Breakups & Divorce Support Group

Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.

If you condisder being called an F*ing B and hung up on civl than I have! But if not then not me. I told my ex the last time hecalled me that I needed to move on and not talk to him if I was going to become a better person. I said we will never get back together, I do not have any feeling for you other than hate, and it would never work. Thas when he got mad and said what he did. the good news I haven't hear from in in over a month!

I was still in love with my stbx until certain information became availible. Then after the separtion she has been keeping my kids from me. I cant say that I hate her, but I am sure that I am not in love with her. after the crap she has pulled, it was not that hard to get over. Are we civil, mostly but there is a great deal of hostility. I will be civil no matter what, for the kids.

We have been married 9 years and together 3 prior to marriage. So far so good. We are still friends, still living in same house(for the next few weeks anyway). We both realized this marriage is not really a marriage, just two friends living together. So, since we have the same feelings about the marriage, we are coming out ok at the end.

Things are far more civil for me now than they were six months ago... of course, I feel like it could change in a heartbeat.

I have done a lot of self-work understanding what my weak spots were, learning how to protect myself against my stbx's attacks and manipulations.

I would throw out there that one of the common reasons we are all here is because we needed or wanted support... so I would expect many of us have had hard time... there are many more divorces and breakups &quot;out there&quot; that end in a peaceful manner where the people involved might not need this kind of support :)

We've been pretty civil because we have to. Still living in the same house and have a child. I'll be moving out at the end of June. We've agreed to put the needs of our child first and decided that how we handle this will have a big impact on our son. So we've tried as much as possible to be friendly. It is hard though sometimes. Very stressful. As Randy said the longer it is drawn out the harder it is to be friendly. It is such an emotional time and while splitting our financial assets was a no-brainer, splitting the contents of the house is turning out to be a little more contentious but we will get through it. If you are both committed to doing so, it can be amicable. Good luck.

I agree with musict. It only becomes civil after you work through the emotions. If both sides can't get over the emotional crap it will never be civil. My stbx and I are mostly civil and I think it will get easier once the final paperwork is processed and there is nothing much left to argue over.

My divorce was civil and we still are friends. We both agreed that we were just friends living in the same house and I was the &quot;domestic goddess&quot; running the household. He is much happier on his own and so am I. I think if it is something mutually agreed upon, it can be civil and friendly.
As for not using lawyers, I agree. They make things more difficult. I had a hard time finding a lawyer to work with me since I was divorcing a lawyer. We finally came to an agreement on everything and just went in front of a judge without lawyers.

A friend sent this to me..As far as I can see, grief will never truly end.It may become softer overtime, more gentleand some days will feel sharp.But grief will last as long as Love does - ForeverIt's simply the way the absence of your loved onemanifests in your heart. A deep longing accompaniedby the deepest Love some days. The heavy fog mayreturn and the next day, it may recede.Once again, it's...

I have my maxed amount of epidural shots of my cervical DDD....(and no one cares about my lumbar DDD)..... I've done physical therapy, muscle relaxers, Amitriptyline, Nortryptiline, desipramine.....narcotics... So I decided to go to a spine specialist and they have me on Gabapentin. Its been two weeks and it did nothing for my lumbar ever... but it did seem to help my cervical and arm/hand pain...

All content posted on this site is the responsibility of the party posting such content.
Participation on this site by a party does not imply endorsement of any other party's content,
products, or services. Content should not be used for medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment.