Can't let that one get you too down, there are more girls to be wooed. Take it from a married guy, it pays to talk, and just talk. Get to know them before they take you too see mom and dad, bro and sis. When that happens, you're stuck. Play the field, and just hang out. Go on a date, but don't "date" her. Like I said, get to know who she is before you decide to make it a recurring dating situation.