6. that is part of the problem, I agree. That they need a safe evironment in which to process what has

happened is also part of it. That they no longer require weaponry could also be a consideration, at least, until they have been debriefed and stabilized and are fully functioning members of this society. An adjustment period is not unreasonable.

That we ask them and that they are allowed to volunteer at such a young age also needs to be addressed, imvho. YMMV.