How???

Basically me n the baby's father are not together and I actually really do love him And want to be with him and want us to raise our baby together under the same roof. I confided in him and basically told him everything about me from my past up until now and he says he can't trust me and thinks I'm out here having sex with other people. Mind you I'm 29 weeks and all I do is stay in the house don't never go out or do anything fun because of him and he says he love me but I swear he has a girlfriend or something. Now it's like one minute we are okay and if I ask a question he doesn't like he gets mad and ignores my calls and texts and now he wants me to take that amniocentesis test to see if the baby is his untold him I wanted to wait and he's trying to make me take it now. I just want a peace of mind for the rest of this pregnancy. He still has yet to come to a single appointment. How do you ladies deal with being a single parent I'm so terrified and all I do is cry and feel like everything is fault

Basically me n the baby's father are not together and I actually really do love him And want to be with him and want us to raise our baby together under the same roof. I confided in him and basically told him everything about me from my past up until now and he says he can't trust me and thinks I'm out here having sex with other people. Mind you I'm 29 weeks and all I do is stay in the house don't never go out or do anything fun because of him and he says he love me but I swear he has a girlfriend or something. Now it's like one minute we are okay and if I ask a question he doesn't like he gets mad and ignores my calls and texts and now he wants me to take that amniocentesis test to see if the baby is his untold him I wanted to wait and he's trying to make me take it now. I just want a peace of mind for the rest of this pregnancy. He still has yet to come to a single appointment. How do you ladies deal with being a single parent I'm so terrified and all I do is cry and feel like everything is fault

It sounds like he is punishing you for asking questions he does not like. My now ex used to do that to me all the time. You get to the point where you never ask them any questions to avoid their punishment. That's when they really start running around on you. I'm sorry I'm not making this easier for you. But he just sounds like a turd. Trust your gut. If you think he's got a female on the side you're probably right. If he didn't wouldn't he be there with you 24/7? I left my abusive bd three weeks ago when he didn't come home that night. It's the hardest thing I've ever done. But I know it will get easier. Don't allow him to walk all over you. If he does not shape up ship him out and file child support. Gl.

It sounds like he is punishing you for asking questions he does not like. My now ex used to do that to me all the time. You get to the point where you never ask them any questions to avoid their punishment. That's when they really start running around on you. I'm sorry I'm not making this easier for you. But he just sounds like a turd. Trust your gut. If you think he's got a female on the side you're probably right. If he didn't wouldn't he be there with you 24/7? I left my abusive bd three weeks ago when he didn't come home that night. It's the hardest thing I've ever done. But I know it will get easier. Don't allow him to walk all over you. If he does not shape up ship him out and file child support. Gl.

omg I don't understand what goes though the men's.heads. but the same thing.happen to me my.bd told.me all the things I.wanted to hear then left me when I was 7 months.pregnant and told me he didn't have time for a gf because he was leaving to.Afghanistan. then a few weeks later he told me he got.back together with his x gf. I was so sad but I knew I had to be strong for my baby. so when I had my baby I was so set on giving him.my last name. but for.some reason my heart felt there was hope for.us to work.things out so I gave him the bd last name. and I.regret it not because my bd just email me that before he.left he married his x gf and.she's expecting in Jan.. like.what an *******. but I.can't so.anything about it now. I still get sad about it. and pray for hope. so ill I have to say.is listen.to your gut and be stronge for your baby. and he ask for a DNA test too.. like if I.could go back and.change one thing I would.of never of told.him I.was pregnant. I would.be.a lot happy person

omg I don't understand what goes though the men's.heads. but the same thing.happen to me my.bd told.me all the things I.wanted to hear then left me when I was 7 months.pregnant and told me he didn't have time for a gf because he was leaving to.Afghanistan. then a few weeks later he told me he got.back together with his x gf. I was so sad but I knew I had to be strong for my baby. so when I had my baby I was so set on giving him.my last name. but for.some reason my heart felt there was hope for.us to work.things out so I gave him the bd last name. and I.regret it not because my bd just email me that before he.left he married his x gf and.she's expecting in Jan.. like.what an *******. but I.can't so.anything about it now. I still get sad about it. and pray for hope. so ill I have to say.is listen.to your gut and be stronge for your baby. and he ask for a DNA test too.. like if I.could go back and.change one thing I would.of never of told.him I.was pregnant. I would.be.a lot happy person

I feel the same way about wishing I could tell him I wasn't pregnant. I already know my baby is getting my last name I just need to stop going over there to see him when he calls cus it just makes thing worst and make me feel more attached to him. I'm to let him go for real n just worry about my baby and myself

I feel the same way about wishing I could tell him I wasn't pregnant. I already know my baby is getting my last name I just need to stop going over there to see him when he calls cus it just makes thing worst and make me feel more attached to him. I'm to let him go for real n just worry about my baby and myself

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