Quote: What really got to me with my ex is that I could vent all sorts of things to him and he'd hardly tell me anything going on with him even if I had just had something happen to him (like a death in the family or a friend screw him over). He would casually say it happened (or I'd find out) and go on in conversation. He even said, "well I just want to have it be nodded and okay lets move on I don't get why it gets to you" and I even yelled once or twice, "because I don't know what the hell is going on with you." I even pointed out that I could tell him all sorts of stuff and he said, "and that's what you should do. I'm a good listener and you can tell me anything" but he couldn't? I guess it's like an inbalance of trust sort of thing? Like I'm not important enough to know how the other person feels or thinks when they expect me to tell them what I feel and think.

Miss Suzanne, you just described, well, about 85% of men!
Note: If you are one of the 15% of the men that don't think like this, well, get teaching the other 85% what they're doing wrong.
If you're one of the 85%, then get with the program and start communicating!!!!!
If you don't like this post....too freakin' bad
(Warning: Do not take this post too seriously, seriously!)

Quote: What really got to me with my ex is that I could vent all sorts of things to him and he'd hardly tell me anything going on with him even if I had just had something happen to him (like a death in the family or a friend screw him over). He would casually say it happened (or I'd find out) and go on in conversation. He even said, "well I just want to have it be nodded and okay lets move on I don't get why it gets to you" and I even yelled once or twice, "because I don't know what the hell is going on with you." I even pointed out that I could tell him all sorts of stuff and he said, "and that's what you should do. I'm a good listener and you can tell me anything" but he couldn't? I guess it's like an inbalance of trust sort of thing? Like I'm not important enough to know how the other person feels or thinks when they expect me to tell them what I feel and think.

Miss Suzanne, you just described, well, about 85% of men!
Note: If you are one of the 15% of the men that don't think like this, well, get teaching the other 85% what they're doing wrong.
If you're one of the 85%, then get with the program and start communicating!!!!!
If you don't like this post....too freakin' bad
(Warning: Do not take this post too seriously, seriously!)

I fully agree actually. I'm just shooting from the hip (ass) here but I think the reason 85% of men have issues with communication is the same reason 85% of women have self image issues. Women are told in almost every form of media what "beautiful" is and to conform to it as much as possible and men are told almost as soon as they can understand words that sharing our feeling is for pussies. Being in touch and expressive with out emotions is seen as "effeminate", we are all supposed to be noble stoics, boys don't cry, blah blah blah bullshit hold overs from an age long since dead and gone and good riddance.

I never had issues with communication personally, what the fuck is the point of spending any portion of your life with a person romantically if you can't even talk to them freely and openly? Seems more like a prison sentence to me. Communication is more important to a successful romantic relationship then sex is, in my humble opinion.

Same for me. Cheat on me and we are done, no second chance. My wife knows that and so did every girl/woman I dated before her. I hold myself to the same condition. When my wife and I got married I told her if I ever cheated on her I would walk away and she could have everything.

There are other things that could end a relationship for me, depending on the nature of the relationship.

(11-08-2014 07:10 AM)Deidre32 Wrote: Whiskey, I've found usually communication is lacking out of the bedroom and that translates to problems in it. Although, some people have no problem fucking even if they're arguing. Lol!

(11-08-2014 07:10 AM)Deidre32 Wrote: Whiskey, I've found usually communication is lacking out of the bedroom and that translates to problems in it. Although, some people have no problem fucking even if they're arguing. Lol!

Same for me. Cheat on me and we are done, no second chance. My wife knows that and so did every girl/woman I dated before her. I hold myself to the same condition. When my wife and I got married I told her if I ever cheated on her I would walk away and she could have everything.

There are other things that could end a relationship for me, depending on the nature of the relationship.

(11-08-2014 06:38 AM)wazzel Wrote: Same for me. Cheat on me and we are done, no second chance. My wife knows that and so did every girl/woman I dated before her. I hold myself to the same condition. When my wife and I got married I told her if I ever cheated on her I would walk away and she could have everything.

There are other things that could end a relationship for me, depending on the nature of the relationship.

Agree. "But it was an accident."

It was an accident that your cock ended up in her mouth?

Lol...bye!

It's a common dilemma for some. Sometimes the zipper accidentally gets undone. Sometimes, he accidentally manages to make his way out. Sometimes, he accidentally thrusts himself into an open mouth. Sometimes, in the confusion to remove him from her mouth, she accidentally starts sucking him.

It's a common dilemma for some. Sometimes the zipper accidentally gets undone. Sometimes, he accidentally manages to make his way out. Sometimes, he accidentally thrusts himself into an open mouth. Sometimes, in the confusion to remove him from her mouth, she accidentally starts sucking him.

You know how it goes.

Damn! This never happens to me!

I've only recently grown rudimentary legs and made the move from water to land.