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i am in love with a guy he is with me in the university and i reaallllllllllllllllly love him, he has horrible dating experiences and now he just doesn't want to date or love or anything someone asked him who should text first the guy or the girl? and he answered no one should text first they shouldn't talk together because they will hurt each other and this just depressed me how can i forget about this guy cause he obviously doesn't want anyone in his life or how can i enter his life without pressurizing him?