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Luxury Curved Stainless Steel Dildo 9/10

Having delved into the world of glass last year, and loved its solid g-spot battering squirt-abilities and temperature play options, I knew this year metal would be on my to-do list, literally. My heart was set on the Njoy pure wand, since my vagina absolutely loves curved toys and so many people were raving in the blogosphere about it, unfortunately my funds had other ideas. The Njoy pure wand is the best part of £100 and that is just not an ‘affordable toy’ for most people, myself included. So I sent out the search party, desperate for my own hunk of stainless steel, and found the answer to my prayers in this dildo from Bondara.

At half the price of the Njoy pure wand this lookalike is almost in the realm of ‘affordable’ sex-toys. It comes in its own black box with gold pin-hinge clasps, inside the steel dildo nestles in a satin covered foam inlet. It’s a beautiful touch that adds to the elegant feel of a metal dildo but unfortunately the suede material on the box attracts dust, lint and cat hair more than a matte silicone toy!

There’s none of the usual packaging you would find on most toys, care instructions, logos, branding, are all forgone here. I’m not overly surprised as I’ve ordered Bondara’s own items before and found the packaging is often non-existent.

This dildo, despite not being the best on the market, lives up to its ‘luxury’ name. It’s weighty, it feels substantial and immediately you can tell you’re wielding something that means business. Its solid shape whispers promises to fuck you well. Slick, smooth and hard. The curve assures your g-spot of the pleasure to come, along with the prominent head it alights the hope of a sensual session that may just end in squirting.

The metal has been polished to a high shine and feels flawless to the touch. There are actually a few scratches and imperfections on mine, but they are tiny, and only noticeable when the dildo is less than four inches from my face. Trust me when I say that’s not where it’s going to spend most of its time.

The chances are this dildo is only stainless steel plated, so god only knows what material resides underneath. Due to the weight I’m fairly confident it is at least some sort of metal inside but beyond that. *Shrugs* It’s anybody’s guess. Whatever toy you have though, provided the outer casing is body safe and non-porous you don’t need to worry too much, for once it’s not a case of ‘it’s what’s inside that matters’

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When you’re ready to use the toy, pick a lube, ANY lube, because unlike silicone toys steel is compatible with all lube. You probably won’t need much due to the smooth slick nature of metal, and the last thing you want is lube-y mess as this gets pretty hard to hold onto.

I always start with the small end as a ‘warm up’, which makes for an apt name for this dildo as its soooooo cold on initial insertion but heats up quickly to body temperature. The unyielding nature of metal makes the curve so prominent and insistent, the head of the smaller end isn’t big enough to really satisfy my g-spot. It does feel good but it’s always just going to be a starter, the main course; the bigger end, is where it’s at.

Inserting the bigger end, verges on uncomfortable, regardless of what I’ve played with first. Getting it past my pubic bone is the source of the ouchy feeling, it, unlike my G-spot doesn’t like big curved toys. But once my pubic bone has finished it’s ‘YOU SHALL NOT PASS’ Gandalf impression things get good, really good.

The weight, the unyielding curve and the prominent head, create a no holds barred approach to g-spot stimulation. And my vagina loves it! With some toys I struggle to even locate my g-spot but this dildo pushes against it persistently with little effort on my behalf. I like to thrust with this dildo, usually short quick thrust, because bringing it too far out makes my pubic bone antsy.

This is the only toy I like to couple with a wand, because I need my focus and dexterity for the weighty dildo, and can’t concentrate on keeping a bullet on my clit. The combo is eyes rolling in the back of my head good. And I’m not even a wand fan. I just get addicted to the blended orgasms I can achieve this way.

Once I’ve had a few orgasms like that, I throw away the wand and continue onwards. Relentlessly sliding that prominent head back and forth over my g-spot. Before long I can feel it building, not an orgasm, but an intense need-to-pee sensation. And hey-presto I squirt. Just like that, this steel dildo achieves the otherwise unreachable. And just in time because by this point my wrist has usually begun to ache from the weight.

*ANAL USE UPDATE SOON*

This toy is the answer to my g-spots prayers, but it’s not the dildo for those days that ‘intense’ translates as too much or painful. If you can stick holding this hefty hunk of metal for long enough to come, you won’t be disappointed. The orgasms I get with this are slow and strong. It’s completely body safe, easy to clean and it looks so purtttyyyyyy.