it’s bullshit how women are objectified by men and they have to do things that hurt or they just don’t want to do because it makes them look nice. or sometimes they can’t do things they want because it’s “slutty” or whatever

and then when they do the opposite, they’re somehow wrong too? like again? it’s a horrible case of damned if you do, damned if you don’t, and it’s terrible. most men don’t have to deal with this bs, so why do we have to?

i miss the moments when my brain is so full of words, i can barely control it. i miss the moments when i have so much to say that it almost comes out. i miss the moments where i was always overflowing, talking, lively.