What do you think of Joanie? Is she a harmless thrill-seeker or a well-meaning but self-absorbed mother?

At first Matt struggles to engage his daughters in a meaningful way; the family’s shared tragedy eventually brings him closer. How are father-daughter relationships different than those between mothers and daughters?

What role does Sid play in this novel? Do you think he impedes or facilitates Matt King’s renewed relationship with his daughters?

What do you think of Scottie’s journal? How can you analyze her strange behavior–why do you think she acts out the ways she does?

How would you describe Matt as a father? Do you think it’s irresponsible of him to include his kids on the journey to find the man that his wife was having an affair with? How does he evolve over the course of The Descendants?

In what ways is the depiction of Alex realistic in terms of the ways teenagers cope with crisis? Were you surprised she was aware of her mother’s infidelity? Do you think young adults more aware of the adult world around them than we give them credit for?

Who is at fault for Joanie and Matt’s marriage falling apart?

What was unique about the Hawaiian setting of the book and how did it enhance or take away from the story?

What specific themes did the author emphasize throughout the novel? What do you think she is trying to get across to the reader?

Do the characters seem real and believable to you? Can you relate to their predicaments?

Do you believe the Kings will have a better life without Joanie? How do you feel about the ending of this book? How do you picture the family’s future?

Did certain parts of the book make you uncomfortable? If so, why did you feel that way? Did this lead to a new understanding or awareness of some aspect of your life you might not have thought about before?

In what ways is The Descendantsa survival story? A love story? An adventure story?