Ok we've heard all kind of sexual orientation...straight, gay, lesbian, bisexual.... and i think i belong to none of them . When guys flirt with me i feel kinda disgusting. Just the image of holding hand with a guy, wandering around the blocks, kissing... scared the crap out of me. Sometimes i thought i might be lesbian. But I was wrong. When i saw 2 girls kissing i feel the same way as for men, simply gross. Does anyone here feel the same way ?!! I think i need counseling.... i don't even know what i am...

its called being asexual. Look it up. Also it might be a phase, you never know.

Isn't A-sexuality when you procreate with yourself, or split and become two separate organisms?

also, it could be that you just haven't met/seen that person you could be in a relationship with yet... although if you've never been attracted to anyone you've met i dont know what to say!
but, its definitely okay to be picky or anxious about relationships.
some people aren't meant for casual things.

... is the problem that you aren't attracted to the people you date?
like, nonsexual.
what do you mean by that?

I was really into that guy i dated a few months ago. He was one of the rare guys i thought i'd never have a chance to go out with, but after a few times going out with him i felt so wrong. I didn't even bother answering his calls after that. . But anyway, this stops here. I'd just assume i'm non-sexual. Thanks for your reply though.

also, it could be that you just haven't met/seen that person you could be in a relationship with yet... although if you've never been attracted to anyone you've met i dont know what to say!
but, its definitely okay to be picky or anxious about relationships.
some people aren't meant for casual things.

... is the problem that you aren't attracted to the people you date?
like, nonsexual.
what do you mean by that?

I was really into that guy i dated a few months ago. He was one of the rare guys i thought i'd never have a chance to go out with, but after a few times going out with him i felt so wrong. I didn't even bother answering his calls after that. . But anyway, this stops here. I'd just assume i'm non-sexual. Thanks for your reply though.

Ok we've heard all kind of sexual orientation...straight, gay, lesbian, bisexual.... and i think i belong to none of them . When guys flirt with me i feel kinda disgusting. Just the image of holding hand with a guy, wandering around the blocks, kissing... scared the crap out of me. Sometimes i thought i might be lesbian. But I was wrong. When i saw 2 girls kissing i feel the same way as for men, simply gross. Does anyone here feel the same way ?!! I think i need counseling.... i don't even know what i am...

Yes there is, its rare that it last a hole life time, and I feel a little bad for you but im sure you will find a man or women who you like. If not you can run a orphan or help animals at worst you might be the cat laydie of the town when you get older. On some real though those represt feelings will go some were they allways do weather you like it or not. But I dont think you should worry about it sence you still have alot of life to live.

First, the title of this thread made me assume that you hate things that are sexually provocative or just phallic in nature. "Non-sexual" can be a bit misleading. Ha ha =D

It seems to me that you are tad homophobic. It is not a bad thing considering that many people are freaked out by homosexual relationships easily. Also, based on your age, you are still a young adult and still is on the transition from adolescence to being a real adult per se. Problems on gender identity is not isolate for people in this age group.

Just chill and take your chances on relationships. Learn to grow from them and maybe you wouldn't feel this confused. Well, that's it on my take on your situation. Good luck!