My camera has a manual flash

Looking back if someone is to blame for my flashing it is my mother. I do not know if it's a cultural thing but my mother was from the Philippines and I remember that around age 5 my mother used to tease me by threatening to pull my pants down in front of other women who were Philippino or black women. The penis of a little boy in Tagalog (the national language of the Philippines) is titi (pronounced teetee). And my mother used to say I'm going to show Mrs. so and so your titi! And then she'd overpower me and pull my pants down exposing my penis. Then she and the woman would laugh and point at my penis and the woman would usully say, "Ooh, I see it. I see your thing." And even though I was upset and embarrassed I was excited by it, too. I felt that women liked seeing penises. About a year later I started showing it to my mother's pretty Philippino friend as she swept the floor. I stood near my bedroom door took out my penis and let her see it. I remember her looking at it and me and saying, "You can put your thing away now." And then she told my mother who said to me, "Tommy, Mrs. Vicki said you showed her your titi." I could tell by her voice that she was amused by it and not angry and I went on and denied it as Mrs. Vicki looked at me and smiled.

From that point on I decided that showing off my penis was fun and I let other little girls see it and they never ratted me out, either because they enjoyed seeing it, too. And I even had a horny girl cousin when we were about 11 years old who wanted to see it and we played, "Show me your's and I'll show you mine." So my flashing goes way back and my mother innnocently introduced me to it.

I wanna flash you up!

I wish my mom had been so open about showing me off. I remember we had a shower set up in the corner of our basement and several times when I was around six years old, we would go down there to take a shower. She would get in the shower with me but that was before I ever thought about something sexual. It was just natural for me.

It was many years before I saw or used a shower. I still prefer tub baths. I have a vivid memory (or maybe several similar episodes coalesced into one image) of being THOROUGHLY washed in the tub, by my mother, when I was very young (maye 4 years old?).

Unlike my little brother, who had (still has, last I checked it out)(heh! heh!) a long, somewhat tight foreskin, mine is like my father's--very short and very loose. However, she was at great pains to clean my penis, and especially under whatever my foreskin usually covered. No, I didn't think of it as "sexual" (an abstract concept neither obvious nor needed at that age), but I knew it felt good to have her soap it up and rub it--except when she rubbed directly on the glans (i.e. "head"), which was much too sensitive for such direct stimulation.

P.S. to anyone interested in jerking me off (male or female): it's still sensitive, so stimulate it ONLY by rolling foreskin up & down over it, OR by fingers with a good coating of Albolene or olive oil (even baby oil a bit too thin for very "heavy-handed" rapid rubbing).

P.P.S. anyone interested in watching someone learning to do it the way that feels best to me is welcome to watch or lend a hand.

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