Are you willing to tiptoe around in the shadows?Are you willing to hide your (possible) love for someone from everyone else?Are you willing to hide your true self from everyone else for the sake of someone else? Can you handle the stress?

Is it all worth it? I mean, you can't gloat about it.

Funny thing is though... all of these "famous" people aren't really "famous" when the day is over with. They're just ordinary people doing their jobs (aka what they're paid to do) so I don't see why it matters :/

mr_ngt saidWhat thoughts would be running through your head? What would you do? Could the relationship last?

If he was hot, I'd be all, "Yes!" Stay in the closet buddy it's better for your career (and I don't want the competition). Trevor Donovan would be perfect.

Exactlyyyy! Gay guys are soooo promiscuous so having someone famous, that loves you and who is so unlikely to cheat on you, dahh, it's a no brainer. Plus I never felt any need to scream out loud on the streets that I'm gay and in the entertainment business it's all about appearance. This has more chances to last than the guy who is out and goes clubbing twice a week to see his "friends" at a gay club

nomadfornow saidI couldn't do it. I gave my heart to a closeted guy once, and the heartbreak was crippling. It wasn't worth it. Putting that hellish experience under the microscope of celebrity? No way.

mr_ngt saidYeah both right, but if the opportunity came up would I be a fool to pass it up? Would u pass it up?

That is a ridiculously shallow question.You want us to evaluate your relationship based solely on the fact that the other guy is a celebrity?If that's all you care about then, I would recommend not pursuing it.IF you actually think highly of him, respect him, care for him, or some variation thereof then pursue it."Secret" relationships can be a bummer, but some people have legit reasons for him. I wouldn't let that get in the way of pursuing something that could be fulfilling to you both. Nothing is perfect, if you can't respect the complications of someone's life then you don't really deserve them.