There is no easy answer to this question. The system is built to break the family down. The question becomes as an individual are you going to put in the work to fix that particular situation which can also have so many variables

I dont think it's unnatural for Black men to be monogamous. I think one issue may be that we often enter relationships with no objective or end goal to work towards and focus on together . Whereas, other cultures typically view marriage as a business contract. When they marry - the man and woman already know their role in the relationship, and they are focused together to achieve their goals..leaving less time for the men to cheat.

Lack of understanding AND maturity brings a level of cheating to existence chasing a fantasy world. Believe me you will be a slave to your choice. So , Choose the best outcome for yourselves. YOU GET WHAT YOU PUT OUT DON'T THINK YOU GET AWAY FROM HURTING PEOPLE FOR SIMPLE PLEASURES CHOOSE WISELY FAMILY.

There’s no excuse for a woman taking a man’s possessions if she didn’t pay half for it. Paperwork from the government doesn’t mean half. Women claim to be so wholesome but when it comes down to it, all it takes if for her not to feel the way she wants to feel and ruin your life. That says a lot about who she is. This is part of the reason marriages are down. They’ll claim to marry for love, but will divorce you and want your money so much so to where you can’t live. That’s cold hearted to the core.

I want..I strive..to be healthy spiritually, mentally, emotinally, physically, and such. I eat and drink clean, I rep my African blooded culture on multi levels. I've been in four monogamous relationships and each one only lasted a year. My choice in men often have bore un-desired results and un-healthy relationships. Personally, while in each of my relationships, I wound up being attracted to other men at the same time! It confused me back then because I just wanted the freedom to live and love how it works best for me! Ironically I'm neither monogamous or polyamorus these days..I'm not choosing to be either one right now.I choose to be single and celibate right now to keep clear of these confused males. I'm just evolving and becoming wiser in who I am and what my life path journey is here on earth. I'm empowered by who've I've grown to be and I find that the majority of males these days are un-able to handle my mind and my thirst for knowledge. SO I CHILL and do womb work to properly channel my sexual energy to keep my kundalini from becoming deviant via my going long periods of time without sex.

What about making a video on the nature of women and psychology of women but of course u only concern with what men think like u in this world by urself everytime u look at things from a selfish perpective u will lose everytime this is y theres the division men do not want to take responsibility u can sex millions of women and still be fuck up in the head women need to take responsibility for the type of men u give energy too stop giving these bs men life

Agree some women have that grudge of boys leaving the house hold and the women are forced to raise their chicken especially boys to become men it's difficult! Why can't men be forced to do the same! Instead women picking to their slackness! Makes me sick!

Please Kevin Hart is who he is he is very clearly a liar +cheater he's said it in his stand up and the woman he's currently married to is no better than he is she understood he was married and still slept with him...$$$$ we all know why

If we use monogamy as the model and deal with the ratio of men and women, it can be argued that all women weren't meant to get married. The numbers aren't in their favor. However, if we employ polygyny the woman's chances of having a husband and children increases.

Please stop blaming this on our ancestors; because it is only partially true. ....the poly aspect was adapted not something that was born to us. It was adapted for the children who did not have fathers....hence it takes a village...please stop because you men fall into the ill gotten untruth of you being able to sleep with a bunch of women....BTW. poly by our people was adapted by women who had multiple husbands. I always ask BLACK MEN, would you adopt some of these 500 thousand black children in foster care if you take on two to three wives, or is it just for self fulfilling purpose. And that cheating , stop mimicking your oppressor because he told your dumb ass you were a cheater first, you just trying to live up to it. WAKE UP Brothers !!!

We have to be able to see more examples of 2-parent systems for us to break the cycle. I am fortunate to have parents that have been married for nearly 30 years. Their relationship is not perfect by far but they've stuck together and, I've noticed, become closer throughout my lifetime.
I don't know if monogamy can be achieved by everyone but I CAN attest to the fact that my brothers and I are all in long-term relationships, some married with children for years now, and my sister is also in a long-term relationship that is bearing fruit. I think this is from seeing the example set by my parents and making the decision that once in a relationship, to honestly commit. I didn't see my parents step out on each other so that's not a relationship trait I've learned. Have I cheated before? Yes, but that was the type of shit I was on when I was in my teens and early 20's. I had to become more EMOTIONALLY MATURE. I made the decision to just stay single and fuck who I wanted and if I was going to be in a relationship, not fuck it up or waste either of our time by cheating... See I feel like many of us are still emotionally immature and selfish well into our 40's and 50's...And then sadly find ourselves alone.
I think through the example set for me and my siblings we've understood that the point is to build, maintain, and sustain FAMILY...for the future. Try to show our kids how to be family oriented so when they have children of their own, they don't know anything different. How else can we fight all the shit pitted against us if we don't have a strong family-oriented community??? How did the European immigrants make a way in the early 1900's? How are the latinos/hispanics doing it now??? Their families stick together....

If Everybody was just honest with each other instead of sneaking around it would be a lot better for example "hi honey you know I'm going to have sex with somebody else today okay" "thanks let me know have a good day" s*** like that

Women follow there energies and cell attraction as do men it's all love now hurting another's feelings in process is going to be addressed beforehand get to where you are comfortable telling the person you need to dip

If relationships get destroyed by infidelity, then why not stop it? I believe when the men change their mind set i.e. The LUST factor and start taking their FAMILY lives seriously that's when we will see a change. I always hear people say that the man is stronger, and if that's true, how do they let hoes destroy everything that they have? It's easy to fall victim when there is no perception of morality when it comes down to the people you SAY you love the most. I'm starting to believe every failed relationship was established on LUST and not LOVE. When a man truly loves a woman, he will change. And if a woman truly loves a man she will be there to lift him up when he fall. In closing.... A Woman cannot be a hoe without a Man.

These fatherless men growing up without fathers and pot, crack, cokehead mothers are the problem men. They have no structure, chemically imbalanced, just walking zoombies..... They really don't know any better. They lost, ashamed, and confused with the world against us. So many things contributed to the.making of that man from the womb. theze dope head women spiting out dubs, checking on trailor trash for security.

American women ditched the braids, mushrooms, jerry curls, and hot combed hair and started wearing blonde hair, weaves and wigs, when the Jamaican women came over with the wild out hairdo and opened up jamaican beauty shops..... . that's when American females were into Jamaican men. Nobody was thinking about a white girl....that's not what it was.....

great subject, It starts with having respect for one another. Society has made the side chick/whore be on the same level as faithful girlfriend or wife. Society morals are all messed up and now our children are being raised to think its okay. Reality TV, Maury and other negative sitcoms have helped destroy the family. Society has gone away with the Leaver to Beaver Days and the elders are no longer around to keep the males or females in their right state of mind. Some of the elders are on that lower frequency as well. Good work Blue and Bro Rich.

Men that are having good sex with women are more attractive to females. This is not a lose lose for women. It's a challenge to develop your personality beyond being a sexual object. We men do and have to as we are judged more on our character. Do this for you, the rest will take care of itself. While your making yourself more interesting, content, and happy with life, the other challenge is finding a man who is doing the same. If you click a compatible friendship beats a compatible relationship any day of the week in leading to true love. Such things you can't force though it's possible for a genuine friendship to happen overtime in a relationship first scenario, based on attraction, if given the space to. If a man is truly friends with the women he's in a relationship with, on top of the attraction and good sex, he will remain loyal.

Polygamy versus Monogamy. Those are dated concepts. It really is just nature versus discipline. It is easy to make a case for either side. It's really simple though. If someone wants to be monogamous; he can be exactly that. If a man has not mastered "desire" aka "the flesh" he will continually fail. Very simple concept. Take all the societal tom foolery out of it... It's not that deep!!! Kevin Hart is just a man at the end of the day... People lift these famous people to heights they themselves can not live up too!!

I THINK THAT IT IS POSSIBLE BUT NOT MANY PEOPLE ACTUALLY REALLY WANT IT. IT'S NOT FUCKIN EASY. IT'S WORK. MOST PEOPLE WANT EVERYTHING SO FAST. DON'T WANNA PAY THEM DUES... PUT IN DAT WORK. 15 YEARS N AND WE BEEN TRUE TO EACH OTHER. BUT ITS CUZ WE REALLY WANT IT. SO WE SACRIFICE A LOT FOR THIS RELATIONSHIP. MONOGAMY ISN'T FOR EVERYONE.

Greag topic! My 2 cents tho...black people are too comfortable living in the lower chakra...the root. Obsessed with sex n getting off.. Obsessed with the physical. We have to be interested in going higher and deeper than that.

What if people that sleep with multiple people are working from their lower chakra and in doing that their awareness of that choice consequences never get filtered thru the heart or crown chakras then beyond.Women move more from the heart but if its in trauma then it reaches a state of numbness, so it then performs from a state of sex being the illusion of the idea of love.Never creating the passion required to play each individuals role in the union of the two Souls! If the intent of the union is from a higher evolutionary perspective of life. Just something that came after listening to this!so does being a woman or man doing it matter or is it just where that individual persons at on the journey to know thy self!

"Baddies with nerds" doesn't mean that them nerds aren't alphas in this societal climate, but also a lot of alpha women are getting with beta dudes to feel more dominate, but eventually they break them and get bored of them dudes and go back to seeking an alpha male. In the words of the late great Patrice O'neal "Women dating beta dudes is like a shark dating a penguin, she's playing with her food"

Thank you Brother Rich!!!!!!! Women adjust to attract these roving eye cheating Men, and Men complain about the very thing they are attracted to and have Sex with!!!! Light Skin, Long Hair, little waist, Big Butts! Men are brain washed by White beauty standards Also!!! Speak on it God!!!!

I guess I'm hating - these dudes sound like suckas - these convos offered nothing but drama chatter box vague opinions . Polygamy is the answer - all the Dr Phil ,well maybe if or but scenarios are all divisive and offers no solutions . Everybody feelings is hurt , get over yourself . If I'm helping financially , putting it down sexually , willing to receive n give direction then there is no reason I should not have more women. For the woman against it - if I'm with u n ur a good woman who loves n respects me - y wouldn't u think I wouldn't be able 2 choose another good woman like urself .

People lets be honest.... Most of these "NEW ERA" women be playin more "head" games then men are playing sex games , which turns into a matter of who gets who first ( Game set) , because i've had women cheat, lie , deceive , be verbally , and physically abusive! So its not a MAN thing or WOMAN thing , its a Human thing! Humans can be fucked up.

I thought ⓢpinal ⓔnergetic ⓧcretion is the most atomic force in the universe?
If thats the truth then the Nile Valley culture was ideal for that atomic energy. Not the ideals of the rapist, drug addicting, serfdom Western Culture.

*Procreation is a sin which propagates suffering and death.* Only animals see high value in bestial posterity. The 'Gods' affirm the infinite uncreate, while the terrestrials follow the crude and created.

Adl El Then Your weak ass let another Man come and rule over your woman! What other race of man allowed their women to be dominated by other men? Stop blaming the woman. You sound like a weak ass Beta simp! Nigga Man the fuck up and take your community back!

There are those men that don't WANT to sleep with many women. There are women that don't WANT to sleep with just one man. As Divine beings you have to always consider the circumstance. In this society there is not a need to be mating with so many different people other than an individual's consciousness being stuck in their lower centers. Meaning they are just looking to pleasure themselves. It's all physical. That is not Divine Righteous thinking. If circumstance calls for the need to have more than one mate then the group adjusts accordingly. But it is a lower nature to think and behave in such manners. Honestly there are more women from what I have seen cheating than men. Women are better at it. Women also are more sensitive to sensing other women's vibrations on their mates. So men get caught more often than women.

It seems like since Dr. Delbert Blair has passed away. No one ever discusses the record levels of radiation the we are exposed to daily and it's effect on the sex organs and the glandular system anymore.Perhaps we don't discuss these things because radiation is invisible but the effects of exposure are extremely real.

Quality! I really enjoyed this video. It's relevant and needs 2 b talked about. Good job fellas. Vital dialogues and healthy conversations! Luv/righteousness is my currency. It keeps me going everyday. Spend it, show it and receive it. Money is just a tool that effects energy/emotions/Human currency and time under the right circumstances or system. Especially when we lack intelligence which is another form of real currency. Life is currency! Any natural resource. Especially if u know or have the formulas/patents 4 ingredients. Money is a artificial currency tool which enslaves regardless just like Christianity tho it may have usage. Money will dumb u down especially when u dont know how 2 use the tool. The only power money has, is the power we give it. If people as a collective didn't value it, it would have no value. Today people literally worship money and pray 2 it as if it is what created the universe or something. If that aint dumb than I dont know what is. So trust me, just because u r rich n money doesn't mean u r rich n intelligence. U eva wonder y a real and righteous person neva wants the money. Look at every heru/hero story's character. They r aiming 4 righteousness which is truly Christ consciousness! Which is truly ur higher/Highest state of being. Keep it up blackmagik363! Quality!

We are naturally polygamists. all them baby mothers should be that brother's wives. Our Empires were compromised so we are displaced and our culture was restricted. Having more than one wife is empowering to a black man. The muslims got that from us. Love Movies and R&B Songs promote monogamy and jealousy. They created stds and hiv to fuck with us when the biggest hosts of that shit are the homosexuals. This is why the black population is so big...because of polygamy.

here we go with this women she just as much as men do I'm sorry but me and women everybody cheat you can't be in our favor relationship but women she just like men do please show me what a faithful women at cuz I have never met one in my life.

How can we help each other move on and do better is the framework? We continue to make excuses but not really addressing the patterns/issues as Blue stated. This was so real. Much respect. I love this platform by the way.

Greedy bullshit babble.. we would have no families without at least the belief in it.. black man can't satisfy One woman now what you think about multiple wives? Men need to be less shallow, spiritual and focus on wife and family period! The is a difference between consciousness and being a hotep Hoe..

Has everyone forgot that one of the things the europeans did was colonized us. We were not with one wife in africa. I said wife not side piece. These relationships here in america are very one sided. Its part of the feminist/gay movement. Males reproduction system is different from a female. Black males love black woman. Many men would be blue balled if we just sat and wait. Come on maan!! Plus society is not built for family. The family unit has been attacked from day one. Why can men have children until they die if they were not made for more than one. It wasnt always about sex when men took more than one wife also. It was what each person brought to the table to make the family unit stronger. Its the white feminist leading this conversation in this country about womens independence and its hurting the family. Remember society in ancient africa supported the polygamous relationship. What about men that are being hurt by women who arent being feminine but being masculine. These conversations are always one sided the man fault. What if the man is doing most things right but the woman is feeding from the mentality of the world that is pimping her so she cant trust black man and she can run to the arms of the white man.

Miss Mitchell that’s the selfish mentality within you. It’s just about you you you. And most guys end up doing this behind the back of females like you because he can’t be honest because with you. Women are the sole reason why cheating is extremely high. There are so many of our sisters out there that need guidance that’ll come from being in a polygamist relationship, but it’s sister like you that just don’t care. You have your man and that’s that. The numbers show that it’s impossible for a woman to have her own man. It’s like a 9:1 ratio. That means for every woman that has a man, 8 worst most definitely be without. This is an absolute fact. When this is presented to you and women like you, the basic response will be “and?” Our women really don’t care about their own. It’s only about they way you feel. I often tell my wife that if there were ever an honesty without consequence day for men and their significant others asks if they cheat or ever cheat on her, all these women would be surprised to find out their men aren’t as faithful as they thought. Our women force us into an unnatural state for their own purposes. That in turn increases the likelihood of us cheating. I know so many females that just know their men are faithful but I know otherwise through them confiding in me. If every man had a woman, what would you suggest for the millions of women that won’t have a mate??? If you have the mindset of that’s her problem, then you’re selfish as I stated earlier. If you think about it, that’s what’s going on in so many ways today.

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