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➽ Have you ever left an interview and felt like you missed something?
➽ Have you ever left a date wondering if this guy is too good to be true?
➽ Are you in a relationship either business or personal that just isn’t right but you don’t know what’s wrong?
If you answered yes to any of these questions this is the book for you!
We all need emotional blinders: the etiquette that keeps society smoothly moving depends on it.
But when you absolutely must rely on another person, you have to be able to assess them objectively.
Too often people take things at face value, and with the help of Dr. Wendy Patrick's tips, people will be better able to analyze each other's intentions using FLAGs.
● F -What is the other person focusing on?
● L - What is their lifestyle like?
● A - With whom do they associate?
● G - What are their goals?
Red Flags shares simple strategies anyone can use to spot deceptive, or downright dangerous people, who use ingratiation and social convention to draw in and lull victims.
What If someone new in your life were to offer you a free book or a free home-cooked meal, you might think something’s up. Or, you might graciously accept their offer and think they’re really nice.
According to Wendy Patrick, the author of Red Flags: How to Spot Frenemies, Underminers, and Toxic People in Your Life, we must be mindful of deceptive people who try to ingratiate themselves.
As a deputy district attorney and team leader of a sex-crimes-and-stalking division in San Diego, Patrick has dealt with sexual predators, white-collar criminals, and sociopathic criminals who have a history of social prowess and financial power.
Readers will learn how even the most skeptical of us use rose-colored lenses on those around us, in three sections:
● Blinded by Desire-from the alluring lenses of attraction and positive attention to the blindness of marital "bliss" and the distorted lens of delusion
● Overlooking Red Flags in a Professional Setting-how reassuring proximity and the false security of credibility and similarity can lead to costly mistakes
● Be Afraid of What You Can't See-the ultimate cost of wearing emotional blinders around the truly disturbed/criminal, from sexual predation to domestic abuse, stalking and cyberstalking
Readers will learn how to:
➽ Avoid selective attention
➽ Observe people over time (bad guys rely on first impressions)
➽ Ask questions: most people's favorite topic is themselves
➽ Cybersleuth to verify information and track down inconsistencies
You need this book if you:
☞ Want to know if a potential boyfriend is trustworthy
☞ Are interviewing or hiring new employees
☞ Are selecting anyone to take care of your children
☞ Are lending money or property
☞ Have partners in business
Wendy Patrick uses her decades of personal expertise as a district attorney in the sex crimes division of San Diego County to guide and hopefully keep readers from becoming a victim by exploring in depth the warning signs or “Red Flags” and what they mean using practical methods anyone can follow and signs anyone can recognize.
In this incredibly informative book she uses formulas and methods that have served her in her own career and shares them with anyone fortunate enough to pick up a copy of this book. She takes readers step by methodical step through each of her danger signs. She gives a name to her most common offenders “Dark Triad” that consists of, narcissists, Machiavellians and psychopaths, and even goes so far as to tell us a few that she could have “fallen” for. Her simple evaluation guide she calls FLAG (focus, lifestyle, associations, goals) and she takes us step by step through these different examples using her own experiences to show us exactly what to watch out for.
It’s eye opening, it’s awe inspiring, it’s shocking and it’s comforting to know that we have advocates like her that protect us before something happens and in the unfortunate event that we do fall victim that she’s there to stand up for those of us who fall victim to these often times beautiful monsters.
This book is for anyone, any race, any sex, any age because we’re all vulnerable.
About the Author
Wendy L. Patrick is a deputy district attorney and team leader in the Sex Crimes and Stalking Division of the San Diego County District Attorney's Office. She serves as co-chair of both the Statewide California District Attorneys Association Sexually Violent Predator Committee and the Human Trafficking Committee. Patrick is the co-author of the revised edition of Reading People.

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