80% of Christians Have Sex Before Marriage

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aren’t waiting adds to get married in order to have sex anymore and a handle
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eighty percent of christians and that having sex before marriage and of course
the reason why is because more and more people are getting married married later
so it’s one thing to say wait until you’re
twenty yet another thing to say wait until you’re forty absolutely right and police surprising the result ever
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elect these once they get married they immediately forget that they had sex
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and the only way to have Christ is to live in isolation, where a man is certain not see any attractive women, therefore not commit sin or even think of touching those women, even thinking about sex is an equal sin. therefore we have a choice, the social life where sin is inevitable, or the cave and be holly

Really 80% how can you tell!! did you go around the whole world and ask each one of us nope didn't think so… Oh and btw I know people that waited till 38 and well they are more than happy they waited… oh and by the way Christianity isn't a religion… Religion is do, Christianity is done… And so what if some Christians have sex before marriage Jesus saved us, so He already forgave them…

how can you say they are not Christians?? All of us are born in sin even if we are Christians we will never be without sin on this earth, and God says clearly in the Bible John 3:16, For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son, that whoever believes in Him should not perish but have everlasting life, the day Jesus died on that cross, He gave us the everlasting life by forgiving us and all our sins, even if someone had sex before marriage! They are still Christians God love them

these young turks so stupid, they think like they are right but not., i think they will be very sorry what they say when they are in HELL.every body who had sex before marriage, if they wont repent in Jesus. they will end up suckling lucifer's long sharpy dick rips their intestinal tract..

To each their own I guess. Anyway, unlike most people I admit I regret losing my virginity before marriage.

It's also typical for most people who make a mistake which they can't take back (like losing ones virginity) not to admit they made a mistake or even justify it. Justification in our mind, makes any mistakes or regrets we make, much easier to deal with psychologically.

I just want to warn other people, not to make the same mistake I did. I wish I listened more to others before me

I doubt 80% of Christians would be fornicating or living in sin like the heathen do. Maybe a few evil hypocrites among them would be engaging in this illicit activity and their kind are destined to have broken marriages, just like the heathen. Those who do the right thing and abstain until marriage have a much greater probability of a happy marriage. Those who are tempted into sex before marriage should go to their local church to get sorted out before it is too late.

I'm not sure about this 80% figure – it could be true in the lust-drenched world we live in today. I do know that (1) God's directions for sex have not changed; (2) no matter how "enlightened" humans get, they are still subject to the same moral absolutes — and usually they fail; & (3) I DO know quite a number of Christians that DID "wait" until marriage – and they were not sorry they did. What I don't like from these "Young Turks" is their mocking of Christians – OR insisting they be perfect.

As far as i see it they have a point. What is wrong with humans behaving like humans ? Christian doctrine really wants to control how people should love each other.
There's nothing i repeat NOTHING!! wrong with having sex before marriage so people better start enjoying it. It's just nature taking it(s course.

So what you're saying is we heathen are nothing more than a bunch of immoral barbarians thinking about nothing else than having sex with each other ? I'd almost take it as a compliment ! At least i will have more fun doing what comes "natural" and "human" to me.

You are obviously are a dirty man whose mind in in the gutter… a miserable soul who is heading to hell unless you convert. Free yourself from the bondage of immorality and go on the path of righteousness to Jesus. Only then will you be happy.

i find the argument this blaspheming, islam-abandoning, fornicating motherfucker on the far right where he uses breathing as an analogy to justify premarital sex spectacularly hilarious. i hope the islamic extremists track him down and murder him on the spot. breathing is a necessity to stay alive you willingly-ignorant piece of shit, sex is not. sex is a sacred bond that is shared between the husband and wife, not a "fun game".

I don't understand why everyone watching this is calling these people idiots hell they are smarter than most people today and they are giving out true facts on religion and the danger they put out there and the crap they want to feed to other people I completely understand where they are coming from ive experienced just the say BS from religion and their idiotic views on sex….in all truth HAVE SEX WHEN YOU WANT IT!

how these people make a decision in life and end up going against it which made there life more difficult ive seen it happen in real life before to my friends and I feel bad for them bottom line is not to push this no sex before marriage thing on teens it usually ends up badly and if im an idiot then you obviously haven't looked at the facts

Sex is a completely natural & beautiful thing in & outside of marriage. If people choose to save sex till marriage that's their decision but just cause someone wants to live their life the way they want does not make them a whore not all people that have sex spreads STDs or gets pregnant & has a million children & don't know who the father is I've known people that took an abstinence pledge & could not wait yes it is wrong to break something like that but people are human

People shouldn't push their believes on others if people don't like birth control don't take it but if we had good sex ed in all high schools & teach kids about birth control & other methods including abstinence then everyone can be happy. Not everyone wants to wait till marriage. If all we teach is abstinence & no knowledge about sex & nothing else we will have more unwanted teen pregnancies & spread of STDs. And when it comes down to sex & marriage that's peoples choice & no one else's

I support TYT & their views their smart & they know their facts if you don't like them why the fuck are you watching their videos. If you disagree with them that's fine but don't post shit like their a bunch of idiots & bitching at people who agree with them.

i agree with ur criticism…but not ur solution. Have sex when u want it? thats terrible advice. And i'm not some puritan virgin. I KNOW its terrible advice and leads to trouble. How about…think it through? dont be cavalier about it? accept the consequences…and if u dont want the consequences of unmarried sex…dont do it til ur married.

When I say do it when you want it I mean do it when it feels right your not understanding you cant hold in such urges and people need to release it when its right for them im not saying fuck everyone you see you have to ready and comfortable in your own way the only consequences someone can get if from unprotected sex and im not telling anyone to do that they have to be smart about it and when your being smart about it that's what I mean do it when you want it

woah woah dude. ur puttin words in my mouth. abstinence only education is really a horrible idea. i know. I agree it should be holistic which includes teaching about emotional consequences but also preparing kids and not scaring the bejeezus out of them. I would say that sex is best between married couples yes. And i say that even though im not a virgin, and feel that my past experiences are certainly less than ideal. And yea..i like to live in reality…most of us arent gonna make it there

its ridiculous to EXPECT kids to wait 10+ years til they're married to have sex. but saying its not a bad thing to strive for if u want it that way…is okay too. I'm just sayin, dont be RECKLESS about sex…but be realistic also

why does society think it's okay to have sex before marriage. Christians please don't be fooled by the world rather turn to God's word. For he bless those who obey him and it's still not to late to repent and turn to him for help if your having a hard time controlling lust. AMEN AND TURN TO JESUS NO MATTER WHAT. STAY SAFE

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I've looked over most of the comments. I believe that's a brilliant video clip. My older brother just wishes to become excellent with women. He began to understand a fuck load from Master Attraction. (Google it.) The support relating to getting chicks in clubs from Master Attraction got him his first sex in 3 yrs. I'm annoyed however given that I heard them all.

I think most of this is based off society and our view on life collectively. Most of us don't live in a place where you get stoned to death for cheating on your spouse. I can tell that the "pinned up" dude had seen his fair share of action prior to having sex. Sex is used to sell nowadays, how could one forget that it even exists? We're bombarded with it and suggestively given the idea that it's important

Like Jewish society in the first century, many cultures today emphasize marriage as being desirable. If a young man or woman passes a certain age without getting married, concerned friends and relatives may feel impelled to give him or her some advice. They may suggest that he or she search more actively for a mate. They may drop hints about an eligible member of the opposite sex. They may even try to get two unmarried people together.

These actions sometimes lead to embarrassment, broken friendships, and hurt feelings. Paul never pressured others either to marry or to remain single. He was content to serve Jehovah without a wife, but he respected the right of others to enjoy marriage. Individual Christians today also have the right to decide for themselves whether to get married or to stay single. Others should not pressure them to take one course or another.

WE ARE NOT telling you HOW TO LIVE your life; GOD’S WORD tells you.
Just admit it; you don’t care about what HE says. DO NOT hide behind Christians. Say what you REALLY mean. YOU DON’T WANT to honor God. You DON’T CARE about His Word or commands.

I hate it when people hind behind us Christians! Be real people; you just don’t want to obey God.

O2 has nothing to do with morality–thats foolishnesssss…Christianity is a choice we do…when we trust in the Grace of God…its not by any person's ability..go ahead and choose what life you want to live….Christ is the Way!!

God. I'm envious because of my cousin. He has actually been available always. But, he's got a part-time model to state to him she loves him in less than a month. Just how is that achievable? He explained to me he obtained the Cupid Love System (Google it!) I wish someone attractive fell for me… I don't recall ever previously seeing him so content. Kind of makes me frustrated.

I really don't like how these three people making people that believe in God's word and follows it sound like we are idiots its not being human. I am still a virgin and 22 years old going on 23 and its not just because what the Bible says I want my fiancé to know that he is my one and only…. It makes me feel good that can share that experience with him and if I have to wait till I am 40 than I will I rather do that than burn

When I went to bible college as a teen there were so many couples that would say "I can't wait until we can get married, so that we can have sex". Like that was the most important thing in the world. After 10 years, when the wrinkles come and sex is dull and boring…what then? By making sex seem like this taboo thing in the Christian community they are making it more appealing. If you are told not to do something, of course you are going to fucking do it.

Technically, I've never been able to "prove" that the Bible requires virginity before marriage. Virginity in women was valued because of paternity issues (if you take her virginity and get her pregnant fast, you can be pretty sure the kid is yours). The Bible does punish fraud. A women who claimed to be a virgin, but wasn't, would be killed because she defrauded a man for a money (most crimes akin to theft had big punishments back then).

I don't see what the whole 'rushing into sex' thing is about. I am a christian and I have decided to keep my 'v card' until marriage as I think my future husband is worth waiting for and rushing into things is stupid. Sex was not designed for kids, it was designed for a husband and a wife to show how much they love each other and to please the other person. Due to things like porn, today's society thinks that sex is all about receiving and pleasing your self. They are fed this fake perception through social media, music etc and it's planted into their brains. Most people (especially teens) end up breaking up with their sex partner and regretting their decisions.

Did you know that sex outside of marriage = hell? The Bible in 1 Corinthians 6:9-10 says fornicators will not inherit the kingdom of God. Hebrews 13:4 says "Fornicators and adulterers God will judge." Even if you believe in Jesus, go to church, do good works and read your Bible, see what Jesus said in Matthew 7:21-23.

First of all let me just say that I am a virgin who is waiting for marriage so lady it's not 100%. Next thing the Christianity that you guys are talking about are people who claim to be a christian by taking things out of context and using it for they're already fueled hatred while LABELING themselves christians.I personally do not believe in sex before marriage but I would NEVER call some one a slut just because they disagree with me. Every single TRUE christian that I know would never do that and I speak that confidently. No one is saying you are a slut or a whore if you have sex before marriage it is a suggestion because of how significant it is and how emotional and personal the act is and because of these heavy factors attached to sex many Christians believe it is better to wait and give that emotional gift to your spouse. Next, if you have done something in the past and seen your mistake and want to warn people of that mistake how is that hypocritical? Finally I believe in birth control like condoms and pills because people do mess up and certain consequences seem too much. Don't just box people up in the word christian. A true Christian's life is centered around love.

Not 100% because I'm waiting till marriage. Christians do tend to be stupid about sex though. Sex is not evil or bad. I think everyone should wait. However, if you're going to choose per-marital sex then you better be using protection, especially if you've got multiple partners.

So I figured Id weight in here since me and my wife both waited until we got married. However we also got married young. It was defently worth the wait however I do agree that there are a lot of hypocrites out there that aren't honest about their own history and accuse others. It is unrealistic to expect people to wait so far into their adulthood to get married getting married early is the only way to realistically make this happen… the chirstian community should be advocating getting married earlier as well as waiting… and within that getting married earlier there should be support within the church for that.

Here's the thing. The point of sex is creating life in order to carry on the human race. The part about it making us feel good is just God doing us a little favor. The reason God said not to have sex before marriage is well… Look at the statistics, there are so many single mothers, and people with STD's right now that its unthinkable. When your just going around fucking whoever your gonna end up with a lot of problems. I understand all of this and I'm only 13 years old lol

Then again, 80% of American's claim to be Christians, and we all know this isn't true. so these statistics are wrong if in fact this many people believe being a Christian only requires a belief in a higher power.

Many Evangelical Christians who study their Bible do not actually believe that premarital sex is necessarily a sin in and of itself. It is more of a Western Conservative ideal, not a biblical one. Non-Christians often inaccurately think that Evangelicals are mostly against it because there are some very vocal and popular leaders of Evangelicals speaking out against. And it is true that many Christians think it is often ideal to wait until marriage in order to void potentially hurting people via premarital sex.

I am Christian, I admit that I slip with my fiancé, when I hit puberty I watched lots of porn, I cut way down but its a struggle. I am human, I make mistakes very often but I am better today than I was a year ago. Thing is sex is very important because of personal experience, the more people you have sex with, the harder it is to experience true intimacy with your partner. Sex is not just an act… ok sometimes you just want to have fun but its something special that you should only share with one person. If its no big deal why is there a such thing as marriage.

Voicing opinion is always fine with me. But your insulting someone's lifestyle. It's not just a religion to us. It's a lifestyle. We are human too. We all fall short of the glory. It's annoying that everyone expects us Christians to be on the same level as God or be some type of super human. Im NOT justifying sex before marriage but I'm pointing out some of the reasons why most Christians did not wait till marriage. The only thing that is different from us and other people is that we try to turn away from sin. There are somethings we can't do. WE ARE NOT PERFECT! It's funny how followers of Christ are insulted the most compared to other religions. Ah…The Bible did talk about the world hating us.

If it's another thing to say, "Wait until you're 40", imagine how I feel as a 57-year-old virgin. I bought into the whole "Love waits" thing, because I was a Christian. That was the main reason for my choice, but come on, people, Give me a break. I do not want to wait FOREVER! It isn't just women who fear becoming "old maids"; men legitimately fear that, too.

So yeah how did they made that scientific evidence that 80% of christians did not have sex??? there are 314 milion united states citizens in the USA, lets say (just to make an idea and example) 50 millions of them are christians… how the hell do they know (especially a stupid brainless gossip magazine) know how many did have sex before marriage and how, with who and when???? like did they asked all 50 millions in person (wow you have nothing better to do in your so interesting life) to confirm that 80% did have sex before marriage? and thats only in the usa ;);believe me there is a world OUTSIDE THE USA that believes in god, and most americans cant freaking show on a world map what countries are on it, not even their own, some believe europe is a country, some say asians all look like chinese, some say all africans are black and they all believe that latin americans look like mexicans and ALL speak spanish they dont know even know shit about their own country… most of them dont even go out to another country to see what happends here… how do they know about all christians in general when they only know just 2 procent of christians in the usa, i'm willing to bet 50 dollars that they dont even know atleast 2 christians OMG and you people are discussing these things? dont believe anything that comes from a stupid magazine that is prepared to spread any kind of bull information just to make money and to attract vieuwers hahaha omg americans have ALLOT of retardation… sorry my bad english here and there… i'm not american but i'm sure you guys wont be ATLEAST so stupid to read my message as non native english speakers can understand this.

Christians who think sex is evil have never read Song of Solomon (Song of songs in some translations). God created sex; it is a very good thing (or so I'm told). I am a virgin. I have a sex drive like everyone else. Saving sex for marriage is designed to protect the relationship and the two persons in that relationship. Sex is not just for procreation; it is designed to connect two people, and supposed to help in bonding them for life. So it's not hypocritical for parents and pastors to preach what they know is good, even if they didn't abide by that as teenagers and young adults. What should the Christian attitude towards sex be? If you're not married: please don't, and protect yourself and your heart. If you are married: do it as much as your hearts desire. Feel free to ask me questions.

We are not saying sex is "evil". If God created us (homo sapiens) so, he created sex, and it was good. Haha. But for real, just like anything else in the world that can be called "bad", sex is only made to be bad in certain situations (aka. before marriage). Don't judge us before you educate yourself, because that's just the tip of the iceburg. Everbody's a hypocrite. It's just more obvious for christians…

Alright, I will explain why unmarried young people are sexually active and playing Christians: the answer is: lack of information and repression. I oppose pre-marital sex but I also believe that sexual education is fundamental for our education in addition to freedom and not the licentiousness that excessive liberalism has driven us into.

In pre-literate cultures, virginity had a social function. It confirmed a line of inheritance among the few who had property. That function no longer pertains in modern society. These days, Christianity and all other religions disapprove of sex because it helps people feel good about themselves and others. The first instinct and duty of the religious is to promote misery in other people so that their religions will have somebody to "save" with the false hope of rewards in an afterlife.

There's a credible argument that religion is the primary source of evil in human affairs. The obsession of evangelicals in all religions with suppressing and controlling sex may be simply one of the manifestations of that evil.

Thats actually high since only about 3% of the overall population waits until marriage to have sex. So Christians are waiting at 6 times the rate as the overall population. I'm willing to bet that its mainly religious people who are waiting at all. It's sad how many people actually judge those who wait, and see religion as repressive for encouraging patience in this area. The thing that's really repressive is all the pressure from society that tells people they are a loser if they choose to wait and all the STDs, unwanted pregnancies, and broken hearts that result from casual sex. It is a huge mistake to think that religious people are slaves but that non religious people are free. We are all slaves to something whether money, our flesh desires, social pressures, or God the obstacle in life is choosing who or what you want to serve not whether you serve, "freedom" is an illusion.

WRONG! When you have sex that is the moment you become married in Gods eye! that stupid marriage license is a worthless piece of paper! So you cant have sex before marriage, when you have sex you become one flesh and are married! Me and my wife Do not have a marriage licence and i recommend that any christian getting married DO NOT get a marriage licence, it is a worthless piece of paper that can cause the devil to ruin your relationship!

Saving yourself for marriage just means you are honorable and have respect for yourself. Men do it too, though few have the iron will and fear of God necessary to keep themselves pure prior to marriage, I'm one of the few remaining knights. The commandment of Genesis is clear: "For this reason a man shall leave his mother and father and join with his wife, and they shall become one flesh". A virgin girl deserves a man her equal, one who saved himself and has the iron training and righteous character to be able to control himself around her NO MATTER WHAT THE SITUATION. Parents should train their children in the admonition of the LORD: fathers putting the fear of God AND themselves into their sons at a young age, so that they do not mistreat women or have intercourse before marriage (the threat that he will hand his son to the girl's father personally is a good motivator), and mothers teaching their daughters what a gift from God an honest, righteous, well-mannered, strong and Godly man is, and that it is her honor to treat him in turn with kindness, righteous love, fidelity, good manners, and of course the timeless custom of pushing his buttons with playful female teasing. Men are allowed to respond to this teasing by being showoff dorks and making her laugh, as is male tradition. If everyone adopted this model, society would be nearly perfect. Righteousness, true love, and romantic commitment as God intended. But with the depravity these days….how to reinstate such measures on the societal level?

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–Father is a Colonel. A righteous upbringing makes all the difference.

I'm blessed to say I'm still a virgin at the age 26. There is no time for fornication when living for Jesus Christ since 12 years old. Till this day the Lord is always with me, I grew up in a very strict Christian Household, and was taught to never get close with a woman sexuality unless we get married first! But now I'm not getting married till I can offer my future wife a successful marriage instead of a poor one. As a single guy honestly I can say that Iv'e been focus on being educated hard working and a purified young Man of God. I'm not really sure why so many woman assume that we single Christian man of God struggled with lots of fornication in our past? But for me I stayed away from fornication,Adultery and lust because never have I been addicted to pornography or any drugs or alcohol. I know there's single Christians who have been singled just as long as I have. So Christian ladies please don't assume all of us single holy men struggle with fornication and adultery.You gotta remember that I grew up in God's word, And fearing to go against his word till this day I never slept around at all because once Christ is deep in your heart and soul? Then sex addictions will never exist. Just letting woman of God know there are dedicated Virgin Christian men of God out there, I'm blessed to say I'm one of them at 26. Have hope in our heavenly father Jesus Christ that virgin men do exist for pure woman of God!

"On Saturday night I would see men lusting after half-naked girls dancing atthe carnival, and on Sunday morning when I was playing the organ for tent showevangelists at the other end of the carnival lot, I would see these samemen sitting in the pews with their wives and children, asking God to forgivethem and purge them of carnal desires. And the next Saturday night they'd beback at the carnival or some other place of indulgence.I knew then that the Christian Church thrives on hypocrisy, and that man'scarnal nature will out!" – Anton LaVey, The Satanic Bible

I believe that these 'policies' on sex before marriage is just to make themselves look 'better' than others. It can very well be to make themselves be on a higher plane than animals. Come on, sex is a natural part of life. Get over yourselves and forget that stupid 'rule'. Hell, marriage isn't even worth it! More people are happy in sexual/romantic relationships when they aren't married more than those that are married.

I will be honest I am 35 and not exactly young young. I believe sex should be after marriage if you are saved. However my desires to do it have been because of what I have observed, amateur porn in some ways, social media nudes, bro culture. And what drives that further is sizing up peers. Covetousness is a bad thing and sometimes that label needs to be shed to be accepting of others. Those that are living Christian lives that once lived wild and have a attractive family and job. That stings.

In the bible you're not allowed to have sex before, most Christians are constantly having sex before marriage In Islam, we are not allowed to have sex before marriage, BOOM almost all the Muslims aren't having sex before marriage,

They can themselves Christians & yet they aren't following the teaching

Just like DR.Zakir Naik said, we muslims are more Christian than the Christians themselves