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Wednesday evening I opt-ed out of a project that had been near and dear to my heart! After weeks of mentally wrestling with the involvement, I determined that it was one thing I needed off my plate headed into 2013. There were some extraneous reasons that participated in the decision but basically it came down to what do I need to focus on going into the future that will advance the causes as I so desire!

Basically it came down to "FOCUS". What can I realistically and practically 'focus' on going forward that synergistically relates to the goals and objectives we want to achieve for the organization.

If we are going to arrive at the destination for which we are designed; then we will have to give up things that distract us along the way. Good things mind you; but extraneous to our ultimate outcome. Many times we will have to give up a lot! But then nothing of true value comes without sacrifice of something else of equal or greater value.

The road to our GREATNESS is strewn with glitter that catches our eye and invites us to veer from our chosen path to follow the bright, shiny object. Most of the time that's not a good thing, because that which promises a shortcut to our dreams is rarely more than an attractive distraction designed to keep us from our 'date with destiny'.

Here's my take on FOCUS:

1). Determine your path2). Set before you the outcome you want3). Have a clear vision of how to get there4). Set clear and precise objectives to achieve your desired outcome5). When bright shiny objects seek attention; don't turn away6). Take moments of your time to examine the object that draws your attention7). Ask if it has 'synergy' with your ultimate outcome - in other words does it have the capacity to 'sync' with theobjectives you've laid out in ways that 'fall into place' rather than draw you away8). Step away from any emotion surrounding the object-that-pulls9). Realistically and practically assess10). If your determination is it's nothing more than mush, then make the tough decision to walk away

In the grand scheme of your journey to GREATNESS, the most valuable companion may well be the ability to discern, detect and then FOCUS. Focus on that which promises nothing more than to move you one step closer to the goal!