Hello all! Please excuse me if I'm being a bit forward, but would any of you be willing to share with me your opinion of sex?

I'm asking because, and please correct me if I'm wrong, most Satanists have sex with more than one person. Not at the same time, of course, since that would be kinky. But I'm assuming that a person who supports the Satanic philosophy would experience more than one sex partner over their lifetime. That's something I'm uncomfortable doing because of my view of sex: as a total surrender to the other person, total commitment to them, and permanent spiritual, mental, and physical bonding.

Have any of you felt this way? Has anyone made a distinction between having sex and making love? A woman would be more likely to share my feelings, since for her, sex is internal and physically alerting. Therefore I am especially interested in the opinions of the female Satanists out there.

How do I feel about sex?
It's quite lovely, thank's for asking! (Especially when candle wax is involved)

As for your second comment there, well - to each their own.
Most people will have all type's of different partner's through-out their life, and some are happy keeping it that way.
Other's like to wait for Mr / Mrs 'Right' to come along, and then spend all their time / passion with them alone.

Other's try to find a balance ~ enjoy many people while their young, have a blast, then settle down as old age looms.

Like I said, to each their own.

... I think (in most cases) two Satanist's making love is enough to cause a small earthquake

The Satanic Bible is superbly clear on this subject. Sex, for a Satanist is truly indulgence, not compulsion. If you are the sort of person who is not interested in a monogomous relationship, then you are quite at liberty to have sex with as many people as you want. However, if you are the sort of person who would be more happy with just one person, then that is fine. Satanism doesn't force people to do anything sexually that they don't want to do.
Satanism advocates "sexual freedom" in its truest sense - meaning you are free to break records for the number of sex partners in a lifetime, and you are equally free to abstain from sex altogether if your interests lie elsewhere.

Personally, I enjoy sex, as I think most young men do. I have no particular intention of "settling down" so I shall probably continue to have sex with different people throughout my life.

The Satanic view on sex in a nutshell: As long as all participants consent and no harm is done, do whatever floats your boat and ENJOY without guilt.

I'm asking because, and please correct me if I'm wrong, most Satanists have sex with more than one person.

There is no definitive poll or survey but yes, I am inclined to think that most Satanists have slept with more than one person. But that is not to say that multiple partners are required or expected.

Not at the same time, of course, since that would be kinky.

Why not at the same time? Surely there are a handful of Satanists out there who have indulged in a three-, four- or fivesome!

That's something I'm uncomfortable doing because of my view of sex: as a total surrender to the other person, total commitment to them, and permanent spiritual, mental, and physical bonding.

Okay. Opinions on love and sex will differ among Satanists, but that should not bother you. Some enjoy casual encoutners, you do not. Simple as that. As long as your desires are YOURS and not one that has been thrust upon you by society and hold on to out of guilt, then save yourself for that special someone. Once you get into the sack, throw yourself at him (or her) and enjoy without inhibition or remorse afterwards!

Now THAT is Satanic.

Edited by Sarracenia (09/07/0306:23 PM)

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Quote:I'm asking because, and please correct me if I'm wrong, most Satanists have sex with more than one person. Not at the same time, of course, since that would be kinky.

Who said there is anything wrong with being kinky?

Quote:That's something I'm uncomfortable doing because of my view of sex: as a total surrender to the other person, total commitment to them, and permanent spiritual, mental, and physical bonding.

Then you should certainly not do something that makes you feel uncomfortable, unless of course you tend to have masochistic tendencies.

The "Satanic" view of sex is your own view of sex. Since (of course) all Satanists are different, each Satanist will have their own view of it, preferences and such. And that, in itself, is very Satanic!

Since the others have already elaborated on the Satanic stance on sex, I would only add that you should be well-adjusted and satisfied with your personal choices/preferences. If this is not the case, it is your personal responsibility to do something about it.

You are ultimately responsible for your own satisfaction and happiness.