A Yankee Living Down South

I'm an transplant from Ohio living in Atlanta. One of the things I've noticed since moving down south is that it appears to be quite common to give the ladies who host your shower some sort of gift. I am assuming this is a Southern tradition as it was not something I experienced or learned to be proper when I loved up north. Some of my girlfriends are throwing me a shower in a few weeks and I'm quite perplexed as to if a hostess gift is required/expected and what to even give these ladies. Google keeps telling me it is not required, but I don't want to hurt any feelings or seem ungrateful if this is something that should be done at a proper Southen shower. Any advise as to if this is required or what I can give?

I'm a New Yorker living in Tennessee, so I understand your confusion. I have two showers, with two people planning each. I've decided to put together baby(ish) themed relaxation baskets. I purchased pea in the pod bath bombs, scented rubber ducky soaps, CJ's Butter samples and lip balm, natural loofahs, peppermint pressure point lotion, and I'm going to pick out some nice bottles of wine to put in the baskets. I think it's personalized and thoughtful, but nothing overboard.

Yes, I'm in nc and I've always seen that. And it feels really nice after working so hard hosting especially since its not expected. Nothing big at all, hand soap set from Williams sanoma is awesome or a bottle if wine.

It's only a Southern thing? I didn't realize it was regional. I'm in California. I've seen it done out here, and have even been a recipient of a "Thank You Hostess" gift. It wasn't much, but made me feel appreciated. I think it's just a nice thing to do. I plan on doing it for those planning my shower.