Yeah I checked everything I could think of. The bulbs look fine assuming "fine" is what I've read about the spots inside the bulb. I quadrouple checked all connections. I even went to the extreme of completely uninstalling the complete kit and reinstalling it. GRR.
The only thing I haven't done is to completely disable the DRLs according to some of Mulder's posts. I just unhooked the plug in the engine bay. I'm going to go take the glovebox out and unplug that 10pin plug and see if that does anything for me.