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I didn't breastfeed, my own reasons, but it was a choice I thought was best for both my children and myself. I have 3 "formula fed" babies (well, 13, 11, and almost 3) that are healthy (never have to go to the doctor!), well-attached, and overall great kids.

Don't let anyone bully you into making a decision you aren't comfortable with. It doesn't make you a bad mom, or less of a mom than those that choose to nurse.

It doesn't make you bad, but if you can, at least consider giving it a shot. It really is what's best nutritionally for the baby, and a wonderful bonding experience for you. You may be surprised at how successful you can be with it. Good luck either way!

No and dont let anyone make you feel like it is. There are alot of people who are fanatics about this sort of thing, just dont let them get to you. I tried to breast feed my first son cause of guilt and i didnt even make it out of the hospital before i started using bottles. both my children are happy healthy and thriving boys and they were formula fed.

No - it isn't bad. It is your choice as the mother to that child and no one else's choice.
Don't let anyone give you a hard time about your choice. Far better to formula feed than to beat the child, starve the child, lock the child in a closet.