Why Must I lose My Granddaughter Too?

Question: My son passed away 2 yrs. ago on 4/30. At the time his live-in girlfriend was carrying my Granddaughter. She was born on 6/24. Her Mother and I have had some issues. The most important thing in my life is my granddaughter. I haven’t seen her since Aug. 2009. Her mother moved her to Florida for a so-called “new life.” I can’t talk to her, no address, can’t see her. Please help me. This is finishing me off. I thought the loss of my son was the worst thing that could happen but not seeing my granddaughter; spending time with her; telling her who her Daddy is so unfair. J.

Answer: Dear J. What a double tragedy. I’m so sorry. I think you should see a good lawyer to find out if you have any recourse available at all. I simply don’t know.

I would also suggest that you bring your heartbreak over to my Web-forum. It’s at: www.wisewomenunite.com You will find both wisdom and compassion there. Blessings, Luise

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About Luise Volta

Luise’s long life has brought her to being the great grandmother of four teenagers. Born in 1927, the miles in between her teens and theirs have been full of falling and getting up, learning and growing and then falling and getting up again. A normal, though not simple, process.
She has had diverse careers in nursing, teaching preschool, interior design, Real Estate sales, insurance adjusting and dairy herd testing. She’s lived in the Mid-west, South and West Coast. Luise is married to the love of her life, Val, born in 1911. Their little terrier, “Rosa,” makes most of the major decisions at their house, (or thinks she does).