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marriage

why am i not married is there still chanse for me. i am a christtian i want a companion. i have 2 children of my own and 2 of my brothers boys who i have had for 10 years. my childrens ages are 14 24 19 16. is there still love 4 me god has the answer but can i get some opinions.

I had been married and divorced twice and as you can imagine thought something must be wrong with me. I figured I was destined to be single and lonely the rest of my life. God had other plans for me. I began praying for God to put just the right man into my life. After two years, my prayers were answered and I have been happily married for almost a year now. We are so much alike and have so much in common, it hardly seems like marriage at all compared to what I was used to in the past.

My marriage has been such a joy and just the way that God intended for marriage to be. Keep up your faith, God can do the same for you if it’s his will for your life. I think the key is keeping our focus on God. He wants nothing more then for us to be happy, but we have to be living for him.

First of all, I admire you for taking care of your brother’s kids. I’m sure it’s not always easy with 4 kids in the house. You seem to be a very loving, giving person.

And, just as our other sisters in Christ have encouraged you, I want to do the same. Be patient, immerse yourself in God and His word and He will send you the man of your dreams. He knows your heart and your desires and He’s probably working on it right now. LOL

Believe me, I know it’s hard to be alone and there aren’t too many places to meet the right kind of men, but I’m also trusting that God has a special man for me, too. Let’s agree together that when God’s ready....He’ll deliver.

I so feel you kitty kat. I have been very depressed myself. My 42nd birthday was last week. Since then, I am wondering what is my destiny, why am I here in this very dull city. I have been praying, waiting, and sometimes getting really angry with G-d since I am without a partner. I am getting weary of hanging-on and waiting. I want to just give up, though I will not give up. Overall, I like my life as a single woman and I when it comes to just settling for anyone, I can’t, because I want an equally attractive alternative to the life I have now. The only opinion I have for you is that G-d never fails you. He hears the desires of your heart. I just don’t know when He plans to end that pain in your heart for a loving relationship. I’ll pray for you that He gives you what you need until you hear from G-d about your prayers.

Marriage is not easy. I like being married. I met my husband when I was 19. He is seven years old. We get a long really well. The problem I have is he travels ,and when he gets home. I am use to sleeping in the bed alone,working and taking care of the kids by myself. Then he pops back into my life and I have to move to one side of the bed and tell the kids Dad knows best too. I know this sounds funny.