Although I'm trying sha when it comes to women but my question is how do I get to the level that I'm this good like meeting and mating a Girl under 24 hrs, making girls fight over me and other crazy stuffs? @AnswerMachine

Check your age and ask yourself which of the above you belong. Even if you don't belong to number 2 and 3, you should try and belong to number 1 or 4.

If you don't belong to any of the levels above, then no woman will waste her time fighting over you in 24 hours. But, don't give up. Keep improving your life and getting better. A time will come when you won't need to try — it will just happen.

@Answermachine Why Do i find myself slow in making girls fall for me. I somtyms hear stories about some guys knowing a lady Today and in less than one week they have bed the girl and she is head over hills for them. Infact a guy bed a girl the same day he met her. What are the possible Reasons i am not like them

@Answermachine I want to understand this very well. I once approach a 100L gal in my department during night class, I came n sat near her use familiarity to open her. I told her that she has small small eyes. She laugh hard. Also told her that i can c fire in her head. Then i switch back to talk abt sch. If she had Test the next day she said no

I wasnt going to allow her go away like that so i pretended i was going thesame road with her by saying i want to eat food, we then continue gisting even though it was getting boring cos i was talkin abt reading.

On reaching my destination i collected her phone numba by writing it at the back of my handout after my phone refuse to switch on. I then went back after she was far. Suddenly i cudnt remember her name so i save it as small eyes.

The next day i met her @ night class, I then ask her for her name she told me evelyn. But when I dialed her numba it was telling me not available till Today. By chance i never knew i knw her broda until he showed me her Picture n askin me if i knw her. He told me her name was Cynthia. That is when I knw this girl was playin wit me by giving me wrong info. I just just forgot abt her.

What went wrong @ answermachine bcos i started by being funny n then bring som boring topics not to look like a clown.

A little neediness. For writing her number on that thing means you need her. Women don't like men that need them. Yes, it's good to switch to boring conversations after 3 humor, but don't stay there too long.

Start with humor, move to naughty or sensual conversation, then boring. Before you know it, be the first to take an excuse to leave. In your case, you didn't take any excuse (time constraint) to leave.

When you take an excuse to leave, you'll appear valuable and busy. Women love men who are busy. When you're always looking for a way to stay with her, you lose all your value. In your case, you lied to yourself just to follow her. That is neediness, but you won't know.

In this relationship game, it's not always about what you say, but how you say them and what you didn't say.

What you didn't say = bad boy and non-needy body language.

Your body language says a lot. Don't focus on only what to say, but how you carry yourself with confidence and I-don't-care behavior + challenge and mystery.

Always be the first to leave even if you've just spent 50 seconds. Even if you don't want to leave, make a statement that shows you're in a hurry and will be leaving her soon.

This statement is called time constraint and when you say it as a fun and naughty guy, the woman you're talking with will wish you don't go.

Has a cousin or relation visited your family before and overstayed until you guys secretly see him as annoying and want him to go? That is how you just behaved.

Has another relations come to visit, but said, "I won't spend more than 2 days because I'll be going to Enugu for something on Friday."

With the person who talked about traveling or not staying for more than two days, your family will wish he stays longer. You'll hear comments like, "Common, Joseph, at least spend a week with us before traveling."

Did you see how your family is begging Joseph to stay, but wanted the first guy to go? That is exactly how women work. The person who appears busy (even if he's faking being busy) is the one women want (hard to get) and not the person who wants follow them everywhere they go (too available).

If you want to follow a lady bumper to bumper, your humor will be seen as clownish and boring.

When you're talking with a woman with naughtiness and humor, always make a statement that indicates you'll be leaving soon even if you don't want to leave.

Women do this a lot when they visit a man. They'll be in his room and the next thing you'll hear is, "I'll be leaving soon to go see my aunt. She said I should come."

No, she's lying. She wants you to value her time and take action — maybe, Sëx or kiss. She wants you to man-up.

If you want to master how this dating game works, switch the table and act to women the same way they act to men and you'll get great results.

@Answermachine I realise that when i am goin after a girl i tend to be slow in achieving what i want. I hear stories of guys getting a girl under 1 week but for me not less than a month if not months before getting the girl. I don't know, is it that i dont understand woman very well or am i being too careful or is it that it happens to newbees who are learning this newly(not enough practice).

@Kalat, you already know the answer. Life has priority. There are men whose priority is to sleep with as many women as they can, so they learn this game, then use other external tricks to make it work faster.