You could maybe start up a conversation about ddlg as a subject and see how he reacts to that? That way you can inform him about what it is etc so that he won't get a negative idea. You can start by saying "I saw something about this thing called ddlg on the Internet the other day..." or something along those lines.

I am sure he wouldn't judge you for it, you are close friends after all and he already seems to be familiar with how you are and how you behave anyway.

If he doesn't seem to take the ddlg thing very well and you can't change his view by talking about it and educating him on it more, then you can choose not to tell him about yourself and your little/small side.

Its hard to know how he would react about being a platonic daddy. Some people are up for giving things a try and others not. I think you would need to play that by ear a little more just based on how he reacts to everything you say prior to asking.

I hope this gives you some ideas on how to tell him I hope it goes well

You could maybe start up a conversation about ddlg as a subject and see how he reacts to that? That way you can inform him about what it is etc so that he won't get a negative idea. You can start by saying "I saw something about this thing called ddlg on the Internet the other day..." or something along those lines.

I am sure he wouldn't judge you for it, you are close friends after all and he already seems to be familiar with how you are and how you behave anyway.

If he doesn't seem to take the ddlg thing very well and you can't change his view by talking about it and educating him on it more, then you can choose not to tell him about yourself and your little/small side.

Its hard to know how he would react about being a platonic daddy. Some people are up for giving things a try and others not. I think you would need to play that by ear a little more just based on how he reacts to everything you say prior to asking.

I hope this gives you some ideas on how to tell him I hope it goes well

thank you so much for your advice, SleepyKitten ❤

ill try slowly making it a conversation and seeing his reaction, i hope it goes well too !