Being an aspie myself... yeah. Meeting another aspie for me is similar to having a clone. You may get along great for a bit and then because they're so like you behaviour-wise (obsessions, habits won't change plans, trouble with give-and-take in conversations, etc. and the other symptoms), you realize how ANNOYING it is to be around someone who's exactly like you for a while. I'm well aware that my behaviour can drive people batty. I always seem "normal" enough, if a bit eccentric, that I don't fit in with most of the autism-spectrum people. Plus, yah. I'd rather have my socializing involve non-AS people who just understand I'm not exactly normal. When you already have social troubles, it's even harder socializing with people who ALSO have social problems.

There's a vibe here that says "We're in this together!Through thick and thin fabric! Through cold water washes and burning hot irons! Though we might super glue ourselves to our projects, cut holes/gashes/oh-god-mom's-gonna-kill-me into the dining room table, we will stand strong together. Unless there is a 75% off sale at the Fabric store. Then you're on your own. And get the hell out of my way."<3

Ugh, on another forum someone is trying to bait me into an old fight. It's especially bad since I've been depressed lately since my rabbit's death, I really don't need someone attacking me on supposedly friendly forum. She's just so annoying. She keep saying she wants people to leave her opinions alone. Well, there's a very easy way to accomplish that; keep your opinions to yourself. But then again her logic is that if someone expresses an opinion she disagrees with, it's automatically a personal attack on her. I've reported her several times but the mods have yet to do anything about it. They really need an ignore feature like the one we have here.

Being an aspie myself... yeah. Meeting another aspie for me is similar to having a clone. You may get along great for a bit and then because they're so like you behaviour-wise (obsessions, habits won't change plans, trouble with give-and-take in conversations, etc. and the other symptoms), you realize how ANNOYING it is to be around someone who's exactly like you for a while. I'm well aware that my behaviour can drive people batty. I always seem "normal" enough, if a bit eccentric, that I don't fit in with most of the autism-spectrum people. Plus, yah. I'd rather have my socializing involve non-AS people who just understand I'm not exactly normal. When you already have social troubles, it's even harder socializing with people who ALSO have social problems.

I too am an aspie, and this made me cry. I am so happy that someone out there knows what it is like! Marry me? <3

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By getting just a little closer to you, I think I could find it out
Just so these days would never ever have to end without a doubt
Ringing in a tone that slowly died and never will restart again
And all at once, I know everything is gone

There's a vibe here that says "We're in this together!Through thick and thin fabric! Through cold water washes and burning hot irons! Though we might super glue ourselves to our projects, cut holes/gashes/oh-god-mom's-gonna-kill-me into the dining room table, we will stand strong together. Unless there is a 75% off sale at the Fabric store. Then you're on your own. And get the hell out of my way."<3

So today I had a complete stranger complement my ass in a very flirtatious way. In front of my boyfriend. Now I know that my bf is passive, but he didn't say a word. Not one. I thought it was pretty clear that what was said made me uncomfortable, but he didn't say anything. I was in so much shock that I just managed to squeak out a thanks before walking away. It completely irked me that Ben didn't do anything. Maybe I'm overreacting.

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By getting just a little closer to you, I think I could find it out
Just so these days would never ever have to end without a doubt
Ringing in a tone that slowly died and never will restart again
And all at once, I know everything is gone

I asked my manager weeks ago not to schedule me before 3 on Friday 12/14. I have a doctors appointment at 1030, but it's a neurologist so I gave myself a lot of extra time.
I reminded on Sunday, and let him a sticky note in his computer.
I go in tonight, check my schedule and when am I working? 9-4 12/14. Like the exact time I asked him NOT to schedule me. And then, he tells me I have to try to find my own coverage! Which I am, but it's not my fault. They re the ones who blacked Time off Requests for Nov and Dec. I asked for a Doctors appointment! A specialists appointment that I have been waiting a month for!

As I've noted on several of my posts today, I am REALLY pissed off at the shit excuse for a fabric store that is Canada's Fabricland. As a result, I wrote this and DAMN did I need to. http://shinobixikyu.deviantart.com/journal/

There's a vibe here that says "We're in this together!Through thick and thin fabric! Through cold water washes and burning hot irons! Though we might super glue ourselves to our projects, cut holes/gashes/oh-god-mom's-gonna-kill-me into the dining room table, we will stand strong together. Unless there is a 75% off sale at the Fabric store. Then you're on your own. And get the hell out of my way."<3

I am in such a bad mood/place/time right now and it does help my friend is a jerk and treats me like crap a lot and I feel very much upset right now and she totally doesn't get it.

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Originally Posted by Lithium Flower

Once upon an evening dreary, while I lurked weak and weary,
Over many a quaint and curious volume of forgotten posts,
While I nodded, nearly napping, suddenly there came a bitching,
As of some one gently pitching, bitching at my chamber door.
`'Tis JasonTerror,' I muttered, `bitching at my chamber door -
Only this, and nothing more.'

I am in such a bad mood/place/time right now and it does help my friend is a jerk and treats me like crap a lot and I feel very much upset right now and she totally doesn't get it.

Tell me about it.... as of late I've been "not well", and last night I come to find out that someone who I WAS finally getting along with (she refused to work with me for over a year simply because I'm a female, and we're on the same robotics team) has actually been lying to my face and is very blunt about how much she doesn't really like me behind my back. Thanks, that helps a lot with my current mental state.

Also, I try not to be one of those people that is always complaining about their life and their problems, because quite frankly I know that nobody cares. So, I just kind of say nothing and vent on the internet here and there. Well, there are a couple of people on my team who play the "I have [x] problem" card whenever something doesn't go their way, and they end up getting their way because I'm not going to play that card and go that route. Look, if they have problems and need someone to talk to, I'm here, but if they always complain and mope while refusing to tell anyone what's going on, then suddenly open up when they need pity points, I'm going to be surprisingly unsympathetic. It just....gah. Then again, I've been really snarky and unsympathetic lately so maybe it's just me.

Regardless, I hope whatever is going on in your life works out, and that you'll be able to work through whatever is in your way. @_@