We wanted to record our journey as we learn how to incorporate Domestic Discipline into our lives. I am a wife who has been Taken-in-Hand by her husband. I am loved and cherished by him. I am his little china doll and he is mine forever.

Wednesday, May 15, 2013

Dragon is BACK!

First it was a late Sunday evening spanking. I thought, "wow this is nice but he won't keep it up."

Wait just a minute. What else has been going on? Tasks, deadlines and sex on demand. He doesn't take no for an answer anymore. He tells me what he wants and expects it to happen. That only happens when he is on top of things.

Is that it?

Nope....

Tuesday he worked a double shift. He works at a job that doesn't have regular hours. He comes home when the job is done. When someone calls in sick their job still has to be done. Dragon had his job to do and half of another job to do. Dragon worked just as fast as he humanly could and still do the job right. He took lunch late in the afternoon and finally called me to let me know he would be late.

Finally around 7 in the evening he calls to let me know he is coming home. AND he had a basket ball goal in the truck for our little flower's birthday. She turns 14 in just a week. The house had a goal when we moved in but it was taken down this spring. My kids were heart broken. Flower used it the most and was very disappointed. She was all squeals when it was unloaded.

After hamburgers on the grill and attempting to put the goal together, it was missing parts, Dragon led me off to the garage. He asked me his usual questions. Full protocol So formal that I had to ask if it was a punishment. I am sure I earned one some time during the day. I usually do.

Nope.... It was a fun good girl spanking.

He pushed my clothes out of the way and gave me what I will call a gentile spanking. Soft pats with harder swats spaced throughout. My bottom is very sensitive to swats right now. We had a LONG break from any kind of spanking on a regular basis. My poor bottom has forgotten how to take them. Even the mildest sting takes my breath away.

Would you believe it? With as light as that spanking was, I still feel the effects! My bottom stings! And it is the afternoon after! WHAT?

We are working on my pain threshold and fear. It is almost like getting back into DD after a deployment. Not quite as bad but close. Dragon is poking his head out of his cave and meddling in the affairs of his house again. He is back into it. Now my head needs to get with the program.

One step at a time.... or should that be one swat at a time? This year has held some HUGE changes for us. It is going to take time for us to get back on our feet.

GOOD NEW on the kid front! I just loaded the next grades work on 3 of the kids computers. Two of the kids are behind but BUT! ! ! two of the kids are ahead! Flower and Bug are starting on next years school work ahead of schedule! Pooh bear wants to do two grades at the same time. I have decided to allow it. Mina is still working along. Math, not so much but she flying in her other subjects. Better late than never.

Those little breaks are periods of stress and disconnect. I am happy to be back on track. Sore bottom and all. When he is HOH all is right in the world. Glad I am not the only one that feels like that.

The storm gave me a little break. He let me know what should have happened but the weather is just to unpredictable. This storm system is changing from one minute to the next. It shouldn't take me long to adjust. A few more weeks like this one and I will have leather butt. : -)

dragon with rose

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I am a wife Taken in hand. Spanking is a small part of who we are and what we do. We have a relationship of mutual respect and love. We have four children, three dogs and a very spoiled bunny. I love to garden and sew. Dragon likes woodworking, fishing and fixing things.

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