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Topic: Why Do People Ask Some Of The Stupiest Question There Is (Read 5747 times)

:-\Yea well let me start this by saying that people that don't understand about the situation sometimes do not think before they ask a question that maybe the question they are about to ask can be so stupid or really offend the person going through it. It's like they don't use they head before they say sh** at all and to be honest with you I get tired of breaking down to people when it is to much information and hotlines and websites where u can get a better understanding to be so dumb on it they even got book about HIV so I mean what is the problem people act like they can't understand it unless they going through it or unless they know someone to close that has it and that don't make sense at all because people should always educated thereself on it even if they don't know noone with the situation or even if they theirself ain't going through it that is just commonsense if you ask me. But I guess some people let there sense fly out the window alone with their brain real talk and that is so sad they they pass judgement on people they don't even know or they heard got the issue now how that for a grown person that is suppose to be mature but yet and still acts so childish I just don't understand!

I guess I will never understand though that is just how the world is about HIV and then on top of that people want to say that if u got HIV u have AIDS look here HIV and AIDS 2 differ things don't care how the system puts it real talk it don't make no sense at all do your education before u judge cuz u can easly be put in that situation or someone close to you can so think before u ask a retarded nonsense question!

On topic: In times of extreme stress and worry, rationality usually goes out the window. That's why the "Am I Infected?" forum is a good thing to have. Yes, it's annoying seeing people freak out, challenging their negative results and making wild assumptions that go against actual facts, but that's what Ann, RapidRod, MattyTheDamned, Andy Velez, et al. are there for. They have the experience, knowledge and training to deal with these people. Also, I have to say that nerves of steel are pretty much required to put up with certain panicky people in that forum.

We are all naturally concerned about our own well being and that of our loved ones. It's just human to jump to conclusions. Don't let them get to you.

:-\Yea well let me start this by saying that people that don't understand about the situation sometimes do not think before they ask a question that maybe the question they are about to ask can be so stupid or really offend the person going through it. It's like they don't use they head before they say sh** at all and to be honest with you I get tired of breaking down to people when it is to much information and hotlines and websites where u can get a better understanding to be so dumb on it they even got book about HIV so I mean what is the problem people act like they can't understand it unless they going through it or unless they know someone to close that has it and that don't make sense at all because people should always educated thereself on it even if they don't know noone with the situation or even if they theirself ain't going through it that is just commonsense if you ask me. But I guess some people let there sense fly out the window alone with their brain real talk and that is so sad they they pass judgement on people they don't even know or they heard got the issue now how that for a grown person that is suppose to be mature but yet and still acts so childish I just don't understand!

I guess I will never understand though that is just how the world is about HIV and then on top of that people want to say that if u got HIV u have AIDS look here HIV and AIDS 2 differ things don't care how the system puts it real talk it don't make no sense at all do your education before u judge cuz u can easly be put in that situation or someone close to you can so think before u ask a retarded nonsense question!

Well, I hope you feel better, because I can't pick out what might have been said to you that set you off. However, if you really think that HIV- people will know as much about it as those infected, you are going to be writing a whole lot more of these rants. Expecting everyone to know everything about everything is a bit irrational. How much did you know about HIV before you got infected?

Well, I hope you feel better, because I can't pick out what might have been said to you that set you off. However, if you really think that HIV- people will know as much about it as those infected, you are going to be writing a whole lot more of these rants. Expecting everyone to know everything about everything is a bit irrational. How much did you know about HIV before you got infected?

Mike

Exactly... I think that's what the OP was getting at. Nobody can know everything about everything, so why make hurtful comments about a disease you've never even bothered to research.

She mentioned people making comments about AIDS, when they obviously didn't know what AIDS is. If they recognized that they were basing their comments on "stuff they've heard" then they should have realized that and not made any comments to begin with.

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“I tried to drown my sorrows, but the bastards learned how to swim, and now I am overwhelmed by this decent and good feeling.” —Frida Kahlo

Exactly... I think that's what the OP was getting at. Nobody can know everything about everything, so why make hurtful comments about a disease you've never even bothered to research.

She mentioned people making comments about AIDS, when they obviously didn't know what AIDS is. If they recognized that they were basing their comments on "stuff they've heard" then they should have realized that and not made any comments to begin with.

I get that, and my intent is not to be unsympathetic but the OP stated that "they" were asking a question... that means there was an opportunity to educate. I know this is a tough virus to live with and things that seem so obvious to us just aren't so obvious to the vast majority of people. Now, it may be that this situation is different, but the whole post was pretty non-specific. If a stupid question is going to make someone crazy -- they are going to have a tough time living with this virus.

I would be curious to know what the person said--sounds like they made reference to anyone with HIV as having AIDS?? If that's what happened, I think there is a lot of confusion out there about that. For example, this site is called AIDSMEDS and not HIVMEDS. That would make many who aren't knowledgable about HIV/AIDS to think the term AIDS always applies. Not knocking the name, but saying someone who came across this site may think AIDS applies to everyone. The word AIDS gets thrown around on TV and where they will often not make a distinction. When people discuss it on TV, they will often use AIDS instead of HIV. I've even read a couple medical articles where experts/docs will use the word AIDS to cover everyone with HIV.

One of my favorite insensitive remarks is often said after someone dies. They will say, "Well, they are in a better place now." I know they are trying to help and many hold that belief and don't find it insensitive. "Well, they are out of pain now" is better. But as someone who doesn't believe in an after-life, I always think they are in a better place 6 feet under? Really? But, I realize it is one of those phrases that we've heard all our lives.

:-\Yea well let me start this by saying that people that don't understand about the situation sometimes do not think before they ask a question that maybe the question they are about to ask can be so stupid or really offend the person going through it. It's like they don't use they head before they say sh** at all and to be honest with you I get tired of breaking down to people when it is to much information and hotlines and websites where u can get a better understanding to be so dumb on it they even got book about HIV so I mean what is the problem people act like they can't understand it unless they going through it or unless they know someone to close that has it and that don't make sense at all because people should always educated thereself on it even if they don't know noone with the situation or even if they theirself ain't going through it that is just commonsense if you ask me. But I guess some people let there sense fly out the window alone with their brain real talk and that is so sad they they pass judgement on people they don't even know or they heard got the issue now how that for a grown person that is suppose to be mature but yet and still acts so childish I just don't understand!

I guess I will never understand though that is just how the world is about HIV and then on top of that people want to say that if u got HIV u have AIDS look here HIV and AIDS 2 differ things don't care how the system puts it real talk it don't make no sense at all do your education before u judge cuz u can easly be put in that situation or someone close to you can so think before u ask a retarded nonsense question!

I read this thread yesterday and after just reading it again, I have to ask why you think people are so stupid and retarded? The way I read this rant, is you are judging people and denigrating them, in exactly the same ways you accuse them of doing to you. Just because someone asks you a question, does not make them stupid and it is beyond offensive to refer to anyone as "retarded". You are making a false assumption that just because someone asks you something, that there must be something wrong with them, as opposed to their just trying to express their concern or interest.

As humans, we often find ourselves presented with situations that never have an easy answer, nor an easily defined way of acting. If you always assume that others are judging and talking down to you, then that is all you will ever hear. If instead, you accept that sometimes it is hard to find the right words, to express sympathy or what have you and that most people mean well, then their inquiries will be more benign and rarely involve judgment.

We all possess the ability to differentiate between someone expressing sympathy or interest, as opposed to passing judgment. If you insist on assuming that people will always judge you, then you need to look inside yourself and understand why you feel that way. If you feel judged or defensive, when someone asks you about your illness, you need to understand why that is, because there will always be people who ask innocent questions and people who do that are usually inquisitive, sympathetic or compassionate. They are not stupid and certainly not retarded. The perceptions of their actions, is what you feel and sometimes what we feel is just wrong.

Life is far too short and precious, to view everything through jaundiced eyes.

FIRST OF ALL TO KILLFOILE I WAS NOT JUDGIN NOONE I WAS ASKING A QUESTION BASIC ON WHAT SOMEONE THAT HAD ASK ME AND THERE IS SOME DUMB QUESTION DON'T CARE WHAT YOU THINK OK OR WHAT U ASSUME I AM DOING THE QUESTION DUDE ASK ME IS CAN U GET THE VIRUS THROUGH SITTING IN THE SAME SIT OF THE PERSON AFFECTED WITH THE VIRUS? AND I ASK HIM FOR HIM TO WORK AS A DOCTOR HE SHOULD KNOW ALL THIS HE MUST NOT BE A TO BRIGHT MAN THAT WHAT I TOLD HIM AND MAYBE THAT FEILD AIN'T FOR HIM SO UNLESS U KNOW THE WHOLE STORY DNT ASSUME I MYSELF IS JUDGING ANYONE THAT IS NOT ME AND NEVER WILL BE I THINK THAT WAS THE DUMBEST QUESTION EVER FORREAL AND JUST LIKE THEY LEARN ABOUT PORN OR HACKING INTO COMPUTERS THEY CAN LEARN ABOUT THE SITUATION(HIV). AND TO BOCKER DEAR I WAS WELL EDUCATED ON IT CUZ I READ ALOT ON THINGS EVEN IF THEY SEEM SCAREY OR IS NOT THE SUBJECT THE PERSON WANT TO TALK ABOUT(LIKE A GROUP OF FRIENDS) AND A SMART THING I WOULD DO IF I HAD ANY QUESTION I WOULD THINK ABOUT IT AND IF I THOUGHT TO MYSELF I WOULD NOT WANT NOBODY TO ASK ME THAT QUESTION BECAUSE IT WOULD OFFEND ME I WOULD THINK OF THE PERSON FEELINGS AND KEEP IT TO MYSELF REAL TALK YOU GOT TO BE CAREFULLY ABOUT SOME OF THE QUESTION YOU ASK BECAUSE U CAN OFFEND SOMEONE SO BAD THAT THEY HURT YOU REAL TALK AND IT MIGHT NOT BE THAT SERIOUS BT TO BE TRUTHFULLY IN THESE LAST TIMES YOU NEVER KNOW WHAT APERSON IS THNKIN AND WAT A PERSON WILL DO. AND ANOTHER THING TO KILLFOILE I DID NOT CALL HIM RETARDED AT ALL SO PLEASE DO NOT PUT WORDS IN MY MOUTH I DON'T APPRECIATE THAT TY AND FOR THE REST PLEASE DON'T ASSUME I AM JUDGING I AM JUST SAYING AND I HAVE A RIGHT TO SPEAK WHATEVER I WANT TO SAY IT AIN'T LIKE I SAID ANYTHING WRONG AND FOR THE PERSON THAT SAID IF I CAN'T ACCEPT THIS AND REALIZE PPL ASK QUESTIONS THEN I WON'T BE ABLE TO DEAL WITH THIS VIRUS HOW ARE U TO SAY THAT BS REAL TALK WHEN I HAVE BEEN GOING THROUGH THIS FOR 6YRS AND I HAVE ACCEPT IT DEAR BT I DON'T HAVE TO HAVE THEM ASK ME CRAZY QUESTION WHEN I KNOW THEY ARE BEING FUNNY ABOUT IT AND NO THESE PPL ARE NOT INQUISITIVE ABOUT IT TRUST ME I KNOW THEM DEAR U DON'T SO PLEASE STOP IT NOW CUZ IT MAKES NO SENSE IT IS JUST TO MUCH EDUCATION ON IT AND GOD GAVE THEM A BRIAN AND ALL THAT SO WHY DON'T THEY PUT IT TO GOOD USE AND LEARN SOMETHING THAT CAN HELP ME TO MAKE SMART CHOICES IN LIFE AND WITH THAT THINK WHAT YOU WANT TO

FIRST OF ALL TO KILLFOILE I WAS NOT JUDGIN NOONE I WAS ASKING A QUESTION BASIC ON WHAT SOMEONE THAT HAD ASK ME AND THERE IS SOME DUMB QUESTION DON'T CARE WHAT YOU THINK OK OR WHAT U ASSUME I AM DOING THE QUESTION DUDE ASK ME IS CAN U GET THE VIRUS THROUGH SITTING IN THE SAME SIT OF THE PERSON AFFECTED WITH THE VIRUS? AND I ASK HIM FOR HIM TO WORK AS A DOCTOR HE SHOULD KNOW ALL THIS HE MUST NOT BE A TO BRIGHT MAN THAT WHAT I TOLD HIM AND MAYBE THAT FEILD AIN'T FOR HIM SO UNLESS U KNOW THE WHOLE STORY DNT ASSUME I MYSELF IS JUDGING ANYONE THAT IS NOT ME AND NEVER WILL BE I THINK THAT WAS THE DUMBEST QUESTION EVER FORREAL AND JUST LIKE THEY LEARN ABOUT PORN OR HACKING INTO COMPUTERS THEY CAN LEARN ABOUT THE SITUATION(HIV). AND TO BOCKER DEAR I WAS WELL EDUCATED ON IT CUZ I READ ALOT ON THINGS EVEN IF THEY SEEM SCAREY OR IS NOT THE SUBJECT THE PERSON WANT TO TALK ABOUT(LIKE A GROUP OF FRIENDS) AND A SMART THING I WOULD DO IF I HAD ANY QUESTION I WOULD THINK ABOUT IT AND IF I THOUGHT TO MYSELF I WOULD NOT WANT NOBODY TO ASK ME THAT QUESTION BECAUSE IT WOULD OFFEND ME I WOULD THINK OF THE PERSON FEELINGS AND KEEP IT TO MYSELF REAL TALK YOU GOT TO BE CAREFULLY ABOUT SOME OF THE QUESTION YOU ASK BECAUSE U CAN OFFEND SOMEONE SO BAD THAT THEY HURT YOU REAL TALK AND IT MIGHT NOT BE THAT SERIOUS BT TO BE TRUTHFULLY IN THESE LAST TIMES YOU NEVER KNOW WHAT APERSON IS THNKIN AND WAT A PERSON WILL DO. AND ANOTHER THING TO KILLFOILE I DID NOT CALL HIM RETARDED AT ALL SO PLEASE DO NOT PUT WORDS IN MY MOUTH I DON'T APPRECIATE THAT TY AND FOR THE REST PLEASE DON'T ASSUME I AM JUDGING I AM JUST SAYING AND I HAVE A RIGHT TO SPEAK WHATEVER I WANT TO SAY IT AIN'T LIKE I SAID ANYTHING WRONG AND FOR THE PERSON THAT SAID IF I CAN'T ACCEPT THIS AND REALIZE PPL ASK QUESTIONS THEN I WON'T BE ABLE TO DEAL WITH THIS VIRUS HOW ARE U TO SAY THAT BS REAL TALK WHEN I HAVE BEEN GOING THROUGH THIS FOR 6YRS AND I HAVE ACCEPT IT DEAR BT I DON'T HAVE TO HAVE THEM ASK ME CRAZY QUESTION WHEN I KNOW THEY ARE BEING FUNNY ABOUT IT AND NO THESE PPL ARE NOT INQUISITIVE ABOUT IT TRUST ME I KNOW THEM DEAR U DON'T SO PLEASE STOP IT NOW CUZ IT MAKES NO SENSE IT IS JUST TO MUCH EDUCATION ON IT AND GOD GAVE THEM A BRIAN AND ALL THAT SO WHY DON'T THEY PUT IT TO GOOD USE AND LEARN SOMETHING THAT CAN HELP ME TO MAKE SMART CHOICES IN LIFE AND WITH THAT THINK WHAT YOU WANT TO

I have no idea what your reply says. I won't bother trying to read it, since you didn't bother presenting it in a readable fashion. All caps without any punctuation or sentence structure is just too hard on the eyes.

FIRST OF ALL TO KILLFOILE I WAS NOT JUDGIN NOONE I WAS ASKING A QUESTION BASIC ON WHAT SOMEONE THAT HAD ASK ME AND THERE IS SOME DUMB QUESTION DON'T CARE WHAT YOU THINK OK OR WHAT U ASSUME I AM DOING THE QUESTION DUDE ASK ME IS CAN U GET THE VIRUS THROUGH SITTING IN THE SAME SIT OF THE PERSON AFFECTED WITH THE VIRUS? AND I ASK HIM FOR HIM TO WORK AS A DOCTOR HE SHOULD KNOW ALL THIS HE MUST NOT BE A TO BRIGHT MAN THAT WHAT I TOLD HIM AND MAYBE THAT FEILD AIN'T FOR HIM SO UNLESS U KNOW THE WHOLE STORY DNT ASSUME I MYSELF IS JUDGING ANYONE THAT IS NOT ME AND NEVER WILL BE I THINK THAT WAS THE DUMBEST QUESTION EVER FORREAL AND JUST LIKE THEY LEARN ABOUT PORN OR HACKING INTO COMPUTERS THEY CAN LEARN ABOUT THE SITUATION(HIV). AND TO BOCKER DEAR I WAS WELL EDUCATED ON IT CUZ I READ ALOT ON THINGS EVEN IF THEY SEEM SCAREY OR IS NOT THE SUBJECT THE PERSON WANT TO TALK ABOUT(LIKE A GROUP OF FRIENDS) AND A SMART THING I WOULD DO IF I HAD ANY QUESTION I WOULD THINK ABOUT IT AND IF I THOUGHT TO MYSELF I WOULD NOT WANT NOBODY TO ASK ME THAT QUESTION BECAUSE IT WOULD OFFEND ME I WOULD THINK OF THE PERSON FEELINGS AND KEEP IT TO MYSELF REAL TALK YOU GOT TO BE CAREFULLY ABOUT SOME OF THE QUESTION YOU ASK BECAUSE U CAN OFFEND SOMEONE SO BAD THAT THEY HURT YOU REAL TALK AND IT MIGHT NOT BE THAT SERIOUS BT TO BE TRUTHFULLY IN THESE LAST TIMES YOU NEVER KNOW WHAT APERSON IS THNKIN AND WAT A PERSON WILL DO. AND ANOTHER THING TO KILLFOILE I DID NOT CALL HIM RETARDED AT ALL SO PLEASE DO NOT PUT WORDS IN MY MOUTH I DON'T APPRECIATE THAT TY AND FOR THE REST PLEASE DON'T ASSUME I AM JUDGING I AM JUST SAYING AND I HAVE A RIGHT TO SPEAK WHATEVER I WANT TO SAY IT AIN'T LIKE I SAID ANYTHING WRONG AND FOR THE PERSON THAT SAID IF I CAN'T ACCEPT THIS AND REALIZE PPL ASK QUESTIONS THEN I WON'T BE ABLE TO DEAL WITH THIS VIRUS HOW ARE U TO SAY THAT BS REAL TALK WHEN I HAVE BEEN GOING THROUGH THIS FOR 6YRS AND I HAVE ACCEPT IT DEAR BT I DON'T HAVE TO HAVE THEM ASK ME CRAZY QUESTION WHEN I KNOW THEY ARE BEING FUNNY ABOUT IT AND NO THESE PPL ARE NOT INQUISITIVE ABOUT IT TRUST ME I KNOW THEM DEAR U DON'T SO PLEASE STOP IT NOW CUZ IT MAKES NO SENSE IT IS JUST TO MUCH EDUCATION ON IT AND GOD GAVE THEM A BRIAN AND ALL THAT SO WHY DON'T THEY PUT IT TO GOOD USE AND LEARN SOMETHING THAT CAN HELP ME TO MAKE SMART CHOICES IN LIFE AND WITH THAT THINK WHAT YOU WANT TO

Well -- this explains alot. It shows that you are filled with anger and not open to hearing what anyone might have to say. Your response to all the replies is to lash out. Maybe this person was insensitive, maybe he was an ass, I don't know because I'm still not sure I get the whole situation. All I get is a heated interp from you. If you aren't ready to hear answers that don't align with your way of thinking, perhaps this place will be a source of support for you. Until then - good luck, you are going to need it.

@Killfoile u can read it u just don't want to and if u don't want to read what I wrote then maybe u should not be in my formal real talk because I will not have u come and assult me like I am the bad person it feels like some of yall are taking sides with dude that yall don't even know and rather you like what I wrote or did not like wat I wrote u did not have to respond to it and another thing Killfoile I dnt have to puntuate nothing for you to understand where I am coming from u just want to be difficult and if it is like that then please get out my formal if u or anyone don't like what I said then leave my formal that is all. NOW DO YOU UNDERSTAND THAT! Don't come in my formal and try run things or try and assume either come at me right or don't come at all TY that is like what I do if I don't like what a person talking about I don't comment I keep it moving that kills all the stupid drama which I don't want in my formal or thrown towards me so please grow up. @Bocker3 I ain't angrey at all I am quit the laid back woman bt when I speak my mind or my thoughts it is what it is and I don't need noone telling me how I should do things or hw I am dealing with things or coming in my formal that I posted to assume and yall dnt even know real talk so if u don't know then maybe u should of not comment how bout that that is the mature thing to do atleast what a mature adult would do! Now fo anyone else that don't agree then keep it moving and grow up because I write and say what I want and I don't come in yall formal and tell yall how to do things or how u should word it or anything of that nature matter of fact I dnt mess with noone so please don't mess with me I take ppl advice bt if it ain't right or if u misunderstood me I ain't going to just sit there and not stand up fo myself or correct u who do you take me for a person that can't stand her ground well I can and will continue too

@Cliff ok I understand the part you said bt what is this about the caps? I wrote in caps because I liked the way it looks that is why I wrote in caps but anyways I gonna say Thank You I don't think u are trying to be mean like some of them are to me to assume is to judge me real talk like I am the bad person when I am not ppl should not judge me bt maybe they need to read what I wrote over and then comment if they still don't understand then maybe it ain't fo them to understand

yall dnt even know real talk so if u don't know then maybe u should of not comment

Language and writing developed over thousands of years so that humans could communication effectively and efficiently with one another. To that end, various standards of practice, like capitalization and punctuation, have come into use and are standards practice to facilitate written communications between humans.

The jumble of words (for that is what you have written without punctuation) written in all capitals (which has been considered very rude online etiquette for over 20 years) makes those your posts unintelligble (that is: NOT "real talk") to average humans, not to mention just simply difficult to try to read on a computer screen or printed page.

You seem to have misunderstood other posters. I would assume that many, including myself, would like to know what you want to say, and would like to offer support. However, by NOT following any of the rules of grammar or punctuation, you have made your own post too hard to read or to understand. Perhaps if you could follow basic grammar principles, we could understand you better. Yelling at your audience or telling us that it's our fault that we can't understand you doesn't help you get your message across. So thank you for assisting us by writing better so that we will be able to read what it is that you would like us to read.

@Bocker3 I ain't angrey at all I am quit the laid back woman bt when I speak my mind or my thoughts it is what it is and I don't need noone telling me how I should do things or hw I am dealing with things or coming in my formal that I posted to assume and yall dnt even know real talk so if u don't know then maybe u should of not comment how bout that that is the mature thing to do atleast what a mature adult would do! Now fo anyone else that don't agree then keep it moving and grow up because I write and say what I want and I don't come in yall formal and tell yall how to do things or how u should word it or anything of that nature matter of fact I dnt mess with noone so please don't mess with me I take ppl advice bt if it ain't right or if u misunderstood me I ain't going to just sit there and not stand up fo myself or correct u who do you take me for a person that can't stand her ground well I can and will continue too

Oh, but you are angry -- reread all your posts in this thread. There is nothing but anger and hate. And... if all you want is for people to agree with you, don't ask questions. Actually, if you don't want to hear what others have to say -- then perhaps you shouldn't writing anything at all. Once you post something here, you open yourself to responses -- and if you title your thread with a question, you are certainly going to get responses.Just from the name you choose on here, it's clear that you are all about confrontation. So with that, I will leave you to your unhappy little life.

@Killfoile u can read it u just don't want to and if u don't want to read what I wrote then maybe u should not be in my formal real talk because I will not have u come and assult me like I am the bad person it feels like some of yall are taking sides with dude that yall don't even know and rather you like what I wrote or did not like wat I wrote u did not have to respond to it and another thing Killfoile I dnt have to puntuate nothing for you to understand where I am coming from u just want to be difficult and if it is like that then please get out my formal if u or anyone don't like what I said then leave my formal that is all. NOW DO YOU UNDERSTAND THAT! Don't come in my formal and try run things or try and assume either come at me right or don't come at all TY that is like what I do if I don't like what a person talking about I don't comment I keep it moving that kills all the stupid drama which I don't want in my formal or thrown towards me so please grow up. @Bocker3 I ain't angrey at all I am quit the laid back woman bt when I speak my mind or my thoughts it is what it is and I don't need noone telling me how I should do things or hw I am dealing with things or coming in my formal that I posted to assume and yall dnt even know real talk so if u don't know then maybe u should of not comment how bout that that is the mature thing to do atleast what a mature adult would do! Now fo anyone else that don't agree then keep it moving and grow up because I write and say what I want and I don't come in yall formal and tell yall how to do things or how u should word it or anything of that nature matter of fact I dnt mess with noone so please don't mess with me I take ppl advice bt if it ain't right or if u misunderstood me I ain't going to just sit there and not stand up fo myself or correct u who do you take me for a person that can't stand her ground well I can and will continue too

After reading the above, it is apparent that you don't want any help, you don't care about what other people think, unless of course they think exactly like you do. Good luck with that view of the world.

And in addition to using proper grammar and punctuation, can you please run your post through a spell checker before you submit it? I, for the life of me, couldn't understand a thing you said because probably two-thirds of it was misspelled.

In fact, this forum has a convenient spell check feature built in! Using it would be much appreciated. As would breaking your post into topic specific paragraphs!

@Cliff ok I understand the part you said bt what is this about the caps? I wrote in caps because I liked the way it looks that is why I wrote in caps but anyways I gonna say Thank You I don't think u are trying to be mean like some of them are to me to assume is to judge me real talk like I am the bad person when I am not ppl should not judge me bt maybe they need to read what I wrote over and then comment if they still don't understand then maybe it ain't fo them to understand

People will always judge you, even on this forum. So I wouldn't worry about that. I don't think you're an angry person, someone has said something that hurt you.

I think I understand why you wrote in caps...you just want to be understood. I read what you had to say but it was difficult, as my eyes kept losing it's place as I was going down the page. The caps and long paragraph make it difficult to read, but not impossible. Say what you need to say, and in your own way, this is obviously important to you. I'll figure it out.

Hatas, truth be told you are probably going to encounter stupidity regarding HIV again at some point. Keep in mind it's not something many learn about until they or someone they love is infected. Don't let these people control your emotions because it's truly not worth it.

How about I do the people that want to say I have wrong spelling a favor. How about I close this down and get all the way off this site do yall like that? Are you happy with what you just did? Did it make you feel better about yourself now that you chewed me out for how I abbreviate my words instead of writting the whole word? Let me break it down to some of you all and if you get offended then the shoe fits! Yall=You All, U=You,Hw=How...and so on. Ppl=People. Now for some of the people that say I have bad grammer and all that I really don't at all because I write poetry and so fourth.

But what I am going to do is after this post I won't be posting anything at all not on here never ever because some of your comments offended me and believe it or not I do have feelings too.

And another thing I did not know this was school some people on here act like they really got problems and want to take it out on me nope not never again! Because I will not be posting on here anymore. And with that Goodbye and have a bless life! For the people that were nice to me you can get in contact with me on Mocospace/Maiyen_the_christian269 I write poetry and blog over there so come add me only the people that was nice to me and I don't want no hatters on my page!

@skeebo Thanks for not being mean to me or talking about the way I abbreviate(Shorten my words) You was very kindhearted and I will remember you. But because the way the people on here has come at me I don't want to be in the formals noomore it seems like to much drama for me. And that is not me real talk I am doing fine and got alot going for myself I think even better then some of the hateful people that come in my face or even leave comments that has nothing to do with what I post(Shaking My Head) I don't got time for this I thought this was a cool place to come but I am seeing it is not.

@skeebo Thanks for not being mean to me or talking about the way I abbreviate(Shorten my words) You was very kindhearted and I will remember you. But because the way the people on here has come at me I don't want to be in the formals noomore it seems like to much drama for me. And that is not me real talk I am doing fine and got alot going for myself I think even better then some of the hateful people that come in my face or even leave comments that has nothing to do with what I post(Shaking My Head) I don't got time for this I thought this was a cool place to come but I am seeing it is not.

So once again Thank You from the bottom of my heart@Skeebo

hattershateme225 please don't go anywhere, I'm happy your here sweetie I understood some of your anger, it's ok, sometimes you just need to VENT, and it's hard to get out the words for me as well lots of good info around here, and not everyone on here is a JERK

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"it's so nice to be insane, cause no-one ask you to explain" Helen Reddy cc 1974

Now for some of the people that say I have bad grammer and all that I really don't at all because I write poetry and so fourth.

Is that why you found it impossible to spell "haters" correctly when you made your own screen name here and instead spelled it with two "t"'s, which of course really means that you make hats. Or maybe it's just a sassy, witty reference to a character in a Lewis Carroll book?

FIRST OF ALL TO KILLFOILE I WAS NOT JUDGIN NOONE I WAS ASKING A QUESTION BASIC ON WHAT SOMEONE THAT HAD ASK ME AND THERE IS SOME DUMB QUESTION DON'T CARE WHAT YOU THINK OK OR WHAT U ASSUME I AM DOING THE QUESTION DUDE ASK ME IS CAN U GET THE VIRUS THROUGH SITTING IN THE SAME SIT OF THE PERSON AFFECTED WITH THE VIRUS? AND I ASK HIM FOR HIM TO WORK AS A DOCTOR HE SHOULD KNOW ALL THIS HE MUST NOT BE A TO BRIGHT MAN THAT WHAT I TOLD HIM AND MAYBE THAT FEILD AIN'T FOR HIM SO UNLESS U KNOW THE WHOLE STORY DNT ASSUME I MYSELF IS JUDGING ANYONE THAT IS NOT ME AND NEVER WILL BE I THINK THAT WAS THE DUMBEST QUESTION EVER FORREAL AND JUST LIKE THEY LEARN ABOUT PORN OR HACKING INTO COMPUTERS THEY CAN LEARN ABOUT THE SITUATION(HIV). AND TO BOCKER DEAR I WAS WELL EDUCATED ON IT CUZ I READ ALOT ON THINGS EVEN IF THEY SEEM SCAREY OR IS NOT THE SUBJECT THE PERSON WANT TO TALK ABOUT(LIKE A GROUP OF FRIENDS) AND A SMART THING I WOULD DO IF I HAD ANY QUESTION I WOULD THINK ABOUT IT AND IF I THOUGHT TO MYSELF I WOULD NOT WANT NOBODY TO ASK ME THAT QUESTION BECAUSE IT WOULD OFFEND ME I WOULD THINK OF THE PERSON FEELINGS AND KEEP IT TO MYSELF REAL TALK YOU GOT TO BE CAREFULLY ABOUT SOME OF THE QUESTION YOU ASK BECAUSE U CAN OFFEND SOMEONE SO BAD THAT THEY HURT YOU REAL TALK AND IT MIGHT NOT BE THAT SERIOUS BT TO BE TRUTHFULLY IN THESE LAST TIMES YOU NEVER KNOW WHAT APERSON IS THNKIN AND WAT A PERSON WILL DO. AND ANOTHER THING TO KILLFOILE I DID NOT CALL HIM RETARDED AT ALL SO PLEASE DO NOT PUT WORDS IN MY MOUTH I DON'T APPRECIATE THAT TY AND FOR THE REST PLEASE DON'T ASSUME I AM JUDGING I AM JUST SAYING AND I HAVE A RIGHT TO SPEAK WHATEVER I WANT TO SAY IT AIN'T LIKE I SAID ANYTHING WRONG AND FOR THE PERSON THAT SAID IF I CAN'T ACCEPT THIS AND REALIZE PPL ASK QUESTIONS THEN I WON'T BE ABLE TO DEAL WITH THIS VIRUS HOW ARE U TO SAY THAT BS REAL TALK WHEN I HAVE BEEN GOING THROUGH THIS FOR 6YRS AND I HAVE ACCEPT IT DEAR BT I DON'T HAVE TO HAVE THEM ASK ME CRAZY QUESTION WHEN I KNOW THEY ARE BEING FUNNY ABOUT IT AND NO THESE PPL ARE NOT INQUISITIVE ABOUT IT TRUST ME I KNOW THEM DEAR U DON'T SO PLEASE STOP IT NOW CUZ IT MAKES NO SENSE IT IS JUST TO MUCH EDUCATION ON IT AND GOD GAVE THEM A BRIAN AND ALL THAT SO WHY DON'T THEY PUT IT TO GOOD USE AND LEARN SOMETHING THAT CAN HELP ME TO MAKE SMART CHOICES IN LIFE AND WITH THAT THINK WHAT YOU WANT TO

funny, no one but you even mentioned your abbreviations. Several of us just mentioned how hard it was to read your run-on sentences and all those words in caps - especially on computer monitors, laptops screens and some of us wearing eyeglasses. I definitely appreciate that you gave your audience some consideration and wrote your last two posts so that we could more easily read them. I too hope that you don't go away, because it sure would be silly for you to leave in a huff because we wanted to be able to read your posts.

So please do not check me or come at me twisted I am trying to be cool now back woman u evil unhappy woman!

HHM225, why don't you be the "better" woman and just walk away? If you are able to rise above as you said, you should know how to keep it moving. After reading your retort to Miss P, it's like you're looking to step to somebody incorrect and stir shit up. I could be wrong. Either way, this is no place to carry on.

We all have our ups and downs, but if you'd take some time to look around these forums you'd see that you're really in good company.

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a rude hateful *****! You feel in the blank what you get is what I said lol!

How "Maiyen_the_christian269" of you! Remind me which part of The Good Book such language comes from. I missed that in church on Easter.

ps: I never once criticized your heinous grammar and spelling until you began with all of the drama this afternoon with your hours of internet swan song threads (and you've still not left like you said you were going to do have you? No, you want drama so don't complain when you get it.)

How about I do the people that want to say I have wrong spelling a favor. How about I close this down and get all the way off this site do yall like that? Are you happy with what you just did? Did it make you feel better about yourself now that you chewed me out for how I abbreviate my words instead of writting the whole word? Let me break it down to some of you all and if you get offended then the shoe fits! Yall=You All, U=You,Hw=How...and so on. Ppl=People. Now for some of the people that say I have bad grammer and all that I really don't at all because I write poetry and so fourth.

But what I am going to do is after this post I won't be posting anything at all not on here never ever because some of your comments offended me and believe it or not I do have feelings too.

And another thing I did not know this was school some people on here act like they really got problems and want to take it out on me nope not never again! Because I will not be posting on here anymore. And with that Goodbye and have a bless life! For the people that were nice to me you can get in contact with me on Mocospace/Maiyen_the_christian269 I write poetry and blog over there so come add me only the people that was nice to me and I don't want no hatters on my page!

But this post was readable - your first! Was it so hard to give us that much? Communication is a two way street.

Noboby would crack on the way you write if we could read it and understand. Its not a personal insult. It's a question of being polite to others. That you could write this post finally in normal English proves that you are capable of doing so, so continue.

There is no need to have a hissy fit. Stick around, and communicate in ways we can all understand.

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“From each, according to his ability; to each, according to his need” 1875 K Marx

@Philicia first of all if you don't like the way I write or what I post then why u keep putting your 2 cents in dear that makes you immature.

And you should check yourself! You can't be to happy with your life to be such a rude hateful *****! You feel in the blank what you get is what I said lol!

I raise to the top and do me all day. What do you do? Harass and criticized other people formals that what you do for a living?

I know you don't make enough money doing that because you don't get paid for that at all.

So please do not check me or come at me twisted I am trying to be cool now back woman u evil unhappy woman!

Seriously Hatter can tell what this post is all about, because I don't understand any of it, or why you posted it, I realise it wasn't aimed at me but in order to help you or to try and understand you I suggest you stop being rude and nasty to those who are in fact trying to help you...you sound like a pissed off school kid....not the scholar/poet you claim to be.