Friday, May 30, 2014

What’s in a word?

The old adage, “Sticks and stones may break my bones but
names will never hurt me,” can be traced back to The Christian Recorder, March
1862. It was once used as an “uplifting” avenue to fight back against bullies.
A lot can change in 150 plus years. Words are the way in which we, as a
society, communicate and define subject matter. Words are used to define who we
are.

For instance, if I were to tell you a story about a
12-year-old girl who was a “child prostitute” versus telling you a story about
a 12-year-old girl who’d been commercially sexually exploited, your idea about
this 12-year-old would change from a “girl gone wrong” to a true victim. Which
brings me to my point. Merriam-Webster, the number one trusted source of
definition for American English, defines the word pimp as “a man who solicits
clients for a prostitute.”

Nothing could be further from the true definition of this
word. Let’s begin with the fact that in today’s society a pimp can be male or
female. In regard to “soliciting clients for a prostitute,” pimps are people
who first solicit girls, women and boys by using manipulation and grooming and
then use fear and coercion to force these victims to perform sexual acts on
“customers/victimizers”. These are the same tactics that pedophiles use on
their chosen victims.

A woman from New Jersey, named Danielle D., is working to
change how we understand what a pimp truly is. A victim of human trafficking,
Danielle knows full well precisely what a pimp is and is asking that
Merriam-Webster update their definition of the word pimp to fall in line with
its true meaning. Human Trafficking is a crime that occurs right here in the
United States. Despite a good amount of media attention focused upon this
heinous crime, many Americans don’t understand the true nature of human
trafficking.

In order to better understand our society we must have a
true and correct definition for the words that we use to convey information.
Danielle has started a petition on Change.org and is asking for a very simple
request from Merriam Webster’s. For more information about this particular
petition, visit Change.org at “Merriam-Webster: Change the Definition of"pimp" to a realistic definition.”