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L. Sara Bysterveld has dedicated herself to creating community for polyamorous triads since 2013 when she and her two partners decided to give it a go as a triad themselves. A freelance writer with articles published in magazines such as BeatRoute, Birthing, Leap!, New Home Living and Condo Living, as well as several current blog ghostwriting gigs, Bysterveld felt that writing a book-length introduction to life as a triad was the next logical step in her individual contribution toward normalizing this relationship style.

Bysterveld started the Polyamory Calgary group in 2009, growing that community to a vibrant and supportive hub of polyamorous families in and around the city before stepping back in 2013.

Bysterveld is also a former columnist for both BeatRoute, where she wrote the popular sex column Doin’ It, and New Home/Condo Living, where she wrote the eco-living column Green Living.

You can follow Lindsay (talking not-quite-as-much about polyamory, and way more about kids, writing, the woods, anxiety, kitties, running and generally acting like a fool) on Facebook, Twitter, Instagram and Pinterest. You can also find out more about her writing and editing on her website, or read her thoughts on living outside the box on her blog.