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Astoria Characters: The Soccer Star

The first time New York Cosmos defender Jonathan Borrajo kicked a soccer ball, it was down the hall of his apartment.

Photo by Nancy A. RuhlingJonathan plays for the New York Cosmos.

“I was 2,” he says, smiling at the memory. “My father
told me, ‘Don’t let the ball hit the walls.’ That’s how I learned precision.”

The connection went from his foot straight to his
heart, where it has remained for the last 29 years.

“Soccer’s in my blood,” he says. “My father, who is from Spain, loves soccer – he even got a college scholarship for it. I became addicted immediately, and I played it in the streets and the backyard all the time.”

Photo by Nancy A. RuhlingHe kicked his first soccer ball when he was 2.

Indeed, Jonathan was such a quick study that by the
time he was 4, the family had moved from Western New York to Clifton, New
Jersey, so he could hone his skills.

“Clifton’s known as a soccer town, mostly because of
its high school program,” Jonathan says. “It has famous coaches and has
produced famous players.”

For those keeping score, Jonathan made rapid advances
in the sport.

At 5, he had graduated from recreational soccer and
received special permission to play on a traveling team comprised of
7-year-olds.

Photo by Nancy A. RuhlingHe turned pro while in college.

At 13, he had advanced to a national team and was considered one of the top 20 players in America.

“I’ve been the captain of almost all of the teams I’ve
been on,” he says, quickly adding that it’s been a humbling experience.
“There’s a saying in soccer that you should care more about the name on the
front of your shirt, the team’s, than the one on the back, your own.”

At 15, coaches and colleges were courting him.

Photo by Nancy A. RuhlingHe’s been playing for 29 years.

“I was getting a ton of mail from recruiters,” he
says. “I got offered a lot of full scholarships.”

He played soccer all through his years at George Mason
University, where he earned a bachelor’s degree in accounting with a minor in
economics.

Jonathan began his professional career while in
college: He signed with the Real Maryland Monarchs.

Photo by Nancy A. RuhlingHe also coaches and teaches soccer.

“I was a player by day and a student by night,” he says.

He then went on to play for Norway’s HamKam, the New York Red Bulls, Norway’s Mjøndalen IF, the San Antonio Scorpions, the Fort Lauderdale Strikers and the Miami FC. Since 2018, he’s been with the New York Cosmos.

When Jonathan’s not on the field, he’s coaching other players at the New York Cosmos’ U.S. Soccer Development Academy.

“When it comes to soccer, there’s a void in the fitness market,” he says. “SoccerShape bridges the gap.”

The last year has been one of great change for
Jonathan. In addition to signing with the Cosmos and moving to Astoria, he wed
his longtime girlfriend, Stephanie, who is an elementary-school teacher in
Chelsea.

Photo by Nancy A. RuhlingHe can’t imagine a life without soccer.

Jonathan’s a pro at soccer, but he’s the first to
admit that he’s an amateur when it comes to marriage proposals.

He decided to pop the question on July 17, 2017 – there was no particular reason for that date, but he realized later that there was significance because he and Stephanie met, through mutual friends, on July 17, 2008.

Stephanie was in Paris visiting a friend, so Jonathan
enlisted her as his accomplice. After a game in San Francisco, he got on a
plane and took a taxi to a traffic circle by the Eiffel Tower, a grassy spot he
chose because it’s a more private section of the street.

The ring had
been in his backpack, but he took it out during the drive.

As soon as the taxi pulled away, Jonathan realized the ring was still on the seat.

“I had no way to identify the driver,” he says. “I had
paid cash. I started running in the roundabout with my suitcase and stopping
cars; people were looking at me like I was insane. I got half way around the circle
and I thought, ‘I blew it’ and started walking back.”

Photo by Nancy A. RuhlingAsk Jonathan to tell you how he proposed to his wife.

As the minutes ticked by, he weighed his options over
and over again: Should he return home and never let Stephanie know he ruined
his romantic surprise? Should he meet her and tell her the truth? Should he go
back to the drop-off spot in the hopes the cabbie came back?

Then, just like a too-good-to-be-true plot twist in a rom-com, the taxi driver returned and handed him the ring.

“I opened the front car door and hugged him,” Jonathan says. “I told him to drive me to an ATM and I would give him any amount of money he wanted as a reward, but he drove off, saying he was happy to do it for love. Fortunately, Stephanie is known for being notoriously late, so I had an hour to calm down before she arrived.”

Photo by Nancy A. RuhlingTaking a short break.

Stephanie was surprised to see Jonathan and even more
surprised when he got down on his knee and proposed, a moment that was captured
by a photographer he hired to record the event.

The wedding was Jan. 19, 2019, and “the first thing I did after the ceremony was sign up for insurance for the ring,” he says.

At 31, he’s the fittest he’s ever been; he can’t imagine
a life that doesn’t include time on the field, but he knows he can’t play
forever.

“Soccer is the most beautiful thing in the world,” he
says. “I see myself as a soccer player and businessman and a good son and now a
good husband. I want to be an example to the kids I coach – it’s the most
beautiful thing I can do.”