Just remember when we were child .. how much emotions we showed for everything .We would smile and cry just by small things Most of them were good wheres now most of them are troubling ..So we want to go towards that chidish happiness and free state

There is a friend of mine ,ashish who is in relation with a girl for about 3 years now .They love each other genuinly , and want to live together forever . My friend liked a girl name shruti in school. We were in 12th and girl was in 9th .. They both used to come in same bus . They Stated talking little bit and then on Facebook . They stated talking and my friend liked her very much . But she had a friend to told her that ashish is not a good boy and you should not talk to him . So she stopped talking to my frnd and removed him from FB. As there was nothing so serious abt the relation . my friend didnt bothered much .He forgot her and life was normal . Now after 5 years from that incident .. Ge got a mail from that girl "I want to remove some misunderstandings with you" . When he read that mail .. He stated memorising about his past . His heart beating very fast .And he felt restless. He felt like she is the girl that he always wanted . He waited for her whole day ...When she gave him Fb req. , he coudn't control him feelings and wanted to meet her . Then in a message .. the girl told him that she can't even sleep and she loves him . My frnd told her to meet him but he also can't cheat on the other girl too . He is unable to figure out how this can happen as he didnt had any feeling for that girl .

It's ok. It's kind of confusing. Kind of all over the place. Very covert. If this is something you have prepared for a very specific circumstance it's great. The cheating part isn't very good, she would most likely have bad experiences with cheating and as soon as you mentioned it she may start to think of those experiences.

Try and instead be more specific to what you want. Think, exactly what you want her to feel and say that.

I'm not intending to be rude when I say that I think English isn't your first language. The word child should be children and there are other mistakes. nlp in a foreign language could be difficult. You do have good grasp of the language. Nlp is probably a great way to practice learning English so keep it up. The exact grammar isn't important anyway, it's the emotions and thoughts you invoke in her mind.

Before you start your pattern you need to state the process your trying to elicit in the form of a conversational postulate. For example. "Have you ever been cheated on by someone you loved?" Also I would try not to make it so long. You could loose her attention.

Usually, girls with poor attention spans can't listen to patterns much, on top of that are the distractions in the environment. Granted you've reached the hook point it could work as long as you give a plausible reason for the language. Of course, you could attempt patterns in comfort stages to build more of a deeper rapport but if you do, then you need to be congruent with the way you speak. You wouldn't be able to just switch to a pattern at some point and expect a result, that would be stupid.

Just remember when we were child .. how much emotions we showed for everything .We would smile and cry just by small things Most of them were good wheres now most of them are troubling ..So we want to go towards that chidish happiness and free state

There is a friend of mine ,ashish who is in relation with a girl for about 3 years now .They love each other genuinly , and want to live together forever . My friend liked a girl name shruti in school. We were in 12th and girl was in 9th .. They both used to come in same bus . They Stated talking little bit and then on Facebook . They stated talking and my friend liked her very much . But she had a friend to told her that ashish is not a good boy and you should not talk to him . So she stopped talking to my frnd and removed him from FB. As there was nothing so serious abt the relation . my friend didnt bothered much .He forgot her and life was normal . Now after 5 years from that incident .. Ge got a mail from that girl "I want to remove some misunderstandings with you" . When he read that mail .. He stated memorising about his past . His heart beating very fast .And he felt restless. He felt like she is the girl that he always wanted . He waited for her whole day ...When she gave him Fb req. , he coudn't control him feelings and wanted to meet her . Then in a message .. the girl told him that she can't even sleep and she loves him . My frnd told her to meet him but he also can't cheat on the other girl too . He is unable to figure out how this can happen as he didnt had any feeling for that girl .

Now what should he do ??

When did this site become a getaway for cry babies? I don't mean to be rude, but someone has to say it. First, it looks like your friend is clingy. He's hanged on a relationship five years ago. This is one itis, please read a post about it on the PUA section. Second, clearly, this girl stopped communicating with your friend cuz what her friend told her. Now, after 5 years she comes back and wants to be with him. Grow some balls. She doesn't control you. She doesn't get to drop you and pick you up anytime she wants. If she wants you, she has to earn it. Play hard to get; be the hot shot!!!

Whenever you start thinking you need to hypnotize your way into a girls pussy, you need to fix your game.

It's not hypnosis lol.

IMO it's important to say when you would give the pattern. As what i'm reading it sounds way, way to long. By the time you have her attention to listen to this long of a story you are probably better of to just touch her and sexualise. Unless you are very very good at talking i would not make patterns that take longer then 30-60sec.

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