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Topic: That's what friends are for... (Read 3067 times)

I was driving around with my friend the other day. We were going into town to get good coffee. On the drive in he told me I need to find a woman, or at least get out there and get laid. (he knows my status) He knows that I'm only interested in poz ladies so he suggested that if I couldn't find one that I liked, why didn't I just find a regular girl I liked and turn her into a poz lady. Hahaha!!! Oh man, I know it's terrible but I couldn't help but laugh. Only a true friend would encourage you to do something like that just to see that you're happy.

I was driving around with my friend the other day. We were going into town to get good coffee. On the drive in he told me I need to find a woman, or at least get out there and get laid. (he knows my status) He knows that I'm only interested in poz ladies so he suggested that if I couldn't find one that I liked, why didn't I just find a regular girl I liked and turn her into a poz lady. Hahaha!!! Oh man, I know it's terrible but I couldn't help but laugh. Only a true friend would encourage you to do something like that just to see that you're happy.

That is probably the worst piece of trash I've heard lately. It's not humerous at all. Maybe you'd like some man to fuck you as hard as possible praying you'll get the herps from him.

He knows that I'm only interested in poz ladies so he suggested that if I couldn't find one that I liked, why didn't I just find a regular girl I liked and turn her into a poz lady. Hahaha!!! Oh man, I know it's terrible but I couldn't help but laugh.

...and if she wasn't interested maybe your friend would consider rape. Now that would be really funny.

He knows that I'm only interested in poz ladies so he suggested that if I couldn't find one that I liked, why didn't I just find a regular girl I liked and turn her into a poz lady. Hahaha!!! Oh man, I know it's terrible but I couldn't help but laugh. Only a true friend would encourage you to do something like that just to see that you're happy.

Your friend sounds very disturbed, and honestly not much of a friend to suggest something as terrible as this.

I also find it disturbing that you laughed at his suggestion, rather than tell him how absolutely wrong that would be.

Henry

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"Life in Lubbock, Texas, taught me two things: One is that God loves you and you're going to burn in hell. The other is that sex is the most awful, filthy thing on earth and you should save it for someone you love." - Butch Hancock, Musician, The Flatlanders

404, infecting a woman is hardly the stuff of jokes. You don't seem to be able to differentiate between responsible self-expression and the patently offensive. Should we expect Holocaust or lynching humor next?

I'm locking this thread. Consider yourself warned. You're on the verge of a Time Out and/or being banned.

What we have here is yet another round of misogynistic comments from you. The fact that you're speaking of a friend is no excuse -- this is merely transference and you knew damn well what you were doing in posting this message. You've been warned, repeatedly, for posting this sort of offensive drivel in the Forums. You know that it pisses off and offends a lot of people, yet you continue to do it -- and I think you knew exactly what you were doing in regaling all of us with this tale.

We've given you a 30-day time out. If you do decide to rejoin us in one month's time, I suggest that you refrain from participating in threads -- or starting new threads -- were there's any sort of temptation to wax rather upoetically about women. And if you feel you're being baited or challenged by other members of the Forums, please report to the moderators before thinking it best to do what will only get you permanently banned from the site.

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