Girrrrrl, I feel ya. I’m also about her size, but I dress well (I think anyway) and put some effort into my appearance. Maybe people give me the side eye for my size, but when I’m out in public I’m usually listening to music and not giving a shit what strangers think of me. Honestly, in my opinion, it doesn’t matter how big you are or how attractive you are, it’s all about confidence. And if you look like a sad sack with no confidence, which she kind of does in all this pictures, then people are going to assume you are that.

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