Fantastic customer service. Available via phone or email (nearly immediate replies). Customer service is available to discuss sizing, delivery, details of your order, etc. Great follow-up email or phone calls too. All staff was extremely helpful, kind and patient.

Great individualized size charts available for every single gown

User-friendly website, easy to navigate with great search-ability – This is increasingly becoming a top priority to us when shopping online. We’ve left numerous poorly-organized awful online stores before

Numerous shipping and handling options

Not just for formal wear anymore, they’re branching into all kinds of girls’ dresses which equally awesome selections and variety

They offer accessories, gloves, jackets, hair pieces, flower girl baskets, clutches, shoes and much more to put together an ideal outfit

Now, to some fun pictures of JoJo. You may recall many years ago dancing and twirling in their past Eid dresses here. FYI, JoJo’s gown was taken in about 3-inches too. While she doesn’t wear a hijab yet, she fully covers her arms and legs, alhumdulilah, so making sure her gown was full length was equally important for us and making sure full-length gloves were available for her.

Clothes and accessories: Dresses and formal gloves from MyGirlDress.com. JoJo: Cape we had for years. Shoes from Fashion Q. Tights from Target.

InshaAllah, you’re having the Best “Best Day of our Year”: The Day of Arafat! May Allah accept your fasts, your du’a, your good intentions, acts of ibadah, prayers, forgive our sins and reward us firdose (the highest level of jennah/heaven). Ameen! May you have a blessed year. Eid Mubarak!

]]>http://americanmuslimmom.com/mygirldress-com-eid-gowns-part-3/feed0MyGirlDress.com Eid Gowns Part 2http://americanmuslimmom.com/mygirldress-com-eid-gowns-part-2
http://americanmuslimmom.com/mygirldress-com-eid-gowns-part-2#respondThu, 02 Oct 2014 13:03:09 +0000http://americanmuslimmom.com/?p=10877In my introductory post of MyGirlDress.com I shared all three girls in their new Eid gowns. MyGirlDress.com – One stop shopping for girls special occasions – Fabulous dresses at affordable prices. Dresses and gloves were provided for us free of charge for our honest review.

GiGi’s gown is size 14 and fit her length and size ideally. We realized there were plenty more options in sizes 12 and 14, more so than JuJu’s size 16 choices. Even though GiGi’s gown was more fancy, with chiffon lining, the pearl-like decorative bodice and creative use of the beige extremely long, elegant, tiny belt, the prices of all these gowns were so economical. What’s obviously great for us is that we have three girls to carry down these gowns. So, when we count the numerous usages of these gowns, we’re literally paying dollars for these gorgeous timeless pieces.

I admit, I’ve paid A LOT more on previously Eid gowns then these priced at MyGirlDress.com

For those wondering, why we dress so formally during Eid. First, its sunnah to wear our “best” clothes on these days, not our newest or most expensive. Second, it all started why my girls were flower girls for my sister’s wedding. We paid $100s on each gown, and when I saw that hadith, I said what’s better than our gowns? So, I started dressing them only in their best gowns twice a year. Then, the following year they were in my brother’s wedding, and had more gowns to wear and carry down to the next sister.

The only time they didn’t have gowns was last year because we were overseas and we couldn’t find gowns in a rush, as we were rushed to travel overseas and didn’t even think of gowns–we were just rushing to get in when the borders opened. Previous years, we always brought our gowns overseas with us too, but little girls’ gowns because of flower girl dresses were always easy to find. I was pleased that MyGirlDress.com offers the tween/teen sizes as Junior Bridesmaids gowns, that’s the category I found of my girls.

Also, last year overseas JuJu and GiGi were both covered. So, it was a quite joyous to find MyGirlDress.com, otherwise I was considering tailoring them their own gowns, which I did for other occasions in the past.

The quality of all these gowns are high-quality, it’s some of the best namebrands available, as MyGirlDress.com actually provides for many high-end dress shops even in places like Beverly Hills. However, they are FAR from Beverly Hill prices, thankfully!

The Sabra Sisters’ Eid Candy Basket Tradition

Oh, and for the flower basket GiGi is wearing. The same year the girls started wearing flower girl gowns to Eid, I loved the idea of this elderly wise couple who always stood at the door of the convention center and passed out crisp $1 bills. All the kids welcomed the treat, and the parents grinned in the generosity as I am right now recalling these fond memories. So, I thought I have to do something next year, inshaAllah. So, I fill all the girls flower baskets with candies and sometimes gift cards if they’re in season. Those few years in Toledo, our entire community knew to expect the Sabra Sisters in their fancy gowns passing out candies to the kids (young and old).

This is our little tradition we continue to this day, of course, it was adorable and cute when they were younger, but the girls love the gifts and smiles it brings to everyone now being young women holding on to something we always did and always will, inshaAllah. I remember when we were leaving Toledo, OH, one dear college student who was very close to our family actually asked “Khalto…I’ve always loved how the girls pass out candy from their flower baskets. Do you mind if I do that with my girls when I become a mom, inshaAllah?” Smiles and hugs overcame me, as it was one of the most beautiful gestures ever requested.

My girls and I have brought these candy baskets in every city and state we’ve lived in. Just this past Eid, a high school photographer for the masjid in the park came up to us asking our permission to take pictures as everyone was “talking about the girls all day” but he was covering the nearly 1000 people all morning. While, we’re not for pictures, as seen in our pixalated faces, it was the end of the event and we had no candy left. SubhanAllah.

GiGi: Dress from MyGirlDress.com Shoes and hijabs from New York Broadway Shoehouse. Jackets from Burlington Coat Factory. Tights and nylons for all from Target.

]]>http://americanmuslimmom.com/mygirldress-com-eid-gowns-part-2/feed0MyGirlDress.com Eid Gowns Part 1http://americanmuslimmom.com/mygirldress-com-eid-gowns-part-1
http://americanmuslimmom.com/mygirldress-com-eid-gowns-part-1#respondWed, 01 Oct 2014 13:42:51 +0000http://americanmuslimmom.com/?p=10873In my introductory post of MyGirlDress.com I shared all three girls in their new Eid gowns. MyGirlDress.com – One stop shopping for girls special occasions – Fabulous dresses at affordable prices.Dresses and gloves were provided for us free of charge for our honest review.

Here’s JuJu, my eldest daughter wearing a size 16 due to the length. JuJu was the one contacted by MyGirlDress.com to see if she’d sample their dresses and service. Once we starting researching the vast site, we were amazed that they had full-length gowns for tween/teen sizes that were modest and full-length. Although JuJu fits in petites and junior sizes, typically those gown are evening cocktail dresses or extremely revealing prom gowns. Not only did we find 1,2,3…MANY classy, elegant, feminine, modest gowns to pick from.

We actually picked up these gowns the day before Eid, since they contacted us the week of Eid. Fortunately, their warehouses are located in Los Angeles, so we enjoyed a family day trip and spent the last jummah prayer of Ramadan in a new masjid downtown. It was one of the most beautiful kutbaahs I heard in a long while and sob through the whole thing. Emotions always overcome me during Ramadan and our days of fasting.

Kind of like today…while we were in the best 10 nights of Ramadan then leading to Eid al-Fitr, we’re in the best 10 days of year leading to Eid al-Adha.

Anyways, since we didn’t have time to run to the tailors, JuJu and JoJo wore their gowns quite large last Eid. Subhanallah, we found a great seamstress last week, and took in nearly 3-inches of the whole dress. They actually wondered why we didn’t go for 1-2 sizes smaller, and when I motioned to our obvious fully-covered attire, she grinned in total agreement.

Tip when ordering gowns at MyGirlDress.com:when in doubt of size, determine the inseam length to assure it fits and get it tailored to fit (not “fitted” of course). Do not opt for the girls’ “normal dress size”. Each of my girls got 2 sizes larger than what they normally wear.

By the way, the first picture–which we all think is one of the best. That was an unexpected accident of a click by my phone. When we saw it, we knew it’s be perfect for the review post…and now as I look at it, the clarity of the image is so amazing for a little mistaken click. SubhanAllah.

JuJu: Dress from MyGirlDress.com Shoes and hijabs from New York Broadway Shoehouse. Jackets from Burlington Coat Factory. Tights and nylons for all from Target.

Do you always make sure you and your kids wear their best clothes for Eid? This is the sunnah of the Prophet Muhammad, peace and blessings be upon him. The rasul did not say “the newest”, “the most expensive”; he said “your best”. So, make sure it’s your kids best days and only celebration worth honoring but wearing their best and feeling their best!

]]>http://americanmuslimmom.com/mygirldress-com-eid-gowns-part-1/feed0MyGirlDress.com – Review for Teen and Tween Eid Gownshttp://americanmuslimmom.com/mygirldress-com-review-for-teen-and-tween-eid-gowns
http://americanmuslimmom.com/mygirldress-com-review-for-teen-and-tween-eid-gowns#respondMon, 15 Sep 2014 15:16:05 +0000http://americanmuslimmom.com/?p=10855Here’s a quick post to introduce you to MyGirlDress.com – One stop shopping for girls special occassions – Fabulous dresses at affordable prices.Dresses and gloves were given for free for our honest review.

Can you believe it, Ramadan and Eid al-Fitr is long past us and the best 10 days of our year (Dhul Hijjah) and Eid al-Adha are less than 2-weeks away?

This is just a sneak peak of all my girls gathered together to show these gorgeous gowns they wore for the last Eid. I’ll share more of our story and experience with the incredible staff at MyGirlDress.com and how simple, easy and fun it was to select the gowns to make our festival special. Without a doubt, we will become regulars at MyGirlDress.com because of their excellent selection of modest-length and simply-elegant (2 very important issues we run into as Muslim teens and tweens) dresses at extremely affordable prices.

May Allah protect my girls from harm. Ameen!

Clothes and accessories: Dresses and formal gloves from MyGirlDress.com. JoJo (little one): Cape we had for years. Shoes from Fashion Q. GiGi and JuJu: Shoes and hijabs from New York Broadway Shoehouse. Jackets from Burlington Coat Factory. Tights and nylons for all from Target.

Simply gorgeous dresses, huh? You totally have time to select affordable gowns and/or “special dress” (if these are too formal for your taste), in time for Eid al-Adha, to be on or before October 4, 2014! They have rush shipping too.

As you may know we’re a huge board game and flash cards family. I simply have too many posts regarding how we adapt portions of board games in the car and airplane, to always having more flash cards as our means of “playing cards” as fun, educational pasttimes.

Well, we were gifted the Women in Islam cards and absolutely loved them. I didn’t even think to look up the company to see if they had other awesome products to “Share the Deen”.

So, when Share the Deen, the company who created Women in Islam contacted me with an opportunity to review their Allah’s Prophets memory card game; my girls and I were all-game!

Allah’s Prophets Memory Card Game

The game includes a set of 32-pairs of cards. One pair of cards include:

1-Question card is orange

1-Answer card in green

The cards are meant to be played like any memory card game, however since we’re not matching like-images, (for example, 2-ducks), you’re matching the Answer with the Question, this memory game was created for older kids and adults. The makers recommend Ages 8 years old and up.

As pictured above there’s the Q&A Reference Sheet so you can “test” your knowledge in the beginning to make sure you know all the facts that goes along with each Prophet.

Upon receipt, we immediately opened the package and starting putting the pairs together from memory. Two of us were asking the questions, as we laid out all the Answers so we can all scramble to pick up the matching cards. Hubby was actually home working on the other side of the room. Not knowing he was even listening to our obvious excitement, would answer as fast as he could to show he’s quicker than us, mashaAllah. So, as any competitor would do, JoJo and I starting asking the questions in hushed tones.

Hah! I don’t even need the (answer) cards to help him–as he grinned while we shuffled through the cards. So, yes–I needed the cards to jog my memory; but at the end the entire family DID know all the answers. There were a few tricky ones, which I won’t tell you, so as not to spoil your educational fun entertainment as well!

Of the 32-pairs, lessons are taught about 18 of Allah’s Prophets.

The creators recommend using 8 (a quarter) or 16 (a half) of the pairs to begin playing the memory game.

However, we particular appreciate this card because it lists the ayat in the Qur’an in which the various women are referenced. It explains so concisely, that only Maryam is mentioned in the Qur’an by name, whereas the others are referenced. For future research, it is encouraged to research ahadith to broaden the stories of each of these phenomenal Women in Islam. My girls and I have been inspired to future our knowledge of many of these stories, so these cards are great primers for all Muslims of all ages.

To show our competitiveness, we have yet to read, research of play with these cards near hubby. Once we opened them and saw the various names, many of whom I didn’t know, we knew it was our sign to get to work. Fortunately, this kind of work is fun, motivational, encouraging, and truly a lovable, passionate experience. These remarkable women are role models for us all, and I recommend every single household at least getting one set of these cards today!

FYI, NO we are not hiding the cards for hubby. Throughout these weeks, we’ve all witnessed the set sitting throughout the house, even on his desk or by his set as these working or chilling out. It’s actually fun to be this competitive with necessary facts about our deen.

I’m curious, is your family this competitive? Curious? Enjoy learning about our deen (way of life as Muslims) in fun, engaging ways like using one of these products?

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Disclosure: We were given the memory card game for our honest review. If you’ve been here long, you know I’m adamant against lying since it’s haram, and I have refused publishing dozens, if not 100s of reviews, simply because when I received the product (especially books) I was adamantly against the quality or message they portrayed.

]]>http://americanmuslimmom.com/allahs-prophets-and-women-of-islam-ramadan-review-and-giveaway/feed6Ramadan Giveaway: Ultimate Web Design Package from TheTeenBlogger.comhttp://americanmuslimmom.com/ramadan-giveaway-ultimate-web-design-package-theteenblogger
http://americanmuslimmom.com/ramadan-giveaway-ultimate-web-design-package-theteenblogger#commentsTue, 22 Jul 2014 17:55:56 +0000http://americanmuslimmom.com/?p=10810Earlier this year was a big rebranding for me: I moved KidBloggersClub.com to TheTeenBlogger.com I was growing up. I was now officially a “teen”–whatever that’s supposed to mean. As Muslims, we don’t celebrate our birthdays, so age is irrelevant–most of the time. However, I cannot deny that many things did become available to me once I turned 13, and even more so when I turned 14.

Most recently, I am thinking of permanently letting it go to focus on some other projects I care for more passionately. This is neither the time nor the place to discuss this.

Anyways, growing up doesn’t mean I have a change of heart. I have not forgotten what is most important: being Muslim. The topic of young Muslim Americans’ identities is one of controversy. A controversy I’d rather not be a part of.

So, I proudly share what I believe in when people curiously ask what’s “that thing” on my head. And I passionately answer them urging them to comment, “You’re so confident in your beliefs.” Masha’Allah.

So, not forgetting who I am; I have not forgotten about you. A few years ago, my mother was thinking of letting go of American Muslim Mom, but my sisters and I convinced her otherwise. Instead of letting it go, she revived it. She actually gave me full creative and technical reign over its rebranding. So, I want to give you something too.

I would love to give each of you a gift, but that would be very hard. So, instead, one (1) of you will be able to win my largest design/development package. You can view the details here.

Calling All Muslim Mommy Bloggers

The truth is, after all these years of designing, I have yet to design for a Muslim, let alone a Muslim mommy. I know it’s a big investment if you’re not blogging professionally. Even when I became a pro-blogger, mommy invested $500 in my design and branding back in 2009. That’s why I thought my student rates would be a no-brainer for Muslim mommies in the world, however that wasn’t the case.

Yet, I know from working with dozens of name brands, like Chilli, Hasbro, World Book Encyclopedia, etc. it’s a huge disservice to have a poor amateur design if you’re serious about making money online.

This was one of the biggest reasons I told my momI wanted to host this Giveaway during Ramadan. I see this as my little bit of sadaqah: my time as an investment in your blog, your brand, and your business!

My largest package is priced at $297 (which I am constantly told I must increase) making it the largest prize available for you to win this Ramadan. The truth is, this price has already been raised twice in the past 3-months because I started getting so busy. So, I was advised to increase my prices to slow down and to attract more serious clients.

IMPORTANT NOTES: You must have a WordPress or Blogger blog. If you have blogger, you must be willing to have me convert/transfer your blog to WordPress ($47 value). Ideally you should own your own domain name and be self-hosted to gain the most from my services. You can participate if you’re hosted on a free WordPress site, but you are fully aware that this is not recommended. Also, you do not have be to a Muslim Mommy blogger.

So, do you want a new, beautiful, responsive and professional website/blog design? Then, this giveaway is for you!

Ramadan Special: 25% Off.

If you purchase any blog design package by Saturday, July 26, 2014, I will honor 25% Off. You must contact me via my Contact Page here, state which package you want, share your current url (blog address), and pay for services before the 26th to secure this discounted rate. All clients are on a first-come first-served basis.

Ultimate Web Design Giveaway Contest – Value $297

Any resident in any country worldwide, and of any age, with the permission of adult guardian or parent.

]]>http://americanmuslimmom.com/ramadan-giveaway-ultimate-web-design-package-theteenblogger/feed6Ilyas and Duck – Search for Allah Book: Ramadan Review and Giveawayhttp://americanmuslimmom.com/ilyas-and-duck-search-for-allah-book-ramadan-review-and-giveaway
http://americanmuslimmom.com/ilyas-and-duck-search-for-allah-book-ramadan-review-and-giveaway#commentsTue, 22 Jul 2014 17:13:40 +0000http://americanmuslimmom.com/?p=10804As you may recall, we’ve been huge fans of Omar Khawaja, the founder and co-owner of Little Big Kids. We shared his initial visions of his company back in 2011, hosted review and giveaway of what I believe to be one of their best products of all time: Allah Kids Wall Clocks (We own 2 blue space Allah clocks and 1 pink Allah clock), and couldn’t help but fall in love with the most adorable high-quality produced and animated video. So, it wasn’t a surprise at all that we’d equally enjoy and appreciate all the time, effort and expertise that went into writing and publishing Illyas and Duck – Search for Allah picture book.

Ilyas and Duck – Search for Allah picture book

As with all their products, the illustrations are vibrant and colorful. It has a book jacket that simply covers the high-gloss finished hard cover book. The quality of the paper chosen is superb, perfect for tiny grubby little hands who are eager to whip and turn any page at speeds faster than they can read.

Ilyas is an adorable curious little boy who loves to explore. However, it’s his pal Duck (yes–his name is what kind of animal he his, a funny play of names) that challenges him to continue exploring to new places in search for his question “Do you know where we can fin Him (Allah)?”

Their adventures span as high as mountains and as low as the deep dark oceans, and they meet exotic animals through their journey.

We enjoyed meeting a Hoopoe (hoo-poo) sitting on a tree, and being reminded that it is mentioned in the Qur’an [27:20 and 27:22] at the end of the book in which each animal is written out pheonetically with a little description alongside its adorable profile images, as if they’re posing for your little one to admire.

On Sale Today for $15.99 (Regular price $16.99)

My girls and I thoroughly enjoyed this book, and highly recommend that you add it to your library. Presently on sale for $15.99 (regular price $16.99), this is totally worth your investment! Click here to purchase today.

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Disclosure: We were given a copy of this picture book for our honest review. If you’ve been here long, you know I’m adamant against lying since it’s haram, and I have refused publishing dozens, if not 100s of reviews, simply because when I received the product (especially books) I was adamantly against the quality or message they portrayed.

]]>http://americanmuslimmom.com/ilyas-and-duck-search-for-allah-book-ramadan-review-and-giveaway/feed7Playing as a Family for Health and Fitnesshttp://americanmuslimmom.com/playing-as-a-family-for-health-and-fitness
http://americanmuslimmom.com/playing-as-a-family-for-health-and-fitness#respondSun, 20 Jul 2014 20:06:34 +0000http://americanmuslimmom.com/?p=10801Once upon a time, keeping your kids active, fit, and healthy during the long summer break from school was a no-brainer: you sent them outside. The world was their playground. There, children could run, jump, climb, wrestle, and play to their heart’s content—or at least until suppertime.

Today, safety takes precedence over tree forts and hide-and-seek far from parents’ watchful eyes. But staying indoors all the time is dull. Parents need to find other occupations for kids besides the sedentary pastimes of TV, videos, and computer games.

The fact is, children need lots of physical activity. Exercise—either structured or as play—is not only important for growing muscles and bones and enhancing physical coordination, it has a huge positive effect on the thinking and problem-solving skills everyone needs as adults.

According to the National Institutes of Health, children should get at least an hour of moderate physical activity every day. (“Moderate” exercise gets your heart beating faster and makes you breathe harder than usual.) Fortunately, plenty of activities qualify—and many of them are just as good for moms as they are for kids.

Which is, of course, an excellent way to get your kids moving this summer. Exercising with them—and making it light-hearted, fun, and in no way chore-like—will motivate and tickle them. And don’t forget: your own attitude toward physical fitness and activity will influence theirs—maybe for the rest of their lives. So …

Being a Healthy, Fit Family Needs Preparation

To get the most out of exercise, make sure that you and your kids have everything you need to fully enjoy it.

Get good shoes. They should fit properly, providing protection and cushioning for the foot. Make sure they have good arch supports and a wide toe-box with a little extra room at the end.

Wear weather-and-activity-appropriate clothing. This includes hats, sunglasses, and sunscreen when you’re playing outdoors on hot, sunny days.

Stay hydrated. Bring water along with you and remember to stop and drink 6-8 ounces now and then.

Have first-aid ready. Put a couple of adhesive bandages and some anti-bacterial wipes in your pocket just in case someone stubs a toe or skins a knee.

Some of the best kid-friendly exercises are the simplest and the most fun—and they’ve been around for ages. Don’t forget to join in yourself!

Get some jump ropes. Bet you didn’t know you can burn through hundreds of calories an hour by skipping rope! Click here to learn some jump rope rhymes that’ll make it even more fun.

Get a Frisbee. Flying disks are inexpensive and loads of fun. Running, jumping, twisting, turning, laughing… it’s all good.

Take a family walk. Set a pace that gets your heart beating, breathe deep, and enjoy this easiest of exercises. Combine the walk with another form of exercise, like flying disks at the park, and it’s a surefire win-win.

Get a Hula-Hoop. Hooping is another high-energy calorie burner.

Play… Tag on the lawn at home, or at the park. Chase fireflies. Play Simon Says. Draw Hopscotch squares and hop. Play Red Light, Green Light. Try your luck at Mother May I? Go to the playground and swing, slide, hang from the monkey bars, and do chin-ups. You too, Mom!

All the other outdoor summer activities, like swimming, team youth-league sports, camping, hiking, and bike riding still apply, too. The most important thing is to move—and have a great time doing it. For more information on staying healthy this summer visit healthline.com.

What are you doing as a family to stay healthy and fit? Which ideas here will you start to implement? What activities do you want to share? For great family fit ideas from my very own 12 year old Fit Kid Chef please visit Eat Healthy Play Hard.

Leslie Vandever is a mom, a professional journalist and a freelance writer with more than 25 years of experience. She lives in the foothills of Northern California.

Yes, I’ve been silent since my “Happy Ramadan” email-card on the first of Ramadan. I’m sorry, but I’m simply speechless.

The only piece of mind I have is that Allahu alam, Allah knows; and I do not. I find myself saying over and over again to myself and my girls “I don’t know…but, Allah does.” I speak of what’s happening in the land we called home just 5-months ago: Gaza.

I’ve been avoiding my own family and friends because they’re politely asking “How is your family?”; and, I don’t want to admit that “I do not know.”

Hubby, my girls and I are aching numb. We’re praying and reading Qur’an all hours of the day and night and it doesn’t seem enough. But, we continue because Allah promises us our due rewards at His prescribed time, either on Earth or in the hereafter.

A blogger who I respected said she stayed silent regarding this latest news because she felt she’d only be adding to the “noise” instead of offering something worthwhile, like a new voice of reason. Well, unfortunately, when she finally broke her silence, she sadly failed at adding a new voice. She actually spewed unintelligent ignorance.

I’m afraid I’m in the same boat in that I know cannot add a new voice–not because I have nothing to say, but simply because I’m not willing to say what’s in my heart and mind right now.

All I want to do is talk to my family. The very people I left 5-short-months ago. I left the land that only gave me 8-12 hours of electricity, rare Internet service, spotty sewage and drinking water…and a slew of other “luxuries” I couldn’t stand living without.

Since I pride myself of not living with regrets, this life lesson is really churning the pit of my stomach right now. My 16-hour fast is too short in comparison to the fasts they are forced to live through right now.

I cannot even eat. I cannot sleep. I weep as I stand before our Lord, begging Him for justice. Pleading for His forgiveness that I was so futile in my complaints of “that poor life”.

I pray that my family gets electricity again, water to drink, gas to cook whatever rice they have left, medicine, supplies…oh, the list is endless. And, yet–what am I to do?

I can’t help but think that about the two hospitals that keep getting bombed. They are one my mother-in-law went for physical therapy, and the one I went to when I was sick with the flu this past winter. The stories are too, too close to “home” for the girls and I. Obviously, even closer for hubby.

Personally for me, I do not think boycotts, petitions or rallies are going to make a difference. I simply have faith and believe that Allah has a Great Plan. And, we need His divine guidance during this time.

After all, this is Ramadan. Shaytan, Satan, is chained up. These are the best 10-days of our year. Allah is listening!

For all the pain, suffering, oppression and violence occurring for Muslims all over this world–our brothers and sisters need our prayers. And, when you think you can’t stand tall or long enough, think of them.

When you start to fall asleep while reading the Qur’an, wash your face, make wuduu and know that Muslims don’t have running water to make a refreshing wuduu themselves. Remind yourself that they need our prayers!

I, like my family, need to retreat to myself devoting my worship to only Allah. I pray you understand–or, better yet, I ask that you please join me: Pray, Pray, Pray, Pray, Pray! And, when you think you prayed enough, add just one more…and, another…

]]>http://americanmuslimmom.com/i-dont-know-but-thankfully-allah-knows-best/feed2What Questions Do You Want Answered In Islam?http://americanmuslimmom.com/what-questions-do-you-want-answered-in-islam
http://americanmuslimmom.com/what-questions-do-you-want-answered-in-islam#commentsWed, 16 Jul 2014 22:13:21 +0000http://americanmuslimmom.com/?p=10793So, what questions do you want answered? Days away from publishing Book 1 “What is Islam?” and I’m curious what questions you want answered.

Upcoming Quick Guide to Islam Titles

What is Ramadan?

What is the Oneness of Allah?

Who is Prophet Muhammad?

Who is Prophet Jesus?

What is Salah – Prayer?

What are the 6 Pillars of Faith?

I have nearly three-dozen questions listed in my notebook, and the above titles are books I say to look out for in Book 1. But, I’m really curious what are your priorities and interests.

Please comment below. Feel free to comment often too!

]]>http://americanmuslimmom.com/what-questions-do-you-want-answered-in-islam/feed1How To Thank or Greet a Muslim and Other Common Islamic Terms Said Every Day – A Quick Free Lessonhttp://americanmuslimmom.com/how-to-thank-and-greet-a-muslim-and-other-common-islamic-terms-said-every-day-a-quick-free-lesson
http://americanmuslimmom.com/how-to-thank-and-greet-a-muslim-and-other-common-islamic-terms-said-every-day-a-quick-free-lesson#respondTue, 01 Jul 2014 22:58:40 +0000http://americanmuslimmom.com/?p=10771My first goal was to launch my new book series and website today, July 1st, but with the start of Ramadan I’ve been launching something every day, so I got a bit behind. However, I said I’d keep you in the loop too, so here’s the scoop: unless I finish my book by Saturday, I won’t get my 30-Day Book Challenge Completion Badge. Saturday marks the real last day of the challenge–so, I still have time. Today, was just our last live Q&A session, but not the end of 30-day challenge…phew!

So, what’s my hold up? Well, when I was at 8,000 words I thought I’d easily be done by 12,000 words. I’m at 16,000 words now and still have 2 sections untouched. However, my coach shared that “Quick Guides” should not be over 20,000 words. So, with my real deadline date and word count limit, I know I can get there.

In this book challenge, we have three categories to work on: (1) Writing (which I just explained), (2) Publishing (which I already know how to do, and cannot do until I finish my book) and (3) Marketing (which includes a dedicated website and email list).

So, that’s what this new button is all about. Please click it and enjoy my new book series website. I just got my cover made so all I have to do is upload it to our server and email service and you’ll have access to the written and audio recording of my “How To Thank a Muslim, and Other Common Islamic Terms Said on a Daily Basis”.

Arabic Audio Recording Available

My 14 year old daughter made all my graphics, and is my resident Arabic-speaker. We had fun making the MP3 recording to compliment my little ereport. She speaks each word or phrase in normal speed and then again nice and slow for everyone to learn at their own pace.

This list was created for English speakers, so only transliteration and the English translations are given. Transliteration is the phonetic equivalent to the Arabic word or phrase using the English alphabet.

This list was actually compiled many years ago, that I gave to my non-Muslim Virtual Assistants to help them edit my work. They often asked what was said or written and inquired why.

It was just collecting dust on my hard drive and our book coach challenged us to re-use and re-purpose original content we already had available.

Even though it’s done, as I write my book, I’m taking note for dozens more words or phrases I can add for another edition. So, please do not feel this is an exhausted list. In fact, I welcome your critiques.

If you’re a Muslim, please recommend more words or phrases to add. If you’re a non-Muslim, please ask which words or phrases you want to learn!

Side Lessons Learned from Raising Kid Entrepreneurs

Without putting too much fault on another person, I have to share this little sidenote:

Now, SubhanaAllah, Glory be to Allah, JuJu is such a sought after designer whose booked out 3-weeks in advance, she already raised her prices once to get even more qualified clients, and has a couple of retainer clients (meaning, they’re paying her for continuous on-going work). So, I’m simply not her priority–unless, I “pay up” too.

Alhamdulilah, Praise be to Allah, she’s committed to my projects on a deep, life-religious level, so she always sets aside time for a little bit of my work every day, subhanAllah. Glory be to Allah.

Her sisters and I are desperately trying to keep up and writing tutorials of how she does things so we can do things ourselves, but none of us have the creative eye and expertise that she’s been raved about from some of the best designers and consultants in our industry. MashaAllah, God has willed, her talents and one way she remains humble is by always asking me what she can do for American Muslim Mom. The irony is that I simply started hiring my girls because they despised the fact that I outsourced $1000s for things they can or were willing to learn how to do.

My girls are all being tested in our time management skills, and always prioritizing their time and efforts (charity and sadaqah) to give back. These are just a couple of the many benefits of raising kid entrepreneurs. So, I digress…

Anyways, Alhamdulilah. I can’t wait to hear what you think of this unique free gift, please share and comment below!

]]>http://americanmuslimmom.com/how-to-thank-and-greet-a-muslim-and-other-common-islamic-terms-said-every-day-a-quick-free-lesson/feed05th Annual Ramadan Qur’an-a-thon Sadaqah Drive 2014 – A Little Ramadan Blessinghttp://americanmuslimmom.com/5th-annual-ramadan-quran-a-thon-sadaqah-drive-2014-little-ramadan-blessing
http://americanmuslimmom.com/5th-annual-ramadan-quran-a-thon-sadaqah-drive-2014-little-ramadan-blessing#respondSat, 28 Jun 2014 16:00:12 +0000http://americanmuslimmom.com/?p=10727Subhan Allah, All Glory and Praise to Allah, the most glorious time of our year–Blessed Ramadan! With great honor, we are hosting the Ramadan Qur’an-a-Thon Sadaqah Drive for our 5th year, now in 2014 (not 2013). This program has always been on the honor system. However, we’d love to track how much sadaqah dollars our kids are raising; so please share your results this year. More information below, Insha’Allah.

While a quiet program, completed in the privacy of our own homes, two years ago I received the most incredible and one of the most impressionable calls of my life. We were traveling during Ramadan last year. A young Muslim boy (then aged 7 years old) had problems memorizing the Qur’an. He didn’t take his studies seriously, and it frustrated his Imam and mom. Then, his mom found this program. She explained how it works. He immediately set a goal for how many ayats he wanted to memorize, how much money he wanted his mom to pay him once he completes his studies with his Imam, and he was excited to donate his earned pledges to the poor at the end of the month. She shared that he was very serious in pleasing his Imam, and making sure he learned Tajweed as well.

In her excitement, she said she just picked up the phone to share her news and didn’t expect for me to answer the call. Much to her amazement, I silently listened as she continued with her story. She had to call my name a few times until I was able to compose myself, because in my awe I was weeping in the pleasure of this little Ramadan blessing. To think something I did, caused a little Muslim boy to become excited about learning the Qur’an and donating to the poor during our most sacred of months, was overwhelming to say the least. She couldn’t stop thanking me, and felt bad that I could barely talk. Within a grasp of air, I slowly shared that it wasn’t me–it was Allah’s grace, and that I was thankful for her and her son for sharing this most beautiful Ramadan moment with me.

This program is designed to be completed completely online again this year. Each participant may register, download pledge forms, seek pledges from local family and friends, have their Qur’an recitation certified by a local official of his/her choice, or to their local masajid/Islamic centers.

American Muslim Mom launched July 15, 2009 as the first and only online (or offline) blog magazine dedicated to Muslim Moms and their Children in America. With our growing international community of Muslim parents, we are all determined to raise Mu’miniyn in the West (and East), despite any obstacles we may face. As such, American Muslim Mom designed this program with the Purpose and Objectives listed below.

We are determined to reach as many children as possible this year by allowing all children to participate. We graciously ask that you help us recruit participants individually or collectively as part of an Islamic day school, weekend school, homeschool coop, Qur’an/Hifz school, Islamic youth groups, and/or individuals such as public school students who seek private Qur’an tutoring.

Program Materials:

Purpose/Objective:

Narrated Aisha: The Prophet (may the blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) said, “Such a person as recites the Qur’an and masters it by heart, will be with the noble righteous scribes (in Heaven). And such a person exerts himself to learn the Qur’an by heart, and recites it with great difficulty, will have a double reward.” (Book #60, Hadith #459, Sahih Bukhari)

Narrated Ibn ‘Abbas: Allah’s Apostle was the most generous of all the people, and he used to be more generous in the month of Ramadan when Gabriel used to meet him. Gabriel used to meet him every night in Ramadan to study the Holy Qur’an carefully together. Allah’s Apostle used to become more generous than the fast wind when he met Gabriel (Book #54, Hadith #443, Sahih Bukhari)

To help young Muslims appreciate and live more closely to the Sunnah of our beloved Prophet Muhammad salallahu alayhi wa salam by

Learning more ayat of the Qur’an by heart,

Understanding and appreciating the act of earning money,

Allowing children to gain a sense of pride by making charitable gifts to the needy, and

Completing these generous acts in the name of Allah (May He be Glorified) during our blessed month of Ramadan when our rewards are multiplied by the number only Allah knows and wills.

Who may participate?

Any Muslim child able to recite and memorize Qur’an based on the rules of tajweed up to 18 years of age.

Worldwide Participation.

Muslim children in the U.S. may donate to their local masjid/Islamic center of his/her choice.

Muslim children living outside of the US may make sadaqah to any Islamic institution or charitable organization of their choice.

How are the funds raised in this event?

Each participating young Muslim will seek sponsorship from friends, family members, and others (Muslims & non-Muslims).

Each sponsor will determine upon signing a pledge form to pay a predetermined amount of money (example 25 cents or $1) for each ayah (or surah) of the Qur’an that the participant reads with correct tajweed to an Islamic scholar or learned adult during the event*, OR

The sponsor may also elect to pay a fixed amount of money as sponsorship for the participant regardless of the number of ayahs or surah he/she reads, recites or memorizes (for example: a sponsor may pledge to contribute one set price of $50).

*It is recommended that each participating young Muslim describes the number of ayat (or surahs) which is a realistic amount for that one participant to memorize with correct tajweed with in 30 days. Therefore, no one misleads the one is making a pledge.

How to Participate for Ramadan 1435/2014

First 10 days of Ramadan [June 28 - July 7, 2014] – Memorize as many ayat/surahs with correct tajweed as possible.

REQUIREMENT: Comment below with your child/ren’s first name and last initial, age and his/her goal for memorizing the Qur’an.

Second 10 days of Ramadan [July 8 - 17, 2014] – Continue to memorize as many ayat/surahs with correct tajweed as possible, and be tested by an Islamic scholar or learned adult, called the Examiner. The Examiner must use certify on the bottom of the pledge form and acknowledge with his/her signature how many ayat/surahs the participant recited correctly.

OPTIONAL: Comment below with your child/ren’s progress so we can help motivate one another.

For the fifth year, we are excited to announce the 2014 Summer Islamic Reading Challenge! Highlights carried over from last year include (a) Acceptance of international participants* (prizes are only postal mailed to U.S. and Canadian residents, sorry), (b) ALL entries must be made electronically, and (c) We will host this program all summer long (July – August) alongside the Ramadan Qur’an-a-thon Sadaqah Drive because we found different participants enter both programs, and we want to encourage as much Islamic reading as possible.

Special Notes: (1) We realized we were off in the counting of our years. 2014 marks the 5th Annual Summer Islamic Reading Challenge, not 2013. (2) Certificates from last year were not sent yet, due to my family being overseas. Please accept my grave apologies. Nothing is worse than disappointing a child after hard work and effort were made. I promise their little package will be worth it! (3) We updated our book review submission form which automatically makes a blogpost. All it needs is my approval for me to hit “publish” and the review will be live. So, your kid reviewer will be published reviewer**. Unfortunately, through my over 11 moves in the past 5 years paper submissions became misplaced. If you have any copies from previous years, please feel free to email me. Glory be to Allah, any participant commented with emails on the announcement form (like this one) which allowed us to follow-up with our past participants. (4) The Islamic school or program that has the most student reviews and reading logs (with a minimum of 25 kid reviewers) submitted will win $100 in Islamic books donated to their library.**

At least one Islamic book must be read and one Islamic book review form must be completed. Reading additional Islamic books is highly encouraged.

While one prize will be given to all participants in the U.S., additional Islamic books, games, gift certificates, etc. will be selected based on different criteria of various sponsors or the host (i.e., age-appropriateness, gender-specfic products, etc.).

Limited to one additional award per child, per summer.

Parent/guardian’s email addresses will be placed on the American Muslim Mom email list.

The Founder/Owner/Publisher of AmericanMuslimMom.com and her family members are not eligible for prizes.

Islamic schools. You are allowed to list the full-time, weekend or summer Islamic academy that you are a student of (you may only list one school). For homeschoolers, we recommend that you register as a local co-op, study group (youth halaqah). Whichever school has the most participants will receive a group of Islamic Books donated to their libraries.

Deadline for submission: August 31, 2014.

Instructions:

Register your child/ren from Birth – Senior Year of college/university, during the Reading Challenge period of July 1, 2014 – August 31, 2014 (details below).

Children read books at their reading level, or are read-aloud to by an adult.

Complete one full Islamic Book Review, and list additional Islamic books read on the journal with all sections completed. A parent/guardian must sign the form when it is completed.

Only electronic submissions will be accepted this year.

Each participant will receive a certificate by October 15, 2014.

Special prizes will be awarded to different age or selected groups by criteria stated for that prize.

Deadline for submission: August 31, 2014.

How to Register:

[Purpose: We need to know the first name and age of each child to purchase the correct amount and appropriateness of prizes.]

Participant must be officially signed-up on or before August 31, 2014.

Participants cannot register until the Official Kick-Off date of July 1, 2014.

Comment below on this Official Kick-Off webpage with your child or children’s first name(s) and last initial(s), age(s), and gender(s).

Having problems? Email: contact<at>americanmuslimmom.com

About the Host: Ponn Sabra, The American Muslim Mom

Ponn Sabra is a bestselling author, columnist and digital publisher. She has been featured in the Associated Press, Washington Post, Fox, ABC News, TIME magazine and other major media outlets. Sabra is also an Islamic poet, homeschool mom of three online entrepreneurs, and a past administrator of an Islamic weekend school, and full-time Islamic elementary learning center and daycare.

AmericanMuslimMom.com was founded in 2009, after Ponn Sabra repositioned her mommy blog that she began in 2005. Since its inception AmericanMuslimMom.com has been the top ranked blog community for Muslim Moms in the world, and has worked with major brands such as CNN, Buick, Softsoap, Verizon, and Tropicana.

About the Sponsor: Muslim Toys and Dolls

What began as a humble collection of toys and dolls for Muslim kids, has now turned into one of the largest Islamic online stores for the entire Muslim family with over 2700 products. Covering all your Islamic educational needs with books and educational supplies, to home decor, Islamic clothing, and even halal snacks are available. The collection was compiled from manufacturers all over the Muslim world like Indonesia and throughout the Middle East, to non-Muslim world like Muslim companies in the United Kingdom, Canada and the U.S. The founder and owner even created a soft, hijab-wearing Muslim doll of Asian decent, fondly named “Little Ponn” after Ponn Sabra, the American Muslim Mom. Visit http://MuslimToysandDolls.com for halal shopping for the entire Muslim family!

** Disclosure: Publication of the book reviews is at the discretion of the American Muslim Mom team. Not all book reviews will be published. However, gifts will be given to every kid reviewer. Reasons for denial may or may not be disclosed.

** (1) The number of kid reviewers is what is determined, for example 27 kid reviews from 27 kid reviewers would win over 27 reviews from 25 kids. (2) Shall a homeschool co-op or group submit the most kid reviews, the program administrator will select a non-profit Islamic school, masjid, community center to receive the book donation prize.

]]>http://americanmuslimmom.com/5th-annual-summer-islamic-reading-challenge-2014/feed6Launching a “Quick Guide to Islam” book series — Leaving a Legacyhttp://americanmuslimmom.com/launching-a-quick-guide-to-islam-book-series
http://americanmuslimmom.com/launching-a-quick-guide-to-islam-book-series#respondFri, 13 Jun 2014 07:18:26 +0000http://americanmuslimmom.com/?p=10704SubhanAllah, Glory and Praise be to Allah the All-Mighty the All-Merciful!

I’m so excited to share some incredible news. One of the many things I have working behind the scenes is this new book series the “Quick Guide to Islam”. I’m presently taking a 30-Day Kindle Book Series Challenge. Our goal is to establish an entire book series based on our passions, then launch and publish at least its first book. Today marks the end of Week 1, or beginning of Week 2.

In another challenge, blogging buddies and I established our own little goals. Mine is to keep you informed of my progress in this ostentatious goal of mine. I’m learning so much, and typically I get so bogged down in completing my tasks, meeting deadlines, etc. that I don’t set time to blog and share the process with you.

So, here are some news: this is the one legacy I want to leave behind…this one Islamic book series.

It was a difficult decision, because I was torn between my passion (this project) or my daily life (another project: homeschooling kid entrepreneurs).

But, what helped me discover which one won, I asked myself “If I only have a limited time of the day, how would I spend it? Where would I gain the most pleasure and benefit from?” It was a no brainer. The benefits of writing this book series in the dunya (life on Earth) and the akhira (hereafter) are quite enormous.

And, the pleasure of the activity: Each time I write a word I get excited, I laugh, I contemplate, my stomach turns, my head spins, my heart jumps a beat…basically I’m experiencing every emotion possible through this project…and I want my readers to go through the same. After all this roller coaster ride of life is all about living life for the sake of Allah, and living life passionately as humans with all our emotions shared and hopefully tamed. hee hee

I have over 40 titles I have listed when I was brainstorming various topics I can write about in this series. Ya Rabb, may I see this project to its end. Ameen!

Not to be morbid, but life is SO precious and short. Too many people my age and younger are getting critically ill, or even dying. Parents with kids younger than mine. May Allah forgive their sins and gran them firdose (the highest level of jennah-heaven). Ameen.

So, I feel rushed to write this, but not so rushed that it’s quality is hindered.

I’m already 4,000 words into the opening book which is about one-third done. The goal of each Quick Guide is write between 4000-8000 words, which a maximum of 15,000-20,000 for the more in-depth books. Since this is the first opening book, I assume it’ll be one of the biggest.

My goal: Answer One Question per Book, the first obvious one being “What is Islam?” The second one will be “What is Ramadan?” due to its timing.

While my goal was a humble and possibly selfish one: (I want to write this book to leave my legacy before I die)–in the challenge member’s group and 2 other private business mentoring groups I’m in, I’m getting so much support, interest and feedback on this series–and, the vast majority of the members are non-Muslim. So, subhanAllah, this project is growing right before my eyes! In 2 of the groups with hundreds of members, I don’t know any Muslims there.

I’m humbled and given my sleep-deprived body and mind, I cannot even think about being pressured or nervous. I simply feel pressured by myself to keep writing.

Yes, Ramadan is right around the corner and I promise at least one ebook (if not the entire resource) for my Muslim Home Education program done–inshaAllah, God willing that will be done too. Please just keep me in your du’a. I’m doing this for me, you, and for the sake of Allah, and His approval and acceptance alone.

Curious what you think of the cover, the project and any input you can share.

However, I’d LOVE to hear what you’re doing with your precious time to serve Allah? What kind of legacy are you leaving, or want to leave behind and you’re working towards it? Or, what kind of legacy do you want to leave, but need help setting time aside to reach that goal? I’m SO curious!

I was given a set of bamboo cooking utensils and unfortunately burnt one in my 4-piece set. Fortunately, that set came with a gorgeous bamboo holder so both sets have a special place on my counter top.

Comparably, this 6-piece set has 2 straight-end spatula with and without slots which is perfect for stir frying, so I prefer that addition to this set. However, the bamboo is thinner and more course than my original set. Yet, nothing like cheap wooden spoons that frail or splinter in its due time.

Also, I didn’t get the slotted spoon. I got 2 of the fork-spoons, which works fine for me–I didn’t experience a noticeable lose.

I especially like how they are so easy to clean and do not stain like wooden utensils. I know these sets will last many years.

I use my bamboo utensils in every meal every day, by the stove top, in the oven, and as salad servers. I highly recommend all active food preparers and cooks to get this durable long-lasting highly-affordable set today.

I received this product for free using Tomoson.com. Regardless, I only recommend products or services I use personally and believe will be good for my readers. After all, lying is haram.

App Title: Arabic with Taha and MaryamAvailable: iPhone, IPad, iPod touch (requires iOS 5.1 or later), and on Google Play for Android phones and tablets. Size 18.8 MB. Reviewed on Android.Creators:ArrabeeRecommended age: 3+Introductory price: $1.99Creating a community: Become a Facebook Fan and follow them on Twitter.

Finding High-Quality Arabic and Islamic apps is extremely difficult

When the sister-team first contacted us, my girls and I were very skeptical since we’ve been contact by numerous Islamic and Arabic app developers over the years. Unfortunately, we’ve found that development typically stops for numerous reasons, such as poor-development of the app, poor market research and there’s no market interest, or the app is actually good but too expensive to maintain as the demand can’t sustain it.

As a result, my extended family and I have been sorrily disappointed WAY too many times. So many times, in fact, that I’ve had to write the developers back and share that my review would not be favorable and best if I declined to publish my views publicly.

I know there are reviewers you like to bash product and service providers, but that’s not me. However, as a lifelong entrepreneur, I’d appreciate thoughtful, private critiques shared instead of public bashing–business start ups succeed because of one’s failures and lessons learned. Of course, if anyone asks for my honest opinion I’d share.

So, the first thing we did was check out their sites and their video, all links above. I replied very favorably to the sisters and congratulating them on releasing such a robust first app. My girls and I were very impressed by the depth of thought put into the development of this app, and its high-quality.

Arabic with Taha and Maryam game app video demo

We Absolutely Love this Must-Have Learning-Arabic App!

Enjoying this Arabic-learning app

Keep in mind, my girls are extremely strong in Arabic: bordering or fully fluent and bilingual. They don’t have English accents, and recognized as native speakers if one only talks to them. They are equal or more advanced in reading, comprehension, and writing to their native-speaking peers in fusha Arabic, and only fall short in local dialects. They are skilled in numerous Arabic dialects of various countries, such as Palestinian, Egyptian, Saudi, Syrian, and Lebanese; and can communicate with any Arab even if he/she doesn’t know English.

After fajr (dawn prayer), JuJu (13yo) and I played a quick 5-10 minute game.

We selected our characters from the 4 adorable characters illustrated above. Wrote our names, and picked our levels. I obviously choose the easiest and she choose the hardest of 3 levels.

We were giddy, like kids, or silly older people as if we’d have kids to play with and compete. We were immediately wide awake from all the fun!

We concluded the game with 6-7 coins each (I purposefully got one wrong to see what would happen). We laughed as we journeyed through the path in the park, ooo’ed when we were able to move ahead some spaces (like going up a ladder in Chutes & Ladders), and ohh’ed when someone was sent back spaces (like sliding the chutes of Chutes & Ladders). We loved all the unique sounds and enjoyable extras.

At the end, we checked out the Parent progress board and saw which letters we mastered and where we left off.

Mid-day I promised the girls an ice-cream and show-break, but we had to play a game with all 4 players. The girls selected the remaining two adorable characters.

Unlike, the quick fun game; this game ended up being a long 20+ minute game that dragged on a bit. We loved experiencing new things in the park, and 10 maybe even 15 minutes may be acceptable, but over 20? GiGi and JoJo ran to their ice cream, and I even had JuJu spin my last few rounds.

It had nothing to do with learning the letters. It was due to the multiple times each one of us fell on the same space which caused each of us to go back multiple times. My recommendation would be to program to have less chance of this happening, and definitely not to do it multiple times to the same person over and over again. The object should focus on the fun, speed and interaction of learning the Arabic alphabet–not wondering if anyone will ever make it to the end of the game.

More specifically, because our first game was short, sweet, and fun; JuJu and I were eager to return for another game to check more letters off our progress card. However, that was not the case for GiGi and JoJo. They explained, that their younger non-Muslim, Muslim, Arabs and non-Arabs cousins and friends most likely wouldn’t want to play such a long game either. This programming is very easy, so this does not affect our overwhelming happiness with this app.

By FAR the BEST Arabic kids app we (all 4 of us) have ever downloaded! I WILL be keeping it on the phone, simply since it’s a great talking/intro piece for all our family and friends, Muslim and non-Muslim. My girls want to stress that this is a huge compliment, because I’m extremely selective of my app-space. I like having it as clean as possible–only usable apps, and we clean out nearly every other day.

I can picture myself playing with kids at the masjid, making an effort to play with my extended non-Muslim family and friends, especially the ones interested in learning Arabic. And, I know I’d have a ball playing with our Arab Muslim family too, because it’s that much fun!

I pray that Allah rewards the sister-team of Arrabee for their efforts, and this is obviously NOT a “cheap, quickie app” just trying to “cash in” on the Learn-Arabic market. Much time, effort, and care was put into the design and development of this app.

App Recommendations and Issues to be aware:

Program so players don’t fall on the same “send-back” space multiple times to assure a shorter time for every player to reach the end of the game

For picky Arabs, yes it’s obviously the speaker is Indian/Pakistani so expect an accent. However, her pronunciation of the Arabic letters are correct.

Level 3, the highest level, you will need a parent or someone who knows their Arabic letters (or learned it through this app) to “correct” the players’ recognition of the Arabic letters presented. The first level, players are “taught” the sight and pronunciation of the letter. Second level, the player is practicing by selecting the correct letter. Third level, the letter is presented, and the player must tell someone which letter it is, and that person marks if the player was correct or not. Parents must be aware of this upfront, because you wouldn’t want players self-correcting another player, for they may select “wrong” when he/she is right.

Available on the App Store for iPhone, iPad and iPod touch (requires iOS 5.1 or later) and on Google Play for Android phones and tablets. Size 18.8 MB. We’ve found that it gets bigger with more data collected from previous games.

Unique App Features:

No other app uses a board game to teach the Arabic alphabet – definitely a great interactive feature!

Up to four children of different ages can play at one time – rarely do you find this

3 levels make the learning process simple and easy

Learning is at the pace of each individual child

Artificial intelligence (really just good programming) is used so new letters are only added when your child has learnt the preceding letters

Letters are taught in a specially designed order taking into account – fantastic!

Normal speech-sound development

Visual features of individual letters

Flashcards with audio allow the look and sound of letters to be learned

Progress for up to 30 children can be saved – enough for an entire classroom!

Safe environment with no advertising, in-app purchases or collection of personal information

Moms With Apps member and COPPA compliant – not sure of this acronym…but, obviously looks official

NO advertisements in our apps.

NO connection to social media networks unless behind a “for parents” button.

NO location data can be tracked from the app

NO web hyperlinks to the internet from within the app

NO in app purchases

The Arrabee Story

In the founder, Femida’s words

I struggled to find good Arabic apps for my children(2 and 4 years old) so I thought I’d put my experience in Speech and Language therapy into use and make one myself. My sister and I wanted to make a high quality app that we would be happy to buy for our own children, so we hope you’ll like it too.

Femida lives in Southern California, and her sister, Farzana–a family doctor–lives in London. They’ve been working hard for many months to develop this app. As health professionals, they are aware that Internet marketing, business startup, and publicity are not their specialties. So, they eagerly appreciate any feedback and assistance in spreading the word. They have both been incredibly dear to work with–nothing but gracious and kind, mashaAllah God has willed. And, I pray you’ll help the sisters get this app onto every device possible.

5 iPhone Promo Codes to Giveaway

To help spread the word, we’d like to give away 5 iPhone Promo Codes!

Deadline date: Wednesday, June 11 at 11:59pm PST.

Entries: In the comments below, please share WHY you think your family with benefit from this app. For example, share your kids’ ages, level of Arabic, etc..

* Entries must be 18 years of age.

Winner Selection: The top most creative, fun, inspirational, funny or truly painful comment will win. Your dedication to spreading the world about this Review and Giveaway will also help us in selecting the seriousness of the entrant to win this product.

For every action you take, please comment below with your links–1 comment per action taken!

I can’t wait to hear your thoughts! I truly love this app!I think at the very least, every Muslim and every Arabic as a Second Language student (no matter what his/her age) should have this app!

]]>http://americanmuslimmom.com/app-review-arabic-with-taha-and-maryam-iphone-ipad-android-giveaway/feed3You Don’t Have to Be a Minimalist to Practice Sustainabilityhttp://americanmuslimmom.com/you-dont-have-to-be-a-minimalist-to-practice-sustainability
http://americanmuslimmom.com/you-dont-have-to-be-a-minimalist-to-practice-sustainability#respondSun, 25 May 2014 18:52:17 +0000http://americanmuslimmom.com/?p=10695Ashley rote us this informative guest post. Enjoy!

Some people have the idea that in order to promote a sustainable way of life, you need to conform to minimalism. While it’s true that you need to reduce your consumption of various resources, it doesn’t mean you need to throw on a robe and take a vow of silence. Cutting out the waste in your everyday life can do a great deal of good for yourself and the environment.

To live a “greener” existence means to remove those methods of waste from your lifestyle. It’s much easier than you may think given the innovative developments of today’s technology. In what ways can you reduce wasted resources in order to improve the future of your children?

1. Standby Mode - Many electronics have a function called “Standby” or “Hibernate” mode. This means that the device is still fully capable of functioning normally when needed, but will reduce its power consumption in the meantime. While this feature reduces the energy required for that particular device to remain on, it’s still consuming power. Although it is ideal for some devices to remain turned on, such as your phone, other devices don’t need to continue to consume power throughout the day and night when not in use. Shut off your monitors, computers, stereos and other components that don’t need to be activated. Hubby has such a fetish with this house rule.

2. Showers vs. Baths - A quick shower will consume far less water than filling the tub. Not only will this cut your water consumption by 50 to 60 percent depending on the length of your shower, but it is far cleaner for you to do so. In a bath, you are washing filth from your body only to soak in the materials. When you stand up, some of that grime will collect back onto your body. The same can’t be said about a shower. You can reduce the water use even further if you utilize an aerated shower head. These devices infuse air bubbles into the water reducing how much you use at any given moment. It takes less water to become clean than what many people believe. How many people do you even knows who takes daily baths anyways? However, occasional therapeutic bubble baths are a must.

3. CFL and LED - In many areas of the country, incandescent bulbs are being prohibited for sale. Although the CFL and LED alternatives are more expensive upfront, the cost over time is greatly diminished. An incandescent has an average lifespan of 2,000 hours. Most CFL and LED bulbs can easily surpass 24,000 hours of use. This is aside from the fact that the bulbs utilize more than 80-percent less power to operate for the same amount of light. In the long run, you’ll save a great deal of money in replacement costs as well as energy bills. We changed our bulbs many years back, and we’ve lived in four houses with the same bulbs–they screw in, out, package and travel quite nicely, subhnAllah, Glory be to Allah.

4. Healthier Diet - Although you may believe that healthy eating is more expensive, consider the fact that many of us eat more than proper portion sizes. If you were to monitor your eating habits, you could save a great deal of money while providing the means for someone else to eat. This isn’t denying yourself the pleasures of good foods, but more of allowing yourself to become healthier through logical eating practices. If everyone were to eat less and stick to proper portion sizes at meal time, there would be far less of a demand on agricultural needs. The truth is, more natural, healthier foods ARE more delicious! Get away from processed foods as much as you in, inshaAllah, God willing.

5. Solar Powered Charging Bases - We all love our electronic toys and gadgets. Many manufacturers are developing methods that will allow you to charge some of those electronics regardless of where you are. Instead of plugging your phone into the wall socket, you can use the power of the sun to recharge smartphone and tablet batteries for relatively cheap. Some units can be as low as $20 and even less. Not only does this save a small amount of power coming across the grid to power your gadget, but it’s quite handy to have one of these on hand should you be out in the middle of nowhere when your phone battery dies. Portable solar panels have been on our list for years now–reminder Ponn: get them now!

6. Rechargeable batteries - Instead of buying battery after battery for the various electronics in your home, one set of rechargeable units could be used for years to come. Remote control devices for televisions, game systems, flashlights and more can quickly deplete batteries if they are in constant use. Not only will this save money, but it will reduce the amount of toxic refuse you are adding from depleted units. If you’re handy at electronics, you could even make a stop at your local hardware store and build a solar charging unit for those batteries and keep your gizmos functional without requiring power from the grid. Another thing we’ve had for years, about half of our stuff using rechargeable batteries–AA at least.

7. Wasted Hot Water - Being on vacation for a few days can be a great way to recharge your own personal battery. However, your water heater is still burning gas or using electricity to heat water that no one is using. If you’re uneasy about shutting down the water heater, you can at least turn the temperature dial to an extremely low level to reduce the costs of heating. Tankless water heaters can make an impact in this aspect of home life as they only produce heated water on demand. Instead of keeping the liquid inside a tank at a certain temperature day-in and day-out, these units only activate when the faucet is turned on. Hmm…never thought of this little tip. Did you?

8. Cloth Diapers - If you have a baby, you can save an absurd amount of money by using cloth diapers and washable inserts. A single set of these diapers could cost about the same as a box of name brand disposables, but they could last for years instead of just a single use. This could greatly save on the amount of trash your baby can produce not to mention the financial gains of not buying diapers every week. Since you can toss these diapers in with a load of whites, the cleaning aspect really doesn’t impact your water usage either. Once your child grows out of them, these cloth items make great rags for the garage or cleaning around the house. I’d love to know who in the American Muslim Mom community uses cloth diapers. We haven’t had diapers in our house for over a decade now, but if we did–this is something I totally recommend and would at least try.

There are many ways you can promote sustainability in your home without saying good bye to your lifestyle. Just a few changes here and there could make a great difference in providing a more green existence. The only real difficult adjustment I may see is monitoring your eating habits. However, you may be amazed at how well you’ll feel if you do.

Please share if you learned anything new from this guest post, or if you have any additional tips to share!

Always curious, Ashley Hardway is constantly learning and passionate about sharing what she learns with others. Based in Houston, Texas, she loves to help families grow stronger, help their environments and communities, and keep moving forward! Check out @NannyLady on Twitter to connect and find out more.

]]>http://americanmuslimmom.com/you-dont-have-to-be-a-minimalist-to-practice-sustainability/feed0Argan Oil aka Liquid Gold or Moroccan Oil: Review and Coupon Codehttp://americanmuslimmom.com/argan-oil-aka-liquid-gold-or-moroccan-oil-review-coupon-code
http://americanmuslimmom.com/argan-oil-aka-liquid-gold-or-moroccan-oil-review-coupon-code#respondFri, 09 May 2014 23:50:01 +0000http://americanmuslimmom.com/?p=10659Note: I received the book and product free of charge for my review.

This book is an easy-read, all-inclusive, highly-detailed, educational, concise book for the amazing all-natural, organic oil I never heard of until its recommended product was introduced to me: Argan Oil! Ana Veleri writes as if she’s a girl-friend raving about this nearly-miraculous “Liquid Gold” while sharing its history, origin, and current uses in a fun, upbeat, very engaging tone.I read this book in two-sittings, due to time; not for lack of interest. I held off writing this book review for some time, because I wanted to experience first-hand at least one, if not more, of its benefits. It is now nearly three-weeks since I introduced Argan oil by BebeLush to my skin, hair and nails. Every single advice I followed, I saw immediate results, from dry elbows and heels healed, to detangling or strengthening hair, and moisturizing my terribly dry face after spending a week in the deserts of Las Vegas. Argan oil is not greasy like olive oil, doesn’t coagulate like coconut oil, and doesn’t have the smell of tea tree oil. To say I’m impressed is a vast understatement!

I love the line “The Liquid Gold works both as a beautician and dermatologist, caring for all your skin’s and hair’s needs, and that’s exactly what makes it your must-have beauty product in any season or time of the day.” I was skeptical of this line while reading this book, but I am a Argan oil believer now. I have my bottle in the bathroom cabinet and a trail sized bottle in my purse.

This natural oil is unlike any other in my medicine cabinet or kitchen pantry–it has a rare ability to repair, restore, renew, prevent and heal skin, hair and nails! You owe it to yourself to at least try this product. However, I highly recommend reading this book first to fully appreciate the value of it.

A mom of three tweens, they all appreciated that the author shared who’s using Argan oil today. Read the book and find out who!

$10 Off Bebe Lush All-Natural Argan Oil Coupon Code: OON28EUK

Virgin Argan Oil is very hard to come by. With more people becoming aware of its incredible usages and success; more companies are using the term “Argan oil” and only putting a mere percentage of the real extracted oil in the final product. This is NOT the case for Bebe Lush products. This is the real-deal.

6-Weeks Argan Oil Update

Truth be told, I am 41 years young–and, lovin’ it! The truth is, when I was overseas; stress, worry, harsh water and HARSH life really took a toil on my skin, hair, and nails–it has on all my girls and hubby as well. So, when I returned to the States I vowed to pamper myself and go all-natural and as organic as possible. I knew I wanted to change all my skin care and makeup as well.

After a month in snowstorms (8-feet of snow later) in CT, then arriving in drought-dry L.A. (Los Angeles, CA), I went to a local beauty store. I was SO proud and honored to be a recipient of an esthetician who cares about my skin and not the products she was pushing. She said I was extremely dehydrated, and to buy any products now; for sure, I’d have to buy new ones in 6-8 weeks because my skin will ultimately accumulate to this region over time. So, I left with a natural moisturizer and determined to drink more water.

This is the same time I was introduced to Argan oil. I was pleased with my first 3-5 days of using it–yes, I saw near immediate results. But, I wanted to try longer–my book review was written about 3-weeks later. Now, it’s almost 2 months, and here’s some thoughts:

When I arrived back home, for the first time in YEARS, I was commented “Oh, these are your 3 daughters?” whereas for years, I’ve always been my girls’ big sister or simply their sister who obviously drives and has money to spend and be the “cool sister”.

The Saturday after I used Argan Oil daily (I started on Monday), a stranger said “you’re related right…sisters?” My daughter saw my face lit up, beaming actually, as I proudly said ‘No, she’s my oldest daughter.” ‘What!?” In total shock–the very reactions I USED to get.

Then, I did something drastic this week to my hair–it’s recommended to use Argan oil ideally after a fresh hair cut, so you can see the fullest benefits. Well–OhMi! WHAT a difference! All my extended family ranted and raved how I look, how young I look–like, if not younger than my baby brother 10 years younger than me.

Also, this week my girls have been transferring all our family video tapes into digital versions, and we’re moving a dozen years of pictures to our local cloud network. My girls can’t stop praising me that I look SO much better than 10 years ago–Mama, you’re skin looks so much better (I broke out with each pregnancy, but there was a terrible year when I was highly medicated for my brain disorder and had awful breakouts)…”Mom, Your Hair! Mommy, you’re shining and you look a LOT younger!”

They’d show me picture after picture, ripping me apart.

I laughed with my sister in law–it’s definitely NOT fun to get complimented this way–when they’re old enough to have personal opinions as to what is attractive and not, when all those years they were blinded by my love for them…don’t know which is worse. Having them believe all these years that I was beautiful when according to them, I wasn’t (my word)…or finding out that after 41 years one can truly start glowing and shining to her fullest beauty…I’d like to believe the latter. MashAllah!

The truth is I told them as my late mommy, their gramma always says “Beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder”. Yeah, Yeah, Mom…we know. And, MashaAllah, God has willed…we’re all beautiful…blah blah…whatever. Come on Mom…you’re going to look at this picture and NOT say you look better!?”

Geez–they’re SO kind, huh? So, I laughed…perplexed at the odd compliment.

Laughing at one’s own aging process with grace and acceptance

As time passed and each ugly picture surfaced this week with a “MOM…Ya gotta see yourself here!” Mind you–they also picked out horrifying pictures of themselves to laugh out (Like mommy/gramma always says and I carry on “Laugh at yourself first, so when others laugh…they’re laughing WITH you, not AT you!“)

So, we laughed.

Then, just last night when my girlfriend asked me about my review–I yelled to the girls from the other room…”NO! It’s Argan Oil!” “What?!” And, I started saying…in addition to the loads of water I drink now…NO makeup whatsoever–even at home for hubby (because, frankly my girls and hubby believe I look that good, mashaAllah)…the difference in these pictures in Argan Oil!

Now, I don’t have pictures over the past year, but everyone notice the wear and tear on my slightly aging face, skin, hair and nails…and the truth is, only because I’m Asian, I never aged more than 25-30 or mid-30s (my girls, nieces and nephews all reminded me that I look the youngest of all the aunts, though I’m the oldest by 4-18 years…again, it’s unfortunate, they have hard lives, hard water, and hard genes–all of them admit to it openly)…

But, I like to believe that I’m healthier and younger-looking due to healthy eating, exercise and natural products–not all the gunk everyone thinks makeup and skin care is supposed to do to make you look better.

I am NOT writing this to be arrogant…I mean, come on I’m listening to insults of my years’ past, I’m just putting things in perspective and admitting that I look OLDER! Feel older and want to slow down the process. I don’t take shame in aging, I thank Allah for the wisdom I gain each living day and sleeping night.

So, with all this–I believe Argan Oil along with more water (drinking), more regular high-impact exercise, a happy haircut, and brutally-honest family members to live with me through ugly and not–my life is better, healthier and ultimately happier.

My last note: Just Give Argan Oil a try! I’m curious about anyone Else’s experiences. I have yet to read a bad review…is this REALLY Liquid Gold? For me, it’s very close.

P.S. The ordering process was awesome. Customer service superb. My friend answers her Amazon questions immediately, ordering said it’d arrive in a week, I got it in 2-days, and it was wrapped with much care, given the glass bottle. As shown in the picture, there’s bubble-wrap in the cardboard box which is wrapped in bubble-wrap and put inside a bubble-wrap envelope.

]]>http://americanmuslimmom.com/argan-oil-aka-liquid-gold-or-moroccan-oil-review-coupon-code/feed0A Muslim Mom’s Start-up Kit to Creating Passive Income Onlinehttp://americanmuslimmom.com/a-muslim-moms-start-up-kit-to-creating-passive-income-online
http://americanmuslimmom.com/a-muslim-moms-start-up-kit-to-creating-passive-income-online#respondMon, 28 Apr 2014 22:44:22 +0000http://americanmuslimmom.com/?p=10649SubhanAllah, Glory be to Allah, my debut Open Phones was a huge success! InshaAllah, God willing, I’ll share more details of the day in another post, since I’m considering making it a regular thing. I actually received four email and even a text requests made after the Open Phone hours.

SubhanAllah, Glory be to Allah, each and every sister I spoke to were Homeschooling Muslim Moms! Like WOW!

AND, each and every single one of us, at some point of our conversation, discussed their interest in learning more how to make money blogging, online and creating a more steady residual income, also known as “passive income” streams.

I made a goal to get a quick step-by-step Passive Income eBook written and launched before the month was up, and Alhumdulilah, Praise and Glory be to Allah, and accomplished my goal! And, fortunately, instead of just writing one eBook, it turned into two eBooks, a Checklist, Workbook, Planning Calendar AND Resource Directory! Both eBooks are fully illustrated and written to compliment one another.

After all, I’m just one humble lil’ ‘ol Muslim mom blogger with my set of experiences. So, the more I worked on this eBook, the more I thought about sharing other successful ideas of my colleagues and online buddies.

Even though I increased the content multi-fold, the price is remaining that of a single eBook $17 rather then other online kits we sell for $27-$47.

http://americanmuslimmom.com/a-muslim-moms-start-up-kit-to-creating-passive-income-online/feed0How To Get Children To Help With Chores [Infographic]http://americanmuslimmom.com/how-to-get-children-to-help-with-chores-infographic
http://americanmuslimmom.com/how-to-get-children-to-help-with-chores-infographic#respondMon, 21 Apr 2014 14:34:32 +0000http://americanmuslimmom.com/?p=10595I’m happy to publish this adorable and informative infographic. SubhanAllah, Glory be to Allah, I never had issues with chores when the girls were young; largely due in part to all the suggestions made in this infographic. The only thing we never needed, desired, or opted for were “family meetings”. We’re a very vocal family and communication has never been a problem. Also, we’ve always instilled family breakfasts and dinners, so our days revolve around prayer, then family meals.

For new and younger parents of young kids, this infographic is definitely one of those images that I’d say “I wish I came up with that!”

As for my girls–we definitely have an issue with some unwanted chores…and I discovered that the #1 reward that works is simply “spending more time with Mommy”. I’ve tried money, outings, rewards (gifts) and nothing motivates them more than offering more personalized private time or simply just sitting down and being present with them. Yes, even though we’re together 24-7 as we homeschool and I stay at home, according to each and every one of them; I do NOT spend enough time with them just relaxing, enjoying a show, sitting down or even learning one of their relaxing hobbies like knitting and crocheting…I’m always on the go from fajr until late night. So, I’m humbled that they find my time as a reward worth working far, because time is replaceable…and, the time of motherhood (with them living under our roof) is even more limited and precious!

Please share your family’s chores issues below. Do you have problems? What are they? Did this infographic offer any new ideas or reminded you to the forgotten goodies? What rewards work for your kids? Have any ideas to share? Please share below.

]]>http://americanmuslimmom.com/how-to-get-children-to-help-with-chores-infographic/feed0The Qualities of an Ideal Muslim Mom [INFOGRAPHIC]http://americanmuslimmom.com/the-qualities-of-an-ideal-muslim-mom-infographic
http://americanmuslimmom.com/the-qualities-of-an-ideal-muslim-mom-infographic#commentsFri, 18 Apr 2014 15:55:24 +0000http://americanmuslimmom.com/?p=10581In striving for Simplicity, we as Muslim Moms must focus on our primary roles and responsibilities dictated to us so lovingly by the Qur’an and the Sunnah of our beloved Prophet Muhammad, may Allah’s peace and blessings be upon him. In light of keeping our priorities simple, I made this quick infographic inspired by a template provided by Image Monthly. JuJu helped me, of course. Together it took about half-hour, not including the text which is drawn from my “Balancing Life as a Muslim Mom” free ebook.

I’m so inspired by this infographic, myself, subhanAllah (Glory and Praise be to Allah), that I’m printing it out and posting it in my kitchen wall. InshaAllah, God willing, you will feel the same way and follow my lead.

Take your part in this Sadaqah Jariya (On-Going Charity)

Please share this infographic. As you may know, the written word for the sake of God, is one of the three forms of sadaqah jariya. So, whether you like, share, tweet, pin, or post this on your blog or website, you’re taking your part in making dawaa (education of Islami). In doing so, I ask that you kindly link to this blogpost. Jazaka Allahu Khair, May Allah reward you for your good deed.

I’d love to know what you think about this infographic, its design and/or content. Please share your thoughts below!

]]>http://americanmuslimmom.com/the-qualities-of-an-ideal-muslim-mom-infographic/feed2Eat Healthy Play Hard FREE Giftshttp://americanmuslimmom.com/eat-healthy-play-hard-free-gifts
http://americanmuslimmom.com/eat-healthy-play-hard-free-gifts#respondSat, 05 Apr 2014 19:53:23 +0000http://americanmuslimmom.com/?p=10489 GiGi, my 12 year old daughter, her sisters and I published our first kindle book “Children Can Cook Cookbook: My First Smoothie Recipe Book” last year. This book is our top bestsellers with over 15,000 downloads to date. It is now GiGi’s series for healthy kid cookbooks. I don’t want you to miss out on all our Healthy gifts. So, please subscribe today! When you do, you’ll get all these Free Yummy Gifts:

Making smoothies is a great way to introduce kids to the joy of cooking and exploring various healthy foods. Therefore, we’re offering Chapter 2 (Citrus Smoothie Recipes) of our number one bestseller (over 16,000 downloads!) as a free bonus! Login today and enroll to get 7-days of exclusive emails, each day with a new Citrus Smoothie Recipe! All smoothie recipes were made by kids for kids.

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Special Report: Top Reasons Drinking with a Straw is Healthy (And Fun) For You.

FREE Children Can Cook Cookbook #1: My First Smoothie Recipe Book Coloring PagesEnjoy these fun coloring pages from your kids favorite cookbook! Print out all six pictures of the characters from the Children Can Cook Cookbook #1: My First Smoothie Recipe Book.

In celebration of our rebranding and relaunch of 2014, I thought it’d be awesome to open up my phone lines and welcome a call from you! My circle of Muslim Mommies around the world.

My business coach, Kelly McCausey, has been doing this the last couple of years and it’s something I always wanted to try; but, we’ve never been stable enough to make it happen. After being overseas and traveling the NorthEast for eight-months, I know I there’s lots that I need to catchup on. What better way to see what I missed, or to find out how I can make up from missed time; but, to hear it straight from you!?

I’ve missed you, as I pray you’ve missed me. And, I am fully aware, I am NOT the easiest person to get in touch with; especially over the phone. So, here’s your chance to call me and ask, tell, or share whatever YOU want for one 15-minute block.

Topics to Consider:

Want some feedback or advise? I’m opening my phones to discuss any topic I write about, such as halal homemaking, homeschooling, running an online business, traveling the world, preparing for Hajj or Umrah with a family of five, even kindle publishing, Muslim/non-Muslim family relations, Islam 101, or even making sure your girls get enough time playing with boy-toys. I’m here for you!

Want to in introduce yourself and your business? Have a fabulous idea to partner or want me to consider a possible Joint Venture? Give me a call!

Always wanted to politely share a kind critique of my work? writing? style? tone? format? I’m ready for you. I promise to politely listen to your sincere, genuine, feedback on the one condition that you do it out of sisterly love; which means it’s to better us both in this life and the hereafter by sharing some thoughtful criticism because it’s the sisterly thing to do to protect us both from Hellfire. Okay?

Just want to say “Hi!”, share some news, or chit chat. Love my writing style or agree with my mission in life so much that you always thought we’d be good friends. Well, here’s you chance for us to get to know each other better.

Call with NO strings attached. I will NOT be selling anything–geez, how tacky would that be!?

You will be given 15-minute block of time to discuss the topic of your choice.

I will allow five of those 15-minute blocks to be pre-scheduled; so you can guarantee a spot! To guarantee a spot, click on this link to schedule. Only five-people will be able to pre-schedule time.

All callers mustcomplete this form BEFORE calling; even if you don’t schedule. This way I have an idea what we’re going to talk about. After all, I’ll be taking 12 back-to-back calls on various topics. So, I want to use our time as efficiently and effectively as possible.

If I am on the other line, PLEASE leave a detailed phone message with a return phone number and/or skype ID and I will call you back once I am free. Please don’t be shy; if you were courageous enough to call and I just happen to be on the other line, you’re number will be logged into my caller ID. So, don’t let me sit and wonder why you made one big-step and backed-down sheepishly. If I was THAT unapproachable, I’d never open my phone lines like this, right?

Time-slots and phone calls will be taken on a first-come first-served basis.

I can’t wait to get to know you better! Grab your phone of ring me on skype during my first Open Phones day! Please fill out the form here. All information will be kept private, just between you and me. Like the idea? I’d love to know what you think below!

Okay…so, you see this new Category sitting front and center on my Menu bar. After nine years I finally put the word “Fashion” up. But, if you browse all our past posts it includes clothes and accessories.

I’m fully aware that this category will be home to much discussion, because I’ve often backed down on the “What IS Islamic fashion?” debates, although I’ve been asked over and over again for my opinions and thoughts.

Those who know me, know fully well, that I’ll be the first to walk away from a debate. I don’t like arguing for the sake or arguments, and I have NO ambition to try to convince people to see things exactly as I do.

However, IF I feel strongly about something, I did my research, and I’m convicted in my decision, thought or ideals; I will not back down or be persuaded differently.

I WILL almost always hear your perspective, respectfully, as long as I’m given the same amount of respect and time to share my perspective. I will NOT enter into a discourse of anxiety, anger, frustration, or forthrightness for the sake of anything! Because, it’s not worth it!

My duty is to Allah, my husband, my girls, and then extended family, ummah, and community–in that order.

Wow–what an intro to a little topic like “fashion”, huh?

Well, here’s the deal with Modest Sea. My girls and I admired their products and company name since they launched. Isn’t it a clever play on words “Modest SEA”?

We’ve been in conversations with them since they launched, but my travels never allowed me to be consistent or in-one-place to give them the attention that I believe they deserve.

So, here are my

Criteria and Conditions of Wearing Modest Sea Swimwear

Modest Sea went into great lenghts in finding the best material possible for their products. This is probably the number one reason why I stand by their products. We’ve seen other companies try to enter this market and fail in our strict eyes for the following reasons: it’s too stiff and sweaty, almost like scuba gear, or it’s too flimsy and cheap that it flies or clings to the body making the whole purpose of being modest mute.

To date, neither of my hijabi daughters nor I will ever wear a Modest Sea swimwear in public–period. However, we would consider wearing it in front of close-extended female family or friends in a closed, secured women swimming facility only. Extended female family members, and women who are acquaintenances of any religion are not considered close enough to wear this in front of, as they are not trusted.

We do not consider pant-legs acceptable in any means (swimwear or clothing) in front of any non-mahram men. Pants* (fitted or baggy) are only excepted in front of mahram men (those they cannot marry, such as close blood-related males of father, grandfathers, and uncles). Pants cannot resemble male pants by any means, as well. Hence, any form of a burkini, full-body with hijab swimwear is unacceptable in public.

My non-hijabi tween would wear a non-hijab full-body swimwear, if they had their size. Since they don’t have kid-sizes this too is unlikely.

The mid-tigh swimwear is ideal swimwear for non-hijabi girls. This is the type of clothing my girls wore when they were learning how to swim when they were before 7 years old. The only wore typical Western bathing suits as babies and toddlers. Therefore, I highly recommend that Modest Sea ventures into the kids and especially tween sizes. Sizes 6 – 16.

You’re probably wondering what my girls wear then, huh? We only had one instance of swimming in a closed setting since they became hijabis. And, hubby threw them in the pool fully clothed, hijabis, jackets, skirts/dresses with pants and socks nothing but their faces and hands showing.

This is why dreaming for our own home pool is so big for the girls and I. I haven’t swam since our home with a pool, seven years ago…it’s well-missed; yes–but, we choose this little sacrifice until the settings and timing is ideal for us.

My little one had all her clothes on too, which includes full dress/skirt and pants underneath. Fully covered arms. Only exposing her head and hands. She took off her socks before she jumped it freely.

This is why point #1 is important to us. The jeans and jean jackets were extremely hard to swim in comfortably.

Recommending Modest Sea Swimwear to Non-Muslim Mommies and Girls

Given the above conditions in which I fully support Modest Sea and their products, I believe all the Modest Mommies and Girls who read this blog who are not Muslim should rally together and definitely purchase this high-quality, long-lasting alternative modest swimwear.

I have non-Muslim family and friends, who when I sent them to this site, applaud their efforts and expertise for they themselves are mommies and girls who don’t want to show unnecessary amounts of skin just to swim.

We know there are many mommies and girls who desire alternative swimwear options, and not give up on the quality and durability of the material. Modest Sea offers this alternative.

A note on Muslims in public swimming pools

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]]>http://americanmuslimmom.com/modest-sea-exclusive-modest-swimwear-modest-mommy-girl/feed2We Need More Girls Playing Boy-Toyshttp://americanmuslimmom.com/need-girls-playing-boy-toys
http://americanmuslimmom.com/need-girls-playing-boy-toys#respondSat, 29 Mar 2014 21:44:46 +0000http://americanmuslimmom.com/?p=10510I know we’re a bit biased, but I’m also fully aware that we’re a rarity among all our peers, and society-at-large, as well.

Since I’m a biologist by trade, hubby is a biomedical engineer, Papa (their grandfather/my Daddy) is a retired mechanical engineer and Gramma was a chemist, our three girls were exposed to all things mechanical, electronic, handy, and; I guess, “boyish”.

Being exposed to hot wheels, remote control cars and helicopters, computer hardware and software, etc. developed all my girls into extremely self-confident, strong STEM (Science, Technology, Engineering and Math) students; mashaAllah, God has willed. We didn’t get these toys by choice, but out of availablity in my parent’s home, and ours. My girls were exposed to “real” tools, “unsafe” electrnoic wires, or wireless gadgets their whole lives.

With much supervision, no one ever got majorly injured, subhanAllah, Glory and Praise be to Allah. It’s not about the question of being dangerous, it’s about giving girls exposure. It’s not a question about will they become “boy-ish” “toy-boys” it’s about making sure they are equal or better than their own peers–which happens to a world filled with boys.

Since my girls are now 13, 12 and 10 years old, most of these “boy” toys were not marketed or re-purposed to attract girls; like they are now. But, having been overseas for so long, out of curiousity because we saw tons of youtube videos passing around the need to get rid of “blue/boy aisles” and “pink/girl aisles” at the toy store…we ventured into a local toy store the other day.

WOW! My girls and I NEVER remember toy aisles to be so segregated. It was much more intergrated just a decade ago–but, then again, there wasn’t so many TOYS just a decade ago.

My point is, girls are lacking in MANY necessary academic and life skills, simply because they are not being exposed to the tinkering, building, hand-eye-coordination type toys widely available to boys.

Rather than simply change colors of those toys to attract girls, we; as educated mommies and daddies must take it as our responsibility to expose our girls to these disciplines, skills, talents and “jobs” within the toy and tools industry.

Growing up, my girls had no domination of boy-toys or girl-toys in our home and we’re only a girl-home. Our house is filled, even today, with dolls, clothing and hair accessories as well. Having a bit of everything, makes a well-rounded well-educated, well-trained daughter. It helps them develop the much needed problem-solving skills, challenges them to be creative by building with their hands/tactile skills, and makes them more competitive academically in the short-term and professionally in the long-run.

As Muslim moms, my girls are equally well-trained, not out of obligation, but out of desire to be devoted homemakers who cook, clean, sew, iron, craft a nice home decoration, etc. But, without hubby in the house they can also not be fearful to climb, crawl, get-dirty, build, take-apart, fiddle around, make mistakes and errors and learn to grow from their own mistakes.

So, exposing our Muslim girls to boy toys makes them more educated moms to educate their kids, and better homemakers for their husbands too. It doesn’t make them any less girly; it just makes them more of a girl–proud and lovingly longing for Allah’s pleasure, as well as the approval and pleasure of their parents.

What more can we ask from our girls? STEM (Science. Engineering, Techonolgoy and Math) are a necessity in life–don’t hold them back! Give girls boy-toys!

So, what boy-toys have your girls played with? Love? Can’t live without? Your girl(s) don’t own a single boy toy? Why not? Please share in great detail below, or write a blogpost and link to this one so we can see how you handle these issues in their education and upbringing.