Twenty years into her marriage, Kat and her husband faced head-on the
great underlying fear of most monogamous people: My partner wants to
have sex with other people. For them, that truth led to a rollercoaster
of new sexual and romantic adventures...

Sexy, sweaty bodies writhing in a naked pile can be an outstanding experience, but it’s not without complications. What do you need to think about to have these sexy experiences go as smoothly as possible?

Even if it doesn't seem like it, we choose how much we let other people's needs and wants influence our decision making and how much autonomy we claim for ourselves. Romantic & sexual relationships challenge autonomy regularly and in non-monogamy that challenge can be ever-present.

For an attention whore, you wouldn't have thought I'd blush bright red and try to slide under my seat when all eyes turned my way, but I really didn't think anyone was looking at me when I had gotten overheated and removed a layer.