Bummer. I am not a top rated seller, so I guess I cannot help you. And your request that only “others” assist you is extraordinarily non-specific. Why do you feel the need to demand that only certain kinds of people are allowed to help you? Could it be that you are expecting those top rated sellers will, by helping you, instantly make you fabulously successful just like they are?

Unfortunately, it doesn’t work that way.

YOU are responsible for your own success. You can ask for ideas on how to improve your gig, but I can assure you that that advice will not make you successful. YOU still need to take action to improve your gig.

Don’t make demands. Let anyone help you, and then take that advice, and figure out how to make it work for you. No one else is going to make you successful. That’s just not how this works.