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Are you willing to commit to an LDR? Is she? Very important questions. IMO, I'm not sure the average person is equipped to fully respect the boundaries of an LDR. However, I could be very wrong, but it's just my impression after many observations and experiences.

Successful LDRs work when two people are of the same branch:

1. They are immensely committed to each other

2. They do not require frequent attention, comfort, etc. from the opposite sex while they're apart (this means spending a lot of time with a friend they're attracted to, etc.)

3. They do not engage in activities which can lead to cheating (responding to ads online, exchanging sexual texts and chats, etc.)