35 Really Important Questions to Ask a Girl You Just Met

So, you finally met the girl of your dreams… well, maybe. But how do you know if she’s the ONE? Here are some questions to ask a girl you just met.

It’s always exciting to meet new people, especially hot girls that you either want to date or maybe even marry some day! Okay, let’s not get ahead of ourselves with the marriage thing quite yet. Because you just met her.

But you know you like her, and you don’t want to blow it. Not every guy is good at making conversation with a girl he likes, so I’m here to help you.

35 important questions to ask a girl you just met

It’s really important to ask the right questions when you first meet someone – and even after you start dating them. Knowing some of these things will help you understand whether or not you two are compatible. And the sooner you know, the better.

These questions to ask a girl you just met range from silly to serious, but they will all give you a clue as to whether or not you want to keep pursuing her.

#1 Where are you from? Simple, direct, and mostly just a ritual when you first meet someone.

#2 What do you do for a living? This will let you know a lot about her passions and what she wants to contribute to the world.

#3 What do you love about your job? Many people hate their job and love to complain. So is she positive or negative about it?

#4 Do you consider yourself an introvert or extrovert? If you’re a raging party animal/extrovert and she’s a shy book work, yeah, that might not work.

#5 What’s your dream? Does she even have dreams? Hopefully she does.

#6 Do you have any siblings? This might give you some insight into her personality if you can find out where she is in the birth order.

#7 Are you close to your parents? It might be a red flag if she’s not close to them, although the reasons why can vary wildly.

#8 What’s your favorite kind of food? Is she a super picky eater? Or adventurous? How does it compare to you?

#9 What do you do for fun? If you like to hike and go skydiving, but she’s not a nature lover or risk taker… well… you get my point.

#10 Do you like concerts? This will give you an insight about the kind of music she likes, or if she even likes concerts at all.

#11 Would you ever go skydiving? This is a biggie! People who would go skydiving are very different than those who wouldn’t.

#12 If you could trade places with anyone in the world, who would it be and why? This gives you a clue as to whether she’s happy with her life or not.

#13 What was your first impression of me? Well, this will tell you whether or not you have any chance with her at all.

#14 What do you look for in a guy you date? You can de-personalize this one and not ask about yourself specifically… so you don’t look needy.

#15 What was your longest relationship? If you’re just looking for a hookup, but she’s only a long-term relationship gal, then you might be out of luck.

#16 What’s the most romantic thing anyone has ever done for you? Take careful notes on this one so that you can do something romantic for her later on.

#17 What’s the most fun thing to do in this city? If you’re not native to the city you’re in, then see what kind of ideas she has for fun.

#18 If you could live anywhere in the world, where would it be and why? Would she still live here? If not, why would she leave?

#19 Would you ever want to be famous? This might give you a clue about whether or not she has some narcissistic tendencies or if she really likes a lot of attention.

#20 If you would like to be famous, what would you want to be known for? It would be very different if she compared herself to Oprah than if she said she wanted to be like Kim Kardashian.

#21 Who do you admire most? Most people say their parents, but hopefully she gives a more creative answer. Don’t forget to ask her why.

#22 If you could have dinner with anyone – dead or alive – who would it be and why? She could say anything from God to Cleopatra.

#23 Do you have a best friend? If she doesn’t have a lot of friends, that says something about her. Conversely, if she has a zillion, maybe she won’t have time for you.

#24 How old are you? One of the basics, but you need to be careful with this one if she is older because she might be sensitive about her age.

#25 When is your birthday? This is better than asking her what her sign is… because that’s just downright cheesy.

#26 Do you have any hobbies? Does she like to knit? Is she a marathon runner? Is she in a band?

#27 Who has had the most influence on you? It’s probably even more important to ask her why and how this person had so much influence on her.

#28 Are you looking for a relationship? This is a pretty important one. Too many times, one person wants a hookup and the other wants a relationship. Get on the same page right away.

#29 If you won the lottery, what would you do with all the money? Would she donate it to charity and feed the homeless? Or blow it on new shoes, cars, and houses?

#30 If you had 3 wishes, what would they be? This question will give you a clue as to what is missing in her life.

#31 What’s your biggest pet peeve? Pay close attention to this one so that you can avoid doing whatever bugs her.

#32 If you were stranded on a desert island, what 3 things would you want/need with you? If she says a person, it shows she’s sensitive. If she says beer, then she’s a partier.

#33 Do you have a celebrity crush? Well, you may not want to know this one just in case she asks you for a “free pass” someday.

#34 Do you like reading? Is she an intellectual or someone who despises hitting the books?

#35 Do you believe in God? People say to stay away from this one, but if she’s an atheist and you’re a devout Christian, then it’s best to know right away.

Meeting someone new is exciting, but it can be scary too if you don’t know what to talk about. But with these questions to ask a girl you just met, it’ll be easy as pie.