Certainly you’ve learned that there is life after Justin Bieber. Just look at what you’ve done since you finally moved on with your life.

You met and recorded your new EDM hit “I Want You To Know” with Zedd, and started a healthy new romance with him. You filmed a movie, The Revised Fundamentals of Caregiving, with Paul Rudd in Atlanta, and are now filming InDubious Battle with James Franco.

In other words, you’ve taken leaps forward in your professional career, after your final split from Justin. “I Want You To Know” has given you a brand new sound and is already sitting at No. 4 on the iTunes dance chart, number 10 on the iTunes Top 100 and it spent several weeks at the top of the Billboard charts. Plus, you’ve moved fully into the grown-up film world and have left your Disney days firmly behind.

You’ve been able to focus on these fantastic and beneficial career moves because you’re not mooning over Justin. And then there’s your far more level-headed and less drama-filled relationship with Zedd, 25.

Zedd & Selena Gomez: Don’t Let Old Justin Feelings Come Between You

Now, you’re involved with a mature man who is down to earth and not dealing with the fallout of too much fame at a young age. Zedd is a loving, sensitive guy who only has eyes for you. He has no Yovanna Ventura, Chantel Jeffries or Kendall or Kylie Jenner in his life.

Nevertheless,we hear that there are now bumps in your relationship road with Zedd because you still have feelings for Justin.

“She asks people about him and finds little ways to bring him up,” an insider tells HollywoodLife.com exclusively. “It bugs Zedd that she still cares so much about Justin and what he’s doing. He tries to be chill about it but it’s hard to take.”

Selena, you need to be mindful of Zedd. Of course, it would be hard for Zedd to really give himself fully to you if you’re still obsessing about Justin, 21. No guy wants to be second fiddle to someone’s ex. If Zedd is in love with you, he wants to know that he’s your number one. Not your number one … until Justin comes back into the picture again.

Selena, 22, you don’t want to let this romance slip through your fingers. You’ve been so happy with Zedd. He’s given you such a great sense of security. He’s spoken about you publicly, gushing that you’re “perfect”.

Don’t let the distance that you’ve traveled since you were miserably afflicted with “Bieber fever” make you forget, how unhappy your life used to be.

Selena Gomez: Move On With Your Life And Ignore Justin Bieber

Remember how you cried over Justin at your BFF Taylor Swift‘s 25th birthday party in NYC on Dec. 13? You don’t want to go back to those days.

Selena, sometimes you have to simply and firmly put a lid on what the heart wants. The heart is just hurting you too much.

If you can do that, and keep moving on positively with your life, then you will no doubt find that your Justin feelings just keep on gradually fading. In the meantime, let yourself appreciate all the fun and great times that you’re having with Zedd.

Go ahead with your romantic plans for a “staycation” in LA with Zedd once you wrap up filming for In Dubious Battle. Selena, we hear that you wanted to do “low key, normal fun things with Zedd, like hiking, going out for dinner and watching movies,” as an insider told HollywoodLife.com exclusively.

Selena — do all these things with Zedd, and don’t let Justin’s name slip from your lips. Don’t make your new man, Zedd, feel like he’s taking second seat to your ex.

Do you agree, HollywoodLifers? Should Selena make sure Justin doesn’t come between herself and Zedd? Let me know.