Q: How did you come up with the idea for Father’s Day, and
for your characters, Harvey and her father Jason?

A: In a dream! I used to laugh when people said that, that
it would be full of rabbits riding bicycles. I dreamed I had an artificial leg
and was hobbling around a baseball field and my daughter was missing. At the
time she was 7 or 8. Any parent’s biggest fear is a child missing. In the
dream, I had such panic.

I thought, who is this character? The only person I knew
[who resembled this figure] was the guy who ran the IT department at the
university I went to. He was a loner, a heavy smoker. He unknowingly cast
himself in the role of Jason. You understand the strange alchemy.

Q: The novel includes various times in the characters’
lives. Did you write it in the order in which it appears in the book, or in
chronological order for the characters?

A: I didn’t write it chronologically. After, I moved bits
around, [when I figured out when a certain plot point] should be revealed. I
understood that the thing about the book was keeping myself out of it. My
natural style with language is to go over the top. I wanted to have a trace of
Jason’s vernacular.

Q: Did you know how the novel would end before you started
writing it, or did you make many changes along the way?

A: That came to me as I was writing. The ending I originally
submitted ended about a page before the ending now. My editor said it’s not the
right ending. After five books, I thought I had a handle on endings, but he was
100 percent right! I worked on the ending for several more weeks, and I and he
were happy with it. The reader’s supposed to know something the characters
don’t.

Q: How was the title chosen?

A: It’s the idea that fatherhood is more than just a genetic
entitlement, it’s an act of will. It’s a generic holiday, Father’s Day. It was
probably invented by a raging capitalist to make money on cards and tool boxes. But it’s important—it gives us a chance to recognize people…we recognize elders
within our tribe.

I wanted to give it a commercial title almost as a disguise.
I think it’s too disguised. Nobody said, I like what you did with the irony of
the corporate holiday!...

Q: Do you prefer writing novels or short stories?

A: I much prefer short stories, but novels are more
satisfying in a way. You get to develop the character the way you don’t in a
short story. In a novel, you can see the character through all sorts of development
and personality changes. Everything hinges on the tone in a short story.

Q: Why do you prefer short stories?

A: It’s like a Rubik’s Cube I can actually do! It takes me
maybe three weeks of tinkering. With a novel, there’s absolutely no sense of
completion until you’re a year in. It’s so hard—it’s like dealing with a
roomful of kids throwing up, and it’s all chaos, and then suddenly they’re all
sitting down, in suits, and it all comes together!

The hard part of being a writer is it’s work with no sense
of safety…It’s a strange process—with a normal job, you’re making progress, it’s your job, the boss is happy.

As a writer, you tie up a story with your own life,
almost as if you’ve impacted your life. In the middle of the night, you decide you’re going to
rearrange your drawer. In a book, it’s like unpacking your life at a time of
crisis and when you put it back you have to rearrange [things]. It’s like
constant self-therapy.

Q: What are you working on now?

A: Book two of a children’s series. It’s about a girl who
wakes up on a mysterious island and doesn’t remember anything about herself.
She’s found by an old person who takes her back to a cottage. She’s the next
keeper of lost things…she has to return things to people in history.

It’s fun to write because it’s not often you can sit in bed
in the middle of the day in your pajamas and write about mice rollerskating.
You can indulge any whim you have!

Q: Anything else we should know about Father’s Day?

A: The main theme of Father’s Day is overcoming anger. For a
lot of people, anger is the solution to things they faced in the past and felt
they had no control over.

People are saying, are you in touch with your feelings? If
people feel rage, it’s no good to be in touch with yourself, they just get in
trouble. How can they be in touch with themselves?

For someone like Jason, or a lot of decent men, they never
learned the tools to deal with themselves…Jason gets a second chance at life;
he has to give what he most needs: unconditional love, care, gentleness. It’s a
book about overcoming anger and terror and a terrible childhood, to making your
life pretty wonderful.

About Me

Author, THE PRESIDENT AND ME: GEORGE WASHINGTON AND THE MAGIC HAT, new children's book (Schiffer, 2016). Co-author, with Marvin Kalb, of HAUNTING LEGACY: VIETNAM AND THE AMERICAN PRESIDENCY FROM FORD TO OBAMA (Brookings Institution Press, 2011).