Just So We’re Clear

I literally laughed out loud when I got this message this morning because I was given the example of students rolling their eyes. I always feel like saying, “Seriously, is that meant to be a protest, do you not understand something, too much information, unhappy in general….what? Spit it out.”

Our message is this. Body language is important. We have heard this message before referencing social media. All to often people get involved in arguments due to misunderstanding because they could not see the body language that told them it was a joke etc.

Today’s message tells us that if our body language does not match our words and deeds, we are not having effective communication. If we are grimacing while congratulating someone, they may not think we are sincere. If we have a confused look on our face while we say we understand, we are not instilling confidence. And visa versa. It goes both ways.

We are reminded today to make sure our body language matches our words if we want to effectively communicate. And if in communications with others their body language does not match their words, take the moment to get it cleared up. Don’t walk away with doubts that can mushroom into all kinds of thoughts that may or may not be true.