This is always the question, for those of us who have been let-down/betrayed and hurt by words and actions from those professing one thing and then turning on a dime. It is incredibly difficult and some people they assume it’s as easy as switching a switch and ‘suddenly’ you’re able to trust completely as if none of your past ever existed. I have actually known people like that and wondered HOW they do it. I expect the reckless abandon is a facade and deep-down they are as scared or mistrustful or unsure as anyone else. Either way, the point is you can only be YOU and not try to change because some dogmatic moron is telling you that you need to be more courageous. You have more courage than most, but sometimes the greatest courage is being honest and knowing that if you rush you may be burned but equally if you close your doors, nothing will happen. It is that delicate balancing act that usually reveals if we made the right choice. I cannot say other than I know you well enough to know you have the answers and you can feel in your gut if it’s worthy. If it is, then let it try, and be able to accept it, but if it’s not, walk away with your head high and never look back because you my dear friend, are never going to be trampled upon again. FACT.

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