I guess it depends on whether this is a "preference check box" on an electronic form, thus eliminating undesirables from the search, or an open ended, 'describe your ideal partner' question for interested parties to look at. Because I suspect the aforementioned people with homicidal tendencies would view the latter as a either a turn-on or a challenge .

Skari walks into the ship, throws a tattered purse across the space, her dress is smoke stained and burned away in a couple spots.
Mako: (leans down from the upper deck) "Did you have a good time?"
Skari: (growls as she pulls off her heels) "If you think a effing incendiary grenade is a good time."
Mako: "Again?"
Skari: (flings the shoes across the space to join the purse) "No, the incendiary is new, last one was a sticky."
Mako: (hopefully) "At least it was just coffee."
Skari: (stomps up the stairs in her bare feet) "I'm wearing my armor next time."

By the way, this is pretty much how almost all my stories look when I start them...too much conversation? Naaaahh!