Saturday, July 17, 2010

Most Girls Are Friendly At First

Why is that? Because she doesn’t know you well yet and she doesn’t know if she is attracted to you yet. Every woman has very specific set of values she is looking for a guy. If a girl is young, she could just want some attention from cute and popular guy, but as a woman gets older she understand more and more what she is looking for in partner.

If a girl doesn’t like you, it simply means she is not interested. She doesn’t hate you, she doesn’t dislike you either, she is just not interested. Sometimes guys, like me get upset and you think she doesn’t like you, but maybe she just likes you as her friend and not more. We all want to be liked as much as we like someone. So, how do you know if she doesn’t like you? I think the first sign is if she looses interest and doesn’t give you attention anymore. Some girls are very shy and if she likes you, she would give you short attention but it would be consistent. If the girl doesn’t like you, then she would give you less and less attention, and finally she wouldn’t give you any attention.

It can be hard to realize the girl you liked doesn’t like back. It can be devastating in some cases, I mean, “Damn!” But don’t get angry or mad at her for not liking you as much as you hoped. Women are very emotional beings and they don’t always can predict how they feel. The better you make her feel good the more she will come back for more. If you can’t make your woman like you, don’t get frustrated. There are other women in the world who are even better than she is. She isn’t as perfect as you hoped her to be. She has her own faults and maybe you just loved the fantasy of “perfect her” instead of a real her. It’s okay to grieve a lost hope but don’t think about it too much and go find some other women to have fun with.