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My patience is at an end.

Posted by Anonymous

27 Replies

I sold a car to my friend. I needed the money, she needed a car. I agreed to let her do payments and we put it in a contract.

I'm tired of dealing with it. I'm tempted to send her an email stating that she can 1) start making real effort to pay on the car and get caught up, 2) return the car, or 3) it can go to court and I can repossess the car.

I don't want to take her only vehicle, but at this point I'm tired of the whole thing. It's been almost a year and she has only made two months of payments.

I would have already either collected the car or taken her to court. I would demand she pays you in full or take her to small claims court.

by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster
on Jan. 16, 2018 at 2:30 PM

We've been loaning money back and forth for years. Otherwise I would have NEVER agreed to allow this. She's never not paid me back before.

Quoting MrsDavidB25:

People just do not learn. These things always go badly.

by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster
on Jan. 16, 2018 at 2:31 PM

I know. That's part of the reason I got so irritated with it.

Quoting Anonymous 2:

Sounds like a case for Judge Judy! All this time your car is losing value, she is using it for free, think about that.

No, of course you aren't being unreasonable.

by Anonymous 3
on Jan. 16, 2018 at 2:32 PM

Do you still hold the title?

I'd give her a deadline, maybe the first of the month to make another payment, then repossess the car if she fails to pay. Let her know that if she misses another payment, you'll be taking the car back, no more exceptions.

by Anonymous 4
on Jan. 16, 2018 at 2:33 PM

I'd repo it. I highly doubt she's going to turn around and pay you now after all the bs she has already pulled.

No, you're being smart. Get or money or get your car back by any means necessary and never speak to the leech again. If it's still in your name I'd take the spare keys and take it but I'm a huge bitch, lol.

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