How Do I Get Girls to Kiss Me?

Seduce In Seconds student Peter with Sophie, a girl he picked up at Establishment bar in Sydney on one of our recent workshops.

All men want the woman to make the first move. After copious amounts of testing on over 239 women in a variety of different contexts and countries, our team at Seduce In Seconds has cracked the art of getting a girl to kiss you.

In this article you will learn how to get a girl to kiss you by using teasing, rewarding and playfulness. This tested method has proven to work 80 percent of the time where within 15 minutes she will be trying to kiss you.

The Issue: Women hate making the first move

Girls do not like to be the ones to make the first move. It makes them feel cheap, easy and worst of all it detracts from you being the Alpha male who takes proud responsibility for all initiations.

Additionally this is based on the art of push/pull. Push her away too much and you will seem indifferent, disinterested and even arrogant; Pull her in too much and you will be perceived as suffocating and needy.

How to tease and reward her

Step 1:

Playfully tease her/push her away. It is automatically assumed that you as the man want to get physical more than she does. This is wrong. Girls go about it differently and you need to change the tone. Through teasing her playfully, you’re showing that you’re confident enough to take risks that the doormat “nice guy” does not. He would never risk putting her offside, but you need to because you’re trying to change the social dynamic so that she is the one pursuing you.

Step 2:

Frame her as being the one who wants you. You do this via step one, teasing. Pick up on actions or things she says which are normal parts of life but playfully tease her that she’s doing them to seduce you. E.g.

Emily: “Looks like we’re out of drinks, do you want to get another?”

You: “I don’t know. I’m out here with a strange girl who’s trying to get me get me drunk. I know your plan and I don’t want to end up in a bathtub with my kidneys missing and on eBay by the morning.”

Congratulations, you’ve now begun painting her as the initiator and pursuer.

Step 3:

Pull her in. Reward her for complying with your wishes (painting her as the hunter) and for anything she now does that is in line with the behavior you want her to exhibit more. Unfortunately controlling the behavior of both men and women is as simple as dog training. For example:

You: “Yep, another drink is a good suggestion. It’s about time you took charge of this night out.”

Emily: “What do you mean? I was always in charge of this night out.”

This is perfect because she’s now accepted the role you’ve created for her as the “fake leader,” but what you’re going to do next will provide her with a perplexing predicament.

Step 4: At this point you need to start escalating the situation sexually. Now that she has donned the role of the leader she still wants to be a lady and not come across as cheap. However, she is the “leader” now so socially the onus is more on her to say what happens and when.

This may seem like an unnecessary release of power on your part but you were always the one with the power; she just thinks she has it. In our online course we talk more about how to sexually escalate a situation using a repetition of the teasing and rewarding process as well as a physical process.

Hints on how to kiss her:

You need to make sure you were touching her from the outset. Touch early and touch often. It sets you up as a “touchy” guy who is comfortable gesturing and using his body to support his verbal cues. This is not a bad thing because all you need is for her to be okay with small touches like on the side of the arm, side of the thigh or even sitting in close proximity to her. You then build these up in accordance with your verbal cues (teasing/rewarding/framing).

In short, it’s like a ladder. You’re consistently climbing higher one step at a time and each step essential to knowing how to get a girl to kiss you.Your 15 minutes to her jumping you starts once all four of these steps have been completed once.

In the next 15 minutes you will have the chance to repeat this process up to 30 times. Luckily you will only need to do it four times for it to have an 80 percent chance of success.

She will start to lean more towards you and reciprocate the touching. Eventually her face, body and lips will make their way closer to you for the kiss. All you need to do now is sit back and wait until she kisses you or until she gives you such obvious hints and gets close enough that you would look like a moron for not recognizing the signs and she gets disinterested.

This is just a basic rundown of one of our more advanced processes on how to get a girl to kiss you but they are all simple enough for you to use anywhere, any time on any woman. Best of all we back all our processes with our 100 percent money back guarantee – check out our online course for men HERE. You should also take a look on our related article: How To Kiss a Girl.

I have watched the videos you put up on youtube. I enjoyed them a lot. I just recently started to read your free articles. I was wondering if you could point me to the articles that would be most useful on getting a date with a friend. Maybe even some other reading, sorry your class is a little pricy for me.

I would definetly like to see these techniques used or tried on American women..
A whole different kitty. A slightly different game.
They are so so self centered and stuck up here.
And you definetly dont touch unless your a really good looking guy.

Hence the online course, it has a mound of hidden camera videos and specific ways to implement these 4 core principles with women. Can you be a little more specific as to what you do not understand? ‘Da babes, da wrong timing’ is not ‘dat good’ in illuminating your issues for me

please help me quick, cause tonight i ll go to a party and i need some advice.. there is a girl in my class who i am quite into, but she usually likes to speak to another guy, who i know for sure doesn t like her. when i try o speak to her at school, she usually starts to look bored, and finally, i end up going away. what tehnique should i use considering it s a party to make her feel confortable talking to me? thanks T

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My audience is generally men 18-60 however some 14 year olds do enquire for help. I have picked “a target audience” but I feel that these concepts are true of humans, regardless of age and gender and I’m pleased that so many 14 year olds derrived benefit from it as do 60 year olds. If I can help them then who cares? The principles I teach are good for all ages but thanks for your suggestion.

I’m going to coat-tail on what “Very Evolved” said… The way you connect to your audience is… Know who you are writing to. You need to pick a Target Audience and stick to them. You wouldn’t write to an audience of 14yr olds the same way you would write to an audience of 60yr olds.

Ohkay ummm day game is obviously more direct and easier than night game so y wouldnt they kiss u guys quickerthan night game??
In nightgame girls are sorounded by more people so they care about wat people think of them more than in daylight…
Instead of askingif it works, try for urselves…

so this is just a matter of keying of her body language as i slowly narrow the gap between us, after i set the stage with her as the aggressor? ive heard it said men wonder how it will be to bed her, she wonders how it will be do kiss him? do you think that women are basically as ready to kiss if the opportunity arises as a man is to escalate toward bed?