There are two (Possibly 3, if you believe people when they say their metabolism is slow) types of overweight people; Those who complain that they are overweight and do something about it, and those who complain and do nothing.

Of the latter their are two separate groups; Those who like being (or rather, getting) fat, and those who are just weak willed.

You are allowed to eat as much as you want (Literally, no one can really tell you otherwise). But you must except societies view of you if you do as well as the health risks. You can't complain and tell the public they are wrong, just simply say 'Yeah, bacon is awesome and I will continue to stuff my face' and accept that people will see you as a 'Fat ass' or lazy. You deserve to be treated politely, but not considered flawless.

You should not judge people for their faults unless they claim their actions are perfectly healthy.

i dont care for puffin. but confession bear is established been around for quite some time. and from time to time makes me lel.
the puffin is like, im about to say something, that will invoke anger. but theres a cute animal so dont thumb me down.
idk

That's not an opinion, you're trying to pass that off as fact. I love it (no I don't) when people do that. Try to 'educate the masses' and as soon as someone calls them out 'it's just my opinion bro!'

People may have a hereditary disposition for addiction. This applies to all things though, not just alcohol and narcotics. Can apply to eating paper for ***** sake, I've seen in happen. Thinking addiction only applies to alcohol and drugs is ******* moronic to be perfectly honest.

I didn't mean to say opinion. I also didn't imply anywhere in this that only drugs and alcohol have genetic dispositions don't read into **** i didn't say. All i said was alcoholics and junkies can have a hereditary problem and it would be difficult to deal with. Obesity can be hereditary ,hell most of the time it is, i just think it is much more simple to deal with and shouldn't be treated as the same.

It's hard to tell if it's hereditary or if it's just the stupid fat parent's stuffing their kids with mountain dew and candy bars, and then blame it on genes and big bones. I've had a lot of obese friends, and all of them had excuses but that didn't excuse the fact that they drank sugared sodas and stuffed themselves with fatty, sugary treats on a daily basis. I've struggled with my weight most of my life, I lose it and gain it fast, because I work out hardcore while dieting then fall off the wagon and stop working out and gorge on taco bell. It's entirely my fault and I know completely that the blame rests on me. I went from 365 to 220 in about 11 months, and then I was back up to 320 but I'm back to dieting and working out, but in a more sustainable way.

Long story short, I recognize that food addiction and that **** can be hereditary, and very real, but I've also noticed that often times it looks hereditary when it's passed down, but it's less genes being passed and more ignorance about foods and binge-eating habits being passed on.

Well it is the same. I watched this **** American TV show once in which a lady was addicted to eating baked potatoes. The whole deal with addiction is that the body chooses immediate satisfaction over long term consequence, that applies to junk food, that applies to smoking, that applies to playing computer games in some cases. It's not up to you to decide which disabling condition is 'simple to deal with' if you're not dealing with them.

You cannot put being fat in the same class as illegal substance abuse or in the same class as alcoholics. It's like saying crossing the road without using the crosswalk is as illegal as speeding. One is far more dangerous to others, such as the walker (fat ironically) is only putting themselves in harms way where as the speeder (drug/alcohol) is actually putting others at risk besides themselves due to their behavior. But don't be hasty to judge, neither wants a bad outcome really.

I know I am fat and I understand everyone has an opinion. However, if I hear you insult my weight, I am going to want to hurt you. Just the same as someone who taunts a smoker, alcoholic, or junkie. I can't speak for everyone, but for me I don't handle taunts very well and I am sensitive about this problem, and will likely become angered by accusations and ****** remarks.

You really are just mad at yourself but too much of a coward to face your own problem. You get annoyed because you don't know what to do about it. So if someone points out your shoes are broken but your too poor to afford a new pair, ask for help.

You assume that being overweight is something you can just ask for help with anywhere. Also not mad at myself at all, my life is pretty great tbh, I just don't like being taunted or insulted. If you would like a onhand demonstration, go up to a real biker, call him a pathetic chode for riding said bike. Give 5 seconds for demonstration to begin.

Not a very good example unless I road up with something better. You shouldn't take offense over facts. Learn to laugh about them and laugh at yourself. And yes you can ask for help when it comes to losing weight, you can literally ask anyone and every single person has an opinion on it.

OP here. I like the cool down to Earth fatties who are like teddy bears and are real bros. Plus, men in general know their place unlike some women who regardless of their status, they think they're god damn entitled to everything.

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I want to gain weight aswell. People are always like "Oh you're so lucky for having a fast metabolism". God damn it. I'd rather stay hungry some hours a day than having to stretch it for 12 hours a day to stay normal. And it's ******* cheap too, to stay skinny. I have no idea how students are able to stay fat.

You're right. I don't deserve sympathy nor immunity from judgement. I don't expect that from anyone, I even don't want that. No one has really mentioned my weight to me, and I'm glad because that's not what's important. I want to be treated and judged like any other person, regardless of my weight. Treat me like I'm a cunt if I act like a cunt, treat me like a nice person if I act like a nice person. Judge me based on my personality, judge me based on my actions. If you want to talk about my weight then I gladly will with you. I'll talk about how ******* lazy I am and how much I want to be an average weighted person but can't kick myself in the ass to get moving. Like I said, I don't expect immunity from judgement, but honestly, if you judge someone because of their weight, that's your problem.

I used to be pretty big, but i lost weight to join the army. I went from 270 to 217 in 5 months, by actually working out and eating healthy. It's not impossible and there are no excuses. Anybody who says its in their genes, is full of it. My whole family is huge, but it just takes legitimate effort, instead of saying you did.

I once was fat, I exercised for 2 weeks and dieted, lost 20 lbs, didn't like being at a healthy wait so i tried to re-gain the weight, but after 2 months of laziness and no exercise, I only gained 3 pounds. Help fj i want to be fat again I don't like being normal
tl;dr how gain weight

...weight gain powder. There's not just one type of powder, you know. There's fibre powder and protein powder and carbo-load powder and weight gain powder. Go to a fitness store and they'll sort you out. It's used for gaining weight for wrestling or football, not muscle.

I'd sorta have to disagree. I was on ADHD medication for most of my life, at first for ADHD then when they found out I had narcolepsy, the medication also helped control that. Now that I'm out of school and looking for a job, I've been mostly off of my meds and I've gained nearly 30 pounds. Why? Because on my meds I would almost never get hunger pangs, and when I did I knew I needed to eat. Undoing nearly 10 years of conditioning is going to be very hard for me, and it's going to take time. So yes, being fat is my fault, but at the same time it isn't. Everyone has different reasons, so using a blanket term is stupid. But WILLFULLY obese people can go **** themselves.

It's because I'm used to eating the moment I feel a craving, as before I rarely got them. Now that I'm not on my meds, the cravings come more often, and it's hard to undo living and eating that way for 10 years.

I've been working on it, and I've started to slowly lose the weight again, but it's not "passing the blame" off. If I still took the medication, I'd drop the weight in no time at all. There would be days I'd not eat until dinner, and even then I'd barely eat, all because of the medication. Going from that to eating regularly plus snacking any time I get the slightest bit of hunger made me gain. It's taken almost 6 months to finally get back in the habit of eating properly.

It might not have forced me to eat, but a major side effect was decreased appetite. After having a decreased appetite for a full decade, you get used to eating whenever you get hungry just to keep yourself from getting too thin. Now, if you have that same idea, to eat whenever you're hungry, but now you've removed the decreased appetite, you're bound to gain weight.

I gained it in about the last 6 months or so, since the end of school. And I'm about 200 pounds at 5' 7"-ish. I don't look huge, just a bit of belly pudge, but it's obvious looking at older pictures of me.

a bit more training and you will have a better physique.
also: half a year is quite some time to get behind the mechanism that made you eat too much... you better sort it out and get used to it or you will seriously regret it one day

No I've started to lose weight recently, as I've been eating less and less. As you can see, I don't look TOO much bigger, in the picture on the right, but I did start to feel worse. Now that I've started to lose a bit of weight I feel much better.

i personally am more into the slim type, but tastes differ, right?
just dont forget to train a bit too... just dieting isnt as good and it will make your body look differently then when you lost weight and exercised a bit. dont underestimate how important smooth skin or toned muscles are for guys.

Yeah I've been trying to work out my arms, that helps me with getting "pumped up." I've never been thin or even slim. I've got "baby birthin' hips" and have always been taller/bigger than the other kids. (i was born the size of a todler, and people thought I was 2 years old when I was 9 months.) But this recent weight gain has been horrible on me.

no matter what you say, or how it feels and stuff:
running is the most basic exercise of all. it will get almost all regions well trained and help you burn fat. also it is one of the most essential basic exercises that increases your survival factor in dangerous situations. (use swimming if you're so big you are afraid to infure your bones when running)