Ladies, what size cock would you say is perfect for sex? Not to look at and drool over, but the actually sex act?

I love to look at a huge cock and suck a huge cock but when it comes down to sex, the perfect cock for me is between 7 and 8in in length and a nice, thick 6 inch girth. Too long and I am in pain from him pounding my cervix.

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The cocks I have had personal access to have very much tallied with the satistics - not only in what is average but also in the relative rarity of the larger cock.

I think I can safely say I've only ever seen one significantly over 9, one about 9 and one about 8 but significantly girthier than any other. The rest have been within the realms of average. Sex with those bigger sizes certainly has an aspect to it that average or smaller sized cocks don't have - those three guys do have the top 3 ranking spots. Though not in size order.

I have yet to see, let alone fuck, anything approaching 11 - so I dunno whether I'd like it or not - I've played with dildos, but that's not the same.

What has proven 'perfect' so far is the girthy 8 - he's better than wonderful.

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I have to say a girthy 8 (like 6 inches girth) is perfect for me judging from the toys I have played with but the guy I date is a little bit bigger that that. So there's adjustments and stuff that we have to make, the usual stuff.

It seems pretty decisively that the woman who admits she likes bigger, ultimately prefers in the area of 8" x 6". But given the rarity of penis that big (in the area of 1%) isn't that sort of like unrealistic expectations. I mean unless you are seeking out that size on personals and what not the chance of coming across it is slim and most will never come across the "ideal".

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It seems pretty decisively that the woman who admits she likes bigger, ultimately prefers in the area of 8" x 6". But given the rarity of penis that big (in the area of 1%) isn't that sort of like unrealistic expectations. I mean unless you are seeking out that size on personals and what not the chance of coming across it is slim and most will never come across the "ideal".

But even preferring it is setting yourself up for letdown. Especially if she buys a toy that size and gets using to having orgasms with it. I'm also willing to bet that the few women on this site have experienced a larger cock and are the few lucky ones who have been able to realize what they "preferred". So good for you, although you may have been spoiled if you are no longer with the guy who has that ideal member:frown1:
I guess it's sort of a catch-22 for those who have experienced larger and can admit they enjoy it, because it's not really politically correct to admit that and even less to go out and search for it.
But more power to you!

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But even preferring it is setting yourself up for letdown. Especially if she buys a toy that size and gets using to having orgasms with it. I'm also willing to bet that the few women on this site have experienced a larger cock and are the few lucky ones who have been able to realize what they "preferred". So good for you, although you may have been spoiled if you are no longer with the guy who has that ideal member:frown1:
I guess it's sort of a catch-22 for those who have experienced larger and can admit they enjoy it, because it's not really politically correct to admit that and even less to go out and search for it.
But more power to you!

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Excuse me, but if a guy is asked about his preferences there is a fairly safe chance that he will have a fairly specific 'ideal fuck' in mind (well, IME that's true). So why shouldn't women be the same? Why can't we have an ideal sexual type? Are guys not setting themselves up to be let down too?

And as for "you may have been spoiled if you are no longer with the guy who has that ideal member" - I don't believe you are being intentionally sexist at all but you might want to rethink the idea that a woman can be spoiled by a big cock. Sure, it can be great fun - but that doesn't make it the be all and end all of sex. The perspective that it is is a very male perspective.

Well we are talking about specific measurements of one specific sexual organ, not entire sexual preferences, and even still I would say most guys don't have too many specific preferences, I mean maybe some guys like big or small boobs or relatively in shape and healthy, long hair/ short hair, etc...but most are insignificant when it comes down to it. The closest comparison might be a guy saying he prefers a woman with a 6 inch deep pussy that's on the tighter side because that feels best for his cock, and I've never had that discussion with any guy. So this preference for a certain size cock is unique one, which I have no problem with.
And I'm not trying to be confrontational or sexist, just being honest.

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Exactly MB! I mean seriously, do you think guys beat off to average girls on the net because that separates them from the reality of what they're likely to find? No, they beat off to Scarlet Johannsen and Elisha Cuthbert. Because why wouldn't you?

It's purely a fantasy "What's perfect for your body?" Since we're on a large cock site, I'd expect most women to prefer larger. I'm sure many women would prefer 7x5 or a chunky 6x6... or if they're anything like my girl, they'll not care how big your cock is provided you know what to do with it to pleasure her.

Yes, and because I'm a curious mate, I just posted a follow up question...because I always see this 8" x 6" ideal and it's funny that so few men possess the ideal. It's kinda like saying the ideal boob size is 38 DDD. Which is perfectly acceptable on a site for big boob lovers...so I agree with you there.