Don't say you are 'All One.' That is an incredibly powerful statement. And as we go into this step by step we can see your confusion. So is the fact your confusion, or your idea of being All One? If you are All One, you would have no questions to the contrary. You would not ask a thing. So please, let's not cover up the fact of your confusion with your idea of wholeness.
We begin with what we have. There is no shame in being confused.