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Sunday, January 27, 2013

Do you know that making a better life
for other people is a serious business which pays you an everlasting profit in
your life? You will ask me how but the truth is a hand that gives normally
receives. This might sound shallow to you but making the world a better place
for all to live is the purpose you were born for, that is why you normally feel
good and proud when you help people on anything, you normally feel safe in
front of people you have helped and also you get a lot of rewards when you do something
good for people or anything to the environment where people and other creatures
live.

Try to reflect on the Nobel prizes,
what it takes for people to get it, think of all who won that award, do you
know what Wangari Maathai did in her big project of green belt in Kenya? She planted
thousands of trees to serve the environment and we shall never forget her. Do you
know what Profesor Muhammad Yunus did with Grameen Bank in Bangladesh? His idea
of microfinance spread almost all over the world and most of the developing
countries applies and poor people get capital to start their small investments
to raise their daily bread income.

Being joyous because you have done
something good for others is your ultimate success you need, being loved by
other people is what you are struggling for every day, creating good impression
to people is what you fight for almost every day but perhaps you are using a
difficult way, serving other people in the world will give all these success at
once you better choose to become a social entrepreneur.

What is this social entrepreneurship?

Still there isn’t any agreed
definition of this new concept in the world however we almost share the
understanding that is a way of doing business with a directly social mission
from which its profit is not directed to anyone’s pocket. It is doing business
with social focus and adding value to the community. This is like screwing
business as usual like how Richard Branson of virgin Unite put it. Most of the
business as usual seems not to care the environment and people’s health and
life in general then social entrepreneurs are there to cover that gap.

Social entrepreneurs are people with
passion to the society, they always think about other people’s life, they are
almost selfless that’s why they devote their time and resources to change the
world for others to enjoy. When the government never think of supplying
electricity to the interior villages, social entrepreneurs will come up with a
solution and supply a cheap electricity for all people to access, when the
industries cause deforestation in Kenya Wangari Maathai as a social entrepreneur
had to think a way to plant many trees to rescue the environment under her big
project of Greenbelt.

In the free market economy

We definitely need social
entrepreneurs to rescue the world because in this kind of economy there is big feature
of selfish spirit where everyone minds his/her life and not of others. A business
man normally think of the profit he/ she is going to make out of his/her
business regardless all the destruction made up by such business to people and environment.
Most of today’s government leaders mind their personal enrichments instead of
taking care of their voters and the environment they live. All these gaps are
covered by social entrepreneurs.

You cannot separate free market
economy or capitalism and social entrepreneurship that is why it wasn’t there
in most dictatorial governments or states in 20th century. It was
completely difficult to find it in the Eastern Europe, Russia and some of the
African countries like Tanzania during the reign of socialism by that time. The
fall of this ideology in the world and the dominance of capitalism and free
market led to the rise of this concept of social entrepreneurship, even Bill
Dryton the founder of Ashoka struggled a lot by the time he was imparting the
idea of social entrepreneurship in India and Brazil where the dictatorial government
felt so late.

It’s time for you to become a successful social entrepreneur

A social entrepreneur normally think
big, he/she thinks to serve the community at large scale and sometimes a social
entrepreneur thinks to serve the whole world because it is becoming connected
more technologically and economically hence a single mistake done in Chine’s
industry to pollute the environment affects the whole world up to South Africa
and Latin America. Therefore a social entrepreneur like Bill Dryton with his
Ashoka intends to serve the whole world by supporting social entrepreneurs who
has brilliant ideas to serve the community anywhere in the world. Muhammad Yunus
from Bangladesh found a microfinance solution with his Grameen bank, an idea
which is spread almost all over the world up to Tanzania. This is an example of
how social entrepreneurs think big.

Look and think around your social
setup, there is a lot of social problems which needs to be solved simply
because the government and other stakeholders are not responsible. Look at the
education system, see the health problems, a lot of vulnerable groups of
people, look at that environmental degradation because of industries and other carelessness
of people around; to a social entrepreneur all these are opportunities to
undertake a business solution, you need to find a solution to those problems.

You might directly and quickly think
of starting an NGO so as you can ask for funds and give charity to vulnerable
groups and think you are doing social entrepreneurship; that is not a social
entrepreneurship I am talking about, think of this social enterprise in
Tanzania by its name Wonder Workshop. The idea is to support disabled people to
stop begging along the roads in Dar es Salaam city instead working to make
their own income and support their families.

A social entrepreneur gathered some
of these people and started a workshop where they create a lot of ornaments
using recycled materials and an organization find a market to sell them, the money
they get are offered to them as a salaries in a monthly basis. Can you
recognize how this social entrepreneur has solved a problem in a sustainable
way? He first of all gave employment to disabled who were previously beggars
and they are now risen up their esteem to feel like other normal people but
secondly he is cleaning the city because many dirty materials are going to be
dumped to the workshop for reuse.

What makes one a social entrepreneur

I found that most of the emerging
social entrepreneurs became so because of their backgrounds. If you listen to
Wangari Maathai is because she was born in a village where they depended much on
the trees to get natural water, natural air and trees to build their houses etc.
and when she found this nature is distracted by industrial developments, it
pained her, she was not ready to continue witnessing that destruction, she had
to start a Greenbelt movement to plant trees.

Professor Muhammad Yunus was coming
originally in Bangladesh around the village he supported women with his 27$ as
loans with trust to start their small business. It is due to the fact that he
knew the situation since before and may be it was his dream to find a way to
reduce poverty to women and the community in general.

There are other many social
entrepreneurs who start becoming so due to the inspiration they get from other
social entrepreneurs like Wangari Maathai and Muhammad Yunus however others are
becoming sorry with big social problems which are occurring in the community
and they decide to find a way to solve them.

Not only these factors but others
decide to be social entrepreneurs by simply envisioning and seeing the end in
their mind hence create some new innovative initiatives in the community or the
world at large which helps to make it a better place for all of us to live.

It is joyous and great feeling to do
something big and valuable in your community or world before you die and that
is the only success you need as you are alive. We remember, respect and honor
all who did something good for others not those who killed others for their
personal gain. We protect and defend only those who cared for others and are
the one who live peacefully in the world. Decide to become a social
entrepreneur today by adding value to your community and that will be your
ultimate success you want before you pass away.

Tuesday, January 15, 2013

LIVING HAPPY LIFE IN YOUR TOUGH TIMES

As human beings we were created to be
happy, our nature is joy, did you know that before? This means that being sad
or losing your happiness is going against your creation, is like going against
your nature and the way you are. To prove this, you will agree with me that
life has been Waw! When you felt happy and it made you feel dying or leaving
the world as you became sad, this is due to the fact that you were created to
be happy, and being happy in your life is the ultimate success you need. Will
you count yourself successful if you have all the money in the world but you
are not happy? Having all you want in your life but not happy? No! The truth is
a happy person without money or wealth is successful than a sad person will all
the money because being happy is how we were created to be as human beings.

A source of your guilt

Every manmade things you see in the
world were made out of nothing through production. If you want something you
normally start by imagining it in your mind and then do something to realize
it. This is how we were created as human beings, we normally visualize what we
want and set some strategies on the way to acquire it. Whenever you stop
finding what you planned to get is when your guilt start growing in you, this
means that your GUILT is a product of not implementing what you have planned in
your mind, not producing, not being responsible and not working on your dreams
and on the way round this is a fountain of losing your happiness which is your
ultimate success.

Keep on producing everyday

As long as you normally feel happy as
you realize something out of your work then it is my advice to keep on
producing something concrete everyday so that you can be happy every day.

This is our big setback to happiness

We tend not to value small things we
realize out of our work every day, we think we need to make big profit or
produce much to the level of our big dreams so as we can be happy, this is very
wrong, remember a big profit you are dreaming about is built up by small
profits you generate every day and after sometimes they become as big as you
dream. And as long as success is not an overnight process then waiting an
unknown length of period to become happy is like hurting yourself, we need to understand
that our journey to our dreams is life by itself and we need to be happy as we
live, we need to be happy in the process of realizing our dreams, don’t wait
until you acquire it as whole because you still do know when will be the end. Learn
to enjoy within a process of achieving your goals and dreams.

Every day congratulate yourself for what you have successfully done.

Remember you are now building a big
house, succeeding to lay down two breaks in a day it mean something great,
still you have built your house to a big level, laying another two breaks
tomorrow then four breaks will be already made and that is great progress, you definitely
need to be very happy for a great job you have done don’t wait until the house
is finished, remember your happiness today motivates you to keep on producing
in the next days. If you won’t value a small work you have done today then you
will never be inspired to continue working tomorrow. Regardless a lot of
toughness in producing and realizing your dreams you need to enjoy and become
happy on how you have managed to overcome a small part of such challenges, that
is the only success you need in your life. Thank God for enabling you do
something to build your house however it looks small but it is big in the sense
that it has reduced a work which could be if nothing was done.

Challenges approves your competence

There is no any smooth way to
achieving your goal and dream, there must be some challenges which is the
reality of your dream before it is cultivated. You can visualize a house or
anything you want in your life but remember it is not there in a real world so
already it is a challenge, for you to realize it you need to overcome this
challenge which is materializing a house. Escaping the toughness to build this
house it means it will never be realized therefore you need to start working through
all the setbacks and toughness knowing that you are in its right way and there
is no way you can escape that hardship however the end result of all those
toughness will be to realize a house in a real world. If this is how things are
then there is no need not to enjoy the process of materializing your dream
because that is the only way you have to pass through. Remember a small
activity you have done today is so valuable in realizing your dream, thank God
for that and be happy and ready to continue for the next step tomorrow.

But if…

You will stop producing to the
maximum then you will never be happy in your life and happiness is your
ultimate success because even those who think success is different things like
money, cars etc. At least at the end of
the day we all agree that those things give us happiness which is our ultimate
goal.

Tuesday, January 8, 2013

POWERFUL is you when you discover and
know WHO YOU ARE. Living without knowing your SELF or in another language; not
knowing who you are beyond what you see from your outer part i.e. your body,
your normal everyday thinking and feeling is like living in darkness. This
means that whenever you will understand WHO YOU ARE, i.e. Beyond what you know about yourself now, is
when you will start living in LIGHT and that is the TRUTH about you, it will set
you free and you will independently live YOU, not programs of other people in
your life.

You are your programs

When a child is born she/he is not
aware of anything in the world, his/her ego is none of the world’s information
in mind to start controlling her/him to live according to those information,
that is why when she/he wants to start standing up and walking never give up
until he/she makes it. This is due to the fact that there is no any negative
voice in this child which could be telling him/her that, “stop trying to
standup because you will probably fall down and get injured”, what a baby know
by the time being is just to stand up and start walking.

When a baby grows up and start sensing is when she/he start heading to a
darkness.

He/she start doing things or behaving
according to what parents, siblings and other people around teach him/her, for
instance they may teach him/ her to fear dogs or snakes that they are bad animals
and automatically this child will start fearing them however she/he sees other
people live friendly with these animals at their homes but simply because this
child is programed that way then she/ he will be living her/his parents
programs in her/his entire life.

Your destructive ego is growing every day.

As every day you are fed with a lot
of different information, those information nourishes your ego (inflated
opinion of yourself) which in turn start controlling your life in general, the
grown ego in you is what makes you feel guilt when you behave not according to
it. For instance if your parents or the society you are coming from taught you
that it is not acceptable to do sex before marriage then when you do that your
ego will speak to you that you have sinned (gone against) and that will be a
source of your guilt feeling which will kill your soul and deteriorate your
body.

Living in your programs undermines your success,

Living according to the programs of
your fore fathers, parents, teachers, religious leaders and so forth is totally
not living YOU. What these people do in your life is just planting their values
which in turn you are forced to believe them and start living accordingly. I do
not mean you should stop listening to your parents directions, I know that they
have good morals to share with you so that they can help to nicely shape your
life because they have experience, but what I am doing is to make you aware
that most of the time you are not relaxed and not enjoying what you do or live
by, because it was not you who decided to live the way you live or join a
school you are now, undertaking a carrier you are now etc. most of the time you
feel guilt when you remember that what you do doesn’t satisfy you because you
feel like it is not coming from within you, and when you think of going to your
own way, your EGO forces you to remain there because by leaving you will be
violating the social values.

Imagine…

At school you were taught that
failing in examinations and any undertakings is life failure, stupidity, poor
IQ, poor mindset etc., and to emphasize on this you were beaten severely
immediately as you failed, automatically you will never accept taking risk
which will make you fail. This means that it will be difficult for you to do
new things which is more risk but ends up with great success in your life, fear
will be your life controller, you will not be ready to start new ventures like
business simply because you are not ready to fail. Do you see this program of
your teacher in your life? This is darkness. The light is that each success is
found in failure and unless there is no failure then you can’t know what to do
to improve the situation. Knowing this truth will make you comfortable to
undertake anything with risk as long as you envision and know its successful
end.

Discovering your personal values

Every human being is living according
to what he/she knows and within what you know there are the values which are
100% correlating with your personality which makes you unique. And this
personality of yours is what contradicts with ego as it forces you do according
to its programs. Therefore there are your strong personal values which are
normally competing with other planted social values which ego is their driver
in you. Discovering and living your personal values is like walking from
darkness to light and those personal values is what will mean YOU or they are
going to tell WHO YOU ARE.

Do this to discover WHO YOU ARE…

Pick and write on a piece of paper
all people who are your role models or people you like most and feel like you
could be like them. They might be dead or some alive, others might be
characters in novels or books you have red or movies you watched, for instance
one of my role mode is MOSES from the bible.

After you have listed them all, start
writing in front of each one the good adjectives you like from them for
instance it might be intelligence or wise etc. don’t write wisdom instead write
wise which is an adjective depicts directly the goodness of such habit of your
role model. You can list more than one habit/ adjective to a single role model.

After you finish listing all of them,
have a look to what you have written, you will discover that those are what
makes you like those role models, and the truth is that you like those
behaviors because they truly collide with your personal values that means all
what you have written are your personal values and those mean you, that is TRUE
YOU. Another person probably couldn’t see the same things you have detected
from these role models, they could see different things according their
personalities, likely to you, have detected all those because that is you.

Therefore you most of the time feel
guilt because you normally violate the above personal values of you, let say
you have discovered a FAITHFUL habit from your role model that means you are
naturally faithful then when you become unfaithful because of some social
circumstances you will definitely feel guilt at the end of the day. You are not
living YOU.

After discovering who you are…

Now take another paper and just write
OTHER values which you think you have, apart from what you have discovered from
your role models. They might be sounding good for instance efficiency,
effectiveness etc., just write them all, what you are going to discover after
listing all of them is that these are the most embarrassing values which makes
you not relaxing most of the time. You find yourself not relating to them when
you try to undertake, you do not feel comfortable with them. just know that it
is not a problem but the fact is by forcing to be efficient while it is not
your personal core value is like denying yourself, the truth is just by well
following your core personal values efficiency will automatically reveal out
itself in your life.

Therefore…

Living in light is living your core
personal values and that is a true you and by doing so you will be escaping
living programs of others in your life and this is the only fountain of your
successful life. A successful life is when you become happy of your living
because you do positives that makes you real happy and joyful, so you will
never be happy by living not according to you but according to other people.

You will look stupid at the beginning

The fact is when you start living
your own core values, your own positive decisions in life other people and the
society will define you as a stupid person because you do not seem normal but
the truth is; successful people are normally stupid at the beginning, what they
do is not giving up on their decision until they succeed and other people
understand what they do hence follow them. And this is the LIGHT I am talking
about.

It is possible I wish you the best as
you are starting to walk from darkness to light today.

Thanks to Vincent M. Roazzi of the spirituality of success for teaching
me to teach you today.