I’ve been ghosted so what do I do?

I’ve been ghosted. I met a guy 5 weeks ago and I was on cloud 9 we clicked right away he was wonderful. after three weeks I told him I was a virgin but was ready to do it but wanted to do it with someone I trusted. he said all the right things and 2 days later we made love. it was lovely he was sweet and gentle so I started staying over a few nights but just a week ago he stopped texting, phoning just nothing. so what do I do? We already talked about making our summer holiday plans he told me I was beautiful.

Take it as a learning experience. All u can do is move on. Don’t let it bother u too much. Don’t contact him. Make him think you don’t even care. Cause if u contact him, he will just enjoy the attention. Just a typical jerk.

No you’re not worthless. You’re human. And he’s a manipulator. Probably a narcissist. Don’t overreact and just simply drop him and move on. We have all met up with someone like that. Talk with friends. Don’t contact him or anything that has to do with him.

Had something like this happen to me on a dating site last summer. We chatted a lot and things seemed great, so great that she planned the first date before I even had a chance to. Then the day before and day of our first date she ghosts me and then I find out she stood me up. Still wondering what happened there but my advice is to just move on. Sorry this happened to you it sucks

Just move on. Ignore any future communications, and you ever see him in pulic treat him like a stranger. If you must interact, just be polite, courteous, and overly formal. No friendly banter, no catching up, no accepting going on a date. NOTHING.

Ghosting isn't just annoying, it's straight disrespectful. Don't get involved with some who doesn't respect you.

Sorry to tell you but everyone here is right. He used you and ran... People who want sex many times are willing to lie. Make up stuff. Charm. Etc until they make the person fall for them. Then once they have had sex. They vanish. It's a shitty thing to do. But im sorry. That guy was never planning on any holidays with you.

This is the kind of ridiculousness that goes on these days? His, "ghosting" seems like an awful lot of time and effort just to merely get laid. If truly the case, that this was done just to get laid, he did you a favor in by vanishing like the fart in the breeze that he is. That's a dick move pathetic.

If you phoned him, texted him, emailed him, and showed up at his home, I'm thinking you came across way too strong and so he rightfully didn't want to see you anymore. Either that or the sex was bad and he wanted someone more experienced.

It's not always a terrible thing, when I met my first girlfriend we hung out for a few months before becoming official and had a few weeks off in there mostly because of cold feet of getting into a relationship.

Shit happens buddy life doesn't always go the way you want it try not to get all worked up and emotional about it. It will pass you girls get really mad/sad then you "find yourselves" cringe then you say and "strong and independent " cringe and so on and so on give it time

He only wanted to take advantage of you, all the fboys know how to say all the right things. They have their ways with words my dear. He is never interested to have a relationship with you and got scared you might want one. It hurts yes, afterall he is the guy you lost your virginity to. He means something to you, I know. Take your time to heal, he is not worth pursuing.

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Anonymous

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You were a Pump and dump.

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Anonymous

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did you have sex with him?

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i think he had what he wanted.he had sex with you, so he has no wonder about you, he knows how it feels having sex with youafter first time, he became douchebag

you are not worthless.but dont call him, dont message, or mail.it may make you seem like worthless like you want to get fucked again..so forget about him, if he was gentle and good person he would already call you