I do not have a loving familly, in fact i wish my father is in jail or have comit suicide. (im sorry but this is really how i feel about him). I been baby sitting myself since the age of 10.5 years old because my mother needed to work a lot to bring money home.
My mother and I don't really talk a lot since we are kinda opposed person. She have been hating me for being a racist "punk" for years.

I don't want to share all my private life but I been kicked out to the streets, but i stayed up and find myself a better job and rend an appartement for me and my pets.

Loving familly is useless, in fact i think they are more damageable.

I am sorry for what you've been through - but I don't see how you can make your last statement. YOUR family wasn't a loving family. It sounds like they were pretty terrible, actually. But that doesn't mean all families are. A loving family is the most wonderful thing on earth. If you find a great partner, you can make an amazing family yourself, despite your past.

I am sorry for what you've been through - but I don't see how you can make your last statement. YOUR family wasn't a loving family. It sounds like they were pretty terrible, actually. But that doesn't mean all families are. A loving family is the most wonderful thing on earth. If you find a great partner, you can make an amazing family yourself, despite your past.

I want kids, i want many, but i don't think a man is an obligation. There is too many risk. my dream life is me, my kids, my dogs, my horses, a big house in the mountain, if there is a nice trustable man, well good, if not, well its still fine.

I want kids, i want many, but i don't think a man is an obligation. There is too many risk. my dream life is me, my kids, my dogs, my horses, a big house in the mountain, if there is a nice trustable man, well good, if not, well its still fine.

You think it's ok to intentionally raise children w/o a father figure? I'm sorry, but I think that's a terrible idea. It's one thing if things didn't work out and you HAVE to become a single Mom. But to deny your children the chance to ever have a father is just wrong to me. Both genders bring important roles to a child's life and there should be a balance. If I never found a wonderful man, I wouldn't have kids. It's about them, not me.

I knew in grade school that children weren't going to fit into my lifestyle, so at the age of 27, I got myself sterilized. I have a hard enough time taking care of myself and my cat (companion animal), so a child would not work out at all.

It could just be my opinion, but I find it hard to see how a woman able to have children, but being too selfish to do so, is benefiting our race. If you can't have children, that is one thing, but just not to do so because they don't fit your lifestyle or you'd have to sacrifice to have them, sounds horribly selfish.

I can not wait until I am married and can begin having lots of babies of my own. I want at least 2. But, ideally around 4-5.

It could just be my opinion, but I find it hard to see how a woman able to have children, but being too selfish to do so, is benefiting our race. If you can't have children, that is one thing, but just not to do so because they don't fit your lifestyle or you'd have to sacrifice to have them, sounds horribly selfish.

I can not wait until I am married and can begin having lots of babies of my own. I want at least 2. But, ideally around 4-5.

Why selfish?
Nobody is calling mothers selfish, so why call women who don't want kids selfish? I think people who have kids for THEMSELVES and count that those kids will take care of them when they are old are the people whose picture should stand in dictionaries right by the word selfish. I won't even mention the idea that you continue living through kids. You don't. I don't want someone to take care of me just because we are related. Being a burden is the worst thing there is.

Why does not being able to have kids make a difference? The result is the same, no kids, no benefit to the race. Since that is the only way a woman can benefit the cause...Unless of course there are other ways to benefit a race...hmmm...are Don Black, David Duke, William Pierce known for having kids of for something else?

Why selfish?
Nobody is calling mothers selfish, so why call women who don't want kids selfish? I think people who have kids for THEMSELVES and count that those kids will take care of them when they are old are the people whose picture should stand in dictionaries right by the word selfish. I won't even mention the idea that you continue living through kids. You don't. I don't want someone to take care of me just because we are related. Being a burden is the worst thing there is.

Why does not being able to have kids make a difference? The result is the same, no kids, no benefit to the race. Since that is the only way a woman can benefit the cause...Unless of course there are other ways to benefit a race...hmmm...are Don Black, David Duke, William Pierce known for having kids of for something else?

Maybe no one is calling mother selfish because being a mother is the opposite of being selfish. Well, if you're a good one, obviously. But I do everything for my kids - I do not really have the luxury of being selfish. And I continue having children for THEM - not me. It is such a blessing to be able to give them built-in best friends. I didn't have my kids to have someone to take care of me when I'm old, but I am sure they probably will. That's what family is about. My Mom is doing so for her parents right now, and I will do the same. I won't consider it a burden, but a way to reciprocate ALL my Mom did for me her whole life.

Not being able to have kids IS different, because it is out of your control. There are many people who WISH they could have children, but cannot. And having children is the best way for WNs to benefit our race - not just women, but men AND women. We need the next generation to be proud and strong and continue the fight when we are gone.

It could just be my opinion, but I find it hard to see how a woman able to have children, but being too selfish to do so, is benefiting our race. If you can't have children, that is one thing, but just not to do so because they don't fit your lifestyle or you'd have to sacrifice to have them, sounds horribly selfish.

I think I'm being responsible, what with the hereditary mental issues and medical issues in our family already, I'm not being selfish. Please don't start with me or use me as an example of selfishness. You are choosing to have kids, and you are entitled to your opinion, as am I.

I think I'm being responsible, what with the hereditary mental issues and medical issues in our family already, I'm not being selfish. Please don't start with me or use me as an example of selfishness. You are choosing to have kids, and you are entitled to your opinion, as am I.

Not having children because of medical problems is not the same as not having them simply because they would burden your lifestyle. I wouldn't call that selfish.