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Dear, dear family, I came across this beautiful example of loving one another and sharing life’s meaning recently. Please, pass it on to your own friends. The message is simply – – we need one another. Jesus said, when answering the question what is the greatest commandment, “Love God and Love one another”. (Matthew 22:37-40) There is no better way to fulfill the basic human need for love than to just do it!

A young wife sat on a sofa on a hot humid day, drinking iced tea and and visiting with her mother. As they talked about life, about marriage, about the responsibilities of life and the obligations of adulthood, the mother clinked the ice cubes in her glass thoughtfully and turned a clear, sober glance upon her daughter..

“Don’t forget your sisters,” she advised, swirling the tea leaves to the bottom of her glass. “They’ll be more important as you get older. No matter how much you love your husband, no matter how much you love the children you may have, you are still going to need sisters. Remember to go places with them now and then; do things with them.”

The young woman thought this was a funny piece of advice. Haven’t I just gotten married? Haven’t just joined the couple-world? I’m now a married woman! A grown-up! Surely my husband and the family we may start will be all I need to make my life worthwhile!

But she listened to her mother. She kept contact with her sisters and made more women friends each year. As the years tumbled by, one after another, she gradually came to understand that her mother really knew what she was talking about. As time and nature work their changes and their mysteries upon a woman, sisters are the mainstays of her life.

After more than 50 years of living in this world this list says it all:

Time passes.

Life happens.

Distance separates.

Children grow up.

Jobs come and go.

Love changes.

People don’t do what they’re supposed to do.

Hearts break.

Parents die.

Colleagues forget favors.

Careers end.

BUT……..Sisters are there, no matter how much time and how many miles are between you, a girl friend is never farther than needing her can reach. When you have to walk that lonesome valley and you have to walk it by yourself, the women in your life will be on the valley’s rim, cheering you on, praying for you, pulling for you, intervening on your behalf, and waiting with open arms at the valley’s end. Sometimes, they will even break the rules and walk beside you…Or come in and carry you out.

The world wouldn’t be the same without women, and neither would I… When we began this adventure called womanhood, we had no idea of the incredible joys or sorrows that lay ahead. Nor did we know how much we would need each other.

Heavenly Father, You created us to need one another. You knew there would be a special bond between us. LORD, let us understand and know what You would have Your Sisters do and be. Let us share Your Agape (the kind of love that puts the other first) love with all. Make it so!

I remember ready a similar story somewhere and have learned that I do lean on my sisters. As an only child…my sisters are like family to me. I’m so grateful for God’s blessing of these special women in my life. Thanks for sharing!!