I disagree with the concept that everything happens for a reason. I think that everything just happens and we give it meaning by our response to what happens. The river flows with fresh water. We give it meaning by taking a bucket and collecting the water to drink, otherwise, if we let it flow without […]

The search for truth is the eternal and elusive pursuit of many people. These truth seekers often believe in one or both of these concepts; Destiny and the Law of Attraction. Finding truth requires a totally objective view of all things and the removal of all fixed opinions. This is actually logical and indisputable because […]

If it’s meant to be, it will be. That is the premise behind destiny. Many people either believe, or would like to believe in destiny, but it usually turns out to be an excuse for your mistakes or to avoid making decisions and taking action. What is destiny? The idea that your whole life is […]

Choose your goal, whatever you want, then think about what do you need to have or be or change in order to get what you want. What is the step before or requirement to getting your goal, and the step before that, etc. Personally, I want to be enlightened. To do that I need to […]

It all begins with your attitude, however attitude is not necessarily what you think it is, so please read on. You must of course believe that you have something of quality to offer, something of value that you can provide to the work or person you desire to be with. This is not always something […]

Why people cannot get motivated or why people cannot find anything to do is a common question. I think one reason for some people is because they actually do not want to have anything they love and enjoy to do that they can become attached to. The avoidance of attachment is stronger than the desire […]

If you find you have perpetual chain of problems in your life, it may be because you need to have problems, not just because you have bad luck. Self Pity is probably the most common negative emotion that everyone has. Everyone has it to some degree, even if you do not notice it. Every time […]

Everything in life has a cost. The more valuable a thing, the higher the cost. The type of currency to pay for each thing differs depending on what it is you want to acquire. It could be time, money, sacrifice or effort of some sort. Determine what you want. It could be many things, and […]

The reason why I want to fail is the same reason I want to succeed. Satori, Enlightenment, Nirvana, different names but all the same thing, the experience of enlightenment, if even for a moment. The state of total bliss and freedom, unity with all things, if you like, God. This is the state that I […]

There is a great power in the concept of the law of attraction, which has also been expressed in terms such as ‘magnetic centre’, ‘attractive force’, ‘the power of the mind’, and many others. The danger of the modern concept of the law of attraction (loa) is that it professes that you have incredible power, […]