I would like to know what to train my pet in for it to get the power charming gaze thank you for your help

Training in a specific stat wont boost your chance of having a specific talent. My suggestion is to fully train one pet (to test if it has it, I recommend the walktopus pet at gamestop) and then if it doesn't you should try breeding with others who do have it on one of their pets.

I would like to know what to train my pet in for it to get the power charming gaze thank you for your help

It's like Rachel said. Your pet has to have that talent in their gene pool to begin with. Then you can only hope that it manifests. Not all pets will have this particular Talent. In fact, there are only a rare few first generation pets that do.

I know for a fact that my $20 Target prepaid gift card pet, the Emerald Budgie, did receive this in their second slot under Second Chance (first slot innate talent).

Your best bet if you don't wish to purchase game cards is to post on P101 Central in their Pet Morphing Meet Ups section and see if someone has one to morph with you :)