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Why men aren't depressed

I got this funny in an e-mail from my brother today. At the bottom of it he wrote, "We rock!" I can just see the grin on his face when he sent it! No offense intended for the guys, just a funny.

WHY MEN ARE NEVER DEPRESSED:

Men Are Just Happier People--
Your last name stays put. The garage is all yours. Wedding plans take care of themselves. Chocolate is just another snack. You can be President. You can never be pregnant. You can wear a white T-shirt to a water park. You can wear NO shirt to a water park. Car mechanics tell you the truth. The world is your urinal. You never have to drive to another gas station restroom because this one is just too icky. You don't have to stop and think of which way to turn a nut on a bolt. Same work, more pay. Wrinkles add character. Wedding dress $5000. Tux rental-$100. People never stare at your chest when you're talking to them. New shoes don't cut, blister, or mangle your feet. One mood all the time.

Phone conversations are over in 30 seconds flat. You know stuff about tanks. A five-day vacation requires only one suitcase. You can open all your own jars. You get extra credit for the slightest act of thoughtfulness. If someone forgets to invite you, he or she can still be your friend.

Your underwear is $8.95 for a three-pack. Three pairs of shoes are more than enough. You almost never have strap problems in public. You are unable to see wrinkles in your clothes. Everything on your face stays its original color. The same hairstyle lasts for years, maybe decades. You only have to shave your face and neck.

You can play with toys all your life. One wallet and one pair of shoes -- one color for all seasons. You can wear shorts no matter how your legs look. You can "do" your nails with a pocket knife. You have freedom of choice concerning growing a mustache.

i agree with u in many of these examples...
at times i think it would much much easier to be a man,,,,
the only thing I can think of thats a real neg. is that as a woman it easier to get jobs that dont involve hard labor...- i wouldnt make it mowing lawns, laying bricks or that type of things...

That is all true but I think the number one reason men are happier is because men don't love with thier whole hearts, Im not sure they have whole hearts!!! LOL Men also do not think about what they do or don't do affects everyone around you!!!

Wow meika that one hurt, I loved with my whole heart and got burned for it badly. I seem to be attracted to women who will never be happy with any thing I do and I can never say the right thing to. Why is that it has been my experience that women expect the worst from me and if I don't follow through they take it the wrong way. If men's lives are so wonderful and carefree then how come we die younger. Usually from a heart attack or stroke brought on by stress and ladies where do you think most of our stress comes from. Its us trying to figure out what you want from us and all the secret code that goes one. If it does not drive you to a early grave it will drive you to drink and in turn we die to young from that. I know this was meant to be cute but lets face it, its not accurate.

Ya being a man is such great fun, just ask me.
Plus not having a whole heart or loving someone with a whole heart is so handy in fact its so good it led me to four years of still ungoing therapy and cost me my career yet my ex who cheated twice with her whole heart is just rolling along in life with a new job and two promtions and a hot new bf all with that whole heart.....she has it so rough compared to me.
Hell if I had a whole heart I wonder what my pain level of her affairs and leaving me would be considering they are still at level 10, 15 months after she left....yup men rule....we rule fuck all

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