A national group of nuns is refusing to help a self-help group
that wants to reach out to men and women who were sexually abused
by Catholic sisters.

The Leadership Council of Women Religious (LCWR), an umbrella organization
representing some 450 orders, has written the Survivors Network
of those Abused by Priests (SNAP), rejecting each of the five requests
SNAP made during an Oct. 3 meeting of the two groups in Chicago.

SNAPs "wish list" centers on ways to find and offer
support to anyone who was sexually assaulted by nuns. The group
asked:

· For a printed list of LCWR members

· For LCWR to put SNAP contact information on their website

· For LCWR to ask their membership to put SNAP contact information
on their websites

· To be included as speakers at regional conference of LCWR

· To be included as speakers at the national assembly of
LCWR

SNAP leaders from Wisconsin, Connecticut, Iowa and California who
were victimized by nuns met with the four top officers of the LCWR
hoping "to start a productive, amicable dialogue and relationship
that would make innocent children and vulnerable adults safer around
nuns," said Landa Mauriello-Vernon, SNAP CT director and co-coordinator
of SNAPs committee of nun abuse victims.

"Were disappointed but not deterred," she said.
"It feels like the nuns are more interested in combativeness
rather than compassion."

"SNAPs committee on nun abuse is made up of courageous
people who were harmed and are just trying to make the world safer
for children," said Sr. Sally Butler of New York, OP, a staunch
supporter of SNAP. "I pray not only for a compassionate answer
from the LCWR leadership, but for the strength of the victims to
continue on their journey of outreach and healing."

In late November, the LCWR wrote to SNAP declining the victims
requests, even their most basic one: a simple list of LCWR member
organizations and how to contact them.

"Its sad they wont cooperate at even this basic
level," said Steve Theisen, SNAP Northeast Iowa co-founder
and co-coordinator of SNAPs committee of nun abuse victims.
"Well of course spend hours compiling this list through
other sources, because nothing will stop us from finding those whove
been molested and are still suffering in shame and self-blame. But
our mission would sure be easier if the nuns group would at
least offer us this simple courtesy."

SNAP now plans to start sending letters to all of the orders of
religious women in the United States, one by one. They will offer
to sit down with any group of nuns "that is serious about preventing
abuse in the future and responding more compassionately to victims,"
said Gabrielle Azzaro, a SNAP California leader.

"Abuse is about power," said Mary Guentner, a Milwaukee
SNAP leader who was victimized by a nun and who attended the meeting.
"Women religious who are predators use their positions to prey
on children, teens, and vulnerable adults just as male clergy do."

"All we want is to be part of the healing and education,"
said Guentner. "We are the experts. We can truly help develop
a plan to put the healing of victims first."

One of SNAPs leaders first wrote the LCWR in April of 2004.
Feeling frustrated by the nuns initial response, SNAP held
a news conference in July of 2004 outside the LCWR headquarters
in Washington DC inviting the Catholic sisters to meet face-to-face.

When the nuns refused to allow a SNAP member to speak to
the nuns national conference in August of 2004, the victims
held a sidewalk news conference outside the gathering. That lead
to the October meeting in Chicago.

"We are the ones who are wounded. Still, we have repeatedly
taken the initiative to talk with the LCWR," said Landa Mauriello-Vernon.
"But at every juncture, theyve been resistant. They seem
determined to repeat the same cold, bureaucratic, and ultimately
hurtful patterns weve seen in so many bishops."