Wow you are the very few who actually think of a relationship rather than sex I salute you man.

TBH that mentality is only applicable when you're under 18. Which is also where 95% of your relationships won't count/matter twoards anything except for being good experience for the someone special you'll meet later on in life. Most people I've seen in a relationship above the age of 19-24, don't really do it "because of sex" and if they are interested in sex, they simply don't do relationships.

Don't mean to be a downer guys but statistically young/teenage relationships don't last. It's not all bad, because it's very good experience for the future and you can learn a lot about yourself going through with one. But pretending like you're winning by not having sex in a relationship, especially when you are 15-16 years old, shows that you don't really "know" that much more than the guys who do have sex all the time in their relationships - you are just a little different in perspective.

A relationship isn't about sex, but it isn't about NOT having sex either. You can have the worlds most sucessful long lasting and loving relationship but yet still be a horny bastard and fuck everyday of your life. Just like how you can be someone who doesn't have a strong libdo, and you are with someone who also doesn't have one, and be pretty happy and successful in your relationship. A relationship is about the sum of the parts and being able to connect to your partner on a personal level that is beyond friendship or association. For some, that can involve lots of intimate sex, or sex for pleasure. Not having sex isn't some kind of "moral high ground" to give you some kind of false egotistical edge over other people who do have sex. The only thing it means if that you simply have very little to no libido, and as such are most compatable with people who also have that same value.

Woo just got internet back online, in the middle of moving into my new apartment. Shit is so wrecked here atm :( And I've got school to deal with lol

TBH this is only applicable when you're under 18, where 95% of your relationships won't count/matter twoards anything except for being good experience for the someone special you'll meet later on in life. And as such, most teenagers in relationships are pretty lighthearted and/or very sexual. Most people I've seen in a relationship above the age of 19-24, don't really do it "because of sex" and if they are interested in sex, they simply don't do relationships.

Don't mean to be a downer guys but statistically young relationships don't last. It's not bad, because it's very good experience for the future and you can learn a lot about yourself going through with one. But pretending like you're winning by not having sex in a relationship, especially when you are 15-16 years old, shows that you don't really "know" that much more than the guys who do have sex all the time in their relationships - you are just a little different in perspective.

A relationship isn't about sex, but it isn't about NOT having sex either. You can have the worlds most sucessful long lasting and loving relationship but yet still be a horny bastard and fuck everyday of your life. Just like how you can be someone who doesn't have a strong libdo, and you are with someone who also doesn't have one, and be pretty happy and successful in your relationship. A relationship is about the sum of the parts and being able to connect to your partner on a personal level that is beyond friendship or association. For some, that can involve lots of intimate sex, or sex for pleasure. Not having sex isn't some kind of "moral high ground" to give you some kind of false egotistical edge over other people who do have sex. The only thing it means if that you simply have very little to no libido, and as such are most compatable with people who also have that same value.

So far my bf and I have been going strong for a little over a year, even though I'm right now stuck in Germany. I cant wait to see him again. :D

All that goes through my mind is "AIDS" in bold capital letters. Orgy's are for the weak, in my mind. Controlling my sexuality is a very important part of my life. I don't find men attractive at all, and I would love to fuck girls all day, but god damn I want to control myself and be able to have a relationship with someone regardless of gender. Fuck my body, I don't care for it's wants.

Every relationship I've been in I've been the less sexual person, not by nature, but rather by choice.

All I'd say is that orgies and sex aren't weak. This comes from the idea that sex is something dirty or bad... someone who have sex with loads of people isn't morally inferior to someone who's saving themselves for marriage. It's just a different approach. Neither is better.

You're more likely to be run over by a car crossing the street than randomly murdered by a hookup.
Hookups can be dodgy if you're not careful, but saying that you're not going to have sex in case you bed the next Dahmer is a silly approach to have.

A very good find considering where I found it [just laying around on the street]

It looks like it MAY be the exact same socket as this 2.13 GHz Core 2 Duo I have. I'll look into it. I also have like, 5 GB of DDR2 memory here that I can toss in as well, which I'll do later. I'm gonna reinstall the OS with a CD Key I have. Looks like an upgraded prebuilt to me.

All I'd say is that orgies and sex aren't weak. This comes from the idea that sex is something dirty or bad... someone who have sex with loads of people isn't morally inferior to someone who's saving themselves for marriage. It's just a different approach. Neither is better.

You're more likely to be run over by a car crossing the street than randomly murdered by a hookup.
Hookups can be dodgy if you're not careful, but saying that you're not going to have sex in case you bed the next Dahmer is a silly approach to have.

It isn't weak so much as self-restraint, since people naturally want to fuck. I'm not doing this because I think sex is 'bad' or anything, but rather because I personally don't want to. There's no such thing as 'morals', they're all subjective. I simply don't want to be controlled by my body, and this is part of my own mission to help find what I truly want in life.

Yeah I doubled the memory both in speed and amount. I tried putting my Core 2 Duo E6400 in there so it could be a temporary game playing machine but the CPU might have been defective. I'm just going to use it as web browsing/messing around and crap as well as burning floppy disks.

If i happened to get it, it was from blood transfusions.
I dont even know anymore. Im just dead inside.

Update:
So my father went to the clinic again to check if something was wrong. And apparently they tested on the wrong sample.
I'm so fucking happy right now. I swear i will appreciate life more after this.