The Most Unexpected Relationship Advice From Moms

The Most Unexpected Relationship Advice From Moms

Despite how critical moms can be (“You’re not wearing that, are you?”), the old adage that “Mother knows best” has an irritating tendency to be true—especially when it comes to relationships. So we asked moms to spill the most unexpected love-life advice they’ve given their daughters. Read on, take notes, then go forth and fall in love responsibly.

Relationship Advice From Moms: Keep It Fresh

“Always sound like you’re excited to see him, remind him you love him, give him random hugs, joke around, and laugh a lot. It makes the relationship feel brand-new every day.”
—Diane and her daughter, Jacqueline

Courtesy of Jacqueline

Relationship Advice From Moms: Don’t Let People Bring You Down

“When someone asks me about my marriage, I usually say it’s going just fine—no matter the status. There are some mean-spirited and envious people out there. You don’t want that kind of negative energy, so sometimes it’s better to keep mum.”
—Graciela and her daughter, Grace (me!)

Courtesy of Grace

Relationship Advice From Moms: Love the Lovin’

“It is absolutely OK to enjoy sex and to seek out good sex. Be smart and be careful, but enjoy it too.”
—Roxie and her daughter, Kat

Courtesy of Kat

Relationship Advice From Moms: But Play Hard to Get Sometimes Too

“If you want a guy to call, treat him like crap and don’t give him any.”
—Lisa and her daughter, Allie

Courtesy of Allie

Relationship Advice From Moms: Face a Breakup Head-On

“No matter what you’re going through, you can’t just go around it. It’s OK to dwell on a breakup as long as you give it an expiration date.”
—Susan and her daughter, Emily

Courtesy of Emily

Relationship Advice From Moms: Check His Shoes

“Never trust a guy who wears white shoes because that means he’s high-maintenance.”
—Marilyn and her daughter, Minyvonne