Top 25 Most Popular SexIs Articles in 2012

by Sexis Editors

The year 2012 was a year fraught with change for SexIs. We added a lot of new faces, and touched on a lot of new topics. We had articles all over the spectrum from people all over the world. And these are the most read, most popular, most commented...dare we say most loved? Catch up on what you missed!

1. Thoughts During Terrible Sex by The BloggessWe've all had them. Thoughts about Gramma, the dishes, whether or not we fed the dog...while we're boinking our lovers. They're so common Twitter had a trending hashtag for them last year. The Bloggess shared a few with us.

2. The Suspension Accident: It Finally Happened. by MidoriKinksters talk quite a bit about the inherent risk of bondage and other kinky play. They learn the proper procedure, to mitigate that risk — but rarely do you hear about the stark reality that no matter what precautions you take or how safe you play, people can still get hurt.

3. The Steel Clit: A How-To On Dealing With A Stubborn Clitoris by buttsNot everyone has those wonderfully sensitive, easy clits that can get off from a few light rubs of a finger. Some of us have clits of steel that are so stubborn that sometimes the hours spent attempting just aren't worth the orgasm! What do you do with a clit that just won't give in? You've got options and you're not alone!

4. Your Shape Shifting Vagina! by buttsEveryone knows that penises change shape when they're aroused, but did you know that your vagina changes shape too? Penises aren't the only body parts that grow!

5. Perpetual Erection: The Hard Truth About Priapism by Tinamarie BernardAn erection that lasts for hours might sound like a dream come true, but in reality priapism — a condition where your erection lasts for more than 4 hours — can be a nightmare.

6. 11 Different orgasms? Who knew? by Miss NessaWe orgasm to release tension, we orgasm to feel euphoric, and we orgasm because it's the most incredible feeling in the world. We live to orgasm, at least some of us do. What could be more fun than learning more ways to orgasm?

7. Menstrual Sex: It's Not Just For Vampires by Girly JuiceMany people are terrified of having sex when they or their partner are menstruating, but it's really not that big a deal! There are plenty of ways to have mess-free sex while one partner is bleeding, even if you get squicky around blood. As long as you have the right equipment and attitude, it shouldn't be a problem.

9. Fun with Blow Jobs by Sera26"You men have no idea what we're dealing with down there. Teeth placement and jaw stress and suction and gag reflex. And all the while bobbing up and down, moaning, and trying to breathe through our noses. Easy? Honey, they don't call it a "job" for nothing." — Samantha-Sex and the City

10. Mr. Sexsmith Says: Get Off While Strapped On by Sinclair SexsmithMr. Sexsmith answers a reader's question. Ruth asked, "I’m curious about fucking a girl/getting a blow/hand job with one’s cock and getting off from this action alone (as if to simulate a cisman’s dick ejaculation; that is, for me, without attaining an orgasm simultaneously from clitoral or g/p-spot stimulation). I wonder what you know about this subject (through research and/or personal experience), as I am interested in attaining it for myself and want to know what’s worked for those who can/do."

11. Talk Dirty To Me Baby by AHubbyof2SexualMindsDirty talk, it isn't just for porn is it? Have you ever been in a public place and gotten totally turned on by something your lover whispered in your ear? Or gone nuts when they cried out something in bed? If not, then we need to have a talk.

12. How To Turn Me On by Rachel Kramer BusselThe best way to turn Rachel Kramer Bussel on is to be yourself, whoever that is. Way too many people posture and try to seem like someone they’re not. Rachel finds that confusing.

14. Oral Sex: How are you at receiving? by MaxxtersMany men and women report oral as being their favourite sexual act, if not at least enjoying it quite a bit. Oral sex is one of the most common ways of being able to make a woman orgasm, as it gives her partner much more control over the type of stimulation and the exact spots to hit to pleasure her.

15. Got Rope? by MollenaPeople are often curious as to why a particular play-style, pervy activity or kind of kink appeals while others leave you cold. Mollena can’t speak for anyone but herself, but she’ll tell you about why she so loves bottoming to rope bondage in this article.

17. She Plays, He Plays: Operation Pussy Power by Rydell JohnsonSince the 50 Shades craze, there has been a lot of talk about kegel exercisers. Sales for these little lady helpers have skyrocketed across the board. But which set is best for your body? Rydell Johnson gives you the scoop on four sets carried on EdenFantasys.com.

18. Mysteries of the Male Ejaculate: A Matter of Taste by Dorian DarqueThere is so much that goes unasked and unspoken between a man and woman. Since orgasms really begin and end in the mind and so much of sex is psychological, understanding each other's sexual needs, wants, fantasies and expectations can be a wonderful turn-on, and create a deeply passionate connection.

19. Confessions of a Stripper – The Champagne Room Unveiled a series by LoriandHubby(find the rest of the series under "Related Articles" at the bottom of the article)
Long before VIP rooms were added to virtually every adult club across America, the champagne flowed in the French Quarter and the ladies were hot and thirsty. What really happened in the dark corners of those clubs? Why did so many men try to pay for lunch and find that their credit card was maxed out? After years of keeping the stories from her days as a stripper on Bourbon Street a guarded secret, Lori (of LoriandHubby) is sharing what really went on back then.

20. Kink: Convenient and Cost-Effective by SmokedawgWe talked about household items that can stand in for kink toys. But what about the festishes you can't replace with a ping pong paddle?

21. A BDSM Contract by Tessa TabooYou want to get into a 24/7 BDSM relationship, but don't know where to start? A contract is a great place to state what you expect to give and receive, and a great way to keep the lines of communication open.

22. All That’s Wickedly at Stake with Jessica Drake by Dave GammonWhat does Jessica Drake do on her birthday? Why does she do what she does? How does she feel about her fans? Dave Gammon asks all that and more in this interview with “the wickedest girl” in porn.

24. My Inner Bitch’s Bout with Sex Negative Education by Tinamarie BernardAn eye-opening event this summer had Tinamarie thinking: It’s time for grownups to grow up about sex education. It starts too late and ends too early. She came to this realization last summer when she got a dreaded call from her son’s camp director one Friday afternoon.

25. Swallow by Jenny SwallowsA word to make guys go weak at the knees... and some girls to go weak in the stomach. A look at the cultural and societal background to the power of seven little letters.