How do you tell if someone else is driving you crazy, or if you're doing it to yourself?

I don't mean crazy as in "oh so annoying" either. I mean crazy like makin' your friends think you've lost your mind.

Try being without that particular influence for a while. Preferrably, a month. If you are doing better, it was them. If you're doing worse, it's you._________________A person's character is their destiny.

I'm not very good at the hate thing, sorry. For me it's more of, "do I want to be in the same room with this person as much as possible or never if I can help it?"_________________A person's character is their destiny.

A passion. You must find something you feel a passion for. Then, you need a plan. A plan of where you want to go with that passion. What aspect is most important to you? What can you see yourself still doing joyfully 20 years from now? Commitment to the plan. It won't necessarily be easy in ways other than hard work. You will have to make sacrifices as well. Are you committed to making the sacrifices required? Every choice you make automatically closes all the other choices you could have made. Are you committed enough to not regret those other opportunities?_________________A person's character is their destiny.

Where do we go from here? Like when we die, whats in the afterlife? Are there really holes in the floor of heaven? There are soo many different beliefs, what if you don't meet up with your friend in the afterlife because they believed in something else? Do suicides really go somewhere else?

Have you ever seen the movie, "Defending Your Life"? In some ways, I think it's a little bit like that. People go different places based on certain things that happened during thier lives, but it's not based on "sin," per se. I believe the truly evil are erased from existence other than in the living people's memories who are left behind. I believe some people come back to try again. I believe others go on to do other things. What things they might do, I have no idea. I believe that it is as probably as impossible for us to understand while we are alive as a snail trying to understand Shakespeare and his impact on humanity._________________A person's character is their destiny.

Should I pursue a relationship with a co-worker, or is that a bad idea even if we only see each other maybe an hour or two out of the week? (She works at the front of the store and I work in the back.)