by: Melody O.When you picture a victim, you usually picture someone weak, somewhat fragile. Or maybe you picture a strong survivor, someone who has overcame obstacles and is ready for anything. When it comes to domestic violence, most people picture a female being abused. Not only does society picture a helpless girl, it is usually assumed that they did something to deserve the beating. But what could someone have possibly done wrong to get hit by someone who claims to love them?