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Teri - posted on 05/09/2009
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im a single mum of 2 boys drazzic is 4 in june and bailey has just turned 1 i have just found out bailey is deaf still waiting on the hospital 2 get in touch im really worried i wont be able 2 cope with the 2 of them now there dad dont want 2 no them so im on my own my familey are a real help but when its just me of a night and they r in bed i cant help but feel like iv made him like that some how.

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Kirsty - posted on 05/09/2009

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my oldest 2s dad left me when my daughter was 11 months old and my son was almost 2 i was 21 n thought i wouldnt cope but you do it gets easier you just have to do your best for them and accept help from family n friends there 6 and 7 now and havent seen there dad once since he left i ended up getting pregnant again and the babies dad didnt want to know so i went through the pregnancy alone my mum was a great support to me tho my little girl is 3 now and they all see my partner as there dad and hes great with them . you think that ul not meet anyone who wants to take on kids but not all men are the same (long time to learn that lol) if there dad doesnt want to know its his loss you get to see them grow up and learn new things just do ur best by them x (dont spoil them tho to try and make up for him not being there i did do that and it was a nightmare they thought they could have what they wanted when they wanted ) its hard but ul get through it xx