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It can be hard to know exactly what you’re looking for when shopping for a sex toy online. Luckily, you’ve got me to help you out! One of the perks of blogging for a sex toy company is I get to test all their toys! I’m here to give you all the hot gossip and…

When I first started having sex, my high school bae and I were still living with our parents. Sex had to be COMPLETELY SILENT. ? At the time it was exciting – orgasming was like an almighty supernova in the silent vacuum of space! ? Eventually I moved out, but sharing a living-space with housemates…

As soon as high school biology classes turned to the topic of reproduction or the human body, snickering would rustle through the ranks of the classroom. It never ceased to amaze me how obsessed my classmates were about sex, and yet how uncomfortable they became when discussing the mechanics of it. Mine wasn’t the only…

May is here and it’s officially MASTURBATION MONTH! Pencil it into your calendars, people, because this is a real thing! Masturbation Month started out as just one day. It was first declared by the folks over at Good Vibrations in honor of Surgeon General Joycelyn Elders, who was fired in 1994 by President Bill Clinton…

If sex toys are a part of your solo or partnered sex life, then you need to master the art of cleaning and using them safely in order to keep you (and anyone you share them with) free from yeast infections, bacterial infections, and possibly even STDs. Trust me – BV isn’t fun, and on…

When it comes to sexy solo time or a sizzling session with someone else, being present in your body (NOT caught up in your head) is where you want to be. There are loads of things you can do to tune out your inner monologue and turn up your sensory experience, and it all starts…

Nobody has blown my mind more when it comes to how to think about sex than psychotherapist Esther Perel. I first discovered her through her TED Talk The secret to desire in a long-term relationship. (Yes – I binge watch TED Talks and The School of Life videos about sex and relationships. Is it surprising,…

I don’t know about you guys, but last week’s dose of fantasy fuel left me a little hot and bothered ? #moreplease. But also kind of inspired! All those gorgeous nudes got me in the mood to pick up a pencil. I’m no Egon Schiele, but that doesn’t stop me from drawing an “autoportrait” from…

Now that we’re all on the same page (i.e masturbation is the bombdiggity – #yesijustsaidthat), let me share with you my tools of the self-touch trade (of which IMTOY stocks many ? #seriouslythetoysareamazingthough). It doesn’t matter if you’re working your way back to climaxing, or you simply want to enjoy a toe-curling solo sesh, here are…