Wednesday, 7 January 2015

Ten Ways to Make Your Relationship Last

One of the ways to live a long life is have close relationships. Having
close friends and lifetime partner help us live longer and healthier
lives for they help us alleviate stress, boredom and depression.

Here are tips to make your relationship last.

1. Communication is the keyConstant
communication must be maintained even on the busiest day. Nowadays time
and distance is not an issue anymore if you really want to talk to each
other

2. Don’t force him to change for youIt’s
a no-no to force him to change his ways, you have to accept him or
he’ll find someone else. Let him take the initiative to change, your
life will be so much better.

3. The key to a man’s heart is through his stomachThe
age-old saying is true. Making your man yummy dishes makes him love you
more. So make an effort, it does not have to be an overnight thing.
Learn one or two of his favorite dishes then gradually add more as time
passes.

4. Support him in his decisionsHis
decisions are not always perfect but it’s his to make, just be there for
him and give your opinions or just be with him on this difficult time.

5. Make your thoughts and feelings heardHe
is not a mind reader. On the early phase of the relationship it is
crucial that you let him know what your stand on things like how many
children do you want, do you plan to keep working even as kids. How
about finances? Would you have separate accounts?

6. Include him in decision makingHave
a partner means any decision you make can and will affect him too. So
before accepting a job that may include travel ask for his opinion on
it.

7. Let him pamper youThe modern woman is independent and can take care of herself fine. But I discovered that men like to pamper us once in a while.

8. Don’t let the romance dieJust
because you already lasted 5 years mean that you don’t need to go on
dates anymore. Where is the fun in that? Regularly going on dates keeps
the sparks going even if you’re old and gray.

9. Make timeEven
if your busy with your career its no excuse not to have time for him.
No sacrifice is too great just to spend an hour or two of quality time
with before your end your day.

10. Work at itMany
think that once you get married, everything is okay, you have your man
and you will live forever. Actually the REAL work is just starting for
you and your prince charming to reach that forever after.