Hey Sir, I want to know if you consider yourself…

Hey Sir, I want to know if you consider yourself a jealous man? Do you think jealously is a way to show that you care? Thanks ?

Hey there and thank you for not using a boilerplate emoji. ??‍?????

No – I am not a jealous man in the least. To the point, it’s bothered women in the past. I couldn’t give a fuck who my woman is friends with on Facebook or if she wants to have lunch with an ex. I would never want to snoop on her phone (my sister does this shit with her husband and it is toxic). If a girl wants some other dude, good fucking luck beating what I offer. The grass isn’t greener on the other side of the fence; it’s greener where you water it. Be good to the person you are with and you don’t have shit to worry about.

I am however very protective. Very protective. If someone, male or female fucks with her or anyone I love, it will eat at me all day, nonstop, and I’ll want to do something about it. I can’t just go punching people in the face since I am a grown-up, this usually means I just get pissed and do nothing. But I do love those times where I can tell somebody to fuck off in their face or make their life harder by doing something that they hate. Those always make me feel good.

Now on the jealousy thing – the only semi-jealousy thing I have is with threesomes. I would never let another man fuck my girl. It’s not that he’d be more desirable; give me a break. I know what I am like in bed.

No, it is because it is a special, intimate, shared time that expresses our love and it would denigrate what we have and what we have is so special to me. I’d never allow another person to participate in it; it is for us and for us to be closer.

Last: “Do you think jealousy is a way to show that you care?“ – No, it is a way to show you are a narcissist, insecure, signs of being prone to abuse, and you probably treat your woman/man like shit.

A little jealousy is kinda cute, TBH. It’s cute when it’s “oh, all those whores on Tumblr want your dick”. That actually makes me feel wanted and is nice to hear that she cares and is defensive over her man. Fuck yeah. I fucking want her so bad, so it’s hot to hear that.

But if it was “you can’t go out tonight with your friends” kind of shit that other people deal with, I’d never put up with that crap because I’d never ask that of somebody else and it doesn’t make any sense to me. It’s nice to feel wanted but it’s a slippery slope into unhealthy and possessive, so I suggest you, Anon, be mindful of the difference in your situation.