I am a polly and have two wonderful women in my life, my good girl and my independent woman. I come here to put my thoughts and events on my poly life down in writing some where, and to show the world that polly people have the same issues and concerns that non polly people do. Just in some cases they come in double.

Monday, August 30, 2010

There is a term called drop. It is where after exiting a intense session bad feeling come in and the mind starts becoming negative. Good aftercare significantly reduces drop and no aftercare make drop worse.

The night before we take her home I eat her out once more. I am feeling a bit frisky so i let her calm down right before she climaxes, build her back up, and let her calm down again. after the 5th time i let her go all the way and she climaxes hard. She can not even move because she is so in to the afterglow. We go out for one last cigarette for her and I follow helping her out as walking is not coming easy for her. We talk for a bit and take her back to bed. I get her all set to go with blankets and what not and then head to bed and sleep myself. This was a mistake.

in the past the new woman had not needed any aftercare as was doing well with no dropping. So I figure as it was not a major change as it was still oral there was now after care needed and I just went on my merry way to sleep. I was wrong and wrong badly. I went to sleep and she stay up for awhile not liking the fact I went to sleep and was not there to comfort her and other thoughts that go with drop.

The next Am my good girl and myself are startled to get snapped at by the new woman and we want to find out why. Things were so good and now this happens. We are not going to just go "Oh well" and leave it like a lot of people do. It is important to know what happened. We drive her home and talk to her though the whole drive. How she is doing what she is feeling and what is going on. By the time we get her home the new woman feels much better about herself and what happened. She is willing to keep exploring this side of her and looks forward to seeing us again.

My good girl and I were not looking for a third. We both knew that at some point we would not be alone in our relationship and have kinda talked about others but not really anything along the lines of "We want this now." So this relationship with the new woman (as soon as I find a new pet name that works for written about her I am going to change all the postings) caught us by surprise. It stared simple enough. We saw here posting online and though it would be fun to go out for coffee or something. My good girl and I were going to be doing cell popping over the weekend and as the new woman was not aware of it we figured we would invite her to watch. The weekend plans of a get together fell though but we did end up meeting her anyway. I invited her to come over on My 3 days off to see what we were like and go from there. My good Girl and myself drove out to the suburbs to pick up the new woman and discussed the rules on the way over.

1) no vaginal penetration. other sex acts are okay but I can not penetrate her with my penis.

2) safety, if we do get frisky condoms are required

3) if my good girl freaks out we need to stop and back things up to where she is comfortable again.

We picked up the new woman spent the drive back talking to her and getting to know her. We hit it off very well and by the time we made it to the Apartment we were very friendly with each other. As the entertainment center is in the bed room we ended up in there to watch movies. We started watching Charlie Bartlett (2007) and at some point both my good girl and myself started paying more attention to the new woman. She has spectacular breast and bot my good girl and myself we given her attention though them and she was loving it. it did not take long for me to have her pants off and her vagina in my face. I am very good at preforming oral and like to. My good girl is very sensitive and this was a chance to get my want to provide oral satisfies in ways it has not been for awhile. After a huge organism and being begged to stop I go ahead and stop eating her out. We all crumple in a pile and cuddle and talk. The new woman goes out for a cigarette and my good girl and I talk about her and decide that yes we like her both physically and emotionally and do want to keep playing with her.

Afterwards the new woman comes back we head out to the living room to talk and end up speaking until dawn. She is an interesting and intelligent woman. Sex is good but sex and play you can get anywhere, Brains are hard to come by and it is getting harder and harder to find a good brain. I am lucky to have two women in my life that both have a brain and can use it.

the weekend goes on and things get hot there is playing a few more times and sharing the same bed at night. It was good but the bed is a bit small. A queen size bed may be okay for 2 bigger people to sleep on but add a third and it takes a game of Tetris.

I have always been interested in women. I have dated women and was not really happy with just one. I wanted more. normally I would just flirt with other women and that would be it. My girl friends would get upset over this and it would cause problems. No matter how hard I tried to be a good boyfriend and not be interested in other women I would fail. Over time I realized that I am not a one woman man. I want the stay at home wife who creates a home and is there for the child and there when I get home; I want a career woman who wants to make it in life and have a life of her own. A strong and determined woman. These wants do not fit in to one woman. Asking some one to be both is not realistic and actually imposable. the requirements for a house wife do not lend to having a career and vice versa. I also want a woman who is strong willed and feisty but at the same time submissive and accommodating. Again not something I am going to find in a woman. When I found a woman that me one set of requirements I was wanting the others. I was always told not to settle so I have not. and I have lucked out and found two wonderful woman that make me happy and fulfilled

My good girl. She is the housewife and the caretaker. She is there when I need her to be supportive and always willing to listen to what I have to say. I always feel safe with her and do not have to worry about what I saw or how I say it. She has been with me for a long time just as a friend, then as a confidant, now as a lover. We had a few false starts but now we have started and things are great. She is my good happy slow burn. There is always a fire with her.

My, actually I can use the term "my: as she is not owned, so the other woman in my life is independent and does not need any one in her life, She is ready to take the big scary world on all alone and do what she needs to do. No man is going to make her change her plans. She was there did that and will not do it again. She is a fighter and likes it that way. We were going to meet over coffee and things between the three of us moved quickly. It is a hot bonfire with her and I can come away scarred if things go badly.

This place is for my own private thoughts. To help me organize them and put them down. If you want to read go ahead I am a public person. It is also for the two women in my life to come here and see what I am going though in ways I understand it.

Communication is the key and this is another way they can come to help understand me and whats on my mind and in my heart.