The Love of My Life

by CeCe
(Southeast, USA)

I have always been a successful, happy person. And when I met my first love, everything started that way, too. However, our relationship became rocky and we broke up several times... but I still know in my heart we are supposed to be together.

He is my soul mate.

We did not break up due to lack of love. On the contrary, it was a tiny personal difference that always became blown out of proportion. And I think during these arguments, our vibrations just pushed us away from each other. I feel as though our countless happy times should have outweighed those other times though.

I know he still loves me. But I also understand that I cannot change his reality. I want nothing more than to be with him, though. And if I cannot have him in time I am totally content just being on my own for quite a while.

If I ask the Universe for his specific return into my life, is that asking for the "what" or the "how?" I know I need to let the universe take care of the how. But what I want is his love.

Is being so specific in the relationship I want okay?

Is the Law of Attraction absolute in providing me whatever I want?

Because I am in love, and loving myself, and this person makes me happier than anything I've ever experienced.

And I hope to share this love again someday with him.

Law-of-Attraction-Guide Reply

The Law of Attraction is absolute about matching everything in your vibration, to every experience you have. Which also means that every experience you are wanting, can become your experience by consciously cooperating with this Law.

So if you want to experience a relationship of happiness, love and romance, you need to vibrate a relationship of happiness, love and romance, and through the Law of Attraction, all cooperative people, events and circumstances will be brought to you.

However, you cannot vibrate a relationship of happiness, love and romance, when you are being specific about a relationship you do not have, and you are emotionally feeling that lack of the relationship.

This is because your vibration would become one of not having the relationship, rather than having it, and as your vibration is one of not having, all cooperative people, events and circumstances will be brought to you to match that vibration.

To take a step back, I’d like to highlight a part of your question, which is the key to any and all relationships we have. In your question you said, “We did not break up due to lack of love. On the contrary, it was a tiny personal difference that always became blown out of proportion. And I think during these arguments, our vibrations just pushed us away from each other. I feel as though our countless happy times should have outweighed those other times though.”

It was not your vibration that pushed you away, it was your vibration that caused you to experience these tiny personal difference that always became blown out of proportion.

You see, by noticing and feeling about these tiny differences, you include these differences into your vibration, and as the Law of Attraction brings all cooperative people, events and circumstances to you, depending on your vibration, there would be more and more tiny differences to notice.

It would be my suggestion that instead of spending time, talking about, contemplating about and feeling emotional about any tiny differences, you would instead, spend time talking about, contemplating about and feeling emotional about, all the good feeling things in any and all of your relationships.

And as you include these good feelings into your vibration, all cooperative people, events and circumstances will be brought to you, for you to be able to experience all these good feelings in your vibration.

Will this get you back together?

It is impossible to say, but if you are both a matching vibration for these good feelings, then there is every chance it will. On the other hand, if you both are not a matching vibration for these good feelings, then the Law of Attraction could just as easily provide all cooperative people, events and circumstances to keep you apart.