Just ask. We're okay with that - just not going to play with just her the first time out of the box, he's got to be comfortable with the couple to be comfortable letting her play with them alone. When together though, he doesn't have any issue with it being her doing both or just one of them. 3 way chemistry is hard, 4 way is even harder. As long as everyone is having fun we don't care who's doing whom :-D

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We could make that work and we do get to your part of SC from time to time...

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Not sure if I understand you correctly, but are you saying that its ok for you to full swap, but that your hubby is only interested in soft swap?

If so, I'm sure you could probably find that, but it is certainly easier when everyone is playing by the same rules.