Alexandra Smelova – Is it bad that I like to pleasure my partner but I have no desire to receive it?

Is it bad that I like to pleasure my partner but I have no desire to receive it?

I’m not insecure or anything. Its just the way I am.

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socorra: It’s not bad, but keep in mind your partner may find it pleasurable to give too! If they love going down on you, you shouldn’t deprive them of that privilege 🙂

Azael_Descends: No, I think it’s usually considered a problem when it’s the other way around.

Ihatecommonadvice: No. I can be like this too sometimes. Receiving can be fun, but I can live without it.

samicita: No. I’d rather give bjs all day before I’d enjoy receiving.

BasemntGhost: I’d say no because I’m the exact same way. My handful of experiences that I can reference from (lol) have confirmed I’m in it for their pleasure, not my own. Don’t care that someone else has never given me an orgasm.

Some people would probably argue we’re asexual but I def do not identify that way. I avidly indulge in porn and masturbate pretty regularly. But anytime I think about being with someone all I care about is them receiving pleasure.

48291648593: Nothing wrong with it unless your partner is adamant about wanting you to receive something

4ever_Lucky: If you’re a woman, there are a million dominant males that would basically consider you marriage material. Can’t speak for the ladies though.