Hi Stella, please what is wrong with some men??? Something happened to me today on my way home from work. A guy sat next to me, before I knew it, this guy started touching his privates... Not like I cared but it looked like he was masturbating or something.. I didn't talk, I just kept managing... He was with a backpack, it got to a point, he decided to spread that backpack on his legs and kept sliding his hand underneath. At this point I shifted very well and made sure not even his clothes will touch me. I was actually angry. I decided to keep quiet all through cos I didn't want to cause a scene ... If I had spoken.. I'm sure the guy would hate his life by the time I'm done saying my mind . ... I mean what is wrong with people? I had to discuss with few friends immediately I got home.. One of them said she was in a bus one time and a guy started watching porn beside her.. Ahn ahn! I told her that has happened to me before! What is wrong with people? Some Men need to get their acts together.. Its disgusting!

Please this is a serious plea for a job. I don’t want to start writing any pitiable long story/epistle but it has really not been easy without a job. Please I need a job as idleness and depression is slowly setting in.

I have a Bachelor of Science (B.Sc.) degree and a Masters in Public Health (Mph). Asides that, I’m an honest, hard working, articulate and responsible person and you won’t regret having me as a part of your team. I also have good experience in customer relations and sales. I have been applying and nothing has come out of all the applications yet. I know correct people read this our wonderful blog.

Please I’m calling on Heads of NGOs, Human Resource Managers and Managers of Organizations/Companies, Heads of Organizations, well meaning individuals and concerned persons that can help with a job to please come to my aid. Do you have an ongoing environmental/public health project and need someone hard working and capable? Kindly contact me. I won’t mind something around Lagos/Ogun State axis. M

Good morning everyone. This is Bakare Abiodun, and i want to appreciate and thank you all for your prayers and support. I am so grateful to everyone that sent Me money to move out of the house and commence treatment. It wouldn't have been possible without you all.

Some test were carried out on me but i dont know the results yet. I went through minor procedures for the pus to be drained from my feet. Doctor said i would require an x-ray to know the next step.

I am grateful for everything and am asking for your prayers and support. God bless you all.

Bakare A.A

BAKARE BEING CONVEYED TO HOSPITAL BY AMBULANCESAID HE PAID 40K FROM THE MONEY HE GOT FOR AMBULANCESERVICES.

Said he got a total of N122k but is left now with 21k after paying for so many things.Please if you still want to reach out to him let me know and i will post his contact details again.Thank you and God bless everyone who reached out to help Bakare get back on his feet.this is a miracle.God bless you all.He is still in Hospital and will keep us informed of his progress...........................................................................................................

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Thank you for this platform. I love you to bits. Please hide my Id. I have been following your blog and the life experiences shared and dealt with by BV commenters have been helping many people find solutions or ideas to solutions in real life. I don't really know o where this may fit in but I would like for these questions to be treated here.

Most often, on this blog the solution proffered to marital challenges that has gone overboard especially by the married females who send in chronicles or share in the comment section(men hardly send in) are:

a. Leave him (divorce)

b. Cheat on him

c. Prayyyyy...War room bla bla bla.

Hardly is counselling recommended by the majority as we all know too that seeing a shrink or marriage counselors is not a common practice in Nigeria except for those who go to their pastors. What really works? is it a problem of this generation of women or men that marriages don't last anymore and riddled with cheating cheating cheating as our mothers lasted in marriages and we find them stay faithful even after death of their husbands as widows, train the children in their husband's home and (at least i know my mum has been celibate since my father's death having grown with her since my teenage years) stay committed to God. But this generation? For where? she or he may already be sampling a side boo even before the spouse died, so they just f**k on!(LMAO).

My question is this; for the married, (men please contribute as it is our women that speak oftentimes more on this blog)

1. Did or does cheating on a spouse solve in the long run the problem when the marriage is heading south.

2. Does it balance any equation for we women, especially as it has been a man's game mostly. If you are doing on the side currently, how has it helped you in truth or it still leaves a big hole in you that eats your heart and well being, yet you just force yourself to believe you are doing just fine.

3. Was/ is your cheating routine random? Are you continuing or had to stop or wishing to stop but cannot?

4. Was/is it an affair with a single guy or older married man and why(for each choice) and what are/have been the consequences. Remember this post is not to encourage or discourage a negative adult behavior or judge. This is to provide a learning curve for those in similar situations or about to make mistakes.

5. If you are/were in such cheating mode situations and find that honestly, in your moment of sober reflection it really is not a situation you would love for your daughter or relative to mingle into in retrospect (especially for the very mature in marriage), what advice would you leave for the young married spouses of today?

6. Are you comfortable, as in,you have a marriage others are wishing for yet just happened to find yourself cheating...colleague, work place, pressure, neighbor, a tempting spouse of a friend etc....WHY?

7. For the prayerrrrrr solution, how has it helped? success stories please

8. Finally, if divorce was your case, share honestly how great it helped or didn't help(consequences). Be honest and don't try to sugar coat it because it makes you feel good that you made the right choice.

and any more questions not captured. How does this have to be happening in marriages where during dating, both couldn't wait to go to the altar. What happened?

I have seen that this is becoming like a constant often not talked about issue in our times? Is cohabitation trying to usurp marriage in our times? Share and please, don't just write to be naughty...write to share honestly what is happening with you with a mind to possibly educate your listener as if a sister or daughter came to you with these challenging questions. Sometimes writing or sharing about what you are doing or is happening to you could be therapeutic to the soul especially those things we hardly can tell others. Good or bad, it opens your mind up to new learning that could be helpful for a change in the right direction.This is a blog and faceless too. If your Id is a problem, go anonymous.

I am writing a book called "TIME AND STRINGS" and still ongoing, I will want to infuse how SDK came about into it, If you could help me with that, I will be immensely grateful Big Sis. This book I believe will help the generation of youth we have in the country, how to manage time also cultivate a profound successful habit. Understanding the law of process, and also consistency.

Here is an abstract from the book Big Sis.

Time is the currency of the earth, what you do when you alone makes you equal, different or below the next person, your habit determines your purpose. Time is essentially the most powerful equation in the world, you can't take back yesterday, you can't re-write the past and you can't predict the next 10mins. That's how powerful Time is.

Develop your Time into solving a need, if you can fill a void, you can be successful, successful people are problem solvers and problem solvers cultivate a positive habit and adequately respect Time. Managing Time positively gives your Life a meaning and the more informed you are the more content you carry.

The big difference between the rich and the poor is "Information" it does not matter what you do or trade, the more informed you are about your sphere, the more different your product, brand and personality is from others, And we are at a transcending stage where the industrial age is fading away and we presently in an information age dispensation.

This is the age and time entrepreneurs will thrive and be better, "employees seek security while entrepreneurs seek freedom" the government is beginning to fail in promises all over the world, that is because the industrial age when Prussian education happens to be the core value and basic principle is no more.

Now you don't need a degree to be successful, but how you invest your Time building ideas, concept or starting a trade, making whatever you intend doing a buy-out product can definitely get you to the very top. Live and don't just exist, make every moment matter, don't live you life like a scalar quantity that has magnitude but lacks direction but a vector quantity which carries both.

Consistency is art, however we choose to live every decision we take and ounce of time wasted we definitely will pay the piper duly for his songs someday, life they say is a marathon not a sprint, let your plight be the flight to your bright light.

An Abstract From My Book (To Be Published 2017)
"TIME AND STRINGS "
Ozoya Salami

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I am sending the rest to friends via email.please if you load,let me know okay?

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MEMO AGAIN.

Those of you attacking me for sending IHN Memo, it wont stop and if you complain again that i sent this,I will send another one tomorrow.

LOL

Some of you are just plain wicked.I have searched my conscience and its clean,I dont even know some of you personally but you behave on my email like i owe you anything..Imagine someone cussing me out cos i forgot to post something i promised i would?Na wah!

Memos will always come to ''clear the air'' or correct an impression.I have my own mind and would appreciate that you do not try to squeeze my mindset to fit into yours.

That said,I cant help loving you all...blog love oh.

Another memo loading..LMAO!

that said,you are free to send in anything postable for ihn as long as it is not advert and no i am not accepting paid adverts for IHN.....*wink*

Three days ago makes it 19yrs my Dad passed away! And every year I miss him like a fat boy misses cake😢 I love u Daddy and jus kno ur 4 Angels turned out gud (Altho I pyess a lot now 😢😚) We love u, but God loves u more 😟🙏

I have so missed IHN. Been super duper busy. The good kinda busy. Thanking God for making my business grow this fast. Good records in less than 3months of start up. How are you my people emjay, tgw, tetrina, Uriel and default smile. Trinity me got home n slept off o! Come n visit na miss u! Call you back later tonight mbok.

Stella,one of ur well known male bvn is in trouble o.I won't mention his name but I think many ppl should know who I'm talking about by his offence. He went to sleep with a woman in her house and her husband came in unexpectedly.guess what the woman did when d man found him where he was hiding,she denied knowing him n said he's probably a buglar.he received some planking by the neighbours (some of whom knew him well) and ppl around before being taken to the police station. He has been missing on this blog for a while. You know who I'm talking about?

As much as those shoki, couldn't load any, fastest fingers I hail una o, then how many you misses me??? *side eyes* Stella make me qualify for one of the give aways nah. I need money badly to start up something

Stella good morning, I want to bring an issue here, most house help of these days are very heartless, they treat people's kids as trash especially toddlers. That is why most times I don't pity them when I see them been maltreated on the news, because only God knows what must have lead to it... there is this building close to our house,thou the building its on another street but I can view what is happening in the building.. I have been noticing the way a house help of about 16 to 17 years do treat her madam's 1 year + son,, because when ever d lady leave for work very early in the morning, the wicked soul brings the child outside n maltreat this baby.. dis child would be crying and dis agbaya lady would be beating this baby, d one that got me angry yesterday was the way she use cain n wipe dis little boy, after beats him she slaps this child, dis child kept on crying for lik 1hr, out of annoyance, I called on her attention from my building and called her a wicked girl.. still yet it didn't even stop her. As am writing to u now this morning; this baby have been crying seriously for 2hrs, only God knows wat is happening inside the house, cause his parent have all gone to work. Am a single lady, by the grace of God when I get married n start having kids, I don't think I would have any, cause they are wicked. . Pls how do I inform this baby's parent without it looking as if am poke nosing? ? Stella pls post. I need to put and end to this

This signing out prayers just brought smile to my face.Testimony to silence my enemies,testimony that will sound like a lie,testimony that will win souls for God when I share...Thank you lord for answered prayers.

Madam masturbator, thank God you mind your business because that is right thing to do,because it is actually not your business, don't you think such people are psychologically disturbed and that backpack might contain weapons to to harm you, if you had said your mind like you wanted to. Am sure you would have been the one doing the regretting and not himSo next time pretend that you are blind even deaf nd dumb , don't even show how disgusted you are in your expressions.

The times are really hard and everything is just going crazy. Will be thrown out of my house soon and there is no one to call. All these men that can actually help want something in return that i cannot give. Baba God, please come to my rescue. I have faith.

When is d next snm stella...matured men are scarce oh....some will add you and not talk or wait 24hrs to reply, others it's like deyre conducting interviews, while some after 2 mins of chatting d next line of questionsHave you had sex before?When was d last time you had sexHow many times can you goAre these people really looking for serious relationships?When you add someone d convo shld be enjoyable, be diverse not narrow minded!as much as I want a serious rlnship I also know not everyone will fit into wat I want and vice versa but we cld make great friends from the platform.....so to think dat 'she z desperate so you throw anything at her is wrong and shows d kind of person you are! Dats said I still believe in love😍 and hope to meet my prince charming soon # I hope he won't be forming busy ooo lol#

Eka joy you are in a serious relationship with a yoruba guy you have always said you dont mind if he impregnates another woman,you will still stay with him and take care of the child. Now your eye is outside to sleep with an ex.Are you just a confused person or your current bf is a failure in bed? Ikorodu queen pick a struggle.Stella pls post.

dear concerned sister, na una type no dey like to hear the truth, you would rather stay in an abusive marriage that could cost you your life than leave. marriage is for better or worst i agree but it aint a do or die affair. its for better or worst not for better or terrible. one person worst might differ from another person definition of worst, and so if a person feel he or she has had his worst in marriage the only thing left to do is waka comot out of it.in such situation it is better for whoever is in that terrible position to leave than get his or her hand amputated. so puhlease park well.

A guy called the presenter of "unburden" which airs every Sunday evening seeking for counsel.He said he's been dating a girl for abt 6mnths now but they haven't collected n he was quite patient wt her.So last sat,she came visiting n the girl agreed they should collect as they were both in d mood.So he they undressed,only for d babe to turn him down n wore her clothes. He was quite surprised n asked y she changed her mind,she replied dt there's no way she can cope wt his stuff. Haha,but y?d presenter asked and d guy said she told him to his face dt he was too small so she left. He's been calling her,but she no longer picks his calls. Now d guy is confused,doesn't know wat to do n seeking for advice from d presenter. See confusion,Dr Nosa d presenter self confuse.He sha asked d guy if dt was d 1st babe to hv turned him down based on such then d caller hung up. Watin him want mk d presenter tell am b4?

Wen I met my boo I told him we will be celibate, it lasted upto three years before he deflowered me, we broke up 2yrs ago n came back this year, but the issue is that we v had sex the few times we met this yr although planning marriage in a year time but I always few guilty after each sex, I haven't been with another man even during our breakup but it still doesn't feel right, he listens to me in everything but when it comes to sex its always difficult. I love him dearly but love God more, how do I hold myself n also convince him to be alittle patient with me, we are in a long distance rlshp and am visiting him tomorrow but am afraid if he will accept. Pls dnt cuss me just need sincere advice from mature folks.

Madam marriage counsellor what happened you ask?What is different from women of these day and our mothers?Exposure happenedEducation happenedFeminism happenedSelfworth knowlegde happenedWho told you those women of the past stayed with their cheating spouse were happy?'They simply stayed to please societyThey stayed because they were scared and they ve been maid to believe they are nothing without menThis life is too short to live it very sadYou are happily saying your mum stayed celebate since your teenage years right? It is not a sin for widowed persons to remarry. He didnt create us to be miserable and aloneWomen simply want to be treated better, they want to enjoy their lives and not just exist till the day they die

Some Nigerians are funny sha, madam next time you are in a commercial vehicle biko close your eyes or put on an earpiece, how does one touching his or her privates you concern na? The thing still dey surprise me sha.

Hi Stella. Thanks for posting my give away even when I didn't mailed it to you. Got several mails for it but im giving it to the first person that mailed me.The guy is on his way to my neighborhood to pick it up right now. Thanks once again.

See give, jeez! Hope police won't kill him oh, thinking he is a thief truly, why would the woman tag him a thief na? What if they had killed him before police came. Hmmm. That should teach him a very good lesson, if he comes out alive

All those people watching war room or rooms if they are doing item 7 make una let me know. I just need that item 7 to come and wine and dine with una. I tire for una war room.. Next time make una go for counselling, all of una writing chronicles.

I pray for you Salami that you will be healed in Jesus name. Thank God for all who contributed, just know that your hands will not go down. You are all lifted UP.

All the angels giving out to the needies, God will continue to bless and refill your pockets more and more.

Too much assignment on this my school work, na so so research, research i just dey do. May God helep me well well AMEN.

This green tea, i drink today, is from my boss own, chai let me look for the name: Twinning Jasmine Petal and Pearls green tea is very lovely. Make i go thief another one. My Boss a very big man dey follow me drag who go stay slim oo.

Abeg everyone enjoy your afternoon jare. Make i go back to my research work. The Queen no need to tell them about me, make them continue to use their sorry lives they take console themselves. Man God bless don already dey blessed. Make una continue ooo, i no GET TIME.

Well, personally, i still cant wrap my head around the fact that u love a person so much, u propose to and get married to the person while all along u had intension on cheating. How can u claim to love a person n hurt him/her. Does it feel right? How parent are able to stay faithful even after loosing a spouse bcos their mothers only taught them to live for their kids. Many pple see cheating as a solution bt i dont, it actually complicates things I believe. So those that hv done it n or are still in it, kindly step forward and tell us wat made u do it and how it had helped u. N also war room peeps, pls how has watching war room n praying helped u deal with a cheating spouse. Forgive my blunders!!

You are not poke nosing my dear. Please go there this evening whenever you sense they are around and inform them. If possible, take a snap as a proof. The girl is simply evil. I would have given her a dirty slap myself before informing her employer.

E-mailing the remaining cards to your friends?? 😲 😲 Sterra how can you do that? when some of us, old bvs, do not have our email addy " permanently plastered on our profiles" Ehen? Aunty Stella I beg reason am nah + some of those friends of yours 're rich

Anon that saw an house girl maltreating a small boy, tell the mother about everything in the absence of the house girl. Then tell her to get a day off from work or take permission to resume work late. On that 'D' day, she should prepare for work as usual and leave home to wait somewhere , later she can sneak over to your apartment and watch out for the drama or she can give you her number, when the girl starts beating the boy, you can call her to come and catch her red-handed. I think mothers should arrange for a creche sround their office and be keeping their babies there.

Welcome,ihn,please I have a question to ask,when I was growing up,i was told to greet every one you see around you when you come around them,but in town,you don't have to greet everybody you see ooh,na so I passed this hungry looking boy/okada man where I went to buy something,and he started cussing me that I didn't greet him,all I felt was that he was frustrated,I just told him to come that I will give him food

Hi house.. Am a regular visitor here though I don't get to post, am pregnant am kinda lonely here since hubby is always at work daytime.. Hmm... Need friends who are mothers to chat with as this is my first pregnancy.. Love u guys

Some people tho God have mercy stella you dy try honestly person wey no get mind for dn stop blogging jeez the hate on this blog is worse than a snake bite 85 percent of bv were saying the watch is fake, like do you guys think it's only poor people that use the internet,how can someone say rich people don't visit blogs am disappointed and yet you guys would go to church and expect a miracle keep waiting when you don't love yourself how do you expect God to love you? ,stella block all the free things on this blog abeg it's really annoying

My dear..same as me..it happens in my neighbour house..I watch through a windows upstairs as a house help beats a 4yr old girl that is an only child and also dumb..her parents are so wealthy but they are never home..once she comes bk from school..she will beat not even cane but by pushing,kkicking and slapping and tthe girl cries all day..I want to report to the mum but I will be Called nosy as they don't know me at all..

BLuntIjebUChicI just saw your comment on IHN on monday and it just made me feel sad.I am so sorry for deleting you or rather for deleting myself.I didn't want any memo from any blog vistior that's why I option for that cos I thought you would be mad I lead you on.you're a good,displine woman and I will privildeged to be your friend if you want.thanksTo*bie

Stella of life, why can't people outside Nigeria be a partaker of the giveaways. Please consider. We have a lot of people in this UK going through some difficult moments . Imagine what that £50 will do for them. Thanks

Let me pitch my tent here.. . Honestly I have never in this life be in support of sex before marriage. . I feel guilty anytime I try it. So I have known my man for years and we have plans.. We tried introducing sex... Hmmmm I saw what was beyond me oh... I usually think people are joking when they say something is like middle finger but this one is worse!!! I have been picking fight since it happened. . He is a good guy but that kini can't 'werk' .. Too tiny.. Fine guys can disappoint sha. Will just look for a way to get out of this o. Can't deal.

Please who knows how to explain issues to new members of a group, i think i need assistance. The way the comments are shifting to one side is not what a blog is supposed to be, half of the comments and counter comments on yesterday's IHN is Xp Xp Xp. What exactly is the problem? Am I the only bv? What the heck? I smell suicide mehnnn, someone is about to hold the ropes and hiding to type that new bvs are also noticing that I come under anonymous to hype myself. Laughable isn't it? These newbies are they aware of the game plan of 'Pull her down'? √Are they aware that some of the people typing these things borrow money to complete rent and come online to form Rich Wives' Club? √Are they aware that some were sent to school but ate their school fees and dropped out?√ Are they aware that some spend hours daily stroking their clitos with rabbits and shower heads?√ Are they aware that some graduated with an ORDINARY PASS from the University and are 'unemployable'?And oh wait for this... Some are in a LOVELESS marriage? No they don't. So to newbies XP is the 'fake' wannabe one trying to belong. Hahahaha. Cheap fame I call it. Extra cheap, drawing attention to the wrong tree. Back off y'all are hoochies. Una plenty but una no reach. Anyi na agba enwe na eri enwe. Throw me flowers? I return the full flower pot right unto your face in my own ID Xhlrted P. No leles.

I will break it down:There is a clear case of PAINED bvs. How do they balance out their pain? They come online, form a useless unholy alliance, then they frame, plot, forge, steal, malign and finally the other bvs see the TOXIC content they are filled with. We have references to old posts, all failed schemings are there. One of them unleashed the demon she inherited and doubled up my ID here and abused the shit out of other bvs, it took the efforts of 2 good bvs here to give others the flash point and codes of what was happening, many already concluded I was the one but because I don't fan the embers of acrimony, bvs put their eyes down and voila the game was exposed. You wanna know? Hit the buttons and read old posts.In my characteristics nature, what did i do? I laid low like a rattlesnake, counted very well, unlocked the criminal behind the mask and i had to bite. She assumed I had come to be a friend, hahahahahaa, friend indeed, my revenge comes like hot shit and I used some good bvs, other friends and relations to complete it. I'm sorry if I disappointed anyone as a Christian, I'm trying to stop doing revenge. In due time but before then jubilate ye not, you don't have my data, stop circulating another person's bio. It all lands in my inbox from your so-called allies, they don't like you. They hate your miserable bitter life.I am here counting all the mudshots, XP this, XP that, picking them and packing them, very soon, one of you will pay again, the pot wan full.

See the line up from their coven:She is not Igbo.She is not dark.She is hyping herself in anonymousShe types all the comments without IDShe is not a graduate.She is not a Children's Sunday School teacherShe is not a Queen.She is short.She is a not PH. D student.She is fat.She does not have a driver.She is a GwegwegweShe does not speak French.She is bipolar.She is a liar.She is not an Ada Ide.She is a lesbian.She lives in a rented house.She was not born in the U.K.She does not have a carShe does not have a job.She does not live in LagosShe is Doppelganger, King XOXO MysteryShe is Shantelle, Nmasinachi, White DiamondShe is not married.She has inferiority complexShe is suffering from domestic abuse silentlyShe does not have children.She grew up in AbaShe was not born on July 31stShe did not throw a party on Sunday.

Ohooohoho. Only one person? Now who can tell me the summary of all these schemings? To me it is JEALOUSY. When a woman has everything you WISH you had(side eyes at Stella Kork). I tell you all one thing, it is easy, start from

That long question na wah. Personal experience. Married. Got frustrated out with beatings and emotional abuse. Started hiding any weapon in my house, like kitchen knife, bottle etc for fear of being killed while asleep. Never cheated while married. Started dating a guy six months later just to have a companion because I was lonely and depressed. Got tied within three months and back to square one for almost a year. No husband. No bf. Lonely but happier. Was I happy I got divorced. "YES" because I am happier and healthier now. No more off and on hospital due to beatings. "NO" because the society is so hash on a divorced woman. They feel you are worthless. They feel its because you are a bad woman that made the man leave you. Your fellow women talk to you with disrespect. Your married friends and husband tend to hide from you. lol!!!

Can I be honest with you. **Whispers!!! At a time, I was happy my ex was cheating. Why?. Each time he visits another woman, I will know because he comes home happier. Peace reigns for days before things go back to square one. Oh yes, I know what is on your mind as you read. especially for me saying I was looking forward for his cheats. Why? was I not afraid of std?. She is a bad woman. Maybe She is not sexually active. I am a nag etc. lol, If you are a woman, May God never allow your marriage to be like mine and my ex. If you are man, May God never allow your sister or daughter marriage to be like mine and my ex. One love. anonymous mood

Just zoom your phone camera and record everything. When next you see the mother of the child, politely introduce yourself and explain the events that has been happening to her child and play the video for her or pictures.

Please go ahead and report to the child's parent. As a working mum i tell u it is in God's care alone that we leave our children. Most times it is more convenient and cost effective to have a nanny rather than dropping the kids off at a daycare. The heart of man is desperately wicked! Please report because that innocent child cannot speak up for himself.

I tell u all one thing, it is easy, start from somewhere, don't sit your flatass at home and be dreaming

I think I'm done giving anyone time on here because the last one I was locking lips and locking hands till reply uploaded, what I saw was an Mmanwu Umuoji, warehell? When Agu Iyi festival never start? Na all the ugly people sef for here dey abuse pass, why? Biko, keep my name off una wahala lane, I gat no dollars to waist.

And final warning to the one suffering from Borderline Personality Disorder(BPD): there's a reason why Psychiatrists practice, go engage their services and get healing. I am not the causer of your problem and try and know your mates, I know my mates, o di mkpacious dear K.To the other ones, if you know that IMEBIGO as in eeeh some objects are stuck in between your legs, go see a Doctor, then proceed to deliverance ground so you get divine healing, and see clear. God still answers.

I gat time today, let me attend to my 'jobless' job needs, I will be here, I looove this blog die.

Please you need to call the attention of the boy's parent before he dies in the hands of that maid,tell the mum their is something you want to show her let her pretend like she's gone to work as usual then let her watch from your apartment.biko open your mouth and talk ooo cos anythg dat happens to dat child u allowed it

Default smile, may God answer your prayers and bless your home with children in Jesus name. The bible says there shall be no barren in the land. Like your sign out says, u are a fruitful vine and a joyful mother of children. I love your spirit. Hugs. God bless u.

The lady watching a house help maltreating someone else baby, well done oo. You are still asking if you should report abi.? Keep asking until she accidentally kills the baby. Don't you have a camera phone? Record her in the act and show the mom. Even without any evidence tell the woman ASAP. What if it was your kid?

Please take an audio record of the babies cry, since the house is near to you and play for the parents of the child. Also if you are in good terms with any of the neighbours approach them and also discuss your findings with them, so as to get their opinion. I have a 6months old baby and I can't just imagine same! I feel so bad

Please report the child abuser to the parents. Tell them to act like they are going to work normally and come and watch from your house or anywhere where they can view the house what usually happens. Poor baby.

Pls inform them asap, don't care abt whatever the outcome will be, at least u know u have cleared ur conscience by bringing it to their notice. That's one of the reasons I will neva bring in a house help into my house, NEVER! Make I dey manage like dat abeg.

You just had to list all that for us to do what with? Call names already! All these dem say dem say is so stale. I'm here to troll comments. Did I miss any drama biko nu? Give me clue lemme go back and read. Grown adults behaving like kids on someone else's blog, yeye dey smell.Hello IHN La Katie is hereeeee