Just found out Seth Gibbs aka Brother Machine recently died of cancer. He was one of the early greats of Song Fight and was such an amazingly talented musician. I hardly knew him but I loved his music and now I wish I’d actually gotten to know him, a regret that can never be undone.

I also had no idea he was younger than me by three years. Cancer is a fuck.

please; i beseech you well meaning cis people. when trans folk of any flavor bitch about shaving - do NOT repeat the positivity mantra that its ok to have body hair, that hairy women are valid, etc etc. I know all that gdi

Even if every girl and lesbian on earth LOVED the level of hair on my tits - i am not ok with a gd bit of it and im gonna shave it - and its a pain so im gonna bitch about it. give me a solidarity fist bump, a pity kiss or a gentle fuck but please do not throw that feminism 101 stuff at me. I know intellectually that my problems with body hair are rooted in beauty standards - my dysphoria is not intellectual.