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And as you can see, the numbers between the overall group and just the U. I know there is likely some small disappointment in that he did not marry a Vietnamese woman, but his parents have been nothing but supportive, and are always kind to me. I am lucky to say his parents are unique in that they allow their children to make their own decisions and live independently, as long as they are working hard and making a living.

Also, my dad could not speak English so he never had a real conversation with my wife at all. Although they preach thou shall not judge…they spend most of their time deciding what is right for others. I just saw them. I do wonder if having a child would change things, though. The bleeding heart liberal, SWPL type of white girl, who are a dime a dozen in the places where brown people congregate most densely in the West: It sucks, but there it is. This is a great post and I agree that intercultural relationships are a lot more work than just liking each other!

I have to say though — the thought of our parents meeting makes me veeeeery anxious just for the amount of awkwardness that will occur. It took a while to figure it out, I guess. In general, Asian cultures tend to express love through cooking, providing, doing laundry, etc.

They show their love through actions. On the other hand, Western cultures tend to express love through words and emotions. Hey, I found your blog through YouTube and it makes for super interesting reading! However his parents both grew up in Taiwan so culture shock is still a thing. I think you guys are an awesome couple. Just started dating other ethnic group mostly caucasian. It always fascinates me when a woman see you as something mysterious.

It keeps things fun and interesting. As a matter of fact, less than a century ago, it was illegal in Texas for a white person to marry someone colored. That ended when S. Thank you ever so much for making this blog!!! I speak extremely bad Japanese and he barely speaks English but somehow it worked! We kept in contact and when I got back to my country he expressed the desire to stay together, to try to make this work.

Even though I have important midterms barely a week after I get back, skip obligatory Christmas parties AND spent a good chunk of my savings……. But being crazy is also quite exciting. Reading your posts made me feel encouraged. Your writings make me feel comfortable in being crazy and make me understand the small things about Japanese culture that used to annoy me about relationships.

Israel is, strictly speaking, located in Asia and therefore Jews are asians. Likewise, Russia lies mostly in Asia: Russians are mostly asian. Berlin demanded that Tokyo return these Jews to the Nazi, but Tokyo remained staunchly silent throughout the war years, thus allowing thousands to survive the Holocaust. Americans in particular love to create these black-and-white racial distinctions, just like the Nazis.

Yet that is not a distinction made by the Nazis, who were perfectly happy to form close alliances with the Spanish fascists under Franco or with Italian fascists under Mussolini. Modern Americans are more racist than the Nazis in prescribing to this perverse White vs Latino terminology.

Little wonder so many Nazis fled persecution by fleeing to Latin America! What a stupid terminology! So, I guess that means that all Caucasians are Asians??? Sadly, modern Americans prescribe to ideas of race that look like they come straight out of the annals of Nazi propaganda.

Jewish, Indian or Russian? Um, how about no? My preference has nothing to do with a fetish. Love knows no boundaries and I am heartened to read the comments here and the blog which provided great insight. I do think LDRs are difficult and exciting, and yet the practical day-to-day without the partner physically present will test the resolve of most couples.

Virginia and South Carolina, Asian man and a white woman…it has be careful written all over it…at least until you move back to California. We only dated for a short time, but because of that short time, we never really got to really know each other and our cultures. We dated over 4 years ago in high school and after we broke up and I moved back to California , we tried to work things out but to no success. She is from Pennsylvania. But what makes an interracial relationship even more complicated, is the distance.

Now she is in Virginia for school and I in South Carolina. I hardly hear from her. Now there is another, who seems genuinely interested, Stacy. Does it make me a bad person? To let Katherine go for Stacy?

Thanks for sharing your story! My ex-boyfriend was Filipino and had immigrated to my hometown two years before we met. His younger sister wound up introducing us and I eventually wrote him a letter to ask him out.

We were together for two years but things ended sort of abruptly, mainly because we had too many personal differences not cultural that made it difficult for me to stay with him. My current boyfriend is from Malaysia and I love him more than anything. My boyfriend is the most open minded, talented, and smart person I know.

His mom is super nice and so is his brother. My boyfriend is very vocal if anything bothers him, which is great. But people can still be ignorant. I hate people watching us in restaurants or in public. I think my relationships have made me much more aware of the world and have built strongly on my own character.

Oddly enough, when I dated a guy from Mexico no one made any comments. And, of course, when I dated white guys, no one said anything. They are talking to themselves. I had no idea about the AMWF online community until now. I truly believe the cultural differences in our relationship make us stronger together because it almost.. We have talked non-stop since we met and no topic is off-topic, we have so much to learn from each other and its just fascinating every day. We teach each other about each other every moment to prevent insecurities about our differences and social pressures raising their heads.

While communicating with each others parents can be really intimidating with our mutually jumbled accents, laughter sounds the same in any language and we have a lot of that! I love that other people are expressing these thoughts as well! Because all white girls are like the ones you see in porn, right?

And they all watch WAY too much porn. And we have NONE of the problems mentioned above or in general about interracial relationships. I translated as much as I could of course and while my family tries to learn Japanese he tries to learn English.

This post really hits home for me. Being an Asian-American male there is some slight differences than if I was born in Asia but for the most part there is still the stigma.

I myself have had experience dating white women well as Hispanic-American and Asian-American but in the case of non-Asians I always felt that the women were open-minded to dating Asians but that I wondered if there were non-Asian women who seeked out the Asian man as I seeked out the white woman.

This is what I felt like would be successful in the long run but have yet to find it. So my question to you is were you open-minded or did you have a preference to Asian men? I am going to read more about your blog and the AMWF communities. Thank you for turning me onto this. It is very encouraging to me. I too love Japanese culture and would love to visit someday. But I still wish to offer support in the fact that I appreciate you for breaking the stigmas and opening the dialogue.

Only in the last few days did I do some decent googling and find out there was an acronym of AMWF and from there I discovered more blogs like yours and great forums like Hey-Ai! What do you recommend that I do? Or should I just wait? Ask him on a date. My name is Joel. Im an asian boy or islander to some of those. Filipino to be exact. I have always dated within my race or asians only until the past few years. I served the Marine Corps for awhile and opted out to the private sector.

I got burned out and wanted to escapem I went to a friends ranch in Montana. There I met this beautiful country girl. She was a sassy classy and smartassy. She blew out the stereotypical within asian stereotype of white women as lazy. Hell she taught me to mend fences and muck stalls and brushdown horses and saddle them.

I taught her the art of long range marksmanship lol. Im now just into white girls. Theyre more adventurous and willing to explore and not close minded. However I cant same the same in reverse.

I was once on a dating site and Id say out of 20 white girls only 1 would respond. I wish there were more open people. I loved your story and your blog and your pictures. I couldnt help but laugh at how your husband has wiping your feet before bed or showering twice a day.

Its a cleansiness thing. And you still think they are open minded, based on this one white girl you met?? White American women particularly from the South very close minded or outright racist. Very few like Grace…and most of the AMWW couples are better off living in the Asian country…too much racism against IRs in this country especially in Texas and other areas of the south.

Actually, most of the racism we have experiences as an interracial couple has been in Japan. I think there is this stereotype that Texans are rude, racist, and close minded… but you can find rude, racist, and close minded people in EVERY country. Many more stares, comments, questions in Japan. You folks are very lucky…Greenville, SC? In Japan there is probably a lot more verbal racism, but little or no violence from what I have seen…been to Japan ten times in the past fifteen years….

Yes, some areas of Texas experience pretty extreme racism. However, we choose not to live in those areas. Yeah plenty of racism in Asia…however, mostly passive racism, and people get annoyed when I make an example of Athens, GA…when I say that it is a one way street..

When this happens in any electoral district in Japan you can say Asia has caught up with America or at least the US South. Just take a look at how the internet is responding to this guy Julian Blanc , who claims white guys can have sex with as many Japanese girls as they want: Seeing it in real life was something else to my nine year old mind! I find them hilarious, because their jealousy makes me feel lucky.

My dad watched that religiously, even though we lived in California. So I never really developed an interest in it, in fact I kind of just ignored American news and world affairs in general, because I thought, well, what can I do about any of the things I do occasionally hear?

But her on the other hand, she grew up in a family that was very well informed on current affairs and in the beginning stages of our dating, she would mention a few things that she would come across at home watching Colbert with her parents, or even just read about on a news app on her phone. I would never know what to say about anything, and that frequently left me a bit embarrassed. So with her help, I started paying more attention to what goes on in the world and I actually find it a lot more interesting than I used to when I was in high school.

Except when it came to telling the truth about whether or not we did our homework. I realized that I have to change and be honest about everything, or else I would never be truly happy, or find true happiness for that matter. I already know my dad will not be happy with my choice in my partner. He has expressed many times that he wants me to marry a Chinese or Taiwanese woman.

He has tried so many times over my life to brain wash me with story after story of how every single Chinese man that he has known that has married outside of his race has met a tragic end to his marriage, due to infidelity or cultural differences. I will marry because I love, not because of your stupid ass. I love my white friend whom I am dating. I love the shape of her bones and her personality. I love how she is so different from me and think about things differently than me.

She is my role model and I love her. Make it about the person you love and everything, the good, the bad, the ugly that comes with race will disappear. I can understand that. I used to judge the Asian girls that would only date white guys too. So I just smile. At first, I felt a bit awkward about it. Like, my parents live in Africa. They should and will naturally guide our choices out of their parental love, but not dictate. I find some of the unique features in regards to public acceptance of your relationship to be similar as to how same sex couples disregarding race are currently accepted in the US.

Congrats for 5 years! Total population-wise, Asian men married out more than White men. The numbers are much closer than I realized, though. The gap numbers is not that much, considering that there are a lot more White guys than Asian guys.

This is a very misleading way to look at it. It would be much better to directly compare Asian female statistics to Asian male statistics. On the other hand, if asked by Japanese women, maybe they would like to date a white guy and really surprised. Maybe concept of romantic love is still not that en masse in Japan? Recently my husband has also been showering 2 times a day and washing his hair each time! It really is a cultural difference, I guess?

Well, given the case, perhaps it really is cultural difference: Even if I had short hair, to wash it everyday would be to destroy it… It probably also is difference in hair structure. Mine is soft and wavy, and reading about rainy season in your blog, I bet mine too will curl up a lot. Thank you for this great blog! I really learned a lot more about life there before going to Tokyo for my first time: What difference would it make it were white girls who caught my eye more?

This is an interesting read. In our case the cultural differences are very small — his first language is English which I speak fluently, same religion, same values in life, both cultures are very family-oriented etc. Dating him has never felt that exotic, we just look really different. We both appreciate each others cultures.

About Racism — few people feel very strongly about Asians in Europe, one way or another. My family approved, extended family liked him, in Singapore, and within his family, mixed relationships are common, so his family liked me too.

Only stares and comments ranging from weird to mean have been from Chinese here in Britain where we live. Once a whole group of Chinese language students discussed behind us in a restaurant why my husband was with a white girl and that did he think he was too good for his own kind etc. From that I gather that interracial relationships are still rare in mainland China and Taiwan.

Finnish culture has some similarities with Asian ones, so for me his culture is more familiar than many European cultures. Neither of our cultures are famous for suave sophistication: Awwww, thanks for sharing! That was really fun to read! I find the comments from strangers… interesting.

I read this a lot and from my own experiences, have found the most racism from white men and asian women.

I think in both cases, it really shows their owm insecurities and an inferiority complex mixed in with jealousy. I find a lot of wm and af think theyre superior and should be too choice, but really they are not.

So when someone acts like that, all I see is an entitled, insecure, jealous little person. You both are such a cute and sympathic couple. I had to find out that chinese guys can be indeed very handsome, nice and caring.

I returned to the Middle Kingdom only six months later in October , not because of the guys but because I love the country so much, and I hope to travel to China again still in Btw, I also hope that you guys are not affected by typhoon Neoguri. Awww, thank you so much!

The AMWF community is interesting because we can all share our experiences dating like a normal support group, but with a little twist. Most people find themselves a part of it without even realizing it. In any case, best of luck with you travelling! I know this comment is turning out a bit messy, but bare with me. At times it feels a bit impossible when I think about how all the differences just pile up like roadblocks, but then I come across things like your blog, and it makes me so freaking happy I just wanna hug you for existing!

I find myself attracted to tan or darker skin. For me pale skin was always a turn-off. I hope I can find someone like that some day. Most important thing is to be happy. The whole world can crumble and be cynical, rude, insensitive and just plain archaic in its views, as long as we are happy.

I found this very interesting! I am an American living in Taiwan. I have been here for about 2 months now. It is a bit of a culture shock for me, especially learning Chinese. I came here for a great job and I will be here for awhile. I live with my co-workers and it is a great setup. I like one of the guys here very much. He is one of the few people who can speak English. I believe it is a heavy burden on him to take care of me.

Back in the US I was a very independent person. Here not so much. We were really close but now not so much, I am not quite sure what happened. I want to learn as much as I can about the culture, but I am not learning as fast as I should?

Should my 40 year old brain know it by now? I believe that he thinks I should, am I wrong? So you kind of just have to guess. I was also very independent in the states — so living in Japan has been good but frustrating at times.

Thanks for your reply back! I do believe it is a stepping stone… I also learned yesterday that the men here do not like it when women cry. I am a wimp when I get sick or hurt, it is imprinted in my American brain to cry. I think things will get better, I think I need to be patient but they also have to be patient with me.

Do just just keep my head down and mouth shut for now? So hard to tell… Thanks again!! Well not buckets lol!!!! Hi Grace, Great article…. I hope your article at least causes people to actually think for themselves when it comes to love between all races. As an adopted Korean male growing up in a predominately white small Midwestern town, I actually have mostly dated white girls.

I too never realized the greatness of other cultures until I moved to California, so I am just as at fault for having certain stereotypes influence me. I hope you continue to spread your experience and love to the world! I just want to say thank you. I am an American Women who is attracted to Asian men. But this article helped me realized that everyone else can suck it and I do what I want. Honestly thank you for this. I have a couple other friends who are mostly or only attracted to Asian men and run into all sorts of weird stereotypes.

But as soon as you say you only find Asian men attractive, people start freaking out. It it is so true. I try not to let it get to me and I have noticed lately when I do feel down about this issue I find myself reading this article again. And everytime I am so happy you wrote this article. Bascially asian guys have litte dicks….. Another crucial thing we are shying away from that I have to bring up… how do you, as a man, know so much about penises?

In order to make your statement, you must have seen literally billions of penises to have taken a cross average from each race, and compared them with each other.

That he is smaller than an asian? But then of course, showing genitals in public is gross indecency. Just how far is he willing to go for male pride?

I realise that this discussion is now half a year old, but maybe someone will come across it in the future the way I did right now and find my comment helpful. First of all, you are a sweet person and opened mind. I am Asian and married to a Burmese woman. We both went to US university for our undergrad so we communicate in American English.

But I move on because I married my wife for who she is. For example, my mother-in-law cooks me Burmese food while she stayed with us in California.

I could not eat spicy food at first but later I get used to it. Also, my dad could not speak English so he never had a real conversation with my wife at all. Probably never, but that is okay. Everybody is nice and that is the most important. We are lucky that we are both buddhism, so sometimes I bring religion topics to get them involve.

We are expecting a baby and I hope this could bring two family closer. In my opinion, love is enough to keep our marriage but it has to come from both side. Thanks for sharing and congrats on the upcoming baby! My family in America is very close and involved with each other. Even though I know that, I get so lonely spending extensive periods of time with his inlaws. Thankfully both sets of parents and extended family blessed our relationship and love both of us dearly. I do wonder if having a child would change things, though.

I want your sincere answer about my quastion. Thank you and good luck. Good luck and keep looking. I really like your writing; it sounds very genuine and is so easy to connect to. However I find it hard to understand his familial relationships and am wary of this becoming an issue in the future. I have just loved being introduced to things like proper Vietnamese food: We are both educated and he is an extremely thoughtful and open-minded individual, so I feel we work perfectly together.

Considering my two previous relationships with white men who were quite closed about their feelings and beliefs, I am relieved to be with someone who, for example, can see the sexism and racism in the world, rather than remaining blissfully ignorant. And given that I also have a sister who is dating an Indian-Australian, I suspect she will keep her mouth zipped, or else suffer the backlash of two very strong-minded women, haha.

Anyway, despite my rambling, I just wanted to say thank you for your post and I look forward to reading more of your blog! I love reading stories like these. Before meeting my husband, I dated a couple of people nothing serious or more than a month , of different races. I think being in an interracial and intercultural relationship is one of the most interesting things that has ever happened to me.

Hi Grace, this is such a fabulous blog. Thank you so much for collecting all those wonderful stories. I would love to do a guest post for your site. Some succeed; others fail. All you can do is keep and open mind, be respectful, and be willing to change. The rest is up to your partner. In any case, once I finish the guest post, can I attach it as a Word document to your email gleenn offbeatmarriage. If you colour matched human colours against the true colours of black and white, that would become obvious.

Describing people as black and white re-enforces generic racial stereotypes and thus is racist in its effect, even though that might not be intended. The general concept of inter-racial dating would apply regardless of race or ethnicity. The term black and white when applied to people needs to be banished forever from the dialogue of describing race relations.

Of course on a pigmented scale my skin tone is not white, but I choose to identify as white. When I lived in Ghana, I had several friends with white skin, born in Africa. It works for this group. I feel like one of the big things this article left out is the way other Asians will look at the white female in the relationship.

My husband is a tall, handsome Chinese American, and when we were stationed in Korea, everywhere we went people glared at me. Not to mention, his mother disowned him when he told her he wanted to propose to me before he even had a ring! My husband never had any problems with his family or friends — they were all incredibly supportive even though no one in his entire family could speak English.

A couple months after he proposed, both his mother and father started taking English classes at a local community center so they could one day talk to my parents.

Fuji with his branch of police officers. That sounds very rude. Do you think his family or just other strangers are the most opposed to the relationship? I too have had to deal with this issue. I have dates 2 Asian men in my life and I am a white american woman.

And not only dod I get criticism for being g with an Asian man. But everytime one of my boyfriends would take me out with his friends. They would scold me and make rude comments and it put a lot of stress on the relationship because I never wanted to spend time with his friends. Which of course was unfair but it was hard dealing with that on a daily basis.

Being a mother of a girl in a relationship with a Japanese national makes me want to reply. My daughter talked about this blog. I will be honest in saying that your young age made me kind of curious and doubtful at the same time. My girl is committed to a man as well..

After reading, looking at pictures, trying to understand you both as a couple, talking to my daughter about it..

I came to the following conclusion, everything could be advertised, shared on the internet with its pros and cons. Many things made me think about your story line.

For example, I asked myself how does a almost freshly graduated boy becomes a businessman.. According to your writings, he got a very good job in a pharmaceutical company which would be able to support you two in Japan, if needed. We know that businessman means a person who is involved in business matters, right?

I recall reading it somewhere.. I would ask myself all sorts of questions and you would like not hear them. Whereas I am sure about your parents being very supporting about you both and willing to be there no matter what future holds, I have my share of doubt as for the japanese side. When things will become though, eventually they will, they know that they will be forced to stand out for you. Its a thought not all parents like, believe me.. This is out of experience.

In short, internet has a huge power in spreading news, advertise,.. So far, you are making a good use of it to become known. Thank you for your honest message. I completely understand where you are coming from — the internet allows people to share their story or selective parts of their story in an open forum that can influence people easily. I would like to respond to a couple of points: My husband got a job at a pharmaceutical company this early because of the Japanese employment system.

Many companies choose to ONLY hire current college students — they travel to the school, give a lecture, and interview a select number of students. My husband then-fiance got a job about 7 months before he graduated, set to start in April. He signed contracts back in November, so he is currently registered as a company employee. He receives an additional bonus because he is married under the assumption he needs to support his new family.

He worked incredibly hard to land that job and I am very proud of him. Both of us were able to pay for college almost entirely out of pocket. Both sets of parents helped pay for room and board, but we were able to get various scholarships and grants to pay for our entire tuition — and even a generous grant from the US Dept of State paid for my study abroad.

However, as you mentioned, we are young. We chose to use Honeyfund. My parents live in Africa; I moved to Japan less than a month after the wedding with only two suitcases. Even if people wanted to give us wedding gifts, we had no room. I love being married so young. I think it is fantastic that I found my husband my Sophomore year of college. We still have plenty of time to travel, work, and enjoy marriage before having children. I think it is easier to get married so young, since neither of us are set in our ways and are very open to change.

In any case, I hope I answered some of your questions. I hope your daughter does well with her Japanese lover — and that both sets of families are fully supportive. You are welcome to hang out with us if you want to have a chat and make new friends http: I agree with your thoughts and what you said! My husband has gotten similar comments. True love can make basically anything work: My wife and I found your blog really interesting and were discussing it in detail the other day.

Similarly, our families are great which has made things super easy. But this one little quirk always makes us laugh a little. Pretty much guys would say I am the luckiest guy etc etc. But in reality, her looks are nut just a part of why I am with her.

I can be and am that selective. As can she be. We are rarely addressed both in English or both in Japanese. The only difference maybe is because we are both catholic.

My advise to Asians guys: Good luck to everyone. Then it gradually moved on to real life basis. There is no input from either friends or family which made it look so perfect.

After moving on and making relationships more real and having had relationships with someone from UK, Kazakhstan, Russia and now Ukraine, I see the challenges and differences from different cultures and upbringing. They loved me for just being me. I also get to discover a lot about post-soviet countries and realised they are perhaps more cultured and more traditional going as compared to West Europeans and American counterparts.

It makes them much easier to integrate to daily lives in Asia. One good thing I have to say is that, living in Malaysia, all you need to know, is English. But yes, making one girl wanting to stay here and live with you, has always been the biggest hurdle. Most girls I knew are from East Europe. Life would be much better here than their own country, but they do not always get job offers due to the fact they were not born in first nation countries, like USA, UK, Canada, Australia, etc.

I find them to be a bit lunatic, pardon me as compared to Eastern European women, where they are much polite and sensible. Solve that and everything would be great. This was interesting to read. I read part of it to my husband and he laughed. I like your post about successful love stories of Asian men with white girls.

Asian men usually hang out with Asian friends. So, white women who date an Asian guy will have a hard time to get used to with it. So, if you are a white woman who date an Asian man, you may deal with it. If it were a white male dating an Asian female, most of the negative attention from the others would disappear…: After seeing the comments AMWF potential of wealth creating, no wonder no white girls ever liked me back in Canada.

Awwww, sorry to hear: Sure, there is negativity towards WMAF couples. I kind of wish people would just let it be. Some reading that you might enjoy: An exploration of the lives of white women who partnered Chinese men and their children in southern Australia, [Univ.

This looks really interesting. This article makes me miss that! Also, I studied in Akita for a year. What a great experience: I actually went to boarding school up in Sapporo for one year, called Hokkaido International School back in 9th grade, in like It was so cold. I went snowboarding every weekend. It was kind of my first experience with snow; by the end of the year I was done with the stuff. So good to read your blog! I am just recently moved to Korea to be with my Korean partner, I am European and I must say every day is challenging, funny and amazing.

I am actually AML[atina]F! I first read your blog about long distance relationship! I was glad I found your blog because at that time I was going through something similar.

However we were able to educate our families too. Thanks for sharing your story. I always love hearing from other AMWF or just other couples. Your fiancee sounds like a great guy — 6 years is incredible! A lot of Japanese people ask if my fiance is America — which is funny because he only started learning English a couple years ago.

I live in Los Angeles and never have to deal with those questions about race. I have 3 beautiful children that look like a perfect mix of both our race. BTW, we have that exact picture of my wife in a Kimono. I really enjoyed reading your article on huffington post today on what not to ask interracial couples and followed you to your blog through there.

It is definitely different and more rare when the woman is white and the man is asian and you do get more questions and looks. In tokyo it wasnt as bad but in inaka and even kyoto i could sense a difference.

I wouldnt say that we got a lot of bad reactions or looks but there was always one or two every three four months. I think that the stares and questions were not always to discriminate but it was curiosity, because to most japanese that is just so unfathomable, even though there are more and more interracial marriages in japan.

Oh by the way i have the same confusion when it comes to japanese women and their high heels as well! Anyways i look forward to reading more of your posts! Perhaps instead of feeling like a constant victim, how about start feeling and acknowledging you and your relationship as two people in love and wanting to be together. The moment you think that…whether you like it or not…and I could care less what you think of me…is when you become racially aware and sensitive to the subjects you know, racist.

Just so you can win what you want to be an argument? Just so you can deny your fear of people maybe someday judging you for being Asian, or for being an Asian who dates white women?

Have you thought that maybe SHE gets glares or comments from white men? Maybe she has an extremely weird fetish. Even Asians themselves have internalized this mindset. Look at how prevalent it is to see Asian female news anchors. The same thing has happened with topics that range from hikkikomori to enjou kosai to sexless young Japanese: Then the foreign media does the same thing.

The story then arrives back in Japan, now blown out of proportion now morphed into a country-wide phenomenon and of course it must be true because every non-Japanese media outlet reported on it. Here is a link you may find interesting, not so much the article itself but the comments from foreigners married to Japanese nationals.

You may be surprised. A black man according to her will probably get out of control and screw up his family life. I have no direct experience with this not being black but from what I have seen in Japan there may be some truth to it. I would kind of expect that the other way around. But then again, I think relationships vary depending on who is involved. The angry husband then shows up in Japan demanding to see his kids and is promptly arrested.

I think though that Japan may have finally signed whatever international treaty that would allow the husband the right to see his kids. I actually do have a friend America who recently filed for divorce against his Japanese wife.

Kayu, I can see the truth in this, even just in my circle of friends and acquaintances. I know quite a few Japanese women that are divorced from foreign men, but out of my many foreign friends which actually comprises a much larger circle married to Japanese men, only one has divorced!

Must an an Asian guy be famous before he dates a white girl? I mean, would that stop people from talking? I have dated a lot of white girls and never ever had a racist incident occur. In fact, I have had guys come up to me and shake my hand saying congrats etc in being with such a gorgeous girl.

Mostly with my white girlfriends woof which, all have been natural blondes. If all your references of approval comes from the media…then you are in for a very lonely life absent of any true meaningful relationships. Whoop dee frickin do. My girlfriend is hotter than Lindsey Vonn because my girl is a natural blonde and his former wife though she is a natural blonde.

Racism has a very broad definition. And I think it is a little uncalled for to call people creepy and pathetic. This blog is for people to chat and share their experiences, not to belittle or attack others. Everyone is allowed to have their own opinion. The congrats was never because of the fact that she is white. Mit is because she is amazingly stunningly drop dead gorgeous. The last Asian girl was also very good looking and she also got a lot of stares of approval from guys etc.

The most negative vibes was always from other women. White, black and especially Asian. Because she is with a really good looking guy. And guys like me are very hard to come by. Much harder to come across a guy like me than any smoking hot girl. I have had always positive comments from guys of all races, Asians, blacks, whites…. Latinos hold back for some reason. But they sure do the little cat calls to her even when we are together.

Racism will be presnt IF you look and read into things. I work and live in a VERY white part of the country and state. Good for you for scoring such an awesome girl. I wish you the best in your relationship — regardless of where you live. Ater reading about your experience with dating an asian guy, I will have to disagree with pretty everything you have gone through with your asian boyfriend.

Your experiences with your Asian boyfriend is because you are dating a FOB. Fresh off the boat. I do not go to the beach to go squid fishing. I go to the beach to lay in the sun and try and get some color in. I hate being white as a ghost which most Asians love being. Your observations and experiences, while unique to you are borderline offensive for someone like me.

Huang for tabulating these numbers for me. In analyzing intermarriage rates, many scholars argue that it is more accurate to focus on this portion of the Asian American population rather than on all Asian Americans because these Asians who were raised in the U. That is, having grown up in the U. This makes sense because U. Filipino and Korean men, and Chinese, Filipino, and Korean women.

That may seem unbelievable but in this particular instance, the numbers do not lie. Asian Indians White -- Most: Vietnamese Black -- Most: Chinese Multiracial or Other -- Most: Japanese Black -- Most: Asian Indians Multiracial or Other -- Most: At first glance, these statistics may seem rather unbelievable since they tend to show very high levels of intermarriages, especially among Koreans and Filipinos. Many readers will undoubtedly argue that these numbers do not correspond to their own personal experiences and observations.

My response is fourfold. First, keep in mind that these numbers are only for marriages in which both spouses are U. Admittedly, marriages where both are U. Second, other related research shows that intermarriages are much more common outside of the major urban areas where most young Asian Americans lives.

In other words, interracial couples are more likely to be found outside of the major metropolitan areas. Third, of course, you should not just take my word for it. More proof that the statistics presented here are reliable and valid can be found in the following research articles that have already been published in various academic journals across several disciplines.

These articles look only at the U. Lee, Sharon and Marilyn Fernandez. A Comparison of and Census Data. Lee, Sharon and Keiko Yamanaka. Variations in Interracial Marriages between and Qian, Zhenchao and Daniel T Lichter.

Interpreting Trends in Racial and Ethnic Intermarriage. Qian, Zhenchao and Daniel T. Intermarriage among Natives and Immigrants. Differences by Education and Nativity. Fourth, be sure to read the page that describes the Statistical Methodology and details how these statistics were calculated.

Finally, as supporting evidence, the second table on this page below comes from the Census as well and it shows the percentages of unmarried Asian men and women who are living with members of the opposite sex. Although the Census Bureau aggregated the different Asian ethnic groups into a single "Asian" category, the results of this table basically correspond to the intermarriage results and show that Asian women are much more likely to be living with an opposite sex partner who is White, Black, or Latino, compared to Asian men.

In short, while some may find these statistics surprising, I can assure you that they are valid, accurate, and reliable. Whatever the implication, high rates of outmarriages to another Asian of a different ethnicity or in particular, to Whites, has led many sociologists and psychologists to analyze why Asian Americans choose to intermarry with Whites.

One theory emphasizes that marrying a White person is the ultimate form of assimilation see the article on "Assimilation and Ethnic Identity" and signifies full acceptance by White society. However, to many people, this theory sounds rather condescending since it presumes that the only reason why an Asian American would marry a White would be to fulfill a need for acceptance.

The related theory of hypergamy would also suggest that Asian Americans marry Whites to increase their social status, since Whites generally occupy the highest socio-cultural position in the U. In other words, even if a working-class Asian American marries another working-class White, her social status will still improve, compared to if she married someone else in her ethnic group or even another Asian.

The other issue that comes into play here is how Asian women are frequently fetishized. These images can be traced back to Chinese prostitutes who were "imported" into the U.

Another theory argues that, due to the Women's Rights and feminist movements in recent decades, some White men now find White women to be too independent and strong-willed.

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We still have plenty of time to travel, work, and enjoy marriage before having children. And guys like me are very hard to come by. I am not going to lie to you and say that race does not matter at all however.

We were together for two years but things ended sort of abruptly, mainly because we had too many personal differences not cultural that made it difficult for me to stay with him. I think its a mix of grass-eating, passive behavior, and cultural differences between men and women. In a previous article discussing ways in which black men can broaden their romantic options, I noted that black males with diverse friend groups and social proof were far more likely to find non-black female suitors on a consistent basis than others.

But I still wish to offer support in the fact that I appreciate you for breaking the stigmas and opening the dialogue. Intertacial, I guess that means that all Caucasians are Asians??? My final piece of advice to brown guys is not to avoid gaming brown girls, but also to realize that they are not pure dating balinese girl. Mit is interracial dating asian male she is amazingly stunningly drop dead gorgeous. Joining Hands and Hearts: