First, realize that what women say they want and what they respond to sexually are diametrically opposed. Absolutely opposite! They do not want a soft "nice guy" at all. They want a confident dominant man who takes no shit from anyone. They want a guy they are slightly afraid of. You don't have to be an asshole, but you do have to be a man.

Second, never apologize to any woman. Apologies are like mewling "please like me, please". That is instant death for any attraction she might have had for you. Game over. There might be some truly exceptional circumstance that warrants an apology, like accidentally physically injuring her, but they are very rare.

Third, practice talking to good looking women, all the time, everywhere you run into them. Saying hello is enough at first. Just keep at it and you'll see how they respond in very predictable ways to what you say and do. Learn about body language and eye contact and use that knowledge. Women are not at all mysterious. They just want you to believe they are.

The things you can start on immediately, all of which will get you much more respect and sexual attraction from women:

* grow a beard if you can* lift weights, get as strong as possible* buy a gun and learn to use it (bonus points if you've been in the military)* earn as much money as possible* travel the world, learn a foreign language or two* seek leadership positions inside work and out of it, women love men with power above all else

There is a lot to all of this, but as essential introductory reading, cover as much of these sites as you can:

Once you become enlightened, your politics will change for the better. You will see how the homo-globo-feminist forces are trying hard to keep you ignorant of the reality of the sexual marketplace, because it is not in their interest that you assert yourself as a man. They want you weak and easily controlled by guilt. Fuck that shit.

* grow a beard if you can* lift weights, get as strong as possible* buy a gun and learn to use it (bonus points if you've been in the military)* travel the world, learn a foreign language or two* seek leadership positions inside work and out of it, women love men with power above all else

Do this list for yourself and no one else. Personally, I don't like beards.

Sure, but you're a man. Women do like them, even the women who claim they do not.

A study by the Journal of Evolutionary Biology has discovered that men with beards are generally more attractive than their clean-shaven counterparts.

The study, titled The Masculinity Paradox, asked 8,520 women to rate a variety of men based on how attractive they are. They were asked to rate men with a beard and without a beard and asked if they would consider them for either a short-term or a long-term relationship. The men were photographed clean-shaven, five days after shaving and 10 days after shaving. A final photograph was taken four weeks after shaving. ...

It found that all of the women involved preferred men with beards – yes, ALL of them, RSVP Live reports.

Women mostly don't care about your physical attractiveness. They care about your confidence and dominance far more. So they ask you questions or put you in uncomfortable situations to see how you'll react. They are just trying to figure out if you are really a man or not. Fair enough.

Classic joke example is when you're in a bar and she says "Honey, hold my purse while I go flirt with other men."

The right answer is no answer. Just look at her. No way in hell should you ever hold that purse, or tolerate her flirting with other men. Being angry would also be a show of weakness, and a woman who would flirt with other men in front of you is just not worth keeping, so walk away and find someone else more worthy of your valuable attention.

Yes, but as a confident man, I don't care what women think about anything.

That is of course the best attitude and money will help you get that attitude. But if you're young and don't have so much money, beards help get attention, as do muscles, no matter how much women deny it. And the goal here is to help young men see for themselves how it all works, to save them from the feminist crap that ruins both men's and women's lives.

That is of course the best attitude and money will do that for you. But if you don't have so much money, beards help get attention, as do muscles, no matter how much women deny it. And the goal here is to help young men see for themselves how it all works, to save them from the feminist crap that ruins both men's and women's lives.

First of all, exercising is great so I'm all for the muscles.

I'd gone to restaurant/bars and only looked at my phone & laptop, with currency/stock symbols in the background, ignoring half the population around me and women were interested.

Really, the secret is being inaccessible and not caring about anyone around oneself.

And definitely not "You're so pretty." Ugh, you're toast right there. She knows she's pretty or you wouldn't be talking to her. Your compliments should be hard-earned. Don't give them away as if they were worth nothing.

I have learned that although females thinking you have money may attract them, to actually keep them around they need to see a guy being active and fearless of them and others. Reckless behavior of course is not attractive but strong confidence seems to be.

The example I can give is a few days old; I have been seeing a very cute young female from time to time for a couple of years. I gave her some dough also because she was broke and her car would have problems, she was in some nursing program and not working full time. Seeing me was her idea; I normally would not have pursued her because I thought she was very far out of my league. At first she wanted to see me very often, then it decreased (boyfriend likely).

She asked to move in and I said I had a visitor coming up from Mexico, a female. The local girl was immediately jealous and wanted me to sneak out to see her. Funny how that worked. But after the Mexican girl went home I didn't hear as often from the local one.

The other day she called and wanted me to give her some dough for some trip with her coworkers. I refused but something snapped and I yelled at her for the first time. I was so pissed off and screaming I imagine the neighbors heard me.

Funny thing; after my outburst the next day she texted to apologize for how she talked to me (why I don't know). Then she asked to come up and see me after work.

My losing my temper didn't push her away; she has been now texting and calling me every day. Today she asked me to drive down to see her at her work and I said was sort of busy.

Re: the article tips. I agree with most but I just don't want to grow facial hair. I speak a foreign language and this is great for breaking the ice with females in Florida and California sometimes. Of course it works wonders in Mexico too. I go the gym but not often enough lately since scuba diving sort of tires me out. I hobby I picked up from my friend is target shooting handguns, which for me is like going to the movies. The situation in Florida allows me to have one in the car and females usually know I have it and can also carry it if I want to. Most are fascinated by them.

Taking videos of sharks swimming around underwater and sharing it with females seems to also interest them, although the sharks I've seen so far are harmless.

Driving a nice car doesn't hurt your chances either.

edit:; I as a rule I also don't tell a female she's pretty, sexy, etc. very much either. Girls don't think it's interesting that you think she's hot.

I'd agree that there is great enlightenment to be gained by having hot young women vying for your attention because they want your money. It proves that what they are selling is really just a commodity. A renewable resource.

Love is something else, very dangerous, but far more valuable. Women usually try to manipulate this as well, trying to get you to fall in love so you do stupid things like hand over your credit cards. A sincere mutual loving relationship is the long term goal of life, but that's not really what we're talking about in this post.

We're talking about helping young men get laid. And helping them see how they have been kept in the dark by the homo-globo-feminist forces of evil.

First, realize that what women say they want and what they respond to sexually are diametrically opposed. Absolutely opposite! They do not want a soft "nice guy" at all. They want a confident dominant man who takes no shit from anyone. They want a guy they are slightly afraid of. You don't have to be an asshole, but you do have to be a man.

"Nice guys finish last" Women want confident dominant men because they the have Balls. Evolution dictates confident and aggressive males are more likely to ensure their survival, and the survival of their offspring.

We're talking about helping young men get laid. And from there, helping them see how they have been kept in the dark by the homo-globo-feminist forces of evil.

Here's the issue, in today's world, faux rape charges are the norm. Remember Kobe Bryant back in Colorado some dozen years ago? And yes, it costed him a few million plus a loss of 20 million in endorsements.

If anything, I recommend that men buy a sex doll (ala RealDoll), save their money for trips to Thailand or Costa Rica, and forget about women altogether.

Sure, but you're a man. Women do like them, even the women who claim they do not.

Just thought of something. In the old days most men would not have been able to shave. Evolution would dictate that facial hair is a sign of a man who can procreate and keep the safe, as opposed to "boys" who have no facial hair and unable to protect the family.

* buy a gun and learn to use it (bonus points if you've been in the military)

Except if you live in silicon valley, where most people are simultaneously ignorant of guns and petrified of them, too.

I'd say it would especially help you stand out as a man in Silicon Valley.

If she's afraid, she's excited too.

I remember a freshman psychology class where we learned that the best first date is a horror movie. The increased heart rate because of fear engendered by the movie gets conflated in her mind with attraction for you.

I dunno, Patrick. I consider myself to have some Gay Radar, as I had gay roommates for a time when I was in college.

Buff men, well-groomed beards. They go Ape Shit for those.

Not sure of your point. Are "They" gay men, or women? Might be true either way. I'd say you should not be all that perfectly groomed or it starts veering into gay territory. Women prefer men with slightly rough edges.

The other day she called and wanted me to give her some dough for some trip with her coworkers. I refused but something snapped and I yelled at her for the first time. I was so pissed off and screaming I imagine the neighbors heard me.

Funny thing; after my outburst the next day she texted to apologize for how she talked to me (why I don't know). Then she asked to come up and see me after work.

My losing my temper didn't push her away; she has been now texting and calling me every day.

This is a very common scenario. You demonstrated you're not at all afraid of what she thinks, so that raised your value in her eyes.

Remember that the most vicious death row killers get lots of love mail from random women, exactly because these guys are vicious death row killers. They are lousy bets in an objective sense, but they have proven they are not afraid of killing people, and such fearlessness in men gets women hot and wet.

Taking the evolutionary perspective, such guys have demonstrated that they are very capable of protecting her and any children they might have.

Back in the day, I had a friend who didn't take very good care of himself, kind of let himself go (overweight). Plain looking. Not flush with money. Kinda broke in fact. And always seemed to have an attractive female companion. I saw him in action. Whatever "it" was, he had "it". Frustrated the hell out of one of my macho friends.

One of the people in our social circle is now my partner. I asked her, what is it about him, that makes him so successful with the women? She told me, he's a Good Listener, and it's his smile. Those were the qualities that they were attracted to. She kind of thought I was a dumb shit for not knowing that.

My wife asked me why I walked away when she was talking to me. I told her, because if I didn't, we would still be at the same spot we met, somebody would have to feed me and provide me with a latrines in shifts, I would have long hair down to my ankles and long, curled fingernails like Howard Hughes, and I would have needed to learn to sleep standing up.

This is a very common scenario. You demonstrated you're not at all afraid of what she thinks, so that raised your value in her eyes.

One woman told me in plain text that dominant men yelling at her sexually excites her, and that she is trying to provoke them into being aggressive and dominant. She was E. European though, so she had no problems admitting what she really likes.

Maybe tangential to the subject here, I have a few friends who are widows; both are over 60, one is attractive the other less so.

Neither expects me to have any sexual interest in them, but they like having company as do I sometimes.

The more attractive one is always asking me about my misadventures/exploits with other females and she tells me I should do things more or less as suggested by the guys here and Chateau Heartiste, it's funny almost.

She also advised me to travel to Cartagena or other places in Colombia and have a great time. Her younger brother is about 61, just retired from a job in the USA and recently divorced but has a new GF from Colombia. She thinks her brother is a "pendejo"=dope because he doesn't need a serious relationship after gaining his freedom from his fat lazy wife up in New Jersey. I concur.

Anyway, it's fun to know that the "other side" in the war of sexes thinks as we do but the ones trying to get something from us hide that they know the score.

"Why does my pendejo brother get a woman her age with a 16 year old son??" I warned her "He doesn't know how much Obamacare will cost him if he marries her; he will pay a the premium for 3 adults until he is on Medicare (65) then he will just pay 2 adults insurance. Is he prepared to send her son to college in the USA? He's not going to be retired for very long I predict."

* grow a beard if you can* lift weights, get as strong as possible* buy a gun and learn to use it (bonus points if you've been in the military)* earn as much money as possible* travel the world, learn a foreign language or two* seek leadership positions inside work and out of it, women love men with power above all else