I need help identifying a song!!!

So there's this song that really rocked the radio in like 1997/1998. I had thought the song was sang my black street but it wasn't. Its definitely by a black boy group. I remember a couple of the lyrics something like 'all I do is think of you, girl you know I'm in love with you and all the stuff you pute through you know I can't take it... Something like that
. At the beginning of the song, like the intro a girl can be heard knocking and the first first goes like 'I never thought I would go through. Same old thing my daddy do'.
I have googled, used SoundHound, nothing!!! You're my only hope, please help!!!