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So I put in a call to Kaiser because I think I am being asked to take on more stress than I need to.
Tomorrow DC is going back to Le Tip with Lindey.
He is going to sit 30 feet away from a womanbwho has expressed such sentiments as
"You don’t need a baby plan. It is a high risk pregnancy and she and the baby could die. Then there will be nothing keeping us apart."
And
"Well, sometimes babies die of SIDs"
And
"Why are you breaking up with me to work on building a family? Why would you do that? It’s not worth it!"

This woman who will not go away, who writes emails about how she doesn’t care if they are friends anyewhere in this world, but keeps on emailing. She has texted him as late as 10:30 pm knowing the baby and I are sleeping next to him and his phone, she has called the office, and when he stopped answering her, she lookedup his best friend and started asking him about me.

He, of course told her to stay away from me because I said I would kick her. Let me put that in to context.

After just hearing 2 hrs before that DC took his gkrls to her house the week before, and that she was sad the baby and I survived childbirth, I was asked whay I would do if she showed up to help me pack.

My answer was something like "I would want to kick the bitch in the ass and tell her to go the hell away from me and my children".

Of course, she marched her stalkerific stress inducing ass to the police and filed a report that I am threatening her.

So, saying that if she got near me, I woukd want to kick her is worse than her saying she wants a baby and me dead?
Sonya

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‎> is getting emails from a woman claiming I am a cyber bully,should go to jail, so the DA is drawing up charges. You’ve been here

10 hours ago via TweetDeck · Friends Only ·LikeUnlike · .

Trish Bautista i think u gave me this advice once….don’t engage the bitch. Its not that easy to get the DA involved. Anyway if she’s threatening that, then who’s the bully? Good luck.
10 hours ago · LikeUnlike.Sonya Keith Thank you! I am exhausted with her drama but still want to be a person I am not ashamed to be…and I was wondering if I am just that out of touch with reality.
10 hours ago · LikeUnlike.Shannon K. Farley-Bokor Schroeder Sonya…I spent 20 yrs in the legal industry….Trish is right…the DA has better things to do….she’s prolly pissed cuz she doesn’t have enuf evidences for a TRO so she’s baiting you! Don’t take the bait! The worst thing you can do to someone like her is ignore her!
10 hours ago · LikeUnlike.Bonnie Jimenez Is she going to press charges in me too cuz I said I would cooter punch her?
9 hours ago · LikeUnlike · 1 personLoading….Sonya Keith Yes. She said I “incited” and encouraged an act of violence against her. I still don’t know what a cooter is, but it will now be our Word of the Day because it sounds hill-billy cool. Oh, and she overlooked a previous post by me that real ladies don’t hurt other people so I wont hit anyone
9 hours ago · LikeUnlike.Andrea Merrell Caster ‎1. Someone needs to put on her big girl panties and move on (and I’m not talking about you, my dear).
2. It’s amusing she thinks the DA cares about her enough to get involved. I can’t get the local police dept. to take a report about (le…t alone arrest) a man who is repeatedly violating a restraining order and making death threats. In order to get the City Attorney involved (because the DA has better things to do, and this is not a felony), there have to be police reports and an investigation. Someone would have talked to you. Has that happened? No? Yeah, she’s bs’ing.
3. Ignore her. Stop writing anything that could reasonably be construed as having anything to do with her. Delete anything that relates to her. Oh, and print out and save all her emails too.
4. Tell someone else to put on HIS big boy panties and man up.See More
9 hours ago · LikeUnlike.Trish Bautista don’t give her another thought. She’s not worth it. I agree w/Shannon too! Ignoring her is taking her ‘power’ away. Is this going on on twitter?
9 hours ago · LikeUnlike.Shannon K. Farley-Bokor Schroeder ‎@Andrea…..AMEN SISTA! also…you’re absolutely correct…something like this doesn’t start with the DA….even if they were inclined to prosecute a newly delivered social worker (little known terrorist faction) it would start with a TRO…while we’re at it…threatening a person with criminal action is highly illegal….hmmm…
9 hours ago · LikeUnlike · 1 personLoading….Sonya Keith I stand corrected, I do hurt people. In 2001 I punched out a man on my first day on Sid Row. He had a psychotic decompinsating rant when he tried to stab me, and Dec 17 a very pregnant me kicked a hopeful mugger in the head.
8 hours ago · LikeUnlike.Jennifer Gray Hostetler I love you … Please stop giving your energy to people who don’t deserve it. You are a wonderful woman. Don’t waste your energy on this person, obviously the are not worth it.
8 hours ago · LikeUnlike.Andrea Sharff why don’t you make your profile private and/or block her so you’re free to discuss what you like without such nonsense. and I wholeheartedly agree about not engaging her. once she realizes her compulsion for drama isn’t being met she’ll take it somewhere else.
2 hours ago · LikeUnlike.Sonya Keith My profile and blog are now private and I removed her friends off my list. Apparently she was perving me from someone elses acct and was fully aware that I didn’t know abt her but was wondering why Alphabet Boy went MIA. She got a thrill ou…t of it and 8 weeks later the shock is just now beginning to wear off. Once i discovered her and asked hr intentions ( i said she could have him free and clear) she has mailed me,emailed me, texted him late at night and called the house phone so even when I was home alone I had to hear her on the machine asking if they were in this together or if he was out. In 8 weeks she has continuiously made herself present in my life. I offered to sit down with her and talk, like grownups (I do a good impersonation), but that was met with a new list of her demands. Best thing abt being at work is getting a full paycheck to pay for my own place. But she lives closer to Jax’s school than I did so I will STILL have to be in her neighborhood. See More
2 hours ago · LikeUnlike.Andrea Sharff well she sounds like a real winner. I’m sorry you have to deal with this instead of being able to focus on enjoying your newborn. just ignore, ignore, ignore her machinations and let Alphabet Boy deal with the mess he created.
2 hours ago · LikeUnlike.Sonya Keith I had private password protected blog entries that I opened to her so she could see this from my perspective, then once she read them I relocked them.
During that day, Google indexed them so she had a SEO Social Media snafu. Once it was poi…nted out to me, I hid the entire blog from all search engines and spoke w Google and resolved it and explained to her my intention were transparency with her, and not the entire world.
While nothing I had written was a lie- I had not intended to hurt anyone by using my blog to vent (as I have for years, about EVERYTHING). That is why I had them private in the first place (or she would have seen them as I wrote them since she researched me thoroughly ) . I thought letting her read my thoughts in my native habitat would help her understand me.
Also, since the TRUTH I was fed changed daily, it has helped to have a record of what I was told and when. During this time I moved and lost my journal, so I used the next best thing
Yah, so I was wrong.See More
2 hours ago · LikeUnlike.Andrea Sharff I understand your intentions were pure… but the cynic in me would say that trusting people and expecting them to be as honest and mature as you are is usually a mistake
about an hour ago · LikeUnlike · 1 personLoading….Sonya Keith <not mature but generally honest and trusting.
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Who and What? And Why are you want to read this . . .

My name is Sonya and I have always been short, fat and cranky - only these days I am less fat (I hope) August 2008 I had Bariatric Surgery through Kaiser at Scripps in San Diego.

This is the log of my changes, my food, my questions, and my friends who also had the surgery. Tweet me, write me, stalk me here or email me if you have questions, concerns or snide remarks. - Do remember that you had fair warning about me being cranky, and oh yes – I write like I speak: A LOT!