To get what you want, you must know what you want

One person came to me and told me that I have never been able to accomplish anything in life and I feel my life is wasted. It was strange to hear from a 50 year old person who is running a business but his argument was that this he got in legacy. I asked him, ok what do you want can you make a list and he did not know. He kn ew, he did not want this, but he didnt know what he wanted. Similarly, one 25 year old guy came to me and told me, that he is confused and that is why he is unable to move ahead in life. I asked him to write down the description of how he wants his life to be. Certainly at this age priorities are different. He said I want an ideal life partner and the next obvious question was whats ideal for you and he was blank after that. It took him some time to define what his ideal partner can be like, which made him smile after that. He realised that he was not clear about what he wanted and thats why he was unable to move ahaed. If you are unable to decide, you would keep accepting whatever is there. With your ambiguous thoughts, results also would be ambiguous.

Once I met a person, who said that I wrote down 10 points which I want in my life partner and my wife has 9 points out of that. He said I am happy because I know I asked for this. Most of the times, we want everything but we are unable to decide out of that everything actually what we want. Its law of attraction, you get what you think about and if you do not think about you get what you always think about even if its an ambiguous thought process as you are creating your world every moment with your thoughts. So in life, whatever you want you can have, but first ahve the clarity, what you want. So that you can create what you want. Once I remember we had infact written to the extent that what type of customers we want and we started getting similar types. So you can have what you want if you know what you want. Choice is yours, you want to complain or you want to sit and think what actually you want.