She's making all the moves you are both drunk, but neither is truly resisting. This scenario is in response to the notion that intoxicated sex is rape. If it happens to a guy, is it rape? What if the guy is noticeably more intoxicated than the girl?

According to the unwritten law of the written law, men cannot be raped, or rapped, as some might say.

This story got too many cliches for me to take it at face value. In fact I'm more inclined to not believe it

She did get tipsy, and let things go to far wit dude
Wakes up and is like ohhh ****, I dun goofed
Sets the backstory for rape wit her sis
You question her story, like any logical person would do
She guilt trips you, big red flag
She escalates it by telling moms and going to the doctor, she has nothing to lose doing these things.
She won't do the one thing that might have adverse effects, her going to the cops, because that might expose her lies. Another red flag

The story is damb fishy

If you gonna stay with her, because if she really did get rape it would kinda be a d-bag thing to do, you now have to be on high alert.

If she starts using the rape as an excuse for bad behavior then that's another huge red flag. Then rape or no rape, you would have to definitely break up with her.

But I would start getting my mind right to set her go brah.

I didnt have the heart to say this but, this dude does make sense.

Do people on here not know how parties get down?
Girls get easy when they drink, hence guys trying to buy them drinks! *shoutout to superbad*

Ive known a few chicks who have woken up the next day not knowing what to blame it on so they say rape so they can stay with their BF
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She's making all the moves you are both drunk, but neither is truly resisting. This scenario is in response to the notion that intoxicated sex is rape. If it happens to a guy, is it rape? What if the guy is noticeably more intoxicated than the girl?

Neither person is in a position to give legal consent, if either person feels that they've been violated when they sober up either could file a rape report. Statistically most won't, but that doesn't mean that someone wasn't raped in the situation.

Neither person is in a position to give legal consent, if either person feels that they've been violated when they sober up either could file a rape report. Statistically most won't, but that doesn't mean that someone wasn't raped in the situation.

If you're having drunk sex with different people all the time, you've probably got deeper issues to discuss; but yes, depending on your local laws with regards to consent, if you feel that you were raped when you come the next day you could file a report.

If you're having drunk sex with different people all the time, you've probably got deeper issues to discuss; but yes, depending on your local laws with regards to consent, if you feel that you were raped when you come the next day you could file a report.

I mean, have you ever been to your local college.? I can say with confidence 80 percent of the intercourse that goes on is influenced by alcohol. I guess all those kids got deep seeded psychological issues, maybe you should go counsel them.

Anyhow, I think my point here has been made. My advice to men is, if you get up with a woman after a frat party and you were both drunk and she is starting to regret what she did. Beat her to the police report.

All those nights amazon women accosted me for snoo snoo while my inhibitions were compromised. Edited by AntonLaVey - 2/5/13 at 12:17pm

By no means am I calling you a pussy OP. Depression is real. Trust me, I know first hand what it's like to be kicked repeatedly when you're already down. Ignore the guys that are calling you soft or whatever the case may be.

But what I am saying is that the situation, from a strictly third person perspective, does not make sense. It must be hard for you to think objectively here, I get that, but I implore you to at least try.

All I'm saying is, if she was indeed raped and they know the guy that did it, imagine the psychological and emotional toll its going to take on her every time she walks by or sees this dude. Hopefully, she's able to get past it, but many rape victims don't.

Quiet as kept, I still have doubts to the validity of her claim. Unconsciously passing out from one drink, huh?

8% of false accusations are UNCOVERED ... how many never even get to that point?

And calling dudes hurt because they don't take what yambs say at face value? You must not have dealt with many women.

Then you say she wasn't coerced? Guilt will make you confess bruh ... is it not possible to think she felt guilty... then rationalized it.

Female logic: "now that I think about it... I didn't really EMOTIONALLY want to do it. But physically, I did. But since my heart wasn't in it, I didn't really want to. He took advantage of me. He raped me."

Keep on thinking these birds tell the whole truth and nothing but the truth. Life will be hard, my friend.

Im not gonna read the whole thread but she put herself in the situation. There is no excuse for you to be in a state of mind that you have no control over your body or at least someone with you. How are you gonna pass out in a house full of drunk men and not even have your sister taking care of u or make sure you are somewhere safe.

Im not going to get into the whole she may be lying thing cause it doesnt matter at this point whatever happened is over and done its up to you if you can deal with the situation.

I read a lot of the post in here and its 50/50 ....
shorty didnt press charges? why not? if everyone already knows then she should have no problem telling the authorities that she was violated. if she doesnt want to talk to police is because she may have not been as innocent as she currently claims.. i dont know and wont make any assumptions just listening to this brings back memories of this one chick who called rape on this Marine only when another dude walked in the room and she was with him earlier... Same shorty who smashed another one of my homies, and was actually wifed up by my dumb *** room mate in Okinawa(thats another story)... She was a bad red head white chick, i could've prolly smashed but her record was too shady for me to try..

The only thing that really provokes a rape is a rapist and not the victim. It's 100% in his/her hands to rape or not to rape.

And rape isn't only a crime of power, nor is it involving power every time. Those are feminist-centric points of view with more hearsay and regurgitated slogans than data to back them up and they support default female victimhood when issues of strength, size, power, etc are involved.

Nope. Nope. Nope.

Men can absolutely and do get raped by women. The law being worded to benefit female victims doesn't invalidate male rape victims, IT'S JUST THE LAW and can't apply to every possible scenario.

I have nothing against women. My girlfriend was almost taken advantage of a month or so back and her friends prevented it, so fall back with that. This girl claims she had one drink and then she took what I'd infer to be at least a high mg pain pill (vic?) or high mg anxiety med (xanax?). That's very high risk behavior. And then she chooses to immediately fall asleep at a party where guys are severely intoxicated? Come on man.

I bet you "have a black friend" too.

And look if she's taking a med and had one drink then it's possible that she PASSED OUT. You don't choose to fall asleep, you just fall asleep.

And maybe she didn't know that the alcohol and whatever med she was taking would have such a powerful reaction. Who knows? You're making a lot of assumptions about about a situation in which you don't have all the details.