His father has never believed in boundaries and consequences. I have always followed through with this style of parenting. My son feels he is being treated as a child when I do this. Yet when I asked him nicely to move his car from the garage so I can go to work he says he'll move it on a condition... Things escalated, I yelled and he refused and called the cops. The cops made him move the car. As a result his Dad doesn't believe in giving him consequences for this situation. I do, so I told him he lost his gym membership. Am I doing something wrong?

Hello my friend. Growing up with no boundaries and consequences will create an adult like your son who feels that he is entitled to his way or no way. It is too late now to try and change him because he is an adult. Maybe it is time for you to use tough love. Tell your son that if he does not want to comply with the rules of your house, then he must find an alternative place to live. Things will only get worse between you and him. You are doing nothing wrong with trying to enforce rules and requests but your son will have no part in listening to you at this point. His dad is to blame mainly for your son's disrespectful ways.

Thank you for your understanding and support!!! I've been advised to remind him that I still love him, maybe in a text. Isn't that saying his behavior is ok and he can dump his frustrations on me as he has been doing?