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i find it crazy as hell that poz ppl are bigger sluts then neg ppl..i give up!

Hi Bryan:Actually poz people (at least the ones on here) no how to have a sense of humor. They know how to give support when support is needed. They know how to show compassion when compassion is needed. They know how to be tolerant - when tolerance is appropriate. They know how to give advice that is meant to uplift and not put down. And.... at times they know how to scold and correct.

I think that it is great you have found these forums. I think it is great that you are posting on these forums. That said, I also think that when you are at a mere 15-25 total posts since you have been on here, it is important to weigh what you say accordingly. A person can't always lean on excuses of "i'm immature" Also, everyone is entitled to have an opinion and to express it. The key to interacting on these forums is being able to express your opinion but at the same time catch the intent of the OP.

It is also important to know when the members have branched off a bit and decided to infuse some humor or much needed relief into a thread. Because in the end we all share a common bond - and a strong one at that. In one way or another each person here has had a similar experience in one or more areas as someone else. I have found that it is sometimes best for me to sit back and see how a thread unfolds before I contribute the first thought/opinion that comes to my mind. And, I am a member that is now around 400 some posts.

Just some thoughts/tips that may assist you. As is your choice, take them or leave them.-Phil

i find it crazy as hell that poz ppl are bigger sluts then neg ppl..i give up!

LOL all righty then. I caught your other rant in the other post, you know, the one where you claim to be immature? To be honest my 8 year old has more common sense than you, so I don't think we're dealing with a maturity issue here.

I find your comments offensive and your remarks detrimental to others fragile emotions right now, particularly concerning some of the newly diagnosed. Thanks for making my decision to use the report to mod tab for only the second time an easy one.

Skeebo, why in the hell did you even bother to report his post to the moderator when you were only going to chime in with inflammatory rhetoric anyway? Yeah, you're warned -- please don't comment in this thread again.

i find it crazy as hell that poz ppl are bigger sluts then neg ppl..i give up!

Just curious, have you been keeping count? And now that you are poz does that mean you are now a slut too? Yeah, I know you said that you haven't had sex in six months but I just want you to see how you actually sound. Maybe your being newly diagnosed is affecting your judgement. And are you now saying that since you are poz that YOU WILL NEVER HAVE SEX EVER AGAIN? Then you will truly be young, dumb, and full of cum.

Well, that was easy -- and now I won't have to sit up babysitting your juvenile antics. You're on a time-out for seven days -- please don't return to the forums unless you're ready to act like an adult, not a 21-year-old jackass.

I've gone two years without sex! After a couple of months the "hornies" will pass and you will get used to it. I'm 41 yrs old and a couple of years ago i just had enough of the drama of trying to find people sexually compatible with me. 99percent of the time I'd spend hours online or at the bath trying to find sex only to get some then end up having to jack off later b/c it wasnt satisfying. I'm extremely uninhibited during sex and I have quite a few fetishes....including sports gear like soccer and baseball socks.....outdoor sex.....sex in front of windows (i live in a clothing optional apartment complex with pool). I also have a huge foot fetish and I just couldnt find people that would roleplay with me. Asking someone to wear some soccer socks while they were screwing me or topping me poolside was like asking someone to pull all of their teeth out. I absolutely hate vanilla sex but most people are way too conservative in the bed for me so I just gave it up and I now I just rent porn from this online site callled xrentdvd.com it's like netflix but for porn. They send me porn in the mail i keep it for as long as i want then send it back. I rent the fetish (alot of bareback) videos that turn me on ....whack it off and get over it. I actually prefer life this way back before i gave sex up it was controlling me.......now i control it.

Generally speaking, where do you live? I'm picturing Melrose Place with nekked people.

Supposedly in Fag Laudergayle. Them queens in Wilton Manors think they be hardcore. He's probably Phil's next door neighbour.

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"I have tried hard--but life is difficult, and I am a very useless person. I can hardly be said to have an independent existence. I was just a screw or a cog in the great machine I called life, and when I dropped out of it I found I was of no use anywhere else."

Supposedly in Fag Laudergayle. Them queens in Wilton Manors think they be hardcore. He's probably Phil's next door neighbour.

LOL - There are a few clothing optional complexes in Wilton Manors area/Fort Lauderdale. I live in North Miami - wishing my complex was clothing optional (at least for the males) --- if I saw some of the females without clothing I would probably have to go back to therapy....

ps: hey Reverend, should we place bets on her saggy ass being spread eagle in the bushes of Haulover Beach every weekend with a bottle of poppers?

You know it, gurl. And you know that she (Ms. gregftl) won't mind if the dick is an illegal immigrant stealing his benefits as long as the meat is large and they're wearing socks while they do the deed. The supple foreskin is probably an added bonus.

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"I have tried hard--but life is difficult, and I am a very useless person. I can hardly be said to have an independent existence. I was just a screw or a cog in the great machine I called life, and when I dropped out of it I found I was of no use anywhere else."

So if you're in North Miami why do you act like you're from Ft. Faggydale? That's no further north than living in Bal Harbour. Are you technically in Dade or Broward?

ps: hey Reverend, should we place bets on her saggy ass being spread eagle in the bushes of Haulover Beach every weekend with a bottle of poppers?

I moved to S. Florida (Fort Lauderdale) 12 years ago -- lived in Broward the whole time up until November 2009 (8 months ago) - when I moved to North Miami. Oh and when I go to Haulover you can find my in the clothing optional area under the tiki hut --- with my clothes on. Much too hot to be out in that sun and don't want my naughty bits gettin a burn. The bushes have too many bugs and I saw a snake crawling up into them last week (and it was a real snake -- not the snake that first popped into your mind)..... and who told you I had a saggy ass (I've been doing the butt crunches).

and who told you I had a saggy ass (I've been doing the butt crunches).

I think Philicia was referring to Greg's saggy ass. I'm sure that you keep yours perky and cute as a button, power bottom that you is

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"I have tried hard--but life is difficult, and I am a very useless person. I can hardly be said to have an independent existence. I was just a screw or a cog in the great machine I called life, and when I dropped out of it I found I was of no use anywhere else."

All this talk about Dade County is making me terribly home sick. Haulover inlet is also a great hotspot for Snook fishing. Phil, this is Broad Causway - the toll bridge that leads to Bal Harbor shops.

Also, where is Wilton Manors. I've never heard of it till I started frequenting AM, is it by Las Olas or something?

I take the toll bridge over every time i go to haulover. The one time, in the evening, i went the other way, i got arrested by sunny isles police and sat in MD jail for two days.

Wilton Manors is right next to Fort Lauderdale and Oakland Park. It is the hot gay communiity. Most of the city commission is gay. Lots of clubs/bars in the area, good restaurants, etc. Really started becoming the hopping spot about 8 years ago and in the past 5 years has blown up. It's between Sunrise Blvd and Oakland Park Blvd (North/South boundaries) and Dixie Hwy and 4th Ave - I think (East/West boundaries).

Tom, Wilton Manors is like the new gay Mecca for SoFla queens who evacuated Miami after it became way too cubanized (and after South Beach fell from grace due to all the thugs that invaded it for the last decade or so). I really couldn't care less for it; too white-bread, poser leather-queen crowd for my taste.

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"I have tried hard--but life is difficult, and I am a very useless person. I can hardly be said to have an independent existence. I was just a screw or a cog in the great machine I called life, and when I dropped out of it I found I was of no use anywhere else."

My best friend Mike. It's got to be close to twenty years ago, he now tips the scales at over 300 lbs.. We've been friends since the age of 8. He was the guy that basically had to carry me out of the health department after I received my diagnosis. His wife took the week off from work just so I wouldn't be alone.

We've been friends since the age of 8. He was the guy that basically had to carry me out of the health department after I received my diagnosis. His wife took the week off from work just so I wouldn't be alone.

I seem to stay horny as hell a lot since I got my strength back. Looking at all those 'purty' pictures on some of the websites I visit each day as well as the videos out on Xtube keep me in a constant state of 'wanting it'. When I was a younger man, I figured once I hit middle-age this whole desire to constantly have sex would go away... NOT! Its stronger than it was during my 20s and 30s put together.

They haven't even reported this on the local news or papers.... Doesn't surprise me. North Miami isn't exactly an open gay mecca. Even South Beach was featured in the New Times recently regarding the anti-gay actions of police in that area. And there are a lot of gays that live on SoBe. Miami as a whole isn't exactly gay friendly. Fort Lauderdale is much more accepting. I just live here because it is closer to my job. Otherwise, I would be in Lauderdale.

I seem to stay horny as hell a lot since I got my strength back. Looking at all those 'purty' pictures on some of the websites I visit each day as well as the videos out on Xtube keep me in a constant state of 'wanting it'. When I was a younger man, I figured once I hit middle-age this whole desire to constantly have sex would go away... NOT! Its stronger than it was during my 20s and 30s put together.

All this talk about Dade County is making me terribly home sick. Haulover inlet is also a great hotspot for Snook fishing. Phil, this is Broad Causway - the toll bridge that leads to Bal Harbor shops.

Also, where is Wilton Manors. I've never heard of it till I started frequenting AM, is it by Las Olas or something?

Dunno about the fish, but the guy is HOT. DTFMTS. (Ditch The Fish....) ROFL.

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Don't obsess over the wrong things. Life isn't about your numbers, it isn't about this forum, it isn't about someone's opinion. It's about getting out there and enjoying it. I am a person with HIV - not the other way around.

Hey for you Florida guys, I remember driving through Islamorada and stopping along the way to have seafood at a place on the main road (overseas hi-way). It had a marina, a lighthouse, of course places where boats could come up and dock for those who wanted to come ashore and dine. No way can I remember the name of that place but I do know it was just across one of those little bridges on the left (ocean side) if you're heading south. The place was not a highbrow establishment but just down to earth not fancy at all seafood place. The views there of both the ocean and the gulf were spectacular. Anybody know where I am talking about? I am pretty sure it was within the corporate limits of Islamorada, FL.

Hey for you Florida guys, I remember driving through Islamorada and stopping along the way to have seafood at a place on the main road (overseas hi-way). It had a marina, a lighthouse, of course places where boats could come up and dock for those who wanted to come ashore and dine. No way can I remember the name of that place but I do know it was just across one of those little bridges on the left (ocean side) if you're heading south. The place was not a highbrow establishment but just down to earth not fancy at all seafood place. The views there of both the ocean and the gulf were spectacular. Anybody know where I am talking about? I am pretty sure it was within the corporate limits of Islamorada, FL.

"...health will finally be seen not as a blessing to be wished for, but as a human right to be fought for." Kofi Annan

Nymphomaniac: a woman as obsessed with sex as an average man. Mignon McLaughlin

HIV is certainly character-building. It's made me see all of the shallow things we cling to, like ego and vanity. Of course, I'd rather have a few more T-cells and a little less character. Randy Shilts

Why don't you queens all just move near me on the Isle of Man? The name of the Rock I live on should be self-explanatory.

I'm down with that (with a few exceptions, of course). It would be a never ending pozzum party.

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"I have tried hard--but life is difficult, and I am a very useless person. I can hardly be said to have an independent existence. I was just a screw or a cog in the great machine I called life, and when I dropped out of it I found I was of no use anywhere else."

"...health will finally be seen not as a blessing to be wished for, but as a human right to be fought for." Kofi Annan

Nymphomaniac: a woman as obsessed with sex as an average man. Mignon McLaughlin

HIV is certainly character-building. It's made me see all of the shallow things we cling to, like ego and vanity. Of course, I'd rather have a few more T-cells and a little less character. Randy Shilts

Just save a few hot blond boys for me. Blond is my favorite flavor... followed closely by brunette, redhead, brown, grey, silver, and bald. Did I leave anyone out?

One of my favorite mantras: They are all blonde in the dark.

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Don't obsess over the wrong things. Life isn't about your numbers, it isn't about this forum, it isn't about someone's opinion. It's about getting out there and enjoying it. I am a person with HIV - not the other way around.

Just turn out the lights next time darling. He can be blond. if you turn out the lights and use the computer he can be blond, buff, and hung. ROFL.

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Don't obsess over the wrong things. Life isn't about your numbers, it isn't about this forum, it isn't about someone's opinion. It's about getting out there and enjoying it. I am a person with HIV - not the other way around.

"...health will finally be seen not as a blessing to be wished for, but as a human right to be fought for." Kofi Annan

Nymphomaniac: a woman as obsessed with sex as an average man. Mignon McLaughlin

HIV is certainly character-building. It's made me see all of the shallow things we cling to, like ego and vanity. Of course, I'd rather have a few more T-cells and a little less character. Randy Shilts

Gimme a Cuban, a Colombian, a Brazilian, a Boricua. But please keep them pencil-pecker blonds away from my booty. Amen.

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"I have tried hard--but life is difficult, and I am a very useless person. I can hardly be said to have an independent existence. I was just a screw or a cog in the great machine I called life, and when I dropped out of it I found I was of no use anywhere else."

"...health will finally be seen not as a blessing to be wished for, but as a human right to be fought for." Kofi Annan

Nymphomaniac: a woman as obsessed with sex as an average man. Mignon McLaughlin

HIV is certainly character-building. It's made me see all of the shallow things we cling to, like ego and vanity. Of course, I'd rather have a few more T-cells and a little less character. Randy Shilts

Gimme a Cuban, a Colombian, a Brazilian, a Boricua. But please keep them pencil-pecker blonds away from my booty. Amen.

Some of the most well endowed men I've seen have been blond. Makes me remember this gorgeous blond closeted hillbilly guy at the bathhous. I asked him to take off his towel for me, and he did, stating "its not much". Soft it wasn't much, but I thought no less of him. Weeks later, I saw him hard. Up close. The thing must've been as long and thick as my forearm. Humility can be a virtue, but in this instance it was kinda disconcerting.