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I AM so complicated !! :( I think I'm so complicated because I'm completely indecisive. I can never choose exactly what I want from things as small as which lipgloss to use to what outfit fits me best. I cannot have OPTIONS! If I have many options to choose from, I get so frustrated trying to make the right decision. Then I frustrate everyone around me because I make other people choose for me, but then I need them to EXPLAIN to me why they made that choice, and if their explanation isn't convincing enough for me, than I get frustated and start right back in square one. Me and my friends laugh when we talk about how complicated I am, but in the moment that its happening, it's a serious problem. I recognize this has to change. I'm complicated :( and I need help. HELP ME PLEASE!!! lol God bless you!

My name is Iru and I'm complicated. A lot of women I'm sure can most definitely relate to this. I'm not just talking younger women. this goes to all women who pretty much have a working functional brain. (and might I add put it to good use)So here goes: DOUBLE STANDARDS. This can range from many many things. For instance, things like wanting the same rights as men, being respected the same way- same everything yati yata, but still want your husband, spouse or whatever to fill the shoes of the 'old gender' roles where he's their prince charming or night in shining armor who takes care of them. This is a tough subject because many women want a middle ground when it comes to this. It needs to be put out there and addressed.

1.Make (something) more difficult or confusing by causing it to be more complex.

AM I REALLY DOING THIS TO MYSELF???

2.Introduce complications in an existing condition.

SO NOW I HAVE A CONDITION HUH ?!

3.Difficult to analyze, understand, or explain.

I'M NOT A SCIENCE PROJECT, AM I? :-D

4.Someone or something that is hard to understand or something that is hard tountangle.

NOW WHAT?! Y'ALL COMPARING ME TO HAIR? GUESS WHAT? THEY CREATED CONDITIONNER FOR THAT JUST SO YOU DIDN'T KNOW!

LOL Alright, enough goofying around! And YES I AM COMPLICATED. So let's see what you ladies come up with to help us out. So far, I can relate myself to Mrs Camilla, maybe I'm wrong. We'll find out! I will stay tuned:-)