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Wednesday, 31 October 2018

Relationship Troubles We Don't Often Talk About

There’s
a lot of common
relationshipproblems
out there, ones we see all the time on those agony aunt advice pages
in the newspapers and the magazines, as well as strewn all over talk
boards on the internet. But there’s always going to be some dark
sides to dating and relationships, one’s we have no idea how to
combat because there’s simply little to no advice out there on how
to handle ourselves!

And
this can be incredibly frustrating and lonely, and it’s something
we need to think about more. So in order to try and get something out
there that could help the millions of people who are having unlisted
relationship troubles, here’s a couple of main problems to think
about.

Looking
back on your relationship might make you realise you’re more in
love with the memories than you are each other, and that’s scary to
try and face. (Source)

You
Don’t Want to Talk to Each Other

Of
course we hear about communication
issueswithin
relationships, but sometimes there comes a point where we don’t
want to talk to each other at all, and thus the house is left silent,
the two of you have nothing to say to one another, and you’ve got a
very negative atmosphere within a relationship that should only ever
leave you feeling positive.

So
you don’t talk, you’re left feeling very cold towards one
another, and then your relationship just breaks down naturally from
there - usually we hear about one partner being far more willing to
strike up a conversation than the other, but when neither of you has
the energy, it’s clear a major change is needed. And that’s
another scary
thingto
face - your heart isn’t in it, so maybe the relationship isn’t
right for you.

Trust
Issues in the Bedroom

It’s
not so much the idea of sleeping with your partner that has you
feeling a little blue, but the lack of trust and intimacy involved. A
lot of the time we can simply go through the motions, and think that
that’s all there is to it, especially if one partner is happier
than the other and all you want is to see them happy. But you
shouldn’t let yourself settle for this, no matter how normal it
seems.

Sometimes,
a bit of Sex
Counsellingwill
be required, as sex can be a big thing in a relationship for many
different reasons. And if you need help, especially from the outside
of your relationship, you shouldn’t be shy about seeking it out.
It’s available for you to use, so make sure you bring it up with
your partner - you should face intimate and complex problems like
these together.

What
kind of relationship problems seem common to you? What do your
friends complain about the most? Relationship issues can come from
anywhere and be to do with everything, just make sure you’re
talking about it. Just because it doesn’t seem normal doesn’t
mean you don’t deserve any help with it.