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The final straw would be if he lied and had an affair with someone. I've known too many ppl in my lifetime to know that once they do it, they continue to do it. They can never be trusted or believed again. I'm not saying everyone does it. But I've seen it more than not at all. Besides, if he thought so little of me to want 15 min. with someone else, why would I want to put myself in the position of getting an infection or HIV? He's not worth it at that point. I deserve better and know someone would be out there to love me. Which is what happen! Now I've been married 30 yrs to a man I can trust, have faith in, and who loves me unconditionally! Oh, by the way, I asked God to pick someone because all's I got was turkeys! He knows them better than me. I'm proof its true. He gave me the best husband for me! Aske Him if this is the man for you. Tell Him if not, plz take this one out of your life. Just a thought. Hope it helps.

It would be hard, but I might could forgive him for cheating... but I could never forgive him for hurting one of our daughters in a way that would scar them for life, like sexual or physical abuse, or even mental abuse.
I don't think I could kill him if he did, but I'm positive I'd push it as far as I could to make sure he could never get to them to hurt them again..