Holiday feast one man’s way of giving back

Holiday feast one man’s way of giving back

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For the third year, Phil Karpathios is preparing to serve several hundred people a free traditional Christmas dinner at Phil’s Family Restaurant in Penetanguishene. Buses will take people from the Salvation Army in Midland for the Dec. 17 event.

PENETANGUISHENE – At Phil Karpathios’s table, there’s always room for one – or 100 – more.
The owner of Phil’s Family Restaurant in Penetanguishene is preparing for his third annual free Christmas dinner for the needy on Dec. 17. Beginning at 3 p.m., it’s a full traditional turkey dinner, right down to the cranberry sauce.
Karpathios and a team of volunteers are bracing for some big numbers. The first year, they served more than 200. Last year, that number doubled to 424.
“This year could be the same or higher,” he said, adding they have enough food to serve several hundred more than last year. “It would be better if you didn’t have to do it, but there is more need.”
A conversation a few years ago between Karpathios and Yvette Contois, program manager for Victim Crisis Assistance and Referral Service, sparked the idea for the dinner. Grateful for the support of his new business, Karpathios wanted to give something back.
“Sometimes we take life for granted and think life can be hard. It is harder for others. We need to stop sometimes and give your thanks.”
Karpathios said suppliers and friends donate turkeys and other items to make the event possible, and his staff and volunteers ensure everything runs smoothly.
“A lot of people have responded and want to volunteer,” he said. “Other people donate food and money to it. It’s becoming a community effort.”
Again this year, a bus will pick up diners at the Midland Salvation Army at 5 and 6 p.m.
Karpathios, meanwhile, credits Contois for organizing the event.
“I just cook the turkeys. If it wasn’t for Yvette’s help, we wouldn’t be able to pull it off,” he said. “She’s the brains behind it.”
Contois greets people at the door and gets them seated. Many share their stories with her.
“It’s such a great event,” she said. “People come in and you can see their apprehension; they’re afraid of judgment. By the time they leave, they’re smiling and happy with a Christmas song in their hearts.”
Local musician Adrienne Robitaille plays Christmas music throughout the event.
As word of mouth spreads the message, more families in need are attending with their children. Mr. and Mrs. Claus visit during dinner, and Ganz Toys in Toronto sends toy donations. Thanks to the generosity of local grocery stores and dental offices, diners go home with a gift bag of fruit and dental hygiene products.
Contois said it is an emotional, but incredible, evening.
“Phil is so generous, and his staff is great. The need is greater than ever. Hopefully people take advantage,” Contois said.
Diners can arrive at any time throughout the afternoon and early evening. Phil’s Family Restaurant is located at 48 Main St.