Is it really possible to have a normal and honest relationship with someone, after discovering the presence of herpes in your system? Most people doubt this, but it is actually possible. To do this, the infected partner should be truthful to his or her partner and tell the truth. Knowing about the condition from the start avoids future serious confrontations that will eventually lead to distrust and the end of what could have been a loving relationship.

Herpes & Relationships: When To Tell Your Partner
Herpes is still incurable at this point, but it can be accepted by a partner as long as you inform him or her about your condition with the right timing. It is best to tell your partner about it when both of you have established a firm ground in your relationship, and that you are sure that both of you are fully committed to each other. You may want to delay sharing intimate moments with your partner until you tell him or her. However, try not to rush your decision. Wait until you are comfortable about it, and wait until you are sure that you are willing to take the risk. Get to know him or her first. A partner who will accept your situation is a proof of real understanding and respect. Both of you need to be honest with each other about it, and be knowledgeable about herpes, so that you can avoid transmitting the virus to your partner.

Herpes & Relationships: Practicing Safer Sex
Here are some ways for you and your partner to experience sexual intimacy without risking the spread of virus. Not all of them might be applicable to everybody, but choose the ones that are most comfortable for you and your partner.

1. Use your imagination and think of ways to be sexually intimate with each other without penetration. There are many ways to do this.?

2. The use of condoms for male or female use can help prevent the spread and transmission of virus.?

3. There are certain lubricants that can kill virus activity. Both of you can use this. However, some people tend to have inflammations due to allergic reactions that might increase the chance of transmission, so be careful about using this.

?4. Wash very thoroughly right after sexual interaction. Do this immediately every time there is sexual contact. Soap and water can kill the virus that is present on the skin’s surface. There are also soaps that are meant for vaginal use.?

5. Avoid skin contact especially when cuts, wounds, abrasions or any other similar conditions are present in the skin.?

6. Be consistent with your safe sex practices. Never slip up on your methods in preventing the transmission of the disease. One slip up can successfully get you infected for life.

Every relationship faces challenges that can even be more difficult than herpes. Just remember that a good relationship will remain strong no matter what the problem is, as long as there is communication, trust and understanding.