My Christmas was average at best. My mom forgot to tell the retirement home where we had lunch with my Grandma that I was coming so I got to sit and enjoy other people eating which was great . New Years should be cool if the weather holds out. Taking a whole bunch o glow toys to a psytrance party and will be groovin till the wee small hours! Hope all yall also have a night to turn your frowns upside down!! (sorry bout that one...)

Let my words, dear friends, be treasures. Weightless golden butterflies that hang before your eyes for seconds, then are gone. But the dust of truth and beauty that their wingbeats leave behind will settle on your soul and make you happy. - Edward Monkton

That's fun too. Being a Druid in a churchy-conservative family. I just tend not to remind them, but that makes for some lonely holidays as well.

There's sort of a romantic interest... sort of. It's crap that doesn't need to be lamented here. He's actually the guy who got me started in poi... aww. But social BS aside, he's also 1400 miles away. Boo.

Posted:4th Jan 2009...on a completely off-topic note, since I'm not actually single-- when I saw the title of this topic, the first thing that popped into my head were those individually wrapped slices of nasty American cheese. Damn American marketing brainwashing!

On an on-topic note-- I'm rooting for you all! If you had asked me a couple of months ago, whether I'd NOT still be rooting for myself, too, I'd have laughed.

Posted:20th Jan 2009Sorry to jump in here and say something...whats up by the way guys and girls...I just had to say I have been reading this thread for about a week or so I guess and I have to say its some of the funniest things I've ever seen.

Posted:20th Jan 2009Indeed! Such a wonderful thread to waste my time on.

Maybe someone has beheld you Flash and their just too shy to say so. I don't know what anyone else thinks but a guy who spins is hard to resist! As far as beholding goes anyway. I can't wait til I have guys saying "damn that girl is hot, in more ways than one!" hehe, ego much...

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Posted:21st Jan 2009Lately I've been quarreling quite a bit with my boyfriend and mostly because of totally stupid stuff. We're not quarreling because of the things we quarrel about, we're quarreling just because we're quarreling. Don't know whether we can fix that. Also, he lives in the US, me in Europe. That makes it extra-complicated. I not sure what to do. One of my roomies said to wait a bit and if it doesn't get better, we will just have to break up. I don't know whether I want to break up with him. It would be a pity, but it would also make many things easier. Don't know.

Posted:21st Jan 2009Wow! If you don't know if you should break up with him then you probably should. I just got out of a 5 year relationship, the last two years of which I was "unsure" about it. I have never felt better even if it was hard.

Anyway, we should make a pact to stay single forever just to carry on this thread! Ya?

Posted:21st Jan 2009 Yeah, I've stayed in a relationship for way too long because I wasn't sure enough to end it- call it a 'trial seperation' if you want, but if it's going as rough as that, don't stay in just because you think you should.. If it's going to work out, it'll work out even if you do take a break from each other. If not, you'll not waste energy and emotion on trying to keep something broken going. I hope you figure it out.