Category: Self Help

Today I would like to share a true and inspiring story which will probably change the way you think and motivate you to move forward in your life. If you ever think that you have lost everything in your life, if you think that you do not have any energy left to fight the situations thrown by life on you, then read about Karoly Takacs. Karoly Takacs was a soldier in Hungarian army. He got a best shooting hand in his country. He was the national champion in shooting and probably there was no one in his time who could had beaten him. He was very confident that he would win the gold medal in coming Olympics in 1940. But there was something else destiny has planned for him.

I strongly believe that there is only one life which we all get to live. There is nothing after this life. Whatever property you possess or whatever you will earn, that you can avail in this life only. There is no meaning of earning which you cannot spend in this life. Your unused earning is wasted thing for you. We always start our day like we have unlimited days left in our life. But who knows whichever is our last day. We always got twenty-four hours in our day but there are two days in our life which do not have complete twenty-four hours. These are our very first day and very last day of our life.

Recently I have read a very thoughtful quote from the book ‘The Way of the Superior man’. This quote forced me to stop and ponder on it. Here is the quote:

Most men make the error of thinking that one day it will be done. They think, “If I can work enough, then one day I could rest.” Or, “One day my woman will understand something and then she will stop complaining.” Or, “I’m only doing this now so that one day I can do what I really want with my life.” The masculine error is to think that eventually things will be different in some fundamental way. They won’t. It never ends. As long as life continues, the creative challenge is to tussle, play, and make love with the present moment while giving your unique gift.

The universal truth of this world is that every mankind has his dreams. Some people has stronger dreams, some has weaker. Few people realize that they have dreams and few don’t. Actually our dreams represent the energy level inside us. Energy is the source of every happening. The person with greater energy level has stronger dreams and the person with lesser energy level has weaker dreams. We can say that energy inside us is directly proportional to the strength of our dreams. Every mankind has some energy; hence every mankind has dreams. That’s why I called it as universal truth “Every mankind has dreams “. Isn’t it sounds good to you?

If you notice yourself carefully then you will find that our behaviors have some patterns for some situations. Just try to recall few of happenings of your daily life, like when you feel happy, when you feel sad, which are the situations when you feel yourself hanging back or afraid, when you feel angered. Note down all of these situations and categorize them. Like write down all situations in which you feel happy in one section, in other section you write all situations in which you feel bad, in another section you can write down everything which makes you afraid or hang yourself back. Also write down the situations when you feel angered. You can narrow down your category list according to you.