I am 19 and a student yet to gain admission. I have a boyfriend who used to be very caring and loving but he suddenly changed. He used to be the first to call me and the last to tell me good... Read more

I’m Bukola. I have a little problem concerning my age and stature. I am a girl 16, but I look like a 26-year-old person, it’s not that I’m very robust nor very tall, but I look big. I always... Read more

A guy I dated for 3 years and was faithful to broke my heart and now I cry all day. I even feel like ending my life just to stop thinking about him and stop being in pain. What should I do?... Read more

While courting my wife she confessed by mistake she had a baby, I didn’t care then but now I feel different. I am finding it difficult to cope with the thought especially whenever the child... Read more

Dear Adeola, I love reading your page a lot. I’m Treasure, I’m 18 years old and am dating a guy whom I love but I don’t know if he loves me due to my shyness. Please reply. I am confused and... Read more

And if you’re so bored stiff that you can’t help it, here are things you can do when staring boredom in the face, and none of them involve checking the internet. Cook a nice meal. You won’t... Read more

Hi Mrs. Deola, I am 19. I am in love with a guy who already has a baby from another lady (now his ex). Though I love him but I am afraid he might dump me because he is in his final year in t... Read more

Dear Sister Deola, good evening ma. You don’t know me but I have been a regular reader of your column for long. Please advise. I have a boyfriend that looks after me. I just found out he’s m... Read more

Perhaps the best advice you can give someone about having a relationship with a married man is telling her not to even start. However, that may not be practical for all women. As my friend J... Read more

My boyfriend and I make love but we do it on the surface of my vagina. I have never seen blood flow and when he releases inside, I take drugs to flush it out. Am I still a virgin and can I g... Read more

Hi Mrs. Adeola, I am 17 and an undergraduate and I have two love partners. The first guy I met him since my primary school through my childhood friend and we started dating since 2007. He lo... Read more

We want you to help us resolve a matter. A wife told me that the husband doesn’t trust her. She said there was a book she had about marital ethics written by a pastor. In a portion of the bo... Read more

Dear Mrs. Adeola, I am a girl of 13 and I have 3 questions to ask. I started my menses January/February this year. My blood smelt like urine for four days. Second, there are tiny boil-like t... Read more

An older friend of ours who is widowed visited us this past Monday. We had so much fun as we talked about so many things and we didn’t want the night to end, but of course, he needed to go b... Read more