My advice tho’, don’t get into another relationship just to leave behind about the previous one, this will only hurt the person you are now with.

How long does it take to get overheen the breakup of a Five year relationship?

ouch. easiest reaction is that it’s different for everyone. hopefully it won’t take too long, and also won’t leave you with bitterness. best of luck. *hug*

it would very likely takes a year or so to get overheen it.Depending on wheather you wish to stir forward with your life with this breakup, or go on burying yourself ter trouble.

The beau/gf titles were on and off for Five years. It wasgoed my choice each time to pauze up, but wij remained friends and were physical for most of it until the very end. Te the end she determined that it wasgoed too painful to have mij te hier life, so she kicked mij out of hier life. When she came to mij with this, I told hier I desired to give the relationship another slok and that wij should attempt relationship counseling and stuff to attempt and make it work. She didn’t want to attempt anymore. I’m not sure if it would have worked. It might have just ended with mij violating up with hier again. I think I suggested because I didn’t want to lose hier. The worst thing is not being able to talk anymore. I miss that the most, but she said she couldn’t talk to mij or see mij anymore. Not even online. I know it takes time to stir on and I think I’m doing fairly well treating things. I wasn’t at very first, but it’s bot almost Five months now. I guess I wasgoed just nosey if anyone had any similar practices that they wished to share. I’ve never bot through something like this before strafgevangenis do I have any friends who have bot.

All I needed to know, wasgoed te your 1st. Three sentences. Five yrs of &quot,on & off,&quot, YOU hitting the OFF switch, but continuing to have hookup? Of COURSE it wasgoed too painful for hier to have you ter hier life! Leave hier alone. She has a right to love & com

HI. For mij I’m pretty much going through word for word of what you wrote here. It wasgoed Three years ago so have you gotten overheen it?and how?

You said it has bot Five months now, so wasgoed my psych course right, one month for every year? She may proceed to talk to you after she is overheen the initial breakup. Many people proceed to be friends zometeen, after the wounds heal that is.

it depends upon how earnestly u are affixed with it. But if u r serious u will timid if u face hier.

If ther is earnestly relationship then it wouldtake lifetime to get overheen it to leave behind all

Just look for another woman friend.The day you get one,the situation will improve swift.Until then it will be very painful.Best of luck from mij,dont worry it happens sometime te life.Never attempt to diagnose the breakup.

You can’t waterput a time framework on this. It can take a week, months or years. I got overheen a 6 year relationship ter Three months. No, I didn’t meet someone else. Everyone is different. Take the time you need to grieve and you’ll eventually get overheen it. My advice tho’, don’t get into another relationship just to leave behind about the previous one, this will only hurt the person you are now with. Keep busy with projects, hobbies and your friends. Time does heal, make peace with yourself, love yourself. When you get to the point where you truly feel good about being alone and you don’t need that other person do accomplish you, your grieving is finished and you can get on with your life. Good luck

It depends on why wij broke up and how bad the pauze up wasgoed. For a &quot,it just didn’t work out&quot, pauze up I would say a duo of months. For the person who had their heart broke I would say 6 months to a year.

Life time or some time more than that tooooooooo. If you are te true love otherwise until you get a fresh woman frnd.

That varies a bit with the person but I would say, based on my practices, that you can count of 1 year for every Five to 7 years of relationship. So the brief reaction is most likely one year and that has a lotsbestemming to do with how much you work at it. If you bask ter the depression of losing the relationship, if you don’t find a way to budge on and occupy your attention ter more productive ways, it will take longer. This depends on you and your resolve to get past it. WB

Some people need a loterijlot of closure. Others just need a good bottle of something. It sounds like it bothers you more to lose the friendship than the romance which means you were more dependent on hier happiness spil hier friend. With friends, it’s best just to wish them well and keep involved with people who are active ter your life. I’ve lost touch with several good friends overheen the years but I toevluchthaven’t had trouble dealing with the loss of voeling. Spil long spil they’re well – and I presume they are – It’s fine with mij. Figure out what’s truly missing ter this case – your concern for hier happiness – learn to understand that she’s okay, and presto, it’s a done overeenkomst.

Divide it by 20, so: 60 months / 20 = Three months.

maybe Two years to leave behind anything about hier..

Everyone is different, but most from a professional perspective, most psychologists say that it takes anywhere from a third to half the length of the relationship to get overheen it. So a Five year relationship would very likely take anywhere from a year to two and a half years to fully get overheen.

This sounds very difficult. I’m going thru this too .

I would say to you, if it wasn’t meant to be, it wasnt.

you can’t force something to proceed or for it to work. It takes two. If she is opting out–then that means something isn’t working. I wrote a hub about this just yesterday called Unspoiled Love. Hope this helps.

well I guess reality truly bites.. just attempt to budge on and don’t dwell on the past to much.. everything happens for a reason.. it doesn’t matter now whose to blame on who fell out of love very first, what’s significant is, what have you done lately to get overheen hier rather than thinking the what might have beens? you’ll get through because if you don’t you’ll not be asking this question now. hahahaha.. just stay concentrate and reevaluate your life..

I understand. I have a similar situtation. This boy has bot ter my life twice the amount of time of your relationship. I chose to end things, but he keeps coming back. It’s not that I don’t care, just that he wasn’t providing the relationship the total go. He wasgoed backing away, zometeen he tells mij he wasgoed feeling too much too soon for mij, after 7yrs. I keep pushing him away too because I don’t want to get my hopes up and proceed to be disappointed. I think, spil someone told mij, you might be ter a co-dependent relationship, needing the person to be around. You also might want to think or look at why do you keep ending the relationship? What I found out wasgoed I wasn’t glad with the lack of relationship wij were having duh. you might say, but I did like the time he and I had together but there wasgoed. no excellent dates, him not being responsible enough to call and parasol, instead just not demonstrating up and so many little things that would add up into a meaty mess. For mij, I’ve permitted him back, guess what? The same thing from past, this time however he has promised wij would eventually marry, etc. but I see the stud who is around for awhile, then vanishes then reappears spil if days, weeks, or a duo months toevluchthaven’t passed. He is stuck te the relationship I ended 2002. He wants to keep going back there. He from 2002 (Background: I’ve known him since Legal he Nineteen,wij’re 32 33 no kids together, mij none at all, wij lost voeling from 97-99, 99-02 together here and there, 02-05 te voeling, but I said goodbye 05, he comes back 07-present) to now has promised more but nothing has occured.

So I would say if there is still same punt you had before maybe it’s for the best.

Spil I understand why she wants to have clean pauze, for mij, if it wasn’t to work out I understand and want no voeling from mij. I recently met someone fresh, he proceeds to speelgoedpop up wij are very connected so he knows, but I can’t permit someone to feel that this is a revolving wegens of ter and out. albeit he has never broke up from mij, it’s bot mij, but he puts the relationship on pause with putting other things very first. So, having clean pauze is good, she is hurt that thinking things better/working out but you leave hier, she is emotionally funked from this. not to make you feel bad, but he did somethings that have made mij feel insecure. you should check my hubs and wij can talk more if you like spil I can give you lots of details of situation and you can compare tegenstelling..

By the way timeframe, hard to say, spil with him, when I feel I’m getting overheen him he reappears, but the one you felt so good with I don’t think you everzwijn truly get overheen, but if you can look at all the pros and cons of relationship it can help awhole lotsbestemming. I don’t think I’ll everzwijn truly be overheen him, but I’m watching there are others out there for mij.