And the other thing I hate... is when you get all twitterpated over some girl who probably wouldnt give ya the time of day... /sigh... and you think she's perfect because she just makes you feel so damn good, you adore her more than she could dream, only to know that there's no chance in hell for you to ever be lucky enough to have that person feel the way that you do. And you're afraid to say/do anything because you know that she's just too damn good for you.

Totally true, I think this is the worst case of love-sickness. I'm 17, in my first year of college and this, of course, happened to me. But the worst thing was after the girl (whom I was majorly into) started going out with another guy a month ago... I was talking to her best friend (who is also one of my close friends), and she told me that the girl (whom I was into for so long, but didnt ask out) was very much interested in a relationship with me, and that if I would have asked her out she would have definately have gone out with me.

sucks even more being dumped and having your ex's new gf make an enchantress ON YOUR SERVER and send you tells all the time of the double entendre fun they have with her being a high elf blonde..gah. shoot me now.
/comfort anyways....*hugs*
The HolyHottie

Finding out that the guy she dumped you it 5'10 130 lbs, white with a shaved head (which I thought was outlawaed) in addition to being a large fan of graphitti and neo-naziism (not even stretching the truth), thus realizing that it is she that has the problems, not you: PRICELESS

3 months after you broke up and after your ex-girlfriend and the neo-nazi have realized things haven't worked out, talking to your ex and figuring out that she's coming on to you.....and that you don't care: EVEN MORE PRICELESS

Ok, ive been dealign with a recent breakup after seriously going out with this guy nearly two and a half years, it kinda sucks hearing assholes like you talk about using girls like that, cause honestly, it gives absoluetely no hope for us girls who have to deal with this bs. Frankly, i did everything in the world for this kid, and hes gonna regret it some day. He knows im the best he will ever find, casue i believe that i am. So, for all teh guys like you who are out there who tell us girls that we are pieces of shit, can kiss my ass, becasue u dont konw what the hell love really is.

Its late and I cant sleep. Flipping through the boards and ran across this thread and thought I would add a few lines for your amusement.

If you want to know what truly sucks, try having your pregnant fiancee dump you via instant message while you are at work. Add a threatened abortion into the mix and the fact that one TOS violation would have cost me my job at the time, and stir vigorously.

Getting dumped is at worst, a temporary pain. Cry, rant, and rave till your just too tired to move, then sleep it off. Next month you can start over most likely.

Shardmoon

P.S. Thankfully I have a daughter, almost 3 years old to ease the sting.

being dumped really sucks, I can add a few stories too but *sigh* anyways, all I can say is Time has a funny way of showing you the people who will stay with you through it all.
Don't know why I just said that but it popped into my head ;D

the worst is when you ask out someone you really like and they tell you "they always saw you as a good friend"...what the fuck does that mean? If i was such a good friend then why wouldn't you want to spend more time with me? If you're going to let someone down, at least give a semi-legit reason rather than a cop out that doesnt make sense...

I wish I could come on and flame my ex... but the cold hard truth is there was no love in the relationship anymore...
I will get over the loss of that special someone... someday...

I will let you know that it gets easier when you can talk to someone and be completely honest with them about how you feel.... You must first be willing to be honest with yourself.
I know what a mature relationship is about... Trust, and tenderness, honesty as well as childlike behavior...
being yourself without fear of someone decideing they dont love you anymore...
only to have them comeback after their next relationship fails...
I only ride the rollercoast once for the same person after that it would take some convinceing and time for a second try...

I honestly dont know why I posted this, just hope it may help some people<includeing myself>

The hardest thing about ending a long relationship is meeting new people.... especially when your main hobbie is playing video games... LOL

Gonna start a singles forum for MMPOG people...
I mean we already have the perfect way to get to know each other <ingame> and a common interest to ease the awkward first meeting syndrome....

Call me a blind romantic, I believe there is someone for everyone, so many times in my life I thought I had met that "someone" untill the relationship went sour and I kind of got jaded and thought fuck it maybe there isn't someone for everyone.

That all changed I met my current girlfriend, I just knew straight away that she was the one, she has helped me through so much shit and is there for me always, she has made me face up to a lot of bad shit that happened in my past and has made me a better person for it.

Props out to you Flickering, you know I love you.

Sorry if I made any of you other Emarr Scumbags sick with what is probably my first and last soppy post on this board.

In all honesty tho ive been and am still going thru some crappy times in my life and if it wasnt for Dwark i doubt id even get out of bed most days. He's been my rock and a good punching bag for those times i got nasty, and in a way im glad to have gone thru those bad relationships, cos when i met Dwark i knew he was everything i wanted in a guy...minus the fact that he dont clean the kitchen after he cooks :P

I must say being dumped or dumping either one sucks. I am a spiritual person, however and this last time I had the end of a relationship I finally achieved the 'greatest love of all'.

I know that to some of you it sounds corny and cliche, but here it is. I just realized one day that I LOVE ME! I have always been there for me. I am all I need. I am God, I am Goddess, I am Divine!!! (Some of you may call this blasphemy, but think about it. Even the bible says that God is in everything living.)

So I found what I needed. And if someone some day is mature enough to share that with me then I will be in heaven on earth instead of just completely happy to be alive like I am now. (And no I don't go around overly cheerful like a sickly sweet person. Just when I think about it everything else seems minor.)

I got dumped a little while ago... I also posted here about it. I have faced my deamons about it... I realized that I will never be able to date her again... without trust there is nothing.
Since I came to that realization: I have met someone that shares my hobbies and some of my views. I am taking it slow. I dont want to use her as a backboard... I feel the heart break mending and the void getting PUSHED out... just because we can talk... about anything... something I have rarely experienced...
I must admit I am glad my ex dumped me in some ways...
I never would have talked to this new person if she hadn't...
you see I am truely faithful... when I make a commitment I avoid any kind of temptations... not purposely either... I just do it... or don't do it, so to speak...
by the way is there anything wrong with wanting to settle down and have fun with one person for the rest of you life?
I know I am kinda old fashion... I want to get married and have a family and know that it's for the rest of my life... I dont understand why people dont want to share their life with just one person.... I see it all the time... hell my ex is like it... I think it's fun shareing your life with the same person... people make it sound dreary and something to fear.... I have not always had this view it is something that came with age I guess...

Nothing wrong with wanting to be with one person your whole life. However, it's not for everyone. Some people like variety, some like to be alone. It takes all kinds.

I do think some of it has to do with age (more like maturity) ... and really, it's not always easy to find that perfect person. Think of all the people in the world and how different everyone is ... now what are the chances of you meeting someone that fits you just right? And a lot of it has to do with growing together, becoming friends, compromising, etc. Some people get lucky and meet their "soulmate" early in life. For the rest of us it takes time and several relationships. Often times we have to be ready for this to happen too.

I try not to hate or judge my ex's. We just ended up not being compatible. Maybe the breakup wasn't handled in the best way, but these things are never easy. You'll get over it eventually and be better off in the long run.

Aedory's got it figured out. Once you start loving yourself, you stop looking for something or someone else to fill that void in your life. Then you can start looking for a partner for the right reasons.

The problem with using another person to fill the void made by not loving yourself is that the other person will never be able to meet your expectations for filling that void. They'll never be able to love you enough.

Once you've started loving yourself, breaking up with someone won't hurt nearly as much. It's still sad, but at least it hurts less.