Make up your mind Brad — do you want to be a dad for Emily’s daughter Ricki … or are you just saying so?

So much for BachelorBrad Womack professing that he’s ready to be a dad and start a family with Emily Maynard. If he really felt that way, then why did Emily and her 5-year-old daughter Ricki Hendrick spend Mother’s Day without Brad in Charlotte?

“Long/FUN day at the golf tournament and now I’m at home watching tv and folding laundry… typical,” Emily tweeted on May 8. “Happy Mothers Day to all of the mommies!” No mention of Brad in sight!

The state of Brad and Emily’s relationship has been in constant question since Emily reportedly broke up with him over the phone in early April. But then last weekend, Brad flew Emily to Austin so they could spend so much needed time together.

At the Austin airport, Emily was pictured giving sad looking Brad a hug goodbye. The way it looked, reports flew that this was the couple’s final goodbye.