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Best Books I Read in 2018

The Lymond Chronicles by Dorothy Dunnett
These six books are the most melodramatic historical novels I’ve ever read. Francis Crawford of Lymond is an arrogant genius with an alarming amount of self-hatred who willingly plays the villain in order to play a long game of justice, so like, he’s my exact favorite kind of character. These are DENSE books that somehow fly by, and the fourth book (Pawn in Frankincense) had me literally screaming at the pages. I’ve been avoiding Dunnett’s second series, The House of Niccolo, because I know they will once more overtake my entire life.

Every Hidden Thing by Kenneth Oppel
I haven’t yet read something by Oppel that I don’t like, but Every Hidden Thing tops my list of his books. It’s a Shakespearean story of star-crossed lovers from competing families of archeologists scrambling to discover new dinosaur fossils in the Badlands in late 1800s. If that doesn’t immediately grab your attention, then…I don’t understand your brain.

Gone With the Wind by Margaret Mitchell
I was entirely surprised to find myself won over by Mitchell’s book, since before this year I only had bad memories of watching the movie in Memphis in a theater full of Yankee-hating Southerners. But Mitchell is a phenomenal writer! The story is surprisingly feminist, an unflinching examination of a woman who is willing to flout societal gendered expectations in order to ensure her family’s survival. It’s messy and inspiring and depressing – three of my favorite things!

Kings of the Wyld by Nicholas Eames
This is satirical fantasy with a heart, where a bunch of over-the-hill champions have to reform their warrior team to save a daughter from an evil bunny-man. Which is ridiculous, but also the bunny-man is legitimately scary? And in the very good sequel, Bloody Rose, there is a hero bunny-man who actually made me cry, so…satire with a heart. At one point they hide from giant trolls who are idly arguing about whether one is using the word “literally” correctly, and I think that sums up the feel of the book quite nicely.

The Power by Naomi Alderman
How would the world change if women suddenly woke up with the ability to conduct electricity? This was a depressing and fascinating story that stayed with me for a long time. There’s a sense of satisfying justice in the beginning, as women who have been abused or belittled for years suddenly have the power to defend themselves. But it doesn’t end there, ultimately positing that when power comes from physical force, there can never be equality. The parts that were especially compelling to me were the eerie echoes of women defending their power (“it wasn’t rape, because he liked it”) that throw real life problems into excruciating clarity.

Erotic Stories for Punjabi Widows by Balli Kaur Jaswal
Not nearly as sexy as its title would have you believe, this is both a murder mystery and an empowering story of overlooked women finding camaraderie and joy through sharing, well, erotic stories. It covers generational immigrants and their conflicting priorities, the inner lives of those whom society labels irrelevant, and the dangers of the patriarchy. It was entirely unique for me, and I adored it.

Saga (volumes 1-9) by Brian K. Vaughan
WHAT A SERIES. These graphic novels had me hooked within a couple pages, and I am so sad to have reached the end of what is currently published, so now I have to wait for the next installment very impatiently. This very adult story is about two worlds at war, both of which want to kill the child of two pacifists who abandoned the fight. It is INCREDIBLY creative, with a nation of robots that are just grey people with televisions for heads, and the higher in status they are, the more modern the tv (royalty’s screens are in color). And, like Kings of the Wyld, this might sound ridiculous, but it’s all played seriously, and yes, I did also cry because of one of the robots. There’s a lot of crying in this series, because it covers years of this family’s fight to survive, and a lot of people help them and suffer for it throughout the way. I don’t honestly know how to describe its brilliance, so here’s just this: It’s my actual first favorite thing I read all year.

Best Things I Watched in 2018

Call Me By Your Name
This movie is absolutely beautiful!! It is sumptuous, capturing a lazy summer in Italy with just, an incredible attention to the physicality of a moment, whether that’s the slap of wet feet in sandals or the magnetic embrace of someone newly in love. I saw this four times this year, and I accidentally cried while describing it to someone.

Stephen Universe
This cartoon! is! amazing! I binge-watched all five seasons currently out, and while it started as cute 10-minute adventure segments, the world slowly expanded and got very emotionally compelling!! It is one of the most good stories out there, by which I mean its hero genuinely wants to help everyone, even his enemies, and his heart is just so big and so beautiful! This is one of those shows that I think could actually make the world a better place if everyone were forced to watch it.

Queer Eye
This is another series that could change the world for the better if everyone were forced to watch it! This is reality tv with massive heart, as five gay men do total life makeovers for straight men. And I mean total life makeovers. While there is the requisite hair and clothing changes, the real magic of this show comes from the inside-out transformation of men blossoming under male attention and learning to express their emotions. I cry a lot while watching this show, and

Terrace House
For someone who thinks she doesn’t like reality tv, it’s weird to have two on my list this year! But this Japanese reality show is so sweet! It’s a classic “six strangers have to live together” scenario, but instead of in-fighting, they generally support each other’s goals and politely discuss any conflict in the house. And rather than vote people out, a person can stay until they feel they’ve accomplished their goal (which can be anything from ‘launch a ski clothing line’ to ‘fall in love’), they leave and someone new comes in. It’s all really lovely, non-confrontational, and funny. Because oh yeah, there’s a panel of Japanese comedians who interrupt the show twice per episode to make jokes about what’s going on. Genius.

I, Tonya
I wasn’t around for the Tonya Harding/Nancy Kerrigan debacle, but that did not affect my enjoyment of this movie in the slightest. Okay, “enjoyment” is a strong word. It’s an excellent movie about abuse, made even more amazing by how it traces her abusers from her mother to her husband…to us, the viewers who judged and opinionated and laughed at her. It’s also just very cleverly done, intercutting flashbacks with dialogue from the present day. Inspiring and depressing…hmmm, there’s a trend here.

She-Ra
Except for these wonderful cartoons with not a bit of depression in them! The She-Ra remake ALMOST made me want to have kids, because both girls and boys could be so benefitted by its diverse representations of girls and boys. It’s all about the power of friendship, and it’s also just so healthy. At one key point, a sidekick begs She-Ra, “You have to fix this!” Overwhelmed, she admits, “I can’t.” And instead of forcing or guilting her, the sidekick says, “Okay,” and hugs her, preparing to be destroyed together. Spoiler, they aren’t, but that moment of grace made me cry actual tears. Also, there is a princess prom and Catra and Adora have mad chemistry, and I cannot wait for season two!!

Best Podcasts I Listened to in 2018

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard
Sometimes he interviews famous friends (or his famous wife, Kristen Bell, whose episodes are always my favorites), and sometimes he interviews mostly unknown experts in various fields (I loved the episode with Dr. Drew about addictions). It’s a long show, and I don’t listen to every episode if it’s a celeb I don’t care about, but it’s always a fun listen.

Buffering the Vampire Slayer
Two women review Buffy the Vampire Slayer episodes, but they spice up their routine with character jingles, a sexual tension award, and a legit good song about each episode.

Failed Missionary
Hosted by Corey Pigg, former missionary in Germany, this podcast tackles some very real problems in the missionary world like the white savior complex (fittingly discussed by Ugandan men and women). It’s updated irregularly, but every episode is amazing.

Hoist the Colours I didn’t stop being obsessed with Black Sails this year, and luckily there are still people creating new content about the world’s best television show. This podcast focuses on the numerous queer characters in the show, tracking their character arcs through the seasons, and it literally makes my heart spike every time I see a new episode uploaded.

Milleneagram
An irreverent podcast about the Enneagram that’s for “babes and trolls, kids and queers,” it maintains the complexity and beauty of learning from the personality test while including a lot more cussing and real talk than the enneagram podcasts made by middle-aged men and women (which I also love, but they are not my favorite).

Queerology
An amazing podcast for LGBTQ+ people to discuss their relationship with Christianity. It’s…just exactly that simple, and I love it.

The Daily
I am very bad at keeping up with the news, but this half-hour podcast makes me feel a little less uninformed every day. I especially like it because the current topic is framed in a historical context that makes it all a lot more interesting and relevant.

What were some of your favorite books, movies, tv shows, and podcasts this year?
Tell me in the comments, and maybe they’ll make my 2019 list.