Parenting our Bee after infertility

WTF?

Who heaves a loud sigh of disapproval and annoyance at a mum trying to get a grizzly baby off to sleep before the start of a movie – when it’s a babes in arms session?

What makes someone think that the vague details of a friend of a friend who conceived #2 easily after IVF for #1 could provide anything other than an irrelevant data point to your own fertility? It’s as bad as being told ‘just don’t stress about it’, or ‘I know someone who got pregnant as soon as they signed up for IVF’. Don’t say it people!