Bullet vibrators are an essential in any sex toy collection, whether you’re a beginner or more advanced user.

What’s so appealing about them is the way they’re small and discreet, yet they can do wonders for you during your bedroom playtime!

They’re also really unintimidating, meaning anyone who’s a bit ‘eeek’ at sex toys, usually won’t be freaked out by a small harmless bullet.

But what can you do with one?

Bullets are perfect for solo or couple play.

Solo Bullet Vibrator Play

Using a bullet on your own is fantastic for direct stimulation. As in, straight on the clitoris will give you quick, powerful orgasms.

But wait…. before you get there, a bullet is very effective using on other areas of your body first like your erogenous zones e.g your nipples. Or even some internal (shallow) stimulation, as well as all over the genital areas.

There are different sizes of bullet (all usually small still), but some are extra wide or a little longer than others. These tend to be found where there’s a range of different sizes eg with the Rocks Off range of bullets.

Couple Bullet Vibrator Play

A little (harmless) bullet is by far the easiest sex toy to first introduce into the bedroom together. If you’ve never used sex toys together, this is an excellent starter because of how unintimidating it is. It’s like bringing your lipstick with you! (Some bullets are made to look like exactly lipsticks in fact).

Notes for Him

After turning her on using the bullet around her body and nipples, try targeting the vibrations from the bullet at and around the clitoris, whilst using your tongue/fingers to touch and lick the rest of the vaginal area. Mix the vibrations and sensations up, harder and slower.

A bullet is also an amazing way of keeping her beautifully turned on during intercourse if used around her clitoris – perfect for those who struggle to orgasm through penetration alone. The bullet / intercourse combo is a sure fire way to keep her wanting more.

Notes for Her

Oooh there’s so many places for men to enjoy bullet stimulation. As well as all over the body, he has extra sensitive areas to focus the vibrations on too.

During oral you can use the bullet to help vibrations travel from your mouth, giving him a intense sensation. It can also be used around his scrotum and perineum, a smooth piece of skin between the scrotum and anus full of nerve endings.

You can also place the bullet around here during intercourse and take it in turns to experience the vibrations.

Finally, there are no right or wrong ways to play with a bullet vibrator together so experiment and see what feels good and you most enjoy!

1. Show them some positivity

Make sure to let your partner know how much you appreciate them. Though they already probably know it, it would do a lot for your relationship if you make positive remarks to them regularly, praising how they are or what they did.

It’s always good to be appreciative, and this will cut down on any possible resentment.

2. Don’t be over critical

Try not to over criticize. Most people are fine with criticism in the beginning stages of their relationships, but as time goes by, they begin to get irritated by it.

While honest criticism is important, make sure to restrict it to relevant issues, and don’t nitpick over tiny problems that would best be let pass.

If your partner ends up feeling that they are constantly being judged, then they may lash out or become unhappy, neither of which will help your relationship.

3. Listen well

Remember to always listen to what your partner is trying to say. If ever you get into an argument or a fight, make sure that you are aware of their side, and allow them to explain, before you begin to respond.

Not interrupting and listening wholeheartedly will do wonders for your relationship.

4. Have time for yourself

Remember to set aside time for yourself. Your life shouldn’t revolve around your partner, and you should be able to live a stable life, with your own friends, hobbies, and interests. This allows you to grow as an individual, while giving space to your partner to grow as well.

5. Say sorry

Don’t be afraid to apologise. Even if you honestly believe that it isn’t really all your fault, apologising and making the first move to reconciliation after a fight will make life easier and happier for the both of you.

Life’s too short to hold grudges.

6. Do what you say you’re going to do

Always keep your word. Even for the little things. Even if you feel that you already do a lot for the relationship, if you promise to do something small like take out the rubbish, then make sure to do it.

7. Stay cool, not pushy

Don’t be in constant pursuit of your partner. Not everyone thinks the same way, and if your partner isn’t as comfortable with so much closeness, then over pursuing them may make them feel uncomfortable, or may even drive them away.

Give them enough space, and don’t smother them.

8. Keep conversations open and honest

If ever your partner is rude towards you, tell them that they are being rude, and that you will only talk to them when they’ve calmed down and are treating you with proper respect once again.

9. Maintain an element of mystery

Keep some things to yourself. While knowing a lot about another person leads to comfort, over familiarity may breed contempt.

Do some things to yourself, and have a life outside your partner, and this will lead to greater passion between the two of you.

10. Switch off tech when you’re with each other

Don’t be too absorbed with your phones. Make sure that you can communicate or spend time with each other without your faces glued to your electronic devices.

Simple rules may include no phones during dinner, or no taking calls during conversations (unless they are urgent).

11. Have sex!

Sex is one of the greatest bonding activities between partners, and having an active and healthy sex life is one of the greatest indicators of a happy relationship or marriage.

Indulge your partner and enjoy life with them together. Remember to keep open communication between the two of you, and tell your partner what you like and what you dislike in order to enjoy sex even more.

Here are ten alternative and exciting ideas for a sexy date night in with your partner.

1. Cook together

The urge for a takeaway may be there, but cooking is great fun when you really get into it. It’s an incredibly sociable activity – with enough wine flowing and some nice music, it can really set the romantic tone too.

To ‘spice’ things up a little, try making something that neither of you have done before, or try your hardest to recreate one of your favourite restaurant dishes.

If you really fancy a challenge, you should both attempt to make something with no real recipe, making it your own special meal from that awesome night in you had together.

Bonus points if you get dressed up in your sexiest clothes and turn it into a really beautiful date night in.

2. Have a movie marathon or TV binge

This doesn’t mean simply sitting in front of 80’s repeats either!

Choose a theme for your evening to have, such as Westerns, rom-coms, musicals and so on – set your movie picking skills to a certain genre to keep the night from going stale. It is a great way to get to know each other’s movie tastes, and even enjoy something that neither of you have seen before.

It’s a great opportunity to get snuggly under a blanket and really get cosy. And if you’re not careful things could get really heated under there…

3. Crack out the silly board games

Like almost all of us, you probably have a dusty box of Snakes ‘n’ Ladders or Trivial Pursuit somewhere in the house. If you don’t, ask a friend!

These are the kind of games that you only think to bring out on cold winter nights or at Christmas, but here is another perfect chance. Get the drinks on the go and a game of Monopoly could turn into fits of laughter, or an attempt at general knowledge quizzes could leave you reeling.

When the company is there, quite literally anything could be a laugh! And laughter is extremely sexy.

4. Create your own home spa

If you need to unwind after a long day or arduous week, you may be craving a chance to go to a spa. Sometimes though, it can be a lot easier and cheaper to bring the spa to you! There are simple ways for you and your partner to enjoy a rejuvenating experience from the comfort of your home.

Fill your bath with relaxing soaps and adorn the bathroom with candles, or lather on some face masks and soak your feet in some warm soapy water. Relaxing music and soft lighting really go a long way!

Alternatively take a steamy hot shower together and let the heat melt away any aches and tension.

5. Take the outdoors indoors

When the winter nights start dragging on, that yearning for a Summer camping holiday tends to get worse.

Although you may not be able to get the tent and head to the hills, you can still have the same effect from home. In your living room construct a tent made from blankets (or just your actual tent if you have room!), put in your comfy bedding and light some little lanterns.

Frying some sausages on the BBQ outdoors and settling down for this sexy date night in can make an average evening memorable, as well as a chance for some real heart to hearts and unexpected pure romance!

6. Bring back the party games

Remember those nostalgic party games you used to play as a kid? Pin the tail on the donkey, hide the spoon, Twister, musical chairs and so on – all of these can be amazing fun for a silly night in.

These games were usually pretty simple for our exhausted parents to put together back in the day, so by giving them a go you’ll realise they’re easy and cheap to execute. It’ll leave you both in fits of giggles. Combine with music, drinks and a take away and you’ve got a night of fun that will leave you ready for more.

7. Draw each other’s portraits

If you fancy yourselves as budding artists – or not – this may be the one to keep you laughing all evening.

All you need is some paper, and whatever your artistic heart desires – pencils, pens, chalk, you name it.

Your partner can choose to dress up or hold a random object, and pose dramatically for you to capture!

Regardless of your drawing talents, you will still have a great date night in – whatever the outcome. As the evening draws to a close (ahem) you will end up with an excellent souvenir to remember it by!

8. Simply chat

If you’re one for keeping it on the down low, and being wildly extravagant seems slightly daunting, it doesn’t matter. You can still have an absolutely great time!

With all of the stresses of daily life, inescapable technology and chaotic commuting, a chance to turn down the lights with this date night in, switch off the television and simply chat may be the best thing to unwind. Escape all the stress and demands of normal life and focus on each other, and what both of you have to say.

You might end up having the most in-depth and interesting conversations you’ve ever had, or learn something about one another that you never knew before.

Open up about what you most long for in life – and who knows, it could bring you closer than ever both emotionally and physically.

9. Give each other massages

The tension of your busy day at work may be evident in your shoulders and muscles, and you’re probably feeling it all by the end of the day.

Instead of simply going to bed and not bothering with anything, turn your tiredness into enjoying your evening with your partner instead.

Gather up some essential oils, light some candles and put on your unwinding playlist and enjoy a romantic massage from each other.

It will not only make you feel physically better and mentally calmer, but it will also bring you closer together as a couple. It’s both sensual and romantic.

10. Get crafty

Fancy trying your hand at something new? Working together on building or creating something is a great way to unite you as a couple.

You may even discover a talent for something you never knew you had! It may be creating something for your home, redecorating stuff you already have or even fixing what may be broken around the house.

Putting your minds together and working on improving an item is always great fun, even if you’re terrible at it! With enough light hearted laughter and silliness, you could end up making something to help you remember such an incredible date night in.

11. Experimentation date night in

Choose some interesting new sex toys you’ve never tried before. The more unusual to you the better. Decide to explore and experiment with some new pleasurable experiences and see how much you can pleasure each other in new and unknown ways! Eg. The We-Vibe Unite (my review) is an excellent couples toy.

Changing things up is a great way to keep your sex life alive, fresh and is essential.

Whichever sexy date night in you choose, most of all have fun, let go, and enjoy your partners company.

2. Sexy Valentines Day Gifts Bath Set

This sweet smelling bath and body lotion set from Ann Summers will get you and your partner in the mood for some naughty fun on Valentines day night. Conveniently called Aphrodisiac is also moisturising so leaves your skin soft and smooth.

The smell combines a woody fragrance, florals, deep fruits and noble woods, dark vanilla and musk – now if you know much about perfumes that may mean lots to you, but for the rest of us, in one word, it’s just divine 🙂 Plus it’s currently on sale so grab this one whilst you can.

3. Oh! Roll Play Foreplay Dice

These foreplay dice are an absolute bargain for the amount of fun they give you!

They’re the kind of sexy Valentines day gifts that will add lots more spice and ideas to your current sex life.

Not only can they have you in stitches laughing together, they can be extremely erotic and heat up the mood with some of the combinations you can get! Some are amazing, some are strange. But just go with it and see what happens.

All you do it roll the dice to discover your instructions and which part of the body. If either of you is a little shy, they’re also a great way of easing any pressure and helping you move forward into ‘new’ ways of experimenting.

4. Love Bullet Vibrator

We couldn’t have a list of sexy Valentines gift ideas without a mini bullet vibrator! This miniature pocket rocket is packed with power and the perfect addition to your bundle of pleasure items.

Most people are already familiar with bullet vibrators but if you’re not you can read more about them in my 10 of the best bullet vibrators post.

This Love bullet is perfect for beginners. It’s small and unintimidating at 2.5 inches. It can be used on all areas of the body, but is especially great for clitoris stimulation solo, by your partner or during sex.

It has a simple push on and off button and single speed, therefore it may be a little basic for some. Overall it’s lovely and smooth in a yummy purple colour and is powerful enough to give strong intense orgasms.

5. Oh! Lickable Massage Oil

As if massaging your partners skin alone wasn’t a turn on enough, with this oil you can also lick it – and it tastes amazing! You can choose between cherry, vanilla or strawberry flavours. Why not try them all?

A massage is such a great way of relaxing you both before and is the ultimate turn on. Pour a glass of wine, dim the lights, help relieve any stress and tension, whilst also creating a beautifully romantic atmosphere and also enjoy tasting your love as you go. It won’t be long until you’re both moaning with pleasure…

This lickable massage oil is simply a must have in your box of sexy Valentines day gifts! And what a bargain.

8. Lovers Lotto Scratch Cards

These are so fun and so worth buying with your sexy Valentines day gifts for your loved one!

What are they exactly? Well you scratch off a card on each row of the scratch card, to reveal the what, where and when. You get 12 cards to play with. Great fun for couples to enjoy together. One reviewer said it really spiced up their sex life.

There’s no denying the prize is always going to be a good one with these goodies!

Tip: Keep some in your purse/wallet to play whilst you’re out on your date night and see what’s in store for later.

Whether you want to spice things up in the bedroom, or simply show your significant other your incredible shape in a unique way, wet look dresses are perfect!

They aren’t too extreme, so they’re great if you’re new to the sexy outfit department. Wet look dresses are easy to accessorise and add to, and flatter any figure. Here are the top five to whet (get it?) your appetite…. 🙂

First on the list is this sassy number from Bondara. This wet look item is your own bedroom’s little black dress, coming down to your mid-thigh and curling round your shoulders as a halter-neck.

The nylon and spandex material hugs your curves and flattens your tummy, while the smooth wet-look style gives you an incredible and sexy shape, making your breasts look pert and ready for anything.

With its sheer panels wrapping around the sides and across the back, the dress both covers and reveals all at the same time, making your back look as slender as your front.

These wet look dresses come in one size between small and large, showing just how flexible and stretchy the material really is. The best feature of this dress has to be the quirky design, giving you that unique edge.

The one minor downside to Bondara’s mini dress has to be the sizing – a little too generic for every individual curvy bod!

So, Ann Summers have done it again with this shiny little piece of bedroom fashion.

However, if you’re feeling daring you can even wear this one out on the town! This wet look dress has all the bells and whistles for a very reasonable price – it’s design involving both a tie-up halter-neck, a zip down front and also a corset style laced back to boot.

It has design features to outdo a large variety of other wet look dresses, giving you a little bit of everything.

It really is perfect for every style, but still dead easy to accessorise. The full length zip down the front of the dress draws attention inward from the hips, giving you an even more accentuated thin waist.

This dress comes in three sizes – small, medium and large, giving the perfect fit for all body shapes.

When you’re having a browse through Bondara, and you’re looking at something on a smaller budget – don’t look for anything less than great quality, like this dress right here!

This wet look dress is all about the waist up, great for anyone that wants to show off or accentuate their breasts! The shiny wet look material covers your hips and upper thighs, hugging your curves and making you look like the perfect present to unwrap.

The cut of the dress itself goes all the way up to the base of your neck as a halter-neck style, drawing attention to your torso and lengthening your shoulders. Reviewers have said that the fit and the feel of these wet look dresses are excellent, and that the price does not mean poor quality.

Due to it being one size fits all did cause some to take a little longer to slide on, but once it’s on it’s absolutely perfect!

Last but not least is something pretty and sexy all in one from Simply Pleasure. These styles of wet look dresses are described as a ‘bodycon’, showing just how great it is for emphasising your shape and curves while looking super sexy.

It’s very different to the other dresses on this list due to its unique design, having a ‘naughty nightdress’ style to it – with t-shirt sleeves and a high neckline. It’s perfect for when you may need a little confidence boost, or you simply want to stay modest while looking sexy for your partner.

The rose lace design across the chest area and along the hem of the skirt is a beautiful addition to the dress, giving you that extra feminine and sweet edge. You can pair this up with some stockings and heels to complete the look, or simply wear it as it is, as it doesn’t need to be over-accessorised.

If you feel daring enough you could even wear this dress out on the town, but for now it can be absolutely perfect for the comfort of your own bedroom.

To wrap up, these wet look dresses are ideal for when you want to make a change to the old routine with you and your partner.

If things get a little boring but neither of you are into the more extreme stuff, this is the perfect way to start.

These wet look dresses can make you feel fun and flirty again, as well as get you back in touch with your feminine side – after wearing pyjama bottoms and an old t-shirt all this time, it’s time to spice it up! Take a look at the ones that were listed above, or find something that makes you feel like your best self, and work it!

Sometimes, we hit that point where we want to turn up the heat. If you feel like you need to spice things up in the bedroom, or if you simply want to show your partner something new, this babydoll is the perfect way to do it.

It’s light, sexy and bound to set the mood whenever you fancy. Ann Summers has really kicked it up a notch, giving you comfort style and seduction all in one lacy package.

What does it look like?

It has a white halter neck that accentuates your chest, making your shoulders appear broader and giving you a generally slimmer shape. The thinly padded bra cups are decorated with beautiful appliqué black lace, that plunges into a v – neckline before reaching the babydoll itself.

Its hem is white ruffled trim, that give it a cheeky kick and flair to add that extra bit of detail. It comes in a nude/black colour, which is great to show both your romantic and seductive sides.

What is it made of?

The cups on the top of the babydoll are made from pink satin, which will be light and soft on your chest, cooling you down in the summer months.

The eyelash lace overlay is incredibly gentle on the skin, without irritating it. The skirt itself is made of black, translucent and sheer mesh, that reveals your body and covers it all at the same time.

The detail of the white ruffles on the hem of the babydoll are smooth and soft to the touch, to keep you comfortable all night long.

Is it flattering?

Definitely! The babydoll is an elegant classic, timeless in how perfect and sexy it can make you feel. Regardless of your body type, shape or size, this babydoll accentuates your curves and shows you off in all the right places.

The babydoll is a great place to start when you’re first thinking of bringing sexy clothing into the bedroom, as it isn’t too extreme or revealing. The sheer mesh material and bra cups both show you off and cover you up, giving an air of mystery into the outfit for your partner to explore.

What is the fit like?

Because the babydoll has got no other ‘fitted’ elements to the garment other than the bra cups, it uses your traditional UK bra measurements, from B cup all the way to H cup.

The floating material beneath your enhanced bra cups flatters any figure, and isn’t restrictive on your body. This makes it really comfy to sleep in as well!

Speaking of comfort, the babydoll does not come with underwear, but that gives you the opportunity to find your favourite pair of sexy knickers to pair with it – and everything goes with black or nude. Instead of cheap and tight fitting undies to squeeze into, you can slip into your classics.

So, we ring in the New Year and as we are just recovering from the wild parties and making merry, it’s suddenly Christmas again, right around the corner. Where does the year go?!

Christmas lingerie to keep you going all season

If you feel like the world is spinning far too quickly to give you a chance to think of some present ideas, here are a few great Christmas lingerie options to put you in the right mindset – and get you both in the mood for later on.

Even if you aren’t buying Christmas lingerie as a gift for another person, and simply want to treat yourself, these ideas will make you both say ‘Santa Baby’ 🙂

This Christmas lingerie dress from Ann Summers is bound to take winter spice to another level.

That’s if you can call it a dress, of course!

It’s skimpy, sassy and reveals all your best bits, keeping you covered and confident in all the right places.

The lacy halter-neck plunges down into a deep low cut line that travels all the way down past your belly-button, revealing a stunning line down your chest which draws your breasts together.

It frills out at the bottom, and ties up sensuously at the back, so your other half can unwrap you like the perfect Christmas present.

To add that little bit of glam, the low cut front is topped off with a band of sparkling diamanté jewels, that can give you as much sparkle as the festive tree downstairs.

The dress itself comes in two colours, red or black, for whatever you prefer or for when you want to change the mood up a little. It comes in small, medium and large, so you are guaranteed to find your perfect fit.

Are you ready to turn a few heads at the office Christmas party this year? In this scintillating low cut body, you are bound to show your naughtier side, whether outside the bedroom or in.

Its frilly and lacy design is cut deeply below the breasts, giving you an excellent cleavage, and its cut out belt across the waist really cinches you in and accentuates your curves.

To pull you up and give you an incredible tall posture, the attached neck collar draws up from your tummy to save any need for fiddly necklaces, as it is its own accessory built in!

The Oregan body itself comes in either red or nude, for if you want to be a Christmas angel or a saucy devil – you can get it in traditional UK sizing between sizes eight and sixteen, so you can get that perfect shape for you. An essential piece of Christmas lingerie.

It looks like Lovehoney have brought us the timeless classic with this Christmas lingerie babydoll, for when you want to be a festive sweet treat or re-enact the famous ‘Mean Girls’ scene.

This bright red number is bound to get the blood flowing this December, with its sheer mesh material across the tummy falling into a cute lace trim across the hem.

The cups themselves are made of the same sheer material and eyelet lace, that both cover your breasts and show them off all at the same time.

The underwire brings them up to boost your cleavage, and the racer-back keeps you looking fun, flirty and very supported.

To give you the festive bow on top, beneath the cups are two adorable red silk bows to add that extra pizazz this winter.

The babydoll comes in four sizes from small up to extra large, which gives you enough sizing variety – just beware when it comes to a more generic sizing in the chest area, especially if you have a more top-heavy kinda girl!

There you have it, a perfect selection of Christmas lingerie to keep you going all through the season! With a little helping hand you can wish your lover a Merry Christmas, but you won’t want to wish them goodnight just yet….

We all know the feeling when you suddenly wake up and realise that the festive season is right around the corner. Christmas trees and cards appear in shops and you know you have to start planning!

If you want something gorgeous and unique for yourself or lady-love this year, here’s the perfect gift; the Selena Chemise from Ann Summers.

What does it look like?

The Selena chemise is a short, thigh high piece with spaghetti straps and a low cut neckline.

The beautiful shiny satin is also cut with a low back revealing as much of your beautiful back as possible.

It comes in a burgundy colour. Although due to the material, in different lighting it may look more pink and sometimes a little darker. The lacy black appliqué around the neckline, across the hem and even up the side, slightly offers a seductive shadow on the chemise, as well as beautiful detailing.

What’s it made of?

If you think the lower price of this chemise will mean it’s poorly made, don’t panic. Its smooth and soft satin material is fantastic quality, gently and lightly hugging the skin.

The lace appliqué detail is not scratchy in feel, and won’t dig in or irritate. Because the satin is so thin and soft on the skin, you may be worried about how it washes – however, with a gentle cycle with a cooler temperature, the chemise will feel just as good as the day you received it.

How flattering is the Selena Chemise?

A chemise is the perfect bedroom item. You can wear choose this to seduce your partner in and feel super sexy and beautiful. Or choose this is you simply want something light, soft and sexy to wear as nightwear in bed for yourself.

The burgundy colour works great on a variety of skin tones, whether you’re fair and pale or have a tanned or darker complexion – it really makes a statement!

The way the satin material moves hugs the skin in all the right places, as it loosely hangs but blends in with your curves. When the light hits it, the shadows flatter your body and accentuates your best bits with a little help from the lace design to draw attention to your beautiful figure.

What sizes does it come in?

This Selena chemise comes in a variety of sizes, and fits wonderfully to both a skinny shape and a curvier figure. The sizing starts at size 6 and goes right up in traditional UK measurements to size 22.

So regardless of your body shape, you can look sleek and sexy in burgundy.

Where to buy now?

One of the most popular vibrators at Ann Summers right now is the Rose Gold Pebble Vibrator. It’s such a gorgeous looking little toy that I knew I had to write about on the blog.

Described as “a palm full of pleasure” it’s the ideal first sex toy, or one of those for when you want simple yet effective – use it by yourself or with a partner.

What’s in the box?

You receive your Rose Gold Pebble vibrator, along with a set of instruction in a classic Ann Summers black and clear box.

What are the functions?

The Rose Gold Pebble vibrator has three different speeds, and there are three different patterns of vibrations. This gives you plenty of options to play with. Despite being small and compact, there’s so much potential here.

How is it powered?

The Pebble uses one single AAA battery (included). The nice thing about it is these batteries are inexpensive and you can buy a multipack to keep you going forever.

For a toy with such a small battery inside, it packs a lot of power.

How do you use it?

There is a single button for switching the Pebble on, off and moving through the different speeds and vibration patterns. It’s nice and simple to use and with the click of your thumb you can switch functions mid-play!

Does it work?

The Rose Gold Pebble vibrator been made to give you maximum vibration but also the shape allows for control precisely where you want it. It feels really good, as other people agree (see next!)

What are other people saying?

At the time of writing there are 111 reviews for the Rose Gold Pebble vibrator on Ann Summers. It’s scored 4.3 out of 5. The vast majority are very positive with comments such as:

Small, convenient and does the job! Love the different pulse/speed settings.

Creates a buzz in the bedroom 🙂

Very powerful. Gives you very intense orgasms and is fun to use with your partner 🙂

Some reviewers DID also say that it didn’t have strong enough vibrations for them. As a starter vibrator, or one to use with your partner before and during sex – it’s ideal.

Not everybody wants mega power and it’s a nice level for most people to enjoy and buzz off 🙂

e.g. “Not a strong vibration so a little disappointed”

So what are the pros?

It’s nice and easy to hold, a great shape.

There are a few different speeds and patterns.

With it’s shape and size it’s a good toy for couples to use before and during sex for added pleasure.

It’s only £20 English pounds.

What are the cons?

Batteries can be an inconvenience so make sure you keep some spare AAAs handy. On the other hand battery powered vibrators are cheaper to buy than rechargeables.

Some didn’t find is powerful enough.

Buy yours now:

£20.00 from Ann Summers. Plus pick up some extra AAA batteries (£3.00) whilst you’re ordering to keep you going with it for months.

If you and your partner love a good board game, why not bring it into the bedroom? And no, we don’t mean dragging in your Monopoly. Go for the Monogamy board game instead!

This a sexy board game involving romantic and saucy dares, forfeits and fantasies to keep you going all night long.

What’s Inside?

Inside the box there’s a lot to feast your eyes upon.

For the price, the game certainly gives you plenty to play with! It comes with the board itself, 65 individual cards for intimate, passionate, steamy as well as 50 fantasy cards to boot.

It also has two player pieces, one dice, twelve level pieces and a rules sheet to get you in the zone.

There are also four hundred great ideas to sink your teeth into on three separate levels, helping you to explore the romantic and risqué side of your partner for as long as you want.

What’s it all about?

The whole point of the game Monogamy board game is to really keep the heat going in the bedroom, no matter how long you and your partner have been together.

You might have found recently that the mystery in the bedroom has slowly faded, and things are getting a little routine. But that’s OK! Instead of letting the flame die completely, you can have a heated affair in your own bedroom with your very own partner.

Even if you don’t need to spice things up and your intimate life is pretty heated, this is a great way to mix it around a little.

If using toys and dressing up is getting a bit repetitive, there’s nothing more different than bringing a board game into the bedroom.

How do I play the Monogamy board game?

Although it may seem like there’s a lot that comes with this game, don’t worry. It’s incredibly simple!

Once you have set the mood with candles, low lighting and a glass of wine or two, the last person to blink after staring lovingly into each other’s eyes is the first one to start the game.

Roll the dice, move yourself to the right spot and begin, following what cards tell you whether to be saucy, romantic or daring!

There are three levels in total to work your way through, meeting new ideas, dares and treats along the way. It certainly is an adventure you’re not going to forget in a hurry.

What are others saying about it?

The Monogamy board game has really caused quite a stir amongst couples across the internet, who have all been singing its praises.

Ranging from ‘an awesome and very hot game to play’, to ‘this game went down a treat’, it’s safe to say it’s had some great test runs.

Although the reviews may be glittering, a couple of, well, couples have said that it can sometimes make you giggle though if you’re not used to taking things seriously! Which isn’t such a bad thing, right?

Magic wand massagers are very versatile toys. They have many different uses for your entire body.

Here are 5 ideas of activities you can do with your magic wand massager.

1. Massage your knots out

You can use a magic wand massager to work out any tension, aches and knots out of your back, neck, shoulders; and all over your entire body. It’s nice to have your partner do this for you, or you can do it yourself.

Massage your aches and pains away as part of foreplay and find yourself incredibly relaxed; and turned on.

2. Enjoy some solo play

Use your magic wand massager around your clit for a delicious orgasm. Build up the power slowly but surely, edging around until you climax and the vibrations take over your whole body.

3. Share the pleasure

You can use your magic wand to stimulate you and your partner at the same time. There are different shapes and sizes of magic wand massager. Use yours during doggy style or place it between your bodies in the missionary position. Both of you get the benefit of the vibrations and it’s a real turn on when you know your partner is feeling the pleasure too.

4. Relax and unwind in the bath or shower

Run yourself a calm and relaxing bubble bath. Take a waterproof magic wand massager and massage your whole body from top to toe. It’s relaxing, it gets your blood pumping and helps stimulate your lymphatic system to release toxins. Hold the massager on your feet and release the aches after a long day.

Remember you need a waterproof massager for use in the bath or shower such as a Lelo or Maia Twistty (see links below).

5. Create a brand new magic wand massager toy

Lots of magic wand massagers are able to fit with different shapes and sizes of attachments. This gives you a wide range of options to play with. You can buy rabbit, g-spot, nuzzle tips and male attachments. You just need to double check the head size of your wand and that the wand is compatible with the attachments.

A magic wand massager is a really good investment in your sex toy collection because of all the possibilities it gives you. Other sex toys may only have one use. I hope this has post has shown you how useful the magic wand massager is.

Get creative and start putting your wand into action!

Not got a magic wand massager yet? Check my magic wand massager reviews where I share a few of my recommendations:

Well I had originally planned to write this run down of the best latex stockings on at least 6 pairs. However, strangely there aren’t a great deal of just latex stockings available, and a couple of ranges were out of stock, so I’ve got 3 available here for you to choose for you.

At least it makes deciding that little bit easier!

Latex stockings look amazing on pretty much everyone and this type of bondage clothing is becoming more and more popular. Sex shops and lingerie shops are beginning to expand their ranges of latex clothes. In the near future I expect there will be lots more choice.

In this post then we’re looking at 3 of the available latex stockings, with a range of prices from £23.95 to £30.

Ann Summers is renowned for its sexy lingerie and their black latex stockings don’t disappoint, although they are more expensive than others. They come in three sizes; small, medium and large, ranging from a size 8 through to a size 14.

The Ann Summers bondage collection is a new range of sizzling latex outfits. I like that they all arrive boxed and fully ‘talced’ ready to wear. They’re high shine, meaning they’re very shiny of course, and measure to just above the knee.

Pros – They’re ready to wear, and you know where you are with Ann Summers. The service is good and there’s a full range to go with these.

These Rubber Girl latex stockings are from Lovehoney and I have to say I love these shoes as well 🙂 But we’re talking about the stockings here not the shoes.

There’s a mix of reviews for this pair. Mostly they’re 5 stars, but there are a couple of 1 stars from people who found them difficult to get on. The solution…. is to buy a size larger. So whatever your size, go up one.

There are four sizes, small, medium, large and extra large, covering a size 10 through to a size 20. Most figures should be covered here. So if you’re an 8, go for the small, and if you’re a 16 or 18, go for the extra large.

These will be matt when they arrive, and you have to shine them yourself using latex shiner when they arrive.

Overall, despite the sizing issue, these are very sexy glossy leggings that make your legs look incredible.

Pros – There’s a wider range of sizes and Rubber Girl is a good brand. Lovehoney have a no hassle returns policy should you decide you don’t like them. They do look really sexy.

Cons – There have been a few issues with people struggling to get them on. Try going for a bigger size if these are the latex leggings for you.

Now we’re moving onto the Sharon Sloane latex stockings. Who is Sharon Sloane? She’s a popular brand of latex wear.

Again, like the Rubber Girl stockings you will need to shine them when they arrive.

These come in a small, medium and large covering a size 6 through to 16. They’ve so far received two good reviews and are available from Simply Pleasure. (In case you’re not familiar with them, Simply Pleasure is a well established online and bricks and mortar shop).

These stockings are currently on offer with 27% off.

Pros – Sharon Sloane has a wide range of latex wear and they know where they’re doing when it comes to latex. There are a couple of other positive reviews so far for these. Simply Pleasure also have no hassle returns.

Hey there cheeky monkeys. Time for another toy review – this week the We-Vibe Unite. I’ve talked about other We-Vibes before, it seems like there’s always a new We-Vibe version out.

There was the We-Vibe, the 2, the 2 plus, the 3, the 4, the 4 plus, the sync, the classic.. and the Unite. Not all of these are still available though.

The We-Vibe Unite looks very much like the others but surely it has some differences.

Let’s take a look at what those differences are…

Difference between We-Vibe Unite and We-Vibe 4

The main difference is the size and shape of the We-Vibes. The We Vibe Unite is slimmer and a more up to date model. Both come with remote controls and lots of vibration functions.

The Unite comes with a silk bag, as opposed to just a carry case.

Certain online shops are no longer stocking the We-Vibe 4 plus.

However to complicate matters, the Unite is a more basic model of the We-Vibe Sync, which is a lot more expensive to buy than the Unite and twice its price.

The Sync can be controlled with a phone app and features the We-Connect which we will look more into in a future review. If you’re not fussed about controlling your sex toy with your phone (to be honest I’m not), then let’s move onto the We-Vibe Unite.

What’s in the box?

The packaging is quite sexy, I love the red. You receive your We-Vibe Unite, a small sachet of lube (because this toy feels lovely with lube), a USB charger, your remote controller and a storage bag to keep everything clean and discreet.

How big is it?

Other people have also commented on being surprised at how small this toy was, it’s smaller than you might expect at 3 inches. However it is big enough to have a big impact!

It’s made from ‘body safe’ silicone, which I guess means it’s not going to harm you. And there is one colour available, like previous We-Vibes, that deep dark purple.

How is it powered?

Like other We-Vibes, and being a higher end couples sex toy, it’s rechargeable. This is so much more convenient than batteries. It’s charged up with a USB charger which plugs into either your laptop, or a USB charging plug.

Charging takes around 6 hours to complete and that gives you a full hour of running time.

How does it work?

The We-Vibe Unite sits internally, pressing against your g-spot, whilst your clit is also stimulated at the same time. It’s nice and easy to wear during sex so that you both get to feel the vibrations at the same time, which as a couple is very hot.

If you want to you can use it alone also – or be remote controlled by your partner.

To control it, there’s a single button on the remote control; it’s nice and simple when you’re in the heat of the moment and don’t want to be pressing the wrong button.

The controller works three metres away.

How many settings does it have?

There are ten different vibration functions which you can move through with your remote controller.

These are:

Low

Medium

High

Pulse

Wave

Cha Cha

Tease

Throb

Ramp

Ascend

You can also watch the video review on Lovehoney which will tell you a bit more about the Unite.

How loud is it?

There’s barely any sound. As far as vibrating toys go, this is whisper quiet. Other reviewers have commented on this too.

What are the pros?

Being rechargeable makes life much easier. There are no batteries that run out to fuss with, just plug it in, however a charging light would help determine when it’s charging and when it’s finished.

Lots of pattern functions gives you plenty of options to play with.

Great fun to be had with the remote control and your partner teasing you.

It’s both a couples sex toy and solo toy in one.

What are the cons?

If you like super strong vibrations you may wish it had more oomph to it. On Lovehoney’s website someone returned theirs due to lack of power but was very impressed with Lovehoney’s customer service. They accept returns without issue if you’re not happy.

The main con is it’s more of an upfront investment than other cheaper toys.

It’s not fully water-proof but is ‘splash proof’ meaning it can tolerate a few splashes, but don’t go submerging it under water. Clean it with a damp cloth.

Spanking knickers always make a nice sexy gift or maybe you want to invest in a gorgeous pair to treat yourself. There are some really beautiful ones out there at the moment, and it’s not an easy choice to make.

You end wanting all of them! Here’s my run down of 5 of the very best spanking knickers now.

This thong is too gorgeous not to be included here as well. It’s a firm favourite and one of Lovehoney’s most popular lingerie items.

Why choose this thong?

It’s incredibly sexy on any figure, and the black and deep pink accents on it go so well together. It feels soft, comfy and the lace looks very classy.

As it has removable suspender straps it’s up to you whether you wear them with stockings or not. Options are always good depending on how the mood takes you.

It also has a few different sizes to choose from to suit your figure.

Since last writing about this crotchless thong, an extra size has been added, so you’ve now got small-medium, medium-large, large-xl, xxl, covering sizes 8 through to a size 22. Good news for larger ladies.

The white lace around the crotch area adds to the innocence of this thong, and the ruffles around the edge make it look like you’re wearing the teeniest mini skirt.

Complete with rear red bow, they’re perfect for those that like dressing up in uniform. Pair them with a sexy white or red bra to complete the look.

This thong comes in one size that fits a size 6-16, but there is also a plus-sized option that’s got it’s own separate page for sizes 18-24. It’s clearly well made and of high quality, as other Lovehoney reviewers have talked about in their reviews of this thong.

Highlights

LOVE! This thong had to be in my list of 5 of the best spanking knickers. I’m sure you’ll agree it makes your bum look fantastic and is perfect for spanking.

It’s currently on offer at Ann Summers for just £6 and available sizes are 14, 16 and 18, but do check back as they may well get in more stock again of the smaller sizes. If any of these are your size, you’re in luck!

Why choose the Santana thong?

It’s a really pretty piece of lingerie, that’s obviously selling like hot cakes and has received great reviews. It has lovely black mesh and red flower detailing, it’s comfy and a fantastic price. It also comes with a matching balcony bra too.

Highlights

The Santana thong is gorgeous and the high waist really shows your bottom off at its best.

We’ve looked at five of my favourite spanking knickers. I hope you’ve seen some here that take your fancy!

I absolutely love this cutie Tokidoki X unicorn magic wand vibrator and could hardly contain my excitement about how cute it is!

It’s such an unusual but cool looking wand and you can do all sorts with it including using the pointy horn for vibrations right where you need them, which other wands don’t do (the head comes off to reveal a more typical looking wand too with a pink head), as well as overall massages. I’ll get to all of that in this review.

The Tokidoki X Wand is modelled on one of their most popular characters, the unicorn.

What’s in the box?

The box itself is so pretty and well designed (below). Other reviewers on Lovehoney also said they found it a shame to open and tear it. You can see the unicorn head looking out at you through the top.

It feels and looks like a higher end luxury wand.

You receive the unicorn wand itself, colourful and informative instructions and the power cable with a UK plug attached.

What’s it made of?

It’s made of soft silicone and is latex and phthalates free, so that means it’s ideal for people with allergies to these kinds of material. As it’s not waterproof, you will need to clean it with either sex toy cleaning wipes or a damp cloth.

How big is it?

The length is 13.2 inches long, and has a circumference of 10 inches at it’s widest part. The handle is nice and long to hold. It’s plenty big enough to use all over your body. The scroll button is easy to access.

How is it powered?

Like most magic wand vibrators on the market today, this one is mains powered so you just have to plug it in and away you go. It has a cable length of 1.8 metres, which is nice and long but should you want to stretch the cable even further from a mains plug you can always use an extension lead to plug it into that.

Mains power means there are no batteries to fuss with, it won’t ever run out of charge and it has plenty of power behind it for good strong vibrations.

How do you use it?

There is a built in scroll wheel you use for switching the unicorn wand on and off, and also you use this wheel for increasing the speed. You can start off with gentle vibrations, and build up the power as you need it.

Just scroll upwards and the wand switches on, keep scrolling to increase the speed, or scroll the opposite way to switch it off again.

Add some water-based lube and start using it where you want it, intimately for strong orgasms, or on the body to release tension and relax.

You can also check out the video below of the cool Jess Wild from Lovehoney talking about and demonstrating the wand.

Is it really magical?

On the clitoris, yes! It’s packed with power, and most won’t need to use the maximum level of vibrations, lower to medium is plenty. It feels really good and is a top quality magic wand vibrator.

The addition of being able to point the vibrations right where you want them with the unicorn head, or to use it as a traditional wand gives you some extra options to play with.

The wand is amazing for overall body massage as well, so for those with tight shoulders and achy backs, get your partner to use your unicorn wand all over and feel the tension melting away.

What are the good points?

Soft pointy horn – we all love one of those right? Most wands don’t have a way of vibrating on small areas so the Tokidoki X is especially cool because you get the best of both worlds. A normal wand, as well as a removable horn.

Mains powered means you never run out of charge and it’s ready any time.

Bright colours, cute and very unusual. Gorgeous design all over, including stars, lightning bolts, rainbows and clouds over the vent holes on the reverse.

Gorgeous packaging and colourful instructions.

What are the bad points?

It’s on the more expensive side of magic wand vibrators so not for those on a budget.

It’s not waterproof (because you plug it in). But you can wash it quite easily with cleaning wipes or a damp cloth.

I’m not sure how long it will be available for. The unusual, quirky designs like these tend to end up being limited editions (I loved the erotic ink bullet and they go discontinued) so if you like the look of the Tokidoki X wand I’d definitely get one whilst they’re around.

What are other people saying?

So far this wand has received ALL positive reviews which is pretty good going!

There are currently 9 reviews so far and amazingly all give it 5 stars. It hasn’t been out very long so hopefully it will gain lots more reviews as time goes on.

I definitely recommend you have a read of them before you invest in a higher end wand for yourself and watch the video too to help you decide.

Magic wand vibrators are awesome toys to own. Check out the Maia Twistty – a DOUBLE ENDED rechargeable USB magic wand vibrator, with ten functions. (With two ‘t’s in the title intentionally.)

I love it! In this review you can find out more about it and why it’s in my top five wands for this year.

What’s in the box?

When you receive the box it looks really classy and expensive, you feel excited to open it. It contains your Maia Twistty magic wand, a set of instructions, a draw string storage pouch and the USB charger.

The storage pouch is a nice touch and it also gives you somewhere to store your wand discreetly, and keep it clean so it’s always ready to be used whenever the mood takes your fancy.

How big is it?

The Maia Twistty magic wand is a bright purple colour and measures 8.5 inches. It can be inserted up to 2.5 inches. Its circumference is 5.8 inches.

How is it powered?

There’s a small hole in the wand to plug in the USB cable at one end, and then you plug the USB bit into your computer, laptop, USB charger or even mobile phone if you have a USB adapter for it.

There’s no need to bother about batteries running out. Rechargeable toys are the way forward, and they give you so much more power too and last longer.

Gone are the days of a toy abandoned because you don’t have any batteries for it. There’s no reason not to use this regularly when it’s so easy to charge up! Just make sure you don’t lose the charger. A good place to keep it would be in the storage bag it comes with when it’s not in use.

How do you use the Maia Twistty?

To switch the Maia Twistty on you just have to press and hold the power button, and the light comes on.

What’s cool about this magic wand that I haven’t seen in other magic wands is that it has two ends to use. One end looks like a traditional magic wand vibrator, whilst the other end has a textured, insertable end.

It has two separate motors which can be used individually or at the same time should you want to have them both switched on.

To switch it off you just hold down the power button. It’s fairly self explanatory to use when you receive yours.

How loud is it?

The Twistty is quiet, and other reviewers on Lovehoney back me up on this one! It’s not easy to say how loud or quiet a sex toy is without seeing/hearing it in person but when others say it’s quiet too then it must be a nice level of sound for them too.

What are its ten functions?

Both ends of the wand have three constant speeds and they then move onto the patterned vibrations to choose from. To move through the different speeds and patterns, just keep pressing the corresponding button for each end of the wand.

The flashing LED light into the wand flashes according to which pattern you’re on. It’s pretty cool.

Watch the video review of the Twistty in action >>>

What are the pros?

It’s rechargeable – a major plus point!

It’s made of silicone – this is good because it means it has no latex and phthalates that can be irritating to some people. Some people have really bad latex allergies.

The way the ends are textured gives you plenty of great feeling sensations.

It’s fully waterproof and submersible. Great for easy washing and use in the bath or shower should the mood take you.

Having two separate ends means you’ve got more to play with, and it’s two toys in one, therefore really good value for a rechargeable toy, which generally cost more anyway than battery-powered ones.

What are the cons?

I was going to say the price, but for a magic wand vibrator, it’s actually in line with others and they do cost that bit more because of their size and power, rechargeability and quality.

It’s nice that there are two ends to use, but the insertable end of 2.5 inches can’t be inserted that far so some people might not like that… However it is technically a wand and you don’t usually insert wands, but this one gives you more options.

What do other people say?

Currently all of the other reviews for the Maia Twistty are really good, except for one where theirs sadly broke but it was quickly replaced by Lovehoney and the reviewer still had really good things to say about it.

(Aside: This is an example of why Lovehoney is a good place to shop, because they have really good customer service should you have any issues or want to return anything. I really don’t think they all have such good service. I’ve seen online sex toy shops appear then disappear because competition is so intense so I’d advise you buy from somewhere reputable rather than just where is cheapest.)

Have a read of the other reviews as well as mine to get a good feel of what the Twistty is like for others too, especially when you’re investing in something higher quality for yourself.

Get your own

So, we all remember the wonderful never have I ever game from those fun sleepovers and parties as kids.

Then, it got a little more ‘risqué’ when we hit those teen years of ours.

It was the perfect way to show off our naughty side, right?

It’s one of those games that’s cheeky, fun, and shows you in a different light to your friends.

You can reveal those naughty little secrets of yours whilst having an awesome time, which is why the Never Have I Ever Game (from Ann Summers here) really does kick it up a notch!

A naughtier version of the never have I ever game

With this naughtier version of a childhood classic, you can reveal your deep dark secrets to your girlfriends, knowing your answers will be met with laughter and smiles – and probably some mutual faux pas!

This version of the never have I ever game comes with thirty tantalisingly naughty different statements to kick the game into gear, which means you’ll never be left trying to work out what to say next.

So, instead of spending all of your time figuring out how to take the game further, you have all of the statements ready to go!

One statement for example is ‘Never have I ever been on a dirty weekend’ – you’ll slowly begin to see the hands rising! 😀

What we love

The low price

What’s fantastic about this product is the price to start off with.

On the market today, games for parties and nights in can be super expensive and never worth the money if you’re only looking to play once, but this nifty little game comes at a frugal six English pounds!

This makes the whole experience even better, because even if it’s just for a giggle on a night out, you’re not breaking the bank to have a great time. Plus, if it accidentally gets misplaced or left behind somewhere, you won’t feel too heartbroken like you would losing a game with a hefty price tag.

Compact

Another reason why this game is absolutely worth buying is that it is compact and small enough to fit in your handbag before you go out on the town.

It’s in a cylindrical package, so it sits neatly on the table around your drinks without taking up too much space, and can be easily packed and stowed away when you’re back on the move. That saves you the trouble of lugging a giant board game around!

Play with a large or small group

Also, the amount of statements that the game comes with means that you can play with a large group of people, without worrying about leaving anybody out.

Beware spilling on it

Although this game has had rave reviews from previous users, there are a couple of downsides to the product which are useful to bear in mind. The actual game (both packaging and contents) are made of thick cardboard and normal card.

This is obviously fine a majority of the time, but if you are in a more crowded area with a large amount of drinks, spillages would ruin the game before you start!

Of course, it is only a small price to buy the product again, but always remember safety first!

Best for one-time fun

Also, another small downside to the product is that once it has been played once through with a group of people, it is difficult to play again (because you know the truths behind each statement!).

So, unless it’s a game to play with a variety of parties, this version of the never have I ever game may be best for some one-time fun.

However, overall this product is seriously worth the small price tag, it is an ultimate bargain.

It’s shown time and time again to be the perfect addition to spice up any hen party or girl’s night in, by being naughty yet fun all at the same time.

So next time you have a great party to go to, make sure you arrive with this naughty version of the never have I ever game in your handbag at the ready!

In this review we’re talking about a very luxurious and high end rechargeable G-Spot vibrator by one of my favourite manufacturers, Lelo. It’s the Lelo Mona 2.

If you love having your G-spot stimulated, or if you’ve never actually found yours and tried out having it vibrated, this is definitely one to consider.

So let’s take a closer look and see what you get when you invest in one of these babies.

What’s in the box?

Being made by Lelo, they treat their customers well and your Mona is presented on velvet in a beautiful black solid gift box along with a satin bag to discreetly store your toy, complimentary sachet of lube, and mains charger. The box is ideal for storage.

When you first receive and open the Mona you feel like you’ve treated yourself well and you definitely deserve this luxury toy!

Full contents:

Lelo Mona 2

Satin storage bag

Lube sachet

Mains charger

Instructions

Lelo authenticity card (so you know it’s legit)

What does it look like?

The Lelo Mona 2 comes in two colours, red and purple. Purple is by far my favourite of the two.

I love the shiny look of the handle, in contrast to the matt look of the shaft. It’s a very classy looking toy.

Being a G-spot vibrator, as you would expect it has a very curved tip for hitting that all important spot internally.

It’s 8 inches long so lots of lovely length to reach inside you, and a circumference all the way around of 4.5 inches.

How is it controlled?

It has push button controls on the handle, and these are used for turning it on and off, and moving between the six vibration settings.

To switch it on you just press the ‘+’ button, and it immediately starts vibrating on it’s lowest setting. The more you press the ‘+’ button, the higher and stronger the vibrations become.

To slow them back down, press the ‘-‘ button and you will go back to a more gentle speed. Holding the ‘-‘ button switches the toy off completely.

To move between the different functions (vibration patterns), you press the up and down buttons.

Having different speeds combined with different functions gives you lots to experiment with and I love there are so many combinations to try with this G-spot vibrator.

Travel lock

An awesome feature is the travel lock, which means that there’s no danger of your Mona going off in your suitcase at an inappropriate moment. To lock the toy you just have to press and hold down the ‘+’ and ‘-‘ buttons together, and the toy becomes locked. The only way to unlock it is to do the same thing again.

How does it feel?

The Lelo Mona 2 feels rigid, it doesn’t bend so when you insert it into yourself, you know exactly where you’re targeting it at and it doesn’t take long before you feel the rushes of pleasure as it vibrates against your G-spot.

Being made of silicone, it’s lovely and soft to touch. An added benefit is it’s made of friendly materials, with no phthalates or latex which can irritate some people.

One thing to bear in mind with silicone toys is that oil-based lubes will react against them and degrade them, so make sure when you use a lube with this toy it’s a water-based one. It’s pretty easy to work out which lubes are water-based as they usually advertise them as such and make it clear on their packaging they’re “water-based” or “oil-based”.

How is it charged?

I love that the Lelo Mona 2 is rechargeable. Rechargeable toys are soooo good and there’s no need for fiddly annoying batteries that run out. Just plug it into the mains, give it a charge up and away you go.

The amount of toys I’ve had that have been left unused due to being major battery hoggers is criminal! Rechargeable is the way to go, and I wouldn’t expect anything less from Lelo.

The charging point is behind a little silicone tab on the end of the handle. You just have to pull this up then plug the charger into its socket. Remember to close this tab properly after charging, as the Mona is fully waterproof (when closed) and you don’t want to risk getting any water inside, nor for the matter any dust to keep it in top condition.

Charging time takes around 2 hours and it will last for around 4 hours of vibration.

How loud is it?

The Lelo Mona 2 is advertised as whisper quiet, and it really is lovely and quiet, especially on its lowest most gentle setting. To get an idea of it’s volume I recommend you watch the Annabelle Knight video review if you want to know any more about the sound and how it works.

What are the pros?

Amazing G-spot orgasms.

6 Different vibration patterns and speeds.

Gorgeous packaging and luxury silicone feel.

Mains rechargeable.

Travel lock feature so it won’t go off in your suitcase.

Completely water proof and submersible.

What are the cons?

It’s on the expensive side of vibrators for some budgets but worth it if you can stretch to it and an investment in your pleasure!

What are other people saying?

The reviews on the Lovehoney site (of which there are currently 32 of them) are really good. 27 of them are 5 star which is 91%. The reviews are really worth reading and they will tell you even more about the Lelo Mona 2 should you want to find out anything else.

Where to buy?

We all know the soul-crushing feeling of searching through clothes shops for the right kind of underwear, and never knowing what to get.

There are so many to choose from, I can hear you thinking, and the never ending choices you have can sometimes feel pretty intimidating. Not only are there infinite knicker opportunities, it’s tough to discover what pair or what style genuinely suits and fits you.

Your knicker drawer is probably filled to the brim with various cuts and shapes, but you’ll always come back to your favourite and most sexy yet comfortable style for you.

But, if you need the low down on the different undies for you, then you’ve come to the right place!

Here are the seven styles of sexy knicks to consider.

1. The Brief

Briefs are for those of us who like to keep things simple – these are your classic, most basic knickers you’ve probably got in your drawers! They come in perhaps the widest variety of styles and sexiness, ranging from the ‘granny pant’ style right up to having revealing seams and panels.

The best bit about briefs is that they are super-duper comfortable. They are cut in such a way where they hug around the base of your bum and skim above your thighs, so they sit perfectly in the right spot.

No wedgie in sight when you’re wearing comfy briefs! They can either come with seams or can be seamless to avoid a ‘visible panty line’ under your clothes, so you don’t have to wear awkward knickers whenever you want to wear your favourite leggings.

Although you may associate comfy briefs with your designated ‘lady week undies’, they can come in various sexy and revealing styles that will rev up things in the bedroom. Comfort and sexiness, if you don’t mind!

2. The Short

Shorts-knickers are also the queens of comfy, but they can add that extra tom-boy flair to your overall look. They are cut in a similar way to briefs, but instead of arching at the front, they hug your hips and have more of a solid straight line across your thighs.

They can be extremely flattering on a straighter body shape or if you have wider hips, as they’ll accentuate your assets brilliantly. You may associate shorts knickers with being similar to men’s boxers, and you might think that you can’t possibly feel feminine in these kind of undies.

However, you can get gorgeous shorts knickers that come with sexy trims of lace and details, that make you look fantastic and feel comfortable all at the same time.

3. The Brazilian

So, this is where we whack up the heat ever so slightly, with the Brazilian style knickers!

These knickers are sexy and stylish, but are also ready to offer you some comfort too. They are cut in such a way where they resemble briefs from the front (if a little higher up the leg), but at the back they curve upwards around your bum, to make your rear look even more round and shapely.

They’re a little bit like a mixture between a thong, shorts and briefs, they aren’t completely revealing but are that little bit more spicy than normal undies. They are great for when you want that extra sexiness, but still want to be comfortable everyday – meaning they’re excellent for a bit of spontaneity!

4. The Thong

Just like briefs, thongs are an old classic that we all know. These are the knickers with minimal material in the back – which are the go-to undies for under clothing discretion. They tend to have brief-like fronts, with a thick waistband and a thicker string to sit over your intimate area, which will give you the most beautiful shape and curves.

However, lots of us women are in a love/hate relationship with thongs, as some find them perfectly convenient and comfy, whilst others flinch at the thought of trying one on! Of course, you can trial-and-error with a variety of materials and shapes, but if you don’t feel flirty and confident wearing one you’re best off with the Brazilian!

5. The G-String

So now, we’re onto the big stuff! If you’re looking to go one step further in discretion and sexiness than the thong, look no further than the G-String – which says what it does on the tin. It’s the most minimal underwear, with the least material on show and in general, so it’s brilliant if you’re wearing a skin-tight outfit that you don’t want to show too much knicker.

Although they may not be the most comfortable at first, they can feel quite awkward, but with perseverance and getting used to wearing one, you’ll see they are the answer to all your knicker-based prayers.

6. The Suspender-Briefs

If you want to keep it classy and comfy in the bedroom, you really can’t go wrong with a pair of suspender briefs to kickstart the heat. These knickers are super-traditional and great for mixing with a vintage look, as they have the classic clasps for a pair of sexy stockings to attach.

You can mix and match with a variety of styles and colours, or add a bit of satin for that extra elegance, so it’s great if you want to stay feminine and flirty. What’s brilliant about suspender briefs are that they help you achieve the ultimate level of sexiness, whilst staying comfortable all day too. Who could ask for a better combination?

7. Crotchless

Just like the G-String, these knickers are not for the faint hearted, or if you’re looking for al round comfort either. Lots of users tend to keep these undies aside, and only use them in the bedroom, which you may find convenient too!

These knickers are fairly self explanatory, they are cut in a variety of shapes from briefs to Brazilian, but are cut open around the crotch and more intimate areas!

So, if you’re looking for something that’ll not only spice things up in the bedroom but may be great for more spontaneous action, crotchless knickers are most definitely the way forward.

In Summary

So, there we have it! Now you have an in depth low down on all those different kinds of knickers that keep appearing in your growing collection. Maybe you feel slightly more enlightened, or maybe you feel inspired to go and purchase a new and completely different pair just to see what they may be like. Go for it, and enjoy exploring all that the world of knickers has to offer!

At number five we kick it off with the ‘Dreamgirl Beyoncé Faux Leather and Lace Corset’, to really get things going.

Although its name may be a bit of a mouthful, this corset is bound to be a great success in the bedroom!

Inspired by Beyoncé’s Superbowl ’13 outfit, this corset has a perfect combination of leather and lace to give you that ‘sugar and spice, naughty and nice’ kind of vibe.

Nothing will make you feel more feminine and fiery all at the same time!

The features

This sexy corset has a variety of features built into it, to guarantee a successful and passionate bedroom experience. It reveals and covers all at the same time, to enhance your best bits and show off your curves.

It has leather front and back panels to emphasise your waist, but is tempered down with a lace skirt and trim around the edges.

This lace skirt hides your bum, but also slightly reveals it (from a cut up the back) to add an air of mystery and intrigue for your partner.

The lace is also to tie up the front of the corset, to show off your cleavage, as well as beautiful lace straps to add that extra bit of femininity.

The eight plastic bones in the corset itself will make your body look rock solid and fiesty but also show off your soft skin around it.

It also comes with a faux leather thong, to make you feel that little bit naughtier.

What we love

The best thing about the Beyonce corset has to be the beautiful contrast between the leather and the lace.

It adds a ‘devil and angel’ kind of feeling towards your fun with your partner.

Although it may just seem like a design feature now, when you are wearing it you will feel the full effect of the powerful leather and the cute lace.

It will make you feel dominant and desirable, but at the same time ready to be dominated by your partner.

And after all, nothing’s sexier than a bit of leather! Also, the fit is great and is extremely comfortable.

Other corsets on the market may make you feel squashed and squeezed, whereas this corset will keep you going all night.

Any cons?

The main downside to this corset is down to practicality, and the fact that the sizing is very difficult to get right.

If you’re not built on perfect averages, maybe your hips may be wider or your bust slightly bigger, this corset is quite hard to find the perfect fit.

As it’s designed to enhance your waist, your bust and your hips, the sizing has to be absolutely right for you to feel brilliant.

So, make sure you measure yourself everywhere and find what’s best, and make sure you keep hold of the receipt!

What are other people saying?

Of course, this corset has had rave reviews from other buyers all over the world. It’s fun, it’s fiesty and it’s super sexy, and you really can’t go wrong!

Lots of other users have said that it’s extremely flattering on a plus size shape, so it will enhance your beautiful curves even for the larger lady.

This is brilliant, as not only is it more accessible for all users, but it’s a brilliant confidence boost to make you feel super sexy!

At number four, we have LoveHoney’s Music Legs Satin and Lace Corset with Matching G-String. Again, another mouthful indeed!

This corset is absolutely beautiful, and bound to make you feel flirty and feminine. Its contrast of white and black flowers will give you an elegant and graceful figure, as well as giving you that all-important sexiness.

The features

The music legs corset is not only plastic-boned, but also constructed with sexy satin material, to make you feel smooth and lovely to touch.

It’s quite traditional and vintage looking in appearance, with the simple lacing up the back to fit it in place.

The front busk of the corset is metal plated to enhance and push up your bust, which is great if you want to show off your cleavage!

To add to its feminine style, it’s finished off with some gorgeous black satin bows, to make you feel girly and flirty. It also has four removable suspender straps, so you can pair it with whatever your favourite stockings may be.

What we love

What is brilliant about this corset is that it’s guaranteed to make you feel uber feminine and confident, regardless of your figure or structure.

It has a super sexy shape built in with the plastic bones, to give you a beautiful hourglass waist that makes you feel as sexy as Marilyn Monroe.

For the brilliant quality, this corset is quite low price in comparison to others on the market, so it’s most definitely a bargain!

Any cons?

One downside that has been highlighted by a lot of users of this corset is that the G-string it comes with isn’t really anything special.

The thong is poor quality, uncomfortable and made of cheaper material, meaning it doesn’t fit too well on anybody!

The shape of the thong means it’s quite irritable and awkward to wear, so make sure you have another pair of your favourite undies to go alongside it.

What are other people saying?

Other people who’ve taken this corset for a spin are singing its praises to the rooftops.

It’s absolutely brilliant through the eyes of experience, which is promising if you’re looking to buy it now!

Apart from the uncomfortable G-string, the corset itself has offered all users a beautiful figure, barrels of sexiness and heaps of confidence. It’s bound to do the same for you!

At number three, we’re keeping it classy with Ann Summers’ Marie Corset. At a slightly higher price tag, this lacy number is bound to keep things fiery in the bedroom.

It’s elegant, it’s flattering and it’s worth the extra pounds!

The features

The Marie corset is absolutely gorgeous, with a variety of little features that make it a step above other corsets on the market. If you want to feel flirty and downright feminine, this corset is absolutely ideal.

The material is a tasteful variety of spotted mesh, black satin and guipure lace to make you look fabulous.

It has detachable satin straps, in case you want to be more daring and go strapless now and then.

It also comes with boning detail around the front of the corset, that not only maintains the corset’s shape but also offers you a gorgeous hourglass figure.

This corset aims to accentuate your curves and best bits, so the solid boning within it is fantastic. It also has removable suspenders, in case you want to be naughty one night and nice the next!

What we love

What’s absolutely brilliant about this corset is that it’s extremely elegant and retro, to give you that extra edge in the bedroom.

It’s that beautiful that you can only feel brilliant and sexy when wearing it, without feeling too ‘on show’ and uncomfortable.

This is a brilliant confidence boost if you’re slightly shy about your body, as this corset will make you feel gorgeous.

If you’re a first timer with any sexy lingerie, the Marie Corset is fantastic, as it’s not too naughty and complicated, and won’t make you feel awkward wearing it.

It’s also extremely flattering if you are plus sized too, as the bust of the corset is designed to enhance your larger chest with its sweetheart neckline and extra embellishment.

Any cons?

The one minor downside of this corset is that it’s pretty fiddly to get on and off!

It’s gorgeous features of lace and all the trimmings will make you feel super sexy, but things could get a bit awkward when you’re partner needs a manual to help pull it off you.

This corset unfortunately isn’t the type to rip off in a moment of passion, so try to make this process a little easier by taking it as slow and sensuously as possible!

What are other people saying?

Of course, this corset is very successful amongst previous buyers. With its gorgeous design and detail, and its elegant style, other users of all shapes and sizes have said that it’s extremely flattering.

It enhances your curves and figure, and other users have said that the boning in the material can make you look two sizes smaller, with your bust two sizes bigger! In every sense, you really can’t go wrong!

In second place, we have Ann Summers’ cute little Willa Corset to really get your blood pumping! This corset again has that ‘naughty but nice’ feel to it, revealing your best bits but leaving a sense of mystery. Let’s find out more!

The features

This gorgeous little number comes in two different colours, both colours being sexy and daring to give you that extra edge – these are black and plum!

The black is brilliant if you feel worried about your shape, as it will make you appear slimmer and more curvaceous.

The plum colour is fabulous for those romantic nights in, paired with low lighting and scented candles! The corset itself is all over lace, and also has detachable straps for you to decide which one you feel more comfortable in.

It comes with hook-and-eye fastenings, so it’s easy to remove when the passion rises!

Around the waistline, it has a black satin sash, to cinch you inwards and create (or enhance) an hourglass figure.

The lace trim naughtily skims around your lower hips and around your thighs, to make you seem even more inviting to your partner.

The corset itself ends here, with no built-in bottoms, so make sure you have a lovely pair of knickers on hand!

What we love

What’s great about this corset is that it’s daring and naughty, but also sexy and feminine.

You can get the best of both worlds, depending on what you want the mood in the bedroom to be. Also, the bust that’s shaped onto the corset is bound to make your chest look fantastic, regardless of your size.

It has plunging cups and a neckline similar to the sweetheart style, so it is designed to really enhance your cleavage and push you up sky high!

Any cons?

Unfortunately, this corset does come with a couple of downsides. The first being that it only ends at the waist!

If you’re looking for a corset that has the appearance of a one piece, this wouldn’t be the one for you.

Also, if you want a corset that covers your buttock area, you might want to look elsewhere.

It ends sharply at the bottom of the hips, openly revealing your behind and intimate areas – which might be brilliant for pros, but if you’re just starting out in the world of lingerie this may make you feel rather uncomfortable.

On the website, look closely at what comes with the corset itself, as you may feel disappointed when it arrives with no included G-string. Make sure you provide your own, or buy a gorgeous one to go with it!

What are other people saying?

This corset has had mixed reviews, but they tend to be mostly positive. Due to the revealing nature of the outfit itself, some users have said it makes them feel awkward whereas others love the naughty excitement that comes with it!

One user has said however, that this corset is extremely difficult to sit down in, from where it ends at the hips.

It can feel awkward and irritable when it’s digging into your thighs, so ensure you keep the receipt if you don’t feel fabulous and sexy!

Other than that, this corset has had brilliant reviews and a thumbs up all round. Take the plunge and give it a go!

Last but not least (but my personal favourite!), we have Lovehoney’s very own Baci Lingerie Pink Satin and Lace Boned Corset to feast your eyes upon!

Again, it’s quite a mouthful, but this beautiful little number is bound to make you feel absolutely drop dead gorgeous. If you’re wanting to look feminine and sugar-sweet, this corset is definitely the one for you.

The features

The main part of this corset that’s bound to dazzle you is the pink satin base with a black lace overlay.

The lace is beautifully shaped into lovely roses to really give you that feminine feel.

It also has twelve steel bones to give the corset structure, and giving you that lusted-after hourglass figure.

It will cinch in your waist and create stunning curves, regardless of your shape or size. To make your waist look even smaller, it also has a satin belt to really pull you in and enhance all of your ins and outs.

What’s lovely about this corset in particular is that it has a real Victorian feel to it, with a sweetheart neckline to accentuate your bust, and removable metal clasps to give you the option of sexy stockings.

What we love

The best part about this corset is that the steel bones are more effective than plastic bones that are also in corsets on the market.

They are sturdier (obviously), and are less likely to lose their shape over time, because they are more moulded to offering a constant hourglass shape.

This also helps with the ease of sitting down, in lots of other corsets taking a seat can cause some digging down into your thighs, but with the steel bones in this corset you’re well away to sit back and relax!

Any cons?

However, there is one minor downside to this corset, and that is that the suspender straps that come with it are far too long, depending on your height!

If you’re shorter, these lengthy straps may cause your stockings to be baggy or you may not be able to wear them at all, which might not be your best option.

What are other people are saying?

Other people that have bought this product are singing its praises! It’s comfy, flexible and easy to take on and off, which is the ideal corset for any fun in or out of the bedroom.

Why not give it a try today, to really send your partner into a tailspin!

Which corset is your fave?

And there we have it, what a wide variety of gorgeous corsets! There are so many different corsets on the market, all with different qualities and fun little details, so you have plenty of choice when deciding which one is best for you.

It can be awkward at first, but there is nothing wrong with embracing your own beauty and showing off them curves!

Have a good look at the different corsets that we talked about, and don’t worry if it takes a bit of trial and error to get right.

Never settle for something you don’t feel fabulous in, so keep looking until you find the right fit! When you do, the feeling is like no other, and time in the bedroom will never be the same again…

A sexy nurse outfit is an essential for any dressing up wardrobe. They make you feel really sexy, they’re a massive turn on for your partner and there’s loads of styles and choice to choose from that are really affordable too. Lets have a look at our current favourites to help you choose the right one for you.

Buying a Sexy Nurse Outfit

Fire up the heat in the bedroom with this sexy nurse outfit available on the Ann Summers website! For a bargain of twenty pounds, you can play out all of your and your partner’s wildest medical fantasies, and have a great time in the process. If your love life needs spicing up a little or you want to maintain that passion in a new relationship, this nurse costume has your back.

What are the features?

This sexy nurse outfit comes with a nurse’s headband, which is brilliant for keeping the image alive.

Unlike other dresses on the market, the stockings that work well with this outfit come separately, so bear that in mind if you want the full look!

The dress itself is tight, short and designed to show off all of your beautiful curves.

Its tight elastane material make it appear stretchy and sleek over your skin.

It has two medical red crosses that are conveniently placed over your nipple area, giving you that added flair and sexiness.

What I love

This outfit is brilliant for any of you first-timers in the role play world, or if you simply want to find another costume for your wide collection.

It’s short and revealing but at the same time can cover you up in all the right places, so you don’t feel too on show when you prepare for action.

The actual design of the dress is fantastic, as not only does it have a full length red zip to make the taking off easy, it has a gorgeous red band beneath the bust.

This will enhance your breasts and make them appear larger, which is great for giving you that extra confidence boost.

Any cons?

The main downside to this costume as a whole is that you don’t get the full costume altogether.

This is probably quite annoying for some users, as the image on the webpage suggests it looks great with stockings, although you have to buy them separately. Of course this is something to bear in mind when buying it, and always hold onto the receipt just in case!

Another downside to this dress is that the sizing can be a little awkward. If you are a size eight, a size eight-to-ten costume will be slightly baggy. So, make sure you try on before you use!

What are other people saying?

Other users are a mixed back of like and dislike, when it comes to this costume. Some find this dress amazing, a perfect fit and is super successful in the bedroom! Other users are disappointed that the outfit is an awkward fit, and that the zipper tends to unzip itself without any warning (not the best for the bedroom!).

But, reviews tend to be positive, and that the outfit is the perfect companion for any passion with your partner.

The verdict?

Overall, this costume is worth it if you’re looking to spice up your love life! Its revealing yet comfortable material and fit will give you the confidence you need to go all the way, with your partner begging for more!

Do you want to get your partner’s blood racing, and fire up the heat in the bedroom? Do you want to look hot, sexy and confident in a moment of passion?

Look no further than Lovehoney’s Classified Fetish to really make it last, as this is the little black dress you’ll look after forever! This costume stands out from all the other sexy nurse outfits around, as it’s contrast of daring black and red will take your partner’s fantasy to the next level.

It’s one of my absolute faves. Love a black sexy nurse outfit!

What are the features?

Of course, what makes this sexy nurse outfit stand out is that it’s black instead of your classic white costumes.

This not only will make you look hot to trot, but also give you that air of rebellion in the bedroom, making you feel naughty and confident all at the same time.

The dress itself is fitted to show off your curves, and has a full length zip to make the taking off stage even easier.

The short shirt and revealing neckline makes it even more tantalising for you and your partner, as it reveals your best bits little by little before the main event.

It also comes with a matching nurse’s hat, to really keep that fantasy going, even if the dress has already hit the floor.

What I love

What’s great about the dress being black is that black is a flattering colour on everybody. Regardless of your shape and size, the dark and shiny shade of the dress will enhance your curves, make your waist appear smaller and even give you the illusion of more cleavage.

Black is a girl’s best friend after all!

Also, this dress comes in a large variety of sizes, so that you can find one that you feel comfortable in. It beats those costumes on the market that are one size fits all!

Any cons?

This sexy nurse outfit has hardly any downsides to speak of, which is very promising for any prospective buyers. One girl has reported that the zip on her dress was repeatedly getting stuck, so just make sure you keep the receipt in case this does happen.

What are other people saying?

Other purchasers of this sexy nurse outfit are raving about how great it is, it really is brilliant value for money.

Many have noted that the black colour of the dress is not only flattering, but unique to any other costumes on the market, which makes it even more of a bargain.

One girl said the dress is brilliant even for the larger lady, which is not noted in the images on the website. This is useful to know if you’re looking for a dress that not only will make you feel beautiful, but will also boost your confidence ten fold!

You can view some real life women wearing this outfit on it’s product page where customers sent in photos of themselves in the outfit to win £100.

The verdict

Overall, there’s nothing stopping you buying this dress – it is unbeatable and brilliant for when you want to get it on, definitely one of my faves.

It’s sexy, sleek and compliments your body shape amazingly, so why not have a go, and be at your partner’s bedside in a matter of a heartbeat?

If you’re in a new relationship and want to keep that fire going, or if you’re rekindling that passion many years down the line, look no further than Bondara’s saucy nurse outfit.

It’s fun, comfortable and ready for action whenever you need it the most. It cuddles you in all the right places and aims to show off your ‘best bits’, so let’s get down to it!

What are the features?

What’s recognised in the title is that this costume comes in five different pieces to complete the finished look. It comes with a white laced basque, a white g-string, matching stockings, a nurse’s headband and stethoscope. All the perfect components to the best nurse’s outfit around! It’s ideal for those special nights in with your other half, to play out all the nurse-related fantasies you can think of.

What I love

The pros of this costume has to be that it looks unbelievably sexy.

By having a separate basque and g-string, it is so much easier and more convenient to get into than having a tricky one piece.

It makes the ‘taking off’ stage an elegant breeze.

It also has a lovely lace detail on the top half, to make you feel sexy and feminine from the inside out.

The shape of the costume is brilliant for any body shape, as it cinches in slightly at the waist giving you jaw-dropping curves.

What completes the look is the brilliant nurse-related props, such as the stethoscope and head dress. You can go wild with your imagination with these things, bringing your fantasies to life!

Any cons?

The downside to this costume however has to be that the material is notably very flimsy. This is kind of expected because of it’s fine lace and thin strings here and there, so it may not withstand years of rigorous use.

Of course it’s great to break out once in a while, but one passionate pull could leave this outfit with rips and snaps. If you’re looking for something you can chuck to the back of your drawer, this may not be for you, as this outfit requires some gentle TLC to avoid breakages.

What are other people saying?

Other people are singing its praises entirely. What’s most important about this outfit is that it is very, very comfy.

The verdict

Some sexy outfits can be so uncomfortable you just want to get them off before the fun begins, but this nurse’s outfit can see you right through to the very end without irritating you through and through! So, you can get busy with this costume and have your mind at ease, as the Bondara five-piece is looking out for having barrels of bedroom fun.

If you’re looking to spice things up in the bedroom area, or simply want to carry out one of your secret fantasies, you’ve come to the right place. The Fever Sexy Nurse Outfit, available at LoveHoney, is a fiesty, flattering and gorgeous little outfit to get yours and your partner’s heart pounding!

What are the features?

The Fever sexy nurse outfit is extremely short (to show off your best bits!), and comes with a full length zip at the front to make the putting-on and getting-off a lot easier than all of those fiddly straps and clasps you can get on other costumes.

Its short skirt is brilliantly paired with white thigh-high stockings, to accentuate your beautiful long legs! For the full nurse look, it also comes with a nurse’s hat to really keep the fantasy alive and thriving.

What I love

This nurse’s costume is a little more modest than some other racier outfits on the market – it’s a simple shirt dress that doesn’t come with the revealing straps and lace that can seem daunting to some of us!

This means it’s absolutely brilliant for beginners to role-play, or if you’re not too comfortable wearing the racier stuff.

If you’re nervous at first about using this kind of outfit, the Fever Sexy Nurse Outfit has got your back, covering you up but showing you off in all the right places.

It comes in a variety of sizes, so you can feel hot and confident no matter what shape you may be. It’s also made out of really strong, durable spandex, so it won’t rip and fall apart after only a couple of uses.

Any cons?

However, there is a downside to this gorgeous little outfit. That is due to practicality issues with the head dress!

Although it can sit neatly on the top of your head when standing or sitting still, it’s liable to falling off or moving whenever you make any moves yourself. This can obviously get pretty annoying when you want to let go and have fun, so bear that in mind when you try it on, and always keep the receipt or be prepared for it to fall off which may not be such a big deal anyway!

What are other people saying?

It’s safe to say that this sexy outfit has received rave reviews from hundreds of users!

Others have all agreed that it’s comfortable, durable and ready for action whenever you need it. It’s always there to spice up your bedroom action in the best way possible!

Also, users’ partners have said that the costume is exactly what they were looking for, and meets their fantasies and desires perfectly.

The verdict

To sum up, this dress is the perfect addition to any bedroom adventure. It will hug your gorgeous figure in all the right places and accentuate your curves, giving you the best confidence around. After using it once, you’ll never look back, it will most definitely become an essential sexy item!

When you’ve been in a relationship for a long time, things can get a bit repetitive in the bedroom. You and your partner may simply have a routine that you follow every time, making it even more boring as you go along. So why not take the chance of spicing it up a little with the Sweet Streak Vinyl nurse costume?

Take your partner’s fantasies up a whole other level, and really get his/her blood pumping.

What are the features?

This nurse costume has the appearance of a shirt dress, with a red zipper that goes all the way down the front (for easy removal!).

The material itself is in a ‘wet look’ style, which not only adds to the sexiness of the outfit, but also shows your curves and hips in a new and inviting way.

It has red piping around the garment to add to that ‘nurse’ appeal, as well as a red cross to show off your more caring side.

The dress itself is extremely flattering for any size and shape, as it’s slightly tailored inwards to emphasise your waist, and kicks out slightly in the skirt to help your partner get a cheeky glance now and then.

The nurse’s cap it comes with is brilliant for keeping the fantasy alive too!

What I love

What’s great about this sexy nurse outfit is that the wet look material makes you seem even more daring and sexy, even if you’re feeling a bit nervous first time around.

Oh, and because it’s super short, those long legs of yours will look even longer!

Any cons?

Although this sexy nurse outfit really has very few things wrong with it, one issue has been emphasised by users through experience. That is that the PVC material the dress is made out of is very cold on the skin!

Because it’s pretty much a wet look plastic fabric, the coating on it may be slightly chilly to the touch, unlike other cotton or polyester costumes on the market. This is a very minor downside, but may be a bit uncomfortable for some users who perhaps get a bit chilly before heating up the passion!

What are other people saying?

This dress has had rave reviews from all users, because of its durability, comfort and all round sexy-factor.

The partners of these users have also said that it made them feel hot under the collar, and allowed them to play out the fantasy they’ve always dreamed of.

One girl even said it’s great that the material is wipe clean, in case you have any food-based or sticky items in the bedroom alongside you. You don’t want it getting messy, after all!

The verdict

To sum up, this sexy nurse outfit will make you feel uber sexy and unstoppable. It’ll get your heart pounding, boost your confidence ten fold, and give you the power that your partner’s always dreamt of.

In this review I’m talking about the Lovehoney Beaded Glass Dildo. This is a gorgeous looking glass dildo is one I’ve been meaning to write about for a while now.

Further down the review you can also watch a video review and see the dildo as it looks in real life.

What’s in the box?

You receive the Lovehoney glass dildo in a nicely designed and classy box. It’s pink and white with a picture of the beaded glass dildo on the front.

Don’t worry though, when you order the package will be completely plain and there’s no way of telling what’s inside.

The toy also comes with a lovely storage bag too to keep it safe and well hidden.

What does it look like?

The glass dildo is clear, and it has rows of bulbs and a gentle curve to it. Apparently the dildo is hand blown glass so this gives it excellent detail. There’s a tiny Lovehoney logo etched into the top of the dildo.

How big is it?

There’s 7.2 inches of insertable length so it’s a really good size and is a pretty big dildo. Around the widest point it has 5.6 inches of girth.

What are the features

The rows of bulbs feel incredible used internally, as well as massaged on the skin too. I recommend you watch the video review on the Lovehoney website to get a lot more detail about this toy.

Being made of glass means you can do so much more with it than just a plastic dildo.

What can you do with this glass dildo?

You can use this beaded glass dildo both internally and externally as a massager. It feels lovely and firm and smooth. It’s ideal for use on you and/or your partner.

Because it’s made of glass you can use it for temperature play and put it in some cold water or warm water and change it’s temperature depending on what mood you’re in!

You can also use any type of lubricant with it, without fear of it damaging the toy. Glass can handle any kind of substance!

What are the pros?

The bulbs feel amazing internally and you feel every bump as it goes in and out of you.

Being made of glass you can use any lubricant.

You can use it for temperature play.

It’s super easy to keep clean.

You can also use it for massage.

What are the cons?

I always try to balance out my reviews with some cons as well as the pros because nothing is ever usually perfect. But with this glass dildo, I’m really not sure what con I can say. I had a look through all the other reviews on Lovehoney and it’s not just me. People don’t have anything bad to say about it!

What are other people saying?

I love reading the other reviews for this glass dildo, people are loving it. It’s described as beautiful and “beaded ecstasy”. Overall it’s received so far 50 reviews with a 9 out of 10 rating.

What’s the difference between a magic wand massager and a magic wand vibrator?

There is no difference at all, they’re both entirely the same thing. Both vibrate, and can be used for massaging.

Traditionally these were, and still are, all over body massagers. More recently, they’ve been used and marketed as a sex toy as well because they are amazing for using on your genital areas as well for both men and women and giving you stong, deep orgasms.

Here are my top 6 magic wand massagers in the UK.

The Lovehoney Delux Magic Wand Massager has been around now for several years and it’s been gradually getting improved. Lovehoney describe it as “stronger, quieter and more powerful than ever before”.

This is one of my all time favourite magic wand massagers. Let’s take a closer look at why…

The Lovehoney Deluxe has a long list of key features. The first being that it’s essentially a UK version of the Hitachi Magic Wand Massager. You can read more about this and why it’s not available in the UK in my post Hitachi Magic Wand Alternative.

It has loads of different speeds to try out and is easily powerful to be used as an all over body massager, not just for those intimate areas. Let it work out any knots and muscle tension as you relax and let your wand massager do all the work.

The Deluxe is controlled with a scroll wheels that moves you through the different speeds and vibrations.

It’s mains-operated and thank goodness because I don’t think batteries would last very long with this magic wand massager! The UK plug has a lead length of 1.8 metres so it’s nice and long and will be able to reach from your socket to your bed.

This wand massager feels firm but is also nice and soft. You could leave a dent in the head with your nail if you wanted to, so it’s quite squashy.

The head is also nice and flexible and it moves around in whatever direction you want it to.

Pros of the Deluxe

There are currently a huge 719 reviews on the Lovehoney website with really indepth reviews on this magic wand massager. The average of those 719 reviews is 4.5 stars out of 5.

That’s a really high score, and I definitely recommend you have a read of some of those to find out more about what other people are saying before you buy this for your own piece of mind that you are buying a brilliant magic wand!

There are also some really good video reviews you can watch too.

I love the quirky review by Vanessa Pelz-Sharpe. She certainly loves her wand!

Watch Vanessa’s review of the Deluxe.

And like most Lovehoney sex toys, there’s a video review by Annabelle Knight.

Watch Annabelle Knight review the Deluxe.

This wand has so many uses; you can use it all over your body on tired aching muscles, followed by finishing off on your genital area and giving yourself a powerful whole body orgasm.

I love that it’s mains-powered and has a nice long lead.

You can buy all sorts of attachments for it and turn into the ultimate sex toy. Attachments include the G-spot Pleaser, Rabbit Tip and Hummer Male Masturbator.

Cons of the Deluxe

The only really con for me is that it’s not the quietest of sex toys on the highest setting. Some reviewers have said it’s loud. But with all that power, and it’s a big mains-powered toy, it’s going to have some volume to it.

As you will see if you wash Vanessa’s video, she shows you how loud it gets and it’s when it’s on a high setting that the pitch gets quite high. Watch it and make your own mind up.

Personally I wouldn’t let that put you off because the benefits and what you get out of using a magic wand massager vastly outweigh this.

Overall this is a good quality magic wand massager, and a very popular one for a good price. Being a Lovehoney product, you can only buy it from Lovehoney.

The Doxy is 30% more powerful than the famous Hitachi wand, and like the Lovehoney wand has lots of different speeds and patterns to play with. This is a very powerful magic wand massager indeed and you can watch it in action in Annabelle Knight’s video review.

It’s mains-powered, as you would expect with such power, and has a cast aluminium head with a soft cushioned hypoallergenic medical grade cover meaning it is fairly heavy but clearly very well built and solid, and the head is lovely to touch.

Remember to use water-based lube on the head as oil-based lubes can end up degrading your toys and you don’t want that happening, especially with a more expensive toy. It isn’t waterproof so wash it carefully with a damp cloth (unplugged) or some special sex toy cleaning wipes.

The cable for the Doxy is 3 metres long which is fantastic. I really like that about this wand massager. No need for an extension cable here.

It has a separate on/off button, as well as two other buttons to control the speeds and vibrations. It is self explanatory to use.

The Doxy wand massager comes in four different colours to suit all tastes. There’s black, pink, purple and white. I think my favourite is the purple. It looks nice and girly but also still very classy.

Pros of the Doxy

Unlike other wands, the Doxy has a secret escalating mode, where it starts off slow and gradually builds up to a much higher intensity. This is activated by holding down the plus button on the wand.

The Doxy has loads of power, and is a well built toy, designed and manufactured entirely in the UK. The long 3 metre lead is also a big pro.

Like other magic wand massagers, I love how you can use this all over your body to really relieve any muscle tensions, (especially all over your back, neck and shoulders), and you can also cover the head with slippery water-based lube and give yourself a delicious orgasm after getting rid of all that tension.

Cons of the Doxy

The two main cons for me were that this is a loud magic wand massager, but again, it’s powerful. And with immense power comes sound from the vibrations.

Saying that, other reviewers haven’t been put off at all by the sound, and the Doxy has so far received 53 all positive reviews on Lovehoney, a single 5 star review on Anne Summers, and all 5 star reviews on Bondara.

Watch Annabelle Knight review the Doxy.

Clearly despite it’s sound, it’s still a popular magic wand massager with a lot of people.

Secondly it has a higher price than some other wand massagers. The Doxy is 30% more powerful though, so you will have decide if the extra power is worth the extra money to you. To some, it will totally be worth spending that extra.

I wanted to include a lower priced option in this top 6 magic wand massagers in the UK to give you a wide range of quality wands to consider for all budgets.

The Tracey Cox Supersex Wand Vibrator is a beautiful and sleek, high quality wand, yet it’s at the much lower end of the pricing scale of wands. This is largely due it being around half the size of other magic wand massagers.

It’s made of lovely soft silicone and has a nice flexible, bendy head for using it anywhere on the body you want it to. You switch it on, off and move through it’s 10 different functions using its single push button.

It’s really important to use water-based lube with this wand being entirely silicone, as oil-based lubes would eventually degrade the coating. Oil and silicone don’t go together well.

This wand is powered by two AA batteries. This is quite unusual for a magic wand massager as many are main-powered. So this is something to be aware of again. This is another reason why this wand is lower in price than other wands, it’s battery powered and battery powered toys are always quite a bit cheaper.

Despite being battery-powered it is still a very powerful wand massager, as you will see if you watch the video review. To insert the batteries you just unscrew the base and pop them in.

When you come to wash the Tracey Cox Supersex Wand Vibrator, bear in mind that it’s not water-proof, it’s splash-proof. What this means it, you can’t submerge it or it will get damaged. But it can get wet whilst you wash it with a cloth and some mild soap, without holding it underwater, or use some sex toy cleaning wipes.

Pros of the Supersex

The Tracey Cox Supersex Wand is by far another very popular wand that’s got 51 all excellent reviews. Have a read of them and see what you think, and you can also watch Annabelle Knight doing her thing in her video review.

Despite being a smaller wand, and battery-powered it has loads of power. It’s great for working out shoulder knots, and clitoral stimulation.

The 10 patterns are especially good and it’s fun to experiment with them and see which you like best.

It’s a low price compared to other wands and is nice and light to hold.

Cons of the Supersex

This wand is a lot smaller than other magic wand massagers at 7 inches long, so that is something to be aware of and isn’t as easy to reach some parts of your body as with a bigger wand, but it is also a lot lighter which makes up for this.

Other wands tend to be around 15 inches long. However a smaller wand is better for travel so if you intend to be taking your wand away with you, this is something to consider.

It’s battery-powered, meaning you will need to stock up on AA batteries. And it also doesn’t come with batteries so many sure you order some at the same time, or check you’ve already got some in the house ready for when it arrives.

As far as I’m aware you can only buy Tracey Cox sex toys at Lovehoney, which is fine but I whenever possible I do like to give as many options as possible.

I couldn’t have a top 6 UK magic wand massagers without including the Bodywand. You don’t have to be a rocket scientist to work out that the Bodywand, is a wand massager for your whole body, as well as a good powerful sex toy. It’s a classic magic wand massager and has been around for a long time already.

What I find pretty incredible about the Bodywand, is that on the Lovehoney website alone, where I first discovered this wand massager, it has received ALL 5 star reviews and there’s 118 of them. This is really rare. Usually there’s someone who is disgruntled about something.

There is a good mix of reviews from both men and women, demonstrating the versatility of the magic wand.

At one point this was exclusive to Lovehoney but it looks like you can now also buy this at Bondara too which I’ll include below.

The head on the Bodywand is nice and soft and flexible but firm. It’s made of rubber and so good for working out knots and aches and pains.

It’s powered by a scroll wheel which you use to switch it on, off and scroll through the different speed settings. Depending on what you’re using it for will determine the speed you want. It’s easy to scroll the wheel up and down slightly whilst you’re using the wand if you decide you want a higher or lower vibration intensity.

It’s clearly a well built magic wand and is one of the most powerful wands you can buy.

Pros of the Bodywand

Seriously, you only have to read the 118 reviews I mentioned to see how good this wand massager is.

It’s main-powered with a 1.8 metre cable and packed full of power. With mains-powered toys you’re never going to run out of charge or have to keep buying batteries.

It’s so good for deep tissue stimulation to work out any tightness and knots in your body anywhere. The handle is nice and long so you can reach all over nice and easily.

There are loads of attachments you can add like the G-spot or the rabbit attachments so this wand you could say has it all.

Cons of the Bodywand

The only cons for me are that at higher speeds it gets louder and louder. I’m going to end up saying this con for every wand though because they are big powerful toys, and that’s just how it is. I mean when you’re on the mega bone rattling high vibration settings, which not everyone will use.

Secondly, Bodywands and magic wands in general are a little more expensive than your average sex toy. But they can also do a lot more for your entire body and they’re also a good pamper product, not just for orgasming with.

Essential for people who work on computers a lot and get knotty shoulders!

One reviewer said a con was that all her other sex toys have become redundant since she bought it. Oops!

My regular readers will know that I love Lelo toys. They’re incredibly high end and luxury toys, but with that also comes a high price tag so they’re not for everyone. Being one of my favourite brands though, I had to include the Lelo Smart Wand in my top 6 UK magic wand massagers.

What’s so special about the Lelo Smart Wand you ask?

The Smart Wand really is smart and has a feature called the sense touch mode. What this does it, it knows when it’s touching skin, and the harder you press it to your skin, the more powerful the vibration; and the more lightly you touch it to your skin, the more gentle the vibrations.

This is very intelligent and something that other magic wand massagers just don’t have.

The Smart Wand comes in two sizes, medium and large so the size you go for comes down to personal preference. Personally, I’d recommend you go for the large, because you get more of it, and I’m one of those people who would regret going for a smaller option when there is a bigger one I could have got.

When you’re already spending the money for a medium, a little more for the large doesn’t make that big a difference in the scheme of things. But that’s just my opinion and there are many people who are very happy with the medium sized Smart Wand.

As well as the two different sizes, each of these also comes in black, purple and white. My favourite, is the large in purple.

The Smart Wand is made from medical grade silicone and feels soft and well made. I especially love the curved shape, it makes it easy to get to places on your back and shoulders where we all need to massage every now and then.

Like other magic wand massagers, you can use this for all over body and deep tissue massage, or intimate pleasure. Remember to use a water-based lube with it.

What’s different about the Smart Wand compared to the other magic wand massagers we’ve look at it, is that this one is rechargeable. The others have either been mains powered whilst you use it, or battery-powered. This one, you charge it up and it doesn’t have to be plugged in whilst you’re using it.

It takes 2 hours to charge for 2 hours of use. There are plus and minus buttons on the front to control the wand.

Watch Annabelle Knight review the Lelo Smart Wand.

Pros of the Smart Wand

There’s the sense touch mode which is brilliant, as well as lots of vibration patterns and speeds to experiment with.

I haven’t mentioned the packaging for any of the other wands yet, but I had to mention it here because Lelo’s packaging is beautiful and this is a definite pro before you’ve even opened it. In the box you also receive a brooch, storage pouch and your wand, charger and 10 year warranty.

Considering how powerful the Smart Wand is, it’s actually really quiet. You can see this in the video demonstration on the Lovehoney website. It’s a lot quieter than other wands of similar size.

It’s also completely waterproof and submergible so you can massage in the bath!

Cons of the Smart Wand

Ooh the only really con is it’s hefty price tag! I love everything else about this wand. It’s definitely a luxury wand and if it’s within your budget it’s one to seriously consider.

This is your wand wild card! It’s the Bodywand Mini wand vibrator and it really is a mini! It’s only 4 inches long. But don’t let it’s size put you off too much, despite it’s size it’s very powerful.

I love this little wand and it’s cute and feminine. I love the jewels, the pink and the packaging. It’s a very low price and I had to include it as one of my top 6 UK magic wand massagers.

It’s made from skin safe plastic, and like other magic wand massagers, has a flexible bendy neck and the traditional ‘head’ of a wand. Because the head is bendy, you can make it vibrate on any parts of your body you like.

The Bodywand Mini is battery-powered and batteries are included which is good. It takes 6 LR44 batteries which you can buy in supermarkets. To insert the batteries you just untwist the base and pop the batteries inside.

The 5 different speeds are also controlled with the twist base. Even though it’s a small wand, it’s still very powerful and is actually really quiet compared to other bigger wands so if volume is important to you, this could be the wand for you.

Pros of the Bodywand Mini.

It’s so small that it’s good for beginners who aren’t ready to invest in a bigger more expensive wand, and it’s also good for travelling with as it won’t take up much room in your handbag or suitcase at all.

It’s a very low price and a good option for lower budgets who want to experience the vibrations of a magic wand massager.

It’s super cute! I love the jewel details on the handle and it looks and feels very pink and girly. This is a big contrast to some of the big black traditional magic wand massagers we have looked at earlier!

It’s also quiet compared to much bigger wands, so although it may be small, volume is less and this could be important to you. It would make a lovely little gift and could be an ideal first sex toy as well.

Cons of the Bodywand Mini.

For some people this will be too small a wand, and many will prefer the size of a larger traditional wand. It’s harder to reach other places on your body like your back and shoulders where you want to massage out knots and tension compared to bigger wands that make reaching everywhere easy.

Saying this, it is also very light and therefore easier to hold than a bigger wand and therefore being smaller and lighter isn’t such a bad thing.

It’s battery-powered which means you will need to stock up on some spares.

Other reviewers obviously really liked this wand too, it’s got loads of good reviews on the Lovehoney site. One of my favourite lines in the reviews is:

“It is powerful enough to take her from 0 to OMG quickly” 0 to OMG. Great line! A lot of people are agreeing with me saying not to let it’s size mislead you, it may be small but it’s still very powerful.

In Summary

When deciding on your magic wand massager I suggest you decide how you’d like to use it and what’s important to you.

Do you want something for all over body massage as well as intimate clitoral vibrations?

Is price a deciding factor?

Would you prefer a larger wand or a petite one?

Is volume/sound important to you?

If you have any questions about any of these wands or anything else please leave a comment and I’ll do my best to help you. I’d also love to hear what you thought if you already own any of these wands. Let me know what you think in the comments! Best wishes!

My attention was drawn to this almost illuminous bright pink rabbit toy on the Ann Summers website and I knew I had to find out more about it. Apparently this is Ann Summers’ best selling rabbit and I can see why. It’s got 353 reviews so far, the majority of which are positive.

What’s in the box?

The sexy black box includes the silicone one rampant rabbit, along with a set of instructions. I loved the packaging. Very sleek and classy.

What does it look like?

Well as you can see from the photographs, it’s very very pink. It’s extremely soft and feels very luxurious. It’s possibly the most girly rampant rabbit vibrator I’ve ever seen.

It has a total length of 11 inches, and is insertable up to 6 inches. It’s waterproof too which means you can use it in the bath, shower and clean it nice and easily.

How is it powered?

The rampant rabbit silicone one is powered by 3 AA batteries which sadly aren’t included. These are a very standard battery so make sure you have plenty of these at home or order some whilst you’re ordering your rabbit so you can use it as soon as it arrives.

How is it controlled?

The power button switches the silicone one rampant rabbit on and off, there’s a button to switch through the different functions, and up and down arrows to control the speed.

It has a total of 10 different functions, 7 patterns and 3 speeds.

How does the rampant rabbit the silicone one feel?

It feels damn good, and this is helped by the way the vibrations carry all the way through the shaft, not just the very tip of it like other rabbits. It’s also got that curved tip that is great for reaching your G-spot and it gives you some really powerful, deep orgasms really easily. You just lie back with the rabbit inside you doing it’s thing and enjoy.

I recommend you use plenty of water-based lube so it’s nice and easy to insert and the rabbit ears move up and down nice and smoothly on your clitoris.

Ann Summers have a nice video review (below) talking about the silicone one you can watch. She’s obviously a big fan of this toy.

Pros

The rampant rabbit the silicone one is a powerful feel good vibrator. It gives you incredible orgasms, hits your G-spot and all the right places at once.

It has 10 functions to play with.

It’s a bargain price.

It’s waterproof.

I love the packaging and neon pink colour.

Cons

It’s battery powered, but rechargeable rabbits are a lot dearer so that’s worth bearing in mind. And the batteries aren’t included. Boo.

Overall it’s still a fantastic rabbit and especially for such a low price. Ideal for anyone new to sex toys and wants to try out a good rabbit, or existing fans looking to expand their existing collection.

At the moment the rampant rabbit the silicone one is half price at £25.00 which makes it a must buy!

I’m really feeling the chill right now. But I had to share with you this sexy Christmas Santa outfit I’ve fallen in love with. (£20 at Ann Summers, love!)

Whilst I’m here let’s talk about what’s going on right now.

It’s a good time of year to get everything organised for Christmas and next year, well in advance, before the crazy rush. And you can be all calm and relaxed whilst everyone else is out in the cold doing things last minute. That’s my plan anyway!

And how do I do that?

I buy pretty much everything online, sex toys, groceries, christmas presents. Sure there’s the odd thing I buy locally but it’s more as a top up.

Make a list of who you need to buy for – think hard about what you’re going to buy them, find it and order it now. Not later. I like to create small pieces of paper for each person and write that person’s name at the top, and underneath what they’re getting. Sorted.

Naughty Christmas Gifts

Sex toys and lingerie make very lovely gifts for your partner and already you can shop for these gifts at my 3 fave places online: Lovehoney, Bondara and Ann Summers.

Crotchless knickers make a very sexy gift for your lover, or you maybe buying them for yourself as a special treat for yourself or your partner.

They make you feel incredibly sexy and feminine when you wear a pair of these. Your partner especially will find it hard to resist you and they are great for seduction and wearing on an evening out to tease your partner and get yourself in the mood.

They’re especially good for easy access during foreplay and when having sex.

There are some really gorgeous crotchless knickers around at the moment in some beautiful, sexy designs, as well as some that are truly terrible that I have avoided after reading some bad reviews on them elsewhere.

So here are my current top 5 of the very best crotchless knickers in the UK:

I adore these pink Bondara crotchless knickers in the shape of a butterfly. They’re pink, feminine and very beautiful, whilst at the same time being sexy and inviting. They make you feel very classy whilst adding a touch of sheer naughtiness.

They come in one single size that fits most because they are stretchy and are made from 100% polyester.

These Anais Fanny knickers are incredibly chic and sexy. They have a very exposing design, and packages up your best bits beautifully with it’s black bow and lacy material.

They come in 6 different UK sizes, 6-8, 8-10, 10-12. 12-14, 14-16 and 16-18. On the Lovehoney site where I found these, they have scored 9 out of 10 from 68 reviews. You can also view lots of other bottoms that other ladies have sent in of themselves wearing theirs as part of a competition to win £100 worth of lingerie.

These Ann Summers seduction knickers are available with bows in shell colour or red. Personally I like the shell colour best, but the red is very sexy too.

They both come in three different sizes, small, medium and large. Small being a UK 8-10, medium a 12-14, large being 16-18. The material is soft satin and they’ve received some really fantastic reviews on the Ann Summers website (57 reviews). One reviewer said they’re so comfortable and she loves them so much she nearly wore them to work. Why not wear your sexiest stuff to work?! I am all for that hehe.

These pearl knickers feel super naughty and exposed. I especially love the pearl beads that frame your genital area and present it in a deliciously feminine and sexy way. They’re an another absolute bargain and come in four different sizes, small, medium, large and extra large.

Small is UK 8-10, medium is 12-14, large is 16-18 and extra large is 20-22.

I’ve always been a big fan of We Vibe toys and the We Vibe 4 Plus is just incredible with what it can do so it’s about time I wrote a quick review all about it.

Imagine you and your partner are sat in a restaurant together and you’re wearing the We Vibe 4 Plus. Your partner opens the phone app, and suddenly switches the toy on… He can slide the intensity bars up and down to alter the vibration speeds you feel and control each individual motor….

He can choose to really tease you and drive you crazy and nobody else is any the wiser. It doesn’t matter how far apart you are in the world. The app still works.

What’s in the box?

The packaging is beautiful and sleek. When you receive it you know from the box you’ve received a high quality toy. Included with your We-Vibe 4 Plus is a full set of instructions, a cradle charging dock which also doubles up as a storage case, and a USB charging cable.

What does it look and feel like?

The We Vibe 4 Plus feels lovely and soft to touch, and you can tell that it’s made from good quality silicone. It is flexible, and the more you use it, the more flexible and comfortable it gets.

One reviewer on the Lovehoney site said she actually wore hers around the house to break it in more. Why not hey!

It has an insertable length of 2.5 inches. I love that it’s completely water-proof, although the remote isn’t and of course, neither is your mobile phone.

There are extra ridges on the G-spot side of the toy that add extra stimulation internally whilst the toy is vibrating.

How is it powered?

As mentioned above, you get a USB charging cable with the toy, so all you have to do is plug it into a USB port on your computer or with your phone charger. I am a big fan of rechargeable toys and they’re so much more convenient than battery powered ones.

Rechargeable toys usually come with a higher price tag though compared to battery operated ones. In the end, what you save in batteries, you spend extra on the rechargeable toy so it really all balances out but with more convenience.

The We Vibe 4 comes with a cradle charging dock that is discreet and means you can charge it up without anyone actually knowing what’s inside. The toy sits in the dock and charges through it so you don’t need to plug the toy in, just sit it on the egg.

It’s all self explanatory when you get yours.

When you receive your own We Vibe 4 Plus you will need to charge it up for 6 hours before you can use it. I love that there is a little LED on the front of the dock that flashes whilst it’s charging, and when it’s fully charged, the flashing stops.

What do you actually do with the We Vibe 4 Plus?

I know, I know, a lot of you reading this will be like I first once and wondering, err, what do you actually do with it? How on earth can a couple use this during sex?

The We Vibe 4 plus is designed specifically as a couples toy.

One side of the toy inserts into you, and it curls to hit your G-Spot, whilst the other end curls and hits your clitoris.

Now at the same time as this, your partner will also insert himself into you and feel the vibrations as well.

Fans of the We Vibe 3 will notice that the We Vibe 4 Plus is actually a lot smaller, possibly up to a third smaller. This makes it more comfortable and easier to wear whilst having sex.

The smooth silicone makes it feel nice and easy to have sex with and there isn’t a problem with friction, especially if you use plenty of water-based lube. Have a read of some of the other reviews on the Lovehoney site where there are loads to read to give you an idea of what they’re saying too.

Diagram from we-vibe.com showing you how the We-Vibe 4 Plus is positioned when using it during sex.

What are the functions?

It has 6 functions and 10 intensity settings to choose from.

There are two individual motors, one on either side of the toy which you can control individually, or as one.

One of the motors is on the G-spot stimulator and works internally, whilst the other is for the clitoris and works externally. See in the diagram above how the toy looks in use during sex. Both you and your partner benefit from the vibrations.

How it is controlled?

It can be controlled either directly on the toy itself using a single controller button, by the wireless remote or the innovative smart phone app. The app can be controlled by you or your partner, no matter how far apart you are.

To use the button on the We Vibe 4 Plus, you just press and hold the button to switch it on and off, then keep pressing it once to move through the functions.

To use the remote control just press and hold the up button to switch it on. The up and down buttons then control the intensity and the side buttons control the functions which you can move through to find one that you like. To switch it off, this time hold down the bottom button.

Using the app

Make sure the blue tooth on your mobile phone is on or the app won’t be able to connect to the toy. When you’ve downloaded the app, press the play button on the app, and it will look for the We Vibe 4 Plus. When it’s found it, the toy buzzes three times into life.

You can even switch the toy on with the app by just pressing play within the app.

The toy has two separate controls for each motor, if you decide to control them separately. You can do this by pressing the link button and you will unlink the motors and control them individually.

There is even a button for ‘unexpected pleasure’ which is cool. For this you press the random button, and you will get any vibration pattern that the app chooses.

If you want to choose your own vibration pattern, you just have to swipe the screen until you find a setting that you love and each pattern has it’s own visual representation.

How does it feel?

Before you use the We Vibe 4 Plus, make sure you have some good water-based lube ready, as this helps you get the toy in place without any sort of discomfort.

The vibrations feel really good and strong. It is built for couples to use, but you can also use this entirely as a solo toy and it is still a powerful toy for using completely alone.

How loud is it?

The We Vibe 4 Plus is really a discreet and quiet toy, and I’m not surprised at that with how well built it is and it’s price. To watch it in action and get an idea of how loud it is, I recommend you watch the review video by Lisa who demonstrates it in action. The vibration sounds are obviously quiet compared to a lot of other vibrators out there and video reviews I have seen.

What’s the difference between the We-Vibe 4 and We-Vibe 4 Plus?

The We Vibe 4 Plus combines all the previous feature of the We-Vibe 4 but with remote technology, the phone app. The app can easily be downloaded to your phone from the app store on either Apple IOS or Android.

Is it worth buying?

Okay this is a fairly expensive toy but you do get a lot from it! It’s received so far 46 positive reviews on the Lovehoney website. Have a read of them all here for lots more opinions.

This toy has clearly been very well thought out and the app that goes with it is a very smart element, especially the way it’s controlled, is completely hands free and feels very intimate.

Pros of the We Vibe 4 Plus

Where to begin with the pros?

It’s fully waterproof.

You have the cool app and remote features that you can use to tease and engage sexually with each other when far apart.

You can also use it during sex when you’re back together.

It’s packed with speeds and functions.

It’s rechargeable via USB.

It’s very well designed and simple to use.

It’s so comfortable during sex and will definitely give you both a good time and really enhances your sex life.

Any Cons?

The only real con for me was it’s price, which won’t be for everyone, but it really is an investment in your sex life.

I’m struggling for other cons so I will say that you also need to charge it up before it can be used for 6 hours which means there is a delay before you can first use it!

Get yours:

Choose from grey, pink or purple.

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Unfortunately since writing this version of the We Vibe has been discontinued, however, We Vibe have brought out newer, better, more modern products so check out all of those at Lovehoney here!

In this sex toys for couples guide I’m going to take you through two key steps to using couples sex toys for maximum mutual pleasure.

If you’re new to sex toys for couples or just want some tips and new ideas, keep reading.

The majority of people save their sex toys for solo pleasure, but introduce them during intimate time with your partner, and discover whole new ways to use them.

We will also have a quick look at some of the toys made specifically for couples to use together.

Introducing the Idea of a Couples Toy

When introducing the idea of a sex toy to use as a couple, it may feel a little awkward at first. But it needn’t be. Think of it as a fun game, that will improve both of your intimacy levels, and will give both of you a lot of pleasure to share the experience.

The best time to introduce this topic should be a time when you are both relaxed, such as over a glass of wine at the weekend, or on a date night. Open up about your interest in sharing a toy during sex.

The chances are, the second you broach this subject, your partner will be more than happy to give anything new a try and they’ve probably considered it themselves but haven’t said anything!

What Kind of Sex Toys for Couples Are There?

There are now so awesome multifunctional toys on the market designed specifically with couples in mind.

My favourite of all the couples toys is the We-vibe. Here’s a quick look at the different kinds.

We-Vibe have brought out loads of different toys in the past and each time they upgrade.

The We-Vibe 4 Plus is one of my all time favourite sex toys for couples and a luxury high end toy. It is a lot pricier than the Tracey Cox Cock Ring, at £127.99 but it when you see what it can do you will see why.

It comes with it’s own remote control and phone app that you can control without having to fiddle with the toy itself and ruin the moment.

I’ve given you two quality sex toys for couples here at two very different prices, but both of them are fantastic and will add a new element of pleasure to your sex life as a couple.

Ultimately, any toy that encourages you to become closer and you can share is going to be a great choice. Be open to exploring new sex toys for couples and new possibilities! And watch your sex life explode!

Playing with your sex toys is really good for your health. Really good! And to prove it here are 8 reasons why masturbation, or self love, is excellent for you.

Is masturbation good for you? Here’s why it is.

1. Better Sex

Experimenting on yourself first means you know what you do and don’t like. If you don’t know yourself, your partner may not know either. And communication is a big part of a good sex life.

Play with your toys, let go, have fun and just enjoy yourself with them! The more you masturbate, the more you will enjoy regular orgasms, regular sex, and really understand what most turns you on!

2. Find it Easier to Orgasm

This is pretty amazing, but those ladies that don’t regularly orgasm by themselves, often struggle to orgasm during sex with their partner.

The more you orgasm alone, the easier it is when you’re having sex. You’re more in tune with yourself, your orgasm ‘muscles’ are well worked, and you’re more relaxed because you know yourself and your body so well.

3. Relieve Stress

Orgasms are a big stress reliever. The more you masturbate and play with your sex toys, the happier you will be. It lowers your blood pressure, it releases endorphins and increases relaxation. What’s not to love?

So next time you’re feeling stressed out – grab your bullet vibrator and give yourself a quick orgasm before you continue where you were, feeling much more relaxed about it!

Stress release is one of my faves in this is masturbation good for you list of reasons.

4. Help Sleep

Having an orgasm before bed really helps you sleep. Your body releases stress relieving hormones, which put you in a lovely relaxed state all ready for sleep. It’s a great way to switch off the day and move into a state of peace and calm. Try using your bullet right before sleep instead of checking Facebook and notice how much better you sleep.

5. Boost Your Immune System

When you masturbate you release a hormone called cortisol. This in small doses really helps your immune system to function well.

Even though cortisol is a stress hormone, it can promote the production of antibodies. These antibodies are your fighter cells who will help to tag and kill off any foreign bugs inside you.

6. Boost Your Circulation

Masturbating can get you all hot and your heart rate thumping. This is like exercise, except it’s very easy and if you ask me a lot more pleasurable! It helps the blood pump round your arteries and tissues and function well.

It also burns calories! In our is masturbation good for you list, this is possibly one of the best reasons!

7. Relieve Period Cramps

Many ladies suffer from period cramps and they are a complete annoyance.

The cramps themselves are due to muscle tension, so instead of just taking a pain killer, masturbate, give yourself an orgasm, and the increased blood flowing to the muscles in the pelvic floor helps relieve the pain and tension of period cramps.

Is masturbation good for you? It’s definitely good for relieving annoying period cramps so have your bullet ready around this time of the month for sure.

8. Help UTIs (Urinary Tract Infections)

Now and then, most women will suffer from at least one UTI. Scientists say that masturbation can actually help to prevent cervical infections because of something called “tenting”.

I know this sounds a bit weird, but its true. Tenting is when the cervix opens naturally as part of you being aroused, or turned on. It stretches the cervix, and at the same time produces more cervical mucous.

And it’s this extra fluid circulation is what allows the cervix to be nicely flushed out naturally. Naturally is the key here. Always remember to have a wee after having sex too, to flush out your urinary tract of any bacteria that may have been introduced during the play.

To Conclude, Is Masturbation Good for You?

In this is masturbation good for you post, it’s clear that yes, it really is! There are so many health benefits from doing it, and it feels amazing!!

So take advantage of this easy mood changer and take 5 minutes out of your day every day to give yourself an orgasm.

Olive oil as a natural lubricant

Most people already have some olive oil in their kitchen. It’s great to use for cooking, on salads, and for moisturising the skin. But what about using it as a lubricant down there? How does olive oil compare to other traditional lubricants you can buy in the shops?

Cons

It’s not all good news unfortunately when using olive oil as a natural lubricant.

Olive oil is a pretty dense oil, and therefore it is fairly tricky to clean it all off.

To some, it doesn’t have an amazing smell, and it can also stain your clothes. Although when you use it as a lube, you’re unlikely to be wearing any there.

Like other oils, it isn’t compatible with some sex toys, especially silicone based ones, and it’s definitely not suitable to use with latex condoms.

Can you use olive oil with sex toys?

Like coconut oil, you can use olive oil safely with:

Glass, ceramics and metal toys.

It’s not compatible with plastic toys made of jelly, rubber, TPR, TPE, latex, vinyl and PVC. Have a read of the product descriptions for the toys if you’re not sure.

Top tip

It’s advised that you check on the label that your olive oil doesn’t contain any preservatives. These are not designed for intimate use and could irritate your skin. It’s also worth investing in extra virgin olive oil as opposed to any other type. Pour a small amount into your palm to warm it, then smooth it onto yourself or your lover.

Beware of using oils like canola oil, sunflower oil, corn oil, and avocado oil on your personal areas. These ones can create stickiness and an unpleasant build up. Save these for your salads and frying!

Overall, you can use olive oil as a natural lubricant as long as you are careful about which sex toys you use it with, and you don’t use it with condoms.

Halloween is almost upon us! And that means a great reason to get dressed up in something special and sexy. In this post I’m going to be sharing my favourite easy halloween costumes.

Hopefully you’ve got something planned this halloween, but if you haven’t yet, it’s not too late.

Why not ask a few people to come round to your house in fancy dress and share some nibbles and drinks or all go on a night out together in fancy dress.

I had a look at some of the sexiest and also easiest halloween costumes around for UK ladies and here are my faves this year!

Here’s my 5 Fave Easy Halloween Costumes…

1. The Devil in You Costume

This is a classic sexy devil costume for ladies. The tummy section is nice and flattering and you can pair it with tights, stockings or go bare legged.

It comes with glittery devil ears and a fork. It’s definitely sexy and one of my fave easy halloween costumes because it maintains a lot of femininity whilst also keeping in tradition of being in character! You could quite easily wear this in the bedroom long after halloween, minus the ears and fork.

Or add those if you felt the urge to.

This costume comes in four sizes and has so far received two good reviews.

2. Fever Cheetah Bodysuit

Next up is this gorgeous animal print bodysuit. It’s a really one of my easy halloween costumes because this is all there is to it, and it looks so effective and stunning. You can team this with any shoes, boots, heels or flats and it would still look great.

The head band ears is optional and can be bought separately for £4.99.

3. Vinyl Cat Mask

I’m not joking! This has got to be the most easiest of easy halloween costumes possible. Team this vinyl cat mask with any sexy dress or outfit you have, or what about a plain black top and black leggings and heels?

You will still look in costume and like you’ve made the effort without going to great lengths, and easy halloween costumes is the topic here!

I think this is a great idea for slightly (ahem) lazy ladies who can’t be bothered going over the top with their halloween costume. Get it delivered and focus on enjoying the party!

We’re going to talk about what the Moregasm Ears do, how they works, the pros and cons and what other people are saying.

What’s in the box?

In the box you receive your Moregasm rampant rabbit ears themselves, along with a USB charger. The box is nicely designed and it’s always nice to receive a box that looks good and compliments the toy inside it well.

How are the Moregasm ears powered?

I love, love, love, that the Moregasm ears are rechargeable. You just have to plug the toy into a USB charger, either a USB adapter on your mains socket or straight into your computer or laptop’s USB port.

There’s not a battery in sight. I love how more and more sex toys these days are becoming rechargeable, and are moving away from batteries.

Charge via USB.

Being rechargeable means you will use it a lot more because you don’t run out of batteries and have to keep buying them. There’s no excuse for leaving it in your drawer because you forgot to get them with your shopping.

Whilst the Moregasm ears are charging, the toy lights up and keeps flashing. When the flashing stops, the toy is charged. Very clever!

How do you use the Moregasm ears?

To turn the Moregasm ears on, you just have to hold down the centre button for a couple of seconds until the logo on the top lights up, and the toy starts to vibrate.

The Moregasm ears have 6 vibration functions to experiment with, as well as 3 speed settings.

These include a low rumble, a deep vibration and the ultimate vibration, and three pulse settings. I love the low rumble!

To move between these functions, press the centre button again for the next level of vibration and then keep clicking to scroll through the settings. Having one controller button keeps it nice and simple to use.

To turn the ears off, just hold down the off button again for a couple of seconds.

Climax Technology

Climax Technology involves a new style of motor that sends low-frequency vibrations in waves deep into the body. These powerful vibrations are able to reach more than 15,000 nerve endings.

This, Ann Summers say, is DOUBLE those of any other vibrator on the market, and the ears are designed entirely to carry the vibrations throughout the body.

Sounds amazing right? It is!!

Moregasm = More Orgasms?

Hell yes to that.

You can use the ears solo, or you can get your partner to use them on you as well, and you can also fit them in between your bodies whilst you’re having sex and both benefit from the vibrations together.

Using a vibrator during sex on your clitoris is absolutely incredible for the woman especially, and gives you far more chance of orgasming during sex.

Another thing to try is using the ears during oral sex with both you and your partner.

Because they are curved, they fit beautifully against your clit and the curves of your body and partners body.

Vibrator and Massager in One

The Moregasm ears can be used for orgasms with the ears side, and also on the gold side this doubles up as a massager which you can use all over your body.

Adding the massager function wasn’t really necessary because you’re really buying this toy for the ears, but it is a nice option to have.

I loved how precise you can be with the ears on where the vibrations hit. You can move it over different parts of your genitals and tease and build yourself up to amazing orgasms.

Pros

The Moregasm ears have so far received 47 reviews and overall rating of 4.5 stars out of 5 which is really high. Clearly other people love this toy too.

Words used regularly in the reviews include: speechless, powerful, amazing and best toy ever purchased.

This also makes it nice and easy to keep clean. I like to wash my toys in warm soapy water and let them air dry, but you can also use Buzz Wipes which to be honest are an expense you don’t need (in my opinion) but they are really popular.

Cons

Very few toys go without any negatives comments and the Moregasm rampant rabbit ears have received a couple.

One reviewer (of 47) said they found it too noisy.

Overall I’m inclined to agree with the majority of reviewers, that Moregasm rampant rabbit is a great sex toy and investment in deeply powerful, easy orgasms.

Tips for your Moregasm ears

Use a good water-based lube with the toy to really enhance your pleasure. Ann Summers suggest using it with their Liquid Satin Lube but you can really use any kind of lube.

When an orgasm is close, switch settings to a lower vibration to intensify and make your orgasm last longer.

You’ve no doubt already heard of the rabbit vibrator, it’s the must classic, iconic sex toy there is. Most rabbit vibrators look very similar with a distinctive look, the long insertable length, and two rabbit ears.

I often get asked reader questions and one of them was how to use a rabbit vibrator? Let’s have a closer look at this toy, what it can do for you and what to do with it.

The Blended Orgasm

Rabbit vibrators have the potential to give a woman what’s known as a blended orgasm, two orgasms at the same time – on their clitoris and internally on their G-spot. Having both your clitoris and G-spot stimulated simultaneously is mind-blowing.

Seriously, if you haven’t yet used a rabbit vibrator, now is the time to give it a go and you won’t look back.

Before You Use Your Rabbit Vibrator

Before you play with your toy for real, it’s a good idea to get familiar with the controls. There may be an off and off switch, a speed switch and possibly a patterns switch too.

It really depends on the rabbit you bought. Some have more options than others, there may well be instructions for you on how to use a rabbit vibrator too but if you’re anything like me, you’d rather just try it out for yourself first.

Once you know how to turn it on and off and change functions, make sure you’ve also given it a wash too before you use it on yourself.

How To Use a Rabbit Vibrator?

Some may think that a rabbit vibrator is fairly self explanatory. It kind of is but I’m going to talk you through it for those people who are brand new to sex toys.

Firstly you’ve got the insertable length called the shaft and then the rabbit ears.

Unless you’re really wet already, you will need some water-based lubricant adding to both the vibrator and a little on yourself in and around your vagina.

When learning how to use a rabbit vibrator for the first time, lie down on your bed, and when you’re relaxed and comfortable, insert the length into yourself (when you and it are nicely lubricated), with the rabbit ears at the top, so that they are resting on or close to your clitoris.

Switch your rabbit on and feel the gorgeous vibrations inside you. Relax and go with where they take you. Experimenting with how to use a rabbit vibrator is pure pleasure and fun.

If you have a separate setting for the ears, switch those on too and feel your clitoris being stimulated too.

Many rabbit vibrators have multi-speed ears so that you can work up from slower to faster vibrations as you get closer to orgasm.

If this is too much at once, just pick internal or external vibrations to begin with. As you get used to the sensations you will begin to enjoy having both areas stimulated.

Allow the waves of pleasure to grow as you inevitably build into an amazing orgasm. Have a breather for a couple of minutes, and then go again if you feel you want more.

Some people may prefer to use the rabbit ears only first before then inserting the shaft.

There is no right or wrong way for how to use a rabbit vibrator, it’s entirely personal preference and what one person may do, somebody else may do it completely differently. We are all unique.

How to Use a Rabbit Vibrator With Your Partner?

You don’t just have to use your rabbit vibrator alone, you can use it with your partner as well.

It’s really fun and sexy to let them use it on you, and let them control the speeds and what it does to you.

You can incorporate it into foreplay, as well as use the shaft inside you whilst have your partner lick your clitoris from the outside.

You can also use the vibrations from your rabbit on your partner’s body to tease and turn him/her on.

My Rabbit Vibrator Tips

Choose your shaft shape

If it’s your first rabbit vibrator, a slimmer shaft may be the best option for you to get used to having a toy inside you (but I do also advice one with a curved end because they’re so effective).

There are all different shapes of shaft, some are completely straight, whilst some are a bit more wavy, and some have a curved tip. It doesn’t matter which kind you go for, there is no one right or wrong way for how to use a rabbit vibrator.

If you haven’t got one yet, I’d say go for a curved tip to give you that advantage of hitting your G-spot really easily and making sure you get those deep waves of pleasure from the inside.

Battery powered or rechargeable?

Bondara Jessica Rabbit is £9.99

Regarding battery powered versus rechargeable, there is a fairly big price difference here. Battery powered rabbits are far cheaper, you can get a good one for as low as £9.99 (e.g. the Bondara Jessica Rabbit that comes with free batteries).

But batteries are a hassle because they run out and you have to keep buying more of them. In the past I haven’t used my toys for the simple reason that the batteries have run out, I don’t have left, and I forget to buy them.

So I tend to opt for rechargeable rabbit vibrators whenever possible. Rechargeable ones are more of an investment, but you do find that you use the toy more, you can just plug it in, and have it ready, without having to bother with annoying batteries that you have to keep buying and changing.

But that’s just me! And a lot of people don’t care about batteries.

The Tracey Cox Super Sex Rechargeable Rabbit Vibrator is £39.99.

Rechargeable rabbit vibrators start at £39.99 (e.g. the Tracey Cox Super Sex Rabbit which is great), so you’re looking at double the price but it’s so much more convenient.

In answer to the original question I was asked: how to use a rabbit vibrator?

Experiment, explore, try, share, play and most of all let go and have fun! Because your life is for living.

I recently saw that Je Joue have some new sex toys out. They make lovely good quality, luxury toys and they have this tag line:

Empowering the world with beautiful, innovative sex toys that inspire you to Explore More…

How awesome is that? Empowering the world with sex toys. They’re my kind of company. Imagine a world where more people loved themselves enough to regularly orgasm and live happier, more inspired lives.

So this post is a little about Je Joue, and some of the toys they currently offer.

What does Je Joue mean?

Je = I

Joue = Play

I Play.

Who are Je Joue?

Well despite sounding very French, the people behind Je Joue are based in London, with offices also in San Francisco and Shanghai. I would have preferred thinking that they are an entirely French company with offices in Paris with a name like Je Joue but hey ho.

Je Joue have been around since 2008 and have a very strong philosophy involving empowering couples, enhancing pleasure, letting imaginations run wild and understanding our bodies better.

Having a very clear “why” behind a company is really important for customers like you and me to get behind it. The company with the most obvious why is Apple who’s is:

“Everything we do, we believe in challenging the status quo, we believe in thinking differently. The way we challenge the status quo is by making our products beautifully designed, simple to use, and user friendly. We just happen to make great computers.”

I love that Je Joue’s is:

“We aim to help beginners and those more experienced alike to enjoy and understand their bodies better, and let their imagination run wild. Unlock and explore our luxurious world of intimate possibilities.”

See? A company with a big clear why is far more appealing than simply saying (like so many do) “we make computers” or “we make sex toys” or whatever. Why? Why do you make sex toys?

Je Joue have also received plenty of awards over the past three years for making cool designer sex toys.

What Do Je Joue Make?

All of their toys are what you would call high end toys and they’re a bit pricier than others. Kind of along the same prices as Lelo’s, another luxury sex toy manufacturer.

Je Joue make rabbit vibrators, kegel balls, butt plugs, cock rings, wand massagers and more recently a very out of the box new set of pick and mix toys called Ooh. That’s right Ooh. Ooh by Je Joue. And it rhymes.

Pick and Mix Toys

You’ve heard of pick and mix sweets, what on earth are pick and mix sex toys?

First you’ve got your USB rechargeable motor:

And then you need a component to use with it (example are the two components above, and the one below). The various components click onto the motor, giving you a high versatile set of sex toys. Very new and fun!

You can watch Annabelle Knight in her video review demonstrating the Ooh by Je Joue pleasure set to get a better idea of what it’s really like to use.

What do you think? Personally I reckon these kinds of mix and match sex toys are a thing of the future and eventually there will be all kinds of mix and match toys available. It’s a really great idea!

One of the questions I get asked often is Grace, how to use a bullet vibrator? In this guide I’m going to tell you all about bullet vibrators and the cool ways you can use yours. If you don’t yet have a bullet vibrator, be sure to check out my top 10 bullet vibrators in the UK for some great ideas.

What is a Bullet Vibrator?

A bullet vibrator is a small, compact, discreet sex toy that is traditionally in the shape of a bullet, hence their name bullet. However there are variations on the traditional bullet now. You get some that are bigger, smaller and those that have extra enhancements on them.

Because bullets are usually so small, they have loads of good points to them. They’re especially good for beginners to buy as a first toy because they’re not intimidating looking toys, and they’re very simple and are easy to use.

The majority of bullets have a single button to control them that controls the power on, power off and the speeds and patterns of vibration. Most are battery operated, however there are an increasing number of rechargeable bullets now arriving on the market.

Rechargeable means you just have to plug the bullet in via USB or mains power and away you go.

Here’s a few reasons I love bullets:

Bullets are great for travelling with because they’re nice and small.

They are powerful toys that vibrate on different speeds.

Bullet vibrators tend to be lower in price than bigger sex toys.

Many bullets are now waterproof and can be used in the bath and shower.

They come in all sorts of designs.

They’re a great beginner toy because they’re un-intimidating.

How to Use a Bullet Vibrator?

Here’s a few ways to use a bullet vibrator and some ideas you can try.

How To Use a bullet vibrator on your clit?

The clitoris is the most obvious place to use your bullet. The vibrations from your bullet feel amaaazing here, whatever the speed of vibration, just about any kind of buzz is good. Some people prefer a lighter vibration, whilst others like it really powerful.

This is one of the reasons most bullets now come with a range of different speed settings. You can also build up from a lower vibration to a more intense vibration as you get more turned on.

When you buy your toy you usually receive some basic instructions on how to use a bullet vibrator but they really are usually very self explanatory to turn on and off and use their different functions.

Top Tip: Take your waterproof bullet into the bathroom. Run a hot bubble bath, light candles, pour a glass of wine, close your eyes and soak away, whilst using your bullet all around your genital area, before finishing off on your clit for an amazing, relaxed orgasm to really rejuvenate yourself.

You can also use your bullet vibe for anal and G-spot stimulation, depending on the size of the bullet. Some of the really small ones may not be big enough, but there are bigger bullets and toys made specifically for these activities.

How to use a bullet vibrator on your body?

Bullet vibrators can be used all over your body, not just on your genital area. Something really nice to try is to get your partner to use your bullet as a way of teasing you. It will get you so turned on, that you’ll be dying for him to use it there.

Our body’s are full of erogenous zones that feel incredible when they’re stimulated. Use your bullet all over your body and experiment with where feels good. They’re great to use during foreplay to get you both in the mood.

Use it on your partner, not just on your self.

Tip: Use it on male partners testicles and genitals to drive him crazy, especially during oral sex.

You don’t have to just use the tip of the bullet vibrator, you can also use it horizontally and allow the entire toy to tickle and stimulate you wherever you want it. It’s really good to prolong the experience, rather than going straight to the orgasm, although there is nothing wrong with that either!

How to use a bullet vibrator for massage?

Have a knot in your back or shoulders? You can use your bullet on these areas and it feels really relaxing and relieves a lot of the tension in them. Because bullets are quite small, it may not be easy to reach all over, here is where your partner comes in to help you.

How to use a bullet vibrator during sex?

You can incorporate a bullet into sex by first discussing it with your partner, that you’d really like to try adding something a little different and showing him or her your bullet. During sex, with smaller bullets it’s possible to squeeze your bullet in between your bodies in a way that gives you both a heck of a lot of extra pleasure! It’s much easier for women to orgasm during sex when they’re also having their clitoris stimulated.

After you’ve discussed it and got the go ahead (and why wouldn’t they agree), or just pull your bullet out when the moment takes you, and start experimenting with where it feels good. Ideally during sex you should have this somewhere that’s vibrating against your clit, and this feels ohhh so good.

Depending on your position you can hold the bullet yourself. There is no right or wrong way for how to use a bullet vibrator and what works for one person, doesn’t always work for somebody else so it’s always about what works for you.

With sex toys there’s never any right or wrong way to do things.

How to use a bullet vibrator with other sex toys?

There are some toys that allow bullets to be added to them to enhance their pleasure such as some butt plugs and cock rings. Many cock rings are sent with mini vibrating bullets inside them already than you can remove.

I definitely recommend adding some lube to your bullet when you’re using it on your genitals area to really enhance your pleasure. Sex toys feel so much better when they’re nice and wet and lubricated right away. Ideally go for water-based lubes because these don’t do any damage to sex toys like oil-based lube can.

I hope you’ve find this how to use a bullet vibrator guide helpful. If you need any help choosing a bullet vibrator for you, be sure to check out my top 10 bullet vibrators, and 7 of the best bullet vibrators posts where I go into more detail about the different types of bullets you can buy, and I talk about my personal favourites!

Bullet vibrators are great for many reasons. They’re small, powerful and come in a wide range of prices.

There is something for everyone. I wrote a post back in 2013 on the 7 of the best bullets. I’m always interested in which is the best bullet vibrator.

As it’s been a while since then and there are loads of new bullet vibes on the market I decided it was time for an update.

Let’s take a look at which is the best bullet vibrator in the UK right now. I have included a short description of each one, it’s pros and cons, and the current lowest price. I’ve chosen my favourite 10.

I hope you find this round up useful in helping you choose the best bullet vibrator for you!

The Ann Summers rose gold bullet is in this list of the top 10 bullets in the UK because it looks so pretty, and it’s so damn functional. I love the colour and the pink trim decoration.

This bullet has 10 vibration functions, 7 pulses, and 3 speed settings. That’s a lot of choice for something so small.

You can easily move between all the different settings with the one pink controller button, and it’s great fun to experiment and find out which speed and vibration you enjoy the most.

It’s also lovely bullet to hold.

This is something I really liked. Unlike other bullets which tend to be quite flat, this has a nice area to hold whilst you press it against your body.

It’s also waterproof which means easy cleaning, and you can use it in the bath or shower.

It is battery powered and uses a single AAA battery, which isn’t too bad because they are a cheap battery to buy and usually come in multipacks.

I’ve had battery powered toys in the past that have taken 4 AA batteries then it becomes far more expensive to use because 4 of those at once is pricier!

I can live with a single AAA battery. I do prefer rechargeable toys, but they usually cost more, as is discussed in this article.

Whether you opt for a battery powered toy or a rechargeable one is a personal choice. Whilst rechargeable ones do cost more, how much do you spend on batteries? That really depends on how often you use a toy.

The good thing about this bullet is it’s a good choice for a beginner, and it also has lots of power to it too, despite running off the one battery. It has a length of 4.5 inches which is nice and compact.

This bullet feels lovely against your clit, it feels very nice against your skin, and is a good price too (currently only £10) considering it’s waterproof and has so many functions to choose from.

Pros

The colour and shape.

The many speeds and vibration functions.

It’s waterproof.

Cons

It’s battery powered and the battery only lasts a few uses. But you can buy AAA batteries fairly cheaply at the supermarket in multipacks.

The Ann Summers rose gold bullet has received all positive reviews so far which is a good reason to be in my best bullet vibrator top 10. If you fancy this bullet, have a read of them yourself.

I first wrote about the Tracey Cox Super Sex Bullet back in 2013 when it was a top rated bullet even back then. 2 years on, this bullet is still going strong and is a best seller for good reason.

Tracey Cox had a standard sized bullet, as well as the Super Sex. This is a review of the Super Sex version which is a bigger bullet. I don’t think you can buy her old style bullet anymore, there is only the Super Sex one.

In 2013 you could only get this in silver, but it’s also now available in pink and black too. I love the pink.

It’s bigger than the average bullet, but works in much the same way. It’s a good size to hold, and with it’s size comes lots of great power. It had to be in my best bullet vibrator 10.

The Tracey Cox Super Sex bullet has three speeds to use and three patterns of vibration. Altogether this gives you six functions to experiment with.

The nice thing about the size of this bullet is it can be inserted up to 3.5 inches, so it gives you options to play with. You can use it on your clit and internally.

The Super Sex is battery powered with 2 x AAA batteries.

When you order your bullet, make sure you remember to order batteries because these aren’t included, or pick some up next time you go to the supermarket.

The batteries are nice and easy to put in by just untwisting the top and popping the batteries inside.

The single button controls the on/off function by holding it down, and pressing to move between speeds and patterns.

The Super Sex has really strong vibrations. I think having two batteries inside as opposed to one give it that extra power.

Because of its power, it’s not the quietest of bullets but it’s not overly noisy either. Most sex toys make some noise.

I like that this bullet is waterproof, and can be completely submerged under water without fear of breaking it. This makes cleaning easy and you have the option to vibrate in the bath or shower.

Pros

It has a lot of power and gives a lot of pleasure!

It’s big enough to be used internally, but still discreet and small enough to be classed as a bullet sex toy.

It’s waterproof and submergible.

It’s a great price and is now more than half the price that it was in 2013 when I first wrote about this bullet.

Cons

It’s battery powered.

Have a watch of the video review below and watch the Super Sex bullet in action.

At the time of writing, it has 743 reviews on Lovehoney to read. That’s a lot of reviews! With an amazing 4.5 out of 5 stars. It has something special about it, that’s for sure.

Cons

The Ann Summers Noir bullet looks a little different to other bullets as it’s not circular and has a square shape slanted tip to it. With an average of 4 stars and 96 reviews, it had to be included here.

I love the shiny black body, paired with the rose gold tip. The tip gives a different feeling to other bullets and it was a nice change to try this one. It’s really good for pointing it exactly where you want to feel the vibrations. It’s fairly small at 4 inches so great for hiding away in your bag.

The Noir has 7 different functions to experiment with, and three different speed settings. It’s noticeably quiet too. To move between the different functions it has a single button controller, like most bullets do. This is also used to switch it on and off by holding the button down.

This bullet runs off one single AAA battery, and is unscrewed at the top to insert the battery. Make sure you fasten it nice and tightly because it’s also waterproof and can be used in the bath, shower and for easy cleaning.

Currently this is half price at Ann Summers, I’m not sure how long for so at £9.99 it was a good price for a good, well made toy.

It has plenty of power to it, and definitely will give you plenty of orgasms. On the Ann Summers website, there are so many reviews of people saying that this was their first ever sex toy, and they love it so have a read of those! Definitely a UK best bullet vibrator.

One reviewer called it a little pocket rocket, another said it gets her wet in no time. I love reading what other people say before I buy. It’s always a great sign when you see so many positive comments.

It would agree, the Ann Summers Noir bullet is a good choice for a first toy, but with the different functions and speeds it’s also great for experienced sex toy users, and can easily be incorporated into foreplay and used on your man/lady too.

Pros

It has plenty of functions and speeds to play with.
For a single AAA battery it’s packed with power.
It’s a low price.

Cons

It is battery powered, and batteries don’t last forever. Stock up on AAA ones.

Overall it’s a nice, unusual but powerful bullet and it does a great job of giving you plenty of pleasure.

The Lovehoney Love Missile looks like an actual bullet! It’s an amazing £6.99 which is the lowest price bullet in this article. But despite being so incredibly cheap, it’s also an awesome toy. 97 others so far agree, and it’s rated 4.5 stars out of 5. That’s pretty damn good!

The packaging for the Love Missile is basic to say the least, but for a toy at this price it’s not going to arrive luxuriously packaged like higher end bullets do like the Lelo Mia (below).

I love that toys from Lovehoney always have a great video review of them in action. It really helps you make your mind up before you buy to see the toy in action and get a sense of what it’s really like and why it’s a best bullet vibrator top 10. Something pictures can’t always do.

You can watch the lovely Annabelle Knight demo the Love Missile on the video.

The Love Missile has three speeds to play with. Many very basic bullets only have a single speed so this is really nice that it has more than one choice. Despite being so small, it’s still really powerful! The single button is used to turn it on and off, and for moving between the three settings.

It’s a lovely little bullet, what you would call discreet and is in fact really tiny. If you are after something small, low cost and gives you a convenient orgasm on the go, this is the perfect choice! Being so small you can also incorporate it into sex and use it in between you and your partner for extra stimulation.

It’s also completely waterproof and can even be submerged. You can see this in action on the video demo.

When you receive your Love Missile you do need to unscrew the cap and remove the paper inside that’s covering the battery and stopping it going off in transit so if it’s not working, make sure you’ve done this part!

Pros

It’s tiny and discreet, a true bullet.
It’s very cheap, yet is a good bullet.
It’s quiet.
It’s waterproof.

Cons

There are only 3 settings to play with. This is both good and bad, because other bullets in this article have more settings so it’s a case of what’s important to you.
It runs off a battery as opposed to being rechargeable.

The Max Power Lipstick Bullet Vibrator is very very discreet, because it looks just like a lipstick. I think it’s very clever and unusual.

What can I tell you about this aside from how cool it looks? Well despite looking like it should be in my make-up bag rather than my bedside drawer, at 3.5 inches it’s a great little bullet style toy. This in particular is great for travelling with and taking on holiday.

It’s battery powered, and runs off a single battery that was included. It is also completely waterproof, just make sure to make sure you screw the base on very tightly so that no water can get inside and damage the toy.

It has loads of power – one reviewer complained there was too much power. But it’s name is Max Power so this is something to be aware of. I love that you twist the base to control the vibrations. Most bullets use a button but this has a twist dial, something else that’s unusual about this toy.

The Max Power Lipstick Vibe is powerful, yes but I wouldn’t say overly powerful. Because of it’s design it’s more for use on and around the clit rather than internal use or in between you and your partner during sex.

I loved one of the reviews on Bondara where a guy said his wife uses it at work and puts it in her make-up bag, then texts him when she’s used it. Other people have also commented how quiet it is and great to use in the next room without having people hear what you’re up to.

Pros

It’s a low price and a very discreet bullet.
There is loads of power to it.
It has a twist dial to control the speed.

Cons

The Rocks Off RO80 has been around for a long time and is now comes in a limited edition array of cool colours and patterns. Whatever style you buy it in, it’s an extremely popular bullet and for good reason.

The bullet itself is 3.25 inches long, and you can insert it up to 2.25 inches which isn’t a lot and bullets are more designed for external use than internal use, and to be nice and small and easy to travel with.

The RO80 also arrives with battery included and a storage bag to keep it clean and for discreet storage. Nice.

I wanted to list it here because of all the different choices this comes in, and it’s also a really really good bullet for any beginner or established sex toy user. Yes function is everything, but a style and colour that inspires you is also important!

When I think of a bullet vibrator, Rocks Off are the first manufacturer that springs to mind.

Their RO80 limited edition style has 7 speeds and patterns to choose from. Like most bullets, they are controlled by the single power button which you press and hold to switch on and off, or a single push moves through the functions.

The RO80 is well made, feels good, and is packed with power. Yet, it’s also quiet, as another reviewer pointed out. They were surprised at how quiet the RO-80 is.

The options to choose from are gold, cow-print, leopard-print, glow, colour-change, flower or snake-print. On the Bondara website where you can buy the limited edition designs, it’s received all 5 star reviews. This doesn’t surprise me because it is by Rocks Off.

Pros

It’s a well built, low cost bullet vibe.
There are plenty of functions to experiment with and it’s packed with power.
I love the choice of designs.
It’s completely waterproof and submergible.

Cons

It’s battery powered.

Overall I don’t think anyone can go wrong with an RO80 bullet. The main decision is really which design to you go for. My personal faves are the leopard print and the sparkly gold. Gorgeous!

The Lovehoney Dream Bullet is a bargain buy with 10 functions to choose from. It also comes in pink or purple. I like the purple best.

It’s a very traditional bullet with a single button to switch it on and off and for moving through the different speeds. It’s nice and small and discreet for traveling with, but it doesn’t lack power.

The packaging is a bit plain. But to be honest we’re all only really interested in the bullet itself. The Dream Bullet feels nice and soft to touch. The tip is great for more precise vibrations and it’s well made.

For power it runs off a single N battery. N batteries are really small ones. I was surprised at how quiet this bullet is too. It’s received so far a massive 455 reviews on the Lovehoney website, and overall a rating of 4.5 stars out of 5. This puts it firmly in my top 10 bullet vibrators in the UK! It has something special for sure.

Remember to take out the paper disc into the bullet when you receive it. This stops it going off in transit and using up all the battery. You just have to unscrew the end to access the battery inside. As it is waterproof (completely) make sure you screw the cap back on tightly so no water can possibly get inside and damage it.

The functions include first three continuous speeds, followed by seven different patterns. I particularly love patterns because some of them are like a tease and more fun than a continuous buzz. Everyone has their own likes and dislikes though!

With the Dream Bullet you can start with a light buzz, and move upwards to stronger and stronger vibrations.

Pros

It has 10 speeds which is lots of choice.
It’s low price, well made and feels soft.
It has lots of power and is also surprisingly quiet.
It’s got so many positive reviews that it’s difficult not to give this bullet serious consideration.

Cons

It is battery powered and the packaging isn’t very inspiring.

Although the majority of other reviewers said there were no cons, cons people did comment on was that the battery doesn’t last long and they’d have liked a holder to store it in. Overall it’s a great buy for the price, just be sure to have some spare batteries for it. If batteries aren’t your thing, consider a rechargeable bullet (coming up below).

I couldn’t write a list of the top 10 bullets without including a Lelo toy. I love the luxury of Lelo products, they are a firm favourite of mine and I can go on and on about Lelo!! I don’t apologise haha.

But Lelo also make some of the most expensive of sex toys too. So if budget is important to you, Lelo may not be your best choice. Saying that, I think it is worth indulging in yourself every now and then, and along with a lovely bottle of wine or whatever else floats your boat, splurging on a gorgeous sex toy is also so worth it!

Moving on to the Lelo Mia 2 and why it’s also number 2 in my best bullet vibrator round up.

The Lelo Mia 2 comes in three gorgeous colours, my favourite is pink. There’s also purple and black. The packaging, like all Lelo toys is gorgeous. It arrives in a matching gift box, on a velvet pillow and comes with a luxurious satin storage bag. It feels luxurious and amazing on your body.

The Lelo Mia 2 is completely rechargeable so not a battery in site. It has a twist on lid that comes on and off where you plug the Mia in to charge it up.

Before you can use the toy you will need to charge it up for 2 hours first so this is something to be aware of before you use it. If can plug directly into the USB port on your computer or laptop even.

It has push buttons to control the six different speed settings. The plus and minus buttons control the speed and these are also used to turn it on and off.

I love the locking feature too, it gives you total peace of mind that the Mia won’t go off in your suitcase or handbag if you are travelling with it. It looks like a lipstick too so is unlikely to raise major alarm bells if anyone else were to see it.

Annabelle Knight does a great video demonstration of the Mia in action so make sure you watch that to see it as close as possible in real life.

Pros

Where to begin?
It looks beautiful and luxurious. From the packaging and storage bag to the Mia itself.
It’s rechargeable.
It’s completely waterproof.
It’s a very quiet toy.
With its six speeds it has loads of power.

Cons

The only con for me is the price. It’s not the cheapest of bullets but despite it’s price is definitely a top toy in my best bullet vibrator list.

What you get for your money I reckon is fantastic and what you may spend on batteries with other toys, you would recoup with a rechargeable toy. But that’s just me. Battery powered toys are still very popular, and many are very good. You do also need to charge it up before you can get started playing with it.

The We Vibe Tango Lipstick looks beautiful. I reckon so anyway. And it really does look like a lipstick! I love the hot pink colour. It’s one of my favourite bullets and that’s why it’s in this round-up of the best bullet vibrators in the UK.

It arrives beautifully packaged and includes a posh satin storage bag. The We Vibe Tango has a nice angle to it (like a lipstick) that means you can touch specifically where you want the vibrations to hit. This, pardon the pun, is a really nice touch!

The 8 functions the We Vibe Tango Lipstick which include different speeds and vibration patterns. I love the amount of choice available to experiment with.

These are controlled with one single button. Amazingly it has a built in memory that remembers the last vibration setting you used it on.

How does it feel? I loved using this bullet and you can tell that it’s a really high quality toy compared to other (cheaper) bullets. You get what you pay for. But I have nothing against cheaper bullets, I’m just saying you can tell an obvious difference when you pay for a more expensive toy.

The built in memory wasn’t a selling point for me, but some people might like that. Moving through the function is easy to do by keep pressing the button on it.

It was good fun to use, very powerful, lots of experimentation with the different settings, and of course nice and pleasurable to use on your clit.

Charging up was a pleasure. You just plug it into a USB; you can also do this on your computer. It comes with everything you need. I love rechargeable toys. Batteries running out is a total pain.

The We Vibe Tango lipstick has a low charge light so you always know when it needs a recharge before it actually runs out.

Despite it’s power, it was also really quiet compared to other bullets. Anyone wanting a quiet bullet should definitely consider this one. Loved it.

The Cons

It’s not the cheapest of bullets, but it really is an investment. It’s number 1 in my best bullet vibrator round up because it’s my fave.

The price will put a lot of buyers off, but if you need any other opinions, check out the reviews (below) of what other people say. And remember this is an investment in yourself, your body is worth it!

Click through below and have a read of some of the other reviews, there are plenty available on the Lovehoney website.

You can also watch Annabelle Knight give a good demonstration of the We Vibe Tango Lipstick in action to give you an idea of what it’s really like and why it’s my number one best bullet vibrator.

I hope this round up has been helpful to you in choosing the best bullet vibrator for you! We’ve covered a wide range of bullets, from battery powered bullets, rechargeable USB bullets, animal patterns, bullets disguised as lipsticks, plus the higher end and lower end prices.

If you have any thoughts, comments or specific questions about choosing the best bullet vibrator for you, feel free to leave a comment below. I’ll do my best to help you. Have a lovely rest of your day!

Recently I’ve become a fan of g-spot toys. Some people can struggle to find theirs. But with a g-spot toy like this, it’s curved in the right place to hit yours, and when you do hit it, hell you will know about it!!

Let’s take a look at this toy and see what you think…

How big is it?

This toy is 2.5 inches, with a girth of 3.75 inches. It’s made with rigid ABS plastic, which means that you can press on it and get the right amount of pressure you like.

Does it work?

The curved tapered tip is ideal for hitting your g-spot easily. It gives amazing g-spot stimulation. You can press as hard or lightly as you like to get the right amount of vibration where you want it.

How does is it powered?

The Lovehoney Powerful Mini G-Spot Vibrator is powered with a single AA battery. You open it up and insert the battery by twisting it open, popping in the battery then twisting it back up. It has one single speed.

What are the positives?

1. It’s powerful!

2. It hits your g-spot.

3. It’s nice and small, yet does the job.

4. You could travel with it.

5. The price.

What are the negatives?

1. It’s not quiet.

2. It arrives in a sealed bag and I think the packaging could be nicer.

Overall

It’s £5.99! So it’s not going to be incredible but it’s a cheap, powerful little vibrator that does the job. It received 8 out of 10 on Lovehoney, with 452 reviews. That’s a lot of good reviews and people are mostly loving the Lovehoney Powerful Mini G-Spot Vibrator.

For it’s price, it’s definitely worth a punt, especially if you are interested in exploring your g-spot further.

Check out the reviews, see what other people are saying, and you can also watch Annabelle Knight giving you a video demonstration of the Lovehoney Powerful Mini G-Spot Vibrator in action.

We’re talking about using coconut oil as a natural lubricant

Some readers comment that they really don’t like using artificial lubes during sex and play time with their sex toys, and they would rather use something that’s more natural.

In this post I’m going to tell you a bit about using coconut oil as a natural lubricant.

Coconut oil has many fantastic uses! At room temperature coconut oil is usually hard, so to use it spoon some out of your jar first, warm it up in your hands and it will melt nicely.

Uses for coconut oil

It’s 100% natural and has no other chemicals added to it.

It can be used for eating and cooking with, and is jam-packed full of vitamins.

It’s great for using as a moisturiser on your hair and your skin.

And it can also be used as lube down there – so long as you follow these important guidelines!

Using coconut oil with your sex toys

Coconut oil is not compatible with all sex toys, and you need to know the material your toy is made from before you mix the two together. You can usually check this out on the packaging when you buy your toy.

Coconut oil cannot be used with the following:

Latex condoms (these will degrade and could lead to a happy, or not so happy accident further down the line).

Jelly toys

Rubber toys

PVC toys

Latex toys

Vinyl toys

Using coconut oil with any of these materials will degrade them and basically mess them up.

You can use coconut oil with:

Your own skin. It’s excellent as a personal lubricant. But you should test a very small amount on the inside of your wrist first to check there is no reaction first.

Toys made with:

Good quality silicone toys

Ceramic toys

Glass toys

Metal toys

When you’ve finished, make sure you give your toys a good wash to remove any coconut oil and keep them lovely and clean for the next time you use them. Using coconut oil as a natural lubricant is lovely and I highly recommend experimenting with this delicious material!

There are lots of foods you can eat (non slipper and slimey fish related) that can have a huge influence on increasing your sex drive – as a woman.

Salmon

Salmon is a fish high in omega-3s. These are great for improving the circulation in your body, and ultimately getting more blood flowing to your genitals. These leads to greater sensitivity and increased arousal.

Omega-3s are also excellent at improving the dopamine levels in your brain, a natural feel good chemical. More dopamine, means a better mood, and an enhanced sex drive! So eat plenty of salmon for all of it’s many benefits.

Watermelon

Water melon maybe virtually all water (92% so a great weight loss food too), it’s remaining 8% is packed full of essential sexual health vitamins.

These have even been shown to have dramatically effect your blood vessels and blood flow, which can enhance your sex drive. This is carried out by (here comes the science bit) a phytonutrient named citrulline. Your body is able to convert this into arginine which is an amino acid.

This amino acid then boosts your nitric oxide levels and relaxes the blood vessels in a similar way to how Viagra works.

All from eating water melon?! I gotta get me some of that.

Chocolate

Yes to that! Who doesn’t love chocolate? I couldn’t have a list of foods for women that increase your sex drive without mentioning chocolate. Here’s why.

Chocolate is high in magnesium. And magnesium is good for helping you feel more relaxed and de-stressed. More relaxation, less stress, equals a higher sex drive.

Have you ever noticed you’re more in the mood when you’re on holiday away from the stresses of every day life? Create more of that at home wherever possible.

Dark chocolate is even better. It contains phenylethylamine which helps release the endorphins you get through sex. So try to opt for dark chocolate, which has many other health benefits too.

Peaches

Peaches are a lovely fruit to consider for helping your sex drive improve.

There are studies you can find online that show peaches are packed full with vitamin C and can improve sex drive in women. They also boost your blood flow. An enhanced blood flow means you are turned on more easily.

Oatmeal

Oatmeal may not sound very exciting when it comes to sex drive. Sorry. But it does contain a really important chemical called L-arginine. This has been used to treat erectile dysfunction in men, and in women it helps improve blood flow to your clitoris!

Sounds like a great reason to opt for oatmeal in the morning and definitely high in the foods for women that increase your sex drive!

Gingseng

Women who take ginseng supplements have been found to increase their libido level in as little as a month as well as increase their overall sex life. You can take ginseng as a supplement or have a ginseng tea.

Be careful not to opt for just anything with ginseng in it, you want to make sure it isn’t something that’s also packed full of chemicals and sugar that’s hopping on the ginseng train.

Too many bad ingredients will counteract all of the benefits of ginseng.

Cranberries

Cranberries are an excellent natural diuretic which means they can really help you have a flatter tummy and debloat, just from drinking (unsweetened) cranberry juice.

Less bloat, means you feel better, you can move more easily with more energy and you feel a heck of a lot more sexy! So that’s a great way to improve your sex drive just through a drink.

Cranberry juice is also great at preventing urinary tract infections (UTI) which are surprisingly common in women and most ladies will experience one of these at least once in their life.

Beef

Ideally you want to opt for grass-fed beef, but that’s not always possible. Beef is an excellent source of zinc which is the same libido-enhancing nutrient that is found in oysters. How would you like your steak madam?

Figs

Figs are great for releasing sexy pheromones. Not sure? Try eating five figs before you have sex and find out for yourself! Figs are also considered excellent for enhancing your fertility so if you’re thinking of getting pregnant, stock up on your figs. Another great fruit in this list of foods for women that increase your sex drive.

Eggs

Eggs really help boost your energy levels and ability to focus, as well as this they are good for balancing out your hormones and regulating your libido. All excellent qualities for a higher sex drive.

Whether you opt for scrambled, boiled, deviled, poached or fried, eat eggs regularly and notice how your sex drive improves – especially if someone else lovingly makes them for you to eat in bed, hint hint.

Ginger

Ginger is a natural libido enhancer. Whether you eat it raw, as a supplement or in a tasty drink, it all helps. Ginger also has many other benefits like boosting your immune system, circulation and detoxification.

Add a splash of ginger where ever you can!

I hope this list of foods for women that increase your sex drive have given you some new ideas on how you can feel more in the mood.

Above all, take good care of yourself and eat well whenever you can for optimum sex drive!

“How often should you clean your sex toys?”

It’s really really important to clean your sex toys each and every time you use them.

The simple answer to this question is – every time.

If you don’t clean them, they can harbour lots of nasty bacteria which can grow, and give you infections and make you unwell.

It is a chore, but an essential one. As soon as possible after you’ve finished using your toy, wash it in the sink in some warm water with a little bit of mild soap.

You don’t want any gunk drying up on or in the toy. Get in amongst any nooks and crannies to make sure there is nothing left in there that could be left unclean and grow bacteria.

Plus the very thought of using an unwashed sex toy is pretty gross. Respect yourself, respect your toys and keep them clean.

Ideally you want to air dry your toys because many of them, when wet will attract and stick to the slightest bit of dust around! This is so annoying, they’re like dust magnets.

But air drying is not always possible when you need to hide it away like when you share a house with other people and don’t want your vibrator left out in the bathroom and giving someone a big shock!

A clean towel or some kitchen roll can be used instead of air drying, and store it away somewhere clean and dry for the next time you use it. Many sex toys (especially the higher end ones) come with storage bags now to keep them in which are really handy and discreet.

So remember, how often should you clean your sex toys? Wash your toys after every single use! It will take you no more than two minutes in total to rinse, wash, and dry, and it’s well worth the time.

“How often can you use a sex toy?”

The answer is, as long as you are enjoying the experience, as often as you like!

Sex toys are extremely safe and have to pass strict and stringent safety regulations before you can buy them here in the UK.

If you want to use your sex toy every day, do it. Multiple times a day? Go for it!

Why? Women who regularly use sex toys increase their clitoral sensations and improve their quality of orgasms. It’s healthy and it improves your overall quality of life too. You know who you are, you’re a sensual woman when you use sex toys regularly!

They are also a great way of exploring what you enjoy, and learning more about what feels good, with or without a partner. With this knowledge, you can let your partner know ‘this is what I like’, ‘this is what I want you to do.’

And trust me, there is nothing more sexy than a woman who knows what she likes and what she wants! Your partner will love it. Experimenting with your sex toys definitely helps you become this person.

It is possible to occasionally experience some mild discomfort from a long vibrating session, and you can over do it causing some temporary clitoral numbness, but the trick is to notice when you are feeling this way and to have a break. This is only ever temporary, and your body will tell you when it’s becoming too much, so mixing it up with some non-vibrational stimulation is a good way of not overdoing the vibrations.

I’m talking about vibrating for one long period of time, not regular shorter intervals.

So to summarise, how often can you use a sex toy? They relieve stress, they teach you about your body, they add new ways of enjoying time with your partner, and they are a very healthy part of a happy sex life.

I’m not usually remotely surprised by sex toys. The sex selfie stick is one of the few that really did surprise me!

Because it’s so much more than a vibrator/bullet sex toy.

It has a camera and a light inside it. And it comes with software.

Yes software!

In brief it’s a sex toy that streams video, so that you can record and share your extreme close up intimate self-pleasuring and broadcast it to your chosen one far away (or even in the same room as you). I’m talking extreme intimacy, inside you and wherever else you choose to show.

Some people are raving about this new hot toy, others are rather appalled by it.

So as soon as I saw the sex selfie stick, I knew I had to review it.

It’s so far been featured on the Huffington Post, Cosmo and the Independent. It has people talking that’s for sure.

What’s in the box?

When you order your sex selfie stick you receive the vibrator itself, along with a draw-string storage bag, USB cable, software disc and instructions.

What does it look like?

The sex selfie stick comes in two colours, black and purple. To me the purple is more of a burgandy red colour than purple. But it’s still a nice colour even if it’s not true purple. I prefer it to the black.

It can be inserted up to 4 inches, and has 3.2 inches of girth.

How is it powered?

The sex selfie stick is rechargeable and is charged via USB on your computer. It has ‘ultra fast charging’ and only takes 1.5 hours, for a 8 hours of actual use.

When you receive your sex selfie stick you will need to charge it up first, which is a bit of a pain but one that I could live with. It’s charged by removing the pin covering the charging hole, inserting the charger and plugging it into a USB port.

Make sure you put the pin back in, as this keeps it completely waterproof.

How is it controlled?

To switch the vibrator on, press the S button for a couple of seconds. This makes the sex selfie stick burst into life. To switch between vibration patterns you just press the arrows to go up and down the available settings.

To switch the sex selfie stick off, just press and hold down the S button again and the vibrations will stop.

What are the features?

This vibrator is sooo much more than a vibrator.

The sex selfie stick is completely waterproof and submergible, so you can safely put it under water and use it in the bath. You can see Annabelle Knight demonstrating the sex selfie stick in the video below.

It has 5 functions to choose from so has a few different options to experiment with. There are some great patterns to play with. Ones that go fast and some that are slower.

There is even ‘intelligent mode’ which is pretty cool and in this mode the sex selfie stick automatically gradually gets faster, so it’s great for teasing yourself!! I loved that. You get into intelligent mode by pressing the S button in the centre again.

Using the camera

To use the HD camera and built in LEDs, you will need to be near a computer. It doesn’t matter if you have a Mac or PC computer. For PCs you will need to just install the software that it comes with. If you’re using a Mac, it works already with the built in Facetime.

Remove the pin cover, and plug in the USB cable, then plug the other end into your computer.

Then press the camera button, and it will immediately switch on the camera and the light. You know when the camera is on because it’s all lit up. (All of this is in the instructions that you can follow when you receive yours).

Remember – don’t use this near water when using the camera feature. It is waterproof only with it’s pin inside and not plugged into your computer!

When it’s switched on, open Facetime or the program you are using, and you will then be able to show on there whatever you point your camera at! It’s well worth watching Annabelle Knight’s demonstration to see this in action.

Click through to watch the video demo.

Does it work?

As a vibrator, it is very powerful. You always tend to get a lot more power anyway in rechargeable toys compared to battery powered ones so that is expected. The vibration patterns are really cool, and I especially love the intelligent mode that starts off slower and gets faster.

Despite it’s power, it is also really quiet and you could use this without someone in the next room hearing you.

The HD camera and light are definitely an awesome feature for couples who are far away, and close together too. Other reviewers on the Lovehoney website just wanted to have a closer look at what goes on inside them when they orgasm and this is also good for that too.

For couples far apart, it’s a brilliant way of sharing intimacy virtually. And is the next best thing to being together in person.

What about lubricant?

It’s always important to use the right kind of lube. You should go for a water-based one so as not to damage your sex selfie stick. Oil based ones can react with silicone coatings. When you’ve invested in a high end toy like this one, the last thing you want to do is damage it with cheap lube.

What are the pros?

As a vibrator the many different functions, speeds and patterns. The patterns can be moved between quickly, and the speed increased and slowed down with a quick press of the arrows.

The intelligent mode is awesome, and I love the way you can tease yourself with increasing vibration intensity slowly.

It’s HD camera feature and LED light is great! Plus it comes with software for PC users. The camera is high quality and very clear.

It’s water-proof which is great (but not waterproof without the pin cover in) so you can vibrate in the bath, shower and keep it nice and clean without worry of water damage.

The material is gorgeously soft and yet it feels well-built and strong. I also love the purple/burgundy colour.

What are the cons?

Other reviewers have mentioned are that they wished it had clearer instructions. To me it is fairly self explanatory so if you are already good with technology, and the people this is aimed at are fully up to speed with it so you shouldn’t have any problems.

One person said they wished it was longer. It has an insertable length of 4 inches. I can see why they would like it longer but I feel it’s features make up for that! Size isn’t everything hey?!

Overall verdict

I loved the sex selfie stick, it’s especially good for couples who have distance between them but want to share some intimacy. Get yours now, see what you think and leave a comment!

When you order a sex toy online, does anyone else know that’s what you’ve ordered?

I get asked this question a lot.

What shows up on your bank statement?

And how does the parcel look when its delivered?

Will your old neighbour Ted know that the parcel he’s just signed for when you weren’t in is your new dildo?

Your bank statements

The vast majority of online sex shops will not show on your bank statement who you have actually ordered from, as they use a trading name.

For example Lovehoney says LH Trading. That could be anyone.

It’s not immediately obvious.

Your parcel

This got delivered next door. No clues about what’s inside.

Your parcel arrives plain and there is no way of telling what’s inside it. It does not have “sex toy!” written anywhere on it.

There is usually a returns address which again, is not the address of where you ordered from. Like the above example, it may say return to “LH Trading” but that’s about it. It could be from anyone.

I have ordered parcels many times from online toy shops that have gone next door, it’s not ideal! But I don’t mind really because there is no way of telling from the box what is inside.

Relax

So, when you are ordering your sex toys, you can relax knowing that your parcel is discreet, and your bank accounts won’t be lit up with the names of online toy shops when you have to send a statement off somewhere.

It is discreet. And it is easy to order and have that toy you’ve got your eye on in your possession without any concerns about who else knows!

I am a massive fan of Lelo vibrators, although they are pretty pricey for sex toys. I think that is half of their appeal though. Investing in a Lelo is like you are truly investing in and valuing your own sensuality.

When you buy a Lelo (in my opinion), you’re declaring to yourself that you are worth the best.

What’s in the box?

The beautifully packaged (very strong) gift box contains your new Lelo Insignia Soraya on a bed of velvet (nice), a satin storage bag for safe and discreet keeping, a mains charger, personal moisturiser (posh term for lube), a Lelo brooch to wear proudly and a very confident 10 year warranty.

What does it look like?

I always love the design of Lelo toys, they’re what you call ergonomically designed. So they just ‘fit’ you and your womanly curves. Nicely. Plus this makes them look classy and feminine too.

The Soraya has a nice loop to hold on to whilst you’re using it.

One reviewer on Lovehoney described it as a “like a perfectly engineered piece of art” and I’d agree with that. You’re not just buying a luxury rabbit vibrator, you’re buying art!

To be honest I’ve never been a fan of sex toys in black, ever. But unusually I really love the Lelo Insignia Soraya in black. The gold adds a touch of sheer class to it. I also love the purple version which is the one I opted for.

Whichever colour of the Soraya you go for, both are beautiful and coated in soft, seam free silicone.

How does it work?

The Lelo Insignia Soraya has two separate motors which gives it a lot of strength in both vibrating areas, the rabbit bit and the main insertable section.

You control it with the 3 built in push button controls and there are 8 functions you can choose.

There’s the plus button for switching it on and increasing speed, the middle button is the function button and the minus button is for switching it off and lowering speed.

Keep playing around and see which speed and setting you like best.

How big is the Lelo Insignia Soraya?

The Soraya is a nice size at 8.5 inches long with an insertable length of 5 inches. It’s widest circumference is 4.1 inches.

How is it powered?

It’s mains rechargeable! Yes! I love mains powered sex toys because of the ease of just plugging them in, charging them up and away you go. Gone are the days (in higher end toys anyway) of messing around with batteries that last for about 10 minutes before they’ve run out.

The Lelo Insignia Soraya takes around 2 hours to fully charge it and it last for 4 hours of vibrating time.

What are some of the features?

It has a travel lock so you know it won’t end up buzzing in your suitcase during security checks. To lock it you just hold down the plus and minus buttons together, it flashes to show you it’s locked. When you try turning it on it then won’t turn on until you unlock it.

The Lelo Insignia Soraya is completely waterproof so you can use it in the bath with no problem. It’s bizarre at first submerging it under water when it’s mains charged – but don’t worry, it doesn’t break it! The special seal where the mains lead plugs in is covered by the silicone.

When you get yours you’ll see what I mean. You can also see Annabelle Knight demonstrate these features too in her video review.

How loud is it?

Well are you are you ready for this? What can you expect from a high end sex toy like the Lelo Insignia Soraya?

It is virtually silent.

I kid you not. You can check out the video of Annabelle Knight on Lovehoney demonstrating this for an idea of noise level. I have used some ridiculously loud toys in my time, and this one is like a little whisper. Shhhhh.

It’s an ideal toy for when you need to be very very quiet like when you’re sharing a house with someone else. They won’t hear it.

What are the pros?

There are so many good points to the Lelo Insignia Soraya (can you tell I love this toy) which is why it’s firmly in my list of 7 of the best rabbit vibrators! Here’s a round-up of my fave features!

Gorgeous look and design and colours.

Main rechargeable.

Water-proof and submergible.

Nice and easy to use well-placed buttons.

Travel lock.

A good size and the loop handle is good to hold.

The gorgeous gift box, velvet and extras that come with it.

It’s pure luxury.

What are the cons?

The only real one is the price. If you have tried this yourself and would like to add anything here please feel free to comment or message me.

It’s an expensive toy for sure, but if you’ve got the cash to spend on a high end luxury sex toy, the Lelo Insignia Soraya is one to seriously consider.

Other reviewers have said that there is no way to check the level of charge. I can see this feature being added in future but it is a little unfair to criticise it for this, seeing as you can’t check the charge level of a battery-operated toy either.

The fact that you can just plug it in and charge it up is pretty damn cool to me. You can also use it whilst it’s on charge, if you really wanted to.

Another reviewer said the free badge was pointless. What are you seriously saying you wouldn’t wear your Lelo badge with pride? How dare you! (joking a little here).

What are other people saying?

Read more of what other people are saying about the Lelo Insignia Soraya. It isn’t just me who loves my Soraya!

Get yours: (prices do go up and down, these are correct at the time of writing).

The film received so much criticism that I was a little concerned they wouldn’t make the next two books. There were also rumours that Jamie Dornan’s wife had said she didn’t want him to do anymore of the films.

Personally, I LOVED it.

And it’s great news that Jamie Dornan is back as Christian next year. I always find it too weird when lead roles are switched with a different actor half way through the series. I know he wasn’t perfect, but it was good. He is definitely hot, and he did a great job of playing mysterious Christian.

Here is Christian wearing his mask in a sneak preview of what’s coming up in the next film.

The current date set for Fifty Shades number 2 is the 10th February 2017. 2017!!!! Can we wait that long?

Followed by the third film, Fifty Shades Freed a whole year later in 2018. What!

Apparently filming is beginning next year. Watch this space!!

Mr Grey Will See You Now

And sorry, (not sorry haha), I couldn’t resist adding the sexiest Jamie Dornan scenes from the first film.

**Edit – sorry the video originally posted here from YouTube got taken down.

This swing is for the adventurous ones amongst you. It’s good fun though, I promise you!! Keep reading to find out all about the Lux Fetish Sex Swing and if it’s for you before you buy.

What is the Lux Fetish Sex Swing?

Well, it’s a sex swing with a very sturdy support frame that helps you enjoy the very best positions possible! It uses carabiner clips, a spring and a chain.

What’s included in the box?

You get the swing itself, a manual, plus two body straps and two foot stirrups.

What are the features?

This swing has some pretty cool features I must say. Here’s a few of them:

It has padded supports that feel comfortable. The supports are velvety and feel really luxurious. You can also adjust the size of the straps to suit you and the positions you are using it in, and the padding is removable too.

How heavy can you be to use it?

The Lux Fetish Sex Swing holds a person up to 1000 lb in weight, or 71 stone (453 kg!) Yikes! That’s pretty heavy. I think that covers most of us. The frame is industrial strength to a professional standard, so you know you’re buying something that’s really high quality and well built.

Where can I use this swing?

As it is tall, it’s best if your room has a high ceiling and it’s recommended has strong rafters.

What are the good points?

You can use it for all manner of positions.

It feels very sturdy and secure when you are in it and it’s easy to get into.

Are there any bad points?

One bad but kind of obvious point here is that you do need to assemble this swing, although assembling it is fairly straightforward. But it does mean that it’s going to be up until you disassemble it. If you have a dedicated area for it that’s great.

BUT if you don’t want something that needs assembly and can be used and put away in seconds, consider the Door Jam Sex Swing I recently reviewed. This one goes over a door and doesn’t take up any room.

What are other people saying?

There is plenty more to read about the Lux Fetish Sex Swing. Incredibly this swing has received 10 out of 10, and 5 five star reviews so far. It’s definitely something that I and other people are really enjoying.