yay yay yay, it is, that time of the year when love is in the air and PDA is everywhere. For some of us it's the worst time of the year for the other half of us it is the most exciting time of the year. Some girls are excited for the plans between them and their significant others, some girls mope about how they are going to go through an entire day watching the lovey dovey couples love on each other. I am here today speaking for the singles out there and not so much for the couples because, c'mon you guys already have a loving relationships I gotta say something for the singles! And as a single myself I feel that Valentine's Day can SOMETIMES get a little 'in my face' if y'all know what I mean...

I used to be one of those moping single ladies who just cries about old relationships or guys that I can't have, or sadly fantasize about dates with hot celebrity guys. I know, I know, I'm pretty lame, but hey! I'm a single lonely girl, what can I say? But over the years I've come to learn that Valentine's Day is just merely an arbitrary day that couples use as a light hearted way to show their love for each other, it's just ONE day and it's over! So I say the singles should enjoy the day to themselves with their other single girlfriends OR if you're a guy 'bros'? and just have a chill day.

I'm not someone with a ton a ton a ton of relationship experiences but, this all is just my opinion, and probably a lot of other people who has opened their mind's opinion. Girls, we don't have to mope about some jackass in the past who has dumped you or maybe you dumped them? But Valentine's Day can be a day for you girls to FORGET THE OLD CRAPPY SHITTY relationships. Why cry over some jerk right? Your tears are worth so much more than someone who you can easily step over on. Like I said, I used to cry on Valentine's Day because I don't have a date or anyone who likes me blah blah blah, but then come to think of it, it's also a day where other male singles are looking for a special girl as well, then why don't I wipe off my tears and go meet someone. And I think you girls should do the same as well, STOP CRYING and go out and mingle, hey, you'd probably find a waaaaaay better guy than the old one.

Valentines day isn't JUST about spending it with the opposite sex, it can also be for you to spend with your best girlfriends or like I said best 'bros'. If you've finally decided that you want to open your mind and finally realize that Valentine's Day isn't a day for you to mope but your girlfriend didn't, show her some love and make her feel that she isn't at all alone. Go to the movies as each others dates, maybe not a romantic movie but a comedy and laugh together and just have some fun. OR I mean, I know I've already opened my mind to the fact that Valentine's Day isn't a mopey day, but I still occasionally like to make fun of the couples, just to make myself feel slightly better, YOU CAN DO THAT TOO!

Tell yourself that you don't need a man to feel loved, what are all your other friends for? What are all your family members for? They love you and have plans with those people who will love you for the long run and not some guy who you thought was "THE ONE", your family and friends can always be your Valentine's Day date. Plus why do you want some dude who's just 'okay' to be your date, want someone who actually deserves you and is not only 'okay' but HOT AND PERFECT AND OH MY GOD LIKE ZAYN MALIK. Okay, sorry, that was a little out of control, just saying but he IS one of the hot celebrities I do MAYBE? fantasize of having a date with on Valentine's Day?

Okay sorry, enough of my jibber-jabber you girls get my point, stop moping and wasting time, go out and do something meaningful ♡ If someone doesn't love you I LOVE YOU, okay? Girls you all are special and gorgeous and amazing magical unicorns, or if you want to be princesses you can, but you girls shouldn't be sad about ANYTHING because the reason why you're single? BECAUSE YOU ARE TOO FUCKING PRETTY FOR ANYONE ♡ Remember? TOO GLAM TO GIVE A DAMN!