Rekindle An Old Flame

What’s your gender? ManHow old are you? 40What’s your race/ethnicity? White / CaucasianWhat continent do you live on? North AmericaWhat country and/or city do you live in? New York, New YorkHighest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)What’s your occupation? TeacherWhat’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)Religious affiliation: ChristianHow religious are you? Not at allWhat’s your sexual orientation? HeterosexualAny other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Open MindedHow many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 25How many hookup stories have you here posted before? None

Rekindle An Old Flame

How long ago did this hookup happen? One month ago

What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status

How would you best classify this hookup? Friends-with-benefits

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For more than 3 years

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Sarah has long brown hair, beautiful brown eyes, soft full breasts, with firm and fabulous ass. We met several years ago when we worked at the same school. Both of us were in committed relationships. We quickly became very close friends. We had very similar interests in politics, movies, and music. We both denied our mutual attraction to each other until one day after work I had to check on a friends apartment who was away for a few months. She walked with me to the apartment and it was there that we had sex for the first time. We would hook up any chance we could after that time.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? A couple of years, she moved away to a small town in upstate New York. I was recently attending a lecture very close to her and I called her to see if we could have dinner after the lecture, she agreed. We met very close to her office. We had a great dinner reminiscing about days gone by. After dinner, she asked if I wanted to see her new office. I said sure and we drove to her office. I could tell that she was thinking about hooking up.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? The office was deserted and once in the office, we began to kiss passionately. She was clearly very horny and wanted to hookup. I quickly was flooded with memories of how sexual she was and what a great lover she was. I quickly unzipped her pants and began to finger her. As we kissed and I was fingering her she came extremely hard. I then undid her bra and began to suck and kiss her nipples all the while fingering her. She came 3 more times. She then unzipped my pants, went to her knees and began to suck my cock. She sucked my cock using her mouth and hands effortlessly. She stood up and bent over the desk in her office and I slid my cock into her soaking wet pussy. We fucked the entire time while she was bent over the desk. I told her I was about to cum and she turned around and I came on her tits.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We laughed about it and we talk about our past hookups and how much fun they were. We both talked about hooking up again when the opportunity should present itself. We continue to talk and text often. I still feel very close to her.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None, Withdrawal

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one, it’s my secret.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Having great sex with a great lover.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? It will be quite a while before we can hookup again.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? I enjoy casual sex, especially with her.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup? Nothing

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I would like to see people began to enjoy their bodies. I would like to see the stigma of casual sex go away.

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? I love the casual sex project and I love reading the stories that are posted.