Isn't it empowering 👏 when you finally get over someone & realize your worth? Why was I so hung up on someone who wasn't offering me anything?

I'm 21, and seriously my head has been IN THE GUTTER for the past month because of some guy who has been just playing games with me. On & off, building up my hopes, crashing em done, making me feel so so sad... And for what? Who is he? Just another dude. Why was I so hung up on ONE guy I hardly knew? Just because he wouldn't give me a chance? Like I'm over it. And it feels SO good. I don't know how I did. I just woke up and was like woah, I'm over his butt.