Why are some of the men even on this site? I won,t say names but wish I could to warn some ladies that are seriously looking for the right 1. I met a man (as I choke to say man) everything was awsome, the rides, the fun we had, etc.. then without a word he was gone... no calls no messages nothing.. finally made contact with him.. his answer? LOL "I liked you to much so I got scared and ran" (so we slowed it down to no communication at all) so anyways if your profile says your looking for LTR, then why do you blow us off when everything is good? I won,t lose sleep over this man but it sure has me confused..

Why are some of the men even on this site? I won,t say names but wish I could to warn some ladies that are seriously looking for the right 1. I met a man (as I choke to say man) everything was awsome, the rides, the fun we had, etc.. then without a word he was gone... no calls no messages nothing.. finally made contact with him.. his answer? LOL "I liked you to much so I got scared and ran" (so we slowed it down to no communication at all) so anyways if your profile says your looking for LTR, then why do you blow us off when everything is good? I won,t lose sleep over this man but it sure has me confused..

I'm still a bit new to this site....LOL.....but finding this to be quite true.....feeling confused....and wondering if maybe I should just forget this whole on-line dating site thing....LOL.....but I have to have faith that there are some great men out there...who won't "disappear".....and can still be real :)
Cheers to all my biker friends :)
Dust

It may sound like an easy question to answer, but I guess it's not. I can only speak for myself, but the reason I'm here is to find a woman to share my life with. I don't run, I don't complicate things with drama or games. Those who do sometimes have a good reason but don't communicate well, or at all. How was the communication in the beginning with this guy? I've been fortunate in my past long-term relationships that I had women who were very open and honest with their feelings. I have also had a few who were not. It's not just the guys. I think the important thing to remember here is, don't go down with the bat on your shoulder. He threw you a curve ball and you swung and missed. That doesn't mean that the next pitch isn't going to a be a strike that you'll hit over the fence! (thought a baseball analogy would work this time of year...lol). We can't love right every time...or even half the time. But when it works, it's so fantastic that we forget about all the misses. So stay in there ready to swing, just choose your pitches more carefully. It makes a lot of difference between striking out and hitting a homer. I do wish you all good luck with it.

Why are some of the men even on this site? I won,t say names but wish I could to warn some ladies that are seriously looking for the right 1. I met a man (as I choke to say man) everything was awsome, the rides, the fun we had, etc.. then without a word he was gone... no calls no messages nothing.. finally made contact with him.. his answer? LOL "I liked you to much so I got scared and ran" (so we slowed it down to no communication at all) so anyways if your profile says your looking for LTR, then why do you blow us off when everything is good? I won,t lose sleep over this man but it sure has me confused..

Why are some of the men even on this site? I won,t say names but wish I could to warn some ladies that are seriously looking for the right 1. I met a man (as I choke to say man) everything was awsome, the rides, the fun we had, etc.. then without a word he was gone... no calls no messages nothing.. finally made contact with him.. his answer? LOL "I liked you to much so I got scared and ran" (so we slowed it down to no communication at all) so anyways if your profile says your looking for LTR, then why do you blow us off when everything is good? I won,t lose sleep over this man but it sure has me confused..

You should have picked a better person. Mosst of the guys here are good guys. Try again.

cruisergurl write: There is no mr/ms. right out there. I think everybody has a idea of what they want or are looking for. sometimes we pass up a good one because we don't like his looks, weight, yada yada. I think that everybody needs to meet a lot of people. you just never know when 2 people might click. and if you don't, there is no reason that you can't be friends. I think it's great to have a lot of friends. you go to biker rally's and meet up with many people you met before. It could be one great time for all. So I say, start out as friends and expect nothing at all. we set expectations too high sometimes. just let it happen.

Amen to that !! You're a wise person !!!
It's easy but we humans like to complicate it !!!

Why are some of the men even on this site? I won,t say names but wish I could to warn some ladies that are seriously looking for the right 1. I met a man (as I choke to say man) everything was awsome, the rides, the fun we had, etc.. then without a word he was gone... no calls no messages nothing.. finally made contact with him.. his answer? LOL "I liked you to much so I got scared and ran" (so we slowed it down to no communication at all) so anyways if your profile says your looking for LTR, then why do you blow us off when everything is good? I won,t lose sleep over this man but it sure has me confused..

Why are some of the men even on this site? I won,t say names but wish I could to warn some ladies that are seriously looking for the right 1. I met a man (as I choke to say man) everything was awsome, the rides, the fun we had, etc.. then without a word he was gone... no calls no messages nothing.. finally made contact with him.. his answer? LOL "I liked you to much so I got scared and ran" (so we slowed it down to no communication at all) so anyways if your profile says your looking for LTR, then why do you blow us off when everything is good? I won,t lose sleep over this man but it sure has me confused..