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Help choosing an
adult assisted living facility, including the type of elder care, location, care
provider selection and evaluation and much more. We hope this makes things
a little easier at this difficult time.

Choosing An Adult Assisted Living Facility

One of the most difficult elder issues involves where and how
to get assistance for living activities as we begin being unable to care for all
our needs personally. Sadly, the issue is so hard that many
don't deal with it until they have little or no choice. Like any other
major life issue, if you plan for living assistance in advance, the transition
is much easier when the time comes. Even more sadly, money is often the
only criteria many use for choosing an assisted living facility. Whether
you have money, carefully planned, are making the choices for yourself or not,
this article should help you choose the right care, in the right location, with
the right quality of care, with the right reputation, at the right price to meet
the increasing needs of you or a loved one.

Type Of Elder Care: Caring
for the elderly is about meeting the current needs and providing for future
ones. While a nursing home is for advanced needs or to recover from
injury or surgery, assisted living is
our focus. This is
where some activities of daily life (cooking, cleaning, dressing, etc.)
have become too difficult but you're not in need of round the clock
professional nursing. Living facilities range from Independent apartments
to lock-in Alzheimer and Dementia care. If you're still able to come and
go, cook, etc. but want other Seniors to socialize with, there are apartments
that include maid service, cafeteria and recreation. Probably, the most
common assisted living arrangements include meals, cleaning, dressing, medicine
dispensing and monitoring as part of the standard package.
Here are the top-selling
books to help you choose a senior
assisted living facility.

Residential Senior Housing Location: After you
determine the type of care you'll need, the next most important thing is
location. If you live near a city with a hospital, there are usually
a large variety of Senior homes to choose from. They'll range from
private homes with 4-6 rooms for residents to multi-level care facilities with
hundreds of rooms and staff. The most important thing when
choosing a location is to be close to the person who is supervising the care
(usually a younger family member). It has to be convenient enough for
frequent visits at all times of day and night. Certainly within a 30
minute drive from home or work. Once you know the area you're looking for,
search the yellow pages, the internet, the newspaper, ask friends and neighbors,
even drive the streets building a list of potential senior homes. Then,
don't call for an appointment...that's what they expect.

Before Contacting The Providers: Before you
contact anyone for a scheduled tour, do your own inspection.
Drive or walk around the building, looking for things that are sloppy,
unmaintained, etc. Ask some of the neighbors what they can tell you about
the home. Look around the neighborhood to see how it feels. Walk
into the building as a stranger, to see if anyone challenges you and to see if
there are any care issues you can spot when they didn't know you were coming.
Make notes! Now, you're ready for the first appointment.

Caregiver appointment: The larger ones will
probably feed you with the residents, show you the activity areas, give you a
copy of their calendar and introduce you to residents they know will tell
you good things. Ask to go where they're not taking you...the kitchen,
the dispensary, etc. Stop and talk to residents who are frowning.
Get permission to interview other residents and family members
on your own. Get the legal name of the person or company that owns
the facility. Get the standard pricing range.
If you are required to find care on the Medicaid budget, you can ask at this
appointment if they can provide care under those terms. Tell them you're
going to be investigating them and ask if there's anything they'd like to share
about incidents your investigation is likely to reveal. Make notes!

After The Appointment: Schedule interviews with a
few tenants at random. Research the facility and it's owners at the state
licensing board, county courthouse and on the internet...make notes! Those
homes that seem to have a lot of negative stuff you can write off. leaving,
hopefully, 3-4 candidates to finish the process with.

Evaluation Appointment: The final step in the
selection process is where the nurse evaluates the potential resident to
determine the level of care needed and if the facility can satisfy that need.
After this step, you'll get the final picture on the availability of rooms and
the price for care. Again, if there are a few assets and a retirement
income, money should not be the deciding factor in care choices. It is
foolish in the extreme to scrimp on care just to leave money to your heirs.
If they love you, your care is the most important...not your money.

I know it's hard work going through this...almost as hard as
buying a home and just as important. Hopefully, you now have a few new
ideas and tools to make the process a little less difficult. One final
note. It's very difficult and painful for someone who has been independent
for so many years to start depending on the care of others. Expect to
experience severe grief, even depression during the transition. Sometimes,
knowing these feelings are normal can help you adjust.

I want you to know there is someone who can help with this
transition, who loves
you and wants only the best for you. That someone is God. If you
want help from God, just click on
Help Me God.

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Bio: Glen
Williams is Director of E-Home Fellowship, Co. and Webmaster for
http://www.way2hope.org. He founded
EHF in 2001, after more than ten years of full-time service helping people with
life problems. Now, every month, people in over 160 countries come to EHF
websites for help with their problems.