How to Let GoHow can you let go of an intimate partner without blame or hatred? How can a friendship be salvaged from a broken marriage? It isn’t always possible, but it has been done by many who were willing to expend the necessary effort. The Straight Spouse Network released the following description of the process. It can be used as a guide to nurture a healthy relationship with a gay ex after divorce. This is how it looks to let go in a constructive way.