Woman is the
most gorgeous human that Allah ever created. She can impressed much people with
some interest thing that she has. Woman often be a super-woman who at the same
time can teach her children for math, prepare the dinner, iron the closthes,
sweep the room, watch TV, read Qur’an, do some course, and do some quality time
with social media. Shortly, She was amazing. We won’t be ever stop speaking
about woman. : )

But every woman
absolutely has a weakness. Yes.. Nobody’s perfect. One thing that can make a
woman being weak. Some woman were weak of her feeling especially, to understand
her own feeling. It sometimes happened when she stayed at same place with man,
and maybe did the same things. Moreover if she did a thing with a man so
frequently, I think it was no doubt if they will be had a feeling each other.
And the situation would be difficult when the girl was awared that she had that
feeling. I don’t know how to describe it. It may be called “admire” or “falling
in love”. Absolutely she would be felt more confused when the man gave some
signal to her. Yes, at the beginning we can not judge what the meaning of his
signal. And at this case, much women
that fall to his trap. Because no guaranteed about his seriousness on you just
with a signal for example texting frequently, staring more than three second,
be so caring, etc. It was not a sign of a seriousness, he should do the right
thing, “Marry you” or “Leave you and then coming back again when he was ready
for serious relation”. So which was that you choose? Was played? Or was taken
at serious way? ^^

When you, sister
was falling for this case “falling in love at confusing time”. I know admire
someone, it was not a mistake but sometimes the time and decision that we take,
just make a big mistake.

The first
thing is being aware that is a temptation
from the evil. So scary right?.. Evil did un-imagine method to make
us go away from Allah’s rules. We just need to think again and again about
this. Wanna stayed at absurd relation ? :’) or keep moving on ? So, keep In
touch with God, He must be the best decision maker. The woman (of course me ^^)
should be clever to understand the sign that given by some men; clever to
handle the feeling; clever to avoid the trap of the evil, and try hard to divert
that feeling into quality activity (if he don’t serious on you) and keep
improve to be better person. Don’t worry you’re not alone.. I was always
learning about this all the time.. I
know how hard it is dear. :’’)

But…….

Don’t be upset

Don’t be so down

And don’t be
trapped at the black area of him. It called “black area”, to describe the
unseriousness of the man reaction about his and your feeling, and also to
describe the “haraam relation before married” two of you guys. He does not
worthy for you yet. He does not worthy to thinking about yet. And it was wrong
if we were spending much time at the front of mirror just looking for the best
clothes to face him. It does not mean “you can’t make a relation with him”. Of
course not, you should keep ur friendship chain, but do not pass the limit ^^. Remember.. no dating before married ^^
whateva that relation’s names. So, just made a limit that can prevent you to
entry that into black area, the area that was favourite of Evil… huhuhu TT,TT…
I know you can do it.

Let’s move up
girls!

Start to improve
our self and then try to ask our heart “
Am I suitable for him? “ “Is it the best moment to built a new relation?”.
If you feel “no”. So let’s try slowly but sure to be better moeslim than
yesterday.

Let’s make our
self worth to get the best man,with
being a better moeslim in faced of God, first. A man who don’t play with ur
feeling and of course keep his self to his woman black area :’) Don’t forget to
keep praying, ask to be pair later with the best man that will be choosen by God
and ask for will be reconcilable at the best moment, because God never wrong :’
)

I hope you can
be istiqamah.. keep in touch with God and some virtuous friends. I’m sure…They
will notice when you falls to the wrong path… :’)

Hope you meet
your halal partner really soon. Be carefull of your feeling, stay aware, and
don’t be trap to black area hehee..