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Oh my lovely friend. I'm sorry that there are things in your life which cause you to feel anxious and sad. But they are inevitable, are they not? We can't control events, or others. We age. Our loved ones move away, move on, take their own path. We must define ours. We can do all these things, of course - we must - but it's hard. You acknowledge your fears with such grace, Tamera, and as always you accompany your thoughts with stunning images. Sending much love. Love is part of the sweet, right?! xxxx

Tamera dear-This post resonates deeply with me. You perfectly describe the same bitter and the sweet that I know I feel in my life. It's such a balance. The sweet is so pretty, sparkly and shiny-and the shadow times are just as real and help us appreciate the beauty all the more. I am thrilled that we will be meeting next weekend on my trip to Newport Beach. We will speak of this balance in life that we are both sharing-and enjoy some sparkles no doubt. Beautiful post my friend. Have a lovely weekend, xx, Heather

Thank you dear Heather for your words of understanding...I am so looking forward to seeing you in person next week... and meeting your sister too. We have so much to talk about... especially the story of you and your dear sister! Until next week...wishing you a most lovely one.

I hope you don't ever stop blogging. I love your beautiful images and the beauty you see, the beauty you make, even in the midst of what feels ugly. I love that you are so honest about the struggle. Otherwise the beauty would be unattainable. You make me want to reach for the beauty in the midst of my ugly. It's not one or the other. It's both. It's bitter and sweet. // Sending my love. xo

What a powerful post. We can't control our life and that's got to be a good thing as life would never change and we'd never learn and become stronger. You're right a blog should be truthful and honest but there's no harm on focussing on the positive, if only for our own sanity.I wish you well, you are an inspiration. xxx

Dear Tamera Life's a challenge and always changing. I have kids like you and grandchildren and my anxiety and my fear now applies them. Sometimes everything goes for a pattern and bright and lovely. But suddenly there comes a break. Life has taught me that if I take this to me and are there when those I love needs me, then I shall go continue also in mourning and when everything changed. Life is not perfect. It's a great post - thank you for sharing your thoughts.

My dear Anne-Marie thai you for your gift of such a heartfelt comment. It is a beautiful thing... though we live on separate continents... and have never met... we can share so much in common in life. Thank you so much for your visit from Denmark..and leaving your gift of words.

It is difficult to live life as a very sensitive person. I know first hand. We feel pain and sadness so much more intensely than most people...but we also feel joy and beauty at a higher level. Now that is something to celebrate!

I defy the bitter and because I don't feel it so acutely right this minute, though it might be different in the next hour, I wish I could send you some peace. As for letting go of children ... I haven't made peace with that yet ! xoxo

I love that you defy the bitter... right now. This is truly my goal... while learning how to manage it properly when it does make a house call. Thank you for stopping by my dear... your visit is truly appreciated!

Oh the letting go of the children is really difficult!I KNOW that control is an illusion yet I do fall into that trap every now and again...You have written an honest and thought provoking post. Take care Hostess

It is always with a depth of pleasure that I receive when I visit your blog. This post in particular resonates strongly with me. I too must accept and come to terms with my limitations, failures and aging process. You are a divine voicebox for these wise words. Thank you, for both expressing bitter and sweet, always with such dignity, grace and eloquence .

This is the kind of post I wil read again and again. Well said! You are so lovely and talented and I have no doubt that you will handle whatever comes your way with grace and style. You are an inspiration to this old gal and I appreciate your candor.

And the beautiful poet speaks again. I'm thinking of printing these posts into a coffee table book display, now isn't that a SWEET thought? Thank you, dear friend, for opening your heart and soul for all of us to learn and grow from

I know what you are saying. My boys are getting older and yes it's so hard to let go, knowing they may not be making the safest or right choices.. Also, parents aging. Ahh, so tough. You are wise that we need to let go. Also, that we need to appreciate today. Always inspired coming here!xxKim

Dear Tamera,So glad I found you and these wonderful words. You have said everything I feel. I'm glad I'm not alone with my doubts, fears, ups and downs. I thought I was crazy. It's good to know there are others out there.Your newest UK follower.Dixoxo