Kinky Curling Custard is good. Also, eco styler and Africa's Best Organic Olive Oil Styling Gel. I love the smell ! To avoid the crunch, apply and oil before the gel and remember to scrunch the hair. Also, water helps.

I have 3b/3c hair and i feel your pain when it comes to trying to find the right products. Over my two years of being natural and products searching I've learned that Suave professionals conditioner, Cream of Nature leave in and One 'n' Only Styling Cream have given me the most definition (don't use the conditioner with the other tow products). Good luck you'll find your it product eventually!