i'm sorry to hear that from you rowell. i guess she can't handle long distance relationship that's all. because there are some people who needed physical contact with their loveone in order for their relationship to survive.

When you lose someone you love, you feel as if your heart will literally break in two. The pain you feel is so great that there are times, you can feel as if your chest hurts. Before I've experienced being in love, I just scoffed at others who say that having your heart broken is pretty tough. You can't eat, can't sleep. Everything is black and white. There are no reason for you to smile anymore. Stuffs like that. And when I did get my heart broken, I realized that it's all true. You feel as if you want to cry all the time. You see a cuddling couple, and you just want to throw up. You hear your former love song, and you just want to lie down and cry the day away. My first heartbreak lasted for almost 2 lonely, miserable years.

Think on this - if you lose someone today, it means that someone better is coming tomorrow. If you lose your love it doesn't mean that you failed in love. Cry, if you have to, but make it sure that the tears wash away the hurt and the bitterness that the past has left with you. We have to accept that it's hard to lose someone you love especially when you know that things will never be same without that person. That's life. It has to go even if you don't want to because there must be reasons why you can't be together.
You can never move on if you dont let it go and forgive the person.
I read this poem - hope this will make your heart feel better.
LETTING YOU GO
It's time to let go even if we don't want to.
Let's save what little love is left.
Our love will always stand the test of time,
even if we're with others.A love like ours is not worth losing,
but love doesn't work between the miles.
You got your life, as I have mine,
but never fear for you will always have a stash spot in my heart.
We must end, it was wonderful while it lasted.
Our past will always be remembered.
Our future will always be wondered.
We've both have lingered off and lives lives as two and not as one anymore.
You were my sun and I your earth.
But now it seems as if we're in space, light years apart, with solar systems in between us.
Our love is hanging on a thin peice of thread.
If we don't let go. It'll break and wither away.
So you understand why we can not stay,or our love won't be great, it'll be hate.
But my number you'll always remain, because our love hasn't changed.
-written by BEA -050
Source:http://www.lovelandia.com/archive/016510.html

Oh friend. I can imagine the kind of condition you are at the moment. It feels hurt and atrocious loosing someone you love. Infact, some even do something terrible because of the pains they are having. Having a relationship with a distance is a very difficult thing, but I will advice you to hold yourself and try to forget about what happened. Thanks