I think what I appreciate best about your sportness is that it doesn't rule your life. You do it, you enjoy it, you show us peeeeectures (which I dig, btw) and it seems like a natural extension of yourself.

I say this because S (the boy/man) rides triathlons and is one of those horribly controlling/competetive people. So if HE talks about bike riding, you're supposed to stop your entire life and be spellbound. That approach has the opposite effect, whereas I actually look forward to yoursportish-related adventures.