So recently, I asked this girl her favorite color. It was purple. I asked my friend, Ryan (Tatsuya-san) to help me find a purple teddy bear. So he went on build a bear and found one and accidentally sends it to her instead of me. I have no idea whether she knows or not, but she's pretty smart. so . ASDF. What should I do? I'm losing hope. :[

Well...jie jie will kick his butt for you if that girl will happen to think it is Ryan that likes her. Next time I suggest you do everything yourself, that way the girl would think that you're more of a sweetie if you do all by yourself.

irathernot wrote:Roses are so damn expensive, half a dozen for like 30 bucks ><

I would rather get her like expensive chocolate than freaking roses. One of them tastes better. :3

Pfft, chocolate roses. For the small price of 20 bucks, and that comes with an arrangement of flowers wrapped into a small boquet. So not only are you getting her roses, but a boquet of chocolate roses.

As for your dilema, it's this simple. Tell her you asked whatever his name to send it to her and that it was your idea.

Scenario:

You: Hey ;3 did you like the teddy bear I asked ____ to send to you?Her: (confused)You: Yeah, that (purple bear).Her: (So you sent the bear to me?) or (Didn't whatever his name is sent me the bear)You: Exactly, I asked him to help me look for a bear. Eventualy he found one and sent it to you.Her: (Oh...)You: Yep, even ask him.

... later that day ...

Her: So I heard ____ sent me the bear. And that it was his idea?Him: <-- since, now that he was put on the spot... He has no other choice but to tell the truth.Her: Oh, thanks for telling me.

END

The whole key to success is simple... tell the gal the truth, and place your "messed up" friend in a posistion where, when asked... He has no alternatice answer but to tell the truth.

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Well hope that helped or gave you an idea on what to do. Pshh like your friend said, it's not big deal... All you got to do is tell her the truth and viola done and over with.