Make Oral Sex Easy For Her

Don’t force it

Don’t push her head down to your crotch to indicate that you want oral sex. If she’s not going down there on her own, try telling her how much you’d like to feel her tongue on you. If she still doesn’t get the hint, just ask for what you want. Let her take control of the situation and keep your hands off her head, both of which will make oral sex easy for her. Forcing her into deep-throating or gagging her on purpose are tacky porn-star moves (unless you’re playing a dom/sub role-playing game in which the rules are well established beforehand).

Feedback and fair warning

Positive feedback is always welcome, and will help make oral sex easy for her. Your body language and the sounds you make will give her indications of how it feels to you, but if you want something specific changed, added or avoided, you’ll have to speak up. Make sure to phrase your suggestions properly, since almost everyone is sensitive when it comes to their sexual skills. Start by pointing out what she’s doing right and then tactfully share what you want.

When you’re ready to climax, give her fair warning. Let her know just before it happens, at least until she gets to know your particular responses and can guess for herself.

oral reciprocation

Hopefully, making these changes will help turn your girl into a willing and eager fellatist, and will make oral sex easy for her. Just remember: it’s only fair to return the favor.