tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-411022230230783447.post2310401362208028287..comments2015-07-08T09:53:17.428+02:00Comments on acidicice: How do I motivate my man?acidicicehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09233702169345244420noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-411022230230783447.post-6563171886171426732009-06-22T07:47:08.446+02:002009-06-22T07:47:08.446+02:00Angel - you have a much better case than Rudi&#39;...Angel - you have a much better case than Rudi&#39;s parents did. He could have/should have done it!<br /><br />Husbandsanon - Mediocre results are better than what looks like a lack of commitment. I guess. I hope he finds something that makes him happy or that at least pays him well enough to make him forget how unhappy he is and be grateful for what he has (my situation).acidicicehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09233702169345244420noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-411022230230783447.post-50759851304032783342009-06-20T14:35:28.012+02:002009-06-20T14:35:28.012+02:00Heya,
I feel for the guy- I&#39;ve been (briefly) ...Heya,<br />I feel for the guy- I&#39;ve been (briefly) unemployed, and also employed in a crappy job for years. I did finish High School, but with such average results and lack of direction that it was pointless.<br />I know it&#39;s difficult to visualise a perfect job when you are stuck, but it does help- he must have some goals, things that get him excited, things he enjoys. The job climate is crappy in SA, so sometimes it&#39;s about creating a job for yourself, sometimes, it&#39;s just &#39;who you know&#39;. Regardless, I imagine that he is a really good guy, or you wouldn&#39;t speak so well of him, and I think the right thing will come... Men do battle with feeling emasculated when jobless, but I&#39;m sure he needs your support...Husbands Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15521427577588027119noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-411022230230783447.post-68712669592638310502009-06-18T18:43:16.725+02:002009-06-18T18:43:16.725+02:00Sometimes forcing one&#39;s offspring to finish sc...Sometimes forcing one&#39;s offspring to finish school just doesn&#39;t calculate, despite the repurcussions.<br />I do hope he can find a way to get himself going.angelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09423318903817661244noreply@blogger.com