How to bond with baby

Now that your newborn has finally arrived, you want to be the best mother you could possibly be. This is a very special time; you'll never get it back so you'll want to create wonderful memories bonding with your baby.

Talk to your baby

Because he is already used to the sound of your voice, it is very soothing to him. You don’t need to feel foolish as your baby hears you and knows you are talking to him and loves him very much. This is a great way to bond with your baby.

Don’t let family or friends take over

Make them understand that even though you do appreciate their help, you'll take care of baby. You be the one to feed, bathe and dress baby, as you will then form a bond with your baby. However, your rest is also a big priority, so allow for help as you may need it.

Hold your baby a lot

Don't worry about spoiling baby, as that won't be a problem at this age. Your baby needs to feel secure, needs to feel you and smell you. You are your baby's entire universe, his warmth, his food and his security, and as such you will form a strong bond with your baby.

Sleep with your baby

It’s a good idea to sleep half the time with your baby, and half the time let baby sleep in bassinet or crib so you can sleep soundly in order to get enough rest. Sleeping with your baby forms a strong bond with your baby.

Sing to your baby

Nothing is as wonderful as mommy’s voice; singing to your baby and subsequently bonding with your baby. Thus, no matter how you sing, it will be like a heavenly choir to him.

Try to forget about outside concerns

Outside concerns include your job or housework. There will be more than enough time for all that later. The first few weeks of your baby's life are extremely special and you will never regret having spent the extra time to nurture and bond with your baby.