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Not my husbands child.

Posted by Anonymous

9 Replies

Advice please
Im scared until i became pregnant i was a drunk.
I worked in a local bar .
Ive had many blackouts.
My dh has stayed with me despite this.
Now im pregnant , im scared .
I dont remember sleeping with anyone eles.
But i question myself.
What if i did?
What if i just dont remember it.
What if my baby doesnt belong to dh?
I wont know until the birth.
Dh has no clue .
I have a feeling im going to give birth to a child thats not dhs and he will divorce me.
I cant imagine life without him.
My marriage means so much to me and i have no clue how im going to pick up the pieces if this is a reality.
Im preparing for the worst.
How do you move forward after losing someone you love so much because you fucked up

Dh and i have only conceived once in 5 yrs . And after my worst blackout to date i found out i was pregnant. so i think i may have slept with someone and not remember it. How eles could i be pregnant? Dh cant have kids in the drop of a hat.

Quoting ame85: Do you have any reason to believe that you slept with someone else?? Waking up in a weird place or something?

by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster
on Jan. 31, 2015 at 1:21 AM

I tried and chickened out halfway . Dh started to get upset and i felt like he was going to leave then and there so i stopped talking.

Get help if you start getting urges.
Acknowledge your behavior.
Even if it's not his... you'd be surprised at how accepting some men can be and just remember, blood does not make a father. Daddy is the one that's there raising him/her through thick and thin.

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