after me and my husband got engaged he had come home to visit me. So we both shared bed and we dint have sex as I was down with periods. My mother in law keeps abusing me for this. Even after the wedding she keeps telling that I sleep with my husband as thought it is a sin. She even abuses that I try to get the attention of my father in law and brother in law(the worst words that I heard in my life). She tells that my parents dint bring me up properly. And all these just because I spent 3 nights with my husband before marriage. Is this my fault ? Aren't husband and wife supposed to be happy ?