Going back to work

I go back on Monday, and I’ve been having a tough time with just the thought of going back. I know that DD (dear daughter) is going to be in great hands, and the woman taking care of her is very excited about her, but I’m still so hesitant on going back. I’ve taken off as much time as I could, and I need to work. I just don’t want to leave her!

I went back this Monday and I was a wreck the weekend before. Monday morning I didn't let the sad thoughts creep in and I forced myself to be fake happy the entire day. Being busy at work helped and I looked at pictures and videos of my baby girl while I was on my pumping breaks. I also maximized my time with her before and after work. It's been better than I thought it would be. Stay strong. Remember that you working is taking care of your baby too. Providing food, shelter, and a positive role model is being a great mommy too!

I had a weird situation but I know it helped me with the transition. So my daycare lady called out sick my ENTIRE first week back to work. So I had my two sister in laws watch her most of the week because they had time off to use. So I knew she was with someone I knew I could trust and they would send me updates and pictures all day long. Then the second week wasn't so bad when I had to transition to having her with a new person. Don't get me wrong I cried on my way to work the first day and my heart was heavy but I was soooo busy with work trying to catch up when I got back that I had no time to think about anything else. It makes my day when I go and pick her up and she is all smiles. I pick her right up and snuggle her for a while

I've been back for 3 weeks now and I'll admit some mornings are rougher than others. I did good the first week but on day 2 of the second week I cried my eyes out, and still made my way to work. I just take it day by day, and let my emotions do what they have to. And I call and check up DD (dear daughter) as often as my heart desires to keep me at ease.

It'll be tough at first (which is normal), but it'll get better and easier. Best wishes for you on your return to work 😉

Like the PPs, it helped to look at pictures and videos, and to snuggle them like crazy before leaving. I feel good knowing he’s either with my husband or a combination of grandma, uncle and auntie cause they’re all crazy about him.

I’ve been back at work for 3 weeks. It was hard at first, but it does get better. My daycare provider sends me random pictures which makes me feel better, and this might make me sound like a bad mama, but I enjoy getting some “adult” time at work. It’s nice to be able to have adult conversation and go potty without interruption. Hang in there!

I’ve been back at work for 3 weeks. It was hard at first, but it does get b...

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11/03/2018

I’ve been back at work for 3 weeks. It was hard at first, but it does get better. My daycare provider sends me random pictures which makes me feel better, and this might make me sound like a bad mama, but I enjoy getting some “adult” time at work. It’s nice to be able to have adult conversation and go potty without interruption. Hang in there!

It doesn't make you sound bad! I am a better mom when I remember to take time for myself.

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