(Closed) planning roadblock

ugh does anyone else feel like they r just hitting their head on a wall trying to plan a dw? not knowing what my limitations r, what the venues look like for real, how many ppl will even go, what theme to do that wont be to competetive with island scenery, what dress to pick to go with venue that i havent decided on yet, sunset ceremony vs daytime ceremony, etc etc etc etc etc?? its been a seemingly long six months of engagement so far with alot of brainstorming, just no progress. in three weeks we get to go scout out the islands, and talk with coordinators, so that will be such a huge relief. but geez three weeks is an eternity when ur glued to these boards and seeing everyone else’s progress!

I feel it too, but unfortunately we aren’t going to be able to make a trip to scout locations. It seems like absolutely every detail is tied into some other detail that I can’t finalize until I know yet ANOTHER detail.

Keep your chin up…I think you will feel so much relief after actually getting to see the places. You will be able to get a vibe that is almost impossible to really feel from a website.

As far as your decor goes, if you don’t want to actually go with a traditional beachy theme you could always stick with classic elegance or even shabby chic. Decide what your style is and start from there!