You know that is a good question. I have only ever focused on the "I could bloody KILL her for that, if she wasn''t already dead".

Never really stopped to wonder why.

I mean if it was just MY photos/documents, then I could probably say "na personality clash", but it was ALL of them.

Then again, Lisa has asked me many times about my Sister, and strangely enough, I can not remember her EVER been there, until 1985, when I was getting divorced, my Father would not let me stay there, so my Sister let me stay at her place. But BEFORE that, whilst we were kids, I don't remember much about her at all.

Na, the odd thing like us going to the local park and giving all the other kids HEL. :-" But that was maybe two weeks one summer holiday. Other than that....

We eventualy fell out totaly when I realised what a user she was, AND that she drove everyone away from the hearth (Circle to you Wiccan types. ). Then about ten years later I heard she had snuffed it, so I asked about all the photos and that, and that's when I was told what had happened, actualy about six months before snuffing it. So may be it was something to do with that. I dunno.

Ah, you celebrate much like the Chinese do... Except that the soltices aren't as important them. The first full moon afterwards is when they celebrate their New Year. And once every nine years they do the full extra month as well. Very interesting. On a seperate note, I'm hoping to get myself a lunar calander as well this year.

Thank you for explaining!

Trying to create a world, even in words, is good occupational therapy for lunatics who think they're God, and an excellent argument for Polytheism. -S.M. Stirling

I can't imagine being in so much pain that I'd feel the need to use everyone, and then burn something so precious. You are a very strong person, to have been around someone of that energy. I hope she at least found peace and healing where she is, for everyones' sake.

-Jess

Crazy Healer LadyHealth and happiness to you!

The purpose of a relationship is not to have another who might complete you, but to have another with whom you might share your completeness. -CWG