2017/06/07

Best Way to Tell Parents That You Are Bi(Part One)

Doing ourself is easy as Bisexual,but it is very difficult to tell you parents.We worry that our parents and friends will be hurt when we tell them the fact.In my socialgroup,lots of bi are looking for a way to make their parents less vulnerable.

As a Bisexual,we have to admit that it is our hope to be understand by our parents.It is very important to show the real us for our parents. Therefore a negative response from parents may take us more hurt and disapointment,even destroying us.

But to us who don't want to hide our life from parent all our life,how do we tell our parents and minimize the damage to them and us.Meanwhile,what do you do if you life by your parents?Now follow me!

Dont fight alone.

One's strenth is greatly small.Therefore you should find a trustworthy ally fight with you.The alliance can be you friends,classmates,brother or sister,friend's parents or an orgnization of Bisexuals.Before this,you should talk about what's your mind and your opinion,tell the truth for them,then ask for their help.When tell your parents the truth,you should make sure your alliance are there.They Not only give you more self-confidence and suggestion,but also help you ease the tention between your parents and you when your parents can't understand you.Then they can explain the truth to your parents.

Make a rough draft and set the stage

If you did the decision,next,you should think how do you explain to your parents.First step setted the stage is that you need to show your sincerity to your parents and let them see your maturity and poise,then watching their reactions and observing their positions after you can take them to see a film about LGBT.After that you can revise your draft.

Choose a nice time,and leave a posterior

It's very important to you that choosing a nice time.Don't be out of the box when you quarrel with your parents,which certainly hurt your relationship between your parents and you.Firstly make sure everyone's head is clear and mood is happy.You can tell them the truth after a "safe distance" from your parents and you.Secondly,be prepared for the second plan.If your parents refuse that you are out of the box,what should you do?Make sure you have money to live your life and do the next step.

Give your parents more time

Not every parents can accept the truth.In their opinion,they want to you get married and have a baby.So they need more time to understand when you subvert their perception.And that time you should talk about the true situation about LGBT,tell them the LGBT is not dirty and heterogeneous,that's every one's choose,and gratually it is protected by law. If your parent hit you and humiliated you,you should call the 911 to protect yourself.