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How Do You Know If A Girl Is Of Age?

Hey Doc,

How do I know if a girl is over 18? Also, is 18 always the age that it’s OK and legal to have sex?

Most women find it offensive when you ask their age. Somewhere in history, it became impolite and ungentlemanly. But, if you’re risking illegal sex or hooking up with a minor, I say abiding by the law is more important. It’s not as easy as we think. In 2007, hip-hop artist Akon was kicked off a concert tour when he engaged in a sexually explicit dance onstage with a girl who was under 18. Before you start criticizing and judging him, the incident happened at an 18-and-over event and the underage girl somehow made it past security. The moral of the story? Always ask. There are a lot of women under 18 who look older, and it’s not a defense to say, "I thought she was older."

It's illegal to have sex with a minor in the U.S. There are carious laws, such as statutory rape, sexual abuse of a minor and lewd conduct or acts, that a person can be charged with. The age of consent depends on the state, as there is no national age. The age of consent also varies among countries. The age of consent in California is 18, but other states are different. Most range from 16-18. Here's a list: www.age-of-consent.info. Do some research.

In addition, each state has different laws written for their minors. Many are confusing and don’t make sense given the reality of teen and adolescent sexuality in the modern era. For example, in California, two minors who are both 15 can engage in vaginal intercourse legally. But it’s illegal for any minor under 18 to engage in oral or anal sex. What do they have against mouths and rectums? More than half of teens have oral sex before 18, and I’m sure a few minors sneak a penis in the backdoor before going to college. Makes little sense to me, and many sexologists question what criteria politicians and lawmakers use to write these laws.