Many of the ideas in this book draw on strokes and techniques from traditional erotic massage practices:Swedish: One of the most common forms of massage based on five core massage strokes—effleurage (light, flowing, flathands), petrissage (kneading), tapotement (rhythmic tapping),friction, and vibration.
Shiatsu: A Japanese healing massage that works with the acupressure points on the body, also incorporating massageand mobilization of the joints. Rolfing and Hellerwork: Profoundly...

The strokes shown here appear throughout the massage sequences, although the order will vary depending on the part of the body being massaged. Some suit certain areas better than others, but see what works for you and your partner. Mastering plenty of large, flowing movements will help you to spread erotic energy over the whole body.Basic massage techniquesFlowingKeeping your hands flat, sweep them in a long, smooth, flowing motion over the curves and corners of your partner’s body and back...

These techniques are designed to move and relax the whole body, boost circulation, alleviate tension, and gently stimulate the genitals. Massage confidently and sensitively, working with the natural motion of your partner’s body rather than trying to force your own speed and rhythm on to your partner. Rocking and wiggling can be tried before you start an erotic massage, as well as during one.Whole-body erotic massage techniquesSacrum rockingPlace both hands on your partner’s sacrum ...

Hip rockingMove your hands to the hip closest to you, and push the body away from you, “catching” her hips as they roll back to your hands. Try generating the motion by placing your hands on the back of one thigh and rolling it fairly vigorously fromside to side. Change to the other thigh after a few minutes
Sacrum rockingPlace both hands on your partner’s sacrum (located near the hips), and rock her hips from side to side. Follow therhythm your partner’s body naturally...

This game can teach you and your partner about the type of touch you like and your personal boundaries. These can change all the time, especially as you learn more about erotic massage and what works for you. This game canprepare you for further massage, or you may simply enjoy it as it is.1 Stand opposite each other and decide how long you want to play the game together and which one of you is to go first.2 The person to go first (in this example the man) then takes a slow step closer. The woman...

A caress can communicate many things—desire, appreciation, and fascination. It can be sensual, erotic LONDON, tender, or passionate. During a massage london, caress your partner with your fingertips, or even the back of your hand. You could caress any area of the body, although sensitive areas such as the insides of the arms, face, neck, and chest are usually most responsive. Make your strokes light and delicate, so that your fingers skim across the surface of your partner’s skin...