Monthly Archives: October 2013

Here’s a thought: it’s ok to be superficial. Though I think you have to be honest about it. Sometimes this means that you’re a jerk, but sometimes it means you know what you’re looking for and what you care about … Continue reading →

A couple of days ago, I went on a date with this guy and got the impression that he was looking for something long-term, while I had been clear that I was only looking for a fling. And even if I’d been … Continue reading →

I’ve been thinking about my sexuality lately. Not in a “must figure this out” kind of way, more in a rambling kind of experimental way. Due to circumstances, I can date whoever I want right now, and I’m in an … Continue reading →

How do you put aside a relationship, tie it up with a bow in a pretty little box? Like a chocolate for safekeeping, hoping the ants or the mice don’t get to it while it’s sitting on your pantry shelf. … Continue reading →