Great Guide for Giving Amazing BJ's!

This book is a great book for anyone looking to add some excitement back to their relationship and who wants to totally spoil their man! While the book does not go into great depth to explain specific hand/mouth placement, it shines when it comes to explaining how to make your man feel worshiped, appreciated and how to help you incorporate some fantasy back into your relationship.

Published:
October 20, 2012

Pros:

Lots of great ideas that you can mix and match to make a great variety of sexual scenarios.

Cons:

Indiscreet.More focused on scenario than technique itself (could be good or bad).

I've read a number of sexual guides and found that this one has been truly unique. While I have read several books that emphasize hand/mouth position, this book is more a listing of fantasy scenarios to really turn on your man, coupled with some ideas of new techniques.

That being said, because this book doesn't go into great detail about specific hand/mouth placement, I think this book is geared towards someone who has already given a lot of BJ's and is looking for a way to refresh her (and her partner's desire).

Sections:
There are eleven sections to the book:

Intoduction:

Short intro to why you should give frequent BJ's and the layout of the book.

Male Anatomy:

Technical terms such as corona, frenulum, perineum, etc. are used throughout the book. In order to better understand these parts, there is an introduction to the anatomy of the male nether regions. There is also a section on how to do PC muscle exercises and its importance, as well as an explanation of the male sexual response cycle to help you figure out how close your man is to orgasm.

Instructional Sections:

There are an additional nine sections with different sorts of BJ's which include:
Fantasy BJ's
Exhibitionist BJ's
D-I-Y BJ's
Fancy BJ's
Quickie BJ's
Healing BJ's
Lazy BJ's
Special Skills BJ's
and BJ Games

With the exception of the BJ Games section, each section has anywhere from two to ten ideas for ways to give your man head. For each scenario, it explains how to set the mood for yourself or practice beforehand, an explanation of the scenario and why it's very sexy for him, last minute preparations you will need (mood lighting, wardrobe etc), along with the specific technique for the BJ. Along with each scenario, there are sex facts about male or female psychology.

Note: As much as I like this book, the appearance is NOT subtle. This is not the sort of book you would read on the train or in a coffee shop. Even within your house, it would be hard to hide and could result in some embarrassing moments if anyone decides to peruse your bookshelf. In addition to a very suggestive cover with an obvious title, there are pictures inside of real people in some very compromising positions!

Experience

I thought this book was very refreshing and is a great reminder of how important it is to make your man feel desired. For anyone who's been in a relationship for awhile, you tend to bring your A-game at the beginning when it's fun and exciting and as you get more comfortable, you tend to skip the foreplay and get to the "good stuff". When my BF mentioned he missed oral, I figured it wouldn't be a bad thing to take a glance at this book and spoil my man! Most of the scenarios in this book are based on making your man feel sexy as much as (or more than) the actual technique involved!

There are also some techniques for more advanced users such as prostate massage, 69 or a really athletic standing 69 adaptation.

This book is great because in addition to many different fun scenarios to go through with your man, there are an equal number of ways to give a BJ and for the most part it's a great thing to mix and match!

So far, I have used some of the actual techniques and my BF has very much enjoyed them. Additionally, I've adapted some of the fantasy scenarios just to use as foreplay. (The BF is afraid to actually have public sex for fear of getting caught but he sure loves to hear about all my fantasies about blowing him at the bar, in the park etc!)

There are many others that I haven't tried yet that I'm excited to play out when the time is right :-) This book has enough ideas for quite awhile!

Overall, I think its a great thing for anyone looking to spice up their bedroom repertoire!

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