... I know exactly how you feel. I believe that Iamasexual and have felt this way for ten years. I went through times where I would engage in sexual intercourse with women to seem "normal" and just to see if I could eventually like it, but it has never been the case. ... (7 replies)

... I believe that my testosterone level is relatively normal. I have a lot of body hair and a relatively high sex drive as I masturbate about six times a day...lol. Iam just not attracted to either sex. I don't know why but neither are appealing at all. ... (7 replies)

... Totally disagree. She's bothered because she thinks this is what other people want in a relationship, not because she 'can't have sex'. If other people didn't care about it either she would feel differently.
Plus, if you don't feel horny, how can you truly enjoy sex? (6 replies)

... Iam guessing that you have a highly decreased sex drive, possibly genetics, possibly medications, or maybe just interest. Though Iam not knowledgeable in that so I can't say much else. ... (6 replies)

... for over two. Our lives are deeply intertwined. We have pets, we share bills, we share a car, we are involved in each other's families, etc. And she is a person I love very much. But I have started having my doubts. There are many things about our relationship that I love. We share the same values and convictions. ... (1 replies)

... I was on the contraceptive pill Logynon for nearly three years when I met my current boyfriend. Almost a year into our relationship I became totally asexual, and don't have any want or need for sex or sexual contact. I never feel aroused although I do masturbate sometimes, but not often. ... (2 replies)

... This has put me into a very difficult situation. I enjoy sex with my romantic partners. But I also don't see how anyone can possibly be more perfect than this girl as far as personality. She and I are amazing together in how we interact. ... (7 replies)

... you mention you like Cuddling, and that you like boys. have you ever had a Crush? A true one where you are obsessed and can't get them out of your mind. Not that you think they are kinda cute.
or do you Just like the attention Cuddlng gets you?
maybe you Just haven't met the right somebody yet.
remember
Women find Sex through love (7 replies)

... I don't think she meant "all males are sex fiends, that's all they want".
What she's saying is, if you're in a relationship, eventually it is taken to the next level, which is sexual contact.
Without sexual contact, it's more like a friendship. Unless the other person is asexual, they ultimately want to have sex when they love somebody. (7 replies)

... he just didn't feel aroused, didn't feel the need for it, no matter what I did. It's not that he couldn't do it. I had in the begginning, when he was deeply in love with me. But, then, his feelings faded away and with it his desire. ... (6 replies)

... e undertreated and left with lingering symptoms. Also, being on the BCP will kill any sexual thoughts you could possibly have. They did that to my daughter and I had to take them short term for an issue and remember it was like I was dead inside sexually. ... (6 replies)