My standards of physical attraction are very selective, so I won't get into that, but I will say that in a relationship, if it's physically hard for me to look at a woman, it won't work out. However, if someone is less attractive, but has an amazing personality, the personality will more than make up for it, since I would rather have a relationship with a person and not a bag of flesh.

Beyond that, my list of dealbreakers are:

Women who smoke, use drugs, lie, cheat, or steal.
Women who I can't hold an intense philosophical conversation with, or those whom I cannot communicate with.
Poor hygiene.
Women who will talk about very intimate and personal matters with anyone, or to friends who have very big mouths.
Women who have a huge list of "normal" friends whom I do not know. (I have a few close friends whom I know very well, but if a woman has a huge group of friends with whom she is close to none.)
I can't stand princesses who aspire to the stereotypical middle-class life. The ones who have a very conventional view of dating and relationships. I do not want to date a girl, I would rather romance a woman.
Being a bitch or being unable to control one's temper. I hate people who use projection to deal with their problems or issues.
Women who would expect or try to transfigure me into a "normal" person.

When people bring up stuff like this, it starts making me (half) wonder if I am a T, despite firmly knowing I am Fi-dom.

Maybe it's my high introversion, but in such a situation, I wouldn't think anything about what you did, nor feel the need to talk. I tend to be the one avoiding long chats on the phone with my ESFP bf (is every single night really necessary?). I'm a "quality over quantity" person when it comes to communication...

I'm rather similar, which is why I'm fond of dating NTs. They aren't needy and don't mind it and prefer it when you aren't at them all the time. ENTPs can be especially good when they get their hands on a project. You get to take a break from the relationship without any real damage or dramz.

With dreamers, pure and simple, the imagination remains a vaguely sketched inner affair. It is not embodied in any aesthetic or practical invention. Reverie is the equivalent of weak desires. Dreamers are the aboulics of the creative imagination.

- Completely flat-chested with too wide hips. Seriously, that is hideous. You should really think about getting implants. This is not politically correct to say, but seriously, go see a doctor about it.