“EVERY couple fights” DO NOT ACCEPT that. Every couple goes through hurt feelings, offenses, insecurities, etc. But fighting belongs between opponents. People who love each other have meaningful, albeit difficult conversations about issues that come up. It is entirely possible to express yourselves honestly-with RESPECT- and work through issues without fighting. If you believe this limiting concept, you are beginning your relationship with the lowest expectation instead of ideal expectations.

But let there be spaces in your togetherness and let the winds of the heavens dance between you. Love one another but make not a bond of love: let it rather be a moving sea between the shores of your souls. Khalil Gibran
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Studies show that couples who seek counseling during rocky periods are more successful in resolving their issues than those who don’t. Whether its from a religious figure, counselor or mental health professional, getting an expert to help sort out strife is wise. A discerning helper can help you differentiate between beliefs than cultivate success and those that limit your potential.

Couples need to set up a clear boundary around their relationship—this boundary involves saying “no” to the influences that can undermine your relationship. That includes limiting beliefs promoted by the society around us. Healthy marriages/relationships require balance between having shared couple-experiences that will feed the relationship while at the same time nurturing their individual interests and pursuits. Without a clear expression of commitment to the relationship, trust and emotional security will suffer. Improve relationships. A strong relationship foundation is built on mutual commitment.