Before having children, I had imagined that there was a "right set-up" and a "right time" to start a family. A breadwinner (I presumed male) with a decent income, a stay at home parent (female) and a wider family close by for support. I think this view came from having a sheltered upbringing and what my immediate… »8/25/14 5:57pm 8/25/14 5:57pm