I am 3 weeks pregnant , the problem with me is i feel weak and lazy all the day and also have vomiting ( nowdays i sleep almost 12 hours and after i got up i will spend rest of the time lieing down in the couch ) , i dont like to eat and drink milk , why am i feeling like this , i have to force myself to eat ... How can i stop the vomiting , pls advice me .. from past 3 days im eating only fruits , that also i have to force myself to eat , and i dnt eat dinner ( scared of vomiting ) , pls help me ... Im crying all the day , i feel weak and not able to do anything .. I came to USA 7 months ago , im alone here , i dont have relations in US .... , sometimes i felt depress too ...Can anyone pls suggest me some foods that i should eat and avoid at this stage ... im 22 , my weight is 50 and height 5'2 ... Pls help me

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I am 3 weeks pregnant , the problem with me is i feel weak and lazy all the day and also have vomiting ( nowdays i sleep almost 12 hours and after i got up i will spend rest of the time lieing down in the couch ) , i dont like to eat and drink milk , why am i feeling like this , i have to force myself to eat ... How can i stop the vomiting , pls advice me .. from past 3 days im eating only fruits , that also i have to force myself to eat , and i dnt eat dinner ( scared of vomiting ) , pls help me ... Im crying all the day , i feel weak and not able to do anything .. I came to USA 7 months ago , im alone here , i dont have relations in US .... , sometimes i felt depress too ...Can anyone pls suggest me some foods that i should eat and avoid at this stage ... im 22 , my weight is 50 and height 5'2 ... Pls help me
jenniffer replied. All your symptoms will disappear soon. don' t worry just think positive and eating fruits is great. drink lots of water and keep resting there' s no harm in that.
sonu replied. hi divya,

actually this things are more pychologically effected than pysically. i dont say we dont feel tired but if u go on thinking this way u r spoiling urself till 9 months.so u better start thinking that i m mom now i wan to eat for my baby,so u will be alright.think positive n be really active.
ya i use to feel the same way.i use to cook for my hubby in the morning at 6 as we are vegetarians n use to take food for his lunch. i use to cook with my morning sickness. but after few days it got vanish. u will also feel better after 3 months. now the baby is to tiny n need care.so its better u are resting but eat n sleep.
take care
bye
sonu
sonu replied. hi divya,

i m not working.ya u can go to india till 7th month.after that airlines authority wonmt allow or u need a doctor's concern letter with u .u can return after delivery in 1 1/2 half month or 2 months if u have normal delivery .if its c-section then u need to take rest abit.
take care n eat well
bye sonu
sonu replied. hi divya,

hope u r taking care of urself. i was there for 8 months bcz my delivery was c-section.my water sac was drying up so my baby was delivered 25 days early.baby was absolutely good n fine.in india there are so many relatives to take care n in mom's arms we feel to secure in those days so i went there to deliver.
u better have ur medicines daily n eat well.
bye
sonu
sonu replied. hi divya,

my baby had 1 year old this 18th .she is a baby girl.dont worry at all . i was also alone in singapore in my pregnancy. i went to india in 7th month to deliver her. till 7th month i was alone doin my household chores cooking ,washing,moping sweeping everthing.i use to walk n eat a lot after 3 months.so dont worry u will also stop vomiting after 3 months.
if u dont like to cook or eat anything try eating khichadi its complete food.really! its has all nutrition u need in body . mix few vegetables so u dont need to make different sabzi also.ya u can add onion , potatoes, carrots,peas,cauliflower anything of ur choice.u can add ginger garlic paste also to add taste in food.
advoid eating bread n toovar dal it develop gas in stomach.eat mung dal.n dont keep ur tummy empty ur little may feel to hungry n will start kicking in few months if u dont feed him.
bye
take care
sonu
sonu replied. hi divya,

dont worry nothing is wrong with u its just a part n parcel of pregnancy.y are u crying only because u r alone or bcz u r pregnant.see i know how u feel now as i m also a mom of 1year old baby now.u have to eat every 3 hrs to give nutrition to ur baby. or else ur baby will feel hungry.its good u r eating fruits but u also have to eat balanced food of rice ,dals, rotis ,sabzis,everything.if u dont think positive n dont eat well ur baby would be suffering after birth.so better u start eating.dont worry u will stop vomitting after 3 months.
my friend also felt the same thing n used to avoid eating food n medicines.now after birth of her baby she was fine but her baby was keep in incubator because of undevelop lungs.
divya u better be active,eat well n go for a walk daily without fail.u ask ur hubby to accompany u .
best of luck n take care of urself
bye
sonu

2008-04-14

#1

Name: jennifferSubject: Symptoms

All your symptoms will disappear soon. don' t worry just think positive and eating fruits is great. drink lots of water and keep resting there' s no harm in that.

2005-05-30

#2

Name: sonuSubject: dont worry

hi divya,

actually this things are more pychologically effected than pysically. i dont say we dont feel tired but if u go on thinking this way u r spoiling urself till 9 months.so u better start thinking that i m mom now i wan to eat for my baby,so u will be alright.think positive n be really active.
ya i use to feel the same way.i use to cook for my hubby in the morning at 6 as we are vegetarians n use to take food for his lunch. i use to cook with my morning sickness. but after few days it got vanish. u will also feel better after 3 months. now the baby is to tiny n need care.so its better u are resting but eat n sleep.
take care
bye
sonu

2005-05-28

#3

Name: sonuSubject: u can do it

hi divya,

i m not working.ya u can go to india till 7th month.after that airlines authority wonmt allow or u need a doctor's concern letter with u .u can return after delivery in 1 1/2 half month or 2 months if u have normal delivery .if its c-section then u need to take rest abit.
take care n eat well
bye sonu

2005-05-29

#4

Name: DivyaSubject: Hi sonu

Dear Sonu ,

How are you doing , hope you doing good with the little one .... Sonu i cannot eat anything , as i told u earlier , but im eating like aloo bhujia , biscuits and im drinking chocolate milk and some fruits , is that okay at this stage , im really counting my days to go to india , so that i can eat my mom cookings ... Im sleeping almost 12 hours perday , i know it's not good , but cant help it , i dont have energy to do house chores , do u felt the same ... Pls advice me ...

Take Care ...

Divya

2005-05-28

#5

Name: sonuSubject: good idea

hi divya,

hope u r taking care of urself. i was there for 8 months bcz my delivery was c-section.my water sac was drying up so my baby was delivered 25 days early.baby was absolutely good n fine.in india there are so many relatives to take care n in mom's arms we feel to secure in those days so i went there to deliver.
u better have ur medicines daily n eat well.
bye
sonu

2005-05-28

#6

Name: DivyaSubject: Hi Sonu

Dear Sonu ,

Thanks for the reply , nowdays i cannot do the house works , feel so tired , im lucky because my husband is helping me with that ...So sonu are u working ? Is it okay if i go to india in the 7 month and return to US after 1 1/2 month of delivery , will it affect the baby ... Pls advice me ...

Take Care

Divya

2005-05-26

#7

Name: sonuSubject: dont be upset

hi divya,

my baby had 1 year old this 18th .she is a baby girl.dont worry at all . i was also alone in singapore in my pregnancy. i went to india in 7th month to deliver her. till 7th month i was alone doin my household chores cooking ,washing,moping sweeping everthing.i use to walk n eat a lot after 3 months.so dont worry u will also stop vomiting after 3 months.
if u dont like to cook or eat anything try eating khichadi its complete food.really! its has all nutrition u need in body . mix few vegetables so u dont need to make different sabzi also.ya u can add onion , potatoes, carrots,peas,cauliflower anything of ur choice.u can add ginger garlic paste also to add taste in food.
advoid eating bread n toovar dal it develop gas in stomach.eat mung dal.n dont keep ur tummy empty ur little may feel to hungry n will start kicking in few months if u dont feed him.
bye
take care
sonu

2005-05-27

#8

Name: DivyaSubject: Hi sonu

Dear Sonu ,

Im also thinking to go back to india , to give birth , i thought this after i read ur reply :) ... How long u were there in india after u gave birth , Pls reply me ...

Take Care

Divya

2005-05-26

#9

Name: sonuSubject: u take care

hi divya,

dont worry nothing is wrong with u its just a part n parcel of pregnancy.y are u crying only because u r alone or bcz u r pregnant.see i know how u feel now as i m also a mom of 1year old baby now.u have to eat every 3 hrs to give nutrition to ur baby. or else ur baby will feel hungry.its good u r eating fruits but u also have to eat balanced food of rice ,dals, rotis ,sabzis,everything.if u dont think positive n dont eat well ur baby would be suffering after birth.so better u start eating.dont worry u will stop vomitting after 3 months.
my friend also felt the same thing n used to avoid eating food n medicines.now after birth of her baby she was fine but her baby was keep in incubator because of undevelop lungs.
divya u better be active,eat well n go for a walk daily without fail.u ask ur hubby to accompany u .
best of luck n take care of urself
bye
sonu

2005-05-26

#10

Name: DivyaSubject: Thanks Sonu

Dear sonu ,

Thank you so much for the reply , it helped me a lot , im crying because im alone here , feel like to eat my moms cooking , nowdays i cannot go to the kitchen and cook , i will immediatealy vomit ... Sonu how's ur baby doing , ur baby is girl or boy ... Im really trying hard to eat , could you pls suggest some menu that will help at this stage ...

Once again thanks for ur reply , may god bless you ...

Divya

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