I got in a huge fight with the father right before I found out I was pregnant. He then got engaged to a girl, apparently got her pregnant (with triplets... or twins... I hear different things), she threatened me on MySpace and apparently seems desperate to have his kids. He seems desperate to be in a relationship.

I have asked if he wants to be involved. He has not contacted me. I changed my number, and plan on contacting him when the baby is born. I have messaged him a few times on Facebook, but he never replies.

The thing is, I want to move out of state when the baby is born. I want to contact him after I have the baby, and if he wants to be involved, I'll consider staying. But everyone says to just leave him alone and let the courts deal with it. I don't really know what to do...