If you’re a parent considering divorce, fear of the unknown can drive you nuts. How will this affect the kids, you wonder. Will their grades slip? Will they hate me for putting them through this mess? Is this going to scare them off marriage and commitment for the rest of their lives? That said, hearing how actual children of divorce fared may quiet some of your worries. Huffington Post gathered seven of the most interesting responses from a Reddit thread asking kids with divorced parents to share how the split affected them in the long run.