I feel like a guy at times, but I feel like a girl at other times?

I have been questioning for so long, i have done so much research, i came acrosssed genderfluid, but im not 100% sure, it just doesn't feel right, and bigender was one i also considered, but it doesn't feel right. I've been crying so many nights, i asked my parents, and they dont believe in the genderfluid, but they believe trans, and thats is. Im so fucking confused. I almost cutted for this, but snapped back before anything happened. Cuz my boyfriend does, and it won't help if we both cut. I don't know what to do, i dont know what i am, i feel as a guy sometimes, Tyen a chick, but then sometimes i feel no gender, then i feel multiple genders at once, it so fucking weird, and confusing. I've asked so many people and so much research, i am so tired of not knowing, it been bugging me for so long. Please hElp, am i genderfluid, bigender, or something else i probably haven't heard of. Please thank u all who would help

Most Helpful Guys

I always have thought of it as being where bigender (a psychological phenomenon) is when a person switches back between two genders (male and female usually), where genderfluid is more broad and means switching between any genders there are in general.

The problem is that everyone seems to have a different definition for it all.

Based on your description, it sounds like you are genderfluid. That is my unprofessional opinion on the matter.

If you don't identify as any gender at all, it'd be agender, someone who has no inner sense of gender identity. However, since you identify as multiple genders or different ones at different times, genderfluid is a better term.

Transgender, from my knowledge, is where a person is born into one gender biologically but doesn't identify with the gender they were born into. (I. e. A man who still likes women but is a cross dresser = transgender). Since you switch between genders though, I think genderfluid is a better term.----On a side note, I'm glad you trust your parent's thoughts and all... But even if they don't believe in something, it doesn't mean it is fictitious. I could believe that unicorns are hiding in the bushes outside my dorm. While that would be pretty rad, they probably aren't.In this situation, it only matters what YOU believe. You can rest firm in your beliefs. If you are genderfluid, you are genderfluid. Even if someone doesn't believe in that and will label you whatever else, it only matters what you label yourself.

Most Helpful Girl

You're not a special snowflake. You're a girl who likes masculine things. Welcome to the club. You're just like a billion other girls. You are a girl. You are female. There are two genders. There are arguably four sexualities (only because I accept the idea of asexuality). The end.