Ender is DH's #1 choice. I actually like it but we told a few people we were thinking about using Ender with our last pregnancy and everyone reacted very negatively toward it - saying it sounded incomplete, or weak, or he'd be too likely to get teased about it. We may still use it but after gettin such a big NO from so many people I'm not so sure about it. What do you all think of Ender? If I had to go with one of his choices though I'd go with that over Odin or Bane or Thor.

We considered Orion, but we don't like nn Ry or Ryan.
I like Ajax a lot but my cousin named his baby Jaxson nn Jax so I think thats too similar.

I'm digging some of these suggestions, especially Alder, Oren & Zane (I could probably get him on board with that instead of Bane!).