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My SIL was just diagnosed with breast cancer. Her surgery (lumpectomy) is scheduled for Thursday. She went to visit my niece last week (her daughter) and while on the plane felt a new lump at her collar bone. Needless to say she didn't enjoy her trip too much. She did call the surgeon and told him what she felt and she has an appointment with him tomorrow.

Please say a prayer that they don't delay the surgery because of this new finding.

She is in panic mode (and so am I, but I won't let her know that). She just wants to start this whole process (surgery, chemo, radiation) so she can move forward with her life.

Her kids (young adults) are a mess - they just lost their father last year to cancer (my brother).

WH - 48
BS (me) - 50
Son - 25
Son - 17
Dday #1 - 10/31/07
Dday #2 - 12/23/07
Dday #1,000,000 - 12/23/09 - found out EA was PA
Reconciling or at least trying. We have reconciled through the A, but he still doesn't get it when it comes to p

If you want to have a great marriage, you have to be humble enough to ask yourself, "What changes do I need to make?"

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Kajem♀ 36134Member # 36134

Posted: 9:16 PM, July 29th (Monday), 2013

Sending prayers.

I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - Unknown
Relationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.

Posts: 6708 | Registered: Jul 2012 | From: Florida

jo2love♀ 31528Member # 31528

Posted: 9:21 PM, July 29th (Monday), 2013

(((SIL)))

Sending prayers

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jjsr♀ 34353Member # 34353

Posted: 9:24 PM, July 29th (Monday), 2013

Sending good thoughts

Me: BS
Him: WS
Married since 1985
Parents to 2 adult sons and 3 of the cutest cats you have ever seen
D-day 8/6/11 Truth about ONS and 9/21/11 Truth about EA and 10/28/15 NEW dday.
Just surviving.

Posts: 1849 | Registered: Dec 2011 | From: midwest now.

metamorphisis♀ 12041Member # 12041

Posted: 9:35 PM, July 29th (Monday), 2013

Sending mojo and love.

Go softly my sweet friend. You will always be a part of who I am.

Posts: 52078 | Registered: Sep 2006

InnerLight♀ 19946Member # 19946

Posted: 12:18 AM, July 30th (Tuesday), 2013

Envisioning a healthy outcome for her.

BS, 56 years
D-day 6-2-08
D after 20 years
The journey from Armageddon to Amazing Life happens one step at a time. Don't ever give up!

Posts: 6650 | Registered: Jun 2008 | From: Rural California

cinnamongurl♀ 37879Member # 37879

Posted: 12:46 AM, July 30th (Tuesday), 2013

(((SIL)))
Sending Positive energy and strength!

Me: FWSO 38 He: FBSO 38 and my heart
Together 20 years. We survived infidelity. "Healing takes courage, and we all have courage, even if we have to dig a little to find it." Tori Amos

Posts: 611 | Registered: Dec 2012 | From: by the sea with my love

wildbananas♀ 10552Member # 10552

Posted: 12:56 AM, July 30th (Tuesday), 2013

(((SIL)))

Travel light, live light, spread the light, be the light. ~ Yogi Bhajan