Kate Arnold Nutrition

Female Viagra

January 27, 2010 10:30 am

My female friends have never been busier. Whether married with children or single, they work hard, continually juggling what life has to throw at them. Most of my girlfriends with children feel they are failing – as wives, mothers and career women. There is just too much to do, not enough hours in the day and not enough help, support or money to make the problem go away. What is the problem? Tiredness… never ending constant tiredness from lack of sleep. On top of all the juggling, women have never felt more under pressure to look good, be wrinkle free, have fantastic sex and float through life like the earth mothers they assumed they were going to be. The reality is (at least with my friend)is that they had children later in life, have gone back to work to soon after giving birth and are struggling. Having spoken to them about their sex lives, I have gotten mixed responses from some who havent had sex for years to some who manage it two or three times a week. It’s completely dependent on the couple, their overall libidos and whether there is in fact an issue between them about a lack of sex life. It often comes down to the crude reality that if you find a spare 1/2 hour in the day what would you rather do, have a nap or have sex?!

Although there may be a case for a pill in menopausal women, there is little need for a pill to boost a womans libido. Marketing a drug by making women feel there is something else for them to worry about is not the way ahead. Lack of sex or a sex drive does not mean you have female sexual dysfunction(which does not even exist). Women need more sleep, more help, an understanding partner, less media pressure to fill their face with botox and have fantastic sex every day – anyone got a pill for that?

If you would like advice on boosting your libido naturally please get in contact! email katenut@aol.com or tel 01323 737814