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It's very normal. Guys are attracted to shiny things (ie. When a girl dresses up). Chances are, you used to dress up prior to dating your boyfriend. So why would these habits change? A girl shouldn't stop dressing up because she has found a boyfriend. It's likely that men will lose interest if their Girlfriend doesn't dress up every once in a while like she "used to". It's a completely legitimate request, in my opinion. I would expect the same. As should you expect him to look his best from time to time.

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We actually JUST started dating! And we haven't gone to any special events or an actual movie date yet so I felt no need to dress up just yet. I do dress up for dates and events though but he thinks I don't and so I kind of feel like he has the need to change me? He says I'm overreacting but I don't know :/

I think this would be an issue if you two had different ideas of dressing up. Like if you look good for a movie and he doesn't think so then he may indeed be trying to change you. Or he has a poor sense of style :P