A blog which is made of all the experiences faced in life and relationship. A trial to share the answers of the things which keeps bothering in our minds when we are romantically involved with somebody, who keeps us alive.

Monday, 2 July 2012

The Monsoon Of My Dreams...

I don’t understand the relation between rain and emotions.
Many of us plug our headphones and listen to the best of the romantic songs and
stare at the cold raindrops falling from the sky, imagining us standing with
our darling love out in the open and kissing each other. When I imagine myself
in that position, believe me, my heart skips many beats. Some of us just feel
an urgent need of warm and spicy treat to our watering mouth. Chai and Pakodas,
as we Indians crave for in the monsoon. Some of us drop few tears remembering
the void of love and the loved one in our heart and life.

I was never fortunate enough to enjoy a monsoon romance in my
whole life. Monsoon, I don’t know, what it does to me, suddenly I turn into
Shakespeare falling in love. The picture of me walking with him in the rain,
dancing slowly in the cold drizzle and looking into each other's eyes, how perfect is that. Mmmmm, I miss him.

In a relationship, of any kind, comfort is the most
important factor. When do you know you are not comfortable with that person?
Well, I’ll give you just one tip; I found that it is when you are not able to
meet his or her eyes. When I look into someone’s eyes, I don’t understand, but creates
an unwanted bond between me and the person, which forces you to be honest,
speak the truth and be bold enough to face them. Hence I stare away, looking at
the hair, or the people in the background, the color of the dress they are
wearing but I still manage to get people’s attention and have a comfortable
chat. As being a little different from my Indian family, my mother and me have a
lot of differences and unfortunately I end up doing what she thinks is
inappropriate for me. It makes me feel right until I face her, and then the
clouds of guilt and fear surrounds my mind. So I never had the courage to look
into her eyes. But it becomes a problem when you are with the love of your life
and you are unable to look into his or her eyes. It has happened to me in the past, so I do
have an idea how it feels.

But he is not like
others. I can look in his eyes and suddenly I can feel the world around freeze at that moment, I feel the bond between me an him and I can see how much he trusts me.
I never lie to him, except for that I had breakfast in the morning (giggles).
Hmmmm, love..makes my life so beautiful…!!

And it rains! Blessings are showering from heaven. But
alas, even today I just have to dream about my perfect monsoon moment. And soon it shall come true.