Today we're highlighting Moise in Canada, who is tired of rejection and has set some serious prereqs for penetration. If you want to tell your story, go to our submission form. You can find all our V-Card Diaries here.Tell us about yourself:

My name is Moise–or Moses in English. I'm a 17-year-old male and I live in Canada, Quebec Province, Montreal City. I'm French Canadian.

How do you define virginity?

Virginity is a concept that is not well defined, to some people it's any sexual intercourse including "solo sex," others is only through "penetration." For me this concept is yet abstract. I declare myself as a virgin because I prefer to see myself as inexperienced, untouched. The reality of it is that I gave oral to a female once and that is the only sexual intercourse I've had.

Tell us your story

I personally had my first sexual intercourse around 13 or 14. Back then I did not care much for the concept of virginity and I tried losing it multiple times, but I never had the opportunity. Except once, I was with a female, I gave her oral, but it ended then because she did not want to go further because she was molested as a child.

Eventually I grew older and my mind also did. I was tired of getting rejected over and over again so I kinda gave up and I started to think that there was more to sex and love. So I set myself some "rules" about the first time. I think I must be with a women I love and that loves me back, feel something special and at least have a decent appearance, does not need to be perfect, or a celebrity, but I'm not even sure about that one. For the personality, I don't know, it's a bit tricky. I hope that I can share at least one common interest together, she thinks forward for her future and that she does not starts talking about marriage, kids or those kinda things, that she's able to live one day at the time.

The only exception is if I did not find the "right one" after I'm 25 or so then I just let myself loose and look for casual sex. I want to have "sexual experience," eventually.