I'm here now! I will come back and update the following. I'm not on the site that much so if you have written and I didn't respond, and you are local, there could be any number of reasons having nothing to do with you. However, if we don't have a high match, incompatibility could just be the reason.

The following needs to be updated:

Before you read further, let me clarify. TyI am currently living on Long Island and will be relocating to Florida in a couple of months. I do need to update the below, which was written earlier. I changed my location now, so I could begin comunicating with people around Boca, since I will soon be there!

Why is it, well under 10% of the men whose faces peek at me on my visitor's list live within a reasonable distance?

Actual self -summary to follow.

Eventually.

It amazes me how many men on this site write that they are looking for a woman who is not angry at the world or men in general. Are you really coming across so many angry women? I believe it so rarely serves any good purpose to hold on to anger. And I don't.

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The six things I could never do without

dancelearning new thingsmusiccreatingbeing girlymen

In all honesty, circumstance has forced me to give up things I thought I couldn't live without numerous times. So, I have to say there is only one thing I couldn't live without. Life.

I spend a lot of time thinking about

existence and non existence, energy, eastern and western medicine, nutrition and whatever I am researching or creating at the moment.

On a typical Friday night I am

Studying tango in Montevideo.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit

I spend too much time amusing myself with the tests on this site and not enough time using it for it's actual purpose.

Well, I've stopped with the tests but still see few men in my area. Where are you guys?!?

You should message me if

you are really smart, sexy, curious, manly, self assured, in good shape (as i am), kind, open and desire a deeply caring and communicative relationship.

Or.....if you know where Montevideo is. Don't google it..

Post Script......

Please have something other to say than, "Hello there", "We have things in common", quote our match percentiles or "How was your day?". I'm a real person over here. If you want a response, you need to be as well. I don't like being snippy but you wouldn't believe the stuff pouring in here. I don't.

Post Post Script.....

(not that the above is helping much).Please do not be so young that I could practically be your grandmother! You are wasting our time and overloading my message box.