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A parent-child relationship can be the most complex yet easy relationship. The smallest things can be made so complicated, yet solved with just a calm conversation.

Question 2My father wants me to become an engineer, but I love photography. That is what I want to study, but he doesn’t. He was the one who bought me my first camera and encouraged me. Please tell me what is a better profession for me, engineering or photography?Male, 18 (Bangalore, India)

Tarot says:

In comparison, photography opens up a world of opportunities for you – it is a profession that you will feel most right about. It IS the profession you should be in. Whereas engineering is not something that comes to you naturally.

The cards clearly indicate that your father is concerned about the stability that the profession of photography would bring you, yet if you do speak to him he will listen. But you need to show to him that you have researched what possbilities can open up for you in the future and while you study it too. He wants to see how seriously you have thought about this profession and the financial returns of being in this stream. Good Luck.

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Question 2My daughter is 32 years old and she is unmarried. She is very career driven and she has always been open about her personal life so I know that she is single. I want to see her settled down. When will she get married?Female, 56 (Kolkata, India)

Tarot says:

The cards show that your daughter feels a sense of insecurity. She has seen someone close to her go through a tough financial state, which scares her, hence she over-compensates in her work. She over does it. You need to try and get her to talk about this. As she releases herself of her fear, she will be open to a relationship and marriage.

In terms of time frame, her marriage period begins from October 2012.

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~Shruti

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A client and a very very close friend of mine (I’ve known her since childhood) had come for her Tarot reading. I have seen her struggle with her health most of her life; from the smallest of ailments troubling her regularly to the more severe, or even an injury. She has always had something going on. Plus now in adulthood she’s also troubled with lack of financial stability even though she is highly talented and did well while we were in school together – she was and is highly admired by those around her because of this. Yet her academic success never materialised into professional success (so far).

I could never understand why this was. So I decided for her. Decided to tackle what it was that she feared. The cards revealed -

1. She carried the fear that she would never get rid of her ailments. Although she truly desired to be healthy, but she never really believed it. She would lose hope easily. She carried the fear therefore she was still carrying her ailments with her.

2. Since she did so well during her schooling, she created a huge weight of expectations of doing well professionally. The pressure was taken negatively – she began to fear not doing well, despite having all the tools to succeed. She feared that she will never he able to be financially independent.

Over the years these fears just multiplied. Upon discussion, this became a huge realisation for her.

Today she has started to re-program the way she has been thinking about her health. She matches her healthy actions with healthy thoughts. As for her career, she has begun to increase her self-worth and has started believing that her professional services are more valuable that what she presents them as. She confidently asks for what she deserves – and guess what..she IS rapidly growing towards the financial stability she has always wanted.

She has taken the first crucial steps in getting out of the vicious pattern she had got so comfortable in. She still has some distance to go – but she’s on track.

Fear really drains us out. Where we can be more productive and energetic we instead head in the opposite direction.

Now – FOR YOU..

What do YOU fear? What blocks have YOU created? Your initial response maybe that you don’t fear anything – but honestly, take the time out and really think about this before you answer.

Birth; living life; creating life; death.This weeks’ two free readings are of distinct opposites. The desire to create life & the fear and hurt that death brings to those we love. When the time comes, how do we mentally balance it all out? Question 1:I have been married 8 years now. My husband and I would desperately love to start our family. Can you please tell me when this will happen and what is going wrong? We have waited for so long.Female (35), New Delhi (India)

Tarot says:

You carry a lot of mental and emotional blockages within you for a number of years now. Infact, you’ve not let go of certain aspects of your childhood that can’t harm you anymore. You need to work through a number of such aspects, because these are in-turn effecting you physically. Somewhere you do realise this, but its time to act upon your fears – work through them. You have great support from your husband and he will help you through this, but you will have to do the mental and emotional work yourself. The cards advise that once you start to over come this, your chances of conceiving will increase.

Once you release yourself from all that you have accumulated, then many more of your life’s’ blockages will open up. It will be a great phase for you! Good Luck!

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Question 2:I am a mother of 2 children. I have breast cancer and I am in the final stages. I go through a lot of pain. My children see this. I am not concerned about myself, but I am worried how my husband and children will cope when I am gone. Is there anything I should tell my children before I leave?Female (44), Chandigarh (India)

Tarot says:

It seems as if you have always led by example and have been an inspiration to your children and your husband too. They all look up to you. Your family has slowly started mentally preparing themselves of not having you around, but they have imbibed all that is good from you, because for them you will always live on. Your family will learn to cope and will make you proud.

Please teach your children the lessons you have learnt throughout your life – from the smallest to the biggest. You may feel your children may not be able to grasp all that you say, but they will – because they will truly listen.

One other thing – you have left a few things unsaid to your husband. You are holding on to it and it would be best if you release all what you would like to at this point.

Just be at peace, and believe your family will be fine, because they will. Take care.

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~Shruti

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Our emotions can take over our rational thinking. We can sometimes desire love which looks complicated from the onset and sometimes be afraid of losing the love that we can’t imagine life without.

With both these readings, the true answer is to feel love and you will know what is right.. and as Pooh said..

Question 1I really like someone, but he is married – he says he will be getting a divorce, but I think he is confused about it. Is there a future relationship with my married friend?Female (29), Brazil

Tarot says:

There is so much activity in the mind but no real focus on a REAL relationship. It may seem smooth to just get involved and stay involved – it all seems just too comfortable..BUT that’s not the case. In reality the cards don’t indicate much of future. You will be fooling yourself if you have any slight belief that this person truly would want to commit, especially since you mentioned that he’s confused about getting a divorce. He is someone who is very easily swayed by his own emotions. He doesn’t seem to be stable enough. The cards don’t indicate much of a future. It would be better for you to invest all these emotions in someone who is mentally stronger.

The cards also indicate that you need to love yourself more – that will give you the answer too.

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Question 2I belong to a very open-minded family, but we live in a conservative society in India. I have always understood that my sexual preferences are different than what is expected. I am a lesbian. I want to share this with my family, but I don’t know if I should especially since they are now looking at marriage proposals for me. How will they take it? I love them. I am scared.Female (27), Bangalore India

Tarot says:

You are a kind, bright, successful person and that is what your parents respect. They are such proud parents of who their daughter has become. The best thing will be is for you to share all that is within you to your parents. Yes, they may not be the happiest, but they will make a genuine effort to try and understand everything. You will have to hear them out and give them time too. This is not going to be easy for you either – but it will allow you to breathe normally, it will lessen the anxiety that you’re carrying around with you.

As for society, your parents are strong people. They will manage to support you whole heartedly.

The cards suggest that you take the next few days to streamline your thoughts and speak to your parents about it over the weekend. You will be heard and understood. They feel for you & that’s what counts.

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ps. The image of Pooh is from some random browsing on the internet..

~Shruti

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