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Wednesday, 19 October 2016

HUGGER RONKE

HUGGER RONKE.

I love hugging. I am naturally a toucher. I used to touch
people when talking to them but now I have stopped, probably due to maturity. I
am a visual and kinesthetic learner than I am auditory. I tie learning to my feelings.
Maybe that is why I am also an emotional teacher. I would always use examples
that involves the people I’m talking. I would want to move close to my audience
so that they can “feel” me. But lets go to why I am writing this.

So when I was young, I used to love hugging. Anybody who
holds me or hugs me I believed loved me more and it was a way I showed
solidarity, love and care to people. As I grew I reduced the hugs because it
was weird to some people (Nigerians) so I most times held back. When I seriously started praying for who I was
going to marry. One of the things on the top of my list was that the person
must be a good Hugger. Can you imagine that? Sometimes while praying that way I
would tell myself there was no way God would take me serious. Why should I ask
for someone who can hug amidst other important things?

In comes future hubby into my life and the first thing I noticed
about him was he was a toucher. When we would talk and he had an important
point he wanted to pass across to me. He would move closer to me or hold my
hand. In fact there was a day we were on a stroll and I said something funny,
impulsively he put his arms around my shoulder and it was a shock to me(we were
just friends), not because of anything but because my husband was a spiri koko.
So I didn’t expect him to do that. The day I said Yes to him, the first thing
he did was to hug me and I wondered why he was like that.

Some dates later while we were writing down the rules of our
relationship. He wrote down No kissing before marriage and I agreed and when I asked
him what about hugging. He said no we were going to hug. When I asked why, he
said he was mature enough to handle a hug and God had prepared him that it was
going to be a hugging relationship. I looked at him as if he was from another
planet. So he told me the first revelation he got about me was that both of us
were hugging (told you he is a spiri) and that he woke up wondering if the
revelation was from the devil, but that he got a confirmation that it was from
God and the revelation prepared him and let him know the relationship will be
hugful, lol.

I got home that day and I cried. I cried because God cared
so much about my little request I asked about wanting someone that could hug
me. He cared so much that he went to tell hubby that he should hug me. So that
was how we had a hug-full relationship. God helped us to stay on hugging. We
never kissed until our wedding day and today we are still hugging today.

Why did I write this. I wrote to let you know that God cares
about the minutest desire in our heart so far its genuine. So don’t think there
is something too sacred or unserious that you can’t tell God. And h does not
just answer our prayers. H does it good measure, pressed down, shaken together
and running over. I asked God for a hugger, he gave me a mega hugger (my
husband can win award for hugging). God loves me that much and He loves you
that much too. I am giving him a big hug

So this morning I woke up with an appreciative heart and I
am giving out free virtual hugs to everyone who can catch it. Take your hug