I like anal play - especially when I am fingering myself and feeling the warm moistness and contours.

I also like stretching my hole with large toys.

However, I find when I do so, despite being turned on, my cock is not erect.

If I play with my cock, I could cum before getting fully erect.

If you are the same, do you know why this happens?

Yeah LOL. Maybe you are a Tgirl in disguise.

I really don't know virtualflowe because when I have a big one stuck inside me then I don't get erect but feels good enough to cum. I can feel it like pushing a concrete block through my little penis but in a more OMFG way instead of a painful way. I actually keep a towel under while doing "Doggie" style because I actually squirt clear like hell for a while. If a guy does oral on me then I get hard for about a minute and a half and that is it. When I do cum it is soft even. Even he usually likes the taste when the clear stuff comes out.

What turns us on is just as unique and complicated as we are as individuals.

If if feel good then just go with it. If you can;t get a boner with your toys then so what if it feels good? If you have to think about that to get a boner then so be it too.