How to Ask for Anything

Saying "I'm sorry" is only a start, says couples mediator Laurie Puhn, author of Fight Less, Love More. First, admit you're at fault: "I'm so sorry I missed your birthday party." Then accept responsibility: "I was disorganized, and I double-booked." Expressing regret is also important: "I feel terrible that I was so inconsiderate. It won't happen again." Finally, make amends: "Let me buy you a drink. I won't flake this time."