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Wednesday, October 21, 2009

It's That Time Again!!

October 21st 2007 I married my best friend.Today is our Two Year Wedding Anniversary!

Unfortunately, recently, many close to me have had or are currently going through difficult issues in their marriages. I want to take this time to share some words of wisdom and encouragement to those of you who may be going through the same. I also want to share something with those of you who aren't yet married.

First to those who are not yet married:

WAIT on God! Get close to Him! Get a relationship with Him where you rely on Him for EVERYTHING! Learn to pray and trust in His word and His divine guidance and protection! You are going to need it as a wife! You want a God fearing man!!! A man who knows he has to answer to a higher power! If he doesn't know this, he is liable to do whatever! I am not saying a God fearing man will not fall short, he is still human. What I am saying is, even when he messes up, his love for God will compel him to get right! This is why you MUST know how to pray!!! You must pray to keep peace in your home. WAIT on God! Let Him send you the man He has specifically for you! DO NOT go looking for your husband...he will find you!!!''A woman's heart should be so hidden in Christ that a man should have to seek Him first to find her.''

To those that are married and are going through some difficulties and are determined to save their marriage:

WAIT on God! TRUST God! PRAY! It works!!! You may be fine one morning and the next may seem like your world is over. PRAY!!! It works! NOBODY gets away with anything!! So watch what you do and don't concern yourself with what your spouse is doing. Learn the difference between when you are in your emotions and when you are rational. If you are in your emotions, STOP and PRAY! Ask God to calm you down, guide, and direct you. Trust God to fix the situation. What you do in the meantime is PRAY and get as close to God as you can!!!! Put Him first and watch Him work in your life!!!

3 comments:

Hey, Dyani this is soooo ontime. I really needed to see this. My hubby and I just got finished arguing and this is right on time. I need to pray to keep peace in my house. Thansk for these very encouraging words.

About Me

After three times of trying to transition I finally completed the transition and was 100% natural starting March of 2006 (last relaxer was in April of 2005). I learned a lot about my hair in the almost 3 years that I was natural. My hair is 4a with the exception of the front center region, and portions of the crown, which are wavy with no real curl pattern. My hair naturally grows in layers. The front and crown are always shorter than the rest of my hair. I decided to relax Feb. 15, 2008 with Affirm Lye Original. June 13th, 2008 was my last touch-up. I DO NOT regret relaxing at all! I love my relaxed hair, I just love my natural hair more, which is why I am transitioning. My major challenge is to accept my hair for what it is and work with it. Learn to love it flaws and all! This will be difficult because I am a perfectionist when it comes to my hair. My ultimate goal is to get my hair healthy and waist-length. With the proper care I believe I will get there.If you have any questions, feel free to ask. ;-)