I think you're doing great, my mum smoked when Pg with all 4 of us and we all turned out fine no problems at all.
I have never smoked myself, can't stand the smell but I think It's great that you've cut down so much and to quit would be fantastic but life is never that simple so try not to be too hard on yourself.
And it doesn't make you a bad mum just look at all those junkies out there that don't give a sh!t about their babies, you are no way in their league so think positive.

Just waiting for it to reach 9 lol Going to try & get an appointment today with one I think - Later today anyway. Its expensive & the ones I liked the look of are not too close which is such a pain not being able to drive - it was hard to find some actual websites for near me.

i cut down to 10 a day with rhys and he turned out fine! he didnt have any 'withdrawel symptoms' etc. i think you have to stick with what you are comfortable with. cutting down from 40 to 10 is exellent!!

Should anything go wrong it could be down to anything but I've wanted to stop for so long anyway. I seem to be going off coffee I just wished it was the ciggys an tbh I don't think its really wanting one its habit.

Thats not I understood on my the MW part of my nurse training!! I have seen the placenta of a mother who smoked 15 fags all the way through their pregnancy, It was tiny, and all shrivelled up at the edges and was a horrid colour.