Thursday, November 22, 2007

nobody wants to be alone. People come close when they share something,a class, school, workplace , common interest etc. That gives them something to discuss or spend time together and they know each other.Then there is something called frequency matching which decides the degree of this closeness. This closeness is called friendship. Anyone can be your friend- a person, your favorite toy, or some place . It can be anything that you connect with, anything that you enjoy being with. now there is a very special category of these friends which i call 3 A.M. friends. you can tell anything to them without the need of phrasing your sentences, without worrying about how to start or end, without worrying about the length and time of conversation and without the need to fill awkward gaps and pauses. You are down with all kind of issues in your life and than you go to your 3 A.M. buddy cry out, curse people, shout on your buddy, laugh about absolutely anything, discuss something else which is noway related to the matter, or simply dont say anything just sit quite on the rooftop beside your buddy counting stars. No matter what you speak they know exactly what you are talking about and whats bugging you.SO if you have one you are lucky, if you have 2 you will never be in depression and if you have more than that :) you are favorite among angels.

3 comments:

ok so atleast we have one bad habit in common. I am myself suffering from "Aur Bata" syndrome i.e. whenever i talk to anyone i keep saying this word so that i dont have to talk about me. its not that i dont trust my friends or value their opinion, but thats too uncomfortable even with my closest of pals. But i guess its all about having someone with whom quality time can be spent and that really helps to rejuvenate and bringing things on track. No one can sort out things in someone else life but having a 3 AM buddy sure helps :)