Explaining that she is currently “blissfully, hopefully, wildly in love,” the Olivia Wilde boasted that she and the Saturday Night Live standout Jason Sudeikis “have sex like Kenyan marathon runners.”

After delivering her monologue, Wilde caught up with Vulture, where she elaborated on her personal relationship manifesto. “Sometimes your va-jay-jay dies,” she explained. “Then you know it’s time to go. There’s no reason to sacrifice your womanhood and femininity for some sort of weird feeling of responsibility to something that may not be right. I feel like far too many women do that.” Added Wilde, “[Men] are not allowed to be the only ones thinking with their genitals.”