Dating sites for people in ministry

Even if that friendship doesn't lead to something romantic. Spend the extra time getting to know them by emailing, talking on the phone, learning about their past, etc.

Anyone that God is bringing to you is worth the extra time in building a friendship.

Now some men may joke and say they are too old to wait too long. You will never regret building a friendship—a friendship that can be in your life forever.

As a caution though, many use online dating not as a noble alternative to finding their spouse but rather a place to satisfy their mortal cravings.

The World Wide Web has become not only a place where we can connect with people, information and ideas quickly, but also a place where “wolves” can hide behind the cloak of a username and fabricated profile in sheep’s clothing. I have seen my elderly and widowed mother be an enticement to male suitors who want a capable and desirable caretaker along with intimate female companionship.

At some point down the line you will want (need) to meet this person face to face.

When you do, make sure you are prayed up and prayed for. SHE SAID: Thanks for your honesty including fears and apprehensions regarding online dating. It’s never where we meet someone but our motives when we do meet them.

If it’s serious, I would even ask for their pastors contact information. SEE ALSO: Should the Guy Always Take the Lead in the Relationship? Be honest with any man you are talking too by letting him know you are getting to know several men online and that you are not dating anyone yet. Ask him to be praying about your friendship as well.

But if and when you do decided to date someone, you will need to let them know. As you pray, and as the Lord leads then you can take the next step. As with all relationships, whether they are someone you go to church with, someone who lives in another state, 25 or 85, you have to trust the Lord through each step.

If they are a mature Christian, they are going to be involved in their church. Communicate your desire for a mate, and allow the Lord to direct you both.