Dating strong confident women

Then we went home and, like millions of other couples on a Saturday night, we made love.

My body anxiety didn't stand in the way of my having sex, but it certainly stopped me from having great sex.

In my 20s an unhappy first marriage quickly resulted in an unhappy sex life.

I don't want to sound as if I'm showing off when I say my sex life is the best it has ever been, and getting better the longer we're together.

We're not talking quantity here, we're talking quality.

At first, he may be quiet and always ready to give you advice when you need it.

But as the months start to roll by, you’d see that the advice would start to turn into sulking commands and manipulative pleas to arm twist you into doing what he wants.While holidays always perked things up, over time it became less of a priority.Following separation at 55, I was in the middle of my menopause when I met my partner the following year.'We've been making love in different rooms of the house, having candlelit suppers - which would have seemed idiotic with the children around - and staying in bed until midday at the weekend.Parental responsibility has given way to the freedom of Sunday morning cuddles with the papers strewn over the bed. 'My generation are more sexually experienced than our parents were, and male and female 60 to 64-year-olds interviewed in the Saga survey had clocked up an average of eight sexual partners each. As far as movies go, the portrayal of what was meanly called 'wrinkly sex' used to be thin on the ground, but when I saw Hope Springs last year, starring Meryl Streep and Tommy Lee Jones, about a 60-ish couple who go to sex therapy to try to save their marriage, I thought an acceptance of sex in the third age - as a topic for proper discussion rather than embarrassment - had arrived.At least in all the men I’ve dated, more than half of them were insecure. What’s more surprising is that I’m not the only one who’s had to deal with insecure men.