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I recently came across a couple of submissions on Reddit in which people are considering “testing” their partners. One was from a woman, the other was from a man, so I figured it’s safe to discuss now as it shows that both genders can be equally stupid and insecure. Although I will say that, in…

Let’s face it, especially as we get older, much of our time revolves around our careers. We spend most of our days, during most of the week, at our workplace. Therefor you spend a lot of time with the people you work with, and there’s a certain familiarity that builds. Often that can turn into…

A friend of mine recently posted some thing on Facebook, it was a list of suggestions on how to find and improve relationships between Black men and women. Most of the list standard stuff like “be honest about your intentions and what you’re looking for” blah blah blah, but one thing on the list directed…

Warning: Potential Grumpy Old Man Rant So a couple of weeks ago some teenage guy posted a question on the dating advice forum on Reddit. Honestly, I usually just avoid even answering questions from teenagers, sometimes it’s hard for me not to sound like a condescending adult (which I am), because they’ll act like everything…

One topic that comes up on a semi-regular basis in the various dating and relationship forums on Reddit that I frequent is in regards to Long Distance Relationships. Like the other day a woman submitted this, under the title IS IT WORTH IT?: Talking to this dude who lives about 10 hours from me. We…

I have pondered this and discussed it with other before, most recently about a week ago when someone posted a link to this blog post on Reddit: How To Date A Pornstar? I didn’t even read it before answering (so I was unaware that it was just a thinly-veiled ad for a London-based Escort agency),…

For the past few months I’ve been posting semi-regularly on Reddit in the various dating and relationship forums. Believe it or not, for some reason, I’ve gotten many compliments on the advice I give, and thanks from people who say I’ve helped them with their problems and pointed them in the right direction. Crazy, right?…

Inspired by yesterdays post about the “Nice Guys” of OK Cupid blog on Tumblr, I came across this recent entry, from another self-proclaimed “nice guy”: Okay, so, reading your significant other’s emails , and pretending to be them online is definitely in the “unacceptable” category. My position has always been that if you feel THAT…