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Thursday, March 31, 2011

Whirlwind Day

Phew! What a day!

Up at 6:45 and out the door at 8:00 only to creep in traffic and arrive at Nathan's social group at 9:00. Poor Nathan, I forgot his backpack with his home-work in it so he was upset with me. Emma was mad at me too for forgetting her brother's back pack. His teacher let me help him fill in an extra homework page she had and that made Nathan happy.

Then Emma and I went to Aldi's. We picked up some candy to fill Easter eggs for church.

Next stop was Wal-mart. I had a good talk on my cell with a friend who shared some encouraging words about Nathan starting school. :) Then back to pick up Nathan. His class learned about Rude Dude who did not take turns talking and did not listen to his friend. They made a book about Rude Dude and I am going to make sure we read it with Nathan often!

On the way home we stopped at Nathan's. (That hot dog place) Nathan has been wanting to eat there since it has name on the sign. Nathan said, "I bet they have mac n cheese from Sweden"

I said, "Umm, no, they have hot dogs."

Nathan said, "Seriously?"

Ha ha!

Even though they did not have mac-n-cheese from Sweden, Nathan enjoyed his hot dog and so did Emma.

We got home around 12:30. I opened all the bags of candy I bought and started to fill plastic eggs, with Nathan's help, when we both realized that the big bag of mixed candy I bought contained pieces of candy that were way too big for the little plastic eggs! Oops!

1:30 We left for Creative Services and met with Lauren. Nathan and Emma were both very tired. I met with Lauren and basically recited all the things I have recited over and over to a myriad of people by now. Then she asked me, "So what are Nathan's strengths?"

And I stopped.

It took me a minute because not one person who has tested Nathan or asked about Nathan in this horrible long process has ever asked me that. It was so nice to be able to tell her about his good qualities and the wonderful things he can do! Finally some positive amidst the negative!

Long story short I am VERY, VERY, happy with the way the appointment with. Nathan will meet with their psychologist. This will be the third psychologist he will have seen. And then we can move forward. Lauren said she believes there will be no problem diagnosing the Aspergers as he seems to be a "typical" case. And here is where my excitement begins. If he is diagnosed they can offer us wrap around services and behavior specialist and if needed someone to go to school with him and observe and offer the teacher ways to help Nathan and even help Nathan cope with some of his anxiety! They will also help Chris and I know how to deal and cope with certain things related to his Aspergers! Yay!

We stopped at the Farmer's Daughter's Market on the way home because who could drive right by and not stop? I picked up Nathan's favorite, sesame sticks.

When we got home Nathan was just done. He went right to his room and closed the door. When I went to check on him I found him in his bed playing his V Smile game. I think he needed some down time. Who can blame him?

Emma said, "I'm so tired I should just watch TV."

I am worn out too! Now to figure what in the world we will eat for dinner tonight.