Because they're men. Why should they? Why should men and women make sure that they look good all the time? I sure as hell dont, as I have better things to do with my time, and im not that vain to do so. Yes it's nice to keep up their appearances now and then, but its not a responsibility, especially not for women. We do have more important things to do with our time, rather than putting makeup on to make our husbands happy.

What about when a woman is ill? Is she expected to get up and throw make up and fake tan on just to impress her man? Why is everything about looks these days? If thats all a partner cares about, then they're not worth being with you in the first place for being so shallow.

but also the men have it for their wives . There may be times to let loose but , generally both should take care of themselves for each other . I don't want him to stay like garbage & I don't want him to think the same for me , too .

It does work both ways. I do believe we should all keep are bodies healthy and take care of ourselves. But I damn sure won't be going to the gym and trying to get my body hot if my husband is sitting on the couch slowly gaining a bear belly! no sir. One partner shouldn't expect their spouse to stay in shape if they don't themselves.

Women should do what's best for them. It depends on the relationship. If it is a mutual, caring one - the two should support each other in ensuring a healthy lifestyle. As someone else said, it goes both ways.

Absolutely. He'll still love you but if you want him to be attracted to you, you should stay attractive. People shouldn't become complacent, fat and lazy just because they're secure in their relationship.

Thanks! Much appreciated. Hope you liked, thought about considered the content of mycomments. I see from your picture you are a non white female I don't even know whatterms to use as the physical appearance of race is an illusion ( the decendents of SallyHemmings the black enslaved longtime love of Thomas Jefferson look as pale as meand I think Strom Thurmond or some right wing racist scumbag was found to have blackblood running through his ice cold veins which is hilarious but I think the term AfricanAmerican is racist as no other group is catagorized continentally the term European American doesn't exist and there are black people who can trace familial roots backcenturies to continents other than Africa.) Thanks for the birthday wishes! I'm old and sad.I still look good which is the most important thing a gal can do and did you read the stuff from that guy whos ex-wife is homeless and he hopes she freezes to death but if she were still hot she'd have a warm place to stay. Oh my god!

On face value, that is a really ugly statement! Both partners need to do whatever they feel is important to keep their mate happy. Definitely works both ways. And remember - beauty is in the eye of the beholder. If you truly love one another, looks are meaningless :)