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no why should it be. if she happy and hes happy why not. its only wrong because society trys to put restriction on everything including the age group evveryone should be with someone. im with a older man i was one of those person who look down on it. but you only can know what it feels like if you go through it yourself. sometimes its really is love

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ask yourself if you'd be with your grandfather.. or your dad, like if they weren't your dad. I think the idea of it is exciting and definitely a new experience, but for me it's just wrong. especially if he has his own children.ask yourself, how you would feel if your stepmom was younger than you. hypothetically speaking. I think that times have changed and relationships have no boundaries. perhaps there should be a physical boundary set in line if you have to ask whether or not you think it's right. because for me, regardless of what others think I'm going to do what my heart says. but If I'm going to listen to my heart I must be willing to treat it well. if you're truly interested in this man tell him you do not wish to have a sexual/physical relationship. see how long he stays in your life. and how long you wish to stay in his. if the relationship is purely ba<x>sed on touch, there is no real relationship. in my humble opinion. do what you feel is best. but be careful as you are still young and if you're feeling lonely, it won't last forever. I've felt that feeling, needing someone to love you. no matter who. the damaging effects of an imbalanced relationship aren't worth the immediate gratification. to me.<br /><br />sincerely, <br />19 year old female, Ontario Canada.

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I think the man would be a man of ill character. If the 19 year old were my daughter...he would (suddenly) simply lose interest...one way or another and she would never know why~ but I am a hillbilly, we have ways of making this kind of guy suddenly lose interest.... nuff said.