I don’t understand destination weddings. You don’t really live there, that isn’t your real church, and as beautiful as it may be, that wedding will have no relationship to your married life. I don’t see how you could evaluate your frame of mind toward the vows from an exotic locale. I know other people think of weddings this way, but to me, its very important to be as authentic and grounded as possible in all contractually binding events.
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