Hello boys! Ever wonder why you don't get the girls you want ... even though you look so hot? Well, read this article to find out why. One possible reason is that you don't act like a gentleman.

Steps

1

Be polite. When you meet a girl for the first time, be sure make eye contact and maintain it as you introduce yourselves to each other. Don't look at the floor or stare at her body.

2

Do simple things like opening doors for a girl when you're out together or bringing her a small bunch of flowers on your first date.

3

Be courteous when you are talking to a girl you like. As you're talking with each other, don't interrupt her. Ask her questions about herself. Don't get too personal, though. Keep it light at first by asking her about her career, her studies, her hobbies, little things like that. As with step 1, make sure you maintain eye contact as you're talking with her. This shows her that you're paying attention to what she is saying.

4

Do not try to overshadow a girl on any particular note. If she's talking about a particular activity that she likes to do, you can say that you like the same activity. But don't try to impress her by bragging about your skill. This is a conversation, not a competition.

5

Be quietly confident. Just because you choose to act like a gentleman doesn't mean that you're not confident in yourself. Part of being a gentleman is not acting arrogantly. It doesn't help being handsome without having confidence in yourself.

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Remember that every woman/girl is unique. Once you have this in mind life gets easier ... why? If you act like a gentleman and one girl still rejects you, don't let that stop you from acting like a gentleman. Another girl will appreciate your behavior and will be attracted to you. There are more girls in the world than men. Don't forget this.

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Dress appropriately. Part of being a gentleman is being well-groomed. Make sure you wear clothes you feel comfortable in. They should fit well and make you feel confident. You should also appear and smell clean.

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Treat people in the way that you would like people to treat you! Ladies expect a gentleman to treat other people with common courtesy. So show how much of a gentleman you can be in dealing with waitstaff at a restaurant or a barista who gets a coffee order wrong.

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What if I don't think I'm handsome enough and I lack self-confidence?

Emma Rebellon

Community Answer

Although you might feel like you're ugly, there's a 99% chance the people around you don't share that views of you. As someone whose levels of self-confidence and self-esteem are nonexistent, I know how you feel. It's hard to act confident when you really aren't, but if you surround yourself with true friends who genuinely like you, perhaps that confidence will see some growth. Also, try to focus on the things you DO like about yourself. Even if you're not the most handsome person in the world, perhaps you're smart, kind, a good friend, etc.

Tips

Smile at a girl, even if you don't know her. If she smiles back it's all good

Make her feel unique and special. Don't look at other girls when in public or talk about any girls (ex-girlfriends, for example).

Give her all your attention. When she talks, look at her and show that you're interested in what she's saying.

Make her feel good about herself by saying she looks beautiful.

Don't exaggerate your talents.

Don't think you're too good for anyone or that you're better than everyone else.

Be a good listener.

Gentlemen are not wimps. A good way to be respectful and act more like a gentleman towards a girl is to protect her. If some other guy is doing something she doesn't like or tries to hurt her, let him know he'll have to go through you first.

Warnings

Be cautious about groups that frequently reference "chivalry," "friendzoning," and "incels." These groups view women as sex objects, not people. A true gentleman respects women.

Gentlemen are always polite, towards everyone. Don't get mad at a lady who isn't interested in you—just like not every lady is your type, not every man is her type. Shrug your shoulders and move on. Be friends if you want, but only if you truly value her friendship and don't expect any romantic favors in return.