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UNBORN CHILD VERSUS THE EX

I HAVE A CONFESSION AND NEED ADVICE , I RECENTLY MET A WOMAN THAT SWORE SHE WAS IN LOVE WITH ME , AND WE STARTED TO DATE AND HAVE S**. YESTERDAY WE FOUND THAT WE ARE HAVING A CHILD . i ALSO FOUND HER TALKING OF GETTING BACK TOGETHER WITH HER EX . sHE DOES NOT FEEL THAT IT IS ANY OF HIS BUSINESS WHETHER SHE IS PREGNANT OR NOT , AND IS TALKING ABOUT ABORTING THIS CHILD . i NEED TO KNOW IF I SHOULD CONTACT THE EX AND TELL HIM THAT SHE IS PREGNANT ? SO THAT HE CAN MAKE AN INFORMED DECISION ABOUT THEIR FUTURE TOGETHER OR NOT , I FEEL SHE WON'T TELL HIM BECAUSE SHE KNOWS THAT HE WILL NOT WANT TO BE WITH HER KNOWING SHE IS CARRYING ANOTHER MAN'S CHILD. i WANT TO WAIT ON GOD, BUT I ALSO FEEL THAT TIME IS OF THE ESSENCE . HER AND HER EX HAVE BEEN SEPARATED FOR THREE YEARS AND ACCORDING TO HER THEY WERE DONE WHILE THEY WERE GOING THROUGH A DIVORCE .....I NEED GODLY ADVICE NOW PLEASE.....

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Two stupid selfish people and an innocent life used as a p*** in both cases.

7.2 years ago

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well, there are questions in there if you would take a moment from your angst and answer them, i am not defensive . just because i post on here does not mean i have to agree , it is about the child not about her or me.....

7.2 years ago

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SO WHAT HAPPENS WHEN YOU TELL HIM AND SHE HATES YOU SO MUCH FOR TELLING HIM THAT SHE STILL GOES THREW WITH THE ABORTION ..YOU'RE BOTH SELFISH ..SHE WANTS HIM AND YOU WANT HER ..IT'S NOT ABOUT THE BABY AT ALL .. AND HOW DARE YOU ASK FOR OUR ADVICE AND WE GIVE IT TO YOU AND YOU'RE ALL DEFENSIVE .. IF YOU DON'T WANT TO HEAR THE TRUTH DON'T POST ANYTHING

7.2 years ago

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the least of my worries is getting her back , no i don't trust her but at the heart of the matter is a child that we swore we would take care of. I think it selfish of her to only want to abort this child so she can seem as if she has been honest with him , when in fact she would be doing this to only cover up the truth ....i will heal but i think abortion is the biggest scam going. Sure it may mean no child support , but how could i live with myself knowing i did not everything i could to prevent this from happening...btw the comment about Condoms, well that is water under the bridge , amybe women should be women of their words instead of finding the most heinous means of escaping responsibilities.

7.2 years ago

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You're only gonna tell him so he'll hopefully dump her, then you get her back. My question is why would you want her back, after how she treated you? She'll only do it again later, when she meets someone else.

7.2 years ago

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It doesn't matter how much you don't like it. You can stamp your little foot, kick and scream as much as you want all day long.If she wants an abortion, she has a right to one.

You should have used a condom.

7.2 years ago

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Do what I'd do man, hop on you're motorcycle, slip on the shades, and drive to Coolville, population: Me!

The Coolster

7.2 years ago

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i guess my point was this , why should i let my child die so she can be with her ex, whether she wants me or not we made a child together , and i don't think it right to let the child die , so she can just sail off into the sunset while committing murder

7.2 years ago

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it seems like she doesn't want to be with you ..why would you want to be with her?? .. there's no need to tell him that's her decision whether he knows or doesn't .. i would just let her be .. karma has a way of fixing things