After the loss of a dog, you may question whether the time is right orwhether your family is emotionally ready to bring home another dog. Considerseveral factors before making your decision.

How do we make the decision to bring another dog into our lives?Before deciding to get a new dog, sit down and discuss it with all themembers of your family. Some may really want a new dog; others may feel it’s notthe right time. Respect everyone’s opinion and feelings. Discuss what you’refeeling and why you’re considering a new pet. Open communication gives you anidea of how your family will handle the change.

Most veterinarians suggest you hold off getting a new pet if any family memberfeels they’re not ready for that step. Grieving is a different process for eachperson.

How should we prepare for a new dog?If your family is in agreement about a new dog, prepare ahead of time forthe change. Start by buying new supplies for this dog. You send a clear messageto yourself and the family you’re not trying to replace a beloved lost dog.

Let all family members take part in choosing the new dog. This process helpsprepare them for the change. Even young family members will feel grief about thelost dog, so it’s helpful for them to be involved.

How should we deal with anger over our loss?It’s important you discuss how to handle the anger about the situation. Makeit clear that this anger can’t be taken out on the new dog. Unfortunately, thissituation occurs, especially with children, so be aware of it.

Losing a pet is a heart-wrenching situation. A new pet may be the first step inhealing from that loss. Before you make that decision, think things throughthoroughly. Make sure your family is ready to offer this new dog all the loveand attention he’ll need and deserve.