STAMFORD — The story of Staff Sgt. Homer L. Wise is the tale of so many of America’s veterans, men and women who fought on foreign soil and returned home to start a family and a new life in the suburbs.

Along the way, these veterans rarely, if ever, spoke a word of what they saw or did in action.

But Wise’s story has a further coda, one that began with his
designation as a World War II Medal of Honor recipient by President Franklin D. Roosevelt and ended Sunday following the city’s annual Memorial Day parade.

The parade, which wound down Summer and Main streets, ended its run
at Veterans Park in Stamford, where a ceremony was held to unveil a
plaque at the base of a 6 ½-foot statue of Wise that has stood in the
park since December.

The unveiling marked the culmination of a five-year fundraising effort led by Wise’s old friend and veteran, James Vlasto.

“This is a very historic day for Stamford,” Vlasto said. “They’ve
never honored a Medal of Honor recipient. He’s Stamford’s only Medal of
Honor recipient. When he came back a hero, he came back to Stamford.”

The fact that Wise survived the war was no small accomplishment,
Vlasto said, noting that the lifespan for an American soldier in combat
during World War II was 14 days.

On a hot day in June 1944 in Magliano, Italy, Wise ran through German gunfire to pull a wounded soldier to safety.

Then he single-handedly held off enemy gunners with a grenade
launcher, along with peppering the retreating Germans with fire from a
submachine gun and firing 750 rounds from an American tank in order to
allow his men to advance.

Roosevelt’s citation called Wise’s actions “conspicuous gallantry and
intrepidity.” Wise was also awarded the Bronze Star, the Silver Star
and the Purple Heart.

After the war, Wise, a handsome, blue-eyed man from Louisiana, came
to Stamford to marry Madolyn DiSesa, whom he had met at Cape Cod during
the war.

The couple had one son, Jeff, who died in 1990, and only learned
about his father’s medals at the age of 12 through a friend at school.

Wise was by most accounts a quiet, unassuming man, who returned to
the army as a recruiter and then worked in a civilian capacity as a mail
supervisor in a bank. He also waited tables for extra money. Wise died
in 1974 of congestive heart failure at the age of 57.

Joe Rumore,
Wise’s nephew, speculated that Wise might have been a little lost for
words had he been able to see the statue’s dedication or the large crowd
that attended the event.

“I think it’s beautiful, it’s a fantastic commemoration,” Rumore
said. “I got all choked up. He’d be very proud of the presentation, but
I’m sure he wouldn’t have much to say about it because he was a very
private man. He didn’t talk at all about his heroics.”

Bucha, who spoke eloquently and emotionally, noted that the Medal of
Honor is given to an individual, but it also represents the unsung
actions of others, and the collective experience of the recipient’s
comrades.

“Homer Wise would say the same thing: I earned this medal for those
who did not receive it, but earned it,” Bucha said. “People come to me
and say, `What can I do (for veterans)?’ and I say, please don’t say,
`Thank you for your service.’

“Don’t take pride in writing a check or the fact that you gave them
some of your stuff. There’s only one thing we possess that is truly
precious and finite and that is our time. Today, you have given of your
time. And those who have served, and their families, know you are
grateful.”

After the ceremony ended and the crowd dispersed, Stamford resident Betty Hardiman was one of those who lingered for a moment.

She said the ceremony brought back memories of her grandson, U.S. Navy SEAL Brian Bill, who was killed in Afghanistan in 2011.

“Everything was just terrific,” Hardiman said of Wise’s commemoration. “What a moving speech.”