<blockquote><b>Quoting LolaMcKitten:</b>" I agree - my sons dad ran out on us, he hasn't seen my son since he was 3 months old and guess what? ... [snip!] ... going to be a part of your life whether you like it or not, may as well not deny your child a relationship with their father. "</blockquote>

Yeah my DD's father has never seen her but pays child support every month

I found out I was pregnant at 17. My boyfriend did NOT want a child and I was not going to terminate. I gave him the choice to either stay or go but it was ultimately my decision. He became a MAN and is a wonderful father to our now 3 year old little boy. You chose to sleep with her and helped create this child. Clearly you don't love her if you are being such an ass about this and could walk away that easily. What a POS...

Quoting Clk:" I do wonder why everyone is so mad at a man for not wanting to be a father, most here are supportive in this situation if it was a woman who made the post."

It's not about him not wanting to be a father. To me, him trying to talk her out of it and tell her he will leave if she has the kid- or stay if she aborts- is disgusting. He can walk away- but him trying to force a decision on his chick is horrible.

Quoting i ♥ nora:" Really? A single mother cant have her baby-daddy sign over his rights?"

In most states no it's not that easy. Have to have someone else there to adopt first aka mom has to get married.

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1 child; Portland, Maine20613 posts

18th Nov '12

Quoting i ♥ nora:" It's not about him not wanting to be a father. To me, him trying to talk her out of it and tell her he ... [snip!] ... the kid- or stay if she aborts- is disgusting. He can walk away- but him trying to force a decision on his chick is horrible."

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He wouldn't be getting this kind of flak if he was just asking for advice on what he should do since he wants to abort but the girl doesn't. The way he worded it is what is making everyone think he's a douchebag.

Quoting HopingforaMiracle:" <blockquote><b>Quoting i ♥ nora:</b>" Really? A single mother cant have her baby-daddy ... [snip!] ... baby-daddy sign over his rights?"</blockquote> Nope. They want to make sure the child is financially taken care of"

What is BD is evading child support anyway? There would still only be one income-from the single mother. (I'm not arguing your point at all, I want to know for just-in-case purposes. :) )