My girlfriend asked me if I would be okay with a girl performing oral on her, yes I am but I'm worried this could cause problems. Help?

Okay so last night my straight girlfriend randomly brought up that she has had fantasies of another girl eating her out while I watched. I asked her if she would feel comfortable sucking my dick while this girl performs oral and she said that would be fine. So here's the issue, we don't really have a person we know in mind and I think she's going to get hurt if we end up doing this. I think it would be really hot though. My girlfriend is 23, I'm the guy she lost her virginity to, and she had some stuff in the past happen that kind of screwed up her perceptions of sex. I don't want her to do this to please me and I don't want her to get jealous in anyway of the other girl. I might be overanalyzing this but it took her a really long time to get comfortable with having sex with me. After three years of being together, whats most important to me is our relationship and I don't want to jeopardize what we have. Suggestions?

Most Helpful Girl

I really respect where you're coming from and it's really nice to hear how concern you are for her emotional well being rather than jumping at the chance of this.

I think if she brought this up and really seems interested and comfortable with it, you can do through with it. But it's something you have to be absolutely sure about. I think after 3 years you should have a relatively good sense of how she will be and if she's serious or not. If she wants this, I think you should let her pick the girl (even if she wants to do it together, just try and be as neutral as you can). And if you sense any jealousy or hurt coming from her in the process, immediately call it off. I would also make sure to have a discussion about it after the fact, if it happens, to make sure you really understand how your girl felt in the moment as well.

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Is this still revelant?

Most Helpful Guy

First of all, it doesn't sound like your girlfriend is straight if she's having fantasies of having sex with another girl. Second, wtf would you be okay with your girlfriend having sex with another person? Do you have a cuck fetish?