Porn: Not Just For Men Anymore

Remember the first porn movie you ever saw? The screen was probably filled with impossibly large breasts, and a not-so-hot man with an impressive dick. You probably remember the bad dialogue, and even worse, the music — the music itself was enough to make you laugh out loud, even if the over-the-top dirty talk didn’t!

But those days of wicked weird porn have now taken their place in history, and the newer porn flicks have tapped into an audience that might not have watched them just a few years ago.

Who watches porn now? Women, baby. Women watch porn.

A recent Oprah show featuring Jenna Jameson and erotica author Violet Blue caused quite the stir among women. The message boards at Oprah.com quickly filled with very opinionated women, some who loved porn and wanted to see more of it — and some who were appalled that the subject of porn was considered worth of discussion at all.

Porn movies are no longer the heavy-breathing, fake-tit action they used to be. Sure, there are still some elements that might make you roll your eyes, but porn is now tailored more toward couples than the lone man wanking in his lonely bedroom. The actors in porn are more realistic than ever, some going so far as to eschew plastic surgery and doing their best with what their Momma (or Daddy) gave them. The dialogue is often snappy and interesting, and the scenarios are more realistic. Perhaps best of all, the music is much better!

But porn movies are still chock-full of the naughtiest positions, sexual games, and flat-out fucking you could ever hope to see. And that’s the truth about why women like porn so much, isn’t it?

Women like to fuck. Let’s say it out loud, shall we? Women like to get down and dirty and do all the filthy, nasty things that men like to do. That includes watching porn, and maybe even trying their best to create their own — hey, why not? So the thought of watching porn to get the party started is no longer the kind of suggestion that makes eyes roll.

Want to get hot and naughty and learn all about dirty talk at the same time? Turn to your favorite porn store. Don’t be afraid to walk in their with your partner and announce that you are looking for good porn that is geared toward normal, everyday couples like you. The man (or woman) behind the counter will know exactly what you want, and will have a whole list of titles ready for your viewing pleasure.

Porn isn’t just for men anymore. So why not go see what it’s all about these days?

About Denise Brienne

Confident, fun, well-rounded and sexy. Those are words that describe author Denise Brienne, a thirty-something woman who has a knack for giving the best advice to those who want to spice up their intimate relationships.