If you're religious, a lot of people join churches specifically to meet a potential significant other. Look for a church with a large base of recent college grads and you'll find a lot of singlle people with decent morals who are looking for something serious.

If you're not for online dating, or joining a club, or church, then the gym is always a good place to meet a guy. He'll be in good shape, and you already have something in common since you're both members of the same gym.

You see, that is the problem. You go to the gym a lot, so you spend a lot of time at the gym. If you spend a lot of time at the gym wouldn't you want to be with someone who also spent a lot of time at the gym?

The people you spend your recreational time with are the ones you will get along with the best. Whether that time is at a gym, at a bar, at a concert, or on the internet. You will find the person for you where you prefer to spend your time.

Every second you spend "doing your own thing" is another second you shield yourself from ever meeting someone significant.

Good you can work with that. Find a sport you enjoy or join a band. You will surely then meet a guy that way, with common interests too. Im single but as a guy i can say the only women i have met that i would seriouy consider dating and giving up a lot of freedom/time for is girls who i have met doing things we both enjoy. Not through bars or out actively looking for a boyfriend. Living your own life and been happy is much more attractive than someone who is out simply looking for a boyfriend and to find happiness through or in another person. Good luck girl.

What Girls Said 2

Doing things you generally enjoy doing - that way you will meet someone with similar interests, and instead of desperately sorting through endless online profiles and furiously swiping through tinder, you're engaged in fun activities, just being yourself and having a good time... that's when we are most attractive.