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Dear Guardian Angel

November 11, 2011

Have you ever had an issue in your life that just seems to take over it and you have nowhere to turn, no one you feel you can talk to, no one that will understand whats going on in your life. Or a long day at work or school because of someone or something just ruined your whole day. Sometimes you just feel like the worst things in life ALWAYS happen to you and you have no idea why and have no idea how to solve the problem....Well now there maybe a solution. Suppose you had a place where you could write in your issues in a letter/email with the hopes that someone on the other end of that letter is there to help you or perhaps may have the answers you need or maybe you just need an ear to hear your cries... I think a Dear Angel is a great idea where you can write anonymously if you like.... JUST GET IT OFF YOUR CHEST! what do you think? Sometimes all we need is someone who is willing to listen .......

DISCLAIMER: The opinions expressed by Dear Guardian Angel and those providing comments are theirs alone, and do not reflect the opinions of Trey Songz, Treys Angels, Atlantic Records or any employee thereof.

Have you ever had an issue in your life that just seems to take over it and you have nowhere to turn, no one you feel you can talk to, no one that will understand whats going on in your life. Or a long day at work or school because of someone or something just ruined your whole day. Sometimes you just feel like the worst things in life ALWAYS happen to you and you have no idea why and have no idea how to solve the problem....Well now there maybe a solution. Suppose you had a place where you could write in your issues in a letter/email with the hopes that someone on the other end of that letter is there to help you or perhaps may have the answers you need or maybe you just need an ear to hear your cries... I think a Dear Angel is a great idea where you can write anonymously if you like.... JUST GET IT OFF YOUR CHEST! what do you think? Sometimes all we need is someone who is willing to listen .......

DISCLAIMER: The opinions expressed by Dear Guardian Angel and those providing comments are theirs alone, and do not reflect the opinions of Trey Songz, Treys Angels, Atlantic Records or any employee thereof.

Please note that my previous and current comments only apply to those who will be venting. People that are venting don't usually know what they are doing to themselves and other people and the effects it has physically, emotionally and spiritually on everyone. It works but look at the outcome. The next time you are venting about someone, think to yourself did that really help me to understand that person I am venting about. Do I feel any better about that person? Did it help me to love them better or at least help me not to be negatively affected (upset) by my contact or communication with them? If the answer is no, then more than likely venting is only offering you a temporary release. If the answer is yes, then some self revelations will be made to you that helps you to deal with the situation. If you have a serious problem with a person and you can not avoid them, then venting may not be enough. You will need more serious help that gives you better knowledge, wisdom and understanding. Dear Guardian Angel may be all the help you need. But if you can not answer those questions positively afterwards then you will need additional help. That is why I mentioned the bible, other religions, and self-help books. There is also professional counseling. I don't know the extent of the Dear Guardian Angel help available, but I believe if they are offering this service, they will be able to tell if they can help or if a person needs more help and they will be able to make suggestions and/or referrals.

thank you for you outlook. Dear Guardian Angel is not for everyone what works for you might not work for someone else therefore if writing to DGA is not for you then dont do it. If reading bible scriptures works better for you than do that also. We all have our own ways of dealing with our issues this is just an avenue for Angels who would like to take advantage of this and hopefully it can help someone in the end

Letting someone vent is somewhat like offering a kind of negative reinforcement. Current studies indicate that venting makes people more resentlful and hateful of the person/situation they are venting against and it is not the healthiest method to release anger (mentally or physically) as shown in scientific tests. There are other methods out there that are more effective and result in better outcomes. While you are venting, you are transferring negative energy (in a very emotional, irrational manner) instead of dissipating it. Often the receiver feels that you are draining them of positive energy. Also, the root of the problem remains because it is not confronted, solved or eliminated physically or mentally. Venting can actually do more harm then good or at the least do nothing except give temporary relief with greater problems in the aftermath.

For anyone interested, there is a lot of information on the net about the negative effects of venting. Reading relevant bible scriptures for understanding and praying may be very effective and more emotionally uplifting way if you are a practicing christian. Buddhists practice chanting. Also, there are many self-help books you can buy for dealing with your emotions. Talking to someone in a rational manner when you are calmer and less emotional and resentful is more constructive then venting, but when someone is disturbed that is not what they normally do.

I understand this as a very altruitist attempt to help Angels and I am not knocking it, but I wanted to throw in some extra food for thought/consideration.

VENT = to express a negative emotion in a forceful manner (and often in an unfair way).

I really like this idea because I had a little dilemma and I needed sumone to talk to but no one to listen to. I eventually found someone because I needed some advice. But I think its a great idea because u arent always able to find someone right there to talk to. So I think its a good idea and I love giving advice so if u need volunteers, Im available.

If any of you ever need advice or you just need someone to tallk to just hit me up on here or on twitter @treyzonelove.

@chrissy_on_ice if you need help you let me know. Im always ready to help!

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