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Sounds silly right? We need them both. The Sun is the power to grow the essence to ripeness. The Sun is what wakes us up and makes us want to do, go and create. The Moon is the mystery. She changes her form every day. The Moon unveils the unknown whereas the Sun gives you the known. The Moon is the guardian of the nite that brings things effortless to maturity. The Sun is not subtle but is powerful. We need both the known and the unknown.

We long to make the unknown known. We rarely long to make the known unknown. There is this powerful mantra that is just that. I know the unknown is known to me. Meaning I know that it will reveal itself to me if only I have will sit with her. She will reveal. It is called the revelations for a reason.

The Masculine in us is ruled by the Sun and the Feminine by the Moon. They are not meant to do battle, but to support each other’s domains. Each has a gift. The Masculine needs to be pushed and supported in that earth calling to be successful. The Feminine needs to be sat with and adored quietly so she can reveal herself. Their successes, these masculine and feminine energies look totally different. Masculine wants things revealed and known. Feminine wants things deep and vast. She is at home with the unknown he with the known.

A friend of mine and I were talking about the desire to help the women, who are super successful in the world. They have no clue who they are as mysterious, intuitive, and healing women. The ones who are totally in touch with the mysteries, but can’t keep the earth parts together very well, both get to more of the balanced state. We need both. We are only half fulfilled when only one is alive and well.

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Great Relationships are based on Trust, Honor, and seeing the soul of each other. Feed those and repeat over and over. Oh please bring a big dose of humor it can save you from battle fatigue. Meaning you can’t take yourself or the situation to seriously….ever.

I am going to give you the don’ts and then the fixes, the things you want to fixate and feed on. We often get attached to being right and defending our stance so here are my things to avoid unless you are ready to destroy your relationship. Don’t think any of these will be new to you just look at them see which ones you buy into and then really meditate on the flip side of each one. Each weakness is the flip side of our biggest greatness. What we focus on and feed matters. Feed daily on the Do’s The don’ts will dissolve.

Ten no no’s and 10 yes yes’s

Be attached to being right at all costs.

Be unwilling to talk about things

Clam up

Be a bitch or rager

Be a Blamer

Keep score of your partners mess up’s and feed them back on a regular basis

When stressed act out (in your favorite manner there are many)

Act irrationally on a regular basis

Pit (fill in the blank) against your partner by telling them about your fights

Speak badly about your partner in public with or without them being present.

Most people know these are recipes for disaster yet we fall into these patterns more often than we care to admit. Then it becomes a pissing contest about who is being worse or more wronged. The great news is we can stop any bad behavior . We can create a red light and then have a positive action to replace it with.

Harmony is priceless and everyone wants to live in it we often don’t feel comfortable being there. We often equate Harmony with boredom and lack of being present. It is none of these. It is vastly being presence and takes some work to stay there but much less work than digging yourself out of the “dog house “ pit.

There are things I call interrupters: Things that break the focus when we are on a tear, a rage, a bitch a whatever. They give us back our real selves. The one we want to be with. Here is one to do instead of clawing eyes out.

Claw Dance

Two steps for a radiant, charismatic energy

Round up and tighten fingers in long clawed-like hands.

Come up tall on your toes swinging the arms out to the sides and up over the head in a big arc motion. Breath in on the way up while saying “WHO”. Next, squat down while the arms are swinging downward in a big arc. Exhale saying “LA” on the way down. Keep repeating these 2 steps.

Use this breath in moments when you need to reclaim yourself from a difficult

situation, a frustrating moment, or when really angry.

Dragon breath will bring expansion.

Inhale with eyes closed in four equal parts through the nose or mouth, then exhale by extending your tongue out as far as possible and opening your eyes as wide open as you can. Share this with your children. Look at yourself in the mirror when doing this, and you will get another benefit: taking yourself lightly it is a very funny sight. Do it in the middle of a fight see what happens. Focus Shifts, negative interlock breaks. Try it and see.

Benefits: here are your ten Great embracers.

1. Be Flexible

2. Practice Communicating, Practice listening whether you feel like it or not.

3. Open up. Don’t dump just trust.

4. Relate to the wisdom in yourself and your partner

5. Be the Claimer: Recite to yourself the things you love about your partner

6. Forgive yourself and your partner. Allow the possibilities of change for the better

7. When Stressed know what you need. Make a list when you are not stressed. Exercise, meditate, take a bath, hugs etc. eating not on the list.

8. Practice calm understanding everyone can fall apart it’s not sexy

9. Don’t share your fights with others unless they help you see how you contributed

10. Uplift your partner by how you speak to, with and about him/her.

Sounds easy right and I know sometimes it is not. We get frustrated. That’s why committed relationships are looked at as one of the most challenging paths. They are great at changing us make the change be one of wisdom, upliftment, vastness . Who wants anything less. It takes day to day moment to moment practice but remember why you fell in love with this person. You SAW them see them again, you will want to do these things.

This weekend seemed to be all about the impermanence of life. I was at a wonderful WIN (Women’s Information Network) conference. It was just soooo much. It was a week packed into one day. So may great speakers and so many great huemans but everyone was acting like they were going to live forever.

One woman said, ” Say after me I can be a millionaire it is easy”. A woman by me said, “I will not say that it is missing the part about integrity.” I told her to say, “I will make others millionaires with integrity.” It is not about being a millionaire or not it is about what deeply successful consciousness will you bring into the world? What is your success path? Who are you taking with you and who are you doing it with? The co- creation is really important at this point in time. Les Brown was speaking of who you hang around with are they 10’s or 2’s. This goes for every aspect of your life.

Hang out with people who make you greater than you are not the ones that pull you down. You can serve everyone but spend time with, work with marry those who uplift you. Life is short and the show me who you go with does tell me who you are. Life and death are flip sides of the same coin.

Death is part of this trip. We all have a one way ticket check yours you will see it is not a round trip unless you blow it and have to come back for a redo. Death is not something to be avoided or fearful of it is something to befriend. When we are not thinking of death is the time to hold a conference call with death not waiting till death comes a calling. I have a friend who is holding reluctant court with death. She is getting all sorts of people to run interference for her with situations that have always been difficult in her life and she no longer wants to face them. She has never effectively dealt with them. She is soliciting people to be her liasons’ between her and all her difficult situations. Yet this will not solve, resolve, nor release the soul. This is just a transference of response. The release, the forgiveness is totally up to you. You can do it while healthy or wait till it is all too much and not resolve it. We will die as we live so if we are constantly not dealing with situations it will be no different with death. But Death will be dealt with like it or not it does not go away and no one else can do it for you. So ready, set, go. Dive into you and become deathless my dear ones do it now don’t wait.

Create your will. Do it now. You usually don’t die when it’s finished which seems to be many peoples unconscious fear. It is time to face off with the hard stuff and see that it is usually not as bad as you believe it to be. Death is total surrender practice it now. Surrender not to the fear but to the magnitude of your soul. of each soul, of the oversoul of which you are an intirgal part. Honor your part and bow to the end of your body and the eternity of your soul.