“I told my friends I’m bi!” Melanie is smiling from ear to ear, and she is utterly adorable.

“That’s wonderful, sweetie,” I say, “What did they say?”

Melanie is a baby bigirl. Only a year before, this 23 year-old redhead discovered the joy of being with a girl. “You will not believe what Bethanie said.” Bethanie is Melanie’s best friend from college.

“What? Did she freak out?”

“Not at all! It ends up she’s bi, too!” Melanie is stirring her water and lime and I cannot take my eyes of her lace-framed cleavage.

I have a problem being a bi female. Whenever I am in a relationship with a man and he finds out I am bi he always starts pressuring me to bring another woman into the relationship. I think it is fine sometimes but when a man asks me for another woman on more than several occasions, it makes me feel bad, like he isn’t satisfied with just me. Am I wrong to feel this way? I enjoy being bisexual but should I be feeling like I am being used all the time? Should I stop being bi if that’s even possible?

–Tired of Being Pressured Into Threesomes

Dearest Tired,

Of course you are feeling used! Your man is not making you his first priority.

I have a question on how to deal with explaining my lifestyle to friends. I am only out to a few of my friends as bisexual. And it’s not something I want to tell everyone I come across, because I feel although it is an important part of who I am, it is not the only defining part of who I am.

I am happily married and bi and my husband and I have a girlfriend that comes to visit us a couple times a year. Not only is she our lover but she is one of my closest and dearest friends. So it is more than just physical.

I guess my question is what is the best way to explain this to another friend?

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But before you run off to purchase over-the-counter yeast infection medicine, there may be a natural alternative that will return you to your freshest state: garlic. [...]

Everyone thinks I’m a straight girl. No one knows that I think about being with girls at all, and that makes my situation even more confusing. I have this best friend who jokes with me all the time about us being lovers and having threesomes with this guy I’ve been trying to get with. She does it publicly and every time we hang out. She always tells me she loves me and that sort of thing. She, like me, says she’s straight but I’m not 100% sure she is… What should I do? [...]

The month was late September, 2008. My girlfriend, Meryl, was to return to the mainland on December 13th. She would tell me all about her plans and bat her eyelashes in excitement for the unknown. She is so pretty when she’s excited. I would listen and smile and pretend that my heart wasn’t cracking just a little. [...]

LGBT Pride is here again and many bisexual organizations are planning events for bi-girls. Don’t sit around this year complaining that it’s impossible to meet other bi-girls. Attend an event, show your pride, and meet new fabulous friends. New York, Los Angeles and San Diego are all hosting bi pride events and I hope you [...]

Most cell phones come with conference calling, but many of us will never find a reason to use it. Talking on the phone with more than one person is a rare occurrence, generally saved for business meetings or catching up with relatives. However, if you are a bi-girl lucky enough to have multiple lovers, conference [...]

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