TWOC India Monroe Murdered on Dec 21 and We Just Found Out

Less than 24 hours after learning about the first transgender person reported murdered this year comes word of a trans sister, India Monroe, who was murdered in December, but misgendered. From Mic.com

A transgender Virginia resident known to friends as India Monroe was killed on Dec. 21 in Newport News, Virginia, though she was misgendered and identified by her birth name in news reports.

Initial reports said Monroe, 29, was with 37-year-old Mark Gray and they were both found shot, though there was no sign of forced entry into the home. The Tidewater district medical examiner said the cause of Monroe’s death was multiple gunshot wounds and they ruled the death a homicide. The Newport News police department said they’re currently investigating Monroe’s death as a domestic incident, not a hate crime.

One could argue the line between intimate partner violence and hate, but I am also deeply saddened to read that India’s family opted to bury her under her old name, dressed and groomed as a man rather than as her true self. India’s story is evidence that our attempts to tabulate the number of actual victims of fatal transphobic violence are always going to be underestimations and that the real lived lives of our sisters are especially in peril, in life and death.

And, there’s more. From the National Coalition of Anti-Violence Programs:

“We’ve responded to three reports of homicides in Virginia in the past ten weeks, and two of those people have been trans women of color and all three have been women of color. We’re working hard in community to support folks while also continuing to work to prevent this violence from happening in the first place,” said Stacie Vecchietti, Director at Virginia Anti-Violence Project. “Part of that work, in a larger context, is actively working against anti-trans legislation, such as the Physical Privacy Act that was introduced yesterday in the Virginia general assembly. Legislation like this reinforces the hate and fear that breeds violence against queer and transgender people in Virginia.”

Virginia and Texas are among the states that we anticipate introducing legislation to make life even more difficult and dangerous for our trans and gender nonconforming neighbors.

Autostraddle has this to say when reporting on another murder yesterday.

A note from our Trans Editor, Mey Rude:

If we’re going to claim to be allies and sisters and lovers and friends of Black and brown trans women, we can’t just only talk about them when they get murdered. That’s not really doing anything to help them. We need to hire Black and brown trans women, we need to pay Black and brown trans women, we need to listen to Black and brown trans women. I’m a trans Latina but I have a lot of privilege because of how light my skin is, but it pierces my heart every time someone from my twoc community is murdered like this. There are plenty of us who are ready and capable to take this problem on. But we need help. It’s hard for us to get jobs and housing and healthcare and just support. We need cis people and white people to step up and support us while we’re alive. Please, I’ve gotten to the point where I’m okay begging for help. If you search this site and the internet you’ll see Black and brown trans women telling you what you need to do. You need to listen.

You can start by reading this list of 24 things you can do to help trans women right now. If you live in a state that is planning to (or already has) introduced trans-scapegoating legislation, you can call your state representatives.