Even if it's with your friends, I feel like we all have too many cute dresses to eat at Bareburger every time we go out to dinner.

That could just be me? HA.

Justin and I's date nights are straight up fast casual 99% of the time.

In and out in, about 30 minutes. Rule #1, not talking when the food comes.

So to keep it spicy, sometimes you just need that date night attire to be HOT FIRE.

Especially when you've been dating a while, Justin now sees me most days, with a bun on my head in lesbian button down tops and sneakers, or sweaty workout clothes.

Zero to a hundred, and date night is a hundred.

Also I just got back from Bali and it's so important that we spend some QT together and I'm SHOWERED. Doing a full recap on Bali and guide this weekend!

This dress is on sale, from Free People, it's super sexy and flattering though. I usually don't go for body-con dresses, but I don't know, this one's comfortable.

It's definitely a bit 'boobie' though, so your going to be hanging out or exposed, but sometimes you just gotta live. When I go out to dinner just Justin and I, is when I like to wear boob tops.

Otherwise, I cover up all day, because I don't like walking down the street seeing dads check out my rack.

Ya feel me?

It's so important to get dressed up feel sexy and make the shift with your partner, like to both get ready for each other and treat each other like you're dating again, even if the dinner lasts 45 minutes before you want to get back in your sweatpants.

I feel like when I get busy, Justin gets the least amount of my time and attention, like I'll just plan to see him at night, or in the morning (since we live together) and I'd like to change that.

I also think since he's my dude for life, that I have time with him (just in the future!)