Around the world gay men suffer from daily prejudice and we'd like to ensure Gaydar remains a safe and welcoming environment. By emphasising that you are not into guys of a certain race, body type, or certain type of behaviour this may come across as negative, prejudiced and could be seen as Sexual Racism.

Gaydar's motto is "what you want, when you want it" – so we think focussing on what you are looking for will mean guys who fit the bill get in touch with you more often.

We understand that you may have no intention of upsetting others, but we know from more than 10 years of bringing guys together, comments like this do upset others so we'd like you to reconsider how you phrase what you're looking for.