The Male Elf Haughty voice, i.e. Ondolemar, Quaranir, Aringoth, Edorfin, Nelecar, Vingalmo etc, has no marriage dialogue. It doesn't matter what 'Marry anyone' mod you download, it's not going to happen. I have extracted all of the relevant voice files made by Niel Dickson from the main game, all DLC's and Neverwinter Nights for my own designed follower. Out of all 1,652 lines of dialogue the only thing I was able to achieve was you start off married to the bastard. I've mashed together a dialogue line where he calls you wife.

Just curious, will this mod be ported over to Special Edition? This is the mod I have always been looking for and would love to see it on Skyrim's Special Edition. If not, that's okay too. Great job on the mod!

I did all the quests for Ondolemar. I even joined the imperial legion and finished that (since he dies if you take over Markarth as a Stormcloak) and I'm even the thane of Markarth now. I still get the same thing as him saying "There's no pleasure quite as enjoyable as your company." But no marriage dialouge.

I have this mod because it sounds amazing and needed, but its not working for me. I wanted to marry Ondolemar and I did the quest he gives you. Also I have not done The 'diplomacy' quest yet. Is there anything I can do to fix this problem? Or is it out of my hands? BTW thanks for the mod.

@Emma: No, this mod doesn't make marriable NPCs also followers, and it's also not part of the marriage deal. For an NPC to be both marriable and a follower, the NPC needs to be a member of two different factions.

All the Altmer are vanilla and have not been added elsewhere in the game. That's why I put the warning in. The 'diplomacy' quest lets you infiltrate in the Thalmor Embassy and makes the Thalmor hostile towards the player.

Love the mods!! One question though, I read in the Marriage book that you could marry Altmer like Estormo and other Thalmor that could get killed during a quest, do you add them somewhere else or can you marry the first one in vanilla skyrim?? Again thanks for the amazing mods!

@Méw: Sorry, but I really don't know! The only thing I have in mind is Skyrim's Radiant AI system that randomizes NPC behavior. Maybe you have to wait for a few ingame days and get back to him, and maybe even more than once. I have had the same experience with my own mod(s). When activating the mod, nobody seemed to be interest, but after a few ingame days all NPCs in the mod were interested.

First of all - I really appriciate all the hard work you have put in your mods, you are simply amazing, giving us such a freedom to choose our spouses. I find your mods a must-have addition in my games and would like to thank you for taking time and creating them.The only problem I have is that this one seems to be working for all except Ondolemar.

The only mod I had to alter NPCs was the one that allowed the housecarl to stop treating my char like a stranger in her own house but I've removed disabled that to see if that fixes anything. Fingers crossed. Thanks! :D

What can I say? I don't give any guarantees, just like in real life. I haven't figured out how Skyrim's radiant AI system works with marriages, but I suppose it is random. If so, let it be for some ingame days and try again.

Hi there, I am unable to get this to work on Nelacar. I have your Dunmer male mod and the same PC can get the marriage dialogue with Erandur, but Nelacar resists her. *weep* I did the Azura quest already and sided with him. Any suggestions?

It's not like you can't marry any of those races if you are a certain gender, it's that you can't marry any of those races if THEY are a certain gender. Unless you're talking heterosexual marriages only.