Re: That dish is chillin'

Best served cold, dude, best served cold. Not that I'm any good at followingmy own advice.

Case in point, much of my apprehension about cohabitation stems from my own ratherunhappy experience. I lived with someone for three years, and when we started out,things were really pretty happy. But as time went on, things that didn't seem likesuch a big deal in the beginning became significant problems that ultimately couldn'tbe solved. How we neglected to share our feelings on certain very important subjects(kids, vis-a-vis depression, esp.) is beyond me now, but I guess we were young andin love and love conquers all, right? Why worry? Having to disengage youself fromsomeone you share practically everything with is an can be an excruciating experience.I do believe it's better to have loved and lost, blah, blah, blah, but not to have lostin quite such a heartbreaking way.