That would be a good idea, Suz, but it's my SO's mother I don't know how comfy I am with her hanging out here.

She has some control type issues. Her 30 something year old son and 30 year old daughter still both live at home. She controls her son's checking account and knows every cent of income and expense. The daughter is apparantley tired of her, being the control freak, and is well, doing inappropriate things outside of the home, hence causing the mother massive anxiety. doctor put her on some anxiety medication, not sure which. Her blood pressure is through the roof too.

I've said a couple of times about detachment to her. I don't know that she wants to detach. I don't think the daughter is a difficult child. I think the mother is just a super control freak that needs to let go.