Addicted To His BBC

What was your relationship status at the time? In a relationship (monogamous)

How would you best classify this hookup? Fuck-buddies / Booty call

How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I was visiting my boyfriend in Paris. He decided to go spend the day with friends of his outside the city to celebrate a friend’s birthday. I was a good boy all day…

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? But then decided to check out Growlr (a gay hook-up site). This big, beautiful black guy checked my profile, but didn’t message me. So I messaged him… we exchanged messages, pictures and soon he was on this way to see me

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? He came to my hotel room. I saw him and was all over him LOL. We kissed – he was a wonderful kisser. I was wearing a t-shirt and jockstrap, so helped him out of his clothes and boots… and then went from there. Lots of kissing. I sucked him. He was huge. I couldn’t wrap my hand around his dick, he was that big. Finally he lubed me up and started to enter me. I screamed in agony and ecstasy. I kept telling myself ‘relax’, and tried smiling because that relaxes the body and makes it easier to have someone enter you anally. Eventually, he was inside and I was in heaven. He fucked me so so good. Told him to take it all out and then shove it back inside me (I love that) LOL and he obliged. I was in heaven. He came inside me twice.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? No, but I was close

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I was sore. And happy. The boyfriend called the evening, still with his friends, unsure when he was returning. So I went to a gay bar… yes… I got fucked in the darkroom 😆😆 Hot Egyptian guy, who gave me another two loads. Felt like a proper slut – i.e., happy and satisfied 🙂 Boyfriend and I have not really been speaking since then.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), To feel better about myself, I was feeling lonely, Making new friends, Revenge / Getting even

How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one, although I have shared the pics (ass, no face) with a couple of guys subsequently to show what I can and will take

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Big beautiful black French guy cumming inside me 🙂

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Couldn’t connect with him when I returned to Paris a couple of weeks ago. He has a boyfriend so schedules are a bit hard.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? No.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative