Why must I be forever single?

I hear people say it's fun being single, no it's not if your a loser like me who couldn't get a date to save his life or keep a girlfriend for longer than a week. I'm miserable because the only fun I ever had was when I had a girlfriend.

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I dont know why people on this site are all either longing to lose their virginity or have a partner.. u need to spend time on developing your inner self.Relationship comes with emotional baggage, sometimes things may look shiny on the surface, but deep down there might so unearthed scratches. No relationship is smooth sailing.

Thats why you aren't getting a gf because you are basing your whole happiness on her. You have to find hobbies , boring or not, things that you enjoy , causes you are passionate about. Having a life and genuinely talkng about smt you are interested in (not bragging) would attract girls

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Its not like that for one thing I do have hobbies that are fun that I'm passionate about and I have a life I'm just not physically attractive that's

I wish you would tell that to the women over here because looks seem to be everything to them and I'm getting uglier ever year so please forgive me if I don't believe you when you say "eventually a girl will come around and actually find you attractive because of who you are"

then maybe you should try your chances elsewhere. looks aren't everything for me , as long as he is interesting , and we get along etc. and I have friends that think the same. so maybe you just are trying with the wrong girls.

I don't know what's the craze about having a partner but I do understand that companionship can make your life so much happier. But well I think that we should always learn to love ourselves and have fun, be comfortable in our own skin instead of constantly looking for a mate or someone to fill the void in our hearts. After all, life can't just be about finding a mate because there are certainly more important priorities to fulfill imo.

I think you have to find something that'll make you happy.When I make friendships, I want them to be meaningful, lasting and purposeful which is why I put effort into talking and interacting with certain people in my life. They say true friendship comes without trying, I say that's nonsense. Every relationship needs effort from both parties and it's the trying times that test the strength of the relationship. If relationships hasn't been tested, you don't truly know the person well enough. People are imperfect and would reveal their true self eventually because cognitive dissonance has been proven to be incongruent with the human mind.

They say soul mates complement each other and fill the void in each others' hearts. That's bullshit again. Two broken halves do not make a whole. Individuals have to find the element that makes them whole before even entering another relationship, be it friendship or a romantic one.

Attitude needs work. No one wants to be around a negative Nancy. We understand the depressive fits, but if that's all you are, you aren't your own person. You're half, waiting for another. Add depth to yourself.

Well, most of us are able to enjoy doing things on our own without a partner.

But it sounds to me like relationships are the only things that bring you pleasure in life, so of course you'd be miserable without one. Ironically, that's probably why you can't keep a relationship going. It's exhausting feeling like someone else's happiness depends entirely on you. Most people can't deal with that kind of pressure for long.

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You're single because you suck. It's that simple.

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Go to hell you fucking asshole your fucking lucky I don't know where you are you cocksucker

Say what you will but this is why you are single. You bring nothing but tantrums to the table. No one likes you because you are a worthless man who does nothing but whine about how their lives aren't going how they want them. Your partner never made you happy and you didn't pin your happiness on them you just got the opportunity to be responsible for yourself and ran with it.

Or what? Your reality will come crashing down? The fact that you are unhappy with yourself because you don't do anything worth mention will start to attack me? The worst you can do to me is nothing in comparison to what it will do to you. You have no dignity, no pride, no confidence... I don't even think you would date you or take you seriously if you were listening to yourself.

Either clean yourself up or continue to "writhe" and get coddled by people on the internet whose only advice is "GET SOME SPINE FOOL" said in sweet adages like "You must love you first."

Is that all you are going to do? Wireshark me and then send "DEATH FROM ABOVE!"

You are a coward. You are a loser indeed. You take no responsibility for yourself and you are fine with it thus why you, and every other person who asks this question on this website, is exactly the same. Do you how many death threats I've received? But let me ask you one question:

Does that even make you a better person? "Man on internet was mean, and I STILL can't get a GF!"