6 Oh-YES! Sex Tips to Test-Drive Now

We know, it sounds old-school, but hear us out: Research suggests that women may take time to feel mentally turned on, even if they're physically aroused. (Your body is saying "Yes!" but your brain says, "What's on TV?") Let your partner coax you and you could end up having hotter sex more often, says Scott Haltzman, M.D., coauthor of The Secrets of Happily Married Women.

Handcuffs can be hot, but even a few tamer moves will take your lust life to a whole new level. We asked experts for their best back-to-basics tips and had SELF readers vote on which they'd do. Turn out the lights! You're up for almost anything.