With those words, Colonel Mohammad Bagher Latifi bid his wife a final
farewell in his Tehran prison cell on May 23, 1979. Within minutes, he
was executed by members of the newly installed Khomeini regime. With her
father’s death, Afschineh Latifi’s once-secure world came
crashing down. Seemingly overnight, her existence went from one of privilege
to one of crushing uncertainty.

EVEN AFTER ALL THIS TIME: A Story of Love, Revolution, and Leaving
Iran (ReganBooks; March 29, 2005; Hardcover; $24.95), is Afschineh
Latifi’s emotionally gripping account of life before and after Islamic
fundamentalists took power in Iran. At the heart of the story is her mother’s
tremendous courage in risking all that she had, including her life, to
make sure that her children survived and thrived. Afschineh’s tale
is all the more poignant because she was just ten years old when her father
was executed.

Growing up in Iran during the seventies, Afschineh, along with her older
sister and two younger brothers, enjoyed a life of wealth and luxury.
Her father was a self-made man who had worked his way up through the military
ranks to become a colonel in the Shah’s army. Her mother, Fatemeh
Jalilian, was both beautiful and intelligent, with aspirations of becoming
a doctor. Deeply in love, their relationship was not the norm at the time.
Rather than demand that his wife abandon her teaching career and dedicate
herself to the household, Afschineh’s father was proud of Fatemeh’s
accomplishments and encouraged her to continue working.

Living in a large home in an upper-class neighborhood of Tehran, Afschineh
and her siblings were enrolled in the best private schools. They enjoyed
skiing vacations, piano and dance lessons, horseback riding, and frequent
visits to the movie theater and local amusement parks. All that changed
following the Shah’s flight from Iran and the Ayatollah Khomeini’s
return from exile to rule the country.

Singled out as an “Enemy of God” because he was part of
the military elite, Colonel Latifi was arrested in February 1979. Over
the next few months, he was shunted from prison to prison. During that
time, his wife begged, pleaded, and bribed her way past insolent guards
in order to see him. Somehow they managed to smuggle small love notes
back and forth.
With his death, Mrs. Latifi was catapulted into action. Fearing for her
children’s welfare amid the increasing violence and repression,
she made the heart-wrenching decision to send her daughters to school
in Austria, splitting up the family until a time when they could safely
reunite. Suddenly, at ages ten and eleven, Afschineh and her sister, Afsaneh,
were forced to be like nails—meekh basheen—a term their mother
repeated to them regularly. Still grieving for their father and feeling
isolated from the other students by their background, appearance, and
culture, the girls became virtually inseparable. In 1982, Mrs. Latifi
sent the sisters to live with their uncle and his children in the United
States. Although she promised to join them soon along with their two brothers,
it would be five years until that happened.

Compellingly written, EVEN AFTER ALL THIS TIME details
the difficulties the girls encountered as they attempted to acclimate
to America. Moving in with their relatives, who lived in Virginia, they
once again felt like “geeky” outsiders. Learning English from
cartoons and commercials, they struggled academically and socially at
school. Adding to their misery was their uncle’s growing resentment
over their presence in his home. As they navigated adolescence and young
adulthood on their own, the sisters drew strength from their mother’s
admonishment that they were “the daughters of a soldier; soldiers
are brave, they don’t cry.”

Afschineh recalls that they had no choice but to take command of their
lives. From finding part-time jobs, to getting their driver’s licenses,
finishing high school, attending college, and eventually escaping their
uncle’s hostility by moving into their own apartment, the sisters
bravely handled each new challenge, but at a cost. The overwhelming responsibility
of virtually raising themselves had stripped from them any semblance of
a childhood. Yet, there were laughter and happy times as they made friends
and established a small social network.

Simultaneously, their mother, who was still living in Iran, was forced
to sell off all of the family’s belongings in order to survive.
Continuously frustrated in her efforts to obtain visas for herself and
her sons, she managed to remain optimistic and put on a brave front for
the sake of the girls. Finally, in May 1987, Mrs. Latifi and the two boys
made their way to America, joyfully reuniting with Afschineh and Afsaneh.

As they readjusted to being a family, many hurdles still lay ahead.
Ultimately, Afsaneh became a doctor, fulfilling her mother’s longtime
dream, while Afschineh got her law degree. Their younger brothers followed
them into the medical and legal professions. In 1995, Afschineh returned
briefly to Iran where she visited her father’s grave for the first
time and began to make some sense out of all that had transpired since
his death. Today, at 35, the same age her mother was when she became a
widow, Afschineh is an attorney living in New York City.

EVEN AFTER ALL THIS TIME is the moving account of a
family that, despite seemingly insurmountable odds, persevered and made
their dreams come true. In the telling, Afschineh Latifi, her sister,
and their mother emerge as women of indomitable strength, courage, and
resiliency whose incredible story is certain to inspire readers everywhere.

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EVEN AFTER ALL THIS TIME
A Story of Love, Revolution, and Leaving Iran
By Afschineh Latifi
ReganBooks
Publication Date: March 29, 2005
Hardcover; $24.95; 336 pages
ISBN: 0060745339