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Why is it such a bad thing if spouses want to spoil each other?

Posted by Anonymous

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This isn't a spin-off of anything but I'm just thinking back to a conversation I had with my sister. She doesn't understand why couples spoil each other. And not even necessarily talking about material things. She believes that spoiling your spouse will inevitably lead to relationship problems because you are setting the bar too high on what to expect in the marriage. She's certainly entitled to her opinion although I think it's an odd one lol.

I don't think it's wrong either...My sister in law doesn't agree with me serving my husband...He doesn't expect it, I do it to show him my love...Heck he goes to work in the heat and cold, that's the least I can do...

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