Bobbi Kristina Brown was allegedly caught making out with Whitney Houston’s secret adopted son, Nick Gordon. The 19-year-old reportedly doesn’t want to move in with her grandmother, Cissy Houston, in New Jersey, and has plans to stay in Atlanta, where she and Gordon live together in her mother’s former home.

So, this is weird. Nick Gordon is Whitney Houston’s unofficial adopted son, and Bobbi Kristina should look to him as a brother, not a lover. While grief over Houston’s death likely brought these two closer together, they should be leaning on each other for emotional support, not a sexual relationship.

Witnesses say they spotted Whitney’s daughter kissing Nick, and were more than surprised about it. This could be Bobbi and/or Nick acting out in sadness after Houston’s untimely, and tragic, death. However, it’s possible the relationship could have blossomed long ago. If so, was Whitney okay with it?

Hopefully, these two aren’t playing with fire, and Cissy Houston can get control over Bobbi Kristina’s wild behavior, because getting Brown the help she needs is the most important thing in the months following Whitney Houston’s death.