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For this, I'm talking about anal sex with a girl (m2m anal obviously is). I happen to love anal sex with a girl. But I have friends who are vehemently against anal, and equate it to being gay, mainly because an ass is an ass. Clearly, I find this to be one of the sillier sex-related statements I've heard...but what are your thoughts on the matter?

For this, I'm talking about anal sex with a girl (m2m anal obviously is). I happen to love anal sex with a girl. But I have friends who are vehemently against anal, and equate it to being gay, mainly because an ass is an ass. Clearly, I find this to be one of the sillier sex-related statements I've heard...but what are your thoughts on the matter?

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And if you end up wanting to fuck another guy, don't worry about it.....

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haha in the words of Chad Ochocinco, "Child please!!" I'm not knocking anyone that's gay or has gay tendencies, but I do know that in my right mind I would be unable to turn myself on for such an encounter!

Being that I rarely drink and never do drugs, I can't see that happening anytime soon lol

Sorry, dude. I should have read your post more carefully. But the fact that I was able to so easily misread it demonstrates the stupidity of your friends' viewpoint. As a matter of fact, it's absurd. It sounds like your friends are extremely immature.

If guys giving it to their girlfriends up the rear is gay then there's a whole lot more gay guys around with girlfriends than I even thought.

As far as I know, straight men also have a G-spot ( ), and that spot is easy to stimulate by doing anal. So no, it isn't gay at all. Why not going for a G-spot orgasm, one of the best a man can get. If your body offers it, use it, it's there for a reason :wink:

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And honestly on top of that, I actually believe that guys can have sex with other guys and still consider themselves straight. That's all just physical and if you do what feels good or if a body turns you on, sobeit.

But, to me, only guys who can truly be satisfied and happy being in an actual relationship with a guy (as in sex with a guy meets all their sexual needs and their emotional needs can be fulfilled by another guy) are gay.

If you can only say that of a woman, and not a man, then you're straight.

And, for those few lucky ones out there who can say that for both men and women, they're bi.

Everything else is just sex. It's fun, and if something turns you on, you do it (makes penis happy).

Some guys are not the slightest bit turned on by even the hottest guys. Some are not the slightest bit turned on by women. Some are turned on by both, and others seem to be turned on by everything all the time. To me that's more sexual function than it is something within your psyche. Regardless of who you fuck, only you deep down inside can say whether you are gay or straight or bi or asexual or whatever.

Take me, I find some women very attractive. I think huge fake tits are one of the coolest things ever, and I find female bodybuilders and fitness models with ridiculous high spherical fake tits on a tight muscular body with some big bimbo cock-sucking lips to be a HUGE turn on! Do I want to have sex with girls like this?

Maybe, probably, but I'm not totally sure if when the moment came I'd be up for the task. Would I love to go all crazy full body oral on a woman like that? Yep! (although a hot shemale like that would probably be more a better fit because vagina just looks like a weird mix between an orchid and an alien).

But, could I spend my life with one or feel right being in a relationship with one or forego sex with a man while with one? No way! So I know I'm gay.

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And honestly on top of that, I actually believe that guys can have sex with other guys and still consider themselves straight. That's all just physical and if you do what feels good or if a body turns you on, sobeit.

But, to me, only guys who can truly be satisfied and happy being in an actual relationship with a guy (as in sex with a guy meets all their sexual needs and their emotional needs can be fulfilled by another guy) are gay.

If you can only say that of a woman, and not a man, then you're straight.

And, for those few lucky ones out there who can say that for both men and women, they're bi.

Everything else is just sex. It's fun, and if something turns you on, you do it (makes penis happy).

Some guys are not the slightest bit turned on by even the hottest guys. Some are not the slightest bit turned on by women. Some are turned on by both, and others seem to be turned on by everything all the time. To me that's more sexual function than it is something within your psyche. Regardless of who you fuck, only you deep down inside can say whether you are gay or straight or bi or asexual or whatever.

Take me, I find some women very attractive. I think huge fake tits are one of the coolest things ever, and I find female bodybuilders and fitness models with ridiculous high spherical fake tits on a tight muscular body with some big bimbo cock-sucking lips to be a HUGE turn on! Do I want to have sex with girls like this?

Maybe, probably, but I'm not totally sure if when the moment came I'd be up for the task. Would I love to go all crazy full body oral on a woman like that? Yep! (although a hot shemale like that would probably be more a better fit because vagina just looks like a weird mix between an orchid and an alien).

But, could I spend my life with one or feel right being in a relationship with one or forego sex with a man while with one? No way! So I know I'm gay.

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Fair enough, I agree that most things sex-wise, when done with a girl, are by no means gay. Can't say I agree with the thought that sex with a man isn't gay though. The best compromise I can make is calling one of these hombres a straight man with gay tendencies haha

^^I would agree for the most part. But the fact of the matter is that classification is seriously lacking with sexuality. Everyone defines these terms differently, and there isn't an adequate number of words to describe the plethora of possible sexual/emotional preferences.

The male anus is a very highly sensitive area... add n the prostate and you have one power packed sexual area down there. I think that straight men are coming to discover that they have a really pleasurable hole down there more and more. If you don't get turned on by guys, then you don't get turned on by guys, but letting your girl play with one of your most highly sexual, sensitive and pleasurable areas of your body does in no way, make you any gayer than you already are.