The thing about sex and religon is simple, the book itself and it's closest followers believe "straight" is the way into heaven (including the big 10). Take it from me, raised around christians and they've hated me once I point out whatever doesn't add up.

Your best bet is to avoid the cross at all cost, and focus on being human as we all are. Love is many things, why should preachy pricks say what's right and wrong about being who we are?