Want a Better Morning Routine with Kids?

Believe me, I know, mornings in a busy house with kids can be tough. There are several guidelines that can help in this hectic transition time.

Build a real routine – Many families have a solid bedtime routine but fewer have a great morning routine. If you are one of those winging it in the morning families, it is time to get a routine. Start by deciding what time you want to walk out the door. Next list all the things that need to happen before that from wake-up to out and decide about how much time you’ll need for each step. Working backwards gives you a wake-up time.

End with fun so you have something to work towards and a buffer – Now take that well planned schedule and bump everything earlier by 10 minutes. Set aside this bit of time at the end for the kids to do something enjoyable. This may be reading or lego time, it may be time with the puppy. This gives your kids something to work towards and you a 10 minute buffer for sanity’s sake.

Get visual – Work with your child to make a chart or a poster including the steps of your new routine. Let them make the decisions to write a chart or draw pictures or take pictures for the illustrations. Give them time to decorate it and make it their own. Put it somewhere easily visible to all.

Stick to the schedule – Help your child make it through the routine and have the 10 minutes for something enjoyable at least a few mornings. Make it your goal to stick to the schedule for a month, a routine only helps if you do it.

Think logistics for sticking points – If getting dressed is a battle, put it first rather than last in the routine. Make a rule that breakfast is for dressed people. Really desperate, have them sleep in their next day clothes (at least the shirt, underwear and socks).

Give jobs – To keep kids in the routine, it may be helpful to give them individual responsibilities as they go. Make one the toothpaste squeezer, another the cereal pourer. Titles are appealing to younger children. Think to rotate jobs every few days.

Give choices – Choices allow the child some power. Here and there, share a bit. Ask, “Do you want cereal or oatmeal this morning?” or “Do you want to wear shorts or a skirt?” or “Do you want to get dressed by yourself or with help?”

Give challenges – Can they get dressed before you? Can they get to the table faster this morning than yesterday?

Do what you can the night before – In our house homework isn’t complete until it is in the backpack and by the front door with all papers signed. Some gung-ho families make lunches the night before and lay out clothes. Every little bit helps.

As they are able, give them more responsibility in the process – If you trust, let them take over the tooth brushing. If they do, let them wake-up by an alarm.

Plan with simple and healthy in mind for breakfast – It’s great if you can cook a full hot breakfast every morning. I am not knocking that at all, in fact I’d like to wake-up at your house! I often cook on the weekends but go the easy route on weekdays keeping health in mind. We do a lot of scrambled eggs, hard-boiled before eggs, whole grain cereal, yogurt, cheese sticks, toast and fruit salad. Things that take just a minute or two and we keep well stocked.

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