For Love "AND" Money?

The rule seems to be seriously flawed. All it says is she chooses either 1 million or the man. But if she really falls in love with this guy, can't she choose 1 million first, then keep dating this guy after the show is over? The rule does not say she cannot do that. This guy may be interested in her even more after she gets 1 million. Unless I miss something, the rule does not really mendate "for love OR money" at all.

I still like the idea that if she chooses the money, they just take him out back and shoot him like a lame horse.

Of course, brilliant litigator that he would appear to be, he could probably appeal that on being unfair and stuff, right? Or tell the judge she has a nice dress? Or that the Consitution matches the rug?