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Well you have to weigh the pros and cons of each...would you really want to live with someone? Sometimes it really ends bad when you live with someone else. In your own place, you can do what you want, when you want to, and when you live with someone else, you have to kinda work around their schedule also.

It could get a little tricky: for example, she might expect you to babysit all the time, or her kids might make messes and such, leaving YOU to clean it. How about disciplining each other's children-like if her child is hitting your child? For those reasons, I'd say it would be better to stick with a one bedroom.