Polyamorous triad who love three-way sex want to marry and have kids: 'We have no rules'

LOVE: Jimmy, Chacha and Summer are all in a happy loving relationship together (Pic: MEDIADRUM WORLD )

Jimmy Silva, 31, from California, USA, first started dating his girlfriend, Chacha Va Voom, 29, after meeting at high school through a mutual friend.

But in 2012 they met the third addition to their happy trip Summer Pelletier, 25, during a casting call at a business event.

The three of them all felt very strongly towards each other and officially become a triad in December that year.

Since then they have been inseparable and are in love but they also have an open relationship. The threesome are allowed to date other women as long as they are honest and all three agree to it.

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UNCONVENTIONAL: The trio want to marry and have kids but maintain an open relationship (Pic: MEDIADRUM WORLD )

Jimmy, who is the marketing director of his company 420Nurses, said: “Our relationship has no rules with each other. We always love, make out, hold hands, we try to put no limits. We all have sex together and we enjoy it more when it’s all three of us

“There have been a few dates we have gone on but always with other girls and together. All of us enjoy girls, so every so often there is a girl that pops up that we all feel is cute and that she is giving us all equal attention, so we agree to hang out.

“We always let them know that if she doesn’t like all of us together then we can be friends and it ends there.

“If the girls are attracted to all of us and we feel the same, we are open to dating her. We are not a closed triad, but we are not actively looking for a fourth.

“We do have timeouts on each other so when things get really heated we give ourselves some time to reflect and then continue the conversation.

“For me, polyamory means that there is more to life than just normal rules, you can live happy and enjoy a fantasy every day.”

“I have always known that I could love more than one person, I didn’t know what it was called but I knew it was happiness,” Chacha said.

Summer continued: “Since I was young I was always attracted to girls and I always felt like people didn't care much about me or love me.

“Being in a polyamory triad relationship means there is never any down time. I always have someone to turn to and I am always loved.”

Jimmy says the trip have some big plans for the future and explains how each of their families feel about the set-up.

He said: “We hope to get married in the future we are really in love and we want to have babies. We are in Los Angeles which is very liberal, and I don't ever see any negative reactions it’s usually people telling me how lucky I am.

“Summer’s family is really open, modern and accepting, Chacha’s family is okay with it but they rather not talk about it.

“My family are not open, as they are very conservative, but they are slowing warming up to the idea six years later.

“We have gone to other states like in Utah where all three of us were holding hands and a lady at the market kind of shrugged her shoulders but that was probably the worst reaction we’ve received.”

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