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The curse of common knowledge: communicating for clarity and inclusivity

Once we’ve learned something, we often forget what it was like to not know, and how hard it was to learn. This “curse of knowledge” can impact the way we interact with our colleagues and our mentees. For our colleagues we consider “technical,” if their experience doesn’t overlap with us, there are often things that we find second nature that they have never experienced. This can lead to frustration, miscommunication, and sometimes equating competence with knowing potentially obscure definitions.

Using “magical language” can harm our communication with teams who don’t write code or live in the same day-to-day environment that we do, leading to frustration and lost time. In addition, making assumptions about definitions and prior knowledge of everyone we interact with marginalizes those from underrepresented groups, because they’re more likely to have come through a “non-traditional” path, and have different expertise and gaps in their knowledge than what one might expect.

I’ll talk through “magic” things about code and programming that we often forget, and how it impacts those we interact with: whether it’s the colleagues on our team, partners in other organizations, or interns and mentees. I’ll present real-life stories from my own experience, and strategies I’ve used in the past to ensure that everyone is on the same page. I’ll also make fun of myself, and present ways that I’ve used to ask questions that intimidate me - questions I think I really should know the answer to.

3.
Motivation for the talk: Which is harder?
@y3l2nImage credits: wocintechchat
Heads-down problem
solving, technical solutions
Working with people (coworkers,
clients, management)
OR

4.
Twofold motivation for this talk
Onboarding new team members
@y3l2n
Working with (colleagues) and
serving (customers) people
unlike us
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5.
Roadmap of the talk
1. Curse of Knowledge: it’s hard to remember what it was like with
less knowledge and context
2. Code Switching: jumping between contexts
3. Culture & Norms: understanding what shared context you have
4. Power Dynamics: people with power responsible for creating a
shared context
@y3l2nThe curse of common knowledge: communicating for clarity and inclusivity

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The curse of knowledge:
It’s really hard to remember what it
was like before you knew something.
@y3l2n1. The curse of knowledge

19.
Organizational Culture and Norms:
The stories that we tell about ourselves: the
things we value, who we value, and who is
welcome.
@y3l2nImage credit: wocintechchat

20.
Examples of narratives we tell at work
Stories about ourselves
● Education/school background
● “We’re all rockstars”
● What we do as a team?
Stories about others
● Are we understanding of other people’s context?
@y3l2n3. Org Culture and Norms

23.
How do we choose to engage with each other?
● Assuming good intent
● How do we disagree?
● How we refer to each other
○ Names
○ Pronouns
● Not all jokes are funny or appropriate
@y3l2n3. Org Culture and Norms

24.
What is the culture around asking questions?
● Can we challenge authority/hierarchy?
● Questions != lack of knowledge
@y3l2n3. Org Culture and Norms

25.
How do I ask questions?
@y3l2n3. Org Culture and Norms https://jvns.ca/blog/good-questions/

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How do we respond to questions?
● Everything from that comic, but from the other end
● Neutral language
● Excited to explain!
● Ask questions about context first
○ What did you try?
○ What are you comfortable with?
○ Why do you need to know?
● Communication is more than words
@y3l2n3. Org Culture and Norms

27.
Power Dynamics:
The social context that we exist and operate
within and the ways we can shape it.
@y3l2n

28.
Types of power
● Hierarchical power
● (Organizational) political power
● Social power (from external systems)
4. Power dynamics @y3l2n

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How do power and privilege play out in the workplace?
● Who gets assigned certain projects?
● What assumptions are made about competence?
● Who is “cleaning up” & “notetaking”?
● What words do we use to interact?
● Who gets invited to happy hours?
@y3l2n4. Power dynamics

30.
Concrete examples of power & privilege
● The social cost of things is different for different groups
○ Asking questions
○ Having non-tech interests
○ Cost of not being “perfect” technically
● How people look
@y3l2n4. Power dynamics

31.
http://bit.ly/2fcp74i
The cost of “admitting”
what kind of background
you have
@alicegoldfuss
4. Power dynamics
#unqualifiedfortech reprise

34.
Recap
● Curse of Knowledge: it’s hard to remember what it was like with
less knowledge and context
● Code Switching: jumping between contexts
● Culture & Norms: understanding what shared context you have
● Power Dynamics: People with power responsible for creating a
shared context
@y3l2n

35.
Final thoughts
Things to remember
● Considering context
● Precision
● Ask questions if you can!
Good communication is good for your business!
@y3l2n