Category Archives: celibacy

Open letter to a friend whose heart is battered…. I remember that you were there for me when I was going through a lot and had no one. So I will do my best to be here for you, now. In this life, you have to separate your mental and emotional things, your habits, your beliefs–like laundry. Whites over there, colors over there, delicates there. You can’t throw them all in together or the colors will bleed and what was once pure and white is now sullied. Some things must be kept apart, some things put together, and you always …Continue reading →

…and i have every right to hate it.celibacy. Loathe it. What about you?There are those who believe that it is somehow more evolved to deny our need for sexual intimacy. Usually, this stance is held by those who can’t get laid.Thus, it’s a coping mechanism. I don’t feel more spiritual when i am celibate. I just feel frustrated. I believe that the need for intimacy is not only hard-wired biology, but part of the natural human condition; and it needs to stop being relegated to the lockboxes created by religious zealotry. The Bible is the major culprit for this, along …Continue reading →