First post and I have to say that this is an excellent site for information and just frank, down to earth info and it has helped me a lot.Anyway, my first ever girlfriend and I of about six months, and our relationship has progressed well. We've hugged, kissed, kissed some more, held each other close, made out on her couch (hot and sweaty afterwards), all that but nothing more. I'm to the point that I want to feel her boobs, and I've stayed away from them but I want to do it now. My question is when and how, I feel that I should just ask and not just do it but what should be the mood or how do I ask? Something more better than "Hey, can I play with your tits?"?

welcome to the boards!!!hmm... i think after you and her going out for 6 months, it shouldnt be too much of a problem to feel her up lol. just, whenever it gets hot with her (make out), just bring your hands up slowly around her back and massage her back. then slowly bring your hand in front and feel away ^_^

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*~I don't mind living in a man's world..As long as I can be a woman in it!~* -Marilyn

Well what worked for me was just doing the same things we always did, we made out and whatnot like always but one day she just took my hand and put it on her boob then squeezed. Taking that as a sign from god many a fondling sessions ensued.

You generally dotn ask, when you get hot and sweaty you kinda just get in the mood and bring your hands slowly down to there. I doubt she will be freaked out,maybe suprised at first but chances are she will like it.

12/29/06We were making out and saying goodbye but you know how that goes, going to leave at midnight but I stayed until 2. Anyway, I was standing behind her holding her and she commented on her birthstone necklace that I gave her at christmas. I took the moment to look at it with my hands and I just kept them there, she brought her hands to mine but she didn't move my hands. Later, just talking and kissing her neck my hands kept going lower but not on her boobs, and I asked if she was okay with my hands being there and she said that "she was comfortable and she didn't bite, unless it was a love bite." She looked up at me and smiled, I kissed her and held her closer and gently took hold of her soft and warm breasts. Her hands were still with mine and we didn't let go of each other until I left.

I invited her over to stay with me and my family New Years Eve. My family had a great time and we kissed at midnight. She spent the night and after family left, we got involved again and I cupped her breasts while we were making out (bra and shirt) and then later she let me play with them without her nightshirt on. Wow.

the next time you make out, put your hands either on her hips, or her face or around her, and work your way towards the boobs, then caress them. if she says 'no dont do that' just say sorry. Its all about testing the water. Like, if you wanted to finger her, you could slowly move your hand in that direction, and if she says not to, then just dont. She wont be mad, how else are you meant to know?-ak

Originally Posted By: NewToThis12/29/06We were making out and saying goodbye but you know how that goes, going to leave at midnight but I stayed until 2. Anyway, I was standing behind her holding her and she commented on her birthstone necklace that I gave her at christmas. I took the moment to look at it with my hands and I just kept them there, she brought her hands to mine but she didn't move my hands. Later, just talking and kissing her neck my hands kept going lower but not on her boobs, and I asked if she was okay with my hands being there and she said that "she was comfortable and she didn't bite, unless it was a love bite." She looked up at me and smiled, I kissed her and held her closer and gently took hold of her soft and warm breasts. Her hands were still with mine and we didn't let go of each other until I left. wow, you could be a modern romance novelist or somethingthat was a very sensual discription

That's what happened.
I've been a lover with words since I can remember. Hallmark is waiting for me. :smile:
It's just I love this young woman and I don't know how to treat her or anybody else any other way.