Once sold in sketchy “adult” bookshops, sex toys are thankfully no longer a taboo subject. On the contrary, men — both gay and straight — are feeling more comfortable incorporating toys into their sex lives. There’s no doubt the sex toy industry is booming, and with new technology, sex toys are rapidly becoming hi-tech gadgets. These innovations allow lovers to stay connected, even when they’re not physically together. Here are the best sex toys that will immediately make you feel closer to your partner.

The Launch turns any Fleshlight or Fleshjack into a hands-free, automated masturbator — complete with the ability to connect online. In automatic mode, the Launch will sync its stroking action to compatible videos and VR and live cam chats. It can even allow two distant Launch users to control each other’s devices remotely.

The Clone-A-Willy is basically a DIY dildo modeled after your very own penis. The kit includes everything you need to create a completely body-safe platinum-cure realistic vibrator out of silicone. A great gift for your lover this Valentine’s Day. Next time you’re apart, set up a Skype playdate and watch your man and your penile doppelganger in action. Now that’s how you keep the flame alive.

The Hush is probably the best wireless butt plug out there because it can be controlled from anywhere using a smartphone or through the internet. With fully customizable, powerful vibrations, the Hush makes a fantastic toy either for solo play or foreplay.

The LaunchPAD brings together two essential gadgets, the iPad and the Fleshjack. Simply pair them and get humping. While the LaunchPAD doesn’t add anything to a solo session, it can turn online sex sessions (for long-distance couples) into a far more immersive experience.

The Max is a fully interactive male masturbator with an interior boasting innovative air-pump technology you won’t find in any other toy. Equipped with Bluetooth, this feature will allow your man to either connect his Max to his phone — so he can control it directly from there, or hook it up to yours so you can take charge from anywhere in the world. Who knew hi-tech sex toys would be the lifesaver of long-distance relationships?

For a small remote-controlled prostate massager, the HUGO really does pack a punch. With two powerful motors in the base and tip, the HUGO provides exquisite stimulation. The remote is an incredible addition that offers some sensational new ways to play, especially with your partner.

If you and your man aren’t shy about public play, you’re going to love the FT Robo Rimmer. This puppy buzzes, rotates and revs in your hole. The controller features 12 speed and intensity settings and is totally wireless — up to 30 ft away! Do you dare to be at the mercy of your SIR?