ABDL: Prominent Fetishes in Phone Sex

People tend to lump Adult Babies and Diaper Lovers into the same category, labeling it as ABDL, but in reality, they are two separate fetishes. Although the line between them is relatively thin and they can cross over into each other.

Adult babies are people who like to dress up like a baby, be treated like a baby and will most likely want to roleplay that their partner is their mommy or daddy. The person who is the baby will also act like a baby, crying, whining, giggling, playing, cooing, etc. They want to be treated as if they are an infant.

Infantilism is also what this is called. It isn’t necessarily a fetish but a way of life for these adult babies. This would include having large baby items to play with such as a crib to sleep in, adult diapers, and larger baby clothing (made for adults).

Sex while in the adult baby frame of mind is typically unlikely. While adult babies may get sexually aroused while playing baby, they feel it isn’t necessarily appropriate to have sex with his “mommy” or “daddy.”. No sexual talk or play is required or wanted.

Some adult babies might want to be pampered while others may want to be scolded. Every adult baby is slightly different in what they might desire.

In the phone sex realm, these adult babies either can’t find a mommy in real life, or are living as an adult baby in secret. It is quite frequent that our adult babies have significant others who know nothing about their fetish. So, our phone sex operators are there to do everything an in-person mommy would do, just over the phone.

Diaper lovers are just that, people who love diapers and doing things in their diapers and this fetish usually includes either themselves or having their partner in diapers. Like all fetishes, every diaper lover is different, some like to poop and pee in their diapers, others just like to pee, some don’t like either, and some like to masturbate while having a dirty diaper, while others prefer it to be clean. They can masturbate while sticking their hand down their diaper, or while humping another object such as a pillow. It’s all whatever the diaper lover or their partner wants.

With Diaper Lovers, they aren’t babies, they don’t usually want to be treated as a baby, or have a mommy figure play with them, they simply love diapers and all that’s involved. There isn’t usually a roleplay that goes along with their fetish, but instead, they simply like to talk about the diapers; how they feel, smell, or how we would treat them in their diapers, such as changing them or having sex with them.

An Adult Baby can be a Diaper lover as well and vice versa, but some may just be one or the other, that is why they are lumped as ABDL.

I was surprised with how prevalent ABDL calls were when I first started my phone sex company. It has become a very common fetish that our operators deal with on a daily basis.