Thursday, 15 January 2015

When you are young, people expect that you will be wild and crazy and doing anything and everything, you can never expect anything from someone young, their life can change fast. When you are older, sure you may still be wild and crazy, but you have an idea about whats wrong and whats right, especially when you have children, but SOME people out there actually continue to act like they are younger, meaning they focus more on themselves than their own child, and then wonder later on why their daughter or son is having such a bad attitude or seem to be making bad choices in life, BECAUSE YOU ARE! You are the parent, the one that your child look up to, even if it doesn't seem that way, you are their mom or dad, they see you as someone they should follow in some way, they read what your doing and maybe consciously or unctuously, they do what you would do. Some may say that they have raised their child one way but yet they are acting so selfish, going to casinos and spending a load of money, even to the point of bankruptcy, you are turning people against each other by begging for money, making other people in your family look as though they are not doing anything, when reality is, they are trying their best as hard as they possibly can do give you all that they can. These are the signs that something is seriously wrong, causing your own children to feel uncomfortable with themselves because of the way they were grown up, the way they were " raised ". and as such, they fall into a pit of depression, so deep that they lose themselves, because they hate what they are, but to them, its the only way they know how to live because of all that you have shown them.

The point of all this, when you get older, and when you have kids, especially when you have kids, you have to turn your life around, do whats best for your kids, from when they are born till the day they die, even if it means you lose all the parties and wild fun crazy life, if your kids will have a brighter future because of that, isn't that more important? anything before that is up to you, but when you have kids, they should come first, if not, they will get depressed and you will live your life wondering and feeling disappointed in yourself ( hopefully ) as to why you have become what you have become, and what you have made your kids turn out to be. WAKE UP!

Friday, 2 January 2015

In this world, we have to live with those that call us various words, that do some horrific things to people that they say they love, that we with people that judge us and cheat and walk out on us just cause of who or what you are. Those type of people can make us feel so lost, wondering " why me ", we keep hoping that these people will change and we keep forgiving them time and time again, and they continue time and time again almost as if their sorries mean nothing, like all this time they had an agenda, and only had one thing on their mind, which was to punish, cheat, abuse, control, or worse. Some people keep hoping that things will change, and keep everything inside so much that even when the person is finally gone, we start feeling like we have lost something in us, For example, your abusive partner leaves, but you are being taken advantaged of by others, and now you are hoping that they will change, you keep forgiving them, even when they do anything they can to take advantage of you. It can even get to the point where you are labeled as something that you believe and know deep down that your not.

You should never change yourself for or cause of others, but knowing how much is going on in your life, you may have to just turn your life around, take a break from those places where you feel so bad about yourself later, and take the time to really think about yourself, what matters to you, think about your health, your well being, and what you can do to feel more comfortable about yourself. Think of your past experiences as just that, an experience, maybe you went to parties and all those crazy places and had a life like some may not other be able to experience or want to, but you got to experience things, then have seen the dark side to that type of life, or have had people stalk or abuse you at those places that now you are wondering if they will be waiting for you there, is that really what you want your future to be like, or do you want something way different than that? Think about yourself and keep yourself safe and comfortable and happy, and never lose yourself to them, take what really matters the most to you, and do what you got to do to have what truly matters to you.

The title pretty much says it all, but I will go into more detail.....

You once felt so close to something that matters so much, you believed in something so much, or someone so much, you had what you have always waited right beside you, but you let the words around you change it. People will always judge anything and everything you do, some people don't like others and would judge you for it, or maybe they like the person and would manipulate you to leave them so they get the person or thing. You have said you dreamed for it for so long, and once its there, you let the talk push away what could have been, People who are like, who just change things and move on or even cheat on others are known as liars, or worse, but the truth is they never was as close as they say they were, how could one believe in something so long, then just walk away from something, The only exception that is ok is that one chose to focus more on career goals and getting a job and so on and having a future, or you have a real personal situation, If you have no worries about that, and have all the time you want to have what matters to you, what stopping you, nothing, makes you look way worse. Giving up on something that is right in front of you shows that all of that years was for nothing and it was never anything to you, you never cared about the person or the thing if you would change your feelings that you had for so long for something for years, and then left.

The part above was a little personal, but it was to explain how giving up on anything, a relationship, on people, on stuff, can make you look bad, dreaming for something then dropping it like it was nothing, proof that you never cared for it like you said. Now with me and helping people stuff, I never stopped, I still reach out and talk to people help people, and I still really want to do more, but I am focusing a bit more on having a future, meaning a job right now.

Never let anyone change what matters to you, know yourself, think for yourself, think about yourself first, know what matters, what you yourself want in life, a good career, someone who you love and who loves you, or whatever really matters to you, Cause if you don't and you keep listening to others talking negative about your choices, or those who try to change you, you will keep losing things more and more and keep wondering why. THINK ABOUT YOURSELF AND TAKE WHAT MATTERS TO YOU!