I tell stories about being a Vietnamese American lesbian in a big family with an old school, prickly matriarch whom it’s been difficult to get along with.

Book me for a customized show or my one-woman show, Same Same But Different: The Value of Shared Experience, detailing my first trip ever back to the mother land, and the ways my raucous upbringing and coming out experience make a compelling case for “can’t we all just get along?”