I'm 14 weeks and I couldn't feel less attractive and i am showing help!!

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Mommies are SOoooooo HOT! I love the thought of my wife being pregnant with our first child, let alone that she really is pregnant and now at 14 weeks starting to show...WooHoo!!! I notice she comments on not feeling pretty, and that is when I remind her how happy she has made me. And did I mention how sexy pregnant women are. You just remember that if it wasn't for mommies, there wouldn't be sexy women, or guys to find them sexy!

I am also fourteen weeks and am barely showing. My baby bump is starting to form but most people just assume I am gaining weight. My advice is do not let the pregnancy blahs get to you. Still do your make up and hair as you would before your pregnant. You obviously are a attractive woman otherwise you would not be 14 weeks pregnant :)

I am fourteen weeks and have gained a little weight as well. My advice is to go out and buy yourself a new outfit that makes you feel more comfortable, yet still makes you feel cute. There are TONS of cute maternity clothes and just having something nice on helps so much.

There is definitely that awkward part of pregnancy where you feel like you are just getting fat instead of looking pregnant. Its hard. As women, we already have to deal with body issues-let alone when we are pregnant. It helped me to combat the negative feelings by imagining that my baby was a girl. And I kept focusing on the positives-that I want my daughter to grow up with a healthy image of her body. I don't want to impart any negatives on her. And if its a boy, for him to have an understanding and appreciation of how beautiful a woman's body is-no matter the size. Still, it is hard. Don't let comments affect you. Because someone is going to tell you that you are getting too big, while someone else is going to tell you that you are too small. Every pregnancy is different, and every woman's body is different. The one thing that we all have in common as pregnant women is that our bodies are nurturing a new life, and without all the changes, this miracle couldn't happen!

I'm 14 wks and getting huge also. It looks like I ate Thanksgiving dinner three days in a row!It's annoying because I KNOW not all of that is my baby, it must be bloating. I was already a little overweight with a gut, but I'm not that bad and still have a figure (really and truly), but it looks like how I look after I go on a devouring spree. I'm also nausious as crap and I haaaaate it.

I am also 14 weeks and also showing. To help my self esteem i got a hair cut and a pedicure. It also helped to know that i am not just big there is something making me big. So go do something nice for your self and remember your beautiful.

I'm 14 weeks along and I feel exactly the same! I've broken out in zits and I'm showing, but its mostly fat right now. I always tell my boyfriend how gross I feel or look and he always comforts me and calls me beautiful. Sometimes when I feel especially ugly I go all out, I put on a cute outfit, I do my makeup and hair and then I see myself looking a lot better than I felt earlier!

I am not quite 14 weeks yet, im only 10 weeks. However, I was a little puggy before i got pregnant, and i am still starting to show. I keep telling my fiancee that I feel repulsive and he keeps telling me that if i were repulsive then i would not be pregnant. When I start feeling ugly, I just look in the mirror, and tell myself that i am a beatuiful, strong woman who is about to have a baby, and that my child needs me to be strong. That usually helps me, a little self motivation. If that don't work, my fiacee bringing me roses and chocolate and pickles does. That and his 4 year old son telling me that im pretty usually do the trick.

oh quit it! :) Its a blessing to be pregnant! There are alot of women that can get pregnant and really want to really bad. You should wear your belly as a badge of honor, I mean you are CREATING LIFE inside of you! I know I was so excited to start showing and I am a balloon with twins at 16wks. I think pregnant bellys are the cutest thing. Remember it doesnt last forever! And you dont have to suck in for 9 months! Thats always a +

Pregnancy is such an amazing time. Embrace it. You may not feel attractive but most people find women to be most attractive during pregnancy. Getting some maternity clothes that show off your bump may make you feel better.

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