Weird coincidence. This past week was the first time that I let my girlfriend stick her strap-on into my A-hole. Resistance and pain at first, but wow, once you learn to relax, it's quite overwhelming. Yes, I too struggled with the dilemma: have I sacrificed my manhood or proven it by overcoming my prejudice and physical fear. Conclusion: great sex is all about reciprocity, what's good for the goose is good for the gander. (And now at least I'm a little less fearful of doing prison time, haha)