Expectation is the Cause of Misery!

Life sometimes seems like a vicious cycle. The moment we are born, we have people associated with us from that very moment. We are born with some relations, however, some relations and bonds we form during our life's journey. Every relationship has expectations attached to it. When these expectations are not met, it leads to disappointment. In those times, we feel that it was a mistake to set high expectations on something that was not worth it.We think that we are now wiser and shall not commit the same mistakes again.The lesson here is that expectations are the root of misery. But sometimes, it takes more than one fall, more than one relationship to learn this lesson. We are stuck in the same cycle of events again and again.The most complex task is to change oneself. If I have an innate nature of easily trusting people, no matter how hard I try to be logical, I will still easily give the benefit of doubt to even the least convincing one. No matter how much pain and hurt it causes me later on.I would love to learn the art of breaking this vicious cycle!I am my best friend!I am what I seek!