Guideline #12

Accept defeat to reach the goal. To have what you want, no matter what it is, you will first need to dump your desires to achieve your goals. That’s because desires build Excess Potentials and
then ignite Balancing Forces which steal away your desires. When you obey the laws of Transurfing, you don’t need to worry about how your goals will be reached. In order to accept defeat
concerning your goals, visualise a scenario of a potential defeat and imagine what would happen if you didn't reach your goal. When you see this, choose other options to insure your success, or
other ways that things might also work in your favour. Do this ONLY ONCE it will then free you from the need to force your goal into happening a certain way. Now you have seen
multiple possibilities, the Space of Variations will bring you the one that will work best, far better than anything you could ever plan with your own conscious thoughts. Once you accept defeat,
you've just insured that Excess Potentials will not come near you.