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Str8 Curios Gay Guy--Finally Tried Pussy

And loved it!

Met a guy online, he found a girl we could play with. He and I met and I followed him to her place.

Mixed results, however.

First, I really wasn't attracted to either of them-- him or her. Second, I was really nervous and his bullshit cocky attitude made me even more nervous. She was like, "Don't mind him, he's just bossy." He made me so nervous I was literally shaking, couldn't really relax and enjoy myself.

But...to the main course. She was laying on her back and he was standing by the bed. She was sucking his dick and squeezing mine. I was only semi-hard but he kept telling, "Suck his. Suck his fucking dick." So even tho' I was only semi-hard I pulled my cock out let her suck it.

She was an awesome cocksucker. If he had shut the fuck up I might have been able to enjoy it.

I walked over to other side of the bed and she opened her legs for me. Problem number one: She was a BIG girl. All I saw at first was fat. I reached my hand down and started feeling around. Once I found her hole I knew I was in the right place (go ahead, laugh if you want). I kept rubbing her pussy until I finally the clit.I started rubbing clit between my fingers and she started getting wet. So then I dove in. I licked her pussy and LOVED it though with all the fat I wasn't able to get at it with my tongue. Once she was wetter I slid my fingers in her pussy. First one, then 2, then 3. She was really wet then. He asked if she was liking it and she said "Yes, but if he doesn't stop I'm gonna squirt." He wanted me to stick my fist in her pussy but she said no so I dove back down and resumed licking her pussy. Still couldn't get to the clit that way, so I went back to fingering her.

That was awesome.

He fucked her while I watched still being an ass about it. I went over behind him to watch but he said, "Get over there and make her suck your dick!"

He pulled out and and cummed, shooting a HUGE load (I've never seen so much cum shoot out of one dude) all over her.

So it was a mixed experience. I think it would have been better if it had been more relaxed or maybe if there had been some play with the guy. But getting to lick and finger her pussy was really hot.

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He knew. Not sure if she knew. And when he and I talked he kept saying he wanted to suck my dick. And he knew I just wanted to watch as far as fucking, but then he was a total asshole when we got together.

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doesn't seem like you were all on the same page. It also sounds like y'all jumped right into it. I have a 3some with the same couple every blue moon. We never plan it but we work our way up to the sex. We play around a lot, stripping, grabbing on each, talking about sex. I never did anything with the guy but we have a very homoerotic friendship. Maybe if you got to know the guy a little better you probably wouldn't be so nervous. Are you going to do it again? would you do it with the same people lol?

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Sounds really...interesting. But good to know you enjoyed playing with the girl

My first experience wasn't too great either. I jacked off earlier and wasn't able to get it up. The boyfriend started acting weird and passed out. I ended up hanging out with the girl. Then they both disappeared o.o

Fast forward to the present and I met this guy. We've fooled around for a bit. He knows a girl we can mess around with. We'll see how it goes.

Originally Posted by Saybrooke

I was at the gym once, and this woman was on the elliptical next to me, making motorcycle noises.

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Originally Posted by AlmondMilk

Sounds really...interesting. But good to know you enjoyed playing with the girl

My first experience wasn't too great either. I jacked off earlier and wasn't able to get it up. The boyfriend started acting weird and passed out. I ended up hanging out with the girl. Then they both disappeared o.o

Fast forward to the present and I met this guy. We've fooled around for a bit. He knows a girl we can mess around with. We'll see how it goes.

I really loved playing with her, in spite of the fact that he was such an ass. Which was interesting for me how much being with a girl turned me on since it was my first time with a girl. I loved her tits and fingering her wet pussy. I really want to try more.

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Ha ha, I was jokingly going to call you a "closet-straight," but obviously eggsel beat me to the proverbial punch. It always bugged me wherever I went and most insisted that a guy was in the closet, if he had sex with a guy at any time ... experimentation be damned! I, always being objective felt compelled to point out then that most of us "gays" had to be closet-straights, as the majority of us have had sex with women some time in our respective lives.

I will readily admit to experiencing that occasional involuntary reactiondown there when just talking with a hot girl, but I just choose to not go there; invariably, I know I will probably have to fantasize about her hot brother or male cousin to maintain our one-on-one relations. Kudos to you on your experimentation and self-discovery!

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You are straight, period. no gay man has desire or "semi" erection with a girl. it's all the liars who had sex with girls in ther teens or 20's. they are straight. you just don't ant to admit it cuz you find easy to live as a "gay" man. so sad, go to another site to share all your straightness

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awww ... you broke his heart.

Originally Posted by eggsel

You are straight, period. no gay man has desire or "semi" erection with a girl. it's all the liars who had sex with girls in ther teens or 20's. they are straight. you just don't ant to admit it cuz you find easy to live as a "gay" man. so sad, go to another site to share all your straightness

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@hot4latinos. I think eggsel believes you're str8 or bi because he probably read the first part of your thread where you said 'YOU LOVED IT' and that you'll do it again. many gay men don't say that. but all gay men are not the same. i know three openly gay men who eat pussy on a regular basis, and are not closeted. Me! I just like to watch str8 men do it. I ate pussy once, but you really can't count that. I was eight years old when i experienced pussy eating. The first, last, and only time. It tasted like vinagar. I also know a lesbian who likes to suck dick. MIND BOGGLING.

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@gaydude65: for me, being gay is more than just the physical. I love being held and rocked by men's strong arms. I enjoy long showers together, i love to kiss all the time. Which annoys some gay men. I can be with men even if i never have sex. That's what gay is to me. The gay men who i know eat pussy say they pretend that the pussy is attached to a man. The hair make-up, breast, female voice does nothing for them. They don't fuck the women, they only eat pussy. I know this is absurd to most gay men. I thought they had some gay shame left over from when they came out.

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You like pussy, that's fine i have nothing against straights, but you should stop calling yourself gay. You are not, you loved pussy and you are almost obssesed posting photos n stuff. Just come clena say your are straight. There is no shame in being who you truly are (Y)

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What is the motivation behind these "openly gay" men who reportedly eat pussy on a regular basis? If it's not because of attraction, then why are they doing it?

because it's HOT

You like pussy, that's fine i have nothing against straights, but you should stop calling yourself gay. You are not, you loved pussy and you are almost obssesed posting photos n stuff. Just come clena say your are straight. There is no shame in being who you truly are (Y)

So somehow, licking pussy one time erases a 15 year relationship WITH A MAN, and years of gay activism?

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Originally Posted by Hot4Latinos

because it's HOT

So somehow, licking pussy one time erases a 15 year relationship WITH A MAN, and years of gay activism?

in the relationship you weren't honest about being in love with pussy and being straight and desiring women. the activism well good news for you: str8 people also do GAY (and all types) of activism, you still can be a str8-ally =)

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Originally Posted by eggsel

in the relationship you weren't honest about being in love with pussy and being straight and desiring women. the activism well good news for you: str8 people also do GAY (and all types) of activism, you still can be a str8-ally =)

Actually, I was very honest with my ex about my curiosity. He didn't understand it but was supportive, even joining me when I attended a Bi Discussion Group.

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@hot4latinos: i see that you have changed your orientation status. I thought you were'nt attracted to women. I thought you just liked pussy.
@EGGSEL: you make a good point. i never think of straights as gay activist. i guess if some gays can be anti-gay, some straights can be pro- gay.

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What is the motivation behind these "openly gay" men who reportedly eat pussy on a regular basis? If it's not because of attraction, then why are they doing it?

And quite honestly, as we all know, men are dogs. I think more gay men would go for pussy if it was NSA. Sex, NSA, with men is easy and that's why most gay men are gay. The sex is easy. Honestly, pussy is damn near impossible to get and that's why most gay men don't bother when they can get it anytime they want from a guy.

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Check the board gaydude. There are COUNTLESS posts on this board by "straight" men looking to suck dick, get rimmed, get fucked. Almost as many as the self-hating gay dudes looking to seduce a straight guy.

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gaydude65: After being an interested lurker for so long I decided based on this thread to join and comment. I also wanted to say that I really appreciate and completely agree with everything you've written. It's unfortunate we don't live in a society where sexual orientation and labels don't matter, but we do live in one where they do matter. I have come to the realization though that there are a number of men who false self-identify as gay who are actually bisexual. I don't know how large that number is but I've encountered enough of these type of men and researched the phenomenon enough to know it's real. I've often wondered why they false self-identify and have found some reasons--the most common one being the time spent cultivating a gay identity. I imagine it is equally as tough to come out as bisexual after having lived life for so long as gay as it is for us gay men to come out altogether. When this does happen one risks losing gay friends and community. Oddly though I can personally understand why the gay friends would feel alienated--something I'm still trying to reconcile.

I must echo your astonishment though-- I have yet to see a definition anywhere by any objective social science source or gay or lesbian organization that includes the statement or idea that being gay is about/because it is easier to get laid without strings attached.

My husband and I will celebrate 27 years this fall. Before he came out he had sex with several women and to this day he often states that he wouldn't touch one, even with a 10 foot pole, ever again. My point being is he was able to find sex with women without strings attached when he played it straight and to him it wasn't the ease or number that defined his false straightness.

Hot4Latinos: It appears you've come full circle. In one of your early posts back to last summer you stated your involvement with the community began with a bisexual organization and then you reveal in this thread that you attended a bisexual discussion group with your ex. I want to congratulate you for the courage to finally acknowledge, what became quickly obvious to the outside observer, that you are indeed bisexual. Unfortunately bisexuals get treated poorly by many gay men because many gay men are forced to use bisexuality as a precursor to coming out openly gay. It's not an excuse for the poor treatment and hopefully one day it will change.

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@gaydude65: please don't be hostle, those are not my reasons. It's some other gay men reason why they muff dive. I don't fuck women i'm not attracted to them. I did fuck a woman once when i was 19, and ate one pussy when i was eight yrs old, but there was nothing romantic or sexual about it. Some things has no explanation when i was 16 i used to kiss the pillows pretending it was a boy in my class. I learned long ago not to base other gay men's outlook on my own. I used to be confused when i found out a lot gay men were married with kids. Some said they were attracted to their wives, others were not! But they still say they're gay. I believe some bi men call themselves gay. Those gay men are doing things i couldn't do. Now i know they do it out of fear so they won't be beat up or killed. I never went through that. I never had fake girl friends, never dated, or kissed girls a girl kissed me but i did'nt kiss her back. She did a sneak attack. She liked gay men. I couldn't believe gay men did straight porn.

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I don't think hot4latinos is bi, i've read some of his earlier post. He said he's not interested in women, he does not want to have a relationship with a woman. He just wants her body part. The same thing that straight men tell me!

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Originally Posted by ass eater

I don't think hot4latinos is bi, i've read some of his earlier post. He said he's not interested in women, he does not want to have a relationship with a woman. He just wants her body part. The same thing that straight men tell me!

EXACTLY.

Let me say this: I had my bi experience and I enjoyed it and yes, I'd do it again. But it wasjnust sex.

In all honesty...

But you know what? I was in a relationship with a man for 15 years. I don't really believe in the idea of soul mates but if I have one, he's it.

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@hot4latinos: yea some of us are deeply shallow. It:s starting to be age 25 for your last gay years. Sadly when you reach 35 and over, you are no longer relevant in gay circles. I talk to alot of gay seniors, you would not believe the horror they tell me. Two of them are partnered with women, not because they love them it's because no gay person wanted them after they turned 55. Re: sex is just sex to most guys. I only fell in love with two guys the rest were just booty calls! Some gay men won't identify with you because you are able to be with women by choice, and not by threats of violence, or therapy.

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Yea dude65, what you said is true but those are my experiences. Yes the clubs, and bars are "confidence" killers. If you don't have a six pack they scream NEXT! I used to think the clubs were the gay community. still do at times. yes. i'd rather live alone than be with some one i don't love too. like i said in a previous post, some gay men seem to do things that you, or i could never do. look at gay men who marry because they want a family. its not about the woman. its about him. we could never do that. but he can. for what ever reason.

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wow people really are scared od the "bi" word, wonder why... like my mother once told me: "gay or straight, just don't stay in the middle son"
She was so right.
bi isn't a guy who has sex with men and woman? ... then all sexual theory is stupid and huma SEXuality is a lie... god

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ass eater: the problem is that these "gay men" you speak of have a very warped and distorted understanding of their sexual orientation. No one can force them to do what they've chosen. I wouldn't be surprised at all if these guys you speak of have other issues that they simply don't want to address. Very sad indeed.

Hot4Latinos: My sincere sympathies for the loss of your ex love. I was very touched reading what you wrote. When I broke up with my first love back in the early 80s it was very traumatic for me. I pretty much knew he was probably bisexual but he was also devoted to me and I did things that really treated him poorly and I regret that to this day. It doesn't mean he was never an asshole to me--he did things that strained our relationship too. The axiom "it takes two" is a very true one.

I have to admit, if I were younger (I'm 48) and single, knowing your love for Latinos (I happen to be one) I'd probably find a way to meet you and well...

I sincerely hope you find love again. You're so passionate and I believe that there must be someone out there who would want to share their life with someone like you.

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I've always KNOWN I was Gay since I realized it was more Fun, for me, to 'Play' with my 'boy' friends, than it was with my 'girl' friends. I think I was maybe 5, or 6, when I began getting Naked with anyone who also wanted to show me 'theirs'.

My teens, and twenties, coincided with the 60's and 70's. "Free Love", "Flower Power", and all of that Fun stuff. And, though it was a time of "Freedom", it was also more socially restrictive, than things are now, when it came to Gay 'stuff'.

SO ... up until I was 30, or so, there were a LOT of women in my life (with a few guys, here and there). And, though I came close to actually marrying about 6 of "my girls", I always (thankfully) KNEW better than to go through with it, for Them AND Me.

Yes, I have had more than my 'fair' share of FUN! And, my major point is, FUCK the Damned Labels! Why try to cram yourself, or anyone else, into a neatly defined Box? LIFE is NOT "Black and White"! It's really all about massive shades of Grey!

Yes! I'm a 'core' Gay Guy, butt I've also been a SEXUAL Being in the Full Range of that term.

Do NOT limit all of the possibilities that is You! We're not 'Here' for a very long time! Why pass up ALL of the experiences that are available to us? Follow your Heart at any given time, and (literally) 'Screw' all the preconceptions/expectations/'limits', and LIVE Your LIFE to it Fullest!

And, Yeah! ... no matter what ...

Keep smilin'!!
Chaz

WISDOM is the Knowledge you've gained ... After you could have used it!_Me

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Originally Posted by Kyanimal

I've always KNOWN I was Gay since I realized it was more Fun, for me, to 'Play' with my 'boy' friends, than it was with my 'girl' friends. I think I was maybe 5, or 6, when I began getting Naked with anyone who also wanted to show me 'theirs'.

My teens, and twenties, coincided with the 60's and 70's. "Free Love", "Flower Power", and all of that Fun stuff. And, though it was a time of "Freedom", it was also more socially restrictive, than things are now, when it came to Gay 'stuff'.

SO ... up until I was 30, or so, there were a LOT of women in my life (with a few guys, here and there). And, though I came close to actually marrying about 6 of "my girls", I always (thankfully) KNEW better than to go through with it, for Them AND Me.

Yes, I have had more than my 'fair' share of FUN! And, my major point is, FUCK the Damned Labels! Why try to cram yourself, or anyone else, into a neatly defined Box? LIFE is NOT "Black and White"! It's really all about massive shades of Grey!

Yes! I'm a 'core' Gay Guy, butt I've also been a SEXUAL Being in the Full Range of that term.

Do NOT limit all of the possibilities that is You! We're not 'Here' for a very long time! Why pass up ALL of the experiences that are available to us? Follow your Heart at any given time, and (literally) 'Screw' all the preconceptions/expectations/'limits', and LIVE Your LIFE to it Fullest!

And, Yeah! ... no matter what ...

Keep smilin'!!
Chaz

All admirable sentiments and in a perfect world it would be that easy, although in ones own personal life of course one can apply this way of living to a certain degree depending on those we surround ourselves with.

I happen to be an advocate for labels (I'm a librarian by trade and degree, so go figure). They're only a problem or obstacle when they're misused or misapplied. Even in these very interesting forums many individuals label themselves, including you. They do so even when the content of their comments may belie their chosen label. I believe labels will no longer be necessary, thankfully, when sexual minorities no longer have to worry about being denied a marriage license, getting fired from a job because of who they are, being denied the opportunity to rent an apartment, getting thrown out of jury selection because in many U.S. states it is still legal to do so, bigoted family members interferring in the legal and financial affairs of a living same-sex spouse/partner (in spite of the fact that legal documents were established to protect against this very thing, and the numerous other legal incidents of marriage that many heterosexual American citizens take for granted), when glbt youth no longer kill themselves as result of being bullied for who they are, and on and on. These may seem like mundane or trivial things to some people, however they are part of life for millions of glbt Americans. The fact is that it's the use of labels that has played an important part in making it possible for many of us to even do what we're doing here in these fascinating forums and on this enjoyable Web site. So I sincerely hope that one day we will be able to apply what you advocate in every facet of our lives.

The use of labels does not mean we cannot live our lives to their fullest, we just need to do so in the context of the world/country/state/city and everyday existences that we live in and even in the ordinary things we do.

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@chaz: there are shades of grey. But if there is no sexual desire or attraction to women, what shade, or lable are those gay men. Growing up was the opposite for me. What is free love? H had girls as friends but never any arousel. It was a girl who used to show me her pussy all the time when i was little. She would get confused because i laughed every time she did it. Like i said every gay man is not the same. Some can play around and fuck girls consistantly, some gay men can not. Look at it this way, you have the openly gays like RICKY MARTIN and ELTON JOHN. you have the openly gays like CARSON KRESSLY and MARIO CANTONE. All openly gay, but two of the four men can, and or have been with women. The latter two can not be with women. they can't fake it or play around with women. they have no choice "but" to be themselves. So are there different shades of openly gay.

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Yes you should go out and a a beautiful woman to marry and take you to the right pad,
and no i'm not afriad of the bisexual word, i can use it without my voice 'shaking'.
fuck the labels??? really? so we should stop calling people thiefs, rappers, pedophiles, etc...
he shou˝ld say he was NEVER gay inf the first place, period.