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She said: “In an ideal world that’s exactly what I would have with my husband [a polyamorous relationship].

“I’m not the kind of person to be with just one person. I miss having multiple partners.

“Some people are naturally polyamorous and I didn’t realise I was until I was too late.”

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Kitty insists she would never have an affair with someone extremely younger than her. Or someone who’s old enough to be her dad.

So has she told her husband she’s having an affair?

She added: “Currently he doesn’t suspect a thing and I hope it remains that way.

“He has no reason to suspect anything because he’s okay with how things are – we do our own thing.

“He assumes I’m going out with friends all the time and he doesn’t think to join because he’s not that social.”