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Don't Throw Out the Good

Before you leave your marriage, pack up and move to another country, take up with a new man, or make other radical moves, STOP.

Midlife can bring on the most troubling emotions. It's worthwhile to sort through them and find the truth. It can be hard to know which voices are the ones you should be listening to.

If you're a Christian woman, you already know the truth-bringer is God. There is no marriage too far gone for him. There is no trouble that can't be worked through. There is no temptation he won't help you fight. Call on him, read his word, and listen for his guidance.

Too many families are being destroyed by faulty choices. Women are leaving marriages, women are driving their husband and children away, blaming them for things they aren't guilty of.

There are a few things a midlife woman needs to look at seriously:

What physical changes are affecting her current mood?
How is her mood affecting her relationships?
What thoughts is she believing that are lies from Satan?
What support network does she have?

If you're struggling in midlife, find a trusted friend, life coach, or counsellor to help you through your tough spot!

What is a Life Coach?

A Life Coach is a professional trained in effective listening, question asking, and hearing between words spoken by a coachee.

A Life Coach seeks to be non-judgmental and walks beside her client as a support, accountability partner and encourager.

A Life Coach usually meets with a client through weekly telephone calls, but sometimes meets in person, by email, chat, Sykpe, or in rare instances, letter mail. Many life coaches facilitate groups, do speaking and writing as well.

It's hard to have close and trustworthy friends with time and skills to listen and support you. A personal Life Coach can help fill the gap.

In some situations, it is effective to have a go-to person such as a Life Coach outside your organization who will listen to you objectively.

While similar to Counselling in some ways, Life Coaching is different. It focuses primarily on where you are and where you want to head, rather than focusing on resolution of deep issues, addictions, hurt, abuse, turmoil, relationship breakdown or dysfunction.If a life coach senses therapy may be needed for a client, she will refer her.

New Self-Coaching Tool

A new Self Coaching Tool for Midlife Christian Women

This new eBook can be viewed on any digital device. You read articles online don't you? Why not read a full eBook online?

This book is for midlife Christian women whose children are leaving the nest. It's not about dealing with adult children, it's about finding yourself, finding focus, and being who God wants you to be in this transition phase of moving on from mothering.