Guys how often do you have sexual thoughts or fantasy about girls?

Every day? Does it involve all girls you find attractive? Does it wane the older you get? (obviously a teenage guy is gonna have constant thoughts due to increased hormone level versus a 30 year old man) so... Thoughts? Insight?

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When I was younger, up to about 18, I would fantasize about actual women/girls I knew. I'm not exactly sure why, but that actually changed to a more generic fantasy (of what I wanted to do, see, and have done to me, etc) where the girl was just..."the girl in the fantasy."I found it disrespectful to fantasize about people I knew, and pointless to fantasize about people I didn't know, because I wouldn't know how they'd act.I do still fantasize about fictional characters (books, movies, etc) though. Not real, so I don't feel like I'm disrespecting an actual person, and you can incorporate how they'd act based on what you know about them as characters.

As for how often? Look, even if I go a month without touching myself, I'm still thinking about sex every 5 minutes.

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I have sexual and naughty thoughts about women I see all the time. My weak point is women wearing thight jeans and tight black faux leather pants. A woman's legs and ass in both those pants never fails to get me horny, aroused and so sexually excited there is not the words to describe how much get gets me in the mood. I start having such strong sexual fantasies of how I want the woman to sexually pleasure me using her sexy legs and ass while wearing her tight jeans or tight black faux leather pants. I end up keeping a mental picture of what her legs and ass look like in her tight jeans and tight black faux leather pants and then when I get home at night in bed that mental picture comes flood back, the exteemly strong fantasies about the woman sexually pleasuring me using her legs and ass in those pants and me sexually pleasuring her are so strong I have to masterbate to releave my sexual engery. Usually I have to masturbate a few times. Even just typing this is making me a bit horny. Sorry if that was too much info though.

I don't have any sort of vivid fantasies about a woman until I've been with her. What's the point? If you're right, you've essentially spoiled unwrapping a present for yourself. If you're wrong, you'll just be disappointed.

It happens with most new women that I meet, even those I don't find so attractive, and I think I do that just to get an impression of what it would be like with them. Sometimes I can find a girl pretty hot physically, but having sexual thoughts about her turns out to be uninspiring. The opposite can happen too.

And then I of course keep a few select favourites for when I can't sleep at night!

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So if a pretty girl is showing interest, do your thoughts turn while in conversation or later?

well geez all the freaking time. most of the day really. i live in an apartment building with a bunch of hot girls, and my school is right next to this gym so there's always a ton of girls in booty shorts and yoga pants, and im always like, Ben, no, keep control of yourself. you dont even know her name and it would be super weird if you just mounted her and took her right her and now so u keep ur thoughts to urself buddy

and yeah i guess i could have sexual thoughts about every girl i find attractive. i prefer bi girls cause im greedy when it comes to booty but when im in love with one its like, well i dont even fucking want those other girls if i can't have her.

If there's exposure than its much more often at least for meThe moment I see a pretty girl in real life my mind shifts to sexual thoughts. Without visual stimulus it happens much less I think.If it's every week it's too far in between it stir it up that much I think

Well... My 'friend' is about mid thirties. We talk a lot. The last time, he was definitely blushing at one point and the conversation was not sexual at all... Which is why I was wondering. Other than that, I'd prob have no clue.