1. He stopped trying

He stopped trying to show me that he loved and wanted me. I was not seeking perfection, but that was even too low.

He was blatantly showing me he no longer cared.

It hurt and I tried for 2 months to hold us together, but I just could no longer. - Moji, 22

2. He didn’t defend me

We were supposed to go out and I was to drop by at his family home. Because I was all dressed and made up, I could not assist his mum with a little chore she was doing because I didn’t want to sweat and smear my makeup.

His mum began to disrespect me and he could not even say a word in my defense as I tried to explain to her.

We never fully recovered from the massive fight. He tried to work it out, but I was zoned out fom that instance.