5 Ways To Use Porn For Better (And HOTTER!) Sex

In the last few years, many countries have sought to limit or make porn illegal, including Canada.

Sometimes these laws have good intentions, including further limiting child pornography, which is never consensual and never OK.

However, they often go further by seeking to limit violent and aggressive pornography, but with an extremely wide definition of "violent", so that a film featuring consensual spanking may become illegal in some jurisdictions.

Watching a hot and sexy movie together can raise the sexual energy between you. You can be voyeurs together.

2. Send your lover some pornography (book, movie or free erotica online) in order to introduce him to something new that you would like to do together.

If you find it hard to raise the subject of something new, this is a way to do it softly. If hardcore pornography feels like too big a step, have a look at my eBook 74 Smokin’ Hot Movies that are not X rated.

If your sex life together has become very routine, pornography can help to spark ideas and bring you out of that rut.

I am primarily auditory and kinesthetic so I find reading sex filled stories will start my imagination roaming and my juices flowing faster than watching movies but everyone is different.

Hearing my lover read a spicy story can spark an orgasm and a new interest at the same time.

If you have concerns about whether people who are acting in the films you are watching are being exploited, try watching ethical pornography (yes this is a real thing).

Much of this is produced by women. Actors involved are there because they want to be. They have regular health checks, engage in safe sex and are paid a living wage.

Not all porn is bad and, if used correctly, it can make your sex really, REALLY good.

Dr. Lori Beth is a sex/intimacy coach and psychologist who helps individuals, couples and polyamorous groups create their ideal lasting relationship(s).She works with people who are having sexual difficulties to help them resolve these and create satisfying authentic sexual lives. You can sign up for her newsletter and find out more about her adventures on her website and check out The A to Z of SexÒ podcast on iTunes. Write to her with your questions by clicking here.