Just thinking about it, back in the day I would have gone for a guy whose profile said "interested in fitness, sport, travel, adventure" or something along those lines, not realizing that that usually translates into stereotypical douchebag, or simply "not interested in a real relationship."

I should have been looking for "Likes to play video games till 3 am, watch all the latest movies and eat popcorn on the couch, and prefer Marvel to DC."

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Last contact I had with him was to tell him to go direct to hell, don't pass go or collect £200 monopoly money.

Had to block him on facebook, he'd be all "please give me another chance" then if I let him have one final chance he'd mess about. Another man I was going to meet would do similar, in his case he did the ultimatum thing "meet up with me or sod off" and the day he insisted upon there's no transport from where I live cause the buses are utter crap and I can't drive.

Sounds like this guy has you in a codependent relationship with him, hope you can see that he really wants you to be his mother and not his lover if you know what I mean?

But then again it seems nowadays lotta men have mommy issues and want a woman to coddle them and what makes it even worse is that it seems women enable this type of behavior.

Sounds like this guy has you in a codependent relationship with him, hope you can see that he really wants you to be his mother and not his lover if you know what I mean?

But then again it seems nowadays lotta men have mommy issues and want a woman to coddle them and what makes it even worse is that it seems women enable this type of behavior.

So telling him to sod off is enabling him? I'm confused

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Remember though a lot of men still appreciate when women take the time to look nice before they go out in public.

That's another thing I've noticed too about both men and women these days, nobody takes the time to dress nice or groom themselves before going out in public. We're regressing as a whole.

Personally, I don't care about wearing the latest fashion, I wear what's comfortable

The fact that the only clothes of mine that are not covered in cat hair from my girls is my work uniform don't bother me, personally I don't have the time to go through all my clothes and use a lint roller to remove every trace of cat hair so if men can't deal with cat hair I consider it to be their problem, not mine

I mean, I do brush excess cat hair off my clothes like when Tigger's been having a cuddle on my lap but I don't get rid of literally every single strand of cat hair from what I'm wearing (and Tigger's the one who sheds the most) Ebony don't like laps so the only place I get cat hair on my clothes from Ebony is my jeans when she rubs round to say hello <3