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On a previous blog post, I shared some about the testimony of Stephen Bennett, an ex-gay whose life was changed by Jesus Christ. Here are a couple of powerful videos of Stephen sharing his story. If you are a homosexual (lesbian, etc.) or if you are struggling in those areas, then you need to watch these videos. There truly is life changing power in Jesus Christ!

Stephen Bennett is a former homosexual – who was transformed by the power of Jesus Christ. Stephen is living proof that homosexuals can change! Stephen mentioned some of the following things in an article:

“I am living proof that homosexuals can change, that no one is born gay. We need to equate homosexuality with that of drug addiction or alcoholism. They are destructive behaviors that we would never encourage people to continue a life in — we need to say the same exact thing about homosexuality.”

“Thank God for people like CBN and other organizations who are out there sharing that no one is born gay. And especially through the power of Jesus Christ people can change completely. I am happily married now today for over 10 years to a beautiful woman who knew me when I was gay, who was praying for my salvation. I no longer am living a lie. I was playing house with my boyfriend back then. I have the real thing today. I may not be the mostly masculine person in the world, but, you know what, I don’t need to be. I’m a man in God’s eyes, in my wife’s eyes, I’m the father of our two little beautiful children today. Jesus Christ has changed my life completely. He has taken a story that was a nightmare and turned it into a fairy tale and I am just so grateful to Him for doing that.”

“When I was living the gay lifestyle I portrayed that I was happy. I was in love with my boyfriend, had great gay and lesbian friends. But the problem with that was is that deep down I knew something was wrong. Again I firmly believe that no one is born gay, that homosexuality tragically happens early on in the childhood. For me it was a broken relationship with my father that was reconciled after I became a Christian. I love my father dearly, he loves me and I was able to move on from homosexuality to healthy heterosexuality. And what we want to share with men and women is when we go out trying to reach the homosexual for Christ — is that God loves them. The Gospel is the most important thing that we can reach these people with, so we need to let people know that God loves the homosexual but he hates the sin. And homosexuality is a sin in God’s eyes. And that is my heart’s desire. And I’m sorry but I’ve got tunnel vision on this issue. We want to reach the homosexual for Christ in America and make a difference in this country.”

1. You are a homosexual or lesbian who just came across this site. You think that what you are doing is okay. You might even believe that you were “born gay.” If that is how you think, then you are sadly deceived. You need to continue reading and check out some of the things on this site. It is not God’s desire or will that you remain a homosexual or lesbian. There is hope for change through Jesus Christ.

2. You are struggling with Same Sex Attraction. You know it is wrong, but you still struggle with it nevertheless.

3. You are an active homosexual (lesbian, etc) but deep inside you know that what you are doing is wrong. You feel guilty every time you commit homosexual acts. You are beginning to wonder if it is really okay to be a homosexual or lesbian.

4. You were molested when you were young by someone of the same sex – maybe even a relative of yours – and ever since then you have been having “sexual identity” problems and struggles.

5. On the outside you smile and you appear happy, but on the inside you are in turmoil because of your involvement in homosexual behaviors. Your friends think you are doing okay, but the truth is – you are not doing okay. You might even be suicidal because of your situation.

6. You have an addiction to pornography and you often look at porno on the internet or TV. This could be gay porn or regular porn. You are ashamed about what you do, but you can’t seem to control yourself.

7. You are HIV-Positive due to your homosexual activities. You feel really bad about it (your sexual sins that led to you becoming HIV-Positive and also your present situation as being diagnosed as HIV-Positive). You wonder if there is any hope for you.

8. You are a transgender or transsexual but now you are beginning to see that what you did or are doing is wrong. You need help but you are not sure where to go.

Friends, if any of the above describes you, then I want you to know there is hope and there is help available! Through Jesus Christ, one can overcome homosexuality and same-sex attraction. Through Jesus Christ a person can overcome pornography and other sinful sexual behaviors. You can’t change the past (and the things you have done in the past), but through Christ there is hope for the present and the future! Change is possible through Jesus Christ! There is hope! Don’t believe the lies of the “gay pastors” who say that “homosexuality is a gift of God.” Don’t believe the lies of people who say that a person is “born gay.” Friends, it is not God’s desire or will that you live a homosexual lifestyle. It is not God’s will that you be hooked on pornography or other sexual sin. Real change is possible. If you want more information or even just someone to share with, please text me anytime at the numbers below. Or e-mail me at the address below. Puede English o Tagalog. :-) I am here to help you. All help and counsel is free and confidential. The phone numbers and E-mail address are active as of December 4, 2013. Also I am considering starting a support group in 2014 (Metro-Manila/NCR area) for those struggling in the above areas. If you are interested, then just let me know. Again, through Jesus Christ there is hope for change!