Someone I once loved gave me/ a box full of darkness/ It took me years to understand/ That this, too, was a gift. - Mary Oliver

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finallymefirst♀ 41060Member # 41060

Posted: 9:50 AM, December 14th (Saturday), 2013

Wow Pass.. that was the best compliment ever lol..."great smile, its really nice". Very nice indeed. If u see her again smile and say hi

Posts: 134 | Registered: Oct 2013

nowiknow23♀ 33226Member # 33226

Posted: 9:54 AM, December 14th (Saturday), 2013

Dude - you totally had moments.

You can call me NIK

And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane

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Pass♂ 38122Member # 38122

Posted: 11:39 AM, December 14th (Saturday), 2013

Dude - you totally had moments.

Thanking you for the verification, NIK! The problem is that before The Princess, I was always TOTALLY helpless around women. Had lots of female friends, but the second there was a suggestion of something else (even just in my own mind!), it would scare the hell out of me.

So now I just naturally assume that I'm seeing something that isn't there, and don't want to bother the woman in question.

Wouldn't know how to even start bothering her anyhow.

Maybe I should do a google search for "How to approach women"?

Cheating louse: The Princess
Two sons: Now 13 and 16
DDay: Nov 15/2012
Separated Mar 2/2013 after 17 years married. Will we ever be divorced?

The best thing about hitting rock bottom is that everything after that looks fucking fabulous!

Posts: 3237 | Registered: Jan 2013 | From: Ontario, Canada

k94ever♀ 11176Member # 11176

Posted: 12:16 PM, December 14th (Saturday), 2013

Whatever else you talk about....don't mention you are a banjo player!!!

Yeah.....you had "moments". Perhaps you are the type of guy that needs a lady to hit you on your head with a club and drag you to her cave.......................

Wow. All my Walmart has is a pervasive odor of urine that, inexplicably, was present even on opening day.

(You totally had moments there.)

BS-me, 54; WH (Trac-fone), 55, PD---divorcing
So much for the past and present. The future is called "perhaps," which is the only possible thing to call the future. And the important thing is not to let that scare you--Tennessee Williams

Posts: 14737 | Registered: Jan 2011 | From: midwest

Eranda♀ 6010Member # 6010

Posted: 3:05 PM, December 14th (Saturday), 2013

Don't listen to K9, banjo players are hot

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Posts: 4254 | Registered: Dec 2004 | From: eastern PA

Pass♂ 38122Member # 38122

Posted: 10:25 PM, December 14th (Saturday), 2013

Everyone knows the banjo is the instrument of love - no Deliverance jokes, please!

Cheating louse: The Princess
Two sons: Now 13 and 16
DDay: Nov 15/2012
Separated Mar 2/2013 after 17 years married. Will we ever be divorced?

The best thing about hitting rock bottom is that everything after that looks fucking fabulous!

Posts: 3237 | Registered: Jan 2013 | From: Ontario, Canada

SBB♀ 35229Member # 35229

Posted: 11:54 PM, December 14th (Saturday), 2013

Some people think everyone is hitting on them. Others seem to not notice until they are hit over the head and dragged into a cave.

You seem to fall into the latter category. Yes, these are moments.

Everyone knows the banjo is the instrument of love

I may have reached a point where I'd piss on him if he was on fire.... eventually!!

Posts: 5988 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: Australia

Pass♂ 38122Member # 38122

Posted: 7:58 AM, December 15th (Sunday), 2013

I've never been sure about that stuff, SBB, so I'll just come right out and ask it: Are you hitting on me?

Cheating louse: The Princess
Two sons: Now 13 and 16
DDay: Nov 15/2012
Separated Mar 2/2013 after 17 years married. Will we ever be divorced?

The best thing about hitting rock bottom is that everything after that looks fucking fabulous!

Posts: 3237 | Registered: Jan 2013 | From: Ontario, Canada

SBB♀ 35229Member # 35229

Posted: 8:14 AM, December 15th (Sunday), 2013

^^

There are no Walmarts in Australia. Keep your eye on Walmart, dude!

I may have reached a point where I'd piss on him if he was on fire.... eventually!!

Posts: 5988 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: Australia

Take2♀ 23890Member # 23890

Posted: 8:22 AM, December 15th (Sunday), 2013

So am I to understand that "the department store of love" has an attached "first date coffee house?"

...wait, let me rephrase. Pass, if your luck at Wallie World continues, and you bump into someone that may interest you -- you should consider asking them for an "after shopping" coffee at Micky D's. Gives you a chance to chat a little, decide if you want to ask for her number, and if not you have the "my ice cream is melting" excuse.

"We must be willing to get rid of the life we've planned, so as to have the life that is waiting for us." Joseph Campbell...So, If fear was not a factor - what would you do?

Posts: 4430 | Registered: May 2009 | From: New England

Pass♂ 38122Member # 38122

Posted: 9:29 PM, December 15th (Sunday), 2013

Thanks for the suggestion, Take2. I'll start practicing in front of a mirror:

"Hey, baby. How about a McFlurry?"

Cheating louse: The Princess
Two sons: Now 13 and 16
DDay: Nov 15/2012
Separated Mar 2/2013 after 17 years married. Will we ever be divorced?

The best thing about hitting rock bottom is that everything after that looks fucking fabulous!

Posts: 3237 | Registered: Jan 2013 | From: Ontario, Canada

IrishLass518♀ 34373Member # 34373

Posted: 9:36 PM, December 15th (Sunday), 2013

Pass, I would so fall for the McFlurry line
After, I figured out if I was being hit on.

It's been so long I wouldn't know if a guy was interested unless he gave me a power point presentation with a flow chart and even then I would still ask him if he was serious.