Not too long ago, we released a gallery detailing 10 things women wish men knew about sex. It was insightful, but made men seem as though we’re a tad clueless about the female body. (Are we?) Well, sex is a two-way street, and there are a few things we gents would like women to know about our needs as well.

10 things men wish women knew about sex

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If we don’t finish, don’t pity us

If it’s a one-night stand, we’re probably drunk. Which greatly impacts our ability to orgasm. Ninety per cent of the time it isn’t the partner’s fault, so don’t be offended. Odds are, we are 10 times more devastated than you are. The smaller of a deal you make it, the more likely our erection will make a comeback. Thinkstock

Tell us what you like

Believe it or not, not all men are selfish neanderthals in the bedroom. No man wants to be labeled a bad lay. So tell us what you want — nothing gets us more aroused than an arched back, tensed thighs or curling toes. Conversely, if something isn’t working for you, make a suggestion to try something else.Thinkstock

Try new things

Too much of the same thing gets boring. Add some hot sauce to your sex life and express something you both want to try out in the boudoir. He will most definitely bring up anal, to which you can indulge in his desires, or slap him across the face. (He only wants to try it to impress his friends, or to satisfy his curiosity; it can be a one-time thing.) Less tedious spice tactics could be role-play, new locations — even lingerie. Thinkstock

Make noise

If we don’t hear a thing from you, we’re going to assume you aren’t enjoying yourself. And that’s not necessary. Your arousal feeds into ours, so the only thing preventing you from better sex, is better communication. When men reach the right spot (oral or otherwise), verbalize it; this tells us we’re doing the right thing and we will
continue to do so. Thinkstock

Compliment his package

The shadiest thing a woman can do after a breakup is mock his package. On the other end, however, the best thing a woman can do while in bed with a man is compliment it. Tell him what you love about his member: its size, how it feels, etc. Thinkstock

Don’t treat sex as your gift to us

There’s nothing less attractive than a woman consenting to sex for the mere fact that we want it, and you’re there. Your yearning to have sex with us is the man’s way of feeling wanted. If we’re not having sex, we don’t feel loved, simple as that. Sex isn’t just a selfish act for us to get off. For most men, it’s a way for us to feel a deeper connection with you. Thinkstock

Be aggressive, b-e aggressive

Sometimes a man likes to be submissive in bed. He wants to be the one receiving orders and being told exactly what to do. Also, he likes porn, and that’s how he wants you. Attack his penis like you’re longing for it, be enthusiastic — but do not be an actress. Find a happy medium between Kristen Stewart and Liza Minnelli. Thinkstock

Be sexy outside of the bedroom as well

Men are horny most of the time. A little tease through text here and there goes a long, long way. There’s no better way to do that then getting a little sexy with your mobile phone, (this doesn’t have to be photos — play safe). Also, when a guy takes you out, the sexier you look, the better. We are proud of the lady we’ve courted, especially when you wear those skinny jeans we bought you. Thinkstock

Don’t limit yourself to the penis

Men love when you play with their member, but that’s not our only body part that gets us hot. With women, guys go from the neck to the toes, yet women only seem to stay in our pubic area. Touch his, ahem, testicles. He may even be open to anal stimulation, as this erogenous zone is home to our G-spot.Thinkstock

Learn from porn

So yeah, watch some. That’s kind of what we’ve grown to expect/want — on a smaller scale of course. Unfortunately...Thinkstock