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These Kids Today . . .

Lauren Pelley of the Western Gazettewrites about a study published in the February issue of Psychological Sciencethat suggests that adults have it wrong when they attribute a sense of entitlement and narcissism to youth. The study’s lead author is Western University psychology professor Kali Trzesniewski. We excerpt portions of Pelley’s article below.

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Ever feel misunderstood by grown-ups? Chances are you have, since many adults think youth are self-absorbed and demanding — but fret not. New research reveals our parents were just as narcissistic as we are. According to the study’s lead author, Western psychology professor Kali Trzesniewski, young adults are no more narcissistic than previous generations. Trzesniewski’s team looked at thousands of student responses to various psychological tests and questionnaires from the 1970s until the present. Over the decades, no major changes in the level of youth narcissism were evident.Trzesniewski’s research suggests many adults feel the younger generation is more self-absorbed since aging minds jump to that conclusion.“The exact reason isn’t clear,” Trzesniewski said. “But it’s been going on for generations. Parents and young adults clashing isn’t something new.”

Bertram Gawronski, Western psychology professor and Canada Research Chair of social psychology, agreed the problem has been going on for thousands of years.

“One of the major sources of conflict between generations is once you become a grown-up, you quickly forget what you were like when you were young,” Gawronski added.

Gawronski said emerging research in developmental psychology suggests everyone goes through a certain stage in their youth where self-centered behaviour is predominant.

In her research, Trzesniewski noted a balance between positive and negative narcissism. Overall, negative traits such as superiority have diminished over the years. More positive traits, such as self-sufficiency and leadership, have actually increased.

Trzesniewski said this can be a good thing.

“The average CEO is pretty narcissistic,” she said, noting the positive impact of some forms of narcissism in leadership roles.

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2 Responses to “These Kids Today . . .”

mutesaid

I doubt the comment that this problem has gone “on for thousands of years”. The unprecedented freedom and education that today’s youth have were not present in earlier eras and parental control was much stronger. Looking at non-western countries, the friction between adolescent and parent is much less problematic, which leads to the hypotheses that this is a relatively recent, Western development.