We've all been in that awkward situation where you invited someone to your party or event, then think about it nearer the time and realize that you really don't want them there. Dis-inviting someone is always going to be awkward, but hopefully this article can help make it easier.

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Steps

1

Make sure that you really DON'T want this person at your event, and make sure you have a good reason. Nothing is more embarrassing than inviting someone, then changing your mind and dis-inviting them, then changing your mind again. If you're sure, move on to the next step.

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2

Think. Since you invited this person, have you had a major argument or fight? If you're no longer on speaking terms with the person, they are unlikely to think that they are still welcome at your party. They will probably not want to attend anyway.

3

If you are still on speaking terms, but since the invitation the other person has offended you, it is best to confront them, calmly, about the offense. This way, the problem will either be resolved, in which case there will be no need to dis-invite them, or you can say something like "If we can't resolve this problem, I think it might be best if we keep out of each other's way for a while." If they need a less subtle hint, explicitly mention the party.

4

Remember that you should only do this in serious circumstances. If at all possible, try to put up with the other person, just for the duration of the party.

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