May 2, 2011

When we say sacrifice, there will be a lot of meaning,what sacrifices that we are sure to sacrifices.Choices often miss understoodand sometimes lead to mistake,of what we intend to sacrifice,meaning of such word SACRIFICEis always around the corner of all livingthings,

specially tous human. we can see the example of bird during winter time,rainy season or such situation that risk themother bird life to look for afood for all of her baby birdsbecauseof the

love and concern,she will take the risk no matter how riskyis,the motherbird will give all her bestto sacrifice for all the babybirds she loves. Effort sometime failed,becausenot all bird will survive.sacrifices will be resulting to unworthy but the important thing!she did all her best. this is the facts that we must to accept,that not all effort and sacrifices is successful and worth it. even though all the best ofany persons sacrifices, each one has their own reasonwhy they'rewilling to sacrifice for someone they lovedand cared, inevitably sometimes notworth

sacrificing,i will first and foremost drop the not worthsacrificing. Not worth sacrificing is often more painful and much complicated in a reason that,some people sacrifice &not been really done it in a right way for the person that they sacrificing, & not worthy of, to receive thesacrifice,they don’t mind either the value of it and to acknowledge it in a whole heart way,but we can't blame those people did the mistake,because is not the mistake of the onethat gave the sacrifice, but the onethat not worthy to receive it. unintentionally made or intentionally, just being unaware towho the receiver is,if its worthy to receive it or not. All of us did or few of us didn't experience it. as we are diving deeper in our topic,you can ask yourself nowwhat Iam pointing out about,you eitherthink that it doesn't make any sense at all,well. its not that simpleto accept the facts that sometimes we sacrifice and unworthy unfortunately,but I am not saying that we must beware to sacrifice and not to trust the receiver, it just happen sometimes because not all are that good. as there is a sayingthatthere’s a lot of fish in the ocean.Means, various characters and some are good and unfortunately some are bad and not worthy at all. is sad to say that some people that gave their sacrifices sometimes resultingto

a wasted effort.

We now enter to the world of caregiver that often made a lotof sacrifices in their daily basis life cycle as a caregiver in career. care giving it involve a lot of stress and often lead to illnessif not properly manage all the stresses & problems. The sacrificesof a caregiver can't beseen,but possibly sense and just trulyunderstand howhard it is, caregiver job or taking care of your love ones is also a care giving,not in career but doing it for your love one thatneeded constantlycare such as medication and all treatment that involved in taking care for a patient or member of the familywhether a disabled,sick or old etc.

that incapable of being alone to doall the daily task,and whether young or old they need oftensomeone to be there to take care of them and watch their needs in general. like if one of the member of the family that unlucky due to various illness, they need a caregiver,whether you will hire a caregiver or you will do it yourself to take care for your love ones,sometimesfew family preferred to take care of their own family member with disabilities or grandpa & grandmadue to their old age their mobility is limited and sick, also if one of the member of the family has various health problem that involve for often attention.

if you ask a caregiver,one thing they will always answer, isn't thateasy & the family of the patient can truly understand that logic,specially if they once also been into the situation being a caregiver for their love ones. sometimes some doesn't understand it,they always just do it just for the sakeof treatment and medication and that’s fine for them,theimportantfor them is that, they gave what is needed,the truth is no. patient with illness always need an attention and inner strength toletthe patient combat all illnesses and whatsoever their situation.As a caregiver, is not just being paid for the services to be there for the patient at all time but to give all the best in inner encouragementto help the patient to be strong and overcome all the hardship,with the help of the caregiver,As a caregiver,always bear in mind that it not just doing your responsibilities and that’s enough,the patient needed much care than we think,the first thing that a caregiver must comply is to let the flow naturally by giving such wonderful care thatthe patient can inner feel the care that they deserve to. In caregiving,the most important task that you made is providing inner strength andencouragementfor the patient to move on and overcome all the hardship,in fact if we just understand and put our self in their situation andintuitivelywe understand howhard it is,that’s why some time few of patient is irritable and angry oftheir situation,this sign is naturally human and not to be discourage but to make it as a challengesas part of the job as a care providerthe caregiver in this case,must wisely be flexible and tothink thebest possibleway's to gain the patient trust and allow the treatment such as mentally,physically,emotionally and psychologically as well as medical treatment,all this mention must be balancefor it is good for the patient rapid recovery and it helps a lot to overcome suchillnessesor whatsoever the situation that a patient into. and that’s the time as a caregiver,you will slowly push thecourage into the patient heart to help the patient to forget all thehardship andillness that bother the patient and combat it to overcome it and to move on as a normal person without illness psychologically. Because psychologically if the patient always thinknegatively due to his/hersituation, it is not good for the patient health because anxiety allows thenegative aspect's resulting to unhealthy livingto anybody and it is always the reason why somedoesn't know how they got the illnesses and how or what is thecause. Usually if a patient is anxious and problematic of his/her situationor being angry of his/her situation, the result will be annoying and it is not good for the health of the patient,so as a caregiveryou can always divert it into a positive thinking by teaching thepatient how to live a normal life not bothering the situation that he/she is actually into,alwaysencourage the patient to be strongand inner strength can lead to a faster recovery and helps also to gainstrength for thepatient,it is not that easy but with patiencethe result will be as good as accomplishment not just in career ascare provider but a good felt in your heart as a care providerthat you yourself will always treasured it in your whole life not just a caregiver but as a human.

Caregiver is always a challengingcareer and as a caregiver, you constantly extend you hand to helpthe patient to overcome all the illnesses and hardship. treat the patient as yourbestfriend,that he/she can count on you at all times. innerunderstanding and a lots of patience and you willmake a difference.Chemistry that caregiver must to build for both of them and

patient, buildingthe bridgeto good communicationand closeness as this can lead to a healthy relationshipas acaregiver and patient and it helps a lot to healthier environment and rapid recovery for the patient,orlessen eithercan prevent to worse health status of the patient good chemistryor good relationship is very important if you are in the field of caregiver career. All that I mention above will not come quickly,caregiver must have a lots or much more patient reservedand all that patientwill give you the good resultbefore you knew it.The good thing if both caregiver and patient have the good communicationand good relationshipas caregiver and patient. both of you and the patient can trulyunderstand what both feltand even a small matters you andthe patient can both understand without speaking just bysenseyou know quickly what the patient means,that's we call inner trust like one of your love ones that so close to you or best friend that just both of you can understand.

Before a caregiver will qualify for the job,there will be an screeningand matching for both side if the caregiver and patient is compatibleto be together and the likeness and dislike will be both carefully understand and respectingand to abide the rulesfor both to avoidany conflict in future.agencies that provide a caregiverfor those patient or family that need someone to for themor for their love ones either a socialworker need a caregiver in care home, the agenciesthat provide a caregiveris responsiblefor all the processing before the caregiver start to work. Career as a caregiveris not easy as just taking care for the patient in all that he/she needed as you think, but as a caregiver youmust truly understandthatsometimes you must to sacrifice also leaving your family,thissacrifices is common to a foreign worker caregiver, working abroad acrossthe sea to work as a caregiver,sample cases is Filipino

caregiver's that work abroad as a caregiver,there's a large percentage of Filipino caregiver

around the world. taking care for patientin variousareas whether in hospital's,care home,nursing home or in aprivate residence of the patient whether live in caregiver orliveout, we can see their sacrifices,specially if the caregiver is afather or a mother in their native

land,they will sacrifice to work abroad far with their love ones just to sustain their daily need's,they will give their best effort to take care for a patient and to carefor their reputation as a caregiver,often homesick,eagerness to hugtheir kids and love ones, they'll overcomeit whether they like it or not, they must put all aside and togive the best carefor theirpatient.Its not that easy but worthy if the caregiver make their best and lovethe patient like their own and the trust will be to both patient andcaregiver heart, they will be like a truly family

not in blood but in heart. The sacrifices of the caregiver will be worth it and made thedifference.

the caregiver will be comfortablein his/her career as a caregiver andat the same timethe caregiver sustain his/her family needsacross thesea and therelationship of the patient and caregiver willbe as bestor great experience in both on theirentire life, that bothwill treasure it,the patient and thecaregiver as well as the family of both parties. Sacrifices of a caregiver is worthif the bonding and relationship of the patient and caregiveras well as the patient family matches and they treat the same way as one family and it is truly amazing and great experience for the caregiver and the patient and all people that around them, give and take ways for both parties andhappiness will flow constantly. And its a worth sacrificeand wonderfulexperience for the caregiver & thepatient thatin their whole lifethey can treasure it specially thosefantastic moment together. BY:J.LE