You know, I've never thought of contrast as being a big thing. For me, it's more about softness, and to a lesser degree, shape and volume. Contrast can be beautiful, in that it can highlight these other features and qualities, which matter to me a lot more.

I know this because I eventually gained weight myself, and it made me feel better. If I were concerned with contrast, I might have chosen to try to lose weight instead, in the hopes of more girls seeming fat relative to me... ...Though in my area of the world, it would probably be a lost cause in any case.