Never heard it,, ... but if he has a girlfriend,, I would ignore the comment.. I only chase after the single straight guys. and I would never tell someone to go to San Francisco to kidnap and rape a boy. That sounds illegal.

Honestly, I hear it more from straight girls who say they want to just "fool around with their exes but I know that they are just going to get back together for a week and then they think he's cheating and then break up and the cycle goes on...and then they complain how another fuck buddy isn't good enough in bed..:so glad I like guys.