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Comments and Remarks your husband makes

My ex used to say wow you are getting bit big huh? I said yup and you keep growing and your hair is going to keep moving all the way to your back also u used to have a 6 pack but I guess now you have the entire keg.

I wouldn't worry about it. I know that he is smart enough to not do something like that. And plus, I KNOW him. He isn't the "flirty" type, lol. Lets say that I had married someone else though and I found out that they were making flirty comments, I would probaly be very angry and tell him so. And I wouldn't marry someone like that period. I have my own issues, that would just be too much for me to deal with.

One of my least favorite things that he does, is, right before he is going to say something super opinionated, or derogatory he says " I am sorry, but...." And then says something mean..... so annoying!

Dh would never do that in a million years. I am his only past, present and future love ;-) but if I had married someone else and he did that I would ask him immediately what was up with that and then judge by his reaction. If he looks away, mutters under his breath, ignores me or stutters then yeah, he's hiding something and is caught red handed. In that case there would be a serious argument that would immediately follow. Otherwise he may not know that he's stepping over the line. I guess it would depend on what exactly he said.

Also I must add that a lot of women make "innocent" comments about men's looks, in particularly famous men on tv and the movies and guys never seem to care or get offended. Either they don't care or they're hiding it awfully well. So if a woman makes such comments about other men, then she can't be upset over dh doing the same. Just saying.

As long as there is nothing serious meant in the comment then I would see no problem with it. What some might see as flirty others would see as being friendly. So unless there was something more going on then I wouldn't worry too much