Melody, who is a reality show producer getting a graduate degree to become a therapist, says she was approached to be on the show in November by a friend who was working on the Grammys, “I said ‘F**k yeah,’ but Jake was like ‘Ahhh Nahh.'”

The couple got engaged in July and Jake wanted a traditional wedding, “So I shamed him into it” she tells RumorFix exclusively.

For almost three months they had to keep the secret — they were even forced to sign a non-disclosure agreement. “We knew there was an event happening at the Grammys, but we didn’t know who was going to be involved,” she says.

Being the astute producer that she is, Melody took an educated guess that Macklemore would be singing “Same Love,” but “We didn’t find out about Madonna until she sang on stage during the rehearsal Saturday” she says. “We all freaked out. “

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