No, I'm not gay. I have a wife and 2 kids and love sex with my wife. I also understand that the human body is what it is, and I can appreciate one touching in on the sensations that body posses.

I have had the aneros for about a year now and have used it probably 30-40 times. The furthest I've gotten is the sensation one gets right before they pee. My anus twitches every so slightly and then it just kind of goes away. Is this it? There is a little seminal fluid at the tip of my penis after 30 minutes of this, then that's all I can accomplish. I always then end with manual stimulation.

This sounds incredibly gay, but is there a vidso out there that shows what the aneros is going and what the penis is doing during all this? I usually lose my erection after the aneros is put in. Arroused or not, it usually goes away.

Many times, I'll stimulate the prostate by moving the aneros in and out...this defeats the purpose and isn't really what I'm after. Once, I actually sat on it in a padded chair and rocked my hips back and forth....then I was reminded that I used to have a girlfriend that liked to do it like that and that bothered me.

I too don't feel much from the perinium tab. I can really feel the tip of the aneros against my prostate when I pull the tab out slightly and move the aneros down towards my anus more. It's as if it needs to be bent and angled differently.

I bought mine from a massage store where I live, and have talked to the guy that sold it to me several times and we have spoken quite candidly about it....but he is at a loss as what to tell me now. I have considered bring the aneros in so he can talk me through it....but I don't really know what would be accomplished and would be a little uncomfortable. Talk about trying to relax!!!!

So, I guess my question is, is there someone that's videoed the process, so that I know it this tingling in the head of my penis is all I'm going to get or not??

I'm not sure a video will help much! I joked about doing one, because I thought it would be kind of pointless. I might try it and see if there is anything that another man might gain from watching it.

The slight anal spasms you are experiencing are the onset to bigger and better ones. It took me over a year to figure it out and gain control over them.

If you start to get them and they stop don't give up, they are still there. Pull the aneros in slightly. Try to control and maintain the tension in the muscles. As they start to quiver try to drawn it in a little further - ever so slowly. Don't stop if it does. Just continue and be patient. It often feels like it stopped when it didn't.

The quivering will change into small contractions, moving the Aneros across your prostrate. As you pull in a little more the sensations get stronger and stronger. You'll feel like you are going to cum, but you won't. You can hold it there for as long as you are able.

You do not need and probably won't have an erection. However, after one or two of these episodes, it won't take much to get you hard and make you cum. And boy will you cum, especially if you leave the Aneros in.

I'm not sure a video will help much! I joked about doing one, because I thought it would be kind of pointless. I might try it and see if there is anything that another man might gain from watching it.

The slight anal spasms you are experiencing are the onset to bigger and better ones. It took me over a year to figure it out and gain control over them.

If you start to get them and they stop don't give up, they are still there. Pull the aneros in slightly. Try to control and maintain the tension in the muscles. As they start to quiver try to drawn it in a little further - ever so slowly. Don't stop if it does. Just continue and be patient. It often feels like it stopped when it didn't.

The quivering will change into small contractions, moving the Aneros across your prostrate. As you pull in a little more the sensations get stronger and stronger. You'll feel like you are going to cum, but you won't. You can hold it there for as long as you are able.

You do not need and probably won't have an erection. However, after one or two of these episodes, it won't take much to get you hard and make you cum. And boy will you cum, especially if you leave the Aneros in.

Wanting to see what its like is not gay, IMHO. It's natural, since you can learn so much from watching what others do. Do not feel bad about it, or that wanting to see that makes you gay somehow. First off, being gay is not a bad thing, and either you are or you aren't, I mean, nothing you will do can change you from being gay to being straight or the other direction. So relax :)

The twitching is not it its just the start. I think what you're doing is breaking up the sensations your body is generating, by being active. Instead of thinking about doing, and actively doing, things with the Aneros, relax and let your body do what it wants. Just observe, don't actively do anything. If nothing happens, change positions. Or hold a quarter contraction for a while (like one minute) and let it go. You'll be amazed that your body reacts to the release of energy when you let go with starting some involuntaries.

The most successful position for newbies like me is laying down on the bed, with a pillow in the small of my back, and my knees raised and feet flat on the bed as close as possible to my buttocks. I insert, then just relax and let my body start the process. Again: I do absolutely *NOTHING*, my body does everything.

Another position I found good to get things started is on my left side, with my left leg straight and my right leg bent so that my right ankle is on my left knee. I have problems with that position because my penis gets stimulated by rubbing against the bedsheets, so I often lose concentration that way. The on my back position works better for me.

I spent the last week at the beach with my wife, which meant no interruptions from kids or work. I got to spend some quality time with my Aneros, and, man did it pay off!

To get to what I'm thinking was a Super-O, I had to relearn a lesson I learned as a newly wed. When I was a teen, I was so desperate for an orgasm that I would literaly BEAT my monkey every day. I got an orgasm quickly, but didn't experience truly satisfying orgasms until my wife came along and showed me the value of slow stroking and savoring each sensation along the way. It turns out I had the same problem with impatience when it came to using the Aneros. I'd put it in and, using hard-flex contractions, I could get myself to a point of feeling some pleasure, but never felt I'd made it all the way to the Super-O. I discovered, again, that the best way is to go slowly and enjoy all sensations along the way. I found that, if I contracted just slightly as I inhaled, held, blew out and then repeated the process many many times, I would experience all kinds of flinches and exquisite feelinga along the way. I frequently found that there were spots where the Aneros toughed my protate and the feeling was so good that I just held there for as long as the feeling would last. It was an incredible session, full of wonderful feelings all through my abdominal region, followed by increased breathing and a tightening of all the muscles in my body until I started to jerk (as if my entire body were ejaculating). It ended by an extra-hard full-body contraction that was followed by the same feeling of release as a penile ejaculation, but, rather than shooting my wad, my body shot it's tensions and left me feeling relaxed and extremely content. This process repeated itself over half a dozen times during the course of the hour-long session. It makes me want to use it every day. Too bad I don't have the time!!

I would like to see a video of all this too. Seeing is beliving. You guys could wear a mask if you want. But I just want to actually see all of this hard to believe wild pleasure for my self. If your not shy, and have a digi cam make your self known!

Well, after I typed that new thread I tried heating the stem of the aneros and pulled the perinial tab in closer to the ribbed stalk where the spincter grabs it. This angled it in a little too severly and put more preasure on the perinium. the preasure on the perinium was really interesting, but the preasure on the inside was maybe a little too much. I tried to straighten it back out and it snapped in two!!

On my next one, I think I will try the smaller Aneros. Even though I am tall, 6'4", I don't think that translates to a long reach to the prostate.

I don't think the video will help either. It wasn't meant as a joke...it's just that in a world that comes with instructions, the aneros is a very different kind of thing.

By the way, the most successful position I have found is to sit in a chair with my feet up on the table and the small of my back resting on the front edge of the seat. I can work on the computer, surf porn, talk on the phone, whatever. I'm beginning to miss it!

You know why no one will make a video? Because it's a big scam! No one really shakes and cums like hell or nothing. It's just a way to promote a suppose male sex toy which doesnt work unless you are a brainstormer and can make yourself cum by just thinking. Now is that why I want to buy the toy? To work harder and brainstorm and meditate to cum? Hell no.

Did you buy one? I admit I haven't reached that point yet, but have had great experiences trying. I can only speak for what I have experienced and will say that from the moment it enters there is no doubt it is something completely different. The problem is that everyone is built completely different. I would bet there are no two rectums the same. This would explain why some guys get so well and easily and others just read on in envy. It sounds gross but it's too bad they don't a dozen different shapes you can "try on" like shoes before you buy your size and shape.

This is why I think with my next aneros, I'm going to do some serious reshaping. I've played with it enough to know what really does it and wiht a little effort, I may be able to get some more pleasure from it.

It's not for everyone, believe me. I still have major second thoughts about it, butI can't argue with biologoy....it's just how we're wired. Why not enjoy it.

As for the video, I don't think seeing someone with this thing up their butt would teach anything either. I was more interested hearing someone talk their way through it and see how long they tense those muscles for and where the sensations are coming from. I can read pages and pages of instructions, but when I go to try it, I forget what it was I read. It would be helpful I think to have a tutor to listen to their experience when their feeling it.

I guess a part of me really wants proof all that is promised can really be achieved. Seeing would be believing I guess.

I videotaped a session I did, but it doesn't really show anything. There is one weird thing I noticed though. If I fast forward the tape I can see my balls "rolling around" inside my sack. It's virtually unnoticeable unless you see it at high-speed, but it's as if my nuts have some place to go.

If I ever begin to dial-in the Super-O, I'll definitely share the tape. I'd do it for no other reason than to help others. Of course my voyereuristic side would be satiated as well. :)

I too am wondering if this is all I am going to get out of the aneros. I have used it about 6 times in the last 2 weeks and have not really had any more intense than I do with out it. a viedo would be great or at least some web cam time...let me know if any wants to cam2cam...tchado1@yahoo.com

Originally Posted By: crtjssslNo, I'm not gay. I have a wife and 2 kids and love sex with my wife. I also understand that the human body is what it is, and I can appreciate one touching in on the sensations that body posses.

I have had the aneros for about a year now and have used it probably 30-40 times. The furthest I've gotten is the sensation one gets right before they pee. My anus twitches every so slightly and then it just kind of goes away. Is this it? There is a little seminal fluid at the tip of my penis after 30 minutes of this, then that's all I can accomplish. I always then end with manual stimulation.

This sounds incredibly gay, but is there a vidso out there that shows what the aneros is going and what the penis is doing during all this? I usually lose my erection after the aneros is put in. Arroused or not, it usually goes away.

Many times, I'll stimulate the prostate by moving the aneros in and out...this defeats the purpose and isn't really what I'm after. Once, I actually sat on it in a padded chair and rocked my hips back and forth....then I was reminded that I used to have a girlfriend that liked to do it like that and that bothered me.

I too don't feel much from the perinium tab. I can really feel the tip of the aneros against my prostate when I pull the tab out slightly and move the aneros down towards my anus more. It's as if it needs to be bent and angled differently.

I bought mine from a massage store where I live, and have talked to the guy that sold it to me several times and we have spoken quite candidly about it....but he is at a loss as what to tell me now. I have considered bring the aneros in so he can talk me through it....but I don't really know what would be accomplished and would be a little uncomfortable. Talk about trying to relax!!!!

So, I guess my question is, is there someone that's videoed the process, so that I know it this tingling in the head of my penis is all I'm going to get or not??

Thanks

C

I too am wondering if this is all I am going to get out of the aneros. I have used it about 6 times in the last 2 weeks and have not really had any more intense than I do with out it. a viedo would be great or at least some web cam time...let me know if any wants to cam2cam...tchado1@yahoo.com

I happen to know that there's at least one Japanese porn video that has an Aneros appearance (seemed like the classical model before the MGX came out). The video is all about a crossdressed girl giving prostate massage to a guy and a girl fu**ing boys with dildo.

There's another video (which is also Japanese one) that a girl is giving prostate massage to a guy and making him cum without touching his penis a once. Also there's a book about Enemagra (that's how Japanese call Aneros) published. Patent holder of Aneros is Japanese person as well... why are Japanese so interested in prostate?

Originally Posted By: biddlemaI'm not sure a video will help much! I joked about doing one, because I thought it would be kind of pointless. I might try it and see if there is anything that another man might gain from watching it.

The slight anal spasms you are experiencing are the onset to bigger and better ones. It took me over a year to figure it out and gain control over them.

If you start to get them and they stop don't give up, they are still there. Pull the aneros in slightly. Try to control and maintain the tension in the muscles. As they start to quiver try to drawn it in a little further - ever so slowly. Don't stop if it does. Just continue and be patient. It often feels like it stopped when it didn't.

The quivering will change into small contractions, moving the Aneros across your prostrate. As you pull in a little more the sensations get stronger and stronger. You'll feel like you are going to cum, but you won't. You can hold it there for as long as you are able.

You do not need and probably won't have an erection. However, after one or two of these episodes, it won't take much to get you hard and make you cum. And boy will you cum, especially if you leave the Aneros in.

Anyway, I hope this helps.

Aneros StimulatorI want each of you to know that it does work. I have learned to just relax and breath deep and relax yourself. I use a small pillow under the lower part of my back also and twist maybe to the right or left just a little with legs about 8:00 time on clock and just relax. THIS is the most important part of it is RELAX AND RELAX. When you start getting the big O you will know it. I always get the it and I get strong erection and when the contraction of the splinster muscles starts twinching as I get harder the penis is twinching along with the muscles also. Again learn to relax. Sometimes it will take 15 minutes and other times it may take 45 minutes or longer but again learn to relax. You don't need to make it happen. It may help to pull the Aneros in tighter and release as others have said to really get the prostate part position on it right. It really does help to get your bowels cleaned out first though.I hope that this helps many out on getting the help you are needing in using it. IT DOES WORK. I use it regular as I have a lot of spinal problems and need to have the help to keep the prostate cleaned out. My urologist is fully aware of this and he endorses incourages me to have weekly ejaculations and this does help me in that area.Good sailing with the ANEROS.Caring

Originally Posted By: Dryan OrgissI happen to know that there's at least one Japanese porn video that has an Aneros appearance (seemed like the classical model before the MGX came out). The video is all about a crossdressed girl giving prostate massage to a guy and a girl fu**ing boys with dildo.

There's another video (which is also Japanese one) that a girl is giving prostate massage to a guy and making him cum without touching his penis a once. Also there's a book about Enemagra (that's how Japanese call Aneros) published. Patent holder of Aneros is Japanese person as well... why are Japanese so interested in prostate?

Japanese has the lowest rate of prostate cancer, and a culture involving massage institutes where women massage other mens prostate, just as normal as we go to a gym to stay fit.

Is there someone who would like to watch a video clip?Some involuntary contractions are shown but, sorry to say, not Big O.Frontal view only, and you cannot see Aneros itself.Running time is 3 minutes 10 seconds, and the size is 845kbytes.

Originally Posted By: eveningblueI got it!!!!!!!!Wow, your willy was really jumping. Was there any precum/ The video was a little dark.

Thank you so much for this. I guess the Aneros really is real!-E

Thanks, EveningBlue, for your comment.

Yes, it was jumping as if it has another life.I always have only a little precum, and I must agree that the lighting was not enough. So I am afraid it is difficult to see it in the clip. But yes, a bit of precum was there.

And let me say again that this IS NOT Big O.Filming was too distracting for me to get to the real part.Each contraction was felt like cumming and it was like long-lasting usual orgasm, but that was just the appetizer.

Originally Posted By: crtjssslNo, I'm not gay. I have a wife and 2 kids and love sex with my wife. I also understand that the human body is what it is, and I can appreciate one touching in on the sensations that body posses.

I have had the aneros for about a year now and have used it probably 30-40 times. The furthest I've gotten is the sensation one gets right before they pee. My anus twitches every so slightly and then it just kind of goes away. Is this it? There is a little seminal fluid at the tip of my penis after 30 minutes of this, then that's all I can accomplish. I always then end with manual stimulation.

This sounds incredibly gay, but is there a vidso out there that shows what the aneros is going and what the penis is doing during all this? I usually lose my erection after the aneros is put in. Arroused or not, it usually goes away.

Many times, I'll stimulate the prostate by moving the aneros in and out...this defeats the purpose and isn't really what I'm after. Once, I actually sat on it in a padded chair and rocked my hips back and forth....then I was reminded that I used to have a girlfriend that liked to do it like that and that bothered me.

I too don't feel much from the perinium tab. I can really feel the tip of the aneros against my prostate when I pull the tab out slightly and move the aneros down towards my anus more. It's as if it needs to be bent and angled differently.

I bought mine from a massage store where I live, and have talked to the guy that sold it to me several times and we have spoken quite candidly about it....but he is at a loss as what to tell me now. I have considered bring the aneros in so he can talk me through it....but I don't really know what would be accomplished and would be a little uncomfortable. Talk about trying to relax!!!!

So, I guess my question is, is there someone that's videoed the process, so that I know it this tingling in the head of my penis is all I'm going to get or not??

Thanks

C

I don't think there is a video out there on this. For one thing, it is difficult to show what is happening inside the anus. Ther is a website that shows a pciture of the aneros being placed into the anus, that is all, it doesn't help.

If you like, you can email me and see how I can give you advice. I have helped someone before to use it successfully. I have been using the Aneros for over 2 years, still using it now.

By the way, I also use my fingers to massage my prostrate and anal region. It is my finale at the end of my Aneros session.

I just ordered an Aneros today. Last summer I had prostatitis. My Urologist explained to me that it would be good to drain my prostate regularly. Masterbation is a way to do that. Well, doctors orders...but he really didn't have to, however the frequency he suggested was more than I was doing. Let me back up here, I have been divorced since 1992 and still single and not all that sexually active. Just mostly in the shower alone, or in bed alone. Last November I started on blood pressure med and stress med that affected, not my libido or ability to get erect, but it has affected my ability to ejaculate. I remembered stumbling across this site last summer. Since my experience with prostatitis, and concidering I probably will be single for a long time, I am very concerned about the health of my prostate. I ordered one of these to, hopefully, help me drain my gland and maybe have a good time at the same time. No I am not gay or bi even. But I do hope this will help me do, ultimately,what my Doctor ordered...well, he encouraged me to do.

I've had the occasion to speak with two doctors about the Aneros. The first, my urologist was interested enough to ask for the web address (I gave him the High Island site). Frankly he didn't have too much to say on the subject, (I suspect he was more interested in being the provider of the yearly finger wag) although he did not discourage me in the least. The second physician that I spoke to about the Aneros is medical doctor now practicing in a holistic setting. The way that the subject came up with him was when asked him about treatments for prostatitis and he actually recommended prostate massage to me. When he suggested that my wife might offer me this service, I revealed that she was less than enthused at the prospect and that I had discovered a way of self-administering the massage. Again, I rattled off the High Island address and he went on line while I was standing in his office to check it out! (He bookmarked it too!)

I just recieved the video that the guy from the \"An Aneros Video\" thread was sending out. And I must say that it was a pretty amazing video. If your interested in viewing it just post your email addy in the other thread and someone will surely send it to you.

Originally Posted By: eveningblueI just recieved the video that the guy from the \"An Aneros Video\" thread was sending out. And I must say that it was a pretty amazing video. If your interested in viewing it just post your email addy in the other thread and someone will surely send it to you.

-Eveningblue

would love to see the video[email]onemillionby30@hotmail.com[/email]thanks!

ive had the aneros over 2 years.it took awhile to get the groove 'almost a year'but i could reach the big o without touching myself.now depending on how long ive been without and making sure i was empty in the bowel i can reach in as little as 15 minutes.sometimes i spend 2 hours or more and can control when to release.the longer the better/use plenty of lube to start.saves having to relube. ive started /stopped to where im spent and still have the feeling of orgasm . it works. but it does take time and practice.hang in there its worth it when you do get there!!

Originally Posted By: eveningblueI just recieved the video that the guy from the \"An Aneros Video\" thread was sending out. And I must say that it was a pretty amazing video. If your interested in viewing it just post your email addy in the other thread and someone will surely send it to you.

I just found the one video in the locked thread. That was super interesting and more than made up my mind 197% towards purchasing one as soon as my funds clear. DO NOT ASK ME TO SEND THE VIDEO. THE REQUESTS WILL BE IGNORED IGNORED IGNORED!

Originally Posted By: RodemIs there someone who would like to watch a video clip?Some involuntary contractions are shown but, sorry to say, not Big O.Frontal view only, and you cannot see Aneros itself.Running time is 3 minutes 10 seconds, and the size is 845kbytes.

i would be intested to view your clip!nothing much is happening when i used the thing

Originally Posted By: RodemIs there someone who would like to watch a video clip?Some involuntary contractions are shown but, sorry to say, not Big O.Frontal view only, and you cannot see Aneros itself.Running time is 3 minutes 10 seconds, and the size is 845kbytes.

i would be intested to view your clip!nothing much is happening when i used the thing

please, could somebody send me the video? I would like to buy one, but I would be sure how (and if) it really works! Thanks:Please, send it to: [email]permasto@tiscali.it[/email] Contact me also if you want to give me any advise to buy it or not! Thanks al lot!

Originally Posted By: crtjssslNo, I'm not gay. I have a wife and 2 kids and love sex with my wife. I also understand that the human body is what it is, and I can appreciate one touching in on the sensations that body posses.

I have had the aneros for about a year now and have used it probably 30-40 times. The furthest I've gotten is the sensation one gets right before they pee. My anus twitches every so slightly and then it just kind of goes away. Is this it? There is a little seminal fluid at the tip of my penis after 30 minutes of this, then that's all I can accomplish. I always then end with manual stimulation.

This sounds incredibly gay, but is there a vidso out there that shows what the aneros is going and what the penis is doing during all this? I usually lose my erection after the aneros is put in. Arroused or not, it usually goes away.

Many times, I'll stimulate the prostate by moving the aneros in and out...this defeats the purpose and isn't really what I'm after. Once, I actually sat on it in a padded chair and rocked my hips back and forth....then I was reminded that I used to have a girlfriend that liked to do it like that and that bothered me.

I too don't feel much from the perinium tab. I can really feel the tip of the aneros against my prostate when I pull the tab out slightly and move the aneros down towards my anus more. It's as if it needs to be bent and angled differently.

I bought mine from a massage store where I live, and have talked to the guy that sold it to me several times and we have spoken quite candidly about it....but he is at a loss as what to tell me now. I have considered bring the aneros in so he can talk me through it....but I don't really know what would be accomplished and would be a little uncomfortable. Talk about trying to relax!!!!

So, I guess my question is, is there someone that's videoed the process, so that I know it this tingling in the head of my penis is all I'm going to get or not??

Thanks

C

The first and best thing you can do is stop labeling things as "straight" or "gay". Accept that this is simply something that feels good and I suspect it will soon feel better.

I can't see that a movie will help much as you really can't see what's going on inside and that's where the pleasure points are.

You haven't said where you live but if you can find someone skilled in prostate massege, he or she will be able to demonstrate the sort of sensations you can expcet to experience and maybe help you deal with the guilt issues.

Originally Posted By: RodemIs there someone who would like to watch a video clip?Some involuntary contractions are shown but, sorry to say, not Big O.Frontal view only, and you cannot see Aneros itself.Running time is 3 minutes 10 seconds, and the size is 845kbytes.

You are incredibly narrow-minded. A male or a female wanting to watch another person of the same sex enjoying pleasure does not mean that they are gay or lesbian. If that was the case, every person who ever watched hetero porn could be classified as gay or lesbian.

Have you ever watched hetero porn? I suppose you only watched the female, huh? Did you cover the portion of the screen that showed the male? Turn your head during ejaculation? I think not.

You need to come to terms with the fact that being gay means a male having an emotional (i.e. loving) attraction to another male. Simply watching another man enjoying sexual pleasure does not make a man gay.

Originally Posted By: DillonWanting to see a man put a butt plug in his ass and have an orgasm is the definition of being gay. Just deal with it brother, you like the cock and the male butthole!!

dildo uh dillon,

You appear to be the highest floating closeted mary fairy in the gallaxy IMHO...Usually those who protest too much are the biggest ones. Stop your denying and come on out. Come to grips with yourself. BTW isnt it interesting the topic of your little curiosity search on the web....

Takes one to know one darling, "Hi there"

HB

Gentle sirs,

getting in touch with all of your body in terms of sex and sexuality is the greatest adventure of life gay or straight.