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Sunday, July 19, 2015

How to Be Your Child's Closest Friend and Confidante

"Why do I need to be my child's friend? You may ask. What he needs is discipline, not friendship".

Here are five reasons why you need to be your child's friend.

1. Communication will become better between the two of you. Many cases of drug abuse, rape, teenage pregnancy or abortion etc have occurred because the child believed no one cared. As parents we need to learn when to put on the garb of parenting and when to replace it with that of friendship. Sometimes, all your child needs is not another sermon but a listening ear and someone to be there for him like a true friend would.

2. Discipline will become easier.

Ironically, being your child's friend actually makes it easier to instil discipline. A child who has a close relationship with his parents is less likely to be rebellious and more likely to trust their judgement in matters of discipline even when not convenient for him.

3. You will earn your child's respect

Your child will respect you and see you as positive role model and a mentor which when you think about it is what parenting is really all about after all.

4. You will boost year child's confidence

Your child will develop the confidence he needs to face the world and make an impact. He not likely to be a victim of low self esteem or fall into the trap of negative peer pressure.

5. He will becomea responsible and caring teenager and adult

Building and maintaining a good relationship with your child will help him develop the virtues of tolerance and kindness. Such a child will grow up with fewer adolescent and teenage problems than most of his peers and as such become a blessing to not only his parents but the society as a whole.