Why does this even matter? Why should someone's preferences for his or her personal life be called into such scrutiny? And I really don't understand why someone would stop liking an individual after finding this out.

Why does this even matter? Why should someone's preferences for his or her personal life be called into such scrutiny? And I really don't understand why someone would stop liking an individual after finding this out.

Maybe what she meant too say was she didn't like him anymore in that "I got a crush on you" type like?