About 2years after grams lost her second husband, I overheard a conversasion at x-mas about her going on a singles weekend. I asked outloud if anyone had given her the condom speech. The whole room went quiet. Then my youngest aunt, 8years older than me, popped off to granny, "yeah, mom, you gave it to us, it's your turn." Granny replied, "well, your dad never used them so all I know is what I told you from the book I read." With all the laughter going, and all the grandkids over 17, the whole family discussed safe sex, and with a nurse and a teacher in the room!