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Sunday, February 19, 2012

Pearlperry Reich fighting for custody of her children after leaving her Orthodox Jewish community

Pearlperry Reich, left, ended her marriage with Sinai Meir Susholz (right) five years ago but he will still not grant her a formal divorceFamily: Ms Reich said her children- aged 9, 8, 7, and 5 years old- are all doing extremely well in their religious school and are all very happyPearlperry Reich charges that her husband abused her.Hasid hottie tries to escape Orthodox

This rabbi’s daughter has an unorthodox custody battle on her hands.

Pearlperry Reich, 30, a stunning mother of four, said she’s done with the Hasidic community after it fought tooth-and-nail against her repeated attempts to end her rocky marriage — despite her claims of emotional and physical abuse.

It was an arranged marriage,” she said of her betrothal at the tender age of 18. “We got married and right away we had issues.”

Now, after 12 years of “war zone” living, she wants custody of her kids, is trying to launch a career in acting and modeling, and no longer plans to follow the Hasidic teachings she was raised with in Borough Park, Brooklyn.

Her husband, Sinai Susholz, wants his children to remain within the faith.

There are issues of her leaving Orthodoxy,” said Susholz’s attorney, Richard Sevrin. “It’s not in the best interest of the children to raise them other than how they’ve been brought up.”

But apparently that isn’t the only bone Susholz has to pick.

In a Facebook exchange, someone identifying himself as Susholz leveled accusations including “promiscuous sexual activities.”

There are much more deeper issues involved,” the Facebook post noted. “She has no ability to think in long term logical terms and behaves on her sexual impulses all the time.”

Reich — who now lives in Lakewood, NJ, where she says she continues to keep a traditional Orthodox home — contends Susholz is trying to portray her as unstable merely to make it harder to get a “get,” or a divorce, in rabbinic court.

Even her father, a prominent rabbi of the Riminov line, has encouraged her to remain married.

My father gave me a very hard time. He didn’t want me to get divorced, period,” she said. “They discouraged me from making police reports about abuse — my father, the rabbis and my husband’s family . . . His parents made a meeting with my parents. They called me a bitch and a whore, and my parents accepted it.”

Reich’s father and husband refused to comment.

Reich claims that Susholz cut up her $4,000 wig, threw her sneakers in the garbage, stole her glasses and told their daughter that her mother was a “slut.”

Lakewood Police records show that Reich has been granted at least one restraining order after she received a text from Susholz stating, “You are playing with fire and by the time you realize it will be too late.”

The couple’s custody case will begin in a New Jersey Family Court in April.

They discouraged me from making police reports about abuse — my father, the rabbis and my husband’s family . . . His parents made a meeting with my parents.

They called me a bitch and a whore, and my parents accepted it.

Now, she just hopes that her case earns enough attention and sympathy to overturn the agreement that she signed in rabbinical court which allows her husband joint custody.

It's more than emotionally draining- it's psychological, mental,' she said.

Ms Reich's plight comes just a week after the announcement that another woman named Deborah Feldmen who left the Orthodox lifestyle has penned a memoir about her time in her ultra-conservative marriage.

Rather than writing a book, Ms Reich is using social media as a way to tell her story.

Her Facebook support group already has over 2,000 followers and she has launched a Facebook Causes page to help her raise money to pay for the ensuing legal battle.

You knw what it doesn't matter who is rite, him or her, he is abusive he's not, wtvr! The main point is that there are kids involved an I think tht if she were doing this for soul perpose of her kids she would not be making such a scene, I cnt judge her on why she went to an opposite exreme, but to do this to her kids????? What kind of mother is she?? Just let the father care for them, she obviously is not capable for wtvr reason, let the kids have a stable home.

i am an orthodox jewish woman...i also do not understand why the Post keeps picking up these self centered attentions seeker stories...she wanted to get ome publicity for her "modeling career" otherwise she wouldv'e kept this in court - where it belongs. all of us including the Post do not know all the facts...obviously forensics were done....allow the juducial system in this great free country do its job...and let the post stick to REAL news and entertainment.

I am very chassidic (male) and divorced. My ex had/has many faults (I would say that, wouldn't I? :-) but to her credit. We went through Beis Din and the legal system and trust me it was wuite acrimonious. But she would never do such a thing as to sell her story to media for cheap worthless publicity. She might have her faults but she is NOT a whore and she still loves our children. Does this "lady"?

Who are you to judge? I grew in the Lakewood community and let me tell you the entire town is a cult, they teach their kids that anyone looks differant from them are evil. Trust me, there is a lot more abuse going on.

According to Torah, a man must hand-over the divorce for his wife in order for it to take affect. This means is she wants a set of conditions, such as $200,000, the Husband must give it if he wants her to take the Get. So... the Torah stuck up for women all the time. But these clueless lib reporters and self-centered girls have no idea what the hell they are talking about the Torah being anti-Women.

What the hell are you talking about? In the vast majority of cases, it is the man making exorbitant demands on the woman or her family in order for him to agree to the "get". If the torah was "sticking up" for women as you claim, why can't the woman be the one to initiate the "get"? why is is easier for a man to remarry with a "heter meah rabanan" if his wife wont agree to the "get"?

She is Lakewoods slut! She is a pathetic liar and an abuser!!I am her neighbor and she has men coming and going at all hours. Her husband is a wonderful person to all. She is manipulative .Her family and friends are backing her husband.She professes to be a loving and caring mom, I can attest that the opposite is true she leaves her children home alone and curses at them. She is portraying herself as the victim with lies lies.. Again I am her neighbor!!

New Jersey is a no-fault state, meaning she can get a divorce, even if her husband doesn't want to. The problem is going to be custody and support, but that should not affect her obtaining the divorce from him. She may not get a "get," a Jewish religious divorce, but that shouldn't really matter, unless she wants to be married in the Jewish faith again. I never got a "get," and remarried a Jewish man, who did not really see a problem. She is very beautiful, and should follow her heart, as I know she was never able to.

Listen guys. I was a close friend of hers, and was heavily involved in trying to salvage her marriage. Know this: She is intensely narcissistic, cunning, and deceitful. She will only associate herself as long as she has use for you. Her husband is a nice normal guy who was simply unequipped with the tools needed in dealing with this complicated woman. Trust me. She will do anything for some attention and cash. And when I say ANYTHING use your imagination there.Its not an issue here of leaving her hassidic roots. Its an issue of BASIC morals, and negligent parenting, just to name a few. What a shame.

all u shouldn talk. dont it say in the torah no loshon hara and not to talk bad about ppl?? oh and another thing u say u care about her children and how they will grow up?? You say she curses at them??? Well if ur kids were using the internet like u do, and come across something u wrote about someone what will u tell ur children then its ok to write things about ppl or talk about about ppl? this is a circle of lies and stupidty no one wants so to take responsoblity for themselfs so they say shit about other ppl it never ends? we need to change ourselfs be4 we talk about others. BASIC morals u dont have those thats a shame. this is why ppl run from this religon bec we dont stop talking bad about ppl shutting them out or putting them down, take responsability for ur actions b4 u talk about others. Trust me u wouldnt want ppl saying such things about u!! true or not... think b4 u talk!!!!!!!

It's funny that all these negative comments about Pearl come from "Anonymous". If what you say is true and you are her neighbor why not own your words and use your name? Only cowardly liars hide behind "Anonymous"

Although her husband sounds like an abusive bully, from her actions and pursuits since leaving him, I'd say that he did pick up on aspects of her personality which are highly negative from the Orthodox Jewish point of view. Her character is clearly not one suited to that life, whether married to an abusive husband or not.

In Westgate and Sterling Forest. She is using her modelling to attract like Gitty Grunwald Upstate NY made it to the front cover of NY Magazine. Didn't help her. She lost custody and was jailed for drug and other related charges. Sympathy can only come from within the community. When you go to the Post or Social Media you get negative attention and you lose in Court. Go to Red Bank with your boyfriend and stop insulting the community and the families who assisted you but you turned against them. If you wish to model bathing suits on the catwalk, go all the way. Not in Westgate or other fine Lakewood communities.

what fine lakwood comm? ur all a bunch of fakes. u think ur better bec u can talk about someone cuz ur lakewood? let me tell u something by talking about her ur no better then her!!!!!! trust me this will come back to bite u in the ass and when it does dont forget why

does she offer free service or what gift does she like or any other tips lol end of jokes great way to start a modelling courier free advertising in the post smart girl but a bit late in the day babe what happens when you unhook after four children gravity claims to win i am not backing any of them

PearlPerry is dragging everyone into her group in hopes of attracting media attention on the grounds of religious persecution, while her husband refuses to publically utter ONE negative word about her – the mother of his children.Here’s what you don’t know:She has severe BPDShe has been found lying under oath . She leaves her children all hours of the night- night after night , with 12 year old sitters who neglect the children and are busy with boyfriends . The children have told the evaluator “Mommy hates us, because she is never home for us”In the last year, she has not just drastically changed her lifestyle, but her behavior ( If you want to relax your orthodoxy it’s one thing, but posting inappropriate pictures, being involved with drugs and alcohol, and erratic claims of being on a reality TV show, a model , etc.- She has promised to show the judge contracts, etc. but has not supported herself at all contrary to her claims.)When she was hospitalized , her own father begged her husband not to release her . Her parents know her behavior right now, like then, was and is manic, and they believe that until she gets well, he should have the children . Not forever, and yes, they should see her and she should be a part of their lives, but that her home and lifestyle is exposing the children to an unstable situation. Her own siblings, who love her dearly, also agree that her behavior IN and OUT of the home is damaging the children . He offered he a “get” – ( Jewish divorce) and she refused because she wants more than the 38 thousand dollars she’s getting now, and has not gotten a job since ( despite her claims of having a degree ( she does not, ) and many modeling opportunities which were so far pro bono.Her husband is devastated. Even he knows only a monster would NOT take kids away from a Mommy, but the Mommy must be healthy and stable. Right now, she is NOT. The evaluator SHE chose observed this. Her parents who love her know this and that is why they are not defending her and her Facebook group, neither are her siblings despite their outpouring of love to her, as well as her neighbors and many of her long term friends. These people all KNOW the real Perry. A loving kind person with tremendous depth and clarity. Not the Pearlperry who chooses to publicize her body, her lewd language and behavior, her many male friends ( some with other intentions- and NONE who know her for more than two years- which is when her behaviors changed)If she chooses to stay home at least 2 or 3 nights a week, stop posting half nude picures online, remove negative comments about her ex, maintain therapy to address her BPD and current manic state, of course the children will stay with her. But do keep in mind she decided to change her entire life . And She is letting the world believe she is being persecuted based on religion. Not true- she does not want to be as religious- She is entitled. But she didn’t choose to become non- observant and then continue stable behavior such as pursuing an education, following a respectable career. No. Instead, she chose to leave her children at night in lieu of partying, and continues to make comments about drugs, hangovers, etc. Her children WERE raised by her a certain way. If at 30 , all that changes –it is clear that the change is turning into a pattern of self -destructive behaviors , leaving her children’s lives in the balance. Whether you “believe” this or not- believe that there is a man out there is not only crushed because his wife stopped loving him, which he accepted. But he is crushed because he knows he’s being portrayed as the bad guy , and the fact the children should not be separated from their mother. All she needs to do is change her destructive behaviors, and all of you can help her by encouraging her to be not just loving Mom but also a safe, moral, stable one.

i have heard the same things you are saying from several sources. pictures of her posing with a christmas tree ahile she was wearing a shtreimal have been circling the web...oh with a guy in it too.... the way she portrayed herself in the post was asking for male attention...as evidenced by the many lewd male comments...her mission was accomplished. yay- they all want to get with her....the media sensationalism will definitely help her in court- NOT!!! it only proves how unstable she is.....everyday hundreds of custody cases are being dealt with all across America...none spread themselves in the media...this ploy was not to gain her children but to gain fame....(and $) we should pray for her, her poor husban and those precious innocent children.

PearlPerry is dragging everyone into her group in hopes of attracting media attention on the grounds of religious persecution, while her husband refuses to publically utter ONE negative word about her – the mother of his children.Here’s what you don’t know:She has severe BPDShe has been found lying under oath . She leaves her children all hours of the night- night after night , with 12 year old sitters who neglect the children and are busy with boyfriends . The children have told the evaluator “Mommy hates us, because she is never home for us”In the last year, she has not just drastically changed her lifestyle, but her behavior ( If you want to relax your orthodoxy it’s one thing, but posting inappropriate pictures, being involved with drugs and alcohol, and erratic claims of being on a reality TV show, a model , etc.- She has promised to show the judge contracts, etc. but has not supported herself at all contrary to her claims.)When she was hospitalized , her own father begged her husband not to release her . Her parents know her behavior right now, like then, was and is manic, and they believe that until she gets well, he should have the children . Not forever, and yes, they should see her and she should be a part of their lives, but that her home and lifestyle is exposing the children to an unstable situation. Her own siblings, who love her dearly, also agree that her behavior IN and OUT of the home is damaging the children . He offered he a “get” – ( Jewish divorce) and she refused because she wants more than the 38 thousand dollars she’s getting now, and has not gotten a job since ( despite her claims of having a degree ( she does not, ) and many modeling opportunities which were so far pro bono.Her husband is devastated. Even he knows only a monster would NOT take kids away from a Mommy, but the Mommy must be healthy and stable. Right now, she is NOT. The evaluator SHE chose observed this. Her parents who love her know this and that is why they are not defending her and her Facebook group, neither are her siblings despite their outpouring of love to her, as well as her neighbors and many of her long term friends. These people all KNOW the real Perry. A loving kind person with tremendous depth and clarity. Not the Pearlperry who chooses to publicize her body, her lewd language and behavior, her many male friends ( some with other intentions- and NONE who know her for more than two years- which is when her behaviors changed)If she chooses to stay home at least 2 or 3 nights a week, stop posting half nude picures online, remove negative comments about her ex, maintain therapy to address her BPD and current manic state, of course the children will stay with her. But do keep in mind she decided to change her entire life . And She is letting the world believe she is being persecuted based on religion. Not true- she does not want to be as religious- She is entitled. But she didn’t choose to become non- observant and then continue stable behavior such as pursuing an education, following a respectable career. No. Instead, she chose to leave her children at night in lieu of partying, and continues to make comments about drugs, hangovers, etc. Her children WERE raised by her a certain way. If at 30 , all that changes –it is clear that the change is turning into a pattern of self -destructive behaviors , leaving her children’s lives in the balance. Whether you “believe” this or not- believe that there is a man out there is not only crushed because his wife stopped loving him, which he accepted. But he is crushed because he knows he’s being portrayed as the bad guy , and the fact the children should not be separated from their mother. All she needs to do is change her destructive behaviors, and all of you can help her by encouraging her to be not just loving Mom but also a safe, moral, stableone

So what is her real address? She is listed in this years local directory as married to Sinai and lives at 199. Her business is also listed as active The Flower Princess. Looks like she has a husband and income!

Let me tell all you idiots out there...what you think you know, you dont! You think you have the right facts? You dont! No one knows the truth, there is no right party in this "story" Stop judging!! Who the hell do you think you are to judge?

Rabbi Chaimeyer Roth the Ruv of Sterling and the mesdaer Gittin in Mayshorim publicly stated she is not worthy of a get. "Ven an eishes ish is mezaneh mit halb shtut hot zi farloiren kesubah un kinder"

'Not worthy of a get' who is he? every woman is entitled to get divorce. who are all these judges? i really hope the rabbi who said this has always lived beyond reproach, but the very fact that he said this show how unworthy he is of the title rabbi

Before you insult the choshuve Rabbi Kahan and his Mayshorim post a link to the "staying order" and explain why Rabbis Roth and Marburger are extortionists.A wife who is not "Das Yehudis" loses her Kesubah, that is the Halacha. Rabbi Roth is correct.Rabbi Kahan is also the Moroir D'asra of Arlington Avenue,one of the most choshuve Kehillos in Lakewood NJ. Before you insult the Kehilla, search "Arlington Avenue Shul".

I live in Lakewood too and been following this story unfold for years from close proximy, this is nothing new, she is a mentally ill woman she suffers from BPD, it has absolutely nothing to do with religion, she can't live and commit to a man no matter what jew or gentile, she is a sex addict and needs some serious help, now the husband is the nicest guy you'll ever meet go prove yourself meet him and you'll see for yourself, he's fighting for his kids well being, and to all you anti-religious or whatever your problem is do some research before you speak up don't waste your time otherwise, if you're stupid enough to believe anything you read then your in trouble, and then again Iv'e got a question for you idiots, if you believe everything you read how come only when it's negative, how about being positive for a change!?!?!?!?!Truth will prevail!!!!!

I happen to be another neighbor of this troubled lady.I also happen to have a ex sister in law that left the faith. In my brothers case my sister in law got the kids even though she wasn't religious and no Jewish Court of Law would be able to grant the husband custody just because the spouse is no longer of faith as painful as that might be to the former spouse. The courts however to maintain that the mother has to keep a kosher home in front of the kids and to send them to a religious school etc..The fact is that the reason why Ms Reich stands to lose the kids, is because she is showing signs of instability. She doesn't take care of the kids properly. In fact the son told me specifically that he gets himself and his siblings dressed in the morning as well as taking care of breakfast. If he misses his school bus at 8 in the morning he is not allowed to wake his mother to give him a ride to school as she is tired from a full night of partying. This gross neglect of her kids is why she can lose custody in court not any religious claims or whether she will get a kessubah or not!!

Where does she live? I know in Lakewood, but all these neighbors that keep posting, where do you live? Is your place for sale/rent? I would love to move in, my husband would be really happy and it would take off a lot of stress from our marriage if she is so available all the time. It would be a win win, I have my husband and he has his fun!

This story is not what it seems. Ms. Reich is doing a fine job portraying herself as the victim. When in fact she has lost all credibility within her community, friends and family (all which love her very much- and will gladly embrace her no matter what she’s done). No one in their right mind will allow children to stay with someone who has been partying (drugs and alcohol) – sleeping with anyone for the right price.. Her husband is not how she portrays him. Yes they had marital issues – but her approach is from from creditable. She is exploding her kids to achieve her goals. Her husband is torn and is trying to keep the pieces of his family together.

Misinformation: She is listed with her husband and business "The Flower Princess" ( great name for a girl who poses with a flower in her hair and squats on the grass like a Bas Melech with cleavage and bare legs) at 4 Tuscany, 199 Haddassah and 49 Radin. According to the blogs, the children are with her. Where is her husband? Probably she is at Haddassah and her husband in Radin, learning with the Chofetz Chayim yeshiva.Dr. Phil featured last night, My Lover My Abuser. Pearl was the subject of the show, and displayed exceptional personality and charm. But she never flashed her teeth. Probably because someone was Mekayem the Hagaddah to the Rosho, Hakeh es Shinov. Pearl, you are a married woman Not DIVORCED for 5 years!

she is a double faced creature that had her priorties mixed up and embarresment for the community. she definitly doesnt deserve her adorable children. my hats up for her husband and wish him luck for the future.

One comment on this story from a different website so we know the truth here: "I (and many others) have been screwing with her. She is really good in bed. She charges alot of money, but its worth every dime. __________ will explode when she reveals the names of all the men she had sex with.

I have heard that she would stand on line in Bagel Nosh with a see-through skirt and pink underwear. I myself have seen her belly-botton. She has a history of driving men crazy. There are many guys now that are terrified that their names will come out in the open that they slept with her. I wouldn't be surprised if they find her one day......

I find the entire story very disturbing. I"m not sure what to believe. I understand if someone doesn't want to be Orthodox and chooses to be Conservative or Reform....okay, but why does it always have to be Orthodoxy or bust????? Why can't she live a regular Jewish lifestyle? Why does she have to party all night and go crazy? This is what I don't understand.

I hope she's excepted that her daughter will follow her footsteps and become a model for the world to jack off to....especially if she continues the publicity stunts....parents are role models...kids want to be what their parents are, they follow and they learn faster than you think they do.

It's funny that all these negative comments about Pearl come from "Anonymous". If what you say is true and you are her neighbors and you know all these "facts" about how terrible she is, why not own your words and use your names? Only cowardly liars hide behind "Anonymous"

this story makes me realize that jewish people, christians and muslims can be full of S**T. Where is God in all this stupidity? where is faith? What happened between this guy and his wife is between them and no one else. To hurl insults and accusations is ugly. Not the way people of faith should behave. Muslims behave the same way which is why a friend of mine left Islam. People have come to believe that faith is a team sport when in fact it is an individual journey. And, calling women whores is very ugly and speaks volumes about the person saying it

How do I sign up for this religion? I'm a pretty homely dude with a shaggy beard and I'd be very happy to hook up with a hot chick like that. Go go Jewish religion! (please provide a link for me to become a member).