Meeting up with guy tomorrow?

Guy texted me early this week to confirm hanging out. I was a bit hesitant but I said yes. We semi planned. When I get there we will go eat. Texted all week but today (day before meet up) he has NOT texted me. He told me he will text me today and usually he gets back to me but hasn't. I paid for my hotel. Today is the last day for cancellation. Should I cancel the hotel? Seems like he's not getting back to me and I don't have time for this.

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Have you text him today. Maybe just say 'Hey, just wondering if we're still on for tomorrow?' If you don't get a reply in an hour or so, cancel the hotel. You haven't got time for some guy to mess you around.

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The day before you are to meet up and not a word from him? I've been there it means an excuse for ditching you is coming up. Dont waste your time.

I'm just baffled. I always ignore him and he's always the one coming back and trying to text me. Is he really that bored to try and string me along? He seemed so nice and said he was really excited to see me. I really want to tell him off in text but I guess it's not even worth it.

This is so weird because I've felt the same way about my ex. Seems interested and will text me and would even bug me if i didn't text him. I think this guy probably did or maybe still does like you but not enough to make the effort if that makes sense. does this guy have a facebook? I know if you send a message and they read it you can tell that they did. If he is ignoring you that would be a huge red flag.

Oh wow. Yeah, I only have his instagram. He hasn't posted on there, but he could be liking pictures for all I know and being active I don't know. He put in a lot of effort just to keep me along to this point I guess. Makes me feel really crappy about myself. Don't understand what I did wrong. Last night when we were texting he seemed happy and we were sharing music and everything. He said he will check out my music and get back to me tomorrow. 90% of the time he keeps his word but I guess not this time.

Should I text him for him to not contact me anymore or just ignore? I don't think an emergency would come up. He's never gone this long without texting me when he says he will get back to me. I'm pretty sure he's ditching me.