Did I push him away further?

So my boyfriend and I broke up four months ago. After we broke up I messaged him 20 days later just to see how it was going, he replied then I started apologising and asking for a second chance whenever he was ready. After this convo I left it for another few weeks and started another convo with him just casual it didn't go anywhere. Then another few weeks later I messaged him again to see if we could talk about things so we could try to be friends. I explained everything of why I did what I did to him. The convo ended with him last messaging it's been over two months and I don't know if it's too soon to message again?

Whoa! That's not because guys don't feel as much as women do... It's because our heart tries to divert us from such pain... As in the case of women... They are more like blaming themselves for what happened and that takes long time to go...

What Girls Said 1

He had too much going on to be in a relationship apparently. I was getting annoyed at him because I felt like he didn't want to talk to me and then he was too busy to see me but would constantly go out with other people. We had a fight because he went to a gig and because I hadn't seen him for a while I asked if I could come and then he didn't want to too because he told me I would need his attention the whole night and would get mad at this and this. That's not the case I only got annoyed one time about something similar because he was meant to be staying over mine. Cheating wasn't involved