When I was younger (like 21), for absolutely ever. No joke, 2 hrs + without coming. And then could almost immediately start up again with nearly no refractory period, I was absolutely outstanding in bed.

Now typically around 40 minutes. If I hold out much longer than that, usually I'll soften up and need to sit out a few, it sucks, but from what I hear 40 minutes isn't bad at all. However, a few days ago, suddenly out of nowhere, I was fucking for like 3 hours near non-stop and nutted 3 different times. It was absolutely crazy, from out of nowhere I had an awesome glimpse of my old 20-yr old self so I guess once in a while I can pull it back out of the closet.

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"If I want to last a long time I just keep a picture of Hillary Clinton handy. It is also good to stop a mugger. "

Looking at any pictures during sex of Hillary, Roseanne Barr or Ellen DeGeneres would make me limp as a noodle, I would need a few women that would only slow me down not kill the entire moment or night.

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I have lasted quit a while... Or not for very long... It depends upon the woman, and comfort mostly.

As for excersies? If you can try tensing the muscle between the anus and the scrotum repeatedly, I heard that it allows you better controll over ejaculation.

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If I want to last a long time I just keep a picture of Hillary Clinton handy. It is also good to stop a mugger.

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Can you cite those studies please?

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Must have been chubby men taking the study.Y.ou know to make them look more appealing to others Personally, the men I have been with that lasted pretty long were all on the regular to thin side. The only chubby I saw was in their underpants :)

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There has been two studies that both agree: The average weight man can last 108 seconds after penetration before cumming. A "chubby" man averages 7 minutes. Ladies, think about that...

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As I have gotten older I have come (no pun intended) to realize that my recovery time had gotten so long that "round 2" sometimes came after everyone else was ready to call it a night. So, I have learned to prolong and prevent ejaculating so that I can finish when the time is right.

One on one I can last a couple of hours, including some down time between erections.

In a party scenario, I can go several hours with multiple erections and as long as I stop myself from cumming (using mental distractions) I am able to finish the night off right!

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It depends on who I am with, the enthusiasm.

That is why we both prefer lots of foreplay, kissing, touching. It is not a sprint to the finish, nor is it a marathon. That is why we like to be friends, it makes for an evening that is more fun for everyone.