He said he would want us to communicate often, but he barely calls me. When I call him, he rarely picks up and never returns my call. The last time I called him, he ended my call and never called back.

I suspect you weren’t treated too well in this relationship and I suspect you don’t know what it’s like to be treated “decently.”

We will come back to that. Right now, you have some lingering chemical addictions to him for the “feel good” hormones your body had during the good times.

You need to sit by yourself in silence and make a clear, logical LIST of ALL the bad times, the hurt times, the inconsistencies that you had with him. If you had a sister or best friend that you talked to during these times, ask her what you said, SHE will remember and GLADLY reminder. We have a way of only remembering the good times.

Read this list over and over. Every time you miss him. Read it.

LISTEN TO ME: Put on some strong music. Feel yourself. It doesn’t get better than this: