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Humiliated for bedwetting

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Humiliated for bedwetting

Anyone else suffer being shamed in front of people with nappies for wetting the bed my mother was under the impression that if I was embarrassed enough I would not wet the bed and in the seventies that meant terry nappies and plastic pants

I took a bath and when I returned to bed, my friend's mother nappied me and because my

clothes were wet, she dressed me in a pair of her daughters girly pyjamas

17 hours ago

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jhenson16

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In my fathers side of the family bedwetting is genetic. All of my cousins also wet the bed and this didn't change until we hit puberty.

While there was never any shaming it was a major point of conversation among the women. Who was still wetting who wasn't and who had diapers of what size to share.

2015.02.09 06:36

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Stevewet

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Members of my family would discuss my bedwetting openly when I was in the room as if I wern't there "Is he still wetting his bed" as if I couldn't hear. Also my mother used to air my oft wetted matteras on the lawn for all to see. It was no secret I wet the bed growing up and eventually I got where it just didn't bother me. During my teens I wet deliberately out of lazines and because it was expected of me to wet my bed.

My mother would often say in front of everyone as I went to bed. Don't forget to put a nappy on.

2014.09.04 04:52

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philba157

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When my grandad on my mother’s side died I was sent to stay with my grandmother for the weekend for a year or so, I was around 10 or so at the time. Due to my constant bedwetting my parents kept me in diapers (nappies in UK) and plastic pants at night time. Whilst I was at grandmothers she also put me in diapers and plastic pants she even put them on me in front of my aunts, uncles and cousins who were visiting her at the time. A few times she made me wear them shopping if we were to be out most of the day. I complained to my mother about the day time wearing but told me that grandma was in charge while I was there.

2012.07.14 18:54

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Luvs It

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To Bedwettersteve: That's very sad that day, and event was used to humiliate you for something you had no control to stop. Also some good parents would have this train of thought, when it came to dealing with a bedwetter. Maybe Santa should have been put on that naughty list himself, that Christmas?

To That Guy: I always felt bad when I overheard talk (by parents) of my own bedwetting too. Hated that feeling of embarrassment.

And wow! They weren't taking chances with you wetting your bed, were they? Disposable, cloth and plastic pants!

2012.06.27 10:03

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that guy

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I was a bed wetter up till about 4th grade. I recall the fact that i had to wear diapers to bed excluded me from going to sleep overs. It was never used to embarrass me, but my parents would talk about my issue with others. It's just the way it way it was. I remeber my dad would always diaper me at nigbt. 1 disposable, then one cloth, and then a pair of plastic pants.

2012.06.26 17:11

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Bedwettersteve I have heard similar stories just like the one you have shared with us today. I feel your pain and hope your discovery of the enjoyment you receive from your diapers now far out weighs your humiliation from the past. Parents in the past functioned under the thoughts bed wetting was the fault of the child and took some very drastic measures. We can only hope that the modern parents know better and support their child's night time troubles in a more informed manner. Thank You for your posting.

2012.06.23 16:09

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bedwettersteve

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I too was humilated for wetting my bed. I was 6yo it was xmas.I open a present from santa in the box was diapers rubber pant a bib and baby bottle.I open this in front of all my siblings and cousins.I remember everybody looking and laughing at and asking why i got diapers i had to tell them why.I SAID BECAUSE I WET MY BED.Before going to bed my my mom diapered me on the couch in front of everybody with everybody laughing at me. IT did nothing to stop from wetting my bed.Soon i liked wearing diapers and became a diaper lover that i still am today at 50 yo

2012.06.23 14:57

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Bobbyab

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Yes I remember the humiliation of wetting the bed at boarding school and finding matron had pulled back the covers (supposedly to air the bed) but letting everyone else know what you'd done. Then putting a red rubber sheet on the bed and once marked down as a bed wetter, regularly checking each morning. Although I could have got a clean change of pyjamas, I was so embarassed to go and ask the matron for them that I didnt, but then of course everybody could smell the urine and wasted no time letting you know. Remember later on when I was a prefect in charge of a dormitory, being tasked by the matron myself to make checks on the bed of one of the bed wetting boys in my dorm. Felt sorry for him. Would never have left his covers pulled back.

Off topic, Just noticed today in the supermarket the pictures on the largest size of GoodNites. Both the boy's and the girl's packaging feature models who look older than 15, in fact the girl looks like a woman! But I bet they dont fit adults unless lucky enough to be very slim.

2012.05.06 16:38

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nappywetter

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When I first went away to boarding school aged 8 in 1957I used to wet most nights. The Matron used to come in each morning, pull the bedclothes back, call me a dirty little baby and send me off for a cold bath. That lasted till I was 13 and went to my next school where the house-master's wife had young children. She suggested I should go back to nappies and offered to put them in the washing machine with her children's so my wetting could be kept secret from the other boys. I shall always remember her with kindness and gratitude but the first Matron I remember only with loathing as the only person I have ever really hated.

2012.05.06 13:43

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technologic

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My parents didnt make it a point to humiliate me but part of my responsibilities was to throw out my own diapers in the morning so when we were at a relatives that would sometimes mean walking into the kitchen with my used diaper and throwing it out with people being able to see.

2012.05.04 15:59

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Luvs It

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Being a bed wetter as a young kid, the subject always strikes a note with me.

I wasn't shamed, or punished in any way when it happened, except for maybe a bit of sibling teasing. The whole experience was nasty enough, without the people you trust and love betraying that love and trust.

Some people might not be so evil in what they do however. Sometimes parents lack the skills and tools to deal with lots of situations like a bed wetting child. They do the best they know how, and in some cases what they experienced in their own young lives. They may love there kids, but don't know a good way to deal with the situation.

And on the other hand we have the A holes who do get pleasure from treating a child badly.

When I was young I learned, we will all have a day we must atone for our sins we have committed in life. I like to believe this will be so. Just think if it is so!

I'm lucky, my bed wetting didn't last long for me. I always wished, I would have had diapers to wear back then. Would have been a much better time.

If my children turn out to wet the bed, my aim is to make sure they are secure, and have as little anxiety as possible. If they need a diaper to get through that, then can't see why not.

2012.03.15 19:56

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djf3

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I used to wet the bed as a kid and it sucked. My parents never beat me or punished me for it but they never really did much about it except help me change my sheets. Looking back on it now I wish they would have put me back in diapers at night but I was stubborn and I probably wouldn't have worn them.

2012.03.14 14:54

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Jimmy I have been a Lawyer down in California for many years. You would be shocked as to how many people terrorize their children over bed wetting and day time accidents. Sitting in Court I hear the defendants case summary and time and time again it is stated; That is the way my parents took care of it when I was a child. Child Services in the State of California don't hesitate when their is any possible danger to a child weather it is their parents or not. It all goes back to that old saying two wrongs don't make a right. Love your children and work with them with their little problems. After all what is so terrible about a little wet bed or pair of pants? Diapers can be fun for the fetish crowd but they are just cruelty to the bed wetter or person that has accidents. All children deserve to grow up in a loving and protected environment and not be abused for something out of their control

Judy

2012.03.11 11:09

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LittleJimmy

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NO repeat NO child should ever punished for wetting themselves, at night some kids even don't master daytime control for many years

2012.03.11 10:56

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Thank you ELF for the story about Leonard. 5 Stars for your mom I hope she humiliated Leonard's mom to pieces. But probably not evil people like her do not care what other people have to say. They are so dumb there is no changing them. My heart goes out to Leonard.

Many years later at the recommendations of a Child Psychiatrist, Mom was to put me back in diapers full time. I had a very prevalent diaper fetish which I was very open about. Mom knew why I had it but wanted to help me get over it / cure me of it. She did just that, diaper pale in the bathroom and stacks of diapers on my dresser in my room. My sisters and immediate family took full control of my diaper care. It was summer time and we were out at the lake and even our Housekeeper Marsha would check and change my diapers as if I was a baby. It used to bother me at the time to have 4 or 5 pairs of my plastic pants and a dozen diapers out on the clothes line out back at the lake. No dryer back then other than the clothes line.

Sorry about the long winded answer here Irf_45505, my Mom used to cry late at night for what she had to try and do for me. She would come in and talk with me late at night to see if I was OK and she would have tears on her face. She accepted what had cause my diaper fetish as her responsibility and felt very badly about it. After the two months at the lake that summer I was allowed back into my proper age group underwear and diapers where only for nighttime and private.

2012.03.09 09:01

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patrick 1990

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I don't think I ever wet the bed. well there was that one time I had way to much to drink. But it was just embarrassing for me.

2012.03.09 01:19

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lrf 45505

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Thank you ELF for the story about Leonard. 5 Stars for your mom I hope she humiliated Leonards mom to pieces. But probably not evil people like her do not care what other people have to say. They are so dumb there is no changing them. My heart goes out to Leonard.

2012.03.08 22:12

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xtekvet

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I was a bed wetter until the age of 11. My mother would diaper me in thick cloth diapers and plastic pants every night before bed. She only punished me once in all that time. Once after I turned 11 and my bed wetting decreased in frequency I was out playing and wet my pants in the day time. She got mad and put me in diapers and plastic pants for the rest of the day. It was summer time and I was not allowed to put on any pants or shirt to hid my shame. She was mad she thought I was now going to be wetting during the day also. She told me to stay in the living room and play with my toys while she did the laundry. All of a sudden our neighbor Kate came in the front door, she started to laugh and said well baby where is your mommy she should not have left you alone. I called out to my mom who came up stairs and they both went into the kitchen to have coffee. I heard a lot of laughing, I am sure it was about me.I wet my diapers a little while later and went into the kitchen to ask my mom to change me. She said she had to change the laundry and asked Kate to do it. She said she would love to and took me to my room where she changed me into dry diapers and new plastic pants. It was my most embarrassing moments in my life.

2011.12.04 22:32

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Tdlrfootedpjs

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You know, when I was younger my parents would sometimes diaper me and put me in my pj's after dinner if I wasn't going out to play.there were many times I was taken to the stores in diapers and pj's or was changed in the parking lot.I guess I should have been embarrassed, but I was to naive to be when I was younger. I thought all kids wore diapers to bed like I did until like 10 I believed this.

2011.12.04 21:30

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thumper

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When i was in my 20's(many.many years ago) my parents had a campsite at Isle LaMotte in Vermont. One Sunday we went to a large shopping mall and as we got out of the car I saw this little kid of about five with both his mom and dad and all he was wearing was very thick and bulky cloth diapers,I think Pampers and Hushaby's were just coming out,so it may have been in the early 70's, and yellow plastic panties. It didn't look like either he or his parents were bothered by them in the least. In fact as I watched them going into the mall I felt really jealous of him and wished that I was him and getting all kinds of looks from the other shoppers,especially the women,other moms and teenage girls. Maybe for some wearing only diapers and plastic pants is not a punishment but a badge of honor.

2011.11.24 23:27

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Why do Moms do that to their kids? They probably had it done to them when they were growing up. I had a friend growing up, his name was leonard and he was a bed wetter. His mom came over to our place and bought a bunch of diapers and plastic pants. This was not the usual bed wetter's package that most parents bought. About a week later we were at the local Safeway Store and there was Leonard walking beside his mother's shopping cart with a t shirt and diapers on. My Mom almost cried she was so upset for poor Leonard. She then got angry and ripped into Leonard's Mom for being so cruel to her son. Leonard was about 8 at the time.

I know as diaper fetishists we dream of being forced to wear diapers and all of the funny little scenarios we write about. But put yourself in the place of a younger person being victimized by the one person that means the whole world to them, Mom.

2011.11.24 19:19

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invvind

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Never happened to me, but I've seem it many times. My friends used plastic pants on her 5 year old as a motovation tool every night. I remember the plastic pants hanging to dry in full display in his bedroom doorknob. God he hated that. Bed time mom would find a way to talk about his plastic pants in front of him. Dressed for bed it was time for thick training pants and mom s l o w l y putting him in Gerber toddler plastic pants.

2011.11.24 13:31

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I bet you can't say that ten times fast in a row! ;D

2011.11.20 10:01

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thumper

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I would hope there would be lots of teasing baby talk about wetting ,if it were me,my bed like a big sissy baby and since I pee my bad like baby then I have to be pinned into thick cloth diapers like a baby. After having Desitin diaper rash cream roughly smeared all over my diaper area and baby powder sprinkled on top and having your mom, with a great big smile tell me that babies have to wear plastic baby pants over the diapers to keep the bed dry and Baby's diapers soaking wet so that he can feel what it's like to be a real sissy baby and asks my mom what color of plastic baby pants does she prefer as your mom brings out the different colors, mainly white, yellow and pink as well as baby print ones and shakes and dangles them in front of my mom and my face as to humiliate me even more. My mom then chooses the plain yellow ones and tells me those are the ones my little sissy baby needs to wear tonight but I would love to buy three of each of the white, yellow and pink ones and three pairs of your yellow and pink baby prints too. They look so cuuuute and I would love to show him off to all my lady friends and to the Mommy and baby class we go twice a week Then your mom would lift my right ankle and slip on one leg of the yellow plastic pants and then the left leg and ever so slowly wiggle the plastic panties up to my knees and then lifting my thick bulky diapered bum off the changing mat inch one side of the plastic panties then other side till the waist band is half way over the diaper then ,with your mom's help fuss to get the plastic panties over the diaper and making sure that all the diapers is tucked inside the legs and waist of the plastic panties while saying to me that I look like such a sissy pissy baby and gives my plastic pantied diapered bottom several good solid pats. I would love fo my mom to take her sweet time trying to get my plastic pants over my diapers in front of all her girlfriends and all the Mommies in her Mommy and Baby classes as she changes my wet diapers.

2011.11.20 09:53

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Responding to Peter here has brought back a few memories of Mom and her basement Sewing Room. The numbers of times and the numbers of women with children that came to her for incontinence protection or bed wetting protection products. Some people would be absolutely mortified of purchasing and or even trying the product on for the sake of proper fit. But there where a few Mom would say that loved the whole ordeal of being counselled and then fitted into some form of diapers and plastic pants. Mostly the teenage boys Mom would always say, but there where a few girls.

Put your mind in their space. Your Mother has just washed, scrubbed, and dressed you up until you shine. Now your in some very nice Lady's basement sewing room and your Mother is standing back and watching. This very nice Lady removes your pants and underwear and then diapers you. By the way, your Mother finds this all very interesting as she stares at you while your being diapered for the first time in years. Just to add insult to your already incredible humiliation and violation of privacy, the nice Lady asks your Mom who is going to be doing the diapering? Your Mom snaps out of her stare to answer. Oh, I will at first. But it is only a diaper to change isn't it? I am sure we can let anyone who wants to change their diapers change them. I do know their Grandma and Aunty's will be doing the diaper duties for them when they are around. They always make a fuss and love a person who requires diapers still.

Even after all of that terrible, torturous, humiliating experience, there where still some who you could tell liked it. We are a very kinky Species. This was a conversation of topic many times when Mom would diaper me for bed.

2011.11.20 08:44

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That is a very touchy subject for myself and my family. Mom had her business making hospital linen products and also diapers and related products for the care of the sick or in firmed. Many times Mothers would come to our house to buy one of Mom's bed wetter packages. The packages consisted of three cloth diapers, two pairs of plastic pants and a card of diaper pins. Mom would ask a lot of questions of the Mothers buying the diapers for their bed wetting kids. She would try to make sure they were to be used in the confines of their kid's bedrooms. We had heard of too many stories of Moms humiliating the hell out of their kids for bed wetting. Some of the Moms thought it was the child's fault or they were doing it on purpose. Mom always wondered if there should not be a pre qualifier for women to have and raise children.

Diaper humiliation is one of my many kinks and I love it. It is not for the innocent kids or even for that matter the older people that have a bed wetting or incontinence problems. I have been old enough to make my selections as to my kinks, no one should have a thing like diaper humiliation forced on them for any reason without making that choice themselves.

My two cents

Elf

2011.11.19 14:57

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peterwetshisbed

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Anyone else suffer being shamed in front of people with nappies for wetting the bed my mother was under the impression that if I was embarrassed enough I would not wet the bed and in the seventies that meant terry nappies and plastic pants