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Re: Straight Male Friends. . . Ever suck one off?

i belive if ur "strigt freinds "were really stright they wouldnt let u suck theem off no matter how horney they are one of my so called stright freinds told me afher he was really gay so watch out u may be the one getting fooled

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I can't begin to list the str8 friends I have sucked off. And yes, they were truly str8, no reciprocation and they have all since married and have kids. They all knew I was bi. I seduced some of them, but many came on to me. Several I sucked for years. All I ever got was a hand job here and there, but I did get great big mouthfuls of cum and some great memories. And not one got mad at me and stopped being my friend. All true.

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I can't believe this is so common, honestly. True, I am not out, but I can't even imagine asking a straight friend if I could do that. I virtually always have feelings for my male friends, and dream about something like that happening. All the straight guys I know don't seem to be interested at all, am I missing something here?

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I must be missing something too. I have many straight friends who are very hot. Coincidence? Anyway, they all know that i have "gay tendencies" and am "artsy" but I do not think that they think I am actually bi. It isnt their fault, they have only seen me with girls, but I have always dreamed of sucking off a couple of them. When I was in college I used to get as drunk as possible with my one friend in the hopes that something would happen one night but it never did.

I have another friend, who I think is bi also, who got very drunk with me a few months back and we passed out together in my bed. Anyway, I woke up in the middle of the night rubbing his dick. It was hard and I think I thought it was mine at first. Anyway, I am stroking him off and he reaches over, puts his hand down my pants and starts stroking me off! I jerked him harder and he came all over my hand. It was awesome, I came too(obviously) and went back to sleep. We never talked about it, but he has since told a mutual friend of ours' mother that i am definately gay. LOL! The good news is that although I had been sort of crushing on him, I found out that night that I have a much bigger dick than he does! His is a very bent, 5 incher with tiny, but very soft, balls. I have since gotten over my crush because, after all, I don't want no short, short man! Just kidding, but what an ass@#l!

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I was 18, in my first year at university and was having a hard time adjusting. i was still unsure about my sexuality, still hoping that these 'thoughts' would go away. I'm very shy and lack confidence and was finding it hard settling in. I think what happened to me was planned - sounds odd, but the set up was too uncanny. This may take a while but here goes...

On the open day for this university a girl started chatting to me and my mum. She was on her own and stuck with us for the day. We were both planning on the same course but weren't sure if this was the right place for us. So we said goodbye and that was that.

First day at this uni arrived and I moved into halls. I was shocked to see that this girl had picked the same uni and had ended up in the room opposite mine. Small world. After a week she moved to another campus for one reason or another and a new guy took her room. He was this scary looking guy. Very tall, well built, and tattoos. The kind of guy you would be scared of. However he was shockingly good looking - Dark hairs, amazing eyes and smile. All the girls loved him. He turned heads everywhere. He made himself comfortable very quickly and I didn't like him. I guess I was jealous of his confidence whereas I was still struggling. He was straight after all the girls and desperate to shag as many as possible.

One evening we both got left on our own and started chatting. He turned out to be really cool and we hit it off amazingly well. From that point on we were inseparable. I really looked up to him and loved that he was a gentle giant. Our conversations started to change and he'd ask me things like 'have you j/o since being here? How many times? Etc. We would stay in each others rooms and watch films for hours on end. We knew people were talking about us, but we thought it was funny. I saw him naked one day and kept that image in my head. I knew that i wanted him, but would never ever do anything. He told me that he wished I'd complimented his cock size, as that's what mates do. I wasn't sure about that one though.

Anyway, the months rolled by. We were very affectionate with each other, sharing single beds, hugging and even pecking when exchanging gifts etc. It was very homoerotic.

Christmas came and this was the first time we were apart in 3 months. He gave me a card with 'Brother' on it - as this is what we regarded our relationship to be like.

That holiday I spent hours fantasising about him, imagining how great it would be for that porn movie cliché to come true.

The first day back and he gave me a huge hug. We walked about the grounds together, his arm around me and he told me how much he'd missed me. That night we got pissed in my room. We sat, kind of hugging, but that was normal for us. Then things changed.

We were very drunk, he more so then me. He became upset and annoyed about stuff and I was scared of him. I tried to calm him down but he just got more upset. He pulled faces like he was battling with something and I was part of that. Before I knew it, we were hugging and he pulled away and gave me this odd look. My heart was pounding and I read the signals. I said to him that he looked like he was going to kiss me - and he did -On the cheeks and then lips. He then broke away and looked mad. I decided to provoke it more and said that I didn’t think it wasn't how he really wanted to kiss me. He grabbed me and we kissed properly, my heart was pounding, my head confused and scared. He then freaked out and ran off.

I caught up with him and after much trouble got him back in my room. You could get in big trouble if you caused too much noise after 1am and I didn't want that.

I told him that nothing matters and we should just get some sleep. He got in my bed and we both lay there. I still wanted him though and that kiss wasn't enough. I decided to try once more and told him to say goodnight to me. He rolled over and kissed me again. This time we didn't stop. I was hard as anything and could feel precum soaking my shorts. I was nervous that if he felt my hard on he would freak out and so I decided to see if he was hard too. He was!! I slid my hand down his boxers and felt his ass. It was firm, slightly hairy and amazing. we took each others clothes off and I played with his cock (I have to be honest, for a man of his size, he wasn't well proportioned down there!!) we rolled over and I went down on him. It was the first time I’d ever felt a man's cock before and I remember thinking it was odd. I sucked him off and loved every minute. He then rolled me over and started doing the same. He was eager though to be in me and I was not up for that. Before I knew it, he had tried to enter me. I guess only the tip of his helmet got in but the pain was hell and i had to stop it. He looked worried, but I had to brush him off and focus on my pain. That ended that.

The next morning things were bad. He freaked out when he woke up naked next to me and swore blind he couldn't remember things. It hurt me so much. My head was all over the place and I felt so alone. Our friendship never really got over that night, we became colder with each other and I slumped into a deeper depression. He tripped over himself a few times which told me he did know what happened that night but he'd never admit to me.

It took me ages to get over him and I missed our friendship so much. For the next two years at uni we had very little to do with each other. Despite everything though and the hellish way he treated me, I still wanted closure. I wanted him to accept that night and what we had. He had a string of girlfriends and was breaking hearts all over the place.

In my final year, i got my closure. I decided to go to him and chat and we openly discussed everything. He’d missed me too. He said he was 'sexual' but not gay or bi. I said that this was the last time we'd see each other and I wished him all the best. As I was leaving we had one final hug, before I knew it we were back in bed and it was magic.

When I left, I said to him that he won't forget that one in a hurry and he told me that he'll remember it always.

I've not seen him since, but have had some messages now and again. He's moved to Australia and has got married. As for me, well that night changed my life. It made me accept who I am and made me a much stronger person. Despite the pain I suffered it was the best thing to happen and the perfect time. I learnt so much from that event. Now 8 years on I'm in a great long term relationship with an amazing guy. So things worked out all round!

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I'm not really sure if the guy I blew was straight or bisexual, but the sad thing about the whole thing was I didn't even know he was into girls. I was on the internet one day when I saw this screen name that caught my eye. I started talking to the guy when we decided to hook up (Of course after telling him I was gay and love sucking cock.) It was pretty much all we agreed too do when we hooked up. He came over to my house about 30 minutes after chatting and of course I gave him a blow job, but here's the sad thing...He didn't even last 2 minutes...I mean I'm sucking this guy and I'm bobbing up and down on his cock (which was small by the way) when all of a sudden he started screaming he was cumming. ( I mean all I did was sucked the head of his cock and when I went down on him...meaning deep throating his cock about 3 times) the guy was ready to shoot his load. After he came he thanked me and left only to later e-mail me and ask to hook up again if I ever wanted too. A month or so went by when all of a sudden his screen name popped up on my buddy list. I e-mailed him and too my surprise I sat and had a long non sexual conversation with him. I gave him my phone number and told him to give me a call. My phone ranged and I answered it (mind you this was about 2 seconds after we chat) and it turned out to be some girl who wanted to know who I was and said she was dating the guy and would like to know if I was gay or not. I lied to her and said NO and told her I knew her boyfriend from my job and that he was a customer that I had once helped.

Re: Straight Male Friends. . . Ever suck one off?

I think what "Bothers" me most ... or, rather, what I Regret most ... is realizing just how "Curious" most Guys are! I mean, now that I'm older, and "wiser", I'm just now understanding how much more "Fun" I could have had with my "Str8" friends, if only I'd been a bit more "aggressive" when the opportunities presented themselves!!

WISDOM is the Knowledge you've gained ... After you could have used it!_Me

Re: Straight Male Friends. . . Ever suck one off?

i am a 21 years student from INDIA. this is a very conservative country. we don't take shower in front of others. even we

don't change our dress (i mean be naked ) in front of other male.my college is far apart from my home. this is the final year of my graduation & i have a lots of pressure of my study. so now i am staying as a paying guest near my college with another guy. He is also in

my college. he is very handsome.i always fantasize about him. he has a sexy hairy chest.

one day while changing dress, he accidentaly dropped his towel & i got a chance to see him naked for only 2 or 3 seconds.

beleive me, it was the first time that i saw a man nude in front of me.earlier i saw nude man only in porn movie or in internet.after the situation

he felt very embarass & shy , but i told him that ' it's ok '.later i started to seduce him in many way , because i wanted to see him naked again

& wanted to see a clear view of his penis. i have also told him that if he is interested to see my penis, he can. but he avoid all of my traps.i think he is straight .can anyone refer my

a proper way to seduce him. a few months is left to completing my graduation & i want to do sex with him before that , because after graduation i may loose contact with him . somebody help me.

Re: Straight Male Friends. . . Ever suck one off?

My first time to suck off a str8 friend was in 1969. I was a junior in HS and a friend of mine was having a stag party for his 17th birthday. There must have been 20 or so guys and we all got shit faced and stoned. After some rough-housing, someone yelled, "let's wrestle like the Greeks did" and with that, we stripped down to our underwear and got with it.

The birthday boy, a major athlete in school and I were the only ones still conscious when I did something that even now seems to be totally stupid and dangerous - I made a move on him. He was seated and I got on my knees between his legs and pulled his briefs off and just went down on him. He was immediately erect (ah, the good old days) and I went to town. He just laid back and finally rewarded me with blast after blast of his hot juice. He pushed me off, pulled up his briefs and somehow, I made it to a sofa in the other room. That was a Saturday night.

On Monday, I was sweating up a storm. I wasn't even sure it had happened, but I was scared to death it would be all over school. I got a few strange looks that week and my best friend came up to me and asked me if it was true. I said it's total BS and if you are my friend, you won't believe it for a second.

That summer, I had a fling with a 16 y/o down the street from where I lived. He was much more experienced than I (had been acting in Little Theater for a few years, haha). He taught me much and I made him happy in return.

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One of my first experiences was with a straight man. he was letting me suck him off. One thing led to another and we were soon doing 69. I do not think he had ever had a cock in his mouth befor. I got so excited and could not hold back and shot ! He freeked out a little as if he had never seen cum befor. It was never discussed again. I think he was afraid I would tell his other straight friends.And always flanted his girl friends in front of me.
It was one of the highlites of my teen years!

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I was round my mates nans house and we had to share this single bed.(this was when i was 15 so bout 4 years ago). neways we started pissin about and wresting. then he grabbs my dick and i grab his and then we started tossing each other off. afterwards i said that i regretted it and he said the same. about 2 weeks later he told me that he was only sayin it coz i did. HE LOVED IT!!

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it happened to me two times. it all began when i was 16. we were best friends at the time and with another friend we went camping. we got drunj sitting at camp fire ane he kept saying that one of us should be a woman, so we could be together. he even gave me a kiss on the cheek that night-a really big one. if there wasn't for the third friend we'd hit off. few weeks later i was home alone, he came over and we got drunk. we were talking and he said he dares to kiss me. i thought he wouldn't...

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Well he did kiss me and we made out for some time. eventually i said we could have sex and he wasn't hesitating. we got to my bed and he said he'd suck me if i sucked him. i pulled his pants down, leaving him with boxers on. he was hard. i went down but didn't take boxers off. i was to scared. nothing happened that night. few months later we celebrated my bday, got drunk and on the way home i told him i wanted to suck him and that it would be a perfect gift...

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We went to his flat. i sat on his bed, he came sitting next to me and said:come over here if you want anything. we started kissing and with time i moved my head to his crotch. i was so scared but at the same time i knew i will like every second of it. he blew me as well and kept saying how nice my cock was, although his was bigger. it was awsome. it happened once more. we were returning home, he asked me if i'd go to him. he said: we've had fun last time!

Re: Straight Male Friends. . . Ever suck one off?

i had a straight friend suck me off this afternoon! It's his birthday and I invited him to a restaurant for lunch. We had a great time although he drank a bit too much. When we got back to my house he laid down on the sofa. I went to the kitchen to do a few things and when I got back to the living room- abou 10 minutes later- he was naked and jerking off! He asked me if he could suck my cock!!! Well, it is his birthday. He said he wants to do something new every year on his birthday and that was it. I hope his ass is ready to be fucked next year.

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I have a straight friend that I have worked on for several years and just recently went the final few yards for a touch down. He is beautiful, handsome, whatever, long, long brown hair, a swimmers body, wonderful lips. He is married with three kids. For two years he has mentioned in casual conversations about problems with his wife, occasionally they will be sex related. One on-going frustation is she will not blow him-and of course that is what he wants most. I never comment only nod and be a good friend acting as a sounding board. I knew he suspected but he never let on that he was asking for anything from me. Well about six months ago whenever the lack of sex issues would come up I would insert a few comments-you will have to find other outlets, that type of thing. And then last month the perfect opportunity. He was over bitching about his wife as he was hanging some pictures for me. I was holding the ladder listening to his I get everything but head speech when I just gently moved my face forward and straight into his crotch. We both were in the perfect position. My face was just at zipper height and my mouth landed right on his dick. Even with his pants and underwear I could feel him and neither of us moved for what seemed like minutes. Then he started getting hard.

Well the rest is history. I gently removed him from his pants/underwear and started gently sucking. Once he was totally hard I knew no matter he would not say stop so I did and invited him off the ladder and onto my sofa. He moved quickly but quietly neither of us saying a word. It was wonderful. I removed all his clothing and discovered a wonderful hairy chest and drop dead incredible thighs. I not only sucked him but worshipped every muscle in his body. He all but had a heart attack.

He came, I swallowed. He confessed he had wondered for two years if that was every going to happen and I made him promise that whenever he felt he needed a blow he would let me know. I would NEVER turn him down. That was a month and three blows ago. It did change our friendship some, he no longer comes around to fix things for me but only when he wants his dick serviced but hey I am okay with that. I love having him know he can trust me and that I can do something for him that his wife won't.

So it took two years but worked out and so far has been only positive.

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I remembered I did it once.I was with a very good straight friend of mine on the net, chatting, it was about 12pm and I felt he was already hot and I decided to make him so excited that he could do nothing than jerking off behind his screen.He told me he was very frustrated by his girlfriend at that time.I didn't expect that he 'd tell me he would take his bike and come to my house.I was quite panicked but I opened to him.In fact, I was already with my boyfriend whom I warned before he arrived.My bfriend told me to do it, hoping to take part into this little game.When he arrived, he told me he wanted me to suck him and he kissed me.He didn't want a three way so that my boyfriend had to stay calm as if he was sleeping just over on the mezzanine(how awful).My boyfriend was disgusted at the beginning but he told me that I had warned him and that he had accepted the challenge with its risks!But My straight friend's dick was so good and he told me my lips and tongue were too!!After that my boyfriend and I have had several three ways which always happened very well and are really happy together since 6 years.

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Once, and it was only about a few month ago too. It was June 2nd. My roommate and I had some people come over just for BBQ. When ever you have beer and a few cocktails things can get out of hand. What was four in the afternoon became four in the morining, my roommate and I told everbody that it was cool that they can sleep over,and they did. So I went to go to sleep in my own bed, I was just about to fall asleep when I felt someone pulling on my right arm. I looked up it was Raymond. Raymond he is this light skinned latin male. His has a punk skater look to him, very good looking. So now I'm kind of awake, I move over so that he could sleep on my bed, that is what I thought that was what he wanted. I so found out that he wanted more. We soon started to kiss each other, and while I was kissing him I was rubbing his chest. My hand moved slowly down to his cock, once that my hand was over Raymond's cock. He quickly removed his pants, and with out question I started to suck him off. As I was sucking his cock, I looked up at Raymond and I asked him if he wanted to fuck me. Raymond looked that me for a moment and got up and started to lick my butt, then he put his cock in me and pounded my ass. I loved every minute of it.

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I found one of the EASIEST ways to suck off a str=8 friend ... is to watch str-8 porn with the intended ... when a girl is sucking him ; just mention "DAMM, she's not doing it very good ..I could do a lot better than that" .... I've have several str-8 friends take the "Bait" and it did not affect our friendship ....

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Personally speaking ... If a guy will suck off ANY Tom, Dick, 'n Harry who is str-8 or not ... yeah; that is kinda slutty and even Whoreish ...
However; if you have a str-8 bud, and you and he have something going ... and he is the only guy you are with ... more or less .. then I believe that is ok ...
I realize than MANY will disagree with me ; BUT .. that is MY opinion .. for whatever it is worth ..

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I love suckin off str8 dudes. It got a lot easier to score with one after I came out,
I was surprised how many hinted at wanting to try it with a dude.
Of course my favorite is the cop who lives across from me, I have been blowin him for a while now. He is married with two kids, loves his wife but she don't don't work his cock the way I can. Lotta str8 guys complain about the way most chicks give head, as one put it "it's always awesome when a dude does it"

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So later he says something along the lines of "Do all gays make themselves sluts for straights?"

Good question. From my POV, that comment is a generalization about horniness, but you can't say *all* gays make themselves sluts for straights.

In my experience with my married supervisor, we ain't talking love here. He was horny because his wife was pregnant, he wasn't getting any, and he had a neediness to be complimented. I'd compliment his cowboy boots, his nails, his hair - and he'd look thrilled because all he ever hears from his stay-at-home wife is, "I want a new SUV, so you'd better make more money."

He doesn't touch me, he just likes getting head. He likes getting neck and feet massages, but has this look of panic if I walk around and he thinks he'll have to reciprocate.

I'm making myself a slut for this particular straight guy, but there's no expectation of a relationship beyond this mutually beneficial bit of fun. Sure, I'd rather be in a real relationship, but sometimes 'friends with benefits' is better than nothing at all.

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I'd be rady for some kind of sexy activity whenever the chance came my way, whether it's with a girl or a guy - but the key is giving out the right signals and being alert to the answers coming back - and I guess the constant refrain of many guys wanting to know how to get there, is how can they get that two-way communication going. I suppose in the right circumstances the question have you ever fancied a blow job might be the key.
I'll try that on some of my 'metrosexual' younger friends and see whether I get a black eye or they tell my family!! Or they agree that it might be fun.

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Just last week one of my good (completely straight) friends and I where talking about relationships and how we both can't seem to get into a serious one or even find someone to just fool around with. At some point during the movie we where watching that evening, he said something along the lines of "If you and I are ever dead drunk and I'm very, very much so in need of getting blown off, I'll let you do me."

Worst part is that 1) I don't drink aside from taking the occasional sip from someone's glass of wine, 2) he hasn't partaken of that much alcool in ages and 3) while I have mused on the subject for a long time and even proposed to a friend when I came out to a few people a couple years back, I'd 99.99999999% wouldn't do it out of fear of alienating others if it get out that something happened (even if it's none of there business.) Yeah, I'm fucked up.

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O.K.! The entire "Thing" comes down to "Deniability"! Do Str8 Guys like getting their dicks sucked? Of course they do! Do they really Care if it's a Guy, or Girl, doing them?? Of course not! (Unless we're talking about Quality! ) And, to even take it a step further, do they like Fucking? You betcha! Human Males are built to Fuck just about anybody, or anything, at anytime, as long as they can stick "It" into something and get to "Banging"!! (As long as it's not Them on the recieving "End"! Str8's seem to draw the Line at that!) (But ... still ... some will still !)

So ... we "cum" to the supporting role of alcohol! They're really willing to DO it, while sober, but they need an Excuse to DO it, and still not be labelled as "Gay"! They need to be able to claim they didn't know what they were doing, eventhough they'd been thinking of how to get it to happen for months!!

venimax, your Bud just gave you permission to suck him off! He WANTS You to Blow Him!! However ... He also needs an "Out"! Not an "Out" of his Closet! THAT would scare the crap out of Him! But He does want a BJ! He just needs a "cover"! Know what I mean?? Hope you can "cum up" with one for Him ... and You!!

Keep smilin'!!
Chaz

WISDOM is the Knowledge you've gained ... After you could have used it!_Me

Re: Straight Male Friends. . . Ever suck one off?

Originally Posted by manchesterman

So by your logic, gay men might as well fuck pussy, because it's also something to just stick "it" into...right?

Do you really think that ALL straight guys don't care if their dicks get sucked by a man or a woman? If you do, the "deniability" is yours. Do gay guys want to get their dicks sucked by a woman? (Leaving aside issues of quality)

Hi, "manchest"!

LOGIC has Nothing to do with this! We're talking about Hormones! The "URGE" to get off! The underlying "instigation" of our DNA to disseminate itself! Our "Little Heads" are not programmed to Think! They're merely guided by the Impulse to DO!! It's the "Animal" in ALL of Us Males!

What "We" actually do about it is entirely "UP!" to our "Big Heads"! Do we abandon all Reason and just let things Flow? Do "We" Give In? Or, do "We" reign ourselves in, and override our "Libido"?

Am I a Gay Guy? You bet! Have I always Acted like a Gay Guy? Nope! I've had more than my "Fair Share" of experiences with the "Fairer Sex"! And, I must admit, truely enjoyed most of it!! And, even, Cherish all of those "adventures"! Despite it not being my "True" Nature!

Have I also ventured into the "unmentionable" with Str8 Guys? You bet! I'm even "Godfather" to some of their kids!!

All I'm saying is that Guys will be GUYS! Given the right circumstances and opportunities! It's when they venture beyond the rehlm of "Thought" that things get Interesting!

Can I speak for ALL Guys, Str8 or Gay? Of course not! I can only speak from my own Personal experiences! And ... having been on this planet for nearly 56yr., I think I can speak with some modicum of "Wisdom"!

By the way ... to JUB! And I sincerely hope your own Adventures "Here" will prove to be Rewarding and Enjoyable!

And ... of course ... no matter what ...

Keep smilin'!!
Chaz

WISDOM is the Knowledge you've gained ... After you could have used it!_Me

Re: Straight Male Friends. . . Ever suck one off?

I have this one friend who came over to my place, and although he knew I was gay, and possibly interested in him, he got used to the idea eventually. A long time wait - almost 2 years since I knew him.

So, he came over, and then I helped him to finish some tasks, and eventually the talks went into sex talks, and one thing led to another, he watched straight porn with me at my place.

Nothing, seriously nothing happened. Initially.

And when I thought he wanted to go back, he was hesitating at my door. He was blushing, and all that shy, and I still could not figure out what the cute guy wanted. Eventually, he told me - to keep it a secret - if I could give him a blowjob, since that he had broken up with his gf. He was still shy, and adorable, and I could not resist / reject.

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lol besides the squabble, any help here?

i'll go over it again:
no alcohol, porn, motels etc. its either in a backyard or somewhere open. we're both 18 and all i'm asking is how to fool around that's not obvious (ex. hey wanna wrestle? - a bit obvious).