10 Spots Guys Really Want You to Touch

10 Spots Guys Really Want You to Touch

How many of these hot spots do you pay attention to during sex? Scroll through to see the 10 most-requested places men asked to be touched, licked, kissed, and sucked. And, no, not one of them rhymes with schmeenis.

Place He Wants You to Touch: His Skin

“The largest organ involved in sex is skin,” says Gloria Brame, Ph.D. “The arousal process is all about building natural heat through great blood circulation,” she explains. “Touching as many parts of your partner’s skin as possible will enhance the hotness—literally!—of intimacy by increasing blood flow throughout his body.” So start off the action by giving your man a massage, and keep the sexiness going by running your hands up and down his back, arms, and chest during sex.

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Place He Wants You to Touch: His Butt

“I like it when girls play with the area around my butthole,” says Joseph, 32. “Some tender massage with a finger, wet finger, or tongue in that area sends me through the roof, especially during a BJ.”

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Place He Wants You to Touch: His Neck

“We have lots of nerve endings in the neck,” says Brame. “On an instinctual level, we are acutely aware of the neck’s vulnerability too. That can be very sexy. Plus, for many people, a touch on the neck gives them an instant shiver,” she explains. Try experimenting with gentle, breathy kisses.

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Place He Wants You to Touch: Inside His Ear

“Whispers carry exciting words to the brain, which processes them as direct invitations to sex,” says Brame. “Start by whispering some sexy suggestions into his ear,” she says. If he immediately moans as a result of the warm, hot air, “a darting tongue will turn him on even more.” Of course, some men prefer less intense ear action. We’ve got a recommendation for them on the next page, so keep reading.

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Place He Wants You to Touch: Behind His Ear

“Touching behind the ear is a big turn-on, as it hits both the hearing and touch senses,” says Adam, 31. A light bite on the top of the earlobe, running your tongue up the length of the edge, or even just deep breathing (behind his ear, not into it) is always guaranteed to make him quiver.

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Place He Wants You to Touch: His Tongue

“A deep, wet kiss is one of the simplest and most erotic ways to turn on your man,” says Sam Von Reiche, Psy.D. Many of us tend to stick to the same tongue motion and rhythm, so mixing it up can be extremely erotic for your guy. Grab the sides of his face and try slowly circling your tongue around his, licking the tip of his tongue with yours, or even pressing the top of your tongue against his.

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Place He Wants You to Touch: His Feet

“Giving your guy a foot massage is super erotic as well as loving and romantic,” says Von Reiche. That dynamic duo of “I love you” and “I want you” attention makes a man feel amazing. Plus, “there are also reflexology points on the heel of the foot that can further heighten his sexual arousal, so be sure to apply some extra pressure there,” Von Reiche adds.

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Place He Wants You to Touch: The Back of His Head

“When we’re fooling around, nothing gets me in the mood like when my girlfriend wraps her hands behind my ears and rubs her fingers through the back of my hair,” says Dan, 30. “It’s a spot I rarely touch.”

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Place He Wants You to Touch: His Perineum

“The perineum is that flat area between his sex organs and anus,” says Brame. You’ve probably heard of it, but what the heck do you actually do there? Try using a finger or two and massage the spot during sex. As he gets closer to ejaculating, the area will swell, and you can deepen the pressure to a firm massage, which often results in an explosive orgasm. But wait, there’s more: “Medically, the complete area extends all the way to the upper thighs and groin,” says Brame. Try massaging the area during oral sex. “It increases his excitement by stimulating the nerves and increasing blood flow to the entire region.”

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Place He Wants You to Touch: His Lips

Kissing isn’t the only way to make his mouth happy. According to Von Reiche, “You can tease him by gently licking and biting his lips.” A light bite gives him the green light to be a bit rougher with you too and sets the mood for more intense action.

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Create Your Own Hot Spot

“My girlfriend and I had a few mixed signals about sex in the beginning of our relationship, so we agreed that when one of us does one motion, it’s a clear signal that it’s time to start fooling around,” says Dan, 30. “My ‘spot’ is my lower back. We kiss all the time, but when my girlfriend puts her hand on my lower back and pulls me closer, I’m conditioned to know I’m about to get lucky and automatically get turned on,” he says.