Here's another stupid one:ME: "How could you have sex with her then come back home and have sex with me? Did you even use a condom with her?"HIM: "No"Me: "Great. So you may or may not have infected me with any STD's".Him: "Oh I know I didn't. I know she doesn't have any diseases."Me: "Just how do you know?"Him: "Because I know her. She's only been with me. She hasn't even have sex with own husband in years."Me: (Shaking head): "So you didn't even have the decency to tell me about this affair before you had sex with me again. You just took a chance with not only yourself, but with me."Him: "Yes. I made a family decision."

Him - I had an affair cos u pushed me into it by doubting me with every woman so i decided to go do it for real! Me - But did u ever think why i doubted u in the first place? Its cos u were blatantly flirting and crossing the lines with each of our lady friends.

I didn't get the "you made me do it", I actually got the "SHE made me do it" defence. For that, I committed the act of violence for the first and ONLY time in my life. I balled up my fist, pulled back and drove him square in the mouth. I then made his cheating-partner get her backside over to my house so I could confront her as well. She got a verbal tongue-lashing the likes of which would make my girlfriends cheer. I made him sit, quiet in the corner with his swollen mouth so she could see the manly guy in all his glory. I also made her tell her husband what they'd been up to. I was not going to be the only one in pain from this "She made me do it." episode.

I'm always astounded when the Other Woman will participate. The OW in my case actually took the phone when I told my husband to give it her. Do they get off on the drama? Do they think we want to hear their sorry excuses? Bizarre.I'm curious, too. How did you know if she did tell her husband? Did you know him?

I have a good one:"What's the big deal, I only spend a few hours with her, I come home a sleep with you."Also:Husband: "How would you feel about adding another member to this family?"Me: "What, did you get her pregnant?"Husband: "No, no...but I know you'ld like her and maybe we can be one big family."Me: "Sure, then we need a bigger bed because then I can go out an find me a nice hunk and bring him home too...right?"Husband: "No, you can't do that, that's unacceptable".

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