Q: Do you think long-distance relationships can work? I met this wonderful man who lives in North Dakota, and I live in Maine. Can this relationship work until I am able to relocate in the near future?

-Scott B.

A: Hi Scott,

You ask a great question that seems to be a common issue in this fast-paced Internet world we live in. But let me begin by saying that relationships are very idiosyncratic. By that I mean that any relationship can work if the two hearts involved understand the limitations and are committed to each other. The ability of human beings to adapt is truly amazing, and each one of the relationships we involve ourselves in all demand something different from us. With that said, let’s get to your question.

You ask if long-distance relationships work. The short answer is that some do and some don’t. It all depends on how committed each party is to making it work. In your case, particularly since you are relocating soon, if you both feel very strongly for each other and are committed to succeeding, I have no doubt you can be successful. If this feels right to you, then I say go for it, Scott. The truth is that people do this successfully all the time!