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Every now & then I read something that's so wise, yet so simple--that rings true to my own experiences--that helps me to better understand my everyday reactions & feelings--and then gives me clear directions on how to make positive change happen in my life.

That's exactly what discovering Dr. David Rock & Dr. Daniel Siegel's, "Healthy Mind Platter" has done for me. Riffing off of the USDA's brand new Choose My Plate recommendations for a healthy diet--Rock & Siegel have incorporated the latest neuropsychological research to visually share with us the 7 daily activities needed for "good mental nutrition."

Sometimes you just have to hear common sense advice from an "expert" to really believe it!

Ever notice how cranky, impatient, & fuzz-thinking you feel after a night of too-little sleep?

Is there any comparison between a long walk & heart-to-heart talk with a close friend versus connecting via emails, texts, or phone calls?

What about all those constant interruptions at work--or at home--when you're trying to complete a project that takes a lot of mental focus? The emails, phone calls, barrage of questions, comments, and the daily work chatter. Can anyone really concentrate in a cubicle office? What about the sheer joy you feel when you're so focused on a project that you completely lose track of time?

And how often do you allow yourself the luxury of 100% do-nothing piddle around unscheduled time at home? Rarely--I'm guessing. Whoever just sits on a park bench, their couch, or in their backyard--or drives in their car or "ambles about"-without being connected or plugged into something that takes up all their attention--like the radio, an iPhone or iPod, a cellphone, a laptop, a book/magazine/newspaper, or a companion? I'm talking about 100% quiet time to just think or reflect. No one I know.

This is a topic close to my heart--and one that I've written about often. How can we find the right balance between purposeful work, family, friendships, self, obligations, & health? How do we fit everything into our lives without making ourselves crazy busy, unfocused, stressed out, feeling put-upon, or unhealthy?

"This platter has seven essential mental activities necessary for optimum mental health in daily life. These seven daily activities make up the full set of 'mental nutrition' that your brain needs to function at its best.

By engaging regularly in each of these servings, you enable your brain to coordinate and balance its activities, which strengthens your brain's internal connections and your connections with other people."

The seven essential mental activities are (click here to go to Rock's full blog post):

Focus Time. When we closely focus on tasks in a goal-oriented way, taking on challenges that make deep connections in the brain.

Play Time. When we allow ourselves to be spontaneous or creative, playfully enjoying novel experiences, which helps make new connections in the brain.

Connecting Time. When we connect with other people, ideally in person, richly activating the brain's social circuitry.

Physical Time. When we move our bodies, aerobically if possible, which strengthens the brain in many ways.

Time In. When we quietly reflect internally, focusing on sensations, images, feelings and thoughts, helping to better integrate the brain.

Down Time. When we are non-focused, without any specific goal, and let our mind wander or simply relax, which helps our brain recharge.

Sleep Time. When we give the brain the rest it needs to consolidate learning and recover from the experiences of the day.

Consider this, folks! Four of the activities essential to mental health involve No Purposeful Action! That's right--to feel our best we need to carve out daily time to wind down, chill out, play, & sleep! All activities that aren't goal-oriented.

Apologies to all of you if this is "old news"--the HBR post came out on June 3, 2011.

As for me, it's totally liberating to learn that Down Time "doing absolutely nothing," Time In "taking time out to just sit quietly & think", Play Time, and Sleep Time are as important to my well-being as are healthy food, exercise, purposeful work, and friendships. Doing nothing will never more be considered a "guilty pleasure"--it's an essential one!

And it's so validating to learn that what I know in my heart to be true for me: Focus Time, Connection Time, & Exercise Time are all key players for happiness & well-being.

I agree that non-stressful mental activities are good. It's OK to be alone with your thoughts!

I do question if "focus time" is enough to describe all the mental activities that go into researching, analyzing and evaluating complex notions and data. We might not really be "focusing on a task", but rather doing some complex thinking that is NOT focused. The implication of this ingredient ("Focus Time") of our mental processes is that if our brains are working hard, we must be focused on a task, but this could stifle creativity and philosophical thought.
Hope I am explaining this adequately.

My take on the "Focus Time", is that being very engaged in a "goal-oriented" activity--that is challenging--and this could be photography or research or cooking or writing a legal brief or taking a class (whatever) not only benefits our brains by building brain cells--it also benefits our spirit & well-being, feels good, & builds self-esteem.

But, we also need the down time, and the time to reflect to enable us to have the creativity, originality, & energy to bring to the "focused time". We also need the sleep, play, down time, & thinking time to recharge our brains after the focused time. We can't just work!

I don't know about you, but I opt for those rare, other-worldly, illuminating moments that David Brooks referred to as...limerence. Those times where the brain is so razor focused at something it loves that we lose all track of time. Those perfect moments. Personally, I don't think we get enough of them...they are fleeting or non-existent in most of our lives but when they do occur, something magical happens in the brain...I just know it. We are so addicted to schedules and time frames that when a real relaxation event is upon us (like a massage or yoga class), we're already thinking of what's next on the schedule! Escape time for my brain is what I crave!