Toujizz

If you want to solve the issue, you would have to face it. The only time you can justify the cause is when you accept the whole truth.

One relationship issue leads to many different solutions, but when you are starting to deny the real problem – you are defeating the purpose. Self-denial exists when you can’t accept the truth. Most likely it is a negative word that covers the whole truth. If you deny the truth, you are not solving any issues. Masking the truth is one way to patch the problem, but it would never give the permanent solution.

When you deny the truth, the worst person is you. Rejecting the truth is one way to implicate the relationship. It turns to an issue that compromising the integrity of both truth and reality.

If you refuse the opinion of others, you are preventing personal growth. To me I always appreciate when others give me criticism. As long as the consensus is mutual, I would allow it.

Why do you deny the truth?

When life acts in the mode of comfort, it signifies the truth. It’s a big relationship issue to stubborn people who don’t like to listen from others like myself. It’s very comforting when I tend to do things on my own way rather than taking some advice from somebody else. Pride and ego were my best allies, but I have changed though.

To me the denial part wasn’t that big of an issue anymore. I adjusted myself in a way that I can accept the truth. The only thing that bothers me is when the approach is wrong. I don’t mind you rectifying me, but if you come too aggressively, trying to manipulate me by your hypocrisy – then you piled another issue.

Relationship Issue: Turning to Humility

How can you undeniably accept the truth?

If the relationship is falling apart because you keep denying the issue, you are compromising the integrity of your love connection.

However, you can adjust the tempo of your attitude when you adapt the idea of humility. Most people are blind to dwell in it’s cause [humility] because it really sounded weak. But if this approach would save your relationship, would you deny it?

Humility versus denial: which one is more soothing?

Self-humility demonstrates modest and humbleness. When there is an existing relationship issue, it’s always best to be reasonable. It’s very illogical when couples have too many conflicts. This happens when pride takes over the whole concepts of connecting.

Denial is illogical, but humility is a sound judgment. I don’t understand sometimes why couples have unresolved conflicts in which they could have resolved the existing relationship issue if they only try to be assertive in the calm way. I guess it’s hard for some people after all.

To make the self-humility to be effective, you have to be rational. Your thoughts must be in accordance to the truth and reality.