Aside from the fact that at least parts of this article sound like they were written by a man posing as a woman - only a man would choose the name "Debby" - as in "Does Dallas" to act as the "Sex Professor" in a men's magazine.

Here are a few questions from the article I feel do men a great disservice by leading them down some rosey path of bullshit. My comments to each of "Debby's" answers in bold type. And yes, I get a little carried away with the quotation marks durring my outbursts.Q: Is sex enjoyable for her if she doesn't orgasm?A: Women, more often than men, report that they find sex to be pleasurable even if they do not orgasm. In addition to the fact that it feels pleasurable to be touched, many women enjoy the intimacy that sex provides, the kissing, touching, closeness, etc.

Will we enjoy sex without orgasm? Yes.Will we be disappointed? Yes.Will we expect you to finish what you started even though you're done? Yes.

Q: How can a guy give a woman multiple orgasms?A: Not all women report ever having had multiple orgasms. In some studies, it seems that less than half of women have reported this. That doesn't mean that they aren't capable of multiple orgasms, but it does mean that we don't know how many are.

For women who want multiple orgasms—and that is key, guys—try to maintain stimulation through the first orgasm so that she can keep going. For women who are neutral about multiples or don't care, don't pressure her (and yes, trying too hard counts as pressure) because pressure and orgasm rarely mix.

Are you fucking kidding me, "Debby?" If any woman could have multiple orgasms, why would she NOT want to? If she can - she will. I think THAT'S the key guys.

Q: How can a guy tell if he really is her "best ever"?A: If she tells you that.

(Not directed at Debby this time but to the douche bag who asked the question.)How much time are you going to waste worrying that, you retard? Get over yourself.

Can you have multiple orgasms? I don't think that my wife has had more than one or two in her life. Because if she had them, she should want more. She seems to be ok without, but because of not having them, I think that she sees sex as being more of a wifely duty, instead of a destination to be visitied often.

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nb

11/18/2009 12:49:28 pm

Of course - or I wouldn't find her lame comments so offensive. Clearly she can NOT have multiples or she would not have made the "if they want to" comment.

Clearly she's jealous.

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hb

11/19/2009 12:49:26 pm

my last gf would avg 3 per session. 1 oral 1 on top 1 missionary. almost every time. wife now not more than 1 per and not each time. but shes hot so fuck it. multiple was really cool. you feel like a king making her come like that!!

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hb

11/19/2009 12:55:25 pm

didn't catch debby's comments. but if they could, they would for sure.