The ONE thing women want (which is a bit like deciding right now which ONE food you will happily consume for therest of your natural life) just happens to be the same ONE thing men want!

I believe women—and men—simply want to be wanted. We want to be desired, and not only sexually. We want our opinions, our wishes, our needs and our yearnings to be solicited and taken to heart. We don’t need slaves or servants, but we do relish the thrill that comes when our Beloved looks at us in that certain way that communicates his/her genuine interest, their fundamental acceptance and that tad of loving skepticism that keeps us honest.

The stereotype is, of course, that men only want Sex and women only want Love, and that is why there has been trouble for millennia, probably since before Aristophanes penned Lysistrata. Therapists add their twist to this myth by opining that men want to have sex in order to feel loved, and women want to feel loved in order to have sex. I submit that these are but two sides of the same coin—that what we all really want is to be really wanted—for who we truly are.

Okay so that is what the experts say... what do you have to add or say about that?

Sex. love. being wanted...........all go together. It's what makes the whole experience COMPLETE.otherwise, sex is just sexand you can't love if you dont WANT the personand if you don't fell wanted, then you don't feel loved, and therefore NO SEX FOR YOU BUDDY

I agree with the author, even though it may be a bit oversimplified. While the stereotype may fit while looking at relationships as a whole, considering the couple itself will show you a very dynamic flux between what they think love and being wanted looks like at any given point.

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