Here are four important things to consider during this week between Christmas and New Year's. There is no need to hide out in denial and avoidance, as we can lighten the load of the reality checks by re-framing them before they begin to hit home.

Oh how I dread Victoria Day, and Canada Day for that matter. Because, as an animal rescuer, I know this coming week -- without fail -- I'll receive countless calls from distraught pet owners whose animals have bolted from fear during fireworks displays.

Gone are the days when you waited for New Year's Eve with anticipation. No, you are in a different stage of your life now. You are a parent of children. Young children. Though it may seem this way as you approach December 31 with the family, all hope is not lost. There are things that you can do with the kids where you and the little ones can enjoy the celebration.