Default to My Groups instead of All Groups in BP Default theme

I am running a buddypress site consisting of hidden groups only. When a user clicks on the “Groups” tab in the main menu, it goes to the groups page which displays “No Groups found.” This confuses the members as they have to click the “My Groups” tab at the top to see their groups. Any way to default to the My Groups tab as active? Not as easy as it sounds as it is all driven by AJAX.