just found out im pregnant with my second and NERVOUS HELP

just found out im pregnant with my second and NERVOUS HELPSleepyBaby401
Due June 28;
17 kids;
Bristol, Rhode Island94 posts

10th Nov '12

helloooo baby gaga forum (: so i need some insight .. i just found out im second with my second child .. well technically my third considering i had a miscarraige in july of this year. I'm excited but also nervous. My mother constantly tells me "if you ever get pregnant again, your out" so im nervous if i tell her im pregnant ill be out on the street PREGNANT i have no where to go , no family no friends that can take me in i have no job only on unemployment and the father cant help me . i just dont know what to do , im getting so anxious because i need a plan a few people have heartlessly told me to just KILL my child as in abortion obviously and yes that is an option but i dont think thats an option for me , ONE i cannot live with the fact that i murdered my child for the rest of my life id feel nothing but GUILT TWO i feel like its my responsibility , I got pregnant and i have to deal with the consequences now . will it be hard ? probably but id feel like horrible just giving up on my child like that and taking the easy way out . maybe mothers out there can give me some advice of how they did it because im at a loss : / i also have no car or liscence so i reallu dont know what to do . thanks in advance <3

i understand but i for one just dont think i could live with that decision . i've been looking for jobs, theyre very hard to find. i now live at home with my mother because me and my daughter's father didnt get along so i came back home. i collect unemployment for now. i am 22 years old.

Quoting SleepyBaby401:" i understand but i for one just dont think i could live with that decision . i've been looking for jobs, ... [snip!] ... because me and my daughter's father didnt get along so i came back home. i collect unemployment for now. i am 22 years old."

Go out and get a job. Get assistance if you have to. But support your own kids. Don't make your mom do it. And if you are so against abortion, adopt it out. By the sounds of it, you can't feasibly give this kid a stable life.

wow, im sorry but you are very rude monkey nuts. you know rude comments are not needed on my topic, i just need some POSITIVE insight. you have no clue what kind of person i am or what ive been threw so you have no right to judge. i come here for some positive feedback and i get horrible responses.

Quoting SleepyBaby401:" wow, im sorry but you are very rude monkey nuts. you know rude comments are not needed on my topic, i ... [snip!] ... i am or what ive been threw so you have no right to judge. i come here for some positive feedback and i get horrible responses."

welcome to a public forum, but also if you are living at home, you are not fully supporting your daughter, so abort this pregnancy, go on with your life, find a job, use birth control, or better yet, abstinence, until you can afford a place on your own.

Quoting SleepyBaby401:" wow, im sorry but you are very rude monkey nuts. you know rude comments are not needed on my topic, i ... [snip!] ... i am or what ive been threw so you have no right to judge. i come here for some positive feedback and i get horrible responses."

I know you can't spell, or use proper grammar.
Your 21 years of age, you have no job and aren't supporting your child now.
However you think it's a fantastic idea to bring another child into this world even though you can't support yourself or the child you have. You sleep with a guy who you "will be no help"

Quoting SleepyBaby401:" wow, im sorry but you are very rude monkey nuts. you know rude comments are not needed on my topic, i ... [snip!] ... i am or what ive been threw so you have no right to judge. i come here for some positive feedback and i get horrible responses."

Quoting Monkey Nuts:" I know you can't spell, or use proper grammar. Your 21 years of age, you have no job and aren't supporting ... [snip!] ... yourself or the child you have. You sleep with a guy who you "will be no help" Does that sound about right dear? "

Quoting Monkey Nuts:" I know you can't spell, or use proper grammar. Your 21 years of age, you have no job and aren't supporting ... [snip!] ... yourself or the child you have. You sleep with a guy who you "will be no help" Does that sound about right dear? "

lets not be correcting people's grammar, when you are not using correct grammar yourself.