I think u should see a therapist or rape crisis counselor. Sexual assault of any kind can cause anxiety, flashbacks, and general negative feelings about sex. It’s a type of ptsd. You seem to already know that your dislike of sex comes from your previous bad experiences. Get some help because sex is a great part of life and you don’t want to let a couple scumbags that hurt you in the past to take that away from you. It won’t go away overnight but the more you work at it, the better things will get. Until you deal with your issues, you will never be totally ok. What happened to you isn’t your fault but how you deal with it will have a huge impact on your mental health for the rest of your life

Thanks alot i blamed myself for years thinkin i got to close to the man that molested me id sit an cuddle but was like 7 8 didnt kno it was wrong while he stuck his hands down my pants sad thing it was my sorry pos step grandfather

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2 months ago

Thanks everyone i enjoy sex just not the clit touching or when im about there i stop. But certain times its ok i dont think bout it ill just look into a sex therapist do they have them online i cant do it in person

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You need counseling to address why you are dealing with these feelings and fears...you are in your sexual prime and should be able to enjoy sexual days with a emotionally caring man and enjoy your own sexuality. Thank you for reaching out and let us know how you are doing....Rob