Everything you always wanted to know about swingers.

We live in a tourist area and it's not uncommon to have 6 or 8 hot date listings on any given weekend night. What amazes us is how many listings either don't have any pictures, or don't have pictures of the guy. Who the hell would contact someone with no pics? And we all know what happens when we have to ask for pics of the dude, all of a sudden something came up on that Saturday night we said we were free, lol.

We weren't suggesting that people go sight unseen to meet someone. What we were questioning was that it was common for Hot Dates to be listed without pics. That almost never happens up here. For instance there are 20 Hot Dates listed for this week in Groton CT (right over the border from us). Two don't have pics. One of those two has pics on their profile but they're private so could open them if contacted.

BTW, we look at pics as only an indicator of possibility. We figure most people post the ones that they think are most flattering so we skip the ones that are angry or sad or gangsta sign flashing or not HWP (yeah, we know that a 4 to 1 ratio of weight in pounds to height in inches is a proportion but it's not one we get off on). We're not interested in spending time with people who think those are the most flattering representation of their personalities.

We always love the pics with the camera time/datestamp from 2005 :-)

Westerly RI

Username hidden
(83 posts)

User Details are only visible to members.

"but don't see the issue with no pics - is that a VA or something down south?"

Um not that isn't something in VA or down south. Most people want to know what people look like before investing time in meeting them. Frankly I can't imagine anyone who would blindly meet anyone with the hopes/intent of a Hot Date. Maybe it's a RI thing that people still blond date.

Mrs Sav

Anniston AL

Username hidden
(5501 posts)

User Details are only visible to members.

okay that settles it, VA Beach is our next vacation destination :-) We have a fair number of vacationers where we are but don't see the issue with no pics - is that a VA or something down south? We have found when we are on vacation and we try to set something up that it seems to be harder to get people to commit - perhaps because there's less to lose if they don't come through as we won't be in the local scene to meet again or to meet others and discuss the ones that no-show or cancel at the last minute?

Westerly RI

Username hidden
(83 posts)

User Details are only visible to members.

We live in a tourist area and it's not uncommon to have 6 or 8 hot date listings on any given weekend night. What amazes us is how many listings either don't have any pictures, or don't have pictures of the guy. Who the hell would contact someone with no pics? And we all know what happens when we have to ask for pics of the dude, all of a sudden something came up on that Saturday night we said we were free, lol.