Orgasms From Anal Sex?

Dear Rachel and Claire, My boyfriend and I were discussing anal sex and he says that women can have orgasms with anal penetration alone, but that men can't. I'm persuaded that it's the other way around. Who's right? -Back Door Dreamer

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Dear Back Door Dreamer,Neither of you is exactly right, but your enthusiasm for the orgasmic potential of the other sex is charming. Bodies of any gender can orgasm from a variety of stimulation. Some people can come just from sexy thoughts without any physical touch at all. And many people can come from anal penetration, which stimulates the prostate in fellas and the G-spot and clitoral legs in women. But don’t take our word for it--try it and see what’s true for you. You can read one of our articles on the subject such as How to Stimulate the Prostate Gland or How to Enjoy Butt Sex.