You should never complain about something you signed up for. When you are aware of the possibilities, consequences and negativity of doing something and you pursue it anyway, you are signing yourself up for everything that comes with it.

I've learned that when you accept what is and what is not while looking at the bigger picture, you will be much happier in life. If it was something you wouldn't put up with or didn't think you could overcome, you wouldn't have signed up in the first place.

Think about why you sign-up for things in your life and their overall value. Is the reason you sign-up for something worth accepting everything that comes along with it or are you actually losing more than you gain? Stop signing up for what is doing more harm to your life than good and start accepting what you sign up for. We have a choice in everything we do and we have to realize that nothing is perfect and we can always walk away from something that is not good for us at anytime even though it seems like we cannot.

I tell my friends this all the time! They're always complaining about their jobs when most of the time they already knew that what they hate doing came along with the job. It can be so SCARY to choose better for yourself when you don't know your outcome but there's no since in complaining, especially if you're not gonna do anything abt it!

Exactly, Laura! Complaining gets you no where. If you're not going to change your circumstances and you knew what you were getting yourself into, why bother complaining about something you agreed to? You're basically contradicting yourself.

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Lucy

1/2/2015 04:24:01 am

I never thought about it like that before but I like your way of thinking!

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Paula

1/6/2015 12:58:03 pm

This is so true but it's seems like it's so hard to just choose what you want it life even though that's the ultimate goal...