We are trying to concieve-ing!

This is a discussion on We are trying to concieve-ing! within the Trying To Conceive forum, part of the You and Your Family category; Originally Posted by ebichan:821271
Nat, oh!!! I see. Maybe they are more strict over there. For the deposit, roughly how ...

Nat, oh!!! I see. Maybe they are more strict over there. For the deposit, roughly how much is it and must pay in cash (not CPF medisave) is it?

Are you excited??

I forgot if you work or not. If so, are you looking forward to the 4 months leave from work?

I paid around 2.6k for normal delivery ...

Just realised that the attachments not clear..

My estimated bill is 4695 which is inclusive of package fee (2020 - hospital stay, delivery suite and etf), professional fee (1070) and others (1605 )..after deducting the estimated medisave claimable of 2100, I neee to pay 2.6k for deposit. .mine is the charges for A1..

Im not sure if this is the correct thread to post my question. But, Im just wondering if there is any couples out there who are trying to concieve-ing and went for a medical check up. We have been trying for almost a year but there aint any positive results yet. Tried traditional chinese medicine, but still no positive result. Wondering if we should just go to gynae for a check but feeling lost as we have no idea on what we are suppose to do and how to go about finding the gynae for the check-ups.

Thanks in advance!!

Hi christal, may I ask which traditional chinese medicine you r seeing & how long you have been seeing traditional chinese medicine? For myself I was ttcing 1 month then I went to see gynae for general scan... I had different problems (applies to me only.. different for everyone).. you may want to pick a gynae just to 1) monitor if you ovulate every month with a right sized follicle? 2) scan to check if any polyps or cysts? First check is always on the wife. 2nd step will be hubby's sperm check? However it depends on his stress level.. usually for sperm analysis, when men do it in a cup.. the results r worse as there is stress putting sample in a cup.. are you using bbt n clearblue lol to help detect smiley? (This area I have no experience - other ladies can help). Also how old are you? Are you also exercising? Are you taking pre natal vits too? Blackmores conceive well is good...

Natalie - for some ladies with 2nd baby.. the labour is very fast! I read online this lady who had a blog.. her labour for 2nd baby so smooth n so fast.. baby popped then doc stepped right in!! Hehe... I hope you have a smooth delivery of lil Scorpio!

Natalie - for some ladies with 2nd baby.. the labour is very fast! I read online this lady who had a blog.. her labour for 2nd baby so smooth n so fast.. baby popped then doc stepped right in!! Hehe... I hope you have a smooth delivery of lil Scorpio!

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LOL LittleHammie, dont have it yet. It's sooo early days. I think my doctor and the nurses were all laughing at me for being so silly when I said, i tested positive but my period not here yet. it's today" ...

LittleHammie, what did you think of Dr Wu. (<< i didnt make mistake right, you patiently lined up and saw Dr wu)

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TVH!!! you're here!!
I was MIA for a while because had to help my father move and in-laws and work was also busy.
Then came back here and got confirmation on my blood test. But still very early days trying to be cool yet informed for sticky beans!!!

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Originally Posted by nataliengbh

Maybe your friend should sit down and discuss with her husband..saying that his mum would not always be around would only make him to be on offensive mode..she could list down the reason why the baby should be put in infant care, like at his mother age, it would be very tiring for her, stressful and etc..get a compromise like bring the baby to his mother on weekend to visit.

she told me the points you listed she already state out to her hubby
but he still very insist

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Quincy, I dont know if your hubby like mine but mine is a bit obsessed with having sufficient testosterone. He was very active in boxing when younger and now that he's 2 years away from being 40 he wants to keep his body and health as young as possible. (He always wants to strike gold for his ippt ) good thing in it for me was that good testosterone = good sperm haha he didn't care about the trying to concieve part, just the macho part !!

Maybe your friend should sit down and discuss with her husband..saying that his mum would not always be around would only make him to be on offensive mode..she could list down the reason why the baby should be put in infant care, like at his mother age, it would be very tiring for her, stressful and etc..get a compromise like bring the baby to his mother on weekend to visit.

she told me the points you listed she already state out to her hubby
but he still very insist

Worse come to worse..let the mother in law try for 1 month and see how it goes...if husband can see how the mother in law fare, he can decide whether to go ahead with infant care . thats my thoughts. .