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enTo Be a Fuckboy or Not to Be a Fuckboyhttp://www.girlschase.com/content/be-fuckboy-or-not-be-fuckboy
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content="The fuckboy: a guy who offers little more to women than excitement and sex... Yet whom girls keep coming back to, even if they say the hate him.">
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<span>The fuckboy: a guy who offers little more to women than
excitement and sex... Yet whom girls keep coming back to, even if they
say the hate him.<br>
</span></p>
<p>“Am I fuckboy?” I ask.</p>
<p>She laughs hysterically over the phone. “Oh yeah, for sure!”</p>
<p>I laugh. I expected this answer, as I’ve heard it from pretty much
every other girl I’ve asked.</p>
<p>“You know what, actually,” she interjects, “I would say you’re a
fuckboy, but you’re a little bit different. You’re definitely <a
href="/content/how-be-asshole-%E2%80%93-and-become-adored-women"><span
style="font-weight: bold;">an
asshole</span></a>, but I don’t think you’re a fuckboy. I think it’s
because
you’re honest. You don’t trick girls. You are pretty straightforward
about what you want.”</p>
<div id="toc">
<p style="font-weight: bold; text-align: center;">Contents</p>
<p><a href="#what">1. What is a Fuckboy?</a></p>
<p><a href="#forbidden">2. The Forbidden Fruit</a></p>
<p><a href="#wrong">3. Is it Morally Wrong to be a Fuckboy?</a></p>
<p><a href="#grow">4. Grow Up, Hector!</a></p>
<p><a href="#how">5. How to be a Fuckboy</a><br>
</p>
</div>
<p>She’s a smart girl and one of the most loyal and devoted lovers I’ve
ever had, so her opinion is more nuanced and, frankly, more important
than the other women’s.</p>
<p>Whether through <a
href="/content/tapping-your-social-circle-meet-loads-more-girls"><span
style="font-weight: bold;">extended social circles</span></a> or very
long and frank
discussions about my hobbies, philosophies, and the kindness that I
show to friends, family, strangers, and lovers, it seems only those who
spend a good amount of time with me have seen the lover beneath the
fuckboy.</p>
<p>Yet, most won’t see that. To the majority of those I meet in life, I
will be labeled a fuckboy and described as sexist, misogynist,
disrespectful to women, and all sorts of nasty things.</p>
<p>I accept these labels if only to spit on those people. Anger and
hatred is usually a sign you’re doing something right.</p>
<p>To explore then whether the fuckboy life is right for you, I want
you to ask yourself a very simple question after reading this article.</p>
<p style="font-weight: bold;">To be a fuckboy? Or not to be a fuckboy?</p>
<p>That is the question.</p>
<p>But first…</p>
</div></div></div><span property="dc:title" content="To Be a Fuckboy or Not to Be a Fuckboy" class="rdf-meta element-hidden"></span>Fri, 09 Dec 2016 07:59:50 +0000Hector Castillo2198 at http://www.girlschase.comTactics Tuesdays: Never Explain Yourself (to Women)http://www.girlschase.com/content/tactics-tuesdays-never-explain-yourself-women
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content="“Well, the reason is because…” Lots of guys explain themselves to women. But should you ever explain yourself to her?">
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<span>“Well, the reason is because…” Lots of guys explain themselves to
women. But should you ever explain yourself to her?<br>
</span></p>
<p>Commenting on my article "<a
href="/content/she-ll-do-what-she-has-get-what-she-wants"><span
style="font-weight: bold;">She’ll Do What She Has to to Get What She
Wants</span></a>", a reader named Mr. Shark notes (emphasis added):</p>
<blockquote
style="font-style: italic; font-family: Georgia; font-size: 90%;">
<p><span style="font-size: 24px; color: rgb(204, 0, 0);">“</span>Hello,
Chase</p>
<p><span style="font-weight: bold;">I noticed that girls start to
ignore me when I explain myself.</span> It kinda bothers me because
when I screw up, its like... she is a human, <span
style="font-weight: bold;">why does not she care where I am coming
from?</span> I am sure that it can be done from position of strength
just as from position of weakness.</p>
<p>I mean stuff like on Tinder, she asks me what am I looking for
there. And I usually look at the girl and <span
style="font-weight: bold;">based on what I look for *with her*, I
answer. And it usually goes downhill. So lately, just today actually, I
said "well, I am not exactly looking for a scrabble partner, what about
you?" and she sent me this 5 row long text with lots of stuff in it.</span></p>
<p>Or like, I had a girl in a social circle, it was going well with
her over text, just had to ask her out but I wanted to see if she is
single first because I did not know so we talked about how she only has
one good friend and that its almost as hard to find a good, honest
female friend as finding a great guy. And I asked what its like when
she already has both. And she replied why do I assume she does. And I
let it be there for the day, but then in the evening I sent her some
bullshit, precise wording would be "Because that is the positive
option, not having that would be negative. And you strikes me as a girl
who would rather wait for the right guy rather than to be with a wrong
one just to be with someone". And then, we met at campus, it was weird,
it shifted to a nice conversation about school basically... kill me.
This one I understand why it is bad, but sometimes, it just sucks. You
misplan something and she seems bothered and you try to explain where
you made the error but she does not care. <span
style="font-weight: bold;">All she cares about was the outcome and
that I screwed up. And I guess the only option is to accept women are
this way and simply not explain myself to them.</span><br>
<br>
Cheers<span style="font-size: 24px; color: rgb(204, 0, 0);">”</span></p>
</blockquote>
<p>There are a lot of important realizations in this comment from Mr.
Shark - I'll list them out:</p>
<ul>
<li>As you explain yourself, a girl gets bored with and ignores you</li>
<li>She does not care about your (logical) explanations</li>
<li>If you swap out explaining with flirting, she'll get interested</li>
<li>She doesn't care about your reasons, only the outcome<br>
</li>
</ul>
<p>Thus, the lesson of today's article is this:</p>
<p><span style="font-style: italic;"><span style="font-weight: bold;">Never,
ever explain yourself to women.</span></span></p>
<p>At least not in a logical, boring, factual (or defensive) way.</p>
<p>Now, let me explain.</p>
</div></div></div><span property="dc:title" content="Tactics Tuesdays: Never Explain Yourself (to Women)" class="rdf-meta element-hidden"></span>Wed, 07 Dec 2016 07:59:50 +0000Chase Amante2197 at http://www.girlschase.comHow to Be a Good Guy and Still Win Bighttp://www.girlschase.com/content/how-be-good-guy-and-still-win-big
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<span>You don’t have to be a devil to do devilishly good with girls.
Before
you turn yourself into a bad guy to get good girls, there is another
way...<br>
</span></p>
<p>It started with a late night conversation. I was sitting with a
couple of close friends on the balcony, having a drink. I can’t recall
what we were talking about, but somehow the conversation produced the
following exchange:</p>
<blockquote>
<p><span style="font-weight: bold; color: rgb(0, 102, 0);">Him:</span>
“Come on, you’re a good guy, Darius.”</p>
<p><span style="font-weight: bold; color: rgb(204, 51, 204);">Her:</span>
“Oh yeah, absolutely!”</p>
<p><span style="font-weight: bold; color: rgb(0, 0, 153);">Me:</span>
“No, I’m not. At least I’m not like that around women.”</p>
<p><span style="font-weight: bold; color: rgb(0, 102, 0);">Him:</span>
“Why?”</p>
<p><span style="font-weight: bold; color: rgb(0, 0, 153);">Me:</span>
“I don’t know. But I’m definitely not!”</p>
<p><span style="font-weight: bold; color: rgb(0, 102, 0);">Him:</span>
“That’s kinda messed up.”</p>
<p><span style="font-weight: bold; color: rgb(0, 0, 153);">Me:</span>
“Well, that’s how I am.”</p>
</blockquote>
<p><em>(Strangely, I remember having some weird, misguided pride in
this.)</em></p>
<div id="toc" style="margin: 0pt 0pt 0pt 10px; float: right;">
<p style="font-weight: bold; text-align: center;">Contents</p>
<p><a href="#want">1. Do You Want to be a Good Guy?</a></p>
<p><a href="#good">2. I’m Good, Not Nice</a></p>
<p><a href="#how">3. How to be a Good Guy &amp; Still Win Big</a></p>
<p><a href="#image">4. Is There a Good Guy Image?</a><br>
</p>
</div>
<p>This conversation happened about a year ago – I replicated it the
best I could – and even though I didn’t give it much thought at the
time, over the following year it led me on a path of self-examination
and discovery.</p>
<p>There were two specific things that came to bother me about the way
I responded in that conversation:</p>
<ul>
<li>
<p>First, why would I get so defensive about being referred to –
and seen as – a “good guy” by my close friends?</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Second, even though it was true that I behaved differently
around women than I did around my close friends, I wanted to know why,
especially since I’m more interested in romantic relationships than <a
href="/content/how-get-one-night-stand-sexy-girl"><span
style="font-weight: bold;">one
night stands</span></a> – and relationships require a real connection
to be worth
anything.</p>
</li>
</ul>
<p>In other words, I wanted to know why I had the belief that being a
“good guy” is somehow inferior and, more importantly, was it true? On
top of that, given that being a “good guy” is something that comes to
me naturally, I wanted to see if I can embrace this side of my
personality and still achieve my romantic goals.</p>
<p>Turns out the answer to the latter is an astounding “Yes!” And with
this article, my goal is to show you how.</p>
<p>But before we go there, we’ll need to cover some foundational
concepts, including what it means to be “a good guy,” whether everyone
should aspire to be one, and some common pitfalls and other things to
watch out for.</p>
<p>We’ll start by identifying who will benefit from this article the
most.</p>
</div></div></div><span property="dc:title" content="How to Be a Good Guy and Still Win Big" class="rdf-meta element-hidden"></span>Tue, 06 Dec 2016 06:45:59 +0000Darius Belejevas2196 at http://www.girlschase.comHow to Get Comfortable with Female Sexualityhttp://www.girlschase.com/content/how-get-comfortable-female-sexuality
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content="One of the big struggles for men who are waking up on women is getting comfortable with female sexuality. How do you do it?">
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<span>One of the big struggles for men who are waking up on women is
getting comfortable with female sexuality. How do you do it?<br>
</span></p>
<p>One of the more challenging mental hurdles for the active dater
can be overcoming his feelings about female sexuality. This is most
true for men who’ve grown up bombarded with messages about female
purity, chastity, and the like.</p>
<div id="toc">
<p style="font-weight: bold; text-align: center;">Contents</p>
<p><a href="#dawning">1. A Dawning Realization</a></p>
<p><a href="#what">2. What IS Female Sexuality, Anyway?</a></p>
<p><a href="#grief">3. The 5 Stages of Grief</a></p>
<p><a href="#comfort">4. Get Comfortable with Her Sexuality</a></p>
<p><a href="#female">5. Female Sexuality is What It Is</a><br>
</p>
</div>
<p>Even in our present society, with ‘slut walks’, Femen, rape culture,
and <span style="font-style: italic;">Sex and the City</span>, men
still grow up confused with female sexuality. On the one hand, men are
told women have the right to sexual liberation without judgment from
men. On the other hand, if a man talks to any individual woman and
broaches the subject of sexuality, she’ll often react with disgust and
offense and tell him no, of course she doesn’t do that or isn’t into
this.</p>
<p>This leads lots of men to an, ”Oh, that’s just TV,” mentality, where
women behave sexually liberal on TV and in the movies, yet
sexually chaste in real life.</p>
<p>Some part of most guys knows that there’s some kind of deception
going on here; either the TV is lying and women are all chaste angels,
or women themselves are lying and they’re not (and he just isn’t in on
the action).</p>
<p>Yet a guy can go his whole life without ever pulling the tarp back
on this sexual misdirection... Until he starts to succeed more with
girls.</p>
<p>And then, everything changes.</p>
</div></div></div><span property="dc:title" content="How to Get Comfortable with Female Sexuality" class="rdf-meta element-hidden"></span>Mon, 05 Dec 2016 07:32:04 +0000Chase Amante2195 at http://www.girlschase.com10 Ways Guys Waste Time In-Venue (and Don’t Meet Girls)http://www.girlschase.com/content/10-ways-guys-waste-time-venue-and-don-t-meet-girls
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<span>Do you go out to meet girls, but just waste time? Here are the 10
most
common ways guys twiddle thumbs instead of collect digits.<br>
</span></p>
<p>Think about the last time you went out to meet girls: did you waste
any time?</p>
<p>Did you waste a <span style="font-style: italic;">lot</span>
of time?</p>
<div id="toc">
<p style="font-weight: bold; text-align: center;">Contents</p>
<p><a href="#nurse">1. Nurse their drinks</a></p>
<p><a href="#circle">2. Circle around a dozen times</a></p>
<p><a href="#cute">3. “She’s not cute enough”</a></p>
<p><a href="#say">4. “I’ll say hi when I’m warmed up”</a></p>
<p><a href="#change">5. Change venues too often</a></p>
<p><a href="#long">6. Long chats with friends</a></p>
<p><a href="#room">7. Room scans</a></p>
<p><a href="#social">8. Social butterfly</a></p>
<p><a href="#eject">9. Eject too soon</a></p>
<p><a href="#ignore">10. Ignore interested girls</a></p>
</div>
<p>Of that last outing of yours, how much time did you actually spend
meeting women, versus... <span style="font-style: italic;">Not</span>
meeting women?</p>
<p>This isn’t to say you need to be an approach machine. And it’s
perfectly fine, healthy, and normal to go out with friends just to go
out with friends, or even to go to the bar just to have a drink and be
around people. But if your objective is to meet women, there are a <span
style="font-style: italic;">lot</span> of ways you can waste time...
And a lot of ways you can turn a promising night into a big, fat zero.</p>
<p>This article’s primarily aimed at <a
href="/content/how-pick-girls-bars-and-clubs"><span
style="font-weight: bold;">picking up girls in bars and clubs</span></a>,
but much of the advice in here is applicable to <a
href="/content/using-day-game-get-girls-14-myths-debunked"><span
style="font-weight: bold;">day game</span></a> as well (and I’ll use
day game examples along with night game ones).</p>
<p>So, if you want to be more aware of things you do to procrastinate
and delay, instead of meet your future naked bedmate, here are 10 of
the most egregious ones guys are guilty of.</p>
</div></div></div><span property="dc:title" content="10 Ways Guys Waste Time In-Venue (and Don’t Meet Girls)" class="rdf-meta element-hidden"></span>Sun, 04 Dec 2016 07:59:50 +0000Chase Amante2194 at http://www.girlschase.comPreselection: The Deadliest Style of Gamehttp://www.girlschase.com/content/preselection-deadliest-style-game
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<span>You can use preselection to “trade up” with girls in a venue. In
this
way, you go from “cute” girls, to “hot” ones… To outright stunners.<br>
</span></p>
<p>What is <a href="/content/how-preselection-can-get-you-girls"><span
style="font-weight: bold;">preselection</span></a>?</p>
<p>For those of you who are new to Girls Chase, think of it like this.
If a stranger walked up to you and asked you for a favor, would you be
more likely to do it if the guy was seemingly homeless or was wearing a
suit and tie?</p>
<p>In a way, the same thing is true for women when it comes to
attraction. <span style="font-weight: bold;">Girls are looking for
proof that you are a guy who is good with women (aka a man of value),
and what better evidence of that is there than you being seen around
other attractive women?</span></p>
<p>There are enough articles on this subject, so I will not bore you
veterans with the details. If this is the first time you’ve come across
this concept, all you need to know is that for those top tier women,
being a guy who is great with women is paramount to getting them.</p>
<p>My game hinges on this idea. When I am out trying to take a girl
home, it is my job to manufacture this so I can cash out on the hottest
girl I possibly can. By the end of the night, I ideally want everyone
to love me and every girl to be attracted to me – and when the time is
right, choose my ideal girl out of the lot, and take her. Welcome to
the deadliest style of game.</p>
</div></div></div><span property="dc:title" content="Preselection: The Deadliest Style of Game" class="rdf-meta element-hidden"></span>Sat, 03 Dec 2016 03:22:01 +0000Denton Fisher2193 at http://www.girlschase.comSwitch Off the “Social You” and Get the Girlhttp://www.girlschase.com/content/switch-social-you-and-get-girl
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<span>Some guys are too polite for their own good. This over-politeness
is called the “social you” – and you have to unlearn it to do better
with girls.<br>
</span></p>
<div id="toc">
<p style="font-weight: bold; text-align: center;">Contents</p>
<p><a href="#what">1. What is the Social You?</a></p>
<p><a href="#impact">2. The Impact of the Social You</a></p>
<p><a href="#hobbles">3. How It Hobbles You with Girls</a></p>
<p><a href="#beating">4. Beating the Social You</a><br>
</p>
</div>
<p>Our good friend Hector has written about the <strong><a
href="http://www.girlschase.com/content/divine-comedy-can-you-see-past-performance"
target="_self">Divine Comedy</a></strong>, relaying a clear vision of
life as a "big play." In his article, he explained that <em>“There
is no you”</em> and that <em>“You can be anyone,”</em> which means the
way you act depends on the social circumstances at the given moment.</p>
<p>There is the at-work you, the at-the-gym you, and various other
modes
of you... and the current you is able to evolve.</p>
<p>In this article I’m going to apply that theory to a specific <em>“you”</em>
that exists and keeps lots of guys from casting out lines in public
areas: the Social You (or the “SY” as we’ll call it from here on out).</p>
</div></div></div><span property="dc:title" content="Switch Off the “Social You” and Get the Girl" class="rdf-meta element-hidden"></span>Thu, 01 Dec 2016 19:35:17 +0000Davi Diluna2192 at http://www.girlschase.comOptimize Your Nervous System (and Gain State Control)http://www.girlschase.com/content/optimize-your-nervous-system-and-gain-state-control
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content="How good are you at using what’s in your brain? Fight-or-flight responses in social situations are common – yet you’re not bound to them.">
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<span>How good are you at using what’s in your brain? Fight-or-flight
responses in social situations are common – yet you’re not bound to
them.<br>
</span></p>
<p>Most pick-up theory is not well informed about the workings of the
brain and the nervous system, which causes many guys to severely
underperform in terms of their social state control. The author has
studied this topic from both theoretical and practical angles for years
and would like to share his experience on this issue.</p>
<div id="toc">
<p style="font-weight: bold; text-align: center;">Contents</p>
<p><a href="#basic">1. Basic Nervous System Concepts</a></p>
<p><a href="#freeze">2. The Freeze Response</a></p>
<p><a href="#flight">3. The Flight/Fight Response</a></p>
<p><a href="#social">4. The Social Engagement Response</a></p>
<p><a href="#engage">5. Strategies to Socially Engage</a></p>
<p><a href="#drugs">6. Notes on Substance Use</a></p>
<p><a href="#mass">7. Notes on Mass Approaching</a><br>
</p>
</div>
<p>In pick-up theory, <em>state</em> is used as a description of both
the mental state and the resulting physical state of a person. Field
reports often mention how the “state” of those involved changes during
an evening or day out. “State” can more or less be used synonymously
with “mood.”</p>
<p><span style="font-weight: bold;">State is an extremely important
factor in one’s ability to perform
seduction, in that the results of a given action will be heavily
dependent on the mood of the person performing it – for obvious
reasons.</span> Your mood can be said to be the sum of your earlier
interactions, and if your mood is bad, it means that the world has
treated you badly – hardly a turn-on. Conversely, a stable, good mood
will tell a history of being treated well by the world. And those who
are constantly able to stay in a stable, good mood, no matter how bad
the situation is, will be looked up to.</p>
<p>In evolutionary terms, your
mood is a <em>fitness indicator</em> similar to looking physically
healthy. Controlling your mood is therefore of utmost importance in
nearly any social setting – and this is what “state control” refers to.</p>
</div></div></div><span property="dc:title" content="Optimize Your Nervous System (and Gain State Control)" class="rdf-meta element-hidden"></span>Wed, 30 Nov 2016 12:12:51 +0000Halvor Jannike2191 at http://www.girlschase.comThe Fuzzy World of Social Statushttp://www.girlschase.com/content/fuzzy-world-social-status
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content="Social status is ‘fuzzy’. That is, you often don’t know exactly where you rank compared to someone else. There are good reasons for this.">
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<span>Social status is ‘fuzzy’. That is, you often don’t know exactly
where
you rank compared to someone else. There are good reasons for this.<br>
</span></p>
<p>Social status is a very fuzzy thing.</p>
<p>On the one hand, you may have clear social status within a specific
group. You may clearly be the <a
href="/content/how-be-alpha-male-without-becoming-stereotype"><span
style="font-weight: bold;">alpha male of the group</span></a> (Male
#1),
the beta male (Male #2), or the gamma male (Male #3), and enjoy the
privileges of those
high ranks: interested women, respect from men, pride and recognition.
Or you may be in the middle. Or even the omega male of the group... The
guy who makes up the opposite bookend of the group from the alpha male.<br>
</p>
<div id="toc">
<p style="font-weight: bold; text-align: center;">Contents</p>
<p><a href="#rabbit">1. The Status Rabbit Hole</a></p>
<p><a href="#rank">2. Rank Movement Within a Group</a></p>
<p><a href="#who">3. Who Does the Group Let In?</a></p>
<p><a href="#good">4. Is Group Fuzziness Good?</a></p>
<p><a href="#taking">5. Taking Advantage of Fuzziness</a><br>
</p>
</div>
<p>But now step away from the social group we just talked about, and
join a different social group. And in this new group, you have no idea
what your social
status is. You clearly aren’t the alpha here, even if you were the
alpha in the old group. But you clearly aren’t the omega,
either, even if you were the <span style="font-style: italic;">omega</span>
in the old group.</p>
<p>Indeed, you may participate in 10 different social groups, and have
different positions within the hierarchies of each one. Alpha in these
two, beta in these three, gamma in that one. Maybe you’re the
omega in one group – perhaps you just started tennis class, and
everyone there is way better than you and knows each other well, and
you can’t even hit the ball yet and feel like you do not belong.</p>
<p>Within a social group, the social status of the bookend individuals
is clear. Everybody knows who the alpha is, and everybody knows who the
omega is. Yet <span style="font-style: italic;">between</span>
these roles, it’s much less clear. Are you the beta (#2) male and your
buddy is the gamma (#3) male? Or is it the other way around? He’s beta
and you’re gamma?<br>
</p>
<p>We’re going to talk about these and other measures of the fuzziness
of social status in this article.</p>
<p>So, if you’re ready for a little bit of a spun head, buckle in and
let’s make you dizzy.</p>
</div></div></div><span property="dc:title" content="The Fuzzy World of Social Status" class="rdf-meta element-hidden"></span>Mon, 28 Nov 2016 20:19:07 +0000Chase Amante2190 at http://www.girlschase.comAre You Spinning Yourself? (Almost Certainly)http://www.girlschase.com/content/are-you-spinning-yourself-almost-certainly
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<span>Spin is used to influence how others think about things. But are
you
using spin on your own thoughts? Odds are, you are – and it risks
sabotaging you.<br>
</span></p>
<p>Some of my greatest teachers in seduction were my coworkers in car
sales. In a world in which they were highly distrusted, they were still
able to finagle hundreds of thousands of dollars from unassuming
customers.</p>
<p>I personally do not condone some of the tactics I was
taught, and I probably would not teach most of them for morality’s
sake. But a few ideas and concepts were definitely worth teaching, and
there is one in particular I would like to share with you today.</p>
<p>That particular technique is the technique
called “spinning”; or, “taking off the market.”</p>
</div></div></div><span property="dc:title" content="Are You Spinning Yourself? (Almost Certainly)" class="rdf-meta element-hidden"></span>Sun, 27 Nov 2016 18:30:57 +0000Denton Fisher2189 at http://www.girlschase.com