BFN :(

I have been feeling so sick the last week. I was sure that I was going to get a BFP. Nope. Really, AF (Aunt Flo - menstruation/period) isn’t due for 3 more days so I could still be pregnant but I was so hopeful this morning. We are going away for the weekend and it would have been the perfect time to tell DH.

As an obsessed coffee lover - all of a sudden I haven’t been able to even finish one cup before it just doesn’t sound good. That’s never happened.

I’ve been sick to my stomach if I don’t eat every two hours. So I’ve had to have small snacks.

My bladder always feels full - but when I go is barely anything.

Heavy/tender breasts that get shooting pain every once in awhile.

Constipated - I’m never constipated. Haven’t been in years.

So tired. I’ve been sleeping really hard lately and by mid afternoon I feel like I’ve been up for days. No lifestyle change.

Cramps.

Dizzy.

Maybe I just tested to early and maybe AF (Aunt Flo - menstruation/period) is coming. But if we aren’t pregnant this month we are taking a break so the baby wouldn’t be born in nov or dec. I don’t want my kid to have to deal with holiday birthdays!

Some women do get BFP (big fat positive (pregnancy test)) earlier on, but others take a little longer. As hard and miserable as it is to wait It’ll be worth it in a few days. Retest then and you should get a more accurate answer. Best of luck and much baby dust to you!

Some women do get BFP earlier on, but others take a little longer. As hard ...

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02/15/2019

Some women do get BFP earlier on, but others take a little longer. As hard and miserable as it is to wait It’ll be worth it in a few days. Retest then and you should get a more accurate answer. Best of luck and much baby dust to you!

Thank you! I was just so hopeful since I’ve been feeling like crap. Plus the wanting to tell him on our trip. But it’s not to late for this month!

Thank you! I was just so hopeful since I’ve been feeling like crap. Plus th...

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02/15/2019

Thank you! I was just so hopeful since I’ve been feeling like crap. Plus the wanting to tell him on our trip. But it’s not to late for this month!

Totally get it! I hate when life gets our hopes up!!! But don’t worry. I’m sure you will make it just as special when you do get your BFP.
There’s so many cool ways to tell you spouse. My fingers are crossed for you!!

Oh and I have two dec babies... it really is hard to have kids around the holidays! By January I’m always exhausted lol

Totally get it! I hate when life gets our hopes up!!! But don’t worry. I’...

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02/15/2019

Totally get it! I hate when life gets our hopes up!!! But don’t worry. I’m sure you will make it just as special when you do get your BFP.
There’s so many cool ways to tell you spouse. My fingers are crossed for you!!
Oh and I have two dec babies... it really is hard to have kids around the holidays! By January I’m always exhausted lol

Thank you! I’ve had a box with a shirt that says “be nice to me my wife is pregnant”, a pregnancy cookbook (he loves to cook) and a note that says “you make me sick. Or is it your baby I’m carrying?” And then I was going to put the positive test in the box. So I’m really ready lol...But I’m with you. I don’t want a December baby! With the way my cycle is the baby would be due at the end of the month. So either around thanksgiving or Christmas. No thanks!

Thank you! I’ve had a box with a shirt that says “be nice to me my wife i...

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02/15/2019

Thank you! I’ve had a box with a shirt that says “be nice to me my wife is pregnant”, a pregnancy cookbook (he loves to cook) and a note that says “you make me sick. Or is it your baby I’m carrying?” And then I was going to put the positive test in the box. So I’m really ready lol...But I’m with you. I don’t want a December baby! With the way my cycle is the baby would be due at the end of the month. So either around thanksgiving or Christmas. No thanks!

That is seriously the cutest way to tell him!! I love it!! Yes my son was born the 18th of December and my daughter was born the 7th. Oh and my DH (dear husband) is on the 11th! It’s a crazy month for us lol

Took a test yesterday afternoon and it was a BFN. Of course it was. I had been drinking all day and knew it would be.

AF (Aunt Flo - menstruation/period) was due today and so far I haven’t seen her. I am always either a day early or right on time. Breasts hurt like crazy and I’m cramping though. So maybe I’ll wake up to a surprise, if not I’m taking a test first thing when I wake up.

Took a test yesterday afternoon and it was a BFN. Of course it was. I had bee...

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02/19/2019

Took a test yesterday afternoon and it was a BFN. Of course it was. I had been drinking all day and knew it would be.

AF was due today and so far I haven’t seen her. I am always either a day early or right on time. Breasts hurt like crazy and I’m cramping though. So maybe I’ll wake up to a surprise, if not I’m taking a test first thing when I wake up.

I know how hard this is. I’m so sorry your going through this. But even if it is a negative there is always next time. Don’t give up! You got this and we are all here for you

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