The time has now come for you to face things head on and deal with them :) You can sit back quietly in the hopes that he tells you what you'd like to hear or you can be all grown up about it and tell him how YOU feel and where you'd like it to go.

Oh boy, how complicated we sometimes like to make things. The answer is simply to do what you feel feels right. If you feel like calling him then, call him. If you go on a date with him and don't feel a spark, tell them that you don't feel a connection.

Mine was a girl I met years ago! Even though we loved each other, I knew she would always go from job to job as she would always tire of them. What I remember most about her is that the sex was GREAT!!!

I hear your point of view and considered the same things. I had even asked a question here wondering if someone would “show me the light” but alas, I was essentially told that I was correct in my belief.

What is that belief? No one has shown me ANY p-r-o-o-f as there is is, stories passed from person to person. But NONE of it has any proof behind it.