It seems that most of the blogs out there focus on bbw, which is fine. I was just wondering were all the ladies stand on big men? What do you like about them? Do BHM only atrack BBW? Just wanted some feedback.

It seems that most of the blogs out there focus on bbw, which is fine. I was just wondering were all the ladies stand on big men? What do you like about them? Do BHM only atrack BBW? Just wanted some feedback.

I think the original question was if only BBWs like BHM. To answer that, I don't think so. I can't tell you how many times I see larger-sized men with thin women. Even on television, a big guy with a thin woman is the norm, never the other way around. I'm not saying that everyone loves BHM, but the pressure seems to be less on them to be small than on women, hence seeing more on this site about BBW than BHM.
Me personally, I have found all kinds of guys attractive, including BHM. However, it seems that BHM and other men who aren't "universally attractive" tend to be the ones who are most shallow or worried about how they'd be perceived being with a BBW (as if fat is supposed to be on men but not on women). I'm not saying all BHM are like that, but I'm just speaking from my own experience.

I think the original question was if only BBWs like BHM. To answer that, I don't think so. I can't tell you how many times I see larger-sized men with thin women. Even on television, a big guy with a thin woman is the norm, never the other way around. I'm not saying that everyone loves BHM, but the pressure seems to be less on them to be small than on women, hence seeing more on this site about BBW than BHM. Me personally, I have found all kinds of guys attractive, including BHM. However, it seems that BHM and other men who aren't "universally attractive" tend to be the ones who are most shallow or worried about how they'd be perceived being with a BBW (as if fat is supposed to be on men but not on women). I'm not saying all BHM are like that, but I'm just speaking from my own experience.

Hi there,
Well this is my humble point of view on your question.
I believe that common saying that beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
You see I can relate to both sides of the coin. I am a Big & Beautiful woman that used to be attracted only to thinner men. I guess this had something to do with my own self esteem. I believed that it was more than enough with me being the big one in the relationship.
But through LF I found my BHM, and I found out what I was missing.
I love the feeling of being protected. Being with a BHM sort of opened the fact that I could feel cherished and taken care of.
I have always been a strong female because I had to be that way, but my BHM has shown me that it is ok to express the need to be babied.
Well I believe that all men have their pros and cons just as we female do, but I really am glad to have my BHM.

Hi there, Well this is my humble point of view on your question. I believe that common saying that beauty is in the eye of the beholder. You see I can relate to both sides of the coin. I am a Big & Beautiful woman that used to be attracted only to thinner men. I guess this had something to do with my own self esteem. I believed that it was more than enough with me being the big one in the relationship. But through LF I found my BHM, and I found out what I was missing. I love the feeling of being protected. Being with a BHM sort of opened the fact that I could feel cherished and taken care of. I have always been a strong female because I had to be that way, but my BHM has shown me that it is ok to express the need to be babied. Well I believe that all men have their pros and cons just as we female do, but I really am glad to have my BHM.

BHM mmmm, love them, I have never found myself attracted to skinny of any kind although I never discriminate. However when someone walks past and turns your head I find it is a man with some extra meat on his bones.
So to all those handsome big gentlemen, drop me a note as long as you too love big women. Because I DO find you attractive, and huggable.

BHM mmmm, love them, I have never found myself attracted to skinny of any kind although I never discriminate. However when someone walks past and turns your head I find it is a man with some extra meat on his bones. So to all those handsome big gentlemen, drop me a note as long as you too love big women. Because I DO find you attractive, and huggable.

Oh. I like BHM. I just like men, but they have to be big enough that I don't feel huge. At 5'9" when barefoot, alot of men are just too short and add skinny to that. oofda. Give me a big-bulky man. Anyday.
RED

Oh. I like BHM. I just like men, but they have to be big enough that I don't feel huge. At 5'9" when barefoot, alot of men are just too short and add skinny to that. oofda. Give me a big-bulky man. Anyday. RED

There are blogs all over this site about Big men. I realize that a lot of these blogs seem redundant, but the numbers can attest to one fact: We all want to be accepted and loved for who we are AND what we look like. That's why most of us joined LF!

There are blogs all over this site about Big men. I realize that a lot of these blogs seem redundant, but the numbers can attest to one fact: We all want to be accepted and loved for who we are AND what we look like. That's why most of us joined LF!

In your rocking-chair, by your window dreaming, shall you long, alone. In your rocking-chair, by your window, shall you dream such happiness as you may never feel. –Theodore Dreiser

I think once we start loving with our hearts and soul the eyes will follow. make the effort to get to know someone for who they are, the rest is just an added bonus. Large people get judged before they even have a chance in most circumstances and that is unfortunate. JMO

I think once we start loving with our hearts and soul the eyes will follow. make the effort to get to know someone for who they are, the rest is just an added bonus. Large people get judged before they even have a chance in most circumstances and that is unfortunate. JMO

I have to say that I like all men, but what I especially love about a BHM is that many of them have loving hearts and give really great body enveloping hugs. Another thing that I like about them is that I can wear their dress shirts as a night gown. Secksy!!

I have to say that I like all men, but what I especially love about a BHM is that many of them have loving hearts and give really great body enveloping hugs. Another thing that I like about them is that I can wear their dress shirts as a night gown. Secksy!!

We live in a visual society. A society that judges, ranks, and meassures a person in a single glance. Add to that, a flash of split second 'fortune telling' also happens (i.e. picturing themselves together with that person in various scenerios). In todays world, it can be very difficult to get past that "first impression", especially if it happens to be the moment your eating a hot dog and the mustard just so happens to land on your built in table of a tummy.
My opinion on the subject at hand is , of course thinner women can be attracted to larger men. Sometimes it just takes a bit more work to get their attention is all. Be creative and put aside those fears and inhibitions that hold you back from walking up to whomever you want to meet. Your not getting any younger and what have you got to lose? Another evening alone or with the 'good ole' boys? Those boys will always be there in some form. Your opportunity to get to know that gal you've been checkin out wont be.
This applies the same for you gals out there. Take a chance. Walk right up to that person you've been keeping an eye on and say 'Hello'. Tell them straight up that you couldnt help but notice them and tell them exactly what you noticed (in a proper way of course). You would be surprised how that person is certain to notice you the next time your paths cross. *smile*

We live in a visual society. A society that judges, ranks, and meassures a person in a single glance. Add to that, a flash of split second 'fortune telling' also happens (i.e. picturing themselves together with that person in various scenerios). In todays world, it can be very difficult to get past that "first impression", especially if it happens to be the moment your eating a hot dog and the mustard just so happens to land on your built in table of a tummy. My opinion on the subject at hand is , of course thinner women can be attracted to larger men. Sometimes it just takes a bit more work to get their attention is all. Be creative and put aside those fears and inhibitions that hold you back from walking up to whomever you want to meet. Your not getting any younger and what have you got to lose? Another evening alone or with the 'good ole' boys? Those boys will always be there in some form. Your opportunity to get to know that gal you've been checkin out wont be. This applies the same for you gals out there. Take a chance. Walk right up to that person you've been keeping an eye on and say 'Hello'. Tell them straight up that you couldnt help but notice them and tell them exactly what you noticed (in a proper way of course). You would be surprised how that person is certain to notice you the next time your paths cross. *smile*

I love BHMs!! I love all men, but the ones that usually catch my eyes are the BHM. The have more of a sense of dieting and wanting to slender down. Some others say, just cut down or stop eating, a true BHM stands by you thru your diet!

I love BHMs!! I love all men, but the ones that usually catch my eyes are the BHM. The have more of a sense of dieting and wanting to slender down. Some others say, just cut down or stop eating, a true BHM stands by you thru your diet!

As I posted on another blog a few months back...
I see all sorts of women with men of size all the time! So they must like them!
I myself-I just like men....lol... I'm not picky as to what size they are.
In all actuality, the physical is transitory. A wise person knows that it's the gestalt of the physical,mental, spiritual, and sensual qualities of a person that makes them attractive. The real treasure of a person, male or female, lies within my friend. Some people can look beyond the physical and see the beauty of a person, accept them as they are, and love them because of who they are.

As I posted on another blog a few months back... I see all sorts of women with men of size all the time! So they must like them! I myself-I just like men....lol... I'm not picky as to what size they are. In all actuality, the physical is transitory. A wise person knows that it's the gestalt of the physical,mental, spiritual, and sensual qualities of a person that makes them attractive. The real treasure of a person, male or female, lies within my friend. Some people can look beyond the physical and see the beauty of a person, accept them as they are, and love them because of who they are.