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Friday, 4 January 2019

A love problem

I am a nineteen-year-old girl from Nigeria. I just started dating this guy three weeks ago. I requested to be introduced to his family members and he said we must have sex before I meet them. What should I do?

My Response:

You didn't include the guy's age. It would have been helpful. Just three weeks into the relationship and you are already asking to see his family members. I think you are rushing things. Not every guy will like to introduce you to his family members immediately he meets you.

Also, that guy you just met is not the best for you. You seem too naive, he looks like someone that will take advantage of you. At nineteen, you should be very serious with your studies, avoid guys that will derail you from your studies. Avoid guys that can't impact positively/productively in your life. Thanks for writing to us.