Lonely men soul dating

When she last registered with an online dating site she was 44 — and few men made contact.‘Forty is a huge cut-off point for a lot of men,’ Ruthie explains.However, many Christians can't find their soul mate in church, and many singles are simply too busy to maintain an active social life.This is why we want to help unmarried Christians to meet other Christian singles — for a serious relationship, but also for fellowship and spiritual growth.Ruthie has been looking for a boyfriend for the past decade.‘I always had boyfriends when I was younger and assumed I would again after James was born,’ she says. These chats were fun — and sometimes quite flirty — but if I ever suggested we meet, the men would often back off, saying they were not looking for a relationship.’A dozen or so dates followed over the years, none of them quite right.

This is why you can only join c Match if you're truly single — it means you can't join if you're 'almost divorced' or separated.

When those relationships failed, he came back to me and I just felt, “He’ll be off again”, so I didn’t pursue it.’Official statistics reveal that among those aged 45 to 64 there are equal numbers of men and women living alone, it is only in the 65 and over age group that the lone women outnumber men — and that’s easily explained by the fact that men die younger. ‘A man can pick from a wider pool of women — his age and under, by several decades,’ The Plankton writes.

‘I have a friend in her late 30s who lives with, and has children by, a man in his mid-60s.

He is paunchy with grey chest hair and not especially rich.

He plucked her from a surfeit of willing women, watching him like vultures before my friend “got” him.’This may be the case in some circles, but is it generally true?