Turning Down Old Clothes

Question

Every fall, my friend gives me a ton of her kids' old hand-me-down clothes, but I never use any of them. How do I let her know I'm all set?

Answer

Aim to catch your pal before her annual drop-off, and just be frank.

P.S. Try, "Sarah, you've always been so generous, but my kids have everything they need right now, so we're going to pass on taking the hand-me-downs this year. But thanks for thinking of us!" You could also share your recommendations of a few local shelters or foster homes, or of charities like the Salvation Army and Goodwill that would happily accept her kids' old things. Whatever you decide to say to your friend, remember to be gracious  her intentions are good.

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