though im going to paris at the end of the month with 5 other friends (3 boys, 3 girls, myself included). Weve only managed to get 3 double rooms, and people have been arranging the sleeping arrangements cos da laydeez all want a piece of this
*points at self*

It's embarassing if you go on a date and from the off dislike the girl physically. If you're big enough just to chat to her, go out and take the pressure off then it can't do any harm to go with it. BUT if it's a situation where people clearly expect you to get together then you should ask to see a picture/facebook/myspace. What era are you living in?!

try to find out about the girl you do like, a way of seeing her again. Although sometimes things like matchmaking work. Just don't make it a date and resist her attentions if you don't want it to happen with her. Friends ahouldn't set you up with someone you've never met or seen just so you can be couple 100 in their group. What's with people these days?!