Boobs Or Butt? The Truth About Male Obsessions And Fantasies

Men are visual creatures, and if we are being completely honest, they are obsessed with every part of the female body. But somehow boobs and butts catch their attention the most.

That’s mostly do to the sexual associations they instinctively make. Which one they prefer—boobs or butt—is something that they have a difficult time answering themselves.

While some men will choose their sides and decide between boobs and butt, most of them will remain indecisively decisive and say both.

Because both are equally appealing, and they are perfect erotic triggers.

The media is shifty about this subject. We can almost say they had an era in previous centuries where boobs were ‘trending’ and an era of today where butts prevailed and overflooded the media space.

Why did I bring up the media? Well, they have a great impact on people, in general, concerning everything, even if it is on a subconscious level.

It’s only logical that men will pay more attention to the things that they notice daily, and if their news feed is bombarded with butts, it’s only natural they will pay much more attention to them.

On the other hand, boobs haven’t lost focus. Men are equally obsessed with them as they are with butts, and that’s only natural.

Still, that doesn’t answer the question at hand: Boobs or butts? Which do men prefer and what is the truth behind their obsessions and fantasies?

The best way to answer that question is looking at all the possible reasons why these particular female body parts trigger those reactions in men.

Reasons why boobs are a male obsession and a trigger to their sexual fantasies:

1. The strongest visual turn-on since the beginning of mankind

Boobs are femininity in itself, and they were always part of male fantasies. They were their motivation to create art. They were and still are a symbol of fertility and sex-appeal.

Throughout the centuries, sculptors, painters and artists of all sorts used boobs as one of their recurring motifs. They’ve sung about them; they’ve drawn them; they’ve worshiped them. It’s safe to say that from the beginning of time, men have been obsessed with boobs.

2. Strong physical turn on for both men and women

It’s all about the touch, suck and kisses. Let’s face it; it’s a sensational experience for both of you, man and woman. He enjoys caressing and kissing them and by doing that, he is pleasing the woman, too.

Even science agrees because breast action stimulates the same part of the brain as the clitoris. So if you are still wondering about the perfect beginning of foreplay, start with boobs.

3. Female health literally blooms in the eyes of a man

According to medical research on the subject, the fact that boobs hold fat is actually beneficial for your health.

Subconsciously men agree with this, too. Not with boobs containing fat but with the fact that bigger boobs mean greater health.

When they see a woman with big boobs, they instinctively assume that the woman is eating right and enough. Therefore, she is healthy.

Their primary instinct is to look for women who are healthy enough to bear and raise children. Even though they are completely clueless about it, men associate big boobs with breastfeeding and child rearing, and that’s important for the day they want to start a family of their own.

4. They are eye candy

Even if the situation is not sexual and they are among other people or in a totally serious situation men will start fantasizing about the moment they’ll get their hands on those gorgeous boobs.

If a woman catches him staring, it will flatter her and probably awaken her imagination, too. That’s how sexual tensions are built.

It’s like foreplay before foreplay, and in male mind, it literally means: “You have no idea how horny I am and what am I going to do to you as soon as we get home.”

On the plus side for women, boobs are gorgeous in all profiles, in baggy clothes, in lingerie, naked, covered with food—boobs always look great, and they should be proud of them.

5. Cuddling on a whole different level

There is a whole range of different cuddling styles, but when it comes to boobs, there is just one, and it’s both hot and sweet.

A man drags his hands under a woman’s clothes and starts caressing all the body parts he can reach until he comes to his destination—the boobs. He will gently caress them while kissing the back of her neck.

This cuddling session can progress to sex, but it doesn’t have to. It depends on the mood.

6. They are bouncy

One of the typical examples of bouncy boobs are those of Pamela Anderson in Baywatch. A gorgeous blonde in a red swimsuit with huge, bouncing boobs is running to rescue a drowning person. It’s not such a harmless situation, and yet all you can see and think about is boobs bouncing up and down. A few of the older generations at least will relate to this.

It’s the same in real life situations. Men just love the sight of bouncing boobs, and they will be unable to look away.

7. They are great pillows

Can you think of a more snuggly pillow that fits your head perfectly? Of course, you can’t because there is nothing better than boobs.

Plus, on a more serious note, when a man puts his head on a woman’s breast, it gives him a feeling of security and belonging.

Reasons why butts are a male obsession and trigger to their fantasies:

1. Men want what they can’t have

Guys are usually aware that the butt is off limits. It’s a place they are usually forbidden to enter, if you know what I mean.

And that’s what makes it much more appealing—they want something they can’t have at all or so easily. That’s why men are obsessed with doing it from behind in the bedroom.

2. Enjoying the view

Men are visual creatures, and to be honest, they are obsessed with every part of the female body. But regardless whether they start looking in her eyes, her smile or her boobs, they will spend the most time checking out her butt.

They will feast their eyes on that particular part of the body, and if they like what they see, they will prepare to make their move.

3. They are nice to feel

Ever since they hit puberty—if not before— men have loved to grab female asses. It’s almost like an instinct they have. They want to touch them, feel them, squeeze them and even slap them.

There is nothing more beautiful than a perfectly shaped big butt to make a man lose his mind.

4. There are so many things to do

A big butt with the perfect amount of fat in the right places can serve as a pillow, a hand warmer or just something squishy and fun to play with.

The perfect resting place for their hands. When a man hugs a woman, he puts his hands on her butt without thinking twice about it, and if it’s nice, big and squishy, they feel like they’ve win the lottery.

They like to grab it and play with it, especially in the bedroom. It seriously turns them on. When a girl is on top, putting their hands on her butt is a must. Grabbing a nice, round butt is much more satisfying than poking a bony one, wouldn’t you agree?

5. Men don’t look at the shape and size of the butt the same way women do

Their preferences are different. Women like to look lean and even skinny, while men like women with curves and a bit of meat on their bones. It’s no wonder Kim Kardashian’s butt went viral.

If you ask men which shape or size of the butt they prefer the most, they will usually say the bigger the better, but in reality, they love them all, and they can’t wait to get their hands on them.

So a shout out to all the women out there: wear your butt with pride because men like all butts. Jelly or firm, big or small. It really doesn’t matter. A butt is a butt.

6. In shape and confident

A nice, perky, big, round butt means that the girl works out and pays attention to the way she looks. Sure, some women are gifted with an ass like that, but most of them know it takes a lot of squats and gym time to get it just perfect.

Women who work out tend to be stress-free, more laid back and more confident in addition to their lusty butts. It makes them a real men magnet.

7. Sign of fertility

Big butts come with wider hips, so it is easier for these women to give birth. That is something men are drawn to on a subconscious level.

They have an inborn desire to procreate that is written in their genetic code even if they are not aware of that. So it’s no wonder they are instinctively more attracted to a woman with a bigger butt and wider hips.

8. They are ideal for snuggling

Man’s favorite cuddle position could be described as curled up body-to-body. A woman’s butt, just at the right position… pressed against his manhood, and it’s making him extremely horny.

There is no cuddling position which stops a determined man from reaching a woman’s butt. Whether they are lying face to face or she’s on her stomach, he will always find it convenient to touch, grab and squeeze her but.

9. They are more intuitive

Some very imaginative scientists believe that emotional intelligence and butt size are connected. They argue that women develop emotional intelligence around the same time as they gain curves in puberty.

Women who have big butts develop superior social skills in order to select their potential mates.

10. They are like drugs

There was a study that proved that big butts affect the same part of the male brain that is triggered by alcohol and drugs.

The researchers showed men pictures of women before and after butt enlargement surgery while they monitored their brains.

Before you know it, men could suffer from butt addiction, and it’s no surprise because it’s a million times better than any other drug.

11. They contribute to a woman’s sex appeal

Big butts made a comeback after all those years of 0 sized models and forced Photoshopped cover girls. Women with them are seen as sex symbols and are almost every man’s dream.

So it’s no wonder that men are so into them because they are reminded on a daily basis how hot a woman who owns one looks. Some women even became famous thanks to their big butts. I won’t mention names because we all know who they are.

In reading this, you probably noticed that the list for butts is a bit longer, and therefore it’s easy to conclude that men are more into butts than they are into boobs.

Still, men who prefer boobs are not far behind. And it’s really hard to make a clear cut. It always depends more on his individual preferences and sexual fantasies.

And if you really look at it, what’s not to love? A smart man who is given a choice between boobs or butts will go for both if his partner is blessed with both.

If not, he will adore what she has. Because at the end of the day, it’s not just about boobs or butts. It’s about the whole package.

Leah Lee – Writer. Dreamer. Adventurer. Eternal Optimist.
I am an English language and literature professor and writing came naturally alongside that. It was something I did for me until I decided to share it with the rest of the world.
I write about love, emotions, relationship issues and ways to solve them and most importantly about empowering women to become the best versions of themselves.
My inspiration comes from all that I’ve been through in life, and it was a bumpy road but full of valuable lessons. I hope that my experience will do some good to all of those who like to read my work.