agencies are practicing legal baby selling. I would rather work on adoption without an agency, because money doesn't buy great parents for a baby. I would rather know that I am choosing to give my baby to who I want instead of being lied to by some agency about how wonderful adoption is. how do we know that the families in their profiles are all their cracked up to be. there have been doctors and lawyers who adopted kids and then end up killing them. I want to know my baby is safe.

upside down that is the reason that I won't deal with a agency.......I am trying to adopt and I hate the agency........you can read my posts at wanting to adopt and also www.outreachtreeservice.tvheaven.com
My husband and I are just ordanairy people who want a baby to adopt and love for life...email me sometime [email protected]

Thanks Cheryl.my husband and I have not yet adopted a baby.......we had 2 little girls that were 1 and 2 and we had them for 1 year....then out of the blue the grandparents decided they wanted them and we lost the fight........we were devastated.....so I have been praying and praying for a baby. I still have a baby crib set up in my bedroom :( I can't make myself take it down and its been a year. I know that God is going to bless us with a baby. I can't have anymore babys and my husband has never had a child of his own. Thanks for the prayers. God has his own way of doing things and his own time si I will WAIT for him.

Julia, I'm so sorry to hear that. I'm sure god will bless you with a baby. I have a ba__sinet sitting by my bed just waiting for a baby. I don't see any point in moving it because I know God will send us a baby anyday. And I believe he will do it for you too. Hang in there.

upside down,
Hi there. I live in NJ and want to do an open adoption. My husband and I are very easy going and easy to talk to. We have a 3 year old, we adopted through and open adoption. We love him unconditionally and can't wait for another. My email is [email protected] If you are interested in chatting, email me and I will send you pictures and tell you more about us. We are both 33 years old and connected with our sons birhtmom right away. We are not overly religious but we thankgod for her and we will always be there for her. We know a lot about her and she will always be a part of our son. It is very import to us to find a good match.

Julia and Cheryl, I looked at your web pages. I don't want to get anyones hopes up right now because my family does not know yet. Cheryl I think it is really cool that you are a singer. I always wanted to be a singer. Julia you are very beautiful. Both of you seem like wonderful people and I would consider either of you good candidates but I have to see what happens when I try to tell my family.

Sweety you do what you feel is the right thing......if you just want to talk you email ANYTIME...even if you decided to keep baby. Yes I am wanting to adopt, but I am also here as a friend.just someone to listen.

Actually, my future mother-in-law was able to adopt 4 boys from India on a teacher's salary. I can understand why some people refuse to go through agencies, but that's not the only case of a single mother (yes, single) adopting more than one child from India, if anyone is interested I could ask her what program they used. Because they even have playgroups for these children.

We used an agency in our first adoption and they were great to us and to the birthmothers. They told us that if at any time she changed her mind they would respect her and warned us of these sort of things. We used spence chapin in NY. We just thought if we could find one on our own, why not? The agency just introduced us really. We will probably use an agency next year if we can't find a birthmother that we match with on our own, we thought we try first.