Uh...neither. Who the hell asks such a question? If you truly love someone, the size of their cock or their wallet has no meaning to you. If he has a big cock, then that's great. If you guys can make it through life without a financial stuggle in tow, then Hallelujah! Neither of these should even be considerations when staying with a man. If you love him, stay with him, not for his cock or his wallet. "Kiss me and you will see how important I am." --Sylvia Plath

Jeez man how cheap can you be...neither of them of course.Whats important to me is intelligence, being (very) attractive, humoristic and sexy... wallet and dicksize comes next....My newest story: Monica's Birthday turns into an unexpected orgy

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SERIOUSLY?!? How about the size of his heart & mind!!! My husband would love to spoil me with expensive gifts but instead he does little things like making me dinner and holding me when I cry. He also talks to me and even when we don't agree with his opinion, we still respect each other.

When I was able to and enjoyed haveing sex. It was the length of him and he knew how to use it. Not the size of him but also how he wanted to pluser me. I was a wild thing in bed at times and wanted differen things different ways. At one point I wanted sex all the time and any way I could get. I have had a penis in every hole on my body and realy enjoyed it. But it is a thing of the past and I write about it now. oh I can still give you the best Blow Job you have had, or even the best Jack Off you have ever ha but then in return you can not do any of that for me because of Health problems so why put me through the aggreany of it all. There are lots more I could add to this but there is not time now. Mybe someone will ask quesions and at that time I will be able to answer them. But for now I will close and for right now there is not much a man of any size be it his PENIS OR HIS WALLET that he could do for me now BYE

Females are programmed to be attracted to males who demonstrate an ability to provide for them. That indicates that they are more likely to have genes that lead to successful offspring.

Women are really not very attracted by the thought of how much money a man will spend on them. But just as getting into Harvard or Oxford or being an Olympian is likely to make someone more interesting, having money can be an indicator of achievement.

Conspicuous consumption on the other hand is more likely to be a turn off since however much money a guy has it could be gone pretty quickly.

I can answer that question I truely believe the size of his of cock is one of the most IMPORTANT things in life. I so glad my man is hung like a mule. fuck the money it comes and goes that cock id=s alway going to satify this ole girl without a second thought.

Neither. What's most important, to me, is that he's confident, self-assured and not afraid to step out of his comfort zone or averse to the phrase "I love you". I mention confidence and self-assured because I once (mistakenly) dated a guy that was needy, insecure (was neither when we met, it seemed), etc. Never again...

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the most important thing a my man may have is: intelligence, sense of humor, personality, imagination, caring, respectful, and just being himself. I wouldn't care how big his size is or his wallet either. another that is important is that he must have confidence.

This question gets you beat up a bit. But in reality most woman have a preference. They say they don't, but they do. They would like to have both. Nothing wrong with admitting it. Women are much more "comfortable" with a man that makes great money. If he has a nice sized cock... then its like a gift with purchase from Nordstrom's. Nothing wrong with buying a bottle of perfume and getting a free make up bag with it.

If a man can't afford to pay for a woman and/or himself when he asks her out, he shouldn't be dating.

Do you think that women who cannot afford to pay for a man and/or herself when on a date shouldn't be dating?

There are things to do/places to go that don't cost money if you want to take someone on a date and don't have a lot of money. I suspect genuine guys out there wouldn't ask you on a date if they knew you thought like that. What do you do when a guy asks you out on a date, do you ask him if he has enough money to cover the tab before you agree to go out with him? If you liked this guy in every other way, would you choose not to go out with him again because he didn't have enough money to please you?

ByronLord wrote:

Females are programmed to be attracted to males who demonstrate an ability to provide for them.

I would like to know what the statistics for this statement are... and just how women are 'programmed' to be attracted to males who could provide for them? Provide what exactly ? Money, love, companionship? My parents certainly didn't teach me to look for men that can 'provide' monetary things as I was growing up.

Personally I have never looked at a man's wallet as something I look for in a partner, nor how big his cock is or how attractive in looks he is. None of my friends look for these attributes either. At the end of the day, neither money nor looks will save a partnership if I can't have a decent conversation with or laugh with a man.

The size of his wallet and or cock doesn't matter as long as he treats you right. If women would get their heads out of their own asses and find a real man who will treat her right she’ll see it has nothing to do with the size of his cock, or the size of his wallet.. Neither is important, not in the long run. If he can HELP take care of the both of you with as much effort that you put in then that’s what counts. Who gives a rat’s ass how big his cock is as long as he can make you feel good, loved and wanted?

Hi all, this is my first very post here. I have to say I'd pick the wallet as long as he had at least an average size penis. Having said that, my criteria for choosing a man in the first place is much deeper, but that isn't the question. To the Forum starter, I wonder what choice you would ask a lesbian to make.

It's interesting reading some of these responses. Many posters literally did not understand the question.

The OP meant... assuming you have two men that are *exactly* the same (big hearts, sparkling personalities, loving, intellectual prowess or whatever etc.) and one comes with a big dick and the other comes with a thick wallet, which guy would you pick. It's a theoretical question.

He wasn't implying that when looking for a guy that either of these criteria is the original motivating factor.

If you inserted two other random traits, it wouldn't have caused half the reaction though.

The trailer parks are absolutely full of women that prefer a man's big heart.

The top travel spots in the world are full of women that prefer a fat wallet. (NOTE: Women need great looks and bodies to qualify for this position)

The beds are full of women that love that big cock and it's certainly fun and feels good but it doesn't last long and leaves them thinking of fat wallets.

The real truth that is completely self evident to most men that have been around much is that an average size cock will get you by 95% of the time and a big heart will get you a good stable woman that will burden you with kids, a big mortgage, and a woman that loses interest in sex shortly after marriage. Money will get you almost any woman you want and if you're smart you'll never let one take your money when you tire of her and want another.

Men that know women will tell you that no matter what a woman says, she wants security first, last, and most importantly and that's what truly motivates women and unless she's ovulating and looking for a sperm donor to make babies, she'll go for the money every time when she actually makes a decision on what man to pick.

It's an oversimplification but women want security (money) and men want big tits on an insatiable whore. LOL

I know this post won't make me very popular but I've never been very popular anyway and at least I don't spread around a bunch of BS in hopes of duping some woman into sex. I DO wish I got more sex though but then who doesn't... LOL

Yes, that's pretty much it. People may not like you, but I agree with you on this!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Why do you think so many rich old bald headed men with big bellies and hairy backs that have to pop a viagra for sex have those model type 'trophy wife' arm pieces hanging on them?

Because the men are shallow?

Puuuhllleeeeassee, it's not like the "rich old bald headed men with big bellies and hairy backs that have to pop a viagra" are choosing the Plain chubby Janes either. They're buying up the food chain, too.

I prefer the security, so I'd choose the guy with the bigger wallet. A decent cock size will do, doesn't have to be huge (at least for me- 5 inches is good enough). What matters is if he is good in bed or not. What good is a huge cock if he doesn't know how to work it? :)

Puuuhllleeeeassee, it's not like the "rich old bald headed men with big bellies and hairy backs that have to pop a viagra" are choosing the Plain chubby Janes either. They're buying up the food chain, too.

buying a woman/man for sex.... isnt there a word for that? So... that would not apply when we are talking in a "NON - COMMERCIAL" situation where the only thing a person is looking at is someone to have a intimate relationship with...:-)

the purchase can be for a shot time or a long time.. if money is the main reason.. then its still a PURCHASE / SALE... :-)

And every woman i have ever met in my life.. will look down upon a SALE / PURCHASE situation.. “When one door of happiness closes, another opens; but often we look so long at the closed door that we do not see the one which has been opened for us.” ― Helen Keller

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I have other criteria for the men in my life. BUT it is much easier to enjoy life if you are not worried about the money. I make decent money myself, so it is even more important to me that they make enough that I don't feel obligated to pay for everything!

buying a woman/man for sex.... isnt there a word for that? So... that would not apply when we are talking in a "NON - COMMERCIAL" situation where the only thing a person is looking at is someone to have a intimate relationship with...:-)

the purchase can be for a shot time or a long time.. if money is the main reason.. then its still a PURCHASE / SALE... :-)

And every woman i have ever met in my life.. will look down upon a SALE / PURCHASE situation..

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