A Man Has To Have A Plan

We really hit it off because we have pretty much everything in common.

After a little while, we both got into whether we like each other. It turned out that we both liked each other a lot and things were going great. This girl means everything to me right now. It’s a different feeling than with other girls.

I don’t want to get into sex or anything, I would rather just hold and kiss her. Anyway, I eventually asked her out. She was very excited but realized that she couldn’t “bring herself to date”.

What the heck does that mean?

She says that she needed some more time and has to straighten some stuff out.

Well, it has been a matter of weeks now and she still does not want to.

I am looking for a relationship in my life right now and do not know whether to wait for her or to try to move on. Pleasseeeee help me with this!

Hi,

This is a classic case of being too friendly with her and she feels that you’ll be smothering her if you’re around more.

Take a break from her… make her wait for you…
When she calls, emails, messages… ask her if you can call her back, IM her at a later time… and tell her a later time, be specific… you want her to be waiting for you.

I bet the two of you have done a lot of “hanging around” but you haven’t planned anything to specifically for the two of you to be together and do something.

A Man has to have a Plan.

So:
Step being so available to her;
When you get together have a plan on what to do;
And talk to other girls.

One of the best way to increase the attraction of the one you want is by gaining the attraction of another and making her jealous.