tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6160496610702778759Mon, 08 Jan 2018 00:08:37 +0000FuntravelPersonalWeekendPlacesInspirationAdventureFriendsvacationHolidaysPeopleCheck-InFoodFamilyrobbieEurope Trip 2012FashionWanderlustDaydreamsPhotographyContentDesignDecorSummerWeatherHappy BirthdaySan JoseWorkHomeWhat to WhereHumorSchoolSweetsEntertainmentMusicArtEuropeSportsWeddingsFallHealthLove LettersOlympicsWordsZoeyAirportBeautyIrelandLoveBooksFarmers MarketGuessing GameHalloweenHot ChocolateJewelryMapsNailsPinspirationSleepBucket ListFarm DriveHelpIllnessMarketingMoviesPassionRoad TripSarahTechnologyTelevisionAce HotelBabyBalletCancerFlowersGardenKidletsNew YorkPortlandPregnancyPublic RadioSanta CruzShaver LakeWish ListShort Story LongWhy get straight to the point when you can enjoy the details.http://www.stacyernst.com/noreply@blogger.com (Stacy)Blogger323125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6160496610702778759.post-171008109635279437Thu, 30 Jul 2015 05:35:00 +00002015-08-03T20:40:44.357-07:00CancerFriendsPersonalThe Grief That Follows CancerDo you read <a href="http://www.quietlikehorses.com/" target="_blank">QuietLikeHorses</a>? If not, you should. It is so beautifully written and raw. My dear friend, Sobrina, writes about the beauty and inspiration life throws our way, as well as the heartbreaking sadness that life thrusts into our lives.<br /><br />Sobrina lost her husband, Alan, just over two months ago. They are both dear friends of mine and I have been processing his death alongside her. In absolutely no way am I living through it in the same way (honestly, I cannot imagine what the tremendous grief she is experiencing must feel like), but I am doing my best to love and support her, while allowing her to really experience her sadness. As much as I want to take her pain away and "fix" this for her, I cannot.<br /><br />I've been trying to read as much as I can about the grieving process in hopes of being a better support to my friend. I came across an <a href="http://www.nytimes.com/2014/01/21/opinion/brooks-the-art-of-presence.html?_r=0" target="_blank">article</a> written for the New York Times by David Brooks. In it, he describes lessons that can be learned by one family's trauma. The part that really stuck out to me was when he talked about the difference between people who are fire fighters and builders in a time of tragedy.&nbsp;"Firefighters drop everything and arrive at the moment of crisis. Builders are there for years and years, walking alongside as the victims live out in the world... Be a builder."<br /><br />I've been wrestling with this idea for the last few weeks. I think I make a great fire fighter for the people around me. I know how to be sensitive to needs in crisis situations, I am not afraid to step up when people can't find it in themselves to make decisions, and I'm not afraid to be a buffer for awkward conversations or relaying messages. Doing this allows me a tangible way to support someone I love. But am I builder? Do I have it in me? I sure hope so.<br /><br />It's not a new thing for me to live life next to people; we've modeled our church community in that way for the last several years. However, I've never had to see a friend through this kind of tragedy. It's not that I'm finding myself tempted to run away from this kind of commitment, I'm afraid I won't be good at it. How do you know what to say? Is there ever a "right" thing to say? "No. Because nothing you say can bring Alan back. You just need to be present and love Sobrina in that presence."<br /><br />Those are the words a dear friend, and mentor, provided when I expressed my doubts. She's right. There's nothing I can do to take away her pain, speed up her process, or bring Alan back. That's scary. It's scary to think about helping my friend in a way that is so unfamiliar and undefined. Do I know what I'm doing? No. All I can do is love my friend and not be afraid of what Alan's memory brings.<br /><br />Man, I sure do miss my friend though.<br /><br /><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-OAbwSY1cMg4/Vbm48dMVFiI/AAAAAAAADiY/sU9xOhG9aFE/s1600/Alan.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="400" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-OAbwSY1cMg4/Vbm48dMVFiI/AAAAAAAADiY/sU9xOhG9aFE/s400/Alan.JPG" width="400" /></a></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><br /></div><i><span style="font-size: x-small;">(Photo of Alan by QuietLikeHorses)</span></i>http://www.stacyernst.com/2015/07/the-grief-that-follows-cancer.htmlnoreply@blogger.com (Stacy)1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6160496610702778759.post-8613787684896327701Thu, 03 Oct 2013 06:04:00 +00002013-10-09T18:07:08.241-07:00Check-InPersonalCan't Let GoHello. It's been a while; I realize that. When friends ask why I haven't written anything in months, I describe my feelings around this blogging break as a "divorce" from the blogging world. I haven't written a post, I haven't been reading other blogs (regularly), I haven't been checking out my stats, nothing. Yes, my break was sudden and fairly extreme, but I'm not sure that I can call it a divorce. A divorce is ugly, painful, and final. While I experienced disappointment and frustration I'm not ready to say that I am done forever.<br /><br />What does this mean? Who knows! I sure don't. I'm not ready to commit to updating regularly and I still have no idea what my "niche" would be. Maybe I do need to throw in the towel and say goodbye.<br /><br />I'll think about some things and keep you posted. ;)http://www.stacyernst.com/2013/10/cant-let-go.htmlnoreply@blogger.com (Stacy)1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6160496610702778759.post-2542959463213795711Fri, 15 Mar 2013 11:00:00 +00002013-03-15T04:00:06.669-07:00DaydreamsFuntravelvacationWanderlustWeekendTravel Fantasy – Tropical BeachesThis week I’ve been sharing a lot of what I’ve been wrestling with the past couple of months, and I really appreciate the encouraging comments I’ve received! As we head into the weekend, I thought it would be fun to lighten things up a bit around here. <br /><br /> Although the weather in my area has been unseasonably warm, I have been absolutely daydreaming about being on a tropical beach all winter. I want to feel the toasty sun on my skin and dive into warm water breaking on the shore. My dad lived on the island of Maui for almost 6 years and I loved being able to visit him. All I really had to worry about was my plane ticket and how much I should pack. He lives much closer now (which I’m happy about), but I’ll always cherish that time and the experiences I was able to have while he was there. <br /><br /><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-yYjPU3WVTAM/UUKjLjH1HzI/AAAAAAAADg8/I8fwBhQD3zk/s1600/Tropical-Daydreams.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-yYjPU3WVTAM/UUKjLjH1HzI/AAAAAAAADg8/I8fwBhQD3zk/s1600/Tropical-Daydreams.jpg" /></a></div><div><br /> So, if you want to make my dreams come true. Buy my a roundtrip ticket to a beautiful island paradise, set me up in a sweet ocean view room, and send me down to the sand to watch the sunset. We’ll be friends forever. ;) <br /><br /> <b>What travel fantasies are you having a hard time kicking? </b></div>http://www.stacyernst.com/2013/03/travel-fantasy-tropical-beaches.htmlnoreply@blogger.com (Stacy)1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6160496610702778759.post-2642255000579717143Wed, 13 Mar 2013 11:00:00 +00002013-03-13T04:00:01.441-07:00Check-InPersonalMotherhood GuiltMotherhood guilt has already started to settle in for me. I feel like I haven’t been documenting my pregnancy enough. I have a personal journal that I have (inconsistently) been writing notes and experiences in, but I feel like it’s not enough. There’s no week-by-week record of how my body is changing or how I am feeling. A part of me really wants to have that, but another part of me realizes that that is just not who I am (remember the <a href="http://www.stacyernst.com/2012/01/early-to-bed-early-to-rise.html" target="_blank">sunrise example</a>). <br /><br /> I also have this weird hesitation about being classified as a “mommy blogger”. I think being a mom automatically places me in this amazing group of women who have lead the way before me. However, I also realize that there are tons of women who are not yet in that season of life, or desperately want to be but haven’t had the opportunity. I have been reluctant to post motherhood-focused topics because I don’t want to isolate those without children. <br /> <br /><div>I hear that this penchant for guilt only continues as your children grow. One unfortunate quote that someone said to me was, “A mother is only as happy as her unhappiest child”. What a bummer that is! However, I completely understand where that comes from. My child is not even in this world yet and I already want what is best for him; I can only imagine what it will be once he is actually here, making life-altering decisions. <br /><br /> <b>How do you deal with guilt (of any kind)? What do you think about “mommy bloggers”? </b></div>http://www.stacyernst.com/2013/03/motherhood-guilt.htmlnoreply@blogger.com (Stacy)2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6160496610702778759.post-4427336203779600549Mon, 11 Mar 2013 11:00:00 +00002013-03-11T04:00:08.714-07:00Check-InPeoplePersonalMy Trouble with BloggingIt's obvious that I haven't been posting much here on the blog. There are many reasons for that (some of which I've already shared): <br /><ul><li>Lack of motivation&nbsp;</li><li>Lack of support&nbsp;</li><li>Unclear vision&nbsp;</li><li>Guilt&nbsp;</li></ul><div>Today I want share some of my thoughts and feelings on my lack of motivation and support.&nbsp;</div><div><br /></div><div>Blogging can be a tricky world because the blogging community has built a reputation as being super friendly and supportive, but it's really hard to break into that community. Sure, there are bloggers all over the world who are friends with one another but it’s almost as though they’ve reached their friend capacity. <br /><br /> Maybe it's me, maybe I'm not participating in the community with a genuine blog focused attitude. I mean, I love to read blogs, but many of them are already well established and successful in the field.&nbsp;Becoming friends with me doesn't necessarily matter&nbsp;because they've already made a name for themselves, have thousands of followers, and created a trusted circle of creatives around them.&nbsp;</div><div> <br />This leads me to the question, should I be searching for more up and coming, unknown blogs out there? Yes, I definitely should. But where to start? How do I find them? Do I do random topic searches? Should I look to see who other blogs are linking to? How do people find me? A person only has so many hours in a day to focus on so many people and posts.&nbsp;</div><div><br /></div><div>When Vine came out (a new social media platform),&nbsp;Bri Emery of Designlovefest said that she wanted to try it, but when you add a new platform a previous one suffers. I think that this is also true of the blogs you read. I think people reach a capacity for how much they can read and take in. When they find a new blog to follow, it usually distracts them from a previous one. <br /><br /> Finally, I wonder if blogging is on the way out. When you’re in the blogging community, it is huge. When you’re outside of it (or trying to tell friends and family about it), it is actually feels pretty tiny. If it is running it’s course, then what will take it’s place? What platform or tool will take it’s place? <br /><br />I feel a little bit like a negative nancy with this post.&nbsp;This community needs positivity and encouragement, and my goal is not to take away from that. I’ve been in a blogging slump and I’m trying to figure out if I should throw in the towel or work through this time in order to come out on the other side.</div>http://www.stacyernst.com/2013/03/my-trouble-with-blogging.htmlnoreply@blogger.com (Stacy)3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6160496610702778759.post-8086834046738965304Tue, 12 Feb 2013 12:00:00 +00002013-02-12T04:00:05.816-08:00FoodInspirationPersonalBaking Bread - Help! <div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-pDRGxK1yhow/URnIXliTPEI/AAAAAAAADfY/QDi5LrY6LE0/s1600/Bread-1.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-pDRGxK1yhow/URnIXliTPEI/AAAAAAAADfY/QDi5LrY6LE0/s1600/Bread-1.jpg" /></a></div><br />I've decided I would like to venture into the world of bread baking. I've never done it before and, quite frankly, the idea intimidates me. I think I'm nervous because so much precision is required. What if I put too much water in? Or don't knead the dough long enough? Ugh, these are all questions that have kept me out of the game until now.<br /><br /><a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-EXSzbEBAaks/URnIXVSqKnI/AAAAAAAADfQ/5HsNz39Xswc/s1600/Bread-2.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-EXSzbEBAaks/URnIXVSqKnI/AAAAAAAADfQ/5HsNz39Xswc/s1600/Bread-2.jpg" /></a><br /><br />I have faced intimidation before (it took me weeks to get over the idea of <a href="http://www.stacyernst.com/2011/09/rainy-weather-food.html" target="_blank">roasting tomatoes</a>), but I can't let it stop me anymore.&nbsp;As I mentioned <a href="http://www.stacyernst.com/2013/02/vanilla-buttercream-to-rescue.html" target="_blank">last week</a>, preparing different meals more regularly has really helped me feel more confident, even when I mess up. It's with this new found confidence that I'll be trying something new, but I would still LOVE your tips, suggestions, recommendations, or warnings. :)<br /><br /><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: x-small;">(Photos from <a href="http://www.quietlikehorses.com/" target="_blank">Quiet Like Horses</a>. Sobrina makes bread making look like nothing! Check out her recipes <a href="http://www.quietlikehorses.com/search?q=bread" target="_blank">here</a>)</span>http://www.stacyernst.com/2013/02/baking-bread-help.htmlnoreply@blogger.com (Stacy)2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6160496610702778759.post-1750020782570887753Thu, 07 Feb 2013 12:00:00 +00002013-02-07T04:00:13.916-08:00FoodPinspirationSweetsVanilla Buttercream to the Rescue! <div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;">Each week our church family comes together, makes a meal together, and shares a discussion over that meal. Each person signs up for a different course or ingredient so that the burden doesn't fall onto one person.&nbsp;It's possible because we're a small group that meets in a house (also, we're part of a larger church network for anyone who may be feeling freaked out by the idea of a "home church" :). However, the point of this post is not about my church or it's logistics, rather it is about food.&nbsp;</div><br />Since we've begun making a meal together each week, my confidence in the kitchen has grown. We've had food themes that push me outside of my comfort zone; sometimes I fail and sometimes I nail it. Luckily for me, everyone is gracious and loving in my attempts at new dishes.<br /><br /><a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-YliA91Op9t4/URNrHNNghrI/AAAAAAAADdM/4qJLL4mP49Q/s1600/Buttercream-3.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-YliA91Op9t4/URNrHNNghrI/AAAAAAAADdM/4qJLL4mP49Q/s1600/Buttercream-3.jpg" /></a><br /><br />This confidence has encouraged me to branch out and try all kinds of recipes. I found a fun homemade Ding Dong recipe via <a href="http://pinterest.com/sernst/" target="_blank">Pinterest</a> and wanted to give it a shot. I followed the directions well, but ran into some <i>serious</i> trouble with the whipped cream filling. I just could NOT get it to whip and create "stiff peaks". In fact, I was able to achieve a nice top layer of whipped cream, but hidden beneath was a liquidy bummer.<br /><br /><a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-2N50O6xGPBM/URNrH5u3ZVI/AAAAAAAADdc/bhJ8GrVqhXs/s1600/Buttercream-4.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-2N50O6xGPBM/URNrH5u3ZVI/AAAAAAAADdc/bhJ8GrVqhXs/s1600/Buttercream-4.jpg" /></a><br /><br />After a brief emotional breakdown (I blame pregnancy hormones), I resolved to find a solution. This lead me to buttercream frosting. My friend Ali has a super delicious homemade recipe and it was the first thing that came to my mind. Hers is pretty fancy (she is a professional baker, after all), so I Googled, "vanilla buttercream frosting". A simple recipe from <a href="http://savorysweetlife.com/" target="_blank">Savory Sweet Life</a> came up and I had all of the ingredients in my pantry (bonus!).<br /><br /><a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-W3JNO5JAAS4/URNrITiVALI/AAAAAAAADdk/rNG1kkecsTc/s1600/Buttercream-2.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-W3JNO5JAAS4/URNrITiVALI/AAAAAAAADdk/rNG1kkecsTc/s1600/Buttercream-2.jpg" /></a><br /><br />The frosting was SUPER easy to make and it was really delicious. I was so satisfied with the way that it turned out, and stoked by the fact that my Ding Dongs were not ruined! I filled my little cocoa cakes with this buttery goodness and proceeded to cover them with chocolate. More than just making a yummy dessert, I'm proud that I was able to overcome adversity in the kitchen. It may sound lame, but I thought I wasn't going to be able to save the cakes when the cream wouldn't whip.<br /><br /><a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-dApOuimiyCc/URNrHYBOQjI/AAAAAAAADdU/ucpE360rhSg/s1600/Buttercream-1.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-dApOuimiyCc/URNrHYBOQjI/AAAAAAAADdU/ucpE360rhSg/s1600/Buttercream-1.jpg" /></a><br /><br />Here are some things I learned from both recipes:<br /><br /><b><u><a href="http://thediva-dish.com/uncategorized/homemade-diva-ding-dongs/" target="_blank">Ding Dongs</a></u></b><br /><ul><li>I feel like there was a funny after taste and I can't tell if it was the pureed dates or if my vanilla extract went bad.&nbsp;</li><li>Make sure you have ALL of the ingredients before you begin. I had to go to the store several times because I missed a few things.</li></ul><br /><b><u><a href="http://savorysweetlife.com/2010/03/buttercream-frosting/" target="_blank">Buttercream Frosting</a></u></b><br /><ul><li>Follow the instructions - they are easy and it pays off in the end.&nbsp;</li></ul><br /><i>You can find the full recipes and all photos from the links above.&nbsp;</i>http://www.stacyernst.com/2013/02/vanilla-buttercream-to-rescue.htmlnoreply@blogger.com (Stacy)0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6160496610702778759.post-8509129921263022569Tue, 05 Feb 2013 12:00:00 +00002013-02-05T04:00:16.898-08:00BabyCheck-InPersonalPregnancyThe News! <div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-_u3ZW3HsZBE/URDCYE9MW6I/AAAAAAAADXE/eYQ4EkbewI0/s1600/Baby-Bump-3M.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-_u3ZW3HsZBE/URDCYE9MW6I/AAAAAAAADXE/eYQ4EkbewI0/s1600/Baby-Bump-3M.jpg" /></a></div><br />Do I look bloated in the picture above? Well, I'm not! <b>I'm pregnant!!!</b><br /><br />Rob and I are beyond stoked for our sweet potato-sized lovie, set to arrive in July. I am currently 18 weeks pregnant (about 4 months) and I feel great. Sometimes I still can't believe that it's happening, and sometimes I'm even afraid of what my life is going to be like once the baby is born. Maybe that's a part of the reason you're pregnant for 9 months? To get used to the idea?&nbsp;Who knows!<br /><br />What has been really amazing for me is to see how quickly my body began changing to prepare for this little life. Almost right away, I noticed subtle changes in how my body carried itself and how I was feeling (mainly exhausted). It really is incredible what our bodies can do.<br /><br />As my pregnancy progresses, expect some updates on here. I haven't been posting regularly (which is obvious), so I don't want to commit to daily posts. Saying that, I do want some kind of record of my experience to share with my kidlet later on in life.<br /><br />So, be sure to stop by!<br /><br /><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: x-small;"><i>(Photo taken by <a href="http://danielgarciaphotography.com/welcome/" target="_blank">Daniel Garcia</a> at 14 weeks)&nbsp;</i></span>http://www.stacyernst.com/2013/02/the-news.htmlnoreply@blogger.com (Stacy)0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6160496610702778759.post-3421683147780688706Fri, 11 Jan 2013 07:20:00 +00002013-01-10T23:20:16.292-08:00FamilyHappy BirthdayHappy Birthday, Mom!<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-53Us22Om7k0/UO-8iiYVyaI/AAAAAAAADVg/n8fdccLy2bc/s1600/Family.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-53Us22Om7k0/UO-8iiYVyaI/AAAAAAAADVg/n8fdccLy2bc/s1600/Family.jpg" /></a></div><br />Mama-bear, I love you. You are extremely generous and loving. I admire how hard you work to make us all happy and to make sure we are taken care of. I hope you are spoiled rotten today. Happy birthday!<br /><br /><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: x-small;"><i>(Photo taken in Disneyland in 2010)</i></span>http://www.stacyernst.com/2013/01/happy-birthday-mom.htmlnoreply@blogger.com (Stacy)0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6160496610702778759.post-1960005658406588244Thu, 10 Jan 2013 01:52:00 +00002013-01-09T17:52:53.207-08:00BeautyInspirationPhotographyPowerful, Yet Peaceful<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-A3WehIHDCFg/UO4eVkTUbyI/AAAAAAAADT8/4mssJWBkcdk/s1600/Powerful+Fin.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-A3WehIHDCFg/UO4eVkTUbyI/AAAAAAAADT8/4mssJWBkcdk/s1600/Powerful+Fin.jpg" /></a></div><br /><div style="text-align: center;">I love how powerful, yet peaceful this image is.&nbsp;</div><br /><b>How are you today?</b> I'm fighting a cold, listening to some <a href="http://boniver.org/" target="_blank">rainy day music</a> on this very gray day, and catching up on some to-do items (I sure do love checking them off!). A good friend is taking me to dinner for my birthday tonight. Things are good for me and that feels really nice.<br /><br /><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: x-small;"><i>(Photo courtesy of </i></span><a href="http://awelltraveledwoman.tumblr.com/post/39473008662" target="_blank"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: x-small;"><i>A Well Traveled Woman</i></span></a><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: x-small;"><i>)</i></span>http://www.stacyernst.com/2013/01/powerful-yet-peaceful.htmlnoreply@blogger.com (Stacy)0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6160496610702778759.post-7921879306330854381Mon, 07 Jan 2013 14:00:00 +00002013-01-07T06:00:01.091-08:00Happy BirthdayPersonalrobbieIt's My Birthday! <div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-lEHkZJwcZ3o/UOprYVQjmfI/AAAAAAAADSY/erBWnDROF5E/s1600/It's-my-birthday.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-lEHkZJwcZ3o/UOprYVQjmfI/AAAAAAAADSY/erBWnDROF5E/s1600/It's-my-birthday.jpg" /></a></div><br />I don't normally brag, but Toot Toot! It's my birthday! I'm 26 years old today and I don't feel any different. Actually, as I write this I'm fighting a cold and feeling a little groggy. Ha!<br /><br />As for as today's plans, Rob is taking me to dinner tonight. I haven't decided where I want to go yet. <b>Do you have any recommendations for the San Jose area?</b> What do you like to do to celebrate your birthday? Do you have any bday traditions?<br /><br /><i>p.s. I'm stoked to spend another year of my life with this dude. He's the best.&nbsp;</i><br /><i><br /></i><i><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: x-small;">(Photo taken in <a href="http://www.stacyernst.com/2012/08/malmo-sweden-europe-trip-2012.html" target="_blank">Sweden in 2012</a>)</span></i>http://www.stacyernst.com/2013/01/its-my-birthday.htmlnoreply@blogger.com (Stacy)2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6160496610702778759.post-9204664726612265302Thu, 03 Jan 2013 19:52:00 +00002013-01-03T11:52:37.721-08:00DaydreamsEuropeIrelandrobbietravelWanderlustDaydreaming<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;">I can't stop thinking about exploring a new place with my guy. Discovering street cafes, local music, and beautiful parks as we walk about a city. What city do I have in mind? One that requires a plane flight to get there. And that's all.</div><div class="" style="clear: both; text-align: left;"><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;"><a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-KIu6fulDoJE/UOXgbbPZcPI/AAAAAAAADN4/oROZiBc-u2I/s1600/Daydream-1.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-KIu6fulDoJE/UOXgbbPZcPI/AAAAAAAADN4/oROZiBc-u2I/s1600/Daydream-1.jpg" /></a></div><br /><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-eys-xQbzxDs/UOXfQJGoDPI/AAAAAAAADNY/IO01UZyxSe8/s1600/Daydream-2.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-eys-xQbzxDs/UOXfQJGoDPI/AAAAAAAADNY/IO01UZyxSe8/s1600/Daydream-2.jpg" /></a></div><br /><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-ncuOgPyb3lw/UOXfRD0SiQI/AAAAAAAADNk/re5tVMJxKo4/s1600/Daydream-3.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-ncuOgPyb3lw/UOXfRD0SiQI/AAAAAAAADNk/re5tVMJxKo4/s1600/Daydream-3.jpg" /></a></div><a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-8cvfzs0nXvI/UOXhTvjuOaI/AAAAAAAADPc/YlRC6xRKzM0/s1600/Daydream-4.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-8cvfzs0nXvI/UOXhTvjuOaI/AAAAAAAADPc/YlRC6xRKzM0/s1600/Daydream-4.jpg" /></a><br /><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"></div><b>What are you daydreaming about today?&nbsp;</b><br /><br /><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: x-small;"><i>(Photos taken in </i></span><a href="http://www.stacyernst.com/2011/10/ireland-2011.html" target="_blank"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: x-small;"><i>Ireland in 2011</i></span></a><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: x-small;"><i>)&nbsp;</i></span>http://www.stacyernst.com/2013/01/daydreaming.htmlnoreply@blogger.com (Stacy)0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6160496610702778759.post-4351452274220885410Tue, 01 Jan 2013 19:38:00 +00002013-01-01T11:38:04.031-08:00FriendsFunHolidaysPersonalNew Year, No Resolutions<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-nXnqfUv3O1k/UOM570nE7lI/AAAAAAAADKQ/41W2srbh8yo/s1600/NYE-2012.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-nXnqfUv3O1k/UOM570nE7lI/AAAAAAAADKQ/41W2srbh8yo/s1600/NYE-2012.jpg" /></a></div><br />I don't like making New Year's resolutions. I <a href="http://www.stacyernst.com/2012/01/im-back.html" target="_blank">never really have</a> and I doubt that I ever will. I feel like when you make resolutions at the start of the year you feel so guilty and stressed if you haven't completed them by the end of the year. That pressure is what makes me dislike New Year's in general. I hate feeling like I need to "ring in the new year right!" or "finish the old year strong!" What if I just want to stay in my comfy clothes, watch a movie, and go to bed early? Does that mean that the following year is going to stink? Nope.<br /><br />I don't want to seem like a complete scrooge. We do hang with friends, and we always have a good time. For example, last night we hung with a bunch of people for a fondue/ game night. I took on that Beer Cheddar cheese fondue and had no regrets. :)&nbsp;I just don't want to feel like the significance of an entire year rests on the shoulders of one night. If Rob and I don't have the perfect kiss, then that doesn't mean our marriage will be rocky, it just means that we missed the mark at that moment. If I don't have a killer party, it doesn't mean that the year is going to suck. It just means that it wasn't my best night.<br /><br />I don't know, maybe I am just scroogy. <b>How do you feel about New Year's and New Year's Eve?</b><br /><br /><i><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: x-small;">(Photo taken at our friend's fondue/ game night last night)</span></i>http://www.stacyernst.com/2013/01/new-year-no-resolutions.htmlnoreply@blogger.com (Stacy)0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6160496610702778759.post-2983314788776080308Mon, 31 Dec 2012 20:19:00 +00002012-12-31T12:19:41.298-08:00Check-InHolidaysPersonalAn Inadvertent Blogging Break<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-HbjYC6RHuXE/UOHyY6NqxSI/AAAAAAAADIw/T46CXexhwNE/s1600/Blooging-Break.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-HbjYC6RHuXE/UOHyY6NqxSI/AAAAAAAADIw/T46CXexhwNE/s1600/Blooging-Break.jpg" /></a></div><br />You may have noticed that things have been a bit quiet here the last couple of weeks. It turns out that I took a little bit of a blogging break. The holidays came up and there was lots to do, and I just let time slip away. This happened to me last year, so I think I should better prepare next time. :)<br /><br />I've also been using this break to think about the purpose of my blog and what I hope to accomplish with it. I began posting as a creative outlet from my 9-5 and as a place to express ideas I was wrestling with (anyone remember my turmoil over <a href="http://www.stacyernst.com/2011/10/big-decisions.html" target="_blank">grad school</a>?). I've been blogging for over a year now, but I feel like I need to have a clearer focus if I'm going to move forward. I don't want to post everyday out of obsessive-compulsive tendencies or guilt; I want it to be purposeful. Here is some of what I've been thinking about:<br /><ul><li>What do I want my blog to focus on (travel, life, design, food, anything and everything, etc.)?&nbsp;</li><li>What do I want my blog to accomplish?</li><ul><li>Do I want it to continue to be a creative outlet or do I want it to assist my career in some way?</li><li>What steps do I need to take to reach those goals?&nbsp;</li></ul><li>Is my blog continuing to be something that is fruitful and productive in my life or is it distracting me from other areas and relationships? &nbsp;&nbsp;</li></ul><div>Where will this introspection lead? I'm not sure, but I'll keep you posted.&nbsp;</div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: x-small;"><i>(Photo taken in </i></span><a href="http://www.stacyernst.com/2012/11/florence-italy-europe-trip-2012.html" target="_blank"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: x-small;"><i>Florence, Italy, 2012</i></span></a><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: x-small;"><i>)</i></span><br /><br /></div><div><i>p.s. Have a happy and safe New Year!&nbsp;</i></div>http://www.stacyernst.com/2012/12/an-inadvertent-blogging-break.htmlnoreply@blogger.com (Stacy)0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6160496610702778759.post-1178751026063674817Fri, 14 Dec 2012 14:00:00 +00002012-12-14T06:00:05.401-08:00FriendsHolidaysMusicWeekendA Fancy, Sing-Songy Weekend<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-TcWXaBtLgFQ/UMrQxE86MDI/AAAAAAAADHQ/9cb8W2gu2M4/s1600/Christmas-Carols.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-TcWXaBtLgFQ/UMrQxE86MDI/AAAAAAAADHQ/9cb8W2gu2M4/s1600/Christmas-Carols.jpg" /></a></div><br />This weekend I will be attending a fancy holiday party and I'm very excited to wear a super cute, black lace dress I got a couple of months ago. I've been waiting for the chance to wear and this is it! Then on Sunday, we are going to a convalescent home to sing Christmas carols through the halls. We did this last year and it was a blast. Not only do you get sing songs of the season, but seeing smiles on their sweet faces is absolutely priceless. My other hopes for the weekend: watch a Christmas movie and try a new recipe.<br /><br /><b>What are you doing this weekend? If you're in my area and are interested in caroling on Sunday, let me know! We'd love to have you join us. :)</b>http://www.stacyernst.com/2012/12/a-fancy-sing-songy-weekend.htmlnoreply@blogger.com (Stacy)1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6160496610702778759.post-8616483168854267035Thu, 13 Dec 2012 14:00:00 +00002012-12-13T06:00:06.392-08:00FriendsFunHumorRoller Derby NamesMy friend Jenny has an innate ability to come up with kick ass roller derby names. A couple of weeks ago I asked her to come up with a few for me and this is what she sent over...<br /><br /><b><i>Stacy Creech Ernst:</i></b><i><br />- Stace Invader<br />- Creech the Creep<br />- Ernst and Young Financial Investments<br />- Beyon-slay (because of your love for Beyonce, obviously)</i><br /><br />I think they are absolutely hysterical and number 1 and 4 are my favorites. Soon, the trend caught on and she has since created names for more of our friends...<br /><br /><b><i>Emily Atsatt:</i></b><i><br />- Emily Kickinson<br />- Em-Fatale<br />- Emilay-Her-Out<br />- The Eminator<br />- Eminent Threat<br />- Em-Bot&nbsp;</i><br /><br /><b><i>Shannon Renfro:&nbsp;</i></b><i><br />- Shan-Bam-Thank-You-Ma'am<br />- Renfro Your Life<br />- Shenanigans (or Shenaniguns)<br />- Shank-You Ma'am<br />- Shanihilator<br />- Shan-Wow<br />- Shantastic</i><b><i><br /></i></b><br /><b><i>Alison LeClair:</i></b><i><br />- Alotta Trouble<br />- Alison Wonderslam<br />- LeClair Flare<br />- Ali-gator Smack-ya-later<br />- Al-Be-Back<br />- Ali-bama-Slamma<br />- The Aliminator<br />- Ali-vya Bleeding</i><br /><br />I absolutely love seeing them come up in my Facebook feed, so I asked if she would send over her archive. It's a real beauty I tell you...<br /><br /><div><b><i>Leah Lemau:</i></b><i><br />- Leahnardo DiPunchy<br />- Leahthal Injection<br />- Lemouth Puncher<br />- Leah Left-hook Lemau</i><b><i><br /></i></b><br /><b><i>Brittany Brown:</i></b><i><br />- Encyclopedia Britt-slammica<br />- Britt-knee Fears<br />- Britta Filter Water Purification System<br />- Brie-elzebub</i><b><i><br /></i></b><br /><b><i>Julie Deaver:</i></b><i><br />- Unruly Julie<br />- Kick-in-The Jules<br />- Ju-leave Me in Stitches<br />- Deaver the Cleaver</i><b><i><br /></i></b><br /><b><i>Carla Mills:</i></b><i><br />- AK-Shorty-7<br />- Cartel Milenio<br />- Carla Bruise-knee (like Carla Bruni)</i><b><i><br /></i></b><br /><b><i>Mary Hart:&nbsp;</i></b><i><br />- Mother Mary Mayhem<br />- Hart Attack<br />- Mary J. Bludgeon&nbsp;</i><br /><b><br /></b><i></i><b>Do you have the ability to come up with clever nicknames? If you could create a roller derby name for yourself, what would it be?&nbsp;</b></div>http://www.stacyernst.com/2012/12/roller-derby-names.htmlnoreply@blogger.com (Stacy)6tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6160496610702778759.post-8870252725334504921Thu, 13 Dec 2012 03:54:00 +00002012-12-12T19:54:40.900-08:00Check-InContentHolidaysPersonalWorkExcitement + Anxiety<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-a-jn8cSozMo/UMlQdgG3axI/AAAAAAAADFs/DKwJ-QMQRN0/s1600/DisneyChristmas.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-a-jn8cSozMo/UMlQdgG3axI/AAAAAAAADFs/DKwJ-QMQRN0/s1600/DisneyChristmas.jpg" /></a></div><br />Guys, this week has been a crazy mix of excitement and anxiety. I'm excited because I've made some great progress on a personal project, but so anxiety ridden because I have looming deadlines that <i>need</i> attention. For example, I haven't purchased a single Christmas gift. Eekkk! I have less than 12 days to make that happen and I'm trying to be budget conscious this year. <b>Any recommendations?</b> I would LOVE to hear some. Mix that in with <a href="http://content-magazine.com/welcome/" target="_blank">Content</a> deadlines and holiday festivities, and we have ourselves a great (read: sweat inducing) time!<br /><br />Back to the excitement. Although my poor time management has made me sweaty, it really is a great time of year. Pretty white lights everywhere, people put a priority on spending time with one another, and good food as the centerpiece at every function. I'm absolutely thrilled that my <a href="http://www.stacyernst.com/2011/11/pittsburg-pa.html" target="_blank">best friend</a> will be home in just over a week, and I'm loving the fact that Christmas carols are being sung everywhere. These are the things I need to remember as I'm worrying about a long list of to-dos.<br /><br /><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: x-small;"><i>(Photo take at </i></span><a href="http://www.stacyernst.com/2012/01/disney-world-christmas-2011.html" target="_blank"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: x-small;"><i>DisneyWorld</i></span></a><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: x-small;"><i> last Christmas)</i></span>http://www.stacyernst.com/2012/12/excitement-anxiety.htmlnoreply@blogger.com (Stacy)1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6160496610702778759.post-601842399799526439Mon, 10 Dec 2012 14:00:00 +00002012-12-10T06:00:00.682-08:00AirporttravelvacationPacking for A Plane<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-vqD6II7VDpM/UMGnp4EoSdI/AAAAAAAADEM/QDEp6DYJZ7Y/s1600/Airplane-Must-Haves.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-vqD6II7VDpM/UMGnp4EoSdI/AAAAAAAADEM/QDEp6DYJZ7Y/s1600/Airplane-Must-Haves.jpg" /></a></div><div><br /></div>Rob and I will not be travelling far this holiday season. We’re lucky enough to have family live nearby, so we only have to spend minimal time in the car. Saying that, I realize this time of year can be mayhem in airports, train stations, and highways across the world.<br /><br />Do you have to board a plane to see family this year? If so, what will you be bringing with you for your trip? Here is my go-to list of must haves for a plane ride:<br /><ul><li><b>Magazines</b> – Trashy (People or Us), home/ life (Real Simple), or cooking (Bon Appétit) work wonders to distract me from recycled air, bumpy turbulence, and tight quarters.&nbsp;</li><li><b>Music</b> – An iPod, mp3 player, or mix tapes of some kind are an absolute must.&nbsp;</li><li><b>Reading</b> – For longer flights, I need more serious reading by the time I finish flipping through my mags.&nbsp;</li><li><b>Warmth</b> – I always, ALWAYS recommend packing a sweater (and socks if you’re serious) on a plane. It is absolutely impossible to find a common temperature for that many people, so it seems that they err on the side of frigid.&nbsp;</li><li><b>Security</b> – I don’t actually have a security type item. I wanted to include this on the list because I have a friend that has to bring her “feely” that she rubs between her fingers as the plane is taking off and landing. If you’re a nervous flyer, this would be absolutely necessary.&nbsp;</li></ul><b>Even if you are not flying this year, what are your plane ride must haves? Is there anything you can’t live without while flying?</b><div><br /></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: x-small;"><i>(Photo taken by my friend Sarah, as we were leaving for our </i></span><a href="http://www.stacyernst.com/search?q=europe+2012" target="_blank"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: x-small;"><i>Euro Trip 2012</i></span></a><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: x-small;"><i>)</i></span></div>http://www.stacyernst.com/2012/12/packing-for-plane.htmlnoreply@blogger.com (Stacy)1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6160496610702778759.post-7485317090364019499Fri, 07 Dec 2012 17:00:00 +00002012-12-07T09:00:06.680-08:00FriendsFunHolidaysSan JoseWeekendHave a Jolly Weekend! <div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-vgUdiAY6l20/UMGigWt-Y3I/AAAAAAAADCs/ZcPjKVQuEz8/s1600/CINTP.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-vgUdiAY6l20/UMGigWt-Y3I/AAAAAAAADCs/ZcPjKVQuEz8/s1600/CINTP.jpg" /></a></div><div><br /></div>What are you up to this weekend? We’re headed to Christmas in the Park in downtown San Jose with friends. We’re not only going to be enjoying the holiday spirit, we’ll be celebrating our friend, Jesse’s, birthday (Happy Birthday Jesse!). Rob really likes Christmas in the Park, and while I think it’s fun, I don’t think I love it as much as him. If I’m honest with myself, I think I’m most looking forward to ordering a jumbo hot chocolate (it’s the sweet things in life) and hanging out with friends (we really do have awesome friends).<br /><br /><b>Do you have any holiday related activities this weekend? Have you started your shopping, or are you one of those impressive individuals that is already done?</b> I haven’t even started yet, ha!<div><br /></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: x-small;"><i>(Photo found </i></span><a href="http://www.flickriver.com/photos/vsolanoy/popular-interesting/" target="_blank"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: x-small;"><i>here</i></span></a><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: x-small;"><i>)</i></span></div>http://www.stacyernst.com/2012/12/have-jolly-weekend.htmlnoreply@blogger.com (Stacy)0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6160496610702778759.post-3892519975029963971Fri, 07 Dec 2012 07:41:00 +00002012-12-06T23:41:45.594-08:00Check-InFunHolidaysMusicPersonalForget Me, Not! No, I haven't forgotten about this wonderful place I like to call my blog. I had a couple of last minute deadlines come up and had to push those into priority. I appreciate your understanding and am excited for some posts I have lined up for next week. I hope you had a rad Thursday and I leave you with this...<br /><br /><iframe allowfullscreen="allowfullscreen" frameborder="0" height="281" src="http://www.youtube.com/embed/E8gmARGvPlI" width="500"></iframe><br /><br /><b>Because who doesn't love a heartbroken, beach blonde George Michael?</b> (his face at 1:57 is a real gem)<br /><br />p.s. I love that his love interest is a brunette!http://www.stacyernst.com/2012/12/forget-me-not.htmlnoreply@blogger.com (Stacy)0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6160496610702778759.post-5613500785675572918Tue, 04 Dec 2012 13:30:00 +00002012-12-04T05:30:03.507-08:00InspirationPhotographyPinspirationPinspiration / 02<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"></div><div style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; text-align: left;">This week's Pinspiration collection includes dramatic weather, a fun travel poster, awesome navy blue nails, and more! I hope you enjoy...</div><br /><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-oMywW69bFTo/UL2qDIE22vI/AAAAAAAADAs/GDSZefN6hlI/s1600/Pinspiration-02A.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-oMywW69bFTo/UL2qDIE22vI/AAAAAAAADAs/GDSZefN6hlI/s1600/Pinspiration-02A.jpg" /></a></div><br /><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-SzDHbLEprxM/UL2qD-CD1AI/AAAAAAAADA0/uZY5Xco-Uis/s1600/Pinspiration-02B.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-SzDHbLEprxM/UL2qD-CD1AI/AAAAAAAADA0/uZY5Xco-Uis/s1600/Pinspiration-02B.jpg" /></a></div><br /><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-gOVguZpoOd8/UL2qENDyTkI/AAAAAAAADA8/0LBaeBTL8vE/s1600/Pinspiration-02C.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-gOVguZpoOd8/UL2qENDyTkI/AAAAAAAADA8/0LBaeBTL8vE/s1600/Pinspiration-02C.jpg" /></a></div><br /><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-hWI28WVlXmQ/UL2qE2wGi8I/AAAAAAAADBE/bH0rEIJiMy8/s1600/Pinspiration-02D.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-hWI28WVlXmQ/UL2qE2wGi8I/AAAAAAAADBE/bH0rEIJiMy8/s1600/Pinspiration-02D.jpg" /></a></div><br /><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-Vy1gyJE8AXY/UL2qGEK1LlI/AAAAAAAADBM/UG7YYLn1vIo/s1600/Pinspiration-02E.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-Vy1gyJE8AXY/UL2qGEK1LlI/AAAAAAAADBM/UG7YYLn1vIo/s1600/Pinspiration-02E.jpg" /></a></div><br /><div style="text-align: center;"><a href="http://pinterest.com/sernst/bags/" target="_blank">Bags</a> / <a href="http://pinterest.com/sernst/travel/" target="_blank">Travel</a> / <a href="http://pinterest.com/sernst/photography/" target="_blank">Photography</a> / <a href="http://pinterest.com/sernst/weather/" target="_blank">Weather</a> / <a href="http://pinterest.com/sernst/fashion/" target="_blank">Fashion</a></div><br /><b>What is inspiring you this week?</b>http://www.stacyernst.com/2012/12/pinspiration-02.htmlnoreply@blogger.com (Stacy)0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6160496610702778759.post-967154449845443823Mon, 03 Dec 2012 12:00:00 +00002012-12-03T04:00:02.875-08:00PersonalWeekendA Relaxing Weekender<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-laCncqnbMG8/ULxf35bSNdI/AAAAAAAAC_M/RYVz-NJQsGs/s1600/Weekender.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-laCncqnbMG8/ULxf35bSNdI/AAAAAAAAC_M/RYVz-NJQsGs/s1600/Weekender.jpg" /></a></div><br />What kind of weekender are you? Do you like to relax the whole time, catch up on your to-do list, or pack your days full of activities? Rob and I usually pack our weekends full of activities, but I'm finding myself becoming more and more of a relaxer (or at least wanting to be one). It's like the weekend rolls around (especially Sundays) and I just want to chill, watch some <a href="http://www.stacyernst.com/2011/08/love-letters.html" target="_blank">Rick Steves</a>, and hang with my loves (Rob + Zoey). As I prepare to start work on Monday, my mind starts racing with blog post ideas, a game plan to tackle my weekly to-do list, and so many other things that would make me a better/ more organized person. :)<br /><br />I struggle with feeling like I should have done more, while enjoying my time of rest. Rationally, I know it makes sense to enjoy a time to relax, but the guilt still tries to creep in. Isn't it in our culture to always feel like we should do more? How do we kick that? I imagine it takes practice and confidence in our decision making, because if we are confident in our decisions, then we won't second guess ourselves.<br /><br /><b>How do you relax guilt-free? Or are you unable to as well?&nbsp;</b><br /><b></b><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: x-small;">(Photo taken at Castle Rock State Park in 2009)</span>http://www.stacyernst.com/2012/12/a-relaxing-weekender.htmlnoreply@blogger.com (Stacy)1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6160496610702778759.post-8867652414741320240Thu, 29 Nov 2012 19:00:00 +00002012-11-29T11:00:00.680-08:00DaydreamsInspirationWeatherThe Rain Has Come<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-PxDjYviXeVA/ULet39UAonI/AAAAAAAAC9s/h4lgluddID4/s1600/Rain.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-PxDjYviXeVA/ULet39UAonI/AAAAAAAAC9s/h4lgluddID4/s1600/Rain.jpg" /></a></div><br />No, I'm not being vague about a hard time or struggle in my life, rainy weather has actually made an appearance in California! You know <a href="http://www.stacyernst.com/2011/11/have-cozy-weekend.html" target="_blank">how I feel about the rain</a>, so I could not be more excited than I have been the last 24 hours. Steady rain fall, gusty winds, falling leaves, ahhh! The whole thing is just perfect. You know what's even better? Since I'm no longer living in a cube, I get a front row view to nature's show. I cannot tell you how much I appreciate being able to see the outside world so often in a given hour; it really has lifted my spirits.<br /><br /><b>How do you feel about the rain?</b> Some friends posted on my <a href="http://www.facebook.com/StacyErnstBlog" target="_blank">Facebook page</a> that they love to take walks in the rain or snuggle up with a blanket or a book.&nbsp;<b>What is your favorite rainy day activity?</b> I'd love to hear!http://www.stacyernst.com/2012/11/the-rain-has-come.htmlnoreply@blogger.com (Stacy)2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6160496610702778759.post-7132921960471146018Tue, 27 Nov 2012 12:00:00 +00002012-11-27T04:00:10.750-08:00InspirationPhotographyPinspirationPinspiration / 01<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;"><a href="http://pinterest.com/" target="_blank">Pinterest</a> may be old news to some, but if you haven’t heard of it, it is an online (virtual) pinboard where you can organize images that catch your eye or offer inspiration from around the web. You can create specific pinboards that capture your interests in home design, new recipes, fashion, or whatever else you like! They are also a great way to pull gift ideas for holidays, birthdays, or anniversaries.</div><div class="MsoNormal"><br /></div><div class="MsoNormal">I, personally, love my Pinterest pinboards. I have decided to create a weekly column highlighting the images that are inspiring me most throughout the week. Here is what I’ve been drawn to this week…<br /><br /><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-raZpyL85uGU/ULRtvO01p6I/AAAAAAAAC7s/Tz-ECa84c6I/s1600/Pinspiration-01A.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-raZpyL85uGU/ULRtvO01p6I/AAAAAAAAC7s/Tz-ECa84c6I/s1600/Pinspiration-01A.jpg" /></a></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-UtzvzKBIk_4/ULRuQrr7c-I/AAAAAAAAC70/1YB4Tw0qUPc/s1600/Pinspiration-01B.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-UtzvzKBIk_4/ULRuQrr7c-I/AAAAAAAAC70/1YB4Tw0qUPc/s1600/Pinspiration-01B.jpg" /></a></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-HsiV2g3BA0M/ULRu1FzqjII/AAAAAAAAC78/-smchEydfsI/s1600/Pinspiration-01C.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-HsiV2g3BA0M/ULRu1FzqjII/AAAAAAAAC78/-smchEydfsI/s1600/Pinspiration-01C.jpg" /></a></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-OZxrV9GvlJs/ULRvR4AEvoI/AAAAAAAAC8E/IhuID-w7zRA/s1600/Pinspiration-01D.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-OZxrV9GvlJs/ULRvR4AEvoI/AAAAAAAAC8E/IhuID-w7zRA/s1600/Pinspiration-01D.jpg" /></a></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-a4Ez7pqmQ5s/ULRvtkj5MNI/AAAAAAAAC8M/Wgq5EfFB8bQ/s1600/Pinspiration-05E.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-a4Ez7pqmQ5s/ULRvtkj5MNI/AAAAAAAAC8M/Wgq5EfFB8bQ/s1600/Pinspiration-05E.jpg" /></a></div><br /><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"></div><div style="text-align: center;"><a href="http://pinterest.com/sernst/home-design/" target="_blank">Home design</a> / <a href="http://pinterest.com/sernst/atmosphere/" target="_blank">Atmosphere</a> / <a href="http://pinterest.com/sernst/places/" target="_blank">Places</a> / <a href="http://pinterest.com/sernst/yum/" target="_blank">Food</a> / <a href="http://pinterest.com/sernst/color/" target="_blank">Color</a></div><br />You can find all of the photo sources, and a full list of my pinboards on my <a href="http://pinterest.com/sernst/" target="_blank">Pinterest account</a>!&nbsp;</div><!--EndFragment--> http://www.stacyernst.com/2012/11/pinspiration-01.htmlnoreply@blogger.com (Stacy)2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6160496610702778759.post-6481993195617928933Mon, 26 Nov 2012 12:00:00 +00002012-11-26T04:00:14.232-08:00DecorDesignHomerobbieRedecorating Inspiration<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;">When Rob and I moved into our house 3 years ago I painted our living room a beautiful, deep red. It looks great at Christmas and really makes our white farm shudders pop. I've definitely enjoyed my time with the red walls. However, we only have one window (that doesn't get much light) in the living room, so any light that does come in gets sucked by the walls. This has left me craving a room redo. I'm thinking of having white walls, a gray couch, and bright accents (via lamp shades and pillows) to bring color into the room. Rob says we can go for it, I just need to map out some of the costs, and I'm thinking about *maybe* asking for Home Depot gift certificates for Christmas! Before we start purchasing paint, here are some of my room inspirations...</div><br /><a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-ky0fqJ3i4fE/ULMXZlFtUEI/AAAAAAAAC5U/zec6_urs3zI/s1600/Room-Redo-1.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-ky0fqJ3i4fE/ULMXZlFtUEI/AAAAAAAAC5U/zec6_urs3zI/s1600/Room-Redo-1.jpg" /></a><br /><a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-uuj-gNH1sFg/ULMXaPrX1GI/AAAAAAAAC5c/c8rxJb9HyfU/s1600/Room-Redo-2.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-uuj-gNH1sFg/ULMXaPrX1GI/AAAAAAAAC5c/c8rxJb9HyfU/s1600/Room-Redo-2.jpg" /></a><br /><a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-FfBROBH6Z8U/ULMXa7ldsVI/AAAAAAAAC5k/Vl00G2o1Izw/s1600/Room-Redo-3.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-FfBROBH6Z8U/ULMXa7ldsVI/AAAAAAAAC5k/Vl00G2o1Izw/s1600/Room-Redo-3.jpg" /></a><br />(I realize that this is a bedroom, and not a living room, I just love how they've pulled in such bright colors.)<br /><br /><a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-bTlDZOm2HTs/ULMXpJRboUI/AAAAAAAAC5s/apZ4qKBB4G8/s1600/Room-Redo-4.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-bTlDZOm2HTs/ULMXpJRboUI/AAAAAAAAC5s/apZ4qKBB4G8/s1600/Room-Redo-4.jpg" /></a><br /><br /><b>Any suggestions and/ or recommendations for redoing a living room?</b><br /><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: x-small;">(See full inspiration board and sources </span><a href="http://pinterest.com/sernst/home-design/" target="_blank"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: x-small;">here</span></a><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: x-small;">)</span>http://www.stacyernst.com/2012/11/redecorating-inspiration.htmlnoreply@blogger.com (Stacy)3