Claire: Oh! How you create a moment of crisis - that is, how you create circumstances that will lead up to a moment of crisis - is, you propose something that requires resolution.

So then, push/pull refers to what happens between the moment when I propose a thing and its moment of crisis. Push is when nobody else gets to contribute between when I propose a thing and its moment of crisis. Pull is when I solicit other people's contributions between when I propose a thing and its moment of crisis.

And DitM/DatE refers to what happens between the moment when I propose a thing and its moment of resolution. DatE is when nobody else gets to say anything between when I propose a thing and when it resolves. DitM is when other people do get to contribute between when I propose a thing and when it resolves.

They look identical to me. The moment of crisis is the moment when it becomes true or false. The moment of resolution is when it becomes true or false too. It's all the same thing.