My friend and I like the same guy, and I made out with him
at a party. My friend found out and said she wanted to punch my face in. Now
she says it’s OK, but she doesn’t call me like she used to and, when I call
her, she says she’s busy. What should I do? I’ve apologized, but I can’t take
back what I did.

Dear Sorry,

I can see why your friend feels hurt, can’t you? On the
other hand, you didn’t steal her boyfriend—you kissed her crush, who was also
your crush. No real crime in that. In fact, it’s possible she might have done
the same thing if given the opportunity. E-mail or leave her a message that
says, “My New Year’s wish is to have our friendship back the way it was,” or,
“Let’s not lose our friendship over a guy.” Maybe she just needs time for her
wounded pride to heal. And if you and the guy become a couple? Nix the public
makeout scenes.