8 Things Everyone Needs to Know About the Male G-spot

If you’re a queer man, you’ve probably discovered that you have a spot inside your anus that feels really, really good when stimulated properly. While you probably know that this spot AKA the prostate AKA the male G-spot AKA the P-spot feels incredible while stimulated, you might not know all the facts about it. These scientific factoids can make anal stimulation even more pleasurable. (Yes, it’s possible...) So here’s everything you need to know about the prostate to up both you and his experience.

1. It’s about 3 inches inside your anus

So cool it size queens. Having shorter penises can actually allow a man to better hit the P-spot repeatedly.

2. It’s larger than you might think

Your prostate is very tiny, about the size of a grain of wheat, until post-puberty. At 20 years-old, it finally reaches full size. Fully grown, a healthy adult prostate is walnut-shaped, measuring 1.6 x 1 x 1.2 inches. It weights between 0.66 -0.75 ounces.

3. You’re probably rimming the wrong place

Unless you have a giraffe’s tongue, you’re not going to be able to reach his prostate. Instead, you should lick his perineum to maximize pleasure, which is located between his testicles and anus. It puts pressure on his prostate externally.

4. Kegel exercises help you achieve longer and more intense prostate-induced orgasms.

Kegel exercises can not only help you become multi-orgasmic, they can actually help stimulate the prostate as well. By strengthening your Pubococcygeus (PC) muscles you can have longer, more intense p-gasms. You've held in a fart before, right? Contract those muscles and release repeatedly to strengthen the muscles surrounding your prostate. The stronger those muscles, the longer your orgasm can last.

5. There are dildos… and there are prostate massagers.

While both are sex toys and both ungodly expensive, they are quite different. Whereas a dildo is often straight, a prostate massager is curved, vibrates, and is specifically designed to maximize prostate stimulation.

6. Use the "come hither" finger motion to hit the prostate

Using your index finger, middle finger or both, make the "come here" motion towards his belly. This is the most efficient way to maximize prostate stimulation using your fingers.

7. Prostate orgasms are full-body orgasms

Instead of localized orgasms that focus pleasure around your penis, orgasms stimulated by the prostate give a full-body orgasm. As Martha Rosenthal, Ph.D. wrote in Human Sexuality: From Cells to Society, "Orgasms occurring in conjunction with stimulation of the prostate gland can result in orgasms perceived as 'deeper,' more widespread, intense and longer lasting."

8. Drink beverages high in antioxidants to keep your prostate healthy

Japanese and Chinese men have very low levels of prostate cancer. Researchers think it’s because they drink more green tea, which is rich in polyphenols, which have antioxidant properties.