This book examines five dangerous habits which destroy romantic love. These are: angry outbursts, disrespectful judgements, annoying behaviour, selfish demands, dishonesty. When these are unchecked consideration and thoughtfulness turn to selfcentredness and thoughtlessness. Romantic love and hopes for a fulfilling marriage are destroyed. Questionnaires, thoughtful questions and quotes and practical steps to follow all offer hope of building a stronger more fulfilling marriage. A companion book to His Needs Her Needs, by the same author.