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My mother told me it was not nice that I referred to some women as whores, and she is right; however, if it looks like a whore and acts like one, it’s whore baby. As ladies, when a woman is blatantly pushing up on your man, the WORST thing you…

One of the biggest betrayals a man can commit is by sleeping with someone else. What makes it so hurtful is the reasoning behind it. For men, they can sleep with someone and it be nothing and still love you like they did the day before, which for some women…

Never! Just kidding. Honestly, after you have been with someone for a while, it is normal to stop using condoms and use other contraceptives when being intimate. The spreading of STDs isn’t because people who are in relationships are having sex with each other, it is because people are having…

The popular show on ABC “Scandal” has a lot of women cheering for the mistress character Olivia Pope. Why do we love her? Is it because she has a deep love for a man who loves her back? Is it the passion between the two or the love you see…

Supposedly Lamar Odom has been cheating on his wife with multiple women. Where have we seen foolery, with an athlete, like this before? Smh. The other woman has come out and said his wife, Khloé Kardashian found them in a hotel room and is very violent. Umm.. excuse me but…

The old conflict between girlfriends has been if you see her man with another woman, do you tell? There are two simple answers to this. If it is in plain sight that he is being inappropriate, such as holding hands and kissing, say something. If he is with a woman,…

Valentines Day is over and it is on to the rest of the year. Have Boujie girls been dating for no reason and still complaining about the “lack of good men” out there to date? As you start to move forward this year, it is time to think about what…

Are you the woman that the man is using until his main squeeze comes back? What many women do not pay attention to is when they get with a guy, who clearly is still hung up on his ex, is the waiting period before you are thrown out of his…

There is a syndrome that has not been diagnosed. The “I-want-her-life- drom”. It comes from a mixture of low self-esteem and a tad of envy. Jealousy is not apart of it because jealously comes from hate. Envy is a little different. Envy is an emotion that comes from self-pity.

To salvage your reputation or resist getting this kind of title, it is better to know why you are making these kinds of decisions in the first place. Before you sleep with someone, do you know why you are getting it in??? Don’t wait until later to ask him if…

For a man, when he categories his women, the title tends to stay there. After talking to some brothers about the subject of thinking that some women are hoes, their responses were mainly the same. “If I think she’s a hoe I don’t really change my mind…it is what it…

When anyone goes into a relationship the first few months are usually pretty good. If they are not, that is a sure sign you are not in the right relationship, but only later down the road will you notice these warning signs. But I digress.

I went in pretty hard on the ladies we need to avoid for the New Year, now it’s time to tackle the fellez. Quit frankly, I’m mad at myself for making this list so short but I do plan on writing a book about all this so don’t worry ladies,…

I am all about “sisterhood” and sistas doing it for themselves but I’ve seen a lot of crap in 2011 that do not follow this boujie girl’s laws. Some of you “sistas” need to get some help and change your nasty attitudes and ways or you are not going to…

If you are in a relationship with a man who will not commit to you, you are a concubine.
If he is married and is promising to leave his wife for you, you are a concubine.
If he is only going to your house and you have never been to his house, you are a concubine.
If none of his friends or family know who you are, you are a concubine.
If you hear from him every once in a while and it’s just for sex or when he hits you up for money, you are a concubine and possibly an ATM.