Today I share with you my special way of asking the universe for what I want and how you can use this simple formula to help you attain more of what you want from life. Love Dream Live will soon have new website, so stay tuned for more frequent episodes, and more exciting news!

Today we will be focusing on how you can OWN your femininity, or masculinity in order to attract meaningful and lasting relationships. When you do not own your femininity, you will attract men who can not commit, have no back bone, and seem indecisive. When you do not own your masculinity you will attract women who are needy, demanding, pushy, and controlling. This dynamic is a result of OUR own inability to completely embody our identity, sexuality, and the fundamental essence of our presence.

When we do not OWN ourselves, we leave room for fear, insecurity, and other negative emotions to creep in. Also since we don't know who we are or what we want, we are not able to create a lasting union with another person, and all relationships end in heartbreak and disappointment.

On the other hand, when BOTH partners own their individual femininity or masculinity, only then are they able to create a lasting union through harmony and balance. Neither partner is needy or insecure, since they both know who they are and what they want, there is NO ROOM for that.

Today I encourage you to pay attention to your relationships and to your behavior. ARE YOU OWNING YOUR ESSENCE? If you are, you will attract other people who are doing the same, if you are not, you will continue to encounter relationships that mirror your insecurities and create heartache and headaches in your life.

First I want to say Happy Valentine's Day! Love is one of my favorite subjects in the world, so I want to take the time today to invite you to pause and contemplate where you are in your relationship with love. Whether you are single or in a relationship doesn't really matter. Love is WHO YOU ARE, and the more open you are to it, the more that it will expand you and the more love that will flow from you to others, and vise versa.

Love is not something that can be taken away from us, EVER. We sometimes have limiting beliefs that when the person we love, our love goes with them, but that is far from the truth. Love can never be lost, ever, because YOU ARE love. It's like trying to extract water from water, you can't, that is it's natural state. I encourage you to focus on expanding your capacity to love and be loved. Allow the flow of it to flow through you, and do not let it depend on someone else's presence in order to feel this wonderful essence of who you were BORN to be. You are love, and your capacity to love can help you expand, lover yourself and love others more. Love is like a practice, the more you love, the more you love, the more you love. There is no end to this constant magical flow.

When we share our love it is such an amazing feeling. It's like a high and an outrageous feeling that makes us feel like unstoppable giants. This is why I encourage you to not be afraid to be the one who loves the most when you are in a relationship. I always strive to be the one who loves the most, and it is an empowering and expanding feeling. The secret about being the one who loves the most is that that person is the happiest, and is generous, kind, patient, and loving, automatically, almost without effort.

So whether you are in a relationship or not, treat yourself today to a wonderful day of love and surround yourself with the absolute majestic essence of WHO YOU ARE. Again Love isn't something someone can take away from your or give to you, everyone is love and everyone is a container of love. Our goal is to make our container bigger and bigger every single day to expand our capacity to allow love to come in and flow out without fear or resistance.

I hope that you all have a fantastic LOVE FILLED Valentine's Day! Thank you for tuning in and I'll be back soon.

** Side Note: I am working on a book, so Season 2 of Love Dream Live will be coming in March. Thank you for your patience, and have a wonderful amazing Day!! : )

Today let's talk about being authentic, and being your absolute truest self to others, and to yourself. Living in denial, putting up a front and running away from your problems, only delays the situation. Acting, and always wearing different masks for different people can get exhausting, and it surrounds you with people who don't really know who you are. If you ever get a feeling that you are really alone, even though you are surrounded by others, maybe the truth is that you are not being yourself. Hiding aspects of ourselves in order to be more likable or feel accepted can seem like a good solution.

In the long run, this can create a full blown theater where you are the actor, you wear many masks, and you have orchestrated a life of falseness and lies. You don't trust other people, because you don't trust yourself, and this can lead to countless heartaches and headaches down the road. Today I encourage you to be authentic, not only to yourself, but to other people. Have the courage and determination to face your problems head on, and don't live in denial. Wearing masks and pretending is only a temporary solution, and will not solve anything. When your act falls apart and feels unsustainable, you will crumble and feel the weight of the world fall on you. Save yourself from going through hell, by simply being honest from the start. : )

Today we will talk about those people in our lives who believe that they have the best intentions for us, and have mistreated us, misguided us, or overprotected us. This can be parents, spouses, siblings, or anyone in your life who you may have tolerated their over-bearing personality to the degree that you feel helpless and don't feel like you have the courage to stand up to them and let them know that you have had enough.

No matter how well their intentions, you need to take charge of your own life, and make your own decisions, even if it means that you will make mistakes. Learned helplessness is when we have tolerated a situation so many times, that it doesn't seem like there is an alternative. But the good news is that there is! This is YOUR life, and it is up to YOU what you do or don't do, and anyone who doesn't agree needs to kindly be ejected.

Sometimes out of our need for approval or belonging, we feel that we have to do things in a certain way to make other people happy. The truth is that your happiness should come before anyone else's, not out of selfishness, but out of self respect. Respect yourself, by standing up to the other person. Let them know that they need to respect you and your choices, and that you will not continue to do things their way. This can take serious courage, but you will feel better once all is said and done. If the other person argues or decides to leave, that is their choice, and you need to respect that, and move on.

Today I will talk about limiting beliefs that we have placed upon ourselves that prevent us from enjoying connection with others, as well as enjoying monetarily success. Starting relationships, starting to make money can be easy, but sustaining that connection or that flow of money is oftentimes much harder to do. Making and keeping money and relationships can be challenging because it is not something we go get. We need to be open, and receptive to them and allow them to flow to us. For you to be open to receiving these wonderful gifts you MUST believe that you deserve them, and that they are possible to attain.

I encourage you to try to discover how you are keeping yourself from freedom and connection, by having money blocks, as well as fear of getting close to other people. There's plenty of love and money to go around, but if you are not open and aware, you could be missing it and be living in despair, isolation and frustration. Have the strength to release your lack mentality, and wisdom to open up to the wonderful flow of everything good in life.

Relationships and money are very related, the chances are high that if one is not going well, the other one will follow. Pay attention and be aware to what you tell yourself about money, and about love. Believe that you are enough, and believe that you will have enough. This can make a world of a difference in your life.

Today we will talk about anger. The real root of anger is an unmet need or expectation, and all it really means is that you need to have a conversation. This could be a conversation with yourself or with the person who you are angry at. The point is not to lash out at people, but to further understand your needs and theirs. Oftentimes we may be in situation where we are wanting a specific need to be met, but the other person also needs that need met. This can lead to anger, frustration, hurt, and maybe even hate if you allow the feelings to fester.

Finding ways to meet our own needs or finding people who are willing and able to, we can begin to release our expectations on the other person. From the wise words of Master Yoda : “Fear is the path to the dark side. Fear leads to anger. Anger leads to hate. Hate leads to suffering.” If someone has hurt you, or left you hanging, find a way to let it go. Holding on to anger and hurt, or coming with ways to get back at the other person, will not help you in the long run.

Do your very best to find forgiveness, understanding, and compassion. This will allow you to move on with your life in peace. Learn from the situation, and do whatever it takes to move past it. In the long run this will make you stronger and more resilient, and it will also help you know more about your needs, and the people you need to associate yourself with to get them met. Remember to always look at the bright side!

( NOTE: Stay TUNED! Although there will be a new podcast only on Friday's for the next few weeks, Season 2 of Love Dream Live is coming soon! ** Late February ** ) - Aida : )

Today I want to make a few announcements. I have taken time off for the holidays and new year, and I have been working on a short Book titled 100 Days to Love.Dream.Live. It will be on Amazon soon, as well as other online bookstores. Also I am working on Season 2 of this podcast and making it more interactive with guests, more stories and hopefully more wisdom to share. I want to give a special shout out to all of my listeners in Viet Nam, Russia, Germany, Canada, Australia, and of course the US. I am so thankful for each and every one of you. Later in season 2 I will start taking questions from listeners for new topics on future episodes. I've recently gone through a lot of life changes and for 2016 I am focusing on letting go, and creating more freedom and abundance in my life. Season 2 of Love Dream Live will be starting in late February. From now until then I will be publishing episodes I have recorded and are season 1.5 for now. Hope you enjoy and I look forward to a wonderful and exciting 2016!

Today let's talk about the power of believing. When you
believe in something, no matter how small or big, you equip yourself with
something that nobody else can see or touch. Something that is only yours, and
making the commitment to believe takes courage and strength.

It doesn't really matter what you believe in, as long as you
have something to believe. I know this seems bizarre but even if what you
believe in never happens, it still serves to carry you through the tough parts
of life. There is an enormous power in
having this simple truth in your life. I dare you to find something to believe in.
Make it ginormous, make it something that is almost impossible, this will catapult
you into a life of faith and hope.