No MPUA seems to buy into my style

Hey Guys,

Good to "meet" you all, and I look forward to being moderately active.

So here's the big question in my head, and the reason I decided to join a forum. I'm no MPUA myself, but I'm pretty good, especially given how lazy I naturally am with the opposite sex - I don't want to put forth much energy.

Every MPUA I've tried learning from, seems to imply that I need to be a (no offense intended) "whore" to get better. The fact that I can get numbers and kiss close at will (though I'm stale at the moment - I go to a military school so women get even less attention when I'm here) isn't good enough, the question is always. "How many women have you slept with" - well, not many actually, but that's because I'm morally opposed to having sex with every woman I can, one of my more recent problems was some women just wanting to have sex with me.

Do you guys know of any MPUAs that I could learn from who's style wouldn't necessitate me feeling like a slut

I would like to hear, however, if you are of the opinion you DO have to let yourself sleep around to grow beyond a point and why - but I don't to hear anything condescending - I literally just got a stuck-up e-mail from a MPUA telling me that I was wrong to not sleep around, and that was really annoying.

Last edited by KnightlyStud; 05-08-2013 at 07:12 PM.
Reason: I reread it and made a few grammar errors.

Re: No MPUA seems to buy into my style

They probably think that you are trying to get good at f-closing, but you are unwilling to do it a lot. Pickup is like anything else, the more you do it the better you will be. It is unlikely you are gonna be as good at f-closing as the guy who does it a lot. He's had more practice than you, so he is likely going to be better at it.

Re: No MPUA seems to buy into my style

Thanks, guys. But do you of any MPUAs that have material I could study that don't necessitate F-Closing (I learned a new term!), that would have new things for me to do to get better without advancing to that point. You guys are great.

Re: No MPUA seems to buy into my style

I agree with all of the above posts but I would like to add that from what it sounds like you are wanting to find one guru to fallow. Why only one? Watch them all. Watch videos online of all of them and take what you think is good and discard the rest of it. You should try and learn from everyone that you can. Take what you find the most beneficial. There is nothing that says you have to lay 300 girls to be considered a MPUA. Only hook up with those that you want to.

Re: No MPUA seems to buy into my style

That's nice Mindset. More like me. Except I still do sleep around...a bit lol.

It's just that our society says that a man who sleeps with lots of women is alpha. Doesn't even matter if they were all hogs lol. So that's just something you'll have to deal with since I don't think that perspective is changing anytime soon. Because it's shaped that men get "lucky." That it is very difficult to get laid. So a man who's been with lots of women is simply....the man.

But as we progress in PUA we do start to desire more quality than quantity. At least for me. I don't know any books or GURUs that explicitly focus more on quality vs quantity. But I personally like The Attraction Code as a foundation to game. It really digs into the psychology of what makes us tick.