Japanese women quizzed about the which aspects of their relationship history they would much rather avoid being asked about are none too subtle in decrying questions about their ex’s sexual proclivities as “bad manners” and “overly embarassing.”

The more I see of these polls and the more I see elsewhere, the more apparent it’s becoming that the females in Japan are the biggest reason for the declining birth rate and the reason why guys seem to be running to 2D. It’s been obvious who’s been behind the attacks on the anime/otaku culture for some time, but if you add everything together, you begin to see the whole picture.

Females want:
1.) 6 figure incomes so they can live like princesses.
2.) A guy that’ll fawn over them and never say anything bad about them.
3.) A guy that isn’t working all the time (1+3 = want to have the cake and eat it too)
4.) Complete obedience from the guy and no secrets of any kind.
5.) Want absolute secrecy as far as their business is concerned.

Plenty more but this is getting long.
As for the attack on 2D, they want to get rid of the (winning) competition. Really though, with the obvious stress factors the males will be put under, who would want to bother to try?

The government should spend less on mixers and more on reeducating. The populous there needs to be taught that nobody is perfect, you can’t have everything you want (it’s about give and take), and in a working relationship, you can’t expect to keep everything about your life when they aren’t around a secret while expecting no secrecy from your partner.

This isn’t exclusive to Japan. This is how very many girls actually act. Do you seriously possess no experience to the extent where you will deny something that happens so often in the real world that stereotypes about it exist?

Hey, look up the late, great Sam Kinison on YouTube from the “have you seen me lately” comedy skit. He gives perfect relationship advice on this “About your ex” thing, the guy would be going “Do NOT tell me about your EX!!!!”

“But, honey, You are so conservative. Look at that church! He made me go there and we did it on the altar, but a priest caught us and joined in…though he mostly was interested in my ex and asking if we’d had kids yet…”

Even when they tell their friends to the point girls you know are saying so and so said you have a big one? They would really go that far to tell third parties too? i dont think so…I guess im gullible then or they really mean it, I’ll choose to believe the second one.

We also got guys here in the west that will ask similar stalker like questions to the girls as those in the japanese survey. But they would be regarded as jealous, insecure about themselves, akward, controlling etc… fits japanese men well?

He’s probably just black, which surprisingly makes up a large portion of the SanCom population. Black people on the internet SaY WuT?
And to point out something so trivial you probably are one of those with a small wee wee. But hey, at least you can ‘bang lolis’ right? /snicker

“It’s ok, if you’re in a three-way,
It’s not gay, when you’re in a three-way,
When there’s a chick in the middle there’s some lee-way,
The area’s grey, when it’s in a 1-2-3-way.” or something along those lines.
♪(*^^)o∀*∀o(^^*)♪ (I have no clue what this is but it has music notes)

Number 7 happens, so I don’t see how asking that question is wrong…
Number 6 is also a good question… in the case number 7 is a yes… though they’d probably lie about their true feelings towards the ex when talking to their current. Suppose that makes 6 a “no point in asking” question.

Exactly. “How you feel about him now” and “As to whether you are still in touch with him” are actually very important, and people *DO* have a right to know where their significant other stands on these things. Otherwise it’s just a big gamble.

More like the cultural expectations are different, and women are not following them anymore and are behaving more and more like western women. This upsets quite a few people.

It bothers me too, unfortunately. I hate the way I was brought up that gave me this mental set. This no sex before marriage and the first date must lead to marriage stuff really doesn’t do me any good in today’s world. Sadly, it worked with every single member of my family so it seems to be like the social norm. But it really isn’t. People sleep around until they meet the right person. And if I can’t deal with that, I’ll just keep watching anime.

No hun, not every western woman sleeps around to find the right guy. I won’t sleep with someone unless I can imagine myself dating them, and not just whimsical imagining too as in it’s gotta be going somewhere, not just one night stand.
I think it’s sad to think that people nowadays think that sleeping around one night stands is the way to go to find a partner, it really isn’t.

Women can’t be ronrey. This is not to say that finding a soulmate is easy for either gender, but okay to reasonably good-looking women get offered sex 1D3+3 times every day. Unfortunately, the same is not true for men.

Its not about getting laid, but lets be for real, a guy walks up to a girl and says I like you lets fuck probably not going to get the reaction you want.

On the other hand women walks up to me who has a good body and ask if I want to fuck her and trust me I will be in her faster than it takes an otaku to watch an anime. Forget patients forget work forget everything for the next hour or two. Got my condoms and I am ready to burn every hole in her.

The reverse will get me a slap or someone calling for the police. Been good looking from a guys point does not get you squat unless your ok with fugly girls.

Out of that “1D3+3” chances, women get asked “1D3+3” times, and for that to happen, men must ask them out “1D3+3” times as well. It’s common sense.

You may think that women have “more” chance because there’s more offers for sex than they accept, however every time they do accept, no matter if 10% or 90% of the times they get offered, both involved parties succeed to get sex, so your argument is invalid.

That’s where the logical fallacy lies.

@stillcode less women with more men also do happen, just as homosexual relationships do, and latter ones are about 10-15% for both genders, I think. That’s why I said “about same”.

Not true. I consider myself good looking but I’m not offered sex 1D3+3 times a day (whatever that means). Prolly cus I don’t put myself out there in positions where people ask for sex and that’s all they expect.
Also they prolly think ‘man she’s got to have a boyfriend with they way she looks so I won’t even bother’, which is true now but it wasn’t for years before 🙁

1: Would it be alright for me to try dating your sister?
2: Would you like to try a threesome?
3: Can you grow a moustache?
4: Can you go get some plastic surgery for your breasts?
5: Your mom is kind of hot, is she available?
6: You’re wearing so much make up, is it alright for me to see your actual face?
7: I want some privacy, can you get out of my house?
8: Could you go fetch me some fastfood?
9: this tastes like crap, could you go learn cooking?
10: you were (age+5) years old, right?

Could this list really be true? Why so obsessed over the ex-boyfriend?! Geesh.

Note that the article says, “Japanese women quizzed **about which aspects of their relationship history** they would much rather avoid being asked about” (emphasis added). So the title is misleading, either intentionally (which wouldn’t be a surprise) or unintentionally (for brevity purposes).

Seeing that every taboo question concerns their ex, I have a feeling that most women are not too happy in their current relationship either, if they don’t want to be reminded of their previous one so badly 😛

There ARE women and men out there who have never had EXs you tards. Look at the tiny surveys here or elsewhere with men liking their 2D girls better. And who can blame them?

But the real question is, do you want to break in a virgin and then try to teach them what you like, and suffer many many epic fails or grab a girl that knows what she is doing and hope you’re not getting images in your head of all the wang that’s been there before yours, both much bigger, and smaller.

i’m gonna tell you a little history. my former girlfriend -sorry for the self-reference- had a particular ‘conductual pattern’ as far as bf’s went. how did i get to this conclusion? i didn’t.

we spent several years together, then out of the blue, all started to went down the toilet. “why?” we discussed for a couple of months, and also talk’d bout our previous relationships, how they ended, etc. it was the first -and last- time we talked about it.

thing is that she realized that the same issues that made her ditch and be ditched before, were poping out with me.

if we didn’t have this talk, i’d never realized that it may be truly important to talk about previous experiences with your actual gf/bf. tho im not sayin that it should be the ‘first’ thing to talk about.

1 will she ever decide this was a mistake and report it as rape
2 was she ever really raped, the baggage is to much for many men to handle, and most of the time, comes out to late in a relationship to easily back away from
3 will she be offended by weird questions.

11) Why does that health clinic keep calling?
12) And why do they need a sample of MY blood?
13) What is with that long mound of dirt in your basement?
14) Why are so many homeless guys with no pants on out front when I stop by after work?
15) Why does your dog’s breath frequently smell of peanut butter?
16) Didn’t you just rent Fatal Attraction last week?
17) Why do your friends keep giving me cultist literature?
18) Why are there so many missing pets signs posted along your street?
19) Did I leave my platinum card over here?
20) Why is there a charge for a single plane ticket to Aruba on my card?

If you truely love her, there are things you want to know, all of these seemed pretty reasonable for a guy who truely loves a girl. If you do not agree to this, that means no matter what happens, you will not be jealous, you will not ask, you will not fight about it, even if she still continues to date, have sex, kiss with her ex. But you know this already, otherwise people wont go to court over family dispute, because if you love her, why care if she has sex with other guys, you would simply say, hey, Im only interested in you, not your ex, not even in the guy you are having sex with right now. End of story, grow up, we are all humans.