Comrade,
Oma is trying to make you into a person that their oppinion thinks would be best for you.Walk away from this situation and let them know that this is their loss, not you and your's.For the future of your children make all of the family that gives in to Oma,Persona non grata....(not in existence).This may sound harsh but you must stand your ground.Your feelings are also of importance."Oma"just may have a change of heart when confronted with loss of one so dear...
Most Humbly,
Randolph of sc

Kinda sounds like an intentional act against you. Your Mom didn't know your racial beliefs? I can't believe that what with her living with you and all. I wouldn't go. You don't need the extra stress during the holidays...especially carrying two little ones inside. You don't wanna have to hear the filth as they inhale their food as if eating from a troft either. Just don't go. You know you and your husband will be miserable(what kind of Thanksgiving is that??!!)...make the best out of it and do your own thing. Don't ever talk to your sister again...I don't talk to mine. She has a half-breed gypsy monkey.
Samantha

When I wrote my two prior comments, I had no idea the your "oma" was your grandmother. This is terrible. How any grandmother and/or grandfather could do such a thing to their grandchild is just amazing. Just like my daughter's family on her mother's side, (barred from EVER seeing her by court order) there is a time to write people off. This looks to me like that time.

Take the beautiful family that you and your husband are creating and build from there. Invite friends to your Thanksgiving. Oh, and this year your husband should cook. (If he can)

I have never heard of such a "thing",..none of it made any sense to be because I didn't kow whathte hell an Oma was.

I didn't see the post right before mine because I was typing my reply,....

Geez,.. what a slimy thing for a grandmother to do,... I think I'd give them all swastika Christmas ornaments,.. then annouce that all holidays will be White ONLY at thier house and ony other non-racemixing white realitives are welcomed to join them.

lol, fun! do you have one of those plasma/metal cutter things too? my dad's scary friend Butch has one that he said he'd let me use, if I give him half of any profits I make... I was thinking swazi suncatchers, and like, saluting german soldier silouhettes(like those cowboys that are leaning on things you always see around here)... lol

lol, fun! do you have one of those plasma/metal cutter things too? my dad's scary friend Butch has one that he said he'd let me use, if I give him half of any profits I make... I was thinking swazi suncatchers, and like, saluting german soldier silouhettes(like those cowboys that are leaning on things you always see around here)... lol