The Player: Use Confidence To Pick Up Any Woman

The Player: Use Confidence To Pick Up Any Woman

how to get confidence

It's important to realize that all seven elements need not be executed in completion in order to exude confidence. However, if you want to be at your highest level possible, you need to ensure that all seven elements are equally balanced.

1- State of mind

The very first step toward becoming a confident Player involves building it from the inside on a daily basis through introspection. You're going to have to help yourself by adopting a confidence-building philosophy.

What does this mean? By creating thoughts and exercises of confidence, your body will react and display that confidence. But before you can get there, you need to take a deep, honest look at yourself. You need to learn to feed off your strengths and eliminate — or at least minimize — your weaknesses.

For example, if you think that stuttering when you're nervous is one weakness that contributes to your lack of confidence, then practice speaking with as many people (preferably Player-loving women) as possible until you eliminate that drawback.

You need to develop personal habits that will put you in the right frame of mind and keep your confidence chain well-oiled and running strong. Try the following to keep yourself motivated:

Talk to yourself: Practice speaking in the morning before leaving the house by clearing your throat and saying aloud, "Good morning. You look great. You are No. 1. Today is going to be a great day. Today, you will say 'hi' to at least five strangers."

Keep a list of your strengths: Write down 10 traits that will make you invaluable to any woman who's lucky enough to get your attention and time (you have to think this way to be confident).

Change negative outlooks into positive ones: If you're single, stop being depressed about it. Instead of worrying about being alone, be happy that you have the opportunity to meet and seduce many women.

2- Physical appearance

Your physical appearance plays a very big role in your level of confidence. Not so much regarding how you feel about yourself, but how other people make you feel.

Naturally, the more physically fit you are, or the closer your appearance is to what society deems attractive, the more eyes there will be on you. And that feeds into the Confidence Chain.

So, naturally, you should be exercising regularly and maintaining a healthy diet in order to give the ladies what they like — a strong, fit body — and don't forget to stand up straight.

3- Your style

Sorry to break it to you, but the threads you wear play a part in determining how the people in your life — both strangers and acquaintances — will treat you. This, in turn, will affect the way you feel, which, in turn, will affect your state of mind, which, in turn, will affect your confidence. Get the point?

If you want to feel confident 100% of the time, you have to look stylish 100% of the time. If you don't, you'll subconsciously feel inferior and before you know it, that will outwardly manifest itself as nervousness. Make sure you're properly groomed and dressed better than the people you expect to meet.