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Bucket List

Ok before you guys read , let me tell you One thing I am not dieing or anything :), I am just accident prone i think so the last few days with the usual upheaves of day to day life, I have been thinking ( Yes here we are again , me Thinking I know , I know these both (me and thinking) Dont go together at all ), but still for the sake of it lets say .. I have been thinking .. What if we knew or I know I am gonna die say in a months time or two weeks time ..

Would we get a chance to do what we would want to, So if you have a list of things that I would love to do one last time, will the angel or devil who has come all the way to take me give me enough time .. If there is god is he listening to what Iam typing here .. is he thinking hmmmm

“Isko Ek mahina de dete hain , jo karna hai kar le ”

But then the question comes how will i know if this is it .. 30 days left . Anyhow what will I have in my Bucket list .. The first one would be

1. Walk with the Lions (yes weird thought, But I am in awe of this beast, its beauty, If man had not been cruel we would have these beautiful animals in abundance, Not that the lifestyle of this animal helps, but we humans have made it worse )

2. I want to meet all my friends, Each and everyone of the beautiful people who have been in my life one way or the other. Right from the time I went to my first class in the KG or LKG ( it was called) to the Post Graduation, then at work , Blog, Orkut etc etc, It would be such a blast to meet them all, some faces have faded away but they are all here still in my heart – head, Imagine the excitement , the laughters , the tears all those emotions in one big room, Some would only know of a person Bikram (hopefully 🙂 ) meeting me for the first time, Some wont know me But I would know them , For some I would have faded off..

3. I want to meet all those people whom I have hurt someway or the other and say Sorry to them, Say Thank you to all those who have somehow managed to make me what I am today.

4. Go to the gym for a week or two and have a SIX pack… instead of the ONE PACK I got now.. Oh cum on, girls love it .. ha ha ha .. have a stroll on a beach without my Tee.. ha ha ha ha ( I am thinking like salman khan now )

5. Visit My village.

6. If I could reverse the time 3 years back, meet my Dad and say sorry to him for all the times I have hurt him.

7. Fly a jet.

8. Swim in the two rivers that run along the boundary of our village , back home .. along with the rest of the guys , whom i have not met for 20 odd years.. Meet the Men at that times with whom i loved visiting the town, to show off that I had grown ups as friends, Village where the young men were all MAMA’s ( the village to which my mum belonged) and CHACHA’s (village to which my dad belonged) . I dont know where have they all settled since most left the village to settle in cities.

9. Am I becoming greedy now .. 🙂

I was hoping to make it to 10 but I have run out of thoughts .. and maybe Time too , I am sure there would not be this much time to do all the above, After doing all above would love to just fade away from everyones memory whishhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh zaaaaaaaappppppppppppp GONE!!!!!!

This article has turned out to be a bit of senty thing, which i did not want .. Anyway Anyone reading lets hear your bucket list.. say if you know you got 30 days left…

PS:- I took out the previous article cause my friends found it rude and I did not want to upset anyone , it was to be humour but i guess my humour not good he he he Will put something else later .. thank you everyone

You are always short of points aren't you? The last time you wanted to write 25 points as to why Mondays are bad…you couldnt get enough!!Anyways, those wishes are so genuine and simple. Angel or devil..whoever it will be, should grant that..

@ Insignia, Bikram is always short of points; but this time he didn't cheat at least..that's some list..but the title distracted me completely re..I want to watch this movie since a long time..but not getting a chance..I will watch it tomorrow for sure 🙂

@MAdhu :- Thanks for the wishes I hope too, that i do get time to fulfill all these before I go.. @Insignia– Aree I am not short, I just dont want to sound greedy he he he he and yeah do prey to the devil or angel Just in case.. he he @Gaurav :- Hmm well you have not told me what r yours so dont know 🙂 For the 6 pack you need to do what we cant .. yahi to rona hai he he he @Neha :- Yeah Trust Ms. Lawyer to point it and let the whole world know.. he he he See i am imporving day by day, not cheating now 🙂 I knew i could change .. Better late then never … So did you get to see the movie.. both jack nicholson and morgan freeman have done a bloody good job… @Chandrika Shubham :- THank you thank you.. said… @Harman – Haanji nothing is impossible, you just got to get out there and DO IT i guess..@Chowla Sir ji – Waiting for your article then .. 30 days was just a number thats all@Raj- Well all these things are wish list, dont know if all wud be done.. but heck whats the harm in trying.. No Smoke is not good ?@オテモヤン – I have no idea what it is , dont understand language, english works fine for me 🙂 Thank you all

Fly a jet plane… that’s interesting.
Annddd hey, u can still look at the skies and say a sorry to ur papa. They never really leave us, u know.. they r always there. Ma-baap ka dil itna bada hota hai, ki sorry kehne se pehle hi maaf kar dete hain woh hamein. 🙂 It’s the thought that matters and you are right there. 🙂
Lions.. phir toh aapko Hollywood ke liye auditions dene padenge.. Jo aapki ichcha hai, woh Hollywood mein hi poori ho sakti hai. 🙂
Waise I might be going to the zoo tomorrow, but I have NO SUCH crazy plans. he he. but hey, cats are of the same family.. and I wanna own a Persian tea cup kitten one dayyyyyyyyyyyyyy!!!!
There it goes.. one of the things I wanna do before I die.. own a persian tea cup kitten, a dog and a few birds. 🙂 Mujhe ek mini zoo chahiye apne GHAR mein.

Annnd… I want to send my parents on a lonnng holiday before I die.
Annd.. I want to travel travel travel a lot.. see lots of places before I die.
Annnd I have a lot of other wishes..

but hey, if i die, i am not planning go away, okay? I have all plans of haunting someone for a long long time. he he he.

He he he yes we should organise the meet sooner Thank you so muchfor the lovely words ihave such a big smile on myface now And thank you for the wishes but karodon saaal what will I do with so many days he he he he I will get bored jitne hain theek hon or good hon 🙂

Nice list…wanna show that aap hain punjab da sher?? pick one from Indian Zoos…docile enough on the other hand kafi bhuka hoga….I liked the old post…come back with something to add as requested and i find the bucket list….good post this….
my wish would be to see Eygpt or disneyland, Taj Mahal phir sey dekna, lose weight miraculously to match my college photo, make a wish come true for 2 kids…bake a 3 layered sponge cake again…and meet friends and family once too. choti si asha …. have a nice weekend… 🙂

Thank you so muchhh.. no no indian zoos lions are half starved and moreover zoo ones are more like tamed .. I want the REAL THING .. reall blooded lion 🙂 fir dekhenge woh sher hai ki main sher hoon… and i will also know how i am Will i run away seeing one Or will i stand my grounds you know …

I know the old post it turned out to be a bit rude so i took it out ..

you never ans wer back on my comments!but still …I would ..since I cannot stay way from giving my opinion ..:) I am an indian…and happen to be punjabi..lol so…
all good things,,,,cud have written like donating organs ..and for helpless…at least educating one kid from a small saving…in your village ..
but still everything is ok….
tc…cheers!hope you live a good and healthy life….long or old age …is good only if enjoyed and spent well!

Nice list Bik!
You are not that weird as you think…you still have like-minded weird thinking people around..
I like taking a picture with lion or tiger 😀 That will be the best picture in my life…he he..
Liked your points…I really wish your pt no.6 happen soon 🙂

Uhmm…A Good thought this time…and I felt, even I want to build my Bucket List…I am sure…it would be an endless list…but then let me see…Do come over tomorrow to my page to see my list…hope, I too don’t get sentimental at the end…Naturally, I am a practical woman with a silly emotional heart…grrr…

One thing I want to put in is…Many of the things u wish to do, u can do even now…u dont have t wait for ur last 1 month…hahaha

Heyyy… yes maybe you shud and then as time goes keep changing it .. thats what i will do that too so when the time comes i have a list to complete and not have to ccreate a fresh one
I will surly check out ur page for sure … and welcome ot my worls of thinking from heart I guess we are fools and too emotional ones

I know i can do now .. and i will try that why i said keep chanigng the list till the D DAY arrives 🙂

yessssssssss aapke muh main ghee shakkar UMA yessssssss I am so greedy about comments he he he heeh 🙂 thank you thank you

YES I DO need to come t oindia to meet all friends and family left behind .. I will I have made up my mind this year I AM COMING saving all my holidays havenot taken a sinlge one so far will take all together and visit everyone

Well was thinking what to comment, took time, a day and few more hours, but really could not add anything 🙂 as I, myself live for the moment.
But when saw these sentences ” I would tooo celbrate my days to have fun and smile and smile a lot … Life is better when we smile, ” just loved it.
So keep smiling 🙂 🙂
Take care

I like your list especially saying sorry to dad or visiting your village. The one about meeting everyone since kindergarten is actually impossible to achieve in a lifetime let alone 30 days :). Anyway, since you have put them on paper maybe you can actually achieve some of those. All the best and Happy Holi !

my god..do people wait with fingers on their keyboards to write comments for you?
itneeeeeeeeeeeee saare hote hain hamesha…:-)

and what u are thinking like salman khan ji…tussi even better than salman khan:-)
and senti to ho gaya magar…so sweet to say thank you’s and sorry’s:-)
wish u a long happy life to fulfill all that u have mentioned here at your leisure and pleasure:-)

Hi suruchi every time u put a comment it leaves a smile on me. Thank you for saying that ab to kal gym main 2hours etc to pump more of that iron yayyyyyyyyy Haanji so many thank you and sorries to say life has been alot of ups and downs. Thank you for the lovely wishes. And thank you being such a lovely person. How is seeya doing and how busy are you still he he he

Hmm…. much of the bucket list is really do-able, Bikram! Why wait till you have a deadline (pun intended!!) ? Hit the village rivers, meet your friends, say the sorries and the thank you’s, live in a remote deserted island for two days, go bunjee jumping – Oops ! realized the last two were in my bucket list… 🙂
But really, I think one should draw up a ‘love to do’ list and start doing them – life is short and beautiful, ainnit????

Yes .. I know why wait like i said the list is there so as time come keep updateing it .. who knows what it will be when the end does come ..

I have planned to do the same this year go to india for a long vacation and stay and meet all the people ..

and I did have bunjee jumpink and sky dive uptill last year but have ticked both of them now .. had gone to australia for a break and did both there so that is done 🙂 I would suggest instead of bungee do the sky dive its more exciting and more lovely …. then bungee .. bungee jump leaves you a bit sick when it finishes 🙂

Aww Bikram. Such a list as this makes me want to go back in time.
I hope you manage to achieve some of those bullet points soon. I so relate to the meeting every one part. How I wish that was feasible…
Good luck with your list. (and I am sure there are many more of these wishes floating around the edges of your mind… it’s only that when put on paper, some of them seem absurd to our sane mind) 😀

🙂 yes me toooo … Thank you for the wishes .. Yeah wish it was feasible to meet everyone .. Oh yes there are plenty more i guess as the time comes nearer the list will keep changing or as i keep fulfilling the points on them .. 🙂

Thank you veyr much. YEah one shud always thank and be sorry if they do anything wrong no harm in that … I have already dont bungee jumping but its not as thrilling as sky diving yoiu should try that instead of bungee jumping … Travel on a truck hmmm Well if you know the driver only do then.. cause druck drivers are known to be drunk when driving especially in india he he heehe 🙂

why all this weird thought in the first place … i agree one should live llife like there’s never a tomorrow but dying in 30 days … i would be sad n won’t be able to do anything. Ur option of visiting all the near n dear ones would be my choice too (if i overcome the saddness) !!

Well life is short who knows this might just happen … better be prepared then be sorry 🙂 See thats why i made the lsit so i dont get time to be sad i would like to go with a smile on my face that way its all nice and happy 🙂

30 days is too short a time to fulfil all the wishes a human being can have. But sure it is a good exercise in learning to prioritize. I liked your wish to die with a six pack 🙂 It reminds me of a person I know who thinks herself to be very beautiful and is always worried how she may look in death- she has finally decided that getting shot might be the best way to die without spoiling her beauty..! But jokes apart- very philosophical post!

We both have a wish in common, the second one :D, I also have a couple of wishes like “Meeting my favorite hollywood actors”, “Shaking hands with Sachin Tendulkar” are some of them :D, and btw did u watch that movie “The Bucket List”, it is too good, you should watch it..??? 😀

You should have tagged a few from your list with this post. :D:D sabki khwahishein pata chaljati. Everyone has got some unsaid unwritten unfulfilled desires na. Well put bro. But I pray you live long and in the best shape and health. Ameen. 🙂

YEah i should have hana, hmm maybe next time then 🙂 i will think of a way ..
yes i know as they say HAr kissi ko mukammal jahan nahin milta 🙂 Thank you again so much. and thanks you for the wishes .. Ameen to that

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