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Ok, I’ve always been very attracted to men, and I still am. I can’t imagine dating or falling in love with another women. But my best friend seems to break these rules I have for my self.
I don’t think I fancy her, but I think shes incredible. I think about her alot and I do want to kiss her, but never went through the crush stage.
She always tells me she loves me and misses me (we live 200 miles apart so only see her maybe once a month). But I’m not sure whether I ‘love’ her just because the distance makes seeing each other extra special.
I don’t even mind being seen as Bi or whatever, because I know that I still love men, and I’m currently seeing a guy.
My friend though, just brings out feelings I’ve never had before! Shes ‘straight’ aswell, but we do joke about being lesbians as girls are easier to get on with, and she asked me to move to Bristol for her.
So does she fancy me maybe?
I’m 18, and straight (primarily) with no previous experience of this, so would love some advice from older people. Thanks guys x

Well, even if you can’t imagine yourself dating or falling in love with another woman, if you can imagine dating or falling in love with your friend, then you might be bi or lesbian. Your friend is a woman! You fancy her and want to kiss her, yet you’ve not been through the crush stage? That does actually sound like the crush stage to me. It’s not like you have to fancy all women, if you can’t imagine being with one, it might just be you’re not in love with them. I think it might be different if you fall in love.

Anyways, you are with a boyfriend now, so don’t mess that up, but if you aren’t happy with him, you should break up with him, and try dating women. Or maybe tell your friend how you feel.

Majority of black men chase, prefer and worship black women. Majority of white women chase, prefer and worship white men. Relationships between WW and BM will never last and is mostly based on sexual fetishes. When will you people understand that? Look at STATISTICS before stating we after all after those white gurls.

It’s white media that makes people think that. Black men and black women are never shown in relationships in the media. Except for the rare instance when the producer of the movie is black. So when white people see black men with white women in public they tend not to notice anything else. The media only focuses on black actors, rappers and athletes who are white white women. They’re usually dating them though. Most black NBA players are with black women. So are most black rappers and athletes. I think in general though most black men just date what’s available to them. But you know white people can’t function in this world without a good stereotype.

I have 2 friends who are gay and in different relationships. They are both relatively young (mid-late 20s) who are in serious relationships with much older men (early-mid 40s). Would it safe to assume that they are bottoms in those relationships, or are some much older men in gay relationships bottoms? I know it depends, but typically?

I am just curious, but I don’t want to just come out and ask such a personal question to my good friends.

Typically younger men in relationships with older men are bottoms. I am a bottom and am with an older man. But there are no hard and fast rules, and lots of older men are bottoms. I imagine I’ll still be a bottom when I’m old 🙂

My soon to be ex husband told me that we can talk to see if we can work things out…which was wonderful news for me but….He said it was gonna take a long time and he’s not sure if things will work. We don’t have a set plan and he said he’ll call when he wants to talk. Well so far he gives me the cold shoulder when we do talk. To me, he sounds depressed. There have been a few phone calls that have been good but I’m just really unsure on how to read him. I don’t get to see him very much due to his job. I just don’t know what to do, should I take it as it is and let him do all the calling or should I try to make contact with him? I don’t know what he wants or what to expect. We never cheated, stressful events lead to our separation. We also have a daughter that he has nothing to do with and that’s a little upsetting but I don’t know if it’s because he hasn’t been able to build a bond with her. She’s only one and this past week was the first time he has seen her since she was 2 months old. Any advice?

Hire a Private Investigator and never let him know. This is protect the family at all times

You need to sit down and talk in a private place with time to talk. Hug your partner while saying soft and sweet you love him sooo much and you want this to be forever, the love level needs to be higher.. When yes then kiss and make love. This will make your relationship very happy. A good life

Make sure NOT to have KIDS by ALL means. Take Birth Control and make sure to clean a lot because it tends to make takers of birth control gain weight.

If you notice he is not changing in the long run then I recommend leaving for both of your sakes. By this way he will change and you can move on and have a good life. This is Love

If he is cheating then Get a good lawyer with NO upfront fee and LOW fees. There are many lawyers, you need to call around. Make sure his expertise in divorce and he has a long good history. Get alimony and child support and you will be ok.

I like to just add because maybe I got your attention: After 7 years of perfect marriage then a child if desired.

If things are minor I usually just wouldn’t even give it a second thought. If it is major I just fix it the best way and that’s it. Maybe this will be a good method for you guys. Always reinforce it with Love

I hope you can be stay at home wife ([no school]events with guys around unless your husband is there 100%) that takes care of all the woman things and he is taking care of all the man things like lifting, fixing working outside and handling all those jerks, and if you do work outside you know what I mean. I hope you can be a home wife so the marriage can be a loving one with peace.

Always talking is good. Find a private place to talk with time to talk. Never teach, just inform if necessary and in a meek manner. Handle the kids and teach them with few words and listen well, pay attention to details. If some parts kids can’t be handled then inform the husband.

Be a good wife and make sure all the cooking and cleaning is done. Stay Fit, Smell Good, Dress well. Make sure to make love when ever either of you want.

Be meek. Quick to listen, slow to speak. Only tell him things when needed. Never teach him. If you do tell him something make sure it is kindly. Handle the kids, and if you notice you can’t for sure then inform him in a kindly way.

Hugs and kisses are always good any time, instead in front of the guys otherwise the guys might want some too. Make sure to let him know to keep the making love part private.

On another note: Try your best. Love like you never love before. This is the best way for love to come and start surrounding your life. May love be around you, through you and is you.

Love and the Good Life will come

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In my opinion I am dating a Russian guy who moved here 5 years ago. Russian guys differ from Western guys because Russian guys are gentlemen. He never let’s me hold my bags even if I insist, he will always carry my bag, or my coat, hangs it for me even after the honeymoon stages of our relationship. They are more honest the downside is they tend to be more rigid. Have the tendency to be a lot more emotionally cold although they have a very big warm heart. This is what I found compared to Western men..

Don’t bother with the question ‘why?’. If you do like him for him being so sweet and nice, just treasure it and enjoy having a caring guy around 🙂

PS.I don’t know what you mean by ’emotionally cold’ but it takes time to fall in love for someone, not every person is ready to throw hisfelf in love and give away his heart not being sure you won’t destroy it. Well from my experience, Im russian myself and used to live in the US for a while and was dating couple guys, and how much I was surprised that american guys basically since the first date told that they love Me with ALL their hearts!!! It is normal?? Well agree it’s a bit weird… It takes time to fell in love… Personally I can’t LOVE a random person I hardly know… I need to get to know him better first,,, I guess it’s same with your guy 🙂 and btw, my american male friends considered most American girls being greedy for money and over controlling…so prove your guy you are not like that, maybe he is just scared you’ll break his heart… Anyways good luck))

Can you guys help me out- I need a list of movies (also TV shows) featuring black men in relationships with white women (either having sexual relations, dating, kissing, etc…). Anything from the smallest mention (like a minor character shown in such a relationship) to the main point of the film will do. Thanks!! (Oh, and it doesn’t matter how obscure the movie/TV show is).

I am 23 and pregnant with my second child. My fiance’ and I have been engaged for about three months. He is 25. My question is WHY does he always flirt with other women in text messages and on facebook? And tried to hide it like he doesn’t even talk to girls. I KNOW he isn’t physically cheating, because we are always together, but I still don’t understand why he feel he needs to flirt with these other women? I dont get it. I most certainly do not flirt with other men!

me and my boyfriend are both 20 and have been together for almost 4 years.
my boyfriend talks on facebook and texts other girls and also tries to hide it from me. i’ve read quite a few of his messages to one girl and although he’s been back for the summer and hasnt seen her by the way he talks to her in messages he is definitely flirting with her, even though he says he isnt.
i think its just a guy thing; my boyfriend and i are together quite a lot but i think because flirting isnt physically cheating, its kind of a way to get that exciting feeling that you dont get in your day to day relationship? I do not flirt with other men either and i get quite angry with him for flirting but cant really do much..! you know he isnt physically cheating on you so i wouldn’t worry too much especially as you’re pregnant. i really do think its just a male thing! x