What Guys Said 2

Looks are a great indicator as to how the individual takes care of herself currently ;;

Further into detail, we would like a spouse that, if we have kids with this person - how would the kids genes compare

If you want a blue eye'd kid with blonde hair approximately 5'2'' then it makes no relevant sense- upon initial contact- to pursue a woman who is has green eyes, is a brunette and is approximately 4'3''

Additionally, there are people out there that are looking for a "good looking" partner because they have little faith in those individuals that don't portray that they are willing to go to the gym all the time.

- There are many different answers for this question, but here's some questions I ask myself when I first get to know someone:

:: Are they confident

:: Are they conceited / Are they fun

:: Do they take care of themselves (Physically / Mentally / Etc)

:: Do they put in effort to look good

:: Are they "given their looks" through DNA (Turn off in some cases)

:: Are they open to a conversation

Heres the last paragraph in my essay Lol...

- The confidence part is a key playing factor, I have seen my sister (360 lbs at age 15... I have pictures to prove) become an outgoing individual and focus on getting rid of her flab due to diabetes. She is now 160lbs at age 22 and has come quite a far ways -- She has attracted a lot more male friends because she shows how willing she is to be an outgoing individual and take charge in her own life. <-- This is an example of how woman can tip the scales in their favor

Depends on the type of guy you're going for. It seems like you're under 18 so here's probably the reason. Guys tend to hit puberty a lot earlier than women. Guys around that age are thinking about sex and the first thing they notice about a girl is her looks.As the boy grows into a man, he will start to judge a woman on other characteristics: is she smart, is she financially stable, etc etc.

Looks are the first thing someone notices about any person. It's a human instinct.