UM, NO. If you cannot restrain your libido while being someone’s guest then get a hotel room!!! You’re their guest, not some horny co-ed. You should be enjoying their company and like when you go camping, leaving the place a little better than you found it, NOT leaving a trademark on the sheets.

#1) Keep the noise down. No moaning or screaming.
#2) Use a towel and keep the damn sheets spooge free.
#3) Lock the door.
#4) No headboard banging, no toys and no bondage allowed.
#5) Never invite your host or their family members.

depends on whos hosue youre a guest, i couldnt imagine being in someones moms or dads house and unleashing the full ninja handbook on their darling daughter. but if if i was at say at one of her girlfriends house or something like that, then if she was looking particualrly sexy and the mood strikes then yep it can be on!

Downright disrespectful. I’m with #2 – can’t control your libido then spring for a hotel room. I actually came out of my bedroom in my apartment and “caught’ my best friend on top of her boyfriend and there was no doubt what they were doing (they had crashed on the pullout couch). Needless to say she has never been invited to crash at my place again.

Sorry “Got 2” – I’ve since moved on to marriage and a house! We have a spare room now so no need for the pull out any longer. BUT, I am very careful as to who to offer to spend the night. To be honest I hate being a houseguest and hate having them! That’s what hotels are for…LOL

I agree with Stefan, relationship to the host matters. Also, depends on where you’re shacking up.. pull out in the living room? or private room? If the situation is right.. do it do it do it.. everyone needs to burn some calories for Thanksgiving :)

I say go for it if the situation permits and you know for a fact that the host won’t be seriously upset by it. My ex had an aunt that put us in separate bedrooms…my mom, gma, etc? They don’t want to know about it, but they don’t really care.

In fact, if it makes me more pleasant in the morning, they’ll probably say go for it. I’m not a morning person.

Unless you work in housekeeping, no one is expected to clean up the aftermath of a steamy session you WEREN’T involved in. If you’re invited to stay at someone’s house AS A GUEST, you show some respect and control yourself for a night or two. If you can’t, then get a hotel room or go for a drive and hump in your car.

I guess I have to ask everyone, would u be Ok with someone U invited over having sex in your house? me Id be ok with it(unless it was my daughter) then U need to show me respect and not bang out my daughter in my house with me in it!

This is too ironic: I am having a friend stay with her SO this weekend and I am praying they dont do the nasty in my 1 yr old new guest room…ughhhh. I have been thinking about it since I offered them to stay.

It doesnt , unless U are in a parents house, or in a house with young children make any sense to expect grown folks not to do what it do. “excuse me, im glad u came for a visit, but please No sex in the guest room”LOL!

I guess it might be ok if you asked the host and hostess to join you. And with the drinking that will be going on, that might not be too hard a thing to do. Nothing like a little liquid dumbass to set the holidays off with a bang!

I hate house guests and I’m always looking for an excuse to make people get hotel rooms. So, if I ever heard anyone having sex in my guest bedroom, then that would be my one shot at making my husband’s family park their sorry butts in a hotel.

a quiet quickie, sure. a “session”, no. Plus, I agree with the other poster who said lock the door and do NOT make it obvious by headboards hitting the wall. I would think that that would be embarrassing for everyone involved; the do-er and hear-er.

I once had a holiday party and walked into the bathroom (the lock sometimes sticks) to find my friend and her boyfriend doing it in the tub (while standing). I would much rather guests use the guest room and lock the door, than in my shower without checking the lock first!

Any time I have stayed a someone’s home I have always offered to wash the sheets/pillow cases and remake the bed before I leave. This applies if I am alone or with an SO. It just seems like good manners to me.
If you are hosting someone or a couple and are freaked out by the sheets simply ask them before they leave if they would mind bringing the sheets down and tossing them in the wash. Make it a casual request, saying that you are going to change over the sheets anyhow…

As for folling around, my son was conceived in my sister in law’s spare room.

It totally depends on the situation. If you’re staying in a guest room and the mood really strikes, I think it’s ok as long as you’re quiet and use a towel and/or at the very least offer to wash the sheets yourself before you depart. It’s not fair to make someone else touch your soiled sheets! If you’re staying on someone’s pull-out couch in the middle of their living room, I think you should refrain from doing anything. I had quite the shock one night when I got up to go to the bathroom and caught my friends in the act on the pull-out couch. I think my dog was traumatized by the whole thing as well. Not cool!

I just listened to my brother-in-law and his girlfriend’s heavy breathing, moans and thrusting for at least 30 minutes. They started in the bathroom which shares a wall with my bedroom and moved it to the pullout couch in the living room. It was NOT cool! I made a point to go to the toilet slam down the lid and flush twice to express my indignation. Jeez! If you’re gonna do it, fine but hold your breath or something no one wants to wake up to the sounds of two people humping, that’s so uncomfortable.

ummmm never!!!! i had this girl move in with me and ive only known her for a few months. we have 2 extra spare rooms so i was like fine its ok for a little bit, well she is getting too comfortable too fast, having sex in someone elses house is disgusting and disrespectful, obviously these ppl on here have no respect for thier friends, ive had it done to me and i wanna knock someone out for even thinking about it. im married and have a family and you think its ok to stay somewhere have sex like its no big deal when your not even paying to stay here. oh hell na im thinking of kicking her out….is that too harsh?

I don’t see anything wrong with it as long as some ground rules are in place:

1. Be very, very quiet!
2. Don’t use the host(ess)’s bed or the bed of any other guest, for that matter. My brother and his wife used my bed, didn’t bother to clean the sheets, when he had a bed that they could’ve used.
3. Offer to wash the sheets the next day. If you are not willing to do that, use the floor.

I don’t really see why people are uptight about this. Sex is a part of life. And for those who say they don’t want their adult children having sex in the house, they’re adults. Where do you think your grandchildren came from?

If it’s discreet and you don’t dirty any surfaces which are hard to clean then why not? It’s just sex, some people make too big a deal of it. And if the host/ess has a problem, their likely just jealous. As far as sheets go, you would hope the host/ess would change them ANYWAY!! Is it actually doing any harm? NO! So no biggy :)