I've been out-and-out raped by angry and drunken men who decided I was a tease. In one case, I didn't know we were on a date; I thought we were pals and at a party with friends. I had too much to drink and had fallen asleep in his room, and I remember him lifting me up to carry...

A comedienne at a stand-up club once pointed out that women get guilted into sex on dates -- it's part of the unspoken agreement. He buys you a nice meal, you put out in return. Even if women try splitting the costs, the men will assume the advantage. The comedienne said...