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Beard

A "beard" is a person of the opposite sex who marries or dates a closeted lesbian or gay person to cover up their homosexuality. In the past, often lesbians married gay men so that both could "pass" as straight, either for work or for their families.

Beef

Buffed men.

Beret

A condom.

Bi Sexual

A person interested in sex with both men and women. Compare HOMOSEXUAL, someone who has sexual interest in the same sex, and HETROSEXUAL, someone with sexual interest in the opposite sex.

Binding

Wrapping the feet or genitals with string, rope, or lace.

Biphobia, Biphobic

Fearful or disliking of BISEXUAL people.

Bishonen

A beautiful boy.

Blow Job

FELLATIO.

BLS

Ball licking and sucking.

Blueballs

When a man has an erection for a long period of time without ejaculating; this can cause a swollen, painful feeling in the testicles.

Blumpkin

A blowjob while one of you are on the toilet.

Body Inflation

A fetish for sudden growth of particular body parts, like nose growth.

Bondage

Restricting a partner's movement with ropes or other devices.

Boner

ERECTION.

Booty

Slang for Big Butt.

Bottom

1. The submissive person in BDSM activity. Opposite of TOP.
2. The one who is penetrated during anal sex, especially between gay males. Opposite of TOP.

Branding

To burn or scar the skin.

Breath Play, Breath Control

Restricting airflow, by strangulation, suffocation, or other means for sexual stimulation.

Breathing Tube

Short rubber hose used for breathing with gasmasks and vacuum beds. A breathing tube can also be used for liquid intake play for long term enclosure.

Breeders

A derogatory term for heterosexuals, especially for those who glorify childbearing.

Brothel

A business establishment where prostitutes offer sexual services for money.

Brow Eye

A derogatory term for the anus.

Brown Bag

When a girl has a great body and an ugly face. Put a brown bag on her head before sex. Also See BUTTERFACE.

Buddy Booth

A booth in an adult video store that allows viewing and/or interaction with the person in an adjacent booth.

Choad

Chocolate Starfish

Humorous term for the ANUS. Sometimes used in a derogatory sense against gay people.

CIM

Cum in mouth.

Circle

Refers to one's chosen family.

Circle Jerk

Group masturbation or jerking off.

Circumcision, Circumcise

Removing the FORESKIN of the penis, often done to infants.

Clap, The

GONORRHEA. Usage note: usually used in the phrase "the clap"

Clean

Not having a sexually transmitted disease, especially AIDS.

Cleave Gag

A gag which cleaves between the lips as it is wrapped around the head.

Climax

ORGASM.

Clinic

Medical play.

Cock

PENIS.

Cock Ring

A device, often a leather strap, placed at the base of an erect penis in order to restrict blood flow and maintain an erection.

Cock Snot

Humorous term for SEMEN.

Cocktail

Drinking of body secretions from a glass.

Come

SEMEN. Also spelled "cum".

Condom

A sheath placed over the penis during sexual intercourse to prevent pregnancy and the transmission of disease by forming a barrier and capturing the semen. Condoms are usually made of latex but sometimes are made of polyurethane or animal skin.

Coprophilia

Sexual interest in feces (shit).

Corkscrew

To cross your fingers, middle over index. Twist your wrist back and forth and go to work on your desired orifice.

Coyote

This occurs when you wake up in the room of a nasty girl and you know you've got to give her the slip. However, you realize that your arm is wrapped around her. Therefore you must gnaw off your own arm to get out of the situation.

Cream

When used in reference to men: to ejaculate. When used with women: to produce vaginal lubrication; to female ejaculate.

Crossdress

For a man to wear women's clothing. Used especially for men who only occasionally dress as women but maintain their masculine identity otherwise. See also TRANSVESTITE, TRANSSEXUAL

Crushing

A fetish practice where someone steps on food, insects, or even small animals.

Not simply a man who's wife/girlfriend cheats on him, but rather a man who actually gets aroused by knowing or seeing her in sexual situations with other men, such as flirting, kissing, fondling, or sex. In particular, situations where he is NOT participating but instead marginalized, just observing, or even completely ignored.

Cum

SEMEN.

Cum Shot

Ejaculation of a male actor's semen.

Cum Swapping

Passing the ejaculate from the mouth of one person orally to another. Also called Snowballing.

Cut

CIRCUMCISED. Opposite of UNCUT.

Cybersex

Having sex over the Internet. Usually refers to erotic chatting via the computer while one or both of the parties is masturbating.

Daisy Chain

Partner (A) is sucking off or eating out partner (B) who is sucking off or eating out partner (C) and so on until the final person is sucking off or eating out partner (A). Partners can be gay, lesbian or straight.

Danza Slap

Slapping a person's face with your penis. Refers to the urban legend that the actor Tony Danza starred in adult movies where he performed this act. For a true "Danza", you have to yell "Who's the Boss?"

Dark Room

A playroom which is intentionally quite dark. Can mostly be found in the fetish scene.

DATO

Dining at the O, Anilingus, oral stimulation of the anus.

DDG

Drop Dead Gorgeous.

Deep Throat

Slang for inserting the penis down one's throat during fellatio.

Deep Tongue

1. Term for French kissing.
2. Oral-vaginal sex where the tongue is inserted deep inside the vagina.

DFK

Deep French Kissing, kissing with tongue.

Dildo

A cylindrical sex toy, often shaped like a penis, used to penetrate the vagina or anus. Usage note: A dildo generally refers to a toy with no moving parts, as opposed to a VIBRATOR which includes an electric motor and vibrates.

Dildo Panties

Panties made from latex with an internal dildo or butt plug.

Dirty Sanchez

After anal sex, wiping off the dirty penis or hand on the person's upper lip, to simulate a moustache.

Discipline

Verbal role playing.

Doggie Style

Sexual intercourse where the man enters the man's anus from the back side; also called rear-entry.

Dogging

Couples who engage in sex in their car while others watch from outside.

Domme

The dominant person in a bondage or S&M relationship; usually female. See DOMINATRIX

Dong

Slang for a dildo.

Donkey Punch

Having anal sex with someone and punching them in the back of the head to make them pass out. Said to induce a clenching of the anal sphincter in the unconscious person.

Double Anal

Two cocks in the ass at the same time for maximum stretching.

Double Dildo, Double Dong

A double-ended dildo. Can be used by two individuals simultaneously.

Drag King

A woman dressed like a man.

Drag Queen

A man who dresses in women's clothing, the term is especially used for gay men who dress up in elaborate outfits sometimes as part of a stage show. See also TRANSVESTITE.

Drop Shot

Ejaculation by the male into, or onto, the anus of the person after having anal sex.

Dungeon

A room designed for S&M play.

Dutch Oven

When you fart while in bed, then pull the covers over both of your heads so she can enjoy smell.

DVDA (Double Anal/Double Vaginal)

Seldom tried, rarely completed, this is the holy grail of porn; the double-vaginal, double-anal.

Dyke

A lesbian.

Ebi

Prawn, lobster, shrimp. A form of suspension where the body curves like a crustacean.

Edgeplay

Potentially dangerous sexual practices, often involving pain.

Ejaculation

When a man expels semen from the penis during an orgasm. See also FEMALE EJACULATION.

Elbow-Bondage

Aficionados use this term for restraint which holds the elbows together, touching, behind the back -- a feat possible only with flexible, healthy captives. Term is sometimes loosely applied to any restraint which leashes the elbows toward each other.

Ellie

LE, Law Enforcement

Enema

An apparatus used to cause evacuation by pumping water or inserting a chemical into the rectum.

Erectile Disfunction (ED)

The inability to get or sustain an erection, a euphemism for IMPOTENCE.

Erection

When the penis becomes engorged with blood and rigid due to sexual stimulation.

Erotic

Sexually exciting or interesting. Used especially for stories, pictures, etc.

Erotica

Sexually exciting stories, movies, pictures, etc. Usually used in a positive sense.

Eunich

A male who has had his testicles removed.

Exhibitionism

Getting sexual pleasure from exposing oneself to others or being watched while having sex. Opposite of VOYEURISM.

Exotic Dancer

Euphemism for STRIPPER.

Face Painting

When a man ejaculates on someone's face.

Facesitting

A fetish practice where a person sits on a man's face, smothering him.

Facial

When a man ejaculates on a someone's face. Used in the phrase "give a facial."

Fag Hag

A heterosexual woman who socializes extensively with gay men.

FBSM

Full Body Sensual Massage; not usually full service; expect only massage (usually nude or topless) and handjob, but more services might be available.

Felch, Felching

Fellate

Female Ejaculation

the expulsion of noticeable amounts of clear fluid by females during sex.

Femdom

A woman who takes the dominant role in BDSM play; a DOMINATRIX

Feminization

Dressing a man up in women's clothing, make-up, etc. to take on a female appearance. Sometimes used in BDSM play as a form of humiliation.

Femme

Possessing traditional feminine appearance, attributes and behaviors. Often used to describe gay men and women. Opposite of BUTCH.

Fetish

A strong sexual interest in or obsession over some object, body part, or activity. Examples include foot fetish and latex fetish. Also used broadly to describe any non-traditional sex, especially BDSM.

Finger

To stimulate a man's orifice with the hand.

Fishhooking

an act where the top partner in doggy style position puts his/her finger in the cheek of the person in the prone position and pulls back, like a fish on a hook

Flaccid

Of a penis, soft, not aroused.

Flash

To expose oneself, especially in a short, sudden manner. Usually used to refer to men showing their penis and women showing their breasts.

Flit

Derogatory term for Homosexual.

Fluffer

A woman or man who performs oral sex on an actor to arouse him in preparation for a MONEY SHOT ("cum shot") that must be filmed quickly and with little on-camera preparation. Also called "fluff girl" or "fluff boy".

Flying Dutchman

Just as you are about to blow a load, in any sort of sexual situation (even masturbation for those true pioneers who are constantly on the cutting edge of the sexual revolution) you begin to shout, "Here comes the Flying Dutchman!" This should confuse your sexual partner (or whoever is in hearing range) completely, sometimes causing interesting side effects.

Fondle

To touch or caress someone, especially the genitals or breasts. Often used to refer to unwanted touching.

Foot Job

Rubbing feet on the penis, usually until ejaculation.

Foreplay

Sexual activity as a prelude to intercourse, including kissing, genital fondling, and oral sex.

Foreskin

A fold of skin that covers the tip of the penis; it is removed in circumcision.

FOTC

Fuck of the century.

Fountain of Youth

While sitting on a woman's/man's face and having them eat your ass, jerk off. Build up as much pressure as possible before releasing, spewing like a venerable geyser all over their face, neck and tits.

Frogtie

Left ankle is bound to left thigh, right ankle is bound to right thigh. Wrists can be restrained various ways. The legs end up looking like "frog legs." An excellent sexual-access or breast-play position.

Frottage

Rubbing against someone else for sexual pleasure without engaging in penetration. Generally used to refer to consensual activity. See also FROTTEURISM.

Frotteurism

A fetish that involves rubbing up against an unsuspecting or unwilling person. Consensual rubbing is usually called FROTTAGE.

Frotteurist

One who engages in FROTTEURISM.

Fuck

To have sexual intercourse. Also used to describe penetrative activities other than penis/vagina intercourse, (e.g., finger-fuck, tit-fuck.)

Fudge Packer

A derogatory, offensive term for someone who engages in anal sex, especially a male homosexual.

Gag

A gag is a device designed to prevent speech. This is usually done by blocking the mouth, partially or completely, or attempting to prevent the tongue, lips, or jaw from moving in the normal patterns of speech.

Gang Bang

When many men have sex with a single woman/man one after another or even at the same time.

Gaping

A wide open vagina or anus.

Gassho

Pressing one's hands together in prayer. Gyaku Gassho is a bondage form where the hands are tied behind the back while pressed together; a very difficult position.

Gay

HOMOSEXUAL. Refers to both homosexual men and homosexual women (also called LESBIANS).

Gimp

BDSM term for a sex slave dressed in leather.

Glans, Glans Penis

The tip of the penis.

Glory Hole

A hole cut through a wall, allowing anonymous sex between people on either side of the wall. Often found in gay sex clubs.

Go Down

To perform ORAL SEX on a man or woman.

God Brother

An anti-sex religious fanatic.

Gokkun

Gulp. Implies a person sucking off a guy and swallowing.

Golden Enema

Urinating into an open anus.

Golden Shower

Urinating on someone else. See also WATERSPORTS.

Gonorrhea

A sexually transmitted disease, caused by the gonococcus bacteria, that causes painful urination in men and puss discharge from the penis.

Gonzo

From founder of gonzo is John "Buttman" Stagliano.
"Gonzo can take on several different forms. It can vary from the cameraman (in adult, very often the director) interviewing the actors, or participating in the scene with dialogue and/or sex. It can also mean that the actors are simply acknowledging the fact that there is a camera shooting what they are doing. So, although in adult gonzo, the cameraman is usually somehow visible or audible, simply the actors playing to the camera constitutes a gonzo scene."

Gorilla Salad

Unkempt pubic hair.

Gyaku

Reverse

Hair Bondage

The term refers not to restraining the hair, but using the hair as a bondage material to restrain the head.

Half-and-Half

When a prostitute performs fellatio and sexual intercourse in a single sex session.

Hammerlock

Wrists are crossed behind the back and pulled upward into the small of the back.

Hand Release

Stimulation of the penis to orgasm using hand and fingers.

Hard

When a man is aroused with a stiff penis due to sexual stimulation.

Hard On

An erection.

Hardcore

1. Sexual pictures, movies, etc. that show genitals, especially an erect penis, and often include penetration. Opposite of SOFTCORE.
2. Intense or dangerous sexual activity.

Hardwood Floors

Clean-shaven pubic area.

Harlot

A prostitute.

Harness

Bondage apparatus consisting of a network of straps designed to form a web over a part of the body and restrict movement.

HD

A BDSM abbreviation for humiliation and discipline.

Also short for High Definition

Head (Give Head)

1. Oral sex, specifically performed on a man; FELLATIO.
2. The top part of the penis, the tip.

Heavy Rubber

Term used about some of the hardcore latex games like Multiple Layers, Breath Control, Medical Play.

Leather Cheerio

LFK

Libido

Lilies of the Valley

Lingam

Ancient Indian term for the penis or a representation of the penis; appears in the Kama Sutra and often used in reference to Tantric sex.

Liquid Latex

A self-drying latex substance that paints directly onto the skin or over clothing and dries in about 5-10 minutes. Used to form custom wearable rubber clothing, costumes, masks, ect.

Load

Semen. Sometimes used in the phrase "blow your load" to mean EJACULATE

Looner

A balloon fetishist. Looners use balloons in sex play with partners, but more often, prefer simply humping the balloons themselves.

Lotus

Folding the legs in a floor-sitting position, like Buddha. The ankles are wrapped together.

Lube

Lubricant

Lubricant

A slippery substance used to make sex more comfortable and pleasurable.

Macrame

Bondage technique which applies rope or twine in a net-like decoration over the torso. Very popular in Japan and in gay bondage.

Masochism

Ability to transfer emotions caused by pain to erotic feelings.

Masturbation, Masturbate

Relating to or similar to MASTURBATION.

Mata

Groin, Crotch or Thigh

Meat Rack

A gay male cruising area.

Medical

Role-play where the activities of medicine are eroticized. Typical medical play scenarios include intimate examinations, catheterization and enemas. It should be noted that attempting to carry out medical procedures without medical training and hygiene is potentially highly dangerous.

Pirate

Play

Sexual activity, especially BDSM activity.

Pocket Pal

A sex toy shaped to resemble a vagina.

Podophilia

Arousal from feet.

Polyamory

Having sexual relationships with more than one person.

Pony Girl, Boy

Pony play is a form of BDSM and/or fetish playing, and role playing. In pony play, the slave becomes a "human pony". It is a special interest area of BDSM. It can combine bondage, discipline, Dominance and submission, even a little Sadomasochism.

Pornography

Pre-Cum

A small amount of clear fluid sometimes emitted by the penis during sexual arousal/stimulation but before ejaculation.

Premature Ejaculation

When a man cannot control the timing of his orgasm and ejaculates too quickly.

Priapism

An medical condition characterized by a painful erection that won't go down.

Prick

Slang for penis.

PSE

Porn Star Experience, A subjective term, used as praise for a provider that might have a high energy level, a particularly hot look, or is very accommodating ("nastiness" factor).

Quickie

Sexual intercourse that is short in duration. See also NOONER.

Racing Stripe

A narrow vertical slash of pubic hair.

Raw

Sex without a condom; BAREBACK

Reach Around

The act of performing anal sex on a man and reaching around to the front to simultaneously give him a hand job.

Red Light District

An area of a city or town where prostitution is available.

Retifism

The fetish for boots or shoes, is fairly common and is clearly linked to domination and power. May be linked to other clothing fetishes.

Rimming

Performing oral sex on the anus, especially licking the edge of the anus. See also ANILINGUS.

Role Play

In role-playing, participants adopt characters, or parts, that have personalities, motivations, and backgrounds different from their own. Role-playing is like being in an improvisational drama or free-form theatre, in which the participants are the actors who are playing parts.

Roman Shower

Vomiting on partner, usually after drinking urine..

Rubber

1. CONDOM.
2. Substance made from latex.

Rubberist

A Rubberist is a person with a fetish for rubber, latex or, more loosely, PVC clothing.

Rusty Trombone

When someone licks a man's ass and reaches around to the front to masturbate his penis. So called because it appears that the person is blowing into the ass and manipulating the penis like a musical instrument.

S&M

See BDSM.

Sacofricosis

a sexual paraphilia that refers to people who make holes in their pockets in order to masturbate in public with a minimal risk of getting caught.

San Juan Capistrano

BBBJTC and she swallows. Also known as bird watching.

Scat

Sex play involving shit. See also COPROPHILIA.

Score

To have sex. Especially used to describe a man having sex with a woman for the first time.

Scrotum

The sack that holds the testicles.

Semen

The sperm-containing fluid that a man expels when he has an orgasm; CUM.

Sensory Deprivation

Sex Addict

Someone with a compulsive, often self-destructive need to engage in sexual activity.

Sex Surrogate

A counselor who helps people with their sexual problems by engaging in sexual activity with them.

Sex Therapist

A counselor or psychologist who helps people with their sexual problems.

Sex Toy

An object designed to enhance sexual pleasure. Examples include a dildo or vibrator.

Sexpert

Someone who has gained a reputation as being an expert on sex, especially someone who appears in the media talking about sex.

Sexual Orientation

Who you are attracted to. Can be gay, straight, lesbian or bisexual.

Shaft

Referring to an erect penis, the area from the base to (but not including) the head.

Shag

Synonymous with screw.

Shemale

A transsexual who has not yet undergone a complete sex change, so that he has both breasts and a penis.

Shibari

Shibari involves tying up the bottom in intricate patterns, usually with several pieces of thin rope. Shibari differs from Western bondage in that, instead of just immobilizing or restraining the bottom, the bottom gains pleasure from being under pressure and strain of the ropes, squeezing the breasts or genitals.

Shonen-ai

Boy Love.

Shrimp,Shrimping

Licking or sucking someone's toes during sex.

Sixty-Nine (69)

Oral sex performed by two people on each other simultaneously. Called "69" due to the shape of the two numerals, which suggests the sex act.

Skeet

Slang. Semen, or the act of ejaculation.

Smegma

A white, cheesy substance secreted by the sebaceous glands that collects under the foreskin.

Smurf

Slapping someone in the face with your penis.

Smut

Pornography.

Snake Bite

The application of a suction cup to the skin as part of S&M.

Sniffer

The row of seats nearest the stage in a strip club.

Snoodling

When an uncircumcised GAY man pulls his extra foreskin over the cock of another GAY man and proceeds to jerk him off.

Snow Blow

Performing oral sex on a man with ice cubes in your mouth.

Snowball, Snowballing

After a man ejaculates in someone's mouth, passing the semen back and forth between partners.

Snowmobile

When having sex DOGGIE STYLE, sweep out her arms so she falls on her face.

Sodomy

A legal term, usually denoting anal sex or oral sex performed on a man.

Softcore

Sexual pictures, movies, etc. that do not show penetration and usually do not show an erect penis. Opposite of HARDCORE.

Soixante Neuf,(69)

Partners perform oral sex on each other simultaneously.

Southern France

Fellatio without a condom.

Spanish Fly

A supposed aphrodisiac potion, sometimes put surreptitiously into the drink of a partner to make them sexually interested.

Spermicide

A substance that kills sperm, often applied to a condom or other contraceptive device.

Spoon, Spooning

When two people lie parallel on their sides facing in the same direction. Usually with a man pressing his crotch against a woman's ass.

Spreader Bar

Item used to hold limbs apart, usually the ankles.

Spunk

SEMEN

STD, Sexually Transmitted Disease

Any disease transmitted through sexual contact. See VENEREAL DISEASE.

Straight

Someone who is attracted to the opposite sex.

Straitjacket

A straitjacket is a garment shaped like a jacket with overlong sleeves. The ends of these can be tied to the back of the wearer, so their arms are kept close to their chest with possibility of only little movement. They are used to restrain people who may otherwise cause harm to themselves and others, in hospitals for instance.

Stranger

Sitting on your hand until it falls asleep and then jerking off, eliciting the feeling of a hand job from someone else.

Strap-On, Strap-On Dildo

A DILDO that is worn by someone, attached to a harness, so that it can be thrust into a partner like a penis.

Transvestite

A man who dresses in women's clothing, make-up, etc. Usage note: transvestite usually refers to a man who regularly dresses like a woman and goes out in public that way.

Tribbing / Scissoring

A form of mutual masturbation in which a woman rubs her vulva against her partner's body for sexual stimulation. The term is most often used in the context of lesbian sex, but is not exclusive to lesbians. Tribadism can also refer to a masturbation technique in which a woman rubs her vulva against an inanimate object such as a bolster, in an effort to achieve orgasm.

Trick

1. A sex act for money.
2. A man who patronizes prostitutes.

Tsuri

Suspension

TUMA

Tongue up my ass.

Turned-On

Sexually excited; aroused.

Turtleneck

Uncircumcised.

Tyler

The act of placing one's foot into another's anus, named for porn mistress Tina Tyler.

Uncut

Not CIRCUMCISED.

Unload

To ejaculate.

Vacuum Bed

Apparatus used for bondage and sensory deprivation play. The subject is placed in a latex bag with a breathing tube and a one-way valve, a frame made from perforated plastic pipes surrounds the subject. A vacuum is created and the subject is sealed like vacuum-packed food.

Vaginismus

A sexual problem where the women's vaginal muscles contract so tightly that intercourse is difficult or impossible.

Vanilla

Non-kinky, "traditional" sex, usually between men and women.

Vasectomy

Surgery, performed on a man's vas deferens inside the scrotum, which renders him infertile.

VD

VENEREAL DISEASE.

Venereal Disease (VD)

A sexually transmitted disease, traditionally refers to syphilis and gonorrhea. See STD. Usage note: this terminology has fallen out of favor; STD (sexually transmitted disease) is the more common term.

Viagra

A registered trademark of Pfizer. This pill (generic name sildenafil citrate) helps men get an erection. You can purchase it online.

Vibrator

A sex toy that vibrates, often used to stimulate the clitoris.
Usage note: A DILDO generally refers to a toy with no moving parts, as opposed to a vibrator which includes an electric motor that causes it to vibrate.

Violet Wand

A BDSM sex toy in the shape of a wand that creates a shocking sensation.

Voyeurism

Getting sexual pleasure from watching someone else have sex.

Wank

MASTURBATE.

Watersports

Sex acts involving urine or ENEMAS. See also GOLDEN SHOWER.

Western Grip

When jerking off, turn your hand around, so that your thumb is facing towards you. It is the same grip that rodeo folks use.