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It hurt. A lot. But it was the truth.

Posted by Anonymous

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Dh goes to his ex's house last night to pick up some bud. He's gone for 3 hours almost, and she only lives right in town. I'm not mad. He's been meaning to hang out with her and her man. He gets home at 2 in the morning, and he's acting agitated. I know this, because he didn't smoke with me, instead he smoked my last cig.

After asking him and just holding him, I finally got the truth from him.

His exact words were I found the girl of my dreams today".

It hurt. I know he and I aren't right for each other, we've planned on divorce for years now, and we've finally agreed to all our terms and who gets what and all that. We want to keep it out of court if possible. (is it possible? Even with dd?)

Well it is possible to keep it out of the court, but if I were both of you I would file it into the court system. If you guys both agree then you'll have one court date, and y'all could probably do it without a lawyer. Just go to clerk of court. This can prevent issues down the road in case someone marries and ends up with a 'pushy' spouse, or if someone changes their mind about the terms. It's always best to have everything in a court document not just a verbal agreement.

So you are saying it hurts to have your husband go smoke pot with his ex, and then you worry about your last cig. And "He deserves someone to make him happy." In retrospect the only one you care about is yourself, when you want to be with such a loser to make yourself feel better about you. Get a life.

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