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Wednesday, June 13, 2012

Immaturity, Thy Name Is Woman

Every time it is posted somewhere, everyone clucks with concern over the absolute fools that men are making of themselves.

Women, especially Catholic Women (tm), write despairing blogs about the immature male, especially the immature Catholic male. You know the one - he refuses to commit, to settle down, to pop the question, even to date whichever unhappy Catholic woman happens to be writing the blog that day.

It's all his fault. He's using porn, playing World of Warcraft, going to work, instead of paying attention to her. Damnably beastly of him.

The whole thing reminds me of nothing so much as the world-wide concern about the welfare of Catholic children.

"The majority of midlife divorces are initiated by women.
Don't believe it? In the AARP survey, 66 percent of women reported that
they asked for the divorce, compared with 41 percent of men. And men more often than women were caught off-guard by their divorce.."

"The perceived benefits of divorce differ by gender. Women
were far more likely than men to say that having their own self-identity
was a top reward.... 43 percent of women said they emerged from the split against remarriage. Only 33 percent of men said they wouldn't remarry."

So, why are women ruining their own lives and the lives of their husbands and children? After all, women who divorce are much more likely to be single head of households, and single households are largely impoverished.

This is important.
Everyone knows that women and children are more likely to be poor.
No one knows that it is the women who deliberately impoverish their own children.

And why did women financially destroy their own lives and the lives of their children?
Well, these women wanted to find their identity!
It looks like that whole Teen Mom show could extend the age of female participants to about 50 without changing its emotional approach to life one whit.

You know, in ages past, we had a specific word to describe this approach to life: hysteria. "Hystera" is the Greek word for "uterus", the idea being that women are illogical because they let their wombs rule them rather than their rationality. Today, it is considered bad form to lodge such accusations against women. On the other hand, it is perfectly acceptable... nay... it is considered the height of hilarity to imply that a man was thinking with his little head instead of his big one.

Of course, putting it that way is considered crude.
The enlightened, educated way of reversing the stereotype is to ask why men, especially Catholic men, are so wrapped up in pornography and video games.

But don't these questions deserve to be asked?
How can we stop the rampant immaturity, the hypergamic hysteria, among women that is on display in this divorce culture of ours? Why do we allow women to ruin modern society this way? How can we wean women off their mindless pursuit of "self expression" and "self-identity"?

Undoubtedly, men are avoiding commitment to these hordes of immature women for very good reason.

Maybe the problem isn't that men are immature, but that immature women flock around them, whining for a date, for a ring, for a husband ... and when they get it? They divorce the man, pick up the alimony paycheck, and go looking for their identity, which they apparently lost somewhere on the way to the altar.

Obviously, given these divorce statistics, we need to start a national conversation, a national movement to help women stop their narcissistic behaviours.

We have endless men's groups to wean men off of pornography.
Where are the women's groups that wean women off of divorce and their motivation for wanting a divorce?

Where is Narcissists Anonymous?

UPDATE:
I nearly forgot to add this little tidbit in.
Blood bank testing inadvertently shows that 28% of children don't have the Dad they think they do.
Gives you a whole new understanding of who is acting irresponsibly, doesn't it?

And that's just the children in families with serious family medical issues. The blood banks figured it out because the families had to go to a blood bank and test for a possible transfusion for a family member. What are the rates in other kinds of families?

You see, this was a blood bank study, and blood bank studies can be fooled.
Let's just take the most common markers - ABO and Rh.A, B and Rh are all dominant.
O is regressive.
A, B and Rh+ all indicate that certain proteins exist on the red blood cell's surface.
O and Rh- means those proteins aren't there.

So, if Dad is O and Mom is O, but the kid is A, B or AB, then that child clearly came from a different dad.
He has proteins on his red blood cells that couldn't come from Mom or "Dad."

Same with Rh. If Dad is O- and Mom is O-, but the kid is O+, then daddy don't live at that house.
He's got proteins from somebody else.

But what if Dad is A, Mom is B or O, and the kid is O?
Well, we can't tell from just the blood test. Dad may actually be AO. And if Mom had a fling with a Type O man, you wouldn't be able to tell from the AB blood test.

Same with Rh - if Mom is Rh+, Mom can have a fling with ANYONE and the Rh factor wouldn't tell.

So, using only the markers that blood banks can say, without shadow of a doubt, that Dad is a cuckold, 28% of fathers are being cuckolded.

But you won't see an article wringing it's hands about female flings based on these facts.
Well, except for this one.

20 comments:

The key to having women act like ladies is for men to act like gentlemen. The reverse is also true. "Feminism" is a somewhat misleading name. Most of what goes by that label is really devoted to social androgyny. They're androgynists.

How to stop divorce? If someone is open to the possibility of divorce you don't marry them.

The Bible says for wives to submit to their husbands. Men who don't lead leave nothing for their wives to submit to. If the woman finds herself running the whole show, neither has the husband obeyed the command to love his wife. She adopts any reason and hits the road. And you blame HER?

In marriage problems, both spouses are best served by examining themselves and embracing their cross.

However, just as a wife can't dump all the blame on her husband, a husband can't dump all the blame on his wife. Adam tried that. It didn't work. A man is the head of the family and bears ulitimate responsiblity for it.

If many women petulant jerks, they do bear personal responsiblity for that, but someone else with a big share of the culpability is their father.

What's interesting about these comments is the typical shaming language used against Steve.

He has committed the cardinal sin of pointing out that women are the driving force behind divorce, and maybe with this in mind men might have a very good reason to stand back from marriage. Regardless of your faith or lack thereof.

In order for marriage to thrive it has to be made appealing to men and this is no longer the case. Until this changes, starting with the repeal of no fault divorce and mandatory father first custody in all divorce cases, expect the numbers to continue their decline.

Steven Baskerville wrote "Taken Into Custody". If after reading his book young women still think men should commit to marriage, let them honestly ask themselves: "Would they be willing to endure the societal misandry awaiting their man after divorce?"

"Probably not" in 99%+ of the cases. Go figure why marriage is in decline.