Things Women Have to Stop Letting Interfere with Their Sex Dating Lives

Purge out these insecurities right out of your head so you can have a fun time sex dating.

Your Breast Size

Do you really think guys care if your boobs aren't big enough when out sex dating? There really is no need to add ridiculous layers of padding or buy that new wonder bra you saw at Frederick's of Hollywood. And who knows? It might turn out to be a complete turn-on for him.

Your "I Don't Shave/Wax In the Winter" Idea

Women are pretty good in maintaining their manicures during the winter months, but leg shaving and bikini waxing are both usually forgotten. Getting a bikini wax isn't exactly an enjoyable procedure, so if women decide to do it, there has to be a beach somewhere nearby, or maybe Hawaii. But do you know what's a whole lot better than Hawaii? Mind-blowing oral Sex. Nuff said.

Your Stretch Marks

These are something that will stay, and probably not be going anywhere anytime soon. Deal with it. This especially goes to all the single moms who used to have abs like Gwen Stefani, and now... meh. I feel your pain, girls. But you don't have to worry, it's all good. He still thinks you're sexy, and you have to trust me on this. Never have I heard of foreplay coming to an abrupt stop just because a guy discovered a patch of stretch marks on a woman's body.

The Fact That He Never Spends a Night At Your Place

This is particularly directed to the single moms out there. Yes, we all know being in a relationship is all about compromise, and yadda, yadda, yadda. But seriously, perhaps it's a good idea to take things at his place. My kid still wakes up in the middle of the night, so imagine him waking up and seeing mommy getting it on with a stranger. Keep your SexDating life simple and save your "I fucked up my kid" therapy money for something else more important. So unless your man has spent considerable time with your kid, hook up at his place. Or maybe at your place if your kid is with the other parent.

Doubts About Your Oral Sex Performance

I know this is far from easy to do. Literally. And Samantha from "Sex and the City" said it best: "There's teeth replacement, jaw suction, gag reflex all while bobbing up and down, moaning, and trying to breathe through your nose. They don't call it a job for nothing." But guys like it. And regardless of how bad you think you might be at giving blow jobs, as long as you're not hurting his little friend, he's going to enjoy it. For guys, a "bad" blow job is probably like "bad" pizza; even if it's not perfect, it's probably still pretty good.