Ooooh SPARKLES! This is an interesting development: what if Robert Pattinson isn’t as “distraught” as everyone thinks he is? What if he realized that Kristen is NOT the lip-biting love of his life and he’s just hiding out because he doesn’t want the added attention? What if Sparkles already dumped Kristen and he’s prepared to move on? Because that might be happening. Radar and other outlets are reporting that Rob had a night out in Ojai on Friday, and he was in “good spirits”. You mean he wasn’t crying sparkle-tears?!?

Robert Pattinson’s friends tried to get his mind off girlfriend Kristen Stewart cheating on him by taking him to a cowboy dance and music club Friday night, RadarOnline.com is exclusively reporting. He was spotted at The Deer Lodge in Ojai, CA, 90 minutes from the home he used to share with Kristen.

“I’ve been told by several people that Robert Pattinson was here enjoying the music with his friends. He seemed in good sprits,” a Deer Lodge employee, who asked that his name not be used, tells RadarOnline.com. “I wasn’t on that night so I didn’t personally see him, but several others did.”

As RadarOnline.com reported, Pattinson has been staying at his Water for Elephants costar Reese Witherspoon’s Ojai ranch. The Deer Lodge has been a popular local hangout for decades, offering live music, dancing and lots of beer and good times.

“Awesome night in Ojai. Got to hang with a rowdy bunch of Brits & one of them happened to be Edward,” a fellow patron tweeted after bumping into the star – who plays Edward Cullen in the popular Twilight movies – at the lodge.

“He wasn’t moping and the girls were definitely just his friend,” she continued. “The girls were drunk and literally danced on the floor. The girls were nice. I stood next to them at the bar. He wasn’t drunk. Just taking in the scene. Smoked next to him outside.”

The lively establishment was playing host to indie band The Lonely Wild who are a small group from L.A. In addition to being an A-list actor Pattinson is also a musician who plays the guitar, piano and composes his own music. He even sang on the Twilight soundtrack.

Meanwhile Stewart is struggling to come to terms with her infidelity with director Rupert Sanders. RadarOnline.com reported the actress is ‘crying non-stop’ at the home of producer Giovanni Agnelli who she has been staying with since the split. Pattinson is extremely upset about the arrangement and has even accused Agnelli of having an affair with Kristen.

And in case you think that this Radar story cannot be believed, Us Weekly confirmed it with two eyewitnesses, only they said everything went down on Saturday night, not Friday. An eyewitness said Sparkles “seemed to be having an amazing time” and he had “a few drinks and laughs” with friends, “He looked like a guy that was just trying to enjoy himself and get away . . . seems like a good kid!” The other eyewitness said Rob and his two friends “crashed” an Irish wedding afterparty, “Everyone was doing Irish dances — [they] went through five bottles of Jameson!”

So… how does this make you feel, Twihards? Sad? Happy? Anxious? It sounds like Rob needed some cheering up and it worked. I also think he’s behaving like a dude who has made up his mind – either he’s completely dumped Kristen, or he’s decided to take her back. And considering what I know about the always-fragile male ego, I’d say that he’s decided to dump her and cut his losses. Just my opinion. It’s perfectly possible that they’ll “stay together” until they finish promoting Breaking Dawn Part II, but something tells me that Sparkles is over it.

I think she wanted off but the overblown proportion of the Twihard epic meltdown stunned her.I think she would have been more happy to break up “privately” and keep her dark-edgy-whatever image intact.Now she’ll be called names for a while and then the next one is in.
And Hollywood is certainly not so morally rigid and (self)-righteous like most of us(LOL) not to give her another chance if she brings the money home.

It’s been a couple weeks and all the reports are making him out to look like a complete P*ssy. If I were him, no matter how sad or unsad I was, I’d be seen out looking okay to for the sake of my pride.

Do you mean he looks “pu–y” because he’s reported “crying”? I won’t name a man so if he shows feelings.But there wasn’t any evidence apart from him talking to “random people at bars”! complaining he hasn’t anyone to talk to.The only thing he’s done is to move out and we still don’t know if temporary.
There were reports before that he’s parting with other girls.I think the only difference is that he doesn’t have to “hide” it any longer.

meh, they were dating for a reason I think . he’s suppossedly a very moody guy, the first twilight director basically said she had to handle him with kid gloves a lot, that her and kristen had to really talk him out of his moods and insecurities. Think they were both emo downers.

I don’t have a link but I was into twilight back before the movies came out and watched a lot of interviews at the time. And Catherine definitely gave the impression that Rob was a bundle of nerves with his first lead in a major release and needed some “coaxing” often cause he was overthinking things or else unsure about how to proceed with a scene. She did make it clear that Kristen and her both did the coaxing.

Orly – I know I’ve seen that before too. I also remember reading an interview with the same director (Vanity Fair? GQ? Don’t remember) and it surprised me because she had been saying up until that time that the chemistry between RP and KS was palpable when he first showed up to read for the part. In this interview, however, she talked about how she was suggesting another actor when KS insisted on Robert. I thought at the time, “What about all of that chemistry?” Maybe she didn’t think he was good-looking enough.

Haha, @Mort… I was thinking it sounds awesome. I’m from SC and we have a local bar-type place called the Blind Horse Saloon that can be a pretty good time if you’re looking for cheap beer and lots of hilarious people-watching. Nothin’ like an old-fashioned honky-tonk to lift your spirits… there’s no way to take yourself or your life seriously in a cowboy bar.

Again with “the always-fragile male ego”! Why the heck is it a gender thing or even a fragile thing do dump someone who cheated on you?!? I think it’s totally understandable if he dumps her. How many here would not think she would be dumb, if it was the other way around and she took him back? Geez!

Also it seems Sparkles has a lot better pr-people than Stewart. Good for him.

I have said this before, but Rob does not have a PR person/team. He and Angelina Jolie are some of the only hold-outs in this, at their level of fame. He has said the only reason to have a PR person is to get free stuff (LOL).

As much as I would like to believe this story, I think it’s made-up. Some girl tweeted he was there, and the manager “confirmed” it, but the manager wasn’t actually there to see him in person. Deer Lodge loves the publicity, but I doubt Rob was ever there.

I agree. I may be harsh on cheating but I don’t get why ego has anything to do with leaving someone if they cheat on you. To me it’s about self respect. The other person clearly wants to be with someone else or with many someone else’s so let them. No hard feelings but peace. What does that have to do with the “fragile male ego”. I guess I got it too cause I’d do the same thing.

Hey Chat-
Crazy because if she had just cheated on him but NOT with a married family man, then there would just be a lot of shoulder-shrugging (except for the Twi-Hard fanbase who would still probably go crazy).
Cheating is bad but ultimately forgivable, given their young age, but the fact that she did it with a married man, and she worked with and knew his WIFE…smh…

Does no one have a camera on there phone? Why didnt she take pictures?

I dont believe it. The girl who supposedly saw him had a tweet the day before saying that she was going to buy Robert Pattinson a drink if she saw him and then the next day she does? Sounds alittle sketchy to me. Just because UsWeekly “confirms” something doesnt make it true either. They are still a tabloid. The “irish dancing” part is a dead give away that this story is fake because Rob said he doesnt dance. I dont think Rob is as upset as everyone says but I dont think he would be out right now knowing very well that everyone wants to see him and whoever gets the first pic of him is going to get alot of money.

I might be wrong, but I think that area is celebrity ridden and for the most part if the locals and the local businesses want the celebrities to keep coming and spending their money, they will afford them a good amount of privacy. Otherwise they’re not coming back. Pictures, especially. So it’s possible they’re might not be pictures and it might be somewhat true. But it sounds like you know 100% because you were at the bar anticipating Sparkles movements.

Sounds like his healing in a safe & fun environment. I’ve said this before that I really don’t think they suited each other. With her emo middle finger stuck up additude. The journey they shared together is what they needed @ the time but that time is over. She suits a rock star, he suits a classic actress. I’m Abit over the whole thing. But what does hold my interest is how they will handle the breaking dawn promo???

Listen to some of his interviews, he is goofy and charming, very genuine (famously rejecting the studio media training). And he didn’t turn into an egotistical jerk after Twilight turned him into a household name. I think that’s the base of his appeal.

Agree. Some of his interviews are downright hilarious. Good looking guys are a dime a dozen in Hollywood, but so many of them don’t have personalities. For all his instant fame and fortune, his persona doesn’t seem to change. I think that’s what people respond to. Also, he has that lovely, British, self-depracating sense of humor. And, of course, the accent.

Yes to all you said, he comes off as so goofy and funny in behind the scenes videos and interviews! before this whole scandal I couldn’t care less about him, but after seeing some of his stuff I am now a fan!

I have guy friends who live/die by this saying. Does this approach actually work for peole?

Personally, if I’m really in love with someone, no amount of post-break-up shagging is going to help me move on. If anything, random sexin’ after a serious break-up usually just depresses me more – reminds me of how much I miss having something real with someone.
Temporary distractions are just that: temporary.

For some people it works alright.
Not only guys get better relaying on rebound sex.Mind you on first month after I’d be a mess but wouldn’t you feel fine, desirable, beautiful and so on if another guy shows…hm, his desire?Do you think only guys go for one night stands?I know some women who did just that as a kind of “revenge”

My ex went straight after on rebound dating and sex)till he met his now-wife.That went for about 2 years and he felt just fine.I went on girls drinking tour because I’ve already met my present husband but we were in different countries.

Oh no, Micki-I know women (including myself in the past) go for one-night stands
I just used “guy friends” as an example because of the R-Patz comparison.
And I do totally understand the feeling of wanting to be desired, especially after you’re dumped. I guess I just mean that the saying is sort of false as far as truly getting over someone. I think you only truly get over someone when you meet/fall in love with someone and you care about them as much, if not more than the person that broke your heart. Sex is just a temporary (if fun) distraction.
lol @ “girls drinking tour”

@OriginalKitten:
I thought my drinking experience is going to come handy after marrying a German BUT! the guys where we live now are into wheat beer and I’m more wine person…Ah, one can’t have everything…

Yeah, I’m still sceptical about this supposed sighting by “eyewitnesses”. Why would he still be hanging around in Ojai where the paps would be able to find him? And none of these “eyewitnesses” thought to take a pic on a cameraphone? Are people in Ojai all just that nice and rrespectful? Doubtful. I have a theory that he managed to get out of the country undetected and is hanging out in the English countryside with Tom Sturridge and Sienna Miller and baby Marlowe. That scenario makes me happy. Feel free to dismiss my theory as fanfic.

Maybe Pattinson doesn’t care about the breakup, maybe he’s relieved he doesn’t have to pretend any more. Time will tell what the truth is. So far all of his friends have been remarkably discreet. In ten years time we may all be saying “I knew it was all fake! They didn’t fool me!.”

Where is the irish wedding story at? I just read the Us Weekly article and it didnt say anything about a wedding. I do find it interesting that Us is saying their “eyewitness” says he was there with a bunch of guy friends but the girl who tweeted about seeing him there said he was there with a bunch of female friends. Something doesnt sound right.

Apparently, that tweeter had written weird tweets prior saying she was going to Ojai to find him and then suppossedly he just ended up at her friend’s bar? Most people think she was embellishing or lying and that’s why US isn’t going with her account and went instead with more reliable sources who were established to be there without a fan-motive.

Good for him. I bet he ust doesn’t want to think about any of this. We won’t know anything else by the promos. If they didn’t confirm their relationship, he sure as hell won’t issue a statement about his lovelife. But I think he’ll dump her, too.

Or here is another perspective.: Kristen is auditioning for a movie and has a boyfriend. She is 17 years old. This gorgeous guy flies in gets the role and pretty much wiill tell anyone who listens how he is in love with Kristen. He finally wears her down and she breaks up with her boyfriend and starts with Robert. She most likely feels some what of an obligation to keep this going for the fans , movie success, her career etc. a lot of pressure for someone who is barely 22. Hopefully Kristen gets some time to her self to figure out what she wants and where she is headed without so many outside forces. I like Robert but he just seemed so needy of her all the time. They both need a break to see if they still really want each other or has it just been the idea of each other after all.

HURREEEEH! \m/^_^\m/ I’m sooooo glad to hear that he is fine now and partying with friends! Sigh… I am so relieved now. My brother has been teasing me since the time this Twihard meltdown occured. He said Rob Patzz would commit suicide. Lol! I am so happy after reading this post today! Truly made my day!
You go Rob! Enjoy your life! There’re a lot women, you can find another.

She has probably read the latest blind item from CDAN who said Rob sleeps with every female he meets and work with. The CDAN guy really has it out for Rob but I think thats because hes friends with Nikki Reed.

@jess, She made up the CDAN blind item. This is how I know most CDAN blind items is full of sh#@. Random person on the internet spouts something over and over and CDAN picks it up. Their blind items are often fake.

To kmen and others like you:
It is fans like you who are only making it WORSE for the object of your obsession, Kristen Stewart.

Your cries of #bestrongkristen would be more reasonable if you were supporting her despite the fact that she made some bad choices. You know, how you might support a friend by standing by their side when they screw up to help them face their mistakes.

But unfortunely you are trying to support her by making excuses for her bad choices. Through your delusion and immaturity, you are grasping for any ridiculous claim to throw blame on others. Blame that in the real world of grown-ups, sits squarely on the shoulders of Stewart and Sanders.

Calling Pattinson names or referencing the size of his equipment does nothing to convince the world that Stewart is any less of a cheater. It only proves that you have the emotional maturity of a 5th grade girl.

If you must write these things to make yourself feel better, stick to tumblr or your “burn book”.

I don’t buy it was a pr-mance, it was too long of a showmance and too intrusive on their real lives. It could only be a beardship or be real(and who knows what real is behind closed doors, they could have had an open arrangement and she simply messed up getting caught).

I vote for real though, and he had to make an outing at some point to make sure he didn’t look like a crybaby. They’re young, they’ll get over it all soon enough. lol

I don’t think it was planned-planned, I bet it was nice for him to get out with his friends and have fun. He’s been holed up for weeks now when it’s not his fault. But it doesn’t hurt that people see that he’s not slashing his wrists or crying into his pillow though. It’s ridiculous how they are portraying him. Getting cheated on sucks, and having it so public sucks times ten. But they weren’t married, and he’s young, I’m sure he’s dealing with it fine.

I felt sorry for Kristen when the “scandal” first broke, thinking how awful it must feel to truly have made a horrible mistake and then later realizing the implications and what you’ve lost.
If she’s moved in with another man, even if they’re just friends, I no longer feel sorry for her. Even if it were completely innocent, it shows no regard whatsoever for Robert. I’m beginning to think she just wanted out, plain and simple.

The Gio moving story sounds fabricated, he’s only being used cause he tweeted something in her defense. Besides dude is gay with a long term partner and is currently raising three teenaged nephews, one who is severely handicapped. He has no time to play mama bear to a grown girl like Kristen.

yeah i don’t belive that gio story. if he didn’t tweet nonstop about kristen then the media wouldn’t have even known who he was. as for kristen hopefully she is with her parents, and they are giving her some tough love. ger god knows her fans aren’t helping.

OMG Whhhhyy Kristen!!! Whhhhyyy!!! I had to return my Twitlight special addition vampire fangs out of protest. WHHHHHHHHHHYYYYY KRISTEN!! I’m going to find a staircase and throw myself off from the second step!!

Anyone else tired of reading this kind of stuff from the their fans? Take a midol already and chill, lol. Its just a movie and I bet their relationship has been staged this entire time. Kristen got sloppy and stupid. Rob could careless. One less thing for him to lie about. The franchise is all but over and they’ll still make their money.

Is it weird that this whole drama scandal has made him hotter to me? I hate twilight and think its stupid and therefore i disliked Sparkles & Co but he is handling this whole thing remarkably classy so I like him a bit more.

why everybody say rob is single i didn t see any statement from him or from is agent nick or stephanie seeing: rob and kristen have decide to take a break they love each other but……blal bla bla
clearly he want to take his time because it s five years of his life he love her and that s his choice to give her second chance or not
so for me they are still together.
from rob interview:

“It’s my decision who I want to be together with. That’s why my life should be more beautiful with her than without her.” – Robert Pattinson

Supposedly the “moving out” pictures were staged by the paparazzi. Like a pap actually rented his own moving truck and had someone drive it for him so he could take pictures. Don’t know if the “moving out” thing actually happend (not that I care, though. )

Newsflash…Pattinson is doing an interview on Good Morning America on 8/15, the day before Cosmopolis comes out. Stewart could be brought up; good chance she would be; he can’t avoid it forever. Any takers on how he’ll handle this mess?

He’s finally got a reputable film with a iconic director to promote, you honestly think he wants to taint that with anything juicy about his private life? No way-he’ll offer up a vague, I’m doing fine response at most – and I doubt even that, given the fact his team will probably keep it a very controlled interview-maybe even pre-taped.

He is, by all accounts, a good guy (I live in NYC and the papers love him and they’re hard on everyone) and I hope he had a good time and is feeling better. I don’t think Kristen is sitting around crying, either. I think she’s upset at how it all turned out, but she’s too self centered to care about how Rob feels.

Ughh Kristen Stewart grosses me out I so agree with Daria she was pressing her bum into Rupert’s crotch well this is why you spell her name this way: Kristen EWW WART cuz she is a wart who is eww spread the name amigos

I really think this thing has been blown way out of proportion. The R.Patz and K.Stew relationship seemed a little for show anyways. Sure, what K.Stew did was not cool, cheating sucks, but she is 22 years old! She is allowed to make mistakes.Besides, for all we know, as pretty and sweet as R.Patz seems, he could be the worst boyfriend in the world. No one really knows how everything went down. I do not even like her at all and I am saying this. Part of me thinks that the whole relationship with them was just a big PR stunt to fuel the Twihard fire. It just seems that in Hollywood it is completely acceptable for the men to step out on their women, for the men to be sexually free, but if a woman does it, she is a whore. I am not saying cheating should be allowed or anything of the sort, just that sometimes situations are more complicated and the media only reports what will make the most sensational story. It could also just be as simple as, K.Stew was attracted to another man and she screwed up bigtime. Either way, she is a 22 year old hugely famous actress who probably has no clue what she wants and is possibly not ready to settle down with anyone, let alone someone that she is expected to be with by millons of tweens around the world. On the note of R.Patz partying to ease his heartbreak…if I was depressed and my friends took me to a cowboy bar, I think I might become suicidal. That’s just me…