The Most Infuriating Thing About Dating Men

This leaves intelligent women in the uncomfortable and awkward position of having to take wild guesses about what to do next.

One of the challenging things about being a woman who is used to taking charge and getting things done is facing infuriating lack of control when it comes to dating.

You don’t like guessing games.

You’re used to focusing on the active ingredients of change.

You’re used to acts of willpower and determination yielding predictable results.

That’s why we created this website. There is a code that can help you decipher men’s actions, thoughts, and unusual behaviour when it comes to dating, relationships, and commitment.

In this article I’m going to show you how to decipher that code.

Let’s address just one aspect of men’s unusual behavior that can drive even the most self-controlled woman to feelings of desperation.

You overcome your reservations about showing up on a scene that is basically a social event fueled by people interested in meeting someone of the opposite sex.

You show up in a good mood because you’re having a good hair day and you feel confident about your appearance. You’re wearing the outfit your best friend approved of as “cute and a little sexy.”

At the gathering you interact with a good number of people, feeling confident and more social than you had expected.

It’s not that you’re stuck up, it’s just that the few men that actually interact with you demonstrate low social skills or mental horsepower that simply wouldn’t allow them to keep up if you were to pursue any kind of relationship beyond casual conversation at a party. But several men do catch your eye, men with the level of adept social skill you can see across the room.

One guy in particular catches your eye. He even stands behind you at one point, conversing comfortably about topics you found interesting. But he doesn’t approach you.

He walks across the room to settle into a long conversation with some bimbo wearing a dress that is too tight and a stupid smile that often preceded her explosions of annoying laughter.

Your friend nudges you in the ribs as she apologizes for you, “She’s tired. She’s been working hard.” You realize you were in deep contemplation, wondering why Mr. Perfect would show so much interest in Ms. Bimbo. You barely noticed when one of the three women you were standing with asked you a question.

Here’s the code. Attractive and intelligent men are used to being bombarded with signals that invite interaction. Contrary to public perception, research has shown that women initiate interaction with men three times more often than the other way around.

It’s just that women use nonverbal signals to invite interaction (often from across the room). These signals are an important part of a solid foundation when it comes to meeting quality men.

Some women easily allow their instincts to guide these non-verbal approach signals. Interestingly, my experience is that the more intelligent a woman is, the more likely she is to unconsciously suppress the very instincts that could help her attract attention from the right kind of man (the man of her choosing in a crowded room).

In my dating and relationship courses, I go into detail about the specific signals and methods you can put to work tonight to get mother nature back on your side.

With the right active ingredients, you will have no problem finding and meeting the kinds of quality men you deserve.