Usually, when we
communicate with another person, we are driven by a kind of neurotic speed.

We must begin to
allow some spontaneity to penetrate this speed so that we do not push
ourselves onto the person with who we are communicating, do not impose
ourselves, do not overload the other person. In particular, when we speak of
something in which we are very interested, we do not just talk but we leap
at the other person.

Spontaneity is
always there, but it is clouded over by thought. Reach out and acknowledge
that first openness and through that opening the basic intelligence will
begin to function.