The sex toy industry is a pretty vast one. Believe it or not, there are more materials used to create sex toys as compared to the clothing industry. So, what’s the safest substance for your body? We’ve listed them (Best to worst) down below:

Silicone

Silicone is by far, the best material you can buy. It is soft, flexible and really comfortable for both male and female sex toys. There are numerous reasons as to why we say this. First off, silicone is really easy to clean, that is why it is popular in the medical field too. The material is non-porous and won’t absorb any fluids. However, one major drawback is that these toys cost a bit more than what ordinary people are willing to spend to fulfill their humanly needs.

Elastomer

Elastomer is pretty much the downgraded version of silicone. Most of the characteristics of both materials are the same. For instance, it can also be washed easily, it’s soft but Elastomer is slight porous. It will absorb fluids to some extent and transfer bacteria. If you can’t afford the expensive silicone, then this is the second best thing.

Cyber Skin

Cyber Skin is a material that is used to imitate the soft feel of skin. This substance isn’t that safe but its still number three on our list. It is oil-based with porous material so it should not be used to induce internal pleasure. You should use a condom if doing so. It’s a bit difficult to wash because the standard soap will break down the Cyber Skin material.

Most people think that if they’re not sharing their sex toys, there is no need to clean them. Well, you’re dead wrong. Recurring use of a sex toy will cause bacteria to grow on the surface which can be harmful for your genitals. Frequently cleaning the sex toys will also protect its material and prolong the lifetime of the toy. So, if you’re new to this, we’ll teach you how to make your toys squeaky clean.

First step is to identify the material. Usually, that information is given on the box. But, if you tossed the box, you can still Google the product and check out its material. We’ll list each material and how you can clean it.

Silicone, Glass, Steel and Wood (Motorized)

The motor means that it can’t come in direct contact with water. Use soap or alcohol on a cloth to clean the toy.

Silicone, Pyrex, Steel and Stone (Not Motorized)

These toys are pretty easy to clean. You can just boil them for about 10 minutes to get rid of the bacteria. You can also toss them in the dishwasher and the steam will clean them too.

Cyber Skin

Cyber needs a little bit of soap and warm water to clean it. Too much of either will destroy the material.

Hard Plastic, Elastomer, Thermoplastic and Jelly Rubber

These materials are highly porous and there’s no definitive way to clean them. We advise using a condom if you’re sharing them with someone else or the result would be an STD.

When we refer to sex toys, we think of them as a modern day invention. However, Hallie Lieberman thinks differently. She earned her Ph. D from the University of Wisconsin by proving that sex toys are much older than we think they are. In her opinion, 30,000 years ago, our ancestors were making 8-inch penises from siltstone.

Even though they’re older than most of the inventions we use today, they’re still a subject of controversy. In the early 1900s, sex toys couldn’t be sold or advertised publicly. Even today, there are certain laws in some states of the US that don’t permit the public advertisement of these toys. That might be the reason why Hitachi doesn’t openly express what their Magic Wand is meant to do.

Till 1960s, people used to cringe at the word “dildo” and till the mid 2000s, they still did. But, there were a few movies that changed the outlook of people and what they thought about sex toys. “Sex and the City” would be a great example. Their portrayal of the Rabbit Vibrators resulted in a peak in sales. Similarly, 50 Shades of Grey also introduced people to bondage toys that they previously thought inappropriate.

Sex toys are an industry that will keep getting better and better in the years to come. There are new developments being made and new products like Oral Toys are hitting the market. We’re not in the day and age of sex robots, but it’d be an understatement to say that we’re pretty damn close.

In the earlier 2000s, when we first started seeing sex toys everywhere, people didn’t know that this industry would be sky-rocketed only 18 years from now. Just like the Porn Industry, the Sex Toy industry is continuing to grow further and expand its horizons. If you’re still doubtful about the money in this business, Susan Colvin, co-founder of AMNE said that the industry is currently around $15 Billion. Pretty unbelievable, right?

How did the Industry Take Off So Fast?

At first, the public’s perspective of these toys wasn’t exactly positive. But, Hollywood helped a lot to change the opinion of people about these toys. For instance, Sex and the City and its portrayal of the Jack Rabbits urged people to try these sex toys and they started selling like hot cakes.

Another fair example would be the modern day 50 Shades of Grey. This movie not only opened some people’s mind, it also introduced the world to bondage and the fun of it. Sex toys wouldn’t be where they are if these two movies didn’t contribute to raising the awareness about it.

So, what do we expect of the market and sex toys? We’re no experts but Colvin also stated that by 2020, the industry will be propelled to $50 Billion. We don’t know if this will be the case but, judging from how fast these toys sell out, that expectation might just be an understatement.

We might be decades away from sex robots, but we’re slowly replacing men with toys that can do the same thing much better. Vibrators and dildos were one thing, but one thing that the sex toy industry was lacking was something that can offer oral sex. But, not anymore; ORA 2 from LELO is a great alternative for oral sex. Many people argue that these oral toys don’t work, but this is one that’s bound to do the job pretty well.

Introduction to ORA 2

The ORA 2 doesn’t look anything like a sex toy. From the look of it, it seems like something women would wear as a ring. But, nonetheless it is one of the best toys ever made. The little thing is meant to mimic the feel of a tongue on your vagina. Beneath the little part which we call the tongue, there is a motor that swirls beneath the silicone. As it revolves around, it moves the silicone as well. The soft silicone feels just like the tip of the tongue and is the best thing LELO has ever made.

The ORA 2 also has the revolutionary hardware from LELO called the SenseTouch. The toy detects how hard you’re pushing the toy and it create vibrations accordingly. So, long story short, every woman needs to get this even if they don’t use sex toys. It can also be used as an addition to your pre-existing sex life.

Defining the word is a little bit difficult. So, to make this sex lesson easier, we’ll use a metaphor. Consider a pizza. The crust and the beef is the foundation of a pizza; which is the sex in this metaphor. But, to make it more exciting, we use cheese, olives, pepperoni and quite a few other things to spice it up a bit. Kink does for sex, what toppings do for a pizza. You might get sick of eating the same classical pizza, at this point you experiment with toppings. If your sex life is like the pizza; dull and boring, then a cocktail of kink might just freshen up the mood.

Kink is basically the unorthodox, unusual activities that we all are guilty of hoping for in our sex life. There are all kinds of kinky stuff you can do; the ones we can recall would be bondage, threesomes (or fours if you’re into that), humiliation and slavery. All of these “tricks” are really good to add some flavor to a lackluster sex life.

To conclude this topic, we’ll say that don’t be afraid of expressing your opinions to your partner. There’s a chance that they might also be longing for something extra. Tell them that you’re looking to notch it up a bit.

When it comes down to sex in marriage, things can tend to get a bit boring after a while. The same positions, layout, atmosphere and so on. Many married couples tend to drift apart both in and out of the bedroom because things simply got to plain or bland.

How to choose the best vibrators

This is when things can go two ways, either allow the marriage to drift apart, or get creative and start trying new an adventurous things. By introducing sex toys into a marriage, not only is it something different that can spice up the bedroom life, but it can also be a new way to connect yourself with your partner. The sex toys can be used for either him, her or both, either way it can help the two of you become closer with the other in an exciting and intimate setting. Make sure you choose the best sex toys for your needs. Trying a vibrator is usually the first step. Look at this guide to find the best vibrator for your needs. Top rated vibrators can be found here. Popular types of vibrators are the Rabbit Vibrators and Pocket Rocket vibrators. Personally, the Lelo Mona 2 is my favorite.

How to use a vibrator?

You may find that there are times when watching your partner using the sex toys, or even when you are using a sex toy on your partner, that you have an overwhelming sense of closeness. You may even feel closer and more in tune with your partner than you ever have before. You can find out more about vibrators at https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Vibrator_%28sex_toy%29.

Sex toys were designed to provide pleasure and excitement each time they are used with your partner. By using sex toys in your marriage, you may also gain a better understanding of where your relationship is headed.

The use of vibrators in a marriage

There are many types of sex toys out there for both him and her, or even both depending on the direction you find your relationship going. If you’re not fully sure about this new activity in the bedroom, starting off slow with an adult game and some smaller toys would be a good start. Try http://mashable.com/2015/02/20/history-of-vibrators for the history of vibrators.

Talking with your partner about the idea will help both of you gain an understanding of how to begin introducing something new into the bedroom. Figure out what each would be comfortable with trying, and go from there to see where it leads. Just remember, it’s supposed to be fun and pleasurable for both of you.

Not all people are comfortable purchasing sex toys, lingerie, and other racy stuff in public stores. Here are some tips to make your buying experience more comfortable:

Go drive-through

Drive through is not just for fast food restaurants. Now drugstores are also offering this service for people who are on the go. If basic sexual items such as condoms and lubricants are what you need, then just drive through and buy your items from the window. No need to go down to the store itself and risk being seen by people you know. If you don’t have a car, you can try ordering through phone then just pick up your items later on. The salesperson will already have the items in the bag and you can just get it and pay. Other shoppers won’t be able to see what you bought.

Buy through sensual product consultants

They are just like Tupperware ladies, only they don’t sell plastic kitchen containers. If you are more comfortable buying stuff in the privacy of your own home, you can just contact these consultants and have them drop by. They can bring the item that you have in mind or choose from the ones they bring with them. You can also organize a passion party and have them host it.

Buy online

All you have to do is choose the item, provide your credit card details, and then have the product delivered to your house. Online buying is safe, easy, and discreet.

Fingertip vibrators are one of the best masturbators for women. It is popular not only because of its silky, small and portable features but because of what it gives beyond women expectation. These handy vibrators have many ways of using it. It is small but terrible because it can produce an intensifying vibration. These are some ways on how to use fingertip vibrators.

Solo Masturbation. For women who love using their fingers and hands for self-pleasuring it is better to use finger vibrator. Finger vibrator will add spice to your daily sex routine. You can put the vibrator on top of your finger for the vibration of your whole fingers, or use it under your finger then start pleasuring yourself.
Couple Masturbation. More pleasure for both of you if the other partner will holds the vibrator and start pleasuring the other one. The more you experiment it to your partner the more you will have fun. There are finger vibrators that fit for couples and it is up to you on which toy you will use.

Blow Job. Make blowjobs extraordinary using finger vibrators. Put the vibrator on the shaft of the penis and let the vibrator help create sensation. The vibrator will make the penis more firm and produces lots of orgasm.
Anal Session. Putting the vibrator on your anal will make you ready for more. It is better to use if you are a first timer in anal playing. The vibrator will give your anal a different satisfaction that you want. Anal vibrator will produce intensifying vibrations that will make you ask for more.

Intercourse. You may get your desired stimulation if you use fingertip vibrators. Fingertip vibrators will add spice to your sex session. Your hand is busy touching your partner’s flesh the other one will use the vibe for an additional stimulation.

Cunnilingus. Finger vibrators may be substitute of your tongue on pleasuring your vagina. The finger vibe gives exact satisfaction as what your tongue gives. On the other hand, you may also combine your finger vibrator with your tongue for more pleasure.

The finger vibrators will be an addition to penetration. It is not just for women but also for men. The penetration that it gives will add excitement to you and to your partner. There are different kinds of fingertip vibrators. There are varieties of colors, sizes and details. It is important if you know what kind of vibe you want to use and what kind will give you comfort.