I've had some major computer issues and some personal setbacks that kept me away from this site but I left without a word to anyone and fully expected to come back to hate messages and drama but instead I come back and find several birthday messages from you lovely people!! I love this community so much and I've missed you all while I was away!! I'm not gonna even try to pull out the lame excuses because it is what it is and I'm sorry for being away and leaving so many of you in a lurch but I'm back and I'll try to do better this time if anyone wants to give me that chance!! I haven't written much in the past few months but I'm hoping to remedy that, in fact, working a couple things already!! Thanks to everyone who sent me bday messages, I had a great day Tuesday... went to see Guardians of the Galaxy and it was a really great movie!! My kids were on their best behavior and that made it very relaxing for my special day!! I'll try to get to posting some stuff both here and in the groups I mod and again, sorry for leaving you all in a lurch!! Thanks for being so understanding and patient!! <3 <3