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How to Do a To-Do List

This morning, after my quiet time, I made a list. A list of all the things I have to do today. Take
the bath mat that Jack stained to the cleaners. Talk to my husband
about the finances. Call a friend who isn’t feeling well. Grade papers
for my writing class. Run errands. Write this post. Oh, and call
another friend, and return that toaster, and ask Steve about…

I, of course, am trying to follow Habit #5 of the Disciplined Woman, which is: she develops an effective to-do list system and calendar/planning system. I’ve got this habit half-way down. I have accumulated many credit-hours of to-do list and planning experience.

But it’s the “effective” part I have trouble with. My problem is that I tend to over-plan and way
over-list. (Who else puts “File Nails” as an item on their to-do list?
Write me. We need to be friends). My husband cringes when he asks what
I’m doing today and I excitedly reply, “I am going to organize my
life.” Those seven words always spell trouble. That usually means he’ll
come home to find me in a pile of papers, sighing a lot.

However, I am blessed with my very own organizational advisor. Mom’s
got both the list and the effective parts down. So enough about me, and
my ineffective system; here are five simple steps to her highly
effective to-do list and calendar system.

1. Create a Master To-Do List: First
off, Mom keeps one running list of everything she needs to do. One
author calls this a “mind-dump” on paper. This is her master to-do
list. Each week she uses this list to do her weekly planning. She assigns various tasks from the master to-do list to the appropriate day of the week.

2. Create a Daily To-Do List: After her quiet time
each day, Mom spends 15 minutes making a daily to-do list. Although Mom
does her list in Microsoft Word, you can do it just as easily on paper.
At the top she writes a verse or quote from her quiet time that she
wants to meditate on that day. She already has several to-do list items
assigned during her weekly planning, and she adds more as necessary.
When an item on her master to-do list is a big project, her daily to-do
list may include several tasks to move that project forward a little at
a time.

3. Create a Daily Schedule: Mom takes her daily
to-do list and allocates time for each task. She says it’s helpful to
consider energy levels and to schedule the tasks that require the most
thinking (e.g. balancing the check book, writing a letter) earlier in
the day and save the brainless tasks (e.g. folding laundry) for the end
of the day. Also, do your least-favorite tasks first and save the fun
ones for last. Both the daily to-do list and the daily schedule are
made with an eye on previously scheduled calendar items (e.g.
homeschool Chad, dr.’s appt., church event, etc.).

4. Use Your Daily To-Do List/Schedule: Mom prints
her daily to-do list/schedule and carries it around in her pocket. That
way she has a verse, her to-do list, and the day’s schedule with her at
all times. She is also more likely to fill up otherwise vacant slots of
time accomplishing something on her list.

5. Do It Again Tomorrow: Whatever tasks she doesn’t
complete get moved over to the next day and the process is repeated.
For all you visual learners, here is a sample to-do list/schedule from Mom.

In
order to effectively manage your to-do lists, calendar items, and
goals, etc. you’ll need your very own “keep it all together” tool. Mom
has a notebook (which includes a calendar) and she does her to-do lists
on the computer and prints them out. By contrast, I keep all my
information and lists on my laptop. You will need to discover the
calendar/planning system—whether digital or paper—that is right for
you.

Finally, there is one vital truth to remember about to-do lists. It’s something my dad tells us often: Only God gets His to-do list done .
Only God accomplishes everything He needs to do, in exactly the way He
intends, in precisely the right amount of time. Only God! This truth
helps me see the arrogant absurdity of expecting to complete my own
to-do list. It frees me to humbly accept my limitations, and simply
seek to honor God by being a faithful steward of my time.

Nicole Whitacre is the oldest daughter of C.J. and Carolyn Mahaney, as well as a wife, mother, and homemaker. She assisted her mother with Feminine Appeal, and is the co-author of Girl Talk. Nicole and her husband Steve—who is a youth pastor at Sovereign Grace Church—have one son Jack, 4 and a newborn daughter Tori.

Kristin Chesemore and her husband Brian are the
busy parents of three boys. Andrew is seven, Liam is four, and Owen is
three. In the little spare time she does have, Kristin supports Brian
in his role as a pastor in Family Life Ministries at Covenant Life
Church.