This Discussion Board is for men who
find it difficult or impossible to urinate in a public or social situation. Women should use the women's Board.
The Board is maintained and moderated by the
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Getting a buddy through this board is a delicate operation, especially as strangers are involved. Hence the need to build up trust. To do this it would help to use a name, to say a bit about what you can and can't do, and how you hope to organise the desensing.