from "girl, interrupted":Susanna:
I'm ambivalent. In fact that's my new favorite word.
Dr. Wick:
Do you know what that means, ambivalence?
Susanna:
I don't care.
Dr. Wick:
If it's your favorite word, I would've thought you would...
Susanna:
It means I don't care. That's what it means.
Dr. Wick:
On the contrary, Susanna. Ambivalence suggests strong feelings... in
opposition. The prefix, as in "ambidextrous," means "both." The rest of
it, in Latin, means "vigor." The word suggests that you are torn...
between two opposing courses of action. Susanna:
Will I stay or will I go?
Dr. Wick:
Am I sane... or, am I crazy?
Susanna:
Those aren't courses of action.
Dr. Wick:
They can be, dear - for some.
Susanna:
Well, then - it's the wrong word.
Dr. Wick:
No. I think it's perfect.

from dictionary.com:
am·biv·a·lencen.1. The coexistence of opposing attitudes or feelings, such as love and hate, toward a person, object, or idea.
2. Uncertainty or indecisiveness as to which course to follow3. The coexistence of opposing attitudes or feelings toward a person, an object, or an idea.4. Simultaneous and contradictory attitudes or
feelings (as attraction and repulsion) toward an object, person, or action5. Mixed feelings or emotions

ambivalence. like susanna, i always thought the word described a lack
of feeling; instead, it's the polar opposite. this is the word that
sums up my emotionally irrational entry from july, and to some extent my entry about the human condition a few weeks ago. there is
something strangely comforting in that; in knowing that there are four
simple syllables that can describe one's momentary craziness. because,
of course, this implies that the craziness is not craziness after all. it tells
me that others feel this way at times. it tells me that it might even be normal. it tells me that i am not alone.

quite frankly, i could do without dealing with ambivalence
for the rest of my days and be a pretty happy camper, thankyouverymuch. unfortunately it
seems to think that i enjoy its company, and it shows up uninvited and in various forms at
the strangest times. why must you taunt me so?