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Katherine Russell, the widow of Boston bomb suspect, Tamerlan Tsarnaev, was 'an all-American girl who was brainwashed' by her extremist husband according to one schoolfriend.

Today MailOnline has gained the first glimpse and pictures of the early life of the woman who, according to those who knew her best, was 'totally transformed' by Tsarnaev.

At high school her personal motto was 'Do something about it or stop complaining'. She dreamed of going to college and joining the Peace Corps.

She urged her friends to 'lighten up and enjoy the small things,' in life.

Transformed: Katherine Russell, the American wife of marathon bomber Tamerlan Tsarnaev, is pictured left in her school book and, right, leaving the house she shared with her husband in Cambridge

Instead she met Tsarneav, 26, a disenfranchised man who came to America from his troubled homeland of Chechnya who rapidly had her in his thrall.

By the time she was 21 she had married him and borne his child, Zahara, now three. She had converted to Islam, hidden her tumble of chestnut hair beneath the hijab and undergone a change so profound that today few friends profess to truly understand it.

Yesterday Katherine, who has been staying at her parents’ home in Rhode Island, returned to the Cambridge, Massachusetts home which she shared with her late husband.

Dressed in a leopard print hijab she darted into the white shingle house to collect some belongings and her pet cat while her daughter waited in the car.

Today she was back home, accompanied by armed federal agents who first interviewed Katherine and her family on Friday.

What did she know? Katherine's proximity to both brothers makes her a key witness - witting or otherwise. A team of federal agents today delivered a package to her home after her mother reluctantly answered the door

Great future: Her friends say she dreamed of going to the Peace Corps - before she met Tsarnaev

Shortly before 6pm on Sunday three law enforcement agents – two men, one woman - all wearing dark sunglasses delivered a package to the Russell's family home.

Katherine's mother Judith was initially reluctant to answer the front door, opening it fully only after requesting that the officers, thought to be Federal Agents, showed their credentials.

At around 7.30 the Federal agents returned to the Russell family home as there was a marked increase in law enforcement activity in this quiet suburban neighbourhood.

MailOnline has learned that the family's attorney entered by a back door as several officers were seen going into the family home.

The agents stayed for just over an hour. Moments after they left, the family's attorney Amato DeLuca did likewise.

Mr DeLuca said he could not discuss any detail of what had passed between his client and the agents, saying only that there were ‘talks.’

He said ‘We’re doing our best to deal with a very difficult situation. The family’s going through a lot. That’s the best I can do at the moment.’

Their presence raises the question how much did Katherine know about her late husband's activities and links?

Katherine's awareness of her then husband's movements, thoughts and plans is under intense scrutiny as her relation to Tsaraev and her proximity to both brothers makes her a key witness - witting or otherwise.

After all she was living with Tsarnaev when he travelled to Makhachkala in 2011 – a trip now attracting the interest of investigators trying to establish whether he met with Gaczhimurad Dolgatov at that time. Dolgatov was a Dagestani jihadist who died in 2012 after a vicious stand-off with Russian security services.

As it has already been revealed, Tsarnaev was on the FBI's radar during that time as they were asked to look into his potential links to extremist groups.

Through the years: She had a comfortable upbringing as the eldest daughter of a doctor and a nurse

Involved: Russell, circled, is pictured with her high school dance team, third from right on the back row

None who knew her as a child could have dreamed that this would be the face she would one day present to the world, nor that her life and those of so many Bostonians would be so violently caught up with two brothers from Chechnya and a cause as unclear as it was brutal.

As a girl growing up in Rhode Island Katherine was known to her friends as Katie. One school friend who asked not to be named recalled: ‘I saw her like a few months ago and she was just totally transformed. She was not the same person at all.’

Another agreed: ‘She was just this All-American girl who was brainwashed by her super-religious husband. Nobody understands what happened to her.

‘None of us would have dreamed that she would marry so young or drop out of college and have a baby or convert or be part of any of what’s happened.’

Out: She exits a car with her father Warren Russell, left, as they arrive at the family home in Rhode Island

Changed: Her school friends have described how she transformed after meeting Tamerlan Tsarnaev

In hiding: The Russell family home in North Kingstown, Rhode Island, where Katherine is staying

Support: A man, believed to be Warren Russell, father of Katherine Russell, smiles at the media

Family: After pulling into her driveway, Judith Russell, Katherine's mother, spoke briefly with the media

She said, ‘She’s just not the same person at all.’

It would be hard to imagine a childhood more rooted in America’s pilgrim heritage than Katherine’s. It is in there in the names of the towns – Plymouth, Dorset, Greenwich – where many of her friends still live and writ large in the wholesome values of the one-time Honors student’s home life.

'She was this All-American girl who was brainwashed by her super-religious husband. Nobody understands what happened'

The eldest of three daughters, to emergency physician Dr Warren Russell and nurse Judith, hers is a background steeped in the values of family and education.

She attended Daisyville Middle School, North Kingstown. As a sixth grader she is pictured smiling from the pages of the 2001-2002 yearbook dedicated to The North Kingstown Police and Fire Departments in the wake of 9/11. – a date, the opening dedication reads, ‘forever in our minds.’

A section of the book is titled, ‘Enduring Freedom,’ as the school, along with the rest of the nation, refused to be cowed by the acts of terror that hit the homeland that day.

'Attackers': Her husband Tamerlan Tsarnaev and his younger brother Dzhokhar Tsarnaev were allegedly behind the bombings at the Boston Marathon last Monday, which left three dead and more than 180 injured

Chilling: Tamerlan and Dzhokhar Tsarnaev are seen near the marathon finish line before the bombings

In 2004 Katherine progressed to North Kingstown High School.

She took part gamely in the school’s Mismatch/Bad Hair Day; she dressed up for Hawaiian day though the occasion fell in a chilly October.

She was a member of the Dance Team and the Art Club. In 11th grade she was awarded a Silver Key for a rather odd image of a cat, lashing out at a mouse in a ballet shoe. Her favourite food was Pad Thai.

She competed with her peers in Class Color Day that ended with a Pep Rally in which seas of the school colours, green, blue, red, black and gold filled the stands at the playing field.

One classmate who remembers Katherine from those early days said: ‘The thing that’s so shocking is that there was nothing at all that made Katherine different.

‘Her parents are nice people, her sisters are great girls. But she met this guy, I guess, and everything changed.’

Katherine was astudent at Sussex University, Boston, when she met Tsaraev, then a promising boxer and athlete.

It was during that time that she converted and her youthful priorities appear to have changed as she left in 2010 without graduating.

By then her relationship with Tsaraev was intense. Not even his arrest for violently assaulting her in 2009 could change that.

Shootout: Tamerlan died following a shootout with police on Friday, while his brother escaped

Scene: Dzhokhar was found in a boat in Watertown, Massachusetts on Friday following a massive manhunt

According to Cambridge City Police Department reports of the incident which took place in July at the Massachusetts home she once shared with Tsaraev, when interviewed she described Tsaraev as ‘a very nice man.’

Certainly he was a man whose influence on Katherine's life would prove profound.

There is only one odd and unsettling inclusion in her own entry in her graduation High School Yearbook.

Asked to provide a quotation she settled on one that would surely chime with the extremist views of her late husband.

‘Don’t take anything for granted,’ she advises, before quoting a line from David Bowie's 'Quicksand': ‘Don’t believe in yourself, don’t deceive with belief,’ the baffling lines run. ‘Knowledge comes from death’s release.’

First, each of you has the right to feel however you want to feel about this woman and her child. Getting angry at each other for how you feel isn't very productive.

Second, I think we should hold off on judging this woman until we know a little more. There are many woman who know nothing about what their husband is doing. If the brothers never met to discuss the bombing in her house, she could very well not know what they were doing. People at the school the younger brother went to didn't have any idea that he was involved in anything like this. We know that serial rapists hide, quite successfully, from their wives the fact that they are raping women. Serial killers often are able to hide from every one the fact that they are killers. I could believe that she didn't know. On the other hand, she might have been deeply involved, or she might have suspected something, or she might have overheard something. We just don't know yet.

If she was involved, I hope they can pin it on her and send her away forever. If she knew something because she overheard it, I hope they can punish her in some way. If she only suspected something, well ... what could she have done? Would anyone have listened to her?

Anyway, I hope her daughter can be shielded and protected from what her father did.

Exactly. Take the "Green River Killer", he killed at least 49 women over a period of something like 10 years and his wife never had a clue.

The same with the Buffalo "Bike Path Rapist". His wife had no clue that the man she was married to for 25 years was a serial rapist and killer, until the police showed up at the restaurant they were dining in and arrested him.

I haven't seen any evidence that she was brainwashed. She could easily have made a conscious choice to convert. This story is really about nothing. It just keeps repeating one persons opinion. Could be true. Could be crap. There is a total lack of compelling facts to prove her state of mind. It seems more like the work of a good PR agent honestly.

I refuse to read this. This woman fell in love, married and had their child. I have no idea what she is going through right now, as my DH is alive and well. All I can do for her is hope she finds support, love, peace and privacy for her and their child.

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