What Girls Said 1

Um, nearly EVERYONE does this. It's why girls dont like to be called sluts, even if theyre not. Because rumors can overshadow who you really are. Men and women are guilty of spreading and believing gossip.

If there is rumor about girls guys will ask girl in person. Women almost never ask guys directly. By the way it's mostly gay guys and most girls that spread rumors. A straight good guy does not spread rumors. Not our style.

A heterosexual man that does not engage in anal sex or do any type of drugs will generally not spread rumors. Not our style. Not saying saying all straights do not spread rumors. Speaking generally only.

True, but what self-respecting guy tries to meet woman in bar other unless it's for unhealthy sex? Bars are the worst, however, I do not put guys that go to bars in the same category as regular guys on the prowl. Most attractive guys do not need to go to bars. Most together guys meet women outside of bars. Yes, I have seen many so called straight men spread rumors at bars especially these days when most guys are much worse than the worst women.

I'm just saying that men gossip too. Even in high school they'd spread rumors about their exes and shit.

I don't subscribe to that notion that it's a "woman's" thing, I'd agree that women might do it a bit more, but not by much. Men do it too. And they believe rumors more I think. Like if there's a rumor that a girl is promiscuous. And then he asks the girl how many partners she's had, he'll think she's lying and believe that she's slept around. That she "must" be lying about her partner count to not look slutty or whatever.

Oh woman never ever tell the truth about how many partners they have had. really if they are very pretty they can have unlimited partners no matter what their personally is. I was called a slut once by woman and that was a huge turn on. We ended up going to her place. She said it as a compliment which I picked up on. bars really are not real world. it's where desperate people go to socialize. Not that I do not like the feel of alcohol and I am super chill and friendly drunk. I stop arguing when I am drunk and that makes it a bit dangerous for me.

What Guys Said 2

Sir... I can't help you. Lol that's just how they are. They rather become an FBI. Rather than asking you out and asking the same questions they asked them. So eventually you do 1 thing. Target her friends and make peace. 1 illogical reason is to not seem needy or desperate or come in as strong. They'll just ask you basic " how old are you?" Questions. But with there friends they knew this already.