Monthly Archives: February 2019

Let me make this life a worthy one. I shall invite all sentient beings as my guest. I pledge that from this day on I will work for the benefit of others. May I serve all sentient beings with my peace of mind.

We all have been taught to chase respect. As children, we chase respect by doing what our parents appreciate: Being nice, obeying, achieving, some even were respected for being ill… I was respected for being a victim. This created a victim behavior at school, at my workplaces and in my partnerships. I was chasing respect from male ‘authorities’ until my late forties. At first, I realized I ‘felt’ like a victim… Ouch !… Then I realized I behaved like a…..

We women have given birth to our children for eons of time. For children who have been taken from us or who we have lost before we could embrace them, hurt, suffering, loss, but also joy, connection and bliss have been with us to this day. At the beginning of patriarchy, the female power was banned in order to protect us. Our intuitive forces dissipated and we had to live without our connection to source. Now is the time we…..

The wounded child tries to have value by the external world. What the family, friends, the neighbours or the collective think makes the wounded child behave in the manner that gives the most appreciation. As a wounded child, we hang in all our relationships on puppet threads. We are needy for love. We crave security more than liveliness. Each movement of the other person moves us. Yes, this relationship will be very unstable. Mankind is moving out of the…..