“Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?”

~ Mary Oliver

So, what is your plan for YOUR LIFE? Do you know what your purpose is and what you want to dedicate your life to? What brings you joy and what is your unique contribution to the world?

These are big questions, I know. In my view, too many people are shying away from these reflections and explorations because they believe that it is too selfish to focus on one’s own interests and gifts, and one’s joy and purpose in life.

I believe, however, that we all need to make our wellbeing and contribution to the world our highest priority. Taking care of ourselves and our special contribution is not only a healthy and loving thing to do; it is also a friendly obligation towards our world that we show up as our full, authentic selves, realize our potential, and use our unique gifts to make a difference.

I call this approach ‘Good Selfishness’. It starts with exploring who we really are, what brings us joy and what matters to us; …then turning our realizations into meaningful action. Learn more about Good Selfishness.

We are meant to live a happy life. Which means that we do work that matters to us and gives us a sense of joy, contribution and significance - in addition to providing us with an income that supports our desired lifestyle. ~ Monika Becker