And I am not ashamed. I tell total strangers about their Good Hair Days or how beautiful they look, how nice they smell, and if they are giving me Leg Envy.
It is nice to hear even shallow encouragement from someone who doesn’t want anything from you.

I was reading two articles this morning : one that said to love your womanly body and an article that said White Females are the elite in United States society and we have everything easier that everyone else. Let me think. I am the most uncolored, least pigmented, couldn’t get a tan when I tried, fair-skinned female I know. From as far as 1000 yards away you could tell I am female. I might be an expert on this. Hmmm. I have never been an expert before…

For sure I don’t get to say things like “When my people wandered through the desert for 40 years”, or “when we were cast out of our homeland”, or “We endured 80 plus years of slavery and 200 years of racial imbalance ever since” – but is life easier and more fair for the fair-skinned females.

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My name is Sonya and I have always been short, fat and cranky - only these days I am less fat (I hope) August 2008 I had Bariatric Surgery through Kaiser at Scripps in San Diego.

This is the log of my changes, my food, my questions, and my friends who also had the surgery. Tweet me, write me, stalk me here or email me if you have questions, concerns or snide remarks. - Do remember that you had fair warning about me being cranky, and oh yes – I write like I speak: A LOT!