Where Have I Been?

May 23rd, 2016

After posting daily for almost two years I was suddenly unable to. I felt bad about it, but I needn’t have done and my worst fears were not realised; the sky didn’t fall on me, and nobody noticed my silence. This was both a blessing and a salutary message to my ego.

Anyway, I’m back now. I made use of the time and there will be a few small changes.

Lovely to see you back Barry….even your coming back video is a useful reflection for those of us who think we dare not take necessary time off work or the sky will fall………looking forward to more videos.

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October 15th, 2017

We frequently abandon conversations before they really get started. Once sparks begin to fly – or we fear that they will – we back off.

Yet that is precisely the moment to engage in discussion, but that would require commitment to overcoming the fears of our own imaginings. Our excuse is that that to keep talking will make things worse. It doesn’t, if you go about it the right way.

The trouble is, no-one ever tells us how to do it, so we grow up with childish notions about opposition automatically leading to a fight.