Most people will push their favorite brand. The best thing is to go to a gun store, hold a few guns and pick the one that feels right in your hand. The best thing to do would go to a range that rents guns and fire a few to get the feel of which one would be right for you. Would you pick a car brand just because a few people like it, or would you drive a few before buying. Good luck in finding the right pistol or revolver for your needs.