Aggressive behaviour

Soraia Isabel Fox - posted on 06/18/2013
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Hi my name is soraia and I got a 4years old son, recently my son being having this aggressive behaviours and being hitting throwing toys j he's at the nursery at the moment but he was suspended Becouse of his behaviour and to honest I don't know I really don't knoe what to do I feel like I am going into depression right now please some one help me

Hi Hun , no he's not in any form of violent environment , maybe cartoons like power rangers and all this fighting cartoons, I blocked kicks and all the cartoons o think it's not right for him, I took him doctors and they said excactly the same that he is a normal kid for his age, it's just when he dont get his own way he just gets so aggressive, I am a single mum and he's dad is in and out of his life each the doctor thinks it may be the reason ... I'm actually so tired because I try and do the best but doesn't think it's working.

Children repeat what they witness. Whether it's other kids behaving poorly, or things at home, or in the neighborhood. And, if it is not that, but he's had a traumatic experience, or is experiencing some form of abuse, the acting out could be results of that.

At this point in time, you need to consistently redirect him, with appropriate punishments for each infraction. And this needs to happen EVERY TIME he acts out. This is only after it has been determined that he has not been abused in any way, triggering the behaviours.

If there is no evidence of an abusive situation, then he's a normal 4 yo that needs consistent consequences for his actions. You'll do fine.