I am deeply grieved to report to you the tragic news we feared is a
reality. Dave Arnold,Class of 1965,
husband of the Head
Cheerleader of 1965, Pam Smith
Arnold ('65) of VA, passed away in
Richmond, Virginia on
Saturday, July 21, 2012 three weeks before his 65th birthday from injuries
sustained in an automobile accident.

His brother, Spencer
Arnold,Hampton High School Class of 1948, predeceased him by
seven months:

Hello Carol, and thank you for
the information. How sad to hear of Dave's passing. It seems that in a
few days there will be a class reunion to celebrate Dave's life and give
comfort to his family as best we can. In the words of an old spiritual
hymn, "When the Roll Is Called Up Yonder, I'll Be There." It seems that
Dave has taken his place already and can answer "present" to that roll
call today.

Malcolm and Polly Davis

Thank you, Malcolm and Polly - and a special thank you for suggesting
the hymn to attach to Dave's Memorial Newsletter.

WILLIAMSBURG - David 'Dave' Lee Arnold departed from this world on July
21, 2012.

Dave served his country in the Air Force Reserve, during Vietnam, as a
Pararescue Jumper. He was a patrol officer with York County before
transferring to the Virginia Peninsula Regional Jail, when it opened. He
served there until his death. Dave will be remembered as a good, kind man,
who was willing to help anyone. Many will remember his dry sense of humor,
which entertained and which he was usually able to maintain despite adverse
circumstances. He will be sorely missed by all who knew him.

In lieu of flowers, Dave would want you to donate to a charity of your
choice in his honor. He was a very giving man.

The family will receive friends at 5 p.m. Thursday, July 26, at Peninsula
Funeral Home, Newport News, with a memorial service beginning at 6 p.m.

Peninsula Funeral Home is in charge of arrangements. View and post condolences on our online guestbook at
dailypress.com/guestbooks.

Published in the Daily Press from July 24 to July 26, 2012.
View Guest Book (in reverse order)

August 19,
2012

Pam, I just found out and am so sorry to hear the news. I remember
Dave's kind words when Chip passed away 2 years ago. Sometimes
things happen in this world that just don't seem right. You have my
deepest sympathy and empathy.

I'm
sad to hear of Dave's passing. My favorite memories were of times at
NNHS, being in the band, and cruising the neighborhood to "visit"
friends. He was always a sweetie with great playful eyes and a good
friend for all of us.

~ Anne Korycinski Catron, Carrollton, Virginia

August 03, 2012

I am
saddened to hear of Dave's passing. I met Dave at my first VARJ
meeting. Dave gave me his business card and told me to call him if I
needed anything. With that said, I did. He gave me some guidance on
what I need to do as a new training sergeant. I am thankful for
that. God places people in our paths for a reason and I am blessed
to be able to be able to say that I met Dave. God bless the Arnold
family. He will be missed.

~ Katrina Morris, Roanoke, Virginia

August 01, 2012

Words can not express my sadness in learning of the passing of Capt.
Arnold. "Just call me Dave" is what he would always tell me when we
talked on the phone. He was an exceptional man of profound moral
character and I will always admire him for his willingness to help
others. I always looked forward to seeing Dave at the VARJ meetings
and annual conference; he will be missed in the VARJ community.

My deepest sympathies go out to his family.

~ Lt. Will Fowler (PRJ), Chester, Virginia

August 01, 2012

It is
with great regret that I learned of Dave's passing. Though I only
knew him through his involvement with the Virginia Association of
Regional Jails, he always had a positive attitude, was quick to
lighten the atmosphere with his wit, and was was a good instructor.
I am certain that he will be greatly missed.

~ Nathan Webel, Richmond, Virginia

July 31, 2012

Pam and
Family, I was so sad to hear of Dave's passing.. He was truly one of
the nicest guys at NNHS...I know that you have many wonderful
memories and I pray that they will give you comfort during the days
ahead. God bless you and your family.

~ Dianne (Adams) Puckette, Newport News, Virginia

July 31, 2012

I shoot
with Dave and worked shoulder to shoulder with him, a finer man I
have yet to meet. I am saddened to learn of his passing and surely
hope I get to meet up with him again in the hereafter.

~ Keith Milberger, Frisco, Texas

July 30, 2012

Pam
and Family...
The man is a success who has lived well, laughed often, and loved
much; who has gained the respect of intelligent men and the love of
children; who has filled his niche and accomplished his task; who
leaves the world better than he found it, whether by an improved
poppy, a perfect poem, or a rescued soul; who never lacked
appreciation of earth's beauty or failed to express it; who looked
for the best in others and gave the best he had. We know Dave was
all this and more... he will be missed... Thinking of you keeping
you in our thoughts and prayers

~ Lorri & Noel Veden, Williamsburg, Virginia

July 30, 2012

To Pam
and Family, Our deepest sympathies on your loss.

~ Sandy and Tim Modesitt, Naperville, Illinois

July 30, 2012

Pam,

So sorry about your sad loss, Pam. I ran into MaryAnne over the
weekend, and she shared that Dave had been involved in a terrible
accident. How terrible for the Arnold family. I told Dad last
evening, and he wanted me to extend his deepest sympathies to you.

Take Care.

Nancy McCool (Jack McCool's daughter)

~ Nancy McCool, Williamsburg, Virginia

July 29, 2012

Dear
Pam,
Sending my sincere sympathy to you and Dave's family. May your faith
and the memories you cherish sustain you.

~ Harriet Bolden Stout, Mechanicsville, Virginia

July 28, 2012

Pam,

I am so sorry to learn of Dave's passing. It is a terrible shock to
all who knew him. Those of us who knew him during our high school
years at NNHS and after, will truly miss him. My prayers are with
you and your family.

Pam,
I grew up with Dave, a block away from "Pop
Arnold's Esso Station" & in NNHS. He was one of the nicest
guys I ever knew. May your fond memories of the times you had
together carry you through these bad times. He will be missed by
everyone whose lives he touched. He was such a great guy -so kind to
all, and always so nice, and friendly with every one.

My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family and will
continue to be at this time.

God Bless.

~ Brenda Insley, Henrico, Virginia

July 27, 2012

Dear
Pam and Family, Please know that you are in our thoughts and
prayers.

~
Jim and Carolyn Davis

July 27, 2012

May God
receive you with the kindness and love you gave to everyone whoever
new you.

~ Clifford Regan, Williamsburg, Virginia

July 26, 2012

Pam
and family, I am so sorry for the loss of Dave. When we moved to NN
in the 50's my Dad worked part-time for Pop Arnold at his ESSO
station and I got to know Dave then. He was always so nice to
everyone and I appreciated him for remembering who I was when I went
to NNHS. Although I haven't seen either of you since high school, I
have kept up with you through Carol's website and was so happy to
see you had married. You will be in my thoughts and prayers as you
and your family adjust to life without this wonderful man!

I am
sorry to hear of the passing of Capt. Arnold. I pray that you, his
family, will find peace in this time of loss. My prayers are with
you.

~ Diane Green, Williamsburg

July 26, 2012

Sorry about Dave; he will be missed by all.

~ Frank Lovell cccc

July 26, 2012

As the
Occupational Physician for the VPRJ, I had the pleasure to work with
Captain Arnold many times over the last dozen years. I always
enjoyed his fine sense of humor, and admired his concern for the
welfare of the employees I was caring for.

I extend my sincere condolences to his family, friends, and
co-workers. He will be dearly missed.

~ Dr. Michael Levine, Williamsburg, Virginia

July 26, 2012

Uncle
Dave, Thanks for the memories! I love you and will miss you.
Leesa Arnold Strange

~ Leesa Strange, Meshoppen, Pennsylvania

July 26, 2012

My
deepest sympathy to Dave L. Arnold’s family. You are in my prayers
and thoughts.

~ Gisela Sodorsky, Frankfurt, Germany

July 26, 2012

I join
all the others who have expressed sorrow at Dave's passing. I only
knew him from the reunions, where he always had a ready smile and a
welcome for everyone. My Dad was a good friend of "Pop" Arnold and
Ruby. May they have a blessed reunion in Heaven, where there is no
sorrow or pain. Love to Pam and family.

~
Jean Burton nnhs'64, Rhode Island

July 26, 2012

My
deepest sympathy and regards to Capt. Arnold's family and loved
ones. Your loss is unimaginable to me. I only knew him for a little
more than 5 years... but miss him immensely. Always kind, caring and
willing to help those in need - whether it be for paperwork
problems, directions, guidance or any type of questions, I and
others always received the help sought without the feeling as if we
were 'bothering him'. Any given day, you could almost count on Capt.
Arnold to be in his office quietly working away on VPRJ business. I
so wish he was still there, here - and my prayers go out for you,
his dear ones. May The LORD reunite you in Heaven one day... Heaven:
no good-byes there. and no tears. just LOVE, Joy, and Loved ones.

~ Cpl. C. Wiseman, Williamsburg, Virginia

July 26, 2012

Pam,
our sincere condolences on the loss of Dave. Our thoughts and
prayers are with your family at this sad time.

~ Judy and Alan Nesbitt, Fairview, North Carolina

July 26, 2012

MY
CONDOLENCES GOES OUT TO THE FAMILY, FRIENDS, AND CO-WORKERS FROM
V.P.R.J. I WILL ALWAYS REMEMBER CAPTAIN ARNOLD AS A NICE AND KIND
MAN WITH A BIG SMILE. THANKS FOR THE LITTLE TIME THAT WE SHARED AT
V.P.R.J. SIR YOU WILL BE GREATLY MISSED. MAY GOD BLESS AND KEEP YOUR
FAMILY IN HIS LOVING CARE.

My
sympathy to Dave's wife and loved ones.. you are in my prayers. Few
could have esteemed family, friends and community more than he. I
know his 'NNHS alumni community' will miss his special gifts and
presence greatly. As some of his friends have noted, I also share a
Hampton birth-day with Dave. Blessings on all he knew and loved.

~ Bonnie Loughran-Marshall, (from Hampton)

July 26, 2012

My
prayers go out to Mrs. Arnold and family. He was a kind person.

~ Barbara Knighten, Hampton, Virginia

July 26, 2012

First I would like to offer my condolences to the Arnold family. The
name Dave Arnold was mentioned so many times by my parents as I was
growing up, he felt like family. As I began my career in public
safety, I would call on Dave frequently for advice or just simply to
bounce ideas. Now, in the later stages of my career, our discussions
turned to talk of family and friends. Dave was a wonderful friend
and mentor, and I will miss him dearly. Rest well, brother.

~ Rodney Ware, Jr., Williamsburg, Virginia

July 25, 2012

Pam,

Dave and I knew each other nearly all our lives. Our fathers were
Exxon Oil dealers and friends, though Dave and I did not become
close friends until the mid 70's due to our age difference. We were
almost inseparable for about 15 years, traveling to shoots, training
and developing USPSA together. Dave was like the big brother I never
had until I left Virginia in the late 1980's.

Dave was the best man at my wedding in Colorado to Lorrie in 1989.
Lorrie and I both loved Dave and there could not have been anyone
else to stand by my side.

I only wish I had kept better touch over the years with Dave since
moving to Colorado and now Texas.

I cannot express my sorrow in his passing. I pray for your comfort
and know that Dave is in a place he will rest in peace and love.

~ Lloyd and Lorrie Harper, Haslet, Texas

July 25, 2012

Dearest Pam,
I am so saddened to hear of Dave's death. My prayers go out to you
and all of the family that dearly loved Dave. God bless you. Love to
you,

We
are so sad to hear of David's passing. It was a pleasure to meet
him. We appreciate so much the assistance he provided to the
Daughters of the Confederacy with a cannon salute during our
celebration of the Battle of Williamsburg in May of this year. Our
thoughts and prayers are with the family. Warmly, Margaret Harris,
President-Elect, Williamsburg Chapter UDC

~ Margaret Harris, Gloucester, Virginia

July 25, 2012

Sorry
for your loss. He was a good friend of mine and will be missed. I
will miss our talks and joking around. May God bless you and your
family.

~ Michael Taylor, Hampton, Virginia

July 25, 2012

My
condolences to the Arnold family. My husband works at VPRJ, however
I know him from when he participated at Fort Eustis showing his
mercedes on Super Day. He was a great person and will be missed.

~ Marion Taylor, Hampton, Virginia

July 25, 2012

Sincere
sympathy to you and your family. Everyone will miss Dave.

~ Ed Lovell Family (Classic Cruisers Car Club)

July 25, 2012

Captain
Dave Arnold will be missed by so many. He was a great man and was
always there to help. I pray that the Arnold family finds peace and
is able to move on, living life as Dave would have wanted you all
to. Captain Arnold will be missed by an entire department, as well
as many others.

~ Corporal Matt Sayre, Hampton, Virginia

July 25, 2012

Our
hearts are saddened by the loss of Dave. We pray that each day ahead
will bring you and yours a measure of comfort. May the Saints and
Holy Ones of God Welcome Him to the Heavenly Jerusalem.

~ Buena W. Reese Peninsula ASAP Board Associate,
Hampton, Virginia

July 25, 2012

Capt.
Arnold was always willing to provide assistance to me when I
transitioned over to the training department. His gentle smile and
reassuring way will be missed. He was a tremendous asset to this
world. Our hearts and prayers are with the family of VPRJ. From the
training department family of Hampton Roads Regional Jail.

~ Lt. Desaline Perry, Portsmouth, Virginia

July 25, 2012

Pam:

Words cannot express how deeply saddened we are at the loss of such
a special person. God must have needed "Angel Dave" in Heaven more
than we needed him here on earth - He works in mysterious ways, but
trust in Him.

We are in Florida until August and will not be able to attend the
services on July 25 - but we will be with you in spirit.

Love and prayers - may God bring you peace and comfort as you adjust
to life without your wonderful husband, Dave.

Marilyn & Chuck Springfield

~ Chuck & Marilyn Springfield, Newport News, Virginia

July 25, 2012

Prayers
to you, Pam, and your family

~ Rick Billings, Concord, North Carolina

July 25, 2012

To
The Arnolds, One thing for sure, "God " makes no mistakes. Treasure
the moments. He truly will be missed. The Classification Department
VPRJ.

~ SANDRA THOMPSON, HAYES, Virginia

July 25, 2012

Our
heart and prayers go out to you and your family. Capt. Arnold will
be missed by The VPRJ Records Department. Ms. Marshall, Ms.
Williams, Mrs. Green, Cpl. Watkins, and Lt. Moore

~ Williamsburg, Virginia

July 25, 2012

Dave and
I worked together in C&P Marketing and our common bond was our
military background. It was a joy working with him and he made the
job fun. During his years in the York County Sheriff's Dept he
assisted my family on a personal matter regarding my son. I shall
never forget that kindness which reflected of him as a man. He will
be deeply missed but established a living legacy for us all to
follow. With our regards to his family Tom and Rosa Walton,
Richmond, Va.

~ Tom and Rosa Walton

July 25, 2012

Pam
and all family, We were so sorry to learn about Dave's tragic
accident and death. We go back to the 70's as Terry and Dave were
associated with several different groups. Dave was always so
interesting, knowledgeable and personable. Even if we had not seen
him for years, we could catch up immediately. Try to remember the
good times. You will remain in our thoughts and prayers.

~ Kitty & Terry Heffington, Newport News, Virginia

July 25, 2012

Prayers go out to the Arnold family. Capt. Arnold was a mentor to me
and many others at VPRJ. He will be greatly missed!

~ Kevin Roane, Williamsburg, Virginia

July 25, 2012

Dear
Pam,
I am so sorry that you have lost Dave. He was such a kind soul and
he was always nice to be around.
Love to you all,

~ Karen Richardson Dilley

July 25, 2012

Pam,
I was heart broken to hear about Dave. I last saw him in Walgreen’s
a few weeks ago;, for those who really knew Dave they would
understand his sense of humor. Dave and I share the same birthday,
August 12. He yelled across the store wishing me an early birthday
wish, we talked and I left with a smile on my face. Dave will truly
be missed. Frank Brookman

Dave
and I grew up together. We went to college at the same time then
sort of lost track of one another until several years ago. Pam, Dave
and I all treasured our time at NNHS and planning for our reunions.
I will always remember fondly our times together. My thoughts and
prayers are with Pam and the family.

Pam &
Family, We were so sorry to hear of Dave's passing. Some of our
fondest memories shared are shooting cannons and muskets, and
sitting around the campfire at night in Winchester laughing and
telling tales. He will be sorely missed.

~ Jamie & Melanie West

July 25, 2012

Dave was
a good friend and was always there when I needed him to assist me on
a case. When I would call on Dave, he would drop what he was doing
to make sure I had everything I needed. I will never forget my
friend and the smile on his face. He was a "brother in law
enforcement" to officers everywhere.

~ Jeff Vellines, Williamsburg, Virginia

July 25, 2012

I am so
sorry to hear about Dave's passing and my thoughts are with Pam and
the family.

~ Cortney West, Poquoson, Virginia

July 25, 2012

Dear Pam,
My memories of Dave go back so many years, as the rest of the NNHS
group. He was so kind to me in high school. Now I can add Charles to
the list of those who have such wonderful memories of Dave. We had
the opportunity to spend time with you and Dave laughing, listening
to his great stories, serious moments and when he held my
granddaughter on the day that she was born. He will truly be missed.
Thank you for the many memories! Love,

~ Pauline and Charles Shofner

July 25, 2012

Pam

I am so very sorry to hear of Dave's passing. My thoughts and
prayers are with you and family

~ Rick Harman, Hampton, Virginia

July 24, 2012

~ Sherry and Zack Castellaw, Yorktown, Virginia

July 24, 2012

Pam and
Family, sending my deepest sympathy and condolences to you at this
most difficult and sad time. God blessed you with a wonderful
husband and I pray that you will find peace and comfort in the sweet
memories. It has been years since I have seen Dave and I mostly
remember him as a young boy (before HS) growing up in the same
neighborhood. Even then at such a young age, he was a genuinely nice
person. My husband met Dave in more recent years through York County
and, like everyone else, had nothing but kind words to describe him.
Please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers.

Faye & Mike

~ Faye (Merritt) Houk, Hampton, Virginia

July 24, 2012

Our
deepest condolences, Pam, to you and the family, at this time of
great loss. May you all find comfort in the love you shared.

Carla (née Fine) & Ray

~ Carla Cripps, Hallett Cove, South Australia

July 24, 2012

Pam,
there are no words to convey how deeply saddened and shocked to
learn of Dave's passing. Please know that I am praying for you and
his family. I only got to visit with him briefly at our last reunion
but felt like I had know him for years. He was so warm and kind,
with a little funny thrown in. I know how much he will be missed.

~ Bridget (Whitt) Jones, Little Rock, Arkansas

July 24, 2012

Our
deepest sympathy goes to the Arnold's family and prayers on it's
way. May the good Lord be with you in Heaven, Captain Arnold Sir. I
salute thee!!!

~ K. Westmoreland, White Marsh, Virginia

July 24, 2012

Pam
and family,
Another great loss to us all but especially to you. You, all, are in
my prayers; that peace comes to your hearts and love of our Father
keeps you strong in the knowledge we will be together again. With
love....

~ Linda May Crayton, Hampton, Virginia

July 24, 2012

Ms
Pam and family: sorry to hear about your great loss and ours too (VPRJ
staffs). May he find Peace and Happiness with our good Lord in
Heaven. Prayers goes out to you and your love ones.

~ KK Westmoreland, White Marsh, Virginia

July 24, 2012

Pam,
Like so many others have stated, there are no words to express the
shock and sadness we all feel from Dave's accident and passing. He
was definitely a true gentleman in every sense of the word. Even
though we didn't see each other except for our reunions, he will be
missed by so many people. May God be with you and your family and
help you heal from your loss.

Pam,
My condolences to you and your family. I was lucky to have known
David Lee for 33 years. He always had a twinkle in his eye and a
quick funny wit. When we would ride the C&P carpool from Denbigh to
Norfolk, he would keep me entertained when he wasn't in the back
seat asleep. He really was a Southern Gentleman who did not suffer
fools. I know he is sitting on a cloud with Ruby, looking down on
all of us, now. And he is saying,"..Get back to work, Anderson!" We
loved him and will miss him.

I met Dave at the
Jefferson Davis Birthday celebration this June. I'm sorry I did not
get to know him. He was very kind to this new member of the SCV. Had
a good tale or two. He was very knowledgeable.

Pam,
Sorry for your loss. You and yours are in our thoughts and prayers.
~ Paul Bonamer
Contact Me

July 24, 2012

I'm
so sorry to hear about Dave. He was a splendid person who'll be
missed by so many people. My condolences to Pam and all their loved
ones.

~ Joel Fisher, LA, California

July 24, 2012

I am
deeply saddened to hear of Captain Arnold's passing. He was a good
man and will be greatly missed. My thoughts are with his family as
well as my fellow VPRJ co-workers during this difficult time.

~ Tonya Marafka, Hampton, Virginia

July 24, 2012

Pam,
Jerry and I are sick at heart over the news of Dave. We all have
lost someone special. Jerry and I have been talking about Dave and
remembering high school days and all the great memories of football,
band, double dating and surprise birthday parties.... Dave was such
a special support when Monty was going through his battle with
cancer. Jerry's dad, Howard Hodnett, Jr., is so sad, too. He had
many good times with Dave at car club events. Dave was so kind to
sit and talk with him frequently. Dave will be missed by so many!
We pray that God will comfort you at this time. Please know that
your Typhoon Family loves you and supports you at this time.
God bless you and yours!
Jerry and Judy

Pam,
I am so very sorry for your loss. Dave was one of a kind, but no one
needs to tell you that! He will be missed by many!

~ Mike Miller, Cary, North Carolina

July 24, 2012

Pam,
may God give you comfort and peace. Our thoughts and prayers got out
to you the family, frends,and co-workers. Dave will be deeply
missed.

~ Michael Eaves, Williamsburg, Virginia

July 24, 2012

Sorry to hear of Dave's passing, he was a great guy.

~ Dan Lively, Williamsburg, Virginia

July 24, 2012

Pam
and family…Merle and I have been broken hearted since hearing of
Dave's passing. He was a wonderful guy who always brightened
everyone's day with his sense of humor and positive attitude. I knew
Dave both personally and professionally, and he was always the
consummate gentleman. Our prayers are with you through this
difficult time.
Love, Dennis and Merle Ivey.

Pam,
I'm not sure what to say......this was such a shock to hear. I pray
that the good Lord will wrap His loving arms around you and provide
you the strength, comfort and peace that only He can provide. You'll
be in my prayers.

I am
so sorry to hear about the passing of Dave; he was a very, very
great man and a good friend to our family for over 50 years ...Dave
will be very, very much missed. Gary Harris

~ Gary Harris, Maui, Hawaii

July 24, 2012

We
are so very sorry to hear of the Dave's death. I worked with Dave,
and Herman was a friend from the Lafayette Gun club. Our condolences
to Pam and the children.

~ Betty McCloud, Newport News, Virginia

July 24, 2012

I
have had the pleasure of calling Dave my friend since 1975. Rarely
have I encountered such a principled, generous, and kind man.
Godspeed-
I will miss you, my friend.

~ Linda Walsh, Poquoson, Virginia

July 24, 2012

Pam
- Our hearts go out to you and your family. While we only knew you
both for a very short time, it was clear that Dave was a kind and
giving man. We are heartbroken for you at the loss of your beloved
husband. (Your former Exmoor neighbors)

~ Sue and Steve Xander, Williamsburg, Virginia

July 24, 2012

Dear
Pam and Family, We send you our love. Please be comforted in the
knowledge that you are joined with many today who grieve Dave's
passing. We move from life to everlasting life in only an instant.
Amazing! God's grace gives us hope and peace that passes all
understanding even in times like these. Bless his soul and bless
your heart as you prepare to say one last goodbye to your beloved.
Allow the presence of those who attend the service to embrace his
legacy and comfort your emotions. You are not alone. Sincerely,
Malcolm and Polly

~ Malcolm and Polly Davis, Newport News, Virginia

July 24, 2012

I am
so sorry to hear about Dave's passing and my thoughts will be with
Pam and their family.

~ Kim Lassiter, Chillicothe, Ohio

July 24, 2012

In
reading all of the thoughts being sent your way, Pam, I can only add
that Dave touched so many, many lives in such a good and positive
way. He was such a wonderful guy whose memory will live on in all
who knew and loved him. I'm so sorry for your loss but so happy that
the two of you found each other and spent happy, happy times
together. My prayers are with you and will continue to be.

To
Dave's family and friends. Lynne and I are very sad to hear of the
loss of such a dear friend. Although many years have gone by and we
have lived far away, we still remember our friends and especially
Dave. Dave and I were in Scouts together and we had many great
experiences in high school band. I could always count on him as a
friend. I wish that we had lived closer together over the years. We
will continue to pray for Pam and the rest of Dave's family and
friends for God's comfort, strength, peace, and love during this
time of deep sorrow and loss. May your hearts always be filled with
love and fond memories of Dave. "Peace I leave with you; not as the
world giveth, give I unto you. Let not your heart be troubled,
neither let it be afraid." John 14:27
Jim and Lynne Brinkley

I am
so sorry to hear of Dave's sudden death. While I haven't seen him in
many years, I remember him as a good friend and all around good guy
in high school. Pam, please know that my prayers will be with you,
and with Dave's spirit above, in the days ahead. God be with all you
and be thankful that you had the wonderful time you did with Dave.
Cherish the memories.

I am
so sorry for yours and our loss. I will always remember Captain
Arnold as a good friend and kind man.

~ Jennifer Stout, Williamsburg, Virginia

July 24, 2012

Pam,
I am so sorry to hear of Dave's passing. He was indeed a true
friend. Over the last few years, we have been in almost daily
contact through e-mails, telephone calls, and I miss that already.
He even was the courier for a special gift from Monty Phillips,
which created another opportunity to have one more lunch. His being
involved, just made that gift more special. You will always be in
that exclusive law enforcement family, if ever you need anything.
Remember, "Blessed are the Peacemakers", you and the family are in
my prayers.
Jay Styles, '68

~ John Styles, Harrisonburg, Virginia

July 24, 2012

My
heart goes out to Pam and the rest of Dave's family. How tragic to
have someone taken from you so suddenly. Dave was a friendly
outgoing individual who touched many lives. I mourn his loss. God
Bless and help those left behind.

Pam,
I am so sorry for your loss. Dave was a friend to all that knew him
and will be greatly missed. I hope your wonderful memories together
will ease some of your pain. My thoughts and prayers are with you
and your family.

~ Linda Gaskins-Jeffers, Hayes, Virginia

July 24, 2012

To
Dave: As a fellow Typhoon, Vet, and fellow Law Enforcement Officer,
whom I remember well, but have not seen for over forty years; I pray
God's Love to be with you and that you rest in peace! To your family
I pray God's blessings upon each of you during this great moment of
sadness. Remember all the great moments and allow your hearts to
heal peacefully, knowing he was a good and loving man, who loved you
greatly! God Bless each of you! Butch Ragland, NNHS-63

Dave
was one of those unique people that Heavenly Father sends to bless
our lives. I was fortunate to meet him through Carol and various
reunions, and even though I am not a NNHS graduate, I considered him
as a friend. He was very kind, courteous, and concerned about those
that he met along life's highway, and the void that he has left in
our hearts cannot and will not be filled. However, his example will
enable us all to remember this great man. Carol and I hope and pray
that Pam and all of his family will be consoled with the knowledge
that his life was filled with service to his fellow man, and as
such, he has reaped a great reward. Thank you for sharing him with
us over the years.

~ Paul Harty, Fayetteville, North Carolina

July 24, 2012

I
will miss one of the best friends I ever had. He was the person I
could tell my problems to and he might not always have a answer, but
he did and was willing to listen. He was a great help on the PASAP
Board when I was chairman.

~ Charles Buffington, Poquoson, Virginia

July 24, 2012

About three or four months ago Dave and I re-connected via a few
e-mails. I had been going thru a pretty rough time for several years
and he cheered me up and encouraged me. He told me of his love for
Pam and how, for him, it was love at first sight. He has passed on,
yes, but family and friends have warm, wonderful memories. My
thoughts and prayers go out to Pam, families, and classmates. I will
try to come to the services on Thursday.

Pam
and family: Words cannot express how we feel about our loss. We
loved Dave more than you know and love you. Even though we will
always miss him on this earth we know that he is in a good place.
John 14: 1-4. NNHS 65
Blessings, Lou and Sarah

~ Sarah & Lou Kressaty, Hayes, Virginia

July 24, 2012

He
was a kind soul. I will always remember his friendship and kindness
when we were in NNHS.

~ Herminio Cuervo, Lakeland, Florida

July 24, 2012

Pam,
though I do not know you in a personal way, we share a loss not many
people understand - that of a loved husband. My prayers are for you
and your peace.

~ Jeanette Parrish Houston, Richmond, Virginia

July 24, 2012

All
of us who knew Dave loved him and treasured his friendship. He was
always a good friend and one of the really great guys. My thoughts
and prayers are with you, Pam and the family.

Pam and family. I was so sad to hear of Dave's passing. May God give
you Comfort and Peace at this most difficult time. Pam, when I heard
that you and Dave married, it was like watching a true love story
unfold. May those memories that the two of you made together carry
you through the days ahead. God's Love and Peace to you.

~ Mike and Tina Adderholdt, Nags Head, North Carolina

July 24, 2012

Captain Arnold,
Deep in the stillness I can still hear your last words to me.
You are still an inspiration and I will not forget you.
Rest in perfect peace with the Lord,
Amen

~ Ofc. Sammy Kanda Jr., Newport News, Virginia

July 24, 2012

Dave
was a part of my life for many years, from the bass clarinet section
of the NNHS band to the closeness that came from marrying my dearest
friend. It's beyond sad; we will miss you like crazy. I love you
guys.
Patsy

~
Patsy Blackard Hallett, Virginia

July 24, 2012

He
was a Southern Gentleman, a person to say a pleasure to have met.
All will miss him. Load the cannon's and fire 21 times. Rest in
Pease, Sir.

Thanks for all the good times on and off the job you will be truly
missed
OFC. Smith

~ David Smith, New Kent, Virginia

July 24, 2012

Pam:
I am in Charlotte with my daughter and all the grandchildren. I
always check the paper and the obits. Seeing David's name at the top
took my breath. I knew him and his family since we were in the
nursery together at church. I am so very sorry for your family. I
know what this is like; I really do. Please know that I am praying
for your comfort and peace today. Blessings, Penney

~ Penney Martin, Yorktown, Virginia

July 24, 2012

I
have had many acquaintances during my time on this earth, but few
that I can truly call friend. It is with great pride that I say,
"Dave Arnold was my friend.” RIP my Friend.

It
didn't matter whether you saw Dave last week, or thirty years ago.
He always remembered something about you and would have you laughing
about it in under a minute. I'm personally saddened by by the loss
of a great guy.

Pam
and Family, My deepest sympathy goes out to you at this saddest of
times. Dave was a great friend. He will be truly missed by all. May
God watch over him and your family and keep you in his prayers
always.

I am
so sorry to hear about David leaving us so quickly. He was a
wonderful friend from NNHS and from C&P. We will miss him so much.
His family will be in my thoughts and prayers.

~ Brownie Shaffer Haracivet, Gloucester, Virginia

July 24, 2012

Pam
and family, my deepest condolences. I pray for your comfort and
peace during this very sad time. Pam, may the few years you have had
together bring you happiness as you reflect on the memories. God
bless.

I
knew Dave Arnold for most of his adult life, and he epitomized the
philosopher's ideal of the "compleat man." Certainly I do not
presume that any sentiments I can offer will lessen the profound
loss suffered by the family---not even Shakespeare could find words
equal to that task---but I do want to say that I admired him not
only for what he was to me as a steadfast friend but for what he was
to the world: A man who left every person wiser and every place
better than he found them. May the family find solace and comfort in
the sure and certain knowledge that they are not alone in their
grief.

My
condolences to Pam, the children and the family members. I will
always remember David as a caring and supportive co-worker during
our fifteen years at VPRJ. He was a special person who will be
greatly missed by the people whose lives he had touched.

1. When the trumpet of the Lord shall sound and time shall be no more
And the morning breaks eternal, bright and fair
When the saved of earth shall gather over on the other shore
And the roll is called up yonder, I'll be there!

2. On that bright and cloudless morning when the dead in Christ shall rise
And the glory of His resurrection share
When His chosen ones shall gather to their home beyond the skies
And the roll is called up yonder, I'll be there!

3. Let us labor for the Master from the dawn till setting sun,
Let us talk of all His wondrous love and care;
Then when all of life is over, and our work on earth is done
And the roll is called up yonder, I'll be there!

Chorus:
When the roll, is called up yonder,
When the roll, is called up yonder,
When the roll, is called up yonder
When the roll is called up yonder I'll be there!