Expectations??? Is it Good

Expectations??? Is it Good

In life we have to go
through many challenges and obstacles. We strive to fulfill our
expectations, and also other's expectations. The sad part of life is it
may not always be fulfilled. A wonderful gift may not be wrapped as you
expect.
Expectations brings on pressure, the forceful need to
perform. Everyone is good at something, but attempt for perfection is
what spoils it. Not everyone can achieve everything, but not everyone is
ready to accept that. Life is a struggle, your parents expect things
from you, your teachers expects you to perform, your friends expect few
things, even the society will expect things from you and on top of that
our never satisfying heart. The worst part of expectation is the grief
and pain that comes when we don't fulfill it.
Every expectation
has a source, and that source pressurizes us to perform else punishments
or consequences will overtake the emotional state of a person. A
student is expected to score every time they write an exam. Parents and
teachers pressurizes them, and if they fail they get emotionally
stressed and go on to drinking, smoking, or drugs. They even go on to
attempt suicide. That's what expectations and pressure can bring to
human being, its not the case only for students, for every human role,
there are lots of expectations. Son, father, Daughter, Mother, Staff,
Boss, every role a human can have. "Feeling like one has not lived up to
his or her high expectations or those of another" is one of the major
cause of suicide. Is human life the price to pay for expectations??? You
either loose yourself or kill yourself when you fail to live up to
expectations.
So, expectation is it just a way to hurt yourself?
Well its better to have a hope to live rather than expectations, it
certainly makes shoulders lighter. Also I believe a person can perform
better if he is allowed space and freedom, rather than pressure and
expectations. When we have expecatations, a part of mind is always stuck
on thinking the outcome and the need to succeed, where as a free mind
can work with out fear and they can think awesome ideas.
So, I
guess we've all heard " If you expect nothing from anybody, you’re never
disappointed". Well its not realistic in my case, cause we humans will
always have expectations in life, thus we can say there were two ways to
be happy: improve your reality, or lower your expectations.
Expectations will always be part of life, whether we like it or not, its
essential we use it as a strength rather than weakness. When you don't
meet your expectations, don't be a whiner, just accept the reality and
just remember how awesome you are.
Life is beautiful, if you just
let it run. Work smart, never back down, keep trying, keep challanging,
keep working, lower the expecatations, accept reality and try to live
for the moment.

Here are few cases:Academic pressure makes kids suicidal - Times Of India
http://articles.timesofindia.indiatimes.com/2012-01-14/parenting/30447282_1_vtu-visvesvaraya-technological-university-engineering-colleges

A suicide case in Sait
http://www.deccanherald.com/content/49764/mba-student-commits-suicide.html