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A PROFOUND
MESSAGE THAT WILL ALTER YOUR BELIEF SYSTEM

DO YOU FEEL LIKE YOU ARE INVISIBLE?

DO OTHERS FAIL TO NOTICE YOU?

The world does not care how “nice” you
are.

It does not care whether you live or
die, are broke,

sick,
suicidal or have AIDS.

It cares only about what you can do
for it and how

valuable
you are to others.

If you don’t play by these rules it
makes you “invisible”.

Think about
it. The nicest people you know are often those who get absolutely nowhere in
life while sometimes the “bastards” do quite well.

Why is
this?

Simple.
Almost every normal individual requires inspirational or ego-enhancing input.
People want to be led by the hand. They want and need input from others who are
actually “doing things”. Individuals are perpetually searching for those they
can “look up to” and use as a role model. Often they use this role-model person
as free“entertainment”to add meaning to their otherwise dull lives.

Which is
why top artists attract tens of thousands of followers on their social pages.
These followers feel a “connection” with this successful artist and it gives
them personal prestige to be associated, even in a minor way.

Look at
what happens when you get a group of people together. The most charismac of the
group will hold the attention of the others, even if he/she is talking total
bullshit! This person may in fact be a total failure but their personality
shines through.

In fact no
individual is a complete total failure as far as the world is concerned. These
unfortunate individualstend to serve as
a horrible example to the rest of us.

It
started when you were a baby crying for food, diaper change, etc. Your mother,
who you founduseful would fulfil these
duties.Right from the start you were
associating with others who supplied your needs.

And
then as a 3-4 year old you found it helpful to cry or throw a tantrum to get
attention. The world looked after you. Your Mother of course was delighted. She
had found somebody who needed her. She was not alone in this world. You both
fulfilled each other’s needs. And as you grew up you perpetually searched for
someone to fulfil these requirements.

If you have
a marvellous personality and an interesting lifestyle, have you often wondered
why people hang around you waiting for your next profound utterance? Have you
then wondered why they don’t do “stuff” for themselves instead of waiting to be
entertained?They want to be led. They
regard you as some form of leader. They are subconsciously waiting for
direction which is why they have made you the centre of attention.

You can’t
help wondering why they don’t“Get a
Life” of their own instead of infesting everyone else’s like a human cockroach.

This
sometimes makes you feel like you are alone in the world. But of course if you
have a giant ego then you will probably lap it up.

Are you
invisible? Do people actually notice you or

are you merely
static in the background?

Do
people tend to ignore you and act as though you weren’t there? You’ll notice
this weird affect as you grow older because the world is geared to young active
people, all interacting with each other. People are not being impolite.... they
are simply not consciously aware ofyou.
It is under these circumstances that you realise you are often truly alone in a
non-caring world.

You
may feel that life is unfair and has not treated you with respect. The way out
of this is to do things that make life more interesting..... FOR OTHERS!!You may have had a ton of setbacks in your
life but these are merely positive experiences disguised as lessons.

Life is not a
prison. You can escape from your

Invisibility
any time you seriously want to.

You
may be the nicest person on the planet but this will not necessarily help you
relate to society.

Develop a vision of how you want to
appear to others. Focus on this vision day and night. Work towards it. Involve
yourself in activities that wouldbeof benefit to others.If you have specific knowledge on a subject
then search out like-minded types who would be interested. You become their
guru!

When this happens you feel you are not alone!

Always be fair and reasonable. If
you’re not then others will avoid your company. Research and listen to others
who appear to be of value and most importantly treat others as you want to be
treated yourself.

Each and every individual has value
that will be helpful to the world. Even total bums sometimes have attributes
that others need.

And here is the shocking truth......

“Nice” people
seldom get anywhere in life unless

they have
something extra to offer the world.

Let
us suppose that you are a very attractive 18 year old girl. You look stunning.
Guys have referred to you as a “10”. You are constantly asked out on dates.
Friends of yours mention this really “nice” guy who wants to take you to
dinner. You accept. The dinner goes well. The guy is genuinely nice but
something is missing. There is no spark. At the end of the dinner you conclude
that he is nice to the point ofboring.
You thank him and go home. Alone.

A
couple of night later you accept a dinner date with another “nice” guy. This
one is a little rough around the edges and drops a few swearwords. This doesn’t
worry you as you have been known to swear like a trouper anyway. During the
course of the dinner you find that he works for himself as a guitar teacher.
This immediately sparks your interest as you have just bought a guitar and have
been wondering how to learn it. Then you find that he has got his private
pilot’s licence which really gets you excited as one of your aims in life is to
learn to fly. He suggests that you might be interested in going flying with him
one weekend. You finish dinner and readily agree to meet him again. You give him
your mobile phone number.

You are
interested in a relationship because he can do things for

you as he has
attributes that you consider valuable.

Whereas
your date several days before had nothing to offer that you considered life
enhancing.

No
matter what age you are there will probably be times when you feel alone. And
you will most certainly notice this as you grow older. The world just seems to
pass you by and time appears to move more quickly.The years flash past at a quicker rate.
Christmases’ seem to roll together. And the feeling of “aloneness”increases. The world no longer cares. When
this happens you must develop techniques and processes that are of interest to
others. If you don’t make this effort you will remain alone.

Not
a nice feeling!

A genuinely
nice person often feels that they are living on an Island.

No
one cares for them because they have lost the ability to prove themselves
useful.

If
you are currently in this situation you are definitely NOT ALONE because there
are thousands of others just like you. But you are not aware of them because
like you, they have nothing to offer the world and have become invisible.