Havent got a clue

I moved in with my girlfriend into her house, everything was great until she became pregnant, now she wants nothing to do with me, no doctors visits together or anything, she wants to do it all herself, says she doesnt want to be with anyone and wants 8 months ago back which is when we started, she used to tell me she loves me and i know its just hormones but its tough on me, i love her dearly and do everything for her, now i have to find a place to live, she doesnt even want my name on the birth certificate.

I moved in with my girlfriend into her house, everything was great until she became pregnant, now she wants nothing to do with me, no doctors visits together or anything, she wants to do it all herself, says she doesnt want to be with anyone and wants 8 months ago back which is when we started, she used to tell me she loves me and i know its just hormones but its tough on me, i love her dearly and do everything for her, now i have to find a place to live, she doesnt even want my name on the birth certificate.

That's crazy, I hear of men not wanting anything to do with their children, but I've never heard of that. You have to tell her that you have your rights as a father. So your name has to be on the birth certificate. I would suggest that you speak to a lawyer and take her to court so you can see your child. Good luck!

That's crazy, I hear of men not wanting anything to do with their children, but I've never heard of that. You have to tell her that you have your rights as a father. So your name has to be on the birth certificate. I would suggest that you speak to a lawyer and take her to court so you can see your child. Good luck!

Just got worse, now she wants nothing at all to do with me period, doesnt want support or anything, just wants me to stay away totally, i know the hormones are bad but wow this is a massive blow to me.

Just got worse, now she wants nothing at all to do with me period, doesnt want support or anything, just wants me to stay away totally, i know the hormones are bad but wow this is a massive blow to me.

Honestly, I would not blame hormones. Maybe it is hormones, but I've seen to many of these posts (from both moms and dads) where things went to heck in a hand basket after an unplanned pregnancy in a relatively new relationship. People think about things different when they get pregnant. And someone for dating may not be whomtheynwant to spend their life with. Personally, I would suggest giving her the space she wants, letting her know that you want to be involved with her if she changes her mind, that you do want to be involved with your child and then suing for visitation after the child is born. Good luck with everything.

Honestly, I would not blame hormones. Maybe it is hormones, but I've seen to many of these posts (from both moms and dads) where things went to heck in a hand basket after an unplanned pregnancy in a relatively new relationship. People think about things different when they get pregnant. And someone for dating may not be whomtheynwant to spend their life with. Personally, I would suggest giving her the space she wants, letting her know that you want to be involved with her if she changes her mind, that you do want to be involved with your child and then suing for visitation after the child is born. Good luck with everything.

So...I have no business being here except that I thought a woman's perspective might be helpful. Unfortunately, it sounds like she just may be done. I'm pregnant, and I can tell you that the hormones don't explain her behavior. The worst it's been for my husband is having to deal with me crying over commercials or songs that never made me cry before (and one time crying because he had to leave for work -- ridiculous, I know). I hate to ask, but does she have a history of anything like borderline personality disorder? And am I wrong in assuming that she's young? For now the best thing for you to do is give her the space she asked for and when baby comes, take her to court to get your parental rights. You can't force her to have your name on the birth certificate, but you can make sure you get rights as the father. Sorry you're going through this; this is supposed to be a happy and loving experience and I'm sorry she's taking that away from you.

So...I have no business being here except that I thought a woman's perspective might be helpful. Unfortunately, it sounds like she just may be done. I'm pregnant, and I can tell you that the hormones don't explain her behavior. The worst it's been for my husband is having to deal with me crying over commercials or songs that never made me cry before (and one time crying because he had to leave for work -- ridiculous, I know). I hate to ask, but does she have a history of anything like borderline personality disorder? And am I wrong in assuming that she's young? For now the best thing for you to do is give her the space she asked for and when baby comes, take her to court to get your parental rights. You can't force her to have your name on the birth certificate, but you can make sure you get rights as the father. Sorry you're going through this; this is supposed to be a happy and loving experience and I'm sorry she's taking that away from you.

Post partum depression?my gf was so into me when she was pregnant now i have your problem too. =/ I can tell you to hang on but I know it's hard. I can tell you it gets better but I myself don't know. Go to the appointments with her even if she doesn't want you to. Talk to her, actually talk to her about how what she is doing affects you and that you're different from other dads that don't want anything to do with their child.

Post partum depression?my gf was so into me when she was pregnant now i have your problem too. =/ I can tell you to hang on but I know it's hard. I can tell you it gets better but I myself don't know. Go to the appointments with her even if she doesn't want you to. Talk to her, actually talk to her about how what she is doing affects you and that you're different from other dads that don't want anything to do with their child.

Tried talking to her and remind her what we meant to each other, falling ondeaf ears right now, gonna try and give her some time and space, if that doesnt work, you better believe i am so taking her to court.

Tried talking to her and remind her what we meant to each other, falling ondeaf ears right now, gonna try and give her some time and space, if that doesnt work, you better believe i am so taking her to court.

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