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I am not writing to brag about my recent 'gaining' success or to bare an uncanny knowledge of any particular subject matter related to penis health or advancement. I am here to give a huge congratulations and respect to those who have succeeded in what is practically unheard of in the male community: manual penis enhancement.

My story:
I am a fairly good looking gentleman in his late 30's, who early in life never had issues with neither size, or performance. It wasn't until I hit age 31 that I noticed that my body was fighting against me in relation to the many bad social habits that I had grown accustomed to over the years.

I now work fulltime as a research scientist on major college campus, and have been bouncing/bartending parttime at a gentlemens club for several years. Trust me, there is no greater motivation than fresh 20-something year old wide eyed students, and sexually charged vixens strutting around to make a man more than 'wanting'.

I didn't think any real problem would ever occur sexually with any woman being that I had been in long term relationships since age 19. I was able to pop a chubby with my girlfriends easily, thus feeling the manliness that all men should.

BUT, it wasn't until the moment I became single, and alot of the females in my area begin to throw themselves at me, did I realize the truth:
I was not as adequate in the erection department as I should have been.

A comfort and familararity level was what kept me aroused and solid with my girlfriends, but now random sex, and not being able to get it up properly, was terrifying me to the point where I was refusing practically everything that crossed my path.

Seriously. I mean, who passes up on a 21year old sexy Italian girl just because he's afraid his junk might not reach full capacity?
I did. And many more like and better than her.

Over a period of seven or so years, I begin to accept my 'half ass erections', and with them avoided any notion of a one night stand, office romance, quickie, or casual sex, because I was too ashamed to whip it out, and be looked upon as 'less than a man'. Needless to say, females typically view this as not a major concern, but it's the male ego that drives me, not the validation of a woman.

I was lost in my own head when speaking to women, and the recurring motto was always the same:
"she is absolutely beautiful, but if she spreads her legs to me, I won't even be able to get hard enough to rock her world."

It's a devastating feeling.

Now for the inspirational part:
Two months ago, I found this site.

While reading over the member success stories, and realizing that there were many men in my situation (similar or worse), I begin to feel something that I had not felt in many years...a since of community, understanding, and hope. I saw that men spoke openly about their concerns. Offered suggestions and motivation in a way that I wished I'd stumbled upon in my late 20's.

I took into practice some of the new routines and ideologies behind achieving my goals of instant erections, and lo' and behold, two months later, I am a virile man!!!!

I can now proudly say that I have not had the slightest negative thought in relation to women presumedly rejecting my flaccid appearance, or slumping erections.

I have regained confidence in the physical manifestation of morning/night wood; spontaneous erections.

I have not only have become aware of my sexual prowess but now enjoy a regular care free (safe) sex life with whom I chose, without worries of not being able to 'achieve'.

I have also managed to gain an astonishing amount of length {.5" in two months} (while losing bad habits like porn, cigarette smoking and masturbation) through manual exercises, and found that my erection quality is much more stable and solid than when I was in my early 20's.

I have more endurance while having sex, and am able to better control my penis through dedication to kegels, and the like.

AND the BEST PART...It was all accomplished safely, and privately in the comfort of my own home!!!!

I want to say THANK YOU!!!!!....To all administrators, moderators, senior to new members who have stuck in here making this site a gem for ALL MEN!
I almost feel as if this site has changed my life in a way that only a sense of comradery can. It's like boot camp for the penis, without all the screaming!

It's inspiring to have such support and knowlegde packed into one site. It's a true and honest blessing.

To all newbies...you are in the right place!
To all veterans...you are completely valuable!