Well before I start on my tangent on unwanted advice on life (and I'm full of it). I'll tell you a little about myself. Incase you haven't read my other blog, spaghettisrunningout.blogspot.com I am a 28 year old mother of 2. I am married to absolutely the most wonderful man I have ever known and I have a 9 year old step son. I work full time, I'm a gamer, writer, and scrapbooker. I also have an addiction to myspace as well as the parenting group I've ran since March of 2003. I'm sure there is more because I never get to bed on time, but that is all I can think of for right now.

What prompted me to do yet another blog? I certaintly don't have enough time!! Well for one thing- I think I'm full of a lot of good things I'd like to share. I enjoy writing and I think what I have to say is actually beneficial (if people read what I write).

I have been married and divorced and remarried. I have had my heart shattered and I didn't think I could heal, but I did. Relationships and marriage IS hard work. When I was going through my difficult time a lot of people were there for me and helped me out, but it was in the dark cold nights that was the hardest. When I needed advice, but didn't have any.

I have been through a lot with my children and I think I'm a "seasoned" mom. This past year I think I have known close to a dozen friends and acquaintences that have had or are expecting babies. It funny how all these people go to each other for support and questions, but no one has asked me anything. Am I really that far out of the loop? Maybe I'm jealous. So I thought I'd post my own unsolicited advice. I know it's been years (literally) since I have had babies, but there are some things that never change.