[Ask a Girl] Question about Group Sex ?

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:eyesI've been invited to my first Group Sex , Orgy, Swingers Club whatever you would like to call it. My Neighbor has been a few times and she has been raving about all of the amazing sex, openness, all out sexual fun she has been having. She stopped by last night after a recent party and she asked me if I would like to join her this weekend for a weekly sex party. I was a little reluctant about going but after she pulled a few strings and spoke up for me with the group they are inviting me in. So my question or questions are have you been to an orgy ect. ? What are some do's and don'ts ? Even though this seems to be a wild free for all sex what is some proper etiquette so I don't get thrown out in the first 5 minutes ?
Thanks

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My advice to you is be respectful. A common misconception is that everyone is there for an "anything goes" scenario. We have encountered quite a few single makes that feel like it's open season to do anything with anyone. Just like the vanilla world, not every woman is going to be interested. I (as the husband) appreciate a little conversation with a guy before he starts to try to make a move on my wife. Typically I talk to the husband a bit, compliment his wife, and basically ask permission to touch her.
The best approach is to sit back and observe for a while. See who is into what. Watch how people instigate action. Remember, many of the attendees already know each other, so some action may start quickly with them. That doesn't mean that everyone has implied permission.
Again tho, the most important thing is to be respectful to all!
Have fun!

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Never been but would go in a minute. I would assume respect respect and oh also, respect.
Goes with most situations sexual or not.
funny you should post this cause i was going to PM you about something similar.
I have a friend who was hire as a DJ for a party like this. I was going to ask if you knew of any such places near us.

The best approach is to sit back and observe for a while. See who is into what. Watch how people instigate action. Remember, many of the attendees already know each other, so some action may start quickly with them. That doesn't mean that everyone has implied permission. Again tho, the most important thing is to be respectful to all!
Have fun!

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Yes, sit back, have a drinky or two,
you will get someone's attention or
they will get your attention ,
one way or the other, enjoy,
it can be a very sexy erotic turn on
and great sex.
Enjoy yourself, sb