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We all want to be loved for whom we are. We all want someone that accept us as we are. We all want to be loved on our terms, and on our needs. We want to feel accepted nurtured and embraced. We all want intimacy with the one we love and care for. The only […]

I am not a big believer in dream analysis as I find most of it to be speculative and interpretive of our current experiential situation. That’s probably where I have been wrong because that is exactly what it is all about. That it is a guide for what’s happening in our un/sub conscience is a given. […]

Maybe both of us has been harmed too much or just enough not to see the beauty of love we recognise the blood on our hands from the love we lost and fought for and still we lost so we can recognise somewhere sometime there was love but we forgot what we fought for and […]

In most cases, I would like to think of myself as a fairly level headed individual. I would like to think that I am not swayed too much by emotions. But alas I think I might have been wrong. We look back on our relationships and we see the things we would like to see. […]

We lead with our wounds, is one of my favorite relational advice from Caroline Myss. In the last few years since my divorce, I have been dating and also had the pleasure of being in a relationship for 3 years. After the last breakup, numerous first and sometimes second dates, I have been taking an extended […]

My mother was alone 19 years before her death. Could never understand that. It seems we had similar issues. Although I have been in a relationship at least the majority of my time as an adult; I have struggled with finding love for the biggest part of life. It never worked out for me. I […]

Intimacy, Identity and Lust. I have always thought that intimacy is a skill like most other relational skills. Something that can be easily acquired by anybody. But like true contentment and love it requires surrender and a good sense of self. It also seems some really hard work on yourself. I never anticipated […]

My 11 year old daughter recently mentioned not once but twice, that she does not believe in LOVE. Now I dont know how she can make that decision as according to me she’s never been in love. So obviously it then comes from watching the adults around her and based on our inept efforts she […]