I'm in a band which has been busy this last year or so, is getting busier, and is set to become even busier in the coming months with touring and such. I love it, and I want to make a career out of it, but it's stopping me from 'going for it' with the girl I'm seeing, and making it into a proper relationship, because I'm concerned about distance, and leaving her behind while I go off and do lots of silly-boy-things in a car (read into that how you will). What advice can you give me to hold down a relationship during weeks-to-months out on the road?

I've given up smoking,drinking alcohol,weed and unhealthy food. I'm somewhat of a coiled spring at the moment, what advice can you give me to stop me descending into a powerviolent commuter rage bundle of bald stranger baiting brilliance everytime I commute to and from work on the underground?

I don't know you or your band but I'm sure both are real good. I have high foot arches. This is likely to cause me foot trauma in real life. Have you any suggestions of action I could take now to prevent this? Thanks.