I left my note book for my class with my midterm and final stuff in his friends car.

There's A LOT of sexual attraction sure... but he's a f**king womanizer and is involved with other people.
HE started flirting
HE kissed me first
HE ASKED ME IF I WAS DATING OTHER PEOPLE?!
MULTIPLE TIMES!
HE answers 40% of my phone calls, and when I actually see him he says things like why didn't you get back to me the other day?
HE MAKES NO SENSE!!
But he soooooooo ****ing cute! I HATE HIM!
He says he wants to get to know me more.
He looks at me and says my name just to say it.
We have those deep staring moments!
*** IS HIS PROBLEM
Its goes from complete romantic and wonderful to poof! He's gone and repeat!

You ask, is it his problem, no it is yours, since you allow it to be, and not sure why you are calling him back to start with. I guess you want to be another notch on his bed post or another brag at the bar next week

You ask, is it his problem, no it is yours, since you allow it to be, and not sure why you are calling him back to start with. I guess you want to be another notch on his bed post or another brag at the bar next week

No, I just really thought there might have been something there... I mean we have hung out multiple times without anything dying down. I guess It was just me being a stupid nineteen year old. I did not want to demand anything in fear of really really never being able to get it back. I suppose my question is why wouldn't he want to help if he knows I need it for a very important reason...

You said it yourself. He's a womanizer. You're just another woman that he wants to add to his list of conquests. So, you have to decide. Do you want to be just another one night stand, or do you want better? If you want better, find someone else. You won't get it from him.

You have a right to get your property back. If you've asked for it back and he's refused, my next step would be to get someone to go with you to his place, and get it back. Preferably someone male, bigger then him, and intimidating. No, don't start a fight, but sometimes a little backup is needed.

You left your notebook in his friend's car. Do you know the friend's name or how to get in touch with him/her? Have you asked him for the friend's number or have you been asking him to get it for you?

He may be cute. So what? There are a lot of cute guys in the world. You might even be ignoring some very nice ones just because you are focusing on this peacock. Don't let flashy feathers and a practiced stare blind you to better choices.

End your confusion by walking away and letting him shake his tail feathers for some other female. Believe me, this is not a lesson you want to learn the hard way.

Just because you are 19 doesn't mean you have to be gullible or naïve.

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