So I did it! We went out for a walk together and I told her everything. She had a better reaction than I could ever have hoped for. She completely accepted everything and even said that it doesn't matter if I have a boyfriend or a girlfriend or BOTH, as long as I'm happy, she's happy!!!!

We also talked about the time I came out to her and she said she thinks sometimes about her response and that she regrets what she said and accepts me fully for who I am.

We cried and hugged and said we love each other and then we cried some more. I feel so relieved and happy about this, I can't believe I was so worried before.

My parents weren't super stoked when I told them... I'm 25 and married, they're pretty conservative so they seemed to think we crapped all over our marriage, took about 4 months for them to understand. But they're still a bit weird about it, even though they've never had to meet our other partners etc...