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Physical: 6'0", dirty blonde hair, hazel eyes, waist measurements:...kidding. I have very subjective attractions - a good personality can make me warm up to a wide range of looks. In general though, I like dudes that are tall - 6'0"+

Emotional: More emotional intelligence and expressive nuance than me would be nice, but not to drama queen level.

Mental: Someone who can meet me on my preferred level of abstractions, but no gripey know-it-alls.

I would love to find a guy who's as curious about the world as I am, and would actually like to experience it. I've had an ENTJ guy tell me I was "too smart". ?!
I thought smart was a good thing, but I guess not. I had it explained to me that NT men don't like to have mates that could possibly be smarter than them. This makes no sense to me - if my boyfriend had a higher IQ than I did, I would be proud of him, not see it as a competition. So, I don't entirely believe NT men who say they want an intelligent woman. They want a woman who is reasonably smart without threats of Supreme Intelligence usurpation.

I would love to find a guy who's as curious about the world as I am, and would actually like to experience it. I've had an ENTJ guy tell me I was "too smart". ?!
I thought smart was a good thing, but I guess not. I had it explained to me that NT men don't like to have mates that could possibly be smarter than them. This makes no sense to me - if my boyfriend had a higher IQ than I did, I would be proud of him, not see it as a competition. So, I don't entirely believe NT men who say they want an intelligent woman. They want a woman who is reasonably smart without threats of Supreme Intelligence usurpation.

My experience has been very similar to yours.

Oh my, an NF female who is smart, perhaps even smarter than an NT male?!?!?!

Sacrilegious!!!

:rolli:

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'Cause you can't handle me...

"A lie is a lie even if everyone believes it. The truth is the truth even if nobody believes it." - David Stevens

Oh my, an NF female who is smart, perhaps even smarter than an NT male?!?!?!

Sacrilegious!!!

:rolli:

I hate to here that, because that means it's actually happening to other people, not just me. So did you get any explanations for the "you're too smart" line of reasoning? The ones I had to sit through were paltry at best.