How do i find out if this guy likes me?

There is this guy I go to college with hes a couple of years older than me.... he always flirts with me and i've never seen him have a girl around. facebook says he is straight but i don't fully believe it and i think he may like me. he asked me things through texts like "did you get home ok" and other things. what do you guys think?

You can't believe Facebook profiles. If he's flirting with you then he likes you. Flirt back and see what happens. Ask him if he wants to hang out. If he texts you asking if you got home ok then you KNOW he likes you.

I wouldn't put his pic up in privacy of the guy, but that's just me. Anyways, I agree with most people here, I'd probably flirt a little bit, but just be a little caucious due to his possible closeted sexuality

I do have to say though, I wish someone would ask me if I made it home ok lol

tenniskid17 saidugh i dont know if i should put his pic up... i kind of want to but idk if its right to do that.

I ask that you please not put his pic up. I know he seems to be closeted to you but he might have quite a few reasons for being so private. It doesn't always mean that he is ashamed about who he finds attractive.

At least if you are going to post his pic on a site like this, get the okay from him first.

tenniskid17 saidugh i dont know if i should put his pic up... i kind of want to but idk if its right to do that.

I ask that you please not put his pic up. I know he seems to be closeted to you but he might have quite a few reasons for being so private. It doesn't always mean that he is ashamed about who he finds attractive.

At least if you are going to post his pic on a site like this, get the okay from him first.

im not going to put his pic i agree with all of you though. its just a very tough situation especially because i have feelings for him and if he doesnt like me then i will be disappointed.

Why is everyone calling the mystery man closeted? We don't know if he's gay or not. Flirting doesn't mean anything until it turns physical and it's not a "sure all" tell-tell sign that someone is gay. I know many straight men who are just big flirts and make some off the wall sexual innuendos period.

OP, does your buddy know you are gay? if so, then he just might feel secure flirting with you which is a innocent form of joking (to a degree). Does he flirt with other guys the way he does with you or are you misreading what he's doing and consider it flirting?

Guy101 saidWhy is everyone calling the mystery man closeted? We don't know if he's gay or not. Flirting doesn't mean anything until it turns physical and it's not a "sure all" tell-tell sign that someone is gay. I know many straight men who are just big flirts and make some off the wall sexual innuendos period.

OP, does your buddy know you are gay? if so, then he just might feel secure flirting with you which is a innocent form of joking (to a degree). Does he flirt with other guys the way he does with you or are you misreading what he's doing and consider it flirting?

No he doesn't know that i am gay i'm not out to him or anyone. i don't see him flirt with other guys the way he does with me. i feel a connection between us.

waimea saidMaybe you're just seeing what you want to see? That happens sometimes. A guy who says something sweet and all of the sudden you think that he wants to spend the rest of his life with you.

No one wants to spend the rest of their life with you Waimea, just remember that.

So I can actually contribute to the thread, proceed with caution OP. This man may be gay (again MAY) but if he is, he may not be comfortable with himself yet, which will lead to all sorts of issues. Just be careful with how you proceed, if he asks you if you have a gf, correct him and make sure he knows your preference, but he may never be out for his whole life, remember that.

waimea saidMaybe you're just seeing what you want to see? That happens sometimes. A guy who says something sweet and all of the sudden you think that he wants to spend the rest of his life with you.

No one wants to spend the rest of their life with you Waimea, just remember that.

I want my testimonial back. Sheesh...to think that the next person I fall in love would be with you...what the hell was I thinking?! Oh yeah, I was just done fapping to your profile. Now that makes sense.

Anywayz, now with deki back, you can go back to your role as spare tire. Ha!

waimea saidMaybe you're just seeing what you want to see? That happens sometimes. A guy who says something sweet and all of the sudden you think that he wants to spend the rest of his life with you.

No one wants to spend the rest of their life with you Waimea, just remember that.

I want my testimonial back. Sheesh...to think that the next person I fall in love would be with you...what the hell was I thinking?! Oh yeah, I was just done fapping to your profile. Now that makes sense.

Anywayz, now with deki back, you can go back to your role as spare tire. Ha!