Re: I am 36, completely impotent since 2006, and do not know how much longer i can take the PAIN OF LONELINESS

Because of my impotence (induced by a medication that I was not to take which fried my nerves) I find social relationships with females impossible and embarrassing.

I don't know how to keep going. When will the pain abate. I also suffer from schizophrenia and have difficulty forming social relationships as it is anyways. So lonely. Is there a greater pain? Of course life could be worse but what do I do?

Living alone on disability,

tony

Quoting: tony 3588247

I got that in my mid 30's, thought it was forever, it was NOT :D

It's a stress response. This too shall pass. The more you dwell on it the worse it gets.

Re: I am 36, completely impotent since 2006, and do not know how much longer i can take the PAIN OF LONELINESS

Because of my impotence (induced by a medication that I was not to take which fried my nerves) I find social relationships with females impossible and embarrassing.

I don't know how to keep going. When will the pain abate. I also suffer from schizophrenia and have difficulty forming social relationships as it is anyways. So lonely. Is there a greater pain? Of course life could be worse but what do I do?

Re: I am 36, completely impotent since 2006, and do not know how much longer i can take the PAIN OF LONELINESS

Because of my impotence (induced by a medication that I was not to take which fried my nerves) I find social relationships with females impossible and embarrassing.

I don't know how to keep going. When will the pain abate. I also suffer from schizophrenia and have difficulty forming social relationships as it is anyways. So lonely. Is there a greater pain? Of course life could be worse but what do I do?

Living alone on disability,

tony

Quoting: tony 3588247

Quoting: Anonymous Coward 11821402

Mate, please spare a thought about the many young, healthy, sporty, virile, well-hung, and "too-much-potent" men who can "do it" for many hours and many times continuously, yet they very often find themselves as lonely as you, for many long years. Unfortunately those who belong to the so-called "nice guys that finish last" despite their great sexual power, often end up similarly because of the women playing dishonest games with them, or for the reason of being perceived as not having money when they have the best chances in life, actually, but only refuse to bullshit about that.

Re: I am 36, completely impotent since 2006, and do not know how much longer i can take the PAIN OF LONELINESS

Mate, please spare a thought about the many young, healthy, sporty, virile, well-hung, and "too-much-potent" men who can "do it" for many hours and many times continuously, yet they very often find themselves as lonely as you, for many long years. Unfortunately those who belong to the so-called "nice guys that finish last" despite their great sexual power, often end up similarly because of the women playing dishonest games with them, or for the reason of being perceived as not having money when they have the best chances in life, actually, but only refuse to bullshit about that.

Re: I am 36, completely impotent since 2006, and do not know how much longer i can take the PAIN OF LONELINESS

I take pain pills for my back problem and when I do I can't get it up,not even horny. Then when I run out of them I smoke some kind stinky skunky cannabis and my cock gets hard I'm horny all the time and not constipated. Cannabis cures everything

Re: I am 36, completely impotent since 2006, and do not know how much longer i can take the PAIN OF LONELINESS

Tony you brought your pain to a place that will likely exacerbate your lonliness. i have been celibate since 06, ironically. by choice. i had incredible sex with the hottest women, and it stained my soul. i PROMISE you God will heal your heart ifU let Him

Quoting: Not so doubting thomas 1172403

My eyes cry at the thought of God loving me.

Quoting: tony 3588247

Tony...that is your biggest problem right there..you hate yourself.

NO one can love you, until you love you...cliche, i know..but true!

Sometimes..we're MEANT to be alone, just so we can learn to live with ourselves..sounds like torture..but it's really not...you will learn how to become your own best friend :)

Yes..you will learn to love YOU!..yes, yes..sounds gay..but its really the best thing that will ever happen to you.Most of us, avoid US..and then end up being shallow..stupid and depressed..

I will never downplay what is wrong with you..but...dont focus on it..I know, I know.harder said than done...but for real..learn to love YOU..it doesnt matter what your..*ahem*..down there does...a REAL woman wont care anyway!

Re: I am 36, completely impotent since 2006, and do not know how much longer i can take the PAIN OF LONELINESS

Tony you brought your pain to a place that will likely exacerbate your lonliness. i have been celibate since 06, ironically. by choice. i had incredible sex with the hottest women, and it stained my soul. i PROMISE you God will heal your heart ifU let Him

Quoting: Not so doubting thomas 1172403

My eyes cry at the thought of God loving me.

Quoting: tony 3588247

Tony, God does love you. You are right, i do not think there is a worse pain than lonliness. I've been there and God did heal me. Perhaps you could click the link in my signature to find out how God touched my life. Keep praying .... He is there! Also, despite what the Haters here say, visit some churches. You are likely to find some really understanding, compassionate and loving people if you look around a bit.

Re: I am 36, completely impotent since 2006, and do not know how much longer i can take the PAIN OF LONELINESS

Tony you brought your pain to a place that will likely exacerbate your lonliness. i have been celibate since 06, ironically. by choice. i had incredible sex with the hottest women, and it stained my soul. i PROMISE you God will heal your heart ifU let Him

Quoting: Not so doubting thomas 1172403

My eyes cry at the thought of God loving me.

Quoting: tony 3588247

Tony...that is your biggest problem right there..you hate yourself.

NO one can love you, until you love you...cliche, i know..but true!

Sometimes..we're MEANT to be alone, just so we can learn to live with ourselves..sounds like torture..but it's really not...you will learn how to become your own best friend :)

Yes..you will learn to love YOU!..yes, yes..sounds gay..but its really the best thing that will ever happen to you.Most of us, avoid US..and then end up being shallow..stupid and depressed..

I will never downplay what is wrong with you..but...dont focus on it..I know, I know.harder said than done...but for real..learn to love YOU..it doesnt matter what your..*ahem*..down there does...a REAL woman wont care anyway!

Re: I am 36, completely impotent since 2006, and do not know how much longer i can take the PAIN OF LONELINESS

Because of my impotence (induced by a medication that I was not to take which fried my nerves) I find social relationships with females impossible and embarrassing.

I don't know how to keep going. When will the pain abate. I also suffer from schizophrenia and have difficulty forming social relationships as it is anyways. So lonely. Is there a greater pain? Of course life could be worse but what do I do?

Re: I am 36, completely impotent since 2006, and do not know how much longer i can take the PAIN OF LONELINESS

Tony,

Sending you love and strength. Big HUG......

There is a reason for everything in life. Try to get out of your own world and comfort others who are lonely. This should help. (I am an intuitive person and I have felt this could help you.)

All we need is love. It does not have to be romantic love. Love comes in many forms. Love makes us happy. But when a person lives in love, he will surely find a partner for life too. Like attracts like.

Re: I am 36, completely impotent since 2006, and do not know how much longer i can take the PAIN OF LONELINESS

Because of my impotence (induced by a medication that I was not to take which fried my nerves) I find social relationships with females impossible and embarrassing.

I don't know how to keep going. When will the pain abate. I also suffer from schizophrenia and have difficulty forming social relationships as it is anyways. So lonely. Is there a greater pain? Of course life could be worse but what do I do?

Living alone on disability,

tony

Quoting: tony 3588247

Meds did the same to my husband. But, it did not matter. I love him. So, find true love not based on sex.

Re: I am 36, completely impotent since 2006, and do not know how much longer i can take the PAIN OF LONELINESS

dude you need to switch to escapism and spirituality, you need to start taking auhuwaska(DMT) and also experiment with your consciousness using magic mushrooms. They say these things are much greater than the earthly pleasures such as women anyway.