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It's really the only way you'll learn. Otherwise, you'll go on your whole life feeling as if you have this unscratched itch of trying to make a guy jealous so he can make you feel exactly the way you think you want to feel.

It's not until you actually do something where you discover the consequences for doing it. And, it's not until those consequences really hit you hard where you learn that you probably don't want to really scratch that itch. All of a sudden, putting eye drops on your eyes seems like a better idea than using your nails to relieve any irritation.

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We'll I don't want him to like forget about it and move on or something?

Look, I read the other comments on here and understand this situation with your ex.

I'm going to recommend using the classic time-tested technique that works with some of the most gorgeous girls out there.

Are you ready?

Here it is...

"Ignore them."

Why does it work so well? Because "you have" something "he wants from you." Your "attention" and "acceptance/approval." By "doing" what you were originally suggesting, a man with half a brain can deduce that he is so worth your mental energy, that you used all those mental resources just to get his attention and try to make him feel jealous (i. e., because you value how he feels about you). That's putting him in a position of power. If you're going to play power games, at least play them well.

Just ignore him. Nothing drives people who play power games more nuts than simply being ignored.

It works wonders on stunningly gorgeous girls, so, it's worth a shot to see how a guy would respond to it.

We'll I'm currently doing that bye I don't know or think it's working much. I do see him on Facebook morm probably keeping tabs on me or wondering what I'm doing and I believe he tried to trick me into contacting him. Does it sound like it's working to you then?

Look, if he's making an effort, then it means "where he currently is" is different from "where he wants to be." Otherwise, he would be doing nothing.

If he's someone who plays power games, first, I wouldn't waste my time on him. But, if you feel like entertaining yourself and brushing up on your emotional jujitsu, it could be somewhat interesting.

If he wants to play, then he has to play on your terms. Your terms are, he has to contact you. He has to castrate himself and present his balls to you on a silver platter. So, socially, externally, it must appear that he is pursuing and chasing you. HE --> YOU.

This will reinforce the idea that YOU are the prize here, not HIM. So, should this situation end badly, you can walk away telling the world, "HE FAILED TO ACQUIRE YOU," while you simply never really indicated that you had any interest in him... so you didn't really fail at anything or lose anything.

He will try to resist playing this game, but make it hard for him to resist. Encourage him with little hints here and there. A smile here. A playful sentence that gives him hope there. A comment that could be interpreted as you potentially being interested. You have to let the chicken simmer in its own juices for a while.

At no point should you make the emotional mistake of thinking that because you've invested so much emotionally and intellectually into this game with him, that you are now attracted to him or want him or have any interest in him. This is just a game, the only purpose of which is for you to feel better about yourself and hand his egotistical ass on a sliver platter for him to go pick up and weep alone in some corner.

Starting off a relationship is not best done by playing power games. So, keep in mind that the only object of this game is for you to eventually hand back his butthurt ass to him.

If he's trying to make you contact him, then it shows that he wants you to be the one chasing him... so yes, at the very least it shows that he is interested in you and wants you.

If you want to get back together with your ex, it's your life, it's your choice.

If you feel like passing guard and letting him get you into a grapple, that's your choice.

Not my personal style. I would just continue ignoring him and not showing strong interest. BUT... continue to reward every effort he makes. So, if he tries to make you contact him, simply like one of his pictures or reply with a "Umm, hello?" equivalent. Always keep him on the leash. Every time he jumps like a good doggie, be right there to give him a small doggie treat. Condition him to do more, and more, and MORE.

Make him understand that the more he does, the BETTER it is. But let it slowly and subtly build. Reward "immediately," but not STRONGLY.

The motivation for taking action is some difference between where "someone currently is" and "where they want to be."

If you are happy where you currently are, then you have no reason to take any action. But if you are not happy with where you currently are (e. g., body weight, financial status, relationship status, etc.), then you have a reason to take action... in order to get you to where you want to be.

So, when people take action, at the very least, it indicates that they are not currently where they want to be.

you just dont understand, i wish you could be a bit of clever!! you just dont even understand what i meant. if i were him, i would never gonna ever go out with that kinda stupid stupid girl!!! really getting on my nerves, just dont answer back, ok?

'''Guys, If I try and make a guy jelious that I know likes me by telling him Indirectly I'm going out on a date with someone else will it work or blow u?' this is your fucking question!! and my answer is even if you have sex every and every day millions of times, and talk what the shit you talk about. after you say you're going out with someone else, it blows out to me!!! i hope your little brain is not less than little and you understand it. if not, go for someone else, i cannot tell you anything.