panicing, sorry it is long

So now i am working late hrs shift at walmart my hrs are 6 pm to 3 am, i get home so tierd but i still fix lunch for dh, we have dd she is 11 months he takes care of her while i am at work.I try to sleep at 4 am and then dd wakes up at 5 am and my day goes like that, ( feeding her, changing her , play with her, and put t nap around 7 am), then i try to sleep again, she wakes up at am, and again (we go done and feed her, change her, play pla and more play till 12 she naps again).I cook, clean, till 2 pm and then she wakes up and do the same stuff listed up, she nap again at 4 pm, DH comes home at 4:30 pm we eat, i clean the kitchen and wash the dishes, and then get ready and to work by 5:15 pm.That is my secdule everyday, and dh is not happy and complaining. I have really bad rashs all over my body and went to the dr and they said that it is scabies so dh is panincing and put the blam on me and saying that we r not clean!and he keeps saying i don't why God is doing that to us we don't take a bareak always there is something.and he is treating me bad cuz i am sick all the time. I love him, I miss him alot. We hven't have sex fro more than 3 weeks and eveytime i tryi to touch him he pushes me and say no.So worry and don't know what to do?//

So now i am working late hrs shift at walmart my hrs are 6 pm to 3 am, i get home so tierd but i still fix lunch for dh, we have dd she is 11 months he takes care of her while i am at work.I try to sleep at 4 am and then dd wakes up at 5 am and my day goes like that, ( feeding her, changing her , play with her, and put t nap around 7 am), then i try to sleep again, she wakes up at am, and again (we go done and feed her, change her, play pla and more play till 12 she naps again).I cook, clean, till 2 pm and then she wakes up and do the same stuff listed up, she nap again at 4 pm, DH comes home at 4:30 pm we eat, i clean the kitchen and wash the dishes, and then get ready and to work by 5:15 pm.That is my secdule everyday, and dh is not happy and complaining. I have really bad rashs all over my body and went to the dr and they said that it is scabies so dh is panincing and put the blam on me and saying that we r not clean!and he keeps saying i don't why God is doing that to us we don't take a bareak always there is something.and he is treating me bad cuz i am sick all the time. I love him, I miss him alot. We hven't have sex fro more than 3 weeks and eveytime i tryi to touch him he pushes me and say no.So worry and don't know what to do?//

He's the one complaining? It sounds like your doing all the work... What's his complanit? It's not anyones fault u got a communitiable disease.To me I think he's not doing enough. Is it to much for him to cook and do the dish so you could nap a little longer. Or start keeping LO up later so shes not waking up at 5am. To me it sounds like shes going down to much for naps and needs to sleep at night. My LO is also 11 months she sleeps for 11pm-11am then she naps from 3pm-4:30 and thats it. When you're feeding LO at 5am is it a bottle only or up in the high chair w/ baby food? Try giving just a bottle and not playing at 5am and she if she'll go right back to sleep. If you BF wake her when you get home at 4am sleeping for one hour would just make you feel worse. My ped always says the reason marriages have problem is they charge everything to the baby. When you were a family prior to the baby and the baby needs to fix into your rountines not the oppisite.

He's the one complaining? It sounds like your doing all the work... What's his complanit? It's not anyones fault u got a communitiable disease.To me I think he's not doing enough. Is it to much for him to cook and do the dish so you could nap a little longer. Or start keeping LO up later so shes not waking up at 5am. To me it sounds like shes going down to much for naps and needs to sleep at night. My LO is also 11 months she sleeps for 11pm-11am then she naps from 3pm-4:30 and thats it. When you're feeding LO at 5am is it a bottle only or up in the high chair w/ baby food? Try giving just a bottle and not playing at 5am and she if she'll go right back to sleep. If you BF wake her when you get home at 4am sleeping for one hour would just make you feel worse. My ped always says the reason marriages have problem is they charge everything to the baby. When you were a family prior to the baby and the baby needs to fix into your rountines not the oppisite.

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