What Men Really Think About (During) Sex

Ever wanted to know what goes on inside the male mind during sex? Well, you can stop waiting for your guy to tell you what he's thinking when things get hot and heavy! We have the lowdown on what real men think about kissing, hot dates, foreplay, fantasies, getting busy, and more. Excerpted from REDBOOK's 500 Sex Tips by Judy Dutton.

Inside the Male Mind

Inside the Male Mind

On what gets him in a sexy state of mind: "I think my wife is totally hot. She'll point out what she perceives as flaws, but I think she's nuts. Even if I'm not in the mood, I'll catch a glimpse of her taking off her bra, and bam! I'm in the mood. Which is great at night, but slightly problematic in the morning if she's trying to throw some clothes on to make her train." —Dan, 31

Inside the Male Mind

Inside the Male Mind

On women talking dirty: "She called me at work and told me that she couldn't stop thinking about me and that I had to come home — at once. Sensing I was in for more than my usual welcome-home kiss, I rushed to get there. The anticipation that built during my commute was agonizing and only made me that much more excited when I arrived home
to find her waiting in bed." —Michael, 30