Don’t Take The Condom Off Unless You Have Paperwork [Ask Diva]

Dear Diva,

I have a situation, my man just recently got locked up and I cheated on him. I only cheated with one guy. We had s*x a couple of times but the last time we had sex he didn’t use a condom and I didn’t know he didn’t have one on. He also didn’t pull out. Should I cut him off or just let him slide on this one and I will make sure it doesn’t happen again.

Signed,

Confused

Dear Confused,

The one that should be behind bars is you, for being a dumba$$. So you cheat on your boyfriend as soon as he got locked up, lol sure you did. You been cheating all along. Daymn you mess it up for every other downa$$ chick out there. Ok but lets get to the nitty gritty of things so this guy you been sleeping with sticks his pecker in you without a helmet and you didn’t notice?!?!? Did you notice that rain is wet or that grass is gren???? Ladies can you tell me that you honestly don’t feel when a pecker is in you and it has no condom on. Comón lets be real here, we all looooooooooooooove that feeling so we know when its on or off. Confused…you need to stop lying to yourself and to your man. The worst part is that you let him cum in you, did you think about how many girls he is doing the same thing too. I hope you are smart enough to have bought Plan B asap, and go get an HIV test along with every other STD test in the universe. I can see already that this is going to turn into a typical scenario….you cheat on your man that held you down while he was out, you get knocked up by Joe Shmo and he bounces, then you tell your man that you got raped or something crazy and that you want to keep the baby. Ladies we need to do better. If you are in a relationship and want to cheat, leave him and move on. And we have the nerve to say that there are no good men left, why would there be when you have ho$s that make them into dogs.

Signed,

Diva

P.S. Yes its a fact s@x without a condom is sooooooooo much better but before you take it there get his or her paperwork.