I hate holidays, birthdays, and any other time you should enjoy cake!

Sunday, February 17, 2013

I hate this! I hate it so much, I'm trying to be optimistic about it. generally I am. Infact its something I want so much, but my husband is also trying. We are supposed to support each other and help each other make better decisions....it's so hard to stay strong though because my partner is horrible at this. He gives up his whole diet just because of one little cupcake. It makes me feel bad inside and also it makes me want to quit. I feel like i'm making no progress because I see him want the 12 inch sub with all the fixings and suggest a 6 inch, And then I feel bad for telling him what to do, then when it was time to celebrate my sons birthday today he just wanted to eat one cupcake after another. uhg i'm so frustrated. On top of that he has a bad attitude about it. He doesn't think he does but it's impacting me! I want another cupcake, but no! I had mine and that's that. No more I have to control my food not let it control me. Why can't he see it that way.
im overly frustrated....

oh dear you've got to cool off, release that stress you put yourselves and each other under. how about spending some hours reading various articles on this site, esp. under 'motivation' or 'wellness'? you'll see that lots of us put ourselves under such attacks as you described, and all it achieves is more pounds where they don't belong.wish you luck, peace and understanding!