Do You Perform? ​The more you perform, the more the other person is called to perform...the less of each other you end up experiencing.

Do You Perform?

I keep having people arrive to me after being with social/dating/ seduction coaches. Weakened, fatigued, confused, and detesting themselves even more. So many methods, techniques, and rules to abide by.

Dont get it twisted...This coach is basically an acting teacher...instructing you on how to perform in a way which will assist you in extracting things from others...including your false sense of happiness.(aka your social coaches false sense of happiness) Teaching you the bullshit, in order to connect with bullshit, To support even more bullshit. Thats a lot of bullshit, huh?

Forget about being social...this is perpetuating a whole lot of the misery and lack of deep connection which is prevalent within our society.

If we focused less on being social, and more on allowing ourselves be as real, as authentic, as loving as possible in all of our relatings with ourselves and others... we could actually do some good. From a place of humanness. From a place of offering, rather than stealing.

I bet you have been to a social gathering at some point, where everyone dresses up to look good, and proceeds to have empty pointless gesture conversations with a whole bunch of people. Talking absolute shit. Some people even assume they have "social anxiety". Naw. You dont. Your being is just completely unable to be full of shit for longer than a few minutes. So to continue your ghastly performance, you must sacrifice yourself in the process...and that hurts your spirit. It aches. Its a form of self torture.

The more you perform, the more the other person is called to perform...the less of each other you end up experiencing.

The real issue one must deal with in this process, is the FEAR you have when it comes to fully allowing yourself be exactly the way you are...without all the fancy moves. Without being socially perfect. Without knowing exactly what to do and say. This is the clear difference between actual growth, and a whole bunch of methods which trick you into believing growth.

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