Henan Town Has Married In 23 Vietnamese Wives Over Past 6 Years

According to recent media reports, Linqi town of Lingzhou city in Henan province has married in 23 Vietnamese daughter-in-laws over the span of several years. The relatively inexpensive costs for finding love and marriage, relatively high quality of the marriage partners [women], and traditional values and lifestyle have enticed some of the young men in the town to head to Vietnam to “find a wife”.

2013 July 24, Henan Linzhou Linqi, over the past several years, the locals have married in 23 Vietnamese girls. Though they have already integrated into the local life, they say they too have their difficulties: Among them, none of them have yet obtained Chinese nationality or permanent residency. Photo is of an officer of the Linzhou city Entry-Exit Bureau at the home of one of the Vietnamese brides to understand the situation.

Photo is of the Linqi town’s Vietnamese brides.

Vietnamese bride Liang Shichui helping at her husband’s older sister’s tea shop. Liang Shichui’s impression upon the locals is that of someone who is “pretty, familiar with Chinese language/customs, and is doing well”. For this kind of international marriage, language is often a barrier. However Liang Shichui says, there are a lot of specialized training organizations in Vietnam, where girls can register and after studying for a month or more are able to have everyday conversations with Chinese people.

Liu Weihua and He Shihuan’s family of three. Liu Weihua is from Weijian village of Linqi town, the first man in the village to take a Vietnamese wife. In 2010 when he was working in Ninh Bing of Vietnam, he met a girl amongst his fellow workers, who is now his wife He Shihuan’s younger sister. Through her introduction, he and He Shihuan met and fell in love, and what more, very quickly “felt they could get married”.

One war and now Vietnam has lots of women and few men. One family planning policy and now China has lots of men, and few women. With Henan men marrying Vietnamese women, we can say its the inferior complementing each other.

In the future just marry a Vietnamese gal, Chinese girls are truly too expensive.

网易北京市网友 [国际哥yes]：

My wife is German, blonde hair blue eyed, but I think I’m very ordinary and it was just fate. Actually, I think Western women apart from being a bit more independent-minded, they’re [also] much more virtuous/chaste than Chinese women, are kind-hearted, aren’t vain, are frugal, emphasize love and family on a spiritual level, and these alone totally blow modern Chinese young women away. I’m currently constantly introducing German girlfriends to my brothers [fellow male friends], exhorting them to not seek Chinese women. Oh yeah, Western women don’t demand that you have a house.

网易吉林省网友(211.141.*.*)： (responding to above)

Finding a foreigner is still difficult.

网易上海市网友(218.242.*.*)： (responding to above)

Language is a big problem.

网易山东省青岛市网友(219.146.*.*)： (responding to above)

China’s post-80s generation gold-diggers are only fit to be mistresses.

网易福建省福州市网友 [正氣凌然]： (responding to above)

Wake up, brother, time to move bricks [suggesting the original commenter is lying/posing, that his reality does not reflect what he makes himself appear as online. Another interpretation is: “Wake up, brothers, time to work hard” in order to meet and get foreign girls.]

网易北京市网友 [国际哥yes]： (responding to above)

If I’ve lied about anything, I swear that my entire family will die! [This shows that the original commenter interpreted the above comment the first way.]

网易浙江省杭州市网友(115.236.*.*)： (responding to above)

German is too “manly” [aggressive-sounding]. We work with a German company and when the two Germans are talking in the office, we all thought they were fighting but they were actually just talking about what they ate for breakfast…

网易河北省唐山市网友 [15138471807]： (responding to above)

Begging on my knees for the first floor [original comment poster in this comment thread, 国际哥yes] to introduce me…

网易北京市网友 [如a影a随a形]： (responding to above)

Also requesting that the first floor reply to [should be 9th floor 15138471807’s] question. There’s no [strange] reason, but out of curiosity, is your size okay [to your wife]?

网易北京市网友 [国际哥yes]： (responding to above)

Go on Facebook, just scale the wall [Great Firewall], there’s plenty of translation software. Western females aren’t as pretentious as domestic/Chinese girls. As long you’re friendly, normally they’ll respond and chat with you. Just say you’re learning English. I’m not saying there aren’t some arrogant women in the West, who are racially prejudiced, but they have a diverse society and there are all kinds of people. I have a good friend, a school flower [school beauty] at Oxford, but she’s only interested in black people and will proactively approach black people in bars. Of course, my wife and I met each other through work, and both of us are rather low-key quite ordinary people.
The other thing, I have to thank my parents, I have a big bird [dick]. Also, I’ve discussed this topic with some Western male and female friends. The size of guys down there has nothing to do with the size of women down there. Foreign men’s [penises] aren’t big either, about the same as Chinese men. Of course, I’m not excluding that there are those who are especially large and especially small, which are all disabilities or diseases/illnesses.

网易广东省广州市网友(220.243.*.*)： (responding to above)

Louzhu sure is deceiving people, if you have the means to marry a German, how can you not have a house or car?

网易广东省深圳市网友 [2013一起看海]： (responding to above)

LZ, white women are okay when they are young, but they seem to age very quickly after marriage, and their skin is bad, much rougher, and what more, white women easily become fatties after marriage!

网易北京市网友 [国际哥yes]： (responding to above)

Responding to [网易广东省广州市网友(220.243.*.*)], the two of us are currently working in Beijing, and not being able to afford a home in Beijing is certain, which buying a car being even more difficult, can’t get a lottery number [to get a license plate]. Anyway, her work is only a 20 minute walk away while I ride the subway for over an hour whereas driving would take an entire morning without getting to the company. It’s better to spend the money vacationing/traveling.
Additionally, I’ve already mentally prepared myself, there’s nothing I can do about her aging fast or getting fat fast in the future, and I’ll probably have gone bald and become a wretched-looking man by then anyway, so neither needs to laugh at the other.

网易广西南宁市网友 [ak47t54]： (responding to above)

Your wife must repent, kneel, and apologize for the heinous crimes of her ancestors!

I think the first floor [original commenter] is rather sincere/honest/true. One should treat the sincere with sincerity!
I believe the sincerity of 国际哥.

网易广东省深圳市网友 [猎人抵抗]： (responding to above)

The first floor [original commenter 国际哥yes] is quite blessed [has a happy life].

网易陕西省西安市网友 [秦川牛]： (responding to above)

What the first floor [original commenter] said is quite sincere, did he step on the tail of that Nanning monkey [referring to ak47t54]? While I’m at it, let me say to that Nanning person, if you’re going to bring up apologizing, I happen to think Guangxi people [the province that includes the city of Nanning] ought to apologize, their multi-level marketing schemes having harmed everyone in China.

If it weren’t for that British girl, that family would’ve long ago been made homeless, wandering int he wilderness~~~

网易浙江省杭州市网友 [天真黑1122]： (responding to above)

Requesting German girl.

网易湖北省咸宁市网友 [小Rua]： (responding to above)

After seeing the louzhu‘s introduction [comment], my mood has improved. Who can teach me how to climb the wall [GFW], I want Facebook.

网易美国网友 [Fancy0Name]： (responding to above)

Hehe, how many languages do you know?

网易重庆市网友 [流浪小兵]： (responding to above)

Responding to [小Rua]’s question, search the keyword “fg”, and you might find [something that can help].

网易广东省广州市海珠区网友 [中国农007]： (responding to above)

There’s a story of a Chinese man who was studying abroad in Germany. Once when crossing the street with his German girlfriend and ran the red light, the German girlfriend broke up with him, with the reason being that if he could even run a red light, who knows what other illegal things he might do in the future; Years later, this brother had returned to China. When crossing the street with his Chinese girlfriend, he didn’t run the red light, and the Chinese girlfriend broke up with him, with the reason being that if he can’t even run the red light as a man, what could he possibly accomplish in the future?!

网易美国网友 [Fancy0Name]： (responding to above)

Hehe, I don’t know how things are like in Germany, but Americans running the yellow light is commonly seen. Of course, in Los Angeles it is the exception.

网易日本网友 [leo44335123]： (responding to above)

Responding to [流浪小兵], fg became outdated long ago. Search “VPN”.
I run outside the wall [circumvent the GFW] everyday, and haven’t managed to get any foreign girls. If you don’t believe me, look at my IP.

网易广东省东莞市网友 [三愣子]： (responding to above)

Looking at your IP, you’re trying to get with Teacher Sora Aoi? Definitely not going to happen.

网易浙江省杭州市网友(115.205.*.*)： (responding to above)

I’m genuinely vexed by SB guys like this. Even if the foreign woman you’ve found is genuinely good, is it necessary to go look down upon your own country’s women? Chinese women gave birth to you, raised you, and instead of repaying/appreciating them, you’ve instead become a running dog for foreign women. It isn’t enough that your conscience has been eaten by a dog [lost], you run here to insult Chinese women. If you’re going to be like that, you might as well take your German wife and get the fuck out of China. Westerners are too open [liberal], how many green hats [a symbol for being cheated on] is brother [referring to the original commenter] ready to wear?

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GermanExpat

Man, and here am I, married to a chinese lady because I thought german girls were no good … not that I regret it. Just funny seeing chinese men writing same shit about german women I thought about chinese women (it really is shit, because it’s just wishful thinking and not related to reality).

Irvin

The grass is always greener on the other side, which is good, you take our girls and we take yours. win win.

Cauffiel

Irvin…. I think we both live in Dongguan, is that correct?

Irvin

No, but close enough, I live in guangzhou.

linette lee

So why don’ t you jump over the fence you idiotic jerk. Go get your grass from the other side of the fence. hahahhaa…lol….. XD

linette lee

girls are girls. Why does it matter which race she is? It’s all about
love and compatibility. Why people have to care so much about
race and color? Where I work so many interracial married couples. They usually met through college and jobs. Share same interests in life. It’s love and compatibility. Not race nor color.

Kilkenny

It’s a complicated question and it’s not about the race, but mostly about your expectation of your own bride. Color of your skin is only a visual marker, but in mostly cases it comes with all your cultural differences. As for me, not the color of skin is important. Important thing that we do share same beliefs and have same traditions, but this is more likely to be met around the people who share your cultural heritage.

linette lee

With me I enjoy being with someone who has different culture being it is new and exciting and always something to learn and experience whether it’s food, language, or traditions(except religion). It’s kind of boring being with someone with the same in everything.

Kilkenny

All of these things could be pretty well done without marrying each other. Marriage is another matter. When you mary you have to do that, when you are friends, you just explore it and accept it or not.

linette lee

I am kind of familiar with many different cultures and background because of where I was raised and live and I don’t have too much prejudice in me. When you have enough exposure nothing is too shocking or hard to accept. I think I can live with most people from different culture. I think for those who think it’s easier to marry to people share same culture it’s largely due to their limited exposure to people from other background. They don’t have enough experience to deal with that.

I think the hardest is dealing with different religious faiths in a relationship.

Kilkenny

Fuck yeah, in Islam it is just impossible:)

I can tell you one story. My friend from Russia, who travelled like in the most of Asia, both as a bagpacker and a simple tourist (and though could not be judged as one who has “limited exposure to people from other background”) spend half a year or so with a Chinese gf. He always has a real facsination towards Asian women and she was like a dream at the start. Half a year later, he told me he has parted with her. i asked him why. He said: “You know, it was fun at the beginning, but then I realised, that when I come back home, she cooks pawpaw soup for dinner and I started to miss after a month, realy badly miss what freakin’ BORSCHT taste like, when we go to their parents, they observe me from head to toes and speak of me as I am a stray dog or just another stupid foreigner, when we eat out together, she orders awful crap I couldn’t swallow and when we make love she is as active as a log.” I laughed at this story though I just got another approval that people from differnent cultures have much more obstacles in their relations, than just language barrier and tone of their skin. And for me it doesn’t worth the risk.

mwanafa

Well I wouldn’t blame her parents, they are just curious as to why the guy looks the way he “looks”. I mean won’t your parents, let’s say if they never seen an Asian in person look at an Asian that same way if he/she goes to your home?
The guy is an ijiot himself. He sounds like someone who doesn’t think/plan for the future. I mean dating someone who has never been in your country or whose culture is not the same as yours, you should expect and prepare for all those things he mentioned that led to their break up.
Why wouldn’t he prepare the “Borscht” himself? It’s common sense that the girl won’t be able to prepare it or may she doesn’t even know something like that exists.
When they eat out… blah blah blah sounds to me he also some kind of freaking stingy bastard to whom every time they go out he doesn’t pay a single cent. It’s the girl who pays that’s why she orders. The point is why don’t he order? I have a share of Chinese friends whom when we go out eating they will give me a menu and ask me what would I want.
Sorry pal but your friend seems to be more of those “I don’t give a shit” kind, when he could have learned from her and teach her a lot of things.

Germandude

Not just that but I also understand the parents. Imagine your only daughter comes back home with a backpacker one day and says that she is in love. I mean, wouldn’t you be curious about the guy not being a playboy who seeks a cheap accomodation and “a fuck on the road”?
The whole dinner ordering and request for Borscht suggests that the Russian guy sets his priorities at the wrong end to convince the girl and her parents that he is the right man.

linette lee

Your friend sounds very cheap. lol. That poor chinese girl.
I feel sorry for her. I would not have a second date with a man who is too cheap to pay for the first date when he has a job. It’s not like he is jobless or a student with no income, then I would understand. He can go travel or go to bars and spend money on alcohol but can’t order in the restaurant and pay $10 bucks entree for a woman who is potentially his future wife the mother of his kids. How sad. Or maybe he was just looking for cheap temporary fxck. Men complaining about paying for their women usually only for cheap temporary fxck. Nothing long term. It’s not like the women asking them to buy iphone or computer. It’s just simple dinner nothing expensive. Women should understand that. Those are signs.

Cauffiel

Yeah, really… it’s always struck me as extremely obviously and genuinely racist when white men are criticized for dating/marrying East Asian women.

(I say genuinely racist because most complaints of racism in American social activism are clearly not, and only gain traction when its repeated often enough.)

The message is “East Asians are inferior to Caucasians, therefore any white man who involves himself romantically with an East Asian woman is taking advantage of her inferior genetic disposition. She is helpless against him, so it’s morally reprehensible for him to engage her.”

This opinion is almost entirely held by English speakers, as far as I can tell, and I think part of the reason is that most East Asian women are not capable of fully expressing themselves in English. It appears to some, for that reason, that East Asian women are intellectually i.e. genetically stunted.

(How many movies have you seen where a muscular white man was with a cackling, hysterical, or sometimes merely sullen, petite East Asian woman who desperately needed him? My first thoughts go to Pulp Fiction, but those bitches in Joy Luck Club were pretty nutty too.)

The irony is that the people who promulgate this absurdity are by such actions intellectually stunted.

The Chinese girlfriends I’ve had were brilliant… I was always impressed by their intelligence. Its largely why I was attracted to them.

Germandude

Yes, stereotyping is for the guys that know the “other side of the world” (meaning everything that’s happening outside of their own 4 walls) only through television. Travelling educates people.

Rosemon Calvin Pilot

But those bitches in Joy Luck Club were pretty nutty too….LMAO!!! Yes they were! Through out the generations! Since you got me thinking of cinema now….
Fret not my chinese brothers…I know it sucks being emasculated by your female counterparts….but hey this flick should cheer you up….:The Lover” was Lolita on STEROIDS!

Khantologism

Khan be the modern version of this 5 nights a week ruling the nightlife (right now in the SH). black hair slicked back, cig in the hand, cogniac loungin in the other. suited up so the bosses recognize the real pimp status of a boss hog. young lolita wet their panties upon seeing the Khan rollin into the atmosphere, they moist so much juice that humidity turns dry.

Rosemon Calvin Pilot

Thats whats up Khan…I’m makin too much bread…they try to jam me…Boy from the hood but got white house clearance…sorry yall…I don’t agree with yall appearance!

Khanthologism

boy from the hood straight stackin his chips
white house garage full of cadillac whips
rollin with the khan, lincoln continental
stop by china, going international
makin so much bread, call him the baker
bakin so much cake breakin weights on the weighers
yeah he got clearance, call it common courtesy
fly high touch down, walk through security
slow stroll where he goes, strut of a don
lady asks his name, he say my name is rosemon

Rosemon Calvin Pilot

YOOOOO THAT SHIT WAS FIRE! Mad props to The KHAN! Can’t stop his hustle! Spittin that fire…Gun fa hire….Cool as Ice….Now roll the dice!

Khanthologism

Gun fa hire, cold life never retire
red dot on his chest, leavin em strait dire
he’ll never sire, khan holds the chrome
pistol automatic send em boys back home
from A to K, jump to the R
kalishnikov sits shotgun in the car
springfield 45, still the king
but that 38, spits so clean
from cities to islands, everyday he gone
new don juan, bitches want the khan

Rosemon Calvin Pilot

Anything goes when it comes to hoes….
These Chinamen getting Vietnamese wives…. while I’m just TAKIN they wives..
I got 9 lives this cat simply can’t be nipped……
I’m the empire that doesn’t expire!
Fools try to keep up….but in the end they all get swept up!
My man Khan is the Dynasty when fools step outta line they DIE NASTY!
Stardate 2013…and still can’t be seen….Pimp smacked Captain Kirk so hard he felt the Wrath of Rosemon and KHAAAAAAAAAAAN!

Khanthologism

someone downvotin us, just another hater
probably an ugly fat chick or a white knight masterbater
one thing is for certain, they will get smacked
whether by my pimp hand or your baseball bat
all day everynight they throw shots at the khan
tight bitch in a thong wanna sit on my dong
jealous muthafuckas like the KKK
they Gay, Gay, Gay, while we gettin Paid, Paid, Paid
this site made by male feminists, hatin the asian man
look at these clowns, disinformation spam
they did it to the black man, now look whose king
fuckin all the pretty bitches, so fresh and clean
ugly fat worn out people sure like to talk shit
about the ones who live the highest, they can suck my dick

Rosemon Calvin Pilot

That’s all they can do is hate
Like a bunch of helpless bitches
I’ll just keep givin em stitches
No retreat No surrender
No number 1 contenders
Unfortunately for them…the Black man don’t die in this flick
You racist pricks can suck my dick….just try not to choke
Ya’ll asses still broke…maybe if I’m feelin nice
I’ll slip ya a few bills….nah nevermind
you’ll have a better chance trying to ice skate uphill

Khanthologism

from slaves to cointel, look what happened to king
these hatin jealous dudes call themselves supreme
braggin how they love to treat women like queens
loudmouths on this site spreadin hate it seems
the truth is, we will take it all
big smile on my face watch my chips stack tall
Khan over hoes, these dorks dont understand
watchin disney movies, how you call yourself a man?
i guess they just pions, followers of the herd
the type of dudes that think its cool to be a nerd
white knightin the world tellin real men how to treat girls
braggin how they care so much, savers of the world
men with too many emotions, weak men of today
hating the chinese men, just look at bigg j
scared and jealous that khans will rule this earth
the real recognize, they will never stop the birth

Rosemon Calvin Pilot

LMAO @ Watchin Disney movies to become a man…
White knights….more like scared white
Scared of this Black King…taking the Queens
Kneelin before the Bishop…they all just pawns
Leave em looking for scraps
The worlds under new management…
New role model fuck this zoolander shit…

Khanthologism

these dudes takin selfies, lips pouted like fish
zoolander wussies orbiting the bitch
braggin about their girlfiends or how they caught a wife
listening to adele, these boys have a sad life
i take a queen and straight rampage that pussy
turn her into my jester, gives the khan her tushy
these expired losers come to china and talk shit
clown back home, but now think they the hit
only the true kings rule anyplace, anywhere
when i step into paris, they all give me theirs
chillin in england, sippin caipirinhas in brazil
my young hapa girl offers to pay the bill
as im loungin in the cafe, rappin on the smack
there will always be those haters who will always talk crap

Rosemon Calvin Pilot

Khan does it again….I am the Law without flaw
But I’m not Judge Dredd…bitches just DREAD me
See me comin,…they all flee…I just want some tea
queens traverse the sea…to break bread with me
from long island to hong kong…my flow is just too strong
Everywhere the Black King goes…from Mong Gok
to Bangkok…these clowns try to cock block
but the jokes on them…I take they bitch
with the flip of a switch…got em all callin alicia silverstone
cause they’re like soooo totally clueless
queens join me on space mountain
and leave the cock blockin broke jokes
watchin brokeback mountain

Khanthologism

khan flies to bangkok, girls ask to bang cock
she pull my dick out, pays, as if i slang rock
so many khans, she can never just buy one
i got customers from israel to taiwan
and cockblockers hatin the black king
i done smashed everyone here, even chinasmack’s team
of fake posters on multiple online accounts
spreadin bs all day, while i collect $ in multiple amounts
yuan, hkd, twd, peso, ruble, pounds or euro
i have fun and fuck bitches unlike white knightin heros
yeah their stupid, uninitiated, and clueless
khan sip the dom, nwa, i live ruthless
leave a hater toothless, even ghosts scared of me
i rule the city nights, fast cars, models and green

mr.wiener

No more rapping…..oh the humanity!

Khanthologism

i prefer to rap, you wouldnt want me to sing
mr wiener spray nut, now she think she clean
quiet in a riot, rebel more than billy idol
spit so much spirit, make lucifer grab his bible
i moderate like kai, snow bunnies turn to rabbits
solo like ozzy, more dark than black sabbath

i bring fauna alive, put my hand on her thigh
she ask the khan, can i have you tonight?
i say no, the khan gone till november
stackin chips in macau, then to miami in december
open the doors, i come in like al gore
warming up the warning of this global pimp thor
she say no more, i proceed to rule her puss
leaves me with a kiss, as i chinasmack her tush

Rosemon Calvin Pilot

I got fans in Japan…. fly to india…cross me and get heat pumped in to ya
girls wanna play the kama sutra…well lets do this ms gupta
swing down to Vietnam….yeah they love me long time
girls fix me a glass of wine…skip to Cambodia
keep up or this will be slow to ya,,,,yuan hkd twd peso ruble pounds or euro…I have my own currency
girls lay me in Malaysia…
Now it’s Indonesia…smacked these inbred fake postin white knightin heros so hard I give em amnesia

khanthologism

bond quit the game, so they called the khan
double 08, killer whale, zulu don
send me out to cali to stop the hate
cock blockers, racist haters, and feminist gays
undercover, im the lover, under the covers
with a young british lady who dont bed suckers
golden finger got her wet while she sucks the golden gun
she a view to a kill, my thrill to bang her for fun
my girl anastasiya writes from russia with love
her octopussy is outerspace took my throb above
i only live twice, but never say never
i caught the spectre, the khan artist so clever
it was a stupid bitch all along, big breasted in a thong
rode my dick all night, while takin hits from the bong
dumb hipster, hippy bitch wimpster
wussified villian white knightin them sisters
but the khan shines the light on the game
this how the west was khanned, double 08’s my name

Zappa Frank

i’m compleately with Linette on this point. Altough i live in a small town i’ve had several kinds of girlfriends,asians, africans, russians, english, and locals obviously.. (ok i wasn’t married, but it gives an idea at least).. and i do think that all difficulties and troubles i had with them were basically due to the dicotomy male-female or due to personality and not because of a different tradition or habits..(altough it may be important if she want to force you to marry her in your early 20s), same kind of troubles i had with locals girls. On the other side you may learn a lot, and really discover another world. However some social studies have showed that there is a tendence to remain inside your ethnic group if you’re a minority in order to preserve your tradition, culture and what else could determinate who you are..

Gordon Gogodancer

Blaming everything on culture in China is quite common…if a Chinese girls breaks up with a foreign guy…she’ll just come up to the conclusion that the culture is so different and it’s not possible (while the Chinese gremlins just happily bounce around insisting on the fact that those kind of relationship are not culturally possible) But when a Chinese girl breaks up with a Chinese guy does she blame it on differences in culture? It’s just absurd.
This makes me think of a Chinese chick who told me about her American boyfriend…and she was going on and on about cultural differences and she seemed herself quite convinced that her failure was due to culture…but everything she described to me was related to personality not culture. I ended up telling her that she broke up with that guy not because he was American but just because the guy was indeed a dickhead, nothing more to it.

Rosemon Calvin Pilot

Indeed!

Cauffiel

Nature says you’re wrong. A number of studies (which I’m too lazy to search ornery only-show-abstracts-until-you-pay websites for and link here) show a stronger correlation between ear lobe length, distance between center of eyes, and length of index fingers than shared interests or compatibility (whatever that means) in married couples that report being happy in their marriages.

linette lee

What?? ear lobe length?? what? hahaha..you are strange. That’s what you look for in a woman? hahah lol..

Cauffiel

:-D No! You misunderstand! These are not things we observe consciously!

By the way… I love the average width of your fingernails, linette…..

Germandude

Yeah, I can’t follow that either, but one thing about your explanation: Where do the sayings “Opposites attract” and “Extremes meet” come from?

Most couples I know share basic values but are pretty different when it comes to tastes, interests and hobbies. They all seem to be happy together though.

linette lee

Sharing the basic values in life is most important in a relationship. Sharing the same faith and goals in life is important also. Interests, hobbies, tastes, or culture, color and race is not that important. I see it as opportunity to learn from your partner and see things outside your own interests or culture.

chandlerpatrick

I don’t doubt you, but sorry if it sounds like a whole lot of gobbledygook… I guess I’m old fashioned.

Cauffiel

Haha…. well, I’m not a preacher man about it. I read it in Jared Diamonds “The Third Chimpanzee.” He dedicates a handful of pages outlining the research. Linette’s post made me think of it, so I thought I’d throw a wrench into the conversation.

Gordon Gogodancer

why does is it matter which race she is? It doesn’t matter to ME…..but it does matter with the men of some nations who still dominate the women in their society. Like a mongol student i knew from Beijing said when he saw i was getting to close to one of his pretty friends….” Mongol women only like Mongol men and Mongol men only like Mongol women”…. he didn’t not like my reply

http://simplydesigned.tumblr.com/ maybeabanana

Do you now? Don’t second guess your choice as it sounds a bit iffy if you had to retread those thoughts. Usually, people who questions their own choices means they aren’t satisfied with what they have. Sometimes even extreme over shown of how happy or not happy they are in a relationship shows some sort of dissatisfaction with their current situation.

biggj

lol, If chinese had facebook there would be 1,000,000,000 post a day saying ” I’m having rice for dinner”

http://simplydesigned.tumblr.com/ maybeabanana

Man.. I love HK salty fish and diced chicken fried rice!!

GermanExpat

You some Sigmund Freud? Maybe you are unhappy and projecting this onto me.

http://simplydesigned.tumblr.com/ maybeabanana

LoL… I’m Schrödinger’s cat and no offense man.

Kilkenny

And the funniest thing is that the whole conversation switched from discussing vietnamese maids to envying that “lucky bastard” who made it through with a German, followed by concerns about the lenghth of his penis and property ownership.

That’s what I keep telling my friends – the main difference between people of developing and developed countries is in that false inferiority complex, which forces you to prove 24/7 that you are second to no one, though you are Chinese, Vietnamese or even Russian, by obtaining some atributes like expensive watches, cars, houses that “white man” is believed to possess, instead of living your life in the way you want it, even not being “that rich” as an ordinary westerner is believed to be.

Zappa Frank

in many comments they were begging to for a german girl, hahaha..

Chael_Sonnen

Vietnamese girls are the new Japanese while Chinese girls are the new Filipinas.

No futurologist could’ve predicted that Chinese women would become even more gold-digging than Filipinas.

I’d still take a Chinese girl over a korean one though, Korean women will drive you insane.

Kennedy Jamal

hahahahaha well well divorce in cali then tell me how it feels .. you will say women are devils … don’t generalize people .. there are good women every where .. i think the bad ones are the lazy ones who just want to sit there and wait for your money ..

Robert Rou

Dude is clueless man, I know women of all those cultures and none of what he said made any sense. Random generalization. Fukin random low-lives of the world on this board.

Germandude

Such a pitty. The first 2 sentences of your posts were absolutely correct and should have given you a lot of support. The last sentence however makes me wonder, why you join the insanity?

mr.wiener

Maybe he was talking about people from Fukin [Fui jen] Province?

Kai

There are random low-lives on cS. You don’t have to read that many comments to spot them. I’d be indignant if he said everyone here was, but he didn’t.

http://500px.com/justinrjones whiskersthecat

I’m drunk on miller high-life right now but does that mean that i’m not a low-life because of the miller high-life? answer me this, kai
answer me this

Kai

You’re a low-life because you’re drinking Miller High-Life?

Pseudo-beer-snobbery aside, I’m more of a liquor person. Beer just occupies space that could’ve been occupied by more efficient intoxicants.

http://500px.com/justinrjones whiskersthecat

No, I agree, high-life is the beer for low-life pond scum. It’s just that I had a lot of company earlier, and high-life is the affordable choice to feed the filthy proles.

I abhor most liquors though. So I guess let’s tie our left wrists together and knife fight over this.

mr.wiener

Just so long as it’s not Pabst Blue ribbon, hipster.

http://500px.com/justinrjones whiskersthecat

Oh heavens no.

Germandude

I understood it as he meant everybody here was one. Mea culpa.

http://500px.com/justinrjones whiskersthecat

like omg gurrrl they are like…SOOOOOO random

Khantologism

Chinese women will eventually become the worst catch, once they balloon
like white western women. Keep them MCDs, KFCs and Hollywood movies out of CH if
you want them thin and submissive.

Khanthologism

keep all them white knights out of CH too.

mr.wiener

I speak Chinese, does this mean I am one of the knights who say “Ni!”?

Gordon Gogodancer

We are no longer the knights who say “Ni!” (Ni! shhhh!)…”we are now the knights who say ekki-ekki-ekki-ekki-ptang zoom-boing z’nourrwringmm”

Yeah I got it mate, I just found it funny you twisting the “white knight” thing [ie:do-gooder] around to be a caucasian thing. There are white knights in every race, though I fancy myself as a more beige knight.

Khanthologism

the Chinese male purse holder is a white knight at one of the highest levels. But the white knight phenomenon in the west has turned women into hideous queen beasts.

Khanthologism

linking it to being a caucasian thing may have been started from my comment to paobu. a lot of haters target the Chinese men for being abusive and entitled, adding comparisons to how White guys care and supplicate for Chinese women more. i hear a lot of this everywhere from white guys aiming to compare. I think its an insult to golden era white men when modern wussified white men say such things. being an entitled man is the way it should be. and all the feminists and their white knighters shame men for being men. these men need to see what theyve created. so white men and chinese men and other men of the world, thank the Khan later.

Khanthologism

wiener, next time you see men making such comparisons, i hope you call them out on it. Tell them to stop bragging about being a white knighting bitch.

mr.wiener

Actually I’ll let them go for it. Always good fun to see someone crash and burn.

POS

You really have a white man complex don’t you? Obsessing or hating on? Perhaps secretly wanting to be one? You and Robery Rou should start a Hating on White Man society. Perhaps start a band singing your White Man blues!

Khanthogism

are you some novice psychology self learner? if you study the Khan, you will learn that i do not have a white man complex nor do i dislike white men in general. its you thats so damn insecure yapping and blabbering without focusing on what is being said. you need to learn how to read and absorb, gain the subtext of peoples content. damn ADHD generation numbnuts.

POS

Oh wait wait, you have a repressed sexual attraction towards the white man, thats it isn’t it??? Its all making sense now. Repressed desire leads to rage and confliction, just come out of the closet already Rou, erm I mean Khan or what ever handle you are posting under today. Get your personalities all mixed up doncha?

Khanthologism

where did you take psychology? following professors little white lies eh? you emotional tampon, you. go ONS your gay bff.

POS

Look its Khan and Rou’s insecure Asian Male Club:

ASIAN GUYS LOVE WHITE GIRLS/WHITE GIRLS LOVE ASIAN GUYS

About

WE ARE SICK+TIRED OF SEEING WHITE GUYS WITH ASIAN GIRLS!

THERE ARE MILLIONS OF EM IN NYC!

NOW WE ARE PROMOTING THAT ALL ASIAN GUYS SHOULD DATE A WHITE GIRL(EVEN THOUGH YOU THINK YOU ARE UGLY) AND VICE VERSA.

The term your looking for is “Good Samaritan” and it’s based off the Bible.

mr.wiener

Good Samaritan could also be used, but the meanings are slightly different. The good Samaritan is some one who goes out of their comfort zone to help others expecting no reward and has a very realistic approach to life, The White Knight as mentioned by Khanthologism is someone idealist but unworldly who thinks by rescuing others [even though they might not need rescuing] he can gain acceptance and redemption.
He was using this to describe some?Many?all? White guys in China.

I appreciate your agreement. However… please don’t use my words as fodder to justify the same type of presumptuous hate.

I’m just trying to add a different perspective. I try my best to be objective.

paobu

Robert – Whilst I agree with Bruce’s general point, I can’t help but get the impression you’re one of those perenially butthurt Asian-American males who rants and raves about how much he hates seeing Asian women with White men whilst simultanaeously rambling on about how much he loves White women, and how much White women love him.

This attitude is very broken/indicative of mental illness. Sorry.

Khanthologism

fair analogy on dude. yet quite similar to the poor butthurt non-asian men who constantly obssess over asian men. you know the ones who constantly compare themselves to being better providers and white knighters for women. cant forget about the ones who throw racist jokes behind their keyboards and talk nonstop about asian mens penis sizes and what not. quite mental they are, kind of homo actually.

http://500px.com/justinrjones whiskersthecat

I’m white but my crest and shield are blue with a white, bleeding English lion emblazoned on the front. My steed also wears blue over the light armor covering her. I generally prefer the lance but I’ve been known to dismount and use a sword and shield from time to time.

Khanthologism

through time and battle, it all fades to black.

Robert Rou

Most definitely medieval.

http://500px.com/justinrjones whiskersthecat

These giant, armored, lance-wielding men on armored horses are those white knights you guys are taunting. I would be careful and, if I just couldn’t go a day without trying to bash someone, I’d choose some peasants or something.

Excuse me? Did I just read that right? Those Tomahawk missiles are looking mighty shiny today.

http://500px.com/justinrjones whiskersthecat

None of that made any sense. Now is not the time for talking nonsense. I am trying to educate you on the dangers of insulting knights.

Robert Rou

The Tomahawk missile is an American cruise missile fuktard, so quit riding my cock you freakin loser. The fact you think you’re anywhere close to knighthood is laughable.

http://500px.com/justinrjones whiskersthecat

I’m quite aware of what a Tomahawk missile is, but it’s hardly period-accurate. I was warning you about knights and suddenly you say they are shiny (they aren’t shiny, they are painted and generally have a comparatively matte texture to them rather than glossy). You can get angry if you wish, Mr. Rou, but do you think that White Knights (or any other color of knights) will be afraid of your fleshy skin and cloth armor?

Robert Rou

Wut?

http://500px.com/justinrjones whiskersthecat

wat

Robert Rou

I really have no idea what in the world this is about or where you’re going with this. I got off work and I’m tired, so if you want u can put something down, and I’ll check it tomorrow.

http://500px.com/justinrjones whiskersthecat

You do seem very concerned now, and I am glad to hear it. I do not wish an unnecessary slaughter on anyone. I agree with how you must feel–that it is very unfair for such a giant, iron-covered man with weapons and a warhorse to go up against a fleshy commoner on foot. I also think it’s unfair. But hey, this is the world we live in today. There’s that quote “all is fair in love and war”, which I can not stand, but I must say it is quite applicable in this situation. My point is, if I saw a an armored man with a zweihander around town, talking to a local girl, wearing her colors on his arm…I wouldn’t taunt the guy. He’ll slap you with his iron gauntlet and then you’ll be honor-bound to duel with him. If he chooses a contest of jousting…I’m afraid there’s no way you’ll have a chance of winning.

Robert Rou

whiskers… u are a little weird. like creepy weird. i suggest u stay far away from me, if you don’t want a non-fantastical version of law enforcement in today’s world.

http://500px.com/justinrjones whiskersthecat

gasp, Robert Rou, are you threatening me…on the internet?

biggj

Oh lord it’s on!! Buy the end of this there will be keyboards full of sweat, spit, snot,and tears. And then Kai and Mr. Weiner will have to come and police this matter. hahahaahah

mr.wiener

I see myself as more like the UN. Wear a blue helmet, and doing nothing while everyone is murdering each other…actually I’m not that much like the UN, I stop short of having sex with underage girls,.
That’s right, I looking at you, The Dutch

http://500px.com/justinrjones whiskersthecat

No sir, not from me. Foot soldiers, and sometimes the knights themselves, do the majority of the King’s law-enforcement. I am but a traveling bard.

mr.wiener

A bard who discovers he has the black death, so starts an illicit mead stil in his cellar…”Breaking Bard”.

http://500px.com/justinrjones whiskersthecat

Bardwalk Empire

Mocata

Excellent post, you are getting into the spirit, bravo!

POS

lol, I think you broke his brain already man… a confused troll can’t feed! Or maybe that was your point :P

http://500px.com/justinrjones whiskersthecat

These guys with no ability to have fun must be the most miserable people in the world.

Robert Rou

possible and likely definition of white knight = an awkward dorky individual that flocks to Asia to find a wife that is more easy to control, had the good fortune of avoiding the Russian mail order bride magazine, but is intent on establishing a predatory master-slave relationship for his bride-to-be. On a random note: Go Operation Iraqi Freedom!!!

Thats incorrect. A white knight is a chivalry type of man who empowers the girl, pedastols her, gets emasculated by her. She is the master, he is the slave. She is the pig, he is the feeder. An example on here would be all the men posters of CS who kiss ass and add pleasing type comment and compliments to poster Linett Lee and other useless ladies on here.

The defintion you stated above is a normal old man trying to get the best out of life.

http://500px.com/justinrjones whiskersthecat

How does an individual “flock”?

mr.wiener

Flocking is not a bad word. Smart males from a species flock to different areas where grazing/prey and mating opportunities are greater.
Asian males also do this, as I have seen western asian guys lording it over the locals in Taiwan ,China and other places. For Taiwanese guys they love being posted to Shanghai to prey apon and be preyed upon in turn,by Shanghainese girls.
I’m sorry Robert, but at the end of the day all you are posting here is sour grapes.

http://500px.com/justinrjones whiskersthecat

Right, but it’s definitively impossible for a single individual to flock anywhere.
(I was being a smart ass, because flocking is for multiples of folks).

POS

That is 100% what this kid is all about. All his insecurities and self constructed victim complex hanging out for the world to see yet trying to compensate with some bravado that looks more like desperation.

Robert Rou

“perenially butthurt”

Not sure if see that at all, considering that a lot of us are well-educated, successful, and guess what EMPLOYED.

Paobu

What does that have to do with what I said? Plenty of employed people also suffer from all manner of neuroses, yourself included.

I don’t actually have a problem with people having opposition to interracial marriage, it’s just that amongst a lot of overseas Asian guys, they’re really brazenly and hypocritically opposed to one type particular pairing, whist they desperately embrace the other kind.

Robert Rou

You don’t say a whole lot about yourself. I had to make a few conservative assumptions. Apparently I was wrong. Quite wrong.

If you live anywhere even remotely near America, you’d know that anything that you just wrote is flat out wrong.

But you know what? Yah I do have an objection. It’s the loser wannabees on this site bragging about fukin married Chinese wives or other retarded behavior. These aren’t not white knights; THEY ARE WHITE TRASH.

There’s over 3 million+ Chinese Americans, even more Asian Americans. The current mayor of San Francisco, Oakland, and countless other cities across America that are Chinese American. When guys like Caffiel write that people find the people find it “morally reprehensible” that a white guy would want to go after a genetically inferior Chinese girl, I just straight up laugh. I showed this to one of my female friends, we straight laughed for 30 minutes straight. Dudes like that need to be straight up deported for staining the social fabric of this nation.

Come at me all you want. Make my fuking day.

Khanthologism

you gotta be aware on this site. you have people like POS promoting this whole inferiority complex issue on asian males.. trying to make asian males the bad guys. yet if you look at this whole site, its devoted to hating on Chinese males and the culture. so who really has the inferiority and insecurity complex? western media and *ahem*has done a great job at holding down other ethnicities throughout history. with china and the chinese coming up so fast, the old majority is definitely threatened. nature will take its course despite all the disinformation. however, chinese women and gay chinese dudes, being subservient and obedient due to culture, are the easiest targets to make switch sides. the follower syndrome it is. so why not easily influence all the self haters and left over women and homos to direct their anger towards the whole culture especially asian men. revenge syndrome. and then, you have people like POS who go out and fulfill the work. they will deceive many but you cant touch the majority, so be aware. by the way, a self hater Chinese girl is equivalent to the western princess white girl who is now banging black dudes. its all a way to get back at their men. Daddy Issues, Attention whoring is in girls nature. POS is a self hating Chinese girl who will do everything to down and shame the Chinese man.

POS

5 maoing isn’t generally considered a honorable form of employment there Khan-Rou (is it ok if I call you Khan-Rou, Khan-Rou?) probably a few steps below KTV girls taking it from corrupt cadres but just above junkies sucking off waidi-ren in the public park. Of course with the current employment outlook for current Chinese college grads who can blame you for dabbling in all three?

Khanthologism

maybe I’ll just call you HIV POS, you emotionally ruined, psychologically deceived trick, bitch. hahaha
Pls go find a new thought system to promote so heavily. The HIV is myth movement is calling for your help.

POS

Lol, you mad Rou? You’re pretty transparent. I bet your whole race traitor tirade is a hit with the Asian ladies :) no wonder they flock to “the other team”, muhahah

Khanthologism

looks like you’re the mad one. one little comment i made about you initially, and you went full prozac overdose beast mode on the khan. very western girlish, so don’t tell me you are a dude. its funny how transparent you are, little bitch.

mr.wiener

OK. Can all parties involved wrap this one up now?
At the moment all this is, is penis measuring and name calling.
Khan, POS, I may be a limp hippy liberal ,but if this continues I’m going to have to start deleting comments as this has nothing to do with the topic and has gone on for far too long.
So pretty please.
how about you both cool your jets and leave this scintillating discourse for another day.

biggj

It sucks being right all the time. Let me refresh your memory:

“By the end of this there will be keyboards full of sweat, spit,
snot,and tears. And then Kai and Mr. Weiner will have to come and police
this matter. hahahaahah I’ll be that chinese guy taking pictures with
his ipad2 on the side lines.’

Well not the part about me being chinese……or taking pictures…hahaha

mr.wiener

I going now to watch the Australian rugby team no doubt get raped by the All Blacks. I’m coming back in 4 hours, tired [definitely] drunk [absolutely]and in a foul mood [most probably].
Behave everyone.

biggj

I got raped by all blacks before…..oh…you mean the rugby team…forget I said that. hahahah

Khanthologism

wtf

Khanthologism

there should be a buzzed to drunk talk forum area on CS. hangover area too.

Khanthologism

CS should have a battle forum area. bring Khanthology back and i will destroy that delusioned fuck.

POS

Actually Rob the jealousy seems to reside with you, exhibit A in the hall of inferiority complexs. Nobody has a larger more obvious inferiority complex than Chinese males like yourself, who tend to compensate by following around Westerns obsessively letting them know how little they know about China and how useless there opinions are yet totally undermining yourself by your behavior of needing to follow everything they say. Parading around your insecurities and self constructed victim complex is pretty pathetic my little man.

Robert Rou

Considering I don’t even live there, yup great work!

POS

Rou, looks like you and Khan already have insecure Asian Male Club on facebook:

ASIAN GUYS LOVE WHITE GIRLS/WHITE GIRLS LOVE ASIAN GUYS

About

WE ARE SICK+TIRED OF SEEING WHITE GUYS WITH ASIAN GIRLS!

THERE ARE MILLIONS OF EM IN NYC!

NOW WE ARE PROMOTING THAT ALL ASIAN GUYS SHOULD DATE A WHITE GIRL(EVEN THOUGH YOU THINK YOU ARE UGLY) AND VICE VERSA.

It’s kind of like when a retard passes a test on his own, even if he only passes by the skin of his teeth. It’s still a huge accomplishment. A big thumbs up is defiantly in order. hahah

Khanthologism

mad that the asian man can get a good looking white girl, when all you get is leftover women from china?

POS

I’m feeling very inferior and insecure when I see that and suddenly feel the need to run around Chinese expat bulletin boards making snide remarks about Chinese men and Chinese foreign policy, damn this inferiority complex!!!!!!!

Robert Rou

One message about white women, and boy, look at the shitstorm. I like all sorts of women, including white women. Got a problem with that?

Khanthologism

seriously. its the angry white man movement all of a sudden. it use to be being angry at the blacks, now the asians.

POS

Rou if you are going to double post under two handles try to make it look more believable. Even wumao are better at this than you. Of course you did say you were employed….

Khanthologism

chinese girl, go suck a black wumao dick.

POS

Which one of your alternate inferiority complex having personalities is Khan anyways? Little whiney insecure Asian boy hating on white men cause “they taking our women”, seen it all before. And guess what; we ain’t leaving bitch ;P

Khanthologism

you’re the one yapping about this complex thing, you knowledgable hater gay boy.

Pretty much, congratulations for removing your head from your perennially butt-hurt rectum long enough to see the light. Ok ok now put it back in cause nobody, especially Asian ladies, wants to see your pathetic face. Little fuckoff bitch.

Robert Rou

“EVEN THOUGH YOU THINK YOU ARE UGLY”

Said who? I suggest you like up guys like Godfrey Gao, Takeshi Kaneshiro, Sun Yang.

Just because you’re ignorant doesn’t mean the rest of us are.

Khanthologism

did i offend you little wussy? getting a little emotional on here, i see. as for your whole abc inferiority and insecurity propaganda, isn’t it you that comes to a chinese bashing site to bash abcs and the chinese. it even appears you’ve been spending some time obsessing and overanalyzing the psyche of a particular wussified asian male group since you seem to know so much right? you seem to think a lot about the asian men who aim to breed white girls. in conclusion, you’ve made it seem clear that you are the one who has this inferiority and insecurity complex. if you know the Khan, i couldn’t care less if asian men fuck white girls or if black men fuck any girls. you would’ve known my purpose here has been to lay smackdowns on here when im drunk, clear disinformation that you haters promote and to help man up wussified girly boys who pedastol chinese girls so much. you should all thank me. do it later, bitch.

Robert Rou

Don’t take him seriously. Wannabe loser that aint getting pussy at home.

Khanthologism

he’s just like target practice or a punching dummy

Robert Rou

ok ok, enough…

POS

Nope, I’m making some Asian/White babies myself. Personally I think the White/Asian mix is awesome, hope to see more in the future. You, well you can only theorize cause even white trailer trash wouldn’t give you a second look. Good luck with your inferiority complex though, I’ll be sure to crack a nice “watcha gonna do” grin at the next little insecure panty waste male like yourself who gives me that look followed by a wink and pat on the ladies arse. I’ve knocked out trash that has messed with me over being with an Asian lady before, more than happy to do it again :) I got a size 12, you don’t wanna be there when I plant it little one. Like I said, we ain’t going home, learn to live with it boy. You’re fighting something you can’t stop.

Khanthologism

do you only babble and never comprehend what people say, you emotional wreck? you are very chinese girly or western girly like. so don’t tell me you are a dude. and do you really think your post above would make a player like me upset? number 1, asian girls are ok sometimes, but have never been my preference. sorry, deal with it. whatever you are, please do make some hapa daughter babies. as those who know me on the board, know i have a thing for hapa girls. i prefer hapa girls over pure chinese girls, so keep doing your job. when i’m 50 i will be dating the young ones still, so i’ll be aiming to add some khan into you daughters dna. and if you know my lifestyle, i’m always out pulling above average looking girls. novices like you trapped in your own delusions and hate wouldn’t understand. i am very very priveledge and if i had competition, it would be the elite families materialistic childrens and fu er dai types of china who buy everything out. right now im gunnin for the fuerdais at the nightclubs.. they roll real deep, so it aint always easy outgunnin them. and hahaha, internet warrior threatening a real life mma fighter and telling me you have a size 12, hahahahahahahahhaahaahha.. no you didn’t. do you know how many times i’ve mentally buried people on here who used that line on me? hahahahahahahahaha.. i love this site even if it wwe on here. its fun.

Really??

Wow, All 3 of you guys are insecure. Like on a level beyond anything I’ve seen before. You sound like a bunch of 12 year old little bitches arguing. And you Khuth, Klunt what ever your name is…..have dilutions of grandeur beyond what you should for living in your moms basement. No normal man would argue like this, in real life on or on the Internet. What kind of site is this? If the majority of people are you like 3 losers on this site, close it right down. The real world don’t need it. You guys make yourselves look like little faggy bitches….Jesus Christ….

mr.wiener

Word!

Khanthologism

ok POS, you emotional wreck.

POS

I’m genuinely impressed by your marriage of an inferiority complex with delusions of grandeur and a large side of Asian male insecurity. I bet you get all them hi-so chicks, I’m sure you have tons of stories about that one time at that one place when you did that one thing with that one girl in your rather mediocre imagination. MMA wow, look at how impressed I am (picture below)

ok Weiner I’m signing off~ looks like someone at the hidden harmonies ranch left the gate unlocked, their livestock wandered into your pastures.

DONE. okay i’ll end it with this, if you are not a girl, you are definitely one of those fast talking white guy yappers that just yap and yap, and overvalues asian girls since you think pulling them is a great feat.. the prozac antidepresant syndrome nervous emotional wreck beta male asian girl ass kisser to the extreme. i can picture you with scrawny little vegan arms protesting to the world how asian males have inferiority complexes… hahaha. no one cares about you. you are nothing and never will be out in china or in the west. the only asian girls you can ever pull are the filipina maids that i would buy for you. you know i’m right…. hahahahahahaha

this is you:

Gordon Gogodancer

oh god….these guys are fighting a very strange war.

biggj

If you cut trough all the bullshit it’s really just a “who’s cock is bigger” thing.

POS

Yes, they are a pathetic bunch and Rou/Khan (who are likely one and the same) are grade A shit examples of the inferiority complex that drives these losers; “I am so angry at the white man for stealing ‘our’ women, damn what should I do??? Oh I’ll get them back by stealing “their” women, that’ll teach’em!” And then they wonder why no women of any race are attracted to desperate insecure clingy man-girls.

Khanthologism

look chinese girl, did your daddy smack you a little too hard when you were a child? take your daddy/self hate issues somewhere else and keep gobblin everyones semen, you multicultural product bitch.

POS

I am neither female nor Chinese, although I have had both. Good times!

Khanthologism

You are a girl, definitely. for some wierd reason, i see faunas fake face when i speak to you.

EastAsianNationalist

Strangely enough the “positive” traits they assign to Western women are the same that Western men assign to Asian women. Grass is always greener?

Robert Rou

Well, white women do have nice bodies, their breasts are more firm, and they’re also more willing to keep in shape.

biggj

I don’t know about that man. Asian breast in general are more firm than white girls. From personal hands on experience. And I can’t recall last time I saw a 400lb asian chick….I saw at least 3 white woman that size today in the grocery store alone. lol

Robert Rou

a new Bigfoot sighting already?

Gordon Gogodancer

You either live in the US or the UK…. :D

biggj

What? Canada doesn’t have any fat chicks? They need it to survive the winter. lol

SonofSpermcube

The need to generate body heat puts a soft cap on how much fat you build up in cold climates. It’s easy to get fat, but people don’t get HUGE as often. Look at obesity maps of the US and the cold states are mostly pretty fat, but none of them are close to the fattest.

biggj

……it was joke man…..these bitches just stay home and eat all day and watch tv. Usually poor welfare woman get really big like that.

rollin wit 9’s

Don’t know if you were playing with words or not, but I like how you mentioned you have ‘hands on experience’ lol

nqk123

white (usually) age faster than Asian. I know 2 Asian guy married a Latina and a white lady. I swear they look like mother and son sometime.

Robert Rou

Look up Sofia Vergara.

dconn

i love her!

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Eva Mendes

Mateusz82

Really? I’ve almost always heard yellow girls compared more favorably to white girls (this from both Western and Asian perspectives).

Germandude

Talking about Chinese being prude…

Khanthologism

well, well, well, who do we have here? if it isn’t germandude. want to get smacked up for the 100th time old friend?

Zappa Frank

haha, sure your view of who’s got smacked is peculiar..

Khanthologism

he knows

Robert Rou

ok, a little easy there my friend. oh boy, what have i unleashed… hahahah

Germandude

Ah you again. Who let you out this time? Daddy finished with you?

Khanthologism

the germandude. hahaha

SonofSpermcube

I blame television.

videmus

The grass looks greener until you’re stuck on the other side.

linette lee

I think the problem about China having too many men is nonsense. There are also too many women in other countries. There is never a real problem not able to find wives. All of them will have wives eventually one way or the other. It’s the over population and environmental pollution inside China that is the real problem. They need to stop breeding like rabbits and be easy on mother earth. I hope the one child policy apply to all China citizens with no exception rich, poor, or foreign.

Repatriated

There would be plenty of women if all the gov’t officials didn’t have 6 erni! Ha.

Cauffiel

The one child policy could eventually become a bigger problem than those it prevented. While negative population growth wouldn’t be such a bad thing in itself, population bottle necks like the enormous one created by the one child policy will create equally enormous problems for China in the coming decades. Flat population growth is most desirable.

The key to living sustainably is not depopulation, but growth in technology to use resources more efficiently…. do a lot more with a lot less.

And…. they all have wives eventually one way or the other? Are you sure about that? I think a lot of Chinese men are the end of the line for their lineage.

mr.wiener

This is a very old story, but I did like the Brother above telling everyone about his German wife.
Good luck to every one..except that douchebag saying Henan men marrying Vietnamese women is a case of inferior with inferior…I hope you die a virgin you little loser.

Cauffiel

Some people just like to go on the internet and be mean.

biggj

FUCK YOU!! :) You stink. :)

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You rang?

Germandude

hint: prototype666 comment further down on this thread is crying for moderation. I literally lost a braincell reading that shit.

lonetrey / Dan

Wonder if the German wife guy is legit.

Whatever the case is, it’s nice to see people expanding outside of solely focusing on Asian women.

biggj

Vietnamese girls are pretty nice. Well mannered girls for the most part. Chinese should head down there. Lots of chicks. Saigon or Ho Chi Minh whatever the fuck you want to call it. Most referred to it as Saigon while I was there. Anyway yeah I went there 3 years ago and Most people where my age. Lots of chicks floating around. The bars were just loaded with girls. Super friendly…maybe the the best of all the Asian counties. Really polite. I only spent a week there but I noticed these things right away. It was not like Bangkok or anything crazy like that…but it was fun. Point is, I would take a Vietnamese girl over a chiense girl. I’m married to a chinese woman. But she Canadian. She is a white girl in a chinese body. Chinese girls are too materialistic…almost all girls are to a certain degree, not just chinese. Foreigners just need to be white and it’s the only thing they need. But for chinese guys….man there is a lot of pressure from the woman to reach almost impossible goals. Oh well…Chinese men just need to look elsewhere. One guy was saying his girlfriend wont fuck him if he don’t get her what she wants…I told him ” Dude, that’s just a prostitute” I asked him why he put up with that. He told me it was too hard to find someone else…pfff..fuck that. I feel sorry for chinese guys to have to put up with that. If you can’t afford a car or a house…well…finding a wife will not be easy.

lonetrey / Dan

I’ve never understood why they force themselves to do all these things and jump through all those hoops for something they don’t want.

Unless they WANT to be the tool to which their significant other procures these materialistic things (house, car, etc.)

Otherwise, screw it. Forever Alone sounds better than Forever Atone (for that mistake of jumping into a relationship where they KNOW they will have to do things they don’t want.)

biggj

Yeah, you are right, Men are just tools for woman in china for the most part. But with more men than woman, woman can afford to be picky on who they get with. Most bars I go to in china it’s like 3/4 are guys in the bar. And the girls are either hookers or maybe a regular girl. Girls can take their pick.

My wife and I have a good setup. I don’t need her for anything and she don’t need me for anything. Nothing materialist anyway. We just enjoy each others company and we are happy with each other on a person and intimate level.She is a down ass girl…like no other girl I have ever met. Anyway, enough about my love life.

Point is, Find a woman who can be your best friend. Than everyday is like hanging out with your best friend. Nothing better than that.

cocobobolove

Most white chicks (Russians or east Europeans) in Beijing and Shanghai clubs are definitely professionals. Most of them are illegals tho. But on the other hands, some white chicks in the state love to date Asian guys because they usually pay for everything. its an Asian thing. You will see tons white chicks with asian guys in LA or Seattle.

Gordon Gogodancer

They force themselves because they don’t know anything else! They believe that’s the only way! But for guys with a little bit of freedom of mind and of movement…we just know we can say NO to some bullshit, I guess these guys just think they have to crawl to have a wife that’s just using them as a simple tool…
I mean it’s obvious for us that we would perfer not get married, to break the social code rather than live a life where you have to pay and pay and pay for someone who is just a burden to you. The social pressure in China is still to high…in the West since not so long ago people have started divorcing! Telling their wives and husbands to fuck off…but that’s all very new

Brett

If this isn’t true love at first sight, I don’t know what is.

linette lee

Chinese girls are too materialistic…

And vietnamese girls are not? White girls are not? Black girls are not? Men are not materialistic? You don’t want a nice car if I buy it for you baby biggj? It’s tiring to hear folks keep saying chinese girls are materialistic. Maybe Chinese girls look like they are more materialistic because the Chinese men allow them. Chinese culture the men pay for everything during dating. But eventually once they are married it’s more like 50/50 or sometimes the chinese women will do more and take care of the children more financially if she is capable. I think Chinese women are some of the hardest working people on earth. My mom wins the gold medal.

biggj

I’m not saying just chinese, I said”Chinese girls are too materialistic…almost all girls are to a certain degree, not just chinese.” I know all types of girls are like that, but I see it on another level with chinese girls. It’s more intense with chinese girls. Maybe chinese men make them like that. Or maybe it’s how they are brought up.

Feilon

I’ve noticed that a bit when I was there. My white friends would have Chinese girls just going at them while their boyfriends stood off to the side holding their purse for them. They want to find someone with money so they’ll be stable. But I also met girls there that were perfectly fine.

White women are good to play with and fuck, but just dont ever marry a westernized one. Get them while they’re young

Robert Rou

Huh? Not sure I understand the reference.

Gordon Gogodancer

haha….get’em when their young son! A’ta boy! Nice and firm, miam miam!

Robert Rou

You’re getting a little bit too excited there.

Gordon Gogodancer

From my experience “the girls going at them while their boyfriends stood there” are not necessarily aiming to jump on a white dick…most of them are just helplessly naive and don’t understand that saying “oooh those foreigners are so handsome” to their boyfriends might upset them…I’ve seen so many looks of total incomprehension in the eyes of Chinese girls when their boyfriends started arguing with them in these situations…they just don’t understand that dancing “like a slut” with a guy, foreign or not (foreign being the total humiliation) while their boyfriends sits there because he just doesn’t feel comfortable joining the dance is something that might bother the guy. I can only assume that the insane aggressivity Chinese guys show in these situations is only proportional to how easy they think their retarded girlfriend can be shagged by a random guy heating them up a little bit on the dance floor.

Robert Rou

You go to any developing country. Let’s take south of the border aka Tijuana, girls throw themselves at you. Tits in your face everything. Nothing special bout playing king of the molehill.

Khanthologism

boggling it is. when im visiting CH, some of the local Chinese girls I hit up and mingle with in the night clubs have told me they only go for caucasian types (im not). Cool, however when I try to pass them on they will cling on to me while throwing shit tests as if to set me off or something.. some of the weirdest things they say and do perhaps to spark my jealousy or what not, but I keep my cool because i don’t care and i have many, many options. but they still cling on. however, the minute they see me step up to a non-Chinese girl (mostly these Russian models nowadays at the clubs) and get good with them, they try to pull me off and questions why I like white girls and if the white girls are prettier than them. you see the chaotic madness in their eyes and Im like WTF? This happens a lot, so im dumbfounded. And in my history of boning all Asian girls throughout my travels, many always tell me, “I don’t usually date guys of your type”. Im like “Cool… I gotta pull out now, open your mouth for me babe”

Gordon Gogodancer

Again, the girls only going for causasian guys are another type….i see Chinese guys and girls always saying this or that bar is full of Chinese sluts wanting a white guy….but the ways i see it…the Chinese guys are also having their fun…so my conclusion is just that it’s sorry loosers who need to put a justification on them not being able to find a girl. However i do understand how racial prejudice right from the point where you meet a girl might be upsetting…..Believe it or not, I, a white guy, get it all the time with hot uneducated Chinese type telling me that they don’t find white men attractive or telling me how they think foreigners are shit etc etc.then again those types of girl are the ones probably monetizing their Chinese boyfriends anyway….so….if your Chinese then it’s sucks to be you

Feilon

That is true and there are those that I’ve met there that are honestly trying to find a foreigner. When a girl starts making out with you even when you push them away it can get a bit out of hand.

Khanthologism

Chinese women are bad, but White women are the worst right now.

mr.wiener

All cats are black at night. The only differences I see are cultural, but as far as I’m concerned women are a different species anyway.
Welcome back it’s been a while.

Khanthologism

Mod now? oh shit.

mr.wiener

Apparently Kai has very little common sense. ….He might even be working for the Chinese govt and trying to sabotage this site by making the biggest drooling idiot he could find a mod.

Khanthologism

ha, wouldnt be surprised about that

mr.wiener

I can count up to…..potato!

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I am not.

mr.wiener

Sorry, I meant all pussies are black at night. Forgive my careless syntax.

Gordon Gogodancer

Let me send a telegraph to my nuclear submarine off the coast of the US so we can eradicate all white women because they are the worst!

Khanthologism

start with Honey Boo Boo and her mother. maybe miley cyprus or whatever name is.

mr.wiener

You have my vote.

cocobobolove

Russians are the worst of all.

Cauffiel

Honestly, I’m gonna have to go ahead and agree with you… I don’t get Chinese women’s reputation for being materialistic. I’ve had a few Chinese girlfriends and dated a lot of others, and I can’t think of a time when a single one of them asked me to buy them anything, especially gifts. And they often insist on paying at least a little on dates…. sometimes just the taxi ride or drink at Starbucks, other times they cover everything.

biggj

Yeah but you are white, You don’t really get to see how they are around chinese men. Chinese girls will treat foreigners like they owe them, they can’t just up and date another foreigner as easy….where chinese girls they treat chinese guys like the guy owes them something. Or maybe they just date different types of woman….this is all just from personal observation.

linette lee

At the beginning of the relationship most chinese men pay for everything for the chinese women. I mean EVERYTHING. Once they go steady it’s more like 50/50. lol hahah……

Gordon Gogodancer

Well FYI in traditional macho societies (like the whole world for example) men have always paid EVERYTHING for women…it is a luxury of the modern societies like Western countries to see men not paying for EVERYTHING. However before the 60s Europe was actually quite traditional and just as an example in France a guy would feel very embarrassed not to pay for dinner or even splitting the bill when on a date (even though he may not appear so). So basically from that perspective what that indicates is that China is still not modern on that level.
I hear so many people speak about paying or not paying like it’s just business….i don’t exactly see things that way. I would gladly pay for a girl if i can afford it or if it makes me happy. However what i absolutely hate is paying for a girl who assumes that i should be the one paying. (Of course, you also have to think about the financial situation of the girl before feeling offended)

linette lee

REally? In the western country, traditionally the girl’s family pays for her wedding. She and her family has to pay for EVERYTHING in order to get marry. In Chinese culture traditionally the man has to pay for everything in the wedding. He has to pay for the whole wedding and give money and presents to her family in order to get a wife.
It is still commonly practice in Chinese society. That is why chinese girls look like they are more materialistic compare to western girls.

Cauffiel

OK, so you’re breaking it down a little more. I see what you mean…. but like you point out, that is a supply and demand issue. Chinese men are a fucking dime a dozen.

But it also goes beyond availability…. Western men may simply be more fulfilling in relationships than the average self-obsessed, entitlement-addled Chinese man. To make up for that, those bitches probably want cash in hand.

Maybe Linette can chime back in on this one…. I assume she’s been with both Chinese and Western men…. she can probably offer us some insight.

biggj

Yeah, some of the guys I know in china are poor as shit. ANd have scolding hot girls. Girls that the 3 officials would be fucking….and why???They are white. And nice guys. But you put these guys in a chinese mans body and there is no way in fuck they get these woman. They need to pay.

chandlerpatrick

Being materialistic does not only mean “in it for a car/house/phone/computer etc.” It could also mean “in it for a green card” – The scalding hot little tarts from waidi NEED to get something from a man…
City girls might also be materialistic, but they might not see the “poor laowai” as a ticket out, as a waidi girl might…

linette lee

No matter what happen. IT’s a win win situation for both. The girl wants a green card and the man wants sex. They satisfy each others needs and thus…very compatible. Good for them and let them be happy. Who’s to say the girl is materialistic or the man is a pervert? They are good for each other just be happy.

The same thing with girls want cars and house and the men want pretty girls as wives. I never really understand why men complain about women being materialistic. So don’t marry them. Go marry to women who don’t want anything. But then the men complain about those women being too ugly. Like what????? Why is look so important? Why so shallow? What about love? So don’t complain if a pretty girl want a house from you because you won’t marry to a 200 lb ugly woman who is willing to love you unconditionally. lol.

chandlerpatrick

You kind of missed my point…
My issue is that these kind of women are materialistic AND needy. Hell, I’m materialistic – I like big TV’s and nice furniture, I just don’t depend on anyone else to go out an buy this shit for me – I buy it myself… Honestly (if I wasn’t already married to a great woman), I’d choose a someone who is more compatible with me, rather than the painted whore who wants something new everyday… If she want’s a house, and expects me to pay for the whole thing? She is fucking dreaming… Relationships are a team game, and if all she is offering is her looks and sex, well – I may as well just go out and pay for a painted whore.

biggj

That’s real.

linette lee

I agree. In today’s society men and women both work full time and both are materialistic. I also know women who refuse to have kid because they are too materialistic and won’t give up their career. The only way for women like that to give up their high job positions is when they marry to men that can provide for them financially as well as they can provide for themselves. Marrying a career girl or a lazy girl don’t change the idea of an ideal marriage, which is for the husband to financially provide for his wife especially if they want to have kids and the wife want to spend time home as mother instead of raising the kids in daycare.

chandlerpatrick

“Marrying a career girl or a lazy girl don’t change the idea of an ideal marriage, which is for the husband to financially provide for his wife” <——– Seriously? That is the ideal marriage? You're saying that the archetype of marriage is that? Sorry sister, we're not in the 1960's anymore. Families are allowed to have that dynamic if it works for them, but I don't think you can define an ideal marriage/family situation. I suppose if everyone is happy in their roles, then that is ideal.

linette lee

well, Most people want kids after they get marry no? IF not, that’s fine also. It can still be a happy marriage. but if the married couple wants to have kids the ideal way is have one parent stay home raising the kids instead of raising them in daycare. That is the trend in major city. Kids are being raised in daycare not by their mothers.

chandlerpatrick

I have a four year old daughter, and another one on the way – My wife is a full-time mother, so I can agree with you, having a parent take care of the kids is better. That is our family dynamic now, When the kids get older and start going to elementary school etc. My wife will contribute in other ways to the family, because she won’t need to take care of the kids (because they are at school all day). Growing up, my mother took care of me and my sisters until we were all in elementary school, and then she went back to work. We’d come home after school, and let ourselves in the house, never needed to be picked up – we were self reliant at that point. I see all the mother’s here smothering their kids with love and then the kid can’t do fuck all when he’s older because his mother has done it all for him/her growing up. Then, these mother’s have the nerve to say “I’m taking care of the kids – that’s my job!” – No, you’re ruining your kid, by not letting them take care of themselves! Kids only really need to be taken care of before they can wipe their own ass, so once my kids can do that, it’ time for mommy to go back to work.

linette lee

How old is when they start going to elementary school? Like 7 yr old? 7 yr old walking home by themselves and stay home by themselves isn’t it too young? In the city is not really that safe.
Kids have lots of homework too. Make sure you get home from work and start checking your kids homwork. All day I hear at work my co workers complaining about checking homework and doing school project. So much school work for little kids. Poor kids.

chandlerpatrick

Agree. Who’s to say if we will still be in China at that point in time. Who knows what school they will be going to? There are a lot of things to consider. My point is that when they are both off at school, Mommy is going to have a lot of free time on her hands, and is going to have to use that time to contribute. (does not HAVE to mean going back to work) It could be as simple as opening an online store etc. The fact is, is that contributions need to be made – and I see too many lazy houswives, after the kids are in school, doing fuck all, all day long. Leeching off the husband, while contributing very little (or nothing at all). I said that if that is the family dynamic, and everyone is happy with the situation, so be it. In my family, that won’t be the situation, we will always have things to do and contribute for the overall good of the family, Myself, My wife, and children can contribute too (not like these little brats being raised in China – who do fuck all except eat and shit and sleep) My daughter has chores to do, and she’ll thank me for it later!

linette lee

doesn’t she has to cook breakfast, lunch and dinner for you and kids? Do house chores and grocery shopping. Cleaning and laundry. Take kids to doctor or practice after school or whatever whatever. Monitor kids school work and teacher meeting. You know..like what we see on big screen in hollywood movie THE PERFECT MOM cooking in the kitchen calling her kids playing outside the yard. Isn’t that already a full time job? lol. Where does she have time for online business.

linette lee

hahaha.. she sounds like a nanny. A full time 7/24 nanny.
chandlerpatrick you better pay your full time nanny well.

Imagine a woman give her up high paying job position to become a full time 7/24 nanny/house maid. Cleaning the toilet and cooking. No more driving fancy car or wearing high heels going to work in office sitting inside AC office. On top of that she lost her girly figure now she is just fat and ugly with kids.
Marriage is depressing for women. :(

chandlerpatrick

Linette, please “The perfect Hollywood Mom”? Again, are you joking when you write these things? You have this bronze age ideal where women, once they get married and have kids, are able to do nothing else but cook, clean, change diapers etc. Why do women have to give up high paying jobs, and stop driving a fancy car because of children? Seriously, with all due respect, what the fuck are you talking about? Then you go on to assume that my wife does all of those chores you listed? Calling her a full time nanny? Weak. My wife does her share of house work, but for the most part our maid does them… My wife handles the things we don’t trust the ayi with… Are you yourself married with children?

linette lee

Your wife has a housemaid nanny to help with cooking and cleaning and take care of kids. I like that. She is a lucky wife. Most wives don’t have this kind of luxury. Then she should go back to work outside.
No, I live by myself with no responsibility and I am loving it.

chandlerpatrick

I like you Linette, you seem like an honest person. Just try to be as objective as you can when talking about things that you might not have as much insight into as other people… You’re still cool, and have a lot of interesting things to say!

Gordon Gogodancer

Well i guess i’m going to live on a mountain and marry a goat then

Gordon Gogodancer

All the people, male and female, you described are retards…unfortunately they do exist.

biggj

The thing is most of these guys don’t give a shit. They just want a steady piece of ass. Once they realize the guy is using them it’s too late. They already fucked them. So they just get another one. It’s a use-use situation…but only the guy get what he wants.

chandlerpatrick

True say. Yea, I don’t know anyone who has actually been duped into giving a green card up, but it’s the materialistic need of many of these women. The fact that they think whoring themselves out is the way to get to America just boggles the mind…

linette lee

ANDDDD that is WHY women shouldn’t be sleeping around unless he is her fiance. Or unless the relationship is really really serous.

biggj

These guys would not be with these girl if that was the case. There will alway be some trollop out there who will use her vagina as a meal ticket. And there will always be guys who lie and cheat woman to get what they want. It’s always the partner of these people who get hurt.It’s always nice when that type of girl and that type of guy with with each other.

chandlerpatrick

Again, you’ve missed the point – There is a big difference between going and sleeping around because one likes sex, and using sex to get material shit…(aka, a hooker)

linette lee

you are right. The girls they are whores if they use sex to get materialistic things from men. The men sleeping around are male whores like dogs. lol… hahahahah…..It’s still a win win situation. They deserve each other. lol.

chandlerpatrick

And when the stars align, they will meet, and try to see who can fuck each other harder and faster (literally and metaphorically).

Gordon Gogodancer

now that i agree

Gordon Gogodancer

mmmm…not so sure…check out my previous comment

Khanthologism

Being a Self-obsessed, entitled Chinese man is a good thing and what makes a man, a man. All you western White Knights bragging about fulfilling Chinese women and saving them from the Chinese men, are an embarrassment to mankind.

If you are a man, you think like a feminist.

Cauffiel

Yeah, it works SO well for them.

Khanthologism

works SO well that laws aim to reduce breeding.

Gordon Gogodancer

Assumptions is the problem to solve to save the world sir

YungBruce

Personal observation too often marred by personal aspiration.

Gordon Gogodancer

It’s actually often 2 different types of girls…the girls who treat Chinese guys like crap are not the ones most foreigners are used to interact with. So many girls in China can’t communicate with foreigners. The ones who do communicate with with foreigners i would think are a bit nicer due to their situation or are educated girls from wealthy families. The students types or rich educated girls are genuinely nice in general according to my experience….however since my Chinese is quite good I’ve interacted a lot with hot chicks who can’t speak a word of English and let me tell you quite a few of them look down on foreigners (i’m talking about the hot ones). I’ve had a few non serious relationships with these hot non educated girls (usually bar hostesses or dancers)…and i don’t know if i enjoyed a privileged “amuse bouche” that Chinese men can’t enjoy at first because i’m white, however they soon enough made me understand that the fun would be over soon if i didn’t start paying the baobaos or other things (and that’s usually when i shout NEXT! and press a button to make them fall down a trapdoor when i’m at home or i throw a smoke bomb, spin my cape and jump out the windows with a glorious aha! when i’m at their place)
Anyway it’s actually all very complicated, there are a lot of parameters to take under consideration. Writing this actually makes me realize something. Chinese guys always complain about Chinese girls “worshiping” foreigners while they treat their tongbaos like shit. It’s probably because the Chinese girls being nice with foreigners and the ones who have high demands towards Chinese guys are just 2 completely different types of girls..I know it’s obvious..i just didn’t formalize it in my mind until now.

winterbitten

Adding to Biggj’s point. I want to say it problably depends on the family background to a good degree. People from higher educational/income backgrounds generally understand and are willing to find a middle ground when it comes to cultural differences (if they’re willing to seriously date a foreigner in the first place).

My girlfriend (Chinese, mainlander, from a lower income family) wants to marry me and doesn’t care if I can buy a a hour or car (though her parents obviously do). She’s just happy to be with me. However, she’s constantly said if we break up she’s just going to marry the first guy who has enough money to set her up for life and be done with the whole dating thing.

Yeah, we’re not exactly in a great situation right now. The point is, because I’m not Chinese I already get treated very differently.

However it’s still the biggest pain in the ass to ever get her to pay for anything, and at the beginning she was constantly trying to compare me to other Chinese men who blow loads of cash on the girls who kind of do nothing all day (not working, not cleaning, not cooking, playing mahjong 4-8 hours a day, etc).

Most of the people I’ve met have married because of their family or because of money. I’m not here to judge, because that makes sense. You want to be able to provide for your kid. I am sick of how often Chinese people seem ignorant of this issue though, and the cheating or the wanting to cheat that comes with it. They make it out to seem as if we’re sex machines willing to pump and thrust any hole/rod we can find. I have yet to find more than a handful of couples who hasn’t cheated/hasn’t tried to (with reference to people I’ve come to know well enough where they would talk about stuff like this).

Khanthologism

just becareful. they will constantly trade up their men. even if they switched to foreign men.

Gordon Gogodancer

I totally agree with the first part…I’ve always thought this Chinese women are more materialistic thing was quite ridiculous. I just assume that like everywhere in the world people from more modest backgrounds (can’t find another expression) are just more materialistic as they can’t really afford being all romantic. In a society developing from poor too rich…all these poor chicks are very materialistic because they want all these new things and they know there are guys willing to give it to them.
However the “i think Chinese women are some of the hardest working blablabla” …fuck off. There are great and shit people everywhere and honestly seeing all the fucking unfulfilled, frustrated, stupid and sometimes fucking vicious Chinese kids those Chinese hard working mothers produce tends to make me think instead of working so hard they should have stopped and starting using their brains a little bit. But like i said there are great and shit people everywhere so i’m sure you mother is great….but i doubt she’s better than my mommy

Germandude

“Saigon or Ho Chi Minh whatever the fuck you want to call it.”

Well, we call them Saigon or Ho Chi Minh city for what it’s worth.

biggj

What? It’s the same place.

Germandude

Dude, look at my quoted sentence of yours. I just found it funny to reply to that the way I did.

biggj

Oh my bad. I thought you meant you call each place by their names, like they different.

Vien Huynh

Dude… u are terribly mistaken… friendly? Well, if you get to know them… Alright.. I am Viet and gotta tell you this, women are of the same everywhere, good girls bad girls, just choose wisely…. otherwise, you make a big mistake if you think all Viet gals are good.

biggj

Shit, I’m not saying they are all good. they seem nice though, I just mean for Chinese guys. They seem to have a hard time finding a wife. Seems there are a lot of girls in Vietnam. So they should go there,

Vien Huynh

Vietnam also has a shortage of female… You want female? Go to japan.

Khanthologism

Vietnamese girls are still in the safe zone before the Ratchet movement from the west eats them. Chinese women are mentally unwell, perhaps trained by their Tiger Dragon mommys mixed and watching too many hollywood movies. Also be cautious of those westernized Chinese girls too. Those ABCs influenced by western white girl feminism will get ya in the long run. I would advise all these rich Chinese and Russian men to export out into the world and play more. Pure debauchery. Someone needs to clean up the mess that all these White Knights created.

Rosemon Calvin Pilot

…Ballin til they ban us! LoL

Gordon Gogodancer

Like you mentionned…these guys are already crawling on the ground when they get with those spoiled/selfish girls….it’s like they’re asking to be bullied right from the start. They don’t understand that no matter how shit they think they are, there is no reason for them to accept being treated like shit. This reminds me of a French guy actually, very nice, such a helpful guy. He was helping out those Chinese exchange students back in France and they repaid him by treating him like shit and making fun of him because he was really nerdy (which is quite funny coming from Chinese students) and when he was studying in China, he had this Chinese girlfriend, an absolute demon, spoiled as fuck, horrible temper and this worst part is….she looked like a toad!! I tried to make this guy realize that there were so many pretty and decent girls around…but he didn’t care. Seems some people really want to be bullied.

Khanthologism

the toad bullying those that want to get bullied.. quite a phenomenon it is.

Schlomo Hebiwitz

Do Chinese girls like affection/love in the same way Western girls do?

In my experience, Western girls like you to tell them you love them pretty much every day.

Women’s insecurity is cute.

http://500px.com/justinrjones whiskersthecat

Chinese girls have a Random Need Generator that, every two days, will discard the old need and generate a new, different need without any warning or indication. Any failure to not only know about this need but to fulfill it will result in an ever-increasing stockpile of anger and rage that will just randomly explode one day, seemingly from nowhere.

lonetrey / Dan

rofl, an RNG for rage?

Schlomo Hebiwitz

Sounds like Korean girls.

But I still like how cute it is when women rage and get jealous.

http://500px.com/justinrjones whiskersthecat

Korean girls are well-known to have one of the most efficient, productive Random Need Generators on the market. It’s incredible what they’ve managed to engineer up there.

Schlomo Hebiwitz

That sounds familiar.

“You didn’t do X”

Lots and lots of crying too.

Kilkenny

“You should do X because you’re a man!”
As it is said, what should I do is written in the Bible, what I shouldn’t – in the criminal code. Simple as that:)

chandlerpatrick

TV Announcer: “Sick and tired of your Chinese coming with a random need generator? For the low price of 500rmb, you can rent a Chinese for a night with the need generator DISABLED! – Come by Double Happy KTV to get started!”

http://500px.com/justinrjones whiskersthecat

The only way to disable the RNG yourself is to use an electrical shock to try to burn it out. This is dangerous, though, because you very easily could brick the entire unit. It’s really not something I advise trying.

chandlerpatrick

Brick the entire unit! LOL. Oh man, I’m thinking of Steve Jobs doing a seminar on the latest “Chinese Girl 1990’s Ed.
“And newest version, has a special algorithm which creates the appearance of a random need… One day, it might require a new iPad, and the next Haggan Dazs ice cream”

Cauffiel

Fruit Ninja and a small handful of other smartphone apps have been show to temporarily reduce the risk of RNG activity, but its highly dependent on a number of variables including: time of day, time of month (yeah, I went there), her friends RNG activity, her friends relationship status, aaaaaand probably a bunch of other shit, but I think I’ve gone far enough to keep up with the schtick.

Fanduril

deep dickin usually works, too

linette lee

really?? Chinese girls have RNG? hahah…lol
But don’t you men want your girls to be NEEdy? So you feel important. What if your girl doesn’t call you or ask you for anything and just go to places without you? Don’t you feel unwanted or maybe she has something hiding from you. I was accused like that by some dude because I was too independent. I never call him and he has to call me daily and I never request for anything. lol.

I do like man opening doors and holding my handbag. I like that alot. Do you do that?

http://500px.com/justinrjones whiskersthecat

I don’t think you understand the function of the RNG.
Opening the door for a girl and/or holing her stuff for her is basic. The RNG constructs bizarre needs, generally new insecurities in social situations.

Schlomo Hebiwitz

>But don’t you men want your girls to be NEEdy? So you feel important.

Absolutely. I won’t deny this.

>I do like man opening doors and holding my handbag. I like that alot. Do you do that?

Well yeah, the former goes without saying, the latter not so much.

biggj

God no. At least I don’t. That’s a huge turn off to me. I like tough woman. You know, I have only seen my wife cry once. I like girls some dignity. I still hold the door my lady and things like that. But she never asked me for anything. She is too proud. Nothing more sexy to me then a lady that is independent and don’t take shit and doesn’t act like some 13 year old spoiled girl.

Edit: Shit, that was meant for linette.

linette lee

You like tough women? You don’t like it when a girl behave like a cat towards you asking for hugs and kisses? Not too good to be too tough. Men will complain about not being wanted. I know. lol.
You don’t like it when a girl ask you for cuddles..then ask you to buy things or do things. hahaha lol….You want to cuddle up with a cute girl you will have to buy or do something. lol.

lonetrey / Dan

Hahaha, you described it perfectly. Women who are a little like cats are super nice, but most of the girls around here are more like….. pigeons.

Easily startled and flys away at the slightest hint of romance from a guy they don’t like or are just friends with. Even if the guy in question had no romantic intentions.

http://simplydesigned.tumblr.com/ maybeabanana

Nice one :)

linette lee

hahah..pigeons. I like that term..hahah..

biggj

You just date needy men.:)

She does all that. But it’s not done in a cute way…it’s done in a sexy/cute/nasty way…Like a real woman should. Not like these woman who act like they are in high school. My wife knows what she doing. I like everything she does. My when she acts nasty….that turns my crank. lol And she is funny as hell. That is also turn on. She makes me laugh all the time…and I do to her…we have the same sick sense of humor. SHe’s nuts. lol

linette lee

I hate women act cute also. Cute sexy is okay, but cute like hello kitty cute I want to die when I see them.
I hate hello kitty. I would prefer garfield. lol.

biggj

That’s the kind of cute im talking about.

Schlomo Hebiwitz

it sounds like you should marry a man instead, since women are best when they are feminine and delicate/fragile.

biggj

Not like that. I mean I like Nasty/sexy…rather than cute/innocent.

Schlomo Hebiwitz

Women can be all four. Whore in the bedroom and a demure little thing outside is best.

biggj

Yeah I know what you mean. It’s hard to explain. When they act like a woman being cute/innocent rather then the mindset of a immature person. It’s so hard to explain.

Schlomo Hebiwitz

I can understand. It can get tiring, you get paranoid about whether or not you’re supposed to hold off when she gets needy too, if indulging her need for compliments/affection can make you seem unattractive

biggj

Well yeah, In the initial dating process there will always be some awkward moments. You have to test the waters. The hardest thing when dating is being yourself. People always try to be what they think the other person wants. Once you get past that threshold, than you start really knowing what each other wants and what they like. But we best friends. Sure she does some things I don’t like and I do to her. But the things that are good far outnumber the bad. And being honest with each other you know what each really wants.

I’ve been with tons of girls….But none like my wife. She is really one in a billion…to me anyway. I know that sounds gay. But man, she does it for me.And I can see in her eyes I do it for her. So all is well that ends well.

Schlomo Hebiwitz

Ah I see, I have only been with 3 girls, 2 relationships, 1 fling – I didn’t like the fling.

biggj

I’ve been in 5 serious relationships…like live with each other serious. But i don’t know how many girls I slept with..the exact number. It’s not in the 100’s but it’s up there. That was my younger crazy mind fuck years. But all my relationships ended because of incompatibility. Opposites attract at first…but they can’t maintain. Once girl left me due to drugs, And the other 3 I left them because of no other reason than it was a burden being around them. And now me and my wife have a lot in common, we like the same shit, we like doing the same shit for the most part. We both like to party….We both make the same financially. And this girl just happen to be chinese.

linette lee

You live with many women without getting marry you are a male whore. hahaha..lol.

biggj

I’m not going to buy a car without taking for a test drive. lol

linette lee

Then I will just give the pretty new honda accord to another guy.

biggj

Wait, so you are like a honda accord? lol

linette lee

why? I can’t afford to maintain a BMW. It’s not crazy expensive to buy the cheaper version but the long term maintenance and car insurance will kill me. And I don’t lease. lol Japanese car is the cheapest and nicest and reliable. I like Acura too.

biggj

Oh, I thought you were comparing yourself to a honda accord. :) Oh yeah they are pretty good cars. My wife use to drive one. Almost had 400,000KM on it and it was still going. But linette, why would you give your car to your BF? And have you dated both chinese and black/white guys? or any other race?

linette lee

Well I was just testing to see if you would want a car because you say chinese girls are materialistic. I am saying all human beings are materialistic if given a chance or offer.

biggj

You can’t play a player Linette. :) I know what you were up to.:) Yeah, humans are materialistic. Just some more others.:)

I don’t need your stuff:) I can get everything I want:) But what is it that you want from me? That is the question. :)

Butsu

This is actually pretty common outside Asia. Never understood the whole “can’t live together because we’re not married”. That shit is whack I tell you!

linette lee

Do you think it’s a good thing for your own biological little sister to move in with her boyfriend living together without being married. And not just one boyfriend, like 5 or 6 boyfriends. And she is still single up until now. What is your thought on that?

biggj

Sure, she can do what she wants to do. What is wrong with that? So your plan is to only move in with a guy after you are married??? You are in for a surprise girl if that is what you are going to do. You never really know someone until you live with them.

linette lee

I hope you won’t tell your own daughter that.

Butsu

It’s her choice to make not mine. Why should I judge her. If she start to get old I’d maybe give her advice that maybe it’s time to settle down.

I just think you can’t fully get to know a person till you actually lived with them. Making it very dangerous to move in together after marriage, there might be som nasty habits that will in turn chew away the relationship. (My girlfriends parents are a prime example of this). Lets say I date a wonderful woman, and when we actually marry and move
in togheter I might see another side of her that I can’t handle, which in turn could lead to conflict. Sure, there’s a chance there will be no problem at all.

Then again I’m from Sweden, where its not unusual that people never marry and/or get kids without marrying. So there’s a cultural difference at place here. And people tend to marry here knowing their relationship is pretty safe.

Copperfield

We both make the same financially. And this girl just happen to be chinese.

So is she a welder or, how does she coin in the same as you?

biggj

She does business. I wish I had her job. It’s sweet. She is pretty much a middle woman when it comes to trading.I make a little bit more than her, not much more. Less than 10,000 dollars more than her.

Mocata

Chinese women are VERY savvy on this front, I will give you that.

Cauffiel

I think every guy with a moderate dating history knows what you’re talking about.

Kiwi

Do all the women you date work like play dough? Sounds like to me you are saying: sucking dick makes a real woman.

*pulls string on wine up doll* “me, me, me so horny, me love you long time”

If you wanted a china doll you could’ve bought one. You don’t want a woman to act “like a woman” you just want a woman to know her place in your universe. I feel sorry for your wife if she thinks that her husband believes she has lost her dignity during the times when she feels miserable enough to cry

biggj

How did you get that out of what I said? lol

Kiwi

Sorry, I forgot that you don’t know the things that you are talking about

http://simplydesigned.tumblr.com/ maybeabanana

What the hell? All men… if not most men like a modest woman that they can bring home to their parents but a nasty girl in bed. Point of most fetish/gross/weirdo pr0n are made by men to serve men.

biggj

I like a woman to act like a woman…not like the mind of child. Is what i’m getting at.

http://simplydesigned.tumblr.com/ maybeabanana

understood.

biggj

Yeah, like a woman…not some whinny little bitch. lol

chandlerpatrick

I do not want a girl do be needy. Having an RNG constantly beeping in my ear just pisses me off. I have kids, and they have RNG’s…because they are children, but when a grown person has that? Seriously? You want a new phone? Don’t badger me about it, just fucking buy it….”

Cauffiel

Good question, LL.

In a nutshell, I like a woman who 1. appreciates/shows gratitude (which can come in a variety of ways, but NEVER sexual favors) and 2. does not “be needy” but does come to me, no one else (except girlfriends for girl things), when she needs something.

A decent guy wants to be the one who takes care of his girl’s needs (the ones he is equipped to take care of…. again, girlfriends for girl things, but very preferably never another man.)

Neediness is a short path to dependence, and thats not cool or healthy.

I suspect the guy you never called or asked anything from…. you were not very interested in him as a man, and he probably picked up on that (whether consciously or not).

Gordon Gogodancer

A woman you know you can rely on while not being all over you all the time is great.

I don’t think i can bother with traditional gentleman behaviour though. I’ve noticed some girls, usually from former British colonies, that really imagine that their boyfriend should behave like a gentleman from the 19th century. These girls live in a parallel universe

Father issues should not be brought into a relationship with someone else if one is to establish something meaningful. Don’t bring in unnecessary baggage to stunt a mating relationship.

Schlomo Hebiwitz

I see what you mean, but I like playing paternal figure to girls I guess.

http://simplydesigned.tumblr.com/ maybeabanana

Oy vey… To protect, to teach, to make better. No need to be a “father figure” so to say. Just be a man ;)

linette lee

Yes, my man must verbally tells me he loves me and hugs me in private and public. I like affection. I don’t like unspoken words. I don’t like guessing games. I think most people are like that and not just women.

lonetrey / Dan

Guys around here are expected to be less like that.

Not going to lie, I have a feeling I’d be like that too though if I were with someone. -__-

linette lee

You like guessing games with your girlfriend? Are you those too shy to kiss your girlfriend in the public to show affection. You need to be more brave. lol

lonetrey / Dan

Haha,… I don’t have a girlfriend. *cries myself to sleep in a corner*

Seriously though, I sort of like the guessing games sometimes and sometimes I don’t, and displays of affection in pubilc are not unacceptable to me.

http://simplydesigned.tumblr.com/ maybeabanana

Be brave, but don’t lose that mystery. Mystery is what creates that infatuation of the honeymoon period. After knowing all that is to know about your spouse or partner, it is the true love and understanding of one another that keeps the sparks… ohhhh and other things :).

Guest

Guessing games are the highest amount of arguments in any relationship. It’s cancer in its purest form!

Butsu

Isn’t that very chinese though? I can only get my girlfriend to kiss me in public if she’s drunk.

Cauffiel

Come on…. girls love guessing games. There just has to be a point where the guessing pays off somehow, and a new game can begin.

linette lee

NO WAY. I get really annoyed with guessing games and wishy washy type of people. I have no patience. Just spill your guts already.
I think I am more man than most man. hahah lol…

Cauffiel

Linette, I know we just met, but I have never met a woman like you. I want to date you for 12-15 months, I’m sorry I can’t be more precise, and then I will ask you to marry me. I want you to say yes. Then we will have a small wedding and spend our money on a spectacular honeymoon. I expect us to have 3 children and live in a 5 bedroom house in Venice Beach. How’s that sound? I just want to be upfront with you and tell you every detail of what I’m thinking, because I know how much it turns you on to never have to wonder whats coming next. :-D

linette lee

Okay…let’s go to the city hall now and sign the marriage paper.
What time. I only have time during my lunch time at work. Make it quick. For the wedding hall email me for arrangement and I will get back to you as soon as possible.

Cauffiel

This is quite possibly the best relationship I have ever been in.

YungBruce

lol

biggj

Reminds me of this guy in a bar in china came up and talk to this white girl that was partying with us. First thing he goes on about is his 5 year plan and than after the conversation they had he tells her he loves her. ahhahaah. I never heard any of it at first. I just seen them talking and than she was laughing really hard. I though this chinese guy must be a funny guy. Than she comes over and tells me what happened. What made me laugh was she said “……and than he tells me loves me!!! What a stupid asshole.” hahaah He was talking to the wrong girl. This girl just wanted the dick. Not some 5 year plan. hahah

Cauffiel

It might have worked if his 5 year plan was to fuck the shit out of her in every way possible.

shows that girls only think they know what they want but really don’t.

In my experience it’s never good to be upfront, I mean, it’s just boring! Not saying idiotic girls like lenette don’t exist in real life but is definitely ones I’m avoiding.

KAMIKAZIPILOT

Ok Linette I’ll spill my guts to you. Assuming we were both single I’d definitely date you but I don’t think I’d have a long term relationship with you. This is only based on your internet personality but I don’t think we’d be good long term partners because you couldn’t handle my craziness. For example if you made me mad, I’d shave your head bald while you slept. Although I don’t have many female friends, it’s possible we could be friends so I could tease you and make fun of you all the time :)

linette lee

You want to date but no long term relationship. Or maybe just nothing serous right? You like side dish? Like one entree with many side dishes. lol. XD

KAMIKAZIPILOT

Yeah, you’re cute and have a hot body. If it was okay with you sure I’d enter into a short term dating relationship with you. I just think we wouldn’t get along long term. That’s not saying either of us are bad, just different personalities. I don’t have many female friends, but I think we could be friends, you make me laugh, it’s rare for a woman to make me laugh :)

Schlomo Hebiwitz

Agreed. Bonus points if she has daddy issues.

Robert Rou

People in love though, it’s easy to tell. Even amongst friends. Some things can’t be described in words.

Cauffiel

It’s cute until it makes your relationship hell.

Gordon Gogodancer

funny how my perception is exactly the opposite

mr.wiener

“Women’s insecurity is cute.”

It gets old , real fast.

biggj

Like 10 minutes fast. lol

chandlerpatrick

I looked at the photos again, and all of the people in them look happy. Isn’t that what we all want? Good for them.

Most Chinese girls demand their BF to have a house, a car, a business or a high paying job or rich parents before she would consider marrying them.

lonetrey / Dan

Just wondering, but in China are there men who deliberately disregard and write off a girl if she’s like that? (Whereas a girl in the same situation who doesn’t demand all that would be treated differently?)

Marcus Black

I don’t think so. One said she doesn’t care I don’t have a house or car. She even offers for me to come stay with her.

YourSupremeCommander

ok, ok, enough of your big black dick stories.

Marcus Black

She hasn’t seen my dick…. yet : |

Robert Rou

Substitute that dick for your head, and you might get somewhere in life.

Marcus Black

I already got my University place to study Electrical and Electronics Engineering.

KAMIKAZIPILOT

That’s only if they are marrying another Chinese, if they are marrying a foreigner those rules don’t apply, or at least not to the same extent.

Robert Rou

You’re right on the button there. I had a white classmate growing up, had a chinese fetish like no other. He’d be learning mandarin when even most Chinese Americans not even bother learning it. We’d all be like.. um wow wth…

Short skinny kid, maybe like 5’6″. He played soccer so he wasn’t terribly fat, but not big either. Anyway for college, met some Chinese girl that taught English out in Shanghai. Married eventually too.

But man this dude was seriously stingy tho. He brought her back to the States. Not only was he still living out of his parents house, both of them were living in the same bedroom he had from HS!!! wtf lmao

Damn man, at the very least get a damn studio or something if you married…

KAMIKAZIPILOT

Chinese girls are most racist against Chinese guys, even evil Japanese guys have better luck with Chinese girls than native Chinese guys do.

One of my cousins, who’s in his 30s, is actually married with 3 kids and they all live with his parents in the same house he grew up in and probably will for the rest of their lives. Neither of them make enough money to buy a place of their own. Seems kind of weird but they seem happy about it.

Robert Rou

Why don’t they just get a small apartment or studio?

KAMIKAZIPILOT

How are you going to fit 5 people in a studio? I think they’d rather live with their parents than be cramped into a little box. I just can’t imagine living in the same house for my whole life.

linette lee

no…sounds more like the chinese girls inside China will do anything to get out of China. It’s China that they hate and not the white men they want. They watch too much hollywood movies.

linette lee

You mean a foreigner with green cards to western countries like USA or Canada. Japan is alright but they prefer western countries. You men really don’t understand chinese women inside China. So many chinese girls from China marry chinese men in HK and Taiwan. Why? Because they want to leave China.

KAMIKAZIPILOT

I’m thinking the large majority of Chinese women in relationships with foreign men in China are not doing it for the potential green card. Yes some women want to leave China, but I don’t think it’s a major factor when it comes to relationships with foreigners. On the other hand I’d think the desire to leave China plays a bigger role if the woman marries a Chinese man from HK or Taiwan or U.S. Actually Linette, I think it’s you know don’t really understand mainland Chinese women. Those who do go for foreign men do it because of the differences (real or perceived) from Chinese men. It’s kind of like they are tired of local Chinese men and want something different.

biggj

“If you don’t like the heavenly kingdoms woman, than you can just fucking leave!!!!Fucking traders!!!Diluting heavenly chinese blood with dirty Asian mongrel races!!!!Fuck all of you!!! I HATE YOU!!!!EAT SHIT AND DIE”

Funny, that comment was not in the chinese comments….that’s odd. :) hahah

Cauffiel

I wonder if there are any officials who take Vietnamese wives. Would you know anything about this, biggj?

BlackSugarDaddy

Make yourself useful or wipe my ass, big jean
I’m going to fuck you in the ass day and night before tearing you off from the crotch

biggj

When I get fucked in the ass I want to feel it. Sorry, chinese guys don’t satisfy my needs.

Marcus Black

They all have small confidence if you know what I mean. *wink*

BlackSugarDaddy

Doesn’t matter. My Chanel Gold Dildo is gonna make you happy

biggj

I already have one of them…what do you I need you for? You can buy me shit I guess….but I’ll satisfy my sexual needs elsewhere. Sorry…you just can’t compete.

Yeah, you gave syphilis to him….you should put a condom on your dog before you let it fuck you.

BlackSugarDaddy

He got syphilis because of a girl called Jean he deflowered the other day in the street . The girl has a wide chubby ass with a big drooling mouth and thick lips. Her boobs are sagging on the belly , wobbling like a pendulum when walking. No idea why my dog would shag something like that . Probably got drug.

biggj

Your mom’s name is Jean too? Cool.

BlackSugarDaddy

big jean give me head babe

biggj

You’re not going to buy me dinner first…..? :(

BlackSugarDaddy

I’ll squeeze some male juice for ya as appetizer

Cauffiel

“Westerners are too open [liberal], how many green hats [a symbol for being cheated on] is brother [referring to the original commenter] ready to wear?”

This is still just one of the nuttiest goddamn ideas I still hear people say in China…. Chinese men and women cheat on each other constantly!

Having sex with many people is not a bad thing in China…. not lying about it is what’s bad!

lonetrey / Dan

I suppose one can be equally flippant about the topic and just respond back to that guy “Chinese are too close [stupid/ignorant], how many green hats [a symbol for being cheated on] is brother [referring to the original commenter] ready to wear without knowing it?”

More people in China = high number of cheating, right? Not sure why this didn’t occur to that commentor

Cauffiel

I don’t think the population has anything to do with cheating. Its an issue of personal values…. which I also don’t think has anything to do with the population.

lonetrey / Dan

I mean, it’s a numbers game in my mind. The more people there are, the more chances for someone to cheat.

And I like to think all societies are equal. In values AND in sin/vice.

Cauffiel

Oh, so you mean there is more cheating in absolute terms, but maybe less in relative terms.

Equality of societies is an absolutely insane idea, but perhaps you’re an idealist and satisfied with it. I will agree that the opportunity for a wide range of values and vice are available throughout the world…. but not that they are anywhere near equal.

lonetrey / Dan

Why is equalities of societies an absolute insane idea?

… I think I might have been unclear. It just occurred to me that you might be thinking of living conditions, cost of living, type of government, etc etc.

But what I meant by “equal societies” was that PEOPLE in general are the same. They all want the same things, they all want sex, money, things, conveniences, comfort, whatever.

Cauffiel

Ok, thats not insane at all.

I thought you meant that all cultures are equal, and they are definitely not.

Irvin

Don’t be naive, all societies are not equal.

lonetrey / Dan

It occurred to me that we might not be thinking of the same things when we say “equal”.

I mean human desires, what they want. I think it’s safe to say all societies are equal in their wanting of love/sex, money, food, comfort, and such things like that.

Schlomo Hebiwitz

There is more promiscuity in the West, undoubtedly.

Cauffiel

I don’t think you have any way of knowing that.

We publicize sex in the West far more. Thats just about all you’ve got to prove your point.

Schlomo Hebiwitz

I think sex surveys put the average no. of sexual partners for Chinese women at 2.3, it’s about 6 in the West.

The problem with a lot of liberal thinking is that it’s contradictory, on the one hand it espouses everything, or nearly everything is learned, and on the other hand it says that there’s no possible way that a hypersexual culture like we have could encourage promiscuity.

Cauffiel

1. Total number of lifetime sexual partners does not translate directly into promiscuity. It is not inconceivable or probably even uncommon for women in Western countries to have 6 committed relationships of various duration over the course of her life, especially since Western women tend to get married later and increasingly not at all. Obviously a lot of sluts out there are pushing the average up, but “6” does not tell us how many sluts and how many prudes there are.

2. Like I said in my previous comment, Chinese women are a hell of a lot more likely to lie about their number of sexual partners than Western women. Furthermore, I tend not to trust data on social behavior in China because, well, there are many more filters that data has to go through than where we come from.

Case in point: don’t believe everything you read. There are lies, damn lies, and statistics.

Schlomo Hebiwitz

>1. Total number of lifetime sexual partners does not translate directly
into promiscuity. It is not inconceivable or probably even uncommon for
women in Western countries to have 6 committed relationships of various
duration over the course of her life

Right, but they’re more likely to translate into promiscuity than lifetime partners averaging out to 2.3.

There is no reason to suggest that there isn’t a roughly linear association between the two concepts.

>prudes

Don’t like this term… It’s very…. liberal.

Cauffiel

That’s cuz yer a pruuuuude duuuuude. :-D

Archie

My Chinese male colleagues tell me how in China, the person you marry is typically your first sexual partner. Once you have then experienced sex, you suddenly want to do it with everyone. hence the 小三, which the wife tolerates as long as you keep it relatively hidden.

In the west, typically you’ve fucked since you were 15, and by the time you marry in your mid thirties, you’re comfortable to settle down. Sure, you might still cheat, but not like the 36 year old Chinese guys who can only talk about how much they missed out on sex when they were young and how much they are hanging for more of it now.

http://simplydesigned.tumblr.com/ maybeabanana

That’s their stupid and childish process and thoughts on life and partners.

cocobobolove

true that!

http://simplydesigned.tumblr.com/ maybeabanana

“After seeing the louzhu‘s introduction [comment], my mood has improved. Who can teach me how to climb the wall [GFW], I want Facebook.”

Lol Fxckbook is one of the worse thing that happened to people. With the amount of vanity that goes on for a billion people in China…gawwd.. imagine the explosion of more vile shit in society.

Robert Rou

Any technical people that I know that work anywhere close to Menlo Park (Facebook HQ) or are even remotely close to FB engineers have straight up closed their FB accounts.

If normal people knew the egregious privacy violations at that company (i.e. snooping through people’s personal profiles, etc.), or the fact any content you upload to the site is legally theirs to data-mine and do facial recognition on for future use, people would be amazed. “Beware the Greeks bearing gifts.”

http://simplydesigned.tumblr.com/ maybeabanana

The Chinese or any other socialist/communistic country may be less wary due to their already existing big brother internet. I think the Brits and the Netherlands are some that said meh and shrugged their shoulders.

Robert Rou

Actually I have heard some wild stories about technology in China. It’s certainly new development for us over here, especially given our supposed 4th amendment protections.

http://simplydesigned.tumblr.com/ maybeabanana

Which is what?

prototype666

Here’s the bottom line:

Many Chinese people have a massive inferiority complex, and whorship white folk in the most pathetic, servile and low-class manner possible. They are, for the most part, an embarassment to their ancestors. It is understandable, however, given their diminutive sizes, flat pancake asses, small breasts, abnormal bodies and laughably tiny penises. This is what happens when you eat dog rectums and skunk intestines.

Whites in China are some of the ugliest people alive. Caucasians of European descent (“Westerners”) residing in China flock here due to personal and professional incompetence. English teachers are the burger flippers of China.
Nevertheless, they have it better here than back home, where their own women reject them for some of the same reasons that Chinese women reject Chinese men – they aren’t manly men, small penises, unattractive, etc. In China, ugly white boys and white girls feel special.

Who else? Hmm, well, Western Blacks in China seem to associate with and befriend Western whites. This seems strange, as many whites say negative things about blacks in China to their Chinese friends to look good by comparison. Western blacks also have another type of inferiority complex that is probably exacerbated by being in China. They often try too hard to suck up to the locals, like good little house negroes. African blacks are rumored to be involved in various types of illicit activities, and most decent people avoid even making eye contact.

Latinos/Hispanics in China usually have the same poor hygiene and dietary habits as the Chinese. While not quite as grotesque as whites in China, they expect locals to consider them white, which makes them pathetic in their own way.

Indians in China are also losers. Usually just as short and pathetic as the Chinese men, they are known for frequenting clubs and getting rejected by every woman they approach. They bathe in curry sauce, and they think they are trendy because they dress like homos from the 80s. Repulsive.

If there are any groups that I missed, let me know and I’ll be happy to provide a blunt, straightforward and honest summation.

Later losers.

biggj

You could have just said China is where every loser goes as a last resort…except chinese…they are forced to stay there. lol

What you say is the truth though. What category do you fall into? Just curious.

prototype666

None of the Above.

vincent_t

Right, so you are the irrelevant 1. No wonder the hate.

prototype666

I feel no hatred. Just calling it like I see it.

Ran_ran

Racist.
(there are so many racist, misogynistic and stupid comments on this website anyway. But the worst is that nobody seems to care.)

ksh

Thanks god I’m not the only one who thinks that
When I read some comments I feel like I’m losing faith in humanity tbh

Well actually he is not “saying the truth”. He is just spreading hate. He touched all the races of the earth and asked if he missed one “we” should remind him.
Is he on …???
You actually reminded him of one that he forgot “himself” and apparently he don’t have any opinion on that.
One question Mr. Me-against-the-world “What did humanity do to you to have such a degree of hate towards them?”
You have just touched bad, poor, sinners all the type of negativeness of the society.
Another question “Do you just see the negatives in the society and stay blind to the positives?”
I mean hey a very small part of people be it Chinese or foreigners can be touched on his research. if you ask me for the number I will put it to 0.1%. Much of the people I met are very great people, they are very smart and educated.I said he have guts to tell the truth meaning that if that’s all he saw, it means he lives in that cloud, which speaks much of his character.

prototype666

Thank you. I am so sick of all the mental circle-jerking on this site.
Let’s just call a spade a spade.

http://simplydesigned.tumblr.com/ maybeabanana

-1 flamebait :)

YungBruce

Let us know exactly what group you fall in so that I may make an accurate appraisal.

I’m digging for irony.

Germandude

I am just wondering how stupid you’d be. This is http://www.chinasmack.com. Your post was for http://www.stormfront.com. Maybe there are some low-lives like you that share the same retardation. Now to get there, go to your internet browser at the top of your screen. It should say “Internet Explorer” (assuming you are too dumb to download a decent browser). There you type in: w w w . s t o r m f r o n t . c o m and hit the Enter button. Now of course you type that without the spaces inbetween the letters, just to make sure you got that. Then you set up an account and have the chance to “discuss” with other retards about topics that you find familiar with. And best of it all for you: the level of intelligence there is so low that you might stand out in the crowd as I haven’t spotted a typing mistake in your rant.

Besides that, ask mommy to cook you a meal and hate everybody just because you can’t score a girl. Ah, the 21st century’s internet. Nobody needs to feel lonely. Even you.

prototype666

Another typically insecure white loser on CS lashing out at someone who tells the truth (because the truth hurts, doesn’t it?)

Not that any of this affects the veracity of my post, but FYI: I work in a unique capacity where I see more money than you can imagine, my marital/family life is wonderful, and I have a stellar reputation.

Now then, does that change anything I said, one way or another? Nope. My post still holds the same truth, regardless of strawman arguments and ad hominem attacks.

Now go back to your pathetic, insignificant little life.

Chicken burger flipper

Stop using your asian shill gambit routine, you don’t fool me or germandude you nasty racist! And piss right off!!!!!

mr.wiener

For some who says he doesn’t need to tell everyone how good he is to justify his existence and opinions you seem to spend a lot of time doing just that…worse you dump on everyone else to show how good you are.
Cool your jets please, I’m asking you nicely.

prototype666

No one here cares what you think, Jew.

http://500px.com/justinrjones whiskersthecat

Are you really a prototype? Do they plan on turning you into a product or just going to scrap the project as “research”?

prototype666

Ha. Ha. I see what you did there. Very clever.
I just validated your existence. You can sleep well tonight.

mr.wiener

When one steps on a cockroach I kind of doubt the person thinks: “I just validated my existence. I can sleep well tonight.”

http://500px.com/justinrjones whiskersthecat

Are you angry?

Germandude

So you work at a bank as a cashier. I get it. Sad that you see so much money which isn’t yours. And even if so, intelligence can’t be bought as you might figure out sooner or later.

About your marital/family life being wonderful. Who am I to judge? All I know is, for every bottle, there is a lid.

Cauffiel

Hey!! I DON’T COME TO CHINASMACK TO BE RIDICULED BY SOME DICKFACE LIKE YOU!!! I COME HERE TO DO THE RIDICULING!!!

prototype666

LMAO.

Guest

English teachers are the burger flippers of China.

Based on what
evidence? Most I have met have at least a degree, and leave China
sooner…rather than later. It tends to be the degreeless who hang
around in China, think you have it arse backwards. Also how you can drag
white people into a post about marriages between asians, I just cannot
fathom?! Back to it, huang houzi

prototype666

Another butt-hurt English teacher.

Next time you speak, boy, you’d better ask me if I want fries with that.

mr.wiener

Fishtail?

Chicken burger flipper

English teachers are the burger flippers of China.

Based on what
evidence?

Most I have met have at least a degree, and leave China
sooner…rather than later. It tends to be the degree-less who hang
around in China, think you have it arse (not ass!) backwards. Also how you can drag
white people into a post about marriages between asians, I just cannot
fathom?!

Back to it, huang houzi, and take a long hike!!!!!!

prototype666

Linette the ugly Chinkette: you just copied and pasted Mocata’s exact reply. Either you have multiple handles and are a CS troll, or you are another typical chink who has ZERO CREATIVITY and must rely on copying and stealing from others… which is another reason your people are so undesirable.

mr.wiener

So which of the affore mentioned losers are you? Or by your revelation of this have you attained a high consciousness of being?

prototype666

“Wiener”?? Are you a Jew? It wouldn’t surprise me.

Oh, and it’s spelled “aforementioned” and it’s one word.
“Mr. Wiener” = just another ugly butthurt scumbag English teacher.

“Furious” George Rockwell

That’s all true, especially the part about Blacks befriending whites (and other nons) in Asia. I always wondered why Black folks hung out with white guys when these same dudes promote hatred of us, and we’ll spend our night watching them plow through asian chicks while we’re stuck jacking off.

At least in Japan (where a Black man could do alright in the mid-2000s), Black folks hang out with other Black folks.

Rick in China

China in a nutshell:

“relatively inexpensive costs for finding love”

Robert Rou

They seem like interesting people, but a lot of these guys and girls should hit up the gym more.

Chris Granzow XI

I get the feeling that guy’s lying. There aren’t but around 3,000-4,000 Germans in the whole of China in the first place, and most of them are men. Plus, anytime you hear them specifically say “blonde hair, blue eyed” get suspicious. Most German women don’t look like that (maybe 50% do), it’s a stereotype.

But, if you look at the bigger picture it’s kind of interesting. There’s a larger theme of “the grass is always greener” going on. American and European men will go to Asia and get women because of the same complaints the Chinese men make……meanwhile Chinese men are complaining about Chinese women and talking about how western women are less materialistic etc. lol.

YungBruce

Suddenly ‘race realism’ becomes so relevant.

Chris Granzow XI

Wtf. Stop disqus stalking me f@ggot.

YungBruce

If you want to feel good about your mental masturbation go do it in private. Bitch

Guest

Bet you won’t put up your real name & info though….

YungBruce

You would win that bet.

http://www.chinasmack.com/ MrT

ah well the Vietnamese girls will love them long time, not just when a new iPhone is coming out.

Mighty曹

Bam bam bookoo.

linette lee

hahaha..you are so crazy. Love them long time, not need Iphone.

Rosemon Calvin Pilot

You have girfreind vietnaaam! FULL METAL JACKET FTW!

Kennedy Jamal

good to see our chinese brothers crossing the boarders too .. at least it’s gonna easy the hatred of seeing a foreigner marrying a chinese woman …

biggj

Never…lol They want to eat other peoples cake, but don’t want to share their own.

vincent_t

who doesn’t?

Feilon

Well those comments switched pretty quickly from Viet to white.

Mighty曹

This should put an end to the Spratly Islands dispute.

KAMIKAZIPILOT

Never been a fan of “traditional” values. I’d prefer a woman who’s in touch with the realities of the modern world. But then again everyone has their own definition of what a good wife is. If that’s what makes you happy go for it.

EastAsianNationalist

“I think Western women apart from being a bit more independent-minded, they’re [also] much more virtuous/chaste than Chinese women, are kind-hearted, aren’t vain, are frugal, emphasize love and family on a spiritual level”

How ridiculous. This guy’s met 1 white girl and think they’re all great. I’m an immigrant who’s lived 11 years in the West and my observation tells me its the opposite.

KAMIKAZIPILOT

The grass is always greener on the other side, especially if you’re a Chinese person living in China.

Robert Rou

Of course not. He’s not saying they’re all great. But if you take, for example, a good Christian girl vs. some a Chinese girl, well you might get a toss-up.

And if you’re talking about honesty, genuine friendship, and drama-free relationship free of materialistic expectations, I’d certainly give the edge to the white girl.

If you’re not seriously considering straight up marriage ring, ceremony, house, and everything up with a Chinese girl, get ready for a very lovely ride. Very lovely.

Alexander

I think “biggj”has made a lot of good points. Although there are some rich stuck-up ones in Vietnam, the masses are still those who don’t have much money and are brought-up in a traditional style. Because you can have more than one child in Vietnam, the parents will work while the eldest daughter takes care of mom’s little ones. There are a lot of complaints about Chinese women, well, a lot of it is true, especially in the big cities, but it is a generalization, because its not like most of the guys complaining here are dating Chinese women from the really poor farming areas of China. Another advantage is when a Han Chinese man marries a girl from Vietnam, they can have more than one child. The unfortunate side-effects of capitalism in the Soviet Union and China have created a very materialistic new class of people. It seems that people have forgotten that only 25 years ago China and Russia were struggling. I think traditional Chinese men in the more undeveloped parts of China will continue to aim for North Korean and Vietnamese women. Here is another interesting article about marriage in the big cities of China:

The girl in the teashop, Liang Shichui, is way cute. The others, not much.

biggj

She has a pretty face…but the body of a 10 year boy. haha

http://aileilei.tumblr.com/ El Puma R.

Alright they found better wives who are not chinese but still asian, however I can’t help to notice the guy smoking next to his child. say Chinese husbands don’t change so much… but I believe women like these might make them better men or at least get the best out of them, except for the smoking of course, China’s male national hobby. They seem pretty happy to me. Go China !!! (first time I say it here) I love to see when they think outside “the box” ;)

Marcus Muller

I like how most of the people on the original discussion AND this one are arguing/debating on the different ethnicity as wives. Whats the point in stereotyping..? If you’re luck enough to find a good wife GOOD FOR YOU! There’s beautiful non-bitches in all ethnic groups.

Ralphrepo

After more than a quarter century of the one child policy, the PRC finds itself in the unenviable position of being rich, but now having no one to share it with, as a substantial number of its men cannot find wives. Give that the ratio of female to male births have dramatically declined (in some areas by a startling 30 plus percent mismatch; normal being 105F to 100M), there looms the possibility that one third of Chinese men will never be able to procreate.

While it may have positive benefits vis a vis population control, this gives the PRC a huge social time bomb, as the more unsettled men there are running around, the more problematic and volatile society then becomes. So men in China, with their relative riches compared to that of their neighbors, have taken to importation of wives. While this seems like a great social solution for the individual man, the PRC government, knowing that a lot of it’s political power rests in its primarily cohesive Han basis, is probably watching this with caution.

For the same reasons that it does not allow babies borne to North Korean women with Chinese fathers, even on Chinese soil, to be recognized as Chinese citizens, these other women and their babies on the border regions may have divided loyalties in the future. Given that Chinese history is replete with borderland conquests and revolts, China doesn’t want or need another Tibet or XinJiang to slowly incubate elsewhere.

There’s the rub.

biggj

I like how they talk about this mysterious blond haired blue eyed German girl like she is some unattainable treasure. ahahh

The same kind of men your ancestors were, likely just a generation or two ago when smoking was likely also ubiquitous in your home country?

The notion of the costs of smoking outweighing the benefits just hasn’t reached or sank into much of China, as well as much of the developing world. More social education remains to be done in this regard.

moldavidian

Agreed. Chinese education can’t keep up with it’s modernization but i keep screwing that big chicken hoping one day it will wake up.

vincent_t

watch out, you might turn into 1 of them eventually.

Jake Bauman

Why any sane male human being would lie down with a white female is beyond me. These are the same women who have sex with dogs and think it’s normal to have 100 dicks inside them before they’re 23. Once I realized this, I started focusing less on looks and more on the heart that matters. I’d rather take a plain black girl with a good heart than a western slut who just hops on any black coq she sees for whatever reason she can justify. The world sucks.

biggj

You can’t judge the world by the weird porn you watch, hahah

vincent_t

change the white to chinese, and change the black coq to white coq in your comment. Wow, it is so relevant!

Heiboy

this is an old issue, chinese men have been marrying Vietnamese girls for years.

Alphy

Anybody else notice this? “Thought they have already integrated into the local life, they say they too have their difficulties: Among them, none of them have yet obtained Chinese nationality or permanent residency. ”

So if you get married to a Chinese National you still can’t get permanent residency? Does anybody know why that is? I would bet someone in this forum would know.

chandlerpatrick

Have to be married for at least 5 years, have to give up former nationality, some other things as well.,..

Vien Huynh

Breaking news: Women are human, and they are everywhere…. good and bad mix up together people, just choose a nice one and take your time picking them out.

Alice S

God bless those happy couples and their beautiful children! :)

vincent_t

Absolutely, especially to the kid whose father smokes right next to him

Markoff

I remember how disapointed I was when I visited Vietnam after China, according movies/TV shows I was expecting women to be even better and was very very disapointed, only women in eastern Asia who can compete with Chinese (and japanese since they are basically same biologically) are Filipino, those women are just gorgeous

although I don’t think it would be that big problem to find Chinese girl not demanding house when you are foreigner, but if you are Chinese I can udnerstand their frustration, small dicks, working their ass off to buy house and car trying to impress some chinese bitch, since they are not choosing but taking what wil come first, Chiense men should be also more clever although I know numbers are against them, but yeah they should go for those crashed noses for Vietnam or overcome propaganda hatred and go for beautiful Filipino girls, they will climb the social ladder and will make CN men happy, so it’s win win for both sides

btw. judging Vietnamese people – they are the most sneakiest cheaters in Southeast asia, but at least they are not doing it with smile so you are still on alert, even when you ask customers of some food stand and you know what is the real price they will just refuse to sell it to you for real price and you still have to pay more than locals, since there are no local prices for you and EVERYWHERE you will get first inflated double or triple price of local prices, EVERYWHERE, only nation which can compare with vietnamese cheaters are Indians

Khanthologism

Viets are okay, might be small time cheaters unlike the bigtime ones that we are all getting pimped by. I agree the clueless Chinese men should be more clever, but this doesn’t mean travelling out of their country. All the pussy is right in front of them, they just need basic skills in getting that ass. Once they get the skills and culture reverts back to its true ways where man rules everything, game over. There is too much out in CH, fuck the demographics just look at all the single young girls everywhere. Then again, I don’t know why westerners think Chinese dudes can’t pull, the Chinese pull so much tail that everyone including their own kind have begun the hate movement against them. wierd shit.

Butsu

Girls make their debut when they are 14 and guys when they are 17 here in Sweden, the possibility that your girlfriend or boyfriend had countless of partners before is very high. So I wouldn’t give a flying fuck if my girlfriend fucked 0 or 100 prior to being with me. (Second how could I even know that if she didn’t straight up told me?).

Gordon Gogodancer

” Foreign men’s [penises] aren’t big either, about the same as Chinese men” Sounds like his wife is being quite sensitive cause i heard another story(ises)

Robert Rou

Check the spam folder. Use the penis pump 3x daily. If that don’t work, you’re shit out of luck. Never take that towel off in the locker room, lest a Chinese stud in the locker room starts chuckling or some random undersized guy will find out he can sympathize with your undersizd misery.

dk2020

dicks are like snowflakes ..

mr.wiener

Um…Because they melt when you put them your mouth?
….Because you can squish them together and have dickball fights?
….Because they only come in winter at high latitudes?
….Because you need a shovel to scrape them out of you driveway?
..Because if enough of them fall you have a “No School Day”?
…Because you can lie down in a big pile of them , flail your arms and legs and make a “dick angel”?

….Don’t get up, I’ll punch myself in the mouth.

dconn

ahahaha the women is mad at the guy with the German wife hahahaha. He never said he looked down on his mother.

T Harrell

No wonder they are looking elsewhere. The long suffering Chinese men are obligated to possess a house, car and God knows what else in order to attract a Chinese wife. Competition is a good thing; it lowers prices,

hacienda

those kids have massive heads!

Rinetto Shii

Actually all babies have huge heads, it’s normal. The older they get, the more proportionally balanced out their heads are (to their bodies).

caohao

What’s she doing working in that tea shop? She needs a work visa for that (helping out or not). The visa you get when you marry in china only allows you to stay in china with your spouse (it’s a family visa). to work you need to get a work visa.

biggj

It’s only illegal if you get caught. Having your picture posted on the Internet saying you are Vietnamese does not help either. haha Chinese police are too busy with other shit….I can’t think of anything right now…but i’m sure they are busy with something.

dk2020

Chinese are already mixed with Vietnamese and a whole bunch of other small ethnic minorities .. Chinese women do wear the pants in the household and Chinese dudes are push overs in relationships from what I’ve seen ..

I’m all for multinational relationships. There are millions of Chinese men who would otherwise never be able to marry, and if they’re two happy, consenting adults, what business of mine is it that they’re “importing” women? But what I have an issue with is people who are arguing back and forth over which country produces better women with better values; I also find it amusing that these “better values and attributes” are the same, whether it’s Eastern men attributing it to a woman being Western or Western men attributing it to women being Eastern. The grass is always greener, it seems. (And am I the only one noticing that even though these men seem to hate women of their own nationalities, they just so happen to have MOTHERS who are also those women?)

There’s a huge difference between loving or having a preference for other races and having hatred for your own. I’m white. My brother is white. Both my parents are white. Their parents are white. We’re an Irish Catholic family – as white as it freakin’ gets.

When I was a very young girl, by happy chance I ended up in the accelerated program at a magnet school, where my only classmates were Chinese. My only friends were Chinese. My only sleepovers were at Chinese houses. My only birthday parties were with Chinese people. I was all but legally adopted by these Chinese families. China was my world growing up. This was the early 90s and my mother, seeing that China was becoming a major world power, was perfectly happy to hand me over for, as she called it, “cultural assimilation lessons.” Fast forward twenty years, and I had so much Chinese customs, language, and culture pushed on me as a child that even to this day I have a strong preference for Chinese men. It’s WHAT I KNOW.

But does that mean by any stretch that I would reject a man just because he had the wrong skin color? No. That’s a ludicrous idea. A guy being Chinese is a nice bonus in terms of physical and cultural attraction, but at the end of the day he still has to be a decent human being, and I’ll take a decent Western man over a prick of a Chinese man any day. When people like someone BECAUSE of their background, rather than appreciating their background as a secondary bonus to their character, they’re completely missing the point – and they’re risking losing out on a good, compatible partner for the sake of an idealized trophy.

The worst part is that I see many Asian men, men who traditionally have difficulty in pursuing interracial relationships, so completely blinded by the surprise and
mystique of being pursued by Western women that they fail to realize they themselves are becoming trophies:

Mixing with this native SEA Kinh/Khmer blood is a joke and is quite insulting IMO. Those fair skinned Viets are ok tho….. calm down… my 2c

Btw, ever the Korean dudes are buying Viets women.

Mr. Zheng

Basically, there are not enough Chinese women for the Chinese men. Something like 110 males to 100 females.
China and Vietnam are a very similar culture. Chinese may dislike me saying this, and the two cultures have been adversaries for many centuries. But the race is the same, the culture is nearly the same (both celebrate Chinese New Years for example), their religious and cultural beliefs are very similar. The governments of the two nations is very similar, both with an iconic leader on their money. You do not have to like each other to be similar.
This is not to say that all Asians look and act alike. Thai and Lao people are different from Chinese (an admixture of Chinese and Indian/South Asian). Basically Vietnam was an ancient colony of China which broke away hundreds of years ago. I went to Vietnam and thought of it as a more colorful China, and I would have to catch myself not to speak Chinese with them, forgetting where I was.
The language is different, but of the same language family, so it should not be too difficult for an intelligent Vietnamese person to “catch on” and learn Chinese language. One problem might be learning to read the language, since Vietnamese uses a Romance alphabet (ABC) versus characters, while someone from Japan could come to China and be able to understand the meanings of the Chinese characters. But this is not a difficult hurdle to overcome.
But Chinese poaching Vietnamese women means that the Vietnamese man loses out and will have to poach one from Cambodia or somewhere else. That is the one main problem I see with this paradigm.