Compliments play an important role in maintaining good social relationships. After all, it never hurts to make others feel good about themselves! Let’s learn how to pay your Chinese friends compliments in Mandarin.

First, let’s have a look at the most common sentence structure for compliments.

Nǐ + hǎo/zhēn + adj.
你 + 好/真 + adj .

This is an easy structure. “你(nǐ),” meaning “you,” refers to the person you want to pay the compliment to. You can also replace this with other personal pronouns or specific names. Next, “好/真(hǎo/zhēn)” means very/really. It is followed by an adjective, the characteristic that you are praising, such as “漂亮(piàoliang) pretty,” “聪明(cōngmíng) smart,” “帅(shuài) handsome,” etc..

Examples:

Nǐ zhēn bàng!
你 真 棒！
You are awesome!

Nǐ zhēn kě’ài!
你 真 可爱！
You are really cute!

Tā hǎo shuài！
他 好 帅！
He is so handsome!

Here are some common words for praising people’s personalities and characteristics.

If you are the one receiving a compliment, you may need to learn how to respond in the Chinese way.

Westerners are used to directly saying “Thank you” to show their acceptance or affirmation of compliments, but Chinese people like to appear more modest in the face of praise. Because of this, they would probably respond by saying “过奖了(guòjiǎng le) You’re too kind” or “哪里哪里(nǎli nǎli) You flatter me.” Of course, a few will be bold and simply say “谢谢(xièxie) Thank you!”