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Sunday, 11 September 2016

I Have Never Been In Love

As
weird as it may sound I have never been in love, how does it feel like I have
often wondered, I have been in relationships but I have never really been committed
and could leave any time I want to.

My
friends think I’m emotionally unstable or maybe I have been hurt by some guy but
that’s far from the truth, I have never been hurt, I have been the one to hurt
others when I get tired of a relationship, do you think something is wrong with
me? Does being in love equate happiness? Do I need to fall in love to be
complete? These days I’m not seeing anyone, I feel empty inside me, I think I might
be ready to fall in love, but I said this in the past and when a nice caring
young man comes we just have sex and I get bored and want to leave.

Do
I need a therapist? I see my friends and their partners really happy, I have
never experienced that before, maybe the fear of getting hurt keeps stopping
me, I grew up with just my mum, dad left, sometimes I remember how hurt she was
and I don’t just want to go through that.

What
do I do Bella? Will I remain like this forever?

Talk2Bella.

Love
is one of the simplest things yet its complications knows no bound, love is a
nice feeling, it’s a feeling of completeness, commitment, forever and sometimes
sadness, it’s one of the wonderful feelings in the world.

Everyone
one is capable of falling in love, all you need is finding that someone who
makes it worth your while and I know you haven’t found that person, because
when you do boredom will be far off your thoughts.

About
needing a therapist, I don’t think anything is wrong with you dear, its normal
to want to be careful, but you need to stop diving into relationships because you
want to fill that emptiness in your heart, consider those who’d get hurt because
of this.

Having
sex with someone isn’t a criterion for a relationship to work or not, but the
problem might be you have “THE SEX” too soon, try and get to know who you want
to be with, weigh the compatibility, check out the prospects, weigh your
options and if sex happens don’t try to run away, stick around, sacrifice your
time, wipe negativity off the list and see If it works.

Love
is something you should experience once, even if it doesn’t work out the
experience is worth it.