Archive for the ‘Friendship’ Category

Last week I am really busy having a lot of things to do and places to go. A busy 5 days, 8-5pm schedule in the office, and weekends for parties.

On Friday, I am to meet my brother as i need to get something from him. After that me and my sweetie go to SM Megamall to buy my new phone (yey!!!) and then go home.

On Saturday, me along with my former officemates will have our “Christmas Party”. It was scheduled overnight (I’ll post our pictures next time). I met my friends in MRT-Ayala Station and we go to Glorietta and i brought a gift for my former officemate’s son who will be having his birthday party on the next day, Sunday. After we brought the gift we go to our meeting place to meet the others. I never thought that there will be a lot of us present in the so called Christmas Party or just a get together (hehehe). It is fun even there are people who “argued” but still at the end of it fun moves on top. It is great to be with them AGAIN as I really do miss the things that we do together before.

On Sunday, i go home after the overnight “Christmas Party”. At home, i wrapped the gift that i brought the other day for the birthday gift that I will attend in the afternoon and slept for about two hours before getting ready for the birthday party. On the birthday party, I saw a lot of old faces that i really miss. My “tropa” when I’m still in my former company.

This week will be another hectic, busy days. We are scheduled to have Company Christmas party on the 15th and me and my sweetie planned to go to my Mama’s house in Bulacan on the 16th.

It’s been a while since my last post in here. I’ve been busy with a lot of things; work, problems, friends, and special occasion.

The special occasion i am saying is not really for me, i’m just part of it. I am actually glad to be part of it. The special occasion was my friend’s wedding.

At the start of it all she asked us to see her personally as she have something to say but because of some reasons we can’t make it as a whole. I’ve already discuss this with my previous post entitled Missing my Best Friends. For that reason we had constant communication again and that we regain the warm friendship(though i know it never leaves us) and it is like we are back to college where we first met and started our friendship.

In this particular happening made our friendship more sturdy and we know that this will last forever. We make it a point that we will do our best for our friend to be happy on that day though we didn’t gave her such gifts we know that being present for her special day will always be the best gift that we can give.

The night before the wedding, we slept at their house and so we will go to the church together. Seeing her walking down the aisle, memories field my mind. Our college days when she’s still our “baby” and now that she’s starting a new journey, a new chapter with her husband and future babies. It is unlikely that we, her friends cries during that time. We didn’t expect that her parents will not show tears as she’s also the baby of their family instead we saw the love, the respect, the understanding, the happiness, and the acceptance that the baby of the family is getting married and it is the time where she have to go on her own with the new chapter that already started. And i know that her parents know that she will always be there for them even though she already have her own family.

At the reception where the newly weds and their parents were asked to say message or promise with each other, we again started crying (don’t be surprise as our tears are really that shallow..hehe). The father of the groom was serious, his mother is a little emotional, the father of the groom made a comic message when he say that “now i know, she’s my most beautiful and special child as her siblings get married on their early 30s while she marries at 20s.”, and her mom is also emotional and we are touched when she say to the groom “take care of her, she’s my baby”. We are touched and teary eyed when we heard that as we also feel the same way though we know that it is on a different degree, as she is also our baby.

Their wedding day is one special day as we again see each other. I missed all of them. Even though we text and in constant communication, it is still different when you see each other everyday. I miss those days when we are in college, when we hang out, talked a lot of things, have fun, and make memories of our friendship. I still feel the love and care through them. I missed our boy friends as I’ve been really closed to them. Some of my friends say that i am ONE of the boys; yes I do (hehe). I am a little boyish when i’m still young but i guess until now. I am really glad to see them again and before we separate our ways they actually lift me just the way they did before, it is like going back to the past when we’re in college and having some fun.

To my newly wed friends, Congratulations, always be happy and take care of each other. Always keep in mind that we are always be here for you guys. To all my friends, hope to see you all soon. I miss you a lot and I hope that we can still do those things that we do back in college.

We’re always together during our college days. We do a lot of things together. We hang out. We watched movies. We eat together and have some fun together. And i just miss all of those things a lot.

After graduation, we have to go on with our different paths of life. We actually wanted to be on one company and work together but somehow we knew that it was impossible. We got a lot of plans after graduation. We want to live in one house. Have business together and many others. This month of July we’ve seen each other once a week after a long time it is just now that our schedules meet and so we agreed to have some gimmicks together.

July 3, Gerry’s Grill: We agreed to meet at around 0530 to 0600 in the afternoon at McDonalds Glorietta. We meet for a certain reason that i guess isn’t appropriate to post in here. Anyway, after some time staying in McDonalds we go straight ahead to Giligans of which we actually wanted to eat but unfortunately there’s a lot of people in there and so we decided to move to Gerry’s Grill and wait for our other friends. We ordered our dinner and while it isn’t there me and my boyfriend now (of which with us that time) go back to Glorietta to buy a cake at Goldilocks for my father’s birthday. As we goes back to Gerry’s Grill and awaits for our order we take pictures and talked a lot of things. We stayed there until around ten in the evening and we actually don’t want to go home yet by that time but unfortunately we do have work the next day and we should get up early. So even if we don’t want to call it a day, we have to. We just say that there will surely be a next time. Oh i forgot to tell that only one of us spends her money with the dinner. Thanks to her we’ve ate our dinner that day for FREE (hahaha).

July 10, KFC: We meet up for the same reason that i will not divulge in here. If i am with my special someone last gimmick, this time my other friend brings his boyfriend along with her and so we can meet him. Well, knowing me surely you know what i did (hahaha). Well, i just did the same as what my friends did with my sweetie, i make fun of him but not much actually as that time i am actually having fun with her girlfriend for which he thought we’re actually arguing and that he’s afraid that i will get angry with what his girlfriend was saying but then he was wrong as we only take all of it as a joke and we don’t take it personally, for us its just normal with friends like us who already know how to handle each others moods and attitudes. This time other goes home earlier and only three of us were left. We stayed at Glorietta and a friend of mine wants to buy shoes and so we accompany her and then go home. I don’t actually go home as i wanted to go to Ortigas to see my boyfriend and my friends there in my previous work.

July 16, Giligans: Just this Monday, again we see each other. I told them that i can’t as i am really sleepy but then there will be no other day that we can meet this week as some of us have different schedules with others this time. There are four of us, all girls and there we talked girlie stuffs while drinking but we don’t let ourselves get drunk, you know we know our limitations (can’t you believe that, we know it…hahaha). Things that we can’t talk just through text nor chat. And i am glad that even after almost one year of straight without seeing each other after graduation i can see that we’re still the same group/barkada that we are before. I know that there are a lot of changes in our lives but then we still do accept each other as what we are. We planned a lot of things before that now after talking with other comes out again. We want to fulfill all of it but we’ll definitely plan it carefully.

We may not see each other often and we may not see each other together with our other friends still it is just like before. The bond. The friendship. We might change a bit with ourselves still i know we will know each other and accept each other just like before.

We might have different paths, way, or journey that’s traveling on still i know there will always be a place that we will meet up. That even if we’re having our own lives still there will be a part of it that our friendship will take place. And that every memory we have from the first day that we meet will not be gone and will always be with us forever.