Shahs of Sunset and Marriage Bootcamp: Reality Stars’ contestant Asifa Mirza stopped by The Morning Breath on Friday and chatted about her relationship with Bobby Panahi. The couple has had a very unconventional relationship. After dating for a little over a year, they got engaged. But instead of having a large Indian wedding, like her family had planned, they got married in Las Vegas, with their cabdriver as the only witness.

Now Asifa calls herself “the Pamela Anderson of her conservative Indian family.” This is because to them “she’s crazy and over the top.” Asifa continued: “In terms of relationships, they want her to have this wedding … where they can invite all of their friends … and I don’t want to do it.”