In his own words

Cancelled my membership after getting in a relationship a while back. Now I'm single again and I'm back. But hit me up on OKC: allhandsondex. Or, just put in a search for "short, dark and handsome" and I should pop up.
ENFP. Aries with Scorpio rising, if that means anything to you.
I'm outgoing, charming, hilarious, professionally driven, spontaneous, and an all-around big sack o’fun. I have been described as a guy's guy, yet also as an atypical “renaissance man.” I give a firm handshake and have a high sense of honor and integrity. My family and close friends (chosen family) are very important to me. I'm okay at speaking a couple of foreign languages (although I'm not sure Spanish is so foreign here in LA). I was born overseas, raised in 'burbs of LA, went to university in the OC and now I'm back to the city that I love. I’m baffled by people who think native Angelenos are fake. I am as real as it gets, folks. Gangsta.
I have a lot of friends, according to Facebook. All of my mom's side relatives live in metro LA/adjacent, so my cousins are pretty much like my brothers and sisters. Pops' side is all over the east coast and I love to visit, especially my cousin counterparts in NYC. I’ve traveled to many countries. Here, my hangouts range from the Westside to the Silverlake/Echo Park area and DTLA. I go where it's fun, but love to chill, cook/order takeout, watch movies and make it fun at home as much as possible.
I am aligned with a top financial consultancy firm where we do wealth and risk management. I love what I do and I keep my clients in the best possible position.
Why am I here? Good question. It’s not like I don’t date. Maybe I just date the wrong ones, 2-6 months at a time. My longest was 3 years. I do have some real-life game. Computer love? – Meh.. I don’t think I’m as good ‘on paper.’ I may be short, but I have a lot more to offer than just longer than average legs. I make friends easily and I am THE best wingman I know. I’m even responsible for my buddy’s recent marriage.
I’m looking for that one diamond in the mine, the one worth my time, the one sublime… who gets my rhyme. Looking to meet someone cool, with slight edge, exciting; yet well grounded, balanced. You can nerd out and/or be passionate about something. Doesn't have to be what I'M passionate about. Just as long as you have pasión. No, I did not spell that wrong. And, sexy. Feel it. Be it. I’ll make you feel it. That’s what she said. ;)
I would be very pleasantly surprised if this site actually worked. It’s not a last resort, of course. I meet people all the time. I am here because I am sick of the bar scene. Sometimes, I look at my guy friends in their 20s and think, "Ichk. Why?!" Always an adventure, but... too old for that nonsense. Empty.
All that I can say is that I am open to whatever the Universe sees fit to bring my way. I hope you are reading this now.
Dex
PS -
I am really good at:
... eating. I'm damn good. Good thing I have a decent metabolism and work out.
... getting dogs to like me.
... being unphotogenic.
... conversations. Listening. Talking on the phone.
... I am a cunning linguist and, and these days, a master debater.
... being corny and saying stupid sh!t.
... snowboarding (been doing it since 18, but I don't go crazy on the big jumps, anymore)
... Rhythm/dancing - in college, was part of a hip-hop/b-boy/b-girl crew.. Nowadays, I gravitate towards partner dancing: salsa, swing... fun at weddings, yadda yadda
... one-liner impressions (Chewbacca - the entire Shiriwook [Wookie] language in one line: Grrraaauurrrr)
... making friends out of strangers
... connecting people together. Networking.
... driving, parallel parking.
... building Ikea furniture... and then later breaking it.
... giving aural pleasure - making mixtapes (CDs) I'll forever call these playlists "mixtapes"
... kissing.

For fun

I like to work out and do yoga. Recently, I've discovered Brazilian jiu-jitsu and Iiiiii like it!! Occasionally, I like to shoot hoops, hit the links or even just the driving range.. I LOVE to SNOWBOARD.

Last read

Honestly, financial stuff. But currently bookmarked in: "Confessions of an Economic Hitman" about global policy and "About a Boy" by one of my favorites, Nick Hornby. Last book I finished was Bukowski's "Women"