did you lose your virginity to this girl? it sounds like you're sprung on her cause she's the first chick you boned and you got that emotional tie to her. if this is the case, you need to let her go and explore the world. if that's not it, and if you're not truly happy or kind of paranoid about her cheating/leaving you, break it off for sure. you might feel like crap or that you've hit rock bottom, but you just to need to hop off the pc, hang out with friends (see new girls) and let time do it's thing....

Some girls are like this, they find it hard to forgive mistakes and accept that men are only human, you can apologize until the cows come home she will ONLY get over it when she wants to.

sound familiar?

at some stage you have to grow some balls, start carrying yourself with dignity man, i'm not saying be an ******* to her but if she chews you out over nothing, walk away, let her chase for once.

Women LOVE control, if you give them a taste of it, let them know you will always be the one grovelling then they will abuse the **** out of that fact to get what they want, when they want.

Don't put up with that crap, I did it for like the last 6 months of my life, would always be apologising, grovelling trying to make up over the smallest of arguments, in the end over something fairly trivial me and her ended up drifting away from each other, she wont even talk to me now, i wrote letters tried to talk, did everything but she just wrote me out of her life, complete waste of 6 months, complete waste of me giving everything I had, none of it meant anything to her, if she actually cared about me it wouldnt have been as easy as turning off a light switch for her.

I ended up losing my self respect, getting out of shape, getting run down and ill, I lost friends, fell out with family and literally ended up with nothing because I let my feelings control me, when i should have been controlling then. In fact im convinced if i'd been more relaxed and kept myself together things would have worked out for the best.