Pillow Talk with Shalini

Posted on Jun 10, 2016

Every month Lovetreats interviews real people ages 18+, from our very own Indian cities, about their sex lives. We have 6 standard questions and many different answers! Unabashed, fun, weird, happy, cute, or super shy – whatever your answers are, we want to know. We want to keep sex and sexuality on the table to discuss. Consider Pillow Talk a regular reminder that sex is all about fun, respect, intimacy, and yeah, a little bit of kink.

Interview with Shalini

Shalini is a 21 year old woman who identifies as a lesbian. "I might find guys somewhat sexually attractive, but it doesn’t compare to my feelings towards my own gender," she says.

When was the last time you had sex?A few months ago…

What was your first time like?My first time was well…odd. My friend-turned-boyfriend tried to get me off. But it didn’t really work for me considering that I wasn’t really into him. But he was enthusiastic enough. So I'll give him that.

What's the weirdest moment you've had in bed?When aforementioned boyfriend repeatedly tried to make the whole traditional concept of penetrative sex work with me but it didn’t. In the end we just got ourselves off.

Have you ever used a sex toy before?Yes I have. They were honestly items I fashioned for myself out of everyday objects. Let’s just say some things I borrowed from the kitchen did not go back to the kitchen!

What's the juiciest sexual fantasy you are willing to admit?Well, I’ve had a crush on my best friend for 5 years. She’s a girl. I’m a girl. My most favourite fantasy would definitely be bedding her.

Give us your best sex tip or advice!It’s not all about putting a penis in a vagina. There are a million other ways to have sex and achieve orgasms! Go for it!

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