Standing 305 feet tall in the middle of New York Harbor, the Statue of Liberty has stretched forth her torch for over 125 years as an icon of freedom, welcoming immigrants to the United States. This week, the U.S. House has an opportunity to put the values Lady Liberty represents into practice when they vote on an asylum bill for homeschoolers in other nations.

According to HSLDA, “the bill, which includes other changes to the Immigration and Nationality Act, including ordering the U.S. Attorney General to hire at least 50 more immigration judges, would make it easier for families who are treated harshly because of homeschooling to be granted asylum.”

The Asylum Reform and Border Protection Act of 2015 was inspired by the Romeike family, who moved to the United States from Germany and won asylum in 2010. The bill would also likely apply to homeschoolers such as Dirk and Petra Wunderlich of Germany and Ellinor and Daniel Peterson of Sweden.

“No one should be forced to flee their homeland in order to homeschool,” said HSLDA Chairman Michael Farris. “But that is what the Romeikes and scores of other families have had to do in order to escape crushing fines, criminal penalties and even the seizure of their children in countries like Germany and Sweden. Homeschooling is no threat to free societies, and I applaud the Congress for taking action so that families like the Romeikes and others who experience harsh treatment may find refuge and legal status in the land of the free.”

The bill is scheduled to be heard on Wednesday, March 3. HSLDA expects the bill to pass the committee.

March 2 marks the birth of well-known children's author Dr. Seuss. Born Theodor Seuss Geisel in Springfield, Massachusetts, in 1904, Seuss grew up listening to his mother recite rhymes to him before bedtime. More than 100 years later, parents across the globe do the same for their children with his rhymes.

According to experts, rhyming helps with spelling and word recognition, ultimately leading children to reading. Each year on Seuss’ birthday, educators across the country celebrate Read Across America Day, an event with the simple goal of motivating children to read in order to help them succeed academically.

To participate in the celebration, search the web for Read Across America Day activities in your community or take suggestions from our list below to celebrate reading and rhyming in your homeschool.

1. Read three Dr. Seuss books from your local library each week in March. At the end of the month, make a list of your top 10 favorite stories to revisit each year on Read Across America Day.

As the number of homeschoolers in the United States approaches 2 million, one reason for the continued growth is a rapid rise in popularity of homeschooling among African-Americans.

According to The Atlantic, “Black families have become one of the fastest-growing demographics in homeschooling, with black students making up an estimated 10 percent of the homeschooling population.”

While white families still primarily homeschool for religious reasons, black families cite a variety of other reasons for educating at home. Motivations include raising educational expectations, avoiding racism, and learning about their own culture rather than the often “Euro-centric” curriculum presented in public schools.

“We have all heard that the American education system is not the best and is falling behind in terms of international standards,” said Ama Mazama, a faculty member at Temple University in Philadelphia. “But this is compounded for black children, who are treated as though they are not as intelligent and cannot perform as well, and therefore the standards for them should be lower.”

However, the growth of homeschooling among black families has not been without resistance.

“For African Americans there is a sense of betrayal when you leave public schools in particular,” Mazama said. “Because the struggle to get into those schools was so harsh and so long, there is this sense of loyalty to the public schools.”

Despite the opposition from some in the black community, one former homeschool mom advised parents to simply do what’s in the best interest of their children.

“The case had nothing to do with what I, as a parent, decide I want for my child,” said Paula Penn-Nabrit, referring to the monumental Brown v. Board of Education ruling that declared segregation in public schools unconstitutional. “That decision meant the state can’t decide to give me less than, but I can decide I want more than.”

If you’re an African-American homeschool family, why did you decide to teach your children at home?

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Have fun molding cute kittens or your own crazy creatures with homemade play dough that’s easy to make and ready to use in a matter of minutes. Mix your homeschooler’s favorite unsweetened drink mix into the recipe to add a sweet scent and fun color to this DIY dough.

Recent survey results indicate that nearly 90% of churched homeschool students remain strong in the faith, a rate that far surpasses their churched counterparts who attended public or private school.

In an attempt to correlate educational methods with the spiritual decisions of children raised in the church, Generations with Vision and the National Home Education Research Institute conducted a survey of nearly 10,000 young adults between the ages of 19 and 38, and the results were clear.

As reported by Christian News Network, “The study found that individuals who were homeschooled, attended church regularly, and had good relationships with their parents were most likely to remain involved in the Christian faith.”

Other survey results revealed that homeschool graduates are least likely to be influenced by the secular culture around them. While nearly half of children raised in Christian homes and educated in public schools supported same-sex marriages, only 16% of homeschooled young adults supported it. In addition, just 9% of homeschool students were sexually promiscuous as opposed to approximately 1 in 3 churched students who attended public or private school.

Overall, the survey left Kevin Swanson, the director of Generations with Vision, with one obvious conclusion.

“Home education is the best educational choice, if we value the carrying on of the faith,” said Swanson.

Education, whether received in a classroom or at home, consists of much more than math problems and reading assignments. Sure, there’s science and history too, but children soak up so much more than the content covered in their curriculum throughout the course of a homeschool day.

From the moment they’re born, children learn by observing the world. They imitate actions, repeat words, and ask for help in an effort to learn from those around them. Check out this list of five traits your children are likely learning simply by observing you throughout the homeschool day. By practicing them with care and concern, you’ll equip your kids with some incredible life skills by the time they graduate.

1. Unconditional Love. Fortunately for the teen who refuses to complete an assignment or the toddler throwing a temper tantrum in the grocery store, earning undying affection from parents isn’t a child’s responsibility. However, those frustrating moments are a great opportunity for parents to teach their children about unconditional love by practicing patience and responding in a cool, collected manner.

2. Accountability. Set a homeschool schedule for your children, create a grading routine for yourself, and stick to your deadlines! Following through on your deadlines helps your children understand and appreciate the significance of due dates, while giving them incentive to return the favor.

3. Empathy. Everyone has an off-day someday. When a child is struggling with a difficult subject or feeling a little rambunctious on a warm spring day, put yourself in his or her shoes as you talk through a solution together. When the tables are turned and you’re exhausted from an illness or a night of crummy sleep, your children will know what it’s like to be listened to in a situation of frustration, and you can work together to find a way to conquer the homeschool day.

4. Listening Skills. As easy as it is for parents to get frustrated with children who don’t listen, sometimes parents aren’t the best listeners either. Take a day to track how often your mind wanders as your children tell a story or how often you use phrases like, “Just a minute, I’m busy.” Listening to everything from frustration to fun stories with intention shows your children what good listening looks like and equips them to listen up in return.

5. Work Ethic. Whether your least favorite household chore is cleaning out the garage or giving the dog a bath, the way you choose to approach those dreaded to-do list items is a first-hand lesson in responsibility for your homeschooler. Your attitude plays an important role in displaying that even tasks or assignments you don’t enjoy can still be completed with a joyful spirit.

What other lessons are you trying to teach your children through your actions?

A good piece of advice for maintaining a computer is to ensure you always have the latest updates. Doing so not only guarantees that you get the latest features, but also ensures that you have protection against the latest security threats. To update your computer, follow the simple steps below.

Windows 1. Open Windows Update by clicking the Start button > All Programs > Windows Update. 2. In the left pane, click “check for updates” and wait while Windows looks for the latest updates for your computer. 3. If any updates are found, click “install updates.” If you are prompted, type in your administrator password or confirmation.

Mac 1. Click the Apple symbol in the upper left-hand corner of the screen. 2. On newer Macs, if you see an indicator for a new update beside App Store, click on it. On older Macs, click Software Update. 3. Your computer will notify you after a few minutes if there are updates to install. Click the button labeled “update” to apply.

As the popularity of homeschooling in the United States continues to grow and cross the street into mainstream acceptance, be sure to look both ways to the coasts to see where numbers are on the rise.

“If you want to know where those kids are coming from, it's big cities on the coasts,” wrote influential blogger and homeschooler Penelope Trunk.

From New Yorkers who can’t afford private school to parents in Silicon Valley, the newest homeschoolers are “techies” who are making the switch to education at home because of a do-it-yourself attitude and a progressive spirit.

“It makes sense,” wrote Trunk, “because parents who have earned money in Silicon Valley did it as entrepreneurs, and the new idea of school is entrepreneurial.”

What characteristics do you think are important for a new homeschool mom or dad?

This Presidents’ Day, test your knowledge of the leaders of our land with this fun, 10-question quiz! From previous professions to the most common presidential birthplace, there’s a topic to challenge every history buff.

1. The University of Virginia was founded by __________. A. John Quincy Adams B. James Monroe C. Thomas Jefferson D. Andrew Jackson

2. Which president was the first to travel abroad while in office? A. Theodore Roosevelt B. William Howard Taft C. Warren G. Harding D. Franklin D. Roosevelt

Across the country, more and more elementary students are learning about college, and it’s a growing trend that has plenty of advocates and opponents.

As The New York Times recently featured, the importance of college is being emphasized to young children, including preschoolers. From coloring pictures of college mascots to cut-and-paste activities and even guided campus tours of children as young as four, schools and teachers are trying to help students understand their higher education options.

“The age-old question is: ‘What do you want to be when you grow up?’ You always ask kids that,” said Kelli Rigo, a first grade teacher in rural North Carolina. “We need to ask them, ‘How will you get there?’ Even if I am teaching preschool, the word ‘college’ has to be in there.”

Advocates compare college planning for young students to Olympic athletes, who spend years crafting their sports skills. For example, you can’t strap on your first pair of ice skates at 17 and expect to compete for a gold medal within a year. In addition, teachers want to give hope that every student can go to college, no matter what a student’s financial situation may be.

However, traditional courses like Monarch College Planner are directed toward high school students, who can better grasp topics like God’s will for their lives, picking the right college, and applying for financial aid. Opponents of an early emphasis on college also argue that elementary students are not mentally ready to grasp such an important topic.

“You may as well be talking about Mars. It’s totally meaningless,” said Marcy Guddemi, executive director of the Gesell Institute of Child Development. “We are robbing children of childhood by talking about college and career so early in life.”

When do you think is the right time to start thinking about college in your homeschool?

Math Bingo $0.99 Ages 6-8 Get a pattern of five BINGO Bugs in a row by correctly answering math problems about addition, subtraction, multiplication, division, or a mixture of all four genres. By ABCya.com.

Classic Words Solo Free Ages 8+ Test your word knowledge against the computer in an app for classic crossword board game lovers. With six levels of difficulty, the game is great for kids and adults alike. By Lulo Apps.

Music4Kids $3.66 Ages 4 and Up Touch the screen to create and play notes. Then, rearrange them to compose your own melody with this intuitive app that teaches music basics, develops creativity, improves your ear, and challenges you with up to 140 musical recognition games. By Olivier Romanetti.

Preschool Basics $2.39 Ages 2-6Help your youngster learn letters, numbers, colors, shapes, and new words with the colorful flashcards in this interactive app. Tap any card to hear the word pronounced aloud and control the level of difficulty by viewing the cards in order or shuffle mode.

Stack the Countries $1.99 Ages 7-12 Test your knowledge of the world with more than 1,000 unique questions about countries around the world. As you learn capitals, landmarks, major cities, continents, languages, flags, and more, construct a stack of countries that reaches the checkered line to win each level. By Dan Russell-Pinson.

Kindergarten Sight Words Free Ages 3-6 Introduce your child to frequently used words with fun, interactive games that build strong reading skills. The full app includes 100 of the most common words found in reading materials for kindergarten-aged children. By Maelstrom Interactive.

Bible for Kids Free Ages 2+ Explore the big stories of the Bible with an app filled with fun activities. The intuitive design, colorful illustrations, and engaging content bring the Bible to life for kids of all ages. By LifeChurch.tv.

Sage Kotsenburg Aims for First X Games Gold Olympic gold medalist and Alpha Omega Academy graduate Sage Kotsenburg returned to competition, taking fifth place in men’s snowboard slopestyle during the Winter X Games in Aspen, Colorado.

The growing trend of cutting cable subscriptions and streaming a mix of the TV shows your family enjoys may be the answer to more affordable television, but there’s plenty to consider as you make the switch. Get tips and tools from AOP to help your homeschool family access educational and age-appropriate television shows at a price that fits your budget.

Online subscriptions to streaming services are great for families that know what they want and don’t mind watching on their computer or mobile device. Be sure to do your homework to ensure the shows you want are included and be aware that content on most sites continually changes.

If you’re primarily interested in programming on a single channel, check to see if that station offers stand-alone streaming like CBS ($5.99/month). Some channels, like PBS Video, offer their online content for free and include programming about family-friendly recipes, craft projects, nature, art, history, and science, as well as age-appropriate shows for your youngest learners. More stations are slated to launch stand-alone streaming in the coming year.

Popular Online Subscription Options for Homeschoolers:Hulu Plus($7.99/month) With shows from the History Channel, Animal Planet, National Geographic, and more, Hulu Plus provides a variety of educational content that’s sure to intrigue and inform older homeschoolers. There are plenty of options for younger learners too, including VeggieTales, Arthur, and more.

Netflix($7.99+/month) With a plethora of children’s shows centered on science, nature, math, literature, and more, Netflix offers homeschool parents engaging, educational options to supplement your child’s lessons. Check out this homeschool mom’s Pinterest board for a list of her recommendations.

Digital media players that allow users to stream shows to their television for the whole family to enjoy are gaining popularity as subscriptions to streaming services increase. Each device comes with its own perks, and the one that fits your family best is likely dependent on the technology you already use in your household.

Popular Streaming Devices for Homeschoolers:Google Chromecast ($35) Enjoy your favorite family-friendly apps and entertainment from your smartphone, tablet, or computer on a bigger screen. Chromecast provides access to several of the main streaming services, including Netflix, Hulu, and Pandora, as well as a variety of TV channels like PBS Kids and Sesame Street Go.

Amazon Fire TV Stick ($39) The Amazon Fire TV Stick provides access to an assortment of channels and subscription-based streaming services, such as PBS and PBS Kids, the History Channel, Netflix, Hulu Plus, and more. Reviewers note that an Amazon Prime subscription ($99/year) is the key to getting the most out of your Fire TV Stick. According to Amazon, prime members receive unlimited, commercial-free streaming of tens of thousands of popular movies and TV shows.

Roku ($49+) With more than 2,000 channels in total, Roku’s Family & Kids genre provides access to both popular and unique family-friendly shows on channels, including PBS, National Geographic Kids, Craft Smart, Family TV, Kids Recipes, the Autism Channel, and more. Note that some channels require additional subscriptions or fees.

Apple TV ($99) Apple TV allows you to play your favorite educational music, movies, and TV shows purchased through iTunes on your television. Streaming apps like Netflix and Hulu Plus come pre-loaded on the device, but additional subscriptions are required to use them. Movies and television shows also are available for rent or purchase directly through Apple TV. Channels range from news, sports, and weather coverage to PBS, the History Channel, the Smithsonian Channel, and more.

For additional help crunching numbers as you determine which setup is best for your family, use the cord-cutting calculator created by MarketWatch.

For nearly a month, seven children in Arkansas have been in state custody after they were removed from their homeschool family on January 12.

According to the Christian Post, a neighbor issued two child abuse complaints about the family of Hal and Michelle Stanley. First, in December 2014, the neighbor called police saying that children were walking around barefoot in the snow. The family showed authorities their nearly 200 pairs of shoes and informed them that it was a family tradition to take photos of their footprints in the snow.

Then, after a five-hour search of the Stanley’s home last month, police took the children after finding a legal substance called MMS. Though the FDA lists the Miracle Mineral Supplement as toxic for human consumption, the Stanley family claims to use it as a water purifier for their garden.

A custody trial for the Stanley family is scheduled for February 12. Until then, the homeschool parents are doing their best to remain patient and optimistic.

“The Lord does not have problems, only plans,” Michelle Stanley wrote on Facebook. “While the wait may seem like forever, it is time to trust and wait on Him to work out His perfect will in not only our lives, but everyone who has suffered through this whole ordeal.”

It’s almost here. The football game that even non-football fans tune into like it’s their job kicks off on Sunday at 5:30 p.m. (CT). Whether you’re a football aficionado hosting friends for the Super Bowl or you’re just in it for the commercials, you’ll likely want some savory snacks to munch on during the big game. Impress your friends and family on Sunday with these seven game day appetizers.

Ham and Swiss Sliders The perfect finger food for any party, these tempting sliders are sure to go fast! Just mix up the simple poppy seed sauce, slather it atop the easy-to-assemble sliders, and bake for 12 to 15 minutes. Get the recipe from Chef in Training.

Baked Mozzarella Bites A tasty treat that’s popular among kids and adults, these three-ingredient mozzarella bites require minimal prep time. Add an extra touch of love by pairing them with your favorite homemade marinara sauce. Get the recipe from Oh, Sweet Basil.

Green Bean Fries Though this appetizer may sound sketchy to the traditional fry fan, these breaded and fried veggies are surprisingly flavorful. Pair them with your favorite dipping sauce for extra kick. Get the recipe from Six Sisters’ Stuff.

Football Field Fudge Kick off the game with a sugar rush shaped like a football field. Enjoy this festive fudge for the Super Bowl. Then, stow the recipe away for your tailgating adventures next fall. Get the recipe from Something Swanky.

Pepperoni Bread A spin on the ever popular pepperoni pizza, this compact snack is easy to make and simple to serve. Follow the recipe or make it your own by adding your favorite pizza toppings to the mix. Get the recipe from Chocolate, Chocolate, and More.

Cookies and Cream Popcorn Quench your craving for a sweet and salty snack with this mix of popcorn, vanilla almond bark, and chocolate sandwich cookies. With just three ingredients, it’s super simple and ready to enjoy in a matter of minutes. Get the recipe from Chef in Training.

Chipotle Lime Little Smokies A spicy twist on the classic BBQ appetizer, these little smokies are sure to satisfy and take minimal time to assemble. To save even more time and let the flavor soak in, put the cold ingredients straight in the slow cooker and heat the smokies all day. Get the recipe from Lemmon Tree Dwelling.

You may have heard: there’s a big game coming up on February 1, and whether you label yourself as a football fan or an ad watcher, odds are good you’ll be tuning in this weekend. In fact, last year’s event was the most-watched American television program in history with an average audience of 111.5 million viewers. To get you prepared, here are five random facts you should know before kickoff:

XLIX – Roman numerals have been used sparingly since the 14th century, but the Super Bowl keeps testing our simple math. Subtract 10 from 50, subtract 1 from 10, and add them together to get 49. Almost seems like Common Core math, doesn’t it? Of course, just when you thought things would get easy with Super Bowl L, think again. According to the NFL’s Vice President of Brand and Creative, “the ‘L’ isn’t as pleasing to the eye,” so next year it’ll be Super Bowl 50 before going back to Roman numerals.

3,049 - The miles between CenturyLink Field in Seattle, Washington, and Gillette Stadium in Foxborough, Massachusetts, the largest distance between opponents in Super Bowl history. The previous record was 3,039 miles set in Super Bowl XIX between San Francisco and Miami. Ok, so technically Google Maps said if you drive through a portion of Canada, you can make the cross-country trip in 3,027 miles, but when you’re already traveling 45 hours, do you really want to mess with border patrol stops?

3 – The number of collegiate degrees between the two starting quarterbacks in this year’s Super Bowl. New England quarterback Tom Brady graduated from the University of Michigan with a general studies degree and a 3.3 GPA. His degree’s emphasis was in business and psychology. Seattle’s Russell Wilson, on the other hand, has a bachelor’s degree in broadcast communications at North Carolina State University and a master’s degree in educational leadership and policy analysis at the University of Wisconsin. Who said that football players can’t be smart?

5 – Finalists in a contest to name the new Seattle football franchise in 1975. From a total of 20,365 entries, the list was dwindled down to the eventual winning Seahawks, the Mariners (which became the town’s Major League Baseball team in 1977), the Evergreens, the Olympics, and the Sockeyes. What’s a Sockeye, you ask? It’s a type of salmon found in the Northern Pacific Ocean. Go Sockeyes!

20 – Members of the End Zone Militia for home games of the New England Patriots. Though the group consists of football fans, these guys are also actual living history re-enactors, who can be spotted at places throughout the year like Concord and Lexington, Ticonderoga, and Saratoga. In fact, in order to be in the group, you have to be a re-enactor for a minimum of five years. From their tricorne hats and waistcoats to their replica muskets, their uniforms are as original as possible. Exactly 12 score (240 years) after the American Revolutionary War started, wouldn’t it be fitting if the Patriots were victorious again?

Discover a quick and easy way to get an update on your student’s progress without running a report in Monarch. The Unit Overview feature provides access to basic information, including grades, due dates, and completion dates, and can be accessed with a few simple clicks. Just follow these three easy steps:

1. On the Monarch teacher homepage, click Assigned Work under the student’s name to view that particular student’s lesson plans.

2. Press the plus sign [+] next to a course to reveal all the units contained within the course.

3. Click and highlight the title of a unit. The Unit Overview will appear to the right.

What other topics would you like to learn more about within Monarch or Switched-On Schoolhouse?

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During the cold winter months, it’s easy for those of us blessed with warm clothing and homes to take such things for granted. Have you ever taken time in your homeschool studies to consider how creatures that live in colder climates survive in their surroundings?

It sounds silly, but God’s gift of blubber is a true blessing to animals like seals, whales, and polar bears that depend on its insulation to survive in the cold waters they inhabit. To see just what blubber does for marine mammals, try this simple science experiment with your homeschooler.

Olympic gold medalist and Alpha Omega Academy graduate Sage Kotsenburg returns to competition this week during the Winter X Games, which runs from January 22-25 in Aspen, Colorado.

After what Kotsenburg self-described as a roller coaster year, including winning an Olympic gold in Sochi and a media tour of interviews with the likes of David Letterman, Kotsenburg is excited to hit the slopes again this weekend.

“It’s just crazy what a year it’s been,” Kotsenburg said in a short X Games preview video. “I just wanted so badly to go snowboard again. Once [the media tour] ended, it felt like I was finally back to where I belonged almost—back to Sage snowboarding. That’s all I am. I’m just a snowboarder.”

The 21-year-old who resides in Park City, Utah, hopes to win his first X Games gold this week. His top previous finishes include a silver medal in men’s snowboard slopestyle at Winter X Games Aspen 2012 and a bronze in men’s snowboard big air at Winter X Games 2011.

UPDATE: Sage Kotsenburg finished in fifth place. Of his three runs in the finals, Sage's best score was 83.33. Mark McMorris won the event with a score of 96.0. The Canadian also won the big air snowboard events at this year's X Games.

For many years, if you would have suggested playing a board game with your upper elementary or junior high children, there’s a pretty good chance you would have gotten a response like, “More like bored games.” However, the fact is that board games have come a long way since the emergence of Candy Land and Monopoly. In fact, with many of the games that have become available, you may find that you enjoy these games for ages 8 and up just as much as (or more than) your kids do!

Ticket to Ride In Ticket to Ride, players try to collect sets of colored cards to build train routes on the map. The routes that players want to build are dictated by ticket cards they have been dealt or draw throughout the game. On top of being a fun family game, the game helps familiarize players with geography.

Carcassonne In Carcassonne, players place tiles alongside those already on the board to expand the landscape. They may also place their pawns, known as “meeples,” on the tiles in an attempt to score points. The deployed meeples become monks, farmers, knights, or robbers depending on where they are placed. Each role has a different way of scoring points. As players play tiles to complete the cities and roads, the meeples that occupy them are taken back into their supply to be played and score points elsewhere. This easy-to-learn game is great at encouraging critical skills like thinking ahead.

The Settlers of Catan In The Settlers of Catan, players control colonies on an island full of valuable resources. Where settlements are placed determines which resources players are allowed to harvest and use to expand their colonies. One of the best aspects of Catan is that the board is completely different every time you play. The availability or scarcity of resources throughout a game provides a great lesson in supply and demand.

Timeline The goal in Timeline is to get rid of your hand of cards by placing them in the correct spot in relationship to others on the table. When you play a card, you flip it over to reveal the year in which the event portrayed on the card took place. If you’ve played it in the correct spot, your turn is over. If you’ve played it in the wrong spot, you have to draw a new card and wait for your next turn to try again. Once you’re familiar with how the game works, you could easily create your own deck based on the history lessons you’re currently studying to sneak some homework into the fun!

What games have you been playing with your homeschool family lately? Have you managed to sneak any into your lesson plans?

After having their requests denied to homeschool their daughter, a Swedish-American family has taken their case to Sweden’s Supreme Court.

Ellinor and Daniel Peterson likely have a long fight ahead of them. After all, this is the same government that “state-napped” 7-year-old Dominic Johansson in 2009 and kept him under state custody for three years.

According to the American Family News Network, Sweden’s law was changed in 2010 to only allow homeschooling under extraordinary circumstances; however, the Petersons argue that this law ignores important human rights treaties.

“Human rights cannot be arbitrarily taken away. Neither can the state decide when to ‘allow’ such rights to be exercised; they are fundamental and inalienable for all human beings,” Daniel Peterson said. “If Sweden wants to live up to the title ‘champion of human rights,’ then it’s time for the authorities to loosen their grip and let Sweden’s parents take back what is rightfully ours.”

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Winter is a great time of year to take a homeschool road trip to a warmer state, but it can also be a dangerous time of year to travel. A few rules of thumb to keep you safe during the season include keeping your gas tank at least half full in case of an emergency and informing someone of where you’re going, how long you’ll be gone, and what route you plan to take.

To further ensure your homeschool family’s safety during winter travel, check out the top 20 items to include in your winter survival kit.

A school district policy in Virginia is creating controversy over a requirement for homeschoolers to provide a statement about their religious beliefs to the school system.

According to WTVR News in Richmond, the policy requires a statement from all children ages 14 and up who want to be homeschooled. In addition, even after submitting the statement, the school board reserves the right to bring the child and his/her parent in for a hearing.

HSLDA believes the policy violates state law and encouraged homeschoolers to attend a school board meeting which took place on Tuesday, January 13.

“The error of the policy is that it arbitrarily decrees, in effect, that every 14-year-old is no longer being trained and is ‘on his own’ spiritually. We know that is simply not true,” wrote Scott A. Woodruff, HSLDA’s Senior Counsel. “The policy must be changed to reflect the fact that state law permits an exemption based on training alone.”

UPDATE: Victory for homeschoolers! According to Fox News, the Goochland County School Board voted down the new policy at their January 13 meeting in response to so much negative feedback.

Have you ever had to attend a school board meeting to defend your right to homeschool? If so, please share your story.

You’ve probably heard it said that healthy habits start at home. If that’s true, where do not-so-healthy habits come from? Whether we want to admit it or not, it’s likely they begin at home too.

How then, as a homeschool parent, can you instill healthy habits in your children? Check out four tips from AOP designed to help you teach your homeschooler to build a healthy lifestyle.

Eat right. An obvious answer, finding the time to prepare nutritious, kid-friendly meals while hammering out homeschool lessons is easier said than done. To save time, cook a double batch during dinner and freeze the leftovers for a quick and easy homeschool lunch. For ideas, check out 17 healthy recipes for kids and families from the Food Network. If you’re really pressed for time, try AOP’s ten-minute homeschool meal recipes.

Keep it clean.Teach independence and responsibility alongside cleanliness by assigning your child a set of chores that help keep your homeschool neat and clean. A little disinfectant goes a long way and can help prevent nasty bugs like the flu from circulating through your homeschool.

Move it! We all know physical activity is important to a healthy lifestyle. Lead by example and participate in physical activities with your child. Instead of sitting inside on a snowy afternoon, hold your own family Olympics in the back yard. If you live in town, bike to the store as a family when you run errands and haul items home in a basket or wagon. When possible, mix up physical activities to increase endurance, strength, and flexibility.

Teach a health course. Incorporating health lessons into your homeschool day is a great way to have direct discussions with your homeschooler about topics ranging from nutrition, exercise, first aid, and home safety to body growth and spiritual, social, and emotional health.

What tips do you have for passing healthy habits on to children?

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Whether you’re trying to stay warm while facing the frigid cold or you simply want to stay stylish, scarves are the solution. Check out three fun and simple ways to tie a scarf that are sure to add a little warmth and flair to your wardrobe.

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Through the help of HSLDA, a homeschool Mom in Virginia has filed a lawsuit against social workers for wrongly taking her two children from her home last year and temporarily placing one child in public school.

According to WND, formerly WorldNetDaily, social workers seized the children last April and placed them in foster care after the workers made an in-home visit and claimed one of the child’s blood glucose levels were too high.

The four-year-old child was original diagnosed with juvenile diabetes in January. At that time, doctors told the mother that they didn’t need to return for medical help unless blood glucose levels exceeded 400. However, investigations have revealed that at the visit, the child’s glucose measurement was only 261, but the social worker, despite no medical background, determined that the child’s “readings were ‘dangerously high’ and ‘too variable.’”

The two children were “involuntarily detained” for 29 and 50 days before finally being rightfully returned to the homeschool mom, but not after traumatizing the children.

“Social services are bound by state and federal law to handle their authority responsibly, which most do,” said HSLDA Chairman Michael Farris. “However, we’ve seen too many examples of social services overstepping their constitutional authority and causing harm to families in the process. HSLDA serves as a check on that abuse.”

Why study a foreign language? This is a question that is on the lips of many people in the USA, children and adults alike. It is heard in schools, on the street, and in the workplace. “Why should I learn ______ ?” Sometimes this question is voiced in frustration, sometimes in rebellion against a situation, and sometimes with legitimate curiosity.

The answers to this question are numerous. They range from “you need it for college” to “to get a good job” to “in order to witness.” As Christians we need to ask for biblical reasons first, not the reasons that our culture gives us, even though some cultural reasons are very good. So, are there any biblical reasons to study a foreign language?

First we must note that there are no verses in Scripture that say “Thou shalt learn a foreign language.” There are, however, biblical principles that can be applied to language learning. Three biblical reasons to study a foreign language include the following:

1. Love your neighbor2. Care for creation3. Praise God

Obviously Scripture tells us to do all these things, but what do they have to do with language?

First, Christ came to us in a way that we can understand. The Word (notice the reference to language here) became flesh. If Christ loved us in this way, then we ought also to love others in a way that they can understand best. If we are living in a homogenous community, then learning another language in order to love our neighbor is not necessary. If, however, if we live in a community in which people speak more than one language, learning the language(s) of the people around us is an application of loving our neighbor. A person’s language is very close to their heart and is actually the lens through which they see, evaluate, and think about the world. To speak someone else’s language is to reach into their heart and their part of the world. It is a way of being Christ to them.

Second, we are told in Genesis 1 and 2 to care for creation. Languages are part of creation. As such, we should study them so that we can care for them and bring them into accordance with God’s will. This includes more than just not using bad words; it also involves understanding how best to express ourselves with beauty and accuracy to the people with whom we are speaking. Language is also the way in which we study the world. As mentioned above, a language is the lens through which we see and evaluate the world. Therefore, language gives insights into different aspects of creation. If we look at all the words in English, Spanish, or French, we can see words borrowed from other languages (moccasin, kangaroo, rajah, hippopotamus, gestalt, etc.) that help us to better describe and understand the world. When we study other languages we gain insight into the world that God has given us and that he has commanded us to care for. With better understanding and more insights, we can take better care of the world.

Third, we can study another language to praise God more fully. Anything we study should bring us to our knees in awe and praise of the one who made and designed it. Language is no exception. Language also gives us new words and expressions that we can use to praise God. Some of these words and phrases may not be available to us in our own language. By learning a new language we gain insights not only into creation but into God himself, since different cultures may focus on different aspects of God’s being. (This is not to say that every human believes what is right about God; we still need to examine Scripture to determine what is true.) Each language also gives us different sounds and arrangements of the sounds that we can use to praise God. There is a different sound of beauty when we praise God in Spanish than when we praise him in English.

Though each of these points can be further examined and explained, these three reasons and their given explanations provide inspiration and an understanding of the important role language plays in our relations with our neighbor, creation, and our Creator.

A season of new beginnings is upon us once more, and the start of a new year seems a fitting time to set fresh goals and work toward an exciting, new future.

While forming homeschool resolutions for the new year is refreshing, at times it seems a bit daunting too. However, with the right mix of optimism and determination, achieving resolutions can be a cinch. As you create goals for the upcoming year, here are a few tips and tricks to help you succeed.

1. Partner up. Let's face reality. We tend to work harder when someone holds us accountable. This year, find a trusty friend or family member with whom you can plan lessons, work out, or volunteer. Forming a partnership with someone who has similar goals helps both parties stay motivated and succeed.

2. Set a schedule. Though completing a list of resolutions is satisfying, it's not something that has to happen overnight. Instead of diving headfirst into an endless list of goals, pace yourself with a realistic schedule which will help you avoid burnout and achieve more throughout the year.

4. Don't push it. Sometimes we focus so intently on starting something new this time of year that we forget to reflect on projects that are already in motion. Set aside some time to evaluate your progress on resolutions from last year and goals established at the beginning of the school year. After giving them some consideration, form a plan for finishing strong at the end of this year.

9.Minecraft and HomeschoolingKids of all ages, lifestyles, and learning styles are breaking down boxes and building worlds in Minecraft, including a growing number of homeschoolers.

10. 10 Things We Can't Homeschool WithoutAs you gear up for a new homeschool year, see how many of these 10 must-have homeschooling materials you use for teaching, learning, and surviving.

What was your favorite post from 2014, and what would you like to read about in the coming year?

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If you’re looking for a tasty new treat recipe to try with your homeschool family, these sparkling popcorn snowballs taste as good as they look. The hardest thing about making them is avoiding the urge to start a snowball fight with the family while you’re packing the perfect snowball!

Whether you’re looking for a gift for your homeschooler or a gadget for the whole family to enjoy, finding new technology that fits within your budget is a tricky endeavor. Check out AOP’s top technology picks to place beneath your tree without breaking the bank this Christmas.

Amazon Kindle Fire HDX - $179 (Amazon) Accomplish tasks on the run with fast web browsing, email, and calendar support from Gmail and Outlook. Plus, receive access to more than 100,000 apps and games through the Amazon Appstore. Prime members can also stream tens of thousands of Prime Instant Videos for free.

Asus Chromebook C200 - $179 (Amazon) Compact and stylish, this laptop provides access to thousands of apps in the Chrome Web Store, as well as hundreds of offline apps, including Gmail, Drive, and YouTube. Plus, enjoy any-time access to your files with 100 GB of free cloud storage for two years.

Asus Transformer Book T100TA (64 GB) - $329.99 (Best Buy) Use the Asus Transformer Book as a tablet or dock it to enjoy a laptop feel, complete with a full-size keyboard. Select models also include 500 GB of extra hard drive space on the dock.

Chromecast - $29.99 (Amazon) If you already have a new laptop or tablet, consider getting Chromecast, a streaming device that allows you to cast your favorite movies, photos, music, and more to your TV to share with family.

Features include: Supports popular apps including Netflix, YouTube, Hulu Plus, Pandora, and more No remote needed Easy setup: Plug into HDTV and connect to WiFi network Works with Android phones and tablets, iPhone, iPad, Mac, Windows, and Chromebook

To help homeschool families work efficiently within our computer-based curriculum, we’re introducing a new Tech Tip segment to our blog.

Today, discover how to update Monarch’s school calendar to reorganize your student’s schoolwork and get back on track after an unexpected delay. Doing so takes all remaining coursework and disperses the assignments as evenly as possible over the specified time frame.

Rescheduling All Courses 1. On the Monarch teacher homepage, click on Calendar above the student’s name. 2. Click Reschedule All Courses (the blue button above Tuesday and Wednesday). 3. Choose your desired start and end date. Then, click Reschedule. This change will only affect uncompleted work. All completed work will remain untouched.

Rescheduling a Single Course 1. On the Monarch teacher homepage, click on Assigned work underneath the student’s name. 2. Click and highlight the subject name. 3. Click Reschedule This Course. This change will only affect uncompleted work. All completed work will remain untouched.

What topics would you like to learn more about within Monarch or Switched-On Schoolhouse?

On their trip, Prince William spoke with President Obama and advocated for efforts to fight illegal wildlife trading, while Kate visited a child development center in Harlem. Together, the royal couple visited the National 9/11 Memorial and Museum and took in an NBA game featuring LeBron James.

In this Christmas season, the quick visit from the Duke and Duchess is a good reminder of another time in history when we received a special visit from royalty. Unlike Will and Kate, however, Jesus Christ came to Earth without fanfare. There was no room at a deluxe hotel like The Carlyle. Instead, our Savior was born in a stable and placed in a manger.

While many people likely traveled a great distance just to see a glimpse of the famous couple, Christ came to us. When Will and Kate arrived on a commercial flight, “passengers were amazed to find them ‘mingling with everyone else.’” How much more amazed should we be that Christ truly came to mingle with everyone, including the reviled tax collectors, and even more, “that while we were yet sinners, Christ died for us” (Romans 5:8b)!

If a visit from British royalty stirred so much excitement in America, surely this Christmas, we can celebrate even more the coming of Emmanuel, God with Us, and wait with great anticipation for His second coming as our conquering King!

Although more than seven of 10 American adults describe themselves as Christian, recent research sadly indicates that more and more people are Christian only in tradition.

According to David Kinnaman, president of the Barna Group, 38% of people who would describe themselves as Christian on a survey, are essentially secular in belief and practice. In addition, the research, which included 23,000 interviews in 20 surveys, concluded that church is becoming increasingly unfamiliar to millions of Americans.

With the gap growing between the church and the churchless, Kinnaman is challenging Christians to be ready to actively respond.

“While the culture will continue to change, our calling as the Body of Christ has not and will not,” Kinnaman said. “How can we recapture an urgency to fulfill the Great Commission while treating our churchless friends with respect? Wrestling with answers to this question will help prepare a faith community to engage more meaningfully with unchurched people."

What are some of the ways your church reaches out to the unchurched in your community?

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Whether it’s time for an update or you’re making the move to computer-based curriculum for the first time, purchasing a computer as a gift is a great way to make your homeschooler’s day with an exciting new gadget that they’ll use for education, too.

Though any computer at the store should work well with Monarch online curriculum, check out four recommendations from our technical support team to help you choose a computer that meets your needs and budget, and works well with our revolutionary curriculum.

ASUS Chromebook C200 – $179A budget-friendly option, the ASUS Chromebook C200 starts up fast and is great for surfing the web. Unfortunately, you can’t install addition software, but its lengthy battery life and lightweight design make it a great option for on-the-go homeschoolers.

HP Pavilion x360 – $399.99This mid-priced, compact computer converts easily from notebook to stand to tent to tablet mode. With a touch screen functional in all modes, parents can easily navigate the screen while assisting children with schoolwork.

Pros:PortableIncludes touch screen and keyboardFunctions as a computer and a tablet

Cons: Lower-end processor

Surface Pro 3 – $799Similar to the Pavilion in that it doubles as a tablet, the Surface Pro 3 runs the full version of Windows 8, allowing users to install outside software. The lightweight laptop comes with a Surface Pen that allows for a natural, on-screen writing and drawing experience.

Pros:Runs the full version of Windows 8Functions as a computer and a tabletCore i3 processor

If you’re not quite sure what to do with that scrumptious, mail order fruitcake from your favorite gift-giver, don’t worry. We’ve got your back! Though re-gifting is the classic solution, take a look at 10 alternative uses for your mass-produced gift.

1. Wreath What better way to welcome visitors to your humble abode than with a front door adorned with a colorful fruitcake?

3. Paperweight As the end of the homeschool semester approaches, keep your kids’ papers in place with a festive new desk decoration.

4. Spare Tire Stow your gift in the trunk to ensure you won’t be stalled on the side of the road when you take a road trip to visit the family on Christmas.

5. Pencil Holder Help your homeschooler keep track of writing utensils by keeping them confined in a single area.

6. Mr. Fruitcake Head If your fruitcake happens to be square, keep the kids entertained with a homemade version of Hasbro’s popular toy. Raid the house for a pair of googly eyes, pretzel ears, a licorice mouth, a gumdrop nose, and craft stick arms and legs, and your kids will have hours of fun assembling and reassembling Mr. Fruitcake Head.

7. Bookend Hold your homeschool books or favorite novels in place upon the shelf with a decorative, seasonal bookend.

8. Cat Scratching Post Keep the family pet out of trouble with a Christmas gift of his own!

9. Doorstop When it’s time to pack those Christmas decorations away, use your new gift to make transporting boxes into storage a breeze.

10. Christmas Feast Centerpiece Carve out a couple holes on top of the cake, place some classy candles inside, and you’ll be ready to host the family gathering at your place!

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One of the busiest shopping days for bargain hunters in America is almost here. From the perfect Christmas gift to homeschool curriculum and supplies, Black Friday offers great deals for every shopper. Check out these eight tips to help you strategically plan your shopping spree this season.

1. Create a budget. Before dreaming of the deals you’d like to find, set a limit on how much you’re willing to spend. Though you may have to cut some items from your wish list, keeping your bank account in the black will be worth it in the long run.

3. Browse online deals. Sure, Cyber Monday exists for a reason, but maybe you can dodge the crowds while snagging some great deals from the comfort of home on Friday, too. (Hint: See below).

4. Buddy up. Shopping with a friend is more fun and essential to efficiency when braving the crowds. Once you have a list, choose someone with similar taste to avoid making extra stops.

5. Categorize and prioritize. Set aside some time to make a game plan with your shopping partner. Group items together by store or department and determine which ones on your lists are most important. When you arrive at your destination, split up to track down your top purchases.

6. Map your route. Once you have a starting point, work together to find the best routes from store to store within your city. Consider taking lesser-traveled back roads to avoid the major commotion.

7. Travel lightly. Whether it’s a cup of coffee to keep you caffeinated or a bulky purse filled with coupons and snacks, leave the non-essentials at home to minimize your baggage and maximize your mobility. Consider wearing clothing with lots of pockets for tucking away your cash, cards, and coupons.

8. Use store credit cards. Many stores offer special discounts for using their credit cards, which can save you big bucks on top of already great deals. To make the discount worthwhile, stick to your budget and avoid interest charges by paying your bill in full.

What are your tried-and-true Black Friday shopping strategies?

Save Big on Black Friday at AOP! 20% off Until Noon (MT) Use Code BLKFRIDAY20

*Free shipping applies to standard ground shipping in the continental United States for all orders over $50. Black Friday Sale is November 28 only. Sale starts at 12 a.m. (MT) and ends at 11:59 p.m. (MT). Offer excludes Monarch monthly plans. This offer cannot be combined with any other offer.

With nearly 4,700 U.S. colleges to choose from, there are many things for homeschoolers to consider as you explore job options, select a career path, and apply for college acceptance. Though trends show that colleges are recruiting more homeschoolers, finding the right fit is an important step in achieving academic and professional success.

Tools like LinkedIn’s University Finder, a resource that reveals correlations between degrees from specific colleges and employment with popular companies across the country, make up the ever-growing list of websites that aim to provide prospective college students with tools to help you decide where to go and what to study after graduation.

Though there are pros and cons to online resources like college ranking sites, they can be helpful when their strengths and weaknesses are taken into consideration. As you prepare to transition into the collegiate world, check out three online resources to help you determine the direction of your future.

1. University Finder allows prospective college students to input their intended college major, ideal employer, and preferred place of residence, which the tool uses to generate a list of colleges that send the most alumni into their desired career field. It’s important to note that University Finder generates results based on the LinkedIn profiles of college graduates. Whether a university has 10 or 10,000 graduates with careers in a given field, alumni must set up a profile that references their alma mater and current employer to be included in those results. Though the tool can be an indicator of alumni loyalty and program quality, LinkedIn doesn’t verify profile credentials.

2. MyPath101 is a web app that helps college applicants pinpoint their interests and strengths to choose a major, build a career-friendly online identity, and begin their job search. Though it’s new to the national market, the web app’s pilot program was so successful at the University of Pittsburgh that the school continues to recommend the program to students. Individual memberships are available on a quarterly or yearly basis for as little as $247 per year.

3. AcceptU connects college applicants with former admission counselors who have served at schools across the country. Counselors provide prospective students with virtual support via phone, Skype, and email during the admission process. Though AcceptU offers a free 30-minute consultation, applicants must commit to a payment plan or pay $425 per hour for additional assistance.

What online resources have you discovered to help with college and career planning?

Recently, USA Today explored the growing popularity of homeschooling, focusing on the northern New York City suburb of White Plains, where homeschool students have increased 31% since 2005.

Little surprise that one of the reasons cited for the rise in numbers is concern about the Common Core national standards.

“If you are home-schooling, you are completely out of the clutches of the Common Core,” said homeschool mom Arlene Figueroa.

The article also mentions how online resources “have revolutionized home-schooling.” Alpha Omega Publications is proud to be part of that revolution by offering new monthly and yearly Monarch Plans, giving homeschool families and individual students access to 50 online courses across grade levels to customize learning.

For more information on AOP’s commitment to Christian values in our curriculum, read our Common Core statement.

Gone are the days of children carrying wockets in their pockets. Now, most of today’s generation has some sort of gadget in their pocket, fully equipped to access trendy apps and social media sites with just the tap of a finger.

How, in the ever-changing online world, are parents to evaluate the benefits and dangers of the technology their youngsters use? Though it’s tricky, resources like iparent.tv, Plugged-In Parenting, and others can help.

Before letting your homeschooler connect with peers online, learn a little bit more about some of today’s most popular apps and websites by conducting your own research and checking out our list of pros and cons below.

Facebook allows users to “friend” one another to share photos, videos, status updates, news articles, and more. Many organizations, including AOP, use Facebook pages or groups to communicate with members. Because it’s a site many parents are familiar with, more and more kids are steering clear of Facebook.

Pros:• Users receive immediate updates from the groups and organizations they like.• The site makes it easy to connect with long-distance friends and family members.• Active users stay up to date with the current events and trends their friends follow.

Cons:• Facebook is a common platform for cyberbullying.• Facebook’s “like” system may have a negative impact on self-image and may tempt users to alter the content they post to obtain more likes from friends.• Inappropriate posts may have consequences down the road when it comes time for teens to apply for college and employment.

Twitter, a popular microblogging service, challenges users to articulate their thoughts in 140 characters or less. It’s a trendy way to get to-the-second updates on sports, pop culture, current events, and more.

Pros:• Credible accounts provide instant access to breaking news.• The platform provides a place for discussion about current events.• Users have the ability to make their account private and block unwanted followers.

Cons:• The site has no content filter.• Twitter is also a common platform for cyberbullying.

Instagram is a photo and video sharing app that doubles as a social networking service. Users can categorize photos with hashtags, share them on other social media sites, and communicate with other users via likes and comments.

Pros:• The platform provides users with a place to share creative visual art.• Instagram allows users to block unwanted followers.• Users can send photos or videos directly to specific individuals on their contact list through Instagram Direct.

Cons:• Some posts may contain inappropriate material.• Though it’s been ad-free in the past, Instagram is currently experimenting with advertising.• Similar to Facebook, the “like” system on Instagram can impact a user’s self-perception.

Pinterest is a virtual bulletin board used by people of all ages to share creative ideas about hobbies, education, careers, and much more. From DIY crafts to study tips, there’s something for everyone.

Pros:• The site provides sharable resources to help individuals enhance their hobbies.• Users may pin their own creative ideas to share with the world.

Cons:• Though the site is largely safe, imagery on some pins may be unsuitable for younger audiences.

Yik Yak, in essence, is a spinoff of Twitter designed for college students. The app tracks the geographic location of its users, known as “Yakkers,” and broadcasts their unsigned, 200-character-or-less posts to other users within a 1.5 mile radius.

Pros:• There are really no positive perks to using Yik Yak, particularly for kids.

Cons:• The anonymous app is an ideal platform for cyberbullying.• Since Yakkers go unnamed, the temptation to post inappropriate or offensive material is often greater on this platform than social sites.• Though it was supposedly designed to disable near middle and high schools, several schools and colleges have reported serious bullying incidences and other threats via the app.

Snapchat is an app that allows users to send photos or short videos, known as “snaps,” to friends and followers. Once opened, snaps are accessible for a brief timeframe (between 1 and 10 seconds) before supposedly disappearing from the recipient’s device.

Pros:• Through the eyes of a teen, it’s a fun and trendy way to communicate with friends.

Cons:• When used inappropriately, the app can be dangerous. Recipients can save and store snaps by taking a screenshot of any image sent via Snapchat.• Apps exist that allow users to copy, download, and save snaps, sometimes without the sender’s knowledge.• Though the app’s privacy policy says that snaps are deleted from its server after being opened, there’s no guarantee. The policy also states, “You should not use Snapchat to send messages if you want to be certain that the recipient cannot keep a copy.”

Spotify provides users with access to millions of new and classic music tracks. Users can stream music live for free or pay a monthly fee for ad-free music that’s also accessible offline. Available on mobile devices and computers, Spotify also allows users to share their music and listening habits on social media.

Pros:• Access your homeschooler’s favorite tunes for free.• Spotify can serve as a helpful learning tool when you lead lessons in music.

Cons:• Spotify users have access to music with explicit lyrics.• The free version of Spotify displays ads that may invite users to visit external websites or promote music with inappropriate lyrics.

Homeschoolers are celebrating a new Pennsylvania law that has removed the power from a school superintendent to judge whether a child is receiving an “appropriate education.”

Effective immediately, parents are no longer required “to submit their portfolios, standardized test results, or any other materials to superintendents for evaluation at the end of the school year.” Homeschoolers in the Keystone State still need their work reviewed by a qualified evaluator, but a homeschool family can now use their own discretion to choose that individual.

Although Pennsylvania continues to have stringent homeschool rules, things appear to be heading in the right direction.

What homeschool state requirement would you like to eliminate in your state?

-The average age range of individuals looking to adopt in the U.S. spans from the late-30’s to mid-40’s.

-International adoption is on the decline in the U.S., according to CNN, which reported 8,668 international adoptions in 2012, down from a peak of 22,884 in 2004.

Are you thinking about providing a permanent home for a child in need of a loving parent? Try these five tips before you apply to adopt:

Do Your Homework.Adoption laws in the U.S. vary from one state to another. Stay current on changing trends and common terms. For instance, there are two basic types of adoption: open and closed. A closed adoption is one in which the identities of the parties involved are withheld. In an open adoption, certain information is shared.

Know What You Want. Domestic or international, boy or girl, younger or older, open adoption or closed? Try to make these decisions prior to applying to adopt.

Find the Right Agency or Service. The trick to having a successful adoption is to find an agency or service that works for you and falls within your budget. Public, state-run agencies typically have lower costs, where private agencies can sometimes charge a great deal.

Be Ready to Wait. Adoption time frames can vary from a few months to five years, or even more. Adoption agencies can estimate the length of your wait, but the process may take more or less time than anticipated.

Don’t Subscribe to Myths. Adopted children often grow up to be happy adults. In a study that followed 881 adopted adolescents and their adoptive families over four years, the adopted kids scored higher in caring and social competency than their non-adopted peers.

Have you adopted a child, or are you thinking about it? Share an interesting tidbit from your experience below!

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Give your Thanksgiving tabletop an artistic touch this year with an easy and fun craft your kids will love making and you’ll love displaying.

Thanksgiving Picture PlacematHave each child cut out pictures from magazines of things they are thankful for this Thanksgiving. Arrange the images on a piece of construction paper or small poster board and affix with a glue stick. Laminate each collage and use them as placemats during your family’s Thanksgiving feast.

Will you make a Thanksgiving tabletop craft? If so, please share a photo of your masterpiece!

Is Halloween a harmless day for families to enjoy candy, dressing up, and seeing neighbors, or is it an unchristian observance that should be skipped in favor of something less secular? See how other homeschool parents feel about Halloween from a question we recently posted on our homeschool Facebook page: “Does your family celebrate Halloween?”

“Yes, but we don't do ghosts, witches, devils, etc. And we use the smiling jack o’ lantern as an object lesson for how God picks us, washes us clean, scoops out all the yucky sin, puts a smile on our face, and lets the light of Jesus shine through us.” - Stacey F.

“No. We do, however, use it as an opportunity to share the gospel, because we get a lot of trick-or-treaters at our house. We give out treat bags with candy and a gospel tract. Plus, we give out a one dollar bill to anyone who can quote a Bible verse to us. It has been very fun!” - Nancy H.

“Halloween is really All Hallows Eve, the day before All Saints Day. Reformation Day is on October 31. We celebrate Reformation Day at home and at church. We also let the kids dress up in costumes and go trick-or-treating. Halloween is only a pagan and hedonistic holiday if you let it be.” - Deanna J.

“I grew up not celebrating most holidays because of pagan roots. I'll be honest...while respecting my parents’ decision and reasoning, I totally resented it growing up.” - Angela G.L.

“We allow the kids to participate in the church's Fall Festival as an alternative activity. We don't have scary costumes or engage in anything with a ‘dark’ theme. We don't consider that celebrating Halloween.” - Holly H.

“My kids have always enjoyed trick or treating then taking a turn giving out candy on the front porch. It is a good lesson on sharing with neighbors.” - Jodi S.F.

“We do not celebrate the Easter bunny, instead Resurrection Day; no Santa Claus, only Jesus’ birth. Regardless of the pagan origins of these holidays, they now celebrate the life and resurrection of Jesus. Halloween does not in any way shape or form. So I ask, as Christians let us not condemn one another for the differences, but pray for each other that we can stand together on the things that really matter.” - Haagen D.

“Not exactly. We allow our kids the fun of dress up, candy, and hanging with friends or church group. But have discussions about the day, its origins, and what it means today. It's a great learning tool while they can still have some fun.” - Anthony W.

“Yes, we go all out for Halloween. My kids dress up, they trick-or-treat, and we have fun. We decorate our house, and have even turned our front porch into a ‘haunted’ porch. The neighborhood kids love it! By dressing up and having innocent fun I don't see how that makes a person unchristian.” - Holly M.D.

“Nope! But we do turn on our front light and put Gospel tracts in with candy bars. Very few times will the lost world come straight to your front door – perfect opportunity!” - Danielle T.

The article gives a brief history in the battle to legalize homeschooling in the 1980s and celebrates the victory that occurred because both sides of the cultural and political spectrum were able to work together for a noble cause.

Election Day is November 4, so be sure to vote next week!

Are there elections next week that may impact homeschooling in your state? If so, which candidate or measure are you supporting?

A new documentary about homeschooling, Class Dismissed, is currently selling out at screens along the West Coast, with tours of the East Coast and Midwest to come.

Geared toward parents questioning public education, the film follows one homeschool family’s experience, as they pull their kids out of a Los Angeles school. The current state of the nation’s educational system inspired the film, which attempts to assess the reason for schooling, confront long-standing assumptions about education, and suggest solutions for the future of education.

The complete list of theater screening locations is available on the film’s official website, along with information on how to host a screening in your city.

Nearly two years after Adam Lanza murdered 20 children and six teachers at Sandy Hook Elementary School in Newtown, Connecticut, a task force is proposing tighter scrutiny and control on homeschoolers in Connecticut.

According to HSLDA, the panel recently recommended that homeschooled children with special needs, emotional or behavioral problems, and those suffering from mental illness be required to submit to mental health screenings, report regularly to the special education directors in their public school district, and submit an individualized education plan to the local public school district for approval. The commission also proposed that parents whose children failed to make “adequate progress” as determined by public school officials would be denied the right to teach their children at home.

The news has created an uproar throughout the homeschool community at the prospect of having their freedoms, privacy, and rights stripped.

“There is simply no basis for the assertion that there is a connection between homeschooling and violence in public schools,” responded HSLDA, represented by Senior Counsel Dee Black.

The nonprofit organization also vehemently vowed to oppose any effort to subject homeschool students to mental health screenings and deny parents the constitutional right to homeschool.

How do you feel about the Sandy Hook Advisory Commission’s recommendations?

Check out our list of common grocery store comestibles that can help boost your homeschooler’s brainpower, focus, and productivity!

Whole GrainsA breakfast filled with whole grains does a better job of improving short-term memory and attention, studies have found, than eating refined carbohydrates or no morning meal at all. Researchers say that high-fiber whole grains, dairy, and fruits are the best brain fuel, though too many calories can hinder your child’s concentration.

SugarIf you’re still reeling from the amount of candy corn your child consumed at the pumpkin patch last week, don’t despair: Sugar sends signals to our brains that make us feel more alert. In fact, studies say that glucose (which your body processes from the sugar and carbs you eat) is the brain’s preferred fuel source.

Fresh FruitsInclude plenty of natural sugar in your child’s diet with foods that are inherently sweet. Thinking requires plenty of blood flow to the brain, and fruits like blueberries and avocados help protect your child’s brain and improve learning and muscle functions. While a cup of apple juice can boost short-term memory and mental ability, too much table sugar can impair memory and lead to weight gain.

Fish and Omega-3’sYour child’s brain and nervous system are rapidly growing and developing until age five, according to Karlene Karst, a registered dietitian, author, and mom.

“You want to turbo-boost kids’ brain power with a diet of fun, simple, yet delicious foods that incorporate protein and omega-3s – the building blocks for smart and healthy brains,” Karst said.

Rich sources of omega-3 include fish, especially fatty varieties like salmon. Many other foods and beverages are now fortified with omega-3, too, including juice, milk, yogurt, bread, almond butter, and even cereal. If fish isn’t a splash hit with your child, you can add fish oil to his or her diet (recommended only for kids over one year old).

OatmealWith tons of protein, oatmeal is a great brain food, and there’s nothing better than a bowl of steel cut oatmeal for breakfast. Get creative with brainpower-boosting toppings like blueberries, raw honey, and nuts and seeds, which are packed with vitamin E and enhance cognitive development.

Dark ChocolateShare a bar of dark chocolate with your child for its powerful antioxidants and – believe it or not – caffeine. While high-caffeinated beverages like coffee are never recommended for children, caffeine is a natural stimulant that can sharpen the minds of adults and children alike.

Finally, fuel your child’s mental focus with a variety of veggies, especially leafy greens like salad with spinach. Another smart food to serve your child is eggs, a good source of protein and the vitamin choline, which helps bodies produce more memory cells throughout childhood.

Need a few extra somethings to celebrate this month? Try working the unusual themes of these upcoming days into your homeschool lessons.

October 14: National Lowercase DayFree verse poets like e e cummings proved that anything goes, including writing in all lowercase letters. Teach free verse poetry and challenge your child to write his own poem. You can also dedicate the day to practicing lowercase manuscript or cursive, or give a grammar lesson on common and proper nouns.

October 16: National Dictionary DayWord nerds will skip to their reference shelves and rejoice in the weight of their hardcover, special edition Webster’s Dictionaries. Pay tribute to the day by introducing your child to 20 new words or challenging her to a game of Scrabble.

October 21: Information Overload DayFlip the switch on the media your family consumes. Turn off the TV, put down your smartphone, and accept the Information Overload Challenge by taking a break from the Internet and encouraging your kids to do the same.

Meanwhile, International Moment of Frustration Scream Day on October 12 may provide the perfect moment to grab a pillow, while observing National Bologna Day on October 24 gives you an excuse to make a 5-minute meal and pare down the condiments in your refrigerator.

Did you know that for nearly a century, girls have consistently received better grades than boys? Earlier this year, the American Psychological Association published an analysis of nearly 100 years of research that spanned more than 30 countries. Their results revealed that girls earn higher grades in all subjects, including STEM (science, technology, engineering, and mathematics).

This may come as surprise because boys have traditionally performed better on standardized tests.

“Girls succeed over boys in school because they are more apt to plan ahead, set academic goals, and put effort into achieving those goals,” said Gwen Kenney-Benson, a psychology professor, in an article for The Atlantic. “Boys approach schoolwork differently. They are more performance-oriented. Doing well on them is a public demonstration of excellence.”

While this research certainly doesn’t apply to every child, leading homeschooling researcher Brian D. Ray reported similar findings in his 2014 report for the National Home Education Research Institute (NHERI).

“Homeschooling gives young people an unusual chance to ask questions such as, ‘Who am I?’ and ‘What do I really want?,’ and through the process of such asking and gradually answering the questions, home-educated girls develop the strengths and the resistance abilities that give them an unusually strong sense of self,” Ray said.

He added that boys who tend to express themselves physically can also thrive in a homeschooling environment.

How can you accommodate the differences between girls and boys in your homeschool?

Give your homeschooler a head start on college with Alpha Omega Academy’s dual credit courses through the University of Northwestern - St. Paul.

AOA recently partnered with the Minnesota school to offer dual credit classes to homeschoolers through a program known as Early College at the University of Northwestern.

The program gives high school juniors and seniors a head start on their undergraduate degrees by allowing them to enroll in online college courses at a discounted rate. Students who enroll in the dual credit program at the beginning of their junior year can earn up to two full years of college credit before ever setting foot on a college campus.

"We're very excited about this new journey with the University of Northwestern," said Denise Laudenbach, President of Alpha Omega Publications. “With more than 65 college courses to choose from, Northwestern gives our students even more opportunities to follow and achieve their dreams, while preparing them for the rigors of higher education with courses from a Christ-centered university.”

To qualify for the program, students must hold junior or senior status, maintain a grade point average of 2.75 or higher, and meet minimum test scores (ACT/PLAN score of at least 18 or SAT score of at least 1200 or PSAT score of at least 120). For each four-credit college course students complete, they earn a full high school credit through AOA.

Dr. Alan S. Cureton, President of the University of Northwestern, notes that in addition to dual credit, the program gives students a true understanding of what to expect when they head off to a physical college to finish their degree.

"Students need intrinsic motivation to succeed in the Early College courses," he said. "Along the way, they discover how to collaborate with peers, meet deadlines, and connect with college professors on a professional and personal level. Our professors look forward to welcoming AOA students into the program."

To learn more about dual credit courses at Alpha Omega Academy, call 800-682-7396 or visit the academy’s website.

A great place to purchase fresh fruits and veggies, the local farmers’ market is also home to several real world lessons for homeschoolers. Dig into learning on your next trip to the market with three tips to get your student involved in the outing.

1. Promote your student to chef and bookkeeper for a day. Before you depart, introduce your child to an old family recipe or pick out a seasonal Pinterest recipe to try. Make a shopping list together and set a budget for the trip. Then put your student in charge of spending for the meal.

2. Poll the planters. Remind your child that vendors at the market grow crops for a living and make great resources for information about harvest and food preparation. Encourage your student to interview vendors to learn more about growing seasons, nutrition, preparation techniques, and any new foods he discovers.

3. Get Cookin’. After your excursion, spend some quality time together in the kitchen learning about math, nutrition, and table etiquette. Enjoy some quality bonding time with your student and experience the delight of a home cooked meal at the end of a busy day.

Fall is the perfect season for crafts and coffee. Everywhere you look, the colors are vibrant and inspiring, and there’s nothing quite like savoring a cup of java on a chilly day. Today, celebrate National Coffee Day with a cute and inexpensive craft project using supplies you probably already have around the house!

DirectionsFirst, dye your coffee filters in fall hues like gold, orange, red, and shades of brown. Grab five filters for each flower you want to make and dip the filters in a bowl of water tinted with one of your food colorings. Squeeze out the excess water and set the filters aside to dry flat. (Hint: Use wax paper to catch the dye and water). Repeat the process for each color of flower you’d like, dyeing multiple flowers at once to save time. Pop them in the microwave briefly to speed up the drying process.

Next, take five coffee filters and stack them. Fold them in half, then once more, for quarters. Using straight or scrapbook scissors, cut a scalloped line (a series of curves) across the top to shape the flower. Then, poke a skewer through one filter. Keeping a fingertip on the top of the skewer, twist the filter until it resembles the center of a flower. Tape the filter to the skewer and repeat the process with your next four coffee filters. Twist, twist, twist, tape; twist, twist, twist, tape. The more you twist, the tighter and smaller your flower will be.

Finally, wrap two paper towels around the skewer of your first flower. Once you have your finished bouquet, drop it in a vase with coffee beans at the bottom to fill and enhance the coffee theme of this craft.

Happy #NationalCoffeeDay and fall crafting!

Confession time: How many cups have you already had today? What other fall crafts do you love to do with your children?

A homeschool family in New Jersey was recently ordered to follow the Common Core standards to meet an interpretation of a state law that requires that children receive “instruction equivalent to that provided in the public schools.”

After withdrawing their child from Westfield Public Schools with the intent to homeschool, the family was mailed the school’s homeschool policy. According to HSLDA, the policy required the family to submit an outline of their curriculum and wait for permission to homeschool from the superintendent.

Scott A. Woodruff, senior counsel for HSLDA, responded to the district on behalf of the family, explaining that the school’s requirements contradicted the current New Jersey homeschool law. In response, the school changed the wording to say they "should be guided" by Common Core. Woodruff again responded that “homeschool families have no duty to follow or be guided by Common Core standards.”

Meanwhile, the rest of the country remains at risk.

“Common Core is gradually creeping into homeschools across the country,” said writer Lynda Altman. “Starting with requiring equivalent curriculum or forcing students to take PARCC exams, more states will implement rules impacting homeschoolers. New Jersey is just one state. Homeschool parents should be aware of Common Core and PARCC and STAR testing. That is the only way to make informed decisions about your child’s education.”

Do you think homeschoolers will be at a disadvantage because of required tests that align with Common Core?

Homeschoolers in Kentucky may be able to cheer on their children on the fields and courts of their local public schools next year.

According to the Lexington Herald-Leader, State Rep. Stan Lee recently pre-filed a bill for the 2015 legislative session that would allow homeschool students to try out for middle and high school-based sports teams. Lee’s bill would also permit students at private schools that don’t offer athletics to participate.

The Kentucky High School Athletic Association (KHSAA) has resisted similar bills in the past but isn't opposed to Lee’s proposal so far. Officials simply want to make sure that any change to the law would be “competitively fair” for all students.

A homeschool dad, Lee pointed out that parents of homeschooled children and public school children all pay the same taxes.

1. Your family vacation consists of historical sites, museums, and a meager budget for anything else you want to do or buy besides the gas to get back.

2. Your kids are often the smartest and most well-mannered in the room.

3. Your ideal extreme homeschool makeover would be sponsored by Ikea. (Just imagine – all the bookcases and organizers you could ever need!)

4. Your kids are in the back yard making animal prints out of Plaster of Paris while their friends are stuck in desks, in rows, inside.

5. Your trunk is packed with tubs and totes for the outdoors (bug spray, sunscreen, first aid, and any wildlife your kids capture to study), clothes for your kids’ extracurricular activities, books, road trip entertainment, and picnic supplies and snacks (in case you don't make it home for meals).

6. People ask if your children are sick when you're on field trips or running errands.

7. Your entire house is a learning center, including the bathroom. You have bookshelves in every room, your window sills can never be deep enough, and even your yard has become one big botany experiment.

8. If it has art or science project potential, it’s never tossed. Old socks turn into sock puppets. Milk cartons emerge in art or gardening projects. Boxes become storage for school supplies.

9. Your child is reading about biomes in a fort in the middle of the living room.

Teaching requires planning, but what happens when you overbook your student’s days with too many activities, schoolwork, and appointments? What is lost when a child’s life becomes increasingly devoid of opportunities to be creative, imaginative, and playful?

Too often we time-crunch our children’s days with a rigid schedule and not enough time to play, which, according to Dr. Peter Gray, serves a variety of developmental functions that promote children’s mental health.

In a study on the Investigation of the Status of Outdoor Play, Rhonda Clements asked mothers to compare their own memories of their playtime to their children’s current schedules. Eighty-five percent noted that their children played outdoors less frequently and for shorter periods of time than they had. The mothers noted that they restricted their own children’s outdoor play because of safety concerns, a fact echoed in other surveys where parents mentioned child predators, road traffic, and bullies as reasons for restricting their children’s outdoor play.

Today, make sure to allow time for your child to play. Don’t think about the time (the clock will still be there when you return). Observe. Focus on interacting. Listen. Let your child lead. Resist the urge to interrupt with suggestions or shortcuts. What do you notice?

How do you work play into your homeschooling day? What can you learn from your child about imagination and play?

My favorite homeschooling days are not spent at our homeschool table in front of our computers. For me, that is the necessary grunt work we have to put in to have days where we can go to the zoo, work in the garden, go on a long hike, or pick up educational magazines to read as we leave for a road trip in the middle of the week when they otherwise would have been in school (and I’ve also grown to love being alongside them as they’ve mastered a tough question in math or aced their spelling test).

But don’t I value academics? Yes! I do. I did not realize how passionate I was about education until I was in college and realized how different it was from any other schooling I’d had. I didn’t do well in school. Not only did I get low grades, but I was also fidgety, frantic, and “too sociable.” High school was atrocious. I distinctly remember missing a couple days of algebra and never catching up again. I remember my chemistry teacher using up the entire class time to talk to the football players in class about their next game because he was also the coach.

That’s why, in college, I was floored when I realized I actually loved learning. The classes were exciting, and the professors inspired us. Math remained my hardest subject, but I kept a 3.9 GPA. You would think I underwent some transformative experience to go from barely graduating to mostly A’s, but it wasn’t me, it was my learning environment.

Now, looking back, I can remember countless learning experiences throughout my childhood outside the classroom (and yes, some in the classroom too). I remember the need I had to look up water bugs in our brand new encyclopedias (remember the door to door encyclopedia salesman?!) after being at a neighbor’s pool and watching the insects skirt around. How did they get there? I asked everyone around me, but no one knew, and no one cared. So I dragged out one of our encyclopedias and thanked God we had a W. I had to know.

Learning is everywhere.

I used to think that our youngest daughter was the only one who was self-motivated to learn, but I was wrong. She’s motivated by pushing the buttons on the computer and seeing the trail of green check marks at the top of her page when she’s done well. But all the kids love to learn. They’re constantly asking questions about space, or cooking, or cars, or kittens, or how the phone works, or the TV, or their DS, or the washing machine. They want to know about the different cultures in India and the Aborigines in Australia. They want to know so much that I can barely keep up with it all. In fact, I have been known to put a cap on their questions because “Mommy needs a break.”

There is a complicated mix of what our children need to learn, but a lifetime of opportunity to learn it. I want to give them a basic knowledge for how math works, what and where the continents are, how to structure a sentence to communicate their thoughts effectively, and what the story of Moses has to do with them. But more than that, I want them to want to know. Instead of simply teaching them math, I want to give them a reason to want to know math.

For instance, yesterday I picked out several magazines to take with us on an upcoming road trip. One magazine is all about model trains. My youngest boy is very serious about trains. There is a model train exhibit at our local botanical garden that we always plan to stay awhile and watch. I’ve never been a train person, but I admit it’s interesting to me to see how someone built the train, the tracks, and the city…for about five minutes. But my son will watch and run around the tracks by the trains all day if we let him. He catches every detail and makes note of how the wheels hit the tracks. Does he know there’s math involved in creating that? No, but I do. My intent with the magazine is to fuel that desire and guide it toward a project where we have to use math to understand how trains work.

Then there’s my oldest. She wants to write stories, but really she wants her story to be heard. All of that sentence structure and paragraph formatting that she’s been trying to learn will finally find some value in her life, and now it will stick. Life has moved her to a place of needing to pay attention to how she writes if she wants her story to be understood.

Voila. The veil is lifted and education is hidden in every nook and cranny of our lives.

Today, instead of bailing on our lesson plans to find something more interesting than grammar, we stayed put and this is what we’ve learned so far.

A conversation with our kids:

OldestMe: Tell me one thing you’ve learned so far today.Her: Life or school?Me: School.Her: OK, I learned what gerund means.Me: What does it mean?Her: OK, I’ll give you a sentence. Running is difficult. Running is your gerund, a verb that functions as a noun. “Is” is your verb.Me: Holla!

Middle SonMe: Tell me one thing you’ve learned today.Him: That bonny means beautiful. I didn’t know that.Me: Cool! How would you use that in a sentence?Him: You have a very bonny dog.We both laugh hysterically.

Middle DaughterMe: Tell me one thing you’ve learned today.Her: Ummm, I learned today that I could take a quiz without looking back at my reading because I’ve memorized it.Me: Awesome! Can you tell me one of the words from it?Her: It’s true people didn’t know what was on the other side of the Atlantic Ocean.Me: OK, why didn’t they know that?Her: Because they didn’t have a globe, and they hadn’t sailed there yet.Me: Ok, so “globe” was one?Her: Yep!Me: Great job!

YoungestMe: Tell me one thing you learned today.Him: Well, today when I was learning about farming communities, there were two Indians who helped someone I forget and then they all landed in Massachusetts. Isn’t that weird? And that a yellow question mark on my computer is a symbol of grammar.Me: OK! Well, that’s great!

So my youngest and I have some work to do still today to put all those pieces together, but you see my point.

One thing I’ve learned today is that sometimes our children will surpass us when they learn words like “Gerund.” That was probably taught during one of my “sociable” times!

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One year after Dirk and Petra Wunderlich watched German officials seize their children, the family has vowed to stay in Germany and fight for the freedom to homeschool.

According to the Christian News Network, the couple regained legal custody of their kids in an appeals court decision last week, a right they lost last August when German officials snatched the four children for failing to send them to public school. Last September authorities returned physical custody to the parents but maintained legal custody.

Now, in a small victory, the appeals court ruled that it was wrong for a family court judge in the case to keep legal custody away from the parents; however, the court also maintained that the Wunderlichs were wrong for homeschooling, stating that home education endangers children.

After abandoning their original plan to flee to France, where homeschooling is legal, the Wunderlichs will now risk fines and incarceration by continuing to homeschool in Germany with the support of HSLDA, which has faithfully advocated for the family’s rights.

Homeschooling continues to rise in popularity, and experts are crediting the latest numbers to concerns about Common Core, the national standardization of education which was introduced for public schools approximately two years ago. Concerns about the public school environment and the state of the economy have also influenced growth, which has experienced a particularly high spike in North Carolina.

Over the past two years, the Tar Heel State has gained over 10,000 homeschooled students. According to reports, North Carolina now has 98,172 homeschoolers, marking the first time that North Carolina’s homeschool enrollment has surpassed the number in private schools. While the majority of students still attend public school, the number of home schools has increased 27% from two years ago.

Has your state or region experienced a spike in homeschooling since Common Core was introduced?

Remember when I mentioned that a perk of homeschooling was the flexibility? The ability to adjust when kids fall behind or when life happens and classes have to be put on hold to deal with the crisis at hand? We were able to experience this lovely phenomenon on DAY ONE this year. All of my beautiful plans to start school on Tuesday were put on hold when my family needed to put its focus elsewhere. After a small amount of panicking, I reminded myself that it was OK. We could pick up a day late, or even two days late if need be, and all would be well. And I kept reminding myself of this truth many, many times.

With that humbling lesson fresh in my mind, here are my goals for the start of this year:

1. Be flexible. There are going to be hiccups like we had this week and times when one of the kids isn’t getting anything from an assignment except frustration, and I need to try to spin the situation so it works for everyone.

2. Be attentive to their needs. Some of my kids work better with silence, and some need background noise. My girls like working for long periods of time to get everything done, while my boys zone out after about 20 minutes without any breaks. I am not going to always be able to accommodate everyone, but the most important thing is that I am willing.

3. Be patient. Some of my kids ask lots and lots of questions, not because they don’t know the answer but because they need the check-in with me that asking a question provides. Their anxiety spikes because this is all so new, and without the wherewithal to understand what’s going on inside them, they simply pellet me with repetitive questions until I catch on and spend some one-on-one time with them doing something silly to calm them down.

4. Don’t take it so seriously. There is a time and a place for everything, and school can’t always be serious. Our days need interventions of playfulness, color, engaging imagination, and fun. If learning is unattractive, it’s useless.

5. Practice Self Care. Really, this needs to be number one. If I’m running on empty come 8 a.m. because I haven’t spent time with God, eaten, or slept well and I’m overwhelmed with stress, I will be impatient, irritated, and reactive. I’m guilty of this more times than I’m comfortable with, and I always regret “pushing thorough.” On the days I foresee it going badly as they start peppering me with questions and bickering about someone’s speaker being too loud, I try to take a break. We utilize the many educational documentaries on Netflix or some sensory play. We scrap the lesson plan and bake something, or we grab a book and have a reading party somewhere cozy and quiet. The same goes for the kids. If they’ve been up all night because of nightmares or woke up panicky and irritable, I don’t push it. I try to give them the same care I need for myself in those times, and it usually smoothens the rough edges.

Benjamin Franklin said, “Tell me and I forget, teach me and I may remember, involve me and I learn.” May we, as teachers, find ways this year to involve our beautiful children as they learn the magnificent intricacies of God’s great big world.

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Add some smart children’s apps to your smartphone or tablet, but watch out – you may never get your gadget back! From math and mapping to coloring and composing, here are some of our favorite apps for homeschooling families.

Barefoot World Atlas $4.99 Ages 7-12Put the world at your children’s fingertips! Travel around the globe with this interactive app to discover fascinating facts about different cultures, animals, environments, landmarks, buildings, and more. By Touch Press.-Selected by Apple as one of the 10 best apps ever-Downloaded over four million times-“An immersive app that immediately invites exploration” -The New York Times

Crayola Lights, Camera, Color! Free Ages PreK-8Lights, Camera, Color! transforms the photos you take into coloring book pages for your child to enjoy. Embellish the pages with digital stickers, crayons, colored pencils, and markers, or print them out and color them by hand. Save the pages when they’re complete or share them via email or Facebook. By Griffin Technology.

Faces iMake – Right Brain Creativity $3.99 Ages 6-8Create collages using pictures of everyday objects and increase visual awareness and associations. Faces is an intuitive app for children with disabilities and a lot of imagination. By iMagine Machine LTD.-Top 10 Apps for Kids - iPad Apps for Kids-“…like nothing else in the App Store.” –applenapps.com

Freefall Spelling $1.99 Ages PreK-8This interactive, award-winning app includes three engaging activities to help children practice spelling: Letter Drag and Spell, Typewriter Spell, and Word Scramble. Choose from more than 150 built-in spelling words, or construct custom spelling lists by adding new words to the bank. By Merge Mobile.-A Parents’ Choice Recommended Award Winner-Ranked #1 Education App in U.S. on 10/8/13

Leo’s Pad: Preschool Kids Learning Series Free Ages 2-6Join a young Leonardo da Vinci, Madame Curie, and friends on adventures filled with exciting games that provide practice in color and shape recognition, problem solving, and self-control. Designed by Stanford University researchers and Emmy Award-winning animators, this app also features a Parent’s Pad to help you keep tabs on your youngster’s progress. By Kidaptive Inc.-5-star ratings from USA Today, Common Sense Media, and more-Winner of a 2013 Family Choice Award

Math Bingo $0.99 Ages 4-8Get a pattern of five BINGO Bugs in a row by correctly answering math problems about addition, subtraction, multiplication, division, or a mixture of all four genres. By ABCya.com.-Featured in The New York Times-Ranked #1 educational app for three consecutive weeks-Ranked a top 50 education app for over three years

Music4Kids $2.99 Ages 4 and UpTouch the screen to create and play notes, then rearrange them to compose your own melody with this intuitive app that teaches music basics, develops creativity, improves your ear, and challenges you with up to 140 musical recognition games. By Olivier Romanetti.-“Serious musicians will appreciate what kids learn about music through this app.” –bestappsforkids.com-“An intuitive and fun music exploration app. Five stars.” The iPhone App Review

Stack the States $0.99 Ages 7-12Test your knowledge of the U.S. with an interactive game that brings the states to life. As you learn state capitals, shapes, geographic locations, flags, and more, construct a stack of states that reaches the checkered line to win each level. By Freecloud Design. Inc.-Voted Best Kids App for iPad -Best App Ever Awards-Voted Best Educational Game App -iEAR.org

uKloo Free PreKBuild your youngster’s reading skills with this animated, seek-and-find literacy game. Complete with a picture helper, the app provides visual and audio prompts to help children look up unfamiliar words, grasp the basics of sentence structure, and develop initial research skills. By Smiley Guy Studios Inc.

Word Wizard - Talking Movable Alphabet & Spelling Tests for Kids $2.99 Ages 4-8.With advanced text-to-speech capabilities, this app lets learners hear the pronunciation of letters, words, and sentences as they drag and drop letters from the movable alphabet to form an unlimited number of original words and phrases. By L'Escapadou.-“Speak ‘N Spell for the iPad Generation” -The New York Times-Editor's Choice Award for Excellence in Design -Children's Technology Review

Even with an estimated 2 million homeschooled children in the U.S., a portion of the general public still does not grasp the quintessence of homeschooling. Misconceptions run the gamut, from beliefs that homeschoolers are super-pious crackpots or backwoods beatniks to elitist know-it-alls. Here are just a handful of myths that we would really like to see bite the dust.

1. Homeschooling takes place in isolation at home.

2. Parents without teaching degrees aren’t qualified to homeschool.

3. Homeschoolers are religious zealots or political hippies indoctrinating their kids with their personal agenda.

4. Non-homeschoolers: “I could never do it. I don’t have enough patience.”

5. Homeschoolers are backwards, naïve, and socially awkward.

6. All homeschool families have 15 kids and several assorted goats.

7. Homeschooling is expensive.

8. The children lie around and don’t learn anything.

9. You’re harming them, not helping them, and it must be an attack on all the teachers you’ve ever known.

10. Homeschooled kids are so sheltered that they won’t be able to handle the real world or make friends.

What would you add to the list? How do you respond when you hear a misconception about homeschooling?

The birthday boy or girl’s big day is just weeks away, and you’re still trying to extract a plausible party theme from your child. For Type A parents, especially, the pressure is suddenly on to come up with an idea that your child will like and that you can pull off practically, affordably, and creatively. You’d really rather not buy the same movie-themed decorations that dominated the last three parties your child attended, but what’s a mom to do when it comes down to the wire? No worries. If you’re so stuck for ideas that a Disney princess party is beginning to sound like happily ever after, check out our list of birthday party themes.

Airplane party – Fill your venue with vintage plane photos, model airplanes, and cotton ball clouds. Get an airplane-shaped cookie cutter and colorful icings so the guests can bake and decorate their own treats. Plus, hold a paper airplane contest. Bestow awards for the farthest flight and best-looking planes.

Baking party – Many cities have bakeries that host cupcake decorating parties, but you can easily pull off a DIY dessert or pizza party in your own kitchen. Give the kids “naked” cupcakes or pizza crusts, a wide variety of toppings, and the green light to get creative.

Building Block party – Decorations are a snap with this theme, as are treats. Go all out with primary-colored, interlocking brick decorations. Glue two rows of four plastic cups to the top of a rectangular cardboard box and paint it, or bake a block-shaped cake or cookies. Pass out equal baggies of building blocks to teams and hold a construction contest. Like the blocks themselves, the possibilities here are endless.

Drive-in Movie party – If you have the construction skills and a small guest list, build cardboard cars with personalized cardstock license plates. Rent a projector and a big screen, line the cars in front, and serve popcorn and cake at the car doors. Alternatively, make parking spaces in your living room with masking tape and invite the kids to use their imaginations.

Fairy Princess party – Bake star-shaped sugar cookies around chopsticks and let the guests decorate their own wands with frosting, food coloring, and sprinkles. Make tabletop decorations and treats out of cotton candy, marshmallows, and other tasty sweets, and let the guests craft their own wings out of netting, tissue paper, and craft wire.

Food Network party – After passing out aprons, oven mitts, and safety instructions, turn the kids loose in the kitchen while you supervise. Break them into teams, give them a simple recipe, and let them compete for the tastiest and best-looking finished product. Ask the other parents and relatives to judge.

Game Show party – Transform your den into a TV set and team up the guests for a live, game show-inspired competition. Get as creative as you’d like, but to keep it simple, play Minute to Win It, Name That Tune, or Let’s Make a Deal.

Give Back party – Hold a box-packing party at your local food pantry. Make it fun by challenging teams of guests to race to fill the most boxes. Encourage the birthday child to donate presents to a children’s hospital or shelter (an especially good idea if the child is already well stocked in the toy department). You can even put a note on the invites asking kids to bring gifts to donate, and take the party on a field trip to pass out the presents.

Mad Scientist party – Cool science experiments rule at this party, and Pinterest is packed with ideas. For your cake, build a volcano out of stacked cupcakes, using crushed chocolate cookies for the ashes and red and orange food coloring for the lava. Serve blue or green punch in plastic beakers, and decorate with robot decor.

Old-Fashioned Tea party – Charm your guests with vintage illustrations, fabrics, and china (if age-appropriate). Invite the children to dress up in pearls, hats, gloves, and bow ties, or go thrifting and have a variety of dress-up clothing on hand. Substitute apple juice for the non-tea drinkers, serve dainty treats and taffies, and have fun lifting pinky fingers and curtsying.

Outdoor Adventure party – Go geocaching, camping, or take a nature hike that includes an outdoor scavenger hunt. If you like to get crafty, paint or stencil small bird feeders, flower pots, water bottles, or even rocks you find on your hike. For dinner, grill out or go on a picnic to enjoy the cake and party refreshments.

Pop Star party – Rent a karaoke machine or buy a karaoke DVD and turn your living room into a concert arena. Encourage the kids to dress like rock stars, and make tickets for invitations. Or get literal with the theme, and spring for popcorn, popsicles, lollipops, and pop beads. (For youngsters, you’ll probably want to hold back the soda pop).

Rainbow party – Explore colors with painting, finger-painting, colored water mixing, or splatter painting. Decorate with different colored streamers, plates, napkins, and so on. For dessert, make a rainbow-shaped cake or frost cupcakes in every color and arrange them in an arc.

Spa party – Purchase an array of fruity masks for facials and nail polish colors for manicures and pedicures. Don’t forget the cotton balls to put between the guests’ toes and the cucumber slices for their eyelids. Play relaxing music and serve fresh fruit as you enjoy the day.

Superhero party – There’s no need to buy an expensive, mass-produced costume when you can re-purpose sweat suits and rain boots, turn a pillowcase into a cape, and make a mask out of stiff felt and elastic. Invite the guests to dress as their favorite superheroes, and entertain them with superhero-themed games.

Tie-Dye party – Get packs of white T-shirts or hair bows, several shades of dye, and let the guests take turns making their own crazy designs. Tie-dye kits are available in stores, and at-home tie-dying instructions are readily available on the Internet.

Scavenger Hunt party – Split into two or more teams, and give each team a list of hidden items, clues, a map to keep them in bounds, and a two-hour time limit. Assign each hidden item a different point value, and the team that brings in the most points wins. Not only is it a lot of fun, but this party also requires no decorations. You may choose to have fun with the invites by designing them to look like a magnifying glass or a map.

Water Fight party – Best for summer parties, unless your climate is warm year-round, invite the guests to bring their bathing suits and head outdoors with a good stock of filled water balloons. (The balloons and instrument that fills them are available as a kit in most big retail stores during the warm months). Your guests will have a blast bombarding each other with water balloons, and you can even organize a dodgeball-style competition by dividing into teams with an equal number of balloons.

What about Planning Your Child’s Party?Now that the birthday boy or girl’s big day has arrived, you’ve got to keep it all together. But keeping track of exuberant kiddos, cake and snacks, games, decorations, and anything else on your agenda requires a little talent in the multi-tasking department. Unless you splurged on a party planner or stayed up all night blowing up balloons and browsing party planning blogs, you could probably use a checklist of things to remember. To stay organized, consider printing a copy of this list and crossing off tasks as you complete them.

1. Budget – Set one immediately, because it will determine what type of event you hold.

2. Home or away – Now that you know how much you’re willing to spend, decide whether to have the party at home or another venue. Don’t forget to consult the birthday child, too.

3. Book early – If you’re reserving a location or entertainment, do it early, because the best ones will be spoken for well in advance.

4. Guests – When you’re considering how many, think about your budget and your location. Don’t forget that parents often stick around at parties for younger children.

5. Invitations – Send out invites three to four weeks before the event.

Snowboarding sensation Sage Kotsenburgisn’t the only Alpha Omega Academy graduate who generated headlines in 2014, nor is he the only one we can expect to see at the next Olympics.

Recently named the top-ranked junior female epee fencer in the United States, 18-year-old Amanda Sirico has publicly proclaimed her intent to qualify for the 2016 Summer Olympics fencing team.

In her final season before heading to college, the former homeschooler competed in world cups in France, Germany, Spain, Qatar, Brazil, Cuba, and Costa Rica. She also ranked fifth on the senior circuit in the U.S.

The Bowie, Maryland, native has been fencing since childhood. She enrolled at AOA to divide her time between academics and training.

“Fencing led me to look into Alpha Omega Academy’s program, and research into the school's program and values led me to enroll,” Sirico said. “AOA has definitely helped me in achieving my goals both academically and athletically.”

Sirico isn’t the only AOA grad who is number one in her field. Currently at the top in the country/pop genre on ReverbNation, Nashville recording artist and former Radio Disney star Celeste Kellogg could very well become the next famous face among the AOA alumni.

With a voice that’s been compared to Shania Twain’s, Kellogg is one of several popular, millennial musicians on the Allstar Nation Tour, a peer-to-peer anti-bullying music campaign that will hit over 100 Texas schools beginning this month.

“Anything I can personally do to help others gives me a sense of accomplishment that I am helping change lives in a positive way,” Kellogg said.

The 20-year-old knew she would be a singer as a child performing in the church choir. At age 12, she landed a spot in Radio Disney’s tween pop group RD7, and in 2009, Kellogg switched from public school to AOA. Homeschooling allowed her to tour and tackle projects like the 2010 film No Limit Kids: Much Ado about Middle School, in which she starred and sang on the soundtrack.

“With my singing career, I started traveling all the time. With the travel I missed a lot of my freshman year in public school,” said Kellogg, who received the academy’s student of the month award in November 2011. “The two traits that I enjoy most about AOA are how you can do school anywhere and that the teachers are so helpful.”

More about the Grads-Sage Kotsenburg won the first-ever Olympic gold medal in men’s snowboard slopestyle at the 2014 Winter Olympics in Sochi, Russia. He graduated from AOA in 2011.

-Amanda Sirico plans to study anthropology at the University of Notre Dame, where she will also compete on the varsity fencing team. The Fighting Irish were ranked fourth nationally at the conclusion of the 2013-2014 fencing season. Amanda graduated from AOA in 2014.

-Celeste Kellogg begins touring with the Allstar Nation Tour this month. She has released an EP, “Broken Record,” and a single, “The Look.” Celeste graduated from AOA in 2012.

Sometimes life takes us in the most unlikely of places, places where you are sitting with your family wondering, “How did this happen?” That was the thought running laps in my mind in June as I sat in the back row of a church in Springdale, Arkansas, batting away a toy cell phone from my son, as we watched Jim Bob Duggar walk his daughter, Jill, down the aisle to marry Derick Dillard.

Since the Duggar family uses AOP's curriculum, they were gracious enough to invite someone from the company to attend the wedding, and I was picked. It was all very exciting. I wanted to take pictures to show everyone back home, but there was a very strict “No Photography/No Social Media” rule, which is why I panicked when my son brought out his toy phone to pretend to take pictures. I was not about to be escorted out of the Duggar wedding on account of a toy cell phone and a fidgety 8-year-old boy.

The wedding was beautiful, as weddings usually are. From the lighted backdrop to the intimate music, every detail was planned exquisitely. But we couldn’t help but notice several nuances about the Duggar wedding that made it extra special.For starters, despite the fact that there were over a thousand people in attendance, the wedding didn’t seem influenced by the publicity at all. Jim Bob was at the entrance greeting people as we walked in with a microphone looming over his head. We missed the chance to shake his hand because he was busy talking to another guest, but my daughter is convinced she got on camera (little girl, bright yellow dress, wide eyes, and a smile from ear to ear). The camera crew worked its way around the family as if they were an extension of it.

I expected more show. More lights, camera, and action. Instead, I was privileged to see a glimpse of what makes the Duggar family so special. The family was all around, shaking hands, talking with friends, and welcoming guests. It was obvious the kids felt completely at home in this church, bouncing in and out of rooms, roaming the hallways, and switching seats to get hugs from familiar church members. There was a freedom in their spirits and that rare kind of security you can see in a person from the first time you meet them.

Jim Bob’s emotions were evident as he walked his first daughter down the aisle. I watched a video of Jim Bob being interviewed prior to the wedding, saying how he’d watched her pack up her belongings and reminisced about her growing up. I imagine he was recalling those childhood memories with every step, eventually giving her hand to Derick and backing away to take his seat next to Michelle.

I loved the wedding and, of course, felt privileged to be invited, but more than anything, I loved seeing how a Christ-centered home can flourish with love and affection, even when that family is being followed around by a 10-person camera crew.

Alpha Omega Publications congratulates the Duggar family on the season 9 premiere of their popular show 19 Kids & Counting, which airs tonight, September 2, on TLC at 8 p.m. (CT).

Love is in the air for our favorite supersized homeschool family. 19 Kids & Counting fans who have been eagerly awaiting the first Duggar daughter’s wedding will get their wish when Jill Duggar walks down the aisle in the season premiere. And if a fairytale wedding featuring Jill and Derick Dillard’s first kiss isn’t enough reason to watch, we’ll also see Jessa Duggar’s beau, Ben Seewald, ask for her hand in marriage.

Jill and Derick also made headlines last month with the announcement they’re expecting their first child. Michelle and Jim Bob’s fourth grandchild is due in March 2015.

Throughout the upcoming season and beyond, Alpha Omega Publications is the Duggar family’s choice for quality homeschool curriculum. Just as the Duggars stand apart through their commitment to Christ and their children’s education, AOP goes beyond the ordinary, from our passion for homeschooling and variety of curriculum to our foundation in faith and tradition of excellence.

At the Dalton household, we are set to start school after Labor Day. The kids are soaking up their last days of sleeping in and wearing their PJ’s all day as we putter around the house. When people find out we homeschool, they almost always ask is if we sleep in. We do not. We still wake up fairly early (though not as early as we would if they went to school), get dressed, have morning chores, and eat breakfast together.

When we first began schooling at home, I read about the importance of unschooling when you’re transitioning a child from traditional school, so our days were much more lax than they are now. It worked for a while, but it stopped when I actually needed their attention. Over time, our days have become more and more structured, and that is what works best for us.

It’s funny what you learn you need over time. One of my biggest preparations for the year was accumulating activities for the kids to do in those times they have questions but I’m working with their sibling on something. Teaching multiple children is difficult. Sometimes, I feel like my day is spent nodding my head back and forth between the kids like a spectator at a tennis match. “Mom, can you help me with this?” “Mom! I don’t know what to do with this number!” “Mom, what’s perfunctory mean?” “Hey, Mom. Mom??? Mommmmmmmmm!”

Not to mention, each kid has a unique learning style, right? Isn’t that what homeschooling moms remind each other when we’re stressed because something that’s worked so well for Billy isn’t working for Mary? It’s kind of like running several companies. There’s so much to learn about the needs of each one—what produces growth, what stops it.

I spoke with our therapist in depth several weeks ago about what an ideal school setting would look like for kids with needs like ours. He said the most successful routines he had seen were predictable, attentive, and out of the house as much as possible. So we stay busy, and we’re planning on using more extracurricular services and activities. The kids attend occupational therapy. Some have horse riding lessons, and some take swimming, gymnastics, dance, and music lessons. One of our computers is a laptop, and we take that with us during our outings in case some lessons didn’t get finished at home.

This year, my three younger children are using Monarch, and my oldest is using Alpha Omega Academy. To incorporate the switch to a mostly online education, we set up a new homeschool space.

We went back and forth about where we’d set up our space because we just moved in a month ago and the layout in this house is odd. We didn’t want to use our only living space, so we opted instead for the extra-long dining room. On one end is our dining room table and the other was an empty space the kids wanted to use for dancing/jumping/sword fighting, but alas, Mom won. Homeschool space it is!

I intentionally set up the space long before school would start, so the kids had a chance to use it as a recreational space. This way, there’s less anxiety about school. I’ve been planting seeds, so to speak, about what we can look forward to for the school year. My oldest son is excited about a terrarium project to study ecosystems for science, and my youngest daughter is beyond thrilled she will get to do school on a computer (pushing buttons is her love language). More than anything, I want our kids to associate learning with joy and exploration.

“If we can awaken,” I read in an online version of The Homiletic Review magazine from 1918, “in any man a genuine love for truth and a desire to know truth, and can send him out in the search after truth so that he begins to really think for himself and comes to you with questions and honest doubts, looking for light, rest assured whether this man has raised his hands for prayers or not, you are literally helping God in the awakening of his soul and the arousing of his mind; you have started this man on the quest for truth, which is nothing less the great quest for God, for God is truth…”

At the start of another school year, that’s a comforting reminder, isn’t it? We don’t have to do everything, teach everything, purchase everything. We simply have the privilege to awaken.

What’s your homeschool space like? We’d love to see it! Be sure to share it on social media. Tag us and use #UncommonHomeschooling

Take the long Labor Day weekend ahead to seek ways to honor our military members overseas and their families on the home front. Here are a few ways to celebrate the Army, Navy, Marine Corps, Air Force, and Coast Guard members and veterans who served their country in times of war and peace.

1. Send “I Care” packages to military members overseas and their families here in the state. Everyday items like power bars, dry Gatorade®, and magazines in English aren’t always available overseas and can be a blessing to a deployed troop. Sending “reverse” packages to a military member’s family is another great way to serve, especially on holidays, birthdays, and other special days when the deployed person’s absence is felt most keenly. Consider starting a committee at your church to head the effort, or make it your own family’s tradition of service.

2. Fly the flag. Consult the U.S. Flag Code to make sure you display your flag correctly this weekend.

3. Pray. Select a few Scripture verses you can pray over to uplift our troops, such as:

“Strengthen ye the weak hands, and confirm the feeble knees. Say to them that are of a fearful heart, Be strong, fear not: behold, your God will come with vengeance, even God with a recompence; he will come and save you” (Isaiah 35:3-4).

“Peace I leave with you, my peace I give unto you: not as the world giveth, give I unto you. Let not your heart be troubled, neither let it be afraid” (John 14:27).

“Have not I commanded thee? Be strong and of a good courage; be not afraid, neither be thou dismayed: for the LORD thy God is with thee whithersoever thou goest” (Joshua 1:9).

It’s my understanding that there are people who are going to make harsh judgments in every area of life. Homeschooling, by no means, is exempt. I have been to the support groups, scrolled through the forums, and poured over the comments, and I have witnessed conversations between parents that I bet they’d be ashamed of their children for having. I’m not surprised. The decisions we make concerning our children make us so nervous that sometimes it feels necessary to criticize someone else's choice so we can feel safer about our own.

Friends, this is scary stuff. We just need to own it.

Hi. My name is Brittney, and I am scared to homeschool my children. And I was scared when we didn’t homeschool my children. When we sent them to public school, I was scared. When we sent them to private school, I was scared. This decision to homeschool does not alleviate the fears I have about how they will grow up. It just lessons the amount of people I can blame if it turns out badly.

The last thing we need to do is turn on each other because beneath the details, we’re all in the same boat. We’re doing the best we can with what we have right now.

Call me non-confrontational, but this won’t be a place that tolerates that sort of negativity. If someone is considering pulling their child out of school, I want that person to know this is a place where we will offer our support. If someone is considering putting their child in school for any reason at all, I want that person to know this is a place where we will offer our support. The Internet is vast. If you desire a space where you can feel free to judge, criticize, or be cruel in the anonymity of a comment box, you will find it.

Here we encourage, we uplift, and above all, we listen.

In the writing world, there is a great quote by Anne Lamott that is just as applicable here: “Write what you’d love to come upon.” I would love to come up on a growing, engaging community of people bound together by this extraordinary task of parenthood who have chosen to take on the audacious task of homeschooling, not because it’s right, but becauseit’s right for them. I would love a place where questions are asked without threat of judgment. I would love a place that rises above diminutive differences to find commonality and build community.

At AOP, our mission is to “educate, inspire, and change lives.” Likewise, our mission in starting this blog is to inspire each other as we live out what we feel called to do. We want to hear from you. Talk to us. Tell us what inspires you.

I never intended to homeschool. All I remember is a blur of meetings with my children’s teachers and principal, researching their learning disabilities, and the unsettling enlightenment of how difficult it was going to be to have our children’s needs met in a school setting.

When we adopted our first three children, we had no idea what we were getting ourselves into. The social worker commented on them being “surprisingly unaffected,” and while I knew that no child in foster care could be “unaffected,” I assumed what she meant was, “They’re ok, and we can do this.” We weren’t given their medical history or any analysis until several weeks in, but by then we had already started noticing that there was something off with the children. Had we fully understood the years of trauma and the ramifications of being born drug and alcohol affected, I can’t imagine we would have thought ourselves capable of being their parents.

Every day we were getting notes sent home about their behavior at school. My youngest was raging, my middle child was highly destructive and she could not keep up (though she was in a grade far below what was appropriate for her age), and my oldest was checked out and socially isolated the entirety of his school day. The teachers were frustrated and wanted me to do something about the disruptions they were causing. I didn’t know my rights or my children’s rights, so I initially approached these meetings as if I was inferior to the teachers.

What I wanted was to bring them home. They had just been adopted after having three placements in their year spent in foster care. They had yet to experience any kind of stability. Someone mentioned to me that I could bring my youngest home since he was only four, but that I couldn’t homeschool my older two until their adoptions were finalized. I wasn’t referring to homeschool when I mentioned wanting them home. I knew that was way out of my league. I just meant I wanted them to be able to have some peace, and school was obviously exasperating their trauma. They weren’t learning anything, yet they were still being passed through, labeled instead of serviced.

We did bring home our youngest and saw immediate change in him. Three months later, he no longer qualified for the mental retardation diagnosis he came to us with. It was like the lights in his brain turned on and he was able to roam about.

That process taught me the most valuable homeschooling lesson: Place your child in the position to learn, and they will. Meet their needs, and children want to learn.

Six months later, we were able to bring home our other children, and by this time we had adopted an older sister of theirs who would eventually be homeschooled as well.

In our foster care training classes, one of the many documents we filled out was one where we needed to answer the desired age, sex, race, quantity, and whether we would take special needs children. While we knew for years that we wanted to adopt, we never could reconcile the specifics of how we would do it. We left the paper blank, and we now have a sibling group of four mixed-race, special needs children—two girls and two boys. We were desperate. We took the road less traveled, and we placed ourselves in the position of desperately needing God to lay out for us how we are going to do this life every day.

It’s been a motley mix of rising to impossible challenges and relishing the rewards.

The human body’s need for sleep has always amazed me. God has designed us to literally turn off like a machine for eight hours or more each night. Science tells us sleep is something our bodies need to do. It is not an option. During our sleeping hours, some parts of the brain actually increase their activity dramatically, and certain hormones are produced by many of the body’s major organs and regulatory systems that continue to work.

Unfortunately, as a young homeschooling mom, I was missing out on my much needed sleep. I struggled with daily worries and anxious thoughts like “Will my children turn out okay if I homeschool? How can I teach a subject I don’t even know? How will we pay the bills if I homeschool?” Household chores were also keeping me up late into the night, and I was exhausted as I tried to do too much.

Then one night, I read a promise God seemed to write just to me: “It is vain for you to rise up early, to sit up late, to eat the bread of sorrows: for so he giveth his beloved sleep” (Psalm 127:2). What an eye-opener! God only had so much for me to do each day, and what was left undone was not important. All He asked of me was to pray for wisdom to accomplish His perfect will each day. His provision to meet my unfinished tasks would come by sending extra help, inspiring new ways to organize, or miraculously providing whatever I needed.

After that day, my life changed. I was able to lay my head on my pillow each night and not worry about the basket of laundry waiting to be folded or the unfinished lesson plans for tomorrow’s schoolwork.

When was the last time you had a good night’s sleep? Do you struggle with trying to do more than God intended? Bringing your homeschooling worries to the Lord means trusting Him for wisdom and provision for all your needs. Will you rest in Him tonight and experience the peaceful sleep He intended? “Take therefore no thought for the morrow: for the morrow shall take thought for the things of itself” (Matthew 6:34a).Father, forgive me for not getting the rest I need. Help me to trust You with homeschooling my children, so we accomplish what needs to be done each day. In Jesus’ name, Amen.]]>Wed, 20 Aug 2014 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/thank-god-for-laundry/
“What is most important and valuable about the home as a base for children's growth into the world is not that it is a better school than the schools, but that it isn't a school at all.”- John Holt

The ultimate joy of educating your child at home is in the infinite flexibility. There are days my husband and I tag team, there are days we toil over book work until 3 p.m., and there are days we decide to head to the garden to see how our tomatoes are growing or pull all the kale eaten up by the flea beetles and then go inside to watch a documentary on sustainable living. Try as I may, I cannot discount one day of learning at home as unsuccessful.

When I first began, my primary fear was that they would not learn enough. I had been told several times throughout my life that I should pursue teaching because I love kids, but I shot it down every time. I knew I never wanted to be a teacher. The idea of being responsible for someone else’s education sounded as far-fetched as being asked to perform open heart surgery. The potential consequences are dire, aren’t they? When we make the decision to educate our own child, we are literally proclaiming that we can do it without the help, the services, the regulations, and the resources that the local school already has. I kept getting visions of my future adult children standing before me—dull, dumb, and illiterate—dragging me into their therapy session to ask why I made such a horrible decision.

All of our kids are adopted, and our youngest was the only one we were legally permitted to homeschool prior to their adoptions being finalized because he was under the mandatory school age. Our days were initially very simple. He’d spent four years amidst abuse and neglect, so our interactions were limited to a short list of things I could get him to do: roll a car back and forth on the table, vacuum, and help me with the laundry. One day after closing the door of our front loading washing machine, he asked if he could sit in front of it and watch the clothes spin. I, of course, indulged him, and he sat and watched the entire 47 minutes, asking questions like, “Where do the bubbles come from? Why do we wash clothes? How much longer?”

Right there, at our washer and dryer, in a simple conversation about how soap works, what germs were, and how to read a digital timer, we both started learning. That was the moment I realized that homeschooling wasn’t about math or language arts, but about questions. Life is packed full of questions, like a quarry waiting to be mined for knowledge and inspiration.

Thank God for laundry!

That was almost four years ago, and a lot has changed since then. After several months of being home with me, our youngest no longer qualified for his mental retardation diagnosis. All four of our children have made great strides academically, emotionally, and relationally, just as I have made in learning what and how children need to learn. Still, our children have some delays and disabilities that I occasionally get hung up on. I panic about whether or not I will be able to navigate their lingering emotional trauma or maneuver around their brain damage. After all, I am a mom, and I feel it’s my job to be worried I am not doing enough. At the same time, I have learned how to take care of myself in those times through stopping and looking at how far they’ve come, asking God for a reality check, and talking to other homeschooling parents who have the exact same insecurity.

For my husband and me, homeschooling was the most unlikely road to take, until we became parents and saw a need in our children greater than any school could meet. That was the catalyst of a life where anything is possible. Because we have freedom to be flexible in our homeschool, their disabilities are a non-issue. Because we homeschool, we’ve witnessed great strengths to nurture in our children beyond the common core. Because we homeschool, we don’t have to convince anyone to care for our child like we would.

Now, homeschooling excites me more than it scares me. Sure, there are days when I’m tired and overwhelmed, but the good far outweighs the hard, and I know I’m extremely blessed. We’ve acquired a rhythm of learning, playing, and resting, and after four grueling years of building a homeschooling foundation for our family, I want to have a space where homeschool parents can come together and share their experiences.

One of the most exciting parts of homeschooling is the diversity in families, styles, and dynamics. It may feel comfortable to collaborate only with people who do things just as we do, but we thrive in situations where we explore. Isn’t that what we’re helping our children to see? Go out and discover. Wrestle and grow. Live and learn.

Welcome, new friends, to that space. Pull up a chair and tell us about yourself. It is so good to be here with you.

I’ll never forget the day my son declared his future marriage intentions. As we sat in church Sunday morning waiting for the service to begin, a new family filed in and sat in the pew opposite ours. For the next several minutes, I watched as my son observed the youngest female member of their family—a vibrant, freckle-faced redhead with a smile that went from ear to ear. Just as the pastor stood up to announce the first hymn, my son pulled on my sleeve and nodded toward the crimson-haired beauty. With all the earnestness a six-year-old could muster, he proclaimed, “Mommy, someday I’m going to marry a girl just like that!”

Although my young son’s innocence made me smile, I was convicted that day to begin praying for my children’s future spouses. With the world’s philosophy quickly redefining marriage, I realized fewer young people were willing to honor the spiritual truths of Hebrews 13:4a, “Marriage is honourable in all, and the bed undefiled.” If marriage was God’s will for my children’s future, I needed to be on my knees in prayer for them. Like Abraham’s concern for Isaac, I knew God desired my children to be yoked equally to another believer (2 Corinthians 6:14).

As a Christian homeschooling parent, what are you teaching your children about marriage? Are you displaying a godly role model and encouraging them to follow the Lord as they wait on His will and timing for a future mate? Six-year-old boys and girls grow up, and they’ll be looking to you for guidance and wisdom. Teach them what God says about true love in His Word, so they can make the right decision that lasts a lifetime. “Charity never faileth” (1 Corinthians 13:8a).

Father, as I homeschool my children today, their marriage and future adult responsibilities seem so far away. Help me to prepare them for life, not only with academics, but also with a clear understanding of Your truths and will for their lives. In Jesus’ name, Amen.]]>Tue, 19 Aug 2014 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/too-many-loads/
“Cast thy burden upon the Lord, and he shall sustain thee: he shall never suffer the righteous to be moved” (Psalm 55:22).

Does your burden seem heavy today? Too many loads of laundry, too many ungraded papers, half-finished art projects, or birthday cards left unwritten? Sometimes we are overwhelmed with all that has to be done as a homeschooling parent.

God sees and knows your burdens. He cares and will provide the strength you need to face each day’s tasks. Matthew 11:28 tells us, “Come unto me, all ye that labour and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest.” Just when you think you can’t do another thing, trust God to send help in the most unexpected way. Homeschooling forces us parents into knowing that it is not by might, nor by power, but by His Spirit that we are able to love and teach the children He has given us. Take heart and know that He will never leave you nor forsake you. After all, these are His children, and He will keep His promise to lift every burden you have.

Lord, I feel so tired. Please, fill me with Your strength to make it through today. Thank You for Your promises and not giving me more than what I can bear. Please, send the help I need to face all the tasks before me. In Jesus’ name, Amen.]]>Mon, 18 Aug 2014 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/homeschool-stereotypes/
“Be not overcome of evil, but overcome evil with good” (Romans 12:21).

As a homeschooling parent, you likely know the frustration of being stereotyped. Unfairly, mainstream America has deemed us unfashionable, overly protective, dogmatically religious, and socially backwards. Like other stereotypes that develop from negative assumptions, homeschooling parents suffer from unjust labels with unfounded perceptions of their true character. Added to this misconception is the fact that homeschooled children are also stereotyped.

Breaking loose from these hurtful stereotypes is difficult, but as Christian homeschooling families, we can change how the world views us. Instead of becoming defensive and argumentative when homeschooling adversaries slander our name, we can show God’s love through our Christ-like character and actions. Whether we’re shopping at the mall, attending a community event, or eating at a restaurant, we can erase incorrect images with courtesy, respect, and genuine concern for others. In addition, godly homeschoolers can best illustrate one reason for teaching our own children by displaying a servant’s heart that looks for ways to help others in need. Christ Himself said it best in the Sermon on the Mount: “Bless them that curse you, do good to them that hate you, and pray for them which despitefully use you, and persecute you” (Matthew 5:44b).

Do you struggle with vengeful thoughts when others look down on you for homeschooling? Don’t let the homeschool stereotype discourage you. Prove those labels wrong and respond to the negative remarks with the love of Christ. After all, isn’t that the most important message we’re trying to teach our children as we homeschool? “For consider him that endured such contradiction of sinners against himself, lest ye be wearied and faint in your minds” (Hebrews 12:3).

Lord, forgive my anger when others make fun of us for homeschooling. Help me to tell them of homeschooling’s blessings and show the same love You did when mankind mocked and ridiculed You. In Jesus’ name, Amen.]]>Sun, 17 Aug 2014 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/less-than-the-best/
When your children turn in assignments that reflect less than their best effort, what do you do as a homeschooling parent? I can recall a specific instance when my teenage son had, once again, turned in less than his best. Although I could have graded his paper accordingly, his halfhearted efforts were simply not acceptable this time. Scanning his poorly written essay, I asked, “Do you really think this is your best effort?”

“Yeah, I suppose so,” he responded quickly, trying to avoid any further discussion.

Not letting him off the hook, I replied, “You’ve had plenty of time to prepare, and I think we both know you can do better. I want you to study Leviticus 22:17-33 and rewrite this assignment by tomorrow.”

Shuffling out the door, I heard him sigh and mumble, “Okay.”

My children aren’t the only ones who suffered from the temptation to give less than their best. During Old Testament times, God’s people also succumbed to the temptation to offer blemished animals for their sacrifices (Malachi 1:14). God’s requirement to bring a spotless sheep, cow, or goat as an offering for sin was being ignored. Accepting an animal that was less than perfect was not permitted by the Lord (Leviticus 22:20). Today, God’s requirement of giving our best is still the same. He isn’t interested in our halfhearted efforts, and His holiness demands the best we have as we worship and offer ourselves as a living sacrifice.

What about you? Are you giving the Lord the best part of your day in prayer and Bible study, or do you say a few quick “thank-you’s” before you fall asleep at the end of a busy homeschooling day? Do you trade sleeping in and watching TV evangelists for the effort required to become involved in a local church on Sunday morning? Do you give what’s left of your paycheck instead of tithing from the top? Like my teenage son, it’s time to write a new story with your life and start giving the Lord your best! “I beseech you therefore, brethren, by the mercies of God, that ye present your bodies a living sacrifice, holy, acceptable unto God, which is your reasonable service” (Romans 12:1).

Father, You are holy, and I humbly bow before You today. Forgive me for offering my “seconds” and still expecting You to bless my life. Take me and change my heart, so it is wholly committed to You in all I do. In the name of Jesus, Amen.]]>Sat, 16 Aug 2014 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/security-blankets/
“For thou, LORD, only makest me dwell in safety” (Psalm 4:8b).

What makes you feel safe? Is it a clean bill of health from the doctor, a well-stocked pantry in the kitchen, or a large balance in your checking account? We all have things that make us feel protected, but life can throw you a curve. In just a moment, everything can change.

Homeschooling in the early 1980s was a challenging experience. When our family chose to venture into this unconventional form of education, we faced many adversaries. Accusing us of truancy and threatening to take our children away, our local public school superintendent was our worst enemy. Foolishly, we had thought we were safe to teach our children at home because so many hard-fought homeschooling laws had been passed. However, since the language in these laws was unclear, we found ourselves between the proverbial rock and a hard place. We were forced to our knees in prayer.

In the midst of the turmoil, God reminded us He was our security blanket. As Moses was allowed to see the glory of God pass by in the cleft of the rock (Exodus 33:21-22), God proved Himself mighty and showed us His glory by providing a way to homeschool. One of two schools registered in our state to have homeschool satellite programs accepted our children into their program. This provision was our Red Sea experience and the beginning of a journey to the Promised Land of four successfully educated children.

What about you? Are you facing a personal challenge in your life that seems insurmountable—a lack of money, a broken relationship, or a wayward child? Are there voices and circumstances surrounding you that are causing you to fear? God is your refuge! Run to Him and be safe. “The name of the LORD is a strong tower: the righteous runneth into it, and is safe” (Proverbs 18:10).

Father, I’m scared. I don’t know how this problem is going to be resolved. Please, keep me safe and wrap Your loving arms around me. Show me Your deliverance and give me the faith to trust in You for the answer. In Jesus’ name, Amen.]]>Fri, 15 Aug 2014 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/great-aspirations/
“Faithful is he that calleth you, who also will do it” (1 Thessalonians 5:24).

Have you ever wanted to do something great for God? You know, something great like being a gifted Bible teacher, a talented Christian singer, or an inspirational evangelist? I did, but as a young mother living in a remote rural area with two small children and one on the way, I couldn’t imagine how. I wanted my life to count for God, but for the most part, no one knew I even existed. Our single income left our family with one vehicle for my husband’s use in getting to work. I was isolated and made irregular trips into town for groceries, library books, and church activities. Most of my days were consumed with simply homeschooling, cleaning house, and caring for my family. “Not much opportunity to do great things for God,” I thought to myself as I prepared for another homeschooling day after my morning devotions.

As the years went on and I studied the Scriptures more in-depth, I noticed an amazing fact. More often than not, God used the ordinary lives of men and women to accomplish His will. Mary, the mother of Jesus, was just an average, obedient teenager. Ruth, the great-grandmother of David, was a hardworking daughter-in-law, and Gideon, one of Israel’s greatest judges, was the least in his father’s house. Even several of the disciples were simple fishermen with humble beginnings. Like mine, all these lives were insignificant and obscure, but God used them in miraculous ways to do great things.

Are you wondering if your life would have more meaning if you gave up homeschooling to pursue something more worthy for the Lord? Don’t let Satan deceive you with his lies. Although you may feel like your life is mundane and serving no purpose, God is giving you the greatest opportunity to impact the world right where you are! As you faithfully homeschool your children, their lives will be forever changed by the truths of God’s Word, and great things will happen as countless others come to know the Lord through their future witness. “Humble yourselves therefore under the mighty hand of God, that he may exalt you in due time” (1 Peter 5:6).

Father, only You can take the ordinary and make it extraordinary. Take my life and our homeschooling and use them however they will give You the most glory. In Jesus’ name, Amen.]]>Thu, 14 Aug 2014 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/over-the-edge/
All of us start homeschooling for a particular reason—some defining catalyst that throws us over the homeschooling fence. Some homeschoolers make the decision to teach their children due to a negative experience with public school. Prompted into action by their children’s negative attitudes and personality shifts, these parents are concerned about meager instruction, the absence of godly curriculum, or a threat to their child’s safety.

Other homeschoolers like me began teaching because of a deep conviction that God had a different plan for their family. I firmly believed in Christian education, but cost factors, doctrinal differences, and maintaining family closeness eliminated a Christian school option. I knew God wanted me to teach academics and spiritual truths according to His Word, so homeschooling was our best choice. What I discovered was the thrill of learning right along with my children. Math, history, science, geography, language, and other subjects all took on a new dimension when the Lord was in the lesson.

If you feel the Lord leading you to homeschool, stop sitting on the fence. Homeschooling is a rewarding career. Homeschool websites, curriculum fairs, and support groups are just waiting to help you get started. May the words in Joshua 24:15 guide you in your choice: “But as for me and my house, we will serve the LORD.”Lord, I accept Your leading to homeschool and ask You to send the help I need. Please, clearly show me how to prepare our children to live a life that glorifies You. In Jesus’ name, Amen.]]>Wed, 13 Aug 2014 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/mission-impossible/
Have you been weighing the pros and cons of homeschooling and trying to decide what to do this year for your children's education? Although the idea of schooling your children at home seems like a daunting task, you can successfully teach them. Planning schedules, purchasing curriculum, and making lesson plans may sound foreign to you right now, but God will help you if you simply pray and ask for His leading. Not only will He send the encouragement and support you need from homeschooling families, but He'll also show you where to get the ideas, resources, and supplies you need to complete the task.

Abraham's servant in Genesis 24 also knew about facing a huge undertaking. Under oath, he was sent by his master Abraham to search for the perfect wife for his son Isaac. Imagine trying to find a woman who would be willing to return with a complete stranger from a foreign land to marry a man she had never met! In today's world, that would be considered "mission impossible." Abraham's servant was no fool and knew the obstacles facing him. Knowing he could never succeed without God's divine intervention, this servant prayed for success and started the long journey in faith. Fortunately, his mission had a happy ending when Rebekah proved to be the answer to his prayers and the right woman for Isaac.

God is waiting to give you success in homeschooling, too, but you must first obey His call and step out in faith. Even if you don't receive the answer to every homeschooling question you have right now, God will prove Himself mighty and guide you each day, one step at a time. As you see the Lord's divine leading and specific answers to prayer, you'll praise God like Abraham's servant. Most of all, you'll be thankful you didn't allow your doubts to cause you to self-destruct before seeing homeschooling's many blessings. "But without faith itis impossible to please him: for he that cometh to God must believe that he is, and that he is a rewarder of them that diligently seek him" (Hebrews 11:6).

Father, my faith is weak, and I'm fearful about committing myself to teaching our children. Please, show me how to homeschool and lead me to those people who can help me get started. In Jesus' name, Amen.]]>Tue, 12 Aug 2014 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/foolish-mothers/
“Every wise woman buildeth her house: but the foolish plucketh it down with her hands” (Proverbs 14:1).

As homeschooling mothers, we hold within our hands the power to create a wonderful school day or a horrible one. Our attitude can dictate a day filled with joy or one filled with tense anxiety. In Proverbs 6:19, the Lord says that strife is one of the seven things He hates. Strife can develop from many situations, including heated debates and unresolved arguments with your husband. Left unchecked, marital strife can cause you to be abrupt and short with your children, and if you aren't careful, seeds of anger, bitterness, and hate could be planted in your children and ultimately destroy your home.

God’s answer to our selfish, “I’m not wrong, so I don’t need to say I’m sorry” attitude is found in Ephesians 4:26-27: “Be ye angry, and sin not: let not the sun go down upon your wrath: Neither give place to the devil.” God has more than one reason for you not to be at odds with your husband. Your relationship to God Himself will be broken, your relationship to your husband will be hindered, and your relationship to your children will be damaged.

Is there strife in your home today? Are you the one allowing it to perpetuate? Don’t give place to the devil whose goal is to destroy your homeschool and your family. Be reconciled before the sun goes down tonight and seek forgiveness from the Lord and your mate. Don’t be like the woman who tears down her own house!

Lord, forgive me for allowing bad feelings to continue between my husband and me. I know You hate strife, and only in Your strength can I forgive. I want to start again today to build our home Your way. In Jesus’ name, Amen.]]>Mon, 11 Aug 2014 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/near-sighted-homeschooling/
"A man's pride shall bring him low: but honour shall uphold the humble in spirit" (Proverbs 29:23).

As I drove home from our back-to-school shopping spree, I felt confident that I had finally purchased everything we needed for a successful school year. My schoolroom was ready, the curriculum had been ordered, and now these additional school supplies would complete my preparations for starting our year off right. Smiling smugly to myself, I thought I had everything under control.

Looking out the car window, I noticed a majestic hawk soaring overhead and brought it to my children's attention. Frustrated, my oldest daughter kept peering into the sky, but she couldn't locate the bird at which we were pointing. Stopping the car, I asked her to read the words on the sign ahead, but she couldn't see them. Slowly, I drove closer and closer until she could finally make out the letters. What a revelation of my foolishness! "I sure had everything under control," I thought to myself. "My daughter was nearsighted, and I hadn't even realized it until just now!"

Many Christians also have a tendency to be nearsighted when life is going well. Living in the success of now, we think our current blessings are the result of our own hands. Like the Old Testament nation of Israel, we fail to acknowledge God's hand of divine intervention in our lives. Unfortunately, many times we must experience painful or humbling reminders in order to correct our vision and see the true picture. God is in control, and we are not!

If you're starting your new school year depending on your own abilities, be careful. Only the Lord can show you those things that will make your homeschooling truly successful. As you depend on the Holy Spirit, you will not only discover wisdom to teach, but you'll also have your eyes opened to see all that God desires for your family. "Unto thee lift I up mine eyes, O thou that dwellest in the heavens. Behold, as the eyes of servants look unto the hand of their masters, and as the eyes of a maiden unto the hand of her mistress; so our eyes wait upon the LORD our God" (Psalm 123:1-2a).

Lord, forgive me for my foolish pride that fails to acknowledge You as Lord. Open my eyes to see Your plans for our family this homeschool year and teach me to constantly depend on You. In Jesus' name, Amen.]]>Sun, 10 Aug 2014 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/subject-to-change/
“A man’s heart deviseth his way: but the LORD directeth his steps” (Proverbs 16:9).

If there’s one thing you can count on as a homeschooling parent, it’s change. Like the weather, no two days are ever exactly the same. More times than I can remember, my best lesson plans and organized activities were altered by the day’s events. Whether my children became absorbed in a particular topic and spent more time studying or an untimely interruption caused a delay in teaching a lesson, it was necessary to make adjustments without becoming anxious. Whatever failed to be taught one day was usually made up within the next few days, and I learned not to worry about the setback, as long as we continued to move forward with our studies.

As time went on, I was determined to let God order our daily events. Committing the day to Him each morning, I found peace in yielding to His Lordship and control to follow His perfect plan. The “Serenity Prayer” hung on my kitchen wall as a constant reminder to let the Lord guide our homeschooling.

What about you? Do you stress over the changes that come your way throughout your homeschooling day? Relax! If you’ve given God control over your homeschooling day, He will help you accomplish everything that needs to be done. Besides, God has a few lesson plans of His own for you and your children to learn. “The preparations of the heart in man, and the answer of the tongue, is from the LORD. Commit thy works unto the LORD, and thy thoughts shall be established” (Proverbs 16:1,3).

Father, thank You for guiding us each day while we homeschool. Show me how to rest in Your wisdom and love to teach my children what You want them to know. In Jesus’ name, Amen.]]>Sat, 09 Aug 2014 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/aop-offers-scholarship-for-homeschoolers-affected-by-severe-weather/
This summer, families across the country have faced many unexpected hardships due to severe weather. In order to help homeschoolers affected by the damage, Alpha Omega Publications is offering families the opportunity to apply for the Jan Groen Scholarship to help cover the cost of homeschooling materials.

All applications must be received by Monday, August 18, 2014. The scholarship committee requests photos and/or news clippings to better understand the devastation in your area. All applications will be reviewed, and a recipient will be selected by Wednesday, August 20, 2014.

Please contact customer service at 800.622.3070 with questions.

*Applicants must demonstrate a natural disaster hardship (flooding or tornado) to qualify.

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“When I was a child, I spake as a child, I understood as a child, I thought as a child: but when I became a man, I put away childish things” (1 Corinthians 13:11).

If you homeschool young children, chances are you constantly correct their pronunciation of many words and verb tenses. Correcting their speech becomes a daily task and one that should be taken seriously in order to instruct them in proper grammar usage. “Hangaber” and “Sgetti” were our children’s first words for hamburger and spaghetti. Although the correct words were eventually learned, our children continued to pronounce these words as they had first said them. Unfortunately, they remain a part of our family’s vocabulary even today.

As Christians, we also have a tendency to retain childish things in our walk with the Lord. However, God wants us to grow into spiritual maturity and do away with childish things. We are to move from speaking, thinking, and reasoning as a child to trusting in the Lord with a mature faith. No longer should we speak impulsively, take offenses easily, or pout when life doesn’t go our way.

What about you? Are you still acting like a child in Christ? If so, now is the time to start growing. “Brethren, be not children in understanding: howbeit in malice be ye children, but in understanding be men” (1 Corinthians 14:20).

Father, forgive me for acting like a child in my walk with You. I know You want me to grow into the fullness of Your love and blessings. Please, show me how. In Jesus’ name, Amen.]]>Fri, 08 Aug 2014 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/homeschoolings-highest-marks/
Among those who approve of homeschooling, it should come as no surprise that parental control ranks as the #1 reason to support an at-home education.

According to a recent survey conducted by Spectrum Group’s Millionaire Corner, 59% of homeschool advocates praised homeschooling for its control of what their children are exposed to during their school years. In addition, a whopping 91% of homeschool parents said they were concerned about the environment of other schools.

The poll also gave homeschooling high marks for letting a child work at his/her own pace, providing a faith-based education, and reducing exposure to bullying.

In addition to parental control, why do you love homeschooling?

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As homeschooling continues to grow and gain respect as an acceptable way to educate children, more and more parents are pulling their kids out of the public school system for a safer environment and richer learning experience at home.

If you’re contemplating calling it quits with your child’s public school and moving on to homeschooling, consider these steps to ensure a smooth transition.

Talk to Your ChildHe or she may have questions and reservations about leaving friends and the familiarity of the classroom. You may intercept some resistance leading up to and during the transition, but reassure your child that you know what’s best and point out some of the perks of homeschooling, such as more freedom to move and study different subjects.

Make It OfficialMail a Declaration of Intent to Homeschool to your child’s school district and become familiar with your state’s homeschooling laws. Stipulations vary across the country from low-regulation states, which do not require any notification that you’re homeschooling, to high-regulation states, which require submission of test scores and more in order to homeschool.

- 15 states require only notification of homeschooling

- 19 states and the District of Columbia require submission of test scores and/or professional evaluation of students

- 5 states have additional requirements, such as curriculum approval, parent qualification, or home visits by state officials

- 11 states do not require notification in order to homeschool

Choose CurriculumIf you haven’t already chosen curriculum, make a list of features you want in your child’s curriculum and stick to your list as closely as you can while you explore. You may decide to research online, get feedback from friends who homeschool, or visit expos or bookstores. Get to know what’s out there and look for materials that fit your student’s learning style, which will become clearer as you homeschool.

You’ll also want to set goals for your homeschool, make a schedule, and do plenty of prepping, planning, and praying.

Breaking up can be hard to do. Fortunately, ending your relationship with your child’s public school shouldn’t be difficult if you’ve done your homework.

Have you transitioned from public school to homeschool, or vice versa? What was the experience like?

The Social Butterfly (4-6 points)You enjoy having a homeschool community for support and chatting with friends about what they’re covering. What you lack in experience, you make up for in open-mindedness. You’re intrigued by the growing popularity of homeschooling and value other’s opinions and advice. Monarch’s automatic updates appeal to your desire to stay current on the latest trends.

The Explorer (7-10 points)You’re willing to teach subjects other homeschoolers won’t and aren’t afraid to take a step back to re-evaluate your methods. You like the ability to customize Monarch courses to fit what you want your child to learn. You’re interested in getting at the heart of homeschooling and finding a method that feels pure and allows for plenty of freedom to integrate new ideas and activities.

The Planner (11-13 points)You are always prepared and informed. You schedule your children’s lessons well into the future to maximize efficiency. Monarch’s advanced school calendar appeals to your need to stay on top of daily details and the big picture. You like to research to see what else is out there, but you need facts to make a change or commitment to anything new. Staying organized is your priority.

The Pathfinder (14-16 points)You pride yourself on reaching your goals, and you’re confident of where your child is on his or her learning path. Monarch’s parent mode allows you to keep abreast of your student’s progress. You’re a go-getter who knows what she wants. A seasoned homeschooler who values planning, you tend to stick to what’s been proven to work for your family.

First Place Second Place Third Place Arwen Christian Anna Stauffer Emma Abajian

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“So likewise ye, when ye see these things come to pass, know ye that the kingdom of God is nigh at hand” (Luke 21:31).

When taking nature hikes for science, one homeschooling activity my children especially loved was looking for animal tracks in the soft mud or snow. Identifying creatures from their tracks became a favorite game, and my oldest son especially took to the challenge. With a field guide in hand, not only did he learn to identify the shapes of particular animal prints, but he also learned to read other signs as well. Bruised or broken vegetation, hairs snagged on branches, feathers, opened nuts, and scratches in tree bark all provided additional signs in determining an animal’s trail.

As he grew older, my son became more proficient in his tracking abilities and could easily locate my whereabouts on our family farm. Many times after I had walked to a quiet spot to read a book or be alone, my son would sneak up and scare me in fun. Laughing, I would say, “I don’t ever have to worry about getting lost because I know you’ll be able to find me.”

When Jesus was alive on Earth, He also told His disciples about signs that would mark the time before His return. In Matthew 24, Christ’s list of signs included wars and rumor of wars (vs. 6), famines and earthquakes (vs. 7), false prophets (vs. 11), and an increase in lawlessness (vs.12). Jesus also told His disciples that His return would be as evident as the lightning in the sky (vs. 27), and He would return in the clouds with power and great glory (vs.30). Although no one knows the exact hour or day of Christ’s return (Mark 13:32), the signs will clearly mark the trail before that time.

Have you been watching for the signs of the Lord’s return? Are you earnestly anticipating seeing your loving Savior face to face? Don’t let Christ’s return surprise you and catch you unprepared. Live your life today in such a way that you’re prepared to see Him this very moment! “But the day of the Lord will come as a thief in the night; in the which the heavens shall pass away with a great noise, and the elements shall melt with fervent heat, the earth also and the works that are therein shall be burned up. Seeing then that all these things shall be dissolved, what manner of persons ought ye to be in all holy conversation and godliness, Looking for and hasting unto the coming of the day of God” (2 Peter 3:10-12a).

Father, thank You for the joyous promise of Your Son’s return. Open my eyes to see the signs of Your faithfulness and love that guide me each homeschooling day and help me to live in hopeful expectation until I see Jesus. In His name, Amen.]]>Thu, 07 Aug 2014 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/wayward-children/
Nothing breaks a parent's heart more than living with a disobedient child. After investing so much time teaching godly values and academics, homeschooling parents are especially discouraged when their children refuse to live according to God's Word.

The life of Samson is a prime example of a disobedient child in the Old Testament. Although his parents had raised him according to the Levitical laws of a Nazirite, a life that was to be holy and pure, Samson's life was far from righteous. Following a path of sinful pleasures that led him far from God and his parents, Samson suffered blindness and slavery as consequences of his sin. Eventually, Samson did repent, and God renewed his strength to destroy the Philistines who had tried to destroy him (Judges 13-16).

Is your house in turmoil because one of your children has chosen the wrong path? Do you lie awake at night and pray that God will honor Proverbs 22:6, "Train up a child in the way he should go: and when he is old, he will not depart from it?" If so, don't stop praying for his heart to come back to the Lord. Your intercessory prayers do make a difference against the evil that would destroy him. Intercede for your child's soul in the powerful name of Jesus and the blood He gave on the cross. "Brethren, if any of you do err from the truth, and one convert him; Let him know, that he which converteth the sinner from the error of his way shall save a soul from death, and shall hide a multitude of sins" (James 5:19-20).

Jesus,I don't know what to do for my disobedient child. All I can see today is the pain he is causing our family. Open my eyes to see the battle for his soul and use me to intercede in prayer. Thank You for the victory only You can give. In Your precious name, Amen.]]>Wed, 06 Aug 2014 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/new-lifepac-homeschool-courses-now-available/
Rock Rapids, IA (August 5, 2014) – With the excitement of a new school year approaching, several redesigned and revised courses are now available for LIFEPAC, the first and most time-tested Christian homeschool curriculum from Alpha Omega Publications.

The highly anticipated redesign for grades 7-9 includes a contemporary look for 15 courses in the subjects of Bible, history and geography, math, language arts, and science, as well as all-new pre-algebra content for grades 7 and 8.

Originally developed in 1977, LIFEPAC is a tried-and-true mix of tradition and experience that challenges homeschool students to master skills before moving to new content. Over the past 35 years, thousands of families have successfully homeschooled their children with LIFEPAC’s self-directed worktexts, integrated lesson plans, Bible-based foundation, and teacher-friendly layout.

In 2013, LIFEPAC earned best homeschool curriculum awards in the categories of complete curriculum, language arts, math, history, and science in homeschool-curriculum.org’s selection of their top 50 choices.

Parents who teach their children at home have a tendency to sacrifice the fruit of gentleness on the altar of homeschooling. Ever the exacting teachers, we sometimes forget our role as merciful comforters when educating our children. My foolish insensitivity to my children’s needs was revealed one day when my daughter came running into the house. Whimpering, she cried out, “Mom, an ant bit me!”

Knowing her aversion to insects and assuming she was trying to avoid her schoolwork, I ignored the tears and replied, “Oh my, it was just a little ant. It couldn’t have hurt that badly!” As unfeeling as a robot, I hugged her quickly, told her to stop crying, and sent her on her way to finish her studies.

Several days later, I reaped the humbling consequences for my apathy to my daughter’s pleas. Sitting in the sandbox near our new home, I warmed my toes in the sand and watched as my children built towering castles. Suddenly, a sharp pain in my foot made me yell, “Ouch!” I was sure I had been stung by a bee or a wasp, but when I looked down, I only saw an ant. What I didn’t know, however, was that this was no ordinary ant. Native to the area, it was a red harvester ant whose bite was as painful as any bee sting. Showing the true compassion I should have shown her, my young daughter came to me with a genuine hug and said, “It’s okay, Mommy. I’ll help you!”

Have you become so busy or dogmatic in your homeschooling routine that you fail to show compassionate love? Staying on task and accomplishing educational goals is never more important than expressing gentle, heartfelt concern to your children. Whether it’s an emotional hurt on the inside or a painful wound outside, let love’s compassion be your guide in all your actions. “He shall feed his flock like a shepherd: he shall gather the lambs with his arm, and carry them in his bosom, and shall gently lead those that are with young” (Isaiah 40:11).

Father, Your tender love encourages me so much each day. Please, keep my heart soft, so I can express that same love and teach the most important lesson my children can learn — compassion. In Jesus’ name, Amen.]]>Tue, 05 Aug 2014 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/aop-introduces-new-budget-friendly-way-to-homeschool/
Rock Rapids, IA (August 4, 2014) - Discover a brand new, budget-friendly way to homeschool with new family and individual plans for Monarch online homeschool curriculum.

Now available from Alpha Omega Publications, Monarch Plans provide students with unprecedented access to 50 online courses for one low monthly or yearly price.

“With our Monarch Plans, we wanted to create an option that made homeschooling easy, convenient, and flexible,” said Denise Laudenbach, president at Alpha Omega Publications. “Monarch is the first online Christian homeschool curriculum that allows families to customize learning across grade levels to meet each child’s individual needs for each subject.”

Originally launched in 2010, Monarch guarantees a dynamic homeschooling experience by engaging students with media-rich lessons, quizzes, and tests, as well as interactive learning tools like video clips, animations, and games. In addition, on-the-go families love Monarch’s time-saving tools like automatic grading, individual lesson planning, and customizable calendar scheduling.

While 5-subject sets and individual courses remain available for grades 3-12, Monarch Plans make it even easier for families to stick to their homeschooling budget. Plans are available for individual students or families on a monthly or yearly basis. Monthly plans conveniently auto-renew each month, while yearly plans maximize savings.

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My daughter’s feet pounded on every step as she went up to her room. I should have known it was going to be “one of those days” when I saw the mood she was in the very moment she woke up. Everything had been a test—eating breakfast, getting dressed, doing schoolwork. “Why can’t kids just do as they are told?” I thought to myself.

Ephesians 6:4 says, “And, ye fathers [and mothers], provoke not your children to wrath: but bring them up in the nurture and admonition of the Lord.” Even though I knew this verse to be true, I went into a private pity party instead. Wouldn’t my life be easier if I sent my daughter to public school and avoided all these confrontations? I could be a mom who stayed at home and did her nails instead of a mom who checked schoolwork in the bathroom, gave spelling tests while cooking supper, and folded piles of laundry at midnight. Why was I the bad guy here?

Suddenly, the quietness in my daughter’s bedroom shattered my thoughts. I decided to go upstairs to see what was happening and talk to my daughter about her behavior. Expecting her to be on the bed crying in repentance, what I found was quite the opposite. As I opened the door, there was a mural in black crayon drawn across the yellow-flowered wallpaper in her room. The anger and frustration I had used in disciplining my daughter moments ago was now communicated in her scribbles and marks before me. I knew I had pushed her too far. I saw the writing on the wall.

I wasn’t quite sure who was being disciplined that day. Certainly, my actions had been far from righteous when I had sent my daughter to her room in anger. Truly, the greater lesson had been learned by me. My anger was not the tool to be used in disciplining my children.

What about you? Do you intimidate your children with your size and authority? Stop and think: “For the wrath of [Mom] worketh not the righteousness of God” (James 1:20).

Holy Father, forgive me when I discipline my children in the flesh instead of according to Your Word. Thank You for Your mercy in my mistakes and help me to show that same mercy to my children as we homeschool each day. In Jesus’ name, Amen.]]>Mon, 04 Aug 2014 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/one-day-at-a-time-2/
“Therefore, my beloved brethren, be ye stedfast, unmovable, always abounding in the work of the Lord, forasmuch as ye know that your labour is not in vain in the Lord” (1 Corinthians 15:58).

As a homeschooling parent, do you ever wake up in the morning and want to run away and hide from your responsibilities? Last night’s dishes, last week’s laundry, and yesterday’s schoolwork all clamor for your attention. Your baby’s cry reminds you of yet another need, and your young toddlers seek your affection and time for play. On top of that, your church is having difficulty finding help with Sunday school and the nursery, and you know you should offer your assistance. Exhausted before the day has even begun, you throw the covers back over your head and think, “Why would God give me all this responsibility? Doesn’t He know I can’t take care of everything? Where can I go to get away from all of this work?”

When the pressure of obeying God’s call seems too much, it’s tempting to look for the easy way out. Just ask Jonah. God had given him the task of prophesying to the wicked city of Nineveh, but Jonah decided it was too big of a responsibility. Hopping a boat to Joppa, Jonah worked just as hard at running away and hiding from God’s call as he would have worked if he obeyed. Fortunately, God gave this reluctant prophet another chance to accept the job He had given. After being thrown overboard and spending three days in the belly of a big fish, Jonah decided that being a preacher wasn’t that bad, even if it was in a wicked city like Nineveh.

If the responsibility of facing another year of homeschooling is causing you to run and hide, be encouraged. Although you can’t see the way through the work right now, the Lord promises to uphold you with His wisdom and strength when you need them (Isaiah 41:10). As you obediently follow His will in homeschooling today, He continues to guide you with the next step tomorrow. Step by step, day by day, you will get through the work and accomplish all He has planned for your homeschooling family. “I will instruct thee and teach thee in the way which thou shalt go: I will guide thee with mine eye” (Psalm 32:8).

Heavenly Father, the responsibility of homeschooling is weighing me down. Please, give me the courage I need to face the new year and show me how to lead the precious children You’ve given me. In Jesus’ name, Amen.]]>Sun, 03 Aug 2014 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/starting-over/
“Jesus Christ the same yesterday, and to day, and for ever” (Hebrews 13:8).

Almost three years ago, I watched as my youngest son left for college. He was the last of four children, and my homeschooling years had come to a close, or so I thought. The heartbreak I felt in the symbolic finality of his saying good-bye was immense. Sure, I would see my adult children and share wonderful moments together in the future, but our family would never be the same. Added to my overwhelming feeling of loss was the apprehension of a fifty-plus retired homeschooling parent’s future. “What now?” was the question that continued to reverberate in my mind.

I didn’t have to wait long for God’s answer to my question. Moving back to my hometown to care for my aging mother, God took me to a whole new homeschooling experience. Miraculously, He orchestrated an employment opportunity where I could write about the lessons I learned from Him during our homeschooling years. Here I am today, writing to you and praying that my words will help you hold fast through the hard times to discover your own homeschooling blessings. What an opportunity—God is so good! Each day I feel like I’m starting over as He takes me back through the memory banks of my mind to recall moments of success and failure. I see the faces of my children throughout our homeschooling years and remember my past to give you a hope and a vision for your future.

Amazingly, I still fight many of the same spiritual battles I faced as a young homeschooling parent: battles of laziness, procrastination, worry, doubt, and pride. Even at my age, God continues to mold me into the likeness of His Son, and I claim the apostle Paul’s words: “Being confident of this very thing, that he which hath begun a good work in you will perform it until the day of Jesus Christ” (Philippians 1:6). Most of all, I’ve come to realize that no matter if you’re a brand new homeschooling parent at the age of 26 or an old-time retiree, Jesus is the same wonderful, loving protector and provider, “who comforteth us in all our tribulation, that we may be able to comfort them which are in any trouble, by the comfort wherewith we ourselves are comforted of God” (2 Corinthians 1:4).

Lord, thank You for the incredible adventure of homeschooling and the strength to see the end rewards and blessings. Please, encourage those who are homeschooling today to remain faithful, so they too may reap the fruit of their years of sacrifice and love. In Jesus’ name, Amen.]]>Sat, 02 Aug 2014 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/cup-of-water/
“Why would you want to stay at home with your kids? Are you NUTS?” Have you ever heard these questions when you told someone you decided to homeschool your children? Most homeschooling parents have at one time or another. We are a different breed that receives little or no recognition from the world for our efforts. Expecting applause or appreciation for teaching our own children are dreams we have long since given up, along with paychecks and promotions. So, how does a homeschooling parent cope with the lack of support and affirmation he needs to continue educating his children at home?

God’s Word gives us the answer in Matthew 10:42: “And whosoever shall give to drink unto one of these little ones a cup of cold water only in the name of a disciple, verily I say unto you, he shall in no wise lose his reward.” Although the world does not value a homeschooling parent, God says that even giving a drink to a thirsty child has a reward. How much more God has planned for us parents who have chosen to sacrifice our dreams for our children’s future!

Knowing that our heavenly Father sees and cares is enough to encourage us to remain faithful. Even though no one else understands, we can choose to respond to His promise: “And whatsoever ye do, do it heartily, as to the Lord, and not unto men; Knowing that of the Lord ye shall receive the reward of the inheritance: for ye serve the Lord Christ” (Colossians 3:23-24). Let the Lord’s love be enough for you today as you start another year of homeschooling. Someday you will receive a full reward for all you have done. “Humble yourselves therefore under the mighty hand of God, that he may exalt you in due time” (1 Peter 5:6).

Father, forgive me when I feel sorry for myself or complain that no one appreciates me. I know You love me and value my obedience in homeschooling my children. Help me to remain faithful and humble to give You the glory in all that I do. In Your Son’s name, Amen.]]>Fri, 01 Aug 2014 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/lost-car-found-faith/
"A man's heart deviseth his way: but the LORD directeth his steps" (Proverbs 16:9).

My six-year-old son came running to me with crocodile tears in his eyes and cried, "Mommy, I can't find my favorite car! Can you please help me?" Walking with him into the living room, we proceeded to look for his favorite toy race car that he had just received for his birthday. However, our efforts were to no avail as it was not to be found anywhere. I saw the anxious look on his face and knew we had to do something. Taking him by the hand, we sat down together on the couch and prayed.

"Let's ask God where it is. I'm sure He knows," I said.

After we finished our prayer, we returned to our morning homeschool routine. Little did I know, God had already prepared an invaluable lesson for both my young son and me. As we sat back down on the couch to read my son's science lesson, his lost car popped up between the cushions. Excitedly, we thanked the Lord for showing us the car's location, and the answered prayer was forever cemented in my son's mind.

The lesson my son learned was that an all-knowing God was big enough to handle any problem he might have in life. God's lesson for me was that He was the better teacher. He had a syllabus of truths for my children to learn each day. My job as a homeschooling parent was to be sensitive to those Holy Spirit subject areas, so my children wouldn't miss the most important lessons in life.

How about you? Are you so structured in your homeschool day that you cannot allow for any deviations for God's instruction? If so, pray for God's wisdom and will to be revealed. Don't lose the opportunities for you or your children to find the greatest truths in the world. "Trust in the LORD with all thine heart; and lean not unto thine own understanding. In all thy ways acknowledge him, and he shall direct thy paths" (Proverbs 3:5-6).

Father, thank You that You know what my children need to learn each day. Help me to listen to Your voice and allow You to instruct our family in righteousness and truth. In Jesus' name, Amen.]]>Thu, 31 Jul 2014 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/at-a-loss-for-words/
One day I found my son sobbing in a tree in our backyard. He had just experienced a heartbreaking loss, and there were no words to comfort him. Our outside farm dog had killed 20 of his 25 chickens. Only eight weeks ago, we had brought them home as a school project. Faithfully, he had raised them from small, fluffy yellow chicks to the young, white-feathered chickens that loved to sit in his arms. He had made a roost and a special feeder for them and was just beginning to enjoy gathering one or two eggs per day.

However, that all changed in a moment when our dog broke into the chicken coop. Going on a rampage, our dog killed all but five of his clucking children. Although living on a farm and seeing other animals die had toughened my son's outlook toward death, I knew only God could help him in his loss as he asked, "Why?"

As homeschooling moms and dads, the Holy Spirit offers us the same comfort when we struggle with the "whys" of life. So many days we feel heartbroken by the worries and pain of the world and don't know how to pray. May you find comfort in knowing that His Spirit is lifting you up before the Father even now while you can't find the words to express your heart. "Likewise the Spirit also helpeth our infirmities: for we know not what we should pray for as we ought: but the Spirit itself maketh intercession for us with groanings which cannot be uttered" (Romans 8:26).

Father, thank You for the Holy Spirit who understands my weaknesses. Please, intercede for me today because I don't know how to pray. In the name of Jesus, Amen.]]>Wed, 30 Jul 2014 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/principal-of-multiplication/
In the 1930s, Dawson Trotman founded The Navigators ministry with the belief that everyone who is born into God's family is to multiply. Though Trotman started by sharing his faith with just one sailor, by the end of World War II, thousands of men on ships around the world had learned about Christ and were actively sharing their faith. Being saved himself from a life of drunkenness and corruption, Trotman believed if a person would lead someone to Christ every six months and disciple him until he led another person to Christ, within 15 years over two billion people would be living for the Lord. Billy Graham preached at his funeral in 1956 and said, "I think Dawson Trotman has personally touched more lives [for Christ's sake] than anybody I have ever known." Quite a statement coming from a man whose Gospel message of salvation has since been preached to millions!

As a young homeschooling mother, I felt my life was quite insignificant for many years. I couldn't see God's big picture for my life and the importance of being faithful in teaching and discipling my children in the Lord, but then I read the story of Dawson Trotman and his thoughts of the multiplication principle. I realized more people would be reached by entrusting the truths of God to my children than if I went out and ministered on my own. My first mission field was sitting right in front of me!

How well do you know your multiplication facts? Do you know that your homeschooling will not only reap rewards now, but also in the future? Teaching your children spiritual and academic truths will forever change the lives of many people because of the godly influence your children will have on them. 2 Timothy 2:2 says, "And the things that thou hast heard of me among many witnesses, the same commit thou to faithful men, who shall be able to teach others also."

Lord, help me to multiply the number of those who will hear the message of Your love, forgiveness, and salvation by investing all my efforts in teaching the children You have given me. Thank You that what I am doing has lasting value in Your eyes and for the harvest of souls You have prepared. In Jesus' name, Amen.]]>Tue, 29 Jul 2014 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/mr-stop/
It was just a little thing, really. I mean, who would have ever thought a little bird could make such a difference in all our lives? But he did.

He was a red-winged blackbird that always greeted us sitting on the same stop sign whenever we drove to town. Because of the brilliant, red plumage on his wings and the location of his unusual home, we began to refer to this new friend as Mr. Stop. The joyful song he sang encouraged our family each time we passed his home, but it was the simple faithfulness of his presence that left a profound impression on the minds of my young children. Mr. Stop was always there protecting his nest and gathering food for his wife and family.

Every year in the spring, the pattern would repeat itself, and again Mr. Stop would return and come into our lives for the summer months. An unforgettable lesson of faithfulness was being forged into our family's life. We didn't realize how much the consistency of this little bird's presence meant to all of us until we moved away to homeschool in another state.

Do you know the faithfulness of God's presence is surrounding you today in a far greater way than you may think? Psalm 139:7-10 says, "Whither shall I go from thy spirit? or whither shall I flee from thy presence? If I ascend up into heaven, thou art there: if I make my bed in hell, behold, thou art there. If I take the wings of the morning, and dwell in the uttermost parts of the sea; Even there shall thy hand lead me, and thy right hand shall hold me." The God of the universe securely watches over you no matter where you are and faithfully protects and provides all you need to homeschool your children. Take a moment now to stop and enjoy the sweetness of His presence.

Heavenly Father, thank You for always being with me and guiding our family as we homeschool today. I trust Your Word and know I am not alone. In Jesus' name, Amen.]]>Mon, 28 Jul 2014 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/in-the-limelight/
Did you imagine your role as a homeschooling mother to be quiet and obscure? Did you picture yourself being behind the scenes and working as a support person only? Nothing could be further from the truth! Every time someone asks, "Where do your children go to school," you are immediately thrust into the spotlight and find yourself facing an endless barrage of questions.

Many great women of the Bible also faced the same challenge. They had to stand up or speak up for the cause God placed in their lives. Abigail was led by God to save her family by going ahead of her husband's foolishness and providing a meal for King David and his men. Ruth braved danger in gleaning the wheat from Boaz's field in order to save Naomi and herself. Rahab believed in the God of Israel and put out a scarlet rope to save her family from Joshua and his army. Deborah was a prophetess who went to battle because Barak didn't have enough faith to fight without her.

Take courage and know that the God of the universe is with you. Just as He went before Israel as a cloud by day and a pillar of fire by night, He will go before you and give you the words to say when you are confronted. Matthew 10:19b-20 says, "Take no thought how or what ye shall speak: for it shall be given you in that same hour what ye shall speak. For it is not ye that speak, but the Spirit of your Father which speaketh in you." Trust the Holy Spirit to lead you and be not ashamed of the wonderful opportunity God has given you to homeschool your children.

Lord, make me courageous today and not afraid. Give me the words to say to represent You to a lost and dying world. Lead me today, so I can guide the children You have given me. In Jesus' name, Amen.]]>Sun, 27 Jul 2014 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/nothing-to-wear/
Teaching our young children to dress themselves in the morning takes patience. We painstakingly wait as they learn to manipulate buttons, zippers, and shoelaces. However, by far the most agonizing aspect of the morning ritual of getting dressed is the statement, "I can't find anything to wear." As mothers, we realize this statement doesn't mean there is nothing in the drawers and closets, nor does it mean your children have not looked hard enough. What they really are saying is they think the clothes available to them are not good enough for them to wear.

As adults, we dress ourselves in the same fashion. We waste our time manipulating the outward appearance because we worry about what other people think. Instead, we should be going to the closet of God's Word and choosing to dress ourselves according to His wardrobe. "Put on therefore, as the elect of God, holy and beloved, bowels of mercies, kindness, humbleness of mind, meekness, longsuffering; Forbearing one another, and forgiving one another, if any man have a quarrel against any: even as Christ forgave you, so also do ye. And above all these things put on charity, which is the bond of perfectness" (Colossians 3:12-14). Do we desire to dress in the "clothes" God has given us, or do we continue to "not find anything to wear"?

Becoming more Christ-like is the ultimate goal for us as homeschooling parents. The Lord does not look on the outward appearance of man, but at the heart, as when Samuel was led by the Lord to anoint David to be king. Choosing to dress ourselves with compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness, patience, and love is what He can use the most to influence our children and teach them how to live godly lives.

So, what will you put on this morning? Look to His Word, find the clothes that fit, and reflect God's character to your family and your world. All the academics you teach will not have as lasting of a value as modeling the love of Jesus Christ in your words and actions. "But put ye on the Lord Jesus Christ, and make not provision for the flesh, to fulfil the lusts thereof" (Romans 13:14).

Father, thank You for giving me the opportunity to dress in the character of Christ. Show me those areas in which I have forgotten to put on the "clothes" You have provided. Help me to reflect Your Son in all I do and say this day. In Jesus' name, Amen.]]>Sat, 26 Jul 2014 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/measuring-by-messes/
Somewhere in the middle of my homeschooling experience, I made the mistake of measuring what activities we would or wouldn't do by the mess involved. I had lost the spontaneous joy of having fun on a child's level and saw those messy learning times as one big chore. Perhaps I lost the joy because I was so tired physically or maybe because I was lazy. Either case, I deprived my children of many enjoyable experiences simply because I didn't want to make a mess.

Keeping our lives neat and orderly is a good thing, but we must also be willing to get our hands dirty. Jesus was willing to grab the towel that washed the feet of His disciples. He also touched and healed the sick and the diseased in body, as well as the sinful, dirty hearts of lost people. He was never afraid to get involved or be in the middle of a mess. Zaccheus, the Samaritan woman at the well, and the thankful leper must have been so grateful for the cleansing joy of His love. "If I then, your Lord and Master, have washed your feet; ye also ought to wash one another's feet. For I have given you an example, that ye should do as I have done to you. Verily, verily, I say unto you, The servant is not greater than his lord; neither he that is sent greater than he that sent him" (John 13:14-16).

Father, forgive me for only wanting to serve You in the comfortable tasks that are nice and neat. Help me to remember You're strong enough to clean up any mess from life's dirty problems. Use me today to be a blessing to the hurting and helpless. In Jesus' name, Amen.]]>Fri, 25 Jul 2014 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/caught-red-handed/
"Wherefore let him that thinketh he standeth take heed lest he fall" (1 Corinthians 10:12).

The red flags were all there. As a homeschooling parent, you would have thought I would have seen the little signs much sooner — struggling in daily work but getting straight "A's" on quizzes and tests, erased answers on tests, the desire to correct their own work, and teacher keys in the wrong place on the shelf. My trust in my children blinded me to the fact that they ever would succumb to the temptation to take the easy way out and cheat. It was a sad day when I found out the truth.

God tempered my discipline of my children that day with the knowledge that I, too, take the easy way out in many areas of my life. I often think my secret little sins of laziness, procrastination, and overeating will not find me out, and I continue ignoring God in the areas of my life where He wants to discipline me.

How about you? Are you cheating on preparing your lesson plans, your devotion time with the Lord, or some personal habit that is robbing God of His glory? "For in that he himself hath suffered being tempted, he is able to succour them that are tempted" (Hebrews 2:18). Christ understands what you are going through because He suffered the same types of temptations when He was on Earth. Praise God that He has provided a way for us to win over temptations! "There hath no temptation taken you but such as is common to man: but God is faithful, who will not suffer you to be tempted above that ye are able; but will with the temptation also make a way to escape, that ye may be able to bear it" (1 Corinthians 10:13). Look for the way of escape today. Make no provision for the flesh.

Lord, don't let me cheat You out of all You desire for me. Show me those areas of my life that I need to bring under Your Lordship. Thank You for Your forgiveness each time I fail. Help me to see the way of escape and take the strength You provide to be obedient to You and Your Word. In Jesus' name, Amen.]]>Thu, 24 Jul 2014 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/shifting-shadows/
"Behold, I am the LORD, the God of all flesh: is there any thing too hard for me" (Jeremiah 32:27)?

Anyone in our homeschool family can tell you that I got the short end of the stick when it comes to artistic abilities. In fact, the only artistic talent I had was drawing stick people! So when two of my children began to demonstrate drawing skills with their doodling, I knew their graphic artist father was the one to teach this subject. Since Dad was at work more than ten hours a day, I needed to supplement his teaching time with some instruction of my own. Deciding to teach the concepts and leave the technique to Dad, I looked for inexpensive ideas to illustrate my lessons. As we returned home from our afternoon walk one evening, the sun was beginning to set and cast shadows of our figures against the farm buildings. The perfect illustration for teaching drawing perspective, our shadows helped me to explain the concept to my young son and daughter.

However, my children weren't the only ones who learned a lesson that day. As I thought about perspective, I realized I also needed to apply it to my life. Being the emotional person I was, I had a tendency to blow things way out of proportion. My over exaggerated perceptions of a problem had caused difficulty in my family's lives many times. Convicted by the Holy Spirit, I understood that God desired me to see things through His eyes.

What about you? Do you have a tendency to make mountains out of molehills? Don't let your fears and worries cause you to make rash decisions and judgments. Come to the Lord in prayer and let Him show you a new perspective on things. Trust me. You'll be glad you did, and so will your family! "The LORD looketh from heaven; he beholdeth all the sons of men. From the place of his habitation he looketh upon all the inhabitants of the earth. He fashioneth their hearts alike; he considereth all their works" (Psalm 33:13-15).

Father, thank You that nothing touches my life without Your knowledge. Help me to find Your peace today in the midst of my problems and remember that You have everything under control. In Jesus' name, Amen.]]>Wed, 23 Jul 2014 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/quantity-is-quality-time/
Many years ago, parental experts were advocating that quality time was all that was necessary for your children instead of quantity time. This belief possibly began to appease the consciences of some women who chose careers over their children and didn't want to deal with the feelings of abandoning their child to the day-care center.

However, my personal experience with organized quality time was quite different. I found that I could not experience quality unless there was also the dimension of quantity time involved with my children. After all, they were not little robots who turned on and off affections and responses when the convenience of the moment fit into my schedule. They came to me at inopportune times and opened their hearts when I least expected.

The favorite talk time for one of my teenage daughters was 11 p.m. Being a morning person, I could feel the lure of the pillow on my bed at 8:30 or 9 p.m. at the latest. Staying up later in the evening to spend time with her was always a challenge. Some nights we would just hang out together and play games or watch TV. Other nights we would have deep theological debates about God, life, and boyfriends. I never knew when those bonding moments would take place, but I knew that unless I made myself available, she would never share her heart.

I learned later that part of the reason for my daughter's responses was a result of her particular love language. She felt the most loved when someone wanted to be with her. Giving gifts, acts of service, words of endearment, and physical touch were important, but having someone who wanted to be with her communicated the most love.

Homeschoolers have a unique environment to provide both the quantity and quality time their children need. Deuteronomy 6:7 says, "And thou shalt teach them diligently unto thy children, and shalt talk of them when thou sittest in thine house, and when thou walkest by the way, and when thou liest down, and when thou risest up." This verse is speaking in regard to instructing our children in God's Word. It also shows the importance of taking advantage of all times during the day to interact.

Are you spending real quality time with your children? Just because you are homeschooling doesn't mean you are connecting with your child's heart. Allow those quantity times to turn into quality times by being available and looking for opportunities to share meaningful experiences.

Lord, thank You for all the special moments of love You provide each day. Help me to see the real needs of my children and continually reach out with a heart of love. In Jesus' name, Amen.]]>Tue, 22 Jul 2014 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/the-learning-power-of-lego/
Most adults under 40 can attest to the fun factor of Legos. The Denmark-based building blocks have not only been the primary construction toys for generations of youngsters, but they’re also one of the most educational toys out there today. Check out this fascinating timeline from onlinecollege.org on history’s favorite construction toy.

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Every week when I cleaned the bedroom, I would always run into them. The time and effort needed to move them out of the way to dust became longer and longer. To anyone else, these items probably looked like a lot of clutter, but to me they were treasures from the heart.

What do you do with all those special treasures your children bring to you each day to say they love you? Trinkets like braided bracelets, love poems, bugs, rocks, dandelions, and pencil sketches begin to grow into quite a collection of items, especially since I had more than one child. My solution needed to reflect sensitivity and show how much I valued and appreciated their affection.

My refrigerator door and bedroom mirror became the favorite collecting points for most of the items. Every morning and night I was reminded of my children's love through these thoughtful tokens. I recall hearing one of our children ask her father one day, "Does Mom really like all the things we bring to her?" He wisely replied, "Just go look at Mom's mirror! What do you see?" These treasures of love framed my reflected image each time I looked into the mirror. They represented who and what I was as a homeschooling parent. I was surrounded by a family I loved and who loved me. What greater joy could any parent have?

God has given you special treasures, too, that reflect His love each day. The beauty of His creation in a sunset, the assurance of His Holy Spirit when troubled by fears, the comfort of His promises in the Word, and the joy of His salvation are the trinkets He places on the mirror of your heart. "Behold, what manner of love the Father hath bestowed upon us, that we should be called the sons of God" (1 John 3:1a). You are surrounded by a great and awesome God who loves you so much! What greater joy could you have?

Father, thank You for all these reminders of love from my children. Help me to treasure each one as I treasure the daily reminders of Your love for me. May we all continue to draw closer together as a family and to You. In Jesus' name, Amen.]]>Mon, 21 Jul 2014 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/new-look-for-monarch-online-curriculum/
Alpha Omega Publications is excited to introduce a new look for Monarch! In our continued efforts to enhance our software, the fresh redesign of Monarch helps teachers and students interact more efficiently with the curriculum by allowing them to navigate throughout Monarch with fewer clicks.

AOP began the redesign by observing the way students work within Monarch. To improve the overall student experience, those observations are being used to reorganize the way content appears within the curriculum.

The new layout conveniently allows students to shift between lesson content and questions with the click of a button, see their progress while working on a lesson, and much more.

“The redesign gives students a brand new visual experience within Monarch,” said Denise Laudenbach, President of Alpha Omega Publications. “Ultimately, the new design improves the efficiency of Monarch by making the program more user-friendly for parents and students.”

Committed to offering homeschoolers the best in online homeschool education, Alpha Omega Publications is proud to enhance the way users interact with Monarch.

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"Keep thy heart with all diligence; for out of it are the issues of life" (Proverbs 4:23).

The words were still echoing in my mind. "If every Christian homeschools his child, what will happen to the public schools?" asked a Christian friend as we chatted over the phone. "Doesn't God tell us to be salt and light in the world?"

Although I didn't have a good answer then, I thought about my friend's exhortation and logic. Examining our reasons for homeschooling, I considered the negative effect of continually exposing my child's heart to humanistic and ungodly teaching. Most elementary-aged children lack the reasoning skills to discern truth from conflicting messages, so how would a young child be able to debate with a teacher who didn't value the truths of Christ? After all, didn't recent statistics also prove that even high school students had difficulty in maintaining their faith throughout college? Clearly, expecting my young daughter to be the salvation for the evils of the public school seemed like a gross burden to place on her shoulders. Was I being selfish in caring about my child's needs before those of society? I didn't think so.

God has given parents the priority of first teaching and training their own children. Yes, Jesus wants our children to influence the world, but they can hardly do so until they are prepared. God's Word tells us to keep the heart with all diligence and assures us that a child must be trained in the way he should go (Proverbs 22:6). Therefore, before young people can influence the world for good without being influenced by evil, they must have a plumb line of truth based on God's Word. Unfortunately, homeschooling families are accused of brainwashing their children with religious nonsense and being intolerant to different ideas and beliefs.

As a homeschooling parent, have you been asked the "What about the kids left behind in public school" question? You know your child's heart. Don't let the world's salt and light argument deter you from following God's mandate for raising your child.

Father, thank You for giving me the responsibility to teach my children. Show me how and when to guide them into the world with the Gospel message of love and forgiveness. In Jesus' name, Amen.]]>Sun, 20 Jul 2014 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/home-of-contented-homeschoolers/
"And be content with such things as ye have: for he hath said, I will never leave thee, nor forsake thee" (Hebrews 13:5b).

Because you are a homeschooling parent, chances are your family has given up the two-income dream. You've probably done without in many areas, including new clothes, vacations, and eating out. Have you been noticing how everyone else seems to have much nicer homes and cars than you? Have you been thinking you are being left behind?

If so, don't allow your focus to be blurred. Stand firm against the evil one and his lies. Satan comes to us in our weak moments of frustration and fatigue, and he tries to convince us that everyone else has it better. Maybe if you just got a "regular" job and went back to work, you could get out from under the financial burdens you have. Matthew 6:25 says, "Therefore I say unto you, Take no thought for your life, what ye shall eat, or what ye shall drink; nor yet for your body, what ye shall put on. Is not the life more than meat, and the body than raiment?"

Trusting God for all your needs to homeschool involves a faith that will continue to be stretched. The extra expenses involved in buying curriculum and school supplies will even add more to that strain. Knowing God will meet those needs, but not always the wants, is the balance homeschool parents must find. God always provides, even if it is only macaroni and hot dogs. If we don't have the latest in fashion or the best house on the block, we still can enjoy life and the wonderful privilege of teaching our children. May we be like the apostle Paul when he said in Philippians 4:11, "For I have learned, in whatsoever state I am, therewith to be content."

Lord, help me to look to You today for all I need and make me thankful for the many blessings You've already given. Thank You that in Christ, I have all things. In Jesus' name, Amen.]]>Sat, 19 Jul 2014 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/too-hot-to-trot/
"Be not hasty in thy spirit to be angry: for anger resteth in the bosom of fools" (Ecclesiastes 7:9).

It was day seven of a two-week, 95 degree and above heat wave. I was thinking our homeschool family had done fairly well in not letting our tempers rise like the thermometer's mercury; however, as I walked outside to do the evening chores, I noticed several jobs left undone by my children. Frustrated with their poor performance, I continued to the barn to feed the horses and noticed my daughter riding her horse bareback in the arena. Dripping wet, the horse appeared to be sweating profusely. Angrily, I barked, "Don't you know that you shouldn't be riding that horse when it's this hot outside? Cool that animal down right now and get those chores done like I asked!"

As my daughter cowered and walked past me, I saw the hurt expression on her face. My angry outburst had wounded her spirit, and I knew that I needed to make short order of asking forgiveness. Walking up to her, I said, "I'm sorry, honey. I shouldn't have yelled at you like that."

"That's OK, Mom," she replied. "I forgive you. I'm sorry I didn't get the chores done like you asked. I was just waiting for it to cool down before working outside, and the reason my horse looked wet wasn't from sweat, it was actually from the water that I used to cool her off. I was just riding her from the pasture to the barn to put her in the shade."

Humbled by her loving response to my false accusations of irresponsibility, I asked forgiveness again and said, "I'm so sorry. How foolish I was to get so angry without even asking you a few simple questions!"

Anger may be a real human emotion, but like any other emotion, it should never be dictated or controlled by the flesh, no matter what the temperature is outside. Galatians 5:20 tells us that the Lord views wrath as a work of the flesh, and James 1:20 says, "the wrath of man worketh not the righteousness of God." God's remedy for controlling anger's destructive outbursts includes bridling the tongue (James 3:5-6) and allowing the Holy Spirit to help us be "swift to hear, slow to speak" (James 1:19). If homeschooling and the summer heat are getting to you, take a step back, count to ten, and pray for God's help to see and hear the problems for what they are: opportunities to display His grace instead of your anger. "He that is slow to wrath is of great understanding" (Proverbs 14:29a).

Father, forgive me when I allow anger to control my emotions and destroy my relationships. Help me instead to be controlled by the Holy Spirit and remember that true love is always patient, kind, and long-suffering. In Jesus' name, Amen.]]>Fri, 18 Jul 2014 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/ingredients-for-success/
As a young girl growing up, I was forever shaped by two influences from my parents. These two things not only gave me confidence to make a difference in this world, but they also molded me into the homeschooling mom I am today.

One was the unspoken words in my mother's unconditional love, even for a rebellious, disrespectful daughter. Repeatedly, I broke her heart with all of the foolish choices I made as a teenager. She, however, demonstrated the love of Christ with her patient prayers and knew that somehow God would change my life.

The other influence came one day when I was in tenth grade. I remember handing my report card to my father and seeing the look of pride in his eyes. When he saw the straight "A's" on the paper in his hand, he told me I had the ability to be anything I wanted. I felt so empowered with that blessing. Knowing my earthly father thought I was capable of so much gave me the confidence to face whatever came into my life.

God the Father loves us in much the same way. He gives us unconditional love and significance. As the "apple of His eye" (Psalm 17:8), He tells us we "can do all things through Christ which strengtheneth" us (Philippians 4:13) and blesses us with "every good gift and every perfect gift" (James 1:17). We are His treasured children, and He invites us to call Him "Abba, Father" (Romans 8:15). We have been grafted into His family if we receive the forgiveness He offers through the blood of His Son, Jesus. He has a purpose and a plan for us to succeed, even as homeschool parents.

Father God, thank You for taking my broken life and giving it meaning. Thank You for Your Son's saving grace and the joy of knowing I am loved. Help me to give what was given to me. Help me to love my children unconditionally and lead them to the purpose You have planned for their lives. In Jesus' name, Amen.]]>Thu, 17 Jul 2014 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/wonderful-words-of-life/
Sometimes it's not the words you say, but how you say them that can encourage or dishearten your children. Proverbs 12:18 says, "There is that speaketh like the piercings of a sword: but the tongue of the wise is health." We as parents must guard the words we choose to say as we homeschool our children. Phrases like "good job" or "I really like the way you did that" are great motivating tools to use with your children.

Unfortunately, we get lazy in our attitudes and think we can say whatever we want to our children and not affect them. My son brought this to my attention one day while I was speaking to a friend on the phone. I overheard him say to his sister, "I wish Mom would use her telephone voice when she is talking to us!" Ouch, that hurt! I realized my son noticed a difference in the choice of words I used and the kindness inflected in the tone of my voice when talking with someone other than him.

I learned a valuable lesson that day. If our families are the ones we love the most, we need to talk with the loving words that bless instead of discourage them. When our children do not understand a new concept being taught, correction needs to be done in a gentle and loving manner. Using words that make them feel inferior or slow is something we must avoid at all costs. Allow them the dignity to be wrong.

Don't ruin the atmosphere in your home with thoughtless remarks. Nothing will destroy your success in homeschooling quicker than phrases like "Are you still working on that?" or "I don't know why you do not understand this. Your brother learned this right away." Ask for God's grace each day to fill your speech with His words and show the love that will help your children be successful in their studies. Proverbs 16:24 says, "Pleasant words are as a honeycomb, sweet to the soul, and health to the bones."

Lord, help me to choose my words today as if I was speaking to You. Show me how to encourage my children during our homeschooling day in all I say and do. In Jesus' name, Amen.]]>Wed, 16 Jul 2014 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/dear-diary/
"And these things write we unto you, that your joy may be full" (1 John 1:4).

As I sat reading my thoughts from my prayer journal, I realized just how much my life had changed from the year before. Our first year of homeschooling had stretched me to the limit, and God's Word had encouraged me time and again. Favorite Bible passages and verses were written in entries on difficult days, and the tear-stained pages reminded me of emotional and financial frustrations. However, also recorded were countless moments of joy and discovery in watching my children grow and learn. Looking back, I saw how God had kept His promises and faithfully led me through the exciting and difficult task of homeschooling. Although some prayers were yet to be answered, my written chronicle was an encouragement to continue trusting the Lord for the next school year.

Maintaining a written record of God's miracles and blessings is an important aspect of any Christian's faith. As you document particular times of growth and blessing, you begin to understand God's purpose and plan for your life. Like seeing the bigger picture on a big screen TV, you become more aware of the specific details and events God is using to shape your life. Not only that, but any homeschooling parent can also tell you the very act of writing down information aids in memory retention. Each time you write, God's spiritual lessons become cemented in your mind to increase and strengthen your personal faith.

With summer almost over and the new school year quickly approaching, why not try the best advice I ever received from a seasoned homeschooler? Purchase a personal diary for this year's homeschooling adventure and let your thoughts and reflections take you to a new appreciation for homeschooling and the wonderful Lord you serve! "He will regard the prayer of the destitute, and not despise their prayer. This shall be written for the generation to come: and the people which shall be created shall praise the LORD" (Psalm 102:17-18).

Heavenly Father, what a joy to read and remember Your faithful presence as You upheld and provided for all our homeschooling needs! How great and good You are! Please, show me how to lead my children to You, so they can learn the same incredible lessons You've taught me. In Jesus' name, Amen.]]>Tue, 15 Jul 2014 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/worlds-worst-critic/
Homeschooling parents can be their own worst critic. Because the teacher inside strives for truth and accuracy, most have a tendency to judge themselves too harshly. Whenever I failed to teach a lesson perfectly or didn't have an immediate answer to my children's questions, I felt like a failure. After all, wasn't a teacher expected to know everything about every subject and have all the answers right at his fingertips? Thinking back, I now laugh at my foolish, unrealistic expectations of myself during those first years of homeschooling. Surprisingly, the hardest lesson learned in our homeschooling family was learned by me — no one's perfect, so learn from your mistakes and move on.

As Christians, we also have a tendency to be too hard on ourselves. We should seek holiness in our daily lives and strive to crucify the flesh's desire to sin, but we must also realize a very important fact — only Christ is perfect, and we are frail and but dust (Psalm 103:14). Since we inherit a sinful nature (Romans 3:23) and are susceptible to temptation, Christ knows us better than we know ourselves and challenges us to "watch and pray, that ye enter not into temptation: the spirit indeed is willing, but the flesh is weak" (Matthew 26:41). Although God knows how to "deliver the godly out of temptations" (2 Peter 2:9a) and provides a way of escape (1 Corinthians 10:13b), He also forgives us when we make mistakes and fail to listen to Him. As we come in repentance, Christ chooses not to deal with us according to our sins. Instead, His compassion removes our sin as far as the east is from the west (Psalm 103:10-13).

How about you? Are you beating yourself up over a past sin you've already confessed to God? Dear child of God, you no longer have to be under Satan's false bondage of guilt. If you've confessed and repented, Christ has forgiven you. Learn from your mistake and smile again knowing you're a child of God. Claim for yourself one of the greatest promises in the Bible: "There is therefore now no condemnation to them which are in Christ Jesus, who walk not after the flesh, but after the Spirit" (Romans 8:1).

Father, thank You for giving me new hope whenever I fail to follow You completely. Thank You for Your mercy and loving kindness that always encourage my heart to try again. In Jesus' name, Amen.]]>Mon, 14 Jul 2014 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/you-be-the-judge/
Let's face it. When you live together 24/7, a homeschooling family is bound to have disagreements and disputes. Our family was no exception. Daily, I found myself settling conflicts between my children over insignificant issues. While they were young, I realized my direct involvement was necessary in helping my children talk out their differences. However, as they grew older, I encouraged my children to resolve more and more of their own conflicts. Instead of me listening to their complaints and acting as a judge and jury, they learned to take responsibility for their actions and resolve their hurts and disagreements in Christ-like love. As my role became less, my children learned a valuable lesson — judging their actions honestly before God usually eliminated others from having to do so.

As Christians, the Bible also commands us to judge ourselves. To judge ourselves rightly, we must lose the total self-life that seeks only to please itself. Judging our actions and thoughts in the light of God's Word, we become Christ-conscious, not self-conscious. Just as importantly, we become Christ-controlled rather than self-controlled. All that is selfish is laid at the feet of Jesus as we recognize that in our self "dwelleth no good thing" (Romans 7:18). Judging ourselves also involves valuing others as better than ourselves (Philippians 2:3) and becoming selfless instead of practicing self-esteem.

What about you? Do you have trouble with your fleshly nature that cries out to please itself? Homeschooling can bring out the worst in our character as we face the daily pressures of raising a family and teaching them at home. If you find yourself demanding that everything go according to your plans in order to make your own life easier, you may want to follow some good advice: "For if we would judge ourselves, we should not be judged" (1 Corinthians 11:31).

Lord, examine my selfish heart and reveal those things that fail to honor You. Please, forgive me when I fail to act like Your servant and show me again how I can consider the members of my own family as more important than me. In Jesus' name, Amen.]]>Sun, 13 Jul 2014 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/fueling-the-flame/
"Restore unto me the joy of thy salvation; and uphold me with thy free spirit" (Psalm 51:12).

Sadly, a homeschooler's passion to teach his child sometimes begins to fade. The daily demands of caring for a household and the intense effort required in homeschooling drains even the most dedicated parent. When the homeschooling fire begins to die out, many may choose a halfhearted approach or adapt a martyr, make-it-through-the-day mentality. Others may stop homeschooling altogether and send their child back into a traditional school setting. The wise homeschooling parent, however, will see the coals growing dim and find the fuel necessary to rekindle the flame of passion first given by God. Yet, how does one go about finding that fuel?

To reignite the vision of his child's education, the best thing a worn-out homeschooling parent can do is ask the Holy Spirit to come and control him anew. As a parent deals with his own personal walk before the Lord, the time spent in self-examination and repentance will show areas in his character that need strengthening. Prideful attitudes are adjusted, and total dependence on God's guidance is reestablished, allowing Him the right to reign over the entire homeschooling process. Most of all, the Holy Spirit is able to clearly reveal Satan's discouragement and remind us what was happening when the passion was last burning brightly.

Have trials and discouragement stolen your first love of homeschooling? The fiery conviction you once felt for your child's education will die if you don't find the right fuel source to keep it on fire. Stay faithful to the call God has given and let the Holy Spirit lead and strengthen you today. As you read your Bible, memorize God's Word, and pray for the Holy Spirit's wisdom, you'll be amazed as God provides everything you need to keep the home fires burning! "Meditate upon these things; give thyself wholly to them; that thy profiting may appear to all. Take heed unto thyself, and unto the doctrine; continue in them" (1 Timothy 4:15-16a).

Lord, please rekindle the love of homeschooling in my heart. Remind me of the many blessings we have already experienced as a family and strengthen me to remain faithful as we face the upcoming school year. May You be praised in all we do. In Jesus' name, Amen.]]>Sat, 12 Jul 2014 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/lessons-from-an-aspen/
"But now are they many members, yet but one body" (1 Corinthians 12:20).

Summer vacation was a great learning adventure for our homeschooling family. As we took trips to the mountains, my children experienced lessons from nature that made both science and Scripture come alive. One lesson in particular came from a large stand of beautiful aspen trees. As we hiked past their white trunks, my son shared a fact he had learned from his schoolwork. "Mom, my science worktext says that aspen trees grow from one common root. Is that true?"

"Yes," I replied. "Every one of the individual trees you think you see is actually one big tree."

Excitedly, he ran from one tree to the next and cried, "Mom, look! This one tree must be over two miles long!"

Talking further, we discussed the similarity between the aspen tree and the body of Christ. "Each believer is like the individual aspen tree and plays a unique role in God's family," I said. "However, we all grow from one common root, Jesus Christ, and we must work together in the body."

Smiling, my son replied, "Yeah, I get it Mom. If we all do what we're supposed to as Christians, we'll show God's beauty like this bunch of trees . . . I mean tree," he laughed as he quickly corrected himself.

Do you know where God has placed you in the body of Christ? Although some gifts may seem more important than others, they're not (1 Corinthians 12:23-24). Each believer contributes to the well-being of the body by faithfully using the gifts God has given. Whether your spiritual gift is teaching, serving, or showing mercy, you can bloom where you're planted and give God the glory as you depend on the life-giving root of Christ's forgiveness and love. "Rooted and built up in him, and stablished in the faith, as ye have been taught, abounding therein with thanksgiving" (Colossians 2:7).

Father, thank You for my place in the body of Christ. Use our homeschooling family for Your glory and let us praise You with lives fully committed to Your purpose and plans. In Jesus' name, Amen.]]>Fri, 11 Jul 2014 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/second-guesses/
"Call unto me, and I will answer thee, and shew thee great and mighty things, which thou knowest not" (Jeremiah 33:3).

What was I thinking? In a few short weeks, I was going to be teaching my two oldest children at home. As I opened the boxes of homeschool curriculum that had just come in the mail, I reflected on my commitment. Already, the negative feedback from family and friends had caused me to second guess my decision, and I wondered if it was too late to get out. Sure, I had taught my children their alphabet and numbers, but teaching them to read and learn mathematics was a whole new ballgame. Could I really do this? What if I really made a mess of things or couldn't stand the pressure of being home 24/7? As I struggled with these thoughts and others, I took my fears to the Lord and asked, "Am I really supposed to be homeschooling my children, or did I just imagine all this in a weak emotional moment?"

The story of Gideon became a comfort to me as I wrestled with the answer to this question. Like me, Gideon was unsure of God's leading and prayed, "If thou wilt save Israel by mine hand, as thou hast said, Behold, I will put a fleece of wool in the floor; and if the dew be on the fleece only, and it be dry upon all the earth beside, then shall I know that thou wilt save Israel by mine hand, as thou hast said" (Judges 6:36b-37). God graciously answered Gideon's prayer and went one step further when Gideon asked for the reverse scenario to take place with the fleece the following day.

Encouraged by Gideon's story, I placed my own fleece on the ground to confirm God's desire for me to homeschool my children. Asking for specific encouragement, God first led me to His Word in Deuteronomy 6:6-7. Feeling empowered by its truth and the Holy Spirit, my final confirmation came that evening as I tucked my children into bed. Grabbing me tightly around the neck and placing a big kiss on my cheek, my children said, "Thanks for teaching us, Mommy. We're going to have so much fun!" And guess what happened? For the next 25 years, we did!

Lord Jesus, thank You for being a loving God who answers me when I pray. Please, strengthen me now to give my children the best homeschool education and always come to You when life makes me confused and uncertain. In Jesus' name, Amen.]]>Thu, 10 Jul 2014 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/what-defines-homeschooling/
The debate over what can be considered “true homeschooling” is heating up. Most recently, it has centered on the variety of new, online education options, especially those that receive government funding. According to a recent article published by The Heartland Institute, it’s leading to some confusion for parents who wish to homeschool.

“When you take government money, there's always strings attached,” said Debi Ketron, the director of the Indiana Association of Home Educators, in her interview with author Kate Patrick. “We choose freedom because we can choose our own curriculum.”

What do you think? With so many different ways to school at home, what’s your definition of homeschooling?

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"Therefore I will look unto the LORD; I will wait for the God of my salvation: my God will hear me" (Micah 7:7).

Preparing for the new school year started early in our home. Lesson plans needed to be made for each child, and boxes of new and used curriculum needed to be sorted. As I began to look ahead into my son's ninth grade science, I realized we were missing a very important component to a successful year — a quality microscope. For the past several years, we had managed with an inexpensive model, but a serious study in biology required something better. However, with my homeschooling budget already spent on curriculum, I had no idea how we could afford this additional expense.

Throughout the remainder of the summer, I continued to worry over the situation. On several occasions, I attempted to lay the burden at my Lord's feet and leave it there, but then the waves of anxiety would creep over me again. Soon, only a week remained before our scheduled start date for school, and more or less, I gave up on the dream of having a new microscope. Even my idea of sharing a microscope between several homeschooling families was turned down by my friends.

That weekend, however, God took me to His schoolroom to teach me a valuable lesson about His timetable and provision. My brother, who was a medical doctor, called unexpectedly, and somehow we got onto the topic of science during our conversation. By chance (I don't think so), he mentioned he had a microscope left over from his pre-med days in college, and he promised to send it to my son. Thinking it was probably somewhat similar to what we had now, both my son and I were amazed when we opened my brother's package on the first day of school. There, in all its glory, sat a high-tech, state-of-the-art scientific microscope complete with glass slides and other lab paraphernalia. My eyes filled with tears as I realized again God's unfailing blessings on our homeschool. Yes, if we learn to wait on the Lord, He is never early nor late in sending us exactly what we need. "For since the beginning of the world men have not heard, nor perceived by the ear, neither hath the eye seen, O God, beside thee, what he hath prepared for him that waiteth for him" (Isaiah 64:4).

Lord, Your loving faithfulness is too high to comprehend and too wonderful to understand! Thank You for guiding our family while we homeschool and always sending what we need, when we need it. In the name of Jesus, Amen.]]>Wed, 09 Jul 2014 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/no-worthless-thing/
"The light of the body is the eye: if therefore thine eye be single, thy whole body shall be full of light" (Matthew 6:22).

The best decision we made after choosing to homeschool was removing the television from our home. Since both my husband and I had been raised with Saturday morning cartoons, public television, and after-school programs, we found it difficult to let go of the comfortable familiarity of television programming. However, God's conviction was sure as He made us aware of the time we were wasting watching unproductive entertainment. In addition, we both had seen the deterioration of programming and advertising content that included blatant disregard for life, the Lord, and sexual decency. Fortunately, we finally turned off the tube and obeyed the Holy Spirit's promptings before our children became caught in the same trap.

Many New Testament believers faced a similar problem in leaving past loves as they began to grow in Christ. In the apostle Paul's letters to the Ephesians, he repeatedly exhorted this early church to refrain from the practices and lusts in which they had participated before coming to a saving knowledge of Christ. His call to purity and holiness in daily living included removing those former things that were not only a distraction, but also a temptation that would return them to a sinful lifestyle. Paul didn't mince any words when he said, "If so be that ye have heard him, and have been taught by him, as the truth is in Jesus: That ye put off concerning the former conversation the old man, which is corrupt according to the deceitful lusts; And be renewed in the spirit of your mind; And that ye put on the new man, which after God is created in righteousness and true holiness" (Ephesians 4:21-24).

Although following the Lord's leading was difficult, our homeschooling family began to realize multiple blessings after removing our television. Communication and heartfelt times of sharing developed, intellectual knowledge was stimulated through reading inspiring literature, exercise and preparation time for healthy meals increased, creativity was enhanced, and family fun and laughter filled our home. With so many benefits waiting to be experienced, what is keeping your homeschooling family from pulling the plug on your TV? "I will behave myself wisely in a perfect way. O when wilt thou come unto me? I will walk within my house with a perfect heart. I will set no wicked thing before mine eyes" (Psalm 101:2-3a).

Father, every day is a challenge to avoid the distractions and temptations that keep my heart and mind from following You. Please, show me how to discipline my life, so I might glorify You in all that I do. In the name of Jesus, Amen.]]>Tue, 08 Jul 2014 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/making-your-mark/
Bird watching (ornithology) was a favorite hobby of our homeschooling family in the summer. In fact, it became such a favorite pastime that we purchased a beautiful official field guide on North American birds just to identify unfamiliar species. Each time a family member identified a new bird, we made a mark next to the bird's picture in the book. At first, my children were reluctant to write anything in the pages of a resource book. Past experience in studying other subjects had taught them this was unacceptable. However, as we logged more and more sightings, they became comfortable using the guide and grew more interested in identifying every species contained within its pages.

Learning to mark Bible passages during insightful times in your spiritual walk is also difficult for most Christians. Writing in the margins and underlining verses may seem uncomfortable at first, but the more you apply the Word of God to your current circumstances, the more comfortable you become in noting those verses speaking to your heart. As you highlight verses and passages that bring encouragement, comfort, and hope, you'll leave a trail of the Holy Spirit's work in your life through the wonderful promises of God. Since the Word of God is living and active (Hebrews 4:12), you'll even discover new lessons from the same passages as you continue to grow in Christ.

Is the Bible the most read and the most marked book on your shelf? If not, consider using the Word of God as your worktext for daily living. The thoughts and wisdom God imparts as you study His Word are worth noting. Not only does the Bible remind you of what God has done for you, but it also helps you teach others the same lesson when they face similar difficulties in life. After all, what greater legacy can you leave than the recorded history of your spiritual walk with God in the pages of your own Bible? "For the word of God is quick, and powerful, and sharper than any twoedged sword, piercing even to the dividing asunder of soul and spirit, and of the joints and marrow, and is a discerner of the thoughts and intents of the heart" (Hebrews 4:12).

Lord, thank You for Your written Word that leads me into truth. Help me to treasure those insights You choose to reveal as I apply Your Word to my life and help me to record them as a testimony of Your unfailing love. In the name of Jesus, Amen.]]>Mon, 07 Jul 2014 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/pruning-pains/
"Every branch in me that beareth not fruit he taketh away: and every branch that beareth fruit, he purgeth it, that it may bring forth more fruit" (John 15:2).

As we walked through the garden one morning during our summer break from homeschooling, my daughter watched as I began to pinch off the tops of several tomato plants. With a shocked look on her face, she cried, "Mom, what are you doing? We've been trying to get these plants to grow for weeks, and now you're destroying them!"

"No," I gently responded. "These plants have grown tall enough. If I don't cut them back now, they'll only grow more vines instead of tomatoes. We need to break off the top, so the energy of the plant goes toward bearing fruit."

"OK," she replied hesitantly in disbelief, "but I sure hope you know what you're doing."

The process of pruning can also seem shocking in our spiritual lives. When God allows circumstances that outwardly appear to destroy our hopes and dreams, we may react like my young daughter in the garden. Not understanding the purpose behind the pain, we are tempted to believe that God doesn't know what He is doing or He doesn't love us. However, if we learn to come to the Lord in humility and total dependence during these trying times, He will carefully shape our character into the image of His Son. In the end, the fruit of righteousness that God desires in all His children will be produced from His careful and loving pruning.

Do you feel like your life is in the pruning process? If circumstances seem to be robbing you of joy and causing you to doubt God's love, don't let your pain cause you to run from the Lord. Instead, run into the arms of your loving Father and allow the Holy Spirit to comfort you as God continues to perfect the good work He has begun in you. "My brethren, count it all joy when ye fall into divers temptations; Knowing this, that the trying of your faith worketh patience. But let patience have her perfect work, that ye may be perfect and entire, wanting nothing" (James 1:2-4).

Father God, my heart aches from the problems in my life, but I choose to reach out in faith and believe You are in control. Please, show me Your loving grace and help me to understand the work You're doing in my life. In Jesus' name, Amen.]]>Sun, 06 Jul 2014 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/how-big-is-god/
"But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus" (Philippians 4:19).

When homeschooling limits your finances, do you trust God to provide for your every need? As I sat in the doctor's office and listened to him confirm my fourth pregnancy, I had no idea how God was going to help us afford the medical bills. Homeschooling and daily living expenses involved with raising three children had consumed my husband's total income. I knew we had no way to repay the costs for prenatal care, and I was forced to inform my doctor of our situation as he attempted to schedule my next appointment. Compassionately, he replied, "OK, let's just go ahead and schedule your next visits anyway. If God provides the money, you can pay me. If not, we'll just forget about the bill."

Reluctantly, my husband and I accepted our doctor's proposal, and I proceeded with my monthly visits throughout the summer months. Then, as we began our regular homeschooling schedule in August, the most amazing thing happened. A local business called and offered me a part-time accounting job writing dividend checks. I could perform the work at home during the evening hours, and if I finished the project before October, I could earn an hourly rate that was far above the current minimum wage. For the next two months, I worked long hours to homeschool during the day and complete my work at night for my new job. Exactly one week before I delivered our fourth child, I finished the project and earned not only enough money to pay our doctor, but also enough money to cover the entire hospital bill. God in His goodness had proven Himself faithful to provide for our every need.

Are you facing a financial crisis in your family because you have chosen to homeschool? God is big enough to meet even the most challenging situations. There is no problem too great that He cannot solve and no need so large that He cannot provide. Simply lay your burden before the Lord in prayer, and you'll be amazed at what He can do! "I have been young, and now am old; yet have I not seen the righteous forsaken, nor his seed begging bread. He is ever merciful, and lendeth; and his seed is blessed" (Psalm 37:25-26).

Lord, we praise You for Your abundant and timely provisions that reaffirm Your loving hand on our lives. Thank You for being big enough to meet every homeschooling need we have and using our family for Your glory. In Jesus' name, Amen.]]>Sat, 05 Jul 2014 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/more-than-a-celebration/
"Freedom is never free." - Author Unknown

Memorizing historical documents was an important part of our homeschooling history lessons. Unfortunately, my children were less than enthusiastic about this particular assignment. Often, they would forget the value of the words they recited and either speak as quickly as possible or in slow, monotone voices. One day, as my son recited the beginning of the Declaration of Independence at the speed of light, I stopped him in mid-sentence and asked, "Have you ever considered the price that was paid when those men signed the words you're now reciting?"

"No, not really," he answered nonchalantly.

"Well, maybe we should stop here and do a little study to find out," I replied. As we sidetracked our original lesson plans, my son discovered an amazing fact. When each of the 56 men signed his name to the declaration on July 4, 1776, they did indeed pledge their lives, their fortunes, and their sacred honor. King George III and Great Britain pursued each name on the document with a vengeance and were determined to eradicate this rebellious group of colonists who declared, "No king but King Jesus!"

"Wow, Mom! I never knew they gave up so much just so we could be free," exclaimed my son. "I guess the Fourth of July is more than just fireworks and hot dogs."

As Christians, we also take for granted the privileges we enjoy in Christ. The Bible tells us that God did not spare His Son, but He delivered Him up for us all (Romans 8:32a). Through the shedding of Christ's blood (Hebrews 9:22), we are able to defeat Satan and sin. Do you value the price that was paid for your salvation, as well as your country? Let this Fourth of July be a double blessing in your life as you consider not only the privilege of being an American, but also the privilege of being called a child of the King. "Forasmuch as ye know that ye were not redeemed with corruptible things, as silver and gold, from your vain conversation received by tradition from your fathers; But with the precious blood of Christ, as of a lamb without blemish and without spot" (1 Peter 1:18-19).

Lord, thank You for giving me the opportunity to live in a country that was founded by godly men who loved You. Teach me to value their sacrifice and continue proclaiming Your great name to all generations. In Jesus' name, Amen.]]>Fri, 04 Jul 2014 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/100-editions-of-inspiring-motivating-and-assisting-homeschoolers/
This month marks the 100th edition of the Homeschool View. Filled with teaching tips, news, spiritual encouragement, and more, our monthly newsletter helps homeschool families make the most of at-home learning. We hope that through the years you’ve taken away things from these stories, perhaps pieces that stayed with you or inspired you to think or teach in a new way.

For this 100th edition, we invite you to look back at the most popular and influential moments in the history of the Homeschool View.

1. The Duggar Family on Homeschool OrganizationWith 19 children, this Christian homeschool couple has plenty of practical experience that may give you ideas for your homeschooling routine. Although she’s the first to say she’s still learning, Michelle Duggar openly shares insights in an exclusive interview with AOP.

2. Homeschool Snowboarder Wins First Gold Medal at 2014 Olympic Games“WOW!! I just won the Olympics!! Bringing back the first Gold here to the USA! Love seeing all the support from everyone YOU RULE!!” tweeted AOA alumnus and snowboarder Sage Kotsenburg after winning the first gold medal of the 2014 Winter Olympics in Sochi, Russia.

3. What Colors Help Children Learn?Colors are part of our language and culture, and they have a big impact on what and how we learn. Not only do colors send signals to the brain to make us hungry or calm, but they also have the power to distract a child or enhance a child's learning potential.

4. How to Speak Your Homeschooler’s Love LanguageChildren sense love in five basic ways: words of affirmation, gift giving, quality time, acts of service, and physical touch. Do you know which of these love languages speaks loudest to your child's heart?

5. How to Homeschool Multiple ChildrenTeaching several kids at home can put a strain on parents’ patience in the struggle to get the family focused on the day’s assignments. You can successfully homeschool siblings, however, by applying a few tips and tricks.

6. Tebow Bills Gain Ground on Equality for HomeschoolersThanks to Tim Tebow Bills, homeschoolers can try out for band, football, music, theater, and more at public schools. While supporters say the bill gives all students equal access to activities, some homeschoolers have voiced concerns that the bill would increase government regulation.

7. Time Management for Today’s Homeschooling ParentSince you only have 24 hours to eat, sleep, shower, homeschool, and relax, how do you get it all done? Become more efficient with your time by incorporating these essential time management, organization, and planning strategies into your homeschooling.

8. Seven Family Rules to Help HomeschoolersCreated with God’s guidance and the entire family’s input, a set of daily living standards promotes harmony, enhances homeschooling, and establishes a strong statement about your family. Here are seven suggestions to get started.

9. Homeschoolers Get More SleepIf you’re concerned that your school day starts late or that your child sleeps in, don’t despair. One study shows that homeschoolers are happier, healthier, and perform better academically and socially because they get more sleep than their public and private school peers.

10. Seven Ways Dads Affect HomeschoolingWhen it comes to homeschooling, do you ever wonder what a father’s role is supposed to be? Although I made plenty of mistakes along the way, I learned the tremendous importance of my active involvement as a homeschool dad.

2. Include the following information on the back of the coloring page or in the email’s body copy: a. The child’s name and age. b. The guardian’s name, address, email address, and phone number. (Note: All winners will be contacted by either phone or email).

Emailed entries should be sent as a .jpg or pdf and kept to a file size of 1MB. All entries must be received by 11:59 p.m. (CT) on Thursday, July 31, 2014. Winners will be announced on AOP's homeschool blog and Facebook page on Friday, August 8, 2014. Limit one entry per child.

Coloring Contest Rules

1. How to Enter: No purchase necessary. Download and print the coloring page of your choice from our selection. Then, have your child color the picture with crayons, markers, or colored pencils. Include the child’s name and age, as well as the guardian’s name, address, email address, and phone number on the back of the coloring page or in the email’s body copy. Finally, email your child’s completed artwork as an attachment to contribute@aop.com, or mail your child’s completed artwork to:

Emailed entries should be sent as a .jpg or pdf and kept to a file size of 1MB. Each address received through this contest will automatically be included on Alpha Omega Publications’ mailing list. Limit one entry per child.

2. Prizes: Three winners will be chosen. 1st Place Prize:One(1) AOP 5-subject Set in the winner’s choice of curriculum. Maximum retail value: $449.95. 2nd Place Prize: The Usborne Book of Art Ideas. Approximate retail value: $14.99. 3rd Place Prize: The Usborne I Can Draw Animals and I Can Draw People art books. Approximate retail value: $9.98.

3. Contest Eligibility: Contestants must be between the ages of 3 and 10 and entered by a parent or guardian 18 years of age or older to participate in this contest. Employees of Glynlyon, Inc. and their immediate families with whom they reside are not eligible to win this contest. The definition of immediate family as it pertains to these rules includes mother, father, brother, sister, spouse, and child.

4. Contest Entry Closing Date: The contest entry closing date is Thursday, July 31, 2014. All entries must be received by 11:59 p.m. (CT) on Thursday, July 31, 2014.

5. Selection of Winners: Judging will take place by AOP during the week of August 4, 2014. One entry will be selected for 1st place, 2nd place, and 3rd place, and the names on these entries will be declared the winners. The winners will be contacted by email or telephone at the address or number indicated on the back of the winning entries. Winners will be announced on AOP's homeschool blog and Facebook page on Friday, August 8, 2014.

6. Probability of Winning: The probability of winning a prize depends on the total number of eligible entries received before the contest deadline in accordance with these rules.

7. No Substitutions by Winners: Each prize must be accepted as awarded without substitution and cannot be transferred. Each prize has no cash equivalent.

8. Decisions Final: All decisions made by AOP with respect to all aspects of this contest are final and not subject to challenge. These rules may be amended at any time by AOP without notice. AOP expressly reserves the right to take any steps it deems necessary in its absolute discretion, including the limiting of entries and the exclusion of entrants in order to ensure that the contest is conducted in a fair way for all contestants and AOP.

9. No Liability: AOP and its employees, agents, and representatives shall not be responsible in any way for any loss or damage arising from the use of the prize awarded in this contest or the entry by contestant herein. AOP assumes no responsibility or liability for any risk associated with the acceptance or use of the prize awarded as part of this contest.

10. Entries Belong to AOP: All entries become the property of AOP and will not be returned.

11. Lost Entries: AOP is not responsible for any lost, misdirected, or delayed entries.

12. Consent to Use: By entering the contest, entrants consent to the use of their name, address, and telephone number(s) by AOP for the explicit purpose of expanding the AOP database of customers or potential customers. Entrants may receive the following from AOP employees or representatives via regular mail: catalogs, specials, promotional offers, telephone calls, postcards, fliers, or other advertising material.

13. Applicable Laws: This contest is subject to all applicable state and federal laws and regulations, and any dispute relating hereto will be determined by a Maricopa County, Arizona, court applying Arizona law. Void where prohibited.

14. Personal Information: The personal information obtained from the contest entry form will not be used or disclosed by AOP for any purpose whatsoever other than general contest administration and the purpose set forth in these contest rules.

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Take a look at the future of homeschooling and trends that are taking hold in this top 10 list.

1. Colleges and universities are becoming more homeschool-friendly. Most institutions have improved their admissions policy to include homeschoolers and loosened requirements for accredited transcripts.

2. Several states have passed new laws requiring methods of validating homeschoolers’ learning. Stay up to date on homeschool laws in your state.

3. More families are using online resources and education opportunities. Access has increased, too.

4. Some families are beginning to use homeschool consultants to help them set up their child’s curriculum.

5. More parents of special needs children are homeschooling, especially those of autistic children.

6. As homeschooling becomes more mainstream, it is also moving toward becoming part of a learning economy, in which it works cooperatively with public and private schools and shares resources, rather than competing.

7. Unschooling is growing in popularity as many homeschool families find a balance between formal curriculum and real-life experiences.

Limiting our list of famous homeschoolers to just 100 was a daunting task, but here they are – scholars, athletes, politicians, entertainers, artists, and many more notable names from past to present.

1. James Madison

2. George Washington

3. Woodrow Wilson

4. Andrew Jackson

5. James Garfield

6. John Adams

7. John Quincy Adams

8. Grover Cleveland

9. William Henry Harrison

10. Thomas Jefferson

11. Andrew Johnson

12. Abraham Lincoln

13. James Monroe

14. James Polk

15. Franklin D. Roosevelt

16. Theodore Roosevelt

17. John Tyler

18. Leonardo da Vinci

19. Charles Peale

20. Andrew Wyeth

21. Claude Monet

22. Grandma Moses

23. Alexander Graham Bell

24. Thomas Edison

25. Eli Whitney

26. Orville and Wilbur Wright

27. George Patton

28. Douglas MacArthur

29. Robert E. Lee

30. Stonewall Jackson

31. Agatha Christie

32. Charles Dickens

33. Robert Frost

34. C.S. Lewis

35. Beatrix Potter

36. Louis Armstrong

37. Taylor Swift

38. Whoopi Goldberg

39. Charlie Chaplin

40. Benjamin Franklin

41. Ansel Adams

42. Margaret Mead

43. Albert Schweitzer

44. Frank Lloyd Wright

45. Sandra Day O’Connor

46. Winston Churchill

47. George Washington Carver

48. Albert Einstein

49. Elias Howe

50. Joan of Arc

51. Bethany Hamilton

52. The Duggars

53. Sage Kotsenburg

54. Charlotte Mason

55. Michelle Kwan

56. Tim Tebow

57. Venus and Serena Williams

58. Amelia Earhart

59. Susan B. Anthony

60. Gloria Steinem

61. Abby and Zac Sunderland

62. Joseph Pulitzer

63. Condoleezza Rice

64. Colonel Harland Sanders

65. Louisa May Alcott

66. Jane Austen

67. Mark Twain

68. Robert Browning

69. Helen Keller

70. Clara Barton

71. Christopher Paolini

72. Carl Sandburg

73. George Bernard Shaw

74. John Philip Sousa

75. Hans Christian Andersen

76. Margaret Atwood

77. Irving Berlin

78. Wolfgang Amadeus Mozart

79. Laura Ingalls Wilder

80. LeAnne Rimes

81. Andrew Carnegie

82. Davy Crockett

83. John Burroughs

84. Robert Louis Stevenson

85. Walt Whitman

86. Isaac Newton

87. Florence Nightingale

88. Pearl S. Buck

89. Alyssa, Lauren, and Rebecca Barlow (BarlowGirl)

90. Justin Timberlake

91. Selena Gomez

92. The Jonas Brothers

93. Booker T. Washington

94. Jennifer Love Hewitt

95. Dakota Fanning

96. Ryan Gosling

97. Patrick Henry

98. Abigail Adams

99. Noah Webster

100. Sir Ernest Shackleton

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"I have fought a good fight, I have finished my course, I have kept the faith" (2 Timothy 4:7).

Christian education is a spiritual battle that must be fought by every homeschooling parent. The desire to see our children raised according to the standards of God's Word requires more than wishful thinking. We must ever be alert to Satan's schemes and the world's ways that try to suck our children into the mainstream of ungodly learning. We must be willing to risk popularity and acceptance to lead our children down an educational path that declares God is at the center of all things and the beginning of all creation. Most of all, we must declare our own love for Christ and be willing to crucify the flesh and its selfish desires in order to win our children's hearts to the Lord.

The great men and women of faith mentioned in Hebrews 11 are listed as our inspiration to hold fast to God's truths. Like Abraham, we must be willing to follow the Lord wherever He leads. Like Moses, we must be willing to give up the pleasures of life to serve a higher purpose. Like Rahab, we must have faith to believe what the Lord says is true. Like Noah, we must face opposition daily, even if it takes years to complete the task God has given. Like countless others who never saw the results of their faith, we must cling courageously to the future promise that God will bless the work of our hands in the lives of generations to come (Psalm 112:2).

Are you feeling the temptation to give up on homeschooling? Sending your children to public school next fall may seem appealing, but it's simply taking the easy way out. If the Lord has led you to teach your children, pray for the courage and wisdom you need to stand firm and fight. Raising your children in the Lord is as much a spiritual battle as resisting temptations for yourself. Don't give in to the lies and harassment of those around you. Fight for the hearts and minds of your children and the work God can do through their lives in winning countless souls to Christ.

Lord, renew Your passion within me today to homeschool and teach my children Your truths. Guide us as we prepare for schooling in the fall and show me how to hold fast when taking an easier road seems much more appealing. In Jesus' name, Amen.]]>Thu, 03 Jul 2014 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/a-hannah-heartache/
"Lo, children are an heritage of the LORD: and the fruit of the womb is his reward" (Psalm 127:3).

When you are facing mountains of laundry or dealing with childhood squabbles, it's hard to imagine the heartache of couples who long for children. Two of our dearest friends experienced such heartache. For ten years they tried without success to start their own family. Realizing that God had chosen a different path for their marriage, they decided to "adopt" our children and actively help us when homeschooling. Whenever they came to visit, my children would squeal with delighted anticipation and run to the door to greet them. Natural-born teachers at heart, they usually brought a new educational gift to entertain our children, or they would spend countless hours reading their favorite stories. Even though bitterness in not having children of their own could have ruled their hearts, they chose instead to share their lives with unselfish love.

The story of Hannah in 1 Samuel also tells of the heartache of a childless woman. Crying out in despair before the Lord in the temple, Hannah knew the anguish of being barren. As she prayed silently for a little one to fill her arms, Eli the priest mistook her prayers for a drunken stupor. Hannah bravely told him her story and asked for God's blessing on her life. Eli assured her that God had indeed heard her prayer and told her to go home. The following year, Hannah's prayer was answered and Samuel was born. For several years she experienced the privilege of mothering this young boy and fulfilled her vow to bring him to the temple to serve the Lord (1 Samuel 1:11).

Every child is a miracle and a precious gift from God. Whether our own or someone else's child, we have the unique opportunity to be an influence for God's good in the hearts and minds of little ones. Our dear friends discovered that fact many years later. After the lengthy and expensive process of adoption, God finally gave them their heart's desire. Together we cried tears of joy for two precious baby girls. God had answered their prayers, and we praised Him for His most wonderful blessing in life — children. "He maketh the barren woman to keep house, and to be a joyful mother of children. Praise ye the LORD" (Psalm 113:9).

Lord, how wonderful it is to be a parent! Thank You for the privilege of loving children and teaching them Your truths. Even when the days are long and hard, help me to always treasure this most precious blessing. In Jesus' name, Amen.]]>Wed, 02 Jul 2014 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/whats-your-history-iq/
Save 17.76% on all history courses and resources during the Independence Day Sale at Alpha Omega Publications! Plus, get free shipping* on all orders over $50. Use coupon code 1776 from July 1-9 when you call 800-622-3070 or shop online.

Also, in celebration of our nation’s 238th birthday, take the short quiz below to see how much you know about United States history. The answers are below.

1. Who said, “Give me liberty or give me death”?

2. The Statue of Liberty was a gift from which country?

3. What is the “day that will live in infamy”?

4. What was the bloodiest war in U.S. history?

5. Which president issued a proclamation of strict and impartial neutrality at the beginning of World War I?

6. What begins with the words, “When in the Course of human events it becomes necessary for one people”?

7. True or false? Three presidents have been impeached.

8. What was America’s first constitution called?

9. John Adams, Benjamin Franklin, Alexander Hamilton, Thomas Jefferson, James Madison, and George Washington are known as what?

10. What opened in 1915 and greatly shortened the sea voyage between the east and west coasts of North America?

11. Why did President Eisenhower issue an order for a new U.S. flag to become official on July 4, 1960?

12. What eight-decade struggle ended when the 19th Amendment was ratified in 1920?

13. Whose landslide victory over James Cox was the first to be reported by commercial radio?

14. What made the Ford administration different from any other in U.S. history?

15. What were the 13 original colonies?

You’re done! Give yourself one point for each correct answer and one extra point for correctly answering #15.

Answers(1) Patrick Henry (2) France (3) December 7, 1941, the day of the attack on Pearl Harbor (4) The Civil War, in which more than 600,000 American soldiers lost their lives (5) Woodrow Wilson (6) The Declaration of Independence (7) False Andrew Johnson & Bill Clinton were impeached. Richard Nixon officially resigned before impeachment (8) The Articles of Confederation (9) Founding Fathers (10) Panama Canal (11) Alaska and Hawaii were admitted to the Union in 1959. (12) Women’s right to vote (13) Warren G. Harding (14) Neither the president nor the vice president had been elected to office (15) Connecticut, Delaware, Georgia, Maryland, Massachusetts, New Hampshire, New Jersey, New York, North Carolina, South Carolina, Pennsylvania, Rhode Island, and Virginia

*Applies to standard ground shipping on orders over $50 within the continental United States. This offer cannot be combined with other offers and is only valid on history courses and resources.

]]>Tue, 01 Jul 2014 01:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/to-please-or-not-to-please/
"That ye might walk worthy of the Lord unto all pleasing, being fruitful in every good work, and increasing in the knowledge of God" (Colossians 1:10).

I loved homeschooling my children when they were four, five, and six years old because it was so easy to teach them. Curious and loving, my children were as anxious to please as they were to learn. Mom and Dad's approval meant the world to them as they attempted to master new skills, and any words of encouragement and affirmation from us were soaked up like a sponge. Granted, at this age my children loved learning for learning's sake, but in large part, they also studied hard, so we would be proud of their educational accomplishments.

As Christians, God also desires that we come before His presence and live to please Him. He has so much to teach us and knows we'll be happiest if we understand His will and obey His plan for our lives. However, many of us ignore God's desire and waste years seeking the approval and affirmation of others, including our own family. As we attempt to please everyone but the One who loves us most, we eventually find ourselves burned out and frustrated.

How about you? Are you so busy trying to please everyone that you've forgotten about pleasing God? If you struggle in keeping Christ your first love, consider the One who loves you so much that He sent His Son to die for your sins. With so great a love, doesn't He deserve to be number one on your "to please" list? "By him therefore let us offer the sacrifice of praise to God continually, that is, the fruit of our lips giving thanks to his name. But to do good and to communicate forget not: for with such sacrifices God is well pleased" (Hebrews 13:15-16).

Heavenly Father, every breath and every moment I experience on Earth is from You. Teach me to worship and please You with all that I am. All glory to You for being such a loving and wonderful God. In Jesus' name, Amen.]]>Tue, 01 Jul 2014 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/unfulfilled-days/
Do homeschooling parents ever admit that life is anything but one blissful moment after another with their children? If they're honest, they will. As much as we would like to proclaim homeschooling's benefits and see our children's lives through rose-colored glasses, we must also attest to our children's sinful behavior that causes disruption in the home and unproductive homeschooling days. Children easily demonstrate sinful actions of selfishness, greed, jealousy, and other undesirable characteristics that require daily correction and training in righteousness. Like management in the workplace, wise homeschooling parents must allow for down times in academic productivity to address the more important issue of character building in their children.

Amazingly, there are many similarities between our relationship with our children and God's relationship with us. As His children, we demonstrate actions that disrupt God's family of believers. With selfishness, pride, and rebellion, we fail to be productive in accomplishing God's will. Daily, God must discipline us and provide the instruction in righteousness that develops Christ-like character. Patiently, He continues to perfect the work He has begun in us, so our lives will bear much fruit for His name's sake (Philippians 1:6).

Are the frustrations of homeschooling tempting you to give up teaching your children? Do you find yourself taking one step forward and two steps backward? Just as God gently corrects and teaches you in your spiritual walk, allow the Lord to help you show that same patience toward your children. Although your days may seem unfulfilling, you are giving your children the exact education they need. "Therefore, my beloved brethren, be ye stedfast, unmovable, always abounding in the work of the Lord, forasmuch as ye know that your labour is not in vain in the Lord" (1 Corinthians 15:58).

Lord, how difficult it is to stay on track in our homeschooling! Remind me that we are learning more than just academics and show me how to deal with my children's true needs. In Jesus' name, Amen.]]>Mon, 30 Jun 2014 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/poor-pitiful-me/
"O give thanks unto the LORD; for he is good: because his mercy endureth for ever" (Psalm 118:1).

Standing in the basement doing laundry, I wondered, "How much of your life do you sacrifice before there's nothing more to give?" I was missing a beautiful summer day outside and feeling frustrated that there was so little time for the things I enjoyed. I dreamed of relaxing in the sun with an ice cold glass of lemonade and a good book or riding my horse into the open pastures near our ranch. Homeschooling seemed to be consuming my entire life, and each day I felt a little more drained. If I wasn't teaching my children, I was cleaning their messes. Would there ever be time again for me?

Self-pity is a destructive force in a person's life because it fails to acknowledge God's goodness with a grateful heart. The Hebrew nation's constant grumbling is a prime example (Psalm 106:25). For over 470 years, they cried out to God for a deliverer to rescue them from bondage in Egypt. When deliverance finally came and Moses led them to the Promised Land, they continued to complain, even to the point of longing to go back to Egypt. Although God had proven Himself mighty with miracles and provisions, they failed to be thankful for His loving hand of protection.

What about you? If the demands of homeschooling have you down, stop your personal pity party and think again about what the Lord has done. Your days might be busy, but God has blessed you with incredible opportunities to change the world through your children's lives. Let praise and thankfulness replace your "poor me's" and watch as God blesses your faithfulness in serving Him as a homeschooling parent. "I will bless the LORD at all times: his praise shall continually be in my mouth" (Psalm 34:1).

Father, forgive my selfishness when I fail to appreciate all You have given to our family. Lift my heart today and help me to focus on the things in life that are truly important. In Jesus' name, Amen.]]>Sun, 29 Jun 2014 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/handing-over-the-reins/
"Likewise, ye wives, be in subjection to your own husbands" (1 Peter 3:1a).

Our homeschooling day had been long and filled with interruptions. My toddlers had been cranky, and phone calls about organizing activities at church had put us behind schedule in our schoolwork. Herding my children from one subject to the next as quickly as possible, I felt like a trail boss blazing through our schoolwork. However, as the sun began to set, I realized we weren't going to finish our lessons for the day. Finding the best stopping point in our studies, I told my children to quickly put away their workbooks. My husband would soon be home from work, and it was time to pull out the chuck wagon to feed all my hungry hands.

Delegating kitchen responsibilities to my older children, we began to prepare supper. A short time later, my husband arrived, and he also helped in the preparations by setting the table. As he completed the chore, I continued to give more instructions to him and the children with the same trail boss attitude I had been using all day. Although my husband gladly helped with the assignments, I sensed a problem in his response to my commands. Forgetting to hand over the reins to our home, I realized I had been bossing my husband just like my children.

Although homeschooling husbands and wives work as a team, husbands must be allowed the opportunity to assume the leadership role in the family. Unfortunately, after being in charge of the home and the children all day, many homeschooling moms have difficulty in transferring that responsibility. In fact, our independent spirit and self-sufficient ways tend to leave Dad out of the homeschooling picture altogether. If you find yourself making the same mistake as me and not allowing your husband to lead, perhaps it's time to remember God's exhortation in Ephesians 5:22-23a: "Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord. For the husband is the head of the wife, even as Christ is the head of the church."

Lord, I know You've designed the home to work according to Your plan. Please, show me how to work together with my husband when homeschooling and transfer the leadership of our family to him once he is home. In Jesus' name, Amen.]]>Sat, 28 Jun 2014 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/sacrifice-or-blessing/
"For when I am weak, then am I strong" (2 Corinthians 12:10b).

God allowed me the privilege of teaching my children many things in 25 years of homeschooling. However, during those same years, my children also taught me several important lessons. First, I learned to savor the joy of life's moments. Reading a story or having time to talk was far more important than keeping the house perfectly organized and clean. Second, I learned to experience the wonder of God's creation through a child's excited eyes. Everything is fresh and new to a little one, and God desires me to experience each new day in the same way. Perhaps the most important lesson my children taught me was to have an unquestioning faith in God. Even when homeschooling cut the family budget in half, my children's faith challenged me to trust God for every need. Undoubtedly, I was the one who received the better education in our family's homeschool.

God's Word declares that if we choose to follow Christ in this life, we must be prepared to suffer (1 Peter 4:1). Showing the love of God to others isn't easy, and many times we may think God is asking too much of us. However, the blessings God imparts to those who desire to live godly in Christ Jesus far outweigh the sacrificial obedience required in learning lessons in God's schoolroom. Not only does the Holy Spirit intercede for us on our behalf (Romans 8:26), but He also guides and fills us for each day's tasks (John 16:13). The more we deny ourselves and give in serving the Lord, the more we experience the sweetness of His fellowship.

Have you experienced God's sustaining power and love in your homeschooling? When the days seem long and you feel like you've given everything you have, let the Lord show you a better way. As you allow Him to guide you, you'll discover His promises are true, and His blessings are far greater than any sacrifice made by you. "My grace is sufficient for thee: for my strength is made perfect in weakness. Most gladly therefore will I rather glory in my infirmities, that the power of Christ may rest upon me" (2 Corinthians 12:9b).

Father, I praise You for the great privilege of being Your servant. There's no way I can outgive You, and I thank You for Your abundant love that never ceases and encourages me through life's problems. In Jesus' name, Amen.]]>Fri, 27 Jun 2014 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/rod-of-righteousness/
"Wherefore let him that thinketh he standeth take heed lest he fall" (1 Corinthians 10:12).

Do you find disciplining your homeschooler difficult? I did for several different reasons. First, I hated being the policeman and the temporary conflict it caused when teaching my children. Being esteemed as their hero with all the answers was much more fun. Second, administering fair justice for the offense wasn't always easy to determine. Many times, what appeared to be misbehavior in one child was actually caused by the deliberate aggravation by another child. Most of all, I found disciplining my children difficult because I knew my own failings to meet God's righteous standards. More often than not, I usually found myself committing a similar offense within a few days of disciplining them for the very same thing.

The Bible tells us, "There is none righteous, no, not one" (Romans 3:10b). Everyone has sinned and turned to his own way in one thing or another. Whether it's lies, cursing, or bitterness, we all have feet that are quick to run to evil. Christ says that even thinking about such deeds is the same as committing the acts of sin (Matthew 5:28). Therefore, we must learn to deal gently and mercifully with other believers when they sin. In Christian love, we must hold a balance of loving forgiveness and accountability that takes into account our own sinful nature.

If your patience has run thin and you find yourself disciplining your homeschooler too severely, remember God's patient forgiveness toward you. He is the One who is able to give you the wisdom you need to give your child the right training in righteousness. "Brethren, if a man be overtaken in a fault, ye which are spiritual, restore such an one in the spirit of meekness; considering thyself, lest thou also be tempted" (Galatians 6:1).

Heavenly Father, help me to see the faults in me just as easily as I see them in my children. Show me how to lovingly correct their errors and teach them of Your forgiveness and unconditional love. In the name of Jesus, Amen.]]>Thu, 26 Jun 2014 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/priceless-treasures/
Attending local household and farm sales became a favorite activity for my son and me during our homeschooling summer break. We loved searching for new treasures, and my son learned the fine art of bidding on items as they were auctioned. As we arrived at one particular farm sale, however, my spirit was saddened as we meandered through tables and boxes filled with antiques and old-fashioned keepsakes. An elderly widow who had lived alone for many years had passed away, and all that remained of her life was sitting before us. From homemade potholders and doilies to exquisite crystal and china, each item once treasured by this old woman was now for sale. The value and memories they held meant nothing to the strangers purchasing them, and each item sold for next to nothing. "How sad," I said to my son. "These things should be selling for much more. They might as well be giving them away!"

Reflecting on the transactions before me, I saw the foolishness of my priorities in life. Someday, I too would return to dust like this old woman with all my possessions being rummaged through by a new generation of treasure seekers. The value of what I had owned would mean nothing, and my possessions would simply be sold at the cheapest price. As I thought more deeply, I realized Christ's words were true, "Lay not up for yourselves treasures upon earth, where moth and rust doth corrupt, and where thieves break through and steal; But lay up for yourselves treasures in heaven, where neither moth nor rust doth corrupt, and where thieves do not break through nor steal" (Matthew 6:19-20). Only the love I had shown to others while living for Christ would have any value, importance, or meaning.

What about you? Are you busy storing up treasures in heaven, or are you just accumulating things? Whatever you possess in this life will mean nothing when you stand face to face with your Creator. After all, the only treasures you can bring to heaven are the lives of those who come to know Christ as a result of your witness.Lord, forgive me when I value the wrong things in life. Teach me to know what's truly priceless in Your eyes, so Your will may be done in my life. In the name of Jesus, Amen.]]>Wed, 25 Jun 2014 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/unseen-worlds/
"Be sober, be vigilant; because your adversary the devil, as a roaring lion, walketh about, seeking whom he may devour" (1 Peter 5:8).

Summer science was a part of our homeschool curriculum. One particular experiment my children enjoyed was discovering the minute world contained within a square foot section of our lawn. After plotting and marking their sections, my children would lie on the grass for hours and take note of creatures and insects that would otherwise go unnoticed. Roly-poly bugs, ants, winged insects, beetles, and a host of other bugs, worms, and spiders comprised the intricately designed order of this small universe. Each new discovery brought an excited response of, "Mom, come and see this. Isn't this cool?" Like explorers in an unknown world, my children learned to see what most people miss in God's creation.

As Christians, we also face an unseen world that exists around us. Often, we are unaware of the angelic hosts and the spiritual battles they fight on our behalf as we stand in prayer against the wiles of Satan. Like Elisha's servant in 2 Kings 6:17, our eyes need to be opened to God's power that defeats Satan and his lies. As we humble our hearts and lie at the Master's feet, He promises to give us everything we need to live a victorious life. However, we can never afford the luxury of growing comfortable in our Christianity. Unseen spiritual battles must be fought in the name of Jesus and the power of His blood. Although we may not see them with our physical eyes, they do exist. In fact, God's Word says, "For though we walk in the flesh, we do not war after the flesh: (For the weapons of our warfare are not carnal, but mighty through God to the pulling down of strong holds)" (2 Corinthians 10:3-4).

Are life's problems pulling down your homeschool family? Although summer may seem like a time to relax, don't forget to stay alert and see each day through God's eyes. Allow Him to show you the unseen worlds of His mighty power and love that can handle any temptation Satan throws your way.

Father, please guide me today and keep me in the safety of Your love and protection. Help me to see Satan's temptations when they come and stand against his lies in Your power. In Jesus' name, Amen.]]>Tue, 24 Jun 2014 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/5-way-to-celebrate-olympic-day-at-home/
Held in honor of the first modern Olympic Games, Olympic Day is an annual international event celebrated on June 23. According to teamusa.org, millions of people in more than 160 countries participate each year with the goal of promoting health, fitness, and the Olympic ideals of fair play, perseverance, respect, and sportsmanship.

At AOP, we’re proud of Olympic athletes like Sage Kotsenburg, an Alpha Omega Academy alumnus who earned the first gold medal of the 2014 Olympic Games in Sochi. The time and energy homeschooled Olympians commit to their sports are impressive. To celebrate their accomplishments and inspire your homeschooler, here are a few impromptu activities you can organize to celebrate Olympic Day.

-Build a back yard obstacle course.-Host a game of Olympic trivia.-Create a memory game using the flags of participating countries.-Lead a lesson about the importance of good sportsmanship.-Gather homeschool friends and begin a backyard game of your choice.

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"I can swing higher than you," shouted my oldest daughter to the neighbor children who had come over to play.

"No, you can't," they retorted. "We can swing just as high as you!"

As I washed the dishes and looked out the open kitchen window, I could hear their childish competitive banter and knew trouble was looming. Although taking a break from homeschooling during the summer provided more opportunities for my children's friends to visit, it also required more supervision of their activities. I watched as each child began to swing harder and higher. Just as I decided to dry my hands and walk outside to tell them to stop swinging so high, the entire swing set toppled over and crashed to the ground, along with the children. Fortunately, no one was seriously hurt, but the bumps and bruises taught each of them a valuable lesson in humility.

King Nebuchadnezzar also had to learn the hard lesson of humility before a holy God. After building a huge gold image of himself, he required everyone in the kingdom to bow down in worship. When three young Hebrew captives, Shadrach, Meshach, and Abed-nego, refused to worship this arrogant king's statue, God proved Himself mighty and delivered them from the fiery furnace and Nebuchadnezzar's wrath (Daniel 3:19-30). However, even after this humbling experience from God, Nebuchadnezzar again exalted himself by claiming credit for Babylon's glory (Daniel 4:30). For the next seven years, God punished Nebuchadnezzar's pride with insanity. He became like an animal, ate grass, and grew nails like bird's claws. At the end of that time, Nebuchadnezzar finally exclaimed, "Now I Nebuchadnezzar praise and extol and honor the King of heaven, all whose works are truth, and his ways judgment: and those that walk in pride he is able to abase" (Daniel 4:37).

What about you? Has selfish pride taken hold of your life? Even though you may think you have the answers to all of homeschooling's questions, you don't. Each child is a unique creation and gift from the Lord, and only He can guide you as you choose curriculum and lessons to successfully homeschool your child. Don't let your independent spirit cause you to stumble and fall. "Pride goeth before destruction, and an haughty spirit before a fall" (Proverbs 16:18).

Father, help me to remember You are in control of our homeschooling. Teach me to walk in Your ways and rely on the Holy Spirit to guide me each day. In Jesus' name, Amen.]]>Mon, 23 Jun 2014 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/false-assumptions/
"Jesus answered and said unto them, Ye do err, not knowing the scriptures, nor the power of God" (Matthew 22:29).

Do your parents find knowing how to help when you homeschool difficult? Although my parents had raised seven children of their own, they always seemed hesitant to watch my children when I needed a helping hand. At first, I thought my children might be misbehaving during their stay, but my parents assured me that was not the case. However, after declining my request to watch them several times in a row, I finally asked, "Mom, why don't you want the kids to come over?"

Reluctantly she admitted, "Well, I just don't know how to help them do their schoolwork." Like a light bulb turning on in my head, I finally understood the problem. For months I had thought my parents didn't enjoy my children. In reality, they were feeling inadequate to supervise the homeschooling lessons I had prepared. From that day on, schoolwork was left at home. My children simply enjoyed being with their grandparents and helping with their daily chores. When time permitted, they played games and learned valuable lessons in practical skills not found in a workbook.

Making incorrect assumptions can also get Christians into trouble in the body of Christ. Rather than interpreting Scripture with Scripture in the power of the Holy Spirit, many Christians make poor choices because they take God's Word out of context. Randomly picking isolated verses, they fail to clearly understand God's will and infer meanings the passage never intended. Even Christ faced this same temptation. When Satan misquoted Scripture in Luke 4:10-11, he challenged Jesus to prove He was the Son of God by throwing Himself down from the temple's pinnacle. Jesus refuted Satan's misinterpretation of Psalm 91:12 and quoted Deuteronomy 6:16 instead: "Ye shall not tempt the LORD your God."

Are you correctly handling the Word of God? Don't make false assumptions about the Scriptures that might jeopardize your homeschooling success. Read the entire Bible passage and remember to seek the Holy Spirit's guidance as you study God's Word. Heed the exhortation the apostle Paul gave to a young believer in 2 Timothy 2:15: "Study to shew thyself approved unto God, a workman that needeth not to be ashamed, rightly dividing the word of truth."

Lord, without Your help, no one can understand the Bible. Please, show me how to read and study Your Word that I might apply it and glorify You with my life. In the name of Jesus, Amen.]]>Sun, 22 Jun 2014 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/whos-in-the-middle-of-the-storm/
"I, even I, am he that comforteth you" (Isaiah 51:12a).

Summer storms were always a scary time for my young children. When the weather turned blustery on hot summer nights, I usually heard my two oldest children running down the hallway to my bedroom. Even though they had learned Bible stories of Jesus' power over storms and problems, their little hearts were simply too frightened by the strength of a threatening storm. Understanding their fears, I would let them crawl into my bed while the lightning cracked and the thunder boomed. Then, after the storm passed, I would carry their sleepy little bodies back to their own beds.

One night during a storm, I felt God's leading to teach my children an important spiritual lesson. Instead of allowing them to crawl into bed with me, I gently took them back to their room and tucked them into bed. As I sat with them, I taught a little song to comfort their fears while the storm raged outside. The words were simple enough for a four and five year old and talked about not being afraid since God is always with us.

As we sang the words together during the storm, my children experienced God's courage to face their fears. Although they didn't fall back to sleep right away, they were able to wait out the storm without terrified tears. More importantly, they learned whenever they were afraid in life, they could go to their heavenly Father for protection.

Are you in the middle of a storm right now in your life? Maybe you're facing the dark and painful moments of grief or loneliness. Whatever the problem, God promises in His Word that He will be with you (Hebrews 13:5b). Like a loving heavenly Father, He gently holds and comforts you when the darkness seems overwhelming or when the storm's power rages over you. Run to Him now, and you'll also discover He's in the middle of your dark storm. "Fear thou not; for I am with thee: be not dismayed; for I am thy God: I will strengthen thee; yea, I will help thee; yea, I will uphold thee with the right hand of my righteousness" (Isaiah 41:10).

Heavenly Father, I feel so scared right now, and like a child, I want to panic. I claim Your promise to never leave me nor forsake me. Please, hold me right now, Father, and keep me safe. In Jesus' name, Amen.]]>Sat, 21 Jun 2014 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/leading-by-example/
"For I have given you an example, that ye should do as I have done to you" (John 13:15).

When homeschooling your children, you often find yourself face to face with personal challenges to grow intellectually and spiritually. Relearning algebra and geometry in order to teach my children high school math was difficult, but memorizing their Scripture verses was even harder. Scripture memorization had been a discipline I failed to apply to my own life until my son asked one day, "Mom, do you know all these Scripture verses, too?" Admitting that I didn't, God convicted me to start hiding His Word in my heart right along with my children during their Bible lessons.

The best teachers and leaders in the Christian life are those who are willing to get their own hands dirty as they help others. Paul was such a man. Although he could have stayed in Jerusalem, he responded to God's call and went to the mission field. Willing to face shipwrecks, beatings, stonings, and other persecutions, God used him to lead thousands of people to the Lord. Even while he was ministering and establishing new churches, Paul supported himself by making tents in order to not be a financial burden on the church (Acts 20:33-35).

Are you willing to practice what you preach to your children, or do you take the easy road in your spiritual walk? Although no homeschooling parent is perfect, we can allow the Holy Spirit to change our lives for the better. If you want to make a lasting impression on your children's hearts as a godly homeschool parent, lead by example. "Nevertheless, whereto we have already attained, let us walk by the same rule, let us mind the same thing. Brethren, be followers together of me, and mark them which walk so as ye have us for an ensample" (Philippians 3:16-17).

Lord, I stand in awe at the responsibility You've given me in teaching my children. Let my life be an example of Your love and show me those areas that need to be strengthened to glorify You. In Jesus' name, Amen.]]>Fri, 20 Jun 2014 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/gods-gifts/
"As every man hath received the gift, even so minister the same one to another, as good stewards of the manifold grace of God" (1 Peter 4:10).

My son was sitting at his desk with a contemplative look on his face as he studied his lesson for school. With his Bible open to Romans 12, he was struggling with identifying his spiritual gift and how he might use it in Christian ministry. "Mom," he said. "I really don't know what gift God has given me. What do you think my spiritual gift is?"

"Well," I reflected, "I think one gift God has given you is the gift of service. I've seen how you love to help others both at church and at home. You never complain, and you seem to know what to do before someone even asks for help."

"Wow, you mean when I do that it's using my spiritual gift?" he asked.

"Yes," I replied, "you are using your gifts if you allow the Holy Spirit to show you when and where to help."

Every believer, including children, has at least one spiritual gift (1 Corinthians 12:7). Unfortunately, many Christians never identify their spiritual gifts and simply live life as a spectator rather than a participator. God desires his church to be active and growing with each believer playing an important part in its effective worship and work. Understanding your gifts, therefore, will help you find the best way to serve and eliminate frustrations over trying to do things like someone else. Not only will the church be strengthened and unified, but you'll also discover that spiritual gifts are really just Jesus working through your life as you carry on His ministry.

Do you know your spiritual gifts in the Lord? As you read Romans 12:3-9, ask God to reveal which gifts He wants to use through your life. Like my son, discover how much fun living the Christian life can be when you serve the Lord with the gifts He has given you!

Father, I want to glorify You with my life and discover the joy in serving You. Please, reveal those gifts You've given me and empower me with the Holy Spirit to use them for Your glory. In Jesus' name, Amen.]]>Thu, 19 Jun 2014 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/toads-turtles-and-tree-houses/
When summer months came to our homeschooling family, I had a hard time keeping up with the activities of my young sons. As they explored the farm, they frequently left their new discoveries on the kitchen counter to share with me. Unfortunately, these tremendous finds failed to provide the same enjoyment to a tired and skittish mother who was deathly afraid of reptiles, spiders, and creepy insects. I was never quite sure if I wanted to open their gifts of love or not!

However, there was one summer activity I always enjoyed with my sons. Hidden in the branches of the old box elder tree in the backyard, the boys' tree fort provided hours of welcome play and enjoyment. Sometimes we played board games. Other times we just enjoyed a cool glass of lemonade and cookies. Whatever the occasion, I was thankful to be considered "one of the guys" and always considered it a privilege when they invited me to their "house."

As Christians, God also desires for us to share our homes with others. In Romans 12:13, God's Word tells us to share what we have with the needs of the saints and be "given to hospitality." With so many blessings God has provided at our disposal, our homes become the perfect place to minister to the hearts of the lonely and hurting within the body of Christ. However, not only are we to reach out to fellow homeschoolers and other Christians, God also exhorts us to go one step further: "Be not forgetful to entertain strangers" (Hebrews 13:2a). Inviting those who don't know Christ as Savior to eat at your table provides the loving and welcoming environment that opens hearts to the message of salvation.

Is your summer already scheduled to the limit and too busy to open your home to others? If so, maybe you can rearrange your activities and practice some old-fashioned hospitality. Whether it's an informal get-together with church friends, a summer backyard Bible club, or a large community outreach block party, share the blessings God has given you and watch as others experience the joy of being loved. "Use hospitality one to another without grudging" (1 Peter 4:9).

Father, thank You for the delightful days of summer and the opportunities to minister to people with Your love. Show me how to bless others and use our home for Your glory. In Jesus' name, Amen.]]>Wed, 18 Jun 2014 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/fitting-in/
"Love not the world, neither the things that are in the world. If any man love the world, the love of the Father is not in him" (1 John 2:15).

The benefits of homeschooling are wonderful, but there are times when parents face difficult issues. As children grow into their teen years, they realize that homeschooling sets them apart from the mainstream. Wise parents will understand their teenager's need for acceptance during this transition into adulthood and provide an added sense of belonging. However, no matter how much affirmation you give your child, his true value and uniqueness will only be confirmed as he realizes and understands his worth in God's eyes.

Dealing with the world's rejection is difficult for any Christian, no matter the age. God's Word tells us our true citizenship is in heaven (Philippians 3:20), and we live as strangers in this world (1 Peter 2:11). Considering these facts, we too must understand that we will never fit into the world's scheme of things as we live for Christ. Not only does homeschooling set us apart, but being a Christian puts us on the world's "most hated" list. "If ye were of the world, the world would love his own: but because ye are not of the world, but I have chosen you out of the world, therefore the world hateth you" (John 15:19). Our worth and value, therefore, can only be based on what God thinks of us.

Do you ever feel ostracized as you homeschool your children? God sees all you're going through and promises to never leave you nor forsake you (Hebrews 13:5b). Remember, you won't be a stranger forever. Some day, both you and your children will totally fit in when you walk into the heavenly home God has prepared for you.

Lord, please show me how to encourage my teen as he struggles with the same acceptance issues as me. May we both be strengthened by Your unfailing love until You bring us home to heaven. In Jesus' name, Amen.]]>Tue, 17 Jun 2014 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/on-target/
"Where there is no vision, the people perish" (Proverbs 29:18a).

What plans have you made for your children this summer? During our first years of homeschooling, I made the mistake of failing to plan activities for our family. Tired of schedules and organizing throughout the school year, I wanted to take each day just as it came. Although this idealistic thought of allowing my children to play and explore on their own worked initially, I soon found them bored and looking for things to do. Coming to me for suggestions, I realized that even in summer, they needed a purpose and a plan for each day. Frittering away the summer was simply not going to do, and I needed to stay in tune with God's plan for their lives.

Wasting time is never wise in living the Christian life either. Nowhere in the Bible does it talk about sitting back and letting life pass you by. Rather, the apostle Paul repeatedly addresses the need to discipline ourselves to achieve our utmost for God's highest. Buffeting our bodies and taking on the mind of Christ, we are to live each day wholly committed to doing the Lord's will. In fact, God commands us to present ourselves as living sacrifices that He might use us for His glory — no matter what time or day of the year (Romans 12:1).

What about you? Do you think you've earned time off from serving the Lord? Until the Lord returns, God expects you to be about His business each day using the gifts and talents He's given you. Don't be like the lazy slave in the parable of the talents who hid his talent in the ground (Matthew 25:14-30). Instead, come to the Lord each morning in prayer and discover God's purpose to keep your life hitting the mark. "I press toward the mark for the prize of the high calling of God in Christ Jesus" (Philippians 3:14).

Lord, forgive me for being lazy in my walk with You and ignoring Your plan. I recommit my life to You today to use for Your glory. In Jesus' name, Amen.]]>Mon, 16 Jun 2014 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/thanks-dad/
"The father of the righteous shall greatly rejoice: and he that begetteth a wise child shall have joy of him" (Proverbs 23:24).

Homeschool dads, as well as moms, have the double responsibility of not only being a parent but also being a teacher. My dad had to learn how to share with my mother the daily tasks of teaching, maintaining a home, and balancing finances. As a child, I didn't understand or appreciate the responsibilities he faced, but as an adult, it's easier to see how important my father was in my upbringing and how he impacted my life.

No matter what stage of homeschooling you're in, you're probably wondering if you're making a positive difference in your children's lives. From a former homeschooled child, I am here to say homeschooling is worth it. In honor of Father's Day, here's wisdom my dad taught me that you can also apply.

Always Explore - My dad was a natural at discovering new things and figuring out how they worked, why God created them, and sometimes even how to improve them. His love of exploring taught me not to be afraid to learn or approach new things, people, or situations.

Be Unique - My dad was never one to go with the crowd. He was unique, fun, and genuine. He didn't care what others thought of him, and he taught me the freedom of being myself and having my own interests that made me who I am.

Mistakes Are Alright - My dad never judged me when I made a mistake or didn't get mad when I didn't get the best grade on a test. He was more concerned about me and how I was learning.

Work Hard - My dad worked selflessly for our family for years, while my mom stayed at home and taught us. He came home at night and helped with homework and chores, even when he was exhausted. This taught me the beauty of sacrifice.

Pursue Your Dreams - My dad always empowered me to chase my goals and dreams. Because he gave up his dreams for my siblings and me, he encouraged me to follow whatever career path I wanted. He made me feel like I could achieve anything.

What plans have you made to honor the homeschool dad in your house this Father's Day? Be sure to thank him for all his acts of love and behind-the-scenes support. Show appreciation for all he does to make your homeschooling successful and thank him for the love he communicates to your family. "Honor thy father and thy mother: that thy days may be long upon the land which the LORD thy God giveth thee" (Exodus 20:12).

Lord, thank You for fathers and the loving help they provide to homeschooling families. Help me to always appreciate and recognize what they do to keep families strong and walking with You. In Jesus' name, Amen.]]>Sun, 15 Jun 2014 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/old-glory/
"His name shall endure for ever: his name shall be continued as long as the sun: and men shall be blessed in him: all nations shall call him blessed" (Psalm 72:17).

"Yes, honey," I replied, "but you can't be silly. If you want to hold the flag, you have to stand up straight and tall with your right hand on your heart."

As we started the day with the Pledge of Allegiance, holding the flag was considered an honor in our homeschool. My father was a World War II veteran who had passed on his love for history, country, and flag to his children and grandchildren. Sharing heroic stories of combat and bravery, my father instilled a sense of pride and respect for the American flag, especially on June 14.

June 14 was first proclaimed Flag Day in 1916 by President Woodrow Wilson and officially became recognized as National Flag Day in 1949 when President Harry Truman signed the National Flag Day into law. Although June 14 is not declared an official federal holiday, it is a wonderful day for homeschoolers and all Americans to show respect for what our flag represents — one nation under God. With so many voices disputing that fact today, teaching our children to honor and handle the flag correctly is one way to develop a patriotic spirit and appreciation for those who died in protecting our flag.

Does your homeschooling family know how to honor the American flag? If not, today is a great day to start a short unit study on our nation's greatest symbol. As your children learn to honor those who have died to keep Old Glory waving, they'll also discover the Holy God who made our country great. "All the ends of the world shall remember and turn unto the LORD: and all the kindreds of the nations shall worship before thee. For the kingdom is the LORD's: and he is the governor among the nations" (Psalm 22:27-28).

Lord, help us to remember the blessings You gave this country because we trusted in You. Show me how to teach my children how to honor the flag, so they might continue to keep this one nation under God. In Jesus' name, Amen.]]>Sat, 14 Jun 2014 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/heavenly-ears/
"Whither shall I go from thy spirit? or whither shall I flee from thy presence" (Psalm 139:7)?

I never understood the old saying, "Parents have eyes in the back of their heads," until I became a parent myself. After several messy disasters and naughty pranks played by my children, I learned to be in tune with the symphony of sound during our homeschooling. Even if I was in the kitchen preparing supper, I knew what each child was doing in other parts of the house by the noise involved. In fact, the only time I really worried was when there was no sound at all. Total quiet usually meant one of two things. Either all my children were reading a book, or they were into trouble.

In a far greater way, our heavenly Father also monitors the noise coming from His children. When we lift up our praises and prayers, He knows all is well within the hearts of His people. However, when we grow quiet and fail to come before His presence, He knows we're headed down a path that leads to trouble. Neglecting to talk to the Lord, we foolishly try to manage our lives on our own and find ourselves in the middle of problems. Lovingly, the Holy Spirit convicts us of our sin, and God waits for us to cry out, so He can encourage us in our spiritual walk.

What about you? Have things been quiet at your house lately? If God hasn't heard your praise or prayers in a long time, right now is the best time to come before His throne. Take a moment to pray and praise the Lord for His loving care in your life. Even though He knows right where you are and what you need, He's waiting to hear from you today. "Hear my voice according unto thy lovingkindness: O LORD, quicken me according to thy judgment" (Psalm 119:149).

Father, please hear my prayer and forgive me for wandering away from You. Fill me today with Your power and wisdom and lead me back to the place where my heart can commune with You. In the name of Jesus, Amen.]]>Fri, 13 Jun 2014 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/homeschooling-in-reverse/
"But as it is written, Eye hath not seen, nor ear heard, neither have entered into the heart of man, the things which God hath prepared for them that love him" (1 Corinthians 2:9).

As a homeschooling parent of young children, I couldn't imagine teaching my children through high school. My days were only focused on reading, writing, and arithmetic skills. Thinking about teaching college-prep courses was mind boggling. When talking with my husband about our children's future, the business manager in him said, "Why don't we start where we want our children to be educationally, spiritually, and emotionally in 12 years and work backwards from there."

"What do you mean?" I asked confused.

"If you wanted to make a cake, how would you go about it?" he asked. "You'd think of all the ingredients you'd need, how much time it would take to mix it together, and then you'd organize everything to bake it. Well, if we want to successfully teach our children everything they need to go to college someday, then we should start at that point and work backwards. Let's find out what subjects they will need to successfully complete and incorporate them into their studies over the next several years."

As Christians, we should also remember our final heavenly goal and work backwards as we live on Earth. With the Bible to guide us, we will find courses to successfully complete until the Lord's return. Living like Christ requires learning the fruit of the Spirit, so we can minister to the lost and hurting people God has placed in our lives. In fact, God has already prepared the good works He has planned for us to do. "For we are his workmanship, created in Christ Jesus unto good works, which God hath before ordained that we should walk in them" (Ephesians 2:10).

Are you walking with the Lord in light of His return? This Earth is not your home, and someday soon, Christ will come back for those who love Him and bring us home to the place He has prepared for us (John 14:2-3). Are you prepared to meet Him and hear, "Well done, thou good and faithful servant" (Matthew 25:21)?

Father, time is short, and I know this life has only enough moments for me to accomplish Your will. Show me how to live each day for You and share Your love with those around me. In the name of Jesus, Amen.]]>Thu, 12 Jun 2014 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/going-under/
"The LORD is thy keeper" (Psalm 121:5a).

I'll never forget the day my son almost drowned. As I sat on the pool's edge after giving my son a swimming lesson, I watched as he played with his homeschooling friends. Since several lifeguards were on duty and the water was only waist-deep, I decided to close my weary eyes and rest for just a moment. Presuming my son was perfectly safe, even though he had only just started to learn how to swim, I allowed myself to drift off.

Suddenly, I heard someone shout in a panicked voice. Looking up and quickly scanning the water, I wasn't able to locate my son anywhere in the pool. Just as I stood up to look further, I saw an older boy pull my son from the pool's deep end. Coughing and choking, he was fighting to breathe. Minutes later, after we were sure he was all right, he told me the whole story: "Mom, I was just trying to practice my bouncing like you taught me. I guess I just bounced too hard and went right into the deep water." I'm not sure who was more frightened, my son or me, and for the next several days, I mentally punished myself as I considered what could have happened.

It's always tragic when young children are injured in an accident. Recorded in 2 Samuel 4:4 is the story of how Mephibosheth, the five-year-old son of Jonathan, was crippled in both his feet. In her hurry to flee after receiving the news of King Saul and Jonathan's death, Mephibosheth's nurse dropped him. Understandably, she was probably worried the child would be killed by the succeeding king, but her haste left this young boy lame for his entire life. However, God mercifully provided for Mephibosheth's needs years later when He moved King David to keep his covenant with his friend Jonathan (1 Samuel 20:15-17).

If you've had a tragedy in your home and struggle with forgiving yourself, God knows your pain. Being a homeschooling parent doesn't mean you can protect your child from every physical bump and bruise. Accidents happen, and many times there aren't any good reasons or answers to explain them. Only God knows what each day will bring, but praise the Lord that even when bad things happen, He is still able to turn them around for good. "And we know that all things work together for good to them that love God, to them who are the called according to his purpose" (Romans 8:28).

Lord, I can't see the good in this situation right now, and I feel like it's all my fault. Please, help me to forgive myself and trust that somehow, You will make sense of this problem. In Jesus' name, Amen.]]>Wed, 11 Jun 2014 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/choosing-wisely/
"Thy testimonies also are my delight and my counsellors" (Psalm 119:24).

Choices are the very thing parents love about homeschooling, but they can also be very frustrating. After making the huge decision to homeschool, parents are immediately faced with a barrage of additional choices, such as which curriculum to use, what teaching method to follow, and countless other where, when, and how questions. With so many variables, new homeschoolers reach out to homeschooling experts for guidance. However, God created every child and home uniquely, and what works for one family might not work for another. Although the experience of other homeschoolers can help to guide us, ultimately only God can show us the perfect homeschooling plan He has designed for our family.

Trusting in the opinions of others can be helpful or disastrous, depending on the counselors you choose. King Solomon's son, Rehoboam, learned this lesson the hard way. After his father died and he became king, Rehoboam was faced with an intense rebellion of the people led by Jeroboam. Jeroboam and the people insisted that Rehoboam be more lenient on the workforce than his father had been. After they voiced their complaints, they asked for a response. Telling them to come back in three days for his answer, Rehoboam first consulted with the elders who had served his father. Not liking their wise response of "speak good words to them, then they will be thy servants for ever," Rehoboam instead turned to the counsel of young men who grew up with him. Acting on their arrogant and prideful counsel, Rehoboam spoke harshly to the people and lost the following of almost the entire nation of Israel (1 Kings 12:1-17).

Are you overwhelmed by the myriad of homeschooling choices? Getting informed and familiarizing yourself with curriculums, techniques, and approaches is a great place to start. Be careful, however, when you actually make your decisions. Many opinions abound, but let the Lord's counsel be the one you trust most. In His wisdom, He'll continue to lead you as you trust in His Word.Lord, homeschooling seems so overwhelming, and I'm afraid of choosing the wrong things for my children. Please, show me how and where to start and guide me as we start on this new journey together. In Jesus' name, Amen.]]>Tue, 10 Jun 2014 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/new-lifepac-homeschool-courses-coming-soon/
Rock Rapids, IA (June 9, 2014) – Alpha Omega Publications is releasing several redesigned and revised courses for LIFEPAC, its first and most time-tested Christian homeschool curriculum.

Coming this summer, the highly-anticipated redesign for grades 7-9 includes a contemporary look for 15 courses in the subjects of Bible, history and geography, math, language arts, and science, as well as all-new pre-algebra content for grades 7 and 8.

Originally developed in 1977, LIFEPAC is a tried-and-true mix of tradition and experience that challenges homeschool students to master skills before moving to new content. Over the past 35 years, thousands of families have successfully homeschooled their children with LIFEPAC’s self-directed worktexts, integrated lesson plans, Bible-based foundation, and teacher-friendly layout.

In 2013, LIFEPAC earned best homeschool curriculum awards in the categories of complete curriculum, language arts, math, history, and science in homeschool-curriculum.org’s selection of their top 50 choices.

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"If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness" (1 John 1:9).

Heading out the door to do morning chores before the heat of the day, my youngest daughter looked at me and implored, "Mom, do we have to pull weeds this morning? Can't we just go do something fun and play?"

Smiling, I replied, "No honey, every day we must work at removing the weeds, or they'll take over the yard and the garden. If we just do a little bit every day, it won't be such a big job later."

Sighing, my daughter replied, "OK Mom, but sometimes I think homeschooling during the winter is more fun than not having school during summer. At least there aren't any weeds that grow then!"

In Old Testament days, ridding one's life of the weeds of sin was a painstaking and bloody process of offering after offering. Imagine having to live under all the Levitical laws to meet God's standard for forgiveness of sins. Even when all the requirements were met, it was still impossible for the blood of animals to take away sin. The sacrifices could only atone or cover the sins of man (Hebrews 10:3-4).

Praise God, when Christ came and died on the cross for the sins of the world, He fulfilled the law and offered one sacrifice for sin for all time (Hebrews 10:10-12). No longer do we have to offer sacrifices for sin. Christ has paid the penalty with His blood and cleansed all who receive His gift of eternal life. However, even though God sees us as forgiven through Christ's work on the cross, our flesh continues to pop up new weeds that quench and choke out the Holy Spirit's work in our lives. Like weeding a garden, if we come before the Lord's presence in prayer and confession each day, it's much easier to defeat Satan and sin.

Are there some weedy patches growing in your life? Don't wait until sin has you completely ensnared before you deal with it. Stop and take a moment right now and come before the Lord in prayer. Ask the Holy Spirit to give you strength to pull out those weeds, so your life might resemble a garden of Christ-like love.

Lord Jesus, thank You for paying the price for my sin. Like King David I pray, "Create in me a clean heart, O God; and renew a right spirit within me" (Psalm 51:10). Show me those things in my life that need to be removed that I might glorify You with my life. In Your name I pray, Amen.]]>Mon, 09 Jun 2014 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/reaping-the-reward/
"Wait on the LORD: be of good courage, and he shall strengthen thine heart: wait, I say, on the LORD" (Psalm 27:14).

Homeschooling doesn't always produce immediate rewards. Sometimes, many years go by before the fruitfulness of your faithfulness is revealed. Hours will be spent in loving and patient academic instruction of your children, as well as hours in training in righteousness, before the benefits of homeschooling are seen. Personal spiritual battles will be fought against doubt, fear, and discouragement when they cause you to think, "This homeschool thing is just a waste of time." Most of all, God's promises will also need to be claimed as you base your homeschooling on the truth of the Bible. Like all worthwhile endeavors, homeschooling will yield its fruit in due season if you are willing to wait on God's timetable instead of your own.

Certainly, the life of Joseph in the Old Testament is one example we can set before us when homeschooling seems to be in its darkest hours. Although this young man started out as his father's favorite, his life quickly changed when jealousy got the best of his brothers. They threw Joseph into a pit and sold him as a slave. While in Egypt, Joseph continued to patiently live his life according to God's Word, even though he had to face false accusations and loneliness. However, many years later, Joseph finally experienced the rewards for maintaining the right heart and attitude toward God and his brothers.

If you are in your first few years of homeschooling, don't despair and give up hope. Even though the bumps and bruises seem like too much, you will see the benefits of godly children who actually enjoy learning. In addition, your personal walk with the Lord will be rooted and strengthened as you learn to trust in God's abilities and not your own. Homeschooling works! Just keep trusting in God's Word when He says, "And let us not be weary in well doing: for in due season we shall reap, if we faint not" (Galatians 6:9).

Heavenly Father, thank You for blessing me with the task of teaching my children. Although some days seem difficult, I choose this day to keep my eyes on You. Please, encourage me today and help me to remain faithful until I see the homeschooling blessings You have promised. In Jesus' name, Amen.]]>Sun, 08 Jun 2014 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/playing-with-money/
"The wicked borroweth, and payeth not again" (Psalm 37:21a).

Playing shopkeeper was one of my children's favorite math games while homeschooling. Frequently, we would set aside our math workbooks and set up our little store to learn money values, counting, and subtraction principles. Using miniature replicas of food items, a toy shopping cart, and a cash register, my children played for hours and never realized they were learning in the process. Substituting real money for play money made this educational game even more exciting and lifelike. Playing frequently, my children progressed until they could easily add amounts mentally and count back change correctly. Due to their play, handling money became second nature. Plus, they also learned a lifelong principle — no money, no purchase.

Unfortunately, the correct handling of money in real life is not as easy for some Christian families today. Although the Bible sets forth principles of being good stewards of God's blessings, many believers fail because they make purchases based on fleshly desires with the convenience of credit. Forgetting that these charges require an actual payment of real money, many Christians sink themselves and their families into large debts with no ability to pay. Interest rates accrue, and soon the debt load becomes so great that there is no hope of ever getting out of bondage. Breaking under the financial stress, some Christians lose friendships, ruin marriages, and perform foolish acts. The Bible speaks to this problem when it says, "The borrower is servant to the lender," and "Be not thou one of them that strike hands, or of them that are sureties for debts" (Proverbs 22:7b, 26).

What about you? Are you being tempted to abuse credit as you face homeschooling on one income? Don't do it! Heed God's warnings in His Word and run to Him with your needs instead. If He has called you to homeschool your children, He will provide, but He also expects you to handle what He provides correctly.

Lord, forgive me for purchasing items I have no way of repaying. Help me to discipline my spending before I destroy the things in life I truly love. In Jesus' name, Amen.]]>Sat, 07 Jun 2014 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/the-homeschoolers-23rd-psalm/
"I am the good shepherd: the good shepherd giveth his life for the sheep" (John 10:11).

The Lord is my shepherd,I shall not want.

He maketh me to live on less sleep:He leadeth me through the noise of many voices.

He restoreth my soul: He leadeth me to teachThe right lessons each day, for His name's sake.

Yea, though I walk through the valley of undoneLaundry and kitchen messes, I will fear no evil:For thou art with me, my teacher's guides andAnswer keys, they comfort me.

Thou preparest a table before me in the presenceOf threatening school officials and critical family members:Thou anointest my head with heavenly wisdom, my cup runneth over.

Surely educated and godly children shall follow after meAll the days of my life: and I will dwell again one dayIn a clean house with the Lord forevermore.

Praise God, we do have a good Shepherd who leads us through every homeschooling problem and provides for our every need. Best of all, our Shepherd knows us and promises never to desert us when the wolf comes seeking to destroy (John 10:11-13). When we listen to the Shepherd's voice and follow Him, we are sure to receive a great reward as we reach the peaceful green pastures of Christ-like, educated children. "And when the chief Shepherd shall appear, ye shall receive a crown of glory that fadeth not away" (1 Peter 5:4).

Father, how I praise You for leading my children and me in the path of homeschooling! Without You, we surely would be confused and lost. We come to You again this day and pray for Your continued blessings as we follow You. In Jesus' name, Amen.]]>Fri, 06 Jun 2014 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/sample-lifepacs-new-look/

LIFEPAC is scheduled for a facelift. Newly redesigned courses for grades 7, 8, and 9 will be released soon for the five main subjects with a contemporary look and all-new math content for grades 7 and 8.

The changes include a refreshed design and updated images for LIFEPAC’s interior, new covers and boxes, and updated theme colors for the five main subjects: red for math, purple for Bible, green for history and geography, blue for science, and yellow for language arts.

Adopted from Monarch and Switched-On-Schoolhouse, the new math content for grades 7 and 8 is designed to further strengthen the academic quality of the courses.

Original developed in 1977, LIFEPAC is a tried-and-true mix of tradition and experience that challenges homeschool students to master skills before moving to new content. Over the past 35 years, thousands of families have successfully homeschooled their children with LIFEPAC’s self-directed worktexts, integrated lesson plans, Bible-based foundation, and teacher-friendly layout.

In 2013, LIFEPAC earned best homeschool curriculum awards in the categories of complete curriculum, language arts, math, history, and science in homeschool-curriculum.org’s selection of their top 50 choices.

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This Father’s Day, sweep Dad off his feet with an easy art project personalized with your child’s footprints. For more homemade gift ideas for June 15, including a Father’s Day Survival Kit, check out Fun and Frugal Father’s Day Crafts on our blog.

Then, enter to win our Father’s Day Giveaway on Facebook from June 9-15!

AOP’s Father’s Day Giveaway Rules

1. How to Enter: No purchase necessary. Go to http://bit.ly/TaOYJgfrom June 9-15 to enter by filling out a registration form. Each entrant for this sweepstakes has the option to opt out of inclusion on Alpha Omega Publications’ mailing list. Limit one entry per household per day. Entrants who share the giveaway on their own Facebook page receive an additional entry for each friend who also enters. Contest open to U.S. residents only.

3. Eligibility: Entrants must be 18 years of age or older. Employees of Alpha Omega Publications or any of its affiliated or associated companies (collectively AOP), and their immediate families with whom they reside are not eligible to win. The definition of immediate family as it pertains to these rules includes mother, father, brother, sister, spouse, and child.

5. Selection of Winners: A drawing will be made by AOP during the week of June 16, 2014. The first sixteen (16) entries selected at random will be declared the potential winners. The potential winners will be contacted by email at the address indicated on the selected entrants' entry forms. In the event that a winner is unable to be reached in that manner within 48 hours of the drawing, another eligible entry will be drawn, and the process will be repeated until all winners are declared. To ensure notification emails from AOP find their way to your inbox, add social@aophomeschooling.com to your address book.

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Kids of all ages, lifestyles, and learning styles are breaking down boxes and building worlds in Minecraft, including a growing number of homeschoolers.

And while you might not expect a video game to inspire imagination, these homeschool students say there’s much more to Minecraft than entertainment.

“You can build whatever you want to and there’s nothing stopping you,” said Melanie Pannell, an eighth-grade homeschooler in Texas. “It’s an excellent way to let your creativity shine.”

Often described as a video game version of Legos, Minecraft is a sandbox game that teaches spatial skills while challenging players to use strategy and critical thinking to keep their characters alive in the game world.

It’s quickly becoming one of the most popular video games in history, with more than 11 million PC players, 10 million mobile device players, and 7 million Xbox 360 players, according to askaboutgames.com. Minecraft has even seeped into classrooms, many of which are now using an educational edition at minecraftedu.com.

Denise White, a homeschool mom in London, England, appreciates how unique the game is compared to others.

“Minecraft really seems to unlock imaginative free play, which is becoming increasingly difficult in a digital landscape filled with many ‘throw-away’ games and apps,” White said.

Her daughter, 10-year-old Samantha, loves building infrastructure and socializing with others. The Alpha Omega Academy student plays with friends her age from around the world using the team-building and collaboration skills she has gained from the game.

“We position Minecraft as a treat to be indulged in after a hard day’s work at school,” White said. “So, in our house, Minecraft is very much a reward and something Sam looks forward to playing.”

Do you consider Minecraft educational? Why or why not?

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Geocaching is a fun and educational activity for kids to help them learn about science and nature, math and mapping, and technology. It’s also ideal for homeschooling and packed with family field trip potential.

How It WorksIn this outdoor treasure-hunting game, players use a GPS device to find hidden trinkets, called geocaches or caches, left behind by other players. A cache can be any small object, such as an action figure or keychain, and could have traveled from almost anywhere in the world.

To get started, go to a geocaching website, such as geocaching.com, and search the travel log for a cache hidden near you. Then, use the geographical coordinates to find the container with the cache, and leave one of your own of equal or greater value for the next person to discover. Lastly, return to the website to record your find and location. Your family can then have fun following your cache’s travels on the log and watching it cross miles, states, or even oceans.

What It Teaches“Geocaching encourages children to explore their surroundings while using critical thinking skills to find the cache,” noted Tiany Davis in her article, Geocaching Homeschool Lessons, at sheknows.com.

Incorporating the hobby into your homeschool also gives you several opportunities to supplement your child’s subjects:

- Teach math, mapping, and geography skills with GPS, latitude and longitude, and a compass.- Practice writing skills with a travel journal that can include your child’s notes on nature and scientific research.- Choose a geocache that calls for a hike to cover physical education, health, and safety.- Add a creative touch to your expedition by having your student create the cache that you’ll leave behind.

Has your family gone geocaching? If so, did you incorporate it into your homeschool?

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Alpha Omega Academy senior Hayden Pilgrim has been awarded an Army Reserve Officer Training Corps (ROTC) scholarship in the amount of $44,000 through the University of North Georgia.

Following his dream of joining the army, the Georgian began homeschooling through AOA’s online learning program in 2010 from his home in the Dallas-Acworth area.

“I chose Alpha Omega Academy instead of traditional homeschooling as I knew I wanted a career in the U.S. Army, and the accreditation it offered would help on my path to attend a state college and receive an ROTC scholarship,” said Pilgrim, who graduates this spring.

While researching careers, he discovered both the ROTC program and the University of North Georgia. One of six Senior Military Colleges in the country, UNG also boasts one of the nation’s top Corp of Cadets programs. Pilgrim applied.

“Alpha Omega Academy was quite helpful in my application to UNG and for the ROTC scholarship,” Pilgrim said. “Through their accreditation, my education was given validity with the Army.”

As an AOA student, Pilgrim enjoyed learning from teachers in different regions of the United States. He also appreciated the freedom to work ahead and advance at his own pace.

Distributed over three years, his Army ROTC scholarship will provide a monthly stipend to help cover educational expenses. After graduating from UNG, Pilgrim will serve as commissioned second lieutenants in the Regular Army for four years.

“I look forward to learning more about Military Science and leadership at the University of North Georgia,” he said. “I have been involved with the Boy Scouts of America for seven years, and during that time I have held many leadership positions and earned the rank of Eagle Scout, but there is still more I can learn at UNG to improve as a leader. I feel very blessed to have...the opportunity to receive higher education, serve my country to the best of my ability, and pursue what I feel led by God to do.”

As I tucked my two oldest children into their bunk beds, I felt the pull of my own bed calling me. Our homeschooling family had relocated near our mission organization's headquarters, so my husband and I could receive extensive child evangelism training. Late nights in preparing teaching visuals for our training lessons, studying biblical doctrine in-depth, and maintaining our homeschooling schedule had frazzled us both mentally and physically. Each night we were half asleep before we even laid our heads on the pillow, and tonight was no different. However, as I reached to turn out the light after reading a story to our oldest son and daughter, my daughter asked, "Mom, how can I get to heaven?" Smiling, I realized this was the moment I had been praying for since the day she was born. God was giving me the amazing gift of letting me be the one to guide my child through her second birth. Praying for extra physical strength and God's divine wisdom, I proceeded to share the message of salvation with both my daughter and my son that night. "How fitting," I thought as I rejoiced in their decision to accept Christ. "Christ taught me the Scripture I needed to know during our training in order to lead my own children to Him first."

Soul winners are not just born. They're taught, trained, and motivated by the indwelling power of the Holy Spirit. In fact, when Jesus was on Earth, He took three years to teach and train His disciples the art of soul winning. However, even with all the modern witnessing techniques of today, winning souls is still ineffective without the Holy Spirit's leading and conviction. Only God can illuminate the mind of unbelieving children and adults, convict their hearts of their sinful condition, and move their wills to respond in faith.

Are you prepared to share the hope that lies within you (1 Peter 3:15)? As a Christian homeschooling parent, God says you're part of a witnessing team (Acts 5:32). Yielded and obedient to the Holy Spirit, you have the amazing privilege of leading countless souls to the Savior of the world, starting with your own family. No matter what method you use, be prepared to share the Gospel and enjoy the greatest privilege of being a homeschooling parent — leading your children to Christ.

Father God, leading our children to a saving knowledge of You is one reason we homeschool. Please, use me to teach them about You and invite them to receive You as Savior and Lord. In Jesus' saving name, Amen.]]>Thu, 05 Jun 2014 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/big-deals/
"If we say that we have no sin, we deceive ourselves, and the truth is not in us" (1 John 1:8).

Just like other school children, homeschoolers also use excuses for not completing their schoolwork on time. As my children grew older, they learned several pat answers to justify their procrastination, including their favorite, "Don't worry. It's no big deal." Of all their excuses, this one probably annoyed me the most. Failing to acknowledge their wrongdoing and take responsibility for their actions, this glib remark downplayed the importance of planning ahead and the significance of keeping a promise. I quickly realized if I didn't hold them accountable in small things, my children would also not be accountable in larger things later in life.

When dealing with the matter of sin, we also attempt to downplay its significance in our walk with God. Justifying ourselves, we consider character flaws and little white lies as "no big deal." After all, who's going to notice or pay attention? In Psalm 5:4-5 we read the answer: "For thou art not a God that hath pleasure in wickedness: neither shall evil dwell with thee. The foolish shall not stand in thy sight: thou hatest all workers of iniquity." God is holy, and the standards He sets for those who walk according to the light are measured by that holiness (1 Peter 1:15).

Obviously, God doesn't mess around with sin, and neither should we. If you find yourself in opposition to God's Word and ignoring the Holy Spirit's promptings to abstain from an "insignificant" activity, be careful. You may think that it's no big deal, but it is to God. "But every man is tempted, when he is drawn away of his own lust, and enticed. Then when lust hath conceived, it bringeth forth sin: and sin, when it is finished, bringeth forth death" (James 1:14-15).

Father, I know there's no such thing as a small sin in Your eyes. Cleanse my heart today and help me to walk uprightly in the strength and power of Your love. In Jesus' name, Amen.]]>Wed, 04 Jun 2014 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/summer-school/
"But his delight is in the law of the LORD; and in his law doth he meditate day and night" (Psalm 1:2).

The first day of summer break was here, and my children were excited to enjoy a different homeschooling schedule for the next several months. Expecting a new routine, my children were surprised the first morning when we started our day with a Bible lesson and prayer. "Mom," my young son said. "I thought we weren't doing school during the summer months."

"Well, you're right," I replied, "but God commands us to daily stay in His Word, and there's no such thing as a summer vacation from the Bible."

Summertime can be a temptation for Christians to go on holiday from studying God's Word. With so many outdoor activities and vacations, we are distracted from our normal routine and forget the importance of feasting on God's Word. Like the nation of Israel, we must feed on our heavenly manna one day at a time to maintain our spiritual strength, even during those times when we travel to new and exciting places. Since the Bible is the spiritual food that nourishes our soul and keeps us from sin, we must maintain a disciplined study of its truths all year long.

What about your homeschooling family? Have you made lesson plans to continue teaching God's Word to your children this summer? Whether you dive into a particular book in the Bible or develop a topical study, school is never out for studying God's Word. "This book of the law shall not depart out of thy mouth; but thou shalt meditate therein day and night, that thou mayest observe to do according to all that is written therein: for then thou shalt make thy way prosperous, and then thou shalt have good success" (Joshua 1:8).

Have you ever thought about how an advertisement would read for a homeschool teacher? If truthfully stated, the ad would probably go something like this:

Now accepting applications:

Family seeking fun-loving, godly homeschool teacher. Applicant will be responsible for providing total educational development and daily personal care for children of multiple ages. Applicant will assume the following roles: cook, housemaid, nurse, taxi driver, administrative assistant, accountant, athletic coach, social director, computer technician, household and automotive repairman, gardener, course instructor in multiple subject areas and grade levels, and various other responsibilities. This is a full-time position — approximately 120 hours or more per week. Qualified candidates must be able to work well under pressure, multi-task, and prioritize work loads while maintaining a friendly, enthusiastic attitude. Quick thinking, good memory, and a varied background in extensive subject matter are a must. Promising candidates will be resourceful, adjust easily to distractions, and display creative, hard-working leadership abilities. Organizational and problem solving skills are a plus. Previous teaching experience and/or college preferred, but is not required. If you're interested in working in a fast-paced, ever-changing environment, this is the position for you! For more information on this exciting opportunity to earn fulfilling, one-of-a-kind rewards, please apply in person today.

After reading these qualifications, no wonder many parents walk away from this employment opportunity. Who can measure up to these standards? Praise God, you can! As you step out in faith and yield your weaknesses to God's strength, you'll not only get the job, you'll also successfully homeschool and discover the fantastic benefits of teaching your children at home. "Finally, my brethren, be strong in the Lord, and in the power of his might" (Ephesians 6:10).

Lord, homeschooling seems overwhelming, and there's so much to learn. Like the new guy on the job, teach me what I need to know to successfully homeschool with Your wisdom, strength, and power. In Jesus' name, Amen.]]>Mon, 02 Jun 2014 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/first-time-requests/
"Thou shalt hearken diligently unto the voice of the LORD thy God, to observe and to do all his commandments" (Deuteronomy 28:1b).

"I'm not going to tell you twice," I said to my daughter as she sat with her nose in a book. Frustrated, I thought to myself, "How many times do you have to ask your children to do something before they obey?" Expecting immediate obedience from my children seemed dogmatic, but our homeschooling was never going to survive without their willingness to obey when first asked. As I began to teach and maintain this new discipline, extra effort was required to reinforce my words. However, as my children learned to obey me, I knew they were also learning something even more important — how to obey God when He first asks.

The Bible has many examples of people who suffered the consequences of ignoring, questioning, or rebelling against God when He first spoke to their hearts. Moses was rebuked by God in Exodus 14:15 when he failed to lead the people through the Red Sea at the right time. Jonah suffered the hardships of a shipwreck and lived in the belly of a big fish before he finally went to Nineveh, and the entire nation of Israel wandered in the desert for 40 years before enjoying the Promised Land. Clearly, serving the Lord with immediate obedience is God's desire for His children.

Is there something God has been asking you to do? Perhaps He wants you to witness to a neighbor, teach vacation Bible school, or restore a broken friendship. If you've been ignoring His voice, questioning His commands, or refusing to obey, He will reinforce His words. As a holy and loving Father, He's asking you to show your love by obeying the first time He asks. "That thou mayest love the LORD thy God, and that thou mayest obey his voice, and that thou mayest cleave unto him: for he is thy life, and the length of thy days" (Deuteronomy 30:20a).

Father, I know You desire my obedience in all things. Forgive me when I drag my feet and fail to trust in Your Word. I love You. Please, speak to my heart and show me again what You would have me do. In Jesus' name, Amen.]]>Sun, 01 Jun 2014 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/foolish-dreams/
"Be content with such things as ye have" (Hebrews 13:5b).

As much as I loved teaching my four children, I longed for certain desires while we homeschooled. Selfishly, I looked forward to uninterrupted nights of sleep, a neat house that stayed clean longer than five minutes, and a noise level in my home that was below 50 decibels. Now, 25 years later, the very things that were so important to me are mine in abundance. However, the empty nights seem long and uninteresting, the house sits empty all day and has no reason to be clean, and the quiet is agonizingly loud when I'm home alone. My foolish dreams of yesterday have come true, and I chastise myself for trading productive moments with my family for grumbling and complaining.

God gives us so much to be thankful for each day, but we choose to look past His blessings. Focusing our thoughts on illusive mirages of happiness, we think we know what will satisfy us best. We disregard God's provision and constant care and trade His blessings for future "if only's." Patiently, He waits for us to discover two important facts: He has already given us everything we need (Philippians 4:19), and He only can satisfy the longings of the soul (Psalm 107:9).

What about you? Are you content in following the Lord, or do you long for the "some days" of tomorrow? Dear one, please don't waste another moment chasing foolish dreams. The homeschool blessings God is giving you today are far greater than any dreams you may sacrifice and lay at the Master's feet. "Delight thyself also in the LORD: and he shall give thee the desires of thine heart. Commit thy way unto the LORD; trust also in him; and he shall bring it to pass. And he shall bring forth thy righteousness as the light" (Psalm 37:4-6a).

Father, please forgive my ungrateful heart and help me see afresh all the blessings You faithfully provide. Cause my heart to rejoice instead of complain and realize I am serving You when I serve my family. In the name of Jesus, Amen.]]>Sat, 31 May 2014 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/over-my-head/
"For without me ye can do nothing" (John 15:5b).

As I watched my daughter practice the piano, I knew I had made another mistake as a homeschooling parent. Assuming my limited experience with a few childhood piano lessons was enough to guide me, I began to teach my daughter how to play. However, the more we continued in my daughter's new interest, the more I realized my inadequacies as a proper piano instructor. Motivated by pride and a lack of finances to hire a qualified teacher, I continued teaching until my young daughter stopped playing and asked, "Mom, do you really know what I'm supposed to be doing?"

Surprised that she saw the problem more clearly than me, I humbly replied, "No, honey. I think we're going to need extra help to learn how to play the piano correctly."

The seven sons of Sceva, a Jewish high priest, had a similar experience in Acts 19:11-17. As Jewish exorcists, they foolishly thought they could cast out demons by simply copying the work of the apostle Paul. Without experiencing the transforming power of Christ in their own lives, they attempted to rebuke a demon living in a man saying, "We adjure you by Jesus whom Paul preacheth" (vs. 13b). Mocking their attempt to cast it out, the evil spirit replied, "Jesus I know, and Paul I know; but who are ye" (vs.15b)? Overpowering the Jewish exorcists, the man with the evil spirit beat them up and chased them out of the house.

If you're experiencing defeat in your teaching, chances are you may be in over your head. As a homeschooling parent, don't make the foolish assumption that you alone must teach everything to your children. Instead of hoping for the best or faking it as you teach in your own strength, ask your heavenly Father where to find the help you need. "Ask, and ye shall receive, that your [homeschooling] joy may be full" (John 16:24b).

Father, forgive me for thinking I can homeschool in my own strength. Show me when and where to get the help I need to raise my children in Your perfect will. In the precious name of Jesus, Amen.]]>Fri, 30 May 2014 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/broken-walls/
"A brother offended is harder to be won than a strong city" (Proverbs 18:19a).

I'm not sure how the bad feelings began between my oldest and youngest child. Considering the fact they were both strong-willed, I suppose a conflict was inevitable. Whenever I needed my daughter's help in watching her brothers and sister, she was determined to let her little brother know she was in charge. My young son, however, had other ideas. Resenting his sister's bulldog methods of control, he tested her authority every chance he got, and homeschooling became difficult since I could never trust either of them together alone for any length of time. One day I finally asked my daughter, "Why don't you just talk nicely to your brother? Things get done so much easier when you speak with honey instead of vinegar."

"Oh, Mom," she cried. "He's just asking for it, and I'm delivering." Years later, my oldest and youngest finally resolved their differences, but not until after many hurtful confrontations.

Left unchecked, bad feelings between siblings can last even a lifetime. Jacob and Esau were two such brothers who wasted 20 years in a broken relationship. Being more than an annoying little brother, Jacob actually stole Esau's birthright and left town in fear of his brother's wrath. Years later, God commanded Jacob to return to the land of his father, but the huge obstacle of brotherly reconciliation stood in his way. When messengers reported seeing Esau and his band of 400 men coming toward them as they traveled, Jacob was sure his brother was coming to kill him and his family. Coming before the Lord in prayer, Jacob humbled himself and prayed, "Deliver me, I pray thee, from the hand of my brother, from the hand of Esau: for I fear him, lest he will come and smite me, and the mother with the children" (Genesis 32:11). God answered Jacob's prayer after a humbling all-night wrestling session (vs. 24-32), and when the two brothers met, they finally reconciled with an embrace and a kiss.

What about you? Do you have a poor relationship with your brother, sister, or some other family member? Have they been bulldogging you with negative remarks about homeschooling? If you're tempted to retaliate with a few hurtful remarks of your own, take heed and guard your words. Lifelong conflicts can be easily avoided if you respond in humble brotherly love. "A soft answer turneth away wrath: but grievous words stir up anger" (Proverbs 15:1).

Father, I know You desire the family to work as a unit, but I've allowed selfishness and pride to ruin my relationships with those closest to me. Show me how to live in forgiveness and love my family even when they're being unlovely. In Jesus' name, Amen.]]>Thu, 29 May 2014 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/just-start/
"When my spirit was overwhelmed within me, then thou knewest my path" (Psalm 142:3a).

My son was sitting at the kitchen table, staring out the window with workbooks and other schoolwork scattered around him in a semi-circle two inches deep. I had given him multiple assignments for that week, and I also knew he had several incomplete papers from last week. In addition, he needed to study for upcoming quizzes and tests. As I reminded him of everything that was due by Friday, I could see despair shutting down his mind. As he sat there looking forlorn, I gave him a hug and said, "Is there something I can help you with to get started?"

"No, Mom," he replied. "There's so much to do! How am I supposed to get this all done by Friday?"

Nehemiah must have felt like my son as he stood surveying the huge task ahead of him. Looking at the rubble of Jerusalem's walls that stretched for miles, I'm sure he must have wondered where and how to start (Nehemiah 1-2). Fortunately, Nehemiah had prepared his work with prayer, and God answered by helping him begin. Moving King Artaxerxes to offer his support, Nehemiah left his cupbearer job in Shushan and returned to Jerusalem to rally the people. God also encouraged the hearts of the Jews who were living there to repair each gate and rebuild every stone that had been torn down. In just 52 days, Nehemiah and the people repaired the walls that had been lying in waste for 70 years.

As a homeschooling parent, you may be facing too many assignments in your life. Cleaning, cooking, ministering, and homeschooling leave little time for spare moments. Every task seems important, so where do you begin? If you're feeling overwhelmed under the weight of your responsibilities, learn the lesson God taught Nehemiah and my son. Pray for strength and wisdom, pick your task, and just start working. You'll be amazed at what you can accomplish when the Lord is in it. My son certainly was when he finished every assignment that week, even with time to spare!

Lord, Your Word says in Ephesians 1:19-20 that the same mighty power that raised Jesus from the dead is available to those who believe. Father, I claim Your promise and ask that You empower me today to accomplish every task You have given to me. In Jesus' name, Amen.]]>Wed, 28 May 2014 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/nothing-new/
"There is no new thing under the sun" (Ecclesiastes 1:9b).

As I homeschooled my children, I was surprised to find myself reliving many of the same frustrations I experienced as a young student. One day, I watched as my daughter struggled to solve a story problem in algebra. As she tried to identify the unknown variables in the problem, she cried, "Mom, I just don't get this!"

Remembering my own issues with story problems, I replied, "I know it's difficult to understand. Story problems were always hard for me, too. My junior high math teacher had to spend hours with me before I could finally figure them out."

"Really?" she asked. "I thought I was the only one who couldn't get these."

As Christians, Satan attempts to isolate and defeat us in our failures by convincing us that no one understands our problems. Although each person's experience may be slightly different, we all deal with the same basic sinful temptations mankind has experienced since the Garden of Eden (1 Corinthians 10:13a). Thinking we are alone in fighting our battles, we become discouraged in our Christian walk. We fall prey to Satan's age-old tactics of "the lust of the flesh, and the lust of the eyes, and the pride of life" (1 John 2:16b) and finally give up, thinking that the victorious Christian life won't work for us.

What about you? Are you experiencing a personal struggle in your walk with the Lord today? Perhaps the stress of homeschooling is revealing character flaws that cause you to stumble. Don't despair. You're not alone. Others have experienced what you're going through and know how to help with encouragement and prayer. Best of all, you have a loving Savior who forgives and changes your life to "make all things new" (Revelation 21:5).

Father, I've failed so many times to live my life in the way You want. Please, lead me to godly friends who can help and give me strength to resist those temptations that would lead me from You. In the name of Jesus, Amen.]]>Tue, 27 May 2014 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/memorial-day-memories/
"So we thy people and sheep of thy pasture will give thee thanks for ever: we will shew forth thy praise to all generations" (Psalm 79:13).

Although Memorial Day (originally called Decoration Day) is a day for specifically remembering veterans who have died in our nation's service, our homeschool family observed this holiday like many other families. Visiting the gravesites of loved ones, my children decorated their headstones with a tribute of flowers. In many cases, my young children never knew the family members, and I would answer countless questions about their lives. I never tired of telling them about uncles, aunts, and great-grandparents and the special significance of their lives.

As Christian homeschooling parents, you also have the wonderful privilege of telling your children about the heritage of your faith. Sharing the story of Christ's death and resurrection, as well as what it means to you personally, will enable your children to learn more about their loving heavenly Father. Like a potter molding a piece of clay, you have the incredible opportunity to carve a lasting impression of God's goodness and love in their minds with every spiritual lesson you have learned.

Since life can change in a moment, make this Memorial Day count with your family. Attend your community's celebration, parade, and other events, but also be sure to include a visit to the cemetery. Leave flowers, talk about the people you loved, and most importantly, tell your children about the hope we have because Christ loves us. "Behold, I shew you a mystery; We shall not all sleep, but we shall all be changed, In a moment, in the twinkling of an eye, at the last trump: for the trumpet shall sound, and the dead shall be raised incorruptible, and we shall be changed" (1 Corinthians 15:51-52).

Lord, thank You for the loving memory of godly family members who have died and gone before us. We praise You for the hope of seeing them again and the sure promise of Your return. In Jesus' name, Amen.]]>Mon, 26 May 2014 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/influences-for-good/
The most important influence on your homeschooled child is the environment in which he grows. When parents demonstrate a healthy relationship between each other and the Lord, a child's perspective about himself and his world is influenced for good. Parents who fear the Lord and live according to His Word have a far greater impact on homeschooling's success than parents who worry about having the best curriculum or the latest computer. Giving your child a Christian education, therefore, requires a homeschooling parent to be completely in line with God's will.

The life of Timothy in the New Testament is a wonderful example of a young person who benefited from the godly influence of his family. Timothy enjoyed a relationship with Jesus Christ because he first saw the fruits of a spiritual walk in the lives of his mother and grandmother (2 Timothy 1:5). Through their sincere faith, Timothy learned the truth and became a Christian. Later, when meeting the apostle Paul, Timothy proved himself to be a worthy disciple capable of enduring great hardships for the sake of the Gospel.

What kind of example are you setting for your child? In your day-to-day living and homeschooling, is your child seeing you seek God's strength, comfort, and wisdom? Are you serving in humility and incorporating the Scriptures into your decision making? If you want your child to be successful while homeschooling, make sure the example of your life leads him toward Christ instead of away from Him. Even as Paul exhorted young Timothy, "Be thou an example of the believers, in word, in conversation, in charity, in spirit, in faith, in purity" (1 Timothy 4:12b).

Lord, I stand in awe at the great responsibility You've given me to be a homeschooling parent. Let my life be a testimony of Your unending love and may my children grow to serve You with their whole hearts. In Jesus' name, Amen.]]>Sun, 25 May 2014 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/symbols-of-the-heart/
Are there items in your house that have special meaning to your homeschooling family? Surprisingly, the object my adult children remember the most from our homeschooling days was our kitchen table. It was just an old table beat up with scratches and scars, but it represented the heart of our family. As wide as it was long, this sturdy old table was big enough for everyone's schoolwork and craft projects. For 20 years, it supported the life and love of our homeschooling family as it brought us together to play, eat, and learn.

The Christian faith has many symbols, too, but the most meaningful certainly is the cross. Although this torturous tool was used to punish criminals, the cross of Christ stands in stark contrast. Pointing to the One who paid sin's penalty, the cross represents the heart of our Christian faith. With hope and forgiveness extended to all mankind, Jesus willingly sacrificed His life with arms opened wide to provide room for everyone who believes. Today, Christ asks all who believe in Him to do more than wear this symbol of faith around their necks. Each day, we are to declare His love to the world by taking up our cross and following Him (Luke 9:23). In fact, Christ says, "And he that taketh not his cross, and followeth after me, is not worthy of me" (Matthew 10:38).

Do you find it difficult to stand against the tide of anti-Christian sentiment that permeates today's society? As a homeschooling family, you don't need to be embarrassed that you teach your children with a Christian curriculum that teaches creation and the truth of the Scriptures. Take up your cross and be a witness about the heart of Christianity — the cross of Christ. "For the preaching of the cross is to them that perish foolishness; but unto us which are saved it is the power of God" (1 Corinthians 1:18).

Lord, help me to do more than wear the symbols of my faith in You. Show me how to boldly speak Your truth in love, so many more people may come to know the power of the cross. In the name of Jesus, Amen.]]>Sat, 24 May 2014 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/forgiving-failure/
If you've ever felt guilty about past homeschooling failures, you're not alone. Many parents have known setbacks with over-scheduling, under-planning, and teaching unfamiliar courses. However, the worst failures experienced as homeschooling parents aren't related to academics or schedules. Our worst failures come when we fail to show the love of Christ. Losing our patience and becoming irritable with our children, we speak harshly and suffer regret and remorse for foolish words and actions. Afterwards, even though we confess our sin, we fail to accept God's forgiveness and torture ourselves with our mistakes until we quit homeschooling altogether.

Until we understand that the Lord forgives and cleanses us from sin (1 John 1:9), we will continue to carry our guilt. Promising yourself that you'll do a better job homeschooling tomorrow or the next day only adds to your guilt. The forgiveness of sin isn't based on your performance. You've already proven that your performance isn't good enough. Your forgiveness is based on what Christ has done for you on the cross. When you acknowledge that He died in your place, He gives you a new thinking pattern guided by the Holy Spirit. In His power, you are able to set aside your selfish and fleshly desires that cause homeschooling failures.

What about you? Did you wake up this morning dragging around the guilt for your homeschooling failures from yesterday? You can find release from that bondage if you hand over your past mistakes to Christ. If you've confessed your sin, He's forgiven you, and there's no reason to feel guilty any longer. "He hath not dealt with us after our sins; nor rewarded us according to our iniquities. As far as the east is from the west, so far hath he removed our transgressions from us" (Psalm 103:10, 12).

Lord, help me to receive Your forgiveness and not live in the shame of my failures. Give me wisdom to teach my children today and help me to trust in Your strength and not my own. In the name of Jesus, Amen.]]>Fri, 23 May 2014 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/double-minded-homeschooling/
"A double minded man is unstable in all his ways" (James 1:8).

How many times have you doubted your decision to homeschool — one, two, ten, more? I lost count on the number of times I failed to trust in God's provision and care. As a Christian parent, I knew we would never succeed if I continually allowed my emotions to be tossed around each time something went wrong. Doubt may be a natural human response, but either God had shown me to homeschool or He hadn't. Instead of looking at the waves of adversity, God asked me, "Will you walk by faith and trust in My leading?"

Like the man looking for help to heal his son in Mark 9:24b, I cried out to Jesus, "Lord, I believe; help thou mine unbelief."

Meeting me in my limited faith, the Lord gently showed Himself faithful as I sought His wisdom to homeschool each day. God first encouraged and empowered me with the truth of Deuteronomy 6:7 and other verses where God commands parents to "teach them (Scripture) diligently unto thy children, and shalt talk of them when thou sittest in thine house, and when thou walkest by the way, and when thou liest down, and when thou risest up." Next, He provided constant encouragement through several loving homeschooling families. Facing doubts of their own, we found strength together in prayer to fight unbelief (Matthew 18:20). Most of all, the supernatural answers to prayer and the Holy Spirit's guidance confirmed that our family was indeed walking where God desired.

If your doubts are outweighing your faith in homeschooling today, the Lord is waiting to show Himself mighty to you. Like Thomas, He doesn't want you to doubt any longer. Simply cry out, and He'll show Himself to be Lord of your homeschooling. "But let him ask in faith, nothing wavering. For he that wavereth is like a wave of the sea driven with the wind and tossed" (James 1:6).

Father God, thank You for Your grace in leading our family on this homeschooling adventure. Please, increase my faith and help me to see Your perfect plan for our family. In the name of Jesus, Amen.]]>Thu, 22 May 2014 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/unseen-sacrifices/
"But this man, after he had offered one sacrifice for sins for ever, sat down on the right hand of God" (Hebrews 10:12).

Homeschooling is so exciting because it provides spontaneous opportunities to learn. Such was the case the day my son worked on his Bible assignment. As he looked up Scripture passages on prayer, he noticed "The Praying Hands" plaque hanging on our wall and asked, "Whose hands are those?"

As we began researching, my son and I discovered an amazing story of sacrificial love. Albrecht Durer and his brother Albert both had a dream to become artists. However, living in a family of 18 children, they knew their father could never afford to send both of them to art school. As they discussed the problem, they decided one brother would work in the mines to support the other while studying art. Then, when that brother had completed his studies, he would return the favor and work to support the other. Albrecht won the toss of the coin and went to school first, while Albert went to work in the mines.

Albrecht's talents were remarkable, and by the time he graduated, he was earning large fees for his commissioned works. Returning home a successful artist, he said to Albert, "Now it's your turn to go to school, dear brother."

With his body worn out from years of hard work in the mines, Albert replied, "No, it's too late for me. My fingers have all been smashed at least once, and my arthritis is so bad I could never hold a pen or brush to a canvas. No, for me it's too late." As the tears streamed down Albert's face, Albrecht realized the great sacrifice his brother had made. Moved by this incredible gift of love, Albrecht painstakingly painted a portrait of the hands that had given him so much. Immortalizing his brother's hands, "The Praying Hands" became Albrecht's most well-known masterpiece!

After reading this remarkable story with my son, I was overcome with emotion. Thanking God for His divine guidance in teaching us a different lesson, I realized again that every sacrifice made to homeschool was worth the joy of seeing my children grow in their faith. What a privilege to give my all to help them achieve their best!

Lord, thank You for Your sacrificial death on the cross that offers eternal life and hope to all who believe. Please, show me how to lay down my life daily to homeschool my children with the same sacrificial love. In Jesus' name, Amen.]]>Wed, 21 May 2014 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/why-i-love-homeschooling/
Why do I love homeschooling? Let me count the ways:

• I love homeschooling because fixed hours aren't required to learn a subject. When I discovered God had given me a night owl who loved to sleep in, I simply adjusted and made a schedule that worked best for our family.

• I love homeschooling because there are so many fun things to learn. Not only are there great curriculums for covering the main subject areas, but there are also countless extracurricular topics and activities to explore. We once spent an entire week studying birds of prey when we found a wounded hawk in our yard after a severe wind storm.

• I love homeschooling because I have the flexibility to adjust our day depending on what God brings. If my child is grasping concepts quickly and wants to know more in language arts, then I'll keep going and forget about doing history that day. If Dad has an impromptu meeting in another city, I can take advantage of the opportunity and schedule a family field trip.

• I love homeschooling because it gives me an opportunity to really know my children. As a teacher and a parent, I see both their hearts and ther minds, and I have the blessed privilege to develop both in the Lord.

• I love homeschooling because I don't have to wait until school's out to receive a hug and a kiss. I have the joy of loving and being loved by my children throughout the entire day.

Why do you love homeschooling? Start your own list of reasons today and place it somewhere to remind yourself of homeschooling's many blessings. When Satan tries to steal your faith and discourage you, you'll be prepared to stand strong. Instead of asking, "Now, why was it that I wanted to homeschool?" you'll have answers that prove homeschooling is the best job in the world. "Above all, taking the shield of faith, wherewith ye shall be able to quench all the fiery darts of the wicked" (Ephesians 6:16).

Lord, thank You for giving me the opportunity to teach my children. Even though tough days will come, I know Your presence will guide us. Help me to appreciate the blessings of teaching my children each day. In the name of Jesus, Amen.

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"Lo, children are an heritage of the LORD: and the fruit of the womb is his reward" (Psalm 127:3).

My birthday present came early the year I turned 25. The afternoon before my birthday, God gave me the gift of a new baby boy. Like all pregnancies that go past their due date, I worried about the new life inside me. However, when my son was finally born, there was no doubt he was healthy and strong. With a full head of red hair, a ruddy appearance, and weighing in at 9 pounds and 15 ounces, my bouncing baby boy looked like a tough outdoorsman as he greeted me with a smile.

Parenting this "easy keeper" was fun right from the start. My son slept, ate, and played exactly the way a mother would want. As he grew, he was ever the complacent child and never demanded or drew attention to himself. Humble in heart, he approached life with an inquisitive mind and sensitive spirit. As we homeschooled, my son was active, observant, and creative, and I knew his life was going to be different. John the Baptist was his biblical mentor, and like John, my son was happiest serving God while living in the great outdoors.

Twenty-five years later on my 50th birthday, my outdoorsy, archeologist son surprised me with another blessing. He bought me a new pair of durable hiking sandals, so I could accompany him on the mountain trail near his home. Crying, I read his words of love and the Bible verse he picked just for me: "How beautiful upon the mountains are the feet of him that bringeth good tidings, that publisheth peace; that bringeth good tidings of good, that publisheth salvation; that saith unto Zion, Thy God reigneth" (Isaiah 52:7)! Birthday surprises never cease! Praise God for His glorious gift of children!

Father, I lift my heart in praise to You for the wonderful blessings of children. Thank You for the privilege of being a parent and knowing the joys of a child's love. In the name of Jesus, Amen.]]>Mon, 19 May 2014 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/spring-cleaning/
"Ye have sinned against the LORD: and be sure your sin will find you out" (Numbers 32:23b).

Spring was here, and my children were wrapping up their schoolwork for the year one subject at a time. With fewer hours spent homeschooling, new projects were needed to direct my children's energy elsewhere. Since we had several dilapidated buildings on our farm that were shedding siding, shingles, nails, and small pieces of glass, I decided to "hire" my children to clean the mess. Giving them each a small bucket, I informed them that they could receive one cent for every nail and piece of glass they collected. Excited to earn their own money, they all agreed to do this new job.

Taking their new employment seriously, they reported to me daily with bucket in hand. Dumping the contents, I painstakingly counted each item and paid them accordingly. However, as the days went on, the contents of their buckets grew smaller as they became distracted by playing games and riding their bikes. Not expecting much in my son's bucket, I was surprised the next day when he came to be paid. His bucket was almost full with broken pieces of glass, and he was expecting to make a lot of money. Smiling he said, "Let's count these right now, Mom!"

"OK honey," I replied. As we dumped the entire contents, I noticed something odd about the glass. Like the pieces of a puzzle, the edges all seemed to match one another. Suspiciously, I looked at my ten-year-old son and said, "Did you break a larger piece of glass into smaller pieces to earn more money?" Shocked that I had discovered his scheme, he looked at me and quietly admitted the truth. Inside, I laughed at his ingenuity, but outwardly we discussed the reasons why he wasn't getting paid that day.

As Christians, Satan tempts us into thinking there will be no repercussions for deceitfulness. When we fail to tell the store clerk that she's given the wrong change, use an outdated coupon, or try to return merchandise we've damaged saying it was a manufacturing flaw, God knows the truth. Like Achan in Joshua 7, your sin will find you out, and God will reveal the truth. What about you? Is there some spring cleaning the Holy Spirit needs to do in your life?

Father, forgive me for those sins I excuse as little white lies. Help me to say "no" to Satan's foolish temptations to get ahead and deal honestly with others and You. In the name of Jesus, Amen.]]>Sun, 18 May 2014 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/when-god-says-no/
"In the day when I cried thou answeredst me" (Psalm 138:3a).

Our family was considered poor while we homeschooled. Living on one income left us with little money, and trips to the grocery store were made only for milk, flour, eggs, and other staples. We baked our own bread and supplemented our food budget with a bountiful garden. Thankfully, we always had something to eat, and my children never went to bed hungry. However, there were times during our homeschooling when I didn't understand why God allowed our financial situation. I longed for the convenience of prepackaged foods and thought, "It's not fair. Other homeschooling families don't have to cook from scratch, and they have so much more time for field trips and fun days."

My frustration continued until I taught my children the inspirational story of Amy Carmichael. Amy was a Christian missionary in India who founded an orphanage for thousands of children who otherwise would have suffered a bleak future. As a child, Amy prayed to have blue eyes instead of brown. When the color never changed, she was desperately disappointed that God hadn't answered her prayer. Amy's mother lovingly explained that "no" was an answer to prayer, too, and years later, Amy discovered the reason for God's answer. To rescue the abused children in India, Amy had to disguise herself as a native. Dyeing her skin with coffee, Amy was able to keep from being recognized as a foreigner because her eyes were brown, not blue. After reading Amy's story to my family, I thought, "Maybe God has a reason for telling me 'no,' too."

As time went on and my children grew into adulthood, I finally understood God's reason for those hours spent cooking in the kitchen. Because our resources were limited, my children had enjoyed a healthy diet of homegrown, homemade food. They were fit and strong, and they had also learned how to be good cooks themselves. What I had considered a detriment to our homeschooling had actually been a huge blessing.

What do you do when God answers your prayers with "no"? Satan will tempt you to pout as you see greener grass on the other side of the fence, but don't believe him. God's perfect plan for your life will only be fulfilled as you learn to follow Him in obedience, including those times when He says, "no." "For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, saith the LORD, thoughts of peace, and not of evil, to give you an expected end" (Jeremiah 29:11).

Father, thank You for answering prayer. I confess that only You know what's best for my life. Like a child, help me to trust You when You say "no" and realize that it's always for my good. In Jesus' name, Amen.]]>Sat, 17 May 2014 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/a-walk-in-the-park/
"For the LORD taketh pleasure in his people: he will beautify the meek with salvation" (Psalm 149:4).

Are you too busy completing your curriculum to let your homeschooler play? During my first years of homeschooling, I foolishly lived under the pressure of completing our workbooks. I traded my children's playtime for finishing every problem and watched as they became more frustrated with this routine. Realizing something was wrong, I thought, "Why aren't they enjoying school anymore?" The next day as I struggled to finish math with my son, I saw we were getting nowhere. Finally, I stopped and said, "Why don't we just go for a walk and play in the park this afternoon?"

Leaving schoolwork behind, we packed the car and headed to the park. After playing only a few minutes, I saw my children's stress levels drop as they enjoyed the slides, merry-go-round, swings, and teeter-totter. Laughing and giggling, the smiles came back, and I knew the answer to my teaching problems. Homeschooling was more than just completing workbooks. It was also taking time for a walk in the park.

As Christians, we forget that God enjoys spending time with us, too. We get involved in doing things for God, when all He wants is for us to enjoy being with Him. Yes, serving the Lord is wonderful, but we must also take time to walk with God and experience the sweet joy of His loving presence. If you find yourself doing too much, perhaps it's time to take a break and enjoy a Mary moment at Jesus' feet.

Lord, thank You for Your love and the joy of being Your child. Teach me to relax in Your love and enjoy every moment with You. In the name of Jesus, Amen.]]>Fri, 16 May 2014 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/upward-thoughts/
"O how I love thy law! it is my meditation all the day" (Psalm 119:97).

Homeschooling families have incredible opportunities to train their children in righteousness. Without public mandates restricting our actions, we can enjoy daily devotions, prayer, and the Bible's wonderful truths. Just as exciting is the unlimited moments we have to direct our child's thoughts toward God. Throughout the entire school day, biblical applications can be interjected as they apply to our Christian curriculum or the problems of daily living. Growing in the Lord, our children's faith becomes vibrant and powerful as they learn to "think on these things" (Philippians 4:8b).

King David also learned the art of directing his thoughts toward God. Throughout the Psalms, he demonstrated how to daily meditate on God and His Word. Whether fighting giants, killing bears, herding sheep, or playing his harp, David focused his thinking toward God as he remembered His faithfulness and blessings. Even when running for his life from Saul, David trusted in God's protection and remained focused on what God could do rather than the hopelessness of the situation.

What about you? Is Satan bogging down your mind with homeschooling worries that cause you to forget God's blessings? If you're having trouble keeping your thoughts fixed on God, remember what He has already done. As you count your blessings every moment of the day, you'll find the strength to trust His promises for the future. "Finally, brethren, whatsoever things are true, whatsoever things are honest, whatsoever things are just, whatsoever things are pure, whatsoever things are lovely, whatsoever things are of good report; if there be any virtue, and if there be any praise, think on these things" (Philippians 4:8).

Father, thank You for the wonderful way You've blessed our family as we've homeschooled. Remind me of Your promises and strengthen me to hold fast to the joys of teaching my children at home. In the name of Jesus, Amen.]]>Thu, 15 May 2014 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/you-want-it-when/
One reason parents choose to homeschool is the advantage children have in learning at their own pace. However, even homeschoolers must learn how to meet a deadline. Balancing these two approaches to learning required creativity as I prepared my lesson plans. Since I knew deadlines would teach my children to manage workloads, I assigned specific projects and assignments to complement their curriculum. Whether they expounded on a science concept by researching a hypothesis or wrote a lengthy paper for a composition, they learned to gather the information and materials necessary to finish their assignment by a fixed date. Years later, they thanked me as they saw the importance of meeting deadlines in the workplace.

The Bible also tells of a spiritual deadline for all mankind that is soon approaching. Some day Christ will return as Lord and King to judge the world. In Mark 13:32-33 Christ says, "But of that day and that hour knoweth no man, no, not the angels which are in heaven, neither the Son, but the Father. Take ye heed, watch and pray: for ye know not when the time is." Unlike deadlines in this life, God in His wisdom chooses not to reveal the specific time or hour of Christ's return. Jesus simply tells us to watch, pray, and be ready. Unfortunately, many will miss the joys of heaven because they wait too long. By failing to heed Jesus' warning to respond now to the Gospel message, they will be lost for eternity and suffer eternal separation from God.

Are you telling others about God's final deadline? Although the message may not be popular, the promise of Christ's return is sure (2 Peter 3:8-10). Without a doubt, those who come to know Christ due to your witness will be sure to thank you one day when you stand together in the presence of the Lord. "Again, he limiteth a certain day, saying in David, To day after so long a time; as it is said, To day if ye will hear his voice, harden not your hearts" (Hebrews 4:7).

Lord, thank You for the promise of Your return. Please, help me boldly share the message of Your love and forgiveness with as many people as possible before that final day. In Jesus' name, Amen.]]>Wed, 14 May 2014 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/quiet-testimonies/
"And be ready always to give an answer to every man that asketh you a reason of the hope that is in you with meekness and fear" (1 Peter 3:15b).

Homeschoolers have different ways of promoting the joys of homeschooling. Some share homeschooling's rewards on a grand scale, while others promote them by a quiet, willing testimony. When asked why we homeschooled, I offered explanations that included our belief in Deuteronomy 6:5-7 and the example of our everyday homeschooling experience. Those people truly interested would respond, "Boy, that's great! I wish I was able to do that!" Even my children's friends responded to a quiet testimony in a positive way. After coming over to play, they would leave saying, "I wish my parents would homeschool me!" The benefits of homeschooling were easily revealed as they heard and saw homeschooling for what it was — a better way to learn.

Although the Bible gives examples of great leaders whose witness changed the lives of thousands, it also shares stories of men and women whose testimonies only affected a few. Andrew brought his brother Peter to Jesus, Philip told the Ethiopian ruler how to be saved, and Ruth's faithful actions to her mother-in-law, Naomi, were a witness in themselves. Impacting the lives of just a few, their quiet testimonies had far-reaching effects that accomplished great things for God.

What about you? Do you ever feel your witness is insignificant? Don't doubt the power of your quiet testimony to make a difference in the lives of others. Although you may never be a talented speaker on a stage, your faithful words of love and encouragement can be the tool God uses to win a lost soul to Christ!

Father, thank You for every opportunity I have to tell others of Your amazing love. Use me today to encourage both my own family and others. In the name of Jesus, Amen.]]>Tue, 13 May 2014 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/nothing-more-to-give/
"It is God that girdeth me with strength, and maketh my way perfect" (Psalm 18:32).

Do you ever wake up and feel like you have nothing left to give as a homeschooling parent? During one quiet morning as I looked out the kitchen window, I felt exhausted physically, financially, and emotionally. I just wanted my house to be clean, but as I looked around the house, each task I had accomplished seemed to have been replaced by ten others. Laundry, dishes, and dirt seemed to be everywhere. Added to this overwhelming burden was a mountain of schoolwork waiting to be graded and lessons needing to be planned. I felt depleted to the point of despair and prayed, "Lord, I'm so tired. Will I ever finish all this work?"

The struggle to find strength for the battle is nothing new. We can quit homeschooling, but if countless other Christians have remained steadfast through their difficult times, we can too. Clearly, believing the old saying, "When life gets tough, the tough get going," isn't the answer. As Christian homeschooling parents, we already know we don't have the ability to conjure up strength on our own. The strength lies in our attitude toward God and acknowledging our dependency on Him. Like Paul, we must learn "for when I am weak, then am I strong" (2 Corinthians 12:10b). Like a little child strengthened by his parents to lift objects much too heavy for himself, we can rediscover God's strength to move mountains of housework, schoolwork, or whatever comes our way.

If you are experiencing homeschool burnout and finding yourself shutting down, God is waiting for you. Your all-powerful and loving heavenly Father has the strength you need to face today, tomorrow, and even eternity. Stop thinking about what you can't do. Start depending on God and find out what you can do through Him today. "I can do all things through Christ which strengtheneth me" (Philippians 4:13).

Lord, homeschooling is impossible without You. Show me how to cling to You and lift me above the weight of each day's tasks. In the name of Jesus, Amen.]]>Mon, 12 May 2014 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/mothers-day-memories/
"Her children arise up, and call her blessed" (Proverbs 31:28a).

Mother's Day was always special for me as a homeschooling mom. Each year, my children went the extra mile and demonstrated their love with thoughtful homemade cards and gifts. One Mother's Day, however, stands above the rest in my memory. That year, a well-known restaurant chain in our town sponsored a Mother's Day poetry contest for all the young writers in the community. The contestants were required to submit a short poem sharing what their mother meant to them. After seeing the contest and prizes listed in the paper, my 12-year-old daughter decided to enter and submit her poem.

Several days later, a special envelope arrived in the mail from the restaurant. Upon opening the letter, my daughter discovered that she had won the grand prize of one dozen red roses for her mother, a monetary gift of $25 for her, and a complimentary meal for our entire family at the restaurant. In addition, her poem was to be published in the local newspaper, and a special copy of the poem was to be printed and framed just for me. Enjoying the prizes was exciting, but even more wonderful was the message that my daughter wrote in the poem. How blessed I was to read these words of love:

For My Motherby JoAnna Tatman

Before even time beganMy mother for me was planned.She brought me unto the earthThrough the miracle of birth.

As a child in this world anewShe gave me guidance, wise and true.She picked me up when I fell downAnd kissed away my tears and frowns.

When I failed, she loved me anyway.Her trueness lasts even to this day.As a child and a motherWe will always have each other.

Even when life takes us apartWe from each other will not depart.For she is the goodness inside my soul,A strength on which I will forever grow.

Homeschool mom, do you know how deeply your children love you? Although you may not see their affections demonstrated every day, your children really do appreciate and love you for the sacrifices you make when homeschooling. You are the object of their affections, and if they haven't done so already, someday they too will rise up to call you blessed.

Lord, so many days I feel like my acts of love go unnoticed. Teach me to remember that every kind word and deed is making a difference forever in the life of my child. In the name of Jesus, Amen.]]>Sun, 11 May 2014 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/the-consequences-of-complacency/
"Thou shalt love the Lord thy God with all thy heart, and with all thy soul, and with all thy strength, and with all thy mind" (Luke 10:27b).

Complacency was creeping into our homeschooling, and my son's attitude toward his math was growing more apathetic. Realizing he would never finish his entire curriculum by the end of the school year, he decided to face the problem with an "I don't care" outlook. Walking past his room one day I heard him say, "I'll be glad when school's done next week. Then, I won't have to think about geometry anymore."

"Wrong," I thought to myself. "You're not getting off the hook that easily!" As Memorial Day approached, my son saw the green lights of summer flashing before his eyes. However, what he failed to notice was the stop sign in my hand called summer school. With workbook in hand, I informed him that school was still in session. Each day we would be completing two lessons in math until his work was finished.

Complacent Christians are of no use to the Lord. Weighed down by sins or entangled in the affairs of the world, their effectiveness for Christ is nullified. Allowing Satan to lure them to sleep, they no longer have the passionate fire for serving Christ. Assured of salvation and wanting only enough of God to get by, they live life to please themselves rather than to serve God. In Revelation, God clearly states His feeling about lukewarm Christians: "I know thy works, that thou art neither cold nor hot: I would thou wert cold or hot. So then because thou art lukewarm, and neither cold nor hot, I will spue thee out of my mouth" (Revelation 3:15-16).

Has complacency wrapped its ugly fingers around your heart? If you haven't felt a burden for the lost, gone to church, or even spent time in prayer and Bible study for ages, chances are good that your fire is almost out. Before "I don't care" becomes a permanent part of your spiritual vocabulary, heed God's warning and let the Holy Spirit fill you anew. "That ye put off concerning the former conversation the old man, which is corrupt according to the deceitful lusts; And be renewed in the spirit of your mind" (Ephesians 4:22-23).

Lord, forgive me for letting the things of this world take precedence over my love and devotion to You. Rekindle my love and expose those things that have taken me away from You. In the name of Jesus, Amen.]]>Sat, 10 May 2014 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/asparagus-hunts/
"And when she hath found it, she calleth her friends and her neighbours together, saying, Rejoice with me; for I have found the piece which I had lost" (Luke 15:9).

Hunting the roadside ditches for asparagus was a favorite springtime activity for our homeschooling family. Every year, my oldest son was the first to ask, "When are we going to go looking for asparagus?" He loved eating this tasty vegetable. As if hunting for a treasure, he would map out our favorite wild asparagus locations on the county atlas. Harvesting asparagus appealed to his hunter/gatherer spirit that loved finding each spear hidden within the ditch grasses. Watching him walk down the ditch with paper bag in hand, I said, "I'm not sure which you enjoy more, eating asparagus or hunting for it."

Smiling, he replied, "Oh, definitely hunting for it!"

As Christians, we should have the same intense desire to reach lost souls. Unfortunately, many of us turn away from such opportunities to spread the good news of Jesus Christ. Safe in our own little environment of believers, we fail to see the hurting hearts of the unlovely and unwanted. Isolated and protected, we remain in the salt shaker and fail to be the salt the Lord desires (Matthew 5:13). God challenges us to go looking for the lost. Like the parable of the lost sheep and the lost coin (Luke 15), we are to walk through life with eyes open to see the hearts of those needing the saving message of Christ's love and forgiveness.

When was the last time you shared the love of Jesus with someone in need of salvation? In the end, all that will matter are the lives of those who came to know Christ because of your witness. Will you seek the lost?

Father, please open my eyes to see those who are in need of Your saving grace. Grant me boldness to share the message of hope and forgiveness, so they might find eternal life in Your name. In Jesus' name, Amen.]]>Fri, 09 May 2014 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/quick-fixes/
"Create in me a clean heart, O God; and renew a right spirit within me" (Psalm 51:10).

How could I say no? My children were asking for a day off from homeschooling to enjoy our favorite family activity — riding our bikes. Since we had just moved to the country, we weren't aware of the problems that lay ahead. As we proceeded down the gravel road for our first outing, we traveled only a short way before three of our bikes started losing air in their tires. Stopping the other children, my husband examined the flat tires and found goatheads sticking into the tread. Apparently, the burrs that were ruining our day came from the puncture vine that grew easily in the ditches and roads near our new home.

Looking for a fast and inexpensive solution to the problem, we decided to purchase several tubes of "goo." However, we quickly discovered this sticky remedy was useless against the goathead's long, spiny ends. My husband's next idea involved purchasing an extra tire tube and cutting it in half to reinforce each bike tire with additional thickness. This idea also proved to be useless. After exhausting several other options, we finally bought what we should have purchased in the first place — expensive, solid tubes necessary for riding bikes on thorn-infested roads. After calculating the time, effort, and money spent, we realized how much our "quick fix" had cost.

Quick fixes usually have a way of costing more in spiritual matters, too. Like King David's sin with Bathsheba, we foolishly attempt to fix or cover up the sin in our lives with short-term solutions. Bypassing prayer and the correction from God's Word, we waste time and energy thinking, "What's the easiest way to get out of this?" We refuse to listen to God's disciplining voice and trade confession and long-term Holy Spirit transformation for our man-made remedy.

What about you? Are you heading down life's road thinking you have everything under control? If you've been tempted to apply a quick fix to your sinful condition, you may find yourself with a flat tire or, worse yet, headed for the ditch. Pull over now and allow the solid truth of God's Word to bring about the change in your life that God desires! "For I will declare mine iniquity; I will be sorry for my sin" (Psalm 38:18).

Lord, I've been trying to fix this mess in my life for too long. I confess that what I've been doing is wrong. Please, transform me into the person You want me to be. In the name of Jesus, Amen.]]>Thu, 08 May 2014 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/moms-night-out-hits-theaters-for-mothers-day/
Maybe one thing you’d like for Mother’s Day is a little time on the town with some fellow homeschool moms for a couple of uninterrupted hours to reconnect with good friends. Allyson (Sarah Drew) and her friends desire the same in the new film Moms’ Night Out, set to hit the big screen this weekend.

However, in order to steal away and enjoy an overdue ladies night, the women must leave their children in the care of their husbands’ well-meaning arms for a few short hours. “What could go wrong?” the movie’s tagline asks.

Starring Sarah Drew, Sean Astin, Patricia Heaton, and Trace Adkins, the charming, comedic family film keeps parents on their toes as it celebrates the importance of family and the art of parenting.

Directed by brothers Andrew and John Erwin, Moms’ Night Out hits theaters on Friday, May 9 and is rated PG.

Do you plan to see this film?

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Since home cooking was quickly becoming a lost art, food preparation was an important part of our homeschooling. Although gourmet delights were appreciated, what our family enjoyed eating most were old-fashioned meals prepared with organic, farm-fresh meats, vegetables, and grains. Recipes for this type of cooking, however, weren't found in commercial cookbooks. Rather, these recipes came from the godly women who shared their culinary skills in the church cookbook. Gleaning from their expertise, we baked cakes, breads, and pies from scratch and learned the resourcefulness of using our garden's bounty for casseroles, soups, and salads.

In addition to helpful and healthy recipes, these wonderful cookbooks also held small nuggets of seasoned advice from gray-haired grandmas. Like Solomon's proverbs, these insightful sayings were sprinkled throughout the pages, giving my children and me food for thought as we cooked. Here are a few of my favorites:

"Church members are either pillars or caterpillars. The pillars hold up the church, while the caterpillars just crawl in and out."

"If you want to be original, be yourself. God never made two people exactly alike."

"Love isn't blind. It just doesn't tell all it sees."

"A gossiper is like an old shoe — its tongue never stays in place."

"Food without seasoning is like talk without reasoning."

"Work is the yeast that raises the dough."

Whether it's cooking, cleaning, or homeschooling children, a younger woman needs the experienced knowledge an older woman provides. However, you have to be willing to share the recipes God has taught you. If you're a seasoned homeschool mom, is there someone whom you can bless with the many things the Lord has taught you? "The aged women likewise, that they be in behaviour as becometh holiness, not false accusers, not given to much wine, teachers of good things; That they may teach the young women to be sober, to love their husbands, to love their children" (Titus 2:3-4).

Lord, thank You for the women you've placed in my life to help me raise my family and care for my home. Use me now to be a blessing, so others might be encouraged to follow You as they homeschool. In the name of Jesus, Amen.]]>Wed, 07 May 2014 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/second-starts/
"It is of the LORD's mercies that we are not consumed, because his compassions fail not. They are new every morning: great is thy faithfulness" (Lamentations 3:22-23).

Homeschooling was even harder during the 1980s than it is today. Starting out strong, I was determined to be the best homeschooling parent, but that was before I faced opposition. Some days, my relatives attacked with hurtful comments highlighting my inability to teach. Other days, public school officials sent threatening notes of truancy. Daily, strangers challenged me with infamous questions like, "Why aren't your kids in school?" Without the benefit of experienced homeschoolers and organizations to help me through these confrontations, I vacillated in my homeschooling commitment. Succumbing to the pressure and ignoring God's call, I stopped teaching my children and said, "God, I can't do this. This is too hard!"

In Acts 12:25, John Mark started out strong, too, as he accompanied Paul and Barnabas on their first missionary journey. Near the city of Pamphylia, however, the pressures of the trip became too great, and he turned around and headed back home to Jerusalem (Acts 13:13). Perhaps it was the angry Jewish leaders trying to imprison the followers of Jesus or the long days and short nights with little food and comfort. Whatever the reason, John Mark quit, and Paul had nothing good to say about him (Acts 15:37-38). When Barnabas wanted to take him on their second missionary journey, a conflict arose and Paul "thought not good to take him with them" (vs.38b).

Fortunately, God was gentler with me than Paul was with John Mark. Reminding me why I was homeschooling, He gave me another chance. As He confirmed the burden originally put on my heart, I went on in His strength to teach my children through high school. Like John Mark, I rejoiced in God's loving patience and the opportunity to start again.

What about you? If you've ever failed at homeschooling or living the Christian life, God is waiting to help you begin anew. Just pray right now and ask Him for the help you need. Whether it's strength to keep homeschooling or strength to find victory over a particular sin, God wants to show you grace, mercy, and love. He truly is the God of the second chance. "Like as a father pitieth his children, so the LORD pitieth them that fear him" (Psalm 103:13).

Father, thank You for Your great mercy. Please, show me how to start again and be obedient to what You've asked. In the name of Jesus, Amen.]]>Tue, 06 May 2014 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/who-gets-the-credit/
"A man's pride shall bring him low: but honour shall uphold the humble in spirit" (Proverbs 29:23).

Feeling pride in my son's accomplishment of graduating summa cum laude from a state university wasn't difficult. As a homeschooling parent, watching my son receive his degree in anthropology was the culmination of years of schooling. No parents could have been prouder, and we rejoiced in our son's outstanding achievement. The years of homeschooling had been worth the sacrifice, and my son's award proved again that a child could be successfully educated at home.

As I thought about the days, hours, and minutes involved in homeschooling my son, I realized God was the One who should receive the greatest award. Without His loving care, protection, and provision, we would have never survived homeschooling. God's loving guidance and wisdom taught countless lessons that were never recorded on my son's report card, and the many extracurricular opportunities my son enjoyed were divinely orchestrated by God's loving hand. God knew my son's hands-on learning and creative enthusiasm would have been stifled in public school. By convicting me to homeschool, God kept my son from joining the ranks of bored underachievers. "Yes, God should be taking the credit today," I thought to myself. "He kept every one of His promises and was everything we needed as we homeschooled."

During times of success and recognition, it's easy to forget God. The story of Herod in Acts 12:20-23 is a perfect example. Not only did he steal God's glory, Herod went one step further and took credit for being God. Allowing the people of Tyre and Sidon to praise and worship him, Herod did nothing when they began shouting, "It is the voice of a god, and not of a man" (vs. 22). Herod's haughtiness and pride led to a surprising and sudden death: "And immediately the angel of the Lord smote him, because he gave not God the glory: and he was eaten of worms, and gave up the ghost" (vs. 23).

Are you tempted to puff yourself up and take credit for your child's educational success? Even though you've invested time and effort, God is the One who is going before you. He gives creativity to your lesson plans, spiritual insights to apply His Word, and the resources and physical health to accomplish each day's tasks. Simply said, your homeschooling is nothing without God. "But he that glorieth, let him glory in the Lord" (2 Corinthians 10:17).

Father, forgive me when I steal Your glory. You alone deserve the praise for what our homeschooling family has become. Today, we lift our voices in thanksgiving for Your goodness and love. In Jesus' name, Amen.]]>Mon, 05 May 2014 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/unlimited-power/
"The effectual fervent prayer of a righteous man availeth much" (James 5:16b).

Even with all the technology available in the world, the most powerful tool we have as Christians is prayer. Amazing, isn't it? When we pray, God's power strengthens us. Teaching our children how to access this source of strength is paramount, for no other aspect of Christian living is as important as knowing how to talk and listen to God. However, some homeschool lessons are better caught than taught, and such is the case with prayer. The best curriculum for teaching prayer is simply praying out loud with your children and allowing them to see and hear you talk to God.

Because praying was such a personal matter, I first shied away from letting my children hear my prayers. Sure, I let them hear me give praise and thanks for food and other blessings, but I knew communing with the Lord involved much more. My children also needed to hear me confess my sins and intercede for others honestly and humbly. They needed to learn that prayer was more than vain repetitions (Matthew 6:7). I hoped as they listened that they would learn there's no limit to intimacy with the Creator of the universe. They could talk to God anytime about anything.

What about your prayer life? Would your children know how to pray after listening to you talk to God? If not, perhaps it's time to come to the Lord like the disciples and ask, "Lord, teach us to pray" (Luke 11:1b). Jesus knew the disciples would never survive without a powerful prayer life. Do you think your children are any different? "Therefore choose life, that both thou and thy seed may live: That thou mayest love the LORD thy God, and that thou mayest obey his voice, and that thou mayest cleave unto him: for he is thy life, and the length of thy days" (Deuteronomy 30:19b-20a).

Father, thank You for the power of prayer to find strength for every difficulty in life. Help me to teach my children how to pray by bringing them into Your presence. In the name of Jesus, Amen.]]>Sun, 04 May 2014 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/the-microscope/
"And be not conformed to this world: but be ye transformed by the renewing of your mind, that ye may prove what is that good, and acceptable, and perfect, will of God" (Romans 12:2).

My children weren't the only ones who learned character lessons during the course of our homeschooling. Daily, I came under the same instruction as my children, and I struggled to show patience, kindness, and love in my actions. One particular day of character building (or the lack of it) stands out clearly in my mind. I had just given my son an expensive hand-held microscope for his birthday. I envisioned him enjoying hours of inspecting bugs, plants, and rocks with this new educational toy, but my dreams were short-lived. As I walked into my son's room that afternoon, I found the microscope lying on his desk completely disassembled. Parts were everywhere, and before my son could offer any explanation, I immediately accused him of ruining the microscope. When my barrage of hurtful comments chastising him to be more responsible ended, he looked at me and said, "I'm sorry, Mom. I took it apart to use the light bulb in my science experiment. I was going to put it back together when I was done."

The ability to live godly is something every Christian seeks to attain. As I examined my actions that day under the light and focus of God's Word, I realized how undisciplined I was in showing patience. My tongue was severely in need of being bridled (James 3), and I found myself coming to God and my child to ask forgiveness for my sinful foolishness. Although I could have hidden behind fatigue and other excuses, the clear picture of who I was without the Holy Spirit was more than evident.

What about you? Have you taken a good look lately at your attitude and actions during the course of your homeschooling day? We all fall short of the glory of God, but are you allowing God to change you as He reveals those areas in your life that need to come under His Lordship? Like the lens of a microscope, what is God's Word revealing about the true state of your character?

Father, I humbly bow before You and confess my sin. Too many days I reflect my old nature rather than the new life in Christ You have given me. Increase the fruit of righteousness within my life that my character might reflect Your glory. In the name of Jesus, Amen.]]>Sat, 03 May 2014 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/kudos-to-you/
"Wherefore seeing we also are compassed about with so great a cloud of witnesses, let us lay aside every weight, and the sin which doth so easily beset us, and let us run with patience the race that is set before us" (Hebrews 12:1).

Homeschooling is a challenge, a commitment, and a lifestyle of love and devotion. As a fellow homeschooling parent, my heart goes out to those who continue to faithfully teach their children at home. You are not alone in your efforts. I, along with thousands of homeschoolers who have run this race and reached the finish line, cheer you on each step. At times, homeschooling can be tiring and seem like a thankless job as you face hurdles of opposition, but those of us who have run the race know what you're doing is important. With great respect, we pray you'll keep going to the end to experience the wonderful blessings of helping your child rise to his gifting by God.

As Christians, Hebrews 12:1 tells us that we also have another crowd cheering us on. The great men and women of faith in Hebrews 11, along with thousands of other believers are cheering you on in your spiritual race. This cloud of witnesses watches and knows the blessings waiting for you in this life and in heaven. Like young Timothy following in the footsteps of Paul, "Fight the good fight of faith, lay hold on eternal life, whereunto thou art also called, and hast professed a good profession before many witnesses" (1 Timothy 6:12).

Is your faith being tested today? Do you feel like giving up instead of standing firm in what you know to be true according to God's Word? Don't despair! You have a great cloud of witnesses who have gone down this same path before you. Let the Holy Spirit and the encouragement of their faithful lives fill you with the strength you need to finish your spiritual race.

Lord, thank You for the countless lives of missionaries, martyrs, and believers who have remained true to You and Your Word throughout time. Encourage me today to take heart and stand strong as I face the daily battles of homeschooling. In Jesus' name, Amen.]]>Fri, 02 May 2014 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/second-annual-mothers-day-giveaway/
In celebration of all homeschool moms, we’re holding our 2nd Annual Mother’s Day Giveaway, in which one mom will receive a $100 credit toward AOP curriculum, five mothers will win a Homeschool Mom’s Bible, and 10 moms will receive a Limited Edition Uncommon Homeschooling T-shirt!

Entering our Mother’s Day Giveaway is quick and easy. Our fans can enter once per day from May 5 to May 11. For an extra entry, share a link to the contest on your Facebook page! You’ll receive an additional entry for each friend who enters.

1. How to Enter: No purchase necessary. Go to http://bit.ly/1m2JwF3from May 5-11 to enter by filling out a registration form. Each entrant for this sweepstakes has the option to opt out of inclusion on Alpha Omega Publications’ mailing list. Limit one entry per household. Entrants who share the giveaway on Facebook receive an additional entry for each friend who also enters.

3. Eligibility: Entrants must be 18 years of age or older. Employees of Alpha Omega Publications or any of its affiliated or associated companies (collectively AOP), and their immediate families with whom they reside are not eligible to win. The definition of immediate family as it pertains to these rules includes mother, father, brother, sister, spouse, and child.

5. Selection of Winners: A drawing will be made by AOP at or about 11 a.m. (CT) on May 12, 2014. The first sixteen (16) entries selected at random will be declared the potential winners. The potential winners will be contacted by email at the address indicated on the selected entrants' entry forms and by phone at the number provided on the forms. In the event that a winner is unable to be reached in that manner within 48 hours of the drawing, another eligible entry will be drawn, and the process will be repeated until all winners are declared.

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8. Decisions Final: All decisions made by AOP with respect to all aspects of this sweepstakes are final and not subject to challenge. These rules may be amended at any time by AOP without notice. AOP expressly reserves the right to take any steps it deems necessary in its absolute discretion, including the limiting of entries and the exclusion of entrants in order to ensure that the sweepstakes is conducted in a fair way for all entrants and AOP.

9. No Liability: AOP and its employees, agents, and representatives shall not be responsible in any way for any loss or damage arising from the use of the prizes awarded in this sweepstakes or the entry by participants herein. AOP assumes no responsibility or liability for any risk associated with the acceptance or use of the prizes awarded as part of this sweepstakes or any liability associated with online or electronic entries, and expressly disclaims liability from loss or damage to a participant’s computer system, however caused, arising from bugs, viruses, or technical failures in any way associated with or arising from online or electronic entries.

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]]>Thu, 01 May 2014 01:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/make-your-own-rain-gutter-bookshelves/
Pique your homeschooler's passion for reading and imagination by building rain gutter bookshelves in three simple steps.

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Moms are our roots; we owe them not only our manners and morals, but also our foundations and lives. This Mother’s Day, in particular, I am keenly aware of how blessed I am by my own mom – a sassy, selfless, chatty, and charming Southern lady. She’s not only one of the sweetest people I’ll ever know, but also one of my best friends.

Mom showed me the fun in catching lightning bugs on summer nights and the funny in laughing at our own mistakes. She passed on her passion for reading, a gift that I would be lost without today. We played dolls together, crafted together, crammed vocabulary words together, and watched The Sound of Music far too many times to count. When I started writing for a local newspaper as a teenager, she was my most loyal reader. When I was a poor college student, she surprised me with an occasional car payment in the mail. And since I was a child, my mother has had a near-perfect read on me. Better than anyone, she knows that when I get moody, I probably need to eat.

Now she’s 57 and I’m 33, and she still knows me better than anyone. Mom knows I’d rather text than talk on the phone. She knows to put a couple of low-cal things on the stove if I’m coming over. She knows to let me be if I’m quiet. She never judges me for my mistakes, a trait that I can only hope to emulate in my own parenting. While I didn’t inherit Mom’s degree of diplomacy and tact or knack for decorating and hosting others, I like to think I share Mom’s talent for listening and saving up for rainy days. Most importantly, my mother taught me patience. “The LORD shall fight for you, and ye shall hold your peace” (Exodus 14:14).

I have a lot of work ahead of me, but a few things are for sure. While I will definitely share all the original Nancy Drew mysteries with my own daughter, I’ll probably let my sweet, Southern mom continue to own the big hair. She wears it well.

What is the best Mother’s Day tribute or gift you’ve ever received?

]]>Thu, 01 May 2014 00:58:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/building-the-machine-breaks-down-common-core/
Building the Machine is a carefully crafted, investigative documentary that sets out to disclose the who, what, where, when, why, and how behind the Common Core State Standards Initiative (CCSSI), better known as Common Core.

A compelling account of the biggest educational reform in recent American history, HSLDA’s new film presents facts, figures, timelines, and testimonies that answer questions about Common Core’s origins, its potential impact on education and homeschooling, and what a set of nationwide educational standards could mean for today’s students and tomorrow’s future.

Four years of digging into the story surrounding Common Core allowed HSLDA, a nonprofit homeschooling advocacy group, to piece together a fascinating, 40-minute think piece that takes a hard look at the ramifications of what detractors say amounts to no more than a national curriculum.

Forty-four states have adopted the CCSSI and receive federal funding for implementing the initiative, which proponents say will prepare students for success in college and in the work force. However, some of those 44 states are hesitant to launch Common Core in the face of national backlash against a system that will try to force students to reach identical benchmarks.

“As the pedagogical weakness and ballooning implementation cost of the standards becomes evident, many adopting states are scrambling to delay or defund implementation,” states HSLDA’s Common Core website.

Building the Machine arouses a whole line of questioning behind the logic and validity of academic benchmarks that allow little to no room for students to learn at their own pace.

What is your impression of the film? What did you take away from the film, or what moments stayed with you?

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"I exhort therefore, that, first of all, supplications, prayers, intercessions, and giving of thanks, be made for all men; For kings, and for all that are in authority" (1 Timothy 2:1-2a).

As a homeschooling parent, do you have a burden for your child's future as a United States citizen? As I watched the decay of morality in our nation during my short lifetime, my heart grieved for my children and what they would face during their adult years. Sin's influence has been accepted and legislated into laws that wreak havoc in families, businesses, and governments. Today, homeschoolers, as well as all Christians, have the privilege to unite during the National Day of Prayer. Together, we can proclaim our faith in God and the need for prayer to bring our country back to "one nation under God."

Throughout the Old Testament, we read how God removed His hand of blessing when Israel failed to worship God as He commanded. Forgetting He was the source of their blessings when times were good, they repeatedly "did that which was right in his own eyes" (Judges 21:25b). Today, the world is not much different. Society makes its own rules for what is right and wrong, and the nation suffers, as people put their trust in men rather than in God. God continues to call out as in days of old, "If my people, which are called by my name, shall humble themselves, and pray, and seek my face, and turn from their wicked ways; then will I hear from heaven, and will forgive their sin, and will heal their land" (2 Chronicles 7:14).

What about your family? Do you actively pray for those in authority in your city, state, and federal governments? If ever our country needed prayer, it's now! Take a moment now to pray as a homeschooling family. "This know also, that in the last days perilous times shall come. For men shall be lovers of their own selves, covetous, boasters, proud, blasphemers, disobedient to parents, unthankful, unholy, Without natural affection, trucebreakers, false accusers, incontinent, fierce, despisers of those that are good, Traitors, heady, highminded, lovers of pleasures more than lovers of God; Having a form of godliness, but denying the power thereof" (2 Timothy 3:1-5a).

Father, like the prophets of old, we cry for mercy and forgiveness for a nation that has forgotten You. Bring our country back to You in repentance and use our homeschooling family to intercede for those who have the power to make the changes that will glorify You. In the name of Jesus, Amen.]]>Thu, 01 May 2014 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/the-lone-tree/
"And he shall be like a tree planted by the rivers of water, that bringeth forth his fruit in his season; his leaf also shall not wither; and whatsoever he doeth shall prosper" (Psalm 1:3).

Attempting to find a few moments with the Lord before the beginning of our homeschooling day, I hiked the ragged bluffs in the pasture near our ranch. As I walked through the dry stubble, sage brush, and yucca plants, I came across a small cottonwood tree. With no other trees of any kind close by for miles, it looked completely out of place. The rocky ground in which it grew offered little nourishment, and I knew months had passed since any rain had fallen. "How does this little tree stay alive out here all by itself?" I asked myself.

Reflecting on the tree's life, I began to see it as a symbol of my own. For the past ten years, I had been homeschooling our children and had felt like a loner. Not only was homeschooling going against the flow, but it was also completely out of the main stream. I found no encouraging nourishment from family or church friends and wondered, like I did about this little tree, how much longer I could survive. But then the Holy Spirit spoke to my heart and showed me something amazing. I noticed a difference in the soil's color near the tree's base. As I looked closer, it became evident that this tree's roots went down many feet below the surface. I remembered then what my son and I had learned when studying the topography of the area. Deep below the surface, there was an aquifer, an underground river bringing life-giving water to this little tree. I smiled and said, "Thank You, Lord," as I learned God's lesson for the morning.

For the next several years, I remembered the lesson of the lone tree whenever I felt lonely or homeschooling became difficult. Each time I felt used up and dry, I stretched my roots of faith a little deeper and found the nourishing water of God's love. Even though I couldn't see Him, the Holy Spirit's peace was always present. Best of all, this isn't just my story. If you are a homeschooler finding yourself alone in the middle of a dry day, the same life-giving water is waiting to bless you, too. "But whosoever drinketh of the water that I shall give him shall never thirst; but the water that I shall give him shall be in him a well of water springing up into everlasting life" (John 4:14).

Lord, thank You for refreshing me when I am empty. Teach me to reach for You whenever homeschooling leaves me feeling afraid or lonely and fill me with Your strength and love. In the wonderful name of Jesus, Amen.]]>Wed, 30 Apr 2014 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/the-joy-of-children/
"As arrows are in the hand of a mighty man; so are children of the youth. Happy is the man that hath his quiver full of them" (Psalm 127:4-5a).

Call me crazy, but I just love kids. Therefore, making the decision to homeschool our four children wasn't difficult. It was simply a result that grew out of love. What did seem crazy, however, were the countless, negative remarks I received from people who felt bogged down by the responsibilities of parenting. Such comments like, "Why in the world would you want to stay home with your kids?" or "I can hardly wait until they're ready for school, so I can enjoy my life again," seemed as crazy to me as my homeschooling did to them. In response I thought, "Why wouldn't you want to spend time with the people you love most?"

Treasuring the blessings of children is a foreign concept to most. Although many couples love and enjoy their children, there are also couples who view children as an inconvenience. Wanting to get ahead in the world, they only have time to enjoy their children in small doses and pass off the major responsibility for their children's care, education, and entertainment to others. However, the Lord's view on children is different. God calls them blessings and "rewards" (Psalm 127:3). Through the eyes of children, you appreciate the wonder of God's world and maintain a heart that is soft and compassionate. Children also teach you to forgive easily, love unselfishly, and enjoy the blessings of the moment.

How are you feeling about your children today? Do you view each one as a blessing, even in the toughest times? Admittedly, homeschooling your children is a huge responsibility that requires a great deal of self-sacrifice. However, even in the worst of your homeschooling moments, the blessings they bring far outweigh any burden involved. Ask parents who have been homeschooling more than a few years, and they'll tell you the same story — their children are their greatest treasures. What about yours?

Father, forgive me when I take the world's view toward my children. Just as You treasure me as Your precious child, humble my heart and teach me to love my own children, too. In the name of Jesus, Amen.]]>Tue, 29 Apr 2014 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/focused-homeschooling/
"Pray without ceasing" (1 Thessalonians 5:17).

Distractions. Every day you face them as a homeschooling parent. Although some may seem good in themselves, they can steal time from your family and destroy your homeschooling schedule. Learning to recognize each interruption as either a divine rescheduling or an evil diversion takes discernment that only comes from the Holy Spirit. Whether it's a long phone call from your mother or sister or an invitation to enjoy an impromptu outing with another homeschooling family, you must prayerfully consider what daily activities are best for your family.

Going with the flow and failing to pray for guidance caused many problems for people in the Bible, too. Even Joshua, God's chosen leader after Moses' death, was distracted and made the mistake of believing the Gibeonites. After seeing the destruction of Jericho and fearing for their lives, the Gibeonites sent representatives disguised as travelers from a distant land to make peace with Joshua. Instead of coming before the Lord in prayer to verify their story, Joshua made a covenant with them, not knowing they were his neighboring enemies (Joshua 9:14-15). Held to his oath, Joshua was forced to let them live. He made them "hewers of wood and drawers of water for the congregation, and for the altar of the LORD" (vs. 27).

Have you learned how to discern God's will for your homeschooling day? Only as you walk in the power of the Holy Spirit will you be able to know the difference between a dangerous detour and God's window of opportunity. Taking the time to pray for wisdom each morning and throughout the day will save your homeschooling from disaster. "Yea, if thou criest after knowledge, and liftest up thy voice for understanding; If thou seekest her as silver, and searchest for her as for hid treasures; Then shalt thou understand the fear of the LORD, and find the knowledge of God" (Proverbs 2:3-5).

Father, only You know what's best for our homeschooling today. As we face distractions, please help me to discern what is Your perfect will for us and adjust our homeschooling schedule accordingly. In Jesus' name, Amen.]]>Mon, 28 Apr 2014 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/cutting-remarks/
"If ye be reproached for the name of Christ, happy are ye; for the spirit of glory and of God resteth upon you" (1 Peter 4:14a).

If you've ever been slandered by someone as a homeschooler, you know the difficulty in forgiving hurtful words spoken in ignorance. As a homeschooling parent, rising above cruel remarks was a constant battle. Dealing with misinformed statements like "Homeschoolers don't educate their children; they simply brainwash them and turn them into non-thinking Christian zombies," required the supernatural love and forgiveness of God. Unfortunately, many years went by before I finally realized the lesson God was teaching me — how to love others in the face of opposition.

While Christ lived on Earth, He was repeatedly reviled by the world. People slandered Christ's holy name and works and said He was a drunkard (Matthew 11:19), a blasphemer (Matthew 9:3), and a rebel (Luke 23:2,5). Christ warned the disciples that they also would be reviled and suffer verbal attacks for their faith in Him. In Matthew 5:11, He said, "Blessed are ye, when men shall revile you, and persecute you, and shall say all manner of evil against you falsely, for my sake."

Are you hurting inside today from someone's malicious gossip? Slander never feels good, but God knows your pain. He cares about your feelings and will send the loving encouragement you need to keep homeschooling. Don't let someone's foolish talk rob you of the wonderful joy of teaching your children. "Be ready always to give an answer to every man that asketh you a reason of the hope that is in you with meekness and fear. Having a good conscience; that, whereas they speak evil of you, as of evildoers, they may be ashamed that falsely accuse your good conversation in Christ" (1 Peter 3:15b-16).

Father, help me to forgive others when they put down our homeschooling. Show me how to respond with a heart motivated by love and keep my conscience clear as I represent You. In the name of Jesus, Amen.]]>Sun, 27 Apr 2014 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/hen-and-peck/
"Likewise, I say unto you, there is joy in the presence of the angels of God over one sinner that repenteth" (Luke 15:10).

One of our homeschooling family's favorite springtime activities was visiting the local feed and seed store to see the new baby chickens and ducks. Every year the store converted several small aluminum water tanks into warm, cozy homes for these little creatures. My children never tired of watching their antics and especially enjoyed their baby peeping noises. As my young daughter leaned over the tank to pet their soft downy feathers, she looked at me with questioning eyes and said, "Mom, can I have one?"

Normally, I would have said "no," but this year I sensed the Lord leading in a different direction. Smiling, I said, "Yes, honey, you and your brother can pick one of the baby chicks to take home." My daughter's delight in my reply knew no bounds, and she and her brother set about choosing the perfect new little friend. Before we left the store that day, Hen and Peck were aptly named and adopted into our family.

New life is always a cause for rejoicing, especially when it's in the family of God. Whenever a person repents of his sin and receives new life in Christ, the Bible says the angels rejoice. Imagine thousands of excited angels shouting and praising the Lord for the new life that has just been recorded in the Book of Life (Revelation 20:15). What a glorious time that must be!

As a Christian homeschooling parent, you have the wonderful privilege and responsibility to lead your baby "chicks" to the Lord. Every Bible lesson, Scripture verse, and godly character trait you teach your child lead to the moment when they, too, are born again into God's family. When the Holy Spirit convicts your child and he prays, "Lord, forgive me; I'm a sinner," a new life in Christ begins. However, one question remains. Who will be rejoicing the most, you or the angels in heaven?

Father, thank You for the awesome responsibility and joy of teaching my children about Your forgiving love. Please, touch their hearts with the conviction of the Holy Spirit, so they too will experience the joy of a new life in You. In the saving name of Jesus, Amen.]]>Sat, 26 Apr 2014 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/putting-down-roots/
After you've lived somewhere like the windy, western plains of Nebraska, you begin to appreciate the value of a tree. Inspired by the founding father of Arbor Day, Julius Sterling Morton, my young son decided to make some changes in our barren landscape. Using seeds from his grandparents' ash trees in northwest Iowa, he planted hundreds in different locations on our ranch for a homeschool science project. My son faithfully watered each seed for several months, but soon discovered the climate and poor quality of soil were unfit for starting a new tree. Discouraged, my young son said, "I guess Iowa seeds simply won't grow unless they're in Iowa dirt."

Having the right soil is also important when planting spiritual seeds. In the parable of the sower in Matthew 13, Jesus taught His disciples the principle of planting God's Word in people's hearts. Many individuals with hard-packed hearts, rocky and shallow faith, or thorny and overcommitted lives miss the benefits of God's blessings. Only one soil is fit to nurture the seeds of God's truth. With the good soil of repentant hearts, these people experience salvation and forgiveness and bring forth thirty, sixty, and even a hundredfold harvest for the kingdom of God (Matthew 13:23).

What about you? Have you noticed any spiritual harvest in your life since you were saved? If not, perhaps it's time to take a soil sample to evaluate the content for PBS (Prayer and Bible Study). As you spend time in the Word and on your knees, God will enrich your life and give you the strength to remove rocks and pull weeds. "Now he that ministereth seed to the sower both minister bread for your food, and multiply your seed sown, and increase the fruits of your righteousness" (2 Corinthians 9:10).Father, forgive me for not bearing the fruit You desire. Plant those things in my life that give You glory and cleanse me of any rocks and thorns blocking Your will. In the name of Jesus, Amen.]]>Fri, 25 Apr 2014 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/the-first-loaf/
"And the patient in spirit is better than the proud in spirit" (Ecclesiastes 7:8b).

My daughter's first attempt at baking bread in our home economics class served as a stark reminder of the importance of patience. Although she carefully measured and followed the recipe's directions when making the dough, her lack of patience in waiting for it to rise paid a stiff penalty. Thinking she could hurry the process along, she only let the dough rise 15 minutes instead of an hour. Later, as she removed the bread from the oven, she discovered the consequence of her actions. Each loaf was flat and too hard to eat.

Patience is more than a virtue. It is a fruit of the Spirit that must be developed in our children's character (Galatians 5:22). As we teach our children to discipline their selfish emotions, they learn to wait on God and trust Him for all their needs. However, leading our children through this growing process requires a patience of its own. As homeschooling parents, we may find ourselves failing to demonstrate the very patience we are attempting to instill.

What about you? Are you speaking crossly, acting perturbed, or responding negatively to your child's request for help during the day? Homeschooling requires an intense amount of love and patience that only comes from walking with the Lord. The next time you find yourself growing cross after a long homeschooling day, remember that impatience can ruin more than just a loaf of bread. It can also ruin your relationship with your children and your home. "I therefore, the prisoner of the Lord, beseech you that ye walk worthy of the vocation wherewith ye are called, With all lowliness and meekness, with longsuffering, forbearing one another in love" (Ephesians 4:1-2).

Father, help me to practice what I preach and demonstrate patience with those I love. Let my words be seasoned by Your grace and let me rise above the homeschooling problems in the power of the Holy Spirit. In Jesus' name, Amen.]]>Thu, 24 Apr 2014 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/going-for-the-gold/
"Beareth all things, believeth all things, hopeth all things, endureth all things" (1 Corinthians 13:7).

My oldest son loved the old West stories in our U.S. history curriculum. He seemed to identify with the early settlers who left the comforts of home and family in the East for adventure and gold in the West's unknown frontiers. Because my son's interest in this chapter of history ran deep, we decided to celebrate his tenth birthday with a tour of a working gold mine in Colorado.

My son's eagerness to find gold was contagious. Exchanging our caps for hard hats, our entire family accompanied him as he proceeded down the mine. Our guide's expert commentary gave my son a new understanding of the methods used in locating and extracting gold underground. Although the first prospectors easily became rich, many who followed faced hours of difficult work to compile even an ounce of this precious metal. At the tour's conclusion, my son was given a pan to search for his own gold in a nearby riverbed. After panning in several spots for more than an hour in hopes of finding his fortune, my son looked at me and said, "Mom, they sure had to work hard for just a little bit of gold, didn't they?"

Finding the gold in homeschooling also takes time. The first years usually involve sifting out mistakes like using the wrong curriculum, over-scheduling activities, and becoming intimidated by homeschooling opponents. However, if you faithfully continue teaching in God's strength, you'll soon observe the sparkling flakes of educational knowledge and Christ-like character shining in your child. If you've been thinking about giving up as a homeschool parent, now's the time to dig deep and discover the best in your homeschooling family. Go for the gold! "And I will give thee the treasures of darkness, and hidden riches of secret places, that thou mayest know that I, the LORD, which call thee by thy name, am the God of Israel" (Isaiah 45:3).

Father, nothing of value ever comes easily. Please, give me the strength and wisdom to remain faithful, while You show me the gold You've placed in each of my children's lives. In the precious name of Jesus, Amen.]]>Wed, 23 Apr 2014 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/high-waters/
"Therefore be ye also ready: for in such an hour as ye think not the Son of man cometh" (Matthew 24:44).

We had seen the dark cloud in the distance. Knowing we were in for another soaker, our family prepared for a torrential downpour. Just as we completed our preparations, however, it seemed like some invisible hand reached out and moved the cloud. After not even receiving a drop of rain, the sun came out and we thought the storm was over, until we heard a flash flood alert on the radio. Apparently, eight inches of rain had fallen in the neighboring town, and a three-foot wall of water was headed our way.

Looking out the window, I saw our neighbor working in his low-lying pasture. Knowing he was unaware of the strange events taking place, I sent my son on his bicycle to warn him. Having recently moved his herd of cows and newborn calves to the fresh green grass near the dry riverbed's edge, our neighbor had placed them right in the flood's path. As I continued to homeschool my other children, my son soon returned and said, "Mom, I tried to tell him, but he wouldn't listen." Thinking we were overreacting, our neighbor ignored my son's warning and went about his business repairing the pasture fences.

A few minutes later, we watched as the fast-moving flood waters approached. From our ranch's hilltop view, we saw the wall of water etch its way toward our neighbor's cattle. Frightened and running in all directions, most of the cattle barely escaped to higher ground. However, several calves became disoriented in the confusion and found themselves being carried away in the water's swift current. Saddened by the scene, my son turned to me and asked, "Mom, why wouldn't he listen?"

"I don't know," I replied, "but this reminds me of what it will be like when Christ returns."

Someday Christ will bring judgment on today's sinful world. Those who have ignored the message of salvation are in great danger. Like the people in Noah's day, they go about their business and assume they have everything under control until it's too late. Are your loved ones ready for the day when Christ returns as King of Kings and Lord of Lords? "For as in the days that were before the flood they were eating and drinking, marrying and giving in marriage, until the day that Noe entered into the ark, And knew not until the flood came, and took them all away; so shall also the coming of the Son of man be" (Matthew 24:38-39).

Lord, someday You will return as King. Please, use our homeschooling family to share the good news of Your forgiveness with as many people as possible before that day comes. In Jesus' name, Amen.]]>Tue, 22 Apr 2014 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/flying-high/
"Unto thee, O LORD, do I lift up my soul. O my God, I trust in thee: let me not be ashamed" (Psalm 25:1-2a).

The annual kite flying day was only two weeks away for our homeschooling group, and my oldest son was looking forward to winning the category for the highest flying kite. For several months, he had been preparing the perfect design. Using the old box shape, he believed that his kite would fly higher and better than any other kite in western Nebraska's strong, spring winds. His balsa wood frame was tightly wrapped in light-weight flour sack cloths, and with his father's help, he tested the kite's lift and drag performance several times.

When the anticipated day finally arrived, we set out for a fun day of picnicking and kite flying with our homeschooling friends. The wind was steady and blowing at 15 to 20 mph. After a wonderful lunch and game time, each child brought out his kite for the contest. When my son ran down the pasture's gentle slope, his kite lifted effortlessly. Eagerly, we watched his kite climb farther and farther into the blue sky. A smile grew on his face each time he let out more of his line, and we all sensed the outcome. His hours of effort and work were paying off, and when he reached the end of his line, everyone cheered. His kite was flying hundreds of feet above the rest.

Watching God bless my son that day, I learned a spiritual truth from the Lord. Homeschool worries had been dragging me down. Were my children learning what they needed? Was my husband's paycheck going to be enough? Would I ever have time to feel pretty again? As the breeze blew against my face, I sensed the Holy Spirit saying, "Let out your line and let Me show you just how good homeschooling can be." Trusting His promises, I said, "Yes, Lord." I realized then how intimately God wanted to be involved in our daily homeschooling. After I took that step of faith, I saw a new view of my children's futures from God's heights.

How about you? Are you weighted down from homeschooling in your own effort? Fly high today and trust God for His perfect plan for your family! "For in thee do I trust: cause me to know the way wherein I should walk; for I lift up my soul unto thee" (Psalm 143:8b).

Lord, You are my King, and I bow my knee to Your holy name. Praise to You for dying on the cross to release me from the doubt and fears that plague my homeschooling heart. Lift me above the problems and help me to trust You again for everything we need. In the name of Your resurrected Son, Amen.]]>Mon, 21 Apr 2014 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/early-morning-singers/
"O sing unto the LORD a new song: sing unto the LORD, all the earth" (Psalm 96:1).

Their greeting surprised me that morning. As the sun rose, their warbling song filtered through the window and lifted my spirit with the hope of spring. My patience had been running thin for the past several weeks, and God knew that I needed a boost to finish our homeschooling year. With their joyful melodies ministering to my soul, I listened in amazement and smiled as I watched them sing. Their tiny bodies shook and resonated with sound, appearing as if they used their entire being. "Amazing," I thought to myself. "These little wrens do a better job of praising the Lord than I do."

Of all God's creation, humans seem to have the hardest time consistently praising God. Homeschoolers grow tired near the end of the school year and forget that God is in control. With impatient hearts and complaining spirits, we trudge on in our own effort as we push to the final homeschooling days before summer. Instead of singing praises to God for the homeschooling joys He has given, we forget our blessings and simply focus on getting through our schoolwork. Satan smiles as he realizes that he has succeeded in robbing us of our song.

How about you? Has it been awhile since God heard a song of praise from your lips? If you're experiencing difficulty in finding joy during these last days of homeschooling, you would do well to learn the lesson of praising the Lord from God's little wren. "The LORD is my strength and my shield; my heart trusted in him, and I am helped: therefore my heart greatly rejoiceth; and with my song will I praise him" (Psalm 28:7).

Lord, forgive me for failing to praise and thank You for Your many blessings. Put a new song in my heart today and let me rejoice in the goodness of Your love. In the name of Jesus, Amen.]]>Sun, 20 Apr 2014 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/daily-chores/
What chores have you delegated to your children to keep the homeschooling wheels turning in your family? To save electricity and money, my youngest daughter's chore was hanging up the clothes to dry. Each morning after breakfast, she either hung the clothes outside in the fresh summer air or inside on the drying rack during the winter months. With six people in our family, this task grew into a time-consuming chore. Early on, she discovered that no amount of complaining or procrastinating would relieve her of the responsibility. Learning to face the task with resolve and determination, she acquired a work ethic that has since served her well in the workplace.

In living the Christian life, you too may face chores God has given you to do. Serving on church committees, hosting backyard Bible clubs, and teaching Sunday school can seem like added burdens to an already full homeschooling schedule. Although the extra discipline required to minister to others may seem daunting at the time, you'll discover it develops a Christ-like character that glorifies the Lord.

What about you? Are you complaining about the chores God has given you to do, or have you learned to submit to the lessons of servanthood? Make no mistake, God will keep leading you back to what He last asked you to do until you say, "Here am I; send me" (Isaiah 6:8). Embrace the responsibility and see the task for what it is — an opportunity to glorify your Lord and bless others. Is there anything better you could be doing with your life? "Even as the Son of man came not to be ministered unto, but to minister, and to give his life a ransom for many" (Matthew 20:28).

Lord, forgive me for complaining and shirking the responsibilities You've given to me. Open my eyes to see the joys of blessing others with Your love and let me serve You today with a totally devoted heart. In the precious name of Jesus, Amen.]]>Sat, 19 Apr 2014 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/painful-reminders/
"Be ye not unequally yoked together with unbelievers: for what fellowship hath righteousness with unrighteousness? and what communion hath light with darkness" (2 Corinthians 6:14)?

The morning started with the warmth of a spring sun and God's prompting to take the children outdoors. Winter had been long, and I knew their spirits needed refreshment. Calling homeschooling off for the afternoon, I sent each child his separate way to enjoy his individual interests. My youngest set out to watch the ants as they built their new home, my oldest started down the road for a bike ride, and my two middle children walked to the paddock for a leisurely horseback ride.

After working in my garden for a few minutes, I looked up to see a riderless horse running past me with broken reins dangling from its bridle. As I wheeled around to find my children, I saw my son running toward me with a panicked look on his face. Just then, my daughter appeared staggering and incoherent, holding what was left of the reins in her hands. I quickly took her inside the house to help her lie down. As my son followed us, he proceeded to tell me what had happened. Deciding to ride bareback together, my daughter rode in front with my son sitting behind her. However, as they started to trot, my son lost his balance and fell, grabbing his sister as he went down. Together, they had slipped off the horse's back, and in the fall, my daughter had struck her head on a large rock. After a visit to the doctor, we spent the next three days anxiously watching as my daughter recovered from a concussion and amnesia.

Many things contributed to my children's accident that afternoon. Their horse was overly frisky, they failed to ride with a saddle, and most of all, they shouldn't have been riding double since my son was an inexperienced rider. My daughter's painful lesson was verbalized when she recovered and said, "Sorry, I wasn't thinking. I should have never let him ride with me."

Too many Christians have also learned the same painful lesson — yoking yourself to the wrong person is sure to bring you down. Although we are to reach the lost with the love of Christ, God exhorts us to remember that we are His temple (2 Corinthians 6:16). There's only one way to reach the world yet remain separate and holy unto God. We must yoke ourselves to Him. "Take my yoke upon you, and learn of me" (Matthew 11:29a).

Father, teach me how to love the lost without losing my love for You. Purify my life and use me for Your glory. In the name of Jesus, Amen.]]>Fri, 18 Apr 2014 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/to-the-finish/
The end of the school year was getting closer. The calendar wasn't the only source that revealed that fact. The quality of my children's schoolwork was also an indicator. With the finish line in sight and carefree summer days just ahead, my children rushed through their lessons. Poorly written compositions, half-answered history questions, and math papers with high percentages of incorrect answers confirmed that spring fever had hit our homeschool. I needed to find something to motivate my children to finish the school year working to the best of their abilities.

Christians can also suffer from a time of spring fever. Being tempted to compromise God's standards of holiness, we halfheartedly obey and slack off when it comes to maintaining the spiritual disciplines of prayer and Bible study. Living the Christian life in our own strength, we fail to see our vulnerability and fall prey to Satan's temptations. "Wherefore let him that thinketh he standeth take heed lest he fall" (1 Corinthians 10:12). To run in the heavenly race in which God has placed us, we must run with self-control and discipline. To finish the race, we must buffet our bodies and run in such a way as to receive the prize — a crown incorruptible (1 Corinthians 9:25).

What about you? Your children are looking to you as an example of how to finish this year's homeschooling race. If spring fever is tempting you to be lazy and lax in disciplining your day's schedule, you can't expect your children to be much different. Pray and ask God to replace your lost motivation with a new fervor to finish the homeschooling task He has given you. "Know ye not that they which run in a race run all, but one receiveth the prize? So run, that ye may obtain" (1 Corinthians 9:24).

Lord, thank You for the joys of homeschooling my children. Please, help me to maintain our focus to accomplish Your best for this year and give me the strength to finish strong. In Jesus' name, Amen.]]>Thu, 17 Apr 2014 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/side-by-side/
"Bear ye one another's burdens, and so fulfil the law of Christ" (Galatians 6:2).

Would you like to know a successful homeschooling secret? My children did their best schoolwork when I sat next to them as they completed their assignments. Sounds too simple, doesn't it? I thought so, too, until I tested my theory. No matter their age, the difference was remarkable between the days when I quietly sat nearby and the days when I was busy with chores in another room. Apparently, my presence empowered them with the reassurance that I was there to help if they had a question.

Having someone by your side to help you through life's problems is a blessing from God. In Exodus 17:8-13, Moses was blessed to have two men by his side, his brother Aaron and Hur. When Moses sent Joshua to fight the Amalekites, the Israelites prevailed in the battle as long as Moses held up God's staff in his hand. However, as the day progressed, Moses' hands became so heavy he could no longer hold them up alone. Sitting him down on a rock, Aaron and Hur stood by Moses' side and held up his hands until sunset. Without their help, Moses' hands would have dropped, and Israel would surely have been defeated.

Do you feel alone in facing your homeschooling battles today? Praise God, His love and strength are as close as your next prayer. When you need an extra hand to get through a particularly tough day, He knows and cares. God loves you so much that He'll send the exact person you need to hold you up. If you find yourself in a heavy situation, pray and watch as God proves Himself mighty in sending the encouragement you need. "Though he fall, he shall not be utterly cast down: for the LORD upholdeth him with his hand" (Psalm 37:24).

Father, thank You for watching over me and taking care of my every need. I lift up these homeschooling problems to You! Please, help me. In the name of Jesus, Amen.]]>Wed, 16 Apr 2014 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/i-think-i-can-i-think-i-can/
Like the little blue engine, my chant each morning during my early years of homeschooling was "I think I can do this!" I'm sure if others had heard my thoughts, they would have laughed. Trying to gain the confidence I needed for homeschooling, I thought that if I said the words enough, I would eventually believe them. Truthfully, I wasn't quite so sure I could homeschool. The idea of teaching my five-year-old seemed easy enough, but that was before I started teaching phonetic sounds. Since I had learned to read with sight words, teaching phonics was a whole new experience. Already, I was facing a roadblock of insecurities, and my homeschooler was only in kindergarten! What was I going to do when we got to high school?

Joshua knew the insecurity of facing new challenges in his life, too. Taking over where Moses left off, he inherited the responsibility of leading God's people into the Promised Land (Joshua 1:1-2). Can you imagine how overwhelmed he must have felt following in Moses' footsteps? Understanding his fears, God reminded Joshua three times to be strong and courageous (Joshua 1: 6, 7, and 9). Encouraging him further, God also told Joshua, "There shall not any man be able to stand before thee all the days of thy life: as I was with Moses, so I will be with thee: I will not fail thee, nor forsake thee" (Joshua 1:5).

Are you feeling insecure today while you lead your children in their education? If God has led you to homeschool, the same words He spoke years ago to Joshua apply to you as well. You can become a courageous homeschooler, but it won't come from tooting your own whistle and saying, "I think I can." Instead, you must realize that God is the One who powers your engine to climb any homeschooling hill. In His strength, you'll arrive at the wonderful destination of successfully homeschooled children. "Have not I commanded thee? Be strong and of a good courage; be not afraid, neither be thou dismayed: for the LORD thy God is with thee whithersoever thou goest" (Joshua 1:9).

Lord, some days being responsible for my children's education scares me. Remind me that You alone give the strength and wisdom to stay on track. Please, encourage me now and help me to be courageous in the Holy Spirit's power. In the name of Jesus, Amen.]]>Tue, 15 Apr 2014 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/dandelion-bouquets/
"Let your conversation be without covetousness; and be content with such things as ye have" (Hebrews 13:5a).

The money shortages we experienced while homeschooling gave our family plenty of opportunities to discover life's simple pleasures. My husband and I enjoyed inexpensive dates, and we found activities for our children that cost very little money.

One springtime activity we enjoyed most was having the first picnic of the year and walking barefoot through the new green grass. After a long winter, the grass felt so good under our feet, and our children loved creating craft projects from the dandelions. My oldest daughter especially liked making dandelion rings and stringing them together into a necklace. My son streaked his face with yellow war paint made from the blossom's pollen, and my youngest daughter picked as many dandelions as her little hand could hold, giving them to me as a beautiful bouquet. Years later, when listening to my children speak of their favorite childhood memories, I found they remembered these simple, ordinary things the most.

Learning to be content with what you have is a secret few discover in this life. The apostle Paul is a wonderful example of someone who knew the contentment of having much or little when he said in Philippians 4:12, "I know both how to be abased, and I know how to abound: every where and in all things I am instructed both to be full and to be hungry, both to abound and to suffer need." The success of his ministry to the Gentiles wasn't dependent on his paycheck from tentmaking; rather, it was dependent on God. In today's language, Paul learned to be happy eating steak or eating macaroni and cheese for supper. Either way, he knew that God was with him providing exactly what he needed.

Would you like to feel more content homeschooling? Learn the art of appreciating life's simple pleasures. If you constantly struggle to give your child the biggest and best, you'll not only deplete your pocketbook, but you'll also deprive your children from enjoying ordinary, everyday blessings. Adding more outside educational activities to supplement your curriculum is not always the answer either. Spending time loving each other with the blessings that God has already given is the homeschooling joy that you and your children will remember most.

Lord, please give me wisdom to understand what my children really need. While we homeschool, help us to enjoy each other's love every day and the simple things in life that You provide. In Jesus' name, Amen.]]>Mon, 14 Apr 2014 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/i-forgot/
"I will meditate in thy precepts, and have respect unto thy ways" (Psalm 119:15).

How many times have you heard your homeschooler say, "I'm sorry, but I forgot to read that lesson" or "I forgot to get my assignment done"? When my children were little, saying "I forgot" meant exactly that. Their young minds were still developing and learning how to organize and remember. However, as my children grew older, I realized that "I forgot" was more often an excuse for being lazy or procrastinating. The unintentional forgetfulness they experienced during childhood stood in stark contrast to the forgetfulness of sidestepping their responsibilities as an adult.

The nation of Israel is a perfect example of a people who chose to forget the Lord their God. Time and again, the Bible says, "And when they forgat the LORD their God" (1 Samuel 12:9a). I can only imagine God's displeasure with His forgetful children. After blessing them and proving Himself with mighty miracles, they still disobeyed and forgot to follow His commands (Psalm 78:10-11). Not valuing God's provisions, they made their excuse and followed their own desires instead of keeping their commitment to the Lord.

As Christian homeschoolers, forgetting to stay in the Word of God daily can ruin your spiritual walk with God, too. Homeschooling is hard enough without having God's Word to guide you. Don't allow laziness, procrastination, or even the daily diversions of life to rob you of the strength you need for each day's tasks. There is simply only one way to combat forgetting, and that is remembering. "Beloved, I now write unto you; in both which I stir up your pure minds by way of remembrance: That ye may be mindful of the words which were spoken before by the holy prophets, and of the commandment of us the apostles of the Lord and Saviour" (2 Peter 3:1b-2).

Father, without Your Word to guide me, our homeschooling is doomed for failure. Help me to prioritize and make time to remember the truths of Your commandments. In Jesus' name, Amen.]]>Sun, 13 Apr 2014 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/bitter-roots/
"The heart knoweth his own bitterness" (Proverbs 14:10a).

"I can't believe it, Mom!" cried my son. "Look at this!" Walking to the flower bed where my son was standing, I looked down and shook my head. Sure enough, the noxious weed that we had been trying to eradicate was back in our flower bed again. Frustrated, I realized the problem was my fault. When we had first moved to our home several years before, I had thought this weed was a flower. Unfortunately, after watching the other flowers choked out by this weed's entwining, tubular roots, I knew I had made a mistake in letting it grow.

"OK, that's it!" I said exasperated. "Let's dig two feet down and turn over the soil and maybe we'll find all the roots to kill it this time." For the next two years, our flower garden project for homeschooling suffered, as my son and I attempted to prevent this weed from damaging any more of our tulips, irises, columbines, and other perennial flowers.

The Bible warns Christians of another root that can destroy in a far greater way — the root of bitterness. In Hebrews 12:15b, the writer says, "Lest any root of bitterness springing up trouble you, and thereby many be defiled." As believers, we must forgive those who hurt or offend us. When we refuse to forgive, bitterness grows, intertwines itself around our Christian witness, and chokes out our joy in Christ. Our lives become sour, and we see the world through critical eyes and speak with skeptical and sarcastic remarks. Not only is the Holy Spirit grieved, but also those we touch are affected by the ugliness of bitterness.

Has bitterness taken hold in your life? Perhaps you have a family member or friend who has hurt you deeply and you've refused to forgive him. Be careful that the anger you're holding onto doesn't lead to bitterness. Why not let God uproot the pain and renew your bitter heart with a flowering heart of forgiveness and love? "And grieve not the holy Spirit of God, whereby ye are sealed unto the day of redemption. Let all bitterness, and wrath, and anger, and clamour, and evil speaking, be put away from you, with all malice: And be ye kind one to another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, even as God for Christ's sake hath forgiven you" (Ephesians 4:30-32).

Lord, I know I need to deal with the hurt and anger I feel. Give me the strength and desire to forgive as You forgave me. Please, help me to lay the pain at Your feet to find Your peace and joy again. In Jesus' name, Amen.]]>Sat, 12 Apr 2014 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/homeschooling-comfort/
"Who comforteth us in all our tribulation, that we may be able to comfort them which are in any trouble, by the comfort wherewith we ourselves are comforted of God" (2 Corinthians 1:4).

Let's face it. Some mornings you wake up as a homeschooling parent and say, "If I have another day like I did yesterday, I'm going to lose it!" Between your little ones fighting and your older children taking the lazy way out of their schoolwork, you're tired of being a policeman. Ironically, those discouraging days seem to be the very ones when someone calls wanting your encouragement to start homeschooling. You feel like the proverbial blind leading the blind and think to yourself, "If she only knew!"

The stressful pressures of life can tempt anyone to give up. The apostle Paul discovered that fact about his situation when he wrote in 2 Corinthians 1:8, "For we would not, brethren, have you ignorant of our trouble which came to us in Asia, that we were pressed out of measure, above strength, insomuch that we despaired even of life." Clearly, Paul was out of his comfort zone, but he didn't quit. Trusting God for everything he needed, Paul learned how to rise above his circumstances, even when facing death! With the comfort he received from God, he encouraged others to remain faithful in suffering for Christ (2 Corinthians 1:4-5).

Are you experiencing a "crunch time" in your homeschooling? Hang in there! Many have gone before you and survived the stress of being homeschooling parents. The difficulties you're experiencing will get easier, and someday the pressures won't feel as strong. Even when you feel like you can't cope, God's presence is with you to guide you and give you comfort. "Now our Lord Jesus Christ himself, and God, even our Father, which hath loved us, and hath given us everlasting consolation and good hope through grace, Comfort your hearts, and stablish you in every good word and work" (2 Thessalonians 2:16-17).

Lord, Your Word says I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me. Strengthen me today and help me to obediently follow You to accomplish Your will in our family. In the name of Jesus, Amen.]]>Fri, 11 Apr 2014 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/kids-to-the-rescue/
What do you do when you homeschool and the teacher gets sick? Not long after we first started homeschooling, I woke up one morning with an aching fever. "Great, now what am I going to do?" I thought to myself. My parents were out of town, and realistically, caring for my two toddlers was all I could handle for the day. Calling my two older children into my bedroom, I weakly said, "Mom's really sick today. You'll have to work on your schoolwork by yourself or just read books and play."

Not batting an eye, they surprised me when they replied, "That's OK, Mom. We can take care of everything." What was even more surprising was that they did! Throughout the day they brought me juice and medicine and helped me keep their younger siblings happy. When the babies and I took an afternoon nap, my seven and eight year old grabbed their school materials and did all the work they could by themselves. Smiling, I realized my children were learning more than academics in our homeschooling. They were learning character qualities like responsibility and kindness.

Children are great helpers, and throughout the Bible, we read stories of when God used them in special ways. Consider young Samuel serving God in the temple (1 Samuel 3), Naaman's servant girl who directed him to Elisha for healing from his leprosy (2 Kings 5:2-3), the boy who shared his lunch with Jesus to feed 5,000 (John 6:9), and little Rhoda who told the other believers that Peter was knocking at the door after his angelic escape from prison (Acts 12:13-16). Although they may seem small and insignificant, each act was great in the eyes of God.

Are you ever tempted to underestimate the value of your child's obedience and faithfulness to the Lord? Every time he speaks with kindness to a sibling, remembers Grandma with a special hello when she comes to visit, or invites a friend to Sunday school, he is doing God's work on a grand scale. Like the disciples who thought the little children were wasting Jesus' time, don't become a stumbling block to your child's small acts of love. "But whoso shall offend one of these little ones which believe in me, it were better for him that a millstone were hanged about his neck, and that he were drowned in the depth of the sea" (Matthew 18:6).

Father, thank You for my children. Forgive me for underestimating what You can do through their prayers and acts of love and help me to encourage them to love You more. In Jesus' name, Amen.]]>Thu, 10 Apr 2014 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/too-much-love/
Every morning I wondered what new discoveries laid ahead for my children as we homeschooled. Although I had the day's schedule planned, God always seemed to lead with His divine lessons. As my son and I walked to the barn for chores one spring morning, we noticed several cocoons hidden beneath the boards on the door. The cocoons were large, and as we examined one of them more closely, we saw a slight movement. Slowly, the cocoon began to crack open, and we could see something struggling to get out. "Mom, what is it?" cried my son. "Let's cut the rest of the cocoon, so it can get out!"

"No, honey," I replied. "You don't want to do that. If we interfere, the creature inside will be hurt. We have to let it struggle on its own." Postponing my scheduled lessons, we sat and observed the beginning of this new life. Over an hour went by as we watched it emerge from its winter home. Still unsure what exactly was inside, we were totally surprised when the creature burst through the cocoon's covering. There, in all its glory, was a huge cecropia moth! We watched as the moth vibrated its velvety red and brown wings in the sun. The five-inch wingspan was impressive, and the whole scene was a breathtaking sight that my young son would never forget.

I know my son learned a valuable science lesson that day, but I learned a valuable lesson, too. As I watched the struggling moth, I understood how my past actions of motherly love had interfered with our homeschooling. I realized that I needed to be firm and expect my children to do their own schoolwork without asking for help on every question.

Do you ever find yourself trying to help your children more than you should? Your children's education can suffer if you don't learn to balance the dual role you play as teacher and parent. Spelling out every answer will be detrimental to the development of their reasoning and thinking processes. Be careful. Don't destroy the new life God is using you to shape. "Train up a child in the way he should go: and when he is old, he will not depart from it" (Proverbs 22:6).

Lord Jesus, thank You for the privilege of teaching my children. Show me how to educate them with a healthy balance of love and discipline and not remove the struggles that will cause them to grow in knowledge. In Your name, Amen.]]>Wed, 09 Apr 2014 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/hide-and-seek/
"Be sure your sin will find you out" (Numbers 32:23b).

One of my favorite rewards of being a homeschool parent is that my family had so many opportunities to play games. Of course, the usual game our younger children chose was Hide and Seek. With the help of their older siblings, my little ones actually became very good at hiding completely out of view. However, even though they managed to hide their bodies, they usually couldn't control their giggles when I said, "Come out, come out wherever you are!" After locating their hiding place, it was my turn to laugh when they asked, "Mommy, how did you find us so fast?"

Although we may smile at the innocent attempts of our children to hide, God the Father does not. Ever since Adam and Eve ate of the Tree of Knowledge in the Garden of Eden, man has been trying to hide his sin from God's almighty view. In fact, like Adam, we play games with God and foolishly think He doesn't see us when we sin. Worse still, we even try to play Adam's great cover-up game and cloak ourselves in the flimsy leaves of good works. Although we continue in our sinful ways, God never sees our sin as funny. When He calls out and asks, "Where are you?" as He did to Adam, we feel the conviction of the Holy Spirit. With our sin revealed, we learn that there's no place man can hide from an all-knowing and omnipresent God. King David expressed it best when he said, "Whither shall I go from thy spirit? or whither shall I flee from thy presence" (Psalm 139:7)?

Are you playing games with God right now? Is there a known sin in your life you think He doesn't see? Maybe you've lied to your children or deceived your spouse on what you spent on homeschool curriculum this year. However big or small the sin, confess it to Him now before you quench the Holy Spirit's work in your life. Stop playing the game! Come out of sin's shadows and be found in the light of Almighty God.

Lord, how foolish I must seem when I sin and try to hide from You! Today I confess my sin, so I might be close to You. In Jesus' name, Amen.]]>Tue, 08 Apr 2014 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/no-place-like-home/
"In my Father's house are many mansions: if it were not so, I would have told you. I go to prepare a place for you" (John 14:2).

When it comes to schooling, there's no place like home. To a homeschooling family, home is more than just a school. It is a church, a playground, a museum, a rest area, a trauma unit, a business office, a hospitality center, a safe place, and more! The home is the hub of the family and a place where we live life together.

The home is really God's idea, a wonderful structure that Satan has worked hard at destroying. The evils and perversions of a sinful society have eradicated God's perfect plan of one man and one woman marrying and living together under His authority with their children. Refusing to believe the mandates in God's Word, the world conjures up theories and philosophies based on human reasoning and sidesteps the issue by counterattacking with offensive statements directed toward intolerant Christians.

Thank God no human can redefine the home in heaven that God has prepared for those who love Him. Next to salvation, Jesus' promise to prepare a place for us to live with Him in eternity has to be the greatest hope for every Christian (John 14:3). Each night we lay our heads on our pillows, we can have the peace of knowing that tomorrow brings no fear. We either spend it walking with Him on Earth or walking with Him in heaven. Life is simplified when you remember that heaven is your true home.

Have you forgotten about your home in heaven? Homeschooling has a way of pulling your eyes off the One who is preparing a mansion just for you. Don't let the cares of lesson plans, household chores, and endless tasks make you forget who is waiting for you at home!

Lord, You are beautiful and marvelous, and I can hardly wait to get home to see You. Thank You for this opportunity to make a home on Earth for the family You've given me. May we always glorify You in our homeschooling and our daily lives. In the name of Jesus, Amen.]]>Mon, 07 Apr 2014 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/the-best-medicine/
"A merry heart doeth good like a medicine" (Proverbs 17:22a).

To a child, there is only one thing worse than being sick in the winter, and that's being sick during the summer. After all, who wants to lie on the couch when everyone else in the family is having fun playing outside? As I looked at the purple, yellow, and red bottles of medicine in my bathroom cabinet, I heard my young son cry out from the living room couch, "Mom, please don't give me any of those terrible tasting things. They're just going to make me sicker." Although he had been running a fever through the night, I realized my patient wasn't as ill as I previously thought. Ignoring his pleas, I continued to administer the necessary medicine and turned to go back to my work in the kitchen. Grabbing my hand, my son said, "Mom, do you think you could just sit with me for a while?"

"Sure," I replied. "How about if I read one of your favorite books to you?" Nodding his head in agreement, I proceeded to sit on the floor in front of the couch and spent the next half hour reading The Pilgrim's Progress. After reading several chapters and talking with my son, I noticed a smile on his face and his relaxed posture. "Are you feeling better now?" I asked.

"Oh yes, Mom," he responded cheerfully. Giving him a hug and a smile, I realized the best medicine I had given him that morning was a happy attitude, my time, and love.

Everyone needs someone to sit and listen when life brings difficult times. Whether it's facing an illness or some other problem, an understanding ear and a kind word go a long way in relieving the suffering of a friend. Unfortunately, that type of medicine can't be purchased from a store. Rather, it comes from a sensitive and loving heart that truly cares about the needs of others.

Is there someone you know who is ill or hurting from life's problems? Chances are you're the nurse God could use to make that person well. Go to the medicine chest of God's Holy Word to find just the right encouragement. Then, sit and take all the time necessary to administer the best tasting medicine. "Pleasant words are as an honeycomb, sweet to the soul, and health to the bones" (Proverbs 16:24).

Lord, You are the Great Physician who knows all our hurts and pains. Please, help me to bring Your healing words of love and encouragement to my family and friends today. In the name of Jesus, Amen.]]>Sun, 06 Apr 2014 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/juliette/
"For there is no respect of persons with God" (Romans 2:11).

Of all the cats my family loved during our homeschooling years, there was never one we loved quite like Juliette. If ever a cat could be perfect, she was. Unlike most cats that are somewhat indifferent and independent, Juliette was a socialite and loved being right in the middle of the action. Best of all, she never played favorites. Juliette made the rounds and spent equal time loving everyone in the family. One moment we would find her faithfully sitting on my older children's laps as they read their school assignments, and the next moment, we would find her being dragged around the house by my toddlers as they played with her like a doll. At nighttime we would find her snuggling in the bed covers as she made the circuit from one bedroom to the next. Wherever and whomever she was with, Juliette loved them pur-r-r-fectly by giving them her utmost devotion.

Although Juliette was only a cat, God used her loving ways to teach me a valuable spiritual lesson. God's love is equally available to all mankind, and He shows no partiality (Galatians 2:6). In Christ, there is no distinction between rich and poor, Jew and Greek, or male and female (Galatians 2:38). God desires that everyone come to repentance and be saved (2 Peter 3:9). Unfortunately, this simple lesson was easier for a cat to learn than it was for me. Although I was a Christian, I found myself turning away from sharing God's love with those who were different, unlovely, or broken. Praise God that the unequal treatment and rejection I experienced when homeschooling showed me how foolish I was. In wanting others to love and accept me, I finally realized the same need in the hearts of those whom I had been ignoring.

Do you find it difficult to minister to the people the world rejects? While Christ was on Earth, He spent His time loving people whom others forgot. Just as Christ's unbiased love took Him to the cross for everyone's sin, He wants you to love impartially. Don't let someone's social status or appearance keep you from extending a hand of love. Reach out and let Christ's golden rule be your guide. "And as ye would that men should do to you, do ye also to them likewise" (Luke 6:31).

Lord, forgive my selfish pride and preconceived ideas that keep me from seeing each person through Your eyes of love. Please, help me to lay down my fears and misconceptions and be willing to share Your love with everyone I meet. In the name of Jesus, Amen.]]>Sat, 05 Apr 2014 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/boundaries/
"For thou hast been a shelter for me" (Psalm 61:3a).

Growing up in the country, my children spent just as much time outside as inside when homeschooling. For their safety and my sanity, we established an invisible boundary around our farm where they could play and explore without my supervision. Expanding upon this concept, we decided to apply this same principle when visiting Grandpa and Grandma's lake home. Since my four-year-old son was still learning how to swim, his boundary had been set within the beach area only. After one reminder, we let him play in the sand, while we continued to observe him from my in-laws' porch only a few feet away.

However, as every parent knows, children are notorious for testing boundaries. Seeing his older brother and sisters enjoy the water slide attached to the dock, he couldn't resist going out to join them. Each time he started down the dock, we yelled out his name and firmly said, "No!" Frustrated, he waited several minutes before he tried once more. This time, I said to my husband, "Wait, let's not do or say anything and see what he does." Agreeing, we watched as our son approached the spot on the dock where we had told him "no." Expecting us to tell him "no" again, he stopped, turned, and said, "What?" before we could do or say a thing. Laughing inside, we saw that even a four year old is capable of knowing his boundaries and disciplining himself to observe them.

God gives adults boundaries, too. He knows our sinful nature and has given us loving guidelines to keep us safe from evil. As Christian homeschooling parents, we have an even higher need to discipline ourselves from Satan's tantalizing tidbits. However, keeping ourselves pure from sexual sins, greed, jealousy, and other sins is getting more difficult. The world continues to move the boundaries to remove their guilt for participating in these activities. What about you? Will you observe God's boundaries and stop, turn, and say, "What will you have me do, Lord?"

Father, You are a holy God who hates sin. Thank You for giving me such wonderful blessings within the confines of Your loving law. Help me to understand Your boundaries are a good thing and not resent the disciplines necessary for following You. In Jesus' name, Amen.]]>Fri, 04 Apr 2014 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/3-family-activities-for-easter/
When it comes to the Easter holiday, the death and resurrection of Jesus is the very reason for the season, but how do you teach the story and concept to a child? Get ready for April 20 with these three family activities that teach children about the death and resurrection of Jesus Christ.

1. Read about the Crucifixion and Resurrection.As a family, be sure to spend time in God’s Word reading the story of Jesus Christ’s final week on Earth and reflecting on what He has done for us in conquering death and saving us.

2. Learn an Easter Poem Together.Charlene Dickerson’s poem about the rainbow of God’s love is short and simple enough for most children to learn and recite.

“The Jelly Bean Prayer”Red is for the blood Christ gave.Green is for the grass he made.Yellow is for God's light so bright.Orange is for the edge at night.Black is for the sins we made.White is for the grace he gave.Purple is for His hour of sorrow.Pink is for a new tomorrow.

A bag full of colors,Simple and sweetReminds us of the reasonsHe makes our life so complete.Amen.

3. Make Resurrection Story Cookies.Celebrate Easter with this kid-friendly recipe that not only fills up tummies with tasty treats, but also teaches about the hope we have as Christians in our risen Savior, Jesus Christ.

What are your family’s Easter traditions?

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From what to carry to what to wear, browse your guide to getting the most out of homeschool conventions in this illustration created by AOP.

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In honor of National Autism Awareness Month in April, we bring you the story of an autistic child and his family, who were called to homeschool under unique circumstances.

When Ben was a toddler, Leslie and Mark began to sense something was different about him.

Compared to his older brother, who was born with cerebral palsy, Ben just seemed a little eccentric. He refused to finger paint or touch food without a spoon or fork, for instance. And as Ben got older, he still didn’t speak. Instead, he babbled in his own language, and his brother translated.

Concerned by his behavior, Ben’s parents took him to doctors. He was diagnosed with Sensory Processing Disorder (formerly known as Sensory Integration Disorder) at age 2.

After receiving Ben’s diagnosis, Leslie began researching. The more she learned, the more she suspected that Ben’s hypersensitivity to the environment, inability to relate to others socially, and obsessive-compulsive tendencies were indicative of a similar but more disturbing disorder – autism.

Because of his tendencies, the Leslie and Mark prayed about where Ben should go to school. They knew he didn’t belong in a public school. At home, however, Leslie could control distractions and routines. She could teach her son at his level, rather than his age or grade. She started homeschooling Ben in kindergarten.

When he was finally officially diagnosed as autistic at age 9, Leslie was relieved.

“This was the missing piece of the puzzle,” she said. “Then it just hit me one night. This was God telling me I was supposed to homeschool.”

"I really think we wouldn't know what to do without SOS."Autistic students are homeschooled in many ways, including Individualized Education Programs (IEPs), the Charlotte Mason method, and unschooling. After years of homeschooling with paper materials, which kept Ben bored and Leslie busy tapping him to regain his attention, they began to look for an alternative that would let him learn at his own pace in his own time.

With Ben's knack for technology, Leslie decided to try Switched-On Schoolhouse, the same computer-based program his older brother used. Ben took to it immediately, completing his first year of SOS with B's in every subject but math. According to Leslie, SOS works well for Ben for several reasons, including his need to read a passage multiple times for full comprehension.

"The computer is very patient, and he can go back and read it as many times as he needs to," she said. "I really think we wouldn't know what to do without SOS."

She said computer learning also gives Ben the diligence to finish lessons, the independence to work on his own, and self-esteem because he doesn't have to pick up a pen.

"His handwriting is pretty atrocious," Leslie admitted, "but this gives him the confidence to not have to worry about handwriting or have to concentrate on his handwriting and forget his answer. And nobody has to sit and be his scribe."

Today, Ben is a well-adjusted teenager who reads at his own grade level, though he retains some autistic behaviors that will probably never disappear. He balks at any change in routine, so Leslie announces dinner five minutes early to let him adjust to the fact that he’ll be transitioning to a new activity. In conversation, he's blunt to the point of not knowing when he's impolite. In addition, Ben will probably never be able to infer or anticipate a need. For example, when he’s the last one out the front door, he has to be reminded to close it.

Despite the daily hiccups, Ben has made astounding progress in the past decade, which his mom attributes primarily to homeschooling.

"Above all, special needs children need to grow up knowing they're normal and loved," Leslie said. "Special needs kids just need to be homeschooled to excel. That way, you can meet them where they are. If it's third grade math and eighth grade science, that's what you do."

Do you have a child with special needs? Share your story below.

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Homeschooling is rewarding in a lot of ways, but the cha-ching of recouping educational expenses during tax season isn’t one of the rewards.

The federal government does not offer tax credits to homeschoolers because it does not recognize a homeschool as a school. It also does not give homeschool parents the opportunity to write off expenses.

Carol Topp is a retired homeschool mom and certified public accountant. The author of several homeschooling books on money management, Topp blogs about homeschooling and taxes at Homeschool CPA.

“Your homeschooling expenses are considered personal expenses,” Topp said on episode 11 of her podcast the Dollars and Sense Show. “Kind of like we can’t write off our food and we can’t write off our clothes, we can’t write off what the IRS considers your personal expenses and lower your taxes that way.”

The situation is a Catch-22 for homeschoolers. The federal government won’t reimburse parents for contributing to their children’s education, yet homeschool parents have no choice but to purchase the curriculum, books, microscopes, art supplies, and other equipment their children need.

However, homeschool families in certain states, as well as families who have children with special needs, can qualify for educational tax breaks.

The 5 Homeschool-Friendly StatesThe five states that currently offer tax credits for homeschooling include Arizona, Iowa, Illinois, Louisiana, and Minnesota. For details on what these states offer, see Home School Legal Defense Association’s article, Education Tax Credits.

Tax Credits for Special Needs KidsYou can also qualify for a tax benefit if you have a child with a severe learning disability, such as ADHD, or other physical, mental, or emotional impairments. If you think this benefit applies to you, research tax breaks for special needs children before filing your annual return. If you’ve already filed this year and didn’t factor in this tax benefit, you’re not out of luck, however. The IRS allows taxpayers to file amended returns and collect refunds for unclaimed tax benefits for up to three years.

Another blessing for homeschool families may be on its way: The Home School Equity Act for Tax Relief of 2013.

The Home School Equity Act for Tax Relief of 2013 The Home School Equity Act for Tax Relief of 2013 was introduced in the U.S. House of Representatives on May 7, 2013. HR 1850 would allow homeschool parents to take the Educator Expense deduction. HR 1850 was assigned to a congressional committee, which will consider it before possibly sending it on to the House or Senate as a whole. The bill was a re-introduction of HR 5963 from the previous session of Congress. Read the text of The Home School Equity Act for Tax Relief.

Do you get a homeschool tax break in your state or a tax benefit for a special needs child? Share below.

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"No man can serve two masters: for either he will hate the one, and love the other; or else he will hold to the one, and despise the other. Ye cannot serve God and mammon" (Matthew 6:24).

Our children were often frustrated when we first started homeschooling because they didn't know whether to listen to Dad or Mom. Our team-teaching approach was seriously lacking, and after the first year, we realized the problem. Although my husband wanted to help with teaching, he simply didn't know where the children were in their studies. When he attempted to answer their questions in the evening, he actually made things more confusing. Making adjustments, my husband and I decided he should be in charge of teaching only one or two subjects and leave the rest to me.

Having two masters in charge rarely works, but serving more than one master is even harder. According to Luke 16:13, there are no fence riders in the kingdom of heaven. The choice is plain and simple. Either we choose to submit our lives to Christ, or we live for money and the pleasures it provides. Ironically, the lack of money can actually make homeschooling parents value money as much as a greedy person living in abundance. By making every penny count, we overdevelop our focus in purchasing necessary items for our home. We also begin to see our husband's paycheck as our salvation, instead of trusting the Lord for provision. Money becomes our master — not because we have it, but because we don't.

How much time do you spend thinking about money during your homeschooling day? Do you wonder how you will make ends meet? If you're anxious or overly concerned about your financial situation, you'll only waste valuable teaching and family time. God knows what you need. Let His Word from Matthew 6:31-32 encourage you again this day: "Therefore take no thought, saying, What shall we eat? or, What shall we drink? or, Wherewithal shall we be clothed? (For after all these things do the Gentiles seek:) for your heavenly Father knoweth that ye have need of all these things."

Lord, You know I am trying to handle our finances carefully. Forgive me for stressing out and putting too much importance on where the next meal is coming from. You've always provided, and I choose to look to You again for all that I need. In Jesus' name, Amen.]]>Thu, 03 Apr 2014 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/if-walls-could-speak/
"For I know that in me (that is, in my flesh,) dwelleth no good thing: for to will is present with me; but how to perform that which is good I find not" (Romans 7:18).

If your homeschool walls could speak, what would they say? What secrets would they tell others about your homeschooling family? My walls would tell of quiet times reading books, excited times when science experiments went south, creative times of nightly puppet shows from behind the couch, and joyful times when a child received a hard-earned A+ on a semester test. Unfortunately, my walls would also tell secrets of not-so-nice times when conflicts led to unloving acts or laziness led to procrastination.

Every homeschooling parent knows he falls far short of being the perfect Christian parent. The temptation to allow selfishness, greed, jealousy, and even laziness to take over our lives is strong. Homeschooling is only successful when we listen to the Lord instead of our flesh and submit to His constant love and guidance.

What about you? Have you been focusing on your failures more than your successes? Take heart! We all fail in our efforts to be the best parent and teacher of our children. The true battle that turns our defeat into a homeschooling victory lies in saying "no" to the flesh, so the Holy Spirit can control our every thought and action. "I am crucified with Christ: nevertheless I live; yet not I, but Christ liveth in me: and the life which I now live in the flesh I live by the faith of the Son of God, who loved me, and gave himself for me" (Galatians 2:20).

Lord, thank You for providing the way to have a homeschooling family who glorifies You. Teach me how to say "no" to my whiny flesh and listen to You and Your promises instead. In Jesus' name, Amen.]]>Wed, 02 Apr 2014 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/whos-the-biggest-fool/
"But a foolish son is the heaviness of his mother" (Proverbs 10:1b).

We experienced a problem in our homeschooling family as my oldest son grew into his teens. Wanting to be accepted, my son started associating with a new group of friends. At first, I was happy to see my introverted son making new buddies, but then I noticed the beginning of undesirable qualities in his character. My son became more reckless and started showing off by taking foolish risks with his personal belongings, including his car. When my son started fooling me to participate in activities we wouldn't allow, it was time to address the situation. I realized I had been the biggest fool for not putting a stop to his foolishness sooner.

God's Word has nothing positive to say about fools or foolishness. Endless Scripture passages in Proverbs verify that claim, as well as a story in Acts. Apparently, the new believers in Christ had been fellowshipping and sharing their belongings (Acts 4:32). Barnabas, one of the believers, decided to sell a portion of his land to help the group and gave the money to the apostles. Two other believers, Ananias and his wife, Sapphira, did the same thing, but for whatever reason, they decided to keep a portion of the money for themselves (Acts 5:1-10). Attempting to fool the apostles, Ananias and Sapphira told them that they had given the full amount. God's response to this deception was quick and severe. Within three hours, both Ananias and Sapphira fell over dead for trying to fool the Holy Spirit.

What about your homeschooling family? Have you noticed any foolishness creeping into your children's actions? Be careful! Left unchecked, foolishness has the potential to destroy your child's life. Although the world may celebrate a day when people deceive and pull embarrassing practical jokes, God's Word says something entirely different about foolishness: "The thought of foolishness is sin" (Proverbs 24:9a).

Lord, show me how to discipline my children when they start acting foolishly. Give me the wisdom to train their immaturity into responsible actions that glorify You. In Jesus' name, Amen.]]>Tue, 01 Apr 2014 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/farmer-boy/
"Behold, the husbandman waiteth for the precious fruit of the earth, and hath long patience for it, until he receive the early and latter rain. Be ye also patient; stablish your hearts: for the coming of the Lord draweth nigh" (James 5:7b-8).

I think every parent secretly hopes that his children will share his passions. My passion was gardening, but each year gardens came and went with only a limited interest from my older children. Yes, they enjoyed the flowers and the fresh vegetables, but I never saw that "look" in their eyes when they surveyed a freshly tilled patch of ground. Years went by before God surprised me with my youngest son's interest. When he was old enough to start helping, I saw that far-off look that sees a future garden flourishing and yielding its fruit. I saw the excitement that said, "Let's try a new variety this year," or "Can we till up another patch of dirt to plant more?" For the next several years, my son and I happily pursued our green thumbs together.

As Christian homeschooling parents, we have a deep desire for our children to share a far greater passion. We desire them to share our same love for the Lord. Like a faithful gardener tending to his crops, we take our children to church, teach them Bible stories and memory verses, and pray for the day when they realize their need of Christ as Savior. When that day finally arrives, we rejoice as we see the Holy Spirit's sparkle in our children's eyes. Plus, we share the excitement of serving the Lord in this life as a family, and we share the hope of a future home in heaven for all eternity.

What about you? Are you still waiting for your homeschooler to make a personal decision to receive the Lord Jesus Christ as Savior? Don't give up! Keep planting those things into his life that will yield the fruit of righteousness in due season. Most of all, don't lose that passionate look in your own eye when you speak of Christ's forgiving love. Your children are watching and waiting to see what you really love most.

Lord Jesus, thank You for the privilege of being a homeschooling parent and teaching my children about You. I lift up their lives to You and pray for Your divine touch to bring them into a personal relationship with You. In Your holy name, Amen.]]>Mon, 31 Mar 2014 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/the-deepest-need/
"The LORD is on my side; I will not fear: what can man do unto me" (Psalm 118:6)?

If someone gave you a blank piece of paper and said, "Write down your greatest needs as a homeschooling parent," what would you write? Would you write a few short sentences, or would you fill the entire page with a huge list of items? As unique as each homeschooling parent's needs may be, if you truly look inside your heart, chances are you'll discover your deepest homeschooling needs are love, significance, and acceptance. These needs aren't easily met, however, since the world considers homeschoolers different and shies away in rejection. Even your own family can fail to give you the encouraging and positive feedback necessary in homeschooling. So, where do you go to fill your emotional void?

Praise God we have a loving heavenly Father who is more than enough to meet our deepest needs. The story of Noah in the Old Testament is a perfect example. Imagine the rejection and ridicule he must have experienced for obeying God when building a boat bigger than a football field! In a world filled with violence and corruption (Genesis 6:11), I'm sure Noah was probably threatened as well. Yet, Noah had it right, didn't he? Even though the people probably mocked him for days, it wasn't Noah who was on the wrong side of the door when it began to rain! God's acceptance of Noah's faith was demonstrated when He spared Noah and his family from the flood.

Have you been building your homeschooling ark, but you still find yourself being mocked by the world? Take courage. God's acceptance, approval, and love are all you need. Even though others will never understand the many benefits and blessings of homeschooling, you know the truth. Remain steadfast in teaching your children about the Lord, so when He returns, you'll be standing on the right side of the door. "What shall we then say to these things? If God be for us, who can be against us" (Romans 8:31)?

Father, some days, teaching my children seems as huge a task as building an ark. Thank You for Your love and acceptance that encourage me to go on homeschooling. Please, strengthen me to hear Your voice clearly each day. In the name of Jesus, Amen.]]>Sun, 30 Mar 2014 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/who-do-you-believe-in/
"Verily, verily, I say unto you, He that believeth on me, the works that I do shall he do also; and greater works than these shall he do; because I go unto my Father" (John 14:12).

When people attain a measure of success in the public spotlight, what words do you normally hear them say when they are interviewed? That person usually says, "Because my ______________(fill in the blank — grandmother, mother, father, sister, friend, etc.) believed in me, I was able to accomplish what I've done." Amazingly, one person's faith in another person's ability inspires great achievement.

Christ demonstrated this fact when He chose Peter as a disciple. Recognizing his potential (Matthew 16:16-20), Jesus challenged Peter to follow Him. After Christ's death and resurrection, the Lord's words about Peter were fulfilled when the Holy Spirit transformed his life on the day of Pentecost. Even though Peter was uneducated and untrained, his confidence and willingness to die for the sake of the Gospel amazed the elders, rulers, and scribes (Acts 4:13-14). Because Christ patiently loved and encouraged Peter, he was able to perform miracles and change the world with the message of Jesus' love and forgiveness.

Does this same underlying principle lie at the root of every homeschooler's success? Since most homeschooling parents only have a high school education, what else could account for the incredible results in academic success? Apparently, learning is only part of the equation in a child's ability to achieve great things. The other part lies within a loving parent's heart. When you see God's potential within your child and encourage him to reach out and obtain it, you'll be amazed at what your child achieves, too.

Lord, forgive me for limiting my child because of my unbelief in his abilities. Help me inspire him to greatness by believing in what You've created him to be. In Jesus' name, Amen.]]>Sat, 29 Mar 2014 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/unhealthy-competition/
"And whosoever of you will be the chiefest, shall be servant of all" (Mark 10:44).

I never encouraged competition between my four children while homeschooling, but it happened anyway. In fact, I only wanted my children to give their best each day and suggested forgetting grades altogether. However, their need to rate themselves against each other and other children their age dictated a request for a report card. Their human need to know where they were in the scheme of things filtered its way into their mindset and manifested itself during schoolwork. They simply had to know if they were smarter or better in a particular subject than their siblings or someone else.

Christ's disciples weren't any different. When following Jesus on Earth, a great debate arose among them. Wanting to know where they fit into the future scheme of things, James and John, the sons of Zebedee, foolishly asked Jesus if they could sit on either side of Him in heaven (Mark 10:37). Hearing this request, the other ten disciples became indignant, and Jesus took the opportunity to teach them all a valuable lesson in servanthood.

Are you comparing your homeschooling performance to other families, or are you simply giving your best and expecting the same from your children? God has uniquely designed your family with gifts and abilities, and your success in homeschooling isn't dictated by what other families are doing. God only expects you to seek His guidance and obey Him, so He can show you how to let go of unhealthy competition and focus on serving others instead.

Father, forgive me for trying to compete with the homeschool down the street. Teach me to listen to the Holy Spirit and depend on the truths of Your Word as I homeschool each day. In Jesus' name, Amen.]]>Fri, 28 Mar 2014 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/counting-the-cost/
"For whosoever will save his life shall lose it: and whosoever will lose his life for my sake shall find it" (Matthew 16:25).

Sometimes learning a new skill and information requires a painstaking effort. Such was the case when my five-year-old son saw the new phonics chart hanging on the schoolroom wall. Looking at all the phonics rules he had to learn and memorize, my son looked at me with wide eyes and said, "Mommy, there are too many. Can't we skip some and just do the first ones?"

"No, honey," I replied. "Each one is important in helping you become a better reader. Just think, after you learn them all, you'll be able to read really hard books."

Looking at me skeptically, he answered, "Can I just learn to read easy books, Mom?"

Whether you're learning to become a better reader or a follower of Jesus Christ, you must count the cost and recognize the sacrifices involved. In Matthew 26:6-13, Jesus rebuked His disciples for their indignation toward a woman's sacrificial act of love. Instead, Jesus commended her for bringing a vial of very costly perfume and pouring it on His head, even though the poor would have benefited from its value. Giving such an expensive gift probably cost this woman everything, but what a perfect picture for us! There is a great cost involved in becoming a disciple of Jesus Christ.

What has it cost you to homeschool your children? Are you thinking now that the price is too high? Like the honor given to the woman for her costly gift (Matthew 26:13) or the reward promised for being Christ's disciple (Luke 18:29-30), God will honor your faithful homeschooling sacrifices of time, energy, and money. Will you hold fast to what God has shown you to be true? "So likewise, whosoever he be of you that forsaketh not all that he hath, he cannot be my disciple" (Luke 14:33).

Lord, convict me of my need to give back all that I am to You. Guide me as I homeschool today and remind me that this sacrifice is nothing compared to Yours when You died on the cross for me. In Jesus' name, Amen.]]>Thu, 27 Mar 2014 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/daffodil-days/
"Honour the LORD with thy substance, and with the firstfruits of all thine increase" (Proverbs 3:9).

Every year the daffodils were the first to push their green leaves through winter's cold earth in our flower bed. My daughter and I both looked forward to their annual spring arrival after homeschooling all winter. Not only were we blessed as the army of bright yellow blossoms began to form, but we also anticipated the joy of sharing their beauty with others. Short on finances, giving away our daffodils was one simple, but welcomed way that our homeschooling family could bring hope and love to family and friends. Our motivation to keep them fertilized and free of weeds came from the promise of future smiles we would see from those who would receive a bountiful bouquet.

Using what we have to be a blessing to others is a reoccurring theme in the Bible. As a homeschooling parent short on money, but big on ideas, I loved encouraging my children to bless others with the resources at hand. My favorite Bible stories to illustrate this lesson came from the widow who fed Elijah bread with the last of her flour and oil (1 Kings 17:12), the poor widow who had only two small coins to give to the church treasury (Luke 21:1-4), and the young boy who gave his two small fish and five loaves of bread to Jesus to feed over 5,000 people (John 6:9). Each is a clear example that God can use anything to bless others if we simply give it to Him.

Do you feel like you have nothing to give toward Christ's work because your finances are limited from homeschooling on one income? Don't despair! Look around instead and open your heart to God's creative ideas. Maybe you can bake fresh homemade meals, sew or crochet handmade kitchen towels, or just give sacks of your children's outgrown clothes to a needy family. Let the Lord lead and use what you have to be a blessing to others. When you see a smile appearing on a face, you'll realize that you have received the greater blessing.

Lord, thank You for the blessings You've given to my family. Help me to teach my children to think of others and open our eyes to see the storehouse of resources that You've made available to bless them. In Jesus' name, Amen.]]>Wed, 26 Mar 2014 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/litter-bugs/
"Righteousness exalteth a nation: but sin is a reproach to any people" (Proverbs 14:34).

Every spring after the snow thawed in the ditches near our home, the ugliness of winter's past sins would be revealed. An endless disarray of empty glass liquor bottles and aluminum beer cans lined both sides of our country road for more than a mile. Looking at the mess, my young son shook his head in disgust. "Mom," he said. "Why do they have to throw their garbage in our ditch?"

Understanding his displeasure, I replied, "I don't know, but can you imagine the mess their lives are in if what they've left behind looks like this?"

The Bible doesn't pull any punches when it reveals God's attitude toward sin's ugliness. The Scriptures say sin is an abomination to the Lord (Proverbs 6:16), and He hates those who do iniquity (Psalm 5:5). No matter if the sin is great or small in our mind, we suffer when we choose to disobey God. Our sinful actions and choices trash not only our lives, but also the lives of everyone they touch.

As a Christian homeschooling parent, do you take your sinful failings seriously? Proverbs 14:9 says, "Fools make a mock at sin." Each time you choose to lose your patience, make unloving remarks, or fail to discipline your children, you leave a mess in your own family, as well as the world. Left unchecked, sin's filthy effect will split your family apart and give the world cause to look on homeschoolers and Christians with disgust. Start picking up the mess today by coming before the Lord and seeking His cleansing from all unrighteousness (1 John 1:9).

Father, forgive me for not hating sin like You do. Help me to deal with those seemingly "little" sins that make my life ugly and ruin Your best in my life. In Jesus' name, Amen.]]>Tue, 25 Mar 2014 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/precept-upon-precept/
"Whom shall he teach knowledge? and whom shall he make to understand doctrine? them that are weaned from the milk, and drawn from the breasts. For precept must be upon precept, precept upon precept; line upon line, line upon line; here a little, and there a little" (Isaiah 28:9-10).

I'm not sure what I expected from my children when we first started homeschooling. I guess I thought they would be accomplished mathematicians and readers by the time they were in second grade. As we continued to homeschool each year, however, I realized that children grow intellectually the same way they grow physically — a little bit at a time. Even though I felt like we weren't accomplishing much each day, every new phonics rule, spelling word, grammar rule, or math fact was actually building upon itself and laying a foundation that would lead to their educational success.

Spiritual maturity is a step-by-step growing process as well. Too many times we look at older, more mature saints and wish that we had their walk with God. However, we fail to see the years of lessons (sometimes painful lessons) that brought them to their point of maturity. Each lesson learned in faith, prayer, and scriptural truths builds upon the last to produce a shining, godly character.

What about your spiritual life? Does it seem like there are so many lessons to learn before you become a person of faith? Maybe you even find yourself relearning the same lessons like patience, a pure thought life, or gratefulness over and over again. God is the master builder of all things (Hebrews 3:4), and He is setting the bricks of your faith one at a time. Trust Him, and you'll become a shining example of His love to your homeschooling family and the world. "Being confident of this very thing, that he which hath begun a good work in you will perform it until the day of Jesus Christ" (Philippians 1:6).

Lord, thank You for each lesson You've used to teach me more about You. Increase my faith and keep teaching me that my life might glorify You. In the name of Jesus, Amen.]]>Mon, 24 Mar 2014 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/parent-and-teacher/
"For whom the Lord loveth, he chasteneth, and scourgeth every son whom he receiveth" (Hebrews 12:6).

Like most homeschoolers, the first few years were a struggle as I taught my children at home. The initial problems were not from a lack of quality curriculum, lesson planning, or teaching methods. Rather, the problems that tempted me to quit came from poor parenting skills. My children had the upper hand. I was bombarded with laziness, silliness, selfishness, and uncooperative spirits, and unfortunately, there was no super nanny to call to set things right. I needed to enforce the rules, so my children could learn to the best of their abilities. Boundaries needed to be set with a firm, but loving hand of correction. When I finally realized that parenting and teaching were synonymous, our homeschooling changed for the better.

Many times Christians slide backwards in their faith because they fail to understand God's nature as both a loving, heavenly Father (1 John 4:8) and a lover of justice (Psalm 37:28). We quickly see God as "the big meanie" when He corrects us in our foolishness and sin. Wanting to bask in His love as friend and Abba Father, we forget that God is also holy and just. When we realize God is all powerful and disciplines us because He wants us to share in His holiness (Hebrews 12:10), our spiritual understanding of God's love changes for the better.

What about you? Do you doubt God's love because you're suffering from the consequences of a past sin? God cares more about making you more like Christ than letting you have your own selfish way. Why not turn to Him and learn the lesson He is setting before you today? "For they verily for a few days chastened us after their own pleasure; but he for our profit, that we might be partakers of his holiness" (Hebrews 12:10).

Lord, You hate sin, and I know You want me to be more like Christ. Work in my heart and change my bitterness and doubt to praise and trust in Your goodness and love. In Jesus' name, Amen.]]>Sun, 23 Mar 2014 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/giant-of-despair/
I had no idea homeschooling would involve the spiritual battles I faced. Daily, I was challenged to maintain a godly attitude under the pressures of teaching and maintaining a home. Foolishly, I thought I could stay ahead of Satan's discouraging attacks with a few Scripture verses and my own strength. After a particularly difficult homeschooling day, I finally reached an emotional, rock-bottom experience. Tired and drained, I decided tomorrow was the day to give up teaching my four children. Going to bed early that night, I had resolved to call the school district in the morning to enroll my children.

That night, I had the most unusual dream. In my dream, I saw a large, dark figure approaching our farmhouse from across the field. I sensed the evil coming from this thing and knew that if he reached me, I would be killed. As he came closer, I quickly looked for a way of escape and saw a reinforced cage lying on the ground next to me. Thinking I would be safe, I climbed inside. Sneering, the dark figure picked up the cage and shook it violently. I felt the painful blows from hitting the sides as he banged me around inside the cage. Looking down, I noticed several articles of padded clothing that would protect me, and as I struggled to reach them, I woke up.

I never had a dream that seemed so real. I immediately prayed to ask God if there was some special meaning. Amazingly, God led me to Ephesians 6:10-18, and after reading this passage of Scripture, I understood my dream. I had failed to put on the whole armor of God each day, and Satan was beating me up in my homeschooling efforts. My cage of salvation had kept me alive, but without the full covering of God's armor to protect myself during the daily spiritual battles, I would continue to be defeated. Enlightened and empowered with God's truth, my spiritual walk and my homeschooling changed.

Are you facing the giant of despair and feeling beat up in your homeschooling? If your temper is short and you feel frustrated and angry at God, your children, or yourself, perhaps you've forgotten to dress this morning with God's protective armor. Don't wait for a near homeschooling defeat before you realize the true source of your strength in homeschooling. Turn to God now and discover His power for victory. "Finally, my brethren, be strong in the Lord, and in the power of his might. Put on the whole armour of God, that ye may be able to stand against the wiles of the devil" (Ephesians 6:10-11).

Jesus, You are my King, and I surrender all that I am to You. Fill me mightily today with Your presence and power to defeat the lies of the evil one before they rob our family of the blessings of homeschooling. In Your precious name, Amen.]]>Sat, 22 Mar 2014 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/put-off-until-tomorrow/
"To day if ye will hear his voice, harden not your hearts" (Hebrews 4:7b).

Prioritizing my workload as a homeschooling parent was difficult because everything seemed urgent. The baby needed to be bathed and fed, the clothes needed to be washed, the meals needed to be kept on schedule, and daily school lessons needed to be completed. Too many days I felt like Peter robbing Paul as I juggled each of these activities. Anything that could be put off until tomorrow usually was, including grading papers, quizzes, and tests.

I didn't realize my children's annoyance with my grading delay until my daughter said, "It's been over a week since I took that history test! I studied so hard! When are you ever going to grade it?" My failure in giving instant feedback not only caused frustration and a lack of motivation in our homeschooling, but it also eliminated the opportunity to correct errors immediately to prevent them from being repeated in future lessons. Sadly, my children's schoolwork suffered for several years from my inability to prioritize.

Accepting Christ as Savior is also a decision many people put off until tomorrow. The busyness of life takes priority, and people fail to take time to consider the serious, life-changing gift of eternal life. Like the foolish man who stored up more and more treasures for himself on Earth (Luke 12:18-20), they miss making the most important decision in life.

Do you have family members, friends, or even fellow homeschoolers who don't know Christ as their Savior? God's Word says in Hebrews 3:13, "But exhort one another daily, while it is called To day; lest any of you be hardened through the deceitfulness of sin." Don't wait to tell of Christ's love and forgiveness to those you love. Tomorrow may be too late.

Lord, use me today to reach those people who have yet to put their trust in You. Show me their needs and help me to share clearly the message of salvation. In the saving name of Jesus, Amen.]]>Fri, 21 Mar 2014 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/2014-convention-special/
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We should have never started on our three-hour trip home after attending my oldest daughter's college graduation. The farther we traveled, the lower the visibility became from the blinding snow. Eventually, we couldn't see the road at all. Since turning back was just as far as traveling to the next town, we continued down the road. The close homeschooling relationship between my husband and son was soon to be tested. Sticking his head out the passenger window to see the white line on the road's edge, my son started giving directions to my husband and said, "Move a little left" or "Move a little right." For the next hour, my husband put his total faith in my son's navigation and literally drove blind in the raging blizzard.

Trusting the Lord when you can't see the way through life's difficulties is even a greater challenge than a blinding snow storm. Emotional pain and hardships blind you to God's love and rob you of your faith. You are tempted to believe that God has left you, and you doubt His loving care. Instead of trusting in His promises, you try to escape the pain on your own and fail to stay in the middle of His will. Trusting in your own human understanding, you head for the ditch and destruction.

Is homeschooling testing your faith in God in a way you never imagined? Are you wondering why He started you down the path of teaching your children when it is so difficult to see the daily obstacles and hazards? God knows what lies ahead, and He will tell you if you need to move a little left or right. He hasn't abandoned you and promises to help with parenting problems, financial problems, and even loneliness. Homeschooling works — don't give up the faith! "That the trial of your faith, being much more precious than of gold that perisheth, though it be tried with fire, might be found unto praise and honour and glory at the appearing of Jesus Christ" (1 Peter 1:7).

Father, I cry out to You for help with my homeschooling. I am lost and need Your guidance. Show me the way, so Your perfect will is accomplished in my children's lives. In Jesus' name, Amen.]]>Thu, 20 Mar 2014 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/corporate-worship/
"And they continued stedfastly in the apostles' doctrine and fellowship" (Acts 2:42a).

For several months I had noticed my teenage son's reluctance to go to church. Thinking we would leave him behind, he was always the last one to wake up on Sunday morning and painstakingly took his time getting ready. After he had caused the entire family to be late for church several Sundays in a row, I knew I needed to speak with him about his actions. The next day during our homeschool devotions, we discussed the topic of worship, and my son blurted out, "I don't need to go to church to worship God. I can worship Him at home just as well as at church!"

"Yes, that's true," I responded. "We can worship God anywhere at any time, but the Bible tells us to worship together as a group of believers to encourage each other."

"Well, I just don't get anything out of it anymore," he replied roughly.

After further discussion, his real reluctance in attending church was revealed. After a long week of homeschooling and work, he simply didn't want to get up early on Sunday morning, too.

If left to ourselves, most of us would sleep in or play instead of remembering to keep the Sabbath Day holy (Exodus 20:8). Unfortunately, the world does exactly that and sees Sunday as a day of relaxation rather than a day set apart to worship God. People go to the beach, the park, or the mountains to "get away from it all" and completely forget about worshipping or serving God.

What about your homeschooling family? Are you disciplined in church attendance? Not only do you have opportunities to encourage and be encouraged by other believers, you also hear the Word preached and worship God as you sing and give gifts corporately. Yes, you could worship the Lord just as easily at home, but is that really where He wants you to be on Sunday morning? "And let us consider one another to provoke unto love and to good works: Not forsaking the assembling of ourselves together, as the manner of some is; but exhorting one another: and so much the more, as ye see the day approaching" (Hebrews 10:24-25).

Lord, thank You for giving me a separate day each week just to worship You. Help me to faithfully be in Your house on Sunday and convict me to set a good example for my children. In the name of Jesus, Amen.]]>Wed, 19 Mar 2014 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/lessons-from-a-goose/
"A man's heart deviseth his way: but the LORD directeth his steps" (Proverbs 16:9).

I was on my daily walk and trying to organize my thoughts for a long homeschooling day. I stopped to observe the sunrise in the spring sky and noticed a large flock of geese heading north. Captivated by the sight, I laid down on the ground to watch their movements. Watching them fly in their traditional V shape, I observed the lead goose as he dropped back to find a new spot in the formation. The goose that had been directly behind him assumed the lead, and the entire group continued flying. Twice more, I saw the same process take place before the flock was completely out of sight.

Reflecting on what I had just seen, I knew God had spoken to my heart with a new homeschooling philosophy. Since I didn't have the energy or the wisdom, God's divine plans for my children's education included others besides me. Sometimes God moved my husband into the lead position to teach art, physical education, or life skills in mechanics and carpentry. Other times, God provided homeschooling friends to share their expertise in a particular subject during a co-op homeschool group lesson. God even allowed me to drop back and catch my breath with field trips supervised by Grandpa and Grandma and high school tutors for biology and chemistry labs. Although I was ultimately in charge of my children's education, I found great relief in God's occasional provision of a new lead goose.

Have you made the mistake of believing you're in this homeschooling decision all by yourself? Blazing the homeschool trail is difficult, especially when you're teaching more than one child. God knows the rest you need and has already planned for others to come along and help. Just pray and ask God to show you which goose to follow.

Lord, thank You for the joy of homeschooling. Forgive me for thinking I'm the only one capable of teaching my children. Lead me to those people You have prepared to help train them and teach me to relax and enjoy the time of rest. In Jesus' name, Amen.]]>Tue, 18 Mar 2014 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/school-spirit/
We never had a mascot for our homeschool, and my children never knew the excitement of school pep rallies. However, what we lacked in school spirit for team sports was made up by the Holy Spirit in Christian ministry. As we reached out to others, the presence and power of the Lord filled us to accomplish His will. Being used by the Lord and seeing His mighty power displayed was much more exciting than any football, baseball, or basketball game.

When Jesus gathered His team of 12 players, He taught them about Himself and His heavenly Father. However, Christ also knew His disciples were going to need more. To remain His faithful witnesses on Earth after His return to heaven, He knew they were going to need a new team spirit. Before He ascended, He strictly commanded them to wait in Jerusalem until the Holy Spirit came upon them (Acts 1:4). At Pentecost, the disciples were baptized and empowered with the Holy Spirit to begin evangelizing the world.

Does your homeschooling seem to be missing something? Do you commit each day to the Lord and ask the Holy Spirit to control your schedule and activities? God knows you need more than just your own wisdom and determined spirit to be a homeschooling winner. Successful homeschooling requires a school spirit that comes from above. Only the Holy Spirit's power can help you find the victory for every homeschooling challenge. "But ye shall receive power, after that the Holy Ghost is come upon you" (Acts 1:8a).

Father, I would be so lost homeschooling without Your power and constant care. Fill me today with the Holy Spirit and use me to accomplish Your will. In the blessed name of Jesus, Amen.]]>Mon, 17 Mar 2014 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/pity-parties/
Self-pity is a common temptation faced by many homeschooling parents. After all, we have such a heavy burden to bear, right? If the daily duties of homeschooling are not enough, we also face ridicule and a lack of appreciation for the hard work of teaching our children. Our martyr syndrome assumes we're the only ones who really care about our children's education. Foolishly we say, "No one else sacrifices or suffers for what they believe like we do." Sadly, we actually believe these lies from Satan and sink into homeschooling despair because of them.

God doesn't want us to feel sorry for ourselves, and He teaches us that lesson with the stories of two pouting prophets in the Bible. Consider Elijah and the great demonstration of God's power at Mount Carmel. When Elijah prayed, the Lord proved Himself mighty to the prophets of Baal (1 Kings 18:20-39). Forgetting what God had just done, Elijah ran for his life to Mount Horeb to hide in a cave because the evil Queen Jezebel threatened him. When God asked why he was there, Elijah claimed, "And I, even I only, am left; and they seek my life, to take it away" (1 Kings 19:14b). Then, there was Jonah who preached to the city of Nineveh and watched as the entire population repented of their sins. Jonah became so angry at God for sparing them that he said, "It is better for me to die than to live" (Jonah 4:3b). Both these prophets went from tremendous highs to the depths of despair as they felt sorry for themselves and forgot God's deliverance.

What about you? Are you having a one-person pity party to celebrate your homeschooling difficulties? Why be like a foolish prophet who forgets the mighty miracles of God's blessings? Rejoice instead in the precious opportunity God has given you to teach your children. Enjoy the wonderful gift of having fun together as a family. After experiencing the joys of homeschooling, why not throw a different party tonight and celebrate all that God has done for you?

Lord, I praise You for the love You show me each day. I am so thankful to be my children's teacher and rejoice in the blessings of homeschooling. I recommit my heart and thoughts to You today. In Jesus' name, Amen.]]>Sun, 16 Mar 2014 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/by-hand/
"Examine me, O LORD, and prove me; try my reins and my heart" (Psalm 26:2).

When my four children reached long division in their math curriculum, several weeks of resistance and conflict resulted during our homeschooling days. The painstaking process seemed unending and laborious to my high-tech children. "Mom, why do we have to do this by hand?" they cried. "Why can't we just figure this out on the calculator?" Taking the time and effort to show their work on every quiz and test in division was even more agonizing. To them, the quick and easy method of using the calculator's brain instead of their own seemed the best answer to solving math computations.

Taking the easy way out is common for today's Christians. Most saved people consider the testing of their faith something to be avoided or eliminated. Instead of walking through life's trials with God, many bypass the challenge and supersede God's will with manmade answers. However, James 1:3-4 gives us God's perspective for trials: "Knowing this, that the trying of your faith worketh patience. But let patience have her perfect work, that ye may be perfect and entire, wanting nothing."

Is homeschooling stretching you to the limits and trying your patience? God is working in your life and your children's lives. He knows how demanding each day can be and wants you to trust Him "by hand." Place your hand in His today. Waiting on God for answers is never easy, but the spiritual lesson of endurance is only learned by going through the process. Allow Him to teach you to "let patience have her perfect work, that ye may be perfect and entire, wanting nothing" (James 1:4).

Lord, how quick I am to give up when homeschooling gets hard. Teach me endurance and patience as my children and I learn academic and spiritual lessons together. In Jesus' name, Amen.]]>Sat, 15 Mar 2014 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/lessons-in-the-garden/
Do you realize how many homeschooling lessons can be learned from gardening? From biology to Bible, gardening provided our family more opportunities to learn truths than any other activity. Such was the case the year my son prepared to win the grand champion purple ribbon at the county fair with his homegrown vegetables.

Earlier that spring, my son and I had carefully planned and planted our garden. Throughout the growing season, his thriving tomatoes were the best of all his vegetables. Deciding to focus his attention on their care, he applied exact amounts of fertilizer and built cages to protect the vines from the wind. As the tomatoes began to form, we knew the timing for harvesting them would perfectly match the date of the fair. Filled with excitement, he could already see the purple ribbon hanging on his bedroom wall.

Two weeks before the fair, our garden received a mysterious nighttime visitor. Some four-legged fiend ransacked my son's tomatoes and broke off most of the vines. In hopes that we could save my son's tomatoes, we attempted to repair the remaining damaged vines. However, only a few days passed before we noticed the life-giving nutrients were not reaching the tomatoes. My son was devastated when he realized his dreams for that year's prize had been thwarted. He had learned the hard lesson of John 15:5, "I am the vine, ye are the branches: He that abideth in me, and I in him, the same bringeth forth much fruit: for without me ye can do nothing."

Have you considered planting a garden this year with your homeschoolers? Whether you grow one for fun or for feeding your family, the blessings God will give and the lessons God will teach will make all the work worth the effort. After all, gardens have been the best place to learn God's lessons since He first placed man in one when He created the world! "For as the earth bringeth forth her bud, and as the garden causeth the things that are sown in it to spring forth; so the Lord GOD will cause righteousness and praise to spring forth before all the nations" (Isaiah 61:11).

Lord, what an awesome God You are and how dependent we are on You for everything! Teach me the lessons from Your creation and Your Word that will make me more like You. In Jesus' name, Amen.]]>Fri, 14 Mar 2014 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/the-right-answer/
"He that answereth a matter before he heareth it, it is folly and shame unto him" (Proverbs 18:13).

I learned an important homeschooling secret after many years of teaching — it's more important to ask the right questions than it is to give the right answers. Too many times I piled tons of information on my children that was neither of interest or necessary. My "be prepared" teaching philosophy, which attempted to include every detail on a subject, was burning out my children's love of learning. Clearly, one carefully worded question sparked my children's interest far more than providing all the answers.

Needless to say, this same flaw also caused difficulty for me when witnessing to others. Because the Bible is the answer to people's problems, I attempted to provide all the facts and answers to show them their need for Christ. As I began down the "Romans Road" or shared the "Gospel Hand," I quickly spat out verses thinking I would change their lives. However, the Holy Spirit showed me that it is He who does the convicting in a person's heart. I needed to be sensitive to His leading when witnessing to others. Asking a person carefully worded questions is much more effective in leading someone to the Lord than providing all the right answers.

Do you have a tendency to give more information than necessary when you witness to others? Instead of trying to convince people of their need for Christ with your biblical answers, listen to the Holy Spirit instead. He is the One who has the perfect question to ask that will spark someone's interest in our loving Lord.

Jesus, lead me as I tell others about Your saving love. You have the right answers to everyone's problems, including mine. Help me to ask the kinds of questions that will spark others' interest in You. In Your name, Amen.]]>Thu, 13 Mar 2014 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/unfair-labels/
What labels have been placed on your children because they homeschool? During our years of homeschooling, my children faced innuendos that ranged from mental retardation to religious fanatic. Today, the media still portrays homeschoolers as naive, unfashionably dressed nerds. Even though studies prove the contrary, public educators also insist that homeschoolers are deprived of proper socialization. Why does the word "homeschooling" bring out such nastiness in people?

Unfair labels are nothing new. When Christ lived on Earth, He suffered from being misunderstood by the multitudes, Jewish leaders, and even His friends and family. Unfair labels like trouble maker, demon possessed, and foolish fanatic were placed on Him as He told the world about the kingdom of God and His love. Although the label placed above Christ's head on the cross was intended to mock Him, it was the one label the world got right when it read, "THIS IS THE KING OF THE JEWS" (Luke 23:38b).

So, how do you live in a negative, anti-homeschooling world and not become negative yourself? As Christian homeschoolers, we seem to receive a double whammy from the world — unfair labels for our faith and unfair labels for our homeschooling. As hurtful as these labels can be, Christ can help us forgive and move beyond the painful remarks when they come. Jesus' example of love on the cross showed us the way when He said, "Father, forgive them; for they know not what they do" (Luke 23:24).

Lord, strengthen me to stand against the world's opinion of homeschoolers. Teach me to love as You loved when You died on the cross. In Jesus' name, Amen.]]>Wed, 12 Mar 2014 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/lost/
"For this my son was dead, and is alive again; he was lost, and is found" (Luke 15:24a).

The day had started expectantly for our family as we left on a field trip to Denver, Colorado. My children were looking forward to visiting the planetarium and seeing artifacts and rocks on display at the museum of natural history. Wonderfully, the entire day had lived up to our hopeful expectations, and only one stop remained before beginning our long drive back home. With a time limit of one hour or less, my husband dropped us off at the Christian bookstore.

My three oldest children left for the music department to listen to CDs, while my four-year-old son and I proceeded to shop for gifts for upcoming birthdays. Normally, I'm very attentive to my children's whereabouts while shopping, but after reading the verses in several cards, I looked down and saw that my son was gone. Thinking he had rejoined his older siblings, I began to look around for the four of them, but neither they nor my young son were in sight. After scanning the store, I located my older children, but our perfect day came to a terrible end as I realized what every mother fears most — my son was lost!

Circumstances in life can change so rapidly. One day we think we are safe and secure with money in the bank and food on the table, and the next day brings devastating problems that bring us to our knees. Like Job in the Old Testament, problems can hit us like a tsunami and wipe out all our joys in a single moment. Fortunately, my tidal wave of terror ceased that day. After searching with my three oldest children for over an hour, we finally found my youngest son asleep in the back seat of our car with his father fast asleep in the front.

Are you filled with uncertainty while you homeschool? Do you feel on top of the world one day and down in the valley the next? If you are just beginning to homeschool, it may seem like a rollercoaster ride for several months or even a few years. Hang on! God will help level out your teaching days with His loving care and guidance, and He will help you find your way. "O LORD God of hosts, who is a strong LORD like unto thee? or to thy faithfulness round about thee? Thou rulest the raging of the sea: when the waves thereof arise, thou stillest them" (Psalm 89:8-9).

Lord, here I go again. I feel so lost in our homeschooling. Teach me to trust You for the wisdom I need to be the best teacher I can be for my children. In the name of Jesus, Amen.]]>Tue, 11 Mar 2014 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/shaping-the-world/
Did you wake up this morning thinking, "Wow, what I do during our homeschooling today could shape the world"? Probably not, but that doesn't negate the fact that every homeschooling decision you make influences your child. Homeschooling parents can easily forget the important, long-term effect of their teaching and the potential it has to shape the world. Like a hybrid seed, God will someday use the academics you teach, the beliefs you instill, and the character you nurture in your child to change the world. Hundreds, if not thousands, of lives will feel the impact of your child's godly actions due to your faithfulness in homeschooling. Yes, what you do today as a homeschooling parent has a far-reaching effect and really does make a difference now and for eternity!

As Christians, God commands us to go into the world and be salt and light. However, Satan wants to rob us of our small acts of Christ-like love to others by convincing us they don't really matter. After all, what difference does it make if you call your elderly neighbors to tell them you're thinking of them or you bring freshly baked cookies to the working mother who lives next door? Each act really does illuminate the world with God's love.

Do you realize how much your Christian charity changes the world? Your faithful, small acts of love bring help, hope, and encouragement to many. If you doubt the importance of your loving acts, imagine for a moment what the world would look like if all the Christians were gone. "Now he that ministereth seed to the sower both minister bread for your food, and multiply your seed sown, and increase the fruits of your righteousness" (2 Corinthians 9:10).

Father, thank You for placing me in this world to glorify You. Give me wisdom to homeschool my children, so they will also bear much fruit for You and bring Your light to a dark world. In the name of Jesus, Amen.]]>Mon, 10 Mar 2014 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/walking-it-out/
"Cause me to hear thy lovingkindness in the morning; for in thee do I trust: cause me to know the way wherein I should walk; for I lift up my soul unto thee" (Psalm 143:8).

Walking saved my life as a homeschooling parent. Each morning before my spouse left for work, I spent one hour rejuvenating with prayer and exercise. As I walked, I listened to inspiring music, and God spoke to my heart with encouragement for the day. Negativity and discouragement from yesterday's problems were pounded out with each footstep, and the fresh air and beauty of God's sunrise were taken in with each stride to uplift my weary spirit. However, whenever I allowed laziness or other distractions to rob this morning routine, my attitude and our homeschooling day suffered greatly. My daily walk with God became my refuge and the most important time of the day.

The Bible has many verses that illustrate the spiritual importance of how we are to walk with God. We are to walk in truth (Psalm 86:11), in newness of life (Romans 6:4), by faith (2 Corinthians 5:7), in the Spirit (Galatians 5:16), in the light (Psalm 89:15), according to His commandments (2 John 1:6), and as children of light (Ephesians 5:8). As we walk with God, He provides the strength and guidance we need to face the enormous task of homeschooling our children.

When was the last time you went for a walk? Let the physical discipline of exercising your body lead you to the spiritual discipline of exercising your soul. Then you will be able to say with the psalmist, "I will walk within my house with a perfect heart" (Psalm 101:2c).

Lord, I need You so much. Thank You for being there each day to walk with me and guide me through all the homeschooling problems. Give me the wisdom and strength I need again this day. In Jesus' name, Amen.]]>Sun, 09 Mar 2014 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/totally-discouraged/
"And the LORD, he it is that doth go before thee; he will be with thee, he will not fail thee, neither forsake thee: fear not, neither be dismayed" (Deuteronomy 31:8).

Homeschooling can bring out the worst and best in you. As I sat on the kitchen floor crying, I knew that today was one of the worst. I had put the children to bed early, and my husband was working late. I was hoping a good cry would relieve my stress from the week of teaching, responsibilities, and housework. My inabilities to be supermom seemed immensely larger than the homeschooling blessings, and I felt like I was constantly disappointing my husband, my children, my extended family, and myself. Failure waved its ugly banner over me, and I was tempted to cut my losses and give up entirely. God seemed far away, and I felt alone.

Just when my pity party peaked, I felt a pair of little hands touching my face. Looking up, I saw my youngest daughter looking at me with deep blue eyes and concern on her face. "Mommy," she said. "Don't cry. I love you." In that moment, I sensed the Lord encouraging me through my little daughter's love. Homeschooling was for her and my other children. God would strengthen me to teach them.

Is today one of your bad homeschooling days? Have the failures seemed greater than the successes? Don't lose sight of the reason for homeschooling. God has called you to teach your children, and He has promised, "I will never leave thee, nor forsake thee" (Hebrews 13:5b).

Lord, help me to remember You are everything I need. Show me again how to claim Your strength to homeschool and sense Your encouragement every day. In the name of Jesus, Amen.]]>Sat, 08 Mar 2014 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/homeschool-messes/
"Who can say, I have made my heart clean, I am pure from my sin" (Proverbs 20:9)?

Do you ever feel like you pick up messes all day? As a homeschooling parent, I quickly learned not to wait until the end of the day to clean the house. Walking through each room throughout the day, I continually organized and put a few things away as my children were studying. If I didn't, I knew I wouldn't have enough energy left to tackle the mountains of laundry, dishes, and clutter before bed.

Keeping our lives clean from the messes of sin also takes a continual effort. In the Old Testament, only the clean were allowed in the temple to worship before the Lord. Today, we must come before the Lord daily and allow Him to cleanse us of all unrighteousness (1 John 1:9). Keeping short accounts with God keeps the messes of sin from building into mountains and destroying our relationship with Him.

Is your spiritual life full of clutter and messes? Are there issues that God has prompted you to clean, such as seeking forgiveness from a family member or disciplining yourself to live a healthier lifestyle? Don't wait until tomorrow, next week, or next year to start obeying the Lord. Start today and rediscover the joy, power, and strength that come from living a clean life before the Lord. "But if we walk in the light, as he is in the light, we have fellowship one with another, and the blood of Jesus Christ his Son cleanseth us from all sin" (1 John 1:7).

Father, forgive me for letting the messes build up in our relationship. Please, speak to me again and show me those areas in my life that need to be cleaned by Your forgiving love. In Jesus' name, Amen.]]>Fri, 07 Mar 2014 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/the-homeschool-convention/
Take a light-hearted look at homeschool conventions in this illustration created by AOP.

In addition, visit our booth at a convention near you and enter to win AOP’s $300 curriculum giveaway. One $300 curriculum prize will be awarded at each convention we visit this year!

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March comes in like a lion and goes out like a lamb, as the old saying goes. As you homeschool through spring, print these free activity worksheets from AOP for your learner to complete. Simply click the worksheet of your choice, select print, and let the fun begin!

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Russell Crowe plays Noah and a child visits heaven during a near-death experience in two faith-based films opening this spring, Noah and Heaven Is for Real.

An adaptation of the Bible story in the book of Genesis, Noah takes place in a world ravaged by human sin in which Noah (Crowe) is given a divine mission: to build an ark to save creation from the coming flood. Jennifer Connelly, Emma Watson, and Sir Anthony Hopkins round out the all-star cast directed by Darin Aronofsky.

Producer Scott Franklin said the movie remains faithful to the story, for the most part.

“Noah is a very short section of the Bible with a lot of gaps, so we definitely had to take some creative expression in it,” Franklin told Entertainment Weekly. “But I think we stayed very true to the story and didn't really deviate from the Bible, despite the six-armed angels.”

Noah is slated to hit theaters and IMAX on March 28 and is not yet rated. Visit the movie’s website for additional details.

Opening April 16, Heaven Is for Real follows a real-life couple, Todd Burpo (Greg Kinnear) and his wife, Sonja (Kelly Reilly), whose son, Colton, claims to have visited heaven during a near-death experience.

Colton recounts the details of his amazing journey with childlike innocence and speaks matter-of-factly about things that happened before he was even born. Todd and Sonja must then examine the meaning of Colton’s experience and decide whether or not to share his story.

Based on the New York Times bestseller by Todd Burpo and Lynn Vincent, Heaven Is for Real was directed by Randall Wallace. A novelist and graduate of Duke University’s religion program, Wallace previously produced Braveheart and Pearl Harbor.

Heaven Is for Real is rated PG. To learn more, check out the movie’s official website.

According to the National Peanut Board, Americans consume more than 1.5 billion pounds of peanut products per year. The versatile food is the most popular snack nut in the U.S., containing protein, fiber, primarily good fats, and more than 30 essential vitamins and minerals. But snack time isn’t the only time peanut products comes in handy. Celebrate Peanut Month by making your own peanut butter and trying some of these unusual uses for the classic sandwich spread.

Heat oven to 350 degrees. Add peanuts to cake pan or rimmed baking sheet. Roast for 3 minutes, then stir or shake the pan. Roast another 3-5 minutes or until the peanuts are lightly browned. Let cool.

Add roasted peanuts to the bowl of a food processor. Process 1 minute. Scrape sides of bowl with spatula. Process another 2 to 3 minutes until peanut butter is shiny and smooth. Add salt and honey and process until combined.

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My children were looking forward to their grandparents' visit one weekend. They had worked hard homeschooling all week, and by Friday noon, they had completed all of their assignments. As I started to prepare supper for my parents' arrival, I decided to make good use of time and straighten up the living room, too. To my surprise, I found my youngest daughter sitting on the couch looking out the window.

"What are you doing?" I asked.

"I'm waiting for Grandpa and Grandma," she replied.

"Oh honey, they're not going to be here for another five or six hours," I said.

"I know Mom, but can I just sit here and wait?" she asked.

Returning to the kitchen to finish my preparations for supper, I stole a glance from time to time to see how my daughter was doing. Most six-year-olds have trouble sitting still for five minutes, let alone five hours, but each time I looked, I was amazed as my daughter sat staring out the window awaiting her grandparents' arrival.

Waiting is not something any of us do well in today's world. In our fast-paced lives, we expect immediate responses to our daily needs. Fast food, fast lanes, and fast everything make us a nation of impatient people. Unfortunately, we carry over that same philosophy to our spiritual lives, and we want fast answers from God, too. However, God is in control, and He has His own timetable. As agonizing as it may seem, waiting is actually beneficial to us spiritually because it forces us to focus on God instead of our request.

Have you been waiting for a long time for God to answer one of your prayers? Maybe you have a family member who doesn't know Christ as Savior, or you have a financial burden or physical illness that seems overwhelming. The Lord may want you to focus your attention completely on Him, so He can reveal His power to you at just the right time. Will you let Christ redirect your thoughts, so He becomes the center of your focus while you wait? "My soul waiteth for the Lord more than they that watch for the morning: I say, more than they that watch for the morning" (Psalm 130:6).

Lord, forgive my impatient heart that fails to wait on You for the answers to my problems. Let my anxious prayers turn into praise as I remember what a mighty God You are and what You can do. In Jesus' name, Amen.]]>Thu, 06 Mar 2014 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/dinner-disciplines/
The life of a homeschooling parent requires discipline. Unfortunately, two areas that were totally undisciplined in my life were cleaning and organizing my home. At the end of each homeschooling week, my house was the perfect reflection of that lack of discipline.

There seemed to be no solution to my problem until God gave me a new motivation to care for my home. Because we desired more social opportunities for our children, we began a Sunday noon ritual of inviting guests for a pot roast lunch. Our children took turns inviting their friends over, and we all benefited from the time together. Our children enjoyed playing with their friends, we developed friendships with their friends' parents, and my house was cleaned and organized in the process. When it was time for deeper cleaning, God disciplined me further by using extended stays of visiting family members to motivate me to spring clean.

Living a godly life as a Christian also requires discipline. We all struggle with areas that cause us to stumble in our walk with God. However, God knows the discipline we need to overcome these temptations and find the victory that will glorify Him. Satan would have us continue living in the dirt and clutter of our fleshly lusts, but God commands us to be controlled by the Holy Spirit (Galatians 5:16). Like cleaning and organizing, no discipline seems to be pleasant, but God's Word does promise that discipline will yield the fruit of righteousness after we have been trained by it (Hebrews 12:11).

How disciplined are you? How you teach is closely related to how disciplined you are in following God. Homeschooling will force you to make changes in your spiritual life as you depend on God for wisdom and strength. Perhaps that is one reason why God called you to homeschool in the first place.

Lord, thank You for the blessing of homeschooling my children and the discipline it brings to my life. Fill me with the Holy Spirit and teach me to stay close to You as we walk together on this homeschooling journey. In the name of Jesus, Amen.]]>Wed, 05 Mar 2014 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/ask-and-you-will-receive/
What would you ask for as a homeschooling parent if you could have anything you wanted? Most homeschoolers might ask for more curriculum, a maid, or even unlimited hours to sleep. As wonderful as receiving each of these requests might be, the great responsibility we have in teaching our children should move us to ask for something of far greater value — wisdom. After all, who of us can ever teach and lead our children with only our limited understanding?

In the Old Testament, King Solomon realized his limitations in leading the nation of Israel, too. When God visited Solomon in a dream in Gibeon, He told him to "Ask what I shall give thee" (1 Kings 3:5). Solomon could have asked for long life, his enemies to be destroyed, or riches untold, but he didn't. Instead, Solomon asked for an understanding heart and discernment to judge the people (vs. 9). God was so pleased with this request that He not only gave Solomon the wisdom he asked for, but He also gave Solomon what he could have asked for as well.

Do you ever wake up in the morning and wonder what you should teach your children? Homeschooling requires time and effort in preparation, but it also takes a supernatural wisdom that only comes from God. He knows the lessons that are most important for your children to learn, and He wants to lead you as you teach them. God gives a wonderful promise in James 1:5 for those who lack wisdom in homeschooling: "If any of you lack wisdom, let him ask of God, that giveth to all men liberally, and upbraideth not; and it shall be given him." Why not claim His promise today? Ask and you will receive more wisdom and blessings than you can imagine.

Lord, thank You for the privilege of teaching my children. I humbly come before You and acknowledge that I need Your wisdom. Fill me with Your understanding and show me the best way to homeschool my children. In Jesus' name, Amen.]]>Tue, 04 Mar 2014 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/nothing-sacred/
The wear and tear on our house was one thing I never considered when we first began to homeschool. Because we lived at home 24 hours a day, everything from the plumbing to the carpet took an extra beating. My husband regularly came home from work and found a frustrated wife with a request to fix another worn out or broken "whatever" in our house. After several years of homeschooling, we both came to the realization that our dream for a showcase house was simply not going to happen.

As Christians, we forget that our possessions are given to us by God. He makes us stewards of houses, cars, and things to accomplish His will, not just to look good. The rich, young ruler couldn't grasp that fact and loved his possessions too much to follow Christ. In 1 Timothy 6:18, the apostle Paul exhorts those who are rich in this world to be generous, ready to share, and rich in good works. Like the story of the widow and her two small coins (Luke 21:1-4), even the poor have something they can sacrifice to further the kingdom of God.

Do you have possessions and belongings that are sacred to you — things you would never consider giving up for the cause of Christ? Ironically, the things we hold on to so tightly are the very things that begin to possess and hang on to us. You may think you've earned them or have a right to them, but your possessions really belong to God. Will you use them today for His glory instead of your own? "Sell that ye have, and give alms; provide yourselves bags which wax not old, a treasure in the heavens that faileth not, where no thief approacheth, neither moth corrupteth" (Luke 12:33).

Lord, my very life is Yours. Everything I am and everything I have belongs to You. Use me and what You've given me to be a blessing to others. In the name of Jesus, Amen.]]>Mon, 03 Mar 2014 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/flexible-forgiveness/
"I, even I, am he that blotteth out thy transgressions for mine own sake, and will not remember thy sins" (Isaiah 43:25).

I was always thankful as a homeschooling parent that God designed children to be flexible. Every day I saw my children survive falls and painful bruises that would have made me ache for days. Their ability to bounce back physically from rough and tumble wrestling matches and foolish dare-devil antics was amazing. Even more amazing, however, was the way my children bounced back from emotional hurts. When the stress of the homeschooling day got to me, I repeatedly found myself seeking their forgiveness for my unloving words and impatient actions. Each time my children would quickly say, "That's OK, I understand," and everything would be forgotten. Humbled by their gracious words, I knew my forgiveness wouldn't have come so easily if someone had treated me the same way.

As wonderful as a child's forgiveness may be, the forgiveness we receive from our heavenly Father is far greater. The sacrificial death of Jesus on the cross makes forgiveness of sin possible, but only those who receive Christ's forgiveness have the privilege of being called God's children (John 1:12). Each day God's immeasurable grace is poured out to us, and we receive the blessing of knowing our sins are remembered no more.

Are you dealing with an emotional hurt that has been causing you severe pain? Is your heart flexible enough to bounce back and forgive the person who has wronged you? If not, learn the lesson of flexible forgiveness from your children and extend the same hand of grace that was given to you. "And be ye kind one to another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, even as God for Christ's sake hath forgiven you" (Ephesians 4:32).

Father, thank You for Your forgiveness that also forgets my sin. Please, help me to give that same love and forgiveness to those who have wronged me. In the name of Jesus, Amen.]]>Sun, 02 Mar 2014 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/smooth-as-honey/
"Deliver the poor and needy: rid them out of the hand of the wicked" (Psalm 82:4).

I heard voices quietly talking in my daughters' bedroom as I put the laundry away in the hall closet. My oldest daughter was coercing her younger sister into trading something with her. Because I couldn't see what was going on, I assumed they were trading old stuffed animals or some other inexpensive toy. As I walked past the door to their room, however, I saw my younger daughter replacing her piggy bank on the shelf. Questioning the transaction, I went on with my work and waited until my older daughter left the room. When my younger daughter was alone, I quietly asked, "What did you just trade with your sister?"

"Oh, she just traded a whole dollar for my new doll!" she replied excitedly in her little girl voice.

"What?" I cried. "Your new doll was worth more than a dollar, and your sister knows that!" Disgusted, I called my older daughter back into the bedroom. Our homeschooling was going to have to wait. Apparently, a discussion on deceitfulness was of first importance today.

Taking advantage of the young, old, innocent, or the less fortunate is detestable in God's sight. Joseph's brothers discovered that fact after their aged father suffered emotionally from their lie. For years, they had let Jacob believe Joseph had been eaten by a wild animal (Genesis 37:33). God eventually exposed their sin and deception in selling Joseph into slavery and brought a similar mental anguish into their lives as they stood before an angry official in Egypt. Not knowing the official was their brother, they feared for their lives as Joseph dealt severely with them after they had come to Egypt to buy grain.

What about you? Do you look for ways to protect the needy from being taken advantage of by others? Have you taught your children to do the same? Greed, jealousy, and lust are powerful forces that cause others to use people for their own gain. God needs you to stand in the gap when you see little ones or the elderly being mistreated. Will you be their advocate today? "Open thy mouth for the dumb in the cause of all such as are appointed to destruction. Open thy mouth, judge righteously, and plead the cause of the poor and needy" (Proverbs 31:8-9).

Lord, thank You for the loving protection You provide our family each day. Use us to shield and shelter those who are unable to defend themselves from being mistreated by others. In Jesus' name, Amen.]]>Sat, 01 Mar 2014 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/the-truth-of-the-matter/
OK, so here it is, straight up. If you homeschool your child, there is no 100% money-back guarantee he will turn out to be a straight "A" student with prestigious colleges knocking on his door when he's finished with high school. That scenario could happen, but it might not. As much as you want the best this world has to offer for your child, God may have something different planned for his life. Your child could go to the mission field or work at an ordinary job living a faithful, God-honoring life in his home and community.

I had over-exaggerated expectations for my children's futures until my husband rebuked me one day while homeschooling. "Why are you pushing so hard?" he asked. "What if the girls just want to be stay-at-home moms like you? Is that so bad?" As I began to think about my husband's question, I realized that my dreams for my children and God's dreams for them were two different things. I wanted them to be intelligent and successful, but God's main concern was that they be obedient and Christ-like. My foolish pride had taken me off God's straight and narrow homeschooling path for my children's futures.

How do you envision your child's life at the end of his homeschooling days? Are you teaching him to follow God's will for his future or yours? A good way to double-check is to ask yourself this question: "Is my child more concerned about pleasing me and trying to live up to my expectations or God's?" Be careful that your dreams for your child are not leading him off God's path for his life. "Trust in the LORD with all thine heart; and lean not unto thine own understanding. In all thy ways acknowledge him, and he shall direct thy paths" (Proverbs 3:5-6).

Lord, help me to see my child's future as You do and give me wisdom to lead him in the direction You seek. In the name of Jesus, Amen.]]>Fri, 28 Feb 2014 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/short-month-short-sale/
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Every mother is a teacher. I was no exception. God used me to teach our baby how to eat with a spoon, say words, play catch, and dress himself. Daily, I taught our little one everything he needed to know to succeed at home. Then, the school years arrived, and I doubted if I would be able to teach him everything he needed to know to succeed in school. I wanted to homeschool, but people intimidated me about obeying God's call to homeschool. When they said, "You're not smart enough to teach your child," I was tempted to believe them. After all, I didn't have a four-year college degree. Disregarding their comments, however, I decided to relinquish my fears and trust Christ for the wisdom and knowledge necessary to continue teaching my child from home.

Fear is a successful tactic Satan uses to make Christians disregard God's call for their lives. It causes them to doubt God's love and provision, even though they started out strong in their faith. The inspiration given by Jesus to walk on the water is lost, and like Peter, believers find themselves sinking under the waves.

What about you? Are the waves of opposition getting high and beating fear into your decision to homeschool? If you've been walking on water and experiencing God's blessings in teaching your child at home, don't look down now. Keep your eyes on Jesus and cry out like Peter, "Lord, save me!" Jesus knows what you need, and you can trust Him to offer His loving hand to lift you to safety. After all, hasn't He been right there with you as you've taught your child from the very beginning? "And Jesus said unto him, No man, having put his hand to the plough, and looking back, is fit for the kingdom of God" (Luke 9:62).

Lord, forgive me for doubting You and listening to the lies of the evil one. Give me Your hand of strength and lift me above these fears as You calm my heart to faithfully homeschool. In Jesus' name, Amen.]]>Thu, 27 Feb 2014 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/following-directions/
"Therefore we ought to give the more earnest heed to the things which we have heard, lest at any time we should let them slip" (Hebrews 2:1).

What was I going to do? My son had studied all week long for this test, and if I accepted the way he had answered the questions, he would receive a score of 100%. However, there was one huge problem troubling my grading — he hadn't followed the directions. Although I had reminded him to read the instructions thoroughly, he had written his response in the blank instead of circling the correct answer. So, what was more important? Did it matter more that he knew the answers or that he had failed to follow the directions?

After praying, I decided to let my son be his own judge. Surprisingly, he was tougher on himself than I would have been and said, "Mom, it wouldn't be fair for me to get an A on this test." Together, we decided he should be penalized by receiving one grade lower for his failure to pay attention to the directions.

Not following the directions usually has a more severe consequence in real life. That fact was first discovered by Adam and Eve in the Garden of Eden. When dealing with a Holy God, you simply can't skip over important details in His directions like don't eat from "the tree of the knowledge of good and evil" (Genesis 2:17). Today, Christians continue to skip God's commandments when they feel they restrict their way of life. Thinking they're able to do God's will their own way, they fail God's test because they don't follow His directions.

Is your life one that reflects God's divine instructions from His Word? Do you skip over those passages that test your character like "wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord" (Ephesians 5:22) and "love not the world, neither the things that are in the world" (1 John 2:15a)? God doesn't give instructions to make your life more difficult. He gives directions because He loves you and wants you to succeed in living for Him. Choose today to follow His direction in those areas you've been avoiding and receive His grade of "well done, thou good and faithful servant" (Matthew 25:21)!

Lord, forgive me for thinking I can ignore Your directions and not suffer as a result. Cleanse my life today of those things that shame Your name and help me to walk in a manner worthy of Your love. In the name of Jesus, Amen.]]>Wed, 26 Feb 2014 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/the-home-in-homeschooling/
"For we brought nothing into this world, and it is certain we can carry nothing out" (1 Timothy 6:7).

Another typical day had started for our homeschool family, but as it progressed, we noticed the weather changing drastically. The northwest sky looked unusually dark and threatening, and by 2:45 p.m., we knew no ordinary storm was approaching. Hurrying outside, my son covered the garden and flower beds with old blankets, my daughter quickly herded the animals into the barn, and I drove the cars inside the garage and shut the door. As we finished and ran back to the house, the storm let loose with all its fury. Quickly, we ran down the basement steps to my daughter's bedroom and huddled in the corner of her closet. As we watched debris fly by my daughter's small bedroom window and heard the deafening noise of baseball-sized hailstones, we hung on to each other for dear life.

Normally, these storms only lasted a few minutes, but this one went on for almost an hour. When the worst was finally over, we opened my daughter's bedroom door and what we saw made us sick. Glass and hailstones were littered throughout the house and water damage from the rain was everywhere. The force of the wind had embedded pieces of glass into the woodwork, and every window on the north side of our home was completely shattered.

What we saw when we walked outside was even worse. Every tree and shrub on our seven acre farm had been completely defoliated. Our roof was missing half of its shingles, and there were places where the hailstones had gone completely through the plywood sheeting. Holding each other, we thanked God we were safe, but we knew our home was going to be unfit for living and homeschooling for many days.

That awful day our house was damaged, we learned a new definition for the word "homeschooling." As we cried over the damage, we realized that homeschooling wasn't dependent on a house with four walls and a roof. As long as we had each other and our faith in God, we were still a family that could homeschool anywhere.

Lord, each day I take my home for granted and forget that it too is a blessing from You. Thank You for all the comforts my home provides and help me to use it to minister to my family and others. In Jesus' name, Amen.]]>Tue, 25 Feb 2014 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/stricter-judgment/
"My brethren, be not many masters, knowing that we shall receive the greater condemnation" (James 3:1).

Just when I started to feel good about my teaching abilities as a homeschooling parent, God's Word challenged me again. After reading Romans 12:7 and 1 Corinthians 12:29, I realized that teaching was more than a job. It was a spiritual gift that James 3:1 says is subject to God's stricter judgment. Knowing this, validating the accuracy of what I was teaching became of utmost importance. Someday the Lord would hold me accountable for what I had taught my children about Him, and I wanted to prove myself as an unashamed teacher when handling the Word of Truth (2 Timothy 3:16).

As I looked to the Bible for examples of great teachers, the life of Moses stood out to me. Because Moses had done so much to help the people of Israel know their God, I could never understand why he was not allowed to enter the Promised Land. Why couldn't God cut Moses a little slack when he failed to speak to the rock as God commanded (Numbers 20:8-13)? Meditating on this, I realized that Moses was held accountable with a stricter judgment because he was a teacher, as well as a leader. His disobedience affected not only him, but all the people who looked to him for wisdom and knowledge in following God.

As a homeschooling parent, do you realize the importance of correctly teaching your child the Word of God? Your child may receive scriptural teaching in church and Sunday school, but his foundational understanding of God will come from your biblical knowledge. No one knows all the answers, but you must be prepared to teach God's Word. Teaching the Bible requires time, effort, and serious lesson preparation. "For unto whomsoever much is given, of him shall be much required: and to whom men have committed much, of him they will ask the more" (Luke 12:48b).

Lord, thank You for the gift of teaching You have placed on my life. Give me wisdom to understand Your Word, so I can impart its truths to my children. Help me to make the Bible the first subject to study in our homeschooling day. In the name of Jesus, Amen.]]>Mon, 24 Feb 2014 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/the-hidden-meaning/
"Give me understanding, and I shall keep thy law; yea, I shall observe it with my whole heart" (Psalm 119:34).

My young daughter was only six years old when she began to memorize poetry. She loved the rhythm and rhyme in poems and never had difficulty in understanding their meaning. Metaphors and similes were her favorite "pictures," and she digested the words like a chocolate delicacy. My son, however, was exactly the opposite. Poetry was one subject he avoided as much as possible, and he especially hated reciting any verse out loud. Because of their length, he was overwhelmed by poems like "Hiawatha," "The Lady of Shalott," and "Snow-bound," and he felt they were written in some language he never quite understood. Frustrated, he would say, "Why don't they just come out and say it? Can't they just talk normally, so you know what's going on?"

Compared to poetry, God's Word may seem even more difficult to understand. Because the Bible is filled with its own books of poetry, as well as history, prophecy, and other types of writing, we need help in discerning its truths. With our finite minds, we don't always understand how the Bible relates to us. However, 1 Corinthians 2:14 tells us, "But the natural man receiveth not the things of the Spirit of God: for they are foolishness unto him: neither can he know them, because they are spiritually discerned." Since the Bible is from God, to understand its truths, you must be born of the Spirit (John 3:6) and filled with the Spirit (Ephesians 5:18). Therefore, we must always ask the Holy Spirit to be our teacher when we read the Bible.

Do you avoid reading the Bible because it seems too difficult to understand? Preachers and seminary students are not the only ones who can know its truths. Guided by the Holy Spirit, you are perfectly capable of understanding Bible principles and sharing those principles with everyone you meet. Best of all, God will help you apply its principles to every homeschooling challenge you face, including teaching poetry to your son!

Heavenly Father,My heart sings with praise to YouFor the blessings in Your Word so true.Teach my mind this day to knowWisdom from You that will make me grow. Amen.]]>Sun, 23 Feb 2014 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/the-power-of-prayer/
"But we will give ourselves continually to prayer" (Acts 6:4a).

Did you really pray for your children today? Although you may be the first to say that your prayers are important, how much time did you actually spend praying — one, five, ten minutes? Were your prayers more than "bless them" and "keep them from harm" prayers? As homeschooling parents, we forget that prayer is the most important thing we can give our children each day. More than our human love and academics, earnest prayer can help our children above anything else in this life.

My routine and unimpressive prayer life were challenged when my children and I studied the life of David Brainerd, a missionary to the American Indians in the early 1700s. David Brainerd usually spent several hours a day in prayer and frequently devoted an entire day fasting before the Lord. As my children and I read his biography and diaries, the example of his selfless life challenged my personal lack of prayer for my own family and others. In one diary entry on June 14, 1742, Brainerd wrote about fasting and praying so fervently for an ingathering of souls that he was completely covered in sweat. Obviously, this man's passionate prayer life was something I needed to emulate in my life.

What about you? Are you willing to come before the Lord of the universe in the middle of the night or earlier in the morning to intercede on behalf of your children and your homeschooling? Don't wait for a crisis or tragedy to find yourself in the place where God wants you to be every day — on your knees in prayer. "Praying always with all prayer and supplication in the Spirit, and watching thereunto with all perseverance and supplication for all saints" (Ephesians 6:18).

Lord, forgive me for not taking prayer seriously. Teach me to pray and help me to earnestly intercede on my family's behalf. In the name of Jesus, Amen.]]>Sat, 22 Feb 2014 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/packing-light/
"So likewise, whosoever he be of you that forsaketh not all that he hath, he cannot be my disciple" (Luke 14:33).

"OK, I think we are just about ready to go," I said to my husband as I set the last backpack and the lunch cooler by the front door.

Looking at all the items that needed to be loaded into the car, he shook his head and said, "Do we really need all this stuff just to go on a field trip for the day?"

"Yes," I replied. "The children need to work on their schoolwork in the car, and you never know what we might need once we get there. This way we will be prepared for whatever comes along."

Reluctantly, he carried each of the items to the car, even though he knew they would probably be carried back into the house without being used.

The early disciples of Christ were much better at traveling than I am. They packed nothing as they went out two by two preaching the good news of the kingdom of God. Leaving the comforts of home behind, Jesus specifically told them, "Carry neither purse, nor scrip, nor shoes" (Luke 10:4a). Freed from the weight of personal baggage, they came and went quickly as they preached and healed others in the name of Jesus. Their ministry was much more effective without the burden of lugging stuff around, and they discovered a total reliance on the Lord for everything they needed.

As homeschoolers, we can carry extra baggage that weighs down our homeschooling efforts. Instead of trusting the Lord for what we need to teach our children, we compare ourselves to other homeschooling families. We see what they are doing, and we complicate our lives by adding their activities and events to our day, robbing ourselves of simple homeschooling joys. Although these activities may be good in themselves, we risk losing the spontaneity in teaching our children because we are locked into a full schedule. Why not leave the suitcases in the closet and rediscover your freedom in homeschooling?

Lord, forgive me for placing such a burden on my children and me with all our activities. Help us to prayerfully consider all that we do as we homeschool, so we don't lose the joy in the homeschooling journey. In Jesus' name, Amen.]]>Fri, 21 Feb 2014 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/electives-starting-at-just-20/
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"That I may make it manifest, as I ought to speak" (Colossians 4:4).

My youngest son was in trouble, and I didn't know how to help him. Daily, he tried to communicate with his older brother and sisters in a group setting during our homeschooling, but he always seemed to be going in different directions in his conversation. Because he processed information more slowly, his contributions to the discussion seemed disjointed and off topic. Frustrated, he began to withdraw and keep his thoughts to himself.

I knew I had to do something to help him with his communication skills, but I didn't know what. As I prayed and asked the Lord for guidance, He gave me the perfect visual to help my young son. Using a basketball, I simultaneously passed the ball and said, "OK, we are going to practice a speaking skill today that will help you communicate better. As you pass this ball back to me, you have to say something back in response to what I've just said."

"OK, Mom, I think I get it," he said as he passed the ball back. For the next ten minutes, we talked and communicated easily as he learned to pass the conversational ball back and forth. Next, I told him that if he was going to change direction and introduce a new topic, he needed to clearly indicate that before he passed the ball; otherwise, I would drop it. At that point, he understood the difficulty other people were having in following his conversation. After practicing this exercise several times, my son finally gained the understanding and confidence he needed to effectively communicate.

As Christians, we can also drop the ball when telling others about Christ. How many times have you been frustrated in not knowing how to explain salvation to others? Although the Holy Spirit does the leading, you also need to be prepared with memorized Scriptures and a clear presentation of the Gospel. If you're tired of seeing that confused look on people's faces as you attempt to tell them about Christ, ask a pastor for guidance or read a Christian book on witnessing. Acquiring the necessary skills to be an effective witness for the Lord just takes a little practice! "That therein I may speak boldly, as I ought to speak" (Ephesians 6:20b).

Lord, I know I've failed so many times in sharing who You are with others. Lead me to the help I need to clearly communicate the message of Your love and forgiveness. In Jesus' name, Amen.]]>Thu, 20 Feb 2014 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/for-the-long-haul/
Faithfulness can be described as being true to one's word, promises, or vows. Faithfulness, then, according to homeschooling, is persevering in teaching your children even when you're criticized by a well-meaning person who is worried about your child's socialization. Faithfulness also means spending countless hours preparing for daily lessons, teaching a concept until your child gets it, learning to live on less sleep and money, giving more of your time to your family than yourself, and following the One who gives you the strength to do it all: Jesus.

God's Word provides many examples of people who remained faithful to the Lord in their work or call, but God Himself is the best definition of this character quality. As Creator God, faithfulness is an attribute of His very nature. He demonstrates that attribute each day as He lovingly cares for us and meets our needs. The Bible describes God's faithfulness as infinite (Psalm 36:5) and everlasting (Psalm 119:90). Every morning, the Lord's faithfulness is new (Lamentations 3:23) and unfailing (Psalm 89:33). Even when we fail to be faithful to God, He remains faithful to us (2 Timothy 2:13).

Faithfulness is a character quality not easily found today. Homeschoolers, as well as Christians in general, approach too many commitments with the option of, "Well, if this doesn't work, I can always get out of it." When life gets tough, we are tempted to escape from our responsibilities, but faithfulness means not forgetting the Lord in the good times and not blaming Him in the bad. No matter where we go, we will have difficulties of some kind. What about you? Are you in this homeschooling journey for the long haul?

Father, only You can give me the strength I need to remain faithful in homeschooling. Fill me again this day with Your power and help me to remain true to You and the commitment of teaching my children. In Jesus' name, Amen.]]>Wed, 19 Feb 2014 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/to-god-be-the-glory/
"So then neither is he that planteth any thing, neither he that watereth; but God that giveth the increase" (1 Corinthians 3:7).

One reason for the success of our homeschooling was the fact that my husband and I complemented each other in our personalities and abilities. He was the explorer and adventurer who loved to take the children on impromptu field trips to see and experience new things. I, on the other hand, loved staying home by the stuff with the comfort and familiarity of the day's homeschooling schedule. Our children loved both aspects of this team-teaching approach, including the secure, repetitive learning environment of my teaching and the surprise learning experiences Dad created. Homeschooling was never a one-man show. We both shaped our children's lives, and we both felt the rewards of seeing their educational success.

The apostle Paul realized, too, that he was not the only one who successfully preached the Gospel message to the early churches. Although he certainly could have taken credit for much of the work, Paul recognized the work of Apollos and other disciples. Rebuking the Corinthians for taking sides, Paul said, "Who then is Paul, and who is Apollos, but ministers by whom ye believed, even as the Lord gave to every man" (1 Corinthians 3:5)? Each did the work God gave him to do, "but God gave the increase" (1 Corinthians 3:6b).

Are you ever tempted to think your family's homeschooling success lies solely on you? Just as the responsibilities are not yours alone, neither are the blessings. As a family, you come together and learn from each other and God. The credit for whatever success comes from your homeschooling efforts really belongs to God. He is the One who gives the increase and the One who should receive the glory!

Lord, help me to humbly remember I am only a vessel used by You to teach the hearts of my children. You are the reason we homeschool and the reason for our success. I praise You and give You all the glory. Because of Jesus, Amen.]]>Tue, 18 Feb 2014 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/birth-order-blues/
A great controversy exists in psychology regarding the relationship between the development of children's personalities and their birth order within the family. After homeschooling my children, one theory I do agree with is the firstborn syndrome. My 18-month-old daughter initially displayed her firstborn characteristics when I brought home her new baby brother. Setting him next to her in the recliner, I could see a look that told me she was not about to share her parents' attention with this new intruder. From that time on, she was always "top dog" in our homeschool family. In schoolwork or play, she was always the leader in control. Although her brother, standing six feet tall, finally outgrew her, the thought to take over never occurred to him. Her rank and authority as the first in the family dictated an unspoken respect and overpowered even his size.

Although the firstborn may not always be the leader in every family, many stories in the Old Testament illustrate the importance of the firstborn's position within the family. Stories such as Jacob stealing Esau's birthright, the sacrifice of the Passover lamb for the firstborn of every Hebrew family, and the principle of the double portion of inheritance found in Deuteronomy 21:17 clearly reveal the special blessings and responsibilities given only to the firstborn. Christ Himself, the Son of God, is called the firstborn in Colossians 1:15: "Who is the image of the invisible God, the firstborn of every creature."

How do you treat the firstborn in your homeschooling family? Like most parents, you probably strive to treat each of your children equally, but do you find yourself disciplining your oldest more strictly? Subconsciously, you may feel that you must make an example of your first child, so the rest of your children turn out right. Perhaps it's time to give credit to our firstborn children and acknowledge the responsibilities they bear in being the oldest and bearing the brunt of our parenting and homeschooling mistakes. Although each child is precious within the family, take a moment today to acknowledge the special blessing of your oldest child who is the beginning of your strength (Deuteronomy 21:17)!

Lord, thank You for the blessing of each child You have given to our family. Give me wisdom to acknowledge my oldest for his place in the family and show me how to teach him to follow You. In Jesus' name, Amen.]]>Mon, 17 Feb 2014 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/running-ahead/
"I waited patiently for the LORD; and he inclined unto me, and heard my cry" (Psalm 40:1).

My daughter's riding lesson had gone well that day. I was proud to see her riding correctly at both a walk and a trot, and I knew she was looking forward to cantering soon. As she circled the arena for the last time, I shouted, "It's time to quit for the day, so we can finish the rest of our schoolwork. Bring her in, and we'll brush her down together."

As my daughter turned her horse back toward the paddock, she replied, "OK, Mom, but watch this." Thinking she was ready to handle the extra speed, she cued her horse into a canter. I shook my head "no" at her, but her horse was already moving so fast she could barely hang on to the reins. As her horse took control and increased its speed to a full gallop, I knew my daughter was in trouble. Quickly, I ran in front of the gate to slow down her horse. Instead, her horse applied its full brakes and stopped dead in its tracks. However, my daughter didn't stop. She flew through the air and hit the fence with her chest. As I picked her up, she couldn't breathe, and I thought her windpipe had been broken. Fortunately, only the air had been completely knocked out of her lungs, and she was OK after several anxious minutes. "I'm sorry, Mom," she said when she was finally able to speak. "I thought I could handle the speed."

The real lesson my daughter learned that day deals with the same pride that causes many of us Christians to fall. Not willing to wait on the Lord, we too run ahead and attempt to take the reins. We forget who is in control and make unsound financial decisions or foolish choices based on our emotions, not expecting to be hurt in the process! God may even tell us "no," but we ignore Him and let our pride tell us we can handle it. We run into problems and pain we could have avoided if we had just waited on the Lord.

Are you struggling with waiting on God today? Is your anxious attitude becoming like the world's that says, "I can't take this anymore. I'll take care of it myself"? Be careful! Running ahead of God may find you lying on your back someday as you struggle to pray and ask Him for help. "The LORD is good unto them that wait for him, to the soul that seeketh him" (Lamentations 3:25).

Lord, teach me to be still and know You are God. Help me to trust in Your answers instead of my own and wait for the best You have planned for me. In the name of Jesus, Amen.]]>Sun, 16 Feb 2014 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/time-out-for-mom/
"I will cry unto God most high; unto God that performeth all things for me" (Psalm 57:2).

Did you wake up this morning wishing you could just have a few hours or an entire day to yourself before homeschooling? Imagine the possibilities with that amount of unscheduled time! You could read a book, soak in the tub, actually fold the clean clothes on the couch and put them away, polish your shoes, weed the flower bed, window shop, take a friend you haven't seen in months to lunch, or spend a full hour with the Lord in prayer for your loved ones.

Every homeschooling mother treasures moments for herself when they come, but the problem is they rarely come on their own. If we want to stay emotionally and spiritually healthy to enjoy homeschooling our children, we must make taking time for these moments a number one priority. Without them, we shrivel up and die within, and homeschooling becomes one repetitious day after the next. The Lord Jesus Christ needed timeouts to get through His day (Luke 5:16). Often, He left the disciples and the crowds to be alone and find strength from His Heavenly Father. A wise homeschooling mom will say "no" to the false guilt she feels for "stealing" a few hours for herself and learn from Christ's example. Besides, your children will enjoy homeschooling much more, too, with a content and happy teacher.

Is today your day to rejuvenate and find yourself again? Don't wait for help to fall from the sky. Humble yourself and ask for it. Call a fellow homeschooler and ask her if you can trade watching each other's children every other week. Maybe your parents or grandparents have promised to teach your children a new skill and today's the day to cash in on that promise. Maybe you could ask your husband to use half a vacation day and homeschool the children. (Don't worry. They'll still learn, even if he doesn't teach them the same way as you!) God knows you can't homeschool on your own. Trust Him for the right answer to help you take a timeout for Mom! "Blessed be the LORD, because he hath heard the voice of my supplications. The LORD is my strength and my shield; my heart trusted in him, and I am helped" (Psalm 28:6-7a).

Father, take my tired spirit and provide the moments I need to be filled with Your strength. Please, send someone today who will support me in homeschooling. In Jesus' name, Amen.]]>Sat, 15 Feb 2014 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/looking-for-love/
This wasn't the first time my teenage daughter had brought up the topic of boys. Like any normal young woman, she dreamed of the day she would meet Mr. Right!

Remembering my own daydreams of meeting someone special who loved only me, I tried to be patient as I answered, "Don't you think God is big enough to bring the right person to you at the right time? If you're supposed to meet someone, homeschooling won't stop God's plan. In fact, it may even help you meet a young man who truly loves and cares for you."

Young girls are constantly bombarded by the media's hype to be loved and wanted, and they envision their prince arriving someday on his white horse to whisk them away to happily ever after. They're encouraged to paint and decorate themselves in the hope of attracting that special someone. However, God's Word has something different to say about attracting someone with only our outward appearance: "Whose adorning let it not be that outward adorning of plaiting the hair, and of wearing of gold, or of putting on of apparel; But let it be the hidden man of the heart, in that which is not corruptible, even the ornament of a meek and quiet spirit, which is in the sight of God of great price" (1 Peter 3:3-4). God wants us to care about the way we look since we are the temple of the Holy Spirit (1 Corinthians 6:19), but the best way for a young girl to make herself truly beautiful is to develop inner character qualities that reflect the beauty of Christ.

As a Christian homeschooling mom, what message are you communicating to your teenage daughter about love? Has your daughter learned to care more about the clothes she wears and the way she does her hair to attract a young man than caring for the things of the Lord (Matthew 6:33)? Have you shown your daughter where to find true love? End her search and point her again to the One who already thinks she is beautiful: Jesus. His love is true, and He will meet every need she has for love.

Father, help me to teach my daughter to listen to Your voice and find the love she's looking for in You. Convict me of anything I'm doing that communicates the wrong message about the true meaning of love. In the name of Jesus, Amen.]]>Fri, 14 Feb 2014 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/overwhelmed/
"My confusion is continually before me" (Psalm 44:15a).

Do you ever stand over your young children while they are sleeping and feel that overwhelming sense of love for them? Their sweet, innocent faces conjure up deep feelings to cherish and protect each moment together. However, when the morning light comes and you are in the middle of another homeschooling day, you may also feel another overwhelming sense. This time you are overwhelmed at your inability to be their teacher. Who can keep up with their energy level and all of their questions while they learn?

If anyone ever had the right to feel overwhelmed by his inabilities, it was Moses. Imagine being given the responsibility to lead millions of stubborn, foolish people hundreds of miles to a new country. Yet, Moses learned the secret to staying sane in the midst of this chaos — to continually pray for wisdom to make each decision. Because of Moses' obedience, God parted seas, provided food and water, and performed miracles time after time to deliver His cherished people from their difficulties. Moses' continuous trust in God stands as a shining example for those who feel overwhelmed when homeschooling.

Do you look ahead into the future and feel overwhelmed at the thought of homeschooling for the rest of this year, next year, or the next 12 years? Take a step back and look again to your pillar of cloud by day and pillar of fire by night (Exodus 13:21-22). Let the presence of the Holy Spirit light your path and protect you from the unknown as you take this homeschooling journey. "When my spirit was overwhelmed within me, then thou knewest my path" (Psalm 142:3a).

Lord, I stand in awe of You and the task You have given to me. Help me to look to You for every answer I need to homeschool my children the way You want. In the name of Jesus, Amen.]]>Thu, 13 Feb 2014 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/surprise-surprise/
"And what is the exceeding greatness of his power to usward who believe, according to the working of his mighty power" (Ephesians 1:19).

One thing you know for sure as a homeschooling parent is that you can never be sure what your children are going to say or do. Every day holds a surprise or two that makes teaching your children anything but boring. At least, that's what I reminded myself as I walked into my son's room one day. Always the practical joker, my son had made a look-a-like mannequin with his clothes and placed it in the middle of his bed. With the mannequin's back facing the door, I thought it was really my son sitting on his bed studying until I touched its body and the head rolled off the bed. If someone had visited our home and walked in the door at that moment, he would have heard me scream and thought our homeschooling family was crazy. For me, it was just another day of laughing with my children and enjoying their creative imaginations.

As a Christian, walking with the Lord is never boring either. The disciples discovered that fact as they followed Jesus on Earth. They saw Christ control the wind, heal the diseased and lame, feed the multitudes, and even bring people back to life from the dead. The disciples learned that Jesus was capable of anything, and they were continually surprised at His unlimited, mighty power.

What surprises does God have for your family today? He knows the homeschooling day that lies ahead and has already orchestrated divine encounters and blessings just for you. Your challenge is seeking His wisdom and obediently leading your children into that divine plan. What an awesome adventure you'll experience as you learn to expectantly follow the Lord! "Call unto me, and I will answer thee, and shew thee great and mighty things, which thou knowest not" (Jeremiah 33:3).

Father, You are life itself, and without You there is no meaning or purpose. Thank You for the many surprise blessings You give each day that reveal what a loving God You are. In Jesus' name, Amen.]]>Wed, 12 Feb 2014 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/flea-friendships/
"Withdraw thy foot from thy neighbour's house; lest he be weary of thee, and so hate thee" (Proverbs 25:17).

When we first started homeschooling, receiving support and encouragement from other homeschooling families was crucial. Without it, we might have given up in our attempts to teach our children at home. However, as time went on with our small homeschooling support group, I noticed there seemed to be one or two families who always wanted someone else to do the work of homeschooling for them. They loved their children and the idea of homeschooling, but they repeatedly left their children in someone else's care or advocated having other homeschooling families educate their children in a co-op class. Although I was happy to help, I realized later that these families were simply taking advantage of others. When the problem repeatedly robbed my family of the care and homeschooling they deserved, I said "no" more often.

The apostle Paul experienced a similar problem when he exhorted the Thessalonians. "For even when we were with you, this we commanded you, that if any would not work, neither should he eat" (2 Thessalonians 3:10). Paul used his own disciplined life as an example of working hard to not be a burden to others. Paul furthered his exhortation to those who look for the easy way out with a definite command in verse 12: "Now them that are such we command and exhort by our Lord Jesus Christ, that with quietness they work, and eat their own bread." Although Galatians 6:2 tells us to bear one another's burdens, we must realize there is also a difference between helping and enabling. Sometimes, love must be tough enough to say "no."

What kind of homeschooling friend are you? Do you take more than you give? Maybe today you should consider running to the Lord with your insecurities and needs instead of automatically going to another homeschooling family. People do love and care about your burdens, but we all have our own homeschooling cross to bear. Homeschooling is hard work and takes an enormous amount of time, energy, and prayer. The Lord wants you to depend on Him first because in Him, you will find the true strength you need.

Jesus, help me to discipline my life, so our homeschooling will be a blessing to others instead of a burden. Teach me to bring my problems to You first and spend as much time talking to You about them as I do with others. In Your name I pray, Amen.]]>Tue, 11 Feb 2014 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/money-to-burn/
"For every beast of the forest is mine, and the cattle upon a thousand hills" (Psalm 50:10).

Can you imagine what your homeschool would look like if you received the same amount of money that public education receives for one child? With $7,500 or more per child, you could buy state-of-the-art computers for each of your children, expand your library with quality reference books, take unlimited field trips, purchase tons of curriculum, buy your own copier and office equipment, purchase high performance microscopes for science, hire tutors to help with high school level subjects, and still have money to burn. Such would be the dream of every homeschooling parent!

Ironically, we do have a storehouse in heaven for all our homeschooling needs that far outweighs any earthly fortunes. God's Word tells us in Psalm 50:10 that God owns everything. We are simply stewards of the abundant blessings that He chooses to bestow. Our heavenly Father has unlimited resources, and like the birds of the air and the flowers of the field, He provides for every need of our children. How reassuring to claim the truth in Matthew 6:8b, "For your Father knoweth what things ye have need of, before ye ask him!"

How about you? When your checkbook balance makes you anxious, do you worry and fret, or do you run to the Creator God for help? If you are living in obedience to His Word, you can trust Him to be there for you. That doesn't mean you'll receive every homeschooling bell and whistle on the market or every extra for your home that you desire, but He does promise to provide for our needs if we follow the truths in Matthew 6:33: "But seek ye first the kingdom of God, and his righteousness; and all these things shall be added unto you."

Lord, You are a great and mighty God! Open my eyes to see the many blessings You've already given to me and help me to trust You for every financial need we have in the future. In Jesus' name, Amen.]]>Mon, 10 Feb 2014 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/homeschool-seedlings/
How many times have you been accused of sheltering your children from the real world because you homeschool? After experiencing this confrontation numerous times, I finally realized an important fact my accusers were ignoring. They sheltered their children from the real world, too. Most caring parents draw a line and set limits on what they allow their children to experience. The only difference between my sheltering and theirs was that I had simply drawn our children's line in a different place. R-rated movies, magazines and books that promoted sex outside of marriage, violent video games, and other activities that violated God's Word were not a part of our family life. The standards I wanted to set were for training in righteousness, not for training in the ways of the world.

Learning how to be in the world but not of it is difficult for Christians both young and old. The unbelieving community sees us as trying to live "holier than thou," but sometimes we must allow God to sanctify us by removing ourselves from the temptations that would lead us into sin. God even commands us to run away (flee) from idolatry (1 Corinthians 10:14) "and have no fellowship with the unfruitful works of darkness, but rather reprove them" (Ephesians 5:11). However, Jesus also gave us the example of reaching the lost by meeting them in their homes and on the streets. Finding the balance between loving the lost and not getting caught in sin takes discernment and wisdom that comes from studying God's Word, praying, and listening to the Holy Spirit.

So, how much do you shelter your children from the evil in the world without quenching the redemptive work of Christ? After all, as Christians, we are to be salt and light. My answer to that question came one day while gardening. The Master Gardener showed me that if I transplanted my seedlings that I started inside the house into the outside garden too soon, they would die from the exposure to the elements. However, if I moved them at the right time and carefully nurtured the seedlings for a time with extra protection and fertilizer, they would grow into strong, healthy plants that would not only resist bugs, heat, and hail, but also produce an abundance of fruit. Don't let anyone's sheltering argument convince you to transplant your precious homeschooling seedlings too early!

Lord, give me discernment to hear Your voice on how to homeschool my children, so they are effective witnesses for You. Help me to ground them in Your Word and fertilize them with Your truths, so they not only survive in the world, but also flourish and change it. In Jesus' name, Amen.]]>Sun, 09 Feb 2014 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/homeschool-snowboarder-wins-first-gold-medal-at-2014-olympic-games/

Rock Rapids, Iowa (February 8, 2014) – Alpha Omega Academy, the online school of Alpha Omega Publications, congratulates alumnus Sage Kotsenburg on his gold medal win in the 2014 Winter Olympics in Sochi, Russia. The 2011 graduate won the first ever Olympic snowboarding slopestyle event on Saturday with a trick he had never performed before.

After placing second in the semifinals early on Saturday, performing a backside 1620 Japan in the gold medal round was a spur of the moment decision according to Sage. The trick, which involves four and a half backwards spins while grabbing the backside of the board, earned him a score of 93.5 and the first gold medal of the 2014 Games. Kotsenburg became the first American since 1952 to win the first gold medal of the Winter Olympics.

“WOW!! I just won the Olympics!! Bringing back the first Gold here to the USA! Love seeing all the support from everyone YOU RULE!!” he tweeted after the slopestyle event wrapped up on Saturday.

Sage is one of many students around the world to receive an accredited Christian education at Alpha Omega Academy, which offers more than 150 courses for students in grades K-12. Studying through the flexible, online academy allows students like Sage and his snowboarding siblings, Blaze (a 2009 graduate) and Kirra (currently a senior), the freedom to chase their dreams and achieve athletic excellence while earning a Christ-centered high school education.

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"He brought me up also out of an horrible pit, out of the miry clay, and set my feet upon a rock, and established my goings. And he hath put a new song in my mouth, even praise unto our God: many shall see it, and fear, and shall trust in the LORD" (Psalm 40:2-3).

How is your homeschooling starting today? Has another late night and early morning drained your energy level and given you an attitude that is less than positive? Fatigue can make cowards of us all and turn the daily housework into mountains and the homeschool responsibilities into huge obstacles. Just when you think you can't take anymore, you need to step back and regain your focus. Your children need you to bring a positive perspective to their learning experience.

Seeing the day through God's eyes instead of your own will change your attitude and possibly the results of your day. A close homeschooling friend blessed me with a cross-stitched version of the poem below. (I think she knew I needed to see it every day!) Its constant reminder encouraged me to be thankful for all we had and changed many a bad morning into a good one as I reflected on its message. I pray this poem will do the same for you.

Father God, lift the heavy burdens off my heart and let me see this new day as You do. Give me strength to stand against the discouragement that weighs me down and help me to defeat Satan's lies with praise to You for Your blessings. In Jesus' name, Amen.

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"OK," I asked my daughter. "Where is the book report you were supposed to have done today?"

"Oh, that was due today?" she responded innocently.

"Yes, you knew it was due today. I reminded you last week, remember?" I replied.

I could see another excuse beginning to form in her mind, and from past experience, I knew what was coming.

"Yes, I remember," she answered, "but I had to do all those extra chores last week because the other kids were sick, so I didn't have time to finish writing my book report."

Not letting her off so easily I asked, "What about all the extra time you seemed to have to read other books and go for bike rides?"

"Oh, yeah, I guess I could have done it then," she reluctantly admitted.

Looking for someone else to blame when things go wrong in life is a common escape route from accountability. King Saul's response to Samuel in 1 Samuel 15 is a classic example. God had commanded Saul to utterly destroy everything when he went to war against the ungodly nation of Amalek. Instead, Saul kept livestock and other spoils for himself and the people. When Samuel heard the bleating sheep and asked Saul if he had obeyed God's command, Saul put the blame for his disobedience on the people. Eventually, when his back was against the wall, Saul admitted he was responsible for disobeying God's command.

Do you blame others for your foolish actions and bad choices? Do you point the finger and say, "If they hadn't been so...I wouldn't have...?" Whether in friendships, marriage, or homeschooling, God holds you accountable to faithfully obey Him in what He has commanded you to do. Blaming others is really trying to hide your own failings from God. The blame game first started in the Garden of Eden with Adam and Eve, but you don't have to keep playing it in your home. Confess your sin instead and be healed! "He that covereth his sins shall not prosper: but whoso confesseth and forsaketh them shall have mercy" (Proverbs 28:13).

Father, thank You for Your forgiveness You freely give to me. Help me to acknowledge that the fault lies with me when I sin and keep my heart clean before You. In the name of Jesus, Amen.]]>Fri, 07 Feb 2014 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/anatomy-of-a-homeschool-mom/
Homeschool moms bear and wear the marks of both parent and teacher, from the obligatory red pen to a pocketful of crackers and bobby pins. Maybe she’s not ready for a Parisian runway, but we love how she would rather be chalking the sidewalk with her kids anyway. ]]>Thu, 06 Feb 2014 01:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/hold-your-own-family-olympics/
Why just watch the Winter Olympics when you can hold your own silly Family Olympics in the back yard?

Recruit several of your friends and their families to get into the spirit. First, have each family pick a team name, color, and flag to add a touch of humor to your opening and closing ceremonies. Plan for five to eight outdoor challenges, but make it flexible in case little ones tucker out. Keep the playing field even by gathering children who are close in age and using props that are already on hand. Snap team photos, and let the games begin!

These ten Family Olympics events are outdoor challenges that work best in snow.

1. Snow Tow. For this slip-sliding version of tug-of-war, identify a mid-line, like a trench. Teams take position at opposite ends of a long, thick rope. The team that pulls the entire opposing team over to its side of the line wins.

2. Snowball Throw. Make a target by creating a bright circle in the snow with colored water in a squirt bottle, and challenge Olympians to hit the target with the most snowballs.

3. Tube Race. Have athletes sit in inflatable inner tubes and propel themselves to the finish line using only their feet.

4. Powder Putt. Pack down sections of snow two to three feet apart. Bury tin cans halfway down in the snow to create holes, and mark them with mini flagsticks. Then see who can score furthest under par.

5. Bundle Hula. Layer on extra sweatshirts, pants, coats, and winter wear and see who hula hoops the longest.

6. Ice Hunt. Fill a small cooler with treats and snacks and bury the “treasure chest” in your yard. Next, create a series of clues leading to the chest. Place each clue in a plastic bag, and hide it in the snow. Start the hunt by handing team members their first clue. For a less complicated hunt, freeze colored water into ice cubes and hide them around the yard.

7. Build a Snowman. Race to see which team can construct a snowman the fastest. Sweeten the challenge by using licorice, lollipops, and gummies for the mouth, eyes, buttons, and accessories. Put another spin on the challenge by having athletes toss a hat Frisbee-style on Frosty’s head.

8. Freeze Tag. For this snowy version of the age-old game, nominate one team member to be “It.” He or she races to tag the other players, who remain frozen until tagged again by a player in motion.

9. Mitten Match. Collect several different pairs of gloves. Mix them up, place them in a pile, and see which team can match the most pairs in a minute.

10. Wrap Race. Each team gets a roll of toilet paper, some crepe paper, three black circles of cardstock, and tape. Athletes then race to wrap a team member with the entire roll of toilet paper, a crepe paper scarf, and black buttons. The first team to complete a snowman wins.

Picture a typical street in a middle-class American neighborhood. Visualize the houses lining each side of the block. If you could see beyond the curtains, you would find that nearly one out of every three of those homes is headed by a single parent. Likewise, 30 percent of children on that block are being raised by just Mom or Dad.

You can see these single-parented boys and girls in the mornings, waiting for the bus or catching a car ride to school. What you probably won’t see is one of them taking a test on their couch at 10 a.m.

Just two percent of all homeschool families in the U.S. are headed by single parents, according to homeschool researcher Dr. Brian D. Ray.

Two percent doesn’t sound like much, but that represents approximately 20,000 single moms and dads who have overcome the challenges of this seemingly superhuman feat.

So, how do they juggle everything? Where do they find the time to parent, teach, and work? And how do they make ends meet? Let’s find out.

How Do Single Parents Pull It Off?Homeschooling is an extraordinarily challenge, even in a two-parent home. How does one parent do it alone?

Whether you homeschooled before becoming a single parent and God is calling you to continue, or you’re a single parent who feels God’s hand on your shoulder, gently prodding you toward a new adventure, you can be successful in homeschooling as a single mom or dad if you stick to three key concepts:

1. Compromise2. Commitment3. Creativity

Necessary to any homeschool, these elements become crucial when you’re the sole parent, teacher, and breadwinner.

Penelope Trunk is an author, career coach, and homeschool mom who blogs about homeschooling on her website.

“The question of how to homeschool as a single parent is actually how to make money and homeschool at the same time,” Trunk said.

Most single moms who homeschool must make compromises in their home life by working part-time and supplementing their income with a second source, such as child support or government assistance. They blog, sell on Etsy or eBay, work as independent sales consultants, and perform odd jobs, while a handful manage full-time jobs.

“The work-from-home possibilities are endless as long as you are willing to be flexible and creative,” said Skeet Savage, editor of Home School Digest and an advocate of single-parent homeschooling.

“If it is truly your desire to homeschool your children, then you must be willing to do whatever it takes to accomplish that goal,” Savage said. “If it becomes necessary to downscale, do it! If being able to homeschool the children under your roof means yard sale clothes, dented cans and stale bread, no entertainment budget or luxuries such as eating out at restaurants (or maybe even a smaller roof) so be it! What a small price to pay for the privilege of being together.”

Here are eight helpful strategies for single parents who want to homeschool.1. Prioritize. Your kids’ education comes first.2. Find work that will allow you to stay at home and take care of your first priority – your kids.3. Get good at multi-tasking and time management.4. Downsize.5. Pray. (Proverbs 3:5-6)6. Build support communities.7. Be innovative.8. Stay realistic about homeschooling. It’s do-able, but only if you comprise, commit, and get creative with your resources.

Homeschooling without a partner isn’t easy, but be confident in God’s grace and provision. In fact, once you work out the kinks and get into a groove, you may just find that the very people who thought you were attempting the impossible are now realizing you can teach the rest of us a thing or two about how to balance work, play, learning, and life.

Melt-Their-Heart MilkshakesFill a glass jar with treats, add some sparkle, and present your sweet pea with one of these super cute Melt-Your-Heart Milkshakes on Valentine’s Day. Items to incorporate can include candies, pom-poms, pencils, erasers, stamps, stickers, and just about anything heart-shaped. Make your milkshake girly by adding barrettes and lip gloss, or include small cars and action figures for your little man. Using a jar or glass from your cabinet, you can pull off this cute craft for under $3.

There’s no better way to say “I love you” than with handmade gifts. This Valentine’s Day, put a personal touch on tokens for your sweethearts with these fun and affordable crafts.

Valentine CrayonsBake a tray of many-hued heart crayons for your kiddos this February 14. Sugar-free and full of color, this activity yields one dozen kaleidoscopic crayons in less than an hour. First, soak two 24-packs of crayons in water for 10 minutes to loosen the papers. Peel the papers from your crayons and chop them up using a utility knife. Fill a heart-shaped cupcake tin or silicone ice cube tray (available at many local retailers) with your crayon bits. Pop the tray into the oven at 250 degrees for 15 minutes.

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From homeschool legislation to the most absurd comments our Facebook fans have heard about homeschooling, take a look back at your favorite Homeschool View articles from 2013.

9. 3 Family Activities for EasterCelebrate the Easter holiday with these three family activities that teach children about the death and resurrection of Jesus Christ.

10. Tasty Turkey Place CardsIn addition to corn, pumpkins, and dried leaves, brighten up your Thanksgiving table with these personalized and edible turkey place cards.

What was your favorite read, and what would you like to see in the next Homeschool View?

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"God hath chosen the weak things of the world to confound the things which are mighty" (1 Corinthians 1:27b).

In all my years of teaching, "popular" was one word I never heard used to describe homeschooling. Many times I heard words like illegal, over-protective, and crazy, but certainly never popular. Going against the educational norm led to some hot debates, especially within my family. When talking to relatives who were certified teachers, I never heard phrases like, "Oh, how interesting!" or "That's great, how can I help you?" Instead, my ability and sanity were questioned, and I was warned about the practicality of such an undertaking. Even today, 25 years later, most people still think it's odd that I homeschooled my children.

Being unpopular is difficult for any young homeschooling parent. Your need for acceptance and approval is strong, but your need to temper your emotions with God's perspective on popularity is more important. After all, rarely did God use the popular person to do His will. A serious Bible study would reveal that God usually used the unloved, unwanted, and broken person most. Leaders like David and Moses, prophets like Jeremiah and Jonah, and common women like Rahab and Ruth were chosen by God over the popular counterparts of their time. Even Christ experienced the sting of rejection from the crowds and religious leaders who wanted to crucify Him.

Are you feeling the pain of being unpopular today because you homeschool? Does your single income leave little money for trendy wardrobes or even new clothes? Do others treat you with disdain because you're "just a mom"? Have friends stopped calling because they don't understand how homeschooling limits your free time? You may not be popular in the world's eyes, but in God's you are a precious jewel. By obeying His call to teach your children, may you find your value in Him and hold fast to the One whose acceptance is all that really matters! "The LORD is on my side; I will not fear: what can man do unto me" (Psalm 118:6)?

Dear God, I feel so lonely. Show me how to be obedient when others don't understand our choice to homeschool. Teach me to find comfort in Your loving arms that surround me. In the name of Jesus, Amen.]]>Thu, 06 Feb 2014 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/misgivings/
"Hold fast the confidence and the rejoicing of the hope firm unto the end" (Hebrews 3:6b).

Do you ever feel like you haven't accomplished a thing at the end of your homeschooling day? Do you look around and see even more piles of projects to finish and messes to clean up than when you started? Have your children learned a new set of multiplication tables today, but they've entirely forgotten the historical facts they learned about George Washington yesterday? Some days you may wonder if you can be your children's teacher. Maybe they would be better off if they went to school. Stop! Think about what just went through your mind. From where are those thoughts coming? Are they from the One who called you to teach your children and promised you the strength to do it, or are they from the one who would see you fail?

Every homeschooling mother second guesses herself from time to time. After a difficult day, we all question whether we heard God right when He asked us to homeschool our children. We're not alone. Even great men of God faced similar doubts when God called them to difficult tasks. Men like Moses, Gideon, and David all struggled with their anxieties in serving God, too. Yet, God knew their hearts, and He provided the confirmation and the assurance they needed to remain faithful in doing what He asked. "I called upon the LORD in distress: the LORD answered me, and set me in a large place" (Psalm 118:5).

God is waiting to do the same for you today. If you're wondering how you are going to get through homeschooling today, simply take a moment now and pray something like this:

Father, my faith is weak. Please, fill me with Your presence and confirm again to me that I am doing Your will in homeschooling our children. Strengthen me to follow You in obedience and help me to commit this day to You for Your glory. In the name of Your dear Son, Jesus, Amen.]]>Wed, 05 Feb 2014 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/helping-hands/
"She stretcheth out her hand to the poor; yea, she reacheth forth her hands to the needy" (Proverbs 31:20).

I brought home more than our fourth child from the hospital when I gave birth that day. I also brought home a whole new set of anxieties about homeschooling and my ability to meet the demands of a family of six. Feeling weak and tired, I knew my energy supply was running low. I simply couldn't take care of a new baby, maintain a house, and homeschool, too.

Little did I know, God was already preparing a blessing that would help me with the extra work. A fellow homeschooling friend arrived the next day with a gift that was not only timely, but also so incredibly sacrificial that it made me cry. Even with her own responsibilities as a busy homeschooling mom, she came and delivered a delicious, home-cooked meal. Humbly she said, "I thought you could use a helping hand for a while. You don't have to worry about supper for the next two weeks. I'll be bringing them over every night about this time." Since I didn't have to prepare meals, I was able to use the little energy I had to homeschool at least half days as I slowly regained more strength.

The Bible tells of another man who was incredibly thankful for the helping hands of his friends. The lame man's friends in Luke 5:18-25 were not deterred by the crowds that surrounded Jesus. Because of their faith and willingness to go the extra mile, they tore a hole in a roof to lower their lame friend, who was lying on a stretcher, in front of Jesus. That day, the lame man found both healing and salvation because of his friends (vs. 24).

Do you know a homeschooling family who might need an extra hand? Maybe life has put them into a stressful situation that seems insurmountable. Since you homeschool, you know their needs best. Even if it's only a small thing, your helping hand might be the life-giving answer to help them through this difficult time. Why not go the extra mile and show them the love of Christ?

Lord, give me compassion to see the needs of other homeschooling families. Show me how to be a blessing and use my hands to minister to them however I can. In Jesus' name, Amen.]]>Tue, 04 Feb 2014 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/godly-legacies/
"The righteous shall be in everlasting remembrance" (Psalm 112:6b).

"And he did evil in the sight of the Lord," read my youngest son out loud as we studied the kings of Israel and Judah in our homeschool Bible curriculum. After reading the same sad statement in regard to three or four more kings, my son looked at me with a sober face and said, "Mom, weren't there any kings who did good in the sight of the Lord?"

"Yes," I replied. "As a matter of fact, there was a king named Josiah, and he was only eight years old when he became king. The Bible says he was different than the evil kings before him, 'and he did that which was right in the sight of the LORD, and walked in all the way of David his father, and turned not aside to the right hand or to the left' (2 Kings 22:2). Because he brought the people of Judah back to God and destroyed all the false gods they had been worshipping, King Josiah is forever remembered as a good king."

I could see my young son deep in thought before he turned to me and said, "Wow, I wonder what they'll write about me in the Bible after I'm dead!"

The story of King Josiah's life is an inspiration to all who read it because when Josiah heard the Word of God, he repented and made a covenant with God to serve the Lord with all his heart and soul and obey God's holy law (2 Kings 23:3). Because of his decision, the people also entered into the same covenant, and the nation was cleansed from its ungodly practices.

Legacies are not only for kings in Old Testament times. As a Christian, you will someday leave a legacy behind, too, when God chooses to take you home to heaven. If the story of your life was included in the Bible, how would you be remembered — as a man or woman who served the Lord faithfully with all your heart and soul, or as someone who did evil in the sight of the Lord? "Wherefore seeing we also are compassed about with so great a cloud of witnesses, let us lay aside every weight, and the sin which doth so easily beset us" (Hebrews 12:1a).

Father, thank You for preserving Your written Word, so I can learn from those who went before me. Help me to remain faithful in homeschooling and in serving You, so I can leave a godly legacy to all those who come after me. In Jesus' name, Amen.]]>Mon, 03 Feb 2014 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/i-can-only-imagine/
"I will walk within my house with a perfect heart. I will set no wicked thing before mine eyes" (Psalm 101:2b-3a).

I can still picture my two little daughters playing their favorite game during recess time from homeschooling. With the "Little House" books written by Laura Ingalls Wilder as their inspiration, they loved becoming Mary and Laura whenever playing alone or with friends. Since we had read the entire series several times during our nightly story time, I shouldn't have been surprised this was their favorite game. Living in the heart of the Midwest made the stories even more alive in their imaginations.

Time and again I saw the influence of a story or book on the hearts and minds of my children. The literature they read was not only processed as information, but it also became the seedbed for their imaginations in play. Therefore, choosing the right books became crucially important, since their character development was affected by them. Thankfully, there was always one book we could rely on to communicate a message we wanted our children to hear. My young children never tired of hearing the Old Testament stories of Moses, Joseph, Gideon, Samson, David, and the like.

What about you? As a homeschooling parent, where do you go with your imagination when you have time for yourself? Does your imagination lead you into the spiritual truths you've learned from the Bible, or does it play tempting "what if" games with the ungodly mental pictures you've seen in magazines, books, movies, and TV? Today, the influences for evil in the world are everywhere, but God's Word exhorts us to take every thought captive to the mind of Christ, including our imaginations (2 Corinthians 10:5). Wouldn't you hate to imagine what you may become if you don't? "But every man is tempted, when he is drawn away of his own lust, and enticed. Then when lust hath conceived, it bringeth forth sin: and sin, when it is finished, bringeth forth death" (James 1:14-15).

Father, forgive me for using my imagination for evil instead of good. Expose those secret places in my thoughts that I think You don't see. Show me again how to meditate on Your Word to live in a way that pleases You. In Jesus' name, Amen.]]>Sun, 02 Feb 2014 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/ahead-of-his-time/
"Whosoever shall receive one of such children in my name, receiveth me" (Mark 9:37a).

I could hear my youngest son preaching to his older brother and sister in the living room. Earnestly, he was telling them to behave and stop fighting. However, like a bucket of water on a raging forest fire, his words had no effect. Frustrated, he tried again to get their attention, quoting Bible verses that said why they shouldn't be arguing. His strong leadership qualities (his siblings called them "being bossy") and sense of right and wrong would not allow him to walk away from the problem. Unfortunately, because he was their "little brother," both his brother and sister refused to listen to his counsel.

Being young has its disadvantages when witnessing to those who are older. The apostle Paul warned young Timothy of the challenges in 1 Timothy 4:12, "Let no man despise thy youth; but be thou an example of the believers, in word, in conversation, in charity, in spirit, in faith, in purity." Mistakenly, older Christians tend to think they have a market on spiritual understanding and wisdom. Although experience does give older Christians an edge, it is often the passionate drive of youthfulness that keeps a body of believers vibrant and alive.

What about you? Do you fail to listen to your children's faith in God and consider it immature? As a homeschooling parent, you may think you have all the answers concerning spiritual matters, but you don't. If you humble yourself to learn from your children's faith, you will see again how the Lord wants you to approach Him with your own worship — intense, passionate, and full of hopeful enthusiasm and praise! "And Jesus called a little child unto him, and set him in the midst of them, And said, Verily I say unto you, Except ye be converted, and become as little children, ye shall not enter into the kingdom of heaven" (Matthew 18:2-3).

Father, forgive me when I become a stumbling block to my children's faith. Help me to follow their example and freely give You all my love and praise. In Jesus' name, Amen.]]>Sat, 01 Feb 2014 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/commissioned-to-serve/
"And whosoever of you will be the chiefest, shall be servant of all" (Mark 10:44).

When was your defining moment of deciding to homeschool your children? Mine came one day as I stood over the kitchen sink washing dishes for the fourth time. After running all day to keep up with my preschoolers and the housework, I felt as limp as the dish rag I was holding. I had been thinking about homeschooling, but quite frankly, the thought of being a homeschooling parent for the rest of my life wasn't too appealing right then. As my children entertained themselves with one of their favorite Christian music tapes, the words to the song they were playing echoed in my thoughts. In that moment, something happened. The Holy Spirit convicted me and said, "Are you willing to be my servant?"

"Yes," I replied.

"Then teach these children about Me," He said lovingly.

"But I don't know how, God," I cried.

"Trust me," He said in return.

Throughout my homeschooling experience, no other moment was quite as powerful as that one. Taking God at His word, I began to learn that I couldn't be a good homeschooling parent without learning how to be a servant first. God gave me a new love for my children and the wisdom to use my spiritual gifts of teaching, administration, and exhortation to benefit the people I loved most, my family. Although plenty of "rag days" were still to come, I knew I was serving my Lord right where He wanted me to be!

Learning how to be a servant doesn't come easy for any of us. Our selfish flesh screams so loudly, "What about me?" Homeschooling may take you to a new dimension of sacrifice, but it will never be as great as Christ's sacrificial love for you. His death on the cross washed away every mess you will ever make, and He never complained once while doing it. With Jesus as your role model, will you pick up your towel and continue serving the Lord in your homeschool? "For even the Son of man came not to be ministered unto, but to minister, and to give his life a ransom for many" (Mark 10:45).

Jesus, help me to hear Your voice today instead of the "What about me's?" Thank You for Your wondrous love that sacrificed so much for me. Give me a servant's heart and teach me to follow You. In Your precious name, Amen.]]>Fri, 31 Jan 2014 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/cleaning-day/
About once a month I would shake my head in despair when I looked into our homeschooling supply closet. "How does this get messed up so quickly?" I would think. "I just cleaned this a few weeks ago, and now it looks like a tornado hit again!" Staying organized and keeping things put away were endless tasks for me as a homeschooling parent. Multiply four children times six to eight subjects apiece with accompanying teacher's guides, quiz and test papers, and answer keys (plus endless art and daily school supplies), and it's no wonder I couldn't keep ahead of the mess. Even though I tried to pick up and straighten things out daily, the added monthly task of a major clean-up day was always necessary.

God understands the necessity for major overhauls, too. Once a year, He commanded Aaron the high priest to come before the Holy of Holies and offer a sacrifice for himself and the sins of Israel (Leviticus 16). Using a live scapegoat, the high priest would lay his hands on the goat, confess the sins of the people, and send the goat into the wilderness. Even though individual sacrifices were observed by the people for their sins, the Lord also required this yearly sacrifice to clean up the nation's spiritual mess. Years later, God would fulfill the need for all sacrifices by sending His Son, Jesus, as the final payment. "Neither by the blood of goats and calves, but by his own blood he entered in once into the holy place, having obtained eternal redemption for us" (Hebrews 9:12).

Does your spiritual life need a major clean-up? Have you allowed seemingly little sins to enter your daily life? Some actions like telling half-truths, laziness, and over-indulging in shopping or eating may appear acceptable in your eyes at first, but if unconfessed for too long, they may begin to make a total mess of your daily walk with God. Isn't it time to clean up your actions with the Lord's forgiveness and reorganize your spiritual walk with Bible study and prayer? "Having therefore these promises, dearly beloved, let us cleanse ourselves from all filthiness of the flesh and spirit, perfecting holiness in the fear of God" (2 Corinthians 7:1).

Father, how did I get back into this place of spiritual apathy again? Forgive me for not coming before You each day in prayer and seeking the strength I need from Your Word. In Jesus' name, Amen.]]>Thu, 30 Jan 2014 14:25:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/unanswerable-questions/
"He shall call upon me, and I will answer him: I will be with him in trouble; I will deliver him" (Psalm 91:15a).

Do your younger children drive you crazy with all their questions each day? With an insatiable desire to know "why," they ask a barrage of unending questions that homeschooling parents are forced to answer as best they can. Some questions like "Why is the sky blue?" and "Where do babies come from?" might set us back for a few minutes as we think of the best way to answer. However, other questions like "Why did Grandpa die?" and "Why did God let my sister get cancer?" pose a much bigger challenge. Sometimes, questions are simply unanswerable, and the "whys" of life's problems have no answer keys for us.

Like little children, countless men and women in the Bible also asked questions when they struggled through the "whys" of life's difficulties. Job's life is one such example. After suffering horrific loss of belongings, family, and health, he sat down and asked God "why" in Job 31. God never gave Job an outright answer, but He did counteract Job's question with a few questions of His own, including "Where were you when I created the world?" Confessing his ignorance in questioning a Holy God, Job reached the point of submissive humility and brokenness. "Who is he that hideth counsel without knowledge? therefore have I uttered that I understood not; things too wonderful for me, which I knew not" (Job 42:3).

Are you looking for some answers to the "whys" in your life? Are the pain and suffering you're experiencing causing you to wonder, "Where is God? Doesn't He know what is happening to me?" Perhaps God is taking you to a new level of trusting in Him, or He is trying to teach you a deeper truth. Either way, God has not left you. He sees your every tear and will deliver you in His time. Continue to hope in Him and wait for His answer! "Why art thou cast down, O my soul? and why art thou disquieted within me? hope in God: for I shall yet praise him, who is the health of my countenance, and my God" (Psalm 43:5).

Lord, I acknowledge that You alone are God. I lay my burden at Your feet and ask You to strengthen me to face this problem in my life. Even if I never know why, I will continue to trust in You and Your love for me. In Jesus' name, Amen.]]>Wed, 29 Jan 2014 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/homeschool-fears/
Satan really takes advantage of homeschoolers. When you jump into something different, such as teaching your own children, you become susceptible to his attacks of doubt and fear. Unsure of your abilities, you second-guess your decisions and desperately look for affirmation and direction. Added to those doubts are questioning remarks and comments from those who don't homeschool, and soon you begin to think, "I could really mess up my children's lives if I do this wrong!" The multiple battlefronts of spiritual, emotional, and physical attacks call for reinforcement from the Lord. Only His divine strength, wisdom, and power can counteract Satan's fears.

The apostle Paul understood how it felt to be attacked by Satan. When addressing the church in Corinth, he said, "For, when we were come into Macedonia, our flesh had no rest, but we were troubled on every side; without were fightings, within were fears" (2 Corinthians 7:5). I'm sure at times Paul must have questioned if he was doing the right thing when he went on his missionary journeys to establish the early churches. Not only did the other apostles criticize his work with the Gentiles, but he also suffered at the hands of his fellow Jews and the unbelieving communities he tried to reach. Add to those fears the beatings, shipwrecks, and other persecutions, and it's no wonder he was afraid. Still, Paul continued to trust in Jesus for every need and even his very life.

Are you tired from Satan's attacks? Does it seem like when you find victory over one fear another one develops? Dear one, I wish I could tell you things will get better, but that might not be the case. The battles will probably remain. You see, if Satan can't keep your family from believing in Christ, his next goal is to keep your family from living for Christ. If you're feeling weary today, run to your Commander and Lord and let His love empower you to face every fear. In Christ's name and by the power of His blood, you will defeat Satan. Besides, the worst way you could mess up your children's lives is if you don't fight. Don't let the fears win! "Be sober, be vigilant; because your adversary the devil, as a roaring lion, walketh about, seeking whom he may devour: Whom resist stedfast in the faith" (1 Peter 5:8-9a).

Lord God, I recommit myself and my family to You today. Strengthen us to stand strong against the fears and discouragement Satan brings to our homeschool. Let me see the plans and purpose You have for us and may our lives glorify You. In the dear name of Jesus, Amen.]]>Tue, 28 Jan 2014 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/test-days/
"The LORD trieth the righteous" (Psalm 11:5a).

Test days brought varying responses from my homeschooled children. My oldest daughter was ready to tackle whatever was thrown at her with aggressive confidence. My oldest son faced his tests pensively and held a quiet, inner confidence as he matched his knowledge against the written questions. With the fearful apprehension of a person facing the gallows, my youngest daughter dreaded the challenge, and my youngest son just shrugged off the pressure and simply gave tests his best shot. Surprisingly, test days not only revealed what my children knew academically, but they also revealed their character.

The tests in life also have a way of showing a person's character. Christ's disciples proved that to be true when Jesus was arrested in the Garden of Gethsemane. Peter boldly came at the temple soldiers with a sword as he cut off the ear of the high priest's servant (John 18:10). John quietly stood back and followed Christ to the high priest's court to see what would happen to his beloved Lord (John 18:15). The other frightened disciples ran away, fearing a sure death for following Christ (Mark 14:50), and Judas' greed was shown when he betrayed the Lord with a kiss (Matthew 26:49).

What do the tests that come from those who oppose homeschooling reveal about your character? Are you defensive and ready to attack? Do you quietly sit back, do your own thing, and hope others will leave your family alone? Does fear make you constantly worry about possible problems with school authorities? If God is in control of your homeschooling, He wants you to reflect His character to the world. When the infamous socialization and legality questions are thrown at you and you're tempted to speak your mind, trust God instead to give you the right answers. Only He can make you shine like Christ as you tell an unbelieving world of the joys of homeschooling. "But sanctify the Lord God in your hearts: and be ready always to give an answer to every man that asketh you a reason of the hope that is in you with meekness and fear" (1 Peter 3:15).

Lord, sometimes I get so tired of defending our homeschooling. Help me to seek Your wisdom and love in responding to those who don't understand the blessings found in homeschooling. In Jesus' name, Amen.]]>Mon, 27 Jan 2014 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/reflections/
"Not that we are sufficient of ourselves to think any thing as of ourselves; but our sufficiency is of God" (2 Corinthians 3:5).

As my eight-year-old son and I observed the craters on the moon for science class, his simple observation of the moon's reflection left a profound teaching on both our minds.

"Mom," he asked. "The moon really has no light of its own, does it?"

"No," I replied. "It simply reflects the light from the sun. If the sun was gone, the moon wouldn't shine either."

Thinking deeply, he looked at me and said, "That's the same way we would be without Jesus."

Amazed at his understanding of the two concepts, I answered, "Yes, that's right honey."

As homeschooling parents, we like to think that we are the ones who teach our children. However, anyone who has homeschooled for more than a few years knows this fact: apart from Christ, we are totally inadequate to teach our children. No college degree, teaching certificate, or earthly intelligence can prepare you to teach your children the right lesson at the right time or how to incorporate into your lesson the true wisdom that comes from God. Like the moon without the sun, we have no understanding on our own to impart the truths that will forever change our children's lives.

Yet, the good news is that you have Christ, the "light of the world" in you (John 9:5). Not only are you filled with His presence for teaching your children, but you also have the ability to reflect God's love to others by shining hope and encouragement into a very dark world. Just as Moses needed his shining face veiled after being with God (Exodus 34:29-35), your challenge as a homeschooling parent is to live in close obedience to God to reflect His light into your family and the world. "Arise, shine; for thy light is come, and the glory of the LORD is risen upon thee. For, behold, the darkness shall cover the earth, and gross darkness the people: but the LORD shall arise upon thee, and his glory shall be seen upon thee" (Isaiah 60:1-2).

Lord, let me reflect Your love and wisdom as I homeschool my children. Reveal any sin in my heart that would block Your light from shining in my life. In Christ's name I pray, Amen.]]>Sun, 26 Jan 2014 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/making-do/
"Let your conversation be without covetousness; and be content with such things as ye have" (Hebrews 13:5a).

Contrary to public opinion, you can homeschool your children without spending a large amount of money. Like most homeschooling parents, I considered "cheap" and "free" my favorite two words when looking for curriculum and resources for our homeschool. Many times I was forced to make my own teaching aids for phonics, math, and science concepts. Surprisingly, my children never minded my homemade visuals. In fact, they became inspired to design their own teaching tools for playing games together.

Making the most of what you have is a missionary mindset the apostle Paul illustrated well in Philippians 4:11-12: "Not that I speak in respect of want: for I have learned, in whatsoever state I am, therewith to be content. I know both how to be abased, and I know how to abound: every where and in all things I am instructed both to be full and to be hungry, both to abound and to suffer need." Paul had learned the art of being content no matter what material blessings God provided. At times, God provided for Paul's needs by giving him the opportunity to earn his own living (1 Thessalonians 2:9). Other times, God used the charitable giving of Christians to meet Paul's needs. Whatever the situation, Paul knew God would provide if he was in the middle of God's will, even if God's will placed him in the middle of a sinking ship (Acts 27)!

God promises that you will not lack in the work He has for you to do (2 Corinthians 9:8). If He has called you to teach your children, He already knows the costs involved and the resources you need. Don't get into trouble financially by falling for the bigger and better mentality in regard to purchasing homeschooling supplies. Pray and seek the Lord's choices for teaching your children. Perhaps you're failing to notice the untapped resources He has already given you. Isn't the Bible, the best curriculum any child can use, the best place to start?

Lord, forgive my greediness in wanting homeschooling trips and resources I cannot afford. Open my eyes to see the provisions You've clearly laid before me to teach my children what they need to know. In Jesus' name, Amen.]]>Sat, 25 Jan 2014 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/homeschooling-blunders/
"And a fool's voice is known by multitude of words" (Ecclesiastes 5:3b).

My daughter glared at me from across the room, and I knew I had done it again. I had embarrassed her by speaking for her when my friend asked her what she had learned in school that day. This violation of her individuality and personhood ranked quite high on her top ten list of homeschooling blunders, and Mom was the worst offender! As she informed me that day, "Mom, I am 13 and perfectly capable of answering questions on my own!"

Speaking on our children's behalf is a common offense of many homeschooling parents. Perhaps the teacher in us births an over-exuberant desire to convince others of homeschooling's benefits, or the mother in us seeks to protect our child from any uncomfortable confrontations. Regardless, this blunder robs our children of the opportunity to express themselves and can cause future problems in their adult lives. The ability to formulate an opinion and express one's views is a quality every child needs in order to live a successful life.

Christians make similar blunders in their spiritual walk with God. Many times, we attempt to speak for God and expound our knowledge on doctrines and theologies when helping people in need. With no thought of the person with whom we are speaking, we impart our wisdom on biblical topics and fail to speak to the needs within that person's heart. People hear wonderful words of "Christianese," but they never hear the words that will lead them into a relationship with the Creator of the universe. Instead of allowing the Holy Spirit to speak through us, we puff up our flesh and speak on God's behalf with our own human understanding.

What about you? Do you repeatedly make spiritual blunders and speak to others on God's behalf? Are you sharing your own thoughts and problem-solving remedies, or do you pray for God to speak through you with the right words? "A word fitly spoken is like apples of gold in pictures of silver" (Proverbs 25:11).

Lord, forgive me when I run ahead of You and talk on Your behalf. Teach me to pray first and listen to You before I speak to the needs of those who are hurting. In Jesus' name, Amen.]]>Fri, 24 Jan 2014 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/undeserved-love/
"But by the grace of God I am what I am" (1 Corinthians 15:10a).

The email was waiting for me when I arrived at work. The message was short, sweet, and simply read, "I love you forever, Mom!" Instantly, I was taken back in time to my blond, blue-eyed, five-year-old daughter as she stood in front of me with pigtails, a toothless smile, and a book tucked under her arm. I smiled and thanked God again for the privilege of homeschooling my children. What a blessing they had been and were continuing to be in my life!

Tears filled my eyes as I read again my daughter's expression of love. This time, my thoughts flew back to another young girl who had treated her parents quite differently. Painful choices and foolish rebellion had put her parents through misery. I was that young girl, and I heard again the hateful words I had said to my father in anger. My past actions stood as a stark contrast to my daughter's declaration of love. I realized again how deeply I had hurt my family. How undeserving I was to have been given a daughter who was such a joy!

Does Satan ever remind you of your shameful past to make you feel unworthy of love? You don't need to listen to his accusations anymore! No sin is bigger than the depths of God's love and grace. "There is therefore now no condemnation to them which are in Christ Jesus" (Romans 8:1a). If you have confessed your sin before God in repentance and received His forgiveness, your sins are removed as far as the east is from the west, and God remembers them no more (Psalm 103:12). Praise God for the immeasurable grace He freely gives to all who are in Christ Jesus! "In whom we have redemption through his blood, the forgiveness of sins, according to the riches of his grace" (Ephesians 1:7). The next time Satan comes to remind you of your past, just remind him of his future and Christ's blood that was given for you!

Jesus, thank You for dying on the cross for me and lifting my burden of sin. I stand amazed at the many undeserved blessings You've given me and humbly worship and thank You for Your forgiveness. In Your holy name, Amen.]]>Thu, 23 Jan 2014 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/whos-your-childs-hero/
"And ye became followers of us, and of the Lord" (1 Thessalonians 1:6a).

Who are your children's role models? Do they wish to emulate movie stars, sports heroes, or rock stars? Homeschooled children are no different from other children. They also can gravitate toward today's personalities and assimilate their qualities and characteristics. However, the people who stand out in the media often reflect values and beliefs far different from those we wish to see in our children.

So, where do homeschool parents go to find positive role models who will influence your children's minds for good? One place we chose was the pages of history. Using God's Word filled with examples of great men and women of faith in Hebrews 11 and historical biographies of famous church leaders, missionaries, scientists, and explorers, we found ample material to fill our children's minds and hearts with godly inspiration. In fact, our oldest daughter was so inspired by the story of Florence Nightingale that today she is a registered nurse.

However, perhaps the greatest role model who will ever affect your children's lives is you! Whether you are aware of it or not, you are being watched every day. Your attitudes and character, whether good or bad, are being imitated and incorporated into your children's lives. Such accountability to live a godly life challenges homeschooling moms and dads to a higher standard in their Christian walk. Are you able to say like Paul in 1 Corinthians 11:1, "Be ye followers of me, even as I also am of Christ"? If not, recommit yourself and your home to the Lord and watch as a new generation of Christian superheroes is born!Lord, what an awesome responsibility it is to be a parent! As I teach my children, make my actions and words a reflection of You. Please, direct me to people who will inspire a more Christ-like character in my children. In the name of Jesus, Amen.]]>Wed, 22 Jan 2014 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/the-proof-is-in-the-pudding/
I take a strong stand in the beliefs I hold about homeschooling. Perhaps after 25 years of educating my children at home, I have earned the right to stand on my soap box and state clearly why I know homeschooling works. I know it works because my children have proved it works. They have graduated from college with honors, they know how to socialize, and they are able to function well in the work world and their communities. More importantly, each of them knows the Lord Jesus Christ as Savior and the truths of His Word.

Anyone is capable of teaching his children at home if he really wants. I have found that if you really want to follow the Lord and do what He asks, He will even overcome homeschooling obstacles like being a single parent, financial limitations, or a physical handicap. As God's Word says in Romans 8:31, "What shall we then say to these things? If God be for us, who can be against us?"

Are you questioning today whether or not to continue homeschooling? Perhaps you are in your first or second year of schooling and thinking, "Maybe there's something better that I could be doing with my life." I encourage you to remain faithful in homeschooling. You are making a difference in this world. You're loving your family and teaching them to follow Christ. Your purpose for being a homeschooling parent is treasured by God. The rewards will come, but you must be faithful. Don't give up! "Therefore, my beloved (homeschoolers), be ye stedfast, unmoveable, always abounding in the work of the Lord, forasmuch as ye know that your labour is not in vain in the Lord" (1 Corinthians 15:58).

Jesus, just getting through this homeschooling day, let alone this year, seems like an enormous task. Please, empower me again by the Holy Spirit to stand firm in what You have shown me to do. In Your name I pray, Amen.]]>Tue, 21 Jan 2014 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/texas-family-wins-scholarship-to-alpha-omega-academy/
Rock Rapids, IA (January 20, 2014) – Alpha Omega Publications is pleased to announce that Tish Schaefer of Austin, Texas, is the winner of a full scholarship to Alpha Omega Academy, the accredited online Christian school of Alpha Omega Publications.

As part of the 12 Days of Deals special in December, Alpha Omega Publications invited homeschool families to enter a drawing to win five year-long classes at Alpha Omega Academy. With more than 370 entrants, Schaefer walked away with the prize. Her daughter, Grace, plans to begin 7th grade at the academy and is looking forward to learning online and connecting with classmates who are working through the same coursework.

“This is her first time with a more formal education,” Schaefer said. “With her becoming closer to high school and college, it’s important for me to give her what she needs for college.”

Schaefer discovered AOP through homeschooling conventions and uses curriculum such as Horizons Math to teach her three children at home in Texas. When she learned about the academy scholarship drawing, her daughter’s interest in online schooling prompted her to enter.

“I never thought we would win,” Schaefer said. “I just thought it was worth entering.”

Alpha Omega Academy’s accredited online program provides both high school diploma and college prep tracks, complete with official recordkeeping and transcripts to help graduates transition to higher education with ease.

“I’m looking forward to her having more of a classroom experience without actually being in the classroom,” Schaefer said.

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Somehow we arrived at the hospital within minutes, even though it was 12 miles away from our house. We ran through the hospital doors to the emergency room and found the doctor waiting for us. Immediately, he began force feeding our daughter a charcoal mixture to neutralize the strychnine's effects. Since strychnine is normally fast acting, the next half hour was agonizing as my daughter suffered through gulping more of this mixture in between terrified sobs. Expecting the worse, we all watched and waited. After two more hours of this treatment, the doctor believed our daughter was out of danger. No visible effect of the poison was apparent in my daughter's body, and we became hopeful she was going to be all right. Miraculously, her condition seemed to indicate she hadn't swallowed any of the poison. However, the doctor gave strict instructions to monitor her through the night.

A sleepless night followed after returning home from the hospital as I observed my daughter for any effects of the poison. With the morning light, I was deeply thankful to God that my daughter was still alive. As I stepped outside for some fresh air, I saw the answer to what saved our baby girl from a sure death. Lying dead near the back door of our house was my young daughter's favorite kitten. Apparently, after opening the bottle of poison, my young daughter's fingers had been wiped clean from petting the kitten's fur. The kitten then licked itself and died from ingesting the poison left on its fur.

My daughter's near death experience changed the way I viewed life forever. I saw the demands of homeschooling in a new light, and I realized that academics were really of low importance in comparison to the hearts and souls of my children. My children's lives were precious to God, and He was giving me the privilege of teaching them about Him. Every moment we shared together was His gift, and I had no right to assume or expect that tomorrows would be guaranteed. God's Word tells us our lives are but a vapor (James 4:14) and, at best, a mere breath (Psalm 39:5). Are you living and homeschooling with the passion that today might be your last day to tell those you love about Christ? "So teach us to number our days, that we may apply our hearts unto wisdom" (Psalm 90:12).

Lord, we are so frail and our very breath is held in Your hands. Teach me to number my days and use every moment to guide my children to You. In the name of Your dear Son, Jesus, Amen.]]>Mon, 20 Jan 2014 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/death-at-my-door-part-1/
"What time I am afraid, I will trust in thee" (Psalm 56:3).

One evening after hosting a Bible study for homeschooling friends around a campfire, my observant son noticed a small amber-colored bottle lying on the ground. Walking up to me with the bottle in his hand, he began to read the letters on the bottle's torn label, "S-t-r-y-c-h . . . what's this, Mom?" he asked.

The next five minutes were a blur. I had seen a white powder on my two-year-old daughter's clothes and assumed she'd been in the ashes of the campfire. However, I quickly realized the white powder on her clothes matched the contents of the bottle that my son had just found. My heart stopped as I spelled out the letters again, S-t-r-y-c-h . . . Strychnine! This was an old bottle of poison my grandfather had used years ago to kill rats on our farm! Somehow, we had missed seeing it when we had cleaned out the old shed before converting it into a playhouse. "Oh my!" I cried. "My daughter's been playing with poison!"

Every mom knows toddlers are forever putting things into their mouths, and I could only imagine how much of this poison my young daughter had ingested. Running into the house to call 911, I frantically prayed, "Please, help me Lord!" The anxious tone I heard in the voice of the poison control person gave me no reassurance. "Get her to the hospital as fast as you can," he said. "Strychnine doesn't lose its potency!" Looking at my husband's frightened face, I knew he was thinking the same thing as me — our precious baby girl was going to die!

(To be continued in tomorrow's Daily Focus)

Father, when disaster looms, I run to You, my Rock and my Strong Tower. Show me how to trust You even in the worst of circumstances. In Jesus' name, Amen.]]>Sun, 19 Jan 2014 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/mother-of-the-year/
"For do I now persuade men, or God? or do I seek to please men? for if I yet pleased men, I should not be the servant of Christ" (Galatians 1:10).

Sometime after the third or fourth year of homeschooling, I finally gained enough confidence to believe that I was capable of teaching my children at home. I could see my children were actually learning, and I was excited to be involved in their day-to-day learning adventure. Everything was clicking with our curriculum, and we actually seemed to be in a rhythm with our daily routine and homeschooling schedule. Still, something seemed to be missing.

As I gave in to my doubt, depression began to cloud my thinking with "poor me" thoughts like "No one appreciates you," "You're just a mom," and "Everyone thinks you're nuts and could care less about what you're doing!" My self-defeating talk continued and many times was substantiated by attitudes and remarks of those in the community who didn't approve of homeschooling. Each day I seemed to take one step forward and two steps backward in recognizing my value as a homeschooling mom. Wasn't there any reward, recognition, or encouragement for faithfully loving and homeschooling my children?

Then, God's gentle rebuke spoke to my heart one morning during devotions. "Why are you still seeking the world's approval instead of mine?" He asked. Ashamed, I wondered how many times I would need to learn the lesson of Colossians 3:23-24: "And whatsoever ye do, do it heartily, as to the Lord, and not unto men; Knowing that of the Lord ye shall receive the reward of the inheritance: for ye serve the Lord Christ."

Feeling renewed after confessing, I walked into the kitchen to prepare breakfast. Sitting on the counter was a carefully wrapped package from my loving husband and children. Surprised, I opened the gift and found a sparkling, professionally made plaque engraved in gold. Below my beautifully scripted name read the words, "Mother of the Year — in recognition for selflessly loving your family." Tears filled my eyes as I hung the trophy on the wall. Satan was wrong! I was valuable to God and my family, and that was enough.

Father, I praise You for the constant reminder of Your love in Your Word. Teach me again to always run to You first when I feel discouraged and claim Your promises as my strength. In Jesus' name, Amen.]]>Sat, 18 Jan 2014 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/strength-under-fire/
"The LORD is my light and my salvation; whom shall I fear? the LORD is the strength of my life; of whom shall I be afraid" (Psalm 27:1)?

An emergency in my brother's family required me to give up our normal homeschooling day to watch his children. Looking out the window, I observed his children and mine playing together in the big tractor tire sand box. Considering that seven children were crowded into one small area, they were getting along quite well. Then, the inevitable happened. One of my brother's sons got upset because his space was violated, and he pushed my oldest daughter out of the sand box. Amazingly, my four-year-old son stepped up to defend his big sister. Raising himself to full height, he said, "You can't treat my sister like that!" My son never even considered the consequences of defiantly challenging his older cousin. The love for his sister filled him with a righteous courage that was ready to take on someone twice his size!

Defending our family is something we all experience as homeschoolers. Although we don't intend to take a defensive posture, many times the world pushes us around or throws punches that require us to take a stand. However, in Christian love, we must allow the Lord to be the One who speaks through us. Like Jehoshaphat as he stood before the armies of Moab and Ammon in 2 Chronicles 20, we need to defend ourselves from those who oppose homeschooling in God's strength instead of our own. "Thus saith the LORD unto you, Be not afraid nor dismayed by reason of this great multitude; for the battle is not yours, but God's" (2 Chronicles 20:15b). When the Lord is in the battle, all we need to do is sing the praises of homeschooling and let God do the defending.

Has homeschooling put you in the middle of a battle? Maybe you're ready to take things into your own hands to protect your family from unkind remarks or attacks. Don't let Satan tempt you to fight in the flesh. Let the Lord give you the words to say and the wisdom to respond in a way that glorifies Him. "And the servant of the Lord must not strive; but be gentle unto all men, apt to teach, patient, In meekness instructing those that oppose themselves" (2 Timothy 2:24-25a).

Father, thank You for being a mighty God who is perfectly capable of protecting my family. Give me the wisdom to know what to say and how to respond when others do not understand homeschooling. In the name of Your Son, Amen.]]>Fri, 17 Jan 2014 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/looking-for-direction/
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"For the administration of this service not only supplieth the want of the saints, but is abundant also by many thanksgivings unto God" (2 Corinthians 9:12).

When you discover the joy of homeschooling your own children, God usually gives you a burden to teach other children about His love, too. Many homeschooling parents can be found teaching children other than their own in Sunday school, mid-week church youth groups, vacation Bible school, or backyard Bible clubs. Maximizing your efforts by first teaching a Bible lesson to your own children and then sharing it with others only makes sense. Like the young boy who brought the two small fish and five loaves of bread to Jesus (Matthew 14:19), God is able to take the lesson you prepared for your family and use it to bless many more children as well.

Many times while Jesus was teaching His disciples on Earth, His message blessed more than the 12 chosen men. His parables and sermons not only instructed His faithful followers, but they also taught the same truths to the multitudes who were within hearing distance (Matthew 5-7). The lives of many hurting bystanders were changed, and seeds of hope and faith were planted in their hearts. Even the outcast Gentiles were blessed as they heard and saw the power of God in Christ's miraculous healings and teachings.

You may not realize this fact, but the same Bible story you've taught your children may be waiting to be heard by hundreds of other boys and girls. Whether it's a Bible story about Zaccheus, a topical lesson on salvation, or some aspect of Christian growth, the knowledge you've learned from the Holy Spirit during your study and preparation time is possibly the exact truth needed by the boys and girls in your church or neighborhood. Won't you share that same lesson God has given you for your own children with other young people who desperately need it? "How then shall they call on him in whom they have not believed? and how shall they believe in him of whom they have not heard? and how shall they hear without a preacher" (Romans 10:14)?

Jesus, as I homeschool I see the spiritual needs of so many children from other families. Like the disciples, I don't know how to feed them all. Please, take the Bible lessons I've prepared for my family and use them for Your glory. Help me to be faithful in sharing Your message of love and forgiveness wherever and whenever You give me the opportunity to teach. In Jesus' name, Amen.]]>Thu, 16 Jan 2014 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/daily-walks/
"If we live in the Spirit, let us also walk in the Spirit" (Galatians 5:25).

Taking a walk after supper became a guarded ritual for our homeschooling family. Each night, the entire family walked together down our country road to a creek a quarter mile away. Since our youngest daughter wasn't capable of such a long hike, we improvised and included her in this family time by pulling her along in our little red wagon. As we walked, we talked about whatever came to mind and observed the wonders of God's creation in nature. We never knew where the conversation was headed or what discoveries we would see along the way. We simply enjoyed the exercise and looked forward to this unhurried time of being together as a family.

One morning during my usual rushed devotion time with God, the Holy Spirit spoke to my heart and convicted me. I cried as I realized I had been shortchanging my time with God and quenching the intimacy of His love. Instead of a quiet, unhurried walk with my God in Bible study and prayer, I had been running down the road to the day's activities and problems. I had given up fellowshipping with my loving Lord for feeling more organized and in control of my day. I shook my head at my stupidity and said, "If my daily walks with my homeschooling family on Earth are important for maintaining a close relationship, my daily walk with God is certainly even more important!"

What about you? Do you hurry through your quiet times with the Lord to get a jump on the busyness of the day's activities? Take a bit of hard-learned advice and learn the lesson of walking daily with the Lord. He really is so much fun to be with as you relax in His love. Best of all, you never know where the conversation may lead and what new spiritual truths He will give you to face each day. "Furthermore then we beseech you, brethren, and exhort you by the Lord Jesus, that as ye have received of us how ye ought to walk and to please God, so ye would abound more and more" (1 Thessalonians 4:1).

Lord, slow me down and teach me to walk hand in hand with You as I homeschool my children each day. You are the most important part of my life. Help me to treasure every moment of every day with You. In Jesus' name, Amen.]]>Wed, 15 Jan 2014 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/that-little-voice/
"The spirit of man is the candle of the LORD, searching all the inward parts of the belly" (Proverbs 20:27).

My normally outgoing son had been acting sheepish for two days. He had been avoiding me as much as you can in a homeschooling family, and he was definitely dealing with something.

I could see the Holy Spirit working on his conscience, so I prayed my usual "sick 'em" prayers — you know, asking God to work on your child's heart until he turns back to Him in repentance. I wondered how long my son would struggle and if he would hide, ignore, or confess his problem. I didn't have to wait long. The very next day, the Holy Spirit's conviction weighed so heavily that he couldn't take the stress any longer.

"Mom," he said. "I need to tell you something."

"Yes," I responded. "What is it?"

"I took some money from your purse without asking you," he quietly confessed.

As Christians, we also avoid God after we've sinned; however, the Holy Spirit's job of convicting us of sin (John 16:8) brings us back to a right relationship with God. Even King David, "a man after God's own heart" (1 Samuel 13:14), attempted to ignore his conscience when his lust first caused him to sin with Bathsheba and then set up her husband's untimely death on the battlefield (2 Samuel 11). David finally yielded to God's correction when the Holy Spirit convicted David's conscience through a prophet and a touching story that reached his ex-shepherd's heart.

What about your conscience? Is it sensitive to God's correction and leading, or have you hardened your conscience with unconfessed sin? Aren't you tired of the anxious tension that has replaced your fellowship with your loving heavenly Father? If God has been speaking to you about your speech, your anger, or your thought life, stop running away from Him. Since He already knows your sin, run into His arms instead. He's just waiting for you to listen to "that little voice" and rediscover the strength of living in obedience to Him. "If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness" (1 John 1:9).

Lord God, I confess today that I have been living in disobedience to You. Forgive my rebellious heart and discipline me in Your love. Lead me back to You and restore to me the joy of my salvation. In Jesus' name, Amen.]]>Tue, 14 Jan 2014 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/balancing-acts/
"Withhold not good from them to whom it is due, when it is in the power of thine hand to do it" (Proverbs 3:27).

I'm sure that if others had peeked through my windows during my first years of homeschooling, they would have laughed at my antics. Many days, I felt like the circus performer who balances the spinning plates on top of a pole as I attempted to balance the needs of each person in my family. On any given day, I tried to spin my husband's plate with affection and undivided attention as he came through the doorway after work. I also worked hard to spin my creative son's plate with assistance in science experiments and projects that held his interest. I knew I needed to stop the wobbling of my oldest daughter's plate and run to the kitchen to help her as she learned how to cook. Finally, to top it all off, there were always toddlers fussing and needing their plates spun with a clean diaper and companionship for playtime. I knew that at some point I was going to run out of energy trying to keep each of their plates turning and wondered, "Who's going to spin my plate to keep this whole homeschool act going?"

Praise God, the plates never did crash, but I did learn how to keep them spinning with someone else's energy other than my own. That someone was Jesus, and it was to Him that I ran each morning for the power to keep my own plate spinning. Knowing I only had so much strength, He showed me when and how to spin the plates of the family members who needed it most. I realized, too, that as much as I loved and wanted to help each member of my family, I was not responsible for making everyone happy or fulfilling each need. The power was simply not in my hands! Just as I had gone to the Lord for strength, they also needed to learn to cast their cares on Him. "Cast thy burden upon the LORD, and he shall sustain thee" (Psalm 55:22a).

Do you feel like you're teetering on the edge of disaster in homeschooling your children? If so, you may need to hand off those spinning plates into the hands of the One who can balance them much better than you. "Now unto him that is able to keep you from falling, and to present you faultless before the presence of his glory with exceeding joy" (Jude 1:24).

Jesus, I'm so tired from trying to make our homeschooling successful in my own strength. Help me to find the balance I need this new year to meet the unique needs of each family member with Your wisdom and strength. In Your name, Amen.]]>Mon, 13 Jan 2014 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/spicy-motivation/
Developing strategies for motivating your homeschooled child is like being a good cook with the right spices. The basic salt and pepper seasonings of affirmation and discipline need to be added to every homeschooling day, but ingenuity and divine inspiration are required when motivating your child to learn challenging subjects. Although some homeschooling families may disagree, I never felt guilty about motivating my children with the special spices of a well-deserved gift or a day off from school when completing a difficult assignment or lengthy unit study.

God tried to motivate His people with an extra incentive when they faced the difficult challenge of conquering the Promised Land. He instructed Moses to send out spies to survey the land, and the fruits they found proved that it was indeed a land flowing with milk and honey (Numbers 13). In fact, one cluster of grapes was so large it needed to be carried on a pole between two men (vs. 23). However, because the difficulties of this assignment seemed larger than the promises and blessings, the people of Israel shied away from conquest.

God also knows what you need to stay motivated when facing the difficult challenge of homeschooling your children for 12 or more years. Sometimes God's recipe for your homeschooling day will include the basic salt and pepper joys of seeing your children learn and play together as a family. Other times, God will give flavorful opportunities to take unusual field trips or meet unique individuals to inspire both you and your children. Best of all, God will sprinkle the spice of the Holy Spirit into your heart to motivate you to face the major giants of homeschooling, such as mountains of laundry, disorganized school rooms, and a shortage of personal time. However, like the nation of Israel, you have a choice to either respond to God's continued loving motivation or turn away in fear and discouragement. Which will you choose? "O taste and see that the LORD is good: blessed is the man that trusteth in him" (Psalm 34:8).

Lord, only Your sweet love can keep me motivated to face the enormous challenge of homeschooling. Please, let me see Your hand at work again today and whet my appetite to enjoy each of your blessings. In the name of Jesus, Amen.]]>Sun, 12 Jan 2014 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/dead-pencils/
"Even so faith, if it hath not works, is dead, being alone" (James 2:17).

My children hated pencils without erasers. Being a thrifty homeschool parent, however, I couldn't understand the thought of throwing away perfectly good pencils just because they didn't have an eraser. Purposely, I left these "partial performance pencils" in the supply cabinet; however, each morning when we started to homeschool, I would hear my children rummaging through the pencil can until they found a pencil with at least part of an eraser. Even though I bought new replacement erasers to put on the ends, nothing changed. The substitute erasers would crack or fall off within a few days, and unfortunately, I had to admit my children were right. There was simply no use for a pencil that couldn't write and erase.

Like pencils without erasers, so are Christians who have lost their saltiness. Christ tells us in Matthew 5:13 and 16 that we are the salt of Earth, and we should demonstrate our faith in Christ to the world through acts of love and service. If we don't, we are as useless as salt without taste or pencils without erasers. "Ye are the salt of the earth: but if the salt have lost his savour, wherewith shall it be salted? it is thenceforth good for nothing, but to be cast out, and to be trodden under foot of men" (Matthew 5:13).

What about you? Are you known like Dorcas in Acts 9:36b for being "full of good works and almsdeeds?" Even though your days may be full as a homeschooling parent, God still desires for you to share your faith with your hands, as well as your lips. Why not let the Lord use you today to bless someone in need? "But whoso hath this world's good, and seeth his brother have need, and shutteth up his bowels of compassion from him, how dwelleth the love of God in him? My little children, let us not love in word, neither in tongue; but in deed and in truth" (1 John 3:17-18).

Lord, so many days my energy is gone after homeschooling, and I have nothing left to give to anyone else. Give me the desire to see the needs of others and fill me with Your strength to reach out in love. In Jesus' name, Amen.]]>Sat, 11 Jan 2014 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/the-bigger-picture/
The year was 1981, and for two weeks I had been struggling with an important writing assignment. Enrolling my children into a homeschool satellite program to escape truancy charges from the public school was dependent on this statement of homeschooling faith. Although I was frustrated with how much time and effort preparing this statement required, this document became my doctrinal guideline for homeschooling for the next 25 years. Frequently, I referred back to my God-given declarations contained in its pages and reminded myself why we were teaching our children at home.

The Bible contains many examples of individuals who verbalized or wrote down their convictions to solidify their commitments. Jacob made a verbal covenant with Laban by setting up a stone altar in Genesis 31:44-45. Joshua set up a memorial of stones from the Jordan River to serve as a testimonial of God's provision to future generations (Joshua 4). Greatest of all, God set His Word literally in stone for Moses and the nation of Israel when He carved the Ten Commandments into two tablets (Exodus 24:12).

Do you know why you are really homeschooling? Isn't there a bigger purpose than simply getting your children out of public school for academic or safety reasons? Have you formulated God's purpose for your homeschooling, so you are not tossed around by each obstacle that comes your way? Perhaps writing a declaration of homeschooling might also help you bring all your thoughts together into one single-purpose statement. The beginning of our family's statement, inspired by Deuteronomy 6:5-7, might help you get started. "As Bible-believing Christians, we are convicted that the ultimate responsibility for our children's education is ours, the parents."

Father, whenever we do Your will, we face opposition from Satan. Help me to see clearly the purpose You have for our family's homeschooling and guide me to preserve that message for our strength in the days ahead. In Jesus' name, Amen.]]>Fri, 10 Jan 2014 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/say-goodbye-to-the-bus-and-hi-to-at-home-schooling/

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"Take therefore no thought for the morrow: for the morrow shall take thought for the things of itself. Sufficient unto the day is the evil thereof" (Matthew 6:34).

The best advice I received when I first started homeschooling was, "Take one day at a time!" These words were easy to say, but they were very hard to do. Borrowing tomorrow's trouble is a learned family trait, and many times I had to come before the Lord in repentance. Many people like to think they are organized and prepared for the unknowns in life, but homeschooling four children has a way of changing that mindset. Each day I needed to erase the failures of yesterday and realize that God was providing His strength and creativity one day at a time.

Seeking God daily for strength is a lesson the people of Israel had difficulty learning as well. Each day for 40 years, God rained manna from heaven to feed the Israelites (Exodus 16:4). The organizers in the group thought they could run ahead of the Lord and gather extra, possibly planning ahead for those unknowns. However, any amount the people gathered that was more than they needed for that day spoiled. God's provision of manna was not only for nourishment, but it also was a test. God wanted to see if the people would obey His commandments and trust that He would provide for their daily needs. God had commanded them to collect only enough manna to last for one day's needs. Only on the day before the Sabbath had God commanded the people to gather twice the amount.

One other motivating factor also played a part in the gathering of this daily bread. The people had to gather the manna before the heat of the day (vs. 20-21). In this way, God showed them that they needed strength before the day's problems began.

Do you miss the joy of homeschooling your children today because you've run ahead to tomorrow? If you continue to look only at the forest of your child's academic goals, you will miss the many wonderful moments of the trees today. Perhaps that is why Jesus taught His disciples to pray, "Give us this day our daily bread" (Matthew 6:11).

Jesus, You are the bread of life, and without You I can do nothing. Teach me to wait on Your daily provision of strength and help me to find the blessings in homeschooling every day. In Your name, Amen.]]>Thu, 09 Jan 2014 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/disciplines/
"It is good for me that I have been afflicted; that I might learn thy statutes" (Psalm 119:71).

Mopping the kitchen floor and washing dishes have always been my two least favorite jobs. Because of the obvious health hazard and the fact we needed to reuse them, I daily set my mind to rid the kitchen counters of the accumulated piles of dishes. However, procrastination would set in when the time came to mop the kitchen floor, especially during the snowy days of winter. I justified my laziness with the demands of homeschooling and counteracted with vacuuming daily and passing the "take your shoes off at the door" law. Unfortunately, even this new rule failed to eliminate the need for a daily or even semi-daily mopping of footprints and sticky patches from spilled food. If the teaching role had been reversed and my young children had graded me on this task, I definitely would have received an "F."

My laziness and procrastination affected other areas of my life as well. Scripture memory was incorporated into my children's Bible curriculum, but disciplining myself to "hide God's Word in my heart" was an area in which I was sorely lacking. Again, I justified myself by saying, "I make time for daily prayer, Bible study, and devotions. I can't do everything. As a homeschooling mom, there isn't time!" However, God simply didn't give me an "F" in Scripture memorization and leave me alone. He challenged me with His truth in Psalm 119:99-104 and led me to a topical system of memorizing His Word. I soon discovered the blessing of really knowing God's Word and its power to change my life and others. In fact, He even showed me how to memorize Bible verses easily — by combining mopping and Scripture memory at the same time!

When was the last time you memorized a Bible verse? You'll never start if you don't make a lesson plan for yourself. Why not find an accountability partner (maybe your own child) to memorize Scriptures with and discover the strength of God's Word in your heart and mind? "Study to shew thyself approved unto God, a workman that needeth not to be ashamed, rightly dividing the word of truth" (2 Timothy 2:15).

If you want to see a homeschooling mother riled, just let someone ridicule her child for being homeschooled. Between being protective and having a firm belief in the value of homeschooling, even the most loving and gentle of us feel the hair rising on our backs when our children are mocked. As a homeschooling mom, I also found myself saying, "Let people criticize and attack me for homeschooling all they want, but don't mess with my children!"

Moses' mother, Jochebed, felt more than just the rejection of her son by Pharaoh. She was facing her baby boy's death sentence and needed to use all of her motherly instincts to protect him (Exodus 2). God honored Jochebed and spared her son's life. Through an unusual rescue by Pharaoh's daughter and the clever bravery of his sister, Moses and his mother were reunited, and they were able to spend more years together before he went to live in the palace.

Do you know that God is keeping you in His care today? Even though you may feel alone as you homeschool, He hasn't left you. Like a mother who cannot forget her nursing child, He wraps His arms of love around you and provides the strength you need to face the criticisms of homeschooling. The trials may seem great, but God knows and cares about every battle you face. "The LORD shall preserve thee from all evil: he shall preserve thy soul. The LORD shall preserve thy going out and thy coming in from this time forth, and even for evermore" (Psalm 121:7-8).

Lord, thank You for Your loving kindness toward me every morning. Strengthen me today to fulfill the call You have placed on my life to homeschool. Set Your hedge of protection around our family and save us from those unseen evils that seek to destroy us. In Jesus' name, Amen.]]>Tue, 07 Jan 2014 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/homeschool-bed-and-breakfast/
"Jesus saith unto them, Come and dine" (John 21:12).

One of my greatest pleasures as a homeschooling mother was giving my children a hot breakfast with a warm "good morning" each day. My sense of nurturing was satisfied as I watched sleepy-eyed yawns turn into energetic smiles. Cornbread, pancakes, waffles, omelets, French toast, apple muffins, and the like provided the necessary brain power for them to learn their homeschooling lessons. However, just as important as the nourishing food was the encouragement and love expressed when the food was served with a hug and a kiss.

Jesus knew all about the encouragement that comes from a good, hot breakfast. In one of His appearances after His resurrection, He had a great breakfast cooking for the disciples after their long, hard night of failed fishing. In the twilight, the disciples didn't recognize Jesus at first when He asked about their catch, but when Christ performed a miracle and filled their empty net, John realized it was Jesus. How wonderful they must have felt to see their Lord again as they shared a morning meal together!

Someday, the Lord will serve another important meal. Christ is coming back for everyone who has trusted in Him as Lord and Savior, and we will share in His kingdom forever. "And he saith unto me, Write, Blessed are they which are called unto the marriage supper of the Lamb" (Revelation 19:9). I can only imagine the joy of fellowshipping with my Lord every morning and throughout eternity with the warmth of His love. What about you? Is your name on the invitation list? "Behold, I stand at the door, and knock: if any man hear my voice, and open the door, I will come in to him, and will sup with him, and he with me" (Revelation 3:20).

Jesus, how I long for the day of Your return! What indescribable joy there will be when I see You face to face! Use me to lead my children to You, so together we can experience Your love forever at Your marriage supper. In Your holy and loving name, Amen. ]]>Mon, 06 Jan 2014 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/prove-it/
Finding all the necessary documentation for my daughter's admission to college was a nightmare. Not only did we need two forms of identification, proof of health insurance, long-lost medical immunization records, and GED and ACT scores, but now we also needed an official high school transcript. Thankfully, I had saved her grades during the past four years and had prepared a transcript in the event we needed it. Sorting through my files on the computer to find the transcript, I shook my head and thought, "Why do I still need to prove my daughter's high school grades when she received such great ACT scores?"

God is also no stranger to providing proofs to an unbelieving world. Some people wrestle with believing God exists, even though creation has shown He does exist (Romans 1:19-20). Others, like the people in Christ's day, refuse to believe unless they see the proof of "signs and wonders" (Matthew 12:38-39 and John 4:48). Then, there are those who think they no longer need any proof of God at all because they have simply declared, "God is dead."

However, unbelievers are not the only people who foolishly place a burden of proof on the Lord. Sometimes, we Christians demand proof, too. Our fragile faith also causes us to ask God for signs and wonders before we step out and do what He clearly commands in the Scriptures. Repeatedly, we miss the blessings of being used because we are still waiting for some additional sign from God. God must shake His head in heaven and think, "I've given them the truth of my Holy Word, the example of my Son, and the guidance of the Holy Spirit. What other proof do they need to obey me?"

Have you been asking the Lord for more proof before you serve Him (Deuteronomy 6:16)? Dear child of God, the burden of proof doesn't lie with God — it lies with you. God uses those who are willing to believe and obey Him. Won't you prove you are not only a hearer of the Word, but also a doer? "But be ye doers of the word, and not hearers only, deceiving your own selves" (James 1:22).

Lord, forgive me for doubting Your provision to do all that You ask. Increase my faith and help me to follow You each day in the truths You teach through Your Word. In the name of Jesus, Amen.]]>Sun, 05 Jan 2014 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/spiderman/
"I will praise thee; for I am fearfully and wonderfully made: marvellous are thy works; and that my soul knoweth right well" (Psalm 139:14).

We were expecting company one night for supper and were a long way from getting a meal prepared. In fact, I hadn't even bought the groceries yet. I decided a quick trip to the grocery store was necessary during our afternoon homeschool break to save myself from being unprepared for our evening guests.

When I returned home from the store, I noticed the house was unusually quiet. A red flag went off in my mind, and I checked on my children. Three of them were all fine and busy doing the work I had left for them. However, when I went into my oldest son's room, I found a surprise that was quite unbelievable. Even today, I am not quite sure how he managed to accomplish it.

We had been studying about spiders in our science lessons that week. He had read his workbook, answered his worksheet questions, and studied for his quiz the next day. He had even turned an old aquarium into a nice little home for two, big barn spiders he had found. Yet, today he went one step further. He wanted to know what it really felt like to be a spider. Using every spool of thread in my sewing can, he had weaved a web within his entire room. The web extended in all directions from the ceiling to the floor, and he really looked like a spider waiting for some unsuspecting prey as he sat on his bed in the middle of the room. Smiling, he quoted from Mary Howitt's poem, "Will you walk into my parlour?"

My first inclination was to be upset at the wasted thread, but then I had to smile at my son. He had done a far better job of teaching himself about spiders than I had done. In addition, I learned a valuable lesson that day. My son didn't learn like his sisters and brother. God had uniquely created him to learn differently. My lesson plans were going to have to change, and fast, to match him!

Father, what an awesome God You are! How can You create so many people in the world and not have even two who are alike? I humbly come and ask for the wisdom I need to teach each of the children You have given to me. Thank You for the unique blessing each one is to our homeschooling family. In Jesus' name, Amen.]]>Sat, 04 Jan 2014 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/the-dangers-of-disrespect/
"Honor thy father and thy mother, as the LORD thy God hath commanded thee" (Deuteronomy 5:16a).

Disrespectful actions of children, no matter their age, are abhorred by God, and there's no place that's worse to see the disrespectful actions of children than in a homeschooling family. This serious offense robs parents of their authority to teach and destroys the family unit. Repeatedly, God warns children to honor their parents with loving hearts of obedience (Exodus 20:12, Ephesians 6:2). Mouthy and sarcastic children who demean or belittle their parents' leadership and decision making are clearly on a path to destruction.

King David's son, Absalom, is one such example in the Bible. The tragic story of this young man's disrespect toward his father is recorded in 2 Samuel 15-18. Absalom not only disrespected his father by defying him, but he also attempted to usurp David's reign as king. Secretly, he won the hearts of the people and eventually drove David from Jerusalem in fear of his life. The total defiance of Absalom toward his father culminated in the public act of sexually violating his father's wives on a rooftop. Fortunately, King David had enough loyal followers to stop his foolish son, but it came at the cost of his son's life.

What about your children? Do they know the boundaries between respectfully disagreeing and disrespect? Because homeschooling families interact 24/7, we have even more opportunity to let this problem begin in our relationships. As parents, God wants us to deal with this form of rebellion in our children as soon as it arises. After all, if children cannot learn to respect their parents, chances are they will also have difficulty respecting the Lord.

Father, sometimes it seems easier to look the other way or laugh it off when my children fail to respect me. Help me to realize the importance You place on correcting this problem when my children challenge me in ways that are inappropriate. In Jesus' name, Amen.]]>Fri, 03 Jan 2014 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/homeschoolers-are-healthier/

Researchers recently looked into the eating and activity habits of homeschoolers and found them to be thinner, healthier, and fitter than their public school peers.

The study concentrated on 95 kids between the ages of seven and 12 in Birmingham, Alabama. Researchers measured the children’s fat mass, trunk fat, and total body fat. The homeschoolers had lower values in all three fat measurements, though the two groups received about the same amount of physical activity.

Researchers were openly surprised by the results, which challenged their theory that children who spend more time at home may be at risk for excessive weight gain.

“Based on previous research, we went into this study thinking home-schooled children would be heavier and less active than kids attending traditional schools,” said Dr. Michelle Cardel, the study’s lead author. “We found the opposite.”

Eating habits may make the difference – specifically, lunchtime meals. When the children and their parents reported midday meals, researchers learned that the public school kids consumed considerably more empty calories, sodium, and sugar. Free from government-mandated school lunches and nutritional guidelines, homeschoolers generally ate more nutritious foods.

“We think these differences may reflect the uniqueness of the home environment in home-school families, but future research is needed to know for sure,” said Cardel, whose study was published in the research journal Obesity in September.

Studies also show that homeschoolers rest easier than their public school peers. Find out why in our April Homeschool View article, “Homeschoolers Get More Sleep.”

New Year’s resolutions can be conquered. Yes, even yours. But are you more likely to get your goal or watch it fall by the wayside? Let’s find out.

1. I chose my 2014 resolution because:a) I want my family and friends to stop nagging me about it.b) I’m frustrated with struggling to reach it after failing in previous years. I want to rest easy knowing it’s behind me.c) It was a no-brainer. I don’t have a lot of issues to tackle.d) My resolution reflects the type of person I’m hoping to become in the upcoming year.

2. I would best describe my attitude when I set my resolution as:a) Optimistic, but concerned about my stick-to-itiveness.b) Nonchalant. I have several self-improvement goals, and this seemed like the most obvious.c) Thoughtful after considering how realistic my goal is and the steps I’ll take to reach it.d) Down. I was feeling bad about myself or my current situation.

3. Your family and friends know that when you say something:a) To take it with a grain of salt. Occasionally you rethink your position.b) You’re often seeking feedback and reasons to support or challenge your statement.c) To refrain from questions. You mean it.d) They love you, even when you’re indecisive or moody.

4. If you set a goal to get organized, you would be most likely to:a) Rush to attack the closets, cupboards, and hideaways with checklists, an inventory of items to donate, and a label gun.b) Clean, sort, and pitch as you have time without setting a time frame that would pin you down too much.c) Elicit family help, and let them decide what needs to be sorted, tossed, and donated.d) Make some lists and get to it when you have the time.

5. How do you typically deal with setbacks?a) When I make a mistake, I discipline myself.b) I don’t move forward until I have a plan for avoiding that mistake in the future.c) Pause for a moment before moving on. Lingering doesn’t help.d) Turn the mistake into a positive. Everything can be a lesson.

6. Do you have a reward strategy?a) Just getting there is reward enough.b) I plan to buy or do something really nice for myself when I hit the goal.c) I haven’t given much thought to my reward yet, but I should do something.d) I have small rewards lined up as I hit mini-goals along the way, and a big reward when I get there.

7. You make an offer on a house for sale, and the homeowner wants to haggle. You’d be most likely to:a) Take a few days to think before drafting a reply that reiterates your offer but leaves room for compromise and probably won’t rock the boat.b) Let your agent handle it.c) Freeze for a moment and question your judgment. Maybe the owner knows best.d) Reply with a prepared list of reasons your offer is fair, given the house’s age and potential upkeep costs.

8. Do you have a support system in place?a) Me, myself, and I. I’d rather keep it to myself in case I don’t succeed.b) My family will support me, even though they don’t totally understand what I’m doing.c) A friend set a similar goal, so we’re going to help each other stay on track.d) Not yet, but I’m sure my church group will step up.

9. How confident are you about your resolution?a) Fifty-fifty.b) No doubt.c) I’ll try.d) Fairly certain.

Goal-Getter (28-32 points)You are in a prime position to consider the best ways to improve your life this New Year. Your willpower is worth the time and effort, so get started and good luck!

Great Shot (22-27 points)Your achievement is under your control – other people can advise and support you, but it’s your actions which need to change to produce the results you want.

Toss-Up (13-21 points)Bear in mind that a slip-up is almost inevitable at some point, and you must not let this become an excuse to give up. When it happens, you will need to draw on your reserves of self-belief and strength, so build these qualities as often as you can.

Maybe Next Year (8-12 points)Reaching your goal may not be in the cards, but don’t give up! Hone in on your goal, surround yourself with people who can keep you accountable, and strengthen your backbone a bit. You may surprise yourself!

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In the Netherlands, a small but fierce homeschool population is combating threats to outlaw homeschooling with imagination and information.

In November, about 100 Dutch homeschoolers staged a flash mob in The Hague in response to a homeschooling ban proposed by State Secretary for Education Sander Dekker.

Called “Dutch home educators in the spotlight,” the flash mob’s videotaped performance included a colorful, choreographed routine to songs about freedom, kids demonstrating science experiments and other typical homeschooling activities, and homeschoolers riding unicycles. In addition to passing out flyers that declared, “Home education must remain possible,” organizers of the flash mob launched a website dedicated to educating non-homeschoolers about the practice.

More than 400 children are homeschooled in the Netherlands, one of nine countries that allow homeschooling with severe restrictions. Thirty countries permit homeschooling, some ban it but rarely prosecute, and others don’t address it in their laws. A report published in the Examiner provides a list of countries that permit, regulate, and ban homeschooling. In 2014, Dutch legislators will decide whether or not to become the 29th country to outlaw homeschooling.

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Whether you greet the idea of New Year’s resolutions with a grin or a groan, it’s hard not to feel hopeful as you peel the plastic away from that shiny new calendar. Maybe you’ve resolved to get to the gym twice a week, for example, or to deflate your ballooning electric bill by conserving energy around the home. While annual goals run the gamut, the aspirations that are closest to our hearts are often the ones that last. So why not take a cue from common New Year’s resolutions and dedicate 2015 to making your homeschool the very best that it can be? Here are a few suggestions for getting started.

1. Get going. Some will tackle the New Year by hopping off the couch and onto an exercise bike, so follow the fitness aficionados and up the activity in your homeschool. Encourage your child’s enthusiasm for earth science, for example, by visiting a nearby nature preserve, or fan a fascination for art or history by heading to a local museum. Leave your schedule flexible enough to allow for supplemental activities, but plan ahead whenever possible to pack in a variety.

2. Reward progress. Just as new incentives will inspire many to quit a bad habit this year, small perks can also encourage peak performance from your child. Set goals for earning higher grades in challenging subjects, reading classic books or the Bible, or mastering a difficult selection on an instrument, and salute strides with a half-day off or a subscription to a quality, age-appropriate magazine.

3. Slim down. Keeping the pounds off is a popular New Year’s promise. Why not apply that philosophy to your homeschool by thinning out clutter? If your student’s curriculum doesn’t offer electronic recordkeeping, consider transferring grades and transcripts to an electronic spreadsheet. If there’s an art project or piece of creative writing you can’t bear to toss, consider scanning it (if it’s two-dimensional). Creating digital copies will make it easier to part with some of the paper, and as your load lightens, so will your outlook.

4. Learn something new. It’s true that children are like sponges when it comes to picking up knowledge, but it’s also a fact that teachers can’t help but soak up what their children are learning, too. As many set goals to learn new skills in the New Year, encourage hobbies you and your child can take up together. If your child shows an interest in photography, for instance, build a pinhole camera to explore how light and shadows work together to capture an image. You can even brush up on your own shutter skills by renting an SLR (Single Lens Reflex) camera or picking up a secondhand model. If photography isn’t your child’s speed, see if a new language or instrument strikes a chord.

5. Stay in touch. Thankfully, technology offers ample opportunities for your student to reach out to family and make new friends while learning and having fun. If your child uses text messaging, for instance, you can review spelling or vocabulary words by texting answers. You can also teach through social networking by having your child practice sentence composition on Twitter and Facebook, where restricted character counts encourage concise sentence structure.

6. Balance your budget. A New Year’s resolution to manage money better needn’t be limited to household expenses. You can also cut costs in your homeschool by taking advantage of sales and choosing a curriculum that can be used with multiple students.

7. Express yourself. If you’ve vowed to spend more time on scrapbooking, blogging, or journaling, let some of that creative energy spill over into your homeschool. You can jazz up January and beyond with out-of-the-box projects, such as dramatizing a piece of fiction through puppetry, exploring physics by building a backyard trebuchet, or reviewing concepts by putting a new spin on a classic board game.

8. Keep the faith. The fresh start we pledge to make each New Year is an ideal time for spiritual recommitment. One way in which you can re-energize your homeschool’s relationship with God is to set aside time for daily prayer and Bible study, not only for your student, but also for yourself. You can even join Christian homeschooling groups and offer to host a day of school for fellow homeschoolers.

Do you have any tips for New Year’s resolutions to make 2015 your best year of homeschooling yet? Share them below!

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I stood looking at the photographs pasted on the outside edge of my daughter's bedroom mirror. What had started as a few pictures of a look-alike movie star had now turned into a collage of movie-star photographs that left only one small space for her reflection in the middle of the mirror. I sighed as my heart cringed.

Apparently, the homeschooling curriculum I had used to teach my daughter her value in God's eyes wasn't working. Satan's lies were convincing my daughter to identify herself with the world's definition of beauty. I cried as I thought of the depression she seemed to display each morning. "No wonder," I said to myself. "Who could compare to each of these air-brushed beauties?" How could I teach her that Proverbs 31:30 was true. "Favour is deceitful, and beauty is vain: but a woman that feareth the LORD, she shall be praised."

If there ever was a beauty in the Old Testament, Esther was it! Chosen from the most beautiful women in Persia to be the wife of King Ahasuerus, the meaning of her name came true: she was a "star." Although she wasn't in a major motion picture, God cast her for a part that would save the entire nation of Jews. The true beauty of her character, which lay in her faithfulness to Jehovah God and His people, shone when she chose to listen to God instead of her fears and claimed, "If I perish, I perish" (Esther 4:16).

Someday I look forward to meeting this beautiful woman in heaven, for it was her story that turned around my daughter's life. Praise God for the wisdom to teach our children the truth and the mighty power of His Holy Word that is tested and sure, never returning void. "So shall my word be that goeth forth out of my mouth: it shall not return unto me void, but it shall accomplish that which I please, and it shall prosper in the thing whereto I sent it" (Isaiah 55:11).

Jesus, make my heart sensitive to my children's needs and lead me as I teach them Your truths. The world's ways seem so much stronger at times, and it is only by Your hand that I know what to do. Thank you, Jesus, for being the most beautiful thing in my life. In Your precious name, Amen.]]>Thu, 02 Jan 2014 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/the-passion-of-homeschooling/
"Thou compassest my path and my lying down, and art acquainted with all my ways" (Psalm 139:3).

What makes people invest 20 years or more of their lives to homeschool their children? Ask homeschooling parents anywhere, and they'll tell you that it's for the joy of seeing their children learn. Watching your child discover God's creation creates a passion that transcends any cheap shot from uninformed critics. Daily, you have the opportunity to discover, play, and learn what God has planned for your family. You share love, devotion, loyalty, and faithfulness as you work toward educational goals and a deeper faith in Christ. Perhaps the question should be, who wouldn't want to experience a life homeschooling their children?

As Christians, Christ desires a far greater passion from us as we live for Him. Lukewarm love is something He detests in His children (Revelation 3:15-16). Every day we have the opportunity to love and learn from the Most High as we read His Word and pray. Confessing our sins daily (1 John 1:9) keeps our hearts close to the Father, so the Holy Spirit can guide and fill us with His presence. God's jealous love desires an intimacy with us that transcends any love known in this world.

Have you experienced the passion of Christ? He gave His life for your sins and wants to give you an abundant life full of His love. "I am come that they might have life, and that they might have it more abundantly" (John 10:10b). Rediscover the joy of being called His child this new year and yield yourself to His Lordship. "And he that loveth me shall be loved of my Father, and I will love him, and will manifest myself to him" (John 14:21b).

Jesus, thank You for Your wondrous love and the joy of being in Your family. Teach me to love You more fully and help me to yield my life to You in every area. In Your name I pray, Amen.]]>Wed, 01 Jan 2014 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/meeting-of-the-minds/
"The way of a fool is right in his own eyes: but he that hearkeneth unto counsel is wise" (Proverbs 12:15).

Our homeschooling days would never have survived without incorporating family meetings. Every week, we sat down for a discussion time with our children to ask for their feedback about our homeschooling schedule and activities. Curriculum choices that weren't working were replaced with options that met each child's learning style. Unrealistic goals based on prepackaged teacher's keys were adapted to fit the abilities of each child. The enlistment of our children's insightful and creative opinions helped to keep our homeschooling interesting, workable, and fun.

The early Christian church would never have survived if a meeting of the minds hadn't happened as well (Acts 15). There was a big division between the Jewish and Gentile believers about the matter of circumcision for salvation. The apostles and the elders in Jerusalem needed to agree on the truth of the Gospel message of Christ. Fortunately, several apostles kept the church from dividing by presenting Scripture that brought these two camps together (vs. 1-12).

Are you sensing some issues in your homeschool and the need for change in the new year? Plan a meeting of the minds with your children. You'll be amazed at their ideas and insights and find the unity in homeschooling that God desires for your family. "Without counsel purposes are disappointed: but in the multitude of counsellors they are established" (Proverbs 15:22).

Lord, forgive me for failing to counsel with my own children about homeschooling. Give me wisdom to hear Your voice as You speak through their heartfelt needs. In Jesus' name, Amen.]]>Tue, 31 Dec 2013 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/my-unknown-angel/
"Take heed that ye despise not one of these little ones; for I say unto you, That in heaven their angels do always behold the face of my Father which is in heaven" (Matthew 18:10).

We had been camped out for almost three hours waiting for the arena doors to open. We had come early to get in line for a free concert of our family's favorite Christian artist. Normally, I avoid crowds, especially when I have four small children to navigate through them, but this opportunity was too good to miss. My children had worked so hard homeschooling through the spring, and this outing was the rewarding finish to a productive school year. We were all looking forward to praising the Lord with wonderful music and meeting new Christian friends.

Finally, the time came for the doors to be opened. We were only 20 rows from the entry, and we knew we'd get the choicest seats available. With thousands of people around us, my husband and I huddled the children between us as we inched our way forward. As soon as the doors opened, however, we felt a change come over the crowd. Like a crazed flock of sheep, everyone wanted to be the first into the building and began pushing forward. My husband and I looked at each other in panic and realized our children were getting crushed by the force of the crowd. We both tried to push back, but it was no use.

Then something happened that I'll never forget. An enormous man standing behind us saw our dilemma. Making a barrier between us and the crowd with his huge, football-player frame, he turned and shouted at the crowd, "BACK OFF! You're hurting these children up here!" Immediately, everyone stopped their pushing, and we continued filing our way through the door. As we passed through the entrance, I turned to thank this wonderful man who had delivered us, but he was gone. I quickly scanned the crowd in both directions thinking he would be easy to spot, but I never saw him again.

I suppose some would say we exaggerated the details in our minds or think this gentleman simply slipped by us without us seeing him, but I still believe, even to this day, that God used an angel to protect our children from being hurt. "For he shall give his angels charge over thee, to keep thee in all thy ways" (Psalm 91:11).

Lord, thank You for Your protective love that cares for my family each day. Even when I cannot see it, help me to remember that You will never lead us where Your love cannot keep us. In Jesus' name, Amen.]]>Mon, 30 Dec 2013 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/transformations/
"When I was a child, I spake as a child, I understood as a child, I thought as a child: but when I became a man, I put away childish things" (1 Corinthians 13:11).

Everyone needs to grow up, including the children of homeschoolers. However, sometimes we make the homeschool nest so comfortable that our children stave off responsibilities they should be assuming as adults. We need to stop pacifying them with material comforts and encourage instead their desire to provide for themselves. After all, homeschooling means teaching our children to learn how to work, as well as how to think.

Sometimes we like our comfortable spiritual nest, too, and fail to grow into mature believers. The apostle Paul had much to say to the new Christians living in Corinth. He was looking for followers of Christ who were ready to feed on the meat of the Word; instead, he found selfishness, jealousy, and strife (1 Corinthians 3:1-2). The writer to the Hebrews was also concerned about the lack of spiritual maturity in believers when he penned: "For every one that useth milk is unskillful in the word of righteousness: for he is a babe. But strong meat belongeth to them that are of full age, even those who by reason of use have their senses exercised to discern both good and evil" (Hebrews 5:13-14).

What about you? Do you want just enough of Christ to get into heaven, or have you grown up in the Lord? The testimony of your salvation experience is not the only thing you should be sharing. If you are chewing on the meat of God's Word, your prayer life will be vibrant, and your testimony will reflect what God is teaching you in your life today! "But grow in grace, and in the knowledge of our Lord and Saviour Jesus Christ" (2 Peter 3:18a).

Lord, thank You for Your patient love that pushes me to trust You more. Give me a new hunger for You and Your Word today, so I will become the mature person in Christ whom You desire. In Jesus' name, Amen.]]>Sun, 29 Dec 2013 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/robbing-god/
"Will a man rob God? Yet ye have robbed me. But ye say, Wherein have we robbed thee? In tithes and offerings" (Malachi 3:8).

When our children were young, we felt convicted by God to teach them the principle of tithing. We incorporated this lesson into our homeschooling and purchased little, white glow-in-the-dark church banks in which they could place their dimes, quarters, nickels, and pennies. When they earned money for chores or received money as gifts, we taught our children how to determine one tenth of the amount and place it into their bank. They loved the sound of the dropping coins and felt so grown up as they placed their own money into the offering plate each Sunday at church.

As time went by, we thought the habit of tithing had been firmly established in our children. We expected them to be diligent in giving part of their hard-earned money from part-time jobs to the Lord. However, the temptations to buy new CDs, videos, clothes, and teenage toys proved to be too strong. One day I noticed all my son's new purchases, and I wondered where the money had come from to buy them. I questioned whether or not he had been tithing, and he sheepishly confessed that he had not.

Stealing from God isn't a new temptation. Years ago, the sons of Eli the priest in 1 Samuel 2 thought they could steal God's portion of the offerings being presented by the people of Israel. Although the priests were entitled to receive a portion of the offering for themselves (Leviticus 7), Eli's sons were confiscating the choicest part of the offering, which was to be given to God. God's rebuke for this sin was a judgment that was swift and sure. Both of his sons saw death on the same day (1 Samuel 2:34).

What about you? Are you robbing God of His portion of your family's income? With all the bills and homeschooling expenses for each month, the temptation to steal what belongs to God is just as strong today. Take God at His Word instead and claim the promise of Malachi 3:10: "Bring ye all the tithes into the storehouse, that there may be meat in mine house, and prove me now herewith, saith the LORD of hosts, if I will not open you the windows of heaven, and pour you out a blessing, that there shall not be room enough to receive it."

Lord, give me strength this day to make a change in the way we spend our money. I know all the blessings we have are from You. Guard my heart against the temptation to take Your portion for me and let my actions and faith honor You. In Jesus' name, Amen.]]>Sat, 28 Dec 2013 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/dying-hope/
I found my daughter crying in her bedroom holding her cat for comfort. Lying on the bed was her literature workbook opened to the homeschool assignment she had been scheduled to complete that day. Not knowing the source of her pain, I offered a hug and waited for her to express her heartache. "Mom, that story was so sad," she cried. I looked at the page she had been reading and saw she had finished O. Henry's "The Last Leaf."

Her compassionate heart had connected with the surprise ending for which O. Henry is noted. Seriously ill with pneumonia, a young woman lay in the hospital waiting to die. She knew she was near death and was determined to die when the last leaf fell from the vine outside her hospital window. Her close friend, roommate, and fellow artist had spoken to the doctor, and the doctor told her that her friend had little chance of surviving unless she could convince her dying friend to want to live. Yet, no amount of encouragement would change the dying girl's mind.

Distraught, the friend went to the old man who lived in the apartment underneath theirs for help. This self-imposed guardian of these two young girls and washed-up artist, who was always "waiting to paint his next masterpiece," discovered the answer to give hope to the dying girl. However, in the process, the story takes a surprising turn of events.

We all like to read and hear stories of noble characters who remain faithful through difficult times with sacrificial love, but the most moving story is found in God's Word when Jesus faced death on the cross for our sins. As He said to Peter in Matthew 26:53, He could have called on 12 legions of angels to spare Him from such a horrible death, but He didn't. Instead, He stayed on the cross through each nail that was hammered into His hands and suffered each agonizing breath until He said, "It is finished" (John 19:30).

Does the story of Jesus' sacrifice on the cross move you to tears? Take a moment today to reread chapters 22 and 23 of Luke and remember what a loving Lord we serve. Then, don't forget to read the best surprise ending ever written in chapter 24. Hallelujah, Christ arose!

Lord, like the faithful servant who invested his talents wisely, I want to be found faithful when You return. Help me to sacrificially love and teach my children every lesson they need to learn to become people of character. In Jesus' name, Amen.]]>Fri, 27 Dec 2013 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/trim-10-percent-off-health-and-fitness-courses/
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I thought my daughter was going to pull out her hair when she said, "Mom, I just don't get this!" We were studying the concepts of greater than, less than, and equal to in math, and she simply couldn't remember which sign to use when there was a lesser value. I explained, "A simple way to remember is that the sign should point to the smaller value." My daughter smiled as she began to understand and exclaimed, "Mom, you're so smart!"

Unfortunately, the concepts of greater than and less than do not work in the spiritual matters of our lives. Many times we try to make our sins appear less by comparing them to the sins of others. If we haven't murdered, stolen, or used drugs to harm our bodies, we may think we're not too bad. However, comparing our sins to others doesn't make them less or greater. James 2:10 tells us, "For whosoever shall keep the whole law, and yet offend in one point, he is guilty of all." No matter if you've told a little white lie or you've just robbed a bank, in God's eyes your sin is sin. We may try to point our finger at someone else to think we are better, but like the old story goes, pointing at the sins of others always leaves three fingers pointing back at you!

Do you try to justify your "little" sins by saying they're less than someone else's sin? According to the world, you might have the right answer, but not according to God. Christ died an agonizing death on the cross for you because His love was greater than any of your sins, big or small. Stop comparing and start confessing your sins to Him today.

Jesus, forgive me for thinking there is such a thing as "little" sin. I know each of my sins nailed You to the cross, and I bow before You today in repentance. Please, cleanse my heart and fill me with the Holy Spirit. In Your name, Amen.]]>Thu, 26 Dec 2013 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/a-love-letter/
I see you sitting there tired, worn out, and empty. Another year of homeschooling has used you up. You feel helpless like a baby. That's OK. I know all about being a baby. I was born one for you many years ago. I know the ache you feel to be held and loved, and that is why I came. I knew you would be sitting there in the future, praying and asking me to hold you, and I am, dear one. Let me give you a special Christmas gift of love as I breathe new life into the center of your soul.

Do you know that I think of you every moment of every day? I watch you patiently homeschool the children I gave you, and I know how badly you feel when you fail and lose your temper. I forgive you, my child, just as you forgive your children when they make a mistake. "It's OK. We'll try again," you say to them, and I'm telling you the same thing. I'm so proud of you and how you've followed me when I asked you to teach your children about me at home. Your sacrifice says that you love me. I know all about that, too. I left everything that was mine when I came from heaven. I know how you feel when the Father asks so much of you.

Look at me, my child. You may feel beat up, but do you know that you are still beautiful? I see that smile. Yes, you're still as beautiful as the day I created you. I love who you are, and I'm whispering your name. Can you hear me? Remember, my child, this is not your home. You really belong here with me in heaven, but I want you where you are now to love this family I gave you. Don't give up. I want you to trust me. I won't let you down. Every promise I've made is true, and someday, I'm coming back for you. For now, rest in my love, and tonight and even tomorrow when you wake up, I'll be here watching over you. I love you. Merry Christmas.

"Seeing then that we have a great high priest, that is passed into the heavens, Jesus the Son of God, let us hold fast our profession. For we have not an high priest which cannot be touched with the feeling of our infirmities" (Hebrews 4:14-15a).

Jesus, thank You for the best Christmas gift I could ever receive, Your forgiveness and love. My heart sings with praise to You for understanding my every need. I love You, Jesus, and offer You my life again to use however You choose. In Your name I pray, Amen.]]>Wed, 25 Dec 2013 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/peace-on-earth/
"He hath delivered my soul in peace from the battle that was against me" (Psalm 55:18a).

The words on the Christmas card and the noise coming from our school room stood in stark contrast to one another. "Peace on Earth," the card read. "My, wouldn't that be nice?" I thought. I guess every homeschooling parent longs for a peaceful home, but hearing the crescendo in my children's voices, I knew that peace wasn't happening today at our house. Still, Christmas was coming, and I could hope, right?

As I thought more about peace on Earth, I wondered what Christ meant in John 14:27 when He said, "Peace I leave with you, my peace I give unto you: not as the world giveth, give I unto you. Let not your heart be troubled, neither let it be afraid." Then, the truth of this verse dawned on me. True peace is not the absence of arguments, violence, or wars. True peace is experiencing God's love instead of His wrath because we receive the forgiveness of sins through the blood of Christ by the power of the Holy Spirit. That means fighting children, threats of war, and even interruptions to homeschooling days need not change to experience the presence of Christ's peace in my life.

Would you like to find peace this Christmas? Don't look for the absence of problems. Look instead to the peacemaker whose birth made the angels of heaven proclaim, "Glory to God in the highest, and on earth peace, good will toward men" (Luke 2:14). Let the power of the Holy Spirit fill you this Christmas and give you the peace of Christ. Shalom! "These things I have spoken unto you, that in me ye might have peace. In the world ye shall have tribulation: but be of good cheer; I have overcome the world" (John 16:33).

Jesus, I praise You for the love, forgiveness, and peace You give to all who trust in You. Please, walk with me this Christmas and give me the peace of Your presence in my life. In Your holy name, Amen.]]>Tue, 24 Dec 2013 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/no-peeking/
"The secret of the LORD is with them that fear him; and he will shew them his covenant" (Psalm 25:14).

Christmas is such a fun time for secrets. At our house, our four children were not allowed to look into the closets or under our bed until all the gifts were wrapped. Since we were homeschooling, enforcing this rule was not too difficult. However, even after the presents had been wrapped, determining what was inside was sometimes easy for my children to figure out, especially as they got older and smarter. I learned that if I wanted to surprise them at Christmas, I needed to cleverly disguise the box in which the gift was wrapped, even if disguising it meant adding a brick for extra weight.

Have you ever wondered why Jesus disguised His spiritual truths in parables when He lived on Earth? Although He spoke to the multitudes, the gift of His truths about the kingdom of Heaven was hidden from those with hard hearts and ears who refused to listen (Matthew 13:10-15). The meaning of His message was only understood by those who sought the truth with repentant hearts.

Do the truths of God's Word seem hard to understand to you? When reading the Bible, you must realize the Scriptures "are spiritually discerned" (1 Corinthians 2:14b). That means unless you are born of the Spirit and filled with the Spirit, you will not understand God's Word. Ask the Holy Spirit to reveal the meaning of what you are reading in the Bible today. He promises to show you if you come with an obedient heart. "And ye shall seek me, and find me, when ye shall search for me with all your heart" (Jeremiah 29:13).

Father, open my mind to understand the truths of Your Word. I want to do Your will, but I need Your guidance. Speak to my heart in the power of the Holy Spirit and reveal what You are teaching me from Your Word today. In the name of Jesus, Amen.]]>Mon, 23 Dec 2013 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/christmas-cheer/
"She openeth her mouth with wisdom; and in her tongue is the law of kindness. Her children arise up, and call her blessed" (Proverbs 31:26, 28a).

"Let's go, Mom. Everyone is waiting for us in the car," cried my daughter as she ran out the door for the Christmas Eve program at church. I smiled at her enthusiasm and thought back to days when I was a young girl looking forward to Christmas. My Christmases were filled with relatives, oyster stew, chocolate covered cherries, Christmas programs at church, and opening gifts in knee-deep paper with my family of nine. Yet, my most cherished memories of Christmas were the hours my mother and I spent beforehand wrapping gifts for my family.

My mother had an insatiable love for celebrating Christ's birth. She shared God's love through brightly lit decorations, great food, and presents. Yes, my mother loved to give presents, and she chose me to help her wrap them. Together we spent hours making perfect bows and wrapping "just one more box." I considered helping her a great honor because she trusted me not to tell my brothers and sisters what was in their packages.

When I grew older, I realized why my mother and I had so many gifts to wrap each year. Knowing she couldn't give us much, my mother cleverly wrapped each part of a gift into as many boxes as possible. She knew our young minds couldn't comprehend value, but we could count. To a young mind, the more presents you had, the better.

Tonight, I stood in my mother's place. My homeschool family was smaller, but our money to make Christmas special was just as short. As I turned to shut off the light and walk out the door, I smiled as I saw the huge pile of gifts waiting to be opened when we returned. My daughter and I had just finished wrapping them. Some Christmas traditions are just worth passing on.

Lord, thank You for the sacrificial love of mothers. Like the Proverbs 31 woman, give me wisdom to love my family with special acts of kindness. Teach me how to make every day a special gift with the same love that was given to me. In Jesus' name, Amen.]]>Sun, 22 Dec 2013 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/broccoli-soup/
"A man's pride shall bring him low: but honour shall uphold the humble in spirit" (Proverbs 29:23).

The snow was gently falling as we sat down to enjoy our Christmas Eve supper of soup, sandwiches, and cookies. The candles were lit, and the light from the flickering flames made each homemade Christmas ornament hanging from the windows twinkle. The house was cozy and warm from a full day of cooking, and the fragrant aromas tantalized our taste buds. Four young faces were eagerly anticipating opening their Christmas gifts after the meal, and my husband and I smiled in satisfaction at God's blessings. With Grandpa and Grandma's arrival earlier that afternoon, the perfect Christmas scene was now complete.

I had worked so hard to make everything just right and wanted to impress my in-laws with a memorable Christmas. I had made this meal many times and felt confident as I dished out the two different choices of soup: chili or broccoli-cheese. As we closed our eyes and my husband offered a prayer of thanks to God, I looked down at my bowl. I couldn't believe my eyes. There, swimming on top of my broccoli soup, were a dozen gnat-like bugs. I whispered to myself in agony, "Where did they come from?" Then, I remembered. I had forgotten to wash the broccoli before putting it into the soup. I could feel my heart sink with embarrassment even before my husband finished his prayer. This was going to be a memorable Christmas, all right, especially for my mother-in-law who had just been served buggy, broccoli soup.

Many times our motives for wanting things are so wrong. We want to impress instead of bless, and pride is waiting to bring us to our knees. What about your petitions? Are you selfishly asking God for things just to make you look good? If you're doing most of the talking during your prayer time with God, there may be a problem. Let the Holy Spirit correct your attitude today and don't wait to be served your cup of humble soup. "Every one that is proud in heart is an abomination to the LORD: though hand join in hand, he shall not be unpunished" (Proverbs 16:5).

Lord, this Christmas, give me the same attitude that was in Christ Jesus when He emptied Himself to be born a man and die for my sins. Teach me again how to be a servant and care more about others than myself. In Jesus' name, Amen.]]>Sat, 21 Dec 2013 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/the-christmas-bean/
I'm not sure how the tradition got started. I think my daughter first started the idea since she was the best cake baker in our homeschool family. Every Christmas we baked a small cake for a birthday party in Sunday school for Jesus. Using only half the dough, my daughter decided to use the other half for individual cupcakes for our family. She thought decorating these cupcakes for each person at our Christmas Eve dinner would be fun, and then she had an inspiration. Why not hide an uncooked kidney bean in one of the cupcakes? The person who found the bean baked in his cupcake would be the first to open his gifts at Christmas.

Even today my daughter continues this Christmas tradition. In fact, our family's Christmas wouldn't be complete without it. That's how traditions get started, isn't it? Most times, traditions make our lives more meaningful. They give us a sense of security and a sense of roots and familiarity.

Unfortunately, traditions can sometimes sap the very life from us. When we allow the traditions and rituals in our worship to replace a vibrant relationship with Christ, we quench the Holy Spirit. Jesus rebuked the Pharisees for this sin when He said, "But in vain they do worship me, teaching for doctrines the commandments of men" (Matthew 15:9). God desires a circumcised heart that is tender and humble in worship. Paul warned the Colossians of the same problem: "Beware lest any man spoil you through philosophy and vain deceit, after the tradition of men, after the rudiments of the world, and not after Christ" (Colossians 2:8).

Any tradition can replace true love and heartfelt responses, but we must be especially careful not to approach our holy God only with token rituals begun by man. Christ's response to the woman at the well says how we should worship best: "But the hour cometh, and now is, when the true worshippers shall worship the Father in spirit and in truth: for the Father seeketh such to worship him. God is a Spirit: and they that worship him must worship him in spirit and in truth" (John 4:23-24).

Lord, forgive me when I think I've worshiped You simply by going to church or offering up a prayer. Help me remember that in the family of God, You desire a heartfelt love in my worship. I offer my love to You anew. In Jesus' name, Amen.]]>Fri, 20 Dec 2013 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/arise-o-sleeper/
"Wherefore he saith, Awake thou that sleepest, and arise from the dead, and Christ shall give thee light" (Ephesians 5:14).

Waking up my children in the wintertime usually brought an unwelcomed start to our homeschooling day. Most mornings my children were dead to the world because it was still dark outside. They responded like bears in hibernation — in lethargic slow motion. I felt like the evil stepmother in Cinderella as I forced them out of their beds to do their list of morning chores before breakfast. I was always glad for the change of seasons and embraced the longer and happier days of summer sunshine.

Waking up those who don't know the Lord can be a difficult task as well. Because they are dead in Christ, they can only be convicted of their sin by the power of the Holy Spirit. Our job as Christians is to shine the warmth of God's love on their lives and enjoy the privilege of telling them what Christ has done for us. However, according to Jude 22-23, we may face resistance: "And of some have compassion, making a difference: And others save with fear, pulling them out of the fire; hating even the garment spotted by the flesh." Sometimes the Holy Spirit may use us to kick, pull, or drag people out of their beds of sinful stupor.

God is a loving Father, and He desires that none perish (2 Peter 3:9). As we listen to the Holy Spirit's leading, we must be careful to do exactly as He leads to help others know the forgiveness of sins. Has the Lord laid someone on your heart who needs awakening from his sinful state? Don't be surprised if he initially rejects the joyful Good News of Christ's salvation. Some people are as crabby as an old bear, but God wants to change their hearts, too. Don't give up! Keep shining the warmth of God's love and seek His guidance. He will show you how to win over their hearts.

Lord, use me this Christmas season to show Your love to my stubborn neighbor. Let Your love shine through me and warm the coldness of his hard heart. Show me what to do and give me the words to say that will challenge him to hear Your voice and change his ways. In Jesus' name, Amen.]]>Thu, 19 Dec 2013 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/dream-stealer/
"No," I said again to my daughter for the hundredth time. "We don't have the money to buy a horse." As I heard myself saying the words, I felt like I was bursting her bubble, although I knew what I was saying was true. Any homeschooling family living on one income knows the careful planning and budgeting that has to be implemented just to pay for day-to-day living expenses.

A heart without dreams is like a house without windows, and I was beginning to realize the truth of that saying every time I told my daughter she couldn't have a horse. Then, an important question came to my mind. "Was I limiting and superseding what God may want?" Instead of automatically saying "no" to my daughter, I decided to go with her to God in prayer. We placed her dream of a horse into His hands and waited for God's answer.

Two months later, I received an unusual phone call from a lady in our town. She wanted to know if she could have permission to give her grown daughter's old 4-H horse to my daughter as a Christmas present. I couldn't believe what she was saying and was humbled by God and her offer. Needless to say, that Christmas was one my daughter never forgot. Not only did she receive a new horse, but this same lady also bought my daughter a new bridle, breast collar, halter, and matching saddle pad!

I don't know who learned the greater lesson that Christmas, my daughter or me. She had tenaciously hung onto her dream, and I had learned that God is much bigger than my faith or pocketbook. What about you? Are you automatically saying "no" to your children, or are you leading them to the Lord and saying, "Let's pray"? "Now unto him that is able to do exceeding abundantly above all that we ask or think, according to the power that worketh in us, unto him be glory" (Ephesians 3:20-21a).

Father, what a great and mighty God You are! Forgive me for failing to lead my children to You, the Creator and giver of every good and perfect gift. This Christmas, open our eyes to see Your love and give thanks again for the gift of Your Son, Jesus. In His name we pray, Amen.]]>Wed, 18 Dec 2013 00:59:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/repeat-lessons/
"Jesus Christ the same yesterday, and to day, and for ever" (Hebrews 13:8).

Young children love consistency in homeschooling lessons. Playing the same game or reading the same book repeatedly gives them a sense of accomplishment. Repetition helps them master letters, words, and mathematical operations and provides a strong foundation for their future learning. Because these foundational lessons are so important, we can be thankful young children are willing to learn through repetition.

God, too, repeatedly teaches us the same lessons in life. Just when we think we've mastered a spiritual truth, such as obedience and submission, Satan comes and tricks us. We forget what we have learned from God's Word, and we fall into sin. Because God never changes, He lovingly takes us back to the beginning and shows us again how to live for Him.

Are you finding yourself relearning an old truth you thought you'd never forget? Don't let prideful thinking cause you to ignore this repeated lesson. Humbly acknowledge again that you need His love and wisdom to win over sin's temptation. "Wherefore let him that thinketh he standeth take heed lest he fall" (1 Corinthians 10:12).

Father, sometimes I seem to continue to battle the same sins over and over again. Thank You for Your forgiving love. Please, help me to remain faithful in what You have taught, so I might glorify You today. In Your Son's name, Amen.]]>Tue, 17 Dec 2013 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/feeble-excuses/
I was listening to my daughter as she gave me the feeble excuse, "But Mom, the rest of the homeschool group is going!" I already knew my answer was going to be "no" to this unchaperoned activity of co-ed young teens, but her words caused me to think about the need we all feel to be like everyone else. I remembered using the same poor excuse with my parents and hearing the same "would you jump off a cliff if everyone else did it, too" lecture. Why do we have such a need to be like others?

God had been leading His people ever since He brought them out of Egypt. Why did they think they needed a king now? Moses, the judges, and the prophets had protected, exhorted, and provided directly for His people, but now the people wanted Samuel to find a king to rule over them, so they could be like the other nations around them (1 Samuel 8:21-22). Samuel tried to warn them what having a king would do to their lives, but they wouldn't listen. God's response in 1 Samuel 8:7b is probably the answer to all the generations of young people who have ever used the "but everyone else is doing it" excuse: "For they have not rejected thee, but they have rejected me, that I should not reign over them."

What excuse are you telling God to justify your sinful actions? Do you find yourself participating in activities and making purchases so you can be like everyone else? If you are His child, He has a different plan for your life than to go with the flow. He wants to set you apart to be holy unto Himself. "As obedient children, not fashioning yourselves according to the former lusts in your ignorance: But as he which hath called you is holy, so be ye holy in all manner of conversation; Because it is written, Be ye holy; for I am holy" (1 Peter 1:14-16).

Jesus, I stand convicted of my sinful selfishness. I yield my life to Your correction and ask You to cleanse me of those things that do not glorify You. My body is Your temple, and I give You all that I am today. In Your precious name, Amen.]]>Mon, 16 Dec 2013 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/dying-to-self/
"I am crucified with Christ: nevertheless I live; yet not I, but Christ liveth in me: and the life which I now live in the flesh I live by the faith of the Son of God, who loved me, and gave himself for me" (Galatians 2:20).

Homeschooling is not what you thought. Those images of perfectly happy children soaking in your words of wisdom have evaporated. You feel like you have bitten off more than you can chew. You are reevaluating. Homeschooling involves sacrificing more of your precious day than you intended. "What about time for me?" you ask.

God commands us to sacrifice all that we are to Him. Romans 12:1 says, "I beseech you therefore, brethren, by the mercies of God, that ye present your bodies a living sacrifice, holy, acceptable unto God, which is your reasonable service." Living to please yourself should no longer have a place in your life. God wants you to move beyond the immediate to the eternal and trust Him to lead you by faith. Your flesh will continue to cry out, "What about me?", but as you nail those desires to the cross, you will experience a new dimension to your homeschooling and your personal walk with God. His plan for you is much bigger than a new outfit, a new house, a trip, or whatever you think makes you feel content. Let Him teach you how to homeschool and bring those things into your life that will make you truly happy.

Lord, forgive me for thinking that this world is all about me. Show me how to say "no" to those things of the flesh that cause me to want my own way and give up homeschooling. In Jesus' name, Amen.]]>Sun, 15 Dec 2013 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/dedicated-dads/
"And, ye fathers, provoke not your children to wrath: but bring them up in the nurture and admonition of the Lord" (Ephesians 6:4).

If you're a homeschool mom, you've probably experienced the feeling of being unappreciated by the world, right? Imagine then, what your husband must feel like as he quietly contributes to your family's homeschooling day. Even though you get some credit for doing the majority of teaching, he usually receives no recognition at all. He remains unnoticed by both friends and family (sometimes his own). Perhaps it is time to consider some of the ways he faithfully supports your children's educational success, such as the following:

• Providing the working capital to keep your school from going in the red. Because of his hard-earned income, you are able to buy curriculum and go on field trips.

• Being the substitute teacher who gives you a breather. Without the extra support of reading stories, practicing spelling words, or teaching a particular subject area, you would certainly burn out as a 24/7 mom and teacher.

• Serving as principal of the school. Knowing that Dad is waiting to talk to them will provide that added discipline needed to curtail even the most disruptive or disrespectful child.

• Supplying an endless array of shop classes that will benefit your child later in life. Lessons in carpentry, mechanics, or plumbing will save your child the expense of having to pay for these services when he is an adult.

• Being the spiritual leader who guides your children into the most important truths they will ever learn — God loves them and sent His Son, Jesus, to be their Savior.

This Christmas, have your children show appreciation to their father. Why not give him the praise that's due and thank him for all his sacrificial acts of service and love with a thoughtful card or gift? Make this Scripture true in his life: "As arrows are in the hand of a mighty man; so are children of the youth. Happy is the man that hath his quiver full of them" (Psalm 127:4-5a).

Lord, forgive me for taking my husband for granted and not acknowledging his homeschooling efforts as I should. Thank You for the countless hours of love and support he provides every day. In Jesus' name, Amen.]]>Sat, 14 Dec 2013 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/time-for-recess/
"Better is an handful with quietness, than both the hands full with travail and vexation of spirit" (Ecclesiastes 4:6).

Somewhere during my teaching career as a homeschooling parent, I came up with the "brilliant" idea of cramming all our schoolwork into half days. By eliminating our mid-morning playtime, we could school for four to five hours straight and finish the day early. My reasoning for this decision was to provide more free time and field trips for my children, but later, I was forced to admit that my idea was really meant to make life more convenient for me. Every time we attempted this cramped schedule, my children became stressed. Praise God, they were smarter than me on this issue and said the trade off was simply not worth the strain. Time for recess was just as important as school time.

God made us, and He knows that the human body is frail (Psalm 103:14). I think He also knew that mankind would overextend itself, so He gave us the commandment for a Sabbath day to worship Him and rest from our labors (Exodus 20:8-11). This rest not only focuses our attention on our Creator God, but it also replenishes our body physically, emotionally, and spiritually. Like everyone else, homeschooling families are tempted to rob time from play and relaxation to keep up with the world's hurried pace.

Is your homeschooling schedule allowing time for breaks? Even homeschooling parents need time to walk away from the work for a few minutes. Don't just send your children outside to play — go with them! Let the Lord refresh you and take away the pressures of your homeschooling day. God is in control, and He will help you accomplish all that needs to be done. "There remaineth therefore a rest to the people of God. For he that is entered into his rest, he also hath ceased from his own works, as God did from his" (Hebrews 4:9-10).

Lord, show me again how to discipline myself with the right amounts of work and relaxation. Forgive me for making my day bigger than You've planned. Help me to pray and seek Your will each morning. In Jesus' name, Amen.]]>Fri, 13 Dec 2013 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/the-thorn/
"To every thing there is a season, and a time to every purpose under the heaven: . . . and a time to heal" (Ecclesiastes 3:1, 3b).

The pain in my daughter's palm was first apparent while practicing her piano lesson for school one day. A small discoloration and swelling was visible, but they seemed insignificant against the healthy flesh. As time went on, however, I observed the difficulty my daughter had while holding her pencil during schoolwork. I applied my own home remedies to help with the discomfort, but they brought little change. Eventually, a cyst was diagnosed by a specialist, and surgery was scheduled to remove it.

The night before her surgery, my daughter and I got home late after spending the evening roller skating with a group of homeschooling families. As I came to say goodnight, I looked at her hand one last time, since she had fallen and bumped her hand while skating. Amazingly, a crack had appeared in the swelling. Gently pulling the skin apart, I could just see the tip of something. Grabbing my tweezers and a flashlight, I proceeded to do "surgery." I stared in amazement as the cyst turned out to be an inch-long cactus thorn.

The incorrect diagnosis of my daughter's pain made me realize that we also misdiagnose the emotional problems in people's lives. Many times we fail to address the deeper issues of why a person is acting a certain way and simply respond to their outward displays of unloving behavior. Perhaps if we saw their problem through the eyes of the Great Physician, we would know how to help their healing process. Christ's actions illustrate this best when He didn't debate or argue with the Samaritan woman at the well in John 4:7-26. Instead, He saw into her heart and addressed the pain of her failed relationships with men and the need she had to be forgiven and loved.

Is there a prickly person God has placed in your life? You know, one of those people who can't be pleased no matter what you do. The behavior he is displaying could be the result of many hidden, painful experiences. Instead of reacting negatively or avoiding him, respond in love. If you ask the Lord for wisdom to see into his true problems, He will show you the loving surgery that may help heal his pain.

Father, please help me to love the unlovely people You've put into my life. Give me understanding to see the real thorn that is causing their pain and the desire to reach out with Your love. In Jesus' name, Amen.]]>Thu, 12 Dec 2013 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/the-cottonwood/
"For I am the LORD, I change not" (Malachi 3:6a).

The enormous cottonwood tree had stood for years outside the upstairs bedroom window of our farmhouse. As a young girl, I grew up playing in its branches and hiding behind its trunk during games of hide and seek. Its shade covered and cooled our house in the summer, and its branches protected us from the fierce north winds of winter. Now, as an adult, I looked out the same window and watched as my young daughters played the same childhood games during recess from homeschooling. A third generation had come to this farm home, and somehow the cottonwood had remained the same — strong, protective, and majestic.

Very few things remain the same during one's lifetime. Perhaps that is why we feel insecure and uncertain many times. As Christians, however, we can find comfort in knowing, "Jesus Christ the same yesterday, and to day, and for ever" (Hebrews 13:8). No matter what difficulties we face or what changes may come, God's constant and faithful love will never be different than it is today. We can always depend on the promises of His Word and the power of the Holy Spirit to guide and direct our lives.

What things in life are you counting on to always be around — a loved one, your money, your health, your children, a home? My old farmhouse is now torn down, my children are grown and have moved away, and the cottonwood is no more. The most important homeschool lesson has taken 25 years for me to learn — the only thing that will ever remain the same is the Lord. "Of old hast thou laid the foundation of the earth: and the heavens are the work of thy hands. They shall perish, but thou shalt endure: yea, all of them shall wax old like a garment; as a vesture shalt thou change them, and they shall be changed: But thou art the same, and thy years shall have no end" (Psalm 102:25-27).

Father God, I stand before You with thanksgiving and awe for being such a great and mighty God. Thank You for being the one thing in life on which I can always depend. I give You my worship and praise today. In Jesus' name, Amen.]]>Wed, 11 Dec 2013 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/homeschool-hazard-signs/
Like the road signs that warn us of impending danger, there are also warning signs for parents on the road of homeschooling. We can either take heed to the dangers that they clearly indicate lay ahead, or we can choose to disobey these common hazard signs and end up in a homeschooling wreck.

When you see the "Slippery When Wet" sign of tears in your discouraged child's face, chances are you're leaving out the loving encouragement needed when teaching academics. Pay attention to the "High Wind Warning" sign and give your child the godly correction and discipline he needs when you hear the floors pounding and the windows rattling from his rebellion. Don't ignore your child exceeding the posted "Speed Limit" sign. When you see him hurrying through schoolwork or skipping devotions to run to another extracurricular activity, you will need to take your child to parental court to reevaluate what's important in his life. Rest assured, disregarding these hazards and setting your homeschool on cruise will cause an accident.

God tells us to watch for warning signs in our spiritual lives, too. When we start to see the evidences of "adultery, fornication, uncleanness, lasciviousness, idolatry, witchcraft, hatred, variance, emulations, wrath, strife, seditions, heresies, envyings, murders, drunkenness, revellings, and such like" (Galatians 5:19b-21a), we are headed down the dangerous road of living life in the flesh. Before you are pulled over by the Holy Spirit, take the next exit and pray. Turn your heart back to the Lord and heed His warnings to keep your life headed in the right direction.

Lord, help me to recognize the danger signs of evil in my life and turn back to You. Teach me to stay close to You and Your Word, so I stay on the path that leads to righteousness. In Jesus' name, Amen.]]>Tue, 10 Dec 2013 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/how-much-wood/
Living and homeschooling on one income forced our family to heat our old farmhouse with wood for the winter months. Although our money was limited, the endless supply of wood available in our grove and the groves of neighbors was not. One math lesson my children wished they could have skipped learning was the dimension of a true cord of wood — 4' x 4' x 8'.

Since we needed seven or eight cords of wood each winter, we had to begin our work during the summer months. Working together as family included big hands, medium hands, and even little hands to put up our needed supply. However, one year, our wood cutting plans were changed by an unexpected course of events. My husband, who was the first link in our wood cutting regime, was hurt when cutting down a tree. As the tree fell, it twisted and hit him in the head, knocking him unconscious and leaving a huge gash in his forehead. My children and I were able to get him to the doctor, but we now faced the chore of cutting wood alone.

I normally cry when I am faced with overwhelming responsibility, but there was no time for tears. That fall, I forced myself to learn how to operate the chainsaw as proficiently as my husband. My children stepped up and took on my usual tasks, and somehow we completed all the work. We finished and stacked the last piece of wood just before the first snow.

Have you ever wanted to cry when facing the enormous challenge of homeschooling? Teaching our children, maintaining a home, and fulfilling the duties of a wife can bring you to tears. The responsibilities are just too much! Where will the strength come from to knock down each day's work? God is the One who will pick you up and give you the skills you need to teach your children. Even when you face topics or concepts you don't know, He will lead you to the right person to help. God has a burning passion for His children, and He won't leave you out in the cold. "And not only so, but we glory in tribulations also: knowing that tribulation worketh patience; And patience, experience; and experience, hope: And hope maketh not ashamed" (Romans 5: 3-5a).

Lord, thank You for being bigger than any giant I may face in homeschooling. Teach me how to be the best possible teacher for my children. I love You. In Jesus' name, Amen.]]>Mon, 09 Dec 2013 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/daisy/
What picture comes to your mind when you hear about a cow named Daisy? Do you see a soft-eyed jersey with a sweet, calm nature? That's what my son and I were hoping for when we adopted a baby twin calf from our neighbor one spring for a homeschooling project. Although she was not a jersey, she did have the sweetest face with big eyelashes that looked like the petals on a daisy. Thus she was named, and a new adventure in raising a baby calf began for my son.

My misconception of the nurturing abilities of small boys was blown away as my son faithfully cared for his new little friend. Dutifully, he mixed bottles of calf milk replacer for her to drink. Outings with friends were postponed to keep Daisy on a regular feeding schedule, and school assignments were done in the barn, so she wouldn't feel alone. Like a mother hen with her chicks, my son proved to be the ideal parent of this little life.

However, Daisy didn't stay little. With all her expert care, she began to grow stronger. At 300 pounds, I knew Daisy needed to be taught how to lead, so we could take her out to the pasture to eat grass. Accomplishing this task proved to be successful at first, but then at 500 pounds, Daisy started to push her weight around. Many times I watched my frustrated young son dragging and being half drug by Daisy as he took her from the barn to the pasture. When Daisy's weight reached 900 pounds, we had a real problem. Daily, she would jump the pasture fences to be near our house. No matter if flowers or gardens were in her way, Daisy went wherever she wanted. The time had come to sell Daisy, so she could discover her own nurturing abilities. However, one problem stood in the way — the love of my young son for this once little, but now huge cow. How do you sell your "child" and watch her leave?

Sending your children off into the world isn't easy for homeschoolers either. As we teach our children, we forget that someday they will need to leave our home. Keeping the right perspective and preparing yourself and your child for that day takes a determined effort. God's example of cutting the strings best demonstrates how we can face that day when our children need to leave. He sacrificed His only begotton Son when Christ came to this sinful Earth (John 3:16), so we could receive forgiveness. Praise Him "that spared not his own Son, but delivered him up for us all" (Romans 8:32a).

Father, thank You for the blessing of homeschooling my children. Help me to remember they belong to You, and someday, they will serve You on their own. Give me wisdom to know when that time has come. In Jesus' name, Amen.]]>Sun, 08 Dec 2013 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/no-more/
When we first started homeschooling, I was so excited to give my children every learning opportunity available. My schedule included lofty ideas of weekly field trips and my children's involvement in any sport, music, or church activity they desired. After all, we wanted to make sure no one accused us of isolating our children. However, after homeschooling three to four months, I realized my sanity was at stake if I continued to run my four children out the door to each of their daily activities. The half-completed projects and academic assignments that were left behind added additional proof that we had a problem. That's when I decided: no more.

New changes were made at our house, and we began to reevaluate what was important to our children's education. We simply did not have enough time to participate in everything that was available. Even worthwhile activities within our church and homeschool group had to be analyzed and required prayer. "Simplify" became my theme, and I rediscovered the joy of homeschooling our children again.

Moses was a great leader in the Bible, but even he had to learn how to simplify his life. After leading God's people out of Egypt, Moses had the awesome responsibility of making this mass of people get along with each other. Imagine dealing with the issues created by millions of people living together in the wilderness. Moses was burning out fast, trying to keep ahead of all the demands. Fortunately, Jethro, his father-in-law, noticed what was happening and gave him some practical ideas to get his life back (Exodus 18:17-27).

What about your family? Are you running from activity to activity and missing the whole point of homeschooling — you know, the schooling you're supposed to be doing at home? Life already has enough demands on us to hurry and miss the joy of loving relationships. Don't let the world pull you off the track God has given you in homeschooling. Guard your time together and pray before you say "yes" to one more thing. Remember, we're not isolating. We're equipping our children to grow in their walk with Christ, and that simply takes time. "See then that ye walk circumspectly, not as fools, but as wise, Redeeming the time, because the days are evil. Wherefore be ye not unwise, but understanding what the will of the Lord is" (Ephesians 5:15-17).

Lord, our family is on overload, and we need Your help. Programs and activities have replaced people and relationships, and we need Your discernment to rediscover why we are homeschooling. Bring us back to our first loves — You and each other. In Jesus' name, Amen.]]>Sat, 07 Dec 2013 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/down-but-not-out/
You know your homeschooling day hasn't gone well when your husband comes home from work and finds you crying. Some days being a Christian and a homeschooling mom puts you into situations that tear you down and bring you to tears. The rejection by others overwhelms, frightens, angers, and discourages you. The world does all it can do to convince you that you are a fool for following Christ and His call to educate your children.

Opposition to following God's plans is nothing new. In the Bible, Nehemiah faced ridicule for carrying out God's plan to rebuild the broken wall around the city of Jerusalem. Led by the Lord to return to Jerusalem after years of exile, Nehemiah faced a huge task and the negative harassment from enemies like Sanballat and Tobiah (Nehemiah 4). The secret of Nehemiah's success in rallying the workers and overcoming his enemies' discouragement is said in verse 16a: "And it came to pass from that time forth, that the half of my servants wrought in the work, and the other half of them held both the spears, the shields, and the bows, and the habergeons." Praying to the Lord and setting their mind to work, Nehemiah grouped the people together to build the portion of the wall nearest their homes. With half of the people standing guard and half of the people building the wall, the work was soon finished in the face of those who opposed them.

As homeschoolers, we need to set our minds to the work of educating our children. Divide the task of homeschooling your children. Enlist the prayer support of your spouse, homeschooling friends, and others who will guard your back with the sword of the Spirit (Ephesians 6:17) against Satan's fiery darts of discouragement. God's strength is available to succeed, but you must set your mind to work and pray.

Father, the task of homeschooling seems huge, and the discouragement I am facing today seems even larger. Help me to set my mind toward the work of homeschooling our children today and send prayer warriors who are willing to defend me. In the name of Jesus, Amen.]]>Fri, 06 Dec 2013 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/homeschooling-in-the-military/

When military mom Bobbie Kennedy saw her daughter reading before her fourth birthday, Bobbie knew Olivia needed the type of self-paced learning program that only homeschooling could provide. Bobbie also didn’t relish the idea of taking her children in and out of schools every time the family received a military order to move. So, 13 years ago, when the Kennedys were stationed in Alaska, Bobbie began homeschooling.

A growing number of military families have discovered that the benefits of homeschooling outweigh the complications of trying to adjust to new schools and teachers every three years (the average frequency with which a military family relocates). According to the Home School Legal Defense Association, five to 10 percent of military kids study at home.

Homeschooling allows for consistent curriculum, but it also allows military families to school while moving and accompanying the military member on a temporary assignment.

“Homeschooling allows for flexibility in a lifestyle that requires it,” said Bobbie, who now homeschools the Kennedys’ sixth-grader, Jack, in their ninth home in 18 years. “Homeschooling is mobile in a life that thrives on mobility. Addresses change frequently, but our homeschool does not.”

A military mom in Las Vegas, Jennifer Brow is also accustomed to a semi-nomadic lifestyle. Before each move, she researches homeschooling laws and tries to find other homeschool families in her communities, though she has noticed the growing number of military families choosing to homeschool.

According to the HSLDA’s Mike Donnelly, the growth of military homeschooling can be traced back to a 2002 military-wide memo stating that homeschooling can be a “legitimate alternative form of education” for military member’s children.

Like Bobbie, Jennifer appreciates how she and her girls can take vacations around Dad’s schedule and pack up and move with him without having to wait for a school year to end. When her husband is deployed, however, she has sole responsibility of their five-year-old and eight-year-old girls.

“I have to be a single parent and a teacher while he is away, and that can be tough,” Jennifer admitted. “Life always throws you curve balls while your spouse is gone. I just try to take it day by day.”

In Okinawa, Japan, Heather Schuhlein is using their surroundings to inform her three children’s studies. While the kids homeschool with Horizons and Switched-On Schoolhouse, they’re also taking in sights they could never experience stateside.

“We spent all of last year learning about WWII and the Battle of the Pacific. No public school can do that for us,” said Heather, whose husband has served 15 years in the Marines. “We move so often and my husband has been on several deployments that homeschooling has been able to provide my children with a very stable home life, regardless of what's happening outside.”

If you're a family in the military, we'd love to hear from you. Use the comment field below to share why you chose to homeschool. Let's see which branch of the military can have the most responses. Above all, thank you for serving our country!

If you’re on a budget this Christmas or searching for unique gift ideas you can make yourself, check out these easy DIY projects that can be completed in 45 minutes or less and used for several people on your gift list.

Instagram Coasters Before your smart phone’s photo storage tanks from the weight of too many megapixels, find a functional, tangible use for your Instagram shots. Grace your space with these DIY coasters or tag them for family and friends who will appreciate your camerawork and handiwork.

Directions 1. Using the cork piece, trace a circle onto the cardstock and the print to make sure the size of the materials match. 2. Spread a thin layer of Mod Podge onto the cork. Place the cardstock on top. 3. Do the same with your Instagram shot and seal with another thin layer of the glue. 4. Stick four mounting dots on the back. 5. Pin your creation on Pinterest.

Record Bowls Repurpose your vinyl with a cool conversation piece you know they won’t receive from someone else. Gift it to fans of vintage and groovy home décor or present it to Mom as a possibility for jewelry storage.

Supplies • A vinyl record • A bowl (the size you want your record bowl to be) • A can of soup or veggies

Directions 1. Preheat the oven to 200 degrees F. 2. Place the vinyl record on top of your bowl with the label face-up. 3. Place the can on top of the record. The can should be in the center of the record, and the record should be centered over the bowl. 4. Carefully place the stack in the oven. Check on it every few minutes. 5. After 10 minutes, remove the bowl from the oven. Shape the vinyl into a curling, wavy form, or whatever look you want.

Art Tea Towels Brighten up a friend’s kitchen with these towels that make for a great housewarming gift.

Directions 1. Cut the pieces of fabric in your desired tea towel size. 2. Hem all around each piece of fabric. 3. On paper, draw or print out a design you like and cut it out. 4. Place your stencil on the fabric and trace the shapes. 5. Remove the stencil and color in the design with fabric paint. 6. Iron over the painted fabric to secure the color.

Custom Gift Mugs Who knew you could transform a plain ceramic mug into a personalized present using nothing but a Sharpie and an oven? Whether you use a stencil or free-hand the drawing, your creation will delightfully serve any coffee, tea, or hot chocolate drinker for years to come.

Directions 1. Preheat the oven to 350 degrees F. 2. After washing and drying your mug, carefully draw or trace your design(s) or lettering. The ink easily blurs, so start with a light tracing and go back to fill in. 3. Once your design is complete, bake it for 30 minutes to set the ink. Once your design is permanent, the mug will be able to go through a dishwasher without a smudge.

Plastic Animal Bookends Add a splash of color to your kids’ shelves and keep those books from sagging in a few simple steps.

Directions 1. Give your plastic animal two complete coats of paint with plenty of dry time in between. Bright colors look great in kids’ rooms. 2. While the first coat is drying on your plastic animal, spray your wood block the same color or a contrasting shade. 3. Once the animal and wood are dry, use super glue or a hot glue gun to attach the animal to the block, and presto! Your bookends are ready to shelf or gift.

We’d love to see your final creations. Share them with us on Pinterest or add your own DIY Christmas gift idea in the comment field below.

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For the Kotsenburg family, snowboarding is part of daily life. Throughout the year they travel all over the world so Sage and Kirra can train and compete. Kirra is a student-athlete in her senior year at Alpha Omega Academy, AOP’s online accredited academy. Sage graduated from AOA in 2011.

Sage got involved in snowboarding through his older brother Blaze, also an AOA graduate. Sage wanted to do everything his older brother was doing and started snowboarding at age five. Kirra followed suit and quickly joined her older brothers.

“A family that shreds together, stays together,” she said.

Both Kirra and Sage have some impressive accomplishments. Kirra placed 12th in the Burton U.S. Open 2012 Women's Open Division Slopestyle when she was just 15 years old. Sage was the first person to ever land a cab double cork 1440 in competition in 2011. In the upcoming season, Sage hopes to represent the United States. on the slopestyle team at the Olympic Games in 2014. Kirra's short term goal is to qualify to compete in the Olympic qualifiers this winter.

Sage is a frontrunner for the 2014 games in Sochi, Russia, having earned one of three spots on the Men’s 2013 U.S. Snowboarding Slopestyle Pro Team. Currently sitting in second place in both points and rankings, Sage will compete in five Olympic qualifying events this winter, beginning with the Dew Tour in mid-December.

“It has been a dream of mine to compete in the Olympics since I was just a little kid, and to have it happen when I am still at such a young age gives me hope to be able to do two of them,” Sage said. “It would be one of the highlights of my entire life.”

Though she’s close, Kirra sits just on the edge of going pro. Though injuries have prevented her from participating in key competitions for the past few years, she has earned a discretionary spot in the Copper Mountain Grand Prix in Colorado this month. Performing well in that competition could lead to invitations to additional Olympic qualifying events.

“Having fun is really the key,” Kirra said. “Being uptight is not going to help you learn. Snowboarding isn’t all about competitions. It’s about shredding with your friends and family and staying happy with yourself.”

Their favorite event to compete in is snowboard slopestyle. In this event, competitors go through a course where the goal is to complete a variety of difficult tricks while getting the most air. Slopestyle is making its Olympic debut in both skiing and snowboarding at the 2014 Winter Olympics in Sochi, Russia.

Alpha Omega Academy has been a big part of the Kotsenburg’s family life. Both Kirra and Sage love the flexibility that AOA offers.

"I see AOA as a springboard to my education,” Sage explained. “AOA allowed me the opportunities to enjoy life experiences that a traditional classroom could never give me."

They also emphasize the value of receiving a Christian education.

"AOA has given me the necessary foundations of a Bible-based curriculum without stunting my desires to chase my dreams in the world of professional snowboarding," Kirra said.

Kirra and Sage are just two of the many examples of how students across the United States and the world are able to receive a Christian education through Alpha Omega Academy that fits their schedule and academic needs.

Post your comment below to wish the Kotsenburg family success in qualifying for the 2014 Winter Olympics. To learn more about Alpha Omega Academy, visit aoacademy.com or call 800-682-7396.

What’s your holiday style? Take a short quiz to discover where you fall on the scale of Christmas cheer.

1. The stores have put up their decorations and Christmas music hits the radio stations. You: a. Love every second and wonder what took them so long. It is September, after all. b. Think fondly of the memories of holidays past but opt to wait on purchases while taking mental notes about prices, options, and ideas. c. Shake your head in disapproval and just try to ignore it. d. Indulge occasionally, but try to stick to your budget and traditional calendar.

2. Your extended family decides to have Christmas at your house. You: a. Take a deep breath, smile, and start making lists about décor, food, and other preparations. b. Flake out and have daily panic attacks until after they’ve left. c. Congratulate them on their good decision and grow giddy with daydreams. d. Are excited and think about serving surf-n-turf instead of your tradition. (not. You would never consider anything else).

3. Black Friday is: a. Full of great sales, but you’ll probably skip and avoid the crowds – at least in the morning. b. Your second favorite day of the year (behind only Christmas). c. A chance to flex your planning and shopping muscles. d. An example of American excess and you want nothing to do with it.

4. When it comes to Christmas decorations, you: a. Have the latest, trendiest tree trimmings and a new, seasonal look throughout the whole house. b. Own a tree and some decorations, but in the back of your mind, you’re thinking the more you put up, the more you have to take down. c. Stick to the tried-and-true Nativity set, tree, and outdoor lights. d. Keep an inventory list of all your decorations with a map of where they go.

8. When it comes to Christmas parties and gatherings, you: a. Start penciling in dates around Thanksgiving b. Make sure to get a gorgeous outfit and hostess gift c. Skip all but the most important d. Try to make most of them and bring your signature treat

Merry Minimalist(8-12 points) The Christmas season, while important to you, does not warrant excess or stress. You want to enjoy time with loved ones, instead of just preparing for it. Food and decorations are just extras; they don’t make the celebrations. You can have a wonderful Christmas without all the hubbub.

Traditional Tinseler (13-21 points) When it comes to Christmas, you prefer it white, after Thanksgiving and with turkey. Gifts and carols, lights and trees are great, but your holiday is not complete without Christ and family. You put in a fair amount of work to make the holiday great, but you do not go overboard.

Peace Planner(22-27 points) Approaching the Christmas season with a plan keeps you calm and allows you to relax and enjoy the season. Your food and décor are always spot-on, and you most likely keep gift-idea lists year-round.

Decadent Decorator(28-32 points) If it were up to you, Christmas would be almost year-round. You love this time so much that no expense should be spared to share and spread your joy. The prettier, the newer, the bigger…the better. You are an ace at throwing holiday parties and probably have an entire Dickens village for your hearth.

Be honest now. What was your score? Let us know in the comment field below and tell us how accurate our quiz is.

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I tried to listen to the deeper message my high school daughter was communicating as she went on about all the terrible things in her life. Her list continued to lengthen until she stopped mid-sentence and said, "My life's just a pain." Most of her issues involved trusting God for future provisions and the challenge of waiting on Him for these unknowns. I could see her faith being stretched, but I was bothered by her ungrateful response to what God had already given her. Couldn't she see all the blessings around her? Didn't she know and appreciate how much we had sacrificed to give her the best education at home?

Just as I started to have a pity party, God stopped me and spoke to my heart. "Dear one," He said. "Don't you know that you complain to me every day? I gave you everything I had when I sacrificed my life on the cross to save you, yet you grumble about this and that and forget the price I paid to call you my child." Wow, God doesn't pull any punches. He was absolutely right! Many times throughout our homeschool years, my actions and words had failed to communicate a loving trust in His provision. Perhaps my own daughter's struggle was simply reflecting my own failings in trusting God. I was doubly convicted of my ungrateful heart.

Together, my daughter and I turned to God's Word. We let the anxious thoughts go as we laid our problems before the Lord. Instead of whining and complaining, we brought our petitions before God with thanksgiving for what He had already given us (Philippians 4:6). God had already blessed us with so much, and He opened our eyes to trust Him for the unknowns that laid ahead.

Are you struggling with the future? Do you feel like you'll never reach any of your dreams? Turn around and look at every blessing He has given you in the past, and you'll be amazed! God has done so much. Can't He do even more? Trust Him to meet your needs today. "Thou wilt keep him in perfect peace, whose mind is stayed on thee: because he trusteth in thee" (Isaiah 26:3).

Father, forgive me for doubting Your loving care for me. I know You have everything under control and will reveal Your will to me at the proper time. Help me to defeat the discouraging doubts when they come and cling to You for all I need. In Jesus' name, Amen.]]>Thu, 05 Dec 2013 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/treasures-in-heaven/
"For where your treasure is, there will your heart be also" (Luke 12:34).

My 12-year-old son's favorite pastime after our homeschooling day was looking for hidden items in the ground with his metal detector. Searching for money, old bullet shells, jewelry, and other items consumed hours of his time. At first, I loved seeing his excited face as he came running into the house with each latest treasure. Soon, however, I noticed a change in his attitude. Like a gambler placing his next bet, he seemed to be driven to find the next treasure that might be worth hundreds of dollars. Greed had taken over, and we needed to bring his hobby under Christ's lordship.

As Christians, we spend hours looking for purpose and meaning in the treasures of this world, too. Sadly, these treasures begin to lose their value, and we start to look for bigger and better cars, homes, cameras, clothes, and pleasurable items. Like the foolish man in Luke 12:16-21 whose life was cut short, we may find someone else enjoying the very treasures we were storing for ourselves. "But God said unto him, Thou fool, this night thy soul shall be required of thee: then whose shall those things be, which thou hast provided" (Luke 12:20)?

What about you? Is your treasure in heaven, or are you building bigger barns for more treasures on Earth? Heed God's warning today and think about making yourself rich toward God instead of pleasing yourself. "Lay not up for yourselves treasures upon earth, where moth and rust doth corrupt, and where thieves break through and steal: But lay up for yourselves treasures in heaven, where neither moth nor rust doth corrupt, and where thieves do not break through nor steal" (Matthew 6:19-20).

Father, every day I feel bombarded by the temptation to want more. Help me to concentrate on the things on Earth that are truly important and search the Scriptures for the treasures of Your promises. In the name of Your Son, Jesus, Amen.]]>Wed, 04 Dec 2013 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/what-should-i-do/
"A man's heart deviseth his way: but the LORD directeth his steps" (Proverbs 16:9).

Do you ever wish you could wake up in the morning and let someone else figure out how your homeschool day is supposed to go? My indecisiveness in homeschooling was usually generated by the fear of making the wrong decisions. What if we were using the wrong curriculum? What if my children weren't getting enough social interaction? What if my children weren't learning what they needed to know to be successful in college? Wasn't there someplace I could go to find all the answers, so I didn't have to second guess myself anymore?

Gideon had a problem with deciding what to do when God called him to defeat the enemies of Israel, the Midianites. He wasn't so sure he saw the warrior in himself that God claimed him to be in Judges 6:12. How could he fight against these men trained in war when all he had known was farming? However, Gideon learned the secret to defeating indecision. He simply brought the problems of fighting the battle to the Lord and left the choices up to Him. He only needed to obey and do what God showed him. Even when his faith was small and he had to ask for God's guidance a second time, God lovingly answered with the fleece of faith that was first wet and then dry.

Are you wringing your hands with indecision and wondering if you have what it takes to be an effective homeschooling parent? Remember the story of Gideon. You may not be a certified teacher, but you know the Lord is mighty. If He has called you to homeschool, He will tell you the answers to every question you have about how to teach. He will make you a mighty warrior in the education of your children and perform amazing miracles of provision when you need them most. You can leave all the decisions to God, and He will show you the way. "And thine ears shall hear a word behind thee, saying, This is the way, walk ye in it, when ye turn to the right hand, and when ye turn to the left" (Isaiah 30:21).

Father, I really need Your help to know what to do today when homeschooling my children. Show me what lessons to focus on and what lessons to leave for another day. Guide me with Your Word and bring those circumstances into our lives that reveal Your divine hand of guidance. In the name of Jesus, Amen.]]>Tue, 03 Dec 2013 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/are-you-listening/
Like many homeschooling mothers, I sat working at the kitchen table as my children worked on their schoolwork. Although I was supposed to be teaching, I was also doing several other jobs at the same time — washing clothes, cooking supper, and grading papers. As I snipped fresh green beans from our garden for our evening meal, my son asked me a question about his math. He was having difficulty with factoring numbers, and he needed my help.

"Mom," he said. "Are you listening to me?"

"Yes, I'm listening," I replied, not looking up from my work.

"But Mom, would you please listen to me with your eyes?" he quickly responded.

Looking up, I understood what he was really saying. He wanted my undivided attention.

Many times we, too, fail to give God our undivided attention. How many times do you coordinate the noon meal and the following day's activities in your mind while listening to the Sunday morning sermon? When you are praying with people in a Bible study group, does your mind wander to work and worries, or do you actually pray with the person who is speaking? Not focusing our thoughts on the sermon or the prayer requests can cause us to miss an important message.

Are the day's responsibilities distracting you from hearing God's voice today? Do your prayers seem to get stuck on the ceiling? Do you find yourself re-reading what you just read in the Bible and not getting anything from the passage? Stop and look up. Focus your eyes on the One who loves you most. He is waiting for your undivided attention, so He can teach you great and marvelous things. "For the eyes of the LORD run to and fro throughout the whole earth, to show himself strong in the behalf of them whose heart is perfect toward him" (2 Chronicles 16:9a).

Lord, forgive me for my halfhearted attempts at prayer and devotions. Teach me to honor You by diligently seeking You with all I am, so I may walk in Your perfect will today. In Jesus' name, Amen.]]>Mon, 02 Dec 2013 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/big-sky-big-god/
"Thou makest the outgoings of the morning and evening to rejoice" (Psalm 65:8b).

Living in western Nebraska, where the sky is bigger than the ground, our homeschooling family developed a particular love of studying the clouds and the sky. On countless occasions, one of my children would come running into the house and say, "Mom, you've got to come and see this!" Walking outside together, we would stand and watch as God painted a breathtaking scene just for us on the canvas of His sky. Each inspiring sunrise or sunset seemed to make all the homeschooling problems of the day fade into insignificance.

For the next several years, I learned the art of enjoying God's beauty. Each time I felt the four walls closing in on my homeschooling day, I would walk outside to view God's multicolored and intricately patterned sky. The kaleidoscope of colors that surrounded me in the vastness of His sky reminded me of my smallness and God's greatness. I realized I was totally dependent on my infinite Creator for all things, including the courage and creativity I needed to face another homeschooling day.

Are the pressures of homeschooling squeezing the life out of you today? If so, step outside, look up to the sky, and drink in His beauty. God is waiting to revive you today with the glory of His presence and the wonder of His magnificent creation in the heavens. "O LORD, our Lord, how excellent is thy name in all the earth! who hast set thy glory above the heavens. When I consider thy heavens, the work of thy fingers, the moon and the stars, which thou hast ordained; What is man, that thou art mindful of him? and the son of man, that thou visitest him" (Psalm 8:1, 3-4)?

Lord, how great You are! I give You the glory today for being such an awesome God! I praise You for the beauty of Your creation and the reminder that I am in Your constant care. In Jesus' name, Amen.]]>Sun, 01 Dec 2013 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/cyber-monday/

Our Cyber Monday sale is an ideal opportunity for you to stock up on homeschooling materials for the next semester and snag a few Christmas gifts, too!

First, hurry to be one of the first 100 people to place an online order, and you’ll receive an incredible 40% off your entire purchase with coupon code CYBERDEAL!

If you prefer to shop later, you can still get free shipping* on every order! To order, simply shop online.

In addition, AOP is offering these exclusive phone specials on Monday, December 2. To receive these specials, simply call 800-622-3070 from 7 a.m. to 5 p.m. (CT) • Free Registrations at Alpha Omega Academy • Free Set of family-friendly DVDs with any order over $100 • A $25 credit toward a future purchase with any order over $250

*Free shipping applies to standard ground shipping in the continental United States for all orders. Cyber Monday Sale is December 2 only. Sale starts at 12 a.m. (MT) and ends at 11:59 p.m. (MT). Phone hours are 7 a.m. to 5 p.m. (CT). This offer cannot be combined with any other offer.

One technique I commonly used to motivate my children when homeschooling was the cliff-hanger. I would entice my children's appetite to learn by only presenting enough information to get them excited. Reading only to a climatic part in a story, I would stop and say, "If you want to find out what happens, you'll have to read the rest for yourself!" This tactic was a great motivator, especially for my oldest daughter who couldn't stand not knowing the ending.

As adults, not knowing the ending can be frustrating, too. Who doesn't want to know what is going to happen next? If we had our way, we'd love to have God spell out the answers and endings to life's problems. However, like the men and women of faith listed in Hebrews 11, we must learn how to trust God. Tucked away in this great chapter is the secret that will enable us to keep going when we don't know what we should do — diligence. Hebrews 11:6 says, "But without faith it is impossible to please him: for he that cometh to God must believe that he is, and that he is a rewarder of them that diligently seek him." We sacrifice faith's reward too easily!

Do you believe God will show you what to do when you need an answer? Are you diligently seeking Him each day believing that He exists and hears every one of your prayers? Read far enough into His Word today until you find a promise just for your problem. Then, trust His Word to light your path (Psalm 119:105)! You may not know the answer or see the ending to the problem you are facing right now, but like the men and women of faith who have gone before you, you know the One who is leading you. He will reward you with understanding and wisdom to face every cliff-hanger you may have.

Father, thank You for not abandoning me. Some days I have no idea what to do to handle the day's homeschooling problems. Please, hear my prayer of faith today and reveal the answers I need. In Jesus' name, Amen.]]>Sat, 30 Nov 2013 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/hiding-out/
Do you feel empty today? Is the idea of homeschooling your children overwhelming? Some days, you just don't feel like being profound and inspirational. You would rather hide in bed under the covers or lock yourself in the bathroom for several hours. The last thing you have is your act together, and you don't feel like disciplining yourself to keep going. Saying "yes" to your selfish feelings and jumping into irresponsibility would be so much easier.

Wait! Stop and think about those who are depending on you. Just as you expect your children to fight off feelings of laziness and complacency, you, too, must reach up to the One whose purpose and plans are so much higher than yours. God has put you in this place of leadership for a reason. To be the leader of your children's education, you must ask God for the strength you need to make homeschooling decisions.

Saul was no different in accepting his leadership role in the Old Testament. Instead of assuming and looking forward to being the first king of Israel, he was found hiding by the baggage (1 Samuel 10:21-22). Samuel had already anointed him privately as king (1 Samuel 10:1), but when the time came for Saul to be announced publicly as king, Samuel had to bring all the tribes of Israel forward to find him. Saul, too, wanted to escape his responsibilities and hide.

Will you jump into the arms of God today or the arms of irresponsibility? My prayer is that you will find the courage you need to continue being faithful in your homeschooling. May you believe the same promise God gave Joshua when he faced his responsibilities of leading God's people into the Promised Land: "Have not I commanded thee? Be strong and of a good courage; be not afraid, neither be thou dismayed: for the LORD thy God is with thee whithersoever thou goest" (Joshua 1:9).

Heavenly Father, my homeschooling responsibilities are weighing me down today. Please, lift me up and give me the courage I need to keep going. Fill me with the Holy Spirit and show me how to lead the precious children You have given to me. In Jesus' name, Amen.]]>Fri, 29 Nov 2013 00:00:00 +0000https://www.aophomeschooling.com/blog/five-kernals/
"I will greatly praise the LORD with my mouth; yea, I will praise him among the multitude" (Psalm 109:30).

My children loved studying the heroic story about the Pilgrims in our homeschool history class. The Mayflower voyage, Squanto's corn planting and hunting lessons, and the first Thanksgiving all captured my children's deepest interest; however, the one story of the Pilgrims that most affected my family was the story about the "Starving Time" during the spring of 1623.

Imagine going through the cold, New England winter living off a slim, summer corn crop a