Sunday, December 2, 2012

Catching something

I start years off with such promise for my blog, and since I decided to start blogging (or rather listing and then making a few random comments) about the books I read, it seems that I have been posting more about the books I read, and then occasionally, when I have a moment, throwing a few thoughts out for good measure. Well, we survived the first year in our house. I am glad that going in to this Christmas season, it doesn't feel as totally hectic as last year's did. Moving, and setting up house, and figuring out all new routines... glad that is starting to move in to the past.

Our community seems to suit us - we are getting out for more walks, and experiencing more of the local flavours (blueberries, Christmas trees, little festivals) than we really did in our previous community. Our lights are up (I suspect we will never have enough lights. I foresee a future in which my DH buys a few extra strings every year until we get a computer program to have the lights dance to music). Our tree is up, and the lights are on. My pop would be proud - it isn't a bushy, trimmed up Douglas Fir. Rather, we have a Nordman Fir. I must say, I like it. It doesn't quite smell as much as some trees, and it hasn't dropped as many needles either. We already have hundreds of lights on the tree, and tomorrow night we will finish decorating our masterpiece. Our tree is tall, and you can see through it, and the branches are strong. Totally different tree experience.

We are having our first Christmas dinner next weekend, so we are getting ready a few weeks earlier than normal. It's strange though - we are pretty much set. Maybe a few more gifts to get, and all in all, pretty close to done. I have no idea when I will get to my baking. I have moved almost completely to spelt (a wheat post will be a different post when I actually sit down to talk about it) so it has been enlightening to see how it cooks up in recipes. All in all, not that much different than whole wheat! I also want to get cards done again this year, although somehow December 3rd is already upon us and time is marching forward! Weekends are too short. Nights too short. Work days too long!

At three, our wee guy seems to be craving attention in all the wrong ways. He also hasn't quite grasped the concept of the advent calendar. B, is overall doing well, but seems to be in a classroom that I wouldn't call the perfect fit. We get to meet tomorrow to discuss strategies to help him engage in different ways with his classmates. Interesting comment from the teacher - they want him to be resilient when it comes to kids, because there are some kids that aren't big fans of his in the class. I am tempted to give a piece of mind of how I view resilience, and what he brings to the table. Then again, our experience is not the usual one, and I am going to challenge the team about the environment they are also creating, in which some behaviours are unique to the setting since I am not getting complaints from daycare! Some behaviours present opportunities for B to grow, and figure out how he wants to present himself. Ah yes, the ongoing struggle for self. I am still a work in progress myself!