Etiquette refers to rules of conduct you should follow while visiting dungeons or taking part in a fetish scene. These places are meant to allow people to explore their sexuality, and one person misbehaving can turn what should be an eye-opening experience into an awful one. Touching or taking pictures without permission, and any form of harassment will always end in bad taste (and worse). Most clubs have house rules to prevent any unpleasantness, but there are also unwritten rules of etiquette you should always follow. Most of these are common sense, but they deserve mentioning regardless:
Remember that those around you are people, not exhibits. Do not gawk at them, make loud comments about their looks, and do not stand around talking loudly disturbing everyone. Do not assume that just because people are willing to engage in BDSM activities in a public setting, they would like you to participate. Always ask first, be polite, and never argue when you hear a ‘no’.
For safety reasons, do not temper or touch equipment that someone else is using, and always seek the assistance of someone more experienced and heed their advice.
Remember that consent is at the heart of all things BDSM. If someone is reluctant to do a certain activity with you, do not pressure them.

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