Roger Thompson, left, Joe Nail and Diana Guerin participate in the death cafe. The inspiration behind the trend is that people need a place to talk about the often "taboo" topic of death. Michael A. Schwarz, USA TODAY

Oakland Cemetery in Atlanta. The gatherings don't draw only people who are worried about dying or those who are grieving. Organizers say they also draw those who are seeking authenticity. Michael A. Schwarz, USA TODAY