Marriage - how to be happy?

There should not be any confusion between love and the marriage...love is free of anything...but the marriage is a bond...a bond between a man and a woman...to live together...to give company in happiness and unhappiness in the entire life...to live and let live...to perform the duty towards the society...towards the parents...towards the world....... If you love anyone before marriage...no problem...but your love should not be based on desire...you should not want anything...since love only knows to give...you must tell this fact to your parents and the others at the time of your marriage at initial stage itself...you should not conceal this fact...your parents may try to marry you as per your wish....since if you tell this fact at the last moment of marriage...then there will be chaos and insult of both the parties including your parents and relatives........ But it is not necessary that you must marry the person you love...you can love hundreds of persons... your love should not be attached to body...but you can marry only with one person...as per the social norms and not more than one.......