(Closed) I’m having doubts as to what to wear in my hair.

I’ve been really struggling trying to figure out what I want to wear in my hair on the big day. I’ve always assumed I would wear a veil but when the lady put one in my hair it felt like the back of my head was being weighed down and it was very uncomfortable as I have very short hair. My fiance suggested I grow my hair out a little bit (not too much because he’s very much in LOVE with my short hair) and then put the veil in with a tiara since I am wearing a princess looking dress. However I was thinking of just having fifties waves if I grew my hair out anyways. Would that even work?