my parents didn’t have a euro cent (well, back then a peseta) when they married so they went over to the civil court and then invited everyone to a local bar where they ate normal food and had a nice little party. I just don’t get why people go into debt for their weddings?? Like, it’s a day?? Wouldn’t you rather save that money for your life or honeymoon?? My cousin paid through her teeth for her wedding and I remember her asking people for help to pay for the wedding reception ON THE SPOT, like literally DURING the reception, dressed in her wedding gown, because she literally didn’t have enough money and if that isn’t embarrassing… Well.