Anguish from a relationship break up is a rough thing to deal with. It is usual to go through a awful time emotionally after breaking up and you are not alone. If you are wondering if there could be a possibility of getting your ex back the answer would be yes. There is a good probability of getting them back if you take the right approach.

Before you take the steps to get your ex back, be certain that you are getting them back for the right reasons. For example if you really care about them and you think the break up was a mistake then by all means try to get them back. If you are being possessive of your ex, not wanting anyone else to be with them, then you are making a big mistake trying to get them back.

When you take the steps to get back with your ex, realize that you need to take a planned and careful approach. It can take awhile to be successful and you should not rush things. The two of you need to go through what is like a healing process and it can take time. Listed below are three things to consider when getting back with your ex.

1. You need to know what went wrong. If you can not find the reason for your break up, how do you expect to fix it? You do not want to repeat the same issue again so get to the root of the problem and take care of it so it does not cause you problems again.

2. This may sound weird but try dating someone else. Don't get serious with them but go on a couple dates to gauge how you really feel about your ex. If you still think about them after having been out with someone else then you probably really care about them. If you do not think about them anymore then you should possibly move on.

3. Starting over with your ex can take awhile so do not rush things. Don't expect the good old days right from the start, take it slow and relearn each other. If either of you try to push things too fast one of you may back out of the relationship again.