leaving husband

Asaalam Walaikum,I’m 30 years of age iv been with my husband for 10 years,he spend almost all his time outside he comes home late 10pm,12am even early morning,if I ask him he says he talking business until dat time so he can put food on my table,but he gives me like R1000 once a year to buy my clothes and children cloths,but he buys all brand name cloths,tight t-shirt to show his muscle as he’s gyming,he wears his Kurta only on Ramadhaan,he makesure he shave his beard when I ask all about this he said he not geting any sin coz he is a man.I told him if he doesn’t change this I will divorce him,he laughs at me and say other people they have problems more than us but they still together,so if I leave him I will show people that I fail to takecare of him,if I ask us to go for marriage counselling he say he has no problem,is me who have a problem,he said i must wait more years until he changes.I talked to his mom,I talked to my mom also,but nothing is changing,what should I do I’m nt happy for 10 years,my patiance is wearing thin,am I wrong if i leave him?

Report him to the Jamiat. He is transgressing the laws of Islam. He has the potentiality of change. Send him out for Jamaat. Make him regular in Salaat. Feed him well and dress well for him. Do not just abandon the ship.

Report him to the Jamiat. He is transgressing the laws of Islam. He has the potentiality of change. Send him out for Jamaat. Make him regular in Salaat. Feed him well and dress well for him. Do not just abandon the ship.