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Getting started

Foreplay is, without a doubt, an important part of creating a satisfying experience for both partners. But sometimes in the excitement to get to the main event, it’s easy for foreplay to become an afterthought. It’s great to have a few go-to moves, but sticking to the same routine doesn’t exactly make for the most thrilling sex every time. Give your warmup session the attention it deserves by trying out these tips.

Focus on kissing. A kiss can be all it takes to rev up the passion during foreplay, but this simple gesture is often overlooked during playtime.

Take your time! Often, couples rush through foreplay only to wish they had lingered on this part of the action.

How to keep it going

Rather than just jumping into your usual moves, start off with a pre-coital massage. Explore (unexpected) erogenous zones, such as your girlfriend’s upper thighs, lower back, neck, and feet. Use a few drops of massage oil, warming it between your palms first for an even better experience. While massaging, alternate between light pressure and heavier kneading to create the greatest amount of pleasure.

Another way to add some oomph to your foreplay repertoire is with a small sex toy, such as a finger vibrator. Small, discreet, and completely unobtrusive, these tiny vibes pack as much punch as their larger counterparts. Using the finger vibe, you can focus on your girlfriend’s pleasure zones, then give your attention to another area of her body, such as her breasts or inner thighs. Building the tension and then backing off a bit creates more powerful sensations, ensuring the ultimate finish.

Begin before even thinking about the bedroom: some touching in the car, a kiss on the neck in the kitchen.

Dr. Kat Van Kirk Adam & Eve's resident sexologist

What’s next

Like with all other areas of your relationship with your girlfriend, communication plays an integral role in foreplay. If you’re interested in trying something new but aren’t sure if she’s down, just ask. Starting a conversation about your likes, dislikes, fantasies, and desires is a great way to discover what works you two as a couple. As you explore different foreplay activities, keep the following in mind:

Give new things a try from time to time. The same routine can feel less than exciting after a while.

Set parameters. Figure out what you and your girlfriend are comfortable with before you start your warmup session. This allows you to explore fantasies without wondering what’s off limits.

Have fun! If a certain something isn’t your cup of tea, cross it off the list and move on.

Getting started

Foreplay is, without a doubt, an important part of creating a satisfying experience for both partners. But sometimes in the excitement to get to the main event, it’s easy for foreplay to become an afterthought. It’s great to have a few go-to moves, but sticking to the same routine doesn’t exactly make for the most thrilling sex every time. Give your warmup session the attention it deserves by trying out these tips.

Focus on kissing. A kiss can be all it takes to rev up the passion during foreplay, but this simple gesture is often overlooked during playtime.

Take your time! Often, couples rush through foreplay only to wish they had lingered on this part of the action.

Ready to take it to the next level? Read on for more ways to intensify your foreplay for an even hotter session for both you and your wife.

How to keep it going

Rather than just jumping right into your usual moves, try starting with a sexy dice game. With each roll of the dice, you and your wife will be given steamy directions telling you what to do and where to do it with combinations like “nibble ears in bedroom” or “caress nipples in shower.” The endless options add a fun twist to your intimacy, encouraging you and your wife to experiment with new scenarios you may have never considered before.

Another way to add some oomph to your foreplay repertoire is with a wand massager, such as the Adam & Eve Magic Massager. Using the massager, you can focus on your wife’s erogenous zones while giving attention to another, less sensitive area of her body. With the low and high speed settings, you can control how gentle or intense the sensations are, allowing you to better tease and please your wife.

Begin before even thinking about the bedroom: some touching in the car, a kiss on the neck in the kitchen.

Dr. Kat Van Kirk Adam & Eve's resident sexologist

What’s next

Like with all other areas of your relationship with your wife, communication plays an integral role in foreplay. So, if you’re interested in trying something new but aren’t sure if she’d be down, just talk about it. Starting a conversation about your likes, dislikes, fantasies, and desires is a great way to discover what is a no-go or a must-do for you two as a couple. As you continue to explore different foreplay activities, keep the following in mind:

Give new things a try from time to time. The same routine can feel less than exciting after a while.

Set parameters. Figure out what you and your wife are comfortable with before you start your warmup session. This allows you to explore fantasies without wondering what’s off limits.

Have fun! If a certain something isn’t your cup of tea, cross it off the list and move on.

Getting started

Foreplay is absolutely an important part of creating a satisfying experience for both partners. But sometimes, in the excitement to get to the main event, it’s easy for foreplay to become an afterthought. While it’s great to have a few go-to moves that are sure ways to get you and your boyfriend in the mood, sticking to the same routine doesn’t necessarily make for the most thrilling sex every time. Give your foreplay session the attention it deserves by trying out these tips for an instant boost to your bedroom repertoire.

Focus on kissing. Sometimes, a kiss is all it takes to rev up the passion during foreplay, but this simple gesture can be overlooked during playtime.

Take your time! Couples often rush through foreplay only to wish they had lingered longer on this part of the action, so slow it down.

How to keep it going

Rather than simply jumping right into your usual moves, try starting off foreplay with a sensual massage using arousing finger sleeves. They’re covered with ribs and nubs for maximum stimulation. Begin by slowing trailing your fingertips over your boyfriend’s erogenous zones, paying close attention to his most sensitive areas. As his pleasure builds, focus on his most intimate spots, and finish with a happy ending that both you and your boyfriend will enjoy.

You can also enhance your oral action with a tasty lube, such as Adam & Eve Flavored Lubricants. They come in a wide range of flavors, like strawberry, watermelon, and cherry, so you can choose the one that satisfies your sweet tooth. Use a few drops for below-the-belt action on your boyfriend, then hand over the bottle and have him go down on you. While oral is often a go-to during foreplay, supplementing with flavored lube will create an adventurous, slightly naughty vibe.

Begin before even thinking about the bedroom: some touching in the car, a kiss on the neck in the kitchen.

Dr. Kat Van Kirk Adam & Eve's resident sexologist

What’s next

Like any area of your relationship, communication plays an integral role in foreplay. So, if you’re interested in trying something new but aren’t sure if he’s into it, simply ask. Starting a conversation about your likes, dislikes, fantasies, and desires is a great way to discover what is a no-go or a must-do for you two as a couple. As you continue to explore different foreplay activities, keep the following in mind:

Give new things a try from time to time. The same routine can feel less than exciting after a while.

Set parameters. Figure out what you and your boyfriend are comfortable with before you start. This will allow you to explore fantasies without wondering what’s off limits.

Have fun! If a certain something isn’t your cup of tea, cross it off the list and move on to the next to-do.

Getting started

Foreplay is an important part of creating a satisfying experience for both partners. But sometimes, in the excitement to get to the main event, it’s easy for foreplay to become an afterthought. While it’s great to have a few go-to moves, sticking to the same routine doesn’t really make for the most thrilling sex every time. Give your warmup session the attention it deserves and try out these tips for an instant boost to your bedroom repertoire.

Focus on kissing. Sometimes, a kiss is all it takes to rev up the passion during foreplay, but this simple gesture is frequently overlooked during playtime.

Take your time! Couples tend to rush through foreplay only to wish they had lingered longer on this part of the action.

How to keep it going

Don’t just jump right into your usual moves. Start foreplay with some oral action. Even if it’s a regular part of your foreplay routine, the addition of a throat desensitizing spray is sure to take it to the next level. The numbing spray helps relax your throat, allowing for deeper and unforgettable fellatio.

Another way to add some oomph to your foreplay repertoire is by introducing a sex toy, such as a prostate massager. With stimulating curves and a ribbed texture, a massager is a great way to supplement your foreplay with P-Spot play. Start with your favorite lubricant and then proceed to tease and please your husband.

Begin before even thinking about the bedroom: some touching in the car, a kiss on the neck in the kitchen.

Dr. Kat Van Kirk Adam & Eve's resident sexologist

What’s next

Like any area of your relationship with your husband, communication plays an integral role in foreplay. So, if you’re interested in trying something new but aren’t sure if he’s into it, simply ask. Starting a conversation about your likes, dislikes, fantasies, and desires is a great way to discover what works for you both. As you continue to explore different foreplay activities, keep the following in mind:

Give new things a try from time to time. The same routine can feel less than exciting after a while.

Set parameters. Figure out what you and your husband are comfortable with before you start. This will allow you to explore fantasies without wondering what’s off limits.

Have fun! If a certain something isn’t your cup of tea, cross it off the list and move on to the next to-do.

Getting started

If asked, chances are most people would say that their love life could use a boost in some way, whether it’s better sex, longer lasting sex, or some combination of the two. Regardless of how long you and your girlfriend have been together, it’s natural for sex to have its highs and lows. To infuse your intimacy with first-time passion, start with these simple moves:

Make foreplay an ongoing, all-day event. Start the morning with an intimate hug and kiss before you part ways. Then, exchange flirty, steamy, and full-on risqué texts throughout the day. By the time you both arrive home, you’ll be ready for some serious alone time.

Focus on her pleasure first. It’s easy to get caught up in the moment and lose sight of the dual pleasure that sex is all about. But if you’re as concerned about your girlfriend reaching climax as you are about your own, you’ll likely find an excuse for a quickie more often.

How to keep it going

Even if you two have a favorite position that always gets you there, let her be on top for a change. The angle is extra-stimulating for her and actually helps you last longer since she’s the one calling the shots. For a thrilling twist, incorporate a vibrating ring into this position. The powerful sensations from the vibe will send her over the edge (and you’ll probably like the feeling, too).

For an even bigger boost, go the extra mile with the help of a desensitizing gel or spray. These agents work by slightly numbing your shaft, allowing for enhanced erections and extra stamina. The longer you last, the greater the chance she’ll climax from internal, or G-Spot, stimulation. It’s the holy grail of female orgasms.

Listen to the research: spontaniety is incredibly important for couples, especially in the bedroom.

Dr. Kat Van Kirk Adam & Eve's resident sexologist

What’s next

There are a ton of factors that contribute to satisfying sex, and they vary from one couple to the next. For the best, most pleasurable experience for you and your girlfriend, tailor your lovemaking session to your personal preferences. Keep the following in mind as you and your girlfriend experiment with other sex-boosting activities:

Carve out time for sex. As unsexy as it may sound, putting intimacy on the to-do list can be necessary in our fast-paced world. This step is especially important if you and your girlfriend have hectic schedules that never seem to include playtime.

Explore alternative places for getting down to business. You don’t have to go to extremes to make sex feel fresh and exciting. Do you usually head for the bedroom? Opt for taking the action to the kitchen instead (as long as no one else is home, of course).

Getting started

If asked, it’s likely most people would say that their love life could use a boost in some way, whether it’s better sex, longer lasting sex, or some combination of the two. Regardless of how long you and your wife have been together, it’s natural for sex to have its highs and lows. To infuse your intimacy with first-time passion, start with these simple moves:

Make foreplay an ongoing, all-day event. Start the morning with an intimate hug and kiss before you two part ways. Then, exchange flirty, steamy, and full-on risqué texts with each other throughout the day. By the time you both arrive home, you’ll be ready for some serious alone time.

Focus on her pleasure first. It’s easy to get caught up in the moment and lose sight of the dual pleasure that sex is all about. But if you’re as concerned about your wife reaching climax as you are about your own O, chances are you both will be finding an excuse for a quickie more often.

How to keep it going

For simultaneous pleasure for you and your wife, introduce a girth booster that provides her with extra stimulation during penetration and features erection-enhancing properties for you, too. An embedded vibe and textured nubs tease your wife, creating an optimal experience during sex. The ring design helps you last longer and stay harder, extending your lovemaking session.

While go-to positions are great, it’s nice to try out a new move, too. Using a sex block like the Liberator Wedge allows you and your wife to explore more options in the bedroom without discomfort. Experiment with different angles to see what feels best and live out the fantasy positions you and your wife have in mind.

Listen to the research: spontaniety is incredibly important for couples, especially in the bedroom.

Dr. Kat Van Kirk Adam & Eve's resident sexologist

What’s next

There are a ton of factors that contribute to satisfying sex, and they vary from couple to couple. For the best and most pleasurable experience, tailor your lovemaking session to your personal preferences. Keep the following in mind as you and your wife continue to experiment with other sex-boosting activities:

Carve out time for sex. As unsexy as it may sound, putting intimacy on the to-do list is sometimes necessary in our fast-paced world. This step is especially important if you and your wife have hectic schedules.

Explore alternative places for getting down to business. You don’t have to go to extremes to make sex feel fresh and exciting. Try switching up your go-to place every now and then. Usually head for the bedroom? Opt for taking the action to the kitchen instead (just make sure no one else is home first!).

Getting started

Most people would probably admit that their love life could use a boost in some way, whether it’s better sex, longer lasting sex, or some combination of the two. Regardless of how long you and your boyfriend have been together, it’s natural for sex to have its high and low points. To infuse your intimacy with some first-time passion, start with these simple moves:

Make foreplay an ongoing, all-day event. Start the morning with an intimate hug and kiss before parting ways. Then, exchange flirty, steamy, and full-on risqué texts with each other throughout the day. By the time you see each other again, you’ll be ready for some serious alone time.

Make out like teenagers. Kissing isn’t usually a top priority during sex, but it should be. This underrated action, when done right, can be just as arousing as sex itself. So go ahead and pull your boyfriend close to indulge in a high school-inspired make out session.

How to keep it going

For a slight deviation from the usual tryst, try using ribbed condoms in the place of your normal style. Not only will the texture drive your boyfriend wild, many ribbed condoms are designed to be ultra-thin and allow for maximum pleasure.

If you’re looking to stay harder and last longer during sex, consider investing in a penis ring. These small toys fit snugly around the base of your shaft, boosting your erection in both size and stamina. Some styles even include a vibrating option that add a subtle buzz to sex that will stimulate both you and your boyfriend.

Listen to the research: spontaniety is incredibly important for couples, especially in the bedroom.

Dr. Kat Van Kirk Adam & Eve's resident sexologist

What’s next

There are a ton of factors that contribute to satisfying sex, and they vary from couple to couple. For the best, most pleasurable experience, tailor your lovemaking session to your personal preferences. Keep the following in mind as you and your boyfriend continue to experiment with other sex-boosting activities:

Carve out time for sex. As unsexy as it may sound, putting intimacy on the to-do list can be necessary, especially if you two have hectic schedules.

Explore alternative places for getting down to business. You don’t have to go to extremes to make sex feel fresh and exciting. Try switching up your go-to place every now and then. Usually head for the bedroom? Opt for taking the action to the kitchen or the laundry room (as long as no one else is home).

Getting started

If asked, chances are most people would say that their love life could use some improvement. Regardless of how long you and your husband have been together, it’s natural for sex to hit high and low points. To infuse your intimacy with first-time passion, start with these simple moves:

Make foreplay an ongoing, all-day event. Start the morning with an intimate hug and kiss before you both part ways. Then, exchange flirty, steamy, and full-on risqué texts with each other throughout the day. By the time you both arrive home, you’ll be ready for some serious alone time.

Make out like teenagers. Kissing isn’t usually a top priority during sex, but it should be. This underrated action can be just as arousing as sex itself. So go ahead, pull your husband close and indulge in a high school-inspired make out session.

How to keep it going

For even more incredible sensations during sex with your husband, try a penis sleeve. These toys slip on just like a condom but add variety and thrilling texture. Covered with arousing stimulators such as pleasure nubs, ribbing, and small studs, tickler sleeves also work much like a penis ring would and help you last longer.

Another way to take sex to the next level is by introducing a fun toy, such as a prostate massager. With stimulating curves that hit just the right spots, a massager is a great way to experiment with p-spot play. Some options even offer vibrating modes to increase the intensity of penetration. Start with your favorite lubricant and then proceed to tease and please your husband with satisfying P-Spot sensations.

Listen to the research: spontaniety is incredibly important for couples, especially in the bedroom.

Dr. Kat Van Kirk Adam & Eve's resident sexologist

What’s next

There are a ton of factors that contribute to satisfying sex, and they vary from couple to couple. For the best and most pleasurable experience for you and your husband, tailor your lovemaking session to your personal preferences. Keep the following in mind as you and your husband continue experimenting with other sex-boosting activities:

Carve out time for sex. As unsexy as it may sound, putting intimacy on the to-do list is sometimes necessary in our fast-paced world. This step is especially important if you and your husband have hectic schedules that seem to never include playtime.

Explore alternative places for getting down to business. You don’t have to go to extremes to make sex feel fresh and exciting. Try switching up your go-to place every now and then. Usually head for the bedroom? Opt for taking the action to the kitchen instead.

Getting started

All orgasms are not created equal. They can differ in power, intensity, and even duration. They can be exhilarating and exhausting, and they can leave you weak in the knees.

But if the big “O” has felt a lot more like the little “eh” lately, it might be time to raise the bar in the bedroom. If you’re looking to have better orgasms with your girlfriend, you need to start by improving your foreplay game:

Start with anything that works for you. It can be a relaxing bath, sensual massage, deep kissing, or heavy petting. Undress one another slowly and take your time focusing on her erogenous zones like her neck and chest. Remember, it’s a marathon, not a race. Delayed gratification is your friend.

How to keep it going

The next time you two start getting hot and heavy, switch things up with a new position. Try having your girlfriend lay on her stomach, with her legs closed. When you enter her from behind, the position makes her vagina feel tighter on your shaft, and the angle allows you to effectively target her G-Spot.

New positions aren’t you only option. It might make you wince, but adding a new plaything can take the experience to another level. Small bullet vibrators like the Power Bullet Mini are discreet and much less intimidating than a full-sized toy. Use it to gently massage your girlfriend’s clitoris and hood to give her a mind-blowing orgasm. For a better sensation for you, use it while you penetrate her. The contractions from her own orgasm will make her feel tighter. The added vibrations along with the inevitable turn on from seeing her in complete ecstasy is sure to send you over the edge.

Enthusiasm also goes a long way in the bedroom, so a lack of confidence tends to put a damper on things. If you want her to come out of her shell, help her feel like a sex goddess with a new piece of lingerie. A piece like the Inner Goddess Babydoll can completely change her demeanor. The light material can hide problem areas while highlighting her curves, and the classic lace fabric can make her feel sensual and elegant.

Remove the orgasm expectation, destress the situation & focus on the sensation. The climax will come.

Dr. Kat Van Kirk Adam & Eve's resident sexologist

What’s next

Talking about what you want in bed can be uncomfortable, but if you set aside your modesty for a bit, it can have some big benefits:

Share your fantasies. Living out your sexual fantasies can be amazingly satisfying mentally and physically.

Find out what she likes. Satisfying your girlfriend’s desires can make sex more enjoyable for both of you. She’ll be more enthusiastic and a lot more willing to return the favor.

Your best orgasm is right around the corner. You just need a little confidence and an open mind to make it happen.

Getting started

All orgasms are not created equal. They can differ in power, intensity, and even duration. They can be exhilarating and exhausting, and they can leave you weak in the knees.

But if the big “O” has felt a lot more like the little “eh” lately, it might be time to raise the bar a bit in the bedroom. If you’re looking to have better orgasms with your wife, you need to start by improving your foreplay game:

Foreplay can be many things. It includes everything from a relaxing bath and sensual massage, to deep kissing and heavy petting. Undress one another slowly and take your time focusing on her erogenous zones like her neck and chest. It’s a marathon, not a race. Delayed gratification is your friend.

How to keep it going

The next time things get hot and heavy, switch things up with a new position. Try having your wife lay on her stomach, with her legs closed. When you enter her from behind, the position makes her vagina feel tighter on your shaft, and the angle allows you to effectively target her G-Spot.

Of course, new positions aren’t you only option. It might make you wince, but adding a new plaything can take the experience to another level. The right toy can help you and your wife have some of the most intense orgasms of your life. Small bullet vibrators like A&E’s Vibrating Silver Bullet are discreet, and much less intimidating than a full-sized toy. Use it to gently massage your wife’s clitoris and hood to give her a mind-blowing orgasm. For a better sensation for you, use it while you penetrate her.

It’s worth noting that enthusiasm goes a long way in the bedroom. If you want her to come out of her shell a little more than usual, help her feel like a sex goddess with a new piece of lingerie. A piece like the Flirty Sex Kitten Babydoll can completely change her demeanor. The light material can hide problem areas as it also flaunts curves, while the classic lace fabric can make her feel sensual and elegant. You get the added benefit of her newfound sexual confidence along with a pretty nice view.

Remove the orgasm expectation, destress the situation & focus on the sensation. The climax will come.

Dr. Kat Van Kirk Adam & Eve's resident sexologist

What’s next

Talking about what you want in bed can be uncomfortable, but if you set aside your modesty for a bit, it can have some big benefits:

Share your fantasies. Living out your sexual fantasies can be amazingly satisfying mentally and physically.

Find out what she like s. Satisfying your wife’s desires can make sex more enjoyable for you both. She’ll be more enthusiastic and a lot more willing to return the favor.

Getting started

They call it the big “O” for a reason. They’re supposed to be big, powerful, and make you weak in the knees. But if your orgasms have been, shall we say, underwhelming lately, it might be time for a little tweak in your tactics.

If you want to improve your orgasms, and your boyfriend’s orgasms, there are a few things you should do before diving right in, so to speak:

Consider getting an enema beforehand. This is especially worthwhile if you’re planning on receiving or being a bottom. It might seem embarrassing, but enemas make anal sex much more hygienic, and a clean cavity leaves you more sensitive to the pleasurable sensations of the night. Plus your partner will certainly appreciate your conscientiousness. Try A&E’s EZ Anal Douche for a quick and comfortable cleaning experience.

Foreplay is crucial for mind-blowing orgasms. Sexual arousal and anticipation increase blow flow to your genitals. The increased blood flow can make the area more sensitive, thereby leading to a more explosive finish.

How to keep it going

If you really want to take your boyfriend’s orgasms to the next level, you’re going to want to stimulate different erogenous zones simultaneously—focusing primarily on the shaft and the prostate. Pleasuring both takes much more than penetration and a reach-around. It takes teasing and foreplay to build anticipation in addition to positions and moves you probably think aren’t possible without three arms. Thankfully, they are possible.

For starters, your mouth and each one of your hands should be in three different places at one time. If you’re pleasuring your boyfriend, try going down on him for a while, and then slowly slipping a finger into his rectum. Curving your finger towards his pelvis, you can slowly massage the prostate at the same time to really send him over the edge. Use your other hand as an extension of your mouth during oral sex, or use it to massage one of his other erogenous zones like his nipples or scrotum.

A toy can certainly serve as a sort of third appendage to help pleasure the shaft and prostate simultaneously. The idea of bringing a toy into the mix might make you both blush, but if you’re eager to improve your orgasms, it could be just what you need. Start with a modest toy, like A&E’s L’Arque Prostate Massager. Its slim, curved lines are specifically designed to massage the prostate, giving the user complete ergonomic control over the speed and pressure. Make sure you apply a liberal amount of lube to the toy before insertion, and spend some time experimenting with what feels best.

Remove the orgasm expectation, destress the situation & focus on the sensation. The climax will come.

Dr. Kat Van Kirk Adam & Eve's resident sexologist

What’s next

An open discussion with your boyfriend about your likes and dislikes in the bedroom can make the experience worlds better for you both:

Ask and you shall receive. Sometimes it can be that easy. Do you have better orgasms with oral than penetration? Ask your boyfriend to go down on you longer. Do you ache when he moves a certain way? Tell him. And of course, don’t forget to return the favor.

Share your sexual fantasies. The exhilaration you experience from living out your most desired fantasies can give you some of the most amazing orgasms you’ll ever experience.

Getting started

They call it the big “O” for a reason. They’re supposed to be big, powerful, and make you weak in the knees. But if your orgasms have been, shall we say, underwhelming lately, it might be time for a little tweak in your tactics.

If you want to improve your orgasms, and your husband’s orgasms, there are a few things you should do before diving right in, so to speak:

Consider getting an enema beforehand. This is especially true if you’re planning on receiving or being a bottom. It might seem embarrassing, but enemas make anal sex much more hygienic and your partner will certainly appreciate your conscientiousness. Try the My Shiney Hiney Complete Set for a quick and comfortable cleaning experience.

Foreplay is crucial for mind-blowing orgasms. Sexual arousal and anticipation increase blow flow to your genitals. The increased blood flow can make them more sensitive, thereby leading to an even more explosive climax.

How to keep it going

If you really want to take your orgasms and your husband’s orgasms to the next level, you’re going to want to stimulate different erogenous zones simultaneously—focusing primarily on the shaft and the prostate. Pleasuring both takes much more than penetration and a reach-around. It takes teasing and foreplay to build anticipation along with positions and moves that you probably don’t think are possible without a third arm. But thankfully, they are.

For starters, your mouth and each one of your hands should be in three different places at one time. If you’re pleasuring your husband, try going down on him for a while, and then slowly slipping a finger into his rectum. Curving your finger towards his pelvis, you can slowly massage the prostate at the same time to really send him over the edge. Use your other hand as an extension of your mouth during oral sex, or use it to massage one of his other erogenous zones like his nipples or scrotum.

A toy can certainly serve as a sort of third appendage to help pleasure the shaft and prostate simultaneously. The idea of bringing a toy into the mix might make you both blush, but it could be just what you need. Start with a modest toy, like the Male P-Spot Massager. Its slim, curved lines are specifically designed to massage the prostate, giving the user complete ergonomic control over the speed and pressure. The arms at the base make it easy to remove, but they can also tease the area around the anus. Make sure you apply a liberal amount of lube to the toy before insertion, and spend some time experimenting with what feels best.

Remove the orgasm expectation, destress the situation & focus on the sensation. The climax will come.

Dr. Kat Van Kirk Adam & Eve's resident sexologist

What’s next

An open discussion with your husband about your likes and dislikes in the bedroom can make the experience better for you both:

Ask and you shall receive. Sometimes it can be that easy. Do you have better orgasms with oral than penetration? Ask your husband to go down on you more. Do you ache when he moves a certain way? Tell him. And of course, don’t forget to return the favor.

Share your sexual fantasies. The exhilaration you experience from living out your most desired fantasies can give you some of the most amazing orgasms you’ll ever experience.

Getting started

Foreplay is the unsung hero of satisfying sex. It revs you up and boosts your arousal. It also sends blood flow to your genitals, increasing your sensitivity and giving you a greater chance for a truly mind-blowing orgasm.

That being said, foreplay is one sexual step a lot of couples skip over. If you’re interested in revitalizing foreplay with your girlfriend, there are a couple easy and fun ways to go about it.

Get yourself ready. Some women tend to rush through foreplay because they’re self-conscious about their bodies. They cringe at the very idea of someone slowly paying attention to every part of them. But confidence is key. So shave, wax, pluck, and primp—whatever you need to do to feel sexy before the night begins.

Set the mood. Sex is emotional, mental, and physical, so do everything you can to make sure you’re both completely relaxed. Clean up any lingering messes, take care of the nightly chores, and make the environment inviting—think fresh sheets on the bed, candles with aphrodisiac scents (lavender, cinnamon, or vanilla), and soothing music.

How to keep it going

Foreplay is all about creating a slow buildup of sexual anticipation. To start things off, offer your girlfriend a sensual massage to establish touch. You can even make it fun for you both with the All In One Couple’s Massage Kit. In addition to different techniques and massage instructions, it includes romantic tea lights, peppermint-scented lube that warms at the touch, and a sensual play massager to relax your muscles and melt away the day’s stresses.

Next, move onto to kissing. Kiss like you did when you first started dating, slowly and deeply. Then switch it up every now and then by trailing her neck and chest with soft gentle kisses. Make sure both your hands are always busy, so run your fingers through her hair or cup the back of her neck in your hand to pull her closer. Use your other hand to explore her body—run your fingers up and down her back, lightly grip her thighs, and follow each and every line of her curves. Massage her breasts and give her nipples the attention they crave. Listen for any gasps or moans from her to know if you’re on the right track.

Of course, foreplay doesn’t have to be serious to be sexy. There are plenty of fun, even silly, ways that you can turn one another on. Why not let out your inner artist with a set of Erotic Edible Body Paints? The smooth stroke of the paintbrush across her bare skin will drive her crazy, and you can use the paint to circle every inch of her body that you want to pleasure later on. They’re great for couples who need a little extra help relaxing before the night gets too heated.

Start before even thinking about the bedroom: some touching in the car, a kiss on the neck in the kitchen.

Dr. Kat Van Kirk Adam & Eve's resident sexologist

What’s next

It’s no secret where good foreplay leads. If you’ve taken your time to get each another really hot and bothered, you’re probably in for some of the best sex of your life. But if you need help slowing things down at any time, you have a few options:

Lingerie. A new piece of lingerie can stop your wife in her tracks. Instead of ripping off your clothes, she’ll want you to keep at least a few pieces on.

Communication. If you want better, longer, and more intimate foreplay, tell your girlfriend. An open and honest discussion might make be a little awkward, but she’s not a mind reader.

Getting started

Foreplay is the unsung hero of satisfying sex. It revs you up and boosts your arousal. It sends blood flow to your genitals, increasing your sensitivity and giving you a greater chance for a truly mind-blowing orgasm.

However, foreplay is one sexual step that a lot of couples skip over. If you’re interested in revitalizing the foreplay with your wife, there are a couple easy and fun ways to go about it.

Get yourself ready. Some women tend to rush through foreplay because they’re self-conscious about their bodies. They cringe at the very idea of someone slowly paying attention to every part of them. But confidence is key. So shave, wax, pluck, and primp—whatever you need to do to feel sexy before the night begins.

Set the mood. Sex is emotional, mental, and physical, so do everything you can to make sure you’re both completely relaxed. Clean up any lingering messes, take care of the nightly chores, and make the environment inviting—think fresh sheets on the bed, candles with aphrodisiac scents (lavender, cinnamon, or vanilla), and soothing music.

How to keep it going

Foreplay is all about creating a slow buildup of sexual anticipation. When you’re ready to get more physical, offer your wife a sensual massage to establish touch. You can even make it fun for you both with the Massage Seductions Game. In addition to cards with different techniques and massage instructions, the game includes a candle that melts into massage lotion.

Next, start kissing like you did when you first started dating. Kiss her slowly and deeply, then switch it up every now and then by trailing her neck and chest with soft gentle kisses. Make sure both your hands are always busy. Run your fingers through her hair or cup the back of her neck in your hand to pull her closer. Use your other hand to explore her body—run your fingers up and down her back, lightly grip her thighs, and follow each and every line of her curves. Massage her breasts and give her nipples the attention they crave. Listen for any gasps or moans from her to know if you’re on the right track.

Foreplay doesn’t have to be serious to be sexy. There are plenty of fun, even silly, ways that you can turn one another on. Why not let out your inner artist with a set Erotic Edibles Play Pens? The smooth stroke of the markers across her bare skin will drive her crazy, and you can use the paint to circle every inch of her body that you want to pleasure later on. They’re great for couples that need a little extra help relaxing before the night gets too heated.

Start before even thinking about the bedroom: some touching in the car, a kiss on the neck in the kitchen.

Dr. Kat Van Kirk Adam & Eve's resident sexologist

What’s next

It’s no secret where good foreplay leads. If you’ve taken your time to get one another really hot and bothered, you’re probably in for some of the best sex of your life. But if you need additional help slowing things down, you have a few options:

Lingerie. A new piece of lingerie can stop your wife in her tracks. Instead of ripping off your clothes, she’ll want you to keep some of them on.

Communication. If you want better, longer, and more intimate foreplay, tell your wife. An open and honest discussion might be a little awkward, but she’s not a mind reader.

Getting started

When it comes to sex, most women can’t go from zero to sixty in a few seconds. They need to reach a certain level of sexual arousal first. Heightened arousal is necessary for women to be able to reach orgasm, and it also helps them produce enough natural lubricant to make penetration comfortable.

Over time, it’s normal for foreplay to take a backseat in relationships. But with a few tweaks to your routine, you can bring it back to its rightful place in the forefront of your sex life.

Set the scene by making your surroundings work for you. Clean the house and minimize clutter to keep visual distractions at bay. Light candles to create a sensual environment, and put on music to establish the mood.

Get yourself ready. Foreplay is all about exploring one another’s bodies, so confidence is key. Shave, pluck, and primp whatever it takes to boost your esteem a head of time.

How to keep it going

When you’re ready to move things along, find a way to establish touch. You could offer to give him a massage, or just touch him more than you usually do throughout the night. Rub his arm, caress his back, or playfully slip a finger into the belt loop of his pants to pull him close.

If you want to get a little more physical, start kissing—and not just a few quick kisses either. You should kiss like you did when you first started dating. Pull him into you, share slow and deep kisses, and then trail his neck and chest with soft, gentle kisses. Use your hands to explore his arms, chest, and thighs. Lightly run you nails down his back and shoulders. From there you can start to undress one another.

Foreplay doesn’t have to be serious either. There are plenty of fun ways that you can get your foreplay fill. For example, you could spend your foreplay letting out your inner artist. With a set of Neon Body Play Paints, you can circle all the areas on your boyfriend’s body you want to focus on later, or just let your creativity fly and use one another as a canvas.

Start before even thinking about the bedroom: some touching in the car, a kiss on the neck in the kitchen.

Dr. Kat Van Kirk Adam & Eve's resident sexologist

What’s next

Foreplay could be just the ticket you need to reestablish intimacy and better your sex life with your boyfriend. But that’s not to say you won’t be met with any hiccups along the way. If you find he’s less than enthused with the idea of delayed gratification, there are ways to sway him:

Try new lingerie. If you’re self-conscious about certain parts of your body (and who isn’t?) a new piece of lingerie like the Fuchsia Fantasy Babydoll can give you the confidence boost you’re looking for. It softens problem areas and accents curves, and chances are he’ll want to see you in it, slowing things down a bit.

Have a conversation. An open and honest conversation with your boyfriend about what you want in your sex life is a completely rational and healthy way to express your desires.

Getting started

When it comes to sex, most women can’t go from zero to sixty in a few seconds. They need to reach a certain level of sexual arousal first. Heightened arousal is necessary for women to be able to reach orgasm, and it also helps them produce enough natural lubricant to make penetration comfortable.

Over time, it’s normal for foreplay to take a backseat in relationships. But with a few tweaks to your routine, you can bring it back to its rightful place in the forefront of your sex life.

Set the scene by making your surroundings work for you. Clean the house and minimize clutter to keep visual distractions at bay. Light candles to create a sensual environment, and put on music to establish the mood.

Get yourself ready. Foreplay is all about exploring one another’s bodies, so confidence is key. Shave, pluck, and primp whatever it takes to boost your esteem a head of time.

How to keep it going

When you’re ready to move things along, establish touch. Offer to give him a massage, or just touch him more than you usually do throughout the night. Rub his arm, caress his back, or playfully slip a finger into the belt loop of his pants to pull him close. Establishing touch early will help slowly build anticipation for the night ahead.

When you’re ready to get a little more physical, start kissing. Not just a few quick kisses either, because you should kiss like you did when you first started dating. Pull him into you, share slow and deep kisses, and then trail his neck and chest with soft, gentle kisses. Use your hands to explore his arms, chest, and thighs. Lightly run you nails down his back and shoulders. From there you can start to undress each another and find your way inside the waistband of his boxer shorts.

Foreplay doesn’t have to be serious, either, as there are many fun ways that you can get your foreplay fill. For example, you could introduce a couple’s game. If your husband is a cardshark or a gamer, try Poker for Lovers to loosen him up. It plays like regular poker, but you wager with sexual favors rather than money. Save your winnings, or spend them all at once when the game wraps.

Start before even thinking about the bedroom: some touching in the car, a kiss on the neck in the kitchen.

Dr. Kat Van Kirk Adam & Eve's resident sexologist

What’s next

Foreplay could be just what you need to reestablish intimacy and better your sex life with your husband. But that’s not to say you won’t be met with any hiccups along the way. If you find he’s less than enthused with the idea of delayed gratification, there are ways to sway him:

Try a new piece of lingerie. If you’re self-conscious about certain parts of your body (and who isn’t?) a new piece of lingerie like the Sensual Wildflower Babydoll can give you the confidence boost you’re looking for. The loose silhouette softens problem areas and accents curves. Plus, if you wear something that sexy, he’ll want you to keep your clothes on for much longer than usual.

Getting started

Searching for ways to have better sex with your girlfriend is such a sweet gesture, although we all know how difficult it can be sometimes to strike the perfect balance of fun and playful without going too far. Fortunately, we have some ideas on how to improve sex with your girlfriend that will be well within your comfort zones.

Add some variety. These Oral Sex Dice will offer a fun new way to add variety to your bedroom routine. Not only will you have to do what the dice say, but not knowing what you’ll roll next, or the sort of naughty things you’ll have to succumb to, is one of the best parts.

Give her a boost. Next time you’re fingering your girlfriend and looking to enhance her G-Spot stimulation, try slipping on one or two of the Posh Silicone Finger Sleeves for an extra boost of pleasure.

How to keep it going

Luckily you have variety on your side, as you are not restricted to the use of anything that resembles the male anatomy, ever. In other words, using an appendage of any sort—a dildo, strap-on, G-Spot massager, etc.—is totally up to your personal preference and your shared comfort level.

Pay attention to your girlfriend’s body language and keep the lines of communication open during sex. Even if you decide to simply share updates in a lusty sounding voice, you’ll at least know if she’s enjoying it. Definitely work on building up her arousal level slowly, bringing it to a heightened state, so that (fingers crossed) the next step will be an amazing orgasm.

Listen to the research: spontaniety is incredibly important for couples, especially in the bedroom.

Dr. Kat Van Kirk Adam & Eve's resident sexologist

What’s next

Don’t be afraid to change things up. If sex is starting to feel monotonous, then that’s a sign that it could use a little injection of variety and fun.

Show some love, verbally. Don’t forget to let your girlfriend know how much you adore her. Not only will she feel great, but her self-confidence will resonate between the sheets, too.

As you probably already know, each woman is unique and beautiful in her own way. This is why open communication, even if it makes you squirm a little, is always the best way to improve your sex life and ultimately bring the two of you closer together. With all of these fun new ways to improve your sex life, we can only hope your next sexcapade will be everything you imagined and more.

Getting started

Searching for ways to have better sex with your wife is such a sweet gesture, though we all know how difficult it can be to strike the perfect balance of fun and playful without going too far. Fortunately, we have some ideas on how to improve sex with your lover that will be well within your comfort zones.

Add some variety of the flavored kind. The Oralove Delicious Duo Lickable Lubes can spice up your bedroom routine with flavors like strawberry and mint and peaches and cream. They will be a delicious addition to oral sex and help reduce friction during digital penetration.

Give your moves a boost. Next time you’re fingering your wife and looking to enhance her clitoral stimulation, try slipping on the mini FingO Tips Fun Fingertip Vibe for an extra touch of concentrated pleasure.

How to keep it going

Luckily you have variety on your side, as you are not restricted to the use of anything that resembles the male anatomy, ever. In other words, using an appendage of any sort—a dildo, strap-on, G-Spot massager, etc.—is totally up to your personal preference and comfort level. Also, using these toys can add great variation, resulting in even better sex with your lover.

Pay attention to your wife’s body language and keep the lines of communication open. Even if you’re just sharing updates during sex in a lusty sounding voice, you’ll at least know if she’s enjoying it. Definitely work on building up her arousal level slowly and bring it to a heightened state. That way (fingers crossed), the next step after sex will be an amazing orgasm.

Listen to the research: spontaniety is incredibly important for couples, especially in the bedroom.

Dr. Kat Van Kirk Adam & Eve's resident sexologist

What’s next

Spice things up, if needed. It’s totally OK to pass the torch to your lover every now and then, but whatever you do, don’t let it burn out. If sex is starting to feel monotonous, then that’s a sign that it could use a little injection of variety and fun.

Don’t hide your feelings. Let your wife know how much you adore her. Not only will she feel great, but her self-confidence will resonate between the sheets, too.

As you probably already know, each woman is unique and beautiful in her own way. Open communication, even if it makes you squirm a little, is always the best way to improve your sex life and ultimately bring the two of you closer together. With all of these fun new ways to improve your sex life, we can only hope your next sexcapade will be everything you imagined.

Getting started

Your guy will definitely be stoked to find out that you’re looking for ways to make sex with him even better, which is why we’ve put together some ideas to get you started. There are few things hotter in the eyes of a man than a woman who wants to please him sexually, so take a peek at our suggestions for fun ways to add a little variety in the bedroom.

Have some fun with him. Surprise your boyfriend with the Spicy Dice set for an evening of exciting new sexual combinations. The kicker is that his arousal will just keep building unless one of you is lucky enough to see the word “SEX” appear twice from a single roll of the dice. Good luck!

Give him a boost. Make your man’s wish for enhanced and prolonged intercourse come true with the RingO Erection Rings. This trio of penis rings offers three sizes for harder, longer-lasting erections.

How to keep it going

Men love it when women are the ones to initiate sex, and it’s likely that your boyfriend is no exception. For a change of pace, try asking him if he wants to get busy. Or, don’t use any words at all for an even steamier start. If your man enjoys the occasional spontaneous treat, then surprise him with your new toys for an evening that’s frisky and fun.

Prolonging sex with some men can be a bit of a challenge, but even if he ejaculates sooner than you both expected, it’s really not a big deal. That’s especially true considering you can opt for multiple rounds throughout the evening. Wait several minutes after he finishes, and then bring his erection back with a hand job. If that’s not doing the trick, a blow job certainly should.

Listen to the research: spontaniety is incredibly important for couples, especially in the bedroom.

Dr. Kat Van Kirk Adam & Eve's resident sexologist

What’s next

Connect with him verbally. Your man needs to know how much you want him, too! Remind him of just how sexy you think he is and even reminisce about your first time together. Reliving memories is a great way to bond.

Find out his fantasies. Ask your man what he likes and encourage him to share everything with you. Even if you aren’t comfortable acting them out, maybe you can help paint a mental picture for your man with the right words.

Some might say that men are easier to please in the bedroom than women, both anatomically and emotionally, but don’t let that notion be the downfall of your sex life. Continue looking for ways to keep things interesting, and don’t assume you know everything there is to know about what will please your boyfriend. Always communicate openly with each other and remember to have fun.

Getting started

Your guy will definitely be excited to find out that you’re looking for ways to make sex with him even better, which is why we’ve put together some ideas to get you started. There are few things more appealing in the eyes of a man than a woman who wants to please him sexually, so take a peek at our suggestions for fun ways to add a little variety in the bedroom.

Start with a game. Surprise your husband with the A Month of Sex couples game for 30 nights of sexual surprises. Take turns opening the doors inside and act out what you’ve been instructed to do. He’ll be excited to know that there are 30 consecutive days of arousal in store!

Give him an ego boost. Enhanced and prolonged intercourse for your man is totally within reach, especially with the help of the Senso 6 Pak of Penis Rings. This colorful and textural variety of penis rings will give you and your husband the gift of harder, longer-lasting erections.

How to keep it going

Men love it when women are the ones to initiate sex, and your husband is probably no exception. For a change of pace, try asking him if he wants to get busy. Or, you can choose to not use any words at all for an even steamier start. If your man enjoys the occasional spontaneous treat, then surprise him with your new toys for an evening that’s equally frisky and fun.

Prolonging sex with some men can be a bit of a challenge. However, even if he ejaculates sooner than you both expected, it’s really not a big deal. You can opt for multiple rounds throughout the evening by waiting several minutes after he finishes. You can then bring his erection back with a hand job, or if that’s not doing the trick, then a blow job certainly should.

Listen to the research: spontaniety is incredibly important for couples, especially in the bedroom.

Dr. Kat Van Kirk Adam & Eve's resident sexologist

What’s next

Connect with him verbally. Your man needs to know how much you want him, too! Remind him of just how sexy you think he is and even reminisce about your first time together. Reliving memories is a great way to bond.

Learn all about his fantasies. Ask your man what he likes and encourage him to everything with you. Even if you aren’t comfortable acting out his fantasies, maybe you can help paint a mental picture for your man with the right words.

Some might say that men are easier to please in the bedroom than women, both anatomically and emotionally, but don’t let that notion be the downfall of your sex life. Continue looking for ways to keep things interesting, and don’t assume you know everything there is to know about what will please your husband. Always communicate openly with each other and remember to have fun.

Getting started

Let’s be real for a second: orgasms are awesome, hands down. When your goal is to improve your girlfriend’s climactic experience, we think it’s safe to say that she’s one lucky woman. Sometimes making something that’s already amazing even better can be a bit challenging, but we’ve got some ideas that are designed to help.

Increase her sensitivity. Stroking her G-Spot is one way for her to climax, so why not make it more sensitive and easier to pinpoint with the Ooooh, That’s It! G-Spot Creme. This lube is designed to increase her orgasmic pleasure through the use of natural ingredients.

Go for a concentrated approach. Try having your girlfriend use a vibrator on her clitoris during digital penetration or between pauses during oral sex. The First Time Mini Vibrator is a petite, feminine way to enhance her orgasms through clitoral or vaginal stimulation.

How to keep it going

Intimacy and trust are two of the best ways to reach to reach new climactic heights during foreplay and sex. Fortunately, opening up to each other about what you like in the bedroom is one way to get started on building these up. Talk to your girlfriend about what she likes. When her body starts to respond positively, keep the momentum going.

You should also set the mood. A relaxing and familiar environment can sometimes be the best way to enhance her orgasms, especially if she has particular preferences. But if that’s not doing the trick, then feel free to spice it up with a little variety. Try different positions, different lighting, or even a different atmosphere for new and exciting climactic experiences.

Remove the orgasm expectation, destress the situation & focus on the sensation. The climax will come.

Dr. Kat Van Kirk Adam & Eve's resident sexologist

What’s next

Continue building trust. As you improve your bond together through intimacy, hopefully her orgasms will follow suit.

Practice makes (and can feel) perfect. If having multiple orgasms is intriguing to your partner, then look into ways of achieving that goal. If nothing else, the techniques have the potential to strengthen your relationship.

What works for one woman won’t always work for all women, so trial and error is oftentimes the best way to make your girlfriend’s orgasms better. Sexual compatibility is important, but great communication is crucial to mutual happiness in a relationship. Remember to talk frequently about what she likes and don’t be afraid to mix things up to keep it interesting. Most importantly, have fun and enjoy elevating her pleasure to the next level.

Getting started

Let’s be real for a second: orgasms are awesome, right? Of course they are. So when your goal is to improve your wife’s climactic experience, we think it’s safe to say that she’s one lucky woman. Sometimes making something that’s already amazing even better can be challenging, but we’ve got some ideas that are designed to help.

Increase her sensitivity. Stimulating her clitoris and G-Spot is the best way for most women to climax, so why not make it even more sensitive with the Wanna Be Wild Intense Orgasm Gel? This lube is designed to increase her orgasmic pleasure through the use of natural clitoral, enhancing ingredients that target the nerves in her sensitive erogenous zones.

Go for a more concentrated approach. Use a toy like the Silicone Pleasure Orb with your wife on her clitoris during digital penetration or between pauses during oral sex. This little vibrator is a great way to enhance her orgasms through concentrated clitoral stimulation, plus she can control the intensity with the multi-speed remote.

How to keep it going

Intimacy and trust are two of the best ways to reach to reach new climactic heights during foreplay and sex. Fortunately, opening up to each other about what you like in the bedroom is one way to get started on building these up. Talk to your wife about what she likes. When her body starts to respond positively, keep the momentum going.

Be sure to set the mood, because a relaxing and familiar environment can sometimes be the best way to enhance her orgasms. That’s especially true if she has specific preferences. But if that’s not doing the trick, then feel free to spice it up with a little variety. Try different positions, different lighting, or even a different atmosphere for new and exciting climactic experiences.

Remove the orgasm expectation, destress the situation & focus on the sensation. The climax will come.

Dr. Kat Van Kirk Adam & Eve's resident sexologist

What’s next

Continue building trust. As you improve your bond together through intimacy, hopefully her orgasms will follow suit.

Practice makes (and can feel) perfect. If having multiple orgasms is intriguing to your partner, then look into ways of achieving that goal. If nothing else, the techniques have the potential to strengthen your relationship.

What works for one woman won’t always work for all women, so trial and error is oftentimes the best way to make your girlfriend’s orgasms better. Sexual compatibility is important, but great communication is crucial to mutual happiness in a relationship. Remember to talk frequently to your wife about what she likes and don’t be afraid to mix things up to keep it interesting. Most importantly, have fun and enjoy elevating her pleasure to the next level.

Getting started

Improving foreplay and intercourse with your man is one thing, but making sure that his orgasms will be even better is probably going to blow his mind. The mechanical aspects of having an orgasm with ejaculation are important, but perhaps equally so is the picture you paint your boyfriend leading up to and during climax. Enhancing both the physical and visual is very important, so let’s delve into some suggestions that are tailored for him.

Give your man something to feast his eyes on. The curve-hugging fabric of the Satin Mini Chemise will show off your sexy features and would look great worn during all of your sexual escapades. The easy access will drive your man wild while making his orgasm that much more intense.

Use a special lubricant. Whether you’re stimulating him by hand or engaging in intercourse, your man will appreciate the orgasm-enhancing properties of the Oralove Dynamic Duo Intensely Stimulating Lubes. Use them together or apart for increased sensitivity.

How to keep it going

Visual stimulation coupled with some seriously great physical touch is a surefire way to improve your man’s orgasms. Debut your lingerie and have the lube nearby so that you can blow his mind with this pairing of sexy items. Then, be sure to set the mood with his favorite music, scent, or lighting.

Men almost always appreciate extra physical touch before sex, especially below the belt, so be sure to show his penis some attention by stroking, sucking, and teasing before you have intercourse. Building up his arousal slowly, while also varying the degree of activity, will intensify his pleasure when he finally explodes.

Remove the orgasm expectation, destress the situation & focus on the sensation. The climax will come.

Dr. Kat Van Kirk Adam & Eve's resident sexologist

What’s next

Make it his night. Set up an evening dedicated to pleasing your boyfriend. From his favorite meal to his favorite skimpy outfit, keep his desires in the forefront of your mind.

Be sure that he’s enjoying the extra stimulation. Just like women, men can become overly sensitive in the erogenous zones. Remember to keep the lines of communication open.

Being open doesn’t mean you have to overstep boundaries. It simply emphasizes the importance of great communication, so relax, have fun, and enjoy the process of enhancing your boyfriend’s orgasms. The more fun you have making your man’s fantasies a reality, the more pleasure he will derive from your time together. Strengthening your bond, keeping your activities fresh, and putting each other first is a great start to a long and happy sex life.

Getting started

Improving foreplay and intercourse with your man is one thing, but making sure that his orgasms are on the up and up is probably going to blow your husband’s mind. The mechanical aspects of having an orgasm with ejaculation are important, but perhaps equally so is the picture you paint your husband leading up to and during climax. Enhancing both the physical and visual is very important, so let’s delve into some suggestions that are tailored for him.

Give your man something to feast his eyes on. Your hubby will love the peep show he gets when you don the sheer, figure flattering fabric of the Sweet Lace Halter Chemise. The easy access will drive your man wild while making his orgasm that much more intense.

Increase his sensitivity. Whether you’re stimulating him by hand or engaging in intercourse, your man will appreciate the orgasm and stamina-enhancing properties of Tong Balm. This popular cream is designed to increase his sensitivity while delaying ejaculation for stronger, more powerful orgasms.

How to keep it going

Visual stimulation coupled with some seriously great physical touch is a surefire way to improve your man’s orgasms. Debut your lingerie and have the balm nearby so that you can blow his mind with this pairing of sexy, orgasm-inducing items. Also, be sure to set the mood with his favorite music, scent, or lighting to really make it perfect.

Men almost always appreciate extra physical touch before sex, especially below the belt. Show his penis some attention by stroking, sucking, and teasing before you have intercourse. Building up his arousal slowly, while also varying the degree, will intensify his pleasure when he finally explodes.

Remove the orgasm expectation, destress the situation & focus on the sensation. The climax will come.

Dr. Kat Van Kirk Adam & Eve's resident sexologist

What’s next

Make it his night. Set up an evening dedicated to pleasing your husband. From his favorite meal to his favorite skimpy outfit, keep his desires in the forefront of your mind.

Communicate. Make sure he’s enjoying the extra stimulation. Just like women, men can become overly sensitive in the erogenous zones, so remember to keep the lines of communication open.

Being open doesn’t mean you have to overstep boundaries, because it simply emphasizes the importance of great communication. Relax, have fun, and enjoy the process of enhancing your husband’s orgasms. The more fun you have making your man’s fantasies a reality, the more pleasure he will derive from your time together. Strengthening your bond, keeping your activities fresh, and putting each other first is a great start to a long and happy sex life.

Getting started

If you’re looking for ways to get your girlfriend ready for the most mind-blowing, earth-shattering orgasm she’s ever had, then foreplay is a must. Priming her for sex is of the utmost importance, especially when you plan on pushing physical boundaries in the bedroom. So before you even think about penetration, it’s paramount that your girl is so incredibly turned on that she’s practically on her knees begging for you to take her.

Start where it counts. Stimulating her clitoris is one of the keys to turning your girl on. And if the standard stroking technique is a little too vanilla for the two of you, then we would suggest upping your game with the Twisted Triplets Clit & Nipple Sucker Set to get her blood pumping to all the right places.

Go down on her. Oral sex is another great way to arouse your girlfriend prior to penetration, but you can make the experience even kinkier with the Frisky Oral Enhancing Labia Spreader . Force her lips open wide and keep them there as the insertion tool stimulates her G-spot from the inside, allowing your tongue and hands to do the rest.

How to keep it going

Keep your partner turned on by constantly giving her pleasure and taking it away. The more you tease her in the beginning, the more her body will be yearning to climax later. Alternate between your toys during foreplay, or combine the two for the ultimate experience.

Talking dirty to your girl by creating a visual picture of all the naughty things you want to do to her is a great way to keep the mood hot and heavy during foreplay. Place a blindfold over her eyes and whisper your desires in her ear. Or, better yet, combine all of the above with a pair of wrist restraints and you’ll have all the tools you need to drive her wild for hours. e the two suggested above for the ultimate clitoral stimulation. lay, the

Use a vibrator or dildo as an accompaniment to oral sex while she's blindfolded and waiting for your next move.

Dr. Kat Van Kirk Adam & Eve's resident sexologist

What’s next

Talk to her. Open communication, even during foreplay, is the key to providing your partner with endless pleasure while still remaining safe and responsible. Whether it’s a bondage session or anal penetration, make sure your girlfriend is fully ready for what’s coming next. Surprises are great, but only when they’re welcome.

Establish a safe word. When it comes to the more extreme play sessions, like BDSM, a safe word is critical for letting your partner know when you’ve had enough without ruining the mood.

Adventurous foreplay can be absolutely intoxicating, but just remember that many women appreciate ample stimulation of the clitoris and other sensitive areas, like the G-Spot, to feel maximum pleasure. With that in mind, let some—or all—of our seductive suggestions inspire your next foreplay session for a truly erotic and unforgettable time.

Getting started

If you’re looking for ways to get your wife ready for the most mind-blowing, earth-shattering orgasm she’s ever had, then foreplay is a must. Priming her for sex is of the utmost importance, especially when you plan on pushing physical boundaries in the bedroom. So before you even think about penetration, it’s paramount that your lover is so incredibly turned on that she’s practically on her knees begging for you to take her.

Go down on her. Oral sex is another great way to arouse your wife prior to penetration, but you can make the experience even kinkier with The Accommodator. With this strap-on you can penetrate and stimulate her G-spot, while simultaneously using your tongue to caress her clitoris.

Balance pleasure and pain. Enhance her experience even further by adding the ultra-sexy Entice Triple Intimate Clamps into the mix. These nipple and clit clamps are connected by a chain, forming a seductively submissive Y-shape over her naked body. Even better is that you can adjust the pressure, creating the perfect balance of pleasure and pain.

How to keep it going

Keep your lover turned on by constantly giving her pleasure and taking it away. The more you tease her in the beginning, the more her body will be yearning to climax later. Alternate between your toys during foreplay, or combine the two for the ultimate experience.

Talking dirty to your wife by creating a visual picture of all the naughty things you want to do to her is a great way to keep the mood hot and heavy during foreplay. Place a blindfold over her eyes and whisper your desires in her ear. Or, better yet, combine all of the above with a pair of wrist restraints and you’ll have all the tools you need to drive her wild for hours. e the two suggested above for the ultimate clitoral stimulation. lay, the

Use a vibrator or dildo as an accompaniment to oral sex while she's blindfolded and waiting for your next move.

Dr. Kat Van Kirk Adam & Eve's resident sexologist

What’s next

Talk to her. Open communication, even during foreplay, is the key to providing your partner with endless pleasure while still remaining safe and responsible. Whether it’s a bondage session or anal penetration, make sure your wife is fully ready for what’s coming next. Surprises are great, but only when they’re welcome.

Establish a safe word. When it comes to the more extreme play sessions, like BDSM, a safe word is critical for letting your wife know when you’ve had enough without ruining the mood.

Adventurous foreplay can be absolutely intoxicating, but just remember that many women appreciate ample stimulation of the clitoris and other sensitive areas, like the G-Spot, to feel maximum pleasure. With that in mind, let some—or all—of our seductive suggestions inspire your next foreplay session for a truly erotic and unforgettable time.

Getting started

If you’re looking for ways to get your boyfriend ready for a risqué romp in the sack, then foreplay is a great way to get started. Building your partner up for sex is almost better than the climax itself, especially when it comes to exploring your adventurous side. So rather than skip straight to the main event, try using one of these tantalizing tips for an unforgettable foreplay session with your man.

Go down on him. Your boyfriend is bound to appreciate a spine-tingling blow job. Not only is it a great way to get the mood going during foreplay, but you can easily take it to the next level by taking him in as far as you can go with a few spritzes of the Comfortably Numb Deep Throat Spray.

Warm up first. Butt plugs and anal beads are both great ways to get your partner’s rectum prepped for penetration. Warm up your man with a set of well-lubed Sassy Anal Beads and slowly insert or remove them one by one as you stroke his member.

How to keep it going

Don’t forget to give the twins some love. Playing with and stroking your boyfriend’s testicles and perineum, that area between his sack and anus, is a great way to amplify foreplay and create some interesting sensations while you’re hard at work. Stroking other areas of his body, for that matter, is never a bad idea.

You can also keep the mood going strong by showing your guy who’s boss with some light bondage during foreplay—bind his wrists, ankles, or both while you try out your new toys. Or, if you prefer to submit this time around, let him use your mouth as he pleases, especially now that you’ve gotten your gag reflex under control.

Use a vibrator or dildo as an accompaniment to oral sex while he's blindfolded and waiting for your next move.

Dr. Kat Van Kirk Adam & Eve's resident sexologist

What’s next

Don’t forget the lubricant and safe word. Anal play of any kind can be downright uncomfortable and even dangerous if you don’t take the proper precautions. Make sure you have plenty of lube on hand and watch for your partner’s distress signals—a safe word and a conscientious attitude is a big help.

Keep his wants in mind. Remember to keep your partner’s likes and dislikes in mind when you’re concentrating on his pleasure. If you don’t know, just ask.

Daring foreplay is a great way to explore each other’s bodies in new and exciting ways. Just remember to use common sense and keep communication open to provide your man with maximum pleasure. With that in mind, we highly encourage you to steal some, or all, of these suggestions before your next rendezvous—it’ll definitely be a naughty night to remember.

Getting started

If you’re looking for ways to get your husband ready for a risqué romp in the sack, then foreplay is a great way to get started. Building your lover up for sex is almost better than the climax itself, especially when it comes to exploring your adventurous side. So rather than skip straight to the main event, try using one of these tantalizing tips for an unforgettable foreplay session with your hubby.

Be sure to prep first. With this Colt Bum Buddy Douche, you can get squeaky clean for your lover and ensure that your foreplay and sex is the best it can possibly be.

Add some flavor to the mix. Your husband is bound to appreciate a little tantalizing back door play, especially with your tongue. And now that your lover is good to go, travel down to his nether regions with one of three different Adam & Eve Flavored Lubricants—it’ll be great tasting for you and even better feeling for him.

How to keep it going

Don’t forget to give the twins some love. Playing with and stroking your husband’s testicles and perineum, that area between his sack and anus, is a great way to amplify foreplay and create some interesting sensations while you’re hard at work. Stroking other areas of his body, for that matter, is never a bad idea.

You can also keep the mood going by showing your guy who’s boss with some light bondage during foreplay—bind his wrists, ankles, or both while you try out your new toys. Or, if you prefer to submit this time around, let him use your mouth as he pleases, so long as your gag reflex can handle it.

Use a vibrator or dildo as an accompaniment to oral sex while he's blindfolded and waiting for your next move.

Dr. Kat Van Kirk Adam & Eve's resident sexologist

What’s next

Don’t forget the lubricant. Anal play of any kind can be downright uncomfortable and even dangerous if you don’t take the proper precautions. Make sure you have plenty of lube on hand.

Put his wants ahead of your own and communicate. Remember to keep your husband’s likes and dislikes in mind when you’re concentrating on his pleasure. If you don’t know, just ask. Also, watch for your lover’s distress signals. A safe word and a conscientious attitude are a big help.

Daring foreplay is a great way to explore each other’s bodies in new and exciting ways. You just have to remember to use common sense and keep communication open in order to provide your man with maximum pleasure. With that in mind, we highly encourage you to steal these suggestions before your next rendezvous.

Getting started

If you’re on the lookout for ways to improve sex with your girlfriend, then give yourself a pat on the back. She’s sure to appreciate the effort you’re putting into making her pleasure and happiness a priority. Whether it’s vaginal or anal penetration she’s in the mood for, we’ve got a few fantasy-worthy tidbits for you to try during your next rendezvous.

Take on the dominant role. Render your girlfriend helpless with the Under The Bed Restraint System . Let her submission to you be the very thing that drives her wild with pleasure as you tantalize and tease her body without any interference from her arms or legs. Tie on a blindfold for the ultimate sensory experience.

Ramp it up. Combine pleasure and pain with A&E’s Scarlet Beat Me Please Whip. If she’s been a bad girl, then this is the perfect tool for punishment. Whether she deserves a gentler penalty or a spanking with a sting behind it, she’ll know just how naughty she’s been by the time you’re finished.

How to keep it going

With so much hot and steamy sex going on, it’ll be hard not to explode. Fortunately, investing in a penis ring—it’s a device that slides down over your erect penis until you reach the base—can actually help prolong your erection and delay ejaculation. This allows you to pump harder and last longer than you ever have before.

Introducing these new toys offers endless hours of uninhibited sex. Try out your new whip while your girlfriend is bound to the bed, or come up with your own combinations for some seriously kinky fun. It will be such a thrill to watch as she wriggles and writhes in pleasure knowing that it’s all because of you.

Get creative – try some light bondage, sexy roleplay, or a combination of both. Just make sure to have a safe word.

Dr. Kat Van Kirk Adam & Eve's resident sexologist

What’s next

Compliment her. When your girlfriend feels as sexy and beautiful as you think she is every day, then she may feel more confident and less inhibited in bed. Be sure to compliment her sincerely and often, even outside of the bedroom.

Switch up the locale. Slip away to a hotel for the weekend or even just one night. A change of scenery, a glass of champagne, and the mystery of being anonymous can really do wonders for your sex life.

Remember to explore your girlfriend’s erogenous zones when you’re between the sheets—her breasts, clitoris, G-Spot, or whatever turns her on—and concentrate on stroking, sucking, and nibbling to enhance the experience. Adventurous sex is a great way to build intimacy and deepen your trust in one another.

Getting started

If you’re on the lookout for ways to improve sex with your wife, then kudos to you. There aren’t many things that solidify a committed relationship more than making your partner’s pleasure and happiness a priority. And whether it’s vaginal or anal penetration she’s in the mood for, we’ve got a few fantasy-worthy tidbits for you to try during your next rendezvous.

Go weightless. Put your wife in compromising positions all night long with the Fetish Fantasy Spinning Swing . Drive her wild with ultra-deep penetration and the feeling of weightlessness as you quickly and easily change from mounting to oral sex positions. And with its 360-degree rotation, you can let your wife know just how much you admire her smoking hot body from every angle.

Give yourself a boost. Slip on the Really Ample Penis Enhancer and add length and girth to your member instantly. This sheath will help you penetrate her deeper than ever before and the realistically shaped shaft and lifelike bumps and veins will pleasure her with every thrust.

How to keep it going

With so much hot, steamy, sex going on, it’ll be hard not to explode. Fortunately, investing in a penis ring—it’s a device that slides down over your erect penis until you reach the base—can actually help prolong your erection and delay ejaculation. It allows you to pump harder and last longer than you ever have before.

Introducing these new toys can offer endless hours of uninhibited sex. Try out your newly elongated pole while your wife is suspended from the spinning swing, or come up with your own combinations for some seriously kinky fun. It will be such a thrill to watch as she wriggles and writhes in pleasure knowing that it’s all because of you.

Get creative – try some light bondage, sexy roleplay, or a combination of both. Just make sure to have a safe word.

Dr. Kat Van Kirk Adam & Eve's resident sexologist

What’s next

Compliment her often. When your wife feels as sexy and beautiful as you think she is every day, then she may feel more confident and less inhibited in bed, so be sure to compliment her sincerely and often, even outside of the bedroom.

Try a new location for your romp. Slip away to a hotel for the weekend or even just one night. A change of scenery, a glass of champagne, and the mystery of being anonymous can really do wonders for your sex life.

Remember to explore your wife’s erogenous zones when you’re between the sheets. Whether it’s her breasts, clitoris, G-Spot, or whatever turns her on, concentrate on stroking, sucking, and nibbling to enhance the experience. Adventurous sex is a great way to build intimacy and deepen your trust in one another.

Getting started

Looking for ways to improve sex with your boyfriend is always a plus, especially when you’re having fun. It’s a great reason to experiment with all of those new positions you always talked about but never got around to trying, or finally whipping out those BDSM tools for an extra kinky evening. Just know that whatever adventures you and your partner prefer, these ideas are almost certain to get a rise out of him.

Let him take the top. In this position, the Double Penetrator Ring is almost guaranteed to elevate your sex session to an entirely new level. Your man will experience anal penetration while he’s also working his magic on you. Plus, the penis ring will help maintain his erection and even prolong ejaculation.

Surprise your boyfriend.The Pouchless Brief is essentially “barely there” underwear. He’ll be shocked to find the ultimate present (your package) on display and waiting just for him. They’re also perfect for quick and easy access.

How to keep it going

Remember to make your man feel like an Adonis whether you’re in or out of the bedroom. Your boyfriend will appreciate the compliments and it will definitely go a long way in boosting his self-esteem and performance between the sheets.

Perhaps, in addition to compliments, your man also likes to hear the occasional naughty sentiment whispered in his ear. Remind him of what a naughty boy he’s been, or tell him just how bad you want to give yourself to him and that the anticipation is absolutely killing you. A little dirty talk never hurt anyone, so let the filthy words flow.

Get creative – try some light bondage, sexy roleplay, or a combination of both. Just make sure to have a safe word.

Dr. Kat Van Kirk Adam & Eve's resident sexologist

What’s next

Remember to reciprocate. If your boyfriend’s on the bottom, always consider his feelings by helping him climax even after you’ve gotten off.

Consider more than just his member. Although concentrating on his penis is usually a sure thing, your man may have other areas on his body that he’d like you to explore. You can ask him or do some sensory experimentation of your own.

Adventurous sex and the trust it sometimes requires is a great way to become closer to one another. Really knowing someone on a deeper level requires patience and an open mind, and you should feel like one seriously lucky couple to be able to share similar desires. So take these tips and your boyfriend by, well, wherever he wants, and give him a treat that he won’t soon forget.

Getting started

Looking for ways to improve sex with your husband is always a plus, especially when you’re having fun. It’s a great reason to experiment with all of those new positions you always talked about but never got around to trying, or finally whipping out those BDSM tools for an extra kinky evening. Just know that whatever adventures you and your lover prefer, these ideas are almost certain to get a rise out of him.

Try some cowboy role-playing. If your guy likes to take the bottom, then saddle him up and ride ‘em cowboy with the Fetish Fantasy Giddy-Up Harness that’ll have you performing bareback like a seasoned ranch hand. Throw in a cowboy hat and some chaps to round it out.

Amp up the S&M. Some accessories like A&E’s Scarlet Satisfying Sting Crop would be a great choice and muffle his moans with a strategically placed ball gag. Go for the open mouth option if the two of you are feeling extra daring.

How to keep it going

Remember to make your man feel like an Adonis whether you’re in or out of the bedroom. Your husband will appreciate the compliments and it will definitely go a long way in boosting his self-esteem and performance between the sheets.

Perhaps, in addition to compliments, your man also likes to hear the occasional dirty sentiment whispered in his ear. Remind him of what a naughty boy he’s been, or tell him just how bad you want to give yourself to him and that the anticipation is absolutely killing you. A little dirty talk never hurt anyone, so let the filthy words flow and make sure to keep ‘em going once you hit the bedroom.

Get creative – try some light bondage, sexy roleplay, or a combination of both. Just make sure to have a safe word.

Dr. Kat Van Kirk Adam & Eve's resident sexologist

What’s next

Remember to reciprocate. If your husband is on the bottom, always consider his feelings by helping him climax even after you’ve gotten off.

Consider more than just his member. Although concentrating on his penis is usually a sure thing, your man may have other areas on his body that he’d like you to explore. You can ask him or do some sensory experimentation of your own.

Adventurous sex and the trust it sometimes requires is a great way to become closer to one another. Really knowing someone on a deeper level requires patience and an open mind, and you should feel like one seriously lucky couple to be able to share similar desires. Keep these tips in mind and give him a treat that he won’t soon forget.

Getting started

Your girlfriend may be into adventurous sex, but that doesn’t mean she won’t need time to get warmed up. Ample foreplay and even the stimulation from penetration may help enhance, extend, and possibly multiply her orgasms, especially with the right toys, so check out our recommendations for some kinky ways to help her climax.

Kick things off with oral. Oral sex is a great way to enhance your girlfriend’s orgasms, and it may even help her climax multiple times during sex. Heighten her foreplay experience by stimulating her clitoris with your tongue while simultaneously hitting her G-Spot with the Lelo Gigi 2 Pleasure Object.

Try a different kind of vibe. Put your girl on cloud nine with the A&E Vibrating Penis Sleeve Kit. Not only will these sleeves provide variety, feel-good texture, and G-Spot stimulation, but they also have a vibrator that’s perfect for clitoral massage.

How to keep it going

Use your new toys as enjoyable and innovative methods for achieving better orgasms. It’s definitely fun, but complicated sex isn’t always better. Something as simple as having your girlfriend using a handheld vibrator for clitoral stimulation during intercourse might be just enough to send your partner to the moon again and again—and again.

The right positions are almost as essential to achieving better orgasms as the toys themselves. Woman on top, reverse cowgirl, and doggy-style are all great ways to hit her G-Spot for stronger, more powerful orgasms. You can also put her in charge at any time with all three of these positions so that your girlfriend can control the tempo and depth. And who knows, she may even enjoy the dominance that comes with it.

When she's nearing climax, back off & tease her. Do this several times to lead into a big, memorable finish.

Dr. Kat Van Kirk Adam & Eve's resident sexologist

What’s next

Remove any pressure. Try making your time together hot and heavy, but free of the pressure to orgasm. Oftentimes, the more she can relax and not have to stress about climaxing, the easier and more pleasurable it may become.

Don’t take yourselves too seriously. Experiment, laugh, and have fun while on your way to achieving better orgasms with your girlfriend. Sometimes, the easiest way to get from point A to the Big O is to listen to your partner when she tells you what she enjoys the most.

Getting started

Your wife may be into adventurous sex, but that doesn’t mean she won’t need time to get warmed up. Ample foreplay and even the stimulation from penetration may help enhance, extend, and possibly multiply her orgasms, especially with the right toys. Check out our recommendations for some kinky ways to help her climax.

Double down. Slip on the Double Penetrator Ultimate Penis Ring and make your girl’s fantasies come true. This vibrating penis ring allows for double penetration and has two removable vibes – one for her clit during thrusting and one hidden within the shaft itself. If she’s a fan of anal, then this should be just the thing to create intense orgasms as it hits a trifecta of erogenous zones.

Take control. You can control her orgasms from afar for some naughty vibes on the down low. With the 50 Shades of Grey Relentless Vibrations Remote Egg your wife can slip this inside and hand you the control so you can give her bursts of pleasure while making her climax anywhere at any time.

How to keep it going

Use your new toys as enjoyable and innovative methods for achieving better orgasms. And even though it’s fun, complicated sex isn’t always better. Something as simple as having your wife using a handheld vibrator for clitoral stimulation during intercourse might be just enough to send your lover to the moon again and again—and again.

The right positions are almost as essential to achieving better orgasms as the toys themselves. Woman on top, reverse cowgirl, and doggy-style are all great ways to hit her G-Spot for stronger more powerful orgasms. You can also put her in charge at any time with all three of these positions so that your wife can control the tempo and depth. And who knows, maybe the dominant role will turn her on even more.

When she's nearing climax, back off & tease her. Do this several times to lead into a big, memorable finish.

Dr. Kat Van Kirk Adam & Eve's resident sexologist

What’s next

Remove any pressure. Try making your time together hot and heavy, but free of the pressure to orgasm. Oftentimes, the more she can relax and not have to stress about climaxing, the easier and more pleasurable it may become.

Don’t take yourselves too seriously. Experiment, laugh, and have fun while on your way to achieving better orgasms with your wife. Sometimes, the easiest way to get from point A to the Big O is to listen to your partner when she tells you what she enjoys the most.

Getting started

Who doesn’t want to give their boyfriend better, more intense orgasms? Pleasing your man in all the right ways can feel like you just earned a badge of honor, and it’s definitely something to be proud of. So keep up the great work and heighten his climactic bliss that much more with these tips:

Find the P-Spot. Target your boyfriend’s prostate while also extending his erection and packing a powerful punch upon ejaculation with the Triple Threat Penis Ring. This toy will make him stand at attention thanks to the firm, vibrating grip on his shaft. Pair this with the intense anal stimulation it brings and you have a recipe for an explosive orgasm.

Give him a wand job. No, that’s not a typo, and you can give him one that’s out of this world with the Hammerhead Vibrating Stroker . This is a slightly high-tech way to achieve better orgasms. Lube up the sleeve, slip it over your man’s erection, press the button, and watch while it works him up and down.

How to keep it going

A little teasing never hurt anyone. Have his build-up happen slowly at first, intensify it with multiple modes of stimulation, then back off and repeat again and again until he’s ready to explode (literally). Concentrate on the erogenous zones like his testicles, prostate, and perineum, plus find out where your lover likes his member stroked the most. If the head is his most sensitive region, then use that knowledge to your advantage.

Maybe your man is a more visually stimulated guy. If so, then there’s nothing wrong with playing your favorite kinky porn—think BDSM, fetish, hardcore, etc.—as the two of you go at it. Sometimes visual imagery can enhance an orgasm, and trying to replicate your favorite steamy scenes might just add to the fun.

Don't slow down during climax – keep it going long and hard until you're both done.

Dr. Kat Van Kirk Adam & Eve's resident sexologist

What’s next

Talk dirty to him. Live out his fantasies verbally and drive your man crazy by incorporating some dirty talk into your repertoire. Tell him exactly what you want to do to him tonight and help his imagination run wild.

Make it happen again and again and again. Once you have the art of mind-blowing orgasms down to a science, then why not work your way up to helping your beau achieve multiples. Believe it or not, guys can have back-to-back orgasms, too, it just requires some research and a lot of practice. And who doesn’t love the latter?

If variety is the spice of life, then do your best to keep it fresh by switching things up as often as your boyfriend likes. Putting effort into his orgasms does more than just help your partner—it brings you both closer in the long run. And with any luck, he’ll be happy to return the favor.

Getting started

Who doesn’t want to give their husband better, more intense orgasms? Heck, pleasing your man in all the right ways can feel like you just earned a badge of honor – it’s definitely something to be proud of. So keep up the great work and heighten his climactic bliss that much more with a few ingenious tips from us.

Don’t overlook the erogenous zones. The prostate and perineum are male erogenous zones that shouldn’t be overlooked. Stimulate your lover’s sweet spots with the Rude-Boy Prostate Vibrator. Combine this with a killer hummer for an orgasm he’ll be remembering for days to come.

Give him a hand (job). Make it feel out of this world with a little help from The Tube Stroker. This is a great way to achieve better orgasms in a new and exciting way. Retire your bare palm for the night, grab the lube, and give this new sheath a try.

How to keep it going

A little teasing never hurt anyone. Have his build-up happen slowly at first, intensify it with multiple modes of stimulation, then back off and repeat again and again until he’s ready to explode (literally). Concentrate on the erogenous zones like his testicles, prostate, and perineum, plus find out where your lover likes his member stroked the most. If the head is his most sensitive region, then use that knowledge to your advantage and have at it.

Maybe your man is more visually stimulated. If so, then there’s nothing wrong with playing your favorite kinky porn—think BDSM, fetish, hardcore, etc.—as you two go at it. Visual imagery can sometimes enhance an orgasm, and trying to replicate your favorite steamy scenes might just add to the fun.

Don't slow down during climax – keep it going long and hard until you're both done.

Dr. Kat Van Kirk Adam & Eve's resident sexologist

What’s next

Talk dirty to him. Live out his fantasies verbally and drive your man crazy by incorporating some dirty talk into your repertoire. Tell him exactly what you want to do to him tonight and help his imagination run wild.

Make it happen again and again and again. Once you have the art of mind-blowing orgasms down to a science, then why not work your way up to helping your beau achieve multiples. Believe it or not, guys can have back-to-back orgasms, too, it just requires some research and a lot of practice. And who doesn’t love the latter?

If variety is the spice of life, then do your best to keep it fresh by switching things up as often as your husband likes. Putting effort into his orgasms does more than just help your partner—it brings you both closer in the long run. And with any luck, he’ll be happy to return the favor.

Getting started

Foreplay is so important to beginning a sexual romp in all the right ways, especially for women. Not only do their bodies have to be warmed up and in the mood, but so do their minds. And although adventurous encounters may be your thing, there’s nothing wrong with treating your time together like a slow and steady marathon, rather than a speedy race. Dedicate plenty of time to fanning the flames of your girlfriend’s burning desires.

Here’s how you can accomplish exactly that:

Start with a sensual massage. Better yet, try some hot oil foreplay with the 3-in-1 Suntouched Massage Candle . Combining the melted wax that doubles as a deliciously fragrant massage oil with a little bondage will elevate your full body massages to a higher caliber of eroticism.

Give her a special gift. Ask her to slip into something kinky like these Open for Business Crotchless Panty. Frame her erogenous zones in delicate fabric and lace that still allow you access from every angle. They’re perfect for spanking, licking, fingering, and, of course, admiring.

How to keep it going

Kiss, kiss, kiss, and kiss some more. Studies have shown that women have several sensitive erogenous zones above the belt, such as the neck, mouth, breasts, and ears. This means that exploring her body with your lips and tongue could have major benefits for your girlfriend during foreplay, and don’t forget to nibble for an added touch of pleasurable pain.

Blindfold your partner and expose her body to a variety of sensations. For truly mind-altering stimulus, incorporate toys that are intense yet identifiably different from one another. The soft caress from a feather tickler, the sting of the cold fringe from a whip, and the pinpricks from a Wartenberg wheel are sure to drive her wild when her vision is temporarily impaired.

Use a vibrator or dildo as an accompaniment to oral sex while she's blindfolded and waiting for your next move.

Dr. Kat Van Kirk Adam & Eve's resident sexologist

What’s next

Focus only on her. Make sure your girlfriend is the center of attention during your sexual encounters. Show your partner how attractive you find her by appreciating every inch of her body. This should help her feel more at ease and self-confident in the bedroom.

Watch for all of her cues. When you’re exploring her curves, look for signs of enjoyment like a quiver or moan, and don’t be afraid to experiment and suggest something novel and exciting.

Wanting to please your girlfriend in new ways is thoughtful, sexy, and so erotic, and she’s sure to appreciate the results of your newfound knowledge. Now that you’ve taken the first step in the right direction with these steamy suggestions, we recommend you invite your partner to experience a foreplay-filled evening she’ll never forget.

Getting started

Foreplay is so important to beginning a sexual romp in all the right ways, especially for women. Not only do their bodies have to be warmed up and in the mood, but so do their minds. And although adventurous encounters may be your thing, there’s nothing wrong with treating your time together. Consider it a slow and steady marathon, rather than a race, with plenty of time dedicated to fanning the flames of your wife’s burning desires.

Take these steps first:

Start your foreplay before you even reach the bedroom. With the Ohmibod Club Vibe 2.Oh. tucked into the matching panties, you can tease her clit and lips from afar no matter where you are: at your favorite restaurant, in the grocery store checkout, or to the beat of your favorite song.

Try out some light role-playing. Have your wife take on something animalistic and totally kinky with the Frisky Fox Tail Anal Plug. This is a great way to fill her up from behind while you let your hands and mouth run wild—just be sure to get an eyeful of her soft, luscious tail.

How to keep it going

Kiss, kiss, kiss, and kiss some more. Studies have shown that women have several sensitive erogenous zones above the belt, such as the neck, mouth, breasts, and ears. This means that exploring her body with your lips and tongue could have major benefits for your wife during foreplay. Also, don’t forget to nibble for an added touch of pleasurable pain.

Blindfold your lover and expose her body to a variety of sensations. For truly mind-altering stimulus, incorporate toys that are intense yet identifiably different from one another. The soft caress from a feather tickler, the sting of the cold fringe from a whip, and the pinpricks from a Wartenberg wheel are sure to drive her wild when her vision is temporarily impaired.

Use a vibrator or dildo as an accompaniment to oral sex while she's blindfolded and waiting for your next move.

Dr. Kat Van Kirk Adam & Eve's resident sexologist

What’s next

Focus only on her. Make sure your wife is the center of attention during your sexual encounters. Show your partner how attractive you find her by appreciating every inch of her body. This should help her feel more at ease and self-confident in the bedroom.

Watch for all of her cues. When you’re exploring her curves, look for signs of enjoyment like a quiver or moan, and don’t be afraid to experiment and suggest something novel and exciting.

Wanting to please your wife in new ways is thoughtful, sexy, and so erotic, and she’s sure to appreciate the results of your newfound knowledge. Now that you’ve taken the first step in the right direction with these steamy suggestions, we recommend you invite your partner to experience a foreplay-filled evening she’ll never forget.

Getting started

Considering your man’s sexual needs is so thoughtful—what a lucky guy! And chances are he’s going to be thrilled when he finds out that you’ve decided to spice things up in the bedroom. Guys love it when you initiate foreplay, so we’re here to provide you with some outstanding ways to please your boyfriend.

Men love to have something sexy to look at. Start off the evening with some over-the-top lingerie to get him riled up. The Midnight Affair Bra and Garter with Stockings Set comes with a cupless bra and thong panty that are designed to expose your breasts and rear for excellent 360-degree views.

Surprise him with a taboo toy. If your guy loves to perform all things anal with you, then let him whip your ass into shape as you graduate from small, to medium, to large with the A&E Booty Boot Camp Training Kit .

How to keep it going

Many men find teasing and dirty talk completely irresistible, so why not try sending your boyfriend some sexually charged text messages. Tell him how much you want him, how sexy you find him, and describe all the dirty things you want him to do to you later.

For the truly brave, wear your sexiest lingerie under your dress for the evening, and then, when the time is right, let him sneak a peek and even cop a feel at the dinner table. See if he can guess what kind of panties you’re wearing by how they feel—crotchless, thong, satin, lace, etc. If he gets it right, then plan to make his reward for the evening extra special.

Take control: either by having him go down on you or reversing the role and letting him be in charge.

Dr. Kat Van Kirk Adam & Eve's resident sexologist

What’s next

Be sure to communicate. It’s just as important to talk to your man about his likes, dislikes, wants, and desires in the bedroom. Not only will you learn a lot, but it will bring you closer together.

Switch up the power roles. Let your boyfriend take control of the situation while you submit, or vice versa. Doing this during sexual encounters will reveal a lot about yourselves as you settle into your favorite roles.

Remember to mix it up often for foreplay that stays fresh and fun. We know that men love to be fondled below the belt, but don’t be afraid to try and ease him out of his comfort zones. When you’re more open with your man, you may find that he’s much more willing to crank up the kink without fear of judgment.

Getting started

Considering your man’s sexual needs is so thoughtful—what a lucky guy! Chances are he’s going to be thrilled when he finds out that you’ve decided to spice things up in the bedroom. Guys love it when you initiate foreplay, so we’re here to provide you with some outstanding ways to please your husband.

Men love to have something sexy to look at. Start off the evening with a little role play to get him riled up. The Naughty School Girl costume comes with a see-thru white tie-top and a short plaid skirt so he can get a view of your sexy booty.

Surprise him with a taboo toy you both can use. If your guy loves to perform and receive anal then opt for the New Comers Strap-On and Dildo Set . This harness lets you use the dildo on him for some extreme role reversal, or you can remove it so that he can return the favor.

How to keep it going

Many men find teasing and dirty talk completely irresistible, so why not try sending your husband some sexually charged text messages. Tell him how much you want him, how sexy you find him, and describe all the dirty things you want him to do to you later.

For the truly brave, wear your sexiest lingerie under your dress for the evening. When the time is right, let him sneak a peek and even cop a feel at the dinner table. See if he can guess what kind of panties you’re wearing by how they feel—crotchless, thong, satin, lace, etc. If he gets it right, then plan to make his reward for the evening extra special.

Take control: either by having him go down on you or reversing the role and letting him be in charge.

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What’s next

Be sure to communicate. It’s just as important to talk to your man about his likes, dislikes, wants, and desires in the bedroom. Not only will you learn a lot, but it will bring you closer together.

Switch up the power roles. Let your husband take control of the situation while you submit, or vice versa. Doing this during sex will reveal a lot about yourselves as you settle into your favorite roles.

Remember to mix it up often for foreplay that stays fresh and fun. We know that men love to be fondled below the belt, but don’t be afraid to try and ease him out of his comfort zones. When you’re more open with your man, you may find that he’s much more willing to crank up the kink without fear of judgment.

Getting started

Bravo on looking for ways to improve sex with your girlfriend. It’s always flattering to learn that your significant other has been dreaming up ways to give you more pleasure between the sheets or wherever you two like to have sex. This is why we’ve provided you with some naughty ways to show her how much you care.

Get kinky. You can use the Super Jelly Realistic Double Dildo and bend it down the middle to pleasure both of your girlfriend’s orifices at the same time, or use it together for the ultimate ride.

Incorporate some bondage. Next time you have sex, try out the highly versatile Sex & Mischief Bondage Tape. You can contort your lover into a variety of positions and then keep her there with this specially designed tape that only sticks to itself. Create blindfolds, hand and ankle restraints, and even pasties from two crisscrossing pieces where X marks the spot.

How to keep it going

Pull her hair, slap her ass, bite her inner thighs, or perform whatever maneuver you think will help heighten her senses during intercourse. Use both toys mentioned earlier for the ultimate sexual duo with endless combinations.

Switch up the locale for some risky sexual fun. The kitchen table, the shower, and your laundry room are good private places to start—that is, of course, if you decide to close the blinds. But if you’re really feeling adventurous and in the mood for some exhibitionism, then the backseat of your car, your lover’s childhood bedroom, and even a public bathroom stall are a few kinky places to get it on.

Get creative – try some light bondage, sexy roleplay, or a combination of both. Just make sure to have a safe word.

Dr. Kat Van Kirk Adam & Eve's resident sexologist

What’s next

Communicate. This is the ultimate sexual tool when it comes to pleasing your girlfriend in all the right ways. Do your best to learn what she likes and continue to build upon that knowledge until you have an arsenal of erotic ways to thrill your lover again and again.

Let your girlfriend know how much she’s desired everyday. And yes, that goes for outside of the bedroom. The hotter and sexier she feels, the more her confidence will resonate when you’re together.

During sex, use your girlfriend’s multiple and highly sensitive erogenous zones to your advantage. Kiss her, tease her, and even inflict a little pain for the intensity that she desires between the sheets. These adventurous sex tips, when used accordingly, are designed to keep your relationship hot and your bond closer than ever.

Getting started

Bravo on looking for ways to improve sex with your wife. It’s always flattering to learn that your significant other has been dreaming up ways to give you more pleasure between the sheets, in the car, wherever. This is why we’ve provided you with some naughty ways to show her how much you care.

Try something new. If you and your girlfriend like to do a little gender-bending role play or she simply enjoys the feel of a good pounding from a dildo, then the Vac-U-Lock Ultra Harness for Women might be just what you’ve been looking for. Another bonus is that it comes complete with removable vaginal and anal plugs for whoever is wearing the harness.

Incorporate some bondage. Next time you have sex, you could use a toy like the Scandal Posture Collar with Cuffs . Not only is it beautiful and erotic, but it will also keep your lover’s hands exactly where you want them at all times.

How to keep it going

Pull her hair, slap her ass, bite her inner thighs, or perform whatever maneuver you think will help heighten her senses during intercourse. Use both toys mentioned earlier for the ultimate sexual duo for endless pleasure all night long.

Switch up the locale for some risky sexual fun. The kitchen table, the shower, and your laundry room are good private places to start—that is, of course, if you decide to close the blinds. But if you’re really feeling adventurous and in the mood for some exhibitionism, then the backseat of your car, your lover’s childhood bedroom, and even a public bathroom stall are a few kinky places to get it on.

Get creative – try some light bondage, sexy roleplay, or a combination of both. Just make sure to have a safe word.

Dr. Kat Van Kirk Adam & Eve's resident sexologist

What’s next

Communicate. It’s the ultimate sexual tool when it comes to pleasing your wife in all the right ways. Do your best to learn what she likes and continue to build upon that knowledge until you have an arsenal of erotic ways to thrill your lover again and again.

Let your wife know how much she’s desired everyday. And yes, that goes for outside of the bedroom. The hotter and sexier she feels, the more her confidence will resonate when you’re together.

During sex, use your wife’s multiple and highly sensitive erogenous zones to your advantage. Kiss her, tease her, and even inflict a little pain for the intensity that she desires between the sheets. These adventurous sex tips are, when used accordingly, designed to keep your relationship hot and your bond closer than ever.

Getting started

Continually looking for ideas to bring novelty back into the bedroom should be just the thing for a relationship full of great sex. Your boyfriend will be thrilled to find out that you’ve been planning some kinky sexual surprises just for him. If scandalous and sexy is your thing, then get ready to blow his mind in bed with a few of our best ideas for improved intercourse.

Surprise your boyfriend. Use a toy like the Hot Tie & Cuff Set and you’ll be giving him the gift of incredible domination and smoking-hot views of your body. Adjust these for several methods of restraint and don’t forget to pack them in your bag for an unforgettable weekend getaway.

Drop a hint. Tell your boyfriend where you want him to stick it, then slip into the super-hot and sexy Spanky Skirt. The heart-shaped cutout on this skin-tight mini perfectly frames your rear for some kinky backdoor action.

How to keep it going

Rather than wait for your boyfriend to approach you, try initiating the sex more often. He would probably love having you chasing after him for a change. If you’re already begging him for more on the regular, then definitely try the items we suggested above. You can always step it up by combining the two.

Adventurous sex, especially BDSM, can sometimes require a lot of stamina from both parties. If your man finds that he needs a little boost to keep the juices flowing, then try a penis ring for increased fullness, endurance, and even delayed ejaculation. Another way to bring his penis back to life in a hurry is with a sensual blow job.

Get creative – try some light bondage, sexy roleplay, or a combination of both. Just make sure to have a safe word.

Dr. Kat Van Kirk Adam & Eve's resident sexologist

What’s next

Build up his confidence. Your man needs compliments, too. Tell him how hot you think he is or how much you desire him—whatever it is, just make sure it’s from the heart.

Sometimes our body’s subtle cues are easy to miss. When he’s doing something you like sexually, be sure to tell him and ask your boyfriend to do the same.

Lingerie, new toys, oral sex, spontaneity, or anything else you feel he would enjoy will definitely go a long way to show that you genuinely care about him and the quality of your sex life. Continue to stay attuned to your boyfriend’s sexual needs throughout your relationship for a happy and satisfied man.

Getting started

Continually looking for ideas to bring novelty back into the bedroom should be just the thing for a lifetime of great sex. Your husband will be thrilled to find out that you’ve been planning some kinky sexual surprises just for him. If scandalous and sexy is your thing, then get ready to blow his mind in bed with a few of our best ideas for improved intercourse.

Surprise your husband. You could try the Fetish Fantasy Bondage Swing for weightless sex that’ll have you and your man giddy with pleasure. Restrain your husband or let him dominate you while you’re suspended helplessly from the ceiling. The positions and possibilities are endless.

Make him the dominant one. For those times when your husband just has to punish and penetrate you at the same time, hand him the 50 Shades of Grey Spank Me Please Spanking Ruler . Let him point, guide, and shock you into submission for a kinky good time.

How to keep it going

Rather than wait for you husband to approach you, try initiating the sex more often. After all, he’d probably love having you chasing after him for a change. If you’re already begging him for more on the regular, then definitely try the toys we suggested above, and step it up even more by combining the two.

Adventurous sex, especially BDSM, can sometimes require a lot of stamina from both parties. If your man finds that he needs a little boost to keep the juices flowing, then try a penis ring for increased fullness, endurance, and even delayed ejaculation. Another way to bring his penis back to life in a hurry is with a sensual blow job.

Get creative – try some light bondage, sexy roleplay, or a combination of both. Just make sure to have a safe word.

Dr. Kat Van Kirk Adam & Eve's resident sexologist

What’s next

Build up his confidence. Your man needs compliments, too. Tell him how hot you think he is or how much you desire him—whatever it is, just make sure it’s from the heart.

Sometimes our body’s subtle cues are easy to miss. When he’s doing something you like sexually, be sure to tell him and ask your husband to do the same.

Lingerie, new toys, oral sex, spontaneity, or anything else you feel he would enjoy will definitely go a long way to show that you genuinely care about him and the quality of your sex life. Continue to stay attuned to your husband’s sexual needs throughout your relationship for a happy and satisfied man.

Getting started

If your goal is to drive your girlfriend wild with pleasure, then you’ve come to the right place. Making her moan, seeing her quiver, and feeling how wet she becomes is like a reward in itself. Fortunately, we have some ideas on how to do exactly that while improving your partner’s orgasms.

Multitask. When you’re going down on her, doing several things at once can be a good thing for giving your girl mind altering orgasms. And if your partner enjoys anal play and penetration while you’re caressing her lips, then tease her with the Quaker Anal Vibe. Turn it on before you reach the rear and run it over her thighs and vagina for a good warm up.

Try some different lingerie. Try having your girlfriend wear the S.L.P. Crotchless Beaded Lovers Thong . Not only will she look hot, but this would be a great addition to oral sex, especially if you incorporate a vibrating wand to intensify the feeling of the beads rubbing against her clitoris and lips.

How to keep it going

When you feel like you’re hitting a sweet spot—her legs are shaking, she’s highly aroused, and showing signs of enjoyment—maintain the pace of what you’re currently doing, rather than go harder or with more intensity. Take two steps forward and one step back as you build her up slowly. Stall her release so that when she does finally finish, it will be out-of-this-world intense.

If your girlfriend likes it rough, then don’t be afraid to experiment. Spank her, tease her nipples, pull her hair, partake in bondage, enjoy some adult films together. Basically, do whatever gets her going and keep taking it to the next level. The more turned on she is leading up to the Big O, the more explosive it will feel.

When she's nearing climax, back off & tease her. Do this several times to lead into a big, memorable finish.

Dr. Kat Van Kirk Adam & Eve's resident sexologist

What’s next

Ditch the monotony. If you’re running out of ideas, come up with a jar filled with wild experiences that you draw from once a week and then act them out.

Brainstorm. Take turns picking something sexy for the other person to wear or which toys you’d like to see her use on you or on herself.

As a woman. you would think that having sex with another woman would be simple. However, like the unique individuals they are, not all women are exactly alike. This is why it’s so important to talk to your partner about her likes and dislikes on a regular basis. Good communication and an adventurous, open mindset will definitely lead to more orgasmic sex.

Getting started

If your goal is to drive your wife wild with pleasure, then you’ve come to the right place. Making her moan, seeing her quiver, and feeling how wet she becomes is like a reward in itself. Fortunately, we have some ideas on how to do exactly that all while improving your partner’s orgasms.

Try some different lingerie. Ask your lover to wear a pair of special panties from the Pearl of Paradise 3 Piece Collection . Not only will she look hot, but this would be a great addition to oral sex, especially if you incorporate a vibrating wand to intensify the feeling of the beads rubbing against her clitoris and lips.

Double down. When you’re having sex, anal and vaginal penetration can be great ways to improve her orgasms. Try the Double Delight Strap-On for some G-Spot action or backdoor play that will send her through the roof while simultaneously pleasing you. It’s a win-win.

How to keep it going

When you feel like you’re hitting a sweet spot—her legs are shaking, she’s highly aroused, and showing signs of enjoyment—then maintain the pace of what you’re currently doing, rather than go harder or with more intensity. Take two steps forward and one step back as you build her up slowly. Stall her release so that when she does climax, it will be out-of-this-world intense.

If your wife likes it rough, then don’t be afraid to experiment. Spank her, tease her nipples, pull her hair, partake in bondage, enjoy an adult film together. Basically, do whatever gets her going and keep taking it to the next level. The more turned on she is leading up to the Big O, the more explosive it will feel.

When she's nearing climax, back off & tease her. Do this several times to lead into a big, memorable finish.

Dr. Kat Van Kirk Adam & Eve's resident sexologist

What’s next

Leave the monotony behind. If you’re running out of ideas, come up with a jar filled with wild experiences that you draw from once a week and then act them out.

Have a brainstorming session. Take turns picking something sexy for the other person to wear or which toys you’d like to see her use on you or on herself.

As a woman, you would think that having sex with another woman would be simple. However, like the unique individuals they are, not all women are exactly alike. For that reason, it’s important to talk to your partner about her likes and dislikes on a regular basis. Good communication and an adventurous, open mindset will definitely lead to more orgasmic sex.

Getting started

From better foreplay, to better intercourse, to better orgasms, in your boyfriend’s mind sex with you just keeps getting more awesome by the minute. Increasing the quality and quantity of your man’s orgasms is definitely possible with a little knowhow, so check out a few of our suggestions that are sure to have him singing your praises.

Give him a “ring”. Considering your boyfriend is the adventurous type, he may be open to testing out the C-Ringz Rock Hard Ass-Gasm Ring. The sleek, black strap fits snugly around his penis and balls to keep him erect, while the vibrating anal plug targets his prostate for an extreme orgasm.

Let him know that you think it’s hot when he finishes. Beg for it, ask him to ejaculate on a specific part of your body, and sound sexy while you’re doing it. Incorporating the Super Head Honcho masturbator at the same time is sure to drive him up the wall.

How to keep it going

Put on a show for your boyfriend. Mutual masturbation or allowing him to be a welcome voyeur while you’re playing with yourself is a great way to heighten his arousal. Spread your legs and let him watch while you stroke and caress your way to an explosive orgasm and then turn your attention to him.

Most men love a great blow job. Stroke his penis rhythmically while you suck the tip simultaneously. Then, give him some eye contact and practice your deep throat skills. These are all great ways to offer your man new sensations during oral sex. Start off slow for a powerful crescendo, and make sure your intensity matches his sensitivity so as not to cause discomfort.

Explore the prostate, aka his P-Spot, with your fingers & plenty of lube to give him an orgasm he'll never forget.

Dr. Kat Van Kirk Adam & Eve's resident sexologist

What’s next

Make your man feel like he’s number one. Create an exciting evening dedicated to pleasing him for hours. He’ll love the extra attention and sexual stimulation.

Find out he really wants in the bedroom. A lot of men are afraid you’ll think their desires are too outrageous, so listen with an open mind and make plans to carry them out.

Your boyfriend will enjoy having his fantasies accepted, even if that means he’s the submissive and you’re his dominatrix every now and then. Being open to his requests will be such a turn on for him because the long held idea that your guy wants a lady out in public and a sexual goddess in the bedroom is really not too far from the truth.

Getting started

From better foreplay, to better intercourse, to better orgasms, in your husband’s mind sex with you just keeps getting more awesome by the minute. Increasing the quality and quantity of your man’s orgasms is definitely possible with a little knowhow, so check out a few of our suggestions that are sure to have him singing your praises.

Let your husband know that you think it’s hot when he finishes. Beg for it, ask him to ejaculate on a specific part of your body, and sound sexy while you’re doing it. Incorporating the Fleshlight Vibro at the same time is a great way to add variety and new sensations to a regular hand job.

Find the P-Spot. Since your husband is the adventurous type, he may be open to using the Waterproof Prostate Massager if you promise to suck him off at the same time. This sleek, black toy will target his highly sensitive prostate for stronger orgasms.

How to keep it going

Put on a show for your lover. Mutual masturbation or allowing him to be a welcome voyeur while you’re playing with yourself is a great way to heighten his arousal. Spread your legs and let him watch while you stroke and caress your way to an explosive orgasm and then turn your attention to him.

Most men love a great blow job. Stroke his penis rhythmically while you suck the tip simultaneously. Then, give him some eye contact and practice your deep throat skills. These are all great ways to offer your man new sensations during oral sex. Start off slow for a powerful crescendo, and make sure your intensity matches his sensitivity so as not to cause discomfort.

Explore the prostate, aka his P-Spot, with your fingers & plenty of lube to give him an orgasm he'll never forget.

Dr. Kat Van Kirk Adam & Eve's resident sexologist

What’s next

Make your man feel like he’s number one. Create an exciting evening dedicated to pleasing him for hours. He’ll love the extra attention and sexual stimulation.

Find out he really wants in the bedroom. A lot of men are afraid you’ll think their desires are too outrageous, so listen with an open mind and make plans to carry them out.

Your husband will enjoy having his fantasies accepted, even if that means he’s the submissive and you’re his dominatrix every now and then. Being open to his requests will be such a turn on for him because the long held idea that your guy wants a lady out in public and a sexual goddess in the bedroom is really not too far from the truth.

Getting started

Remember when you used to stop at every base before charging into home plate? Remember how the build up to the big moment had you boiling over with anticipation?

If you’re wondering where that same sexual spark has gone in your current relationship with your girlfriend, the answer could stem from your foreplay, or a lack thereof. Good foreplay is crucial step for taking things from satisfactory to downright sensational.

The first thing you need to remember is that many women need emotional and mental stimulation before physical stimulation, which is why your foreplay shouldn’t start in the bedroom:

Create a relaxing, sensual environment. Clean up any lingering messes, and make sure the nightly chores are taken care of.

Ease into things with a romantic massage. You can use Sensual Massage oil to help you along, and then as a lubricant when the night progresses.

How to keep it going

When she’s fully relaxed and ready for more, trace the curves of her body with your fingers, lips, or tongue to awaken every inch of her. Tease her by kissing her everywhere but her vagina. You can’t go wrong with the popular erogenous zones—along the neck, down the spine, and the inner thighs. Make sure you give her breasts the attention they crave as well. Pleasure them just as you would her clitoris with stroking, licking, and sucking.

Your options for foreplay are limited to your imagination. You can sensually undress one another, put on a strip tease, shower or take a warm bath together, and experiment with dirty talk. If you’re really feeling wicked, try upping the mystery with A&E’s Scarlet Obey Me Blindfold, or a pair of satin handcuffs. Good things can come from thinking outside the box.

Send a naughty sext & photo while encouraging her to get started before you enter the room.

Dr. Kat Van Kirk Adam & Eve's resident sexologist

What’s next

Good foreplay can greatly benefit your sex life.

Foreplay increases blood flow. This means she’ll be more aroused when you take things to the next level.

Pay close attention to her nonverbal cues. You’ll to see what she enjoys during the act, but don’t discount verbal communication. Different things motivate, relax, and turn on different people. Talking about it can make rounding out the bases that much sweeter.

Getting started

Remember back—perhaps way back—to the time before you dove right into sex? When you used to stop at every base before charging into home plate? And by the time you actually got down to it, you were boiling over with anticipation?

If you and your wife had fallen into a sexual routine of quickies and the same old, same old, it might be time to amp up the foreplay a bit. Good foreplay is a prerequisite for amazing sex. It’s a crucial step for taking things from satisfactory to downright sensational. Some women even find foreplay to be more intimate than the act of sex itself.

To get back in the foreplay game, the first thing you need to remember is that many women need emotional and mental stimulation before physical stimulation. To really make the night sizzle, start the foreplay a few hours before:

Create a relaxing, sensual environment. Eliminating possible distractions, clean up any lingering messes, and make sure the nightly chores are taken care of.

Ease into things with a romantic massage. Grab some candles and massage oil to set the mood. To turn up the heat a notch, try Wicked’s Ultra Warming Lubricant. The aromatics are great for a massage, and it can pull double duty as a lubricant later on.

How to keep it going

When she’s fully relaxed and ready for more, tease her a bit and build the anticipation by kissing her everywhere but her mound. Trace the curves of her body and awaken every inch of her with your fingers, lips, and tongue. Pay special attention to the popular erogenous zones—the neck, down the spine, and the inner thighs. And give her breasts the attention they crave by pleasuring them just as you would her clitoris with massaging, licking, and sucking.

Your options for foreplay are limited to your imagination. You can sensually undress one another, put on a strip tease, shower or take a warm bath together, and experiment with dirty talk. If you’re really feeling frisky, try a pair of satin handcuffs or a Beginner’s Bondage Set, complete with a feather duster and blindfold. Good things can come from thinking outside the box.

Send a naughty sext & photo while encouraging her to get started before you enter the room.

Dr. Kat Van Kirk Adam & Eve's resident sexologist

What’s next

Finally, never forget the importance of communication.

Use your wife’s non-verbal cues to guide you during foreplay. Moans will indicate that she’s enjoying it, but watch the way she moves her body as a guide.

Different people get off to different things. Talking about what turns your wife on can take her experience, and yours, to another level.

Don’t knock it ‘til you try it. Taking the time to tag every base can make sliding into home better than you could have imagined.

Getting started

If you’re looking for ways to have better foreplay with your boyfriend—great! Skipping foreplay is a very common, but it’s a big sexual blunder that many couples are guilty of. Acts of foreplay can be more intimate and telling of a person’s feelings than sex itself. When you slow things down, foreplay can provide opportunities to show your boyfriend how much you care.

The first thing you should remember is that foreplay can start hours before the night gets steamy. If you want to help him get in the mood:

Light some candles. Candles might seem cliché, but scents like vanilla, lavender, and cinnamon can be powerful aphrodisiacs.

Create anticipation by establishing touch. Caress your boyfriend’s back, nuzzle his neck, or give him a lingering kiss on the cheek to build up the night.

Share a drink together, or offer him a sensual massage. He can then quiet his mind and relax every muscle of his body. An intimate massage is a great way to ease into more erotic forms of foreplay. You can also take a bath or shower together. Grab a body sponge and continue the aromatics by using Kama Sutra’s Luxury Bathing Gel to wash any place he wishes.

How to keep it going

When you’re both ready for the night to progress, start with kissing. Kissing is an intimate way to show your boyfriend how much you love and desire him. Change things up from your usual style and linger a bit longer or pull away sooner than usual. If your boyfriend is OK with it, try lightly sucking or biting on his neck or bottom lip. It’s an easy, nonverbal way to let him know that tonight is something to be savored.

When you’re ready, undressing one another can be incredibly erotic, especially if you wait and pleasure each newly naked area at a time. After you remove his shirt, kiss him all along the curves his body, paying special attention to his erogenous zones—ears, neck, chest, and nipples. During this time, you can start slowly moving your hand down to his genitals, teasing him by rubbing and massaging all the areas around his shaft, including the perineum and scrotum. When he can’t take anymore, remove his pants and start venturing down south.

Start by slowly stroking his shaft with your hands, then move onto slowly kissing it up and down, lightly licking it as you go along. This is also a great time to start pleasuring his anus. You can use your finger or introduce some new toys like A&E’s Sassy Anal Beads for added excitement.

Send a naughty sext & photo while encouraging him to get started before you enter the room.

Dr. Kat Van Kirk Adam & Eve's resident sexologist

What’s next

Remember, great foreplay can greatly benefit your sex life.

Pay close attention to non-verbal cues. You’ll see what he’s enjoying during foreplay, but don’t discount verbal communication as well.

Different things motivate, relax, and turn on different people. Talking about it can truly make the final act one to remember.

Don’t be afraid to pop in an adult film. It might just spur your imagination!

Getting started

When you stop wondering how far you’re going to go with your partner, you tend to skip all of the preliminary practices. Not surprisingly, once you’ve been together for a while, foreplay tends to take a backseat in your sex life. But skipping foreplay is a big sexual blunder. Taking the time to slow things down before the main event has some great benefits.

If you want to make the experience more enjoyable for you and your husband, there are a few easy steps you can take:

Make sure there’s nothing around to distract him. Pick up any lingering messes, finish any nightly chores, and light some candles. Candles might seem cheesy, but scents like vanilla, lavender, and cinnamon can be powerful aphrodisiacs.

Create anticipation by establishing touch. Caress your boyfriend’s back, nuzzle his neck, or give him a lingering kiss on the cheek to build up the night.

Offer to give him a massage or draw him a warm bath. A massage or sharing a bath together is a great way to ease into more erotic forms of foreplay.

How to keep it going

When you’re both ready for the night to progress, start with kissing. It’s a passionate way to show your husband how much you love and desire him. Try changing it up from your usual style to give him some added excitement. Linger a bit longer or pull away sooner than usual. If you’re husband is OK with it, try lightly sucking or biting on his neck or bottom lip. It’s an easy, nonverbal way to let him know that tonight is something to be savored.

When you’re ready, undressing one another can be incredibly erotic, especially if you wait and pleasure each newly naked area at a time. After you remove his shirt, kiss him all along the curves his body, paying special attention to his erogenous zones—ears, neck, chest, and nipples. During this time, you can start slowly moving your hand down to his genitals, teasing him by rubbing and massaging all the areas around his shaft, including the perineum and scrotum. When you’re done teasing him you can slowly begin to venture down south.

Next, slowly kiss up and down his shaft, lightly licking it as you go along. This is also a great time to start pleasuring his anus. Use your finger, or introduce some new toys for extra excitement. You can also add a dab of Packin’ Heat Prostate Stimulation Gel on the tip of your finger, or a toy to increase his P-Spot sensitivity.

Send a naughty sext & photo while encouraging him to get started before you enter the room.

Dr. Kat Van Kirk Adam & Eve's resident sexologist

What’s next

Keep an open mind on new ideas to build your husband’s arousal.

Try warming lube. Use it for a massage or during penetration to spice up the night.

Don’t be afraid to pop in an adult film. It might just spur your imagination!

Getting started

Sex can change a lot during a relationship. If you happen to find yourself in a sexual rut, or things just don’t seem to be clicking for you and your girlfriend between the sheets, there are some things you can do to make the experience better for you both.

First things first, you’re going to have to set the mood. Start by creating a relaxing, sensual environment:

Eliminate distractions. Pick up any lingering messes, and use some candles or essential oils to make the room smell inviting.

Make your home an electronics-free zone for the night. It will help you both focus on one another, rather than your phones.

Offer her a full-body massage. She’ll be able to relax her mind and her muscles. Make it special with a 3-in-1 Suntouched Massage Candle. The aromatics are enticing, and the subsequent oil can be used to massage every inch of her.

How to keep it going

After the massage, don’t rush straight into sex. Instead, take plenty of time to physically arouse her with foreplay. Foreplay promotes blood flow to your girlfriend’s genitals, increasing her arousal and natural lubricants. This makes sex more enjoyable and comfortable for you both. Start by teasing every inch of her body. Run your hands along her curves, kissing, licking, or gently biting as you go along. When she’s teeming with anticipation, slowly start stroking her outer vagina, working your way towards her clitoris.

Insert one finger into her opening, slowly moving in and out to let her adjust to the width of your finger. When you think she’s ready, insert another finger and make a “come hither” motion, massaging her G-Spot as you do so. You’ll recognize the G-Spot as the spongy piece of skin in the direction of her pelvis. After a few minutes, start pleasuring her orally at the same time. Use a combination sucking and licking motion to really drive her wild. With your free hand, cup her breasts or buttocks, or tease her nipples for added pleasure.

When you’re ready to move onto penetration, continue a multi-stimulation practice. Many positions, such as cowgirl or a spooning position, provide you with a free hand to rub your girlfriend’s clitoris, or massage her anus or breasts. If you want to make things a little more exciting for you both, consider investing in a new toy. You can kink things up a bit with a blindfold and satin handcuffs, or try a bullet vibrator like the Power Bullet Mini that can pleasure her in any sexual position.

Suggest a new location for your romp: the sofa, the shower, wherever! And don't be afraid to bring a toy along.

Dr. Kat Van Kirk Adam & Eve's resident sexologist

What’s next

If you want to make sex last longer you have a few options:

Wear a condom. They can help decrease sensation, and some textured varieties can make sex more enjoyable for her.

Extend the amount of time that you pleasure your girlfriend before penetration. For most women, it’s the easiest way for them to reach orgasm, and she’ll certainly appreciate your selfless acts in the bedroom.

Getting started

All sexual relationships ebb and flow. Sometimes the sex is great at the beginning, but the sparks fade over time. Other times, the sex can be downright awkward at first, but it becomes mind-blowing once you get to know your partner’s likes and dislikes. It’s natural for each relationship to go through high and low points, but that’s not to say you’re powerless to change it. There are certain things you can do to bring you and your wife back to a sexual peak.

First, you want to set the mood. Start by creating a relaxing, sensual environment:

Eliminate distractions. Pick up any lingering messes, and use some candles or essential oils to make the room smell inviting.

Offer her a full-body massage. She’ll be able to relax her mind and her body. Make it extra special with a glass of wine or champagne, aromatic candles, and sensuous massage oils. Varieties like A&E’s Turn It Up Warming Lubricant pull double duty as massage oil for now and lubricant for later.

How to keep it going

If you’ve been together for a while, it’s natural for kissing and foreplay to take a back seat to the main event. However, both allow you to connect to your wife on a deeper, more intimate level, making them a crucial component to mind-blowing sex. Start by kissing her all over her body. Pay special attention to her sensitive erogenous zones—the curve of her neck, her collarbone, her breast and nipples, along her spine, and her inner thighs. Take a while to focus solely on teasing her breasts, and then slowly work your way down between her legs.

A multi-stimulation practice is perfect for women that enjoy penetration, but can only climax through clitoral stimulation. First, slowly insert one finger into her opening, and then another, making a “come hither” motion with your fingers to stroke her G-Spot. You can identify the G-Spot by its characteristically spongy feel. When she’s ready for more, start to pleasure her orally at the same time, alternating between sucking and licking her clitoris. Use your free hand to cup her breasts or buttocks, or tease her nipples for added pleasure.

Continue the multi-stimulation practice as you transition to penetration. Positions like cowgirl or a spooning position allow you a free hand to rub your wife’s clitoris, or massage her anus or breasts. To make things even more exciting, consider a new toy. Kink it up with a blindfold and satin handcuffs, or try a small bullet vibrator like A&E’s Vibrating Silver Bullet to pleasure her clitoris no matter what sexual position you’re in.

Suggest a new location for your romp: the sofa, the shower, wherever! And don't be afraid to bring a toy along.

Dr. Kat Van Kirk Adam & Eve's resident sexologist

What’s next

If you want to make sex last longer for her sake, you have a few options:

Wear a condom. They can help decrease the sensation, and textured varieties can make sex more enjoyable for her.

Extend the amount of time that you pleasure her before penetration. For most women, it’s the easiest way for them to reach orgasm, and she’ll certainly appreciate your selfless acts in the bedroom.

Getting started

It’s perfectly natural for sexual relationships to have high and low points. But no matter where your sex life with your boyfriend currently is on the bell curve, there are still ways you can make it better.

If you want to have better sex, it’s going to require a little planning:

Before getting started, consider giving yourself an enema. It may seem embarrassing, but your boyfriend will certainly appreciate it. Try the My Shiney Hiney Complete Set to ensure your cleanliness.

Touch your boyfriend throughout the evening. Physical contact, like holding hands, embracing, or rubbing his back can reaffirm the love and care you have for him, as well as establish a strong physical connection that’s crucial for mind-blowing sex.

Take things to the next level. Try a sensual massage or take a warm bath together. It’s a surefire way to help things flow into more erotic forms of play.

How to keep it going

When things start to heat up, don’t skip foreplay. Foreplay can help you both achieve a heightened state of arousal, which can lead to a more intense climax. Take things slow at first, exploring his entire body with your hands. Then move to deep kissing, focusing on your boyfriend’s erogenous zones like his ears, neck, and chest. Build anticipation by undressing him slowly, then kiss, lick, and nibble your way down to his penis.

When you move things to the next level, try a multi-stimulation tactic. If you’re giving him oral sex, use a dab of lube and insert one finger into his anus, massaging his prostate. For something a little more outside the box, invest in a prostate massager. Varieties like the Ez-Reach Prostate Probe are angled to specifically target the prostate, massaging it with vibrations that are pretty impossible for a normal person to replicate on their own. If you let your boyfriend manipulate the toy, you can use your two free hands to pleasure him elsewhere. In the right position, you might even find that you can mount him.

If your boyfriend prefers for you to enter him, use plenty of lube to make it as comfortable as possible. Experiment with warming lube or flavored varieties on his anus and penis for a new spin on things. You can use a free hand to masturbate him or pick out a new stroker toy. Toys like the Vicky Quicke Double Ender Stroker are designed to replicate the look and feel of an anus or vagina, so he can enjoying the feeling of being penetrated in addition to enjoying the penetration feeling on his own penis.

Suggest a new location for your romp: the sofa, the shower, wherever! And don't be afraid to bring a toy along.

Dr. Kat Van Kirk Adam & Eve's resident sexologist

What’s next

Keep a few things in mind to make the night extra special:

Keep breathing. Deep breathing through a climax can increase your sexual potency and make the feeling even more intense.

Have an open discussion about your sexual fantasies. Sometimes your imagination can make sex more incredible than anything physical.

Sex doesn’t have to decline as your relationship progresses. With a little work, you can make it better for years to come.

Getting started

It’s perfectly natural for sexual relationships to have high and low points. But no matter where your sex life with your husband stands, there are still ways you can make it better.

But first, if you want to have better sex, it’s requires a little planning:

Before getting started, consider giving yourself an enema. It may seem embarrassing, but your husband will certainly appreciate it. If it’s a step you’ve grown accustomed to skipping over the years, try the Colt Bum Buddy Douche to ensure your cleanliness.

Touch your husband throughout the evening. Physical contact, like holding hands, embracing, or rubbing his back can reaffirm the love and care you have for him, as well as establish a strong physical connection.

Lead into more erotic forms of foreplay. Give him a sensual massage or offer to take a bath together. You can also take advantage massage and bath oils with aphrodisiac scents like vanilla, lavender, and cinnamon.

How to keep it going

When things start to heat up, don’t skip foreplay. It can help you both achieve a heightened state of arousal, which can lead to a more intense climax. Take things slow at first, exploring his entire body with your hands. Then move to deep kissing, focusing on your husband’s erogenous zones like his ears, neck, and chest. Build anticipation by undressing him slowly, then kiss, lick, and nibble your way down to his penis.

When you move things to the next level, try a multi-stimulation tactic. If you’re giving him oral sex, use a dab of lube and insert one finger into his anus, massaging his prostate. For something a little more outside the box, invest in a prostate massager. They’re angled to specifically target the gland, massaging it with vibrations that are impossible for a person to replicate on their own. If you let your husband manipulate the toy on his own, you can use your two free hands to pleasure him elsewhere. In the right position, you might even find that you can mount him.

If your husband prefers for you to enter him, use plenty of lube to make it as comfortable as possible. Experiment with warming lube or flavored varieties on his anus and penis for a new spin on things. You can use a free hand to masturbate him or pick out a new stroker for him. Toys like the Super Sucker are designed to replicate the look and feel of oral sex, so he can enjoying the feeling of being penetrated in addition to enjoying the sucking feeling on his own penis.

Suggest a new location for your romp: the sofa, the shower, wherever! And don't be afraid to bring a toy along.

Dr. Kat Van Kirk Adam & Eve's resident sexologist

What’s next

Keep a few things in mind to make the night extra special:

Keep breathing. Deep breathing through a climax can increase your sexual potency and make the feeling even more intense.

Have an open discussion about your sexual fantasies. Sometimes your imagination can make sex more incredible than anything physical.

Sex doesn’t have to decline as your relationship progresses. With a little work, you can make it better for years to come.

Getting started

In many cases, it’s easier for a man to reach orgasm than it is for a woman. So if you’re looking to make climaxing even more pleasurable and intense for your girlfriend—kudos! Finding new ways to make the experience better for her is a true sign of a caring and conscientious lover.

For starters, many women can only reach orgasm through clitoral stimulation, so it’s a logical place to focus. It might help if you think of your girlfriend’s clitoris like a tiny version of your own penis—an odd analogy, but nonetheless accurate. The same sensations you enjoy on your penis, she’s likely to enjoy herself:

Start with touching. Massaging, sucking, stroking, and even some light, playful pats.

Establish boundaries. These actions can send a rush of blood to the area, but just make sure she’s OK with it before going too far.

How to keep it going

A small bullet-style toy is a great way to accentuate her clitoral experience. Finger varieties, such as the Fingo Nubby, are less cumbersome and allow you to pleasure other areas of her body with your free hand and your mouth. You can play with her breasts, insert a finger or two to stroke her G-spot, or massage her anus.

It’s also important to remember that, just like the penis, the clitoris is extremely sensitive after a clitoral orgasm. Sometimes, it can get to the point of being painful depending on the person. Instead of continuing to stimulate the clitoris directly, alternate massaging the areas above, below, and all around the center. Different areas and ranges of motions can help your partner achieve multiple orgasms.

A multi-stimulation practice can also be highly effective if you’re trying to improve her orgasms during intercourse. Try different positions during vaginal or anal intercourse that allow you to (comfortably) manually stimulate her clitoris. And again, toys can be a big help. Rabbit vibrators such as the Bendies Triple Tease Vibrator are designed to tease her G-spot and stimulate her clitoris, leaving you free to tantalize every other inch of her body. A drop of lubricant can also significantly increase her comfort, though be sure that the lube is safe for use with your choice of toys and condoms.

Embrace the erogenous zones & research the G-Spot like you're studying for a final exam.

Is she curving her body a little to one side? Correct yourself to fit her direction.

Before you know it, your girlfriend will be putty in your hands, and you’ll be in for a night of sensational praise.

Getting started

Over time, it’s natural for things to become a little routine in the bedroom. Maybe you’re getting the job done so-to-speak, but you want to make the experience even better?

If you’re looking to make climaxing even more pleasurable and intense for your wife—kudos! It’s important that you’re both completely satisfied and fulfilled in the bedroom, and taking the initiative to find new ways to make the experience better for her is a true sign of a caring and conscientious lover.

For starters, many women can only reach orgasm through clitoral stimulation, so it’s a logical place to focus. It might help if you think of your wife’s clitoris like a small version of your own penis—an odd analogy, but nonetheless accurate. The same sensations you enjoy on your penis, she’s likely to enjoy herself:

Start with touching. Massaging, sucking, stroking, and even some light, playful pats.

Establish boundaries. These actions can send a rush of blood to the area, but just make sure she’s OK with it before going too far.

How to keep it going

Introducing some new toys can bring an added element of excitement and intensity to the bedroom. Vibrators are ideal for clitoral stimulation. A small bullet-style toy is sure to make her weak in the knees. Finger varieties, such as Vedo Ayu’s Finger Vibrators, are less cumbersome and allow you to pleasure other areas of her body with your free hand and your mouth. You can play with her breasts, insert a finger or two to stroke her G-spot, or massage her anus. Alternate massaging the areas above, below, and all around the center. Different areas and ranges of motions can help your partner achieve multiple orgasms.

A multi-stimulation practice can also be highly effective if you’re trying to improve her orgasms during intercourse. Try different positions during vaginal or anal intercourse that allow you to (comfortably) manually stimulate her clitoris. And again, toys can be a big help. Rabbit vibrators such as the Wild G-Spot Vibrator are designed to tease her G-spot and stimulate her clitoris, leaving you free to tantalize every other inch of her body. A drop of lubricant can also significantly increase her comfort, though be sure that the lube is safe for use with your choice of toys and condoms.

Embrace the erogenous zones & research the G-Spot like you're studying for a final exam.

Dr. Kat Van Kirk Adam & Eve's resident sexologist

What’s next

Pay attention to your wife’s body language and nonverbal clues.

Is she moaning and smiling? Keep doing what you’re doing.

Is she leaning into you? Increase the pressure or go faster.

Is she curving her body a little to one side? Correct yourself to fit her direction.

Before you know it, your wife will be putty in your hands, and you’ll be in for a night of sensational praise.

Getting started

Even if you and your boyfriend are satisfied with your sex life, there are still ways to make it better. More specifically, there are a few things you can do to help make his orgasms, and yours, more powerful and intense.

For starters, don’t underestimate the importance of foreplay. Foreplay can help you both separate your minds from the day’s worries, allowing you to redirect your attention to one another.

Build anticipation with deep kissing. Move along the curves of his body, paying special attention to erogenous zones like his neck, chest, and nipples.

Don’t jump right to penetration. Take the time to bring one another to a heightened state of arousal, be it through manual stimulation or oral sex. Whichever you decide, linger longer than usual, or pull away sooner to tease your boyfriend and keep him guessing where the night is headed.

How to keep it going

The prostate gland can provide a man with one of the most intense orgasms imaginable. Some men can have a prostate orgasm with only their partner’s penis, but even they can achieve more powerful orgasms using a more specialized practice. The prostate is a round or oblong protrusion located approximately two inches inside the rectum, towards the pelvis. Because of its location, a finger or specially designed toy can be a much more effective and intense way to pleasure it.

If you’ve already experimented with your finger, try taking things to the next level with a toy like the Waterproof Prostate Massager. The rounded, curved head is specially angled to target the prostate’s exact location. With a little lube for comfort, it’s sure to make your boyfriend weak in the knees.

The benefit of using a toy is that your boyfriend can manipulate it himself, leaving you with two free hands to pleasure him elsewhere. A multi-stimulation practice can lead to a truly euphoric sexual experience. You can continue to masturbate him or give him oral sex, all while rubbing your hands all over his erogenous zones. Certain positions may also allow you to mount him.

There are also toys that you can utilize to pleasure his shaft. The textured lining of Fleshlight Quickshot Vantage Stroker provides sensations that can’t be recreated with a hand or mouth. If you use the toy at the same time, you can gently lick and suck on his scrotum, and use your free hand to pleasure him elsewhere.

Embrace a new erogenous zone & find out what really gets him going. Communication is key.

Dr. Kat Van Kirk Adam & Eve's resident sexologist

What’s next

Keep a few things in mind to take your boyfriend’s orgasms, and yours, to the next level:

Remember to breathe. Amazing sex can take your breath away, but if you encourage one another to breath deeply, it can increase your sexual endurance and potentially extend your orgasms.

The mind is a powerful thing. Talking about your deepest desires might make you blush, but living out your wildest fantasies can give you the best orgasm of your life.

As long as you keep an open mind, you’ll be well on your way to better, and possibly more orgasms than ever before.

Getting started

Even if you and your husband are satisfied with your sex life, there are still ways to make it better. More specifically, there are a few things you can do to help make his orgasms, and yours, more intense and powerful than ever.

It all starts with a little foreplay. Don’t underestimate its important, because foreplay can help you both separate your minds from the day’s worries. This allows you to redirect your attention to one another.

Build anticipation with deep kissing. Move along the curves of his body, paying special attention to erogenous zones like his neck, chest, and nipples.

Next, don’t jump right to penetration. Take the time to bring one another to a heightened state of arousal, be it through manual stimulation or oral sex. Whichever you decide, linger longer than usual, or pull away sooner to tease your husband and keep him guessing where the night is headed.

How to keep it going

The prostate is known by many names—the P-Spot, the male G-Spot, or the sacred spot, just to name a few—but more importantly, it’s known as the gland that can provide a man with one of the most intense orgasms possible. Some men can achieve a prostate orgasm with the aid of nothing more than their partner’s penis, but even they can benefit from using a more specialized practice.

The prostate is a round or oblong gland located approximately two inches inside the rectum, towards the pelvis. Because of its location, a finger or specially designed toy can be a much more effective and intense way to pleasure it. If you’ve already experimented with your finger, try taking things to the next level with a toy like the Classix Prostate Stimulator. The toy’s curves are specially angled to target the prostate’s exact location. Add a little lube for comfort, and it’s sure to make your husband weak in the knees.

The benefit of using a toy is that your husband can manipulate it himself, leaving you with two free hands to pleasure him elsewhere. A multi-stimulation practice can lead to a truly euphoric sexual experience. You can continue to masturbate him or give him oral sex, all while rubbing your hands all over his erogenous zones. Certain positions may also allow you to mount him.

There are toys that you can utilize to pleasure his shaft. The textured lining and vibrating powers of A&E’s Vibrating Penis Sleeve Kit provide the wearer with an added sensation that can’t be recreated with a hand or mouth. If you use the two toys at the same time, you can gently lick and suck on his scrotum, and use your free hand to pleasure him elsewhere.

Embrace a new erogenous zone & find out what really gets him going. Communication is key.

Dr. Kat Van Kirk Adam & Eve's resident sexologist

What’s next

Keep a few things in mind to take your husband’s orgasms, and yours, to the next level:

Remember to breathe. Amazing sex can take your breath away, but if you encourage one another to breath deeply, it can increase your sexual endurance and potentially extend your orgasms.

The mind is a powerful thing. Talking about your deepest sexual desires might make you blush, but being able to live out your wildest fantasies can give you the best orgasm of your life.

As long as you keep an open mind, you’ll be well on your way to better, and possibly more orgasms than ever before.

Getting started

If you’re looking for ways to have better foreplay with your girlfriend, speed probably isn’t on your mind. You’re not supposed to breeze over foreplay. You’re supposed to savor it. It’s about slowing things down to appreciate, explore, and enjoy one another.

To make the experience amazing for you both, do a little prep work early on in the evening:

Create a stress-free environment. Make sure to clean up any lingering messes, and take care of any nightly chores so she’s free of physical distractions later on.

Set the mood. Turn on some of her favorite music and light candles with aphrodisiac scents such as lavender and vanilla. Also, fresh sheets are always appreciated.

How to keep it going

Remember, you’re trying to build her anticipation for the night, so establish touch early on. Caress her thighs, play with her hair, or rub her back. If you want to help her relax further, offer to draw her a bath or give her a sensual massage. With the help of soothing oils such as Miracle Oil, you can help your girlfriend melt away all the day’s worries.

When things start to get physical, take your time kissing. Start with a few light kisses, using your hands to gently caress her. Then progress to deeper, more heated kisses with tongue. If you need to slow things down a little bit, pull away slightly and start to lightly kiss the erogenous areas around her neck and collarbone. When you’re ready to return to deeper kissing, you can then focus on her breasts by slowly rubbing and teasing her nipples.

Remove her shirt and bra first so you can continue to focus solely on her breasts for a while longer before moving further down. If she’s getting antsy at this point—great! Then you know you’re doing something right. If she’s trying to move on too quickly, you could encourage her to slow things down by surprising her with a new toy. Try a Nipple Erector Set to make her nipples more sensitive, or for something a little more outside the box, you can experiment with vibrating pasties. The excitement of a new toy is sure to grab your girlfriend’s attention and extend foreplay for longer than usual.

Send a naughty sext & photo while encouraging her to get started before you enter the room.

Dr. Kat Van Kirk Adam & Eve's resident sexologist

What’s next

It’s no secret where good foreplay can lead, but there are some things to keep in mind before moving on to more intimate acts:

Dirty talk. This can be a great way to get your blood flowing. Ask your girlfriend what she wants you to do when things start heating up, or sensually tell her what you want to do to her. The more details the better.

Talk outside of the bedroom. This can be just as beneficial. The more you know about your girlfriend’s fantasies, likes, dislikes, and turn-ons, the better your foreplay can be.

Sometimes delayed gratification can be sweeter than you imagined. You just have to have enough will power to find out.

Getting started

If you’re looking for ways to have better foreplay with your wife, speed probably isn’t on your mind. You’re not supposed to breeze over foreplay. It’s meant to be savored. It’s about slowing things down to appreciate, explore, and enjoy one another. To make the experience amazing for you both, do a little prep work early on in the evening:

Create a stress-free environment. Make sure to clean up any lingering messes, and take care of any nightly chores so she’s free of physical distractions later on.

Set the mood. Turn on some of her favorite music and light candles with aphrodisiac scents such as lavender and vanilla. A pair of fresh sheets is always appreciated, too.

How to keep it going

Remember, you’re trying to build her anticipation for the night, so establish touch early on. Caress her thighs, play with her hair, or rub her back. If you want to help her relax further, offer to draw her a bath or give her a sensual massage. With a few essential oils like Intimate Earth Aromatherapy Massage Oil , you can help your wife melt away all the day’s worries.

When things start to get physical, take your time kissing. Start with a few light kisses, using your hands to gently caress her. Then progress to deeper, more heated kisses with tongue. If you need to slow things down a little bit, pull away slightly and then softly kiss the erogenous areas around her neck and collarbone. When you’re ready to return to deeper kissing, start massaging her over her clothes. Focus on her breasts, slowly rubbing and teasing her nipples.

Remove her shirt and bra first so you can continue to focus solely on her breasts for a while longer before moving further down. If she’s getting antsy at this point—great! Then you know you’re doing something right. If she’s trying to move on too quickly, you could encourage her to slow things down by surprising her with a new toy. Try a pair of Mini Nipple Suckers to make her nipples more sensitive. For something a little different, you can experiment with vibrating pasties. The excitement of a new toy is sure to grab your wife’s attention and extend foreplay for longer than usual.

Send a naughty sext & photo while encouraging her to get started before you enter the room.

Dr. Kat Van Kirk Adam & Eve's resident sexologist

What’s next

It’s no secret where good foreplay can lead, but there are some things to keep in mind before moving on to more intimate acts:

Dirty talk. This can be a great way to get your blood flowing. Ask your wife what she wants you to do when things start heating up, or sensually tell her what you want to do to her. The more details the better.

Talk outside of the bedroom. This can be just as beneficial. The more you know about your wife’s fantasies, likes, dislikes, and turn-ons, the better your foreplay can be.

Sometimes delayed gratification can be sweeter than you imagined. You just need to have the will power to find out.

Getting started

After you’ve been with someone for a while, foreplay tends to take a backseat in the bedroom. At times, men and women are both guilty of the mindset that there’s no need to drag out the intro when you could skip right to the main event. It’s common, but nevertheless, a big sexual blunder. Foreplay is essential for great sex, and with a little imagination, it can boost your intimacy in ways you never believed.

If you really want to have better foreplay with your boyfriend, you’re going to have to hop in the driver’s seat and make it happen. The next time you’re ready for a little fun between the sheets, start the foreplay an hour or two beforehand:

Establish touch early in the night. Slip a hand up the back of his shirt when you hug him, or playfully hook a finger into the top of his belt loop and pull him towards you for a quick kiss. He’ll understand pretty quickly where the night is heading.

Compliment him. Boost his ego a bit and tell him his hair looks good or that his arms are sexy. It will make your boyfriend feel confident knowing that he turns you on.

How to keep it going

Spend some time kissing like you did when you first started dating. Think high school heavy petting and grinding make out session. Not only is it erotic, it’s also a fun way to make the relationship feel new again.

Also, a little shopping can come in handy here. Lingerie, for example, can be the perfect tool for slowing things down when he starts going too fast. The right lingerie can make him stop dead in his tracks. Instead of taking off more clothes, he’ll want you to show off what you have on. And don’t be afraid to pop in an adult film. The right movie can definitely get your blood pumping and will certainly divert his attention for a bit. They’re also great for inspiration for new sex and foreplay moves, and some, like The Better Sex Video Series, can even walk you through them.

When things get really physical, set the pace, and explore his entire body with your hands, lips, and tongue, eventually moving your way down to his penis. If he’s not hard yet, get him there with a hand job or oral sex with a little dab of lube. Options like A&E’s Flavored Lubricants are ideal when switching between masturbation and oral sex. Just stay mindful of how close he is to climaxing. If you don’t want your boyfriend to finish yet, pull away every so often so he doesn’t get too excited. However, if your boyfriend has a quick turnaround, you could let him finish at this time. Then, he can return the favor during the time it takes for him to get hard again.

Send a naughty sext & photo while encouraging him to get started before you enter the room.

Dr. Kat Van Kirk Adam & Eve's resident sexologist

What’s next

Foreplay can and should be fun, erotic, and intimate, but delaying sex can be a challenge.

Slow down. In the heat of things, there’s a chance he’ll get too excited and try to rush you along. If that happens, just pull away, give him a sly smile, and tell him to slow it down a bit.

Don’t underestimate communication. Tell your boyfriend you’d like to try some new ways to make foreplay better, and he’ll probably bring a few ideas of his own to the bedroom.

Instant gratification isn’t always best. Try a few of these tips out for yourself, and see if you don’t agree.

Getting started

After you’ve been with someone for a while, foreplay tends to take a backseat in the bedroom. At times, men and women are both guilty of the mindset that there’s no need to drag out the intro when you could skip to the main event. It’s common, but nevertheless, a big sexual blunder. Foreplay is essential for great sex, and with a little imagination, it can boost your intimacy in ways you never imagined.

If you really want to have better foreplay with your husband, you’re going to have to hop in the driver’s seat and make it happen. The next time you’re ready for a little fun between the sheets, start the foreplay an hour or two beforehand:

Establish touch early in the night. Slip a hand up the back of his shirt when you hug him, or playfully hook a finger into the top of his belt and pull him towards you for a quick kiss. He’ll understand pretty quickly where the night is heading.

Compliment him. Boost his ego a bit and tell him his hair looks good or that his arms are sexy. It will make your husband feel confident knowing that he turns you on.

How to keep it going

Spend some time kissing like you did when you first started dating. Think high school heavy petting and grinding make out session. Not only is it erotic, it’s also a fun way to make the relationship feel new again.

Sometimes, a little shopping can do your sex life good. Lingerie can be the perfect tool for slowing things down when he starts going too fast. The right lingerie can make him stop dead in his tracks. Instead of taking off more clothes, he’ll want you to show off what you have on. And don’t be afraid to pop in an adult film. The right movie can definitely get your blood pumping. They’re great for inspiration for new sex and foreplay moves. Some, like Great Sex For A Lifetime, can even walk you through them.

When things get really physical, set the pace, and explore his entire body with your hands, lips, and tongue, eventually moving your way down to his penis. If he’s not hard yet, get him there with a hand job or oral sex with a little dab of lube. Options like ID’s Juicy Lube are ideal when switching between masturbation and oral sex. Just stay mindful of how close he is to climaxing. If you don’t want your husband to finish yet, pull away every so often so he doesn’t get too excited. However, if your husband has a quick turnaround, you could let him finish at this time. Then, he can return the favor during the time it takes for him to get hard again.

Send a naughty sext & photo while encouraging him to get started before you enter the room.

Dr. Kat Van Kirk Adam & Eve's resident sexologist

What’s next

Foreplay can and should be fun, erotic, and intimate, but delaying sex can be rough.

Slow down. In the heat of things, there’s a chance he’ll get too excited and try to rush you along. If that happens just pull away, give him a sly smile, and tell him to slow it down a bit.

Don’t underestimate communication. Tell your husband you’d like to try some new ways to make foreplay better, and he’ll probably bring a few ideas of his own to the bedroom.

Instant gratification isn’t always best. Try a few of these tips out for yourself, and see if you don’t agree.

Getting started

Even if your sex life is good, there’s always a new move, technique, or toy you can use to improve the experience for you and your girlfriend. All you need is a little confidence, and a little push in the right directions.

First, if you want to improve your sex, you’re going to have to start with the foreplay:

Foreplay is crucial to a quality sex life. Arousal increases blood flow to the genitals, creating more powerful, intense orgasms.

Foreplay can be anything. It could be a relaxing bath together, kissing and heavy petting—basically, whatever it takes to get you both in the mood.

How to keep it going

When things start to get heated, take plenty of time to pleasure one another orally. Good cunnilingus is an extremely important part of a satisfying sexual relationship for women. First, remember that the clitoris is much more than visible button. The surrounding area is also very sensitive. Also, there should be a lot more going on than licking with the tip of your tongue. Remember, it’s not an ice cream cone. Use your entire mouth to your advantage while you try different tactics. Alternate between sucking on the hood and button, then flatten your tongue and lick the entire area.

You should also make sure that you’re constantly pleasuring more than one area at a time. For example, even though some women can’t orgasm through penetration alone, that doesn’t mean they don’t enjoy it. While you’re going down on her, try inserting a finger or two and massaging your girlfriend’s G-Spot. If she’s craving a deeper sensation, try a vibrator or a dildo for added length. If you don’t need to use your other hand to separate her lips, use it to tease her nipples or slip a finger in her anus. Some toys, like the Nipple Erector Set, even work to cover one of her erogenous areas completely, so you can focus your attention elsewhere.

In addition, a lot of couples struggle with being unable to pleasure one another at the same time. A position like 69 may give you both access, but it can be uncomfortable. And a double-sided toy can be fun, but they’re not always effective. If you’re feeling bold, you could spice things up by trying a new hands-free toy like the Love Rider Self Pleasurizer. These boyshorts come complete with a short probe that you can insert to massage your G-Spot and a vibrating bullet to tantalize your clitoris at the same time. Wear them and your girlfriend can watch you get off while you’re pleasuring her, which will undoubtedly turn her on even more.

Suggest a new location for your romp: the sofa, the shower, wherever! And don't be afraid to bring a toy along.

Dr. Kat Van Kirk Adam & Eve's resident sexologist

What’s next

Like it or not, better sex starts with communication:

Be open and honest. Talk about what you like and don’t like in bed. She’ll likely show you the same courtesy so you can make the experience better for her too.

Talk about fantasies ! Great sex is a combination of mental, emotional, and physical stimuli. Exploring your deepest desires with one another can lead you to a night of fun, adventure, and some of the most exhilarating sex you’ve ever had.

Life is too short for an average sex life. Why not make it the best it can be? At least you’re sure to have fun trying!

Getting started

Even if your sex life is good, there’s always a new move, technique, or toy you can use to improve the experience for you and your wife. All you need is a little confidence, and a little push in the right directions.

First, if you want to improve your sex, you’re going to have to start with the foreplay:

Foreplay is crucial to a quality sex life. Arousal increases blood flow to the genitals, creating more powerful, intense orgasms.

Foreplay can consist of anything. It could be a relaxing bath with one another, to kissing and heavy petting—basically, it’s whatever it takes to get you both in the mood.

How to keep it going

When things start to get heated, take plenty of time to pleasure one another orally. Good cunnilingus is an extremely important part of a satisfying sexual relationship for women. First, remember that the clitoris is much more than visible button, because the surrounding area is also very sensitive. Also, there should be a lot more going on than licking with the tip of your tongue. Remember, it’s a clit, not an ice cream cone. Use your entire mouth to your advantage while you try different tactics. Alternate between sucking on the hood and button, then flatten your tongue and lick the entire area.

You should also make sure that you’re constantly pleasuring more than one area at a time. For example, even though some women can’t orgasm through penetration alone, that doesn’t mean they don’t enjoy it. While you’re going down on her, try inserting a finger or two and massaging your wife’s G-Spot. If she’s craving a deeper sensation, try a vibrator or a dildo for added length. If you don’t need to use your other hand to separate her lips, use it to tease her nipples or slip a finger in her anus. Some toys, such as the Nipple Play Nipple Teasers, even work to cover one of her erogenous areas completely, so you can focus your attention elsewhere.

In addition, a lot of couples struggle with being unable to pleasure one another at the same time. A position like 69 may give you both access, but it can be uncomfortable. And a double-sided toy can be fun, but they’re not always effective. If you’re feeling bold, you could spice things up by trying a new hands-free toy like Neon’s Vibrating Panty & Pasty Set. The thong has a special pocket where you can hide the vibrating bullet to tantalize your clitoris while you go down on your wife. Wear them and she can watch you get off while you’re pleasuring her, which will undoubtedly turn her on even more.

Suggest a new location for your romp: the sofa, the shower, wherever! And don't be afraid to bring a toy along.

Dr. Kat Van Kirk Adam & Eve's resident sexologist

What’s next

Like it or not, better sex starts with communication:

Have an open and honest discussion about sex. Talk about what you like and don’t like in bed. She’ll likely show you the same courtesy so you can make the experience better for her too.

Talk about fantasies ! Great sex is a combination of mental, emotional, and physical stimuli. Exploring your deepest desires with one another can lead you to a night of fun, adventure, and some of the most exhilarating sex you’ve ever had.

Life is too short for an “OK“ sex life. Why not make it the best it can be? At least you’re sure to have fun trying!

Getting started

Sex should never be described as “OK.” Sex, especially with a partner like your boyfriend, should excite you. It should make your heart race. It should make you weak in the knees and eager for more. You should never settle for “OK.”

With a few easy tips, you can spice up your sex life and make the experience incredible for you and your boyfriend. And it all starts with some steamy foreplay. It’s probably a step you started to breeze over the more comfortable you became with one another. But foreplay is practically a prerequisite for earth-shattering sex. It heightens anticipation, increases your desire, and makes you hungry for more. The key is taking your time, and not rushing the evening.

To better your foreplay:

Make out. Make out like you did at the start of your relationship with all the heavy petting, grinding, and lip biting action of a couple of sex-crazed teenagers.

Move across his body. Once the clothes start coming off, kiss, nibble, and rub your way all over your boyfriend’s body. Men and women share a lot of the same erogenous zones, including the neck, ears, and chest.

How to keep it going

Next, take the time to pleasure one another orally. When going down on your boyfriend, use your hand as an extension of your mouth. Even if you can’t fit your boyfriend’s entire penis in your mouth, using your hand will make it feel as though you are. With your free hand, gently tease his scrotum, massage his chest, or engage in light anal play if he’s into it.

When you’re ready to move to penetration, multi-stimulation is key. Certain positions are going to make you feel tighter for him, and the increased friction can benefit you both. Try laying flat on the bed with your legs closed, and have him enter you from behind. It’s an ideal position for massaging your G-Spot, and he’ll certainly enjoy the view. For additional friction on your clitoris, a bullet vibrator like the Power Bullet Mini might yield the best results. The vibrator’s small, smooth design makes it easy to pleasure yourself even when you’re laying on your stomach.

You can also try giving the classic cowgirl position a twist. Again, the angle is great for your G-Spot, and he’ll agree that the view is hard to beat. It can also give him a bit of a break from doing all the work. When you’re on top, you can control the speed, and having both your hands free means you can use them to tease other parts of his body, and yours.

Suggest a new location for your romp: the sofa, the shower, wherever! And don't be afraid to bring a toy along.

Dr. Kat Van Kirk Adam & Eve's resident sexologist

What’s next

Finally, there are two things you should remember to make your sex life better:

Kegel exercises can help strengthen your orgasm. Also, the added tightness will feel great for him. If you’re a beginner, try A&E’s Flexi Wand. The balls are attached to a handle for easy insertion and removal.

Be enthusiastic. Every man wants to know that they’re doing a good job in bed. Throw modesty out the window and let him know just how much fun you’re having.

It’s inevitable that your sex life will change over your years together, but that doesn’t mean you can’t change it for the better!

Getting started

Sex should never be described as “OK.” Sex, especially with a longtime partner like your husband, should excite you. It should make your heart race. It should make you weak in the knees and eager for more.

You shouldn’t settle for “OK.” With a few easy tips, you can spice up your sex life and make the experience incredible for you and your husband. And it all starts with some steamy foreplay. It’s probably a step you started to breeze over the more comfortable you became with one another. But foreplay is practically a prerequisite for earth-shattering sex. It heightens anticipation, increases your desire, and makes you hungry for more. The key is taking your time, and not rushing the evening.

To better your foreplay:

Make out. Make out like you did at the start of your relationship with all the heavy petting, grinding, and lip biting action of a couple of sex-crazed teenagers.

Move across his body. Once the clothes start coming off, kiss, nibble, and rub your way all over your husband’s body. Men and women share a lot of the same erogenous zones, including the neck, ears, and chest.

How to keep it going

When going down on your husband, use your hand as an extension of your mouth. Even if you can’t take your husband’s entire penis in your mouth, using your hand will make it feel as though you are. Use your free hand to gently tease his scrotum, massage his chest, or engage in light anal play if he’s a fan.

When you’re ready to move to penetration, multi-stimulation is key. Certain positions are going to make you feel tighter for him, and the increased friction can benefit you both. Try laying flat on the bed with your legs closed, and have him enter you from behind. It’s an ideal position for massaging your G-Spot, and he’ll certainly enjoy the view. For additional friction on your clitoris, a vibrator like A&E’s Purple Venus Butterfly might yield the best results. The vibrator’s small, flat design makes it easy to pleasure yourself even when you’re laying on your stomach.

You can also try giving the classic cowgirl position a twist. Again, the angle is great for your G-Spot, and he’ll agree that the view is hard to beat. It can also give him a break from most of the work. When you’re on top, you can control the speed. Additionally, having both your hands free means you can use them to tease other parts of his body, and yours.

Suggest a new location for your romp: the sofa, the shower, wherever! And don't be afraid to bring a toy along.

Dr. Kat Van Kirk Adam & Eve's resident sexologist

What’s next

Finally, there are two things you should remember to make your sex life better:

Kegel exercises can help strengthen your orgasm. Also, the added tightness will feel great for him. If you’re a beginner, try A&E’s Duo Kegel Balls. There’s an attached handle for easy insertion and removal.

Be enthusiastic. Every man wants to know that they’re doing a good job in bed. Throw modesty out the window and let him know just how much fun you’re having.

It’s inevitable that your sex life will change over your years together, but that doesn’t mean you can’t change it for the better!

Getting started

Life is short, so why waste it on more of the same old, same old? If you have the confidence and crave some adventure in the bedroom, you could give your girlfriend, and yourself, more intense and satisfying orgasms than ever before.

But first, you both need to get in the mood:

Relax. Orgasms are as much mental and emotional as they are physical. Make sure you eliminate any surrounding distractions to ease your mind. Relax your bodies with a long bath, mutual massages, or even a drink or two.

Don’t discount the importance of foreplay. Heightened sexual arousal goes hand in hand with sexual anticipation. The greater the arousal and anticipation, the greater the explosion when the big moment arrives.

How to keep it going

Once you take the time to relax and then get one another riled up, you can move on to more satisfying moves. Your best bet for mind-blowing orgasms is a multi-stimulation technique. Since most women know the quickest way to an orgasm is through clitoral stimulation, it’s an obvious place to focus.

You can start by teasing the area around the clit with your fingers to awaken the senses. Then, lightly massage her clitoris with your thumb—alternating between massaging it up and down, side-to-side, and small circles. On the same hand, insert your middle and ring finger into her opening. Make a “come hither” motion with your fingers to massage her G-Spot. Next you can swap out your thumb and start to pleasure her clitoris with oral sex. Suck, lick, and nibble her button and the surrounding areas until her legs are weak.

When you’re ready, it’s time for a triple threat. With one hand inside her, and your mouth on her clitoris, use your free hand to tease your girlfriend’s nipples, massage her buttocks, or even tickle her anus if she so desires. Pleasuring her in three different ways will surely send her over the edge. You can also swap out cunnilingus and massaging her G-Spot with your fingers for a rabbit vibrator. With styles like A&E’s Bunny Kiss, the vibrating portion pleasures her clit while the egg-shaped head perfectly massages her G-Spot. Best of all, with the addition of a second toy or bullet variety, you can both pleasure one another at the same time, so no one has to miss out on the fun.

Embrace a new erogenous zone & research the G-Spot like you're studying for a final exam.

Dr. Kat Van Kirk Adam & Eve's resident sexologist

What’s next

With a few added techniques, you’ll be able to make the big “O” bigger and better than ever:

Don’t skip your kegel exercises. A stronger pelvic floor can help give you more control over your vaginal muscles and boost your arousal. Consequently, the added blood flow can give you a more intense orgasm. You can find an exercise routine that suits your needs, or insert a pair of Ben Wa balls for a challenge.

Pay attention to your girlfriend’s nonverbal cues. If she’s leaning to one side, alter your movements to match her angle. If she’s leaning into you, keep going, maybe even increase the pressure with a harder and faster motion.

Don’t be afraid to think differently. Intense and toe-curling things can come from a little imagination.

Getting started

Life is too short to waste it on more of the same old, same old. If you have the confidence and crave some adventure in the bedroom, you could give your wife, and yourself, more intense and satisfying orgasms than ever before. First thing’s first, you both need to get in the mood:

Relax. Orgasms are as much mental and emotional as they are physical. Make sure you eliminate any surrounding distractions to ease your mind. Relax your bodies with a long bath, mutual massages, or even a drink or two.

Don’t discount the importance of foreplay. Heightened sexual arousal goes hand in hand with sexual anticipation. The greater the arousal and anticipation, the greater the explosion when the big moment arrives.

How to keep it going

Once you relax and then get one another riled up, you can move on to more satisfying moves. Your best bet for mind-blowing orgasms is a multi-stimulation technique. And since most women know the quickest way to an orgasm is through clitoral stimulation, it’s an obvious place to focus.

You can start by teasing the area around the clit with your fingers to awaken the senses. Then, lightly massage her clitoris with your thumb—alternating between massaging it up and down, side-to-side, and small circles. On the same hand, insert your middle and ring finger into her opening. Make a “come hither” motion with your fingers to massage her G-Spot. Next, swap out your thumb and start to pleasure her clit with oral sex. Suck, lick, and nibble her button and the surrounding areas until her legs are weak.

To accomplish a triple threat, ensure that you only need one hand to pleasure her clit and G-Spot, consider investing in a labia spreader. The Oral Enhancing Labia Spreader will keep you wife’s lips open for easy access. With one hand inside her and your mouth on her clit, you have a free hand to tease her nipples, massage her buttocks, or even tickle her anus if she so desires. Pleasuring her in three different ways will surely send her over the edge.

Many couples find it even more erotic and satisfying if both partners are able to experience pleasure, and potentially even climax at the same time. Double-sided toys can be fun, but they’re not always effective. Instead, a hands-free toy is ideal. To ramp up the experience even more, experiment with a toy that has a remote control. With a toy such as The Original Venus Butterfly, you can be pleasuring your wife manually or orally while she teases you by playing with the remote.

Embrace a new erogenous zone & research the G-Spot like you're studying for a final exam.

Dr. Kat Van Kirk Adam & Eve's resident sexologist

What’s next

With a few added techniques, you’ll be able to make the big “O” bigger and better than ever:

Don’t skip your kegel exercises. A stronger pelvic floor can help give you more control over your vaginal muscles and boost your arousal. Consequently, the added blood flow can give you a more intense orgasm.

Pay attention to your wife’s nonverbal cues. If she’s leaning to one side, alter your movements to match her angle. If she’s leaning into you, keep going, maybe even increase the pressure with a harder and faster motion.

Don’t be afraid to try something different. Intense and toe-curling feelings can come from a little imagination.

Getting started

You’re not impervious to changing the quality of your orgasms and your boyfriend’s orgasms. There are certain techniques you can experiment with to make them better, and more powerful than ever before. It just requires a little preparation and practice:

Relax. If you’re too self-conscious during sex, you won’t be able to let yourself get swept up in the moment and enjoy every sensation. Get a wax, buy some new lingerie, have a glass of wine, or restrict the evening to candlelight only—whatever it takes to make you feel confident enough to let your hair down.

Slow down. Most women need to reach a certain level of arousal to orgasm, so take some time to get in the mood. A little foreplay can mentally and physically help your body prepare for sex.

How to keep it going

Foreplay is subjective. Some people consider foreplay kissing, and others consider it mutual masturbation. Whichever you prefer, just take your time. When you’re ready to take things to the next level, don’t skip oral sex. Many women find it significantly easier to orgasm through oral sex and clitoral stimulation than penetration. While your boyfriend is pleasuring you, ask him to tease your clitoris with the same sensations he enjoys on his penis—sucking, licking, and massaging. If he inserts a finger and curves it upwards, he can pleasure your G-Spot at the same time.

To increase the sensation for your boyfriend, use your hand as an extension to your mouth. Even if you can’t take his entire penis in your mouth, it will feel like you are to him. And don’t worry. You don’t have to miss out on the fun while doing so. Have your boyfriend use a hands-free toy on you, while you’re going down on him. If you wear the Little Black Thong, your boyfriend can use the remote to control the panties’ vibration. Seeing you turned on and enthusiastic while going down on him will turn him on in return, and having total control over your pleasure can make him feel empowered.

Continue the multi-stimulation technique when you move to penetration. If you lay on your stomach with your legs closed, and have him enter you from behind, it will feel tighter to him. Also, the angle should effectively hit your G-Spot. Use your hand or a bullet vibrator to tease your clit at the same time for added stimulation.

Embrace a new erogenous zone & find out what really gets him going. Communication is key.

Dr. Kat Van Kirk Adam & Eve's resident sexologist

What’s next

Outside of intimacy, strengthening your kegels can give you and your boyfriend significantly better orgasms. Kegel exercises strengthen your pelvic floor, which gives you more control over the muscle that contracts during an orgasm. Your opening will feel tighter to your boyfriend, and you’ll be able to have more intense and frequent orgasms easier than ever before.

There are two popular ways to strengthen your kegels:

Contract and release the muscle yourself. If you imagine you’re trying to stop yourself from urinating, you can feel your pelvic floor tighten. Try holding the contraction for five seconds, then relaxing for five. Do as many reps as you can until you can no longer hold it.

Invest in a set of Ben Wa balls, or Magnetic Kegel Balls. Insert them and clench down on your pelvic floor to keep them in position. You can use them laying on your back, or insert them and walk around for a harder workout.

Getting started

You’re not impervious to the changing quality of your orgasms and your husband’s orgasms. There are certain techniques you can experiment with to make them better and more powerful than ever before. It just requires a little preparation and practice:

Confidence is key. If you’re too self-conscious during sex, you won’t be able to let yourself get swept up in the moment and enjoy every sensation. Buy some new lingerie, have a glass of wine, or restrict the evening to candlelight only—whatever it takes to make you feel confident.

Slow it down. Most women need to reach a certain level of arousal to orgasm, so take some time to get in the mood. A little foreplay can mentally and physically help your body prepare for sex.

How to keep it going

From making out to mutual masturbation, foreplay is subjective. Whichever you prefer, just take your time. When you’re ready to take things to the next level, don’t skip oral sex. Many women find it significantly easier to orgasm through oral sex and clitoral stimulation than penetration. While your husband is pleasuring you, ask him to tease your clitoris with the same sensations he enjoys on his penis—sucking, licking, and massaging. If he inserts a finger and curves it upwards, he can pleasure your G-Spot at the same time.

To increase the sensation for your husband, use your hand as an extension to your mouth. Even if you can’t take his entire penis in your mouth, it will feel like you are to him. And don’t worry, you don’t have to miss out on the fun while doing so. Have your husband use a hands-free toy on you while you’re going down on him. If you wear the Ohmibod Club Vibe your husband can use the remote to control the panties vibration. Seeing you turned on and enthusiastic while going down on him will turn him on in return, and having total control over your pleasure can make him feel empowered.

Continue the multi-stimulation technique when you move to penetration. If you lay on your stomach with your legs closed, and have him enter you from behind. It will feel tighter to him, and the angle should effectively hit your G-Spot. Use your hand or a bullet vibrator to tease your clit at the same time for added stimulation.

Embrace a new erogenous zone & find out what really gets him going. Communication is key.

Dr. Kat Van Kirk Adam & Eve's resident sexologist

What’s next

Outside of intimacy, strengthening your kegels can give you and your husband significantly better orgasms. Kegel exercises strengthen your pelvic floor, which gives you more control over the muscle that contracts during an orgasm. Your opening will feel tighter to your husband, and you’ll be able to have more intense and frequent orgasms easier than ever before.

There are two popular ways to strengthen your kegels:

Contract and release the muscle yourself. If you imagine you’re trying to stop yourself from urinating, you can feel your pelvic floor tighten. Try holding the contraction for five seconds, then relaxing for five. Do as many reps as you can until you can no longer hold it.

Invest in a set of Ben Wa balls. Insert them and clench down on your pelvic floor to keep them in position. You use them laying on your back, or insert them and walk around for a harder workout.