I also had a stupid experience lately… I'm starting to think that it's probably best to avoid sex with people that I don't know well altogether, because I'm really good at avoiding things but bad at using protection. The really disturbing part is that it hardly ever comes up with the people I'm with, or they don't want to use it/don't care either-- and I'm hardly a superstar player, but it's made me think that it's pretty widespread. I don't even have issues with using it, in fact I kind of like it, but I never seem to make it as much of a priority as it probably should be.

I always tell myself before it happens that I'll be able to control myself and be responsible, but it never happens…maybe if I was a player/sexual superstar, then I'd start carrying condoms around with me at all times… but I always feel like I'm such a loser that the opportunity won't present itself.