Son Ira’s DR says his mother’s name was Alice Abbott, suggesting another marriage for Albion. This conflicts with Ira’s BR, though.

Civil War Pension Index-Widow listed as Relief W.

Captain during the Civil War in Vermont Volunteers. May 30, 1862 to July 1865.

Name sometimes shown as Albin not Albion.
see vermontcivilwar.org virtual cemeteries

An excerpt from "The Wheelock Family of Calais, Vermont", by Marcus Warren Waite
page 101."(773): ALBION J. MOWER (Ruth Wheelock; Peter); born Dec. 14, 1829; m. Mar. 1, 1867, Relief W. Smith of Cabot, Vt. He died June 11, 1902. She died August 23, 1903. He was a prominent farmer in Calais, and interested in the schools of his native town. He was made Captain of Co. I, 9th Regt. Vermont Vols., in June 1862, which Company he raised in Washington County."

See “Norwich University, 1819-1911; her history, her graduates, her roll of honor”, edited by William Arba Ellis, p501:
HON. CAPTAIN ALBION JABEZ MOWER.
Albion J. Mower, son of Jabez and Ruth W. Mower, was born in Calais, Vt., December 14, 1828, and died there in 1898. He attended the schools of his town and entered the University in 1848, remaining two years. He engaged in farming in Calais until his death, becoming the largest real estate owner in the town. He was a Republican in politics and held many town offices.
On the breaking out of the Civil War, he offered his services to the state of Vermont and was appointed recruiting and drill officer. He recruited companies for the 3d, 6th and 9th Vermont regiments. He was commissioned captain of Company I, 9th Vermont Infantry, June 30, 1862, and served until July 8, 1863, when owing to disability was forced to resign his commission.
He was married March 1, 1867, to Relief W. Smith of Cabot, Vt. Five children were born to them: Ira Rich, "N. U.", '90; Nora D.; Lilla B.; Alice Jessie; and Albion Jabez, Jr.