Im so sorry to post here please don't be mad at me I just need some advise, I have been with the same partner for 8 years but after living a traumatic situation..... Our second son die when he was born..... Was so sad and we broke our relationship, my ex boyfriend always was around me and one night he and I was drinking wine and we have sex without condom, I insist first but I was to weak and stupid to say no, he urinated 30 minutes before everything and I didn't let him ejaculated inside me but I'm so scared about the precum, after all I was informed by many friends my ex boyfriend is a promiscuous and always hangin girls like he have a girl every month and he doesn't use protection, im so sad to be honest how silly me....My partner and I come back together and I have not said anything and also I don't have sex with him because I'm worry, I have contact on the 16th of January and I have test done on the 21 of February for HIV and sts and all come back negative but I just have a flu, diarrea, vomit, headache, so scared ..... Please help me

I've moved your thread to this forum since the most recent was in English. In the future if you write in again use this thread and don't begin anymore new ones.

Since you have had unprotected intercourse outside of a securely monogamous relationship you do need to get tested. None of your symptoms are in any way HIV specific. If you test negative at 6 weeks after the unprotected incident that is a good indication that you will likely continue to test negative for a conclusive result at 3 months.

You should not be having uprotected intercourse with your partner until you have reliably tested negative.

Also, it might be good to have a full STD panel done because of what you have reported about your ex. Other STDs are much easier to acquire than HIV. So just to be sure that you haven't picked up something else I would recommend that.

You need to stop mixing casual sex with excessive drinking. You can see what a dangerous combination it is.

Doctor,Thanks so much for replying my post, I did take a STD panel last week and all back negative, I will re take my ELISA test next week, I contact this person and he told me HIV doenst exist..... I'm so angry at him but more angry with me,The thing worry me more is I have this rush at my abdomen and waist and is red and itchy and I have it for 2 weeks and my diarrea is one weeks now and I eat wry healthy, tengo amigdalitis....I have vomit and don't want to eatI speak Spanish and I think my English is not good.... Sorry is my spell and grammar are not correct, I have read about I need to be in contact more than one time to get HIV but I don't know, I just feel so sad about it, I will tell my partner and probably he will left me but is fair enough....We was separet for months I thoutgh we won't come back together,I'm so worry doctor,Thanks forYour reply

There is nothing HIV-specific about the symptoms which you are reporting. You should discuss them with your doctor. ARS symptoms do not come and go separately. If they are going to appear they come on together and then are gone after about 2 weeks.

For the future you must remember you are responsible for your own health. So you must always take proper precautions to protect yourself.

That is not how you have described your symptoms above. You may have several of them together now at the same time but it reads as if for instance have had the skin itchiness for 2 weeks and then the diarreah for a week.

But we should not get into debating this. The only way to have the answer you want is by getting tested, not through guessing through symptoms you maybe having. The test will give you a reliable answer.