I'm in love with a man who's been in love with me for years. Unfortunately, years ago when he was ready, I wasn't. We see each other about three days a week. He hasn't asked. And I have a follow me boy kit. I'm also about to move in two months and I realize that the mojo takes 21 days and the work isn't completed until burial. I'm wondering if I could take the remains to my new home and bury them there..?

Hello I read the post on follow me boy from the lucky mojo site but it said to carve my name into the candle ; is this correct cause I've been carving his name into the candle the whole time lol help me out someone ! Lol I still usually request for him to follow me but if I've been doing this wrong it would make sense because I've been felling more and more obsessive over him and not him over me as much...

I have been using follow me boy on my phone, asking for a boy to keep giving me attention. Phone is the only way of communication as we are continents apart at the moment. It's been working amazingly, I have used it once a week approx and he has been in touch everyday even if just for a minute or so. I read the forum before and I understand follow me boy brings forth more sexual love. But just wondering if using the oil would affect me as well? Because I've just realised I'm thinking of him in those terms too!
I switched to love oil today because I do want more love and affection. Did I do the right thing?

I purchased several oils and I am anointing candles over a honey jar. If I rubbed follow me boy oil on my ex''s door knob would that be effective- 2 other people use the door but I would do it right before he is the one that touches the knob. If he then rubs other people will that limit the effects ...I just didn't know if this was effective at all.

Can i use follow me boy on someone that I only speak with on social media? There's a guy I like but he's about 6 hours away and I only lt talk to him on social media. If this isn't the spell , then what is a good one to use. I also was thinking about doing essence of bend over. My goal is for him to essentially do what I want him to and to influence him, have him seeking love and advisement from me.

From Follow Me Boy to Essence of Bendover seems like a rapid rise in domination strategies, or as the kids "that escalated quickly!" You want him to love you & look to you for guidance, you say. I wouldn't suggest beating him over the head w/ a formula like Bend Over as your first step. Follow Me Boy is a good starting point. Then something like Love Me & Influence or Commanding oils. Just my thoughts.

I agree with AlyssaH's advice: I think Essence of Bend-Over is a pretty big hammer to use on this situation at this point. I think a great combination to use on someone who's a long ways away is Follow Me Boy combined with Come to Me:

There are lots of ways you can use those product lines. You can put the two of you in a honey or sugar jar, work the Come to Me spell kit and incorporate Follow Me Boy oil into that, etc. You could also mail this guy a good old fashioned paper letter that's lightly dressed with Follow Me Boy and Come to Me sachet powders, in order to get him in contact with these products.

The FMB is too complex and cumbersome for me to use. My target lives 6 hrs away and all I have is some pics. I bought the FMB but is there another way that I can modify it and still get the same affect? I can't wear red, no roses etc so as it reads I can't do FMB. But I still want to use the components of the kit and make another spell so to speak that is just as effective. Any suggestions?

This is my first post here, but I have been a customer for a few months now and love the products I have received. I have the Follow Me Boy oil, sachet powder and vigil candle. I have been with my bf (who's a few years younger) for almost 2 years and things are going pretty well, but I just wish for him to see certain things my way as I see things from his perspective, particularly the topic of having children. He's ready to have them today and I still have lots of things I want to do in my life first before that happens (and of course be married first). Is FMB a good set of tools to use for this, or should I use something else in addition? Any suggestions are appreciated. Thanks!!

So I'm planning on using some Follow Me Boy Oil and Love Me Oil on my boyfriend when I see him this week. I was thinking about giving him a massage with it, and blending it with some jojoba oil. I actually have a few questions. Should I combine them, or do them separately and focus my intention on each one individually. And does combining the oils with a massage oil dilute the power of it as well? We live in different states and I don't get to see him as much as I would like, so I need to get all the tricks in that I can until I see him again. I was going to try to put some in his shoes as well. If anyone has any other ideas of what I can do that would be great. Oh and I do plan on reinforcing this with a candle.

You are definitely thinking on the right track. The choice between mixing the oils together or applying them separately is really up to you. Those two oils are a good compliment to each other so they will blend nicely but either option will work just as well. Also diluting the oil in Jojoba fr a massage will not weaken them at all. I actually work as a massage therapist and like to mix little Blessing an Healing oils into my massage cream for my clients and it works beautifully.

Just got my oils and powders and it took only about 3 weeks to reach me though I'm in Asia! So happy!

Just wanted to ask if FMB is considered 'very' commanding in that sense? I did read that it was mentioned it is slightly commanding and just wanted to make sure:

So my oils are FMB and Love Me + I got the Kiss me now plus bewitching powders

I'm just using the oils on candles for jars now and have yet to use the powders - was thinking to save the kiss me powders until we go on a proper date or should I just use it anyway? (I see him regularly)

I'm finally picking up the courage to buy FMB oil because of my work of St. Martha, admiration of her strength and dominance with a graceful touch of beauty and feminine prowess. All in all, I do need that balance of control and dominance FMB can give me without it being too much when dealing with my stubborn ex.

I wanted to know how long does a typical bottle of FMB last if used to annoint the body and to dress a small votive candle?

I most likely will not use the FMB due to Mercury's Retrograde, unless the Retrograde will not negatively affect it, then I'll go ahead but tread cautiously with communication.

There is no "typical" amount of time that a bottle of oil will last. It differs by person and how much you use and how often. That said, you only need a little so you should get good use out of a single bottle.

And yes, avoid starting spells during Retrograde. Messages get very scrambled at this time. Wait until it goes direct again to begin any new work.

Thank you again for the information! I just placed an order yesterday to receive FMB and Dixie Love (that one seemed to just call to me and have exactly what I needed), so I'll hopefully get it by tomorrow or so.

Been practicing hoodoo for a few months and lurking through the boards. Today I received my first LM order which included a Follow Me Boy oil and I can't wait to use it on my boyfriend, planning to mix it with some attraction oil to bring us closer together. I'm so excited to use the LM products as they feel more aunthentic than others I've used before.

hello everyone it is my first time on here. I wanted to know. can i use follow me boy oil on my body without doing candle work? or any type of spell work? or do i have to use a combination of both? Can it work if i just out the oil on me and i am around him, will it work that way?

A few times I went out on a date with this guy. I have A-size boobs, the only thing that makes me feel very self-conscious about my appearance, when it gets to that moment. I look good in a bra, but once that's eliminated, I'm pretty sure the guys think "Oh.... " I also tend to go out with Latino guys, and you know how voluptuous Latina women are! So I put a lot of FMB oil all over my chest with the intent of him liking me (/my boobs) for the way I am, and both times I came home with the bruises on my chest from his kisses! I don't see him anymore, but he still asks me out. So, thanks LM for keeping my confidence!

Now when I know that it worked for my boobs, is it a proper oil to use to captivate and hold someone's interest?
We started texting, but he is older than me and super accomplished. I'm afraid that when we meet, I will not be able to hold his interest socially (physically, I think, we'll be alright!). What else can I use to captivate and maintain his overall/general attraction to me? With him, I don't have an end goal yet (i.e., be together, marriage), but I would like to develop and maintain close relationship.

I just ordered FMB oil and vigil candle. Reading everyone’s posts, it seem like you have to have some type of contact with your target. If there’s no contact, would it be possible to use it on personal concern? I’m planning to use it on my ex, but we currently don’t have physical contact anymore. I’m planning to light a reconciation vigil candle as well.

Hey everyone!
So my boyfriend got a very good job in London and now he’s focusing entirely on his career. Don’t get me wrong, I am very happy for him but I miss the attention he used to give me a few months ago. We’re in a long distance relationship, so I won’t be able to put the oil on him or get anything personal from him for now, but I’m moving to London in a few months. I’ve started a honey jar and I pray to Saint Martha regularly to keep him faithful to me while I’m not there with him. The thing is, he has told me that now all he is focused on is his career and not love life, and we rarely speak now as he’s busy all the time. I am sure he loves me, he’s just too stubborn to tell me that or to realise it, as he thinks he’s “a bad boy with no feelings”. What oil should I use? Would Follow Me Boy work if I annoint my honey jar and Saint Martha candles with it? Or should I use some other oils or even some other spell work? Any advice is appreciated. Can’t wait for my man to be crazy over me and focus only on me

Hey guys! So I just got my FMB oil, I’ve annointed my phone with it and after a bath I’ll annoint myself with it. Tomorrow I’ll light a red candle dressed with this oil on my honey jar and recite the Song of Solomon. One question though, should I start a 9 day prayer to Saint Martha, or to saint Jude? Because I’ve been getting signs from both of them recently.

That's a hard question to answer without giving you a reading. St. Martha is often petitioned for love matters and St. Jude is often petitioned in hopeless cases. Is your case hopeless? I don't know the answer to that. You may want to get a reading:

I must say - wow. I’ve used FMB oil for a week on my honey jar, and I didn’t really see any results because my boyfriend lives far away from me, but yesterday he got drunk and sent me a mean text (a few nights ago I was drinking with some of my guy friends and sent him some snaps from the night) telling me that this thing I’m doing, sending him other guys is complete bullocks (I never intended for him to get jealous, he never would get jealous this much!). Now it doesn’t feel like a good thing because it’s not a really positive outcome but at least he’s finally jealous, and I am pretty sure it’s because of the oil... My question is, should I continue using FMB or should I try something not so harsh on him? I wanted him to become obsessed over me and only think about me but he’s getting obsessed in a mean kinda way

I love the effect follow me boy oil has on men when I wear it.
I want to do a spell to get my ex to to be really interested in me, desire me, notice me and attracted to me.
I used follow me boy on him a year ago when we were in relationship and he was so attentive and actually started being emotional (he’s usually very closed off and bottles things up).
Would mixing follow me boy oil with bewitching oil, look me over oil and come to be oil be a good solution for this to get a mans attention?

Good evening everyone!
So I’ve been using FMB oil for about a month now or more, but it seems that my guy just started to ignore me more instead of following me... I don’t remember the last time we had a normal conversation could this be because of the oil? Maybe it has this effect on him? I was thinking maybe he started to suddenly have incredibly strong feelings towards me (the obsessive kind) that he got scared and confused? If that is the case, could I burn a honey jar with a white candle on it dressed with lavender oil? Because I really miss him and I have no idea what went wrong Please help.

You could certainly give the honey jar idea a try to sweeten him back up to you. I would suggest getting a reading on the situation to get to the root of whats going on. http://readersandrootworkers.org/

I just received my first LM order and got the Follow Me Boy oil - I plan to set a red candle with a petition in this oil and Love Me oil for a man I love this Friday.

After reading this thread I am very very excited to start using it, it sounds very potent!

I will wear some of the oil and try to get some on him with the Love Me oil next time he comes back to town to visit.

But I'm wondering is it useful to wear some of this while I'm say messaging him or talking to him on my phone while he's out of town? Or is that too long distance and the candle work will take care of that?