I hate the smell of TTO, too so I make my wipe solution of boiled water, baby wash, lavendar and TTO EO (more lavendar than TTO) and...(this is the yummy part) Burt's Bees Apricot Oil. It smells SO good! I still add some TTO so my wipes don't go funky within a few days, but use very little.
Burt's Bees Diaper Cream smells mostly like lavendar. I love to smell DD!
Dixie Drops smell creamy--more like the shae butter than any TTO, IMO. Maybe try those!