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gymrat44

In my 60s, bought my first barbell in high school 50 years ago and still work out four or five times a week. Getting to know and enjoy my body has included shining the flashilight into all corners of my sexualtiy and learning to enjoy that as well. A really good workout can be as good as sex; and great sex can be quite a workout!

I believe we are all potentially bisexual and over time develop ourselves at a particular point on the same-sex to opposite-sex continuum. Once we accept where we are and have come to terms with that we can be at peace and come to terms with others wherever they may be. I consider myself "straight" but realize that that's only part of who I am.

Have been married to two wonderful yet very different women and have learned much from them.

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It can be really nice to start masturbating while you're still mostly asleep, stroking slowly and then increase intensity as you get more and more awake. By the time you make your deposit you're awake and ready to go!

Any day that starts with masturbation has had a good start!View Thread

Hi Fitjock,Thanks for opening up -- the more we know about each other the easier it is to share and provide some useful information.Somehow I'm not really surprised that your profile pic is a target and not who you have yet become. A number of years ago I was in a similar position: becoming a fit jock was important to me. I worked at it and since it was important to me I kept at it and I've not done too bad. Exercise, working out, body building -- whatever you want to call it, it is beneficial, makes you feel good and look good.

About masturbation: it's a necessary part of a guy' life. During the course of our lives we produce a couple of gallons of sperm and let it out in delightful portions over a long period of time. Masturbating is practice. Every time you get or have a hard-on it's your body telling you that it's ready for you to squeeze out a load. So when it's possible to do it, go ahead and enjoy it. Try not to rush it; get to know yourself and how you feel while doing it. See some earlier posts here which may give some ideas I know I've written a bunch -- no point in keeping this experience to myself.

Don't be in a hurry to get through puberty -- or how big your penis is. It will be your good buddy for years, just respect it, use it responsibly and enjoy! And let us know how you're doing. And when specific questions come up, just ask. I'm sure one or more of us here will be glad to pass along our thoughts.View Thread

What does your penis tell you? If it's giving you signs that it's ready it means that you're ready. Relax, use some care and see what happens. It can be a great way to relax and enjoyed some shared masculinity!View Thread

Revisiting this post I started three years ago and am happy to see that the band of brothers is still enjoying the shared delight of beating off together -- that's great, and keep on stroking!View Thread

There are a number of different ways that a penis starts to harden and it can be fascinating to experience it, try to describe it and understand it. And respond to it as needed.

Sometimes I experience what you describe, only I wouldn't say I feel like I'm ejaculating. However, the sudden lengthening and hardening movement of my cock does let me know that some ejaculation would be appreciated. This feeling especially happens when I'm dressed, seated and doing something else. I feel my penis start to grow and push against the constraints of my undershorts and, if possible, to start going down one of my pant legs.

Just a week or so that happened, seemingly out of nowhere. It let me know it was time to get up, find a washroom and get some release. I was glad to accommodate and look forward to the next time!View Thread

Sure - get yourself an iStubble electric clipper. It's cordless and has settings from 0.4 cm up to 5.0 cm which can be changed like using a TV remote. You can find the exact length of scruff which is perfect for you and by using the iStubble daily you can keep it indefinitely.

I join gq12 in encouraging you to give us an update of your experiences with your friend. Your detailed description of the progress of your closeness shows how some give-and-take is required in a good relationship. And a developing a good relationship can take some work, being sure that you both treat each other with respect.

Never noticed that about leaking fluid after a strenuous work-out, although I can see it could happen.

As I described a while back in another post the abdominal muscular contraction done as part of a regular bench press has enough similarity to that done in regular humping that it can cause an ejaculation. Once early one morning I was waiting for my hard-on to subside so I could pee and to pass the time went into the next room to pump out some bench presses. I was surprised that after about five presses a load of semen came flying out onto my abdomen! Yes, I was hard, but I certainly wasn't expecting that result.

So, jrocker, next time I have a "ballbuster" of a workout I'll stop in the can afterwards, give myself a squeeze and see what happens. Always great learning new things about your body and what it can do.View Thread

Hey, glad to hear how things progressed for you! As I was saying before, you two have an ongoing trusting relationship which has had its sexual side for some time. Taking things one step at a time, respecting each other and exploring what you can do together to bring each other pleasure sounds like a good way to go. Or, sorry, should I say come.

Sounds like you guys had a good time! You've said that you have been jerking together on and off for years so I would think that there is a good deal of trust built up between you two. And it does sound like you have a lasting relationship built on things beyond sexual activities.

A change of scene and bringing in a new activity could be something exciting, and yes, it could lead to something else, or more of the same -- or, maybe, it was just a one time thing. How would you like things to develop? I think you're in a situation where you might be able to talk with him about it -- or just let things happen as time goes along. Sounds like just letting things happen has worked out pretty well in this case. Good luck!View Thread

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