advice

Now for my words of wisdom
1. Pack some Tylenol PM
2. I know everyone says this but try to really take in each moment it goes by in a flash
3. Know that all your hard work will pay off on the day of the wedding and try not to stress.
4. Give really detailed set-up and clean up instructions to your coordinator, it pays off!!
5. Watch out for people who crash weddings. I had two of the rudest women who resembled the wicked stepsisters from Cinderella crash our wedding. We had to ask them to leave 4 times.
6. Try to let it all go the day of your wedding. Make your attitude be whatever happens, happens.
7. If you are on the fence about inviting someone, dont invite them! It is those people who will cause you the most stress- inviting uninvited guests and who will most likely cancel at the last minute or not show up at all!!
8. If you send out save the dates make sure you only send them to people you are certain you will want at your wedding a year from that point.
9. Use the cocktail time to say hi to all your guests. If you do this you wont spend the entire dinner going around and saying hi at guests tables and you will be able to eat and relax and enjoy yourself!!