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The internet is a place where you are free to do whatever you choose without restriction or monitoring. But the freedom you have may come at a cost. Here are some tips to stay protected while still having fun online.

Use common sense

Avoid acting differently online than you would in person because there is still a risk to your safety. Don't talk to strangers and don't give out personal information.

Online footprints

Remember that the things you say or the photos/videos you post will never disappear (even if you try to delete them) so don't disclose anything you wouldn't want someone else to share. Once it is out there you can't take it back.

Respect

Just because you are online, don't forget that words can hurt. Bullying someone online is called "cyber-bullying," and is a serious offense in some states.

Privacy settings

Try and limit how much of your profile strangers can see, and block anyone who sends you mean or inappropriate messages.

Don't share your passwords

Never give anyone your password, no matter how close you are. A friend or significant other may not always be there, but they will take your password information with them when they go.

Never meet in person with someone you met online

This can be an extremely dangerous situation. People have the ability to lie about who they are on the internet (like the MTV show Catfish), so protecting yourself is vital. Liken this situation to getting into a car with a total stranger, and think about why that is not a good idea. Now understand that meeting someone you "met" on the internet is just as dangerous because you don't actually know who you will be meeting.

Balance online life and social life

Spending quality time with others is more satisfying than spending time behind a computer. So go out and experience the real world and make meaningful connections with your family and peers!