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I got an aneros delivered this morning so, of course, I had to try it out.

To be honest, I didn't really get anything out of it; the abutment seems to "dig in" a bit (almost to the point of being painful) and I couldn't feel it pressing on the prostate - although never having tried prostate massage, I wouldn't know what it felt like. Also, it felt a little bit uncomfortable around the sphincter.

Are these sort of feelings normal ?Will I get used to them or am I doing something wrong ?Would more lube help ?

Tried again today.I made sure I had plenty of lube on it, put it in and settled down with some porn.I waited 15 mins to allow myself to get used to it, then starting contractions.Unfortunately, apart from a bit of pre-cum, there was no effect and after about 45 mins I finished off by hand. I still dont seem to get any feeling of massage inside.