Handing over the right to issue divorce to the wife

Q: During a heated argument with my wife if I told her she has the option of staying with me or to leave me (divorce me) and she said “Ok I will leave or Ok I want separation” but at the same time I told her “I will not divorce you” due to hardship reasons. Then is this the same thing as giving her the authority to divorce herself as I was giving her a choice?

She is not happy, so I insisted she talk to her parents about sending her a plane ticket back home but I told her “I will not divorce you”, so does this count as a divorce on her part, as I did not intend to divorce her but rather give her the option to seek divorce?

A: If you had no intentions to divorce and you did not have the intention that she could divorce herself then the divorce will not take place.