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Wednesday, December 28, 2011

Sex Parties for the week of Friday, December 30 to Thursday, January 5.

Men: Below is the new list of all the parties that I know about this week. I only gave information based on my personal experience, or the information that the hosts provided. If I didn't know something I listed it as TK. (N/A means not applicable). PLEASE, never go to a party just based on my information. You should always check with the hosts first to confirm that the parties are up and running. Also this is just the parties this week, if you want the whole list you can email me at adventuresgrsx@gmail.com.

Friday... NUBIAN DUKES PARTY (Times Square). This party is for HOT muscular, athletic, slim, African-American and Latino dudes ONLY. They have a strict door policy. Mandatory clothes check: boxers, no shirts or t-shirts. Hip hop music with a Dj. Very HOT. Incredible bodies, no attitude and a lot of action. RATING: Very selectiveVIBE: social, not much attitudeTIME: 11:30PM-6AMCROWD: 70-90+ menAGE: 18-40 YOSS/BB: Safe sex requested, some BBSPACE: great studio space, two bathrooms, shower, 4 rooms, pornSUPPLIES: drinks, condoms/lube, showerFREQUENCY: Weekly or bi-weekly; usually on Fridays, but can be Saturdays or Sunday nightsLIGHTING: GoodGETTING IN: Send pics and stats to nubiandukesnyc@yahoo.com

DICKPLAY PARTY (Inwood/Upper Manhattan) On the Verge of 2012. Party at Ed and Steve’s, an interracial couple. The hosts think of the group as being a hand selected group of guys who are into interracial sex and don't have attitudes. It's a mix of guys, white, black, Latin, occasionally Asian. Most guys are naked, but not required. RATING: Not SelectiveVIBE: laid back, no attitudeTIME: 8pm – 2amCROWD: 20-40 menAGE: 18-60s (Average age is 35-45+)SS/BB: Some safe sex, but mostly BBSPACE: private apartmentSUPPLIES: condoms/lubeFREQUENCY: Usually twice a month, but often weekly (on weekends)LIGHTING: GoodGETTING IN: send pics & stats to EdAndSteve@verizon.net; or check out http://groups.yahoo.com/group/EdAndSteve

INFERNO (Midtown East). New party, was formerly TESTOSTERONE, which was formerly THE OLYMPUS PARTY. Held in a huge duplex. This is an umbrella for a number of different types of parties. MUST RATING: TK VIBE: TK TIME: TK CROWD: TK SS/BB: TK SPACE: duplex apartment SUPPLIES: condom/lube FREQUENCY: Weekly, Fridays LIGHTING: Good, plus darker rooms upstairs GETTING IN: Send pic (shirtless from the waist up) & Stats to: apollothegreek@earthlink.net or check out www.gayguysglobal.net.

ENCORES PARTY (Chelsea). After-hours party. Often attended by restaurant and bar employees after those places shut down. You don't have to have an invitation or be on a list or anything. It can be incredibly hot, but sometimes it is hit or miss. NOT a mandatory close check party. RATING: Not Selective VIBE: no attitude TIME: 3AM-7AM, (The party really takes off around 4AM when many bars close) CROWD: Gets 70 people on Fridays; and 100 Sat. night (Sun. morning). AGE: no restriction SS/BB: Safe sex and BB SPACE: Paddles sex club SUPPLIES: condom/lubes FREQUENCY: every Fri and Sat night LIGHTING: Good GETTING IN: Check out Paddles: http://paddlesnyc.com/

MILK CHOCOLATE PARTY (Times Square). New Year's Eve Party/Latin Leche Pre-Party. The host runs a number of different parties that vary from hot guys to average men, so be sure to check which party you want. They screen to invite men of all colors age 21-45. They have a number of theme parties from Latino, to Hung Men, to Black Out.RATING: Selective to somewhat selective, depending on the partyVIBE: no attitudeTIME: 4pm - 10pmCROWD: varies depending on partyAGE: varies depending on the partySS/BB: safe sex and BBSPACE: Uses all the major party venues and hotel suitesSUPPLIES: condom/lubeFREQUENCY: A few parties every weekLIGHTING: varies depending on the partyGETTING IN: Send stats and pics to milkchocolatenyc@gmail.com

ND2 (Times Square). This party is for average African-American and Latino men ONLY. Mandatory clothes check: boxers, no shirts or t-shirts. Condoms, lube, liquid provided. Hip hop music with a Dj. No attitude and a lot of action.RATING: Somewhat selectiveVIBE: social, no attitudeTIME: 11:30PM-6AMCROWD: 50-70+ menAGE: 18-50 YOSS/BB: Safe sex requested, some BBSPACE: great studio space, two bathrooms, shower, 4 rooms, pornSUPPLIES: drinks, condoms/lube, showerFREQUENCY: Weekly or bi-weekly; often Wednesday, Thursday or Friday nights LIGHTING: GoodGETTING IN: Send pics and stats to HARLEMDUKESNYC@YAHOO.COM

ENCORES PARTY (Chelsea). After-hours party. Often attended by restaurant and bar employees after those places shut down. You don't have to have an invitation or be on a list or anything. It can be incredibly hot, but sometimes it is hit or miss. NOT a mandatory close check party. RATING: Not Selective VIBE: no attitude TIME: 3AM-7AM, (The party really takes off around 4AM when many bars close) CROWD: Gets 70 people on Fridays; and 100 Sat. night (Sun. morning). AGE: no restriction SS/BB: Safe sex and BB SPACE: Paddles sex club SUPPLIES: condom/lubes FREQUENCY: every Fri and Sat night LIGHTING: Good GETTING IN: Check out Paddles: http://paddlesnyc.com/

Sunday… HARD DRIVE!/CUM MONKEY (Chelsea) New Year’s Morning Special Hard Drive-Bagels and Cocks. The host is very creative and always having guest appearance by porn stars, as well as fun giveaways (underwear and porn), and great promotions to pull in hotter guys. RATING: SelectiveVIBE: No attitude, extremely friendlyTIME: 9am to 2pm and stay til 3:00pmCROWD: Get 30-50 guys height/weight proportionate (all body types)AGES: 25 to 55YODONATION: $25 SS/BB: Safe SexSPACE: Paddles studio spaceSUPPLIES: condom/lubeLIGHTING: GoodGETTING IN: send pics and stats to hunteur1@gmail.com or check out www.CumMonkey.com NOTE: Hunteur is having his special Hard Drive New Years Day Morning hosted by Robert Ordonez and the Dirty Pig Boys on January First 2012. Designed for those who had to work the night before and need to blow off steam, if you did not wish to deal with New Years Eve madness or do not want the madness to end- he opens his doors at 9am to 2pm and close at 3:00pm. Bring in the New Year Morning with a bang and with our hardcore Hard Drive boys Sponsored by 9x6lubes.com the world’s first non- staining silicone lube everyone gets a tube of 9x6!

NYJOCK PARTY--NYJP (Midtown East). The host is very discriminating so the place is filled with hot men. If you don't have a killer body and face, you may be ignored by the men you want the most, but the party is always very hot. The hotter men tend to show up late, and the later you go the better the sex seems to be . RATING: VERY SELECTIVEVIBE: Lots of attitude; some of the hot men are standoff-ish. Biggest complaint is that many men just standing around looking at each other.TIME: 8pm-2pmCROWD: 50-70+ young, hot menAGES: mostly 20s & 30s, few in-shape men in 40sDONATION: $25.SS/BB: A safe sex party. SPACE: Hot, clean, huge studio space, two bathrooms, showerSUPPLIES: . Condom/lube.LIGHTING: GOOD, sometimes too dark for such hot menGETTING IN: send stats and pics to: nyjockparty@yahoo.com

THE CLUB HOUSE ORGIES (East Village). Has theme parties such as ERUPTIÖN (primarily bb); PEÄK (Safe Sex Party); COCK4LUNCH (afternoon sex); FÜSION (Baseball-style wristbands to let guys know if you prefer SS or BB). The host (who sometimes participates) describes his party “this is a party for height/weight proportional men over 35. Younger guys come, but they’re usually into older guys. This is an orgy, not a stand & pose cruise party. Racially diverse. Guys range from great shape to bad shape.” Great party for average men. RATING: Somewhat selective VIBE: No attitude TIME: 10pm-4am (Sunday) CROWD: A slow night is 15 guys, a busy night is 30. AGES: 18-60s SS/BB: safe sex and BB SPACE: private apartment SUPPLIES: Condoms/lube FREQUENCY: Every Tuesday, Thursday, Sunday (and occasional Friday) LIGHTING: Good, and has blackout parties after 11pm. GETTING IN: Check out http://theorgyguy.blogspot.com or email stats and pics to theclubhouseparties@gmail.com

NEW YORK BONDAGE CLUB (Chelsea) For anyone who has a taste for sex with a kinky side (leather, rope, spanking, etc) it's a good place to get satisfied on a Sunday night. Sex is no longer banned. Sucking, fucking, whatever, are all allowed now at all times. It's common to see guys tied down and fucked. Or a dom directing sex between two roped subs. RATING: Not selective VIBE: no attitude TIME: They now stay open later (until at least 1 AM instead of 11 PM) CROWD: varies AGE: It's always a mixed crowd in terms of age. SS/BB: Safe sex SPACE: Held in a straight S&M club, the party scene includes cages, restraints, bondage crosses, stocks and all sorts of devices to aid in tying people up and getting them off. SUPPLIES: Condoms/lube FREQUENCY: Every Sunday night LIGHTING: 11 PM they turn down the lights in all areas except the bar at the front. In these darker areas, there's now a dress code of no street clothes. You have to wear no more than underwear, or you can wear fetish wear (leather, rubber, and the like). GETTING IN: Check out the site www.NYBondageClub.com

NEW YORK JACKS (Times Square) Safe-sex party for guys who like to jerk off. RATING: Not Selective VIBE: No attitude TIME: Doors open 4:00PM to 6:30PM, jerking until 7:30PM CROWD: varies, all type of bodies, races, and ages from hot young guys to muscle guys to older guys. AGES: 18-60s SS/BB: N/A SPACE: studio space SUPPLIES: N/A FREQUENCY: Every Tuesdays (Paddles) and Sunday (Times Square). LIGHTING: Good GETTING IN: Check out their site: http://www.nyjacks.com/

THE CLUB HOUSE ORGIES (East Village). Has theme parties such as ERUPTIÖN (primarily bb); PEÄK (Safe Sex Party); COCK4LUNCH (afternoon sex); FÜSION (Baseball-style wristbands to let guys know if you prefer SS or BB). The host (who sometimes participates) describes his party “this is a party for height/weight proportional men over 35. Younger guys come, but they’re usually into older guys. This is an orgy, not a stand & pose cruise party. Racially diverse. Guys range from great shape to bad shape.” Great party for average men. RATING: Somewhat selective VIBE: No attitude TIME: 8pm-2am (Sunday) CROWD: A slow night is 15 guys, a busy night is 30. AGES: 18-60s SS/BB: safe sex and BB SPACE: private apartment SUPPLIES: Condoms/lube FREQUENCY: Every Tuesday, Thursday, Sunday (and occasional Friday) LIGHTING: Good, and has blackout parties after 11pm. GETTING IN: Check out http://theorgyguy.blogspot.com or email stats and pics to theclubhouseparties@gmail.com

Monday... MUSCLE GROUP ( West Harlem/w140s). This small sex party in a private apartment. The best thing about this party is that it's one of the true orgies. At most parties guys are having sex one-one-one or threesomes--at this one there is more often than not a pile of guys fucking and sucking off each other. RATING: Selective VIBE: no attitude TIME: 9:30-11pm, occassionally lunch parties CROWD: 4-10 guys, racially mixed very hot to average AGES: 18-40 YOs DONATION: FREE SS/BB: Safe Sex SPACE: small studio apartment SUPPLIES: condom/lube FREQUENCY: parties at random, but often on Mondays, LIGHTING: Excellent GETTING IN: Send pics & Stats to: BIHUNKGROUP@aol.com

Tuesday… THE CLUB HOUSE ORGIES (East Village). Has theme parties such as ERUPTIÖN (primarily bb); PEÄK (Safe Sex Party); COCK4LUNCH (afternoon sex); FÜSION (Baseball-style wristbands to let guys know if you prefer SS or BB). The host (who sometimes participates) describes his party “this is a party for height/weight proportional men over 35. Younger guys come, but they’re usually into older guys. This is an orgy, not a stand & pose cruise party. Racially diverse. Guys range from great shape to bad shape.” Great party for average men. RATING: Somewhat selective VIBE: No attitude TIME: 6pm-2am (Tuesday) CROWD: A slow night is 15 guys, a busy night is 30. AGES: 18-60s SS/BB: safe sex and BB SPACE: private apartment SUPPLIES: Condoms/lube FREQUENCY: Every Tuesday, Thursday, Sunday (and occasional Friday) LIGHTING: Good, and has blackout parties after 11pm. GETTING IN: Check out http://theorgyguy.blogspot.com or email stats and pics to theclubhouseparties@gmail.com

FOOTMENNYC and TOUCH PARTY GUYS (Midtown East). Started as foot fetish party at a bar, now a full-fledged sex party. Kitchen, ‘Footwear worship’ lounge and mingle space on the main floor, with room for massage and casual fun. "Bedroom" loft upstairs for more adult play and privacy. RATING: somewhat selective VIBE: no attitude TIME: 8pm-2am CROWD: 30-50 guys AGE: 18-50 SS/BB: Safe Sex SPACE: duplex apt with two bathrooms SUPPLIES: condoms/lubes FREQUENCY: Every Tuesday LIGHTING: Good, some darker rooms upstairs GETTING IN: Check out the website http://www.FootMenNYC.com

NEW YORK JACKS (Chelsea) Safe-sex party for guys who like to jerk off. RATING: Not Selective VIBE: No attitude TIME: Doors open 7:30PM to 9:00PM, jerking until 11:00PM CROWD: varies, all type of bodies, races, and ages from hot young guys to muscle guys to older guys. AGES: 18-60s SS/BB: N/A SPACE: Paddles SUPPLIES: N/A FREQUENCY: Every Tuesdays (Paddles) and Sunday (Times Square). LIGHTING: Good GETTING IN: Check out their site: http://www.nyjacks.com/

JACKS OF COLOR (Chelsea/Times Square) "THURSDAY HOLIDAY LEATHERS!" A New York City Club For Men of Color "And Their Friends." The best general admission parties – huge and has themed parties including leather, massage, and afternoons on weekends. RATING: Not SelectiveVIBE: no attitudeTIME: doors 7:00 to Midnight, both Events go 'til 2 amCROWD: 70-120AGE: 18-60s SS/BB: some safe sex, but also BBSPACE: PaddlesSUPPLIES: Condoms/lubeFREQUENCY: Every Monday night, and often other weekday nights and weekends.LIGHTING: GoodGETTING IN: Send stats and pics to JacksOfColor@Gmail.com or check out www.jacksofcolor.com

THE CLUB HOUSE ORGIES (East Village). Has theme parties and has a few a week, such as ERUPTIÖN (primarily bb); PEÄK (Safe Sex Party); COCK4LUNCH (afternoon sex); FÜSION (Baseball-style wristbands to let guys know if you prefer SS or BB). The host (who sometimes participates) describes his party “this is a party for height/weight proportional men over 35. Younger guys come, but they’re usually into older guys. This is an orgy, not a stand & pose cruise party. Racially diverse. Guys range from great shape to bad shape.” Great party for average men. RATING: Somewhat selective VIBE: No attitude TIME: 6pm-2am (Tuesday & Thursday), 12-4pm (Friday), 8pm-1am (Sun) CROWD: A slow night is 15 guys, a busy night is 30. AGES: 18-60s SS/BB: safe sex and BB SPACE: private apartment SUPPLIES: Condoms/lube FREQUENCY: Every Tuesday, Thursday, Sunday (and occasional Friday) LIGHTING: Good, and has blackout parties after 11pm. GETTING IN: Check out http://theorgyguy.blogspot.com or email stats and pics to theclubhouseparties@gmail.com

INDULGE (Edison, NJ). Northern NJ Group is private no attitude sex group for in-shape men. Guys are prescreened through an approval process and include all types and ages. RATING: Somewhat selectiveVIBE: no attitudeTIME: 7pmSPACE: hotelSUPPLIES: condom/lubeFREQUENCY: weekly on weekends & weekdaysLIGHTING: variesGETTING IN: To apply for membership, check out this website: http://www.indulgegroup4men.com

MILK CHOCOLATE PARTY (Times Square). New Year's Eve Party/Latin Leche Pre-Party. The host runs a number of different parties that vary from hot guys to average men, so be sure to check which party you want. They screen to invite men of all colors age 21-45. They have a number of theme parties from Latino, to Hung Men, to Black Out.RATING: Selective to somewhat selective, depending on the partyVIBE: no attitudeTIME: 4pm - 10pmCROWD: varies depending on partyAGE: varies depending on the partySS/BB: safe sex and BBSPACE: Uses all the major party venues and hotel suitesSUPPLIES: condom/lubeFREQUENCY: A few parties every weekLIGHTING: varies depending on the partyGETTING IN: Send stats and pics to milkchocolatenyc@gmail.com

ND2 (Times Square). This party is for average African-American and Latino men ONLY. Mandatory clothes check: boxers, no shirts or t-shirts. Condoms, lube, liquid provided. Hip hop music with a Dj. No attitude and a lot of action.RATING: Somewhat selectiveVIBE: social, no attitudeTIME: 11:30PM-6AMCROWD: 50-70+ menAGE: 18-50 YOSS/BB: Safe sex requested, some BBSPACE: great studio space, two bathrooms, shower, 4 rooms, pornSUPPLIES: drinks, condoms/lube, showerFREQUENCY: Weekly or bi-weekly; often Wednesday, Thursday or Friday nightsLIGHTING: GoodGETTING IN: Send pics and stats to HARLEMDUKESNYC@YAHOO.COM

THE OMEGA PARTY (Long Island City, Queens). One of the best and most popular parties for average guys.RATING: Somewhat SelectiveVIBE: laid backTIME: Saturday (8pm-4am)CROWD: 70 to 120 guys per party, racially mixed (60% white, 40% mixed).AGE: age ranges from 20 to 60YOSS/BB: safe sex with some BBSPACE: Big Loft playground (6,000 sq ft) with different theme rooms , many private booths , darkroom , porn etc .SUPPLIES: Refreshments , snacks, condoms and lubeFREQUENCY: Every Friday, Saturday, SundayLIGHTING: Mostly good, some spaces darkGETTING IN: email stats and pics to roccosly@aol.com or check out www.TheOmegaRoom.com.

Sunday…HARD DRIVE!/CUM MONKEY (Chelsea) New Year’s Morning Special Hard Drive-Bagels and Cocks. The host is very creative and always having guest appearance by porn stars, as well as fun giveaways (underwear and porn), and great promotions to pull in hotter guys.RATING: SelectiveVIBE: No attitude, extremely friendlyTIME: 9am to 2pm and stay til 3:00pmCROWD: Get 30-50 guys height/weight proportionate (all body types)AGES: 25 to 55YOSS/BB: Safe SexSPACE: Paddles studio spaceSUPPLIES: condom/lubeLIGHTING: GoodGETTING IN: send pics and stats to hunteur1@gmail.com or check out www.CumMonkey.comNOTE: Hunteur is having his special Hard Drive New Years Day Morning hosted by Robert Ordonez and the Dirty Pig Boys on January First 2012. Designed for those who had to work the night before and need to blow off steam, if you did not wish to deal with New Years Eve madness or do not want the madness to end- he opens his doors at 9am to 2pm and close at 3:00pm. Bring in the New Year Morning with a bang and with our hardcore Hard Drive boys Sponsored by 9x6lubes.com the world’s first non- staining silicone lube everyone gets a tube of 9x6!

NYJOCK PARTY--NYJP (Midtown East). The host is very discriminating so the place is filled with hot men. If you don't have a killer body and face, you may be ignored by the men you want the most, but the party is always very hot. The hotter men tend to show up late, and the later you go the better the sex seems to be . RATING: VERY SELECTIVEVIBE: Lots of attitude; some of the hot men are standoff-ish. Biggest complaint is that many men just standing around looking at each other.TIME: 8pm-2pmCROWD: 50-70+ young, hot menAGES: mostly 20s & 30s, few in-shape men in 40sDONATION: $25.SS/BB: A safe sex party. SPACE: Hot, clean, huge studio space, two bathrooms, showerSUPPLIES: . Condom/lube.LIGHTING: GOOD, sometimes too dark for such hot menGETTING IN: send stats and pics to: nyjockparty@yahoo.com

Thanks again for all your support this year as I'm learning the ins & outs of this blog. Hope you ALL have a happy and HOT New Year's Eve -- and a great new year!

Thursday, December 22, 2011

Sex Parties for the week of Friday, December 23 to Thursday, December 29.

Men: Below is the new list of all the parties that I know about this week. I only gave information based on my personal experience, or the information that the hosts provided. If I didn't know something I listed it as TK. (N/A means not applicable). PLEASE, never go to a party just based on my information. You should always check with the hosts first to confirm that the parties are up and running. Also this is just the parties this week, if you want the whole list you can email me at adventuresgrsx@gmail.com.

Friday... THE CLUB HOUSE ORGIES (East Village). HOLE. Has theme parties and has a few a week, such as ERUPTIÖN (primarily bb); PEÄK (Safe Sex Party); COCK4LUNCH (afternoon sex); FÜSION (Baseball-style wristbands to let guys know if you prefer SS or BB). The host (who sometimes participates) describes his party “this is a party for height/weight proportional men over 35. Younger guys come, but they’re usually into older guys. This is an orgy, not a stand & pose cruise party. Racially diverse. Guys range from great shape to bad shape.” Great party for average men.RATING: Somewhat selectiveVIBE: No attitudeTIME: Door 8-9pmCROWD: A slow night is 15 guys, a busy night is 30.AGES: 18-60sSS/BB: safe sex and BBSPACE: private apartmentSUPPLIES: Condoms/lubeFREQUENCY: Every Tuesday, Thursday, Sunday (and occasional Friday)LIGHTING: Good, and has blackout parties after 11pm.GETTING IN: Check out http://theorgyguy.blogspot.com or email stats and pics to theclubhouseparties@gmail.com

NUBIAN DUKES PARTY (Times Square). This party is for HOT muscular, athletic, slim, African-American and Latino dudes ONLY. They have a strict door policy. Mandatory clothes check: boxers, no shirts or t-shirts. Hip hop music with a Dj. Very HOT. Incredible bodies, no attitude and a lot of action. RATING: Very selectiveVIBE: social, not much attitudeTIME: 11:30PM-6AMCROWD: 70-90+ menAGE: 18-40 YOSS/BB: Safe sex requested, some BBSPACE: great studio space, two bathrooms, shower, 4 rooms, pornSUPPLIES: drinks, condoms/lube, showerFREQUENCY: Weekly or bi-weekly; usually on Fridays, but can be Saturdays or Sunday nightsLIGHTING: GoodGETTING IN: Send pics and stats to nubiandukesnyc@yahoo.com

INFERNO (Midtown East). New party, was formerly TESTOSTERONE, which was formerly THE OLYMPUS PARTY. Held in a huge duplex. This is an umbrella for a number of different types of parties. MUST RATING: TK VIBE: TK TIME: TK CROWD: TK SS/BB: TK SPACE: duplex apartment SUPPLIES: condom/lube FREQUENCY: Weekly, Fridays LIGHTING: Good, plus darker rooms upstairs GETTING IN: Send pic (shirtless from the waist up) & Stats to: apollothegreek@earthlink.net or check out www.gayguysglobal.net.

ENCORES PARTY (Chelsea). After-hours party. Often attended by restaurant and bar employees after those places shut down. You don't have to have an invitation or be on a list or anything. It can be incredibly hot, but sometimes it is hit or miss. NOT a mandatory close check party. RATING: Not Selective VIBE: no attitude TIME: 3AM-7AM, (The party really takes off around 4AM when many bars close) CROWD: Gets 70 people on Fridays; and 100 Sat. night (Sun. morning). AGE: no restriction SS/BB: Safe sex and BB SPACE: Paddles sex club SUPPLIES: condom/lubes FREQUENCY: every Fri and Sat night LIGHTING: Good GETTING IN: Check out Paddles: http://paddlesnyc.com/

Saturday… MILK CHOCOLATE PARTY (Times Square). XXXMAS EVE PARTY. The host runs a number of different parties that vary from hot guys to average men, so be sure to check which party you want. They screen to invite men of all colors age 21-45. They have a number of theme parties from Latino, to Hung Men, to Black Out.RATING: Selective to somewhat selective, depending on the partyVIBE: no attitudeTIME: 4:30pm - 9pm CROWD: varies depending on partyAGE: varies depending on the partySS/BB: safe sex and BBSPACE: Uses all the major party venues and hotel suitesSUPPLIES: condom/lubeFREQUENCY: A few parties every weekLIGHTING: varies depending on the partyGETTING IN: Send stats and pics to milkchocolatenyc@gmail.com

ND2 (Times Square). This party is for average African-American and Latino men ONLY. Mandatory clothes check: boxers, no shirts or t-shirts. Condoms, lube, liquid provided. Hip hop music with a Dj. No attitude and a lot of action.RATING: Somewhat selectiveVIBE: social, no attitudeTIME: 11:30PM-6AMCROWD: 50-70+ menAGE: 18-50 YOSS/BB: Safe sex requested, some BBSPACE: great studio space, two bathrooms, shower, 4 rooms, pornSUPPLIES: drinks, condoms/lube, showerFREQUENCY: Weekly or bi-weekly; often Wednesday, Thursday or Friday nights LIGHTING: GoodGETTING IN: Send pics and stats to HARLEMDUKESNYC@YAHOO.COM

ENCORES PARTY (Chelsea). After-hours party. Often attended by restaurant and bar employees after those places shut down. You don't have to have an invitation or be on a list or anything. It can be incredibly hot, but sometimes it is hit or miss. NOT a mandatory close check party. RATING: Not Selective VIBE: no attitude TIME: 3AM-7AM, (The party really takes off around 4AM when many bars close) CROWD: Gets 70 people on Fridays; and 100 Sat. night (Sun. morning). AGE: no restriction SS/BB: Safe sex and BB SPACE: Paddles sex club SUPPLIES: condom/lubes FREQUENCY: every Fri and Sat night LIGHTING: Good GETTING IN: Check out Paddles: http://paddlesnyc.com/

Sunday… Happy XMAS.

JACKS OF COLOR (Chelsea/Times Square) "CHRISTMAS SUNDAY NIGHT CHELSEA SPACE SPECIAL!" A New York City Club For Men of Color "And Their Friends." The best general admission parties – huge and has themed parties including leather, massage, and afternoons on weekends. RATING: Not SelectiveVIBE: no attitudeTIME: doors 8:00 to 11:30, goes 'til 1 AMCROWD: 70-120AGE: 18-60s SS/BB: some safe sex, but also BBSPACE: "Chelsea Space"SUPPLIES: Condoms/lubeFREQUENCY: Every Monday night, and often other weekday nights and weekends.LIGHTING: GoodGETTING IN: Send stats and pics to JacksOfColor@Gmail.com or check out www.jacksofcolor.com

NEW YORK BONDAGE CLUB (Chelsea) For anyone who has a taste for sex with a kinky side (leather, rope, spanking, etc) it's a good place to get satisfied on a Sunday night. Sex is no longer banned. Sucking, fucking, whatever, are all allowed now at all times. It's common to see guys tied down and fucked. Or a dom directing sex between two roped subs. RATING: Not selective VIBE: no attitude TIME: They now stay open later (until at least 1 AM instead of 11 PM) CROWD: varies AGE: It's always a mixed crowd in terms of age. SS/BB: Safe sex SPACE: Held in a straight S&M club, the party scene includes cages, restraints, bondage crosses, stocks and all sorts of devices to aid in tying people up and getting them off. SUPPLIES: Condoms/lube FREQUENCY: Every Sunday night LIGHTING: 11 PM they turn down the lights in all areas except the bar at the front. In these darker areas, there's now a dress code of no street clothes. You have to wear no more than underwear, or you can wear fetish wear (leather, rubber, and the like). GETTING IN: Check out the site www.NYBondageClub.com

NEW YORK JACKS (Times Square) Safe-sex party for guys who like to jerk off. RATING: Not Selective VIBE: No attitude TIME: Doors open 4:00PM to 6:30PM, jerking until 7:30PM CROWD: varies, all type of bodies, races, and ages from hot young guys to muscle guys to older guys. AGES: 18-60s SS/BB: N/A SPACE: studio space SUPPLIES: N/A FREQUENCY: Every Tuesdays (Paddles) and Sunday (Times Square). LIGHTING: Good GETTING IN: Check out their site: http://www.nyjacks.com/

Monday... JACKS OF COLOR (Chelsea)"CHRISTMAS/KWANZAA HOLIDAY MASSAGE-&-PLAY MONDAY PARTY!" A New York City Club For Men of Color "And Their Friends." The best general admission parties – huge and has themed parties including leather, massage, and afternoons on weekends. RATING: Not Selective VIBE: no attitude TIME: Doors 7:00 to Midnight, goes 'til 2 AM CROWD: 70-120 AGE: 18-60s SS/BB: some safe sex, but also BB SPACE: Paddles SUPPLIES: Condoms/lube FREQUENCY: Every Monday night, and often other weekday nights and weekends. LIGHTING: Good GETTING IN: Send stats and pics to JacksOfColor@Gmail.com or check out www.jacksofcolor.com

MUSCLE GROUP ( West Harlem/w140s). This small sex party in a private apartment. The best thing about this party is that it's one of the true orgies. At most parties guys are having sex one-one-one or threesomes--at this one there is more often than not a pile of guys fucking and sucking off each other. RATING: Selective VIBE: no attitude TIME: 9:30-11pm, occassionally lunch parties CROWD: 4-10 guys, racially mixed very hot to average AGES: 18-40 YOs DONATION: FREE SS/BB: Safe Sex SPACE: small studio apartment SUPPLIES: condom/lube FREQUENCY: parties at random, but often on Mondays, LIGHTING: Excellent GETTING IN: Send pics & Stats to: BIHUNKGROUP@aol.com

Tuesday… THE CLUB HOUSE ORGIES (East Village). Has theme parties such as ERUPTIÖN (primarily bb); PEÄK (Safe Sex Party); COCK4LUNCH (afternoon sex); FÜSION (Baseball-style wristbands to let guys know if you prefer SS or BB). The host (who sometimes participates) describes his party “this is a party for height/weight proportional men over 35. Younger guys come, but they’re usually into older guys. This is an orgy, not a stand & pose cruise party. Racially diverse. Guys range from great shape to bad shape.” Great party for average men. RATING: Somewhat selective VIBE: No attitude TIME: 6pm-2am (Tuesday) CROWD: A slow night is 15 guys, a busy night is 30. AGES: 18-60s SS/BB: safe sex and BB SPACE: private apartment SUPPLIES: Condoms/lube FREQUENCY: Every Tuesday, Thursday, Sunday (and occasional Friday) LIGHTING: Good, and has blackout parties after 11pm. GETTING IN: Check out http://theorgyguy.blogspot.com or email stats and pics to theclubhouseparties@gmail.com

FOOTMENNYC and TOUCH PARTY GUYS (Midtown East). Started as foot fetish party at a bar, now a full-fledged sex party. Kitchen, ‘Footwear worship’ lounge and mingle space on the main floor, with room for massage and casual fun. "Bedroom" loft upstairs for more adult play and privacy. RATING: somewhat selective VIBE: no attitude TIME: 8pm-2am CROWD: 30-50 guys AGE: 18-50 SS/BB: Safe Sex SPACE: duplex apt with two bathrooms SUPPLIES: condoms/lubes FREQUENCY: Every Tuesday LIGHTING: Good, some darker rooms upstairs GETTING IN: Check out the website http://www.FootMenNYC.com

NEW YORK JACKS (Chelsea) Safe-sex party for guys who like to jerk off. RATING: Not Selective VIBE: No attitude TIME: Doors open 7:30PM to 9:00PM, jerking until 11:00PM CROWD: varies, all type of bodies, races, and ages from hot young guys to muscle guys to older guys. AGES: 18-60s SS/BB: N/A SPACE: Paddles SUPPLIES: N/A FREQUENCY: Every Tuesdays (Paddles) and Sunday (Times Square). LIGHTING: Good GETTING IN: Check out their site: http://www.nyjacks.com/

NYJOCK PARTY--NYJP (Times Square, Manhattan). The host is very discriminating so the place is filled with hot men. If you don't have a killer body and face, you may be ignored by the men you want the most, but the party is always very hot. The hotter men tend to show up late, and the later you go the better the sex seems to be . RATING: VERY SELECTIVEVIBE: Lots of attitude; some of the hot men are standoff-ish. Biggest complaint is that many men just standing around looking at each other.TIME: 8pm-2amCROWD: 50-70+ to 50 young, hot menAGES: mostly 20s & 30s, few in-shape men in 40sSS/BB: A safe sex party. SPACE: Hot, clean, huge studio space, two bathrooms, showerSUPPLIES: drinks. Snacks. Condom/lube.FREQUENCY: 2X a month, Fri, Sat, Sundays, sometimes ThursdaysLIGHTING: GOOD, sometimes too dark for such hot menGETTING IN: send stats and pics to: nyjockparty@yahoo.com

JACKS OF COLOR (Chelsea/Times Square) "THURSDAY HOLIDAY LEATHER SPECIAL!" At "Paddles"; A New York City Club For Men of Color "And Their Friends." The best general admission parties – huge and has themed parties including leather, massage, and afternoons on weekends. RATING: Not SelectiveVIBE: no attitudeTIME: doors 7:00 to Midnight, goes 'til 2 amCROWD: 70-120AGE: 18-60s SS/BB: some safe sex, but also BBSPACE: Paddles, and huge studio spaceSUPPLIES: Condoms/lubeFREQUENCY: Every Monday night, and often other weekday nights and weekends.LIGHTING: GoodGETTING IN: Send stats and pics to JacksOfColor@Gmail.com or check out www.jacksofcolor.com

THE CLUB HOUSE ORGIES (East Village). Has theme parties and has a few a week, such as ERUPTIÖN (primarily bb); PEÄK (Safe Sex Party); COCK4LUNCH (afternoon sex); FÜSION (Baseball-style wristbands to let guys know if you prefer SS or BB). The host (who sometimes participates) describes his party “this is a party for height/weight proportional men over 35. Younger guys come, but they’re usually into older guys. This is an orgy, not a stand & pose cruise party. Racially diverse. Guys range from great shape to bad shape.” Great party for average men. RATING: Somewhat selective VIBE: No attitude TIME: 6pm-2am (Tuesday & Thursday), 12-4pm (Friday), 8pm-1am (Sun) CROWD: A slow night is 15 guys, a busy night is 30. AGES: 18-60s SS/BB: safe sex and BB SPACE: private apartment SUPPLIES: Condoms/lube FREQUENCY: Every Tuesday, Thursday, Sunday (and occasional Friday) LIGHTING: Good, and has blackout parties after 11pm. GETTING IN: Check out http://theorgyguy.blogspot.com or email stats and pics to theclubhouseparties@gmail.com

Wednesday, December 14, 2011

Sex Parties for the week of Friday, December 16 to Thursday, December 22.

Men: Below is the new list of all the parties that I know about this week. I only gave information based on my personal experience, or the information that the hosts provided. If I didn't know something I listed it as TK. (N/A means not applicable). PLEASE, never go to a party just based on my information. You should always check with the hosts first to confirm that the parties are up and running. Also this is just the parties this week, if you want the whole list you can email me at adventuresgrsx@gmail.com.

Friday... GOLDEN SHOWERS AMERICA (Park Slope, Brooklyn). There is a big element of piss at these parties, but considerably less so than in the past. RATING: Not selectiveVIBE: no attitudeTIME: starts at 8:00-9:30 p.m.DONATION: $20 includes free drinks and coat check. SUPPLIES: Condoms/lube, drinksFREQUENCY: They hold events once a month, generally alternating between Friday nights and Sunday nites.GETTING IN: send stats and pics to gsa-nyc@earthlink.net

INFERNO (Midtown East). New party, was formerly TESTOSTERONE, which was formerly THE OLYMPUS PARTY. Held in a huge duplex. This is an umbrella for a number of different types of parties. MUST RATING: TK VIBE: TK TIME: TK CROWD: TK SS/BB: TK SPACE: duplex apartment SUPPLIES: condom/lube FREQUENCY: Weekly, Fridays LIGHTING: Good, plus darker rooms upstairs GETTING IN: Send pic (shirtless from the waist up) & Stats to: apollothegreek@earthlink.net or check out www.gayguysglobal.net.

ENCORES PARTY (Chelsea). After-hours party. Often attended by restaurant and bar employees after those places shut down. You don't have to have an invitation or be on a list or anything. It can be incredibly hot, but sometimes it is hit or miss. NOT a mandatory close check party. RATING: Not Selective VIBE: no attitude TIME: 3AM-7AM, (The party really takes off around 4AM when many bars close) CROWD: Gets 70 people on Fridays; and 100 Sat. night (Sun. morning). AGE: no restriction SS/BB: Safe sex and BB SPACE: Paddles sex club SUPPLIES: condom/lubes FREQUENCY: every Fri and Sat night LIGHTING: Good GETTING IN: Check out Paddles: http://paddlesnyc.com/

Saturday… MMX Muscle (Manhattan). Touch Yoga - Individual, Partnered, Clothed. Not a sex party, but a massage and/or yoga party…it’s about touch. The hosts says: "however we are a lot of horny guys and we are not going to sweep that under the rug." But no oral or anal sex below the waist. Host is a certified Massage Therapist. The party is to learn, explore, connect, and play – to learn and get into Massage. RATING: SelectiveVIBE: no attitude, no reasonTIME: 11am to 12:30 pmCROWD: varies, usually limited to 20 men; require that all guys are in good physical shape, are clean and take care of themselves, are height/weight proportionate and work-out or are athletic - in addition to having no attitude and comfortable being almost naked (or naked) and touching and stroking muscles with boundaries.AGES: No restrictionsDONATION: $18SS/BB: not a sex partySPACE: Great, clean spaceFREQUENCY: A few times a monthLIGHTING: ExcellentGETTING IN: send request to mmxnyc@gmail.com or check out www.mmxnyc.com.

BRUIN BUDDIES (Park Slope, Brooklyn) For Bears and their admirers; tends to be older and big men. Meets monthly on Saturday afternoons (for four hours.) Held in a great space, and a great party if you’re into bears. RATING: Not SelectiveVIBE: no attitudeTIME: 3pm-7pmCROWD: variesAGES: mostly daddy bearsDONATION: Has special cub discountSS/BB: A safe sex party. SPACE: great space in brownstone basementSUPPLIES: Condom/lube.FREQUENCY: Monthly; meets on the third Saturday afternoon of every month (this month that's Dec. 17th)LIGHTING: GOODGETTING IN: Check out their site http://www.bruinbuddies.com/

MILK CHOCOLATE PARTY (Times Square). CUMUNION NYC / MANMEAT PARTY. XXX WARNING: The CUMUNION NYC / MANMEAT event will be a lights out, ALL NUDE, event for men into hardcore, no-limits, anonymous, man2man action. Men of all shapes & sizes, age 21-50+, bears, cubs, twinks, leather dudes, daddys....everyone on the www.cumunion.com email list have been invited to this event.RATING: Selective to somewhat selective, depending on the partyVIBE: no attitudeTIME: 4:30pm - 9:30pm CROWD: varies depending on partyAGE: varies depending on the partySS/BB: safe sex and BBSPACE: Uses all the major party venues and hotel suitesSUPPLIES: condom/lubeFREQUENCY: A few parties every weekLIGHTING: varies depending on the partyGETTING IN: Send stats and pics to milkchocolatenyc@gmail.com

NUBIAN DUKES PARTY (Times Square). This party is for HOT muscular, athletic, slim, African-American and Latino dudes ONLY. They have a strict door policy. Mandatory clothes check: boxers, no shirts or t-shirts. Hip hop music with a Dj. Very HOT. Incredible bodies, no attitude and a lot of action. RATING: Very selectiveVIBE: social, not much attitudeTIME: 11:30PM-6AMCROWD: 70-90+ menAGE: 18-40 YOSS/BB: Safe sex requested, some BBSPACE: great studio space, two bathrooms, shower, 4 rooms, pornSUPPLIES: drinks, condoms/lube, showerFREQUENCY: Weekly or bi-weekly; usually on Fridays, but can be Saturdays or Sunday nightsLIGHTING: GoodGETTING IN: Send pics and stats to nubiandukesnyc@yahoo.com

THE BEAR HUNT (West Harlem). Run by the same host who run The Men's Party. For bears and their admirers. NYC's longest running weekly sex bear party. Bears, chubs & chasers of ALL races, ages & sizes. NEON-BLACKOUT PARTY!When you arrive, you will be given and wear a neon glow-stick bracelet. There will be one color for tops/vers and another for bottoms. The playroom will be dark except for the light coming from everyone’s bracelets.RATING: Not SelectiveVIBE: Friendly, no attitudeTIME: 10pm-3amCROWD: 20-40 menDONATION: $20 SS/BB: Mostly BB, some Safe sexSPACE: large private apartmentSUPPLIES: Sling, condoms, lube, cocktails & clothes check providedFREQUENCY: varies, often every WednesdayLIGHTING: varies, had blackout roomsGETTING IN: Send pic to BearHuntNYC@yahoo.com or check out www.bearhuntnyc.com

DICKPLAY PARTY (Inwood/Upper Manhattan) Celebrating The Holeday Season. Party at Ed and Steve’s, an interracial couple. The hosts think of the group as being a hand selected group of guys who are into interracial sex and don't have attitudes. It's a mix of guys, white, black, Latin, occasionally Asian. Most guys are naked, but not required. RATING: Not SelectiveVIBE: laid back, no attitudeTIME: 8pm – 2amCROWD: 20-40 menAGE: 18-60s (Average age is 35-45+)SS/BB: Some safe sex, but mostly BBSPACE: private apartmentSUPPLIES: condoms/lubeFREQUENCY: Usually twice a month, but often weekly (on weekends)LIGHTING: GoodGETTING IN: send pics & stats to EdAndSteve@verizon.net; or check out http://groups.yahoo.com/group/EdAndSteve

DADS'N'LADS (Midtown East). A party for guys who are 18 years old on up. Pants check required for entry. Described by the host: "younger guys into older, and visa versa, or guys who are into the daddy/son fetish."RATING: Not SelectiveVIBE: Fun, no attitudeTIME: 11pm-3amCROWD: VariesAGE: 18-60s+SS/BB: Safe sex onlySPACE: Held at a popular sex party spaces in Brooklyn & ManhattanSUPPLIES: condom/lubeFREQUENCY: once a monthLIGHTING: Good GETTING IN: Send stats and pice to dadsnladsnyc@gmail.com

SPAM PARTY (Brooklyn). Not a M4M party, but may interest the more adventurous of you: A play party where dykes, fags, bisexuals and tansgendered folks get together for a sexually charged underwear party., Mandatory Pants Check Down To Your Underwear. RATING: Not SelectiveVIBE: no attitudeTIME: 11pm-4amDONATION: Admission: $10 women/trans, $20 men, student's 18-22 w/valid id FREE!FREQUENCY: Varies, Once a monthGETTING IN: Check out the parties at http://www..submitparty.com. If you have questions, please email Red@submitparty.com

ENCORES PARTY (Chelsea). After-hours party. Often attended by restaurant and bar employees after those places shut down. You don't have to have an invitation or be on a list or anything. It can be incredibly hot, but sometimes it is hit or miss. NOT a mandatory close check party. RATING: Not Selective VIBE: no attitude TIME: 3AM-7AM, (The party really takes off around 4AM when many bars close) CROWD: Gets 70 people on Fridays; and 100 Sat. night (Sun. morning). AGE: no restriction SS/BB: Safe sex and BB SPACE: Paddles sex club SUPPLIES: condom/lubes FREQUENCY: every Fri and Sat night LIGHTING: Good GETTING IN: Check out Paddles: http://paddlesnyc.com/

Sunday… NYJOCK PARTY--NYJP (Midtown East). The host is very discriminating so the place is filled with hot men. If you don't have a killer body and face, you may be ignored by the men you want the most, but the party is always very hot. The hotter men tend to show up late, and the later you go the better the sex seems to be . RATING: VERY SELECTIVEVIBE: Lots of attitude; some of the hot men are standoff-ish. Biggest complaint is that many men just standing around looking at each other.TIME: 8pm – 2amCROWD: 50-70+ to 50 young, hot menAGES: mostly 20s & 30s, few in-shape men in 40sSS/BB: A safe sex party. SPACE: Hot, clean, huge studio space, two bathrooms, showerSUPPLIES: drinks. Snacks. Condom/lube.FREQUENCY: 2X a month, Fri, Sat, Sundays, sometimes ThursdaysLIGHTING: GOOD, sometimes too dark for such hot menGETTING IN: send stats and pics to: nyjockparty@yahoo.com

NEW YORK BONDAGE CLUB (Chelsea) For anyone who has a taste for sex with a kinky side (leather, rope, spanking, etc) it's a good place to get satisfied on a Sunday night. Sex is no longer banned. Sucking, fucking, whatever, are all allowed now at all times. It's common to see guys tied down and fucked. Or a dom directing sex between two roped subs. RATING: Not selective VIBE: no attitude TIME: They now stay open later (until at least 1 AM instead of 11 PM) CROWD: varies AGE: It's always a mixed crowd in terms of age. SS/BB: Safe sex SPACE: Held in a straight S&M club, the party scene includes cages, restraints, bondage crosses, stocks and all sorts of devices to aid in tying people up and getting them off. SUPPLIES: Condoms/lube FREQUENCY: Every Sunday night LIGHTING: 11 PM they turn down the lights in all areas except the bar at the front. In these darker areas, there's now a dress code of no street clothes. You have to wear no more than underwear, or you can wear fetish wear (leather, rubber, and the like). GETTING IN: Check out the site www.NYBondageClub.com

NEW YORK JACKS (Times Square) Safe-sex party for guys who like to jerk off. RATING: Not Selective VIBE: No attitude TIME: Doors open 4:00PM to 6:30PM, jerking until 7:30PM CROWD: varies, all type of bodies, races, and ages from hot young guys to muscle guys to older guys. AGES: 18-60s SS/BB: N/A SPACE: studio space SUPPLIES: N/A FREQUENCY: Every Tuesdays (Paddles) and Sunday (Times Square). LIGHTING: Good GETTING IN: Check out their site: http://www.nyjacks.com/

THE CLUB HOUSE ORGIES (East Village). Has theme parties such as ERUPTIÖN (primarily bb); PEÄK (Safe Sex Party); COCK4LUNCH (afternoon sex); FÜSION (Baseball-style wristbands to let guys know if you prefer SS or BB). The host (who sometimes participates) describes his party “this is a party for height/weight proportional men over 35. Younger guys come, but they’re usually into older guys. This is an orgy, not a stand & pose cruise party. Racially diverse. Guys range from great shape to bad shape.” Great party for average men. RATING: Somewhat selective VIBE: No attitude TIME: 8pm-1am (Sun) CROWD: A slow night is 15 guys, a busy night is 30. AGES: 18-60s SS/BB: safe sex and BB SPACE: private apartment SUPPLIES: Condoms/lube FREQUENCY: Every Tuesday, Thursday, Sunday (and occasional Friday) LIGHTING: Good, and has blackout parties after 11pm. GETTING IN: Check out http://theorgyguy.blogspot.com or email stats and pics to theclubhouseparties@gmail.com

Monday... MMX Muscle (Manhattan). Tight Muscle Mondays. Not a sex party, but a massage and/or yoga party…it’s about touch. The hosts says: "however we are a lot of horny guys and we are not going to sweep that under the rug." But no oral or anal sex below the waist. Host is a certified Massage Therapist. The party is to learn, explore, connect, and play – to learn and get into Massage. RATING: SelectiveVIBE: no attitude, no reasonTIME: 7:30pm to 10:30pm. CROWD: Limited to 20; require that all guys are in good physical shape, are clean and take care of themselves, are height/weight proportionate and work-out or are athletic - in addition to having no attitude and comfortable being almost naked (or naked) and touching and stroking muscles with boundaries.AGES: No restrictionsDONATION: $35 SS/BB: not a sex partySPACE: Great, clean spaceFREQUENCY: A few times a monthLIGHTING: ExcellentGETTING IN: send request to mmxnyc@gmail.com or check out www.mmxnyc.com.

JACKS OF COLOR (Chelsea) "DECEMBER MASSAGE-&-PLAY MONDAY PARTY!" A New York City Club For Men of Color "And Their Friends." The best general admission parties – huge and has themed parties including leather, massage, and afternoons on weekends. RATING: Not Selective VIBE: no attitude TIME: Doors 7:00 to Midnight, goes 'til 2 AM CROWD: 70-120 AGE: 18-60s SS/BB: some safe sex, but also BB SPACE: Paddles SUPPLIES: Condoms/lube FREQUENCY: Every Monday night, and often other weekday nights and weekends. LIGHTING: Good GETTING IN: Send stats and pics to JacksOfColor@Gmail.com or check out www.jacksofcolor.com

MUSCLE GROUP ( West Harlem/w140s). This small sex party in a private apartment. The best thing about this party is that it's one of the true orgies. At most parties guys are having sex one-one-one or threesomes--at this one there is more often than not a pile of guys fucking and sucking off each other. RATING: Selective VIBE: no attitude TIME: 9:30-11pm, occassionally lunch parties CROWD: 4-10 guys, racially mixed very hot to average AGES: 18-40 YOs DONATION: FREE SS/BB: Safe Sex SPACE: small studio apartment SUPPLIES: condom/lube FREQUENCY: parties at random, but often on Mondays, LIGHTING: Excellent GETTING IN: Send pics & Stats to: BIHUNKGROUP@aol.com

Tuesday… THE CLUB HOUSE ORGIES (East Village). Has theme parties such as ERUPTIÖN (primarily bb); PEÄK (Safe Sex Party); COCK4LUNCH (afternoon sex); FÜSION (Baseball-style wristbands to let guys know if you prefer SS or BB). The host (who sometimes participates) describes his party “this is a party for height/weight proportional men over 35. Younger guys come, but they’re usually into older guys. This is an orgy, not a stand & pose cruise party. Racially diverse. Guys range from great shape to bad shape.” Great party for average men. RATING: Somewhat selective VIBE: No attitude TIME: 6pm-2am (Tuesday) CROWD: A slow night is 15 guys, a busy night is 30. AGES: 18-60s SS/BB: safe sex and BB SPACE: private apartment SUPPLIES: Condoms/lube FREQUENCY: Every Tuesday, Thursday, Sunday (and occasional Friday) LIGHTING: Good, and has blackout parties after 11pm. GETTING IN: Check out http://theorgyguy.blogspot.com or email stats and pics to theclubhouseparties@gmail.com

FOOTMENNYC and TOUCH PARTY GUYS (Midtown East). Started as foot fetish party at a bar, now a full-fledged sex party. Kitchen, ‘Footwear worship’ lounge and mingle space on the main floor, with room for massage and casual fun. "Bedroom" loft upstairs for more adult play and privacy. RATING: somewhat selective VIBE: no attitude TIME: 8pm-2am CROWD: 30-50 guys AGE: 18-50 SS/BB: Safe Sex SPACE: duplex apt with two bathrooms SUPPLIES: condoms/lubes FREQUENCY: Every Tuesday LIGHTING: Good, some darker rooms upstairs GETTING IN: Check out the website http://www.FootMenNYC.com

NEW YORK JACKS (Chelsea) Safe-sex party for guys who like to jerk off. RATING: Not Selective VIBE: No attitude TIME: Doors open 7:30PM to 9:00PM, jerking until 11:00PM CROWD: varies, all type of bodies, races, and ages from hot young guys to muscle guys to older guys. AGES: 18-60s SS/BB: N/A SPACE: Paddles SUPPLIES: N/A FREQUENCY: Every Tuesdays (Paddles) and Sunday (Times Square). LIGHTING: Good GETTING IN: Check out their site: http://www.nyjacks.com/

Wednesday… MMX Muscle (Manhattan). HumpDayzz. Not a sex party, but a massage and/or yoga party…it’s about touch. The hosts says: "however we are a lot of horny guys and we are not going to sweep that under the rug." But no oral or anal sex below the waist. Host is a certified Massage Therapist. The party is to learn, explore, connect, and play – to learn and get into Massage. RATING: SelectiveVIBE: no attitude, no reasonTIME: 2pm to 4:30pmCROWD: Limited to 10; require that all guys are in good physical shape, are clean and take care of themselves, are height/weight proportionate and work-out or are athletic - in addition to having no attitude and comfortable being almost naked (or naked) and touching and stroking muscles with boundaries.AGES: No restrictionsDONATION: $25SS/BB: not a sex partySPACE: Great, clean spaceFREQUENCY: A few times a monthLIGHTING: ExcellentGETTING IN: send request to mmxnyc@gmail.com or check out www.mmxnyc.com.

HARD DRIVE!/CUM MONKEY (Chelsea) Formerly Grab Ass. The host is very creative and always having guest appearance by porn stars, as well as fun giveaways (underwear and porn), and great promotions to pull in hotter guys. RATING: Selective VIBE: No attitude, extremely friendly TIME: Doors 8pm-1am, open until 3am. CROWD: Get 60-70 guys height/weight proportionate (all body types) AGES: 25 to 55YO SS/BB: Safe Sex SPACE: Paddles studio space SUPPLIES: condom/lube FREQUENCY: Every Wednesday LIGHTING: Good GETTING IN: send pics and stats to hunteur1@gmail.com or check out www.CumMonkey.com NOTE: This week is special night called DIRTY PIG to welcome celebrated model/actor/pornstar/photographer and 2011 Time Out New Yorks Most Stylish Man in NYC Robert Ordonez and his first installment of DIRTY PIG leather Night. Be there by 10pm sharp for 10 hot leather/porn boys in a leather fashion show.

MILK CHOCOLATE PARTY (Midtown East). HOT BODY MEN'S "MUSCLE" PARTY. The host runs a number of different parties that vary from hot guys to average men, so be sure to check which party you want. They screen to invite men of all colors age 21-45. They have a number of theme parties from Latino, to Hung Men, to Black Out.RATING: Selective to somewhat selective, depending on the partyVIBE: no attitudeTIME: 8pm - 1am CROWD: varies depending on partyAGE: varies depending on the partySS/BB: safe sex and BBSPACE: Uses all the major party venues and hotel suitesSUPPLIES: condom/lubeFREQUENCY: A few parties every weekLIGHTING: varies depending on the partyGETTING IN: Send stats and pics to milkchocolatenyc@gmail.com

THE CLUB HOUSE ORGIES (East Village). Has theme parties and has a few a week, such as ERUPTIÖN (primarily bb); PEÄK (Safe Sex Party); COCK4LUNCH (afternoon sex); FÜSION (Baseball-style wristbands to let guys know if you prefer SS or BB). The host (who sometimes participates) describes his party “this is a party for height/weight proportional men over 35. Younger guys come, but they’re usually into older guys. This is an orgy, not a stand & pose cruise party. Racially diverse. Guys range from great shape to bad shape.” Great party for average men. RATING: Somewhat selective VIBE: No attitude TIME: 6pm-2am (Tuesday & Thursday), 12-4pm (Friday), 8pm-1am (Sun) CROWD: A slow night is 15 guys, a busy night is 30. AGES: 18-60s SS/BB: safe sex and BB SPACE: private apartment SUPPLIES: Condoms/lube FREQUENCY: Every Tuesday, Thursday, Sunday (and occasional Friday) LIGHTING: Good, and has blackout parties after 11pm. GETTING IN: Check out http://theorgyguy.blogspot.com or email stats and pics to theclubhouseparties@gmail.com

Wednesday, December 7, 2011

Sex Parties for the week of Friday, December 9 to Thursday, December 15.

Men: Below is the new list of all the parties that I know about this week. I only gave information based on my personal experience, or the information that the hosts provided. If I didn't know something I listed it as TK. (N/A means not applicable). PLEASE, never go to a party just based on my information. You should always check with the hosts first to confirm that the parties are up and running. Also this is just the parties this week, if you want the whole list you can email me at adventuresgrsx@gmail.com.

Friday... NUBIAN DUKES PARTY (Times Square). This party is for HOT muscular, athletic, slim, African-American and Latino dudes ONLY. They have a strict door policy. Mandatory clothes check: boxers, no shirts or t-shirts. Hip hop music with a Dj. Very HOT. Incredible bodies, no attitude and a lot of action. RATING: Very selectiveVIBE: social, not much attitudeTIME: 11:30PM-6AMCROWD: 70-90+ menAGE: 18-40 YOSS/BB: Safe sex requested, some BBSPACE: great studio space, two bathrooms, shower, 4 rooms, pornSUPPLIES: drinks, condoms/lube, showerFREQUENCY: Weekly or bi-weekly; usually on Fridays, but can be Saturdays or Sunday nightsLIGHTING: GoodGETTING IN: Send pics and stats to nubiandukesnyc@yahoo.com

FOREVER FISTING PARTY (Chelsea) For men into fisting and their admirers.RATING: Not selectiveVIBE: No attitudeSPACE: Studio spaceFREQUENCY: Varies, every few months, often Sat & Sun in the same weekGETTING IN: Contact the host at MasterCainB@yahoo.com or check out www.ffslingers.com or http://mrcainb.wordpress.com

INFERNO (Midtown East). New party, was formerly TESTOSTERONE, which was formerly THE OLYMPUS PARTY. Held in a huge duplex. This is an umbrella for a number of different types of parties. MUST RATING: TK VIBE: TK TIME: TK CROWD: TK SS/BB: TK SPACE: duplex apartment SUPPLIES: condom/lube FREQUENCY: Weekly, Fridays LIGHTING: Good, plus darker rooms upstairs GETTING IN: Send pic (shirtless from the waist up) & Stats to: apollothegreek@earthlink.net or check out www.gayguysglobal.net.

ENCORES PARTY (Chelsea). After-hours party. Often attended by restaurant and bar employees after those places shut down. You don't have to have an invitation or be on a list or anything. It can be incredibly hot, but sometimes it is hit or miss. NOT a mandatory close check party. RATING: Not Selective VIBE: no attitude TIME: 3AM-7AM, (The party really takes off around 4AM when many bars close) CROWD: Gets 70 people on Fridays; and 100 Sat. night (Sun. morning). AGE: no restriction SS/BB: Safe sex and BB SPACE: Paddles sex club SUPPLIES: condom/lubes FREQUENCY: every Fri and Sat night LIGHTING: Good GETTING IN: Check out Paddles: http://paddlesnyc.com/

DICKPLAY PARTY (Inwood/Upper Manhattan) THE NAKED TRUTH. Party at Ed and Steve’s, an interracial couple. The hosts think of the group as being a hand selected group of guys who are into interracial sex and don't have attitudes. It's a mix of guys, white, black, Latin, occasionally Asian. Most guys are naked, but not required. RATING: Not SelectiveVIBE: laid back, no attitudeTIME: 8pm – 2amCROWD: 20-40 menAGE: 18-60s (Average age is 35-45+)SS/BB: Some safe sex, but mostly BBSPACE: private apartmentSUPPLIES: condoms/lubeFREQUENCY: Usually twice a month, but often weekly (on weekends)LIGHTING: GoodGETTING IN: send pics & stats to EdAndSteve@verizon.net; or check out http://groups.yahoo.com/group/EdAndSteve

LONG ISLAND BI-SEXUAL GROUP (Long Island). December Delight Party. LI-BI-do is a Bisexual social group that hold parties for Couples, women, trans, and men are all welcome. You can be Bisexual, Bi-friendly, or Bi-curious. RATING: Not selectiveVIBE: no attitudeTIME: 8pmSS/BB: Safe sexSPACE: hotelSUPPLIES: condoms/lube, drinksFREQUENCY: Monthly, Saturday nightsGETTING IN: Go to Home Page http://groups.yahoo.com/group/LI-BI-do, Send blank email to: LI-BI-do-Subscribe@yahoogroups.com or check out: http://www.li-bi-do.org.

ENCORES PARTY (Chelsea). After-hours party. Often attended by restaurant and bar employees after those places shut down. You don't have to have an invitation or be on a list or anything. It can be incredibly hot, but sometimes it is hit or miss. NOT a mandatory close check party. RATING: Not Selective VIBE: no attitude TIME: 3AM-7AM, (The party really takes off around 4AM when many bars close) CROWD: Gets 70 people on Fridays; and 100 Sat. night (Sun. morning). AGE: no restriction SS/BB: Safe sex and BB SPACE: Paddles sex club SUPPLIES: condom/lubes FREQUENCY: every Fri and Sat night LIGHTING: Good GETTING IN: Check out Paddles: http://paddlesnyc.com/

Sunday… MILK CHOCOLATE PARTY (Midtown). HOT MALE XXXOTIC STRIPPERS. The host runs a number of different parties that vary from hot guys to average men, so be sure to check which party you want. They screen to invite men of all colors age 21-45. They have a number of theme parties from Latino, to Hung Men, to Black Out.RATING: Selective to somewhat selective, depending on the partyVIBE: no attitudeTIME: 8pm - 1am;CROWD: varies depending on partyAGE: varies depending on the partySS/BB: safe sex and BBSPACE: Uses all the major party venues and hotel suitesSUPPLIES: condom/lubeFREQUENCY: A few parties every weekLIGHTING: varies depending on the partyGETTING IN: Send stats and pics to milkchocolatenyc@gmail.comNOTE: HOT MALE STRIPPERS... Showtime @ 10pm

NEW YORK BONDAGE CLUB (Chelsea) For anyone who has a taste for sex with a kinky side (leather, rope, spanking, etc) it's a good place to get satisfied on a Sunday night. Sex is no longer banned. Sucking, fucking, whatever, are all allowed now at all times. It's common to see guys tied down and fucked. Or a dom directing sex between two roped subs. RATING: Not selective VIBE: no attitude TIME: They now stay open later (until at least 1 AM instead of 11 PM) CROWD: varies AGE: It's always a mixed crowd in terms of age. SS/BB: Safe sex SPACE: Held in a straight S&M club, the party scene includes cages, restraints, bondage crosses, stocks and all sorts of devices to aid in tying people up and getting them off. SUPPLIES: Condoms/lube FREQUENCY: Every Sunday night LIGHTING: 11 PM they turn down the lights in all areas except the bar at the front. In these darker areas, there's now a dress code of no street clothes. You have to wear no more than underwear, or you can wear fetish wear (leather, rubber, and the like). GETTING IN: Check out the site www.NYBondageClub.com

NEW YORK JACKS (Times Square) Safe-sex party for guys who like to jerk off. RATING: Not Selective VIBE: No attitude TIME: Doors open 4:00PM to 6:30PM, jerking until 7:30PM CROWD: varies, all type of bodies, races, and ages from hot young guys to muscle guys to older guys. AGES: 18-60s SS/BB: N/A SPACE: studio space SUPPLIES: N/A FREQUENCY: Every Tuesdays (Paddles) and Sunday (Times Square). LIGHTING: Good GETTING IN: Check out their site: http://www.nyjacks.com/

THE CLUB HOUSE ORGIES (East Village). Has theme parties such as ERUPTIÖN (primarily bb); PEÄK (Safe Sex Party); COCK4LUNCH (afternoon sex); FÜSION (Baseball-style wristbands to let guys know if you prefer SS or BB). The host (who sometimes participates) describes his party “this is a party for height/weight proportional men over 35. Younger guys come, but they’re usually into older guys. This is an orgy, not a stand & pose cruise party. Racially diverse. Guys range from great shape to bad shape.” Great party for average men. RATING: Somewhat selective VIBE: No attitude TIME: 8pm-1am (Sun) CROWD: A slow night is 15 guys, a busy night is 30. AGES: 18-60s SS/BB: safe sex and BB SPACE: private apartment SUPPLIES: Condoms/lube FREQUENCY: Every Tuesday, Thursday, Sunday (and occasional Friday) LIGHTING: Good, and has blackout parties after 11pm. GETTING IN: Check out http://theorgyguy.blogspot.com or email stats and pics to theclubhouseparties@gmail.com

Monday... JACKS OF COLOR (Chelsea) "DECEMBER MASSAGE-&-PLAY MONDAY PARTY!" A New York City Club For Men of Color "And Their Friends." The best general admission parties – huge and has themed parties including leather, massage, and afternoons on weekends. RATING: Not Selective VIBE: no attitude TIME: Doors 7:00 to Midnight, goes 'til 2 AM CROWD: 70-120 AGE: 18-60s SS/BB: some safe sex, but also BB SPACE: Paddles SUPPLIES: Condoms/lube FREQUENCY: Every Monday night, and often other weekday nights and weekends. LIGHTING: Good GETTING IN: Send stats and pics to JacksOfColor@Gmail.com or check out www.jacksofcolor.com

MUSCLE GROUP ( West Harlem/w140s). This small sex party in a private apartment. The best thing about this party is that it's one of the true orgies. At most parties guys are having sex one-one-one or threesomes--at this one there is more often than not a pile of guys fucking and sucking off each other. RATING: Selective VIBE: no attitude TIME: 9:30-11pm, occassionally lunch parties CROWD: 4-10 guys, racially mixed very hot to average AGES: 18-40 YOs DONATION: FREE SS/BB: Safe Sex SPACE: small studio apartment SUPPLIES: condom/lube FREQUENCY: parties at random, but often on Mondays, LIGHTING: Excellent GETTING IN: Send pics & Stats to: BIHUNKGROUP@aol.com

Tuesday… THE CLUB HOUSE ORGIES (East Village). Has theme parties such as ERUPTIÖN (primarily bb); PEÄK (Safe Sex Party); COCK4LUNCH (afternoon sex); FÜSION (Baseball-style wristbands to let guys know if you prefer SS or BB). The host (who sometimes participates) describes his party “this is a party for height/weight proportional men over 35. Younger guys come, but they’re usually into older guys. This is an orgy, not a stand & pose cruise party. Racially diverse. Guys range from great shape to bad shape.” Great party for average men. RATING: Somewhat selective VIBE: No attitude TIME: 6pm-2am (Tuesday) CROWD: A slow night is 15 guys, a busy night is 30. AGES: 18-60s SS/BB: safe sex and BB SPACE: private apartment SUPPLIES: Condoms/lube FREQUENCY: Every Tuesday, Thursday, Sunday (and occasional Friday) LIGHTING: Good, and has blackout parties after 11pm. GETTING IN: Check out http://theorgyguy.blogspot.com or email stats and pics to theclubhouseparties@gmail.com

FOOTMENNYC and TOUCH PARTY GUYS (Midtown East). Started as foot fetish party at a bar, now a full-fledged sex party. Kitchen, ‘Footwear worship’ lounge and mingle space on the main floor, with room for massage and casual fun. "Bedroom" loft upstairs for more adult play and privacy. RATING: somewhat selective VIBE: no attitude TIME: 8pm-2am CROWD: 30-50 guys AGE: 18-50 SS/BB: Safe Sex SPACE: duplex apt with two bathrooms SUPPLIES: condoms/lubes FREQUENCY: Every Tuesday LIGHTING: Good, some darker rooms upstairs GETTING IN: Check out the website http://www.FootMenNYC.com

NEW YORK JACKS (Chelsea) Safe-sex party for guys who like to jerk off. RATING: Not Selective VIBE: No attitude TIME: Doors open 7:30PM to 9:00PM, jerking until 11:00PM CROWD: varies, all type of bodies, races, and ages from hot young guys to muscle guys to older guys. AGES: 18-60s SS/BB: N/A SPACE: Paddles SUPPLIES: N/A FREQUENCY: Every Tuesdays (Paddles) and Sunday (Times Square). LIGHTING: Good GETTING IN: Check out their site: http://www.nyjacks.com/

JACKS OF COLOR (Chelsea/Times Square) "THURSDAY NIGHT LEATHER SPECIAL!.” A New York City Club For Men of Color "And Their Friends." The best general admission parties – huge and has themed parties including leather, massage, and afternoons on weekends. RATING: Not SelectiveVIBE: no attitudeTIME: doors 7:00 to Midnight, goes 'til 2 AMCROWD: 70-120AGE: 18-60s SS/BB: some safe sex, but also BBSPACE: Paddles, and huge studio spaceSUPPLIES: Condoms/lubeFREQUENCY: Every Monday night, and often other weekday nights and weekends.LIGHTING: GoodGETTING IN: Send stats and pics to JacksOfColor@Gmail.com or check out www.jacksofcolor.com

THE CLUB HOUSE ORGIES (East Village). Has theme parties and has a few a week, such as ERUPTIÖN (primarily bb); PEÄK (Safe Sex Party); COCK4LUNCH (afternoon sex); FÜSION (Baseball-style wristbands to let guys know if you prefer SS or BB). The host (who sometimes participates) describes his party “this is a party for height/weight proportional men over 35. Younger guys come, but they’re usually into older guys. This is an orgy, not a stand & pose cruise party. Racially diverse. Guys range from great shape to bad shape.” Great party for average men. RATING: Somewhat selective VIBE: No attitude TIME: 6pm-2am (Tuesday & Thursday), 12-4pm (Friday), 8pm-1am (Sun) CROWD: A slow night is 15 guys, a busy night is 30. AGES: 18-60s SS/BB: safe sex and BB SPACE: private apartment SUPPLIES: Condoms/lube FREQUENCY: Every Tuesday, Thursday, Sunday (and occasional Friday) LIGHTING: Good, and has blackout parties after 11pm. GETTING IN: Check out http://theorgyguy.blogspot.com or email stats and pics to theclubhouseparties@gmail.com