Yes, he clearly doesn't work out, or eat well - shots of him doing a KFC and Macca's run are testament to that - but the fact that he's being stalked by the paparazzi because his youngest offspring happens to be marrying into one of the world's most powerful families, must be anxiety-inducing for a man in his 70s who just wants a quiet life.

Markle has been plucked from obscurity in his Mexican hideaway - where he's probably gone to escape the glare of having an amazingly famous and beautiful daughter (even before she went and got engaged to an English prince) - to be thrust into the spotlight on a global scale.

While the royal family has certainly had a few wildcards thrown its way before - Fergie, anyone? - Markle Sr never asked for any of this. While it's part and parcel of being father of a soon-to-be princess, the intense publicity on a guy who has gone out of his way to avoid the spotlight is jarring.

His decision not to attend has left Meghan distraught, while Harry reportedly blames himself - and the media, who he's always had an uncomfortable relationship with.

Speculation is that Meghan's mum Doria Ragland, Markle ex-wife, will now walk her down the aisle, while other commentators say the bride will be lonely on her wedding day having only one family member attending, no adult bridesmaids, and no matron of honour.

But you know what? There is nothing wrong with having scant family in the pews when you say your 'I dos', even when the world's glare is upon you.

While it must be upsetting for Meghan that her dad will no longer attend, the main thing is that her future hubby is there, waiting at the end of the aisle. And who better than the loveable, fuzzy haired, really quite gorgeous Prince Harry?

At the end of the day, there is nothing more beautiful than to watch two people in love, saying their vows with all the excitement of a couple starting to build a life together.