January 5, 2014

News reports have been confirmed by Ricky Martin’s publicists that he has separated from his partner Carlos Gonzalez Abella.

Ricky tells People Magazine: “I have experienced wonderful things with my partner. Complexity, understanding, and, at the same time, freedom, not being afraid that your partner is judging you. That is what I have found with Carlos”

Rumor has it that the couple were not in agreement over Ricky’s decision to have children. His twins were born prior to the couples pairing but is highly speculated to be a source of disagreement.

December 13, 2013

A Charlotte man blames the breakup of his marriage not only on the other guy, but also on the online infidelity service that he says made it happen.

“Life is short,” the Ashley Madison website coos. “Have an affair.”

Robert Schindler of Charlotte says his ex-wife did just that.

So, Schindler is suing her alleged partner in the tryst, along with Ashley Madison and its Canadian corporate parent, Avid Dating Life Inc.

At play here is a legal clash between the old and the new. North Carolina remains one of only a half-dozen states that still awards punitive damages when a marriage fails and someone other than the husband and wife is to blame.

The so-called alienation of affection/criminal conversation laws have survived numerous efforts by judges, lawyers and some legislators to repeal them, and in recent years they have led to million-dollar judgments for wronged spouses.

The Schindler case attempts to apply the centuries-old marriage statutes to a company marketing the new-age phenomenon of online cheating. Ashley Madison, which claims clients worldwide in the tens of millions, bills itself as “the most recognized name in infidelity.”

Schindler’s 2012 complaint, which was back in Mecklenburg Superior Court last week for a preliminary hearing, accuses the company and Eleazar “Chay” Montemayor of Charlotte with working together to seduce Schindler’s wife, ruining his 13-year marriage.

According to the lawsuit, Montemayor and Schindler’s wife began their affair in 2007 after meeting on AshleyMadison.com. Montemayor also was married at the time. They became husband and wife in October 2012.

In his lawsuit, Schindler claims that the love and affection he and his wife shared “was alienated and destroyed by the defendants.”

He asks for damages of more than $10,000 under two claims: alienation of affections and criminal conversation, which is legal shorthand for extramarital sex.

Schindler’s former wife did not return calls for comment this week. Citing the lawsuit, Eleazar Montemayor declined to discuss the case Wednesday.

His co-defendant – and the founder of Ashley Madison – told the Observer in an email this week that holding his company liable for the breakup of a marriage “defies most people’s common sense test.”

“Would the courts also hold a hotel room accountable? A cellphone operator if his wife called her lover on it? The car she drove?” asked Noel Biderman, a former lawyer and sports agent who started Ashley Madison in 2002.

While Ashley Madison allows its clients to communicate with each other, “we in no way participate in any ‘offline’ encounters,” Biderman said.

“I think it would be an incredibly slippery slope to attempt to espouse blame to all the technology and inanimate objects that were utilized in an affair.”

“You can use a car to drive to school. You can use a car to drive to work. You can also use a car to have an affair. But that’s not the car’s sole purpose,” Johnson said.

“That’s the difference in this website. It’s very specific. It promotes affairs. Sadly, it’s bad enough that it happened to Robert Schindler. But it happens to many others, too.”

Cheat and pay

Despite steps taken by the legislature in 2009 to narrow the alienation law, the monetary penalties for messing around with someone else’s marriage have grown exponentially in the past three years.

In 2010, a Guilford County jury awarded a wife a $9 million judgment against her husband’s mistress.

That same year, a Chapel Hill physician won almost $6 million from her former best friend, whom she had invited to visit and help her get ready for her first child and who had an affair with the physician’s husband.

In 2011, a Wake County judge handed down the largest alienation award in the state’s history – $30 million – after the former wife of a Raleigh business owner sued the current one.

Normally, alienation cases boil down to illicit sex, but they don’t have to. Wake Forest law professor Suzanne Reynolds said one of the earliest cases in state history involved a husband accusing his in-laws of urging his wife to leave the marriage.

That kind of case gave rise to a nickname: “mother-in-lawsuits.”

‘Monogamy fails’

Research indicates that up to 40 percent of heterosexual married men will have an affair; for married women, the figure is closer to 25 percent.

Cue Ashley Madison.

“Monogamy in my opinion is a failed experiment,” Biderman, a husband and the father of two, said in 2011.

Today, Avid Life operates a series of online “dating” sites based out of Toronto.

“CougarLife” tries to pair “sexy, successful older women and the vibrant, ambitious, younger men who want to date them.”

“Established Men” caters to older, financially successful clients and “sexy sugar babies with a taste for the finer things in life.”

There’s a site for gay men and also one for swingers.

But of the six social portals, Ashley Madison is clearly Biderman’s sugar baby.

Today, the infidelity site has 23 million members in 35 countries, said Paul Keable, Avid Life’s vice president of communication.

Keable declined this week to share any financial information. However, according to a 2011 profile in Bloomberg Businessweek, Avid Life predicted $60 million in revenue that year with $20 million in profits. Membership in Ashley Madison has since tripled, according to company figures, as has the number of countries in which the site claims to operate.

While its 19th century authors could not have envisioned a business dedicated to cheating, North Carolina’s alienation of affection law continues to survive efforts by the family court judges and lawyers to “rein it in,” said Reynolds, who specializes in family law at Wake Forest.

Because so many affairs begin at work, the North Carolina legislature in 2009 cordoned off employers from being sued. The law now requires that alienation claims be filed only against “a natural person.”

That would seem to set up the legal irony of a state law designed to punish infidelity protecting a company that profits from the very act.

Johnson begs to differ. He said because the affair that broke up the Schindlers’ marriage began in 2007, the old law applies.

June 29, 2013

All of a sudden in such an important week one of the computers I have the cable decided to malfunction.
Without it I can’ re charge. I went nt shopping: First price I got discounted for $179.00 besides this is the endof the month. Im always broke on that week. Does it happen to you? No, you should buy one of my shirts.

I just wanted to see the discounted prices before I went to my store Amazon. Got it right away. I coul’ve gotten on for 420 bucks but no guarrantee of delivery,
I got for $50 what I needed and two days delivery. cool. The reason Im telling about my problems which i dont because you have your own problems is that if I don’t get it soon, I will have to activate a second back up Mac and I don’t know how much she still hate me for treating her like she was worth 30 slaves but I never typed the word N*. May be one time because it went with the story.

My back up mac is got Diabetes two which is the one people and machines get when they are laying around eating the wrong stuff.

S0 If I slow down a little bit you know what it is , hopefully Ill go at the same pace. Please keep coming in to the site even if its to check something through a search. Dont for get to use amazon without I will have to close…a possibility but I think the readers wont let it happen,

Enjoy this weekend to all. Hopefully the new edition of this blog(I do 2 a year) I can make some more posirtive changes. I ache for reaching more of the 9 nations I have been given because of the readership coming from those places an I wish I could seprate stories just for them.
I will see you to tomorrow.
{Adam}♥

May 28, 2013

Even at Calvin Klein’s age which is classified (30+40) he did not know that money can’t buy you love. Yes it can buy you good sex and nice things but not love. One more thing it can't buy is perpetual silence. You see after Blond hair, toy boy type at 23 Nick Gruber or like he is known in the Nude dancing business as ‘Gruber’ got busted after a night of drugs and partying down in the village. The dude got into a fight and punched a political intern( Never do that)…now that was bad. He was charge with Cocaine Possession. The intern refused to press charges I mean he was in trouble to begin with for being at the coke party and all.His papi (literally) Calvin went and bailed him out and paid for the expenses. When you have money those things don’t seem to bother people too much. You got your good lawyer, pay the fines and go to rehab. Calving Klein had Gruber flown in his own private jet to rehab in Arizona. Thereafter Calvin was so pizzed and embarrassed that he dropped the 20 year old kid like a bad cologne.The problems with smart enough boyfriends that catch a Calvin KLein is that they are dumb and smart at the same time. Dumb because they don’t know what they got and have to act their age and smart because they find out everything about their mates. It is well known that Calvin is got as more sins than the pope himself so having someone who knows your business pizzed at you is a deadly sin.After Gruber finished his legal problems it was time for pay back. He said he was going to write a tell all book titled of all things “Obsession” ….yes you can laugh now!When word got back to Calvin that the kiddo was not bluffing Papi flew Gruber to Mexico and the two met up at an exclusive resort there. “Calvin wants to keep it low-key.” I was told he said.

Another source said, “Nick and Calvin had been texting and met up at the Chateau Marmont [in Los Angeles] about a month ago. Nick and John broke up around February, but remained friends. John actually encouraged Nick to get back with Calvin. He thinks it would be helpful for him.”(I’ll bet)

A spokesperson for Klein said: “I can confirm they are friends and no more. There is no relationship whatsoever, but at the same time Calvin holds no grudges and has put whatever problems they had behind him.”

{{Adam}}

ps: The break up was cover by adamfoxie*blog Int. If you interested you can do a search in the search bar.

Gruber announced he was also working on a reality show about his relationship with Klein, having moved to LA and started dating John Luciano. But by February this year, Gruber and Luciano broke up, and Gruber had a change of heart and pulled the plug on his book.

A source now tells us, “Calvin feels very protective over him. Despite all that has happened, and everything he’s done, he still loves Nick.”

October 3, 2012

When I interviewed long-term couples who said they were very happily married, I was surprised at how many of them had overcome affairs. I detailed that study in Loving in Flow: How the Happiest Couples Get & Stay That Way, and later began writing a "Love Advice" column. After 8 years of responding to lovelorn letters, I've compiled some hints that a husband or wife may have been or will be unfaithful in the near future.
6 clues to infidelity:1. Your husband or wife has begun keeping secrets. If he walks into another room while on the phone, or shuts down the computer monitor (or hurriedly presses a couple of keys the second you appear), such secretive behavior means your mate is beginning to put up a wall around him/herself in case it may be needed one day.

2. Arguments flare up for no apparent reason. When your mate gets angrier than is warranted, there is often something else going on under the surface issue. That anger and the argument itself may be a way of making it "obvious" that YOU are the problem in this relationship.

3. He/she insists that you're not "growing." While your mate is growing and developing new interests, it is claimed, you are lagging behind and unchanging. If this is not based in reality, and in fact, your mate's only new interest is in watching new kinds of porn, beware.4. Your mate still believes in magic and soul-mates. Mature partners adapt to the reality of long-term love. Some men and women, though, persist in thinking that what they actually have is second-best, and that "the one" is still out there. How does your mate respond to movies that idealize love vs. "ordinary" life? Does one of you blame the other for the diminishment of sexual frequency? Does either of you have a habit of "if onlies," as though happiness can only be given TO a person, without their own hard efforts?5. One of you feels subtly abused all the time. Constant criticism, even if couched in gentle "helpful" words, makes you feel judged and found wanting, as though you would have to become a whole other person. Sooner or later either one of you will seek a way out.6. Your mate has forgotten your early starry-eyed history together.You bring up a thrilling date, some beloved memory or other, and he/she can't recall it. Such glowing memories cause cognitive dissonance in the unhappy present, so they are put deeply away.

September 3, 2012

The Queen’s composer has gone to court in a bid to evict his long-term partner from the remote island home they shared in a dispute involving allegations of domestic abuse.

Sir Peter Maxwell Davies, 77, wants his lover of a decade, Colin Parkinson, to leave the renovated stone barn and croft house on Sanday in Orkney.

Lawyers for the Master of the Queen’s Music last week argued at Kirkwall Sheriff Court that Mr Parkinson, a 57-year-old builder, should vacate the property.

Discord: Sir Peter Maxwell-Davies, left, and partner Colin Parkinson are in dispute after a ten-year relationshipThe case will continue later this month, with the sheriff who presided over the case accepting it concerned ‘domestic abuse’.

Sir Peter, who turns 78 next Saturday, is believed to be staying in Italy while the case is being thrashed out.

Locals in Orkney are understood to have been concerned about the couple’s relationship for several months.

The first public indication of trouble came in June when Sir Peter failed to attend the islands’ St Magnus Festival, which he founded in 1977.

Battleground: Sir Peter Maxwell Davies, 77, and Colin Parkinson lived in a stone barn and croft house in Sanday, a village on idyllic Orkney, pictured

It was the first time he had not been a guest of honour in its 35-year history.

‘We heard that he and Colin have parted and it was pretty acrimonious. We do not know what has happened but it is very sad.

There are all kinds of claims and counter-claims.

All we know is that Max is in Italy and that he wants his house back and the lawyers are involved. He hasn’t been back in months.’

Five years ago, Sir Peter planned to ‘marry’ Mr Parkinson in a civil ceremony, but they had to abandon their plans when Orkney Islands Council refused permission to use their chosen venue, sparking accusations of discrimination.

Speaking at the time, Sir Peter said: ‘Everything has now gone so sour; it’s spoilt everything for us.’

In a further setback, in 2009, Sir Peter revealed he was in so much debt he was in danger of losing the Orkney house.

He should have been earning hundreds of thousands of pounds, but was given an annual allowance of just £25,000 by manager Michael Arnold, who was later jailed for false accounting involving more than £500,000 of Sir Peter’s money.

Sir Peter, whose music was played at the wedding of the Duke and Duchess of Cambridge, espoused republican views despite his Royal title – but admitted the Queen had ‘won him over’ to the idea of a monarchy.

January 28, 2012

The real secret behind Seal and Heidi Klum’s partnership is out: A plethora of PDA does not necessarily a happy marriage make.
The kiss-and-tell couple, who cozied up to the extreme in Seal’s 2010 Secret video (think intense eye contact, rumpled sheets and lots of intertwined naked limbs), epitomize the notion that too much public pawing, among celebrities or mere mortals, can be a red flag for private turmoil.
The seemingly inseparable, so-in-love duo announced their split on Sunday night after almost seven years of marriage and “much soul-searching.”
“We have had the deepest respect for one another throughout our relationship and continue to love each other very much, but we have grown apart,” they said in a statement given to People. “This is an amicable process and protecting the well-being of our children remains our top priority, especially during this time of transition.”
The supermodel and the singer are parents to Leni, 7, Henry, 6, Johan, 5 and Lou, 2.
Exposing yourselves so literally, as Klum and Seal did, is about “overcompensation,” says New York psychotherapist Bonnie Eaker Weil, author of Make Up, Don’t Break Up, “because they want to prove not only to themselves but to the rest of the world that everything is fine.”
Sometimes, Weil says, overt affection is a means of overcorrecting for specific problems at home. “It’s like a tease,” she says. The guy who makes sexually suggestive comments about his wife at a dinner party? “That’s the couple that’s not having sex at all.”
The unsealed nature of their relationship made Seal and Klum Hollywood’s gift to the public’s fascination with celebrity matrimony.
There was their May 2005 marriage, the details of which they spilled in interviews. In May 2011, the two renewed their wedding vows, something they did every year around the time of their anniversary. Traditionally, the couple donned some sort of costume. Last year, she wore a mask, and he came decked out in a pirate headdress and blue vest.
The annual “I do’s” were “just unusual,” says Linda Mintle, a Chesapeake, Va.-based marriage and family therapist and a Beliefnet blogger. (Typically, couples renew their vows once, after enduring a hard patch.) “I kind of wondered if that was an attempt to get back on track every year, to get them focused on the marriage.”
There’s a reason The Seven Year Itch resonated. “If you look at the research, they’re at the really pivotal point when more than half of divorces happen, at the seven-year period,” Mintle says. “What that usually means is those seven years were not great.”
But they sure looked great, on the surface. Klum and Seal loved to celebrate. On Halloween, they threw their annual lavish costume party in New York, showing up — and hamming it up — in matching, elaborate ape get-ups. On Sept. 29, they appeared to be a vision of goofy happiness while posing for photos at Disneyland, as part of the Magic Kingdom’s Halloween Time celebration. And in August, they locked lips while boating in the Mediterranean Sea.

And the two never met a red carpet they didn’t love. Yes, that was them kissing while arriving at the Elton John AIDS Foundation Oscar viewing party on Feb. 27, 2011. And yes, that was them kissing again while working the arrivals line at the Grammys on Feb. 13. And while showing up at a 2007 Lorraine Schwartz party in New York. And while going to the 2005 Vanity Fair Oscar party.
But the height (or depths?) of their onstage mutual admiration society was September 2010’s Secret romp, a (literally) black-and-white metaphor for appearance vs. reality when it comes to relationships. “That’s more telling than anything,” Weil says. “What they’re uncovering in that video is what they’re covering up” at home.
“I’m sure they were hoping they could fix the problem and transpose the video to their (real) life, but it doesn’t work that way. It takes effort and work,” Weil says. “Now, they’re really naked in front of the whole world. They’re naked emotionally because the cover has been blown.”
Mintle is more circumspect. The extreme expressions of ardor “could have been fake, but it also could have been an attempt in the public to say, ‘C’mon, let’s make this work.’ “
Still, Weil calls faux frontal affection “the ultimate betrayal.” Other couples — think Gwyneth Paltrow and Chris Martin, or Rachel Weisz and Daniel Craig— take connubial privacy to a new level, barely mentioning each other in interviews and rarely, if ever, posing together.
And then there was the ultimate Hollywood couple, Paul Newman and Joanne Woodward, whose longevity (50 years) was matched only by their secrecy.
“They never held hands. He never put his arm around her,” says Weil, who saw them out and about a couple of times. The message? “If I have it (love, romance), I don’t have to flaunt it, and if I don’t have it, I have to flaunt it.”
The lessons are applicable beyond Hollywood. “What’s so frustrating is what they’re experiencing is not really different from the average couple. It’s more magnified,” Mintle says. Deconstructing divorce “is not, like, a mystical science. It’s not some mystery.”

January 27, 2012

Less than one month after filing to divorce wife of 14 months Katy Perry, Russell Brand has moved on.

The latest issue of Us Weekly (out Friday) has new details about the Brit comic's bevy of new beauties, who have incensed his soon-to-be ex-wife Perry, 27.

"She discovered through her friends," an insider tells Us of how Perry found out about 36-year-old Brand's wandering eye. "One of the women told a friend of hers and it got back to Katy."

And the Rock of Ages actor's new ladies aren't the only ones doing the talking. Brand -- who blindsided Perry by filing for divorce December 30 -- has been trashing her to his conquests.

"He's spoken terribly about Katy to them," the source says of Brand, who has sought out one particular woman to "explore a relationship" with. "[Russell] told her he wanted her to move in with him after the divorce is final," confirmed the insider.

October 1, 2011

Jennifer AnistonJennifer Aniston has been spending every second of her life with her new boyfriend Justin Theroux, and while I really want to like him, I'm also sort of waiting for the other shoe to drop, so to speak. I mean he's really good looking andseems to really care for her and all; however, there have been a few red flags along the way and even more sketchy rumors continue to be revealed.

I just don't want Jen to get hurt is all, so I'm hoping she's checking out the recent rumors flying around about her boyfriend. As we all know, there seems to always be some truth to the dirt the tabloids dig up. Here's the latest gossip about Justin Theroux.

Druggie past

A former co-star to Theroux, actor Keith Middlebrook, recently revealed that Theroux had opened up to him about his drug use.

He told me about using powerful painkillers like Dilaudid, as well as mushrooms, ecstasy, cocaine, heroin, LSD and crack.

Yikes! A little Valium is one thing, but heroin and crack? A little disconcerting.

Alcoholism

Another close friend of Theroux's exposed him as "a big drinker" turned recovering alcoholic:

... no one heard from him for a year -- then when I saw him, he told me he’d been in AA and getting used to being sober.

As a sober alky myself, I'm obviously not judging here, but it's definitely something you want to know about someone you're seriously dating. Jen, you do know about this, right?

Psycho Exes

Justin's motorcycle was recently seen outside Jen's place covered in bologna. The bike could have been "meated" by any bored prankster, I guess, but that has psycho ex-girlfriend written all over it -- one that's telling Theroux he's full of bologna.

Angelina Jolie Crush

And probably the worst rumor of all comes again from former co-star Middlebrook who revealed that Theroux used to have a crush on the worst possible person ever -- Jen's arch enemy Angelina Jolie! Allegedly, Theroux told Middlebrook that Jolie would be his first pick of A-list fantasy women:

He said Angelina Jolie. I laughed, saying the only fat she has is in her lips, and he quipped, ‘That’s the only place she needs it!'

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