Where Are You Creating From? by Debbie

We create our realities right down to the last detail, thinking all powerfully that we have a grand plan and that we know exactly what we are doing, what we need and what we want.

The result, however, ironically is we create from a place of lack, that ultimately what will be revealed is the wound. Strangely that takes us by surprise! As always this is the gift but the deeper you go the more painful it can be. That is of course if you choose to look.

“Relationships are not there to make us happy, they are there to wake us up.”

When we create a relationship from what’s missing in our lives we expect the other to fill the gaps. To validate, appreciate, love and accept us just as we are. We forget that they too come from a place of need and want with their own set of issues and subconscious agendas. Mostly we are each unaware of the others insecurities and even if we were told what they were we can only appreciate them from our limited point of view.

A game of pushing and pulling and shaping and manipulating ensues so that we each get our needs met to some degree and in the process we MISS each other along the way.

What are we missing?

We miss each other’s DIVINITY! We are so desperately busy trying to feel better about ourselves that we don’t see the Being before us. All we see is a reflection of our own lack and a potential source of filling that.

What if we knew that we alone are the source of what we need and want?

What if we recognised the Divine Being before us as just that?

What do relationships look like created from a place of completeness?

In the process of learning to love who we are our hearts begin to soften and open tentatively to the world in exploration of a new way of loving.

Because I love me, I can love you just for you. I don’t need anything from you, there is no lack, no hole to fill. No conditions.

Love becomes freedom, the freedom of full expression.

“Do not attempt to own or possess love, it will slip through your fingers like water in a closed hand. Love is the ultimate freedom.”

When I know who I am I recognise who you are.

In this meeting on sacred ground we can choose to dance and honour the flow of energy that plays between us or not. If the resonance is high enough we will stay awhile and explore the connection expanding the energy field and ultimately anchoring the light.