craving sex mentally

I can't get dirty thoughts out of my head. But physically there's not much going on. I think it's because I don't feel I can enjoy it. I get the hard belly when I orgasm which I really don't like. It really freaks me out. I'm dreaming of the day I can get all crazy with my man again. But I'm worried about getting pregnant again quickly so I'm going to have to figure that out. Anyone else havin these issues?

I can't get dirty thoughts out of my head. But physically there's not much going on. I think it's because I don't feel I can enjoy it. I get the hard belly when I orgasm which I really don't like. It really freaks me out. I'm dreaming of the day I can get all crazy with my man again. But I'm worried about getting pregnant again quickly so I'm going to have to figure that out. Anyone else havin these issues?

I wish a hard belly was my only concern... I have not been allowed to have sex for 14 freakin weeks now. After orgasm your uterus contracts. It is totally normal. Just relax afterwards and take a couple good breaths in through your nose, out through your mouth. Unless you have anything else going on along with the contractions, like bleeding or something I wouldn't worry do much but just enjoy. Pregnancy orgasms are the best!

I wish a hard belly was my only concern... I have not been allowed to have sex for 14 freakin weeks now. After orgasm your uterus contracts. It is totally normal. Just relax afterwards and take a couple good breaths in through your nose, out through your mouth. Unless you have anything else going on along with the contractions, like bleeding or something I wouldn't worry do much but just enjoy. Pregnancy orgasms are the best!

I just told my husband that I mentally want him but I can't "get a hard on". He laughed and understood. We haven't been able to find my g-spot in months (ob says it can move during pregnancy). I have not been able to climax in 5 months so I don't find the pain after sex worth it. Thankfully he understands.

I just told my husband that I mentally want him but I can't "get a hard on". He laughed and understood. We haven't been able to find my g-spot in months (ob says it can move during pregnancy). I have not been able to climax in 5 months so I don't find the pain after sex worth it. Thankfully he understands.

I understand your frustration. I've been a horn ball the whole time but dh finds it to weird. he says he is scared of hurting her. at my last apt the doc didn't have to go far to feel her head so I won't be getting any till it's all over with.

I understand your frustration. I've been a horn ball the whole time but dh finds it to weird. he says he is scared of hurting her. at my last apt the doc didn't have to go far to feel her head so I won't be getting any till it's all over with.

Ivonne I totally agree!!! I had the best ones during my first pregnancy and couldn't get enough. I was really looking forward to more this time around, but nooooo this baby had to go and move things around.

Ivonne I totally agree!!! I had the best ones during my first pregnancy and couldn't get enough. I was really looking forward to more this time around, but nooooo this baby had to go and move things around.

I feel the exact same way! Physically I don't want it, but mentally I cannot wait to have sex again and think I might be an animal the first time after baby comes. I don't know about b/c yet because I plan on breastfeeding. It's something I haven't ran past my doc yet...

I feel the exact same way! Physically I don't want it, but mentally I cannot wait to have sex again and think I might be an animal the first time after baby comes. I don't know about b/c yet because I plan on breastfeeding. It's something I haven't ran past my doc yet...

Physically I do not want sex at all, I've found it uncomfortable and tedious since early on (I'm 33w) but I usually give in around 1-2 per fortnight... It freaks me out now because bubs kicks during sex! I know it's not going to hurt her or anything but I just don't enjoy it... Can't wait until sex "feels" normal again and I don't have a little one moving inside me...

Physically I do not want sex at all, I've found it uncomfortable and tedious since early on (I'm 33w) but I usually give in around 1-2 per fortnight... It freaks me out now because bubs kicks during sex! I know it's not going to hurt her or anything but I just don't enjoy it... Can't wait until sex "feels" normal again and I don't have a little one moving inside me...

Happy1128: yeah that really sucks! Not even allowed to masturbate :( I'm going nuts!Doc said I can try again after I'm 38 weeks (4 more weeks till then...) I'll probably have to have my hospital bag ready for afterwards and give our neighbors a heads up that they will probably have to watch our boys... ;)

Happy1128: yeah that really sucks! Not even allowed to masturbate :( I'm going nuts!Doc said I can try again after I'm 38 weeks (4 more weeks till then...) I'll probably have to have my hospital bag ready for afterwards and give our neighbors a heads up that they will probably have to watch our boys... ;)

You just spoke my mind! I think about it and want it all day and when it comes down to it it's just too much work. DH has a hard time getting past the fact that his junk is in the same space baby's head will be soon. He thinks he's going to hurt her..... I don't have the heart to tell him that it won't reach quite that far lol

You just spoke my mind! I think about it and want it all day and when it comes down to it it's just too much work. DH has a hard time getting past the fact that his junk is in the same space baby's head will be soon. He thinks he's going to hurt her..... I don't have the heart to tell him that it won't reach quite that far lol

Yea. My husband has no clue what to do with me. He's like should we do it? Should we not? What do u want? "Well I want to get all crazy on you dear. But it's weird. So I'll settle for some snuggling. Oh but now you're asleep." :( a couple of weeks ago my sil ( who apparently is the pregnancy and baby know all about everything. I'm pretty sure she believes she invented babies and pregnancy) is talking to me and my other pregnant friend and is like " one thing I really miss is pregnant sex. Ok 1) eww. Your pregnant sex is with my brother! 2) no. We can't relate so zip it. Haha. 3) eww one more time. Your baby is 2. That must be some awesome sex to still be talking about it. But stop telling us. We are two hard up preggies. Haha

Yea. My husband has no clue what to do with me. He's like should we do it? Should we not? What do u want? "Well I want to get all crazy on you dear. But it's weird. So I'll settle for some snuggling. Oh but now you're asleep." :( a couple of weeks ago my sil ( who apparently is the pregnancy and baby know all about everything. I'm pretty sure she believes she invented babies and pregnancy) is talking to me and my other pregnant friend and is like " one thing I really miss is pregnant sex. Ok 1) eww. Your pregnant sex is with my brother! 2) no. We can't relate so zip it. Haha. 3) eww one more time. Your baby is 2. That must be some awesome sex to still be talking about it. But stop telling us. We are two hard up preggies. Haha

Would love to get some, and have all sorts of sex dreams, but just as im about to make a move on my husband, she kicks in there and completely puts me off. Its been almost 4 months now... Never thought I could go that long w/o.

Would love to get some, and have all sorts of sex dreams, but just as im about to make a move on my husband, she kicks in there and completely puts me off. Its been almost 4 months now... Never thought I could go that long w/o.

I am so with you on this! I'm craving sex so bad in my head! My dreams are awesome...But when it comes physically, I'm just like get it over with already! I haven't had an orgasm since being pregnant (depressing!) and I never have problems in the past. Hell the night this girl was conceived was one of the best nights sex wise I've had in my 5 years of marriage. Not saying sex isn't great with him, it was just a really awesome night for some reason. I'm going to use the line someone said earlier about "not getting it up" cause that explains it all right there!

I am so with you on this! I'm craving sex so bad in my head! My dreams are awesome...But when it comes physically, I'm just like get it over with already! I haven't had an orgasm since being pregnant (depressing!) and I never have problems in the past. Hell the night this girl was conceived was one of the best nights sex wise I've had in my 5 years of marriage. Not saying sex isn't great with him, it was just a really awesome night for some reason. I'm going to use the line someone said earlier about "not getting it up" cause that explains it all right there!

I am with u! I think abt it often, but don't want to do it because it is so uncomfortable and my baby moves around like crazy and it completely ruins it for me. Can't wait until I am all healed up to have normal sex. Will be using condoms so I don't get prego again!

I am with u! I think abt it often, but don't want to do it because it is so uncomfortable and my baby moves around like crazy and it completely ruins it for me. Can't wait until I am all healed up to have normal sex. Will be using condoms so I don't get prego again!

I can totally relate! I am horny and have even watched porn and gotten myself off... But actual sex isn't fun anymore. Too complicated, awkward and uncomfortable. Can't wait to feel normal again so I can attack my hubby!

I can totally relate! I am horny and have even watched porn and gotten myself off... But actual sex isn't fun anymore. Too complicated, awkward and uncomfortable. Can't wait to feel normal again so I can attack my hubby!

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