We are a couple in our mid 50’s and married since age 19. We have lived a very loose version of DD since our beginning, without the extent of discipline, never knowing it had a name, or that DD was a real thing. Recently my wife expressed interest in pursuing a far more serious and formal version than we had ever imagined or considered. Life spent as Hoh concerning final decisions only may be difficult to now add the disciplinary aspects. (Especially to potential tears as she has requested) I love my wife and if this is what she needs, I’m on board to provide it for her. I’m certain we have plenty to learn.
Thanks all!

Thanks kgirl, 22 years seems like a long run these days after watching so many friends and family go their separate ways. I’m new here and reading several posts including the one about where everyone is from. Didn’t want to be confusing by saying we are from very southern Ohio And MN but it was good to see all the fellow Buckeyes on here!

Both, we are complicated. Ohio residents and home is in southern Ohio. Ive spent more time than I should in MN for work the last few years and wife travels a lot in her job. We are looking to make some changes and get home full time!