At Diane von Furstenberg's celebration in honor of International Women's Day in New York City, Glamour spoke with two of the shooting survivors turned activists—Sarah Chadwick and Delaney Tarr—about pressure the students are feeling to make change and how they're taking care of themselves. The pair were part of a panel focusing on activism right now with actress Rowan Blanchard and community organizers and activists Jamira Burley and Pamela Chomba, moderated by former Glamour editor-in-chief Cindi Leive.

What do Chadwick and Tarr want to tell people who are riding on the Never Again movement and their generation to solely solve the gun reform debate?

"It’s kind of unfair because we know that we have to fix this, and that’s what we continue to plan to do," said Stoneman Douglas senior, Delaney Tarr, 18. "But when you hear something like 'Hey, you guys have to fix everything.' Why didn’t you fix it? You've got to take some responsibility. When you’re giving us all this pressure and all this responsibility, you have to take the blame too. Because it’s just been a systematic failure on every end, not just on gun control, but on so many issues."

"Also, we’re in school," added Stoneman Douglas junior, Sarah Chadwick, 16, who has become a fierce voice on Twitter along with Tarr and their friends in the Never Again movement. "We don’t have time to fix the world’s problems. I have to study for an SAT next month. We still have to finish school. We don’t have the time to go to every single press conference and every single meeting, so help us out. Start your own thing."

"Do the things that we can’t do," Tarr continued. "We’re still students, and we can’t just neglect that because that’s such a huge part of our identity and that’s what’s going to help us continue to grow and learn. We need adults with us that can help us because they don’t have school to go to, they don’t have to be students, they can just be activists."

Chadwick and Tarr also spoke to the balance they're trying to find between self-care and being full-time students and activists. Spoiler: It hasn't been easy.

"We’re very new to this, so it is hard to balance things because we’re not sleeping regularly, we’re not eating regularly," Tarr said. "But we’ve tried to focus on self-care, and one of the best things we’ve done is just be there for each other. I know that I’m not going to remind myself that, 'Hey, you have to be a person.' But someone in the [Never Again group] might be like, 'Hey, relax, you can take a break, you can step down for a second, just breathe.' The parents are the ones that are keeping us from falling apart all the time, because they’re keeping us fed, taking us places, going on trips with us, caring for us, and it’s difficult to balance."

"I’ll get home from a meeting, and my mom will be like, "Did you eat?' And she’ll shove pizza in my mouth," Chadwick said. "Personally, I haven’t really found a balance in it yet, but just being around the movement in general, it’s not necessarily balance, but it’s a way. We’re starting to master it."

At the end of the day, Tarr says, the students have found solace and more balance in each other.

"Communication is the thing that’s been keeping us going," said Tarr. "Because the more that we can be open with each other, the better we feel. It’s not like we’re alone in this, because other people within our group understand what it’s like to be an activist, and a student, and in mourning."

Chadwick and Tarr also spoke on intersectionality and their privilege in the gun reform movement. This week some of the Parkland activists met with teens in Chicago who face gun violence on a regular basis. Burley, who is director of youth engagement and skills at the Global Business Coalition for Education and has worked on policy, community, and social good for over a decade, said it's not just up to the teens in Parkland to make sure the conversation includes a wide range of voices.

"It's important that you all are working with the kids in Chicago, working with different organizations who are leading many of the aspects of the work," Burley told Tarr and Chadwick. "I think it's the responsibility of not these young people, but really the media to ensure that they're telling a holistic story."

"People are listening to us because we come from Parkland, a rich white community," Chadwick added. "So if we could use our privilege to put other not-as-privileged people’s voices in the spotlight to be heard, then we really have to do that. Use your white privilege for good. Use it to amplify minorities' voices."

"The best thing you can do is to have your actions match your words," said Tarr. "Do something about it. Recognizing [your privilege] is the first step but there’s a lot more you can do besides that. We’ve been trying to be inclusive and intersectional because we know that we come from a place of privilege and the only reason we’re being given this platform is because we’re from an affluent area and we’re majority white students. That’s something that we know, but we also need to manipulate the media to get more inclusivity in there."