As I said in my post I don't really even give her money anymore. Haven't given anything in over 2 years. Maybe a couple bucks tip if that.

Also I've known her and have loved her for over 17 years. Since in our early teens. It's what makes it hard to walk. But maybe you're just right, I am just the fallback idiot who's the punching bag for her and her life and I should just walk. I surely don't deserve to be NOT respected because I'm easily manipulated because I care for her and her life. If that's her respect meter, than forget her.
Thank you for your time and reply though. It's appreciated CadenceA!