How porn watching women: themselves Directors

Happened: we reached the Western fashion for so-called women’s porn by women for their own arousal. While most countries restrict the consumption of traditional pornography (it’s rare exceptions excites only men), women look at the joy of sex even doctors approve (and not only sexologists, and gynecologists-endocrinologists). They believe that a new genre will help men to find the right intimate approach to the woman. Correspondent “MK” listened to those “women’s porn” has helped in bed and in life, and tested its effect on themselves.

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Anna Karenina on pornold or Lady gives head

— A man and a woman want each other in different ways, explained to us sexologist Andrew Belenin. — A man wants sometimes, but actively. And a woman always, but passive, and can be awaken at any time. But most men do not know how to do it. Because of men’s ignorance, women deprived of satisfying their lovemaking, which affects their quality of life and status of women’s health. And the degradation of “a female part” in the end, leads to a deterioration of the demographic situation in a country where men think only of themselves. That’s why female porn approve of gynecologists and endocrinologists. If a woman regularly gets a full sexual arousal and subsequent satisfaction, she “jumps” a hormonal background, and hence unstable mood and gynecological problems. Alas, moralizers often forget that sexual intercourse is not only playful theme and an important component of our health. About men in this regard says everything: what threatens them abstinence or no discharge. And about women like you’ve forgotten: decent ladies on the lack of fun in bed not complaining. Western feminists disagreed, they were supported by doctors, and as a result, the Network broke out the fashion on female porn.

THEY HAVE

Newfangled pornography for women initially find the help of a female, removing the “live” sex ordinary people as unvarnished, and without exaggerated passion. The rollers gradually developed into short films and even full away “about it” and was called “lady porn” (hereinafter ha). A distinguishing feature of the genre: women make movies for women, but about intimacy with men.

Some of the novelty has already managed to do a good service. And it’s not just men who allegedly “had no idea” that the woman is not electric and cannot be reheated to the intima one click.

— I divorced my husband 10 years ago, — says 42-year-old Mila (name changed). Thought that with time will marry again, waiting for “Prince”. But there were only men who wanted sex. It was impossible for me, I have lived all my life with the belief that the first advances, and then everything else. Although some of my friends insisted that they have a serious relationship was born out of spontaneous sex. And one even married a man who drunk herself to the windowsill during the event. It for her even with his wife divorced. Since my friend is sure: the idea that “men don’t appreciate women who give them immediately,” invented rivals. In fact men hold right once conceded to them of women, considering what hit them at first sight. They are convinced that for a long time to marinate these macho dudes as they are capable of only self-interested or frigid. And “Bystronic” is the surest way to screw anyone.

Mila is still considered “bystreets” animal mating, degrading woman. While the girlfriend, almost desperate to convince her, not sent her a link to the ZHP:

I said, “eww, that’s disgusting, why would I?!” But the friend explained that even though it is pornography, but for women. There is also all like that, but as women’s language. I began to look and suddenly became interested, even feel excited, what to me have not happened. During the actual intimacies with a man I’m usually so tense that are not excited. Just think about how not to fail the mission. And even hated “bystreets” — a sudden and with new friends in the women’s direction no accidental mating! The game is preceded by her eyes, graceful gestures, casually dropped the words… There was a scene at the ball where the heroine came with her husband and a hero with mom. Almost “Anna Karenina”, if you compress the history of the convergence of the characters to one ball. In the film, he seduces her during a tango — very nice!

Mila admits that it was involved in viewing ZHP I realized that the attitude of “sudden” sex that depends on her.

I suddenly realized that in rejecting men who want to start directly with sex, I deprive myself. As my friend joked: “About every regret, every!” Fortunately, I turned up a suitable case. I teach at courses of improvement of qualification. And somehow noticed that one of the students looks at me with interest. To explore the ZHP I would have looked away. And then told him the same watchful look in his eyes… In General, on coffee break that listener made love in the archive, directly into piles of old theses…

Despite the fact that scenes from “strawberries” for women inspired by her, Mila was mentally prepared for the fact that after an Orgy in the archive of her new friend disappear from her life. But he called and called Mila in the theater. Now, according to the woman, they meet, but their romance develops backwards: started with sex, continued an acquaintance at the theatre, and the flowers Anton brought on a third date, when he invited Mila to the Park.

— “Female” and “male” porn is the visualization of male and female erotic fantasies, which we crossed, the only question is the presentation of the material, explains sexologist Andrew Belenin. For example, rape fantasize, both men and women, but visualize the scene in different ways. Accordingly, the picture they give birth is different: women are more sensitive, men are more physiological. What we usually mean by “pornography”, a product exclusively for men. No wonder people say: women sex starts in the head, while men in the head. Because of its purely physiological nature of the male libido comes and goes, so they are trying to implement it as soon as possible before it’s gone. And a woman wants a man as her libido speculative and lies in her head, but only in a latent (sleeping) state.

A large sex difference

— I have a very beautiful wife, younger than me by 18 years — said the 44-year-old Yegor (names have been changed). — Before our wedding, which was a year ago, Vick led free lifestyle: men fought for her attention, and some she refused. But I’m not a prude to look at the past. I am 43 years old married for the first time to prefer an open relationship — even long novels not start, maximum of a month. And given Vicino sex appeal and experience, I was sure that the sex we have is a hurricane! Before marriage all was well. But as soon as we live under the same roof, Vika began under various pretexts to shirk intimacy. But if it happened, her reaction was very sluggish. I felt that my wife does not want intimacy, and I, too, once the fuse was missing.

Yegor is a handsome man in excellent physical shape. And to deny him the affection may just not loving his wife. But Victoria insisted that she loves the husband, just can not tune into intimacy with him. Both wanted to save their marriage, so went the advice of a sex therapist, where he learned the cause of their bodily differences. Egor for many years remained a bachelor, preferring the short-term sex. A mistress at first, trying to please the man, silently taking his “model” of sex. And only in a stable relationship a woman can overcome the embarrassment and tell your partner what turns her on, actually, what she take pleasure in. And egorís wife, although before her marriage and was formally free, but had permanent lovers older than myself. For various reasons to get married they couldn’t, but was interested in keeping a young mistress — and therefore tried very hard. And because after a certain age natural prowess in men is partially kompensiruet experience and knowledge of what women need, then Victoria came to the legal marriage, already spoilt by the caresses of experienced partners. And from the “impudence” of the spouse do not have time not only to get excited, but even mentally tune in to sex. Fun as it may sound, the family of Egor and Vicky saved ZHP. The specialist advised the couple to see the “female gaze” to have sex together — and it worked. If a man loves his woman and seeks to make it pleasant, even a little hint is enough. It is believed that the man who grasped the difference between male and female porn, now can easily set up sex any woman.

— Theoretically, in every healthy woman at any time and under any circumstances to awaken a sexy beast, it is only necessary to recreate the correct picture, says sexologist. — And what men can learn from women’s porn. Recommended ZHP and watching paired his visuals excites a woman and a man “gets” kind of excited women.

According to experts, in contrast to men, female sexuality is closer to the so-called petting (mutual affection without penetration). Therefore, physiological male porn often produces delicate woman the opposite effect, but the female, on the contrary, helps her to realize and accept his sexuality.

— In the “male” (traditional) porn are not only male fantasies, and fears of liability, explains sexologist Andrew Belenin. — Why men like to think that all women, like themselves, from time to time uncontrollably want a purely physiological impersonal intercourse, but some women hide it. Therefore, prima male porn active nymphomaniac, shamelessly enjoy their own depravity, or LinkRunner receiving a secret pleasure from the rough rape. Such a handy “feed material” the stronger sex relieves from responsibility for its attitude to the woman in any debacle — if he’s too fast, drunk, weak, rough, married, etc. and in the female porn, everything is exactly the opposite.

Female porn no doubt!

Revealed to the world the phenomenon of ZHP 40-year-old Swede, Erika lust, a political scientist, sociologist and feminist. Their pornoseite she calls “the film adaptation of novels about love, from not deleted sex scenes”. The team Erica all girls, operators, scriptwriters and other staff at the site. Men are invited to take on the role of men. The first attempt brought Eric a success in Europe. For several years it has become popular worldwide and is actively trading their tapes via the Internet: Erica 2 million podeschi, and they constantly complain that the content they are sorely lacking. And this in a world where in General for online porn pay only 3% of users! Eric has been practicing interactive communication with their podeschi: ladies send her their fantasies, and the team of Erica their beautifully filmed. Sometimes subscribers will Erica’s wish to star in her production, and producer and Director of miss lust they are not failing. Ladies in the Network instantly appreciated the boon, and their opinions gave rise to a public debate:

“We need a private female porn! Men remove a terrible punishment sex (sex-punishment — eng.), 3/4 women need an erotic movie, but can’t find any of the content for themselves. So “strawberry” for women should take only women. And the operator is certainly female because male is the operator during the act of love takes the wrong decisions.”

“The difference between our “porn” best reflects the difference between a man and a woman! Men’s unaesthetic and often of low quality. And the woman is also to blame, not excited by scenes where sex is used electric drill, the handle switching speeds in cars and other men’s delusions that allow them to feel like giants even with a non-working member. If a man is suddenly opposed to pornography, he was applauded and called a “deeply moral”. If a woman objects, it is immediately recorded in the frigid bigots! And we, women, need sex, and stimulating movie, but without the abuse of the female body. And the male porn still generates an incorrect attitude toward sex among young people and condemns the girls suffering when guys try to repeat what he saw in reality. So the women instead of the joy of physical contact with men develop neuroses, depression, and frigidity”.

Check the effect of the much-vaunted “women’s strawberries” on yourself. After watching a couple of scenes and make the following conclusions.

“Strawberry” women’s production really starts, because shields is a woman’s fantasy with all the details and nuances. The picture is sensual and beautiful, and all plots are relationships, even if they occur after sex.

From what I saw, female sexuality, the responsibility is also useless, and title of the female fantasy from it successfully delivers: “I’m Innocent, he came… But was very even!”

Porn female crossed with a male, in fact: he took her almost violently, she resisted, but she liked it. Strong male desire turns women on, but women’s eyes it seems otherwise. For comparison the stage of “Dating” and demonstrate the desire in the male and female porn. Male version: on the side of the blonde leaning over the engine of his stalled car. Compassionate motorist slows down near the target to help: first, he without further ADO “turns” very blonde, and then taken for the motor… Female version: bus crush the stranger’s hand confidently enters the girl’s skirt, but the lady is so uptight crowd that he could not even move… companion, the person whose character does not see, persistently fondles her several stops until she, exhausted from desire, not turning to face him… And then between them it’s about love and already conscious enjoyment of each other.

In the women’s version of porn is not such men as in the male. In DGP not to remove the close-up shows depicting the passion of the actors with implausible sizes of genitals. Camera carefully, like a woman, watching how they make love the ordinary people. As awakens and inflames their desire for mutual possession, as a growing passion and how the final.

The main idea of the ZHP, despite the fact that it is not a romance for the girls: if you have sympathy, you have to remove fear and inhibitions and ignite a desire in themselves and in a partner. And if physical love is failed, the pair has a chance to build a harmonious relationship on all other levels. No wonder that privates are called “causal” or “Bible” is the cornerstone, from them all begins.

Women know what they want from men, says the sexologist. — Many are given to the body, but in my head them sitting driven education protest — and the true excitement they have not come. And viewing women’s porn will enable women to realize and accept their sexual fantasies, and men — to understand what is waiting for them, a woman.

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