What Guys Love To Hear In Bed

Forget about positions, sometimes the best part of sex is the communication that takes place while you’re going at it. Whether it’s steamy, dirty talk or simple one liners to validate he’s getting you off, guy’s reveal the best things girls have ever said to them during sex. Whether you’re the romantic lover or the closet kink, these confessions were revealed to revv up any guy! Check out the video and link above for more, and read more about what guys love to hear in bed!

Guys Say They Love To Hear:

“I love you”

“It’s in the moaning - best things are left unsaid”

“You feel so good”

“You’re so big!”

“Harder / Faster / Deeper"

“You’re so deep”

“You make me so wet”

“I love how you feel inside me”

“Want to try anal?”

“Don’t stop”

“I’m coming”

“That was the best I’ve ever had”

"Let's do it again"

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I love hearing my woman say "I love you" but the very first time she says it, I hope that we are not having sex. I would like to know that she said because of her deep feelings of affection for me and not just because she is sexually aroused.

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I don't think I'd call a guy huge if he wasn't above average or say the sex was the best ever when it clearly was mediocre. They aren't dummies and overcompensating will make him feel worse.

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I actually prefer more challenging things to rev me up like, "Is that all you got, big boy?"

But really though? I think chicks just like to think they know what we wanna hear most, and use insincere stuff like, "You're so big." It's just porny and fake. If you know your man well you'll know what HE wants/likes to hear in bed, not a cliche set of lines you think will work best just because he's a guy.

Agreed. At that point, I'd imagine it's such a turn off to have someone clearly just doing it for your sake. Why do that? Instead of focusing on how she's feeling, she's too busy worried if she sounds sexy enough. It's one thing if all of those things authentically roll off her tongue but another if she's more worried about your ego boost than genuinely enjoying herself.

@FrostyFlame Yeah, chicks thinks they know soooo much about what we want or like instead of really learning about us one-on-one. Maybe if their brains weren't so busy spending so much energy trying to box guys in as a way to understand us, they might have more success with us by learning more about us as individuals.

I feel like if you're trying too hard to turn him on, he's gonna notice you're not being genuine. If all of those things genuinely roll off your tongue, that's one thing. But I think guys just like to see us being authentic and enjoying ourselves. If you're trying too hard to turn him on, you may very well be counter productive by distracting yourself from your own pleasure. I think they notice and I think it's a turn off to any guy who genuinely cares about you and how you're feeling.

I just like her to shut the fuck up so I can last longer than 10 seconds. As soon as I feel a pussy gripping my cock I'm on the verge of cumming. Have to think of my mum or the times table so I'll long enough for her to realize we're having sex. It's bloody impossible when she's telling you her pussys soaking or your making her orgasm. I can't last 10 seconds that way

“I love you”-- Only if you really mean it please. “It’s in the moaning - best things are left unsaid”-- Moaning is good. Moaning so loud the neighbors think you're slaughtering a piglet is bad.“You feel so good”-- It is supposed to feel good. If it doesn't you are BOTH doing it wrong. SHE is wrong for not letting him know he is doing things wrong, HE is wrong for not paying attention to her signals.“You’re so big!”-- Most girls don't even like "big". Average is best. “Harder / Faster / Deeper"-- Uhm... No. Tell guys what you really want yourself, not what you think he wants to hear.“You’re so deep”-- Most vaginal sensation is at the entrance. "Deep" usually is rather unpleasant. I know, I am somewhat larger than average, and I always have to be careful.“You make me so wet”-- Excellent! That means the engine has started and all is ready for lots of fun!“I love how you feel inside me”-- Perfect, that's the whole point of having sex (oh, and that reproduction thing).“Want to try anal?”-- Many guys don't really care for that, or even dislike it. ALWAYS discuss this while you are NOT doing the deed. “Don’t stop”-- As long as everything feels perfect, DON'T STOP!!! :D“I’m coming”-- YAY!!! But only IF YOU ARE ACTUALLY COMING!!! If you're not coming; DON'T LIE ABOUT IT!!! This serves nobody. Tell him what you need to actually cum!“That was the best I’ve ever had” -- Was it really? Just be honest. If it wasn't, let him know what the best parts were, and tell him what you would like to see or feel differently."Let's do it again"-- mmmMMMmmm... Yes please!

All good except "your so deep". seems silly and doesn't do much for me.The greatest thing I have ever hear while doing anything sexual was when my (ex) wife would kinda stop me and say "go get the lube and fuck me in the ass right now". yowza. i was lucky in that after I wore her down in our early 30's and got her to try anal, she actually loved it. she always wanted a finger in her ass when blowing me and I got anal a decent amount.

Mmm yeah I can say all of that :P Except for : “Want to try anal?” NOPE hahaAnd “That was the best I’ve ever had” since he's going to be my only one hopefully! I mean I could say it too but it would be weird to say it every time haha

If an angle or position isn't working, I like hearing her suggest other angles or positions. Also, no need for porn talk. Just talk about your itinerary. Let the conversation flow as naturally as possible. Making out a lot during the act also helps. Just don't put us down if something isn't working. Playing on a man's insecurities will only ruin things for both partners.

Haha don't tell him he's big if he's small though. Perfect is a good descriptor of size in that situation, I'm not into it but i see a lot of small guys saying they like it. I personally am comfortable with hearing I'm small as long as it's in a positive way.

Great post but these are just the usual tip of the iceberg. I know many women find it difficult to express them selves vocally when making love but this post is spot on.However if you want to be an amazing lover this post is a great start to another avenue of stimulation seldom used by women.You give your body and use it in a way we think and hope turns our lovers on. How many of us do or think the same about searching for the words or sent and sentences he might find amazing to hear.Here's one to think about. " don't you cum yet I'm not finished with you yet " this is such a reverse psychology it can make some guys come right away.Telling a man that his cum is very precious to you. I love how it feels and taste and it all for me , it's my cum. Your sexual gift to me for being a good girl and pleasing you.

You are quite right, the odd spoken word means everything IF, at the right moment. Sometimes, the unspoken word can mean more. This is all down to how compatible you are with your partner. You can have your man inside you and all is good BUT, if he just says the right word, suddenly you are in full flood and he becomes ecstatic. If he is not a lover of anal BUT, you want it there, you do not say a word, just hand him the tube of lube, he will know what you want and his manhood will be up for hours.

another article that tells me what i like without knowing me. as for things like you are so big that is not something many men will hear.

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There are so many of these I can tell are ego pumpers for the underskilled but over confident.Things that are cliche and fake to hear from a woman in bed...- LOUD theatric moaning. (real, QUIET wimpers and grunts is sexy)- “You’re so big!” (When it's actually big... you don't need to tell us)- “You make me so wet” (Don't say this just to say it, we can tell when you are wet.)- “I’m coming” (Again don't say this if it isn't true. You only hurt yourself by falsely letting a poor lover think he is doing an good job).- “That was the best I’ve ever had” (Only a fool believes this, and those of us who can make you cum any of the 3 ways... we don't need to be told.)