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So what if one day he just decides he doesn't want to father your children anymore? That would be his choice right? No obligation. So nothing would be wrong with it because he has that choice. Bullshit!
How can you live with someone who doesn't give a shit about one of his children. He cares nothing about and has no interest in a child he created. It's so messed up. And for you to justify it, is ridiculous. And you shouldn't have to "grow to love your children" you love them from the beginning.

Quoting Anonymous:

Quoting Anonymous:

That's what I never understand. "abandoning" to me would be him walking out on his boys lives. The children that he has grown to love. Raised, ect. He has never met this child. I don't know how many times I have to say this. He has no obligation to this child. If a mother can get rid of an unwanted pregnancy why can't a man? And this is coming from someone who was raised by a single mother. Smh

by Anonymous 18
on Oct. 6, 2012 at 12:39 AM

Oh and I also feel sorry for your boys. Their father isn't going to them how to be men, he will teach them its ok to just walk away.

Quoting Anonymous:

Quoting Anonymous:

That's what I never understand. "abandoning" to me would be him walking out on his boys lives. The children that he has grown to love. Raised, ect. He has never met this child. I don't know how many times I have to say this. He has no obligation to this child. If a mother can get rid of an unwanted pregnancy why can't a man? And this is coming from someone who was raised by a single mother. Smh

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