I can get erections,I masturbate, I have sexual thoughts, etc and attracted to women but when I am with an actual women no desire to have sex with her.I enjoy just being together, doing things together, etc.Is this normal?

Welcome to A2A, coolguy. Perhaps reality is so overwhelming (possibly due to novelty?) it overcomes sexual feelings. Perhaps it will change when you become more used to and confident being with women? In any case, I would think many women would be very happy with your attitude, and find it refreshing.