Sexy gifts for him

by Beth Divine•24 Sep 2018

One of the great things about being in a steady relationship
is the sense of belonging you have with each other. But it is all too easy for
us to take the other for granted, slipping into comfortable ways that do not
make the other partner feel loved or appreciated. This can lead to a loss of
libido and worse, which in turn can lead to fights and the breakdown of the
relationship. Giving your partner sexy gifts is a great way to remind them of
all the fun times you have had together – which can rekindle the excitement of
those early days. This can make the sex even better as you now know each other’s
bodies and can both take pleasure in giving it!

Stress Boobs/ Bum

Everyone has seen a stress ball – a smallish squashy ball,
about the size of a tennis ball. They are used to relieve tension by giving the
owner an outlet for stress. Squeezing the stress ball releases pressure that
otherwise might escape in the form of temper or ill-health. These stress balls
are special because they are shaped like boobs or bottoms – giving a mild
sexual thrill to the user. The boob comes complete with a nipple and is painted
to look like a real boob, while the bum features a cleft dividing the two ‘cheeks’.
They are made from soft but firm foam, allowing fingers to stroke and mould
them as desired – perfect for your man if he tends to the uptight!

Kama Sutra Foreplay cards

Spice up your sex life with these cards – design a game and
agree on the rules, before drawing a card or three and taking inspiration from
the positions suggested on it. If this appeals to you, you can always find a
copy of the full Kama Sutra and dedicate a few months or more to working your
way through all the suggested sexual positions! (Bear in mind, the full Kama
Sutra is a guide to living your best life in every way, not just the sexual aspect
of it.) If you have had enough sex (polite pause for laughter) you can always
play Snap or Patience with the cards – as well as sexual inspiration, they are
also regular playing cards.

You in a Red Bow and Nothing Else!

There is an item, going by several names similar to the ‘naughty knot’,
that any woman could buy and wear to instantly add pizzazz to her sex life. It
is basically an enormous red bow, that can be positioned anywhere on the body.
This makes it beautifully easy to dress up (down?) to surprise him with
unexpected sex at the drop of a hat!