Ah well. Like everyone says, guys are not good at reading between the lines. So I dropped the subtleties and hit him over the head with it: "I'd like to live with you someday."

Now, I have a theory about reading men. You have to look at their absolute first reaction—whether it's a shift in body language or a slight change in their expression. After that, you never know if you're getting the whole truth or the truth mixed with what they think you want to hear. Or of course, just a plain old lie.

And his immediate reaction was a big smile. Sigh. He said (or rather, repeated), "Yeah, I have such a great time with you." Then he said, "Wow, that's big...a big...you know, step. Kinda scary."

I decided to leave it at that. Another theory I have is that men need time to process big conversations and decisions. So I'll just let that one simmer.

And while that simmered, I decided to make things sizzle...

I chose The Linguini. This is the ultimate I'm-so-tired-I-don't-want-to-move position because, well, you don't have to move.

We started by both kneeling facing the same direction, doing the reach-around manual stimulation for a few seconds. (I always feel like I'm in a bad erotic music video in this pose, but hey, sometimes it's good to emulate bad erotic music videos.)

I then leaned down so I was lying on my stomach. D. shimmied up and pushed into me.

The angle was definitely kind of awkward but once I realized I need to to lift my hips a bit, things got smoother. D. thrust away while I stealthy slipped one hand under my torso, down between my legs, and behind so that I was touching his balls. Well, here is a situation in which you shouldn't judge a guy's feelings by his first reaction. Because he let out a mini-yelp and froze. I burst out laughing, but after he figured out that it was just my hand, he came around. And came. I don't want to discount the hotness of the position, but it was as if simply tickling his twins was enough to send him over the edge.

How much attention do you pay to the balls? Does your guy like it? And can I ask—how far back does he like you to go? And because sometimes I can be a little lazy after a long day, what are positions you've found to be good when you're really tired?