I used to answer the phones for a company that booked waitresses & dancers, and from what I noticed not ALL black guys but 80% would try and book a 90 minute bachelor party then try and get the girls to stay for 3 hours with the pay of "we got that purp and Remy" offers and acted like every dancer or waitress was Ronnie and them off of Players club.

The girls had to check in after the party was done and they would be like this is too much, and this wasn't from just white girls this was from the black ones too. It didn't even have to be a stripper involved some of them would do the fool on waitresses at a poker party.

Sometimes the new girls would hear bad stories from other girls and then would say No Black Parties. I'm not defending the "policy" but all it takes is one bad apple.

I'm trying to read and contemplate this white woman's words but sh*t sprinkled onto this article like this

When I first spoke to him I
was not even aware that he was black; he lacked either the dialectal
accent or the characteristic vocal timbre of a black man.

makes it reeeeeally hard to want to read this. Black people are another species to her. She has a mixture of valid and invalid points so my reaction to this is pretty mixed but the funk of the typical ignorance of an entitled white person makes my general reaction more negative.

I'm trying to read and contemplate this white woman's words but sh*t sprinkled onto this article like this

When I first spoke to him I
was not even aware that he was black; he lacked either the dialectal
accent or the characteristic vocal timbre of a black man.

makes it reeeeeally hard to want to read this. Black people are another species to her. She has a mixture of valid and invalid points so my reaction to this is pretty mixed but the funk of the typical ignorance of an entitled white person makes my general reaction more negative.

I used to answer the phones for a company that booked waitresses & dancers, and from what I noticed not ALL black guys but 80% would try and book a 90 minute bachelor party then try and get the girls to stay for 3 hours with the pay of "we got that purp and Remy" offers and acted like every dancer or waitress was Ronnie and them off of Players club.

The girls had to check in after the party was done and they would be like this is too much, and this wasn't from just white girls this was from the black ones too. It didn't even have to be a stripper involved some of them would do the fool on waitresses at a poker party.

Sometimes the new girls would hear bad stories from other girls and then would say No Black Parties. I'm not defending the "policy" but all it takes is one bad apple.

Truth...nothing but the truth. BHM aint trying to hear you though.

It never made sense to me since they would be cutting $$ from their own pocket, they got a cut of the fee plus kept all their tips. Why would they stay for just tips or weed? If you paid them they could buy their own weed if that is what they chose to do.

She's not fully wrong though.. there is a huge issue with our culture and the cartoon idea of masculinity we uphold as the standard in a male. It's rampant in America's patriarchal society but I think it's WORSE in the black community because of how black men are hypermasculinized!

Should it be a shock, though? In slavery, black men were valued for their masculinity by their strength and stamina. This was coveted by slave owners (and possibly secretly their women too) and these same masculine black men reproduced.

This masculinity, though profitable for the plantations, ultimately lead to the further demonization of black men by weaponizing their masculinity. This high standard of masculinity gets adopted into black culture as the norm and of course males live a literally magnified life of patriarchy despite socioeconomic oppression.

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