o in Italian: (Dialect) Se vvoi perdiri l'amicu o prestinci dinari o fallu zzitu.
o in English: (Literally) If you want to lose your friends lend them money, or make them into grooms. (Meaning) If you want to lose your friends lend them money [which you know they'll not bother to give back to you), or help them find a wife [whom will inevitably interfere with your friendship].