She said that she had friends address and real name and that I should go ahead and give her the number as well.

If she has that info, why can't she go online and look it up herself if she wants it that badly? And if she still strikes out, then it's unlisted for a reason, and she'll just have to respect her privacy.

I think, if someone is close enough that they are entitled to updates on my condition/whereabouts, they already have my contact information.No way should you give the person her number. I'd respond with FoxPaw's wording.

Just in case you have any doubts about refusing to disclose the number, consider this: just as your old friend cut you out of her life, maybe she is also doing it to her FB friends.

That's a good point.

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