Wikipedia:Call a spade a spade

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Although editors who always edit badly are bad editors and editors who always vandalize are vandals, we all need to be civil to each other. But being civil should not be confused with being friendly or courteous, let alone charitable.

It's OK to let others know when you think they're acting badly. Being polite will get them to listen more.

The "duck test" – "if it looks like a duck, swims like a duck and quacks like a duck, it's probably a duck" – means you can work something out by looking at what it does without needing definite proof.

A good example is when different editors make very similar bad edits. Sometimes this will cause a request for a Checkuser. If it is really obvious that the edits are being made by the same person, then the "duck test" can be used. In other words, "the edits look the same, the edits are made to the same pages and the edits are made close together, it's probably sockpuppetry".