Is it OK to suck a dick as hard as possible?

i've always kind of wondered about this 'cause it seems like, if the penis is as sensitive as you're always hearing it is, it would be too sensitive to be sucked too hard. the last time i gave a blowjob, the guy kept saying "just go at it", but i kind of restrained myself a little 'cause i was afraid i'd hurt him by sucking too hard or lose control and start using my teeth.
so is OK to just suck the dick as hard as you can?

i've always kind of wondered about this 'cause it seems like, if the penis is as sensitive as you're always hearing it is, it would be too sensitive to be sucked too hard. the last time i gave a blowjob, the guy kept saying "just go at it", but i kind of restrained myself a little 'cause i was afraid i'd hurt him by sucking too hard or lose control and start using my teeth.
so is OK to just suck the dick as hard as you can?

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Listen to what he said and just go at it.
For me the harder you suck the better I like it.
But dont let the teeth scrape him.

As long as no teeth are involved, I don't think you could suck too hard but if by sucking you mean forming a vacuum like you're trying to milk it - that does nothing for me. It's the movement and variation of your lips and tongue over the skin that creates the sensation

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There's lot more to fellatio than sucking. There's also a lot of licking, teasing with the tongue, kissing, etc. (although I wouldn't recommend biting or teeth scraping) Just try a bunch of things and see what works. If you do anything painful the guy will let you know right away.

There's lot more to fellatio than sucking. There's also a lot of licking, teasing with the tongue, kissing, etc. (although I wouldn't recommend biting or teeth scraping) Just try a bunch of things and see what works. If you do anything painful the guy will let you know right away.

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Glad you mentioned the finer points.
I like to call it making love to my cock
If i tell her "just make love to it" then the kissing, licking and fondling begins.

No teeth but yes go a little harder sometimes when you are getting into it. If you don't deep throat then work your hand on the lower half of his shaft so he has a nice enclosed feeling. Mix things up and be creative with different speeds and pressures.

It really is up to the guy, I didn't use to like teeth but I do know so just go with what he tells you.

I may be the only guy like this but when I get a blow job I like my SO to get straight to it not much licking or kissing just complete engulfing of the penis, sorry if that is blunt but thats how I like it

but really go with what he says I am sure he will say stop if you are hurting him

You're going to have to ask him. No way around that. That said, a good hard sucking can feel great while it's happening, but can leave me feeling bruised the next day. Walking around all day wishing you didn't have clothes rubbing your raw member is not a great thing.