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So...a man has no say...no rights...in whether or not he wants his child to live. If a man has no right in the decision of life or death for his child, why is a man obligated to pay for a child he doesn't want? The woman aborts, he has no say. The woman keeps, he has to pay.

Everything else aside, it's ultimately her choice. It gets said around here all the time, but her choice - her body. It's a true statement.

Until a man can launch a baby out of his penis like a marshmellow shooter, he really has no say when it all boils down to it. He consented to the child when he stuck his penis in the woman's vagina. He knew the consequences that could happen.

Yup a man has no rights to children until and if they are born. And then if he doesn't want the child he has to pay child support for the next 18 years of the child's life (which I agree with about the child support part-because I believe you shouldn't have unprotected sex if you don't want a child-this goes for men and women) but since there's no way to stop people from having sex short of a chastity belt... I don't see why it's so hard to use various forms of protection if you don't want kids or just keep it zipped up and don't have sex at all.

Everything else aside, it's ultimately her choice. It gets said around here all the time, but her choice - her body. It's a true statement.

Until a man can launch a baby out of his penis like a marshmellow shooter, he really has no say when it all boils down to it. He consented to the child when he stuck his penis in the woman's vagina. He knew the consequences that could happen.

If every guy who didn't want to pay CS could say that he never wanted the baby to live could get out of it that easily there would be many, many, many more destitute single mothers.

I think we have to remember that the default option for a pregnancy is to continue with it. Abortion is the exception, not the rule. You can't just order someone to abort becuase you don't want to assume your obligations.

Everything else aside, it's ultimately her choice. It gets said around here all the time, but her choice - her body. It's a true statement.

Until a man can launch a baby out of his penis like a marshmellow shooter, he really has no say when it all boils down to it. He consented to the child when he stuck his penis in the woman's vagina. He knew the consequences that could happen.

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