Sexually Submissive White Men – Part Three

This is the final part in my series on racism in erotic imagery/ Mandingo stereotype.

I have been reading this blog called afroerotik, it’s a Black sexuality blog, but she talks a lot about racism in erotic images as well. One thing she brought up in one of her blog entries was the fact that the down low situation in the Black community gets put on national news, but the phenomenon of Black men Mandingo parties & cuckolds gets no real press. It got me thinking, she is right. It is quite bizarre that some white men secretly fantasize about being sexually submissive to both Black men and Black women, but ESPECIALLY to Black men. I challenge you to go on the Experience Project (a non-pornographic website) and just search for Black men, white men, cuckolds and you’ll be shocked the stories that come up. I know there are white men who get off on being sexually submissive to Black men. I know there are white men who fantasize about “sharing their white wives,” with Black men…they’re out there. However, the down low phenomenon gets put on blast, but the “latent homosexual,” desires of sexually submissive white men is ignored.

A lot of the stories you’ll find on the Experience Project really have underlying racism in them. It’s as if the white men who have these fantasies are projecting all the things that white men have done historically to Black people in their sexual lifestyles. For example, probably about 95% of the stories of white men cuckolds focus on how the Black man “humiliates,” the white husband by having sexual relations with his white wife and forcing the white husband to submit to the Black man’s authority. Some even have “impregnation fetishes,” where they dream of their wives, in their own racist words, being “black bred.” They fantasize about having to care for the illegitimate biracial child that the Black man and his white wife have created. Think back to the days of Jim Crow & Slavery and you know the white slave master and the racist white men could have sexual relationships with the Black women, whether she was married or not. Often, the Black woman and Black men had to raise the children born of these relationships. Just look at the story of Ruby McCollum for a good example. It is truly tragic and very upsetting to look at history and see the injustices done against my people.

So now fast forward to today….

It seems like in the warped minds of certain closet racist white men, this type of scenario is arousing enough for them to project their desires onto this Black Mandingo cuckold fantasy. These white men have flipped the script and put themselves into the position that Black men have historically been FORCED to occupy, but unlike our true history, these white men have the privilege of being able to end this fantasy and go back to being white any time. They may submit in the bedroom, but in the boardroom, in their everyday life they cling to their white privilege. In other words, they can go back to being white and privileged when the Mandingo party is over.

What is especially disturbing to me is the “impregnation fetish.” Now, I don’t know if the white men who have this “impregnation fetish,” are just fantasizing or if they’re seriously doing this, but it’s very problematic for someone to bring a child into the world for such racist reasons. How is a half-black child going to feel having racist white parents who had them conceived just to fufill some racist, erotic desire? It’s very troublesome to me.

I think Black people need to start putting this racism on blast. Why should racism be tolerated in erotic/porn genre?

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I think Black people need to start putting this racism on blast. Why should racism be tolerated in erotic/porn genre?

Menelik says:

because without these dark fantasies we would never know what resides in deep depths of the white male imagination, and this article would never have been written. Its better to know what goes in the mind of a potential enemy than not!

I am a white professional man who knows my position is to serve black men as submissive n financially. I’ve been trained for this and love this life position. Black men will be offered my total obedience. contact me

ANY GUY WHO GETS ENTERED FROM THE BEHIND OR WANTS TO HAVE ANAL SEX WITH HIS WIFE OR GIRLFRIEND is a walking GERM and extremely DANGEROUS..condoms CANNOT PROTECT from this since the c’s were supposed to be a form of birth control. Since c’s dont do that well why do we care! dont know how common that is BUT most guys who pierced their ears,platt, or sag their pants are unfortunantly black! We need to NOT PLAY INTO STEREOTYPES!

ANY GUY WHO GETS ENTERED FROM THE BEHIND OR WANTS TO HAVE ANAL SEX WITH HIS WIFE OR GIRLFRIEND is a walking GERM and extremely DANGEROUS..condoms CANNOT PROTECT from this since the c’s were supposed to be a form of birth control. Since c’s dont do that well why do we care! dont know how common that is BUT most guys who pierced their ears,platt, or sag their pants are unfortunantly black! We need to NOT PLAY INTO STEREOTYPES!….the color of the pig is irrelevant though……

Bob is not a troll. That is the disaffect white men have when it comes to their sexuality. Reality is blurred for them. I can assure you that Bob fantasizes and has done more extreme things than you can imagine.

very well written 3 part series. Good point about black women in erotic lit. and in the porn industry, its as if black women don’t exist.
As for the hotwife/cuckold kink that seems so popular nowadays, I just don’t get it. I would never care to see my wife with another man. I’m a little torn about condemning others tho, I always have believed what consenting adults do is their own business, and who am I to judge. But if a man treats his own wife this way, I wouldn’t be suprised if he thinks of all women as sex objects. In that respect it starts to involve everybody.
Personally my own take on this type of behavior is its just more racism and sexism brought to you by white men with a twisted idea of what a relationship between a man and woman should be like. I’m a married white man who has been lucky enough to have been married to a wonderful woman for the past 30 years. Sorry about the long comment, I just feel that racism and sexism is such a cancer on all humans, I hope someday we can get past it.

It is an interesting view… but I think you always pretend to see the racism in the white people, even in that, when is obviously the opposite. I think the racism here is in the wish to revenge of all that dark slavery past… I think that kind of cuckhold porn is for black men comsuption. They can satisfy and repay their more negative inferiority complex that they sadly could have been carry on.
Frankly speaking, I think that kind of surveys which pretend asses that interracial porn is mainly focused to white men comsuption is a bullshit to avoid the negative fact that is actually happening of underlying reverse black racism behind it. In this essay you, the author, are getting two aims at once, you are again putting the “racist” label on white people (as always), and trying to show that some of them are the most degradate and they hide the most degenerate dirty little secrets in their minds… however the trully degenerate is the mind of that black people who need to feel “a piece of power” throught that kind of porn and usually fantasize that they have the same size of the male actors performing the video fucking a white woman as trophy.
Sadly the racism is a common illness in the whole humanity, neither is white nor black. So, it must be a middle point in this approaches. If you research you will find how the origin of slavery is in the very Africa in the middle of tribal wars, and when white sailors arrived there searching for trade, the africans sold the rival tribe’s people as slaves in order to be used in American crops and so on.
Racism is an evil that must be fought on all fronts.

i don’t understand your argument at all and don’t compare servitude in Africa to an institutionalized form of chattel slavery in the United States….please don’t make me go through the differences between them…but that argument has been used again and again usually by “Racist” whites…it’s tired.

I sometimes fantasize about sharing my girlfriend with a black dude, but the dude cannot have a dick bigger than mine. I simply like the contract of colors. I am a well endowed myself, my girl can only handle half of my dick as it is, but I doubt that I will ever act on that fantasy. I will just think about it while I jack off or when I am having sex with her.

i doubt it’s just the color contrast that turns you on, if that were the case u could get a color contrast from an indian, latino or olive skinned white man, I think it’s probably the history and the stereotypes about black male sexuality and how potent it supposedly is that turns you on…i don’t believe in this racist culture that its possible not be to affected on some level by that imagery. there is a specific reason that imagining your white wife with a black man gets you off moreso than other things…let me ask you this, do YOU desire to have sex with a black man at all?

The obvious flaw in your logic is that the ‘history’ only applies to Americans. What about European men who have cuckold fantasies? They’re out there. And most white people living in the world today had nothing to do with slavery. Only in the US. So what’s your explanation for that? If I’m quite honest you seem pretty racist yourself. It’s always the naughty white man with you people. I don’t see why you don’t go back to africa if the US is so horrible, I’m not American but from what I’ve studied…White privilege? No, more like minority privilege,
Crap post.

my family is American, we were born here and have lived here for 200 years, the US was built off the backs of my ancestors…so we’ll “go back to africa,” when we get 200 years worth of reparations…as for why some European white men have cuckhold fantaises..well it’s the same reason that some white american men do. Just because slavery didn’t last “as long,” in some parts of western Europe doesn’t mean racism doesn’t exist and it doesn’t mean white privilege doesn’t exist…it does. many goods that were shipped and traded with western Europe were built from the labor of Blacks…like the cotton that was used in England and across the west…3/4 of that was manufactured by Blacks in the south…so their wealth and trade was affected by slavery too, even if they didn’t directly own slaves…Lloyds of London built their company off of slavery…oh and let’s not forget the fact that most of the regions in Africa were colonized by Europeans who instilled racist and rigid doctrines of white supremacy throughout those colonized lands…

so the “taboo,” that comes from the idea of white supremacy is still there because of the history…and “minority privilege,” in the US there is no such thing and spare me the projecting or your racism onto my posts…how am I racist when I’m speaking out against racism?? I’ve never once in my posts stated or implied that Blacks were superior to anyone else…so give me a break with your projection.

“Built off our backs”…mhmmm, really? I don’t think doing some raw labour really makes the country built off of your people’s backs, seems a bit self-glorifying to me. And again, the topic of slavery. 200 years odd years ago is a long time for American blacks to still be whining about this. I’m European, since the dawn of history other Europeans have been enslaving other Europeans, I have slaves in my family tree? You don’t see me going on about North African privellege because the Arabs enslaved my great great great great great great great great grand-aunty do you? Heck some Scottish slaves were even sent to the Americas, and you never, ever see us complain about that.
Yes alot of the wealth was made off of slavery. But African-Americans are the only group in all of history to have whined about it for so long and act as though they are the only group of people to have ever been enslaved, EVER. And the sad thing is, most white Americans are super PC and liberal these days and they are still accused of racism. People like you have affirmative action and they say minority privellege doesn’t exist?
Some of your other posts are alright, but like most black people you can’t seem to go a day or two without making some reference to whites. White people do not make a million references to minorities a day, yet any black blogger it’s all about the White people, and you deny being racist? Racism doesn’t just have to mean being ‘superior’ to that race, any generalisations or prejudice in the way you treat people of another race IS racism of a milder form. You and most minorities in the US are very guilty of this.
As for the “projection”,nah it’s my opinion. In all honesty. I’m not the most PC myself, the white men who do what’s in the title are most definetly not racist, that assumption is laughable. They’re faggots into BDSM who want to be punished for what there ancestors supposedly did. See that as racist if you want but to me it’s just pathetic.

yes this country was BUILT off of the Blacks who were FORCED to labor for generations against their will we built the economy of the south and the NORTH was implicated in the economy because they were the ones who used the crops and commodities that were harvested by the south to trade with Europe, read a a book…don’t compare TEMPORARY servitude liek the scots to CHATTEL slavery that lasted for generations…scots were never considered subhuman they weren’t BORN slaves and forced to live their lives out as them in the same way that black people were…

finally HOW DARE you tell us that we are “whining,” by bringing up legitimate inequalities in our society it’s BECAUSE of that history that Blacks STILL FACE to this day inequalities that your white privilege blinds you from seeing…and by the way slavery didn’t end 200 years ago, it was less than 150 years that slavery was OFFICIALLY removed in America and even less than that in certain parts of Latin America, namely Brazil. BTW, in America slavery still went on under the radar throughout the south until the 1940s…it was called PEONAGE…look it up.

once more, even after slavery unlike the scots and your so-called great great great tenth great grandfather in north Africa (my second great grandfather was born a slave…far more recent) … we (Black people) CONTINUED to face discrimination and inequality throughout Jim crow and to the present day even AFTER slavery…whereas YOUR PEOPLE (the anglos/wasps) were comfortable in their white privilege at that point…

so don’t give me some “Crap” about whining….just because IT MAKES YOU uncomfortable…you can call it whining all you want…you’re gonna keep hearing it and i’m gonna keep writing about white privilege until things truly change…

and also don’t even get more started on colonialism and forced labor of Blacks by EUROPEANS on a global scale…

and btw white people have affirmative action too…that’s why we have white people sitting up in college because their granddaddy or daddy went there…white privilege is your affirmative action…ya’ll reap the benefits of that every day…a black person has to be twice as good to get half the respect a white person does…just because their white privilege grants them easy access in society…but of course you can just be oblivious to your privilege…well that’s part of having the privilege…not having to acknowledge that it exist right?

Let me give you a little background about myself, I am OilMan, a handsome ass Latino Engineer. I got the ego of any black man plus the education and the career. I am very sexual, I could be a porn star, and would love to gangbang women along side black dudes.

She is white and Hispanic, I do not want to penetrate a black man, just want to tear up some pussy along side them. I fantasize about a threesome, but I would much rather go town with some white women who want the Black Latino mix. We Latinos bring something to the table as well momma, you guys are not the only one’s who can dance and have penises over 8inches.

Well, I am not racist towards any race, I understand what it is like to be discriminated against since I am an immigrant. However, the stereotypes are there for a reason, they did not come about overnight. At any rate, the stereotypes about black men are not negative, it must be terrible for women to instantly think that you are well endowed, can dance, and have impeccable athletic prowess. If anything this gives black men an unfair advantage in the dating world. Men of other races have to work hard and study hard in order to attain socioeconomic status so women can even think about giving some of us a chance on first impressions. A black dude has to simply say, hey I’m black. So to be honest, I am a bit irate about the latter, but nonetheless I aspire to be a sexual demon like them, the way that I aspire to be successful and wealthy like the white man.

it is racist when the only things that black men are valued for ARE these stereotypical physical sexual traits. Why is a Black man only valued for his sexual prowess, that’s the same logic people used during slavery where Black men were used as “breeders,” to impregnate black women to increase the slave masters profit, yet when they broke up families and ripped children from their fathers slave master felt less guilt because black men were seen as only having physical/sexual hungers and incapable of emotional attachment and human complexity. that what made it racist and that’s why that stereotype, even if its seen as a positive by you is racist.

why, if you allegedly have a large penis, are you distressed about a Black man (I assume) having a bigger penis than yourself? Why do you claim “I got the ego of any black man”?

What point are you making?

Why is it essential for you to witness your wife being penetrated by a Black man (as long as his penis is not allegedly as large as yours)? Whom are you sub-consciously identifying with when you fantasize about Black men sexually satisfying your wife?

Are you not comfortable in your racial manhood?

It appears as though your sub-conscious ego masculine ideal is that of a Black man, and it is they you suspect your own wife would prefer over you. To counter-balance this, you consciously insist they must have smaller members than you…but you insist you have “the ego of any black man”.

Hmmmm.

By making sure no Black man penetrating your white wife has a penis larger than you claim yours is, and by you having an ego the size “of any black man”, is this the only means by which you can safely measure up to Black men racially and sexually?

Maybe so, eh?

But what stereotypically ‘real man’ obsesses about his wife having sex with other men while he watches? Who is really perceived as the ‘real man’ in such a set up, Oilman?

You make a very good point, as I mentioned to Peanut. I believe that the black man has set the bar when it comes to sexual performance, the way the Asian man has set the bar for intellectual prowess. I simply attempt to meet them, or surpass them. I like competition.

If you were to read a later entry of mine, I mentioned that I may never act on this fantasy that crosses my mind every now and then. Would you agree that it is perfectly fine to fantasize and to masturbate to them? I feel like if you are chastising me for expressing them to you guys, and for even having them in the first place. I am sure you have fantasies as well.

Now, when I said that I have the ego of any black man, lets be honest, not that many men are as egotistical as the black athletes and black musicians (rappers) that we see on TV all the time.

At any rate, I value your opinion. You read between the lines of my comments and made me see things about my personality that I did not see before. OiLz.

of course you can fantasize about whatever you want, but this is a post about the mandingo stereotype and inherent racism in that stereotype, so of course your comment is going to be analyzed and questioned. not chastising you for having your fantasies, but WHY do you think you have those fantasies THAT is the question and the racism comes from your comment about how asians set the bar for intellectualism, but black men set the bar for sex only…that’s degrading to both asian and black men.

Black men set the bar for all-round masculinity, and it is this by which all men are judged. Sexual prowess, muscles, good looks, and masculine swagger (or ego as Oilman called it) are what maketh the man.

It is Black men oilman seeks to identify with in totality…he has an ego the size of any Black man, remember?

The issue of Black men being disengaged from academia has more to do with the structure of the Black family (mostly single parent) and external racial discrimination than it does with Black men’s assumed lack of intellect…

The point is, Oilman is made “irate” or envious by the fact that he assumes Black men are ‘real men’ despite him having an allegedly large penis like a porn star…and the status of a high-salaried, engineer: it is not enough!

Not for him, nor his ego, and nor, he suspects, his own wife. This is why he wants to be lost in bodies of Black males penetrating his wife: so he can better identify with them and feel good about himself…to relieve racial envy and distress…to be less “irate” for not being able to match up racially in real life.

Degrading is such a harsh word Peanut. Unfortunately, the general populous thinks the way I do, it takes intellectuals like you to point out our wrong doings. However, there are not that many of you out there, and your means of communicating with us is limited.

I do not think is it correct for the media to portray the black man like this, but they do it regularly. The porn industry can also be blamed, if anything, this fantasy comes to me because of the clips that come up on the ever changing home screen at xnxx.com. I understand the latter can arise a string of arguments but I felt that it was important to mention it.

“Men of other races have to work hard, and study hard in order to attain socio-economic status so women can even think about giving some of us a chance on first impressions. A black dude has to simply say, ‘hey I’m black’. So to be honest, I am a bit irate about the latter, but nonetheless I aspire to be a sexual demon like them, the way that I aspire to be successful and wealthy like the white man”.

Menelik says:

ah, so Black men make you feel “a bit irate”…this term means ‘angry – wrathful – furious’. Isn’t this how envious people feel when they believe, as you do, someone has something you do not?

But you claim to have a very large penis, Oilman…so large your wife can apparently only take half of it!

What then is the source of this obvious envy if penis size is not the issue? Could it simply be racial envy, Oilman? Even if the Black man’s penis is smaller than your own, you deem his confidence as a Black man is such (because he is Black) that his masculine ego is larger than that of white or Latino males.

What race of men represent your ego ideal, Oilman? which race of men do you strongly assume your wife sees as inherently masculine (small penis or otherwise)? With whom do you sub-consciously identify with when you observe her being penetrated by a Black man?

I suspect your comments above have already answered my questions, sir. All, I guess, is required from you is a denial of what your comments are strongly indicating.

I see that I have to be cautious with my word choice when discussing with you. I wish I was as good at analyzing peoples entries as you are, but I am only an Engineer, my area of expertise is in Math and Science. You put me at a daze when i read all the points that you were making.

However, I want to make it clear that I have never observed my girlfriend be penetrated by any other man other than myself. This is in response to your entry of, “With whom do you sub…when you observe her being penetrated…”

I come from Mexico, where it is nowhere near as racial diverse as it is here. I observe the men and women from various backgrounds of this nation and subsequently I have molded my personality to display all their (various races) attributes. I do this because in order for us to reach an ideal utopia, we must be able to celebrate our differences, and we also need to be able to celebrate our similarities. These are words coming from a Mexican Wetback who hopped the fucken border and made himself and engineer, OilMan.

Mr. Menelik, I do not understand why you continue to chastise me for fantasizing. They are only in my head, I more than likely will not act on them because I will not be able to look at my girlfriend the same if I where to go through with it. I have been discussing this matter with both of you, and believe me, I still have more to say, if I have to.

If you truly want to get the perspective from a non-black male, then do not use such hostile language towards their comments. You are so apt to analyze my post, how about you analyze your responses as well. You have questioned almost every sentence that I posted. You also made some miraculous breakthrough as to why I have such fantasies. “Fantasy is his only escape,” escape from what, from being a successful wetback and having a healthy sex life?

“Racial envy?” With what credentials to you make such a claim? Only because I used the word irate, you want to make all of these assumptions. Yes, they are only assumptions. I am not submissive to the black man the way some sissy white men are, I got too much pride for that. I only want to “roll with the big dawgs” because I know I am more than equipped to do so. Nowhere did I say that I was going to sit back and observe as my woman is taken by another man, I am not a pussy.

If you welcome my input, and value it. Your tone sure as hell exclaims otherwise. I can answer any question, given that you ask it correctly. OiLz.

I am white man. My wife and i got into teh swinging life for a while when we wre younger. We experimented a lot stuff — women – men – ganbangs. Back then she was a 20 year old stripper with a huge appetite for sex, and I was good looking young white man with an equal size appetite. We experimented with a lot different stuff and in the end – the one fetish and freak that I loved above all others was watching her with another man and playing the role of the hubby with no spine who served his wife and her lovers. Now you are right — there are some places that we could not act out thsi fantasy, but she was loving it and I was loving it so much that at one point her lover would accompany her to my inlaws adn one day I actually made a point to show up while she was settign in his lap. I came in — said hi to every one gave he lover his change of close that he would need at teh hotel that the two of them had already told her parents that they were going to later. I explained in front everyone that I was going home to watch this kids andfor the two of them to have fun. The best part of it was that her lover and me worked at the same place and she was bringing him lunch and making out with him in front everone.

He eventually moved away unfortunately and we have never found another steady lover for her — plus we are not as hot as we were back then.

I cannot tell you why exactly, I have looked all over for a non porn analysis about what makes me love tis so much. I lovemy wife, she loves me, but the one thing that made me love her even more and want her even more was when she admitted to me that she had feelings for her lover and then one night when they in the bed I heard her tell him that she loved him. By this pint, I was sleeping on the couch and slipping into the bed room early before he went to work so the kids would see me coming out. they were young then and we were able to hide it .

Anyway — in that years time my wife grew unintersted in sex with me, and I was only allowd to clean things up for them to put it g rated.

Now last but not least — yes he was black. but she had white loves too before and after that, So he did not have to be black. And Ia m going to tell you now he was not being treated badly or racist. He actually loved having me wait on him, and wht he really loved was telling the othe guys at work about how my wife was. he would even look at me say stuff like “too bad I told her she can’t ever touch you again!”

This was te longest sexual role play I have done. We did it completely. And Ia m telling you that it had nothign to with me trying use this man for racist needs. Actually — the main reason taht we chose to do it with him to such an extent is because he was the only one we found who seemed to honestly enjoy the fact that he was taking my wife and that I was there to see it. He called me a a of lot names that one would certainly consider racist on his part. and I’m telling you that knowing him for a year and wathing my wife start falling for him — I got to knwo him pretty good. He found the situation gove him a much needed release. He had been harboring this secret desire to back at a white man for the racism he had experinced in life, but being a rational man and not a thug he could not just go treat a white man like that for real.

But my wife and my onw fantasy of of doing this was pefect fo this man. It allowed him an outlet and he LOVED.

MY WIFE LOVED IT.

And to this day there is nothing that turns me on more than my wife looking into another mans eyes and making love him — not just sex but making love! that is the ultimate fullfilled fantasy for someone like me.

Now I may sexually deviant or whatever but this does not make me a racist! My wife lover harbored some latent racism that I allowde him to take out me — which I think actually helped get it out ya know/ and we all got something we enjoyed out of it.

hopelessly cucked,
“I actually made a point to show up while she was settign in his lap. I came in — said hi to every one gave he lover his change of close that he would need at teh hotel that the two of them had already told her parents that they were going to later. I explained in front everyone that I was going home to watch this kids andfor the two of them to have fun.”

First off i dont care about interacial relationships, Its about who the person is at heart thats attractive, not the looks. but Hopelesslycucked you have to be kidding/trolling/ignorant/lost/insane/crazy. Cucks should be ashamed, its degrading, moreso to the submissive husband. What is your problem? you enjoy seeing another man with your wife, you enjoy being degraded, you enjoy being humiliated at work? It turns you on to see another man “make love”, more like make lust with your wife? WIFE? You enjoy “cleaning up” afterwards? and you like to hear your wife say she loves another man? Do you know what love is? It sounds like your definition of love is twisted. do you know what marriage is? I mean WOW the world really is going to hell, thanks to psyco’s like yourself. if your wife doesnt love you(really) then you shouldnt be with her. Same if you dont love your wife. If you both loved each other then you both would be enough for eachother. You would find ways to please her yourself, you wouldnt let another man do it for you. If you dont want to please your wife then you dont love her. You are just married friends, get divorced, and for gods sake dont have children and continue this disgusting ideology. what you said is so gross it makes me nautious. You need to get counciling ASAP… Have a conscience. Where is the common sense? People are not supposed to live that way MAN. are you human? Your Wife is twisted as well.

Three is not even one Black wife and a cuck black husband, why is that? with a hispanic asian or white guy making lust to his wife? Just becuase you are black you are the hight of all sexuality? i think not. what makes a man attractive is confidence, self acceptance, Personal hygene, intelligence, courage. Sex isnt just visual, its mostly mental.

Second, African tribes that conquored other african tribes took slaves and started slavery, not white people… Whites werent even the first to purchase slaves from the conqoring tribesmen, it was the portugese. African people should be the ones that are ashamed for enslaving there own people, So the argument that whites should feel guilty or do feel guilty subconsciously is sad, and pathetic. If you do then study history and get a grip. Racism is throughout all races and most history. Why arent native americans In the sickness of the cuck world, Why dont cuck men give there wives up to a native american?
enough is enough………..really.

I think that hopelesslycucked and oilman are trolls and refuse to acknowledge them further.

I’ve seen posts like theirs before where guys talk about their fantasies under the guise of ‘discourse’ while they’re getting off on the whole conversation. It’s manipulative and gross.

I know cuckolding is a fetish and I could care less what informed and consenting adults do, but yes, the racialized element grosses me out because these attitudes (unfortunately) don’t stay in the bedroom, they come out in the real world. I’d suspect these racist white men who are submitting in the bedroom are some of the loudest, most virulent, out-and-proud racists when they’re in their every day lives. They’re most likely teaching thier racist ideals to their children independent of whether or not they’re multicultural.

I am OilMan, and please spell my name correctly it is not in lower case letters. It is O-i-l-M-a-n; capital “O” and capital “M.” I am pleased to say that I no longer have fantasies of having three-way sex with my lady, a black gentleman, and me, OilMan. This will please Peanut much, since she is so anti-fetish, she analyzes the latter fetish as being indirectly racist, something I sorta agree with, once I read her argument. At any rate, I have learned to appreciate my lady and the beautiful love we make, I have also minimized my infatuation with pornography, something that I mentioned before to being my main motivation for having such fantasize in the first place. I love my lady and I finally see that she desires me and only me. I am glad I never acted out my fantasies, I am glad I suppressed them and did not treat my lady as if she was some kind of porn-star that gets a thrill from pleasing more than one man at the same time. We are happy, have an amazing sex life, and we do not need a third person to spice things up for us. I am OilMan, have an Oily day.

Thanks sweetie, I have to say that it is easy to do away with having those fantasies when the sex is sooo good with me and my lady. The white men that go through with the interracial swingers lifestyle are often times a bit diminutive in the crotch area, if you know what I mean? They feel that if they cannot give their women optimal pleasure, at least they can seek someone else who could. So in their eyes, it is ok to submit to men with larger members (often black men) because they have accepted that they are simply inferior to their sexual prowess. After reading numerous threads involving sharing your wife with other men, I realized that my penis was twice the size of the men who were on the threads discussing the matter. I see them post sizes like 4″-5″ and eventually I drew the conclusion that only men (mostly white) with small penises, were the ones who would truly follow through with their fantasies. Their wives would be easily convinced since, lets face it, they are not being wholly satisfied. I would ask my woman if she would ever consider sharing me with another woman, and she flat out said, “hell no, I cannot imagine another woman having sex with you.” Even though one of her girlfriends has already attempted to push the envelope on having a girl-boy-girl threesome with us. This made me realize that my woman loves the sex we have, and that no third party should ever be involved in it.

So basically, racism didn’t end with Slavery. No shit. However my point was that Black people in America are constantly blaming their problems on White Americans alive today, who have nothing to do with Slavery, just as they themselves were never slaves. It’s pathetic.
I’ve watched some of the video, of course it was horrendous, but to put in perspective. My ethnic group – Celts – were almost wiped out by the romans, the crimes by the italians to us, vs the crimes of white americans to black americans, make the latter look miniscule. The only difference is our particular treatment by that group ended 1500 years (and we were then treated terribly by everyone from the Vikings to the English to the aforementioned Barbary pirates). You do not see us, telling the Italians they owe us “reparations”, hell I mean basically, get over it.

Dammmnnnn, that Nordic sure told you lol. He basically said stop crying about that lol. It would of been funnier if Nordic typed up, go to Home Depot, buy some material, build a bridge and get over it you cry bahy. Lol.

and about your analogy about ancient rome…again if you don’t see a difference between that and the DIRECT connection that white benefit from during slavery in the US (a more recent event) then you need to educate yourself on history more …i mean we’re owed reparations not just for slavery, but for a myriad of injustices that occurred and continue to occur in the present day…i’m not diminishing your history as a scot or celt…but let’s be honest here there is BIG difference between that and white people still benefiting from inequalities that STARTED in slavery and continue to disenfranchise blacks and other minorities to this day….read up about it….maybe Tim Wise would be a good start for you since I KNOW anytime a Black person speaks about racism it’s “whining,” to you…maybe coming from a white man (tim wise) YOU’LL listen..cuz white is alright with you…right?

i can’t expect YOU to get it…

about the “whining,” i do NOT go around complaining about slavery or racism offline, IN FACT i rarely say anything about it to white people because most are so easily offended…and would rather keep living in blindness because it benefits them than actually address the issues…but when I am on MY BLOG… I will write about my experience as I see fit…and if that BOTHERS YOU…you are MORE THAN WELCOME to go somewhere else…go a white supremacy website…there’s plenty of them to choose from.

I’m just kidding momma, I know he did not tell you off. It is just that he made a point, it is not a very good point, but it is still a point. Like I have never heard of a German-Jew demanding reparations from the former Nazi government. Do I believe that they, and American blacks, are entitled to reparations? Hec yeah; but I don’t think it would be feasible. However, I do not agree with simply forgetting about what they did to your people, it is possible to move on, but one must not forget the struggle your people overcame. Now it is time to be civil and to be cordial with each other. We must celebrate our similarities, but we must also celebrate our differences. OilMan.

Excuse me, OilMan, but German Jews demand reparations from the government all the time. My great-grandparents were German Jews who were stripped of their citizenship, and because of that we are able to get German citizenship should we wish to.

Thank you for the insight, I stand corrected. I did not know that about the German-Jews. I respect their humility and how unified they had stood through genocide and through the malice that wad brought upon them by the Nazi government. There have been many horrific events that occurred in the history of mankind, but by remembering them, by discussing them, or by simply acknowledging them, we are keeping those who were lost, alive and as a latent function of it all, we are deterring those acts from ever occurring again.

Germany paid reparations to Israel:
“Despite the protests, the agreement was signed in September 1952, and West Germany paid Israel a sum of 3 billion marks over the next fourteen years; 450 million marks were paid to the World Jewish Congress. The payments were made to the State of Israel as the heir to those victims who had no surviving family. The money was invested in the country’s infrastructure and played an important role in establishing the economy of the new state. The reparations would become a decisive part of Israel’s income, comprising as high as 87.5% of the state income in 1956.”

Unfortunately Scottie Lowe is just a very angry black woman that hates white people.
When she talks about how white people supposedly objectify black people in their fetishes she doesn’t even consider that white people are OBJECTIFYING THEMSELVES at the same time.

White people who do this sick stuff aren’t white supremacists, they are BLACK supremacists with white skin.

I also see peanut talk about “white privilege”, but really to say that white people have privilege as our cultural epicenters(New York, Chicago, Detroit, Los Angeles for America, and London, Paris and Berlin in Europe(which have much more effect)) are now dominated by non whites is beyond ridiculous.
What you mean by “white privilege” is really just majority demographic privilege and white people won’t even have that in a single country if things don’t change, so really “white privilege” is actually the opposite of what reality is.

how are londong, paris, new york DOMINATED by people of color? explain that to me when pOC are the most unemployed, underpaid group and white people are earning more, have better health and statistically will have MORE income left over to pass onto their next generations…

New York is absolutely dominated by non whites and so is Paris(with London becoming the exact same way), there is little to no influence from whites on the local culture there and that is saying something when you are talking about Paris.

There are also places in New York(like Queens)where black people are paid more than whites, not to mention the gap between black and whites in expected living time is closing because the psychological health of whites is much lower and white people are committing suicide left and right.

i know for a fact that you are lying you can go on wikipedia, the cdc and see what ethnic groups are dying from what they’re dying and the life expectancy. if you seriously are pretending like white people have a lower life expectancy than black people you’re delusional. next you’ll be saying that whites are the real victims of racism, i can feel it coming right now.

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This chick can’t go 2 seconds without saying slavery or white privilege. The only white Privilege we have is being called racist every 2 seconds.

No one ever goes into a Black-Only Church and complains of lack of Diversity or the racist comments. Or asks the Married Black fathers to raise their hands, especially when 73% of Black children are Fatherless, which is never mentioned in a Black-Only Church.

“Anti-Racists is a code word for Anti-White”
“Diversity is a code word for Anti-White”
“Civil Rights are code words for Anti-White”

So Peanut, what is it you really want to change? What do you really really want? You secretly want to be White? Or just the Privileges? Like you want like Black Privileges? Black empowerment maybe? —See you are just as Evil as the Whitey, you even want what Whitey has, which makes you no different at all!

you have the privilege of being able to walk around a store without being a target based on skin color, you have the privilege of seeing men who look like you represented in positive ways everyday. do you know why we have to have black movies, black tv because otherwise the only images of black people we would see would be mammy/sapphire…the fact that Trayvon couldn’t walk down the street with some skittles alone says that there is a problem with racism. You have the privilege of being hired more quickly and earning more income on average. Control for education and criminal background and white men still earn more than a black man of the same background. you have the privilege of being the majority male population, but making up a minority of the prison population, while black men (and black women) are a minority but make up the majority of the prison population because of biased drug laws and police who target black neighborhoods. in this society ,white is the embodiment of everything good and Black is portrayed as the opposite of good…so here you have privilege just by being seen as inherently non-threatening and good.

You have the privilege of coming onto MY blog as a white man and telling me that I’m being silly for bringing up racism/white privilege because you, being a white man, of course would know exactly what the Black experience is and you can easily tell ME, who has lived as a black person my whole life, that i’m seeing things that aren’t there and there is no racism/white privilege.

Well peanut, this is a very late reply from me, but I don’t check this e-mail so often, but let’s get to it shall we?

“one final comment to you…

and about your analogy about ancient rome…again if you don’t see a difference between that and the DIRECT connection that white benefit from during slavery in the US (a more recent event) then you need to educate yourself on history more …i mean we’re owed reparations not just for slavery, but for a myriad of injustices that occurred and continue to occur in the present day…i’m not diminishing your history as a scot or celt…but let’s be honest here there is BIG difference between that and white people still benefiting from inequalities that STARTED in slavery and continue to disenfranchise blacks and other minorities to this day….read up about it….maybe Tim Wise would be a good start for you since I KNOW anytime a Black person speaks about racism it’s “whining,” to you…maybe coming from a white man (tim wise) YOU’LL listen..cuz white is alright with you…right?

i can’t expect YOU to get it…

about the “whining,” i do NOT go around complaining about slavery or racism offline, IN FACT i rarely say anything about it to white people because most are so easily offended…and would rather keep living in blindness because it benefits them than actually address the issues…but when I am on MY BLOG… I will write about my experience as I see fit…and if that BOTHERS YOU…you are MORE THAN WELCOME to go somewhere else…go a white supremacy website…there’s plenty of them to choose from.”

“White benefit”. This is your first mistake. You realise you are claiming the entire white ” race” benefited from Slavery. This is simply untrue. Whilst many Western European countries did benefit from slavery, and Whites in the USA certainly also did, that is not “All white people”. The Italians benefited little from slavery, they are white, as are the scandinavians, russians, christ, most of the white ” race” east of the rhine did not benefit from slavery of Blacks.

So you realise, you are tarring an entire race as benefiting from something that happened mainly in the New world, for most of it’s lifespan, where the % of whites at the time, was not exactly overwhelming. Now isn’t that a little racist?

You can demand reparations, It is your right as a free citizen. But don’t you think you already have them? Blacks are overrepresented in the media in almost all white countries, affirmative action is given to blacks who’s ancestors never experienced slavery, and even in countries that had no part in the slave trade at all ! Don’t you think that is enough? Why do you want to punish the generation of whites that rightfully treat you as equals for the crimes of their ancestors who did not? I must also point out, that if I am to be “educated” on history, can you tell me why you are asking the whites in the US to repay you, and not the Blacks in west africa who sold your ancestors into slavery in the first place? Heck, you realise, the last country to abolish slavery was Abyssinia (Ethiopia)? A Black country? Or does it make it okay that it was Blacks enslaving Blacks?

You are being presumptuous when you say I benefit from slavery. I don’t live in the New world, I have been to America once. None of my family of the past 150 years have moved to the United States. I have not benefited from slavery at all, neither did my country. Yet I am punished for it nonetheless, I stand less chance of getting a job than a Black person in my country despite the fact they make up 00.1% of the population, simply because they are Black, I had to learn about “Black history” despite the fact 00.1% of the population is Black, and all of it involved the slave trade, which my country played little part in to no part in.

I am also expected to feel guilty for the slave trade, why? Because America is projecting this guilt over the rest of the white world. And Blacks in other countries who never experienced slavery historically, can walk around, privelleged.

Now, I have nothing against Blacks, my wife is the daughter of a Eritrean refugee and I love her dearly, but please, do not be so painfully arrogant as to presume that the entire white race is guilty for slavery, or that we all experience perks for being white.

That is simply not the case, if you want to go ahead and do this for White Americans go ahead, but don’t tar the entire white race as evil enslavers who owe you something, we’re not. And I’ll be damned if I gave you even a penny for your ancestors experience as a slave. As sad as it is.

“about the “whining,” i do NOT go around complaining about slavery or racism offline, IN FACT i rarely say anything about it to white people because most are so easily offended…and would rather keep living in blindness because it benefits them than actually address the issues…but when I am on MY BLOG… I will write about my experience as I see fit…and if that BOTHERS YOU…you are MORE THAN WELCOME to go somewhere else…go a white supremacy website…there’s plenty of them to choose from.”

This is whining, and this racist blog showed up when I was doing a paper on Porn’s Psychological effects. And I had hoped it would be useful, but it was whining, a lot of incorrect, racist whining. You can write whatever blog you want, but at least try and make it correct.

If you were white, your blog would have been taken down for racism already, talk about white privledge eh?

-Nordic said:” “White benefit”. This is your first mistake. You realise you are claiming the entire white ” race” benefited from Slavery. This is simply untrue. Whilst many Western European countries did benefit from slavery, and Whites in the USA certainly also did, that is not “All white people”. The Italians benefited little from slavery, they are white, as are the scandinavians, russians, christ, most of the white ” race” east of the rhine did not benefit from slavery of Blacks.

So you realise, you are tarring an entire race as benefiting from something that happened mainly in the New world, for most of it’s lifespan, where the % of whites at the time, was not exactly overwhelming. Now isn’t that a little racist?”

–Déborah says: I think (assuming she’s American) when she talks about white people she talks about white AMERICAN people and obviously not Eastern Europeans so stop playing dumb.
BTW, when Italians, Russians and so forth come to the US, they DO benefit from White Privilege while black immigrants are underpaid even though they are MORE educated than white immigrants on average, so Peanut made no mistake, ALL whites benefit from the legacy of slavery in one way or the other, Eastern and Southern Europeans INCLUDED.

-Nordic said:”” You can demand reparations, It is your right as a free citizen. But don’t you think you already have them? Blacks are overrepresented in the media in almost all white countries, affirmative action is given to blacks who’s ancestors never experienced slavery, and even in countries that had no part in the slave trade at all ! Don’t you think that is enough? Why do you want to punish the generation of whites that rightfully treat you as equals for the crimes of their ancestors who did not? I must also point out, that if I am to be “educated” on history, can you tell me why you are asking the whites in the US to repay you, and not the Blacks in west africa who sold your ancestors into slavery in the first place? Heck, you realise, the last country to abolish slavery was Abyssinia (Ethiopia)? A Black country? Or does it make it okay that it was Blacks enslaving Blacks?”

–Déborah says: You really think black Americans got reparations by living in today’s American society? You must be joking, right? You’re either really naive or stupid.
First of all being “overrepresented” in the media CAN’T make up for HUNDREDS of years of slavery and what overrepresentation are you talking about?

Blacks may be overrepresented in the Western media but it’s usually in sports, music, evening news (when they comitted a crime) or shitty Reality TV shows and it IS racist because the underlying message is to reinforce the stereotypes about black people. Notice how the Western media NEVER talks about this son of African immigrants that got into ALL Ivy League schools or BARELY talks about a missing African-American girl. Don’t try to fool yourself or anyone else for that matter, this black overrepresentation in the Western media RARELY serves black people’s benefits so your “argument” was very lame and pathetic.

Speaking of Affirmative Action, in the US, the group that benefits the most from it are WHITE women, not blacks. And the black Americans that benefit from it descended from SLAVES whether you want to acknowledge America’s ugly past or not WON’T change that fact.
And which other Western countries give Affirmative Action to blacks other than the US or maybe Canada? Do you actually have any reliable proof when you talk or you’re just completely clueless? Because I’m a non-american black woman living in a Western country where Affirmative Action DOESN’T exist so stop making up facts.
And no, Affirmative Action – especially when black Americans DON’T benefit it the most – CAN’T make up for 400 years of slavery. Creating a false sense of equality doesn’t mean that whites treat or even consider blacks as equals. You’re that naive? Illusion is not reparation!

About West Africans selling their own people as slaves, your famous “argument” FAILS because West Africans were not selling “their own”, they were selling their enemies, just as the Greeks and Romans once did. West Africa, then as now, was made up of different countries. They were no more selling “their own” than, say, “Europeans” were killing “their own” during the Holocaust.
Most West African countries did not sell slaves and some even fought against it; for example, the Beninese FEMALE warriors called Amazones fought against it.
BTW, many black Americans descended from Central Africa too, not only West Africa and the Transatlantic slave trade was on a much greater scale than anything the Africans or anyone else ever did in the history of slavery so don’t try to hide behind Ethiopia when slavery still exists in South Asia.
Who ever said blacks enslaving blacks was okay? Your shameless “everyone-does-it” argument DON’T excuse all the evil white Americans did in history.
Trying to relieve your white guilt with this kind of arguments won’t work and it’s quite childish and pathetic for a grown-up man.

-Nordic said: “You are being presumptuous when you say I benefit from slavery. I don’t live in the New world, I have been to America once. None of my family of the past 150 years have moved to the United States. I have not benefited from slavery at all, neither did my country. Yet I am punished for it nonetheless, I stand less chance of getting a job than a Black person in my country despite the fact they make up 00.1% of the population, simply because they are Black, I had to learn about “Black history” despite the fact 00.1% of the population is Black, and all of it involved the slave trade, which my country played little part in to no part in.”

–Déborah says: Poor white man! Which country do you live in? Is there any reliable source with ethnic statistics about Affirmative Action there that can back up your statement? Because I’m not American either, you can’t use that card with me expecting I won’t question it.

-Nordic said: “I am also expected to feel guilty for the slave trade, why? Because America is projecting this guilt over the rest of the white world. And Blacks in other countries who never experienced slavery historically, can walk around, privelleged.”

–Déborah says: No one expects you to feel guilty, but earlier in your post, you brought up the slavery in Ethiopia as if it makes the Transatlantic slave trade right. Your “everyone-does-it” argument seems to make you feel better so maybe you did feel bad for what white Americans did in the first place. And can you tell me those countries where black people walk around privileged? I’m gonna move there right away.

-Nordic said: “Now, I have nothing against Blacks, my wife is the daughter of a Eritrean refugee and I love her dearly, but please, do not be so painfully arrogant as to presume that the entire white race is guilty for slavery, or that we all experience perks for being white.
That is simply not the case, if you want to go ahead and do this for White Americans go ahead, but don’t tar the entire white race as evil enslavers who owe you something, we’re not. And I’ll be damned if I gave you even a penny for your ancestors experience as a slave. As sad as it is.
This is whining, and this racist blog showed up when I was doing a paper on Porn’s Psychological effects. And I had hoped it would be useful, but it was whining, a lot of incorrect, racist whining. You can write whatever blog you want, but at least try and make it correct.”

–Déborah says: I’m sure you don’t have anything against blacks, however I feel sorry for your wife. Where is Peanut being arrogant? So she can’t talk about her country’s dark past, what her ancestors probably went through and the struggles she has to face as a result today? For umpteenth time, when she talks about white people she most likely refers to white AMERICANS and ALL the whites in her country that reap off the benefits of this shameful legacy. BTW, the blacks living in Eastern Europe are mistreated. I went many times in Southern Europe because I have relatives there and not only they’re racist but I’ve been propositioned for sex by men there since I’m 13 simply because I’m black and they fought anything walking with a black vagina was a prostitute. I was just a CHILD visiting her family for summer break. So you can whine about being a poor underprivileged white man but your experiences DON’T compare to half of what black people go through in general.

-Nordic said: “If you were white, your blog would have been taken down for racism already, talk about white privledge eh?”

–Déborah says: You’re so clueless it’s getting tiresome. Try Stormfront, a WHITE blog far more racist than this one. And yes, we will keep talking about white privilege as long as it exists.

I suspect that the vast majority of those experiences, stories and comments are simply wishful thinking by black men feeling emasculated by their position in the world. Very understandable but a bit weird!