Men Aren’t Interested in Women? It’s Men’s Fault!

There are few certainties in life, but they include death, taxes, and that men will be blamed for the behavior of women. The latest example of this appeared in a CNET article regarding a BBC interview with a psychologist concerned that men are choosing video games and porn over relationships with women. They simply are no longer interested in women. This isn’t exactly breaking news, especially to MGTOW. However, rather than blame women for being so toxic that they have driven men away, the psychologist blames men for being “addicted” and calls it a “masculinity crisis”.

Let’s back up a bit, and examine the issue, along with the cognitive dissonance and gynocentrism at work. The psychologist in question is named Philip Zimbardo, of Stanford. It’s worth noting that psychology is now a female dominated industry (all the better to manipulate you with my dear) (Willyard, 2011). I’ll give Philip the benefit of the doubt, and assume that his manginary is simply the result of knowing which side his bread is buttered on, and that if he wants to keep his job in a female-dominated industry, being a white-knight mangina is simply par for the course.

Zimbardo states that he believes that young boys’ brains are being “digitally rewired” by online video games and porn. The evidence he leads with is a quote from an unnamed boy that says “When I’m in class, I’ll wish I was playing World of Warcraft. When I’m with a girl, I’ll wish I was watching pornography, because I’ll never get rejected.” (Matyszczyk , 2015).

Let’s break this quote down into smaller bites, and examine them.

“When I’m in class, I’ll wish I was playing World of Warcraft.”

You mean school is boring? No way! I had no idea. You mean children would rather do something fun than sit in class? What black magic has bedeviled our innocent children?

Seriously though, this has nothing to do with sexuality. Ask a 5-year old attending pre-school (complete with naps and cookies) whether they’d rather go to school or stay home and play video games (or watch TV, play with their toys, or whatever), and see what they say. You’ll only be shocked by the answer if you’re a moron, or a mangina psychologist from Stanford.

This also isn’t an exclusively male problem. Young women would probably rather be on social media or socializing with their friends than attending class. Does this mean girls’ brains are being “digitally rewired” by social media, and that they’re experiencing a “crisis of femininity”?

“When I’m with a girl, I’ll wish I was watching pornography, because I’ll never get rejected.”

This is admittedly more of a male problem than a female one because all the pressure is on the man to approach the woman. Women never have to worry about being rejected to their face, because their worst-case scenario is that nobody returns their smiles, talks to them, or approaches them, while a man’s worst-case scenario is that he takes the risk of approaching a woman and she rejects him while probably also throwing in a moderate amount of shame and mockery towards him as he walks away.

This is not an issue that came about because of porn. It’s an issue that’s been around for centuries, and as women have become more narcissistic and entitled, it has simply gotten worse. Women are progressively becoming less attractive (FRAC) and more entitled while porn has become more realistic and accessible. It’s not hard to see why porn would be preferred, but of course the psychologist puts no responsibility on women for their role in men rejecting them.

Zimbardo continues by discussing a brand new disorder for men later on in the article. It is called P.I.E.D. or Porn-Induced Erectile Dysfunction (Matyszczyk , 2015). It is apparently the phenomena wherein modern women, with their rolls of fat, narcissistic attitudes, and massive entitlement, have cause men to no longer be attracted to them. Women have become so toxic that men can’t even maintain an erection while staring into their cellulite, and feeling how loose their vaginas are due to the miles of cock that have been run through them. I know you’re shocked, but it’s a serious problem. If men aren’t slaves to their dicks, and willing to bow down and worship the holy vagina, whatever will become of society?

Luckily Mr. Zimbardo has a solution, but you’ll have to buy his book “Man (Dis)Connected: How technology has sabotaged what it means to be male” to learn what it is (Matyszczyk , 2015).

I will not be buying this mangina’s book, but I already know what his solutions are because I’ve heard them multiple times: that men need to man up, stop being so selfish, and sacrifice themselves and their happiness for women, because if they don’t … what about the children?

This is yet another attempt to repackage Traditionalism. Whereas Roosh’s “Neo-Masculinity” attempts to rebrand Traditionalism as somehow beneficial to men (Roosh, 2015), Zimbardo’s argument doesn’t even attempt to be pro-man, but takes the standard Feminist route of shaming and blaming men, while taking all the responsibility off of women for their actions and behaviors.

Allow me to explain the underlying issue using the example of the video game “Roller Coaster Tycoon”: I would rather go to an actual theme park than play Roller Coaster Tycoon on my computer, but if the park is too far, too expensive, the lines are too long, the rides are dangerous, and all the employees have a bad attitude every time I go, I’ll gladly stay home and get my roller coaster fix from my computer.

The article closes by asking the question of whether these developments are sabotage or progress (Matyszczyk , 2015). I would argue that this is progress. Men have been slaves to their dicks for too long, and it has allowed women to walk over men, and destroy the societies we’ve built. Men have competed for women since the dawn of time, and now that (for the first time) women are facing a little competition themselves, they are losing their minds.

Has anyone thought that if men prefer porn to women, maybe the problem isn’t porn?

As someone who has experienced it first hand, I can tell you that Porn Induced Erectile Dysfunction IS a real thing, and so is Porn addiction. In fact, I realized, in retrospect, that I probably would have lost my virginity six to eight years earlier if I hadn’t been affected by it.

When I lost my virginity, it was to a girl with a cute face, but who was distinctly overweight (though luckily she still had a decent hip to waist ratio). I had been twenty eight days without porn at that point, but even then I had trouble maintaining an erection.

The next woman I had in my bed was admittedly plainer faced and still overweight, but MUCH less overweight than the last woman. Overall, she was more attractive than the girl I lost my virginity to. I’d just masturbated to porn three times the night before, however, and found myself completely unable to get hard with this girl.

Last year I decided to attend a SMART recovery meeting (for those unfamiliar, it is a support group for addicts), since I was struggling to go longer than a week and I knew I needed to try something new. Everyone else there was either an alcoholic or a coke addict – several expressed doubts that “porn addiction” was a real thing. As they shared their stories, however, I couldn’t help but notice just how much their symptoms lined up with the same thing I was experiencing.

Most notably the tendency to say “well, I’ll just do it once, there’s no harm in once” – in their case one drink, in my case on porn session – and then find themselves staying up to ridciulously unreasonable hours and ending up coming to late work the next day as a result.

Later, I visited a psychologist who managed to convince me that I was mistaken – that I had convinced myself that porn addiction was the source of my difficulty staying productive, but that the real issue was that I just wasn’t applying enough willpower. This was around the time I’d first discovered MGTOW, and had decided (at the time) that I was going to swear off women anyway, so who cares about erectile dysfunction, I’ll just fap to porn if I can still achieve my goals at the same time.

The result was that I spent that entire summer doing little else than watching porn and playing Eve online in my free time. I completely fell off my diet and exercise (I had lost fifty pounds the previous year), and ended up gaining twenty pounds. Additionally, I ended up staying up late, and coming in to work late a lot, and having difficulty concentrating at work (while I was good about staying away from porn I managed to be a lot more productive at work). I fell behind on my chores – laundry only ever got done at the very latest time possible. I began avoiding hanging out with friends because I needed to get fix of Eve online.

At the end of the summer, I realized that this most certainly was a problem, and renewed my commitment to quitting porn. Every time I stay on track with that, I am productive, I stay on top of my commitments and keeping contact with friends and family, an I stay consistent with my diet and exercise regime. EVERY time I give in to porn, I end up staying up late, I fall off my diet, an it becomes very difficult to anything productive in my free time.

I’ve been ADD all my life, and I have lots of experience with how it feels to be on my medication, and how it feels to be off of my medication. Not only does my mind state when engaging with Porn feel the same as my unmedicated ADD mind state, but the difference in results is just as drastic. I gain a huge boost to my ability to stay focused and get menial, but necessary tasks, completed when I stay consistent with my medication. I gain AS MUCH of a boost to my concentration and productivity when I stay away from porn.

Now all of this is simply anecdotal evidence, so if anyone finds it unconvincing, I can pull up some of the hard studies that have been done on the subject. I’m currently enrolled in the NoFap Reboot camp, and they just sent out a newsletter with information about refuting the doubts that have been spreading on the net about porn addiction.

In the meantime, I want to make it clear that I don’t think porn and video games are a bad thing. I like porn, and I especially like video games (I went to school for game development after all). If I could watch porn without it interfering my life, I would do so, but I’ve come to realize that I can’t. I understand that others, however, may not have the same problems.

I don’t think anyone here denies that Alcoholism is a real addiction. That doesn’t make alcohol bad though. I myself drink socially on a semi-regular basis, and I do not have an alcohol addiction (currently I am avoiding alcohol to boost my weight loss efforts. I HAVE had two drinks the past two weeks, but that was mainly due to the social situation – my friend had a wine he really wanted me to try because he bought it while abroad, and last night we were at a rather expensive hotel bar and I felt guilty about not buying anything, but the only affordable food would have violated my diet more than the alcohol).

So just as I can drink without having a problem, but others may end up addicted, so I believe that some people can watch porn without issues, but I find myself addicted. For instance, reading between the lines from several of Barbarossa’s videos, I DON’T think he has a porn addiction, though I also gather from what he’s said that he does watch porn on at least a semi-regular basis.

This is why we are seeing the push (or rather the attempted push) by feminism and gynocentrism into video games.

The human female collective just simply cannot leave the human male collective alone. Women as a group do not want men as a group to be happy or for men to live their lives on their own terms. Instead what women want is to control and manipulate men into being in the plantation for their own benefit.

Seriously, that is what all this “men are not interested in women so it is men’s fault” boils down to. Women are losing their slaves, their Homo Manginae and their Sir Knight Whitingtons and they cannot handle that.

Most females could care less about playing video games.
Sarkeesian herself has admitted as much.
I’m quite surprised nobody in the manosphere has postulated that feminists seeking control over video games is actually feminists trying to seize control over the platform for VR sex.

[A figure stands up from the audience, walks to the front of the room, and takes a position behind the podium. Some foot shuffling and coughs are heard. The speaker clears his throat.]

“My name is BraininaVat and I am a MGTOW addict.”

[Loud clapping and hooting, with occasional, “Hello, BraininaVat!” come from the assembled audience.]

“I have no control over my consumption of MGTOW content. The first thing I do each morning after waking up is to check Shedding of the Ego and The Black Pill blogs for new comments. Then I see if there are new videos from Barbarossa, Stardusk, Turd Flinging Monkey, Johntheother, and a long list of favorites. I can’t do my work unless I am listening to MGTOW conversations. Just last week was great, with long dialogues between Ayam Sirius and TFM, Stardusk and Ayam Sirias, and Barbarossa and Johntheother. There was enough new content that I didn’t have to go looking through the archives and re-listen to things I’ve already heard a dozen times.”

[“Yeah, Brain!” from the audience.]

“If I don’t get my MGTOW ‘fix’ I start to feel myself backsliding. Even though I have personally, in my own life, experienced the unjustified viciousness and callousness of every woman I have ever known, my opinion of the fairer sex starts to soften, and I think about actually making an attempt to engage with women again. I just can’t learn my lesson, no matter how many times I try, I keep thinking, ‘Just one. I can meet just one woman, and she’ll be a decent human being. After one I can stop.’ Nope. Not happening. ”

[Further supportive sounds from the audience.]

“I guess I’m just a typical, weak-willed guy who needs constant support and understanding from men who have been through the same experiences. If I don’t get reminded repeatedly and pointedly of the havoc that a woman can wreak in a man’s life, I go back to the same old source of misery. MGOW reminds me every day that I am not alone, and the stories of what other men have suffered make me feel lucky in comparison. I’ll be a MGTOW addict the rest of my life. Thank you.”

[The speaker finishes and returns to his seat amidst resounding applause as another member of the audience rises and walks toward the podium.]

Zimbardo has a clear agenda though and I’d say it’s similar to the feminist one. Environment (society/culture) has the largest or sole effect on people. He tried defending the soldiers involved with the Abu Ghraib prison with this rhetoric that it wasn’t their fault they acted like assholes and abused the prisoners, it was the environment!

And even the famous prison experiment was flawed in many ways which only by reading this article did I learn of it. It wasn’t mentioned when I took a social psychology class, the topic being brought up a few times, and you’d think the books would talk about the criticisms of the experiment. Nope, need to push that agenda.http://skeptoid.com/episodes/4102

It is a good thing that we learn to control our sexdrives, and maybe porn is for women just what methadone is for heroine: a substitute that will eventually help to control and even supress the addiction.

After all, aren’t women afraid all the time that our appetite for them will only lead to rape and mayhem? Aren’t they supposedly tired of catcalling, sexual objectification and harassment?

Of course there is always the way of repression: outlawing and criminalizing porn, the same way they did it in Sweden with prostitution. I would not be surprised if that is the next thing. The more men withhold their labour and attention, the more the machine goes crazy.

Regarding potential bans. Some would say that keeping men sober, so that they were focused on being productive individuals and good family men, was the exact same motivation that let to The Prohibition.

That kid is bright, he knows that “the juice isn’t worth the squeeze”. Porn is good because for me it is a reminder that the only thing the women have to offer is sex (reproductive value), and for the remainder, women are just unnecessary for my everyday life. And since I use porn to suppress those pesky biological urges, I’m a lot more free.

A little note: actually, I would say that societies are not being destroyed by women walking all over men, since societies have always been centered on that concept, and on what’s best for women overall. It’s up to us to bring societies to a halt, by walking away in droves.

Zimbardo perfectly exemplifies the typical failing of many Gynocentric thinkers. They purposefully ignore where the evidence leads (the why of why men are resorting to these outlets, the source that is causing them to extricate themselves from social watering holes and the hostile matrix of male-female interactions) and instead focuses on the outcome. From this he conjures up a diluted account of modern male behavior and then uses this as shaming tool against men. Thus, never identifying and targeting the cancer itself.

There really is no such thing as porn addiction, or indeed sex addiction. These are, and will remain, myths. You do get the odd commentator claiming their “porn addiction” led to this, that and the other, but there’s never been any forensic evidence whatsoever to support the existence of porn addiction. The issue is never the thing to which people claim addiction, but the person themselves.

This mangina will look for any scapegoat to avoid calling out the real culprit.. sacrificing video games, pornography, or anything else that makes men happy, in an attempt to deflect any wrongdoings done by women, because to admit that women have become toxic, he himself would undergo extensive shaming torture, and pussy withdrawl. As they’ve been telling us.. “Dont make waves!” or “happy wife, happy life”.