Yes ma'am you do. But I've come to understand that marriage is a different ball game. Throw in kids, properties, feeling humiliated, memories. & it depends on the circumstances surrounding the infidelity IMO.

If he or she is a serial cheater than I'll help you pack your bags but if it was a one time affair I wouldn't judge(not sure if that's the word I'm looking for) anyone for staying and trying to work it out.

I've sort of been in this situation before but by the time I found out, the other woman was...how should I put it...out of reach. Lucky for her.

did u want to keep him? if so--

why not confront him...and try to get him to change his behavior?

because tbh the way i see it.. if she knew about you and still wanted to mess w/ him w/ her disrepectful ass-- I doubt she'd grow a conscience and be like dang-- let me stop messing with him now. his girl confronted me.

but it seems so counterproductive, imo star. like what do you think would come from a conversation with a woman who is effing your man? do you think she will be totally truthful?

what more, in fact, would you do?

Who's star?

I'd want to know if she knew about me and then I'd know how to proceed. Notification of her husband/bf may be in order and other more concrete things I'm not at liberty to say.

you know who star is...lol

anyway, if a chick new about me...i wouldn't expect her to be truthful about anything honestly. and if she didn't know about me then i would assume she would be hurt as well which could lead to some potential bs coming out of her mouth. bottom line...i think it would be a mess trying to sift thru the truth and the lies. ain't nobody got time for that...

i've never called another woman and the truth still somehow always manages to reveal itself.

I've sort of been in this situation before but by the time I found out, the other woman was...how should I put it...out of reach. Lucky for her.

did u want to keep him? if so--

why not confront him...and try to get him to change his behavior?

because tbh the way i see it.. if she knew about you and still wanted to mess w/ him w/ her disrepectful ass-- I doubt she'd grow a conscience and be like dang-- let me stop messing with him now. his girl confronted me.

If I wrote out a list of the things I did to that boy after I found that out, you would want to have me committed. No I did not want to be with him. I'm not for swapping bodily fluids with nasty men and their hoes. I was so mad at him. Even though we always used a condom. I don't know what type of diseases she had. And plus she was married. And who knows who else her hubby was messing with. Just nasty. But I settled that situation.

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