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Leave him alone and let him be in charge of his own dating life. You do not know his preference of what he's looking for. A friend of mine decided she was going to introduce me to a guy that I was not attracted to. She even gave him my number without my consent and I had to turn this guy down, as he was disappointed and time and energy was wasted. Please, do not meddle in his life in that way. <br /><br />So he's a 25-year-old virgin? So what? I think getting laid is a bit overrated and tends to rule people's lives. I give him big props for maintaining some self-control then to be ruled by his hormones. I think he's setting himself up to find someone with good quality rather than just random women here and there.

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Throw a birthday party for him.<br />Invite as many of his friends as possible, <br />and ask them to bring not just their BFs/GFs <br />but also a single woman of appropriate age and interests. <br />Aim to have about 30 people. <br />Arrange it so that there is not just music, but plenty of quiet places to talk.<br />This way, he has an opportunity to meet women, and choose for himself.<br />Other than this broad sweep method, leave him to find his own way.<br />Sometimes there are good reasons for not being involved, <br />(many possible. <br />eg. fear of a controlling mother making him terrified of a woman's emotional hooks.)<br />In our culture, unless we want to return to arranged marriages, <br />each must find their own way.

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Its strange because I have a 24 year old brother and I don't know if he is a virgin or not. He has never had a relationship, or brought a girl around. He's good looking, athletic, fashionable and all that stuff girls want etc. <br /><br />I know its not my business or anything but it really does cross my mind at times o.O