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Monday, June 27, 2011

Most guys ask me about blogs like ASG for other cities -- LA, SF, DC or Chicago. Unfortunately, I don't know of sites like AGS for those places (I do have posts for parties in Philadelphia). Now I've heard about a hot party in Washington, DC. I don't get to DC very often, but trying to think of reasons now! Here's the info the host sent me...

OPEN MINDED EVENTS (Washington, DC -- DuPont Circle). Parties are for guys in their 20’s, 30’s, and 40’s. men who identify as gay, bisexual, and bi-curious are all welcome. Parties occur regularly - some during a weekday lunch, some after a work day, and some at night. The parties involve kissing, fucking, sucking... good hot action between men. most parties are open ended, vanilla-type play, although occasionally a party will have a kink or fetish theme (like underwear, bondage, or watersports). The events are held in a private apartment in the Dupont Circle neighborhood, located in NW Wash, DC. Check out the website for more info... http://openmindedevents.blogspot.com

Dudes--if you missed the BOXERS AND BRIEFS PARTY on Sunday night -- the combined party for NYJOCK and GOLDEN BOYS USA, you missed an amazing scene. Besides the fact that both NYJP and GBU already have some of the hottest guys on their lists -- it was also the night of PRIDE DAY -- so many out of town guys, and to top that there was a NUBIAN DUKES party following in the same space. Many of the NUBIAN DUKES guys showed up early -- so there was an overabundance of hot, hot African-American guys.

I never thought I say this, but for a while there were TOO MANY GUYS. The space was so packed it was difficult to fuck, and even hard to bend down and suck dick. If I had to guess, I'd bet they had at least 200 guys. And fuck -- what guys! Incredible hard bodies, muscle guys, jocks, and some guys, who could be A&F models: the view was incredible. Again, the main problem is that many, MANY of the guys are not really there to FUCK. One of my fuckbuddies who goes there said he is always surprised how many dudes just get a drink at the bar and wander around to watch the scene. Granted -- there's lots of eye candy. But guys, it's a sex party! Have sex! Sometimes it feels like your at a bar with a bunch of naked guys listening to the music, and then some dude starts to suck your dick, and you go, oh right, sex party!

The most bizarre part of the night was when some dude passed out on the big bed in the back room. Some dude told ma later that he was there for half an hour with guys fucking next to him on the bed, and no one noticed. I was fucking some Latino dude on the bed by the wall when I saw the host with a flash light trying to revive the guy. For a second everyone stopped, and watched. I though for a second that he was dead, and I thought "oh, shit." Good news is that the guy was fine, but it was an interesting moment.

One more point: Guys, don't be such assholes. I'm not attracted to some of the guys there too, but you can just walk away and make it clear you're not interested without making the other guy feel like a total loser. I was getting sucked off on the bed, and this other guy next to me reach out to some asshole to jo his dick. The bastard actually slapped this dude's hand away. Are you fucking kidding me? What a loser! And the funny thing is that the guy next to me was much hotter, than the asshole (who knows what his problem was). I pulled the guy over to me, and he happily joined us. Guys, we're all brothers in arms--have some fucking kindness. It's supposed to be fun.

LAST THING -- the party also made me wonder WHY some party like NYJP does team up every so often with NUBIAN DUKES to have really hot party -- maybe once a year inter-racial fuck-a-thon special party. Many guy's fantasy come true! Come on guys -- give it a shot!!!!

Sunday, June 26, 2011

Monday...JACKS OF COLOR (Chelsea) "JUNE PRIDE MASSAGE-&-PLAY MONDAY PARTY!" Doors 7:00 to Midnight, goes 'til 2 am; A New York City Club For Men of Color "And Their Friends." Has HUGE parties 70-120 guys attend, all ages. An older mixed crowd/for average guys. Email here JacksOfColor@Gmail.com or check out www.jacksofcolor.com

MUSCLE GROUP ( West Harlem/w140s) In small studio apartment. This small sex party really runs the gamut from hot guys to very average dudes. Usually have 4-10 guys attend – 20-40YOs. Have parties at random, but often on Mondays, 9pm-11pm. The best thing about this party is that it's one of the true orgies. At most parties guys are having sex one-one-one or threesomes--at MUSCLE GROUP there is more often than not a pile of guys fucking and sucking off each other. Also cool, because it's FREE. Two problems: You never know who will be there--sometimes no hot guys, sometimes no one but you and the host. A racially mixed crowd/for very hot to average guys.*Send pics & Stats to: BIHUNKGROUP@aol.com

FOOTMENNYC and TOUCH PARTY GUYS (Chelsea). 8pm - 2am. Not really a full-flegded sex party, but you get…Free Full-Body Massage provider all night, and Curtained play-spaces for your pleasure. Held at The Eagle (28th St., btwn 10th & 11th Aves.) $10 cover, includes drink ticket (21 years old and over). The private party is on the 2nd floor and the roof.Check out the website http://www.FootMenNYC.com

Tuesday…THE CLUB HOUSE ORGIES (East Village). NEW LOCATION. 8pm-1am. Tonight is PEAK party: This dude loves theme parties and has a few a week, such as ERUPTIÖN (primarily for bb); PEÄK (Safe Sex Party); COCK4LUNCH (afternoon sex); FÜSION (Baseball-style wristbands to let guys know if you prefer ss or bb) – you get the idea. Held in a private apartment. The host (who sometimes participates) describes his party “this is a party for height/weight proportional men over 35. Younger guys come, but they’re usually into older guys. This is an orgy, not a stand & pose cruise party. Racially diverse. A slow night is 15 guys, a busy night is 30. Guys range from great shape to bad shape.” For middle-aged crowd (45-65) out-of-shape guys and their admirers. Check out his cool blog (which trashes me) at http://theorgyguy.blogspot.com or to get in email stats and pics to host at theclubhouseparties@gmail.com.

NEW YORK JACKS (Chelsea/Times Square) Safe-sex party for guys who like to jerk off. They are not selective about who gets in, so the guys run the gamut: all type of bodies, races, and ages from hot young guys to muscle guys to older guys. Tuesdays (Paddles) and Sunday (Times Square).Check out their site: http://www.nyjacks.com/

Wednesday…EXECUTIVE LUNCH (Gramercy). Lunch-time (12-3pm) party. Daytime release for business men and jocks to hook up weekday afternoons, 10-20+ men attend: new added feature is a complimentary massage by our very hot in house masseur.*For Invite: MUST Send pic (shirtless from the waist up is fine) & Stats to: apollothegreek@earthlink.net and check out http://www.hotgaysexpartiesnyc.com

PRIVATE PARTY (Garment District) 8:30-midnight. Great social sex party in large private loft apt. Good mix of twinks to muscle dudes to toned average guys, and a good mix of 20-30-40YOs (no one over 45, or under 21)--70-90+ guys attend. This is a great party to try if you've never been to a party before--very social, very safe, and a clean atmosphere, no attitude. The best part is that there is tons of HOT sex at this party – not just standing around. Just a warning: DON'T LET THE INITIAL PROCESS STOP YOU! A number of guys get pissed off by having to interview. It's easy: one quick phone call (where the host explains the party) and then an interview just before the party begins). Guys, I know it sounds annoying--but don't let it bother you - it's all cool and makes for a great crowd. There's a reason this party gets hot new guys each month, and where everyone actually has hot sex. The host provides drinks, condoms and lube; and showers, towels. Safe sex only.*Send pics, Stats to: PRIVATE.PARTY@msn.com.

HARD DRIVE (Chelsea) At Paddles, Doors 8pm-1am, open until 3am. Please be height/weight proportionate and if 55 or over please BE IN GREAT SHAPE. Wear underwear or less. Email here hunteur1@gmail.com or check out www.CumMonkey.com or www.HardDriveMen.com

MMX Muscle (Manhattan). Guided Group Workshop with Thaddeus. Full Body with focus on arms, abs, chest, and more. Arrive at 5:45 to 6pm for this. RSVP Open. Limited to 8 - last week was maxed with a wait list. Not a sex party, but a massage party…it’s about touch. The hosts says: "however we are a lot of horny guys and we are not going to sweep that under the rug." But no oral or anal sex below the waist. Host is a certified Massage Therapist. The party is to learn, explore, connect, and play – to learn and get into Massage. They require that all guys are in good physical shape, are clean and take care of themselves, are height/weight proportionate and work-out or are athletic - in addition to having no attitude and comfortable being almost naked (or naked) and touching and stroking muscles with boundaries.To Get in email the host: mmxnyc@gmail.com and check out www.mmxnyc.com.

REAL MEN ONLY (RMO) PARTY (Fresh Meadows) Slurpee Coach has the parties weekly on Wed eve 7-11pm. For older/average guys. To get in, email pics/stats here: slurpeecoach@hotmail.com.

NOHO J/ORAL AFTERWORK GROUP (Gramercy) Bringing together men who enjoy group jerk off sessions and oral encounters, the friendly gathering offering an attitude-free atmosphere that aims to be inclusive of the community, regardless of age, ethnicity, body image, or even orientation. Most are welcome to join us, BUT please send stats and pics for further details. Besides the obvious focus on J/O there is also an Oral Option, you may or may not wish to participate, which is to be agreed upon between intended partners. Come ready to play and have fun with your fellow man or men, 5pm-8pm.If interested in attending send stats and pics to: cpw55@earthlink.net, or check out http://www.hotgaysexpartiesnyc.com

THE BEAR HUNT (West Harlem). 10pm-3am, Run by the same people who run The Men's Party. For bears and their admirers. 10pm-3. NYC's longest running weekly sex bear party. Bears, chubs & chasers of ALL races, ages & sizes. Sling, condoms, lube, cocktails & clothes check provided. An older mixed crowd/for average to out of shape guys.Send pic to BearHuntNYC@yahoo.com or check out www.bearhuntnyc.com

Thursday…EXECUTIVE LUNCH (Gramercy). Lunch-time (12-3pm) party. Daytime release for business men and jocks to hook up weekday afternoons, 10-20+ men attend: new added feature is a complimentary massage by our very hot in house masseur.*For Invite: MUST Send pic (shirtless from the waist up is fine) & Stats to: apollothegreek@earthlink.net or check out http://www.hotgaysexpartiesnyc.com

THE CLUB HOUSE ORGIES (East Village). NEW LOCATION. 8pm-1am. Tonight is ERUPTION party: This dude loves theme parties and has a few a week, such as ERUPTIÖN (primarily for bb); PEÄK (Safe Sex Party); COCK4LUNCH (afternoon sex); FÜSION (Baseball-style wristbands to let guys know if you prefer ss or bb) – you get the idea. Held in a private apartment. The host (who sometimes participates) describes his party “this is a party for height/weight proportional men over 35. Younger guys come, but they’re usually into older guys. This is an orgy, not a stand & pose cruise party. Racially diverse. A slow night is 15 guys, a busy night is 30. Guys range from great shape to bad shape.” For middle-aged crowd (45-65) out-of-shape guys and their admirers. Check out his cool blog (which trashes me) at http://theorgyguy.blogspot.com or to get in email stats and pics to host at theclubhouseparties@gmail.com.

MILK CHOCOLATE PARY (Gramercy & Park Slope). MilkChocolateNYC Member Appreciation Party, 7pm - 11pm. According to the host, they screen to invite men of all colors age 21-45 to keep the party hot. They have a number of theme parties from Latino, to Hung Men, to Black Out. Mostly average guys.Send stats and pics to milkchocolatenyc@gmail.com

JACKS OF COLOR ( Chelsea ) "THURSDAY LEATHER SPECIAL!" -- doors 7:00 to Midnight, goes 'til 2 am; A New York City Club For Men of Color "And Their Friends." Has HUGE parties 70-120 guys attend, all ages. An older mixed crowd/for average guys. Email here JacksOfColor@Gmail.com or check out www.jacksofcolor.com

Friday...NUBIAN DUKES PARTY (Midtown). 11:30PM-6AM, This party is forHOT muscular, athletic, slim, African-American and Latino dudes ONLY. They also have a strict door policy. Mandatory clothes check: boxers, no shirts or t-shirts.Condoms, lube, liquid provided. Hip hop music with a Dj. Very HOT. Incredible bodies, no attitude and a lot of action. Parties are usually twice a month, usually on Fridays, but can be Saturdays or Sunday nights too 12am-6am. Gets 70-90+ dudes each party. Send pics and stats to nubiandukesnyc@yahoo.com

THE OLYMPUS PARTY(Gramercy). Held in a huge duplex. This is an umbrella for a number of different types of parties: TESTOSTERONE, RAW PORK, SQUIRT, PORN STARS and it seems like a dozen others. According to reports from readers the Friday night parties are getting better and are now mostly average to hot guys. *For Invite: MUST Send pic (shirtless from the waist up is fine) & Stats to: apollothegreek@earthlink.net or check out http://www.hotgaysexpartiesnyc.com.

THE OMEGA PARTY (Long Island City, Queens). MOVED TO QUEENS. They get 70 to 120 guys per party (Sunday being the biggest night). The parties are laid back, mix/general crowd. The age mix ranges from 20 to 60YO, all races (60% white, 40% mixed), muscle, thin, cute, bear etc. Refreshments , snacks, condoms and lube provided. Time: Fridays open from 9pm to 4am. An older mixed crowd/for average guys. Anybody wanting to go to the party should email roccosly@aol.com or http://www.theomegaroom.com/.

THUGS 4 THUGS SEX PARTY (Brooklyn) 12:00-7:00am. Hot party for Black and Latino guys, and guys who love big black cocks. Safe sex only for in shape guys—huge space (2 huge floors), fresh towels and condoms/lube provided, (12midnight-7am). It’s a safe and clean place. lots of space. a bit dark but eyes get used to it. TO GET IN: http://thugs4thugsex.com or email bkthugparty@earthlink.net

Saturday…PITSTOP (Park Slope, Brooklyn) A fetish sex party for In-Shape guys where "almost anything goes." 12am-5am at the same space in Brooklyn that GBU uses. Safe-sex dungeon kinkfest where anything goes EXCEPT barebacking: be a voyeur or exhibitionist in scenes involving PISS, role playing, BD/SM, fisting, spit, foot worship, spanking, humiliation, raunch and much more! Stripping to your underwear, jockstrap or fetish gear is required. Nudity is encouraged! Safe sex is REQUIRED. Anyone caught fucking without condoms will be told to leave. There is zero tolerance for barebacking at this space. This party will also have a broader range of ages, but we ask that only in-shape kinky guys attend.To get in, email stats and pics to: pitstop_nyc@yahoo.com

NUBIAN DUKES PARTY (Midtown). 11:30PM-6AM, This party is for HOT muscular, athletic, slim, African-American and Latino dudes ONLY. They also have a strict door policy. Mandatory clothes check: boxers, no shirts or t-shirts.Condoms, lube, liquid provided. Hip hop music with a Dj. Very HOT. Incredible bodies, no attitude and a lot of action. Parties are usually twice a month, usually on Fridays, but can be Saturdays or Sunday nights too 12am-6am. Gets 70-90+ dudes each party. Send pics and stats to nubiandukesnyc@yahoo.com

THE BEAR HUNT (West Harlem). 10pm-3am, Run by the same people who run The Men's Party. For bears and their admirers. NYC's longest running weekly sex bear party. Bears, chubs & chasers of ALL races, ages & sizes. Sling, condoms, lube, cocktails & clothes check provided. An older mixed crowd/for average to out of shape guys.Send pic to BearHuntNYC@yahoo.com or check out www.bearhuntnyc.com

THUGS 4 THUG SEX PARTY (Brooklyn) 9:00pm-3:00am. Hot party for Black and Latino guys, and guys who love big black cocks. Safe sex only for in shape guys—huge space (2 huge floors), fresh towels and condoms/lube provided, (12midnight-7am). It’s a safe and clean place. lots of space. a bit dark but eyes get used to it. http://thugs4thugsex.com/ or email bkthugparty@earthlink.net

REAL MEN ONLY (RMO) PARTY (Fresh Meadows) 7pm-1am. Slurpee Coach has the parties weekly on Wed eve 7-11pm. For older/average guys. To get in, email pics/stats here: slurpeecoach@hotmail.com.

LONG ISLAND BI-SEXUAL GROUP (Long Island). Long Island Gang Bang/Big Bang Party. Just outside of NYC, near the LIE. LI-BI-do is a Bisexual social group that hold parties for Couples, women, trans, and men are all welcome. You can be Bisexual, Bi-friendly, or Bi-curious. How to join LI-BI-do: Go to Home Page: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/LI-BI-do, Send email to: sweetjelybe@LI-GB.org or check out: http://www.li-bi-do.org.

Sunday…ND2 (Midtown). This party is for average African American and Latino dudes ONLY. Mandatory clothes check: boxers, no shirts or t-shirts. Condoms, lube, liquid provided. Hip hop music with a Dj. No attitude and a lot of action. Parties are Wed nights. Send pics and stats to HARLEMDUKESNYC@YAHOO.COM

NEW YORK BONDAGE CLUB (Chelsea) 7pm-1am @Paddles. Sex is no longer banned. Sucking, fucking, whatever, are all allowed now at all times. It's common to see guys tied down and fucked. Or a dom directing sex between two roped subs. Held in a straight S&M club, the party scene includes cages, restraints, bondage crosses, stocks and all sorts of devices to aid in tying people up and getting them off. They now stay open later (until at least 1 AM instead of 11 PM) and at 11 PM they turn down the lights in all areas except the bar at the front. In these darker areas, there's now a dress code of no street clothes. You have to wear no more than underwear, or you can wear fetish wear (leather, rubber, and the like). They have started promotions to get younger guys in. But for anyone who has a taste for sex with a kinky side (leather, rope, spanking, etc) it's a good place to get satisfied on a Sunday night. Check out: http://www.nybondageclub.com/

NEW YORK JACKS (Chelsea/Times Square) Safe-sex party for guys who like to jerk off. They are not selective about who gets in, so the guys run the gamut: all type of bodies, races, and ages from hot young guys to muscle guys to older guys. Tuesdays (Paddles) and Sunday (Times Square). Check out their site: http://www.nyjacks.com/

THE OMEGA PARTY (Long Island City, Queens). MOVED TO QUEENS. They get 70 to 120 guys per party (Sunday being the biggest night). The parties are laid back, mix/general crowd. The age mix ranges from 20 to 60YO, all races (60% white, 40% mixed), muscle, thin, cute, bear etc. Refreshments , snacks, condoms and lube provided. Time: Sundays open 6pm to 2am. An older mixed crowd/for average guys. Anybody wanting to go to the party should email roccosly@aol.com or http://www.theomegaroom.com/.

THUGS 4 THUGS SEX PARTY ( Brooklyn ) Hot party for Black and Latino guys, and guys who love big black cocks. Safe sex only for in shape guys—huge space (2 huge floors), fresh towels and condoms/lube provided, (9pm-3am). It’s a safe and clean place. lots of space. a bit dark but eyes get used to it. http://thugs4thugsex.com/ or email bkthugparty@earthlink.net

THE CLUB HOUSE ORGIES (East Village). NEW LOCATION. 8pm-1am. Tonight is ERUPTION party: This dude loves theme parties and has a few a week, such as ERUPTIÖN (primarily for bb); PEÄK (Safe Sex Party); COCK4LUNCH (afternoon sex); FÜSION (Baseball-style wristbands to let guys know if you prefer ss or bb) – you get the idea. Held in a private apartment. The host (who sometimes participates) describes his party “this is a party for height/weight proportional men over 35. Younger guys come, but they’re usually into older guys. This is an orgy, not a stand & pose cruise party. Racially diverse. A slow night is 15 guys, a busy night is 30. Guys range from great shape to bad shape.” For middle-aged crowd (45-65) out-of-shape guys and their admirers. Check out his cool blog (which trashes me) at http://theorgyguy.blogspot.com or to get in email stats and pics to host at theclubhouseparties@gmail.com.

THE NYJOCK PARTY--NYJP (Fire Island) CAMP WANAKUKME "the Blue Ball." 11pm-5am. The host is very discriminating -- If you don't have a killer body and face, you'll probably just be ignored. That said the guys are amazing: mostly 20s-early 30s. Held ata private house on Fire Island. For a younger/hot crowd.To get in, email: nyjockparty@yahoo.com

Saturday, June 25, 2011

This Sunday night PRIDE WEEK'S ultimate sex party: two of the hottest parties team up for one HUGE party. The hot Brooklyn boys of GOLDEN BOYS USA & the muscular guys of NYJOCK PARTY team up for one hot fuck-a-thon. Also, right after that party, the hot men of the NUBIAN DUKES PARTY take the same space for an all-night sex party. How could anyone pass this this much hot skin and hot fucking. Here's the info...

"BOXERS & BRIEFS"...a down and dirty underwear party (Sun, June 26, 8pm-3am)

The boys of GBU & NYJock Party are once again teaming up to bring you the BIGGEST & SEXIEST underwear / sex party of the year directly after the GAY PRIDE EVENTS. Music by AJ Sanchez. DOOR POLICY: Inshape guys 21-40's... most guys will be early 20's to early 30's.... average age is 28. You must check your clothes (You can wear your jock, underwear, or sport shorts). Play or watch. No pressure. no attitude (You never have to do anything you don't want to). Do you have a friend who wants to attend? BRING HIM! Everything is Included: Supplies. Snacks. Drinks. And more.

THE NYJOCK PARTY and GOLDEN BOYS USA (Times Square). A few times a year two of the hottest parties in New York team up for "BOXERS & BRIEFS"...a down and dirty underwear party. 8pm-3am. A safe sex party. For a younger/hot crowd. Send pics and stats to nyjockparty@yahoo.com or ChrisHawkeGBU@aol.com or check out www.GoldenBoysUSA.com.

And following that party (at the same space!) for African-American and Latino dudes...

NUBIAN DUKES PARTY (Midtown). 2AM-7AM, This party is for HOT muscular, athletic, slim, African-American and Latino dudes ONLY. They also have a strict door policy. Mandatory clothes check: boxers, no shirts or t-shirts.Condoms, lube, liquid provided. Hip hop music with a Dj. Very HOT. Incredible bodies, no attitude and a lot of action. Gets 70-90+ dudes each party.Send pics and stats to nubiandukesnyc@yahoo.com

AND DON'T MISS my favorite party on WED NIGHT, June 29. There is a short interview process, so send pics and stats now or you'll never get in the night of the party...

PRIVATE PARTY (Garment District) Great social sex party in large private loft apt. Good mix of twinks to muscle dudes to toned average guys, and a good mix of 20-30-40YOs (no one over 45, or under 21)--70-90+ guys attend. This is a great party to try if you've never been to a party before--very social, very safe, and a clean atmosphere, no attitude. The best part is that there is tons of HOT sex at this party – not just standing around. There's a reason this party gets hot new guys each month, and where everyone actually has hot sex. The host provides drinks, condoms and lube; and showers, towels. Safe sex only.*Short interview process, so send pics and stats: PRIVATE.PARTY@msn.com.

Friday, June 24, 2011

A friend who regularly sends me reviews for AGS, just gave me these two reviews of THE OMEGA PARTY, recently relocated to Long Island City, Queens; and DADS'N'LADS, which goes back and forth from Brooklyn to Gramercy. Interesting reviews, here's his report...

"I've recently attended The Omega Party and Dads N Lads, and here are some of my thoughts:

I went to the Omega Party on Sunday June 5th, which was one of the first few events after the party moved to Queens. I got there around 9/10 and there were about 30-40 guys there. It is a huge space so it was often hard to keep track. The size of the place also made the party seem sparse on occasion The large space was well-suited for the party, there were four rooms with small beds or futons, a tv area (with a tiny tube tv playing porn) and one paritcularly dark room. There were also what appeared to be cubicles, which actually served nicely as private booths for playing, and the countertops in them were just the right height for fucking. There were a fair mix of handsome and average guys and a few "untouchables", but overall I really enjoyed myself. There was definitely a mix of races and body hair, though not as many hairy guys as I would've liked. As the last reviewer said, the guys at this party are ready to get down to business - I was getting fucked within 7 minutes of getting out of my clothes. The guys here weren't in perfect shape (not sure I saw any 6packs) but that doesn't bother me in the least. I suppose they're "average", but then again that is a very subjective term. I'd definitely go to this party again, though it would be nice if, as the clothes-check guy said, the party picked up as people got used to the new location. I'd also probably go a bit earlier since the crowd thinned pretty fast towards midnight (probably because it was a Sunday).

I also attended the Dads N Lads party this past Saturday, the 18th. In stark contrast to the last reviewer's experience, there was a very decent ratio of dads to lads and plenty of fucking and other action, pretty much the whole time I was there (from about 11 to 2:30). Although I do enjoy my dads, I'd have to say there was a better selection of guys at the Omega party. This party was mostly black and white guys with a fair number of furry men though again, not as many as I would want at a party. Of course, this isn't necessarily the party's fault and it could have just been that particular night's group. I did find a couple guys to have fun with and one super-hot daddy type with whom I had a lovely romp. My main complaint about this party would have to be the space (which is odd since it's apparently used often for sex parties). The downstairs area has a few futon-type dealies to play on and then there's a bed in the middle of the second floor loft, but this tended to mean that there was a bit of action on that bed and a bunch of guys standing around watching and waiting. I don't mind being watched, but I felt that if there were some more dark corners or play spaces that the party would have flowed better. There were also a couple of guys who kept splaying themselves on the bed for extended periods of time with their asses presented for fucking, but without getting any takers. Regardless of whether I thought these guys were attractive, it was pretty annoying to find a buddy to play with and struggle to find a place on the bed because some guy is taking up a bunch space by himself with his legs in the air. In hindsight, I probably should've mentioned something to the host. I was also a bit perplexed by the severity with which the host enforced the "one at a time in the bathroom" rule. There was even a guy who stood guard over the door, as opposed to the lawless bathroom at the Omega party (which people respectfully used one at a time). I might try this party again, though I'd strongly prefer to check out the Brooklyn location to see the venue and the different crowd it might draw (hopefully I can make it to tonight's party and report back, but I'm not sure how my schedule will work out).

Hope this info is useful for ya - keep up the good work!"

Great info -- and very helpful! Thanks for sending. Here's the info on how to get in..

THE OMEGA PARTY (Long Island City, Queens). MOVED TO QUEENS. They get 70 to 120 guys per party (Sunday being the biggest night). 6,000 sq ft playground in Long Island city Queens; private rooms, group areas ,over 100 guys; Open Fridays and Sundays. The parties are laid back, mix/general crowd. The age mix ranges from 20 to 60YO, all races (60% white, 40% mixed), muscle, thin, cute, bear etc. Refreshments , snacks, condoms and lube provided. Time: Fridays open from 9pm to 4am. An older mixed crowd/for average guys. Anybody wanting to go to the party should email roccosly@aol.com or http://www.theomegaroom.com or their new site www.RainbowHouseNy.com.

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DADS'N'LADS (Park Slope, Brooklyn & Manhattan). Held at a popular sex party space, this is a safe sex, no-drugs party for guys who are 18 years old on up. Doors open 10pm. The party ends at 4am. Pants check required for entry. Described by the host: "younger guys into older, and visa versa, or guys who are into the daddy/son fetish."Send stats and pice to dadsnladsnyc@gmail.com

Hey guys -- so the INFINITY PARTY has not been living up to thier promises and our hopes. The problem seems that they send out notices too late, or have weird hours (before the Nubian Party), and other problems. Here's a quickie review from last week's last minute Sunday party...

"Well Evan, I'm ready to throw in the towel on Infinity parties. Invite went out just 2 days before the Sunday night party. There were 16 guys there total! When I came in they asked which party I was there for so they must have been combining groups and it was still small. I've been attending as regularly as I can but the crowd just isn't growing. What they advertise for still isn't what they let in. It was a good variety, tho - some young, some older, a smooth muscle man who came in later and the rest were average. Oh well."

The next party they have listed on A4A is July 17, so guess we'll see what happens. Still interested, here's how to get in...

INFINITY NYC (Times Square).“For dudes in need of a weekday release.” STRICTLY FOR FIT MEN 20-45YO. 7PM - 1AM; All supplies provided. Mandatory street clothes check. No shirts or tees. From Average to a few hot guys.To get in send stats and pics to infinitinyc@yahoo.com.

Tuesday, June 21, 2011

Hey guys, I stopped going to the Testosterone Party a while back -- and have never been to Raw Pork. I stopped because, well honestly, the guys were getting older and more out of shape every time I went, the sex sucked, and generally I was not having any fun there. Recently host insisted (you can read the emails is posts from last month) that he has cleaned up the guest list and is being much more selective. Below is a good review from some dude who went last Friday. The reviewer is not a personal friend, nor have we ever talked before, but his comments generally jive with what I've been hearing from other guys, so maybe, just maybe, it's time to give The Olympus Party/Testosterone another shot. Here's the review...

"Greetings, I went to the last Testosterone/Raw Pork party at the Gramercy Duplex on June 10th and was pleasantly surprised. I arrived at about 11 or so and had to lift up my shirt and show the doorman my lack of a belly or beer gut. After checking my clothes, everyone is required to strip completely naked, I walked through the curtain and found the party in full swing.

Most men were in their early 30s, with a few in their late 20s and a few in their early 40s. There was one guy with a doughy build and a baseball hat covering a bald head, and another guy who could use a hot meal and some exercise, but it was not a party full of old trolls or out of shape men by a long shot. There were in fact some stunningly handsome, fit men.

There was a lot of fucking and sucking going on all night, on both levels, with most guys participating rather than just watching or crowding around.

A few little annoying things, they are oddly strict about guys going into the bathroom two at a time. I am not certain as to why, everyone must be completely naked so there is no place to hide drugs. They also wont let you use the shower which seems silly, and the downstairs area could use some more furniture to fuck on as well.

I stayed until about 2 and had a good time. It seemed like most everyone else did as well."

The party is on certain Friday nights at the Gramercy Duplex. Check their website before you go. But if you go, report back. Here's the info on how to get in...

TESTOSTERONE/THE OLYMPUS PARTY(Gramercy). Held in a huge duplex. This is an umbrella for a number of different types of parties: TESTOSTERONE, RAW PORK, SQUIRT, PORN STARS and it seems like a dozen others.*For Invite: MUST Send pic (shirtless from the waist up is fine) & Stats to: apollothegreek@earthlink.net or check out http://www.hotgaysexpartiesnyc.com.

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A reader who enjoyed the review above, and went to the party last night. Here's his report back (sent at 4am!)...

"After reading the review from a reader, I went to the raw pork party tonight and was "pleasantly surprised. And I'm a very picky guy. I would say that about 80% of the guys were in good shape and reasonably attractive. There were a lot of young guys, a few older dudes and everything in between. Lots of sex going on and a good vibe. They did ask me to take my shirt off on the way in and that was very fine with me. I think that will definitely keep the out of shape and elderly at bay. I'll go again."

Sunday, June 19, 2011

Hope you dudes have a hot PRIDE WEEK. Since there are so many parties this week, here is select list of the parties that are worth hitting up each night from Wed – Sunday (June 22-26). The FULL List is a couple of posts below. Looks like a hot week to come!! Don’t miss these…

Wednesday…HARD DRIVE (Chelsea) At Paddles, Doors 8pm-1am, open until 3am. Please be height/weight proportionate and if 55 or over please BE IN GREAT SHAPE. Wear underwear or less. Email here hunteur1@gmail.com or check out www.CumMonkey.com or www.HardDriveMen.comNOTE: This is a DIRTY DOWNLOAD PARTY (The usual good times are dialed way up on this night. They are sponsored by the sinfully filthy TREASURE ISLAND MEDIA! -- TIM DVDs and Tee Shirt give-a-ways).

Thursday…SWALLOW (Manhattan) Oral/JO/Bukkake Party at a private loft. Usually get 40-50 guys: 20-early 40s, all races. According to the host, it goes like this: "We strip down, jack and suck each other, and then the whole group gangs up to bust a nut, bukkake style, in one guy's mouth." Usually meet about once every two or three months, Thursday or Sunday, 8-10pm. Safe sex only; no drugs, minimal attitude. The party is FREE (no cover), just a tip for clothes check.To get in send pics and stats to: swallow_nyc at yahoo.com, or check out http://groups.yahoo.com/group/swallow_nyc.

Friday...THE NYJOCK PARTY--NYJP (Times Square) The host is very discriminating -- and because of it the party now has the hottest guys with the most attitudes (the problem: not great sex; many guys just standing around looking at each other). If you don't have a killer body and face, you'll probably just be ignored. That said the guys are amazing: mostly 20s-early 30s. 10pm-5am. For a younger/hot crowd.To get in, email: nyjockparty@yahoo.com

Saturday,LOAD NYC (East Village). Underwear party held at Blue Door Video Basement: concrete basement with chairs (so you gotta like sex standing). Also small private booths. 30-90 guys, porn. Party has mixed results: sometimes hot guys, sometimes average crowd in their 20s, 30s & 40s. To get in email pics/stats to Loadnyc@aol.com.

Sunday…THE NYJOCK PARTY and GOLDEN BOYS USA (Times Square). A few times a year two of the hottest parties in New York team up for "BOXERS & BRIEFS"...a down and dirty underwear party. RIGHT AFTER the GAY PRIDE EVENTS. DOOR POLICY: Inshape guys 21-40's... most guys will be early 20's to early 30's.... average age is 28. 8pm-3am. A safe sex party. For a younger/hot crowd. Don’t miss it!Send pics and stats to nyjockparty@yahoo.com or ChrisHawkeGBU@aol.com or check out www.GoldenBoysUSA.com.

AND PREVIEW OF NEXT WEEK…

Don’t miss the 2nd PRIVATE PARTY of June (no July party – so you are free to go the Fire Island all July). My favorite party is June 29, 8:30-midnight…

PRIVATE PARTY (Garment District) Great social sex party in large private loft apt. Good mix of twinks to muscle dudes to toned average guys, and a good mix of 20-30-40YOs (no one over 45, or under 21)--70-90+ guys attend. This is a great party to try if you've never been to a party before--very social, very safe, and a clean atmosphere, no attitude. The best part is that there is tons of HOT sex at this party – not just standing around. Just a warning: DON'T LET THE INITIAL PROCESS STOP YOU! A number of guys get pissed off by having to interview. It's easy: one quick phone call (where the host explains the party) and then an interview just before the party begins). Guys, I know it sounds annoying--but don't let it bother you - it's all cool and makes for a great crowd. There's a reason this party gets hot new guys each month, and where everyone actually has hot sex. The host provides drinks, condoms and lube; and showers, towels. Safe sex only.*Send pics, Stats to: PRIVATE.PARTY@msn.com.

Guys who can't get away at night for whatever reason are always asking me about lunch-time sex parties -- so beyond the horny businessmen in hotels, there are a few regular lunch-time sex parties: EXECUTIVE LUNCH (every WED and THURS), this week check out The Club House Orgy's COCK4LUNCH PARTY, and JACKS OF COLOR (Sat). These parties are all 12pm-3pm or 4pm. Also both hosts have website for you to check out. I've never been to any of these -- I can never get off work long enough, but if you can, here's the info...

Wednesday… EXECUTIVE LUNCH (Gramercy). Lunch-time (12-3pm) party. Daytime release for business men and jocks to hook up weekday afternoons, 10-20+ men attend: new added feature is a complimentary massage by our very hot in house masseur. *For Invite: MUST Send pic (shirtless from the waist up is fine) & Stats to: apollothegreek@earthlink.net and check out http://www.hotgaysexpartiesnyc.com

Thursday… EXECUTIVE LUNCH (Gramercy). Lunch-time (12-3pm) party. Daytime release for business men and jocks to hook up weekday afternoons, 10-20+ men attend: new added feature is a complimentary massage by our very hot in house masseur. *For Invite: MUST Send pic (shirtless from the waist up is fine) & Stats to: apollothegreek@earthlink.net or check out http://www.hotgaysexpartiesnyc.com

Friday... THE CLUB HOUSE ORGIES (East Village). LUNCH-TIME PARTY. 12pm-4pm. Tonight is COCK4LUNCH party: This dude loves theme parties and has a few a week, such as ERUPTIÖN (primarily for bb); PEÄK (Safe Sex Party); COCK4LUNCH (afternoon sex); FÜSION (Baseball-style wristbands to let guys know if you prefer ss or bb) – you get the idea. Held in a private apartment. The host (who sometimes participates) describes his party “this is a party for height/weight proportional men over 35. Younger guys come, but they’re usually into older guys. This is an orgy, not a stand & pose cruise party. Racially diverse. A slow night is 15 guys, a busy night is 30. Guys range from great shape to bad shape.” For middle-aged crowd (45-65) out-of-shape guys and their admirers. Check out his cool blog (which trashes me) at http://theorgyguy.blogspot.com or to get in email stats and pics to host at theclubhouseparties@gmail.com.

Saturday… JACKS OF COLOR ( Chelsea ) "SATURDAY AFTERNOON PRIDE WEEKEND PARTY!" -- doors 1:00 to 6:00, goes 'til 8 pm; A New York City Club For Men of Color "And Their Friends." Has HUGE parties 70-120 guys attend, all ages. An older mixed crowd/for average guys. Email here JacksOfColor@Gmail.com or check out www.jacksofcolor.com

And every so often...

MUSCLE GROUP ( West Harlem/w140s) In small studio apartment. This small sex party really runs the gamut from hot guys to very average dudes. Usually have 4-10 guys attend – 20-40YOs. Have parties at random, but often on Mondays, 9pm-11pm. The best thing about this party is that it's one of the true orgies. At most parties guys are having sex one-one-one or threesomes--at MUSCLE GROUP there is more often than not a pile of guys fucking and sucking off each other. Also cool, because it's FREE. Two problems: You never know who will be there--sometimes no hot guys, sometimes no one but you and the host. A racially mixed crowd/for very hot to average guys.*Send pics & Stats to: BIHUNKGROUP@aol.com

Monday... JACKS OF COLOR (Chelsea) "JUNE MASSAGE-&-PLAY MONDAY PARTY #3" -- doors 7:00 to Midnight, goes 'til 2 am; A New York City Club For Men of Color "And Their Friends." Has HUGE parties 70-120 guys attend, all ages. An older mixed crowd/for average guys. Email here JacksOfColor@Gmail.com or check out www.jacksofcolor.com

MUSCLE GROUP ( West Harlem/w140s) In small studio apartment. This small sex party really runs the gamut from hot guys to very average dudes. Usually have 4-10 guys attend – 20-40YOs. Have parties at random, but often on Mondays, 9pm-11pm. The best thing about this party is that it's one of the true orgies. At most parties guys are having sex one-one-one or threesomes--at MUSCLE GROUP there is more often than not a pile of guys fucking and sucking off each other. Also cool, because it's FREE. Two problems: You never know who will be there--sometimes no hot guys, sometimes no one but you and the host. A racially mixed crowd/for very hot to average guys.*Send pics & Stats to: BIHUNKGROUP@aol.com

MMX Muscle (Manhattan). HARD & BUFF 3 WAYS, Arrive between 7:30 and 7:45pm. Not a sex party, but a massage party…it’s about touch. The hosts says: "however we are a lot of horny guys and we are not going to sweep that under the rug." But no oral or anal sex below the waist. Limited to 20 guys. Host is a certified Massage Therapist. The partyis to learn, explore, connect, and play – to learn and get into Massage. They require that all guys are in good physical shape, are clean and take care of themselves, are height/weight proportionate and work-out or are athletic - in addition to having no attitude and comfortable being almost naked (or naked) and touching and stroking muscles with boundaries.To Get in email the host: mmxnyc@gmail.com and check out www.mmxnyc.com.

Tuesday… THE CLUB HOUSE ORGIES (East Village). NEW LOCATION. 8pm-1am. Tonight is PEAK party: This dude loves theme parties and has a few a week, such as ERUPTIÖN (primarily for bb); PEÄK (Safe Sex Party); COCK4LUNCH (afternoon sex); FÜSION (Baseball-style wristbands to let guys know if you prefer ss or bb) – you get the idea. Held in a private apartment. The host (who sometimes participates) describes his party “this is a party for height/weight proportional men over 35. Younger guys come, but they’re usually into older guys. This is an orgy, not a stand & pose cruise party. Racially diverse. A slow night is 15 guys, a busy night is 30. Guys range from great shape to bad shape.” For middle-aged crowd (45-65) out-of-shape guys and their admirers. Check out his cool blog (which trashes me) at http://theorgyguy.blogspot.com or to get in email stats and pics to host at theclubhouseparties@gmail.com.

NEW YORK JACKS (Chelsea/Times Square) Safe-sex party for guys who like to jerk off. They are not selective about who gets in, so the guys run the gamut: all type of bodies, races, and ages from hot young guys to muscle guys to older guys. Tuesdays (Paddles) and Sunday (Times Square). Check out their site: http://www.nyjacks.com/

FOOTMENNYC and TOUCH PARTY GUYS (Chelsea). 8pm - 2am. Not really a full-flegded sex party, but you get…Free Full-Body Massage provider all night, and Curtained play-spaces for your pleasure. Held at The Eagle (28th St., btwn 10th & 11th Aves.) $10 cover, includes drink ticket (21 years old and over). The private party is on the 2nd floor and the roof. Check out the website http://www.FootMenNYC.com

Wednesday… EXECUTIVE LUNCH (Gramercy). Lunch-time (12-3pm) party. Daytime release for business men and jocks to hook up weekday afternoons, 10-20+ men attend: new added feature is a complimentary massage by our very hot in house masseur. *For Invite: MUST Send pic (shirtless from the waist up is fine) & Stats to: apollothegreek@earthlink.net and check out http://www.hotgaysexpartiesnyc.com

HARD DRIVE (Chelsea) DIRTY DOWNLOAD (The usual good times are dialed way up on this night. We are sponsored by the sinfully filthy TREASURE ISLAND MEDIA! -- TIM DVDs and Tee Shirt give-a-ways). SUCK DICK AND SAVE THE WORLD body stenciling and the usual hot Hard Drive hard core, balls out action. ARRIVE HORNY AND READY FOR ACTION. At Paddles, Doors 8pm-1am, open until 3am. Please be height/weight proportionate and if 55 or over please BE IN GREAT SHAPE. Wear underwear or less. Email here hunteur1@gmail.com or check out www.CumMonkey.com or www.HardDriveMen.com

REAL MEN ONLY (RMO) PARTY (Fresh Meadows) Slurpee Coach has the parties weekly on Wed eve 7-11pm. For older/average guys. To get in, email pics/stats here: slurpeecoach@hotmail.com.

THE BEAR HUNT (West Harlem). 7pm-12am (Arrive between 7-9pm), Run by the same people who run The Men's Party. For bears and their admirers. NYC's longest running weekly sex bear party. Bears, chubs & chasers of ALL races, ages & sizes. Sling, condoms, lube, cocktails & clothes check provided. An older mixed crowd/for average to out of shape guys. Send pic to BearHuntNYC@yahoo.com or check out www.bearhuntnyc.com

NOHO J/ORAL AFTERWORK GROUP (Gramercy) Bringing together men who enjoy group jerk off sessions and oral encounters, the friendly gathering offering an attitude-free atmosphere that aims to be inclusive of the community, regardless of age, ethnicity, body image, or even orientation. Most are welcome to join us, BUT please send stats and pics for further details. Besides the obvious focus on J/O there is also an Oral Option, you may or may not wish to participate, which is to be agreed upon between intended partners. Come ready to play and have fun with your fellow man or men, 5pm-8pm. If interested in attending send stats and pics to: cpw55@earthlink.net, or check out http://www.hotgaysexpartiesnyc.com

MMX Muscle (Manhattan). SMALL GROUP GUIDED MASSAGE WORKSHOP. Arrive at 5:45 to 6pm for the Guided Workshop.. Not a sex party, but a massage party…it’s about touch. The hosts says: "however we are a lot of horny guys and we are not going to sweep that under the rug." But no oral or anal sex below the waist. Host is a certified Massage Therapist. The party is to learn, explore, connect, and play – to learn and get into Massage. They require that all guys are in good physical shape, are clean and take care of themselves, are height/weight proportionate and work-out or are athletic - in addition to having no attitude and comfortable being almost naked (or naked) and touching and stroking muscles with boundaries.To Get in email the host: mmxnyc@gmail.com and check out www.mmxnyc.com

Thursday… EXECUTIVE LUNCH (Gramercy). Lunch-time (12-3pm) party. Daytime release for business men and jocks to hook up weekday afternoons, 10-20+ men attend: new added feature is a complimentary massage by our very hot in house masseur. *For Invite: MUST Send pic (shirtless from the waist up is fine) & Stats to: apollothegreek@earthlink.net or check out http://www.hotgaysexpartiesnyc.com

SWALLOW (Manhattan). Oral/JO/Bukkake Party at a private loft. Usually get 40-50 guys: 20-early 40s, all races. According to the host, it goes like this: "We strip down, jack and suck each other, and then the whole group gangs up to bust a nut, bukkake style, in one guy's mouth." Usually meet about once every two or three months, Thursday or Sunday, 8-10pm. Safe sex only; no drugs, minimal attitude. The party is FREE (no cover), just a tip for clothes check.To get in send pics and stats to: swallow_nyc at yahoo.com, or check out http://groups.yahoo.com/group/swallow_nyc.

MUSCLE JOCK NEW YORK (Gramercy). Never been so no idea of who willbe there, but this party seems to have take the spot at the Gramercy Duplex that used to belong to The Hot Jock Party. A friend went and said the crowd was average to hot. They claim that they screen for “Masculine, fun, sexy-hot MEN age 21-40... STRICT DOOR: Everyone checked at the door so make sure your pics/stats match reality.” 7pm-11pm. Although concerned that they may mix this party with the one below.Email stats and pics to MuscleJockNY@gmail.com.

MILK CHOCOLATE PARY (Gramercy). HUNG PARTY: NYC Pride Kick-Off Event! 7pm - 12mid. According to the host, they screen to invite men of all colors age 21-45 to keep the party hot. Never been, but they generally draw an older crowd, hopefully this will help bring in some new blood.Send stats and pics to milkchocolatenyc@gmail.com

DADS'N'LADS (Park Slope, Brooklyn). 8PM - 1AM. Held at a popular sex party space, this is a safe sex, no-drugs party for guys who are 18 years old on up. Pants check required for entry. Described by the host: "younger guys into older, and visa versa, or guys who are into the daddy/son fetish." SAFE SEX ONLY.Send stats and pice to dadsnladsnyc@gmail.com

THE CLUB HOUSE ORGIES (East Village). NEW LOCATION. 8pm-1am. Tonight is ERUPTION party: This dude loves theme parties and has a few a week, such as ERUPTIÖN (primarily for bb); PEÄK (Safe Sex Party); COCK4LUNCH (afternoon sex); FÜSION (Baseball-style wristbands to let guys know if you prefer ss or bb) – you get the idea. Held in a private apartment. The host (who sometimes participates) describes his party “this is a party for height/weight proportional men over 35. Younger guys come, but they’re usually into older guys. This is an orgy, not a stand & pose cruise party. Racially diverse. A slow night is 15 guys, a busy night is 30. Guys range from great shape to bad shape.” For middle-aged crowd (45-65) out-of-shape guys and their admirers. Check out his cool blog (which trashes me) at http://theorgyguy.blogspot.com or to get in email stats and pics to host at theclubhouseparties@gmail.com.

Friday... THE CLUB HOUSE ORGIES (East Village). LUNCH-TIME PARTY. 12pm-4pm. Tonight is COCK4LUNCH party: This dude loves theme parties and has a few a week, such as ERUPTIÖN (primarily for bb); PEÄK (Safe Sex Party); COCK4LUNCH (afternoon sex); FÜSION (Baseball-style wristbands to let guys know if you prefer ss or bb) – you get the idea. Held in a private apartment. The host (who sometimes participates) describes his party “this is a party for height/weight proportional men over 35. Younger guys come, but they’re usually into older guys. This is an orgy, not a stand & pose cruise party. Racially diverse. A slow night is 15 guys, a busy night is 30. Guys range from great shape to bad shape.” For middle-aged crowd (45-65) out-of-shape guys and their admirers. Check out his cool blog (which trashes me) at http://theorgyguy.blogspot.com or to get in email stats and pics to host at theclubhouseparties@gmail.com.

THE NYJOCK PARTY--NYJP (Times Square) The host is very discriminating -- and because of it the party now has the hottest guys with the most attitudes (the problem: not great sex; many guys just standing around looking at each other). If you don't have a killer body and face, you'll probably just be ignored. That said the guys are amazing: mostly 20s-early 30s. 10pm-5am. For a younger/hot crowd.To get in, email: nyjockparty@yahoo.com

TESTOSTERONE/THE OLYMPUS PARTY(Gramercy). Held in a huge duplex. This is an umbrella for a number of different types of parties: TESTOSTERONE, RAW PORK, SQUIRT, PORN STARS and it seems like a dozen others. Mostly older, out of shape guys. *For Invite: MUST Send pic (shirtless from the waist up is fine) & Stats to: apollothegreek@earthlink.net or check out http://www.hotgaysexpartiesnyc.com.

THE MEN’S PARTY (West Harlem) 10pm-3am.In big apartment in Harlem . Has sling. The host is nice, but I personally never like the party’s vibe—too sleazy for me (which is v. sleazy). Usually has about 20-40 guys attending from 30-40 YOs . NOT a safe sex party. An older mixed crowd/for average to out of shape guys.Email here: TheMensParty@yahoo.com or check out www.themensparty.com

THE OMEGA PARTY (Long Island City, Queens). MOVED TO QUEENS. They get 70 to 120 guys per party (Sunday being the biggest night). The parties are laid back, mix/general crowd. The age mix ranges from 20 to 60YO, all races (60% white, 40% mixed), muscle, thin, cute, bear etc. Refreshments , snacks, condoms and lube provided. Time: Fridays open from 9pm to 4am. An older mixed crowd/for average guys. Anybody wanting to go to the party should email roccosly@aol.com or http://www.theomegaroom.com/.

THUGS 4 THUGS SEX PARTY (Brooklyn) 12:00-7:00am. Hot party for Black and Latino guys, and guys who love big black cocks. Safe sex only for in shape guys—huge space (2 huge floors), fresh towels and condoms/lube provided, (12midnight-7am). It’s a safe and clean place. lots of space. a bit dark but eyes get used to it. TO GET IN: http://thugs4thugsex.com or email bkthugparty@earthlink.net

EDEN UNDERGROUND (Park Slope, Brooklyn). A sex party for transsexuals and their admirers – just had its one-year anniversary. 11pm-4am. And as always, girls who want to get dressed up.Check out this week’s Village Voice: http://www.villagevoice.com/2011-06-22/news/the-tranny-chaser-chaser/To get in see http://www..submitparty.com. If you have questions, please email Red@submitparty.com.

Saturday… JACKS OF COLOR ( Chelsea ) "SATURDAY AFTERNOON PRIDE WEEKEND PARTY!" -- doors 1:00 to 6:00, goes 'til 8 pm; A New York City Club For Men of Color "And Their Friends." Has HUGE parties 70-120 guys attend, all ages. An older mixed crowd/for average guys. Email here JacksOfColor@Gmail.com or check out www.jacksofcolor.com

LOAD NYC (East Village). Underwear party held at Blue Door Video Basement: concrete basement with chairs (so you gotta like sex standing). Also small private booths. 30-90 guys, porn. Party has mixed results: sometimes hot guys, sometimes average crowd in their 20s, 30s & 40s. To get in email pics/stats to Loadnyc@aol.com.

The GALLERY OF MEN (Times Square). The crowd is mostly holdovers from GCN/Studio days. There are four rooms – a sling, some with dark areas where you can go from mild to wild and everything in between; no attitude. 8:00 pm -2:00 am. Condoms, water, Gatorade, lube, coat check are included. Lots of BB, smoking area within the facility. A party for older out of shape guys.Email for invite: thegallerynyc@yahoo.com

NUBIAN DUKES PARTY (Midtown). 11:30PM-7AM, This party is for HOT muscular, athletic, slim, African-American and Latino dudes ONLY. They also have a strict door policy. Mandatory clothes check: boxers, no shirts or t-shirts.Condoms, lube, liquid provided. Hip hop music with a Dj. Very HOT. Incredible bodies, no attitude and a lot of action. Gets 70-90+ dudes each party. Send pics and stats to nubiandukesnyc@yahoo.com

THUGS 4 THUG SEX PARTY (Brooklyn) 9:00pm-3:00am. Hot party for Black and Latino guys, and guys who love big black cocks. Safe sex only for in shape guys—huge space (2 huge floors), fresh towels and condoms/lube provided, (12midnight-7am). It’s a safe and clean place. lots of space. a bit dark but eyes get used to it. http://thugs4thugsex.com/ or email bkthugparty@earthlink.net

SUBMIT PARTY (Brooklyn). Not a M4M party, but may interest the more adventurous of you: A BDSM * sex party where for women and transgendered folk get together for a sexually charged underwear party. 10 - 3 am (doors close at 2 am).Check out the parties at http://www..submitparty.com. If you have questions, please email Red@submitparty.com.

REAL MEN ONLY (RMO) PARTY (Fresh Meadows, Queens) Slurpee Coach has the parties weekly on Wed eve 7-11pm. For older/average guys. To get in, email pics/stats here: slurpeecoach@hotmail.com.

Sunday… THE NYJOCK PARTY and GOLDEN BOYS USA (Times Square). A few times a year two of the hottest parties in New York team up for "BOXERS & BRIEFS"...a down and dirty underwear party. RIGHT AFTER the GAY PRIDE EVENTS. DOOR POLICY: Inshape guys 21-40's... most guys will be early 20's to early 30's.... average age is 28. 8pm-3am. A safe sex party. For a younger/hot crowd. Don’t miss it!Send pics and stats to nyjockparty@yahoo.com or ChrisHawkeGBU@aol.com or check out www.GoldenBoysUSA.com.

NUBIAN DUKES PARTY (Midtown). 2AM-7AM, This party is for HOT muscular, athletic, slim, African-American and Latino dudes ONLY. They also have a strict door policy. Mandatory clothes check: boxers, no shirts or t-shirts.Condoms, lube, liquid provided. Hip hop music with a Dj. Very HOT. Incredible bodies, no attitude and a lot of action. Gets 70-90+ dudes each party. Send pics and stats to nubiandukesnyc@yahoo.com

NEW YORK BONDAGE CLUB (Chelsea) 7pm-1am @Paddles. Sex is no longer banned. Sucking, fucking, whatever, are all allowed now at all times. It's common to see guys tied down and fucked. Or a dom directing sex between two roped subs. Held in a straight S&M club, the party scene includes cages, restraints, bondage crosses, stocks and all sorts of devices to aid in tying people up and getting them off. They now stay open later (until at least 1 AM instead of 11 PM) and at 11 PM they turn down the lights in all areas except the bar at the front. In these darker areas, there's now a dress code of no street clothes. You have to wear no more than underwear, or you can wear fetish wear (leather, rubber, and the like). They have started promotions to get younger guys in. But for anyone who has a taste for sex with a kinky side (leather, rope, spanking, etc) it's a good place to get satisfied on a Sunday night. Check out: http://www.nybondageclub.com/

NEW YORK JACKS (Chelsea/Times Square) Safe-sex party for guys who like to jerk off. They are not selective about who gets in, so the guys run the gamut: all type of bodies, races, and ages from hot young guys to muscle guys to older guys. Tuesdays (Paddles) and Sunday (Times Square). Check out their site: http://www.nyjacks.com/

THE OMEGA PARTY (Long Island City, Queens). MOVED TO QUEENS. They get 70 to 120 guys per party (Sunday being the biggest night). The parties are laid back, mix/general crowd. The age mix ranges from 20 to 60YO, all races (60% white, 40% mixed), muscle, thin, cute, bear etc. Refreshments , snacks, condoms and lube provided. Time: Sundays open 6pm to 2am. An older mixed crowd/for average guys. Anybody wanting to go to the party should email roccosly@aol.com or http://www.theomegaroom.com/.

THUGS 4 THUGS SEX PARTY ( Brooklyn ) Hot party for Black and Latino guys, and guys who love big black cocks. Safe sex only for in shape guys—huge space (2 huge floors), fresh towels and condoms/lube provided, (9pm-3am). It’s a safe and clean place. lots of space. a bit dark but eyes get used to it. http://thugs4thugsex.com/ or email bkthugparty@earthlink.net

THE CLUB HOUSE ORGIES (East Village). NEW LOCATION. 8pm-1am. Tonight is FUSION party: This dude loves theme parties and has a few a week, such as ERUPTIÖN (primarily for bb); PEÄK (Safe Sex Party); COCK4LUNCH (afternoon sex); FÜSION (Baseball-style wristbands to let guys know if you prefer ss or bb) – you get the idea. Held in a private apartment. The host (who sometimes participates) describes his party “this is a party for height/weight proportional men over 35. Younger guys come, but they’re usually into older guys. This is an orgy, not a stand & pose cruise party. Racially diverse. A slow night is 15 guys, a busy night is 30. Guys range from great shape to bad shape.” For middle-aged crowd (45-65) out-of-shape guys and their admirers. Check out his cool blog (which trashes me) at http://theorgyguy.blogspot.com or to get in email stats and pics to host at theclubhouseparties@gmail.com.

DICKPLAY PARTY (Inwood/Upper Manhattan) “Born This Way” (party at Ed and Steve's), 5PM to 12AM. Held in a private apartment by an interracial gay couple -- a laid-back mixed crowd of mostly older in-shape guys. It's promoted as an interracial erotic play party. Most guys are naked, but not required. It's a mix of guys, white, black, Latin, occasionally Asian, not too young, not too old. Average age is 35-45+. They get about 40+ guys. Yes, the hosts provide condoms, but I hear that 75-80% of the fucking is BB. The atmosphere is distinctly no attitude.To get in, Email: EdAndSteve@verizon.net; or check out http://groups.yahoo.com/group/EdAndSteve.

Tuesday, June 14, 2011

Guys, here's a new party for you, well, at least new to me. Got an email from the host of SWALLOW about his party, which is taking place next week (for Pride week). SWALLOW is a oral/jerk off/bukkake party. Being lazy, I'll let the host explain it himself...

"Hi, A friend pointed me toward your blog. I wanted to drop a line to let you know about Swallow, and a pride weekend party we'll be hosting on Thursday June 23rd. The title says it all. We strip down, jack and suck each other (usually 40 or 50 guys), and then the whole group gangs up to bust every nut, bukkake style, in one guy's mouth at the end.

The party is invite only for guys 20 to early 40s, all races, and is not advertised widely. We generally get a good crowd, with minimal attitude, just a group of guys who're into watching guys get off together. We meet often enough that it has a following, but not so often that it becomes rote, usually about once every two or three months. It's safe play only (JO and oral), and strictly no drugs. We generally meet at a private loft in the early evening on Thursday or Sunday, from 8-10pm, so guys can get in, get off, and head out to meet friends. The party is non-commercial, so there's no cover, just a tip for clothes check.

We generally don't promote it widely, but we're hosting a special next week, Swallow Your Pride, Thursday June 23rd at 8pm in midtown, and want to get the word out for this one. Guys can email here (swallow_nyc at yahoo.com for info), or join http://groups.yahoo.com/group/swallow_nyc (pics and stats required to join or get an invite). Any questions, feel free to drop a line. Thanks."

For all you dudes with more brawn than brains, here's the info scaled down...

SWALLOW (Manhattan). Oral/JO/Bukkake Party at a private loft. Usually get 40-50 guys: 20-early 40s, all races. According to the host, it goes like this: "We strip down, jack and suck each other, and then the whole group gangs up to bust a nut, bukkake style, in one guy's mouth." Usually meet about once every two or three months, Thursday or Sunday, 8-10pm. Safe sex only; no drugs, minimal attitude. The party is FREE (no cover), just a tip for clothes check.To get in send pics and stats to: swallow_nyc at yahoo.com, or check out http://groups.yahoo.com/group/swallow_nyc. Next Party: June 23.

Hey guys, THE OMEGA PARTY moved to Long Island City, Queens a couple of weeks ago. I've haven't been to this party since they were near Times Square. The review is a positive take of most of the other review I've ever received on THE OMEGA PARTY. If you're in Queens, and into guys into their 40s (especially bears), who are not "gym rats", then give it a shot...

"Went to The Omega Room for the first time Friday night. Got there during the first hour (it opened at 9) and stayed until nearly 3, so I did my hours. I was told there were about 70 guys that night.

The place was in only its second week on Northern Boulevard in Queens. I know the Omega Room used to be in midtown but I never got there. Northern Boulevard is easy to get to, at least from Midtown, Brooklyn, Queens etc.

There is a good amount of space – about six rooms of different sizes some with spaces curtained off or partitioned. Most of the action took place in one of the darker rooms.

Because the location is so new, both space and crowd have an unfinished quality – lots of people said that the crowd would grow once all adjusted to Queens, and some of the wood construction was raw. Condoms were available, but they could be in more locations, and the single porn screen was not very large.

The crowd was white, black, latin, asian, average age about 40, which is my age and fine by me. There were a few twentysomething guys but not many. If you only like gym rats, this is not the place. If you like bears, you’ll have more choices. There were only a couple of real trolls, but you could fend them off pretty easily.

The guys were frisky and unpretentious. They come to have sex, not stand & model. I was the same and I had a good time. As more people get used to Northern Blvd and the hosts continue to design the space, it can only get better."

Sounds like a good party, if that's what you're looking for. I've only heard good things about the hosts, who are very attentive to the crowd. Here's the info...

THE OMEGA PARTY (Long Island City, Queens). MOVED TO QUEENS. They get 70 to 120 guys per party (Sunday being the biggest night). The parties are laid back, mix/general crowd. The age mix ranges from 20 to 60YO, all races (60% white, 40% mixed), muscle, thin, cute, bear etc. Refreshments , snacks, condoms and lube provided. Time: Fridays open from 9pm to 4am. An older mixed crowd/for average guys. Anybody wanting to go to the party should email roccosly@aol.com or http://www.theomegaroom.com/.

Sunday, June 12, 2011

Monday... JACKS OF COLOR (Chelsea) " JUNE MASSAGE-&-PLAY MONDAY PARTY #2" Doors 7:00 to Midnight, goes 'til 2 am @Paddles; A New York City Club For Men of Color "And Their Friends." Has HUGE parties 70-120 guys attend, all ages. An older mixed crowd/for average guys. Email here JacksOfColor@Gmail.com or check out http://www.jacksofcolor.com/

Tuesday… THE CLUB HOUSE ORGIES (East Village). NEW LOCATION. 8pm-1am. Tonight is PEAK party: This dude loves theme parties and has a few a week, such as ERUPTIÖN (primarily for bb); PEÄK (Safe Sex Party); COCK4LUNCH (afternoon sex); FÜSION (Baseball-style wristbands to let guys know if you prefer ss or bb) – you get the idea. Held in a private apartment. The host (who sometimes participates) describes his party “this is a party for height/weight proportional men over 35. Younger guys come, but they’re usually into older guys. This is an orgy, not a stand & pose cruise party. Racially diverse. A slow night is 15 guys, a busy night is 30. Guys range from great shape to bad shape.” For middle-aged crowd (45-65) out-of-shape guys and their admirers. Check out his cool blog (which trashes me) at http://theorgyguy.blogspot.com or to get in email stats and pics to host at theclubhouseparties@gmail.com.

NEW YORK JACKS (Chelsea/Times Square) Safe-sex party for guys who like to jerk off. They are not selective about who gets in, so the guys run the gamut: all type of bodies, races, and ages from hot young guys to muscle guys to older guys. Tuesdays (Paddles) and Sunday (Times Square). Check out their site: http://www.nyjacks.com/

FOOTMENNYC and TOUCH PARTY GUYS (Chelsea). 8pm - 2am. Not really a full-flegded sex party, but you get…Free Full-Body Massage provider all night, and Curtained play-spaces for your pleasure. Held at The Eagle (28th St., btwn 10th & 11th Aves.) $10 cover, includes drink ticket (21 years old and over). The private party is on the 2nd floor and the roof. Check out the website http://www.FootMenNYC.com

Wednesday… EXECUTIVE LUNCH (Gramercy). Lunch-time (12-3pm) party. Daytime release for business men and jocks to hook up weekday afternoons, 10-20+ men attend: new added feature is a complimentary massage by our very hot in house masseur. *For Invite: MUST Send pic (shirtless from the waist up is fine) & Stats to: apollothegreek@earthlink.net and check out http://www.hotgaysexpartiesnyc.com

HARD DRIVE (Chelsea) At Paddles, Doors 8pm-1am, open until 3am. Please be height/weight proportionate and if 55 or over please BE IN GREAT SHAPE. Wear underwear or less. Email here hunteur1@gmail.com or check out www.CumMonkey.com or www.HardDriveMen.com

REAL MEN ONLY (RMO) PARTY (Fresh Meadows) Slurpee Coach has the parties weekly on Wed eve 7-11pm. For older/average guys. To get in, email pics/stats here: slurpeecoach@hotmail.com.

NOHO J/ORAL AFTERWORK GROUP (Gramercy) Bringing together men who enjoy group jerk off sessions and oral encounters, the friendly gathering offering an attitude-free atmosphere that aims to be inclusive of the community, regardless of age, ethnicity, body image, or even orientation. Most are welcome to join us, BUT please send stats and pics for further details. Besides the obvious focus on J/O there is also an Oral Option, you may or may not wish to participate, which is to be agreed upon between intended partners. Come ready to play and have fun with your fellow man or men, 5pm-8pm. If interested in attending send stats and pics to: cpw55@earthlink.net, or check out http://www.hotgaysexpartiesnyc.com

Thursday… EXECUTIVE LUNCH (Gramercy). Lunch-time (12-3pm) party. Daytime release for business men and jocks to hook up weekday afternoons, 10-20+ men attend: new added feature is a complimentary massage by our very hot in house masseur. *For Invite: MUST Send pic (shirtless from the waist up is fine) & Stats to: apollothegreek@earthlink.net or check out http://www.hotgaysexpartiesnyc.com

ND2 (Midtown). 8:30pm-3am. This party is for average African American and Latino dudes ONLY. Mandatory clothes check: boxers, no shirts or t-shirts. Condoms, lube, liquid provided. Hip hop music with a Dj. No attitude and a lot of action. Send pics and stats to HARLEMDUKESNYC@YAHOO.COM

MILK CHOCOLATE PARY (Gramercy). UNCUT MEAT / COLLEGE JOCK PARTY, 7pm - 11pm. (UNCUT Men admitted for less). *** Also, "College Jocks" age 21-25, get into the party FREE before 8pm! According to the host, they screen to invite men of all colors age 21-45 to keep the party hot. Never been, but they generally draw an older crowd, hopefully this will help bring in some new blood.Send stats and pics to milkchocolatenyc@gmail.com

THE CLUB HOUSE ORGIES (East Village). NEW LOCATION. 8pm-1am. Tonight is ERUPTION party: This dude loves theme parties and has a few a week, such as ERUPTIÖN (primarily for bb); PEÄK (Safe Sex Party); COCK4LUNCH (afternoon sex); FÜSION (Baseball-style wristbands to let guys know if you prefer ss or bb) – you get the idea. Held in a private apartment. The host (who sometimes participates) describes his party “this is a party for height/weight proportional men over 35. Younger guys come, but they’re usually into older guys. This is an orgy, not a stand & pose cruise party. Racially diverse. A slow night is 15 guys, a busy night is 30. Guys range from great shape to bad shape.” For middle-aged crowd (45-65) out-of-shape guys and their admirers. Check out his cool blog (which trashes me) at http://theorgyguy.blogspot.com or to get in email stats and pics to host at theclubhouseparties@gmail.com.

Friday... TESTOSTERONE/THE OLYMPUS PARTY(Gramercy). Held in a huge duplex. This is an umbrella for a number of different types of parties: TESTOSTERONE, RAW RORK, SQUIRT, PORN STARS and it seems like a dozen others. Mostly older, out of shape guys. *For Invite: MUST Send pic (shirtless from the waist up is fine) & Stats to: apollothegreek@earthlink.net or check out http://www.hotgaysexpartiesnyc.com.

THE OMEGA PARTY (Long Island City, Queens). MOVED TO QUEENS. They get 70 to 120 guys per party (Sunday being the biggest night). The parties are laid back, mix/general crowd. The age mix ranges from 20 to 60YO, all races (60% white, 40% mixed), muscle, thin, cute, bear etc. Refreshments , snacks, condoms and lube provided. Time: Fridays open from 9pm to 4am. An older mixed crowd/for average guys. Anybody wanting to go to the party should email roccosly@aol.com or http://www.theomegaroom.com/.

THUGS 4 THUGS SEX PARTY (Brooklyn) 12:00-7:00am. Hot party for Black and Latino guys, and guys who love big black cocks. Safe sex only for in shape guys—huge space (2 huge floors), fresh towels and condoms/lube provided, (12midnight-7am). It’s a safe and clean place. lots of space. a bit dark but eyes get used to it. TO GET IN: http://thugs4thugsex.com or email bkthugparty@earthlink.net

FOREVER FISTING PARTY (Chelsea). Title says it all. Into the fisting fetish – don’t miss this -- Held at "Chelsea Space" – Contact Cain at MasterCainB@yahoo.com or check out www.ffslingers.com.

Saturday… JACKS OF COLOR (Chelsea) "SATURDAY AFTERNOON LEATHER!"-- the day before FOLSOM STREET EAST -- doors 1:00 to 6:00, goes 'til 8 pm @Paddles; A New York City Club For Men of Color "And Their Friends." Has HUGE parties 70-120 guys attend, all ages. An older mixed crowd/for average guys. Email here JacksOfColor@Gmail.com or check out http://www.jacksofcolor.com/

SKIN TIGHT USA (West Village). 10pm-? A bi-monthly to tri monthly party held in a club/bar for men who love to wear tight clothing, and those who love to gaze at them. Since 2003, the party has catered to those who have a fetish for wearing tight athletic gear, lycra outfits, leather, PVC, luge, wrestling singlet’s, nylon, dance wear, Speedos, cycle gear, super hero costumes and anything tight (many people do not wear underwear beneath their outfits, so erections are visible but never revealed!). While NOT a sex party, there is kinky heavy petting and making out. Although attendance has reach 100, about 50-60 guys usually attend (20-30 in costume). For more information, check out their site: http://www.skintightusa.com.

NUBIAN DUKES PARTY (Midtown). 11:30PM-6AM, This party is for HOT muscular, athletic, slim, African-American and Latino dudes ONLY. They also have a strict door policy. Mandatory clothes check: boxers, no shirts or t-shirts. Condoms, lube, liquid provided. Hip hop music with a Dj. Very HOT. Incredible bodies, no attitude and a lot of action. Gets 70-90+ dudes. Send pics and stats to nubiandukesnyc@yahoo.com

LOAD NYC (East Village). Underwear party held at Blue Door Video Basement: concrete basement with chairs (so you gotta like sex standing). Also small private booths. 30-90 guys, porn. Party has mixed results: sometimes hot guys, sometimes average, and sometimes OOS crowd in their 30s & 40s. To get in email pics/stats to Loadnyc@aol.com.

REAL MEN ONLY (RMO) PARTY (Fresh Meadows) Slurpee Coach has the parties weekly on Wed eve 7-11pm. For older/average guys. To get in, email pics/stats here: slurpeecoach@hotmail.com.

THUGS 4 THUG SEX PARTY (Brooklyn) 9:00pm-3:00am. Hot party for Black and Latino guys, and guys who love big black cocks. Safe sex only for in shape guys—huge space (2 huge floors), fresh towels and condoms/lube provided, (12midnight-7am). It’s a safe and clean place. lots of space. a bit dark but eyes get used to it. http://thugs4thugsex.com/ or email bkthugparty@earthlink.net

DADS'N'LADS (Gramercy 11pm-3am. Held at the Duplex, this is a safe sex, no-drugs party for guys who are 18 years old on up. Pants check required for entry. Described by the host: "younger guys into older, and visa versa, or guys who are into the daddy/son fetish."Send stats and pice to dadsnladsnyc@gmail.com

THE NYJOCK PARTY--NYJP (Fire Island) Camp Wannafukme. Come drink and play at the Cock Tease Cotillion Underwear Party. Party starts at 11pm goes to 5. Since it is warmer there will be a mandatory clothes check. A safe sex party. For a younger/hot crowd. Send pics and stats to nyjockparty@yahoo.com

FOREVER FISTING PARTY (Chelsea). Title says it all. Into the fisting fetish – don’t miss this -- Held at "Chelsea Space" – Contact Cain at MasterCainB@yahoo.com or check out www.ffslingers.com or check out http://mrcainb.wordpress.com.

Sunday… INFINITY NYC (Times Square). 8PM - 1AM, All supplies provided. Mandatory street clothes check. No shirts or tees. STRICTLY FOR FIT MEN 20-45. To get in send stats and pics to infinitinyc@yahoo.com.

NEW YORK BONDAGE CLUB (Chelsea) 7pm-1am @Paddles. Sex is no longer banned. Sucking, fucking, whatever, are all allowed now at all times. It's common to see guys tied down and fucked. Or a dom directing sex between two roped subs. Held in a straight S&M club, the party scene includes cages, restraints, bondage crosses, stocks and all sorts of devices to aid in tying people up and getting them off. They now stay open later (until at least 1 AM instead of 11 PM) and at 11 PM they turn down the lights in all areas except the bar at the front. In these darker areas, there's now a dress code of no street clothes. You have to wear no more than underwear, or you can wear fetish wear (leather, rubber, and the like). They have started promotions to get younger guys in. But for anyone who has a taste for sex with a kinky side (leather, rope, spanking, etc) it's a good place to get satisfied on a Sunday night. Check out: http://www.nybondageclub.com/

NEW YORK JACKS (Chelsea/Times Square) Safe-sex party for guys who like to jerk off. They are not selective about who gets in, so the guys run the gamut: all type of bodies, races, and ages from hot young guys to muscle guys to older guys. Tuesdays (Paddles) and Sunday (Times Square). Check out their site: http://www.nyjacks.com/

THE OMEGA PARTY (Long Island City, Queens). MOVED TO QUEENS. They get 70 to 120 guys per party (Sunday being the biggest night). The parties are laid back, mix/general crowd. The age mix ranges from 20 to 60YO, all races (60% white, 40% mixed), muscle, thin, cute, bear etc. Refreshments , snacks, condoms and lube provided. Time: Sundays open 6pm to 2am. An older mixed crowd/for average guys. Anybody wanting to go to the party should email roccosly@aol.com or http://www.theomegaroom.com/.

THUGS 4 THUGS SEX PARTY ( Brooklyn ) Hot party for Black and Latino guys, and guys who love big black cocks. Safe sex only for in shape guys—huge space (2 huge floors), fresh towels and condoms/lube provided, (9pm-3am). It’s a safe and clean place. lots of space. a bit dark but eyes get used to it. http://thugs4thugsex.com/ or email bkthugparty@earthlink.net

DICKPLAY PARTY (Inwood/Upper Manhattan) Color Him Father, 5PM to 12AM. Held in a private apartment by Ed & Steve, an interracial gay couple -- this party meets about twice a month is a laid-back mixed crowd of mostly older in-shape guys. It's promoted as an interracial erotic play party. It's a mix of guys, white, black, Latin, occasionally Asian. Average age is 35-45+. They get about 40+ guys. Yes, the hosts provide condoms, but I hear that 75-80% of the fucking is BB. The atmosphere is distinctly no attitude.To get in, Email: EdAndSteve@verizon.net; or check out http://groups.yahoo.com/group/EdAndSteve.

THE CLUB HOUSE ORGIES (East Village). NEW LOCATION. 8pm-1am. Tonight is FUSION party: This dude loves theme parties and has a few a week, such as ERUPTIÖN (primarily for bb); PEÄK (Safe Sex Party); COCK4LUNCH (afternoon sex); FÜSION (Baseball-style wristbands to let guys know if you prefer ss or bb) – you get the idea. Held in a private apartment. The host (who sometimes participates) describes his party “this is a party for height/weight proportional men over 35. Younger guys come, but they’re usually into older guys. This is an orgy, not a stand & pose cruise party. Racially diverse. A slow night is 15 guys, a busy night is 30. Guys range from great shape to bad shape.” For middle-aged crowd (45-65) out-of-shape guys and their admirers. Check out his cool blog (which trashes me) at http://theorgyguy.blogspot.com or to get in email stats and pics to host at theclubhouseparties@gmail.com.