ETA: I'm being asked why this is directed toward women. Well lets see, men aren't allowed on this website and women are the ones that carry their babies in their wombs and give birth. Women will always have a deeper connection than a Father no matter what. Its the truth.

Hmmmm. Very judgemental, who said it was easy?? My abusive ex TOOK my kid years ago. Cops wouldn't do squat because they don't "get involved", tried cps, I'll add that i was very young, I was just a young teenager. I was told I would Have to get a lawyer. No lawyer $$$. He has had him for yrs. I have not seen him. I have not spoke to him. I have NO CLUE where they live to even serve anything if I wanted to. I am now in a different state with my Dh and our Dd. Easy? Definitely not.

BM will not have custody of skids in the next month, because she is a shitty parent who refuses to do anything to support her children and tried to hide them from DH...its been a long time comming but DH and his children will finally be reunited :)