Some people were surprised. Others felt disappointed in their own sex lives. Some, like Sasha Brown-Worsham, were both.

Along with voyeuristic, I find conversations like this both enlightening & infuriating. On one hand, it might be nice for people to feel “normal” ~ but on the other hand, “normal” is relative. And is quantity as important as quality? People who venture into these conversations often do so because they are feeling less than satisfied. But even if they weren’t when they started reading, they become so once they feel they are having less sex than the Joneses.

Of course, you could always take the honest route and document your sex life. That way, you have real numbers. And you might as well add a column for “satisfied” or “dissatisfied” ~ or some sort of rating scale that suits you. Once you have your data, if you are still feeling dissatisfied (with either the quality or quantity) of your sex life, then it’s time to make a change.