We posted something on social media this week that created quite a buzz. The cause of the buzz was the picture at the top of this post, and more specially, the message on the picture which says, "Most wives have no idea how much their naked body affects their husband." This is the kind of issue that Tami and I just love because it forces us to communicate our healthy marriage message as clearly as possible and allows us to meet you right where you are with your questions. All of this makes it worthwhile for us to dig into this topic a bit deeper and work through a few details…

I hope the title of this article grabbed your full attention, it was meant to. Just like any other addiction (defined below), pornography will change you–slowly at first, until you are a different person than you once were. It kills the former you, and spawns a replacement. A replacement that has less respect for others (including your spouse), is more self-centered, and is further out of control. All the while not even noticing the incremental and detrimental changes that have been taking place. Addiction defined: an addiction is any behavior that you cannot seem to stop or control despite the fact that it is a detriment to yourself or others…

We posted something on social media this week that created quite a buzz. The cause of the buzz was the picture at the top of this post, and more specially, the message on the picture which says, "Most wives have no idea how much their naked body affects their husband." This is the kind of issue that Tami and I just love because it forces us to communicate our healthy marriage message as clearly as possible and allows us to meet you right where you are with your questions. All of this makes it worthwhile for us to dig into this topic a bit deeper and work through a few details…

I hope the title of this article grabbed your full attention, it was meant to. Just like any other addiction (defined below), pornography will change you–slowly at first, until you are a different person than you once were. It kills the former you, and spawns a replacement. A replacement that has less respect for others (including your spouse), is more self-centered, and is further out of control. All the while not even noticing the incremental and detrimental changes that have been taking place. Addiction defined: an addiction is any behavior that you cannot seem to stop or control despite the fact that it is a detriment to yourself or others…