Refuge Recovery Meeting

November 30, 2018 @ 7:15 pm - 8:45 pm

Refuge Recovery is a Buddhist-oriented path to freedom from addiction. This is an approach to recovery that understands: “All individuals have the power and potential to free themselves from the suffering that is caused by addiction.” We feel confident in the power of the Dharma, if applied, to relieve suffering of all kinds, including the suffering of addiction. This is a process that cultivates a path of awakening, the path of recovering from the addictions and delusions that have created so much suffering in our lives and in this world.

Refuge Recovery is a systematic approach to training our hearts and minds to see clearly and respond to our lives with understanding and non-harming. You are entering a way of life that may be familiar to some and foreign to others. In the beginning some of it may seem confusing or counter-instinctual, and some of it is. But you will find that with time, familiarity and experience, it will all make perfect sense and will gradually become a more and more natural way of being.

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Dear Residents and Alumni of Serenity House,

Did your House Manager ever offer you emotional support? Were you ever provided transportation to an important court date or taken to the DMV to get your license? Did any residents you met become true friends? Did other sober living styles not work for you in the past? Has Serenity House helped you in any way?

I am asking that if you said yes to any of these questions, you listen up: SERENITY HOUSE IS IN JEOPARDY and I NEED YOUR HELP.

The Hansen Foundation is in MAJOR Jeopardy of losing everything. This would mean, no more Serenity Houses, Serenity Estates, The Hope Farm, and the Enlightened Cafe. It all began with our sober living house in Somers Point receiving a complaint from a neighbor. This created a 5-year legal battle with the State of New Jersey and just now egregious and ludicrous $594,000 in fines plus legal fees.

After our first NIMBY Somers Point complaint, an inspector came to interview and review the house. They demanded we become “Oxford Like” meaning we would have to remove our supervision including all Recovery Support Specialists and divest ownership interest in the house. What the complainant and inspector didn’t realize is the operational expertise component: what makes Serenity House so successful is the accountability residents have to Recovery Support Specialists, accountability to clean urines, curfews, chores, and the therapeutic value of one resident helping another. The inspector asked me to lie and say that we were running an “Oxford like” residence. Refusing to lie, I have been tirelessly asking for the state to grant reasonable accommodation to the Hansen Foundation in accordance with The Federal Fair Housing Act and American Disabilities Act.

I want to be clear, this is not a money-making endeavor. We try to keep the rent reasonable and we have 3 fundraisers per year to raise the rest of the funds necessary to operate and award some scholarships. We do not get any outside or government funding. I do not personally draw a salary from the Hansen Foundation. This is truly a labor of love. I have used my own money to pay the legal fees to fight for the rights of recovering addicts and the state is using your money, yes, taxpayer’s money, to take away the best sober living houses in the state.

I am asking that you help me to help you and others seeking effective long-term recovery residences by doing the following:

1. Call New Jersey Governor Phil Murphy (609-292-6000 – Email: constituent.relations@nj.gov) and say “We write today with extreme conviction regarding the absurd penalties from Department of Community Affairs on the Hansen Foundation/Serenity House, LLC in the sum of more than $594,000. We adamantly request DCA to either suspend the fines until the Hansen Foundations pending action in the United States District Court in Camden is settled or meet with the Foundation in an attempt to work out an agreement. These fines will bankrupt the Hansen Foundation. If this happens, I will lose my home. This is the best I have ever done in my recovery process and I am asking you to “have my back” and the back of the Hansen Foundation. They are truly addressing the needs of recovering addicts during the worst heroin crisis this state has ever seen. Please don’t allow them to shut down my home.” Feel free to use your own words and personal details.

2. Sign our petition on org titled: “DCA to Grant Hansen Foundation a Reasonable Accommodation” and share it with everyone to get the word out.

3. Follow The Hansen Foundation Facebook for more updates to come.

4. Support the Assembly Bill 3607 to allow for Recovery Residences to be exempted by DCA when certified by NARR (National Alliance of Recovery Residences) affiliate.

I really need all the help I can get.

Sincerest thanks,

Jennifer Hansen

Dear Friends of Hansen Foundation, Inc./Serenity House, LLC,

We need your help! The Hansen Foundation is in MAJOR Jeopardy of losing everything that we’ve worked for since our formation in 2001. This would mean, no more Serenity Houses, Serenity Estates, Hope Farm, and the Enlightened Cafe. It all began with our sober living house in Somers Point receiving a complaint from a NIMBY neighbor. This created a 5-year legal battle with the State of New Jersey, and just now, an egregious and ludicrous fine of $594,000 from the DCA, State of New Jersey.

How did we get to this point? It’s really quite simple: the Federal Fair Housing Act allows group homes to exist without discrimination in any residential zone. Addictions are disabilities and people who suffer from drug or alcohol addictions qualify as having a disability—one of the seven groups cited as worthy of non-discrimination. New Jersey does not align nor comply with the Federal Fair Housing Act and has hence determined that we are “Boarding Houses” and must attain zoning approvals among other requirements. That not only makes the mission impossible with NIMBY mentality, but prohibitively costly. The State inspector demanded we become “Oxford Like” meaning we would have to remove our supervision including all house managers and divest ownership interest in the house. What the complainant and inspector didn’t realize is the operational expertise component: what makes Serenity House so successful is the accountability residents have to Recovery Support Specialists, accountability to clean urines, curfews, chores, and the therapeutic value of one resident helping another. The inspector asked me to lie and say that we were running an “Oxford like” residence. Refusing to lie, I have been tirelessly asking for the state to grant reasonable accommodation to the Hansen Foundation in accordance with The Federal Fair Housing Act and American Disabilities Act.

What will happen if a stay of fines is not granted while litigation continues? Let’s look at the numbers:

– 120 present residents in recovery will potentially be put on the street endangering their recovery and their lives.

– 1,000+ family members and friends will have no peace-of-mind knowing their loved one is safe and learning to live a productive life.

– 5 weekly twelve-step meetings/support groups will have no place to meet

– The Opioid Crisis will have an irreparable setback in our community during this horrific epidemic

I want to be clear, this is not a money-making endeavor. All of the residents pay a reasonable rent and we have 3 fundraisers per year to raise the rest of the funds necessary to operate and award some scholarships. We do not get any outside or government funding. I do not personally draw a salary from the Hansen Foundation. This is truly a labor of love. I have used my own money to pay the legal fees to fight for the rights of recovering addicts and the State is using your money, yes, taxpayer’s money, to take away the best sober living houses in the state. You would think they would be knocking on our doors seeking “Best Practices” instead.

I am asking that you help me to help our community.

1. Call New Jersey Governor Phil Murphy (609-292-6000 – Email: constituent.relations@nj.gov) and say “We write today with extreme conviction regarding the absurd penalties from Department of Community Affairs on the Hansen Foundation/Serenity House, LLC in the sum of more than $594,000. We adamantly request DCA to either suspend the fines until the Hansen Foundations pending action in the United States District Court in Camden is settled or meet with the Foundation in an attempt to work out an agreement. These fines will bankrupt the Hansen Foundation. This is the best my ___________ has ever done in their recovery process and I am asking you to “have our back” and the back of the Hansen Foundation. They are truly addressing the needs of recovering addicts during the worst heroin crisis this state has ever seen. Please don’t allow them to shut down.” Feel free to use your own words and personal details. If you talk to someone, tell them we want the same accommodation they give to Oxford House.