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Last Saturday, I have gone through you FORGIVENESS book (one of my favorite book now.) and from Sunday, I have started the forgiving exercise for my boss, my MIL and my husband.

And all of sudden my boss who is actually very angry on me for some misunderstandings started talking to me and appreciating my work. I am very happy.

Further, there are still no changes in my MIL and husband but I am continuing the same as it is only 2 days now I have started forgiving exercise and I can’t expect sudden changes, so early in them but I will continue.

Naran

Our life will be reflected in other parts of the life.

One’s Unforgiving attitude, blaming tendency, in one place, may result in his being accused in another place.

When a problem crops up in the office, and when we are blamed, we never think of the connection of our mental state.

One might have anger and resentment towards one of the family members or all.

This anger and resentment carried in the mind, results in a situation unexpectedly wherein you’re blamed or accused falsely. This event is a divine call to you to correct your own attitude in the house.

Unfortunately, we don’t think about ourselves, further going into the blaming mode – now blaming the office colleague or boss also for his wrongs.

The truth is “The accused is the Accuser”

Nothing in life can be overlooked. Everything happens to us to evolve.

R Mohan

In general, I was feeling relatively in good peace for the last few months – no big fights, and no major conflicts. I guess, it is all due to listening to the two CDs – ‘FORGIVENESS’ and ‘TOGETHER DIVINE’.

However, last one week, I noticed I found myself getting irritated on my fellow-travelers and sometimes strangely even on those who are not present in sight.

I wondered why these old feelings about them are playing once again. It struck immediately to me that my mind is playing those memories of anger.

So I put on the CDs on HARMONY – one to LET GO DISHARMONY and another to CREATE HARMONY in our lives. Within a day or two, I was able to come out of those old memories and in a week, I was able to come out totally.

ONE leads to THREE

In the same way, suddenly I noticed resistance is pulling me back in trying out new ventures, which I was comfortably coasting earlier.

Based on the experience gained on dealing with anger-type memories, I decided to deal with my internal resistance – firstly due to desires (RELEASE RESISTANCE), secondly due to having (RELEASE) FEARS and thirdly due to reluctance to leave my comfort zone (WELCOME CHANGE).

The result – within a week, I was able to be back on track. Of course, I am back to listening to my favorite CDs Together Divine and Forgiveness.

It is amazing to think how Naran can figure out the various eccentrics of human behaviors and find ways to deal with them in a simpler way.

I want to get the benefits out of the meditation. And at the same time my mind gets distracted. Will there be any possibility?

Or will there be any chance of getting the benefits of meditation, even though there are distractions?

Yes definitely there is a possibility. All the CDs in the Bach Flower Study Centre are tuned in certain brainwaves. Whenever a person goes into a deep meditation, or deep meditative level, the brain produces certain waves called Brainwaves.

When you are in deep meditation you go to Alpha, then Theta and then Delta. Normally our distractive mind is in Beta State.

When you listen to the Meditation CD with a headphone, whatever Alpha waves generated will be imposed on your brain. When those waves are imposed, you will be forced to come out of Beta level and you will be in the silence mode.

In that way, you can silence the rebellious or the resisting mind. That is the only way by which you can do meditation.

The other way is really cumbersome for every time you have to be careful about the mind, because the mind is a great trickster. You think that you will be able to manage it, for when you just say ‘release’, the thought goes off.

You feel happy then. But the happy state itself is another thought – whether it is happiness, sadness, calmness, worry, anger or love, all of them is a thought. Every such thought has to be released.

Job

I am trying for good job for past three years but only phone calls I am receiving after that I am not getting any response.

Currently I am working for a company in UAE, but for past three yrs they didn’t give me any increment or any facilities. I am like slave here and I am in a responsible post so that I need to follow curtail rules and regulations but the CEO and the Operations manager does not allow me to do that and always cornering me. And they are doing illegal jobs.

Pls help me to find a good job very soon. I am afraid also.

Family

Always there is no understanding between our family members, whenever we all get together definitely there will be fight and we lose our happiness. Particularly everybody is scolding mother, pointing out her mistakes and etc. So always there is problem like this.

Now I am not talking to my mom, father, sisters and brother.

Kindly suggest me to get rid of this and give me some mantra for my anger, misunderstanding, suspecting, and possessiveness, jealous and backstabbing and fighting.

Naran

Did you notice your questions about your work place and family is similar?

There is always a web in anybody’s life.

What you do to others will be done to you.

Can anybody, who insults his parents, live peacefully in this world?

The physical parents represent our own father and mother principle. You are part of them.

Phone up your parents and ask for forgiveness.

Keep their photographs and daily do 11 prostrations to them.

During every prostration, say “DIVINE! FORGIVE ME! LOVE ME I THANK YOU”. Do this for one year.

However they are, you have to CONCEDE and BOW.

There cannot be any relief in your life if you don’t do this.

In the night before sleeping, while on the bed, listen to the Two CDs “FORGIVENESS” and “TOGETHER DIVINE”.

Anger Eraser Part III

Please refer this link to read the previous article in the series – “Remove My Angry Instinct – Anger Eraser Part II”: http://wp.me/ptUKY-6D

Is there is an easy way to forgive?

One day, when I was speaking with Naran, he told me that he has created a CD for forgiveness.

This happened six months after I had asked him whether there was any mantra for forgiveness. He did not give an immediate answer back then probably, because there are several mantras that can heal our anger, in their own way. There is no single mantra for forgiveness that was tailor-made for all.

Each of emotion vibrates in a certain frequency

He explained briefly that our brain vibrates in a certain frequency when we are angry about somebody. Likewise when we forgive somebody it vibrates in a certain other frequency.

Thus, each emotion vibrates with certain frequency.

Thanks to research findings of a Japanese Scientist, Naran mentioned that he had found the frequencies of some of the Bach Flower Remedies like WILLOW and WALNUT. Like our emotions, the flowers too vibrate in a certain frequencies of their own. With the help of the Radionics, he was able to figure out those frequencies, which bring forgiveness in the heart and enables a person to get over his anger and stop blaming.

Based on this finding, he added that he had created a CD that will help us to forgive others.

The CD for Forgiveness

The reason he has created a CD because many find it difficult to forgive others, no matter what. So, he was trying to find an easy way out to help people to forgive others easily and effortlessly.

He asked me to try the CD first and share the results with him.

Here, I wanted to share something about Naran. He is a person who is not blunt. He subtly points things to you. Let us say he wants to tell me that I am lazy and I am not using my potential fully, he will say so and so is lazy, indirectly giving his opinion about me.

So I guessed he had thought that I am the ideal guy to try to find the effects of the Forgiveness CD J

Listened to the CD (over head phone)

As a true lazy person, why would I say no to find an easy method to heal my unforgiving attitude?

The CD runs for 30 minutes. I had been listening to it for the last one month, once a day.

Now, I have started to listen to it twice a day for deeper healing.

I found the CD beneficial is an understatement. Let me share my experiences in the best way I can.

I tried when I wasn’t angry

The whole day will be more or less with one or two angry episodes – I mean short temper or cursing/blaming somebody and may be none at all. In a typical day, I used to have at least 10 episodes of anger.

I tried when I was angry

Within a few minutes, my anger gets erased from the brain, which looks clean with no trace of anger in it.

The day I didn’t listen to the CD

I will go back to my normal ways – though my anger has come down a lot. However, during those days I was not comfortable with my own anger. I desperately wanted to soon come out of that.

Moral of the story

The one major behavior anybody who knows me from childhood attributes to me is that I will get angry very easily. I am not denying that as it is true.

And I think listening to the CD is a boon to me is as truthful as that.

Give it a shot and you will not be angry about me that I have suggested something wrong to you.