A Basic Girl in a Basic World

Sunday, April 16, 2017

01. Have you ever been in a car accident? I've scraped against cars while backing up and I've hit a pole other than that no lol

02. Do you have a lot of scars? idk lol03. Have you ever been in a fist fight with someone? yeah right04. Have you ever seriously hurt anyone by mistake? probably05. Have you ever had stitches? who hasn't

B – Beauty

06. Do you consider yourself beautiful? sure07. Are you self conscious of how you look? yes

08. Do you put on a lot of makeup? I never wear makeup lol09. Would you ever consider getting plastic surgery? I joke about it but in actuality no

10. What do you like about your hair? my curls and the how it naturally ombre's in the sun

C – Consequences

11. What was the longest amount of time you’ve been grounded for? months haha12. What would you do if you got pregnant, keep it or have an abortion? lol 13. Do you ever think about how your actions affect other people? depends on the person14. What do you think is the worst punishment someone could give you? I really don't know15. What is one thing you wish you didn’t do, just because it wasn’t worth it in the end? a lot

D – Dealing

16. When you are mad at someone, how do you show them? I ignore them or yell at them and tell them to stfu17. Name a time when you had to be strong. college18. Have you ever dealt with a divorce ? no19. When people at school don’t accept you, or have problems with you, how do you react?

1-800-did-i-ask20. Have you ever lost someone to death? Explain how you got through it. no, fortunately

E – Experience

21. Have you ever had a job? Any volunteer jobs? I worked at my dad's rehab clinic on and off since I've been at school and I also had a couple other volunteer jobs22. Do you think that you are experienced, or not at all? lol23. Have you gone through a lot emotionally, or has life been easy thus far? I've just been going through life

24. Do you think you are ready to be on your own (have your own home, job, etc.)? I feel ready but we'll just have to see25. How old do you act? what's my age again

F – Family

26. Is there anyone in your family you don’t talk to? Why? yes because she and her mother are crazy27. If you had to choose, family or friends? fam +steven +meg28. Can you tell your parents or one of your parents anything? probably29. Do you have any siblings? If so, do you ever get jealous of them? I have 2 sibs and I've gotten jealous before but I don't really get jealous anymore30. How often do you spend ‘quality time’ with family members? when I am not busy with school I hang out with them

G – Growing

31. How tall are you? How tall do you wish you were? 5'1, wish I was like 5'632. Do you think that you have grown more in the past year than any year before that? probably33. As a person, do you think you are mature for your age or still act childish? both

35. Do you believe you still have a lot to learn? duh

H – Hope

36. Love – real or not? real, ask steven for a different answer lol37. Are you a pessimist of an optimist? depends how stressful my situation is at any given time38. Do you believe in fate, that everything happens for a reason, or do you think that our actions lead the way? both, but rather than fate, I would say statistics39. Do you think that after we die our spirit is still alive? idk40. What gives you hope when you just feel like dying? lol

I – Issues

41. Do you suffer from depression or constant sadness/loneliness? I don't think so, but like I said it depends on how stressful my situation is at any given time42. Do you have any type of disease or disability? no not really, I have performance anxiety but who doesn't lol43. Are you currently in a hard relationship or have bad luck with the opposite sex? no I've been happy with every relationshipI've ever had that's why I have 15 exes:-)

44. Do you think that you are alone in this world? no45. How often do you think about death, suicide or running away? what are you my counselor?

J – Jokes

46. Say a word or phrase that would not be funny to anyone but you & one of your friends (an inside joke) most of my jokes are just references to tv shows sorry47. Are you usually the one who makes people laugh,Or the other way around? I don't really understand the question sorry48. Do you cry when you laugh hard? yes49. Write down a hilarious moment you had with someone that makes you laugh to this day! idk I think it's really funny when steven talks with vapor in his throat because his voice gets really deep and he sounds like a robotic kermit the frog50. Do you ever get in trouble for laughing or talking a lot during class? not now but I have before I don't want to talk about it +Katelyn Mathis

K – Knowledge

51. The purpose of school: to learn, to cause trouble or to hang out with friends? to learn--I'm not gonna ask my parents to pay for my tuition so I can hang out with my friends wth52. Do people refer to you as smart, dumb, or average? depends who you ask53. What was the highest grade you have received (full course mark) ever? 100? guess I'm dumb compared to other people sorry54. What was your last average? This year would you like to maintain it or aim higher? 3.2, Iwould like to get it to a 3.5 by the time I graduate55. What do you find the most interesting subject to be (to study or to talk about)? sociology or English

L – Love

56. Are you currently in love? If not, have you been before? yes

57. Do people around you show you a lot of love (tell you they love you, hug you, kiss you, etc.)? I only want them from one person (minus my fam)58. Is love worth it? ?59. Do you hate it when girls in their young teenage years say they ‘love’ someone that they’ve been dating for a few months? if they say it then they believe it so I'm not gonna get mad about it??60. Does it take a lot for you to say you love someone, or is it just a word? it doesn't take a lot I'm not overdramatic about it

M – Money

61. Do you believe that money makes the world go round? pretty much62. Is your family on the poor side, average, or above average when it comes to money? average to above average but me and steven are dirt poor:)63. Are you saving up for college/university, or planning to? my parents are helping me out thankfully64. Would you rather win millions of dollars & be set for life, or find the perfect person to marry & start a family with? idk sorry steven (Iwould come back for you)65. On a scale of 1-10, how important is money to you? well given that I'm choosing creative writing as my career choice I would say not much lol

N – Naughty

66. Are you a virgin?67. What do you think about doing sexual things with someone you’re not going out with?68. Do you know anybody you consider a ’slut’? What makes you say that?69. If you could, would you erase some things you did in the past or make it so you did more?70. Do you consider yourself more nice or more naughty? You can’t say both!

O – Openness

71. How long does it take for you to open up to someone? I will tell someone I just met my ssn lol72. What does it take for you to fully trust someone? I would .8 seconds73. Are you generally untrusting towards people because of past experiences, or any other reason? I wouldn't say I am untrusting (is that a word) but I am sort of guarded I guess idk

74. When are you comfortable with someone? I've already answered this you can't just reword questions and ask them again75. When it comes to parents and close friends, what’s the limit of what you can tell them?I tell steven and meg everything and my parents I just decide in the moment

P– Positive

76. Have you ever had an experience with someone that didn’t necessarily end positively? If so, would you rather erase the memory of that person because of the sad times or keep the memory of that person because of the good times? depends how bad it ended lol

77. Do you agree with the saying: better to have loved and lost than not have loved at all? I mean depends on the person hahahahaha78. Are you more optimistic or pessimistic? What do you try to be? DEPENDS ON MY SITUATION IF I HAVE TO SAY THIS ONE MORE TIME I WILL LEAVE THE REST OF THESE ANSWERS BLANK79. Do you agree that something good can come out of everything? depends on your outlook but yeah I suppose so80. Have you ever had a time where something really bad happened, but something really good happened because of it? If so, please exlain what it was: I don't really feel like thinking about terrible things that have happened to me sorry

Q – Questions

81. When faced with a problem, do you ask for help or try to figure it out yourself? I will usually ask for help but sometimes will bottle it up 82. Do you often question the world and how we came about? What are some things you would like to know about creation? I definitely question it--I'm forced to think about it bc steven is a philosophy major so he always talks about crap like this84. When someone does something wrong to you, do you confront them and ask them why they did it or just let it go? I will either confront them or stew over it until in confront them so I will always confront I guess85. What is one unsolved mystery about the world that you want answers to? what gets wetter as it dries

R – Respect

86. How do you show respect? eye contact87. What can someone do for you to lose all respect for them? be unappreciative88. Do you respect your teachers, parents, and other authority figures? I mean yeah89. When you are disrespectful to your parents, what is the punishment? "get out of my house" or "don't come home"90. If someone is mean to you, are you mean back or do you kill them with kindness? what do u think

S – School

91. If you are still in school, what grade will you be going into? I'll be a super senior in the fall92. When will you graduate high school/college? I plan to graduate next may93. After high school, what did you do/are you planning to do? college94. Do you like or hate school? What do you like/hate about it? high school was annoying while I was there but now I miss it95. Have you ever been suspended, expelled, or dropped out of school? I've been suspended lol

T – Temptation

96. Have you ever done something wrong, knowing it was wrong, because something inside of you said it was okay? ?DUH?97. Has anyone ever pressured you to smoke or drink? Did you do it? um they have asked me if I wanted to do it and I chose to do it bc I was an immature but consenting adult I don't really believe in blaming my decisions on other people98. Why did you do it? Because I felt like it

99. Did you ever want to do something sexual with someone you didn’t really know or love? bye

What did you end up doing? bye100. Do you give in to temptation easily, or are you more independent and strong willed? bye

U – Unique

102. Do you do a lot of things because your friends are doing it? what friends103. Do you follow trends, wear whatever you want, or wear really unique pieces? do t-shirts, leggings/shorts and chacos count as trends?104. Do you give in easily to peer pressure? Do you do things such as smoke, drink, or have casual sex? BYE OMG WHY ARE YOU IN MY BUSINESS105. What makes you different from people your age? I wake up early to do homework

V – Value

106. What’s the most expensive thing in your room? probably the tv107. What’s more valuable: your life or the lives of your loved ones? Would you sacrifice your life for other people? yes108. What is something you value not because it cost a lot, but because it means a lot to you? I really don't know probably the cards and notes that steven has written me 109. If there was a fire in your house/apartment, what is the first thing you would grab? steven, laptop, phone110. Do you think past memories and experiences are more valuable than what could possibly happen in the future? hard to say

W – Wishes

111. If you had three wishes, what would they be? money, health and real happiness112. Would you rather wish yourself to be happy, or your loved ones? both113. Do you believe that wishes come true if you really believe in them? I mean wishes can really only come true if you do something to make them come true114. Have you ever had a wish come true? If so, what was that wish? I wished for a unicorn and then a unicorn sat on my pillow in the morning, thanks aunt Brenda115. Do you find wishing for things a waste of time because everything that’s meant to happen, will happen? I mean even though I don't believe that wishing will do anything, in don't think it's a bad thing to do that if it makes the person feel better

Y – You

121. Are you more independent or social? independent122. What is something that makes you very mad when you see it? a lot of things haha123. Do you think that you have potential to do great things? I think I'll be all right I just have to push through124. Do you think people are born a certain way, or develop their personalities based on what they go through in life? trick question--you're born gay/straight but other secondary personality qualities are developed through nature/nurture/luck125. Do you think people are generally good? no

Z – Zest (ok?)

126. Are you currently happy with your life? Why or why not? it's aight127. Do you go on FacebookCraze.com to get facebook survey’s and quizzes like this one? how is this zesty128. When change occurs, do you get scared or are you excited for it? both129. Do you like to try new things, meet new people? eh

Sunday, April 17, 2016

RULES: Once you've been tagged, you are supposed to write a note with 99 Truths about you. At the end, choose 25 people to be tagged. You HAVE to tag the person who tagged you. LOL like I know 25 people I'll choose 1 +Katelyn Mathis

hello peoplei am here to talk about my weekend which is not very exciting but hey at least it's a blog post...ok so I will start on FridayI relaxed after my hellish week and tried to recoup from the lack of sleep I got on Wednesday night/Thursday morning bc I was up writing my rough draft...So I relaxed & tried to sleep throughout Friday but I didn't sleep a wink unfortunately:'-(Then Daniel had a concert at 7:30 so Steven & I went to support himI put make-up on and straightened my hair for like the first time in 6 months...Then we left and I bought myself a frapp and Steven did a survey & got a free large ocean water from sonic (<3life)So we got to the concert and it was good, my fave song was "entreat me not to leave you" i've been listening to it since thenThen Daniel's fam took us all out to dinner to Bulldog Burger...probably the best burger I've ever had in my life (and yes better than Mugshots) by like 1,000,000!!!!So Steven & I eventually were able to go to sleep and we set alarms for 6:30 because on Saturday we got to go to Jackson!!! {FUN}ALLY!!!! (just trying to be cute...)Needless to say we "accidentally" slept in until 8:30 but we quickly packed and were ready by 9:30.We left and we drove pleasantly until we got to Jackson around 12. Oh yeah, and we stopped for Chickfila breakfast (Steven's favorite)He got 2 chicken egg and cheese biscuits & a large Diet Coke and I got a 3 ct chicken mini and a spicy chicken biscuit & a large drink... (note to self: don't eat cfa biscuits while driving!!!!!!)So yeah we got to Jackson around noon, checked in and hung out. Then we went to eat lunch at some point (yes our day revolves around food bye) we ate a P.F Changs...Deluscious...THEN everyone finally arrived and we went swimming it was very relaxing until a group of like "pre-teen" girls came to the pool and I swear it went from quiet and relaxing to screaming and chaos in like 5 seconds...So eventually I got SO tired so Steven & I went back to the room while every1 else swam for like another hour...his niece had so much but was avenged when she got a really bad case of swimmer's ear...ouchThen every1 cleaned up and we went down to the hotel lobby around 5 or 6, because the hotel was having a happy hour where there were snacks like "bar snacks" like cheese and cubes of cheese, pretzels, chips, goldfish etc, and they were serving free drinks!!!I didn't drink because I just don't like drinking anymore and they were only serving wellwater and wine, both of which were just not my cup of tea (my drink of choice in case any1 cares is an amaretto sour ;))So Steven ordered a vodka tonic and his mom had wine and his sister got Blue Moon so me and Steven's niece were the only ones not drinking...back to the kiddie table just like my childhood lol jk :\Then we went upstairs & played Uno & Scattergories then Steven & I went to Panera Bread and brought people food then we went for a drive & then to sleepToday: will be less detailedWoke up @ 8am and ate breakfast it was goodThen we packed up and checked outWe drove to the zoo and hung out outside until his fam got there but we convinced them to go to lunch first because we weren't going to stay at the zoo long and we didn't want them to waste their $ bc we r nice like that.So we went to Olive Garden and we ate I got the usj(sp?)Then we went out separate waysWe got home around 6 and I've been relaxing since I got backI showered again (I always feel dirty after being in a hotel idk why)So yeah that was my weekendGood talk!

3. Name three songs you are currently playing nonstop: The Show Goes On, Black Umbrella, and Run The Heart (Loba - Shakira, Roses by the Chainsmokers and BB Talk by Miley Cyrus

4. Name one song (give lyrics) that best describes your life right now:

[Happy tree, I drink smoothies

Don't worry dawg, I'm tryin' to find my shrimp

In the cabbage patch, pink spaghetti

500 crackers I was saving for my granny

Cosmic wings, whoopsie

Let's buy two big industrial windmills

I already got one

Who needs three?

Well, the first one... I broke it]-Black Umbrella; "Miley Cyrus" (THAT WAS A BAD LIP READING WHAT THE HECK) & I'm too lazy to do so atm

5. Name one song (give lyrics) that best describes your life one year ago:

[But I'm a creep

I'm a weirdo

What the hell am I doing here?

I don't belong here

I don't care if it hurts

I want to have control

I want a perfect body

I want a perfect soul

I want you to notice when I'm not around

You're so fucking special

I wish I was special]-Creep; Radiohead same

6. When you're driving, what are the preset stations on your radio: KZ 103 but I usually just plug my phone in and listen to it that way. 93.3 or 94.1

7. What's the last CD you bought: Um... Ke$ha from like 2 or 3 years ago. i can't remember the last cd i bought...it's probably the same Ke$ha CD.

8. Was the last CD you burned an actual CD or a mix: A mix. Same

9. Name one song/band/singer you're embarrassed to like but do: Aly & AJ. Breaking Benjamin

10. If you could only attend one concert ever again, it would be: .... 30 seconds to mars. [I put dots to symbolize my extreme thoughtfulness on this question.] Miley Cyrus

11. Name one band/singer you absolutely can't stand: I can't think of any atm

12. Name a group you use to like but feel you've grown out of:The A-Teens. Are they still making music? AHHHHH I remember the A-Teens

CIRCLE THREE: MOVIES/TELEVISION

1. Name your favorite actor: Edward Norton. hmm idk

2. Name your favorite actress: Helena Bonham Carter. ^^^

3. Name your favorite television show right now: American Dad. I don't really watch tv. HTGAWM, House of Cards etc
4. Name five really cool movies you've recently seen: Clerks, Requiem for a Dream, Dogma, Fight Club, Gone Baby Gone Zootopia, How to be single, Primal Fear (I've seen that b4), Oculus (same) & The Conjuring (same again)

5. Your favorite canceled television show: Ren and Stimpy. (idk!)

7. Name one movie you wish you hadn't wasted time/money on recently: I don't knowww. same

8. You would never watch a movie with: Katelyn... All she does is try and shove her feet underneath my legs... (Alex bc he talks & always makes everyone predict the ending and it takes the fun out of everything)