I am just starting the process to change but it would be nice to find the spot to slip my unwanted stuff between my legs to but have not been able to find that spot yet any suggestions on finding it would be very help full

I do not tape any more and I tuck every day all day I just use a tight pair of spandex panties no pain and very smooth and I wear really tight skirts and really tight jean shorts and nothing shows ever I live full time female

I've been practising using a gaff and I've been finding that it works OK most of the time (still feels a bit odd, but after a while I forget about it), but if I cross my legs while sitting down it seems to knock them slightly out of place and starts hurting a lot when I sit. What am I doing wrong?

My question would be on what type of outfits you wouldn't need to do this with. I mean, if you use tight underwear or a similar method. I'm crossplaying as a Lolita and I know with a petticoat(?) your dress flares out a lot. Looking at pictures of Lolitas standing I can't tell whether or not it would ne noticeable if you try to cover it versus this thread here which is all about full concealment.

As weird as this will sound, I have yet to try any of this because it seems very uncomfortable and perhaps dangerous even, if your not sure what your doing and just stuffing it around. lol
(That wasn't the weird part by the way)

Uh, the part that sounds odd is that this technique seems like it would fail the moment you get "horny".
I mean, come on! We are at an Anime convention and there are pretty girls there. (Real girls)
I don't want to come off as some perverted creeper or something, but it IS a legitimate concern.

I've been practising using a gaff and I've been finding that it works OK most of the time (still feels a bit odd, but after a while I forget about it), but if I cross my legs while sitting down it seems to knock them slightly out of place and starts hurting a lot when I sit. What am I doing wrong?

Perhaps the gaff or other items you use to tuck aren't properly sized to your body? I can only guess. If it's every time you sit, it sounds like either a sizing issue, or technique issue. I use a gaff as well for fitted outfits, but I have a personal modified method for my body type and change it up pending the outfit I'm wearing.

I don't run into a "shifting issue" in any of them except for one, but that's because the outfit is a pain to wear in general. =p

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Originally Posted by Zegram_Ghart

My question would be on what type of outfits you wouldn't need to do this with. I mean, if you use tight underwear or a similar method. I'm crossplaying as a Lolita and I know with a petticoat(?) your dress flares out a lot. Looking at pictures of Lolitas standing I can't tell whether or not it would ne noticeable if you try to cover it versus this thread here which is all about full concealment.

Does anyone have any info or firsthand knowledge on this? Thanks.

Best way to go about this is to just do a trial run at home. Typically, you only need to for fitted or tight outfits, but even on looser ones it might be recommended. It's a case-by-case situation, so the best way to go about it is to do a trial run at home and see.

It's not painful. Just don't rush and don't press too hard. If you take your time, and are gentle, it may be a bit uncomfortable, but it doesn't hurt much. You get used to it, and after a while it's painless.
With a lot of costumes, though, it's the only way to do things. Just imagine wearing something really tight, you cross your legs, and your balls get crushed. This will keep that from happening.
Frankly, with the right breast padding and this technique, I could pull off looking like a girl in almost any swimsuit.

well maybe breaking it down into steps will help. First off you need to get your balls back up into their spots before puberty. this is whats hardest for most people. now if you feel around, right on either side of the base of the penis, there should be a little hole. this is where they fell when puberty started. so once youve found that, push them back through it.
Next, gently pull the ballsac back under your legs towards your rear. this will stop the balls from falling back down. After that, pull your penis back the same way you did with the scrotum. Then pull on a pair of underwear to keep it all in, preferably a size smaller then you normally would wear, as that will keep it in better. Geez that was awkward to type. Just keep trying, youll get it eventually, it just takes a while.