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Hi!I'm writing to you, because long time ago I gave up hope that I can type myself on my own. So,let's start. I'm 20yrs old girl, psychology student. My enneagram is probably 6, but as always, I'm not sure at all. People who know me claim that in the beginning of the acquaintance I'm really distant, but later it turns into something opposite. Generally I'm really kind person, helping others is one of my favorites things in world, but sometimes I looking really grumpy. I've got chaotic mind, sometimes I just want to live in my fantasies. My therapist told me I have lots of psychological issues. He suspects Dependent and Histrionic Disorder, sometimes Borderline. Self doubting should be my middle name and it concers sexuality, my future and more. Sometimes I'm thinking that I only know about myself three things: I love being sarcastic and also flirting (especially via internet) or reading about psychology. I know it's not much, but maybe someone will has any idea. Btw, sorry for my English, it's not good at all.

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Posted on: 2018-02-26 16:46:53

Warwick321

Thank you Doha for answer! ???? I feel common understanding between us. So, I'm definetely Six. And probably XNFX type.

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Posted on: 2018-02-27 14:51:25

doha

And You're perfectly fine the way you are. Flirting online and reading psychology seems awesome btw Lol. Just remember to not dwell into fantasies much and start thinking and dealing with your situation at hand, we only dwell into fantasies when we can't deal with the situation well and tend to avoid everything for the sake of fantasies. You'll be astonished by how confident and less dependent you've become later if you start doing stuff on your own. Help only those who genuinely need it like your close ones. When we seek reassurances from others too much then we're at a risk of being misled by wrong advises other people give. You definitely seem like an INFP though. I know what you're probably dealing with my sister is borderline too and she behaves in a similar way, so thats what I keep telling her :)

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Posted on: 2018-02-24 00:30:07

Warwick321

I don't think I'm 7w6 at all. Generally I see in myself lots of 2 tendencies or even 5 or 9. In moments like these I hate enneagram and I want to forget about everything I red about it but its quite impossible, cause I'm an addict (even if i can't type myself).

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Posted on: 2018-02-26 07:20:01

doha

Happened with me as well, wanted to forget about it but somehow got addicted to it. Anyways if you have 2,59 tendencies then you could very well be 6w5 coz 2s and 6s often have this supportive and helpful nature. However 6s are more loyal. And when you're at best you might feel like a 9 coz then you're more relaxed. 6s when relaxed seem like 9s.

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Posted on: 2018-02-22 08:40:24

Warwick321

Thank you Harbinger for answer. It's very likely I'm a 6w7. It remains only to search MBTI type and I hope to done it soon.

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Posted on: 2018-02-23 17:37:16

doha

ENFP 7w6 sx with a heavy 6 wing is also a possibility, especially considering the online flirting part Lol. Seems like I'm gonna enjoy getting acquainted with you

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Posted on: 2018-02-17 08:04:29

Harbinger19

Hello, Warwick.

Based on what you’ve written, I would guess 6w7. Not an sx-blind from the sound of it.

I am also a Six, so I can relate to your dialogue. Six is a very common type in the world, and even more common among females than males.

The other type that is unsure of its type is typically Nine, so if you don’t identify with Nine (another extremely common type), it’s a fairly safe bet you’re a Six.