Let’s face it: Romance in the digital age has blurred a few lines, especially when it comes to gift-giving. If you could get inside anyone’s brain this time of year, it would be shouting countless variations of “What should I get my husband/wife/fiancé/boyfriend/girlfriend/cat/once-a-week sleeping partner/Friday night Tinder date?!” And we’re here to suggest that whatever the title of the other half of your partnership might be, you try mixing things up and using the holidays as a time for growth and change, instead of static reflection, by giving the gift of yourself with romance and bold gestures. After all, kindness is the very backbone to all healthy relationships. (Or was it diamonds?)

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It’s scientifically proven that showing appreciation actually makes you a happier person. Make your significant other happy; they will return the favor. Wash, rinse, repeat. So whether you’re married, engaged, dating, looking for the perfect Netflix partner, or finding it all a little too complicated, we’ve got the ultimate romantic gift guide sure to show that special someone in your life that not only are they worth the effort, but they’re worth every penny, too.

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