For the record, family is the bond that gags. Second, friends and strangers, lovers, loved ones, they all hurt us. The impact has more to do with how vested we are in THEM. So, that they made you cry is really more indicative of how YOU feel about them, than how THEY might feel about you. You deserve to be surrounded by loving, compassionate HONEST people. We all do. That just is not reality. Much love