Friday, January 30, 2009

This tym waghya one of ma best frenz...has given me this topic to write on . i wish and i will try to maintain the seriousness and the level of this topic as it is very sensitive . I think iI am a total combo pack of a best friend you need in your life as well as a real true and mad lover one alwayz wish in her life . I am a man of golden heart one needs to love a person as well as I am ready to give al the sacrifices for keepin the friendship alive till I . I want to write that how love is related rather it interferes wid friendship and how they cause various things happen in our simple life . I hope all my observations and judgements do not hurt anybody and probably cum true .This topic has many nodes and modes involved in it . I even dont know that how much I know about this topic , starting this topic I want to tell you a sms i have ->one day LOVE asked FRIENDSHIP why are you in world when i am here ? Friendship smiled replied "to spread smiles where you leave tears ". Now that was like a shot wasnt dat ? But is it the reality ? Do friendship really helps us in healing the scars love gave us ? People say friendship is the strongest relation on earth . But is it the same when love interferes with friendship ? Does love weakens the bonds of the friendship ? Who wins in the war of love and friendship ?Now moving on to each point slowly , I have something to say about my first question . Do friendship helps us in healing the scars love gave us ? There are various situations one can consider to answer this question . Everybody has thier own expieriences as well as opinion so there may be different viewes on this . Let me tell you one for sure now only , that after breaking up in love , those two persons cant even bound themselves in friendship . So here friendship is not coming into act only so it cant hepl you in anyway . Your other friends and their may help you upto some extent but friendship and love have their own place in life and they have their own ways .Now moving on to the second point , as we all say that friendship is the strongest bond , but is it in real ? When love interferes with your friendshp or otherways are you happy with your friendship ? Ofcourse you are not . It is because you are in love . Then how come friendship is the strongest bond . I always belived on friendship more than love . I always thought that friendship remains same whatever the conditions are . But unfortunately i was wrong !!!I want to tell you guyz a story here for that . PURE IMAGENARY . Once there were two boyz . Who were best freinds of each other . they were with each other full day . thier bond of freindship was so strong that they never thought of anything which can brak them apart . After some time , a girl came in their life . She was best friend of one of them and nobody of other . Later on that nobody became everything for him . She became his life . J ust because the two guyz are best friends of each other , the boy who was in love wanted to tell his best friend that he was in love with his best friend . As soon as he told it to him . That boy said that 'I wont let happen anything in between you guyz because I will loose both of you ' . Now I dont want to discuss more on this story . I want you guyz to think that why this hapend . Where those best friends and their friendship gone in a second ? Why the fuck only only one personin those three who is in love as well as want his best friend to be with him forever is dieng ? Was their friendship weak ? Or it was love who made it weaker from anyside u can say , i dont care . What I want to tell you guyz is love is not at all good if it is going to interfere with your friendship . All you going to get is some chances of sacrificing yourself . Huh . Some guilty pleasures and broken heart .

Sunday, January 18, 2009

successful people said that "IT IS NOT UR APTITUDE DAT DECIDES UR ALTITUDE BUT IT IS UR ATTITUDE DAT DECIDES UR ALTITUDE"...nw suddenly disaggrin the d thought told by gr8 people is nt in ma nature....i think on everything i can,atleast we can try to think to get ne better choice,yeild from the given ......sowie turning again to attitude.. first day of college ,,,,,,,a handsom boy,,,beautiful gal and a coincidence--->>their rol nos ah nxt to each oda.....sweet na ...they tok to each oda , hav som gud tym , laugh , share sum gud jokes now the bubye tym.......dis is how dat sweet tym got ove...... day two---->>>boy came early to coll ,,waitin fo his freanz to cum....afta som tym gal enters the coll ,,both of dem luk at each other and smile....n den again dey gt buzee in der schedule ,,this day no no talk!!! den d boy says gal hs a lot of attitude n same is wid da gal....lol.... huh! oki does it means attitude really??? i dn think lyk dat!! wen nebody will not tok much freely n will not b so carin towards u ,,n wen dat person waks lukin up in sky leavin oda people its attitude......!!!du u think dis is da real meanin of attitude.... afta lisnin , watchin , n readin sm gr8 people ,,whom we say celebs o successful people i got to knw attitude is nature of urs towards uo work,,,, more o less dey meant dedication wid a gud n tiredless feelin..mmmmmmm dunnooo...hehe... aal d people who got successful hav one thing in common d dedication towards d work dey du ...by the subject wannned to tell u sumthn..........PANDIT BHIMSEN JOSHI a gr8 indian musicion ,,workin wid his instrument fo 18hrs a day.......wow sounds so gud and a bithectic also....he was once asked dat..u work fo 18 hrs wid dat same instru don u gt bored,,,,??? he says dat,,,does a fish gts bored of swimming in sea???ouuuuu poised ,,,shoked ,,impressed???hota hai hota hai..so wat i flt...is gr8 people `s atti juz deals wid o around der work!!! oki...now i thut y a dictionary shud hv a chance ha ....so i found meanin of attitude as juz uo nature!!! now i am gtn some wt idea about about meanin of attitude,,bt one thing i got frm ma abov obs is dat attitude[1st meanin] let people go away frm us nd havin no attitude[again d same meanin] lets us to hav no special attention smtyms....but we ah special many tyms.............!!!!