I'm sorry if this topic has already been hashed to death here on SI. I just caught up on the episodes of True Tori. Wah wah wah. Does anyone have sympathy for her?

She's the betrayed wife. Lots of whining.
He's the cheater with lots of justifications and entitlements.

Why is no one interviewing how their ex-spouses feel about this all?

Does anyone want to ask Tori if she realizes the pain that she caused as the other woman?

Me: now 41
Him: up and left for OW
OW: old maid now 40 with biological clock ticking, desparate for a baby.
Divorced the cheater - 8/2011
Married the most AMAZING man - 10/2013

Posts: 838 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: NJ

NeverAgain2013♀ 38121Member # 38121

Posted: 10:25 AM, May 13th (Tuesday), 2014

Honestly? I've never ever had an interest in watching that horse face of hers on TV, nor do I find she and her husbang having kid after kid after kid (is she a brood mare for God's sakes???) particularly appealing, either. There's just nothing appealing about either one of them.

I'd heard she was the OW in an affair with this Dean guy, and now she's won the prize and has her "man."

LOL...are we really surprised that the slimeball simply resorted to FORM and did what he does best - cheat and lie? I mean, really. Is it THAT much of a surprise for Tori that he cheated???

Yeah yeah yeah...I know. OW are 'special' and their married boyfriends would NEVER cheat on them if they were lucky enough to end up marrying these guys like Tori did. LOL. It's pretty funny how delusional the OW really are.

I've said it many times and will say it again - when a man marries his mistress, she leaves a VACANCY.

He's just trying out your replacement, Tori.

Be careful - that 'knight in shining armor' may very well be nothing more than an assclown wrapped in tin foil.
ME: 50+ years old and cute as a button :-)
Ex-WBF: Just a lying, cheating, gravy-sucking pig - and I left him in 2012.

Posts: 6327 | Registered: Jan 2013 | From: USA

Lovedyoumore♀ 35593Member # 35593

Posted: 10:55 AM, May 13th (Tuesday), 2014

I do not watch the show, but clips I have seen on other shows are very painful to watch. Why on earth did she have so many kids with him? Kids did not anchor him to his last wife, Tori should know. I guess the Vajayjay lost its glitter and sparkle. OW's believe it is the cold, fridgid BS fault when a WS strays. Until it is them.

Me 50's
WH 50's
Married 30+ years
2 young adult children
OW single 20 years younger
Together trying to R

Freedom's just another word for nothin' left to lose

Posts: 3334 | Registered: May 2012 | From: Southern, bless your heart

GabyBaby♀ 26928Member # 26928

Posted: 11:18 AM, May 13th (Tuesday), 2014

her husbang

I don't know if that was a typo or deliberate, but that is freakin' HILARIOUS (and oh so appropriate).

Me - 45
DD(24), DS(21, PDD-NOS)

WH#2 (SorryinSac)- Killed himself (May 2015) in our home 6 days after being served divorce docs.
XWH #1 - legally married 18yrs. 12+ OW (that I know of).

I edit often for clarity/typos.

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nolight♀ 32785Member # 32785

Posted: 12:21 PM, May 13th (Tuesday), 2014

There's a few long threads on this topic, check around last Tuesday! The shows back on tonight so prepare for a big discussion on it!

We make our own fortunes and call them fate, and what better excuse to choose a path then to insist it's our destiny.

Posts: 610 | Registered: Jul 2011

cuppacoffee♀ 39313Member # 39313

Posted: 12:25 PM, May 13th (Tuesday), 2014

I hate that he told her it was because he needed more sex from hr because he has needs. He is so mean to her too. He totally sucks at life.

I'm like a vacuum bag
That holds all that old dirt
Remember that time we said we'd be together forever?
Don't hate me, don't regret me, don't ever forget me
Wherever you go, whatever you do, don't say I never loved you

Posts: 363 | Registered: May 2013

beingmiranda ♀ 32519Member # 32519

Posted: 1:00 PM, May 13th (Tuesday), 2014

I was really triggering a bit about it all watching her sulk saying her worst nightmare came true. Uhm, Tori, YOU were someone else's worst nightmare. Of course, I had to google Dean's ex wife and found a couple articles where the writer is telling her (the ex wife) to move on from the bitterness like she should move on from her manicure being ruined. I am happy that Tori is getting a bit of the karma come her way.

Those poor kids though... They will get to watch all this on TV one day.

Me: now 41
Him: up and left for OW
OW: old maid now 40 with biological clock ticking, desparate for a baby.
Divorced the cheater - 8/2011
Married the most AMAZING man - 10/2013