Attracted to Scorpio men

by Sherry
(Arizona)

I always find myself extremely attracted to the Scorpio man and I'm not sure why. I am a Gemini woman but my ascending sign is Scorpio and my Neptune is also in Scorpio. My husband is a Pisces and although we get along great for the most part. I am one of those "rare" Gemini’s that do not cheat but a few months ago I hired a horse trainer to help me with my horse and I am finding myself extremely attracted to him as he is a single man. I try and fight this attraction that is inside me and feel guilty that I am feeling this way about him. Now mind you, I am 42yrs old and my husband is 28yrs old and the trainer is almost 44yrs old. I don't know how to control my emotions about him and do not like to feel this way about another man. When speaking to my trainer I am very professional and will not talk out of character. Can you please help me understand this?

Comments for Attracted to Scorpio men

I have also been very attracted to a Scorpio man. I am a Libra with Scorpio rising and have Jupiter in Scorpio (I've never given much importance to this placement). Interestingly enough, while I was attracted to this man I was in a long-term relationship with a Pisces man.
On one hand, I believe the Scorpio man (who was 14 yrs older than me) was offering something that I subconsciously needed...should I call it power, surrendering to something greater than myself. And the sexuality of a female is surely a trap for this. On the other, I have noticed that I would feel similarly excited in a reversion of roles...but then again, I discovered a deeply rooted feeling of self inadequacy when I myself am in power.
It has been a lesson that took a couple of years to integrate. And I would say I am not over with it yet.