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Tuesday, 3 August 2010

Do you believe?

I came across some words that are very deep in meaning which I hope will become very influential in the way that we perceive and live our lives and the people involved.

I Believe. . .

. . . that just because two people argue it doesn't mean they don't love each other, and just because they don't argue it doesn't mean they do love each other.

. . . that we don't have to change friends if we understand that friends change.

. . . that no matter how good a friend is, they're going to hurt you every once in a while and you must forgive them for that.

. . . that true friendship continues to grow, even over the longest distance. Same goes for true love.

. . . that you can do something in an instant that will give you heartache for life.

. . . that it's taking me a long time to become the person I want to be

. . . that you should always leave loved ones with loving words. It may be the last time you see them.

. . . that you can keep going long after you think you can't.

. . . that we are responsible for what we do, no matter how we feel.

. . . that either you control your attitude or it controls you.

. . . that heroes are the people who do what has to be done when it needs to be done, regardless of the consequences.

. . . that my best friend and I can do anything or nothing and have the best time.

. . . that sometimes the people you expect to kick you when you're down will be the ones to help you get back up.

. . . that sometimes when I'm angry I have the right to be angry, but that doesn't give me the right to be cruel.

. . . that maturity has more to do with what types of experiences you've had and what you've learned from them and less to do with how many birthdays you've celebrated.

. . . that it isn't always enough to be forgiven by others. Sometimes, you have to learn to forgive yourself.

. . . that no matter how bad your heart is broken the world doesn't stop for your grief.

. . . that our background and circumstances may have influenced who we are, but we are responsible for who we become.

. . . that you shouldn't be so eager to find out a secret, it could change your life forever.

. . . two people can look at the exact same thing and see something totally different.

. . . that your life can be changed in a matter of hours by people who don't even know you.

. . . that even when you think you have no more to give, when a friend cries out to you, you will find the strength to help.

. . . that credentials on the wall do not make you a decent human being.

. . . that the people you care about most in life are taken from you too soon.

. . . the happiest of people don't necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the most of everything they have.

QUESTION: Do you believe all of the above? I am still struggling with a few myself but then what substance does life have without effort and subsequent progressions?

But then, I also believe that all efforts in trying to CONVINCE yourself into believing this will be in vain, but in surrendering it all to Him; The Creator, The Healer - you will believe.

1 comment:

Great post darling, and I agree if you give it all to God, the good, the bad, the ugly God will put things right where they are supposed to be... therefore there is no need to spend your time trying to convince yourself of those statements really...