I've heard CA is great. As well as PA, NJ, and NY. I live in the mid-west, in the Indianapolis area. The two families I work with are middle class, but they didn't have too many problems in this state. Mainly they had to deal with waiting lists and the occasional red tape hiccup. Services in this area are great--therapies, dietary supplement professionals, and state care--but you have to do a little hunting. There is a least one really good school for autism here as well.