Just because you're married and she promised to love you forever, doesn't mean you should stop trying to be attractive to your spouse. In fact, making sure she wants you may be even more important after you've been together for years.

The problem is that things change. Life becomes stressful. Baggage accumulates between you two. Physical intimacy becomes de-prioritized.

On top of that, times are changing for all of us! The woman you're with is probably a lot stronger and more independent than the generation of women before her. While it used to be that women needed men for financial security and protection, to earn and provide for them, that's no longer the case. Now, strong women are more independent than ever.

Try being the one to bring a condom on a date. Seems simple, yes. But women now feel like the responsibility is on them to carry it with them when they go out. If you bring one, you're not only showing her you think she's sexually attractive, but that you are able to provide (at the very least, a condom of your own).

Now THAT will turn her on! There is nothing sexier than a man who can provide, even if we don't need him to.