no sex drive

Hi my baby daddy has absolutely 0 sex drive as soon as we found out I was pregnant. Is this normal? I've tried talking to him and he just says he is stressed(which he is in the process of a new job) and its still weird for him. My sex drive is not through the roof either being pregnant, but I know men need that and he just blows it off when I bring it up. And I cry about it to him. I'm not sure what to do

Hi my baby daddy has absolutely 0 sex drive as soon as we found out I was pregnant. Is this normal? I've tried talking to him and he just says he is stressed(which he is in the process of a new job) and its still weird for him. My sex drive is not through the roof either being pregnant, but I know men need that and he just blows it off when I bring it up. And I cry about it to him. I'm not sure what to do

Cari, good luck on a good response.. I posted the same thing earlier, the only nice and decent response I got was being told that all men react differently to pregnancy news so give him some time and see if it gets any easier.y sexy drive increased like crazy in my first trimester and I wanted it several times a day, and I've gotten it a whopping 3 times since we conceived 3.5 months ago... He says he wants it, but that's he's tired, and every time we try, not even 5 minutes into it, he either has a cramp, his wrist starts hurting or his back hurts... Then when I get upset that we didn't finish it out, he gets upset because he feels that he's disappointed me. Now he tells me he feels a lot of pressure when we try and it screws up his mood... It's always something anymore... I invested in a toy and gave up on him for now until he comes around for it on his own. I'm tired of feeling disgusting.. I'm 23 and wear a size 00 jean and I don't think I'm pretty personally, but I've never been told I'm ugly, so I don't know what it is.. I'm sorry I can't help you much more.

Cari, good luck on a good response.. I posted the same thing earlier, the only nice and decent response I got was being told that all men react differently to pregnancy news so give him some time and see if it gets any easier.y sexy drive increased like crazy in my first trimester and I wanted it several times a day, and I've gotten it a whopping 3 times since we conceived 3.5 months ago... He says he wants it, but that's he's tired, and every time we try, not even 5 minutes into it, he either has a cramp, his wrist starts hurting or his back hurts... Then when I get upset that we didn't finish it out, he gets upset because he feels that he's disappointed me. Now he tells me he feels a lot of pressure when we try and it screws up his mood... It's always something anymore... I invested in a toy and gave up on him for now until he comes around for it on his own. I'm tired of feeling disgusting.. I'm 23 and wear a size 00 jean and I don't think I'm pretty personally, but I've never been told I'm ugly, so I don't know what it is.. I'm sorry I can't help you much more.

Thanks It seems like everyone is having a lot of good pregnancy sex, but me!! I just hope he gets it back eventually. It's hard to feel like your partner is not attracted to you, even though I still feel attractive and I'm 28 weeks.

Thanks It seems like everyone is having a lot of good pregnancy sex, but me!! I just hope he gets it back eventually. It's hard to feel like your partner is not attracted to you, even though I still feel attractive and I'm 28 weeks.

Good luck to you hun. I barely just started showing over the last few days and I've been sex crazy for the last 2 months, and before I used to have to swat at him to keep him from touching and groping me, now I'm trying everything to seduce him and I might as well beg for him to touch me.. I hope it's just a phase and it ends soon. My luck, the day I stop craving for it, he'll start wanting it again haha

Good luck to you hun. I barely just started showing over the last few days and I've been sex crazy for the last 2 months, and before I used to have to swat at him to keep him from touching and groping me, now I'm trying everything to seduce him and I might as well beg for him to touch me.. I hope it's just a phase and it ends soon. My luck, the day I stop craving for it, he'll start wanting it again haha

My husband is the same way!! It's so frustrating and annoying. I also cry and feel ugly and not wanted. He says he doesn't want to hurt me. (Last time we did it I sort of got cramps) I guess he's being considerate but I don't know. It still makes me sad. Lol wish I was getting some more action but whatever. It happens. Hopefully he comes Around soon. Lol good luck to you.

My husband is the same way!! It's so frustrating and annoying. I also cry and feel ugly and not wanted. He says he doesn't want to hurt me. (Last time we did it I sort of got cramps) I guess he's being considerate but I don't know. It still makes me sad. Lol wish I was getting some more action but whatever. It happens. Hopefully he comes Around soon. Lol good luck to you.

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