Admitting to liking big dicks

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I was speaking with a female friend of mine recently who professed her love for large penises, but was apparently ashamed of admitting so. I found that odd, especially since it's not the first time I've heard of women being embarassed to 'admit' to liking larger men...

Isn't this the equivalent of men liking large breasts? I like large breasts and I'm not the least bit ashamed of it. :biggrin1:

Why is that so? Are there women in here who feel - or used to feel - like this? What are the reasons?

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Hrm. She is probably just shy about sex stuff in general? maybe?
I'm not afraid to admit my love for a big one if asked. It does seem weird to be actually ashamed of it...

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I know, that's what I don't get... She's not exactly the shy-type, on the contrary... She got quite a few reveling pics of her on xpeeps.com, lol. It's like there's a social stigma associated with liking big dicks that I'm not aware of... Maybe it's because we still live in a male-dominated society and that sort of thing is frowned upon...?

I was speaking with a female friend of mine recently who professed her love for large penises, but was apparently ashamed of admitting so. I found that odd, especially since it's not the first time I've heard of women being embarassed to 'admit' to liking larger men...

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You goofed, burns1de.
She thinks tactically.
She wanted you to desensitize her.

I know, that's what I don't get... She's not exactly the shy-type, on the contrary... She got quite a few reveling pics of her on xpeeps.com, lol. It's like there's a social stigma associated with liking big dicks that I'm not aware of... Maybe it's because we still live in a male-dominated society and that sort of thing is frowned upon...?

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I guess...but how is saying you like big dicks different from saying you like anything else sexually, you know? It doesn't seem to me like a feminism issue at all.
Maybe the chicks I hang out with and I are just crude.

Maybe because it reduces your pool of potential poon (or penis)...if you say you like big dicks, that eliminates all the smaller guys who might not try anything and maybe even will get pissed/resent the girl who likes big cocks.

If I say I like boobies D or bigger, any girl less than that will call me a twat and not come near. This could be one reason...

Maybe there is a stigma about cock though, and somehow liking big tits is more acceptable? It's a mystery, as Toyah would say.

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"...I was speaking with a female friend of mine recently who professed her love for large penises, but was apparently ashamed of admitting so. I found that odd, especially since it's not the first time I've heard of women being embarassed to 'admit' to liking larger men...Isn't this the equivalent of men liking large breasts?"

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Social "etiquette" still more readily accepts recognizing and commenting on "breast bulges" than it does "penis bulges". Discusing (even joking about) breast "size" seems much more common and acceptable than EVER discussing penises in public.

Consequently, professing one's fetish for big penises doesn't always go over too well in mixed company. "Penis talk" tends to (still) result in an awful lot of blushing and embarrassment.

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Social "etiquette" still more readily accepts recognizing and commenting on "breast bulges" than it does "penis bulges". Discusing (even joking about) breast "size" seems much more common and acceptable than EVER discussing penises in public.

Consequently, professing one's fetish for big penises doesn't always go over too well in mixed company. "Penis talk" tends to (still) result in an awful lot of blushing and embarrassment.

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Unless you are on LPSG! Then you get nasty PM's. Of course, I am not speaking personally....:biggrin1:

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Social "etiquette" still more readily accepts recognizing and commenting on "breast bulges" than it does "penis bulges". Discusing (even joking about) breast "size" seems much more common and acceptable than EVER discussing penises in public.

Consequently, professing one's fetish for big penises doesn't always go over too well in mixed company. "Penis talk" tends to (still) result in an awful lot of blushing and embarrassment.

I was speaking with a female friend of mine recently who professed her love for large penises, but was apparently ashamed of admitting so. I found that odd, especially since it's not the first time I've heard of women being embarassed to 'admit' to liking larger men...

Isn't this the equivalent of men liking large breasts? I like large breasts and I'm not the least bit ashamed of it. :biggrin1:

Why is that so? Are there women in here who feel - or used to feel - like this? What are the reasons?

Thank you for enlightening me.

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I was sorta embarrassed too actually. When my bf and I started having sex it was seriously at least a month till I actually told him I love how big he is. Honestly I always sorta assumed size doesn't matter cuz you hear it so much, and then I started having sex w/him and to me it totally does matter, but I was embarrassed thinking I'm not supposed to care about that stuff. Some of the people on this site were super supportive and I think I'm not really embarrassed about it anymore.