The posts lately on this board have been from males as well as females in regards to custody and “help” in making things work out.

It’s obvious that lack of maturity and self control goes both ways just as the suggested birth control goes two ways.

Age doesn’t negate maturity nor does time. If you divorce only to rush into another relationship without taking the time to get to know yourself first – how can you expect someone else to stand living with you when you can’t stand living with yourself?

I read the stories the different parents post here and know for a fact that there’s always – ALWAYS – two sides to a story….and that a story is only as good as the perception that renders it.

I wish there were easy answers and easy solutions.

My twelve year old son has ask to come live with my wife and myself. he needs more father and son time, and has gotten tired of the living conditions at his mothers. we are going to go file papers tomorrow.

any helpful ideas to maybe swing the balance in our favor. if they did a home inspection it would be no contest. any help would be appreciated.