Anal sex - what women like/dislike

There is a wide range of people who practice anal sex. The reasons why people like to practice anal sex vary greatly. Some men and women say that anal sex enables them to reach orgasm, with or without simultaneous stimulation of their genitals (penis or clitoris). Generally, for women, pleasure is derived through anal intercourse due to the shared nerve endings that are located between the rectal wall and the vagina, and/or from indirect stimulation of the G-spot. The anus contains many nerves as well, which can also react in a pleasurable manner when excited.

Anal sex (stimulation from a finger, a toy, or the full Monty) is still a taboo subject for many people (and illegal is some states). Why some men like anal sex so much? Well, the main reason and most probably the main factor that stimulates men to practice anal sex is that this section is much more forbidden and not so popular among heterosexuals as vaginal sex. But there is a different question with women side and female have much more likes and dislikes about anal sex. So what do women hate about anal sex and what do they love in it?

Actually anal sex can be even very pleasurable for women due to some biological factors – the rectum shares a membrane with the vagina, and the sexual nerves are closer on that side, which makes the sensation unique, stronger and probably more orgasmic.

Many women still think that anal sex is a taboo and it’s just a thing you can see only in porn flicks. But nowadays when teenage girls become pregnant very often, when group sex is becoming more popular among everyone it’s quite evident that anything ends in the bedroom.

There is a saying that women try anal sex twice in their life: first time – to see how it is, and second time – to check if it was really that bad.

So here are some things that women dislike, even hate about anal sex:

1. During anal sex, female virtually hand their sexual power over to their partners. So men have the ability to prevent woman’s orgasm. Penetration usually occurs from behind: man enters her sexually when she can’t see him and women’s sexual satisfaction is in mans hands.Women are not sure what man is doing “back there” so usually they are afraid of pain and suffering.

2. Penis can cause serious damage to a woman by hurting terribly when it comes to anal aperture if men are not careful. Men need to pay serious attention to a woman’s penetration when she is not relaxed, so to be sensitive is a necessity.

3. Women hate insensitive men whose motives are selfish. So during anal sex woman make sure that her partner is smart wnough to understand some things as using lubricant to avoid a possible pain. It might be very painful because it’s not a “juicy vagina” – in this situation men should apply a lot of lubricant.

So there are some things that women doesn't like about anal sex and every women who never tried it should firslty remember these things and make sure to avoid pain and bad feelings. But there are also some things that women love about anal sex, here are the main points and advices for men what women need to love it:

1. It might be strange, but women get really excited when presented with an opportunity to try out something new in bed. She may even end up preferring sex from behind first – if a man does his best in first womens anal sex.

2. A careful man starts slowly with his fingers until a woman feels relaxed and comfortable enough. When it’s done (women relax), he needs to apply plenty of lube and a condom when he penetrates her.

3. Man needs to give to the rest of the body a sincere attention while penetrating her – it will be an advantage for both of partners. Her rectal muscles will be more relaxed and the entering process will be easier.

4. Why would a woman let a man enter her back side if she knows it’s going to be painful? It is very easy – because women want to know how it feels – they know pain is inevitable, but that’s a part of the thrill of it all.

So it’s just a quick look on anal sex and what women think about it. There are many women who love it because for some of them, it is a very easy way to reach orgasm, but not for all. Still there remains a large percentage of women who are afraid of anal sex – just because they don’t know how it’s going to be. In general, anal sex is nothing bad or harmful if man knows enough how to do it in a right way. Besides, men should always remember that anal sex is dangerous because HIV and AIDS spread more easily via anal sex than any other. So make sure you guys always wear a condom, and you will prevent yourself from all kind of negative consequences.

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I would never try it...i don't like
dominand-submissive relationships. It is not made
for sex, but the vagina is. I like to try new
things but that never, i hate being dominated and
the anus is not built for it so it causes physical
problems as the time goes by.

Mic rated at 04/28/14 10:010 of 2 people found the following comment was useful

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article.

ME rated at 01/16/14 10:520 of 1 people found the following comment was useful

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There really are some shocking people in this
world and I cannot believe some of the comments on
here. Entertaining though - although I suspect
that many of the comments written by women sound
too much like guys talking about their own
fantasies.

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rick rated at 03/11/13 01:001 of 2 people found the following comment was useful

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i am a man and i love anal sex with my lady. i
have heard every thing from the man must be gay to
he likes controling her. all is bull shit in my
book. i love it because i feel that i am special.
i am getting something that no one else has got.
at least i hope. i watch porn movies where men
just pound on the ass. what the fuck is that all
about. look fucker it hurts her. it should be slow
and easy. let her enjoy it. stop thinking about
your own pleasure and think about her.....rick

Jack rated at 02/08/13 14:432 of 2 people found the following comment was useful

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The anal sex is very painful and no pleasure
feelings and make negative emotions. But the porn
movies promote to anal sex.

heck no rated at 12/24/12 10:05

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i can tell with out a doubt, this author is not pr
anal, een the part where supposed positive sides
of the process, was pretty negative,,

A rated at 09/21/12 12:520 of 1 people found the following comment was useful

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It can all be mental as well because your focusing
on your fear of it hurting so your not relaxed but
its not that bad..just make you take a shit first
lol

Hi there rated at 07/21/12 01:160 of 1 people found the following comment was useful

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Actually, I think it depends on the person,
everybody is built a bit different physically. For
example, I'm a woman, and I know that most women
hate it because for most people it hurts and they
feel no pleasure, but there is a percentage of
women, (such as myself apparently) who seem to
have more receptors and nerve endings in there
anus, and for me, it didn't hurt at all, it felt
incredibly good, he used plenty of lotion, and I
was surprised because I didn't expect it to feel
so good. It just depends on the person. I think
that's part of why some women enjoy it and others
don't. Just my experience with it.

missionary rated at 03/10/11 05:235 of 46 people found the following comment was useful

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HI I JUST WANT TO SAY THAT ALL THOSE WHO ARE
HAVING ANL SEX YOU ARE SINNING .. ANAL SEX IS
BANNED IN THE TORAH,BIBLE AND QURAN SO ALL YOU
MUSLIMS , JEWS AND CHRISTIANS ETC PLEASE REPENT
AND STOP THIS ACT OF SODOM WHO GOD PUNISHED.

Rosie Demarco rated at 03/06/11 16:595 of 10 people found the following comment was useful

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I love taking it up the ass its the Italian way of
life

sabrina rated at 03/03/11 00:244 of 7 people found the following comment was useful

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I just tried anal sex for the first time and yes
it does hurt for a little but you will get use to
it.

pay rated at 02/03/11 18:173 of 5 people found the following comment was useful

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this a need to know situation to make for a better
love life for both me and him

racheal rated at 11/07/10 21:553 of 6 people found the following comment was useful

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My wife and I both enjoy anal sex a great deal. We
don't have anal sex as much as regular sex and we
are careful, use lots of lube and PLENTY of
foreplay. Still, it's a tender area so it's not a
daily or even weekly thing. She can have awesome
orgasms from anal sex, but then, she has awesome
orgasms with normal sex and oral sex too.
Sometimes she craves it. As much as I personally
love anal sex with her, it really is and has to be
up to her. We have anal sex when she's up for it -
period. When she has an anal orgasm she says it's
usually like a G-spot orgasm, but not always - her
explanation has been "it's different and the same,
all at the same time. She has even had an orgasm
by my rubbing my thumb quickly over her anus
without going in - that really suprised us both
the first time that happened.

Take it slow rated at 11/01/10 08:313 of 6 people found the following comment was useful

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My wife and I both enjoy anal sex a great deal. We
don't have anal sex as much as regular sex and we
are careful, use lots of lube and PLENTY of
foreplay. Still, it's a tender area so it's not a
daily or even weekly thing. She can have awesome
orgasms from anal sex, but then, she has awesome
orgasms with normal sex and oral sex too.
Sometimes she craves it. As much as I personally
love anal sex with her, it really is and has to be
up to her. We have anal sex when she's up for it -
period. When she has an anal orgasm she says it's
usually like a G-spot orgasm, but not always - her
explanation has been "it's different and the same,
all at the same time. She has even had an orgasm
by my rubbing my thumb quickly over her anus
without going in - that really suprised us both
the first time that happened.

ahaa rated at 10/17/10 22:212 of 3 people found the following comment was useful

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i dnt know why women dnt like it...its something u
share with youre partner...plus its great...i
understand the first time might be rought but
other than that i bet they love it...!my girl does
lol

loves it up the butt rated at 09/07/10 15:103 of 13 people found the following comment was useful

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im a girl, and i love anal!!!! i think all ladies
should try it 1s.

Deanna Somerville rated at 06/28/10 15:393 of 6 people found the following comment was useful

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I have practicesd anal sex muliple times with my
partner and enjoyed it.

ewwe rated at 06/09/10 00:011 of 7 people found the following comment was useful

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anal sex is so..... nasty....!! ... the anus is an
exit point not an entrance.....!!

Cindy rated at 05/28/10 12:201 of 3 people found the following comment was useful

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It's strange to see some of the comments on here
that say they prefer anal sex to vaginal. I too
prefer anal sex, but thought I was probably the
only woman on Earth to do so. However, I prefer to
sit on top of my husband. That way I can control
the depth and speed. Anal sex doesn't have to be
about domination. I know it certainly isn't in our
relationship.

Glen rated at 03/26/10 23:232 of 5 people found the following comment was useful

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I have introduced a doszon women to anal sex, but
I had been taught by a woman whom loved it ( she
pushed me onto my back and rode me anally) and we
talked a lot about it after the first time and
during other sessions. Most enjoyed it, some liked
it, some loved it. so it mostly depends on if one
wants it and everyone is built different/ so if
they are able to take it, most can. If done with
care it can be very enjoyiable, and has an after
affect, most women are in a really good mood after
and the next day. My wife now started anal sex
with her ex becuase her was small, and she took
him well, and she prefered him that way. But she
has a hard time getting me in and dosen't get it
as much as she would like, but we are careful and
get to enjoy it some. Plase go slow and use lube.

vah rated at 03/22/10 22:402 of 5 people found the following comment was useful

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before practicing anal sex don forget to drink a
little wine also use lubricant.

Urmilla rated at 03/17/10 22:003 of 11 people found the following comment was useful

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Anal sex is domination of male pleasure over
female pain. I once experimented and the man
laughed and felt pleasure where as I shuddered
with pain and tears. The only solace for me was
that my anus, the dirty hole, turns on men!!! I do
not know why it turns on men?

cynthia rated at 02/15/10 07:142 of 7 people found the following comment was useful

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i’ve been dating my boyfriend for 2 month now,
but we have been through the most incredible
things in life.. also in sex..

before, when we were doing vaginal sex, he started
pushing his finger gently in my anus.. it felt
wierd at first, but after a while, i get the most
amazing orgasm while he has his finger in my
anus..

after a month or so, he tried putting his penis
into my anus, i was shocked at first because i
thought he had a sexual disorientation. that first
attempt didn’t work out.. so we started talking
about it.. We spent 1 week to talk about it and
the thought of it suddenly turned me on and i
practised by putting my own finger in my anus
before doing it with his penis..

so we finally did anal sex last week.. and all i
can say is that it was AMAZING.. it’s not just
because i wanna please him but also because it
gives pleasure to myself.. he did it slowly and
full of love.. it didn’t hurt as much as i
thought it would.. i couldn’t even feel the
pain!

we haven’t done it again since then but i’m
looking forward to do it again.. because we both
love doing it.. and now i also start pushing my
finger in his anus which i think he likes..

all i can say is that it’s worth trying..

faith rated at 01/14/10 12:454 of 6 people found the following comment was useful

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at first it hurts wen he putts it in..but after
its quit enjoyable and you cant help but like
it..and i wouldnt mind keep on doing it..except
for the fact that after your ass is sore..my
advice is have anal sex with someone who has a
small dick ;) lol

carl rated at 01/04/10 19:021 of 1 people found the following comment was useful

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great, it was awesome to read something like
this.. its educational for us..

Monalisa rated at 12/24/09 08:201 of 5 people found the following comment was useful

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Anal sex is great, but playng with the anus is
unbelievable. My husband "rims" me all the time.
He washes his mouth with Listerine so I can kiss
him afterwards. He confessed that he inadvertently
swallowed his saliva and felt sick once, but it
was a risk we took. Rimming is great, but a big
one inside is even better. We first experimented
with his penis and now are using a dildo he
brought back from Europe during a business trip.
This thing is quite bit, but soft and contours to
my inside. (Has a big head). It has a feature that
can "grow" in length to 12 inches and girth up to
4 inches. I never tried it that big but may get
there sometime. We have been stretching and I
believe we are to 10 inches and 2 and half in
girth. My anus has bled and keeps bleeding for
about a week after we have these marathons. That's
OK! It's worth the pain. I can only confess that I
wish he had two of these dildos for me to have a
double penetration. That would be unreal, I am
sure. Best regards and be happy... anally or not!

Regina rated at 12/24/09 08:105 of 15 people found the following comment was useful

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I too like anal sex. My boyfriend introduced me to
it during a cruise to the Bahamas in 1997. The
only issue I've had is that he has began to fist
me and now caused my anus to flare up. Also, I've
been having fecal incontinence and need to wear a
diaper sometimes... but the fisting is so good,
although I wish he had a smaller hand. :)

Joann rated at 12/15/09 09:101 of 4 people found the following comment was useful

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I am a big girl and my boyfriend has bought a 10
inch 3 inch wide dildo with nice big balls... he
brought home this "little surprise" gift on my
b-day... he takes it and penetrates my ass and I
love it all the way to the balls. Even during my
periods, I still want him to plug that sucker
in... After 3 years, the only drawback is that my
anus is too flacid so I have to wear a big
buttplug to avoid fecal incontinence. Because I am
a big girl, no one can see it. Since he started
with the dildo, he's been fisting my vagina. that
makes me feel full, very full. I wish I had done
this years ago. I am only worried about the flex
of the anal muscles and if I need to be upsizing
my dildo to keep feeling full. If anyone has an
opinion, please share with me.

MM rated at 11/12/09 03:401 of 6 people found the following comment was useful

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Great. Your husband is very very fortunate person.
I wish my wife would like it someday..

Rajasekar chennai rated at 11/06/09 09:283 of 4 people found the following comment was useful

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One prostitute told me to fuck in anal even i am
very much interested in that, so i inserted good
very good, really i ask many times my wife about
this she didnt agree, we can enjoy like this with
prostitutes if they agree, but always use condoms,
apply more oil it will go easily, Good un
forgettable

Rishi rated at 11/06/09 09:261 of 3 people found the following comment was useful

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I tried it with malayalam prostitie in dubai first
she worried i applied lot of cream and slowly
inserted she enjoyed a lot i too very good, but i
used condom while doing that.

huma rated at 10/16/09 02:116 of 22 people found the following comment was useful

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i am pakistani women. i love anal sex with my
husband. he really enjoys. the reason he enjoys is
the women asshole is tight as compared to pussy.
when a women delivered 1 or 2 childerns then her
pussy becomes open and her husband did't enjoys.
he looks soone else who has tight pussy.......
this is depend upon the wife to satisfied him
better.
Therefore for the satisfaction every women tries
and give him anal so that he could not do marrage
with others....
it is really enjoyable for women also... every
women enjoys better that vagunal sex....

Cee rated at 09/06/09 15:414 of 6 people found the following comment was useful

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I was always grossed out by the thought of anal
sex but recently tried it with my boyfriend and
WOW. I had two orgasms back to back. Seriously,
amazing earth shaking orgasms. Things have to be
slippery though. The lube thing is a vital tip.
Just have him go in really slowly, if you are
lying on your back it may make you more
comfortable (like missionary) Then you can see
each other and he goes in
slow...ooo-o-o-oooo...yum, it was soo good. Slow
anal and a buzzer on my clit = me in heaven.

Wendy rated at 07/25/09 18:311 of 1 people found the following comment was useful

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Trying to get over the first two experiences.
First to see and second to check if it was that
bad. Hopefully being with a man that I don't hate
and is intelligent will make next experience a
pleasant one.

Annu rated at 07/19/09 21:420 of 1 people found the following comment was useful

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I feel good about anal sex but i have never done
in my life coz it is pain full but just a touch of
finger gives me a hell pleasure.

Annu rated at 07/19/09 21:402 of 4 people found the following comment was useful

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I feel good about anal sex but i never done in my
coz it is pain full but just a touch of finger
gives me a hell pleasure.

Sue Ann rated at 07/10/09 10:183 of 7 people found the following comment was useful

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I love anal sex! The orgasm is much different than
a vaginal orgasm. What works for me is a slow,
steady approach. Have plenty of water-soluable
lube available. Get me in the mood, a rim job with
either the tongue or a finger will loosen most
girls up. Once you're ready the penetration should
be slow, an "inch at a time". When my husband is
in my honey hole I like to squeeze my rectum a
couple of times, he enjoys this too. After some
anal foreplay my fanny is ready for the in and out
action.

BOTH SIDES rated at 06/27/09 01:305 of 5 people found the following comment was useful

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I have given and received, with both men and
women, I like it alot either way but when I feel
like a partner only did it to satisfy me I feel
guilty. I do think that like most sex it's 85%
mental and 14% physical, the important thing is to
be honest with your partner about your feelings
(physical and emotional too). The receiver has to
WANT to do it, if they really don't then it's
gonna be unpleasant no matter what. A good
technique for receiving is that when they are
GENTLY pushing in to try to "push out" like you
are trying to "pass something" this will actually
open your anus and allow easier penetration.

Good luck!

beenthere rated at 06/11/09 20:241 of 3 people found the following comment was useful

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we tried it once and thre is no way he can get his
small cock up my ass even with plenty of vaseline
i think they feel like they are taking your cherry
all over again men like very tight orifices i
would love to get fucked in my ass but it is
almost impossible so i use a well lubed
toothbrush[not battery operated to get the
stimulation i like about 4 inches into my ass, i
use plenty of lube=warm] it;s a wonderfull feeling
and i can cum over and over make sure you are
alone for awhile to enjoy it its better than my
husband s favorite two fingers he just loves
fingeringmfingering my ass? and does very slowly .
i think he loves my asshole as musch as he does
the pussy he surprised me one nite by putting
finger in and i found i liked it he had been
playing with my clit and then h estarted tostroke
aroungd my ass and i was lubed and he just slipped
his finger in we are very conservativbut no more
than two fingers for me. he wears a drs. glove
well lubed try it ladies it feels good and is very
soothing if you love him but no other man is ever
gonna finger that hole the secret is pulling the
finger all the way out and slowly keep pulling it
in and out slowl and you will cum fast try it if
you would have told me i would like the back door
played with would have said you were crazy

Prince rated at 06/09/09 06:422 of 6 people found the following comment was useful

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I love anal sex and I'm searching for that women
who love anal sex,if any girl or woman interested
plz give some response

kunal6 rated at 06/09/09 06:381 of 12 people found the following comment was useful

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No woman can enjoy anal sex for sure,anal sex is
all about men likes and dislike that's it.

42yow point of view rated at 06/06/09 12:003 of 9 people found the following comment was useful

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I have tried anal sex in my early 20s and did not
find it any fun at all. It was painful. I have
tried it again, 22 years later with a different
partner. I agree with your comment. It sure feels
like being a virgin all over again. My bf gave it
a try when we were spooning. It was painful and I
was very angry because he kept telling me not to
worry about it. I got so angry because it showed
me that he didn't care about my feeings. I
honestly almost left him that day. He promised he
won't go there anymore. We poceeded with the
vaginal sex, this time with me on top and his
penis accidentally penetrated my back door about
one inch. At this point his penis was very wet
from my juicy vagina and I figured I will be open
minded and try slipping onto his penis slowly. I
took in all of him and I rocked a little bit in
back and forth motion. I must tell you that was
the BEST ORGASM I ever had in my life and it felt
to go on for the longest time. I got very loud and
I practically saw stars. It can be painful when he
is behind me and starts to go kind of fast.
However,now I'm willing to go for it any time
because of that amazing feeling I get every time
when I can control the speed. As a matter of fact,
I prefer anal over vaginal sex now.

rpn rated at 05/31/09 05:030 of 4 people found the following comment was useful

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i just had it! It was a bit painful in the
begining, but enjoyable. You ladies out there who
would want to see the man in control are surely
going to like it.

liza rated at 04/25/09 09:511 of 4 people found the following comment was useful

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love it, tried when younger, now in late 20's.
With the right man-I ABSOLUTELY love anal. Even
Climax with stimulation by finger or vibrator.

dezzie rated at 04/08/09 00:114 of 9 people found the following comment was useful

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i also prefer anal sex in comparison to vaginal
sex. i enjoy this position primarily because it
does ultimately place the majority of the control
in the hands of the man. for any "first timers",
after you get past the initial hesitation and/or
fear, this position is entirely pleasurable. i
also agree with the earlier mentioning that it
does bring about some of the same feelings and
thoughts that come along with the first time that
you lose your virginity...control, submission,
intensity, and pleasure. makes men go crazy if you
do kegal exercise's during anal sex!!!

w rated at 04/03/09 11:331 of 2 people found the following comment was useful

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This is a very thought out unbiased article that
gives good information to both parties engaging in
the act. I have know both ladies who have enjoyed
and not enjoyed it and I do agree that takes a
lady with an open mind in order to be completely
relaxed.

Rose rated at 01/24/09 07:471 of 6 people found the following comment was useful

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I always thought, if men like anal sex, they were
gay!

Sarah rated at 01/16/09 14:351 of 6 people found the following comment was useful

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When I was younger I didn't enjoy it that much.
Now that I'm in my fourties I find it amazing. I
prefer it now to vaginal intercourse. Guess it
just got better with age.

tom rated at 01/12/09 03:29

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i like it because it feels tighter than the vagina

bk rated at 10/21/08 07:20

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it is not very much clear tat girls like it or
not...

Andrew rated at 10/20/08 04:590 of 1 people found the following comment was useful

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Well, My first anal sex was my first love. We both
havent tried it before, she slip and forced me
into her anus without my consent, I was shocked
and worried but she insisted on it. It was bloody
and yet she enjoys it somehow and didnt worry
abit. I obliged. Following relationships, had 2
other women and the latter enjoyed it but I keep
wondering if she is pretending to pleasure me or
she really does enjoy anal sex. She even climax
with it. Till this day it awes me.

anna rated at 06/10/08 13:435 of 14 people found the following comment was useful

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i dont know why but after anal sex i feel used,
humiliated, i certainly dont feel orgasm, scared
of pain, and very tense

bob rated at 08/21/07 09:241 of 4 people found the following comment was useful

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men like it because its new, somthing thing
diffrent.

guys remeber first time you had sex with your
partner
(asuming she was a vergin)
the way you took it slowly and she oooow'd and
"aaaaw'd" ect, and how you felt like you had the
biggest penis in the world.

more or less why men enjoy anal sex with a
woman
self-satisfaction, thats how i would describe anal
sex

try it in the past, not one time, with my ex bad
guy and still not understand how some girls can
join it, but of course a lot depend from a partner

Dianna rated at 06/07/07 17:110 of 3 people found the following comment was useful

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I enjoy anal sex and have for many years. I can
climax from it provided my husband goes slowly.
The sensation is fantastic and adds to the sexual
repertoire. Life is a banquet, enjoy!

Manoj Sharma rated at 05/14/07 02:241 of 6 people found the following comment was useful

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There is few points are good to know. Always take
extra care when you are with some lady because
they need extra care like a small child. :)

Busola Folaranmi rated at 04/21/07 15:251 of 2 people found the following comment was useful

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i dont think its something i want to try, but to
those who are adventrous, why not?

Stephen Foxall rated at 04/12/07 09:464 of 12 people found the following comment was useful

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You touched too much on generalities and skipped
too much of the advice how to's. I am a proponent
of this form and I must state that you really need
to follow some guidelines religiously. Lube can
never be overstated. Use plenty and take your
time. Don't just rush in or you may hurt her. Pay
attention to her entirely, not just the back door.
Before all else, make sure she is okay with it, if
not...she won't be very happy with you. Safe
Sex...'nough said.
First timers, study positions beforehand. Some are
more comfortable for her than others. Many people
swear by her lying on her side with legs together
for the first time...personally, I don't think
this always works. Let her pick the position and
be in control of the pace. That way she will be
less intimidated and more likely to enjoy it.
I will end there...maybe in the future I will
expound on this more.

Nader Tamimi rated at 03/25/07 08:270 of 2 people found the following comment was useful

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hhhhmmmmmm

Nick Cooney rated at 02/07/07 11:360 of 3 people found the following comment was useful

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Nice.

Michelle Jayaseelan rated at 01/29/07 13:281 of 3 people found the following comment was useful

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i like it its cool stuff lot of info

Caroline Thomson rated at 01/12/07 16:001 of 8 people found the following comment was useful

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It is intresting for anyone who is uneducated in
anal sex, It weighs out the pros an cons and also
reminds to practise safe sex.

Abdullahi Jigawa rated at 01/09/07 10:340 of 2 people found the following comment was useful

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i like it

hamzah.b.riyal rated at 01/03/07 07:450 of 5 people found the following comment was useful

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i dont support the idea of having anal sex, but
anyway thanks for the info ..

Cory Schmidt rated at 12/29/06 22:201 of 5 people found the following comment was useful