I feel like I should have written way sooner, but then again, things happen in a timely manner, and so does my blog and it’s articles.

The last couple of months have been amazing. Mind blowing even!

I’m pretty sure I finally found THE way for staying on a high frequency and manifesting very fast therefore. Combined with my manifestion-buddy who I see on a daily basis, I just keep experiencing so many awesome things.

I had to start writing them down too since I just couldn’t believe the randomness of it all.

What I would like to share with you today, is something so simply but so profound. It is being mentioned everywhere, you probably see all the quotes on the internet, read it in books or somewhere else. And I’m also pretty sure that I have mentioned it already on here. But one thing is so important to be able to manifest your desire in your life!

THE BLISS!

You seriously need to take care of your own bliss. This is when the magic starts to happen.

I know it sounds easy. And it actually is!

I remember how I used to force myself to write gratitude-lists or tried thinking about one thing only (that I wanted to manifest) and actually starting to obsess over it.

However what I did not know or realize at the time was, that in order to manifest, you not only have to be clear about it, visualize it or write it down. You also need to feel good. Actually the better you feel and the more you are buzzing, the faster you manifest!

This was such a game changer!!!!!

Once I realized that, I started manifesting EVERYTHING within no time. Even my new car which I still love to drive. I made a little blog-series out of it which you can still read. 🙂

So yes, make sure you laugh a lot, you do things that make you happy, you surround yourself with people that make you happy and BOOM. You will start manifesting in no time.

I will write a little bit more in detail about it but for now….take care of your BLISS.

Today I would like to write a little bit about opportunities. I sometimes feel that opportunities are underestimated and looked over. This is obviously not helping when it comes to working towards your goals and dreams.

When you start manifesting and using the law of attraction, you will need to be able to recognize opportunities.

But how do you recognize them?
I made the following experience and thought this worked pretty well.

First we have to differentiate between two main factors:

Having a goal set

Having no goal set but having a vague idea in your head

The first one is way easier so I would highly recommend to get clear about your intention and future goal/dream. Go into as much detail as possible and make sure you can feel it. Imagine how it would feel like. Don’t get caught up in the “HOW”. We will never know HOW it will happen. This means you have to surrender and believe. (God, Universe, higher self….you name it).

Once you are clear about your goal/dream, you will start to notice things, comments and all sorts of things that you would normally not recognize but now you do. Many people also consider this as signs from the universe.

For example: if you have a certain object in mind (i.e car) that you want to manifest, you suddenly start to see the car-brand/model everywhere.

Or is it a country because you want to move there? How about suddenly seeing flags in relation to it or start hearing about someone who is from that country?

Or is it the new dream-partner you are manifesting? Can you suddenly see all the happy couples around you or notice that there is an advertisement for a single-meet up nearby? (also an opportunity!)

This is when opportunities start to happen! Some of those signs are simply opportunities. Very often we dismiss them because we are lazy or have some kind of excuse. Push out of your comfort zone and go for it.

Let’s say you have the following in mind:

You want a new, better job. (The definition of that job is up to you).

Suddenly you get a new message on LinkedIn about an job offer. Or you talk to a friend and that friend happens to mention a new job opening in their company without realizing you were looking for a new job.

We could easily dismiss that opportunity because you might have a specific job in mind and that wouldn’t suit you. However, are you fully sure? There is an opportunity! So before dismissing it, I highly recommend to look into it and think it over. Is it suitable? Could it lead to the next step?

Often we forget that many babysteps are needed in order to actually reach the big goal.

So are you after dismissing that babystep?

This also ties into the 2nd main factor when you only have a vague idea about your future goal/dream. It is mindfulness and awareness.

I would like to point out that practicing mindfulness and awareness has A LOT of benefits in every aspect of your life.

In this particular post and 2nd factor, it will help big time because:

If you are not fully sure about your future goal/dream, you will be still able to recognize any kind of opportunity in regards of it, because you are mindful and aware.

This means living your life in an aware state of mind. Seeing smelling/experiencing/feeling things , recognizing them, evaluating them and considering how to process the information.

By being very mindful and aware throughout your day, you will not miss a possible opportunity that will serve you reaching your goal. This can be so random and appears to be senseless, however it feels so right and good to do, so by trusting your gut and going for it (surrendering and believing) you will soon harvest the fruits of your planted seeds (in your mind/life/etc.).

I highly recommend to consciously start thinking about opportunities. To realize that they can come in every form and shape. It is essential no not judge and be open minded.

I hope this makes sense to you, my dear reader, and if you require any more information in regards of it, feel free to leave a comment below and I shall answer you J

Today I would like to share my thoughts about a movie that made me realise something important. It remembered me of something that I already experienced, and it is so re-assuring to see someone-else experiencing the same thing and being remembered of it. It is something that will keep happening throughout life.

To summarize it shortly:

It is about that fire in your soul. The passion! And the feelings that come with it once you follow it.

Let me get more into it.

The movie that inspired me to write this blog post, is called “Maidentrip”. It is about a 14-year old girl who decides to sail the world all by herself (and besides it, setting a new world record). She was born in New Zealand, however was growing up in the Netherlands and speaks Dutch. There has been a court case against her parents (and her) in regards of that idea because the court thought it would be too dangerous.

In the end, the girl and her family won and she was good to go. There is no laws who could stop her from doing so. And even if there was, I’m pretty sure she would have found a way around it.

For 2 years, this girl sails around the world. All on her own. You can see her footage in the movie, there was no follower-boats or people with her. In-between she stops in different countries to experience their culture and landscapes, hence she took her time and did the sailing in 2 years and non-stop (which would have been quicker).

What fascinated me the most:

The young age of this girl

Her willpower and being so content about her dream

Being so incredibly brave to sail the world on her own

Not being afraid to be on her own on the boat for long periods of times

Already knowing how beneficial it is to explore the world and different cultures

Following her dream and living her passion. Sailing!

I was truly impressed by that girl….just sailing around the world. On her own!

Afterwards I was asking myself: What impressed me the most and most importantly: Why did it impress me so much?

First of All: That girl and I share a common interest and passion: We both love the ocean. We love the marina life. We love boats and sailing/traveling on them. My heart sings by just thinking about it.

I deeply resonated with her and this movie because I could vividly feel the passion. I experience it myself every time I am “out on the water”.

Then there is also that fascination and gratefulness for HER because she is able to experience all that since she was basically born. She grew up with it and I think it’s the coolest thing ever to grow into your passion and be blessed with parents who already live it and get you naturally into it to. This thing we have not in common. In fact, I had to discover my passions for myself first. Work for them to make them possible and eventually experience them. She had to work for it too of course.

I do consider myself very lucky still, I’m in my 20’s and already did so many things in my life. Experienced so many different situations, cultures, countries and: PASSIONS.

I know now very well what makes my heart sing. Sometimes in-between I even discover something new that I really enjoy and “gets the fire burning. I am luckily to live them and get to live them. Not on a daily basis but this will happen eventually.

I was so grateful and happy for this young girl who is already able to do all that on a daily basis. At that young age. Isn’t that beautiful!? How amazing are her parents to provide her that possibility and support her along the way? It is just absolutely fantastic.

So this movie reminded me of exactly that. Made me reflect my own life again and realise how lucky I am too (different path) and how important it is to follow your calling or passion and do whatever your heart and soul desires. It is not always that easy but we can most certainly work towards it. With the right attitude and outlook on life you will 100% achieve just that.

I will look more into this topic and all around it. How to get there. How to discover your passion. And what to make of it.

I am so excited you guys, I seriously can feel the new car coming!! Before I start with today’s part, I would like to share 2 small success stories in relation to how I attract a car!
I hope this motivates you just as much as it does motivate me!

The other day I was driving along to meet my good friend who I haven’t seen for ages. I was so excited to see him and catch up, so I was in such a good mood. The frequency was up and buzzing!

Whilst driving there, I was noticing, that I haven’t seen any Suzuki’s (car I am attracting) lately and was wondering why. However, I was in such a good mood, that I quickly forgot about it.

2 minutes later a Suzuki passed me coming towards me!!! Exact same model and all. I just couldn’t stop smiling and thanked the universe, I clearly attracted this one by just thinking of it earlier.

Another few minutes passed and guess what. I SAW ANOTHER ONE on the way! I was actually laughing out loud and couldn’t believe it!! So I said: you know what: when I park to meet my friend later, lets see ANOTHER one!!

I quickly forgot about it again, so I continued to drive to my destination. Since I was waiting in the car for my friend, I had a good view of other cars nearby who were parking too.

And guess what!!!!!!!!!! The PERFECT Suzuki just drove in and parked right in front of me! It looked also so close to what I have in mind. I would have bought that one straight away! This was just incredible and I definitely couldn’t stop smiling anymore.

The 2nd story happened a few days later. To be honest, I’m so bad when it comes to being patient. So I noticed how my thoughts drifted off to another car sometimes and caught myself whilst I was thinking how much easier it would be to get this or that car or go with something different altogether. Because the model I want is rare enough to come by, especially with all my wishes and details haha.

I was really close to start looking for something else, just because I am not patient and finally wanted a new car.

BUT

I stopped it. It was so hard to do but I forced myself to stop thinking that and stop considering other cars. I had to remind myself of what I am doing at the moment.

And also: how could I write about this here and not following it through myself?

It was a bit hard to be honest but I kept focusing on the Suzuki and went on about my business.

That day I had to meet up with another friend as well and whilst I was waiting outside of his house…..GUESS WHAT: another perfect looking Suzuki just pulled up and turns out it’s his neighbours car!!!!!!! I was sooooooo shocked.

I knew this was the universe sending me a sign again or maybe I just rewarded myself somehow because I forced myself to stick to my plan instead of going the easy route and not sticking to my plan.

I was so happy afterwards, I tell ya!

SO let’s move on to part 4!

It is the part where you or a part of yourself, starts doubting the process. Where your head/mind thinks: this can’t be working, I have to figure out how it will work etc.

Basically you or part of you will start doubting this process. Especially when it comes to the HOW. You try to figure out how it could happen and basically manipulate yourself.

What also can happen is, that you get scarred. Part of you anyway. That part basically doesn’t want you to step out of your comfort zone and experience something new! Because it could be dangerous etc so it tries to protect you. However, it is important that you acknowledge that feeling and tell yourself that it is okay and nothing bad will happen.

This happens to me a lot! Because I often attract something unusual or something new that I haven’t experienced yet and a part of me immediately starts to freak because everything new is also scary sometimes.

Once you are aware of that, you can also work with it. This helps tremendously in the process.

Meditating will help here too.

So be sure to not suppress those feelings in the manifesting process. Let them out, acknowledge them, notice them and work with them if necessary. Be aware of what is going on because being aware will be the main key. You can then see what is going to happen next or what will feel right next.

In case you have any questions in regards of it, please comment below, I would be more than happy to help 🙂

I’m so excited to write about the next part….its part 3 of this blog mini-series.

Now…of course we won’t just sit around and wait for the Universe to drop our desire into our lap. Of course you have to do a small bit yourself. You need to take action!

Don’t forget though: It is not your job to figure out HOW your desire is going to be delivered to you. But you should be mindful about your actions in order to keep up the frequency and be able to receive.

If you have written down what kind of car you want and you keep focusing on how it will feel and how the car will smell and how it will look: GREAT! Keep doing it.

I personally get so excited by imagining my new car. I can see it so clearly in front of my eyes since I do it every day. I’m so excited to drive it and I can clearly feel how happy I am and that I will be buzzing in the new car because I know: I ATTRACTED IT.

But as I said, the new car won’t just land in front of your door without you doing much more.

By focusing on the new car and the exact model you want etc. you already make your brain aware. You will probably notice the same car/brand on the roads already and probably keep seeing them everywhere! This will show you, that you are on the right frequency and the universe is sending you signs that the car is indeed on its way to you.

Taking action means pretending and preparing for the arrival of your new car.

What I did so far to attract my new car: I bought a brand new air freshener (my favourite one of course). I bought brand new foot matts. I bought some small items and stickers that I want to put on the car. I keep checking car-sale-pages randomly to see if my car has arrived yet (if it has, I would ring the seller to go have a look at it and test-drive it).

I also made sure that I have my money (budget) ready! Which means as soon as I hear or see my new car for sale, I am ready to go and buy it.

All I need now is literally the car itself J

With small steps and actions like that, you shift yourself into the right mindset and onto the right frequency. This will help the universe to deliver your new car to you as fast as it can.

If it takes a few weeks, don’t be discouraged. Stick to your list and don’t compromise your wishes!

I’m so excited whilst typing this! Not long now and I will have my brand new car (well it’s a 2nd hand car but brand new for me still) J
Till later!!

Now today I gonna write about the energy. This is a major part in this process and will help to accelerate (or slow down) the attraction process.

In order to be as aligned with the universe as possible, it is important that you FEEL good. Positive thoughts alone are sometimes not enough, you also gotta feel it!

I would nearly go as far and say: as long as you don’t feel somewhat happy/good, don’t write down the list of details at all (part 1). The better you feel, the better you will attract.

If you are thinking about your desire or you are not sure yet what exactly it is, follow your inner guide. If a certain topic comes into your mind (for example: I will attract more money) : Does this feel good? Or do you feel a knot in your chest when thinking of money?

If you feel good and get excited: that’s the right path! Figure out by asking yourself, in which direction it will go. Does it feel awesome to say “I will attract 10.000€” or even better when you say 100.000€? Or is it feeling not so realistic to you and you feel more comfortable by saying “I attract 2.000€”?

Its important to follow your guts here and stick with what feels right. Of course everybody would love 100.000€ but if it doesn’t feel right you wont be able to attract it. Believe me, I have been there haha.

By asking yourself these questions and listening to your feelings and observing your body’s reaction, you will be able to find the alignment that is right for you at the moment. Not to mention how fast things will come into your life too!!

Besides that, it is of course important, that you feel good in general. The happier and positive you feel, the easier you will keep up the faith and trust the universe. Which means it will come into your life easier and attracts faster!!

This was a hard and looooooong lesson for me to learn to be honest. I always wanted, what my EGO wanted. And as fast as possible. I never listened to my inner self to see what I actually really wanted or needed. Hence the attraction process took sometimes forever or just never happened. Which is very frustrating of course.
I hope it wont take you as long as me (years!!) to figure this out, so here is my post for you 🙂

In case you are not feeling well or happy, just make sure to do things that cheer you up. Meet up with friends, watch a funny movie, do one of your hobbies.

And once again, the above applies: if you THINK this or that makes you happy but it doesn’t feel like it. IT WONT. No matter how funny an idea sounds to you but if your inner feeling or a random thought pops into your head (and it feels good): FOLLOW IT AND DO IT.

Today is Part 1 of this mini-series. Inspired by my friend and by my own little signs & success, I would like to help you attracting your desire as well.

The first step is properly one of the most important ones: Decide and Declare your Desire!

Since I am currently in the process of getting a new car, I will use my new car as an example.

I started with these steps last week.

Number 1:

Take about 5-10 Minutes and think about your next desired object or outcome.

I wrote down a detailed list about what car I want to attract. Here is an example of my list:

I am calling in a:

Suzuki (from year 05 onwards)

Dark colour (black, blue or dark grey)

Tinted windows

Less than 150.000 KM on it

Mechanically in perfect condition

Something along the lines. As you can see, I didn’t decide on the colour yet. The reason: I like all three of the colours and wouldn’t mind if it’s one of them. If you only like one specific colour, then just write that colour down and focus on that one. The more details the better!

Once you have written down all your details, close your eyes and visualise the car (or whatever you choose). Visualise how it will feel once you have it. Enjoy this feeling and make sure it makes you really excited. Make sure that it is something that you really really want. A burning desire!

Once you have focused on what exactly you are asking from the universe, you can then just put away the list or try get the perfect picture and put it up on a vision board. In my case I don’t have a picture because I want my car to look different and with what I have in mind, there is no picture around. So I will keep visualising it but I have my own reminders every day.

When you are finished with this exercise, declare it!

Tell your friends and family about it! Tell people, no matter who, or do it like me (additionally) and declare it in your blog. Or Social media! Make sure it feels real and right. Maybe it feels way too weird to speak it out loud or you feel uncomfortable with it. If that is the case I would suggest to sit down again and make sure this is really what you want. Or maybe it just needs to be in a different version like different colour, different brand, and slightly different outcome. The better you feel when talking about it, the more it will make sense and you align your energy with the universe. If it doesn’t feel right (yet) it might not be the time (yet).

So here it goes!

I DECLARE MY WISH TO THE UNIVERSE: A SUZUKI SWIFT

That’s it! It’s that easy!

Since I don’t have a time-window for when I want the car, I just leave that open.

The Universe will deliver the perfect lil car for me whenever the timing is perfect!

Now: Of course that’s not it. And it wont just happen like that. But this is a very good start!

In my next part I will write about how you need to feel it. How to get the energy right. To let the universe deliver your wish.

I decided to share my on-going experience with you and since I am in the process at the moment, I thought I will share it straight away.

There is already thousands of books and blog-posts about how to use The Law of Attraction. I think that is awesome!!!
Would you believe that after 7 years consciously using it, I still have to tweak around my process of how I attract things best? Sounds crazy but its not that crazy.

We change the whole time and we experience different things in life that will shape us and lead us to new thoughts, feelings, opinions and so on. Something that might have worked for you years ago, doesn’t work anymore. A natural process.

I’m in the middle of such a phase, my life has changed big time since last year since i focused a lot on LIVING LIVE. Just as my blog-title says. And with circumstances that changed, I changed a lot as a person.

I discovered that my old ways of how I attract things into my life, don’t necessarily work as well anymore. Or not as good. Some more things need to be filled in and I am currently right in the middle of it.

I thought I will go and share my experiences.

Im deeply inspired and motivated my friend Annika who is also known as “The Light Maiden”. Her homepage is:

I would like to share something with you, that impressed me a lot lately.

Of course we all know, that kindness doesn’t cost a thing and that it is a wonderful thing to be kind and to receive kindness.

It makes you feel so much better. Especially when you give. Being kind really doesn’t cost a thing. I personally try to be kind and do “random acts of kindness” at least once a day. It doesn’t always happen but even if its something small or a compliment etc. – it will improve someones day and I really like doing it!

Definitely try to choose kindness consciously for yourself. It will automatically come back to you somehow.

And today I would like to write about exactly this. When kindness comes back to you and you are the receiver rather than the giver.

It is so normal and “standard” for me to be kind to people without expecting anything back, that it always blows me away, when I receive some random act of kindness in return.

It doesn’t matter how small it is, I’m always so genuinely happy and grateful about the smallest acts of kindness.

Recently I was in Germany for holidays and experienced a lot of kindness over there. I never thought that Germans are as friendly and kind but I definitely changed my mind after my experience. Maybe this was down due the area etc., i really don’t know. But it was great.

It was the day when i was leaving Germany again. I had to get up really early (around 6.00 AM) to catch my bus (1,5hrs aka 170KM to the airport). I had everything booked and organised.

When I was at the bus-stop, it turned out that the bus had 2 hours delay, which meant i would never make it in time to the airport. Everything was planned and organised so it would line up perfectly. However, I did not plan the bus delay.

So I went to the train station nearby and asked the lovely lady at the Information-stand if she could help me and tell me which train or other bus would be leaving soon. She named me a few, but even though it was the fastest option, they still would have not arrived in time, in fact, after my flight was due.

I started to freak out a little at this stage. When i tried to postpone my flight, it was also not possible, since it was less than 3 hours to my flight now.

I was getting stressed more and more and really close to freaking out. The lovely lady remained really calm and tried to help me as much as she could. This was so nice of her and first awesome experience of the day.

Then I ran up to a car rental place (my last chance really). Turns out they had a car available and all seemed ok-ish, so I went ahead and booked it. However, suddenly my bank decided to security-block my card and I couldn’t pay. With time getting less and less now, I once again started to freak out because I also couldn’t go through the bank-phone-line which meant i was completely stuck. I couldn’t pay.

The guy who was handling my car- rental, also remained extremely calm, tried to calm me down and with his presence being very relaxed and nice in general, it genuinely helped me to not lose the plot completely.

Eventually i got everything sorted which meant i had to drive 170km in preferably less than 1.5 hours to still make it.

Being under a lot of stress and time pressure at this stage, i drove all the way very very fast (average 150km/h) which meant that I actually did some good time. I started to relax a little again but then i got caught in a traffic jam due an accident.

After 20 very long and painful minutes later, I was able to drive on again. You might can imagine how freaked out I was at this stage due the time delay.

I also took the wrong entrance-turn to the airport, so more stress and pressure. When i eventually found the drop off area for the rental-car, I had to queue in front of a parking gate. Twist plot: there was 5 more cars queued right in front of me.

Besides the fact that i still had to go through the security check and was really late now (20 minutes left til the flight!!!), i actually lost it.

I was queuing behind the cars and couldn’t believe that I actually made it that far. Just for the other people in front of me holding me up to drop the rental car and run in. I was sitting in the car and for the first time ever, loosing it completely. This included me looking up praying for some miracle, hammering down on the steering wheel and just screaming my frustration of.

Now, this leads me up to the 3rd and probably kindest person of the day.

A guy who was in front of me in his car, must have seen me freaking out. Because he stepped out of his car (which made me stop immediately to not look ridiculous of course), but it was already too late, he saw me freaking out!

He walked up to my window and started to talk to me. He told me to take a deep breath, just calm down a bit and that everything is going to be okay. He genuinely looked worried about me and tried to help me as best as he could.

And this really blew me away!! I was so shocked of him being so genuinely concerned about me (a complete stranger!) that i stopped freaking out.

A 2nd guy then helped me as well to skip the queue so I can drop of the car faster!!!!! How nice was that?????????????

On top of it, some nice people in the security-check-queue let me also skip the queue and believe it or not, i just about made the flight!!

Only afterwards I started to reflect on all those nice and kind people and I wish i would have the chance to genuinely thank them for that.

This helped me to not completly go crazy and remain somewhat okay whilst being under so much stress and time pressure.

Isnt it amaizng how much an act of kindness can influence and help a person?

To wrap this story of:

Always remember to be kind. It really doesn’t cost a thing and can help someone SO MUCH. You will never know. And also: somehow the Universe will return the kindness and help you out as well. Its a win-win for everybody!! 🙂

I most certainly will always do my best to be kind and helfpul. Still amazed!