The New Alpha Male

The New Rules Of Being A Modern-Day Alpha Male

Competitive. Dominating. Masculine. These three words embody the traditional idea of what it is to be an alpha male. But times are a-changing, so intoned Bob Dylan’s 1964 hit song. Fast-forward into the 21st century, the notions of what it means to be an alpha male are shifting based on clearer understanding of scientific evidence and a little dose of political correctness. The new alpha male persona is here — so, if you want to be in the know, read on.

Leading Through Dominance

At the heart of the old mindset is the notion of power and glory that goes with being an alpha male. Dr. L. David Mech explored and popularized the idea of the alpha male in his book “The Wolf: Ecology and Behavior of an Endangered Species.” According to Dr. Mech, to be an alpha male is to be at the top of the hierarchy in social animals such as wolves, gorillas, as well as humans. This is usually achieved by superior physical strength, aggressiveness and even superior intelligence.

Because this was understood as a scientific fact, social scientists and psychologists have, for some time, assumed that such characteristics were desirable and therefore, alpha males played an essential role in societies. Successful males who could command power and influence in society, through aggression and dominance, were considered natural leaders.

Out With The Old, In With The New

It is only a matter of time before previously discussed concepts are brought back into the spotlight and scrutinized, and the idea of the alpha male is no exception. Those who challenge the traditional definition of the alpha male instinctively tend to reject that tend to support power politics, aggression and arrogation of superior strength as being socially natural and even desirable.

Dr. Mech himself has suggested that his previous observation is no longer accurate based on additional evidence. Researcher M.W. Foster found that the alpha males in social animals are more likely to be those who do more for those around them as opposed to their status being influenced superior physical strength and aggression.

For sociologists, characteristics such as diplomacy, altruism and generosity play an important role in making an individual an alpha male. In short, in order to be an alpha male you have to have the right balance between strength and generosity, and aggression and diplomacy. The new alpha male therefore, also shares the characteristics of the beta male. In other words, you not only have to lead but also be a good follower.

Leading The Pack By Supporting The Pack

The new and improved alpha male knows the importance of supporting his pack. He works hard to grow as a person, always striving to become a more refined version of himself and self-aware of his impact on others. He continues as a front runner and aims to advance his career and enhance his character but makes sure his pack is top priority.

Personal development is key to the new age alpha; becoming the best version of himself as much as possible to ensure those following him have the best opportunity to succeed. When an alpha male is consistently challenging himself to grow personally, professionally and physically, he sets a culture within his pack which in turn sets a standard for those around him. Through his own personal development, he strives to make changes for the betterment of the whole.

What Alpha Male Is And Isn’t

The true alpha male is the best of all worlds. He is competitive, but he is also collaborative.He may have a dominant personality but he is also gentle.More recent scientific findings suggest that the alpha male tends to be more nurturing towards his offspring.

His mindset is not that of beating down on others and fierce competition to obtain a level a certain level of success or power, instead he supports his pack by caring for them to ensure their survival and success. Can you identify with these characteristics? Congratulations! You have what it takes to be a 21st century alpha male and you should be proud to wear that badge.

Here's a recap of what you need to know:

Be a true leader; inspire those around you and don’t intimidate. This goes for your personal, professional, and everything in between relationships. Take the initiative, be bold, and people will take notice in no time.

Flex your awareness muscle by keeping a close eye on your pack's needs. Set a positive example by putting them of your own to insure overall success of the group.

Focus on personal development. Allow yourself to make mistakes and give yourself room to grow as an indvidual. This attitude will set the tone and culture within your group, which will provide a safe and secure atmosphere for cultivating healthy relationships and a foundation of trust.