Take the Cosmo Sex Challenge!

Try out these seven moves and then tell us which ones your man liked best!

Oct 24, 2007

\nBecause it'd been a while since we got wind of any wild, Cosmo-worthy sex moves, we came up with a delicious idea: have seven top sex experts each invent a brand-new, pleasure-packing booty move, post them online, and ask readers to try each one out with their man...then vote on which wowed him the most.

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So without further ado, here are the seven tricks we hope you and your guy will test-drive. On the last page, you can take the poll and tell us which carnal creation was his favorite and why (feel free to share every dirty detail)...and we'll crown one move the winner.

CHALLENGE #1: Having a Ball

How to do it: Lie back on a large exercise ball (or beach ball), your legs spread, feet flat on the ground, head arched upward, and fingers reaching toward the floor for support. Have your guy kneel between your legs and enter you. He can continue kneeling while holding your hips as he thrusts, or he can stretch his body over yours and support himself with his hands on the floor in a push-up position. Grab his butt and draw him into you, or keep your hands on the floor for balance as he moves in and out.

Why he'll love it: The exercise ball will roll out from under you if he thrusts too hard or too fast, so he has to restrain his motions — no wild bucking — which will keep his desire on a slow, superhot boil. Also, maintaining your balance forces you to tilt your pelvis upward slightly, so he experiences superdeep penetration.

How to do it: Once your man becomes totally aroused, don't move on to intercourse your goal is to reach peak using his unit as your own personal sex toy. A few ways to do this: Get in the woman on top position, but instead of letting him enter you, slide up and down along his shaft. Lie side by side, take your penis in your hand, and stimulate your clitoris with the head. Then, when you're on the brink of a big O, let him know...your motions will have revved him up so much, he'll be able to let go at the same time you do.

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Why he'll love it: Guys dream of being used as a sex object, and now that fantasy will come true. The constant stimulation of your hottest body zone touching his, plus the sight of you teasing and pleasing yourself, will set him up for a turbocharged orgasm in tandem with yours.

(Recommended by Ian Kerner, PhD, sex therapist and author of He Comes Next)

CHALLENGE #3: Naughty Net

How to do it: Greet your man while wearing a pair of fishnet stockings, then seductively strip them off and slip the stockings over one hand. After rubbing a few drops of lubricant over his penis, make a loose fist with the netted hand and glide it against the crown the ridge where the shaft meets the head. As he gets worked up, add more lubricant (otherwise the fishnets could chafe him). Bring him to climax with quick back and forth motions around his crown while pumping your bare fist up and down his shaft.

Why he'll love it: While your bare hand feels smooth against his shaft, the ribbed fishnet will create a slightly rougher sensation on his ultrasensitive crown, something he's probably never experienced before. Plus, the idea of having such a naughty, bad-girl garment against his privates will push him over the edge. Every time he looks down and sees what you're doing, he'll remember that it's the same sexy fishnet that covered your legs just a few minutes ago.

(Recommended by Tracey Cox, author of More Hot Sex)

CHALLENGE #4: Hot Wrap

How to do it: Zip into a microfleece sleeping bag with your man or wrap a microfleece blanket around yourselves. While on your sides, curl your top leg around his and have him enter you, his chest against your back and his arms holding you tight across your torso and/or stomach.

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Why he'll love it: Getting busy in a soft, confined space allows him to penetrate you deeply. And with so much of his body pressed against yours as well as his hands free to play with your breasts and v-zone he'll feel ultraclose to you and tuned in to your every response. But the big bonus is the microfleece, which really amps things up. This velvety, lightweight fabric retains all your body heat, creating incredible warmth that makes his skin more sensitive and muscles more limber.

How to do it: Start by sharing a hot shower with your man. With his back to the showerhead, crouch in front of him. Alternate swirling your tongue and then clamping your lips around the head of his penis, and at the same time, caress his testicles with your wet palm. As the steamy spray from the shower runs down his shaft and behind his testicles, your warm mouth will heat up the tip of his member, and he'll soon succumb to a heavenly orgasm.

Why he'll love it: This multitasking move involves two different types of wetness first from your mouth and then from the shower water. It also treats him to two kinds of pressure on his package: your lips on his head and your palm on his testicles. Together, they'll make his climax even more explosive.

(Recommended by Joan Elizabeth Lloyd, author of Made for Sex)

CHALLENGE #6: The Sling Shot

How to do it: Get in the doggie-style position: you on your knees and your guy kneeling behind you. He then wraps a wide belt or towel under your hips, holding both ends in his hands so he can lift your hips and butt higher and control both your motions as he thrusts in and out.

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Why he'll love it: By using this makeshift sling, he has extra leverage to control the angle and depth of his penetration as well as the pace of his thrusting — unleashing his primal urge to be totally in charge of the action. He gets the deepest penetration possible, top-to-bottom penis stimulation, and the excitement of sexual conquest.

(Recommended by Sadie Allison, author of Ride 'Em Cowgirl)

CHALLENGE #7: Sweet Treat

How to do it: Have your guy lie back comfortably on the bed, then spray whipped cream from his naval to his upper thighs. Begin slowly licking it off the body areas above and below his package. After each lick, kiss his mouth with your lips covered in whipped cream, then bring your mouth back below his belt. Slowly lick all the whipped cream off his body — except the cream directly covering his penis and testicles. Not until he's aching should you finally indulge there.

Why he'll love it: Your hot tongue licking the cool whipped cream around his package will create intense teasing and titillating sensations yet leave him longing for more. Each time you switch to kissing his lips, he'll be aching to feel your tongue on his groin area again. Also, kissing when he's so aroused creates a sense of intimacy that pumps his libido even higher.

(Recommended by Laura Berman, PhD, sex therapist and creator of the DVD series Dr. Berman Can Help)

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