Reconciliation

No one wants to have a sore spot touched, and therefore a society with so many sores twitches when someone has the courage to touch it and say: “You have to treat that. You have to get rid of that. Believe in Christ. Be converted.” - Saint Oscar Romero

Reconciliation 101: How do I do this again?

Maybe it's been a while since you last went to Confession, or you're needing some guidance as you help your children learn about the sacrament. The Sacrament may be face-to-face or anonymous, with a screen between you and the priest.

Steps to Reconciliation:

The priest will greet you with a blessing

Make the sign of the cross

You may begin with “Bless me, Father, for I have sinned. My last confession was [give the number of weeks, months, or years] ago,” or a similar greeting.

Confess all of your sins. (If you are unsure or uneasy, ask him for help.)

The priest may offer advice to help you fulfill your Christian identity.

The priest, acting in the person of Christ, will then absolve you from your sins.

Depart and privately complete your penance in a timely way.

Act of Contrition

My God, I am sorry for my sins with all my heart. In choosing to do wrong and failing to do good, I have sinned against you whom I should love above all things. I firmly intend, with your help, to do penance, to sin no more, and to avoid whatever leads me to sin. Our Savior Jesus Christ suffered and died for us. In his name, my God, have mercy.

OR

O God, I am sorry for my sins. Sometimes I have chosen to do wrong and have failed to do good. Lord have mercy on me, a sinner. Help me to change my ways and grow in your love. Amen