As you may know me and my girlfriend split up about two weeks ago...I was and still am devastated. We said we would continue to be friends and maybe try and talk something out a few months down the line.

Since then things have gotten worse...she has been getting angry at me still...and recently decided to put that she was in a relationship on he fb status. She told me it was a joke, but I felt strawberry floating sick to my stomach, she has also started recently talking to her ex...so I removed her from my friends list to stop the temptation of causing me anymore grief.

Now she has completley blocked me from fb, even though i told her the reason why I removed her...this is just a vent really, I dont know what to do/say... I keep crying and she acts like nothing has happened, yet a month ago we where so happy. Im so sad.....

Can someone post replies that will make me feel better...because at the minute I feel like absolute gooseberry fool.

Last edited by Glowy69 on Tue Aug 13, 2013 6:01 pm, edited 11 times in total.

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I dont have all the answers or have the right words you want to here. It seems that facebook is detrimental to relationships, constant relationship status changes, you can see flirting going on, talking, photos.

My advice, is try and give each other space for a while, don't go on facebook. Leave it for a week. If yous are still definetly going to talk, then it will happen afterwards. From my experience of friends who have had split ups and breakups, it seems that more often than not, what your describing is just what girls seem to do.

Fatal Exception wrote:Bitches are crazy like that. Maybe you could turn gay?

Brother!

Seriously though, women can be really irrational and seem to lack any sort of empathy during breakups, like they're the only ones with emotions.

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Give the whole thing some space. If someone is cold enough to do stupid things like that and ignore your explanations then you just have to accept it and step away. She might come around later on. It'll be hard to do but if she wants to strawberry float around with the ex, and yes even just hanging around the ex when she's saying she's just friends when you two are split up is making a statement.

Explain it one more time to her and then tell her that you're willing to listen to her when her head is cleared up and she isn't spitefully mindfucking you. (if that's what you wish).

I mean, strawberry float her. How heartless can you be. Changing your facebook status as 'as joke'? Yeah, really strawberry floating funny woman. Suddenly hanging around with ex's again? I wouldn't be surprised if she made that stuff up about your boss as well - that was you, wasn't it Glowy? I really don't get some people, playing games with emotions like that. It's all done for a reason, just as $$ says.

At the time it was the only way I could handle it though. You have to learn from your mistakes I guess, because you're never going to believe a bunch of forum geeks when they tell you that bitches are crazy and you need to back off and ignore her / forget about her.

Hindsight is a wonderfull thing.

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Yep moving on is the best thing, even if you think that's impossible at the moment. I went through something similar and handled it quite badly, just ended up looking pathetic and i was constantly depressed until i finally moved on.

Wiggles wrote:Yep moving on is the best thing, even if you think that's impossible at the moment. I went through something similar and handled it quite badly, just ended up looking pathetic and i was constantly depressed until i finally moved on.

Question though, did you move on and then find someone, or find someone and move on because of it?

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Wiggles wrote:Yep moving on is the best thing, even if you think that's impossible at the moment. I went through something similar and handled it quite badly, just ended up looking pathetic and i was constantly depressed until i finally moved on.

Question though, did you move on and then find someone, or find someone and move on because of it?

I actually got with someone but i still loved the other girl so i wasn't happy in that relationship at all. I only eventually moved on from cutting all ties from her, it still took a long long time though...

gooseberry fool glowy, that is genuinely horrible to hear. It's crazy the way life works like that.

Same thing again (boring, I know), but you've gotta give it time. Keep yourself occupied (your mates will take your mind of things) and you will find someone even better down the line (could even be tomorrow, who knows?).

What a bitch if she really is in a relationship now she should have waited few months before rubbing it in your face If i were you i'd take to your freinds about how you feel and make them take you out!

oh and try and keep occupied.. don't stay inside, i know you might not feel like going out but your just going to be thinking of her if your at home with nothing to do.