he other evening my wife and I
were enjoying a quiet conversation
together. We were sipping some
fresh-perked coffee, the house was unusually still, and there were no plans to
go anywhere that evening. It was one of
those cherished moments you wish you
could wrap up and reserve for later use
when it’s really needed again.
Almost out of the blue, our discussion
turned to the subject of Christ’s return. I
found myself tracking that thought further
than I had in months. Cynthia and I chuckled at some comments we each made about
letting the folks in the tribulation worry
with the hassles that we have to handle
now—like cleaning out our garage or
landscaping the backyard! We also smiled
together contemplating the joys that will
be ours to share throughout eternity with
family and friends in the body of Christ.
As time passed the balance of that evening, I kept returning to the reality, “He
is coming back. What a difference it will
make!” It is remarkable, when you stop
and get specific about it, how many things
we take for granted that will suddenly be
removed or changed. Think about that . . .
It is also amazing what an overhaul job
that does on our scale of values . . . the
stuff we tend to cling to and gloat over and
want more of. Christ’s return has a way
of smashing our idols of materialism and
shoving us back to the basics. How much
time we spend on things that need our at-

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tention . . . but would abruptly blur out of
focus at the sound of the trumpet! I realize a lot of so-called, “heavenly minded,”
weirdos have done some dumb things by
going to extremes over prophecy. But God
said to me that evening, “Loosen your grip,
my son . . . remember that the bottom line
of everything is eternity with Me.”
Is it a waste of time to focus on the Lord’s
coming? Quite the contrary! It’s biblical.
It’s what Titus 2:13 says we ought to do:
“Looking for the blessed hope and the
appearing of the glory of our great God
and Savior, Christ Jesus.”
When was the last time—on your
own—you meditated on Christ’s coming? If you’re like most, it’s been too long.
People who are more practical than mystical, who are realistic rather than idealistic, tend to do that only at funerals and
following near-death experiences. Most
of us are here-and-now thinkers much
more than then-and-there people. But
Scripture says we are to “comfort one
another” with information about Jesus’
return for us (1 Thessalonians 4:13–18).
It says these truths form the very foundation of a “steadfast, immovable, always abounding” lifestyle (1 Corinthians
15:50–58).
Our Bible is full and running over with
promises and encouragements directly
related to the return of our Lord Christ.
I just checked. It’s not just hinted at; it’s
highlighted. It’s an obvious theme of New

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Testament truth. You can’t read very far
without stumbling upon it, no matter
which book you choose. In the New Testament alone, the events related to Christ’s
coming are mentioned more than 300
times. His return is certain!

“How much time we spend
on things that need our
attention . . . but would
abruptly blur out of focus at
the sound of the trumpet!”
Critics have denied it. Cynics have
laughed at it. Scholars have ignored it.
Liberal theologians have explained it
away (they call that “rethinking” it), and
fanatics have caused many to shrug it off.
“Where is the promise of His coming?”
many cynics still shout (2 Peter 3:4). The
return of our Saviour will continue to be
attacked and ignored and denied. But
there it stands, solid as a stone, soon to be
fulfilled, offering us hope and encouragement amidst despair and unbelief.
“Okay, swell. But what do I do in the
meantime?” I can hear a lot of pragmatists asking that question. First, it’s best
for you to understand what you don’t do.
You don’t sit around, listening for some

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Pressure Points

Throughout Jesus’ earthly ministry

He spoke of going away and then returning (Matthew
16:27, 28). As His ministry concluded and as He was ascending into heaven two angels also said He would return
(Acts 1: 9-11). It is a scriptural truth we believe.
As I thought about this I wondered, “Why does Jesus have to return at all?” Couldn’t He just plan it so when people die they go to
heaven or hell and then, when the divine Timekeeper says time has
run out, it’s game over? Why do we need Him to return with all the
surrounding coming events anyway? Here are a few reasons I came
up with as to why Jesus needs to return:
Verification. His Word is true. Jesus has to return to fulfil the
Scripture that said He would. Fulfilled prophecy about His first
coming gives assurance of the truth and the fulfilment of His second coming. Therefore we have confidence to trust His Word for
our daily living now.
Glorification. Philippians 2:9-11 indicates that Christ went
through with the ordeal of the cross with a view to the exaltation
and glory that would follow (cf. Hebrews 12:2). He then returned
to heaven to be glorified and take up His place at the right hand of
the Father as Lord and Christ (John 7:39). The evidence of His glorification was the outpouring of the Holy Spirit at Pentecost. Peter
explained this as Jesus exalted to the right hand of God. Presently
Jesus is waiting for the Father’s set time to finally subjugate all His
enemies (Acts 2:33-36). Because He is Lord over all and has given
His Holy Spirit we can, through prayer, approach Him to help in our
times of need, and experience the Holy Spirit’s power over sin daily.
Revelation. Christ’s return and appearing is an unveiling, a revelation—pulling back the curtains so that all will see His glory. It is
at this great unveiling that the world, which presently does not see
Him as He is, will see Him as King of Kings and Lord of Lords. Believers see Jesus that way now through eyes of faith believing what
the Scripture says. Knowing who He truly is gives us confidence to
trust Him in tough times now.
Redemption. When man sinned God set a redemptive process
in place. The death of Christ was part of that process because His
shed blood paid the ransom price. We have redemption through His
blood (Ephesians 1:7). The final accomplishing of our redemption

will be when Jesus returns and our bodies are glorified and delivered from sin.
We will all be transformed at that point
and given a body like Christ’s (1 John 3:2).
Meanwhile, we are “waiting eagerly for
our adoption as sons, the redemption of
our body” (Romans 8:23).
Retribution. Because of sin, there is a lot
that is wrong in the universe. Jesus needs
to return to sort it all out. And not only to
sort it out and make things right, but be
seen to make it right. His justice demands
it. Exercising justice means giving everyone what they have coming. All of this He
will do visibly. Knowing one day Jesus will
sort things out means we don’t have to try
to take revenge or fret over injustice. He’s
coming to look after it.
Eradication. Christ won the war with sin
and the devil through His death and resurrection. Although defeated they have not
been removed. They still wreak havoc in
our lives and world. Christ needs to finish
the job; evil has not been finally crushed.
Only by returning can Jesus finish the
work He began on the cross. The cross
was the beginning of the end, but the final

triumph of Christ is yet to come. Knowing
His victory is total gives us confidence. We
battle now from the position of conquerors through Christ, not as victims.
Demonstration. From the time of creation God has chosen to play out redemption’s story on earth’s stage. This drama is
being acted out before a great host of angels who long to know how the story ends
(1 Peter 1:12). It is only fitting that the last
act also takes place on the earthly stage
before it is destroyed and a new heaven
and new earth take its place.
Jesus must return. And that’s a truth
that impacts us even here and now while
we wait. “Therefore, with minds that are
alert and fully sober, set your hope on the
grace to be brought to you when Jesus
Christ is revealed at his coming” (1 Peter
1:13 NIV).
Maranatha!1 “Come, Lord
Jesus!”
Steve Johnson is the
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1 Cor. 16:22 Maranatha is translated as “Come, Lord Jesus.”
It’s an appropriate saying for Christians looking ahead to
Christ’s return.

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“I don’t know what to

do with my life!”

How many times have you said or
heard this?
These words were cried in frustration
most memorably when I was moving
home, after several years away. While in
the midst of adventuring, discovering,
and exploring, I rarely thought about
what was next. But once it was over I
found I was unprepared to deal with the
choices in front of me.
Questions gnawed at my mind, making
me wonder if I had missed God’s plan for
my life. Did I get it wrong? Where was I
supposed to be? What was I meant to do?
Why didn’t anything make sense anymore?
In reality I wasn’t failing at life, I was at a
crossroads. Along the bumpy path of life’s
road we all inevitably encounter forks, and
deciding which direction to turn is a part
of life. But how do you decide which way
to go? Without knowing the big picture or
where the road will take you, how do you
know which direction is right?
Sometimes the choices and options
keep us up at night. And rightly so! Major
life decisions like where to go to school,
whether to marry, or what career path to
follow should be taken seriously. However, losing sleep and anxious thoughts will
only make things worse.

“Without knowing the big
picture or where the road
will take you, how do you know
which direction is right?”
As Christians, we believe this world
is temporary and Christ’s return is imminent. Our life choices, then, become
that much more important—we want to
live lives of meaning, yet know there’s

so much more to come. It can be difficult
to balance the here and now with what’s
to come but the good news is God has already given us the tools we need to make
wise decisions.
Here are some ways I’ve learned to
focus on what really matters when decisions threaten to keep me up at night:
1. Relax. Sometimes we get so focused on
“the plan” and fearful of missing out
on God’s best that we miss the point.
Instead of stressing over the plan, focus on developing your relationship
with Him. Trust that God will let you
know what to do in His time. “Though
the Lord gave you adversity for food
and suffering for drink, he will still
be with you to teach you. You will see
your teacher with your own eyes. Your
own ears will hear him. Right behind
you a voice will say, ‘This is the way you
should go,’ whether to the right or to
the left,” (Isaiah 30:20-21 NLT).
2. Remember. When a big decision is
looming it’s easy to become overwhelmed to the point of paralysis. To
break this cycle, remember God’s faithfulness to you in your life, and of His
unchanging trustworthiness throughout history. He will remain faithful
even if it’s difficult to see His hand in
your current situation. “He guards the
paths of the just and protects those
who are faithful to him. Then you will
understand what is right, just, and fair,
and you will find the right way to go,”
(Proverbs 2:8-9).
3. Rest. When we’re struggling, this is
no easy task. Give God your burden
and believe He will give you what you
need. Find His promises in the Bible
and choose to hope in them. “Trust in
the Lord with all your heart; do not depend on your own understanding. Seek

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his will in all you do, and he will show
you which path to take,” (Proverbs
3:4-6).
My story at this particular crossroad
has an interesting conclusion. At one
point I wrote down my interests, dreams,
and hopes. After listing everything I
could think of, I put them in order of importance. Then I glued them to a poster
board and started drawing circles and
lines to connect related topics. After a
while all I could see was a giant, sticky
mess and I cried in desperation, “Lord
you are the only one who can make
sense of this! I need you to take over!”
Three years later I look back and can
clearly see the Lord’s hand on my life,
although at the time it just seemed like
chaos. Step by step He has proven to be
faithful and has shown me, in His perfect timing, how my seemingly random
hopes and dreams connect in a way that
makes me uniquely capable of serving
Him in this time and place, with the
ever-present hope of what’s to come.
I don’t know much more than I did before, but now I’m confident I don’t have
to. My job is to use this time on earth to
live in relationship with my God, and to
trust He will continue to lead and guide
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I believe with
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eyes inclined towards
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We should yearn to see Him and be confident of
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After all . . .
we don’t have a lot of time left.
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Copyright 2011 by Charles R. Swindoll Inc. All rights are reserved worldwide.
Adapted from “Grace-less” in the Insights short feature series.
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all the places in all the world,
when God chose to establish
His kingdom on earth, He
chose a thin sliver of land hugging the deep
blue waters of the Mediterranean. In that
ancient land of Israel, God sent His Son.
When Jesus began His earthly ministry,
He preached a simple but profound message: “The kingdom of God is at hand;
repent” (Mark 1:15). Jesus offered what
the Jews had long sought: a King. And He
prescribed an ethic that citizens of God’s
kingdom must follow.
Jesus’ statement that “the kingdom of
God is at hand” was a legitimate and immediate offer. God’s kingdom was near at
hand. So near, in fact, that the people Jesus encountered daily could have reached
out and touched their King. All they had
to do in order for the kingdom to be established was accept Jesus as their Messiah,
their Deliverer, and King.
But they rejected and crucified Him. As
a result of the people’s hard hearts, God
postponed the establishment of His kingdom on earth until Christ comes again,
just as Jesus promised: “When the Son of
Man comes in His glory, and all the angels
with Him, then He will sit on His glorious
throne” in Jerusalem”(Matthew 25:31).
While we wait for Christ to return and
establish His kingdom on earth, the message He preached continues and is available for all men and women—in Israel,
in Iraq, in Lebanon, in Iran, and in every
corner of the globe. It is the message of repentance, of turning to Christ in faith for

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the forgiveness of sin. When we do this we
become citizens of God’s kingdom and can
no longer think and act as we did when we
were citizens of the world. Now we represent God’s kingdom as ambassadors in a
foreign land, adopting what we might call
a “kingdom mentality.”
I recently had the honour of preaching about the kingdom of God in the
war-scarred land of Iraq. My purpose
was to help the audience understand
that citizenship in God’s kingdom is not
just a theological idea for the future but
has practical application for life today.
For example, I preached a message on
marriage, divorce, and remarriage from
Matthew 19:3-12. A kingdom mentality
recognizes that Jesus’ demands for marriage are high and holy and that marriage
is the relationship of one man to one
woman for a lifetime. And divorce? God
allowed it because of hard-heartedness
and unwillingness to repent, but it was
permitted only as an absolute last resort.
A kingdom mentality recognizes that,
as citizens of God’s kingdom, Christians
choose to view life differently from the
rest of the culture.
Jesus’ offer of the kingdom 2,000 years
ago required a change of mind—it required repentance. The Lord still requires
minds to change today. When we repent
and begin to live with a kingdom mentality, we become living messages in the
present that the future glorious kingdom
of God is available to all who accept Jesus
as Saviour.
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unquenchable

hope

by Charles R. Swindoll

O

ne of the first weddings I performed as a young pastor had all
the promise you could hope for
in a marriage. Both in their mid-twenties,
both believers, he was a medical student,
she was a nurse. It should have been a
model marriage filled with peace and joy.
Struggles would come, of course, but an
enduring hope would get them through
the dark days.
Yet when I saw the bride about eight
years later she looked 20 years older. She
described a spiralling tragedy of drugs,
adultery, bitterness, and separation. Long
gone were the original peace and joy. And
that weary soul had lost the one thing that
could have snatched her marriage from
the lowest levels of matrimonial misery:
she had lost hope.
How about you? How would you rate
your own level of joy in the Christian life?
Have you become depressed? Has that
original fire for knowing Christ cooled to
a simmering indifference? Have the tribulations of daily life rendered you hopeless? Pastors today constantly counsel
believers struggling with depression, broken marriages, anxiety, anger, and weak
self-control. They can’t help but wonder,
“Where’s that abundant life Christ promised in John 10:10?”

Unquestionable Hope
In Romans 5:1-11, Paul takes us from the
marriage altar of our Christian faith to a
new relationship with Jesus Christ—a relationship of peace, joy, and hope. This passage reveals how lasting joy in the Christian life can be achieved even in the midst
of trials and struggles. Look at it with me.
“Therefore, having been justified by faith,

we have peace with God through our Lord
Jesus Christ, through whom also we have
obtained our introduction by faith into this
grace in which we stand.” (Romans 5:1)
The justification Paul describes is that
moment when you placed your faith in
Christ alone to forgive your sins and give
you new life (Romans 5:5-11). For me that
happened back in the 1940s. For some of
you it may have been the 60s . . . or 80s . . .
perhaps even more recently. If you’re a believer, at that moment you said, “I do” to
Jesus Christ you became His bride, a member of His family, the Church, committed to
Him forever. In this same paragraph Paul
also describes the present effects of this
past event: we have peace (5:1), we presently stand in grace (5:2), and we exult in hope.

How can we have an
unquenchable hope that
withstands even the worst
onslaughts of despair?
When someone says the word hope
people usually think about the future—
“I hope things get better” . . . “I hope I get
that new job” . . . “I hope I don’t get sick.”
Most of the time these hopes are no more
than wishes based on personal desires.
Such hopes can be easily shattered when
reality barges in like a raging bull. Trials
land on us. Disappointments linger. And
inevitably joy languishes.
But in Romans 5, Paul urges believers
not only to look back on their past justification but also to look forward, beyond
their immediate hardships and letdowns.
He writes, “Much more then, having now
been justified by His blood, we shall be
saved from the wrath of God through
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Him” (5:9). Don’t miss the tense: “We
shall.” That’s future. That’s hope. And
because we know we’ll spend eternity in
Heaven, we can face any earthly hardship—even death itself (8:35-39). That is
our unquestionable hope!
Are you experiencing that kind of hope
today? If not, why not?

Unquenchable Hope
How can we have an unquenchable hope
that withstands even the worst onslaughts
of despair? We rejoice our way through
them! Paul points out three levels of rejoicing: we rejoice in hope of the glory of God
(Romans 5:2), we rejoice in our tribulations
(5:3), and we rejoice in God (5:11). Notice that
we don’t rejoice because of tribulations. We
rejoice in the midst of them. We rejoice in
spite of them because we know “that tribulation brings about perseverance; and perseverance, proven character; and proven
character, hope; and hope does not disappoint” (5:5). Think of it this way: you’re
God’s personal project of character growth.
That means you can rejoice even more because God never gives up on His project

(Philippians 1:6). He always has His eye on
you, cultivating your character through
tribulations.
Are you feeling like the Spirit’s fruit has
withered up under the excruciating heat of
trials? Paul’s answer is clear: when tribulations come, we must remember that these
trials are a means toward a magnificent
end. If I’m told that the road to my glorious
destination is marred by loose rocks and
potholes, every jolt along the way reminds
me that I’m on the right road. But I must
never forget that God accompanies me on
the journey. His reputation as our loving
Father is at stake. We don’t always know
where we’re going, but He does.
With your past justification as your
footing and your future hope as your
fuel, you can take the present journey
through trials and tribulations without
losing your joy and peace. Yes, that’s possible! Your hope leads to perseverance,
which builds character, which leads to
greater hope (Romans 5:4). And that’s
not just wishful thinking.
That’s unquenchable hope.
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The following quiz is intended solely for the amusement of mature married couples. Keep in mind that quiz results should not be brought up during petty
arguments or in front of the children. Please answer the questions honestly, bearing in mind that while it is impossible to fail this test, your answers may determine
whether or not you spend the night on the couch.
1. When you are wrong, you will admit it
to your partner:
a. Within seconds
b. Just as soon as cows produce root beer
c. Usually before sunset
2. On your most recent vacation, you:
a. Strolled sun-soaked beaches barefoot,
basking in the glow of each other’s eyes
b. Left messages on each other’s answering machines
c. Had to come home for a rest
3. Complete this sentence: I believe the
Children of Israel wandered in the wilderness for 40 years because:
a. God was testing their marriages
b. Moses wanted them to really appreciate
the Promised Land once they got there
c. Moses refused to ask his wife for directions
4. When you’re watching TV together,
who controls the remote?
a. We do not watch television; we go for
walks and talk about our feelings
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b. I do
c. Whoever gets there first
5. The food which best sums up your
spouse’s kiss is:
a. Jumpin’ jalapeno hot wings
b. Airline omelette
c. Hot apple pie
6. The movie title, which best sums up
our lovemaking is:
a. Some Like It Hot
b. Gone With The Wind
c. As Good As It Gets
7. (For men only:) You are on your
knees giving thanks for the new purchase, a late model minivan, complete
with DVD player when your frenzied
wife calls from Biff’s Auto Repair saying she has totalled the van. You:
a. Ask if she’s OK
b. Total the telephone
c. Ask if she’s OK…and if the DVD
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8. (For women only) After a particularly tough day, your husband has crashed
in front of the TV. You decide to:
a. Stand beside the TV set and try on
lingerie
b. Sneak into the bedroom and put
fiberglass insulation in his pyjamas
c. Pour two tall ginger ales and crash
with him
9. Your definition of communication is:
a. I am attentive to my partner’s communication needs. I listen well and
share openly my thoughts, aspirations,
and feelings
b. Nintendo
c. Sorry, I was distracted. Could you
repeat the question?

10. (For men only) Sunday morning has
arrived, but your wife has not. She is
still moving about the house checking
on appliances—despite the fact that you
are once again late for church. While
waiting in the car with the children, you
decide to:
a. Return to the house and ask, “Is there
anything I can do to help you, dear? I
know I traumatized you this morning by
bringing breakfast in bed a little late. I
certainly do apologize”
b. Leave without her
c. Help the kids with their memory verses and somehow resist the urge to honk
11. It’s 12:30 a.m. and neither of you
can sleep. Your spouse says, “Honey,
I’m hungry, would you get me a slice of
cheese?” You say:
a. “Is that all, Sweetheart? How about a
salad with croutons?”
b. “Zzzzzzzzzzzzz”
c. “How thick shall I slice it?”

How to score: If you answered “A” more than six times, thanks for taking
this quiz on your honeymoon. If you found yourself gravitating to the “B” responses, please take an Aspirin and read the rest of this publication three times.
Also…find a soft pillow. It’s time to sleep on the couch. If you chose “C” five or
more times, you’ve got a good thing going. Sounds like some flexibility, lots of
laughter, and a servant heart are keeping your marriage fresh.
Phil is a popular speaker and author. Visit him at philcallaway.com

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paws and tales launch
Get ready for a brand new
look to Paws & Tales DVDs!

This month we have two Paws & Tales animated
DVD releases.
The first, God Cares for You, is a re-release of the episodes The Good
Shepherd and A Good Foundation. And the price is only $5! If you already own these episodes, be a Paws & Tales ambassador by purchasing copies for your friends and neighbours.
The second release, Overcoming Fears, includes new episodes High
Noon and If The Tooth Be Known.
Each DVD includes two episodes, Spanish tracks, parent resources,
colouring pages, and more!

Paws & Tales DVDs communicate biblical truth and show kids
how they can apply it to real life. Visit pawsandtales.ca for
ordering information.

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Hopeful Living
by Ben Lowell

A

re you threatened or are you hopeful when I
say the words, “Jesus is coming back?” Let’s
be honest. Sometimes it depends upon the
messenger, but how should we receive these words?
What’s one of the things you enjoy most? Biking? Hiking? Visiting good friends or family during the holiday
season? Travelling? Watching the Stanley Cup, Superbowl or
even the Ashes? One thing I’ve noticed is anticipation can be
as exhilarating as the event itself.
We have a tendency to live with a different demeanour when
we’re expectant. There’s a quickening in our step, we more
readily overlook minor inconveniences, we communicate with
a more positive tone. Why? Anticipation. There’s something
wonderful just around the corner.
I think this is the spirit of hope that is unique to the child
of God, anticipation of what is to come. Our hope in Christ’s
return is not a sense of “wouldn’t it be great if…”, but rather
“let’s live knowing the certainty of His return.” We live with
a greater resolve. After all the word defeat has been struck
from our vocabulary. Chuck Swindoll, in one of his messages on 1 Peter, expresses our hope this way:
“Hope is not a sedative, it is a shot of adrenalin, a blood transfusion. Like an anchor our
hope in Christ stabilizes us in the storms of
life, but unlike an anchor it does not hold us
back.”
So how do you live in anticipation of
Jesus’ return? Does this hope energize you? Are you
living in the here and now expectant of what is to come? Does
it show? Do others see the evidence of a supernatural hope in the way you live? Are you
able to rise above the waves of a storm knowing the certainty of your tomorrow?
Followers of Christ are to stand out as being different. Though we face the same challenges of living in a lost world, we have the steadfast hope that He is in ultimate control, sees the beginning and the end, and knows the day of His return. And we will be
the great beneficiaries.
“Therefore, prepare you minds for action; be self-controlled; set your
hope fully on grace to be given you when Christ is revealed.” 1 Peter 1:13 NIV
Just a thought…
Ben Lowell is the executive director of IFLC

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