Have you ever thought why you married the guy you are currently married to? What are the reasons that made you think that life with him would be joyful and happy? Are you thinking of ways to rekindle the love in your married life? In all relationships, there are both good and bad time and happiness depends on the way you handle each and every situation.

There are times when marriages become loveless, not because there is no compatibility but because there have been certain misunderstandings. These misunderstandings can be due to lack of intimacy, feelings of jealously, suspicion and in certain cases the inability to perform in bed. But one should not get disheartened, because there are ways to save loveless marriages and turning things around. But one thing that needs to understood is that a marriage cannot be successful until and unless there is strong and valid reason for it to last.

If the reasons for continuation of a marriage are not strong enough or are invalid, then there is no way that a marriage can be saved. Reasons such as vows, kids, law of the land, societal pressure are not valid enough to save a marriage. Marriage is not easy and it can only last if there are certain feelings between two individuals who are bound to each other through marriage. And it is the duty of the both the husband and wife to ensure that their married life is healthy and loving.

There are times when love takes a backseat and this is the time when a marriage starts to fall apart. The only thing which can save a marriage in such a situation is the feeling of oneness and love for each other. The key to saving your marriage is rekindling the love in your life. This can be done by giving more time to each other and by spending time trying to understand what went wrong and how things can return to normal.

If you want to save your marriage from falling apart, then take a break from everything else and concentrate on saving your marriage.

Spend time with your spouse, try to reinvent things and situations that produced happiness in your life, take care of each other, show the other person that you care about him or her, go on a second honeymoon, spend time doing things which you both loves doing together, go to the place where you met for the first time and try to remember why you fell in love with one another.

These are some of the things that can help you in turning around a loveless marriage and can help you fall in love once again with one another and save your marriage from falling apart.