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What is Rosebudding?

Today’s post is all about rosebudding. So, for those of you who are not familiar, rosebudding is the act of stimulating your anal canal and walls to the point that the wall inside your anal cavity collapses and flips to the outside of your anus. Many people practice this as a kind of anal stimulation, but it can also be considered a fetish for others. Rosebudding is normally done by consistently using dildos and butt plugs, often leaving large butt plugs in for hours or even the entire day. The rosebudding normally occurs after having intense anal sex with an over-sized dildo or butt plug or via fisting. Some people also leave large butt plugs or dildos in all night and their anus rosebuds or “flower” blooms overnight.

Now, it’s important to mention that rosebudding doesn’t always happen for everyone; it really just depends on your body. I also want to mention that it’s extremely dangerous and we do not recommend that you try it at all. The reason is because deliberately destroying your anal wall opens your body up to bacteria and infections which can make you sick, cause permanent illness, and even death. Once the wall of your anus has been collapsed through the act of rosebudding, it almost never heals on it’s own. In most cases, it needs to be surgically restored and the surgery is considered a high risk. I don’t say these things to scare you, but I think knowledge is power and it’s important to be aware of how your body is affected by these acts, pleasurable in the moment, or not. Some things may seem worth it in the short term, but definitely are not in the long term.

That’s not to say you can’t enjoy fun anal stimulation, but don’t go to extremes that can potentially harm you and/or your partner. It’s just not worth it. Keep things safe, sane, consensual and fun.

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Disclaimer: I want to express that we don’t recommend rosebudding as it can be harmful and dangerous. Rosebudding can lead to dangerous infections and the anal wall being permanently destroyed which may need to be surgically restored at high risk. This post is meant to be informative only and does not encourage the act of rosebudding. Try at your own risk (but we recommend that you don’t).

How to Make Your Cum Taste Good

Whether you’re a man or woman, everyone wants to know how to make your cum taste good and it’s actually a lot easier than you might think. You don’t need pills or special supplements to make your jizz, spunk, sperm, or whatever you want to call it, smell delightful. All you really need are a few easy guidelines to follow (and some things to avoid) to get great tasting cum that your partner will happily thank you for.

The Obvious Tips:

Make sure you wash your private parts with a gentle, unscented soap. Overpowering scents can actually make the entire area taste bad or of chemicals if your partner is going down on you shortly after showering. Moreover, if they are sensitive to fragrance, it can be irritating to them.

Practicing general good hygiene and grooming yourself (either by waxing, shaving, etc.) can minimize sweat and therefore unwanted odors.

The Not-So-Obvious Tips:

In general, a good, healthy diet will actually make your cum taste good!

More specifically, you can up the flavor factor of your cum by eating these foods: yogurt, cranberry juice, strawberries, banana, honey, grapes, celery, watermelon, pineapple ( this is a popular one! ), and lots and lots of water.

Things to Avoid: Alcohol, spicy foods, asparagus, garlic, raw onion, broccoli, cigarettes, hard drugs , fried and processed foods. Anything that will give you gas or heart burn will, most likely, give your cum an unpleasant taste so best to avoid them the day of.

The moral of this story is that the healthier, cleaner your diet and lifestyle is, the more delicious your cum will taste 😉

NEW IN: Classic Realistic Dildos!

We’ve uploaded some classic realistic dildos to our shop so for anyone who enjoys creative designs of your favorite realistic dildos, vibrating dildos, double dongs, and more, definitely give the selection a browse in our shop! You can order these in a number of colors to customize it for a gift or to your personal tastes.

What is Prostate Milking?

So, what is prostate milking? I’m glad you asked 😉 Prostate milking is simply an alternative form of stimulation for males that does not require stimulation of the penis. Of course, you can alternate between penis, testicles, and prostate, but these are not required for pleasure and ejaculation. There are many toys for prostate milking and stimulation, but today’s post is demonstrating how to do it, manually, without any toys at all.

Prostate Milking Tips:

Another option is to use latex gloves to maintain optimum cleanliness.

You will want to use lubricants to ease the prostate stimulation since your anal cavity is not self-lubricating.

Try different positions and see what works for you! Some fun ones include on all fours (doggy style), lying down with your back legs up in the air for ease of entry, and on your side is easiest if you plan to do this solo.

Stroke away and enjoy 😉

How to Milk Your Prostate for Pleasure & Ejaculation:

Feel around gently inside your anal cavity for what feels like a malleable walnut; it should be about 3-3.5 inches inside and feels a bit like cartilage. In order to begin prostate milking, massage and tap lightly. You will begin to feel arousal and stimulation. Repeat as desired or until ejaculation.

Please be aware: If the walnut sized prostate gland is too hard, it could indicate feces so you may want to perform anal douching before. If you’ve done an enema and it still feels hard, this may indicate a health issue so please consult your personal care physician before going any further.

Your Guide to Rim Jobs

Rim jobs or “salad tossing” is not just for gay guys. Contrary to popular belief, rimming is enjoyed by all kinds of couples and can be quite pleasurable. That said, there are a few things you should know before you jump into it including how to prep yourself beforehand, different techniques, and fun positions to try with your partner(s)!

Rimming Play Tips:

Shave + Enema: Before beginning, you or your partner may want to consider trying an enema AKA anal douching in order to clean yourself out. After that, it is advised to shower, shave and groom yourself to make the anal area as clean and trim as possible to avoid any unpleasant experiences during the fun.

Dental Dams: Consider using flavored dental dams while rimming to protect yourself and your partner from unwanted infections and irritations. Flavored dental dams also bring added enjoyment to whomever is doing the rimming by adding delicious flavors to the rim job play. Of course, this isn’t required; just a suggestion.

Lubricant: Lastly, you may want to consider having lubricant on hand if you think it will add to the rimming experience. Stick with non-toxic, unscented, and flavored varieties since they will be, inevitably, going into your or your partner’s mouth.

Keep Toys Separate: Any toys that you use during your rimming fun should be separated from your other toys. Whatever goes into the anal cavity should not be used for vaginal or oral play to avoid unwanted spread of bacteria. Clean and disinfect all your toys before using them for other kinds of erotic play.

Remember to Rinse! After all the fun has been had, remember to rinse your mouth out with an antiseptic mouth rinse to kill any and all bacteria. Both the anal cavity and your mouth can carry unwanted bacteria and it is important to protect yourself and your partner from any infection or irritation before resuming with any other kind of fun!

How to Perform Stimulating Rim Jobs:

Blow and breathe gently onto the anal area .

Use your tongue and hands to stimulate the outer and inner areas, as desired. Everyone is different so it’s important to see what your partner enjoys.

Using toys such as dildos and butt plugs, your fingers, and massaging other areas (including the vagina) while rimming increases pleasure for your partner.

Fun Positions to Try While Rimming:

Sitting on your partner’s face (optional: you may add pillows under your pelvis to facilitate play)

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Doggy style (on all fours)

Lying on your back (optional: you may add pillows under your pelvis to facilitate play)

Kinky Valentine’s Day

Valentine’s Day is coming with a vengeance, but we like to do our Valentine’s Day with more kink than cuteness so we came up with a 50 Shades Dark Gift Guide to reflect our hedonistic ideals and values – hope you enjoy 😉

Shibari Halo 10 Speed Waterproof Vibrator – This vibrating wand has 10 speeds of vibration for a diverse array of erotic stimulation that can be enjoyed for hours without every experiencing the same mode twice 😉

Wolfman Wolf Dildo – Designed after a real wolf penis, this dildo is ideal for unleashing your inner animal! Coupled with a suction cup for uninterrupted play, this toy can be used anywhere you like, including on shower walls!

Black Ball Gag – Keep your partner (or yourself) quiet with this secure, but comfortable ball gag! Complete with perforated ball for easy breathing during use, this ball gag adds a new layer of intensity and kink to all your bondage play.

Black Leather Blindfold Mask – This leather blindfold is ideal for total blackout pleasure experiences! Made with authentic leather, this blindfold has a comfortable elastic band for easy wear any time the mood strikes.

Screw Nipple Clamps with Chain – These screw nipple clamps are the perfect way to amp up the intensity during your bondage play. The chain and screw clamps ensure these stay put for however long you like!

Devil Inside Me Tail Butt Plug – This Devil Inside Me butt plug includes a small tapered butt plug complete with lube trails for long lasting lubrication and fun. The end opposite the plug is in the shape of a pitchforked devil’s tail ideal for anyone who’s been too naughty and wants to show off their kinky ways.

Vibro Screw Anal Plug – This massive anal toy is perfect for taking your anal play up a notch! Unlike other anal toys, this butt plug allows you to screw in a little more whenever you want to increase the intensity and pleasure – just give it a screw and enjoy!

Large Mole Butt Plug – The large mole plug is a modestly sized tapered butt plug for naughty anal play without going too wild. It’s perfect for keeping in place while enjoying other pleasures and is easily used with the help of a little lubrication.

Silicone Vibrating Anal Beads – These vibrating silicone anal beads are perfect for all kinds of anal play, especially when used by male partners (but not only) because the base includes soft ridges for stimulating your perineum during use and the beaded wand is curved for stimulating the prostate.

Set of 2 Thigh and Wrist Restraints – Last, but certainly not least, is this set of thigh and wrist restraints! Perfect for keeping your partner (or yourself) tied down and ready, these restraints are heavy duty and won’t budge!

Anal Douching 101

What’s the deal with anal douching? In today’s post, we’re diving deep into the why’s, how’s and all the ways you can use an anal douche. Read on for more 😉

Why Do People Anal Douche?

Many people who enjoy anal pleasures of all kinds find that anal douching is a great way to keep the anal cavity clean before anal sex, rimming, felching, or ass to mouth pleasure. Many people want to avoid the messy and unpleasant residue involved with anal play and therefore, opt to use anal douches as a way to keep the area as clean as possible.

How to Anal Douche:

Douching is easiest and least messy when done in the shower or hovering over your toilet.

It is important to clean your douche mechanism thoroughly before using to ensure that it’s been sterilized and disinfected.

Apply plenty of lubricant to yourself and also the douche mechanism before inserting.

Make sure you are within reach of your toilet as you will need to relieve yourself immediately after douching. Also, make sure the warm water is JUST water ONLY. Soap and other materials can cause irritation and discomfort.

Insert the douche 2-3 inches in and then let the warm water (Not too hot or too cold as extreme temperatures can be damaging) in either by squeezing the bulb, using a shower douche, or your water bag douche. Once you are letting the water flow, HOLD IT. DO NOT LET GO. Once you have a full feeling (like you need to use the restroom – listen to your body), quickly remove the douche, move to your toilet, and expel the water. Repeat 1-2 more times until the water runs clean.

3 Ways to Anal Douche:

Bulb Douche – The bulb douche is perfect for beginners. The clean you get from this kind of douche will be a lot more shallow and you won’t experience (as much) discomfort as with other forms, if any at all.

Shower Douche – A shower douche comes in a kit that attaches to your shower head. Many are easily found online. It is most commonly used for a more deep clean because it offers a constant flow of water to help clean you out more thoroughly.

Water Bag Douche (Douche Bag) – Water bag douches are traditional enema methods. They come with a bag and attached hose which can be filled with water (not in the shower) and offers a deep clean. This form is a lot more portable than the other douches available so it’s better for travel.

!Warning/Disclaimer!Please be aware that we are not doctors. We can only recommend what has worked for us personally and what others in the community have recommended in their experience. Douching is not for everyone . If you are unsure of whether or not it may be right for you, please consult your doctor before attempting. Do not douche too often because it can diminish good bacteria in your body that you need to fight off infection and stay healthy. It is recommended that you do NOT douche more than 2 times per month, only use WARM water when douching, and do NOT LET GO TOO SOON when douching. Also, do not overfill when douching as it can be harmful.