@2bothsidesnow

How to Explain? It seems obvious to me, looking at animal and human behavior through the ages, that we have the capability from birth to become sexually interested in, and attached to, everything from objects to creatures of other species to those fellow humans too young to be fertile/sexually, consensually active in the real sense. Only our taboos and early experiences cause us to greatly favor or dislike categories. I do believe more than half of us have a stronger drive toward others of the opposite sex, not just through conditioning but the reproductive drive; evolution would require it. Other than that, it's a random mixture of pheromones, early experiences, conditioning throughout life, and sociological pressures that cause us to deny or ignore whatever degree of interest we have in the gender that we don't favor more than 50% (the official dividing line). There are lesbians, for example, with small but real attraction to men who don't bother with them because it's confusing, inconvenient, or not a part of lesbian culture...priests who also love little boys or girls, but know adult-child and protector/subordinate *** is plain wrong, and so abstain...gun/power lovers who have orgasms from shooting a tiger...people who fall in love with their horses...people who find almost ANYone with pretty feet, or wearing leather attractive...etc. Lately bisexuality, or a sham of it, has become trendy, and so many p***arily heterosexuals have made a hobby of their strictly SEXUAL interest in same-sex activities. Seldom do you meet people who have approximately the same interest in both sexes (65/35 and up, maybe, though 80/20 is still bisexual in my opinion, not for me to judge). Being able to both love, and make real love, with people of both sexes, especially if able to commit to a lifetime partner of either sex, is most rare of all, and has unique stressors inside and outside the relationship. It is good for us, whatever our "unique percentage" to be able to talk openly.

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