What do "caring" types like about "childlike" types?

any caregivers what to describe what they like about their infantiles? I am growing in dislike of my supposed style and see how much I need an aggressor/caregiver type. Though I have experienced ESTj male attention I didn't have a socionic talk with him before he left my life so here I am asking the most excellent source: you guys

That's a good way of putting it. They don't know what they want or need even though somewhere inside them they do want and need it. But when they are given it it makes them a lot happier. Ns give direction, Ss give push.