We heard yesterday that Teen Mom’s Farrah Abraham, who turns 22 next month, had a sex tape with an ex boyfriend. It sounded like the typical “faux-celebrity sex tape” scenario in that the celebrity is negotiating the tape’s release, but tries to play coy about their role in the process. (See: Kim Kardashian, Kendra Wilkinson, Paris Hilton, et al.) When asked to comment, Farrah hemmed and hawed, but eventually told Wetpaint that she would have her “lawyer” look into it. She said vaguely “I don’t … exist … anything about that … I work hard on my own professionally, and I don’t need any of that bulls—. If I had my own personal stuff, that’s my own personal thing. And if there’s anyone trying to be rude, or just get at me, then my lawyer will take care of that.” So she’s sort-of talking around it, and claims she’ll get her lawyer involved.

Only that’s not what happened and of course Farrah was trying to release the tape. When she found out her co-star wasn’t going to sign off on it, she went and shot a “professional” version with James Deen, a hardcore pr0n star known for co-starring with Lindsay Lohan in “The Canyons.” Then Farrah went and did a bikini photo op (those photos are here) showcasing her wonky bolt-ons. She very much looks the part. Deen confirmed to TMZ that he shot the tape with Farrah, the two were even photographed out together, and Radar has the details of how it all went down, so to speak:

Former Teen Mom star Farrah Abraham made a sex tape with an ex-boyfriend and RadarOnline.com has exclusively learned she was secretly behind shopping the tape but because proper releases weren’t obtained, the tape was a dud — which led the reality TV star to shoot a “legal” porn tape with Lindsay Lohan‘s The Canyons co-star and porn star James Deen over the weekend that she can profit from.

According to an industry insider, when selling Farrah’s sex tape became complicated because of releases, Vivid Entertainment founder Steve Hirsch stepped in and had the 21-year-old sign a 2257 model release ensuring both parties involved are over 18 years old.

“A third party was involved in the sale, but Farrah was also secretly involved. She wanted it out because she’s desperate to be relevant again. The problem is that there’s no release for the sex tape because both parties need to sign off on it.”

Kevin Blatt — the Los Angeles-based sex tape broker responsible for the release of Paris Hilton and Kim Kardashian‘s sex tapes — says he was shopped the Teen Mom‘s original sex tape but passed for a few reasons.

“I saw the tape with Farrah and her ex and I passed. Not only is Farrah not a real celebrity, but there was no release showing that she was of legal age at the time, making a tape like that useless,” Blatt told Radar.

Farrah wants to remain relevant and she’s doing just that. The last few times the media covered her she was getting plastic surgery, then a DUI, so score for her I guess. It’s not a bad career move for someone in her position. I mean Teen Mom ended last year, it’s not like she’s going to get a spin off.

Farrah’s horrible mom, Debra Danielsen, told TMZ that she didn’t think her daughter would shoot a sex tape. She said “My daughter has never expressed interest in things like that. She was not brought up that way. We have religious beliefs.” That whole family is so messed up, and I know some people say Farrah is disrespectful of her mom, and she is, but her mom is a nasty piece of work too. So it’s not hard to see how Farrah turned out like she has.

It really wasn’t a serious comment to begin with. I blame them all for glorifying a life of fameho-ing.

Virgina5 says it best below:” I must of made all the wrong life choices. I guess I should of got pregnant at 16 and get paid for it, become a teen mom and get paid for it, done porn and get paid for it.”

You are blaming just MTV, really? Because I blame the Kim Kardashian for becoming so wealthy because she made a sex tape and released it and then edited out some very disgusting things and re-released it. These young girls all know how she got her start and they are simply trying to emulate her. Unfortunately most do NOT have a sociopath for a mother with no moral compass but one hell of a business sense.

Not to mention the fact that he has unprotected sex with scores of women who have sex with scores of other people who have sex with scores of other people…I could go on, but you get where I’m going with this. James Deen is kind of cute and hung like an ox, but that wouldn’t be enough to let him stick his fairly indiscriminate peen in me.

@Bronson however you’re never 100% safe when having unprotected sex regardless of your last test. There are ‘window’ periods in which you’re infected but no tests can pick it up. In that time, an adult star could have passed something to dozens of people.

I find it ridiculous that releasing a sex tape or a porno, is now considered by some a stepping stone. Unless you are trying to step into a porn career.

I don’t fully blame MTV, they have just evolved into basically the same crap as so many other channels have. I remember MTV, VH1 being worthwhile. And now it is basically just reality crap.

MTV used to have this documentary series called “Sex in the 90′s” where interesting topics were discussed. Safer sex was actually promoted. Now, with the exception of the occasional decent “True Life”, the entire channel is just crap.

The producers of these shows launch people into a spotlight, where bad decisions are rewarded. At least temporarily. Now that “Teen Mom” is over, the regular pay for the people on it is gone too. And making a ton of bad decisions on TV, will make it hard to get a regular job.

I remember watching that “Sex in the 90s” show on MTV back in 2000. They should reair it. MTV has changed so much over the years. I was watching the first Real World season when MTV aired it recently and my boyfriend had no idea what I was watching since it was so different from anything they currently show.

Oh my god….that is disgusting. James deen is gross (yes ladies im sorry i dont get this whole james deen thing. People seem to go on and on about how cute and smart he is. He’s barely the former, definitely not the latter. Boy is dumber than a box of hair.) Farrah is gross, everyone involved in this is just gross. Dear god, this child has gone off the deep end. She’s trying to make money off this….ugh. Yuck. The other dude was probably like…yeah I don’t want anyone to ever know I did it with her. I want to feel some sort of sympathy for her, but I have no place in my heart for it. I only feel for her poor poor child.

This is incredibly skanky and desperate. I’m sorry, but to take these measures to be famous… How can you be so empty and superficial? I know she grew up watching Kim and Paris, but those girls were already super rich when they released their sex tapes. It was part of the scandal and appeal. The heiress to the Hilton hotels, the daughter of the lawyer who got OJ out. They didn’t do it just for the money, and Paris was a hardcore legendary party girl in NYC, not a teen mother. The tape made sense. This girl is a mom. You just can’t think of life that way anymore. Her baby doesn’t deserve that. Kids already bully each other to death with no good reason necessary. Imagine her in a few years getting gifs of that shit or whatever exists by then. The torture.

If you’re alone in life do whatever you want but when you’re a parent you should not be actively doing crap that is going to hurt your child one day. You have no right. Our parents are mostly relatively normal human beings that make mistakes and we still have issues, imagine that little girl.

Besides, she will not be famous from this. She will be a porn star forever, period. And she will have to do humiliating stuff soon, if she wants to stay employed. I don’t care how cool porn stars paint the job, it’s still sex work and sex workers are treated like trash by almost everybody, including their own bosses. It looks good to her now but when she has to choose between getting gang banged by 5 guys, or double teamed by two huge guys for only $1,000 we’ll see how fun and glamourous the job really is. James Deen is nice to her now, but he’s known to be too rough, too cold and too mean sometimes.

I absolutely agree! And your scenario is spot on. I had two friends who worked for Vivid and Hustler years ago. Beautiful,kind,intelligent but obviously flawed. They had to do such increasingly degrading things for $1,500 a “scene”. I would never judge them,but I do feel empathy for the majority of the women who take that route. This girl though…such a nasty piece of work she is. Just like with Lohan,I’ll save my sympathy for people not arrogant and cruel. And that James Deen seems to make his money but being very violent with his scene partners,not in a fantasy way but just rough. I don’t understand his “good guy” image.

@annie THANK YOU! It’s frightening how much people believe this industry is Soo good to everyone. People don’t realize that porn stars images are just as tightly controlled. Come on now folks! These people want you to watch them so of course in this day and age they need to get a personality to be with their viewers. Show them the other side, etc. their images are just as tightly controlled and thought out. porn needs the publicity to make it seem like its empowering women. All it is is PR.

@annette also thank you! I don’t get his good guy image wither or WHY THE HELL PEOPLE THINK HE’S SO SMART AND WELL SPOKEN?????? Seriously people’s expectations were so low that this moron is considered smart. This is all just took gross.

These “stars” are treated like animals. I know people are into different things, but a lot of these girls have to give up standards and do things they would never do because their first scenes are always easy but that’s how they get them. They never imagine what they’ll have to do next to keep working.
Then when they finally quit they realize they have no options in life because nobody will hire them. Read the stories of Jenna Jameson and Penny Black. These women tell the whole truth like it is. Some people don’t want to see it because they don’t want to feel guilty for watching that stuff or using sex workers, but it’s an incredibly misogynistic line of work that preys on very vulnerable people that would never end there if they had better options in life.

Funny but I was on airbnb the other day looking for an apartment to rent in NYC when I go do some work there…there was a guy who had 100% positive, glowing reviews on his apartment except for one nasty, scathing, irrational review… who was it? Farrah. Lol. She seems like an entitled bitch.

i think she’ll exploit her daughter (she already has); somewhat like how Dina steered Lindsay, or Courtney Stodden’s mom. I’d be horrified if my children saw me on a sex tape; she seems like a smug little idiot. Where’s this baby’s dad?

As far as how Farrah was rude to her mother, she was, but I, too, think that there was something much deeper going on that we don’t know about. That kind of anger doesn’t come out of nowhere; plus, even when she tries to talk to her mom respectfully, there’s such a distance there. I would love to know what’s really happening there.

Also, from what I understand (from James’ comments to the media about the whole thing) they followed procedure, got tested before they shot together and both parties consented. Hell, Farrah seems to have sought it out and organized it herself. So, since everyone is an adult here, what’s the big deal? The porn industry will continue to exist and thrive with or without has-been, hanger-ons like this girl, so be it.

Also, with respect to the little girl, I’m pretty sure her fate was already sealed when she was born into this family. I remember watching Teen Mom (I was in my early 20s when it originally aired) and thinking, “This family is absolutely deplorable.” The way Farrah and her mother interacted and spoke to one another made me physically sick. But who knows? The kid could grow up and do the total opposite of everything she gets exposed to and end up being a normal, happy person.

I guess I’m the only one that doesn’t see porn as a terrible thing for women. If that’s the choice a woman wants to make then all the power to them. I’m not gonna slut shame anyone. I don’t see how doing a porn movie all of a sudden makes her a bad mother.