How to be Smarter: I was reading Rachel Hollis' newsletter today and I love this advice about dealing with family over the next few months: "Strive to be the thermostat in your holiday gathering, not the thermometer. The thermometer reacts to the temperature of the room. The thermostat sets the temperature of the room… they affect the atmosphere around them rather than let it affect them."

How to be Prettier: 110% convinced this is the best jewelry idea I've seen in a long time. How awesome is this?! (Not sponsored, the company doesn't even know I exist...just really love this idea!).

Hi! I have two public events coming up for REACH OUT- would love to see you at either one!

Boston, MA - Wednesday, November 8, 2017

I'll be doing a book workshop at General Assembly - I think this will be a really fun night! REGISTER HERE

New York, NY - Tuesday, November 14, 2017

At Tech Up For Women (a great daylong conference about the intersection of women and technology), I'll be sharing networking tips on the main stage right before the exhibit and networking hour. Use code SMARTPRETTYAWKWARD for $25 off your ticket. - REGISTER HERE

If you are coming to either event, email me and let me know so we can say hi at the event!

How to be Prettier: SP&A Exclusive Discount Code: With the promo code SPA, SP&A readers can get 25% off your entire order at I Can Be Society, a shop that sells inspirational apparel and accessories. There’s a ton of cool pieces in the shop, but my favorites are this phone case, tee shirt, and bracelet pack. Enjoy! [No expiration date, one-time use per person].

How to be (less) Awkward: How to politely avoid a phone conversation - love this "trick".