tell him you’d like to go out to a nice dinner, wear a nice dress and skip the panties, somehow show him your not covered down there, either by showing him(flash) or if your sitting next to him hold his hand for a bit then slide his hand up there. He’ll get the point real fast that you mean business

I once got irritated that MrDane was playing some stupid video game, so I put on a skimpy nighty, sent him a pic of my cleavage, and told him “Whatever you’re doing can wait… this offer expires soon” and what do you know- 3 seconds later I hear footsteps running up the stairs 🙂

I, of course, asked him to please delete the picture before any other, eh-hem, ‘activities’ would commence.

If I were going to plan something in advance (my example was rather impromptu) I’d either pick up dinner or cook, then suggest something like a bubble bath or surprise him in lingerie.

The most effective thing I’ve done recently was stash some lingerie in teh bathroom. I was making dinner, and he got home from work. I had some yummy beers. A few minutes before dinner was done, I went to the bathroom, switched into my lingerie and tossed my apron back ontop of it and went about finishing dinner. Dinner was had, and then a lovely evening 🙂