I hear everyone saying that anal hurts, that it's unbearable, that it's super painful, etc. I'm not in a stable relationship but I have a FWB, however, we haven't tried anal before. Until recently. I brought it up and he admitted to me that he's been interested in anal for a long time but didn't have the guts to tell me. We had a talk about it and agreed to try it.

I made sure to eat foot rich in fiber and went to the toilet beforehand. I also administered myself an enema and flushed everything out just to make sure I was 100% clean. I shaved my pussy and ass for aesthetic reasons. I was ready.

We didn't have lube but he got me horny and used my pussy juice as lube. He first inserted a finger inside and started poking around. It wasn't painful or even uncomfortable, it just felt random (like poking your nostrils). He then proceeded to insert two fingers inside my ass and that's when it started to feel nice. It felt warm and my whole body was fuzzy. I could feel his fingers applying pressure on my G spot and it felt amazing. I told him he could stick his penis in, when he was ready. So he did. He went in slowly and I assured him that I'm fine. This felt amazing. You can feel all kind of funny and interesting sensations when it goes in, it really works you up. Then he started thrusting and I couldn't help it. I started mouning loudly and told him to fuck me faster. I could feel his penis hit my stomach, I could feel my entire colon contract around his dick and all my nerves were being stimulated. I have never felt something more enjoyable. It felt as if my entire body was having an orgasm. When you have a vaginal orgasm, you only feel a rush in your pelvic area. With anal, I could feel this rush in my entire body, my blood pumping through my veins faster, my heart racing, my muscles tightening from all the pleasure. To put it simply, anal feels at least 10 times better than vaginal sex. It's almost a spiritual experience.

I let him fuck my ass for around 15 minutes then we both came together. The orgasm was like nothing I've experienced before. It blew me away, it made my knees weak and stimulated my entire body. When we were done, I dropped on his bed and couldn't move. He asked me if I was okay. I was. I was just exhausted from the amount of joy and pleasure I was feeling.

Just felt like sharing this experience with everyone, maybe more women will try it (and even men - don't forget you guys have a prostate and butt stuff feels even better for you; leave all the stigma and misconceptions behind and ask your woman to peg you...or you could just experience by yourself with a toy). If you're turned on and if you take it slow (start with fingers and work your way up), it won't hurt at all. Moreover than that, I literally felt no pain. Not even when he was thrusting in me more violently. If your sphincter can adapt to taking a huge turd when you're constipated, then it can easily take a dick in. Maybe anal isn't for everyone, but you can't know unless you have tried it. Leave your fears behind and get out of your comfort zone - that's where the magic happens. Those who say anal is painful were probably not careful enough and rushed things too much, or maybe they weren't mentally prepared (you need to be comfortable with the idea of it, otherwise you won't enjoy it). Take your time and challenge yourself.

Just felt like sharing this experience with everyone, maybe more women will try it (and even men - don't forget you guys have a prostate and butt stuff feels even better for you; leave all the stigma and misconceptions behind and ask your woman to peg you...or you could just experience by yourself with a toy). If you're turned on and if you take it slow (start with fingers and work your way up), it won't hurt at all. Moreover than that, I literally felt no pain. Not even when he was thrusting in me more violently. If your sphincter can adapt to taking a huge turd when you're constipated, then it can easily take a dick in. Maybe anal isn't for everyone, but you can't know unless you haven't tried it. Leave your fears behind and get out of your comfort zone - that's where the magic happens. Those who say anal is painful were probably not careful enough and rushed things too much, or maybe they weren't mentally prepared (you need to be comfortable with the idea of it, otherwise you won't enjoy it). Take your time and challenge yourself.

Just felt like sharing this experience with everyone, maybe more women will try it (and even men - don't forget you guys have a prostate and anal sex feels even better for you; leave all the stigma and misconceptions behind and ask your woman to peg you...or you could just experience by yourself). If you're turned on and if you take it easy (start with fingers and work your way up), it won't hurt at all. Moreover than that, I literally felt no pain. Not even when he was thrusting in me more violently. If your sphincter can adapt to taking a huge turd when you're constipated, then it can easily take a dick in. Maybe anal isn't for everyone, but you can't know unless you haven't tried it. Leave your fears behind and get out of your comfort zone - that's where the magic happens. Those who say anal is painful were probably not careful enough and rushed things too much, or maybe they weren't mentally prepared (you need to be comfortable with the idea of it, otherwise you won't enjoy it). Take your time and challenge yourself.

We haven't tried strait up pegging yet, she just uses a vibrator on me. That said, we've talked about it and I wouldn't be opposed to trying it as long as we went nice and slow. Would have to ensure it didn't mess up our Dom/sub dynamic, but that shouldn't be too big of a problem.

I've had an orgasm with prostate stimulation, but not solely from it. It's definitely on my list of things to try though! I have a Aneros which is supposed to work great for that, but it takes a loonnggg time to get it to work and I'm not always the most patient person.

We’ve never gone as far as pegging but my girlfriend has some kind of love affair with my butt, she rims me every day and she actually stops sex and asks me to lie face down - butt in air for her so she can just lick my asshole, tongue fucking me and she literally won’t stop until I make a change of action or blow my load unintentionally cause it feels so fucking good,

And I can’t remember an orgasm I’ve had outside of penetration this past year where she hasn’t had a finger or two pumping in my ass as I cum. This girl has ducking (quack) revolutionised sex for me. I end every session with my knees trembling and my body weak from the stuff she does to my butt.

GUYS. IF A GIRL ASKS TO DO STUFF TO YOUR BUTTHOLE - LET HER DO IT. ITS LIKE A CHEAT CODE FOR PLEASURE.

Just curious if you wouldn't mind sharing, how does your girlfriend mix anal play with oral? My boyfriend is very interested in anal play and so am I and we both use it while masturbating, but we're not quite ready yet to try anal. I would love to try giving him some stimulation there while blowing him but not totally sure how to go about it.

HI there OP. You state " When you have a vaginal orgasm, you only feel a rush in your pelvic area. With anal, I could feel this rush in my entire body"

When I have a vaginal orgasm I feel it in my whole body. Perhaps you might change the universal you in your post to an I statement, as in you, OP have not had the greatest vaginal orgasms and now with anal you had your first whole body orgasm.

Whole body orgasms are not unique to anal or unique to vaginal.

I am thrilled you have experienced something new here, just trying to not give misinformation that anal is some magic ticket to whole body.

Key to whole body orgasms are good foreplay, good chemistry, patient partner, etc.

That’s great you had a positive first time anal experience and it makes all the difference if the guy is slow and gentle at first. I had someone thrust in to my ass once they said later it was a mistake 🙄 I’ve barely felt pain like it, I almost vomited in pain and the agony was indescribable, it put me off anal for years! Now I’m ok with it if I trust my partner and him being gentle plus if I’m lubed up or have already had an orgasm and it’s fine now but always always do it consensually and be prepared for it.

That’s great you had a positive first time anal experience and it makes all the difference if the guy is slow and gentle at first. I had someone thrust in to my ass once they said later it was a mistake 🙄 I’ve barely felt pain like it, I almost vomited in pain and the agony was indescribable, it put me off anal for years! Now I’m ok with it if u trust my partner and him being gentle plus if I’m lubed up or have already had an orgasm and it’s fine now but always always do it consensually and be prepared for it.

It might take some time to get used to the feeling...I loved it instantly but I've heard people saying that it took them a few trials. Give it another try when you're really turned on and don't give up, unless you really hate the way it feels. You might just need to get used to the way it feels.

I think saying that it “won’t hurt at all” is a pretty broad generalization for a lot of people. I’ve tried multiple times with my long term partner and it has always hurt and never felt enjoyable for me.

I think it’s important remember that everyone’s going to have sexual preferences. Just like some people enjoy different positions more than others, anal sex versus PIV is a preference. You can be 100% healthy and not find it enjoyable/have it hurt.

This is really not accurate. Everyone's body is different and acting like it doesn't hurt for everyone does more harm than good. There could be a ton of reasons why it's painful for someone including psychological. I'm glad you had a good experience but I was a little surprised when you said you didn't use lube at all. I would never recommend trying anal without it especially the first time. You can really hurt yourself.

Yeah, my butt hole is completely normal & anal is not something I enjoy. I think because my senses are so heightened there, it’s a sensitivity type of pain. & I’ve taken it slow & used lube, still no fun. I actually envy you, & would love to be able to do anal, unfortunately it’s just not something I enjoy.

That’s a pretty big assumption to make. Just because it didn’t hurt for you, doesn’t mean it won’t hurt for others. Be careful about misguiding others with false information and potentially leading them to believe that something is seriously wrong with their health. Anal sex is very commonly painful due to the fact that the anus is not meant to receive a penis, so it can be very uncomfortable for most people. This does not indicate in anyway that someone has health issues.

I love anal tbh, but it has hurt before. The thickness of the dick also makes a difference. I've had thinner dicks that really required no prep beforehand and went in just fine but bigger ones definitely can sting at first at first entry. I've had spur of the moment anal(with a thicker dick) which I don't recommend but it didn't hurt at all for me. So I mean, it shouldn't hurt but it can if someone isn't used to it.

It's different for everyone and a lot has to do with how comfortable you are your physiology. I had an ex who told me she hated anal so I steered clear. Then a few months in I noticed she had her fingers in her ass every time we had sex. Turns out she loved something in her ass while masturbating. Her experiences with partners however had all ranged from uncomfortable to just plain bad. She wanted to give it a shot with me eventually and absolutely loved it. She ended up enjoying anal more than any other partner I have had.

Yup. Prior experiences definitely plays huge part. I stopped doing anal for a while because of a really bad experience and I'd get anxious whenever it was mentioned, or if a dick was just a little too close to that area. It wasn't until about 3 years ago that I was comfortable doing it again and had much better experiences ending up with me loving it, almost more than vaginal.

I love anal when it doesnt hurt. Unfortunately, my anal sphincter is smaller and less elastic than most people's, so it tears very easily. The times that anal has felt nice and we decided to go faster or deeper than usual, it ended up tearing a bit. Then we couldnt do any type of anal for months for it to heal. It really sucks and I wish there was a way to fix it, because anal is one of my kinks.

If anyone has any advice, it would be greatly appreciated. (Yes I've tried lots of lube, going slow, being drunk or high or sober etc etc.)

Really? I've come to use Coconut Oil for everything (makes the best Fried Eggs). Including as a hair product and even for my skin on rare occasions. My SO hates it. She teases me that I'm turning into an Organic loving New Ager. I think I just found my payback

I have tried anal a few times with my gf but she says it doesn't feel anything at all, it kinda burns afterwards no matter what I do: warm up and tons of lube, no pleasure. And if she doesn't feel anything good so do I. Its like I am masturbating with her body, it doesn't click in my mind as mutual pleasure from pussy does.

It frustates me but I don't blame her, each body is different, its ok pussy is always there

i've dated a couple girls who anal was more enjoyable and very easy to do. No lube. No working up to insertion. If you can do this, great. The chances of injury or other problems is reduced. And of course you can get freaky with your FWB anywhere. I pushed one of my girlfriends up against a wall and fucked her ass in public. It was late and no one was around. But it was wild. Same with bending her over in a car in a busy parking lot.

I’m glad you had a good experience, but I’m really tired of everyone singing the praises of anal. I find it ok, but challenging physically, and that’s not some character flaw or thing to be overcome. Men need to respect women’s boundaries, and some will never want to try anal, and that is 100% okay, just as someone else choosing to and enjoying it is.

I'm trans and I don't even touch my front bits anymore (shocker right?). Anal is SOOO much better when you train your mind to feel exactly what she described. The "orgasms" aren't as acute as that final release that lasts a only split second and they don't feel the same. An anal orgasm feels like your whole body is tingling and it's soooo much longer and is much much better, but also extremely different if you're just starting out.

My husband gave anal to at least 20 women and 10 men since we started the lifestyle and not one hurt. He has a 6.5’’ dick, on the thick side. It’s all about preparation and lube. All game back for more.