I have quite a few male friends who have slept with hookers. Their professions and reasons varied greatly. When I was in college, a friend of mine f*cked his vacation away in Amsterdam because he said he was tired of being a virgin and wanted experience. A lawyer friend of mine simply saw it as a good time. I have yet another friend who had a girlfriend of 10 years and he would be all up in hostess clubs and taking the women to hotels for a t*tty f*ck. I can see why they do it.

It seems crazy, but if I were dating a man who did not have a lot of girlfriends in his lifetime, yet he knew exactly what to do in the bedroom, I would already suspect that at some point in his life he used a hooker's services. What is more important to me is that he doesn't sleep with hookers while I am dating him.

You'd be surprised at the number of attractive, successful, intelligent and educated men that are easily capable of getting busy with someone equally attractive, successful, intelligent, that get an urge to get to get their rocks off with someone who is only there to handle their business and get on about their business, without unnecessary convo or expectation of a future hook up.

I used to be so naïve..I know better now. I guess working in a male dominated field for so many years exposed me to things I wouldn't be aware of.

Whether it's an "exotic" massage,a woman getting $ for a light bill, an escort found on Craigslist, or picking up a heaux on the heaux stroll, chances are that man has engaged in SOME type of prostitution.

Exactly! Like Justin Beiber or many rappers or business mengo there and pay and do not want to take the time to get to know you and etc, but want to handle business. They can get any type of woman, but they are there for a nut not for a wife.

Most men aren't going to admit and sometimes they want a nut off so they pay a lil for expendiant services. But I guarentee that if you are dating or married to a man who was single and was stationed overseas 9 out of 10 he had a hooker.

If you are dating a man that is handsome, educated and successful, 9 out of 10 times, he had a hooker.

Oh, yes I would and I have dated a man that got an "exotic" massage. I'm HIV and STD free and so was he.

I love the fact that he felt comfortable enough to be honest with me when he hadn't been honest with his previous gf.

I'm NOT saying each and every man has been with or will be with a hooker of some type in his lifetime, but a lot of men will NEVER tell you.They'll lie on their own mama's grave/take that ish to their grave.

Any woman that says "my man would never.." gets a serious side eye from me. You ain't God, you can't control another adult. You can say "I don't think/believe my man would..", but realistically, YOU..CAN..NOT..CONTROL..HIM..Or ANYONE else..

You'd be surprised at the number of attractive, successful, intelligent and educated men that are easily capable of getting busy with someone equally attractive, successful, intelligent, that get an urge to get to get their rocks off with someone who is only there to handle their business and get on about their business, without unnecessary convo or expectation of a future hook up.

I used to be so naïve..I know better now. I guess working in a male dominated field for so many years exposed me to things I wouldn't be aware of.

Whether it's an "exotic" massage,a woman getting $ for a light bill, an escort found on Craigslist, or picking up a heaux on the heaux stroll, chances are that man has engaged in SOME type of prostitution.

And the ones that need to do it the least, do it the most.

Absolutely correct.

I work in a male dominated field as well and my company sent me on the road for 7 years straight. Yes, now and then I would work out of my home office for a week or so .. but mostly I was 'on the road' from NY to LA, from Canada to Mississippi to Trinidad. All over.

99.9% of my co-workers were married men and I can tell you .. I have a real problem with a guy that travels for work now. Why? Because I would see such suspect activities and situations for so long. Like if we had a week in X city ... I would see the same well-dressed female talking to guy A as I saw with guy B last week .. in the same hotel bar. And both of these guys worked with me on this project.

Sometimes I would see one of these females on the same flight we were on ... on the way to the next customer. I'm thinking .. now how can that be? Then I would see that same female chatting up a couple of other guys in my hotel (…. some of my male co-workers too) during the week. Ah huh.

I never said anything of course, but as a Black female I certainly stood out … so they certainly must have recognized me from town to town and realized that I was working with the same team of men they were going boom boom with every night. It was a trip.

Hey, I am no fool.

Sometimes the guys would ask me to join them after work for dinner. Sure, we can have dinner (gotta eat anyway and you get tired of eating alone every night) but afterward .. they would wanna go for drinks to some titty bar they heard was nice in this city. Ah huh.

Of course, I would laugh, tell them I am tired guys, say my goodbyes and get back to my hotel room ALONE.

The next day.. I would hear them talking to each other about .. thus and thus happening last night. Umm.

Now and then at a company dinner, I would meet their nice ‘stay at home’ wives and maybe they would feel uncomfortable that their man was working with a nice looking Black female. But I was thinking - honey, you don’t have to worry about ME fooling around with your man. Oh H*** No. Hee hee! Why would I choose some cheatin man to lay up with? Nooo. (I thought they were stupid to tell the truth because I'll bet there signs that they were fooling around on the road.

(shrugs) I saw a lot of that stuff over the years. In fact one of the reasons I learned not to sit at a hotel bar or restaurant was because sometimes some guy would slide up to me. Yes, he is on a business trip too ... but he figures (shrugs) we are both here for a week on business ... why now keep each other company? Right. :/

So yes, all sorts of guys buy Hookers or .. they just try to 'pickup' some random female they see in the Hotel. :)

To this day, when I have a business trip, I always insist that my room is as close to the front desk/reception area as possible (for security reasons) and I RARELY eat in the restaurant/bar unless I am with someone because .. typically, I am surrounded by a bunch of horny business men that have escaped their wives/gfs/children for the week, have a big expense account and they can't wait to 'pick up'. TRUTH.

I could tell a lot of stories like that but men that have the means to pay, well-dressed, intelligent, handsome, black, white you name it .. if no one is looking ... they will try to get a taste. Then they will straighten up and go back to their women like nothing happened. 

I really think women are quite naive to believe their men have never hired a Hooker.

Most men aren't going to admit and sometimes they want a nut off so they pay a lil for expendiant services. But I guarentee that if you are dating or married to a man who was single and was stationed overseas 9 out of 10 he had a hooker.

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