Former Intrepid museum boss Bill White and his partner, Bryan Eure, have refused to participate in Bravo’s “Newlyweds: The First Year,” after a jarring pre-interview. White e-mailed casting directors complaining that producers abruptly ended a phone chat after looking for “drama and controversy.” “These things are not encouraging for supporting someone’s first year of marriage,” White, who’ll marry Oct. 23, told us. A source at the production company said, “I am surprised to hear their account … The call was shorter than we’d hoped because they were 20 minutes late, but I was looking forward to speaking to them further about their awesome wedding plans.”