Seriously, what's the deal with people that say they will do something and then they don't, and won't even take 5 seconds to text you? Shit happens, but not sending a text is lack of respect and will, not lack of time.

A girl once stood me up twice and then had the gall to get angry at me for holding her to it.

The first time was at a restaurant, where she was 45 minutes late before texting me that her roommate was puking blood and needed to go to the hospital. The next time I planned a night in, and again she lets me know after the scheduled time that she has to help someone move.

Haha nope! Sincere apologies to the next person who has to deal with that, but I sure ain't.

This is a HUGE one for me. Relationship logistics need to be clean and easy. If I have to fight tooth claw and nail just to get you to be at a place at a time then it's going to be a long, difficult journey.

Bro, are you me? This recently just happened to me. I was talking to this girl for about 2 weeks before we decided to meet up. Met up. Had a great dinner, went for tea afterwards, dropped her off home. She was like we should keep driving, I was like okay. Drove for about 25 minutes, had a great conversation. Finally dropped her off, she initiates the makeout session in my car. She said she had a great time and that I should text her when I got home, which I did. She tells me she wants to see me again soon.

Made plans multiple times after that, she always cancelled / never replied.

We made plans to go out one Saturday night. I texted her at 4PM and she said we would meet up at 7PM. I text her at 6:15 saying I'm about to head out and she says to wait because she went to her friend's house (we were all going to meet up). Says to wait until 8:30 as they got ready. 8 rolls around, I text her, she says her friends are drunk and we should plan for 10. I planned on staying out late so I said "OK". But this time I waited for her to message me, and sure enough she texts me at 9:45PM saying "I hope you haven't left yet, my friends are really drunk so I don't think we're gonna go out". I asked if she wanted me to come pick her up and we can just go out together. She declined. I thanked her for wasting my night.

I've definitely feel this. This same girl was like, I'm busy this weekend, but lets do movies on Monday if not, Tuesday. I was like cool, I can do any of those days. Monday comes, texted her, no response. Cool, tuesday it is then. Tuesday comes, texted her early during the day. She responds on Friday.

In the same boat right now myself. Talks go so well and then the time comes and she cancels. I stopped trying/talking to her. And then she suckered me in because she said she has been going through some really hard stuff and I understood so we made plans for the following day. Guess what happened? Yeah. My way of dealing with that is deleting off social media and just moving on with my life. Hope she's well tho!

Bro this happened to me, except I did try a third time. And we hung out and it was pretty fun. She said she doesn’t fuck on the first date, but invited me to stay the night. We didn’t fuck. Next day she said she “kind of liked me a lot.” Not even 3 days later she was acting very disinterested and hit me with the “it’s not you, it’s me” when I tried to start planning another date. Niceeeee