No matter how hard we try to deny it, our past affects who we are as women today. Letís focus on creating a new way of seeing relationships and being a single woman. Letís create the kind of belief systems we want in our adult lives now!

How you answer this question will dictate how you experience being alone. Being single can mean having an array of positive options to choose from Ė we can choose to take advantage of the freedom that comes with living alone and create a life uniquely our own.

How we view our pasts affects how we see ourselves presently. Focus on creating a new way of seeing relationships and a more positive way of being a single woman. Meditate on creating the kind of life you want to live now.

If you feel that you keep being disappointed with the people you are dating, take a step back from the situation and look at your Ďílistíí of expectations. Here are a few things you can do that will help you stay centered while making your decision.