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Well my oldest is 19 and he's still a virgin. My youngest is 14 and she's never been kissed yet (not that I'm aware of). My daughter and I are open, so I would hope that she would come to me about something like that.

my 17 year old daughter has been with her boyfriend for a year, about 6 months ago she told me she was having sex. We talked about it and I took her to get birth control. I had her get the implant in her arm because at 17 I can't expect her to take a pill every day.

Well #1 it depends what you mean by underage? By 17ish I would make sure they knew how to be safe and supply them with contraception. If you are talking 12-15 I would never be allowing them out of my sight and if the opposite person was older than 16 I would be going to the police.

To be hones I would be very sad. U said underage so I'm thinking 16 and younger. I talk about it with my kids all the time. When the time comes i hope they use the into they have learned and keep themselves safe. When my son was 15 (last year) His very first girlfriend was pregnant with her 2nd child when they met. Altho the relationship was very brief it gave him a uniquie perspective. I don't worry with him as much (1) because he's almost 17 so his age isnt that big of a factor (2) he strongly believes in waiting for marriage. How long that will last I don't know. But for now. I would also have them chat again with my neice who is HIV positive. She's also dealt with other std's. she's had conversations with them in the past and probably will again.

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