I knew I loved being a doula. I knew I was part of something good. But I didn't know this:

I entered a ballroom full of round tables with white and gray tablecloths. People were filtering in from all over the country and world. The farthest traveler was from Taiwan. I see one familiar face. Then another. Then another.

I realize that the room is full of people I know, but have never met.

Penny Simkin is sitting at a table with Phyllis Klaus (the former is the mother of my profession, the latter literally wrote The Doula Book). If you are into this field, you might understand why I peed a little. Michael Klein, Jesse Remer, Neel Shah. All people I knew on sight. All people whose lives and works are familiar to me. I met and conversed with most of these people and you know what I found out?

The people who are changing the face of maternity care as we know it are humble, thoughtful, genuine, loving, listening, collaborating, forward-thinking individuals.

And most of them are doulas.

Over the course of the day, I learned from the greats. Here are a few highlights:

The U.S. ranks 61st globally in maternal health, worse than any developed country in the world.

The largest determinant of c-section likelihood is the hospital one chooses.

The U.S. ranks 57th in infant mortality worldwide (meaning 56 countries are better than us at keeping babies alive. P.s. There are only 34 countries recognized by the CIA as "developed").

The U.S. ranks 48th in maternal mortality. That means a mother is more likely to survive childbirth and associated complications in Singapore, Israel, Iran, and 44 other countries.