This is not to say that I wasn’t afraid of commitment at other times in my life or that cold feet is a foreboding omen, for everyone goes through their own wedding scene, but rather that sometimes, “it” can be easy.

After all, my entire life I was accused of being someone who had a fear of commitment. It was as if I showed up to the battlefield ready for war and was met by a middle school theater class fieldtrip who offered to share their lunches with me. ’ ‘Not when it’s right, I guess.’ Ah, and there it is.