Your post it is way so right,.. but there is something the I don’t understand., specific right at this moment in my life., most of the topics you mentioned., they are on the side the seems to me the opposite way., and hardly try to see it the other way around, but I don’t understand why many incidents has been hitting to me so badly.. loss, lonely times, regret decision I took in the past., hardly to see hope., . . my heart has been so hurt in many ways., emotionally., mentally.. what’s next..??