I'm seeing people say they massage oil into their lobes twice a day..... do people with stretched lobes to this every day, even once they've finished stretching and are at their goal size or is it for people who are currently stretching and still going.

When you do this, do you take the jewellery out? (Are you even supposed to take it out to massage if you've just stretched them? Wouldn't that cause irritation to take the tunnels in and out with a new stretch?)