Unfortunately, you can treat every case separate, but generally it will always be the same.

They're codependent, desperate for attention, and eccentric in order to attract you from typical women. What got them in the situation came from bad choices, and it's almost always both parties' fault.

Edit: they're eccentric because they know being a mom hurts their chances, so they become very sociable. That subsequently attracts guys that aren't good at meeting women, or dating--resulting in catastrophe.

Edit2: not surprised many guys on a BMW forum have done it/in one right now. The car usually masks the owners lack of abilities with women. Perfect match.

some real shyt right here.

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Originally Posted by Augenbrauezug

Just got out of a relationship with a girl with a 4 year old kid. It made things way more complicated and I doubt I'll do that again any time soon.

What made things way more complicated and curious as to why did it end?