collaredmichaelwordpresscomhttps://collaredmichaelcom.blog
This site is about my journey into male chastity. I hope to be brutally honest and perhaps helpful to others wanting to try the same thing.
Sun, 09 Dec 2018 19:08:19 +0000 en
hourly
1 http://wordpress.com/https://collaredmichaelwordpresscom.files.wordpress.com/2017/06/cropped-pussy-panties.jpg?w=32collaredmichaelwordpresscomhttps://collaredmichaelcom.blog
3232It’s Been Ages—or Is Collaredmichael Still Alive?https://collaredmichaelcom.blog/2018/12/08/its-been-ages-or-is-collaredmichael-still-alive/
https://collaredmichaelcom.blog/2018/12/08/its-been-ages-or-is-collaredmichael-still-alive/#commentsSat, 08 Dec 2018 14:10:13 +0000http://collaredmichaelcom.blog/?p=2475It has been so long since I posted. I usually write four to five posts a month and it’s been over a month now since I posted. Wow. There have been some posts I wanted to do and I need to finish my CFnm story. But I’ve been so busy.

Life always intrudes. We have work that can get in the way, families, health, so many potential drains on our time.

I’ve had two orgasms in the past 6 weeks! The last was 19 days ago. One of them I filmed and then was filmed cleaning up my cream pie. My Queen gets off on having me do this so it’s become the standard in our home. She loves to see me cum too so my waits are shorter. She has told me that there will be no more year plus waits for me–unless she changes her mind! lol

But before I share these videos, I need to edit them and that means I need to get some new software. Months ago my computer died in epic fashion. My old software was on it and I haven’t gotten around to looking for new software for the new computing beast. But it is coming (cumming) lol.

We’ve moved my father into his new home. He seems to be managing ok. But he is far from a young man and he can be stubborn. So we will see how it goes.

I organized and ran a Terry Fox event trying to raise money to fight cancer. It was very successful so I was pleased. But it’s a lot of work and takes time to do.

My job has been busier than usual requiring more time–as a salaried employee, your hours are not fixed and at certain times of the year you just have long weeks!

I am also coaching a sports team of young men 17-19 years old. Between practices and games I spend so many of my excess hours each week with them that they are almost like my family.

In addition over the last two months, I’ve had to attend three funerals. Two close friends and a member of my extended family. Two of the three were in November.

I do hope to finish my fantasy soon. I do hope to start blogging regularly again as well.

As we enter the Christmas season, I am glad to have so many friends here on WordPress! I have managed to keep up with all of you, though at times I’m days late reading your posts!

]]>https://collaredmichaelcom.blog/2018/12/08/its-been-ages-or-is-collaredmichael-still-alive/feed/23img_2518collaredmichaelCFnm Part 3!https://collaredmichaelcom.blog/2018/10/27/cfnm-part-3/
https://collaredmichaelcom.blog/2018/10/27/cfnm-part-3/#commentsSat, 27 Oct 2018 15:10:11 +0000http://collaredmichaelcom.blog/?p=2417Handing my leash to Tanesha, my Queen indicated that she should take me out of the room because the ladies had to discuss what would happen the rest of the evening. While I was out of the room and unable to hear what was being said, the ladies discussed how the evening would go and who would participate as opposed to being strict voyeurs.

Meanwhile Tanesha was taking turns stroking my body and then slapping my ass with her hand. After the spanking I had already endured, I was feeling her hand. At the same time her hand stroking me had Angus trying to bust out of his cage. Lyn came into the room and grabbed my leash from Tanesha pulling me back into Carly’s living room.

Carly was standing in the centre with some black thing in her hand. My Queen nodded at her indicating she had the floor.

“Well Michael, we have a few things we want to do to you tonight. The first two contests require you to wear this hood.” She held up the black object which was revealed as a hood with an opening for my mouth and covers over the eyes. “In this way, you will have to use your other senses to determine who we are asking about.”

“In our first contest, some of the women here have agreed to have you perform orally on them. You have two jobs: first, to tell which of the women you taste is your Queen, and second, with only five minutes, give as many of the women an orgasm as is possible. With that limited time, we realize that may be an impossible task.” And with that she approached me and put the hood over my head. Instantly sounds were muted dramatically and I was unable to see. This was going to be a big challenge.

Most of our guests had worn dresses or skirts–this would prove to be an advantage for this event. My leash was pulled by someone, and led by Angus, I was taken to a spot on the opposite side of the room. Someone pushed down on my head and I sank to my knees. I was then pulled forward by my neck and suddenly my mouth was against a lovely and warm pussy. Knowing my task, I immediately started to feel out the woman in front of me. I ran my tongue over her clitoris and then down her lips on one side and up the other. Whomever it was, she was excited. She seemed to have a thin landing strip on her mons so I knew she wasn’t my Queen. She was leaking–a delightful and tasty liquid that I decided to enjoy. I ran my tongue deep into her vagina and finished at the apex. She shivered and I started to play with her clit. I could tell she was receptive, so I started to play with her in earnest! I couldn’t figure out who she might be, but I could hear her breathing changing and their thighs started to squeeze against my head. I bore down wanting to give her an orgasm if at all possible and then she shivered and let out a loud moan. I kept at her till she pushed me away. One down and more to go…

Another woman sat in front of me and pulled me forward. Damn I was enjoying this. Again I was certain that this wasn’t my Queen. The aroma was wrong though they were clean shaven like my Queen. I proceeded to tease this girl. I knew my teases were starting to work, but I ran out of time before she had an orgasm. While neither of us wanted me to stop, rules were rules.

And so it continued. Fully seven women pulled me to their groins. Four had orgasms including my Queen–she was the fifth woman–I was certain. She actually had two orgasms and flooded my mouth with her juices! She was so excited that she came almost immediately when my mouth touched her Kitty.

Unfortunately all good things come to an end and this delightful episode was over. I was pulled back to my feet and Carly pulled the hood from my face. Standing in front of the women, Angus straining at his cage, I saw a small pile of panties.

“I had a sudden idea,” said Floss. “Why don’t we see if Michael can determine who’s panties are here? He’ll know who he was kneeling before, but it could be another fun game”

“First though, he needs to tell us who he was in front of and which one was his Queen!” said Violet.

“What about a punishment for any errors he makes? Perhaps using the zapper?” asked Missy.

Jennifer thought and suggested, “Maybe 10 zapps per error?”

“And if he doesn’t get his Queen correct, perhaps he should get 50 zapps!” mused Dorinda.

“Great idea. Can I do some of the zapps?” Nora looked around the room.

Several of the women indicated they also wanted to play with the zapper. My Queen nodded and said, “These are great ideas but first we must remove the cage and have Michael put on the zapper!”

“I’d like to do that. I have been trying to get s to wear one, but we only have a mass produced cage at home. I’d like to see how a custom one fits.” MissusMistress looked over at my Queen and was given a nod. My Queen reaches around her neck and removed the key. She handed it to MissusMistress. Everyone gathered round as MissusMistress unlocked the cage. She removed the padlock and slowly pulled off the cage. Angus was excited and the cage was snug but she had success.

“The ring is impossible to remove at this time. He needs to be flaccid for that to happen.” stated my Queen. She handed me the zapper and I put it on. Angus was erect and showed cage marks as he had been trying to break the cage for hours. Tanesha reached forward and stroked Angus making me jump.

“This is so cool!” She stated.

Well I wanted to finish this in three parts but again I am way too wordy. So I’ll have to have a part four. Sorry about that. I do have a few more ideas that I’ve indicated. But like my friend Liz (the wonderful author) suggests, sometimes things take you where you hadn’t planned to go.

]]>https://collaredmichaelcom.blog/2018/10/27/cfnm-part-3/feed/25img_2652collaredmichaelimg_2918I Thought You Were Crazy!https://collaredmichaelcom.blog/2018/10/07/i-thought-you-were-crazy/
https://collaredmichaelcom.blog/2018/10/07/i-thought-you-were-crazy/#commentsSun, 07 Oct 2018 15:45:55 +0000http://collaredmichaelcom.blog/?p=2418So a few months ago my Queen suggested she wasn’t sure our FLR was working for her. I was being too well behaved and she didn’t like that I wasn’t showing my desire as much. In short I wasn’t mauling her enough! My stroking and attempted touching of her breasts and Kitty had diminished dramatically because it was against the rules. But the side effect of that was she wasn’t feeling desired or wanted. Nothing could be further from the truth. Another thing she indicated to me was that she felt like a nag looking for rules infractions. So we sat down and had a talk.

While I was enjoying how things were, it was important to me that my Queen also was enjoying the lifestyle. She said that sometimes she felt like looking for infractions and sometimes she didn’t. But she felt pressured to look for them all the time and she didn’t like feeling like my mother or nag.

So we made some changes. When she’s in the mood she looks/watches for infractions. I continue to try and obey the rules at all times. I also have let my hands wander again. I try and pay attention to her mood but I’m once again more of my touchy feely self. Of course this will sometimes result in punishment but honestly, it’s worth it!

Still another thing that occurs less frequently is punishment. We may go a couple of weeks between punishment sessions! This can mean that my number is very high and that the punishments are intense. But if this works for my Queen then who am I to complain. With this in mind, remember I purchased a barbecue shovel for punishment purposes on my Queen’s order. Truly this is a nasty device. So we keep a separate number just for that implement. When we returned from Mexico, she had given me quite a few additions to that number and we had the opportunity to use it shortly afterwards. It was an unexpected opportunity and I hadn’t the time to psych myself up for the swats. She wanted to use the bathroom to spank me because she could watch my face in the mirror. We were joking when she paddles me once. My reaction caused her to start laughing. And then despite the stinging sensation in my ass I was laughing too. After a moment she paddled the other ass cheek. And we burst out laughing again. This delayed the third strike and when my Queen was under control, she examined my ass. Already I had a bruise on both cheeks–from one blow each!! She stopped right then, saying she wasn’t going to permanently hurt me. Since then she has only used that paddle once–and only for a couple of smacks. So I’m not sure what will happen with this in the future. I hate the paddling but like the idea of it and also feel proud afterwards for taking it. At some point we will likely have a talk about using it!

However since that first talk a few months ago, things have been much better.

Last weekend, out of the blue, she told me,”I thought you were crazy when you wanted to try this FLR thing. But I’m really enjoying it. I’m not sure I could go back to the way things were before!” This made me feel good. Because she is appreciating how things are and what I’m doing. It made Angus cramp his cage–and that is never a bad thing!!

]]>https://collaredmichaelcom.blog/2018/10/07/i-thought-you-were-crazy/feed/13img_2877collaredmichaelA Typical Day!! Or It’s Not All Edging and Orgasms!https://collaredmichaelcom.blog/2018/10/01/a-typical-day-or-its-not-all-edging-and-orgasms/
https://collaredmichaelcom.blog/2018/10/01/a-typical-day-or-its-not-all-edging-and-orgasms/#commentsMon, 01 Oct 2018 08:25:11 +0000http://collaredmichaelcom.blog/?p=2419I’ve now been in a cage for quite some time–well over two years–it’s really amazing how fast time flies. Being in a cage is the norm. I actually feel a little strange when I’m out and Angus can erect at any time he wants! Though standing to pee is a nice bonus! lol

Still I thought I’d take you through a normal day. Unlike the fantasies that are so prevalent and that drive men to pursue this lifestyle, real life isn’t fantasy.

So this is a typical weekday for me and my Queen!! My day starts early! At 4:00 am, my alarm goes off. I will usually be out of bed in 3-4 minutes as I like to get to the gym by 4:40-4:45. I remove my cage and put on my gym clothing. The key is set out each night so that I don’t have to bother my Queen in the morning. As I don’t know where she keeps it and am not allowed to look for it, it’s just easier this way.

Sometimes my Queen will pull me back into bed and caress Angus!! Sometimes Angus is allowed into Kitty though it’s just for a little teasing! We both have to get going and there isn’t a lot of time. On days like these, I often leave for the gym with an erect Angus!

At any rate, when my Queen is finished with me I move downstairs and drink my pre workout beverage and take my supplements! While doing this I often check WordPress and will make comments on new posts that appeared overnight.

Gathering my work gear, briefcase, and gym bag, I’m out the door and on my way to the gym! Ideally this happens by 4:35 but hopefully no later than 4:45. The day has started!

I work out at the gym usually for about an hour fifteen minutes to an hour and a half. Then I take a steam, clean up and get dressed. Just before I leave the gym I head into a toilet stall and put the cage back on. I have no key so it’s on until my Queen removes it or I’m going to the gym the next day.

My Queen is usually at the gym when I’m leaving so I touch base with her giving her a kiss and we’ll wishes for her day!! Sometimes, depending on where we are, she’ll reach down to ensure Angus is in his cage. That’s always a turn on.

Not much happens while I’m at work on a normal day. We will often exchange texts and sometimes my Queen will send me dirty texts or messages. Rarely she will send me suggestive pics or racy selfies. I love that.

When I get home from work I will usually prepare dinner and afterwards share in or do the cleanup.

At that point we prepare our lunches and supplements for the next day. THEN, we get to sit down and relax. We will usually cuddle together on he couch. After a short time we’ll head upstairs and get ready for bed. Often before I’m allowed into bed, I will have to recite my mantra. Failure to do so correctly means corner time and then another try. She doesn’t have me recite the mantra every night–just when she feels like it. Then we’ll watch one of our shows and cuddle in bed. Before long, it’s lights out and we’re sleeping. This is usually around 10:00. On a good day we’ve been able to watch about an hours worth of TV. Usually it’s less than that.

One last thing that will occasionally happen during the week is punishment. I have sensitive nipples and almost every day at some point my Queen will squeeze and twist them in response to something she didn’t like me doing. It’s considered mild punishment but it is effective. Occasionally I will get some swats and more frequently she’ll zap me.

And that is a typical day. Sometimes (very infrequently) I might be edged. But edging usually tends to happen on weekends.

So there isn’t a ton of sex during the week. Occasionally in the morning my Queen will need an orgasm. Sometimes she wants one at night but those are the exceptions rather than the rule. And yet the cuddling, my mantra, the text teases, the pictures, the punishment and the occasional cage checks all add up to keeping me excited and focussed on my Queen. These things keep the FLR real and help keep me in the correct mindset. I’m living the fantasy, but my fantasy is real. What you typically read on the internet is fantasy and likely no one is living it!

Now weekends… mmmm mmmm

]]>https://collaredmichaelcom.blog/2018/10/01/a-typical-day-or-its-not-all-edging-and-orgasms/feed/17img_2863-1collaredmichaelCFnm Fantasy Part 2https://collaredmichaelcom.blog/2018/09/26/cfnm-fantasy-part-2/
https://collaredmichaelcom.blog/2018/09/26/cfnm-fantasy-part-2/#commentsWed, 26 Sep 2018 12:48:30 +0000http://collaredmichaelcom.blog/?p=2365Now before I get going, I apologize in advance to any of my invitees if I go too far with my fantasy–or not far enough! When you involve real people whom you have met here in blogspace, you don’t want to offend them. So please take this fantasy with a large grain of salt!

Part 2

There is a good variety of food available–a chicken dish, a pasta dish, a vegan dish and a fish dish. The caterers give me a checklist and I return to the ladies to take their orders. I merely have to check off what each lady desires and then bring it to them. Approaching each lady with my head down, I ask for their orders. This is strangely exciting to me and Angus does try to rise to the occasion… but the jailbird does it’s job!

I return to the kitchen and hand the list to the caterers. They begin to make up the plates while I attend to the beverages. I take a tray of drinks out to the ladies and return to the kitchen. The first meals of the day are ready and I start by taking two meals out to the first guests. NaughtyNora is one of the ladies I must pass to deliver these two meals. As I move past her, she slides her foot quickly into my path and achieves the desired result! I fall and the meals go flying landing all over Floss and Liz–with a fair amount finding the floor. I glance over at my Queen and see how unhappy she is. I don’t believe she saw Nora trip me and I realize I will regret this fall at some point this evening. I tidy up quickly and take the ruined entrees back to the kitchen.

The caterer’s are unimpressed. “No wonder you took so long! You’ve ruined two entrees and according to what your Queen told us we are to punish you if your service is inferior! Bend over this table!” I do as requested and the head caterer hammers my ass with the wooden spoon. For someone who has never thought of spanking a full grown man, she definitely has the knack! “Don’t screw up again!” she demands as she hits me one last time particularly hard. I hear a crack and then she laughs.

“Wow… they don’t make these very tough anymore!” She holds up two pieces of the wooden spoon. “I’ll have to get something else from your Queen. Now get the rest of these meals on the table before they are cold!”

I continue to serve the meals. When everyone is eating and has everything they need, I retire to the corner and sit with my eyes downward. There I wait until someone needs a refill on their beverage. While I wait there, the head caterer (Lyn) comes out to speak with my Queen. Showing her the broken spoon, my Queen laughs and then turns to Carly. Of course Carly has something else to use in spanking! She leaves and returns with a wicked looking hair brush! I notice and determine to myself to behave perfectly!!

As the meal draws to a close, I rise from the corner and start to clear away the dishes. As Lyn, the head caterer is busy preparing the desserts, the second caterer (Tanesha) supervises my putting the dishes into the dishwasher. She is a statuesque black girl and I know she wanted to spank me earlier and was a bit upset that Lyn did it without giving her a chance. She is just itching to give me a spanking.

Luckily, she doesn’t find anything objectionable to my dishwasher loading techniques, and as I finish there, Lyn calls me to serve the desserts. As I move past Tanesha, she slaps my ass with her hand. But I know I’m good for now.

Once dessert has been served, eaten and cleaned up, I return to the main room. The ladies were enjoying their after dinner drinks and relaxing in the family room. Carly and my Queen disappear into the kitchen and return with the two caterers. I guess they invited the two girls to stay for the rest of the proceedings.

Seeing everyone relaxing, MissusMistress said, “Hey let’s get this show on the road!!” Then she laughed and was joined by many of the others.

“Fair Enough,” said my Queen. She moved over to a jar that I hadn’t noticed by the door. Reaching into the jar, she pulled out a number of pieces of paper and started to read them. “Hmmmm, this is interesting,” she mumbled. “Okay, there are a few things listed here. Michael,” she addressed me, “when the ladies arrived, I asked them to write down anything they wanted to see tonight. Not sure if we can do everything here, but we can certainly try! I can see the possibility of a few competitions and of course some spanking! Ok… First things first. Several people wanted to see Michael spanked. We have more than one implement here–a cane (courtesy of Nora), a heavy flogger that I brought from home, a wooden paddle brought by MissusMistress (MM), this hair brush of Carly’s and a horse whip brought by Jennifer. Who would like to try one of these out?”

At that moment, Floss interrupted, “You suggested that Michael be spanked for any misbehaviours. Shouldn’t he be spanked for spilling the food over me and Liz?” Everyone nodded agreement when Liz added,

“Nora should also be spanked! She tripped Michael causing the spill. While I agree that Michael should have been more careful, Nora definitely misbehaved.” Again there was a room full of agreement. Floss and MM took control at that point. My Queen was content to sit back and watch. Nora was positioned over the Lazyboy chair while I was positioned bent over the couch. We were both restrained in those positions.

Suddenly, Sweetgirl piped up, “Michael is dressed appropriately, but Nora is wearing a lot of clothing for a spanking.”

“I agree,” said Floss and she moved over and quickly yanked Nora’s clothing exposing her delicious derriere to the eyes of everyone. “Now who’s first?”

Obviously not a shrinking flower, Tanesha stepped forward. “I will spank Michael and I’ll use the paddle.”

Carly said she would start with Nora and picked the cane. Nora and I were going to have very red asses in short order.

With that, people moved around to get good views but also being careful not to get in the way of those spanking. Tanesha had obviously never spanked anyone before, but what she lacked in knowledge, she more than made up for in enthusiasm. She started going hard and didn’t hesitate to spank with multiple strikes and no pause between them.

On the other hand, Carly started a little softer and between each stroke, she soothed and stroked Nora’s ass. Still it wasn’t very long before she was using a great deal of force too.

The air was filled with sounds–my grunts that followed Tanesha’s paddle smacks and Nora’s short little hiccups of pain that followed Carly’s cane thwacks! And in the background the noise of conversation and laughter!

I felt my ass cheeks heating up and knew that Nora was feeling the same. I could see the lines showing on her delicious ass. I could also see Dorinda hefting the flogger. I knew Dorinda didn’t use corporal punishment in her home but it appeared she was curious about it.

MM broke in–“Anyone else want to give it a try?” Dorinda indicated she’d try the flogger out on me while Floss said she’d use the hair brush on Nora! I knew my ass was becoming very red and I wondered if it was as red as Nora’s! In between smacks from Dorinda, I watched Floss as she gave smacks to Nora. She would vary the strength and rhythm of them and also pause periodically to stroke and gently rub Nora’s ass. Meanwhile Carly and others helped Dorinda get the hang of flogging me.

After some time my Queen stood up. “Did everyone have a chance to put an idea in the jar? If not, feel free to write down things you might like to see or try while we are all here! Keep the sheets anonymous if you like and place them in this container. I’ll go through them and we’ll see what is suggested.

As the spankers changed again–Missy using the cane on me and Sweetgirl using the paddle on Nora, the other women wrote their ideas down, folded and put them into the container! I was amazed at how hard Missy struck me. I was not enjoying this spanking and knew I was getting welts on my ass. I did find it interesting to see what a sensual spanking Sweetgirl was giving Nora! After every blow, she caressed Nora’s ass and I could see Nora responding as her face became more and more flushed! Finally my Queen suggested that the spankers should change one last time. Liz and Violet volunteered with Violet using the flogger on Nora. Liz decided to use her hand on me. The sounds changed as the flogger made its heavy thud against Nora’s ass and Liz punctuated that with rapid slaps on me. She would give 3-4 Hard rapid smacks and then pause briefly before delivering 1-2 maximal smacks and then stroking me gently. I can’t speak for Nora but my ass was on fire! Finally my Queen stopped the spankings. Nora and I had been spanked for close to 35 minutes.

“I’ve had a look through your papers, and we have some intriguing suggestions.

I would love to finish this off, but a third part is required. Please remember that this is fantasy and all actions ascribed to my fellow bloggers are only happening in my twisted mind!

]]>https://collaredmichaelcom.blog/2018/09/26/cfnm-fantasy-part-2/feed/24img_2653collaredmichaelimg_2853img_2599Updatehttps://collaredmichaelcom.blog/2018/09/12/update/
https://collaredmichaelcom.blog/2018/09/12/update/#commentsThu, 13 Sep 2018 02:05:43 +0000http://collaredmichaelcom.blog/?p=2398So I’m well into part two of my CFnm story which is getting to be quite long. I may have to break it into three parts! Time will tell, but as it isn’t yet finished, I can’t say…

In the meantime a short update. Two weekends ago my Queen and I had some surprising time alone. My son informed us at the last minute that he was going to be away for the weekend. This left the two of us and we love our time alone. So that weekend was rabbit sex weekend. My Queen was horny and we had sex multiple times. She had numerous orgasms! At the start I was caged and so this is Angus trying to erect and erecting after being released! Angus shows the cage marks after he is released in the photo above. The sex was great and Angus was fortunate to get a blow job more than once–though he had no releases. In fact we had sex so often, that Angus was rubbed raw! The frenulum had a tiny sore that was oh so sensitive!! My Queen therefore allowed me to go without the cage for all of last week. In fact it was Monday of this week before I was recaged. I’m happy to say that Angus is completely healed and looking forward to this weekend (which should also be a rabbit sex weekend).

Last weekend my Queen surprised me. She decided to use clothespins on me. I made no suggestions so I have no idea where she got the idea from.

She only used four pins, but she did both nipples (I have extremely sensitive nipples) and she put two on my scrotum. I then made love to her this way. It is more challenging to do so as I had to try and avoid banging into them or knocking them off.

Still we had a great time. Yesterday she texted me hat she had a surprise for me. As we were getting into bed, I remembered and asked what the surprise was. She laughed and said I had to figure it out.

Nothing more need be said. I immediately thought it was something she did to her body. Realizing it was unlikely to be anything she had to have someone else do, I thought I had to check out her pubic area. And sure enough, she had shaved completely. Now I have been after her to do this since we first met. I have no idea what prompted her to do so and I have no idea how long she’ll keep it this way. But both Angus and I were turned on!! I wasn’t allowed to do anything more ham to gently stroke her mound but damn, Angus was cramped!!! I’m really looking forward to Saturday and the weekend. I will get a few good pics for sure (if she lets me).

On a last note, I reposted a post by Thumper at the end of July about a company in Germany that manufactures bracelets and other items. These bracelets lock on with a special “key” and are therefore not removable. I really liked the idea and spoke to my Queen. She agreed so I went and ordered one. It took 5-6 weeks to arrive, but I am wearing it now. It is a symbol of my devotion and respect of my Queen. It also says she has the last word. I am so wanting someone to ask about it. I’m sure someone will at some time.

The photo above shows the spot where the key is used to lock/unlock the bracelet. It hasn’t come off once since it went on. And since I don’t know where the key is, it may never come off!!

]]>https://collaredmichaelcom.blog/2018/09/12/update/feed/26img_2854collaredmichaelCatch Up. No Part 2 Yet! 😜https://collaredmichaelcom.blog/2018/08/31/catch-up-no-part-2-yet-%f0%9f%98%9c/
https://collaredmichaelcom.blog/2018/08/31/catch-up-no-part-2-yet-%f0%9f%98%9c/#commentsFri, 31 Aug 2018 22:00:20 +0000http://collaredmichaelcom.blog/?p=2372So for the first time in four vacations, I had an orgasm. In fact I had more than one!! We just returned from two weeks in Mexico. These holidays are always like honeymoons for us. We eat, sleep and fuck like rabbits!! We dress up to go to dinner and enjoy the evening. My Queen brings a great many sexy dresses. Add to the fact that she always buys a couple when we come to Mexico, it really is unnecessary for her to wear the same dress twice. We went to two resorts though so she was willing to wear my faves at each resort!

She looked fabulous each evening and garnered quite a bit of attention from both males and females. Several times she was hit on–usually I was using the facilities but twice I was sitting near by. At least the hits were polite and not rude or crass. One guy even told me that I was one “lucky son of a b$@ch”. There was no argument from me!

Over the two weeks, my Queen had 37 orgasms! The sex was fabulous–but then it always is. I arrived in Mexico 71 days after my last orgasm. I wasn’t sure if that streak would continue or whether she would have me cum. And on that first night she had me orgasm starting in her and finishing on her ass. I then had to clean her ass and lick her to another orgasm while cleaning her Kitty!

7 days later she had me cum again. Totally inside Kitty and once again she had me clean her out. Another 4 days and another orgasm before I had my last one just before we left. So four in two weeks for me!! That’s a lot of orgasms for me. She had me clean each “mess” up with my mouth and emphasized that I didn’t have orgasms. Rather she could have them with her body or with mine–but all orgasms were hers.

We’ve been back for the better part of a week now. She doesn’t seem anxious to allow Angus another orgasm soon but I’m always the last to know!

We’ve been discussing the “ownership” tattoo on this holiday. So far nothing I’ve come up with appeals to her. So I’ll keep trying. I’d like to get it done as soon as possible but obviously I will need her approval. So I keep searching for ideas. If you have any please send them my way.

Finally a hysterectomy is in the near future for my Queen. She wanted to wait till our holidays were over, so we saw the surgeon on Monday. Papers were signed and now we are waiting for news on when this will happen. We are both concerned but hoping that things will be better post surgery than they are now.

]]>https://collaredmichaelcom.blog/2018/08/31/catch-up-no-part-2-yet-%f0%9f%98%9c/feed/10img_2410collaredmichaelAnother Fantasy About CFnm (Part One) and An Update!!https://collaredmichaelcom.blog/2018/08/21/another-fantasy-about-cfnm-and-an-update/
https://collaredmichaelcom.blog/2018/08/21/another-fantasy-about-cfnm-and-an-update/#commentsTue, 21 Aug 2018 22:25:52 +0000http://collaredmichaelcom.blog/?p=2322So some days ago it rained!! We got stuck down at the beach under a grass roofed hutch! It only lasted about 50 minutes but there wasn’t much to do! At any rate I read a lot of blog posts! One that I read had a question that sparked an idea in me. And honestly I can’t remember which blogger it was–I’d like to give them a shout out but… hard to do when you can’t remember! And I can’t remember the exact question either as my question is different (theirs sparked an idea)!

So my vastly modified question is: which bloggers would you invite to a CFnm event??

Now those I would invite are certainly not all dominant: some are, some are switches, some are littles, but all have become friends on here! (In truth, I would have an open invitation to all my WordPress female friends but if I had to keep the group small…). Further all my invitees would be on the clothes or female side of the spectrum, but if they invited folk to a similar event they could very well do the opposite or even a mixture…

Before the invites, what is a CFnm event?? These are events where all the males are naked and the women clothed. I have been to two in my life. The first was organized by the first girlfriend I had after my first marriage had failed. It likely deserves a post some day. The second also occurred sometime around then but was advertised on fetlife. I applied to be one of the males and was accepted. At this event there were about 40 males and likely about 25-30 females. Perhaps I’ll include this one in a post too.

So the invitees: these are in no particular order and are people I seem to have a good connection with here on WordPress–lots of comments back and forth. I’m on vacation, but when I return home I will provide links to their blogs. Difficult to do here with the spotty internet and only my phone to work with. I’m limiting my invitees to 10, though as a pervy exhibitionist, I’d like to just throw open the doors!!

NaughtyNora: NaughtyNora is one of my oldest WordPress friends. Just realized I said oldest–what I mean to say is she has been one of my friends here on WordPress for a long time! She is a younger vibrant and intelligent woman who is also a sub. She loves being spanked amongst other things. One of these days it would be nice to meet her and her Daddy. Likely will never happen, but I think they could be good friends to my Queen and I.

Carly Quinn: Carly is another of my longer time friends here on WordPress! Another intelligent person (truthfully all my friends on here are intelligent–so let’s not go there anymore), Carly has a wonderful sense of humour and has dominant tendencies!! And she has a great smile!!

MissusMistress: MissusMistress is a switch of sorts. She doms her husband but occasionally feels the need to submit and has a Dom that provides that for her. When she submits, she will drop into little space.

Liz Durano: Liz is a writer of romance and also steamy romance. You can find her published books on most ebook platforms! Beyond that she just is a good person.

Submissy: Missy lives across the “pond”. Married, she is living as a sub to her husband. Missy writes very thoroughly thought out posts that often involve deep personal introspection. It is a joy to watch how her relationship has progressed, and to read her posts is to stimulate thought.

Sweetgirl: Sweetgirl is also across the “pond”. She also is a submissive to her husband. Again I find the dynamic exciting as it unfurls in her blog.

Ddjennifer: Ddjennifer is a sub to her husband as well but she lives in America. She is one of the few bloggers that I follow where I have gone back and read every post she has written.

Dorinda: Dorinda is a femdom. Married, her husband dotes on her and follows her instructions so that she is pampered and pleased exactly as she desires. I believe I’ve read everyone of Dorinda’s posts too.

Life of Violet: Violet is a blogger who is just discovering the world of D/s. She is also hoping to be a writer and will be starting a master’s program in writing soon.

Floss: Floss has recently discovered her dominant side (for about a year?). She blogs and also has a podcast that is very good–it is called ProudtobeKinky!

So this is my invitee list. I follow many others who I’d love to invite but I have to keep this list small.

My Queen doesn’t want to host this event so fortunately the lovely Carly steps up and provides her home.

My Queen and I arrive early. We want to set things up and Carly shouldn’t have to work as she is hosting. In the end, Carly and my Queen end up relaxing while I do all the grunt work. Periodically I inquire if there is anything they need. I bring them drinks and snacks as they desire. At one point my Queen tells me that I’m overdressed. As I will be naked when everyone arrives I might as well be naked now. I strip down to my cage and folding go to put my clothes in the corner. Carly suggests that wouldn’t be a good spot to leave them and my Queen concurs. She tells me to go and put them into the car. Naked I check outside before hurrying to the car and depositing my clothes in the back seat before rushing back to the house. Of course the door is locked!! I’m made to wait several minutes before my Queen lets me in and scolds me for wasting so much time. I go back to preparing the hors d’oeuvres and snacks for our guests.

Finally at around seven everything is ready. I’ve cleaned and set up the tables and chairs. Plates and silver is set out and desserts are cut and plated. Cheese is cut as are the veggies. Hors d’oeuvres are ready and he games for the evening are set aside. All we need now is for the catered dinner to arrive–and the guests.

At about 7:30, the first two guests arrive (NaughtyNora and Liz). I greet them at he door with a deep bow and then escort them to the room where Carly and my Queen wait. Introductions are made and I hasten to get each woman the drink of her choice. Over the next 15 minutes I greet each guest and repeat those two simple tasks. Angus is struggling to erect but the cage is doing its job! My Queen suggests that later she might remove it but she isn’t certain yet. As everyone gets to know each other, the doorbell rings again. I’m told to go and let the caterers in. Naked but for my cage I open the door–sure enough it is the caterers (thankfully female) and after a double take, they begin to bring in the food. As they make themselves comfortable in the kitchen, I announce to the ladies that food will shortly be served.

My Queen speaks to the caterers explaining what is happening and she gives them a wooden spoon to use if I don’t meet their standards of service. There are two girls with the catering company and they look a little shocked but my Queen has me bend over and gives me a solid smack before encouraging both girls to give it a try! I had a feeling this was going to be a sore night and that I’d have one very red ass by morning!

At that point my Queen attached a leash to my jailbird and leading me by the leash (Angus) took me into the dining room for my formal introduction to the ladies. In it, she indicated that should I fail in any small way I should be punished and that any infractions must not be overlooked.

After the introduction, I was told to keep the end of the leash in my mouth and to start serving dinner.

End part one! This is becoming quite long so I’ll finish in my next post. I will also provide links when I return home and can access my computer.

Miscellaneous catch up news. After 71 days without an orgasm, my Queen had me do so on the first night we were away. Then she had me cum again a week later–this time she had me cum on her ass and lick it up. So I currently am only 3 days since orgasm. I’ve ordered a bracelet from Germany that will lock on to me and only my Queen will have the special key to remove it. We discussed this and she wanted me to do it. I of course love the idea of another thing reminding me of her status and power. It should be waiting for us when we get back home.

]]>https://collaredmichaelcom.blog/2018/08/21/another-fantasy-about-cfnm-and-an-update/feed/38img_2594collaredmichaelAnother Day in Paradise!https://collaredmichaelcom.blog/2018/08/16/another-day-in-paradise/
https://collaredmichaelcom.blog/2018/08/16/another-day-in-paradise/#commentsThu, 16 Aug 2018 12:30:23 +0000http://collaredmichaelcom.blog/?p=2316So my beautiful Queen and I are in Mexico for two weeks. We arrived Sunday and leave the 26th. Every day I think how lucky I am to have her in my life!! We’ve had a good start to our holiday–sex every day with 11 orgasms so far for my Queen and even one for me (after 71 days). She bought some new bikinis and damn she looks fine in them! I’m not as lean or muscular as I would like, but then I’ve had a bunch of surgeries since Christmas and haven’t been able to workout properly until the beginning of July! But I’m starting to get stronger again. It will come!! Here’s a short video segment from Monday:

I have earned a lot of punishment so far down here! We didn’t bring our portable speaker and that is my fault (or so I’m told)–every time my Queen thinks about it, she gets irritated and adds 40 to my number! That speaker has liked caused my number to swell by almost 400 and it will continue over the next week and a half! I only brought the zapper so yesterday she was thinking about possible spanking implements! I hope she figures something out before we head home because she is beginning to really like THE PADDLE!! She likes how red I become and how big a deterrent it is. She merely mentions it and I immediately fall into line!

We have spoken a little about my ownership tattoo. I’m hoping what I’m going to get will be settled by the time we get home. I have settled on an idea myself but my Queen needs to see it and approve of it. She doesn’t get the picture from my description so I’m trying to draw a reasonable facsimile so she has a better idea! This really excites me and I can’t wait to have it done! I want to wear her mark! I am naked in gym change rooms often. But I don’t care! I want to be marked for and by her!!

Yesterday she wore a sheath of a dress when we went out for dinner! It was skin tight and had a plunging neckline and only came down to mid thigh (maybe)! Man she looked so f$@&##€ hot!! An added bonus–she only wore the dress! No panties or bra!! Damn that’s hot and always a fantasy of mine!! The dress was black with a tasteful pattern of light flowers and style wise was similar to this:

She had me go commando too (no cage) and I was finding Angus kept popping up!! She could easily have reached down and pulled me along by Angus! When we returned to our room, she let me strip her down and then kiss Kitty for about 10 minutes! No licking, just kissing! And no sex last night–. Still yesterday morning she had a massive orgasm and flooded the bed!

Sorry this post is so disjointed and rambling! But I am on holiday and trying to relax!! I’m also trying to pamper my Queen and help her have the best holiday possible! The free internet here is not the best and I refuse to pay $100 for the good internet! So at times it is difficult to access posts or make comments! Trust me that I am making efforts to catch up to your posts whenever it is possible!

]]>https://collaredmichaelcom.blog/2018/08/16/another-day-in-paradise/feed/46img_2562collaredmichaelgimg_2538The Paddle Returns—Or Ouch!!https://collaredmichaelcom.blog/2018/08/06/the-paddle-returns-or-ouch/
https://collaredmichaelcom.blog/2018/08/06/the-paddle-returns-or-ouch/#commentsMon, 06 Aug 2018 18:40:08 +0000http://collaredmichaelcom.blog/?p=2302NaughtyNora is in my head!! Every time I look at the “Paddle”, I think of her. Of course you know the paddle I’m talking of–it’s highlighted in this post !

And it was first mentioned in this post! I had thought to give it a name, and suggested “Mark” to my Queen–because when it is used it leaves marks! But my Queen thought that was a weak name so then I suggested “The Punisher”, “The Terminator” and a few others. Also not accepted so I’m still trying to suggest a name that will be approved. So now we just call it THE PADDLE!! Emphasis intended.

Almost two weeks ago my Queen had a physical. I accompanied her and the Doctor was talking about shingles prevention. He suggested she get the first of two shots to inoculate herself against shingles. Then he said I should get it too. My Queen said great idea! I demurred. I’ll get it I said but not today! So my Queen had the needle. When we got home, she was angry that I had disobeyed her and refused the needle. For that she was going to give me 10 smacks with THE PADDLE! I told her I would go to a clinic and get the shot tomorrow but the punishment was set. The next day I was leaving to go to the clinic and she asked where I was going. I told her and she said she was really irritated with my stubbornness at the doctor’s and she was adding another 50 smacks to my punishment!

At any rate I went to the clinic and got the shot. I was kinda hoping that my late acquiescence to her wishes might save me some smacks–but that turned out not to be the case. Last weekend we were alone. On Sunday morning before our walk, she said that we might as well get some of those smacks out of the way. Dropping my drawers and bending over my bathroom sink, my Queen gave me 12 hard fast smacks with THE PADDLE! “Woo hoo,” she said, “now that’s a good shade of red!!”

We had a great day together and were about to play when she looked at my ass–“It’s not red enough” (now this was about 8 hours after the first spanking) “Let’s get rid of more of those smacks!”

So again I bared my backside and she gave me a quick hard 22 smacks. I was dancing when she finished as I could not stand still. She goes like a machine gun with no light touches or stroking during the spanking. The impact continues to build throughout the event. I was glad she only did the 22. I don’t think I could have withstood all 48 smacks at one time. In time I will get better at it, but …

Somehow her math suggests I still need 28 smacks. Since she is never wrong, I look forward (sic) to those at some time in the future–likely the next time we are alone.

I will say that as soon as she suggests THE PADDLE as a consequence I am immediately falling into line. I don’t like that form of punishment despite finding the idea of it vaguely exciting! Now caged lion has pointed out I haven’t a picture with this post. In fact I do have a featured image, but for whatever reason, it isn’t showing where it is supposed to. Therefore, I include a pic here:

Here it is contrasted with a typical wooden spoon. As the size is clearly different, so the effects are also magnified–scout’s honour!

So there you have it. THE PADDLE is now in regular use in our house! Today I read a post by NaughtyNora that suggested a similar paddle might appear in her home–I hope not for your sake Nora!! lol. Or maybe I hope so…