If you are in a marriage you are not happy with then you are the one to chngae things for you.It is always comforting to find someone that you think cares for you when your partner does not show the same feelings.I would recommend some hard thinking.. if you don’t want to stay in this marriage then go to a counselor or therapist who can help you sort yourself out.Being involved in any way with your boss is NOT a good thing. Is he married as well?? Even if he is single it is better to either get out of your marriage first and then evaluate what you really want from a relationship.Energy therapy such as EFT (Emotional Freedom Techniques) is a quick and drug free therapy that can help you sort yourself out emotionally. You can find out more from these web sites below.