FIL! Is a idiot!!!!!!

So I posted this on my BB before I found DWIL and no one really got where I was coming from.

So I don't really like my SOs father to much he is constantly putting my SO down telling him its his fault he and his wife are separated and always begs hi to tell her to come back! When we found out I was pregnant with DS we planned on moving out. Couldn't live at my house its a 3 bd room with 5 people living there and the rooms are small! And it was 15 min from town so kinda difficult! My SOs father kept the house which is 4 bd rooms and 2 living rooms and only him and his father live there lots of space! But I did not want to live with him. They constantly fought all the time i mean bever violent but enough yellimg to scare me and i dontwant my child around that! my family is nothing like that no one yells and i would have gladly stayed living at home if there was enough room! He told us to live there so we could save money. He never pays his bills, he spends more money on weed than bills. So we would end up paying bills anyways. Last winter they had no heat cause of it and now he doesn't have water. He's in the process of trying to sell because he's the only one that lives there. Me and SO got a appt. but his dads still dumb ass and my SO constantly has to bail him out of shit and pay for shit when we have our own shit to pay for! It's so frustrating! His father is horrible at managing money and doesn't give two shuts about any one or who is actions will affect! I'm so over his dad!