Give Her a Handjob to Remember

You found a girl with a great online dating profile, and the chemistry was hot! Now you’re both ready to take off your clothes. She’s so smokin’ that your dick turns into a rod of steel just seeing her name come up on your iPhone.

You can’t wait to feel her sweet warm pussy against your cock, and you know tonight’s the night.

If this is where you’re at, would you even consider keeping it in your pants? Well, you should. Why not surprise her by making tonight all about her?

When was the last time you let a handjob be the main course? I know you’ve got your own hand—I mean for her, not for you.

If you want her to ache for you, to beg for it, to call you in the night and talk dirty, hold off tonight on going all the way. Let your fingers do the fucking! By holding back from the full monty just a little longer, you will have a vixen begging for your body from here on in.

Fingering a woman is usually just a preamble to intercourse. But it’s a sad state of affairs if you’re neglecting this powerful arsenal of eroticism at your fingertips. Bring fingerplay back into your foreplay, and every now and again make it the main event.

There are many great reasons why you want to get reacquainted with your mitts. Fingers are agile, capable of a variety of motions, and come in assorted sizes. And you’ve got ten of them!

Try these winning moves tonight and you’ll be at it again tomorrow.

Tips for Giving a Woman an Awesome Handjob

1. Leave the Panties OnSay what? Oh, yes. Tease me until I lose my mind. I’m not quite sure what is so hot about it, but when you run your fingers softly, slowly, maddeningly over my pussy over my panties, that barrier acts like a whole other layer of nerve endings.

Rub me, massage me, stroke me, and you’ll get really excited as I do—you’ll feel my panties getting super wet and slippery. By the time you use those same sexy exploring fingers to push them aside, I’m so on fire I’m practically screaming.

2. Take Your TimePerhaps this is the whole point of the exercise. To slow things down and put the ultimate focus on her pussy. By limiting the menu—just this once, or just now and again—you rediscover the joys of foreplay.

Some of us have forgotten how exciting it is to fool around for hours, getting worked up out of our minds. The teasing, the torture, the anticipation.

3. Finish What You StartedNo matter how much I beg, do not give in—not tonight. Make me wait for your mouth another day or week. Put my hand on your cock, over your boxers, or press it up against my leg while you’re working me.

But don’t give in. You will witness me arching, gasping, crying, and spreading my legs so wide and you’ll respond by jamming your fingers in deeper. Or you’ll pull back, and just run your fingertips lightly across my clitoris, maybe gently pull my vagina open and tease the hole with your thumb.

But all that said, don’t leave her hanging. Finish the session by finishing her off. Ask her to show you her favorite rhythms. Then follow what she does—copy, and repeat, or do it together with her, your hand and hers.

I am guaranteeing you that it will be the biggest orgasm she’s had in a long while.

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