Note: We regularly get mail on topics that we’ve covered once “… or 50 “… times, which we usually just copy into a special file. The one shaped like a trash can.

But luckily, we never empty the trash, so it’s right there when we feel the need to reiterate some basic material. Think of it as a Saturday morning remedial geometry class, but without the wooden ruler across the knuckles.

Q: I’ve been having a sexual relationship with David, whom I met about three years ago. We don’t see each other that often other than to have sex. The sex has been good! The only time we’ve even had dinner together or did other things was when we first met. I’m looking for something more meaningful in the relationship other than the occasional tryst. With that, I’m wondering if the time has come to break off whatever relationship there is. Your thoughts?

A: Sure, use the poor guy for your own physical gratification, then toss him aside like an empty Fresca can. Ha-ha, just kidding! They don’t even make Fresca any more, do they?! Our advice to you is the same as it would be to a guy. Forget about the relationship with this person; if it was going to happen, it would have already. But! While you look for something more meaningful, be sure to keep him around for the, you know, physical gratification.

Q: How can I tell if my friend is into me or not? We talk for hours to each other, then he will not talk to me for the next few days and will not answer his phone or text messages I send. Should I just let this go or is it a game he plays? He says he cares for me a lot and I am good for him, but I don’t understand this craziness!

A: He’s probably not deliberately playing head games with you. That would be so mean!

He’s just not thinking about the two of you in relationship terms. (See above.) Don’t invest too much time analyzing what’s going on in his head (you’d only be disappointed if you found out). Consider him a friend, enjoy your hours-long chats, but most definitely try to broaden your horizons. Try geometry!

Q: In response to “Who pays on a first date?” I’d like to give my two cents’ worth. I have always suggested we go Dutch. I usually tell the guy, “I would feel more comfortable if I paid for my meal” or whatever. Because I don’t want the guy to feel I am taking advantage of him and his generosity. I also don’t want to feel I “owe” him anything after the date. Call me old-fashioned, but that’s what I think.

A: If paying your way is old-fashioned, then we’d like to see your crinoline petticoat! This is always one of the more hotly debated topics. Many guys happily pay, some do it begrudgingly, others refuse because, being feminists, they believe that’s what all the women’s libbers were fighting for! You seem to have found the middle ground. Well-played.

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