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New Zealand - Woman, 36, bears child of 11-year-old boy

An 11-year-old boy fathered a child after sex with a school friend's 36-year-old mother.
Both the father and child are now understood to be in care after the principal at the boy's school raised the alarm.
The case has caused counsellors working in the area of child sexual abuse to highlight the lack of attention given to women as potential offenders.

It was definitely rape. It is very bothersome that when a young boy is raped by an older woman, people start talking about how lucky he was. Because of course, all heterosexual men want sex at anytime at any age by any women (/sarcasm). I feel like that thinking also leads to victim-blaming too when it comes to female victims. Like, guys always want sex so if he sees you wearing a skirt, he can't control himself. blah blah

Last year I found a website full of hundreds of female offenders - it was truly shocking how many there are. I can't find the link at present, so all this IIRC for now:

- A small percentage of the female sex offenders were predatory pedophiles, who molested young children of both sexes, with a few of them being sadistic and psychotic on top of it. Most were involved with child porn in some way.

- A very few targetted girls. Most of those offenders worked in high schools and developed obsessive same-sex relationships with high school aged girls. A few of these fit into the 'true pedophile' category and were obviously habitually predatory.

- A very few were cases of incest.

- The vast majority offended against teenaged boys of high school age, between 13 and 17, and a great many of those women had held positions such as teachers, tutors and counsellors, with a few being friends of the victim's family, or the victim was a friend of the offender's own kids. I think there were a couple of cases in which the offender got pregnant.

- A good many had prior offenses.

Female child molesters and pedophiles are wayyyy more common than I ever believed. It shocked me to see how many there were, just in the US.

It needs to be taken more seriously, for sure.

As for the monster who made an 11 yo a father? Life in prison, no parole is what I'd like to see - she deserves the same loathing and condemnation as any other pedophile.

That poor boy... how confused and scared he must be. I hope he's somewhere safe and nurturing, and his little baby son too.