It's only natural that you would be
vulnerable and filled with raw emotions when you've just had a breakup, and
there are only a few things that can help you find solace and peace of mind.
Two of those things is acceptance and trust. Accepting that it is over -
and trusting that you will be okay - can help you find peace of mind.
And the easiest way to find acceptance and trust, is to bring a Higher Power
into your life. That's why so many people end up with a new spiritual
awareness after breaking up from a long-term intimate relationship. This
new awareness is the blessed result of that uneasy emptiness that fills their
heart with such an aching need. Spiritual awareness can help you heal those
wounds caused by a lost love and enable you to emerge stronger from this
personal and emotional crisis.

Spirituality and religious inclinations after breakups are not uncommon.
After all, it is the Supreme Power whom we turn to in our hours of trial
and grief. This allows you to look so deeply at the hurt that you discern
in it an opportunity to forgive. When this new spiritual awareness makes
forgiving easier it, in turn, helps cleanse your system of those negative
feelings of hatred and 'revenge' seeking. Along with this, all the stress
and anxiety that comes with a breakup also gets healed much more easily and
rapidly. Spiritual inclination can help you feel more content in the belief
that there is a new and better life beyond grief.

Spiritual healing begins
by shifting your attention from the pain of your breakup to the sweet memories
of the past and the joyous prospect of the future. This may be difficult
in the beginning but in due time you will realize that no bitterness in a
relationship's ending shall take away the precious and beautiful memories
of the love filled days you two once shared. When you are thankful for the
gift of time you two did have together, instead of full of grief over the
loss of it, your soul automatically soars, your spirit lifts, and you'll
feel better emotionally and spiritually.

There are many trivial issues that may
consume and obsess you in the beginning stages of a breakup. Your grief tends
to make these trivial matters seem more crucial and important than they really
are. However, when combined with a new spiritual awakening - and a small
passage of time - our obsessive thoughts clear up. The cloud of grief is
no more around, and we realize that the issues that we thought were so important
were never really that significant after all. Spirituality helps you look
into solutions rather than problems, it helps you see the big picture
of your life rather than the small transformation from couple to single.
Therefore, when facing a relationship breakup, a newly discovered spirituality
can be the answer and your salvation to a brighter day.

Handing your grief over
to a higher power instills spiritual healing after a breakup and leaves a
positive feeling in your heart, making space for the appropriate balance
of your 'yin and yang' forces. Spiritual awareness moves you through new
and higher levels of perspectives and consciousness. This not only makes
you a better person, but also helps you find a new partner who can appreciate
you as you are and who will want to be with you forever. This is why
we often immerge from a breakup a better, happier person.

A breakup is an ideal time to introspect within yourself and question, "who
am I". Since, there is no one to divert your mind and attention away from
you, you can get to know yourself better and work on the factors that
led to your breakup - so that it doesn't happen again. With this newfound
spirituality you will experience better health, an abundance of joy, and
personal fulfillment.

For more information about getting over
the pain of breakup, please read How to
Get Over a Breakup, by Tigress Luv, the Breakup Guru.