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Right in Every Relationship

3 Relationships That Must Be Right

Paul’s ministry in every city was validated partly by his
sterling testimony and carefully nurtured relationships. Particularly in
the city of Ephesus, when Paul gave his final goodbyes to the church
leaders, he was able to part with a clear conscience and strong
relationships (Acts 20:19–34).

Our ministry likewise is strengthened when we are:

1. Right with God

We must never think that we can put our walk with the Lord on “auto
pilot.” No matter how long we have been saved or how mature of a
Christian we are, there is always room to grow.

Too often Christian leaders become skilled in their ministry while
neglecting their walk with the Lord. There is a difference between being
professional and being spiritual. Never allow yourself to believe that
service for Christ can replace a relationship with Christ.

2. Right with Authority

You cannot be right with God and disobedient to your authorities. A
man who knows how to serve under authority is qualified to be a leader
(Luke 7:8–9). When I counsel young people in our church, I direct them
to their parents when possible. As the president of West Coast Baptist
College, I regularly point students to their home pastors and their
parents. God’s authority structures are vital in our lives.

3. Right with the Team

There ought to be in our hearts a Spirit-given love for one another on the team. Philippians 2:2 admonishes, “Fulfil ye my joy, that ye be likeminded, having the same love, being of one accord, of one mind.” Does
this verse describe your relationships with fellow Christians? Your
church is a team, and team players find there is great joy in serving
together.

We should all be diligent in our efforts to strengthen these vital relationships.