There
are 3 basic sex styles. Sex in a marriage is an important
factor. Sex relieves you of all tension and a marriage with
good sex is healthier and lasts longer. But every person has
his own style of sex and feels aroused and satisfied when
they try out their sexual pattern. But at one stage sex becomes
very monotonous and then you do need some variety. In this
article we have brought for you the three basic sex styles
and what you should do to spice up your sex life if you get
bored of it. The recipe for a great marriage is having an
equal balance of the three.
Quickie
Couples who are very busy and don't get time to make love
at ease basically adopt this style of sex. They are ideal
for those marriages in which the man has a higher sexual requirement
and urge than the woman. Quickies are perfect for a heated
and steamy sexual encounter and bring in the passion and excitement
in to the marriage. As a relationship enhancer, quickies can't
be topped; men love them, and it brings back life into your
marriage. However it wanes off over the period of time. Men
always love it but for women quickie becomes frustrating coz
it is not satisfying and they ultimately feel cheated.

If thus you have reached the stage where you no longer enjoy
quickie and feel resentful because your husband reaches climax
every time he has sex and you have an orgasm maybe once in
6 times then its time you did something about it. You can
approach your husband and be frank about it. Tell him that
it doesn't work any more and that a longer session makes you
feel sexier and more turned on. If you cant be so frank then
try to find a way where it will be able for the two of you
to give more time to one another and enjoy sex for a longer
time. Prepare a bath for him, give him good body massage and
then make love the whole night…..you just have to buy time
then from your busy schedule.
Comfort Sex
Comfort sex is the binding factor in a relationship. When
two people loves one another and know each other's body, moods
and passion spots then comfort sex is fun. Thus this kind
of sex is possible only when two people know each other. This
kind of sex is more loving and caring than just trying to
reach an orgasm and being satisfied. This is caressing the
partners mind than body. It's not about athletic prowess or
numbers of orgasms, but rather about the bonds of time, experience,
and intimacy you and your husband share.

But mind you too much comfort sex is boring and it can be
killing for the sexual relationship. If you feel that you
are having only comfort sex then its high time that you had
a steamy and passionate sexual encounter with your partner
to bring the passion back into your marriage. Thus plan a
date with your husband after the kids are off to bed. Wear
something you feel sexy in and light some candles. Have a
candlelight dinner and make love on the kitchen table. This
change in circumstances inevitably will lead to a change in
sexual experience and your relationship.

Passionate Sex
This kind of sex is basically done in the heat of the moment
without thinking about the place and occasion. You are aroused
and all that you need is to satisfy yourself. It can also
be termed as special occasion sex since couples go out on
a vacation specially to get the passionate sex back into their
life. Special-occasion sex is the thing that breaks up the
monotony and gives you the chance to fall in love again and
also reminds you that you have been a hot couple. The other
kind of passionate sex is to experiment and find out new kinds
of mind-blowing sex. In exploring and experimenting, you might
discover something that really feels wonderful, and suddenly
the sex is something you crave for every moment and at all
times. Maybe it's a new position or some sensual music that
pushes you over the edge. The only way to find what turns
both of you on is through trial and error. To have passionate
sex when you have loads of work and kids to take care of is
an almost impossible thought but you have to work towards
it. Small acts of sexual passion and urges will be very helpful
to ignite the passion in both of you. Thus to have passionate
sex you should have variety in your sex life. And pretty soon,
you'll realize that variety really is the spice of a great
sex life, and that marriage can be so full of fun and excitement.