How often do toys feature in your sex life?

Not including masturbation, how often do you use toys during partnered? While anyone can answer, of course, I'm primarily curious about the gay and lesbian contingent. Feel free to elaborate. If you'd like to, also answer the following:
Do you wish you and your partner used toys more or less than you do?
In general, do you prefer sex that involves toys or organic, toyless sex?

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I LOVE using a butt plug as a warm-up to sex and even during intercourse. There's nothing that makes me wetter than going down on my man with my butt plug in me. Less often, I will warm up with my rabbit vibe and I find that it reduces the risk of pain (my man is pretty large..for me.) Oh and the cock ring is a must for helping him with staying power... So yeah, I would say that toys are a major part of our sex life!

Sorry - straight here, but my wife has learned to love the toy driven orgasms. It works for me because as a mono-orgasmic man trying to please his multi-orgasmic wife - I couldn't do it without the help.

Also as we got older sex became more recreation than romance so the toys fit right in.

Not including masturbation, how often do you use toys during partnered? While anyone can answer, of course, I'm primarily curious about the gay and lesbian contingent. Feel free to elaborate. If you'd like to, also answer the following:Do
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Not including masturbation, how often do you use toys during partnered? While anyone can answer, of course, I'm primarily curious about the gay and lesbian contingent. Feel free to elaborate. If you'd like to, also answer the following:Do you wish you and your partner used toys more or less than you do?In general, do you prefer sex that involves toys or organic, toyless sex?

Almost always during partner sex. My boyfriend, who was not initially a fan of sex toys, now loves them as he says they so help him satisfy his multi-orgasmic girlfriend.
In sex with a girlfriend, toys are always part of our play.

We use them 90% of the time. Since our kids moved out on their own, sex has become a great hobby and recreational activity for us. We love the added enhancement, visuals and fun of toys. i am very multi-orgasmic and my husband is pretty good for four to five of them, if spaced out a slight bit. So, pretty much most of the time!!

Once in a while I really crave just plain sex, no toys, no frills, just me and a partner. But like 95% bring on the toys. Doesn't matter if I'm with a male or female, they still get used a lot. Anything to make it more fun and interesting.

Speaking as a female-bodied lesbian here, and generally we do - well, ever since we bought some awesome ones on Eden, that is, haha. I don't need any at all, while she has trouble without a little 'kick'.

Not including masturbation, how often do you use toys during partnered? While anyone can answer, of course, I'm primarily curious about the gay and lesbian contingent. Feel free to elaborate. If you'd like to, also answer the following:Do
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Not including masturbation, how often do you use toys during partnered? While anyone can answer, of course, I'm primarily curious about the gay and lesbian contingent. Feel free to elaborate. If you'd like to, also answer the following:Do you wish you and your partner used toys more or less than you do?In general, do you prefer sex that involves toys or organic, toyless sex?

My partner and use toys pretty frequently during sex but they are mandatory if we plan on having anal sex. I really enjoy when we use toys because I am more likely to orgasm, which is both good for me and him.

Not including masturbation, how often do you use toys during partnered? While anyone can answer, of course, I'm primarily curious about the gay and lesbian contingent. Feel free to elaborate. If you'd like to, also answer the following:Do
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Not including masturbation, how often do you use toys during partnered? While anyone can answer, of course, I'm primarily curious about the gay and lesbian contingent. Feel free to elaborate. If you'd like to, also answer the following:Do you wish you and your partner used toys more or less than you do?In general, do you prefer sex that involves toys or organic, toyless sex?

pretty much every time i have sex, unless it's just a quickie out somewhere where i don't have my toys, i'll use several. at least some lube will be involved and a vibrator for my clit, if nothing else.