Wanting opinions

So our rainbow happens to be a boy , first 2 children were girls. I didn't want or expect a shower for my pregnancy with my 2 nd daughter but my friends surprised me. 4 days after was when she stopped moving and she was born with wings. Now that same group if friends wants to throw me a shower again and it will be a joint one bc our other close friend is due a week or 2 after me. I honestly don't know how to feel about it and honestly all we need are diapers we have everything else and I'm gettin 0-12 months worth of clothes from my SIL. On top of not really wanting it which I have expressed already now I'm being asked if I want to invite the girls from my work which only some were for my last surprise shower and the others got pissed. Idk what to do

Comments (2)

I just had my shower yesterday and it was amazing the outpouring of love from friends and family. You should do what you want and don't worry about others. If you have a shower people who love and support you will show up. Maybe you do something where it's like a diaper only shower or something? Around here sometimes the men have a diaper and beer party to help with collecting diapers for the new baby. Again do what feels right to you!

You should celebrate with your friends. If nothing else it will be fun to see everyone. I have heard of people having food showers where people bring frozen meals or gift certificates for when baby is born. That would be useful!

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