He brought it up, but he did not "ask till I gave in", so I voted we both talked about it. He brought it up and left it at that. I considered it, and decided I was open to trying it. We talked about it together a lot first.

When my husband and I were first dating, he randomly blurted out, "Would you ever have anal?!" I thought for a moment and said sure, I'm up for almost anything. We didn't try it right then and still don't do it that often since the time just never seems to be right but we both do enjoy it.

My Man was the first one to mention it. BUT, it wasn't "he asked until I gave in"

That implies that women only perform receptive anal sex as a way of "giving in."

My Man and I worked on it for more than a month, making sure we were both enjoying ourselves the entire time, until we were able to have totally enjoyable mutually satisfying anal sex.

It was originally his idea. I didn't "give in." I gave it serious thought, and we worked it out, as we both wanted it. I don't see having ANY type of consensual sex as "giving in." It really degrades the experience to think this way, IMO.

I enjoy anal sex and had anal with former partners. When my present b/f suggested it, I was very hesitant as he has a big head which presented a challenge for both of us. With patience, communication and tons of lube; now awesome for both of us. But I need a good warmup like wearing and playing with a butt plug.

Somehow unequal as when I peg him, he chooses the dil that is the most comfortable for him at the time.

We honestly would love to know something. The anus is kind of "right there" next to the scrotum in guys and the vagina in woman. Do folks that really have zero interest in anal sex kind of just avoid that area completely? How can you not, even if not aiming for it, fail to occassionally rub, caress...etc, the anal opening, if nothing else, just from OTHER kinds of sex? If that happens, do folks who don't want anything anal just "ignore" the touch, or pretend it didnt happen?

I had bad anal experience in the past, so of course when my current partner asked I was like "no way"..Eventually, after ten long years, I gave in and now I enjoy anal because he is gentle and listens to me.

I have always been the one to suggest it first .I like anal as long as its with someone im interested in and feel completely comfortable with.As the only was to enjoy it is to be relaxed I found.O and ALWAYS use protection with anal