Elena Boudreau poses with a Romanian flag in her family's Ann Arbor home earlier this month.

Joseph Tobianski | AnnArbor.com

To watch Elena Boudreau run is to see evidence of her past and her present all at once.

Start at the legs. Look closely, and you’ll notice she runs with a slight limp. She doesn’t even notice it anymore, but people still point it out.

Adopted from Romania as a 6-year-old, Boudreau came to Ann Arbor in 1999 weighing just 32 pounds. An infancy and childhood spent confined to a crib left her with a left leg that wouldn’t bend past 90 degrees.

Physical therapy helped her range of motion, and by middle school she was playing sports.

Yet the musculature in her hip area remains damaged, and her gait is a reminder of the first six years of her life.

But look above her legs, and you’ll see something even more rare than a limp.

Most cross country races end with runners who appear to have been through some sort of cruel torture. Whether participants are new to the sport or experts, the 3.1-mile courses always seems to exhaust them in a visibly painful way. The fact that no course is exactly the same — some are flat and basically a straight line, others involve steep hills and narrow winding trails — makes it that much more difficult.

From first to last place, it's common to see participants collapse, vomit, cry or some combination of the three at the end of a race. Whether running at a four-and-half or 10 minute mile pace, the fact that runners are most often pushing themselves to their personal limit makes the sport universally debilitating.

Yet Elena, always has a smile across her face — from beginning to end — while she competes in one of the most grueling of high school sports.

“She’s the only girl I know who will smile during a race,” Bob Boudreau, her adoptive father, said.

Standing in the kitchen of her family’s Ann Arbor home last week, Elena bursts out laughing when her father brings this up.

She can’t quite put her finger on what makes her grin when most people grimace.

But she knows that she has plenty to smile about these days. About to begin the second semester of her senior year at Pioneer High School, Elena has overcome being abandoned in a Romanian hospital, a learning disability and an MHSAA rule to get to where she is.

That Elena would be running, or smiling, in a Pioneer uniform this season at all was plenty uncertain for reasons that have nothing to do with her disability.

Four years ago, when she was in eighth grade, her adoptive mother, Nancy Boudreau, saw a problem coming down the road.

The MHSAA’s maximum age rule states that any students who turn 19 before Sept. 1 of their senior year are ineligible to compete in sports. After entering kindergarten as a six-year-old following her adoption, then repeating the grade, Elena was on track to turn 19 in January of her junior year.

So Nancy wrote a letter to the MHSAA, asking about the possibility of a waiver for her daughter, given her circumstances.

The MHSAA said Elena could begin competing at Pioneer in her second semester as an eighth—grader. But according to her mother, that wasn’t feasible.

After trying out swimming, volleyball and soccer as a middle schooler, Elena settled on running. The choice came as little surprise. Nancy competed in the Olympic Trials and was an alternate on the 1968 and 1972 Olympic teams. Bob was an All-American at Eastern Michigan. The two met at a track meet in 1988 and got married the next year.

Their other adopted daughter Liza, three years older than Elena but not related by blood, was already on Pioneer’s cross country team by then, where she would become an All-State runner.

Nancy began coaching Elena’s team in middle school, and would move on to become a Pioneer assistant. But after that letter came, it seemed like there was no way around Elena’s high school running career being cut a year shot.

“I was kind of defeated,” Nancy said of receiving the letter. “I wasn’t going to pursue much.”

Welcome to Romania

Before taking the trip to Romania in April 1999, Nancy had been sent photos and a video of the girl who would become her second adopted daughter.

But nothing quite prepared her for the moment she was handed a 6-year-old, 32-pound girl in the parking lot of the Bucharest airport.

Elena is the second child the Boudreaus adopted from overseas. They adopted Liza from Russia three years earlier. Then, Nancy spent the entire time with an English-speaking chaperone, and visited Liza’s orphanage before taking her home.

Romania, though, would prove different, as Nancy quickly realized as she sat in a taxi bound for the hotel, with a crying Elena on her lap.

After Elena’s foster family handed her over at the airport, an adoption agency representative said it would take two days to get the paperwork processed. So Nancy spent the first two days with her new daughter unable to communicate, mostly taking long walks around an unfamiliar city.

The one place she wanted to go, though, she couldn’t. Nancy asked to be taken to the orphanage where Elena grew up, but was told absolutely not. Questions about Elena’s past went unanswered.

The story they were given was that Elena’s mother gave birth in a hospital, then left. Elena was named by the hospital, and wasn’t issued a birth certificate until age 4. The date on it is Jan. 1, 1993 — one the Boudreaus would question when it later determined her MHSAA eligibility.

Past that, almost nothing was known as Nancy and Elena left for the United States after a three-day trip.

Elena herself can’t fill in any of the holes. She remembers nothing before coming to Ann Arbor. Some days she wishes she knew more. But she knows there may be a reason she doesn’t remember.

“I do wonder, but maybe it’s not so bad,” Elena said. “I wish I could find my parents, but I don’t think I could.”

Let 'Em Play

In early 2010, Dean Dompierre came to the same realization that Nancy had come to a year earlier.

A middle school science teacher in Ishpeming, a small town in the Upper Peninsula, Dompierre realized his son Eric Dompierre, who has Down Syndrome, would turn 19 before Sept. 1 of his senior year, and be ineligible for sports. Like Elena, Eric had been held back a year in school when he was young. Then a freshman in high school, Eric had become a kicker on the school’s football team, and joined the basketball team over the winter.

Like Nancy Boudreau had, Dompierre sent a letter to the MHSAA, asking about the possibility of receiving a waiver for his son. He received the same response Nancy had a year earlier.

Of all the rules in MHSAA handbook, the maximum age rule was the only one the MHSAA did not grant waivers for. According to spokesperson John Johnson, the association had concerns that overage students could provide their teams with competitive advantages.

To Dompierre, that wouldn’t be the case with his son. So he submitted a proposal to the MHSAA that would allow waivers for the rule, only to see the association’s representative council reject it.

Undeterred, he did more research on other states’ policies, submitted a second proposal. That one was rejected, too, in December 2011.

Seven months before the start of his son’s senior year, Dompierre said the prospects of saving the season were looking grim. But they were about to get a jumpstart.

In March, a local television station aired a story about Eric, about his love for sports and the likelihood that he wouldn’t have a senior season.

The video went viral, and Dompierre’s cause was suddenly a national one. His story was featured in Sports Illustrated and the New York Times on consecutive days in April. Two days later, Dompierre went on Fox News to talk about the case.

“It took off and it snowballed,” Dompierre said. “As far as I was concerned, I was just holding on for dear life.”

Soon, he had Michigan school board members, superintendents, even the head statistician of the Detroit Lions, who helped Dompierre set up a website for the cause, pitching in to help with the effort, which became known as "Let ‘Em Play."

Dean Dompierre, left, and his son, Eric Dompierre, testified at a state Senate committee hearing on Wednesday, May 2, 2012, in Lansing, Mich. The legislature passed a resolution urging the MHSAA to allow waivers for the age limit rule they opposed.

Associated Press

Eventually, Dompierre found himself on the floor of the state senate in May, testifying with his son by his side. The legislature passed a resolution urging the MHSAA to allow waivers for the rule.

Five days later, the MHSAA representative council voted to send the matter to a vote of member schools. Ninety-four percent voted for it, and the constitution was changed.

From Ann Arbor, the Boudreaus followed news about the case intensely as it received more and more attention. They had years ago resigned to the fact that Elena would lose her senior season. Now, there was hope.

“He did what I thought couldn’t be done,” Bob Boudreau said.

Uphill battle

It was apparent from the start that in the classroom, Elena would have an uphill battle.

In her first evaluation in her new school, Elena was shown picture books of animals. She couldn’t identify any of them. She couldn’t identify colors, either. She could count to 10, but no farther.

“She just had no experiences with anything,” Nancy said. “So she was learning everything new besides the language.”

The normal connections made in an infant’s brain through human interaction weren’t there in Elena’s. In many ways, she’s been playing catch-up ever since.

All through elementary and middle school she had math and English in separate classes. By middle school, though, she grew frustrated, feeling like the only one in those classes that cared about school. So she worked even harder, with the goal of joining all mainstream classes.

Since enrolling in Pioneer, in the same math and English classes as her friends, she “blossomed,” her mother said, both in the classroom and socially.

But learning is still a challenge. Committing something to memory requires going over it time and time again. Elena often makes flashcards, because pictures help her remember. She can handle a list of two or three directions. But give her five or six things in a row to do, and she’ll forget the last few.

She still receives extra time and notes on some tests, and was in academic support classes until last year.

But one thing hard work in the classroom hasn’t been able to change is her birth date. Ever since a kindergarten class list was posted with birth dates on it, Elena’s faced teasing for being two years older than most of her classmates. Often, she’s simply lied and said she’s younger than she is.

Elena was reticent to go public with her story at first, primarily because of her age. But by having her story out there, she hopes she can inspire others faced with similar difficulties.

She also wants to show she’s proud of who she is: a 20-year-old Pioneer senior who’s come through the special education program. And part of who she is now is a strong advocate for special education students. One of her classes at Pioneer includes helping special education students in a physical education class.

Elena plans on going to Washtenaw Community College for two years, and then transferring to a four-year institution. She hopes to bring her journey full circle: from the child who couldn't identify animals during her first evaluation, through special education, to become a special education teacher.

And she knows she’s already gotten through some of the hardest parts.

“I’m very proud of myself, not to be cocky,” Elena said.

Running without a finish line

All through the summer, Elena ran, knowing every grueling mile, every early morning practice could be in vain.

The MHSAA had amended its constitution, but her senior season was far from certain. After the vote came back, the MHSAA set narrow circumstances for granting waivers. That included proving a disability that diminished “both physical and either intellectual or emotional capabilities.”

With the help of Pioneer, Nancy put together an application that soon turned into a stack of paperwork, including Elena’s individual education plans and her medical records, and shipped it off to the MHSAA.

But as the season inched closer and official practices began, the MHSAA still hadn’t responded to the application.

“I was really, really worried,” Elena said.

Hoping for an answer, Nancy stopped by the Pioneer athletic office on Aug. 10. Pioneer athletic director Eve Claar put a call in to the MHSAA, and soon was giving Nancy a thumbs up. The waiver had been approved.

Up north, Dompierre was receiving the same good news about his son Eric. And when he went through the minutes from the meeting where his son’s waiver was approved, he was surprised to find another approval. It described a girl that was adopted from Romania and had overcome physical and mental hardships to become a Pioneer cross country runner. Eric and Elena are the only two athletes in the state to be granted age-limit waivers so far.

Dean's goal from the start of his campaign was to not just create an opportunity for his son, but for other students around the state as well. Excited that it happened in the first year, Dompierre sent an e-mail to Pioneer, providing his contact information in case anyone from the family wanted to contact him.

A few weeks later, he received an email from Nancy.

“Without your efforts, Elena’s dream would not be possible,” she wrote.

“If it hadn’t been for Dompierre’s going through this, she wouldn’t be able to do this,” Nancy said. “And just having this story out there, maybe other people will read it and maybe think they can do it too.”

The dream of a senior season had been realized. Not only that, Elena ran every race in 2012 as a member of the varsity team for the first time in her career -- meaning she was among the team's seven fastest runners for the historically strong program -- and set a new personal best during the season.

Boudreau scored for the Pioneers with a 31st place finish (out of 91 runners) in the team's regional competition with a time of 21:34.82. It was Pioneer's fourth fastest finish of the day (top 5 from each team team score). Elena was 1:03.44 away from qualifying for the state championships as an individual and with a fourth place team finish, Pioneer fell one spot shy of making it as a team.

Elena is currently running indoor track, and will run track in the spring.

Comments

This story made me both happy and sad. I am thrilled that Elena and Eric were granted the waiver that allows them to realize their dreams. But it made me sad, that 12 years after we fought the exact same battle .......and WON........with MHSAA, that no other challenged athletes have been afforded the same right, until now.
Our daughter Asia, who has autism, was on the Milan Cross Country and Track team throughout high school. When we learned that she would not be able to run with her team her senior year, because she would *age out*, we were crushed for her. Running with her team was all she wanted to do. We wrote, we called, we pleaded, we reasoned, and finally we threatened to retain a special needs lawyer. We were told that we could do what we wanted, but that no one had ever won against them. We appealed to our school superintendent and Asia's cross country coach to intervene on Asia's behalf. The superintendent politely told the MHSAA that we (Jerry and I) wouldn't go away, and wouldn't give up without a fight.
Steve Porter, the Cross Country and Track coach, then and now, contacted the other coaches in the district and got them to agree to allow Asia to run, as long as her time didn't count for the team. With that, MHSAA relented and allowed Asia to run her senior year. Asia didn't care about times and trophys, that would come later in her running career. All she wanted to do was train with her team and run with her girls. Coach Porter had a stash of old medals, so if Asia's time would have earned her one, he had one on hand just for her. We will always remember that kindness.
Hopefully now, with the waiver and rules in place, other gifted but challenged athletes will be able to compete, regardless of their age.
Asia has gone on to compete in over 130 races, including 16 half marathons and 3 full marathons. Her results can be seen at http://athlinks.com/racer/results/52116661
All our best to Elena and Eric and their families.

Momma G

Sun, Jan 13, 2013 : 9:45 p.m.

Congrats to Elena! and to Eric! I remember when Elena came to the elementary school where I was the Office Professional but I never fully was aware of her special educational needs. I just remember how hard Nancy worked to get her what was required. Elena was always a happy child and am sure it was because of the home she had been adopted int. What a beautiful young lady she has turned out to be and I wish her all the best. The Bourdeau's need to be congratulated, also!

aes

Sun, Jan 13, 2013 : 9:28 p.m.

Best story I have read since the inception of annarbor.com Thank you!

Terry Star21

Sun, Jan 13, 2013 : 8:01 p.m.

Great story Kyle, maybe the longest I've seen on A2.com - but enjoyed every word of it.
This story not only salutes Elena for all her hard work and rewards, but shows the power and love of two great parents who will make any sacrifice for their children - and those are stories us readers will never tire of. Salute !

jns131

Sun, Jan 13, 2013 : 5:28 p.m.

The sad fact of the story is this. There are more children languishing in orphanages in Romania and Russia and there is nothing anyone can do about it. Glad to hear about Elana's story. But wish more could be done to save those in Russia.

jns131

Mon, Jan 14, 2013 : 11:20 p.m.

NBC Mews did mention there was a huge protest I think in Moscow over this. Putin needs to retire and give some new blood a chance.

ottozrule

Sun, Jan 13, 2013 : 8:50 p.m.

And Russian President Putin retaliated for the US's joining condemnation of Russia for human-rights violations by outlawing further adoption of Russian orphans by Americans. Very sad back story.

J. A. Pieper

Sun, Jan 13, 2013 : 5:16 p.m.

This is an especially wonderful story since Elena attended the elementary school where I teach. She has always been a wonderful person, and her parents have done everything to give her positive, loving experiences!

15crown00

Sun, Jan 13, 2013 : 5:07 p.m.

What a heart warming story.And i'll just leave it at that.

Doug

Sun, Jan 13, 2013 : 4:32 p.m.

The MHSAA is not an organization that considers what's best for the student. It's &quot;By the Book&quot; mentality is seriously flawed. There are often extenuating circumstances, such as the Eric Dompierre case, when eligibility needs a human touch.. It took our state legislature to see that the right decision was made by the MHSAA in Dompierre's case. Maybe the State Dept. of Education should take over the role of high school eligibility in athletics

Amy Goodman

Sun, Jan 13, 2013 : 3:46 p.m.

Thank you for this wonderful follow-up to the widely publicized stories about Eric Dompierre's journey. It is heartwarming to learn more about the other student athletes that benefitted from the Dompierre's efforts. I live in Ann Arbor, but I am native to Ishpeming. The grace and considered persistence that not only the Dompierres, but the school district, coach and football players and the community demonstrated every time a brick wall was thrown up was classy and inspirational. There is more to the story. Three student-athletes from the Hematite football program died in the year prior to this season, during the Dompierre's fight. Two were key players from last football team to make the state finals two years ago. One of the boys was the coach's son, he commit suicide last summer after his first year in college and after years of struggling with depression. Coach Olson adds to the inspirational story by his open acknowledgement of his son's struggles with anxiety and depression, he now works to support awareness of teen suicide. The boys on this football team have had to grow up fast, and are bonded for life. There was no knuckle-headedness this year (such as grades or behavior issues), there was just no time for that kind of nonsense. Lots to learn from a very small town.

Kyle Austin

Mon, Jan 14, 2013 : 3:56 a.m.

Thanks for sharing that Amy, I didn't know that part of the story.

LA

Sun, Jan 13, 2013 : 2:59 p.m.

Wonderful story! Congrats to all!!

Anonymous

Sun, Jan 13, 2013 : 2:59 p.m.

Why do you call them her adoptive mother or father, they are her parents. Her adoptive sister. That's just wrong. Pointing out the fact that she was adopted and her back story is wonderful, however it's insulting to call them her adoptive family throughout.

a2citizen

Mon, Jan 14, 2013 : 12:39 a.m.

You probably do not have much experience with youth sports or high school athletics.

Chandi

Sun, Jan 13, 2013 : 11:02 p.m.

Thank you for pointing this out. I was going to do the same. My daughter is adopted, and I am 100% her mother and she is 100% my daughter. Once pointing out that Elena was adopted there shouldn't need to be any mention of her adoption.

Pete Cunningham

Sun, Jan 13, 2013 : 5:29 p.m.

This is simply done for clarification on first reference, not to indicate the people involved are any less of a family.

seldon

Sun, Jan 13, 2013 : 2:50 p.m.

Great story!

thecompound

Sun, Jan 13, 2013 : 2:47 p.m.

Congratulations to the two families in the stories, it sounds like for once common sense prevailed. I do wonder about the MHSAA age policy however. Did they change the amendment to something case-by-case where waivers could be granted or just a blanket change? I could see how it could possibly be a problem with some contact sports like football, hockey, wrestling, etc..

ThinkingOne

Mon, Jan 14, 2013 : 12:33 a.m.

Your're welcome. It was a long story, easy to miss some stuff or even forget some by the end of it!

thecompound

Sun, Jan 13, 2013 : 11:46 p.m.

Thanks ThinkingOne, I totally missed that. (And thanks for not being nasty while pointing this out, lol, might be a first on here :)

ThinkingOne

Sun, Jan 13, 2013 : 4:36 p.m.

From the article:
'The MHSAA had amended its constitution, but her senior season was far from certain. After the vote came back, the MHSAA set narrow circumstances for granting waivers. That included proving a disability that diminished &quot;both physical and either intellectual or emotional capabilities.&quot;'
Waivers are definitely the proper way to do this. The MHSAA has a responsibility to ensure fair &amp; safe play. Just a blanket change would seem to open the door to allow any 20-year-old to play high school sports. It is easy to see how that could be an issue.
It is good to see how these stories ended on a positive note.

Lizzy Alfs

Sun, Jan 13, 2013 : 2:44 p.m.

Excellent story, Kyle. Thank you!

a2cents

Sun, Jan 13, 2013 : 2:28 p.m.

Now, let's get back to the REAL sports stories: dui's, spouse abuse. drugs, violence and mayhem... oh, the glory of team sport.

OLDTIMER3

Sun, Jan 13, 2013 : 2:18 p.m.

@Kyle, good job on this stoty, very heart warming. Also the first story on here with all thumbs up!

Kyle Austin

Sun, Jan 13, 2013 : 3:20 p.m.

Thanks, oldtimer 3. Definitely a fun one to write.

OLDTIMER3

Sun, Jan 13, 2013 : 2:13 p.m.

What a beautiful and touching story about an exremely talented and beautiful young lady who has accomplished so much in her life. Both her and the young man from Ispeming deserve a big round of applause at their graduation ceremonies this year. I hope they both realise their goal in live. GOOD LUCK to both of them.

Craig Lounsbury

Sun, Jan 13, 2013 : 1:55 p.m.

The MHSAA and the NCAA are a couple of institutions that seem to struggle with common sense. They both seem to lose sight of the notion that they exist to enhance their membership not lord over them.

a2contrarian

Sun, Jan 13, 2013 : 1:16 p.m.

This was a great ruling by the MHSAA, though a bit overdue. The overarching philosophy should be about participation. I also had the opportunity to coach Elena in rec/ed basketball and youth soccer. The picture does not give total justice to her smile, which is a thousand times brighter. She has to be one of the most resilient and positive kids I ever coached and her tolerance for pain (a naturally part of sports) is unbelievable. Great job Elena and the whole Boudreau family and the Dompierres.

Kyle Austin

Sun, Jan 13, 2013 : 3:14 p.m.

Funny you should bring up the tolerance for pain, a2contrarian. Something I found fascinating but couldn't fit into the story is the fact that Elena's parents say she doesn't cry over physical pain. Never has. They remember her getting nailed in the face with a soccer ball as a middle schooler and just shaking it off. They think it's because she learned at any early age that crying doesn't help.

Carole

Sun, Jan 13, 2013 : 1:08 p.m.

What a marvelous story -- congratulations to both families. Indeed, there are always exceptions to rules, and this definitely is one of them. May both student continue to strive and best wishes in all that they endeavor during their future years. Would love to see more stories like this.

Evergreen

Sun, Jan 13, 2013 : 12:50 p.m.

We went through the same thing with our 19 year old autistic daughter Asia and MHSAA in 2000. We had held her back one year entering middle school when we saw the teacher she was to have, would not pay any attention to Asia. MHSAA refused to let her participate in cross country and track in her senior year and she was usually qualifying in the top 6 runners most weeks. We even threatened to slip her in just before the start of the race because running was her number one interest, her number one claim to be a main stream student, and acceptance by her peers.
What finally made it happen was that Coach Steve Porter, who still coaches at Milan H.S. got all the other schools to sign off that she would run but not be counted. Perfect! Asia didn't care about placing, just running and being on a level playing field with class mates.
How important was the running to Asia? She has run EVERY DAY for 15 years averaging about 5 miles a day. She has run 134 races including 5K, 10K, 10 mile, 1/2 marathons and 3 full marathons. The 134 does not include high school where she lettered 4 years in track and CC or Special Olympics which she competed in for 5-6 years at the county and state levels.
We are certainly glad to see that the MHSAA can be educated also!

Kyle Austin

Sun, Jan 13, 2013 : 3:10 p.m.

Very interesting story Evergreen, thanks for sharing. Seems to speak towards one of the disconnects between the MHSAA and public. MHSAA seemed to think schools would never go for this change, but once they put it up to a vote it got 94 percent.

CincoDeMayo

Sun, Jan 13, 2013 : 2:13 p.m.

What a difference one coach can make. It sounds like Porter was able to get the others to not just see the importance of participation for Asia, but to make it happen. Congratulations to Asia also - that's a lot of running!

CincoDeMayo

Sun, Jan 13, 2013 : 12:48 p.m.

Congratulations to Elena, and to Eric!
It's great to see our students working hard and striving to do their best. You should be very proud of yourselves (without being &quot;cocky&quot;...of course!)