at the intersection of business, parenthood, and music

An age old debate for sure as to whether what we see, read, and hear on TV, radio, or film influences our behavior versus our real life behavior influencing the media. I enjoy watching movies and certain TV drama shows. It gives one perspective on what’s potentially going on in other people’s lives. Hopefully no one is doing all the weird things they do in soap operas, but sometimes based on the stories I hear from every day people, I’m astounded to find that some of those crazy things do go on.

Thanks to a co-worker who has tons of DVDs, I’ve now watched all but one of the Jane Austen movies, the Twilight series, Baker Boys, a bunch of other older movies, Avatar, King’s Speech, etc. With little kids in the house it was very hard to see movies when they came out so now I have to catch up on DVD. I think she’s going to loan me the Harry Potter series next because I’ve only seen one of those I think. On the big screen, I’ve seen Hangover 2, Larry Crowne, Cars 2, Bridesmaids, Mr. Poppers Penguins, and probably a few other kids movies.

Watching “art” gives you insight into humanity and vice versa. As a leader or manager, understanding the people you work with is a critical piece of helping them realize what they are capable of in the system they are working in. Although people try to separate their work and personal lives, it rarely (in my experience) is possible. We are human and everything is connected. We aren’t vulcan, borg, or robots who can turn off their emotions at will or check them at the proverbial door. We are illogical, irrational, crazy, sensitive, brilliant human beings.

Some of the best leaders I’ve seen realize how fragile we all are and take that into account when building and motivating their teams. The not so successful, in my opinion, tend to be self absorbed and really don’t care or maybe it’s just that they don’t know how to care or show they care. Sometimes they are so dang smart they realize their shortcomings and they hire managers/leaders who do care to compensate for their lack of ability in that area.

Happy 4th of July weekend! Yes, I know the content of this post is not directly related to the 4th of July other than there were some great leaders who helped with the independence of our great nation…so that will have to do.