Specifically, many of the problems arose out of my claims of Irishness itself. That was what really seemed to offend people's sensibilities. Irishness is synonymous with whiteness, it seemed. Whiteness is "pure" and doesn't extend to brown girls, even those who can trace their Irish ancestry back to the 10th century. How frequently I heard that I "wasn't really Irish". But I am Irish. In addition to being born there, my mother, her parents before her, and theirs before them, for generations and generations, are all Irish.

…Don’t get me wrong. The myth of mixed-race and racially ambiguous children as representative of hope and harmony is real. Mixed-race people are notoriously fetishized, and colorism is rampant in mainstream media and Hollywood and, well, across many industries. Dark-skinned black folks are without question discriminated against in far greater numbers than lighter-skinned and mixed-race black folks…