Please be clear, this a call to look at what’s been going on for you and where to focus next. I can’t tell you how to do it all in these calls. For one thing, general advice has limited use in specific circumstances. And I don’t like giving women a couple of the jigsaw pieces and they think they have the full picture. It’s not fair on either of us. It probably won’t work on its own. We’ll both be disappointed. And if it was as easy as a couple of handy hints, there wouldn’t be so many women suffering.