I was watching a video the other day.It was a Pickup Artist (PUA) telling a hotel hall full of men how to get women.Same old thing.I only watched a few minutes when a thought came in my head.The thought was, “That bamma don’t get no damn pussy.”At that moment I didn’t see him as many clueless virgin and involuntary celibate men saw him.Since they were paying lots of money to sit and listen to him they obviously saw him as a player, ladies’ man, Alpha Male, whateva.I doubt this bamma even got pity sex from a woman.The reason I felt this way because despite sounding confident and knowledgeable he missed one key ingredient that drives women wild.He didn’t have The Wolf.Now what is The Wolf?To know The Wolf, one has to understand the three levels of real sexual attraction.The first level is physical appearance.The foundation of sexually arousing a person is having a good body build.No amount of political correctness will change this.Different groups of people are trying to alter this reality but movements that came about in the last fifty years are not going to change millions of years of evolution.The only law nature adheres to is “survival of the fittest.”The second level is the ability to emotionally connect with another person.Two people physically attracted to each other go on a date but find they are incompatible.The potential of a relationship is not there.Most relationship advice focuses on the first two levels whether it’s the dating coach, therapist, or Tantra Master.Then there’s a third level which no one seems to talk about.The Wolf.The third level of sexual attraction is primal.The body and mind are at best outer representations of an inner thing.That thing is energy.It is intangible. You can’t see it.A person can most certainly feel it even it’s on a subconscious level.In a woman it is the energy that draws a man to want to impregnate her.A woman’s egg does not leave the body to find a sperm.To reproduce a woman has to entice a man to her.This energy makes a woman passive and receptive.She is a juicy fruit on a tree.Subconsciously the energy is saying to the man, “come get this fruit.”In a man, it is the energy that moves a man to take ACTION to get the fruit.The primal masculine energy makes the man assertive and aggressive.The man will only reproduce if the sperm leaves his body and enters a woman’s body in search of the egg.Thus we have The Wolf.The Wolf isn’t that suit and tie dude flashing his money and playing up his status.The Wolf isn’t that passive aggressive dude using some type of game to get with a woman.The Wolf isn’t about the money.The Wolf isn’t about talking.The Wolf is about energy.When a woman looks at The Wolf she will feel that energy.The Wolf doesn’t have to say a word.The very presentation of The Wolf says to the woman, “I will pick you up and slam against you the wall and bang the living shit out of you.You will scream at the top of your lungs in pure ecstasy as I take you to the highest levels of orgasm.You will feel the raw lust is that is aroused by the very sight, smell and touch of you.I will take that muthafucking pussy!”All this is communicated to a woman in mere seconds.A woman sees a man radiating this type of energy and she has three orgasms on the spot.A man knows when another man has that energy because he will either feel scared and his muscles will tense to prepare him to fight.Many men who practice what they consider to be “game” try to “out Alpha” other men in their social groups.They will use verbal putdowns to impress the women.These men don’t have The Wolf.Men who have The Wolf don’t talk much when confronting or competing with other men.Most men do not fuck with The Wolf.It’s hard to adequately describe this energy because it is primal and older than human communication.It’s like charisma, you know it when you see it.You feel it.The Wolf is highly suppressed in this society.Men don’t really do anything to bring out The Wolf.Men can get in trouble for merely looking at a woman with The Wolf energy which is simply raw lust.It’s not just sex.The Wolf is also a fighter but how much do men really fight with their hands now?Guns are for cowards.It doesn’t take courage or heart to fire a gun at someone.The Wolf fights with his hands.That’s raw aggression.Men watch TV to watch other men be men.The Wolf is a hunter.How many men truly hunt for their food and not just for sport?Many men are becoming like women energetically.Muscular men get so much attention not because they are muscular but because there is little competition.Men are physically looking soft.And they have the nerve to wonder why women ain’t giving them no pussy.With the Wolf being so suppressed many men are turning to money and game to make up for what they lack inside.Yeah I said it.There are many men who have nice bodies, are handsome, and they have an above average economic status.Yet they have trouble getting women.These are Masked Men who lack The Wolf.Men who rely on game have it worse.They lie to themselves thinking they are winning but if a man has to use strategy, wordplay, and quite frankly deceptive tricks they don’t have The Wolf.The Wolf can walk down the street minding his own business and have women get wet just from looking and more importantly feeling him.If a man has to use money, game, or even looks to get women he doesn’t have The Wolf.Now there are some men who do have The Wolf.They are the Bad Boys and Thugs out there.To be clear not every Bad Boy has The Wolf.Many of these so-called Thugs are nothing but a type of Masked Man.Anybody can get a tattoo.There are doctors and lawyers with tattoos.It’s easy to take the appearance of a rebel.I’ve mentioned before on this blog that I did a seminar with true to the game Thugs.These were men with criminal records and The Wolf.Dangerous men.Not a single one had a tattoo.Indeed from appearances alone it looked like I was at a bible study.Getting back to Bad Boys with The Wolf the thing to understand is that the very nature of the energy makes it hard for a man to conform.It’s takes a lot of will-power.Someone with The Wolf has hard time following society’s rules.Most of the laws and customs are tools used by the elite to control the movement of people.The Wolf isn’t a sheep.The Bad Boy is seen as such because he doesn’t follow the rules.When women are drawn to Bad Boys or Thugs they are really drawn to their energy.A store clerk with the same energy will draw just as many women as a Thug.Ask me how I know.If someone really reads my books what I do is give someone the blueprint for unleashing The Wolf.Society needs men to be men.A man’s nature is to bring order out of chaos.To bring order a man needs to maximize his potential.Do the work and unleash the beast.

can you name some examples of people with ''the wolf''?
to me it sounds like the wolf/sexual charisma/sex appeal is just a sense of knowing you can have any women you want, am i right? but what do you mean by being a ''fighter''

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Rom

5/26/2015 06:22:10 am

I can't think of a real life celebrity as a lot of their charisma is the result of good marketing teams. I can think of movies where the main characters had the wolf. One is Alonzo Harris in "Training Day" played by Denzel Washington. The other example is from the first "Godfather" movie. In that movie when Michael Corleone played Al Pacino saw the sexy Italian woman he got hit by raw lust. In the book it was called "the thunderbolt." Mike went after that woman with gusto even to the point of delivering a veiled threat to her father. The Wolf is just raw lust. It don't care about social status, politeness, or anything. It want what it wants and is utterly ruthless about it.

Sexual charisma itself is really just being comfortable with your sexuality. Most people suppress their sexual nature. The bad part is that this society demonizes people who are connected to their sexuality.

By fighter I mean fighter. One thing that touches a deep chord in women is a man who is willing to physically fight to protect her. In this society few men fight with their hands anymore. Only in poor neighborhoods does this still take place. Hence why many women are turned on by thugs. A man still needs to have that energy even if he is the CEO of a white collar business.

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question

5/26/2015 06:49:33 am

thanks, great answer. the character alonzo harris denzel plays in training day always been magnetic to me in some way, watched the movie like 20 times but he isn't particularly nice as you said that is a key factor of sex appeal but he oozes masculine energy.

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Rom

5/26/2015 10:07:26 am

Being "nice" balances out masculine energy. A turn on to women is a bad boy who can show a sensitive side. In my book "Sexual Chemistry" I said the following: "The true man is the man who can confront his enemies but will have the sensitivity to hold a tiny baby in his hands."

Michael

5/30/2015 01:15:23 am

I remember one of the few times the "wolf" came out in me. I was in middle school, and this white girl in my class was wearing this tight skirt and it really hugged her body. It was probably red or pink, and I just found myself just staring at her intently in class. Not in a mouth open in awe way, but in a lion before he attacks his prey. I think everyone noticed i was really lusting after her, even my teacher because after the class she took me aside and said "not to be looking at girls like a piece of meat"(paraphrasing), but I didn't care on that day lol. In all seriousness though, the same people who would benefit more by men letting out their "wolf" more and trusting their raw primal instincts when it comes to decision making and whatnot are the same ones trying to suppress it. Women and American Feminist society can't say they want men to be men, when they're criticizing men for displaying their sexuality. You can't say you want men to be men when you're posting videos labeled "street harassment" and trying to put in place laws that prevent men from approaching women. But hey i get it, women REALLY want the "wolf" from men they're interested in, Mr. Goodbar, The Bad Boy, or Denzel Washington. The only problem with that is most of American entitled women have no chance of getting a Goodbar like Rom said in one of his blog. Most have no shot at a Bad Boy or an Alonzo Harris type of guy. That eventually leads to sexually and even on other levels dissatisfied women, and timid, passive, overly cautious men they have relationships with, but hey that what happens when you live in a Feminist dominated society.

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Rom

5/30/2015 02:31:16 am

@Michael, well said. This society on one hand says "be a man" but on the other hand throws a man in jail for actually being a man. Women want a puppy but when someone disrespects them they want The Wolf. That's the state of this society. In African, Native American, and Asian cultures The Wolf was cultivated in men. Through a Rites of Passage a boy was taught how to harness The Wolf in order to become a man. Notice I said harness. There's nothing that can stop a man riding a Wolf.

One thing I want to clear up. Feminists don't really have any power. Feminism is backed up by the Power Elite and big mean patriarchal men with big guns. Feminism is a tool for controlling the masses. The SECOND feminism is no longer useful to the Elite it will go back to being an insignificant subculture.

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niko

6/1/2015 08:15:39 pm

i was always searching, thinking about charisma.. and there are many different elements to it i guess.. there for i never found a true clear answer on what it actually is.

but to sum it up

the ''secret'' of mr goodbar is sexual charisma ( being comfortable with his sexuality ) and having that fighter/ protective energy communicated to women ( the wolf )?

and the charisma itself is just the ability to connect with everyone on an emotional level, am i right?

Scott

6/5/2015 02:06:59 am

By elite I'm guessing you mean the secret societies or formerly know as the mystery schools (Freemasons Iluminati etc). There's a blod called authentic king that is all about authentic attraction and he also mentions power elite secret societies a lot.

Rom

6/5/2015 07:20:06 am

@Scott, By Elite I mean Freemasons, Illuminati, The Super Rich, the One Percent, whatever you want to call them. I've dealt with these types in life. Their mindset is totally different from the average dude on the street. Ironically these types get what I write about in my books and blogs. Feminism is a joke to these men.

Michael

6/11/2015 11:51:34 am

@ Rom
So when do you think feminism will no longer be useful to the power elite,and things will go back the way they used to or atleast more balanced between men & women, because right now the scale seems overly tilted in one direction, and as a young man it's rather concerning.

It is definitely a tool of control, and i can see the agenda EVERYWHERE. It's like i see it, but all these simps and white knights are blinded. Watching the Nba Finals and now they got this "men for women" campaign going on. I watched it and just shook my head thinking "really...are you serious?"

Rom

6/11/2015 06:59:46 pm

Actually the shift has already begun. At the end of the day the laws of nature are infinitely more powerful than the Power Elite. The truth of the matter is that the Elite don't control anything. At best they build fences to direct the herd of humanity. Sometimes though the herd stampedes and breaks through the fences.

In the next 60 years masculine energy will dominate. To explain why would take a book. Just know that things go in cycles that are easily tracked. Things will look very different in 10 years.

Michael

5/30/2015 01:20:11 am

Denzel Washington in "American Gangster" as Frank Lucas is another good example of a man who had the "Wolf". Frank Lucas was giving out Turkeys on Thanksgiving, and in the same breathe pouring gasoline on his foes and shooting them up.

Laurence Fishburne as Bumpy Johnson in "Hoodlum" is another good example.

Dangerous men.

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Rom

6/2/2015 10:19:51 am

@Niko, You are correct in that there are many different elements to charisma. Also 1000 people will have 1000 definitions. To me it's an energy that maybe the words haven't invented yet to truly define.

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thewolf

9/1/2015 02:13:29 am

i got a question about doing everything you can to live the life you want...

im really stuck in school i don't feel motivated i want to do something for myself, it feels like im trapped and very few people understand me, they're like '' whats wrong with school, you can get a nice job.. blabla etc etc)

i don't know if it has got to do something with that energy(thewolf) but im really rebellious and its becoming more extreme i feel kinda lost.

does a man with ''the wolf'' last in/with a school/job or are they rebellious and go for what they really want and be the owner of something? have you had any experience with this? wether school or job?

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Rom

9/1/2015 03:49:37 am

@thewolf, You gotta go where your heart takes you. Sometimes it might be in school and sometimes it means going out there and hustling your own business. The first thing you have to do is figure out what you really want to do with your life. Once you figure that out then you have to look at what can help you get to that life. In some cases you will need what you can learn in school. In other cases you might need direct experience. Once you know your purpose everything else will fall into place, even the type of women you will attract. The key is doing what YOU want to do and not what someone else expects for you. It's your life.

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thewolf

9/1/2015 04:43:20 am

i know school is not my passion, but i have a big drive to do something big but don't know what it is yet, its risky to quit but im definitly more relieved and happy when i do.. but i appreciate your advice