What All Men Secretly Want, But Will Never Tell You…

Men need something very different than you think or they quickly lose interest.

No, it’s not just sex. That would be too easy.

It is something that happens only when his most primal, inner desire is activated by a woman who knows this secret…

And when she uses it, he begins to feel a deep emotional connection with her.

She could be his existing mate, a brand new acquaintance, an average looking gal, it doesn’t matter. When she uses this secret, he’ll bite, engage and pursue her. He’s wired for it.

Old relationship or new, he will go from being too busy to reply to a friendly text messages to thinking he’s actually falling in love (or back in love).

He won’t even know why.

This kind of information is so powerful, it’s both a blessing and a curse. Why? Because ANY woman can use this.

This secret flies completely under his radar.

Every man you know agonizes over this primal drive more than anything else, even his sex drive.

It is so hard-wired in a man’s mind that it subconsciously controls everything he does, from the time he wakes up to the moment his head hits the pillow at night.

It’s something I’ve come to call “The Hero Instinct.”

There’s a very good reason why women feel like the harder they try, the more men seem to lose interest.

Fact: If He Doesn’t Have to Work for Your Relationship, He Won’t Value It.

What men value most are what (and who) they have to work for.

Hand a man the perfect mate who does not challenge him, and he won’t value her as much as if he has to do some work to earn her love and respect.

Should women have to do all the work a relationship?

Certainly not, yet most women do–and they think it’s a problem with men. It’s not a problem with any particular man, it’s human nature at work.

Women who demonstrate the ability to BOTH understand and challenge a man, can win his heart and mind over to her–even if he’s in another relationship.

Very few women actually understand men, so when he finds one who seems to understand him, she’s a keeper.

What about playing hard-to-get?

That strategy can work, but then it stops working once he’s actually got you.

Something happens when guys decide they’ve won you. It’s almost like they think, “Game over.” Their minds are already on their next challenge.

What is going on? And how can you stop it from wrecking your relationship?

The good news is there is more than hope.

Women who come to understand the following information literally have an unfair advantage over any other women.

In fact, you should not even try this on a man who you do not want to be in a committed relationship with.

Famous relationship coach James Bauer noticed that many clients were coming to him, complaining about guys who were turning from hot to cold unexplainably. Everything would be going great, and then it was like… Something would change overnight.

A guy who’d been warm, affectionate and interested would suddenly become distant. He’d no longer have much time for her.

Wanting to help his clients, James investigated.

And what he discovered finally made sense of everything. He found out exactly why these men were backing away. He knew what they needed… and what they weren’t getting.

There isn’t anything “wrong” with most women, they just keep making the same simple mistake over and over without knowing it.

The bottom line is that every man has a “Hero Instinct” that MUST be activated and reactivated–to get and keep his interest.