Do you always have to be right? Right is a good way to create two sides. In that scenario only one person can win. Society often teaches us that if you are right you will succeed. Look at how school works. The right answer gets the highest grade. So if someone is wrong or has to apologize they are weak. That leaves very little room to correct any mistakes. Many call that denial.

Do you always think life is unfair? Guess what – it probably is but just because the odds seem like they are against you, doesn’t mean you can’t turn it around. If you think were dealt a bad hand in life and are constantly feeling sorry for yourself then take a look at those that really were – the impoverished, orphans, people with debilitating health issues.

If you are reading this, you are probably one of the lucky ones in the world. Stop complaining and start doing because it’s up to you to have a positive outlook.

Do you think change is impossible? If you think everything is out of your control, think again. You have choices. Change is not about drastic measures, it’s about small steps towards something new. Nothing ventured, nothing gained.

finding some simple solutions

Decide to change -> Take an inventory -> Start by Stopping -> Eliminate Aversions -> Meditate on it Daily

What changes are involved? Well this really is all about you. It’s hard to change the world effectively. It’s much easier to demonstrate by making the changes come from within. Here are some ways to reduce the blame and start to reclaim the life you want – one filled with solutions and happiness.