Woman's Sexual Evolution?

Are Women Totally Changing Their Sexual Priorities?

Britney Spears has become the epitome of what most little girls aspire to nowadays. Turn on the TV at any given time during the day and it seems that every show from Sex and the City to the WWE's Monday Night Raw embraces sex, and women having lots of it. And believe you me — sex sells.

The problem with it all is that sex has become less of a sacred experience and more of a bargaining chip. When I was young, my mother always taught me to keep my legs crossed and behave like a lady, but it seems like today's youth gets its education from MTV Janet's chanting about a man's "nice package all right, guess I'm gonna have to ride it tonight." And although Britney alleges that she's a virgin, her actions demonstrate that she's anything but.

we're cursed, you're blessed

So is it a curse or a blessing, this newfound women's freedom when it comes to sex? Honestly, are men happier that sex is more easily attainable and that marriage isn't attached to the scenario (okay, okay)?

Now, having an orgasm is not so much a shot in the dark for women, and men are trying harder than ever (excuse the pun) to keep their women happy in the bedroom. Why? Is it because they truly want to make women happy, or is it because they feel as though they're competing with every other man she's ever slept with?

Perhaps that's why guys always complain that women say that size counts. It does, don't get me wrong, just not in the way that men think it does. Women don't have that "the bigger the better" mentality. We like an adequate size that will satisfy without hurting our insides. But besides that, are women starting to overtake men in the sex department?

it's sad really

Between the e-mail I receive and the women and men I've encountered, it's obvious that lots of women have been giving in to their sexual whims more than ever. I mean, whom are all these men having these one-night stands with anyway? Is it wrong? Or are men happier than ever?

Women have become assertive (maybe even aggressive) in both the boardroom and the bedroom. The problem does not lie in the fact that women have finally demanded their orgasms, but rather that they are placing less and less value on sex and sexual acts.

I used to think that some women mistook sex for love, but I think that a lot of women know exactly what the difference is and simply want to get off. So how does that make men feel? Knowing that there are women out there who think just like you? Women who go out with the intention of meeting a man, and getting him to get her off with no intention of ever seeing him again? Well, it makes me sick when men do it and to be honest, it makes my stomach turn even worse when women do.