i am 47 years old and my hubby to be is 60 and that being said i know what you all is thinking why try..well hubby does not have any kids of his own and i have one daughter and we are raising my grand son together. my GS treats us like mom and dad and treats him like so but i feel like he is such a wonderful person maybe god will bless.

but other that becoming a POAS addict for almost 4 years we we first started trying or just me trying because he does not want to get his hopes up.

i now have irregular periods and think i O'D 8 days ago i had a pink wipe of blood on Monday and thought i started nothing since then...could be perimenopause even though my dr ran test and said i not there yet

I understand how you must be feeling and i understand the challenges you face re age. I hope you get some support from this site. Personally i think most on here have younger dh's than ours and many women are younger themselves. I felt quite out of the norm and perhaps judged for that?? Maybe..idk.

I wish you all the best on your journey and hope you can get through the challenges. If i can offer one piece of advice though....both of you should get thoroughly checked out (SA for him, hormone testing, tubes checked etc etc ASAP). I know it's a personal choice but if you REALLY want this baby, be aggressive about it. We tried for too long hoping the natural way would work. I now know when age issues are against you you take a big gamble hoping it will just happen because you're otherwise healthy.

I wish you both all the best.

[i]TTC one more precious bundle since Oct 2013 with my now 41yr old eggs, and severe mfi