If the mother has a problem with the child's braid's being removed, she'd better thank the powers that be that she does not live in an eye for an eye country where you can get caned, stoned or have her fingers cut of for stealing in 2014.

the childs mom and dad are terrible for this foolishness. but the stylist is just as wretched if not more imo. you basically stalk a child in a feeble attempt to make yourself whole (not) for the debt of the parent. foh. theft is wrong. but you also suck at life miss.

I don't think this is a situation where one is worse than the other. They are all way way way wrong.

That child could be dead in a ditch somewhere or worse sold into sex trafficking all because the parents are negligent.

The stylist...just no. She was wrong too. I get it and I understand hood justice and all that but she was wrong.

I just can't stand people. Grown people acting this way. I just can't.

the stylist is probably worse imo because she has to know this childs mom has some screws loose. if the lil girl was a "part" of this f*ckery then she would have also sent this lady off too...believe that. the stylist should have dealt with the mom...period.

Oh stylist was dead wrong. Dead wrong. Because she should have never left the shop with the girl. At that point the police should have been called and everything could have been worked out. Even if that meant the child was going with the police to cps. That's the parent's fault.

The stylist, as a parent herself and as a human, should have never crossed the line like that.

I just think...if anyone is more wrong, then it's the person whose number one job should be to protect that little girl. And that's her own parents.

I don't think I or the majority of the people in this thread would care
if it was a grown woman who got her hair done, started playing games,
then got dealt with. It's because it was a child brought into an
adult conflict. Beyond that, all those braids couldn't have gone in one
snip. Why did she stand there and let her cut off her braids? Because
she was scared, and just froze? Told to respect her elders no matter
what? Man I get nervous when I go for a trim but a SNEAK hair cut???
Nah. I would hate to be in her shoes. That poor girl is all over social
media looking like whodunit and for what? Those kids at school are
probably going IN.

I have a lot of questions and I do understand
the stylist's frustration but she did not need to involve the child in
her retribution. Nor did she need to broadcast it. It's messy,
unprofessional, and childish. Her hours were already wasted, now she's
ruining her business and messing with a child's self-esteem to prove a
point. I'm not going to pay someone that's that reckless. And there are
PLENTY of people who braid in America, so it's not like people can't go
elsewhere.

I don't think I or the majority of the people in this thread would care
if it was a grown woman who got her hair done, started playing games,
then got dealt with. It's because it was a child brought into an
adult conflict. Beyond that, all those braids couldn't have gone in one
snip. Why did she stand there and let her cut off her braids? Because
she was scared, and just froze? Told to respect her elders no matter
what? Man I get nervous when I go for a trip but a SNEAK hair cut???
Nah. I would hate to be in her shoes. That poor girl is all over social
media looking like whodunit and for what? Those kids at school are
probably going IN.

I have a lot of questions and I do understand
the stylist's frustration but she did not need to involve the child in
her retribution. Nor did she need to broadcast it. It's messy,
unprofessional, and childish. Her hours were already wasted, now she's
ruining her business and messing with a child's self-esteem to prove a
point. I'm not going to pay someone that's that reckless. And there are
PLENTY of people who braid in America, so it's not like people can't go
elsewhere.

The bold is what gets me. This is a child who got in the car with a stranger, told a stranger where her house was, told a stranger which apt was hers, went back out the house with a stranger, and then stood there and let her cut her hair.

This is a child who if she hasn't been abused already will be because her parents clearly don't care about her safety.

I guess I can see your point TC, that's what makes the stylist's actions so horrible. Because she straight took advantage of a child in the worst way possible and it doesn't matter that it wasn't sexual or typical physical abuse. It was still abuse period.

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