[Case Study] What Signs Tell the Audience I’m Afraid?

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I had just finished a keynote speech about public speaking, and a dozen people came up towards me after the speech and stood in line waiting to talk to me.

One of them actually waited until the very end of the line…

…so that he could talk to me privately about his fear of public speaking.

He was a web developer.

He came up to me and started telling me how much he learned in the presentation and how grateful he was for all the techniques.

Then he said something to me that inspired this blog article about the fear of public speaking…

He said:

His wasn’t the “typical” nervous fear either…

…he was terrified of public speaking.

I asked him to describe that fear, and here is what he said:

The things he described were painful for him to say…

…they’re painful for almost everyone to say…

…even for comedians like Jerry Seinfeld.

But, before we just go into “woe is me” mode, let’s analyze what he really said again…

…because if you know what you’re dealing with…

…it’s a lot easier to fix it.

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Here are those reasons again he gave for why he couldn’t learn public speaking:

He didn’t know it at the time, but he was sharing gold with me…

That’s because he was telling me exactly what fear and nerves look like on stage…

Let’s break those down into a list…

He said, “When I stand up in front of my audience, no matter how big or how small…”

…I can’t speak

…I forgot everything I was going to say

…I can’t breathe

…I can’t talk in a clear or normal voice

…I can’t stop shaking

…I can’t hide the excessive sweating

…I can’t hide the color of my face

…I don’t appear confident

At first glance, you might think these are the signs that you’re nervous…

That’s exactly what the web developer asked me right after he said this…

After hearing this, I looked him in the eyes, after everyone had left the room and I said:

He looked at me and said, “Yes, absolutely.”

Over the course of the next month, he worked through everything we talk about in this case study.

One month later, he delivered his next big presentation, and he got rave reviews.

This is the story of how he did that…

About Jason Teteak

International Public Speaking Coach, TEDx Speaker and Best Selling author Jason Teteak has taught more than one million people how to flawlessly command attention and connect with audiences in their unique style. He’s won praise and a wide following for his original methods, his engaging style, and his knack for transferring communications skills via practical, simple, universal and immediately actionable techniques.

Or as he puts it “No theoretical fluff”. Teteak has flipped the model and changed the approach to great Public Speaking for even the most seasoned veterans. Connect with Jason on Twitter