Re: Help on dating sites!

I'm going to assume that you are a woman seeking advice on online dating. I would imagine for a woman the problem isn't so much finding men, it's finding the high quality ones. There are high quality men on these sites, but are rare and far between. Usually you will get a generic hello or hi and sometimes get something extreme like someone asking if you would like to join him and his wife. If thats not bad enough some will ask for your phone number or ask to meet up immediately. Instead of respecting the idea that you are concerned about your own safety when it comes to meeting someone online since you really don't know WHO your talking to.

My suggestion would be to try your best to give everyone a shot because some guys just don't know what to say in the first message. May even say a couple of odd things in a desperate attempt to be different and unique to you. As long as he seems somewhat normal in his profile and messaging then just give it a shot because you really never know what kind of interesting people you will meet and where.