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Dami Olonisakin spends a huge among of time on the internet. She says: 'It's essentially where I live'

"A lot of women don't particularly have anyone to speak to," says Dami Olonisakin, known by many as Oloni.

"I know what it feels like not being able to have someone to tell a secret to, so I created my blog and Twitter page to help this."

Oloni, one of eight Girls' Champions in the BBC's 100 Women season, began her sex and relationships blog, Simply Oloni, in 2008.

It began as a personal lifestyle blog and she wanted to be the person that someone could speak to without being - or feeling - judged.

She aims to give out impartial advice - something she believes can be more valuable than the opinion of a friend or a relative, who could be too emotionally involved.

But she also invites others on social media to have a say.

"The identity of the person who sends me their dilemmas is kept completely confidential," says Oloni, who is based in London.

"I then post the dilemmas on Twitter for my 26,000 followers to also share their advice and tips on the dilemma."

'Shocked'

Oloni's followers share a range of experiences, from bad one-night stands to humorous stories, as well as seeking advice on a relationships or sex dilemma.

But not all of the topics Oloni discusses online go down well with the people reading.

"Not everyone has accepted that women are allowed to talk about sex freely, and we are allowed to embrace our sexuality; whether it's choosing to keep your virginity until you're married, or wanting to have casual sex, or wanting to be friends with benefits," she says.

"Your sex life is not a decision for other people to dictate."

She says the first time she was trolled she was "shocked" but she has gradually become used to it over time.

"I've had trolls online telling me I'm 'disgusting' for suggesting that girls dating more than one man [at a time] is fine," she says.

Who are the Girls' Champions?

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Eight young agitators and commentators have been speaking to the BBC's 100 Women season on issues affecting young women.

BBC 100 Women names 100 influential and inspirational women around the world every year. We create documentaries, features and interviews about their lives, giving more space for stories that put women at the centre.