Name: Sharon : Comment: I’m 38 years old. 2 years ago my mom past away about the same I ended a 17 year relationship with my guy. I was grieving the loss of my mother and my boyfriend, and very insecure and uncertain about my future. 6 months later I reconnected with a old crush […]

Name: Kim Comment: Hi Moxie, I’ll try to keep this short – I can never get a 3rd date. Guys always seem to be interested in me on the first date, they’ll text and call until the second, they’re always respectful and inquisitive, and they’ll even seem to enjoy my company on the second, but […]

Name: Brandee : Comment: I am 29 and have been divorced for about two years now. Since I was married at a young age, I have never really been single before so this whole scene is new to me. The first guy I decided to “date” threw up some red-flags so I did some research […]

Name: Steph Comment: A little background: I just started medical school in a new place, far from my boyfriend, family, and friends. I’ve had a hard time making new friends. But I’m normally a happy person who’s deeply interested in other people. My friends tend to be women, gay men, and literary types of all […]

Name: Tracy : Comment: Any of your input/opinion would be greatly valued because I am a bit confused. Here’s my story: I started going to the gym again and though I am no ‘gym-bunny’ and might appear a bit serious/conservative I much enjoy it and I guess that’s the reason why I seem to get […]

Name: L : Comment: Hello, I recently relocated back to a new city. I’m mid-twenties, I have a bachelor’s degree, I’ve traveled the world and am on a good career trajectory. I’ve always been independently-minded (but never strident) and genuinely, being single has never bothered me. However, I really, really, would like to be dating […]

Name: Sara Comment: Hi, I don’t get asked out on dates, and I don’t know why. It’s starting to effect my ego a bit, and I am realizing that I have no game. This is not easy for me, considering that my passion is sports and live entertainment, I have a stable and exciting job […]

Because I do dating profile critiques and edits, I have multiple profiles on a few different sites. Since most of my experience revolved around OK Cupid, I decided it would be smart to get a feel for what Match.com has to offer. A few months ago I created a profile on Match to get some […]

Name: Diana Comment: I met a guy online recently and he seemed really in to me, texting everyday, we skyped a few times because he lives out of state. I went to a concert one night and he said it sounded fun and he wished he was here, i sent him a couple of pics […]

Name: AC Comment: Thank you for reposting and enhancing your column on why women should be discerning about who they listen to when seeking dating advice. I was struck by your comment on what it means when a man tells you that other men find you intimidating. It’s something I heard back in college and […]