A seed could not grow into a fruit, for it would forever remain a seed. A boy could not become a man. An idea could not become a plan.

Being alive means facing change. All things grow and change. Not just physical things but so too with intangibles such as our thoughts, ideas, feelings, states of minds, mental energies, and all of our relationships too.

When changes happened and it's time to let go, we started to question ourselves, why do we need to let go something or someone we love sometimes?

It's simple. Because not everything you love is meant for you. You need to let go when the situation really calls for it.

Don't be selfish. In this world, everything isn't just about you. The world just doesn't revolve for you. This world is made up of different people with different stories. So if it's really necessary, then let go and don't worry. Because if something or someone is really for you, no matter how much you let it go, it would always come back to you and if it didn't return, then move on and be happy.

When we try to make impermanent things permanent, we cause ourselves to suffer when they eventually change. And so, we set ourselves up for great disappointment and personal disaster when we cling to things and hope they’ll never change.