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1 Responding Well to those who have been sexually abused Policy and guidance for the Church of England 1st edition 2011

2 The Archbishops Council 2011 Published in 2011 for the House of Bishops of the General Synod of the Church of England Church House Publishing Church House, Great Smith Street, London, SW1P 3AZ. ISBN GS Misc 982 Printed and bound in Great Britain by Halstan & Co, Amersham All rights reserved. No part of this publication may be reproduced or stored or transmitted by any means or in any form, electronic or mechanical, including photocopying, recording, or any information storage and retrieval system without written permission, which should be sought from the Copyright Administrator, Church House Publishing. For a downloadable electronic version of the full document for local, non-commercial use, please consult the Church of England website: British Library Cataloguing in Publication Data. A catalogue record for this book is available from the British Library ii

5 Foreword We are delighted to be able to commend this new Policy and Good Practice document which provides guidance to our Church to help us respond as positively and constructively as possible to anyone who has suffered abuse. I am particularly grateful to the group that has worked so hard over many months to produce this guidance, drawing in many cases from the experiences resulting from their own traumas and ongoing pains and suffering. Above all, as Church we are committed to living and showing God s kind of love in every situation, to reach out to one another in openness, acceptance, self-giving, kindness and generosity. We know that this path is costly, and we know that the social face of this love is also about truth and justice, forgiveness, reconciliation and healing. This is no easy task in any situation, but especially when confronted by the suffering and consequences of abuses of power of one person over another. Much of this abuse within our society is committed by family members or close family friends, but some, shamefully, has come about within the life of the Church or linked organizations such as schools or children s homes. We are committed to the safeguarding and protection of all children, young people and adults, and the establishing of safer, caring communities. We have worked hard to improve our culture of informed vigilance, our practices of safer recruiting, and our safeguarding at every level of our church life within congregations and dioceses. We are conscious that there is always more to be done and that this continues to be work in progress. We must always strive to reflect God s love ever more and more fully as he calls us deeper into his way of being and living. The best of all possible ways of responding well would be to ensure that abuse never happened again. This new document, by helping us to focus on the needs of those who have suffered from and survived abuse, complements and extends the range of the work in which we have been engaged these last few years with our Policy documents. We want to support and walk alongside all those who are struggling in their own journey and process of healing and wholeness, by the quality of our listening, understanding and reaching out openly, seeking with them the justice, support and care that they need. It is our hope that parishes and dioceses will use this document as an important resource in continuing the task of transforming our culture within the Church. This in turn will lead to increased learning and sharing, and more work in the future built upon that learning. We offer this document, together with the other policies, as another important part of helping us all respond well and reaching out to those who have suffered the trauma of abuse, for their healing and ours. Anthony Hereford Paul Southwell and Nottingham v

6 1. POLICY OF THE CHURCH OF ENGLAND Statement of Safeguarding Principles The Church of England works in partnership with other Christian Churches and other agencies in delivering safeguarding. In partnership with the Methodist Church, the following statement of principles appears at the head of each safeguarding policy: We are committed to: the care, nurture of, and respectful pastoral ministry for all: children, young people and adults the safeguarding and protection of children, young people and all adults the establishing of safe, caring communities which provide a loving environment where victims of abuse can report or disclose abuse and where they can find support and best practice that contributes to the prevention of abuse. To this end... We will carefully select, support and train all those with any responsibility within the Church, in line with Safer Recruitment principles, including the use of criminal records disclosures and registration/membership of the relevant vetting and barring schemes. We will respond without delay to every complaint made, that any adult, child or young person may have been harmed, cooperating with the police and local authority in any investigation. We will seek to offer informed pastoral care and support to anyone who has suffered abuse, developing with them an appropriate ministry that recognizes the importance of understanding the needs of those who have been abused, including their feelings of alienation and/or isolation. We will seek to protect survivors of sexual abuse from the possibility of further harm and abuse. We will seek to challenge any abuse of power, especially by anyone in a position of trust. We will seek to offer pastoral care and support, including supervision, and referral to the appropriate authorities, to any member of our church community known to have offended against a child, young person or vulnerable adult. In all these principles we will follow legislation, guidance and recognized good practice. 1

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8 Policy of the Church of England 1. Background 1.1 In 2002, Churches Together in Britain and Ireland published a report, Time for Action: Sexual Abuse, the Churches and a New Dawn for Survivors. Since then, the Church has increasingly recognized the need to minister to survivors of sexual abuse. With the more recent completion of the Church of England s Past Child Protection Cases Review (2009) and developments in best practice concerning the protection of children and adults, it is timely to address the injustices suffered by survivors within our own communities. 1.2 Progress has been made in recognizing the consequences of sexual abuse. However, at both an individual and at church level, survivors of sexual abuse still see a need for better support and action in recognition of their suffering and pain. They continue to press the Church to provide safer communities where their experiences of abuse can be heard, and support offered. 1.3 Churches can be well placed, often in the heart of our communities, to offer safer places for survivors to come and where they can share their experiences. The call to follow Christ challenges us to stand at the edge of society and hear the needs of those whom we encounter on our journey. We are challenged to move beyond our own fears and reach out in compassion to those who need our support. In many situations this will only mean developing or adapting existing good work where pastoral ministry is given to those in need or marginalized within society (for example, bereavement support), so that our experience and skills within such fields can be extended in compassionate response to survivors of sexual abuse. In doing so, the Church gains hugely from the wisdom and the knowledge of the survivors themselves, who can contribute greatly to our communities. 1.4 The issues of sexual abuse provide significant challenges to Christians and to the Church, but setting these challenges aside will impoverish us. Finding the will and creating the means to face them will help us towards becoming all that God longs for us as his servants in his world today. If these challenges also bring a concern for our own vulnerability, perhaps this too might better equip us to understand, learn from, respect and minister to those in all kinds of crises and vulnerability. 2. Safeguarding Policies 2.1 The Church of England has developed a series of safeguarding policies, of which this is the fifth. This policy is set within the framework established by: Protecting All God s Children (safeguarding policy for children and young people, 4th edition, November 2010) dren.pdf Promoting a Safe Church (safeguarding policy for adults, 2006, to be updated in 2012) 3

9 Policy of the Church of England ch.pdf Responding to Domestic Abuse (guidelines for those with pastoral responsibility, 2006) Safeguarding Guidelines relating to Safer Recruitment (interim policy, November 2010) Further guidance arising from future learning will be provided via the safeguarding pages on the Church of England website. 3. Theological Statement 3.1 By its very nature sexual abuse, in common with all other types of abuse, devalues people. Every person has a value and dignity that comes directly from the creation of human beings in God s own image and likeness. Christians see this potential as fulfilled by God s re-creation of us in Christ. Failure to respond in a way that shows respect for the value of all, according to their needs, undermines issues at the heart of the Christian faith. 3.2 The presence in our churches of those who have experienced sexual abuse highlights a number of important theological themes, including the affirmation of personal value as created and valued by God, issues of compassion, of justice, of inclusiveness, of forgiveness, and the role of the Church as servant of God and sign of the kingdom of God. 4. Responding Well 4.1 Most survivors want to be heard and to have their very real pain and hurt acknowledged. They also want a compassionate response from the Church and to see action where this is needed to ensure others are safe. 4.2 In cases where the context of abuse has been the Church, those who have been abused often want to be listened to and heard directly by someone in authority either within the diocese or nationally. 1 Such meetings have been successfully held in other parts of the Anglican Communion and good practice has been developed. National Response 4.3 The Church of England will identify people to act as authorized listener (see section 5 below) in those cases that are responded to at the national level of the Church. These people should work closely with, but remain distinct from, the national Safeguarding Adviser. 4 1 This relates to abuse experienced within any part of what has in the past been perceived as the Church family (for example, schools or residential institutions that have a church link), rather than applying any narrower definition.

10 Policy of the Church of England 4.4 The national Safeguarding Adviser is available to advise on matters relating to abuse and responding well to it. The adviser should always be informed by others working in the national, diocesan or local church context, of any case that appears likely to develop a national element through media publicity, court action or for any other reason. Diocesan Response 4.5 Diocesan Safeguarding Adviser There are two distinct roles in working with issues relating to children and vulnerable adults, but the roles are sometimes combined. Information about abuse can reach the diocese through a wide variety of routes. The Adviser provides a source of expertise and advice about all matters relating to abuse. At a minimum, the Diocesan Safeguarding Adviser should always be informed by the diocese of those cases that relate to clergy or employees, and where matters are before a criminal or family court. 4.6 Authorized listeners Each diocese should appoint carefully chosen, competent and trained people who will be able to be authorized listeners for those who disclose, in particular for those who disclose abuse from within the church community (see section 5 below). 4.7 External authorities Diocesan authorities need to remember their wider duty to the general public and also their accountability to civil authorities in matters of sexual abuse. Whether or not the alleged abuse has taken place within a church context, a crime may have been committed and others could be at risk. The Diocesan Safeguarding Adviser will be able to provide further advice and have details of the appropriate contacts. 4.8 Training needs The 4th edition of Protecting All God s Children places a requirement upon each diocese to provide training on safeguarding for all clergy and licensed lay workers either before they take up their appointment or during their first year in post. Pastoral response and care of those who have been abused should either be included in such training or made an additional requirement. 4.9 Clergy already appointed should be encouraged to undergo specialist training. Changes in societal attitudes towards sexual matters raise the possibility of any parish priest finding himself or herself confronted with an account of sexual abuse. Some advance training is obviously wise for the sake both of the priest and of the abused person Implementation The diocese should ensure that best practice is being implemented within both the diocesan structures and also at parish level. Parish Response 4.11 Those who have suffered sexual abuse may first disclose this within the life of their local parish church. This means that each parish should reflect the following: Church for all Ensure that the church has a healthy culture of welcome and inclusion, which affirms personal value for all and where no one feels inappropriately judged. 5

11 Policy of the Church of England Self criticism We can always do better, but only if we remain open to criticism and avoid complacency. This will help to avoid the dangers of falling into denial and defensiveness if a complaint is ever made. There should always be a healthy intolerance of behaviour that is unholy. Training Clergy and others with pastoral responsibilities should have adequate training. This should include the provision of appropriate responses and support for any who have suffered sexual abuse. Whole-church awareness Well-informed communities become safer and more caring places. It is recommended that training be arranged within the deanery or parish level, ensuring that it is led by those sensitive to the needs of survivors. Specific sources of support All parishes should have named individuals who have particular responsibilities for safeguarding children and/or adults. These people may be a good first point of contact for a survivor who wishes to disclose. Their names should be made available on church noticeboards. Link with the diocese The Diocesan Safeguarding Adviser will be a source of guidance and support for churches encountering issues around sexual abuse. At a minimum, the Diocesan Safeguarding Adviser should always be informed by the parish of those cases which relate to clergy or employees, and where matters are before a criminal or family court. 5. The Role of Authorized Listener It is vital our churches are safe places for people to tell their stories of abuse, and where people listen and respond well... Time for Action, p The need for those who have been abused to have access to someone acting in the role of listener was identified by the Time for Action report in This policy now turns that recommendation into a requirement. In some situations, the Diocesan Safeguarding Adviser can act as authorized listener. In others, and particularly wherever there may be a potential conflict of interest because the abuse occurred within the church setting, the role of listener should be distinct from that of the Diocesan Safeguarding Adviser. 5.2 Both male and female listeners need to be available to accommodate individual needs and choice. 5.3 The role of a listener should be carefully defined with clear boundaries. A listener, in the context of this guidance to parishes and churches, is 2 Time for Action: Sexual Abuse, the Churches a New Dawn for Survivors, CTBI,

12 Policy of the Church of England to provide an attentive and attuned listening ear to help those in need to talk about their experiences. A listener will need to be able to help an individual to think about their next step and to support them. The key attributes of the post required will be: ideally a background in counselling or an allied profession; ability to manage sensitive and difficult information; ability to identify when a person may require more specialist support; capacity to understand issues of confidentiality; sufficient awareness of the way the Church works. This post requires the applicant to provide an enhanced Criminal Records Bureau (CRB) disclosure and to have undertaken safeguardingchildren and vulnerable-adult training. 5.4 Their training should include: exploration of personal vulnerabilities, self-awareness, and the need to access support for example, when a specialist counsellor may be needed); awareness of the various options for the individual beyond the moment of sharing their story; how to deal with complex confidentiality issues. 5.5 Hearing stories of abuse can be traumatic, so the Church (at national and diocesan level) should always have in place support for such listeners. 5.6 While in some cases it might be right for the listener to remain in contact, there are also times when he or she should refer the individual to another person for ongoing pastoral care. The question of whether the listener also remains in touch will require careful thought and consultation. In some cases it will be appropriate for the diocesan bishop to be consulted. 5.7 Pastoral care of the victim of abuse should always be separate from anyone carrying out further investigation into the complaint. However, if abuse has taken place within the context of church life, then the listener may want to encourage a meeting between an individual and the Diocesan Safeguarding Adviser (either child or adult adviser as relevant). 6. Further guidance 6.1 The attached guidance has been developed to assist all those in the life of the Church of England who engage with people who have been the victims of sexual abuse. 7

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14 2. GUIDANCE FOR THE CHURCH OF ENGLAND Introduction For many years survivors of sexual abuse have been coming to churches in the hope of finding not only the Christian message being lived out, but also a place where they might unburden themselves of their terrible secrets, of the shattering, shaming and isolating experiences of sexual abuse. Too often they have been disappointed. For too long some church communities have tried to silence their complaints and minimize their experiences through fear, ignorance and selfprotective denial. It is important to acknowledge that abuse is perpetrated by some clergy and others in positions of responsibility, and to recognize that survivors have often found an inadequate response from our churches. In doing so, we seek to open the way for creating communities that are safe enough for all to belong, and where survivors can relate their experiences, confident that they will be heard and receive pastoral care and support. Abuse is endemic within our society. Statistics (section A1) clearly indicate that child sexual abuse remains prevalent, along with the sexual abuse and exploitation of both women and men, including those who are particularly vulnerable. The majority of victims find little or no redress within the criminal justice system, and few resources to meet their needs within the wider community. While significant improvements have been made to make churches safer places, accounts of sexual abuse from the past, and current complaints, surface. Also in our churches are those who experienced abuse outside the context of church life. Responding to such accounts is not easy. This document will help local church people and members of the clergy to respond well to those who have suffered sexual abuse. The Church owes much to those who have survived sexual abuse. Their wisdom, courage, tenacity and sensitivity, as well as the insights into the gospel message learnt through coming to terms with individual suffering, are an invaluable and integral part of our church life. However, survivors are also people with particular needs, and this document is a timely resource for everyone who would want to ensure they do not suffer further harm as a result of a poor response from the Church. Sexual abuse impacts on many people: the individual who has suffered the abuse; partners, friends and family; the person hearing a disclosure; and the church community, particularly when the process of disclosure leads to conflict between groups or individuals within the church. This document aims to help everyone in identifying and beginning to work through the dilemmas that need to be addressed: the need for self-awareness; for support; for sufficient time to enable the process to unfold; for informed sensitivity and compassion; and for assertive action to provide justice or to ensure safety where this is necessary. 9

15 Guidance for the Church of England The guidance has been developed by a group of people who together share some experiences of having themselves been the victims of abuse, and of having developed insight and commitment through working alongside other survivors. They share some of these insights here as simply and directly as possible. Even though the authors write from years of experience and are confident of the value of this document, they are aware that the subject is complex and that pastoral responses require much more than technical knowledge. It is their shared hope that, through what will be read here, pastoral responses will be better informed, capable of greater empathy and consequently more effective. This process will in turn stimulate further learning about this subject within the Church. While these guidelines primarily address issues for those who have suffered sexual abuse, we also recognize the relationship to other forms of abuse, some of which sadly still exist within our churches. Consequently, understanding and addressing the pastoral issues relating to those who have suffered sexual abuse will have wider benefits that will better enable churches to understand and address other aspects of abuse. Who is this guidance for? This guidance is for those at all levels of church life who might be involved in or responsible for pastoral ministry and the provision of care, whether within or from the local church, diocese or at national level. This includes those providing ministry and pastoral care in schools, hospitals, prisons and further education. So it is for: The National Church Institutions, where policy and guidance is developed for the whole Church and where staff might be approached by those who have been abused and by those accused. Diocesan offices and senior clergy, where staff are responsible for diocesan policy development, managing risk, responding to allegations of abuse and past cases; where staff are often approached by those who have suffered abuse and by those accused of abuse. All parishes, some of whose experience will already include supporting survivors of sexual and other abuse and some perpetrators. Some of those who read these guidelines will be adult survivors of sexual abuse or know someone who is a survivor. Others who read Responding Well may have little or no previous understanding of the issues relating to sexual abuse. People s experiences of abuse, the impact it makes and the responses to this vary. Responding Well is not a work book of complete answers, but guidelines to help equip those in our churches for the process of understanding and supporting those who have experienced abuse. That journey, if travelled carefully, will be enriching, even if at times painful. It is through an increased awareness of the issues for survivors of abuse that we will move towards our churches being safer and more inclusive places. 10

16 Introduction Terminology (see also the Glossary in Appendix C1) Victims or survivors? While there is particular concern in this document for those who have been abused in childhood, the authors are aware that vulnerability can come to anyone at any age. All abuse is traumatic. But there is a special situation where the abuse happened in childhood and the matter has not been addressed for many years afterwards. In that sense, they continue to be victims long after the event. The language employed to describe those who have suffered sexual abuse is always a sensitive matter. Few would want to be defined by an experience or experiences from their past. However, they have been victims and that fact must not be lost in concern about correct language. At the same time, many have moved on as far as they are able and would be better described as survivors of sexual abuse or even thrivers beyond abuse: they do not want an episode or series of episodes to be regarded as the defining moment of their lives and of who they are, however much it has dramatically and tragically influenced and shaped their lives. As far as possible in this document we have used those who have suffered/ been the victim of sexual abuse, but the term survivor is also used in an attempt to capture the complexity of the issue. Abusers or perpetrators? Both terms are used in literature relating to people (both men and women) who abuse children or adults. In this guidance they are used interchangeably as well as the phrase people who abuse. Shocking language? The subjects covered in this guidance, and the words used, are not in general use within church communities and they can create a sense of shock, disgust or distress for people who encounter these concepts for the first time. Time for Action 3 helpfully stated: we keep in mind that people who have been abused have been propelled unwillingly into this area of knowledge, and this is a cause of further abuse. We ourselves do not lose our innocence in gaining such knowledge; we lose our ignorance and become more able to support and be part of the healing process. 3 Time for Action, p

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18 Part A Context A1 Prevalence The following statistics demonstrate not only the prevalence of child sexual abuse in the UK but also disturbingly how few of the perpetrators are convicted of these offences. Survivors are everywhere in society and not least to be found within church communities. Furthermore, the statistics clearly indicate that most of those abused in childhood will not tell anyone until later or as adults. By the age of 16, one in six children (16 per cent) 4 will have experienced sexual abuse during childhood. Three-quarters (72 per cent) of sexually abused children did not tell anyone about the abuse at the time; 27 per cent told someone later. Around a third (31 per cent) still had not told anyone about their experience(s) by early adulthood. 5 False allegations of rape and sexual abuse are no higher than false allegations for other crimes, such as burglary (USA 2 per cent; UK 3 per cent). 6 Research has consistently found that only around 3 4 per cent of all reported child abuse cases result in conviction. 7 Research has shown that those who are abused in childhood are likely to turn to religion, God and church communities to find meaning and purpose for their lives. 8 A2 Needs of those who have been abused A person who has suffered abuse will have significant potential strengths but they will also have various complex needs. This is especially so where the abuse has been at the hands of those they have trusted, and even more likely if the abuser holds a position of spiritual or moral responsibility. There will be a complex mix of feelings or emotions. Both the incident itself and subsequent consequences raise a number of issues addressed elsewhere in this report. Where abuse has taken place within the church context then these include the challenging process of re-establishing relations with the faith community and with God. 4 Statistics taken from P. Cawson, et al., Child Maltreatment in the United Kingdom: A Study of the Prevalence of Child Abuse and Neglect, 2000, quoted as the latest comprehensive research by the NSPCC. 5 Cawson, Child maltreatment. 6 E. Kelly, J. Lovet and L. Regan, A Gap or a Chasm? Attrition in Reported Rape Cases, Home Office Research Study 293, CWAS Unit, London Metropolitan University, Kelly et al., A Gap or a Chasm? Also see Child Exploitation and Online Protection Centre figures, 8 K. Pargament, The Psychology of Religion and Coping, The Guildford Press, 1997; and M. Argyle, Psychology and Religion: An Introduction, Routledge,

19 Guidance for the Church of England The time between the original abuse and disclosure of that abuse varies from case to case. Some people are able to disclose soon after the abuse while others may take many years and some never disclose the abuse they have suffered. When people who have experienced abuse come into church communities, what they need most is to be listened to openly and without judgement. It is probable that some will also need ongoing support and practical help. Being sexually abused always involves a loss of personal control and power. When a survivor raises an allegation of abuse against a member of the church community, care must be taken so that he or she does not experience further loss of control over what happens next, including who is informed about the complaint. It is important that at all times the survivor should be consulted and involved at all levels as far as is possible, allowing for legal constraints. Recovery after sexual abuse and obtaining closure involves a process over time. The Revd Dr Marie M. Fortune, founder and senior analyst of the FaithTrust Institute (see Appendix C7 Further resources), has identified seven essential elements to the process: the opportunity to tell the story (to name the sin and share their experience); for someone to hear the story (that is, to believe and acknowledge the harm done and the fact that the victim is not to blame); receiving a compassionate response to the victim (that is, to suffer with, to walk with the person rather than try to problem solve immediately); an effort to protect the vulnerable from further harm (both the victim and any others who might be at risk); the community holding the perpetrator to account; an act of restitution in as far as this is possible (though this does not necessarily include institutional or financial liability); unambiguous vindication. 9 It is important to be clear about what a victim of abuse expects at any time when he or she shares his or her experience. While it is understandable that those in authority might be anxious regarding any suggestion of institutional culpability, this should never eclipse our higher duty to provide pastoral care. Indeed there appears to be growing evidence to suggest that where those who have experienced abuse receive a compassionate and responsive hearing to their experience, there is less likelihood of litigation. There are occasions when all that is sought by a victim is a sincere and heartfelt expression of sorrow that the abuse has occurred or for the harm that has been caused, such as when the Archbishop of Canterbury recognized certain failings on Radio M. Fortune, Clergy Misconduct: Sexual Abuse in the Ministerial Relationship, FaithTrust Institute, Today, 25 May 2007; see transcript

20 Part A Context Marie Fortune s final element, vindication for the victims of abuse, is best met when the Church and its leaders are prepared to act justly (Micah 6.8) on their behalf. An over-emphasis on mercy can lead to a sense of injustice. Micah calls us to hold mercy and justice in balance as we walk humbly with God. A3 Awareness in worship There are a number of things within the regular pattern of worship that might present problems to survivors of abuse. Church activities also sometimes trigger disclosure of past sexual abuse. Many church leaders are not aware of these and might be surprised by a negative reaction to something that appears to them perfectly normal. While most visitors appreciate a warm welcome, some who have been abused find certain physical aspects of welcome uncomfortable. Some people are delighted to receive an invitation to sit beside other members of the congregation, while others prefer a more solitary place. A key aspect in the planning of worship is for the leader to be aware of the variety of experiences in any congregation and, on the day, be sensitive both to those who are regular worshippers and any visitors. It is also important to: use inclusive language; learn and help others to make healthy relationships with God; ensure the church is a place of safety, including confidentiality and avoiding gossip through inappropriate prayer or talk over coffee; enable opportunities for networking if it is wanted. Remember that: liturgy can hinder as well as help; Note: the same words can trigger bad memories for some and be positive for others. Churches that provide details of service content in advance, either within notice sheets or orders of service, have noted that this is helpful preparation for those who might otherwise struggle with something within the worship. often as a child, attributes of the abuser can become associated with the image of God; Scripture is interpreted in the light of experience; different words, actions, smells will set off memories for different individuals; sharing/passing the peace can be a threatening experience and environment, particularly for some people where hugs are given. There always needs to be permission for people to stay quietly seated if this is their preferred option; kneeling in front of another person may invoke difficult memories; 15

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