WIBU to leave DH without a clean shirt?

I do all the laundry, sorting, washing, folding, putting away. All I ask DH is for his dirty clothes to be in the washing basket. So, I am about to start a wash, I know most of DH's shirts are dirty and on the floor next to our bed. I do a wash every other day so it means he didn't put anything in the basket for a week or so... WIBU to NOT pick-up his shirts myself and leave him without a clean one for tomorrow?TBH he still has 1-2 left but don't like them too much.If it matters, household chores are evenly split between us, he works FT, I work 4 days a week and look after our 2 yo DT the other day.

Kick them under the bed on his side and feign innocence. I did that with Dh when we were newly weds, I wanted stuff at least by the basket if not in it. Drove me mad with socks all on his side, so I kicked them under for a while, then he threw them in but balled up, so I started washing them like that, seemed to work that problem out too.

Ha ha (at myself). I thought from the thread title that you were all set to leave your DH and were in someway worried about doing this without doing all the washing and ironing. I was all ready to tell you that he will have to learn pretty sharpish . Yanbu.

great videos. I will show DSs the magic coffee table one! OP I once ripped all the buttons off ExDH's shirts I had washed because it was difficult to iron them with them still done up. I couldn't understand why he just took them off over his head and didn't think to undo them. I am far more mellow these days. And I only iron my work clothes

No. No way in hell would I pick up or wash his stuff. Lazy fucker. As I have explained slowly and carefully to DH, every time he leaves his washing at his ass he is effectively saying "fuck you, little, this is your job". It can lie there; I will not be made to beg or nag and I will not be subjected to such disrespect. If he has no clothes left that is his problem.

Needless to say I find that behaviour infuriating. I blame DH's mother, who ran round after him cleaning and laundering and warming socks on the radiator (no, really) until long after he was old enough to know better. My DS will not be allowed to shame me in this way. Even at 3 years old he knows what the laundry basket is for.

(Incidentally I only blame his mother because it was her who did the pandering, if his father had pandered then rest assured I would blame him too, I have equal opportunities rage.)