Why do we ghost?

Kaitlyn and I went to Texas, ate breakfast tacos, each gained five pounds of happy weight, and more or less became certified brands. We had a good time together. We also successfully pulled off our first live episode of Whyd You Push That Button, which you can relive in video form above and audio form below. We also have a transcription below of our conversation with our expert guests: Jordan Guggenheim, engineering manager of iOS at OkCupid, and Dr. Jess Carbino, the in-house sociologist at Bumble.

We tried to figure out why people ghost and ended up learning that humans are lazy and need a manager-type hanging over their heads to keep them accountable at all times. Still, Id like to think this is just a rough patch in our collective…