The adventures of a chastised husband who loves cycling.

Category: Kinks

MrsL and I took off to Charleston late yesterday afternoon to spend the rest of the week with our boys and future daughter-in-law. It is a three to four hour drive depending on traffic. It turned out to be an awesome drive. She gave me a little hint about her intentions before we got in … More Edged While Driving

A few weeks back MrsL and I went to visit the lake house with the in-laws. She is always willing to have vanilla sex when in her parents house or the lake house but we have never involved kink. This trip, I took a leap of faith and put her favorite little blue clamps and … More The Nipple Anchor

I received quite a few very supportive and helpful comments on here and through Twitter DM after yesterday’s post. Thanks to everyone. I am good! MrsL and I are great after a chat last night. Yes, I’m still in her Steelheart because we both agreed I needed to stay locked up. Quite frankly, by the … More Thanks

I don’t know what it was other than the pheromones! When I got home today, MrsL was almost manic in her cleaning fervor. 27 and his new girlfriend (who by the way he has asked me when I knew I wanted to marry his Mom now twice) are coming home for the weekend. I left … More Pheromones

I’ll have to admit, I woke up this morning seriously questioning whether or not I really wanted to continue with enforced chastity. The nighttime erections reared their nastiness last night not once, not twice, but three times. Coupled with difficulty sleeping due to the shoulder surgery/recovery the Steelheart biting and snarling all night had me … More If….

It has been quite a while since my last detailed post. We have been busy dealing with several issues as well as trying to reestablish our kinky lifestyle. None of it has been particularly easy. First, a complete update on 26’s status. Last November, at the 2 year point of his 4 year revocation of … More Life Rolls On

I have a much more detailed post I am working on. In the interim I have to write, briefly, about what happened this morning! MrsL has always been hesitant to engage in playful spanking let alone serious discipline. Sure, there were a couple of really good discipline sessions over a year ago but since then … More New horizons

MrsL came to bed last night and went into this story about a movie she had watched this week. No it was not porn but close. I didn’t ask the name of the movie but really dint care. Apparently, the young couple were exploring a little “R” rated kink as the woman had purchased one … More Insertable Toys

After a week of travel and visits from both boys, we had some alone time yesterday and today. 21 didn’t leave until noon and then MrsL and I ran errands and went to a friend’s “open house” for her business. My first real asthma attack happened at this friend’s house. It is so damn frustrating … More Humbled *NSFW*

As you know, MrsL and I had a very poignant and meaningful conversation last Sunday concerning chastity and each other’s expectations. It was the launch pad for a great week. I will admit, I had started to back slide just a bit when it came to paying attention to my wonderful wife and keyholder. Sure, … More I Hate To Tell You This…