i post i post i post and i post again and again yet it seems as though i am spinning my wheels iknow there are men / women on this site,although we're all entitled to our choices to reply or not, who are veterans and i thought i'd get a little feedback on the issue and concern(s) on my claim with the VA and the awaiting decision.

i guess the off topic forum is useless to me afterall i changed the title of the post twice in hopes of some kind of perspective.

Anyway it is what it is.Take care

Coop

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I am very sorry you not been getting results in response to you. I am not 'veteran' at all, not American citizen, so I just feel I should not respond, as I can not give help to you. Sometime I feel that if I can not respond specific to what the poster seem to be wanting to know, my response would be useless. Of course, sometime I just feel that way anyway. I hope you can get what help you seek.

I'm not a veteran either, so I really don't know anything about the VA beaurecracy, but if it's anything like the government beaurecracy in general I would think it will take a while to make the wheels of progress grind along. But I'm sure they will grind along eventually. I hope you get the help you're looking for from them, I know it's probably frustrating to make the system work they way you need it to.

Sorry Coop- i worked for DoD, but always officially as a civvie...never was plugged into the VA system, but i can at least identify w/ the frustration of finding out how easy it is for Uncle Sam to utilize your skillset, only to get a severe case of bureaucratic amnesia, as to whether or not you even existed; at least as far as trying to get some kind of of help when your "use by:" date has expired...

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