Masturbation Guest Blog by Jason Roberts In the TV show Seinfeld, there is an episode titled “The Contest.” The contest is all about who can refrain from masturbation the longest. One of Jerry’s lines is: ‘We have to do it. It’s part of our lifestyle.’ Seinfeld is correct. It is part of our lifestyle, a man’s lifestyle. According to Men’s Health magazine, 95% of men masturbate. Pleasuring yourself is not

Threesomes are decadent. Threesomes are sexy. Threesomes allow you to explore the deep wells and dusty corners of your own erotic self. What happens if you meet two guys, you fancy them both and they fancy you? Are you going to sleep with one and break the other’s heart? No. You are going to break the rules, cross the barriers, push back the boundaries and triple up. Onesomes are onanism,

Female masturbation isn’t only good for your health and happiness, you sleep better with that sticky feeling between your legs and the sultry whiff of perfume rising from under the bedsheets. Female masturbation helps girls feel more confident, secure and happy to be exactly who they are. Whatever you have read about female masturbation in the past, press the delete button and begin with a new mindset. Here’s an irony:

Christian Schewanowsky Guest Blog What does sex mean to you? And what does sex mean to me. When I was a teenager it was all about lust. A seemingly endless lust for girls with nice round breasts and small hips, wearing virtually nothing. I collected pictures like many teenaged boys do. I was still a virgin when I went to university, something that changed in my first year, a few weeks after

Spanked! She liked that word. She wasn’t sure why. Naked! She liked that word, too. Like spanked, naked was so descriptive, so raw, so exposed. A smile lifted the corners of her lips. Blocks of shadow like the carriages of a slowly moving train slid over the pale green walls. The sun gave the room’s far corners a golden glow. Greta could see her dress abandoned on the back of a chair and

Christian Schewanowsky Guest Blog Whenever I read blogs about the closeness of a man and a woman, I question myself: is that really so? How and what would I feel if I did this or that? As a man of 51, I have seen and experienced many things with women. My marriage and family life long behind, I have been looking around for the last 10 years, searching, exploring, discovering I

We all know bare breasts make men go a little gaga. Now we learn, bare legs can drive them to murder. It was a warm evening in June and two girls slipped into their short skirts and low-heeled shoes. Both hairdressers working in the same salon, the girls styled each other’s hair, put on make-up, then walked into town. When they reached the market, the men haggling over the goods saw

Foreplay tips can get complicated with all the rituals and weird positions, when the secret of foreplay is all in the word: fore-play. It’s the fun part before your senses are overwhelmed by the intense (often woefully short) burst of passion that erupts in orgasm. Most lists of foreplay tips are for men, as if girls are reluctant virgins who need coaxing and turning on. In 1951, maybe. Now, in

Amanda Quinn Guest Blog What is happiness? Happiness is being yourself and being with someone who loves you as you. I know who I am. Do you know who you are? I mean, who you really are? Are you being yourself? What makes you you? Do you believe you are whoever you want to be? That you make yourself? Is the person you are today the same person you will be tomorrow? Nothing

FREE Summer Fling In the good old days when I was still promiscuous, a summer fling was as much a part of the holidays as a new bikini, a suntan and, as often as not, a broken heart that healed almost as quickly as it was broken. On my first summer fling, I lost my virginity on a beach in Spain. My last summer fling – all life is cyclic

My mother used to call me daddy’s girl. I became aware of what she meant by this that long summer when I was seven and it seems sometimes as if I have spent my whole life looking back into the garden of my childhood when I lost my innocence. It was unusually hot that year and I was in childish bliss running across the warm grass and jumping in the

A healthy vagina smells like a rose Perhaps a rose on a table with a selection of Mediterranean cheeses, olive oil, virgin, of course, and something piquant, a bowl of Kalamata black olives. Keeping a healthy vagina means keeping healthy – exercise, a sensible diet, un vaso de vino de la felicidad (a glass of wine to make you happy), and regular sex, every day if possible. Contrary to the hype

Katie in Love – review by Terrance Aldon Shaw It is the clothes that cover us that stir desire for what lies beneath . . . A girl in primitive times was the victim of male lust and the guile required to survive and flourish is the mask she subconsciously wears today. Love is war, and clothes are our armour . . . Being naked for a woman isn’t the

Public nudity comes naturally to girls. It’s only chilly days and public pressure that stops us taking our clothes off. As for Peeping Toms, we welcome their wolfish leers and hidden longings. If a couple are strolling on the beach, she will walk in the sea holding her sandals, while he, in socks and shoes, sticks to the hard sand. She is in touch with her primeval genes, a flimsy

Excerpt From Katie in Love He stared into my eyes. ‘Katie, will you do something?’ He didn’t say what. He just looked at me and I nodded. ‘Take your top off for me.’ The words came from his mouth like a coil of silver smoke and seemed to hang there as if in tiny cloud. Take your top off for me. It was such a simple sentence. Such a simple

I’m a 7. I assume out of 10. I’m not sure how to feel about that, I mean, at least I’m not a 5. I received the score from a tall, smiling, charismatic bloke with curly dark hair who blocked my way as I was entering a bar full of City types on Friday evening. He was wearing a good suit, tie freed at the collar, and was standing on

Some months ago, I became a member of a website where gay/bisexual men meet. Through this experience, I have come empathise with the plight of women who date men online and are obliged to bare their souls. By and large, it would seem men of all sexual orientations are full of shit. Although a few genuine guys checked my profile, I never allowed it to come to anything because I

High heels don’t only make you feel tall, chic and shapely. High heels make you feel erotic. High heels tap out a drumbeat that whispers sex, sex, sex. I girl in high heels is a girl who wants to be looked at, admired, appreciated. High heels stretch your legs, they trace a faint curve in your spine and add a confident depth and thrust to your breasts. Stilettos, like a

Writing a novel is like having a terrible illness. Every time you feel as if you are recovering, you have to start a new chapter, get over the setbacks endured by your heroine (you feel her pain) and set her up for more suffering. Conflict is the oil of fiction and in a romance, someone always needs a cuddle. Publishing a novel is often likened to having a baby. It

Years ago, when I was working in a second-hand book shop, a woman came in seeking a novel. Title? Publisher? Author? She couldn’t remember. ‘It’s all about a man and a woman. They fall in love!’ she announced, indignantly, when I professed bewilderment. I was about to suggest that we began with the Troubadors and proceeded to Anais Nin by way of D.H Lawrence, but by then she’d stomped out,

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