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Soon, I was spending hours in the parallel universe of cyberspace, often through wonderfully wide-awake nights, uninhibited in a way I never could be in reality.

I told no one, immersed and isolated in my secret life. In moments of fleeting clarity, I wanted to understand what was happening to me. Was it just my marriage problems, or was there something deeper causing me to behave that way?

I don't know how it happened, but what a lot of women do is send their three best pictures over and over again, when in reality, you should be on Skype with these guys long distance. When you finally do meet him, you might feel just that friendship vibe with him and you might end up meeting a really great friend, somebody who you like for a long time.

The problem is a lot of women are out of touch with their sexy side. And nobody can tell you to sleep with him, because you can't make the decision ahead of time.

I was a latecomer to counselling, having previously considered therapy a largely American pursuit. By the time I reached that landmark age, without children and in a marriage that was beginning to lose its fairytale glow, my daily life was beginning to feel not unlike a soap opera.

And I did, pretty much, and I was perfectly fine - until suddenly I wasn't.

The growth in steamy chat room conversations and cybersex also has triggered a rethinking of the meaning of infidelity.

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