Be bold, live out loud & always remember, #NoDistress

Don’t Hide The Hurt!

Hello Damsels!

Today’s messages is short + sweet … inspired by an internet poet’s pin I found written by a Cristen Rogers.

As a single woman making it through the holiday season a.k.a. engagement season is tough. Thanks to social media providing you with photos of “happy couples” snuggled up in matching pjs next to Christmas trees & going on ‘Baecations’…Then being smacked by New Year’s Eve midnight kisses and no one to kiss. *le sigh* Hanging through the most depressing month of the year, January; and then surviving through February 14 with no flowers, candy and nor Beau to spoil you.

It. Is. Hard! And lonely. And it hurts!

But damn it, you don’t have to hide your hurt! I’m with you on the couch (hypothetically) in my cheeto stained sweatpants eating ice cream from the tub and binge watching Carrie get it wrong with Big and Joan ruined all of her relationships. Or … we could be in our chetto stained sweatpants at the gym working on our revenge body. Getting healthy. Making green smoothies. Balancing our checkbooks and repairing our credit.

YOU DO NOT HAVE TO SUFFER!

Use this season of singleness to grow. Acknowledge your heart, your feelings of lonliness or even of depression and turn it into a catalyst!

Lady Gaga was once quoted saying: “.. remember, your career won’t wake and tell you that it doesn’t love you anymore.” So focus on your career.

Use this season to develop yourself. Read books. Develop your dreams. Check things off of your bucket list. THRIVE.

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Singlehood is a time to work on self holistically so that when the right one appears you are ready to receive them. I find many women stress of being alone and have soooo much work to do one themselves and the men they desire wouldn’t necessarily choose them because the have toooo much baggage. Whole people want whole people. Use this time to grow and transform self positively and you will attract without even trying what you desire because your light illuminates brightly from the inside-out. Live Damsels no distress! MUAH! 🙂