing a swarm of doctors and specialist.<br />Some woman gain acceptance into "the club" after years of trying, failed attempts, and spending thousands of dollars.<br /><br />To me all moms no matter HOW they became a mom are members of this "club" .<br /><br />I have wanted to be a member of this "club" since I can remember. <br />I am hoping in 2011 I will be able to gain acceptance into "The Club"melissa78http://www.blogger.com/profile/05586398988559207134noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1724718882789869916.post-53264214165801881112010-11-15T13:29:00.000-05:002010-11-15T13:32:21.063-05:00<a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_6i7oNJnyrVU/TOF8eobWD8I/AAAAAAAAAFA/h_BBEm8bwBs/s1600/cloie%2B063.jpg"><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 240px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 320px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5539845882332450754" border="0" alt="" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_6i7oNJnyrVU/TOF8eobWD8I/AAAAAAAAAFA/h_BBEm8bwBs/s320/cloie%2B063.jpg" /></a><br /><div><a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_6i7oNJnyrVU/TOF8eQgF0GI/AAAAAAAAAE4/QKHd-JmPrWM/s1600/cloie%2B045.jpg"><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 320px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 240px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5539845875909906530" border="0" alt="" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_6i7oNJnyrVU/TOF8eQgF0GI/AAAAAAAAAE4/QKHd-JmPrWM/s320/cloie%2B045.jpg" /></a><br /><br /><div><a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_6i7oNJnyrVU/TOF8dr6bKXI/AAAAAAAAAEw/y5TesAaWuUg/s1600/cloie%2B036.jpg"><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 3px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 1px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5539845866088245618" border="0" alt="" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_6i7oNJnyrVU/TOF8dr6bKXI/AAAAAAAAAEw/y5TesAaWuUg/s320/cloie%2B036.jpg" /></a><br /><br /><br /><div><a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_6i7oNJnyrVU/TOF8c9wJN7I/AAAAAAAAAEo/-bRz_V1SPyQ/s1600/cloie%2B059.jpg"><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 320px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 240px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5539845853697095602" border="0" alt="" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_6i7oNJnyrVU/TOF8c9wJN7I/AAAAAAAAAEo/-bRz_V1SPyQ/s320/cloie%2B059.jpg" /></a><br /><br /><br /><br /><div></div></div></div></div>melissa78http://www.blogger.com/profile/05586398988559207134noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1724718882789869916.post-48083085915909566742010-11-15T13:24:00.001-05:002010-11-15T13:29:24.178-05:00Cloie<span style="color:#ff0000;"></span><a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_6i7oNJnyrVU/TOF7fVLe6dI/AAAAAAAAAEg/myz8-UBke78/s1600/cloie%2B061.jpg"><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 320px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 240px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5539844794833889746" border="0" alt="" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_6i7oNJnyrVU/TOF7fVLe6dI/AAAAAAAAAEg/myz8-UBke78/s320/cloie%2B061.jpg" /></a><br /><br /><div><a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_6i7oNJnyrVU/TOF7eosGdRI/AAAAAAAAAEY/PFALZchSNmA/s1600/cloie%2B048.jpg"><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 320px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 240px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5539844782891103506" border="0" alt="" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_6i7oNJnyrVU/TOF7eosGdRI/AAAAAAAAAEY/PFALZchSNmA/s320/cloie%2B048.jpg" /></a><br /><br /><br /><div><a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_6i7oNJnyrVU/TOF7eb8y99I/AAAAAAAAAEQ/H6A8cC3clis/s1600/cloie%2B035.jpg"><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 240px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 320px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5539844779471468498" border="0" alt="" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_6i7oNJnyrVU/TOF7eb8y99I/AAAAAAAAAEQ/H6A8cC3clis/s320/cloie%2B035.jpg" /></a><br /><br /><br /><br /><div><a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_6i7oNJnyrVU/TOF7eB-onzI/AAAAAAAAAEI/urEruegaGrA/s1600/cloie%2B035.jpg"><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 7px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 3px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5539844772499857202" border="0" alt="" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_6i7oNJnyrVU/TOF7eB-onzI/AAAAAAAAAEI/urEruegaGrA/s320/cloie%2B035.jpg" /></a><br /><br /><span style="font-size:+0;"></span><br /><br /><br /><div><a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_6i7oNJnyrVU/TOF7ddGHLgI/AAAAAAAAAEA/JzNQ_xr9Gm4/s1600/cloie%2B047.jpg"><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 320px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 240px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5539844762599108098" border="0" alt="" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_6i7oNJnyrVU/TOF7ddGHLgI/AAAAAAAAAEA/JzNQ_xr9Gm4/s320/cloie%2B047.jpg" /></a><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><div></div></div></div></div></div>melissa78http://www.blogger.com/profile/05586398988559207134noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1724718882789869916.post-66179139815308697252010-11-09T09:16:00.002-05:002010-11-09T09:28:19.340-05:00such a slacker!!Not having a computert at home anymore realling hinders your blogging time!<br /><br />Updates!!!!<br /><br />I have Cloie (Goddaughter) almost full time now, not legalized (yet) but her mom agreed to it. She is going to school where I work at and it is awesome!! We get to spend so much time together, do homework ( not so much fun) , projects, school pics were last week &amp; I signed her up to be in the school fashion show, girl scouts &amp; ballroom dancing. If she was with her mom she would probably miss school all the time &amp; falling behind &amp; not doing any of the fun activites she is doing now. I am not trying to knoeck her mom but her mom is pregnant yet AGAIN!!!! She has Cloie -6 Michael - 4 James - 9 months (born 15 weeks early) and is now pregnant again. It amazes me that people like here can just keep popping out kids. So she would really not have time to do all these things with Cloie.<br /><br />I could really turn this into a VENT post againt her mom but I won't.<br /><br />I am really looking forward to the next few weeks with the holidays and seasons changing. Not so much my gas bill but....<br /><br />I am going to try to upload some new pictures today if I have my camara cord.<br /><br />Hope everytone is well!!!!melissa78http://www.blogger.com/profile/05586398988559207134noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1724718882789869916.post-29491507255113265302010-07-23T11:17:00.002-04:002010-07-23T11:27:01.264-04:00Wow talk about being MIAHey Everyone,<br /><br />I can't believe how long it has been since I last posted, nothing has really changed.<br />Still working as a school scretary &amp; loving it. <br />I have spent some time with my Neice/God-daughter Cloie I had her over Memorial weekend &amp; took her to my old neighorhoods annual parade &amp; she even got to see the Mayor of Philadelophia and The Govonor of Pennsylvania. They come to our parade EVER YEAR!!!!<br /><br />This past weekend I took her to the shore from Thursday to Monday and we had so much fun. We went to the beach everyday played in the water, built sandcastles, played vollyball. Last yr she liked the water but would not really go in, This year was a whole differant ball game. She LOVE the water she spend most of the time in the water. As soon as we put our bags down on the sand she would take a beeline righ to the water.<br /><br />We went to the boardwalk one night and she wanton rides for over 2 hours. I took lots of pictures but will have to post them on Tues because I forgot to bring my camara cord to work today and I am off on Monday , so I will have to post them all on Tuesday<br /><br />Sorry this is so sort but I have to get back to sending out supply list to the families!!!melissa78http://www.blogger.com/profile/05586398988559207134noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1724718882789869916.post-46939379079083152492010-04-30T18:35:00.001-04:002010-04-30T18:35:58.180-04:00oh yeaThe hell with the Diet this week, Give me a cheesesteak!!! :)melissa78http://www.blogger.com/profile/05586398988559207134noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1724718882789869916.post-56864878567190654752010-04-30T18:19:00.002-04:002010-04-30T18:35:03.073-04:00TGIF!!!Thank God it is Friday!!! Work has be SUPER busy, I am lucky if I actually get to pee during the day. I have been eating lunch at my desk &amp; working like crazy!!!<br />See I work for a school &amp; from now until Sept is my busy time. In April we had our lottery to choose who gets in or who does not. So after the lottery I have <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_0" class="blsp-spelling-corrected">parents</span> calling me crying " my baby <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_1" class="blsp-spelling-corrected">didn't</span> get in <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_2" class="blsp-spelling-corrected">I'm</span> so upset" or people yelling at me <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_3" class="blsp-spelling-corrected">because</span> that <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_4" class="blsp-spelling-corrected">already</span> have children here and the youngest one did not. Or my favorite "What is a waiting list?" SERIOUSLY!!!!!!!!<br />We only really took Kindergarten children <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_5" class="blsp-spelling-corrected">because</span> the rest of the <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_6" class="blsp-spelling-corrected">students</span> will move up, so we may have only had 1-3 spots in the other grades.<br /><br />Well in May we have all the new students coming for a screening to see where they are academically, so we know how to place them in September. I had to mail out postcards to tell the <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_7" class="blsp-spelling-corrected">parents</span> that their children were accepted. However if they do not come to the screening that will <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_8" class="blsp-spelling-corrected">forfeit</span> their spot. <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_9" class="blsp-spelling-corrected">I'm</span> taking bets how many <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_10" class="blsp-spelling-corrected">parents</span> will not show up and then call on Thursday , after she screening process and tell me that did not know about it. WELL TO BAD it was on the website, &amp; it was mailed to you. So sorry but your spot has been filled!!!!<br /><br />I just have to mentally prepare myself for the CRAZY people!<br />Well it is 6:30 and I have been here since 6:45 this <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_11" class="blsp-spelling-error">morning</span> &amp; I have to come in tomorrow for a few hours to help with out 9<span id="SPELLING_ERROR_12" class="blsp-spelling-error">th</span> grade screenings. <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_13" class="blsp-spelling-error">UGGG</span> I love this time if the year!<br /><br /><br />Have a GREAT weekend!!melissa78http://www.blogger.com/profile/05586398988559207134noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1724718882789869916.post-59836785694407362692010-03-22T16:55:00.002-04:002010-03-22T17:13:06.720-04:00DIET TimeOkay I have let myself go long enough!!! It is time for serious dieting!! <br />I have let myself go long enough. Back in 06 I joined we.<span id="SPELLING_ERROR_0" class="blsp-spelling-error">ight</span> Wat.<span id="SPELLING_ERROR_1" class="blsp-spelling-error">chers</span> LOVED IT!!!! I lost the weight so quick, when I actually followed it. And I can honestly tell you that it <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_2" class="blsp-spelling-corrected">doesn't</span> feel like a <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_3" class="blsp-spelling-error">di</span>.<span id="SPELLING_ERROR_4" class="blsp-spelling-error">et</span>. You can eat whatever you want, you can even DRINK your points if you so choose too.<br />The hardest part is the 1st week getting your body out of the routine of eating whatever and whenever you want. But after that it is EASY!!!!<br /><br />I have also begun going to the gym every morning at 5am yes 5 AM. I have to be in work at 7:30 and usually do not get home until after 7 so <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_5" class="blsp-spelling-corrected">their</span> is no way I am going to want to go out to the gym once I get home from working 12 hours, plus going to the gym pumps your <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_6" class="blsp-spelling-corrected">adrenaline</span> up so it is hard to fall <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_7" class="blsp-spelling-corrected">asleep</span>. So now I drag my a.<span id="SPELLING_ERROR_8" class="blsp-spelling-error">ss</span> out of bed at 4:45 (okay sometimes I hit snooze but just once) then I am at the gym by 5:20 workout for a hour then run home to get read for work. I can honestly say the hardest part is actually getting out of bed, once <em>I </em>am out of bed it is easy. I feel so good the rest of the day, I have so much more energy!!!!<br /><br />Last night I actually took a picture of myself in my FAVORITE pair of jeans size 8 they would button BUT were VERY TIGHT!!!! I am using that as a incentive to lose the weight, I actually want to get into a 6 we shall see!!!!<br /><br />I will take a new picture every 2 weeks to show my progress getting into my size 8 jeans! I am going to wait to post them until I have my 2<span id="SPELLING_ERROR_9" class="blsp-spelling-error">nd</span> picture to show my progress so far!<br /><br />Okay I have to get back to doing some work!!!melissa78http://www.blogger.com/profile/05586398988559207134noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1724718882789869916.post-85301750773204093342010-03-01T18:10:00.001-05:002010-03-01T18:20:40.386-05:00Baby JamesHello all,<br /><br /> I have a few minutes so I will update you on <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_0" class="blsp-spelling-error">Cloie's</span> brother.<br />Mom work up bleeding <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_1" class="blsp-spelling-error">a lot</span>, she <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_2" class="blsp-spelling-corrected">said</span> the tub was full of blood and clots ( <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_3" class="blsp-spelling-error">sry</span> <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_4" class="blsp-spelling-error">TMI</span>)<br />they rushed her to the hospital and tried to stop he from being born but they <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_5" class="blsp-spelling-corrected">couldn't</span> so<br />He was born on Tues Feb 23rd 15 weeks too early. He ( as well as mom) <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_6" class="blsp-spelling-corrected">immediately</span> had to receive blood transfusions. They told mom that they almost lost her.<br />He weighed in at 1lb 10 oz and was 13 inches long. He is hooked up to all kinds of machines.<br />He has a hole in a heart valve &amp; a leak in his lung but they are healing with medicine. But he does have bleeding in his brain &amp; they are very worried about it. :(<br />He also tested positive for Marijuana so now <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_7" class="blsp-spelling-error">DHS</span> is involved. I am hoping that they call me to take <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_8" class="blsp-spelling-error">Cloie</span>.<br />Mom was discharged on Friday, James will be there until prob May.<br /> It is so sad because mom or dad do not drive so they will have to take the bus to the hospital to see him so I doubt they will go everyday. Unfortunately the <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_9" class="blsp-spelling-error">NICU</span> at the hospital he is in is level 3 ??? so nobody can see him except mom and dad we can't even look <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_10" class="blsp-spelling-error">thru</span> the glass to look at him. :(<br />Please continue to pray from baby James.melissa78http://www.blogger.com/profile/05586398988559207134noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1724718882789869916.post-25070672822767403402010-02-23T13:43:00.000-05:002010-02-23T13:44:40.332-05:00Please prayMy God Daughter's mom had her baby this morning at 25 weeks pregnant. I am not sure of the details I am going to go to the hospital tonight after work. PLEASE PRAY for little baby boy!!!melissa78http://www.blogger.com/profile/05586398988559207134noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1724718882789869916.post-66305763221390481662010-02-16T14:18:00.004-05:002010-02-16T14:38:35.924-05:00Fun in the Snow!!<a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_6i7oNJnyrVU/S3r0E1ym1CI/AAAAAAAAADw/eZCBCGxUQ7Y/s1600-h/cloie+020.jpg"><img style="MARGIN: 0px 10px 10px 0px; WIDTH: 320px; FLOAT: left; HEIGHT: 240px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5438927863999288354" border="0" alt="" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_6i7oNJnyrVU/S3r0E1ym1CI/AAAAAAAAADw/eZCBCGxUQ7Y/s320/cloie+020.jpg" /></a><br /><div><a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_6i7oNJnyrVU/S3r0Ej9ebbI/AAAAAAAAADo/DcNBuQNnuv8/s1600-h/cloie+019.jpg"><img style="MARGIN: 0px 10px 10px 0px; WIDTH: 320px; FLOAT: left; HEIGHT: 240px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5438927859213036978" border="0" alt="" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_6i7oNJnyrVU/S3r0Ej9ebbI/AAAAAAAAADo/DcNBuQNnuv8/s320/cloie+019.jpg" /></a><br /><br /><div><a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_6i7oNJnyrVU/S3r0Dz7K-nI/AAAAAAAAADg/imIeBAtegEc/s1600-h/cloie+015.jpg"><img style="MARGIN: 0px 10px 10px 0px; WIDTH: 320px; FLOAT: left; HEIGHT: 240px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5438927846318471794" border="0" alt="" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_6i7oNJnyrVU/S3r0Dz7K-nI/AAAAAAAAADg/imIeBAtegEc/s320/cloie+015.jpg" /></a><br /><br /><br /><div><a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_6i7oNJnyrVU/S3r0DVqgovI/AAAAAAAAADY/0cHC7YcxcLQ/s1600-h/cloie+026.jpg"><img style="MARGIN: 0px 10px 10px 0px; WIDTH: 240px; FLOAT: left; HEIGHT: 320px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5438927838195524338" border="0" alt="" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_6i7oNJnyrVU/S3r0DVqgovI/AAAAAAAAADY/0cHC7YcxcLQ/s320/cloie+026.jpg" /></a><br /><br /><br /><br /><div><a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_6i7oNJnyrVU/S3rywFICCoI/AAAAAAAAADQ/7WKTPbDFPCQ/s1600-h/cloie+027.jpg"><img style="MARGIN: 0px 10px 10px 0px; WIDTH: 320px; FLOAT: left; HEIGHT: 240px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5438926407826803330" border="0" alt="" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_6i7oNJnyrVU/S3rywFICCoI/AAAAAAAAADQ/7WKTPbDFPCQ/s320/cloie+027.jpg" /></a><br /><a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_6i7oNJnyrVU/S3ryvSYDFyI/AAAAAAAAADI/zA_5q8PGGmw/s1600-h/cloie+028.jpg"><img style="MARGIN: 0px 10px 10px 0px; WIDTH: 320px; FLOAT: left; HEIGHT: 240px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5438926394203772706" border="0" alt="" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_6i7oNJnyrVU/S3ryvSYDFyI/AAAAAAAAADI/zA_5q8PGGmw/s320/cloie+028.jpg" /></a><br /></div><br /><br /><br /><br /><div></div><br /><br /><br /><br /><div><a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_6i7oNJnyrVU/S3ryuz3Z6wI/AAAAAAAAADA/dEyCQOMyj6I/s1600-h/cloie+015.jpg"><img style="MARGIN: 0px 10px 10px 0px; WIDTH: 320px; FLOAT: left; HEIGHT: 240px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5438926386013793026" border="0" alt="" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_6i7oNJnyrVU/S3ryuz3Z6wI/AAAAAAAAADA/dEyCQOMyj6I/s320/cloie+015.jpg" /></a><br /><a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_6i7oNJnyrVU/S3ryuOtS7wI/AAAAAAAAAC4/z302R51G4z8/s1600-h/cloie+014.jpg"><img style="MARGIN: 0px 10px 10px 0px; WIDTH: 320px; FLOAT: left; HEIGHT: 240px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5438926376039280386" border="0" alt="" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_6i7oNJnyrVU/S3ryuOtS7wI/AAAAAAAAAC4/z302R51G4z8/s320/cloie+014.jpg" /></a><br /><a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_6i7oNJnyrVU/S3rytsRj5FI/AAAAAAAAACw/AmRrua6__uA/s1600-h/cloie+007.jpg"><img style="MARGIN: 0px 10px 10px 0px; WIDTH: 320px; FLOAT: left; HEIGHT: 240px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5438926366796145746" border="0" alt="" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_6i7oNJnyrVU/S3rytsRj5FI/AAAAAAAAACw/AmRrua6__uA/s320/cloie+007.jpg" /></a><br />So Last time I posted I mentioned that I was getting my niece Cloie!!<br /><br />I am not sure if I mentioned the FEET of snow that they were calling for in PA.<br /><br />Well, actually what happened was we got hit with 2 nor'easter in less then a week.<br /><br />It snowed Fri-Sat the 5 &amp; 6 we got a total of 28.5 inches, then again on Tues - Wed 9 &amp;10th we got another 16 inches yup that is right 44 inches of snow in less then a week. Luckily I work at a School and we only had to go in on Tues only to close early and then we were closed for the rest of the week . WOOO HOO Mini Vacation!!!!!<br /><br /><br /><br />Well anyway I had my Niece for the part of the storm &amp; we had so much fun playing in the snow.<br /><br />Here are some pictures of her jumping, swimming, climbing and making her zillion snow angels.<br /></div></div></div></div>melissa78http://www.blogger.com/profile/05586398988559207134noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1724718882789869916.post-19065739835165138112010-02-05T07:55:00.003-05:002010-02-05T08:31:31.780-05:00Things I HATE!!!1. I hate that my relationship with my bestfriend has changed, since the birth of her AWESOME, adorable,wonderful, so stinky cute twins, whom I LOVE SO MUCH!!!!. Sadly I knew it would when she was pregnant that things would never be the same. She didnt think things would change, but deep down I knew i miss our days of spedning the day together, shopping, movies, eating &amp; Yummy Margaritas.<br /><br /><br /><br />2. I hate that when I tapped MAC this morning my account didnt have as much as I was expecting &amp; now must rethink what bills I was going to pay.<br /><br /><br /><br />3. I hate that I am supposed to leave work at 4 today and will probable get screwed and get stuck here until 7:30, missing my time with C.loie. I am supposed to leave at 6:30 everyday but have been staying late because I am swamped. ( with out pay)<br /><br /><br /><br />4. I hate not really hate but I get upset with the fact that all these celebrities are so concerened with Hai.ti. BELIEVE ME I AM TOO but there are so many children here in THE U.SA who are going to bed hungry, with no heat, come to school with no lunch, and clothes with holes in them, and we are focused on Hait.i. NOW I know that children who are hungry and cold here in the US.A have it off better then the children in Hai.ti, JUST because they are US.A citizens. But it still makes me upset. ( wow is that awful)<br /><br /><br /><br />5. I hate the work blocked Face.Book .<br /><br /><br /><br />Will Post more later!!!!!melissa78http://www.blogger.com/profile/05586398988559207134noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1724718882789869916.post-77881649519767487662010-02-04T13:38:00.002-05:002010-02-04T13:46:45.109-05:00hopefully snowed in!?!?!So about 6-7 months ago I took my <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_0" class="blsp-spelling-corrected">niece</span> <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_1" class="blsp-spelling-error">Cloie</span> to the "Jersey Shore" in <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_2" class="blsp-spelling-error">Wildwood</span> for the weekend. We had so much fun playing in the water building sand castles, looking for shells, chasing down the <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_3" class="blsp-spelling-error">Fudgy</span> <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_4" class="blsp-spelling-error">Wudgy</span> man down the beach. Here she is Posing in the Ocean<br /><br /><a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_6i7oNJnyrVU/S2sUP9qP5kI/AAAAAAAAACo/U-yZLAHD1MI/s1600-h/cloie.bmp"><img style="MARGIN: 0px 10px 10px 0px; WIDTH: 224px; FLOAT: left; HEIGHT: 320px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5434459639834994242" border="0" alt="" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_6i7oNJnyrVU/S2sUP9qP5kI/AAAAAAAAACo/U-yZLAHD1MI/s320/cloie.bmp" /></a><br /><div>Well I talked to her mom and I am going to take her this weekend. WOO <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_5" class="blsp-spelling-error">HOO</span> Not to <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_6" class="blsp-spelling-corrected">mention</span> that we are "<span id="SPELLING_ERROR_7" class="blsp-spelling-corrected">supposed</span>" to get up to 12+ inches of snow so the next post I will be <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_8" class="blsp-spelling-error">posting</span> pictures of <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_9" class="blsp-spelling-error">Cloie</span> with all her snow gear on. </div><div> </div><div>I am hoping that if it is bad out the school I work at will close on Monday so I will have more time with her. </div><div>CAN'T WAIT!!!!!!!!!</div>melissa78http://www.blogger.com/profile/05586398988559207134noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1724718882789869916.post-28863473027190784412010-01-13T18:14:00.005-05:002010-01-14T10:20:02.509-05:00Joys of working!!!Okay So I am sitting here at my desk at work trying to catch up on blogs oops I mean Work, When the security guard of my <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_0" class="blsp-spelling-corrected">after school</span> program came to me bring innocent <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_1" class="blsp-spelling-error">Siddiq</span> who by the way is only in KINDERGARTEN. Since I am also the director I must deal with all the fun issues that arise. Mr. <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_2" class="blsp-spelling-error">Siddiq</span> got in trouble in class and his teacher (sweet ole' Ms. H) gave him a pink Slip ( behavior write up) but instead of giving it to him to put in his school bag she asked Mr. X to hold onto it and give it to his parents when they came. All was fine until Mr. X had a feeling to look on his desk where he HID the form to discover it was gone.<br /><br />Mr. X - <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_3" class="blsp-spelling-error">Siddiq</span> where is the pink slip??<br /><br /><span id="SPELLING_ERROR_4" class="blsp-spelling-error">Siddiq</span>- I <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_5" class="blsp-spelling-corrected">don't</span> know, some kid crumbled it up and threw it in to the toilet and it went all the way down.<br />Mr X- <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_6" class="blsp-spelling-error">Siddiq</span> who did it?<br /><span id="SPELLING_ERROR_7" class="blsp-spelling-error">Siddiq</span>- I <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_8" class="blsp-spelling-corrected">don't</span> know who it was.<br /><br />They bring him to me !!<br /><br />I was talking to him asking him question about what happened to the paper and he gave me the same line. I then said well if you <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_9" class="blsp-spelling-corrected">didn't</span> do it then how do u know <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_10" class="blsp-spelling-corrected">what happened</span> to it????<br />he said he <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_11" class="blsp-spelling-corrected">didn't</span> know the kids name ( <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_12" class="blsp-spelling-error">umm</span> <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_13" class="blsp-spelling-error">siddiq</span> we have all been in Aftercare since Sept and you know <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_14" class="blsp-spelling-corrected">every one's</span> names but you know what why <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_15" class="blsp-spelling-corrected">don't</span> you point him out to me???<br /><br /><span id="SPELLING_ERROR_16" class="blsp-spelling-error">Siddiq</span> then said oh he already left. ( <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_17" class="blsp-spelling-error">hummm</span> lie much)<br /><br />finally after 10-15 <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_18" class="blsp-spelling-error">mins</span> of talking to him and not getting him to confess a light bulb went off<br />so I said okay <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_19" class="blsp-spelling-error">Siddiq</span> we are <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_20" class="blsp-spelling-corrected">going</span> to have to go check the video <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_21" class="blsp-spelling-corrected">camera's</span> and whoever did it will be in big trouble, but if you did it and have been lying about it it will be very serious ( blah blah) he finally admitted to it. he said he <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_22" class="blsp-spelling-corrected">didn't</span> want to get in trouble for being rude to his teacher but NOW you will be <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_23" class="blsp-spelling-corrected">in trouble</span> for theft, lying, <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_24" class="blsp-spelling-corrected">destruction</span> of property, and that you could have damaged the toilet for throwing paper down into it.<br /><br />So I kept him with me in my office and made him write his site words 3 times and his <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_25" class="blsp-spelling-error">alphabet</span> then let him draw. He kept asking for crayons and to get a pencil with a sharp point. I would just keep saying "nope you are in <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_26" class="blsp-spelling-corrected">trouble</span> it is not fun time"<br /><br />the thing that cracks me up is he is in KINDERGARTEN what the hell will he <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_27" class="blsp-spelling-corrected">be</span> doing when he is 10, 16, 18 <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_28" class="blsp-spelling-error">ahhhh</span> I can't even think about it because he will most <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_29" class="blsp-spelling-corrected">likely</span> still be at this school since we are K-12 lucky me!!!!!!melissa78http://www.blogger.com/profile/05586398988559207134noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1724718882789869916.post-77535230730046988052009-12-10T18:10:00.003-05:002009-12-10T18:23:34.459-05:00Crappy Crappy CrapHey all,<br /><br /> I <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_0" class="blsp-spelling-corrected">don't</span> even know how to start this post so I am just <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_1" class="blsp-spelling-corrected">going</span> to go right into it.<br />I was talking to my God-Daughter <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_2" class="blsp-spelling-error">Cloie's</span> mom on Tues about taking her for the weekend we were talking about things and she blurts out I <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_3" class="blsp-spelling-corrected">didn't</span> tell Aunt Chris Yet but.....<br />I was like Are you Pregnant?????!?!?!?!?! <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_4" class="blsp-spelling-error">UMMM</span> yea <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_5" class="blsp-spelling-corrected">like</span> 3 months.<br /><span id="SPELLING_ERROR_6" class="blsp-spelling-error">WTF</span> you CAN NOT even handle the 2 children you have now and your adding a 3rd.<br />Then so goes on to say that her gas is shut off and it will hopefully be turned back on this week.<br />It is freaking freezing here. She said well I have space heaters so it is not bad.<br />Then we are talking about Christmas and she is like <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_7" class="blsp-spelling-error">I am</span> <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_8" class="blsp-spelling-corrected">going</span> to get the kids Timberland Boots. In my head I was like why not PAY YOUR FREAKING BILLS and buy them P<span id="SPELLING_ERROR_9" class="blsp-spelling-corrected">ayless</span> boots.<br />Not to mention their house is going up for Sheriff sale in Jan. HOW ABOUT YOU FIND A PLACE TO FREAKING LIVE!!!!!!!!!!!<br />I just <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_10" class="blsp-spelling-corrected">don't</span> understand it! I want a baby so bad but is waiting until a little longer until I am financially stable. I have a job so does Eric we have 2 cars, a nice place to live, we have GAS (heat) but we are not popping out a kid yet. NOT THEM!!!!<br /><br />Not to mention I am <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_11" class="blsp-spelling-corrected">terrified</span> that we will not be able to have kids or have problems it <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_12" class="blsp-spelling-corrected">scares</span> me so much that I push it out of my head. I was in a relationship for 9 yrs and the last 2 did not use anything and NO baby. I am with Eric going on 3 yrs and have not used anything in the last 2 and no baby. DO I write it off as God has a plan for me to have a baby when he thinks I should? Do I bring it up to my doctor? <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_13" class="blsp-spelling-corrected">Eric</span> was with a girl for 3 yrs who had a baby with 3 guys and never got <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_14" class="blsp-spelling-corrected">pregnant</span> with him. Are we both infertile? God just <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_15" class="blsp-spelling-corrected">typing</span> that word makes my heart sink:( I have never said that word <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_16" class="blsp-spelling-corrected">out loud</span>. I actually have a yrs check up this month maybe I will bring it up to him even though we are not "officially trying" yet I am getting older.<br />Oh well I am off to have dinner with my Best Friend Jenn, she always makes me feel better.melissa78http://www.blogger.com/profile/05586398988559207134noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1724718882789869916.post-70120592458651771892009-12-02T09:26:00.004-05:002009-12-02T10:44:45.457-05:00No so Wordless WednesdayAs You know we moved 2 weeks ago into a apartment complex, we love everything about it!!!<br /><br />EXCEPT!!!!! we hear EVERY single step the people above us make. I am not kidding we can tell you exactly where they are in there apartment at anytime. Eric went to the leasing manager on Tues we never heard anything, so on Sat we both went and the lady told us she was waiting on the property manager to call back. On Monday the property manager called back and told us she was waiting on the people upstairs to return her call so she can ask for permission to go into the property. Finally around 3 they came to our building and one person went upstairs and the property manager stayed with Eric in our apt to hear what we were talking about. They said there is something wrong with the flooring and/or the piping in the ceiling. She told us she will have to talk to the building owner and that she believes our options are the have the ceiling ripped down in the BEDROOM ONLY and have them fix the problem or transfer us to different building. ahhhhhhh seriously!!!!!! WE hear the noise EVERYWHERE why just fix the bedroom??? Move again??? we just painted the living room and dining room now we will have to paint it all back to white then buy more paint to paint the new place. RE pack everthing, buy more boxes, go to the post office and RE do a change of address and call all the utilities and have them transferred AGAIN porob have to pay for REinstallation of cable again. Plus all the aggravation!!!!WTF!!!!! I think we should be compensated in some way for this.melissa78http://www.blogger.com/profile/05586398988559207134noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1724718882789869916.post-25805621964264858962009-11-18T09:40:00.001-05:002009-11-18T09:56:43.405-05:00It's been a while!Since I last posted so much has been going on in my life.<br /><br />The new job is going great, VERY busy but I really enjoy it.<br />We moved out of Eric's house due to the fact it was old and needed so much work and I did not want to spend the money to fix it. We would have had to completely gut it get it where we would like it to be. So we moved into a 2 bedroom apartment, it is <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_0" class="blsp-spelling-corrected">completely</span> updated all brand new appliances, new carpet and new ceramic tiles in the bathroom &amp; kitchen. We painted the living room and dining room and bought new furniture and it is starting to feel like "home".<br />The best part is that we did all this with out ONE fight!!!!! we have been getting along so well, he is actually excited to work on the house and do things!! When we were in the house, he never wanted to do anything to it because it used to be his <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_1" class="blsp-spelling-corrected">grandparent's</span> house and he felt guilty changing anything, so it has been the same since his <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_2" class="blsp-spelling-corrected">grand mom</span> passed 9 years ago. But now it is a new fresh start!!! Time to look to the future, he even mentioned the B word yes babies!!!! woo hoo life is looking good.melissa78http://www.blogger.com/profile/05586398988559207134noreply@blogger.com1