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According to some experts who appeared on the Dr. Oz show yesterday, it was stated that men, particularly young men in their 20's and 30's, suffer ED from viewing porn excessively (what is considered excessive was not stated). That has never been my experience and I disagree. Also, I was curious as to women who view porn on a regular basis. How does it effect/affect....I can't ever remember which one is right....them. Your thoughts please.

While sitting on the crown and needing a bit of motivation to get the job done, I came across a copy of O Magazine of 2007...yes, can you believe it. Anyway, it was in the" Live Your Best Love Life column...".Bored in bed? Intimidated by Intimacy? Romance Running on empy? Have sexual fear...Cindy Chupack is here!" To cut to the chase, couples found that watching porn together put the foregoing to rest. I didn't need Cindy to tell me this but she pointed out that some people are "pornophobes." None of us....LOL..I find porn a useful tool in achieving orgasm when I otherwise wouldn't or if I am in between dating, it gets me through those times and lets me explore scenarios that I would NEVER do in real life.

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I dont watch porn. I know one of the clubs has it on large t.v's in the large room but to be honest I dont watch it I am a people watcher when I am out so I never see it .

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neither of us watch porn, other then every now and then a vid we shot of me with him or of me with a SM playmate and him.

Of course at the swing club its on every freaking TV in the place. Drives me nuts, I try to make sure I sit with my back to any of the TV's.

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I am happy to see that this topic is sloooowly picking up. I guess this might be considered one of those "taboo" topics as most men want to be viewed as Mandingo or some other kind of stud always geared to perform. Thank you to those who have posted comments.

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Cigs, drugs, meds, alcohol, prostate, strees/mental, and luck.....

I think those are the factors or ED and no problems.

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I can only speculate that watching all those “successes” on line with guys only showing their best can’t help but leave images of daunting aspiration in one’s mind. The other theory is too much jerka-jerka.

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I'm guessing this is a statistical correlation: Younger men with ED tend to watch more porn than those without the problem.

It could be that there is no causation, however. It may be that you're more likely to watch porn if you can't get sex to happen, for whatever reason.

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According to some experts who appeared on the Dr. Oz show yesterday, it was stated that men, particularly young men in their 20's and 30's, suffer ED from viewing porn excessively (what is considered excessive was not stated). That has never been my experience and I disagree. Also, I was curious as to women who view porn on a regular basis. How does it effect/affect....I can't ever remember which one is right....them. Your thoughts please.