Alias (DO NOT USE A REAL NAME!!): Beautifulgame : Comment: Hi, I have a question about unavailable men. Some of my exes and nearly all of the men I’ve tried to be in a relationship with were/are emotionally unavailable. My issue for choosing them in the first place, which I am trying to resolve […]

Name: Cindy : Comment: February of 2012, I became friends with a man I met at work. (I work in retail, so he was a customer.) When we met it was obvious that we were both very attracted to each other, but when he asked for my number I turned him down. He gave me […]

Name: Scaredy Cat Age: 39 State: GA Question: Hello, I’m a 39 year old divorced single Mom who truly wants to have the relationship I “know” I deserve. I have met a wonderful man a few weeks ago online and ever since we met, we have been spending allot of time together. Since we’ve met, […]

Name: Cassie State: NYCcomN Age: http://34 Comment: Hi Moxie, I met a guy a week ago in a bar and we hit it off. We exchanged numbers and went out on our first date the following night and had dinner and drinks. .the conversation was great and we have a lot common. At the end […]

Name: Carmen Age: 46 State: New York Comment: I have been dating a 52 year old man for about a month. He has never been married. We have not taken it to the magic date (sex) level as yet, but the tension is building. When is it appropriate to discuss whether this is leading to […]

Here’s the scenario: Man and woman have been casually dating, off and on, for about four months. They are not exclusive and that point has been discussed. They are not monogamous. They don’t always use birth control. The woman discovers she is a few days late for her period. She tells the guy. He suggests […]

I read an insightful comment on another blog and it got me to thinking. I hate sounding like a cranky old woman, but some things have happened lately that are leading me to believe that maybe things have actually shifted. That maybe it’s not about dating getting harder as I get older (having less choices, […]

Name: Single and Confused | | Location: San Jose , CA |Question: Hi Moxie, I am recently dating this very wonderful man. He’s a single father with one child in his early 40s, I’m in my early 30s. Single, never been married and no kids. My issue is, he tells me everyday how dearly he […]