Monday, September 24, 2012

RevGalBookPals: Sabbath in the Suburbs

Today we have a guest review by long-time RevGal Beth Birkholz, who blogs here. Her mini-bio: Pastor at Holy Trinity Lutheran Church in Marietta, GA.

Mama to M and J, Wife of S.Suburban farmer, runner, and yogi.

She offers the following review of RevGal MaryAnn McKibben Dana's Sabbath in the Suburbs, which will be released in just 6 short days (September 30th).

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On the same day in which I received “Sabbath in the
Suburbs,” I also received a notification that a book on my digital library list
was ready for download, after a multiple-month wait.I don’t want to slam that book….let’s just say that it
involved a Project about Happiness.It was well-reviewed and raved about by critics, and I was excited to
read it personally and as a theologian.

I never made it all the way through that book, because I was
busy getting practical suggestions about the happiness of myself and my family
from MaryAnn McKibben Dana.Whatever chord I was hoping that would be struck by the first book was
far and away hit perfectly by “Sabbath.”

The author and I both have young-ish children, although mine
are a bit older.She embarks on an
initiative of Sabbath-keeping throughout one year, springing from time at Iona,
Scotland (from what I’ve heard from her and others, one of the “thin” places
where God is a little more visible and present).I mentioned this book to a Sunday School class of young
parents, and their reaction was the same as mine: “Oh no.There is NO FREAKIN WAY.”That’s an actual quote.

I think we are all tempted to think the same thing when we
read about Dana’s ambitious project: to set aside 24 hours (or so) for
doing…..nothing.Or a little
something, but no hardcore cooking, no picking up socks, no errands.Games are okay and some TV, but mostly
to set aside the time to just BE, as a family.My first thought was the same as hers: I’m a PASTOR. How am
I supposed to set aside weekend time for this, when I have precious little as
it is?

MaryAnn McKibben Dana addresses this concern: “This is why
Sabbath is becoming important o my family.On one day a week, I don’t need to be organized…on one day
we simply get to be…and maybe engage in a monster tickle fight with our kids.
And in doing so, we make a statement of faith: the tickle fight is as vital as
our work is—perhaps even more so.”

Every concern I had, every snarky comment in my mind, she
addresses them in the book in a way that shows me she struggled with them too
and came out in a place where the Sabbath is still gifting her and her family
with something that is worth every bit of the struggle.I am hoping to use this book as a point
of discussion with that same Sunday School class, to help us to view this
commandment as they all are; something GOOD for us.

At the end of the book, I was so satisfied with where she
ends up, and will end up referring back to this book if I dare take on this
project.After reading it, I cannot
think of Sabbath in the same way.It IS do-able, even for a pastor mama of two or three who is married and
has a house to clean (what blessings! She is not unaware of this either).And it’s do-able precisely because God
gives us freedom.She writes,

“True freedom, it seems, comes from participating in a
particular pattern of life that seems restricting but is actually life-giving.”

Will my family engage in a Sabbath project?The excuses are already crowding into
my brain.My kids are older.We already take enough time away from
them by being pastors on weekends.Etc.Etc.But I can definitely move into what Dana
describes as a Sabbath state of mind, even if it’s only for a few hours, an
afternoon, a day.The work of the
Sabbath is life-giving, and MaryAnn McKibben Dana’s work on this book was
life-giving and hopeful to this pastor mom in the suburbs.