I don't really get that much attention from men, in general, because I don't go looking for it.

In the last year, I've been "hit on" (complimented, flirted at, had sexual comments made to, followed around) by a record 4 black men and 1 white (a friend of mine). Perplexed, I asked said friend and his response was, "They like small white women with nice figures."

Dressing like a nun isn't the solution, I suppose, but I wish there were some subtle nonabrasive sign I put up saying "black men need not apply" Perhaps go goth again?

You got anything for the discerning man? Something for the non-knuckle-dragger? Anything at all for those men looking for someone as a potential future mother of their kids? Even a spark of humanity would do for starters, something to kindle the flames, as it were.

Well if the silly bastard ever DID get out he'd be unemployable with facial tats like that.

I mean I still have the tail end of a dragon still protruding onto my forearm and tats are common enough these days that it's never stopped me from getting work. It's also true that some blue collar occupations have a higher tolerance of tattoos, just not ones that cover your face and or resemble Nazi flags, that there is a huge sign saying "I wanna live off welfare, forever."

Don't flatter yourself. I'm sure most straight (and bisexual) fellas--of all races--take one look at you and instantly comprehend the intense revulsion many gay guys feel towards just the thought of touching a vagina.