I don't think the majority of guys do this, but there are some who aren't totally honest with what they want - and are looking for friends who might become more. And of course that means they have to look good.

But maybe there are people who are THAT shallow when it comes to platonic friends.

ricky1987 saidPlease don't make reference to age as if sleeping with someone half your age is unacceptable and lame. Besides, sleeping with someone and being friends with someone are different things.

...are you really attracted to not-fit people twice your age?

...didn't think so. NEXT.

Oh, and his message ain't one of friendship, dear.

I have been attracted to people twice my age and actually dating a guy who happens to be 18 years older than me, though he is in good shape but my point is that and theOP didn't ask you for frendship anyway, sleeping with someone is different than being friends with someone. I am sure everyone has friends they don't sleep with.

AND

I think public display of someone's private message is not really the kindest thing.

ricky1987 saidI have been attracted to people twice my age and actually dating a guy who happens to be 18 years older than me, though he is in good shape but my point is that and theOP didn't ask you for frendship anyway, sleeping with someone is different than being friends with someone. I am sure everyone has friends they don't sleep with.

AND

I think public display of someone's private message is not really the kindest thing.

The OP claims no one wants to be his friend, but he isn't trying to be friends. He's blatantly hitting on people who are way out of his league.

ricky1987 saidI have been attracted to people twice my age and actually dating a guy who happens to be 18 years older than me, though he is in good shape but my point is that and theOP didn't ask you for frendship anyway, sleeping with someone is different than being friends with someone. I am sure everyone has friends they don't sleep with.

AND

I think public display of someone's private message is not really the kindest thing.

The OP claims no one wants to be his friend, but he isn't trying to be friends. He's blatantly hitting on people who are way out of his league.

ricky1987 saidYou are nobody to judge who is in who's league. You don't like someone, move on but giving anyone a hard for it is just bullying, my guess is that it won't make sense to you.

Anyway, that is not the topic.

Actually, I am able to judge... everyone can judge whether or not someone is in someone else's league. And this crude, classless hitting-on behavior of his has no place, regardless of his appearance. Like, I'm not gonna go for an out-of-shape old guy, for one, and for two, being that forward is just fucking desperate. I don't have to dignify or tacitly condone his behavior by not speaking out against it. Enjoy your dinosaur rape lmfao

ricky1987 saidYou are nobody to judge who is in who's league. You don't like someone, move on but giving anyone a hard for it is just bullying, my guess is that it won't make sense to you.

Anyway, that is not the topic.

Actually, I am able to judge... everyone can judge whether or not someone is in someone else's league. And this crude, classless hitting-on behavior of his has no place, regardless of his appearance. Like, I'm not gonna go for an out-of-shape old guy, for one, and for two, being that forward is just fucking desperate. I don't have to dignify or tacitly condone his behavior by not speaking out against it. Enjoy your dinosaur rape lmfao

Caslon18453 saidI dont think Firebrand's point was age or sleeping. It was the hypocrisy of bemoaning not being able to be friends, when the OP obviously sent a decidely sexually explicit email to another guykitty