Why Guys Prefer "Inexperienced" Girls - Explained in lyric/song form

Many girls are baffled at why men seem to prefer young, inexperienced women. Reactions range from typical scoffing, to mocking said men, or just disregard. It's understandable, as women prefer men who are experienced, so our choices seem baffling at best, insane at worst.

But fear not! I shall explain, in song form! See, many of us men have noticed girls seem to frequently go through the same patterns, over time and through what they experience. And the simple safest bet to get a girl who hasn't reached the bad end of that road, is to find the youngest and most inexperienced girl we can date.

The STAGES (In Taylor Swift Song!):

1. Hopeless romantic

The young girl that adores the boy, and wholeheartedly believes in all the good things of love winning out in the end.

"I'm the one who makes you laugh, When you know you're 'bout to cry. I know your favorite songs, And you tell me about your dreams. Think I know where you belong, Think I know it's with me."-- Belong with Me

Said girl may have had a rough childhood, or a bad relationship, but she still believes that love will win out in her life and things will be alright.

"Then you took me by surpriseYou said, "I'll never leave you alone."

You said, "I remember how we felt sitting by the waterAnd every time I look at you, it's like the first timeI fell in love with a careless man's careful daughterShe is the best thing that's ever been mine."--"Mine"

Stage 2: Epiphany, Getting Burned

This girl is starting to realize that the problems out there will impact her, and they have. It stings and she's kinda upset. Life isn't going the way she hoped.

"There is nothing I do better than revenge!"

"Stay up too late, got nothing in my brainThat's what people say mmm, that's what people say mmI go on too many dates, but I can't make 'em stayAt least that's what people say mmm, that's what people say mmm"

Stage 3: Acceptance

This girl has lost all her dreams of love, and is trying to just soothe the ache that she feels each morning after a hookup, after a fling ends. She's at the point she flat out wants the boy to lie to her about how it wasn't just casual sex, even though she knows full on the truth. People used to think she'd probably get married soon... now they just crack jokes about how many men she's had this year.

"I can see the end as it begins... His hands are in my hair, his clothes are in my room....Say you'll see me again even if it's just pretend!"--Wildest Dreams

"Got a long list of ex-lovers They'll tell you I'm insane Cause you know I love the players And you love the game"--Blank Space

Now you know, ladies, why we lads prefer ""inexperienced" girls. Dating around, and dating bad guys, has a way of tearing down what's good and precious in most women.

Most Helpful Girl

maybe its because inexperienced girls are a lot more easy, naive, have lower standards and are more willing to turn a blind eye to a guy's misgivings. once they get more experienced they know how to respect themselves, know themselves and want they want, how to get it, and don't put up with shit. same could be said for anyone who's actually lived and struggled.

guys like this just pretend they care about romance and innocence so that if the girl ever sees that he's abusive or a user, he can always fall back on the fact that he acted kindly to her... and he can make her addicted to him, since she relies on him emotionally so much.

@fiodor99 you are assuming everyone has the same standards. Your "high standard" is probably appalling to me, and I am sure that my high standard is appalling to you. And trust me, mine does not involve a virgin. Quite the opposite.

@VampireEmpress is a perfect example. That comment is like the female equivalent of that guy going "all women are gold digging bitches who just want scumbags, etc." It shows a very cynical, burned out attitude.

@Metlahead Do not pretend you know my standards or anything about me. a girl could be a non virgin for a million reasons. She could have trusted her whole heart to a man and he betrayed her. do you imply i believe this girl doesn't deserve a second chance? yes, indeed i'm appalled by your standards or better your mindset.

its not only biological, but ethical, spiritual, and many other things. a serious man that cares to open a household, looks for a good, discrete, wise, solid woman to be his wife and mother of his children. a bimbo can't do it.

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mainly guys who look at Jailbait sites want this, they want an easy to manipulate girl with no real life experience so they can use her and she will think it is normal because she has no past experience to compare it to. This is why it is so easy for older men to manipulate naive young girls and why I always rejected much older guys. Like I know what's up Mr. 32 year old you want to feel powerful and in control and I look like an easy target!

Actually, I just want a gal who isn't so torn apart by how other men have treated her that she refuses to give me a chance. I don't want to be punished for some random jerk's mistake, just because I have the same color hair.

Every adult human has emotional baggage unless you want to date a child. My boyfriend had an emotionally abusive girlfriend before me and I didn't blame him for it and tell him he's not good enough or that he's "damaged goods". This is a HUMAN BEING we are talking about not a used tv set, grow up a little.

Insecure men want women who aren't experienced. So she has seen life? What do you want, a baby who believes in fairytales? Sorry but I have no respect for a man who himself is experienced and wants an inexperienced girl for this purpose, nor is he dating material.

The reason we like inexperienced girls is because they are usually sweeter, more romantic and caring. Plus the process of getting them out of their shell sexually is hot as fuck. I don't know why you think we want inexperienced girls but you really are jumping to conclusions on some thing.

You are the one who is jumping to conclusions. Not all men have this stupid af mentality or I would turn lesbian today. There are also intelligent and sensible men out there unlike your breed. No I don't know where you got this stupid idea but inexperienced girls are NOT anymore 'romantic, caring and sweeter' than experienced girls. Experienced girls are more wiser, they have more idea about their sexuality and pick better men. ' Process of getting them out of theit shell sexually is hot as fuck' scared of a girl's sexuality? Think you're some kind of sex god that you're getting them out of their shell? What a load of crap. What a sexist, misogynist and MCP attitude is that!. A WOMAN learns about her sexuality on her OWN.

@ArchDruidMordred you know what? You're scared of a girl's sexuality. That you won't be able to satisfy her or own upto her past lovers. That is the ONLY reason guys want inexperienced girls. A MAN will want a woman as she is and if she's experienced its good she actually knows how the dating pool operates. Same reason why men wanted 'timid, docile, subservient fools' who will act like they don't anything when they probably know more so it boosts men's egos and makes them feel like they are so superior they get to enlighten the girl with their knowledge. Read Gone With The Wind, it records all this accurately and how moms actually trained their daughters to do all this. Men were afraid of knowledge and experience of women and this applies on sexuality also. Like you said, loved to 'get them out of their shell' and feel superior.

You belong with me, is about her being in love with a guy that chooses to date a total bitch. Or well at least a girl she perceives as a bitch. I don't see how being hung up on a guy that chooses the more traditionally girly girl over her is somehow a desirable quality?Mine, is about a good relationship but I really don't see your point here? And the passage you choose is written from his perspective, so what are you trying to say?

Now, shake it off is about gossip, in case that was somehow lost on you? It's not about relationships and has nothing to do with the topic

Blank Space and wilddest dreams are more about crazy casual relationships, but it's not about getting older or more experienced. I think especially blank space describes a very high school like relationship, fall deep, land hard. But point is whether you choose to have hook ups or not, is not a question of experience or age

I really think you've failed to make your point. At least I still think the same about men who want young inexperienced girls that I did before, which is that they're insecure and shallow

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As I said in the take, "Many girls are baffled at why men seem to prefer young, inexperienced women. Reactions range from typical scoffing, to mocking said men, or just disregard. "

Because otherwise I don't see your point?Talking about Taylor Swift did you ever listen 15? One of her earlier works. It's exactly about young girls being quick to fall in love and easily manipulated or hurt. She urges them to be more careful about who they give their everything to and that's not bitter, that's just reality. Not everyone is gonna treat you nice and you have to be careful about men sometimes. Being blindly in love is not a good idea.And I think after a lot of girls have been burned a few they ARE more careful about who they sleep with. It's quite the opposite from what you claimed

Great take! But I have to correct you "Stay up too late, got nothing in my brainThat's what people say mmm, that's what people say mmI go on too many dates, but I can't make 'em stayAt least that's what people say mmm, that's what people say mmm" isn't Better than revenge, it's shake it off.

What's given freely has lost all value.Sex is not something to be given out cheaply. I think true intimacy is coupled with emotional as well. For the very reason that people break up i am choosing to wait until marraige.Just. Want to point out i am not talking about victims of rape or csa. I mean come on some seld respect can be healthy

@Monsters They were just college students looking for money. I don't even have a job, but I felt that these four girls really needed me. I saw them in my dreams before, so it was destiny that I met them. I met seven girls, three of them didn't seem to like me, but the four I had sex with really liked me. They told me to come back to them. I wish I could meet them again, but their lives are too different than mine. I don't have a job, so this was a one time thing with each girl. I'm glad these four girls were the ones that had sex with me, though. The sex felt great because I was a virgin for 26 years. It felt like a brief resting period after an extremely long journey. These girls were my heaven on Earth for a few minutes. In the end, they enjoyed the sex more than I that. We hugged and kissed after sex. What everyone else takes for granted, I will treasure forever.

@Monsters The girls were inexperienced, too. I don't think I was their first time, but they clearly didn't have much sexual experience. It was the first time they ever saw a penis as big as mine and their pussies were very tight, but very soft and wet, too.

honestly... all of this can happen to a girl who hasn't had sex too. like if a girl had a boyfriend in middle school, and then she found out he had his other little gfs and she wasn't the only one... they might have only kissed, but that betrayal hurt her feelings for a long time.

or even guys with the whole friendzone thing... they do all of those favors for her, and then just feel like they've been used at the end of the day.

i knew it lol and I've always been saying guys who are urging girls to lose their virginity and date and do one night stands... etc because "us guys just hate virgins" they just do it to make girls go more wild and loose which increases their chance in sex !

and a lot of girls believe that for some reason and they throw out all self respect they have and tear themselves up and ruin thier hearts with bad boys and one night stands and such

Not all guys are the same Some men will tell me that they don't like inexperienced girls Also define your definition of inexperienced because I know a lady who married her best friend and she had precious relationships and she was not a virgin and her husband was a virgin before he got married and he was going to sleep with a girl but he decided to marry his best friend instead and they never dated.

Well thats ok because thats what they both wanted right. Where as imagine being a guy who wants a girl with a lot of expuernce butthe girl he really likes has none. Or a guy who doesn't want a girl with a lot of history but finds out the girl he really likes has a lot. It just worked in your friends case because they were both ok with it. Get what im saying.

May be why girls prefer a dumb "bad boy" over an experienced good guy with a hard edge. They don't want a dude who takes one look at her, and starts acting like he suffers borderline disorder. Is she a dream wife? Or is she Cruella in disguise? If she excuses herself, is it to go to the bathroom like she said? Or is she trying to sic some goon on me, like the last 5 girls did? If she wants me around, why is she so shy? If she doesn't, then why is she not respectful-yet-honest? Why the games? The charades? Why the treachery? If you tell me to get lost, I think you're a bitch. But I might forgive you. If you smile at me, then call the cops when my back is turned for no damned reason, just to mess with me... you can go to Hell.

Here's the guy version of this:

1. Stage one: Romantic hopeful

Miss Perfect has gotta be around here somewhere. If only I knew the right words to say.

2. Stage two: Epiphany, Every Other Girl is a Landmine

Why universe hate Waspinator? Being overwhelmed by how cruel women can be.

3. Stage three: Lonely, paranoid, miserable, and defiant

If she excuses herself and is gone just a little too long, especially if there are ugly looks in the room, don't wait for her enforcer to show up. Leave. It's a trap. You should have known it was a trap. That off-glance of hers reeked with insincerity. Leave now. If it makes you feel better, tell yourself you're in an NBC drama, and the pursuers you just know are coming for you will likely have guns. Drive away. F* 'em all. You're too old for this sh*t.

There's something nice about having a girl/woman you can control a little, inexperienced women are sometimes esier to handle and show what I like. But really I just want a women who can kiss Nicely to start with. I really think as you get older in a relationship sensual kissing is something that goes away.

I prefer "inexperienced" girls because being "experienced" impliesA) somebody who just sleeps around frequentlyB) somebody who had multiple relationships that failedNeither one sounds like a good candidate for a relationship.

I don't get why so many girls are acting like a guy who prefers "inexperienced girls" is some predator trying to take advantage of one's dating and sexual innocence.

No need to be so cynical.

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The main reason in my opinion why these guys prefer "inexperienced girls", is because some guy's egos can't take the idea of his woman doing dirty, naughty, kinky, sexual things with some other man before him.

In short... jealousy.

It takes maturity to not get bothered by the idea of his woman cuddlling, kissing, sexting, having foreplay with and fucking some other guy besides him in her past.