justcallmefierce: Oh yeah! Totally. I feel you OP. That’s why we’re eloping. But you did it. Your hard work is about to pay off in just a month. It’ll be super exciting to see how special your big is, and you’ll be happy you went through some of the hassels. Congrats to you both!! Hope you put recaps up so we can see 🙂

I got over it in the months leading up to my wedding, too. I was telling people left and right, “just elope!” But everything was really worth it in the end. It was truly the happiest day of our lives and I would do it all over again in a heartbeat. I’m sure you’ll feel the same way. Take a break here and there and don’t do anything wedding related, it really helps. Good luck! You’re so close!!

I’ve got 15 days to go and I am SO OVER IT. Every conversation we have, every person we talk to…they all ask about it. I’m so tired of talking about it, looking at proposals, schedules, etc. I cannot wait for our lives to move on and not be consumed by our wedding.

So Im not alone. I was working on my PhD dissertation while planning so wedding planning was actually fun and provided a great break from intense writing. Since I’ve completed my dissertation, I have been consumed by the details….now I cant wait for the day to come so we can celebrate with fam and friends.

justcallmefierce: I can tell you in hindsight that the details won’t matter and they’re not what will make your day amazing. It’s the love of your husband and closest friends and family. So try not to let that consume you too much!