Do Swingers Have More Fun?

Find Out Whether Swinging Is Right For You Both (Tip: It's Not A Solution To Fix A Relationship)

If you haven't already heard, swinging is the new and exciting recreational, alternative sexual lifestyle that consenting adults (mainly heterosexual couples) engage in. That's right, swingers (usually couples) hook up with other couples and swap partners at private parties and in their homes.

Now keep in mind that while single women are generally welcome to these parties with open arms, single guys would have a more difficult time finding a swingers party in which he can get into without a mate.

There are increasingly more swing clubs in which couples can attend and interact with other swingers, and of course, couples can also hook up at these parties and then go back to a more private environment to engage in the sexual romp.

before you get excited

I'm sure this sounds very interesting and intriguing to a lot of guys already, but keep in mind that swinging should not be used as a means of replacing a failing sexual relationship. The person you decide to swing with should play a significant role in your life and this practice should be used as a means of enhancing your already wonderful sex life together.

Above and beyond all else, if you want to enjoy the swinger's life, you have to have very good communication with your partner. You have to be comfortable with one another and be able to discuss any and everything.

If you are both sensitive to each other's needs and can put each other's needs before your own, then this can be a wonderful experience for the two of you.

some definitions you need

There are a bunch of different styles of swinging that you will end up seeing in the community:

Closed swinging — one partner prefers not to watch their partner have sex with someone else.Open swinging — one partner insists on watching their partner have sex with another person.Soft swinging — swapping partners for heavy foreplay but returning to their original mate for actual sex.

As you become more intimate with the environment, you will start understanding more of the lingo commonly associated with swingers.