to men, sex and love are mutually exclusive. i have no problem banging a chick whether i have feelings for her or not. they aren't affected by the sex. sometimes i feel bad if i bang a chick and she has feelings for me and i dont for her, but that's just how things are. so bang her, it won't matter on your side. sure, she may turn into a stalker and fall in love with you, but that's why chicks are different.