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This guy and I were Dating..**EDITED** **EDITED AGAIN!!**

and we had a bad breakup-found out he was married , I sent his mother a Facebook message to please have her son leave me alone ( I didn't have her number as we were only together 3 months) that he's harrassing me. Things have been quiet for 2 weeks. I have his number blocked. Today 4 messages from a *private* number from HIM That he got promoted, asked how my child's health problems were coming along and how he bought a new fourwheeler. I ignored his texts. Why on earth if you BLOCK someone from your life, would they go out of there way to contact you? IT's been 2 weeks! Side note-we were very involved in each others lifes, said I love you's but love doesn't always mean stay in a unhealthy relationship!!

I told his mother because Christmas Day she invited us to her house for dinner, and she told me that she feared her son around animals that he's too rough. So there, THAT is why I told his mother via a message (left a papertrail) God forbid this pyscho ever did anything to me, he's not stable. His mother knows he's nuts.

**Update: Today I wake up to a friend request from him on Facebook! We were never on each other's Facebook when we were dating. What is up with this guy?!

I am sorry for you and your child too. Sounds like you both liked him a lot. Its disappointing when we find out someone has deliberatly deceived us. I give you props for breaking it off! He is still pursuing you because hes knows how much you cared for him and thinks he still has a chance with you. Don't give in, for you and your child's sake. HES NOT WORTH IT ! If he continues yes tell his wife OR get a restraining order. Good luck to you