You are still in the midst of your spell so it is too soon to expect it to take effect. Continue working and once your spell is done, deploy the remains and have faith in its success. Signs are very personal so be on the lookout for indications that your message has been heard.

There are any number of reasons why he may have ignored you at work, which can have nothing to do with you. Don't obsess.

You said you feel positive about your spell since you are putting your heart into it - that is what you need to focus on now. You're doing all of the right things so trust your work. If you allow doubt to creep in, you will undermine your success.

Thank you mam for your reply.. I really love him and I think of him all the time.. he broke up with me three weeks ago.. I wanted to request if someone can share a success story with red skull candle for love.. thank you.

Hi, I'm new to this board but I have been reading a lot of the posts. And I have been doing some work to bring back a relationship. My boyfriend and I have been on a break for a month. Every reading I've had says he does have strong feelings for me and wants to be serious with me but that he's afraid and his scars from a previous relationship are making him scared to do this with me. They said he was taken by surprise because he didn't expect to feel this way about me.

So I started a honey jar and a skull candle. The first skull candle burned normal for 7 days and melted all the way down. The flame was clean, no smoke, etc. I buried it as instructed. I burned a second one and it burned completely within 4 days and two days after I started the second one, I received a notification that he had accessed and looked through a shared folder of pictures of us. I took this as a great sign. I also saw a heart burning in the 2nd candle while it was burning. Before I started the second one, we had talked and I gave him the opportunity to end things if he wanted to but he didn't. Instead he just asked for a little more time. Then I started a third skull since I wanted to keep me on his mind. The third skull was thicker and denser than the other two. It burned different and the face fell off toward me but ended up melting mostly once the candle burned down. This candle the flame was not as high but it could have been the way the candle was melting. The flame was still clean, no smoke, no going out, etc. I saw a heart in the melted wax and what looked like a sperm. All the wax on all candles flowed toward me. This last skull also burned in 4 days. I buried all of them in the front yard. The day the candle finished he returned my text, but took his time to respond once he did reach out. He also liked a social media picture I posted from several days prior which means he had to go to my page.

I can't tell if he's being distant and pulling away a little and since the candle burned a little differently I was wondering if maybe he's changing his mind. The honey jar candles have burned clean with strong flames. The wax has been melting completely except the last two times when it left a little wax behind.

I guess my question is, if I did 3 skull candles was that too many? I was getting positive results during the 2nd one but can it turn negative if I continue to do work?

I don't want to push him away. Are these all still good signs or do I have something to worry about?

Welcome to the forum! When you get a chance, and presuming you wish to do so, please introduce yourself in the Introductions thread.

Were all three candles from Lucky Mojo? I ask because A/ you said the third was thicker and denser than the other two and burned differently; and B/ we can only advise on the use of Lucky Mojo products.

You have probably worked him enough since it's only been a month, so I would now sit back and see what results you get. You're already getting some signs of him sniffing around your social media pages, so even if he isn't running as hot as you would like right now, you need to give your spells time to work. Let Spirit take over and trust in your success. Now is not the time to obsess.

My red offertory candles for the honey jar were LM Products but they were out of skull candles when I ordered them so I had to purchase them elsewhere. My guess is that the third candle was just inconsistently made. It felt denser and was darker than the first two. It also had a small hole in the bottom and looked slightly cracked from being shipped (although it never actually cracked and broke). So it might have just been the candle itself.

Just speaking generally, does doing skull candles after the first one negate the previous work or just reinforce the answer and work from the previous one?

Hello! I bought a red skull candle from lucky mojo, and it didn't exactly arrive as described on the website. To confirm, the code name on my order is CAN-FIG-SKRE. It is described on the website as "Colour Red; 2 3/4 inches tall." However mine is 6 inches tall, and it isn't just a skull, the base has crossbones. I'm concerned about the connotations of this as I want to use the red skull candle for love workings. Also, it's going to take a lot longer to burn because it's a huge candle. Can anyone tell me why the candle I received has crossbones?? And how it would effect a love spell.

Welcome to the forum! When you get a chance, please introduce yourself in the Introductions thread.

The skull candle you describe, with the crossbones, is the newer form of skull candle sold by Lucky Mojo. The previous one was just the head and described by the original description you mentioned. It works exactly the same, and you shouldn't be put off by the crossbones. It's not a sign of anything and it won't affect your love spell.

So I need some insight if anyone is willing. My boyfriend and I took a break a little over a month ago. I worked a few skull candles with good results (good burns, hearts in the wax, no smoke or wick issues, etc). I also saw signs during the work like him looking at our pictures, him texting and liking my social media posts. He came over last night to talk and said he didn't want this to be over but couldn't ask me to wait either while he figured things out. He said he hasn't felt this way about someone in a very long time and cares very deeply for me but feels pulled in a bunch of directions and worries he can't be the boyfriend he wants to be. Said he felt uncertain about everything. He said he worries ending it would be a huge mistake because he does want this but also feels like there's a blockage. He said he didn't know what to do. He finally said he thinks he needs to figure this out on his own right now but asked if we could still talk. I agreed. He also indicated he'd like us to get together and maybe I could see his new place. He said several times that he felt there was a big possibility that breaking up is the wrong choice and that he'd realize that.

I had a reading a week ago (before we talked) & what came out was that he is in love with me but is fighting those feelings. That he does want to be with me, take care of me, etc but is scared because he feels so strongly and wasn't prepared to feel this way. But that there was a good chance he would work through his fear and commit to me. It came up several times that he didn't want this to be over and end (which seemed to be true even when my BF and I talked).

I haven't worked a skull candle in a week. So im wondering if I should work another one? Or is this a definite no? Or is the work still working in him and I just need to continue to give it time?

Does this situation still seem hopeful or a lost cause? From where I sit, he did not seem to want it to be over. Thoughts?

From what you said, he does want this relationship with you (a step in the right direction from your spellwork) but needs to figure things out for himself (where he needs Crucible of Courage).

Very often, when a target is worked on to bring them closer to another person, they may start to retreat a bit at first. This is common and not always a sign that the spell has failed. Give it some time, work on elevating his courage and see what signs you get. I think it's a little too soon to declare your situation hopeless, as you had originally asked.

I hope this helps. Please keep us posted and I wish you great luck in getting your relationship back to where you want it to be.

I was wondering when working a skull for 15 mins at a time I read it is beneficial to speak the words through the tobacco smoke of a cigarette or cigar. Is it sufficient to do this for just the first round of thoughts/commands or should you speak through the smoke for the 15 minutes. The reason I ask is because I live in a shared apartment which does not allow smoking and it is too windy for a candle outside. I could probably get away with lighting a cigarette quickly for the first time I say the commands without anyone noticing. Does it affect the work if the full 15 mins is not spoken through smoke?

Using tobacco smoke to speak through is a personal preference and not a requirement in working a skull candle. If you do want to incorporate tobacco smoke, you can do it for as long as is feasible under your circumstances. It won't impair your spell if you can only do it for a few minutes at a time.

The face (with petition sticking in it) and part of the back of the skull (with my target's name) fell off the rest of the candle in the pan I have it in as it melted. Is it okay to move it and lean it on the rest of the candle so it melts? Thank you.

can anyone help with ideas to put into someones mind through the black spell candle? After some brainstorming I've come up with these:

'her smile isn't genuine. " "ill never be able to make her happy." even thought of taking that love and transforming it into forceful lust. Also because my target is trans, I am thinking of ways to up the insecurity. The only insecurity I could think is sexual acceptance.

Okay, didn't really have all my thoughts together. I have a black skull candle. I got some licorice root to implant in the base of the skull candle with a printed out picture of the target; and name. (birthday is unknown) as personal effects. The oils I have chosen to help with my goal are controlling oil, destruction oil, and break up oil. The purpose of the spell is to put thoughts in the targets head that will lead to a couple splitting up. Since it is a black skull candle to influence and bring about negative thoughts. The things I listed are what I hope will do the job, and I'm asking for some guidance.

If you want to use a skull candle to implant negative (and potentially relationship-breaking) thoughts in someone's head about their partner, the oils that you have are fine. I would petition that they see their partner as repulsive, or they are turned off by their partner, or other general commands. Let Spirit decide what form that repulsion or turn-off should be.

You could face the skull candle to a distorted photo of the target - write the word "repulsive" across their forehead, and smear the photo with nasty things like dog shit (the real stuff). Anything to make that individual as repulsive as possible. Use your imagination.

I like to yell at the skull candle that "so and so repulses you!" or "so and so turns you off!" or "so and so is a shitty person!" or words to that effect. Keep it in the present tense and make the nasty person the subject of the command. I find it works better to get my anger up when I am that direct and commanding when working this kind of spell.

Black skull candles can be used for banishing, cursing, and the like. So, yes, black is OK to banish good thoughts about the other person. And to banish his/her love of the other person. I would be consistent in that petition. Something like: " You will no longer have pleasant thoughts about ___".

But solely for influencing, I would have gone with a white skull candle. Like I had said, black is good for this but "tweet" your petition. And pleas don't use destruction oil on him/her. Use the destruction oil, instead, on the picture and then you could follow it up with dog shit (don't use cat shit as a replacement).

I am SO glad that Miss Aida weighed in here, because this was a case of thinking something but not writing it down! I had it in mind that the oils were intended for the "nasty" person when I responded first, so the oils felt right and I meant to add that they should be used on the person being cast in a negative light.

Hello....I want to get some ideas on what would be the best spell for me to perform...I am married and have found through a tarot reading that my husband was unfaithful to me. I caught him talking to another woman last year. He erased all texts but he said it was nothing that he was helping her heal...he's a healer...which contradicts what he does in him home..

The reading did confirm he did sleep with that woman even though he denies it..he says he has never been unfaithfull to me...He has the roving eye..I am 20 yrs. younger than him, faithful and devoted but he does not appreciate that. On top of this, he has not given me access to any of the bank accounts or finances... we are in the process of doing a trust to put all possessions in the trust and follow with a will. He says i will be the trustee along with him. But on the reading, I was told that he is going to try and lie and do the paperwork his way.

I have been told to look over everything because he will try to cheat me out of his inheritance.. This man has made me cry due his behavior and unfaithfullness, he lies to me constantly, erases massages to other women on his phone and facebook... He says he loves me and does not want us to go apart but he wants to have his cake and eat it too... .

I am currently 47, he is 69 ... I am thinking of doing a green skull candle and dress it with domination herbs and oils. write his name and what I want him to do on the candle.. What else do you suggest? is a green skull candle ok, or is red better? can I combine my petition for him to be generous and to do all the inheritance paperwork in my favor, plus petition for him to be faithfull? Or do I do a separate candle to make him be honest and faithfull to me? I would really appreciate your help....

Welcome to the forum! When you get a chance, and presuming you wish to do so, please introduce yourself in the Introductions thread.

Also, please do not post in a solid block of text. Use paragraph spacing, which makes it easier to read. I edited your post accordingly.

If you want to make sure he pays you what you are entitled to, then work with Pay Me products. You can dress the skull candle in this oil. Green is OK but white would also work. Red would not be the right choice of candle color for your goals.http://www.luckymojo.com/products-pay-me.html

Do not combine this goal with faithfulness in the same spell. That's demanding too much and defusing your energy. Work a separate spell for faithfulness. You can do a search of the forum using the little search bar in the upper right corner to find the thread on ensuring fidelity.

I am going to be using a black skull candle and influence oil on it to help influence a spell I am doing to will a person to want something and constantly think of that.

1. So with the influence oil, with skull candles is there a certain way to put the oil on them?

2. Do I need to go a certain direction or does it matter with the skull candles?

3. Do I need to carve anything into the candle on top of having a petition?

4. And I can get a photo to load into the candle for sure and might be able to get some other personal item, not entirely certain on that though. I also think I might roll the candle in what it is they are wanting for deeper affect.

5. One thing I'm a little awkward about is the talking to the skull. Does this need to be done?

6. If so that's fine I guess just not sure how to go about it. Should I whisper to it like whispering in this persons ear or just straight forward talking?

7. Also I'm not sure I will be able to burn this on the weekends but will have free time during the week from early morning to afternoon so will it be okay if I'm unable to burn the skull candle on the weekends?

8. And when I have to put it away is it going to be okay to move it?

9. Should I tape the petition to the inside of the candle holder it will be set on so I do not have to separate them?

Thank you miss Aida for replying.
Any help I can get is most appreciated. I would most certainly like to read that when I can get some extra money. Which is why im asking all I can. But not really getting far with that.

I did some more research and figured out a few things after posting however. I think I got impatient and should have done so before posting.
I think I'm going to get this going asap though I cant really wait any longer.

I do have another question though if anyone can answer. Does sticking hot pins or needles in the eyes of the skull work for the intended not seeing what you are doing or who is doing it?
Thanks so much

So I am working to bring my boyfriend back. We've taken a break and I've been working a honey jar and have done a couple of red skulls with success (albeit slow progress). I am still working the honey jar with red candles and now a blue candle as well during the Mercury retrograde. I had a reading and was told a healing white skull candle would be beneficial and to start that once we are out of retrograde. The healing work is to heal him of his fears, past wounds, emotional distress and fear of commitment.

For the white skull candle, I was going to use healing oil, clarity oil and healing herbs. But I also have road opener, blockbuster and crucible of courage oils. Should I use these on it as well to heal him and then bring him back? Should I also put these pills on the red skull candle I was told to work after the healing one?

If it's for his healing, what should I write on the candle? I was going to write "heal" or "you're healed", but should I write something like "you're ready willing and able to be committed to me" or "you're not afraid" or "you're safe"?

Lastly, should I write my name crossed with his on the name paper and should I include my picture with his underneath the candle? I wasn't sure since this is meant to help him heal from his past, his emotional distress and open the way for him to come back to me.

Thank you so much for clarifying my questions. I will use a green skull candle and keep my intentions separate as you say. I have placed an order with LM already that includes the pay me products and other herbs and powders. I'm still waiting for the order but once I receive it, I will start my work.

Thank you for helping with the set up of the post. This is the first time I post. I have been reading LM posts for many years but had never gotten down to write a post. I will follow your input for writing posts in the future and will introduce myself in the introductions section.

I have prepared and have been talking to the candle skull (talking my ex bf into coming back) for 4 nights. I then found out he is seeing another girl now. I no longer want to go on with the spell. Since I haven't burn it yet and the skull contains his hairs and picture. What do I do with the skull candle now? do I burry it just like the finished spell?

Thank you for your response. Please tell me how to dispose the candle. I cannot accept a man who has moved on to another women back. He has been seeing her while we were in relationship...they went on dates and vacations together...now I think he must be cheated on me.

Hello everyone,
Thank you in advance for help and all the knowledge I gained from this forum.. I got few questions.
My bf broke up with me on July 13 and I have not seen him since that day.. he blocked me everywhere.
I cast red skull candle spell three weeks ago and I have been getting signs but since there wasn't any movement in these 3 weeks between us I almost gave up! Suddenly, yesterday we saw each other at the store but no communication at all. I saw him looking but he was with someone. Pls can you tell me, can I take that as a movement in my work? Today was our 1st anniversary and I was waiting for some contact from him but he's so stubborn he did not. How long does it take for a spell to fully manifest?
Thank you very much

That may be a sign but it isn't movement, as movement is active progress towards your goal. He didn't communicate with you so I would not consider that progress. Give your work time - 3 weeks is not long enough to expect results. We can't predict how long any spell will take to manifest, only Spirit knows that answer. Trust in your work and have patience. That would be my best advice.

I am currently working the "cigarette" trick between two people, described by ConjureMan Ali in the thread about causing discord, enmity, and strife. (Justified). I am also wanting to work a skull candle for one of those people at the same time. I feel that the two would complement one another as they are both intended for the same goal. (After Mercury retrograde is completely behind us, as this will be new work.) My question is about having two items baptised at the same time for the same person. Is it a thing that is fine to do or do I need to only have one going at a time? Since during the baptism you're actually calling that person's spirit into what you're working, I'm just not sure. I would really love for someone with more experience and knowledge than myself to give me some insight about this practice.

Yes, you can baptize several objects at a time to work on your target, especially since you are working them towards the same goal. It's often a good idea to use several methods to reach a target, as a means of backing up your work with additional energy.

It was my third day burning my skull and it began to burn high because the wick folded and formed a double wick and the candle burned more quickly. The flame was large and hard to pinch out and of course was sooty. Should I finish what's left of it and redo? Does it still affect the target? Argh. I should have pinched it out and trimmed it.

Thank you Miss Aida. It happened so fast! I had felt some energy as I've been burning it and was upset at my mistake. I have trimmed it and will burn it fewer hours. I'm glad I can still work it and not redo.

I just started burning a white skull candle to heal my estranged boyfriend of his past wounds. I did it when I knew he'd be sleeping at like 2/2:30am. I let it burn for a couple hours before snuffing it out. I can see that after I snuffed it out he got up and was active on social media. Could he have woken up from the energy of the candle? Is that a good sign that he woke up because it means it's affecting him?

Lastly, I've burned red skull candles before and have buried them in my front yard. Where would I bury the white healing skull candle when it's finished?

Some rootwokers might say that it would be fine to add just a very little bit of that wax to the jar. So, it becomes a matter of which school of thought to adhere to.

Honestly, I personally wouldn't do that.

Honey jars are intended to sweeten someone to you or sweeten their thoughts to you. And, it works both ways: to sweeten each party to each other. And I personally believe that ALL parts of the spell remains ought to be properly deployed.

Quick question. I had a strong movement with my workings and with the great aid of Saint Martha, but my love has gone cold and reblocked my number, etc. A reading told me that he still does love me, fortunately. I admit I pushed a little bit to try and get him to communicate better with me and treat me more like a friend that he can actually confide in, etc. before progressing more.

I wanted to know if it was best to wait in this situation or utilize a skull candle to help his communication (and bring back his initiation of communication) and fear regarding us. He has been hurt before in previous relationships and did express fear about being FWBs because of it ending not so well. A bit insecure and hesitant when it comes to love. I don't know how I would go about this spell, so I will look up how to do it earlier in the thread after hearing the suggestion for this situation, if I need to light one! Is a personal concern of his necessary as well? I have one laminated picture of him that I can't afford to get messed up because I don't have access to a printer to get another one at this time. Will oils alone be alright as I have Dixie Love and FMB, but if I purchase a skull candle, I can afford one or two oils more, or will I have to purchase herbs too? I only have the herbs that you normally find on the spice rack in a kitchen.