why don't I want to have sex? Help needed.

Idk what my problem is. I have never really had a sex drive. I am never in the mood I have always been this way. It really bothers me. I am thinking about asking my Dr. If he can do some hormone testing to see why my libido is pretty much non existent. However i can be aroused by my husband if he kisses on me and what not. Does anyone have an experience with a similar situation. I just want to want to have sex. :/

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I have always had a very low sex drive, never initiate with my dh, I know it bugs him. When he wants to dtd I'm always meh about it, but once we are into it I enjoy it. It's something I've wanted to discuss with my doc for a bit. Do they make Viagra for girls??? Lol

Sounds just like me my Dh has flat out begged me to come onto him and i can't. Partly because I'm afraid i will seem stupid (I know lame because we are married and have kids) and partly because I'm never horny. How old are you? I'm only 21 I should be at my peak sexualy

Sounds just like me my Dh has flat out begged me to come onto him and i...

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08/02/2014

Sounds just like me my Dh has flat out begged me to come onto him and i can't. Partly because I'm afraid i will seem stupid (I know lame because we are married and have kids) and partly because I'm never horny. How old are you? I'm only 21 I should be at my peak sexualy

I'm 29, we have had this problem the entire six years we have been together. I know exactly what you mean when you say you'll feel stupid coming on to him, I am that way as well and I don't know how to get past it. So frustrating and it has to be for him as well.

Are you bf? That naturally causes you to have low libido bc your body wants to minimize chances of being pregnant again so soon. Crazy, but that's why you might not be interested and other bodily changesthat would mmake sex uncomfortable (dryness, etc)

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