There were many thoughtful answers here. It would be a hard decision to make if we were given the choice knowing full well there would be a real trade-off you'd have to make. Get an incredible gift but at an incredible cost. Personally I don't think I could take Stephanie's gift as I'm sensitive to people's feelings already so knowing all their thoughts would be unbearable... but that's just me.

With so many thoughtful answers Lynsay and I had trouble whittling it down to a final winner. In the end we randomly drew one from what we thought were the best answers to break the stalemate.

The winner of a signed copy of The Immortal Who Loved Me and the pen Lynsay signed it with is…Susan!!! Congratulations Susan!

Thank-you everyone for taking the time to answer this honestly and thoughtfully.