Breakups & Divorce Support Group

Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.

It's gonna be a hard weekend..

Every summer for the past 10 years, my girls have gone to visit their father for the summer (he lives 900 miles away). And each time they've had to go, I begin to turn into a basket case about a week before hand.

Two years ago, I had a falling out with my oldest daughter and she moved in with her dad for good. It was a mess and everyone went to court and it turned out really bad for me. It was a very rough year.

So now it's just my youngest daughter that I have to send off this summer. This year is especially hard because of my separation from my 2nd husband in March and the subsequent divorce that's looming. She leaves this weekend and when she's gone, I'll be completely alone. Even my best friend is moving in a couple of weeks to Texas. It's really depressing.

I'm really stressing over it the last few days. I haven't been sleeping. I'm having headaches. My stomach is in knots. I don't know what I'm gonna do.

I know what you are thinking I am from Cda and we had a long week last weekend. I have friggin nothing to do.

I bought roller blades and went blading..trying not to kill myself. I did my nails, I went out every day for gourmet coffee and read the paper for hours there. I dressed up and strolled the mall for eye candy. I did my laundry, washed my floors and even did my ironing..- I hate ironing...

You need to find things to do, ask people here to help compile a lsit of 200 things to do to keep you busy. Believe me , stroking things off the list was the best therapy and keep me sane.. last weekend. I will be thinking of you.. hang in there.

Getting up and out of the house, I think, is key. Being there alone will only make things worse for you - go take a walk, see a funny movie, buy a new pair of shoes (shoes ALWAYS help). Keep checking back in here for support as you need it...you aren't alone. Just remember that.

Maybe I'm going to be off base since I'm a guy providing advice to a woman - but what my wife does now when I take the kids somewhere is she gets together with her friends (I know you said your best friend is moving to Texas). From what I've seen her friends have been her best support network. So my advice is to find friends that you can talk to, spend time with. It's important not to be alone. Another thing is to get a hobby - my wife is taking up sailing and that occupies her time - again something to do and to allow yourself not to be alone. I hope this helps - believe me I can understand the pain that being along brings with it.

Baybrat, try to think of things you would like to do but normally refrain because of your daughter or your STBX. Spend some time with your best friend before she leaves.
Go to a movie - I go by myself all the time. Paint. Go to an art museum. I know this is going to be a hard summer but if you keep yourself busy it will go by faster. Hang in there. We're alway here for you.

There is always work around the house. Can you paint a room, make some curtains, do over your daughters room as a surprise? How about taking a cooking or baking class or beading. Maybe a 2nd job just for the summer and spend all the money on yourself. Are you still going to Divorce Care? How is that going? I know this summer i need to learn how to use some power tools. How about volunteering do they have a habitat for humanity in your area? I know it is hard to choose to do anything when you are anxious and down. Please talk to us during this time maybe some other good ideas will come up.

Go volunteer at a senior center or day care. Spend as much time with your best friend as you can. Take some fun classes at your local college. Take a short trip if you can, a day or two. I like hopping on the Amtrack even if I only go a few hours away. Sometimes it's great to just see different scenery.

Find a new church family!!!! (I think I am going t have to myself!) Im sorry your church isnt supporting you. But its hard for people NOT to take one side or another. Meet new people if you can. And YES, volunteer! Plenty of people need help, and sometimes the best therapy is taking your mind off yourself and your situation (as best as you can) and focus on the needs of someone else. Its great to be able to bless someone, even while in such a broken state! You cant buy such joy!!! Also, that second summer job might not be a bad idea if you are so broke. You can spend it on yourself for some much need items, or spend some on yourself, and give some to a good cause! Hope these suggestions help!

Meetup.com. They have all different types of groups of different interest. It's not a dating service, just people who want to get together with like interest. This is a way to make new friends, expand your social network.

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