Breakups & Divorce Support Group

Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.

I am in pain

Hello, i am kind of new to this, i joined for migrains but saw that there was this, my boyfriend of 4 years just left me on Saturday and i have no clue what do to with out him, we just got engaged on christmas and then he left but i have no idea why he left, I haven't been able to sleep or eat and i really dont want to leave the house or do anything, i go to work right now because i have to but i am crushed and clueless on what do to with out him.

Beckerbee..it is almost beyond a loving person's ability to bear when they discover that the feelings you have of loyalty, honor, love, trust and compassion were things you projected onto somone and to wake up to the almost indescribabnle horror of realizing that your former partner nver really shared these feelings with you. There is nothing wrong with you. Your values and commitment form the foundation of real and lasting love. The man who left you was an imposter, a cipher, without a core and as such was undeserving of your love. He was, and always would be, concerned exclusively with his own needs, and his failure to address yours woulf have ultimately led you to the conclusion that you are unloveable. Each of us deserve to love and be loved in return don't settle for anything less and be willing to believe enough in yourself after this awful episode to seek out, and be available to, the real love that is out there waiting for you. Some good man will treasure what you have to offer and will demonstrate his love by deriving a large part of his own happiness by giving you the unconditional love and happiness that he brings to your life. Do not give up on him, he is out there looking for you right now.

I feel your pain... I can relate because my ex is now really telling me it's over. I don't know how i'm even typing advice to you but i just want to let you know that i &quot;understand.&quot; Hope it helps in some kind of way.

Please dont get me wrong, he is the most wonderful man in the world, he has hepled me out of many many bad time and brought me out of a depression when we first met, i love him with all my heart and soul, he is caring, gentle, loving and would do anything for anyone in the world. I am just confused on what went wrong and why he left, he is my world and i will always love him, he gave me everything he could and i could never ask for anything else from him, all i need is his love and that is all i want.

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