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Thursday, July 26, 2012

How to Control Your Man

I have done my research over the years
and have been trying to find a way to sum it all up in a simple form.
Well, here it is. If you want to control your husband, lover, male
counterpart, submissive, or whatever, here is a guide that should be
of some help. It is by no means a complete, in-depth discourse, but
should be enough to get you started.

Also, if you, yourself, feel a bit
timid, or guilty about doing or saying some of the things your
partner wants (or needs) to hear, then you have to remember, you are
doing it because you love him and he does it because he loves you.
Don't push him harder than he can stand, but always push to find his
limits. Once you find them, respect them, but keep on pushing them.

The following is a list of things that
you should be doing. Not everything will apply in every case, and
there may be things not on the list that work for you. Don't hesitate
to leave a comment for all to read, or write me if what you have to
say is more personal.

You must absolutely take total
control of his orgasms!

You must get him to wear a
chastity device of some kind.

You should put it on him yourself
and only you should hold the key.

Let him out at your discretion
only and only for teasing or release.

Control your own feelings of
guilt.

He should never be permitted to
have any kind of orgasm without your permission.

If you feel he deserves an
orgasm... Ruin it!

Remember, you can ruin several
orgasms a day, but he can only have one full one.

Full orgasms should be for very
special occasions (no more than 3 or 4 per year).

You must get into his head!

Learn his fantasies and what
turns him on.

Tease him with your words
whenever possible.

Find out what humiliates him.

Use his humiliation whenever
possible.

You must keep him sexually aroused
as much as possible.

Talk sexy to him.

Tell him you are going to make
him do something humiliating.

Fondle him, or let him fondle
you.

Send him text messages with
orders to do something sexual.

Make him give you orgasms
frequently.

Make him do something humiliating
(see list below).

Make him wear a butt-plug for a
time.

Make him be naked when you are
not.

Make him masturbate for you.

Always, ALWAYS make him eat his
own cum no matter where it is deposited.

Punish him whenever he displeases
you.

Don't let him get away with
anything!

Spank, paddle, or whip him.

Humiliate him in some way.

Put Bengay or Icy-Hot on his
cock, balls, or anus.

Make him do anything he hates.

No matter what you are doing, or
where you are, find ways to tease him.

Fondle him through his pants in
public (or in private).

Whisper sexy or humiliating
things in his ear.

Make him shop for lingerie with
you.

Men are all different. Thus, different
things turn them on and different things humiliate them. Here is a
list of things that humiliate many men. This list is by no means
complete, nor will every man be turned on by everything on the list.
It is up to you to discover what works and what doesn't. Sometimes,
only the threat of these things is enough to turn him on. Humiliation
can be used as a punishment as well. Find out which ones and you can
control his behavior through the threat of it.

Humiliations:

Name calling (stupid, worthless,
etc.)

Belittling him or his “equipment”
(tiny dick, little willy, etc.)

Forced cross-dressing

Wearing women's clothing (maids
outfit?) anywhere

Shopping for lingerie (for you or
for him)

Wearing a butt-plug in public

Masturbating in a public restroom

Wearing women's panties or
pantyhose under street clothes

Masturbating for you or a group

Eating his own (or other men's)
cum

Shave his genitals yourself, then
make him keep them clean shaven

Sexually servicing several women

Telling others about your
lifestyle

Prostate or other type of milking

Being naked around the house

Anal penetration (dildo, strap-on,
etc.)

Sex with an inflatable doll

Suck a realistic dildo

Being naked outdoors

Being photographed (or video
recorded)

Post photos or videos to the web

Forced bi-sexuality (make him suck
another's cock)

Being cuckolded

Drinking your urine

Doing just about anything sexual
to himself while you or others watch

The thing to remember is that you don't
have to make him actually do these things. Just implying that you
“might” may be enough of a turn on. It's up to you to discover
what works with your man and what doesn't.

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