Do you feel like you’re cheating on your partner if you masturbate with a toy when he’s not available and you’re in the mood? Masturbation is a key part of a healthy sex life, whether you’re single, coupled or anything in between. And luckily, there’s a perfect solution for soothing those pangs of partner jealousy:

Check out a casting kit at your local erotica shop or online. The kits give you the materials to create a high-quality dildo cast right from your partner’s real thing! Most are composed of durable casting materials, like silicone, so the final product is long-lasting, not just a novelty. You can choose from a rainbow of colors too.

Using your personal dildo is a great activity for the next time you’re home alone. Check out some online options from Good Vibrations (GoodVibes.com) or Morningwood Laboratories (MorningWoodLabs.com).