^^Exactly. Sometimes it's just the way life happens. I was a complete mess in my 20s. Had our first child (who we assumed would be our one & only--since I have a lot of reproductive-system problems, we considered her to be our "miracle baby") when I was 32. And now at 41, I'm (almost) 3 months pregnant. As I've mentioned on here before, it was a complete surprise. But we're thrilled, and so far so good. I'm in the best position now in life than I ever was.--Financially we're better off than when we were younger, own our house, have good insurance, my "wild ways" from when I was younger are behind me, more stability in every way...
But that's just me. I don't begrudge anyone having a baby at any point in their life if they think it's the right time.