Carolyn Hax: Don't dismiss relationship because sparks don't fly

6:26 PM,
Aug. 12, 2014

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Dear Carolyn: I am female, unmarried, and in my late 30s (I know, kiss of death). From the ages of 32-36, I was never once asked on a date, presumably because I am overweight and not conventionally attractive.

I joined an online dating site last year and have started having more luck. The man I am seeing currently seems to be interested in a relationship, which ultimately is what I am looking for. As far as having feelings for him, I am at about a 65%, which sounds somewhat low, I know. He is very kind and we share interests - that's about it. I don't find him stunningly attractive, but I enjoy his ...