RELATIONSHIP TOOLBOX, COMMUNICATION 101

Have you ever missed a love connection with someone while searching for Mr. or Ms. right? Why does she act like that you may ask? Ever wonder why your child was told to do something and an hour later it was not done? Why is everything a debate for her or him. The answer came to me while finding a natural cure to ineffective communication. Putting homeostasis (balance) back into relationships through communication.

Hopefully, we all know that relationships are not just centered around spouses. Relationships can be with a friend, parent, teacher, church, child or most importantly God. They can be long term, long distance, short term or close. They can cause mixed emotions, happy, or sad emotions. The effects of relationships can be detrimental (bad) to your communication habits either past of present.

Being able to effectively communicate with a person is a language that many people find it hard to speak. Communication to some may be like speaking a foreign language literally. The reason why I say to some, is due to the fact that everyone has a dominance in at least two of the five sensory organs of the brain. Visual, auditory, feeling or touch, smell and taste. Your love and communication skills must always align up with the person you are communicating to dominance area or focal point of perception. Therefore, there are certain ways you can communicate with one. The main objection is to look and listen for clues.I have read many books on the love languages. Yes, they ideally tell you were your compatibility is with a person. I want to effectively explain proper communication to you in more detail.

1.Auditory language

Then bible communicates the auditory language by reading the word hearing and listen,

17 Consequently, faith comes from hearing the message, and the message is heard through the word about Christ.

-Romans 10:17

Auditory language is and effective form of hearing. In other words, listening for clues of your spouse, children, body, Christ, World is part of your communication skill. Not just by what you say is effective communicating listening and hearing others is so also.

Auditory people will tell you what they like dislike and really mean what they say. They think before they speak.

for instance, an audile child will become verbally expressive at an early age. Putting a book in front of him will not help him learn. Playing a song with his learning material will allow him time to capture his memory.

The bible communicates visual by using the words sight and vision being used 181 times. Popular bible scriptures were

For we live by faith, not by sight

-2 Corinthians 5:7

‘“In the last days, God says, I will pour out my Spirit on all people. Your sons and daughters will prophesy, your young men will see visions, your old men will dream dreams.

–Acts 2:17

Being visual is something that not all people are good at. sometime you can tell a person is visual because of their jobs, relationships, and hobbies. The visual way to naturally communicate is to show visual expressions.

For instance, some kids are visual when learning at school so they must see a film to display information receptors to the brain. Not only are they becoming great learners, but you will be satisfying a relationship they will have in the future knowing their communication dominance.

My daughter loves comic books and looks and pictures and charts for clues. This way when I need to be effective in communicating I should find something in visual sense she can related to.

There are a few other communication styles not mentioned but I work as a holistic health coach, one of my jobs is to help you learn gainful, helpful, and healthy relationships. click here to contact me or by phone @ 888-959-2093