Confused When Choosing a Couples

In matters
of selecting a spouse, both men and women have the right to choose the right
partner. It is known in Islam whose name is 'kufu' (viable and harmonious), and
a guardian has the right marriage partner for her daughter to pick someone who
sekufu, although the meaning kufu most common among the scholars is
co-religionists.

Other meanings such as
matches, is also the meaning that can not be denied, thus SELECTION PROCESS
THAT HAPPENS TO ANY MALE OR FEMALE. On the other hand that choosing a life
partner by considering the various sides, provided at a reasonable
considerations as well as Islamic, the representation is a necessity of life
and liberty of God which He bestowed on every human being, including in
choosing a husband or wife. Aisyah Ra said, 'Marriage is the essence of
servitude, then he should see where his honor will be placed'.

To further solidify the
choice if we are confused we can do good istikhorah prayers at midnight and in
the beginning, and do it repeatedly. If it has been done many times so DEFINITENESS
THAT THERE IS A GOD willing, HIS INSTRUCTIONS, AND THAT'S MORE FOLLOWED. But
keep in mind, that information is dominant in a person are often more
influential on istikhorah, therefore it needs to be done many times

Prophet also said, 'He who match his honor with the ungodly he had cut her
womb' (HR Ibnu Hibban). The Prophet also gave consideration to a sahabiyah who
came to him as he requested consideration of two people who would propose, then
the Prophet replied, 'As for Muawiyah ibn Abi Sufyan, he's very light hand (aka
easy to hit), while the other is that poor people do not have a lot of
treasure. " Then the Prophet married her to Zaid bin Harithah.