The Only Way Is Essex: Lydia Bright tries to cut Arg out of her life once and for all but ends up shouting at him and leaving in tears

'I hate you with a passion': Lydia Bright tries to cut Arg out of her life once and for all but ends up shouting at him and leaving in tears

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13:35 GMT, 11 October 2012

Their relationship ended a long time ago, but yet Lydia Bright and James 'Arg' Argent are still finding themselves talking about the past.

Following a scuffle between Arg and Lydia's current boyfriend, Tom Kilbey, the blonde TV star was prompted to go and see her ex where hoped to settle things once and for all.

The face-to-face conversation was in fact Tom's idea, after Lydia described Arg as an 'annoying little wasp' that she just wanted to swot.

'I hate you': Lydia Bright tries to cut Arg out of her life once and for all but it turns into an argument

As Tom dropped her off at Arg's house, Lydia looked rather nervous about confronting her former partner as she prepared to get closure.

'I've just come to talk you because I feel like things have got too much,' Lydia began with, while Arg looked on sheepishly.

'I feel like I've let so many things go and the reason I have is because I know what you're like, if you get a reaction you think that I'm caring.

'I am the happiest I've ever been in my life, I want to marry Tom and there is no one that is upsetting us,' she added.

Serious conversation: The blonde told her former partner that she was the happiest she had ever been

Awkward: Arg looked uncomfortable when he opened the door and saw Lydia standing there

'Good for you,' Arg replied as he attempted to stick up for himself, but Lydia was keen to make her point.

She then decided to bring up the fact that Arg had text her recently saying: 'I miss your bot bot,' but this just made him laugh.

'When I text you, I'd just found out that Gemma had cheated on me, so I got drunk and sent it but I was hoping you'd delete it,' he told her. 'But you showed it to Tom and that gave you some satisfaction.'

Can't keep calm! Lydia said that Arg infuriates her as she told him to leave her and her family alone

'Tom was there when you sent it,' she shouted back. 'And I do not keep secrets from my boyfriend. You were causing trouble, and you are standing here still trying to cause problems between us, and you're still texting my mum.

'They are not your family any more. You infuriate me. I hate you with a passion so just leave me and my family and my boyfriend alone,' Lydia added, while Arg tried to say: 'You're not letting me speak.'

'I've got nothing else to say,' she shouted before walking away and heading back to Tom's car.

Once she was inside, she put her head in her hands and began crying as Tom consoled her.

All too much: The TV star couldn't help but cry as she got back into Tom Kilbey's car

Don't cry: Tom consoled Lydia before driving her home

The next day, Arg was left to explain to the guys why Lydia had come over and what she had said.

'It was the most awkward moment ever,' he told Joey Essex, Tom Pearce and Diags.

'It was like she'd rehearsed everything. She went off on one. I've gotta cut all ties, it will be hard but I've got to do it.'

His three friends had arrived at his house wearing 'Save Kenny' T-shirts after Arg had told them that his Kenny Award was still at Gemma's house.