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Nonetheless, he invited me back to meet his friends staring at him in disbelief thinking he actually succeeded in picking up this Brasilian girl.

He broke the ice immediately and said, “She’s American.” And once again, I got the line, “We thought you were Brasilian!

And frankly, I just wouldn’t let my guard down to the idea of hooking up with a white American guy when there were so many Afro-Brasilian men in my surroundings.

I was prejudiced, or in kinder words had a preference, for brown beautiful men.

I don’t know what color my husband will be, or what culture he’ll be from, but I will say this.

It’s amazing what I’ve learned in life when I’m open to more than one possibility. Have you ever tried sex with someone outside your race and found it went against popular stereotypes?

” After watching the sunset together, he invited me to meet up with them to salsa that evening.

I wouldn’t give him a definite answer, as I had articles to finish and work to do.

We yearn to embrace our sexual bliss, and yet have allowed what our mothers, grandmothers, aunties, and sister-friends have said about “them” keep us from pursuing something new.

We know how hard it is to fight against the stereotypes of black women as lascivious, innately promiscuous, and even predatory, deviants— and yet we feel more than justified in projecting our own labels on others, unfairly sizing up men and defining their capabilities between the sheets (or lack thereof) based on what so-and-so- said instead of considering the realities of the individual that just might be the guy who can makes your toes curl.” My toes curled, more than once. And even though I doubt me and this kid from Jersey will ever be more than just friends due to our chosen life paths (he’s ready to settle in one place and pursue a serious relationship, I want to keep traveling and find a partner who is willing to go with me), it was still worth giving us the opportunity to share intimacy, a deeper level of connection, and now, a stronger friendship.

I grew up believing a number of stereotypes about non-Black men, especially when it came to sex.