At the beginning of my membership, being that I was in an older category, I took the initiative and sent winks to the men I thought I would be interested in. Fortunately, almost all of them answered. I kept a folder of each of them and little by little, I deleted the ones that didn't quite fit what I was looking for. Eventually, I was down to one and we have been emailing each other with pictures of families and each other. Although I live outside of Buffalo, NY and he is from Arizona, that is not stopping us. We plan to meet in the near future and hopefully we will be as happy in person as we are in our email. Thank you!