Is my girlfriend joining a sorority going to ruin our relationship?

I know a lot of girls including my siser who rush sororities for good reason. They don't party all the time and actually want to help others with phylathropy. But I also know a lot of girls who completely changed upon rushing (Going out every night, fake friendships rubbing off on their personality, and countless one night stands with frat guys). I know they're extremely time consuming and as a pre med student I feel that would eliminate all extra time she was using on me. she's a very good girl and I really love her, but I dont know how to handle the situation. Help!

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Joining a sorority was one of the most fulfilling experiences I had while in college. It might strain your time together, it did take ti me from me and my partner, but it was something I wanted to do and he respected that. Two years later, we're still going strong 😊

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Did you fight a lot? Ever cheat on him? Find yourself attracted to other guys?

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It really depends. I highly suggest you don't try to keep the relationship. College is probably the worst influence on a serious relationship. Peer pressure is massive there especially in sororities/frats. It's the perfect place for people explore their sexuality.

You can always try to be an exception but I have never heard of even one serious relationship surviving it without permanent damage.

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Should I let her screw up first? Because either way I'm going to be hurt, but at least if I give it a try and it goes well I get to keep her. We're already sophomores so it's only 2 years we have to get through!

@ThreeMonkeys All depends on the school. Some sororities require their pledges to sleep with a fraternity brother, body shaming, binge drinking. Hazing is in all greek life, even if they say there isn't. I go to a no hazing school and I was. Ended up telling the fraternity's president to go fuck himself. But back on topic, there is also a handful of sorority girls that have their crap together, but it is the perfect environment to destroy a relationship.