Breakups & Divorce Support Group

Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.

How do I survive this?

My husband of seven years (we were together for 13) has a substance abuse problem and we seperated and filed for divorce in December. He has cleaned up and we have, for the past two months, been hanging out and we made an appointment to start marriage counseling.

He told me that he met a girl that he was just friends with in December. He said he never cheated on me and I believed him because I didn't think it was possible. Well, yesterday he tells me that he did cheat and that she is pregnant (I am assuming four or five months)!!!

Even after all of the stuff that he has put me through, he actually thinks he still has a shot with me and our marriage.

I love(d) him more than life and I just don't even know where to begin to pick up the pieces. I can't imagine life without him, but I really can't imagine life with him and his baby!!!

OMG.. forget him and tell him to take his sorry ass and his pregnant girlfriend with him. You are way better off without him. What a betrayal of trust..... after you were working things out... you go girl..move on with your life and find peace contentment and find someone better who can truly appreciate you..... call a lawyer immediately...

But remember, there is a big difference between wounded and damaged. It is not selfish to hold your hubby accountable for the fact that he couldn't keep his dog on the porch. Look forward, do not look back. And if you want to look for blame, look at him, not in the mirror.

So sorry, really!
I'm still in my marriage but I passed through the hurt, devastated, thought-I-would-die, pissed off, hurt again, way pissed off and finally acceptance stages- so I know it does get better. there is no way out but through. Know that no matter how abandoned you feel, you are not alone- we are all paddling the same boat.

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