Rebecca you have balls 😉 Seriously though, You are incredibly courageous. I have been having these conversations in hushed tones for fear of being stoned to death by my would-be (hegemonic) “community” for well over a decade. I want to shake your hand, hug you, and thank you a thousand times from the bottom of my heart for wading through and dismantling this horrendously murky and unapproachable subject publicly. Will you marry me? 😀

Some gender critical trans-women actually agree with your thoughts in this video, Rebecca.
For example, Jen Bob says:
“I’m clearly not a … female, I’m a trans-woman and that makes me a male that lives in a given female role and wants to look female. It doesn’t really make me a woman…”
@ 7:10 of the following video,

A large number of women in the comments of the video are thanking Jen Bob for her balanced view on the “trans-trend” debate.