If you're only being nice to me out of pity, bugger off. I have enough friends without you. I'm kind, intelligent, loving, pretty, etc. ad infinitum. If you can't see that, then you're the one who needs the pity.

See? Self deprecation is not always an ugly thing. You are welcome dear.*Hug* lol I could never be arrogant, I have too many episodes like that above.

*whispers* ...me too.
Some days I honestly expect my head to roll off. You know, like when I've managed to wind my purse strap and my scarf around my neck in a way that, when I try to disentangle myself, would please almost any spectator during France's Reign of Terror.
Nothing like the tickle of a guillotine.

Project Runway finale kicked ass. Something else was happy today and it didn't even have to do with cookies.

...there are times I'm not the woman you imagine me to be...when I'm just a girl who needs...and my need is deep, profound, and overpowering to the point of confusion and insecurity and all I know is the girl I am touching and all I want is to touch more and all I can do is give in...is surrender...~Vail

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"Part of being a minority is living with the majorities will no matter how it may be imposed on you. With that comes having to 'take what you can get' in order to make any advancement. Advancement to the exact same rights and personal freedoms you've had since birth and which are still to this day denied to us because we love differently."

...there are times I'm not the woman you imagine me to be...when I'm just a girl who needs...and my need is deep, profound, and overpowering to the point of confusion and insecurity and all I know is the girl I am touching and all I want is to touch more and all I can do is give in...is surrender...~Vail

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"Part of being a minority is living with the majorities will no matter how it may be imposed on you. With that comes having to 'take what you can get' in order to make any advancement. Advancement to the exact same rights and personal freedoms you've had since birth and which are still to this day denied to us because we love differently."

...there are times I'm not the woman you imagine me to be...when I'm just a girl who needs...and my need is deep, profound, and overpowering to the point of confusion and insecurity and all I know is the girl I am touching and all I want is to touch more and all I can do is give in...is surrender...~Vail

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"Part of being a minority is living with the majorities will no matter how it may be imposed on you. With that comes having to 'take what you can get' in order to make any advancement. Advancement to the exact same rights and personal freedoms you've had since birth and which are still to this day denied to us because we love differently."

...there are times I'm not the woman you imagine me to be...when I'm just a girl who needs...and my need is deep, profound, and overpowering to the point of confusion and insecurity and all I know is the girl I am touching and all I want is to touch more and all I can do is give in...is surrender...~Vail

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"Part of being a minority is living with the majorities will no matter how it may be imposed on you. With that comes having to 'take what you can get' in order to make any advancement. Advancement to the exact same rights and personal freedoms you've had since birth and which are still to this day denied to us because we love differently."

Sex is absolute contact - or it can be. It is a private language and more like Braille than print. You read your lover's body and you write it too. Sex is a fiction as well as a documentary - it invents the lover and it describes the lover. It is imaginative act. [Jeanette Winterson]