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Since the dawn of modern civilization, men and women have been magnetically and irresistibly drawn into romantic relationships, not so much by what they see, feel and think, but more by an invisible and irresistible force. When individuals with healthy emotional backgrounds meet, the result is a loving, reciprocal and stable relationship. However, when codependents and pathological narcissists meet, they are enveloped in a magnetic and seductive “love force,” that begins like a fairy-tale, but later unfolds into a painful “seesaw” of love/pain and hope/disappointment. The soul mate of the Codependent’s dreams becomes the narcissist of his/her nightmares. …Read More

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Meet The Author

Ross A. Rosenberg, M.Ed., LCPC, CADC, CSAT is the owner and psychotherapist in Clinical Care Consultants, a counseling center in the northern suburbs of Chicago. He also owns and trains with Advanced Clinical Trainers (ACT), which provides a platform for talented and inspiring trainers, leaders and experts.

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Endorsements

“Ross Rosenberg’s important work, 'The Human Magnet Syndrome: Why We Love People Who Hurt Us,' challenges us to continue looking at relationship dynamics to see how our experiences affected us and will continue to affect others. Join this forward-looking movement by reading a book that draws on the discoveries of the past, but adds more wisdom combined with effective answers. It’s both the next step in evolution and a revelation.

I recommend 'The Human Magnet Syndrome' to those who work in social services, education, chemical dependency or the counseling fields and to the people they touch. It’s time to wake up and this brilliant book sounds the alarm we need.”
- Melody Beattie, a codependency pioneer, and author of over 18 books, including best-selling Codependent No More and Language of Letting Go.

“Born in the cauldron of personal experience of suffering and healing and honed through years of professional experience, this book will help anyone understand the attractors of love and consequent suffering. I recommend it to couples who are mystified by the depth and repetition of their pain and joy and to therapists whose destiny is to help them.”
- Harville Hendrix, PhD, couples counseling expert, and Author of two New York Times
best-selling books, including Getting the Love You Want.

“We’ve all been in situations that weren’t right for us – or at the very least we know people who are stuck where they don’t want to be. HUMAN MAGNET SYNDROME explains why that is - using sound psychological principles - and how to get out of those defeating situations. It’s truly a life-changing bible for anyone who wants to break that cycle and experience freedom from co-dependency. I’ve personally recommended it to many of my clients because of the solid advice within it.”
- Rebecca Rosenblat, Author, Psychotherapist, Educator, TV Show Host, Sex and Relationship Disorders Expert.