About

Welcome to my blog! The purpose is to share my personal experiences in coping with divorce, and my journey in becoming a life-fulfilled divorcee. The reality-based evolution of me being happy in my own skin as a 30-something divorcee. I also share reality-based tales of marriage, relationships, and insights in celebrity and trending news around relationship matters. My style provides authenticity, quirkiness, and comic-relief. I hope my posts provide emotional support to other divorcees, those seeking a way out of their current unhappy marriage,, couples seeking to reconcile, single-parents and all women and men who aspire for love and just enjoy reading about others realities.

The origination of this blog developed from frequent inquiries into my divorce process and how I was able to transition quickly in an appearingly “drama-free divorcee”. By this, meaning a single mother of two that has a solid co-parenting relationship with her ex-husband, stable family household, successful career, active social life and exudes confidence to begin dating. At the same time succeeding in completing the divorce process without some of the financial headaches, emotional burdens that many married couples fear of or divorcees continue to agonize about.

My journey is not complete and I hope to share some of the methods I took to avoid an overbearing divorce process while discussing my eventful journey in becoming a happily divorcee. Sample posts include the internal struggle with the decision of getting a divorce, deciding whether you need a lawyer, custody matters, working on a manageable relationship with your husband/ father of your children, forgiving, keeping the drama at home and not letting it impact your professional life, facing your children, maintaining balance with a social life, dating and getting back out there without the appearance you are “baggage ridden” and of course commentary on celebrity life struggles in coping with their own relationship drama.

Uprooted in California and seasoned in Washington D.C.’s dating scene; I am a New York City metropolitan transplant that has a zest for the city’s fruitful offerings. I am in the process of becoming a Certified Relationship Coach. By day I am a Wall Street finance professional that has years of business writing to investors under her belt. I am a graduate from the coveted historically black college Hampton University. I also am a Certified Public Accountant and has a Master’s of Business Association in Finance from Washington D.C.’s American University. My credo, “Let Life Flow” and “Carpe Diem” is how I approach love, friendships and elevating new experiences.

Please follow my blog and hope my personal experiences will be helpful to you in managing your own relationship issues and alleviating some unnecessary missteps and stress that could prolong or intense the pain of ending your marriage or union. Thank you for taking the time to read my blog. Enjoy!

what can one say? wow your blog is deep and speaks on so many things. i went through that process and dealing with a child and the pulling apart and the war of the words and wounds. yours seems so much less stressless than what i encountered. i really enjoy your blog and insight and your vast knowledge and intelligence. peace and you have the right mind set.

Thank you very much. I truly appreciate it. I try to promote stressless separation if that is inevitable. Yet I am a proponent of love. However, nothing is every stress-free. It has been tough, but I try to keep an optimistic spirit. I hope you come back for more. Enjoy!

thats not a problem whenever you want to talk just holla because my brain and mind never sleeps.i went through it as a child and then as a adult and dealing with the stakes at a high level. it challenges you mentally believe that. peace

Hello There!
I look forward to really diving into your blog. Also, thank you for following my blog at Faith1st Ministries. I hope it has and will continue to be a major blessing in your life. May God richly bless you as you continue to write and blog. Please continue with us on this journey and remember to have Faith 1st because the “just shall live by his faith.” — Sebastian

Ok, you made me blink. You’ve gotta blog, I’ve got a blog but… I don’t follow the traditional format as to “when” to posting so when I saw your decision to follow me I just had to see who and what you were about. Lucky me and yes, you come strong. I like your defined energy, focus/dedication in presentation, oh yes; it’s good. Sorta’ like sprinklin’ your “main courses” with emotional Intel of which most refuse to do when bringing something to the table. Good to see the brightness of your shared lights.

Thank u for following my blog! I’m in my mid-twenties and sooo not ready for marriage! However, I can appreciate your experience, perspective and insights as it pertains to the intricacies of dating and relationships. Looking forward to reading more =)

You are most welcome. There is much more on here besides divorce. I definitely discuss relationship issues despite status. Check on that category and if course insights on celebrity relationship issues.

Hi 🙂
Thanks for the follow 🙂
You seem to be very enthusiastic person about life. I loved to read about you. It gives a lot of inspiration and encouragement at the same time.
I would love to go through your posts, that’s why following you 🙂
Thank you
God Bless
Keshav

Hi there!
Thanks for following. I’m a happy camper now you are joining me as I trip around by RV, plane, car and time machine to the past.
Comments, compliments, critiques and wisecracks are most welcome.
You have a great blog. “See” you again soon.
Which Way Now 101 aka Carol

Good morning, Happily . . . thanks for your follow . . . and thanks for providing inspiration to others on multiple levels. Life is so very good and abundant with richness, whatever our marital status may be. Sounds like you’re creating a glorious new story for yourself. Bravo!