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virginal woes

I've been trying to finger my girlfriend who is a virgin. The problem is that I can’t get my finger more than about an inch inside; there seems to be something in the way at the top and whenever I press or rub against it, it’s painful for her. Could it maybe be that her hymen hasn't broken or something?

Nick

Hi Nick,

Your first inclination is probably right: What you are feeling is her intact hymen. While it is possible to get a finger or two past the hymen during mutual masturbation, it is also entirely possible to have a little difficulty. Each woman is different. In regards to her pain, try applying a water-based lubricant, waiting until she is more aroused, and then inserting one finger very slowly. Tell her to give you guidance on how deep and how slow she wants it. Once you’ve reached a comfortable level, ask her if it would be alright to use a second finger.

It is important to make your girlfriend aware that her hymen might tear during this practice. While the hymen is perceived as synonymous with virginity, tearing it does not mean that she is no longer a virgin. If remaining a virgin in all senses of the word is important to your girlfriend, I highly recommend discussing the situation before you go finger happy.

Donald Zimmer

swallowing semen

Is it wrong to swallow your own semen? I feel that it isn’t — if masturbating is considered a normal act and is not homosexual, then swallowing one’s own semen should not be either. My girlfriend feels this way also. She thinks I should taste my own semen so I know what it tastes like for her. But if I like the taste of it, will that make me homosexual or lead me to homosexuality?

Edward

Edward,

Drinking semen isn’t the same as developing a liking for an ice-cold beer. Liking the taste of your own semen won’t give you a craving for it; it’ll simply satisfy your curiosity. Nor does semen have the magical ability to alter your sexual orientation. Unless you’re already homosexual, you won’t become gay by tasting it. In fact, drinking one’s own semen is not some sort of widely practiced, common “ritual” in the homosexual community, so tasting your semen doesn’t give you automatic membership to the club. My opinion: Stop overanalyzing the situation. Taste it if you’re curious or tell your girlfriend that you really appreciate her willingness to taste your semen, but you’re really not interested. Donald Zimmer

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