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I, along with the others, have to agree as to why we act the way we do.

I also prefer the company of males, because unlike females, men don't chitchat and gossip about things that are utterly rediculous( i.e. hairstyles, make-up, whos getting fat, clothes, ect.). Males just wanna hang out and have a good time. I've been tomboyish my entire life, so I too am baffled by some of our behavior.

In my opinion, Tomboys get a pretty good deal. Yes, it's difficult at first, coming to the understanding with yourself that you're not a "typical" girl. But it's really fun, and in my opinion, we grow to be stronger, better people.

When the Devil is too busy
And Death's a bit too much
They call on me by name you see,
For my special touch.

I actually had a conversation with my neighbor about this a few nights ago. He said that it's usually natural for women to TALK about problems, while men are prone to FIX them. When men try to fix the problems women talk about, the women get pissy.

I actually had a conversation with my neighbor about this a few nights ago. He said that it's usually natural for women to TALK about problems, while men are prone to FIX them. When men try to fix the problems women talk about, the women get pissy.

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I wasnít a sexist before I understood women. There was a time when I was blissfully ignorant. I grew up watching Disney cartoons, I believed in romance and ďtrue love conquers allĒ etc. I wanted to find a woman who could be my equal, my partner. I believed in finding that one true love and being committed to each other forever. You know, like in the marriage vows, ďfor better or for worse, through sickness and in health, for richer or for poorerĒ etc. And I believed that women basically wanted the same thing. Now I understand that this was only possible when society was structured to enforce it. Now that women are ďliberatedĒ (and thus at the mercy of their own emotions and baser instincts) this is mostly no longer possible in todayís society. Victorian society, or many Arab societies, are examples of how society used to be structured to keep women as faithful as possible.

Iíd like to point out that I am not a misogynistÖI love women. But I AM a sexist, in the sense that I believe women are vastly different than men and, according to the standards that men hold for other men, women are inferior as well.

I must be a bitter loser, right? In fact, I enjoy more success with women than most of the men in this city. I have slept with over 200 women in my life. I am sleeping with 5 different women right now. They are all normal, healthy, well-adjusted, good-looking (8+ on the looks scale) professional women. (At least as normal and healthy and well-adjusted as women can be - most women have issues.) But thatís not all. I can go out any night of the week and pick up a woman. I can pick her up in front of all her friends (with 80% efficiency for each approach.) Women will slip me their phone number when their boyfriend is in the bathroom. I can talk to women on the street or in the grocery store and within 30 minutes, I can usually have sex with them right there in my car or get them back to my place. If I have to settle for a phone number, and I meet her on another day, assuming she doesnít flake, I WILL fuck her that next day.

Let me point out right now that my Modus Operandi doesnít change in the slightest if she single or if she has a boyfriend or husband. I just do my normal routine and I fuck her. Sometimes she brings up the boyfriend so she wonít feel guilty when I fuck her because now itís ďmy fault.Ē Sometimes she hides it from me until after Iíve fucked her, then she admits it. I canít tell you how many times Iíve been laying next to some chick, all sweaty cause I just finished busting a nut all over her face or in her mouth or on her back, and suddenly her phone rings and sheís on the phone with her man, giving him some bullshit story. This is with NO GUILT WHATSOEVER!!! The sweetest most innocent girls you ever laid eyes on, will cheat at the drop of a HAT. The one thing that most men value most - loyalty - is just not there with women. Women donít think in terms of honor, women donít say ďword is bond;Ē women are basically emotionally driven. If they feel it, they do it, period. Then they rationalize it to themselves later. Nothing is more meaningful, or compelling, to a woman than (1) the way she feels and (2) learning more about her own inner self and having emotional realizations. Thatís why women love astrology, chick flicks, soap operas, stupid Cosmo quizes that supposedly reveal info about yourself, etc.

I must be really good looking, right? NOPE. My looks are marginal; Iím maybe a 7. I donít work out (though Iím not fat or anything.) In fact I didnít have any success with women until I was in my early 20ís. Thatís when I decided to go out a lot and start trying to get laidÖ I was willing to face rejection a thousand times a night, and do it over and over, trying everything, until I got it right. I had to completely set my ego aside. I didnít get laid at all for the first few months. Then every now and then. Then pretty often. Then downright consistently! Iím in my early 30ís now and I am basically a sexual god. I wouldnít have even believed this were possible when I was in high school. The ONLY factor that determined whether a woman would cheat was my own skill level. When my skills were poor, women shit all over me. (Everyone knows how women think they have license to be rude bitches in social situationsÖ in fact I understand and appreciate that behavior now.) But once my skills got good, I could fuck just about anyoneís wife or girlfriend. And many times I didnít know they had a man until after I fucked them.

Look, Iím not saying that men are perfect, or whatever. Far from it. Iím just saying, Iíve spent a lot of my time studying women and interacting with them, and I know how they are. In fact, sometimes I hate knowing it. Sometimes I wish I had taken the blue pill, and never went down the rabbit hole, because now thereís really no going back. I didnít want to believe these thingsÖ but how could I ever get married now? How could I ever be the chump who pays for everything and blissfully goes through life not worrying about his woman because he trusts her? Look, would you leave your dog alone with a steak? You canít hate the dog for doing whatís in its nature. You canít trust a dog, BUT you can trust a dog to BE a dog. Some men are disloyalÖ but I could *never* trust a woman to be loyal. Some men are bad presidentsÖbut I could *never* vote for a woman to be president. I can rarely expect a woman to regard her own promises as more important and compelling to her than the emotions she feels in the moment. She will rationalize it to herself later.

Hereís an interesting fact. Did you know that the median 22 year old woman has TWICE as much sex as the median 22 year old man? You might ask, how is that possible? If a womanís having sex, doesnít that mean a man is having sex at the same time? And thus, shouldnít men be having just as much sex as women? NOÖbecause most men hardly get laid, or if they do, itís because they ďgot lucky.Ē But a small group of men get laid ALL THE TIME, and fuck LOTS AND LOTS of women! Itís evolution at work. Women follow their emotions, and that leads them to sleep with men like me (who know how to control female emotions.) Women want the top manÖso the top man fucks lots of women. Thatís right - the sexual revolution, feminism, etc has resulted in a return to harems. Women, at the mercy of their own emotions, are volunteering for the modern-day equivalent of harems. Lucky for me!! Heh.

You might say, ďButÖbutÖIím so nice! Iím a nice guy!Ē Guess what? Thatís like a fat chick saying, ďBut Iím so smart!Ē As if those things have anything in the world to do with sexual attraction!

Iím going to give some tips here for the poor sucker guys who are posting online trying to get laid and who are spending hundreds / thousands of dollars on all those whores out there without getting any play. (You bitches know exactly what youíre doing, and Iím on to your game!)

* Donít be sexually judgemental in any way. A womanís worst fear is to be perceived as a slut. She will suck your toes and take it in the ass if she thinks you donít view her poorly for it (and she knows her friends wonít find out.)

* Donít get angry at her. Women know they have emotional outbursts and they need to trust that you can handle that. Itís ok (and necessary) to occasionally put your foot downÖjust make sure she knows you are fully in control of yourself.

* Donít let her manipulate you or control you in any way. She will immediately lose all respect for you. Always be leading. Itís just like dancing - women hate a man who canít lead.

* When first approaching a woman or a group, they tend to get a feeling like this is just your little scheme to get close to them, when you really just want something from them - like sex. (And theyíre right.) Itís important to structure your body language and conversation so that they honestly donít believe you want something from them. They should feel like you are about to leave at any second.

* DONíT TRY TO IMPRESS HER IN ANY WAY. Donít show off. Donít talk about accomplishments or possessions. As soon as she perceives that you are trying to prove yourself to her, she loses all interest.

* Donít ignore her friends. A woman values her friendís opinions more than just about anything else in the world. Nothing matters to her more than what other women are thinking. Give her friends lots of attention and get everyone laughing. If one woman is feeling different than the others, she will drag them away. They will follow like a flock of pigeons. Society is the book of women. (Notice that men do NOT behave this way! Women are very different!)

* To get a woman attracted / emotionally vulnerable, give her lots of emotions and feelings. Donít just make her feel good. Make her feel good, and angry, and sad, and connected, and astonished, and intrigued, etc. Make her laugh. Tease her. Tell stories about your sick puppy. Tell her why things would never work out between the two of you. Call her a dork. If she gets heated up, she will start touching youÖplayfully push her away. If she calls you a jerk and punches your arm, you are doing it right. If she gives you that ďI canít believe you just said thatĒ look, do NOT back down, do not say ďOh Iím just kiddingĒ or anything like that.

* As she gets more emotional, she will try to ruin things by throwing in logic. She will ask you if you are a player, or if you say this to all the girls, or whatever. The trick is this: Donít take it seriously by giving it some logical answer! Thatís rightÖwomen lose interest if you take them seriously!!! Itís crazy but thatís how they behave. Just blow it off or misinterpret what sheís saying as though she is coming on to you. If you fail these tests, she will be gone so fast your head will spin.

* She will start asking you lots of questions. This is what chicks do when they suddenly find themselves attracted to a man they know nothing about. This is your chance to open up a little and also find out more about her and build a deeper connection. You have to do this, or she will flake later (even if youíve kissed her!) Women are the worst flakes in the world! Donít make it too easy for her, make her work for it a bit. Then talk about connections and childhood memories and things you have in common, etc. She needs to feel that this is genuine. This is usually the time when I throw in a few fake vulnerabilities, like pretending Iím shy or insecure about something. I know itís fucked up but women need to see that there are at least a few small holes where they can sink their hooks in you. They get uneasy if you are too perfect.

* Make sure she gets the feeling that you have standards and that you are judging her based on them. Ask her questions that show her you are checking her out to see if she is up to snuff. Women donít like to feel like you are with them only because you canít do any better. They prefer to feel like you have high standards; you can get any chick you want, but you chose HER because she is SOOOO special and SOOOO different from all the others. Yeah, I know.

* Move her to different locations. Take her next door for a drink. Take her across the street to check out some art. The more locations the better.

* Take responsibility for every escalation. A woman will do just about anything as long as she doesnít have to feel like it was ďher fault.Ē Make it YOUR fault. Make it ďjust happen.Ē She will rationalize it to herself later using the same bullshit generator that women use to flake out on dates at the last minute. Donít get her horny until you get her isolated. Believe me, emotional is better than horny.

* Keep the woman always swinging somewhere between validation and rejection. If she feels rejected, she drops out or gets REALLY MAD. And if she feels too validated, she will ditch you in a heartbeat. So push her away (emotionally) and then pull her back in.

* BELIEVE YOUR OWN BULLSHIT. Chicks do not look at your excuses and try to see if they are bullshit or notÖ because that is the logical thing to do, and chicks are not logical. Rather, what they do is see if YOU seem to believe your own bullshit when you say it. If you look like you do, then chances are, they will believe it too. So the key is to believe your own bullshit, and other aspects about yourself that you want the chick to believe about you too (alpha male..whatever)Ö because your own self beliefs for some reason will automatically Ďimpartí to the chick!

* One more thingÖmany guys make the mistake of listening to female romantic advice. Donít listen to them, THEY DONíT KNOW WTF THEY ARE TALKING ABOUT, and they WILL steer you wrong. They will tell you what they THINK they want, instead of what they actually RESPOND to. And furthermore, a large part of the female sexual experience IS the inability to admit these things BECAUSE they derive sexual pleasure from putting up resistance and being overwhelmed.

If you do things this way, after a few months practice you WILL get laid like a rock star. The guys who get laid are the ones who know what they are doing, because they have practiced on lots of women. Ironically, women are most attracted to the men who are most likely to fuck them and then dump them on their ass - because those are precisely the men who have so many other options because they practice on lots of women. Thatís why you always hear women bitching about how men are assholes that only want to fuck them and dump them - because those are the men that they gravitate to.

Women tend to wise up when they get towards their 30s, and they start looking for a nice wimpy beta male to settle down with and pay for all their shit. As they get older, they will get more and more desperate to find this guy. Once they do, they will cheat on him with an exciting fun guy like me. (But who wants to fuck some old chick in her 30ís? Thatís what beta males are for! Heh)

Hey, donít blame me - I didnít make things the way they are. I was just a guy who wanted to get laid. And I do :-)

Women tend to wise up when they get towards their 30s, and they start looking for a nice wimpy beta male to settle down with and pay for all their shit. As they get older, they will get more and more desperate to find this guy. Once they do, they will cheat on him with an exciting fun guy like me.

This unravels his entire point right here. Those of us who are looking ahead to the long haul already know what we need to do and what it will be like, so we don't get into these situations of sleeping around until our 30s then panicking and marrying the person we're with because we're out of steam.

Also this happens in the late 20s, so he was at least right on the age.

I'm no fan of the shit talking he does though, because if someone's different that isn't the right to talk shit. Especially on something like this which is all personal preferance.

You may say such things like that but for a majority it is true, if anything is fucked up it is how blatantly truthful that guy is. I have experienced that kinda stuff, since i use to be the nice guy i got nothing but now im learning, i just dont give a fuck anymore, hey if i find a nice girl cool if i dont cool. Also i would advise not doing what he did becuase he most likely has every std known to man, and maybe some not too

I was watching "Monique's Charm School" earlier, and I thought, "Why are these girls such bitches to each other?!" I simply could not comprehend what caused them to act that way. There was no rhyme or sound reason to what they were doing, other than to be plain rotten. I couldn't understand it.

cuz most people think that it`s funny, so they make a script for it and pretend it`s a reality show.

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