InsertAnd we had an outdoor party for her with a big bonfire and we ended up burning this guys’ hunting trophy on the fire, which for her was kind of an exorcism of the marriage and the sadness that had fallen upon her life. So as a result of that, I really started thinking this is great, we were able to take her from a state of devastation to sort of drawing a line and being over it.

પ્રેઝન્ટરસેમ અને ફિલ, divorce parties અંગે તમારો શું માનવું છે?

SamI like the idea – like Christine said in the clip, it sounds like a really good way to draw a line under everything.

PhilI can sort of see that drawing a line‘s important… but isn’t this a bit of strange idea for a party. Isn’t there a danger that it could trigger a lot of bad feelings, bringing up all the memories of why someone wanted to get divorced?

PhilSurely a party about a relationship that’s ended, probably for a bad reason, is going to trigger a lot of bad feelings and hurt.

SamI’m not so sure, you know… Closure is really important after something like a divorce.પ્રેઝન્ટર‘Closure’ ને ગુજરાતીમાં કહીશું કોઈ બાબતનો અંત લાવવો. Do you think that’s the most important thing to recover from a traumatic event?PhilDoes a party really give you closure, isn’t it a bit too much of a celebration?

SamI think it does give you closure, it marks the end of something and allows you to move on.

પ્રેઝન્ટર‘Move on’ એટલે જે થયું તેને ભૂલીને આગળ વધવું. Moving on is so important after big life events like accident or divorce.

PhilI always thought that time was better for moving on from something, not spending lots of money on a party.

SamIt means you can focus on it – you can focus on all the things around a divorce, or any other life event and try and find the positives… even something like divorce can have positive sides, you know.