Most Helpful Guy

Ok, that would be a little hard to do seeing that its right there... and there's a preview... deliberately not reading it is trying a little too hard... childish too.The point is to ignore them, not yourself... read the message but don't reply. Im currently doing the same to some rude girl now... ignored her for 2 weeks... she went from threats to "hello"... im reading them all... but not answering jack. THATS how its done. forget blocking.. im curious too lol.

girl, on the flip side... if you are the one being blocked... here's how to deal with that...flip em the finger... when people choose to ignore you, they don't expect you to do the same... for every time you text them, or call, you empower their plan to ignore you. but if you leave em the hell alone... especially AFTER you text em that you will ignore them as well... takes away the power like a deflating balloon, and they would want to talk to you, just to gain a bit of power back. been there... done it. If that system doesn't work... they really don't like you... move on.

So essentially he's playing games or whatever? I'll try the whole ignoring him thing too and see if that makes any difference. I don't understand how he can go from texting everyday and then bang outta the blue.. nothing.

I didn't send too many. Just one asking how his results went, one about an inside joke we have going and a joke about how much women chat. That's it. I've not been constantly asking him what's up etc. Can you tell if someone's turned off read receipts? I don't think he'd go to that length..

just being a guy... sometimes we are busy... a text has been ringing on my phone for about an hour now and i haven't responded just because im on here... things happen... he might be gaming lol... i know i don't respond for hours when doing that.

Girl, thats what we are all here for... some ask... some answer...Im actually more irritated by my famous down voters... lol... it irritates me but thats how I know my answers are ON POINT... some people don't just like truth... meh... what can you do. Im happy to help darling... im here for other questions as well.

Thankyou so much. Sometimes the truth isn't easy to hear, but if you ask for it you need to be prepared. I always have a real fear of being too needy or clingy so over analyse a lot of situations. I really like this guy, I just don't understand why the sudden no reply lol.

Maybe thats the problem... some times its you gotta back up a little to show love. its give and take... you have given... now step the hell back and wait for the take. If you don't get any love back... well... now you know enough to move on. Only players constantly give because there is an end game... and clingers only give because they want something back... be You.

Yes, yes we do... but its not for the reasons you think. I sometimes ignore someone I talk to for a couple of days... so events can build up.. so i can have something to talk ABOUT to THEM... talking everyday? you are going to run out of shit to talk about lol.

I think both sexes are completely oblivious at time lol. I really am sorry for all the questions but I do appreciate your insight even though you probably don't have a single clue about what he's thinking

Well, i don't know him personally and I also don't know your relationship and previous conversations so yea... but i AM a guy... so i can still be able to safely assume.You are right that both sexes can be completely oblivious... women more than guys though... and i can prove that.

I'll try lol, I know I have no patience. It's my biggest flaw I think. I got it into my head that he maybe turned off the blue ticks or was deleting the messages before reading them but that's just me being paranoid right?

yes, yes it is... and patience is key in a lot of things... you might wana work on that. girls already give guys enough hell... then you add impatience to the mix? I'd ignore you too :) just to make some time.

I know we do, and I'm sorry for that. I never come across as impatient to him I don't think. 😔 I will try and calm myself lol. I sound ridiculous haha. It's just weird not talking to someone when you're used to hearing from them everyday.

Most Helpful Girl

I think he is ignoring the texts, otherwise you wouldn't be able to see when he was last online. It differs from guy to guy though. Some guys read the messages before going on whatsapp and then do not want to reply until a later time and some read the messages and still reply 3 hours later… Some guys look at the message and ignore it completely. Well, has he texted you before?

I would do that… But that just brings up more trouble. Wait a week from when you texted him last. If he hasn't done anything up to that point, then you tell him that you feel something is wrong. If he, however, has replied by then, you leave it be. If it happens, that he actually ignores you again, then only confront him