Memories of a Fanilow

A few weeks ago, I fulfilled a life-long dream and ventured to Las Vegas for my very first Barry Manilow concert at the Paris Casino. With me was my single friend Karen who I’ve known since high school, and who quickly reminded me why she always used to get me in trouble with my parents. Also with me that weekend was my younger sister Amy, who chose to forgo the Manilow magic and instead went to see that flash-in-the-pan Bon Jovi. (Loser.)

So here’s the story of what happened at the concert the evening of March 6th, 2010. Trust me when I say it was a long night, an expensive night, and at times, a very, very blurry and oddly humiliating night. But even so, it was one I’ll never forget.

5:00 p.m. Dressed in skirts and uncomfortable shoes, Karen and I primp for a fancy French dinner at the Eiffel Tower restaurant before our Manilow concert. Across the hall, my sister Amy and her friends put on jeans and prepare for their dinner of chicken wings and 60 oz. buckets of beer at Dick’s Last Resort before their Bon Jovi concert. We stop by their room to say good-bye and I smugly think how much more sophisticated our evening will be than theirs.

In just 10 short hours, I will know how very wrong I am.

5:30 p.m. Sipping champagne pêche at our cozy table for two overlooking the Bellagio fountains, Karen and I chat with our good-looking waiter Armando. He rests his hands on the back of our red velvet chairs and very smoothly says, “If there’s anything I can do for you ladies tonight, you just let me know.” This is the fifth or sixth time someone in Vegas has said that to us since we arrived, so Karen and I are beginning to wonder what “anything” actually means. Hookers? Blow? A private hot tub party with a gaggle of Reba McIntyre impersonators? Good God, we can only imagine.

6:00 p.m. Our salad course finished, we relax, take in the view, and guzzle the wine Armando has recommended. (Later we find out the wine was $25 a glass, prompting me to figuratively clutch my pearls and gasp, “Twenty-five dollars a glass? I could buy seven bottles for twenty-five dollars!”) Armando then brings Karen the house specialty, foie gras, which leads to the following conversation:

Karen: Try it!

Me: No.

Karen: Try it!

Me: No.

Karen: Try it!

Me: No.

Karen: Fine. But tu es une pussy, my friend. This pate’s le shit.

6:30 p.m. Our bellies full and our credit cards smoking, we take a thrilling 60-second ride in the Eiffel Tower elevator to the main floor of the Paris casino and walk over to the Manilow Showroom. At least 100 concert-goers have already lined up for the 7:30 p.m. show, all anxiously clutching onto their big, red tickets. For some reason, I think our passes give us entré into a private, champagne reception, so I ask the concierge where we should go. He’s not sure if our tickets actually do include the reception, which prompts Karen to then scream loud enough to drown out 1,500 slot machines: “PRESENT YOUR FANILOW CREDENTIALS, WENDI AARONS! PRESENT THEM! TELL THEM YOU’RE AN OFFICIAL FANILOW, WENDI AARONS! TELL THEM! TELL THEM YOU’RE A FAAAAA-NNNNNILOWW!”

As a look of distaste crosses the concierge’s face, I hiss “Shut up!” and yank her away. Because while I definitely do have my Barry Manilow International Fan Club (BMIFC) membership card in my purse, I’ve decided it’s for emergencies only. I do not take my Fanilow status lightly, my brother.

6:45 p.m. While I patiently wait in line to talk to someone at Will Call, Karen heads over to the Manilow Showroom bar to buy us two glasses of Manilow Merlot. “Tastes like soft rock from the 70’s,” I decide after I take a sip. Karen quickly downs hers, then busies herself by surreptitiously taking pictures of a loud, obnoxious woman who looks like she’s smuggling cantaloupes in the rear of her sparkly purple stretch pants. The woman then starts hacking up a lung while unfortunately standing next to a sign that says, “Everything’s Sexier in Paris Las Vegas!” Karen turns to me, snorts, “Well, obviously not EVERYTHING!” and a little of Barry’s vino shoots out her nose while she giggles like a toddler.

I predict we will soon be beat up.

7:00 p.m. Finally at the front of the line, I sweetly ask the ticket agent about the champagne reception. She’s also not sure what to do, which makes Karen once again yell, “PRESENT YOUR FANILOW CREDENTIALS, WENDI AARONS! PRESENT THEM! TELL THEM YOU’RE AN OFFICIAL FANILOW, WENDI AARONS! TELL THEM! YOU’RE A FAAAA-NNNN-ILOWWW!” I quickly shove $20 in her hand and tell her to go buy us some Manilow Pinot Grigio and a soft pretzel, but now I’m really starting to worry. I caress my BMIFC membership card and wonder if this is actually a Manilow Emergency.

7:20 p.m. We’re now nervously standing next to the special reception elevator waiting to hear if we can get on and ride up to the champagne party. I try to charm the senior citizen ushers by telling them that I’ve always dreamed of opening a pasta restaurant with Barry called, “Looks Like Tomatoes!” but they don’t seem to get my joke. Suddenly I feel the white-hot shame of being the uncoolest person at a Manilow concert.

They're laughing AT me. Not with me.

7:25 p.m. Bad news. Even though I’ve very reluctantly “presented my Fanilow credentials” like some kind of pathetic undercover easy-listening cop, we’re told we do not get to go to the reception. Instead, we must sadly enter the red-walled theater and find our seats. Karen tries to cheer me up by pointing out at least four older women who look like “Her Name Was Lola,” including one frisky septuagenarian who even appears to have “yellow feathers in her hair and a dress cut down to there.” Yes, the woman does look completely ridiculous and borderline insane in her sequined halter-dress and platform shoes, but still. She probably got to ride the special elevator to the champagne party. (Loser.)

7:45 p.m. The theater’s completely packed with women over 40 (and a few frowning husbands), all very anxiously waiting for Barry to appear. The wasted Wisconsinite behind us keeps whacking my seat and shouting, “Win’s Maniloo gonna get steerted already? Geez Lou-Weez! STEERT, damn you! STEERT!” But then suddenly, the lights dim, the curtains part, and all hell breaks loose. “MANILOW!!” Karen screams. “IT’S MANILOW! IT’S MANILOW!” Then she turns to me and whispers, “That’s him, right? In the shoulder pads? The one on stage? Should I stop yelling until I know for sure? I’m just going on instinct here.”

“Yes, it’s HIM!” I scream back. My heart is suddenly beating way, way too fast. I look around and see that I’m not the only one losing it as most of the audience appears to be having some kind of Barry Is The Messiah experience. The Wisconsinite behind me is actually weeping into her mixed drink. “IT’S BARRY! IT’S BAAAARRYYYY!” I scream. “OH, MY GOD! HE’S HERE!”

8:00-9:30 p.m. Standing in front of 3-foot high glowing lights that spell his last name, Barry takes the stage and bursts into “Could It Be Magic.” He sounds amazing, and the frantic crowd is happily jumping up and down and cheering. (I rather enviously note that front row and center are about 50 people who must be high up in the fan club. The Executive Fanilows.) Karen and I dance around with no rhythm and look like complete idiots, but I don’t care. We’re having a blast. A blast. Barry then pauses to graciously address the screaming masses, makes a rather ill-advised joke about using a douche (?) and then he continues with his string of hits. I loudly and off-keyedly sing along to “Weekend in New England,” “Even Now,” and “Bandstand Boogie.” I haven’t heard these songs in 20 years, but I still know every single word. Every single word.

As the show continues, Barry sings with his large band. He plays the grand piano. He croons “Love Me Tender.” Suddenly, I’m not so upset about missing the special elevator after all. Because Barry, Barry is fantastic. (Which I tell my Bon Jovi watching sister Amy in a text, only the next morning I see it came out like this: “bArRRy es SO GOOOOO!! bONjobi suxx!!”)

Finally, after we’ve all completely exhausted ourselves, Bare whips out the big finish. Rising from beneath the stage like a Phoenix from the ashes—if the Phoenix were a 59-year-old spray tanned guy from Brooklyn wearing a top hat and tails—he launches into a fabulous rendition of “Copacabana.” The middle-aged women next to us heave their reclined bodies out of their seats and start shaking their Chico’s-clad tailfeathers something fierce. The Lolas in the front row squeal and start to fist pump. The wasted Wisconsinite wipes her upper lip with her purse and appears to be having a major hot flash. And Karen and I do a really, really bad white girl samba while weepily embracing each other and grinning like smitten fools. Yes, we may be tired, a little (a lot) drunk and stuffed full of Vegas French food, but still—we’re having a moment. “This is the one I’ve been waiting for all night long!” she shouts. “I think I’m officially a Fanilow now!”

Then a mere two minutes later, Barry takes his bow, the lights come on, and we have the heartbreaking realization that the show is finally over. Blinking in the sudden brightness, we straggle out of the theater, our feet sore, our spirits light, and our chins covered in all the wine that we didn’t quite manage to get into our mouths. Alas, the evening’s Manilow magic has ended for us.

Comments

LOVE. IT. I went to Vegas in September with a friend for her 50th b-day. Her birthday gift to herself was front row tix and a back stage meet and greet with…. DONNY AND MARIE. This was while Donny was still competing in Dancing with the Stars and Marie ribbed him all night long about it. I was surprisedly entertained and it was a fun time. My birthday gift to her was tix to Thunder From Down Under. The other hot ticket in town that weekend was Brittney Spears. Um, no.

Barry was my very first concert going experience, at age 12. I went with my mom, an original Fanilow. Although we only had lawn seats at the outdoor pavilion, my mom ditched me, left me in the charge of her drunken friend, hopped a security fence, and paid a kid in the second row 20 bucks to sit in her lap for the rest of the show.

I am breathless and speechless. I don’t think I’ve laughed this hard in years.

Did Barry do that funny medley of commercial jingles that he does? At least he did it when I saw him – 1977, Austin Municipal Auditorium, my first “rock” concert. Does this experience qualify me as a Fanilow? Or do I need the card?

LOVED this entry! I am not an offical fannilow but I adore Barry too and I saw him at what was then The Garden State Arts Center here in NJ August 1997.(Just checked the concert stub-the only one I’ve saved-in my jewelry box). I had great seats for once-a friend w/a season pass sold them to us. I drug my husband w/me and even he had a great time and had to admit what a great showman Barry is. The screaming middle aged fans were funny and my husa\band said, “Mandy” should be “Andy” and I agree-gayest opening act of two male jugglers-but what a show! My bff has never seen him yet and we’d love to go to Vegas and include that. She loves him too and there will be no clubbing/fist pumping -even though I live AT the Jersey Shore. I have worked with orange people but only had orange legs once when I had a wedding invite in late July and refused to wear hose in that heat. Your descriptions of the Wisconsin accent were GREAT-I have Wisconsin in-laws and always enjoyed those when I’ve been there.

Okay…so I’m two years late to the party…just found you via Nancy Davis Kho!

So..So…SO funny, Wendi!! “Looks Like Tomatoes”…*snort*… I saw Barry twice…when I was a kid. With my Grandma and my mother. We sat on the lawn at an outdoor amphitheater. My grandmother sat in a lawn chair while people pelted fried chicken bones at us shouting “Down in front, Granny!” What a rowdy pack of Fanilows, no? Oh gawd, I was the dorkiest third grader ever, but it mattered not. We were at the Copa, baby! And yes…I still know all the words too. “When will our eyes meet?…When WILL I touch you?…When WILL this STRONG yearning end??” Probably nevuh.