Anal Play & Toys

Sex toys can bring a lot of excitement and
enjoyment into the ways we have sex, but when it comes to toys, the general
advice is do not share them.

Any sex toy not properly cleaned and then shared
with other people has the potential to transmit blood borne viruses and
sexually transmitted infections (STIs including Hepatitis C). It is easier to clean toys after play if condoms are used on them
during play. For large toys, female condoms are a useful
substitute for the use of standard condomsbecause of their size. If you would like to
purchase female condoms contact us.

To clean your toys, use plenty of soap or
detergent and hot water. Medical-grade surface cleaners or sanitisers are
available; unfortunately it is unclear how the materials toys are made from
will react with these products. Water based lube is the easiest to remove. When
using silicone or even oil based lube, extra care is necessary to remove both
traces of shit and the lube itself as this can increase a risk of an infection. In addition, if the cleaning agent is not
properly removed from toys, it may irritate the sensitive lining of the arse,
making it easier for getting or passing on HIVor other sexually transmitted infections.

Use plenty of lube when inserting dildos, butt
plugs, vibrators, beads or any other foreign object up your arse. This will
minimize the risk of cuts, abrasions and other harm during sex. Avoid sharp
edges and objects made from glass or wood because they can shatter or splinter
as well as foamy or absorbent materials that might expand or mould into place.
To see a variety of toys and gadgets available for arse play, visit your local
adult shop and don't forget to ask them what lube is most suitable for the toys
you are buying. Some silicone-based lubes can have a chemical reaction with
silicone toys breaking them down.

When it comes to inserting things up your arse,
start small and work your way up to bigger toys. Remember, the most sensitive
part of your arse is the anus not the rectum.

Don't push objects too far up your arse or they
could disappear inside. If this happens, relax! Stressing will make your
muscles contract and you will tighten up, risking moving the toy even further
in. To facilitate the passage of the object, get lots of lube up your arse and
try pushing as if you were having a dump while squatting. You can also try
laying in a bath filled with warm water as this could help the muscles relax,
allowing the object to pass back out again. If nothing works, visit the
accident and emergency department at your nearest hospital. It
wouldn't be the first, nor the last time that the medical staff there would
have come across a situation like this.

If bleeding occurs, note
the colour; if it is dark or pink, is it dripping rather than bum-snotty clots?
Monitor the situation and if it continues past an hour of your arse play
session you should get medical attention as soon as possible.