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Friday, March 26, 2010

A Bloody Post

[Disclaimer: The post contains offensive language and is not recommended for everyone. Readers' discretion is required]

I have been having a post "Quitting this cruel blogging" in my draft for more than one and a half months. I just wanted to make sure that I will stick to the content of the post and have been waiting to make sure I have the commitment. But suddenly this thing happened and I couldn't control. So, the post goes like this...

Recently I went to my friend's marriage and I traveled with my close friends. When the bus stopped for dinner, one of my friend's vanished. We searched for him and was shocked to find him standing in dark and smoking. He was not a smoker, but he told that he just had one fag as his room mates were making fun of him, that, he can not smoke. Now, he wants to smoke as and when it is possible.

I had a senior in my college who used to smoke a lot. He was noisy also. Later, I had got to know that he started smoking because people made fun of his appearance (he looked a little girlish). So, to prove that he is a 'man', he started smoking. I don't know how in the fuck smoking makes people think masculine... Smoking was once done only by men long time (or sometime) ago, but nowadays, girls are also smoking. I am really sick of this 'hey... be a man... smoke...' attitude.

If you guys want to prove that you are man, go and join army... or get married and father a child. Why in the hell you had to smoke to prove that you are a man? Medically, I think, the more you smoke, the less 'man' you become. If you say, "I like smoking... it helps me go to loo without any troubles... it helps me forget about my hunger... it helps me relieve my tension..." something like that, it is okay. Of course, it is NOT okay, but still acceptable. But saying that "I am smoking because I want to prove to my friends that I am a man" is really pathetic. You have to feel pathetic to think like that, because you are pathetic.

I don't know whether I have to feel pity or angry on guys like that. Who am I to feel pity or angry on them? I don't care if men want to become impotent or get cancer and die on their own free will. But it really hurts when friends suddenly start to do it just because they feel weak or inferior and they were insulted by crooked people to start smoking. I really am NOT sorry if my friends get hurt by reading this, because I am hurt more...

9 comments:

You got the wrong idea about smokers. They might say any crazy reason for the first time smoking. But, from second time onwards, it is for a different reason. It is just another instant drug. So, it is the same reason as drinker's reason. They like the instant high they get when they smoke. Again your left-minded brain proved itself by giving you a strong opinion ;-)

@Dobby Severus Salazar:You got the point right? It is the first time that is important... why to start? you find it amusing and start? or you want to prove that you are not inferior?

@Sindu:nandri nandri... :)BTW, have you seen Tamil magazines like kumudham and kunguma? In the headlines for an article they will say something like "Rajini kissed Aiswarya Rai" and if you read inside, it will be nothing... It would be just an incident in a shooting... Just fake heading to attract the audiences...You understand why I am telling this right? ;)My headings may be misleading... but they may not be completely false... You will (or may) come to know about it soon...

@Dobby SEverus Salazar:Could you please tell me what is pathetic? my post? or mentioning of "Quitting..."? or my opinion? Or what?

In those days Heroes in films used to smoke (e.g. Shivaji Ganesan). But nowadays villains and Anti-heroes only smoke.So it seems people's attitude towards smoking is changing for the better.But what a pity some smokers do not have the deepest underdstanding about the hazardous effect of smoking.;)