i like IG but like every once in a while i fall into the "married at 18, never left my hometown, husband is in the army/ a cop, i have four kids, and i only work for Avon/ LuLaRoe" rabbit hole where every other post is "I am so #BLESSED every day to serve the man of my dreams 😍 Marriage isn't EASY. Its HARD WORK. I HATE HIM sometimes. I NEVER leave the house! I REGRET settling for him instead of going to state U! But we WORK 💪 HARD. My heart is SO FULL." like girl r u okay? do you need evac??

this is like the battle cry of the "stuck in an unhappy marriage because I either don't know love is supposed to be better than this or religion/ social expectations/ finances/ abuse is keeping me trapped here" and i can't see these posts without being really concerned.

i'm still reeling over the post i saw that brought this up. like. literally it was like "We've been married for 10 years and I've hated you for 7 of them up until we became IG famous and now we're both models and rich and suddenly you're a lot more tolerable."

@bouncinglime i keep IG because it is mostly family that i still like + aesthetic + fat POC queer positivity accounts but every once in a while i'll hit the explore page and just.. wow... wooooow... i'm so worried about some people.