First of all arent 911 operators supposed to be kind and helpful rather that rude and skeptical. I mean imagine this.... she gets a call and they say "someones in my house and they shot me and im dying" So she responds "well you should say murder thats much better, considering dying and murder are two totally different things. Well hmmm... I dont think i'll send cops cause I dont feel your being truthfull."

Your statement is really off the mark, but you have no idea how I do my job. I do it quite well, I am not judgemental, I send the appropriate authorities to every single call. My goodness I wouldnt have a job if I sat on the chair of judgement and said who got what on every call!!

And have gotten the highest award FOR my dispatching in 2005, with my shift. I took this call, in which the man on the car watched the couple drive in despite him telling hem to stay out and he watched them drown.

That being said however, just because I send the appropriate authorites does not mean that I believe the story.

Case in point.....man called and said his gf was attacked and stabbed in the chest while he was at the store....as I transferred call to PD (after dispatching ems) he didnt realize the line was still open.....I heard him say...."OOOOH baby, God dont tell them", so as pd was talking to them, I still had their convo in my ear and I called the PD on the side phone and told them, as their suspect was the man who was making the call and staged the crime.

Turns out, I had to meet the victim later on....seems he was choking her (the gurgling I heard) as he was pretending to care to me as he described what supposedly happened. It was MY observation that got him caught so quickly and it was that tape that got him convicted.

So, I do not readily believe what is being told to me if something doesnt sit right. I stand by my convictions. I am a cynical person and dont believe things just because others do.

However, I will make good on my promise as I have nothing else at the moment to go on and if this is unsincere, the truth will come out, but for now, I shall say...

I am sorry.

Do not pray for an easy life, pray for the strength to endure a difficult one. Bruce Lee

[First of all arent 911 operators supposed to be kind and helpful rather that rude and skeptical. I mean imagine this.... she gets a call and they say "someones in my house and they shot me and im dying" So she responds "well you should say murder thats much better, considering dying and murder are two totally different things. Well hmmm... I dont think i'll send cops cause I dont feel your being truthfull." ]

Not only is that one way to loose your job, but you'd think someone would actually say that to someone in an emergency? LOL.

Anyone can post pictures and say so and so died. With all the changes you've made to your post, I dont believe you either.

"someones in my house and they shot me and im dying" So she responds "well you should say murder thats much better, considering dying and murder are two totally different things.

Murdered people do not talk to me. They aint dead yet.

People call and think they are dying when they have been shot in the foot, hand, etc.

Furthermore, the lady who was stabbed in the chest WAS dying, but she coulda been murdered. I *WAS* giving instructions for the guy to help her till EMS got there, however, he was pretending to help her as he choked her, WHILE talking to me. Oh, I heard her gurgling, but had NO idea (until he slipped up) that he had no intention of helping her.

It wasnt by my hand that she lived, as I was giving instructions to help her till ems got there that he was not doing, instead trying to finish her off, it was her will to live and a quick police response that saved her.

Do not pray for an easy life, pray for the strength to endure a difficult one. Bruce Lee

Well im not arguing about my friend dieing its causeing me more heartach than anything. Umm I posted a link if you dont believe me after that fine.

I changed my post so many times because after friday night when I found out i heard so many rumors about what had happened. I just got on here and started typing, Saturday morning When i talked to her mother the story that came from her was different that what I had heard, and they hadnt told her much yet. So i decided that it was wrong to have just started typing things since the news on what happend or the truth wasnt out yet. So with that im mind my frined still died no matter how it happend and I still wanted to put pics of her up. She died. Thats the truth. Now I am being judeged and scrutinized and every detail of my "story" is being evaluated my someone clearly not understandeing what it is like to lose some one so close to you.. You are irrational you cant think right and you just want to scream... instead i felt posting pictures was better. I wrote I know she was murdered. Because I feel she didnt take her life. i wasnt thinking calmly or rationally I was upset people freaking upset. If you dont understans that, Trauma thats fine but of all people when you get calls you should understand what I mean people arent making much since when they are paniced and confused and not sure how to get words put over hysterical crying. Now just imagine the same situation with me except typing instead of talking. But to you, im not real, just a bunch of words that are possibly mispelled that should be doubted. But i am real and my loss is real.. I didnt want sympathy, I wanted someone to talk to that wouldnt say well i heard she was hung, well i heard she was shot, well i heard and so on. That was hard.. So just talking with someone to talk back to that wasnt intrested in the nasty details to go tell their gossip.. Trauma do you possibly understand. Im not angry and you, Im not. Im just upset that you could still stand by your point of im a liar.. I have posted everything to prove im not lieing even reports. So im done other than this post the others are going to be deleted. I dont need this. I have to get ready for the funeral that is being held at my school at two. I need my time to get it together. And Trauma even though I feel your appology wasnt sincere I will accepct it, and if and when you discover that im not lieing, I wont be happy for me, but sorry for you because i would feel horrid if I ever doubted someone about at death.

Thanks to everyone for their kind words other than this arguing stuff, It was nice for me just to ramble to someone/people that isnt going to judge me. Its just so hard. And I cant believe its over for her.. Shes was only 18. So in memory of her she had 15 nautical stars tatooed on her side And our closest firneds to her are all going to get a star tatooed on us on her birthday July 10..

I love you April Marie Campbell Rest in peace "April Skank"

"Dogs are not our whole life, but they make our lives whole." "Forgivness means having to let go of the past."

what family member found her? I can understand the confusion in being shot or stabbed, however, if the sheets were taken as evidence as they were blood soaked, I am not sure how the family would say she was hung?

I feel like if people are going to doubt then I shouldnt have anything posted so I dont have to read the Doubts.. She was fount by her stepfather arnold... The hanging things didnt come from her family just a bunch of gosspiers.. Trauma Im glad you realized im not lieing.. And maybe you could shed some light for me... Im not sure how to ask this or even if its ok if I can, but if you get any information would it be ok if you let me in.. I mean i dont understand.. I feel she didnt do this to herself.. In fact I know she was scared of someone from her comments on her myspace. thank you.

I understand that some information is confidential. Im just looking for facts and not hear say.

"Dogs are not our whole life, but they make our lives whole." "Forgivness means having to let go of the past."

yeah considering that I lost the one person I could talk to and I had been a member on here and "thought" I could talk, this was the first place I wanted to go. Outside of my other 3 friends that were crying hysterically. Actually I went to myspace first then here. i dont care if you find it bs. its not me and trauma both postd links now. so you can go do you know what to yourself cause im over your rudeness. so you can just layoff if you dont believe it. You dont have to respond to me, or this post. i think you beleive me you just want to cause problems anyway which is sick.

"Dogs are not our whole life, but they make our lives whole." "Forgivness means having to let go of the past."