Size has nothing much to do with it. I'm not sure how best to explain this but I will try.

That a guy is huge doesn't mean he will get his female partner to climax. Women have some erogeneous spots and when those places are tweaked, it leads to intense pleasure and then orgasm.

Men reach orgasm easier as their pleasure spot when turned on is very visible whereas a women spots are a little tricky. They are hidden/enclosed (clit & gspot) and some expertise is needed to figure out where to touch.
Also, consistent stimulation with the right amount of pressure, that could last for a while is needed before a woman's body gives in to its climax.

Most men can't last up to 20/30 mins continuously stimulating the woman's spot, also not as quick and not with the right amount of pressure needed. A vibrator does all this with no hassle and in record timing.

So, it's not about size but about technique really. A toy/machine is more like an assistant and is in no way taking the place of the man. It's just to help attain greater pleasure.

Size has nothing much to do with it. I'm not sure how best to explain this but I will try.

That a guy is huge doesn't mean he will get his female partner to climax. Women have some erogeneous spots and when those places are tweaked, it leads to intense pleasure and then orgasm.

Men reach orgasm easier as their pleasure spot when turned on is very visible whereas a women spots are a little tricky. They are hidden/enclosed (clit & gspot) and some expertise is needed to figure out where to touch.
Also, consistent stimulation with the right amount of pressure, that could last for a while is needed before a woman's body gives in to its climax.

Most men can't last up to 20/30 mins continuously stimulating the woman's spot, also not as quick and not with the right amount of pressure needed. A vibrator does all this with no hassle and in record timing.

So, it's not about size but about technique really. A toy/machine is more like an assistant and is in no way taking the place of the man. It's just to help attain greater pleasure.

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I think one has to study his partner to know what works for her because some ladies want it slow and steady but with a consistence pace. Communication is the key to understand each other very well.

Most Nigerian men are selfish, they don't care about our satisfaction the moment they got want they wanted. Using a toy is just to help and supplement your effort, an icing on a cake, not to rival or take away your importance.

Men need to reorientate themselves, see your partner as equals, hence, the need for sexual satisfaction as well.

Most Nigerian men are selfish, they don't care about our satisfaction the moment they got want they wanted. Using a toy is just to help and supplement your effort, an icing on a cake, not to rival or take away your importance.

Men need to reorientate themselves, see your partner as equals, hence, the need for sexual satisfaction as well.

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I think they do care but it's like oluomoadebayo said, ego comes in the way....and fear of what one is not exactly familiar with. Let's cut the men some slack.... many of them care for their partners satisfaction.

Do you know why some women are usually unresponsive to sex? You tap her when you need action and she is unwilling....

Do you know why?

It is sexual frustration and boredom. Same old routine that doesn't lead to a climax for her...it's tiring when she hardly ever reaches fulfilment.

Give the machine a chance and you will see her sexual energy will be renewed. You and your pastor will thank me later, I promise you.

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I'm willing to try different positions to spice things up, e.g, the female on top style helps alot but most ladies don't have the fitness to rock and roll for a long time. With that method, you are in control of the game, from speed to pressure.

I'm willing to try different positions to spice things up, e.g, the female on top style helps alot but most ladies don't have the fitness to rock and roll for a long time. With that method, you are in control of the game, from speed to pressure.

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Yeah, that position is a good one for the woman but still, aside from fitness issues, most men can't hold themselves off for a woman to reach her climax first. That is the issue.

It takes quite sometime for the woman to get there.....well, except she fakes it.