The Divorce Is Not An Option Project – Hudson Family – Week 5

Steven James Dixon is a Husband, Father, Relationship Expert and Author of two books “Men Don’t Heal, We Ho – A Book About the Emotional Instability of Men” and this Summer’s hottest book release “Love Capacity.” These books are surefire conversation starters. Since the release of Steven’s first book he has toured the country spreading his positive message and challenging men to heal from broken relationships. When asked what sets him apart from other relationship experts Steven had this to say, “I have developed a principle that will save all marriages. That principle is that the success or failure of all marriages is based solely upon the leadership of men.” While some say that Steven’s message and principle are controversial, media outlets across the country have not been shy about sharing it with viewers and listeners. Steven has answered relationship questions live on television with CNN (National), WGN (Chicago/National), CBS News (Dallas), Fox News (Houston), UPN (Chicago) and CW (Atlanta). Steven has Co-Hosted Nationally Syndicated Radio with The Doug Banks Show in addition to radio interviews all across the country including Tom Joyner (National), Michael Baisden (National), Rickey Smiley (National), Sirius Satellite Radio (Shade 45 – National), HOT 97 (NY), KJLH (LA), WGCI (Chicago), V103 (Atlanta), 97.9 (Houston), K104 (Dallas) and on and on. Book reviews for “Men Don’t Heal, We Ho” have been in countless newspapers across the country! Steven has developed a global appeal, being published and broadcasted in locations as far as the United Kingdom and the South Africa. Steven has been a weekly contributor for Essence.com and HelloBeautiful.com and has been featured in JET Magazine. You can find Steven weekly on his blog “The Relationship Report” on http://www.StevenJamesDixon.com. With over 100 relationship articles written in the past year Steven has cultivated a worldwide following in North America, Europe, Middle East, Asia and Africa. Steven is all over the relationship landscape, but if you were to ask him what his favorite thing to do is, his response would be “Sitting in a room with a man and woman saving their marriage.”

As I reviewed the list of problems that Michelle had with her husband Scott I only had one thing on my mind. How can I convince Michelle that none of these problems will ever happen again? I can teach Scott. Training men to be husbands is not a problem for me. As I reviewed the list again and again looking for an angle, searching for a place to start I noticed that a majority of the issues took place before Michelle and Scott were married. They have been married for 6 years! She has been holding on to these issues for six or more years? WOW! I immediately called Michelle and let her know that when you get married, you start over. You wipe the slate clean. You can’t bring anything outside of the marriage into the marriage.

Hello Michelle this is Steven James Dixon. Is this a good time to talk?

“Yeah, sure.”

I am reviewing your list here and noticed that you have 54 items. Please hear me out when I say that having 54 complaints about your husband is too many complaints. Many of your complaints are extremely valid and are things that I will discuss in detail with your husband but some I feel are a bit nitpicky. (I say this in the most sensitive tone that I can.)

“He did those things to me. You can’t take that from me. They all hurt, I remember them all and I am not forgiving him for doing those things to me.”

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