A “take-out” approach to entertaining has nothing to do with fast-food meals wrapped in paper at the home of Chicago designer Frank Ponterio and his wife, Becky. When this couple hosts an intimate dinner, there’s a good chance it won’t be in the dining room of their 1920s suburban home, designed by prolific architect David Adler. Instead, the meal is often taken out to a separate structure they call the “Pour Room.” Just steps from their back door, the Pour Room was originally the carriage house of what was once a 500-acre estate, and it has become the go-to spot where Frank and Becky now enjoy casual dinners and indulge in their extensive collection of wine, housed in temperature-controlled units at one end of the room.

“Our property is full of architectural history,” explains Frank. “Long ago, the estate included 27 buildings, and we live in what was the gate lodge. It’s interesting to dine in the Pour Room, because not only does it speak to the casual but elegant way we prefer to entertain, but it acknowledges the tranformations we’ve made.”

Outlined in worn brick, the interior walls of the small, narrow Pour Room beg for furniture that supports its country charm. Weathered café chairs skirted in ivory-colored linen surround a rough-hewn French farm table that has a perfectly imperfect finish marked by dents and scars. Frank opted not to use a tablecloth that would hide its rugged patina. Instead, sage green place mats establish each setting.

Wanting to enhance the Pour Room’s old world aesthetic, Frank chose sturdy porcelain dinnerware that sports a handsome pewter rim. The substantial pieces were an ideal choice for a hearty menu of cauliflower soup, traditional Osso Buco, a spinach salad with grapefruit, and warm spice cakes. Voluminous glass service plates elegantly frame the hefty pewter-edged dinnerware.

The napkin—a faded, Batik-like print in sage green—is tied with vines clipped from the outside walls of the carriage house. Amber wine goblets and water glasses with bubbles blown into the glass offer textural and colorful departures from the usual clear water glasses. Flatware is also stylishly mismatched. Knives with resin handles made to look like tree bark contrast with the modern sensibilities of vintage midcentury Dansk soup spoons, while orange ranunculus and ferns dance down the middle of the table. All is illuminated by purposely burned-down pillar candles.

“Candles burned midway with wax dripping down the sides are more natural than using new ones every time you throw a party,” explains Frank. “Candles that have obviously been used before make you wonder what the last gathering was and who attended.”

The Ponterios could have used the carriage house for anything. In fact, it was first outfitted as an office for Becky, but they prefer it as the spot where they celebrate and enjoy their passions for food and wine.

“When you buy an old house, you always get that one surprise spot, whether it’s a little nook or a secret room that makes the house individual, with its own unique character,” says Frank. “For us, that space is the Pour Room. Because it’s separate from our house, every time we step into it, we are reminded that we are there for a special reason.”

Salt-and-pepper shakers are the perfect opportunity to add a bit of whimsy, like these vintage garlic-head pieces from Frank’s personal collection. Linen napkins and place mats are made of “Arabesque” in Mallard by Rose Tarlow.

Roasting the cauliflower before preparing the soup brings out the sweetness in this earthy vegetable. Don’t let it overbrown. This soup can be served as a hearty country-style potage, or thinned with additional broth to a smoother consistency.

Wine: “I often like to keep my dinner to two wines,” Frank says. “Everyone feels better the next day. Based on the robust flavors of the first course, I’d skip whites all together.”

“I’d start with a Sea Smoke Pinot Noir from Santa Barbara. It’s light enough for the scallops and will hold up to the roasted components of the dish.”

8 fresh or frozen sea scallops

1 large head cauliflower, cut in florets

5 tablespoons extra-virgin olive oil, divided

Salt and ground white pepper

1 cup finely chopped onion

1 medium leek, sliced

1 clove garlic, minced

1 (14.5-ounce) can chicken broth

2 cups whipping cream

Chicken broth (optional)

1 ounce American black sturgeon caviar

Shaved Pecorino cheese

Truffle oil (optional)

Thaw scallops, if frozen. Pat dry with paper towels; cover and chill until serving time. Preheat oven to 375°F. Place cauliflower on 15x10x1-inch baking sheet. Drizzle with 2 tablespoons oil; sprinkle with salt and white pepper. Toss to coat. Roast, uncovered, 30 minutes or until tender and just beginning to brown.

In large saucepan, heat 2 more tablespoons oil over medium heat. Add onion, leek, and garlic to saucepan. Cook and stir 10 minutes or until soft.

With immersion blender, blend soup until smooth, or transfer to blender or food processor, half at a time, and blend or process until smooth. Return soup to saucepan. Season to taste with salt and pepper. Heat through. Add additional broth to reach desired consistency.

In large skillet, heat remaining 1 tablespoon oil over medium-high heat. Sprinkle scallops with salt and pepper. Cook scallops in hot oil for 2 to 3 minutes or until brown and just opaque in center, turning once halfway through cooking time.

Place one scallop in each serving bowl. Spoon soup around scallop. Garnish soup with caviar and Pecorino cheese. Drizzle with truffle oil. Makes 6 to 8 servings.

This traditional dish has a very simple preparation—and the long and slow cooking process results in fork-tender meat. Risotto is the classic accompaniment—the addition of exotic mushrooms is an elegant, flavorful touch.

Wine: “My favorite Bordeaux, Calon Segur from St. Estephe, is pure perfection,” Frank says. “Because of the how the wine changes in the glass, by the time dessert comes around it opens to be a fitting companion to the complex sweet flavors of the Spice Cakes.” (For tasting notes, visit The Wine Cellar Insider.

Remove zest from lemons and oranges and set aside. Squeeze juice from oranges; reserve.

Tie veal shanks with clean kitchen string to hold together while cooking. Sprinkle shanks with salt and pepper. In 6- to 8-quart pot (large enough to place shanks in single layer), heat oil over medium-high heat. Add shanks to hot oil and brown on all sides. Transfer shanks to large plate; set aside. Add onions, celery, carrots, and sachet to pot. Cook and stir until vegetables are golden brown, about 10 minutes. Add tomato paste. Return shanks to pot. Cook 10 minutes more.

In large mixing bowl beat butter with electric mixer on medium to high speed 30 seconds. Beat in brown sugar until combined. Beat in molasses and egg. Beat in flour mixture in 3 additions alternating with espresso mixture in 2 additions. Mixture may appear slightly curdled.