YOUR VOTE

Not sure what to do

I have been dating this guy for almost three months. I have accidently called him the wrong name twice. The first time he called me on it. I said I was sorry. I really am. Felt horrible about it. The second time he got off the phone with me and will now only text. But not like he used to. He is short with answers or just doesn't respond. What do I do now? I miss him and am really sorry.

ANSWERS

Well the first thing you should do is get his name right :) Then, just give him alittle time, he'll come around. You've only known each other for a short time, sometimes certain names just don't roll off your tongue. It's also good to have a nickname for them or honey, sweetie, baby is good too.

Yes, of course you‘re sorry. Can you forgive yourself? You miss him, or is it the opportunity to express directly your own beautiful capacity for love that you miss so much?

We are all more than our name. Our name is only a label for the Real person. What is it you see of his soul that is so unique and special, not just any other guy by whatever name? Can you tell him very specifically what you value and love about him that makes him unique and different from all others? Can you speak of it in perfect honesty, directly from your loving soul?

We fall in love with everyone whose soul we see clearly. It is always such a beautiful creation of Source. That doesn’t mean that they are ‘the one for us.’

If we can’t forgive ourselves we are unable to forgive others. If in the long run he isn’t able to forgive you and you have been otherwise honest in expressing your love, he may not be the ‘one for you.’