GUYS what would you say if a girl you don't know asked you out?

There's this guy on my bus that's really funny and cute. We haven't talked much except I asked him to hang out once, and then told him I would invite him to a party but he was going out of town. He flirts with this other girl on my bus. Is it weird to ask him to hang out at Starbucks or something and get to know each other?

What Guys Said 10

I can't vouch for all guys, but if I had a general "feel" as how you are as a person, and some time invested, I don't see an exact reason to turn a girl down. I'd be more surprised than happy, but by a bit. Then again, i'm still in that youthful desperation stage.

I think I could go for a glass of water. I'm feeling a bit... thirsty.

Try to flirt with him to see if he is Interested. If he is, a good opportunity should present itself; you don't want to rush it and come off as desperate. If he's especially dense (like many men are) and has a hard time taking a hint, you'll have to make sure that you flirt in a provocative way as compared to friendly flirting. If you are too friendly he might think you friendzoned him. Coffee is a simple effective way to go, just "hanging out" is more friendly than romantic.