As a girl, should I be driving an hour for a first date?

I live in the suburbs. I live an hour away from a major city. This guy I’m talking to (who lives in the city) wants me to come to the city for the first date? What is your take? Should I drive to the city? Should he be coming to see me for the first date? Or should we meet halfway?

If it feels wrong to you then you shouldn’t do it. Because if you were already starting out with the feeling that this guy is not the type of person who sees things the same way you do, maybe you should pay attention to that. Compatibility is important.The more levels you can find compatibility with another person on the better off you are. That’s been my experience through a lot of pain

Absolutely not! Either you meet half way or he should come to see you. Have you even met this guy? From what you wrote it sounds as though have just been communication w/o seeing him in person. If that is the case then you meet him half way in a very public location. I am a father so I might be more on the cautious side. It seems rude for him to ask you to drive an hour- actually 2 hours for a first date. Half way in a safe public location or nothing!

for a date yes. but not come and fetch you if it is a first date off the internet. he should come to your town and meet you at a local restaurant.BUT if he is coming to you for a meet and greet coffee, you need to ask, why would you drive so far for that? you can't find a girl in your own town?

I think the problem is he may have no way to come to you. If he does have a car then don't bother pursuing anything with him. He obviously will be a selfish guy that will always expect you to put far more effort into the relationship than he is willing to. I think to ask a girl on a first date to travel an hour ( 60 miles) from her home is unreasonable. Plus if you drink at all it gives him the opportunity to pressure you to spend the night. Don't do it, in my opinion.