Along with the great advice you have given to a couple
marriage,annulment,divorce inquiries lately, may I
offer to the dialogue and counsel a vital component: I
bring to you Blessed Elizabeth Canori Mora, wife,
mother, member of the Third Order of the Holy Trinity.
There is a Trinitarian Order around Baltimore. And
worth a look to google her life story-- there is a free
download book-- and the prayer for her assistance. Her
body is in Italy. I cannot believe how so many couples
mirror her own life and marriage. She is a great
intercessor, hand-picked by God for these times. She
was elevated by Pope John Paul 2 in the Year of the
Family. These cases I am reading, she would understand-
- she was there. So, she will help! Definitely talk to
a good-counseling priest, a Catholic therapist,too, but
also look to our sister-friend, Blessed Elizabeth, who
God has given married couples for bizarre cases such as
these. She was so totally there! Her husband came to
his senses later and became a priest after her death--
this man who was so completely unhinged when they got
married. Not that we all have to copy her, but her
Catholic witness and holiness has much to say. And I
repeat, I have seen her in action, she is a powerful
intercessor! No matter what happens, she is close in
many ways to the spouses in such cases.