The father of my daughter shall i say my fiance and i have been having a really hard time the past few months. Probably longer i was just oblivious before.. He is a very tempermental person and can be a huge *&%#. He is so mean to me and sometimes his daughter its been crazy. he goes threw his spirts where he tries to be "Mr Perfect" but im to the point where it just doesnt matter anymore. I have dealt with so much with him i just lost it. Lost the will to fight, to make up everything.. I even think he makes me less of a mother, by the way i am a full time working mother, he does absolutly nothing to help me. why is it so hard