RESPECT

I hope the read whop wrote me won’t mind but this something that needs to be said. I saw on Facebook that Caitin Jenner is going to pose nude with her Medals from Olympics gone past. Now I believe in the right for someone to pose naked. But at the same time there has to be said something about respecting yourself. Who you use your naked body to make money…..its porn……

“An incident transpired when Muhammad Ali’s daughters arrived at his home wearing clothes that were quite revealing.
Here is the story as told by one of his daughters:
“When we finally arrived, the chauffeur escorted my younger sister, Laila, and me up to my father’s suite. As usual, he was hiding behind the door waiting to scare us. We exchanged many hugs and kisses as we could possibly give in one day.
My father took a good look at us. Then he sat me down on his lap and said something that I will never forget. He looked me straight in the eyes and said, “Hana, everything that God made valuable in the world is covered and hard to get to.
Where do you find diamonds? Deep down in the ground, covered and protected.
Where do you find pearls? Deep down at the bottom of the ocean, covered up and protected in a beautiful shell.
Where do you find gold? Way down in the mine, covered over with layers and layers of rock. You’ve got to work hard to get to them.”
He looked at me with serious eyes. “Your body is sacred. You’re far more precious than diamonds and pearls, and you should be covered too.”

From the book: More Than A Hero: Muhammad Ali’s Life Lessons Through His Daughter’s Eyes.

SO…….

I have this person who has been making offers….Now just because I am Trans does not mean I am going to drop one of my core values. I will never use my body to secure a relationship nor will I use my body to save one. So after being shocked at the offer I wrote back to the person…..

First I would like to say Thank you for being so kind and nice. Though when it comes to “Being” with someone. I think I am a bit old fashioned I want the courtship, I want to be treated like the Diamond I am. While I understand that there are a lot of Transwomen out there who don’t think they are worth that level of happiness. So they take the short cut to have someone accept them instead of respecting them. I am not built that way, I know my worth as a person. I know what the feeling of true love is and i demand that with the person who wants to share the children and my future.

Expanding……

This might come as a shock to many people but sexual attraction does not come with Gender. It does however come with who you are at birth and your hormones can play a part in it. In short if you are attracted to women before HRT there is a VERY strong chance that these feelings will remain during HRT and after SRS (sexual reassignment surgery). Though also to note that there is a notable chance of 30%(apx) that you will have a change in this area due to HRT. Meaning you could become Bisexual, Asexual, Homosexual, Heterosexual or even Pansexual. Now what does this mean to the average person Jack. Because these classes walk around us all the time and we would never know. So here I am right now the Hormones have made me a bit asexual (not attracted to anyone). I don’t really know why this is. I see women and 99.99% nothing happens, I see men and 99.99% of the time nothing happens. Though in my mind I am thinking wow she is pretty and he is hansom but it does not mean I want to have sexual relations. Funny thing though with Hormones this can change from one day to the next. But even that is not a sure bet.

Though at no time does this change my core values or my personal beliefs. Thank you for putting up with my ideas.