Libra Men: Partners or Players?

Libra is the sign of partnership and balance. People with several planets in Libra tend to be diplomatic, sociable and communicative. People who were born when the sun was in Libra, are idealistic, fair-minded and alternately intense and blase (all that balance makes them express both sides of the spectrum from time to time). Libra men and women are notorious flirts. Not so much because they adore attention, like Saggitarians, but because they are naturally sociable and flighty, they know how to flatter, and they move quickly from one thing to another, not liking to dig too deeply or become embroiled in nasty and empassioned disagreements. (This lasts until their solar progression moves into Scorpio, at which point they become incredibly stubborn and empassioned themselves, but that is the subject of a different article entirely.)

Libra men are a breed unto themselves. They are the guys who dated every pretty girl in high school or college (or desperately wanted to), never managed to have their heart broken (or appeared that way anyway) and could charm the pants off of all their mothers at the same time. They manage to carefully navigate the fine line between being loving, yet mischevious, boyfriends without alienating their core group of guy friends, whose friendship they depend on both for companionship (they hate to be alone) and as a necessary backdrop to all their romantic overtures (otherwise they might appear foppish). This leads to two types of adult Libra men: the perfect partner and the incurable player. Most Libra men are on a lifelong quest for that perfect “other”. It is how they go about it that defines which group they fall into. Let’s analyze some well known examples.

THE PLAYERS: America watched several years ago in absolute horror as C list musician Eric Benet, who had miraculously landed A list acress and beauty Leo Halle Berry, cheated on her publicly with random ex-girlfriends. Unfortunately the confused Libra player is prone to such behavior, loving the idea of monogamy, but unable to change his behavoir even after vows have been exhanged. The same horrid behavoir was shown by TV star Mario Lopez, when he was divorced by his wife of three weeks, Cancer Ali Landry (whom he had dated for six years), when she learned of his chronic unfaithfulness, including a daliance with a stripper days before their union. Some other legendary Hollywood lotharios have been Libra men. In the 1990s, seemingly not a single woman could rise to fame without finding herself in bed with flavor of the decade Eric Stoltz (Taurus Cher, Gemini Helen Hunt, Aries Robin Wright, Aquarius Bridget Fonda, et al) and Jeff Goldblum who has slept with everyone from Aquarius Geena Davis to Pisces Sharon Stone and Virgo Nicole Richie. The most famous present day Libra lothario is singer John Mayer whose list includes, deep breath, Leo Vanessa Carlton, Gemini Heidi Klum, Pisces Jennifer Love Hewitt, Cancer Jessica Simpson, Virgo Cameron Diaz and who boasted to Rolling Stone Magazine that he “slept with, like, three girls in a week” on tour. Only the indulgent Cancer man and lusty Aries lover can match the Libra man in number of conquests.

THE PARTNERS: This is a different breed of Libra man. In the past few years Hollywood hotties like Scorpio Julia Roberts and Aquarius Jennifer Aniston have publicly coo-ed over their beautiful co-star Clive Owen, yet he remains happily married and has stated publicly his disgust with those who cave in to on-set flings. In the 1990s it would have been hard to imagine more obsessed-over teen heartthrobs than Kirk Cameron and Luke Perry, yet both of these men settled down immediately with relatively un-famous wives to start families rather than “indulge” in the millions of mall-rats who swooned over them. It still remains to be seen if their 2000s-era counterpart, young Libra Zac Efron, will fall into the parter or player category. Multi-talented icon Will Smith, is the poster-child for perfect Hollywood husband, doting constantly on his wife of ten years, Virgo Jada Pinkett and their two children, and refering to her as “the boss”. Tim Robbins has also been a loving partner to his lady of the past two decades, fellow Libra Susan Sarandon. And though Russell Simmons marriage to Taurus Kimora Lee Simmons has folded, he typifies the perfect partner, involving her in all aspects of their joint business Baby Phat. Sacha Baron Cohen is one of the most innovative and celebrated comedians of the past decade, yet rather than play the field he has avoided the spotlight and has been settled for the past five years with Aquarius fiancee Isla Fisher.

And then there are the amazing Libra men that manage to pull of being both partners and players (both extremes again, I know). Matt Damon falls somewhere in between, as he dated around quite a lot in Hollywood, including famously dumping Aquarius Minnie Driver during an interview, before falling into happily-ever-after with his cocktail waitress wife. And Eminem’s love/hate relationship with his Capricorn wife Kim Mathers inspired some of the best-selling albums of the century as well as two well-intentioned attemps at matrimony. Michael Douglas has been married for most of his adult life but cheated shamelessly on his first wife, and only finally found true partnership, like many Libra men finally do, with a Libra woman, Catherine Zeta-Jones. Nick Cannon, looking for that perfect partner recently proposed to Aquarius model Selita Ebanks, but just as quickly called it off. Snoop Dog has been married to his high school sweetheart for more than a decade (brief splits have not stuck) while she tolerates him going so far as to star in naughty movies. Tommy Lee falls for hot chicks all the time, but like a true romantic always seems to want to marry them. Viggo Mortensen (who also has a reputation in real life) is the consumate on-screen film hunk who inspire women to cheat on their less romantic but more stable husbands.

All this boils down to that old cliche about men and their relationship with their mothers and the way they were raised. The partnership-oriented Libra men were taught to respect women at an early age. Perhaps they grew up with a single mother or lots of sisters, but in either case they genuinely like and enjoy the company of women. They probably have quite healthy relationships with their mothers. Then there are the Libra players who grew into their Libra personalities in households that were less than ideal. They could have been perfectly happy homes but little Libra didn’t get much attention until he worked hard, or flattered everybody, for it. Or they were unhappy homes where he was forced to play peacemaker between a number of more aggressive types. In either case he took on the burden of keeping everyone happy all the time, and thus his womanizing becomes an extension of this behavoir, as juggling the needs of several people becomes fun and enjoyable.

The truth is that even the player Libra men are desperately desiring that great relationship, it is just a matter of being realistic about their expectations. Libras have high expectations, in both internal and superficial arenas, to the point of being fussy and fault-finding in the extreme. The Chandler Bing character in “Friends”, so brilliantly played by Leo Matthew Perry, is a perfect Libra example, always dating around, always finding fault, as opposed to “no-strings-attached” Joey. It is only when the Libra man distills what he truly desires in a parter that he can narrow his range of vision and find his ideal, and as we have seen, this comes later for some than for others.

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Libra girl dating a Libra man for almost 7 yrs… all these stories sound similar to mines we have lived together for 4 years and he still will not get married. We just had our first child and he is a great father and a great friend but as far as boyfriend “Fuck Him” he sucks ass. We began talking when I was 17 he was 20. I met him on MySpace when I was 15 or 16 we messaged each other back and forth for a few weeks but we stopped talking mostly because I started an argument as an excuse to cut off ties from him because I was shy and didn’t want to meet him face to face. So when I was 17 he contacted me on that same social media.. complimenting one of my friends, but we ended up talking again, night after night on the phone from sundown to sun up literally, we even fell asleep on the phone together several nights neither one of us ever wanted to hang up. Oh may I add I was in a long distance relationship with a guy who as soon as summer was over went back to college and totally forgot about me, but my Libra knew that from day one I told him openly. After a few weeks of talking we decided to meet. I went to his house and yes that smooth asshole was a panty dropper lol. (Hit it the first night, yeah I know bad girl) but everything just felt so right. I went home and broke up with the ass hole in St Louis… any ways few days after I went on his MySpace page just to check up on him and oh lord I got the biggest…. no I mean the second biggest slap in my life he had a pic of a girl on his profile… I mean how horny could I have been to miss this but then again I never really checked his page aND assumed he was single because I told him about the dude I was dating but he never mentioned a girlfriend. So I calmly called him and said hey how is your girlfriend he calmly said fine like there is nothing wrong… at that point I was done… or so I thought. Anyway this is where that libra charm came in he called me to say I never asked him about a girl so he didn’t think to mention it and they are together but she is off to school and would do anything to leave her because he just doesn’t have any feelings for her but every time he tries to break up she uses her heart condition against him or calls his father saying that she is going to have heat failure due to him breaking up with her or she will kill her self. Well you know how the story goes girl feels bad for boy and gives him a second chance, yes I did, biggest mistake ever. From August to November I played his little sidechick, but really it didn’t feel like that because we hung out everyday… day and night all his friends knew me I went to his house met his parents (never formally introduced ) I hung out with him and his boys… felt like his prize but we were not official. So in November his girl does a slip up (caught cheating) so he uses that as the reason to break up with her yea I know (hipocrite) but heck she is the one that wanted to stay with him not the other way around. So here I am thinking all my waiting is about to pay of… NOPE, she comes down a couple weeks after their break up and he fux her yes I said it what a pig. Here’s the story I’m at work and one of his home boys who works with me drives me to his house afterwards and we are sitting in the car and homeboy says let’s go inside, libra says can’t my parents are will trip cause of her, homeboy cracks a joke and says just at like it’s your ex girl with alot less weight… the asshole replys that won’t work cause she was just here earlier. I’m like what in my head. But like the naive female I am I push it out of my mind. We go to his boy crib and end up sleeping over… yes we had sex. The next morning he drops me off and I decided to call him and ask did he Fuck his ex and promised to be mad if he told the truth the nigga said yes. WHAAAT. But since I promised and we weren’t “official” I decided to let it go. What I really should have done was run. So finally after 8 mnths of sneaking around he made our relationship official by taking me to the beach for afternoon stroll and this dummy really got on one knee and asked me to be his girlfriend. I was 18 and thought that was cute. Needless to say after almost 7 years of dating 4 years of living together and one newborn that is probably the last bended knee I’ll ever get if I stay with him. The first 4 years had little bumps here and there but were heaven. These last 3 years suck ass. Now our child is almost 2 months old I have performed oral on him several times but we have only had sex twice and I found 3 condom wrappers hmmm but for some reason I’m not mad just over the whole thing we live together but I barely see him because ever since I had my child I have slept out as much as I can, and I love it this way he comes to see his child, brings me food and cash and thinks I still love him so he goes out his way to provide but I just over it all… like I said great father, great friend but the worst boyfriend you could have. PS I no longer believe in soul mates or true love.

Hi all!
I’m a Taurus woman about to begin a romantic relationship with a October 10th born Libra man. I’d appreciate any insight, advice, warnings you can give me regarding this relationship. I’m big on commitment and staying faithful, so I just am worried whether this is a man capable of being faithful.

Stay away from all Libra men. They are lazy. They are nothing but liars and cheaters. They use their women. They like to find women to move in with, women who have their own homes, because that way the Libra man does not have to provide the home. One that I know, that is all he has ever done.They do not care who they have sex with so the possibility of getting an STD is very high. I am speaking from 48 years of experience. STAY AWAY!

You are right on the money. My Libra man used me and had not a cent to his name and rarely paid for me when we went out yet lived in my home paying barely anything and lied the while time. I later found out he stole money and hit on young staff members at his work by friends. They are bad news you right

10 October Libras are as arrogant as hell and have addictive personalities. They lie without blinking an eyelid and tell you you are the love of their life etc. lazy as hell and over indulge in alcohol and anything else they passionate about! They have a gift of lying and are sociopaths! He will be very convincing and you will be very confused. I went out with two born on the same date and they were both alcoholic gamblers who did little to earn a living and picked on everyone and never admitted to have contributed to the breakdown of the relationship when his was an alcoholic!!! Run run run or check if he has a bank balance and NOT USING you for convenience as they do. They are BAD NEWS!

I’m 18 and I’m a Taurus woman and have been going back and forth with a libra guy from when I was 16. At first he was so respectful, supportive of me and wanted to be with me so badly. I didn’t like him like that at first and just wanted to stay friends so he did but he eventually wooed me off my feet.
The first 2 weeks of our relationship was great but in the 3rd week, he became distant and was lying to me to avoid spending free time with me and to spend it with his friends. We sorted out that argument but later that night, he told me was not over his ex and kept thinking about her. As a Taurus I immediately got jealous and reacted angrily then we had another serious argument and he swore at me many times.
The next day he said he must speak to me about it, but I was avoiding him at first and we later sorted it out. From then on the relationship was up & down, break up and make up. He is very condescending to me and manipulative! He’ll make me think I’ve done something wrong when I haven’t. He’s ruined my friendships because he has dated them when we weren’t together but I STILL took him back STUPID OF ME!!! I met someone soooo lovely and I think we could become very serious but now my libra ex is not having it and telling me I’ve “cheated on him” I love him but I don’t want to be with him anymore. How do I finally end this in a civil way???

I never want to see another Libra man. My first love was a Libra. I was 14 and he was 16. He has been in and out of my life for over 40 years. The last time was from 2001 to 2013. We are now 62 and 64. I found out in 2013 he is the biggest liar and cheater I have ever known. He will tell anything to clear his own butt. He lied to me and has lied to his current girlfriend from day one. I do not see how she can believe some of the lies he has told her. They were to stupid for anyone to believe. I read where a Libra man wants a classy woman and that is how people see me. But when I left him in 2013 he went to the most trashy woman he could have gone to. Libra men are wishy washy. They are whatever they need to be at the time to get what they want.

I been with a Libra for nine years I have constantly been cheated on and lied too. Going through very dramatic arguments and dealing with his selfish ways they are not worth it. Please don’t let the charm waste your life like mines. I have lost all beauty n self esteem n confidence behind this

Libras, capricorns, leos, saguittarus, cancer, scorpio, aries, tarus, aquarius, virgos, geminis, and pisces all have equal pros and cons in thier own unique ways. Overall every sign should be quite unless they want to be put onto the spot themselves

Im a french girl and I’m a libra woman.i’ve been dating a libra man for 3 weeks.I’m 22 and he is 30.he has a restaurant and he gave his number there.At first he is a real gentleman,so I fell in love with him then he act like he don’t care,he always check his phone in front of me , then he act the opposite , he cuddle me every time , he stare at me for 5-10 minutes like I’m aphrodite or sth like that . He always told me when I was in his place or around him he felt calme and relaxed , actually I felt it either.but when we had top less he immediately look at his watch and said he must go to work and I’m just like WTF ?!!! Then he understand I’m upset so he cuddle me and we slept for 30-45 minutes the we go. I don’t call him for a week so he texted and called me all the week then we set another date and he picked me up he act so nice and good but when we arrived in his place i saw black hair in floor ( I’m blonde ) and candles everywhere like our second date and two absinthe bottle ( one of them in open and empty ) and lipstick on the wall then the worst part is when I’m around him he cuddle me in bed and fall asleep ( we never had sex with each other cuz I’m virgin and i said to him he can sleep with other girls and i must said he really dont sad about it even he don’t push me or bother me he said ok ) he always want me in his arms so he could feel relax and love then it’s time he go to work so he left to take a shower and in his room i found a condoms in up of his bed so yes I told him he could be with other women but not like this so obvious !!! So I really don’t act unormal even on our way to my house we had such a wonderful time with each other full of laugh and fun and love even he told me next time we could do sth together , but after that date he never called or texted me , so after 6 days i texted him how r u? But he didn’t reply until now ( it’s been 8 days since last time i saw him ) so whats going on? What’s happened exactly ? He don’t want me or he want me ?

lol I was with a libra man whom I thought a total turn off, cut off the sex and now he is with my ex friend of 20 years… she is a scorpio. 20 yrs and dther are “buddies” without commitment, can you imagine and she lost all her g/f s for doing this. He is a pig and so is she and they deserve each other, lol. Im glad he is gone, the only thing I miss is his pay cheque lol. They are terrible men!

I don’t know if they are as bad as mostly people described them here, but for me (Leo Sun, Sagittarius Moon female) they are just too boring? Not in the partying kind of way. No. They do party. Too much sometimes. But what I can never get out of Libra guys is a meaningful conversation. I like to talk about everything. Literally. I joke around a lot, but I also like to talk about stuff that matters and I feel I can never EVER be myself completely around them. Don’t know why. Maybe it’s coincidence, but with all Libra guys I’ve met, I just put my “happy mood” face and roll with it.
Asking for advice or laying out troubles? Wouldn’t do it with a gun pointed to my head.

I’m a high school junior Aries girl. Now, as an Aries, I tend to have fun with guys in exciting, sometimes strange, ways. Of everyone, I’ve had the most fun with Aries men and Libra men. Aries, obviously, but Libra kind of came as a surprise to me. Mind games come easily to me because I’m clever. Not trying to compliment myself. It’s just true. I met a Libra guy in September 2013 and he’s one of the most amazing guys I’ve ever met. The problem was that he had a girlfriend and they were dating long distance. She was very religious and had chaste morals. They’d been dating for almost a year, so I was pretty impressed that a Libra would go that long without any sex. We started talking and, I’m ashamed to say, I fell head over heels for this boy.

Now, honestly, I don’t want the whole family scene. It’s just not the life for me. All of the sudden, though, I started seeing a life and family for myself with him and it felt really good.

Everyone that we mutually knew said that he’d broken up with his girlfriend for me. This made me like him even more because he kept saying that I was his “dream girl” and that he cared so much about me. After thinking he broke up with her, I fooled around with him a little bit. Today I learned that he was still with her. They were just “on a break” at the time.

I’m really heartbroken because I thought what we had was real. Plus, when I confronted him about it, he said that everything he said to me was true. I really am his dream girl, but he can’t just break up with his girlfriend to be with me. I’m not upset about him wanting to be with her. I just feel very hurt, played, lied to, and deceived. He said that he wants to be with me when he breaks up with his girlfriend, but I’m moving halfway across the country in less than a year.

It’s pretty upsetting because I really feel like I love him, but I don’t want to wait for a guy that has to decide whether he wants me or not! Am I wrong to wait for him? Or could he be “the one” for me?

All these comments unnerve me slightly as I’ve been in a relationship with a libra man for about 4 months and dare I say, its been going well. We met at work and have been having a secret relationship as most of the ladies really like him, including the boss and we fear we’ll lose our jobs (although we are both legally sound). He chased me, told me he wanted me. It started with loads of staring at work, with him always coming in the room I would be in. He was always in eye line with me wherever I was. For a while I never spoke to him, apart from saying hello. Eventually we spoke and I found out he used to live where I do currently so we had that in common and went on from there. I asked him why me one night and he told me because I am different from the rest. Despite our situation he makes me feel secure, safe and loved. He treats me differently from the rest and makes an effort to support and protect me. He told me he’ll always protect me. We have a really romantic relationship of which I’m getting used to; we laugh and treat eachother with respect. I’m a Sagittarius and honesty is paramount so I asked him straight up if he’s seeing anyone else and he told me no. He’s told me about his family and two children, and his living arrangement. Perhaps my situation is slightly different because I see him at work, talking to everyone so I get to see him in action, and yes he is charming and suave with everyone but it doesn’t faze me because he is completely different with me. I can also see that he’s social, and thrives on the interaction. He’s a social being and I respect that. As far as I can see he seems pretty kosher, but who knows? Time will tell, but I’ll give him the benefit of the doubt.

What I find puzzling to figure out is out of all the ladies after him (he has an extensive fan base) he’s chosen little old me. And it’s not like I have low or no self-esteem but he could easy date someone more pretty or beautiful or whatever. That, I need to figure out.

I’m a Scorpio female. From what I’ve come to know about Libra males(not all but many) these guys are indecisive, immature, flirtatious, HOES. ladies leave them alone.If he seems to good to be true in the begging it’s because he is. Libra’s are very insecure. They have no self confidence but get it only from the attention of others. They are very childish and just self centered. Me being a Scorpio, it was easy to see right through the bs to what he’s all about, what he holds inside. He opened up to me very quickly and got attached just as fast. LET ME TELL YOU! WOW, what they keep inside is almost scary…they just creep me out!

They like to play mind games. Oh these guys are so good at it they’ll have you questioning yourself. Think about it in reverse, what you’re questioning yourself about is actually what he is guilty of. When you think he’s ignoring you he’s actually using one of his tactics. You see, if he ignores you he knows you’ll be wondering what happened, when he will call etc. They believe it’ll keep you wanting them. If you’re smart about dating, him ignoring you will be your que to keep it moving. Any guy that ignores you to get your attention is not worth your time. Ladies, you are all beautiful and worth so much more!

Now, these men are deeply insecure and often depressed. But at first glance you’d never know bc they’re wearing a friendly mask, a charming smile, paired with great conversation…yadda yadda. Don’t buy it. Also, if you upset them in any way they WILL talk about you behind your back to their friends while painting themselves in perfect light. They usually have a hidden agenda so listen to your very first gut instinct. I repeat this urgently; listen to your very first instinct; that feeling that tells you something is just off, because trust me Libra’s are more messed up than you can imagine.

When they’re alone they are a completely different person. Very dark. One word, narcissist. ladies run while you can. They will spend their lives jumping from one bed to another, never finding the “perfect” love they seek. Because no one is perfect. Run ladies, don’t give your precious heart to these men. Get out while you can.

I totally agree with u…my boyfriend is a libra and before i met him he was a hoe…when we argue its all about what u do to him…never about what he does to you to drive you crazy…im a Sagittarius and im a reactor and anytime we argue hell make it seem as if im this big problem…and get very physical and disrespectful…so ill try to leave…he wont let me leave…he tries to take my phone and break it or hell do something to mess my car up…he thinks just because he takes care of me im being selfish or nagging or complaining…i seem to not be able to be hurt or upset about anything…hell offend me like nobodies business amd then when hes not.mad expect me to hop all over him and love him…but because I’m still hurt ij ust want sometime to myself…this sends him over board…then hell get to bragging about how many hoes want him and how many hoes he left for me…and who he could he sleeping with right now…but if i break up with him im turning my back on him or i never really loved him or some.nonsense hell come up with…smh…im at my wits end

Wow this was like reading the story of my life
Been involved with a libra for a year and then found pics of another woman on his phone he still will not come clean about this and accuses me of doing what he is doing. He loves to spin any situation back and make it my fault. And likes to control all I chat to and deal with and will tell me what to do in all aspects of my life. So yes in a word narcissistic describes his actions very well. He loves attention and complements but never returns them but judges and insults. And can be the most cold hearted human being I have ever known. So if you can ignore that charm as it will turn into heartache. He keeps me but has others but will not admit that and will not say he wants to end things. Wants the best of everything.

Girl you are so telling the truth! I just had a brief relationship with a libra man who proved to be just as you described ! He also played a lot of kind games and lied constantly and never liked to be called out on it… Refused to communicate. What’s worse is he is a musician who travels two major jazz artists and plays in a local band in my area… Women are throwing themselves at him daily … Here’s the kicker– he claimed to be looking for a wife and was fantastic at first but the minute we got intimate he began sneaking around with other girls. I was stupid for even giving him the benefit of the doubt… He has three kids by three dift women! Major red flags but I was blinded by all the romantic gestures and sweetness.. Never again!

I’m a gemini girl. I am in a relationship with a libra guy for 5 yeas, and we even bought a house together (a very stupid idea). Found out recently he cheated on me for the last three years – WITH sex workers. And you know what? When he got caught, all he could say was “it’s not anyone you know.” WTF? Ladies please RUN while you still can!

We were the almost “perfect couple”. He was nice, and he is good looking. Charming, and he buys me gifts etc. An absolute sweet talker. I remembered getting an ‘intuition’, you know sometimes you randomly feel like something’s wrong, and I remembered clearly, looking at him in the eye and asking him ” tell me, have you slept with anybody else other than me when we were together? be honest ok, because i can’t shake this feeling off”.. He held my hand, look me straight in the eyes and told me “No dear, you know i will never do that to you”.

Oh what BS!

I remembered feeling stupid, in fact I felt shy because it showed as though i was insecured about us. I am naturally a carefree and happy person and he was the first guy to make me fall so deeply and care about to that extend.

Follow your gut feeling ladies. Don’t ever doubt yourself for even a second. IF you think he’s cheating, do your research, get your evidence, and then think, what your next plan would be.

I’m staying until I can afford to pay the bulk of loan back to him, and make the house mine. I grew cold and he knows things has changed, and he sometimes still tries to do nice things for me etc. One more year, and i can buy over the house… one more year……………

I’m sorry because you probably won’t like to hear this… Libras and Leos just aren’t good matches. A to of times, Libra men don’t like being tied down to anything. They’re very flighty people in general (not all, but most). If he’s threatening to leave you if you don’t have sex with him, that’s a problem! It means, most likely, he’s using you for your body rather than your mind, body, and spirit together. Sorry, sweetie

My boyfriend and I have been dating for about or close to a year now but I’m a bit worried that he is losing feelings for me at the beginning of the relationship it was great even though sometimes we have problems with communication came to find out be was cheating on me with an ex…….. I emended up taking him back after our break up because I sadly believe it 2nd chances when I took him back we bounced back like nothing really happened but as for the past week he been acting really strange ever since he started his new Part Time Job at adidas he stopped calling , stopped texting me if we do txt the convo practically goes no where on Oct 15’was his birthday and I originally planned to take him out but as of our phone convo went when I called to say happy birthday he didn’t seen like he wanted to see me I asked a couple of friends what can be the problem I got a couple of great response / opinions they also told me don’t call hi for e next couple days also don’t txt and see what happen WELP nothing actually happened no call nor txt only call And txt I got was him asking was I I’m a school and I actually didn’t respond to the message or answered the call because after so long of not speaking to me or seeing me that’s how you would start a convo off? The weird thing about this relationship is that it’s not forcing him to be with him I asked him numerous times if he wants a break his answer was NO does he want to be single his answer was also NO he wants me but my gut feeling is just telling that he lost interest you tell me one thing but show me something different can someone help me maybe to understand why he is acting like this . Or what can be the problem . Think I forgot to also mention he is a LIBRA -_-

My boyfriend and I have been dating for about or close to a year now but I’m a bit worried that he is losing feelings for me at the beginning of the relationship it was great even though sometimes we have problems with communication came to find out be was cheating on me with an ex…….. I emended up taking him back after our break up because I sadly believe it 2nd chances when I took him back we bounced back like nothing really happened but as for the past week he been acting really strange ever since he started his new Part Time Job at adidas he stopped calling , stopped texting me if we do txt the convo practically goes no where on Oct 15’was his birthday and I originally planned to take him out but as of our phone convo went when I called to say happy birthday he didn’t seen like he wanted to see me I asked a couple of friends what can be the problem I got a couple of great response / opinions they also told me don’t call hi for e next couple days also don’t txt and see what happen WELP nothing actually happened no call nor txt only call And txt I got was him asking was I I’m a school and I actually didn’t respond to the message or answered the call because after so long of not speaking to me or seeing me that’s how you would start a convo off? The weird thing about this relationship is that it’s not forcing him to be with him I asked him numerous times if he wants a break his answer was NO does he want to be single his answer was also NO he wants me but my gut feeling is just telling that he lost interest you tell me one thing but show me something different can someone help me maybe to understand why he is acting like this . Or what can be the problem .

I’m a nice guy. I was raised to treat girls with respect but I still can’t understand why they don’t feel the same about me as I do for them. All my relationships last a month or less and I’m jus wondering what went wrong. Is it cause I’m too nice? They got bored of me because I treated them nice? Please help me so I can be a better to the nxt girl I’m with. Thank you

That’s not the case. Believe me. All girls (that I’ve known) want the “bad boy” until they realize that the “nice guy” (which you claim to be) is the only one that really appeals to them. In my opinion, most guys want sex above all. If you actually want a loving relationship, the right girl will love that about you and you shouldn’t be worried about being better. The person you’re meant to be with won’t tolerate your little quirks or insecurities; she’ll love them and everything about you. Don’t change!

I’m a 25 year old Libra man and I’ve only ever been in love once in my life. When I was 21 I met a 25 year old Pisces woman and fell head over heals, I knew it was true love at first sight. Problem was she had a boyfriend. A 27 year old, South American immigrant cocaine dealing boyfriend if that. But I wasn’t going to let that stop my 21 year old college kid self from being with the woman of my dreams, who I still to this day believe is my soul mate. I let my feelings be known and it was hard to let her know without having him know too, so I’m pretty sure he knew from day one. Several months after our initial meeting her boyfriend ended up in jail. He went away for several months and during this time she started a love affair with me. During this time I was trying to show her and explain to her how she deserved to be with a guy like me, who had a bright future and would be able to protect her and provide for her the way she deserved. After he got out of jail I knew she would go back to him for what I thought would be a short time, to properly end her relationship with her boyfriend out of respect for the time they had been together. Days turned into weeks and weeks turned into months and finally I couldn’t take it anymore and didn’t understand what was taking her so long to end it all ready. So I involved myself in the ending of their relationship and I think that really pissed her off and is something I think she has never forgiven me for to this day. When their relationship finally did end she didn’t come to be with me. She started some meaningless fool around relationship with some guy I think few people would be able to take seriously. This depressed the hell out of me, not so much that she went to this other guy, but much more so that she didn’t come to me after I had convinced myself she would because of all the feelings we shared during our love affair and the deep levels in which our souls connected on. I spent the next year or so trying to convince her to give me another chance but the only response I could ever get out of her was to leave her the hell alone and stay the fuck out of her life if anything at all. Eventually that petered out into no responses at all. I would do anything for the girl I knew her as during our love affair together and I would give anything for a chance to be with her again as the girl I fell in love with. I told her this recently and offered her anything she could possibly want just for a chance. I come from a wealthy family and my sisters and I all have trust funds, and I even offered her every last cent in my trust fund, which she knows would be over a million dollars just for a chance… Nothing. That’s how in love I was and given the circumstances, unfortunately still am. I am a believer in true love and I am a believer in soul mates and there is nothing I wouldn’t do for true love or for her who I still to this day believe is my soul mate. The hardest part is believing in true love and soul mates, finding your soul mate, and then having to wake up every morning knowing you will not find true love that day because you will not find your soul mate that day because you all ready found her and she wants nothing to do with you ever again.

These Libra men…I really don’t understand them at all, it’s like we’re speaking two different languages. My sons father is a libra male born Oct 14th…it started off so wonderful, truly otherworldly. We never used to argue, and if we did it was always a peaceful argument. Lately, it seems I am noticing more his communication skills, or rather the lack of them. He never answers questions that I ask him, always turns it around and say that I am being insecure about our relationship. I then have to turn around and evaluate myself and think “well maybe I am asking too many questions.” But I know that I am not. To me, when you are in a relationship with a person, there is a certain level of respect that each person deserves, and Mr. Libra is NEVER going to volunteer information. He was going through a divorce, and I pretty much had to beg him for info about that…and to me that’s info he should have told me, to make me feel secure. Nothing. I am in no way insecure, but this guy makes me feel like that and that is a feeling I don’t like. It’s crazy because I know that we are soul mates, I know that he loves me, but he will just get into one of those moods where he is cold blooded. I’m a pisces and by doing that….he is doing nothing but pushing me closer and closer to the edge…and once I go over…I’m swimming away for good—he will see a true cold blooded woman. It takes a lot to get a pisces woman mad but when you do, watch out because you will see the great white shark attacking your ass!
Overall, I love libras, they are fun, we laugh, they look good, intelligent creatures. But beware, when it comes to communication and secrets, they are truly elementary. Sometimes I think that is how they actually make a decision, by pushing you away so that you can make it for them.

Your heart is in the right place. I am sorry for your loss. She’s unworthy of your efforts, and you wouldn’t be happy in the end. She is playing the devil’s game, that only money and legs can buy. Would be best, to spend your money elsewhere, than the dime store dildo baby.

@ Libra 1007………… dude you’re not a true Libran, u’re a pussi.. “I even offered her every last cent in my trust fund” ,are u fucking kidding me????? smdh.. dont come on here and make us look bad. Libran guys are sleek, we make the hottest women our slaves, we dont beg we manipulate. Ask your mum again when you were born.

wow, i agree with you there. libra 1007, you are a pussy. let go, man. we don’t beg for love. we search for the perfect romance, yes, but if begging is the way to go, then it is not perfect. and tbh, a relationship with a girl like will stir a lot of conflict in your life. Personally, i think conversations-wise, we get along damn well with pisceans, but emotionally, there is a big difference. are you really a libra? im not trying to be rude, but you sound abit too emotional to be one.

I met this Libra man online, and as we talked more we really liked each other and then we decided that we wanted to be with each other in a relationship. All he would tell me is that he wanted to come be with me and he wished he was here. So after a week or two of talking on the phone, I sent for him to be here with me. Everything was going good until he cheated on me, one woman he slept with the other he was just talking to. So after days of going back and forth I cut off communication with the one woman he slept with, she was claiming to be my friend. So I ended up putting my libra out of my house. So I found out that him and her was still txt each other and when I would ask her what they talked about she would say nothing and ask me why, but I felt if you and him are just friends why the secret. So after that he moved out and told me to loose his number and that the woman that he slept with she don’t want him, and they are friends. She claim to have someone that she’s engaged to. So I love my libra so much after everything went down, I told him he can come back home if he wanted to, HE told me no he wasn’t coming home, and to leave him alone. So when he moved out he still left some of his stuff here at my house. So yesterday on the phone, I ask him could we be friends, and before I ask him could we be friends, I ask him Do he love me? He say that he do care and he needed some time to think and we could be friends. So some of my friends at work was telling me that he will be back, that’s why he left some of his stuff there. I do want him back and I would love to put this behind us and start over. So what are your thoughts on this

Respect yourself enough to walk away from anything that no longer serves you are fulfills you. If you have to beg for love then its not worth having. Know your worth and don’t allow anyone to make you deserve less.

It’s been awhile since I’ve read the posts on this site. It’s been awhile since I’ve written a post. It seems nothing is changed other Libra men doing their usual BS! I read something important and I don’t if it will make a difference to any of you ladies out there – I read the Libras born in September til early October are completely different then the Libras born mid October and the end of October. My guy is born mid October and is on the cusp of Libra and Scorpio. They are very secretive, temperamental , manipulative, selfish, arrogant, crude etc… every time I’ve tried to end it with this guy he sucks me back in. He blamed me for his drinking and everything else that was wrong in his life. When I asked him” if I leave will you stop drinking?” He said “yes.” So I decided it was best to end it – just 2 seconds later he says ” well I’m not sure if I will stop drinking even if you’re not there.” Last year I had a severe case of the flu and didn’t tell him I was that sick because he told me previously I’m always not well but when he’s not well he expects to be pampered. I slept throughout the day to try and get well. When he called me that night, he got upset I wasn’t talking properly because I was sedated. He thought I’m out meeting other guys in the day that’s I didn’t call. He started an argument until I left my house and stood outside with a fever of 102. While he was arguing with me my neighbors walked by, I was so embarrassed because they could hear me raising my voice. When they walked passed they looked and said hi and I tried to act as though nothing was wrong. He heard their voices and because they were guys, he asked me if I’m standing outside looking for sex with random guys. This is a guy who gets drunk with his friends and other girls who hang around them drinking, while I am home most the time taking care of my responsibilities to my parents. He’ll get drunk and abuse me verbally sometimes for no reason and then act like nothing happen the next day. He won’t apologize for his behavior even if he was out of context. He talks about marriage and kids but has no idea on how to treat a woman. It’s a very exhausting battle dealing with their BS. The fact that he’s long distance, I have seen a side of him that I wouldn’t want to see in person. His friends are manipulative and deceive other women, which leads me to believe that this guy is not being honest about something. I’ve tried to make him feel comfortable to discuss openly whats bothering him and out right gets angry and says don’t start drama. If he’s asked questions, he gets defensive and starts yelling. I don’t think love is worth this no matter how you love someone, it’s much better to be alone rather then let someone question your character and loyalty. I find myself completely withdrawing emotionally from him because of the way he’s treated me and for the first time I’m actually thankful the distance separates us. It’s sad to love someone so much and have them never believe in you as a person but it’s worse looking in the mirror and realizing you’re not the same person you used to be. They’ll tell you they’ll change and even give you hope they will but it’s just a front. No matter how much you do for them, they’ll have no shame in saying ” you haven’t done anything for me.” They have no shame in accusing you of cheating while they themselves are the biggest flirts on the planet. Life is too short for games and that’s what Libras need to understand. They believe in justice? Where’s the justice in mistreating another person because of your own selfish reasons dear Libra? I made a mistake of being too nice and forgiving because there’s no excuse for his behavior.

Hi Aquarian Girl2011 – wow – you said it all there in your posts. This site has been really informative for me, I just had to read it all and felt compelled to write.3 years I put up with the shit from a Libra guy, being charmed one minute and derided the next – he was so passinate in bed, yet could blank me and find faults I didn’t even know I had: I was like an emotional yoyo; almost lost myself. Everytime I finished it and said let’s be makes he changed it to sexual again, and I being hooked on him let it happen.

And to think, just meet another Libra guy who’s charmed me,stood me up once and now just ignored me after apologising and almost begging me to meet him again ! Meet him online and we just gelled, he pushed to meet eventhough he said he thought i was out of his league and he was insecure; yet he’s funny, attractive and has a great sense of humour. So When i asked why he’s not answered my messages for days I get nothing and we were supposed to meet a few days ago, but hadn’t got round to arranging a place and time. Am angry: it’s cruel and rude. – I really fell for him and feel such a fool. Should i send a polite goodbye text or one that says how mad I am and be sarcastic, then say bye bye at the end ? I want to sent one as I need closure on this. Just reading these posts I’m thinking a polite message saying bye may bring this Libra charmer back again and I don’t want to be vunerable to him ever again as part of me wants him (mad I know – i know he’s had a hard time with some things in his life so I’m making feeble excuses for his behaviour).I didn’t think he’d come back after the first time. Pls advise ? I
BTW – Like the humour in your writings 🙂

Listen sweetie don’t get angry or cruel give him some space the best thing you can do for this guy is don’t let hime see you sweat cause he will drink it through a straw. Just be cool he will come around and if he doesn’t oh well he loose…Im out

I dated a libra man for 6 weeks, he told me he thought he loved me by the second date! He was charming, sexy, loving, generous, very giving and kind. He introduced me to one of his daughters and grand daughter, he is 52. He was great with my kids and couldn’t do enough for me. But he got very jealous over my ex who would not let go and refused to speak to me for a few days, ignoring all contact from me until I apologised and promised never to do anything to make him jealous again! He told me he was sorry for being paranoid, admitted to getting jealous and said he was just a simple man who wanted a simple relationship and had been hurt badly in the past. We went from strength to strength but had another row in which I snapped at him, slammed down the phone and dumped him by text. (I know I was wrong and treated him badly.) I have since send about 4 grovelling apologies, told him I miss him, want him back and it was all my fault,we have been apart for 5 weeks, last apology was 12 days ago. No contact from him at all! Yes I want him back and yes I know he is bad for me but you can’t stop your heart and how you feel. Any suggestions?

I think what most of you are describing here are just immature human beings.

I’d be willing to bet I can find the same complaints about men of every sign from women as it relates to failed relationships.

At some point people have to realize you set the boundaries on how you will be treated, it has very little to do with the stars or any sign.

What you are experiencing is various levels of maturation that aren’t defined by age or when you were born. Remember we all are human beings with flaws and great wonders….. nobody is perfect and I’d be willing to bet there has been plenty to complain about you as well if things didn’t work out in the relationship. Instead of complaining about the other person, how about some good old fashion self reflection….. something we all need to do when our relationships fail. Period.

I have a question though, If a libra guy turns cold or ask for some space does mean that he’s flirting around? Coz I’m in a relationship with this libra guy, for more than a year now, I’m having some issues at work right now and he’s having his own issues too… Now he’s confussing me there is a sudden change with his attitude until he ask for space cause we often end up arguing this past few weeks.. So I’m wondering if he is cheating on me or he just want to fix everything? I need some adv pls

Hi everyone, I met this Libra man through online dating. It was like he wrote me last April 4 and told me that he likes me and want to know more about me.
He seems to be very sweet, caring and thoughtful. April 7 when he told me that he will coming in my country as part of his business trip.
I haven’t seen his picture nor his face everytime we had video calling on Skype. But he saw me on cam.
April 8, we decided to meet.
Its true indeed that Libra men are charming and had this mystic smile that can trap anyone. We had dinner. We talked a lot.We had fun.
He’s every inch of a true gentleman.
Because of our wonderful conversations I forget the time. And had some drinks.
So he told me if I’m afraid to go home that late. I can sleep in his hotel room.
When we were in his room he drink wine. He came to me and wanted to kiss me but I didn’t allowed him. Because im shy and im not comfortable to kiss a guy on our first meeting.
So he didn’t push to kiss me.
And then we sleep on both sides of his bed.
And promised not to touched me and he did.
I wake up early the next day and thanked him for being nice and gentleman to me.
The next day I message him on Skype thanking him of our wonderful first date.
But all of a sudden he just ignored me.
I told him im sorry if I say or did something wrong.
And worst he now blocked me on Skype and on the dating site. Tell me what should I do.
Im still thinking about him. I need your advice.

Thank all of you so very much for sharing your experiences. I’ve recently met a libra man. We’ve been dating for 3 1/2 months now and like described very charming, thoughtful and kind. i really thought that he was the one. Well that was at the beginning. Now i’m seeing most of those horrible characteristics written about libras in him. The selfishness, the secretive sneaky side, and the passive aggressive attacks. He has so many female friends i dare say more than that of men. And he’s always hanging out with them. Telling me to trust him…that he’s not capable of cheating because it’s been done to him before so he knows how painful the feeling is and he just can’t imagine ever doing that to another human being. Thank God above i never slept with him or left myself emotionally vulnerable to him. I didn’t because i just wanted to make sure he was real thing. You know he just seem to good to be true. He was almost too perfect. But yet there was just something about him that wouldn’t let me let my guard down. Though he did try to get me to be open with him. I’m so glad i didn’t and now with the help of this board, and ladies your posting have not been in vain, I’m getting out while it’s still early. It may seem cruel because he really hasn’t done anything could break my heart out right, like cheat but how do i know for sure if he hasn’t already. I mean I’m already seeing another side to him and it hasn’t even been a full 4 months yet. And this guy is very good at keeping certain things to himself. Like his life plans. Whenever he talks about his future it only involves him no sign of me AT ALL. The music he listens to is all about making that cash, moving on to bigger and better things, leaving hoes behind. OMG. douche that he is and moron that i am. The real him has been in my face the entire time in the life he lives not the words he speaks nor the sweet charmer he portrays himself to be. Anyway, me not wanting to get on his bad side i try not to question him too much because he has this way of just getting up and leaving if i persist in questioning him . Which when i think about it is just ridiculous. I should be able to speak to my guy on a topic i have issue with concerning him without fear of pushing him away. He’s just way too much work. Anyway i don’t know if he has cheated on me or not nor do I intend on taking the chance of finding out later. I hurt far too easily and i would like to spare myself any pain brought on by a man of this nature. Ugh…now it’s just a matter of making a clean break from him. He’s made sure he’s fitted himself quite comfortably into my life. Humph…he’s been talking about moving in with me. And that’s another issue i have with him no respect of the boundaries I’ve put in place. I told him i don’t believe in shacking up together but yet he tries to convince me other wise by saying well how big of a deal is it really when i already sleep over most nights( he sleeps on the pullout sofa bed). To me there is a difference i feel more in control of a relationship and where/how it’s going when not living with said boyfriend. At any rate I’ve realized how deceptive and sneaky he really is because as i was laying my boundaries down he was slowly moving most of his belongings into my place anyway one item at a time. One day i noticed how my apartment no longer looked like it belonged to me, but instead his. He has his play station hooked up to my flat screen with all of his video games in a box next to it. His sneakers and clothing are in my closet. All that’s left to move in is his dog. Also in my refrigerator there are more of the types of foods he likes than of the foods i like. There was actually a time when he got mad at me for always taking up too much space in the refrigerator with my foods never leaving enough space for his. Arghh…just bringing all of this up is making me frustrated. He’s got to go. I’m not messing around with this guy anymore.

Hi Alyssa.
I am currently married 2, separated status, a Libra. It started off as wut seemed great. I noticed everything was good as long as i went along w. Things like “the budget, plans for the holiday, time to pay bills”! This guy has SO many female ‘friends and co workers’ that it is not funny. Upon meeting these chicks i would get that feeling of OMG this is more than it appears 2 B, that i just could not shake off. When asked about this he states it is MY “insecurity”. Says i should have spent more time being his wife. Come 2 find out he has been lying since day one. SO charming, Yet SO deceitful. As long as i was putting my check in the joint account, everything was good. Think we both stayed 4 our child…can’t do it anymore. How can i love somebody else if i can’t love myself enuff 2 know when it’s time 2 let go?! He is just using this new chic 4 $. She loves him, but he has yet to say it 2 her (saw the e.mail) I was outraged and ready to fight her the whole time when it is really HIM and myself i should have the issue with. I know if he lies 2 me AND his mother, he lies to her! Be strong, trust GOD, get out while U R ahead. Luv U Like A Sis.

Hey alyssa…i cant believe i am exactly in the same situation that you were in.i too am dating a libra guy and its just been roughly 4 months ..he was dating my classmate before me but he never told me that.and then one day that girl came to me and told me they werent even separated…but my boyfriend told me she was lying..either if them could be lying…so hard to trust..plus all these female friends he s got who are equally hot makes me feel so insecure..i dont think i can stand it much and have tried to separate from him so mant times..but he has managed to make me stay..i dont know wat to do

I have been with my libra man on and off, for six years. It’s been hard, they lie with a straight face. I hope you know how special you are because if you don’t, it will become more and more difficult for you, good luck.

@piscesgal,
Libras are a lot of drama. Before it ends up being 3-4yrs just end it if your gut tells you something isn’t right. They like having a back up just in case something goes wrong. I didn’t want to believe it’s possible but it is. They don’t like to be alone but they don’t mind flirting with other women while their with you. They emotionally exhaust you with their drama. I don’t think I’ve ever come across another sign that uses manipulation tactics like they do.

After reading all of these replies I’ve noticed that this all relates to me ( I am a Libra Male). It started when in 8th grade. I met this girl Julianne. We both instantly feel in love with each other. But i guess without knowing i was playing her. I liked her but i never went out with her so i just kept playing with her. Then we had a fall out i said things that really hurt her and i lied to her about liking someone else because i was to afraid . Know when i think about it she was the perfect girl for me. Till this day i still think about what could have been. Please help me to change. I don’t want to hurt anymore girls cause of me playing their minds. I just want to be the kind of guy who is direct in what he says, doesn’t lie about things to girls, takes advantage of what girls did wrong and manipulating their hearts. Please i need help so i can change for the better.

Sweetie im sure your handsome and very kind. I know from my past my Libra never treated me like a person only treated me like a girl. You need to look at someone your interested in or not interested in as a woman a person who will better you. You can’t treat a female as something other then that. A women or most women just want you to admire them and have them walk by your side not behind you. Be proud of what they do or who they are. Get to know their interests. The ones that are worthy of you will get tired of your games and move on and those are the ones you are letting pass by. You know that women are beautiful creatures but that is the outside, you need to really look into their eyes and see that they are not only beautiful but kind and gentle souls who want to make their men to be strong and grow with them. Love is hard. But if your sincere in what your saying you are becoming mature. If a women likes you, she is there for you, you will not have to use your tests to see that. If my Libra would have just told me he liked me we might still be together, it wasn’t apparent until it was to late. Don’t try to judge someone by what their reaction might be to something you are making up, because you are judging someone based on something or a situation that’s not real to begin with.

I am libra male also and this my seem funny but you need to pray my man only you can change you but God has a way of helping us change our lives. It’s has to be what to want and you have to be serious and not just whinning BS

I dated a Libra man for a few dates, we had a fall-out. He ignored me for a few months, I sent him a message with apologies and told him I hoped we could at least be courteous to each other if we run into each other. He responded quickly and said we got along good and we started talking again. We made plans together and then he told me he had a girlfriend and asked me to leave him alone and that we were just friends. I left him alone for a few weeks and then sent him a message because I found something that was in regards to his hobby and just wanted to show him. He didn’t respond. A few weeks later I sent him another message that said I hope he was successful at his career and that he would do great in his new position. He responded with a wink. We started talking again for about 3 months. He was the one who never treated me like a “friend”, I noticed I was treated more like a girl on the side but without being the girl on the side. I had just wished he was a friend because we did get along so well. I just figure the girl he is with right now isn’t quite enough for him. So he invited me to come to his work to hang out and when it came time he tells me he doesn’t know and that he has a girlfriend. I think he wanted me to talk him into it. He was just a ball of confusion, so I finally got fed up with his crap. I was understanding that he was just confused and made the decision for him and told him that I cared for him and gave my goodbye. He acted all tough and said hahaha…ok. It’s been about 3 weeks now and I started to date someone else and that’s when I realized I think I actually love the Libra. However, I will not stand to be treated the way he treats me. About now he is realizing that I was serious. Does anybody have any advise? My plans are to stay away from him unless we are both single. I just see the posts on how Libras will contact you later. I would love to hear a Libra males opinion, I appreciate honesty.

Put simply there are just to many mind games EXHAUSTING …. its good to have the chaise, as i need this, but they are so full on at the start and in your face and as a cancerian we love to love and respond with what they want back, and if you are a cancerian with control this part is heaven because u go into your shell and come back out then go back in and they are intrigued and want to know more and will do anything to find out everything about you then once they have what they want they are as vague, rude, insensitive and did i mention exhausting even when you ignore them they screw with your head…… THE GAMES HAVE TO STOP AT SOME POINT, LIBRA MEN use the energy in different ways of CHRIST SAKE, like ways to love one another in the bedroom, a cancerian and libras electricity in the bedroom can light up australia….. be truthful and direct then leave us alone to live our lives and then come back, don’t be exhausting about it and play mind games, i have better things to do then play a yo yo with my feelings!!!!!!! and i feel everything!

The positive thing from a cancerian point, they teach you to control your emotions
The negative – pretty much everything else, THEY ARE EXHAUSTING and i hate how they make you question yourself….

I’m a libra male and I have been hurt several times because I tend to put my all into a relationship but they always seem to come back not to get into my issue as of yours. When a person can ignore you for a certain lenght of time at that particular time they do not care for some reason or other. Why should this guy acually worry when you can’t leave him alone. For now let him go and only if he comes back apologizing and short of begging you to come back to him don’t give him the time of day or he will do the same thing again and sweetie that not because he is a libra it’s just because why fight for something that you know you can have anytime you want. Be strong baby girl you can do this. Show this guy that you are wroth more than that….Good luck I’m out

hellew, i am a 18 year old Sag women, i previously dated a Libra men, he was quit the charm when we first met, but after 4 months of the relationship he started being rude, disrespectful, and too posesive he was nothing like the above, is that normal for a Libra men?. what star sign would you recommend for me i carry all the qualities of the Sag

Read all the comments on this site. Yes it’s true this is how libra men are. Two years into the relationship. I’m mentally exhausted, physically my health has deterated. At one point you’ll find yourself praying for an early death LOL. If you enjoy being verbally abused and questioned about your loyalty to the relationship on a daily basis, then continue the relationship. I was a hopeful fool hahaha im laughing at myself – maybe the insanity has finally kicked in. Libra men will make you feel like your losing your mind. They will accuse of you cheating while they flirt with other women behind your back. The minute you start feeling happy about the relationship and having a ray of hope, it will come crashing down if a libra guy is involved. You could be a great mood and they will ruin it with a sarcastic comment. They can be the biggest hypocrites you’ll meet. One minute you are the love of their life the next minute they’ll tell to kill yourself because you’re a waste to the world. They are possessive over you and warn you of the reprecussions of cheating but don’t mind being the ones to flirt with other people- a perfect example of a hypocrite. When they feel they’re going to lose you, thats when they’ll turn on the charm but don’t be too thrilled it’s short lived, you will be deemed to be the worse person in the world when their mood changes. I haven’t met a more confusing sign in my life and they say an aqaurian and a librian is a perfect match hahaha which nut wrote that? They know you’ll love them through their faults and forgive them once you let the first few go. He took a rough childhood I had and used it against me. Infact anything personal you tell them will come back to haunt they’re arguing with you. In a true respectful relationship even arguements hold some boundaries but not with libra guys. It makes them feel powerful in demonic way. He’s always said he wants to marry me but then he’s put me down like no one else. I’m faced with dilema of loving a person who changed after 4-6 months of when we first met to the person he has become now. When I think of the things he’s put me through, I hate him. I’ve stayed in the relationship hoping the old him will return but people are telling that was for show to charm you into taking the fall. Personally this experience has made me wonder about relationships and marriage, right now if I was given a choice of being alone forever, I think I would embrace that rather then living through an emotional roller coster throughout my life. I’m tired of the bimbos in his social circle and his friend’s who lack insight on what love truly is. I’m tired of being accussed of cheating when I’ve been loyal….IM JUST PLAIN TIRED OF THE MIND GAMES.

I feel for you — big time. I just had a fling with a Libra man and you nailed it with how they will use any and ALL personal information against you at the most vulnerable times. I feel like I have this hangover from his mind-games. Brief example: After all this immense charm, he writes to me and left voice mail messages that included nothing but talk of himself. He didn’t even ask me how I was doing. Then I (Sagittarius) asked him, “Where in these (emails and texts messages) did I fit in?” He went on this attack against me (which were nothing but projections) and then he wrote a little later, “Aren’t you at least going to apologize to me?” OMG! Never, never again. If this is like your partner, save yourself. God bless.

I am a Pisces and I used to work with a Libra guy. We became best friends. We connected, and could talk about anything. Long story short he heard a rumor about me, and believed it. He ended up distancing himself from me. He was one of my best friends so I tried inviting him out every once in awhile to reconnect with him. He would act very distant and cold. He started to make rude comments towards me. One day I couldn’t take it anymore, and started crying. He ended up cutting off all contact with me, and blocked me on Facebook. We didn’t talk for over a year. Out of the blue he texted me asking me how I was, and asking why we haven’t talked in so long. I ended up texting him back, and we talked for a bit. Does he just want to be friends again? Should i give him a chance? Or should I just cut my ties from him? I would like to give him another chance if we were able to go back to the way we were when we first met, but reading some of these stories makes me doubt that will happen. Advice?

Did you have a romantic relationship with him? or were you guys fwb? I have never heard of a Libra walking away because of a rumor…if anything, we would fight for your reputation….and then ask you what happened or why are they saying those things…we weigh both stories and we know when you are lying…we are analyzers…I’m not saying you lied…but if he feels you weren’t being honest with him or withheld information we will get mad and walk away…but after a while we will get over it and start talking to you again, but that is if we just have a platonic friendship…if you guys were involved in anyway then I wouldn’t recommend for you to give him another chance because we don’t forget we will have it stored and if something like this happens again we walk away and don’t turn back….I am confused why he would go to that extent to even block you on facebook? Usually, we just ignore you and won’t bother with you until we are ready…and if you are there that’s cool, but if you aren’t that’s cool too…by this time we have emotionally withdrawed so either way won’t bother us…Guys usually get over it and are even more aloof about things…I hope I answered your questions…but the friendship is something that you are going to consider…it’s kinda like do you want a friend that chooses when to have your back or when to leave you in the cold? I personally wouldn’t accept that, but that’s me!!! Good luck…Remember a lot time has passed since he has been in your life so whatever choice you make will probably be easier now…

I texted him tonight, and asked him what was going on between the two of us. I asked him whether we were friends or not. I just wanted to know one way or another. He replied “what are you talking about. We have always been friends. What’s wrong.” We ended up chatting for a while, I asked him if he wanted to hang out, and he said he did. Whenever we hang out though, he never says anything. It seems like he is ignoring me.
Long story. We were friends from work. Another coworker friend from work invited me over to her house, and tried to do something that I am totally against. I turned her down. I won’t be getting into the details, but It freaked me out. Let’s just say she is into some freaky stuff. I did not want to talk to her. I ended up taking it to management. It was against work policy. In true piscean fashion, I ended up not wanting to deal with it, and ended up quttting my job. He found out after the girl was overheard talking about it over the phone at work. In all honesty I can understand why he would ignore me and not want to talk to me if I actually did it what he thought I did. I was over at her house, but I didn’t do anything. Will a Libra guy say everything is fine if it isn’t? At the moment he seems to be talking a bit more than usual. Sorry if this doesn’t make much sense 😦
No, we were just friends. He did like me for a while though, but nothing ever came of it though.

Don’t fall for it. Cut the ties. They will believe their friends even if their friends lie. Trust me, I came to know much later the rumors his friends were making up about me. He insulted me in front of them and they joined in and finally when he came to realise everything was false, he apologised after 2 yrs but you change the humiliation you went through. Just remember if you did something like that to him, he would never forgive you.

Hello…I’ve read all your analysis regarding Libra Men and Women….I am a Libra woman…I find it disgusting that these men have treated you ladies this way and I’m more ashamed that they are Libra’s….Lets not forget men are men…in this scenario lets refer them to boys because a real man wouldn’t a woman this way!!! With this being said I am going to ask some questions…(not trying to offend anyone or make you feel that I’m manipulting or situation or anything of that matter please I’m trying to help you see the situation for what it is). With this being said here I go….Lets leave the sign out of it for a moment.

As women we love ourselves, which we should care and respect ourselves. Why would you put up with this behavior? Regardless what you feel and how much time has been involved in your relationships? By accepting this type of behavior you are letting them know that it is ok for them to treat you this way…it is ok for them to use you as a doormat and it is ok for them to catergorize you as an option….is this the way you want a man to view you or have you? It doesn’t matter if he is a Libra, Gemini, Aquarius, Taurus, Pisces, Leo, etc etc….

Don’t get me wrong I have been there and done that…I have had boys walk over me and use me, cheat on me, disrespect me, and abuse me verbally and mentally. Until, I put my foot down and said you know what forget you I don’t need this they tried and swore they were going to change but the truth of the matter is that no one changes…We are the one’s that have to change…we need to change our own mentalities, behaviors, tolerance, and type of MEN we are attracted to….

With this being said I will go back to the “Libra Men Type”…..

I have dated Libra’s and we are not alike at all…They TRY to get clingy or needy and I stop it immediately with my speech of I don’t want to get overwhelmed. I haven’t experienced a deceiving Libra or manipulating one but I have had friends that have and come to me to ask what to do?

First, if they text you don’t answer right away…give it if you can an hour (yes, it might be hard but it will work) Unfortunetly, you are going to have to play the game, but know how to play it wisely and leave all your emotions at the door (for now). Remember this is about you not them!!! If you are not into texting and prefer talking on the phone don’t reply at all…they will text again maybe two more times and they will be so curious that you don’t respond and would want to know why and they will call….once they do call tell them this and in this wording “I DON’T LIKE TO TEXT BECAUSE IT IS TOO HARD TO COMMUNICATE THAT WAY”….if they ask how is that just tell them “COMMUNICATION CAN GET MISCONSTRUED”…believe me with this they will be intrigue because they feel they will be able to communicate with you….For us Libra’s, it is a must that we are able to communicate or else no matter how much we like you or want to be with you it will never work!!!!

Second, DO NOT ALWAYS BE AVAILABLE….Remember, they love the chase…even if you stay home that night or you really want to see him don’t do it…If you have seen him the day before or even two days before try to keep it to a maximum of three times a week at the beginning. I know you might want to see them, but think like a man here…would you want to date someone that is always there? If a girl constantly was at your beck and call? Be honest you wouldn’t….it gets BORING and fast!!!! We need mystery…we live in our minds so we can imagine what you are doing and with who? So that will keep us intrigue…I know sick game why we think this way who knows it even works my nerves but it is what it is…LOL remember this is in the beginning if you want a relationship with them…

Third, DO NOT SLEEP/HAVE SEX WITH THEM RIGHT AWAY!!! He will try and try and try and I know you will want to but DO NOT…If you really like this guy and want to have a relationship with him don’t do it because even if he promises you the moon and stars he will still see you as the chick that either a. gives it up easily so she must be doing it with everyone or b. she has no self-respect….here is where you will show us how you value yourself, which we will remember and keep in our file cabinet (mind)….and then we will start taking you serious…give YOURSELF time and the comfort level you need…if you can hold off for a month or two do it!! Don’t be afraid if you do this he will leave or he will lose interest…if that is the case so be it…You will see that he wasn’t worth your time and you won’t be left to pick up the pieces since getting sexually involved brings feelings and emotions!!!

Forth, DO NOT REVEAL TOO MUCH TO SOON!!! Eventually, when we want to know about your family, aunts, uncles, cousins, or whatever we will ask!!! They don’t want to hear about your psycho ex-boyfriend, or all your baggaged at once…let them get to KNOW you first…and ask questions? What are they looking for? Where do they find themselves in five years? What are their pet peeves and so on and so forth…don’t get too deep too soon because then that will scare the crap out of them and run….

Fifth, DO NOT SAY I LOVE YOU FIRST….or make them say it to you…if you say it first they will say it back not because they mean it but because they will feel obligated to…I know lame but true…we don’t like hurting anyone’s feelings…or they will not say it all!!! Once again, if you say it first they are going to feel overwhelmed and run for the hills because that is too much too soon…If you have dated/been with him for a week or two or even a month and he says the “L” word don’t you think that will be superficial? Lets think like a man here…how can he love you if he doesn’t even really know you? Because he kissed you? Because you hung out with him a couple of times and he “LIKES” being around you? this is when you should use your senses and look at the big picture….there is no way in hell someone can love you so soon…I’m sorry but it’s totally impossible…they can have lust, really like you but love that is a huge thing to profess….I hope you really think about this one!!!

These are the five first most important steps….

Back to the posts: So you feel that all libra’s cheat…I’m sorry but who hasn’t when you are young and trying to figure out what is out there? like I said the sign in this case doesn’t matter it’s the individual themselves…if they are not fulfilled or even if they are they are too young and naive to know what the true meaning of commitment is…and unfortunetly we are the ones’ that are being hurt…If they do cheat drop them like a bad habit do not forgive and do not fool yourself with the idea that they will change or that you can change them…just accept it for what it is and walk away you deserve better then that…someone that is going to love you and RESPECT you unconditionally…and if they are older like there late 20’s or 30’s then they are just trash and should stay with the new trash they found…once again, you derserve more…don’t worry with what they are doing or what they want…you should be asking yourself that question…What am I DOING? What do I WANT? damaged goods should be with damaged goods and you ladies are in no shape or form damaged goods…to be concerned about what they are doing and how it is making you feel is proof…remember in any partnership you are the one that matters!!!

I’m sorry that you went through this or are going through this but I hope at the end of the day you see and remember that you have the power in your hands…You have the power to say enough is enough and the power to walk away….

So answers to your question if when we end it do we comeback? Very very rarely…usually when we end things it’s because we are gone already and have been for a while…at least this is how I am…If I am mentally gone you will never hear or see me again unless I accidentially run into you somewhere…sad but true we move on…the only way we do is to severe all ties… Remember: we are the peacemakers so we will try everything we can to make it work…we won’t say it, but we will do things and in some ways it might seem that we are testing you just to see if this is what we want…another thing about us that you should know is that we feel when something is gonna end…we have the most precise intuition…we know things before they happen kinda borderline psychic which is crazy!!!! We know within the first weeks if you are someone that we should be with…even if we know you are not we will stay only to learn the lesson that we are suppose to…I know it sucks but we have it done to us all the time!!! Remember play fair…we are humans just like everyone else and we do instigate fights and we will push your boundries and we will do everything we can to see what kind of person you are…once we feel safe and we can trust you there isn’t any other sign in the zodiac that will be sooo loyal to you as we are!!! Be good to us and we will be good to you…and remember if someone is treating you like crap why would you be with them? Your time is valuable and to us the biggest turn on is for somone that values themselves and respects themselves those are the ones we want…the rest unfortunately are a dime a dozen!!! I hope this helps and try the 5 steps I mentioned if you ever run into another Libra…Good luck ladies and I’m truly sorry for your experiences with those douchebags…remember good riddance and count your blessings and learn from the lesson they taught you!!!

Well, all that is good to know. Tell me this the Libra that i met on the internet, didnt text me at all. He would call every blue moon, but we did chat alot on yahoo. Now the thing with me an him is that we had a strong chemistry with each other. But, he broke up with me cause i wouldnt invest $800 with him an i had already invested $120 an didnt see anything in return. So he got mad an stop talking to me. So we went thru this thing with name calling an bashing each other. So now that everythings cool down, I tried to chat with him again on yahoo he didnt respond. But, he accepted my pending request for yahoo but dont talk to me. And he open his facebook back open to me and anything else he is on i am able to contact him. But why open this back up to me an not respond to me. The love is still there for him always. So tell me why he did this.

Is there more to this story? Invest money in what? When was he born? Libra’s in September I don’t get along with I’m an October Libra….the one’s in September are obnoxious!!! I’m glad you didn’t invest…if he had true feelings for you why is he asking for money? NEVER EVER give a man money unless he is your husband even then you can question it…would you ask a man for money? This is the reason he broke up with you? honestly, he is doing you a favor…what a douche bag!!!! He’s making you chase him he is manipulating you that is what he is doing…DO NOT give him one penny…you trusted him and already gave him your time, your heart, and let him into your feelings that is more then enough…if he’s upset because you didn’t give him money that is ridiculous!!! It’s better to lose $120 and hurt a little then giving him more money and in the end still get hurt…he opened communication so you can feel bad and give him the money…that is why he did it! Not because he cares or wants to get back with you and if he does it’s because he will always have his personal bank account with you…I’m sorry to be so blunt but lets leave feelings aside and look at this with open eyes…Ignore him and it might be hard and it might hurt but in the end you will have your PRIDE, and SELF RESPECT…How old is this guy? ugh he’s no good…I’m sorry he is treating you this way but don’t allow it…get busy with your own life and forget about him…meet a guy that is worth your time and doesn’t make you go crazy this way…In the end you will be the winner trust me!!! Good luck….Please don’t drive yourself crazy!!!

Nope, that’s the whole story about us. Cuz everything was going good then he is the one that got mad an stop talking to me. At the time he was 42, he’s now 43 an he is a October Libra an yes it was an open communication. But, what i want to know is why did he unblock his facebook to me an why did he accept my pending request for yahoo. If I truly dont want anything to do with someone i would not do those things. And yes i did fall inlove with him, I hate myself for doing that cuz I just cant stop thinkin about him an what could have been.

All I can say is that it is best to leave it alone…if he is this old and still acting childish that isn’t a good sign…I answered why he opened up the communication lines to you again…to manipulate you…Any man that asks a woman for me is not a good man…I know it hurts because you love him, but get busy with your life and date other men…Let time pass and get on with your own life don’t live in the past…if he really wanted to be with you he would’ve done whatever it takes to get you back…and unfortunetly, he has shown his true colors…it’s not important to him…Men are douches and this guy is a douche to do this to you…I hope you are able to move on for your own sake!!!

Thanks for the advice, I am moving on with my life but its a hard process to do. Because I did love him so so much. I fell in love with him, an yes it does hurt. But i am moving forward its a slow process but im doing it. Thank you

Am a 25yr old Arian woman dating a 24 yr old libra male and i had a previous experience with a 28yr old libra who was clearly a player and i learnt a lot in our short 3 month relationship.
This one am dating now is more like this,: we started out as friends, best friends, house mates and then lovers but really am so done! at first he knew i had no feelings 4 him due to my previous experience but he was so annoyingly persistent and chased me like a chicken and still does. i think they enjoy the chase and try to prove theirselves worthy, he calls too frequently,and texts and i don’t reply most (i learnt that from the previous relationship). Then he started playing mind games with me and at first i was trying to be understanding but then i realised i had fallen for him and the tables had turned so i tried to turn it back to my favour, he is so manipulative, i learnt that and always blamed me for everything, so i did that to him too, he didn’t wanna tell his friends we were dating so i always gave my number to other guys and go out with his friends i have cheated once but he has never found out, he was trying to be slick with money and i let him know if he can’t take care of me other men will, i taught him how to have sex cos he was so not it he used to break up with me everytime when he realised it hurts me and u can only do so much that i don’t care anymore so when he did the last time i was like BYE! now he doesn’t do that anymore and when i break up with him he uses the i am leaving card (cos we rented an apartment with a friend and we were on a lease and for some reason i was stupid enough to put my name on the lease as the owner(glad the lease is over now whew!) he used to threaten me to leave me so i would pay for the whole rent myself and i would cry but now am so over that, the last time he played that card i told him u can go i don’t care and i would find the money and pay for the rent myself and he stopped cos he realised it didn’t work anymore. Now he is trying so hard to please me in any way possible now (He is my bitch now)
I think i have turned into this mean woman and i can’t marry him cos we are a ticking bomb which will soon explode, he has too much drama and is such a cry baby God! ( i think he is using the sympathy card on me now) which frankly ain’t working cos am waiting to get my certificate get a better job and spilt hopefully i will comment in 5-6 months about how i leave cos sincerely am tired of the games and i want a real man not a coward who wants to please evryone.
One thing i know is u can get a librain by the balls if u know his family and friends (which i do) that way u can make him look bad if he does anything stupid, trust me he never wants pple to know how wicked and manipulative he is!!!

you are way more wicked and manipulative, and if you continue torturing him and forcing him to be in relationship with you, you will suffer. Libra governs karma and karma always by his side.. you are dominating and will be punished

Fasad,
You must be a Libra man? LMAO! While I dont 100% condone Irene’s actions ( I have a different personality) I’m not going to judge her. Most Libra men are very fake, disingenuous and manipulative men and it’s sounds like she’s given him a run for his money and probably what he deserved.

Ladies,, I’m sorry about your experiences with your guys , but one thing you gotta know is that a #Libra is no fool. this means that you cant get away with certain things like you do wit other clueless signs. we have an angelic heart so we want what’s best for us,an Angel.. we dont settle for what’s available. he knows when you’re lying even though he cant prove it, he knows you’re living dishonest even though he hasnt caught you yet.. he’s got a built-In lie detector so he can smell bullshit a mile away…not all of you can swear that while in your relationship you didnt keep in touch wit your Ex behind his back or flirt wit some other dude, or give out your phone number. he reads your mind, & subconsciously he knows.. and some of you ladies start off your relationships with your Libra man by being foolishly honest, talking about how many guys you slept with in the past “but you’re a saint now”, telling “whore stories”, escapades with your Ex… If you already did these, then you kinda jeopardized your future together, because no matter how hard we try, these pictures keep coming back to our minds reminding us you’re not the angel we’ve always dreamed of and we could do better. dont get your wires crossed when he starts getting upset over nothing, its probably the story you told last week.. Subtlety is the key with these men.

So here we go, the Libran texting continues. I was on the train going to see my mother when I get a text from the libran, ‘Am moving out of the cottage at the end of the month, is there anything you want?’ By that text message, I knew exactly what he was wanting me to reply, which would have been to ask him, ‘oh where are you moving to?’ Which I had no intention of doing, I actually replied, ‘no nothing thanks I have everything I NEED.’ Notice I wrote the word need, and not his libran words WANT…….just goes to show how a libran mind works. Want, want, want, want, want….. I then had a great time away, only to get home 5 days later to another text saying he’d found some photo album of mine………and, so? I asked him to leave at his neighbours and I would collect it some time….(When I know he’s moved away from the area) This week I thought I better remind him to leave the album with the neighbours, but he’s forgotten. So much for making such a big deal out of it in the first place, he just wanted to brag to me where he was moving too. NOT INTERESTED…..Geddit !!!! He is so trying to hang on to the very last shreds of anything to do with me, even a poxy photo album, give it up, get on with your life, stop being so childish and contacting me to show off about your sad pathetic life and leave me ALONE…..Phew, rant over,

Omg a lot of the comments about the Libra man is sooo true!! I’m dating one now and he just broke up with me yesterday for no apparent reason, simply because I borrowed his car and took longer than I expected which I apologized for. First of all its up n down with him: one minute he tells me he wants to be in a relationship with me and then all of a sudden he wants to be alone. He is not romantic though he takes care of my needs. I am Leo and I’ve been nothing but sweet and fun in all aspects. I even cook, clean, tutor his 6 yr old son which I adore. I honestly think I’d be a great wife but I don’t think he sees that. He only cares about his feelings in situations and he would break up over silly stuff. This is the second time he is doing this. One minute we’re laughing and kissing and the next minute he just wants to be alone with his son. I love him but I’m tired of him tampering with my feelings. So yesterday I respected his decision and I’m sooo ready to move on though its hurts. Oh yea after he broke up with me, he had the audacity to ask me if he could join me in the shower, like my feelings are a joke to him. Should I continue playing this stupid game or move on?

@Sal,
Please DO NOT continue this and move on. You sound like a good person with a big heart and you can do much, much better. He will not change and if you keep going back to him, he will care less and less about your feelings!!
Libra men SUCK! Tell him good riddance.

im dating a libra man and everything u said i can most def relate 2 except the romantic n breaking up part.because of his flip floopyness i tend 2 distance my self or become real infuriated because libra’s most def hve the tendecy of puttin u on a emotional rollercoaster,being self-indulgent, and over analytical and iam an aries most compatible but at timez i hve my doubtz of how further im willing 2 go with him cuz i dnt like tht around the world shit.be direct and anything after is irrelevent and 2day i brokeup with minez 4 diff reasons but he most def took the situation out of place n afta the calm he wants 2 suddenly work things out n this is not the first time but hes neva tried 2 hurt me but i feel where u coming from…they can be real complicated n it cud be 2 much when ur trynna build a foundation with someone

Move on if you can, the libra guy im with, constantly does the break up game. If you were to play the break up game just once, he’d be the one begging you to stay. Eventually you’ll get exhausted from the mind games and give up on the relationship. You sound like a nice person, especially the way his son has taken a liking to you. You gotta ask yourself why did his wife leave him? You might find the answers in that on whether you should continue. I find libras have too drama and play way too many mind games. A person truly never feels rewarded in being a relationship with them.

Been married 2 a Libra male for 10yrs now. Very charming, humorous, and giving when we first met. In my heart i know it’s been over 4 a few years now. His 3rd time cheating w. a chic he works with did it for me. He has a habit of playing the “you” card. All of my actions spark his REaction. LOL! I can’t do anything right from being a wife, to a mom, to the woman of the house. I have been so down on my self for years and looking past his selfish, confident to the point of cocky, and downright mean ways. Everyone outside this household gets treated with kindness and respect. I left him in 2009 but returned after a few months. It’s been nothing but hell since then due to the fact that i had a couple of male friends that i was texting- NOTHING more and this is the reason he wants a separation now. If i continue to live in this house past 1 Feb, I am responsible for paying half of all the bills, even the medical insurance policy!!! He is very mean, argumentative over almost anything, SO secretive and everything in here belongs to him. I’ve been giving up my paychecks for years and now I have nothing – not even enough savings to up an leave this dictator. Thinking of going to a shelter before 1 Feb and course I have been told our daughter is going NO where with me. I’m SO waiting on God to help me, my daughter and this man who is clearly blind to how you receive your blessings. Thanks for replying folks, Take Care

Firstly im sorry for what you’re going through especially being married to libra guy and having his child. I can’t believe I considered marrying the libra im with. I actually thought marriage would change his ways but it sounds like he’s going to get worse. They are definetly secretive, my guy kept the kind of bimbos he had on his facebook account a secret from me for the longest time. When he realised I came to know he simply said I don’t sign in to that account much and eventually deleted it. Of course he blames me he did for me so I should be apprecaitive even though I never asked him to do that. They like keeping a lot of secrets but like to know all your private details only to use them on you. It’s bad you gave all your paychecks it’s exactly what I would’ve done. I’ve got a great deal of insight of what my future holds with this guy. Thank You. I do hope and pray everything goes well for you in the end.

It’s not hard to play them, it’s just tiring after awhile. I’m a gem and I have two kids with mine n he’s a lot of fun at times, other times it’s just a pain to have to play these games just to keep him on his toes !

LyricallySag, i was reading theses blogs bout libra mens. I am currently involve with a libra man. 10yrs and so now. Hasn’t married him. It’s easier to leave without signing any bull**** no children with him involved. I hve two older brothers one being a libra. An early chilhood sign. Had bullseyes underway for the future. They can be fun at times only when you give them what they want. You kno “I scratch your back if you scratch mines’ game. It’s really bout winning over whomever and whatever. It’s a boost to their pride of being able to out-weigh the pros from the cons in everything they do. Underneath all the bull**** they play – really their cowards. Cowards never knew how to love. they only knows how to scheme their ways to what they want. They will try to rob you from your heart, mind, integrity, deserves, and respect as a woman. Out-weighing the pros and cons within you as a woman. What makes us tick or click?. If we woman tick like a bomb, Then therefore libra knows what makes us upset so libra men will use that against us. On the other-hand if we as women click then he believes we know what he knows. Becoming invlunerable Libra men play games just to see how much control do they have within themselves.To sum it up ” it’s all in the knowing” where they build the cowardly confident of themselves. The games are sad and tiring. I stay to play to point their games back their way.

@ Carmel,
I totally agree, I am a Scorpio, and I will never ever get involved with a Libra ever again. they drain you, confuse your confidence, then take it away with hurtful comments, and flirt and flirt with other women in front of you, making you feel as if you are not even in the room, they are angry argumentative and childish, and even now he STILL wants to be friends, I don’t think so. Go be angry, argumentative and childish with someone else

@ Boo
My libra ex ( the one that broke up with me via text out of the blue for no reaon), whom I agreed to meet for coffee this past weekend, get answers and closure, completley blew me off. I guess he chickened out or had better things to do. I’m done. I don’t need closure from him or to be his friend. In my opinion, the abrupt and harsh way he ended things was devine intervention. I was being protected by the Man upstairs. That’s enough for me.

I dated a libra man for 7 years
From 13 to 21
I’ve watched him grow up into a man
Excuse me CHILD!
I am a SCORPIO woman and we broke up because he is very flirtatious and a player.
He was raised by woman
Even though we have have been broken up for a year
He always tries to come back as “friends”
Libra men are very charming
BEWARE!
It is very hard to keep a Libra man no matter how beautiful of a person u are inside and out
He is just confused
And doesn’t know what he wants
Even if you are his soul mate
He still feels like “she’s” out there somewhere

They do really try to come back as friends. Cuz my ex Libra told me he didnt want anything else to do with me an we couldnt even be friends. Well its somethings that happen between us to make him say that but b4 then he had stopped talking to me for a while. An he never answered any of my emails or messages. Even now he still want. He only answers me if i curse him out or blast him out on blackplanet.com or facebook. Like i called him a con artist an posted his pic on fb. And he was mad as hell. I didnt care cus he hurt me.

Here we go again, after my last post, YEP he contacted me by a text message wishing me happy christmas !! Ignore, ignore, ignore……what a total loser……..what is it with these bloody librans, it’s over , he ended it so back off and let me get on with my life for God’s sake…..He wants to be friends, mmm mm mm I don’t think so matey boy, you are on your own, go find yourself someone who will run around and care for you like I did, Because you will never find another me ha ha !!! I need a man (As annie lennox once said in a song) not a BOY…..

i totally agree… I spent six years with a libran guy. I loved him, he is the most charming, understanding, loving, patient guy I have ever met. And at the same time the most immature,indecisive, narcissistic, self-centered guy… I left him because he has no guts, he is a girl with a small penis.
And his EGO outgrows all that he is or ever will be.
I wish I had never given him six years of my life.

I can see no matter what age a libra man is, he will always be selish, deceitful and self-centered. Angela I’m glad you found someone who loves you. You mentioned your ex never discussed other women with you neither does this guy, it’s what I’ve come to know about his women friends on my own that completely turned me off. Libra women seem deceptive, one of my co-workers was Libra and she was manipulative. Maybe the only sign that can deal with a Libra is another Libra lol. One thing I hate about Libras are they are very secretive. I find myself realizing day by day just how decpetive they are. They mask a cloud of deceitfulness over your eyes and that’s why it takes time to figure their motives. Libra men don’t like women who treat them well they like bitches and frankly no one can be bitchier than a Libran woman.
My cousin is a Libran and when she visited us it was the same deal. I thought she was nice but soon realized her games. I’ve learned to be more cold hearted towards this guy and he can’t figure out what’s changed in me emotionally i’m getting stronger maybe there is hope for me just yet LOL.

HILARIOUS….. I was in my local town Christmas Shopping, and bumped into my exe’s mother, who had always been very kind to me. She asked how I was, and I said I was fine, then I said how was her son (my ex) getting on with his new girlfriend, THE LOOK ON HER FACE !!!! There is NO girlfriend, that I could tell by her reactions, I said, to her, ‘you know the one he goes and stays with every Friday through to Sunday, when he picks up his son’, well, she looked gob smacked, and could not figure out where I’d got the information from. I told her he’d told me his news about his new girlfriend, and to be honest, his mother just looked totally bewildered. She speaks to her son every day, and obviously after 3 months you think he would’ve told his mother he’d met someone else….., Because there is no one, it was all news to her, this just shows what a complete liar he is, it’s all made up to make me jealous….. NEVER EVER DATE A LIBRAN…….

I always thought since a Libran needs to be in a partnership they wont end it with unless they have a replacement. Well Boo thank you for the info because you proved they can lie about being in a partner but not really be with one. God they’re so confusing. You know what I hate the most I never cheated on this guy but he believed his friends and some dumb chicks without getting some real proof. It just made him build up hatred towards me and I never understood why he became so sarcastic and rude. How I found out is when he would blow up he blurted things out. I want to see the look on his face when he finds out they lied. I’ve cried over it so much because I didn’t do anything wrong. My life is so stressful as it is and these people have nothing better to do then make up lies what’s worse is he believes them. When he’s having a bad day, he’s so rude to me but he always nice to them. Angela I know you’re right but he always finds a way to pull on my heart strings and right now my doctor has told me I am going through clincal depression. I never told my doctor what I have been going through in my relationship with him and the stress I have at home. I have always been like that just smile and nod like nothing is bothering me. During our last fight he told me to go kill myself because he thinks I’m cheating on him. He apologised the next day but those words haunt me everyday. When he’s sick I did everything I could to be there for him even being far away. When he’s birthday rolled around I tried to make it special even if I was barely able to make ends meet but he never once thought those things when he was swearing at me. I have told him if he wants to be with someone else he can leave me but he says I don’t want anyone else but you have no say what I do and I bet my life on it his friends are responsible for that. He never used talk like this to me.

I can only speak from my experience. I don’t knw if my ex Libra had someone new or not plus i never cared if he did or didn’t. But i was mostly concerned about how things went down between me and him, he never talked about another woman to me.

My boyfriend acts just like this ! I learned that librans are very imaginative too. They make things up, alot ! He may say, ” My friend told me you cheated ” but he’s just making that up to make you feel bad . It sounds sick and twisted but that’s how they are, if you catch them at the wrong moment. What’s crazy too is, the very next day they’ll act as if nothing ever happened and treat you nice again. It’s really painful to deal with them, they are so conflicted at times.

wow…just read all the comments….i agree with most of y’all. just had a weird relationship with a libra guy…super childish and tiring. too much drama! but yes, the fact that he will call after i ignored him that is true…but this is it…won’t fall into the same trap twice…

They are not cheap when it comes to their friends and other women and themselves just their partners. He’s always boasting what he bought his friends or what he bought himself. They just want to make you feel bad that they weren’t thinking of you when they were shopping. I have never asked for a gift because I feel shy asking and till today, I haven’t gotten a birthday card but I don’t say anything to him.

@ Sarah Scorpio:
Smart girl! A lot of women fall back into the trap because of the charm. Hang in there, from what I hear he may not give up on contacting you because they love the “chase.” Mine hasnt attempted to contact me. He dumped me about 2 and a half weeks ago, but my Libra guy friend says it’s inevitable that he will try to reach out again at some point. I’m gonna be strong like you if it happens, but hope I fall off his radar all together! He’s evil..

hell yeah for sure, you need to be strong too! he’ll contact you most likely when you’re about to get over him. when that time comes, just remember that it’s not worth of your time. i’d prefer to give my full attention for someone else. keep moving on and don’t turn back girl! 🙂

OMG! I am a leo woman 43yrs old, getting involved with a Libra man 47 yrs old, and he is an absolute doll. Now I’m scared of what might be around the corner! I’ve been totally a lady, straight up with him. I’ve never dated a Libra, nor been attracted to them. I recently split with a Leo man, who also sounds just like all the things written above! Mean, selfish, horrible verbal abuse, over nothing..I mean I was 100% faithful and into him, but anything that he found suspicious, wow! Did I suffer. I think I’ll take this one really slow and keep my options open, although he does bring me up when I feel down and is very helpful, I enjoy that! Such a gentlemen too?? I guess it is just the “charming” part, enticing me into his web.

I believe an older Libra man is much better. My guy is 33, not mature enough yet ! Maybe your relationship will be a harmonious one because your a strong leo woman, you can probably withstand his ways. The question is , Will you stay interested in him, also is he strong enough for you, after all you are a leo, natural born leader. Libra men are dependent, needy and sometimes act like big babies, good luck with that one !

I agree Genimisweetypie, its been 2 months and I already see I am the stronger and have been asking myself if I will get bored. He is still very sweet, helpful and extremely attentive, which I don’t mind. He is also telling me how much attention he requires, and I don’t mind that either, as I’m a rather touchy person, always hugging people. But, I am still wiery of his words to me, like how many women have heard these same words? lol. Anyway, he can’t play a player, lol. But I am ready to settle down and will wait and see. Thanks for your comment!

It doesnt matter the age of the Libra man they still act like they act. My ex turned 43, and he was still a selfish person and treated me bad. An i am a Gemini and we suppose to be compatible with each other. But, i met this scorpio man and he tells me all the that how much he loves me and that he wants to marry me. Those Libra’s act like they have two different personalities at times. But, they are so charming i think the only type that can deal with a Libra man is the Libra woman cuz they are both alike.

A good guy friend of mine (that I never dated), who is a more mature Libra now shared/confirmed the following about his counterparts:

1.) Libra men get bored after the chase is over.
2.) They are ALWAYS looking for the “perfect” woman, even if they’re already dating her.
3.) They listen carefully to what a woman says when she spills her guts about herself/her life, and uses it to his advantage later to manipulate her or use it against her in some way.
4.) They always try to come back at some point after they dump you, especially if the woman takes the break up well and disappears.

This is all so true!!! I almost got involved with a Libra man, but lucky enough to not ended up with him in a serious relationship. They are everything you DONOT want in your ideal man… for a Pisces woman at least. Just being friends will be better.

@ Lady Taurus, yep, eventually as my mother said, it took him 3 months, but yes, these silly Librans do end up contacting you in the end. Just completely ignore them and they come running……. Trust me, I know it’s only been a week, but he WILL contact you, don’t cave, don’t give any information, act cool as if you are really not bothered with him any more. He’s lost you, you are worth far far more, that’s why you should move on. I did, but yeah, it does hurt, they end up making you feel as if you’ve no confidence. I have never had this feeling with any other signs, only Librans, they think they are God’s gift, THAT is the whole problem…… don’t be taken back in by their charm, it’s a complete front…..

@Boo- Thanks for the feedback/support. A good guy friend of mine that I’ve known for years, but never dated is a Libra and he told me 100% without a doubt he will come back. Ugh!
You are so right we all are worth far more. Libra men treat women like we are disposable diapers!

O M G !!! Three months down the line aftre I have ignored this Libra for all this time, I get a missed call on my phone, it was to do with a recent legal matter we were both still involved in, it was’nt rocket science to work out the court payments, I guess he just wanted to speak to me. I could’nt believe it when he started bragging about his new girlfriend, he may has well have told me her inside leg measurement, he told me about how she was younger than me, what her job was, that she owns her own house, that she’s blonde….. etc etc.. He then made a massive mistake in his story and told me had to work every single saturday to earn extra money to pay his rent, but in the same sentence he said he drove over (20 miles away from where he works) to see his new woman every friday night and that he leaves her house on sunday morning to pick up his son……weird that, how can one person be in 2 places at the same time…. it was all lies, and made up to make me jealous. When I got off the phone I laughed my ass off, he is STILL trying to make up stories, which are so fantastical and untrue it’s unbelievealbe. I don’t care anymore, he could be going out with Anjelina Jolie and I wouldn’t be bothered, because I know deep down, he is a liar, a cheat and a completely pathetic example of a man…..Also, when he asked if I’d met anyone I told him I hadn’t as I was okay being single, he said he’d met this ‘so called’ woman on the Internet. If you know this Libra, and knew that he hates computers, cannot be bothered with dating sites, can barely type, letalone spell, that it begs the question that he set up a profile. I checked the site he even mentioned to me, He’s not on it, it’s all utter lies. He is no doubt sitting at home in front of the TV thinking shit, I’ve dug a massive hole by telling my lies, and now there’s nothing I can do about it…..Plus when I said I was still single he reacted and said, ‘well I don’t know, its your word, isn’t it.’ meaning he didn’t even believe I’d not even kissed anyone, as if he was still in a relationship with me….!! Weird, librans are so so so so so childish.

There is this Libra guy who always stops by my job (I work in an MD office and he’s a sales rep). I used to completely ignore him, I hardly said hello to him when he walked in and flat out refused to acknowledge his existence. He just wasn’t my type. This went on for years. One day, all of a sudden and without warning he worked his charm on me and that was it. It’s that Libra charm I keep reading so much about! Needless to say, I fell hard like a teenybopper.

My sister is a Libra and she can’t bear to be alone for an extended period of time and I get the feeling this is the same story with my sales rep crush.

Maybe I’ll just quit while I’m ahead and give up on trying to hook up with this guy, as he seems to be like the type described in the article. Everybody I ask tells me that he lives life going from woman to woman…and he’s in his 40s. I don’t need the extra drama in my life. I am a proud Sag 🙂

For all of you either just getting into a relationship with a Libra Man or lucky to get out in time, find someone else to give your love too. Libras are selfish, arrogant, unsympathetic, cruel, manipulative, self praising and they’ll turn on you in a second right down to insulting your family and your self esteem without ever considering a limit when it comes to the other person in the relationship. I’ve been in a long distance relationship with a Libra for 2yrs and it’s been a few weeks of happiness and months of living hell. I notice with Libras they like acceptance especially from their friends and if that means doing the wrong thing against you then they will.
Don’t ever confide in them about your personal family life or things that happened throughout your life because they will talk behind your back and play to hook you. When we started dating he was so sweet and charming called so many times a day text me romantic text messages, I thought god sent down an angel for me. Little did I know it was the devil himself in disguise. You might think I’m exaggerating but when you read what follows you’ll thank yourself from taking these guys seriously. He basically proposed to me started talking about a family and kids. Well I come to find out he did the samething with a girl who supposedly dumped one of his good friends and I don’t think he’s friend knows about it till today. That girl lives in a different state then he does..anyway when I confronted him about her he called her names and said she was a liar and she was ugly he would never talk to her like that. Stupid me believed him over some girl cause I didn’t know her and she had a bad rep. One evening in October 2yrs ago I came home and took a nap I called him to let him know and he was so sweet about it telling me he’ll miss me and to call him when I wake up. Something that day made me wake up and go into one of the chat rooms he used to chat in..you see we decided that we wouldn’t go to chat rooms and waste time especially because it would effect the relationship but that day I went into the room just this gut feeling he would be there and low and behold he was there with another i.d using that same style of chatting and flirting with a girl one of his friends know. He told her he loved her but she didn’t like his type. I was beyond upset and called him and told him I wanted to end the relationship shocking to confirm it was him that i.d left the chatroom that second our conversation hot heated. He even told someone in a private message his name without realizing that person would give it out. I confronted him and told him I want to end the relationship he started getting emotional and telling me it wasn’t him and he loved me. He managed to manipulative himself out that situation and then had the guts to blame it on me. He said what were you doing in a chatroom when we promised each other? Will you ever doubt me again? Stupid me fell right into the trap and questioned myself and continued the relationship. This year in July he made another i.d actually I think he wasn’t the only one using that i.d but all his friends were again that instinct in me knew and I was right another i.d but a person’s way of chatting never changes and the same nightmare. He mentioned he has a girlfriend and that he’s going to pick her up well I live over 2000 miles away so it wasn’t me he was going to pick up. We had a huge fight over it and I decided this guy can’t be trusted but once they hook you Libras entangle you in their web of lies and deception and manipulate you and you find yourself right back where you started. They are capable of creating multiple accounts and endlessly flirting with women without guilt. He doesn’t allow me to have any male friends assuming I will either sleep with them or they will hit on me eventually. I abruptly gave up contact with a friend who had treated me with nothing but respect. He has kept female friends throughout our relationship had a facebook account in which he had women friends which he refused to add me on because he said he likes to keep his friends and his private life separate. His friends have invited women to many get togethers while I have been told no women are ever present when he hangs with his friends. These were all lies. I’ve seen pictures and read posts that women have been present. Whenever I go out on my own meaning I’m alone he thinks I’m meeting other men for sex or my friends are taking me to meet for sex in hotel rooms. I hardly talk let alone meet my friends anymore. Never in my life have I ever met this kind of man. I never knew any libras, if I had would’ve found this site before getting involved with a libra, I would have saved myself from toxic relationship. Though I’ve never cheated on him, he’s called me a whore,slut he’s abused my family members and they have never said anything to him accept for my mom who once told me to stop taking abuse from him and he heard her while he was on the phone. Last night I just mentioned that we haven’t had quality time for a few days and he takes care of everything and everyone in his life which I agree but I don’t thinking asking time for a quality conversation is asking much but I got abused in front his friend because he wanted me to be happy with the little time he gave me. While his friend sat there he abused me and abused my family and then continued watching t.v while he and his friend laughed. I’ve told him if he isn’t happy he should find someone locally so many times and he tells me the women he knows locally are sluts and he doesn’t want to settle down with girls like that. I feel embarrassed writing this because I am an intelligent person and I should have known better but my experience might help someone see Libras don’t care for anyone but themselves get out of it while you still can. They will tell you what you want to hear when they need you once that need is gone they won’t care. I never slept with this guy that’s the only thing I did right. I finally realized that while you waste time loving someone who doesn’t even respect you, there’s someone out there dying for someone like you to come into their life and show them what true love is.

@AquarianGal,
Don’t be embarrassed! We have all been there with Libra men, that is why we are venting on this site now. Hang in there girl. At least you know that you can do much, much better than that!

Thank you it means a lot to me. It’s strange to me after I posted the post he called the next day with an emotional apology but I know this will happen again and again. I don’t feel the way I used too. It isn’t easy caring for a terminally ill parent full time and then have to deal with this turmoil. My health is suffering in a serious way. I’ve come to realize it’s better to be single then have any guy treat you like this. I don’t trust the people in his social circle because even the committed people in the group have cheated on their partners. The women in the group have no respect for monogamy either. They tried concealling their dirty deeds for a longtime but as they say you can’t hide who you are for long and that’s how I came to know that he’s been anything but honest. What his friends don’t realize with a simple polygraph test I can prove I’ve never been unfaithful and the day I do…I walk away with a clean conscience without having to regret my decision. Isn’t it better just to go on dates and then leave it at that? Like Mary J. Bleige says ” No more drama.” I think this experience has changed my outlook on relationships and longterm committments…I don’t crave that feeling of being with* someone like I used too. My personal freedom and peace of mind is what I miss. If you have worry everytime whether your guy is cheating on you, you can’t live peacefully without that* constant fear or what he’s lying about then what’s the point in being with someone? My best friend is Taurus, I’ve known her for many years and she dated a libra for 6yrs and he cheated on her and in the end he told her I’m going to marry someone from my country. He wanted her as his mistress what a pig!! She dumped him but she suffered a lot of heartache and then 2 months later when things didn’t workout with his arrange marriage thing, he started calling her and stalking her. She had to call the cops to warn him to stay away* but he stills waits by the park near her house at night and starts begging and pleading when he sees her walking home, now he wants to marry her but he cheated on her libra guys can be real idiots. It’s stupid because she has someone else and but her ex doesn’t get it. I want to thank all the women who posted their experience on this site, you all made me realize it’s not me with the problem, it’s them. I’m posting a link you can check your compatibility with the person you’re involved with. it’s pretty detailed I found it recently..I hope it helps you all in the future.

It is amazing how many women have experienced almost the EXACT same thing I did with a Libra man. On this site as well as others, I have read that women that had been told “I love you” and assumed they were in viable relationships receive cold, heartless break up “TEXT MESSAGES” from the man out of the blue. Talk about having the rug pulled out from under you! Unfathomable!!

I recently went to an astro sight and they have a category headed ” will he cheat? ” when I clicked on it, it showed all the astro signs and under Libra, it says he will be as normal and nice, cuddle and even kiss you like nothing is wrong…then one day you’ll see him with someone else. Beware!

Unbelievable! LOL!

Something funny came to mind. He always tells me he hates sluts but all the women friends he has are sluts! Go figure. They don’t feel ashamed posting their sexcapades on facebook, what can I say? Im speechless!!

Positive Pros
1.Libran men are flawless with conversation, and talkative! Librans like to challenge you intellectually and mentally when they speak. They “test” your intelligence before settling to give you their attention.
2.My Libran knows how to balance me out with his easygoing personality. I am the dramatic one who ends up sulking over the floor and he is there to assure me and set my head straight.
3.We both enjoy nice fantasies, like roses on the bed, dim-lit restaurants, hand holding, friend circles. Liberan men like to romance like mad, they like to hold you, kiss you, give massages and say sweet things.
5.Liberan men are confident and humorous, they tease, and get very restless when bored when they are not being emotionally and sexually fulfilled. I dote and flirt with my Libran and he enjoys it.
6. Librans men like to assure the partner, they like security, Libran men want balance in relationship but they also want to be the bit of a “leader”, (I let him have that).

Crashing Cons
1.They are womanizers because of the skills they possess. All the Libran men I’ve known seemed to have been born in a Flirting Self -Help Class. These men are outright flirtatious in a suave endearing way. Ugh…
2.Fans of word manipulation , watch out, they have the, “I did not steal the pen, I borrowed it from the desk” problem.Their listening and conversation skills are their best weapon!
3. Distant. My Libran can get very distant and wrapped up in his head.I have to nourish, him, he likes to talk. I have to listen. Sometimes he just won’t, he’ll say everything is okay not to shake up the peace but it kills me because I know something is wrong. What should I do?
4. Very confident, a combination of a Leo Male and a Scorpio Male, the sort of confidence which makes you say “Wow, did he just say that”.
5. Most Libran are perfectionist, they are always searching for happiness, fairness and perfection.
6.They will not get jealous, they will take all the time in the world to show their interest in you. They are so easygoing with dating that they won’t care if you are going out with 9 others while you date him.

I’m a Leo woman and I’ve dated Aries, Gemini, Libras and Leos but the Libra has got me hooked. Partner/Player I suppose.

What I will say is that libra guys can be very childish, very selfish, very needy, very deceptive, very manipulative, very sneaky, very phony, very whiney, very bitchy, very shallow, very materialstic, very judgmental, very hating, very jealous, very broke, and very whoreish for no reason. Like have you no shame. In my experience this was all so true and I pray to god to never ever get me involved with someone who carelessly took advantage of me when I was so giving (my fault) and always there and when I show one hint emotion just runs away like a little ass toddler. Sorry for venting so harshly, just dealt with a childish teenage Libra guy. X-P

I thought I was the only one that saw the negative traits in a libra man HAHAHAHA thank you god im not alone!!!!! Manipulative definetly! Actually everything definetly!! HAHAHA Libras can take a beautiful thing like love, loyalty and committment and ruin it like no other sign can!
Don’t call them childish “they hate it”! LOL He’s only needy when he has no one to support his cause, once his friends come in the picture he forgets everything you’ve gone through with him. They tend to be nicer to people who have a bitchy quality verses a person who has loved them whole heartedly.

If they are at fault, they’ll find a way to blame it on you. They are jealous and accuse you of doing things when you’re not and it makes me wonder if he’s guilty of those things himself. Where do they come up with these senarios? LOL

I read on some astrology site, a libra’s personality varies what time of the libra cycle they were born in…for example, for an aquarian born late January a libra born from September 24th – to the early part of October is an ideal partner and a libra born in late October is ideal for an aquarian born in February. Unfortunetly I can’t remember the site link but if I find it I will post it here. 🙂

All you libras out there heres some advice from a non-libra, if you can’t fully commit don’t make someone elses life a living hell. Stop assuming your partner is cheating on you because you hear some gossip actually aquire real proof because you just end up looking like a fool and losing someone who really loved you.

Y’all love drama and will start drama for no apparent reason. Y’all have a way to annoy someone like no one else, this is coming from someone who has practiced patience with a libra beyond any monk. LOL

Someone once said ” marry a person who’s loves you hopelessly not the person you love hopelessly because the person that loves you like no other will never leave you but there’s always a chance of the person you love more then yourself leaving you.”

I’ll never understand why people cheat in their relationships. What’s the point in hurting someone who has put their trust and faith you? Every situation is controllable – no excuse is a valid excuse.

@ScorpioMagnet…. A Scorpio Woman either fascinates or frightens nearly every man.. the femme fatale thing isn’t exactly something to be proud of is it? that’s a horrible way to refer to a guy you’re still with

@rick awesome, I don’t hate librans, just that I’ve gone through hell with him, and I went into the relationship with NO baggage, it was all his crap, and NOT ONCE did any member of his family even understand what it was like to have someone constantly lie and cheat on me all the time. I guess that whoever he next gets involved with (and I think he cheated on me the week before he very childishly ended the relationship by a text mesage) will endure all the crap I went through, by that I mean the mother of his child will find out he’s seeing someone else, and the new partner can put up with what I had to. The libran had no balls, was a child and did not once stand up to his issues or responsibilites, he just ran to his mummy (at the age of 36) that’s pretty lame don’t you think. His mum won’t always be there to bale him out, but as she sent him off to boarding school for a long time, I feel that she now has a guilt complex and is making up for lost time. IE, by giving him money left right and centre, and paying his rent, bills etc, this made him angry towards me, as I paid MY own way, and that was when he started bashing my confidence, he was jealous because I look after MYSELF. He would then put me down, my talents, job etc, and made me feel I had no self esteem left, librans are experts at doing that. It’s called the mirror image effect, he was actually talking about himself when he said all those awful things to me. Now I have moved on, and expect to meet someone who will cherish me, not put me down, or argue about the petty issues in life, librans just argue about the most ridiculous issues. Give me a Taurean man any day……

wow… thanks for scaring me.. i figured the libra man is a charmer. a pathetic one at that, says the same lines to every girl he meets.. am a scorpio woman, pretty hard to impress. i dnt believe in flattering pepole and libras enjoy flattery. talk bout being a girl in a mans body. i realised if i am my true self, the girl that he cant charm and control, the girl that waits for him to get serious and tells him to stop being a skit every time then he gets interested. u need to keep him on his toes everytime. i simply remind him he is replaceable and he can go to hell if he wants. i never care and he listens..

@Boo…. You met your guy at his weakest moment. He was barely out of a relationship with an insane ex, whom by the way was the mother of his son. Librans have a weakness for family, & they love their kids more than anything. I’m not excusing how he treated u but putting any other guy in his shoes, with the crazy ex, kid & all, the outcome wouldnt be much different.. Pls dont hate librans for this, they’re way too nice & awesome. Try to move on

@Angela Barnett …. A proper libran would never borrow unless he was very sure he’d pay back. Librans borrow with the noblest of intentions. But if anything happens to thwart their calculations- and ten to one it does, they’d feel awful about it & wont rest till the dept is paid. A libra would please others b4 he pleases himself. I know how often i’ve had to displease myself so that others can be happy. Jus cant help it, & sometimes it seems like the whole world loves me, probably bcos i seek their approval. . . Send him a text & tell him to please not forget about the money, that ought to put big pressure on him…………….is he a virgo CUSP?………………The sun enters the libra sign each year on or about the 23rd of september & departs from it on or about the 22nd of october. The sun on entering a sign should be given six days b4 coming into full touch and action with the influence of the sign. A person born between september 23rd & september 29th wouldn’t receive the full results of the sign’s individuality as he would be born when the sun was on the edge of the sign. This is known as a CUSP. Its nature & impulses partake of the sign the sun has just passed out from. This person will partake of the attributes of the zodiac sign in which the moon is located at the time of birth.. Hence a few CUSP’s possess some annoying virgo traits.

@Angela Barnett I;m in the same situation too, he owes me £180 fora court case we had to go through with an ex landlord, naturally I did ALL the paperwork he didn’t lift a finger. And now I am £180 down. he’s owed it to me since January this year. Maybe put it down to experience Angela, forget him completely and move on, I don’t know what star sign you are, but I suggest you move on, and someone elsewill appear in your life when you least expect it, and then you won’t even think about this libra at all he will be a distant, distant memory erase him from your life. It’s not worth the hassle, they are all babies, and moody and argumentative, you deserve much better.

Well Boo i am a Gemini and i just want what he owe me back that’s all so that i can move forward with my life. I just don’t understand why is he holding on to me and dont want me just pay up. Cuz i feel that its something left undone u kinda get where i am coming from.

rick_awesome_oct4
I got a question to ask u the libra guy that i love so much owes me money he said that he would pay me. That he would send me an email once he has done that. But i haven’t heard from him so how can i get him to pay me back, and he also told me that he loved me and now don’t want to talk to me so was his feelings real or not. Since libras are sensitive people. And when will he be talking to me again i thought libras don’t hold grudges against ppl. Especially ppl they love.

they do hold grudges but they never last long, they will hurt you, then when they see that have hurt you, they’ll stop hold the grudge. He may love you but that doesn’t mean he’ll pay you, it’s not that important to him. But if he wants to be with you and you catch him at the right time he will pay you

@rickawesome, thanks for the reply. It’s so weird it’s as if the relationship has no closure, it ended because of someone else’s insecurities,but on the other hand, it also ended because he was being controlled by her too. He would not listen to how I felt, and in the end he put me down so much (my family, my talents, my job etc) I felt like I was being pulled from pillar to post and lost all my confidence. He was extremely immature, and on sundays when he had to meet this evil woman to pick up his son, they would both engage in this playground, tit for tat arguing, which even the neighbours would complain about to the police, AND THEN he would come home and take his anger out on me, when I’d been at home all day…..All I know is I went into that relationship with NO baggage, and all of his crap affected my life because he did not have the balls to stand up to this evil woman, and even now, (he’s told me he’s met someone else) I just have to think how lucky I am not to be in that relationship any more, as his ex will soon find out about the new girlfriend (if there is one – he was a master at making up stuff and telling lies ALL the time) and she can now be on the receiving end of her madness, I don’t have to put up with it any more. The problem was that the son was used as a bargaining tool, and then he would take his anger out on my by saying ,’I can’t see my son because of you.’ When in reality it was his ex’s madness in her head and jealousy and insecurity. I can’t believe that 8 weeks ago we were both at a party together, I introduced him to so many people, friends of mine, who now won’t have anything to do with him, because they really only saw him because of me. being there. In 2008, he ran up a set text phone bill of £2,000 and on valentines day I couldn’t understand where his head was, he was away in his head, and I couldn’t seem to get through. We split up even then and got back together later in the year. I should never have gone back. He and his ex have caused me nothing but absolute grief. I am now trying to get my confidence back, after having it bashed around for the last 4 years. I did everything for him set up a website for his business, his internet banking, sorted out all the household bills, etc, he had to do nothing. He was a really mummy’s boy and I think was jealous that I’m an independent woman and do everything for myself, no running to mummykins for me that’s for sure. Anyhow it’s all over now, and Good luck is what I say, he seriously has to sort out his ex if he wants a chance to ever be in a relationship witn anyone else, otherwise his whole life is ruined because of his evil ex. Thank god I’m out of it. I think about him all the time, but then I remember how he was with me, even when he fetched me from hospital after surgery, all he was concerned about was getting a parking ticket, and the fact that he’d had to take the afternoon off work to collect me. He raged all the way home, and I just wanted to get out of the car, how selfish was that….. Calm now…….No more Librans, they need to grow up, stop being so selfish, and take responsibility for their actions.

I hope i will i really miss him alot, i stop sending emails and txts to him as of yesterday. He owes me some money and said that he would email me when he has sent it. But still haven’t heard anything from him. But he still got mad at me over something stupid

@Boo pheww.. so so sorry about everything. That was an awfuly long time to bear all that .Inability to make up his mind, that single trait cost u a lot. Now i get why u’re mad. In his shoes I would’ve handled it differently though, not everyone lets their weakness overcome them.. Hope u find happiness soon

@rickawesome, you are totally wront about HIM sticking with me it was completely the other way around. When I met him he had a son (18months old) unbeknown to me his last ex was a complete lunatic. Before I met him he had non molestation orders out on her and she threw a brick through his window and was arrested by the cops. As soon as she knew he had met me, I endured 4 years of constant abuse and harassment from her, as she was so jealous that he had met another woman – ME. Suffice to say for 4 years the anger that came from him towards me, was because his ex had used their son as a bargaining tool by saying he couldn’t see his son as long as he was in a relationship with me. So after 4 years, he dumped me because she would not let him see his son. He agreed that I had done nothing wrong, but each and every sunday when he had to encounter this evil woman, he would come home and take out his anger on me, as I was the nearest target. I walked away from that in December last year, and since then we had to conduct our relationship in total secrecy. She found out about us in August, and would not let him see his son for 5 weeks, and THAT was when he dumped me. His son will always come first, but now all I do is think about my ex, and that it ended because of him not being able to stand up to this evil ex of his, and now I’ve lost out on a 4 year relationship, just because of the jealousy, and insecurity of the mother of his child. So no, rickawesome you are totally wrong, I still love my ex, but cannot see him for fear of the other ex starting up again, or not letting him see his son, so I can’t win…..Time to move on. Plus he has severe anger issues and a recreational drug habit, something that I don’t indulge in, so his mood swings would affect me. All I know is that whoever he next gets involved with, trust me, there will ALWAYS be 3 people in that relationship, his ex is crazy, has been sectioned before, rehab, and has behavioural issues, and DOES NOT EVEN WORK at the age of 48.. I on the other luckily still have a job, she even tried to lose me my job by phoning my boss and bad mouthing me, that was the extent to how low she had gone to disrupt my life, my relationship with my partner and the house I had to walk away from. She was 80% of the relationship breakdown, most of which I would say is because my partner was manipulated by her and could not stand up to her, that then impacted on our relationship, and being a LIbran, not being able to make up his mind, I made it up for him and walked away in December.

rick_awesome_oct4
Thanks so much for your advice, i do love him and dispite he got mad at me over something stupid my feelings don’t change. And he told me that he loved me i do believe that. I will take your advice and again Thanks

@Angela Barnett u really love this libra guy…its so sweet how u keep asking for tips on how to handle your relationship.. Now he’s angry at u for no reason? I know that feeling.. Its time u gave him some space & by space i mean no phone calls or text messages.. Answer his phone calls when he does call and act like nothing’s up, dont complain, remain the sweet loving girl u are.. & again dont call. He’ll change

@Boo he stuck with u for 4 good years only bcos he loved u, even though u weren’t exactly his type (hence the abuse, nasty words), seems like u wouldn’t adjust either.. So he sent that text, after much thought & consideration.. Half expecting his girlfriend of 4 years to wanna talk things over or at least give a shit

What is the best way to deal with a Libra male who is angry at u for no reason at all. But, u still love this person and want to be apart of this person life. So what do u do with him. I thought about totally ignoring him, but that doesn’t work cuz i still think bout him, and want to hear from him. So what shall i do? Any advice is good.

Just been dumped by a Libran man after 4 traumatic years of lying, nasty comments, and abuse. I Haven’tseen him for three weeks now, he ended it by text, and then for the nest 3 weeks has constantly texted me, ‘why are you ignoring me? why don’t you want to speak to me, don’t you want to speak to me any more. Jesus christ, if he’s ended it why theh ell keep texting me!!!! I’m going away abroad for a holiday, as I;’ve had so much stress with this lying, deceitful and abusive Libra. Whey the hell can’t they make a decision and STICK TO I, if he doesn’t want me then back off. He’s now said he’s met someone else !!! I believe this to be a total lie as he had been texting me the whole time. I bet his new woman would love to know he’d texted me behind her back. Librans never change and are lying and abusive. Run for your life.

wow… A lot been said and i’m begining to wonder if ya’ll are connected in some way, maybe members of an actual support group on ‘evils libras do’. Lol…jus kidding. Libra guys are way too sophisticated, smart, we’re forged by the golden hands of #venus itself, we’re awesome gotta admit that. lol.. I’m surprised at some of these posts because i know libra guys can be very faithful, & monogamous when they’ve found the right one. So if your libra guy ditched you for some other broad, you were doing something wrong (1)we like a woman who is feminine and ready to assume the role of a woman in a relationship, not a control freak (2) we love beauty, style, elegance & sophistication.. Anything else is a turn off (3) we balance everything out so most times you get exactly the same treatment you give your libra guy (4) we love sophisticated women,ones we can connect with, have things in common with. Ones who share our dream (5) always settle disagreements with him in a civilized manner (6) we’re pretty hard to read, so if you really love your libra, try to understand him, & he’ll love you forever. . . the libra guy has a screening period in his relationship when he decides if you’re truely the one. most of you dont know this. so if u meet all these requirements, the period will be over quickly & he’ll stick with you for life (if that’s what you want)

You say it depends on an individuals rather than an atsro sign. Ok I agree with some degree on that but you cant deny the obvious. My partner is cultured and well brought up and so are his friends but they have done some ruthless things. Alot of these things standout in astro sign characteristics. Their family upbringing has been nothing shy of great and still they do things that are unacceptable.
You also said you get back what you gave out. You should carefully read some of the posts, one gal stated she was pregnant with his child and he was cheating on her. Comeon! In my opinion no one in this world deserves to be cheated on if they haven’t cheated on you.
No reationship is perfect and even if it gets boring you finds ways to make it creative. One libra guy stated if we get bored we are bound to cheat lol thats BS! Cheating in any context whether emotional or physical is WRONG! It’s better to end the relationship and allow the other person to find happiness but keeping them by stringing them along for your own security just sucks! You gotta be a low person to cheat on your partner. As far as the astro sign characteristics it gives you a general idea of the kind of person you may be involved in a romantic relationship and you should give it consideration.

Marina,
I’m just commenting on your comment. I agree gemini guys lie and cheat I know two personally. Scorpions definetly cheat lol. Aquarian guys cheat too lol. The things I’ve seen with cases from these three signs whoa lmao gosh. As far as women go. Gemini women rarely satisfied with one partner they’re prone to cheating in marriage. Scorpions as well. Aquarian women lol I can talk for other women but my loyalty to my relationship has gone far and beyond, it makes my friends sick! I guess my thinking is ” if you don’t want someone to do it to you, then don’t do it to them.”

Im a gemini, been with my libra for 6 years and never cheated. I was brought up well, was taught to ” Do unto others as you would have them do unto you ” If i had not been brought up so well maybe i would have been more selfish, idk. Not all gem’s are cheats.

LibraOct20, thank you for the insight. Thank you for making me realize i’m not imagining things when I say a libra men can’t make up the friggin minds. It drives me nuts at times beyond the craziness of needing a straight jacket. haha. So you messed it up with all 3 great women. At least you realize the value of an aquarian woman. I do feel he takes me for granted but when the relationship is threatened he realizes he needs to do something quick to the change the situation.
Tell me something, is it normal for a libran male to act cocky around his male friends? Coz I can swear it’s like talking to a monster sometimes when they’re around.
He swears on being loyal to me but I wonder sometimes his male friends which happen to be single always invite other women to meet them at bars and on BQs but he never told me. I know that one particular gal who is a gemini I dont trust at all. I told him once why don’t you hook up with her lol. He’s like I don’t care about that ****! He called her a b**** and said I don’t care about her. I’m pretty sure they chat on yahoo lol comeon he can’t expect me to believe that. lol

Actually he tried hooking her up with a friend lol but gemini’s in my opinion commit to one person easily. I actually respected this gal until I came to see her two sides. He knows I came to know what she really is and he has no idea how he was shocked lol.
He doesn’t like me having male friends so I have none what makes me mad is that he has female friends but he denies communicating or hanging out a group with them once in awhile..why does he lie about it? I wouldn’t mind but because he lies it makes me wonder what else is he hiding. Just the thought of me talking to another guy makes him angry and possessive. I don’t get how a libra man’s mind works sometimes.
You’re right about the thing about arguing for the sake of arguing they love doing that.
One gal said, when you start questioning them about things they don’t like they get argumentitive and go on your family and on you to hurt you.
One day he’s happy and wants to leave his old life behind to start a family with me and the next he misses his old surroundings. We are in a long distance relationship and he is planning to move where I live. I must say when he’s not around his taurus and aries friend duo he’s a totally different person. I used to respect both of them until I came to realize what they are….now its absolute disgust.
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Afer ready most post an in many cases novels, I just want to says that there is no way a entire group of people can be classed together. Maybe there are certain traits of a Libra that is noticeable, however. A person’s character and morals in life depends on more than an astrological sign. For instance, their upbringing, culture, experiences in life and generally who they really are as a person.

For the individuals who are hurt because their men where with someone when they met you and the outcome was hurt, all I have to say is that, you get what you put out, Life is a bank and if you disrespect another person’s relationship, why would you expect happiness in your own,

Ok yeah so so true, the part of rollercoater of your life, and hell yea he is amazing in bed, i just want to eat him up,, I am much older than him, and i just dont care about that…. he is so sexy, smart witty and such a joy to be around,,He swept me off my friggin feet!!

just one problem, I left him my number didnt get his and now I am friggin dying inside(I know where he lives and all but I not gona gobe a stalker lady) How ever I am fighthing the urge) Been since friday we talked all nite, so been 4 days and I just want to run to him and see him again,,

Also I’d like to add that among the most ”untrustworthy” signs(geminis,scorpios and sometimes aquarians) libra men are the most dangerous grrrr.
I mean it’s more obvious when a gemini and scorpio man are trying to play you and you can ‘sense’ most of the times clearly their true intentions and take action accordingly.But when it comes to libra men at first they display their best qualities that make u think “whoa-his is a good guy but not the pathetic type-he has something..”.Then the honeymoon period ends and you have to face reality:he is flacky,indecisive and unstable showering you with attention for one minute and ignoring you the next-They are playing you and string u along but in a more sneaky and not so obvious way..
I don’t know ladies if you had any experiences with these signs but I had dated or talked to a bunch of them and this is what I realised.I’m not saying of course that they are all like that but I believe they have a tendency to be like this and next time I will proceed with caution!!!

I don’t agree Marina, I am a Gemini and i am very loyal and trustworthy and Aquarians are two my daughter is one. But what we do hate is a person that lies, or is sneeky. We can be very loving and caring but don’t get on our bad side then its over. But i respect your point

This is my first relationship with a libra guy. As an aquarian being stimulated intellectually is very important or I get bored. No matter how good looking a guy is, if he isn’t smart – there’s no way I would last the relationship. Libra guys like space espesoulmate. I had male friends that I chatted with online and though he seemed ok with cially when they’re with their friends but if he truly loves you he likes to get phone calls letting him know he’s important to you. Somedays I get busy and I dont call him the whole day he gets upset. If they’re planning to marry you, they do become possessive and somewhat controlling but I think its because they think of you as they’re it when we started dating…after sometime he expressed his disapproval and I realized it was hard for him to express that and stopped chatting with my male friends. One thing is very important to libras they need to feel loved, admired and cared for on a constant basis and if you’re a gal that likes having male friends forget dating a libra. I find him to be romantic, caring, protective and sexually attractive. They don’t have to look like a moviestar but they have a sex appeal that’s irresistable. Being an aqaurian gal, loyalty is the most important thing to me in a relationship it comes before love. If we find out we’ve been cheated on, we’ll leave you no matter how much it hurts. It hard for us to trust after that. Aquarian women dont like guys who flirt(at least I dont) and that would be an issue if I saw him doing that cause he would never be ok with me doing that. Libras have a set of friends they trust and it’s true they’re not impressed very easily, it takes skill and charm to get their attention. He hates heavy makeup (especially dark lipsticks) and aspects the woman he’s with to dress classy with a natural look not revealing everything but im sure they stare at women don’t wear much lol as long their woman isn’t showing off her assests. Submissiveness drives them crazy. If you’re loud and aggressive they get annoyed. It’s important for them to know how you will handle being a wife and a mother meaning family should come first to you. They can be crude to the point it damages you emotionally. I think someone here posted dont show them you’re vunerable side to often. When they’re with their friends, they can be quite cocky and arrogant. We’ve had several arguements do to this. He’s knows one thing for sure it’s hard to lie to an aqaurian, cause they come to know the truth very quickly and thats when tempers flare up. They have mood swings and you never know what to expect, that sometimes becomes confusing and frustrating. They know to push your buttons and then be exceptionally romantic the next minute make you forget why you were angered. Lying comes to them very naturally and they can do it without blinking. When confronted depending on the degree of the qustioning, they can either become confrontional and defensive or simply avoid you all together cause they need time to figure out how to reply to you, most times they have an answer for everything and they’re damn smooth at it. Want a libra man to respect you? Don’t hop in the sac too soon – wait until he makes a commitment cause he’ll be boasting about how easy you were to his friends and you’ll be history. Always look hot even after having kids to keep them on their toes. Being independant also attracts them but don’t be over independent like you dont need anyone ” they hate it.” lol They don’t like self-centered people even they can be the most centered people you’ll ever meet – I think deep down they want someone who also has some insecurities so they’re not alone in this. They can be shy and sweet which is a turn on. A night and shinning armor from a fairy tale. They make great fathers and love family life. I think it’s a sense of belonging and acceptance as well as them feeling important about their presence in the lives their family members. They are loyal friends and are quick to forgive long-time friends over spats. They will go out on the limb for their friends and if you expect to be first before their friends – good luck cause it won’t happen until you’re married. They’re good dressers and have great taste in everything from art to a home.
They like the finer things in life and dont want to lead an ordinary life. They have a wander lust and a passion to explore new places. They’re bold in want they want in a partner. If you want to be the center of the universe in their lives look elsewhere cause it’s not happening. Don’t sound needy and clingy they hate it. They hate drama and at times will be the ones to get upset over a simple misunderstanding. They hold grudges. Most times it’s their way or the highway which can leave you feeling neglected. They can be confusing. The best thing to do is let them have a timeout when they’re having a bad day, they’ll come later and tell you what happened be consoling, loving and nuturing they appreciate it. They like a partner who wants to experiment new things in the bedroom so don’t be boring cause they want you to take control in the bedroom. Being a good cook is important as well lol. They have a good memory and will bring up things you never expect during an arguement so watch it lol.

libras and aquarians score 10/10 on compatibility but there has to be compromising and patience in dealing with a libra guy.

I’m a Sag woman and I’ve had 4 long-term relationships and 3 out of the 4 were Libras. I’ve got them down pat. Basically just be their friend. Be the friend that’s just one of the guys, be open, talk, hang out, have fun and simply enjoy their company. Do not let them have you until they are willing to tell you and show you they want you and only you. Make it clear! If you are “The One,” they will know it and will have no problem showing it. They will want to keep you and will treasure you if you know you’re own self worth, are intelligent (they love women with brains), and give them the affection and attention they so desire. It’s not hard to keep them hooked, you just have to get them hooked on you first. They really are simple creatures just wanting to be admired, keep the balance and enjoy life with a lifetime companion who understands them and is drama free.

I got a question if a libra man is finish with you will he still talk to you. And if he still has a little liking for you well he show that he does. The reason being is because this friend of mine is a libra male and i am a gemini lady and the chemistry is there and he even wanted to know if i would be his wife. So the thing is that we talk sometimes and then sometimes we don’t so what that all about. But when I chat with him he responds to my question. And when I ask him if he still had any interest in me his respond was ” what is that suppose to mean?” I just want to know where are we at that’s all

I agree with so many comments here about Libra men, and I am a true Libra woman. There is a big difference from a mature and immature Libra and because of it u will definitely get the balanced or unbalanced Libra. Very difficult to understand why they do the things they do, and say the things they say but to sum it all up in one word….SELFISH! As so many people and the author of the article mentioned some have been raised to be the peacemakers and work hard to make others happy, this makes them feel good, boost their ego, and why it can be selfish. This was true for my ex-fiance but when I pointed how unfair he was being treated by allowing family to misuse him, overwork him, and overwork himself I was the one attacked, little did I know he built himself doing things for ppl to make them happy. My ex talked to 3 women including me before we made it official. During our dating and official relationship he slept with four women. After a broken engagement we hung on to each other but we kept arguing because he was an asshole. He started talking to other women so I just let him go. A week later he was sleeping with a woman who is 10 years older, 3 kids and had no intentions of being with each other they both just sleep around. He said what he could say to keep me on the side of possibly getting back together, he told me all these good positive things about being a good woman, but when I challenged him and told him about the wrong he was doing he shut down, shut me out, not without attacking me first! Then once he attack me he plays the victim, lol. He love the admiration, friendship, and smiles of the new woman and now after a couple of months they are the best of friends, and he is very cold towards me. He’s very superficial, surface, and when he loves u its about what he can get from you and how happy u make him feel. Its hard for them to really take responsibility on how the relationship is going. I battle with if I’m the “one” or was I he “temporary one.”. They are highly confused, our wedding was called off within two months of wedding. When my Libra ex feel attacked he’ll say anything to make me feel like shit just because he feels that way- they don’t take real responsibility. Me and my Libra did everything together and had so many good times the biggest thing was the arguments. I think many times Libra men can have faulty perception because they are driven by selfishness, being superficial and its hard for them to see when they were wrong. My ex is a spiritual man so he would always feel condemn for the cheating and being caught up in money. He battle between what’s right and his personal issues. My ex is highly emotional and ruined our relationship, he acknowledge some mistakes……BUT he really don’t take responsibility for all his immaturity.
As a result of the lies, manipulation, charm, and indecisiveness I lost everything being with him. While he was looking out for himself I was building a relationship-partnership, he was focused on protecting his money but in so many ways I truly understand him I guess because I’m a Libra and I truly love him.
From my experience: if u are a female Libra and u possess the qualities of femininity and masculinity it will sometimes conflict with overly emotional immature Libra men, so don’t be too vocal, opinionated, or domineering it can come off as being disrespectful even if ur not. When upset always try to find a peaceful way to talk about it. Find ways to express things more peacefully. If a man care about u especially a Libra man they don’t like when u seem to always complain because Libra men want to make EVERYONE happy! If the Libra man or woman say they need space please give it but know that its a possibility the promiscuous Libra in the relationship, who don’t like o be alone will be sleeping with someone during the space treatment. If u want to keep a Libra man give him ALL your attention, when u have your own thing going on still let him know HE is the most important but u have to enjoy other activities apart. No matter what you do or how good you are, or how good you at with what u do, if u have a lot going on in your life and can’t be there for every need they will start to wonder if ur the right one because they are SELFISH. Try to date a mature Libra man if possible. The immature ones to me is mostly looking for a “feel good” feeling and what u can bring to their lives, if they are very superficial they will only bring u surface love that is bought in stores. Also, know if u piss off a Libra or they want to be left alone they will turn cold, distant, and make u feel so alone. If u feel highly neglected constantly being with a Libra they either have a lot on the mind they can’t discuss with u because it involves u in a confused confrontational matter or they are hiding something. Believe this you have to be really committed and give your all to a Libra and it can be physically, emotionally, and mentally draining. If they’re immature and off balanced nothing u do is good enough. I know nothing I did or my ex did was good enough so we picked each other apart but deep down inside it was because the lies, manipulation, and selfishness from him and I continied to lie about being happy because I love him

As a Libra Male….let me share my positive and negative traits that come along with being a Libra male.

The positive: As hetrosexual males, we LOVE women!! As a male, finding that “soulmate” beats making money, having nice cars, big houses or a multitude of friends. When we’re in a committed relationship, we love to the nth degree. Our soulmate is our “Partner in Crime”. We are incredibly affectionate (foreplay is HUGE) , we rather give than receive. (Kissing toes is a must) haha. We like to offer advice or support when our loved one is in a rut or depressed. We’re “idea” people. We’re positive when in a healthy, caring, respectful relationship. We’ll respect you as a female/woman and give you the space you need to “grow” as a person. We’ll encourage it! You don’t need to be a Harvard grad or have a high IQ, but know what’s going on in the world we live in and how it can be better. Conversation (especially) outside of the bedroom is HUGE. It goes along with our curiosity about life, love, family et al.

The Negative: We’re egomaniacs because deep down, we’re insecure. Doesn’t matter if we’re good looking or can carry a conversation with anyone. If single, we have to keep score of our “stupid conquests” to fullfill the ego, but we know deep down, its all bullshit. We want a relatiopnship, but there are personal demons we need to excercise. We’re agrument at times just for the sake of being argumentative. Personally, I can attribute that to feelings of insecurity which can stem from not being fullfilled career-wise or just the feeling you haven’t found “the one” yet. We’re prone to “lip-service” just to pacify the masses or those close to you. We truly cannot make up our friggin minds. We need to weigh EVERYTHING out. Trust me…its a curse. haha.

So, overall, Libra males are not perfect though we strive to be and that’s where the problem lies. Once we realize we’re not perfect, Libran Males wont feel a need to lie, cheat, pacify, flirt outrageously or feel a need to be liked by everyone.

I, myself has been engaged 3 times!! And i sabatogued all three!! My last one though, broke my heart for the first time in my life. She was a beautiful Aquarian who I was perfect with. I screwed it up because I drove her away. It still hurts, but life goes on. Coincidentally, all my best relationships have been with Aquarius girls. Don’t try to “outwit” them intellectually. They know Libran males when they are sincere, and when they are full of shit. Haha.

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So Libra’s are really faithful even in a long distance relationship, and i got another question My libra man told me he love me, and he missed me so is that his true feelings, And that he is felt me alot and pray that we spend life together. So is there a marriage in there for the future. And i tell him that i love him alot is that to much? And he also stated that he wants to sleep with me when we first met, Is that good to do with Libra men or not. Advice pls

I’m a Virgo…The one Libra guy that I dealt with sucked big time…I had a crush on him since the first time I saw him which lasted for around 5 years… At one point he started to flirt with me and be all fake for his own amusement and pretty much used me to get what he wants because I was naive enough to believe he liked me (my fault I guess)…He kept ignoring me, dating girls, and then coming back and trying to get me to become his $ex slave, but at that point I had enough of the bull$hit… Honestly, the worst experience I ever had. Very disrespectful.

I’m not saying all of them are like that, because that’s ridiculous, but I’m definitely turned off of them because of my experience.

HI, i just feel sad after reading all this, im dating a libra guy, our 1aniversay is next week, but already we r arguing like kids, its a rough ride, it always ends on me being the trouble causer, where by i see it as him being the mess, he only calls wen he wants, he wud reply back, and at times completely ignore me for weeks, it drives me insane, im his first ever gal, so i dont know wots up with him, we do talk but neva the important issues, i guess cos we live far from each other that might be the cause,, so im getting a place to be closer to him, im just not strong enough to ignore him and break off, i love him with all my heart, i feel he is selfish in all ways but yet generous in many many ways, confusing but i guess will see how far we go… if we r still going to be 2gether on our anniversary, wot do libra guys like as surprises, presents and so on,,,, ur help shall be gratefully appreciated…x

Libra men are so manipulative (in their own not so obvious ways) that you find it almost impossible to not love them and hope they will change.I know how you feel honey-I’ve been through hell with my Libra ex-he contacted me only when it was convenient for him,and his behavior was very confusing.My advice is:Don’t ever show your insecurities and your vulnerabilities to them-they will take advantage of u and you will feel worse.Be strong,ignore him for a while(Like the previous post said),leave hints that you are dating other men and that will show him that you won’t put up with his shit.Give him a dose of his own bitter medicine.If he asks why,tell him that you are looking for something serious and stable and you are not sure if he is the right person for you.He will probably try to persuade you or back off.Either way things will get clearer and you can decide better if u want him or if its time to move on.I have learnt from my mistakes and applied these and he responded but I was soo tired of him that I decided I no longer need him anymore.Don’t be afraid…
Note:Don’t show him that you are angry or bitter and depressed-try to control all your negative emotions and don’t confront him.They respond only with ignorance,and if your reject them politely.Hope I helped you…

I’m feeling this post. An immature Libra man will test you to the max and you’ve got to bring your A-game. First… NEVER chase him. If he wants to break up with you, let him. Don’t argue with him or even respond. Simply disappear, and watch what happens. He’ll start wondering why you’re not making a fuss about it and what you’re up to.

After dating for 3 months, I noticed a subtle change in my Libra man a couple days before he sent me his “breakup text.” I’m a Gemini, an air sign like Libra, so I’m sensitive to his moods. When another element might not recognize the shift, another air sign will. He also started texting a lot, instead of calling like he used to.

Earlier this past week, he text me wanting to see me at the spur of the moment one night. I told him I couldn’t because I had to get up real early the next morning for work. I even called him after that to make sure he was okay with it. He acted like he was. He also professed his undying love for me, how he chose me and I was “The One” and how I was his property and no other man was allowed to touch me. He said he wanted to hang out with me instead of going out with his friends that night, but that he understood that I had to work the next morning. Out of curiosity, I asked him where they were going. He said if he told me I would get upset. I asked him it was a strip joint and he said yes. I didn’t make a fuss about it but told him that I would have a problem with it if it was something he did on a regular basis.

The next morning I awoke to a text message from him saying that he had been unfaithful the night before and realized that he needed to be single and wasn’t ready for a girlfriend. Then he sugar-coated it by telling me I was amazing. Mind you, he was the one that kept pushing for us to be gf/bf.

Naturally, I was in shock. How do you go from being so madly in love one minute, then cheating, admitting it and then disappearing? Btw, I dated another Libra man many years ago, who while professing his great love for me cheated on me and got the girl pregnant! No matter how hard you try, it’s like they cannot be satisfied. Who needs a partner that is so uncomfortable with himself that he cannot be left alone? No one can give you what you need ALL the time.

Back to the present, once the “news” settled in, anger and hurt surfaced and I felt like calling and cussing him out. But I kept my cool and have stayed away from him. The way I see it… You want to go out and cheat because you didn’t get your way, fine, but I won’t put up with it. You want to be single, fine, too.

The thing about it though, is that the minute you give a Libra man what he supposedly wants, he no longer wants it. So ninety-nine percent of the time when you leave them alone whether you broke up with them or vice versa — if you just magically vanish without saying a word — at some point, they come running back; trust me on this. And this is when your willpower will be tested to the max. It’s a battle of wills; and although a Libra can be very strong-willed in pursuing what they want, one of their biggest weaknesses is that they can’t stand being ignored. So if you stick it out, you will win. It takes an abundance of self-respect and balls of steel to deal with Libra men.

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Agree!!! I am a Gem girl to and i ignored my Libra man for one night, and he gonna ask me Why u didn’t talk to me?, I told him why but he was ok after i told him, But what i don’t understand is that he do the same to me, when he be on chat sometimes, he don’t even speak to me and i knw he see me online.

Lol I’m glad I’m not the only one.I have dated 2-3 libras in the past and they were all very charming,smooth talkers and intellectual at first but they but got hot and cold and gave me lame excuses to avoid confrontation.It was sooo obvious they were flirting with other women also and enjoying itThey simply can’t resist it.I had my heart broken recently with a 23 year old libra.We had a true connection the first months but soon he dissapeared and reappeared for no reason.He would text me for a week and then dissapear for days.The situation got worse after I went to his place and got physical with him.After months of this going on I discovered he had a relationship with another woman older than him.(That explains all the hot and cold behavior and LIES)
I guess they are only interested in having fun and playing around.They know how to talk right to escape a situation-they are masters at it.
To any cancer,pisces,aries and virgo ladies outthere:BEWARE-you might get hurt or extremely confused and frustrated with these type of men.They are indecisive,can commit easily and get bored as soon as they get the prize.Do not waste your time and feelings on them..

I fell hard right into the arms of the Libra Man charms…although I gave him a run for his money, about 6 months or so. Anywho, I fell in love with his mind, and being the romanticist I am, fell in love with his romantic nature. I was initially leery to even get involved with him, as I noticed he had a lot of admirers, but so do I! And that’s the way I approach our relationship, when his eyes start to wonder, so do mine! Although I do feel the sting, guess it’s due to that Pisces jealousy lurking underneath… But he is very gorgeous, we can spend hours just looking at each other, drinking wine in the park, fishing on the boat, playing footsies, practicing some SnM—no matter what the environment, we always have a blast laughing and just enjoying one anothers’ company.

The only problem we have is that I am in a relationship and so is he–however he wants me to leave but I cannot because he has not made me feel secure financially.
Unlike the typical description of Pisces, I am very much aware of my environment, my money, my finances. I am used to having control in a relationship, and if that ground of security is not there, or I cannot see it for some reason due to someone (in this case libra) withholding that info, I become TERRIFIED and run, or swim away in my case. After I told him let’s just call it quits before it gets too deep, he started calling more and more and wanted to spend more time together. He is so persistent with his pursuing and seems rather genuine in it. Long story short, I told him to show me how serious he is, make the right the moves and decisions for me to want to leave the good I have at home. He seems to be on that path, however at times somewhat wishy washy in his plans.

All in all, I think the key with these men is that:

1) Stay at all times on your game–make sure that you are looking the par, as they notice EVERYTHING

2) Don’t make it seem as though you need him (although you may very well)

3) Don’t get worked up when he’s looking at other women, join in on the fun and trust me that will come to a halt!

4) Stand up for yourself, if you want him to make a commitment in a relationship, don’t allow him to wiggle out of it, because he will if you allow him to. Remember, you have the Vitamin P, therefore you have the control 😉

5) Have fun–don’t sweat the small stuff, life is too short, and you’ll never find a perfect man…

Must agree on point 3, so true lol. My Libra guy friend would always tell me about the girls he liked or comment on any good looking woman. I played along everytime even though I really didn’t want to hear it. Just recently realised that I actually haven’t heard about any crushes lately….. It has definately come to a halt, and I am not even the “perfect partner”….

Come out of your fantasies otherwise you will be left brutally hurt. I’m a libra guy and can understand your boyfriend’s state of mind.
You will have to be not only as stunning but also quite intellectual to keep a libra man engaged and committed to you. We are genuinely not ‘players’ and don’t intend to hurt the women we are dealing with. Its the constant search of the perfect one which results in such floating relationships. Kindly think twice before you are left heartbroken.

I’m currently in a relationship with a Libra man. we met online last may and we started our romantic relationship mid july. he was thoughtful, understanding and very romantic. he calls me everyday, finds time to text me and sometimes videocalls. on our 3rd month i found out that he is in a relationship with another woman and have been together for 2 years. the woman sent me a message and pleaded me to leave. she also told me that he is a player and m not the only woman he had relations with. i felt so bad and i ended my relationship with him. but then after 2 weeks of grieving, he texted and won me back. 🙂 I love him so much and so i settled being just the other woman.

i really want to make him fall for me and choose me. but i do have several obstacles: 1. we are 500 miles apart and we’ve just met twice. 2. we seldom communicate since his girlfriend took all his communication devices. 3. his family knows that m the other woman and the girlfriend is already known to his family and friends.

in my mind, he will never look for other women if he’s just satisfied with his current girlfriend. so i am trying to figure out how to win his heart.

i know this is a tough fight! I want him, that’s all. she may be the first… i should be the last! 🙂

That’s terrible, why do you want a man that’s already with someone else ? He’s a libra, you don’t know him well, you don’t know if he’s a good provider, you don’t know if you can rely on him. Look at what he’s doing to his girlfriend, don’t you realize he’ll do the same thing with you !
Don’t people believe in karma, would you want someone to pursue your man ? Are people more concerned with there own selfish desires ?

Being A libra man, I just gotta say one thing, Not all Libra’s choose to be players as such…

True Libran Guy I pretty much agree with his Post.

I can only speak for my self, and my experiences with the women I dated.

Alot Ex girlfriends or past flings have a tendency to want to try again.

We can be totally dedicated to our partner, but if not matched in the same dedication.

We might tend to drift off.. hence: the player element.

Being a Libra enables you to pretty much charm the pants of most women, sometimes completely unintended.

We love harmony and deep down we just want everyone to feel good about being with us or being in our company.

My personal advice to anyone seeking a long term relationship with a Libra man, you should expose your feelings completely, if he’s a decent guy he will deffinately respect your feelings and share his in return, if you are always completely upright and aware of you Libra Man’s mood and feelings, he will love you and treat you like a queen, we crave equality and are excellent at spoiling our partners with gifts and so on, if it is not returned, there is no balance and we move on to the next “perfect” partner.

if you are not good at challenging the mind of a Libra, we do get bored and start looking for other challenges.

How can i tell if my libra man is truly into me? Should i just take his word for it or should i see when we met in person. I just been chatting with him on the internet for months now, and i have his picture, He just recently told me that he love me and he always told me he missed me. I love him, but i don’t want to end up hurt again. I feel that we are a match made in heaven, we have alot of chemistry, and he a can’t wait to see me, He even let me handle his business affairs. So any advice pls.

I recently had one night with a Libra man and was hooked (amazing conversation & amazing lover), but could quickly see all these signs in just a few days after that scared the hell out of me –and realized this is a guy that will break my heart if I let him….so I stopped communication and had to move on because I know if I continued I would get hooked! I was curious & interested to learn more about the Libra man (as I never dated one) and this was just awesome – exactly as I suspected – thank you to two of you – the libra guy who just put it out there and the libra girl (who dates girls) – your info was so helpful – and appreciated!!!

@ Libra Girl… thank you so much for all that insight! I’m a gemini woman and I have been dating a Libra man for a little over a month. After reading what you had to say, I do have a question… is it possible to be somewhere between “Temporary Lover” and “The One”? I feel I may be in that gray area with my man. We talk everyday on the phone either through text or calling, yet I’m the one doing all the calling first but if he misses my call he’ll call back pretty much right away or if I text for him to call me, he’ll call right away BUT when he texts me it’s always late at night and he doesn’t call me or ask for me to call him often like he did the first couple of weeks we started dating. We visit each other’s homes or go out on dates at least once a week, and he’s ALWAYS VERY AFFECTIONATE… but his affection is different from guys I’ve dated that have been affectionate. His affection feels more like the kind of affection I’d receive from a man that loves me or has strong feelings for me. He’d give me this affection in private or in public in abundance. He does a lot of things for me that I know for a fact he doesn’t do for just anybody such as offering to go shoe shopping with me, offering to take me to and pick me up from the airport when I went to NY for a modeling gig, agreeing to model with me for a couples’ photography advertisement (he’s really self conscious about his smile and generally uncomfortable in front of a camera), walking me to my car when I leave his house or walking me to my door or if I’m driving home he’d ask me to text him when I get home safely (although he’s a gentleman in many ways he says he’s never done those things for someone before)… I know at least a few of his friends know about me because he told me that he and his buddy had a conversation about how he hasn’t had a cigarette in days, his buddy says, “Ah, it’s because of a girl, huh?” Another example of that is the morning after I stayed over his place, his phone rang (which he left ringing because he wanted to cuddle with me in bed longer, so sweet!) and when he called his golf buddy back I overheard him say, “Sorry I missed your call man, I had company… yeah (in a bashful voice and a smile on his face)”. When we were at the beach his friend called and while my man was still walking next to me I heard him say, “Yeah I’m at the beach… we got lost trying find the jet ski rentals, it’s all her fault… (looks over and smiles mischievously at me) right Shauna?” I was a little embarrassed by that and he seemed to sense it so he didn’t carry on teasing me like he usually does. If he’s cool with letting his friends know he’s with me all the time why does his facebook still says he is single (I haven’t changed mine yet for that reason)? He often enough tells me about his family and talks about how great I’d get along with his sister, yet Thanksgiving and Christmas is coming up soon and there has been no talk of going up to meet them. He talks about his friends and mentioned in passing that we should go eat at his buddy’s restaurant some time, yet I haven’t met any one of his friends yet. He says that he hates labels (and I like them for clarity), that he’s much rather have a relationship form naturally. He asked me how my relationships started. I told him that usually a man would ask me to be exclusive or introduce me to friends and family as his girlfriend, etc. I gave him the same question. He said, “After a month or two, it’s always just been understood that we were in a relationship. There was never any long discussion about what exactly we were.” I think that lack of having an official stamp on our relationship is driving me crazy and making me question what exactly he feels for me or where he sees this going. My guy is well aware that I have a lot of suitors that I have to bash away with a bat… he doesn’t let on that it bothers him, but I’d imagine it does… I really want to make him feel secure in my feelings for him, but it’s only been a month and I don’t want to put myself SO much out there when I don’t know 100% what he feels for me. I don’t want to ask him the “how do you feel about me” question because last week we already had a similar discussion. I said, “I’m sorry to bring this up so soon, but I need to ask you where is this going?… I had an offer to go on a date and I didn’t know how to answer him because I didn’t know what direction this was going” He seemed a little irritated, but very calm at the same time when he said, “Well do you want to go?” I said “He’s an attractive guy, but I’m not attracted to him in that way. He’s a friend.” He said, “Then why would you even have to think about it if you aren’t attracted to him? Obviously you want to go” I said, “I want to go for the experience of an activity I’ve never done before (partying at a fancy mansion) not because I want to date him” He said, “You don’t need my permission, you can hang out with whoever I want” I said, “I know very well that I have the right to hang out with whoever I want. I’m not asking for your permission, but there is a difference between going out with a guy friend versus a guy who made it very clear to me that he wants it to be a date so I figure it was only right to bring it up to you” He said, “Yeah I get it. That’s good. Of course, I don’t like the idea of you going on a date with another guy, but I mean, I don’t know, it’s your decision. If you want to go I won’t stop you. I trust you (he sensed that I was in deep thought trying to figure out what he meant by that… he already has me figured out pretty well)… I trust you in the sense that you said you’re not attracted to this guy and you just want to go have fun, not for anything else.” So I decided that I’d go, and we went about our happy interactions. I’ve shown a ton of enthusiasm for him, taking the initiative in most aspects of the relationship. I read mixed things about this. Some articles say Libra men love to chase/pursue, others say Libra men prefers a woman to initiate and make most of the decisions (more my style). I have so much love to give, and although I am showing him plenty of it without actually telling him (I don’t like to tell a man I love him until he tells me first), I’m so afraid of being taken for a fool and feeling more for him than he does for me. I keep reminding myself that “it’s only been a month, silly girl! Give it time to develop like he said he wants. Introducing you to his friends, changing his facebook status, telling you how he feels that’ll all come from him eventually, just let him breathe” But I’m such an impatient little Gemini lol wonder if I can control myself from self sabotaging any potential we’d have.

(this post is SO going to end up being longer than I thought it’d be lol sorry for the novel… and thanks for reading! <3)

thanks for your thoughts but she recently called me on her birthday 29 sep an told me that shes moving on that really sucks i had faith it would work now im out in this strange city no way out cuz i sold everything to be here with her and this happens and women here are kind of stuck up and most well all have rings on there fingers wow could they all be really taken anyways thanks for answering back.

iam a libra who is madly inlove with a libra female who i was engaged to for 2 month after we dated for almost 2 years everything was perfect until she started talkin to her female cuzin that told her she should live her life and that quik she ended our relationship i call her everyday an ask her not to do this she tells me shes still inlove wit me and that she loves me misses me but doesnt want me im very confused im trying every thing to get her back even told her to atleast give it a year an see where we stand but no she dont want to i moved from connecticut to arizona where i never been i did everything for this women she keeps saying i love u at the end of our daily coversations but i just dont get it what should i do im starting to fall apart dont want no one else just her i have been a good man to her never did wrong in any kind of way just wanted to always keep her happy give all i can im still asking her not to do this trying to keep my faith that she would open her eyes an see what shes doing dont know wat else to do

iam a libra who is madly inlove with a libra female who i was engaged to for 2 month after we dated for almost 2 years everything was perfect until she started talkin to her female cuzin that told her she should live her life and that quik she ended our relationship i call her everyday an ask her not to do this she tells me shes still inlove wit me and that she loves me misses me but doesnt want me im very confused im trying every thing to get her back even told her to atleast give it a year an see where we stand but no she dont want to i moved from connecticut to arizona where i never been i did everything for this women she keeps saying i love u at the end of our daily coversations but i just dont get it what should i do im starting to fall apart dont want no one else just her

I’m a taurus girl, dating a libra man for 5 months now. He treats me perfect, calls everyday, we see each other like every other day and all weekends. He does not flirt with other girls, doesnt even look at them. He cut loose all the girls he was talking the first day we met. He says i’m the one and he wants to spend the rest of his life with me. He tells me he’s never been a playa all his life but he doesnt take bs, he will leave u if u give him bs

I fell inlove with a libra he was older than me. I think he liked me (well atleast thats what he said) but I also saw how he flirted with all of these other girls it was quite annoying. Its like Libra men dont know what the hell they want theyre indecisive players and they dont know how to open up to you. Its like theyre afraid to open up even though i told him how i felt and put myself out there he never did the same. I wanted to leave him alone but i couldnt he was just so gorgeous and i could never stay mad at him, i hated that but he really broke my heart and its going to be hard for me to ever open myself up to someone anymore because he played me and i loved him with all my heart and that shit hurts.

Alright, coming from a Libra woman who dates other women, I can give you a little insight because I can personally relate to a lot of this.

Even though I date women. I am a very attractive feminine woman, but have a fair balance between femininity and masculinity which is not hard to find in any gay or straight Libra. But I really am as libra as it gets. The smile, the dimples, perfect teeth (without ever needing braces), fit, well put together… I am your libra at best.

But besides the wonderful physical attributes I also know personally and many will tell about me that I have a way with words. In any situation, I can get my way or get myself out of any trouble… as long as I find it worth it and self satisfying.

A big problem that us Librans have is deciding what is really “worth it” to us. When we first meet someone our initial instinct is typically to appeal that person, whether we want to pursue them or not. If we find them appealing, we are going to make sure they know it. We want them to feel special and different from the other potential mates. But in reality, we’d do it for most anyone we had any interest in at all.

Now here’s the important part to know, this defines everything. There’s three categories: The Fling, The Temporary Lover, and The One.

The Fling: The Fling is the group of individuals we Libran’s spend the most time with. While our final goal is to achieve true love, in the mean time… well, we become a little impatient. As correctly mentioned in the article, we HATE being alone. Any taste or touch will suffice… for a while. The fling is the one we will meet at a social gathering of some sort, talk culture or like hobbies, get tipsy, make out with, (this is just a scenario, feel free to fabricate whatever ideal things/events that you want.) But while we will show them our undying attention while they are around, by the time morning rolls around it is time to bounce… unless you’re lucky enough to get early morning charm… but that’s if you’re a high class fling (subcategory). You’re the one who will get the least texts/calls/e-mails from us. Because to be put honestly, we want you when we need you. It’s the awful truth that even sometimes we don’t realize at the time. We forget about you in the mix of our lives, other flings, social events, etc. etc. And when you text first we will respond for a while. Then after so long we just fade out. If you continuously keep texting a Libra, you can probably expect their friends to nick name you “the new crazy one,” or something very similar. Cause you will not be the first, and you will not be the last. And one thing about a Libra, others DO side with them. And you WILL be the crazy one, not the Libra. There’s NO winning that one. The best thing you can do is make them as much of a fling as you are to them. Chances are if they see you as a fling, they will always see you as a fling. But don’t let them fool you into falling in their lonely games. While they strive for companionship, if their more important relationship falls through, they WILL be calling/texting. Just be careful because you’ll be easily replaced to a Libra. It’s nothing personal, as we are sensitive to others and care about your well being, we can’t settle. And we’re not easily impressed.

The Temporary Lover: Libra’s are very companion oriented. They must have a fulfilling love life, while at the same time they cannot feel suffocated. This is the difficulty with and the defining line of The Temporary Lover. The Temporary Lover is relationship material and can spend weeks, months, even years commited to a Libran, and that’s vice versa. But the settling problem always arises at some point or another. If they “love” you but don’t really “LOVE” you, there’s no point in even trying to figure it out cause you won’t know it… They will say what they have to, do what they have to, to make sure that you’re satisfied. Cause if you’re not satisfied then there isn’t balance. Nothing makes a Libra more uncomfortable. They have to feel that you are happy, even if they are not. They can afford settling… for a while anyways. This is when it can become unfair to the other partner because while Libra is fooling the other partner into believing they are happy, they are not. And when a Libra isn’t happy, it’s only a matter of time before they become restless, bored, and irritated. The irritation is what forms these said mood swings. The restlessness can become so bad that we avoid being around you, avoid answering your calls/texts/e-mails, etc. The boredom can become so bad that we can fall into promiscuity. And if not cheating physically then it could be emotionally. Not to say all Libra’s follow through with this gut instinct but we are pretty well known for looking elsewhere to get whatever we feel we are missing at home. It’s another balance issue. And lastly, the irritation can become so bad that we can become disgusted by you. We will unintentionally pick and point out every flaw you own, and will hate it. We are likely to ignore you as much as possible. We’re likely to not want to touch you or be touched. Saying anything sweet to you will taste like vinegar coming from our mouths. The even more unfair part is once either you get tired and leave, or we get bored and leave, it won’t take long before either the Libra or the partner will return. For we are repeat temporary love/fling offenders. You will return to a Libra because you will form a bond with a Libra like no one you will ever meet/date. Even if they cannot exceed the person you will later fall in love with, you will never forget this person. They are known for leaving the lasting impression on most anyone, whether meeting them for 5 minutes or knowing them for years, you’re not forgetting this one. I promise you that. Their first instinct out of a temporary lover relationship is to find a social event and find a fling to charm. While they will have no problem keeping themselves occupied by the swarms of people who had been pawning at them for months, if they feel like you are taking the break up well… they are likely to come running back. This is not a jealousy issue, this is a self conscious issue. And while most Libra’s fight for attention because they are raised in situations where they’ve always had to, when they see that they’re not your number one priority, they feel as though they have been decieved. When in reality, it was probably the other way around. They’ll feel betrayed but make sure you watch yourself because they are clever and tricky enough to make you believe it. The best way to deal with a Libra in a Temporary Lover scenario is to treat them the same. This is with any relationship involving a Libra, give them balance. Treat them as they treat you. Do not let yourself get too involved unless you are sure they are yours for good. And while this can be the hardest to figure out I have prepared this for you…

The One: The one is what it means, there is ONE. Every Libra has theirs. Other signs may as well, I study astrology but that is one thing I am unsure of. All I know is that the majority of Libra’s will have that one person that you’ll hear all about if you get them drunk enough. This person is the one that they meet that is like no one they’ve met before. From the very first second, it is different. They will actually charm this person very differently, it’s unintentionally. Don’t misunderstand me, they will make this person feel great, but the difference is, they’ll mean every word… even the next morning, and the morning after that, and the week/month/year after that. They will be completely commited, even when things are boring, there is always something occupying them, whether it’s hugging, cuddling, kissing, sex, picking out furniture, playing house, moving in, or even just thinking about the one… a Libra when in love, is the most romantic, true, loyal, love of all. They’ll want to talk to them, in fact they won’t be able to get enough of them. They will form a bond with that one like neither of them has ever had. Libra will love to buy their One things and spoil the hell out of them. They’re one for surprising too. They will do or say anything to make One crack a smile. While this is all well and good, the Libra can be easily worried by this vulnerability. If they feel like they are not getting enough attention they can be easily saddened. This isn’t necessarily a selfish issue, it’s more of a underlying belief that One doesn’t love them as much as Libra does. Even though this is often not the case, this feeling of unbalance is not okay with Libra. Libra’s can be very jealous signs but they are not typically controlling. They would rather see you choose them than have to beg, plus their pride gets in the way of their begging… that is unless they REALLY have to… but most will feel unwanted and leave long before that ever happens. Keep in mind if you’re a One then you really are fortunate, for they will make sure you are secure, protected, happy, satisfied physically and emotionally, mentally stimulated, balanced, free, social, and always feeling young. And while it’s not rare for a Libra to share feelings, it is very rare for a Libra to share their TRUE feelings. So take that to heart. If you’re a One you will know because you will be their priority, not their option. The best advice with this is take things slow, give them something to chase, while also showing them attention and showing them off. After all, nothing flatters a Libra more than feeling wanted and perfect.

That’s what I feel you need to know about Libra’s. A lot of this is based of personal situations, but also I’ve spoke to many Libra’s and those who have dated Libra’s and this is what I’ve came up with. Hope it helps someone out…

Very informative. After reading this, I would have to say I’m the one for my libra ex because he used to share his darkest secrets with me. Not to mention, he was incredibly possessive and controlling with me. What good was all that when he cheated on me. Our relationship was intense even though it lasted 5 months. His insecurity pissed me off so much so we finally ended it after 5 months, even though we were still behaving like lover up until 9 months. Then, I finally stopped speaking to him, but he stayed on my mind. You are right, libra’s leave an impression on your life. I don’t know if it’s because he was my frist bf ever or if he’s a libra, but either way I will never forget him. I stopped talking to him after 9 months of intimate interaction, only to find out a year later that he cheated on me!! He got with the other girl in the last month I was his gf. And even while he was tagging me along by telling me he’s single and coming to see me, he was seeing the other girl. In fact the other girl was his gf now, and I was the other girl even though I wasn’t aware of it. I confronted him and he felt really stupid. Admitted through a text msg and disappeared, and I told him that I will never speak to him again, considering I’m an aqua. Nobody turns vicious and cold like an aquarius. He knew my wrath and that is why he admitted through txt msg.

So, knowing that I am this particular Libra’s “ONE”, would he ever try to contact me and explain to me why he did what he did and how awful he feels about it. You see I have a clairsentient sixth sense and I can pick up on people’s feelings. I feel his emotions, and I feel how awful he feels bout having to lie and cheat on me. He always wanted to keep me in his life and that is why he kept his gf a secret from me and kept me thinking he’s single. He wanted me to stay in his life so bad as anything.

So knowing all this, do you think as a Libra, he will ever contact me and explain his behaviour? Does the Libra miss his “ONE” if he wrongs her and she finds out and leaves him once and for all?

Libra Girl
Well i have been chatting with my libra man for a while, in another week we will be meeting face to face i met him online. And he told me that he pray that we spend life together and he felt me alot. I love him alot, so how do i know if he’s being truthful with me or not. I love him so much and i tell him that alot and miss him as well So any advice pls

Libra Girl- Thanks for the information! Very, very insightful. I’m assuming I was a “fling” although my ex-Libra came on super strong and professed his love for me. He cast me aside like a broken toy, without blinking an eye. I’m still sitting here perplexed wondering what the hell did I do? But, I understand that I did NOTHING. It was his Jekyll/Hyde personality. I am hoping that this one doesnt try to come back later, but if he does, he will get ZERO response from me. I’m a stubborn Taurus after all!

I’m a gem girl and my boyfriend is a libra , born october 6 , very very loving to me,noticed a change lalety though,he’s always affectionate of course but now suddenly he is “even moooorre” afectionate and romantic than before,very very sweet to me,he touches me more often,he treats me better,i don’t know maybe he is in love with me and i love to think so,why not? i love him very much myself , he is my partnet in crime,knowing that as a gemini i’m kind of hard to pin down i’m seriously in love with my libra man,so much i can describe it,we get along,we have lots of fun,we don’t really see each other every day in fact we give each other space and time,i think it is healthy for us air signs hehe

Excellent! If I could write like this I would be well chuffed. The more I see articles of such quality as this (which is rare), the more I think there could be a future for the Net. Keep it up, as it were.

Hi – It’s great to read such topical writing on the Web as I have been able to fiind here. I agree with much of what is written here and I’ll be coming back to this site again. Thanks again for posting such great reading material!!

i am a libra woman, who has just ended a 6 month relationship with another libra man.

when we first met it was electric instantly – and we got on great.

after the first few dates, and when we made it “Offical” i started to misunderstand him and vice versa, ive never been so attracted to anyone – or so annoyed by anyone in my life!!

definitely fell for him quickly – but he was very busy with work etc and we didnt see each other a lot which made it a bit harder and eventually it led to both of us questioning trust and loyalty and in the end he stopped making the effort and was very moody (for no reason!)

i ended it, before i got really hurt as i wasnt entirely happy with the way it was going if i was honest, and was hanging onto it because i hoped things would change. :S

Well I have been seeing a Libran guy for about 5 months now and I have to say that I agree with absolutely everything that the True Libran guy says on here and would like to thank him for putting some things into perspective!….

I am slowly but surely realising a lot about my partner.
We are in a long distance relationship so it’s not so easy-as we dont get to see each other too often and there have been times when I have sometimes taken his certain behaviour/mannerisms to heart in the beginning but now I have come to realise that this is just part of him and not to take offense as thats not the way that it is meant. We are still getting to know eachother and I am still learning a lot about him but …he is honest as they come and expects total honest feedback in return.
The key for any relationship to work is communication.
He loves deep chats and needs to be stimulated, intellectually (and its a whole lot more than ‘sexually’…i.e the ‘meeting of minds’)
He likes balance in his life, and ‘me time’ to do his own thing.
(Dont go too quiet and let him do all the talking or a Libran man will tend to get frustrated if he does not get any comeback!)
He has so many more women friends than men friends but I am now totally comfortable with that fact and trust him completely and that is down to the fact that we are able to talk about things well before anything is likely to become an issue (which is even more important as we are far from eachother)
We dont speak every day and sometimes not even every other, and again, at first I wasnt sure how to take this, wondering how he really felt about me?…but the more I get to know him and his ways, the more I understand him. He has a job which takes him all over the country and works very long hours so I appreciate the fact that he may not want to talk every day! Its all about having balance in life, understanding and not taking too much to heart..
By his own admission, he is not the most patient person and says that my extreme patience is one of the ways that opposites can work so well together!
I believe that any starsign can be a player and likewise any starsign can be 100% totally committed. You just have to take time to get to know the person underneath and it goes way beyond scratching the surface, and will take time but if the relationship has any hope of lasting…take time to get to know the real person and work with it…it’s worth it and you may just find that you find out a lot about yourself (and the way in which you percieve things) along the way…I know I have -and still am doing!!

hey jane, you say your man works long hours and travels alot , you are having a long distance relationship? are you still with this guy ? and he sounds like someone i know who is a libra, and started a relationship around this time , and my sister started seriously dating this guy who is from the mediterrean and he works long hours!!!he has the same distription as your boyfriend, everything is the same!!!it sounds like the same person you are dating!!! you said you have been seeing him but not often!!!!i would love to know if this guy is a computer engineer and travels to turkey and other countries!!!and his age please. i will be so greatful as my sister is so much in love with guy!! they are doing the long distance too!!!

I was with a libra man for 5 looooong haaaard years, ( i am a taurus) and EVERYTHING that has been commented on here is right to a T…….. i caught him cheating on me since the moment we decided to become a “couple” … everytime it was the same story, even when i had the proof right in front of his eyes, he just couldnt bear to be responsible for his actions. He would use everything and anything he had against me, and somehow make me feel sorry for him or partly to blame! If I didnt agree he would in a sense attack me and make me feel bad and like a horrible person, even using, as someone commented on hear as well, words to hurt me about my family and my own worth….I ask myself Why in the world did I stick around for sooo long?? The answer: Libra men have a sneaky way of using words and promises to make you forgive them and believe them. My libra man did not, and i dont think will,ever change. I know he cared about me, but he also loved and almost seemed to crave the attention of other women, and he never ever wanted to be alone. If it wasnt me around he would move right on to the next, immediately. Or if I couldnt be there for some reason, he seemed so needy like he had to have someone, anyone around…. I could never understand how he could love me and do that?? I never will understand…..and i dont think i should have to understand and waste any more of my time and patience trying to analyze why he is the way he is…. maybe it is because he is a Libra man??? it has to be because everyone else seems to have had the same experiences with these guys…. we still talk, but are no longer living together as we were. It has been 3 months since we last split and already he is texting numerous women and using words such as ” sweet cheeks” “baby” “babydoll” etc….. it seems maybe he was talking to these other women even when we were still together, sometimes having the nerve to do it in front of me then lie about who it is he is texting….. i know the truth though. It might take some time, but after reading all the comments and realizing he may NEVER be able to change , i am trying my hardest to move on , i will still be his friend and maybe even help him out if he really needs it, because he always calls, even when he says he doesnt want me anymore, he will call and beg me for another chance and tell me he wants me and only me, then go right back to his ways, but i have to be in control and let him go…. what a relief to know i am not the only one who has realized this type of man….

well i have been with a libra 4 three yrs now im an aquarius frm the start he lied 2 me he told me he was single i found out 7 months into r relationshp he was cheating on me well nt me but on the grl he had been with bfor me they was 2gether 4 2 yrs. after i found out boout her i had hm make a choice between her n me n he pikd me thats wut he said but he was still with her cus she gt my numbr n told me everytime they was 2gether then he finally left her go, long story short in those 3 yrs he cheated on me 5 times n i stuk bu hm n nw 2 this day he has changed cus i did leave him 4 a month he realized hw much he needed me n wantd 2 change so he wudnt lose me but 2 this day i dnt trust hm n always on my toes. oh n yes they luv wen they r challeneged by the opposite sex but very jealous b controling n alot of time will lie in ur face wen u even have the proof of wut they did wrong. my libra everytime i try n leave hm crys n begs me nt 2 leave hes very clingy n needy never likes 2 share my attention in alot of ways he is very unfair n selfish n will do wut he has 2 to gt wut he wants. hope my story helps give insight on a libra male n the ride ur in 4

I hate to be rude, but you are a fool for dating a cheater! I hate it when girls stay with players, because you might as well tell your man that you accept polygamy. Atleast it won’t be so horrible or embarassing KNOWING your man has another woman.

Just remember that if you date a man that cheats on his gf, then YOU are dating a man that cheats on his girlfriend. My bastard libra ex did the same to me, except I was his gf, and the other girl didn’t know. Even after I got the courage and brains to find out he was cheating on me, I left him and she kept him.

I just got dumped four days ago by a libra man who was living with another woman the entire time he was seeing me and claimed he was honest with me the whole time and I was a dumb ass if I couldn’t see it. I told him he had to make a choice; he can’t live with someone and see someone else. He said I was being selfish and immature. Later that night he emailed saying he loved me and always would but couldn’t be in a relationship with me. Go figure. Bottom line; they want to have the cake and eat it to because they think they are entitled to anything they want. As long as you are appropriately self-abusing and make them feel they are the king of the universe and you’re their slave, everything is wonderful. The second you cross them on ANYTHING (even cheating) he will attack you, your character, your family, your morals, and anything else he can until he gets his way. Vain, selfish, and arrogant, there is NO reasoning with them. They can’t see truth because they think they are always right. Anything that has been done to them will ALWAYS be someone else s’ fault. If you’re in a relationship with them, that someone will be you. The sex is wonderful. They are smooth talkers. The little romance sessions will be something out of a dream. But sadly you will realize that that’s all it was; a dream. If you value your life (especially if you are a Pisces, such as my self) you will STAY AWAY. The emotional trauma is severe. The only one who can stand a libra for any extended period of time is another libra. Stick to your own kind and leave the rest of us be.

sorry for you bad experience with that guy but every person that is a Libra is not the same as the Libra next to him or her. Libra only helps describe a little bit about the person. I am not defending him I’m just saying because I’m a Libra guy and I never have and plan to nerve cheat on a girl ever.

Thank you. You’re right. My dad is a Libra and I’ve seldom seen a better man. He also has been loyal to my mom for twenty-two years. It’s just I really trusted this man, which was agonizing for me to do (being a VERY sensitive Pisces) and he took a lot of pains to draw me out. I just don’t understand why he took the trouble; I made it hard for him to get into my heart. He hurt me. But I truly wish him no ill. Because I love him. I just wish he could see himself and change before he destroys the rest of his relationships. I fear for his future if he continues like this…

After reading your story Grey Haven and being a Pisces myself, I know EXACTLY what you have experienced!!! I was also dumped by my ex libra boyfriend while being pregnant with his child. The EMOTIONAL TRAUMA was so intense, that I came really close to committing suicide! It took me a whole year and more, to get over it all!!! And to make matters worst, he introduced me to the person he was cheating on me with by telling her ” Meet my pregnant girlfriend,”!! They are NOT to be TRUSTED at NO given time!!!! I have only two words to describe them by and that is VERY UNDERNEATH!! Ladies BEWARE!!!!

AJ – Well, I’m a Libran and had loved this Pisces girl who dumped me for another man during the time that I was pretty low on luck and finance. There was deep love and my intentions were clear to marry her and had taken her home too to meet my family, she did all that and walked out saying she was waiting for her boyfriend to agree on the marriage which finally did. The question here is why did she waste my time and break my heart for 2 years. Piscians are know to wriggle out of situations to their advantage always unlike the Libran man who love is always in abundance…never flinching support which every woman will die for…there a few exceptions as seen in flirting Librans…but overall they are the most stable of all. trust me

Interesting theories/thoughts…..As a true Libran guy, maybe I can give you a bit of insight as to why we tick like we do (from my own viewpoint/experiences)….

Lovers of beauty we are – in everything…but not just looks…a beautiful mind is what we tend to crave the most. We are sensual creatures NOT sexual and a meeting of the minds is the utmost sensuality. If we can’t talk deeply to our partners or be on the same wavelength intellectually, we get BORED

That’s the reason why Librans make excellent lovers – we aren’t porno stars as such, we just let our unbridled emotions come through in our touch…sex is much more than a mechanical act to us. The problem is that a lot of women are so enthralled with the moment and what we are doing to them, they tend to forget how to function their body parts. To us this looks like them just lying there – therefore we get BORED.

Flirting is like an Olympic Sport to us…every woman we meet we tend to flirt with sometimes without even realising we’re doing it…we love the thrill of the chase and will use every piece of charm we have in our arsenal to get the prize…once the chase is over (or more to the point, the FEELING that you get out of the chase), we get BORED.

We can be pretty aloof – comes with being an Air sign I’m afraid…that’s why we don’t call for days….that’s why we get into the ‘mood swings’ (they aren’t actual mood swings we just like to be by ourselves in peace and quiet sometimes – when you interupt that, we get moody).

We can be cheaters most definitely – as can anyone….we just have less patience with boredom arising out of the above and will cut our emotional attachment loose quite easily – you have to keep us on our toes.

It’s quite funny though because on the whole, we are pretty addictive (not my words) – we have a special twinkle in our eye, a cheeky smile and quite often a masterly skills of the seduction game – because deep down you know that we can give you the roller coaster ride of your life that no other signs come close to giving and even throughout all of the heartbreak and the ups and downs, most of you will grudgingly agree it was totally worth it 😉

This guy friend of mine that Ive known forever, is also a Libra. He is just like all the rest posted on here. I had the hardest time figuring him out, and I think I finally did once after asking him if he had someone at work he said work? No. But have two women at the Post Office.
I thought oh my gosh!! Two women, get aload of that.
He said to me have u found anyone yet? I’m thinking do what? Dumb me Im always honest I said no, I said matter of fact I like u. He started stuttering around and said oh thats not possible, Im looking for this and that.
But yet he wanted to be FWB, he didnt call it that but said we both would benefit.
How old does a man have to be that is a Libra to settle down? I told him to have fun being a player.
In the beginning he gave me his phone no. and told me to call him around 11pm when he got to work, and he would text me.
As long as Ive known this guy I was shocked to find him out. By the way he is single.
Do Libra guys care if you call them? Or do they want to do the calling? Their very hard to figure out.
Come on Libra men, can u answer any of my questions?
Thanks,
Kara

When u meet your true mate/friend for life. you wont be asking if you should call or should you write? both of you will all ready know. and will never doubt
the intense bond of trust that we now call love!

True Libran Guy
What i want to knw from this Gemini Lady, is when a Libra male tell you that they love u do they really mean it, and When u say ” I felt you alot, and i pray that we spend our life together” what is it that your saying.

I’m a Taurus women who recently “dated” a Libra man for about 6 week. What an utterly dispicable man! We met on Plenty of Fish dating web-site and went out on our first date, the day after his birthday (10/17) and he charmed me from the beginning and proceeded to move at lightenging speed, suggesting we take down our profiles and professing his deep “love” for me a couple of weeks later. Things went well for about a month. I didnt push him, I was just being myself. He has a very hectic travel schedule and his kids live in Tennessee, so he must drive there to visit. Everything seemed to be going well, then about the 6th week he began distancing himself from me a bit. He stopped saying he loved me and using his usual terms of endearment (baby,honey). I asked him what was wrong, because I was getting bad vibes from him and then I get a very cold break up TEXT MESSAGE from him, saying he’s overwhelmed, we moved to fast and he’s not into it. I was shocked and devastated!! He did that with what one poster on this site referred to as ” insulting ease.” Ladies, beware!!! I’m sure not all Libra men are quite like this, but I endend up with one, straight from the bowels of hell.

The one i was with was just like that. I mean he even went as far as stop talking to me. After i wouldnt invest my $800 dollars with him. He broke my heart i met him on this dating website called blackplanet. So i knw how you feel

I’m not a woman, but a gay male. But I’ve met TWO Libra males who were shady like that. They approached me and feigned interest only to create drama where there was none, but this was just the ploy to end the relationship under the pretense that I had done something wrong.

Agreed they are so much drama where there isn’t any but they create drama drama, that is the worst sign i ever dated. An i am a Gemini and we suppose to be compatible. I can’t tell. Geminis, and Aquarius are drama free people.

@Angela Barnett: I know. I’ve read your posts and I feel really bad for what you went through. Be glad he is gone. I’ve seen a lot of women who were treated badly ask “am I going to hear from him again?” “I miss him”.. Those women should be glad the Libra man is gone for good!
@Aquarius Sun: You are soo right about feigned interest. They are good at that!!! And the drama and stress that ensues when they decide to stick the knife in is overwhelming! The also do not want to take responsibility for anything and try to make you feel flawed!!

Agreed with you on everything you are saying LadyTaurus, i am glad he is gone and i hate so badly that i did what i did, but you learn from your mistakes. I want ever do that again. But, it makes it so hard for me to give my heart again, and I have talked with other men, but its so so hard to love again.

I know Angela! This happened to me recently, i mean weeks ago. I was so shocked by his behavior that I lost my apetite and couldnt sleep. It was like I NEVER knew him at all. They are so phoney!! Yes, we all have learned lessons from the Libra man, but we must not give up on love. Be careful, but don’t give up. I will definitely steer clear of Libras!

I will from now on out stay clear of those Libra’s alot of drama and then they blame you for what has happen. You are right I shouldnt give up on love just give up on those Libra’s. Great Advice Thanks

@TrueLibranguy
I have a question though, I a libra guy turns cold or ask for some space does mean that he’s flirting around? Coz I’m in a relationship with this libra guy, for more than a year now, I’m having some issues at work right now and he’s having his own issues too… Now he’s confussing me there is a sudden change with his attitude until he ask for space cause we often end up arguing this past few days.. So I’m wondering if he is cheating on me or he just want to fix everything?

My best one was recently…met him online, goodlooking guy. I am a Leo by the way. We are supposedly compatible and especiially in the bedroom. On his profile he indicated that he wanted dating with the possibility of a relationship. We had a lot in common…seemed that the feelings of enjoyment in each others company were mutual. Afteronly one sexual encounter I had tried to contact him the next day a few times and he didn’t answer. I know that I am not one who is kicked out of bed for eating crackers usually, pardon the expression, but he made up some excuses later that night when he did finally return a text. I knew they were lies. He ran the other way and fast, saying he didn’t like relentless, that it was too much and that I was “too too much”, but never callng to tell me directly ANYTHING. He texted me with his “dump”. Now there is nothing. I actually liked the man as a friend but I guess once they are gone they are gone. Too bad it really was upsetting especially the way he presented himself, but I guess all he wanted was a booty call or I didn’t meet up to his “elevated” expectation of the perfect woman.

Wow, my waste of time fling lasted 6 weeks and the asshole professed love to me. But I can totally relate to what you’re saying about the “dump” text and the excuses. The word “relentless” sounds like something he would say. Wonder if we are talking about the same man? What are the odds, but his intitials wouldnt happen to be JC would they? Does he had an uncommon first name? I know, this is a stretch lmao just curious.

well damn this is True… the way I tamed my Triple Libra and I’m a triple Taurus 2 the odds of it …??!!was I backed up he was a well known player in out city only sleeping with the hottest girls not just any ol thing since Libra’s are vain and shallow but I am a One woman -man type and I dropped him like a bad habit then he started coming around haunting me like a ghost until I FINALLY gave in and the comment of Libra men not like giving compliments it;s not true they do You just have to compliment them first coz my Libra Lover always compliments me, my body,my taste, and my intellect and it makes me very happy girl:)

Sag woman tries all kinds of compliments and gifts to the Libra man and he does not respond back. Around 3 years ago he would call occasionally and reveal few personal remarks. Asking for my picture before we met for the first time. When I go out occasionally to a bar and grill with other friends, he seems to appear; like he has psychic vibes I will be there! He has told me he is lonely and wants to get married one day. So, far he is so slow to respond back! Libra man is confusing to Sag woman. I feel that I am a perfect catch…waited too long for him! Any advice and suggestions?

Well I too am currently dealing with a Leo who prefers to text alot as well…. we talk every now and then which is fine with me… when I want to hear his voice I just call him, he works alot so he’s normally busy all the time so texting works. I can say it’s hard not to fall for a Libra man he’s intellegent, sexy, and charming. I’m a Taurus and we did bump heads for a minute he didn’t compliment me and wasn’t showing me that he really like me. I tried to break things off but he would never let me go finally we had a conversation and things have been good thus far I had to learn him and his moods which can be hard when your texting all the time. He told me he doesn’t give compliments but if he doesnt say anything that means he likes it. I have a problem with that because I love to be complimented…..But just the other day he did tell me I looked good so we are getting somewhere….. He loves for me to send pictures (they live in there heads). It’s been a journey dealing with this Libra but he’s falling for me and starting to show he likes me. I feel like a sixteen year old girl again….

Me too I just a relationship with libra in sept, 2011!! All of these posting clogging my brain….Lol!!! Were getting in July 2012…..Scary!!!!! I’m in love with him. I wish I can everybody is either of their male friends name :-)He’s a libra I’m a Scorpio

Yeah those Libra’s can be real tricky an they get you to fall in love an then turn out to be a totally different person. I was involved with two both of them I never met in person both of them i met on the internet an both turn out to be real assholes. So just be careful an guard your heart with those Libra’s they are very sweet ppl an nice friends but as for me I am a gemini lady an relationships with them dont work for me. Good Luck

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I have been head over heels for one of the libra kind for 14 years and i’m in my mid twenties now and I have just realized that he’s looking for the “perfect” woman i.e., looks, breed everything, but what he doesn’t understand is that I am perfect for him, I digress and so now I stop, and he’s been on me like white on rice…. key thing with Libra men, they like to chase, be the seductor, just hold on Ladies and don’t get too excited and tell him all your feelings, just enough…

I also know a Libra man, little did I know he was a Player. I have known him 15 yrs. fixed he and his wife up, she left him after 13 years for another guy, so he called me since my husband died. I thought it would be fun to have him over and then the question came up from him after awhile, we would both benefit.
Dumb me after awhile I did.
Then I started to like him, wow he backed off quick. Made up all kinds of excuses.
I told him I didnt say boyfriend I meant friend, but he I guess doesnt believe me.
So, he doesnt call, or text me now.
Any suggestions? I really like him as a friend.
Do they ever call back? Its only been 3 weeks.
His mom thinks he is hung up on his X, but I dont think so.
Any suggestions?
Kara

I am going through the exact same thing with a Libra man- we were friends for years, he was close to my husband. My husband passed a couple years ago and here he pops up chasing me. I gave in because of the lonliness- and our friendship turned sexual. Now he’s running the opposite direction claiming I want a relationship and he’s not ready! I want a friendship (and the sex) but he has flipped it and stopped calling and texting! Whatever happened in your situation, Kara?

I have been “seeing”..{not dating, for we have not gone outside of my apt.(yet?)}.for about 4 mos. Now..he told me n the beggining that he did not want a relationship..so i told him we have 2 stop seeing/sleeping w/ ea. Other…he agrees…but then calls me 3 days later 2 say he does not want to stop seeing me..n wants to try 2 make an effort in communicating w/ me better…i say this because he does not call…only txts me wen he wants to see me..n always @ the booty call hr….i told him how i felt about this n he has tried to change it up…he has come over a few early eve.’s..he has not however changed in the txt thing….he does not reply wen i say hello..or how’s ur week going..he feels as tho he shldnt have to…i am not sure wat to expect of my ‘young’ libran man…(he@25..I@38)..i have not been in a relationship in years, and am quite used to his pn again off again dealing w/ me…but i cant take it anymore…wat do i do to keep this flight risk stable?

I just started dating a charming libra guy and am trying like hell, not fall into his trance. He’s does just about all the calling, (although I’ll return his calls). I know I could really fall inlove with him….but, I’ve decided to let him work for me, then he’ll appreciate me more and won’t take me for granted. Deep down I believe he’s worth my time, but I know he’ll know I’m worth working for…I want be so easy for him. I think that’s the key with libra men.