So my wife wants to have a threesome with me and another guy...

I'm 30, she's 24. It's been a bedroom fantasy with us for a couple of years. She really gets off to the idea of being "filled from both ends", and, to a lesser extent, having me watch her being ravaged by some anonymous stud. I've always thought it was a pretty hot idea too - the whole voyeuristic, exhibitionist aspect of it is pretty sexy, and I love imagining her as the center of attention and seeing her pleased to the point of collapse.

She's recently hinted that she'd like to try it out. She's still worried that I'll get jealous, but that's the last thing I'm concerned about. Ive never really done this before, I have no idea how to even go about doing this. (Back when I was in graduate school, a couple in their early-30s approached me about doing this with them, but plans kind of fell through and it never happened.)

Anyone have any experience with this? Where would I look for a guy neither of us know, who's young, in great shape, and above all else, disease-free (to a reasonable certainty)? How would I even approach someone with an offer like that? How would you guys react?

look up male escorts should be easy -that way you wife can pick someone she likes-

If its just a one time fantasy thing I'd just hire someone who will respect your boundaries. He will be cool and just let him know what is ok and not. Easy money for him and your wife and hopefully you get to have a good time. I"m not really down for it but everyone has different kinks I'd just do it safely and pay someone who has probably done it a lot.

YOU wouldn't, that the job of your wife. I was approached twice by women who after initial flirting revealed what they were up to. First just told me about it when I almost picked her up on a girls night out, second chatted me up and was flirty, when she pointed to her boyfriend who stood back a couple meters and smiled and waved when I looked over ... wasn't sure whether to be creeped out by it or punch him out for his phaggot smile. Didn't go for it either time, something about another naked man in the room while I am balls deep in his gf or wife creeps me out and kills boners.

Either way, you will need to let her find a guy. After all, its also her who needs to approve of him, since you are not really interested or bothered if he is attractive to you, now are you?

I'm 30, she's 24. It's been a bedroom fantasy with us for a couple of years. She really gets off to the idea of being "filled from both ends", and, to a lesser extent, having me watch her being ravaged by some anonymous stud. I've always thought it was a pretty hot idea too - the whole voyeuristic, exhibitionist aspect of it is pretty sexy, and I love imagining her as the center of attention and seeing her pleased to the point of collapse.

She's recently hinted that she'd like to try it out. She's still worried that I'll get jealous, but that's the last thing I'm concerned about. Ive never really done this before, I have no idea how to even go about doing this. (Back when I was in graduate school, a couple in their early-30s approached me about doing this with them, but plans kind of fell through and it never happened.)

Anyone have any experience with this? Where would I look for a guy neither of us know, who's young, in great shape, and above all else, disease-free (to a reasonable certainty)? How would I even approach someone with an offer like that? How would you guys react?

Don't plan on getting married for ~20 years, if ever, but if my wife ever brought that up with me I'd slap the sh!t out of her.

Wouldn't even want to bring another girl into the bedroom. FFM might be cool with some random chick you're just smashing but I don't see adding people to bedroom as very conducive to a good marriage. Although it works for some people, I suppose.

MMF..........not even once. The last thing I want in the room when I'm naked with a boner is another kunt who's also naked with a boner.

Don't plan on getting married for ~20 years, if ever, but if my wife ever brought that up with me I'd slap the sh!t out of her.

Wouldn't even want to bring another girl into the bedroom. FFM might be cool with some random chick you're just smashing but I don't see adding people to bedroom as very conducive to a good marriage. Although it works for some people, I suppose.

MMF..........not even once. The last thing I want in the room when I'm naked with a boner is another kunt who's also naked with a boner.

Don't plan on getting married for ~20 years, if ever, but if my wife ever brought that up with me I'd slap the sh!t out of her.

Wouldn't even want to bring another girl into the bedroom. FFM might be cool with some random chick you're just smashing but I don't see adding people to bedroom as very conducive to a good marriage. Although it works for some people, I suppose.

MMF..........not even once. The last thing I want in the room when I'm naked with a boner is another kunt who's also naked with a boner.

I've done the mmf thing with a married couple before. I was approached by the male of the couple in a bar one night and he told me a women on the other side of the bar thought I was very attractive. He then told me it was wife and that they've been talking about having another man join in with them and if it's something I would be interested in. He seemed like a decent guy and his wife was pretty damn hot so I asked if I could meet his wife. He said sure and waved her over. We all chatted and she was pretty shy about it but I could tell they both wanted it. I walked with them out to their car and he told me I could feel her up a little, rub her ass/pussy.. she was wearing a mini skirt with no panties. They both seemed really into it. Got their number and agreed they could come over to my place at some point soon.

A few days later they did and it really wasn't awkward at all. We would start off kinda slow, just touching/oral. He would usually just watch at first and then join in. We would take turns or she would blow him while I banged her. We tried for a DP but she couldn't take one in each hole at the same time. In fact, she couldn't really take it up the ass at all. There was no gay stuff, he never asked to suck my c0ck or anything like that. The husband just got off on watching his wife being pleased.. and she loved it too. I ended up seeing them three different times.. I would have more but I was dating someone at the time and things started to get more serious between us so I had to cut them off.

Thanks for the constructive comments. As for the 'gay'comments, I really don't get it - why would me being ok with this make me gay? Just because there's a another naked guy in the room? That's kind of unavoidable, isn't it? That's like saying athletes must be gay because they went into a profession that requires being in locker rooms and showers with other sweaty naked men. Or am I missing something here?

I'm genuinely looking for an answer, because now I'm paranoid that she might think I'm being fruity by wanting this too.

I hope the above comment is you trolling us and you are not actually that stupid.

But just incase , I'll spoon feed you the following, It's not about having another naked guy in the room, it's about your wife being shagged by someone other then you. How can you be ok with someone sticking his cock up her as.s and she sucking on his dick .

If you honestly need the misc to explain this to you at age 29, then my god what is the world turning into.

Literally go kill yourself or jump of a cliff.

but, but....... I THOUGHT A GIRLS SEXUAL HISTORY DOESNT MATTER GUIS......I THOUGHT YOU'RE SUPPOSED TO LOVE WOMEN FOR WHO THEY ARE AND NOT HOW MANY C0CKS HAVE BEEN IN HER....

Thanks for the constructive comments. As for the 'gay'comments, I really don't get it - why would me being ok with this make me gay? Just because there's a another naked guy in the room? That's kind of unavoidable, isn't it? That's like saying athletes must be gay because they went into a profession that requires being in locker rooms and showers with other sweaty naked men. Or am I missing something here?

I'm genuinely looking for an answer, because now I'm paranoid that she might think I'm being fruity by wanting this too.

Try Craigslist and be patient. I set up a threesome with another girl that way.

This girl I'm with is okay with threesomes with other girls. We set up an ad and a few girls answered. We just picked a hot one who didn't have any issues. That whole process took a month. We settled for an exotic mixed girl who was a nurse. We hooked up with her twice and it was extremely fun. She was hot, but a cute redhead sent us a message a week later and I had to turn her down.

Basically, we specified we wanted someone with no issues, drugs, STDs, or drama. We had a few stupid guys respond even though the ad specified that we were looking for a girl only. But since that's what you're seeking, OP, it shouldn't be a problem for you.

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