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Friends?

There was this guy..Me and him became really good friends.
We hooked up a couple of times, casually. We obviously also hungout a ton of times..and we work together which is a plus!
My only problem is I kinda fell for him but he doesn't exactly know it. I don't want to tell him because he only sees me as a friend, and he casually hookups with other girls. For some reason I think he likes me more than the other women he talks to because we have so many insiders! Now our boss changed our buildings where we work and I won't get to see him as much :(
Help!

I think you just need to tell him that you care about him, and if he doesnt feel the same way, then just let him know its ok. but really, i had this happen, and i regret that i didnt tell him, because I could have been very happy with him. But i love my DH too
just dont let any chance pass you by.

You have several options here. You can either tell him how you feel or you can continue being friends with benefits. I wouldn't expect him to make the move as far as taking your relationship up to the next level.