Camgirl Guide to Managing Sugar Daddies

It’s a well-kept secret in the camgirl world that you don’t actually need to have a physical relationship with a “sugar daddy” to reap all of the great material benefits that come with being a “sugar baby.” A lot of girls believe that sex automatically comes with such an arrangement, but thanks to the magic of the webcam and smartphones, sugar daddies can be “serviced” entirely online with no actual personal contact involved whatsoever.

Scoring a real online-only sugar daddy as a cam girl isn’t the easiest thing in the world, I’m like not gonna lie. I mean, you have to really bring it in the personality department, and you’ve got to be good with people generally. If you genuinely like people and listening to them, you’re much more likely to attract an actual daddy who will become emotionally attached to you and provide lots of gifts and financial assistance. And let me tell you, there’s absolutely nothing in the world like being given gifts by men you don’t even have any physical relationship with. I’ve actually fetishized it, at this point. Like, it actually legit turns me on.

Even though it’s not easy, as I said, If you stay involved in the camming game for long enough, you ARE likely to eventually attract one or two sugar daddies, maybe even more. If your sugar daddies start to pile up, you will need to create a strategy to manage them and keep them happy. Being a sugar baby online means you have to be available to chat online with your daddies, text frequently throughout the day, and sometimes have long convos on the phone. It can get time-consuming really quick, so when you have more than one sugar daddy, you have to learn how to juggle all this “quality time” with your camming duties, not to mention your ordinary life duties.

Keep Sugar Daddies on a Time Budget

A great piece of advice is to make it clear to your daddies that, as a cam girl, you have huge demands on you time, so availability to chat will be limited. Try to carve out specific times of the day when you can have some personal time between you and each daddy. I have a couple sugar daddies, at the moment, so I usually reserve some time in the morning for the one who’s most generous with me. He likes to talk for a while before going into the office, so that’s the best time for him. My other daddy likes to talk at night, so I usually work him in a few hours before bedtime. They both text me throughout the day, but it’s typically just short little exchanges and it’s totally manageable. I can text them even while I’m camming live.

Sugar Babies can’t be Shy

I really need to stress that lots of chatting is really necessary to be an online sugar baby. With the traditional sugar baby/daddy relationship, sex is a huge part of the arrangement, so the focus is often on that. But since there’s no physical contact involved with online sugaring, you need to be pretty good at conversation, as well as casual banter. Try your best to keep in contact with your sugar daddy throughout the day, even if just by texting some random comment every now and again. When you have long talks, really try to open up and share as much about your life as you can safely do within your own comfort zone. This will all help you to maintain strong connections with your daddies and will serve to lengthen the relationships.

Don’t Be Afraid to Ask For a Sugar Baby Allowance

Allowances are normal for traditional sugar babies. Most every sugar daddy who has a physical relationship with a sugar baby he’d dating will give her an allowance (and the allowance can be small, or it can be HUGE, depending). Online sugar babies often think that they shouldn’t ask for an allowance, but that’s totally wrong. Don’t think that because the relationship is only an online/distance thing, that you don’t deserve an allowance. Like I mentioned, online sugaring is all about providing companionship and quality time together on Skype/Facetime etc. That’s very valuable to the sugar daddy, so he’s normally willing to compensate you for that. Also, when you realize how much time goes into taking care of your daddy, it becomes clear that you need to be compensated for that time. If you spend two hours per day talking and Skyping with your sugar daddy, that’s two fewer hours you can use for camming or to make content.

Be On Guard for Sugar Daddy Jelly

When you have more than one sugar daddy, guess what? They WILL get jealous of each other, and the jelly can sometimes get really, really bad. They’ll usually find out about each other in your camming chatroom or on your cam girl Twitter timeline (or other social media accounts like IG). A little bit of sugar daddy jelly can actually be a good thing, believe it or not, because it can make them compete for your attention by giving bigger and bigger gifts or allowances. But occasionally, one of your daddies might get seriously jealous and can cause real problems. The best way to deal with this when it happens is to keep reminding your jelly daddy that this is your job, and that you must have multiple daddies unless he can meet 100% of your monthly financial goals. If he can’t, then he doesn’t have the right to complain.

Finally, I just want to assure you guys that online sugaring is a real thing and every cam girl has a shot at attracting some sugar daddies. Like I said, if you spend enough time working as a cam model, you’re likely to find generous guys who want to enjoy a more personal and intimate relationship with you that lets them in to deeper levels of your life. If you’re good with people, have a pleasant personality, and are willing to give a sugar daddy a lot of your attention via live chats, phone calls, and texting, this could be a great option for you!

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