I was talking to a very close Sister of mine, and during the course of our conversation, we both felt that it seems among the Sisterhood, we cant say we love the Black Man without receiving some sort of backlash from Black Women. In order for our Sisters to love us, we have to hate HIM. If we speak of the flaws and destructive behavior that we as Black Women have adapted its throwing our Sisters under the bus, but apparently its OK to throw him under the bus, then run him over. Whenever accountability of the Black Woman is mentioned, deflection always makes its presence known. I am always being told that I should speak more on fatherless homes, unemployed Black Men, uneducated Black Men you know the usual he aint *** subjects.

These issues are talked about EVERYDAY, but when the contribution the Black Woman has made to the current state of the Black Family is mentioned, its a problem. It becomes well we should all work together. Really, because a minute ago it was all he should do this,he should do that,he abandoned his family, He He HE .and now when the mirror is held up to us, it becomes we. It cant become we until BOTH look at self.

The Black Woman says she has been proudly holding it down right .so has that worked out for us? Teenage pregnancy and abortions are at an all-time high, our sons are being mis-educated and neglected, and by the hands of OUR negligence, they grow up to be the uneducated men we tell our daughters to stay away from, but we stood and WATCHED them be mis-educated and did NOTHING about it. Oh I forget, we only want to take credit for the GOOD things that happen in our community all that is negative, has nothing to do with us, we have contributed nothing right?

So there are no children being told that their father is no good from the mouths of the mothers right? So there are no children that are being told that their father abandoned them, but didnt make mention of how he might have been PUSHED away. So there are no Black Men, being handcuffed by the child support system right? There are no Black Women that say they dont need a man for anything right? There are no Black Women that speak to Black Men in a tone that COMPLETELY kills their spirit right? There are no Black Women that will HELP a man work for self, but will blast him if he doesnt have a job right? Again, if the Black Woman is completely innocent, if she has done no wrong, and everything that is negative in our community falls on the shoulders of Black Men ..who in the HELL gave BIRTH to them? Whose wombs did these so called no good men come from?

<quoted text>That's why it's important to actually get to know your partner before bedding them. If these guys weren't so horny and actually cared who they banged, they could avoid women like this chick.Besides, why aren't these people using condoms?It goes both ways.

Greetings Nia I like your View Points we need strong Queens like you that can support the Cause. I have two Pages dedicated to AFRICAN-AMERICAN WOMEN on Facebook this is the Like Page, and many people who like the Page are from the Caribbean, and are not African-American: https://www.facebook.com/pages/AFRICAN-AMERIC ...

and the IMDB.com page Version to them: http://www.imdb.com/list/OP1r6oA_6T8/ I have now given African-American Women more of a Voice, but let's see what happens, and hope for the best. AA Women are hated because they are the most envied Group of people around, being the most successful, talented, and most beautiful!

<quoted text>Greetings Nia I like your View Points we need strong Queens like you that can support the Cause. I have two Pages dedicated to AFRICAN-AMERICAN WOMEN on Facebook this is the Like Page, and many people who like the Page are from the Caribbean, and are not African-American: https://www.facebook.com/pages/AFRICAN-AMERIC ...The Group Page has well over 200 Members, and Growing: https://www.facebook.com/groups/3443065523127 ...and the IMDB.com page Version to them: http://www.imdb.com/list/OP1r6oA_6T8/ I have now given African-American Women more of a Voice, but let's see what happens, and hope for the best. AA Women are hated because they are the most envied Group of people around, being the most successful, talented, and most beautiful!

these links work I fixed them Greetings, and Good day. I mean no harm, or disrespect here, and will only just do what I can to help in the struggle for African-American Women, they are such Beautiful, and amazing people. I have created Pages dedicated only for African-American Women, and hope to grow some support men are welcome as well it is for everyone that loves AA Women. The more support that grows for these pages the better, and more efficiently the issues facing AA Women can, and will be solved. I have created four pages, but I will only include 3 that you can join here. I'am not African-American by Birth, but by Naturalization so therefore you have a man that cares for you that is here for you. I have two Pages dedicated to AFRICAN-AMERICAN WOMEN on Facebook this is the Like Page, and many people who like the Page are from the Caribbean, and are not African-American: Imdb.com

<quoted text>Greetings Nia I like your View Points we need strong Queens like you that can support the Cause. I have two Pages dedicated to AFRICAN-AMERICAN WOMEN on Facebook this is the Like Page, and many people who like the Page are from the Caribbean, and are not African-American: https://www.facebook.com/pages/AFRICAN-AMERIC ...

and the IMDB.com page Version to them: http://www.imdb.com/list/OP1r6oA_6T8/ I have now given African-American Women more of a Voice, but let's see what happens, and hope for the best. AA Women are hated because they are the most envied Group of people around, being the most successful, talented, and most beautiful!

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