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Why do some black women seem to hate to see white women with back men?

My DH is a doctor and he is black, well 3/4 black anyway. I am white and I have had several experiences with black women acting like me and DH shouldn't be together. It was more then that though, it was like by marrying a successful black man, I took a man from them or something. Like because he is back and successful, he should only marry a black woman. I just don't get it. Thankfully, I don't get that attitude from DH's family since his mom is half white.

You don't make much sense. The Tiger Woods situation was all trashy white girls. Are you saying it was ok because they weren't overweight? The ignorance here is amazing....

Quoting Anonymous:

I am more curious as to why so many black men chose to date fat, uneducated, trashy white women. I don't mind the Tiger Woods type situation, by why stoop to trash? I am white and I'm not attracted to black men, but it always made me curious. It just seems they could do better.

Quoting Anonymous:

My DH is a doctor and he is black, well 3/4 black anyway. I am white and I have had several experiences with black women acting like me and DH shouldn't be together. It was more then that though, it was like by marrying a successful black man, I took a man from them or something. Like because he is back and successful, he should only marry a black woman. I just don't get it. Thankfully, I don't get that attitude from DH's family since his mom is half white.

by Anonymous 69
on Mar. 26, 2013 at 11:03 AM

yeah, but all the white "escorts" he was fucking were trashy as fuck. i think that was her point.

Quoting Anonymous:

Elin Nordegren was not trashy. Why would you think she was?

Quoting Anonymous:

You don't make much sense. The Tiger Woods situation was all trashy white girls. Are you saying it was ok because they weren't overweight? The ignorance here is amazing....

Quoting Anonymous:

I am more curious as to why so many black men chose to date fat, uneducated, trashy white women. I don't mind the Tiger Woods type situation, by why stoop to trash? I am white and I'm not attracted to black men, but it always made me curious. It just seems they could do better.

Quoting Anonymous:

My DH is a doctor and he is black, well 3/4 black anyway. I am white and I have had several experiences with black women acting like me and DH shouldn't be together. It was more then that though, it was like by marrying a successful black man, I took a man from them or something. Like because he is back and successful, he should only marry a black woman. I just don't get it. Thankfully, I don't get that attitude from DH's family since his mom is half white.

by Anonymous 70
on Mar. 26, 2013 at 11:06 AM

DH has a black friend who hates black women. Won't give a good black woman a chance.

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