Sure, some people do. Others, however, truly want to see what's best for you happen. They often want to contribute to your success out of a belief that a rising tide raises all ships.

If the people in your life seem to only get excited when others fail, if they're all too eager to gossip about someone any time something negative happens, if they intentionally feed discord based on assumptions, then give yourself some space. Find and surround yourself with people who not only celebrate the success of others but who also help work to make it happen.

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"You were worth every single penny! I would have paid double!"

JACQUELINE NWOBU

"Thank you for speaking authentically and not just providing fluff. Thank you for attending the sessions and engaging with the other speakers and attendees. It was truly a pleasure having you in Johannesburg."