American Mansy Podcast: Relationship Advice for Men | Dating Advice for Men | How do I get over herThu, 17 Apr 2014 12:00:00 +0000Fri, 13 Sep 2019 11:18:22 +0000Libsyn WebEngine 2.0https://www.facebook.com/americanmansy
enhttps://www.facebook.com/americanmansymansymail@americanmansy.com (mansymail@americanmansy.com)http://static.libsyn.com/p/assets/6/3/0/3/63037b10372b231a/AM-Official.jpgAmerican Mansy Podcast: Relationship Advice for Men | Dating Advice for Men | How do I get over herdating,datingadviceformen,marriage,men,relationshipadviceformen,relationships,sex,womenyesmansymail@americanmansy.comepisodicAMP 135 - How To Handle Rejection From WomenThu, 17 Apr 2014 12:00:00 +0000

Rejection is the most important thing in life. It forms you as a man. And only one reality exists: how you handle it. We see it as a bad experience when women reject us. We perceive ourselves as having defects. What you need to realize is that when a woman rejects you, it has nothing to do with you. You’re always quick to blame yourself. But the problem isn’t you. It’s her. You just don’t see this yet. Getting rejected by women is not only normal; it’s an opportunity. Recognize your uniqueness, your power, and that it makes you better, not worse.

In this episode:

- avoid turning rejection into fear

- the importance of surrounding yourself with people

- why you should not isolate yourself

- it’s all about her insecurities

- why she is unable to step up to your level of courage

How To Handle Rejection From Women. What you let people see is up to you.

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Rejection is the most important thing in life. It forms you as a man. And only one reality exists: how you handle it. We see it as a bad experience when women reject us. We perceive ourselves as having defects. What you need to realize is that when a woman rejects you, it has nothing to do with you. You’re always quick to blame yourself. But the problem isn’t you. It’s her. You just don’t see this yet. Getting rejected by women is not only normal; it’s an opportunity. Recognize your uniqueness, your power, and that it makes you better, not worse.

In this episode:

- avoid turning rejection into fear

- the importance of surrounding yourself with people

- why you should not isolate yourself

- it’s all about her insecurities

- why she is unable to step up to your level of courage

How To Handle Rejection From Women. What you let people see is up to you.

]]>27:57yespodcasts,dating,men,for,relationship,satire,culture,pop,advice,american,selfhelp,blogs,interests,mensAMP 134 - How To Raise A Two-Year-OldThu, 10 Apr 2014 12:00:00 +0000How you raise him is how he learns. Period. He learns what you teach him. That’s his development. American society likes to label and market things. You’ll hear all about the Terrible Twos. We’re here to separate reality from myth. The good news is that it’s easier and more rewarding than you think. In this episode:

- the real truth vs. mystery

- true cost vs. perceived cost

- how to deal with your wife

- why you can no longer have regrets

- how to be a parent instead of a coach

How To Raise A Two-Year-Old. Remember: you are in the driver’s seat.

]]>How you raise him is how he learns. Period. He learns what you teach him. That’s his development. American society likes to label and market things. You’ll hear all about the Terrible Twos. We’re here to separate reality from myth. The good news is that it’s easier and more rewarding than you think. In this episode:

- the real truth vs. mystery

- true cost vs. perceived cost

- how to deal with your wife

- why you can no longer have regrets

- how to be a parent instead of a coach

How To Raise A Two-Year-Old. Remember: you are in the driver’s seat.

]]>33:56yespodcasts,dating,men,for,relationship,satire,culture,pop,advice,american,selfhelp,blogs,interests,mensAMP 133 - Why Men Are Becoming WomenThu, 03 Apr 2014 12:00:00 +0000We are raising our boys to be afraid. The coddling of children has taken over grit, bravery and resolve. Are girls more allowed to fend for themselves while boys are over-mothered and overprotected? Is this why American men now are playing dress-up more than women? Are American men desperate for attention? Is vanity and over-sensitivity the new manliness? In this episode:

]]>We are raising our boys to be afraid. The coddling of children has taken over grit, bravery and resolve. Are girls more allowed to fend for themselves while boys are over-mothered and overprotected? Is this why American men now are playing dress-up more than women? Are American men desperate for attention? Is vanity and over-sensitivity the new manliness? In this episode:

]]>28:41yespodcasts,dating,men,for,relationship,satire,culture,pop,advice,american,selfhelp,blogs,interests,mensAMP 132 - What You Need To Do When You Turn FortyThu, 27 Mar 2014 12:00:00 +0000Forty is the old age of youth – and the youth of old age. Nobody wants to believe that he’s getting older. But it’s the eleventh hour. You have to take a final shot at the buzzer. It’s your last chance to make anything happen. And it starts with your health and your finances. You don’t get wiser with age. It’s just repetition. Improve your health. Improve your finances. And make the final push for success for the rest of your life. In this episode:

- the distinction between habits vs. necessity

- why you must drop your ego and go to the doctor

- the truth about life insurance

- you are not dead yet

What You Need To Do When You Turn Forty. Time isn’t money – it’s everything.

]]>Forty is the old age of youth – and the youth of old age. Nobody wants to believe that he’s getting older. But it’s the eleventh hour. You have to take a final shot at the buzzer. It’s your last chance to make anything happen. And it starts with your health and your finances. You don’t get wiser with age. It’s just repetition. Improve your health. Improve your finances. And make the final push for success for the rest of your life. In this episode:

- the distinction between habits vs. necessity

- why you must drop your ego and go to the doctor

- the truth about life insurance

- you are not dead yet

What You Need To Do When You Turn Forty. Time isn’t money – it’s everything.

]]>32:38yespodcasts,dating,men,for,relationship,satire,culture,pop,advice,american,selfhelp,blogs,interests,mensAMP 131 - Is Laziness The New Manliness?Thu, 20 Mar 2014 12:00:00 +0000Do you do whatever you want? Do you call the shots and make your own way in the world? We hope so. So long as it’s not at the expense of yourself. There’s a widespread misconception of manhood in American culture. It’s this: My mind and body is a rental car and I’m going to treat it as such. Does this make you George Clooney? Frank Sinatra? No. It makes you careless, negligent and lazy. Because the greatest hallmark of manliness is self-control. In this episode:

- why you’re insecure about men with self-control

- the selfishness of self-neglect when you have kids

- peer pressure ends in adolescence

- why self-control is the ultimate test

Is Laziness The New Manliness? If it is, America is in bigger trouble than we had thought.

]]>Do you do whatever you want? Do you call the shots and make your own way in the world? We hope so. So long as it’s not at the expense of yourself. There’s a widespread misconception of manhood in American culture. It’s this: My mind and body is a rental car and I’m going to treat it as such. Does this make you George Clooney? Frank Sinatra? No. It makes you careless, negligent and lazy. Because the greatest hallmark of manliness is self-control. In this episode:

- why you’re insecure about men with self-control

- the selfishness of self-neglect when you have kids

- peer pressure ends in adolescence

- why self-control is the ultimate test

Is Laziness The New Manliness? If it is, America is in bigger trouble than we had thought.

]]>31:22yespodcasts,dating,men,for,relationship,satire,culture,pop,advice,american,selfhelp,blogs,interests,mensAMP 130 - What To Do If She's A SociopathThu, 13 Mar 2014 12:00:00 +0000Is ADHD crap? Is saying you’re bi-polar an excuse? Does erratic, nut-job behavior always require a label? At some point in your life, you will become psycho in a relationship. It stems from Good Guy Syndrome. Women become psycho also. The good news is that you can recognize it. The bad news is that you will become psycho too. Our show today is inspired by a listener’s email. In this episode:

- how to recognize the problem

- should you take the bait

- how far is too far

- why are you attracted to these women?

What To Do If She’s A Sociopath. Are you just along for the ride?

]]>Is ADHD crap? Is saying you’re bi-polar an excuse? Does erratic, nut-job behavior always require a label? At some point in your life, you will become psycho in a relationship. It stems from Good Guy Syndrome. Women become psycho also. The good news is that you can recognize it. The bad news is that you will become psycho too. Our show today is inspired by a listener’s email. In this episode:

- how to recognize the problem

- should you take the bait

- how far is too far

- why are you attracted to these women?

What To Do If She’s A Sociopath. Are you just along for the ride?

]]>30:58yespodcasts,dating,men,for,relationship,satire,culture,pop,advice,american,selfhelp,blogs,interests,mensAMP 129 - Have You Relapsed Back Into Mansy?Fri, 07 Mar 2014 12:00:00 +0000You thought you had beaten it. You listened to this podcast and thought you had gotten rid of Mansy forever. Now, you’re in a new relationship. Bad habits and old patterns have fired up again. In a long-term relationship or marriage, Mansy has reared its head. Again. How did this happen? How did something that was so clear become so central in your life again? The bad news – the temptation for Mansy always exists. The good news – your daily vigilance can keep it in remission forever. But it requires recognition, effort and hard work. And it’s important to recognize the signs of Mansy’s return. In this episode:

- Mansy’s life source is laziness

- inaction always brings about bad judgment

- there’s no greater fix than telling the truth

- the number one sign that you have relapsed

- how Uncle Todd & Dave The Masshole almost relapsed themselves

Have You Relapsed Back Into Mansy? It’s not the end of the world – only the end of freedom and happiness.

]]>You thought you had beaten it. You listened to this podcast and thought you had gotten rid of Mansy forever. Now, you’re in a new relationship. Bad habits and old patterns have fired up again. In a long-term relationship or marriage, Mansy has reared its head. Again. How did this happen? How did something that was so clear become so central in your life again? The bad news – the temptation for Mansy always exists. The good news – your daily vigilance can keep it in remission forever. But it requires recognition, effort and hard work. And it’s important to recognize the signs of Mansy’s return. In this episode:

- Mansy’s life source is laziness

- inaction always brings about bad judgment

- there’s no greater fix than telling the truth

- the number one sign that you have relapsed

- how Uncle Todd & Dave The Masshole almost relapsed themselves

Have You Relapsed Back Into Mansy? It’s not the end of the world – only the end of freedom and happiness.

]]>27:42yespodcasts,dating,men,for,relationship,satire,culture,pop,advice,american,selfhelp,blogs,interests,mensAMP 128 - Why Men And Women Should Live Apart When They’re TogetherThu, 27 Feb 2014 13:00:00 +0000Nagging vs. Counter-nagging. Nothing is perfect. Effort goes unnoticed. Contributions to living arrangements are criticized. Maybe we’ve gotten it wrong. Maybe men and women can’t get along. Maybe we’ve all done the best we can. So it’s time to live apart – even when we’re together. Forget the Man Cave – how about a Man House? Duplexes for everyone. Compromise doesn’t work. There’s a separation of Church and State in the United States. Maybe there should be a separation of Men and Women when they’re together – and the dinner table is Switzerland. In this episode:

- if you can’t get it right according to her, maybe you shouldn’t be there

- is it time for tunnels, requisition orders and written requests?

- have we ultimately failed to communicate?

- has it ever been a good idea?

Why Men And Women Should Live Apart When They’re Together. Antarctica is lovely this time of year.

]]>Nagging vs. Counter-nagging. Nothing is perfect. Effort goes unnoticed. Contributions to living arrangements are criticized. Maybe we’ve gotten it wrong. Maybe men and women can’t get along. Maybe we’ve all done the best we can. So it’s time to live apart – even when we’re together. Forget the Man Cave – how about a Man House? Duplexes for everyone. Compromise doesn’t work. There’s a separation of Church and State in the United States. Maybe there should be a separation of Men and Women when they’re together – and the dinner table is Switzerland. In this episode:

- if you can’t get it right according to her, maybe you shouldn’t be there

- is it time for tunnels, requisition orders and written requests?

- have we ultimately failed to communicate?

- has it ever been a good idea?

Why Men And Women Should Live Apart When They’re Together. Antarctica is lovely this time of year.

]]>23:55yespodcasts,dating,men,for,relationship,satire,culture,pop,advice,american,selfhelp,blogs,interests,mensAMP 127 - Confidence, Hard Work, Talent: Your Mandate For SuccessThu, 20 Feb 2014 13:00:00 +0000Talent is useless. That’s right. Stories of wasted talent fill the graveyard. In and of itself, talent cannot flourish without confidence and hard work. Great talents know this. Confidence and hard work are the catalysts – talent seals the deal. From Michael Jordan to Michael Phelps, they achieved world-class status through confidence and hard work first. This also applies to us – ordinary people. This mandate leads to success. In this episode:

]]>Talent is useless. That’s right. Stories of wasted talent fill the graveyard. In and of itself, talent cannot flourish without confidence and hard work. Great talents know this. Confidence and hard work are the catalysts – talent seals the deal. From Michael Jordan to Michael Phelps, they achieved world-class status through confidence and hard work first. This also applies to us – ordinary people. This mandate leads to success. In this episode:

]]>29:19yespodcasts,dating,men,for,relationship,satire,culture,pop,advice,american,selfhelp,blogs,interests,mensAMP 126 - Why American Men Need Arranged MarriagesThu, 13 Feb 2014 13:00:00 +0000Americans expect perfection and happiness. We have too many choices. The rest of the world expects tragedy; the United States is surprised by it. The same is true with Mansy and his relationships. American men are never happy with what they have. They’re always looking around the corner to upgrade. They look for defects where none exist. With a fifty percent divorce rate for people under thirty, it’s time to accept that free will and choice have failed. We don’t know what we want. And divorce is too easy. In this episode:

- the astonishing divorce rates in the US

- Mansy deal breakers for men

- why American men don’t know how to be happy

- why we must grow up and accept imperfection

Why American Men Need Arranged Marriages. The Victoria’s Secret catalog is a fiction too.

]]>Americans expect perfection and happiness. We have too many choices. The rest of the world expects tragedy; the United States is surprised by it. The same is true with Mansy and his relationships. American men are never happy with what they have. They’re always looking around the corner to upgrade. They look for defects where none exist. With a fifty percent divorce rate for people under thirty, it’s time to accept that free will and choice have failed. We don’t know what we want. And divorce is too easy. In this episode:

- the astonishing divorce rates in the US

- Mansy deal breakers for men

- why American men don’t know how to be happy

- why we must grow up and accept imperfection

Why American Men Need Arranged Marriages. The Victoria’s Secret catalog is a fiction too.

]]>26:39yespodcasts,dating,men,for,relationship,satire,culture,pop,advice,american,selfhelp,blogs,interests,mensAMP 125 - Why You Should Never Ask About Her PastThu, 06 Feb 2014 13:00:00 +0000Guess what – she’s slept with other people. You know this. They were with her before you. And it means nothing. When you ask her or investigate her sexual past, you only reveal your own insecurities. You’re not in competition with old boyfriends. They’re gone. What happened in the bedroom with them does not exist anymore. She’s with you now. Healthy relationships only exist when the past remains in the past. In this episode:

- your stock with her plummets when you show your insecurities about her sexual past

- become the person of her future

- you stand to gain nothing

- she will only question your manhood

Why You Should Never Ask About Her Past. The more you ask about the past, the quicker you will join it.

]]>Guess what – she’s slept with other people. You know this. They were with her before you. And it means nothing. When you ask her or investigate her sexual past, you only reveal your own insecurities. You’re not in competition with old boyfriends. They’re gone. What happened in the bedroom with them does not exist anymore. She’s with you now. Healthy relationships only exist when the past remains in the past. In this episode:

- your stock with her plummets when you show your insecurities about her sexual past

- become the person of her future

- you stand to gain nothing

- she will only question your manhood

Why You Should Never Ask About Her Past. The more you ask about the past, the quicker you will join it.

]]>24:30yessatire,popculture,americanculture,datingadviceformen,relationshipadviceformen,selfhelpformen,adviceformen,podcastsformen,blogsformen,mensinterests,relationshipadvicepodcastsAMP 124 - Why No Problem Is Bigger Than You AreFri, 31 Jan 2014 12:00:00 +0000American men love to live in drama. They bring it on themselves. But when it comes to problem solving, they forget one fundamental thing – the task at hand. Whether it’s yourself, your relationship or your family, when problems big and small arise you must remember that it’s never bigger than you are. It’s not about being tough or macho; it’s about manning up and handling reality. In this episode:

- why you must remove emotion out of the equation

- don’t live in the problem – solve it

- she will only bring you down if you allow it

- family cannot dictate your life

Why No Problem Is Bigger Than You Are. Your happiness is a choice.

]]>American men love to live in drama. They bring it on themselves. But when it comes to problem solving, they forget one fundamental thing – the task at hand. Whether it’s yourself, your relationship or your family, when problems big and small arise you must remember that it’s never bigger than you are. It’s not about being tough or macho; it’s about manning up and handling reality. In this episode:

- why you must remove emotion out of the equation

- don’t live in the problem – solve it

- she will only bring you down if you allow it

- family cannot dictate your life

Why No Problem Is Bigger Than You Are. Your happiness is a choice.

]]>25:41yespodcasts,dating,men,for,relationship,satire,culture,pop,advice,american,selfhelp,blogs,interests,mensAMP 123 - How To Handle Her JealousyFri, 24 Jan 2014 12:00:00 +0000When a man lies, a woman thinks it’s the truth. When he tells the truth, she thinks it’s a lie. Men can’t win most of the time. But when it comes to her unfounded jealousy, he can. A woman can be jealous if she has probable cause. But if she’s jealous for no reason whatsoever, there’s a serious problem. If she has trust issues, you must recognize this early. Most men are monogamous, focused and not up to something. But if her ridiculous, groundless jealousy gets in the way, you must handle it now. In this episode:

- the three steps on how to handle her jealousy

- why you shouldn’t change your behavior for her fictional reality

- you know the truth whether she accepts it or not

- how to recognize the signs early

- why six months is the deadline

How To Handle Her Jealousy. It’s easier than you think.

]]>When a man lies, a woman thinks it’s the truth. When he tells the truth, she thinks it’s a lie. Men can’t win most of the time. But when it comes to her unfounded jealousy, he can. A woman can be jealous if she has probable cause. But if she’s jealous for no reason whatsoever, there’s a serious problem. If she has trust issues, you must recognize this early. Most men are monogamous, focused and not up to something. But if her ridiculous, groundless jealousy gets in the way, you must handle it now. In this episode:

- the three steps on how to handle her jealousy

- why you shouldn’t change your behavior for her fictional reality

- you know the truth whether she accepts it or not

- how to recognize the signs early

- why six months is the deadline

How To Handle Her Jealousy. It’s easier than you think.

]]>28:23yespodcasts,dating,men,for,relationship,satire,culture,pop,advice,american,selfhelp,blogs,interests,mensAMP 122 - What To Do When Your Mother Hates Your GirlfriendFri, 17 Jan 2014 13:00:00 +0000One of the most pivotal rites of passage in a relationship is introducing your girlfriend to your mother. The pressure is on her – and you. There are many pitfalls and landmines along the way. Will they compete for the top position? Are you the number one son? Is your girlfriend a princess ready to cause a problem? And if your mother hates her or doesn’t like her, are you ready to man-up and take control? Whose side do you take? And what role do you play? In this episode:

- why you must prepare your girlfriend before the visit

- why you must accept the truth about your relationship with your mother

- first impressions are everything

- why you must give the illusion of power

- when your girlfriend is the true problem

What To Do When Your Mother Hates Your Girlfriend. A game plan and mutual respect are essential.

]]>One of the most pivotal rites of passage in a relationship is introducing your girlfriend to your mother. The pressure is on her – and you. There are many pitfalls and landmines along the way. Will they compete for the top position? Are you the number one son? Is your girlfriend a princess ready to cause a problem? And if your mother hates her or doesn’t like her, are you ready to man-up and take control? Whose side do you take? And what role do you play? In this episode:

- why you must prepare your girlfriend before the visit

- why you must accept the truth about your relationship with your mother

- first impressions are everything

- why you must give the illusion of power

- when your girlfriend is the true problem

What To Do When Your Mother Hates Your Girlfriend. A game plan and mutual respect are essential.

]]>29:51yespodcasts,dating,men,for,relationship,satire,culture,pop,advice,american,selfhelp,blogs,interests,mensAMP 121 - Why It Has And Always Will Be A GameThu, 19 Dec 2013 13:00:00 +0000When it comes to relationships, the game never ends. In childhood, we leverage the game to get what we want. In adolescence into our twenties, we mistake passion for the architecture behind everything we do. In marriage, the game changes from pursuit and drama and becomes about the nest. Different parameters, different expectations, yet still a game. You might think you have found the most fundamentally compatible person on the planet. But awareness and having a game plan are essential. Because it always has, and always will be a game. In this episode:

- how the game starts in infancy

- if you didn’t date in high school, you will set yourself back years

- men believe in true love more than women do

- if you don’t participate in marriage, your wife will own it

- in marriage, you must hit the reset button and prepare for the new game

Why It Has And Always Will Be A Game. The best way to fight a war is by preventing it.

]]>When it comes to relationships, the game never ends. In childhood, we leverage the game to get what we want. In adolescence into our twenties, we mistake passion for the architecture behind everything we do. In marriage, the game changes from pursuit and drama and becomes about the nest. Different parameters, different expectations, yet still a game. You might think you have found the most fundamentally compatible person on the planet. But awareness and having a game plan are essential. Because it always has, and always will be a game. In this episode:

- how the game starts in infancy

- if you didn’t date in high school, you will set yourself back years

- men believe in true love more than women do

- if you don’t participate in marriage, your wife will own it

- in marriage, you must hit the reset button and prepare for the new game

Why It Has And Always Will Be A Game. The best way to fight a war is by preventing it.

]]>34:24yespodcasts,dating,men,for,relationship,satire,culture,pop,advice,american,selfhelp,blogs,interests,mensAMP 120 - Why American Men Should Stop Having SexThu, 12 Dec 2013 13:00:00 +0000Can you handle sex? Can you handle women? From the time we’re teenagers, through our twenties and up until we’re married, we think we’re ‘the man.’ In our teens, we’ll stick it anywhere, put it anywhere, put anything on it. In our twenties, whether we will admit it or not, we were always looking around for an upgrade. Finally, in a long-term relationship or marriage, we still think we ‘got it,’ and might make the dumb mistake of creating a second emotional connection with a woman. Is being womanizer a sign of strength or insecurity? Are you desperate for attention? Have you thought about the consequences? In this episode:

- think before you act

- why you must be selective

- one-night stands become a problem whether you like it or not

- cheating creates the same problems twice over

- do you prefer your insecurities over your dignity?

Why American Men Should Stop Having Sex. This episode is not anti-sex – it’s anti-stupidity.

]]>Can you handle sex? Can you handle women? From the time we’re teenagers, through our twenties and up until we’re married, we think we’re ‘the man.’ In our teens, we’ll stick it anywhere, put it anywhere, put anything on it. In our twenties, whether we will admit it or not, we were always looking around for an upgrade. Finally, in a long-term relationship or marriage, we still think we ‘got it,’ and might make the dumb mistake of creating a second emotional connection with a woman. Is being womanizer a sign of strength or insecurity? Are you desperate for attention? Have you thought about the consequences? In this episode:

- think before you act

- why you must be selective

- one-night stands become a problem whether you like it or not

- cheating creates the same problems twice over

- do you prefer your insecurities over your dignity?

Why American Men Should Stop Having Sex. This episode is not anti-sex – it’s anti-stupidity.

]]>28:05yespodcasts,dating,men,for,relationship,satire,culture,pop,advice,american,selfhelp,blogs,interests,mensAMP 119 - Time To Grow Up And Be A DadFri, 06 Dec 2013 13:00:00 +0000You’re a divorced father. The marriage or relationship didn’t work out. But you both had children. And there’s a particular kind of divorced father that’s still trying to work his ‘mojo,’ that he’s still ‘got it,’ that he’s still looking for the love of his life. He’s out in the dating scene looking for new, exciting options when it comes to women. The reality: You’re a dad. Your top priority is your children. Selfishness is at the bottom of the list. Forget about dating. Forget about falling in love. This is the province of teenagers. You never met ‘The One.’ The love of your life is your children. In this episode:

- time towards chasing women is time away from your kids

- a divorced dad is never a swinging single

- time towards children and career will bring about the right woman

- setting an example for your son and daughter is more important than getting ass

- how to use diplomacy with their mother

- how to manage disappointment

Time To Grow Up And Be A Dad. You will soon be raising teenagers – stop acting like one.

]]>You’re a divorced father. The marriage or relationship didn’t work out. But you both had children. And there’s a particular kind of divorced father that’s still trying to work his ‘mojo,’ that he’s still ‘got it,’ that he’s still looking for the love of his life. He’s out in the dating scene looking for new, exciting options when it comes to women. The reality: You’re a dad. Your top priority is your children. Selfishness is at the bottom of the list. Forget about dating. Forget about falling in love. This is the province of teenagers. You never met ‘The One.’ The love of your life is your children. In this episode:

- time towards chasing women is time away from your kids

- a divorced dad is never a swinging single

- time towards children and career will bring about the right woman

- setting an example for your son and daughter is more important than getting ass

- how to use diplomacy with their mother

- how to manage disappointment

Time To Grow Up And Be A Dad. You will soon be raising teenagers – stop acting like one.

]]>29:21yespodcasts,dating,men,for,relationship,satire,culture,pop,advice,american,selfhelp,blogs,interests,mensAMP 118 - How To Prevent Women From Changing YouFri, 29 Nov 2013 13:00:00 +0000Three things are certain in life: death, taxes and a woman trying to change you. Her attempts aren’t something you can change. What is within your control, however, is the degree to which you allow your wife or girlfriend to change you. There are extreme cases and not-so-extreme cases. On the one hand, there are women who want to completely change who and what you are. On the other, there are women who want you to improve. Sometimes it’s for your own benefit, but mostly it’s for their benefit. What you have to determine – and recognize – is when and how this starts, and how to develop a game plan you can manage. In this episode:

the distinction between compromise and surrender

the red flag of her changing your religion, career and your relationship with your family

the difference between her passing judgment and wanting you to be better

the importance of speaking up

the truth about your life vs. her truth about your life

How To Prevent Women From Changing You. It’s your life – only you have the final word.

]]>Three things are certain in life: death, taxes and a woman trying to change you. Her attempts aren’t something you can change. What is within your control, however, is the degree to which you allow your wife or girlfriend to change you. There are extreme cases and not-so-extreme cases. On the one hand, there are women who want to completely change who and what you are. On the other, there are women who want you to improve. Sometimes it’s for your own benefit, but mostly it’s for their benefit. What you have to determine – and recognize – is when and how this starts, and how to develop a game plan you can manage. In this episode:

the distinction between compromise and surrender

the red flag of her changing your religion, career and your relationship with your family

the difference between her passing judgment and wanting you to be better

the importance of speaking up

the truth about your life vs. her truth about your life

How To Prevent Women From Changing You. It’s your life – only you have the final word.

]]>30:36yespodcasts,dating,men,for,relationship,satire,culture,pop,advice,american,selfhelp,blogs,interests,mensAMP 117 - Why Meeting Better Women Starts With YouFri, 22 Nov 2013 13:00:00 +0000Everybody wants to upgrade. You’re tired of second-rate, and settling for second-best. You want to meet better women. You won’t achieve this, however, by going to better bars or more upscale nightclubs. The only way to meet better women is by focusing on you. This is the longer, more difficult road. It will take months, even years. But the payoff is greater. Nothing worthwhile is easy, or happens overnight. You need to have higher standards for yourself. This is a process; it’s not winning the lottery. And you must start today. In this episode:

you can no longer seek only drama and sex

to upgrade with women, you must know what you want from life

you must identify old patterns and trends and not repeat them

why having responsibility and accountability about your past is essential

your higher standards begin with you

Why Meeting Better Women Starts With You. And women have nothing to do with it.

]]>Everybody wants to upgrade. You’re tired of second-rate, and settling for second-best. You want to meet better women. You won’t achieve this, however, by going to better bars or more upscale nightclubs. The only way to meet better women is by focusing on you. This is the longer, more difficult road. It will take months, even years. But the payoff is greater. Nothing worthwhile is easy, or happens overnight. You need to have higher standards for yourself. This is a process; it’s not winning the lottery. And you must start today. In this episode:

you can no longer seek only drama and sex

to upgrade with women, you must know what you want from life

you must identify old patterns and trends and not repeat them

why having responsibility and accountability about your past is essential

your higher standards begin with you

Why Meeting Better Women Starts With You. And women have nothing to do with it.

]]>32:45yespodcasts,dating,men,for,relationship,satire,culture,pop,advice,american,selfhelp,blogs,interests,mensAMP 116 - Top Ten Signs Your Relationship Is WorkingThu, 14 Nov 2013 13:00:00 +0000We’ve told Mansy many things when it comes to women and relationships – what to look out for, what to avoid, and what to put into practice. This is not to say that we’re perfect, that we don’t make mistakes. But to have a successful relationship is not a science. You just know that you’re in a good one. It should be fun, effortless, and improve the quality of your life. Perhaps enduring many bad relationships might make it difficult to recognize the virtues of a good one. We outline the ten things that should be happening – a halftime checklist. In this episode:

the importance of no pressure

mutual respect is a non-issue

the phenomenon of involuntary happiness

lack of fear of the truth

why love means less than you think

The Top Ten Signs Your Relationship Is Working. It’s not as difficult as you may think.

]]>We’ve told Mansy many things when it comes to women and relationships – what to look out for, what to avoid, and what to put into practice. This is not to say that we’re perfect, that we don’t make mistakes. But to have a successful relationship is not a science. You just know that you’re in a good one. It should be fun, effortless, and improve the quality of your life. Perhaps enduring many bad relationships might make it difficult to recognize the virtues of a good one. We outline the ten things that should be happening – a halftime checklist. In this episode:

the importance of no pressure

mutual respect is a non-issue

the phenomenon of involuntary happiness

lack of fear of the truth

why love means less than you think

The Top Ten Signs Your Relationship Is Working. It’s not as difficult as you may think.

]]>25:57yespodcasts,dating,men,for,relationship,satire,culture,pop,advice,american,selfhelp,blogs,interests,mensAMP 115 - Why You Must Avoid The Male CheerleaderThu, 07 Nov 2013 13:00:00 +0000Like the Male Cheerleader at a college football game, the real-life Male Cheerleader is clueless. He’s not Mansy’s ally or his enemy – he’s just useless. Whether Mansy is dealing with a breakup, a current relationship, or someone he might be interested in, the Male Cheerleader always gives the worst advice. Usually a good friend of Mansy who is happily married, the Male Cheerleader only wants the best for Mansy. Because he’s happily married and the pinnacle of what Mansy wants for his life, the Male Cheerleader has been out of the game for so long he no longer lives in reality. He tells Mansy what he wants to hear – when Mansy should always be seeking out the truth. In this episode:

-Why self-neglect and self-imprisonment are Mansy’s hallmarks

-The married friend you don’t want to listen to

-The trap of ignoring the truth

-How to identify the Male Cheerleader

-Solutions to transform your future

Why You Must Avoid The Male Cheerleader. Time to wake up and smell reality.

]]>Like the Male Cheerleader at a college football game, the real-life Male Cheerleader is clueless. He’s not Mansy’s ally or his enemy – he’s just useless. Whether Mansy is dealing with a breakup, a current relationship, or someone he might be interested in, the Male Cheerleader always gives the worst advice. Usually a good friend of Mansy who is happily married, the Male Cheerleader only wants the best for Mansy. Because he’s happily married and the pinnacle of what Mansy wants for his life, the Male Cheerleader has been out of the game for so long he no longer lives in reality. He tells Mansy what he wants to hear – when Mansy should always be seeking out the truth. In this episode:

- Why self-neglect and self-imprisonment are Mansy’s hallmarks

- The married friend you don’t want to listen to

- The trap of ignoring the truth

- How to identify the Male Cheerleader

- Solutions to transform your future

Why You Must Avoid The Male Cheerleader. Time to wake up and smell reality.

]]>21:46yespodcasts,dating,men,for,relationship,satire,culture,pop,advice,american,selfhelp,blogs,interests,mensAMP 114 - Movember Is Here: De-Mansify Your Moustache With Dr. Allan PeterkinFri, 01 Nov 2013 17:00:00 +0000Movember is upon us – Prostate and Testicular Cancer awareness month. Men around the world will grow a moustache to show their solidarity and support for this fantastic cause. And there’s no better guest to have on American Mansy Podcast to kick off Movember than facial hair expert and pognologist Dr. Allan Peterkin. Dr. Peterkin is known for his three bestselling books on facial hair: One Thousand Beards: A Cultural History of Facial Hair, The Bearded Gentleman: The Style Guide to Shaving Face (co-written with Nick Burns), and One Thousand Mustaches: A Cultural History of The Mo. He has also contributed or been featured in The New York Times, The New Yorker, Sports Illustrated, The Wall Street Journal, Men’s Health, GQ and Esquire as well as the documentary Mansome, directed by Morgan Spurlock (Super Size Me).

In this episode, he discusses how to attract a mate (and how not to) via your facial hair; a brief history of the Mo from ancient Egypt to present day; what your facial hair says about you; how to best represent yourself for Movember. Funny, informative and surprising, this interview is not to be missed.

]]>Movember is upon us – Prostate and Testicular Cancer awareness month. Men around the world will grow a moustache to show their solidarity and support for this fantastic cause. And there’s no better guest to have on American Mansy Podcast to kick off Movember than facial hair expert and pognologist Dr. Allan Peterkin. Dr. Peterkin is known for his three bestselling books on facial hair: One Thousand Beards: A Cultural History of Facial Hair, The Bearded Gentleman: The Style Guide to Shaving Face (co-written with Nick Burns), and One Thousand Mustaches: A Cultural History of The Mo. He has also contributed or been featured in The New York Times, The New Yorker, Sports Illustrated, The Wall Street Journal, Men’s Health, GQ and Esquire as well as the documentary Mansome, directed by Morgan Spurlock (Super Size Me).

In this episode, he discusses how to attract a mate (and how not to) via your facial hair; a brief history of the Mo from ancient Egypt to present day; what your facial hair says about you; how to best represent yourself for Movember. Funny, informative and surprising, this interview is not to be missed.

]]>35:22yespodcasts,dating,men,for,relationship,satire,culture,pop,advice,american,selfhelp,blogs,interests,mensAMP 113 - She Just Dumped You On Your Ass: What Now?Thu, 24 Oct 2013 12:00:00 +0000Mansy never saw it coming. She dumped you on your ass when you thought everything was great. She blindsided you when you thought you would never meet anyone else like her. And Mansy is left hung out to dry. How to face family and friends? How to conduct yourself at work? What do you say when people ask about her? Mansy must learn damage control when his life changes overnight. In this episode we outline the importance of:

Communication shutdown

Destroying the evidence

Showing class in public

Defense and counter-defense

Playing to your strengths

Mansy Deep Six prevention

She Just Dumped You On Your Ass: What Now? You’ve been fired. And you owe her nothing.

]]>Mansy never saw it coming. She dumped you on your ass when you thought everything was great. She blindsided you when you thought you would never meet anyone else like her. And Mansy is left hung out to dry. How to face family and friends? How to conduct yourself at work? What do you say when people ask about her? Mansy must learn damage control when his life changes overnight. In this episode we outline the importance of:

Communication shutdown

Destroying the evidence

Showing class in public

Defense and counter-defense

Playing to your strengths

Mansy Deep Six prevention

She Just Dumped You On Your Ass: What Now? You’ve been fired. And you owe her nothing.

]]>38:45yespodcasts,dating,men,for,relationship,satire,culture,pop,advice,american,selfhelp,blogs,interests,mensAMP 112 - If You Can’t Afford Her Tastes, You Can’t Afford HerThu, 17 Oct 2013 12:00:00 +0000Like most Americans, Mansy expects to win the lottery. But Mansy lives in Fantasy Land. He always lives beyond his means, never in reality. And when Mansy dates women outside his budget, he will do anything – anything – to keep her. Whether it’s dinners, vacations, clothes, purses, shoes, even cars, Mansy thinks that it’s the manly thing do by giving her the moon. But it’s not only her tastes that will cost him – it’s what’s between her ears. Not only is she materialistic, her brain is defective also. She’s an emotional disaster. If she’s high-maintenance financially, she’s high-maintenance emotionally. In this episode:

- why Mansy does this in the first place

- the psychology of spending

- she always has other things going on behind the scenes

- what Mansy needs to do to protect himself

If You Can’t Afford Her Tastes, You Can’t Afford Her. She doesn’t even know who you really are.

]]>Like most Americans, Mansy expects to win the lottery. But Mansy lives in Fantasy Land. He always lives beyond his means, never in reality. And when Mansy dates women outside his budget, he will do anything – anything – to keep her. Whether it’s dinners, vacations, clothes, purses, shoes, even cars, Mansy thinks that it’s the manly thing do by giving her the moon. But it’s not only her tastes that will cost him – it’s what’s between her ears. Not only is she materialistic, her brain is defective also. She’s an emotional disaster. If she’s high-maintenance financially, she’s high-maintenance emotionally. In this episode:

- why Mansy does this in the first place

- the psychology of spending

- she always has other things going on behind the scenes

- what Mansy needs to do to protect himself

If You Can’t Afford Her Tastes, You Can’t Afford Her. She doesn’t even know who you really are.

]]>32:07yespodcasts,dating,men,for,relationship,satire,culture,pop,advice,american,selfhelp,blogs,interests,mensAMP 111 - Are You The Apology Machine For Her Actions?Thu, 10 Oct 2013 12:00:00 +0000Have you ever begged someone to please take you back? Have you ever brainwashed yourself into excusing her mistakes? Are you that desperate to not be alone? Then you might be the apology machine for her actions. You have no control over yourself in relationships. She has done or said things that are hurtful to you that you eventually apologize for. Why? Are there no consequences for bad behavior? Does she have no accountability? Are you a willing doormat to the world?

In this episode:

-if you have no standards, you have no backbone

-if she constantly tests you, she doesn’t like you

-why you’re afraid to speak up

-the person who loves less has all the power

Are You The Apology Machine For Her Actions? If so, it’s time to kick her to the curb.

]]>Have you ever begged someone to please take you back? Have you ever brainwashed yourself into excusing her mistakes? Are you that desperate to not be alone? Then you might be the apology machine for her actions. You have no control over yourself in relationships. She has done or said things that are hurtful to you that you eventually apologize for. Why? Are there no consequences for bad behavior? Does she have no accountability? Are you a willing doormat to the world?

In this episode:

- if you have no standards, you have no backbone

- if she constantly tests you, she doesn’t like you

- why you’re afraid to speak up

- the person who loves less has all the power

Are You The Apology Machine For Her Actions? If so, it’s time to kick her to the curb.

]]>28:31yespodcasts,dating,men,for,relationship,satire,culture,pop,advice,american,selfhelp,blogs,interests,mensAMP 110 - How To Be A New Father With No HelpFri, 04 Oct 2013 12:00:00 +0000

When you drive away from the hospital as a new dad, you cross a new frontier. Life will never be the same. You must set new goals, new benchmarks for yourself that you must hit on a daily basis. And it’s just the three of you – baby, your wife or girlfriend, and you. Alone. All of your family is out of town. Which friends do you listen to? What must you accept and ignore? When you have nothing to go on, what direction should you go in? After eighteen months of fatherhood, Dave The Masshole shares all of the things you need to know – and to avoid – when it comes to being a new father. In this episode:

-How uncertainty strengthens the foundation of your family

-How your instincts always trump logic

-How to manage the perception of your friends

-Why you must look after your wife’s well being

-The importance of mom taking breaks

-Why you think you aren’t doing enough

-Why you should never forget to eat

-The importance of taking care of yourself

How To Be A Father With No Help. You must show strength at all times. Mansy isn’t an option.

]]>When you drive away from the hospital as a new dad, you cross a new frontier. Life will never be the same. You must set new goals, new benchmarks for yourself that you must hit on a daily basis. And it’s just the three of you – baby, your wife or girlfriend, and you. Alone. All of your family is out of town. Which friends do you listen to? What must you accept and ignore? When you have nothing to go on, what direction should you go in? After eighteen months of fatherhood, Dave The Masshole shares all of the things you need to know – and to avoid – when it comes to being a new father. In this episode:

- How uncertainty strengthens the foundation of your family

- How your instincts always trump logic

- How to manage the perception of your friends

- Why you must look after your wife’s well being

- The importance of mom taking breaks

- Why you think you aren’t doing enough

- Why you should never forget to eat

- The importance of taking care of yourself

How To Be A Father With No Help. You must show strength at all times. Mansy isn’t an option.

]]>37:52yespodcasts,dating,men,for,relationship,satire,culture,pop,advice,american,selfhelp,blogs,interests,mensAMP 109 - How To Handle Extreme In-LawsFri, 27 Sep 2013 12:00:00 +0000Can you ever win the battle with your in-laws? The answer is yes. Fresh from his recent trip to Eastern Europe, Dave The Masshole shares the most indispensible tips you need when visiting your in-laws. From how to stand your ground as a father, a husband and a man, Dave’s tips on how to handle your in-laws are essential listening. In this episode:

The fine line of diplomacy

What to do when caught in the crossfire

How to defend your wife

How to manage extreme in-laws as a father

The true role of grandparents

Why you can’t be afraid to make them mad

How to manage future visits

Why you must have a plan

How To Handle Extreme In-Laws. Quit being a spectator and take action.

]]>Can you ever win the battle with your in-laws? The answer is yes. Fresh from his recent trip to Eastern Europe, Dave The Masshole shares the most indispensible tips you need when visiting your in-laws. From how to stand your ground as a father, a husband and a man, Dave’s tips on how to handle your in-laws are essential listening. In this episode:

The fine line of diplomacy

What to do when caught in the crossfire

How to defend your wife

How to manage extreme in-laws as a father

The true role of grandparents

Why you can’t be afraid to make them mad

How to manage future visits

Why you must have a plan

How To Handle Extreme In-Laws. Quit being a spectator and take action.

]]>51:21yespodcasts,dating,men,for,relationship,satire,culture,pop,advice,american,selfhelp,blogs,interests,mensAMP 108 - How To Handle Her And Her Body IssuesFri, 20 Sep 2013 12:00:00 +0000American women are at war with themselves. And when it comes to them and their body issues, they have a complaint every minute. There are two ends of the spectrum – the things she cannot change, and the things she can change. From what they’re born with to their unwillingness and laziness to change what’s within their control, American women will always have a chronic dissatisfaction with their bodies. How should Mansy navigate this treacherous minefield? What should Mansy do when she complains about what she cannot change? What if he loves the very thing about herself that she hates? And what should Mansy do if she complains about her weight, her appearance, comparing herself to other women and yet does nothing about it? In this episode: the bait you should never take; the strategy of silence; never be an accomplice to mediocrity; how she needs to find her own fix; why you are not responsible for her own perceptions. How To Handle Her And Her Body Issues. It’s up to her to find her own happiness. BONUS: We take your phone calls!]]>American women are at war with themselves. And when it comes to them and their body issues, they have a complaint every minute. There are two ends of the spectrum – the things she cannot change, and the things she can change. From what they’re born with to their unwillingness and laziness to change what’s within their control, American women will always have a chronic dissatisfaction with their bodies. How should Mansy navigate this treacherous minefield? What should Mansy do when she complains about what she cannot change? What if he loves the very thing about herself that she hates? And what should Mansy do if she complains about her weight, her appearance, comparing herself to other women and yet does nothing about it? In this episode: the bait you should never take; the strategy of silence; never be an accomplice to mediocrity; how she needs to find her own fix; why you are not responsible for her own perceptions. How To Handle Her And Her Body Issues. It’s up to her to find her own happiness. BONUS: We take your phone calls!]]>53:36yespodcasts,dating,men,for,relationship,satire,culture,pop,advice,american,selfhelp,blogs,interests,mensAMP 107 - The Best Way To Leave A RelationshipFri, 13 Sep 2013 12:00:00 +0000Mansy loves the easy way out. He cannot make a decision. He ignores the truth. He wants someone else to tell him what to do. But Mansy cannot be blamed here. Leaving someone in your twenties and thirties is difficult. At first, Mansy is made to feel like a jerk, that he didn’t man-up and work it out. Second, Mansy lets guilt settle in, and prolongs something he should have left long ago. Finally, he knows he needs to leave – and we outline the three steps on how to do this. In this episode: strategies she will use to keep you around; her manipulation through sex; why Mansy is always the ‘catch’; how to take control of the conversation and your life; the three steps on how to leave. The Best Way To Leave A Relationship. It’s time to start learning from your mistakes.]]>Mansy loves the easy way out. He cannot make a decision. He ignores the truth. He wants someone else to tell him what to do. But Mansy cannot be blamed here. Leaving someone in your twenties and thirties is difficult. At first, Mansy is made to feel like a jerk, that he didn’t man-up and work it out. Second, Mansy lets guilt settle in, and prolongs something he should have left long ago. Finally, he knows he needs to leave – and we outline the three steps on how to do this. In this episode: strategies she will use to keep you around; her manipulation through sex; why Mansy is always the ‘catch’; how to take control of the conversation and your life; the three steps on how to leave. The Best Way To Leave A Relationship. It’s time to start learning from your mistakes.]]>34:13yespodcasts,dating,men,for,relationship,satire,culture,pop,advice,american,selfhelp,blogs,interests,mensAMP 106 - Top Five Signs You Might Be A DoucheFri, 06 Sep 2013 11:00:00 +0000Do you blame Douche behavior on your genetics, ancestry or your astrological sign? Becoming a Douche in public is graduate level Mansy. It takes the most self-deluded, narcissistic Mansy to be able to advance to Douche. But Douche is aware of his performance. Everything in life is a choice. Douche is like a five year-old desperate for attention, except he’s old enough to know better. Are you aware of what these things are? Are you willing to accept it and begin to change? The choice is up to you. We outline the five ways this happens. In this episode: the Douche affliction of acting like a celebrity; the perils of acting like a one-upping Douche; the Douche treatment of store clerks and vendors; blaming Douche behavior on genetics, ancestry, or your astrological sign; classic Douche behavior in restaurants. The Top Five Signs You Might Be A Douche. Prevention is everything. BONUS: We take your phone calls!]]>Do you blame Douche behavior on your genetics, ancestry or your astrological sign? Becoming a Douche in public is graduate level Mansy. It takes the most self-deluded, narcissistic Mansy to be able to advance to Douche. But Douche is aware of his performance. Everything in life is a choice. Douche is like a five year-old desperate for attention, except he’s old enough to know better. Are you aware of what these things are? Are you willing to accept it and begin to change? The choice is up to you. We outline the five ways this happens. In this episode: the Douche affliction of acting like a celebrity; the perils of acting like a one-upping Douche; the Douche treatment of store clerks and vendors; blaming Douche behavior on genetics, ancestry, or your astrological sign; classic Douche behavior in restaurants. The Top Five Signs You Might Be A Douche. Prevention is everything. BONUS: We take your phone calls!]]>28:53yespodcasts,dating,men,for,relationship,satire,culture,pop,advice,american,selfhelp,blogs,interests,mensAMP 105 - Why American Women Give Up On SexFri, 30 Aug 2013 12:00:00 +0000Welcome to one of the greatest disappearing acts in human history – American women giving up on sex. The transition from before marriage to after marriage is astonishing. Before, American women are sexual creatures. Afterwards, they completely surrender. American women don’t see it as their job; they see it as a man’s privilege. When sex no longer becomes a priority, any relationship is doomed to fail. In most cases, when American women get what they want they stop trying. One look at older European women reveals that a decline in sexual interest has nothing to do with age – and everything to do with choice. In this episode: why women don’t hold themselves to any standard; why Mansy is responsible; the difference between emotional and sexual intimacy; the horrors of the Michigan Haircut; how to prevent this from happening. Why American Women Give Up On Sex. The fate of your relationship is in your hands.]]>Welcome to one of the greatest disappearing acts in human history – American women giving up on sex. The transition from before marriage to after marriage is astonishing. Before, American women are sexual creatures. Afterwards, they completely surrender. American women don’t see it as their job; they see it as a man’s privilege. When sex no longer becomes a priority, any relationship is doomed to fail. In most cases, when American women get what they want they stop trying. One look at older European women reveals that a decline in sexual interest has nothing to do with age – and everything to do with choice. In this episode: why women don’t hold themselves to any standard; why Mansy is responsible; the difference between emotional and sexual intimacy; the horrors of the Michigan Haircut; how to prevent this from happening. Why American Women Give Up On Sex. The fate of your relationship is in your hands.]]>24:50yespodcasts,dating,men,for,relationship,satire,culture,pop,advice,american,selfhelp,blogs,interests,mensAMP 104 - Why Women In Their Twenties Cannot Handle Younger MenFri, 23 Aug 2013 09:00:00 +0000Mansy loves getting kicked to the curb. And there’s no better way for Mansy to experience this than when he dates an older woman in her twenties. Mansy thinks he’s landed a prize. But when a woman in her twenties dates a younger guy, she simply cannot handle it. Whether she’s a day or five years older than Mansy, she’s always going to have a complex about his youth. He will always be childish, his friends childish, with a brain that’s underdeveloped. Mansy is forever a character in a video game. In this episode: what happens when women panic as they approach thirty; how Mansy is a novelty until she finds the ‘real thing’; why Mansy should always date younger girls in his twenties; why Mansy ends up fighting a losing battle. Why Women In Their Twenties Cannot Handle Younger Men. Actually, it’s time for her to grow up.]]>Mansy loves getting kicked to the curb. And there’s no better way for Mansy to experience this than when he dates an older woman in her twenties. Mansy thinks he’s landed a prize. But when a woman in her twenties dates a younger guy, she simply cannot handle it. Whether she’s a day or five years older than Mansy, she’s always going to have a complex about his youth. He will always be childish, his friends childish, with a brain that’s underdeveloped. Mansy is forever a character in a video game. In this episode: what happens when women panic as they approach thirty; how Mansy is a novelty until she finds the ‘real thing’; why Mansy should always date younger girls in his twenties; why Mansy ends up fighting a losing battle. Why Women In Their Twenties Cannot Handle Younger Men. Actually, it’s time for her to grow up.]]>30:57yespodcasts,dating,men,for,relationship,satire,culture,pop,advice,american,selfhelp,blogs,interests,mensOPXM 11 - Should You Ever Pick Up Your Life And Move For Her?Fri, 16 Aug 2013 12:00:00 +0000Would you move around the world to be with your girlfriend? Should marriage be in the cards? Is it make it or break it time? Or is it time to move on? In the eleventh installment of our interview series Ordinary People, Extraordinary Mansy, we interview our special guest Eli. In his early twenties, he moved halfway around the world to be with his girlfriend - only to discover she had gotten back together with her ex-boyfriend. Finding himself at a pivotal point in his life, he had to decide many things - and ask himself many questions. To complicate matters, Eli was an Orthodox Jew. What criticism and shame would he face from his family? His community? His friends? Not only did he have the courage to move around the world, he left his religion. Ready to face the uncertain road ahead, it's a fascinating story of identity, bravery and redemption. You won't want to miss it.]]>Would you move around the world to be with your girlfriend? Should marriage be in the cards? Is it make it or break it time? Or is it time to move on? In the eleventh installment of our interview series Ordinary People, Extraordinary Mansy, we interview our special guest Eli. In his early twenties, he moved halfway around the world to be with his girlfriend - only to discover she had gotten back together with her ex-boyfriend. Finding himself at a pivotal point in his life, he had to decide many things - and ask himself many questions. To complicate matters, Eli was an Orthodox Jew. What criticism and shame would he face from his family? His community? His friends? Not only did he have the courage to move around the world, he left his religion. Ready to face the uncertain road ahead, it's a fascinating story of identity, bravery and redemption. You won't want to miss it.]]>50:33yespodcasts,dating,men,for,relationship,satire,culture,pop,advice,american,selfhelp,blogs,interests,mensAMP 102 - Are You A Sucker For Homewreckers?Fri, 09 Aug 2013 12:00:00 +0000Mansy is a sucker for drama, not confronting his life, and new ass. This is the perfect recipe the Homewrecker. Mansy might be unhappy in his relationship, but he’s unwilling to do anything about it. Homewreckers love an easy target, and Mansy easily complies. The Homewrecker will not solve any problems; she will only create new ones. Mansy still doesn’t understand that all women are in competition with one another. The Homewrecker loves the chase, and has no true interest in Mansy. In this episode: Mansy’s attraction to drama; all women can tell when a man isn’t getting sex; why Mansy needs to fix his home situation first; how much is the wife to blame? is losing your family worth it? Are You A Sucker For Homewreckers? Why is it so easy for Mansy to surrender?]]>Mansy is a sucker for drama, not confronting his life, and new ass. This is the perfect recipe the Homewrecker. Mansy might be unhappy in his relationship, but he’s unwilling to do anything about it. Homewreckers love an easy target, and Mansy easily complies. The Homewrecker will not solve any problems; she will only create new ones. Mansy still doesn’t understand that all women are in competition with one another. The Homewrecker loves the chase, and has no true interest in Mansy. In this episode: Mansy’s attraction to drama; all women can tell when a man isn’t getting sex; why Mansy needs to fix his home situation first; how much is the wife to blame? is losing your family worth it? Are You A Sucker For Homewreckers? Why is it so easy for Mansy to surrender?]]>27:12yespodcasts,dating,men,for,relationship,satire,culture,pop,advice,american,selfhelp,blogs,interests,mensAMP 101 - Why Men’s Health Readers Need American Mansy PodcastFri, 02 Aug 2013 18:00:00 +0000You’ve done the pushups. You’ve counted calories. You have re-taught yourself how to shave. You may have even called yourself a Metrosexual at one time. So: you’re a man of cosmetics? This is your goal? This is what you aspire to? To be the fittest, healthiest, well-groomed Mansy on the block? There’s nothing wrong with keeping yourself up. But is this at the expense of challenging yourself with bigger questions about your life, career and relationships? Do you have no self-control? Do women still walk all over you? Are you one something away from broke? Preparation is everything. And in Season Three of American Mansy Podcast, the big, direct questions are coming. Men’s Health, Ask Men & GQ will teach you how to groom your beard. We will tell you the truth. In this episode: the benefits and non-benefits of Men’s Health; why these resources are starter kits, not bibles; why they avoid the tough questions; why our upcoming season will be second to none. Why Men’s Health Readers Need American Mansy Podcast. Do you even know what being a man is?

]]>You’ve done the pushups. You’ve counted calories. You have re-taught yourself how to shave. You may have even called yourself a Metrosexual at one time. So: you’re a man of cosmetics? This is your goal? This is what you aspire to? To be the fittest, healthiest, well-groomed Mansy on the block? There’s nothing wrong with keeping yourself up. But is this at the expense of challenging yourself with bigger questions about your life, career and relationships? Do you have no self-control? Do women still walk all over you? Are you one something away from broke? Preparation is everything. And in Season Three of American Mansy Podcast, the big, direct questions are coming. Men’s Health, Ask Men & GQ will teach you how to groom your beard. We will tell you the truth. In this episode: the benefits and non-benefits of Men’s Health; why these resources are starter kits, not bibles; why they avoid the tough questions; why our upcoming season will be second to none. Why Men’s Health Readers Need American Mansy Podcast. Do you even know what being a man is?

]]>34:11yespodcasts,dating,men,for,relationship,satire,culture,pop,advice,american,selfhelp,blogs,interests,mensAMP 100 - How Did American Mansy Podcast Start?Thu, 25 Jul 2013 12:00:00 +0000On a hot summer’s day in July 2011, two regular guys launched the American Mansy Podcast. They had no idea what they were doing. One was two years removed from only having a landline; both had no clue about social media. But they had one thing in common – Mansy. American Mansy. They had both lived it, breathed it, and were blinded by it. Through American Mansy Podcast, they revealed the epidemic of Mansy in America. Two years, seventy countries and tens of thousands of downloads later, Uncle Todd and Dave The Masshole are just getting started. But it has never been about us; it has always been about you – our listeners. On our second anniversary, join us as we take you back to how American Mansy Podcast got started – our mistakes, our obstacles, and our secrets. We couldn’t have done it without you. And we’re excited to bring you with us into the future. Which is #NoMansyWhatsoever.]]>On a hot summer’s day in July 2011, two regular guys launched the American Mansy Podcast. They had no idea what they were doing. One was two years removed from only having a landline; both had no clue about social media. But they had one thing in common – Mansy. American Mansy. They had both lived it, breathed it, and were blinded by it. Through American Mansy Podcast, they revealed the epidemic of Mansy in America. Two years, seventy countries and tens of thousands of downloads later, Uncle Todd and Dave The Masshole are just getting started. But it has never been about us; it has always been about you – our listeners. On our second anniversary, join us as we take you back to how American Mansy Podcast got started – our mistakes, our obstacles, and our secrets. We couldn’t have done it without you. And we’re excited to bring you with us into the future. Which is #NoMansyWhatsoever.]]>49:05yespodcasts,dating,men,for,relationship,satire,culture,pop,advice,american,selfhelp,blogs,interests,mensAMP 099 - Why Being A Two-Pump Chump Is All In Your MindThu, 18 Jul 2013 13:00:00 +0000Every man has been a two-pump chump. Every single one. Even George Clooney. But nothing rattles Mansy’s world more than his perception of his performance in bed. Being a two-pump chump is a myth. It has nothing to do with your manhood. Like most of Mansy’s issues, it’s all in your mind. In most cases, it has nothing to do with you, and everything to do with your current relationship. Bigger things are at stake and they’re spilling into the bedroom. Mansy is only one person away from two-pump chump to two-hour session. In this episode: there is nothing wrong with you; losing alcohol or drugs as a crutch for sexual stamina; home remedies Dave has tried that don’t work; applying impossible universal expectations; you’re not sexually into her. Why Being A Two-Pump Chump Is All In Your Mind. You might be one breakup away from having confidence forever.]]>Every man has been a two-pump chump. Every single one. Even George Clooney. But nothing rattles Mansy’s world more than his perception of his performance in bed. Being a two-pump chump is a myth. It has nothing to do with your manhood. Like most of Mansy’s issues, it’s all in your mind. In most cases, it has nothing to do with you, and everything to do with your current relationship. Bigger things are at stake and they’re spilling into the bedroom. Mansy is only one person away from two-pump chump to two-hour session. In this episode: there is nothing wrong with you; losing alcohol or drugs as a crutch for sexual stamina; home remedies Dave has tried that don’t work; applying impossible universal expectations; you’re not sexually into her. Why Being A Two-Pump Chump Is All In Your Mind. You might be one breakup away from having confidence forever.]]>23:46yespodcasts,dating,men,for,relationship,satire,culture,pop,advice,american,selfhelp,blogs,interests,mensAMP 098 - Never Keep A Mansy Journal About Your GirlfriendThu, 11 Jul 2013 13:00:00 +0000Mansy is like an aspiring Hollywood actress – he’s waiting to be discovered. Nothing prepares him better for his grand entrance than by keeping a Mansy journal about his current girlfriend. Whether it’s a chicken-scratched old notebook or an iPad, Mansy keeps a journal about her for one reason only: he’s afraid to man-up to the truth. The intent to document a relationship is the intent to avoid it. Leaving a journal open to discovery is avoiding confrontation and problem solving. It’s a ticking time bomb of drama that Mansy should have the decency to turn off by attempting the following: talking to her. In this episode: if you can write it, you can speak it; you’re not as interesting as you think you are; stop writing sentences, start making decisions; solve problems in relationships through conversation and communication; no woman likes an over-analytical drama queen. Never Keep A Mansy Journal About Your Girlfriend. Grow up, put your big boy pants on, and speak.]]>Mansy is like an aspiring Hollywood actress – he’s waiting to be discovered. Nothing prepares him better for his grand entrance than by keeping a Mansy journal about his current girlfriend. Whether it’s a chicken-scratched old notebook or an iPad, Mansy keeps a journal about her for one reason only: he’s afraid to man-up to the truth. The intent to document a relationship is the intent to avoid it. Leaving a journal open to discovery is avoiding confrontation and problem solving. It’s a ticking time bomb of drama that Mansy should have the decency to turn off by attempting the following: talking to her. In this episode: if you can write it, you can speak it; you’re not as interesting as you think you are; stop writing sentences, start making decisions; solve problems in relationships through conversation and communication; no woman likes an over-analytical drama queen. Never Keep A Mansy Journal About Your Girlfriend. Grow up, put your big boy pants on, and speak.]]>26:47yespodcasts,dating,men,for,satire,culture,pop,advice,american,relationships,selfhelp,blogs,interests,mensAMP 097 - What To Do When Her Ex-Boyfriend Is Still AroundWed, 03 Jul 2013 13:00:00 +0000You either want to be with someone or you don’t. Period. Exes are exes for a reason. You chose to leave that person, or that person chose to leave you. But prolonging and sustaining contact with her ex is a choice. It’s Mansy for the ex-boyfriend who won’t let go; it’s selfish and dramatic for the girlfriend to string him along; and it’s wicked Mansy for the new boyfriend to allow it to happen. The Golden Mansy Triangle is one of the biggest wastes of time a man can get involved with. If you’re the new boyfriend and you choose to participate in the drama, it exists because you allow it. In this episode: her inconsiderate insecurity and indecision; the ex is around because she allows it to happen; why both men are fighting a losing proposition; why you should skip the ultimatum; what’s happening with the ex is going to happen to you. What To Do When Her Ex-Boyfriend Is Still Around. She doesn’t respect you. How much are you willing to put up with?]]>You either want to be with someone or you don’t. Period. Exes are exes for a reason. You chose to leave that person, or that person chose to leave you. But prolonging and sustaining contact with her ex is a choice. It’s Mansy for the ex-boyfriend who won’t let go; it’s selfish and dramatic for the girlfriend to string him along; and it’s wicked Mansy for the new boyfriend to allow it to happen. The Golden Mansy Triangle is one of the biggest wastes of time a man can get involved with. If you’re the new boyfriend and you choose to participate in the drama, it exists because you allow it. In this episode: her inconsiderate insecurity and indecision; the ex is around because she allows it to happen; why both men are fighting a losing proposition; why you should skip the ultimatum; what’s happening with the ex is going to happen to you. What To Do When Her Ex-Boyfriend Is Still Around. She doesn’t respect you. How much are you willing to put up with?]]>29:43yespodcasts,dating,men,for,satire,culture,pop,advice,american,relationships,selfhelp,blogs,interests,mensAMP 096 - Never Date Women Half Your AgeThu, 27 Jun 2013 13:00:00 +0000In life, you don’t gain wisdom or intelligence; you only learn through repetition. And since you’ve had double the years on the planet as a woman half your age, you know where she’s coming from at every turn. Playing the advantage might give you a sense of power. The reality, however, is that it shows weakness. You know the angles; you play the percentages. This type of young woman seeks mentoring; this type of Mansy needs to feel powerful. Dating a woman half your age fills this void. But Mansy cannot accept his emotional immaturity. In this episode: the myth of the Male Dating Formula; young women wasting their youth on older men; why age-appropriate women are on to Mansy; when the relationship is a lie; how she damages future relationships with other men. Never Date Women Half Your Age. It’s only your time, money, dignity and reputation at stake.]]>In life, you don’t gain wisdom or intelligence; you only learn through repetition. And since you’ve had double the years on the planet as a woman half your age, you know where she’s coming from at every turn. Playing the advantage might give you a sense of power. The reality, however, is that it shows weakness. You know the angles; you play the percentages. This type of young woman seeks mentoring; this type of Mansy needs to feel powerful. Dating a woman half your age fills this void. But Mansy cannot accept his emotional immaturity. In this episode: the myth of the Male Dating Formula; young women wasting their youth on older men; why age-appropriate women are on to Mansy; when the relationship is a lie; how she damages future relationships with other men. Never Date Women Half Your Age. It’s only your time, money, dignity and reputation at stake.]]>27:44yespodcasts,dating,men,for,satire,culture,pop,advice,american,relationships,selfhelp,blogs,interests,mensAMP 095 - How Not To Act Mansy At A WeddingThu, 20 Jun 2013 13:00:00 +0000Are you going to get wasted and sick by eating roses? Are you going to tackle the bride and groom into a pool in front of their families? Are you going to start an affair in a broom closet with your wife in attendance? No. You’re not an idiot. But Mansy has other plans. Mansy likes drama. He likes a stage to perform on, to be the center of attention. And what Mansy needs to realize is that a wedding is about his friend and his bride – not him. Getting wasted and hooking up might be Mansy’s agenda. But it’s time he showed some restraint like a man. In this episode: leaving your issues with the couple-to-be at the door; the importance of generosity; the difference between high school prom and a wedding; you’re not the life of the party; how to stand out by not standing out. How Not To Act Mansy At A Wedding. It’s the Twenty-First Century – need we say more?]]>Are you going to get wasted and sick by eating roses? Are you going to tackle the bride and groom into a pool in front of their families? Are you going to start an affair in a broom closet with your wife in attendance? No. You’re not an idiot. But Mansy has other plans. Mansy likes drama. He likes a stage to perform on, to be the center of attention. And what Mansy needs to realize is that a wedding is about his friend and his bride – not him. Getting wasted and hooking up might be Mansy’s agenda. But it’s time he showed some restraint like a man. In this episode: leaving your issues with the couple-to-be at the door; the importance of generosity; the difference between high school prom and a wedding; you’re not the life of the party; how to stand out by not standing out. How Not To Act Mansy At A Wedding. It’s the Twenty-First Century – need we say more?]]>27:08yespodcasts,dating,men,for,satire,culture,pop,advice,american,relationships,selfhelp,blogs,interests,mensAMP 094 - Are You Mansy About Your Ex?Thu, 13 Jun 2013 13:00:00 +0000Have you become your own Damsel In Distress? Men have serious attachment issues. She's moved on. Years ago. She's happily married with children. You're not. Does the news upset you? Are you man enough to let go? Do you obsess over someone who is a non-entity in your life? Holding on to the past is a serious detriment to your life. When are you going to take responsibility for your life? In this episode: what Facebook stalking says about you; if she takes a walk, let her go; investing your anger and resentment towards something productive; why jealousy of her success is Mansy; why happiness is a choice. Are You Mansy About Your Ex? You're a man...right?]]>Have you become your own Damsel In Distress? Men have serious attachment issues. She's moved on. Years ago. She's happily married with children. You're not. Does the news upset you? Are you man enough to let go? Do you obsess over someone who is a non-entity in your life? Holding on to the past is a serious detriment to your life. When are you going to take responsibility for your life? In this episode: what Facebook stalking says about you; if she takes a walk, let her go; investing your anger and resentment towards something productive; why jealousy of her success is Mansy; why happiness is a choice. Are You Mansy About Your Ex? You're a man...right?]]>29:12yespodcasts,dating,men,for,satire,culture,pop,advice,american,relationships,selfhelp,blogs,interests,mensAMP 093 - Why American Men Get Soft In MarriageThu, 06 Jun 2013 13:00:00 +0000Men get soft in marriage for one reason only – they allow it. There’s a myth that you gain wisdom and intelligence with age. The truth, however, is that you only learn through repetition. This begins right after you graduate from Douchebag University, the subject of our last episode. If you enroll in the middle-class welfare system known as student loan and credit card debt, marry the college sweetheart, and fail to risk in your twenties, you run the risk of getting soft in marriage in your thirties and forties. You become a member of the ‘life sucks; then you die’ club. Is this what you want for your life? In this episode: Dave’s secret on how to keep up healthy, thriving marriage; the importance of leveraging risk in your twenties; the fallout of marrying the college sweetheart; why you lose your edge and become complacent; why your life is never over. Why American Men Get Soft In Marriage. Your life is finite; to squander it is a choice.]]>Men get soft in marriage for one reason only – they allow it. There’s a myth that you gain wisdom and intelligence with age. The truth, however, is that you only learn through repetition. This begins right after you graduate from Douchebag University, the subject of our last episode. If you enroll in the middle-class welfare system known as student loan and credit card debt, marry the college sweetheart, and fail to risk in your twenties, you run the risk of getting soft in marriage in your thirties and forties. You become a member of the ‘life sucks; then you die’ club. Is this what you want for your life? In this episode: Dave’s secret on how to keep up healthy, thriving marriage; the importance of leveraging risk in your twenties; the fallout of marrying the college sweetheart; why you lose your edge and become complacent; why your life is never over. Why American Men Get Soft In Marriage. Your life is finite; to squander it is a choice.]]>28:49yespodcasts,dating,men,for,satire,culture,pop,advice,american,relationships,selfhelp,blogs,interests,mensAMP 092 - Are You A Graduate Of Douchebag University?Thu, 30 May 2013 13:00:00 +0000Are you Sallie Mae’s bitch? Are you freshly divorced after marrying your college sweetheart? Are you still hanging out with your college ‘boys’ decades after graduation? The college experience is one of the most overrated facets of American life. When it comes to finances, relationships, and self-perception, Mansy must be extremely careful when it comes to allowing the college experience to shape his life. Although there are many positive aspects of the college experience, Mansy needs to protect himself from allowing it to set him up for failure. In this episode: avoiding scams dressed up as innocence; college is a business; education a by-product; the importance of risk in your twenties; how to avoid a mid-life crisis; where you go to school doesn’t matter. Are You A Graduate Of Douchebag University? Prevention and change are always within reach.]]>Are you Sallie Mae’s bitch? Are you freshly divorced after marrying your college sweetheart? Are you still hanging out with your college ‘boys’ decades after graduation? The college experience is one of the most overrated facets of American life. When it comes to finances, relationships, and self-perception, Mansy must be extremely careful when it comes to allowing the college experience to shape his life. Although there are many positive aspects of the college experience, Mansy needs to protect himself from allowing it to set him up for failure. In this episode: avoiding scams dressed up as innocence; college is a business; education a by-product; the importance of risk in your twenties; how to avoid a mid-life crisis; where you go to school doesn’t matter. Are You A Graduate Of Douchebag University? Prevention and change are always within reach.]]>38:11yespodcasts,dating,men,for,satire,culture,pop,advice,american,relationships,selfhelp,blogs,interests,mensAMP 091 - Why Are You Afraid Of Her?Thu, 23 May 2013 14:00:00 +0000There’s one thing every human being is entitled to: time spent alone. In a relationship, one person cannot feel that he or she has less freedom than the other. Mansy fears her reaction when he chooses to spend time without her - either by himself or with friends. If this fear accumulates over time, he will become afraid to live. Men do very little for themselves. They must understand that a relationship is like a child: you have to teach it how it’s going to work. In this episode: how to establish mutual respect; how to enjoy what you do without apology; how to strategize by thinking like her; how to avoid wanting to control her. Why Are You Afraid Of Her? In order to stand your ground, you must establish it first.]]>There’s one thing every human being is entitled to: time spent alone. In a relationship, one person cannot feel that he or she has less freedom than the other. Mansy fears her reaction when he chooses to spend time without her - either by himself or with friends. If this fear accumulates over time, he will become afraid to live. Men do very little for themselves. They must understand that a relationship is like a child: you have to teach it how it’s going to work. In this episode: how to establish mutual respect; how to enjoy what you do without apology; how to strategize by thinking like her; how to avoid wanting to control her. Why Are You Afraid Of Her? In order to stand your ground, you must establish it first.]]>23:18yespodcasts,dating,men,for,satire,culture,pop,advice,american,relationships,selfhelp,blogs,interests,mensAMP 090 - You Must Accept The Six-Month Two-Year RuleThu, 16 May 2013 14:00:00 +0000There are many things Mansy doesn’t understand about women. There’s a universal truth about relationships he must accept. Six months into a relationship, Mansy should know if the relationship has the gas to go the distance. At the two-year mark, she’s thinking about marriage. Mansy has to accept this. If he doesn’t want to marry her, he must have an exit plan. If he wants to build a life with her, he must get over his fear and commit to her. Either way, he must have the balls to be straight with her – and himself. In this episode: how Mansy can use this to his advantage; why the first six months reveal Mansy at his most vulnerable; the deception of hot sex; why women want Mansy to control the relationship conversation; the consequences of wasted time and regret. You Must Accept The Six-Month Two-Year Rule. Bravery is everything.]]>There are many things Mansy doesn’t understand about women. There’s a universal truth about relationships he must accept. Six months into a relationship, Mansy should know if the relationship has the gas to go the distance. At the two-year mark, she’s thinking about marriage. Mansy has to accept this. If he doesn’t want to marry her, he must have an exit plan. If he wants to build a life with her, he must get over his fear and commit to her. Either way, he must have the balls to be straight with her – and himself. In this episode: how Mansy can use this to his advantage; why the first six months reveal Mansy at his most vulnerable; the deception of hot sex; why women want Mansy to control the relationship conversation; the consequences of wasted time and regret. You Must Accept The Six-Month Two-Year Rule. Bravery is everything.]]>24:31yespodcasts,dating,men,for,satire,culture,pop,advice,american,relationships,selfhelp,blogs,interests,mensOPXM 10 - What To Do When Your Life Changes OvernightThu, 09 May 2013 14:00:00 +0000Life is often taken for granted. We go through our daily lives always forgetting that it could be much worse. And then boom – the doctor says that you need to come back for more tests. In the tenth installment of our interview series Ordinary People, Extraordinary Mansy, we interview the very non-Mansy Drew Bialko, children’s book illustrator and author. He was diagnosed with a rare form of cancer called Desmoid Tumors. It affects three in every one million people. He shares his courageous story on how to live, accept and prevail over the unknown on a daily basis. In this episode: what to do when you get the news; the number one thing not to think about; the importance of perspective and truth; the importance of pressing on. This is an interview not to be missed. For more information, visit the Desmoid Tumor Research Foundation at www.dtrf.org.]]>Life is often taken for granted. We go through our daily lives always forgetting that it could be much worse. And then boom – the doctor says that you need to come back for more tests. In the tenth installment of our interview series Ordinary People, Extraordinary Mansy, we interview the very non-Mansy Drew Bialko, children’s book illustrator and author. He was diagnosed with a rare form of cancer called Desmoid Tumors. It affects three in every one million people. He shares his courageous story on how to live, accept and prevail over the unknown on a daily basis. In this episode: what to do when you get the news; the number one thing not to think about; the importance of perspective and truth; the importance of pressing on. This is an interview not to be missed. For more information, visit the Desmoid Tumor Research Foundation at www.dtrf.org.]]>27:31yespodcasts,dating,men,for,satire,culture,pop,advice,american,relationships,selfhelp,blogs,interests,mensAMP 088 - How To Transform From Mansy Into ManThu, 02 May 2013 14:00:00 +0000In one of our most pivotal episodes, we discuss and strip down Mansy to its essence. With the arrival of many brand new listeners and newsletter subscribers from around the world, we saw the need to refresh the definition of what and who Mansy is – and what he must do in order to become a man. Succinct, articulate, humorous and clear, this episode leaves no doubt as to why Mansy is an epidemic in America – and around the world. To start, the five Pillars of Mansy: lack of self-confidence; lack of self-preservation; overkill in maintaining other people’s happiness; fear of loneliness; lack of restraint. From there, what makes a man: not caring about other people’s opinions; a consistent attitude towards life; no need for women to define him; not accessible to everybody; never afraid to say No. How To Transform From Mansy Into Man. It’s all right here.]]>In one of our most pivotal episodes, we discuss and strip down Mansy to its essence. With the arrival of many brand new listeners and newsletter subscribers from around the world, we saw the need to refresh the definition of what and who Mansy is – and what he must do in order to become a man. Succinct, articulate, humorous and clear, this episode leaves no doubt as to why Mansy is an epidemic in America – and around the world. To start, the five Pillars of Mansy: lack of self-confidence; lack of self-preservation; overkill in maintaining other people’s happiness; fear of loneliness; lack of restraint. From there, what makes a man: not caring about other people’s opinions; a consistent attitude towards life; no need for women to define him; not accessible to everybody; never afraid to say No. How To Transform From Mansy Into Man. It’s all right here.]]>39:22yespodcasts,dating,men,for,satire,culture,pop,advice,american,relationships,selfhelp,blogs,interests,mensAMP 087 - Why It’s Never Your LossThu, 25 Apr 2013 14:00:00 +0000Not only does Mansy love drama, but he’s also the king of self-neglect. He wears this crown proudly, especially after a serious breakup. What he always fails to realize is that after a breakup it’s never his loss. If it ended badly, he forgets that his good qualities remain intact – and she is not permitted access to them anymore. If it ended amicably, he just hasn’t met the right person. But his insecurities kick in and he thinks she’s the one who got away, when it was just another chapter in his life. It’s a major turning point in his life – he can either drive himself to be better, or fall into the Mansy Deep Six. In this episode: why freedom is scarier than imprisonment; why you must reflect coldly on a past relationship; how you are not losing in your life; she must earn your good qualities; your friendship is not an entitlement. Why It’s Never Your Loss. In divorce, there are settlements. In life, no one is owed anything.]]>Not only does Mansy love drama, but he’s also the king of self-neglect. He wears this crown proudly, especially after a serious breakup. What he always fails to realize is that after a breakup it’s never his loss. If it ended badly, he forgets that his good qualities remain intact – and she is not permitted access to them anymore. If it ended amicably, he just hasn’t met the right person. But his insecurities kick in and he thinks she’s the one who got away, when it was just another chapter in his life. It’s a major turning point in his life – he can either drive himself to be better, or fall into the Mansy Deep Six. In this episode: why freedom is scarier than imprisonment; why you must reflect coldly on a past relationship; how you are not losing in your life; she must earn your good qualities; your friendship is not an entitlement. Why It’s Never Your Loss. In divorce, there are settlements. In life, no one is owed anything.]]>25:05yespodcasts,dating,men,for,satire,culture,pop,advice,american,relationships,selfhelp,blogs,interests,mensAMP 086 - Do You Have A Mansy Psychic Friend?Thu, 18 Apr 2013 14:00:00 +0000Tarot cards, horoscopes, fortunetellers, psychic friends – desperate times call for desperate measures. And desperate measures call for desperate Mansy. This is something no American man would dream of revealing. But when Mansy seeks out fortunetellers or psychic hotlines to figure out his relationship, he doesn’t realize his life is spinning out of control. It’s almost as if Mansy is living in a trance. When Mansy relies on outside powers to tell him the truth about his life, he officially has zero control. In this episode: how many psychics has Dave visited? what seems harmless is a serious red flag; are you at the end of your rope? the cycle you’re afraid to leave. Do You Have A Mansy Psychic Friend? That visit to the carnival might be a desperate cry for help.]]>Tarot cards, horoscopes, fortunetellers, psychic friends – desperate times call for desperate measures. And desperate measures call for desperate Mansy. This is something no American man would dream of revealing. But when Mansy seeks out fortunetellers or psychic hotlines to figure out his relationship, he doesn’t realize his life is spinning out of control. It’s almost as if Mansy is living in a trance. When Mansy relies on outside powers to tell him the truth about his life, he officially has zero control. In this episode: how many psychics has Dave visited? what seems harmless is a serious red flag; are you at the end of your rope? the cycle you’re afraid to leave. Do You Have A Mansy Psychic Friend? That visit to the carnival might be a desperate cry for help.]]>25:52yespodcasts,dating,men,for,satire,culture,pop,advice,american,relationships,selfhelp,blogs,interests,mensAMP 085 - Why You Must Avoid Helpless Beautiful WomenThu, 11 Apr 2013 14:00:00 +0000There’s a specific kind of woman that’s got Mansy’s number – the helpless, beautiful Damsel In Distress. She’s got his number because Mansy wants her to have it. She can make Mansy do a little dance on his head because the helpless, beautiful woman has always been out of his league. Mansy needs to realize that the independent, strong, self-sufficient woman is what he should be seeking out – not helpless women who have gotten by on their looks. If she cannot take care of herself, you won’t be able to take care of you. In this episode: the difference between women who love attention and those who are desperate for attention; why it’s the Prince Charming Syndrome on steroids; the signs to look out for; why young men and divorced men fall into the same trap. Why You Must Avoid Helpless Beautiful Women. Don’t look for someone to save – or for someone to save you.]]>There’s a specific kind of woman that’s got Mansy’s number – the helpless, beautiful Damsel In Distress. She’s got his number because Mansy wants her to have it. She can make Mansy do a little dance on his head because the helpless, beautiful woman has always been out of his league. Mansy needs to realize that the independent, strong, self-sufficient woman is what he should be seeking out – not helpless women who have gotten by on their looks. If she cannot take care of herself, you won’t be able to take care of you. In this episode: the difference between women who love attention and those who are desperate for attention; why it’s the Prince Charming Syndrome on steroids; the signs to look out for; why young men and divorced men fall into the same trap. Why You Must Avoid Helpless Beautiful Women. Don’t look for someone to save – or for someone to save you.]]>28:04yespodcasts,dating,men,for,satire,culture,pop,advice,american,relationships,selfhelp,blogs,interests,mensAMP 084 - Are You The Invisible Mansy?Thu, 04 Apr 2013 14:00:00 +0000Long after a serious breakup, Mansy will create in his mind every scenario possible where he can become The Invisible Mansy – watching her where she drinks, where she works, trying to influence her thoughts, having imaginary conversations with her – all from his imagination while drinking in his recliner at home. He also becomes a time traveler, placing himself in her path after the breakup with her new boyfriend. He even inhabits her best friend’s body in order to evaluate and audit the ex-girlfriend’s decision making. It’s American Mansy at its craziest. In this episode: how Mansy transforms into inanimate objects to get her back; how Mansy tries to use mental brain waves to bring her back; Mansy’s secret alliance; why women never remember Mansy, only the non-Mansy; how Mansy needs to stop living in the past and move on. Are You The Invisible Mansy? If so, this episode is essential listening.]]>Long after a serious breakup, Mansy will create in his mind every scenario possible where he can become The Invisible Mansy – watching her where she drinks, where she works, trying to influence her thoughts, having imaginary conversations with her – all from his imagination while drinking in his recliner at home. He also becomes a time traveler, placing himself in her path after the breakup with her new boyfriend. He even inhabits her best friend’s body in order to evaluate and audit the ex-girlfriend’s decision making. It’s American Mansy at its craziest. In this episode: how Mansy transforms into inanimate objects to get her back; how Mansy tries to use mental brain waves to bring her back; Mansy’s secret alliance; why women never remember Mansy, only the non-Mansy; how Mansy needs to stop living in the past and move on. Are You The Invisible Mansy? If so, this episode is essential listening.]]>29:57yespodcasts,dating,men,for,satire,culture,pop,advice,american,relationships,selfhelp,blogs,interests,mensAMP 083 - Why Unconditional Love Is A MythThu, 28 Mar 2013 14:00:00 +0000Unconditional love might be one of the biggest myths in our culture. An unlimited supply of anything is appreciated less. If you have access to money that never runs out, you will not only appreciate it less, you will act more foolishly with it because there are no consequences or set parameters. You will respect it less. Mansy needs to learn the faulty logic behind this. He doesn’t understand that everything has a limit. You don’t constantly write checks to someone and expect nothing in return. Mansy’s love and attention becomes an investment of diminishing returns. In this episode: love is action, not emotion; how not to overpromise and under-deliver; just like life, a relationship is a marathon, not a sprint; and the number one unspoken, unwritten condition Mansy won’t admit to. Why Unconditional Love Is A Myth. Living within your means has nothing to do with money.]]>Unconditional love might be one of the biggest myths in our culture. An unlimited supply of anything is appreciated less. If you have access to money that never runs out, you will not only appreciate it less, you will act more foolishly with it because there are no consequences or set parameters. You will respect it less. Mansy needs to learn the faulty logic behind this. He doesn’t understand that everything has a limit. You don’t constantly write checks to someone and expect nothing in return. Mansy’s love and attention becomes an investment of diminishing returns. In this episode: love is action, not emotion; how not to overpromise and under-deliver; just like life, a relationship is a marathon, not a sprint; and the number one unspoken, unwritten condition Mansy won’t admit to. Why Unconditional Love Is A Myth. Living within your means has nothing to do with money.]]>23:29yespodcasts,dating,men,for,satire,culture,pop,advice,american,relationships,selfhelp,blogs,interests,mensOPXM 09 - How To Avoid Women With ‘Issues’Thu, 21 Mar 2013 14:00:00 +0000Ass – it blinds American men. If she’s hot, Mansy will look the other way and ignore warning signs and red flags that he should be paying attention to. It’s one of Mansy’s many issues. But women have quite a few issues of their own. How do you recognize a woman with ‘issues’? How do you manage it? Is the relationship or sex worth it? On the ninth installment of our interview series, we bring back Mr. Wizard from his episode The Raw Truth About Online Dating and learn from his experience. In this episode: the distinction between compromise and surrender; when you change who you are for someone else; how not to hide from yourself; setting early precedents and boundaries; the signs when someone is worth your time. How To Avoid Women With ‘Issues.’ It’s time to add years to your life.]]>Ass – it blinds American men. If she’s hot, Mansy will look the other way and ignore warning signs and red flags that he should be paying attention to. It’s one of Mansy’s many issues. But women have quite a few issues of their own. How do you recognize a woman with ‘issues’? How do you manage it? Is the relationship or sex worth it? On the ninth installment of our interview series, we bring back Mr. Wizard from his episode The Raw Truth About Online Dating and learn from his experience. In this episode: the distinction between compromise and surrender; when you change who you are for someone else; how not to hide from yourself; setting early precedents and boundaries; the signs when someone is worth your time. How To Avoid Women With ‘Issues.’ It’s time to add years to your life.]]>38:30yespodcasts,dating,men,for,satire,culture,pop,advice,american,relationships,selfhelp,blogs,interests,mensAMP 081 – Top Ten Signs You’re A Mansy At A BarThu, 14 Mar 2013 19:00:00 +0000This episode is essential listening. Like David Attenborough out in the jungle, Dave and I have witnessed countless hours of Mansy in his natural habitat – restaurants and bars. Nowhere is Mansy more susceptible to Mansy-like behavior than when he’s out in public playing the drama queen. Today is Mansy’s lucky day. Not only does he need to recognize this behavior in others, he needs to recognize it in himself. In this episode: why Mansy is desperate for attention; when conflict becomes evasion; the truth about hitting chairs, wearing sunglasses inside, berating inanimate objects; what Mansy reveals with Bathroom Standing and the Side-To-Front Pose. Top Ten Signs You’re A Mansy At A Bar. You had no idea – or did you?]]>This episode is essential listening. Like David Attenborough out in the jungle, Dave and I have witnessed countless hours of Mansy in his natural habitat – restaurants and bars. Nowhere is Mansy more susceptible to Mansy-like behavior than when he’s out in public playing the drama queen. Today is Mansy’s lucky day. Not only does he need to recognize this behavior in others, he needs to recognize it in himself. In this episode: why Mansy is desperate for attention; when conflict becomes evasion; the truth about hitting chairs, wearing sunglasses inside, berating inanimate objects; what Mansy reveals with Bathroom Standing and the Side-To-Front Pose. Top Ten Signs You’re A Mansy At A Bar. You had no idea – or did you?]]>27:39yespodcasts,dating,men,for,satire,culture,pop,advice,american,relationships,selfhelp,blogs,interests,mensAMP 080 - Have Your 15 Minutes Of Fame With Women Passed You By?Thu, 07 Mar 2013 15:49:45 +0000When Andy Warhol said that everyone would be famous for fifteen minutes, he had no idea he would also be referring to Mansy and his relationships. When Mansy first meets a woman, the first fifteen minutes are crucial. If Mansy is at his best, this super-version of him mysteriously disappears, never to be heard from again. If he strikes out and persists, he sentences himself to a lifetime of Mansy. In this episode: getting caught off-guard is a good thing; your ego is your worst enemy; if women start to change you, they are no longer interested; drama is a choice. Have Your 15 Minutes Of Fame With Women Passed You By? It’s an easier fix than you think.]]>When Andy Warhol said that everyone would be famous for fifteen minutes, he had no idea he would also be referring to Mansy and his relationships. When Mansy first meets a woman, the first fifteen minutes are crucial. If Mansy is at his best, this super-version of him mysteriously disappears, never to be heard from again. If he strikes out and persists, he sentences himself to a lifetime of Mansy. In this episode: getting caught off-guard is a good thing; your ego is your worst enemy; if women start to change you, they are no longer interested; drama is a choice. Have Your 15 Minutes Of Fame With Women Passed You By? It’s an easier fix than you think.]]>22:24yespodcasts,dating,men,for,satire,culture,pop,advice,american,relationships,selfhelp,blogs,interests,mensAMP 079 - How To Avoid Becoming A Mama’s BoyThu, 28 Feb 2013 21:40:02 +0000Your mother deserves your utmost respect. Always. But there comes a time when a man needs to become his own man. Part of growing up is breaking away, and making your own decisions. Unable to do this, Mansy continues to seek his mother’s approval well into his twenties and thirties. From whether or not he’s dating the right girl to what he wants from life, Mansy still wants his mother to do everything for him. In this episode: why your mother is the perfect poker player; she knows all your tells and what buttons to push; you don’t need a maid – you need a partner; your personal life, finances, relationships and decision making are on you and you alone. How To Avoid Becoming A Mama’s Boy. When you start dating real women who don’t wait on you and who don’t think that you’re perfect, it’s going to rock your Mansy ass.]]>Your mother deserves your utmost respect. Always. But there comes a time when a man needs to become his own man. Part of growing up is breaking away, and making your own decisions. Unable to do this, Mansy continues to seek his mother’s approval well into his twenties and thirties. From whether or not he’s dating the right girl to what he wants from life, Mansy still wants his mother to do everything for him. In this episode: why your mother is the perfect poker player; she knows all your tells and what buttons to push; you don’t need a maid – you need a partner; your personal life, finances, relationships and decision making are on you and you alone. How To Avoid Becoming A Mama’s Boy. When you start dating real women who don’t wait on you and who don’t think that you’re perfect, it’s going to rock your Mansy ass.]]>23:53yespodcasts,dating,men,for,satire,culture,pop,advice,american,relationships,selfhelp,blogs,interests,mensAMP 078 - Why You Will Never Measure Up To Her FatherThu, 21 Feb 2013 19:39:30 +0000The relationship a woman has with her father does not change overnight. Whether he was an absentee father, Mansy, or he treated her like a princess, the mold has been set, the die has been cast - and Mansy does not fit in. He cannot change it. But when Mansy understands and accepts the truth about her relationship with her father, he can better understand what she wants from her relationships. In this episode: when Mansy becomes suspect; most people don't want to change as they get older; learn what you are walking into; fathers can sense a ‘kiss-ass’; powers of observation are all you have. Why You Will Never Measure Up To Her Father. Be your own man - it's the best strategy you have.]]>The relationship a woman has with her father does not change overnight. Whether he was an absentee father, Mansy, or he treated her like a princess, the mold has been set, the die has been cast - and Mansy does not fit in. He cannot change it. But when Mansy understands and accepts the truth about her relationship with her father, he can better understand what she wants from her relationships. In this episode: when Mansy becomes suspect; most people don't want to change as they get older; learn what you are walking into; fathers can sense a ‘kiss-ass’; powers of observation are all you have. Why You Will Never Measure Up To Her Father. Be your own man - it's the best strategy you have.]]>25:43yespodcasts,dating,men,for,satire,culture,pop,advice,american,relationships,selfhelp,blogs,interests,mensOPXM 08 - What Women Really Want For Valentine’s Day (with special guest Venus)Wed, 13 Feb 2013 15:00:00 +0000Valentine's Day: Judgment Day for Mansy. Or does it have to be? On the eighth installment of our interview series Ordinary People, Extraordinary Mansy, we bring back Venus to discuss what women really want for Valentine's Day. Men trump themselves, women set unfair expectations, and Mansy is left out in the cold. How can Mansy get it right? In this episode: a list of outside-the-box gifts that do not work - and ones that do; should you buy lingerie? the importance about talking about the holidays in the beginning of the relationship; what you should be doing throughout the relationship to defuse Valentine's Day; how to play the long game; what American women are getting wrong; what women need to accept about the Super Bowl. What Women Really Want For Valentine's Day. It's easier than you think.]]>Valentine's Day: Judgment Day for Mansy. Or does it have to be? On the eighth installment of our interview series Ordinary People, Extraordinary Mansy, we bring back Venus to discuss what women really want for Valentine's Day. Men trump themselves, women set unfair expectations, and Mansy is left out in the cold. How can Mansy get it right? In this episode: a list of outside-the-box gifts that do not work - and ones that do; should you buy lingerie? the importance about talking about the holidays in the beginning of the relationship; what you should be doing throughout the relationship to defuse Valentine's Day; how to play the long game; what American women are getting wrong; what women need to accept about the Super Bowl. What Women Really Want For Valentine's Day. It's easier than you think.]]>29:43yespodcasts,dating,men,for,satire,culture,pop,advice,american,relationships,selfhelp,blogs,interests,mensAMP 076 - The Valentine’s Day Song That Launched The Mansy GenerationThu, 07 Feb 2013 19:22:58 +0000When it comes to the American Dream, no one is more sentimental and ridiculous than American men. Far worse than women, they want the white picket fence, the two-car garage, the happily ever after. They just won't admit it. They get these ideas from Hollywood movies and popular music - and it all started with Meatloaf's 'Paradise By The Dashboard Light' from Bat Out Of Hell. Yes, he sucks. But he sucks in a way you could never have imagined. In this episode: Dave takes you through why this song, album, and its sequels have influenced generations of Mansy; the myth of the small town Cinderella story; the context of its release in American history; how to be a man when confronted with sentimental drivel. The Valentine's Day Song That Launched The Mansy Generation. Put your beer bottle microphone down and pay your tab. It’s time to grow up.]]>When it comes to the American Dream, no one is more sentimental and ridiculous than American men. Far worse than women, they want the white picket fence, the two-car garage, the happily ever after. They just won't admit it. They get these ideas from Hollywood movies and popular music - and it all started with Meatloaf's 'Paradise By The Dashboard Light' from Bat Out Of Hell. Yes, he sucks. But he sucks in a way you could never have imagined. In this episode: Dave takes you through why this song, album, and its sequels have influenced generations of Mansy; the myth of the small town Cinderella story; the context of its release in American history; how to be a man when confronted with sentimental drivel. The Valentine's Day Song That Launched The Mansy Generation. Put your beer bottle microphone down and pay your tab. It’s time to grow up.]]>23:57yespodcasts,dating,men,for,satire,culture,pop,advice,american,relationships,selfhelp,blogs,interests,mensOPXM 07 - What American Men Need To Know About LesbiansThu, 31 Jan 2013 14:00:00 +0000Do lesbians 'miss it?' Can a guy come in and save the day like in porn? Are lesbians only lesbians because they have been scorned by men? Are American men crazier than lesbians? In the seventh installment of our interview series Ordinary People, Extraordinary Mansy, we sit down with the beautiful and intelligent Mitzy Mack. Sex, myths, misconceptions and truths, it's an interview no one should miss. In this episode: a new definition of American Mansy; when women play the game; the insecurities men reveal when they approach women; the truth about bisexuals; and the number one thing single men need to know. What American Men Need To Know About Lesbians. They're everywhere. And no - you can't watch.]]>Do lesbians 'miss it?' Can a guy come in and save the day like in porn? Are lesbians only lesbians because they have been scorned by men? Are American men crazier than lesbians? In the seventh installment of our interview series Ordinary People, Extraordinary Mansy, we sit down with the beautiful and intelligent Mitzy Mack. Sex, myths, misconceptions and truths, it's an interview no one should miss. In this episode: a new definition of American Mansy; when women play the game; the insecurities men reveal when they approach women; the truth about bisexuals; and the number one thing single men need to know. What American Men Need To Know About Lesbians. They're everywhere. And no - you can't watch.]]>24:26yespodcasts,dating,men,for,satire,culture,pop,advice,american,relationships,selfhelp,blogs,interests,mensAMP 074 - The Three Reasons Why Manti Te’o Represents AmericaThu, 24 Jan 2013 17:10:00 +0000If you think we're presenting the same old story you've been hearing in the news - guess again. There's something behind the Mansy Te'o story no one is talking about - the American Mansy Trilogy: desperation for attention, bad parenting and coddling. We are aiding and abetting the behavior of grown-up babies. We are now paying the price for never letting our children fail. In this episode: the lack of class and restraint in our culture; the condoning of private matters on public display; the impotence of American parents. The Three Reasons Why Manti Te'o Represents America. The Mayans got it wrong - the apocalypse is happening right now.]]>If you think we're presenting the same old story you've been hearing in the news - guess again. There's something behind the Mansy Te'o story no one is talking about - the American Mansy Trilogy: desperation for attention, bad parenting and coddling. We are aiding and abetting the behavior of grown-up babies. We are now paying the price for never letting our children fail. In this episode: the lack of class and restraint in our culture; the condoning of private matters on public display; the impotence of American parents. The Three Reasons Why Manti Te'o Represents America. The Mayans got it wrong - the apocalypse is happening right now.]]>26:03yespodcasts,dating,men,for,satire,culture,pop,advice,american,relationships,selfhelp,blogs,interests,mensAMP 073 - How To Be A Man In Twenty-First Century AmericaThu, 17 Jan 2013 15:00:00 +0000American Men live in fear – fear of the unknown. Although fear of the unknown is universal, in American men it’s an entitlement. From how they handle themselves, women, loss, their insecurities, public behavior, to mother-in-laws and fatherhood, American men afflicted with Mansy expect it in themselves – and women expect it from them. In this episode: the American man’s inability to accept failure; the American man’s desperation in seeking approval and validation; how to become a better man as an individual; examples of Mansy in the public arena; what we are bringing to the table in 2013. How To Be A Man In Twenty-First Century America. What does Mansy, Ray Lewis, Bruce Springsteen and the American Congress have in common? Many things that need our undivided attention.]]>American Men live in fear – fear of the unknown. Although fear of the unknown is universal, in American men it’s an entitlement. From how they handle themselves, women, loss, their insecurities, public behavior, to mother-in-laws and fatherhood, American men afflicted with Mansy expect it in themselves – and women expect it from them. In this episode: the American man’s inability to accept failure; the American man’s desperation in seeking approval and validation; how to become a better man as an individual; examples of Mansy in the public arena; what we are bringing to the table in 2013. How To Be A Man In Twenty-First Century America. What does Mansy, Ray Lewis, Bruce Springsteen and the American Congress have in common? Many things that need our undivided attention.]]>26:40yespodcasts,dating,men,for,advice,relationships,selfhelp,blogs,interests,mensAMP 072 - How To Avoid Being An Idiot At The Holiday Office PartyThu, 20 Dec 2012 15:00:00 +0000Mansy loves being the center of attention. The Holiday Office Party, a landmine with alcohol, gives him this opportunity. Food and drinks are free, and Mansy cuts loose. But Mansy should think otherwise. Whether he drinks too much, hits on the wrong woman, or lets his inner idiot shine, Mansy should have a long talk with himself before he says or does the wrong thing to the wrong person. In this episode: she’s always off-limits; stewing company grievances; if you don’t get out much. How To Avoid Being An Idiot At The Holiday Office Party. Mansy should give himself the gift of restraint for Christmas.]]>Mansy loves being the center of attention. The Holiday Office Party, a landmine with alcohol, gives him this opportunity. Food and drinks are free, and Mansy cuts loose. But Mansy should think otherwise. Whether he drinks too much, hits on the wrong woman, or lets his inner idiot shine, Mansy should have a long talk with himself before he says or does the wrong thing to the wrong person. In this episode: she’s always off-limits; stewing company grievances; if you don’t get out much. How To Avoid Being An Idiot At The Holiday Office Party. Mansy should give himself the gift of restraint for Christmas.]]>21:11yespodcasts,dating,men,for,advice,relationships,selfhelp,blogs,interests,mensAMP 071 - Why The Big Christmas Gift Won't Save Your RelationshipThu, 13 Dec 2012 15:00:00 +0000No one likes to fail – especially with relationships. The end is in sight but you don’t want to admit it. Instead of accepting reality, however, Mansy will pull a Hail Mary over the holidays – the big Christmas gift to save the relationship. Whether it’s a car, a vacation, or maybe even a ring, the Hail Mary Christmas gift is an act of desperation, an eleventh-hour maneuver to keep her in your life. In this episode: reconnecting to the past; all about Mansy; prolonging bad relationships. Why The Big Christmas Gift Will Not Save Your Relationship. Do yourself a favor: Take it back.]]>No one likes to fail – especially with relationships. The end is in sight but you don’t want to admit it. Instead of accepting reality, however, Mansy will pull a Hail Mary over the holidays – the big Christmas gift to save the relationship. Whether it’s a car, a vacation, or maybe even a ring, the Hail Mary Christmas gift is an act of desperation, an eleventh-hour maneuver to keep her in your life. In this episode: reconnecting to the past; all about Mansy; prolonging bad relationships. Why The Big Christmas Gift Will Not Save Your Relationship. Do yourself a favor: Take it back.]]>24:51yespodcasts,dating,men,for,advice,relationships,selfhelp,blogs,interests,mensOPXM06 - Divorced And Single: What Now?Thu, 06 Dec 2012 15:00:00 +0000Are you afraid of the unknown? In the sixth installment of Ordinary People, Extraordinary Mansy, we interview Captain Mass one year later since discussing his divorce. What’s it like to date women getting older as a divorced father? What complications arise? What myths simply aren’t true? Is loneliness difficult or easy to manage? In short – what now? In this episode: how to meet women as a divorced father; dealing with the ex-wife; a divorced man’s greatest fear. Honest, funny, compelling and truthful, Captain Mass tells us what it has been like in the past year, what the future may hold, and what all divorced fathers need to hear.]]>Are you afraid of the unknown? In the sixth installment of Ordinary People, Extraordinary Mansy, we interview Captain Mass one year later since discussing his divorce. What’s it like to date women getting older as a divorced father? What complications arise? What myths simply aren’t true? Is loneliness difficult or easy to manage? In short – what now? In this episode: how to meet women as a divorced father; dealing with the ex-wife; a divorced man’s greatest fear. Honest, funny, compelling and truthful, Captain Mass tells us what it has been like in the past year, what the future may hold, and what all divorced fathers need to hear.]]>28:22yespodcasts,dating,men,for,advice,relationships,selfhelp,blogs,interests,mensAMP 069 - How To Act Around Her Family Over The HolidaysThu, 29 Nov 2012 15:00:00 +0000Mansy likes to impress. It’s one of his downfalls. Nowhere is this more apparent than when he meets his girlfriend’s family. But the holidays are different. There’s more stress, people aren’t always themselves, and let’s face it – family is family. Mansy is an outsider, whether her family likes him or not. How should Mansy manage himself when visits her family for the holidays? In the beginning, the first meeting is crucial. The second visit should not be taken for granted. And the last visit could be devastating if Mansy isn’t smart. In this episode: the risk of imposing yourself; assuming you’re family; what they do know can hurt you. How To Act Around Her Family Over The Holidays. A landmine avoided is a lesson learned.]]>Mansy likes to impress. It’s one of his downfalls. Nowhere is this more apparent than when he meets his girlfriend’s family. But the holidays are different. There’s more stress, people aren’t always themselves, and let’s face it – family is family. Mansy is an outsider, whether her family likes him or not. How should Mansy manage himself when visits her family for the holidays? In the beginning, the first meeting is crucial. The second visit should not be taken for granted. And the last visit could be devastating if Mansy isn’t smart. In this episode: the risk of imposing yourself; assuming you’re family; what they do know can hurt you. How To Act Around Her Family Over The Holidays. A landmine avoided is a lesson learned.]]>25:06yespodcasts,dating,men,for,advice,relationships,selfhelp,blogs,interests,mensAMP 068 - The Insecurities You Reveal When You Call Yourself A ‘Player’Thu, 15 Nov 2012 15:00:00 +0000Labeling yourself is a cover-up of insecurity and vulnerability. A true leader doesn’t call himself one – he just leads. Mansy, however, as the self-anointed ‘Player’ might perceive himself as a person of strength. The truth is that he reveals himself as a person in hiding – and women see right through this. If The Player is incapable of confronting himself, he’s incapable of having mature, grown-up relationships with women. In this episode: the conquest of women – insecurities revealed; incapacity of dealing with mature women; lack of self-control = lack of manliness. The Insecurities You Reveal When You Call Yourself A ‘Player.’ The American Mansy fools nobody.]]>Labeling yourself is a cover-up of insecurity and vulnerability. A true leader doesn’t call himself one – he just leads. Mansy, however, as the self-anointed ‘Player’ might perceive himself as a person of strength. The truth is that he reveals himself as a person in hiding – and women see right through this. If The Player is incapable of confronting himself, he’s incapable of having mature, grown-up relationships with women. In this episode: the conquest of women – insecurities revealed; incapacity of dealing with mature women; lack of self-control = lack of manliness. The Insecurities You Reveal When You Call Yourself A ‘Player.’ The American Mansy fools nobody.]]>23:04yespodcasts,dating,men,for,advice,relationships,selfhelp,blogs,interests,mensAMP 067 - Why Planning The Perfect Relationship Is Dangerous To Your HealthThu, 08 Nov 2012 15:00:00 +0000The American Mansy is a planner. He likes everything in a box. From the ‘type’ of woman he likes to the kind of relationship he wants, Mansy wants the full package. It’s Mansy to plan for these things to begin with. Men are worse than women when it comes to the American Dream – the perfect wife, the white picket fence, the perfect relationship. What Mansy doesn’t realize is that his preconceived type of woman and relationship is wrong and always will be. In this episode: sticking to ‘types’ of women; the pitfalls of fixed rules; fear of the unconventional. Why Planning The Perfect Relationship Is Dangerous To Your Health. If you live in the future, the past is right in front of you.]]>The American Mansy is a planner. He likes everything in a box. From the ‘type’ of woman he likes to the kind of relationship he wants, Mansy wants the full package. It’s Mansy to plan for these things to begin with. Men are worse than women when it comes to the American Dream – the perfect wife, the white picket fence, the perfect relationship. What Mansy doesn’t realize is that his preconceived type of woman and relationship is wrong and always will be. In this episode: sticking to ‘types’ of women; the pitfalls of fixed rules; fear of the unconventional. Why Planning The Perfect Relationship Is Dangerous To Your Health. If you live in the future, the past is right in front of you.]]>27:47yespodcasts,dating,men,for,advice,relationships,selfhelp,blogs,interests,mensAMP 066 - Why Winning Her Back Is Playing To LoseThu, 01 Nov 2012 14:00:00 +0000If you get fired from your job, do you fight to get it back? If someone stops responding to your phone calls and texts, do you find out why? So if someone treats you poorly in any way, is this an incentive to keep this person in your life? Why is it so popular and romantic to win her back? What fight is Mansy trying to win? Can it be won at all? In this episode: what to do when you’re caught cheating; what to do when she’s cheated or she doesn’t want you anymore; returning to damaged trust. Why Winning Her Back Is Playing To Lose. Whether it was you or her that made a huge mistake, winning her back is always a losing proposition.]]>If you get fired from your job, do you fight to get it back? If someone stops responding to your phone calls and texts, do you find out why? So if someone treats you poorly in any way, is this an incentive to keep this person in your life? Why is it so popular and romantic to win her back? What fight is Mansy trying to win? Can it be won at all? In this episode: what to do when you’re caught cheating; what to do when she’s cheated or she doesn’t want you anymore; returning to damaged trust. Why Winning Her Back Is Playing To Lose. Whether it was you or her that made a huge mistake, winning her back is always a losing proposition.]]>20:13yespodcasts,dating,men,for,advice,relationships,selfhelp,blogs,interests,mensAMP 065 - How Old Is Too Old To Call Her Your Girlfriend?Thu, 25 Oct 2012 14:00:00 +0000Americans need labels. They need to easily categorize things. Relationships are no different. And it’s up to Mansy to decide what works for him and what doesn’t. Does society demand this title? What does this title mean? Is it just consideration for her so she knows where she stands? And how old is too old for Mansy to have a girlfriend? In this episode: what people think vs. what you think; a sign of immaturity or ownership; the evolution of relationships as a man gets older. How Old Is Too Old To Call Her Your Girlfriend? Is a label just a label?]]>Americans need labels. They need to easily categorize things. Relationships are no different. And it’s up to Mansy to decide what works for him and what doesn’t. Does society demand this title? What does this title mean? Is it just consideration for her so she knows where she stands? And how old is too old for Mansy to have a girlfriend? In this episode: what people think vs. what you think; a sign of immaturity or ownership; the evolution of relationships as a man gets older. How Old Is Too Old To Call Her Your Girlfriend? Is a label just a label?]]>25:14yespodcasts,dating,men,for,advice,relationships,selfhelp,blogs,interests,mensAMP 064 - Should You Ever Move In With Her?Thu, 18 Oct 2012 14:00:00 +0000Do you pay attention to her and her habits? Or is it necessary to move in with her and play ‘house’ in order to figure out who she really is? Not only does Mansy win points by paying attention to her, it’s something he should be doing anyway. So why would moving in together provide any startling new revelations? This week, Uncle Todd and Dave The Masshole take sides. Dave says it’s essential to move in together; Uncle Todd says it is not. In this episode: powers of observation are everything; does she change when you’re under one roof? do unknown habits sink a relationship. Should You Ever Move In With Her? Only you can decide.]]>Do you pay attention to her and her habits? Or is it necessary to move in with her and play ‘house’ in order to figure out who she really is? Not only does Mansy win points by paying attention to her, it’s something he should be doing anyway. So why would moving in together provide any startling new revelations? This week, Uncle Todd and Dave The Masshole take sides. Dave says it’s essential to move in together; Uncle Todd says it is not. In this episode: powers of observation are everything; does she change when you’re under one roof? do unknown habits sink a relationship. Should You Ever Move In With Her? Only you can decide.]]>28:59yespodcasts,dating,men,for,advice,relationships,selfhelp,blogs,interests,mensAMP 063 - If You Hire Or Promote Her Just For Sex, You Might Just Be A LoserThu, 11 Oct 2012 14:00:00 +0000Nothing makes Mansy feel tougher than a power trip. In a position of power, Mansy thinks he’s ‘the man’ when it comes to how he’s perceived at work – especially when it comes to women. Whether he’s promoting a position from within or hiring from the outside, Mansy thinks that hiring someone to sleep with her makes him powerful. Actually, he could not be a bigger loser – and Mansy – by doing this. In this episode: the difference between position of power and real power; the truth of women who sleep their way to the top; desperate for sex – the consequences. If You Hire Or Promote Her Just For Sex, You Might Just Be A Loser. If you’re unwilling to find women without your job title, you are 100% Mansy.]]>Nothing makes Mansy feel tougher than a power trip. In a position of power, Mansy thinks he’s ‘the man’ when it comes to how he’s perceived at work – especially when it comes to women. Whether he’s promoting a position from within or hiring from the outside, Mansy thinks that hiring someone to sleep with her makes him powerful. Actually, he could not be a bigger loser – and Mansy – by doing this. In this episode: the difference between position of power and real power; the truth of women who sleep their way to the top; desperate for sex – the consequences. If You Hire Or Promote Her Just For Sex, You Might Just Be A Loser. If you’re unwilling to find women without your job title, you are 100% Mansy.]]>27:34yespodcasts,dating,men,for,advice,relationships,selfhelp,blogs,interests,mensAMP 062 - Everything You Need To Know About Her Happens In The BedroomThu, 04 Oct 2012 14:00:00 +0000She’s put you on a waiting list. She likes oral sex or she doesn’t. She prefers sex only when she’s drunk. Or she wants sex only when she’s ready and you’re not. Many scenarios, many questions. This may seem innocuous or a matter of preference. But the raw truth is that what happens in the bedroom will happen in life. This information is not to be ignored. In this episode: what oral sex (or the lack of it) reveals; why sex reveals her true personality – and yours; sexually compatible or not – she is who she is. Everything You Need To Know About Her Happens In The Bedroom. Enough said.]]>She’s put you on a waiting list. She likes oral sex or she doesn’t. She prefers sex only when she’s drunk. Or she wants sex only when she’s ready and you’re not. Many scenarios, many questions. This may seem innocuous or a matter of preference. But the raw truth is that what happens in the bedroom will happen in life. This information is not to be ignored. In this episode: what oral sex (or the lack of it) reveals; why sex reveals her true personality – and yours; sexually compatible or not – she is who she is. Everything You Need To Know About Her Happens In The Bedroom. Enough said.]]>23:30yespodcasts,dating,men,for,advice,relationships,selfhelp,blogs,interests,mensOPXM05 - Why You Should Never Go Back To Her – Even After A Near-Death ExperienceThu, 27 Sep 2012 14:00:00 +0000If you get a second chance at life – do you give a bad relationship a second chance? In the fifth installment of our interview series Ordinary People, Extraordinary Mansy, our special guest The Brooklyn Patriot bravely traces some of the tragedy in his life that finally lead to one of the most important facets of redemption – self-control. From early tragedy to honorably serving our country in the U.S. Army, he details the fine line you must walk between structure and risk, the importance of restraint in a relationship, and how to live after nearly losing his life to a rare, life-threatening illness. It’s a powerful, often funny story of bravery, redemption, forgiveness, and the difficulties in managing freedom of choice and the consequences therein. A compelling and fascinating interview, you won’t want to miss it.]]>If you get a second chance at life – do you give a bad relationship a second chance? In the fifth installment of our interview series Ordinary People, Extraordinary Mansy, our special guest The Brooklyn Patriot bravely traces some of the tragedy in his life that finally lead to one of the most important facets of redemption – self-control. From early tragedy to honorably serving our country in the U.S. Army, he details the fine line you must walk between structure and risk, the importance of restraint in a relationship, and how to live after nearly losing his life to a rare, life-threatening illness. It’s a powerful, often funny story of bravery, redemption, forgiveness, and the difficulties in managing freedom of choice and the consequences therein. A compelling and fascinating interview, you won’t want to miss it.]]>54:19yespodcasts,dating,men,for,advice,relationships,selfhelp,blogs,interests,mensAMP 060 - Why You Should Never Become Best Friends With Your Wife Or GirlfriendThu, 20 Sep 2012 14:00:00 +0000Forget finding a ‘soul mate,’ the love of your life, and your best friend in one person. Nothing kills the spark in relationship more quickly than expecting her to be your best friend. Ending up in the ‘friend zone’ in a relationship is no different than ending up in the ‘friend zone’ when you’re after somebody. It kills romance, your sex life, and any spark that made you attracted to each other in the first place. If she becomes your best friend, it leaves your relationship with nowhere to go. In this episode: losing illogical, unrealistic expectations; avoiding lifelong unhappiness; preventing the safe & comfortable. Why You Should Never Become Best Friends With Your Wife Or Girlfriend. You were never after friendship – you were after excitement.]]>Forget finding a ‘soul mate,’ the love of your life, and your best friend in one person. Nothing kills the spark in relationship more quickly than expecting her to be your best friend. Ending up in the ‘friend zone’ in a relationship is no different than ending up in the ‘friend zone’ when you’re after somebody. It kills romance, your sex life, and any spark that made you attracted to each other in the first place. If she becomes your best friend, it leaves your relationship with nowhere to go. In this episode: losing illogical, unrealistic expectations; avoiding lifelong unhappiness; preventing the safe & comfortable. Why You Should Never Become Best Friends With Your Wife Or Girlfriend. You were never after friendship – you were after excitement.]]>24:19yespodcasts,dating,men,for,advice,relationships,selfhelp,blogs,interests,mensAMP 059 - The Double Standard Of A Woman’s UltimatumThu, 13 Sep 2012 14:00:00 +0000Most women want one of three things: to live with her man, to have children with him, or to marry him. Sometimes, in order to get one of these three things, a woman will issue an ultimatum. The stark truth about a woman’s ultimatum, however, is that it’s a double standard. Instead of taking responsibility for her own life, the ultimatum puts the burden of the situation on the man. It makes it easier for her to leave him, thus giving her someone to blame. In this episode: the power of leverage – walking away; her inability to accept responsibility; being ‘put on the spot’ with your life. The Double Standard Of A Woman’s Ultimatum. There’s only one way to say goodbye – just do it.]]>Most women want one of three things: to live with her man, to have children with him, or to marry him. Sometimes, in order to get one of these three things, a woman will issue an ultimatum. The stark truth about a woman’s ultimatum, however, is that it’s a double standard. Instead of taking responsibility for her own life, the ultimatum puts the burden of the situation on the man. It makes it easier for her to leave him, thus giving her someone to blame. In this episode: the power of leverage – walking away; her inability to accept responsibility; being ‘put on the spot’ with your life. The Double Standard Of A Woman’s Ultimatum. There’s only one way to say goodbye – just do it.]]>25:14yespodcasts,dating,men,for,advice,relationships,selfhelp,blogs,interests,mensAMP 058 - Why You Should NEVER Cross The Line With Your Friends’ WomenThu, 06 Sep 2012 14:00:00 +0000There’s a cliché out there called ‘Bro code’ – certain things men should always adhere to with their behavior with women and themselves. It boils down to something more important: having some class. Whether a situation involves you wanting to sleep with a friend’s ex-girlfriend to your opinions on a friend’s relationship, having good taste, class, restraint, and sound judgment is incredibly important – and a choice. This is non-negotiable. In this episode: the Mansy of selling out your friends for sex; the insecurities & shortcomings of a rat; the lost art of restraint. Why You Should NEVER Cross The Line With Your Friends’ Women. Man up and look elsewhere.]]>There’s a cliché out there called ‘Bro code’ – certain things men should always adhere to with their behavior with women and themselves. It boils down to something more important: having some class. Whether a situation involves you wanting to sleep with a friend’s ex-girlfriend to your opinions on a friend’s relationship, having good taste, class, restraint, and sound judgment is incredibly important – and a choice. This is non-negotiable. In this episode: the Mansy of selling out your friends for sex; the insecurities & shortcomings of a rat; the lost art of restraint. Why You Should NEVER Cross The Line With Your Friends’ Women. Man up and look elsewhere.]]>25:07yespodcasts,dating,men,for,advice,relationships,selfhelp,blogs,interests,mensAMP 057 - Why American Men Feel Sorry For ThemselvesThu, 30 Aug 2012 14:00:00 +0000No one likes a drama queen except other drama queens. No one likes someone desperate for attention – except people who like people who are desperate for attention. And no one is guiltier of this than the American Mansy who wallows in his own self-pity. You’re not ill, you’re not broke - you’re not even depressed. Suck it up. From your next-door neighbor to professional athletes, using your own self-pity to put on a show to get attention is 100% Mansy. In this episode: the origins of American self-pity; social media self-pity from Mansy to professional athletes; mental self-discipline – your mother isn’t around. Why American Men Feel Sorry For Themselves. It’s an epidemic decades in the making.]]>No one likes a drama queen except other drama queens. No one likes someone desperate for attention – except people who like people who are desperate for attention. And no one is guiltier of this than the American Mansy who wallows in his own self-pity. You’re not ill, you’re not broke - you’re not even depressed. Suck it up. From your next-door neighbor to professional athletes, using your own self-pity to put on a show to get attention is 100% Mansy. In this episode: the origins of American self-pity; social media self-pity from Mansy to professional athletes; mental self-discipline – your mother isn’t around. Why American Men Feel Sorry For Themselves. It’s an epidemic decades in the making.]]>28:37yespodcasts,dating,men,for,advice,relationships,selfhelp,blogs,interests,mensOPXM04 - The Raw Truth Men Need To Know About Online DatingThu, 23 Aug 2012 14:00:00 +0000In the fourth installment of our interview series Ordinary People, Extraordinary Mansy, our special guest, Mr. Wizard, has been deeply involved with online dating and is ready to bring you the good, the bad, the ugly, the raw truth men need to know about online dating. Online dating is more popular than ever. Like social media, it simplifies the process of people meeting each other and connecting. Yet there’s one major flaw with the system – human beings. People are people, and given a platform to take advantage of a situation, they will take it for better or for worse. In this episode, Mr. Wizard takes you through the following: the pitfalls to avoid; the great things about online dating; what it costs; how to set up a profile; the real type of women available; always drama, always strategies; turtles, shellfish obsessions & the Chicago Bears. It’s an interview you won’t want to miss.]]>In the fourth installment of our interview series Ordinary People, Extraordinary Mansy, our special guest, Mr. Wizard, has been deeply involved with online dating and is ready to bring you the good, the bad, the ugly, the raw truth men need to know about online dating. Online dating is more popular than ever. Like social media, it simplifies the process of people meeting each other and connecting. Yet there’s one major flaw with the system – human beings. People are people, and given a platform to take advantage of a situation, they will take it for better or for worse. In this episode, Mr. Wizard takes you through the following: the pitfalls to avoid; the great things about online dating; what it costs; how to set up a profile; the real type of women available; always drama, always strategies; turtles, shellfish obsessions & the Chicago Bears. It’s an interview you won’t want to miss.]]>57:07yespodcasts,dating,men,for,advice,relationships,selfhelp,blogs,interests,mensAMP 055 - Has Mansy Infected The Olympics?Thu, 16 Aug 2012 14:00:00 +0000The Olympics used to test the warriors of Ancient Greece. They were supposed to be about national pride, purity, and an escape from the commercialism, match fixing, and corruption of professional sports. In 2012, the Olympics are now about commercialism, match fixing, corruption – and Mansy. In this episode: the Mansy commercialism of national pride; absence of pure sport; past non-Mansy moments in Olympic history. Has Mansy infected the Olympics? Is this the best the world has to offer?]]>The Olympics used to test the warriors of Ancient Greece. They were supposed to be about national pride, purity, and an escape from the commercialism, match fixing, and corruption of professional sports. In 2012, the Olympics are now about commercialism, match fixing, corruption – and Mansy. In this episode: the Mansy commercialism of national pride; absence of pure sport; past non-Mansy moments in Olympic history. Has Mansy infected the Olympics? Is this the best the world has to offer?]]>20:36yespodcasts,dating,men,for,advice,relationships,selfhelp,blogs,interests,mensAMP 054 - The Truth Behind When She Says ‘I’m Old-Fashioned’Thu, 09 Aug 2012 14:00:00 +0000For some Americans, life is a Hollywood movie. For some American women, this is a way of life. But Marilyn Monroe they are not. And when a woman says she’s ‘old-fashioned,’ what is she really saying? Is it an excuse to be lazy? Does she really just want a sugar daddy? Or is it something worse? What is Mansy really in for? In this episode: her list of expectations; bait to act like Prince Charming; playing the sugar daddy outside your means. The Truth Behind When She Says ‘I’m Old-Fashioned.’ Read between the lines, Mansy. It’s a code that’s easily broken.]]>For some Americans, life is a Hollywood movie. For some American women, this is a way of life. But Marilyn Monroe they are not. And when a woman says she’s ‘old-fashioned,’ what is she really saying? Is it an excuse to be lazy? Does she really just want a sugar daddy? Or is it something worse? What is Mansy really in for? In this episode: her list of expectations; bait to act like Prince Charming; playing the sugar daddy outside your means. The Truth Behind When She Says ‘I’m Old-Fashioned.’ Read between the lines, Mansy. It’s a code that’s easily broken.]]>21:00yespodcasts,dating,men,for,advice,relationships,selfhelp,blogs,interests,mensAMP 053 - How Not To Be The Mansy Second Boyfriend (Like Uncle Todd)Thu, 02 Aug 2012 14:00:00 +0000We’ve all had a relationship that was too good to be true – sex, sense of humor, and life goals. All the chemistry was in line. Then you find out you’re not the only one. You try to hang on, but it’s always over your head. But you remain loyal – and monogamous – as the second boyfriend. Are you one in a constellation of Mansies? Are you living in reality? Are you temporarily insane? In this episode: why men get involved with unavailable women; what she really means when she says you’re not exclusive; putting your life on hold is a choice. Uncle Todd takes us on a journey on how to handle this situation - and how not to handle it. How Not To Be The Mansy Second Boyfriend Like Uncle Todd. It’s one of the Mansiest things a guy can be.]]>We’ve all had a relationship that was too good to be true – sex, sense of humor, and life goals. All the chemistry was in line. Then you find out you’re not the only one. You try to hang on, but it’s always over your head. But you remain loyal – and monogamous – as the second boyfriend. Are you one in a constellation of Mansies? Are you living in reality? Are you temporarily insane? In this episode: why men get involved with unavailable women; what she really means when she says you’re not exclusive; putting your life on hold is a choice. Uncle Todd takes us on a journey on how to handle this situation - and how not to handle it. How Not To Be The Mansy Second Boyfriend Like Uncle Todd. It’s one of the Mansiest things a guy can be.]]>38:33yespodcasts,dating,men,for,advice,relationships,selfhelp,blogs,interests,mensAMP 052 - Why Dave Wore A Hairpiece In His TwentiesThu, 26 Jul 2012 14:00:00 +0000American men have a need to overcompensate for perceived deficiencies they think they have. One of the most common ones is losing your hair. The cover-up, the combover, the hairpiece, the rug – this is perhaps the most common fix for most men when the onset of age has come a bit too early. Our very own Dave The Masshole was only nineteen years old – and planning to get a hairpiece. What drove him to do it? How did he perceive himself? And how did he finally get rid of it forever? In this episode: the realities of going bald as a teenager; how, physically, do you wear one; the commitment – time & money; sex & taking showers; relationships with & without a hairpiece; the experience of going bald. Why Dave Wore A Hairpiece In His Twenties – the before, during, and after.]]>American men have a need to overcompensate for perceived deficiencies they think they have. One of the most common ones is losing your hair. The cover-up, the combover, the hairpiece, the rug – this is perhaps the most common fix for most men when the onset of age has come a bit too early. Our very own Dave The Masshole was only nineteen years old – and planning to get a hairpiece. What drove him to do it? How did he perceive himself? And how did he finally get rid of it forever? In this episode: the realities of going bald as a teenager; how, physically, do you wear one; the commitment – time & money; sex & taking showers; relationships with & without a hairpiece; the experience of going bald. Why Dave Wore A Hairpiece In His Twenties – the before, during, and after.]]>49:55yespodcasts,dating,men,for,advice,relationships,selfhelp,blogs,interests,mensAMP 051 - State Of The Union, State Of The Mansy – Are You Better Off Now Than One Year Ago?Thu, 19 Jul 2012 14:00:00 +0000It’s been one year since we launched American Mansy – the epidemic of Mansy in America, and the American man’s inability to handle money, time, himself, and the American woman. Women now see the epidemic in men; men see it themselves. The word ‘Mansy’ now circulates in the English language – now with its truer meaning. But has Mansy in America gotten any better? Or has it gotten much worse? In this episode: the litmus test of bars & restaurants; Mansy in advertising & professional sports; awareness brings responsibility. State Of The Union, State Of The Mansy – Are You Better Off Now Than One Year Ago? Our First Anniversary show. In Season Two – time to get in the ring.]]>It’s been one year since we launched American Mansy – the epidemic of Mansy in America, and the American man’s inability to handle money, time, himself, and the American woman. Women now see the epidemic in men; men see it themselves. The word ‘Mansy’ now circulates in the English language – now with its truer meaning. But has Mansy in America gotten any better? Or has it gotten much worse? In this episode: the litmus test of bars & restaurants; Mansy in advertising & professional sports; awareness brings responsibility. State Of The Union, State Of The Mansy – Are You Better Off Now Than One Year Ago? Our First Anniversary show. In Season Two – time to get in the ring.]]>25:39yespodcasts,dating,men,for,advice,relationships,selfhelp,blogs,interests,mensAMP 050 - Why The American Man Is Afraid To Stand AloneThu, 12 Jul 2012 14:00:00 +0000American men have gotten soft. Our softness is represented in our movies, our music, our culture. We need to quit making spectacles of ourselves. We live in fear. We need to turn our fear into action. This is the bedrock, the foundation of American Mansy. Not putting fear into action is why we fail at our jobs, our identities, and our relationships with women. This is why we have the epidemic of American Mansy today. In this episode: the bravery in accepting you’re ordinary; accepting strengths as much weaknesses; the disrespect of time. Why The American Man Is Afraid To Stand Alone. It’s not time to step up to the plate – it’s time to get onto the pitcher’s mound, and send one right down the middle.]]>American men have gotten soft. Our softness is represented in our movies, our music, our culture. We need to quit making spectacles of ourselves. We live in fear. We need to turn our fear into action. This is the bedrock, the foundation of American Mansy. Not putting fear into action is why we fail at our jobs, our identities, and our relationships with women. This is why we have the epidemic of American Mansy today. In this episode: the bravery in accepting you’re ordinary; accepting strengths as much weaknesses; the disrespect of time. Why The American Man Is Afraid To Stand Alone. It’s not time to step up to the plate – it’s time to get onto the pitcher’s mound, and send one right down the middle.]]>28:10yespodcasts,dating,men,for,advice,relationships,selfhelp,blogs,interests,mensAMP 049 - How To Meet Women After A Serious Breakup – And What To AvoidThu, 05 Jul 2012 14:00:00 +0000You made it through the nuclear winter of the Mansy Deep-Six. You took time afterwards to put your life back together, and now you’re out meeting new people. Have you finally learned from your mistakes? Are you in danger of falling for the same old Mansy-ass dramas and nonsense that messed you up in the first place? What are the pitfalls to avoid new Soulsuckers? In this episode: why passion is overrated & a red flag; being focused as a man alone; when to know you’re making the right decisions. How To Meet Women After A Serious Break-Up – And What To Avoid. Be careful what you’re attracted to.]]>You made it through the nuclear winter of the Mansy Deep-Six. You took time afterwards to put your life back together, and now you’re out meeting new people. Have you finally learned from your mistakes? Are you in danger of falling for the same old Mansy-ass dramas and nonsense that messed you up in the first place? What are the pitfalls to avoid new Soulsuckers? In this episode: why passion is overrated & a red flag; being focused as a man alone; when to know you’re making the right decisions. How To Meet Women After A Serious Break-Up – And What To Avoid. Be careful what you’re attracted to.]]>28:40yespodcasts,dating,men,for,advice,relationships,selfhelp,blogs,interests,mensAMP 048 - Why Finishing Her Sentences Will Finish YouThu, 28 Jun 2012 14:00:00 +0000Nothing freaks a woman out more than Mansy trying to be one step ahead of her at all times in the beginning. And nothing is more stupid than when Mansy reveals unnecessary, useless information to her when he’s in the doghouse or trying to get out himself out of a jam. The more he seeks to please her, the more he will want her to punish him when things go bad. If Mansy insists on spoon-feeding her crème brulee in a restaurant, Mansy will also concede every last bit of his dignity when the relationship goes bad. In this episode: over-preparing and over-indulging; volunteering unnecessary information; revealing stalker-ish DNA. Why Finishing Her Sentences Will Finish You. It’s all in the details.]]>Nothing freaks a woman out more than Mansy trying to be one step ahead of her at all times in the beginning. And nothing is more stupid than when Mansy reveals unnecessary, useless information to her when he’s in the doghouse or trying to get out himself out of a jam. The more he seeks to please her, the more he will want her to punish him when things go bad. If Mansy insists on spoon-feeding her crème brulee in a restaurant, Mansy will also concede every last bit of his dignity when the relationship goes bad. In this episode: over-preparing and over-indulging; volunteering unnecessary information; revealing stalker-ish DNA. Why Finishing Her Sentences Will Finish You. It’s all in the details.]]>18:17yespodcasts,dating,men,for,advice,relationships,selfhelp,blogs,interests,mensAMP 047 - Is The American Soccer Mom The Holy Grail?Thu, 21 Jun 2012 14:00:00 +0000She won the brass ring, she found the Holy Grail, she’s a success in American life – she’s a Soccer Mom. It’s something many American women aspire to, whether they admit it or not, and she’s someone that Mansy aspires to be with. Soccer is to middle-class people what polo is to rich people. If you have the financial wherewithal to pack the minivan and take the kids to soccer practice, you’ve ‘made it.’ Can Mansy afford the Soccer Mom? Is the Soccer Mom the trophy Mansy always wanted? Or did he surrender his life a long time ago? In this episode: the Mansy & Trixie social hour? a sentence for the conventional; living outside your means. Is The American Soccer Mom The Holy Grail? Put the brass ring on a payment plan.]]>She won the brass ring, she found the Holy Grail, she’s a success in American life – she’s a Soccer Mom. It’s something many American women aspire to, whether they admit it or not, and she’s someone that Mansy aspires to be with. Soccer is to middle-class people what polo is to rich people. If you have the financial wherewithal to pack the minivan and take the kids to soccer practice, you’ve ‘made it.’ Can Mansy afford the Soccer Mom? Is the Soccer Mom the trophy Mansy always wanted? Or did he surrender his life a long time ago? In this episode: the Mansy & Trixie social hour? a sentence for the conventional; living outside your means. Is The American Soccer Mom The Holy Grail? Put the brass ring on a payment plan.]]>21:02yespodcasts,dating,men,for,advice,relationships,selfhelp,blogs,interests,mensAMP 046 - What She Really Means When She Says ‘I Don’t Play Games'Thu, 14 Jun 2012 14:00:00 +0000Real women are self-possessed, confident, and intelligent. Insecure women play games to validate themselves through manipulation, strategies, and gamesmanship. In the beginning of all relationships, there’s always a test question: “Do you ever want kids?” “How do you feel about marriage?” Other declarative statements, however, set the stage for war. “I don’t play games” is one of them. She makes this statement when she knows Mansy has no idea who he’s dealing with. In this episode: letting your guard down too early; early signs of Soulsucker relapse; unable to see the big picture. What She Really Means When She Says ‘I Don’t Play Games.’ Settle in and put the gloves.]]>Real women are self-possessed, confident, and intelligent. Insecure women play games to validate themselves through manipulation, strategies, and gamesmanship. In the beginning of all relationships, there’s always a test question: “Do you ever want kids?” “How do you feel about marriage?” Other declarative statements, however, set the stage for war. “I don’t play games” is one of them. She makes this statement when she knows Mansy has no idea who he’s dealing with. In this episode: letting your guard down too early; early signs of Soulsucker relapse; unable to see the big picture. What She Really Means When She Says ‘I Don’t Play Games.’ Settle in and put the gloves.]]>20:33yespodcasts,dating,men,for,advice,relationships,selfhelp,blogs,interests,mensAMP 045 - What A Single Woman’s Pets Reveal About HerThu, 07 Jun 2012 14:00:00 +0000Mansy can learn a lot about a woman’s psychology based on the kind of dog she has. The truth, however, is that the dog is a representation of what the owner is willing to handle. Is she committed to the big beautiful Golden Retriever or Siberian Husky? Or is she over-accessorized with a dyed-red pocket rat stuffed in her Coach purse? What about a ferret or a snake? Mansy should never ignore this gold mine of information. In this episode: the Ferret Advisory – the hostage-taking of exotic animals; more than one cat – run to the hills? stuffed animals and the first impression. What A Single Woman’s Pets Reveal About Her. There are few guarantees in life. This is one of them.]]>Mansy can learn a lot about a woman’s psychology based on the kind of dog she has. The truth, however, is that the dog is a representation of what the owner is willing to handle. Is she committed to the big beautiful Golden Retriever or Siberian Husky? Or is she over-accessorized with a dyed-red pocket rat stuffed in her Coach purse? What about a ferret or a snake? Mansy should never ignore this gold mine of information. In this episode: the Ferret Advisory – the hostage-taking of exotic animals; more than one cat – run to the hills? stuffed animals and the first impression. What A Single Woman’s Pets Reveal About Her. There are few guarantees in life. This is one of them.]]>16:42yespodcasts,dating,men,for,advice,relationships,selfhelp,blogs,interests,mensAMP 044 - The Cowardice Of The Pick-Up ArtistThu, 31 May 2012 14:00:00 +0000There is no bigger scam than preying on the weak for profit. This is the truth of the Pick-Up Artist – or PUA. The Pick-Up Artist Community is one of the biggest scams that Mansy needs to look out for. They are con artists preying on guys who lack confidence, offering to help Mansy to better their lives when they just want to line their pockets with Mansy’s money. This is not just douche – it’s cowardly. In this episode: the PUA as mental midget; playing a character instead of being a man; a predator terrified of his own insecurities. The Cowardice Of The Clown Douche Pick-Up Artist. One of the biggest con artists of all time.]]>There is no bigger scam than preying on the weak for profit. This is the truth of the Pick-Up Artist – or PUA. The Pick-Up Artist Community is one of the biggest scams that Mansy needs to look out for. They are con artists preying on guys who lack confidence, offering to help Mansy to better their lives when they just want to line their pockets with Mansy’s money. This is not just douche – it’s cowardly. In this episode: the PUA as mental midget; playing a character instead of being a man; a predator terrified of his own insecurities. The Cowardice Of The Clown Douche Pick-Up Artist. One of the biggest con artists of all time.]]>19:41yespodcasts,dating,men,for,advice,relationships,selfhelp,blogs,interests,mensAMP 043 - How Not To Be The Nice Guy Who Finishes LastThu, 24 May 2012 14:00:00 +0000Nice Guys Finish Last is a popular phrase in our culture. It suggests that Nice Guys that are too open, trusting, honest, and kind are always surpassed by the Asshole, the guy who doesn’t care what he needs to do to win, get the girl, finish in first. Mansy loses to the Asshole also. But what Mansy doesn’t realize is that he needs to adopt some of the methods of the Asshole in order to evolve from Mansy to real Man – a real Man as defined by someone who knows himself, can defend this, and has security enough with himself that he’s neither Mansy nor Asshole, just himself. In this episode: self-control and defending your own weirdness; learn from The Asshole – don’t become one; becoming the best version of yourself. How Not To Be The Nice Guy Who Finishes Last. Your own independence is the prize.]]>Nice Guys Finish Last is a popular phrase in our culture. It suggests that Nice Guys that are too open, trusting, honest, and kind are always surpassed by the Asshole, the guy who doesn’t care what he needs to do to win, get the girl, finish in first. Mansy loses to the Asshole also. But what Mansy doesn’t realize is that he needs to adopt some of the methods of the Asshole in order to evolve from Mansy to real Man – a real Man as defined by someone who knows himself, can defend this, and has security enough with himself that he’s neither Mansy nor Asshole, just himself. In this episode: self-control and defending your own weirdness; learn from The Asshole – don’t become one; becoming the best version of yourself. How Not To Be The Nice Guy Who Finishes Last. Your own independence is the prize.]]>25:34yespodcasts,dating,men,for,advice,relationships,selfhelp,blogs,interests,mensAMP 042 - Is She A Counterfeiter?Thu, 17 May 2012 14:00:00 +0000American Women are afraid of relying on their natural beauty. If they are, they’re afraid of relying on themselves. All too often, American Women over-process the natural beauty that already exists: too much makeup, fake titties, fake eyelashes, plastic surgery, over-dressing, over-accessorizing, and misrepresenting themselves to the point of clown-foolery. They don’t realize that this makes them unattractive to men. Real men. They will only attract American Mansy. Mansy falls for counterfeiters all the time; he needs to learn that he’s looking in all the wrong places. In this episode: fear what you’re attracted to; appearance is a choice; attraction to fake beauty is attraction to drama. Is She A Counterfeiter? Can Mansy see the signs?]]>American Women are afraid of relying on their natural beauty. If they are, they’re afraid of relying on themselves. All too often, American Women over-process the natural beauty that already exists: too much makeup, fake titties, fake eyelashes, plastic surgery, over-dressing, over-accessorizing, and misrepresenting themselves to the point of clown-foolery. They don’t realize that this makes them unattractive to men. Real men. They will only attract American Mansy. Mansy falls for counterfeiters all the time; he needs to learn that he’s looking in all the wrong places. In this episode: fear what you’re attracted to; appearance is a choice; attraction to fake beauty is attraction to drama. Is She A Counterfeiter? Can Mansy see the signs?]]>24:09yespodcasts,dating,men,for,advice,relationships,selfhelp,blogs,interests,mensAMP 041 - What To REALLY Expect When Expecting – For MenThu, 10 May 2012 14:00:00 +0000You and your wife or girlfriend are planning to have a baby. Think it’s like TV or the movies? Think again. The majority of the attention before, during and after pregnancy is focused on the mother. Little attention, however, is focused on the father. Since dads don’t pay the physical price, their roles seem reduced in this process – but they are just as important. The reality of pregnancy for men is quite different. In this episode: broodmares & stud bulls – taking the sex out of sex; how to manage the agendas and opinions of family and friends; managing the hustle of baby registries & baby books; finding the right doctor& the myth about classes; what to do when you get The Call; entering the unknown when you leave the hospital to begin a family. We interview a brand-new father – our very own Dave The Masshole – to learn from his real-life experiences on What To REALLY Expect When Expecting — For Men. Don’t be a Mansy. Take some notes and be prepared.]]>You and your wife or girlfriend are planning to have a baby. Think it’s like TV or the movies? Think again. The majority of the attention before, during and after pregnancy is focused on the mother. Little attention, however, is focused on the father. Since dads don’t pay the physical price, their roles seem reduced in this process – but they are just as important. The reality of pregnancy for men is quite different. In this episode: broodmares & stud bulls – taking the sex out of sex; how to manage the agendas and opinions of family and friends; managing the hustle of baby registries & baby books; finding the right doctor& the myth about classes; what to do when you get The Call; entering the unknown when you leave the hospital to begin a family. We interview a brand-new father – our very own Dave The Masshole – to learn from his real-life experiences on What To REALLY Expect When Expecting — For Men. Don’t be a Mansy. Take some notes and be prepared.]]>57:16yespodcasts,dating,men,for,advice,relationships,selfhelp,blogs,interests,mensAMP 040 - The Origins And Signs You’re A Mansy - Part 4: The Crisis Of Your Thirties & BeyondThu, 03 May 2012 14:00:00 +0000There’s a myth in American culture that the thirties are the new twenties. Not only is this incorrect, it’s an excuse for people not to grow up. This perception sets up Mansy for a pre-midlife crisis without him knowing it. If he hasn’t learned his lessons from the mistakes he made in his twenties, he enters a vicious cycle of committing the same mistakes, over and over again, with his career, money and relationships, without any end in sight. The thirties are the dividing line. In this episode: if you don’t make it happen now, it may never; seeking the best version of yourself; handling outside pressure; happiness – a choice. The fourth and final part of The Origins & Signs You’re A Mansy – The Crisis Of Your 30s. Time to grow up, circle the wagons, and make a plan and a playbook for the rest of your life.]]>There’s a myth in American culture that the thirties are the new twenties. Not only is this incorrect, it’s an excuse for people not to grow up. This perception sets up Mansy for a pre-midlife crisis without him knowing it. If he hasn’t learned his lessons from the mistakes he made in his twenties, he enters a vicious cycle of committing the same mistakes, over and over again, with his career, money and relationships, without any end in sight. The thirties are the dividing line. In this episode: if you don’t make it happen now, it may never; seeking the best version of yourself; handling outside pressure; happiness – a choice. The fourth and final part of The Origins & Signs You’re A Mansy – The Crisis Of Your 30s. Time to grow up, circle the wagons, and make a plan and a playbook for the rest of your life.]]>19:34yespodcasts,dating,men,for,advice,relationships,selfhelp,blogs,interests,mensAMP 039 - The Origins And Signs You’re A Mansy – Part 3: Your Stupid-Ass TwentiesThu, 26 Apr 2012 14:00:00 +0000After the hangover of the college years wears off, Mansy now finds himself in the real world with real world problems – its expenses, and the truth about relationships. Mansy has youth but lacks a fundamental thing — a plan. Mansy thought that the college experience was supposed to provide this plan; he was mistaken. Are you prepared for the cold realities of the real world? Or will you get smacked down by the hammer of life? In this episode: reality vs. the idea of reality; the danger of marrying the college sweetheart; lack of career focus; a pre-midlife crisis? The Origins & Signs You’re A Mansy – Part 3: Your Stupid-Ass Twenties. How to avoid the pitfalls of dealing with career, finances, and relationships. Welcome to the N.F.L., rookie.]]>After the hangover of the college years wears off, Mansy now finds himself in the real world with real world problems – its expenses, and the truth about relationships. Mansy has youth but lacks a fundamental thing — a plan. Mansy thought that the college experience was supposed to provide this plan; he was mistaken. Are you prepared for the cold realities of the real world? Or will you get smacked down by the hammer of life? In this episode: reality vs. the idea of reality; the danger of marrying the college sweetheart; lack of career focus; a pre-midlife crisis? The Origins & Signs You’re A Mansy – Part 3: Your Stupid-Ass Twenties. How to avoid the pitfalls of dealing with career, finances, and relationships. Welcome to the N.F.L., rookie.]]>30:16yespodcasts,dating,men,for,advice,relationships,selfhelp,blogs,interests,mensThe Bravery Of Fatherhood – a special edition of American Mansy RadioThu, 19 Apr 2012 14:00:00 +0000In this special edition of American Mansy Radio, Uncle Todd pays tribute to brand-new father Dave The Masshole, and to the fathers of America on The Bravery of Fatherhood. Fatherhood is a choice – you man-up or you don’t. The ones who do deserve our highest praise.]]>In this special edition of American Mansy Radio, Uncle Todd pays tribute to brand-new father Dave The Masshole, and to the fathers of America on The Bravery of Fatherhood. Fatherhood is a choice – you man-up or you don’t. The ones who do deserve our highest praise.]]>05:39yespodcasts,dating,men,for,advice,relationships,selfhelp,blogs,interests,mensAMP 038 - The Origins And Signs You’re A Mansy – Part 2: The Idiot College YearsThu, 12 Apr 2012 14:00:00 +0000In colleges and universities all over America, Mansy prototypes need to be studied under their high-pressure economic and hormonal conditions to determine Mansy’s behavior and tendencies. University is where the Mansy prototype is taken on test drives over, and over, and over again. When Mansy left high school, he was ill equipped. When he leaves college, the brake lines are cut. It is the place where Mansy is supposed to get an education in life and economics. Instead, it’s sex camp with books, where Mansy gets a PhD in stupidass-ness, lack of self-control, and a case of full-blown Mansy. In this episode: the misguided search for your future wife in college; the myth of college as a brass ring; a fictional economic & romantic world of college; a sanctioned, extended adolescence? The Origins & Signs You’re A Mansy – Part 2: The Idiot College Years. When will Mansy grow up?]]>In colleges and universities all over America, Mansy prototypes need to be studied under their high-pressure economic and hormonal conditions to determine Mansy’s behavior and tendencies. University is where the Mansy prototype is taken on test drives over, and over, and over again. When Mansy left high school, he was ill equipped. When he leaves college, the brake lines are cut. It is the place where Mansy is supposed to get an education in life and economics. Instead, it’s sex camp with books, where Mansy gets a PhD in stupidass-ness, lack of self-control, and a case of full-blown Mansy. In this episode: the misguided search for your future wife in college; the myth of college as a brass ring; a fictional economic & romantic world of college; a sanctioned, extended adolescence? The Origins & Signs You’re A Mansy – Part 2: The Idiot College Years. When will Mansy grow up?]]>29:54yespodcasts,dating,men,for,advice,relationships,selfhelp,blogs,interests,mensAMP 037 - The Origins And Signs You’re A Mansy – Part 1: Dumb-Ass YouthThu, 05 Apr 2012 14:00:00 +0000In life, there’s always Perception, Reality, and Consequences. And the origin of Mansy is no different. Uncle Todd & Dave The Masshole share with you the origins of their Mansy that started in their dumb-ass youth. Calling yourself out on your own bullshit is the only way of stopping it. In this episode: girls are taught to be strong, independent & self-reliant – boys are not; a boy’s journey into manhood not taken seriously; teenage invincibility – the Mansy breeding ground; the Mansy diploma when you turn eighteen. The Origins & Signs You’re A Mansy – Part 1: Dumb-Ass Youth. The only way to keep Mansy from spreading is to cut it off at the source.]]>In life, there’s always Perception, Reality, and Consequences. And the origin of Mansy is no different. Uncle Todd & Dave The Masshole share with you the origins of their Mansy that started in their dumb-ass youth. Calling yourself out on your own bullshit is the only way of stopping it. In this episode: girls are taught to be strong, independent & self-reliant – boys are not; a boy’s journey into manhood not taken seriously; teenage invincibility – the Mansy breeding ground; the Mansy diploma when you turn eighteen. The Origins & Signs You’re A Mansy – Part 1: Dumb-Ass Youth. The only way to keep Mansy from spreading is to cut it off at the source.]]>28:48yespodcasts,dating,men,for,advice,relationships,selfhelp,blogs,interests,mensAMP 036 - Is The Car You Drive A Commercial For Your Mansy?Thu, 29 Mar 2012 14:00:00 +0000When he was young and dumb, Mansy’s car was a peacock extension of his personality. When he got older, his car became a commercial for his Mansy – showing off his insecurities, the money he never had, the sexual prowess that never was. Mansy’s car then became a trap – where he could not man-up, look his girlfriend or wife in the eye, and tell the truth. In this episode: time to stop acting like a teenager; when you’re afraid to look her in the eye and tell the truth; the transparency of character. Is The Car You Drive A Commercial For Your Mansy? If it is, time to make a change.]]>When he was young and dumb, Mansy’s car was a peacock extension of his personality. When he got older, his car became a commercial for his Mansy – showing off his insecurities, the money he never had, the sexual prowess that never was. Mansy’s car then became a trap – where he could not man-up, look his girlfriend or wife in the eye, and tell the truth. In this episode: time to stop acting like a teenager; when you’re afraid to look her in the eye and tell the truth; the transparency of character. Is The Car You Drive A Commercial For Your Mansy? If it is, time to make a change.]]>24:48yespodcasts,dating,men,for,advice,relationships,selfhelp,blogs,interests,mensAMP 035 - Why Mansy Shouldn’t Take Having Fun So SeriouslyThu, 22 Mar 2012 14:00:00 +0000Nothing is less fun than planning to have fun. In relationships, Mansy is always worried about whether or not they’re going to have fun. Just like in life, it either is or it isn’t. And the funny thing about fun is that the less you worry about fun, the more fun you’ll have. In this episode: is the expectation of fun an entitlement? dating is supposed to be fun – or why do it? settling and fear of loneliness. Why Mansy Shouldn’t Take Having Fun So Seriously. When Mansy accepts this, only then can he start having fun.]]>Nothing is less fun than planning to have fun. In relationships, Mansy is always worried about whether or not they’re going to have fun. Just like in life, it either is or it isn’t. And the funny thing about fun is that the less you worry about fun, the more fun you’ll have. In this episode: is the expectation of fun an entitlement? dating is supposed to be fun – or why do it? settling and fear of loneliness. Why Mansy Shouldn’t Take Having Fun So Seriously. When Mansy accepts this, only then can he start having fun.]]>20:57yespodcasts,dating,men,for,advice,relationships,selfhelp,blogs,interests,mensAMP 034 - Why Her Friends Are The Root Of All EvilThu, 15 Mar 2012 14:00:00 +0000There’s nothing Mansier than a guy who campaigns for the approval of his girlfriend’s friends. There’s nothing Mansier — and dumber — than a guy who campaigns for the approval of her guy friends. From scouts, spies, to her straight-up cavalry, these are a woman’s allies. Her army. And her army is never a friend to Mansy. In this episode: why her inner circle of friends is impossible to penetrate; getting on their good side – a lost cause; her guy friends are no friend to Mansy. Why Her Friends Are The Root Of All Evil. A Mansy battle always fought — and lost.]]>There’s nothing Mansier than a guy who campaigns for the approval of his girlfriend’s friends. There’s nothing Mansier — and dumber — than a guy who campaigns for the approval of her guy friends. From scouts, spies, to her straight-up cavalry, these are a woman’s allies. Her army. And her army is never a friend to Mansy. In this episode: why her inner circle of friends is impossible to penetrate; getting on their good side – a lost cause; her guy friends are no friend to Mansy. Why Her Friends Are The Root Of All Evil. A Mansy battle always fought — and lost.]]>23:22yespodcasts,dating,men,for,advice,relationships,selfhelp,blogs,interests,mensAMP 033 - Is European Mansy As Bad As American Mansy?Thu, 08 Mar 2012 15:00:00 +0000Is the epidemic of Mansy as widespread in Europe as it is in the United States? Are public displays of affection as obnoxious and annoying? Why are older European women hotter and sexier than older American women? And what about all those scarves? Dave The Masshole interviews Uncle Todd fresh from his recent trip to Spain and Portugal. In this episode: are European men worse than American men; do women run Spain; what do Spanish women think of American men; are European women more difficult than American women. Is European Mansy As Bad As American Mansy? There’s only one way to find out.]]>Is the epidemic of Mansy as widespread in Europe as it is in the United States? Are public displays of affection as obnoxious and annoying? Why are older European women hotter and sexier than older American women? And what about all those scarves? Dave The Masshole interviews Uncle Todd fresh from his recent trip to Spain and Portugal. In this episode: are European men worse than American men; do women run Spain; what do Spanish women think of American men; are European women more difficult than American women. Is European Mansy As Bad As American Mansy? There’s only one way to find out.]]>22:37yespodcasts,dating,men,for,advice,relationships,selfhelp,blogs,interests,mensOPXM03 - When You Give Up Everything For The One And Only LoveWed, 29 Feb 2012 15:00:00 +0000In the third edition of our interview series Ordinary People, Extraordinary MANSY, we interview our very special guest Venus. With bravery and courage, she shares the story of her marriage and divorce, and the cost of completely giving yourself over to another person. A beautiful, intelligent, self-possessed, thirty-two year-old woman, Venus gives a cautionary tale of what happens when Mansy is ignored in the beginning of a relationship, plus what American women are unwilling confront in their own lives. A must-listen for both men and women, When You Give Up Everything For The One & Only Love is a compelling portrait of a life lived, of love, loss, hope, forgiveness, and redemption. The show also features the music of Paul Calzaretta. You won’t want to miss it.]]>In the third edition of our interview series Ordinary People, Extraordinary MANSY, we interview our very special guest Venus. With bravery and courage, she shares the story of her marriage and divorce, and the cost of completely giving yourself over to another person. A beautiful, intelligent, self-possessed, thirty-two year-old woman, Venus gives a cautionary tale of what happens when Mansy is ignored in the beginning of a relationship, plus what American women are unwilling confront in their own lives. A must-listen for both men and women, When You Give Up Everything For The One & Only Love is a compelling portrait of a life lived, of love, loss, hope, forgiveness, and redemption. The show also features the music of Paul Calzaretta. You won’t want to miss it.]]>52:02yespodcasts,dating,men,for,advice,relationships,selfhelp,blogs,interests,mensSNEAK PREVIEW: When You Give Up Everything For The One And Only LoveThu, 23 Feb 2012 15:00:00 +0000In the third edition of our interview series Ordinary People, Extraordinary MANSY, we interview our very special guest Venus. With bravery and courage, she shares the story of her marriage and divorce, and the cost of completely giving yourself over to another person. A beautiful, intelligent, self-possessed, thirty-two year-old woman, Venus gives a cautionary tale of what happens when Mansy is ignored in the beginning of a relationship, plus what American women are unwilling confront in their own lives. A must-listen for both men and women, When You Give Up Everything For The One & Only Love is a compelling portrait of a life lived, of love, loss, hope, forgiveness, and redemption. The show also features the music of Paul Calzaretta. You won’t want to miss it.]]>In the third edition of our interview series Ordinary People, Extraordinary MANSY, we interview our very special guest Venus. With bravery and courage, she shares the story of her marriage and divorce, and the cost of completely giving yourself over to another person. A beautiful, intelligent, self-possessed, thirty-two year-old woman, Venus gives a cautionary tale of what happens when Mansy is ignored in the beginning of a relationship, plus what American women are unwilling confront in their own lives. A must-listen for both men and women, When You Give Up Everything For The One & Only Love is a compelling portrait of a life lived, of love, loss, hope, forgiveness, and redemption. The show also features the music of Paul Calzaretta. You won’t want to miss it.]]>01:19yespodcasts,dating,men,for,advice,relationships,selfhelp,blogs,interests,mensAMP 031 - The Aftermath Of The St. Valentine’s Day Mansy MassacreThu, 16 Feb 2012 15:00:00 +0000Valentine’s Day is supposed to be a day about love – gifts, cards, chocolates, dinners, flowers, and getting some ass. Unfortunately, it has become about having to satisfy unattainable expectations. It is also the day for Only The Lonely – The International Day of Self-Pity. In this episode: how to ease the pressure off Valentine’s Day; an annual mile marker in the pre-engagement dance?; avoiding self-pity when you’re single. The Aftermath Of The St. Valentine’s Day MANSY Massacre. Can MANSY pick up the pieces?]]>Valentine’s Day is supposed to be a day about love – gifts, cards, chocolates, dinners, flowers, and getting some ass. Unfortunately, it has become about having to satisfy unattainable expectations. It is also the day for Only The Lonely – The International Day of Self-Pity. In this episode: how to ease the pressure off Valentine’s Day; an annual mile marker in the pre-engagement dance?; avoiding self-pity when you’re single. The Aftermath Of The St. Valentine’s Day MANSY Massacre. Can MANSY pick up the pieces?]]>23:45yespodcasts,dating,men,for,advice,relationships,selfhelp,blogs,interests,mensAMP 030 - Why The Overblown Mansy-Ass Super Bowl Halftime Show Needs To GoThu, 09 Feb 2012 15:00:00 +0000Bruce Springsteen, The Working-Class Millionaire, needs to kneel down and run out the clock. No one has seen more balls up the middle than Madonna, the biggest wide receiver of all time. Is Van Halen next? In this episode: how about a thirty minute documentary of what happens in the locker room at halftime?; singers and bands announcing their official Mansy irrelevance; Dave’s perfect solution. Why The Overblown Mansy-Ass Super Bowl Halftime Show Needs To Go. Whatever happened to football?]]>Bruce Springsteen, The Working-Class Millionaire, needs to kneel down and run out the clock. No one has seen more balls up the middle than Madonna, the biggest wide receiver of all time. Is Van Halen next? In this episode: how about a thirty minute documentary of what happens in the locker room at halftime?; singers and bands announcing their official Mansy irrelevance; Dave’s perfect solution. Why The Overblown Mansy-Ass Super Bowl Halftime Show Needs To Go. Whatever happened to football?]]>22:01yespodcasts,dating,men,for,advice,relationships,selfhelp,blogs,interests,mensAMP 029 - Stop Reading Into Everything She DoesThu, 02 Feb 2012 15:00:00 +0000Are you an E.M.T. – an Emotional Mansy Translator? Ladies, we have some good news and we have some bad news. The good news: Men are just as nuts as women are. The bad news: Men are just as nuts as women are. Hey Mansy: If she says she’s going to the store, she’s going to the store. If she’s going out with her friends, she’s just going out with her friends. Without probable cause, you’re just a garden-variety psycho. In this episode: insecurity, childishness and the I-Can’t-Believe-She’s-With-Me Syndrome; the behavior that pushes women away; the dangers of deifying your wife or girlfriend. The Emotional Mansy Translator: Stop Reading Into Everything She Does. Quit flipping out. And start handling your own business.]]>Are you an E.M.T. – an Emotional Mansy Translator? Ladies, we have some good news and we have some bad news. The good news: Men are just as nuts as women are. The bad news: Men are just as nuts as women are. Hey Mansy: If she says she’s going to the store, she’s going to the store. If she’s going out with her friends, she’s just going out with her friends. Without probable cause, you’re just a garden-variety psycho. In this episode: insecurity, childishness and the I-Can’t-Believe-She’s-With-Me Syndrome; the behavior that pushes women away; the dangers of deifying your wife or girlfriend. The Emotional Mansy Translator: Stop Reading Into Everything She Does. Quit flipping out. And start handling your own business.]]>26:44yespodcasts,dating,men,for,advice,relationships,selfhelp,blogs,interests,mensAMP 028 - Why Men & Women Always Fall In Love With The SoulsuckerThu, 26 Jan 2012 15:00:00 +0000Have you ever fallen in love with a Soulsucker? All men, all women have had them. If you’ve had three bad relationships, you have returned to the same Soulsucker but in three different human forms – the trial, the sentencing, the execution. Each of those human forms shared the same characteristics – what drove you crazy, what turned your life upside down, what made you do things you regret. There is no greater mystery in human relationships than your attraction to the Soulsucker. If Mansy doesn’t recognize the signs after the third one, he’s doomed to be tortured by Soulsuckers for the rest of his life. In this episode: why you are attracted to what’s bad for you; why Mansy is most vulnerable in his twenties; why Soulsucker #2 appears different from the first but is exactly the same; why mishandling the fallout from Soulsucker #3 could affect the rest of your life. As always, this starts with Mansy ignoring his intuition. As always, this starts with the bedrock of American Mansy – fear.]]>Have you ever fallen in love with a Soulsucker? All men, all women have had them. If you’ve had three bad relationships, you have returned to the same Soulsucker but in three different human forms – the trial, the sentencing, the execution. Each of those human forms shared the same characteristics – what drove you crazy, what turned your life upside down, what made you do things you regret. There is no greater mystery in human relationships than your attraction to the Soulsucker. If Mansy doesn’t recognize the signs after the third one, he’s doomed to be tortured by Soulsuckers for the rest of his life. In this episode: why you are attracted to what’s bad for you; why Mansy is most vulnerable in his twenties; why Soulsucker #2 appears different from the first but is exactly the same; why mishandling the fallout from Soulsucker #3 could affect the rest of your life. As always, this starts with Mansy ignoring his intuition. As always, this starts with the bedrock of American Mansy – fear.]]>29:43yespodcasts,dating,men,for,advice,relationships,selfhelp,blogs,interests,mensAMP 027 - Why Men Are Afraid To Sexually Reject WomenThu, 19 Jan 2012 15:00:00 +0000American men live in fear of making the right decision. Easier to make the wrong decision – and it’s usually more fun. The same applies to sex. Men don’t know how to say No. They should know how to say No. But if they do – women think there’s something wrong with them. In this episode: being selective and what it says about you to you; knowing what you don’t want more important than what you do want; not settling for second-rate – expect only the best. Why Men Are Afraid To Sexually Reject Women. Be smart. Be selective. Just say No.]]>American men live in fear of making the right decision. Easier to make the wrong decision – and it’s usually more fun. The same applies to sex. Men don’t know how to say No. They should know how to say No. But if they do – women think there’s something wrong with them. In this episode: being selective and what it says about you to you; knowing what you don’t want more important than what you do want; not settling for second-rate – expect only the best. Why Men Are Afraid To Sexually Reject Women. Be smart. Be selective. Just say No.]]>24:17yespodcasts,dating,men,for,advice,relationships,selfhelp,blogs,interests,mensAMP 026 - Are You The Baiting Mansy?Thu, 12 Jan 2012 15:00:00 +0000The relationship is over. But nobody wants to admit defeat. Battle lines are drawn, and both sides dig in and stand their ground. So what becomes the weapon of choice? High-octane, turbo-charged, Mansy-Ass Baiting. In this episode: women bait men in fear of pulling the trigger to leave; men bait women in desperation and impotence to not let her go; did Dave fake a lawsuit or a visit to a hospital to keep a girl around? BONUS: the bait men use that they won’t speak of and that women don’t know about. Are You The Baiting Mansy? It’s time to get some balls.]]>The relationship is over. But nobody wants to admit defeat. Battle lines are drawn, and both sides dig in and stand their ground. So what becomes the weapon of choice? High-octane, turbo-charged, Mansy-Ass Baiting. In this episode: women bait men in fear of pulling the trigger to leave; men bait women in desperation and impotence to not let her go; did Dave fake a lawsuit or a visit to a hospital to keep a girl around? BONUS: the bait men use that they won’t speak of and that women don’t know about. Are You The Baiting Mansy? It’s time to get some balls.]]>33:14yespodcasts,dating,men,for,advice,relationships,selfhelp,blogs,interests,mensAMP 025 - Why New Year’s Resolutions Cause CancerThu, 05 Jan 2012 15:00:00 +0000The purpose of life is to evolve — to change; to become better, smarter and more focused. It takes balls to make significant change in your life; it takes guts to sustain this change. New Year’s Resolutions, however, are Mansy. They’re Mansy because nobody sticks to them, they’re easy to declare, and worse than that, they cause cancer. In this episode: change is difficult; do you wish to remain ordinary?; what do you avoid the other 364 days of the year? Why New Year’s Resolutions Cause Cancer. If you cannot sustain something, don’t bother starting it.]]>The purpose of life is to evolve — to change; to become better, smarter and more focused. It takes balls to make significant change in your life; it takes guts to sustain this change. New Year’s Resolutions, however, are Mansy. They’re Mansy because nobody sticks to them, they’re easy to declare, and worse than that, they cause cancer. In this episode: change is difficult; do you wish to remain ordinary?; what do you avoid the other 364 days of the year? Why New Year’s Resolutions Cause Cancer. If you cannot sustain something, don’t bother starting it.]]>24:40yespodcasts,dating,men,for,advice,relationships,selfhelp,blogs,interests,mensAMP 024 - Let’s Take It Outside For The HolidaysThu, 29 Dec 2011 15:00:00 +0000You’re back in your hometown for the Holidays. Your life has moved on: your career, your relationships - you. Evolution. But somehow, back home, this causes a problem. Why? Are you playing the big shot? Or do the townies consider you an elitist for moving away? Is someone still mad about that fight you had in grade school? Is this an East Coast thing? A small town thing? Or is it just ridiculous? In this episode: small town jealousy; childhood scores to settle; the importance of moving away from home. Let’s Take It Outside For The Holidays. What better way to say, Welcome Back?]]>You’re back in your hometown for the Holidays. Your life has moved on: your career, your relationships - you. Evolution. But somehow, back home, this causes a problem. Why? Are you playing the big shot? Or do the townies consider you an elitist for moving away? Is someone still mad about that fight you had in grade school? Is this an East Coast thing? A small town thing? Or is it just ridiculous? In this episode: small town jealousy; childhood scores to settle; the importance of moving away from home. Let’s Take It Outside For The Holidays. What better way to say, Welcome Back?]]>23:04yespodcasts,dating,men,for,advice,relationships,selfhelp,blogs,interests,mensAMP 023 - Why Her Christmas Gift Is Never Right: The Ghost Of Mansy Christmas PastThu, 22 Dec 2011 15:00:00 +0000When you were a kid at Christmastime, you could never hold Santa Claus accountable. You hoped for the best and waited until next year. Not now. If you get your wife or girlfriend the wrong gift - the color isn’t right, the size isn’t right, the gift isn’t right – then Mansy isn’t right. They say it’s the ‘thought that counts.’ Right. Mansy can only do his best. Is the Christmas gift only so she can tell her friends about it? Would she reject a $20,000 gift card to Tiffany’s? A special holiday episode, recognize The Ghost of Mansy Christmas Past – and Why Her Christmas Gift Is Never Right. Or live in your self-imposed doghouse forever.]]>When you were a kid at Christmastime, you could never hold Santa Claus accountable. You hoped for the best and waited until next year. Not now. If you get your wife or girlfriend the wrong gift - the color isn’t right, the size isn’t right, the gift isn’t right – then Mansy isn’t right. They say it’s the ‘thought that counts.’ Right. Mansy can only do his best. Is the Christmas gift only so she can tell her friends about it? Would she reject a $20,000 gift card to Tiffany’s? A special holiday episode, recognize The Ghost of Mansy Christmas Past – and Why Her Christmas Gift Is Never Right. Or live in your self-imposed doghouse forever.]]>23:34yespodcasts,dating,men,for,advice,relationships,selfhelp,blogs,interests,mensAMP 022 - How To Handle Your Friends Meeting The New GirlfriendThu, 15 Dec 2011 15:00:00 +0000Your closest friends have just met your new girlfriend. Your girlfriend has just met your closest friends. They like her. She doesn’t like them. They don’t like her. She likes them. Nobody likes you. They cross the line, she crosses the line, and Mansy is caught in the middle. Your friends are your chosen family. How do you find the middle ground? Who is more important? Does your friends’ Mansy jealousy need to be managed? How much effort should she put forth? In this episode: importance of friendship; separation of church and state; and when chosen family cross the line. Tune in to find out what to do When Your Friends Meet The New Girlfriend – One Big Happy Mansy Family.]]>Your closest friends have just met your new girlfriend. Your girlfriend has just met your closest friends. They like her. She doesn’t like them. They don’t like her. She likes them. Nobody likes you. They cross the line, she crosses the line, and Mansy is caught in the middle. Your friends are your chosen family. How do you find the middle ground? Who is more important? Does your friends’ Mansy jealousy need to be managed? How much effort should she put forth? In this episode: importance of friendship; separation of church and state; and when chosen family cross the line. Tune in to find out what to do When Your Friends Meet The New Girlfriend – One Big Happy Mansy Family.]]>28:59yespodcasts,dating,men,for,advice,relationships,selfhelp,blogs,interests,mensAMP 021 - Mansy Controlling Guy: The Insecurities Controlling Men Reveal About ThemselvesThu, 08 Dec 2011 15:00:00 +0000Men that need to control women and keep them down think this is a sign of strength or prowess; but it’s a huge sign of weakness. Everyone has insecurities. It's part of being human. Insecurities don't define you; it's how you choose to handle them that define you and your character. Facing and accepting your shortcomings is bravery. Controlling women because of your own insecurities is not only cowardly, weak, and a lack of self-control – it’s 100% Mansy. He needs a trophy because he has nothing else to back it up. In this episode: accepting being ordinary; a follower, not a leader; self-loathing and narcissism. Mansy Controlling Guy. Recognize the signs – in him and in you.]]>Men that need to control women and keep them down think this is a sign of strength or prowess; but it’s a huge sign of weakness. Everyone has insecurities. It's part of being human. Insecurities don't define you; it's how you choose to handle them that define you and your character. Facing and accepting your shortcomings is bravery. Controlling women because of your own insecurities is not only cowardly, weak, and a lack of self-control – it’s 100% Mansy. He needs a trophy because he has nothing else to back it up. In this episode: accepting being ordinary; a follower, not a leader; self-loathing and narcissism. Mansy Controlling Guy. Recognize the signs – in him and in you.]]>29:30yespodcasts,dating,men,for,advice,relationships,selfhelp,blogs,interests,mensAMP 020 - Why It Should Be Against The Law To Get Married Before ThirtyThu, 01 Dec 2011 15:00:00 +0000Americans love to play house. Playing house is different from owning a house – and paying for the things in the house. And if you were forced to wait to get married, you would have more time to know if marriage was a good idea. Should you have been behind the wheel of a car at 16 after that last bong hit? Should you have been behind the wheel of a marriage at 24 after that last keg stand? Marriage isn’t taken seriously in America anymore. Why would Mansy be any different? In this episode: the importance of emotional maturity; how America’s gotten soft; what you don’t know in your twenties. Why It Should Be Against The Law To Get Married Before Thirty. It’s your twenties – what do you have against fun?]]>Americans love to play house. Playing house is different from owning a house – and paying for the things in the house. And if you were forced to wait to get married, you would have more time to know if marriage was a good idea. Should you have been behind the wheel of a car at 16 after that last bong hit? Should you have been behind the wheel of a marriage at 24 after that last keg stand? Marriage isn’t taken seriously in America anymore. Why would Mansy be any different? In this episode: the importance of emotional maturity; how America’s gotten soft; what you don’t know in your twenties. Why It Should Be Against The Law To Get Married Before Thirty. It’s your twenties – what do you have against fun?]]>21:39yespodcasts,dating,men,for,advice,relationships,selfhelp,blogs,interests,mensAMP 019 - Sink The Mayflower: An American Mansy ThanksgivingTue, 22 Nov 2011 15:00:00 +0000They braved crossing the Atlantic Ocean to settle the New World, to escape Persecution, Intolerance, and Repression. They landed at Plymouth Rock – and began Persecution, Intolerance, and Repression. Did Mansy in America begin with the Puritans? And what do football, Westminster Abbey, George Washington, the great state of Rhode Island have in common? Find out on our holiday episode Sink The Mayflower. (And have a Happy Thanksgiving.)]]>They braved crossing the Atlantic Ocean to settle the New World, to escape Persecution, Intolerance, and Repression. They landed at Plymouth Rock – and began Persecution, Intolerance, and Repression. Did Mansy in America begin with the Puritans? And what do football, Westminster Abbey, George Washington, the great state of Rhode Island have in common? Find out on our holiday episode Sink The Mayflower. (And have a Happy Thanksgiving.)]]>14:47yespodcasts,dating,men,for,advice,relationships,selfhelp,blogs,interests,mensAMP 018 - Thirty-Nine Years Old, No Kids, No Wife – What Now?Thu, 17 Nov 2011 15:00:00 +0000This week: Dave The Masshole interviews Uncle Todd! In society, it has been unacceptable for people to decide to stay single or to be alone into their late 30s or early 40s. Society looks at this decision as if you are a hermit or someone who’s married to their job. But for these people there are questions. Has time passed you by? And at 40 – what now? Do you have everything you want? Or have you lived in fear? In this episode: the stigma of being an unmarried man; pressure from society to have a family; living on your own terms. Have you ever said to yourself that I’m Thirty-Nine Years Old, No Kids, No Wife – What Now?]]>This week: Dave The Masshole interviews Uncle Todd! In society, it has been unacceptable for people to decide to stay single or to be alone into their late 30s or early 40s. Society looks at this decision as if you are a hermit or someone who’s married to their job. But for these people there are questions. Has time passed you by? And at 40 – what now? Do you have everything you want? Or have you lived in fear? In this episode: the stigma of being an unmarried man; pressure from society to have a family; living on your own terms. Have you ever said to yourself that I’m Thirty-Nine Years Old, No Kids, No Wife – What Now?]]>24:36yespodcasts,dating,men,for,advice,relationships,selfhelp,blogs,interests,mensOPXM 02 - When You Marry The Wrong PersonThu, 10 Nov 2011 15:00:00 +0000After serving our country honorably as a Captain in the US Army, our guest Captain Mass is thirty-five, divorced after eleven years of marriage, and the proud father of two beautiful children. What did he ignore in the beginning? What warning signs did he not pay attention to? How overrated is sex? How prominent a role did Mansy play in the relationship? What do men need to ask themselves before they get married? Where to go from here? Our interview is a compelling, in-depth, true-to-life snapshot of a life lived. You won't want to miss it.]]>After serving our country honorably as a Captain in the US Army, our guest Captain Mass is thirty-five, divorced after eleven years of marriage, and the proud father of two beautiful children. What did he ignore in the beginning? What warning signs did he not pay attention to? How overrated is sex? How prominent a role did Mansy play in the relationship? What do men need to ask themselves before they get married? Where to go from here? Our interview is a compelling, in-depth, true-to-life snapshot of a life lived. You won't want to miss it.]]>51:14yespodcasts,dating,men,for,advice,relationships,selfhelp,blogs,interests,mensAMP 016 - Why You Should Never Seek Advice From Women About WomenThu, 03 Nov 2011 14:00:00 +0000Would you complain to a girl who cuts hair, about the girl who cuts your hair, and they both work for the same salon? Would you complain to your finance guy, about your finance guy, and they both work for the same firm? Mansy must take responsibility for his own life – and avoid having others do it for him. In this episode: how not to seek validation; fear of hearing the truth; putting Mansy’s sensitivity on stage. Why You Should Never Seek Advice From Women About Women. It’s a strategy that's backwards, useless, and Mansy. Are you addicted to drama?]]>Would you complain to a girl who cuts hair, about the girl who cuts your hair, and they both work for the same salon? Would you complain to your finance guy, about your finance guy, and they both work for the same firm? Mansy must take responsibility for his own life – and avoid having others do it for him. In this episode: how not to seek validation; fear of hearing the truth; putting Mansy’s sensitivity on stage. Why You Should Never Seek Advice From Women About Women. It’s a strategy that's backwards, useless, and Mansy. Are you addicted to drama?]]>22:01yespodcasts,dating,men,for,advice,relationships,selfhelp,blogs,interests,mensAMP 015 - Halloween: Do You Become Who You Really Are?Thu, 27 Oct 2011 14:00:00 +0000A hipster is no different than the guy driving the Lamborghini – they’re both playing characters, looking for attention. To them, every day is Halloween. But for everyone else, is Halloween the time to become something you're not? Or is it the time to become who you really are? In this episode: women get sluttier, men get creepier; hidden identity and fetish; living in fear of who you really are. Halloween – Do You Become Who You Really Are? Ghosts and goblins don't lurk around the corner – they lurk within you.]]>A hipster is no different than the guy driving the Lamborghini – they’re both playing characters, looking for attention. To them, every day is Halloween. But for everyone else, is Halloween the time to become something you're not? Or is it the time to become who you really are? In this episode: women get sluttier, men get creepier; hidden identity and fetish; living in fear of who you really are. Halloween – Do You Become Who You Really Are? Ghosts and goblins don't lurk around the corner – they lurk within you.]]>14:52yespodcasts,dating,men,for,advice,relationships,selfhelp,blogs,interests,mensAMP 014 - Why Online Dating Is Living In FearThu, 20 Oct 2011 14:00:00 +0000It was a long time ago. A really long time ago. Boy met girl. Boy talked to girl. Girl talked to boy. In person. Unplanned. Risk. Balls. With no computers. Online Dating? Online Mansy. Get off your ass, get out of the house, and meet people the old-fashioned way. Start by talking to them. In this episode: what you announce about yourself by simply going online; you are not a commercial of yourself; Americans are afraid of failing and rejection. Why Online Dating Is Living In Fear. Successful major league baseball players fail seven out of ten times. To strike out is to live.]]>It was a long time ago. A really long time ago. Boy met girl. Boy talked to girl. Girl talked to boy. In person. Unplanned. Risk. Balls. With no computers. Online Dating? Online Mansy. Get off your ass, get out of the house, and meet people the old-fashioned way. Start by talking to them. In this episode: what you announce about yourself by simply going online; you are not a commercial of yourself; Americans are afraid of failing and rejection. Why Online Dating Is Living In Fear. Successful major league baseball players fail seven out of ten times. To strike out is to live.]]>29:33yespodcasts,dating,men,for,advice,relationships,selfhelp,blogs,interests,mensAMP 013 - Did Disney Animated Movies Brainwash You Into An American Mansy?Thu, 13 Oct 2011 14:00:00 +0000You're a grown man. Blaming your past is Mansy – an easy way out of accountability. But examining the origins of Mansy helps to cure Mansy. And the Disney animated movies you grew up with may have brainwashed you into a 21st Century Mansy. In the 1940s, these movies sentimentalized animals; in the 1950s, they sentimentalized people. In this episode: faceless, nameless princes; deception through transformation; and what evil stepmothers and mother-in-laws have in common. Did Disney Animated Movies Brainwash You Into An American Mansy? Just ask Tramp, Donald, Pluto and The Beast!]]>You're a grown man. Blaming your past is Mansy – an easy way out of accountability. But examining the origins of Mansy helps to cure Mansy. And the Disney animated movies you grew up with may have brainwashed you into a 21st Century Mansy. In the 1940s, these movies sentimentalized animals; in the 1950s, they sentimentalized people. In this episode: faceless, nameless princes; deception through transformation; and what evil stepmothers and mother-in-laws have in common. Did Disney Animated Movies Brainwash You Into An American Mansy? Just ask Tramp, Donald, Pluto and The Beast!]]>29:06yespodcasts,dating,men,for,advice,relationships,selfhelp,blogs,interests,mensAMP 012 - Why Sexual Compatibility Is Non-NegotiableThu, 06 Oct 2011 14:00:00 +0000Sex is animal instinct; relationships are for the brain. Not all sexually compatible people have healthy relationships; but all healthy relationships have sexual compatibility. You know what you like; she knows what she likes. And if what you like to do in the sack and what she likes to do in the sack is not the same thing? You're in big trouble. In this episode: are you just afraid to be alone?; how long should you wait; what men won’t admit when it comes to ‘soul mates.’ In a new relationship, observe early, observe often, and accept the truth about Why Sexual Compatibility Is Non-Negotiable.]]>Sex is animal instinct; relationships are for the brain. Not all sexually compatible people have healthy relationships; but all healthy relationships have sexual compatibility. You know what you like; she knows what she likes. And if what you like to do in the sack and what she likes to do in the sack is not the same thing? You're in big trouble. In this episode: are you just afraid to be alone?; how long should you wait; what men won’t admit when it comes to ‘soul mates.’ In a new relationship, observe early, observe often, and accept the truth about Why Sexual Compatibility Is Non-Negotiable.]]>21:43yespodcasts,dating,men,for,advice,relationships,selfhelp,blogs,interests,mensAMP 011 - When She Loves Drama: How To Prevent The Public SpectacleThu, 29 Sep 2011 14:00:00 +0000Does the moving-in-together, when-are-we-getting-married, are-we-having-kids talk have to happen over your first dinner out in six months? Does the credit card debt conversation have to happen while you're slamming Margaritas at the all-inclusive resort? Is she entitled to embarrass you in front of your friends? Passion is overrated – an excuse for bad behavior. In this episode: the difference between passion and logic and intelligence; taking responsibility for these situations by the time you’re thirty; what to look out for. When She Loves Drama: How To Prevent The Public Spectacle. Nip it in the bud before being sentenced to Mansy.]]>Does the moving-in-together, when-are-we-getting-married, are-we-having-kids talk have to happen over your first dinner out in six months? Does the credit card debt conversation have to happen while you're slamming Margaritas at the all-inclusive resort? Is she entitled to embarrass you in front of your friends? Passion is overrated – an excuse for bad behavior. In this episode: the difference between passion and logic and intelligence; taking responsibility for these situations by the time you’re thirty; what to look out for. When She Loves Drama: How To Prevent The Public Spectacle. Nip it in the bud before being sentenced to Mansy.]]>23:31yespodcasts,dating,men,for,advice,relationships,selfhelp,blogs,interests,mensAMP 010 - Why The Prince Charming Syndrome Is Hazardous To Your HealthThu, 22 Sep 2011 14:00:00 +0000There’s a huge difference between having manners and Mansy. Having manners is having common consideration; Mansy is being an around-the-clock, always available, indentured emotional Sherpa. Women like strong men. Prince Charming has it backwards. Soft, pliable, and at-the-ready, this is the last thing a woman wants. This syndrome rewards bad behavior and has given American women a sense of entitlement. In this episode: when not to confuse generosity with Mansy; how not to overwhelm women; how not to live in a fairy tale. Tune in now to find out Why The Prince Charming Syndrome Is Hazardous To Your Health.]]>There’s a huge difference between having manners and Mansy. Having manners is having common consideration; Mansy is being an around-the-clock, always available, indentured emotional Sherpa. Women like strong men. Prince Charming has it backwards. Soft, pliable, and at-the-ready, this is the last thing a woman wants. This syndrome rewards bad behavior and has given American women a sense of entitlement. In this episode: when not to confuse generosity with Mansy; how not to overwhelm women; how not to live in a fairy tale. Tune in now to find out Why The Prince Charming Syndrome Is Hazardous To Your Health.]]>24:47yespodcasts,dating,men,for,advice,relationships,selfhelp,blogs,interests,mensOPXM 01 - Mansy Money Guy: Using Your Money To Get Women? Be Careful What You Wish ForThu, 15 Sep 2011 14:00:00 +0000Using your money to get women? Be careful what you wish for. In the first edition of their interview series Ordinary People, Extraordinary Mansy, Uncle Todd & Dave The Masshole interview former model The Duchess of Maryland to discuss the Mansy Money Guy - the perils and pitfalls of using your money to get women, in addition to all things Mansy. You won’t want to miss it.]]>Using your money to get women? Be careful what you wish for. In the first edition of their interview series Ordinary People, Extraordinary Mansy, Uncle Todd & Dave The Masshole interview former model The Duchess of Maryland to discuss the Mansy Money Guy - the perils and pitfalls of using your money to get women, in addition to all things Mansy. You won’t want to miss it.]]>58:40yespodcasts,dating,men,for,advice,relationships,selfhelp,blogs,interests,mensAMP 008 - Everything You Need To Know About CougarsThu, 08 Sep 2011 14:00:00 +0000When you think about cougars, do you think about Demi Moore and Jennifer Aniston? Guess again. The cougar is no different than the middle-aged guy with his mid-life crisis. Do you have an aversion to women your own age? Old men with really young women are considered creepy. Why is the cougar/young guy hookup any different? In this episode: why cougars are different than MYLFs; what sleeping with cougars reveals about you; and what sleeping with cougars and break dancing have in common. Tune in to find out Everything You Need To Know About Cougars. Women your own age will never look better.]]>When you think about cougars, do you think about Demi Moore and Jennifer Aniston? Guess again. The cougar is no different than the middle-aged guy with his mid-life crisis. Do you have an aversion to women your own age? Old men with really young women are considered creepy. Why is the cougar/young guy hookup any different? In this episode: why cougars are different than MYLFs; what sleeping with cougars reveals about you; and what sleeping with cougars and break dancing have in common. Tune in to find out Everything You Need To Know About Cougars. Women your own age will never look better.]]>24:59yespodcasts,dating,men,for,advice,relationships,selfhelp,blogs,interests,mensAMP 007 - What Public Displays Of Affection Reveal About YouThu, 01 Sep 2011 14:00:00 +0000Do you need to be the center of attention? Do you need to be validated? Do you need to put on the performance? Public displays of affection are annoying for obvious reasons. But the roots of P.D.A. go much deeper. Instigated by men most of the time, the insecurity revealed by P.D.A. is just the tip of the iceberg. Do you wish to show you have no self-control? Are you deluded into thinking she belongs to you? Unless you’re in Rome on a study abroad program, excessive P.D.A. needs to be reigned in at all costs. What Public Displays Of Affection Reveal About You. Hallmark is not hiding in the bushes.]]>Do you need to be the center of attention? Do you need to be validated? Do you need to put on the performance? Public displays of affection are annoying for obvious reasons. But the roots of P.D.A. go much deeper. Instigated by men most of the time, the insecurity revealed by P.D.A. is just the tip of the iceberg. Do you wish to show you have no self-control? Are you deluded into thinking she belongs to you? Unless you’re in Rome on a study abroad program, excessive P.D.A. needs to be reigned in at all costs. What Public Displays Of Affection Reveal About You. Hallmark is not hiding in the bushes.]]>25:03yespodcasts,dating,men,for,advice,relationships,selfhelp,blogs,interests,mensAMP 006 - The Mansy Deep Six: What To Do After A Serious BreakupThu, 25 Aug 2011 14:00:00 +0000In America, it is considered weak for men to talk about grief and loss. Not here. Without getting touchy-feely New-Agey Mansy, we offer sound, logical advice on the six distinct stages a man goes through after a serious breakup or divorce. Many American men are unaware of what the Mansy Deep Six is; they might be in the middle of it right now. And mishandling grief will make you prone to serious mistakes with women in the future. We discuss regaining control over your life; setting attainable goals; when selfishness is a virtue; and how confidence is a fundamental skill that you’re not born with, but something you build over time. The rewards are high, but nothing worthwhile happens overnight. The Mansy Deep Six – there’s always a way out, there’s always a light at the end of the tunnel, there’s always a way out of Mansy.]]>In America, it is considered weak for men to talk about grief and loss. Not here. Without getting touchy-feely New-Agey Mansy, we offer sound, logical advice on the six distinct stages a man goes through after a serious breakup or divorce. Many American men are unaware of what the Mansy Deep Six is; they might be in the middle of it right now. And mishandling grief will make you prone to serious mistakes with women in the future. We discuss regaining control over your life; setting attainable goals; when selfishness is a virtue; and how confidence is a fundamental skill that you’re not born with, but something you build over time. The rewards are high, but nothing worthwhile happens overnight. The Mansy Deep Six – there’s always a way out, there’s always a light at the end of the tunnel, there’s always a way out of Mansy.]]>51:44yespodcasts,dating,men,for,advice,relationships,selfhelp,blogs,interests,mensAMP 005 - Run With The Dorks: The Greatest Women In AmericaThu, 18 Aug 2011 14:00:00 +0000There are two kinds of women in America: Trixies and Dorks. The Trixie peaks in high school; the Dork peaks during the playoffs – life – when it counts. In the bedroom and in life, the Trixie is into herself; the Dork is into you. The Trixie has had everything handed to her; Dorks have learned to survive on their own – they’ve earned it, and are more confident, self-possessed, interesting women. The Trixie is a job that requires an application; the Dork is the purest form of a real American woman. The Trixie is an unattainable, annoying waste of your time; the Dork is the new normal in Twenty-First Century America. Run With The Dorks – and learn Why Dorks Are The Greatest Women In America.]]>There are two kinds of women in America: Trixies and Dorks. The Trixie peaks in high school; the Dork peaks during the playoffs – life – when it counts. In the bedroom and in life, the Trixie is into herself; the Dork is into you. The Trixie has had everything handed to her; Dorks have learned to survive on their own – they’ve earned it, and are more confident, self-possessed, interesting women. The Trixie is a job that requires an application; the Dork is the purest form of a real American woman. The Trixie is an unattainable, annoying waste of your time; the Dork is the new normal in Twenty-First Century America. Run With The Dorks – and learn Why Dorks Are The Greatest Women In America.]]>28:06yespodcasts,dating,men,for,advice,relationships,selfhelp,blogs,interests,mensAMP 004 - Why Grown Men Need To Grow UpThu, 11 Aug 2011 14:00:00 +0000Do you still ‘got it?’ Are you over the age of forty and still trying to work chicks at the bar? Are you desperately holding on the past and don’t have the bravery to face the present? Are you terrified that you’re not married by a certain age? Are you brave enough to accept that certain things in life have passed you by? In this episode: the difference between cockiness and confidence; if your life is a performance; if you’re still acting like a teenager; and if you’re too old for Lollapalooza. Why Grown Men Need To Grow Up. Join the ranks of adulthood – it’s better than you think.]]>Do you still ‘got it?’ Are you over the age of forty and still trying to work chicks at the bar? Are you desperately holding on the past and don’t have the bravery to face the present? Are you terrified that you’re not married by a certain age? Are you brave enough to accept that certain things in life have passed you by? In this episode: the difference between cockiness and confidence; if your life is a performance; if you’re still acting like a teenager; and if you’re too old for Lollapalooza. Why Grown Men Need To Grow Up. Join the ranks of adulthood – it’s better than you think.]]>27:34yespodcasts,dating,men,for,advice,relationships,selfhelp,blogs,interests,mensAMP 003 - The Talk You Never Had With Your DadThu, 04 Aug 2011 14:00:00 +0000Was it generational Mansy or another time in America? Will the young fathers of today step up to the plate to prevent their sons from becoming the next new gaggle of Mansies? Before they head out into the world to go to college, enter the workforce or join the military, the young fathers of today must sit down with their sons to teach them everything they need to know about how to handle women. More than just the ‘birds and the bees’ talk, it’s a legacy of experience they must pass down in order to prevent the next generation of Mansy. In this episode: American coddling of children; the right woman to look for; the perfect solution. The Talk You Never Had With Your Dad. It’s a Saturday afternoon – sit him down and tell him the truth.]]>Was it generational Mansy or another time in America? Will the young fathers of today step up to the plate to prevent their sons from becoming the next new gaggle of Mansies? Before they head out into the world to go to college, enter the workforce or join the military, the young fathers of today must sit down with their sons to teach them everything they need to know about how to handle women. More than just the ‘birds and the bees’ talk, it’s a legacy of experience they must pass down in order to prevent the next generation of Mansy. In this episode: American coddling of children; the right woman to look for; the perfect solution. The Talk You Never Had With Your Dad. It’s a Saturday afternoon – sit him down and tell him the truth.]]>32:20yespodcasts,dating,men,for,advice,relationships,selfhelp,blogs,interests,mensAMP 002 - What She’s Really Saying When She’s Always LateThu, 28 Jul 2011 14:00:00 +0000If you show up late to a job interview, do you expect to get the job? If you show up late for your flight, do you expect the plane to turn around and pick you up? So if your girlfriend is chronically late in the beginning of the relationship, is she qualified to be with you? A person is defined by the sum total of his or her actions. Punctuality is a choice. Are you that desperate for sex that inconsideration and bad manners are acceptable to you? In this episode: definitive actions; fear of ultimatums; and setting precedents. Why Women Are Always Late. Is Mansy that afraid to be alone?]]>If you show up late to a job interview, do you expect to get the job? If you show up late for your flight, do you expect the plane to turn around and pick you up? So if your girlfriend is chronically late in the beginning of the relationship, is she qualified to be with you? A person is defined by the sum total of his or her actions. Punctuality is a choice. Are you that desperate for sex that inconsideration and bad manners are acceptable to you? In this episode: definitive actions; fear of ultimatums; and setting precedents. Why Women Are Always Late. Is Mansy that afraid to be alone?]]>20:31yespodcasts,dating,men,for,advice,relationships,selfhelp,blogs,interests,mensAMP 001 - It’s Time To Go: Are You Afraid To Leave A Bad Relationship?Thu, 21 Jul 2011 05:00:00 +0000After briefly describing the epidemic of Mansy sweeping 21st Century America on this inaugural, world premiere podcast, we jump right into the subject of the day: It’s Time To Go. The relationship is over. Done. And has been for a long time. Do you have the bravery to take a walk? Or does Mansy prevent you from taking the risk of moving forward with your life? In this episode: taking responsibility; recognizing your shortcomings; and the two-strike rule. American men live in fear – fear of the unknown. Don’t become one of them. Tune in to find out the pitfalls of staying, and the benefits of knowing it's time to go.]]>After briefly describing the epidemic of Mansy sweeping 21st Century America on this inaugural, world premiere podcast, we jump right into the subject of the day: It’s Time To Go. The relationship is over. Done. And has been for a long time. Do you have the bravery to take a walk? Or does Mansy prevent you from taking the risk of moving forward with your life? In this episode: taking responsibility; recognizing your shortcomings; and the two-strike rule. American men live in fear – fear of the unknown. Don’t become one of them. Tune in to find out the pitfalls of staying, and the benefits of knowing it's time to go.]]>27:03yespodcasts,dating,men,for,advice,relationships,selfhelp,blogs,interests,mens