It depends on the vibe. Some are great for using with a partner, others aren't. I don't have the Venus Butterfly pictured above, but that looks like a great one to wear for some extended foreplay. Hand the remote over and let your partner tease you.

My Fairy Wand Mini is for me only; it is very powerful and bulky. It can get me to orgasm straight away, so the amount of time is completely up to me. It would be awkward to use during sex, though, as it becomes hot quickly and can get in the way. It's also tethered to the wall, so you can't squirm too far away (limiting positions).

Other vibes, specifically my Jimmy Jane Form 6, is perfect for partner play (in that I don't even use while solo at all). The shape is perfect to 'reach' spots during coupling. It also doesn't have quite enough power to throw me over the edge accidentally, so it is perfect to use in addition to partner stimulation.

I don't own a Venus Butterfly or any "Panty Vibrator" but we have a lot of other types.

Of course, I use them by myself, but I really prefer when he "Mans" the vibrators. He does things I wouldn't think of, he can get into positions with them I simply wouldn't manage by myself, and some of the surprise of what he's going to do is most of the fun!

With the exception of the Wahl Massager, which we use during couple sex, but I always hold it, because he's doing other things to get me to Come, when we're together, he usually mans the Vibe. Even when I'm giving him head, he has inventive ways of using vibrators on me.

I like to use mine without my partner. I just feel like toy time is solo time and I get to completely indulge and enjoy it without leaving him out. However, if he were to suggest using one on me, I wouldn't deny him that

I am considering bringing the vibrator into partnered sex, and I think my main consideration is the size/shape of the vibrator and how easy it will be to use during intercourse...
So far, though, I've only used it solo.

We've never had any problems with toys "getting in the way." Sometimes you have to make allowances, and change the position etc to make the toy fit well. I'm sure My Man has perform cunnilingus a little differently when we use a penetrative vibe. (But, a penetrative vibe or dildo actually makes anal sex easier.) At least I assume he does. He's never really mentioned it, it makes him hot to play with toys with me. But, it's not different than him using his hand, really. He can go down and use a vibrator at the same time. If we are using a wand vibrator or a Wahl, we've worked out positions where it works best. Either him behind me, maybe penetrating, or using his hand or a dil, or I'm lying on my back and he he has his hand either in or holding the penetrative dil or vibe, while I hold the massager in place, with my arm around his neck and his head on my breast.

It's fun to think up ways to make these things work. We've had sex with as many as 6 or 7 toys at one time. He gets really horny and can't wait when an order comes from Edenfantasys, "Let's use them all." and it's a lot of fun.

Not only does it add to the pleasure at times, but it forces you to think of new ways to make love.

And sometimes, it's just plain "skin only" sex. It depends on what we're in the mood for.

I'm in a long distance relationship, so unfortunatly I have to use mine alone. Even if i wasn't usually alone, I like to use my vibrator for special "me" time. I don't have to worry about anyone else but me and my batteries! However, I do like to use it with my partner too. He loves teasing me with the remote operated toys!

Sometimes I really enjoy it by myself but 97% of the time I like to use it with my partner

this toy looks like (the Venus Butterfly II) a fancy cock-ring is all. They give em away for free here on the site, they cant be worth 3$ definitely not the 20 something they are trying to charge for it. Not cool.