Okay girls; please tell me this is a hiccup on my sex life.

I had to have a full hysterectomy last year in October, had some problems after the surgery (hematoma, infections, blah blah).

Question is, I can’t have the big O now, and if I do its nothing like before. It takes forever to get to that point and when it does it’s literally like 1 second long and there is no waves of pleasure after like before.

Wondered if anyone is experiencing the same thing? I’m also on a hormone patch if that makes any difference.

I’m scared and worried that my sex life is over, please someone tell me this is not the case.

According to Wikipedia, "Those who experience uterine orgasm will not experience it if the uterus is removed." This might be the problem... You might try different methods of achieving orgasm (penetration vs. clit stimulation, for example)

One suggestion I could give you-- is to look into and practice breathing techniques; as breathing is often key to the big O.

Focus on the sounds around you and the muscles in your body rather than trying to achieve orgasm, and I think- if you haven't tried it already; it could really help you out until your body can straighten itself out again.