Your life is about the choice to do something, while your mind is about the choice to think something…

Too many people tend to think what the bad things come to their life…

For example:

– When you make a mistake.

– When someone stole your money.

– When somebody did something bad to you.

– When you lose something.

– When someone hates you.

It may be hard for you to avoid the sadness which is coming. But, there is nothing you can get from that sadness. Right? Everything has already occurred. You can’t change the situations. Now just focus on the only thing you can change. That is your mind. Well, I suggest the followings conditions…

For example:

– When you make a mistake, I have got the real experience on it.

– When someone stole your money, just think we can help and share what we have. Perhaps, the thief has a big financial problem. At least, we are still alive and have many things around us.

– When somebody did something bad to you, just think there are others who give me the good things. Why should I focus on the one who hurt me? It’s better for you to focus on those who love you. Right?

– When you lose something, just focus on what you have right now. I think it is so much bigger than the things what you lose.

– When someone hates you, just focus on those who are beside you and always love you. They are more than enough I think.

What we have now will leave you someday… It also happens to our life… We are certainly leaving all the things we have now when we leave this world… So don’t focus what you have lose!!! Just focus on what you have got!!! and trust me you will be happy…

Now, it’s time for your mind to choose… Perhaps, it is hard to think those ways. But, trust me it’s better for you than only getting drown into your misery.

If you want to be the winner in this life. You should be the best in the field you concern.

2. Be the first!

It is proven that being the first is the key of success. There are many inventors in this world. They are successful because they can create something new. In another case, some people can be successful because they have good concern on the field that there are only a few competitors on that field or many people do not know about.

3. If you are not the best, and you are not the first. BE UNIQUE!

If we are not the best and we are not the first. We can be UNIQUE. And this is the good news for everybody who wants to be successful. I repeat. We can be unique. Yeah! It’s true. So how can we be Unique? The answer is just to BE YOU. Just be yourself! There are many proofs here. Many people are successful not because they are the best one or the first one. However, they can make themselves and their company to be the unique one by showing their own characters.

This morning, I was just thinking what should I do for my students who will leave their school. I, as the teacher, wanted to make unforgettable moment for them. And, this also became a moment when I gave them the last motivation of what they should do in the future. Thanks God. It runs so hearth-touching and awesome.

Because I’m an English teacher who teaches EFL (English as foreign Country). I play the video in the purpose of giving my students listening practice. But, actually my intention is giving them the moral value of the video which can inspire them when they have left the school. Continue reading →