Take The Quiz: Are You Meant To Be Together?

Well, you can’t know for certain. No one can. But what you can do is read the signs and decide whether he’s the right man to pledge your heart to for the rest of your lives.

So here are the 9 signs that you’ve found the man you were meant to be with, the man who’s meant to become your husband:

1. You Can Be Yourself Around Him

We’ve all been in relationships with guys who we’re not totally comfortable around. Guys who we feel like we have to “perform” or be “on” in front of in order to make the relationship work.

Your future husband won’t care whether you’re “on” or not on any given day. He’ll love you for who you are – when you’re just being yourself and not putting on any kind of show – and he won’t ever want to let that person go.

2. Your Romantic Ideas Are Compatible

Some people think that delivery pizza and Netflix under a blanket is the height of romance. Others go the whole 9 yards with long moonlit walks on the beach and flowers.

Whatever your ideas about romance are, he’s tapped into them and feels the same way. Even going to the grocery store with each other can be romantic if you’re both on the same wavelength.

3. After Terrible Days You Just Want To Be With Him

Even if you’re in the worst mood in the world, being with him is better than being alone.

He’s there to listen to you when you have something you need to get off your chest, and to really listen and grasp the meaning of what you’re trying to say. He’ll always respond honestly, and knows what to say to make you feel better.

4. He Really Listens To What You Have To Say

He doesn’t just respond “Uh huh…” or “Yeah…” when you’re talking to him – he really pays attention and thinks about what you’re telling him.

He can hear what you’re really trying to tell him, even if you’re talking about something different, and can communicate with you clearly, effectively, and empathetically. You don’t have to explain yourself with him – he just knows.

5. He’s Happy When You’re Happy, Plus The Other Way Around

You know you’ve found someone truly special when they’re not just willing, but eager to sacrifice a little bit of their own happiness if it means making you happy.

Finding the person who genuinely takes joy from your happiness is one of the greatest things in life. And what makes it even better is when you are also able to take joy from their happiness, and give to each other selflessly and without restraint.

6. You Want To Share Your Whole Life With Them

Every time you think about what’s going to happen in the future, and how the rest of your life is going to play out, your partner is always there, supporting and encouraging you, even in your daydreams.

It’s not scary to think about the rest of your life and see him in it. Quite the opposite – thinking about spending the rest of your life with him fills you with a profound sense of peace.

If something happens to you during your day, big or small, your first thought is of sharing it with him.

7. The Magnetism And Attraction Between You Is Undeniable

The two of you are just locked in with each other on every level. You’re attracted to each other physically, and emotionally and mentally you’re always on the same plane.

You felt the chemistry brewing from the first time you met, and when you’re with him, the magnetic attraction between you can’t be ignored.

8. The Really Good Times Outweigh The Bad

You express love and desire for each other way more than you wind up fighting. In fact, when you fight, both of you try to get to the root of the matter so that you can go back to loving each other as quickly as possible.

Fights aren’t about hurting each other, they’re about expressing yourselves and solving problems together. No matter what, you just can’t stay mad at each other.

9. He Loves You For Exactly Who You Are

So what if you don’t keep things as tidy at home as he does? He loves you anyway.

He doesn’t let personal peccadillos and quirks get in the way of the love he has for you, in fact he relishes those differences… because he knows that’s the good stuff.

He’s proud, proud to be with you, proud to be in love with you, and proud that you’re in love with him – and he wears that pride and happiness on his sleeve all day.

I hope these signs gave you a better idea of whether you have a real future with him, because there are 2 big turning points every woman experiences in her relationships with men and they determine if you end up in a happy relationship or if it all ends in heartbreak. So pay attention because the next step to take is vitally important. At some point he’s going to ask himself is this the woman I should commit myself to for the long term… Do you know how men determine if a woman is girlfriend material (the type of woman he commits himself to) or if he sees you as just a fling? If not you need to read this next: The #1 Thing Men Desire In A Woman…

And the second big problem many women face: Do you feel he might be losing interest, going cold emotionally or pulling away then you need to read this right now or risk losing him forever: If He’s Pulling Away, Do This…

P.S. Want to find out if you’re really meant to be with him forever? Take our quick (and shockingly accurate) Are You Meant To Be Quiz right now and find out!

I had everything on this list with my ex when I was younger, but he just wanted sex. Still, he was my best friend. I guess I wasted my one shot at true love with a guy who was not serious. I’ve never loved anyone that way again. In fact, after him I got with my rebound, had a child and got abused the entire 7 yr relationship. Why couldn’t I have that with a guy who felt the same? fml

Im not sure what this feelings is. i seriously dont know. im quite sure that im not in love with him n i dont think I have a crush on him since my definition of crush is when you got that heart attack or flutter but i do not. At some point yes i have but that just it. But somehow theres this something that make me keep going. Theres just a connection between us that i dont know exactly what. We never talk like ever but we always make eye contacts each other. And somehow i feel like he has an interest on me like me to him. Again interest. Thats what im sure right now what my feelings is. Thats why i need your help n advice, am i actually have real feeling toward him without me knowing or maybe just because i am lonely?

Hello guys what you have been saying is good but i think we first have to know and love ourselfs. That is easier said than done. Because we are the worst critic of our action than anybody else. My sister always says dont let anybody treat you worse than you treat your self. So when we havent found the right guy/girl it means we are given time to work on our self. And i mean to love our self before anybody loves us. Cause it would be ironic to expect someone to love us when we dont love our selfs. To be okay with us even if there is no prince charming.

I have been married for 8 years en throught that 8 years i still haven’t experienced what is like to be inlove. It came to a point that i cheated on my husband so this guy is the guy i have been waiting for my whole life just the thought of him sends butterflies all over my body i am happy with him. The only reason am still stuck in the mariage is the kids whearease am not happy. My husbands finds fault in everything i do, he comes home after 12am daily. He beats me always belittles me, his word goes my opinion don’t matter at all. Will i b a bad mother to get out of this marriage to be with someone i really love

You wouldn’t be a bad mom you’d actually be doing what’s good for you, acting like your happy doesn’t make you happy like you should be. And if you love someone else it’s only fair to tell him that you want out that there’s someone else, it might end bad you guys probably won’t be friends or talk twenty four seven but as long as you tell the truth then there’s nothing really to worry about. I wish you the best of luck.

To Keith Curran
I been to the Simmilar situation with ur gf .
I know that its very scarry to be with therelationship after a bad experience with ex
but then life is moving on.
In short i am now in a very steady and happy relationship ive never expected to be in
so my adviced to u are make her feel special very special. makes her feel secured and loved
guys u need to always give complements to ur gfs
hugs them as much as u can .

thats what my bf does and it works qell actually its his natural love and care sweetnesss and for always making sure that hes always there for u. Now I feel like I was reborn to be qith him forever. I felt like I am tge luckiest and blessed women for having him and being with him

I know I’ve found the woman that I’ve been searching for in life / waiting to come into my life, PERIOD!!! BUT, there’s one HUGE problem, and I honestly don’t want to lose her over it AND I don’t know how to handle it. I’m GOING TO do the right thing BUT HOW, how do I NOT lose her in the process? I’m a over the road truck driver. Well long story short, I had a fwb and supposedly she’s pregnant and she’s saying that she knows it’s 100% mine. She’s only or will be 4 weeks on the 8th of January and the woman, I say WOMAN because SHE’S A REAL TRUE WOMAN and I freakin LOOOOOOVE that I found a real, no game’s, true real life, old fashioned woman that I’ve been waiting for, knows about the pregnancy with the fwb. PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE I’m begging for advice on what to do. I had a conversation with a RREALLY close good MALE friend about this last night and he told me what she’s doing if she’s the REAL WOMAN that I say she is, and he was 100 % DEAD RIGHT!! She’s sitting back watching how I handle this situation… ok… understandable, understandable, but SHE TRULY LOVES ME AND I CAN HONESTLY FEEL HOW MUCH LOVE she has for me and omg I’ve never NEVER EVER experienced the way she loves me before because I TRULY FEEL IT AND IT’S EXTREMELY EXTREMELY STRONG!!! But she’s scared because of what her ex husband did, that I’m a repeat of it… and I’m NOT THAT WAY!!! I TRULY know what true love feels like as I was TRULY MADLY IN LOVE or so I thought with myou ex, but that doesn’t come ANYWHERE CLOSE TO the love and falling in love with the woman I’m in love with now feels!! Please please please please please I’m asking for advice on what to do in this situation from females mainly but males and females. I NEED some desperate ADVICE or I’m going to lose EXACTLY WHAT I’VE BEEN SEARCHING FOR IN A WOMAN TO SPEND THE REST OF OUR LIVES TOGETHER WITH and THAT CANNOT, I REPEAT CANNOT HAPPEN!! Feel free to reply here :) please I don’t know exactly how to handle this and NOT LOSE THE LOVE OF MY LIFE!!! IN JESUS’S NAME, AMEN!!! :)

If this fwb decides to have the baby.. so what? Be in the kids life and stay with your love of your life and have visitation and treat it as if she is your x..don’t give up true love.. she loves you so deep, she will deal with it.. question though.. was the child conceived while you were dating love of life?

I broke up with my boyfriend for over two years now,cos i didn’t believe in what he belived in(premarital sex)but i have never stoped thinking of him!he called me yesterday that he would like to me abt something,since then i havn’t been myself;iam feeling

I feel like I could have found the one because the way I interact with him! He is starting to feel more comfortable around me and is smiling more!! I finally got through to him! I need to know what you think!!

The “man of your dreams” is a real, ordinary guy whose universe revolves around you. Hopefully, he’ll also have a job and a sense of honor. Compatibility and shared interests trump Disney every day after day after day….

No, his universe does NOT revolve around you. That is also the same “Disney” fantasy you’re complaining about…

Real love is not about finding that dream-guy but accepting the reality that no one is perfect (yes, that goes for the ladies as well) and mutually having the courage to forgive those personal imperfections and knowing and respecting your mutually chosen partner (emphasis on “partner”) as an individual and work (emphasis on “work”) through differences with the understanding that differences do not create conflict as self-righteousness and projection of “worst intent” clearly does.

So how do you know he’s “the one”? …

When you can’t wipe that smile off your face at the very thought of him, when he texts you “good morning” and “good night” like clock work, when he asks about how your day is going or how it went, when he tells you what he is doing and where he is going without you asking, when he looks you in the eye and says “I love you”, when he tells you he feels comfortable and cozy around you and falls asleep in your arms, when he trusts you enough to let you work those extra hours at the office snd sends you off with a “Be safe”, when he holds your hand everywhere you go, when he spontaneously pulls you into an alcove to make out before walking up to the theater entrance, when he looks you in the eye and tells you exactly what he wants: “I want to be in your heart. I want to take care of you. I want to go where no one can bother us.”, “I want to see you only. Will you do the same for me?”, “We go well together.” in his adorable heart-melting accent… and afirms his intentions multiple times. I could go on. :)

Yes, this dream guy seemed to have fallen out of the sky and into my lap… He is not perfect be any definition of a Hollywood dream-guy but I absolutely love everything about him anyway. I never thought in my wildest dreams I would get so so so lucky and be so so so happy. :)

Early on, I had been confused that this was another fluke. I constantly questioned myself “Why did he pick me. If he’s too good to be true, it’s not real…” etc etc…

But recently realized that something I was projecting in my personality drew him to me. Wow… So you, my dear need to understand that you must do your part by being the right dream-gal for your dream-guy so to speak. You will attract the persona that you project. Plain and simple.

Isn’t that the point of dating? To find the husband or wife ( not necessarily marriage) to Spend the rest of yalls life together ? I know that’s my goal or what I’m looking for in a woman to date, whether I / we could spend the rest of our lives together with NO DIVORCE!!

If you both can imagine being happy at the same time, that is a pretty good sign. I had a b/f that always seemed to be in a bad mood when I wasn’t and it happened the other way around too. How weird is that?

I would say that these are some VERY good signs. If you are lucky enough to see these types of signs, then it would be up to you to realize that they are showing you a future husband could be in the works.