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I'm an out man (61) who is victimized at work.I've worked for this company for 28 years. I am hated.

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"I have tried hard--but life is difficult, and I am a very useless person. I can hardly be said to have an independent existence. I was just a screw or a cog in the great machine I called life, and when I dropped out of it I found I was of no use anywhere else."

Sometimes, people hate us for reasons that have nothing to do with being gay.

We have a winner!! Give that man a kewpie doll!

Seriously Larry, get a fucking grip. If you want to spend your life wallowing in self-pity like a pig wallowing in it's own shit, by all means go right ahead. Just stop acting like it's everyone elses fault because it isn't, it's yours. Until you get you shit together (and laying off the booze is part of getting your shit together) nothing will change. But you already know this don't you? Methinks that you are addicted to drama, hence the reason you never try to help yourself. We are not here to coddle you, hold your hand, or kiss your boo-boos and make it all better.

You've had sixty one years to grow a backbone and learn to take care of yourself. If you haven't done it by now, chances are you never will. So enjoy the rest of your life a neurotic drama queen with a serious persecution complex, as this seems what you want from life.

I predict that you will finish out your pathetic existence living in a single-wide on the outskirts of town with several dozen cats. Have at it big guy.

I was bored at work and reviewed each of your 223 posts. Very interesting. At least 30 (perhaps more, I lost count when they were coming one after another) dealt with being a victim, having no friends, everyone hating you, no one supporting or accepting you, etc, etc, etc. Interesting most of these posts came after October.

And for the many times you said no one here likes you and everyone hates you on Aug 13 you had these kind words of other forum members:

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Garry, You are an inspiration for me.

Nick, I hope we will continue to be great friends. I wore your t-shirr to work today. People know my story at work and I enjoyed their banter.

RAB: How can I thank you enough!!!We are both long term survivors and dealing with it.I finally got to experience being with people like me. You most of all! Let me help out next gathering.

Jan, Jen: First of all, Jan you are so beautiful and loving and caring. Jen: I love you, as crazy as you are.

Weazil: Thank you for our alone time to talk to each other.

The David's and Bonnie. There is a great love there that you all gave me.

Creighton and Santi! You both gave me a sence of being. My Spanish side. I am called Lorenzo within my family. Yes I'm a white boy but Spanish, Scott's German (on both sides) and Salt river Indian plus Chilean and Italian. Goulash! Now I'm hungry.

Thom, Robert Alliance Hippylady and anyone I've forgotten. Everyone there rounded out my experience. I got to have some alone time with everyone.

from this posting http://forums.poz.com/index.php?topic=33915.msg420766#msg420766

So dude WHAT THE FUCK HAPPENED?

The way I see it you have a few choices lay off the bottle or whatever you are doing, get some help or suck it up, quit complaining and STOP these incessant posts! All you are doing is ostracizing yourself!!!!

And this is the last time I respond to one of these self-pity threads!!!

« Last Edit: May 12, 2011, 10:46:34 AM by woodshere »

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"Let us give pubicity to HV/AIDS and not hide it..." "One of the things destroying people with AIDS is the stigma we attach to it." Nelson Mandela

Wow! This is my first introduction to the OP and all I can say is Wow! I tend to agree that there are many reasons to loathe someone. Stupidity, low tolerance for ignorance, whining, bitterness...I could go on, but I think you get the picture.

Its abundantly clear that the OP has some issues, although to be honest, it's impossible to discern what they actually are. Coming onto this forum and playing the part of the victim will only work if you really are a victim.

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Diagnosed in May of 2010 with teh AIDS.

PCP Pneumonia . CD4 8 . VL 500,000

TRIUMEQ - VALTREX - FLUOXETINE - FENOFIBRATE - PRAVASTATIN - CIALIS

Numbers consistent since 12/2010 - VL has remained undetectable and CD4 is anywhere from 275-325