Relationships

Working with relationships - whether they be partners, friends, parent/child, or in the workplace, I assist each person to "make the darkness conscious," for that is where we get stuck in relationships. In general, this stuckness manifests itself by our thinking that the other person is the cause of our suffering; if only they would ....... then we would be happier.

The aim of our work together is to provide you with tools you can use in your daily life. It is helpful to have a context of common relationship patterns and how to return to alignment, which translates into more aliveness and fun.

Often, it takes a trained facilitator to help you to take advantage of the healing moments that disguise themselves as conflict or unhappiness in relationship.

Start by noticing your patterns and telling the unarguable truth to yourself and to your partner. Be willing to look at your projections and notice some possibilities of what you may not be seeing about yourself. Look at your agreements with your self and your partner. Relationship Balancing is a simple and yet profound way of accessing projections and beliefs about the other. Once uncovered and balanced, this process can create lasting aliveness and resources within the relationship. Couples coaching can be some of the most rewarding time to spend with each other. When we can laugh at our patterns they lose their serious grip.

If it is time for a separation, I am available to coach you through conscious separation.