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what to get him?

hey everyone, i have no idea what to get my boyfriend for valentines day. i have NO IDEA if hes getting me anything.. he keeps hinting but i have no idea.. I wanted to get him something small.. anyone have any ideas??

I told my husband he could paint &amp; put new floors in the bedroom for valentines. ha. No really....he always gets me jewelry &amp; really sweet wonderful things &amp; getaways together but this year I told him no more jewelry. I only have so many necks, ear, fingers. ha. I told him we would see how creative we can be for $25 or less instead of the normal $500 or something crazy like that. I got him conversation hearts, a matt kenseth shirt, a dvd &amp; a card....oh &amp; his favorite sour nerds. ha

I been thinking on the same thing. Best advice I give. Get him something he can use, be a bit creative but just sit back and think about what he is into, or even so what you think he might like to get into create a hobby for him. Example, My BF is such a cutie, he knows I lves photography and had been wanting a nice camera for ages now, he got one and was too excited to give it to me and told me what he got me, I know a few months back he went out shooting and got a rabbit or some shit. He is not really outdoorsy but well our job requires us to carry guns, so I know he would like to own one I am going to get him a gun. The nice thing about that is the fact whenever they use it they remember who gave it to them. hope it opens up some ideas for ya.

Right now I'm setting up seperating with my wife and my head is spinning about this holiday. What rules apply, normal ones? We are just taking the space to try to work things out because we still love each other but I'm confused. Personally I would be happy with a NY Giants cap. Something that said &quot;I was listening.&quot; As for what to get her last year I got her a 700$(I use tax time to bend the rules) venetian glass and gold necklace. This year I don't know. I want to get her something that says &quot;I was listening.&quot;

Ive just got mine a couple of dvds of films he likes, couldnt think of anything else to get him . I wasnt really sure if i was meant to buy him anything as i thought v day was just for the women ?? i have got him something tho as i wasnt sure. Maybe you could get yours a dvd or a game he likes or something like that?
or some nice after shave ??

If yours is anything like mine.. Buy him something from the electronics department and he'll be overjoyed. I think I'm going to upgrade my hubby's Sirius Radio for him. They have one out that records and he just HAPPENED to mention it.. lol.. MEN...

Most men are also happy with getting lingerie also. Pick out something that you'd look drop dead in, wrap it up in a box with a card that says something like, &quot;Just wait&quot; of &quot;Tonight&quot; something simple that definitely gets the point across.

i got mine a nice silver necklace (not sure if he will like or wear it though!!) and a fabric flower from target. also thinking about sending him some balloons on the day :) haha.
last year he sent me a huge bunch of balloons to my work, and a single red rose, and we bought tea. was my first valentines day and i loved it

I was listening to the radio in my car yesterday and the DJ was saying that guys really dont want anything all that special. Guys dont care. As long as you wear either some form of lingerie (can be old) or one of his t-shirts and you act like you want to be naked with him... then he'll be happy. My boyfriend seemed to agree, which is awesome cuz he has alot of shirts that I can totally wear for a night.

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