Twenty years into her marriage, Kat and her husband faced head-on the
great underlying fear of most monogamous people: My partner wants to
have sex with other people. For them, that truth led to a rollercoaster
of new sexual and romantic adventures...

People whose identities don't conform to the norms within a community often feel isolated from that community. Figuring out how to fit in when you don't hew to the line of a group is an incredible challenge.

We began the night with social time, drinks and food as people arrived and got the chance to meet people they didn't know. We lined up all the toys on the mantle and enjoyed the colourful plethora of options on display.