In ultra-Orthodox Jewish communities, a suitor known to have ADHD could just be considered chopped liver.

Before hopeful young lovers are set up, rabbis, parents and others in the close-knit communities check them out or ask around to see if they or close relatives have the disorder, which tends to run in families.

“The issue is, ‘Do I want to marry someone with ADHD?’ It’s a big concern,” said Chana Levi Julian, founder of the Jewish Association for Attention Deficit Disorder in Brooklyn and a psychotherapist who treats children and adults with ADHD.

It’s also tsuris for Orthodox and Hasidic parents who arrange “introductions” and want to do the best they can for their children, Julian said.

They worry about many things, like diabetes and learning disabilities, she said. But ADHD ranks high as a black mark against beaus.

“The concerns are: Will the spouse be able to make a living? Are they going to have fights? Are you going to be able to depend on this guy?” she said. Temper is also a big issue, she added.

“I’ve treated men and women on the brink of divorce because of their raging, hair-trigger temper and verbal abusiveness.”