Fucking to Destress

How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Popular girl in my school but we never talked to each other before. We hardly noticed each other or crossed paths as she was my senior.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? Stressful day at school. On the bus back to the dorm, it was extremely full. I was fortunate to get a large seat behind the driver. As the standing crowd was really squeezed, a girl I recognised from my school but never spoken to asked if she could share the seat. I said yes. We chatted about the workload and stress. We ended up getting a couple of beers from the convenience store and continuing our chat in my room while discussing some projects. After going through the beers she took a small bottle of whiskey out of her bag which we swigged down too. Getting drunk, I kissed her and she enthusiastically responded by kissing back and rubbing my pants. I undressed her and then myself and got down to business.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We alternated between blowjobs and missionary. She was a master at blowjobs. I came twice, both in her mouth. She was quite insistent on me not cumming in her mouth but I was too intoxicated and pleasured to control myself. She pinched me hard as a “punishment” and forced me to finger her until we slept.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Somewhat

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We met on and off over the next few months for more drinks, discussion, and of course, sex. But nothing really came out of it. We were from different countries too, and language was an issue for emotional stuff. Her English was rudimentary at best, just enough to discuss projects and work.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, I was feeling lonely, It was easy / convenient

How intoxicated were you? Drunk/high but not wasted

What substances did you consume? Alcohol

How intoxicated was your partner? Drunk/high but not wasted

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Somewhat

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I don’t know / I’m not sure

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Somewhat

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They didn’t give a clear ‘yes’, but didn’t give a ‘no’

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Our schoolmates soon found out we slept with each other occasionally. Some thought it was a joke but those closest to us were against it as we were from different backgrounds, countries, languages, and she was my senior and older than me.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively negative

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? A little bit

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? A little bit

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Casual sex without emotional feelings.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Having to defend my decision to fuck her to me and her friends.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? A little positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative