It's amazing how some people just seem to forget. It's amazing how some people don't even think about the effects certain actions can have on others. When you get a person that invites you to join them for something or to hang out, or whatever, and then the night of, you are no longer a part of those plans because they either forgot or just did not want to see you. That is a feeling of being forgotten which is painful. We should never put ourselves in a position where this kind of behavior happens. Of course, it's not like you can predict the future and know that they are going to do this, but the other person knows that you were a part of the plans they made so wtf. And if they say that they don't remember, well,,,,, shit, thats even more painful. We have to understand that we do exist and that we are someone. We have to understand that to our real friends, family, and or loved ones are the people that actually do care and remember. Just be honest people, don't pretend you want to be around someone if you actually don't because karma sucks when that other person walks in somewhere and sees you hanging out where the other person was invited. Especially when the person says, "Na, I don't want to do anything", but yet then they do and you happen to see that as well. Anyway, the bottom line is, people, be up front. Don't mess with peoples heads. Don't make plans with someone if your not going to fallow through, or if you are going to forget, or lie about it. Not cool, and it hurts more than you know.