What idiots! Not only does it actually say:
<!- saved from url=(0025)http://daveandtara08.com/ ->
At the top of the source but also they’re using your SWF file ( http://daveandtara08.com/media/xspf_player_slim.swf ), for the music player. If you felt like it, you could just embed some naughty code in there… I don’t know ActionScript so can’t help you out but there might be something you can do!