A swinger club is normally a private members club with the specific purpose of hosting party’s for people in the lifestyle. They range from huge nightclub like environments to small houses on residential streets.

You normally have to pay a annual membership fee to join and attend events, some clubs even require you to book in advance, which is the case especially if your a single man. This is mainly to ensure the right balance of clients on the night.

What to expect when you get to club

This can varies greatly depending on what swinger venue you go to. For smaller house party’s this could simply be a greeting from the hosts. Inside there is usually is small amount of amenities such as a hot tub or Jacuzzi and some play rooms. The hosts normally provide food or snacks, but it’s up to you to provide your own drinks. These types of party’s are generally a good way to break into the lifestyle scene as it’s a smaller no pressure environment.

The bigger more upmarket clubs normally have a full staff team to look after your every need. From greetings to food and drink service and any other problems you may have. These types of swinger clubs have a large amount of areas such as bars, lounge and dance floor. They have plenty of adult activity’s to enjoy such as, multiple play rooms which have different themes like medical, prison and army. Most of the larger clubs even have fully equipped dungeons for the more adventurous of you out there.

Expect to see full leisure facilities at the main clubs, like swimming pools, hot tubs, sauna and massage centers. All clubs provide lockers for your convenience.

When it comes to alcohol each club has it’s own set of rules so it’s best to check with each individual venue you are going to attend. Some large clubs do have licensed bars, this is rare however, as most don’t. This means that your will have to bring your own alcohol if you plan to drink. On a side note many clubs don’t like like drunkenness. if do plan on drinking do it responsively.

What type of people are in the clubs?

The answer to this question is simple, all sorts of different people. If it’s your first time you feel a bit uncomfortable at how liberal the other clients are. But in truth there is no need to be. Almost all of the people in the lifestyle are very friendly and helpful, and most understand what the first time can be like, as they have been there themselves. The best way is ease yourself into things slowly and build up at your own pace, nobody is going to rush you into something you don’t want to do. As always the whole point of gathering’s is to have fun.