For everybody being an idiot about feminism - Feminism means equality for all. Fem is in the name because it started with women being oppressed, but now everybody is basically. Feminism is not just for women. Someone who believes that would be consisered a Feminazi. Hope this helps and you have a wonderful day.

A few things: Glad this topic is explored graphically. NO-clip blocked my exploration of LOTR on copyright grounds just for showing and discussing a clip and I could not get a response from the documentary association I contacted so I'm curious about whether one is supposed to ask all these studios before using a clip. I do see a huge area of bias in this issue. I have had two women stalking me in frightening ways and there is little empathy for that type of thing. I also think that "trauma" is partially culturally defined. That if a man or a woman views something as a "violation" then it has more impact than when it is viewed as "normal." Secrecy often has more impact than some of the subtle forms of abuse (i.e. there are situations where a father might kiss a daughter in a mild form of incest and then tell her to keep it a secret - the secret and fear etc. bringing more harm than if everyone lived in a culture where that was fine and there was no shame/secret or sense of violation). I also think that the abuses of separation hurt many of us as much as the abuses of forced closeness. We are a culture dying of loneliness and dissociation that obsesses about anyone crossing the boundaries we have created that sustain our isolation. As social mammals our chemistry is damaged by living distant and separate lives. There is something incredibly healing and healthy in the certainty and safety of someone who always wants to be close. I have that with my own wife and have found it very rare among most Western women. We have little sense of the daily mental, emotional and physical danger of being isolated, but have fits that anyone might have touched us inappropriately. 100,000 years ago we were in the trees and had enough exercise and sleep and sex daily to be in better shape than many of us are now. I want respect for boundaries and requests. I also want a culture that raises it's people to request more touch, transparency and healthy closeness and which understands how dangerous social shallowness and isolation is to a species.

He’s a vampire! He doesn’t sleep so he doesn’t know what it’s like! He doesn’t have much human contact! He is genuinely fascinated by her! She acts like his intentions were bad. I’m getting too heated, she’s talking about this hypothetically if it were real but like you gotta take in the context

I hate her because she keep on confirming that these people got raped but if they got raped then it is going to be the whole scene that have been like oh he touched me that he would have happened Mission but if but if they touched you did you confirm it or no but they seen the characters seem like they okay with it so it really wasn't right it was confirming

So Vince Vaughn's character was only "possibly raped". "We don't know for sure because it cuts to the next scene pretty quickly". I love how she says that men can be victims as well but then smiles about this scene as she goes over it.

can understand her reaction to the girls in this vid, but with the guy NOTHING lol (feel a little bias here).let's do the reverse then.Young woman sits on the bed with unease because of a naked middle aged man in front of her, (he says to her) i have trained hard, my wife doesn't care about it and you have played cat an mouse with me all night so here touch my muscles.... and call me KittyCat/Daddy.the young woman in an uncomfortable unease (don't want to do that), and she says that to him by using his name. He responds by stating again call me kittycat/Daddy...AND i won't let you leave this Room until you touch my muscles. So she against her own will does that so she can leave ("possibly" the scene ends there).NOW with the guy in the vid the lawyer saw a Potential civil lawsuit for harassment.what do you think would happen in reverse leave an honest comment.

She says the one at 7:00 can’t be recognized as an actual crime easily. Yet if the aggressor were a male and the victim were a female, she would be exponentially more disgusted by it.I’m quite disgusted by the way she handled both the situations involving male victims.

6:59 When the lawyer said there’s no real proof of sexual assault or allegations which could be made, I think she’s wrong. That’s complete emotional manipulation. Also the woman was ordering him to touch her when he was clearly uncomfortable.

8:35I mean she took her clothes off, that has to be worth something, a dude would get crucified if he pulled his pants down and showed himself off to a woman who hasn’t given consent. She also clearly stated that she wouldn’t let him leave until he touched her breasts. That’s definitely kidnapping with a side of sexual harassment.

Good god almighty, you're dense. Researchers survey people in a study and ask them about past sexual encounters and whether they've reported any coercive sexual encounters before. This has been done for decades to estimate the population parameter of unreported sexual assaults. If you don't understand something, Google it instead of laughing and assuming you're somehow smarter than the system.