tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6491975116972534172.post5263563697564272898..comments2018-12-09T13:16:41.424-05:00Comments on How To Spank Your Man: POLL: The Wilder Report II - My Adult Spanking LifeMonica Wilderhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13777021369099610578noreply@blogger.comBlogger71125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6491975116972534172.post-62206754692057505912018-12-09T13:16:41.424-05:002018-12-09T13:16:41.424-05:00Gender: Male, Age: 60, Marital Status: Married.
1....Gender: Male, Age: 60, Marital Status: Married.<br />1. 30&#39;s<br />2. Professional<br />3. Fun<br />4. Outside<br />5. No<br />6. N/A<br />7. N/A<br />8. N/A<br />9. Grown immesensely<br />10. None<br />11. N/A<br />12. Ashamed<br />13. Hand, hairbrush, paddle, crop<br />14. Corner time<br />15. real life situations<br />16. None.<br />17. Adult<br />18. True offences<br />19. Red with some sitting difficulty<br />20. Okay if it happens.<br />21. vunerable<br />22. leak fluid<br />23. Prim<br />24. No. Yes, absolutely would love it. People I know, preferably all women.<br />25. Private.<br />26. No.<br />27. OTK- Scissor lock<br />28. No. <br />29. No.<br />30. No.<br />Suggestions (for me).<br />My ideal situation would be having a spouse that unconditionally accepts these desires and she administers bare bottom spankings whenever necessary or desired. I would also like her to share my desires with accepting female friends who may also wish to partake.Susiesunshinehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06588749300819450488noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6491975116972534172.post-28287628017086035362017-10-02T00:28:43.425-04:002017-10-02T00:28:43.425-04:00I was spanked age 20 as an adult for drinking too ...I was spanked age 20 as an adult for drinking too much.50 to 100 strokes I was crying like a baby.DenitaMickieZeniahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15738784887774640909noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6491975116972534172.post-13488268138877018022017-08-31T22:39:18.885-04:002017-08-31T22:39:18.885-04:00Male, 57, single
1. 40s
2. gf
3. fun
4. inside
5....Male, 57, single<br /><br />1. 40s<br />2. gf<br />3. fun<br />4. inside<br />5. yes<br />6. obliging<br />7. N/A<br />8. Lessened<br />9. Grown<br />10. monthly<br />11. first few years<br />12. accepting<br />13. brush, cane, wooden spoon<br />14. panty play, forced feminization, cunnilingus, enforced housework<br />15. real life situations<br />16. N/A<br />17. adult<br />18. True<br />19. red<br />20. yes please<br />21. turned on, enjoyment, satisfaction, pain<br />22. remain soft<br />23. conservative<br />24. No. Yes. Strangers<br />25. both<br />26. No<br />27. over chair, on couch, on bed with bottom propped up, kneeling on all fours, kneeling with nose to the ground, standing with hands on knees<br />28. No.<br />29 Yes. No.<br />30. N/AAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6491975116972534172.post-78377047010079427122017-07-15T16:05:27.765-04:002017-07-15T16:05:27.765-04:00Male, 56, Married
1. 30s
2. Wife
3. Foreplay
4. In...Male, 56, Married<br />1. 30s<br />2. Wife<br />3. Foreplay<br />4. Inside<br />5. Yes<br />6. Obliging<br />7. N/A<br />8. N/A<br />9. Grown<br />10. Every 1-3 months<br />11. N/A<br />12. Accepting<br />13. Hand, Bath Brush, Paddle, Belt <br />14. Prostate Massage, Strap-on, Cunnilingus, Rimming, Intercourse<br />15. Real Life<br />16. Wife<br />17. Adult<br />18. True<br />19. At least red; want to be spanked to tears, but have not been.<br />20. Okay if it happens.<br />21. Satisfaction; want to experience enough intensity to regret having asked for spanking<br />22. Semi-erection; leak fluid<br />23. Prim, matronly; domme gear is a turn off for me (and my wife)<br />24. No; Yes; Strangers<br />25. Private<br />26. Unsure; I once asked my wife quietly for a hard spanking only to find out she was on speakerphone with my youngest daughter<br />27. OTK; on bed flat; on bed with bottom propped up; standing bent at waist over mattress/sofa<br />28. No, but I want to be<br />29. No<br />30. N/AAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6491975116972534172.post-87068320947999262452016-11-27T21:37:27.570-05:002016-11-27T21:37:27.570-05:00Male, 50+, Married
1. I was in my twenties when I ...Male, 50+, Married<br />1. I was in my twenties when I received first adult bare-bottom spanking.<br />2. My then-girlfriend was the first to spank me.<br />3. She spanked me as part of foreplay at my request.<br />4. Inside of an existing committed relationship.<br />5. Yes, my wife knows that I desire to receive spankings. She&#39;s the one who gives them to me.<br />6. My wife&#39;s initial response was finding it strange. Then she enjoyed it.<br />7. My wife doesn&#39;t like being spanked and we&#39;re monogamous. <br />8. My wife likes to give me mild spankings, but was never that interested in the harder stuff. She did it to please me (tying me up and paddling my buttocks and scolding me before licking my anus and then applying lubricant to finger me deeply).<br />9. My desire to be spanked grew for many years and now it&#39;s not so strong.<br />10. My wife spanks me with her perhaps every two months as part of lovemaking, but it&#39;s been a long time since we had a long session of hard spanking with a paddle. I need to ask her to do it again.<br />11. I&#39;m married.<br />12. I am very accepting of my desire to be spanked.<br />13. I prefer to be spanked with either hand or the back of a brush. A paddle would be nice, but I&#39;ve never experienced that.<br />14. To my spankings I most like to add prostate massage, fellatio, cunnilingus, rimming, and intercourse. We&#39;ve done<br />temperature taking when playing doctor. I&#39;d love to take a dildo or have my wife fuck me with a strap-on but she doesn&#39;t like toys.<br />15. I like to be spanked in roleplay, real life situations, or a real-life situation. Any of the above.<br />16. Doing roleplay I like for my wife to pretend she is my teacher, boss, or doctor.<br />17. I generally play being adult when being spanked, though sometimes we play-act with my wife being a teacher and me the student.<br />18. My wife has only spanked me for made-up offenses. I&#39;d like to be punished for real infractions but she&#39;s not that into it.<br />19. I like to be spanked until my buttocks are light red all over--no breaking of the skin.<br />20. I don&#39;t mind marks but prefer just to have my buttocks become very red.<br />21. While being spanked I feel very turned on, even though it hurts a lot. I get a really hard erection and at the same time I want her to stop spanking me I want her to continue and to make the blows harder. I like it when she stops for awhile to pleasure my genitals and anus but then starts spanking me again for a long time.<br />22. While being spanked I get an erection that may subside but always comes back. I may leak pre-ejaculate fluid but to reach orgasm I need to have my penis stimulated.<br />23. I like for my wife dress either in fashionable clothes or in lingerie and heels. We also have a white doctor&#39;s coat and medical items so she can be my doctor.<br />24. No, never spanked in front of others. Would be willing to in front of other women.<br />25. Not excited by the risk of being found out. Like to keep this totally private.<br />26. No, never outed.<br />27. Favorite position to be spanked in: bent naked over a sofa, preferably with arms and legs spread and tied up. After that, I like being on my knees, bottom up with face down on the bed; over-the-knee; kneeling on all fours--in that order of preference. <br />28. No; never spanked to tears.<br />29. Wife is my only disciplinarian.<br />30. Never saw a professional disciplinarian.<br />WDhttp://straight-male-anal-erotic.tumblr.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6491975116972534172.post-69670148904794892402015-02-21T23:21:25.913-05:002015-02-21T23:21:25.913-05:00Male, 64, Married
1 30
2 girlfriend
3 foreplay
4 i...Male, 64, Married<br />1 30<br />2 girlfriend<br />3 foreplay<br />4 inside<br />5 Yes<br />6 Delighted <br />7 N/A<br />8 Grown<br />9 Grown<br />10 Monthly<br />11 N/A<br />12 Accepting<br />13 Hand, leather of all kinds (floggers, paddles, straps), hairbrush<br />14 Corner time, punishment panties<br />15 Like RL and roleplay and spanking parties<br />16 Like all kinds of spankers - mommy, aunt, babysitter, boss, cop, doctor, dominatrix, therapist, teacher, neighbor, friend<br />17 Like to be little when mommy, aunt, babysitter<br />Like to be teen when teacher, neighbor or friend<br />Like to be adult when other roles<br />18 Most role plays are for made up crimes, but sometimes a few have overlapped to real reasons for spankings gladly given by them.<br />19 It depends on situation and type of spanking being given - pink/red for most play; sometimes tears have happened for both play and RL<br />20 marks sometimes happen or don&#39;t and that&#39;s just the way it is<br />21 Enjoyment for fun and good boy spankings<br />Contentment and warm feeling when know being spanked for my own good, even though it hurts like heck<br />22 Often start out with erection at thought of getting spanked and then lose it when real spanking begins. Have regained erection and even come during a punishment spanking.<br />23 I like the dress to fit the role if playing - can be anything from jeans and boots to latex/leather catsuit and everything in between.<br />24 Yes - both known and unknown witnesses - for punishment spanking. Used to line up with my cousins, both male and female, all had our panties down and wait for our turn to go over my aunt&#39;s lap for our weekly spanking and feel her strap on our bare bottoms.<br />Was also spanked by neighbors with their children present, and even outdoors if it was an immediate &quot;on the spot&quot; spanking, in front of God and everyone.<br />25 Both - have to keep it private for &quot;work&quot; purposes, but also excited at prospect of someone hearing or seeing my spanking.<br />26 Yes - my oldest children know of our lifestyle and our spanko play. <br />27 OTK is my favorite - love the contact between our bodies. Love to feel their palm against my bare bottom. I also love to have my pantied butt spanked until hot and then feel the delicious sting of leather on my skin.<br />28 Yes I have. Sometimes pain hits just right, sometimes emotions hit just right, and sometimes it just feels right - whether role play or rl.<br />29 Nope - wife is only &quot;disciplinarian&quot; I see on any basis.<br />30 N/A<br /><br />otkloverjohnnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6491975116972534172.post-68736764513661456592014-11-11T22:41:18.732-05:002014-11-11T22:41:18.732-05:00Is this questionnaire still active? Is this questionnaire still active? Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6491975116972534172.post-40235810540923670142014-06-14T15:45:48.780-04:002014-06-14T15:45:48.780-04:00What about punishment spankings given immediately ...What about punishment spankings given immediately after he has been made to cum? Takes the fun out fast..its painful, as punishment should be.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6491975116972534172.post-27686893943368329372014-01-01T04:12:15.337-05:002014-01-01T04:12:15.337-05:001. 30s
2. wife
3. punishment and fun
4. committed...1. 30s<br />2. wife <br />3. punishment and fun<br />4. committed relationship - Inside<br />5. Yes<br />6. obliging<br />7. N/A<br />8. somewhat grown over time<br />9. grown over the years<br />10. every few months<br />11. N/A<br />12. both ashamed and accepting<br />13. I prefer to be spanked seriously with a brush, paddle, or belt<br />14. corner time<br />15. role play and real life situations<br />16. mommy, aunt, teacher, friend&#39;s mother, girlfriend, wife<br />17. teen or adult<br />18. both true offence and made-up ones<br />19. very red to sometimes tears<br />20. marks are fine, but she worries about them<br />21. turned on, enjoyment, satisfaction, and pain, all at the same time<br />22. sometimes I get an erection<br />23. prim, matronly, and conservative - a Southern matriarch is my preferred <br />24. No and No<br />25. keep this totally private<br />26. No<br />27. OTK, OTK - legs split over one knee, over chair, on couch, on bed lying flat, on bed with bottom propped up, and standing<br />28. Yes, caused by pain, but I wanted it<br />29. No<br />30. I would not want to be spanked by anyone but my wife<br />Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6491975116972534172.post-23775813322624256762013-10-04T13:14:27.976-04:002013-10-04T13:14:27.976-04:001. What age were you … 35
2.administered by wife...1. What age were you … 35<br /><br /><br />2.administered by wife<br /><br /><br />3. for punishment<br /><br /><br />4. inside <br /><br /><br />5. No<br /><br /><br />6. It was wife’s idea<br /><br /><br />7. N/A<br /><br /><br />8. grown with time <br /><br /><br />9. lessened over the years?<br /><br /><br />10. Varies … @2 X per month<br /><br /><br />11. N/A<br /><br /><br />12. accepting <br /><br /><br />13. paddle<br /><br />14. Corner time, mouth washing, mastaurbation<br /><br /><br />15. real life situations<br /><br /><br />16. wife<br /><br />17. adult<br /><br /><br />18. true offences<br /><br /><br />19. to tears<br /><br /><br />20. okay if it happens<br /><br /><br />21. pain<br /><br /><br />22. Loose erection quickly<br /><br /><br /><br />23. conservative<br /><br /><br />24. No <br /><br /><br />25. private<br /><br />26. no<br /><br /><br />27. OTK, over chair arm<br /><br /><br />28. Always to tears<br /><br /><br />29. NO<br /><br /><br />30. Wife is DD<br />Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6491975116972534172.post-30469320008818488462013-07-12T13:46:48.118-04:002013-07-12T13:46:48.118-04:00male,56,married
1. 40&#39;s
2. wife
3. punishme...male,56,married<br /><br />1. 40&#39;s<br /><br />2. wife<br /><br />3. punishment<br /><br />4. inside<br /><br />5. Yes<br /><br />6. She wanted to as well<br /><br />7. n/a<br /><br />8 grown<br /><br />9. neutral<br /><br />10. as required - for rule violations so varies<br /><br />11. n/a<br /><br />12. neither<br /><br />13. hand / paddle<br /><br />14. corner time - cunnilingus<br /><br />15. real life<br /><br />16. none<br /><br />17. adult<br /><br />18. true offenses only<br /><br />19. red / tears<br /><br />20. never<br /><br />21. pain<br /><br />22. soft<br /><br />23. regular<br /><br />24. no / no<br /><br />25. private<br /><br />26. no<br /><br />27. OTK / OVER BACK OF PADDED CHAIR<br /><br />28. YES / PAIN<br /><br />29. WIFE IS DISCIPLINARIAN<br /><br />30 Wife is DDAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6491975116972534172.post-71730689593934499112013-05-25T12:24:24.281-04:002013-05-25T12:24:24.281-04:00Male, 50, Married
1. 40&#39;s
2. professional
3. f...Male, 50, Married<br />1. 40&#39;s<br />2. professional<br />3. fun and foreplay<br />4. Outside<br />5. Yes<br />6. Repulsed<br />7. No and emotionally that bothers me (especially since our intimacy would be so enhanced) but I have needs<br />8. N/A<br />9. Grown<br />10. every sx months<br />11. N/A<br />12. Accepting<br />13. hand<br />14. seduction, tease, denial for long time but ultimately playing with her breasts and/or spanking her, handjob, fellatio! The more women the better!<br />15. Roleplay or anything<br />16. teacher, boss, neighbor, girlfriend, wife, police officer, secretary or sexretary, massage therapist, doctor, waitress, nurse, wonderwoman....<br />17. adult<br />18. made-up ones or anything<br />19. red<br />20. no permanent marks otherwise okay<br />21. turned on, enjoyment, satisfaction, and pain<br />22. get an erection<br />23. prim, conservative, everyday casual, provocative, overtly sexual, leather n&#39; stuff<br />24. Yes! Yes! Strangers would be great; People I know would be sooo very hot!!!<br />25. Both<br />26. No but I really want to be<br />27. OTK, over chair, over desk, tied up! As long as manhood and balls are hanging free for added vulnerability, exposure, and clarity about my excitement that I can&#39;t hide.<br />28. No.<br />29. Yes. Yes.<br />30. I&#39;ve written reams and reams. Basically, seduction, tease, denial (for a long time), and eventual release. All enjoyable (not stern or mean or angry) and catching me in situations I can&#39;t wriggle out of.<br /><br />I&#39;d love some questions that are geared toward finding compatible matches through your site!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6491975116972534172.post-80056394877317244822013-04-14T05:46:02.437-04:002013-04-14T05:46:02.437-04:00Male, 47, married.
1. 20&#39;s
2. Neighbour
3. Fun...Male, 47, married.<br />1. 20&#39;s<br />2. Neighbour<br />3. Fun<br />4. Outside<br />5. Yes<br />6. At first she was Obliging, Now she is Delighted<br />7. N/A<br />8. Grown with time <br />9. Stayed the same<br />10. Weekly - monthly<br />11. 1-3 months<br />12. Yes<br />13. Brush, bath brush, slipper, paddle, cane, ruler, <br />14. Corner time, panty play, cunnilingus, intercourse, <br />15. Both, but prefer real life<br />16. Aunt, teacher, boss, neighbor, friend&#39;s mother, therapist, girlfriend, wife<br />17. Teen, adult<br />18. True offences <br />19. To tears<br />20. Yes please<br />21. Pain<br />22. Get an erection, become soft, leak fluid<br />23. Prim, matronly, conservative, <br />24. No / Yes if people I know<br />25. Risk <br />26. Yes, an ex g/f who thought it was wrong, told a mouthy all-man-type friend of mine. But he had previously emigrated, so was only an online friend and no longer in my circle of friends.<br />27. OTK, OTK - scissor lock, over chair, standing with hands on knees<br />28. Yes - felt I had disappointed my wife<br />29. No / but have in past<br />30. That she does not let me off and does it for real<br />Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6491975116972534172.post-17134525673127253242013-02-18T10:11:52.921-05:002013-02-18T10:11:52.921-05:00MAle /60/Married
1. 40s
2. Wife
3.Foreplay
4.Insid...MAle /60/Married<br />1. 40s<br />2. Wife<br />3.Foreplay<br />4.Inside<br />5.YES!!!!!<br />6.Reluctantly Obliging<br />7.Not Aware....Lots of guilt<br />8.N/A<br />9.Grown<br />10.every other month...(at best)<br />11.N/A<br />12.Accepting now...after initial shame<br />13.hand, brush, slipper, paddle, belt, cane, Switch, <br />14.corner time, panty play, MILD forced feminization, <br /> cunnilingus, intercourse.<br />15.Role Play...and real Life<br />16.neighbor,teacher,girlfriend, wife,<br />17.Teen and Adult<br />18.MAade Up<br />19.From Red to tears<br />20.ok if it happens<br />21.Starts as pain and evolves to enjoyment,turned on, <br />22. leak fluid, and sometimes orgasm<br />23. all of the above<br />24.NO....Think I&#39;d like to try???? If not in fromt perhaps <br /> within ear shot....strangers<br />25.Like the risk of others finding out provided they are <br /> not people we know<br />26.NO<br />27.OTK, OTK - scissor lock, OTK - legs split over one knee, <br /> over chair, on couch, on bed lying flat, on bed with <br /> bottom propped up, Across end of bed, over a hassock<br />28.NO<br />29.Only looking for it from my wife<br />30. N/AAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6491975116972534172.post-45650710152504779252012-11-29T05:31:50.989-05:002012-11-29T05:31:50.989-05:00Male 54 and married
1. 50&#39;s
2. wife
3. pun...Male 54 and married<br /><br />1. 50&#39;s<br /><br />2. wife <br /><br />3. punishment<br /><br />4. Inside<br /><br />5. Yes<br /><br />6. obliging but not really enthusiastic<br /><br />7. n/a<br /><br />8. lessened <br /><br />9. grown<br /><br />10. 6 months<br /><br />11. n/a<br /><br />12. accepting <br /><br />13. paddle<br /><br />14. other: lecture<br /><br />15. real life<br /><br />16. NONE<br /><br />17. N/A<br /><br />18. For true offences<br /><br />19. pink<br /><br />20. no thanks<br /><br />21. satisfaction<br /><br />22. none<br /><br /><br />(If you&#39;ve already answered and want to answer these as well, copy and paste your entire original posting then add on your new answers. I will then delete your original! Easy!)<br /><br /><br />23. everyday casual<br /><br />24. Have you been spanked in front of others? No<br /> Would you be willing to be? No<br /><br />25. Are you excited by the risk of being found out or do you like to keep this totally private? private <br /><br />26. Have you ever been outed? No<br /><br /><br />27. What positions to be spanked in appeal to you the most? over chair, <br /><br />28. Have you ever been spanked to tears? No<br />29. n/a<br />30. n/aUnknownhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13798164740596219545noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6491975116972534172.post-90392418291216505882012-11-23T16:13:09.386-05:002012-11-23T16:13:09.386-05:00Male, 43, Married
1.30’s
2.Wife
3.Foreplay
4.I...Male, 43, Married<br /><br />1.30’s<br /><br />2.Wife<br /><br />3.Foreplay<br /><br />4.Inside<br /><br />5.Yes<br /><br />6.Curious and a little reluctant, but obliging.<br /><br />7.NA<br /><br />8.Grown. My wife seems a bit shy on the subject and she is reluctant to initiate what I call a “formal” spanking session, but will oblige if I ask. By formal spanking I mean a spanking where she is fully dressed or dressed in lingerie and I am naked, and there are spanking implements used. I don’t think she will admit it, but I think that she finds spanking me sexy, for her body gives me clues. For my fortieth birthday, I asked her for a formal birthday spanking. She dressed up for me, in a sexy dress, high heeled boots, and black lace top thigh high stockings. After she gave me forty whacks with a wooded spatula, I was left with a red rear end and a throbbing erection. So I took her upstairs to the bedroom, helped her out of her dress. There she was, on the bed wearing only her stockings and high heeled boots. Lets just say that I found her very wet. Although my wife is reluctant to initiate formal spankings, I am glad to say that spanking has become a regular part of our love making. During intercourse, whenever I am on top, my wife will give my rear end a good spanking with her hand! There is no reluctance on her part when we make love. I think she is more comfortable with initiating a spanking in the fits of passion then the formal spanking sessions.<br /><br />9.Grown<br /><br />10.Weekly<br /><br />11.NA<br /><br />12.Ashamed<br /><br />13.I love when my wife spanks me with her hand during intercourse. I also like to be spanked with the wooded spoon, the belt, bath brush, ruler, ping pong paddle, wood spatula, paint mixing paddle and, of course, the hairbrush.<br /><br />14.I like spanking during intercourse, as I have mentioned above. I also think that cunnilingus is a perfect compliment to a good spanking. Few things are better than when I have a glowing warm rear end from a formal spanking session and I am going down on my wife to show my appreciation. As I pleasure her with my mouth, I love to find her all wet after she has given me a good spanking. The oral sex between us is mostly non-reciprocal, for my wife does not enjoy performing fellatio, and this adds to the experience for some reason I can’t explain. After a spanking, I have also enjoyed masturbating in front of my wife and having her step on me with her high heels.<br /><br />15.No situation<br /><br />16.NA<br /><br />17.Adult<br /><br />18.I do not like to be spanked for offences, but I will submit to a spanking from my wife for any reason she wants.<br /><br />19.Red<br /><br />20.Marks are OK if they happen.<br /><br />21.Turned on<br /><br />22.While receiving a spanking during intercourse, I am fully erect and finish with an orgasm. For non-intercourse spanking it varies. Before and after a spanking I am erect. During the spanking sometimes I am erect, and sometimes I am soft, usually during harder spankings. I am always leaking fluid drops.<br /><br />23.I like the spanker to be dressed sexy, but not overtly so. I would like her dressed in the manner of a sexy secretary, or a hot librarian. High heels, tight pencil skirt, silk blouse, and a nice form fitting dress. Stockings and garters or thigh high stockings a must! Sexy lingerie is great dress for a spanking also. I find being naked in front of a fully dressed woman, or a woman in lingerie a turn on. <br /><br />24.I have not been spanked in front of others, and I would not be willing to.<br /><br />25.I like to keep our spanking private. The only exception might be if we went to shop that sold spanking implements. I might be willing to do that.<br /><br />26.I have never been outed.<br /><br />27.I like the over chair, on couch, standing, on bed laying flat positions but my favorite is OTK.<br /><br />28.I have never been spanked to tears. I like spanking for erotic fun only.<br /><br />29.NA<br /><br />30.NAAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6491975116972534172.post-71595004976587290332012-09-20T07:45:01.659-04:002012-09-20T07:45:01.659-04:00barebottomboy
Male, 55, Married
1. Late Teens
2...barebottomboy<br />Male, 55, Married<br /><br /><br />1. Late Teens<br /><br />2. Girlfriend<br /><br />3. Punishment, Fun and foreplay<br /><br /><br />4. Outside<br /><br /><br />5. Yes<br /><br />6. obliging<br /><br />7. NA<br /><br />8. Growen<br /><br />9. Growen<br /><br />10. weekly<br /><br />11. NA<br /><br />12. Accepting<br /><br />13. Hand, belt, ruler, flogger, slapper, crop<br /><br />14. Corner time, Temperture taking,strap-on,cunningus,rimming, butt plugs, forced masturbation<br /><br />15. roleplay<br /><br />16. Mommy, aunt,teacher,girlfriend, wife<br /><br />17. child and teen<br /><br />18. made up ones<br /><br />19. red<br /><br />20. ok if happens<br /><br />21. turned on, embarassed, humiliated<br /><br />22. All of the above<br /><br />23. everyday casual<br /><br />24. Yes, Yes, both<br /><br />25. both<br /><br />26. Yes, 50th bday Vegas. Wife told me it was time to go to our hotel room. I was stripped naked and made to bend over a couch. Their is a knock on the door. I start to go hide, my wife says stay right there. I do she opens the door to a good looking female 30ish she was a room service waitress. She comes in sees my bent over legs spread naked bodie with a hint of pink on my bottom. My wife tell her that its my birthday and I&#39;m being spanked. She giggles and says that will be whatever it was do you want to charge it to the room. My wife says no I would like the naughty boy to get his wallet and give you cash if thats ok with you. She giggles again and says sure. I go to my wallet which exposes my front side I&#39;m totally embarassed. Hand her the money with a big tip and my wife spanks me 4 times with her hand and tells me to assume the position. They chat a little and she leaves giggling. Later she had 2 escorts up to the room and it was hot.<br /><br />27. on couch, on bed lying flat, on bed with bottom propped up,kneeling on all fours, kneeling with nose to the ground, standing, standing with hands on knees,bent over a chair or couch<br /><br />28. yes the role play was a young age<br /><br />29. one, yes<br /><br />30. Her to play her role and punish me red and then take me with a strap-on.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6491975116972534172.post-85234890931054167142012-08-30T14:24:21.748-04:002012-08-30T14:24:21.748-04:00Male, 68 Married
(1) 18
(2) Pro
(3) Fun
(4) O... Male, 68 Married<br /><br />(1) 18<br />(2) Pro<br />(3) Fun<br />(4) Outside<br />(5) Yes<br />(6) Delighted<br />(7) N/A<br />(8) Grown<br />(9) Grown<br />(10) Weekly, sometimes monthly<br />(11) N/A<br />(12) Accepting (very)<br />(13) Hand, hairbrush, bath brush, paddles, straps, cane almost anything!!<br />(14) mouth-washing, corner time, panty play, forced feminization, temperature taking, prostate massage, strap-on, fellatio, cunnilingus, intercourse.<br />(15) roleplay, real life situations.<br />(16) mommy, aunt,teacher, boss, neighbor, friend&#39;s mother, therapist, girlfriend, wife.<br />(17) adult<br />(18) true offenses and made-up ones.<br />(19) red,and to tears.<br />(20) okay if it happens.<br />(21) All <br />(22) It varies I may get an erection, remain soft, leak fluid, orgasm, it all really depends on things.<br />(23) prim, matronly, conservative, everyday casual, provocative, overtly sexual.<br />(24) Yes, Yes, people I know<br />(25) Both<br />(26) No<br />(27) OTK, OTK - scissor lock, OTK - legs split over one knee, over chair, on couch, on bed lying flat, on bed with bottom propped up, on bed in diaper position,standing.<br />(28) Yes Connection and bonding with my Wife.<br />(29) Yes my Wife, but she does allow some of her girlfriends to also spank me. She would also allow me to see a Pro, I&#39;m sure she&#39;d like to go along also. <br />(30) Compassion, and a good hard spanking!!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6491975116972534172.post-42271093040835354722012-07-21T03:02:17.081-04:002012-07-21T03:02:17.081-04:00Male, 33, married
1. 21
2. Girlfriend
3. Foreplay...Male, 33, married<br /><br />1. 21<br />2. Girlfriend<br />3. Foreplay<br />4. Inside<br />5. Yes.<br />6. Delighted<br />7. NA<br />8. Lessened<br />9. Grown<br />10.every six months<br />11. 1-3 months<br />12. Accepting<br />13. Hand, brush, paddle, belt<br />14. Corner time, strap on<br />15. Real life situations<br />16. Wife, girlfriend<br />17. Teen, adult<br />18. True offenses<br />19. Red<br />20. Yes please<br />21. Satisfaction<br />22. Get an erection<br />23. Everyday casual<br />24. No. yes. Strangers, maybe certain people I know<br />25. A little of both<br />26. No.<br />27. Otk, scissor lock, on bed lying flat, bent over the edge of the bed or bathroom sink<br />28. No<br />29. One disciplinarian<br />30. I want my disciplinarian to tell me what i&#39;m getting and why. I shouldn&#39;t have a say in the matter if i&#39;m being punishedAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6491975116972534172.post-83817450492507779492012-03-23T13:18:53.081-04:002012-03-23T13:18:53.081-04:00Male 66, Married
1. Late Teens
2.
Professi...Male 66, Married<br /><br /><br /><br />1. Late Teens<br /><br /><br />2. <br /> Professional<br /><br />3. <br /> Punishment<br /><br />4. Outside<br /><br /><br />5. <br /> Yes<br /><br />6. <br /> Delighted<br /><br />7. Doesn&#39;t mind my being spanked by others.<br /><br /><br />8. OH YES!!<br /><br /><br />9. <br /> Grown<br /><br />10. <br /> Weekly<br /> <br />11. N?A<br /><br /><br />12. <br /> Accepting<br /><br />13. <br /> Hand, strap, paddle, cane, most implements.<br /><br />14. ) Corner time, forced Fem, strap-on, oral sex (giving)<br /><br /><br />15. <br /> Depends I like it all<br /><br />16. Aunt, Mommy, Wife<br /><br /><br />17. Adult<br /><br /><br />18. <br /> TRUE<br /><br />19. Red and to tears<br /><br /><br />20. Marks are fine<br /><br /><br />21. <br /> all of the above<br /><br />22. <br /> Depends<br /><br />_some new questions suggested by readers_<br /><br />(If you&#39;ve already answered and want to answer these as well, copy and paste your entire original posting then add on your new answers. I will then delete your original! Easy!)<br /><br /><br />23. What kind of spanker&#39;s dress do you prefer (prim, matronly, conservative, everyday casual, provocative, overtly sexual, leather n&#39; stuff.)Heels, stockings slip or dress<br /><br /><br />24. Have you been spanked in front of others? (Yes, No) Would you be willing to be? (Yes, No) If yes, strangers or people you know?<br /> Yes plenty of times, and strangers, and people we know. Am sometimes spanked by wife&#39;s girlfriends<br /><br />25. Are you excited by the risk of being found out or do you like to keep this totally private? (Risk or private or both)<br /><br />BOTH<br />26. Have you ever been outed? (Yes, No) If Yes, describe. NO<br /><br /><br />27. What positions to be spanked in appeal to you the most? (OTK, OTK - scissor lock, OTK - legs split over one knee, over chair, on couch, on bed lying flat, on bed with bottom propped up, on bed in diaper position, kneeling on all fours, kneeling with nose to the ground, standing, standing with hands on knees, nose to wall, other - ?) Any and all<br /><br /><br />28. Have you ever been spanked to tears? (Yes, No) If so, what caused it? (Excessive pain, you felt you had disappointed your spanker, you felt you had disappointed yourself, the roleplay was young age, other - ?) Yes by my wife, it was once, and it was the mood of play.<br /><br /><br />29. Do you see one disciplinarian regularly? Do you seek variety? Don&#39;t visit them anymore<br /><br /><br />30. If you do go to one, what do you hope for in a professional Domestic Disciplinarian?<br /><br /> Compassion, and strict.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6491975116972534172.post-50189673702344820562012-01-17T00:26:03.625-05:002012-01-17T00:26:03.625-05:0023. What kind of spanker&#39;s dress do you prefer...23. What kind of spanker&#39;s dress do you prefer:<br /> prim, matronly, conservative, everyday casual, provocative, soft sexy lingerie<br /><br />24. Have you been spanked in front of others? <br /> No) <br />Would you be willing to be? I like to believe so provided they were strangers and they discovered us accidentally<br /><br />25. Are you excited by the risk of being found out or do you like to keep this totally private? <br />The risk of potential discovery is exciting and always in the back of my mind<br /><br />26. Have you ever been outed? No.<br /><br />27. What positions to be spanked in appeal to you the most? <br />OTK, OTK - scissor lock, OTK, over chair, on couch, over arm of couch, spread across the table, on bed lying flat, on bed with bottom propped up, over corner of bed , kneeling on all fours, kneeling with nose to the ground, standing, standing with hands on chair, across a hassock<br /><br />28. Have you ever been spanked to tears? <br />No, but getting closer? <br /><br />29. Do you see one disciplinarian regularly?<br />Not really perhaps 1 or 2 times a yr if things are difficult at home<br /><br /><br />30. If you do go to one, what do you hope for in a professional <br />Domestic Disciplinarian.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6491975116972534172.post-88434698226703385322012-01-17T00:23:48.453-05:002012-01-17T00:23:48.453-05:00Greg Smythe
Male, 60, Married 37 yrs
1. What age...Greg Smythe<br />Male, 60, Married 37 yrs<br /><br />1. What age were you when you got your first adult bare-bottom spanking? <br />30&#39;s<br /><br />2 It administered by my wife.<br /><br />3. Was it for punishment, fun or foreplay?<br />Combination; fun and foreplay<br />It was inside of an existing committed relationship <br /><br />5. Does your significant other know that you desire to receive spankings at all? (Yes,<br /><br />6. If so, what was her response to it,<br /> Varied from not interested to at times repulsed)<br /><br />7. If your significant other is NOT interested, do they know that you receive spankings elsewhere? No <br /><br />How do you deal with it, emotionally?<br />Very difficult emotionally, tends to ad tremendous guilt to the spankings I receive outside thus reducing any possible rewarding feelings I could receive from them<br /><br />8. If your significant other WAS INITIALLY interested, has her interest grown with time or lessened or N/A?<br />Grown thanks to the quality of your books and websites<br /><br />9. Would you say your desire to be spanked has grown or lessened over the years?<br /> grown tremendously, like the surfer always seeking the “perfect spanking”<br /><br />10. How often are you spanked as an adult now - approximately? <br />Every 3 to 4 weeks, or when I throw a hissy fit for not getting one; whichever comes 1st<br /><br />11. If you are dating, how soon do you express this desire to someone? (first few dates, 1-3 months, 6 mos - one year, first few years, many years later, NEVER)<br /><br />12. Are you ashamed or accepting of this desire?<br />Not anymore thanks to people like you<br /><br />13. Choose as many as you like from the following. I prefer to be spanked with:<br />hand, brush, slipper, paddle, belt, cane, ruler, ferule, switch, wooden spoon<br /><br />14. What added attractions do you desire with your spankings: <br />corner time, panty play, minor forced feminization, strap-on, cunnilingus, intercourse, scolding<br />15. Do you like to be spanked in roleplay, real life situations, <br />Combination of both<br /><br />16. If you like roleplay do you like your spanker to be;<br /> teacher, neighbor, friend&#39;s mother, therapist, girlfriend, wife, <br /><br />17. What age do you like to play when being spanked: child, teen, adult?<br />14 to 16 y/o<br />Young Adult<br />Adult<br /><br />18. For true offences, made-up ones or NONE?<br />Both<br /><br />19. What stage do you like to be spanked to: pink, red, to tears?<br />We have progressed to the stage that I would love it if she could bring me to tears<br /><br />20. How do you feel about marks? <br />okay if it happens, <br /><br />21. While being spanked do you feel: turned on, enjoyment, satisfaction, pain.<br />Hopefully in a good session, all of the above<br /><br />22. While being spanked do you: get an erection, remain soft, leak fluid, orgasm,<br />I have experienced all of the aboveAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6491975116972534172.post-18024672185591472632011-11-26T07:40:22.927-05:002011-11-26T07:40:22.927-05:00Male, 50, Single
1. 40&#39;s
2. Professional?
3...Male, 50, Single<br /><br />1. 40&#39;s<br /><br />2. Professional?<br /><br />3. Fun<br /><br />4. Outside<br /><br />5. Not applicable<br /><br />6. Not applicable<br /><br />7. Not applicable<br /><br />8. Not applicable<br /><br />9. Grown<br /><br />10. Monthly<br /><br />11. Not applicable<br /><br />12. Accepting<br /><br />13. Hand, brush, slipper, paddle, belt, cane, ruler, ferule, wooden spoon, ruler<br /><br />14. Panty play, forced feminization, temperature taking, prostate massage, strap-on, fellatio, cunnilingus, rimming, intercourse<br /><br />15. Roleplay, real life situations<br /><br />16. Mommy, aunt, grandmother, teacher, boss, neighbor, friend&#39;s mother, therapist, girlfriend, wife, sister<br /><br />17. Child, teen, adult?<br /><br />18. For true offences, made-up ones<br /><br />19. Tears?<br /><br />20. okay if it happens<br /><br />21. Calmed<br /><br />22. Remain soft<br /><br />23. Prim <br /><br />24. Have you been spanked in front of strangers? No Would you be willing to be? Yes If yes, strangers or people you know? Both<br /><br />25. Both<br /><br />26. No<br /><br />27. OTK, OTK - scissor lock, OTK - legs split over one knee<br /><br />28. No<br /><br />29. I see one disciplinarian regularly<br /><br />30. I would like to build some level of trust where I feel safe to emote and cry, and the professional does not feel scared of spanking me too hardMalcolmhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07510559481710209686noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6491975116972534172.post-22403248624318389902007-01-27T11:04:00.000-05:002007-01-27T11:04:00.000-05:00Male, 77, married1. 30&#39;s? certainly by 40&#3...Male, 77, married<br><br>1. 30&#39;s? certainly by 40&#39;s.<br><br>2. professional<br><br>3. fun<br><br>4. outside<br><br>5. no; I asked her once and she was repulsed by the idea.<br><br>6. repulsed but haven&#39;t discussed the issue in 40+ years.<br><br>7. no<br><br>8. N/A<br><br>9. Grown<br><br>10. Monthly<br><br>11. N/A<br><br>12. Accepting<br><br>13. hand, hair brush, paddle, belt, cane, ferule, flogger, whip, tawse.<br><br>14. mouth-washing, corner time, ass kissing, rimming<br><br>15. real life situations<br><br>16. non-role play: professional disciplinarian or domme into corporal punishment<br><br>17. as I am<br><br>18. true offenses<br><br>19. to high level of pain; have never been spanked to tears but would like to be.<br><br>20. Yes, please<br><br>21. Pain and satisfaction; depending on person administering punishment and post-punishment treatment, I am sometimes turned on.<br><br>22. Remain soft while being spanked. Will attain erection afterwards if disciplinarian wishes.<br><br>Have you been spanked in front of others? Would you be willing to be spanked in front of others?<br><br>Do you see one disciplinarian regularly? Do you seek variety?rob_3209noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6491975116972534172.post-959342317924632132007-01-27T13:04:00.000-05:002007-01-27T13:04:00.000-05:00Male, 58, M1. 40s2. Wife3. Fun4. Inside the relati...Male, 58, M<br><br>1. 40s<br><br>2. Wife<br><br>3. Fun<br><br>4. Inside the relationship<br><br>5. Yes<br><br>6. Obliging<br><br>7. NA<br><br>8. Her interest has grown over time.<br><br>9. My interest is about the same - I just plain want to be spanked at almost any time.<br><br>10. About once to twice a month.<br><br>11. NA.<br><br>12. Totally accept it.<br><br>13. I prefer a leather or rubber paddle, but will submit to anything.<br><br>14. Other - I like to have progress pictures taken, be forced to remain in position (bent over chair, etc.), and be forced to watch in mirrors (flinching is punishable in itself). <br><br>15. Role playing is definitely preferred.<br><br>16. Manager.<br><br>17. Adult.<br><br>18. Imaginary (except as noted above).<br><br>19. I like to be reddened and spanked enough over the course of a day so as to be sore for a day or two. <br><br>20. OK, but not necessary.<br><br>21. Pain in the moment, to the extent that I sometimes wonder why I let myself get into the situation. That being said, I do enjoy being restrained at the end of a long, hard spanking so that more swats have to be endured. <br><br>A great deal of satisfaction as soon as it ends, however. <br><br>In the infrequent event of an over the lap spanking, I really treasure the softness of my wife&#39;s thighs as counterpoint to the sting and pain being rained down on my backside.<br><br>22. Sometimes get an erection, but it is more likely when embraced and rubbed a while after the event.Georgehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05332373235690157575noreply@blogger.com