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Marital Rape in India

Currently there is a huge debate going on in India, about bringing legislation to recognize marital rape. The marital rape that is meant in these demands is that "rape can be committed only by husband on the wife". The demand stems from the orthodox presumption that all Indian husbands are sex crazy, and their wives are celibate women. That Indian wives don't like sex, and they treat their husbands like God, and are ever ready to please their husbands. Sounds weird, stupid and wrong, isn't it ? Well it is. The presumption that Indian women are goddesses and men are rascals is extremely bigoted and totally misleading. The reality is that Indian wives are very good at filing false cases against their husbands. This is very well documented. All this is in terms of Indian context, but might be applicable in other places too.Marital rape doesn't considers the fact, that wife can force the husband to have sex with her. If the husband doesn't wants to have sex with his wife, he is in a big soup. Since according to the Protection of Women From Domestic Violence Act, if the husband doesn't satisfies the sexual whims of his wife, it is a crime. Furthermore, if the wife is a sex maniac, she normally goes to court, and calls her husband impotent. Honorable Supreme Court of India, has already declared that husband needs to provide free sex to his wife, else it will adversely affect the wife's health. The husband has to act according to the whims of his wife, since it is a choice between bad and worse for him. Opportunist crooked minded feminists are using the Delhi rape frenzy to pass pervert marital rape law. Per them, only wife can be raped. Even if the husband doesn't wants sex, and wife forces herself on him, the wife will be termed as victim, and the husband evil. In reality even if nothing happens the wife, can still go, and file a rape complaint. They want a very vague law, which will be used to screw the husband legally. As usual, the word of the wife will be the gospel truth. If she says, she was raped, that's it. No evidence will be needed. In the current rape cases, 74% cases are consensual sex. Add to that more fabricated cases. The current IPC 498A section has got 100% false cases. Marital rape will be no different.Debating logically with these feminists is insane. Since the feminists arguments are devoid of any logic. The basic premise of the feminist argument is that, wife is always a victim. When feminists are shown, atrocities committed by wives on husbands, they term these cases as exceptions. If data is shown, which shows, that husbands suffer more then wives, feminists arguments is that women suffer in silence. Which is again incorrect. Women (specifically Indian wives) normally are more vocal about their demands. The final weapon of feminists is that, they will keep shouting, and won't allow the person to speak. And if the other person still persists in a quite manner, he is abused verbally, and physically. All this under the garb of "Women Empowerment".Marital rape law, if it is passed, it will be the death knell for the Indian family system as we know it.

LOOK AT EXTREME OF IT:-WOMAN CAN NOT BE PUNISHED EVEN FOR EXTA MARTIAL AFFAIRS(ADULTARY) BUT MAN CAN BE PUNISHED FOR HAVING SEX WITH WIFE.

FOR THIS THEY MAKE NEW DEFINITION OF RAPE WHICH IS EXTREME CRIMNILISTIC THAT IS PUNISHMENT FOR MARTIAL RAPE WHEREIN EVEN THE CONSENT BY WIFE IS IGNORED IF SHE COMPLAIN.

There's problem of some women leveling false charges against their husbands/boy-friends as a form of revenge. This is especially problematic because establishing the validity of a rape charge beyond reasonable doubt can often be tricky, and it might be trickier in cases of marital rape.

FOR MARTIAL RAPE THEY ARE SAYING THAT MAN CAN BE ACCUSED BY ONLY WORDS OF WIFE.THEN HE HAS TO PROVE THAT HE IS INNOCENT BY PROOF.WHAT TYPE OF PROOF THERE EXITS IN A ROOM WITH HUSBAND AND WIFE.ARE THEY WANT MAN TO KEEP VEDIO GRAPHY OF NIGHT OR THEY ARE GOING TO LAUNCH A STAMP PAPER WHICH CAN BE USED BY MAN BEFORE GETING INTIMATE WITH WIFE SO THAT HE CAN NOT BE ACCUSED FOR RAPE.

THIS IS SO CRIMINALISTIC BECAUSE IF YOU SAY THAT HUSBAND GOING TO RAPE WIFE THEN WHY GOVERNMENT ALLOW THIS RAPIST MAN AND WIFE TO SHARE SAME BED.IF A WOMAN FEEL she should not live with a particular man then she should take divorce.

YOU CAN SEE ONE PERSPECTIVE OF GOVERNMENT :-WOMAN CAN NOT BE PUNISHED EVEN FOR EXTA MARTIAL AFFAIRS(ADULTARY) BUT MAN CAN BE PUNISHED FOR GETING INTIMATE WITH WIFE.

BEFORE IT WAS ONLY consensual SEX: ONE ONE SIDE THEY ARE TELLING WOMANS THAT IF TWO ADULT DO SEX WITH AGREEMENT OF BOTH THEN IT IS NOT CRIME BUT ON THE OTHER SIDE FOR BOY IT IS CRIME(RAPE). THE LAW SHOULD BE UNBIASED FOR BOTH IF SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE IS CRIME THEN THEY SHOULD PUNISH BOTH AND IF THEY BELIEVE ON THE THEORY THAT "IF TWO ADULT DO SEX WITH AGREEMENT OF BOTH THEN IT IS NOT CRIME" THEN THEY SHOULD NOT PUNISH BOY.

STOP GETTING MARRIED!!!I don't know why common sense is so uncommon for men. If u don't marry Marital Rape is not a problem in ur life.....is it?Everytime I hear or visit a marriage, it makes me cringe. What kind of moron does that to himself? I can't help but think that men who marries deserves what they get. Thats why I never believe in MRA movement....Men themselves don't want to protect their rights.Morons every last one of them.

a weak law is no answer to having no law at all in this issues . Every law has the potential to be misused but that does not mean that there should be no law at all . The reason why people are pushing for marital rape to be considered an offence is because rape is one of the most blatant forms of violating a woman . The woman is raped repeatedly within the confines of her own marital home and that too by someone she trusts , one cannot even start to imagine the trauma that she must be going through .

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