About Me

I am Alexandra, the founder of this website. I consider myself a sexual adventuress, goddess and a free-spirited woman.

I am a woman who has been living in doubt, shame about her sexuality, faced some nasty unsatisfying orgasm-free relationships, emotional dramas and lack of confidence when it comes to worthiness.

I am a woman who dared to overcome her sexual insecurities, fears, doubts about her own body, sexual needs, imperfections and despite all challenges embarked on a beautiful self-exploration healing journey of empowered conscious living and dating.

I am a woman who permits herself every day to explore, feel, be real, authentic and sexually express free of 'must' and 'shoulds', a woman who dared to choose creativity instead of just living.

I am a woman who learnt slowly to accept herself despite all imperfection, accept and love her body, embrace her true feminine side and set on fire her inner sexual goddess power.

I am a woman just like YOU!

Today I'm living a conscious and honest relationship with the most important person: Myself.

I am an open-book. I talk freely about my sexual needs, desires and straightforward about what type of relationship I need and deserve.

Although, it was not always like that.

I came from a social background where sexually free women were classified as 'bitches.' My parents taught me to be a 'good girl.' Growing up, it was a massive confusion within me. I always felt more sexual than anyone I knew. My brain and heart (pussy) were constantly fighting. Trying to meet false social expectation (being a good girl) and the same time suppressing my authentic sexual self within.

For a very long time, I was ashamed, embarrassed, kept hiding and defeating my sexuality which made me unhappy and dissatisfied. Being someone else you are not, can be super exhausting.

One day it hit me. I can't continue living this lie. I can't wake up and be the 'good girl.' I want to expand and start blooming like a full colourful flower I am. I realised to do that I have to stop acting differently than I feel inside. I must accept myself just the way I am. I must permit myself to be the naughty, well-fucked, provocative unapologetic gorgeous sexual human being I truly am. I decided to stop controlling and suppressing my life and explore my sexuality deeper or rather say just become it!

From this point, I completely embraced my high sexual interest, drive, dirty mind and constant curiosity to experience something new and sexy. Now I feel lucky and look at my sexuality as the greatest gift. I am not unique. It's available for anyone, who’s willing to put the work in.

Sexuality and passion require a regular self-check-in, self-love, awareness and conscious decision-making about loving yourself no matter what. Similar as embarking on a spiritual path. It's a trial and error, fail and fulfilment process. It's life-long studying journey. One thing I realised, that the more you love yourself, the more you will be able to open up towards the world, your partner and will increase your chance of having an Orgasmic Lifestyle.