My stepdad is such a lazy fat arsehole! He gets out of bed at around 1.00pm and goes and lays on the settee all day, mum and I slog our guts out!

Ok, fair enough, he had a mental breakdown - but that was 5 years ago now and he is more than capable to do something during the day even if it was mowing the lawn - just something! It is just him being complacent and thinking he has got away with it for this long so it shouldnt' change! I have had enough.

I was making my dinner - early I know but crave Coco Pops - and I looked into the front room to find him laying on the settee again!! I just said "Right come on, I am coming to eat in the front room and I want it to feel accommodating rather than you just laying there- it isn't nice" he just said "Yeah Right!" I said "No seriously - I want to eat in the front room without you laying down!" he just laughed! By this point my blood was boiling so my mum says "Come on, sit up - you have been laying there all day!" and he doesn't bother to f**king move!!!!
So I said " I will f**king go upstairs then, you lazy arsehole - you do f**k all, all day - get a life"

To make situations worse, my OH and I are having to have his 15 year old daughter walk through our room to get to the spare room every night now as we have a partition to make a large room 2 small ones! We get no privacy - we haven't had sex for 3 weeks and we can't even talk as there is no bloody door on the other room! So it is literally like she is sleeping in our room! I just want her to f**K Off home!!!!

I am so f**king mad!!!!

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Wed Mar 29, 2006 5:25 pm

sarah+egg

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is it your stepdads house or does he live with u. i'm confused... put itching powder on the sofa! have a winge on here...no one minds!

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Wed Mar 29, 2006 5:30 pm

Kate_20

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He came to live with us 7 years ago!!!

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Wed Mar 29, 2006 5:33 pm

sarah+egg

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oh. tell him to move out! does ur mum live there too... sorry if i am being nosey.. if its your house make him aware that it is your house and you are incharge!! does he pay his way..

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Wed Mar 29, 2006 5:35 pm

Kate_20

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Ha! pay his way? Ha! in all fairness - he can't work because he has bad side-effects of his medication which gives him similare symptoms to Parkinson's without the illness - if that makes sense!

He gets DLA and gives mum a lil bit - but I can't tell him to move out they are married! It should really be me -but we can't afford it and the home is big enough - but not as my step sister is here! Bloody Evil Step Families!

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Wed Mar 29, 2006 5:39 pm

sarah+egg

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Oh dear.. what happens when baby is here? does he not reason with you over slobbing out? maybe u have to grin and bare it.. how long has evil step sister been there lol..

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Wed Mar 29, 2006 5:45 pm

Kate_20

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5 bloody weeks! Don't get me wrong - she is a nice girl but she spends 1.30 minutes in the bathroom every morning! She washes her hair at night and starts blow drying at 9.30pm! I need my sleep!! I just went and told him how insulting it is to come home from a busy day at work to find him lying there! He just carried on watching TV. Mum is in total agreement with me but nothing ever changes!!

the "spare" room is for the baby but because she is there I don't know what is going to happen - I tell you something I have had enough of it though!

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Wed Mar 29, 2006 5:49 pm

sarah+egg

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at least u have while yet before bby arrives.. al might change when baby arrives.. Stepdad might be a great help whn he/she arrives..