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Nov 12, 2012

I don’t believe in fairy tales anymore.

Gone
were the days when I would read novels or fairy tales. I just don’t believe in that stuff
anymore. It is just a product of the author’s optimism in love. I happen to know that sense and sensibilities’
author was a spinster who vowed that all her stories will end in a happy ever
after so unlike her real life love story.

The
irony is that in reality so many of us are just in love with the idea of love. When it wears off, we just move on to another
relationship believing that Mr. Perfect has not yet crossed our path. In reality there is no such thing as Mr.
Perfect, only acceptance that this person is okay for you. A person has two faces the bad and the
good. If you can live with the bad side
of that person it could be that you accepted him/her but it does not
necessarily mean that you love him/her. There are many reasons why people stay
in a relationship even if it soured not just love. If you are in an abusive relationship would
you still stay because you love the person? Or you just stay because you are
afraid to be alone?

Abusive relationship means not just the
physical aspect but also the emotional one which hurts the most. One example of
an emotional one is when you are married to an unfaithful partner. The person knows that his/her partner is hurting
but continued on with numerous affairs even to the extent of being caught. Can you stop that kind of person
from doing what he/she does? Sadly, no you just can’t decide for her/him but
you can decide for yourself. Love
yourself, this is just the answer and if you do that you can live a blissful
life. What my mother teaches me every day is to love myself more than anyone
else. Never let anybody hurt you. She
always told me that whatever life brings to my marriage I have to bear it but
if my husband is a womanizer this must not be tolerated. Life is just too short
to waste it with someone who just isn't worth it.

Honestly,
if you are going to have a relationship, you have to bear in mind that people
have two faces. If you can put up with his/her bad side then continue on with
your happily ever after. As for me, I
think fairy tales are only in the books.

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