This has got to be one of the most confusing phrases ever thought up, and really it's pretty meaningless. Love means you have a commitment to another person. If you love someone, then you love them. If you want to LIVE with them or date them, that's a different matter. Instead of speaking in confusing, vague terms, speak clearly to your partner. Explain what you want to do and what you don't want to do. If you don't want to date any more, then say that. If you don't want to live together any more, then say that. If it's because you have drifted apart, then that's fine. But say WHY you are doing what you are doing instead of giving vague generalities.