Being in the delivery room is nothing but sentimentality...his presence adds no value to the child. He's not birthing or delivering the baby...why does another person have the right to be in the room during your medical prodecure? Right to privacy. He has equal rights once the baby is born.

If I don't feel comfortable with you in the room, you should
leave....Why should I be uncomfortable during the most painful moment of
my life?

These! WTF I'm not understanding why anyone would think it's even an option to have someone in the room aside from medical staff that the mother doesn't want in there .

That thing is ripping through HER vagina while she's screaming, upset, possibly sh*tting on it's head, in terrible pain....and he gets to watch despite her saying no? Umm no. It's cute that he wants to be there and all.. but gtfo if she says no

Do doctors generally let him stay in if she says no? Ok let me go read this thread. *siiiigghhh*

P.S. If his dumb bitch ass decides he doesn't want to be in the child's life and pay child support because I didn't want him in the delivery room..then he was a crazy bitch from the start and I would think he should never be around a child ever in life anyway.

go sit in the waiting room and cuss the mama/your wife out later. It's not that serious to decide not to raise the kid.

this is so
dumb.....things like this shouldn't be made a rule.... it's up to the
couple....no one should judge a woman and call them selfish for not wanting the
man in the delivery room it's none of your damn business.

If a man decides he wont pay child support or be around if he cant be in the delivery room then he wasnt much of a man to begin with. Taking it out on the child because the mom hurt your feelings by banning you is stupid. And who says its just baby mammas banning baby daddies from the room. What happens if a wife decides she doesnt want her husband there. Is it now ok for him to not be there for his child once its born?

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