It is fun when you are single and not searching but it’s not fun when you are single and searching, that phrase alone can sometimes be frustrating talk more of the process.

Single time is basically the right time to catch your breath and realize who you are as a person and how to better yourself but that doesn’t mean you have to be forever single and as a single lady who is ready to mingle there are some certain things you should be ready to do because how is a man supposed to find you if you’re living in your own shell.

So, if you truly want to find that special man or rather, have that man find you, there are appropriate steps to take and you need to keep reading to understand few of these steps outlined for you in this article.

Here are 5 things you should do if you are single and searching;

Take nice pictures: “This is very very important, you need to take good pictures of yourself and show off your best angles, get the most flattering angles for your selfies and make use of natural light and not filters, sunlight gives the best glow”.

Be visible: “Visibility is key, constantly posting pictures and attending all events possible, but you need to let people see you so go out, take care of yourself, invest in your looks and let men see your beauty, let them appreciate your glow, let them wonder if there’s a man in your life, and because there isn’t, let them want to be that man”.

Keep Your DM’s Open & unlock all accounts: “It’s always funny when single people especially ladies has private accounts on Instagram and Twitter, why are you making it hard for your stalker and crush? Most men like to go through pictures and have a look at what they are going for before taking the next step, if your account is now locked, my sister, you are on your own o (OYO)”.

Attend single functions: “Targeting single populated places is another key, single populated places are places where you have the maximum congregation of single people together because single men like to stay together and they go out together”.

Cling to your creator: “If you do all these things, or have been doing them and no luck, like no man has even looked at you, then pray please as it just might be your village people lol”.