I hope you have enjoyed your holidays and
wish you a
prosperous and happy New Year. Usually this time of year I think of
resolutions
to achieve the next year, such as losing a few pounds, scheduling more
exercise
each week, studying more, etc. For the man who is seeking a life
partner and
who has been visiting our website, I suggest the following resolution
to speed
you on the way to your goal.

“I will actively seek my life partner. I
know I will never
find her just by looking at photos and reading advertisements. Instead,
I will
take immediate action by contacting 25 gals who attract me. Then by
interacting
with each by letter, phone, email and visits I will narrow the field to
find
the right gal for me. If by the end of the year I have not found the
right one,
then I will use what I learned and carefully select another group of
gals and
start again, until I reach my goal and find my life partner. “

As a matchmaker with over 15 years
experience, I have had
many clients who would sit down and go through the photos and profiles
of
available women, for hours, days, weeks… even months. And at the end of
forever,
might finally choose just one womans profile (they felt must be
perfect) to
attempt to contact. In most cases that profile was one he had
identified six
months earlier, at the start of his long search. But he felt he had to
logically
review and analyze each and every possible profile first, then
reexamine, then
reanalyze, on and on. Each time he took no action. Each time he failed
to act
he allowed other men the chance to contact and introduce themselves to
this gal
first. Had he acted to contact the gal at the start he would have been
months
ahead in his relationship with her, instead of starting so late with
other men
ahead of him already corresponding with her. Frequently the one gal he
finally
decided to contact had already accepted someone else and resigned from
Heart of
Asia, by the time he got around to taking action.

A famous American General, George Patton Jr, once said:

"A good plan
executed today is better than a perfect plan
executed at some indefinite point in the future”

This applies both in war and finding your
life mate.

Instead of taking 6 months to over analyzing, to try to
somehow logically arrive at which
individual
profile is perfect, then pinning your hopes and efforts on one late
potentially
disappointing contact, instead put into action a good plan today.

Follow a Good Plan today; do not wait for the
impossible
Perfect Plan

The profiles the women write and the photos
they send are
not a full reflection of her entire life, personality, essence and so
on. These
are just brief glimpses, a flash, subtle indication of who she may be.
It is
impossible to make a “perfect” choice as there is not enough
information
available at the website. A “perfect” choice can only come after you
learn more
about the woman through interaction with her. A Good plan is to accept
that you
can not analyze and find a “perfect” profile, instead use your instinct
and gut
feelings to choose twenty five “good” profiles. Introduce yourself to
all
twenty five.

Only by
interacting with the gal will you learn if she is
the one for you.

Then you will start to get more information
to help you make
your “perfect” choice. Some of the gals will tell more about themselves
making
them more desirable. Some will send you current photos that look much
better
then the worn snapshot they sent Heart of Asia.The
important point is that you are involved, you are
interacting, you
are getting your questions answered, and you are getting closer to
finding your
life mate. You are NOT letting opportunity pass you by, by doing
nothing while
viewing photos.

How
to find 25 “good” Prospects

A. Trust your instincts. As you go through
the online
catalog, jot down the id number of any gal that gets your attention.Maybe she wrote something that caught your
eye, maybe her face, her smile, or maybe you do not know exactly what
it was
that attracted you. Trust your instincts and include her on your
prospect list.

B. Give priority to women with higher id
numbers. Higher id
numbers indicate a woman has more recently joined the club. This means
she may
not be seriously considering anyone else yet.

C. Choose some prospects from the First
Timers Gallery

http://www.heart-of-asia.com/gen/womena.htmlIf a gals photo is in this gallery it means
her address has not been sold even once yet. This means you would be
the first
and probably the only one to contact her. The First Timers Gallery
includes
many attractive women who because they are not sophisticated, do not
know how
to present themselves to their advantage on the internet. Often they
are
beautiful but did not realize how important a good photo is and instead
foolishly only sent a plain old snapshot.By
carefully reviewing this gallery you may find the
treasure others have
over-looked.

I am confident that if you take action this
January you will
have excellent potential to find your life partner in 2006.

Remember this offer is ONLY good if you
order is placed by
Midnight, January 31, 2006.

If you have any questions about Heart of Asia, or the Foreign
Bride
process or suggestions for future eZines please email me at info@heart-of-asia.com

Note: To contact me do not use the email address
foreignbrides@heart-of-asia.com
shown at the top of this eZine. That email address is not read by
humans
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