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Thursday, June 05, 2014

The divorce is still raging but yesterday Bethenny Frankel and Jason Hoppy agreed to settle their custody dispute and basically they are going to co-parent. I'm not sure why it took almost two years to decide that would be in the best interest of their daughter. Of course they are going to argue about money and possessions and there are still going to be some very nasty revelations, but they both have been using Bryn as a pawn and a 4 year old girl should not be used as a pawn. She isn't the bad person in this and they both did some awful things in her presence and apparently talked smack about each other to their daughter. I'm glad this partis settled and I hope they decide to start acting more like adults. They won't, but one can hope.

OT ALERT: I can't do the clicky link but have y'all seen the YouTube clip of Aaron Lewis ( frontman for Staind) totally going off on some pervs in the middle of a song? I now love him even more. That is all.

@Riven - hello, that's my life, too. But my parents are almost to 50 years of glorious hatred. But, honey, you can break free - I've been extremely happily married for almost 20 years. Mr. F came from a wacked out, dysfunctional mess, too, and we knew going in that our lives were going to be different. Have faith!

I think Bethenny was the one pushing for sole custody - something rarely given. And then she settles after she takes the stand and makes him look bad, but before he takes the stand to reveal all her dirt. She's just sleazy to me

@Riven- my parents have been divorced for almost 25 years and my mother still to this day is bitter and makes snide comments. Anything that he does now she compares to what he did for her or me when I was younger.

Kristen.. Exactly. SHE wanted to testify against Jason without being cross examined or allowing Jason to testify. Jason's parents were also set to take the stand. Betheny just wanted to throw crap about Jason out there and have the last word. She is one selfish piece of work.

I had a thought last week that "she's going to settle so that her side gets out and he won't take the stand". Nobody gets full custody anymore. Brin isn't a possession. Good thing is that the younger the kids are....the more resilient. My kid doesn't remember our divorce and my ex and I are always friendly. If I've ever said anything abt him, it's funny and I tell the good stories too. Kids deserve it. My hubs ex is a crazy spiteful person...those kids will resent her someday.

Y'all know what Catherine Deneuve said about a woman of a certain age having to choose between her face and her ass. Bethenny clearly chose her ass. YIKES! I don't know if all the retin-A and Creme de la Mer in the world can help those lines and dryness.

(And yeah, I'm picking on her, because she has the means to BUY the Creme de la Mer so she has no excuse. And she's a nasty person. Wrote some great recipes, sure, but still...a nasty person.)

@riven. you are my clone 3. my parents hated each other their entire marriage. i never saw them kiss or hold hands or huggmy dad died over 10 yrs ago and my mom still talks shit about him in front of me and i can't stand it and yes.. people wonder why i'm so trigger shy about marriage

hammer girl.. the staind guy stopped the show b/c the minor girl crowd surfing was being molested and he called them out and had security get themgood man!!

@hammer girl.. my mother still makes snide comments too trying to prove SHE WAS THE BETTER PARENT. and i'm like dad died 11 yrs ago you know the competition's over by now don't you think?? she is still trying to prove she was the better parent.drives me pfucking nuts. i can't be in the same room with her for a long time. 5 mins in and she's shit talking my dadi live 3000 miles and a whole time zone away out of spite

I've tried the moving thing, but I think my mom implanted a homing device in me somewhere. Not to mention I've tried ignoring her phone calls and after the 6th one in a single day she showed up at my place. And at the time I lived 3hrs away!! All I could think was damn I knew I should have hosted a mass orgy/swinger party tonight!

hammer girl.. yeah your gut instincts are always right. or hang some sort of old school underwear on the doorknob as a sign that she will not understand and ignore and just bitch you out over misplacing your dirty laundry.

Everyone else with my kind of parents: Thanks for letting me know I'm not alone there. The phrase "stay together for the kids" is atrocious and I used to beg my dad to get divorced for the kids. I actually pity my parents, which is hard to admit, but I do because they're stuck together and after a lifetime of unhappiness they will eventually die miserable and emotionally alone.

Every time my family gets together someone inevitably mentions my unmarried status. My go-to response is that I'm waiting for a love as deep and inspiring as my parents.'

@Riven-I'm in my 30's and get the same shit said to me by family frequently. I've started telling them I put myself through school, own my car and home outright, and when I find a guy who doesn't bore me to tears I will let them know. Till then, maybe they should help the other much younger girls in the family with their drug problems or multiple baby daddies. That usually shuts them up for the remainder of the visit.

Hammer and riven- my parents were nit happy with each other either, and bitched about the other constantly to me. I wish parents knew how exhausting and damaging that is for the child, adult or not. They are bith dead now, and i have some goid memories, but that crap isnt one of them. I feel your pain, both of you. Hugs.

She has to always have control, and she wanted full control of Bryn.I think Jason does have some dirt on her and was probably ready to use it and she had to cave.I hate the pap photos of them dragging the little girl out to show what good parents they are.

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