FEMDOM COCK TEASING

Cock Teasing, Femdom and Blue Balls

I dont understand why more women dont "use" the male sex drive to their advantage.

Obviously many do, but the numerous ways in which they are "using" it could be expanded upon is mind numbing. So many seem to think ( or were trained) that denial is some sort of power or control. Granted in the right context it can be, but outright denial can lead to a wandering male.

The reality is this, men were designed to walk the face of the earth reproducing. Period. Male mammals just do that, always have and without the proper training and control always will. Its hard wired into their biological makeup and that drive and desire can be channeled into so many beneficial things if women just take a few moments to devise a plan for it.

Blue balls and orgasm denial are the key. A guy who has been aroused for a bit is willing to do far more than usual to satisfy a woman with hopes for a release. Discuss in a nonchalant manner things with him. Your last date, your lover, his inadequacy, sexual desires or fantasies. Do this on a Saturday mid-morning. Do it while you are writing out the grocery list or looking through the weeks mail. Act like its no big deal, just casual conversation although you know the effect you are having on him.

After a bit, mention a couple of chores he needs to get done around the house. Also mention that perhaps when he is done, you and he will spend some special quality time together. Hint at your own favorite pleasures that the two of you share, or that he would like to. Promise nothing, but do advise him that the sooner he is done, the sooner "other" things can happen.

Watch how fast he bounds out the door to complete those tasks.

During lunch discuss with him his poor performance the last time the two of you were intimate. Remind him that this is one main reason you need to be with other men. A little dose of humiliation or shame will create just enough guilt on his part to encourage him even more to please you or make the effort in other ways. Reassure him of your love for him, maybe even rub his crotch a time or two to keep his arousal elevated. Then tell him that he also needs to ____ (fill in blank) clean the garage, the gutters, run to the store and so forth. A light little slap to the balls and a stern warning to get everything done will have him once again running out the door.

In the evening, have him draw your bath. This hints to him that soon you will be nude, lounging in a hot tub and will spark or respark his desire and erection. Ask him if he is looking forward to a wonderful ejaculation. Take your time bathing. Enjoy it. Call him into the bathroom and mention that the dishes should be done, clothes washed or dried or other task. His seeing you naked will have visions of forthcoming sex in his mind.

After you have moved to the bed, ask for a drink, a cup of tea and tell him you need to unwind for a few moments. He will wait patiently. Call your lover and while your husband sits next to you discuss a upcoming date, or a previous one. Wink at your husband a time or two, smile deviously at him, stroke him a bit, laugh at a little inside joke between you and your lover, imply that it may be about him or his lovemaking skills.

Then tell your husband that you are a bit tired all of a sudden and you need some sleep. Make sure he knows that you have not forgotten him and let him know that you will make it up tomorrow and he should save his sperm and not masturbate that evening.

The following day, use the same technique. Keep his balls blue, his penis hard and keep him busy. That evening tell him that before you "play" with him you need oral attention to put you in the mood. Queen him. There is nothing like face sitting to make a submissive man almost come in his pants, underwear or all over his nude self.

After he has eaten you to an orgasm (or two, or three) tell him that it drained you and you need some rest.

Monday night you are busy.

Tuesday night you have a headache.

Wednesday night you are out with the girls.

Thursday night you go out with him for dinner, to a movie etc.

Friday night, you have a date with your lover.

By this time your husband will be willing to do ANYTHING to be allowed to have an orgasm. He will be begging, pleading, even a moment or two of light stroking on his penis will produce pre-come. It will be leaking out within a few seconds of your attentions.

Enjoy your date, alone, in front of your husband or whatever suits you and is your preferance. Make sure your hubby performs oral sex on you before and after your date. Some women prefer their husband also has to 'clean" up her lovers penis. Make sure he is well aware of how much you love him, how much you like your lover and how much better your lover is.

Then give him a 'ruined' orgasm. Stroke him until his sperm just starts to spurt out and let go.

Ruined orgasm - The kind of orgasm a guy has when his hands are tied out of the way and his penis is stimulated just until he can't stop anymore, and then let go. Neat to watch because of the way it bounces with each spurt. Embarrassing for the guy, especially if several girls are watching, and not real satisfying.

Ruined orgasm - Ruined orgasm is when a female slowly cock teases you to the point of orgasm and stops just before you cum leaving your cock throbbing. She does this over and over until your balls ache and you're going insane for sexual relief, then when she is finally ready for the ruined orgasm. She brings you to the edge again only this time just as you are expecting the onset of a tremendously huge orgasm, your balls are tightening up, all she needs to do is stroke up and you're Cumming!! Instead she lets go of your cock and you feel an unspeakable pain in your balls that only a man knows because at the point of orgasm instead of that last stroke up, she grabbed your balls and squeezes as hard as she possible can, totally stopping your orgasm, maybe leaving you dribbling a little cum, but either way your both sitting there watching your dick get soft as you're left suffering from lack of release and with a severe case of blue balls!!!