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Being called "son" or "boy"

Do you daddy chasers like being called "son" or "boy" by the older guys you date/fuck? I HATE THAT!!!! If I am a boy, then that makes you a child molester....that's how i feel. I never say that to the older guys cause I don't want to offend them back(two wrongs don't make a right), but that is how I feel.

Another rant: I don't understand why older men make fun of us young guys and expect us to want to date them. Thats very unfair. Don't get me wrong, I do find older guys very attractive. Alot of older guys give me a hard time because I am only 24. They assume that just because they know my age, that they know who I am. Not every 24 year old is uncapable of being monogamous, immature, or only about sex/drugs/drinking. I feel like I can't win because I fit into all these minority groups..I am black, gay,a daddy/chub/bear chaser, an introvert, mature for my age, etc. , etc....and I always seem to catch crap about one or all of those on a regular basis....Sorry guys, i just needed to vent

Re: Being called "son" or "boy"

I think being called "son" can be really sexy. Especially if it's from a guy who's really in control and rugged. When I was a teenager, I worked for a transport company for awhile and I got called "son" all the time. They also called me "little buddy" and, of course, "mate" (this being Australia). It was hot...and so were a lot of the guys!

And INtrospective1, I think you're really cool. Just be yourself and enjoy life. And your avatars of Alec Baldwin are superhot!!!

Re: Being called "son" or "boy"

Be upfront and tell them you don't care to be called "boy" or "son". If they have a problem with that, then that tells you what the rest of your date/relationship will be like.

When you are first meeting up and chatting with a date, and your age comes up you could say something like "I'm 24, and love learning all about life. I dig guys who are patient and have experience to share, but aren't condensending and cool with the fact I'm still learning stuff and finding my own way." This might help set expectations about what you'd like to experience with your older gents up front.

Re: Being called "son" or "boy"

Be upfront and tell them you don't care to be called "boy" or "son". If they have a problem with that, then that tells you what the rest of your date/relationship will be like.

When you are first meeting up and chatting with a date, and your age comes up you could say something like "I'm 24, and love learning all about life. I dig guys who are patient and have experience to share, but aren't condensending and cool with the fact I'm still learning stuff and finding my own way." This might help set expectations about what you'd like to experience with your older gents up front.

Re: Being called "son" or "boy"

I never knew my oldest brother (9 years older than me) referred to me as his "little brother" until one Christmas event when he laughingly explained to the family about how he went to this big n tall store looking for a gift for me. When asked what he was looking for, he told the store salesperson that he was looking for something for his "Little brother." When he mentioned my size, they were amused by how a big guy like me is referred to as a "little brother." I thought that was funny.

Re: Being called "son" or "boy"

Well the problem is not only with the old guys but also with us, the young chaps...

Being Young we want to prove them that we are mature enough to be with them ,,we are smart ...and we have been exposed to things that the old guys had not been exposed to in their days,,,

Anyhow what i did with many old guys who dared to address me with nicks embed with humiliating intentions was to take them to the peak of desire and then simply kick them....Lols....its works,,,just make them horny as hell and torture them

Re: Being called "son" or "boy"

Originally Posted by shakeupme

I think being called "son" can be really sexy. Especially if it's from a guy who's really in control and rugged. When I was a teenager, I worked for a transport company for awhile and I got called "son" all the time. They also called me "little buddy" and, of course, "mate" (this being Australia). It was hot...and so were a lot of the guys!

And INtrospective1, I think you're really cool. Just be yourself and enjoy life. And your avatars of Alec Baldwin are superhot!!!