Married - and my husband and I keep separate bank accounts. We both came to the marriage with different debts and responsibilities, and some we don't share. He doesn't pay my student loans, I don't pay his child support. For going out to dinner we take turns

We share our resources, so there is no "splitting the bill" or choosing who pays because it's all the same money. We each have a personal account that we put some money in each month so we'll be able to buy personal things or get each other gifts without the other worrying about where that money went.