When I first got started in MLM so many years ago I was a very young, nieve and enthusiastic young man.

I never realized that people wouldn't just jump on board with me and we would conquer the world.

My family and most of my friends thought that I was crazy and that someone should do an intervention to help me out.

How to Deal With Haters And Nay Sayers

There are a few things that I learned over the years, and I want to just share that with you.

First off, you're never going to please everybody. There's always going to be people out there that are going to have an issue.

They're going to be dream stealers. They're going to be people that will do anything and everything they can to not let you get further along in life than they are, and the way they do that is by telling you, things like. you're in one of those pyramid things.

You're in one of those pyramid things.

You're going to ruin your family.

You're going to ruin your life. You've got to stop. What are you thinking of? You've gone off the deep end.

You're going to ruin your life. You've got to stop. What are you thinking of? You've gone off the deep end.

You need to understand there are two things that I believe that will help you to overcome these things.

One of those things is having a vision, a vision that is bigger than you. Ray Higdon, my

Michael Beckwith has a saying that “pain pushes you until your vision pulls you.”

I totally agree with that. Once you've got that vision that pulls, then it doesn't matter what anybody says. You've got the passion. You have the vision. It's going to pull you past all the naysayers, all the haters.

The second thing is that you need to separate yourself from the outcome. You need to separate yourself from results. You need to separate yourself from people's opinions.

Once you do that you're not going to care about what they think or what they don't think.

I have found over the years that when someone comes up to me and says I can't believe you're doing this, my response is to them now is that is cool. I can't believe I'm doing it either, but I know it's something that's going to change my life, my family's life, and leave a legacy for those that I love behind.

Let me ask you a quick question. Do you know anybody in your life that might be interested in doing those things with their family?

Don't ever let the naysayers, the dream stealers, those haters take away from you what you know you have. Become passionate about what you're doing, detach yourself from the results, and I guarantee that they will no longer have an effect on you.

When things don't matter, when you're good at what you do, when you are passionate about what you believe in and you have a vision that is pulling you every single day, the haters, the naysayers, the dream stealers will have little or no effect on you.

I hope this has helped you. I hope that you've got somebody in your life that's a naysayer that you can just flick away and they'll go. You have a great day.

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