Wednesday, February 27, 2013

Messages From My Patients: Chapter 28

June 23, 2008

Late—1130
p.m.?

There is a
time…to Die! (heard as I ran an ABG in the anteroom of room 1)

Frederico, 27 y.o. male, had just died of eighteen stab wounds to the back. He
exsanguinated in the field, but was brought to OR 6 by the trauma team. He was
in pulseless electrical activity and had a full clamshell thoracotomy. (ed- this is 'from the xiphoid to the gurney on BOTH right and left sides; the body is opened along the length of the entire costal margin in a clamshell thoracotomy)

His eyes were
vacant, fixed flown pupils, and agonally gasping for air (intubated in the
field).

I’d felt him a
little as the team was working on him in the OR, but he came to me in the ABG room loud and clear. There was a
resignation and pride to him. He’d chosen his life and lived it. I don’t think
he knew I’d prayed for his soul and for his mother when I was in the OR with
him. I asked Blessed Mother for help him in his transition.

He came to me
the other night, but I was rocking the baby to sleep at home. After I put the child to bed, I took out my pen and paper, and transcribed this:

F: says “Hi” quietly. (I sense his presence, that he’s here now. He’d said he would come back before when I was doing the ABG.)

F: what do you
want me to tell you?

me: are you
okay?

F: I am (very
calm. Very quiet)

me: Any
regrets?

F: Yes! What a
fool I was. What a fool I was. Thinking I was tough and all that. I almost got
out without my life! (got into Heaven, by only a narrow margin.) What’s with
you?

me: What?

F: Your light.

me: Not sure. I
kinda have it. Others notice, mostly on the other side. I try to use it for
good. I don’t really understand it.

F: You’re
pure. Your light is very shiny. It’s pretty. It’s beautiful. I can see it from
out here. Not in the OR. I was busy floating and watching my body—it was like
T.V. I couldn’t see it, your light. Now I can.

Thank you for
saving me. My soul.It was really close.
I want to talk to you about something. My mom. Why did you pray so strongly for
her and not for me?

me: It was going
to affect her soul much more than you.

F: How did you
know? It was uncanny that you knew so much.

me: I felt her.
On you. Her desperation to get you to change—away from the gang. Her guilt.

F: You felt
all that on me?

me: She knew
that you were lost to her a long long time ago. When all the tattoos started.
She was helpless.

F: Kind of
like Mother Mary and her Son, Jesus?

me: Yes,
exactly.

F: I want you
to know something. When I died, that moment I was not alone. Your heart was
with me. I want to thank you for it. I wouldn’t have accepted it had I been
awake and chosen how to pass. You butted your way in. That force went a long
long way to helping me.

me: I was just
doing my job.

F: No—you’re
hired to do anesthesia.

me: My task is
to show the dying how close they are to God. I don’t get paid for it.

F: You are
going to have a baby. And a husband. You are gong to have a lot of
energy. This is a few years back. Not with coffee. But with happiness and
light. I like that scent on you 'SUPER MODEL' by Victoria's Secret.I want you to keep wearing it. All summer. God will reward you for your
courage and tenacity…the happiest I’ve seen in a long time.

God has
something beautiful for you. Thank you for helping me. My heart is beautiful
now. My mother very blessed.

I had a good
time with you watching the drama like on TV. And when I died I passed into an
existence I could not imagine: love and tenderness, all in the eternal.

You are
bright, like a diamond. Your oldest son is going to change the world. (says his first name). (Says the name of my second son--who was not conceived yet) is going to take your heart and melt it into chocolate peanut butter
Hershey—not caramel—he will beguile you with his wit and likeness…he will be
the spitting image of his daddy. But inside, just like you. Just like first son.
Together you will have another chance, just like both of us—me up here, you
down there. Husband #3 will be good to you. Win your heart. Every day. I want
you to keep smiling as you walk to it.

Know that I am
helping you from above. I have nothing else to do. Not for eternity. (I can
take care of my family and also for you. I can do both.)

That circus is
going to be the best, too! Front row seating! Have a good time with all of it. (ed - I was taking the baby to the circus for the first time later that week.)

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I am a medical doctor who works in a hospital. I do anesthesia. I am also a Reiki practitioner. While I do anesthesia, I also make this form of Energy Healing available to my patients who wish to have it while their procedure is taking place.
I have quite a following at work. Many patients and coworkers request my services. Recovery room RN's love me. All of my patient report the same thing: they felt no pain. One friend's spouse actually made her take two of her pain pills at home because he absolutely could not believe she felt no pain after gallbladder surgery!