I had the chance to interview him and he has some interesting insight.

One of the biggest problems Dr. Sax sees is parents are confused in their role.

He says the basic principles have not changed in parenting over the last twenty years, but technology has.

Do you think parents should be their kids' friend? According to Dr. Sax and based on research, the answer is no. "A friend cannot command a friend. A friend cannot give orders to a friend because they are peers. But a parent must command a child in some settings. For example, no you are not allowed to take your cell phone to bed. This is not a matter of negotiation."