I'm not going to be friends with Liz again. It's done. It's not going to happen. I'm fine being civil, which is what I have been. Even though something came up in a Skype thread (which I read everything, even if I'm not there to see it at the time.) where she said I was being "malicious". I'm assuming she's thinking of when, I was doing what I normally do, and posting pictures of myself on my own blog. But, at this point, I do not give a shit. I'm civil. Please stop trying to push it back onto me, because it's really fucking annoying.

Now, if you have something to say? Message me. Stop bringing it into this thread. Thank you.

So a girl I strongly feel ooey gooey emotions for, is FINALLY single again after what seems like 5 years.

For once I actually feel like I have the balls to ask her out.

HOWEVER, despite knowing that she attends the same community college as me I have no idea when or where her classes are.

The only way to perchance meet her is her place of work which I learned via Facebook.

Since I am highly devoid of what some call common sense and I call social sense I don't know if this is the way to go about it if I intend to not look like a stalker freak of some caliber. Though I'll admit if I ever stalked a chick it would probably be her.

So what should I do?

It's worth mentioning that I intend to do this person to person in order to both boost my morale and to have the asking be more personal. Libra compassion and heart-to-heart communications FTW!

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Eh, if you want to start up a sort of conversation with her and befriend her and at least enjoy the food in the restaurant, I don't see harm in going by every now and then. Do you have any other means of communication with her?

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More important question; is she aware of your existence? We don't want a Denko situation on our hands here.

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Yeah, I agree with Warby. Go ahead and try to build up a relationship there. Just DON'T TRY TOO HARD.

Be casual, be kind, and above all, be confident. Don't stammer or avoid her eyes or anything like that. Keep good eye contact, I find that if you don't seem creepy to a girl, looking her in the eye works well.

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WarBear wrote:More important question; is she aware of your existence? We don't want a Denko situation on our hands here.

Denko? *Looks up Denko*

Ohhhhhhhhh, ha!

She is very much aware of my existence we were decent friends as kids and occasionally hung out during high school, she was the whole reason I started doing Theatre stuff. I just never had the balls to ask her out despite moments that some could describe as starry eyed. During High school she did little things here and there that clearly suggested she wanted to hang out with me more, like suggest I join her in this Fife and drum chore thing and... other little things kinda.

I was a forgetful cowardly fuck-up so I did not do 90% of these things and of course I regret this.

But that was then and this is NOW. Now I posses the ever helpful anti-migraine meds and, my muse, Mystery whom has helped awaken parts of me that had been dormant for quite some time.

Warbear wrote:Do you have any other means of communication with her?

Not really, facebook probably doesn't count, though I could get her phone number from a friend.....

OR I could have Andrew ask her to simply hang out and just chat like he did last year, except this time he should FOOPIN invite me. She even asked why I wasn't there and he apologized to me later....

Definitely don't get her phone number from a friend. That'd just look cowardly and that's something you're trying to stay away from at this point. Do everything for yourself in this situation. Facebook counts as a method of communication, so just try talking to her there from time to time and shit'll work out.

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Does just striking up random conversations on fb chat not occur to you?

"Suddenly Frodo noticed that a strange-looking weather-beaten man, sitting in the shadows near the wall, was also listening intently to the hobbit-talk. He had a tall tankard in front of him, and was smoking a long-stemmed pipe curiously carved. His legs were stretched out before him, showing high boots of supple leather that fitted him well, but had seen much wear and were now caked with mud. A travel-stained cloak of heavy dark-green cloth was drawn close about him, and in spite of the heat of the room he wore a hood that overshadowed his face; but the gleam of his eyes could be seen as he watched the hobbits."

Just be like "Hey" and then she'll be like "Hey" and then you'll be like "What's up?" and then conversation.

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Here are some pointers on how NOT to chat to a girl you like on facebook.

Also, if you don't want to be obvious straight out you can ask her to hang out because you miss hanging out with her. Unless you want to state that you're interested in her right away, which may also be a way to do it.

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