In this busy world, we almost always forget the importance of bonding with our kids. Studies show that children of this generation always complain about being left unattended at home. Parents often forget the value of bonding as most of their interest concerns only on the future of the family. While it is not certainly bad to think proactively on financial security, it is not amiss to state that bonding activities should be considered over and above your priority list. Any activity or present that can spark conversation could be done or be given. Unknown to many, even couple shirts which are often misconceived as for lovers only, can very well be replicated to cement parent-children relationships.

Making the shirt of parents and children complement with each other can be considered and extra effort to show love and affection. It could be considered a real and concrete sign and solidarity especially during event which involves the whole family. It can well be equated to saying, “I am here for you”, “we have so much in common”, “this time is for you”, or “I love to be with you”. By giving them couple shirts, and by showing that you have exerted efforts in choosing couple shirts that will be perfect for all, they surely won’t be able to fend off this gesture of love without getting the message that you want to send to them.

Complementary or couple shirts are available in variety of colors and designs. Some shirts are designed with hoods which would be perfect for outdoor activities with the family. The family can step out from the house and make a little picnic at the park with matching shirts on. Any estrangement felt by your children will surely be replaced with a sense of belongingness. This will make them feel special and proud. The mere act of wearing clothes which complement with each other shows a picture of unity, love and understanding among family members. According to studies, wearing matching outfit or even wearing complementary accessories mirrors a special bond of love in the family.

The value of bonding cannot be equated to any value in money. As our children grow, relationship strands get tangled. If we continue to let them feel neglected because all our efforts are directed to strengthening financial security then we will put our relationship at risk. It will even put our children’s lives in danger. They may consider joining in gangs whose members are into illegal undertakings. They may begin to cheat, lie and hurt other people. Everything will just get worse and all these happen because they are crying out for our attention.

As early as this time, we should learn to appreciate the treasure that we have because not all individuals are privileged enough to have families to love and take care of. If you feel like you are one of the parents who happen to do this then take a step backward and examine the surrounding circumstances. Take action now to save your kids from taking the wrong path in life. You might say that you don’t have time. No, you have all the time in the world. Time is never wasted when you devote it in building a relationship that will last a lifetime.

The question on what activity to bond for is out of the issue. The mere act of having a quality time together is everything that matters. You just have to remember that this will not only happen once. The key in cementing relationship is consistency. A bonding moment can be easily be erased in one’s memory if the interaction is not on a regular basis. If it is possible that for every bonding occasion, you can give your children something to remember for like offering them presents then the better. You have wide array of bonding gifts to choose from. You can pick a flower along the street and slid it inside a book or you can have love mugs and couple shirts that will very well add value to your bonding moments. There are actually lots to choose from and your limit is only your imagination.