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Just cannot get in the mood. Tmi! Biig tmi!

Seriously I think somethings wrong. I just want nothing to do with ANY type of sexual stuff. Ill give him oral. But thats it! Like he just wanted to fool around and I tried to let him mess around down there but I just cant! Idk if its cause the baby sleeps in a bassinet in our room or what. Idk. But I just feel so..idk the word but I dont want to be touched down there. Maybe having a second baby messed up my hormones . Idk. But I need to get this fixed cause it will hurt my marriage. I heard breastfeeding can make you like this and I wouldnt be suprised. It has messed me up alot. ah. I just feel so horrible. Hes upstairs in bed pissed iff. But it seriously just makes me uncomfortable. Idk wtf is going on :/

I know I just had her but its hard on him. Its been 4-5 weeks since we did anything. I just get literally like repulsed by the thought of anything sexual besides I give him oral. I have never been like this. After my first I was dyin to have sex.

There are some days I'm just not into it either. I was afraid of it hurting my relationship. I even looked into aides to up my sex drive. Eventually I started being horny again. I talked to him about it and he wasn't happy but he understood. When you have kids, your body and mind go through some major changes. It takes some time for everything to get back to normal, and sometimes normal is very different from what it was before.
Give it some time mama, it will get better. I promise.

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