You're talking divorce all OVER this place -- perhaps instead of posting the nonsense that you do, you might want to go back and READ everything that you've posted.

Being married and being abused? Well if it's working for you -- but obviously it's not as you're here. There's no honor in remaining married to someone that allegedly abuses you -- is this behavior something you'd like your kids to emulate?

If you're okay with it, then you have no issues. If you're not okay with it, you have choices. I'm going to take a shot and state you're NOT okay with it.