Sunday, 13 July 2014

Bodies of 3 Kidnapped Israeli Teens Found in West Bank - Boys Found Dead...

The family of slain Palestinian teenager received condolences from
an unlikely source Tuesday: Israelis who had asked to come and mourn
with them.

The scene was predictably awkward, even painfully so. But as NPR's Ari Shapiro reported for today's Morning Edition, the visit also brought a moment of grace for many of those involved.

The
Abu Khdeir family lives in East Jerusalem, miles from the violence
around Gaza, where militants have been firing rockets and Israel has
launched airstrikes this week. With those tensions as a backdrop, a
group of Israelis visited the family Tuesday, despite some relatives'
concerns that such a visit might be used as a public relations stunt.

Here's how Ari describes the scene:

"A
huge group of Israelis has just pulled up in a tour bus, and people are
arriving, some wearing yarmulkes, some wearing headscarves. They are
young, and old, wearing sunglasses and flip-flops or somber button-up
shirts and slacks.

"The murdered teenager's uncle stiffly
stands to greet his visitors. He tells me his culture of hospitality
compels him to greet these guests warmly.

" 'I am an Arab,' he says. 'As long as they are in my house, I cannot turn them back. They are welcome in my house.'

"A
cousin, Nihaya Abu Khdeir, stands to the side. She says she has mixed
feelings. 'We have our culture and our respect. We can't just tell them
to go, even if we want them to.'

"So, the Israelis sit awkwardly in the plastic chairs."

They
have come to apologize for the behavior of extremists, they say. But
not all the relatives want the visitors there; one woman screams not to
let others in.

Explaining why she came, teacher Nena Leibel
tells Ari, "I personally think that any time one person does something
good for another person, this world gets a little better."

Leibel
brought dates and coffee as a gift for the family. But as Ari says,
"one of Abu Khdeir's aunts told her, 'I don't want anything from you.'
So she hangs on to them."

Ari asks another visitor, Ruth Danziger, if it's hard to make such gestures when attacks are underway.

"Maybe," she says. But, she adds, "I think the peace will come from the people, not from our leaders."

Eventually, the Israeli women gather near Mohammed's mother in an extraordinary scene, as Ari describes it:

"In
the center of the grape arbor, Mohammed Abu Khdeir's mother Suha sits,
weeping over the loss of her son. Many of the Israeli women around her
are crying, too.

"She speaks Arabic to my interpreter, who translates.

" 'I want them here,' she says through tears. 'I want these women to support me.' "

As
he left, Ari says, Leibel stopped him to say that the gifts she had
brought — dates and coffee — were finally accepted. In return, she got a
hug, she says.