Women are special. Girlfriends are trophies. Wives are revered. I don't mind being a wife. I chose it. There are no special trophies big enough for being the wife to a husband she loves. And as the wife to a man I am in love with, whom I chose, I would like to be on top sometimes. You have to ask for what you want and sometimes you must be very specific in order to be completely satisfied. You can't just lay there. ASK! Here is what being on top sometimes, means to me. I want to feel noticed. I want someone at home saying "job well done, thank you, let me get that, you complete me, rest your feet, let's just order in, you look great without makeup, is that a new dress, I would love your opinion on this, I am better because you are with me,let's take a walk, shhh! mom's taking a nap, how can I be helpful to you today, meet me in the backyard there is a full moon, I ran you a bath, I poured you a glass of wine, I bought this book with you in mind, roll over and let me massage your back, the dishes can wait, do not talk to your mother like that, don't worry I will take care of this,want a sandwich."MMM yeh! Yes! Yep, oh yeh, feels great! Being on top sometimes ain't bad. Not bad at all.