Interesting to hear this. When I was single, I don’t think Christianmingle.com existed. Now that I think the way I hear you thinking, I can hear the condescension toward singles. The arrogance I hear is in presuming that using their site is the same as attaching oneself to the will of God.

Anne from halfway around the world wrote (and her post was derailed by a weird internet happening), “Well, maybe they belong to the group who believe that if you do what God wants, you’ll be rich, happy all the time…and Christianmingle.com is happy to get rich while putting themselves forward as an instrument in God’s hands to match mates?” My wonderings would travel the same path. The notion that God wants us all to be happy is as overrated as the notion that every single has some “perfect match” waiting for God to assign to them through Christianmingle.com.

Blessings from Transylvania while listening to Dvorak’s New World Symphony (Dan and my “song.”)