I have been involved in both types of 3somes before, MMF and FFM. It was my ex husband and I along with a good friend. I will admit my favorite was FFM, although dont get me wrong I enjoyed the MMF but loved the FFM alot more.
I am still best friends with the person we had the 3some with. My Ex and I are still friends to.

Once had MFM a long time ago. It was a sandwich with me in the middle and with my DH in my back door. It was okay at the time, but I never really had a desire to do more of it. Once had a foursome with a little bit of switching. It's really not my thing, but I know my DH would DIE to have a half dozen busty women working him over in every sexy way possible. A couple of times I considered having that happen, but I didn't know at the time how to go about setting up such a thing.

...I know my DH would DIE to have a half dozen busty women working him over in every sexy way possible. A couple of times I considered having that happen, but I didn't know at the time how to go about setting up such a thing.

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FC, are you paying attention here? :brow :lol

If it's your lady friends that would be doing the "work", then you'd have to line it up I think. Maybe just tell 'em that you're thinking of giving your hubby a sex party, and ask if you did, could you give them an invite (probably want these to be one-on-one conversations of course). Some will probably say "no, but thanks"...some will probably say "sure, why not". You never know until you just ask...as open as you seem to be, you probably know which women in your circle are open enough to consider it or at least not judge.

At one time, I might have been able to find some "volunteers" but now we live in a "retirement" association and no other close friends nearby. It wouldn't go over well here. I'd probably have to hire services and can't afford to do that. Lost opportunities. Well, I have given DH the best times of his life and he often tells me I've made his dreams come true. I guess at this late stage that might have to do - unless I win the Lottery. He often says the happiest I've ever made him was when I agreed to go to a nudist resort, which he has wanted to do since he was a teenager. Now, we still go whenever we have time. He has never asked for this sex party with "half a dozen busty women," but every gal knows that's one of her man's secret desires.

Ok, as the slut of the board I have to say yes, I have had a few threesomes. We swing so its easy to arrange. What is hard is when you are with vanilla friends and the guys say "WOW I really want to do that some time" and the wives say "Oh thats gross!" and you have to act shocked.

MFM is my favorite, with or without hubby participating, but always with him there. I love being the center of attention. That makes me selfish but I can service guys alone very well thank you very much. We once had an impromptu MMFM at the club one night.

This is not always what it is cracked up to be tho. here is why... its the guys. Give me a little analease and I am ready to go. Not so with men. I have had men that cannot get it up if they are in the room with another naked man. WTF is that about? Its not the gym guys for christ sake! Male performance is not what it is cracked up to be. There is a large percentage of men that as much as they claim they want it, the cannot get it up in those situations. Its not for the faint of heart.

I have also been part of a few FFMF where the guy is all talk but with all those women, they are intimidated I guess. They guy could not keep an erection. And the girls were younger and hot too. the 3 of us ended up playing without him. I don't know, its not for everyone, even if they think it is.

We have enjoyed both fmf and mfm, and also swapping with other couples. I suppose, from a selfish standpoint, fmf is my favorite. I love it when my wife shares me with one of her bi friends. She actually prefers fmf also, as they tend to be a little more playful and fun. But, we enjoy a good mfm sometimes too when she wants to feel like a slut.

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I would love to be able to give my husband a multiple girl on him experience, but I am not the type to really want more than one man on me at a time. I could handle a man watching, but am not to keen on more than one on me at once. But I have not tried.....