S_Parc is the member most adjusted to living in his particular circumstances. His circumstances, however, are far from "normal" and neither are some of his views. I would say that his relationship and some details surrounding it are highly unusual and unorthodox; he has a girlfriend, who is intends to marry next year, but she is a lesbian and they can only be intimate using an electric blanket and a plastic doll. He makes this work, more power to him. He has his soulmate and he's happy, so he's a winner.

His strangest view, although I will admit he explains it well, is his belief that all young men should get a blow up doll. Their fathers should pay them a hooker when they reach adulthood, prior to which they would focus only on study. After that they would make use of a "realdoll" plastic figure of a woman and "make love to her". About one in every five posts he used to make mentioned at some point how "touching their breasts was so life-like and as fulfilling as regular sex". Needless to say, I was always highly skeptical of this particular theory of his.

If the West is a jungle, S_Parc is our forum's Bear Grylls; some may call his methods of sleeping inside a dead camel's belly and drinking his own piss unorthodox, but he's the man making it out alive at the end of the day. So I give credit where credit's due.

Now that I think about it I don't know if Winston Wu is the most freethinking but I think Winston has the most open minded asian parents that accepts his life style.

Many CHinese family are conservative and would want their son to have a stable job and get married and have kids. Winston is living an unorthodox life plus his son is in another country which would make is hard for Winston parents to see their grand kid. It's just too different and many Asian families would disapprove.

I give kudos to Winston parents for being sooo open minded. My parents are wayyyyyold fashion and wouldn't accept this life style.

Every legend should have songs written about him. My contribution (to the tune of House at Pooh Corner by Kenny Loggins, second stanza):

Winnie the Wu doesn't know what to do
Got some theories stuck in his head.
He went to Rock asking help and advice
But good sense left him flummoxed instead.

So Rock sent him to ask of the sage Momopi,
Who just shook his head and said "Oh, my, my,
Help, oh help, ye gods, this Wu man
No doubt the free-thinkingest Asian of all
Make the changes that only you can

His soul to a new port of call
Maybe six inches more tall
Free thinkers made happiest of all

Back to those good old Palo Alto days
Banish all mem'ry of East Bay malaise
Back to the heyday of Wuuuuu.

gsjackson wrote:Every legend should have songs written about him. My contribution (to the tune of House at Pooh Corner by Kenny Loggins, second stanza):

Winnie the Wu doesn't know what to do
Got some theories stuck in his head.
He went to Rock asking help and advice
But good sense left him flummoxed instead.

So Rock sent him to ask of the sage Momopi,
Who just shook his head and said "Oh, my, my,
Help, oh help, ye gods, this Wu man
No doubt the free-thinkingest Asian of all
Make the changes that only you can

His soul to a new port of call
Maybe six inches more tall
Free thinkers made happiest of all

Back to those good old Palo Alto days
Banish all mem'ry of East Bay malaise
Back to the heyday of Wuuuuu.

Hey that was good. Now we need to have the song put out as a music video (with Winston in the video of course) and we need to persuade Kenny Loggins to sing the song.

"When I think about the idea of getting involved with an American woman, I don't know if I should laugh .............. or vomit!"

"Trying to meet women in America is like trying to decipher Egyptian hieroglyphics."