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Finding Life’s Purpose

Determining one’s purpose in life can be a difficult and scary thing. It opens one up to the negative input of others who care about that person. Many people feel they know what is best for your life. Sadly, these are the same people who tend to struggle in theirs.

Choosing to live in a M/s relationship requires a lot of courage. Society has views on how a relationship should look and the Master/slave format is far from the chosen ideal. Anyone who has mentioned that he or she lives this lifestyle knows the ridicule that one receives. It is often difficult to stand on the principles of what is best for our lives.

When one answers the inner calling that is contain deep within, life begins to take on a whole new meaning. Life gets easier when one has the clarity that comes with finding the life purpose. The desire to serve, as an example, instantly provides the needed direction for someone who was previously “lost”. It becomes the purpose for a slave each and every day. This one distinction removes a great deal of the confusion.

Many people resist the natural direction of their lives. Succumbing to fear seems to be the number pastime of society today. Conditioning tells us what an appropriate way to live our lives is. Yet, nobody can make that decision for another person. It is the sole choice of an individual. I have seen too many people investigate this lifestyle only to turn away because it was different from what they were accustomed to. Fear, in its many different forms, made the decision.

Living the M/s lifestyle is part of the solution for many in their quest for their purpose in life. Approaching it with an open mind is the beginning of uncovering one’s true essence.