I don't have the link to the profile itself any more. The video was on my external harddrive, also known as what I copied out of my laptop as it was on its last legs (managed to get everything though) so I don't know if I could find it again.
But I've uploaded it for you. Thanks for the help with the uploading.
EroProfile - 31 Jeans - Knickers - Pussy Play.mp4

I believe I have the full version of that last one. Either on this computer or my external hard-drive... I don't remember if I got it from the downloads section here or from another site, but I can see if I can attach it once I dig it out for you.
Edit: Just checked, I have a rip from an EroProfile page of the full video. I'm not sure how to upload either to here or to the downloads page, so I'll figure that out and get back to you.

I think... I got a little confused.
I can't tell if you're talking about it as just an idea or as something that you're actually dealing with or have dealt with, but I'll shake my two cents at the ideas you brought up.
If you're talking to someone for the first time, face to face, either in person or through something like Skype then it's not going to be the easiest thing in the world. Even if you've got the advantage that you've been sending messages to each other for a while after meeting online, you're not going to know what to say or how to act and there will be nerves. But you can ask those general questions to ease in to things, asking them how the weathers been if they're somewhere distant and talking over Skype or how things have been for them. They probably won't have told you everything that's going on in their life, so give them the opportunity to talk. If you're interested, they will.
But for presenting yourself with some of your most intimate secrets... If it is, like Strokeknight2 suggested, a site where people with similar fetishes and kinks can meet then the one thing you have in common won't be such a big secret. You can share it with them and discuss hardships you've run into whilst enjoying it or similar things. There's a lot more for them to learn about you than just a single interest, people have more than just one secret.
As long as you're true to yourself, which can be the biggest problem when you're used to hiding certain parts of you, then it'll feel more natural. I don't know if I've explained myself well, but it just feels to me that you can't really get to know someone without being yourself. Putting on an act will only put up walls between you, whether in messages, a call or meeting in person.

I'm currently trying to get into this series after hearing good things from a friend of mine. So far, I'm part way through episode 3 and I'm not that hooked. It's not really entertaining me the way people are suggesting it and I haven't laughed at it so far.
I might ask my friend if/when it gets better and see how long I last before I give up.

It could be that early... But I still remember there being graphic dismemberment/decapitation within the first few minutes. And that's what would put me off rewatching it to find the scene.
It was a good anime for what it is, I just wasn't a fan of the gore.

I remember a lot of things from watching Elfen Lied, most of them I wish I could forget, but I don't remember that scene... I'd be tempted to rewatch it to see it again and refresh my memory, but I remember it being too gory for my taste.

Got to say, I don't remember the majority of crushes I might have had. I can really only recall 2;
Ayu Tsukimiya from Kanon (my all time fav, knew I was going to fall for her from the opening)
Cream from Sonic X (such a sweetie)

This video looks like it'll be great once I've downloaded it, especially as I have something similar already. But, I've having a few troubles with the download (hit my limit because of them), but I'll keep trying and I'll be back, with another review saying how good it is, assuming it's as good as I think it is.