Sexuality

Wednesday, June 29, 2011

Though many are still against it, it's not stopping states around the U.S to legalize it.
I've seen and heard how gays are fighting to get it accepted in more then one and slowly they are getting it.
Recently, New York have legalized same sex marriage and to prove it, they had changed the color of the empire state building so it comes off as a rainbow.
I'm honestly proud because this shows that gays won't have to hide or even travel far seeing how more states are allowing them to get the marriage they deserve.
After all, if straights can get married, why can't gays?
In general we are all humans and every human deserves the happiness and wonderful memories of marriage, not just people who are opposite sex.
Then again, the only people who don't approve of gays are usually hard core Christians who believe its wrong and god hates gay {Which isn't true} along with people who fear gays {Homophobic} thinking that "gay" is a disease that can be caught.
Over all, The sooner alls states allow Gay marriage the sooner the haters of gays will have no choice but to full accept gays into the community. Hell, even if they try to escape it by going to different parts of the world, they will see that even over seas allow gays to marry. Sweden being one of the few over seas countries allowing gays to marry.
If the states can legalize marijuana, legalize owning a gun and many other crazy things that can possibly kill us, why can't they fully legalize same sex? It doesn't cause any harm to us nor does it threaten our life.

Wednesday, June 15, 2011

"Age is everything" So I have been told countless time, but honestly. How many of us really allow age to stop us from doing something. Let alone since when does age mean something. Like sexuality, if you choose to be gay and say "I realized at a young age" people will question you or they will say "You aren't gay your just at the experimental age" What is the age for that? 14? or maybe its 19? if you really look into it even people as old as 30 tend to wonder how does it feel to be with the same sex when they swore they are straight. So why are people saying theirs an age limit to things of this sort.
Love have no gender and it shouldn't have an exact age. I mean, love is love after all right?
Sure they have laws about it now, sadly but does it honestly stop people? No.
In his own privacy a boy of 16 or 15 can love a woman up to age of 20. A male of 24 can love a girl up to age 16 if he so chooses to, again. in their own privacy. People aren't necessarily worked up about this but then you have the people that have problems with it. You have the supporters who say "Who cares what others say, if you love each other go for it" then of course you have the non supporters who will pretty much say "Your a pedophile, etc etc" and of course it goes for the same for gay couples. Age also stopped them at times. A boy cannot love a man and a girl cannot love a woman. Age shouldn't matter and neither should gender.
Love shouldn't have an age limit nor should it be stopped because of it along with gender. If you love someone whose older then who cares, if you love someone who is the same gender, don't let others stop you, go for what makes you happy. Learn to ignore and turn your back towards the ones who say harmful things. Doing such will show you will not be influenced by their negativity and are strong enough to continue your own path without others trying to pull you away from it.
Love also shouldn't have a race. We are allowed to, as humans to love whoever it be. Black, White, Asian, Mexican or whatever else race exists. Who cares if your family hates one race, if you love them, then go for it. Let your love be that of a Romeo and Juliet. If you really love them enough, you'll continue to love them through all the hardship and only love them more.
Age, gender and color means nothing to love. It will always pass all odds and over come the hate.
Stop the hate, and spread the love.

Wednesday, June 8, 2011

As people we have the right's to do what we wish, as long as it doesn't break any law. We can say what we want "Freedom of speech" We can worship whatever god we wish to worship "Freedom of religion" and we also have the rights, as people to love who we want, no matter the gender, age and race.
So, why are people making such a fuss over sexuality? Let alone, why are religious people the ones who are trying to brain wash us into thinking "Jesus hates gays"
How do they know? Have they personally spoken to this guy? Has he said himself "Gays go to hell"
I think not, and whats this about the bible? Last I check, it didn't say anything about gays going to hell.
I cannot stand people who are so easily hateful over something that is different.
At a young age we are taught "Be yourself, love who ever captures your heart and live life as if tomorrow is your last day" but yet, recently, its become restricted.
Now we are taught to fit more into society and lose the sense of being ourselves.
We cannot love whoever because if its the same gender its "Morally" wrong.
We can not live that way because that is now "suicidal" talk.
For years people who chose to hate others for their sexuality have done nothing but try and make these people life miserable.
They deal with homophobes tormenting them, church people telling them they are going to hell for being in love and if at a young age, they deal with being bullied or being abandoned by their own parents.
I know how this feels, to fear the acceptance of family for who you really are.
the "closet" seems to be the only safe place for so many.
People encourage us to leave it and be open about who we are but yet to stay safe we remain in it.
How do you expect us to leave it if outside the door are people who are only going to torment us.
I can fully admit to anyone that I am bisexual. That I've dated girls and equally dated guys.
but to my parents, I myself must remain in this small closet. I've tried to get out and admit to them but they are just like the others, they cannot accept things that are different. They too think its wrong, and just the mention or slight hint that I'm bisexual they instantly shove "You are as straight as a line" down my throat.
So, like many, I must wait for the right time.
Hoping the people that "hate" for no real good reason will open their minds to us.
Now the question is, will these close minded people ever open their minds to fully understand us?
or will we forever be misunderstood?
Will we be hated for one thing that isn't really a big deal.
Then again, if they have the rights to hate us for this, we have the rights to hate them for the way they are.
If you hate gays, then the gays can hate you for being straight.
Fair enough I believe.