Number 1Do you believe in ghost or evil
spirits?
Would you be willing to spend
a night alone in a remote
house that is supposedly haunted?

Number 2If you were to die this evening with
no opportunity to communicate
with anyone,
what would you most regret not
having told
someone? Why haven't you told
them yet?

Number 3Do you think the world will be
a better or
worse place 100 years from now?

Number 4What would constitute a "perfect"
evening for you?

Number 5Whom do you admire most?
In what way does this person
inspire you?

Number 6If you could wake up tomorrow
having gained any one
ability or quality, what would it be?

Number 7You have the chance to meet
someone with whom you can have
the most satisfying love
imaginable-the stuff of dreams.
Sadly, you know that in six months
the person will die.
Knowing the pain that would
follow, would you still want to
meet the person and fall in love?
What if you knew your lover
would not die, but instead would
betray you?

Number 8While on a trip to another
city, your spouse (or lover)
meets and spends the night with
an exciting stranger.
Given that they will never
meet again, and that you will
not otherwise learn of the incident,
would you want your partner
to tell you about it?
If roles were reversed,
would you reveal what you had done?

Number 9Would you be willing to murder an
innocent person if it would end
hunger in the world?

Number 10What is your most treasured memory?

Number 11If God appeared to you in a series of
vivid and moving dreams and told you
to leave everything behind,
travel alone to the
Red Sea and become a fisherman,
what would you do?
What if he told you to sacrifice
your child?

Number 12You are offered $1,000,000 for the
following act: Before you are ten
pistols-only one of which is loaded.
You must pick up one of the pistols,
point it at your forehead, and
pull the trigger.
If you walk away you do so as a
millionaire. Would you accept the
risk?

Number 13Would you accept twenty years of
extraordinary happiness and
fullfillment if it meant you would
die at the end of the period?

Number 14What was your most enjoyable dream?
your worst nightmare?

Number 15Given the choice of anyone in
the world, whom would you want as
your dinner guest?
as your close friend? as your lover?

Number 16Do you have any specific
long-term goals?
What is one and how do you plan on reaching it?

Number 17For what in your life do you
feel most grateful?

Number 18When did you last sing to yourself?
to someone else?

Number 19
When was your life dramatically changed as the result of some seemingly random external influence?
How much do you feel in control of the course of your life?

Number 20
If a friend were almost always late, would you resent
it or simply allow for it?
Can you be counted on to be on time?

Number 21Would you enjoy spending a
month of solitude in a beautiful
natural setting?
Food and shelter would be
provided but you would not see
another person.

Number 22If you knew that in one year you
would die suddenly,
would you change anything about
the way you are now living?

Number 23Is it easy for you to accept help
when you need it?
Will you ask for help?

Number 24How do you picture your funeral?
Is it important for you to have
people mourn your death?

Number 25Where would you choose to be if
you could place yourself anywhere
on a scale from one to ten,
where one is hardship, struggle,
and
extraordinary accomplishment and
ten is
comfort, peace of mind, and no
accomplishment.
Why? Where are you now?

Number 26An eccentric millionaire offers
to donate a large sum
to a charity if you will step-completely
naked-from a car onto a
busy downtown street, walk four
blocks, and climb back into the car.
Knowing that there would be no
danger of physical abuse, would
you do it?

Number 27At a meal, your friends start
belittling a common acquaintance.
If you felt their criticisms were
unjustified, would you defend the
person?

Number 28Would you be willing to give up
sex for five years,
if you could have
wonderfully, sensual and erotic
dreams any night you wished?

Number 29If you were invited to a party that will be
attended by many
fascinating people you've never met.
Would you want to go if you had to go
by yourself?

Number 30Since adolescence, in what
three-year period do you feel
you experienced the most
personal growth and change?

Number 31If you could take a one-month trip
anywhere in the world and
money were not a consideration,
where would you go and
what would you do?

Number 32How many different sexual partners
have you had in your life?
Would you prefer to have had
more or fewer?

Number 33Have you ever considered suicide?
What is so important to you that
without it life would not be
worth living?

Number 34If your friends and acquaintances were
willing to bluntly
and honestly tell you what they
really thought of you, would you
want them to?

Number 35If this country were to suffer an
unprovoked nuclear
attack and would be totally
obliterated in a matter of minutes,
would you favor unleashing
the U.S. nuclear arsonal upon the attackers?

Number 36Who is the most important person in your life?
What could you do to improve the relationship?
Will you ever do it?

Number 37When you do something ridiculous,
how much
does it bother you to have other
people notice it and laugh at you?

Number 38If you could change anything about the way
you were raised, what would it be?

Number 39Do you believe in God?
If not, do you think you might
still pray if you were in a
life-threatening situation?

Number 40If 100 people your age were chosen at random,
how many do you think you'd find
leading a more satisfying life than yours?