even we also facing same. my son also very hyperactive. always he choose to do exactly what we don't want. never wants to listen to us. we try so much to control him by doing some bad activities.. but he's very sharp.

I have same problem dear..... now my son is 10 years it's badly affecting his studies now... So this year I have consulted doctor and he on medicine ....just one medicine in morning. .... now I feel he is able to concentrate on studies better.... so I have stop hitting him

hi Sunita! unleash your inner child. play with him, jump around with him, scream out loud. by doing this sometimes we break all the barriers and come up to their level and are better able to connect with them. Sunita there is no way other than love to deal with our children . even the toughest and naughtiest melt with a mother's hug. I am sure we don't want our children to obey us out of fear. So, breakfree and be the child , hewants to c in you. hope this helps!!

Hi Sunita, being short tempered at this age is not a good sign. When your son doesn't listen to you stop talking to him for sometime. Let him know that you are not talking to him as he doesn't listen to you. Gradually he will come around and start listening to you.