My boyfriend tells me I should feel flattered because I turn him on so much. Is this really a compliment?

My boyfriend always comes easily with me and he told me I should feel flattered because I turn him on so much. But it just makes me feel awkward because then I start to think about all the other girls he's been with and how much more or less they turned him on. He also asked one time during sex, "What guy would not want to have sex with you?" which also just made me feel really awkward because I am not trying to hook up with other guys. I only want him. Oi. Should I just give him the benefit of the doubt and take his compliments at face value with interjecting my own personal feelings into them? Or is it natural for me to feel this way? thanks...

Wow!! Take a step away from your insecurities. Find a good therapist and get to work repairing your self respect. It's absolutely a compliment of the highest order.

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Haha! Thank you :) I am normally a very confident and self-assured person; that's what attracted him to me in the first place. But I am insecure with him because I always thought he was out of my league. He makes a ton of money, drives fancy cars and is super successful in his business. When he started pursuing me I thought "Can this be real?" I didn't want to be played so it took me a long time to figure out his actions were genuine. Now I know he's for real but yeah that insecurity is still lurking.