Dating for married in Westville, NJ, 8093

Casual dating and no-strings encounters

Looking for quality, not quantity.... 33yr (8093, Westville, NJ, Gloucester County)
Single female seeking gentleman for friendship or maybe more. No expectations. NO FWB!
I'm a laid back, fun loving type of gal with a loving heart and open mind. I like to get to know a person before I judge them and hope they do the same. I'm 32, love animals, hazel blue eyes, dark blonde hair, chubby and thick with curves. I love to spend an afternoon bowling at the local alley, walking around Portland's waterfront and Saturday Market, or just being out and about. At night I like to go to a local bar and watch a game, play darts or just socialize. My favorite vacation spot is the beach, doesn't matter where as long as there is sand and waves, though I'd prefer a warm sunny beach. Favorite things are: music, cross-stitching, seafood, swimming, sleeping, dancing, reading, etc. It all just depends on the mood and the setting. I'm pretty easy to get along with, you just have to get your foot in the door. I don't play games or waste time on people who aren't honest with their intentions. Be upfront with me and I'll do the same. Words that describe me: Humorous, up-beat, friendly, sensative, outgoing, cute, girl-next-door.
Words that describe him: between 27 yo and 38 yo, caring, compassionate, strong, independent, attentive, polite, mannerly, wants kids, loves animals, loves me. Besides being in my age range, he must be patient, understanding, humorous and responsible. I dream of the day I start a family so he has to want children as much as I do. A man who is close to his parents would be nice since I am a family-oriented person, especially since they've always helped me in times of need and advice. Most of all, he has to treat me and my loved ones with kindness and respect. He'll get the same in return. I desire men who are charming, sensitive yet strong, compassionate, family oriented, and responsible. As I get older, I realize that I don't have time to just have fun but to find something more. The guy who gets my attention has a job, his own transportation, and does not live with his parents still. We all need some help to get back on our feet once in a while but effort has to be made to be independent sometimes.
I know what I want and refuse to settle for anything less than what I deserve :-)
Will Only reply to email with photos and descriptions of yourself. Effort will get you a long way. :-)

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Christian Men please apply : ) 34yr (8093, NJ, Gloucester County)
I am looking for a Christian guy because I know it sets a strong foundation for a lasting relationship. I prefer a non smoker between the ages of 34 to 43 . You must be employed only because it tells me the type of man you are . No lazy men please. I support myself and I don't look for a man to support me . I attend Cornerstone Church and it would be a plus if you attend with me sometime. I have been told I am attractive and sweet. I am just selective and know what I want . I am very confident that I can make a man happy and treat him with the respect he deserves, and I would expect it to of course go both ways. I would love to start a friendship/relationship with someone and be the person that when one of us is having a bad day , we can talk about it . I love many activities . I have some passions. I enjoy Seaworld , photography dancing, traveling , watching the spurs , crying over the spurs as the case was last night or actually it was game 3 : I love to have fun and desire someone fully ready without holding back . If you are this person and you know who you are.....: ) then contact me . I'll keep posting this until Mr Right comes : ) Thank you for reading

still looking 25yr (8093, Westville, New Jersey)
hey whats up out there?. so here i am a little bout me is im 25 y/o black female. i go to school, work and take care of my son. so if u have a problem wit kids than im not the one for u . i have my own place, car and job so i ask that you have the same please. i also ask that you are not older than 31, thank u . i am a laid back gurl who likes to go out as well as stay in and just watch a movie. so if u wanna know more than hit me up . i would love to get to know you, i ask that u send a picture when u email me and just tell me a little bout urself. also in the subject like put ur favorite food so that i know you are real. hope to talk to u soon.oh yeah also i am not looking for a one night stand or booty call just someone to get to know and maybe a relationship but not here for sex. thank u

Looking for an older guy 34yr (Westville, New Jersey )
I'm sure this is going to be a pointless post and I'll be sent all the wrong responses but on the off chance that maybe I get one I really am interested in, well, here goes...
I'm in my early 30's and have typically dated boys younger than me. I've had alot of fun and no regrets but I'm really looking for a ''grown up'', I guess you could say, now. I had a brief relationship with a guy who was in his late 40's a few years ago and am really craving all that he offered at the time. He was sexy and funny and handsome and amazing in bed. I need to find one of those again. ;-)
A bit about me:
I'm adventurous. Outgoing. Funny . Comfortable dressing up or down. I like to travel. I love reading, movies and museums. I have no interest in having kids but am perfectly fine if you do. I'm super independent but love male attention. I can't cook so I eat out alot and love it. I am not a fitness freak so I apologize if that's what you're looking for . I have curves and like them but am not fat . And super sarcastic. Which might also mean a smart ass. :-)
You should be:
Just like me but male. ;-) Ok, maybe that's asking for alot and if you don't enjoy the same male attention I do, that would be a plus. I just am looking for someone to have a beer with and watch a band or grab a glass of wine by the water somewhere. I haven't been to any of the theatres in Boston yet and would love to have someone to go with. dating for married I'm crazy about sports so someone to share that with would be excellent. I want someone who's as sexual as I am but is a decent enough person that I can take out in public.
Anyhow, that's my little plea for a sane, fun guy. If you could include a pic, that would be great. I'll gladly return the favor. And if you could not be super creepy and make me regret this , that would be even better. Have a great night!

An official note to the universe 44yr (Westville, 8093 , Gloucester County)
I would like to go on record to ask for two things, maybe in the same milfs a life partner, or a soon-to-be fun and trusted, valued, passionate friend. I have been through hard times and I'm done with that: I am ready to enter into life more. I love intriguing conversations, fun, peacefulness around responsibility and money, education, fun, science, painting, music, fun, swimming, the outdoors, fun, and animals. I give more than I get but I would like to get something wonderful, that makes me have a secret smile and sing to myself. Imagination, creativity, compassion, fun, tickling, wildness, abandon, sensitivity....Life can be so beautiful. I'm ready! Want to come?

Do you think it is okay for a single person to date someone who is married? Iím thinking of the whole Rielle Hunter - John Edwards affair. Iím a divorced woman in my late 30s, and I would NEVER date or screw a married man. >>

SBF iso SWM for Marriage of convenience 19yr (Westville, New Jersey )
I posted this once before, but got bombarded with unnecessary emails, so I'll try again. There were a few good ones, but they got buried. My bad. Maybe I just need to be more specific. And if this doesn't work, then maybe I'm in the wrong place.
I have overstayed my visa, and need to get married in order to become a permanent resident. I have explored all other options, and this is the only way. I'm also in college and need a little help paying the bills. If you're interested, read on.
Take note that I'm not an illegal immigrant, I did come here legally, and I pay taxes just like everyone else. The IRS doesn't care where you're from, so long as dating for married pay them.
Now, I could just post this in 'strictly platonic', but if I'm going to get married, I might as well try to make it work, right? Maybe I can get a great relationship out of this too!
About me:
I'm 19, Caribbean born and raised. Slender but curvy build. Dark skinned, dancer for 15 years. I love to have fun, I love passionate kisses and cuddling, and I love to eat. You'll like what you see, I promise!
Cake is my favorite food, haha!
I love doggies too! So if you have a dog, that's awesome!
Blue/green eyes a plus.
Maybe we can go on a couple of dates, see how things go?
Just a few things I must specify:
*When responding, please tell me a bit about yourself. No one liners such as ''I can help'' or ''pics please''. I can't really work with that.
*No pics, no response. I'm sorry, that's just how it is.
*I prefer ages 25-35, but will consider anyone who sparks my interest.
*This isn't a CE ad. So please don't send me messages about me being your little slut or whatever. I'm not that kind of girl.
*Please be serious. Don't play me or flake on me.
*To any black guy that's offended by this posting, please don't send me hate mail, this is just my personal preference. I'm not the only black girl on the planet, I'm sure you'll find someone else.
If you've made it all the way to the end here, thank you so much for reading this! I look forward to hearing from you.

rad fattie seeks fat loving smarty 33yr (Westville, 8093, NJ )
are you super-smart? witty? hysterical? intellectual? academic or academicesque?
do you enjoy spirited debate and/or banter? have you been told dating for married you are too smart for your own good?
have you been experiencing a lack of intellectual stimulation?
do you find fat bodies and rad fatties attractive?
if you have answered yes to the majority of these questions, i would like to hear from you....
who am i??? i am a fat, cute & hellabrainy chick looking to flex some mental muscle.... i am sane, grounded, socially and emotionally mature and expect you to be as well...
please note - i like 'em youngish - 23-34... professional ...
bonus points if you have been called snobby for your attitude towards living in nyc and/or educational pursuits ....
even more bonus points for a reply that is crafty and attention-grabbing...
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