is it rude to...

Type up a little list of things my son likes ( like being held facing out ) and things not to do ( like putting your hands in his mouth or shaking a bm bottle) and put this in his diaper bag for whoever watches him to know? We basically just have grandparents watching but sometimes they do the above and drives me crazy .

Type up a little list of things my son likes ( like being held facing out ) and things not to do ( like putting your hands in his mouth or shaking a bm bottle) and put this in his diaper bag for whoever watches him to know? We basically just have grandparents watching but sometimes they do the above and drives me crazy .

I feel your pain... My parents-i-l like to argue and always add something extra. When I swaddle lo, they said I astrain freedom from my son & upset him. They even immediately took away his swaddle blanket which really upsetted me...

I feel your pain... My parents-i-l like to argue and always add something extra. When I swaddle lo, they said I astrain freedom from my son & upset him. They even immediately took away his swaddle blanket which really upsetted me...

I wouldnt. verbal would come across better but atill gonna come off as rude. if they are watching for free so ur kid doesnt going to daycare I think u need to be a little more relaxed if he isnt in harms way.

I wouldnt. verbal would come across better but atill gonna come off as rude. if they are watching for free so ur kid doesnt going to daycare I think u need to be a little more relaxed if he isnt in harms way.

If you're worried they might feel you don't trust them or are being pushy, maybe it would help if you described it as 'At daycare they have you write a little list about your baby's habits/likes/dislikes to help people who aren't around him/her all the time. I thought it was a good idea, so I left a list in the diaper bag just in case'

If you're worried they might feel you don't trust them or are being pushy, maybe it would help if you described it as 'At daycare they have you write a little list about your baby's habits/likes/dislikes to help people who aren't around him/her all the time. I thought it was a good idea, so I left a list in the diaper bag just in case'

Just curious...why can you not shake a bm bottle? I shake mine because the layers separate and I didn't realize there was a reason not to. Am I doing something wrong? Is there a better way to mix it? Thanks,Mandie

Just curious...why can you not shake a bm bottle? I shake mine because the layers separate and I didn't realize there was a reason not to. Am I doing something wrong? Is there a better way to mix it? Thanks,Mandie

Swirl, never ever shake breastmilk. Shaking damages the protiens.I do make a list everytime my inlaws babysit. Last time it was 3 pages. However, my in laws are wonderful people an appriciate my lists and follow them to the T. That's why I trust my inlaws to babysit and no one else, not even my own mother.

Swirl, never ever shake breastmilk. Shaking damages the protiens.I do make a list everytime my inlaws babysit. Last time it was 3 pages. However, my in laws are wonderful people an appriciate my lists and follow them to the T. That's why I trust my inlaws to babysit and no one else, not even my own mother.

My mil has raised 5 kids so I trust her but she does stuff that kinda erks me. LOL I had a 3 piece outfit for him to wear and she didnt put the onsie on him, just the pants and the button up over shirt. So his belly was hanging out. I purposely put that outfit on the bottom of the diaper bag with 2 other outfits on top and she chose that one.. and the way she puts the diapers on. But I always just tell people what he likes and how to calm him. No one knows your baby like you do so even if you tell them they will do what they think.

My mil has raised 5 kids so I trust her but she does stuff that kinda erks me. LOL I had a 3 piece outfit for him to wear and she didnt put the onsie on him, just the pants and the button up over shirt. So his belly was hanging out. I purposely put that outfit on the bottom of the diaper bag with 2 other outfits on top and she chose that one.. and the way she puts the diapers on. But I always just tell people what he likes and how to calm him. No one knows your baby like you do so even if you tell them they will do what they think.

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