Child custody requires cooperation from both parents

On behalf of Law Offices of Ashley Philpot Mattos on Thursday, May 10, 2018.

Child custody cases don't have to be full of drama when parents decide that they need to do what is in the best interests of children. When this happens, children are given a chance to thrive and enjoy the stability of having two parents who can work together.

This doesn't mean that it is always going to be easy to make things work. In fact, you and your ex might have to sacrifice and regularly put your own issues aside. You should start the teamwork approach as soon as you know the divorce is going to happen. Here are some tips to help you get started:

Choose the right schedule

The child custody schedule you choose has a significant impact on your arrangement. There is a good chance that a schedule that doesn't make much sense is gong to lead to more stress for your life. You need to think about your child's schedule, as well as your own schedule and your ex's schedule. This helps to ensure that you aren't trying to rush around at the last minute to rearrange plans.

Decide what points are important

It is impossible for both parents to always have exactly what they want for the child custody case. You have to decide what battles you are going to fight. Deciding these ahead of time helps you to formulate a game plan. Maybe you want to be a stickler for school but don't mind giving a bit on extracurricular or church activities. Setting these standards now can help you to remember your focus later so you aren't stuck fighting for every little thing.

Keep the focus on the children

Don't forget that you need to focus on your children. Instead of thinking about how specific solutions impact you or your ex, think about what they will do for your children. Always remember that what is best for your children might not be easy for you, but they are worthy sacrifices that come with parenting duties.

Pick your words and actions carefully

The words you choose and your actions can have a lasting impact on your children. Even though you don't get along with the other parent, you should still be respectful in front of the children. This shows them that respect isn't something that is contingent upon agreeing with someone. These life lessons can go a long way for the children.

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