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Forward by Good Looking Loser

This FAQ was written by a long time member of the Good Looking Loser community - I appreciate his work very much.

The Fleshlight FAQ is meant for the Fleshlight Stamina Training Unit or 'Fleshlight STU'. This device is designed to help your build stamina in the bedroom, combat erectile dysfunction and increase the volume and distance of your cum shot. The actual process involves 2 natural techniques that are EXCELLENT (and highly underrated) for men's sexual health - Edging and Kegels.

“The Fleshlight material is a company secret covered by a series of US patents.”

How Do I Use the Fleshlight?

“Warm your Fleshlight sleeve by removing it from the case and running warm water through the sleeve for about 5 minutes Do NOT boil or microwave your sleeve! Shake off the water and re-insert the sleeve into the Fleshlight case, adjust the tightness of the cap at the bottom to control the suction, and finish by applying a liberal amount of lubricant to the orifice and yourself. If the Fleshlight still feels too cold to you, then next time try warming the lube in the sink/tub at the same time as the sleeve.”

Warming up isn’t entirely necessary. What I do is grab the Fleshlight sleeve out of the closet and turn on the shower. I don’t even use the tube, I just use the sleeve since I’m too lazy to want to clean the tube after my session. I let the water hit me in the back as I play with my Fleshlight.

Afternoon Quickie Method

Warm up some water-based lubricant in the microwave. (70 seconds)

Pour most of into your Fleshlight.

Pour the remainder on your penis.

Get a boner.

Start fucking it.

What is the Best Way to Clean the Fleshlight?

“Simply rinse your removable Fleshlight sleeve with warm water from your sink and allow time for it to dry before storing. Do NOT use soap to clean your Real Feel Superskin sleeve. For tough cleaning, we suggest using a little isopropyl alcohol. To maintain that soft feel, sprinkle a liberal amount of corn starch on the sleeve and shake off the excess powder. We do NOT recommend the use of talcum or baby powder.”

I suggest using a high powered stream of water to remove the semen lodged inside the Fleshlight.

To dry it out, I use a hair dryer to dry the outside and as much of the inside as I can.

Here's a little trick I have to clean the inside the unit -

1) Grab one lip with one hand and press the other lip against my body.

2) I then push the Fleshlight up my body to expose the canal.

Some Fleshlight users that have used coat hangers to dry out their Fleshlight but I have never personally tried that. As for storage, I have a Rubbermaid container containing generic shirts and sweat pants. I just toss the dried out Fleshlight underneath the pile.

Putting the sleeve in the washing machine (without other clothes) with cold water on a delicate cycle can work too.

That's WASHING MACHINE... not dishwasher.

The above method is better however.

"Air out or clean your Fleshlight or it WILL get moldy like Chris' Fleshlight"

What is the Best Way to Dry the Fleshlight Masturbation Sleeves?

See the method above.

You can set it in front of a fan - if you don't have to put the thing away.

Can I Use the Fleshlight in the Shower or Tub?

“Yes, you can use the Fleshlight in the shower/tub. While there is no problem with soaking the fleshlight in water, make sure soap does not come in contact with the removable masturbation sleeve. The soap will damage your Fleshlight sleeve. The soap will also burn if you are using your Fleshlight and it enters your penis.”

Although I’ve never tried it, something fun that might be worth trying is to draw a warm bath and put xanthan gum inside the water. It will take time for xanthan gum to thicken.

Why is My Fleshlight Sleeve Sticky When I Rinse and Dry It?

“Your masturbation sleeve is NOT defective. It may be stored in its tacky state.”

Just make your give your Fleshlight sleeve some air - Chris' Fleshlight above was loaded with semen, coconut oil and left in it's case.

What Type of Lubricants Can I Use with my Fleshlight?

“We recommend the use of water-based lubricants only. Oil-based lubricants should NOT be used, since they will slowly destroy the Fleshlight material over time.”

Silicone lubricant is also not recommended.

Astroglide is a perfect choice - there is also a recipe for "Z' Homemade Astroglide" below.

My Masturbation Sleeve Has Developed Black Spots, What Do I Do?

“This occasionally occurs when the sleeves have been stored in non-ventilated places while wet. Use a liberal amount of isopropyl alcohol to clean your sleeve.”

Another alternative is to pinch the spots off.

Am I Too Old to Use the Fleshlight?

“Men of all ages are discovering Fleshlight everyday! Reported ages vary from the early 20s to late 50s. The reasons for joining vary as much as the ages and Fleshlight welcomes all over the age of 18.”

Stop worrying about about what other people think.

If you are in your 40's and you had this question - the problem has less to do with the Fleshlight and more with trying to fit in to an asexual society.

I Keep Hearing About the "Shoe Method", What is That?

“The "shoe method" is a style of hands-free Fleshlighting.

Stick the narrow end of the Fleshlight into a shoe, on a flat surface. You can optionally put a pillow over the shoe to rest your hands on, while you continue the "missionary" position.”

What Does the Package That Is Shipped to Me Look Like?

It has nothing on the box that suggests it's a sex toy, Fleshlight or anything of that nature whatsoever.

In fact, will look exactly like this -

“All orders are shipped in a plain, cardboard box. The shipping label will identify the shipper as "ILF, LLC." and will not reference "Fleshlight.com", "Sex Toy" or any other identifying description related to products designed for adults.”

Which Insert/Type is Right for Me?

“When choosing your perfect Fleshlight, consider your girth as equally important to length. When erect, the average penis length is approximately 5-6 inches with an average girth (circumference) of approximately 4-5 inches. Refer to the illustration on the left for an explanation of measuring length and girth. Use of a measuring tape is suggested for taking measurements. The correct measurement can make the difference between an enjoyable and non-enjoyable Fleshlight experience. Choosing too small of an insert diameter will result in discomfort during use, while too large of an insert diameter will be a less sensational experience. Ranked from most tight to least tight: Super Tight, Wonder Wave/Speed Bump/Super Ribbed, STU, Original.”

The STU sleeve is roughly 9 inches from end to end. For guys over 9 inches, you may not want to use the tube or if you do, you may not want to use the removable lower portion of the tube.

As for girth, Fleshlight representatives have told me that all Fleshlight sleeves can accommodate up to roughly 7 inches.

I Am Uncircumcised. What Do You Recommend?

“Many uncut men have expressed their love for the Fleshlight, with little to no problems at all. While using an adequate amount of lubricant is crucial for everyone, uncut men have stressed the importance that the more you use the smoother the experience. Uncut men tend to favor the STU and the Original Fleshlights. The STU is favored because it's texture is less pronounced and it feels gentler on the foreskin, especially on the way out.”

As you can see - being circumcised, or not, doesn't matter.

Any unit or sleeve should be just fine.

What Should I Do if I Have Uptight Parents, Nosy Roommates, and/or No Privacy?

My suggestion is to hide the Fleshlight inside a towel when moving from your room into the bathroom. As for storage, I have a Rubbermaid container full of generic clothes. I store the Fleshlight in the bottom of the container. If this isn’t enough, then maybe consider storing the Fleshlight inside your car or purchasing a small safe. When contacting Fleshlight’s customer service, they told me storing the Fleshlight on a hot day is a bad idea. The heat is unregulated and can deform the sleeve. This is different from warming up the sleeve with running tap water because that heat is more controlled and limited.

I Know Vaseline is Oil Based, but It’s a Different Consistency Than Other Kinds of Oil, Can I Use Vaseline?

I personally don’t because I don’t like the extra step of running water through the tube and drying it out.

I suppose guys who are new maybe should use the tube to get a handle on this experience. Otherwise, the Fleshlight will feel somewhat slippery.

I’m a Virgin, Does the Fleshlight Feel Like Sex?

The Fleshlight feels like vaginal sex. Of course there isn’t hair to pull or jiggling tits but it does feel like vaginal sex. I don’t know what a good blow job is so I can’t say if the Fleshlight feels like a good blow job. However, when the bottom cap is screwed tight, it makes slurping noises.

I'm a Virgin, Is It a Bad Idea to Use the Fleshlight?

Good Looking Loser says:

So long as you aren't obsessed with pornography, I don't see a problem with jerking off with the Fleshlight or using it to building stamina, better your sexual health and just build a "mind-dick" connection.

It can help you get used to condoms too.

If I had the Fleshlight before I lost my virginity - I probably would have performed better my first time around.

Don't think for a second that using the Fleshlight will "make you stay" a virgin.

Not being in shape and not talking to girls, however, WILL.

I see nothing wrong with jerking off with the Fleshlight on webcam while a girl is watching - that is one of our old school sexual anxiety drills.

Help! I Want Some Cheap Lube That’s Similar to Astroglide...'Z69's Homemade Water-Based Lubricant'

I’ve tried Astroglide gel and the lube I’m about to share is just as good in my opinion.

I don’t have any exact measurements, and I usually just dab the xanthan gum from its container. You will be surprised that you don’t need much xathan gum to make this lube.

I personally like my lube a little runny but mostly sticky, which takes roughly 5-6 days for the lube to reach this stage.

Depending on how much lube you make and how often you use your Fleshlight, mold will eventually form on the lube. I’ve seen recipes calling for grapeseed extract as a preservative but I never bothered with that. I suggest either using a refrigerator or covering the container with aluminum foil.

Hopefully my advice can help anyone who wants to make some cheap lube. It’s a very small learning curve, but I understand that everyone has different preferences.

I’ve tried soaking the Fleshlight in hot water and putting it near a heater. Both methods retain little heat. I have asked customer service if Tabasco is recommended, but the representative said no because it would physically hurt and harm the sleeve. Consider reading this source, but also note that some of the warming ingredients in warming lubricants may damage the sleeve.

Okay, so here's the long version of the "How I met the Fleshlight" -

Believe it or not, I haven't told too many people this... Not even [most] my friends know. So let's keep it between us.

Over 2 years ago, the end of April 2010, I was at the Howard Hughes Promenade. It's a nice outdoor mall that offers the chance to shop, enjoy the weather and hit on some girls in a different section of Los Angeles than where I usually am.

There was really long line at Nordstrom Rack so I started to make conversation with a guy behind me, he was a big Black guy that actually turned out to be from nearby my hometown in Washington DC. We'll call him 'Boomer'. He asked me if I played college or professional football since he thought I was really big. The dude was 6-8 265lbs so I couldn't believe that he thought I was big. That was cool. Then we sat down and the kid bought me lunch. He noticed that some girls were checking us out and he called them over, pretty smooth stuff, we took their numbers since each of them seemed to like us individually. Nothing came from that phone number, for me anyway.

Anyway, we got to talking about Los Angeles, Maryland sports, "the woman he fucked at the hotel the night before," and then randomly he said that he was getting into acting and said that I just join him for this "audition" later that day. Normally, I would think he just another Hollywood guy that was full of shit that didn't know anyone or anything. But 'Boomer' was pretty cool and didn't seem the typical Los Angeles guy. He didn't exactly look like an film actor though... far from it. He was a huge Black guy that looked like a cross between Lebron James and Greg Oden.

I started asking him about what the TV show/movie was all about.

He said something like, "You'll be great, you'll do fine, you got the body, you'll be the best looking guy there and you're cool around the hunnies (women) so you'll be fine. You got balls, you probably have that dick too, you just gotta get a name."

I just said, "oh okay, uh-huh," then I realized 30 seconds later that he was talking about porno.

Sure enough, he was... is this how they recruit people for this?

4 or 5 years ago, I never would have been interested, probably because I was scared, thought it was gross or made up some other reason to avoid it rather just indulging my curiosity. But times had changed and I'm pretty much down for any new experience so long as I don't get physically hurt or something. I mean, shit- we've all watched porn and imagined ourselves as the guy fucking the girl.

I realized that this was probably a legit invitation and although this black kid was kinda scary, he was being real. I knew he wasn't full of shit. At the time, my dick was a respectable ~7" in length and up to 6" in girth with the post-Bathmate pump, hardly "huge" by elite adult film standards, but not every single guy has a 10" donkey penis in porn. Far from the ~5.25-5.5" x 4.9" dick I started with. I was reasonably confident, I had filmed myself with several chicks before.

So I said, "I'll do it," and so I did.

I made sure to pump up with Bathmate beforehand. My dick seemed to look slightly above average in comparison to everyone else, even though I only saw a 7 or 8 other guys. There were only a few really big guys.

When Boomer and I got there- nearly everyone was high as hell, especially the girls. There were trays of drugs there. It wasn't just to protect the girls from the thick penises, but to make everyone relax.

The directors raved about the condition I was in and I was pretty confident the whole way through. I've been with a lot of girls obviously, but its definitely different to do it with a camera in your face and a camera behind your ass. Once I got started I started to enjoy it though. It's a rush when 2 cameras and a host of eyes are focused squarely on your genitals as they go in and out of a girl on a huge California king size bed. You feel pretty special.

The girl I fucked didn't seem dirty either, just a normal girl in college who had this other side of her life. She went by the name "Misti," she kinda looked like Megan Fox. Definitely not bad at all. Never saw her again. Hope she's okay.

I stopped judging these girls years ago and I was happy to be with her. We were chatting before our scene and she said something along the lines of, "we'll have a lot of fun together," and that totally made me relax because a part of me was still saying, "should I really be doing this?" She said she was thrilled that I was the guy that was going to fuck her, since I seemed "normal" compared to some of the older guys and I probably wasn't going purposely hurt her too much. Misti was able to get wet quickly so taking me was doable for her. As much as I like inflicting pain on girl's pussies and stomachs, I don't want to actually hurt them. Ironically, I wanted to keep her pussy safer than most girls I'm with.

(some of these girls aren't turned on at all and when the thick penises get put in them, they are in trouble when the lube runs out... the camera doesn't stop they just have to try to go to a happy place and block out the pain)

This was sort of an audition for me, I passed. A memorable experience overall too. Got $40 from it, but definitely not something I did for money. It was sort of a "rites of passage," I'm in an adult scene because of all the work I've done on my body and dick. And I'm not scared.

Looking back on it- it wasn't a super trashy crew of people. I think. The girls were college students. We didn't exchange real names but I saw some of them had college IDs when they showed their license (to verify their age) to one of the directors. Now, a lot of people out there might consider Scotty and I to be absolute garbage, so all I can say is- by "not trashy," I mean- it wasn't a bunch of people that lived in trailers and used food stamps. It was a nice apartment they has super expensive equipment. I don't know how the adult scene is in other cities, but this gig wasn't in East Hollywood (ghetto) or downtown in South Central Los Angeles.

I came in about 8 minutes (in case you care- 8 minutes 4 seconds, to be precise). A lot the other guys really did seem to last up to 30 minutes. Just like the other guys, I had taken some Viagra, with Sudafed for the stuffy nose, in combination with an [undisclosed] compound that makes you very euphoric and less sensitive, use your imagination :), and had a shot of Jack Daniels'. That usually makes me last pretty long, maybe 12-13 minutes, but never 30+ minutes of nearly non-stop penetration. This was ridiculous.

Another thing I noticed is nearly all these guys sprayed their cum everywhere. Like fucking fire hoses. The directors had no problem with me wearing a condom, so they didn't see that I mainly just dribbled when I orgasm. Sometimes I shoot my cum, not usually though. Like I said in the "Fleshlight review," maybe 1 out of every 30 times.

Through the years, I made a half ass effort to do kegels and sporadically do different techniques to delay orgasm to try and maximize ejaculation volume. They sort of helped, nothing special though. But probably because I didn't work on it on a daily basis, or hardly ever.

On my best climax, I never did what these guys were doing. I never cared that much but I was just shocked at what I saw. 10 minutes before I left I saw the end of a "locker room" scene where 4 or 5 guys lined up like a firing squad grabbed their balls and soaked this poor Asian girl with their semen and she ran off crying (which wasn't part of the scene!). I couldn't believe this shit. It was like a half gallon of glue hit her in the face, it wasn't from some water gun either, it was totally real.

I knew my PC Muscle was pathetically UNdeveloped and my mind-dick connection was below average. Maybe that is a surprise to you since I have sex 100-150 times a year. I knew their loads were probably a product of various performance enhancing drugs (Clomid, HCG, Cialis, etc.) but I couldn't shoot half as much or half as far.

After my scene I was asking Boomer and this other guy (Big Jack) about "what everyone does to cum so much and so far," somewhat pretending like I wasn't totally shocked. The first thing that both of them said was, "kegels and this thing." This 'thing' turned out to be the device I saw was I walked in the place, the flashlight-looking thing that all the guys were fucking. Boomer open his up and sure enough it was a pussy in a flashlight. The Fleshlight. Hilarious, made me totally curious.

Boomer explained that the thing was used by everyone in the industry to improve their PC muscle and fire their cum 6+ feet. The guys in the adult industry have ridiculous control over their climaxes, they can control it as easily as the normal person can control peeing.

I've seen a lot of weird stuff and this was right up there. I decided not to touch it, but I was completely intrigued.

They both told me to "take one," but I declined since I didn't want to be fucking a Fleshlight that somebody else had been fucking earlier that night.

I did some homework on the thing and saw that it was marketed primarily as a sex toy, but a lot of guys were using it for sex training. Usually I order stuff right away, but for whatever reason I waited until the end of the year. In 2011, I barely put any time into penis enhancement. I was happy at about 7" and pumping up with the Bathmate to 7" x 6". I wanted to take it seriously in 2012 so I set a goal of doing another scene in May. It went great.

Long story short, after I got the Fleshlight, I found my PC muscle was way underdeveloped for my size and I really didn't have very good mind-muscle connection before and during orgasm. I basically confirmed what I already knew. That all led to dribbling, rather than shooting. I did jelqing, stretching and Bathmate through the years, but never really paid attention to my PC muscle. Now, I can usually shoot a decent amount and my erections and climaxes are significantly stronger than a year ago.

In the past 2 months, just about every climax I have during intercourse is stronger than every climax I've had prior to this year. It literally feels like I'm pissing cum out of me for a good 45 seconds (its actually like 10 seconds), I get light-headed sometimes. I'm guessing that is mainly a product of all the kegels I've done this year.

So that's the story.

Here's a few more random things I saw and thought of from that day-

Most or all of the girls got to see the dick that was going to fuck them 30 minutes before their scene. They had 30 minutes or so to take whatever medications they needed. Misti (in private) insisted on seeing my erection, I showed her and she laughed and said, "Damn a thick one, more Excedrin for me." Total turn-on.

The Korean girl ran off and didn't come back, she didn't know anyone there it didn't seem like. The director said, "It's fine, we got it." (meaning the scene ended fine). They guys that absolutely soaked her just carried on like nothing happened. It was funny that she waiting to get hosed down before she ran off. She was probably as surprised as me of amount of jizz she got drenched in.

By far the worst job went to the clean up guy. I felt bad for him. No, really- I did. He must have been 5 foot 1, underweight and nervous, just in awe of the endowments on both the guys and the girls. Everyone there must not have seemed human to him. After a scene, one hot girl with jet black hair, black nails, black lipstick shot her cum (i guess?) all over the floor. People were laughing and she laughed and just walked off not giving 2 shits. She was super high. Misti saw me looking at him after our scene and said to me, "Stop worrying about him, he likes it." after the guy was clearing the sheets that we just used. He had a pair of the thinnest pair of 99-cent plastic gloves that he had to use the entire time to clean up bodily fluids. I guess most filmings don't have a "clean up guy," so this was a high class production, like I said.

I had an atypical reaction in the days following the scene. I really wanted to see Misti again. She wasn't much different in looks than the other girls I sleep with. I knew nothing about her, but I sort of liked her after that day. I remember feeling pretty nervous/excited before our scene and this girl really calmed me down and turned me on. I'm the one that does that to girls who are nervous/excited to sleep with me. It was like being a virgin again and having sex with an experienced girl that liked me. That's only way I can explain it. I drove Boomer to airport 5 days later and he just said, "Dawg, we don't talk to these girls again, it makes no sense, they can't know us and we can't know them." I didn't even want to sleep with her, I just wanted to know who she was, why she was there, what she wanted to do with her life. Yeah, I liked her.

Everyone was pretty supportive, they knew I was new to the whole thing and that I probably wouldn't come back. But still, they flooded me (and the lesser experienced guys and girls) with compliments on our bodies. I had to laugh, it was like a group orgasm sometimes. Or like a PUA convention haha.

Before my scene I was thinking, "Okay I'll just do this and get the fuck out of here..." After the scene, I wanted to hangout. I never saw Boomer's scene, he was after mine and I had left the main room.

Apparently there was a competition between one guy-girl and another guy-girl to put together the "headline" scene (or a future one?). Still, though, there was a lot of mutual respect everyone gave either other. People were really encouraging everyone else, even though- money was seemingly on the line. I don't know if it was because everyone was high, but the girls all loosened each other up (except for the random Korean girl). I honestly haven't seen that kind of encouraging spirit in a long time, fuck- most groups of friends aren't even that encouraging. Everyone was making everyone else feel special.

I think this is such a unique experience, I totally suggest it as a goal if you are making strides to develop a good penis. I never would have said that years ago. I'm not saying "be a porno-star," do it for a one time experience, not for a living. The interesting part is, if you watch porno- the girl is the star. She's the hot one, she is why you are watching. While doing the scene, however, the guy is the star. Do you know what I mean? A guy has a to hold a camera that fixed on your crotch or inches from your ass, the girls load up on meds to take your dick, the entire film crew is watching and cheering for YOU, and then some guy cleans up the mess you made, while you and a girl enjoy the post-orgasm afterglow. Maybe I'm romanticizing, but it was my first time. I definitely felt "present" and alive, those moments seemingly come only a handful of times over a lifetime.

*There are a whole bunch of models, this Fleshlight review covers the 'Stamina Training Unit'.

My Fleshlight Review (Video)

How I Discovered the Fleshlight

On an unseasonably busy weekday in April 2011, I struck up a conversation with "Boomer," at Nordstrom Rack. Turns out, Mr. "Boomer," also a professional [non-NBA] basketball player, had come to Hollywood to do some adult gigs for the Summer. One thing led to another and I was given an impromptu audition for a quick scene in a "college co-ed's" series. I went to the audition and had an insider look at the mid-level Hollywood adult movie scene.

Long story short- several guys at the gig had these devices that looked like flashlights that they were "warming up" with before their scenes. Later, I found out that these things were called "Fleshlights" and they were a sex toy / stamina builder hybrid. Boomer swore by it to control orgasm and significantly increase ejaculation volume. There must have been 40+ of them there. I was offered one, but I didn't want get a "pre-owned" one. :)

Boomer and a guy known as "Big Jack" were telling me how the Fleshlight really helped them increase their stamina and cum shots. That's what the majority of guys in the industry use it for. I only saw a handful of scenes over the 90 minutes I was there but nearly every guy absolutely sprayed their orgasm EVERYWHERE.*

*What I witnessed was probably a combination of a strong PC muscle that could "shoot on command" and various "performance enhancing" drugs. But like I said- most of these guys absolutely sprayed their cum EVERYWHERE. It was pretty crazy. (see long story)

What Is the Fleshlight Used For? (What to Expect)

I've seen a lot of bizarre shit in my life, this one is definitely up there. The Fleshlight literally is a pussy that is coming out of flashlight case. It looks like a vagina, it feels just like a vagina (ESPECIALLY with warm lubricant), and you can use it to have crazy orgasms and sex training. The Fleshlight is outstanding for both. It's actually the #1 sold male sex toy in the world, I was surprised I hadn't heard of it...

Sex Toy For Crazy Orgasms

The Fleshlight can give guys toe curling, body shaking orgasms.

I have had a few, and nearly every time with warm lube and a girl running it up and down my shaft. Although "hands-free" Fleshlight orgasms are best, if you get yourself off it is just about ALWAYS more powerful than jerking off.

Check out these Fleshlight reviews from some guys on LPSG-

In the 1st thread, some guys actually claim its better than intercourse with a woman. In terms of sensation, with warm lubricant- it's the closest thing being inside of a young, excited, wet pussy. In terms of experience, it's more fun to have a real woman. :)

Since the sensation is very close to real intercourse, a lot of guys use the Fleshlight for 'sex training'. Although I don't specifically use it for this purpose, it would have been nice in my early 20's when I needed experience and couldn't "get some," if you know what I mean.

Added Stamina / Orgasm Control / Strong Erections / Shoot Big Loads

Using the Fleshlight, guys can significantly improve their stamina by intentionally delaying orgasm when they are near climax. With daily training, this develops orgasm control, stronger erections and a sizable increase in the volume and distance of ejaculate. Since the Fleshlight experience is pretty intense, you can really put tension to your PC muscles to hold back orgasm.

Similar to resistance training, the Fleshlight can strengthen your "mind-dick" connection and your overall PC muscle development. Developing your PC muscle is pretty important if you are also increasing the size of your penis. Most guys, including guys have well-developed penises, have significantly underdeveloped PC muscles. I certainly did.

Sex Training / Practice with Condoms (Sexual Anxiety)

Needless to say, the Fleshlight doesn't have to be used in any sort of way other than simply masturbating.

My main suggestion for sexual anxiety (other than experience), is developing a big penis. Just after that, however, I feel "knowing what to expect" and "practicing" can significantly help. The Fleshlight gives you that opportunity since it is the closet thing to being inside a hot, wet pussy (in terms of SENSATION).

Most guys, even guys that have slept with 2 or 3 girls, don't perform that well when it's their first time banging a new girl. They either climax SUPER FAST or NOT AT ALL. It's not that big a deal and most women don't hold it against you since they are mainly into the foreplay and emotional lead up. But it's definitely not something that you want regularly happening, or even worse- WORRYING ABOUT IT.

I don't use the Fleshlight for this purpose since I'm pretty experienced these days and I don't have much sexual anxiety. 4-5 years ago, however, I definitely could have used this thing to reduce my anxiety and certainly get better acclimated with condoms, different lubricants, positions etc. Yes, even I have had sessions where I climaxed within 45 seconds and sometimes not at all. It happens to all of us. Guys stress about this WAY MORE than they should, but it definitely something you want to get control over.

My Personal Experience with the Fleshlight

As I discussed in "How I found the Fleshlight & LAXxx," previous to March 2012, I hardly ever shot my cum. Maybe 1 out of every 30 orgasms. Maybe 30 times in my ENTIRE life. I was the stereotypical 'dribbler'. I never really cared but the Hollywood "scene" had left an impression on me. (Literally- I can still see this nervous Korean girl getting hosed down) haha

As a New Year's resolution and in an effort to force myself to take male enhancement seriously in 2012- I made the commitment to return to the 'scene' in May of this year. Highly ambitious, I planned to be larger (7.5"), in better shape (6% Body Fat) and to spray two cuties I knew on camera. *I often decide to sort of put myself "on the line" in order to reach a goal that I might otherwise slack on.

I got my Fleshlight in mid-January 2012 and I've been using it for stamina training.

The basic routine consisted of doing kegels (see Fleshlight routine), bringing myself close to orgasm several times and finally climaxing after the 4th or 5th time.

After about one month- I noticed I was having stronger erections, particularly in the morning. But it wasn't until March 2nd (I kept a log) when I finally got 2 medium cum shots in-a-row. I was happy, and really hoped it would continue.

By the end of April, I was delivering sizable loads. I had the ability to control my orgasm and literally "pull back" orgasm 3 or 4 times, something I've never really been able to do more than once.

It took me a while to finally believe that my PC Muscle was stronger and I didn't have to think "am I going to spray?" At the start of May, two, super awesome, very supportive girls let me unload on them night-after-night until we all agreed it was a sure thing. Thanks again :)

On the night of the scene, I was 7.4", 6.2% BF and delivered an impressive cum shot, definitely the best one I've ever had on camera. Not bad! Just narrowly missed my lofty goals.* I was completely satisfied, a happy ending overall. Even though my scene the year before when fairly well, I actually looked and felt the part this time.

Looking back on it, my PC muscle was so fucking weak it was pitiful. Through the years, I have increased my dick about 2 inches from doing PE. At 7+ inches I'm surprised I could even get a decent boner given how weak it was. I had been relying on Bathmate and Cialis too much.

* Keep in mind, I was also using SizeGenetics, Bathmate and doing manual exercises and losing weight throughout this 4 month period as well. Admittedly, the Fleshlight was probably not responsible for ALL my results. But again, prior to 2012, I had shot cum 1 out of every 30 times and maybe 25-30 times in my ENTIRE life. Now it is pretty much EVERY time, with or without delaying orgasm.

Fleshlight Action Pictures

Here are some recent pictures of me with the Fleshlight.

Yes... I actually own it. :)

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