: I haved lived with epilepsy sense I was three years old, and am now 37 years old.I have not had much a social life when it comes to dating because I always had to travel by bus to get around,and the girl would be unhappy if I could not take her where she would like to go sometimes by bus.Give me your opinion on what I should do.

I think you're under estimating a lot of women. There's nothing wrong with riding the bus. The women you date may have cars and probably wouldn't mind driving. I know a taxi is expensive, but would be nice for a special occasion.

I don't know where you live, but maybe you can relocate to a downtown area where you would be able to walk to different clubs, restaurants, social events, theaters, music, etc.

If you want a social life, you've got to get out there and try to meet people. Give it a chance - don't be disappointed if it takes a while to find a nice person.