Hubby problems I'm pregnant again and have a 4th month old

I'm currently 5weeks 1 day pregnant and I have a 4th month old babygirl and I just recently found out my husband is having an affair I don't know what to do I feel as the world has falling down on me we also have a 4 & 7 year old daughters. I need help or just some opinions from all you out there I need to get over it n separate which I've always fought for my marriage and made it work but not when he decides to be with females we brings from other cities and stop being home for dinner and even to sleep, it's just not good for me please feel free to say anything any comments good of bad are all welcome

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I'm so sorry you are going through this. Does he know you are pregnant? If you feel you need to get over it and separate then maybe that's the best thing to do, if you have already tried woking things out. I know it must be so hard. I wish I had some better advice but I really wouldn't know what to do myself in that position. Congrats on your pregnancy. All babies are a blessing, even if it may not seem like it right now. Wishing you all the best.

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~Amanda

"Heaven's not a place that you go when you die. It's that moment in life when you actually feel alive." Landon Garrett - February 28th, 2013

You know what you have to do so I don't have advice but sending prayers your way. It seems like you have been doing it alone anyway so don't doubt yourself, you can do this. Get and accept help from others without shame. Also don't be easy on him, he decided to break up the family unit. He needs to pay child support for all of his children and do his part. All you can do is love those kids and show them that they deserve a happy home with a mommy that is respected. Good luck!!

Wow. That's a lot to cope with at one time. Remember that your a good person who doesn't deserve this and that your a mom first and all of your babies need you to stay strong. I sure hope you have a support system place. Wishing you all of luck in the world!!

I'm so sorry. My husband cheated on me during pregnancy with LO, I was trying to forgive him and slept with him for the first time in 9 months and am currently expecting our 4th now. So I feel your pain. If you ever want to PM me I am absolutely here!