No he was a jerk....I was working 40 & paying for his health care and he decided I wasn't 'June Cleaver" enough. Um.....
Kay then! ....I've never been Ordinary or normal or any of that. 20 yrs in he decided cause he was disabled I should be WHAT????? Seriously???

Hiked my butt out to the camper and made the best of it till he saw the "error" of his ways.

I'm not his Mom, I'm not June and WTF???

I decided it was part of his disability ( no blood flow) or I would have "roamed".
lets see...if you have triple by pass and 7 stents and a clogged corrodid artery you "may" not be thinking clearly?

So yeah....I'm faithful with limits.
also a commitment -phobe caue I didn't marry him till 15 yrs later. he needed to get on board with "I'm here cause I wanna be, not cause I have to
be".

His Mom didn't exactly train him well?

I can't believe you don't like tat's???
I have just a couple, hidden, so if I turn up dismembered my kids can identify the body.

originally posted by: droid56
So what percentage of men are consistently faithful to their spouse. Are you men faithful to your partner.
Have you had an affair.

What does it take for a man or woman to resist the lust of an affair.

All of these questions lacked a question mark because my Canadian keyboard suddenly went all french on me.

There are variations of cheating, if lust is an infraction then I believe the percentage of cheaters is 100%. I am guilty of lust. If this requires
an element of physicality then no, I have not. I love my spouse, but I am guilty of watching sexual content without her, so, if that is considered
cheating, yes, I am guilty.

It really depends what cheating is. She knows I watch and look, but she doesn't consider it cheating on her. I still feel guilty for doing it, but I
would never ever cross a line that I could not take back. There is no way I would ever be physical with another.

I don't delve much into conspiracy anymore honestly... Im convinced that IF one deals with conspiracies for too long everything will become a
conspiracy... it becomes a sickness of the mind, and i've seen it happen a few times to some friends who i don't speak to anymore because they turned
BatS**t crazy after a while.

I think the bigger problem would be the religion... i lived in an amish community for a while several years back...

Most are strict fundies... and i've already walked down that road... it ended really badly... and im still recovering over a year later...

I won't do that again

In the mean time im doomed to date women that aren't right for me... but its all in good fun

I never cheat in relationships. Part of that is because my religion is ridiculously punitive about adultery and fornication. I also feel like it's
incredibly disrespectful to my partner.

And of course, who wants to deal with a furious and vindictive girlfriend who suspects you're cheating, doesn't trust your answers, and is constantly
searching for a "smoking gun"? When most women are in "detective mode", they start digging up all kinds of "unexpected" stuff, start talking to your
former girlfriends, and are able to pry information out of people that you didn't realize they were cool with, etc. So even if it turns out that
you're innocent, everyone else now suspects you're cheating or gives you crazy looks. And if some of her friends/family were only tolerating you out
of respect for her, the accusation of unfaithfulness can be the excuse they were looking for to openly hate you.

So I've always made specific agreements that if I or my partner finds someone else that we may cheat with, it's better if we just break up. That
avoids a lot of the BS.

Never been unfaithful, but thankfully (because I didn't end up marrying her and found my wonderful wife instead) Ihad an ex-fiancee who was. I
confirmed it, packed my stuff up the next day, wrote a check for the remainder of the rent and wished her a happy life.

I'm at the same limit myself. With women of course. It seems "normal" is not so normal these days. I've been divorced for about 18 months now and
haven't got past the "coffee and conversation" stage of dating. Every one I talk to has some baggage they just can't help dragging out or they seem
to be taking whatever they're mad at, out on the men they meet.
Swear to God, a woman I was meeting for coffee, came in, sat down across from me and said " Well, every other man I meet is one, so lets see what kind
of assh**e you are".
I smiled and said, "One that doesn't put up with sh** from you" and walked out. If she had even tried to make a joke of it, I would have laughed and
moved on, but she said it in a very disdainful voice and a sneer. I won't waste a minute of my time with someone like that and there are far too many
of them.

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