I am a 66 yr. old male. I have
lost interest/desire for sexual activity in the last
year and a half. I am not taking any more or different
medical drugs than I have for years. I have no
emotional problems, stress or otherwise, and I am
relatively healthy. I would like something that can
give me regular/normal sexual desire/appetite on a
long-term basis. Is there anything proven and safe to
restore my sex drive?

There is a product that you
may find useful for your needs. This is HGH, or Human Growth Hormone. HGH
basically attempts to reverse and retard some of the effects of the normal
ageing process and thereby to restore sexual function, looks,
health, brain and heart functions, energy, and physical abilities to the
levels of a normal young adult. In recent clinical trials, 75% of users of
HGH have reported significant improvements in sexual function, sexual
potency & frequency, among several other age-related factors. To learn
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Is there a cut-off date when senior women
decide to give up sex? I'm a mid-70s male and I still have a strong sexual
desire. My female companion tells me to "give it up." Am I
abnormal?

I assure you that you certainly are not abnormal. You are a healthy man
with strong sexual desire - good for you. You have to tell your companion
that very many widows in their 70s would be very happy to have a good
sexual partner. I know of women who are sexually active into their 80s, so
you have to say to your companion that you're not going to give it up. You
should try to find out if there is something that troubles her during
sexual intercourse.

Maybe it is something simple such as the fact that she doesn't
lubricate enough. After menopause the walls of the vagina get thinner and
there is less lubrication and intercourse can be painful. The use of a
lubricant will eliminate that problem. Please see suggestions for
post-menopausal sex.

Maybe she does not know that for men and women the actual orgasmic
response may be a little weaker than before. Maybe less intense orgasms
give her the erroneous message to give it up. First try to have a talk.
Then try to give her some books about sexuality and older adults. If
neither of these approaches work, then make sure that the two of you see a
sex therapist in order to keep this relationship alive.