I'm a divorced 40 something mother who will never marry again. You think men are all that too? I married a guy the same exact age as me whom I met while in college and ended up finding out he was controlling, chauvinistic, abusive, Jekyll & Hyde. Wanted me to be independent but tried to control my every move. Things were his way or no way. His way or no one was happy. I don't care that he made a 6 figure salary. I had more than he did when we married but he was successful in his career. Now what's mine is mine and will go to my son when I die. I don't need a meal ticket and I will never be controlled again!