Welcome to The Couples Expert Podcast with your host Stuart Fensterheim. This is episode number 170 of our show. This week, Stuart is joined by guest Mickie Zada, who runs the Surviving Abuse Network. Mickie left her abusive marriage 16 years ago after over 30 years of abuse. She helps women get out of abusive situations and begin to heal.

Recovery is possible with a great deal of personal work and personal growth.

“If we don’t change, nothing changes” – Your outlook and perspective have to change so your choices can change. Resist going back to your abuser!

Free support, free information and education is available to learn how to make healthy choices in future relationships. Professionals can help us see who we are. We need the perspective of counselors and coaches to help us see beyond our own experiences.

Thank you so much to Mickie Zada for taking the time to share with our listeners and to all of you for spending part of your day with The Couples Expert.

How to Talk About the Hard Stuff

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Join Stuart next week on The Couples Expert for a discussion about truth and lies. The impact of deceit on your love relationship is huge. Listen in as Stuart discusses what it means to live in an authentic relationship with your partner.

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From the outside that family seems perfectly normal. Husband, wife and a couple of kids in an upper middle-class neighborhood. You may be their neighbor or a co-worker of the wife.Maybe your kids attend the same school and you see her when you drop off or pick them up. Lately though, something’s changed in her. She seems more quiet, withdrawn and has a wary and watchful look about her. The other day you saw her flinch when a friend touched her on the shoulder. It’s got you thinking that something may be wrong. She seems so skittish. Then you hear the news. They had a big fight outside in the front yard last night. Her husband was yelling and calling her every name in the book. Witnesses say he pulled her hair and pushed her down on the ground, kicking her before he stormed away, leaving her sobbing in the yard.

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