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Topic: In memory of my sweet mom

Hi all just wanted to let you know my mom, Julie lost her battle with cancer April 14, 2014. It all seemed to happen so fast. Had a great weekend then Tuesday the 8th all started going down hill. She fought courageously through and gave it her all until her very last day. We have family in Arizona and mom went peacefully only 5 minutes after her brothers from there arrived. We knew she was hanging on for them! All of this just does not seem real yet and I feel as if I'm just hanging in a fog. I know she's in a better place but I just wish that better place was here with us. This site has been great for all advice through her journey! I pray someday there will be a cure for this horrible disease! In ending, I'm leaving the poem we included in Moms funeral. I feel it shows my mom through and through! Thanks again for all support! I now live to keep her vivacious spirit alive. ~~kami

A Mother’s Crown

Heaven lit up with a mighty presence,as the Angels all looked down.Today the Lord was placing the jewelsInto my mother’s crown.

He held up a golden crown,as my darling mother looked on.He said in His gentle voice,‘I will now explain each one.’

‘The first gem,’ He said, ‘is a Ruby,and it’s for endurance alone,for all the nights you waited upfor your children to come home.’

‘For all the nights by their bedside,you stayed till the fever went down.For nursing every little wound,I add this ruby to your crown.’

‘An emerald, I’ll place by the ruby,for leading your child in the right way.For teaching them the lessons,That made them who they are today.’

‘For always being right there,through all life’s important events.I give you a sapphire stone,for the time and love you spent.’

‘For untying the strings that held them,when they grew up and left home.I give you this one for courage.’Then the Lord added a garnet stone.

‘I’ll place a stone of amethyst,’ He said.‘For all the times you spent on your knees,when you asked if I’d take care of your children,and then for having faith in Me.’

‘I have a pearl for every little sacrificethat you made without them knowing.For all the times you went without,to keep them happy, healthy and growing.’

‘And last of all I have a diamond,the greatest one of all,for sharing unconditional lovewhether they were big or small.’

‘It was your love that helped them growFeeling safe and happy and proudA love so strong and pureIt could shift the darkest cloud.’

After the Lord placed the last jewel in,He said, ‘Your crown is now complete,You’ve earned your place in HeavenWith your children at your feet.’

Re: In memory of my sweet mom

Dear Kami,

I am so very sorry to hear of the passing of your dear mum. Please accept my sincere condolences. Thanks so much for sharing your poem with us all, it is beautiful. My thoughts are with you and your family right now.

Hugs,

Gavin

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Re: In memory of my sweet mom

Beautiful tribute to your mom. You are the example of everything she did right....a wonderful daughter. Prayers and sympathies to you and your family.

Julie T.

"Just for today, I can get through anything." Hey....I'm a cancer survivor, not a doctor. The opinions I state are my own, based on my personal experiences or knowledge. As always, talk to your doctor about your concerns and treatment.

Re: In memory of my sweet mom

Beautiful tribute to your mom. You are the example of everything she did right....a wonderful daughter. Prayers and sympathies to you and your family.

Julie T.

"Just for today, I can get through anything." Hey....I'm a cancer survivor, not a doctor. The opinions I state are my own, based on my personal experiences or knowledge. As always, talk to your doctor about your concerns and treatment.

Re: In memory of my sweet mom

Dear KamiSue and Family, I am so very sorry to read of your precious Mom's Passing. The poem is beautiful and quite a tribute to your Mom. You are right that you will always have your Mom's spirit around you and there are times you will really feel her presence. I believe that Mother's never really leave their children. Please accept my humble condolences.

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Re: In memory of my sweet mom

Dear Kami,

What a lovely poem and wonderful tribute to your dear mother. I am so sorry for your loss. Keep your mom with you forever in your heart and wonderful memories. I know nothing can ease your pain right now, but try to take comfort in knowing she is now in a better place and no longer suffering or in pain. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this sad & trying time.

Love & Hugs,Darla

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