Ok I think either my video card or my monitor is going bad, its get fuzzy and hard to read for a while, almost like I am drunk but doesnt only happen when I am drunk sooo is there a way to tell if it my monitor or video card?

I had the same thing happen with my old computer a few years ago. I just wrote it off as the monitor and tossed it and bought a new one for like $50. It ended up being the video card. So like Monkeyevil said, test it with a different monitor first.