This will forever be the never-ending question (even when it has been answered to the point of dry heaves). First, it all depends on whether you know how to use it to please the woman you're with (regardless of size), then, it depends on the female you are with; does she have a cock preference ? After this, we can safely assume that it is all a matter of how "secure" you are with your size to begin with.

This will forever be the never-ending question (even when it has been answered to the point of dry heaves). First, it all depends on whether you know how to use it to please the woman you're with (regardless of size), then, it depends on the female you are with; does she have a cock preference ? After this, we can safely assume that it is all a matter of how "secure" you are with your size to begin with.

I like your style ...

I have been with smaller cocks ... and a couple of them where amazing .... it is indeed all about how one uses it.

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Twice. I wanted to laugh. The first time the sex was pretty good, but I just wish his cock was bigger. It was frustrating. The second time (he was so cocky (pun intended)), the sex was horrible. I was just lying there. I was wishing for my ex's cock wish was amazing. You're making me miss it now. Haha.

Yes, size is an issue to some degree. We're not talking about an 'average size' here. We're talking about a dick that is medically defined as a 'micro penis'.

I have been with a guy with an undersized dick before. One that when you reach into his pants, your reaction is "oh no..." Did I still have sex with him. Yes. Was the sex mind-blowing. Nope.

Since intercourse mainly involves some variation of thrusting, it is my opinion is that yes, size is an issue when dealing with extremes at both ends of the spectrum (micro and extra large).

The original dildo comment is accurate. No company is going to be bulk manufacturing things that are not selling. Show me the woman that goes into the store and would prefer to opt for the 3 inch dildo rather than the 6 inch dildo. Seriously.

Some women don't care as much about the thrusting bit and may be perfectly happy with orgasms through oral and manual stimulation. Or you may just get pleasure out of the intimacy involved in being with someone you're really into. If all else fails, I think there are 'attachments' you can use to add that extra length/width.

Yes those attacments do wonders for the ego lol. Still not matching what I have heard, been told, etc. but youre experiences are different so I cannot invalidate them

Don't tell us that you're one of the men who feel threatened by a chunk of molded plastic or silicone? Dude... those are generally enhancers not substitutes.

The dildo isn't vying for the affections and emotional friendship of the woman you are trying to be with. And if SHE has accepted such or prefers such, instead of 'you'..

Move on.

Let that woman have what she wants in her life. She has every right to how she feels and what she wants to do with her life...

As you have - with what you want out of this life.

Quit making everything into a personal onslaught attack on you or toward yourself. That's not attractive to the other 27,363 women who might be eyeballing you during any particular year. They see that and pretty much reject you (a stranger with mental issues) out of hand.

Most intelligent people are introspective and doubt themselves while many fucktards are proudly over-confident. - a tip of the hat to Charles Bukowski

Size is always better, anything under seven inches is a.waste of time, if he cant hit the.bottom,, a waste of.time,,oh its cute...yes he cheats on me, but it soooo big, just neec a guy with.a.porn stars cock. That good enough? Again just my experiences.

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oldhound wrote:

Size is always better, anything under seven inches is a.waste of time, if he cant hit the.bottom,, a waste of.time,,oh its cute...yes he cheats on me, but it soooo big, just neec a guy with.a.porn stars cock. That good enough? Again just my experiences.

Here we go again.......

The night that changed my life, a four part series of a married man lusting after his co-worker

Size is always better, anything under seven inches is a.waste of time, if he cant hit the.bottom,, a waste of.time,,oh its cute...yes he cheats on me, but it soooo big, just neec a guy with.a.porn stars cock. That good enough? Again just my experiences.

I already said that size matters to some degree, so we're in agreement there.

Let me guess, you have a small one too. Life really fuckered you up, didn't it.

"Quit making everything into a personal onslaught attack on you or toward yourself. That's not attractive to the other 27,363 women who might be eyeballing you during any particular year. They see that and pretty much reject you (a stranger with mental issues) out of hand."

I have been with a guy that was just over 4" and I have to admit the sex was awful. I think it was more because it was also very thin and he was so self conscious of the size, he really didnt allow himself to be any good.

Im not a size queen by any stretch of the imagination, but size does matter to an extent. I am pretty tight, especially for a 43yo who has been around the block a few times, but there still needs to be something to feel and a little 3" "sprout" thrusting into me is just not going to do it. But I am very happy with average size guys, as long as they know waht they are doing!

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