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Eh! You Cock Teaser!!

There is unfortunately, to the disappointment of many, no physical attribute to identifying a cock teaser.

It is simply impossible to tell who’d be a cock teaser just by how they dress because cock teaser comes in many different shapes, sizes and dresses. I’ve known cock teasers dressed in mini skirts and spaghetti straps and I’ve also known cock teasers who are fully covered up from head to toe like a nun.

Being a cock teaser is not about what they wear although the dress sense could create heightened levels of teasing and extreme disappointment depending on the individual. It is about how they communicate with the opposite sex.

The communication covers a wide range from body to oral and IS ALWAYS on flirt mode all the time giving you hints of possible physical intimacy meant to arouse you mentally and sexually.

It is exactly the same way anyone who’s interested in you would be and therefore makes it hard to tell if its real or not.

Fortunately for men, there are always safeguards in place to help you identify and sieve out these cock teasers early on.

One of the best ways to tell a cock teaser early on into a new relationship is when you begin to notice that the opposite sex starts dropping hints of sexual and/or physical intimacy really early as you attempt to build that bond and friendship.

You’ll begin to notice that each and every time you start communicating with this individual, more often than not, it turns or leads on into something slightly sexual and then that person excuses themself from the conversation abruptly leaving you on a high. The latter may or may not happen but it’s always good to give benefit of the doubt in the early stages.

Thereafter, once the cock teaser knows that you’re into the bait and has been hooked, she’ll work her way to deny you all your sexual and/or physical fantasies through no-shows on dates or abruptly cutting conversations when it’s at its peak.

To identify a cock teaser before you get sucked into it, is to get into your guard zone the moment you notice she starts her sexual/ physical intimacy with you very early into the relationship.

This will help you to be mentally prepared for what’s to happen next.

The next thing that you should do is to take control and to be the one to intiate these sexual/ physical intimacies with her and once the conversation gets into a high, either you leave abruptly or put her up to a challenge.

The challenge is for her to prove her worth of her conversations rather than to just talk about it.

This is where the turning point will be for you.

If she takes the challenge up, that still won’t mean she’s not a cock teaser because most of them will take it up to suck up to your ego. BUT, when the time comes, they will either:

stand you up by saying they can’t make it due to exigencies (it’s up to you to give benefit of the doubt),

don’t answer calls/sms and then say that they lost they’re mobile,

turn their phones off and claim that battery was flat or

they tell you they totally forgot about it.

These excuses are pretty lame to hear so to stamp your feet down further and to avoid wasting your time getting stood up, you will confirm with these women the day before you meet them. No one will forget about such dates simply because of the nature of it.

Some of them may feel the pressure of living up to their words and will back down here by saying cancelling on the date ONLY when you call them. This is a sign on insincerity because if they are sincere, they will call you to inform. In cases like this, LEAVE and ignore BUT she’s still good enough to be friends for you to pull her stunt out and leave her ashamed.

Unfortunately, for those cock teasers who are really into the thrill, they’ll confirm the date but not turn up for it. These are the best in the business and should this happen to you, never speak to them again.

But of course, if you’re lucky to end up with an amateur, she’ll apologize to you and tell you that she’s really not up to it. Chances, you still have a shot for this one cause she’s lowered her guard and opened up to you!

I hope this entry has served you well in your pursuit to identify Cock Teasers.

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Interesting. However, there are some men out there who like to ‘tease their own cock’ by being cocky and dropping sexual hints to the lady. Some ladies who are open-minded will just go along with the conversation without any intention of teasing or ‘tricking’ the man. :)