If you think you are not genetically favored in being handsome you don’t have anything to feel disadvantaged and worried about. Building self confidence isn’t a privilege that only people with great genes have.

Everyone can learn how to build self confidence and use this confidence to succeed in life, get a lot of women or make a lot of money.

How Is That Possible?

The problem lies mostly in your state of mind and your internal beliefs about how you should look to be considered good-looking.

Let’s look at two of the most common things that affect self confidence in men which are:

Height

Hair

Being short, bald or both can be a hard pain in the ass stomach for every man.

That’s because the nature of these two characteristics is determined by our genes and there is nothing (or little) that can be done to change them.

When you reach your last level of body development you have acquired a certain height. This will follow you for the rest of your life. It can’t be changed.

Regarding hair, the problem lies in a hereditary disease known as “male pattern baldness” or “androgenetic alopecia”.

Men typically suffer from hairline recession mostly in the areas of the temples and vertex. Until today there is no way to cure this disease except hair transplant and usage of some hair treatments like minoxidil.

Depending on the person, baldness can be reversed in a certain degree with continuous hair transplants and daily usage of minoxidil and other treatments.

But if you want to heal it properly, you will probably need thousands of dollars.

You will also face lot of disappointment, frustration and lack of self-esteem in the progress. That’s why it’s important to focus on other things before.

How Building Self Confidence Is Possible, Even If Your Genes Suck.

These “bad genetics” of yours can make you feel inferior. You develop an inferiority syndrome, they destroy your confidence and ruin your social life. Horrible… I know.

If you don’t know what body language is or if you ignored its significance in the past, it’s the right time to lear about it:

How you feel is hugely interdependent with the way your carry yourself on the outside.

When feeling shy and insecure you subconsciously take stances and poses that take less space. When you feel confident and strong you take wider and more dominant poses.

If you want to take the first step to building self confidence you should try to consciously take more dominant poses. This will change the way you feel completely over the long run. [1]

It will also change the way other people perceive you.

How you carry your body gives other people clues to make specific judgments about you. Either positive or negative. This affects the way these people react towards you.

Your body posture changes your mind → your mind changes the way you act → the way you act changes the outcome of your communications.

Experiments have shown that “faking it” by maintaining a proper dominant and extroverted pose for just 2 minutes reduces cortisol (stress hormone).

Here is another interesting thing:

Experiments in people who got into a job interview have shown that the people who took more powerful poses, had extroverted stance and body language BEFORE entering for the interview were eventually chosen for the job.

The ones who had taken submissive poses just for 5 minutes before entering for the interview, were rejected.

Do you understand the importance of having dominant body language?

Conclusion

If someone is more genetically favored than you, you shouldn’t feel disadvantaged.

Your “bad genetics” are a gift if you choose to use them as a motive, as fuel to develop the 4 traits that were mentioned above.

Personality – Style – Physique – Body Language

These are the most significant traits for building confidence and can compensate for your “bad genetics”. They can make your genes seem as insignificant as a needle in a bowl of spaghetti.

Development of those four aspects can help you stand out in the crowd and feel confident, wise, self-reliant, powerful and dominant.

It’s up to you to decide whether you are going to whine for your “disadvantages” or use them as a mean to improve.

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