Men and women have used essential oils and scents in the bedroom, to boost libido and sensual energy, for thousands of years. Certain essential oils are well known as romance boosters, including ylang ylang and clary sage for women and sandalwood and cedarwood for men. But more than a dozen [continue reading]

If sex (or a lack thereof) is causing frustration in your marriage, chances are that something else is missing too – a sense of sensuality and the relaxing, satisfying enjoyment of physical pleasure that comes with it. For many wives and moms, sensuality is nothing more than a faint, fleeting [continue reading]

Whether you love it, hate it, or barely tolerate it, Valentine’s Day is almost here. Whatever you think your husband may (or may not) do to celebrate, I want to encourage you to plan one thing to make the day fun or meaningful (or both!) for him. Whether you feel [continue reading]

Do you ever feel like sex and intimacy require more energy and enthusiasm than you can muster? That figuring them out, or trying to improve your sex life, is just a bit too much trouble – possibly not worth the effort? Or that sex is primarily about your husband and not [continue reading]

Can women use essential oils for sex or to boost libido? It’s a good question, and one that a lot of women are asking. You may have heard people talk about using essential oils for lovemaking or in the bedroom, and you may even have heard them mention specific oils, [continue reading]

It probably comes as no surprise that more women come to this blog to read about essential oils for sex, intimacy, and romance than any other topic. And that makes sense, because so many women are struggling to feel sexy, to feel interested in sex, and to enjoy the intimacy [continue reading]