Then, time passed. I got a B.A. in Anthropology, traveled around the world and met and learned from many people, read a lot of books, engaged in social media, and had a wide range of professional and activist experiences. I met a lot of animals, and witnessed and learned about some of the ways that animals are treated. Along the way, I learned that a lot of what I had done and understood and taken for granted and believed in when I was younger was oppressive. I learned that others were oppressing me, that I was oppressing others, and that I was oppressing myself. So I began changing and am continuing to change.

Denial of oppression > Anger at oppression > Judgement of others whose actions are oppressive > Practicing non-attachment to results, avoiding judgement > Judging myself, realizing I have a need to be liked that keeps me from being the best ally I can be > Educating myself about my privilege, working at becoming a better ally (I hope; onward and upward)

None of these trajectories have ended. I’m sure I’ll continue to find ways I need to change, and am already aware of a lot of things I need to work on. In the beginning, I never would have had the awareness to say something like that! I really thought I had it all figured out. If you had told me that I was going to become a vegan treehugger, I would have said you were crazy. And yet, here I am. So I’ve been learning to be more and more humble about my beliefs and less committed to my justifications for my actions, and to realize that others may have better information than I do.

Here’s a video I made back in August, 2012, about how some folks could perhaps think I’m not “vegan enough,” and how non-vegans might think I’m “too extreme.” I thought I’d put it all out there, so you can judge for yourself. 🙂

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A Brief History of the saree blouse and Indian fashion before 1960 with an occasional excursion after. All images are credited but if they are here by accident please do let me know and I will take it down. All posts also on vintageindianclothing.tumblr.com