this is me about 2 months ago, the front of my hair reaches a little below my chin now and touches my shoulders (which is annoying because it makes it shrink even more)
Lately it just hasn't been looking good, i don't know how to style it, i wear it parted like this http://0.tqn.com/d/beauty/1/G/e/M/1/...rt-in-hair.jpg but like i said, it hasn't been looking good recently.

I use the cg method and i co-wash my hair once or twice a week with suave naturals conditioner and use that same conditioner as a leave in every day

Correct. If you keep growing your hair out, the curl will eventually elongate. It will just take some patience if that's the look you want. I'm tempted to ask: Pinoy? (LOL, not looking for an answer to that, just wondering out loud.)

This man here is my husband. I would say that he has like a 3c 4a texture. I know it doesn't look that way cuz he likes to wear his hair out and fro-like rather than curly. Any tips on how he should put his hair up @ night? He usually just puts it up in a high ponytail/ bun and just go to sleep. When he wakes in the AM he combs out his hair mainly in the front and back and totally forgets about the middle and now the middle has broken off a good deal. Any suggestions on hair care products HE should use cuz he's been at the mercy of my curly hair products?

There are some hair styling products are available in the market among those Instyler rotating iron was considered as best. It gives you 3 functionality in a single product. Using that single tool you can do some latest style on your hair.