(Original post by offsetWHOOP)
You do it a lot actually. Then again you're very old, you've been here for 9 years damn...

You're a predator. Just own it.

Everyone knows what a paedophile is retard. But she's basically borderline anyway. But then again predators like you like to exploit young girl's naivety because you have no success with girls your own age, ****ing failures.

Pedophilia or paedophilia is a psychiatric disorder in which an adult or older adolescent experiences a primary or exclusive sexual attraction to prepubescent children.[1][2] Although girls typically begin the process of puberty at age 10 or 11, and boys at age 11 or 12,[3] criteria for pedophilia extend the cut-off point for prepubescence to age 13.[1] A person who is diagnosed with pedophilia must be at least 16 years old, and at least five years older than the prepubescent child, for the attraction to be diagnosed as pedophilia.

and no I am not a predator/peadophile, the youngest I have dated was 18 ...not 8

(Original post by offsetWHOOP)
You do it a lot actually. Then again you're very old, you've been here for 9 years damn...

You're a predator. Just own it.

Everyone knows what a paedophile is retard. But she's basically borderline anyway. But then again predators like you like to exploit young girl's naivety because you have no success with girls your own age, ****ing failures.

Why so aggressive? It's a forum, relax.

Also paedophilia isn't going out with someone under the age of consent, that's statutory rape. Why do you have to only be with someone your own age?

There's nothing logically wrong with your relationship, it's just not socially acceptable imo... It's early days yet though, I think you should enjoy your youth and find a man in your age group, rather than basically dating an adult and locking yourself down so early :/

> lol all these people screaming pedophilia have clearly never been to high school... grade 7s be going out with over 18+ y/o boyfriends and that's an age difference I don't even want to calculate. None of those relationships lasted anyway.

I had a 21 year old boyfriend when I was 16 too and we’re not together anymore simply because that big age gap you’re both at different points in your life and it is a bit wired when I told people it was ok with them they would question it.
And the way I now see it is wht right minded 20 year old would be with a 16 year old girl what would his friends think they would defo call him a pedo...
If you think you’re happy just really consider them points ^ were all young once and we learn from our mistakes

(Original post by offsetWHOOP)
You do it a lot actually. Then again you're very old, you've been here for 9 years damn...

You're a predator. Just own it.

Everyone knows what a paedophile is retard. But she's basically borderline anyway. But then again predators like you like to exploit young girl's naivety because you have no success with girls your own age, ****ing failures.

Except for you, clearly. "Paedophile" is a term used to describe someone who is attracted to pre-pubescent children, i.e those who have not yet started to go through puberty. At 16, we can safely assume the large majority of teenagers are somewhere in the stages of puberty.

Also, don't insult someone because they disagree with your opinion. It just makes you look sad.

(Original post by Anonymous)
My boyfriend isn't 20 and I am 16 but we haven't told anyone about our relationship except from our parents, only because my boyfriend is scared nobody will agree and will say stuff. We are in love but I'm concerned that he wont ever want to tell anyone because of the 4 years age gap. I'm asurred that it's legal to have sexual intimacy but with dating I have no clue. HELP!!

Age gap isn't big, main difference is that you're under 18. If you are worried about what people think of your relationship, maybe you shouldn't be in it,
people will find out about it either way. It's also questionable why he would choose someone younger than him, because generally you'd want to date people your age.

(Original post by Anonymous)
My boyfriend isn't 20 and I am 16 but we haven't told anyone about our relationship except from our parents, only because my boyfriend is scared nobody will agree and will say stuff. We are in love but I'm concerned that he wont ever want to tell anyone because of the 4 years age gap. I'm asurred that it's legal to have sexual intimacy but with dating I have no clue. HELP!!

That’s so odd lmao. It might be legal but it’s saying a lot that a whole adult, a 20 year old man can’t get a girl his age so he’s hanging by school gates to pick up barely legals. Girl, sis, love yourself and block his number. He’s a predator
Where are you gonna go for your dates? Youth centre? 🤧you can’t even get into a bar or pub or watch an 18 so wtf is he doing with you unless it’s for nefarious reasons. Look into his past and you’ll likely find you’re not the first teenager he’s preyed on

(Original post by Anonymous)
My boyfriend isn't 20 and I am 16 but we haven't told anyone about our relationship except from our parents, only because my boyfriend is scared nobody will agree and will say stuff. We are in love but I'm concerned that he wont ever want to tell anyone because of the 4 years age gap. I'm asurred that it's legal to have sexual intimacy but with dating I have no clue. HELP!!

It's ultimately your decision who you want to date and there will be a lot of times in life where you have to stop worrying what people think. That said, I dated someone much older when I was in school and it made life really difficult, we never fully fit in with each others friends and were just at really different points of life. Now I'm in my twenties I can't imagine dating someone that young, I find it a bit creepy someone did with me tbh and makes me feel bad for being part of it. I can't say you'll definitely regret it but I would think carefully if I were you.

(Original post by offsetWHOOP)
I always see you defending old men going out with young school girls. You've made a habit of it. I suspect you've been in such a disgusting relationship and feel the need to defend yourself. Dirty woman.

I have never defended old men going out with school girls, in fact I strongly oppose it. Get your facts right.