(Actually, it is not entirely accurate, as I like to get out of the house and do things with the love of my life, and so mobility is an issue. I don't mean that being so big you have some limitations - like needing a scooter to get around - would be an issue, nor do I have a particularly active lifestyle, but I would find it hard to be with someone who was so heavy that she could not get out of bed. In spite of my fantasies, I wouldn't want to have a life-partner who is so totally dependent on me; I don't think that makes for a healthy relationship.)

Obviously, given the thread title, we are just talking about what we find physically attractive here, and that is only one facet of what draws me to a woman (so I am not totally shallow). I was just recently thinking about what makes a cute woman, and one thing I came up with is if you cannot tell if she is wearing a bikini bottom, then that is my kind of SSBBW!

I can honestly say I don't care how big they are as long as they aren't jerks, cause hateful and hurtful people come in all sizes... I do however prefer a bigger man, although I have dated smaller ones, I prefer to see a keg rather then a 6 pack as I am sure I have already stated more then once... I don't actually go by size cause everyone looks different at different weights with their height and how they carry it, but to me if you are 175 or 575 its all good as long as you are happy, healthy and are not a bad person oh yeah and a guy liking SSBBW's would be good to seeing as I am one LOL

I like my girl just the way she is , I guess around 280lbs currently (she won't weigh herself) up from 170lbs when we met 7 yrs ago. I go all misty eyed daydreaming what she will weigh in another 7 yrs if she carries on the same as she is now with hey love of good food.

I don't have a particular size preference, because it's all about the person, not the body. Like I said in another thread, the more I get to know someone, the more beautiful they become to me. Intelligence, humour and personality are far more important to me than the physical appearance, and the more I get to know them the more I love the physical. I've found men and women of all shapes and sizes attractive, but to be attracted to them I need to know and like them as a person first. I've been equally wowed by a guy with a toned body as I have a guy with lots of padding. My ex did put on some weight while we were together and started getting a little belly going, which I did find cute.

It's similar to my gender preferences. I say I'm bisexual for ease of conversation, but I'm not attracted to someone because of their gender. It doesn't matter what their plumbing is or how they identify, it's the person. The packaging isn't as important as what it contains, but I'll soon come to love the packaging just as much as the personality. If I love them, then I'll love how they look, no matter how it changes as the years go on.

I am attracted to all kinds of guys but I have a serious lust for guys who are at least 6', gotta be taller than me at 5'11 lol And usually around 200-400 lbs.
And if you have a shaved head and facial hair we can boom boom right now! :P lol

It's not a number, it's a series of dimensions (pun not intended); it's all relativity, how part A compares to part B compares to part C... etc. This makes the answer different for every person, as some people look their natural best with a few hundred pounds on their frame, while others start looking cross-eyed before they even breach the "plump" category.

I like women soft and curvy. Let's just leave it there.

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