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For someone who spent her teen years bouncing from shelter to shelter, Tirabassi was unprepared for the millionaire lifestyle. That cheque might as well have been a money tree in the yard — it felt like cash for life.

Suddenly, life was but a dream.

She took friends on wild, all-expenses-paid trips to Cancun, Florida, Las Vegas, California, the Caribbean.

She bought a house, and married Vinny. They eventually had three children.

In 2006, the newlyweds and blended Tirabassi family moved to a massive $515,000 home in Ancaster. Despite the lottery win, Tirabassi took out a $360,000 mortgage on the house.

Vinny says they owned four vehicles: a bright yellow Hummer, a Mustang, a Dodge Charger and a $200,000-plus, souped-up Cadillac Escalade, Tirabassi’s baby. The vanity licence plate read “BABIPHAT,” after one of her favourite designer clothing lines.

Ancaster neighbours hated that Cadillac. Equipped with interior turntables and sound mixers, it blared hip hop in the driveway that shook their quiet suburban street.

Tirabassi didn’t like her neighbours. “They didn’t like young people,” she says.

Besides the extravagant vehicles, a lot of the cash went to family and friends. Too much, Tirabassi now admits.

She gave her parents $1 million. Another $1.75 million was divided between her four siblings.

She bought several houses in Hamilton, renting them out at affordable rates to families. She said she paid people’s rent, loaned money to help out a friend when her husband went to jail, and helped another two friends start a business in Toronto.

A lot of friends came out of the woodwork when news broke of her win — and a lot of them she never heard from again.

“Money is the root of all evil,” Tirabassi says, shaking her head.

Vinny agrees. “Friends that she hadn’t talked to in a long time came calling.”

“Money doesn’t buy you happiness. It caused her a lot of headaches,” he says. “She lost a lot of friends, a lot of family.”

By 2007, according to a Hamilton Spectator interview at the time, Tirabassi had already blown through half of her winnings, and was living off interest from investments on the other $5 million.

That year, Vinny crashed the Mustang.

He pleaded guilty to two counts of driving impaired and causing bodily harm. He was sentenced to 18 months in jail and his licence was revoked for five years.

He would serve time again in 2011 after breaching his conditions and driving with a disqualified licence.

In 2008, while Vinny was in jail, the couple lost the Ancaster house.

She moved to Hagersville, Ont., and, once Vinny was out of jail, they spent some time in Edmonton. They moved around a lot.

Today, Hamilton’s penniless millionaires live on a quiet industrial street not far from where she started.

The walls of the modest home are covered in family photos and the odd relic from flashier times — Michael Jackson memorabilia for her, Maple Leafs mementos for him.

The Tirabassis worry about people knowing where they live. The win didn’t make them a lot of friends and they fear being robbed.

“A lot of people do still think she has lots of money,” Vinny says.

How much is enough?

The Dodge Charger and Hummer are nowhere in sight. The Cadillac’s in storage; it needs work Tirabassi can’t afford right now. When she’s not taking the bus, she drives a hot pink electric bike.

A lot of friends are gone, too. Loans were not repaid.

“(They said) ‘they’ve got enough so they’re OK, right?’ ” Vinny says.

The Tirabassis advise other lottery winners to be wary of sharing their winnings too freely. “Keep it to yourself and don’t trust anybody but family,” she says.

But as she heads to work in her scrubs Wednesday, Tirabassi says she couldn’t help give so much away.

“That’s the way I was brought up. Help those who can’t help themselves.”

Rather than mourn the millions, she’s concentrating on raising her kids with those same family values.

“I’m trying to get them to learn that they have to work for money,” Tirabassi says.

“Every so often they ask for money and I say I don’t have any money till payday. You have to wait till payday.”

TAKE THE MONEY AND RUN

The Ontario Lottery and Gaming Corp. does not have a system for following up with winners. There is also no requirement for winners to work with a financial adviser.

“There’d be no way for us to make that requirement of winners ... people are adults and need to be able to make their own decisions,” said spokesperson Don Pister.

He said it is “quite, quite rare, thankfully” that winners blow through their funds so quickly, although without a system to check in, it is impossible to know.

“We do remind people it’s their money. It can be difficult, but there is a need to say no,” Pister said.

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