How do I cancel my membership?
To cancel your membership go to theJoin Page
and follow the "Cancel" links for the billing company you used.

If you have problems please email Wendy with as much of the following as you can so I can process your request without delay:
The billing company you used
The name on the credit card you used
The email address you used when you joined
Your Usrid

How do I view videos?
Videos since September 2009 are wmv format. Older videos are mpg formatSave them to your hard drive first then view them. This way you only have to download them once. If you view them "live" they are saved by your computer to your hard drive anyway in a temp directory and you may not be able to find them to delete them.

To Save Videos To Your Hard Drive
Right click on the link and select "Save Link Target As.." if you are using Netscape or "Save Target As.." if you are using Windows Explorer.
To view videos we suggest usingWindows Media Player
or better still VLC Media Player
Click on the links to download for them free

I posted a message on the Forum but it doesn't show.
Hit the "Refresh" button on your browser.

Do you censor Forum posts? For example messages that criticise ABS?
During the whole time the Forum has been operating we have deleted just two flames because they upset a whole bunch of members.
I have deleted one message that was signed "Wendy" but not posted my me. Constructive criticism is always welcomed.

Best quality rectangular prefold diapers:Atincdirect.com
We use their gauze "overnights" for comfort, and their birdseye overnights for bulk and thickness.

Disposables are three tape "Attends" with waistband. We got ours from HDIS:HDIS

The pads, or "liners" that we use came from the adult division of the "Indisposables" diaper company. Their adult line was called "Quality Care." We loved these insert/liners, because they made or pre-fold and contour diapers the perfect thickness.
Unfortunately, "Indisposables" discontinued their adult product line.
A member believes you can order a Babykins insert similar to the ones we use from PPBear

Clothing
Clothing is made specially for us.

Why not put the photo sets in Zip files?
Bottom line - using zipsets would up our costs and we would have to up membership fees
This is a case of cost of membership vs bandwidth and the amount of content we have and regularly upload.
I know another AB site does this but they charge the same amount for membership as we do but upload a fraction of new stuff each month and have a fraction of total stuff in the members area than we do.
Each WEEK we upload around 100 meg of new pics and videos.
Everyone wants to check the new stuff and if we put it in zip files our server would not handle it, there would be huge delays just to log on, we would tear our hair out, get a BIG bandwidth bill from our host and then pay to upgrade our server massively so it did not happen the next week.
So we have to balance membership cost / size of updates / bandwidth and storage.

Will we ever see "messy" diapers on ABS?
No

I think I saw one of your models on an adult web site.If they are real AB's and DL's how can this be?
Our photographer shoots for us and for adult websites which have nothing to do with us.Naturally he asks any suitable AB's and DL's he meets through us if they would like to make more $$ doing straight nude work.It figures that girls who are OK showing their private parts during a diaper change shoot for our site may be comfortable showing them for other sites.

Where are you located?
For the safety of our models that information is on a "need to know" basis.

I am a male AB. Would it be possible to model for ABS?
Sorry but it would not be practical.

What brand disposables do you use>
Cushies, Bambinos, Attends.

I notice they are very thick, how many do you use?
We usually shoot wearing three disposables.