I don't know which way is working, "feeling as if you have already" or "intend and believe it's coming"

I also know of "feel as you're handsome"etc. But i can do it only with expection to get women and i will check does it work or not yet.

Plus i always think "maybe i do it wrong", "what if i will make mistake and get rejected again", "when i can take action so i won't be rejected again, when is right time to take action?", "which one to messege? they all same will reject me like any other woman before"

I think about attracting women 24/7 and i can't sleep at all. You say "your not willing to change things yet. " and its complete opposite. Its the only thing i think and i want.

Then i don't know what to do.

1) Do i use working technique?

2) If i do it from place of expcting to women start to like me, then i will fail?

3) If i well it as lie to myself (because i never was liked by women), then i will fail?

4) If i have doubts (subconscious mind tell me "you will fail"), then i will fail?

5) What if i don't feel strong emotion, then i will fail?

6) When it will start to work and i can take action (messege girls online and get replies, or get outside and get smiles from them)

7) What if i remember my fails and i know i will fail again because i never was liked by women before?

8) How i can do it, by "women like me" (which sounds like violating of free will), or "i'm handsome" or what? or i need to do it by visualising? What if i feel like its not true (women like me) - then i will fail?

See, i have all these questions about attracting my desire. Its so hard to manifest.