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ChantalOrosco wrote:

After having one daughter who is now 9 years old, with minimal issues in becoming pregnant, I have had 2 miscarriages within the last 3 years. Hubby and I had given up hope. imagine my surprise when I blearily stared at the test that was coming back positive. I followed up with my physician right away to get the ball rolling for blood tests and an ultrasound. I was estimated to be at 7 weeks yesterday due to the first day of my last period. I went for the ultrasound and they measured 5 weeks 5 days yesterday. I peed on a stick a week ago. now I'm just scared the baby isn't alive and that it's waiting to miscarry since the dates are off. And I don't know who to talk to because no one understands they say don't jinx it. But I am a worried wreck. Do you guy's think I'm justified in worrying? they're doing more htc tests on me to make sure it's growing...sorry to be a negative nelly, I just really need to vent.

this is my 9th pregnancy but will only be my 7th baby since i suffered 2 miscarriages. ever since my first miscarriage which was my 3rd pregnancy i get so nervous about it happening again. i can understand but try to relax for you and your baby. i wish you the best luck and i hope you have a healthy pregnancy.

Lots of things could be going on, you could of ovulated later then you think, or the drs measurement is a little off or a combination of both. They always seem to put me behind what I think I am at the first ultrasound and then I end up getting bumped up later in pregnancy. Good luck and try not to stress!

So sorry hun! I totally understand having had 2 miscarriages myself but I then had a beautiful boy with is now 2 1/2. Just found out I am pregnant again and am also terrified and haven't been to dr yet and going 10/30. There is not much you can do now except wait it out and pray. Try to keep yourself busy and be kind to yourself. Here if you need to talk and we can all support you!!

thank you everyone. I just don't know if I can handle the disappointment or the look on my husband's face. the fact that there was no heartbeat yesterday scared me too, but I'm going to convince myself that's normal since everyone has different heartbeats showing differently. It sucks because my breast tenderness keeps coming and going so I worry about that, and I never get morning sick, so I can't on that. I just want to know I am pregnant definitely without a doubt with a live baby dangit lol. with technology the way it is I guess I just expect more

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