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Mh global sex survey 2013

Unlike other surveys, this one isn't going to give you an information overload. It's going to gather the best sex experiences in the world and show you how you can strengthen your relationships, get more sex and be a happier, more content you (in bed and out)!

It's time for us to get undressedIndian guys' sex lives are utterly average, when compared to the rest of the world. According to the MH Global Sex Survey 2013. 37 per cent Indian men don't even have sex even once a week. We are shy of using sex toys. And we don't have as many sex partners as men in other countries. How do we know all this? We asked men around the world about their sex lives, then asked women across the globe how their guys measure up in bed. There are some universal truths about men: "Across cultures, men are more easily aroused, have more promiscuous attitudes, and value attractiveness more than women do," says Richard Lippa, PhD, a psychologist at California State University. But then there are the cultural divides among guys- pickup tactics, fondness for boldness, attitudes toward oral. The following pages point out the best sex lessons for men from around the world. All with one single-minded goal: to help you better your own sex life.

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India/ mutual friendsWhile men in most countries have graduated to the Internet to meet women, in India the number is a measly 43 per cent. In fact, more than 50 per cent men meet new women through mutual friends. "India is a country where family values and tradition still hold a lot of sway," say sociologists. Hence, trust plays a big role. Most men and women feel that being introduced through mutual friends and family members already means that you can trust the guy or the girl. Come across as a man who can be trusted. For Indian women, it's okay to date a bad boy once in a while, but most of them don't want to live a life fraught with risks.

Spain/barsIn some countries, meeting a woman in a bar can carry a heavy stigma. But Spanish lovers see it differently: nearly three out of four Spaniards say bars are prime pickup spots. "We socialise mostly in bars-Madrid has more bars than the rest of Europe together," says Belén Molinuevo, a sexuality instructor at Syracuse University in Madrid. The trick: instead of the standard trifecta of questions- name, hometown, line of work-say, "Let me guess: you're from [state]," suggests Engler. If she doesn't have to respond to an inquisition, then authentic conversation can flow more naturally.

Croatia/coffee shopsIn India, a cafe is the most underappreciated pickup spot. Fifty-eight percent of Croatian men have picked up a woman in a coffee shop, versus just 13 per cent of guys in India. "We consume coffee slowly, sip by sip," says Aleksandar Stulholfer, PhD, a Croatian sexologist. "People can spend an hour over a cappuccino. Obviously, a lot can happen in that hour." If you spot a babe in line, try this tactic: "A Croatian man would ask to pay the bill of the woman he likes," says Dr Arbanas. Or if she's seated, "he would ask if the spot next to her is occupied," he says. "Then he would compliment her."

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62 per cent Brazilian men masturbate more than five times a week. No wonder their women are so happy. "We are programmed, as best we know, to need orgasms," says Gloria Brame, PhD, a clinical sexologist in Georgia, US. "It's a fundamental aspect of men's health, right up there with brushing your teeth." And the more you know about what satisfies you solo, the more pleasure you get from sex. "It relieves stress and keeps everything about your body-your heart rate, blood pressure, reproductive system, brain chemistry-in very good shape," Brame says. A 2003 Australian study found that men who ejaculated more than five times a week were a third less likely to develop prostate cancer. Regularly flushing your system, so to speak, keeps your semen healthy and prevents the build up of cancer-causing chemicals. Masturbation also helps combat premature ejaculation. If you can train yourself to last longer solo, you'll last longer with her.

Percentage of Indian men who masturbate more than five times a week 27, World average 41

Where Indians score the highest

73%KissingKissing seems to be the favourite activity of the Indian man during foreplay, followed by manual stimulation of his partner's breasts and manual stimulation of her genitals. According to a recent study, kissing can pave the way to a long-term relationship. Whether it's your first kiss or your fiftieth, "women, more so than men, use kissing as an assessment device," says Susan M. Hughes, PhD.

32%HygieneBody odour may not be the Indian man's primary concern, but surprisingly, surplus hair is. 32 per cent of respondents from India say that they trim their pubic hair regularly. And only 20 per cent say that they prefer to go au naturel. Research says 77 per cent of women prefer a clean-shaven man down there. So, if you plan to start trimming, keep this in mind: there's only a risk of ingrown hairs, which can become infected. Avoid that irritation by prepping with warm water and a shaving gel that you've massaged into your skin. It could pay off.73%Being naked73 per cent Indians seem to be very comfortable when they are naked with their partners. Research suggests being comfortable in your own skin is good for long-term relationships and sex. Nowadays, women measure erotic satisfaction not by the pleasurable sensations they feel but by what they and their partners see during sex. So it's time to put all our body image insecurities to rest and go ahead with the act without any unnecessary fears.

Katrina Kaif sexiest female celebrityThe MH Sex Survey revealed that Katrina Kaif is the sexiest female celebrity for Indian men, followed by Sunny Leone and Angelina Jolie. Chitrangda Singh and Priyanka Chopra vied for the 4th and 5th position respectively. The contrasting results in terms of our eclectic choices throws up an interesting observation-that despite our straight -jacketed traditional views, when it comes to beautiful women, we don't distinguish between Indian and Indian-origin. Or for that matter, even a foreigner (Angelina Jolie) whose mastectomy hardly hindered our choice. Surprising, given our fascination with breasts.

Be her sex machine65 per cent of Indians hate sex toys. Compared to the rest of the world, Indians still seem to be shy when it comes to sex toys in the bedroom. But there's mounting evidence that sex toys offer tangible health benefits. Women who use sexual aids report higher levels of sexual function and higher levels of satisfaction with their partners, say researchers. However, if you don't have access to sex toys, don't fret. Read on to find out how you can not only make do but thrive without them.

Be the substitute for her sex toysSince legally, certain sex toys are banned in our country, here's how you can study them and unlock the secrets to pleasing her every timeLinger a littleUnlike porn actresses, most women first focus sex toys on their clitoris, penetrating only as climax nears. What you can do Your penis isn't just for penetration. Use it to stroke her outer labia and clitoris during foreplay. Gyrating along these pleasure points while steadily increasing pressure will push her desire to the tipping point, so once you penetrate, you'll deliver orgasminducing thrusts.Pick the right positionG-spot stimulators target the spongy, sensitive area in her upper vaginal wall, 2 inches from the opening. G-spot (as opposed to clitoral) orgasms come from strategic pressure, not size. What you can do To put pressure on this sensitive area with each thrust, you should enter her when she's on her back, with her knees resting on her chest.The United Nations of oral

Italy/ where guys love going down on womenCunnilingus is part of the bread-andolive-oil of Italians' sex lives-but it's mostly about greasing guys' egos. "It makes men feel good about their own performance," says Gaia Polloni, MSc, a sex therapist in Milan. "Many Italian women are not satisfied with their partner's techniques." One thing women tell me is that men don't use their fingers-just their tongue," says Polloni. "They prefer simultaneous clitoral and internal stimulation." Another complaint: men fail to detect women's subtle body signals. "Tune into her breathing and pelvic movements. As a woman becomes excited, she may start moving her pelvis," she says. "If she moves her hips faster, go faster. If she starts moving slower, go slower."

Brazil/where women love going down on guysBrazilian babes consider blow jobs a form of personal pleasure. "They satisfy themselves with their partners' satisfaction. They feel powerful when they arouse men," says Dr Abdo. So how can you switch her attitude from acceptance to enthusiasm? Most women don't like blow jobs because it can feel like a subservient, humiliating act or a duty. Communication is critical: make it clear that you view oral sex as a loving act.

Percentage of Indian men who love going down on women 36World average 59

Percentage of women who like going down on men 28World average 43

Sex positions from around the worldThe Lotus/SpainShe sits in your lap, her legs wrapped around your waist (so your bodies create the shape of a flower). The Hot Factor In Spain, it represents sexual freedom: "In the '70s, movies with sex scenes were forbidden. We went to France to see them," Molinuevo says. "The Last Tango in Paris, one of the most popular, features 'the lotus.' It's still in our minds." For you, it symbolises connection. "American couples often avoid eye contact. Even with missionary, the guy puts his head to the side," says Engler. But with the lotus, you're truly face-to-face. Eyes open, guys!The Elephant/Italy and FranceAlso called the "lazy doggy": the woman lies on her belly, often with a pillow placed under her stomach to prop up her hips. You penetrate from behind, using your arms to support your torso.

The hot factor This doggy modification gives you the naughty thrill of rear entry but with an added dose of romance. "Your bodies remain quite close, so you're still able to kiss," says Polloni. There's also a pleasurable payoff: "The pillow under her helps provide G-spot stimulation," she says.

Missionary,with her legs up/IndiaThis is normal missionary position-except for one titillating tweak: your partner has her legs up.

The hot factor The way your girlfriend positions her body can subconsciously signal a shift in her sexual attitude. "The more open the woman's body is-spreading her legs or arms wide-the more vulnerable she is," says Engler. "That makes the encounter feel more erotic, less guarded."

Whether your goal is to give her a blended orgasm or target her G-spot, these will help you perform like a pro.

Equate sex with love19 per cent Russians equate sex with love. "In Russia, the idea of couples being best friends is not seen as natural," says anthropologist Victor de Munck, PhD, who studies Russian sexuality. So their relationships are all about fairy-tale romance. Steal their seduction tactics: walks along empty streets, meeting at sunrise, and candlelight dinners.

Percentage of Indians who equate sex with love 18World average 11

Is she faking it?The sad part: 76 per cent of US men think their partners' O's are always or usually authentic. 48 per cent Indian men too think on the same lines. There's no need for women to fake it if admitting they didn't climax is okay. Even out of bed, most Indian men give in to whatever their women want them to believe. Here's how to tell if you're being taken for a ride.

Decode her body languageThe smileAfter you crack a joke, look at her cheeks. If you've really made her smile, her cheeks will be higher with wrinkles around her eyes and forehead. Her eyes also become smaller-more almond shaped-with a real smile.

Is she faking it? No wrinkles around the eyes or forehead equals no dice. Also, study her lips-they'll be tight and more pressed together if she's not into it. The fake grin might also last longer, as if it's painted on.

The laughWith an authentic laugh, her head will go up so her chin is pointed at someone. Listen, too: a real laugh will fill her chest with air, creating a fuller sound.

Is she faking it?Detecting the phony laugh is two-fold. She'll either freeze in place or move her body forward and down. She's also not really taking in any air, but rather compressing her body and moving it lower to the ground, like she's ducking from something.

Where sex is a public affairIf you really want to heat up your sex life, surprise her in a more spontaneous setting.

Tent/NetherlandsDutch people are the world champs of camping sex. "They really emphasise going on vacation and being economical. So they camp a lot," says Schalet. "And everyone wants to have a 'vacation love'. Pull It Off Even if you're camping with a long-term lover, you can still have crazy-hot tent sex. Simply unzip the tent's window covering and indulge in an exhibitionist thrill. "It's primal-no lingerie, no toys," says Engler. "You're celebrating sex at its most basic." Worried that campground neighbours might hear (or glimpse) something? Told you it was hot.

Taxi/IndiaIndian women are nearly six times as likely as American women to have done the deed in a taxi. That's because the guy behind the wheel is expected to turn a blind eye. It's a sad demonstration of the caste system, claimed the US edition of this magazine. But we know better. Living in joint families hasn't given us much privacy for lovemaking. Pull It Off Before you grab a cab, suggest she slip off her thong in the bathroom. Taxi sex is most fun if the driver can't totally tell something is going on-you're trying to keep it a secret.Everywhere but their bed/CroatiaCroatian men are public-sex pros: pools, hot tubs, fields, parks, cars. But it's not because they're super-crazy exhibitionists: "Lots of people live with their parents," says Dr Arbanas. All that moving around for a little lovemaking isn't popular among Croatian women, so a common solution is to borrow a friend's apartment for a few hours, he says.Pull it off Take her out to dinner; then instead of going home, whisk her off to a buddy's house you've wrangled for a few hours. "Borrow a place your lover hasn't seen before. Bring her there and make love without explaining that you have permission," says Engler.

Where she lets you watch/UKMany British lasses think nothing of flashing their breasts, so masturbating for their guy is not a big leap. If your partner is shy about putting on a show, suggest she start with her eyes closed. "You can learn how she likes to be touched and remove the embarrassment," explains Cox.

"Put your hand on top of hers. Once you have a feel for her pressure and stroke, switch: put your hand on her clitoris and have her place her hand on top of yours to guide you."

Your 24-hr guide to sexMorning sex/AustraliaThe sun rises as early as 4:45am in the Land of Oz, so a 6am romp isn't unreasonable. Why it works for you: Your T peaks in the morning, which makes it the ideal time for a quickie in the shower-or hell, the back patio. Really, it's okay to be five minutes late for work just once. "Australians are all about enjoying life," says Morrissey. "If the surf's up, you leave work and surf. It's definitely not a workaholic culture."

Afternoon sex/UKAfternoon tea has turned into afternoon delight. "British women are so task oriented," says Tracy Cox, a British sex expert. "On weekends, they wake up, achieve this, achieve that, then pause for an afternoon break." Take your GF shopping, grab a light lunch, then jump into bed. "If you mix anything up-even time of day-your brain goes, 'I've never done this before. This is interesting,' " says Cox. That's what keeps sex alive.Evening sex/SpainIn India we treat sex as dessert. But in Spain, it's seen as an appetiser. "We have dinner very late, like 10pm," says Molinuevo. "After work and before dinner, around 7 or 8pm, we meet with friends for wine and tapas. It's the perfect time to be seductive." Get together with your lady after work to grab a drink, split an appetiser, head home for sex, and share a sensual dinner afterward.

Late-night sex/TurkeyThis one's more about convenience than carousing. "Turkish couples wait for their children to go to sleep before having sex," says Mehmet Sungur, MD, a sex therapist in Istanbul. That means they often have "silent sex"- no noises, no moaning. Necessity for them, novelty for you: "Tell her she'll receive punishment, like being bitten, if she makes a sound," says Engler. "Then try to make her moan."Men's average number of sex partnersTop 5UK 9United States 9Australia 9The Netherlands 8Russia 7

Bottom 5China 4Poland 4Philippines 4Indonesia 2India 2

IndiaDo more sex partners mean more satisfaction?Wrong. When it comes to sex, numbers mean nothing. You could have 20 partners under your belt and still not fully understand what a woman wants in bed, says Debby Herbenick, PhD, sex researcher at Indiana University. On the other hand, you could have only one partner and be a total knockout in the sack-all because you've learned how to communicate and please each other.

BrazilBrazilian men are modern-day Don Juans. "People here believe men have uncontrollable sexual desire," says Elisabeth Meloni Vieira, MD, PhD, an associate professor of social medicine in Brazil. "That's considered very natural." So natural, in fact, that 91 per cent of Brazilians view sex as beneficial to their health.

Indian men are in tune with their partners' pleasures. "If she notices you're working hard to please her, she'll be more likely to return the favour," says Barbara Bartlik, MD, a professor of psychiatry at Cornell University.

The Netherlands is perhaps the only country where men offer more foreplay than women want. "Dutch culture emphasises women's enjoyment of sex. ," says Amy Schalet, PhD, a sociologist who studies sexuality in the Netherlands. "There's a Dutch word, 'vrijen,' which translates to 'making love.' It refers to all sexual activities." Capture that: instead of viewing an encounter as distinct acts-kissing, oral, intercourse-think of it as one long pleasure session.

Why are Greek men the gods of sex? One lessthan-sexy explanation: they don't hesitate to pursue committed women for flings, a Bradley University study found. While we don't suggest stealing wives, "a bit of bravado is attractive," says Engler. "These guys let a woman know they want her-without being vulgar. And if a woman rejects them, their confidence isn't deflated."

Perhaps Fifty Shades should have been set in London, the author's hometown, because Brits are the world's kings and queens of kink: bondage, dirty talk, vibes. Try it out: hold a vibrator to her cheek when she goes down on you. "Penises aren't fleshy, so toys don't work well on men," says Cox. "You need a little flesh to cushion the vibration."