Saturday, 20 August 2011

thoughtful day!

Period. Comma. Exclamation Mark. Questions. What you say and how you say it, will influence every relationship and conversation you have in your life. Have you ever said something and the other person took it the wrong way? I honestly have always faced this kind of situation. I mean yeah, sometimes I don't have an idea what the other person is talking? is she/he trying to make me feel offended? Or That's just how she/he sounds it?

Perhaps, it was the tone in your voice or your body language. Were you too loud? Were you rolling your eyes? Were you making some weird FACE expressions? In every situation, I think you should consider very carefully how you interact to the people around you. Whether it is your family,friends, boyfriend/girlfriend, your words and how you speak them will impact your relationships in the way that YOU CHOOSE to impact them. If you expect a certain reaction or to be treating respectfully, choose your words and how you say them very carefully.

You wouldn't want to poison yourself with negative thinking right? So, consider your words, you do not have to sound really mean and make other people feel offensive about your words. It blocks communication and friendships. And that does not mean you have to please everyone like fuck. LOL. I am actually writing this for the food for my thought ; - )