JERRY WOLKOFF BLOG-IN LOVING MEMORY OF MY SON STEVEN NATHANIEL WOLKOFF, MY FATHER SAMUEL WOLKOFF, AND ALL THE OTHER VICTIMS OF INJUSTICE, EVIL IN THIS WORLD.THEY DIMINISH YOUR RIGHTS,THEN THEY DIMINISH YOUR EXISTENCE, THEN THEY LIE ABOUT IT, SAY YOU NEVER EXISTED, AND THE PROBLEM IS PEOPLE FORGET THE SUFFERING THAT LASTS FOREVER, NEVER KNOW THE TRUTH BY WHOSE HANDS, OR HOW YOU WERE KILLED.

Saturday, November 15, 2014

Rehtaeh Parsons's is her name!..we will never forget you and your name will not be buried or silent. She was a human being who lived.

REHTAEH PARSONS-17 YEARS OLD-BORN DECEMBER 9th, 1995 AND TRAGICALLY DIED ON APRIL 7th, 2013

REST IN PEACE REHTAEH PARSONS

The name Rehtaeh Parsons has been synonymous
with cyber bullying and sexual exploitation ever since the Canadian
teenager killed herself in April 2013. Rehtaeh suffered
through 17 months of severe harassment after a photo of her being
sexually assaulted while vomiting and half naked circulated around her
school in 2011, when she was only 15 years old. I previously wrote a blog story about Rehateh's case -For more complete information-CLICK HERE.The now 20-year-old from Eastern Passage who took the photos pleaded guilty in September to
making child pornography involving a teenage girl. The trial of this young man who took these photos of her being gang raped, was held this week on November 13, 2014. Once again Rehateh Parsons and her family were victimized by a blind, cruel, dysfunctional legal system. Once again this is Canada's
SHAME.

As for the trial, the Judge acting as the ringmaster of this circus of injustice sentenced this young man to a one-year conditional discharge. When the now-20-year-old man who took the photo of his
friend penetrating Rehtaeh from behind while giving a thumbs-up sign
pled guilty to one count of manufacturing child pornography, no Canadian
media outlet was allowed to refer to Rehtaeh by name.The media ban is due to a Canadian law
that requires judges to prohibit the publication of information that
could identify victims of child pornography under any and all
circumstances.
Nor could they
name her parents, who have been actively fighting for justice since her
death, or provide any background details about the notorious case. Rehtaeh’s mother, Leah Parsons, said that, in life, her
daughter wanted her name to be shouted as loud as possible.“She’s being silenced for the second time,” Leah said. “What happened
to Rehtaeh matters, and it’s not right to silence her". This law is a perfect example of how criminals and their Lawyers are allowed to manipulate the Court system to erase, dehumanize victims, while hiding behind the words of legal language that end up protecting the evil.In treating Rehateh Parsons , the victim as a non person, referring to her as "the girl who was allegedly raped" she becomes non existent, her life dismissed as if she never lived.In treating the accused boys by referring to them as "the young men" they are allowed to avoid the accountability for their actions. They are not men, but are beasts, who certainly have no remorse for what they did to Rehateh.These "young men" have never been identified by the mainstream media and have been taught by the Canadian law enforcement agencies, the Court system that they can do as they please to torture another human being, with no fear of punishment for what they have done.Rehtaeh Parsons's is her name!..we will never forget you and your name will not be buried or silent. She was a human being who lived.I
felt compelled to write my Blog today about Rehateh and the attempts by
those in Authority to erase her name and her life. I also feel
compelled to reblog you the names of the accused (identified by the
group "ANONYMOUS"), "young men" who tortured Rehateh and have hidden
behind the law to avoid being known for their evil.The information below has been REBLOGGED (CLICK HERE) from "Obscene Works Website" which posted the names and information of the accused ON NOVEMBER 14th, 2014.

Please note: While my blog
publishes outside Canadian jurisdiction, I have avoided any direct or inadvertent violation of sections
110(1) and 111(1) of the Canadian Youth Criminal Justice Act
(YCJA) and other pertinent statutes, by simply reblogging the following information as it is writtendirectly on the website "Obscene Works".

Since I am unaware of the true
identities of any individuals involved in any secret proceedings, I can
neither confirm nor deny the accuracy of their written information post and merely reblogging this information as is stated by them.

If you have evidence that the "Obscene Works" post does indeed breach the provisions of the YCJA, please contact them directly at obsceneworks@gmail.com so that they may alter or delete their post as required to ensure compliance with relevant statutes.

A “high profile” child pornography suspect was just granted a
“conditional discharge” by the courts, according numerous vague reports
in the Canadian media.Because of the quaint opaqueness of Canadian law,
neither the victim nor the accused have been named.

Anonymous, however, seems to have an agenda outside the bonds which
bind the mainstream Canadian press.Members of this stand-alone complex
have been investigating the case ever since Warren Kinsella demanded their assistance in April of 2013.The results of their research have now been posted to the text-sharing site Pastebin.Specifically, in addition to identifying Rehtaeh Parsons as the
victim of a heinous assault, they name one Cole Shippien as the
photographer. Also accused of sexual assault are Kyle Brimicombe, Cody
Allen Gosbee and Cole’s younger brother Hunter Shippien. In addition,
the document lists several other suspects who were ruled out over the
course of the investigation, along with further “dox” information and
evidence.

Of course, the probative value of information gleaned from anonymous
sources is almost always zero. All reporting on the court case recently
concluded has been so heavily redacted that we can’t know if it’s even
related to Parsons’ tragedy at all. That said, however, given the
current push towards an open dialog surrounding sexual assault in
Canada, and whereas Rehtaeh is dead and unable to seek recompense at her
own behest, and whereas even her own parents are barred from publishing
her name, by a law ostensibly enacted in her honour, our moral duty to
act as her voice overrides our possible proscribed duty under statute to
shut the fuck up and not talk about it.Are these boys actually guilty? Are they even related to the
proceedings that just concluded? We have no idea. Perhaps journalists in
Canada should stop hiding behind the law, and ask them."

“We speak for the dead,

to protect the living.”(End of Reblog from Obscene Works Website)

Filed with the Court were victim impact statements by the parents of Rehateh Parsons. Even their daughters name has been redacted by the Court from their heartfelt statements and Rehateh is referred to as "the girl".This disgusting vulgar and cruel dehumanization by the Canadian courts in removing Rehatehs name by redacting her humanity in calling her "the girl", even in these victim impact statements written by her loving parents, is the ultimate mockery of any legal, moral, ethical pretense of justice served by the law.VICTIM IMPACT STATEMENTS: Read the victim's parents' wordsTRENDING: The hashtag #youknowhername Judge Gregory Lenehan also ordered the young man to provide a sample of his DNA for a national data bank.Prosecutor Alex Smith told the judge his sentencing options were a
conditional discharge, which was favoured by the defence, or a period of
probation.Lenehan, in his decision, said the young man “should never forget the
promising, vibrant young life that was eventually destroyed by his
choice to record an act of sexual degradation.”“In a few seconds, (you) set in motion a series of events that led to a
great deal of shame, humiliation, anger, despair, anguish, loss, hurt
and destruction for (the girl), for her family, for you, for your
family, for the entire community.”The judge said the young man should have intervened to protect the girl
rather than snap the photo for his friend, who was smiling and giving
the thumbs-up sign while he penetrated the girl from behind.“The act depicted in that photo that you took is vile,” Lenehan said. “It is degrading. It is dehumanizing.“There no measures, no sanctions, no conditions that this court could
impose that could come close to restoring the (girl’s) dignity, nothing
that I can do to compensate for her tragic loss of life.”The man chose not to address the court before he was sentenced. Defence
lawyer Ian Hutchison, in his submission, said his client has battled
mental health issues since the incident and is remorseful for his
actions.“I do accept that (the accused) is genuinely remorseful for what he did,” the judge said.“I’m also convinced that he is quite sickened by the realization that
his decision eventually led (the girl) to fall into a deep, dark hole of
despair from which she could not extricate herself.“His actions led to a series of events that eventually drained her of her very essence.”Before the sentence was delivered, the girl’s parents gave victim
impact statements saying she was destroyed after the sexually explicit
picture was taken and distributed.“I can honestly say I lost my child that night,” the girl’s mother told
the court. “That photo ruined her life. She was never the same again.
We saw glimpses of (her) from time to time, but the impact and trauma
that followed for her was enormous.“The following 17 months were a struggle. (She) struggled to live.”Her father said his daughter sank into a depression.“I had to watch my promising, intelligent, full-of-life child turn into
an empty ghost — her dreams turn to ashes, her laughter turn to anger
and cries,” he said through tears.“This is not the way this had to end.”The judge ordered the offender to write a letter of apology to be given
to the girl’s parents by his sentence supervisor.Otherwise, he is to
have no contact with them or the friend depicted in the photo, a
19-year-old Eastern Passage man scheduled to stand trial later this
month on two charges of distributing child pornography.“There is no sentence that would be good enough or strong enough to
ever reflect what this did to my daughter,” the father said. “There just
won’t be.The father said he wished the young man would have apologized to them in court rather than be commanded to do it in writing.“He should have said it right there. It would have meant a lot to us.”VICTIM IMPACT STATEMENTSMother:"I sat in the courtroom on Sept. 22 and heard the words that the accused
wished to change his plea to guilty. Then came the description of the
photo that was circulated and what was occurring in that photo. Suddenly
before my eyes flashed my daughter as a baby, as a little girl and
finally the image of my daughter one evening curled in a ball on my
kitchen floor in a fetal position, rocking, crying and saying her life
is ruined.Then out came all the events that she could recall of that
evening back on Nov. 12, 2011. I recall vividly holding the door frame
to my kitchen to steady myself as I could not believe what I was
hearing.I can honestly say I lost my child that night. That photo ruined her
life. She was never the same again. We saw glimpses of (her) from time
to time, but the impact and trauma that followed for her was enormous.
So too was the impact emotionally for me and for her family. The
following 17 months were a struggle. (She) struggled to live.You may say how can a photo contribute to the death? Often, I hear,
“Well, she must have had other major issues before this photo was taken
and circulated.” No, she never had mental health issues before this
happened to her. She was looking forward to her years in high school
because she loved to learn and was a straight A student. She wrote about
her excitement in her first month of high school. If (she) was the
definition of a “troubled teen,” then every teen I ever met is a
troubled teen.(She) was at an age where she was feeling out who she was going to be
in this life. She was building the foundation of who she was to become.
That foundation and exploration was taken from her. She started to
crumble. It was like a wrecking ball hit her, leaving pieces of bricks
and mortar in its place. I know deep in my heart (she) had so much to
contribute to this world and now that will never happen.I can’t help but hear the words of her little sister after (she) died.
“Mommy, why would someone want to hurt (her).” How do I explain this to
her sisters? She says, “Mommy, don’t the people that hurt her know that
we love her?” I asked myself the very same questions why?When a family member suffers a trauma, so too does the entire family.
My relationship with (her) also changed as she began to self-medicate,
steal money and act rebellious. She acted completely different and her
soft sensitive demeanour began to (submerge) into a protective shell.
She became a troubled teen. I was unable to work and found my time and
energy going into trying to find help for (her). Assessment after
assessment determined I was not able to work.Some may think I want the people involved and the guilty party to go to
jail and be punished severely. Truth is, I don’t want that for him at
all. I don’t feel jail time would serve anyone in this situation. My
wish is that the accused actually felt remorse, that the accused does
see the wrongdoing in this situation, not because he was caught and held
accountable but because he actually FELT accountable.I wish that he make a life for himself where other females he
encountered are treated with respect and dignity. That he somehow learns
to value females and that he does so in memory of my daughter. To me,
that is the only way to move forward in a healing manner. What I do know
is that I have to forgive him. I know this to be true".Father:"It would be impossible for me to sum up the impact this crime has had
on my life and the life of my daughter. My life has been forever changed
and her life ended. Every day, I wake up with the realization that
she’s gone. I will never hear her voice again. She will never call me,
spend the day with me or watch a movie that we both looked forward to
seeing together. I won’t see her graduate from university. (She) was my
only child. I will never walk with my daughter down an aisle at her
wedding. I will never be a grandfather and enjoy the laughter of a
grandchild.I had to watch my promising intelligent, full-of-life child turn into
an empty ghost, her dreams turn to ashes, her laughter turn to anger
and cries. This is not the way it had to end.I fight every day not to turn into a dark, empty shell. I’m not able to
work. The hobbies I had that were important to me are all long
forgotten and sit on shelves in the basement. I suffer from depression
and anxiety. I often fear being alone.It’s hard knowing that (my daughter), being the person she was, would have forgiven you if you’d only said you were sorry".After the judge gave the now-20-year-old a conditional discharge in the
case, the hashtag soon began to trend across the country. It was a
protest against what many see as further silencing the victim and her
memory. Some Twitter users used the victim's name along with the #youknowhername tag.To all those media entities, your lack of courage in not publishing Rehateh parson's name is despicably cowardly. You are all guilty of being part of the victimization of a dead child. Shame on YOU!If I were to remain silent, I'd be guilty of complicity. -Albert Einstein.

Wednesday, November 5, 2014

What if we answered questions with "I don't know, but here's what
I think?"Instead, most of us anoint ourselves as mavens, experts in everything and masters of nothing.We create illusions, walls of mirrors to hide behind and explain away whatever it is that confronts us, confounds, confuses, frightens, victimizes the world as we see it. The best answer is I don't know: It allows for
invisibility, empty space and unknowing.It allows for an eternal
perspective.It allows for accepting that the visible has a meaning in
the invisible.

It allows for the peaceful "mañanaway of life" to thrive in yourself.INVISIBLE:Gravity; Consciousness; Future/Past; Memories; Atoms; Light;
Electricity; All But 5 Galaxies; Radio Waves; All We Don't Know; The
Point Of This; The Point Of That; The Point Of Anything.

"We are all here on earth to help others; what on earth the others are here for I don't know."

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