For the guys:9 things a man should never to say to a woman!

Women, it's sometimes difficult to
understand them. One moment they are so loving and coy that they make a man feel
like a giant grizzly bear who should protect them from this big, bad world - and
the next they are bored and spit venom at whatever you might say. But try to
imagine a woman who would always do what you asked her to do, who always says
the right things. One who loves you for whatever you are worth - don't you think
it would actually be boring?

Before you say "No!", I would like to
remind you that you fell for the woman because of her fire, her nastiness, her
love, and of course, the passion she always displays. But to stay on her right
side, you have to know what NOT to ever say to her. And then she will love you
forever.

1. "May I kiss
you?"

You are a man who she is out on date
with. By asking such a question you are putting yourself in jeopardy. A man
should never 'ask' for a kiss, as it goes against everything a woman is looking
for in a man. You may as well just tell her right there that you are a boy.
Eight times of out nine, she is likely to say 'no' - so why even ask it in the
first place? If you really want to kiss her, grab her and plant a passionate one
on her lips and watch her expression - she is going to love you forever!

2. "May I take you out on a
date?"

Women like men to lead, to be in
control. When you say something like this, just like in number 1 above, you lead
her to believe you want to follow her. She is not looking for a wimp - but a man
to be in control. Ask her out, but in a confident manner, something like, "Hey,
let's meet up for some drinks tonight." Be specific, not wishy-washy, tell her
the venue and the time. And also tell her you'd like her to be punctual. There
is no harm in coming across as no-nonsense. It might win you brownie points. At
the very least she will open her eyes and look at you.

3. "I have it all."

Anything you say about your car, your
job, or your house that could sound like you are trying to impress her should
not be talked about. Do you know what kind of guys brag about their cars, jobs
and houses to women? Well, the truth is many different kinds of guys, but women
put them all in one category: guys who have nothing else to offer. Ask any
attractive woman about this and she'll agree. Sure, you may attract some women,
but even those women will be far more impressed by your material possessions if
you don't mention them in conversation.

4. "What do you want to
do?"

There is a saying that a woman likes
a "man with a plan" and it is absolutely true. When you call a woman to hang
out, make sure you have a game plan. Don't put the burden on her or she won't
see you as the type of guy who can show her a good time.

5. "How do you feel about
me?"

The fact that she is willing to go
out with you is indication enough. Don't ask obvious questions. You sound
under-confident and insecure, and come across like someone needing constant
reassurance. This can be very tedious. So don't ask, just assume she likes you,
and go from there. After all, why shouldn't she like you?

6. "I called, but you
didn't call me back."

If she doesn't bring it up, don't say
anything about the call you made that she didn't return - or the message you
left she didn't reply to. Think like it never happened and proceed forward.
Asking her about this shows two things:

1. That you care that she didn't
return it. And it's too early for you to care!2. That you are trying to make her feel guilty, which she may perceive as
insecurity.

7. "How many men have you
dated before me?"

Why do you care how many men she has
dated before you? As long as she is nice with you and you are both having fun,
that's what counts. Remember to give a relationship enough time before asking
personal or intimate questions. By asking such questions, you may be sealing
your fate. She may never call you back after this date. You don't want that to
happen. It is okay if she brings it up. Otherwise, you don't want to be the one
to start this conversation. You can only lose.

8. "Let's go bowling
tomorrow."

This is date number one. You don't
know about date number two. So don't even hint about it by saying "Let's eat
Thai food next time." Stop, stop, stop, stop! While this sounds good in theory,
you must remember that women not only want - but need - a guy who is somewhat of
a "challenge." You may want to do some fun activities together, but don't let
her know that she has "won you over" too quickly or you'll come off just like
every other guy she's gone out with who is ready to "put a ring on it" after the
first date.

9. "I know what we should
do."

While on the phone, avoid saying
"tomorrow" or "next time we'll go there" as you are killing any spontaneity by
being predictable. You are also killing any chances of her calling you, as she
has to now wait for your call or risk looking desperate. Not good.

And we are certain this is not an
exhaustive list, so forward any more suggestions to us and we will be pleased to
add them!