Body Language Secrets

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Verbal Intercourse Fundamentals

Here are crucial statistics about how we Homo sapiens communicate with each other during courtship. Everything is based on these facts. Now you realize why Dressing for Success with Women is first!

People form 90 percent of their opinion about you in the first 90 seconds.

Communication is 60 percent nonverbal and 40 percent verbal. Of the verbal portion, only 10 percent is accomplished by the words themselves! The other 30 percent is done by how the words are spoken, inflection and tone of voice.

Nonverbal communication is achieved by eye contact, posture, gestures, position relative to the listener and the attire of the speaker. But that is not the most significant fact. Here it is—nonverbal signals have five times more impact than verbal signals.

Courtship feels dangerous. Everyone fears being rejected or humiliated and hurt. Is she just being polite or is she interested? Just notice her body language and you’ll be able to tell quickly! Of course if you’re body language is telling her, “I’m terrified,” nothing will happen! So, you have to know and control your own nonverbal signals!

Here are signs of interest sent from across the room. Most are applicable to both sexes, although a few apply only to women, indicated by italics. The sequence of the list approximates the courtship sequence.

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I describe the unsettled life and troubled times of the typical 20 year old who can become interested in dating a man. When you understand her you only need to know, on average, younger ones are worse in every way, better in none. The older ones are better in every way, worse in none.
Double the general disarray of this 20 year old’s life for a 19 year old. Quadruple it for an 18 year old. If she’s still in high school, multiply by ten.
For each year past 21 her problem is reduced by twenty five percent. A 23 year old living away from home has eliminated two thirds of the 20 year old’s ...

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All my life prior to Don's books I was basically a wimp, scared, anti-social, terrified of meeting and talking with people and especially women. I bought Don's books on Office Politics, How to Date Young Women, Body Language and began an aggressive campaign to regain my soul, in short, I went ape-shit. For the first time in ages, I feel alive. Thanks Don for everything ...

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I am 53 years old, and was divorced 6 years ago. I used to work 14 hours a day, had no life and then had a heart attack.
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I've been to 3 workshops now and after each one, my skills have dramatically improved. I started trying to date very late in life (at 32) and seriously stumbled many times being a clueless, nice guy. I asked all the wrong women and did not know what to do. I was a lonely, frustrated man at the end of my rope. At my first workshop, ...

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I bought Don Steele's book, "How to Date Young Women" back in 1997. Though I had met a lot of women over the years, I usually didn't get more than one or two dates.
After I read his books, I began to get more dates and the relationships lasted longer. Hearing his radio show CDs and attending workshops speeded up the process. At the workshops I ...

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