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Topic: texas stud. just tested poz (Read 12350 times)

hey everyone. my name is gino and i received my positive result today. i am a straight guy that works as a stripper in a bar and i guess i liked sex too much. lol. i'm not sure how i got this illness but i think it could be from any of the chicks that i banged without a condom. my penis is too big and most condoms dont fit. i read on another websight that it could be too from one of the dudes that gave me head last month. sometimes when i get drunk i dont mind if a guy does it.

i hope to meet some nice people like me or maybe a fine lady whose interested in something serious. i am little scared and i gotta wait too see if my numbers are good but i have faith in god and i know evrything will be ok. maybe i dont have to start taking those pills this year. i hope to learn a lot from everyone here. anyway good to meet you all.

Has your diagnosis been confirmed with a Western Blot, or did you only have a positive antibody result? I ask because sometimes the antibody test will return a false positive. This is why the result is always confirmed with a second test, the Western Blot.

You would have gotten infected through the unprotected intercourse. Getting a blowjob is absolutely NOT a risk for hiv infection, no matter what some other website claimed. It may also be that you misunderstood the terminology - if it said that receptive oral was a risk, they meant receptive as in receiving a penis into your mouth. Getting a blowjob is termed insertive oral. Receptive oral is only a theoretical risk anyway.

If your infection has been confirmed, you're going to have to start using condoms. You can get larger ones online.

"...health will finally be seen not as a blessing to be wished for, but as a human right to be fought for." Kofi Annan

Nymphomaniac: a woman as obsessed with sex as an average man. Mignon McLaughlin

HIV is certainly character-building. It's made me see all of the shallow things we cling to, like ego and vanity. Of course, I'd rather have a few more T-cells and a little less character. Randy Shilts

welcome Gino, you are at the right place (info wise) so read up all the info you need , its my 3rd month since diagnosed doing A ok.you have to be more health conscious now texas stud and use large condoms .and watch your overall health more than b4.

Texas stud, You are not smart enough to be on this forum. You can not get it from getting a blow job. You probably got too drunk and got it up the ass and don't remember. This is a serious forum, and NOT somewhere to pick up people. Please get off before you embarrass yourself some more.

"...health will finally be seen not as a blessing to be wished for, but as a human right to be fought for." Kofi Annan

Nymphomaniac: a woman as obsessed with sex as an average man. Mignon McLaughlin

HIV is certainly character-building. It's made me see all of the shallow things we cling to, like ego and vanity. Of course, I'd rather have a few more T-cells and a little less character. Randy Shilts

thank you ann for defending me. im a nice guy. why does this punk come here to insult me.im probably not gonna stay in this place for to long. so many mean people.

You're welcome, Gino, but I have to warn you for calling him a punk. If you read the posting guidelines found in the main Welcome Thread you'd know that name-calling is not permitted here. Please make sure you read our guidelines and abide by them. Thank you for your cooperation.

And by the way, you never answered my question - have you actually been confirmed hiv positive with a Western Blot test? You need that before you can be considered hiv positive.

"...health will finally be seen not as a blessing to be wished for, but as a human right to be fought for." Kofi Annan

Nymphomaniac: a woman as obsessed with sex as an average man. Mignon McLaughlin

HIV is certainly character-building. It's made me see all of the shallow things we cling to, like ego and vanity. Of course, I'd rather have a few more T-cells and a little less character. Randy Shilts

Granny60

Hey Tx stud, Hope you can overlook some of the people that have to take their bitches out on other people here when they have their monthly's. So it's really true that things are bigger in Texas, eh? Too small rubbers have been a big problem at our house too. Maybe this will help. Mr. S Leather here on the net sells Trojan Extra Large Magnums. Sell a lot of weird sht too, but good service and give discounts on next orders. If you are pos. you will need to wrap it. When are these companies going to realize, what fun is it if it wears out three guys trying to help wrestle their damn little elastic corset on? Some stores like Target sell Trojan Magnum Large, but it still like trying to put King Kong in a thimble. The only way we have found to put them on since they are all too small to roll on is to unroll them, then stretch them open with both hands and slide it on like a sock. Still cuts red grooves in you like a rubber band after a while, but at least you can get it on this way. Our ID clinic just gave us samples of Lifestyles XL king size. Hope to get to try them . Don't know if they will be big enough yet or where to get them. Hope this helps. Good luck to you guy and welcome!

ann: i got confirmed as poz with that western test. when the doctor told me i couldnt remember the name. im glad you reminded me.the doctor gave me the tcells and virus count on monday. 780 tcells and 14k for the virus. he did some other tests but i dont know what their called and im not to smart in science so i dont know what their for.im sorry i called that guy a punk. ill read all the rules and be nicer. a warning means im banned for a week?

grandma: thanks for the recomendation. ill see if i can find them. i dont wanna give this to anyone else and im always horny. i hooked up with a dude tonight. he was poz and wanted me inside him but i only do blowjobs with dudes. lol.

"Many people, especially in the gay community, turn to oral sex as a safer alternative in the age of AIDS. And with HIV rates rising, people need to remember that oral sex is safer sex. It's a reasonable alternative."

"...health will finally be seen not as a blessing to be wished for, but as a human right to be fought for." Kofi Annan

Nymphomaniac: a woman as obsessed with sex as an average man. Mignon McLaughlin

HIV is certainly character-building. It's made me see all of the shallow things we cling to, like ego and vanity. Of course, I'd rather have a few more T-cells and a little less character. Randy Shilts

i'm not sure how i got this illness but i think it could be from any of the chicks that i banged without a condom. my penis is too big and most condoms dont fit.

Don't fuck with me boys, I've been to the rodeo before!

"My dick is too big for condoms" is one of the lamest delusions. Like all delusions, it the excuse for any number of reasons someone doesn't want to use a condom, OR, its just PR for a big dick or the absence thereof.

Granny60

Mech, I find you comment offending. Hell, you can stretch a rubberband big enough to put it over your head, but that does not mean it won't cut into your skin if you turn it loose on your neck. Most condoms are long enough for most people though there was one guy in high school that had a full 11 inch schlong I kid you not, He couldn't even keep it from getting out the bottom of his shorts when he was playing basketball, but finding them big enough around for some people is DAMN NEAR IMPOSSIBLE! It can almost be as much of a curse as having a weenie the size of your pinky. Then there is the problem of finding a place you can put it in. A hole that a few kids that has popped through is almost a requirement. There are not any surgical options here and yes, my husband has seen urologists concerning surgery , so don't give me this shit. Do you know how stressful it is to even consider taking to a doctor about having someone cut on your dick? . The more you stretch a condom, the tighter it gets just like a rubber band. You may have been to the rodeo before, but obviously you haven't been fucked by the bull yet else you would not be walking.

"I have tried hard--but life is difficult, and I am a very useless person. I can hardly be said to have an independent existence. I was just a screw or a cog in the great machine I called life, and when I dropped out of it I found I was of no use anywhere else."

Mech, I find you comment offending. Hell, you can stretch a rubberband big enough to put it over your head, but that does not mean it won't cut into your skin if you turn it loose on your neck. Most condoms are long enough for most people though there was one guy in high school that had a full 11 inch schlong I kid you not, He couldn't even keep it from getting out the bottom of his shorts when he was playing basketball, but finding them big enough around for some people is DAMN NEAR IMPOSSIBLE! It can almost be as much of a curse as having a weenie the size of your pinky. Then there is the problem of finding a place you can put it in. A hole that a few kids that has popped through is almost a requirement. There are not any surgical options here and yes, my husband has seen urologists concerning surgery , so don't give me this shit. Do you know how stressful it is to even consider taking to a doctor about having someone cut on your dick? . The more you stretch a condom, the tighter it gets just like a rubber band. You may have been to the rodeo before, but obviously you haven't been fucked by the bull yet else you would not be walking.

Your post is just another example of delusion and Big Dick PR. Yes, if you have the one in a million guy with a 12 inch fat dick, its not obvious. I've been with huge. There is always the female condom, dear.

There are quality condoms, thin, xxl, and you just roll it down and so what if there is an inch or two exposed at the bottom.

The info about needing to have a huge vagina (or ass, for that matter), is off topic. Another issue. Its not the same problem as finding the glove. On the gay side of things, I know dozens of gay men who take fists and enormous dildos. No dick is going to pose a problem for them.

Since you are personally offended for yourself and your stud man, I apologize to you.

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Granny60

Mech, apology accepted. We know size is not an issue for our few fisting friends, but not everyone here is gay and for some, gay or not, unfortunately size is a problem not only finding rubbers , but it isn't easy to fit a watermelon in a keyhole. Hell, I just gave a horse size rubber to a gay friend that has to deal with size issues with rubbers this afternoon. In some areas the sht is hard to come by. And have you tried the female job yet? Do you know a store out in the sticks that carries them? I just found out this afternoon a store in St. Louis that is 120 miles away that sells XL sizes. ( Walmart in case someone is looking) When they are hard to find and you don't know about a store 120 miles away that sells them, what are you going to do when you feel in an amorous mood? surely not go out and sweep the sidewalk. Everyone is not the same. Dicks come in all different sizes just like tits, and some gals have a backache. Tex had an issue, and I gave him an option. Just here to help like you. Thanks for suggesting the female jobby, but it is not a very appealing product.

The female condom is not a wonderful invention but its protective and has got me laid with some guys claiming too big to put on a man's condom.

My point is that a huge dick means you enjoy the plusses and deal with the minuses of having one, if you want to protect yourself and your partner. If there are not stores that have xl condoms, then its up to the hung guy to order them online.

If a person is into doing it with hung guys, that person can get his/her own supply as well. They come in very handy when the guy claims he can't wear a condom cause he's too big, but hes so exciting that you still want to fuck the dude and ignore his ego and stupidity, so you whip out the xxl condom and voila.

Big dicks are fascinating enough to enough men and women that this theme of "my dick is too big for condoms so we did it without" comes up too often. Its just lame and a few times its just a tragic result, right?

Having the ability to accommodate the large member, is, as we have agreed, another issue entirely.

Wanting to do it without condoms for a million reasons is also another issue entirely, but using the "my dick is too big for them" as bait and switch justification for other motivations, is, again, lame.

« Last Edit: August 27, 2010, 10:50:39 AM by mecch »

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"...health will finally be seen not as a blessing to be wished for, but as a human right to be fought for." Kofi Annan

Nymphomaniac: a woman as obsessed with sex as an average man. Mignon McLaughlin

HIV is certainly character-building. It's made me see all of the shallow things we cling to, like ego and vanity. Of course, I'd rather have a few more T-cells and a little less character. Randy Shilts

Yeah Mech.... you don't know what its like to have a huge dick . I have a huge one in my underware drawer that I paid $49.95 for . Its caused me endless pain , mostly because I paid $49.95 for a penis that's too big . If I had one more they would make swell bookends though .

"...health will finally be seen not as a blessing to be wished for, but as a human right to be fought for." Kofi Annan

Nymphomaniac: a woman as obsessed with sex as an average man. Mignon McLaughlin

HIV is certainly character-building. It's made me see all of the shallow things we cling to, like ego and vanity. Of course, I'd rather have a few more T-cells and a little less character. Randy Shilts

"...health will finally be seen not as a blessing to be wished for, but as a human right to be fought for." Kofi Annan

Nymphomaniac: a woman as obsessed with sex as an average man. Mignon McLaughlin

HIV is certainly character-building. It's made me see all of the shallow things we cling to, like ego and vanity. Of course, I'd rather have a few more T-cells and a little less character. Randy Shilts

Mecch, just because you don't have a big dick doesn't mean others don't. My bf is very well endowed and condoms can be very uncomfortable for him. If you don't believe it, tough.

Personally, I think you're just jealous.

No, I think this is a forum that has one goal to reduce HIV transmissions. If a hung guy feels like there is a risk, there is the choice of getting the best condom possible to accommodate his member and stop with the "condoms don't fit me so I don't use them". Even if the condom found is uncomfortable.

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No, I think this is a forum that has one goal to reduce HIV transmissions. If a hung guy feels like there is a risk, there is the choice of getting the best condom possible to accommodate his member and stop with the "condoms don't fit me so I don't use them". Even if the condom found is uncomfortable.

This forum has many goals, prevention being only one of them.

And I'm not saying that size is an acceptable excuse for not using condoms - but it is a very real problem for some men. Condoms sold in most shops - at least where I live - only come in one standard size. If I wanted to buy bigger condoms, I'd have to buy off the internet. What would I have done before the internet, or if I didn't have internet access?

"...health will finally be seen not as a blessing to be wished for, but as a human right to be fought for." Kofi Annan

Nymphomaniac: a woman as obsessed with sex as an average man. Mignon McLaughlin

HIV is certainly character-building. It's made me see all of the shallow things we cling to, like ego and vanity. Of course, I'd rather have a few more T-cells and a little less character. Randy Shilts

But it is a very real problem for some men. Condoms sold in most shops - at least where I live - only come in one standard size. If I wanted to buy bigger condoms, I'd have to buy off the internet. What would I have done before the internet, or if I didn't have internet access?

Yep. I know. Guess I live in the consumer paradise where any pharmacy and supermarket has them in all sizes shapes and colors. And you do have the internet. And I do think that hung guys have their challenges and yes, one of them is going out of their way to find acceptable comdoms if they are serious about the important point that we are discussing - if you gotta wrap to avoid a risk (HIV, STD, pregnancies) then you gotta find a solution.

And finally, the horse hung guys I have been with never complained about the rubbers. It has only been the guys with like 8-9 who are so invested in being so supposedly "huge". Not. There are plenty of rubbers on the market to deal with the run of the mill big wang.

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ďFrom each, according to his ability; to each, according to his needĒ 1875 K Marx

"...health will finally be seen not as a blessing to be wished for, but as a human right to be fought for." Kofi Annan

Nymphomaniac: a woman as obsessed with sex as an average man. Mignon McLaughlin

HIV is certainly character-building. It's made me see all of the shallow things we cling to, like ego and vanity. Of course, I'd rather have a few more T-cells and a little less character. Randy Shilts

"...health will finally be seen not as a blessing to be wished for, but as a human right to be fought for." Kofi Annan

Nymphomaniac: a woman as obsessed with sex as an average man. Mignon McLaughlin

HIV is certainly character-building. It's made me see all of the shallow things we cling to, like ego and vanity. Of course, I'd rather have a few more T-cells and a little less character. Randy Shilts

"...health will finally be seen not as a blessing to be wished for, but as a human right to be fought for." Kofi Annan

Nymphomaniac: a woman as obsessed with sex as an average man. Mignon McLaughlin

HIV is certainly character-building. It's made me see all of the shallow things we cling to, like ego and vanity. Of course, I'd rather have a few more T-cells and a little less character. Randy Shilts