It’s fake anyways. You are going to burn out and get frustrated trying to get an imaginary trophy for something you really haven’t achieved.

Love the family God gave you. They are yours. Let them be real and then you can take the burden of carrying that load of putting on a show, it’s a tough crowd to please anyway. They’ll always want more and then talk bad about you anyways.

Be faithful to your audience of one – God.

Listen to Jesus words,

Matthew 11:28-30 (WE)

28 All you who work hard! All you who carry heavy loads! Come to me! I will give you rest.

29 Do what I tell you. Learn what I teach you. I am gentle. I am not proud. Then your hearts will rest.

30 What I tell you to do is easy. What I give you to carry is not heavy.’

You can be real with Him and love the family you have just the way they are.