If the attraction is mutual though, keep it light, fun and tease him if you can.

If he is drinking something, grab his glass and say something like: “So what are you drinking? Looks good! what is it?”

The best way to tease him is to find a part of him you can target. For instance, if he has a funny hair cut, call him: “Hey, Brad Pitt?!”

Don’t attack him on aspects of his person he is truly vulnerable on for instance if you are attracted to a guy who is tall and skinny and insecure about it, don’t call him: “Hey, Mr. Sky Scraper, how is the view up there?”

Keep this for later, once you build up complicity and you know he “can take it”.

Guys always have a part of them they take seriously.

You can tease them on that.

For instance, a guy with nice pecs thinks he is the beach king, right?

You can say:

“Silicone, right?”

or

“What do you have for breakfast, a whole pot of Creatine?” (It’s an amino acid used by body builders – He should know about it if he looks like a fitness addict).

When you tease, the goal is not to be aggressive.

You want to create complicity and at the same time break the ice.

It is the best way to establish a fresh and light connection with a guy.

It shows that you are interested but at the same time you are confident enough not to be intimidated by him.

Teasing is truly the number one chat flirting technique and comes right after your initial body language tricks (eye contact, smile, etc).