Please Woman, Let Yourself Be Joyful

I know that women have a major conditioning of pain, suffering, and in some cases such debilitating fear. From centuries of conditioning, trauma, and abuse. From their own lives, from their past lives, from their ancestors — it can seem overwhelming and endless. I understand.

I also need to tell you, because your heart has been asking me to share, that it is absolutely possible for you to feel and reside fully in the space of joy.

Yes, I said the word joy.

Did you know that up until about two years ago the word joy was actually one of my least favourite words? Because of the way I had previously experienced my life, based on the challenging events of my childhood I was absolutely conditioned to fear, dislike, and shut down the feelings of joy.

I can even remember a time, where I didn’t logically understand that joy and being happy, was an emotional state that was available to me.

I had chosen sadness and anger as the two of the most prominent emotional filters of which I experienced my life, because I convinced myself they were safer and more 'comfortable'. I also wholeheartedly believed that it was wrong and scary to express and feel joy out in the world. I used to believe that if I felt joy, it meant that I was leaving people behind.

In my mind, letting myself feel joy meant something terrible was bound to happen next. I always kept myself on edge — ready, and waiting for the shoe to drop.

Now I do not want any of this for you, I want you to know that it is so possible for your heart to expand from the inside and out into the world!

How amazing would that feel?

Who would you be if you just allowed yourself to release your years of sadness, shame, guilt and step fully into your true soul expression of love, excitement, bubbly laughter, joy and sensual bliss?!

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I am writing this to you with so much heart, because I’ve felt it. I’ve made the conscious transition for myself, and I’m watching and seeing so many of the women I work with right now expand into their emotional richness.

Your vibrancy is so needed in this world.

On an emotional level this is means pure freedom for so many of you. And I know I can support you through your unconscious pain and into your very conscious fullness and vibrancy of being.

I want this for you and so much more…

I know that the words I’m speaking you’ve read many times before and easily dismissed them, but if you feel into your heart and connect into mine, I’m sure you’ll feel these internal truths.

Let yourself be joyful.

For me personally, this is so much more than a fad or a marketing tool. I truly believe that your heart can be activated to such great heights through the work of Soul Therapy and I’m determined to see many more women experience this for themselves, their families, and the communities they serve.

It is one of my missions to inspire women all over the world in aligning to their highest soul expressions, and even if this email is all it takes for you to choose more joy today and for your future then my heart is absolutely full.

Thank you, Thank you, Thank you

There’s a really interesting theme I’m noticing when I’m working with my Soul Therapy clients as of late that I thought might be worth sharing with you...

I have lived on this Earth for 24 years and through these years I have moved at least 9 times.

For the most part, this has truthfully caused me a lot of personal instability, a feeling of detachment, and lack of safety throughout my life. But what I’m starting to see through the women I work with, is that my personal struggle has now become an incredible gift of helping them find their dream homes.

Because I’ve moved so many times in my life, each one getting closer and closer to what I need and desire at that phase — it’s given me the ability to help them find new homes for them and their families that are in vibrational alignment to their soul’s desires.

Spaces speak to me.

Energetically, I receive the vibration of the location and I can connect into whether the home, land, or environment will support the people who are desiring to inhabit it. I also do this when I rent places for my own seminars, events, retreats, vacations, or long-term stays. It’s a really special love and hobby of mine to scan through Airbnb spaces, and begin connecting with potential spots to stay in and experience.

I’ve now helped six of my clients transition out of their old homes, and into new spaces that suit who and where they are now.

I’ve supported one client and her family move from the city, to her dream country home on quiet untouched land. I’ve helped one client manifest new living situations twice in one year. I’ve even helped a client and her husband (and pets) pick up their lives and drive themselves across the country so that they could begin a new life in a city that gave them better opportunities for work, community and natural living. I’ve also seen and done this now twice for my own self, that I might even say that I’m beginning to master the art of manifesting homes, places, and spaces to live in.

What happens when I work with you is that we are clearing away the energetic pathways that are outdated, the stories that run in your mind that tell you, you can’t have that desired experience. We bring the parts of you that have been running, and wired in a fragmented state into a state of awareness that leaves you feeling more whole.

My clients often refer to this as them feeling so much clearer, so much more grounded, and really feeling at peace within themselves in relationship to what has just been revealed and cleared for them. They often feel lighter, lifted and more at ease. This is how they shift in vibrational alignment to be more in tune to their soul’s light frequencies.

When this happens, and when we have worked on an area of their life for long enough they will often feel very ready for something new. Whether that be a new relationship, a new shift or upgrade in their career, but believe it or not — I see it most often with their soul asking for a new space that their physical body can live in.

One that now matches their heightened state of awareness so that they can begin to integrate and continue to develop on this new stream of consciousness which serves them, and others at greater depths.

I didn’t know that when I began working with Vanessa for the second time around, my dream apartment was waiting for me. Soul Therapy has empowered me to transform an unforeseen and sudden turn of events into one of the most positive changes in my life. My husband and I couldn’t be happier in our new home.

I love helping my clients in this kind of a transition because I know so deeply the power of having a safe, secure, and stable home. For me, this is one of the utmost important aspects of my own self-love and self-care, and why I treat the acts of visioning, manifesting, creating, and transitioning homes with such heartfelt respect, care, and love.

I’ve moved around a lot in my life, always in search for my sense of home. Every time I am deeply reminded that home is where the heart is, but wherever my physical home space is — well, that is my heart’s home-base.

If you are someone who values home-making as much as I do and you are desiring some support in raising your heart’s vibration in order to match and energetically align to your next dream home...then I’m your lady.

Soul therapy helped break down the barriers and clear the blocks that were holding me back from who I was. Once I healed my past and created clear boundaries, I was able to be fully present to myself and what I truly wanted in my life.

It became clear very quickly that I did not belong in the big city. I stayed for so long, seeing it as a place of “lots of opportunity”. Through Soul Therapy I soon realized what I truly longed for was time with my family, nature, calmness and freedom.

Before working with Vanessa, I wouldn’t have thought I could live in the country on a large property and not have to work. But here I am, living outside of the box, happy and free.

I’m so grateful for what Soul Therapy Programs with Vanessa has given me. It helped me release the conditioning of “what my life should look like”, in order to manifest my dream home. — Julie Corriveau

We are all creative beings by nature.There's no escaping or getting around it.

However, when you look at your every day experiences, are you consciously or unconsciously creating them?

Do they go something like this?

You wake up in the morning and take a deep breath. You feel into your body, and check in with how she's feeling. You let her assimilate her dream journeys and before you get out your bed you set a clear, loving intention for your day. You let yourself dream up and visualize yourself completing steps towards some of your life's grander goals. You connect with your partner gently and lovingly, before you get on with your routine. You move mindfully, and slowly so that you can be present to anything that needs your attention. Your children, your lover, or your body. You make your coffee and even if it's to-go you're grounded and ready to get in your car and drive. Once in your car you set a clear intention to have a smooth, safe, and efficient ride. This makes you easily go with the flow of the traffic and you arrive early to work to begin your day. You feel ready to connect, to share, engage and receive with your fellow colleagues and clients.

Or are they more often than not playing out like this?

You wake up groggy and feeling sickened by the thought of getting up to begin your day, but you get yourself up anyways and head straight for your coffee to help you enliven. Your partner says something to you that sets you off completely and you end up getting into an argument before spilling your coffee all over your favourite blouse. Frustrated, and even more angry you're now thinking it's going to be, "One of those days". But you hurry on before you're late for work, but now you can't find your keys. And someone calls you with some news. You get in your car and drive, and though you're listening to your favourite podcast you get distracted and almost get into an accident. Finally...you arrive at work and you're feeling pissed off, and wanting to isolate by shutting down.

When you look around at all of the creative folks in your life, and wonder why you're not as creative as them...it's only becausechoosing to live a creative life takes conscious effort and consistent dedication.

This means that you seek out opportunities in your life to practice your creative power. It means that you inspire and infuse your everyday mundane tasks with the energy of your life force so that you can enjoy them!

Conscious creativity is such an incredible experience when you can let yourself be in that space.

As an artist, and a Licensed Soul Therapist I am someone who has been learning for the last few years what it means to really infuse your creative spirit into all of your creations. It has been a long-standing process that I continue to explore, with an in-depth curiosity to continuously embody.

What I am currently engaged with is how creativity is something you have to dedicate yourself to practising, (just like yoga or meditation) if you want it to become infused in your daily musings. World renowned choreographer, Twyla Tharp, speaks wonders on this and so much more in her book The Creative Habit, which I highly recommend for you.

When you are living in your creative power something incredible happens...Your fears, your doubts, your insecurities — they all take a back seat, if even for just a moment.

Creativity and fear are common scene partners, but one can not speak at the exact same time as the other. I believe that being in a creative state more often, also leads to being less affected by the power of fear.

Glastonbury Tor in Avalon, United Kingdom - May 2017

My wish is for many more women to be able to connect to and fully embrace their creative power; in their businesses, in their artistic endeavours, as parents, in their homes, and even in their relationships.

If right now you don't believe you can make something happen because you're "not ready", or you're "not good enough", or you "just can't do it" for a number of reasons...then let's chat and begin a new conversation.

If in your heart you feel you are an artist, an entrepreneur, or a mama but you don't feel or see your life's desires taking shape and manifesting in the physical world, know that I can support you in bringing your creative spirit to life.

If somewhere deep down you have creative desires and ideas that have been sitting on the shelves gathering dust, and you keep hearing their whispers to come down and be completed, I can support you in clearing out the cobwebs and help you release the things that are holding you back from living your most creative and magical expression.

And trust me, there is magic that happens when you're willing to invest and dedicate yourself to the creative process.

We can do this a few ways. By enrolling in Soul Therapy Programs, I am able to guide you personally to listen to the truth of your soul and spirit so that you can begin to honour her and fulfill all of her desires.

You have the following three program offerings to choose from. Click each one, and take some quiet time to read and connect with what activates your heart.

"Each woman carries a unique and potent medicine residing in her womb. This is a configuration and sacred genetic code that is passed down from the ancients in her bloodline.

Your womb is the portal of which you can directly connect to the women in your lineage who have come before you." — Deborah Skye King

For the last few days on my moon-time I have received strong instruction to just sit and receive the messages, the gifts, and the spiritual prowess of my ancestors. The first day of my period as soon as I sat down after hearing the call to be in ceremony I was instantly hit with an overwhelming and nurturing wave of love from the women who watch over me in spirit. Their first robust words to me being,

“Oh sweet child, you have no idea where we’re going. So sit down, …we’ll take it from here.”

And then just like that I was off and completely immersed in their teachings. Not able to move from one spot for hours, I was so content and at ease in their energetic embrace that I didn’t even get up to eat or shift positions. Now, they did not flood me with images but they did share with me one major teaching to be shared and expressed to all of you — Use Your Medicine, Woman.

They shared with me that I have all of the power from within my womb to heal my entire being. My body, my emotions, my mind, and my spirit. So does every woman. Right there, in the base of her abdomen is a chalice made of the purest gold you could ever ask for. The golden chalice is made to hold and carry some of the richest wine you might ever taste. The deepest red, to match the depth of her complexity and wild Earth nature. Her womb carries life-blood. Her womb creates all life. She is your creative centre, and the space that heals you, clears you, and renews you from within. She can grow most beautiful and incredible things, and with this power she asks you for your highest honouring.

When you bleed, sit and know her.

Many women today do not allow themselves the opportunity to be fully immersed in the art of bleeding. They run around in frantic energy, constantly busying themselves, full of doubt, worry, and mistrust. Even if they are unconscious to it, fear and scarcity run their lives.

The Grandmothers share that being in this state fosters an even further disconnect from our bodies, and from our internal wisdom. It creates an even greater distance between spirit, soul and body. After my own deepening over the last few days with my ancestors, my body, and my personal healing — I can not stress to you enough the importance of connecting to your own womb, (and body) at the beginning of each cycle. I can hardly articulate in words how I am left in absolute awe and gratitude for the ability to receive and connect to both myself, and my ancestors in this way, and the fact that this opportunity renews itself each and every month is such a blessing.

I’ve heard stories from women close to me, how they decided to skip their periods for months by strategically taking birth control because the “timing wasn’t right” and they didn’t want to be “bothered by it”. Hearing stories like these saddens my heart immensely. Especially, because another strong part of The Grandmothers’ teaching was that,

“You can not plan or control nature”.

Nature will come, will blossom, will fall apart, will destroy, will grow, will renew as it wants and needs to. Her intelligence knows nor follows an imposed schedule of ours. She delivers what we need, exactly when we need it. No sooner, no later. So, remind yourselves that even if you think you know something, the chances are you do not. A very humbling, and rewarding place to be if you can fully immerse yourself in the place of learning and receiving.

Thank you sweet womb for slowing me down long enough to receive you. To feel your heart and value. Thank you for being the portal to my ancestry and for supporting all of my healing. Thank you for engraving into me the great power of surrender. I love you. I am yours. I am one with your essence. I honour and protect you. I nurture you and care for you always.

Thank you. Thank you. Thank you.

Sometimes you hit your all-time lows to reach new levels of self-love.

Of course you love yourself when you're high! When you're traveling, when you make a new sale, or your family is all getting along, or your lover brings you flowers, or you've made some big milestones in your business. When you perform for a full house, or you've just given birth to your first-born. It is notably easier to love yourself then.

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But what happens to that love when you're feeling weak, tired and run down? Where is your own love when you're being a complete shit-head to the people you care about most? Or when you're in a creative rut and you're feeling really stuck with moving forward that you just keep sabotaging your own work? What about when you've lost your motivation and will to live?

Do you love yourself then? Or do you say things that break your own heart? Do you continue to put yourself down? Will you abandon yourself?

We fall and we crumble, to keep ourselves humble.

Humility is in knowing our fragility. It's in our losses, and our failures, and our mistakes that we learn to love our true self - uninhibited. It's in our waves of ups and downs that we remember: Oh yes, I'm in a human body right now.

Because it goes like this: When we're high we forget about our physical human form, and when we're low we forget about our God-ly spiritual essences. So let's remember.

Let it be in desperation that we might re-instate our vows, to love ourselves unconditionally. This is where our level of self-love deepens. This is the cycle of your evolution. Love stronger, softer, wiser, brighter when you're down.

Here is where it counts. Do not wait for tomorrow, and tomorrow. Love yourself now.