The Red Headed Screamer

How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? Short fling

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? She was a cute pale skinned red head with straight shoulder length hair and a chubby but curvy figure. We met for the first time at a cafe in Downtown San Francisco.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We both really wanted to fuck but her place was off limits because she had family visiting, and my place was too far away. So we decided to go to a local hot tub joint that she knew where you could rent a private room with a bed and hot tub. We had to wait in the waiting room for what seemed like an eternity while they got our room ready, all the while exchanging suggestive glances…

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? Finally we were in the room alone together and we immediately flung off our clothes. We kissed and hugged and I played with her wonderful breasts, sucking on the nipples and feeling them get hard. I stroked her pussy with one hand and she began stroking my cock which kept getting larger and larger. I was expecting to start licking her cute red haired pussy when she exclaimed “let’s fuck.” She lay back on the bed and spread her legs and welcomed me inside. It felt great but I suspect she had only been with guys who were substantially smaller that me; I happen to be both long and quite thick. In any case, she sputtered and gasped with each stroke and at first I thought she was in pain but she ensured me she was enjoying it, so I picked up the pace and started to really pound her good. We kept going and her moaning kept getting louder and louder. The room had hard thick walls; the building was made of concrete blocks. Anyway, after a while it felt almost like making love to a bagpipes where every thrust produced a loud sustained squeal. Eventually it got so loud that a manager started pounding on the door, but the thing was by then I was in this blissful zone almost like an endless orgasm where I was oblivious to the out side world and just wanted to keep right on fucking, so I kept on fucking. Eventually I reached the point of no return and had an incredible orgasm. We both laughed and showered and left holding hands.

Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? I did and I think she had several.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? We used condoms

What were your REASONS for having this hookup? We both were attracted and had an urgent desire to fuck.

Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? Caffeine, but that’s it.

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We got together several more times and it was great, but the same seemingly excessive screaming happened every time. This actually became a problem and eventually a turn off and so we stopped seeing one another.

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Nobody

Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? Absolutely consensual all around.

Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? No regrets!

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? The sex felt great and it was fun have a shared adventure. Having condoms on hand proved useful, and it was really fun to be with a lady who seemed to enjoy fucking as much as I did!

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup or anything else? I still wonder if she thought she had to scream because this is how it works in some Porn? Screaming is okay sometimes but being able to tone it down a notch or two is useful too!