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Orgasm is different for each person and not another weird thing that is difficult to define. Sex therapist Paula Hall explains how the physical and emotional factors involved in men and women, why the quality is more important than quantity, and why fake orgasms just a waste of time.

Definition of Orgasm
In 1953 a famous therapist defined it as “a terrible loss of tension on the nerve and muscle”. There are many other definitions, but the word “tension” appears most of all that exists.

Which this means that when you had sexual intercourse, you will free your body so you can feel the pleasure and satisfaction to return to normal activities after that. Truly unique!

What happens to our bodies when the Orgasm?
Technical things that create these signs is amazing.

* Your heart will pump faster and your breathing will become more severe for the supply of the muscles that are tense.
* Hormones like endorphins and oxytocin will be pumped into the surrounding brain and your body, which makes you feel so happy.
* Blood will be pumped into your sexual organs to create a pressure that directly generate pudendal reflexes (stiif the muscles of the sexual organs).
* The movement of this reflex will make your pelvic floor muscles will contract as much as 5 to 15 times in intervals of 0.8 seconds. This is the process of orgasm that we know.
* And only recently discovered, namely the movement of the nerve reaction that passes through the spine. This explains in some spinal paraplegic could feel the orgasm.

What should be kept away from an Orgasm?
An orgasm should never be used as the primary goal of a sexual relationship. You still feel I have a moment of fun with a partner, was shaking, sensual, intimate and loving, even without orgasm.

Well it was fun, but unless it is your primary goal orgasm pregnant should not be the only goal.

You can not make someone get an orgasm. What can you do, in addition to providing physical stimulation to your partner that is creating an environment that is safe, comfortable and loving to them which can make it happen orgasm.
orgasm
Orgasm is not always stuck around the sexual organs. Some people even have an orgasm, without touching their sexual organs. Some people describe this sensation as a feeling of “itch”, while the others describe it as a sense that spread throughout the body.

Pretending
Why do some people (men and women) to pretend orgasm? Perhaps this kind of orgasm is a sign of a desire to stop the sex. Most people do this to please her partner. They feel they will disappoint their partner, if they do not orgasm. Instead of pretending to be, far better to create a relationship, if you was not in the mood or loss of momentum, you can say it honestly.

Quality not quantity
We tend to give a false sense of orgasm on our environment. Most articles on improving your sex life is more focused on improving orgasm or make it more often.

But the intensity of an orgasm is not an absolute indication of sexual satisfaction. If you want to have an orgasm, you can do it yourself. But if you want a satisfying sex life, you need more than that.

In sexual psychological therapy, people are notified about the 2-6-2 rule. Than 10 times of sex, probably two of them will be fantastic and make distractions. Another 6 decent but nothing special. And you expect the rest 2 will not be disturbed.