My view is that your perceptions change over time and that in the beginning days, you might think that your (significant other, vacation, meals made at home, etc.) possess all three of the traits.

For example, I thought Evernote was A) Easy to use B) Secure C) Private until in March when I saw that it was hacked.

When I’m on a date with a girl, I tend to think she is hot, smart, and emotionally stable until another girl comes along that I compare her to and she is not so hot, smart, or emotionally stable anymore.

It’s really what you use as the basis of your comparison. Are the shoes comfortable, durable, and stylish compared to what? Walking barefoot? Yeah probably.

Interesting post, just thought I’d add my two cents.

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There are four burners in your life: “One burner represents your family, one is your friends, the third is your health, and the fourth is your work.” The gist, she said, was that in order to be successful you have to cut off one of your burners. And in order to be really successful you have to cut off two.

Fits, too, doesn’t it? Kind like the Rule of Pareto, yes? Thanks for the thinking here that made me think of this. Good on ya.

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Shoes can be durable, comfortable and stylish, if you pay what they’re worth. That’s why I would change your “pick two out of three” by saying that shoes can’t be cheap, durable and comfortable/stylish at the same time.

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I disagree. I have personally experienced or demonstrated counter examples that immediately come to mind on the points of people/personalities/significant others, shoes, meals (a great deal of my meals are cheap, tasty, and relatively easy to make), vacations/travel (many of the most exotic places are very cheap, whether you consider them relaxing is more a function of your overall style of mind, but they have been for me, unless you consider “relaxing” to be one in which you have quality material goods, which is a kind of circular logic and false dichotomy to me).
Non-fiction: no, wrong again! Check out the works of Etgar Keret. To me they satisfy all those criteria. Or the short stories of Gogol, and surely more.

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