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Wednesday, July 17, 2013

But then I'm too busy and we took a million pictures (about 6000 actually, crazy right?) and life's too full on. Also, now I'm here I'd post some piccies but my harddrive is crapping itself and won't show my pics to me so I can choose a few to show to you. Next time.

I've been sneaking in blog reading while I'm driving to and fro from all my multiple roles. Very naughty, but I try to read only at lights and when stuck in traffic jams. But, when I read blogs on my phone I can't comment 'cause Feedly is weird with comment boxes and so is Safari and I've been watching my bloggy friends have crappy awful dreadful times and not commenting not because I don't care but because life is too hectic.

I've stolen a night here and am posting and commenting up a storm.

I was horribly spasm-y and in pain all through May and then in June we went to Tuscany for a week, followed by France for another week. Imagine that! Two international trips in one year. I could get used to that. Except I got dreadfully ill on the plane over there and stayed sick (got a weird virus, lost my voice and was exhausted and flat) the WHOLE time we were away. Loved Tuscany (again), love Italy full stop. Visited the town my Grandpa was born in. Loved that too. Loved the Loire. OMG CHATEAUX. Azay le Rideau. OMG. Chateau d'Amboise OMG-er. And then we went to Chenonceau. OMG-est. I can't believe it's a real castle and not a movie set. Extraordinarily beautiful. Paris did not stir my heart as much as anywhere in Italy though. I expected to adore Paris, but I merely adored the shopping. The rest I liked. Except Sacre Coeur which was very beautiful, which I was not expecting at all.

So, other life...

Work is cray-cray as the teens say. In fact it's all cray-cray.

TLG is not little. He's 10 now and I am dying for the love of him. He's sugar and spice and all things nice, without the bows and pink and ribbons because he's a boy and that rhyme got it all wrong - there's no slugs and snails in my little love. He's playing footy, which he adores, and doing really well. His team is awesome good and will probably make the finals! School is ok, he got a crappy effort report which has inspired lots of conversations about "listening ears" and "quiet mouth" and "actually DOING your work" from me.

TBG is also playing footy which is super-stupid as he's so ancient. He's hurt himself in 5 out of 6 games he's played. Also hurt himself in training sessions. Hurt so bad, he limped around Europe with a torn Achilles. But he loves it and is very cute in his footy uniform and refuses to stop playing saying his body "just needs to get used to it"!

The middle guy is no longer middle sized. Though shorter than tBG he is far heavier and has been made to exercise now. This appears to kill him as he would much rather be left alone in his room to read manga cartoons and eat lollies. He failed some exams which was super-wonderful as he'd done NO prep for them and he thought he could just skate on though. Ummm, no. You have to know maths and sciences (the subjects he's picked) in order to be able to regurgitate them. I was actually very happy he failed the exams as (hopefullypleasegod) he'll learn from this (finally) and actually pull his finger out and giveafuck about life besides manga and lollies. Who knows.

The perfect princess needs a new moniker because she's no longer reaping the benefits of a nailed position as perfect child. She's full of imperfections which completely expected. I'll call her The Teen Angster (TTA) from now on. If she can angst about something she will. Briefly. And then she moves right on seemingly having instantly forgotten her angst-i-ness. Weird. I do remember how strange it was to be 13. Full of awakenings and ill-defined longings and a need to be thought of as grown-up. While being completely childish still.

I am working in a hospital this year diagnosing kids in the paediatric developmental disabilities clinic. If public work wasn't SO shockingly paid I'd think about doing it full-time. But no. The hourly rate for a hospital psych is atrocious so if I do it in my future career, it'll be strictly part-time and basically for the altruistic good of the public.

About Me

I'm a happy wifey to the Big Guy, a researcher, a worker, a mum and a step-mum. tBG and I started trying for a baby together in Feb 2008 (as soon as we got married) but we got diagnosed with secondary infertility in Jan 2009 and I got hit with a premature peri-menopause diagnosis in early 2010. We did 5 IVF cycles between May 09 and June 10. None of them worked. Full blown menopause at 42. Oh, and I'm also in the process of finishing my PhD. Unsurprisingly, my head is way too full so some of the dross is spilling out here.
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PS. It was 4 years between the premature menopause diagnosis and hitting post-menopause. Whoa.