I was going to say nothing about the back-stabber's thread ... drama and all ... screw that! That is, until MM went and deleted the entire thread. I've never seen that before and, finally, I felt compelled to speak up. The thread served a purpose and should not have been taken lightly. Speaking of purpose, some people's purpose in life is to serve as a warning to others. You're reading a post from one of them.

There is a history on these forums and behind the scenes where several people, two in particular actually, have vaccillated back and forth between being friends and being enemies, usually over infatuations & jealousies regarding members of the same and other sex, one-up-manship over this person posted this and that person posted that, telling secrets that were not kept and should never have been told in the first place. So let us just keep that out in the open here, where it finally was at the end of the other thread.

I have to keep looking at people's ages to remind myself that this isn't high school when I have heard or read some of this comedy. I have wondered to myself if these individuals have real lives and have even counseled, e.g. talking to a wall, that they allowing their egos to be bruised over such petty and stupid things is pettiness and stupidity in and of itself.

Where one of us has tired of being the voice of reason, this one has watched and kept quiet during this recent holocaust, tired of trying to be the peacemaker. Now I speak, seeing there is no true peace to be made, and seeing MM has decided to cover it up. Again, screw that!

When I came to these forums a few months ago, I felt myself encouraged to join MM out of desire to join in by what I thought were people who wanted to have a good time talking intelligent subjects, acting out silly, but harmless charades, and, yes, the flirtation was attractive, even to me.

The people with the aforementioned history who are saying "who me?" in this comedy are the same ones who have driven a wooden stake, thank you very much, into all that was good for us all here. They are the same ones who will still be here after ones like myself are gone, wondering why there is no one to have fun with. This is not about me disliking these people personally, I actually have no hate in me for that. It's just about what they have wrought in their stupidity. And, though I don't think I care now, I still wonder if they have real lives outside of this MM cyberworld gone mad with hatred, acrimony, selfishness, and spite.

So, while the original thread which you've all probably read a hundred times due to its caustic title was a bit filled with venom itself, as I said: it served a purpose. And that purpose was to wake us up to the people carelessly destroying what we use the forum for: to have a good time. It's not fun any more and why bother with it now, unless you feed off negative vibes? If that's your trip then, hey, knock yourself out.

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TheCatsMeow65 write: Damnit whenever I finally sit down to play you all are sleeping :( Ok I guess I can play barbies by myself :(

I know Cat!! Don't you just hate this time difference?? Can you imagine if we all lived in the same city - or at least within 1 hour of each other.... oh boy.... would that be a good idea? heck, I'd be happy to live in the same continent!! LOL

LOL No kidding...but it does truly sound lovely where you are dahlin. OMG if we all lived in the same city...what lil hellions we would be

TheCatsMeow65 write: Damnit whenever I finally sit down to play you all are sleeping :( Ok I guess I can play barbies by myself :(

I know Cat!! Don't you just hate this time difference?? Can you imagine if we all lived in the same city - or at least within 1 hour of each other....
oh boy.... would that be a good idea?
heck, I'd be happy to live in the same continent!! LOL

NYCHICK write: well i dont see lorrie defending the fact she sent emails to others..

anyway its not nice and i myself have recieved a few from some chicks about others.. girls come on all this over a guy?/ please

A guy? Or Guys? Or girls that have rec'd threatening emails for talking to guys? Lord what is it? The list is growing!

Anything that I have done or Lorrie for that matter does not compare to what you people are doing. Go look in the mirror and grow up people. I have been on this site a year and I have never seen anything like this drama. It makes me sick to my stomach to read this crap. Go have some fun with your lives and quit bashing others. What's done is done. You think you are teaching a couple people a lesson? Are you some kind of gods that you think you are doing others a service? You say Lorrie is ruining the forums....look at you guys? Go do yourselves a favor and move on with your lives.

MOONRAY has asked me to post this message:

Cats, everything you hear from one and the other is 95% frickin' hearsay, distortion and misinterpretation. But people STILL go on blaming everyone and rehashing and digging out everything again and bashing again... instead of just minding their own frickin' business! Things happened in the past AND SHOULD REMAIN IN THE PAST. Sure tells a lot about how all the members involved can deal with their own past, doesn't it! I am tired of all of this, it's coming out of my ying-yang! PLEASE people MOVE ON!! If you don't LIKE a person, then DON'T post where he/she is posting... it's SIMPLE!

By the way when I said l*ick a witch I was poking fun of myself since Im a witch lol

NYCHICK write: well i dont see lorrie defending the fact she sent emails to others..

anyway its not nice and i myself have recieved a few from some chicks about others.. girls come on all this over a guy?/ please

A guy? Or Guys? Or girls that have rec'd threatening emails for talking to guys? Lord what is it? The list is growing!

Anything that I have done or Lorrie for that matter does not compare to what you people are doing. Go look in the mirror and grow up people. I have been on this site a year and I have never seen anything like this drama. It makes me sick to my stomach to read this crap. Go have some fun with your lives and quit bashing others. What's done is done. You think you are teaching a couple people a lesson? Are you some kind of gods that you think you are doing others a service? You say Lorrie is ruining the forums....look at you guys? Go do yourselves a favor and move on with your lives.

MOONRAY has asked me to post this message:

Cats, everything you hear from one and the other is 95% frickin' hearsay, distortion and misinterpretation. But people STILL go on blaming everyone and rehashing and digging out everything again and bashing again... instead of just minding their own frickin' business! Things happened in the past AND SHOULD REMAIN IN THE PAST. Sure tells a lot about how all the members involved can deal with their own past, doesn't it! I am tired of all of this, it's coming out of my ying-yang! PLEASE people MOVE ON!! If you don't LIKE a person, then DON'T post where he/she is posting... it's SIMPLE!

Actually Moonray ya know I luv ya dahlin I dunno bout the rehashing...but some of my lil quirks happened the day I came home! But as far as the rest...it just needs to quit! Lets get back to fun...
Anyone for Barbies?

NYCHICK write: well i dont see lorrie defending the fact she sent emails to others..

anyway its not nice and i myself have recieved a few from some chicks about others.. girls come on all this over a guy?/ please

A guy? Or Guys? Or girls that have rec'd threatening emails for talking to guys? Lord what is it? The list is growing!

Anything that I have done or Lorrie for that matter does not compare to what you people are doing. Go look in the mirror and grow up people. I have been on this site a year and I have never seen anything like this drama. It makes me sick to my stomach to read this crap. Go have some fun with your lives and quit bashing others. What's done is done. You think you are teaching a couple people a lesson? Are you some kind of gods that you think you are doing others a service? You say Lorrie is ruining the forums....look at you guys? Go do yourselves a favor and move on with your lives.

MOONRAY has asked me to post this message:

Cats, everything you hear from one and the other is 95% frickin' hearsay, distortion and misinterpretation. But people STILL go on blaming everyone and rehashing and digging out everything again and bashing again... instead of just minding their own frickin' business! Things happened in the past AND SHOULD REMAIN IN THE PAST. Sure tells a lot about how all the members involved can deal with their own past, doesn't it! I am tired of all of this, it's coming out of my ying-yang! PLEASE people MOVE ON!! If you don't LIKE a person, then DON'T post where he/she is posting... it's SIMPLE!

The eloquent words vis-a-vis the First Amendment are not mine, I wish I was indeed that eloquent. ALSO I DIDN'T MAKE EITHER OF THESE POSTS SO THAT EVERYONE COULD PUT THE GLOVES ON AND START DUKING IT OUT AGAIN. I merely wanted them to appear so that, for a time, people could read and remember what ruined the forums at present. MM seemed not to want this known, so I took it upon myself to do what I did.

To anyone to whom my action seemed to be arrogance, anyone who knows me also knows that I would loathe the idea of being that sort of person, and I humbly apologize for any appearance of such on my part.

SpeedDallas write: You'll gotta admit, that's pretty funny. She is hangin in there. As someone who has been the villian myself, and not caring much one way or the other about this particular drama, why not just leave it alone. The little I know about last, I doubt, unlike me, she enjoys all the ganging up on her. I got a kick out of winding up Mas, and others and watching everyone get fired up over all the stupidity, but I doubt Last does. So do what you want, but..........And another blast from the past, anybody, male or female that doesn't stop, I will get in a plane, come to your town, Monday at 8:00 pm,in full Karate regalia and kick your azz..........

I'll be waiting at the Kelowna airport! lol How fast do yo swim? I'll be on my Seadoo! You could grab onto the tow rope, but better keep your mouth closed or you'll be swallowing alot of water...don't want to have to do any CPR or mouth to mouth recusitation! lol

SpeedDallas write: You'll gotta admit, that's pretty funny. She is hangin in there. As someone who has been the villian myself, and not caring much one way or the other about this particular drama, why not just leave it alone. The little I know about last, I doubt, unlike me, she enjoys all the ganging up on her. I got a kick out of winding up Mas, and others and watching everyone get fired up over all the stupidity, but I doubt Last does. So do what you want, but..........And another blast from the past, anybody, male or female that doesn't stop, I will get in a plane, come to your town, Monday at 8:00 pm,in full Karate regalia and kick your azz..........