I'd actually say it depends on the number, I was with a guy who told me his number was in the 120+ range and when we started dating my number was 2 . It actually caused friction in the relationship, but it would never be something I'd turn someone away for. Just something to keep in mind as the relationship develops for me.

I try not to judge but it will bug me. It means we had very different views on life and lived a different life. Not that it is necessarily a bad thing.I want to experience life simultaneously and that is not possible with someone who has slept around, because that person has walked the paths of life so many times with so many different people.Honesty is key and ignorance is perhaps truly bliss.

"Man, that was great!! ..... phew.... That was really awesome.... you must be experienced.... would you mind filling out this short online questionaire outlining your sexual history, past boyfriends and such?"

As long as he's practiced safe sex in the past, it doesn't matter if he's had sex with the entire United States Marine Corps. Past is past and we have to learn to move on and forget about shit that doesn't matter in the long run.