I'm 28 years old and I am still a virgin cause I am waiting til marriage.Most laugh at me when I say that but I do not find it funny.Is it safe to say that I maybe alone forever since most men are not gonna respect my beliefs?

From my experiences, "men" (and I use that term loosely) don'thate virgins, they just don't want to waste their time with someone whomay not put out - which, in my mind makes little sense because women who aren't virgins may not put out either. A guy once told me that he wouldn't even consider afriendship if we weren't going to ultimately have sex Other guys have pretended to like the idea of being with a virgin, but it was more of a challenge for them (i.e., being the first guy to hit). None of the "situations" have been long-term; once they realized that I wanted something with subsistence and more than a fling, they stopped calling and/or texting. One positive thing that comes out of these situations is that you don't waste time on someone; that's why it's best to know their intentions from the jump (and I'm good for asking, "What are you looking for?")

I never intended to be a 25 year-old virgin, but things are what they are. I know what I want, and I'm not going to settle. OP, it sucks, but we all have to go through bad guys before we get the one that is meant for us. I'm sure that you'll find a man who respects your beliefs. Have you tried looking for men who share religion and/or your beliefs? They may be more accepting of your decision.

What I have done, though, is stopped sharing the information with every guy I "talk" to. If he starts talking sex on our first phone call, then I know he's not someone I want to deal with.

They don't hate virgins, they actually love it so they can they experience what it feels like to "pop a cherry". I don't know why you are telling men about that, but I assume you were on a date. I think those men laughed because they simply didn't believe you were one.

They don't hate virgins, they actually love it so they can they experience what it feels like to "pop a cherry". I don't know why you are telling men about that, but I assume you were on a date. I think those men laughed because they simply didn't believe you were one.

Maybe it's a sign that I'm supposed to be alone.I don't know if I will ever find a man that respects me and my wishes.

Have you tried dating guys of your own faith/religious background? As I've said, they may be more open to accept your commitment to wait until marriage. They may also be practicing the same thing, you never know.

I've learned 1) to not focus on it and 2) that you get what you put into the universe. Live life. Do things you enjoy. Stop focusing on what isn't going right in your life and put that energy into what is going right. They guy for you will enter your life when it's time; you can't sit around waiting for it. If you keep telling yourself that no one's ever going to be interested in you, then you're not going to get anyone.

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