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Jane says she and her husband have been practicing domestic discipline the past two years and found out about it through a website.

"Look, to be honest, domestic discipline seems to be hung up on a lot of rules, and I just don't know if I really get that." Jane laughs. For Jane and her husband it's about reinforcing his place as the head of household and making sure their home runs smoothly and happily.

So when rules are broken, there is a punishment, and most often that punishment is a spanking.

When I asked that question at the start of an interview, the reply was "I've never even read the book. BDSM is not domestic discipline, my interviewee says emphatically.

I thought you wanted to talk about domestic discipline, that's why I agreed to talk to you." Quickly, I explain that I, too, haven't read the best-seller, but I just wondered if people who practice domestic discipline are inspired by the BDSM laid out by author E. I don't think it's that much of a stretch for people to hear about spanking and think BDSM, the acronym for bondage, discipline (or dominance), sadism and masochism.And right now, popular culture is getting hip to BDSM through James' novel about 22-year-old Anastasia Steele, who gets involved in a submissive/dominant relationship with Christian Grey.A riding crop is featured prominently in Fifty Shades, which everyone seems to be reading.The book and its two sequels have also triggered conversations about feminism, sexuality and what can get published these days.Of course, that's not why I'm talking on the phone to a woman who lives in Phoenix and isn't eager for her name to be printed in the paper. Doms and subs, those who like to spank and be spanked, have long been part of the Savage Love column published in alternative weeklies across the land.But I'm reminded by, let's call her Jane, that this isn't domestic discipline as she knows it.