Tag: approval seeking

Niceness is highly overrated. Nice would be ok of it actually meant what we want it to mean. But it doesn’t. Nice generally means be quiet. Tone yourself down. Be small. Be people-pleasing. Nice usually means “Don’t rock the boat.” “Don’t make me uncomfortable.” “Don’t

What you think of me is none of my business. This is what I have been reminding myself over and over again the last few days. It started with a conversation with a friend. During this conversation she stated that she felt I’d been depressed