"35-year-old woman I'm seeing doesn't know how to bake a cake. Would this be a turn-off for you? This made me feel weird about her. Completely over the top, I know. But does anyone else think this is un-sexy? Or is it just me?"

I like a domestically capable man but don't necessarily expect him to arrive with an entire repertoire of expertise. He'd better be up for doing it with me and capable of remembering how so that he can do it next time with or without my help.

I expect my sons can do it or would want to research and do it, they are in their 20s. Just saying no and not trying would put me off.