If we're to trust Ryan Gosling, the secret to successfully picking up a woman is being a weirdo without hinting that you're going to kill her. It may not seem like the most sound advice for seducing the hottest girl in the bar, but who are we to question Gosling?

In this exclusive behind-the-scenes featurette from the "Crazy, Stupid, Love" Blu-ray, out in stores today (November 1), Gosling shares the secrets he learned while playing the tutoring Lothario, Jacob, who teaches the newly single Cal, played by Steve Carell, how to reclaim his manhood.