What is like the Adam-i-Eva Christian Dating Service?

The Adam-i-Eva Christian Dating Service is beyond
"Traditional" Online Dating, Mail Order Bride
and most of Christian Dating Services, too.

It is not an Entertainment Online Dating: neither
fleeting dates nor virtual romance games. It is not a
"Russian" Mail Order Brides Service sells
and resells women from ex-USSR or their profiles all
over the Web, provides sex-tourism and fertile in nice
business cheating born-yesterday guys out of their money.

It is not a "Traditional" Christian or Jewish Dating
Service restricted by a definite religion, denomination
or just locally. We work for both Christian singles
and any marriage minded single sharing Christian Morals
about marriage and family; providing singles all over the
world with rational search, matchmaking and transparent
dating. You define denomination, degree of religiosity,
search space among dozens parameters of database search
request. We believe it is most honest way, alas, far not
such successful commercially as first ones and having no
regular donations and steady support as the last.

So, Adam-i-Eva is a perfect Computer Dating (Matchmaking)
Service, made by Christians, based on Christian Morals,
with powerful compatibility matching algorithm and really
comprehensive profiles. The Adam-i-Eva Christian Dating
Service bears certain similarity to
eHarmony and
ChristianCafe
but, hopefully, better in some way, more honest and
transparent, Christian and liberal at the same time,
working for both American singles and European and
African and Ukrainian and Russian singles.

Unlike the eHarmony and
ChristianCafe and some
other Christian Services we are not restricted
to North America, Western countries or some
religion/denomination. In fact eHarmony,
ChristianCafe, other serious American top-sites make soft or
absolute discrimination against Third World and ex-USSR
countries (IPs from this part of the world might be
forbidden!) These dating services are great, but
we guess some unfair. Jesus Christ would not
like such discrimination at all! Christianity is
religion of free people. In a certain sense Ukraine now
is more free country than the US or Good Old Europe.

Probably we are idealists, offering you not only pretty
faces but also lots of info keeping your eyes open to
avoid odd Emailing and cheat. If you like our views
and think to help us, you can subscribe
a donation we shall appreciate it very much!

So, we offer three-language interface (English, Ukrainian
and Russian) with single database and common rules for
both ladies and gentlemen (Mail Order Bride Services
used to be free for ladies only). Then, our MATCHMAKING is
BILATERAL and adapted to both American, European and
post-soviet, called "Russian" mentalities (we don't ask
in the questionnaire what TV show and showman you like
the most – it's stupid if a person is from
other part of the world or what kind activity you do in
your church). Our questionnaire is shorter
but universal and more effective thanks to the bilateral
searching method and IMPLANTED PSYCHOMETRIC TEST bring
forth matches' COMPATIBILITY.

Compulsory detailed profile and a photo of standard size
(except INVISIBLE
members) increase efficiency dramatically without
superfluous but virtueless correspondence. If your
potential match didn't provide a profile in English,
you may use online
translator. Perhaps it is not so fun or exciting
but it is really most effective for perfect matchmaking
and transparent search for your soul mate (you know the
"Russian Rocket" style – simple and inexpensive solving a
problem). Besides that it saves your time and money –
you need NO EMAIL to see what kind of person is your match
just like the nose on your face!

In addition, of course, FREE MEMBERSHIP – join us and you
will be able to look for your kindred soul in our
database FOR FREE! Surely, you should spend at first half
an hour to fill in all the forms to join. One more
feature: since that your ad takes part in EVERY
database search and you will be notified (if you like
it) by E-mail of EVERY new member matching you!
This off-line matchmaking is FREE OF CHARGE, too.

100% validity control and monitoring of Email addresses,
photos and profiles acceptance exclude non-serious or
idle ads from our database and protect interests of
serious marriage minded members. Most of
"professional Russian
brides" or just frivolous persons are
flunked out too.

SAVING YOUR TIME & MONEY

In a nutshell: no cheat, no dead-end contacts, no idle
photo gallery, minimum of "professional
Russian brides" and a mass of info instead of
fancy and self-deceit. Basic services are free, you should
create your own profile and may seek your soul mate free of
charge. You need not pay anything until you find someone(s)
special and kindred or just interesting and you decide to
pay some extra
service to contact her/him or translate.

We do our best to exclude cheat of "professional Russian
girls" such as making money on men or just playing
games. Our service is intrinsically inconvenient for
cheat or tricking because our matchmaking is bilateral,
transparent and too complex for any games. Another kind
of cheat is one of Marriage Agencies, for example: you
fly to her and she is waiting for you at the airport but
you get shocked – she looks so different from the
nice photos taken in the Marriage Agency by their pictorialist!

There is one more kind of cheat Marriage Agencies do
– fictitious brides. They go on reselling and
sharing profiles of women to hundreds of other agencies
even if the girls got married months or years ago or
are not interested more in internet dating. Moreover,
professional writers provide fascinating corresponding,
surely, they will get money out of you – for
emailing, translation, computer, passport, visa, etc.

We sell neither real women nor fictional ones! We just gather
information, moderate, process data, fulfill your database
request ensuring match compatibility. All data and photos
are provided by our members themselves and they can tell
about any member much better than stunning photos from
a pictoralist do. Don't get us wrong, we don't
interfere in your affairs but we do our best to help
you. We just refine away people not matching you or whom
you don't match.

We don't make money on you attracting clients with photo
gallery as ALL Mail Order Bride Services do, this way
they let your imagination run away with you substituting
real data and wasting your time and money and bringing
to fatal frustration. And we provide you complete
information of your match from very beginning FOR
FREE!

BE CAREFUL – DANGER!

Cheat and tricks (see above, please)
are not only dangers in Internet dating. There is more
dangerous thing, not for your wallet but for yourself!
Everybody heard of internet dating cheat but you,
probably, never heard nor thought about danger for
singles themselves. The point is long search for
your match via Internet goes ill with you, your
mentality as destroying factor. It makes no matter
what intentions you had first: search for Ms./Mr.
Right, romanticism or thirst of entertainment.
The longer you seek the harder the influence, in a
year or two any romanticist-idealist turns into skeptic,
cynic or even pervert and seeker for Ms. Right turns
into eternal sex-tourist...

Having begun from search for soul mate you will not note
how you change little by little. Probably you will
not recognize it even alone with your thoughts that you
have turned into sex-tourist or eternal virtual seekers
for Ms. Perfection, substituting real life with virtual
world. So, you have one year, maximum two for searching
in classic way (Mail Order Services with galleries and
minimum info, emailing, meeting) with a few girls only.
Then your chances to change your life fall down to zero
dramatically and instead of that you will be changed
yourself. (Sounds like the Matrix movie, does not?)

It influences your mentality through both chatting
on-line and E-mailing and following meeting face to face
doing this via hopes, lie, disappointment and
frustration. The point is lack of information of
potential partner you compensate investing your choice
with features of your dream and fertile imagination.
It's human nature. This danger is actual both for girls
and guys. But our method let you minimize the risk!

From very beginning we provide you with mass of data of
your match such as views, dreams, tastes, temper,
ensuring compatibility, that increases efficiency of
your search tens and hundreds times! We have done our
best to help you to find your One-and-Only as soon as
possible and reduce the destroying influence of
correspondence and prevent frustrations. Having written
no letter you can imagine your match very close to
reality. Nobody glamorizes our clients. They look just
as they introduced themselves but by our scenario. If
you have not found your match in our database
immediately you may keep your usual life waiting for a
note of joining your match to our database. One day your
fate will reach you!

YOU SEEK A PHOTO GALLERY?

Sorry, we don't offer such baubles as photo gallery,
romance chat, erotics, horoscope, swing, etc. Surely, such things are
advantageous to attract visitors and promote a dating site,
but we work for marriage
minded singles and believe it would
be fake and just unacceptable for Christian Dating Service!
You come here to find your kindred soul to marry
and not to deceive yourself, so we do our best to help you.
Now let us illustrate our opinion about Photo Galleries.

WHAT GIRL IS PRETTIER?

You are wrong! Both photos are of the same girl! Usual
photo and one taken by a good pictoralist. Trust us, difference
might be far wider! We have much more impressive samples,
unfortunately we don't have the people's sanctions and
cannot publish them. Really, a good photographer can make
ANY, EVEN MOST UGLY WOMAN look like a MODEL!

Do you still long to be deceived? Sorry, probably you should
try another service. We help marriage minded singles to
find soul mates having much in common (including religion)
with minimum of emailing. Join our service
and you get access to really comprehensive profiles of your matches
with photos FREE
OF CHARGE.

WESTERN MAN IS WANTED, WHY?

Yes, many women from ex-USSR have lots of dignities such
as mass of care for her kids and husband,
responsibility, beautiful, hardworking, great in cooking
and housekeeping, well-educated. Sounds like ideal
wives, eh? Often they seek Western men only, why?

Root causes are poor/criminal economic + lack of men.
Average life of men is 10-12 years shorter than women's
over here.

1. Her life is too hard and she sees NO GOOD PROSPECT in
nearest future in her country for BOTH HERSELF AND/OR
HER KIDS, she cannot fulfill herself in the country.

2. Every man she dated with before was either alcoholics
or other asocial man who tried to make use of her and
she is sick of both the men and common loutish behavior.

3. Since Soviet times ideal of Luxury Western Life
attracted Soviet people and still does them now and they
mostly don't realize how hard could be obstacles and
adaptation.

4. Most trivial: dreams of rich husband-gentleman to get
higher life level not working too hard (economics over
here is criminal so local rich men are mostly very tough
guys).

5. To make some money tricking Western men asking to pay
tickets to visit him, getting visa or passport, Home PC
for corresponding, studying language, translation
service, treatment after accident, etc.

6. Romantic adventures with Western man, a kind of
holidays. Trip, dinners with candles, gifts and so on.
Some rest from everyday life – heaven on earth.
Can you guess who pays?

So, if a woman from ex-USSR looks for Western Man ONLY
you should think twice why she does it. At best it's
hidden ECONOMICS EMIGRATION. Remember, too, if you want
a young wife, the younger ladies from this part of the
world, the less they differ from Western girls. They are
more spoiled, cynical and pragmatic, less responsible
and careful for close people than older ones, especially
girls from big cities like Moscow, Odessa, etc. Night club
instead of night nursery, gym and shaping instead of kitchen,
pleasures instead of duties.

IS ECONOMIC IMMIGRATION GOOD?

Well, you are aware of economics motivation of your
choice. But ask yourself: are you ready to reconcile
yourself to be only next most important for your future
wife (or even third, after her kids)? And do you know
how much is percentage of successful marriages with
women from Eastern Europe? Only a few percents of such
marriages are longer than necessary to get residence
permit.

You cannot just buy a wife with longer warranty period.
If your future wife pursues immigration to a rich
country at first your marriage with her is similar
Russian roulette. To overcome the cultural and mental
differences in marriage with a woman from Eastern Europe
there should be both feelings, compatibility, common
interests, mutual respect and understanding.

Are you sure you embody her dreams and her obligation
will be strong enough? Are you sure you can compensate
for lack of her self-actualization? You should know
average level of "Russian" brides' education and
intellect are higher than average. Despite of they are
well-trained and works here as dentists or teachers or
managers it will be almost impossible to legalize their
diplomas to work as qualified personnel.

So, you should choose with your future wife if she like
to be a housewife, or take part in your family business
or you should help her to learn new language, some
courses, legalization of diploma, etc. Even a diamond
needs someone's help to shy.

WHY IT'S BETTER THAN MAIL ORDER BRIDE?

1. Off any cheat of "Russian girls"! Our matchmaking
system is in no way convenient for any cheat and works
like a lie detector in our club doorway. Besides that
parallel three languages interface with single database
let you look at your match's answers from questionnaire
and psychometric test and read her like a book.

2. Off cheat of Marriage Agencies, too! You fly to her
and she waits for you at the airport and you get shocked
– she looks so different from her nice photos
taken in the Agency! We don't glamorize or prettify our
clients at all. We affirm only that we do our best all
members of our service to be really marriage minded and
take searching for One-And-Only seriously.

3. All Mail Order Bride Services give minimum
information of their clients leaving their characters
and hearts off-screen and letting your fantasy play.
They present just some artistic pictures having nothing
in common with real person and a few figures –
that's all. And we offer most comprehensive profile
describing person's temper, views, tastes, etc.

5. Unlike any Mail Order Bride Service our female
members seek not emigration at any price, but their
One-and-Only at first. So, your chance to build happy
family is here dozens times more. Or you prefer to be next
after her economic interests or be cheated? Don't play the Russian
roulette! Girls from Eastern Europe are some different
from Chinese wives.

6. Off deceit! We never call our members "most
beautiful", "good-mannered", "most decent", and so on.
We don't glamorize our clients as ANY Mail Order Bride
Service does! You give some data, we process it making
matches. You judge your potential matches by their
comprehensive profiles! Then we notify you of ALL new
matches, all these FOR FREE!

7. Probably, next feature is interesting not for
everyone, but many people should appreciate it. No Mail
Order Bride Service takes into account interests of
Christians, other believers or disabled people. We do!
Read below.

CHRISTIANS, OTHER BELIEVERS, DISABLED PEOPLE

Both Christians of main denominations and faithful
people of other main religions should appreciate our
special options, those no Mail Order Bride Service
offers. You can choose not only between main Christian
denominations and other religions, but what place has
belief in life of your match and yourself, from atheist
or agnostic to faithful going to church every week.
Bilateral computer matching reckons in level of
tolerance, too.

There is lack of tolerance in many countries-parts of
ex-USSR, especially in Russia. Racism, intolerance
to different cultures, religions or denominations.
Most of population over there are nominal Orthodox
Christians and many of them cannot see their match be
a Roman Catholic or Protestant. It is worthy of note
that Protestants over there pay Orthodox
Christians back with their hot "love and agape",
too. Our matchmaking algorithm is bilateral, so don't
surprise you find not so many potential matches.

There is a kind of discrimination for disabled people in
Internet Dating Services. Common services have no option
for disabled people. And in special services they could
seek their matches between either disabled people or a
kind of perverts only. We offer special option for
disabled people during choosing body type. We believe
this solution should work the best way for disabled
people. And there is one more surprise for handicapped
people – they may contact their handicapped
matches absolutely FOR FREE.

So, in fact our site is better for Christians and other
believers and disabled people than both specialized
dating sites for Christians / disabled people and common
ones for everybody. The point is special-purpose sites
shrink circle of their customers and even most serious
common dating sites don't consult interests of
Christians and other believers and disabled people.

OH, THOSE PHOTOS!

According to our rules every advertisement is completed
with a photo of standard size 192 pixels (height) x 128
(width). This size is enough for quality kit-cat
portrait or bust but too small for full-length portrait.
This way we kill two birds with one stone: –
smooth gap between artistic professional pictures and
amateur photos; – defeat stunning pictures to
bring your fantasy away substituting facts.

Frankly speaking, there is one more important reason to
limit quantity and size of photos. We believe it is
stupid to choose your partner in life in exterior at
first. If you have mass of common interests, temper,
views and so on for happy marriage you need only your
match to be agreeable or handsome, no more. If you like
a person inside he/she becomes more beautiful outside
too. It's just a solid sense.

Surely, you may upload your photo of any size but under
500 Kb in any graphical format (JPEG, GIF, PNG) and just
in a few hours our photo editor will process it the best
way. Or, if you have some skill in graphics, you may
upload your photo of standard size and your ad will be
activated immediately.

DETAILED PROFILE

Very important part of our know-how is essential
detailed story to complete your profile. You have to
write 200-500
words about wanted match and yourself,
your life style, views, dreams, temper and so on. Trust
our experience, it is only in your behoof! The more you
tell here the better for you. Nobody could see your
story except your potential partners matching you
mutually, so you should be honest and frank to make the
most your opportunity. The story will save mass of your
time, money and nerves in future.

Having written no letter you may tell your potential
partners who are you and what you seek. You should do
it once and need not afterwards Email every your
matches saving your time and money. If you pay no
attention to your story, it will show your potential
partners you are not too serious about searching for
your soul mate.

Database Search Request & Requirements to Your Match

There are two extremes as our clients use sometimes our matchmaking system:
irresponsible- and stupid-careless. Both of them
underestimate our service and lose their chances a lot.

First choose for their partners options "no matter"
everywhere, refusing in fact main advantage of our
service – bilateral search. Perhaps they think:
"Hey, I don't know my own mind, could the stupid authors
of the ponderous site help me? But I am curious to look
over their database – who are there? Why not, it's
fun!" Yes, they can find dozens and even hundreds
"potential partners", if they don't care whether their
soul mates drink or smoke or believe in God and other
"small details". Anyway, they use our site in fact as a
primitive photo-gallery.

That's why we use 20 potential matches limit for regular
members, showing them only 20 matches with highest match
ratio plus all their matches-privileged members. If you
are a privileged member you can see all your potential
matches. Anyway it's too boring to turn over the hundreds
of matches, if you get too many matches, try to specify
your database search request.

Second ones give quick answers choosing only option in
every question to wanted partner. For example, having
chosen "your match lives separately from last partner",
they throw away both divorced and widowed and people who
had no long-term relations before. It looks like they
cannot use "Ctrl" key to select several options
answering a question. It influences on results of search
dramatically! Another sample, you smoke very seldom, you
define this option for yourself and automatically for
your match. This way you exclude ALL NON-SMOKERS! If you
get too little matches, try to analyze your database
search request and correct it to get number of matches
near twenty. It's optimal request for free service.