"So, you're all caught up in being a social butterfly? And that takes everything you've got to stay on top? What you are doing, you are doing for others to make them like and accept you, yes? So, you have lots of friends, yes? What do they do for you? Are they always there when you need them? Or are you, more often than not, doing for them? Look, you gotta be your own best friend first! What are you doing for YOU? If the social set likes you no matter what you do for yourself, then super! They won't mind you saying "no" once in awhile! True friends can hear "no" and not freak out! Don't forget the reason why you are here! Your reason for being is not so that you can entertain everyone at your own expense!" ~ Freda