how to cope with a disrupted 3yr old

Kathy - posted on 09/07/2011
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I am a Nanny and I need some input from other Moms.

I am currently involved with a single Mom and 2 little girls 18 mo and 3 yrs old.

The 3 yr old disturbes me. She screams in a shrilling manner when she wants her own way. It seems to be for a purpose of attracting attention to whoever is around her. She is disrepctful to her younger sister to the point of hurting her on a whim for no reason. She accused me of hurting her and going to tell her Mom. This disturbes me. I feel like that puts me in a defensive position. I have talked with the Mom about this and she just shakes her head as if she knows this is her behavior.