Feeling like a relaxed home is an unattainable goal? It doesn't have to be. Let go of the big picture–a totally serene home that's potentially a 180° from your current lifestyle–and zero in on the little things you can slowly change to create your peaceful place.

Looking at rooms that get it right, you start to see the little tricks that style-savvy designers use to give a room tranquility. Here's how you can get the relaxed look on your own.

Do Lots of Neutrals (shown above)

Take a mental inventory of the most saturated colors in your space and see if you can't replace it with a neutral or a toned-down version of the same shade.

Check Your Lighting

Switch off or dim any overhead lights and opt instead for spot lighting, like a side table lamp or sconces on either side of the bed. If it's in the budget, switch out your light bulbs for full-spectrum bulbs which better simulate natural light.

Say No to Knick-Knacks

I'm a huge fan of surrounding yourself with objects you love, but if the number one goal is designing a relaxing space, clearing out clutter is the easiest way to do it. Aim to have just one or two objects on a shelf or table top.