basho.....sounds like your on the way to healing a little, i'm glad....you mentioned you were together for 14 years? that is a long time, and it will take time to heal...i know you don't mean any harm on anyone, and neither would i, but wouldn't you love it to see them walking down the street and slip in some dog chit, and bust their a-s-s-..........yea, i know, hop in bitch............hahahhha...your doing the right thing and you have alot of friends and support, feel what you have to feel, and then heal.....

Ldy_H write: Hey bashor, I am back... yeeeehaw! Been to Scottsdale, AZ / then Texas ... and bike week in Laconia, etc... so now I am back..... BUT as Saso and Angel and a few others said, YES, it hurts, I have been there with a man who lied to me for over 4 yrs and I found out he was married,( actually met his wife, LOL AND she and I are the best of friends now, LOL, he hates that , LOL) OH he said , he loved me, ran after me, said he was not happy in his marrige, but cheat? no, I believe once a cheater always a cheater...Keep the faith, I made it through and so will you.It has been 2yrs for me now..AND Sasso is right, what goes around comes around....when men or woman cheat,,they are not happy with who they are and YOU have to be happy with you before you can make anyone else happy. I was free to be me again, and stayed single and did my own thing for awhile, then dated , and met an awesome cowboy, but he had issues, ( his own problems from a divorce and then from a breakup ) we stayed friends and go line dancing, and ya the fringe benefit thing, LOL even vacations TOGETHER, but I guess I was not over my hurt yet either,,, soooo we stayed just friends.. I met a few nice men who turned me on, but no spark to continue... so hang in there like I am .. if it is meant to be it will happen. Meet friends on here .. I did, I met them on my trips too.. out in AZ, CA, TX, it was cool and had a blast..

Good Luck, Ldy -H ( NYBikercowgirl)

Thank you for the kind words...It is hard now.. not know if you can trust in someone. We were together for 14 years, and we got along so well. Then she finally got a job after I have supported her for several years while she went back to school. I have done without for a long time. So she meets someone she works with and as far as I know they are still together. I never wish for anything bad on anyone, But I hope she is going through Hell...for what she put me through. So this evening me and a friend and his girl went riding...made a few stops at some clubs and I really had a great time. So I am really going pull myself together and get over this. Only thing bad thing is...this is a small town and everyone always ask me about her. That doesn't help when you are trying to forget. But, I do appricate it and everyone else for taking the time to talk to me and leaving comments. BK has to be the greatest group of people I have ever talked to. Thanks!!

Cute jade, love the cat deal , LMAO
Hey, I am back................ miss me? teeheee...
Anything new on L.I. since I was gone????? get your license yet?
geeeeeez Scottsdale was great and met some guys there from this site... and Texas too............... then I went to Laconia with my usual gang for bike week..... etc.... this NYBIkercowgirl is wiped, LOL.. nah, she always has energy left, LOL...

Hey bashor, I am back... yeeeehaw! Been to Scottsdale, AZ / then Texas ... and bike week in Laconia, etc... so now I am back.....
BUT as Saso and Angel and a few others said, YES, it hurts, I have been there with a man who lied to me for over 4 yrs and I found out he was married,( actually met his wife, LOL AND she and I are the best of friends now, LOL, he hates that , LOL) OH he said , he loved me, ran after me, said he was not happy in his marrige, but cheat? no, I believe once a cheater always a cheater...Keep the faith, I made it through and so will you.It has been 2yrs for me now..AND Sasso is right, what goes around comes around....when men or woman cheat,,they are not happy with who they are and YOU have to be happy with you before you can make anyone else happy.
I was free to be me again, and stayed single and did my own thing for awhile, then dated , and met an awesome cowboy, but he had issues, ( his own problems from a divorce and then from a breakup ) we stayed friends and go line dancing, and ya the fringe benefit thing, LOL even vacations TOGETHER, but I guess I was not over my hurt yet either,,, soooo we stayed just friends.. I met a few nice men who turned me on, but no spark to continue... so hang in there like I am .. if it is meant to be it will happen. Meet friends on here .. I did, I met them on my trips too.. out in AZ, CA, TX, it was cool and had a blast..