I’ve had it up to my eyeballs with Facebook’s chief operating officer, Sheryl Sandberg. The technology industry’s big cheese, a billionairess who lives in a California mansion with two kids and a husband who does laundry (what, no servants?), has stepped off her perch as the world’s most celebrated working mom and transformed into the feminist answer to reality-TV star/celebrity slug Kim Kardashian.

Her Sherylness is a genius at generating media buzz without demonstrating a hint of street smarts. My apologies to rapper Kanye West’s baby mama.

At least Kim’s honest about being a talent-free hack.

Sheryl is leading a campaign to remove what she calls “the other B-word’’ from the English language. A word that has turned elite damsels such as Sheryl into blubbering, sugar-free gelatinous masses, and I’m not talking about boobs, bulimia or a term that rhymes with rich.

Ban Bossy is the name of the idiotic crusade. No joke. Sheryl preaches that the word “bossy’’ is hurled at girls and women by meanies in a concerted effort to turn budding estrogen-possessing leaders into docile wimps.

Sheryl’s brand of censorship does not involve government agents raiding homes and burning dictionaries. People are expected to pledge voluntarily that they won’t utter the offensive word.

Alpha females First Lady Michelle Obama, former Secretary of State Madeleine Albright and singer Victoria “Posh Spice’’ Beckham have vowed to remove “bossy’’ from their vocabularies. Never mind that President Obama calls his wife’s domineering style of Christmas-tree decoration “bossy.’’ Mrs. Obama said she passively sipped hot chocolate last year with daughter Malia while the leader of the free and other daughter Sasha hung ornaments, the Washington Examiner magazine reported.

The Ban Bossy movement was launched as seriously as open-heart surgery by Sheryl and Girl Scouts of the USA Chief Executive Officer Anna Maria Chavez, who co-wrote a piece published in The Wall Street Journal this month.

“From a young age, I liked to organize — the toys in my room, neighborhood play sessions, clubs at my school,’’ wrote Sheryl. When she ran for class vice president in junior high school, she added, a teacher warned Sheryl’s best friend to find a new pal because “no one likes a bossy girl.”

One wonders whether Sheryl was victimized by a word — or undiagnosed obsessive-compulsive disorder. She never wrote if she won the junior-high-school election, but I can only assume that her best buddy took the teacher’s advice and ran from the manic toy organizer.

“When a little boy takes charge in class or the playground, nobody is surprised or offended. We expect him to lead,” the two authors continued, apparently unfamiliar with today’s touchy-feely feminized schools in which boys have their maleness pumped out of their bodies before puberty with the help of educators, therapy or medication.

There’s something obnoxiously bossy about Ban Bossy. So Sheryl was brutalized by a word as a child? See a shrink or visit a bar! I refuse to take the stupid pledge.

The flip side is, why is Sheryl harassing women into becoming leaders? What if my daughter is too pooped to run for class vice president? What if I think it’s just plain creepy to organize neighborhood play sessions?

Singer Beyoncé, actresses Jane Lynch and Jennifer Garner, former Secretary of State Condoleezza Rice, designer Diane von Furstenberg, NASCAR driver Jimmie Johnson and US Secretary of Education Arne Duncan appear in an online video promoting Ban Bossy. But is Beyoncé, whose rapper husband Jay Z has made a career out of denigrating women as “hoes” and worse, properly programmed?

She ends the video by declaring: “I’m not bossy. I’m the boss.’’ Boss or bossy. What’s the difference?

Sheryl last year published “Lean In: Women, Work and the Will to Lead’’ — a book she called “a sort-of feminist manifesto’’ that sold 1.6 million copies. In it, she tells women to risk getting fired by demanding that employers give them raises and promotions.

Since the book came out, Sheryl’s turned into a veritable chick-empowerment industry, establishing the nonprofit organization LeanIn.org, which provides online lectures and instructions for starting Lean In Circles, basically consciousness-raising groups in which dames moan about useless husbands, emotionally unavailable partners and lousy jobs. The org has teamed up with Getty Images to sell pictures of strong women, girls and the people who support them.

What Sheryl doesn’t say is that American women are doing just fine. They earn more college degrees than men. Young women rake in as much money, or more, than guys, a trend that stops only when they drop out of the fast lane to raise families. We have choices.

Banning a word won’t make you rich or powerful. Act like Beyoncé, ladies. Be tough. Be a boss.

Be bossy.

And brat’s all, folks!

Will the tension ever lift? I doubt it. Rachel Canning and her mom were seen walking awkwardly outside their New Jersey house before each slid into a separate vehicle and Rachel drove off to her Catholic high school.

Rachel, 18, became a world-famous spoiled brat after she sued her parents for thousands of dollars to cover high-school and college tuition, plus living expenses. But after spending more than four months at a friend’s house, she returned to the home of her parents, Sean and Elizabeth Canning, last week. The Cannings said the case was “amicably settled.’’ But Rachel’s lawyer, Tanya Helfand, whined that the parents pressured her client to drop the suit.

Rachel is lucky her folks took her back.

A cuppa ‘joke’ for the $10 latte set

A cup of high-faluting Lakkris latte from Budin, a Scandinavian-themed coffee palace in Greenpoint, Brooklyn, costs a ridiculous $10 — not including a tip.

The brew is made from coffee beans from Ethiopia that are roasted in Norway. It contains anise syrup and is sprinkled with licorice powder, both shipped from Denmark. With each cup you get a marble-sized ball of chocolate-covered Danish licorice. Yuck. Save your money.

Even in New York, one shouldn’t have to choose between a caffeine fix and paying the rent.

Deb selfie conscious

Mayor de Blasio chatted up reporters on the steps of City Hall last week before snapping a selfie with them. He’s trying to repair his relationship with the media, which is worse than his popularity with city voters — 57 percent of whom said in a recent poll that he did a fair or poor job during his first two months in office. Hizzoner might try answering questions, such as why the SUV in which he rode ran stop signs and sped through Queens streets, days after he unveiled a traffic-safety plan.