Here's the deal:
My man is going to some party thing for Halloween with a "girlfriend" of his. The way he's talking about it, they're going to go to this party and then return to her house and just "hang out". Thing is, her parents wont be home, and neither will anybody else. Should I feel jealous? I've been with him for quite a while but our relationship lately has been on the rocky side. He's admitted to me before that if somebody came onto him, he doesn't know if he'd be able to say 'no'. The way I see it he should love me enough that no comes naturally. This girl seems to like him for more than just a buddy. Ugh. I'm just all bent outta shape about this.

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Why are you not included in this halloween party outing?? Just curious!!

Given that he has already told you that he didn't know if he could be faithful, you're not over reacting, but I have to ask why are you getting so bent out of shape over someone who's not worthy of your respect??

Your right in thinking that if he was the right one he would be able to just say no if a chance to cheat happens. I don't mean to sound harsh but it sounds to me that he might be just waiting for someone else to come along to replace you with. I hope I am wrong.

Mel

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A large group of professionals built the Titanic.

Maybe I am just too picky when it comes to men, but if my husband told me that he was going to a Halloween party with another woman who was not his mother or our daughter, I would have a few choice words for him, among them "Hit the road." Why are you tolerating this?

Forget about the party. My question is why are you still with a guy who has admitted that he can't be sure he'd say 'no' if someone came onto him? That alone should be a red flag. If I had a girlfriend who said that to me, I'd have one word for her, 'Goodbye'.

that's strange. y is it that u r not invited to that party. if u r his girl u should be there
from my point of view it is simply telling me that your man is a player
but a smart one
y would he wanna take a girlfriend out to a halloween party and not u ,or both of u.
he has no respect for u either to tell u that.
if a guy told me that/did that i wouldn't stay with him
PLEASE OPEN UP YOUR EYES AND C WHAT'S HAPPENING B'CAUSE IT'S CLEAR TO ME. I HOPE THI HELP!!

Y WOULD U WANNA STAY WITH SOMEBODY LIKE THAT.
Y IS IT THAT AFTER THE PARTY HE'S GOING AT HER HOUSE TO HANG OUT.Y HE DIDN'T TAKE BOTH OF U .
I WOULD LEAVE HIM IF I WAS IN YOUR SHOES.
WHAT HE SAID ALONE SHOULD TELL U THAT THIS GUY DOESN'T WANT TO B WITH U , HOW COULD HE B NOT SURE IF HE COULD REJECT SOMEONE ELSE?
I THINK THAT'S MESSED UP TOO
I WOULD LEAVE HIM
HE DOESN'T HAVE ANY RESPECT 4 U
I HOPE THIS HELPS!

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~*~ Here's to the woman, that beautiful vine, she blooms once a month, she bares once in nine. She is the only creature this side of hell, that can take the juice from a nut, without breaking the shell. ~*~

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~*~ Here's to the woman, that beautiful vine, she blooms once a month, she bares once in nine. She is the only creature this side of hell, that can take the juice from a nut, without breaking the shell. ~*~