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I Need Help!!.....

My DH birthday is next week Tuesday, I want to do something nice for him, I was thinking of having a BBQ at the beach with close family & friends or do something intimate like take him out for dinner to a nice restaurant then rent a nice hotel room set it up with rose petals & have champagne, strawberries with chocolate & a birthday cake and I can wear a nice lingerie for him, sexy jazz in the back round a romantic birthday. My DH loves anything I do so I know w.e. I do he will be happy with it. I just really want to do something nice for him he's such a great husband & so special to me, what you ladies think I should do? Any other ideas will be helpful Thank you!

Both your ideas are fantastic.
Why don't you combine your ideas and make it a double surprise ?
Part 1: Beach Party with your friends and family. Bring nice music (your / his favorite songs?) and have fun !!!
Find someone who plays the guitar or synthesizer, for a Live Band effect !!!
Drinks : Shangria (Mediterranean wine with pieces of exotic fruit inside !!!!)

Part 2: When everyone leaves, tell him "ooooh baby, here comes the best part ! Take him to the hotel, and do your magic !!!!

while the romantic aspect is nice.. I would skip the peddles, that's more of a dream date for a woman.. try to be more sexy about it.. start him off with a nice hot oil and ice massage in lingerie.. (edible oils can be fun too lol). You can do a nice sexy dance for him, play up HIS fantasies a little..