Ekev: Not By Bread Alone!!!

This week’s portion, “Ekev” continues the recitation by Moses of aspects of the Wilderness experience. The portion begins with a morally questionable (to us in our age) call to destroy the people of Canaan who would rise up against the Israelites, showing them no pity. (Deuteronomy [7:16]) I invite you to raise this text at your weekly Torah study. It raises all types of issues, especially since the call to do this comes from God.

In chapter 8, we read a verse that has come into our modern idiom. From Chapter 8, verse 3, we read the verse when Moses reminds the people that God brought the trials and tribulations to the Israelites to test them and their faith and that to remind the people that “lo al ha’lechem l’vado yich’yeh” (man does not live by bread alone). In their book “Sparks Beneath the Surface” Rabbis Kushner and Olitzky note the words of Rabbi Mendl of Rymanov, who introduces us to the notion that this really refers to the spiritual hunger that surpasses our hunger for food.

Let me suggest that this takes on additional significance as we get older. For many Boomers, we have been fed well, our material needs, for the most part have been met. Yet, there resides in us, gradually, a spiritual hunger, a hunger for a sense of meaning and purpose; a desire for the answer to one of the basic questions of our life; why am I alive?

We have alluded to this a lot in this space because, this search for something of a spiritual foundation to life is, as many have suggested, a foundation upon which we seek to construct the last third of our life. It goes to the sense of legacy we wish to leave behind as well as a sense that there must be a connection to something beyond the self that gives life meaning. It goes beyond attending religious services (although for many this is a necessary condition of spiritual security) and extends to an existential confrontation with one’s own mortality. Indeed, the text seems to be saying that if you only live by bread alone (the material) your life will miss a deeper and more meaningful embrace. Jewish tradition brings this concept to us on a regular basis. When we sit down to eat food, what are we asked to do? We are asked to say a blessing, thus bringing the spiritual world into the regular act of eating. It is a not so subtle reminder that not by the bread alone do we find nourishment. We are nourished by the food for our body and our spiritual life which nourishes the soul.

We need food to survive the material world. What Moses may be saying to us, is that that material “food” is not enough for a maximized and fulfilled life. It is the life of the spirit, the soul, that takes us to new levels of understanding and gives us the pathway to meaning.

Rabbi Richard F. Address, D.Min, is the Founder and Director of www.jewishsacredaging.com. Rabbi Address served for over three decades on staff of the Union for Reform Judaism; first as a Regional Director and then, beginning in 1997, as Founder and Director of the URJ’s Department of Jewish Family Concerns and served as a specialist and consultant for the North American Reform Movement in the areas of family related programming. Rabbi Address was ordained from Hebrew Union College-Jewish Institute of Religion in 1972 and began his rabbinic career in Los Angeles congregations. He also served as a part time rabbi for Beth Hillel in Carmel, NJ while regional director and, after his URJ tenure, served as senior rabbi of Congregation M’kor Shalom in Cherry Hill, NJ from 2011-2014.

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Rabbi Address your words on aging touch my soul. I celebrate each day of life that I am blessed with; which also brings a desire to connect spiritually with the universe or “G-d” as I call it. As my only child celebrates his 50th birthday I find myself reflecting on his life, and mine as his mother. Did I do everything within my power to teach him moral and ethical values? Probably not…but I did my best. And there were times in his youth that I believed I failed him as a guardian and teacher of his young soul. However I see him now, as a father and grandfather and the wise soul he has matured into and I am proud. Perhaps I played only a small part in his “soul growth” but I see my ethical life values emerge in him. He may be the only “legacy” I leave in this life and I am pleased with that, as good souls make a bigger impact on life than big buildings.

Thank you Rabbi Address for providing me with life guidance in your teachings, and podcasts. Aging is not an easy emotional transition and I gain so much knowledge from you that the transition is less confusing to me.

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