I have received many an email from women asking me about the way a man is acting and what it might mean, or not mean. More often than not, women who are doubting the feelings of the man in their life, are usually right. Meaning, if he’s just not that into you, you will probably know.

Nevertheless, though, it is easy to be caught up in infatuation or mutual attraction, and overlook the warning signs. I read a quote once that said “follow your heart, but take your brain with you,” and this is exactly what we need to do in dating and relationships. Too much emotion or logic can cloud our judgment, and we need to have a balance of both.

So, what are some signs that he’s just not that into you?

He makes generalized statements in your direction rather than talking about you.