My husband and I have been together since 2008 I'm 42 yrs old and he is 33. I had 4 back surgeries in 2012 and I'm not the same person I was before. I now suffer from chronic pain which is hard for my husband to understand. I haven't been able to work, We have grown apart over this last year. Two of his 3 kids live with us ages 14 & 12 and they are very disrespectful, they take after their dad. Stress causes me pain, I have fibromyalgia. I visited my daughter in CA over thanksgiving and I didn't want to come back... What should I do?