Dating Drama: The guy or girl you like is not single.

The downside of dating

When it comes to dating it definitely become a sticky situation. Especially when you don’t know how the other person feels about you or if they are already in a committed relationship with someone else. Because let’s face it, rejection is a hard pill to swallow. Now for me, this topic has been the story of my life for years. I always seem to fall for the wrong guys, or I always seem to have bad timing. Which ultimately leads to my heartbreak and me wondering to myself ” What is wrong with me”?.

Now the truth is, you can not make someone like you. I mean some may argue you can, but honestly, it’s not worth it. It’s better to have someone who likes you back 100 percent. Because then you will know, that the feelings are real and mutual. When it all boils down to it, you have to be honest with yourself. Would you be willing to wait even if there is a possibility that you guys may never be together? Even in the chance that they become single again, will you stick around? Because truthfully, you may not know when that is going to happen. It can happen next month, next year, or even years down the line.

Also, think about the friendship that you guys have. If you guys have a good bond, would you be willing to change the nature of your relationship? I mean don’t get me wrong, not every relationship that starts out as friendship ends badly. But then again, you still have to consider these things.

In conclusion

So when it comes to dating the question of what to do, I would say take it day by day. Continue to be their friend as long as you can without expecting anything more or less because the future is still uncertain. Always remember to work on yourself first, and then everything else will fall into place. Know that it is not the end of the world and there are plenty of fish in the sea. If this crush flops, then move on with your life and be happy. Don’t wait around for someone that you are not sure of because you could be missing out on someone else who is better.

I think taking things day by day is a good advice. But I think, we think too much about relationships. I think we should be happy whether we are in a relationship or not. And also if your crush does not like you back , it’s not the end of the world.

GIRL, MY MOM’S FRIEND HAS A MOTTO THAT IM TOTLLY THINKING SHOULD BE MINE TOO: “LIKE WHO LIKES YOU”😄.

I MEAN 7 TIMES OUT OF 10 I TEND TO BE INTO GUYS WHO EITHER FRIENDZONE ME OR END UP BEING TAKEN. I’VE BEEN ‘SOUL SEARCHING’ TO UNDERSTAND WHY IM ATTRACTED TO THE ‘TYPE’ THAT I AM AND IN THE PROCESS I’VE UNCOVERED A LOT.

MEANWHILE, I TEND TO FRIENDZONE THE GUYS WHO LIKE ME MOST! 😅

I’M WORKING ON CHANGING THAT…

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