Today, I realized that the only time my boyfriend is physically affectionate with me is when he wants to have sex. When I suggested we just cuddle, he looked at me and said, "What’s the point in that?" FML

Sounds like you dont have a boyfriend, you have a fuck buddy. If you want to be with someone on an affectionate level (like most people) dump the douche and find someone who actually likes you and wants to be with you. You dont owe this guy anything, and i dont say this often, but he will not make you happy and you do deserve to be. Break up with him.

Sounds like you dont have a boyfriend, you have a fuck buddy. If you want to be with someone on an affectionate level (like most people) dump the douche and find someone who actually likes you and wants to be with you. You dont owe this guy anything, and i dont say this often, but he will not make you happy and you do deserve to be. Break up with him.

i agree. it seems to me that he doesnt see OP as a person, but someone just to get sexual gratification from. Committed relationships need that component of nurturing and love (usually, im not about to speak for all of them).

And? So what if he gets horny? Maybe cuddles will lead to sex.
If not, dude can either just let it be, or deal with it himself.
If you don't know how to be close or intimate with your partner without having sex, fuck your partner's life.

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