Maintain the relaxed casual frame, that you are just there to kick it. You don't buy lapdances or expensive drinks, you just come to hang out. This is actually fucking normal. Realize this, breathe it. Act like they're breaking protocol if they try to insist you buy a dance "Whoah..! I'm hangin' out babe.. " (I'm not that guy..)

I like to get playful with it also..

"No babe not a good idea.. I just can't keep my hands to myself"

"Seriously.. I do NOT play well with others.. I never went to Kindergarten"

Someone else said it and I agree.. strippers do not fuck customers. You start busting out money and you are automatically NOT the guy they will fuck. But there are guys who come and hang out- and don't pay for shit, and the girls know this and are totally cool with it, it's just the kind of place they frequent- these are the guys strippers fuck and have threesomes with and bust out the crazy playtoys with. Be that guy.

Be relaxed with them.. when they come and talk to you, automatically pull them down so they're sitting in your lap. This is second-nature. Now if yer mackin' one girl.. don't necessarily pull down the next one- the girlies can be competitive.

I find that by projecting a strong vibe.. I don't get the same money-hungry mindset, or bitchy vibe from the girlies.. they want to present a better side. Obviously this serves me well.

I like to play with their little uniforms. I WILL lift up their little skirts to casually take a peek underneath and look at what kind of panties they are wearing. I'll walk up to the stage- demand service with a playful palm-down or fist, looking down at the stage while I fake that I'm being an asshole. But I'm still projecting playfulness. Then I look up, put my shoulders back and stand there expectantly waiting, with a strong almost pouty look- it's an exaggerated stance and look. The girls find it funny.. it is funny. They'll come over and I'll rub my head on them.

They come over, their hair is always dangling in front of their face, or they're wearing pony-tails.. I'll lightly pull on this so their face is even closer. It's very cute, and very intimate, and they recognize this. I'll rub my bald head on their face or their neck- they like this. I touch faces with them when they're close, I just make it natural to them that we would be this close while we talk. I like to grab a book of matches- there's always matches at a strip club- and light one when she's really close.. we'll both look at it, and she'll invariably blow it out.. little brat. So I'll light the next one or two and launch them at her. She screams/giggles and fake runs away.. but she ain't going anywhere.

I'm very loud at the club, I'm calibrated. I just talk louder, I can be heard clearly from several feet away even with music. Nautilus from the is so loud- my gawd.

I'm not obnoxious.. sometimes a little bit.

I make friends with the waitresses. Usually they're not as attractive as the dancers.. if they are then game on. I banter about everything.. you can banter about anything.. it's always there. Any kind of interaction with a female, you can pick little things apart and give social commentary on it. That's game

Always remember.. you do NOT have to "set yourself apart" as not being one of the other guys. You AREN'T one of the other guys.. they will see this almost as soon as you guys start talking.. don't qualify yourself, "Well I know you must get hit on a lot.. I'm not one of those guys.. but we should talk later.. blah blah, what's your number."

Weak sauce. Just get her number like any other girl.. she doesn't want to know, or perceive that you see her differently.

Bouncing to Denny's afterwards is code for the hook-up.. it's not spoken outloud, but it's pretty much a universal thing.

Its like, fuck it all, lets make a lemonade stand and play kiss chasey! Rake up the leaves into a pile and jump onto them. Fuck responsibility...there is only one...chase the girls They'll giggle as we pursue. Alexander~

I’m not an expert in gaming strippers, but have PU’ed a few, proper dated one and one of my long term f-buddies is an ex-dancer from Stringfellows (and her girlfriend). Plus, I’ve been offered phone numbers from a few girls and refused them. So I’m not completely clueless.

As Jose said, it’s as if it's a taboo in community…and so it should be. These girls make their living giving fake IOI’s in order to separate you from your cash and behave in a totally false manner.

I never go to a strip club to run game, but if I get dragged there with mates, I’ll play, just for something to do.

A few things I do different to Manwhore:

I virtually ignore their bodies and never kino. I see it as a way to set myself apart from the crowd.

I won’t buy drinks or a dance if asked, but when a girl has been sat talking to me for hours and turning other (paying) guys away I will have one dance and usually pay for 2-3. But I make it clear that “Hey, I’m costing you money, I’m self employed too, and know the score.”

Beyond that, I do exactly the same stuff I do with any other girl. But to be honest, most these girls have serious issues and are best avoided.

not always. You need to calibrate. Some girls who are strippers are very insecure and get pissed when you neg. Backturns can be good, but try to steer away from negs unless she looks like she has a upbeat personality can joke around and be joked on.

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Honestly, in my opinion, the only difference between a stripper and a normal girl is that they get naked for customers.

It's the same difference between a girl who is a receptionist and one who is an insurance saleswoman. One answers phones, one sells insurance.

It's just a job.

They are human, still a woman, so remember that.

The biggest thing I've taken away from this post is to avoid the customer frame. The rest of it sounds like a killer mindset and method for setting your own frames and dealing with girls who have to handle sexually rampant chodes day in and day out. Including some patented MW specific maneuvers (like karate chop action on the MW action figure...)

The stripper herself is not the difference. It's the crap that she has to deal with that makes her differ from other girls.

But on that note, no two girls are the same.

Calibration is king!

Awesome post as usual, bro

Cheers,

-JD

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Personally, I can't really see what all the fuss is about, a hot woman is a hot woman not what she does.
However, something I look for sometimes is a woman who knows great bodylanguage and how to carry herself, maybe this is something they posess and you like ?

Personally, I can't really see what all the fuss is about, a hot woman is a hot woman not what she does.
However, something I look for sometimes is a woman who knows great bodylanguage and how to carry herself, maybe this is something they posess and you like ?

Strippers are seen as trophies in the community because of the value that they have in their work place. They're given the look but don't touch sort of frame. All these guy drool over her as she dances on stage and she swims in the validation.

It for many is seen as the perfect test because there she REALLY can get any guy she encounters but she's picking YOU based on one thing solely.....your game. There also may be some ideas in regards to the fact that you aren't supposed to be having any sort of relationships with the girls. But based on your ability you are able to enter that venue with all these socially conditioned rules and pull one of them out of there.

But to be honest, most these girls have serious issues and are best avoided.

and club girls don't? And bar girls don't? And single people on the internet don't? And divorced people don't? Everyone has issues. Fuck, most of us are here because we had/have issues dealing and talking to women. I've seen and meet girls online and in public places that were more fucked up than strippers. It's called life. And life is not stress free. Ever look at a squirrel? They look like the most stressed out creatures in nature... So what makes strippers any different in gaming other people? It doesn't. It's just that in most cases, they get supplimented comments on their looks.

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