What should Ideal bio-data contain for maximum response in arranged marriage for Bangladeshis?

I have seen quiet a few bio data of friends and families.. And I always ask why should a girl or a guy (and their parents) choose this particular one compared to the others.

I have found that the piece of paper never convey the true person behind it. I seen bland minimalist paper that has an extraordinary person behind it whereas not so ideal person has all the check mark for an attractive biodata (ie highly educated, big shot doctor, big shot family, fairly decent looking - paper looks good.. but then the person behind it I would puke just to be sitting next to)

then there is a guy 40+ years old a total LOSER, can't hold onto a decent job if his life dependent on it, has sense of entitlement and lack of integrity but the son to be inheriting wealth from aging.ailing father.. he finds girls with polished up biodata giving multiple addresses of Gulshan apartment..

So what should this piece of paper have? many may say it should contain some personal message about the person but then it will sound like a dating profile... Should it contain your father's and uncles info and how much properties they have? Should it contain your job description, your salary?, your networth.. will that attract gold diggers... What if you write you are an entrepreneur... u can be the founder of next facebook or u also can be a uber driver.. both are entrepreneur. who is worth her time?

should it have your GENOME/genetic sequence/ your medical and family medical history.. after all you are partnering to potentially have children...

Should your citizenship matter?

I want to make a biodata that will be attractive to both the parents and the girl...what should I put in it?

should it have your GENOME/genetic sequence/ your medical and family medical history.. after all you are partnering to potentially have children

Not if its a marriage of convenience.

I do have an anecdote...some months ago my aunt hooked me up with this smoking hot chick (half pakistani, half bengali). We texted on whatsapp for about a week and then she breaks it off. Said I was too argumentative and need to sanitize my language. I was like WTF.

At least she didnt say I was too ugly for her, so thats a win. But the problem is, now I have to marry a girl hotter than her just to one-up her. And thats gonna be a challenge.

Originally Posted by al Furqaan
At least she didnt say I was too ugly for her, so thats a win. But the problem is, now I have to marry a girl hotter than her just to one-up her. And thats gonna be a challenge.

LOL.... you have such a high ego. You should put that anecdote in your biodata.

How did you arrive at that conclusion sirji? I for one would never allow a semi stranger to share my bed, I would personally never let my perents decide this for me, I Will however seek their approval.

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Arranged marriage does not mean you have no say in it. It is no different than a friend of yours setting you up. And tone down with all that stranger bedding crap... everyone is stranger at first - otherwise you would be marrying your cousins. Maybe that's your thing.

Dinrat you have a lot of growing up to do my friend. you clearly have no idea what you are talking about. Chances of being set up with girls out of your league otherwise is higher in arranged marriage i think. You have a polished biodata to have your back but outside you have only your looks and charm that will go so far..

Originally Posted by iDumb
Arranged marriage does not mean you have no say in it. It is no different than a friend of yours setting you up. And tone down with all that stranger bedding crap... everyone is stranger at first - otherwise you would be marrying your cousins. Maybe that's your thing.

You gotta be kidding me right? Anyone can set me up a date, no one can choose my life partner for me, it will be an insult to me if I can't find a girl myself to live my life with.

And no sir, where I come from we don't bang cousins there.

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Originally Posted by Ahsan
I was asked recently to give a biodata though :P So it is very timely thread for me :-)

Nice,,, congrats for being single... play the demand as much as you can. You have one thing on your side - male gender. So use it and abuse it. It sounds bad but men pretty much lost everything, the only thing we can't lose is that we become damn hotter as we age.... There is no rush for you. Be calm, meet people, and think, think again and think again and again before saying yes. Reject for any doubt/negative feelings or just cuz you want to and you can.

Mr. Mufi is also on the same boat. One of our most eligible bachelor. He is avoiding his mom becuase she keeps bugging him to get married.... Do moms not want their children to be happy anymore?

that's a great advice for back in those days! It is hard to do those at my stage man. Maybe I should hire you as coach cum matchmaker I think I am guaranteed at least a kajer bua from your coaching

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Originally Posted by iDumb
Nice,,, congrats for being single... play the demand as much as you can. You have one thing on your side - male gender. So use it and abuse it. It sounds bad but men pretty much lost everything, the only thing we can't lose is that we become damn hotter as we age.... There is no rush for you. Be calm, meet people, and think, think again and think again and again before saying yes. Reject for any doubt/negative feelings or just cuz you want to and you can.

Mr. Mufi is also on the same boat. One of our most eligible bachelor. He is avoiding his mom becuase she keeps bugging him to get married.... Do moms not want their children to be happy anymore?