you have a Girlfriendbut you're inlove with somebody elsebut no matter what you doyou cannot leave this girlso what should you do?you love your girlfriend..but you're inlove with sombodywhat should you do?

hmmm...the problem is not that quite easy to solve...look on the two sides of the story...u r in a relationship but then u fell inlove with someone else....if ul leave ur gf and choose that SOMEBODY,will it really make u happy??will it makes sense??but then consider also that SOMEBODY....is she making u complete??does she brighten up ur day??is she there when u need her the most??does her laughter makes u happy??THE ANSWER IS....think of the future...who u really want to be with...forget the possibility that u myt hurt someone else in the processcoz u cant change it and it will really happen...sometimes you have to break someones heartjust to be happywe are not perfect,,,JUST A PIECE OF ADVISEin the end when u think that u have to choose now on the optionsbe strongsay thank yousay sorrysay it in a nice waytell her that u really dont mean itit just happenask for friendshipand learn the art of letting go.....

as my motto says...you will never find perfection in me because what makes me human is my imperfections....

well, tama si bianne, isipin mo kung kanino ka talaga masaya..you really have to choose. try to imagine your future, to whom will you spend it?yes, i know that in choosing between your gf and that somebody will really be hard.both of these people are important to you that you don't want any of them to get hurt.but you must decide as soon as possible. pag tumagal mas masakit di ba?

the only solution here is just by being true.be true to yourself and be true to them.

what do i mean with this?

be true to yourself to whom you think you really love. sometimes, people tend to fool themselves.. they just accept what they see in front of them. "ay ganito kasi sya kaya dapat sya.. ay kasi pag sya ganyan eh.. sabi kasi nila ganito.." don't be blinded by these..i know you are tired of this cliche, "follow your heart".. but it's true. just be true to your heart, listen to what your heart is saying and go for it. to whom are you really happy with?

and most importantly be true to them. you have to tell them what's their position in your life, who they really are to you. both of these people deserve to know the truth, may the truth hurt them or not.. truth hurts and pain is inevitable. yet, once you understand things, slowly you will be able to accept it.. understanding leads to acceptance and only with acceptance can there be recovery. i am sure that the both of them will understand you if they really do love you. if that girl you didn't choose love you enough, she will truly understand, that she wants what is best for you, to what makes you happy.. letting go is also a way of loving.