Kat Von D and Jesse James Break Up — Again

The pair, who got together shortly after James’ marriage to Hollywood sweetheart Sandra Bullock fell apart during a cheating scandal last year, have had quite a roller coaster of a relationship. They were engaged once before but split in July — right after Von D had rather unfortunately gotten a childhood visage of James tattooed on herself as a surprise gift to him.

They reconciled in August, but now it appears they’re done for good, with a source close to the couple saying, “They are … through and through finished, split, game over. They are both confident that they won’t be giving it another go. It’s the end of the road for them.”

A note on Von D’s Facebook page confirms this and apologizes “for all the ‘back and forth’ if it’s caused any confusion.”

“It was clear to me that we were just on two different paths in life,” she later told PEOPLE.