Our Attitudes

Our attitudes are like our shadows, they follow every thinking individual in his total activities.

They are impelling forces in action, they shape our purposes & they largely determine our policies and practices.

They are the very foundation of our many decisions, decisions which affect us personally, our families, our relations to others in society, and our actions as citizens.

They are to human conduct what gunpowder is to a rifle shot, yet how many times do we given them much thought?

Hardly if ever do we bother to ascertain what our attitudes are, how we acquire them, or where they are leading us. That we acquire them is a certainty. We acquire many of them unconsciously from the four corners of our existence and are not aware of them unless we are confronted with a problem or a decision.

They are crystallized in our minds on the basis of what we hear, see, feel and learn by contact with our fellow man. They are the result of our studies and our search for knowledge.

Many of our attitudes are by necessity, transitory, temporary, and fleeting.

Many are inherited from friends, parents and associates.

Others are created by our environment, some are fundamental and permanent, permeating our entire existence. They stay with us for life, and shape our acts, our thoughts and react upon our personality for good or bad.

They may constitute our philosophy whether we realize it or not, and their existence is a part of our approach to every problem or activity we confront. They are of vital importance and of immeasurable importance to us.

We cannot conceive the influence they have upon us and those surrounding us.

While we cannot trace their source we can and should at least, to some extent, attempt to analyze our attitudes toward life and direct them in paths that will be most productive for good.

Do we ever stop to ask if our attitudes are proper and wholesome?

Could it be, that they are influenced by our prejudices, or if they are tempered by intolerance?

Are they based upon unwarranted conclusions, and insufficient knowledge of the facts.

It is of course impossible to catalogue all the ingredients of a proper wholesome attitude, but we can point to a few positive qualities that should be a part thereof:-

They should be the result of careful thought.

They should be tempered by moderation and tolerant understanding.

They should be composed of the benevolence that readily concedes that practically every human problem has two sides to his/her personality and consequently at least two viewpoints.

They should be permeated by morality and seasoned by the spiritual teachings of our religion.

On the other hand our attitudes are often a matter of indifference and complacency.

They are steeped in the notion of luck as a substitute for industry of chance rather than planning.

They are often influenced by the growing desire among us to cultivate the idea of getting something for nothing. They are influenced by the prevalent notion that it is necessary to eliminate the struggle from life to acquire happiness.

When we reflect that, as exercise is necessary to the muscles to acquire physical strength, struggle or degrees of it are strengthening influences in the development of personality and character.

Strength and struggle go together physically and spiritually.

In that connection it has occurred to me that we are attempting, to a greater degree than is good for us, to eliminate struggle from life. There is a continued notion, now apparently gaining ground, that it is the business of Government to provide prosperity for all.

While the attitude of average individuals may not change the course of great events, they are greatly important. A great many examples could be cited to show that the attitude of one man or woman has changed not only

the course of that individual’s life, but the course of life for their fellowmen & for their state or nation.

Attitudes defy description, they are as varied as the thoughts of men, yet they are ever present and determinative of our actions. This assertion, or expression of an attitude, no matter how worthy of attainment sometimes is delayed for years while it takes roots in the hearts of men.

But an individual attitude if pervaded by conviction, born of truth, based on morality and right will ultimately prevail. History points to hundreds of examples. How many peoples of the world yearn for that today.

I know of no more important job in our lives than developing attitudes. The moral and spiritual aspects of these attitudes not only influence us individually but they affect our marriage, our business successes, our ability to rear families and influence our friends and our neighbors.

Let’s look at our attitudes, they are much more important than we think. The attitudes we develop as we proceed through life can either become stumbling blocks or great building materials.

Which shall they be?

With God’s help we can make them wonderful building materials.

By: Bro. Carl Brigg, Beacon Lodge, No. 190, Red Deer, Alberta Canada

September, 1969.

Comment

When re-reading this paper I have found myself digging deeper into my personal self & examining my attitudes. This I have found to be a very difficult thing to do as our attitude is experienced in virtually everything we do or say.

My last comment is that we all are aware that it is better to be known as having a Good Attitude than the opposite.