the idea from the original post was to give people a chance to come up with humorous things to think about while trying not to cum.

but um, no. you didn't miss a thing.

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I didn't miss any point, slow down you might even enjoy it more

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think you kind of missed the point... but ok

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How about just slow down and enjoy it

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FunCpl, I think it has a lot to do w/ letting your guard down and being comfortable. You can do/be that with your own mate, but there is so much going on in group situations, that you're distracted, aroused yes, but not able to just let go.

We find that in all sorts of swing scenarios and it seems the norm, rather than having to think of something to prolong an orgasm for you guys, you find that you might have to close your eyes a bit and NOT think of all that's going on if you want to have an orgasm in a swing situation. What usually happens with us is he does a lot of fucking, but doesn't ejaculate with anyone else, then does with me when we get back together. Comfort and familiarity. He says it's b/c no one has turned him on as much as I do...what a way w/ words, eh?

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Just think about getting your dick caught in your zipper, lol, If that don't work, nothing will. Well maybe the thought of having to pull your zipper back down to get free.

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when in a group you are thinking about the jounery and all the things you can do, not the end results, in the bedroom you are thinking about the end and how good it will feel.simple......BS.....

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Thanks for the welcome FunAhoy and thanks for the encouragement.

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FunCpl, welcome to the forums.

Nothing to be embarrassed about. I think everyone agrees that sex in the presence of others changes all the dynamics. It can be distracting to some, even to the point of making it difficult for some men to maintain an erection, and for some women to reach orgasm. When you are in the privacy of your own bedroom, those distractions don't exist.

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Alright, an embarrassing question for you guys or ladies that have jumped into the forum but here goes. How is that the Mrs. and I can go to Hedo, have sex all over the place surrounded by other couples doing them same watching and being watched in an enviroment where you can't think of anything else and I can last ten times longer than I can in the confines of our own bedroom?

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