The Christian Martialist is primarily a defender of the faithful (one who in time of crisis puts himself between God's flock and danger). This blog is dedicated to those who voluntarily shoulder this burden.

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Wednesday, July 23, 2008

Sheepdog Strategies

As we left the chiropractor's office, my wife told me about her conversation with the doctor. "I told him that we were going to jujitsu class. He said, 'Why do you need jujitsu? One look at your husband and anyone would leave you alone.'" Then he added that jujitsu would help her back.

Although I found the doctor's observation flattering [I was a somewhat less "portly" fellow in those days], I also immediately recognized the flaw in his reasoning. I was not and could not always be with my wife or children to protect them.

Any Christian Martialist sheepdog will know what I'm talking about. You are always alert and ready to protect the lady or ladies in your life. But you cannot always be there when she is vulnerable.

If the woman in your life thinks that self-defense (including the use of firearms) is not for her, your frustration is increased. The more you try to interest her in her own protection, the more she resists.

I'd like to build a few posts under the title of "Sheepdog Strategies" that address the problem of how to protect your family when you're not there. Your ideas and experiences are welcome. (Comment, please!)

As I see it, a man's body is designed for fighting. A woman's body is designed for bearing children. When I said, "I just don't know if it is right for them to invest time and energy learning a martial arts system", I meant that it contradicts purpose of design.

Stephen, I would say that a woman's body was designed to be able to help man in taking dominion over the earth. Childbearing is one very important aspect of that that ensures future generations to carry on the God given work.

Your current view is common in some Christian circles, and a perhaps unintended consequence is that a woman who is strong and practical is made to feel unfeminine. I believe that a woman who can squash bugs, shoot straight, discern the difference between a panhandling schtik and a pre-attack inquiry, carry around a toddler half the day, and back up her husband or father in any situation is feminine indeed. This is not to dis the woman who cannot do these things. I can only assume that God has matched the woman who is squeamish about chicken plucking with a man whose calling does not involve plucking chickens.

If I'm walking down the street and get attacked I'm not going to have a firearm with me. (Concealed carry is illegal where I live.) I'm unlikely have a knife for a combination of reasons including the fact that there seems to be a vast conspiracy against including pockets in women's clothing.

If I do get attacked then I have all the same issues of panic, freezing, adrenaline stress, etc, that a guy would have to deal with, except possibly more so in my case, which means I need to be able to respond automatically without having to think about it. Now, I might use different techniques than a guy would, tailored to my size and body build, but I'd still need to be skilled in them.

I do agree that years of a traditional martial arts class doesn't necessarily help with this, but limiting us to 'a few techniques' seems...arbitrary.

This comment ended up longer than I planned; hopefully it's it least interesting. :-)

Ladies, I sincerely hope that y'all do not think me dis-respectful in my comments! I appreciate your responses especially.

I guess this is what I'm trying to define in my mind: The difference between a feminine lady who is able to protect herself and the macho woman who is trying to take over the world. When Theresa said that the common idea was , "a woman who is strong and practical is made to feel unfeminine", I think this is probably because this is the image of most feminists. I completly agree that a woman can be strong, practical, and feminine. A good example of this would be the women who stood alongside our Scots-Irish forefathers.

Stephen,I did not think you were disrespectful, and I appreciate that you are working to define femininity Biblically, and not by ruffles and lace and a pretty face. No,the Bible defines authentic womanhood starting with the fear of the Lord. The feminists may try to stake out strength and practicality, but God claimed it for His daughters first. Read Proverbs 31! (This passage is written specifically to unmarried young men looking for a true woman to wed, btw, not married women as 1,000s of women's bible studies seem to think). "She girds herself with strength, and makes her arms strong....strength and dignity are her clothing"Regards,Theresa

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About Me

I'm just an old gravelbellied sheepdog at the feet of the Great Shepherd, and I find theology, Biblical studies and worldview issues fascinating. I am blessed with a godly (& patient) wife and four godly daughters (I would tell you how many grandchildren I have, but the number keeps changing). I sometimes go by the name of MacAvram, and I treasure memories of autumn afternoons at the shooting range with my barber