Don’t be perfect!

Sounds strange Na? 😊😊 In today’s life, everyone is running to be the best and I am saying just opposite…but yes, I mean it! Being a wife and a mother of an infant and a naughty kid, I know sometimes we stretch ourselves so much that it starts hurting😢.

A woman also needs some pampering….but who is going to do that? We will have to take lead ourselves😉 What if the dishes not done, piles of clothes teasing you, or things are scattered all around the house. Every time, please don’t compromise on your small wishes like a cup of coffee and a romantic novel or a small dose of window shopping or a lazy day out chilling and enjoying. The idea to be Imperfect is to be happy basically.😊😊

1. Take help gracefully

It’s not a crime to take help. Helping hands can be of anyone – hubby, kids, relatives….anyone! Don’t feel bad; at least husbands can help you out with some household chores, even kids can arrange their school bags etc. But don’t expect them to do the work with your perfection..😃It will be on the track ….keep patience.

2. Develop a hobby

Try to develop a hobby. A hobby can give you immense pleasure and if you could go beyond the borderline, learn something new…😃 something which can give you a sense of satisfaction and fulfillment.

3. Ignorance is the best policy

The world is full of idiots.😠😠… don’t allow any such idiot to spoil your happiness.

It’s just impossible to please everyone. So why try such a Herculean task? Sometimes it’s better to let go,😃😃 Mil wants to chat and you badly want to sleep..😞😞😞😞 so instead of yawning and trying to keep yourself awake, take a polite excuse…😃😃

5. Learn to say No!!!

Believe it or not, it’s an art to say no! And to be happy, you will have to Master this art. If you are not interested in babysitting your neighbor’s kids, simply say no! What is the point in cribbing afterward? Perfection can be a trophy for many but for me sometimes being imperfect can be a real moment to cherish. But don’t try to incorporate the entire scheme in a go…. slowly merge it into your lifestyle.😃so All the best….and learn to be Imperfect😉😉😉!

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