My purpose for writing this blog was to share the blessings, laughs & lessons I've learned as I battle breast cancer, but really I think my stories are helpful to anyone who is going through any kind of struggle (and who isn't?) -- or supporting someone else.

Saturday, December 29, 2012

Subtle Blessings

I started out today with a Lifetime movie and a box of kleenex.Yeah, I know, I know. I usually avoid Lifetime movies like the plague, knowing what tear-jerkers they always are, but this one was a special favorite of mine.

"Five." Five separate stories of women who fought breast cancer, each in different ways. I love this movie because it's a reminder that breast cancer can come at us from many different directions and it is no respecter of persons. It might impact you through the loss of a loved one, co-worker, or the lady that greets you at your local Walmart. Old or young, stripper or high-powered attorney. No respecter of status, race, education, nothing. 1 in 8 get it, but nearly all of us are impacted by it in some way.

So I pulled up my kleenex box and enjoyed this favorite movie of mine. Each time I watch it I come away with something different from it. Just like an old book you read over and over, or a favorite Bible passage. You see something you missed the first (or second or 30th) time around. That's the beauty of reading God's Word over and over -- He brings you a new little nugget each time.

At the end of the movie (and I can tell you this without spoiling the ending) the main character's father gives her a gift -- a box of soap. It seemed a little odd and somewhat inappropriate for the occasion and she almost brushed it off, but then he explained that it had been her mother's favorite. She had previously commented on how much she missed the smell of her mother. Her father seemed like a crusty old guy, a man of few words who didn't relate well to others. But in that moment he communicated so much love and compassion to his daughter, and she had come so close to missing it altogether.

It was this touching father-daughter moment that brought out the kleenex for me this time around. It made me think of my own father, often crusty, and wonder how many subtle blessings from him I may have missed over the years. Wish I had paid closer attention.

I wonder how many subtle blessings cross our paths every day that are missed in the hustle and bustle. How many unspoken kindnesses from others -- loved ones or strangers, miracles and blessings from our Heavenly Father, that we don't even notice?

Father, help me to see the subtle blessings You sprinkle in my life today, to appreciate them, and help me to extend those blessings to others.

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As a little girl I remember that one of my mother's favorite words was "serendipity." She taught me that it meant "unexpected blessing" and we often talked about the unexpected blessings in our everyday lives.
When I was diagnosed with breast cancer 5 years ago, I would not have called it a blessing, but it was an unexpected journey for certain. I am a strong believer in Romans 8:28, that "God causes ALL things to work together for good to those who love God and are called according to His purpose." ALL things includes even the bad things, even the things we wished were different, even when we don't understand why God allowed them. He will ultimately use them for our good and for His glory.
So I knew that somehow God was going to use this experience. In the past 4 years He's been walking with me and teaching me along the way. A friend suggested that I write a blog to share my experiences, funny stories, and life lessons with others -- so here it is.
It is my hope that I can share a laugh, some hope, or a tidbit of wisdom from the Lord with you! I hope you are blessed by it!