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The Confidence Project (V)

It’s almost been a month! But don’t worry, I haven’t forgotten about this at all. I’m going to try organize my blog into different categories, so posts are more accessible. I know I should’ve probably done that earlier but I’m not very organized. Actually, I’m organized in my own way, as long as things are organize in my head, the rest doesn’t matter. Anyhow, this project is about to end. There’s a week or so left, so these days I’ll be writing more often. Today I want to talk about OBSTACLES. Yup, life is full of them. Some obstacles might include; people putting you down through your journey or you, completely losing yourself at certain points. Throughout my journey, I’ve been called insecure and I’ve been told I had to change in other aspects. The best way to deal with these things is to act confident and not give two fucks. Who cares about what they say? They don’t know the truth behind you. If they knew, I bet they would shut the fuck up. Bear with my swearing, I can’t stand it when people are selfish, tactless or ignorant. So, remember: only you know the truth. I understand this, probably, isn’t very helpful but I recommend you give yourself time if someone brings you down. Then you’ll realize what I’m talking about and that you’re worth a lot more than a couple of insensitive critics. Also, to the second point I made; losing yourself in this journey… Time is the key as well. What I’ll say now might not make any sense to you but we become more confident as time goes by. Time heals everything. Same thing happens with small obstacles, except for the fact that luckily since they are smaller than the actual journey, you’ll need less time to recover! Give it time. Now, I personally think that summaries kind of help recap and process information, so here are the points in short:-Obstacles will come in the way, but you must be stronger than those obstacles and face them with confidence-Time will help you recover from downfalls as well as become more confident. Time is one of the keys to this journeyMy next posts ( I might write some today) will be about appearing confident, doing things with confidence, speaking in public, and happiness and its contribution to confidence. However, before that I want to sort out my blog posts and write a little update perhaps. I hope you enjoyed this blog post and that you found it helpful! Please, comment telling me what you think! That would absolutely make my day, and if you followed thejourneyofmythoughts… well that would make my year! It’s great to know that there are people reading this behind a screen. So, please please please give me your opinion! This one is very much appreciated 🙂

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Hey everyone! My name is Elisa and I'm a fourteen year old spanish girl. I'm currently living abroad and this international experience has surely changed how I view the world, how I think, what I believe, and who I am. I have a huge passion for words (well that sounds very... cliche, but it's true) no matter the language. I enjoy the fact that different languages have different "personalities" in them, and it's all because of culture. It's almost as if you are a completely different person when you speak a different language. The same idea is understood and comes across in a different manner, therefore the meaning and the "feeling" behind it is different. I guess that's why people that have similar cultural backgrounds and thus, speak the same language have some sort of ressemblance in some aspects. Speaking for myself, I love writing and reading in both Spanish and English because it enables me to convey, give out and broadcast different thoughts in different ways, and hence different sides of myself.
But why do I love words so much? Through words, we convey feelings, people, ideas, and everything in our lives which matters. It's our form of communication for all the above. As a person, I love people, ideas, and feelings. I'm really oriented towards these three things, because there is no one that is exactly the same as someone else. Everyone is different, unique, and each one has great ideas and a great character which distinguishes him/her from the rest. I don't know, but this area of life fascinates me, it's almost what I think completes my life. I live for people and by people. For the small things (or not so small), laughter, smiles, passions, dreams, bonds, goals, nature itself, love, trust people...
That was an insight to how I think and how I see life really, but more about myself... Well, I have my crazy side. I do the most random stuff at the most random places. Hahaha! I only do this with the people I can really let go with though. I play basketball, I listen to music, I'm just a typical teenager, really. A teenager who panics and gets stressed out easily and who gets carried away by emotions more than she should. A teenager looking for self-acceptance, rather than change.