After Justin’s concert in Birmingham, he took to Twitter to say: “Great show!!! Now gonna go celebrate 19!! Thanks.” While he certainly did celebrate, there will always be a special place in his heart for you, Selena!

You dated for two years! It’s been said that it takes half the time of a relationship to fully get over an ex. Even though your former man was with beauties Elle-Paige Roberts-Clarke and a mystery blonde, celebrating a night of fun at club BLC, it’s no reason to have pangs in your heart. You made the right decision for you to split because you didn’t feel that Justin was appreciating you. Now, maybe he’ll realize what he lost and become a better man because of it and perhaps you’ll reconcile at some point. But if not, you’ll have even better, loving relationships to come in your life.

Sure, Justin looked like he was having a wild time, stripping off half of his clothes and arriving back at his hotel with some beauties by his side, but it’s his birthday! Selena, I bet secretly he wishes you were there with him! Plus, it’s okay for Justin to be a little rambunctious on his big day.

Selena Gomez Looks Stunning While Justin Bieber Turns 19

Selena, you’re currently promoting Spring Breakers all over the world, and you looked gorgeous on Feb. 28! That’s one of the many reasons that you hold a place in Justin’s heart — he’s tried to win you back more than once since you split in December, and I have a feeling that he’ll try again. Absence makes the heart grow fonder! How could he not miss the wonderful and trusted friend he had in you?

Selena, you’re 20 years old, and you have your whole promising life ahead of you. Your relationship with Justin will give you lots of great memories, but you’ll have even bigger loves ahead. So, don’t rush and just wish Justin the best for his 19th year.