Monday, March 14, 2011

Saturday, March 12, 2011

Okay I've got to disclose a few things. There is a situation that requires urgency than I am involved with. Now before I tell you about that I have to get something off of my chest. Anybody who knows me at all knows that I did not grow up in the most ideal home. I was just talking with someone about this situation that requires extreme urgency. As they were going to a movie, and as they just got back from vacation. And this person tells me "very soon I think it will all be okay". What the hell is wrong with these people? I grew up in a abusive situation. I told this person the story about the time I was standing at the kitchen sink and my dad said "Hey Johnny" and I turned around and he had a rifle pointed at my four head. If someone had stepped up to the plate to help resolve that situation, that would not be forever burned in my memory. So what is wrong with people having and getting a sense of urgency? I would've loved it if someone would have stepped up to the plate and removed me or him or had done something so that would not be in my memory. So there are times that people should act with a sense of urgency. Why can these people not figure out the times when they should act with a sense of urgency? It is always so easy for other people to give their opinions or their justifications when there is someone that is so young that don't have a voice for themselves that is being hurt??? Crap!

Don't fall into the trap of believing that you and your partner can't be happy if you can't resolve your serious disagreements. Ninety percent of problems in a relationship are not solvable.

There are things that you and your partner disagree about and will continue to disagree about. Why can't you once and for all resolve these issues? Because in order to do so, one of you would have to sacrifice your values and beliefs.

You can simply agree to disagree and reach "emotional closure" even though you haven't reached closure on the issue.

Tuesday, March 1, 2011

Parenting By ExampleThe most powerful role model in any child's life is the same-sex parent. It's a fact that children learn vicariously by observing the behavior of others and noting the consequences of their actions. They watch what happens to family members when they succeed or fail and those experiences become a reference for how they live. This is known as modeling.

Through your actions, words, behavior and love, you can direct your children to where you want them to go. Show them how to be happy, well-balanced and fulfilled adults. Shed any negative attitudes. Dump self-destructive behavior patterns. Turn up the positive attitude.

PHILOSOPHIES

STOP taking responsibility for things that you never controlled. - Dr. Phil

When you change the way you look at things, the things you look at change. - Dr. Wayne Dyer

Forgiveness is a choice, a choice that you can make to free your self from the emotional prison of anger, hatred, and bitterness. I am not saing that the "choice" is an easy one, only that it is a necessary one. - Dr. Phil

Whether You Think You Can - OR Whether You Think You Can't - Your Right - Mike Metze

As often as the night comes, so does my sadness. As constant as the day arrives, so is my love for you. I wish for you and I wish the best for you, and I understand that dilemma. My life is here where you touched me. If ever you should call, I will be there to be touched again. - Jim Rohn

Happiness Is For As Long As It Last - Terry McMillian

To The World You May Be One Person But To One Person You May Be The World - A

There Is No Reality Only Perception - Dr. Phil

If Something Is Not Worth Getting All Worked Up Over Perhaps It Is Not Worth Doing At All - Jeff Olson

Rudeness Is A Weak Person Pretending To Be Stong - T&C

Cheaper To Keep Her - Kevin Tayor

God is Great, But Sometimes Life Ain't Good - Martina McBride

We Generally Change Ourselver For One Of Two Reason: Inspiration Or Desperation - Jim Rohn

Borrow From The Beauty Of Tomorrow To Enroll Yourself In Activities Today! - Jeff Olson

Always Act With Integrity - Wilde

The Definition Of Commitment Is Doing The Thing You Said You Would Do Long After The Feeling You Said It In Has Left You. - Jeff Olson

It's easy to do, It's easy not to do. - Jeff Olson

How is that working for you? - Dr. Phil

Forgiveness is letting go of the hope that the past can be changed - Oprah Winfrey

The quality of a relationship is a function of the extent to which it is built on a solid underlying friendship and meets the needs of the two people involved - Dr. Phil