Under no circumstances should you date someone who is married or has a partner. This also rules out people who have just separated, have been long term separated with no actual divorce on the horizon, and who are not over their ex. You are not a buffer/emotional airbag. You’re not someone to pass time with… Read More ›

look at a pornographic website. read a trashy or questionable novel. Visit an “adult” bookstore. go to a so-called gentlemen’s club. look at a pornographic magazine. watch an ‘adult” video or movie. look closely at a women (other than my wife) below her chin. engage in a personal phone call or email exchange with a… Read More ›

1. Never be alone with a person of the opposite sex. 2. Always wear your ring. 3. Always build up your spouse and marriage in public. 4. Never share personal, emotional feelings with any person of the opposite sex (other than your spouse). 5. Be careful how you dress and how you touch or talk… Read More ›

Spiritual Intimacy in the Bedroom Our minds are constantly thinking, feeling, analyzing information, and experiencing emotions on a deeper level. Christ says to renew our minds, which is a mighty huge process, that is constantly taking place as new and old thoughts and feelings collide and come to the surface. When two people are tending… Read More ›

What is a promise? It is a Vow or a pledge. When you exchanged wedding vows you pledged your undying love to her. You made a vow to love, honor and cherish one another in sickness and in health, for richer for poorer, for better, for worse, and forsaking all others, to be faithful to… Read More ›

Achieving Financial Intimacy: 1. The number one cause of divorce in America is Marriage FIGHTS. 2. The flow of money represents the value system under which that family operates. What do you value? 3. Who does the financial decision-making? It needs to be BOTH of you! 4. The partner with the natural gift can prepare the budget,… Read More ›

Our minds are constantly thinking, feeling, analyzing information, and experiencing emotions on a deeper level. Christ says to renew our minds, which is a mighty huge process, that is constantly taking place as new and old thoughts and feelings collide and come to the surface. When two people are tending to this chore in their… Read More ›

My husband and I were once young and without a clue fueling our marriage on our last $10.00, only to find we had but pennies left. Feeling hopeless and worthless, we spent years in a penniless state of marriage. That is what you call despair. It happens in the best of marriages. If you have… Read More ›