Haha in the dark, yeah i guss that sounds like a good plan. What i mean by 'i cant seem to do it' is that i start the evening off really well, you know, looking forward to it. Start making out, touching eachother all that good stuff. Then when i go to 'do it' i just freez up, like im scared, which i guss is true thinking about it. Also, i think putting the condom on is a major turn off,it just breaks the mood. Although i understand i need it on so dont worrie about that.Update: Ive met this really awsome girl, shes older than me (im 19 and shes 23) She is smoking hot, i cant believe it. Im staying over hers this week, so we will see what happens. Cheers for the comments, will keep you lot posted.X

Thanks guys for the welcome, and some great advice!I think its down to confidence, though im not sure why if you get me. Ive got a good sized penis, 6 and 1/2 inches long, and its pretty wide, never been an issue really! I think its more down to 'getting to it' if you get me? Not so much doing it, as that comes with time etc but the whole, 'Shall we have sex?' making the move or what have you!Im in no rush to have it, im one of these people where if its not avalible, im not to worried! But whats fustrating is that it is avalible and im bottling out!!! I just dont know what to do about it. the girl im with now is great, very attractive and is easy to talk to, shes wanted to be with me for a long time, since i met her at uni, shes going away for spring break, and want to meet today! I dont think i should rush it now, maybe when shes back? She dosnt know i havnt done it before, which is common. not to sound big headed, but people always assume im good with the ladies in that department cos im a reasonably good looking lad, always had girls on my arm and can easily pull them!!!!I dont know, really didnt think i would have this issue!

Ill jump right into it! Basicaly ive had many girlfriends, and i have really enjoyed having them..if you get me! But now that im at the stage to take it to the next level, namely sex, i cant seem to do it!
Whats weired is that i have all the urges to do it, and i look forward to doing it, then when it comes down to it, i freez! Obv i havnt done it before. I waited until i had a good relationship with a girl, i mean, i figure its best to do it with someone you know, trust, all that sorta stuff. Shes going away for spring break tomorow, and we really want to give eachother a parting gift...yeah very cheezy but i wont see her for a couple of months! I guss it would make it easier do have sex if you know the person and feel confortable...im getting off point.
Basicaly, ive had many, many opps for sex, but i keep getting too nervious and backing out. Its really fustrating, and im caught in a loop. i thought it was down to confidence, but i have no problem pulling girls, you know, going up to them in a club, in fact my mates go with me to townn because they figure ill get a group of grils over!!!
I just wondered if you guys/girls could give me your opinion etc. I know at the end of the day its up to me to sort this out but i figured i may as well ask on here as there seems to be some really good advice given on here.
I just want to break the cycle and enjoy sex as it should be, not feel scared of it!
Cheers.

Hey dont worry ive had a similar thing, but without the sex lol! basicaly its where you have dammaged the skin on your shaft, its very thin. Leave them alone and they should go away, but if you are still worries go see a doc, ant gona hert and it wll put your mind at rest.Cheers

Hey no sweat ive had a simmilar thing happen to me. You will lose your V when the times right... i know that dosnt make it any better but in the mean time dont let it get you down, enjoy yourself, try meeting new girls and stuff. One thing to remember, at some point you WILL lose it, so relax, its no big deal, it dosnt make you any more manly if you have shagged 1 or 100 girls!Confidence wise, well thats tricky. The only thing to do is be yourself, dont act like your a player or try to pretend you know it all. If you start going out more, seeing new people and try and make new friends you should b feeling much better with yurself, try exercising, weightlifting, fell good about yourself and sooner or later that vibe will rub off on others around you.If ya need any more help, just ask, but from the sounds of it, your are fine.

Hey, just want to say ya lenth is average so really nothing to worry about there m8, and about ya gerth, is that 2inches all the way around, or just from side to side?
Your penis wont stop fully growing until the age of 20 (give or take) also it depends when you started puberty, if your a late 1, you have probably got some growing to do.
In the mean time relax, your penis is fine, and you should be happy with what ever you have. Dont stress over it, your still growing mate and youl probs find a huge difference soon, as it happened to me in a short space of time, i was once 5 n 1/2 then all of a sudden it had gone a inch! i was like wtf, just shows that there can be a long period of no change, and the a growth spurt.
mate youl be fine.
cheers

if a girl got freaked over your dick shes really is not worth being with. the way i see it, she likes you because of your personality, not because of ya dick. relax, everyones body is different, and you just have to put up with what you dont like, and enjoy what you have.if it pops up now and then, its probs just a vain under the skin, as long as theres no pain its completly fine.buddy, enjoy what you have and dont let it hold you back in ya confidence, if people like you because of who you are, they wont give a toss over what ya body looks like.hope that helps mate.