Two prisoners whose cells adjoin communicate with each other by knocking on the wall. The wall is the thing which separates them but is also their means of communication. It is the same with us and God. Every separation is a link. Simone Weil

I would hope this person has met me before and really showed me that I mattered to him like that. If not then I would not allow him to touch me as I am not okay with touching others either unless I love or care about them in some way. If I felt threatened I would have to fight him.