I have a couple pounds on you and my bike came with the Recon Silver single air, I pump it to 300psi and it works great. Look at a single or double air. Also I have the 32mm tubes, stay clear of the 29mm. This silver has the Steel head tube and is heavy but it is quite stiff and you can get them cheap.

How much travel do you want? White Brothers Groove and Manitou Dorado are options if you want a lot. I'm not heavy but ride aggressive and am not particularly happy with my Fox 32 CDT Talus (120 mm on hardtail). The best other options I've seen are the Fox 34 and as Pau1 stated, the Pike. No lockout on the Pike that I'm aware of though.

I'm 225 geared up and my White Brothers Loop 120 has been bulletproof and has awesome adjustments to fine tune it to your weight/style. I'm sure one of the new X-Fusion Trace forks would be good for you as well since they have 34mm stanchions.