willgtavcs

i posted this in the valentine topic but i got pushed away becuase it was more off topic but here is a real topic about it and has more info in it

yesterday afternoon in German class,i was sitting across from this girl who i instantly liked.anyway I went to do my usual thing and when i opened my dictionary she did too, and when i wrote my name in it for borrowing causes, she was looking at what i wrote, i then oppened the back of the book and she asked me what those large stickers are for i said "birthdays" she said "when was yours" "23 of January i said" she said happy birthday and i lolled. What i last said would probably mean nothing, but what i will say next will. about a quarter a way through class she asked someone if they had seen pulp fiction, they said no but then i said that i had seen it and then she was like "really!" in an excited voice because she had only met one other person who had seen it. She said that it was one of her favorite movies and it is one of mine as well; so we talked a bit about Tarantino movies between doing our classwork. What was good was that she did not look at me weirdly or not like me.she seemed to think i was cool. she was not one of the really popular girls which was good because she wouldn't hate me. she seemed to have some of the same interests as me because i like to laze around and so does she (she is quite thin though ).after class though i walked past her sitting down with her friends; I said bye but she didn't notice until a few seconds later when i could not see her because a group of people were blocking the view, but i heard her. For some reason that kind of made me think that i couldn't get her to go out with me, but all seems good now i she just didn't see me.i meant to write this yesterday afternoon but i did not get time. she is a pretty girl: blonde hair, pretty face, nice body, reasonably big breasts.

On a scale of 1-10 what chance do i haveSo what do you think?Do i have a chance of going out with her?Do any of you have any advice for a 14 year old hopeless romantic?

chillwinston8717

In most cases, it's not what she says, its how she says it. You normally have a feeling if someone likes you, and its hard to judge when you are being told over the internet. Nevertheless, from what you've said it seems it is worth making an effort for to see how it pans out. And by the way, if I was a girl and I found out some guy I just met today was posting pictures of me on a forum filled with 95% guys, I'd be pretty pissed. Take the photo down. Show some respect for her.

*Word*

Lol at the pics. Just keeping talking to her so you'll have more of an idea if she'll go out with you. I don't think she would go out with you if you asked her out tomorrow, seeing as you only met her recently. Just become better friends with her and gauge her reactions to you and what you say. Give it a bit of time, but obviously not too long. Sounds like you could maybe get her.

willgtavcs

In most cases, it's not what she says, its how she says it. You normally have a feeling if someone likes you, and its hard to judge when you are being told over the internet. Nevertheless, from what you've said it seems it is worth making an effort for to see how it pans out. And by the way, if I was a girl and I found out some guy I just met today was posting pictures of me on a forum filled with 95% guys, I'd be pretty pissed. Take the photo down. Show some respect for her.

yes, i was not sure if i should have posted it. I have just not had many girlfriends before and stuff i have only had 4, and none of them serious.

But the main idea of this topic is just for some dating advice do any of you have any past experience with girls and could give me some heads up

Forty

Girls like guys who are dicks to them. Walk up to her tomorrow, throw her books on the ground and call her a fat c*nt. She'll blow you right there.

Trust me bro. We have the same birthday.

Seconded. Cali knows the truth. I saw it happen with my own two eyes. He slapped her book against the locker and told her to quit acting like a psycho bitch. She locked onto him and lunged for his weiner. It was all professional grade skin fluting from that point. Word son.

Neal40000

Girls like guys who are dicks to them. Walk up to her tomorrow, throw her books on the ground and call her a fat c*nt. She'll blow you right there.

Trust me bro. We have the same birthday.

Seconded. Cali knows the truth. I saw it happen with my own two eyes. He slapped her book against the locker and told her to quit acting like a psycho bitch. She locked onto him and lunged for his weiner. It was all professional grade skin fluting from that point. Word son.

Hayden

There's always a chance, I'd say in you're case it's about one out of a million. Joking, but seriously it seems like you've got a decent shot at it. Ninety percent of what a person is saying is not the words that they are using, it's tone, facial expression, and body language (that's why internet dating is very difficult). You should be able to tell if she's interested in you, but give it some time.

Stefan.

If Chandler asked Monica on a date the first time they saw each other, would Monica say yes? To Chandler? Who would.

Give it time. Get to know her, be her friend, and learn things about her. If you know things about her, talk about the things she like. Then, when you are ready, drop the question.

And, remember, do not start going on, and on, and on. Girls hate that. They like to talk, so let them talk all they want. Just do not look disinterested. They want to be with men who know that they are interested in everything they say, not just their tits.

By the way, dating girls is more than just banging them and their tits.

Hayden

If Chandler asked Monica on a date the first time they saw each other, would Monica say yes? To Chandler? Who would.

...and I thought Friends was a complete waste of air-time. Well phrased, Stefan. I was going to advise as you did in your post about the whole listen to them and don't stare at them but I thought that was pretty much common knowledge, best not to make assumptions.

Stefan.

If Chandler asked Monica on a date the first time they saw each other, would Monica say yes? To Chandler? Who would.

...and I thought Friends was a complete waste of air-time. Well phrased, Stefan. I was going to advise as you did in your post about the whole listen to them and don't stare at them but I thought that was pretty much common knowledge, best not to make assumptions.

Yeah, they would be more going for Joey. "How you doin'" will always be the best pick-up line.

Although it is common knowledge, some naive young-uns out there think that staring them can get the job done. Once they are experienced, they will learn though.

Be very careful if you do this, if you get to be too good of a friend with her, its really hard to make them go out with you for more than a month.

True. If you get to know them very well, and then try and make a sexual relationship out of it, then that could ruin the relationship (the friendship, I mean).

I relate this to another American sitcom: Seinfeld. If Jerry and Elaine decided to have a sexual relationship again, that would have just killed off their friendship, or at least add difficulties if something goes wrong. And knowing Kramer and George, the repurcussions could be wild.

Be very careful if you do this, if you get to be too good of a friend with her, its really hard to make them go out with you for more than a month.

True. If you get to know them very well, and then try and make a sexual relationship out of it, then that could ruin the relationship (the friendship, I mean).

I relate this to another American sitcom: Seinfeld. If Jerry and Elaine decided to have a sexual relationship again, that would have just killed off their friendship, or at least add difficulties if something goes wrong. And knowing Kramer and George, the repurcussions could be wild.

Well, good. Anywho, you need build, somewhat, a foundation of relationship with her before you make the kill. Give it a month, but don't get friend-zoned. If she likes you, great. But, this is one of thing you had with this girl, which I am sure, many other guys have had. You need to make yourself special. Ask yourself, "What makes me more special then the other guys?" "Why would she pick me?" ect.

These questions must be answered in a positive direction torwards you. Make the foundation relationship with her, then ask her out. Look for signs as well, if you can't find any signs; you can gamble and see if she likes you or not. Find out if she is a shy/outgoing girl. If she's shy, then you might not find signs with her. Opposite being outgoing.

Well, good. Anywho, you need build, somewhat, a foundation of relationship with her before you make the kill. Give it a month, but don't get friend-zoned. If she likes you, great. But, this is one of thing you had with this girl, which I am sure, many other guys have had. You need to make yourself special. Ask yourself, "What makes me more special then the other guys?" "Why would she pick me?" ect.

These questions must be answered in a positive direction torwards you. Make the foundation relationship with her, then ask her out. Look for signs as well, if you can't find any signs; you can gamble and see if she likes you or not. Find out if she is a shy/outgoing girl. If she's shy, then you might not find signs with her. Opposite being outgoing.

The f*ck do you think you're talking about?Don't listen to him Big Will. Just chloroform the bitch and ride the partytrain.

If she's thin and has big breasts, she has to be popular. But since you say she's not, I take it that 'reasonably big' means big enough to know they actually exist.

On a more serious note, it all depends on your penis size.Hell, why don't you just go propose her and find out yourself instead of asking a bunch of fools to provide opinions when most of us don't even know you!