Nope. How many kids is just what we've always felt we wanted, which is 3 kids super close in age and we are working on that. My DH has job stability with the military so the financial part isn't a worry. Everything else...the stuff, bigger cars, whatever, we will welcome them as kids come. I don't mind clutter at all, I don't mind driving a van, I don't mind having kids share rooms if we can't find a bigger house, etc.