New to oral on my wife
oral sex

hello. I have a fantastic yet ultraconservative wife who has just recently let me giver a go on the oral department. This actually has been a great thing for us. I have noticed however that it does take a little while to get her going good. I am not sure if it is appropriate to ask for some "how to" pointers but I figured would give it a go. Right now one of the things I have learned is to load her up with an cherry flavored lube and suck her sweet spot gently inside my lips. I then use my tongue to go gently back and forth across it. I have also found that fingering her while doing this tends to get the best results. Any other ideas? We are both a fan if its not already apparent of more gentle sex.

hello. I have a fantastic yet ultraconservative wife who has just recently let me giver a go on the oral department. This actually has been a great thing for us. I have noticed however that it does take a little while to get her going good. I am not sure if it is appropriate to ask for some "how to" pointers but I figured would give it a go. Right now one of the things I have learned is to load her up with an cherry flavored lube and suck her sweet spot gently inside my lips. I then use my tongue to go gently back and forth across it. I have also found that fingering her while doing this tends to get the best results. Any other ideas? We are both a fan if its not already apparent of more gentle sex.

Oral is often called foreplay, but it qualifies as "real" sex and it can benefit from foreplay of its own--romance, kissing, caressing, paying attention to her whole body, and anything else yall enjoy will help get her going before you settle in to get her going even more. And even while you're giving her oral, don't forget about the rest of her too. Your hands on her hips, thighs, waist, and maybe reaching up to her breasts can add to the whole experience. Also, don't worry about the "best results" as you put it. Give it time, give her pleasure along the way, and don't be too goal oriented.

That is all very helpfull. Thanks. I guess my only other question is what positions would anyone recommend. Right now this is all happening with us laying down. Bottom line is my neck gets sore! We enjoy the intimacy together so any ideas of how to savor that without getting cramped up would be appreciated.

Well, first and foremost, congratulations on being able to give your wife oral. I know what it's like to have a woman who doesn't want to have it done to her...at least not right away. As for tips on what to do to get her really excited, ask her what she likes. Have her walk you through giving her oral sex. There is no shame in this at all. Either have a conversation with her about it (maybe some verbal foreplay), and ask her what she wants you to do to her. If you think you can't do this, then just try different things while you are giving her head. Find what works the best, and go from there. Good luck, and happy eating.

I don't know if you're going straight to the oral part or not, if you are, it maybe better to start somewhere else to get her in the mood, then work your way down, it seems to work well, when you do get down there, stick your tongue in, work up and down on the slit, and definitely work on the clit, this can really get them hot, when you are doing this ask her if it(what you're doing then) feels good,