What’s the Secret Ingredient for a Happy Marriage?

Even fewer will tell you that Leadership is the husband’s responsibility.

And yet… It’s likely the only trait that has the power to single-handedly save your relationship with your wife.

As you continue reading, you’ll learn more about what it means to be a husbandly leader, and how you can use this trait to turn your marriage around.Leadership.

Let the word roll off your tongue. There is a sweet sound to it… A strong sound.

Leadership is a trait that men these days are almost completely devoid of. It’s been bred out of us.

Many women – even if they don’t realize it – actually try to remove leadership from our personalities. Maybe it’s because they pride themselves as the one who “wears the pants”, so to speak. Or maybe it’s because the idea that a husband needs to lead in order for a marriage to succeed strongly clashes with our society’s modern view of gender equality.

And yet, a leader is nothing without support – the marriage relationship requires roles that are 100% equal, but still distinct.

Leadership.

It doesn’t always come easily to every man, but it always feels right once it’s been awakened.

Why is Leadership Vital to a Happy Marriage?

Even though I personally have Biblical reasons for believing the way that I do, I also have Darwin on my side to back me up.

Across almost every single species in the natural world , leadership is the most important trait to females during mating. It has always been and always will be true that the female gender in ANY species finds the Alpha Male to be the most desirable mate.

What does the Alpha Male have that others don’t?

Leadership.

You don’t have to look far to find proof; our closest animal relatives on a genetic level, the Chimpanzee, is an excellent example. In a tribe of chimpanzees, the alpha male has free pick of any female he wants. Why? Because women are biologically attracted to the quality of leadership.

It’s not sexist, it’s not chauvinistic… It’s literally hard-coded into our DNA as surely as our hair color or any other physical trait.

Here’s the most important thing to take from this article:

Attraction is what will save your marriage, and you create attraction through leadership.

When your wife is attracted to you, every other problem in your marriage will become secondary.

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