Hey, so some of you may remember a post i had a couple weeks ago. anyway i have another question for you all. So about a month ago my girlfriend and i started haveing sex (were both virgins) and everything has been going great.

The only issue is that for whatever reason, the only position i have been able to orgasm in is doggy style, it like i just cant get quite enough sensation in other positions.

I just bought a pack of ultra sensativity condoms since we needed more anyway. but does anyone have any recommendations of other positions that provide a lot of sensation for the guy,because i know we would both really like to be able to be face to face when I orgasm. She happens to be one of the lucky girls who can have multiple orgasms. so she is set.

Doggy position is probably the deepest penetration position, which may be one reason, though there could also be psychological factors. I think that with practice you'll find other positions will work better than they do now. Of course it helps not to jack off for a few days before. Woman-on-top usually takes longer, so avoid that for finishing for now.

OK i cant eleive ive only got 1 reply in like 12 hours, thats the worst record for help i have ever had from this site, guys seriously, just start listing off the positions you think feel the best, thats all im asking, i realize this all comes down to me anyway, so just throw out our fav positions, just looking for a chance to be looking my girl in the eye when i cum

unfortunately being that i live in an on-campus apartment, that option doesnt work, at least untill the next time i visit her at her house, but i like the idea and will hold on to that 1. my girl was using sexinfo101.com last night and decided she really wanted to try the butterfly position. Im totaly up for it because i love this girl, and we havent really found anything we dont like anyway, but that is a similar idea that i can actually pull off in my apartment

Dude, try it all! explore! It's awesome! This is the most exciting part of your sex life! If you love this girl you probably deserve it, just be safe.

My girlfriend and I are in a similar boat, we've been having sex for only a few months now. Indeed I find it hard to orgasm when she's on top, but she seems to love it, so I let her ride me all she wants! Not like I don't enjoy it just cause I can't cum.(at least I havn't yet in that position) I can orgasm in missionary fairly easily and I do love doggy aswell. More so flat-rear entry, like doggy style but laying flat instead of kneeling.

It's not really odd that you can't seem to cum when your on top. Everyone is different. My advice is to just explore together. Be open and honest with each other, don't treat this like a problem, try other things. And don't necessarily be trying to achieve that mutual orgasm if you find it that difficult. If you want to see her face when you cum try doing her from behind in front of a mirror mabey? My gf found it really sexy, mabey yours will too.

I agree with Jimmy, just try it all and explore. What works for one might not work for everyone.That being said, here is my current favorite: she lays on her side, with her leg flexed toward her stomach. I'm on top, essentially in missionary position (relative the the bed). I'm not sure if there is a name attached to it, but I like to think of it as a cross between spoon and missionary.How did I discover it? By exploring!

Try it allllllll!!!! There isn't enough time in the world for everything... so get a head start and try to do it all :wink: ... I'm 28, and everytime I'm with my lovely lady, I find something new I love about her, and there's always something new to do :smile:

That being said, if you can find a bed that is waist height for butterfly... it's much easier if you're standing, and you can get some really good hard deep strokes going... if you get her really really turned on, she'll love it hard and deep :wink:

Sometimes, it's more difficult to cum in one position rather than another, but i've never found it impossible to cum in any position, and there's nothing stopping you chopping and changing... my gf and I regularly go through 4 or 5 positions at least before one of us cums!!

Also, toys are a good thing :wink: heh heh ... yes, I'm a dirty bastard, what can I say? I love to play!!!

That website is great too though, loads of things for you to try :smile:

My personal faves I have to admit though, are doggy, and then a close second: absolutely every other position on the face of the planet that we are capable of getting into!!!!!

Anyway, hopefully you'll get to practice soon :wink: heh heh

[edit in] Ooooh, I know one that isn't on that site that is good... just finished perusing the site... anyway: find a dining room style chair (straight back, no arms) and you sit on it, she straddles you, and moves in a "belly dancer" esque movement while you're in her... it will rock your socks :wink: and she can hold the back of the chair to help balance... ideally, resting her feet on the floor, but I guess that depends how tall you both are, or how low the chair is :smile: have fun!!