girlfriend wants me to be more vocal during sex...

my girlfriend always asks "do you like that" or "how does that feel" (as well as other things) but whenever i usually speak, i do it in a low tone, i guess i'm overwhelmed by the feel of her and what she's doing ... i find it hard at times to be vocal, and i feel like i kill the mood when i don't speak...

thats tough, but communication is very import for sex... something as simple as moans when something feels good. Moans would be a start... but when she does something that feels REAL good, make sure she knows, just be like, oh yeah, thats it... work your way up.

You should be fine if you just every now and then say "god that feels so good" "I love when you do that" "baby your driving me nuts" "OHHH, right there"

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Just the occassional heavy breathing and a "yeah, keep doing that" or "that feels really good" is enough. It's all about positive reinforcement, just like when she starts to breath deeper, squirm, and scream, it turns you on, it'll turn her on when you do something similar, except on a smaller scale.

I give feedback and she gives feedback. Communication in bed I think is just as important as communication when you are conversing. Maybe you have the thoughts in your head, just not vocalizing them.

When we have the makeout session and the oral sex I don't go into intercourse till she almost begs me. "Please, I want you inside me so bad!" That kind of begging, so if she is willing to vocalize, I can as well. Although I don't have the begging version when I say something, more along the lines of something telling her how sexy she is or how she turns me on. Compliments on her sexual prowess in bed are a great thing, it could rile her up a bit more! Well at least with my g/f!

sounds about right. Just keep talking her verbally and get her aroused it also makes her that much focused on what is going on and orgasims easier. Just keep talking about what your going and what you could be doing, but "wont" do.

We men all love women to be vocal when having sex. Same goes for our beloved women who want us to be the same. All those heavy breathing and screaming are all the signs that you are having a good time, while she is doing a good job pleasing you.