Tomorrow I have the first session with a prospective new Painslut Slave. While I love all types of slaves, whether sensual, light or just into bondage, or caning etc, I have missed, since the most masochistic painslut I have ever known moved to Scotland, having a real painslut to play with. There is something so enjoyable, so freeing in a slave who loves pain, who loves having their limits explored. With whom you can test, practice and explore, all your own needs to inflict pain. I love being imaginative with the giving of pain. Whether using the cane of course or finding new ways to make it exciting.

I love using salt, lemon juice, nettles, chillies! I love watching the slave take it, how he shakes, maybe as he takes what I give him. Watching for signs that that is for now as far as he can go. I love mixing it up - the pleasure and the pain. A good Domme or Dom really doesn't need safe words, though of course I use them. But body language should always show what you need to know.

However, the first session is always tricky: understanding everyone's levels and limits and ways of getting what they need, and of course whether they are really the painslut they think they are. After all, everything in this world is comparative!

I am looking forward to tomorrow and now have to go shopping for more lemons...