YouTube’s witty and wise Ze Frank is back with another thought provoking short video about embracing your own uniqueness and finding the power to just be you.

Even though there is a thing called fitting in, that it’s something that you can learn and practice, those pages are so thin compared to who you are that the way to become natural, like I wanted to be so baldy, is by forgetting what you’re trying to be to other people.

In the end, he muses that there most likely is no handbook, but if there is one, you probably get to write it yourself.