Why are you on this forum if you think submission is it dumb? Any form of bondage involves loss of control by one person. The first definition of Bondage on Google is about being a slave.

I agree with Charlotte. I love it when I am told what to wear, what bondage to endure or what punishment to inflict upon myself. Especially if the person in control also has control of my chastity belt (that way, even a remote controller has more confidence in my obedience).

This string was started by napy666, who is offended by the !What are you wearing" question.

To return to the theme, I would not be offended. I realise that there may be a subtext to the question but it is up to me whether I answer or not. I don't see any point in not answering so, normally, I shall answer honestly.

napy666 wrote:Just the way the other person said being controlled in a real DOM/SUB relationship that is not my thing. Damsel in distress is my thing.

"Damsel in distress" is fine. However, whether it is real or just a fantasy, it does imply a degree of submission. There a many levels between being submissive and being in a real Dom/sub relationship. I am happy for you if you have found the level that you are comfortable with but you can always progress ...