Adventures in Being Married to a Soldier and Policeman.
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Monday, September 12, 2011

Always remember

South Orangetown Ceremony Flag

Yesterday was a long, periodically tough day. I sang at 2 memorial services for 9-11, attended a third and made an appearance at a local college writing letters to Sarge's unit. I was continually reminded of how much positive community activity has come from this tragedy. 10 years ago I was living in NC, teaching high school chorus when I found out what was happening in NY. I think of it as the day I became a true "grown-up." I was so far away and it really hit home how much of a New Yorker I truly am.

I started my day in Haverstraw and sang first, thank goodness. That ceremony was pretty much a tear-fest from that moment on. I recovered myself with a trip to the deli to see some of our friends before heading over to the Orangetown ceremony where I got just be "the wife" and observe and listen. There were some true and heartfelt words that, again, brought me to tears.

My sister saved the day with a phone call at 1. We went for a short walk (15 minutes is my limit) and then had lunch at Noonan's. Yummy burgers and beer make for smiles and a little recovery from all the sadness. Katie is awesome!

STAC students

My final 2 stops were less emotional, I think I was just wrung out by that time. The stop at STAC to visit the college students writing to the unit was really positive. The unit needs those notes and letters to keep them intact emotionally as was pointed out by the friend of ours who helped organize the drive. (Thanks Jim!)

The Clarkstown ceremony was very formal. Their Honor Guard is TIGHT. I was impressed with the drill and ceremony...and I'm getting to be a good observer, though I don't think I could ever successfully do it. Hudson Voices sang again and I think it went pretty well. I know I was more together than I was during the morning's ceremony.

For those reading, keep writing. Our soldiers need to hear from us, even if they don't have the time to write back. They get our notes and it helps them get through another day. Sarge recently compared their lives to the movie "Groundhog Day" where each day is exactly like the first. Write and remind your soldier that there is life outside their base and routines. They will appreciate it!

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I love my high heels, contrary to many teachers! There is almost always a pot of coffee on here and I love having people over to share. When at home I can be found reading, cooking, baking and watching too much TV. I try to get to the gym as a balance to the cooking and baking... Recently I became an Army and Police wife so life is never boring!

We've been married since April and there is plenty of life going on here! I am teaching, going to graduate school and learning about being married. My husband is currently deployed and so it's an odd mix of being single again and missing that person who's such an integral part of my life. I have a fantastic family and my friends are outstanding. I am lucky to have them and know they will be needed more than ever.