There may have been times in our relationship where I wish I would have
listened to my head, and not my heart. Yet there are probably other times when I have
wished just the opposite! When my head and my heart seem to be leading me in opposite
directions, how do I know which one to listen to?
If I think of two friends disagreeing over a subject, often I can see that
both of them have only a slice of the whole picture. When they combine their efforts and
experience, and search for what they dont know about the subject, they are often
able to come to an agreement that satisfies both of them.
Maybe my heart and head work in the same way. Each part of me is able to give
its share of insight, and when they seem to disagree, it might be that I need to search
for more of the complete picture. Ive probably found that my best choices come when
my heart and head are in harmony, instead of disagreement.
Just for Today
Today, if my heart seems to be telling me one thing, and my head seems to be
leading me in a different direction, Ill remind myself that maybe Im not ready
to make a good decision yet on whatever Im struggling with in our relationship.
Ill begin looking at the areas my heart and head differ, and see if I can get more
insight to bring them into true harmony.

We dont need unity to have co-operation. If we did,
our feet would only let us hop, not walk. - BH