Bad timing

posted April 2nd, 2020 at 2:04 PM

This is the worst time to be dealing with a painful breakup. Living completely alone with far too much time to think about them and miss them. I’ve woken up twice to the ringing of my phone, seeing their name on the display. Then realizing that I was only dreaming : ( .

Try having your partner die

Pain Olympics?

Apr 3, 2020 at 12:48pm

Jeezus people .... Do you get more pain points because something you deem 'worse' has happened or is happening to you? What's the scale? Who created it? I feel sorry for all of you, specially the ones who need to make someone else's problems seem small because yours are soooo big. There is always going to be a 'worse' story out there... anyone who can access the internet right now is doing better than many. How far do you go in pursuit of your pain olympic gold I wonder?

@Try having

Apr 3, 2020 at 8:12pm

I’m sorry for your loss, but mine feels just as big. A loss is a loss. I loved this person for a very long time. Decades. To me they were the love of my life. So a breakup can very easily be as devastating as a death, especially when that person has chosen not to come back. Gone is still gone.