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If a Girl Ignored Your Text... would you text again?

2011-03-15, 03:32 PM

I was talking to this girl who was flirting with me a bit over the course of a month. She wanted to hang out sometime and even joked that she'd be my eye candy in public. I joked about how she is asking me out and I think i unintentionally put her on the spot. She clarified her position as a friend and got a lil awkward. We talked maybe once or twice more after that.

After several weeks, leI texted her "Hey XYZ, do you like spaghetti?" and she didn't respond. Would you call her or text again to see if she got your msg? According to some of the articles I've read here, the advice is to move on with my life and only go after girls who are actually interested in me.

I was talking to this girl who was flirting with me a bit over the course of a month. She wanted to hang out sometime and even joked that she'd be my eye candy in public. I joked about how she is asking me out and I think i unintentionally put her on the spot. She clarified her position as a friend and got a lil awkward. We talked maybe once or twice more after that.

After several weeks, leI texted her "Hey XYZ, do you like spaghetti?" and she didn't respond. Would you call her or text again to see if she got your msg? According to some of the articles I've read here, the advice is to move on with my life and only go after girls who are actually interested in me.

no,

you texted
she received it
she didn't reply
you move on.

Men are allowed to express their feeling within a very narrowly defined set of female approved parameters.

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I was talking to this girl who was flirting with me a bit over the course of a month. She wanted to hang out sometime and even joked that she'd be my eye candy in public. I joked about how she is asking me out and I think i unintentionally put her on the spot. She clarified her position as a friend and got a lil awkward. We talked maybe once or twice more after that.

After several weeks, leI texted her "Hey XYZ, do you like spaghetti?" and she didn't respond. Would you call her or text again to see if she got your msg? According to some of the articles I've read here, the advice is to move on with my life and only go after girls who are actually interested in me.

I not for the bolded part I would say give it one more shot.

It is only possible to live happily-ever-after on a day-to-day basis. ~Margaret Bonnano

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I was talking to this girl who was flirting with me a bit over the course of a month. She wanted to hang out sometime and even joked that she'd be my eye candy in public. I joked about how she is asking me out and I think i unintentionally put her on the spot. She clarified her position as a friend and got a lil awkward. We talked maybe once or twice more after that.

After several weeks, leI texted her "Hey XYZ, do you like spaghetti?" and she didn't respond. Would you call her or text again to see if she got your msg? According to some of the articles I've read here, the advice is to move on with my life and only go after girls who are actually interested in me.

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I was talking to this girl who was flirting with me a bit over the course of a month. She wanted to hang out sometime and even joked that she'd be my eye candy in public. I joked about how she is asking me out and I think i unintentionally put her on the spot. She clarified her position as a friend and got a lil awkward. We talked maybe once or twice more after that.

After several weeks, leI texted her "Hey XYZ, do you like spaghetti?" and she didn't respond. Would you call her or text again to see if she got your msg? According to some of the articles I've read here, the advice is to move on with my life and only go after girls who are actually interested in me.

Actually, you should have moved on the first time she told you she wasn't attracted to you. Since you ignored that and, instead, texted her about having spaghetti with you, take the second hint she is now giving you that she doesn't find you attractive.

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This is a new question. Do any of you find "The System" by Doc Love credible? I am about to read it but it has no real review on the web. I don't really have problems getting dates but I do need some serious insights into finding/picking the right girls.

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This is a new question. Do any of you find "The System" by Doc Love credible? I am about to read it but it has no real review on the web. I don't really have problems getting dates but I do need some serious insights into finding/picking the right girls.

Read it. Put it into practice. Come back in 6 months and tell us your results.

Here's betting you will get very limited results and the only actual success you will have with it are with girls who are either realy stupid or really high maintenance.

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This is a new question. Do any of you find "The System" by Doc Love credible? I am about to read it but it has no real review on the web. I don't really have problems getting dates but I do need some serious insights into finding/picking the right girls.

No. Ignore anything Doc Love has to say unless all you want is to learn how to play games with childish people.

It is only possible to live happily-ever-after on a day-to-day basis. ~Margaret Bonnano

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But he seems to give some solid advice, in terms of not pursuing girls who have low interest and not making a fool out of yourself by being persistent. I know these should be obvious, but to some it isn't.

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Its hard to tell. It IS possible she didn't get your text. On the flip side, it is possible she is ignoring you. There is only one way to find out CALL HER. If you get her voice mail, leave a message and don't call her or text her again. Many men make the mistake of repeating the calls and texts without giving her the time to respond. If she doesn't respond within a day, she is definitely ignoring you.

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Its hard to tell. It IS possible she didn't get your text. On the flip side, it is possible she is ignoring you. There is only one way to find out CALL HER. If you get her voice mail, leave a message and don't call her or text her again. Many men make the mistake of repeating the calls and texts without giving her the time to respond. If she doesn't respond within a day, she is definitely ignoring you.

Hello!!! She already told him she is not attracted to him and does not wan to date him.