You shall put on only yellow Sapphire. If some one having trouble in keeping relations in good shape with friends, colleagues, siblings.. because she thinks ethically and can't stand wrong. Specially when anger management is an issue.... Wisdom is the only way rationalize things and still be with them.

Jupiter being Lor lord of 9th and 12th house will give effect more of 9th house and 12th house is exalted.

You have no idea what level of maturity and wisdom you would develop with time.

You are submissive type of person but have anger management issue. Yellow Sapphire is strong recommendation from my side.