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Re: Penis size; How much does it actually matter?

Big dicks are nice to look at, but that's about it for me. Yes, my ex was very large and it was uncomfrotable giving head and I would NOT take that monster up my butt, so I do prefer very average in size.

Re: Penis size; How much does it actually matter?

I look at penis size like I look at his income: all things being equal, the bigger the better.

People tend to read that wrong, though. They think that makes me a size queen, or a gold digger. Neither, actually. That "all things being equal" part is essential. I'm not going to ditch a great guy to get with some random guy with a larger dick or salary than his. Just that if I had power over time and space, and I could make his dick (or salary) larger without changing anything else, I would. But those are both low-priority things in the grand scheme. I'd rather have a small-dicked, low-salaried guy with a great sense of humor that I clicked with than a well-hung, independently wealthy dickweed.

Re: Penis size; How much does it actually matter?

It's all internet/porn hype and in reality the average size dick you can hope for is 6 inches. PERIOD. Anyone who claims they have been with lot of guys over 8 inches is a LIAR. And at the end of the day the size is unimportant because there are so many other things needed for good sex let alone an ltr. Dick size just doesn't add up.

Re: Penis size; How much does it actually matter?

This may be a litle bit off subject but I remember reading in one of the Health threads that after an operation or major trauma, the size of your penis looks and feels smaller than it was before. Anyone remember anything like that? I have tried the search with negative results.

Re: Penis size; How much does it actually matter?

Originally Posted by G-Lexington

I look at penis size like I look at his income: all things being equal, the bigger the better.

People tend to read that wrong, though. They think that makes me a size queen, or a gold digger. Neither, actually. That "all things being equal" part is essential. I'm not going to ditch a great guy to get with some random guy with a larger dick or salary than his. Just that if I had power over time and space, and I could make his dick (or salary) larger without changing anything else, I would. But those are both low-priority things in the grand scheme. I'd rather have a small-dicked, low-salaried guy with a great sense of humor that I clicked with than a well-hung, independently wealthy dickweed. Lex

I don't care about size or money. As long as someone can support themselves, that's money enough. If I had enough money to support them too, I wouldn't even care about that. However, I don't, so I have to be concerned with that.

Originally Posted by cgymike

It's all internet/porn hype and in reality the average size dick you can hope for is 6 inches. PERIOD. Anyone who claims they have been with lot of guys over 8 inches is a LIAR. And at the end of the day the size is unimportant because there are so many other things needed for good sex let alone an ltr. Dick size just doesn't add up.

Some doctors say 6" is average, some say more, some say less. I personally don't know. I do know that I wish I were 6"...

Originally Posted by Coward92

Well, I was always dissatisfied with my own size, even though I have nothing to complain about. MY penis is a pleasant sight and it has a respectable size, yet I would like it to be bigger.

Not only me however. All my friends claim that they want a bigger one, even the ones who claim to be satisfied with their size. So why is that? Why do we want something better instead of the thing we already have and wirks for us wonderfully? Is that an effect of the porn industry (huge cocks everywhere in porn)?

Also, what is you expectation towards your future partner in terms of penis size?
I feel uncomfortable while I write this but I'd lke my boyfriend or husband to have a big one. I feel dirty after I wrote this down, but this is the truth. Opinions?

I've always been unhappy with my size as well. I do think my life would have been different were I bigger, and had I not endured all the ridicule I got over it in school. I never got over that, and I still feel inferior because of my size. I'd like any boyfriends to have one no bigger than mine. That way I wouldn't feel so down on myself about it. Five inches just isn't anything to feel good about, much less brag about...

Re: Penis size; How much does it actually matter?

Well, I was always dissatisfied with my own size, even though I have nothing to complain about. MY penis is a pleasant sight and it has a respectable size, yet I would like it to be bigger.

Not only me however. All my friends claim that they want a bigger one, even the ones who claim to be satisfied with their size. So why is that? Why do we want something better instead of the thing we already have and wirks for us wonderfully? Is that an effect of the porn industry (huge cocks everywhere in porn)?

Also, what is you expectation towards your future partner in terms of penis size?
I feel uncomfortable while I write this but I'd lke my boyfriend or husband to have a big one. I feel dirty after I wrote this down, but this is the truth. Opinions?

Re: Penis size; How much does it actually matter?

I prefer a guy with a cock that's average to a bit shorter. IME bigger cocks don't get very rigid, they just expand a bit and remain plump and pliable......I'll pass. Now a guy with a smaller cock gets so hard he can chip a tooth...........that's what I'm talkin' 'bout

Re: Penis size; How much does it actually matter?

Well, there's two reasons that doesn't apply to me. And SFW? I'm sure she'd rather have a guy with a five-incher that took the time to bring her off over a guy with a seven-incher who didn't give a rat's ass.

Re: Penis size; How much does it actually matter?

Originally Posted by G-Lexington

Well, there's two reasons that doesn't apply to me. And SFW? I'm sure she'd rather have a guy with a five-incher that took the time to bring her off over a guy with a seven-incher who didn't give a rat's ass.

Re: Penis size; How much does it actually matter?

Then doubly blessed, I guess. But if she was in a relationship with a five-incher who was caring, I sincerely doubt she'd dump him to go find a nine-incher who was caring. I've found that most people don't expect perfection in their mates. They look for someone they can mesh with, and if they do that well, they're usually just fine with whatever they come with. And if that means backne, or a weird laugh, or an obsession for building model ships, or a less-than-impressive manhood, they usually accept that as part of the entire package.