Since January you’ve managed to keep your newly-adopted son, Louis Bardo Bullock, a wonderful secret from the world — and we hope this brings you joy in this incredibly difficult time! And your proclamation that you’re adopting as ‘a single parent’ means you’ve moved on from Jesse James — for good.

Sandra Bullock has stayed almost completely out of the public eye since news of her husband Jesse James’s cheating broke March 17.

And now we’ve learned what may have been sustaining her in the six weeks since: People reports that Sandra has adopted a baby boy, Louis Bardo Bullock, now 3 1/2 months, and born in New Orleans.

According to the mag, Sandra, 45, and Jesse, 41, actually “began the adoption process four years ago and brought Louis home in January” but kept the adoption a secret until after the Oscars. The rest of the family, clearly, helped keep the secret from the press.

People also reports that Bullock is adopting “as a single parent” — which is the clearest indication yet that she’s completely over and done with Jesse.

Bullock has reportedly decided not to seek any kind of custody of Jesse’s kids Sunny, 6, Jesse Jr., 12, and Chandler, 15.