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Re: This just in--straight guys love to look at big penises

Not really new:

A new study on website design and eyetracking (where readers' eyes tend to travel when they are presented with text or images) reveals that men (and not specifically gay men) have a much greater inclination to check out the package than do women, based on their study of an image of baseball player George Brett:

Re: This just in--straight guys love to look at big penises

I think it got something to do with admiration, and envy, or maybe even a little bit of desire.,but not lust.I do that all the time when a stare at woman's beautiful body, and admire her TITS.Girls like Stoya Doll,Bambi Bliss,and Tae Heckard are very beautiful women to look at.Now if a "straight man" looks at another dudes penis too long, with a mouth watery gaze, then he is very suspect.

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I found the part about the shemales the most interesting of all. Although I'm rather surprised to find out that most of the men who were interviewed at the shemale club described themselves as "straight". I personally don't believe that bisexuality actually exists, but I would think that men who seek out shemales would at least self-identify as "bisexual" rather than "straight". Because really, why would a straight man seek out a chick-with-a-dick unless he wants to do something sexual with that dick?

There's a difference between searching for pictures of shemales online, and actually going to a shemale club.

Re: This just in--straight guys love to look at big penises

Originally Posted by JustMe5

I found the part about the shemales the most interesting of all. Although I'm rather surprised to find out that most of the men who were interviewed at the shemale club described themselves as "straight". I personally don't believe that bisexuality actually exists, but I would think that men who seek out shemales would at least self-identify as "bisexual" rather than "straight". Because really, why would a straight man seek out a chick-with-a-dick unless he wants to do something sexual with that dick?

There's a difference between searching for pictures of shemales online, and actually going to a shemale club.

Are you saying there is no such thing as a bisexual ?
Do me a favour , next time talk out your mouth and not your arse.................

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Originally Posted by medic1

Are you saying there is no such thing as a bisexual ?
Do me a favour , next time talk out your mouth and not your arse.................

The belief that bisexuality (among men anyway) doesn't really exist is more common than what you may think. I base my personal belief on experience: I've met several men over the years who at one point or another claimed to be bisexual but were really just gay. Also, I recall reading a post on another forum a few years ago in which the user (a gay man) suggested that while true bisexuality among men doesn't exist, in women it might actually be a possibility. In fact, the lecturer in this video hinted to that effect. He said "Homosexuality in men is almost certainly biological. With women it's much more ambiguous". Then he went on to say "Some women are born gay. But women, by the nature of their sexuality, can also become lesbian". And he explained why, mentioning that women's sexuality is more fluid. He also brought up Anne Heche's name as an example (she was married to a man, then got involved with Ellen Degeneres, and then went on to marry another man).

Re: This just in--straight guys love to look at big penises

Originally Posted by JustMe5

I found the part about the shemales the most interesting of all. Although I'm rather surprised to find out that most of the men who were interviewed at the shemale club described themselves as "straight". I personally don't believe that bisexuality actually exists, but I would think that men who seek out shemales would at least self-identify as "bisexual" rather than "straight". Because really, why would a straight man seek out a chick-with-a-dick unless he wants to do something sexual with that dick?

There's a difference between searching for pictures of shemales online, and actually going to a shemale club.

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How do you come to the conclusion that bisexuality dosen't actually exsist? I'm not bisexual myself, but I know a couple of guys who identify as Bi, and they're not like the Easter Bunny, they do exist. Just because you can't wrap your head around someone elses orientation dosen't make it imaginary.

As to "there's a difference betweeb searching for pictures of shemales online, and actually going to a shemale club", what's the difference? Opportunity? Proximity? Level of desire?
The person who goes to these club seeking interaction with a tranny is at least being honest with himself and others. The guy who seeks out pictures online, I'm assuming, is dealing (or not) with feelings of guilt, shame, and fear of who he is, and what he desires.

Men checking out other mens junk has been going on as long as there have been men. It has nothing to do with orientation, it's all about "where do I stack up in comparrison".
I'm most curious as to who approved this study? Did this guy get a financial grant for this? It seems about as necessary as a study confirming water is indeed wet.

Re: This just in--straight guys love to look at big penises

Originally Posted by JustMe5

The belief that bisexuality (among men anyway) doesn't really exist is more common than what you may think. I base my personal belief on experience: I've met several men over the years who at one point or another claimed to be bisexual but were really just gay. Also, I recall reading a post on another forum a few years ago in which the user (a gay man) suggested that while true bisexuality among men doesn't exist, in women it might actually be a possibility. In fact, the lecturer in this video hinted to that effect. He said "Homosexuality in men is almost certainly biological. With women it's much more ambiguous". Then he went on to say "Some women are born gay. But women, by the nature of their sexuality, can also become lesbian". And he explained why, mentioning that women's sexuality is more fluid. He also brought up Anne Heche's name as an example (she was married to a man, then got involved with Ellen Degeneres, and then went on to marry another man).

I definitely do not claim bisexuality does not exist. I do however agree that JustMe describes the vast majority of what I've seen from self labelled bisexuals.

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That was fascinating. I just ordered his book after watching the video to the end. Fascinating stuff. Some of it I knew from the couple of psych classes I took, some of it was totally new and difficult to believe. Very interesting. Thanks for posting that vid.

Re: This just in--straight guys love to look at big penises

Originally Posted by JustMe5

The belief that bisexuality (among men anyway) doesn't really exist is more common than what you may think. I base my personal belief on experience: I've met several men over the years who at one point or another claimed to be bisexual but were really just gay. Also, I recall reading a post on another forum a few years ago in which the user (a gay man) suggested that while true bisexuality among men doesn't exist, in women it might actually be a possibility. In fact, the lecturer in this video hinted to that effect. He said "Homosexuality in men is almost certainly biological. With women it's much more ambiguous". Then he went on to say "Some women are born gay. But women, by the nature of their sexuality, can also become lesbian". And he explained why, mentioning that women's sexuality is more fluid. He also brought up Anne Heche's name as an example (she was married to a man, then got involved with Ellen Degeneres, and then went on to marry another man).

You base your personal belief on experience , i base mine on training , and am sure a couple of my mates would be pissed at you for
telling them THEIR sexuality . *just saying*

Re: This just in--straight guys love to look at big penises

Originally Posted by MikeyLove

I think that it is more of an insecurity thing going on when str8 guys scope out big dicks, and the same can be said of many gay men. I hear that some Men, gay and str8, feel overburdened by their big dicks, and wished they were just average.

Anyone feeling burdened by their large penis can send it to me. I'll gladly take it of their hands, because for nearly 40 years I've felt burdened by my small one...

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Originally Posted by xbuzzerx

I definitely do not claim bisexuality does not exist. I do however agree that JustMe describes the vast majority of what I've seen from self labelled bisexuals.

Um while it is true that some bisexuals are really just sexually confused gay men, or simply in denial, that does not mean that the vast majority of them are. I know plenty of bisexual men who are openly attracted to both genders, some leaning more towards men others leaning more towards women (and Iím not even talking about relationships vs. sex). I also know plenty of people who don't really care about things like gender, blood relationships, and unfortunately species (bestiality) so long as they get laid. In general, if some people can be sexually attracted to infants, relatives, inanimate objects, and animals I don't find it too hard to believe that others can be sexually attracted to both genders. It's in my own experience that people simply refuse to believe in this possibly due to an extremely limited understanding and exposure to the subject of human sexuality (and letís face it thatís the vast majority of America). BTW Some of the so called expert studies are speaking from an inconceivably small, and specific, group of people that cannot possibly be used to fairly represent a population as whole, but are treated as such.