Quoting ~Boo's Mom~:" He's never done anything for her. He takes care of the children he has with his wife, making sure they ... [snip!] ... paycheck to paycheck. I'm just over his shit. I'm over the way Florida is taking there sweet ass time doing anything to him."

Well of all the child support cases I've known about, FLA doesn't mess around. Why is it taking so long? Does he keep switching jobs or something?

Quoting Turd Ferguson:" Do you have a job? It's hard to tell someone in different shoes what to do. As I said before, a lot ... [snip!] ... lot of us mommas don't get it and don't expect it. But it doesn't mean the OP doesn't have the right to feel the way she does."

I have a job, I had two jobs until I started getting more hours where I work at now. I get child support but very rarely, and I don't rely on it:roll: I was agreeing with another mom that no one should rely on it. Of course, I don't go through the courts b/c I'd just rather not deal with the bullshit

Quoting ~Boo's Mom~:" He's never done anything for her. He takes care of the children he has with his wife, making sure they ... [snip!] ... paycheck to paycheck. I'm just over his shit. I'm over the way Florida is taking there sweet ass time doing anything to him."

so you want what to happen him to be locked up so he can support no one?

Quoting ~Boo's Mom~:" I'm tired of BD not paying...I'm tired of it. I've been nice and quiet for 4 months now, but now I'm ... [snip!] ... that, I got a payment ONLY because, they locked him up for non payment. What an a*****e he is. No good dead beat motherf@cker."

your LUCKY, they actually do something when he doesnt pay.. Here in California they barely do anything.. and thats after years of not paying.. not a few months..
I wish they'd lock my ex up..

Quoting ~Boo's Mom~:" No lock up doesn't solve anything. I just want him to pay his support"

I hate to say it but it's your responsibility to care for her, even without support. You had the baby so if that's 100% your choice to keep a child a woman should be willing to 100% support said child. I hate the idea that a woman is allowed to end a pregnancy but men are damned even if they want nothing to do with a child they're still forced to pay.

Quoting I'm His Amy He's My Rory:" I hate to say it but it's your responsibility to care for her, even without support. You had the baby ... [snip!] ... is allowed to end a pregnancy but men are damned even if they want nothing to do with a child they're still forced to pay."

Don't even for a second pretend you wouldn't be emotionally rocked and need an outlet *if* the father of your child suddenly decided he wasn't going to be a father. Not all dads start out not wanting to care for the child. My daughter was 6 when this all came to be.

Quoting I'm His Amy He's My Rory:" I hate to say it but it's your responsibility to care for her, even without support. You had the baby ... [snip!] ... is allowed to end a pregnancy but men are damned even if they want nothing to do with a child they're still forced to pay."

but he also decided to 'put it in' fulling knowing what 'could' happen.
not ALL men want nothing to do with the kids when there 'chicks' pregnant.
It's after when they realize shit gets tough.. So the women should have to do it all by herself then, because the man didnt realize what he was getting himself into?