So I'm attending a new college third semester, in my class there's this girl who is really pretty and she's arrogant, she just sends those vibes, and she's kind of a b*tch to be honest. Weird thing though, I have never approached her or anything, but she came the other day, before class, when I was with a friend talking, asked me few question that a student would ask a new student in college, she never stopped looking at her cellphone, basically she doesn't make eye contact in conversation, and she kinda joins the conversation, doesn't talk much, uses the cellphone as a shield or something I don't know. She has done this a couple of times, and then after a few minutes she just leaves, like she doesn't know what to say, or gets bored and just leaves lol. And she might make some eye contact on class, without smiling or anything, just a poker face, kinda like a mad face too lol. Now, I ain't gonna lie, I'd like to meet this girl.

Have any of you guys met chicks like this before?

Tank

10-13-2014, 12:49 PM

Yeah, all the time. Why do you assume she's a bitch?

JuanDa

10-13-2014, 01:03 PM

Well I assume she's kinda bitchy because for example, the other day we had to do classwork in groups, we had to memorize something in groups, and one of my friends was in her group, which where like 7 people, and I saw that she sat giving everyone in the group her back, except for one dude, and my friend told me that he was in this group with this chick and she just did the work with her partner, and didn't care for the rest of the guys in the group. All of us worked in the groups we had. And based on other things, she's just kinda rude at times. Like talking to you but looking at her cellphone. She barely talks to anyone too, kinda anti social but because of arrogance, I don't even know if I like her as a person tbh, but since she has approached and stuff, I figured it was worth to give it a try, since she's cute. you know what I'm saying?

I'm just talking based on what I've seen so far, Hell, she might be the most kind person ever lol, idk.

Tank

10-13-2014, 01:51 PM

When you label women as bitches, or even worse, sluts, you're putting a lot of limitations on yourself. Maybe she actually IS weird but possibly it's just a shield she puts up because she's shy, tired of getting approached by chumps, just not that socially savvy or she might go through a rough patch and not feeling that sociable. It's not really your business, all you need to care about is whether you feel attracted to her. If you do, go meet her.

You'll apparently be spending at least the next 5 months in class with her, remember to treat the situation accordingly. I found some miscellaneous threads that should get you started: