INT's... How did YOU flirt today?

As responsible, maturing individuals... surely it is our duty to at least attempt to build up our weak areas, right? Here is the challenge:

"Every day, I will attempt to flirt with at least one person (if I am single and/or it won't get me into trouble...)"

Speak the oath, yell it to the Universe: "WE DO NOT SUCK AT FLIRTING!" And then cross yourself and throw salt over your shoulder for telling lies.

I will offer advise that I read somewhere... () don't flirt with people you are actually attracted to at first. Flirt with random store clerks. Flirt with the mailman (Ok, not the mailman, he knows where you live and hey... stereotypes usually exist for a reason). After we get better at this ridiculous nonsense, then we can set our sights on people we're attracted to.

The world won't know what to do with us... and that, my friends, is always fun.

I purposefully avoided getting into an elevator at work yesterday with a cute guy. I walked in the front door, saw him hit the button to call the elevator, saw that he was absolutely adorable... and bolted for the stairs.

So yes, to answer your question... we are supposed to flirt. We NEED to flirt. Its an aweful shortcoming.

I flirt all the time. It's the only way of communication I know. Except with people I actually like. Then I either just sulk or babble horridly (with a little voice in my head screaming: "Stop it! What are you saying? For the love of god, stop! ... We're never going to be able to look this person in the eyes again, are we?").

It's painful.

Always listen to experts. They'll tell you what can't be done, and why. Then do it.

"Stop it! What are you saying? For the love of god, stop! ... We're never going to be able to look this person in the eyes again, are we?").

ohh, you hear him too?

I did tell a lovely girl who I know but have not seen for a long time that she has a nicely symmetrical face and that she has delicious physical curves (yes I sayd that, and later went red and hot in the face when I realized I had sayd it, I still feel like= read the person i quoted in the beginning) I am now trying to avoid talkin to her about that we ever met

I flirt all the time. It's the only way of communication I know. Except with people I actually like. Then I either just sulk or babble horridly (with a little voice in my head screaming: "Stop it! What are you saying? For the love of god, stop! ... We're never going to be able to look this person in the eyes again, are we?").

It's painful.

LOL! It's true! The more you like them, the more idiotic you feel.

When I am in a good mood and am feeling confident, I tend to flirt without realizing that's what I'm doing. It has less to do with how attractive I find the other person and more to do with how I'm feeling that day. Actual flirting with intent happens rarely, because I rarely find someone I'm that interested in.