Clubbing/party outfits in your areas sound much more feminine and sexy than here in Tokyo. Not much skin or skirts...nightlife here is more...subdued and "streetwise" for lack of a better word; cool jeans/pants with a slouchy grey top and interesting flats for example...people may do minis/heels but in a funky way.

See I prefer this style of dressing over stilettos and short skirts. I'm not going to the club to impress. I'm going to relax and have fun and most importantly, be comfortable!!!1:p Just thinking about dancing in stilettos makes my feet ache.

A couple of examples; I'm definitely not into the whole mini skirt+cleavage=ready to go out equation, I don't like to look the same as every other girl in the club/bar.
I'll wear A-line skirts that stop below my knees, sometimes a crew neck fine knit jumper with 3/4 length sleeves in black, with a cummerbund worn high up on my waist, with black opaque tights and heels.

Black fitted trousers, heels, a black shirt with the front wrapped over and safety pinned shut up one side right upto the collar, hair up and in a low 'knot' with hair sticks in, simple studs or drop earrings.

Safety pins are an absolute god send imo, my mam always says it looks scrappy because she associates it with the punk era. But I'm at a midpoint with my weight at the moment, so haven't bought any new clothes for a while...I can change things so easily without having to cut them by wearing them different ways...back to front etc and just safety pinning them in certain places...especially tops, it can create a whole different look with the same ingredients.

Not a fan of skimpy tops, they are too much like a walking advertisement, and says to me that the girl doesnt have much more going on past her tah-tahs. i will take a gander every once in a while.

I prefer when a girl is more casual when she is out clubbing, because that says to me that she is out to have fun. of course, a lot of girls feel the need to dress up, to feel better about themselves, or better their chances of actually getting in, etc...

I like seeing girls in loose t's, sweatshirts, with jeans or skirts + leggings, nice heels or sneakers. The most important thing is to be comfortable and always have nice accessories. handbag or clutch, jewelry, man-sized watch, butterfly wings, whatever...

Unless I've been working that day I usually don't change to go out. I'm not a girl though...I'm more of a bar/live venue/sleazy watering hole kinda guy so that might explain it, I almost never go out in places that have dress codes.

depends where I'm going. If I'm going dancing to my fave clubs I always wear some thin cotton shirts (it always gets so hot) jeans or a skirt and comfy shoes and glam it up with some extravagant assesoirs. my city seems to be quite relaxed when it comes to dress codes compared to others. And after all I'm there to dance, jump and relax and forget about all the stress.

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