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I have a gay friend who got drunk at a wedding last weekend and hooked up with a girl (true story). He's been out since high school and this was his first time with a girl. He has no plans to ever do it again. Is he still gay?

I'm not using YOUR definition. I'm using the commonly understood definition.
You described that <he who shall not be named> was a whore because you knew of 2 people he had sexual relations with. I described that you had to be promiscuous to be a whore, and you said that having sex with 2 people made you promiscuous. These are not commonly understood definitions.

See, I don't know if I can argue with you, because I may have different meanings for words than you do. What do you mean by "argue?" Do you mean "conversing over a debatable topic," or do you mean "watching television?" What do you mean by "dictionary?" Do you mean "book that gives definitions of words" or "fruit from a tree you can eat?"

I have a gay friend who got drunk at a wedding last weekend and hooked up with a girl (true story). He's been out since high school and this was his first time with a girl. He has no plans to ever do it again. Is he still gay?

According to you he is whatever the hell he says he is, because it doesn't have to make any sense.

According to a logical line of reasoning, he is either bisexual or straight, depending upon what he does from here.

I have a gay friend who got drunk at a wedding last weekend and hooked up with a girl (true story). He's been out since high school and this was his first time with a girl. He has no plans to ever do it again. Is he still gay?

According to you he is whatever the hell he says he is, because it doesn't have to make any sense.

According to a logical line of reasoning, he is either bisexual or straight, depending upon what he does from here.

You're contradicting yourself. He is now straight, based on your argument. I does not depend on what he does from here.

I have a gay friend who got drunk at a wedding last weekend and hooked up with a girl (true story). He's been out since high school and this was his first time with a girl. He has no plans to ever do it again. Is he still gay?

According to you he is whatever the hell he says he is, because it doesn't have to make any sense.

According to a logical line of reasoning, he is either bisexual or straight, depending upon what he does from here.

I'm pretty he still considers himself gay. And that's all that matters- his opinion on his sexuality. He's not accountable to anyone else. He's gay if he says he is. Or bi. Or straight. There are no prerequisites that he has to fulfill.

You're contradicting yourself. He is now straight, based on your argument. I does not depend on what he does from here.

As I said before, if someone goes back and forth between the genders, they are bisexual.

We only know of one change this person has made. If they don't make another and stay with women, then he has become straight. If he continues to see both genders, he is bisexual. If he goes back to only being with men, he will be homosexual again. As things stand, he is either heterosexual or bisexual at the present time.

I'm pretty he still considers himself gay. And that's all that matters- his opinion on his sexuality. He's not accountable to anyone else. He's gay if he says he is. Or bi. Or straight. There are no prerequisites that he has to fulfill.

Is that how everything works in your mind? Are you whatever the hell you think you are?

No wonder you're so ridiculous all the time. You think whatever you say is just the way things are. You don't need a reason for anything.

Wow. Thanks for the laughs. No, really. I just about busted a gut there.

You're contradicting yourself. He is now straight, based on your argument. I does not depend on what he does from here.

As I said before, if someone goes back and forth between the genders, they are bisexual.

We only know of one change this person has made. If they don't make another and stay with women, then he has become straight. If he continues to see both genders, he is bisexual. If he goes back to only being with men, he will be homosexual again. As things stand, he is either heterosexual or bisexual at the present time.

I'm pretty he still considers himself gay. And that's all that matters- his opinion on his sexuality. He's not accountable to anyone else. He's gay if he says he is. Or bi. Or straight. There are no prerequisites that he has to fulfill.

Is that how everything works in your mind? Are you whatever the hell you think you are?

No wonder you're so ridiculous all the time. You think whatever you say is just the way things are. You don't need a reason for anything.

Wow. Thanks for the laughs. No, really. I just about busted a gut there.

That's not how everything works, but it is how sexuality works. You are either attracted to men or women (or both), and that attraction is what defines your sexuality. Since no one else knows what's in your head, you are whatever you say you are.