Part of me wants to discover everything about him as quickly as possible. But, my other side wants to get to know him gradually, so we can discover if we have true potential.

I'm still talking to other guys online. If the time comes when Al and I agree to focus exclusively on each other, I'm happy to take my profile down. In the meantime, I updated my profile and posted a new photo.

It's not that I want to keep my options open. I just don't want to become invested in a relationship that may not go anywhere.

But I feel guilty. I worry that he might see my profile updates and feel hurt or angry.

Should I stop interacting with other guys and just focus on Al? Cathy

Cathy, Making your profile inactive within a few weeks of meeting someone sounds premature. And, unless both of you agree to do so, it's also unwise.

There is no way you can know whether your affinity signals a lasting connection and compatibility, or if it's solely about chemistry and attraction.

In the meantime, ignore your guilty feelings. You are doing nothing wrong. Until you and Al agree to be in an exclusive relationship, he can't reasonably expect you to be unavailable to others.

Give your budding relationship a little time to grow. If you and Al have a strong connection, it's likely that no one else will interest you.

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From flings with Kristanna Loken to Zac Efron to Cara Delevingne, Michelle Rodriguez admits that she can't stay in a relationship longer than six months. Except with booze. She seems to love that stuff unconditionally.

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2. Leonardo DiCaprio

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3. Rihanna

Rihanna bounced from Chris Brown to Drake back to Chris Brown, then back to Drake, with rumored dalliances with J.R. Smith and now Leonardo DiCaprio in between. We bet that'll end well.

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4. Chris Brown (and Karrueche Tran)

Chris Brown and Karrueche Tran are both rumored to be cheaters, but keep coming back to one another. They may love to tell themselves it's because they're in love, but let's be real: It's because neither of them thinks they deserve any better.

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5. Drake

When Drake isn't giving interviews about how he'd marry Nicki Minaj or how obsessed he is with Rihanna, he allegedly threatens strippers lives after sleeping with them. Because he's really classy and sensitive, you guys.

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6. Jude Law

Remember the nanny? And it wasn't even Fran Drescher. For shame.

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7. Sienna Miller

Sienna Miller may be in a longterm relationship with baby Tom Sturridge, but let's not forget her habitual dating of married men (like Balthazar Getty), rumored fling with Daniel Craig while with Jude Law ... it's not a coincidence that the girl doesn't have a ring on it. She probably doesn't want one.

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8. Liam Hemsworth

Maybe Liam Hemsworth wasn't scared of committing to Miley Cyrus in a marriage when they were that young. Maybe he was just scared of all that twerking, tongue-gouging stuff she's into now instead of shampooing.

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9. Nina Dobrev

Ian Somerhalder reportedly wanted to settle down with his Vampire Diaries co-star Nina Dobrev, who was like, "Uh, I'm really young, dude." So now he's with another onscreen vampire who just got divorced. Hey man, there's a lid to every pot. Dude's got a type.

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10. Jeremy Renner

Jeremy Renner tried marrying his baby mama, and less than a year later filed for divorce. Wrap it up next time, bruh.

12. John Mayer

If John Mayer really wanted to settle down, he wouldn't have called Jessica Simpson things like "sexual napalm," he wouldn't have talked to reporters about splitting from Jennifer Aniston, he wouldn't be rumored to have hooked up with a then-married Food Network starlet, he wouldn't have inspired a Taylor Swift song and he'd find someone more intellectually on his level than Katy Perry, who thinks the definition of "subtlety" involves shooting whipped cream out of her boobs.

15. Rita Ora

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16. Hugh Grant

Hugh Grant dated Elizabeth Hurley for years, cheated on her with a hooker, and she took him back and he still didn't marry her. He's since then had a few kids with a few different women and remains so charming it's almost offensive.

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17. Paris Hilton

Paris Hilton is basically turning into the female Leonardo DiCaprio, just replace the doughiness with DUIs.

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18. Diddy

Hey, Cassie? Where's your ring? Yeah, we know.

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19. Madonna

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20. Derek Jeter

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