I Want To Punish My Spouse. Will You Help Me?

No.

I will help you communicate with your spouse and have compassion for him or her. I will help you protect your kids. I will help you grow as a human being, and be safe through the divorce process. I will help you be the sort of person you want to be on your best days. I will help you make the best of your financial situation, grim though it may be. Those are things worth your efforts, and mine.