10 Misconceptions About Gay People That Are Just Crazy At This Point

Because of all the progress that has been made when it comes to the LGBT communityand same-sex marriage, what better excuse to examine some of the myths that continue to negatively label same-sex unions? The next time you hear somebody claim truth to any of these prevalent falsehoods, be sure to speak up and educate others on the real deal.

Gay individuals are no more likely to have trouble staying monogamous than heterosexual individuals. They are, in fact, as likely to be in committed, long-term relationships as are heterosexuals. Many want to have an emotional relationship before becoming sexually involved, and desire a long-lasting, monogamous relationship.

The truth: Fueled by homophobia, this myth doesn't make any sense when considered as a norm for heterosexuals. Straight people aren't attracted to every member of the opposite sex, so why would homosexuals get all hot and bothered by anybody who shares the same set of genitals?

5. Gays live a certain lifestyle, one reminiscent of the wild and crazy days of Studio 54.

The truth: There is no "gay lifestyle." Gay individuals vary immensely when it comes to race, age, religion, nationality, ethnicity, socio-economic backgrounds, values, and so on. There is no set standard by which all gay people live their lives. For many people, sexual orientation is just one part of their identity and is not the overriding factor that defines their entire identity.

6. Children raised by same-sex unions are affected negatively by their experience.

7. Lesbians seek out same-sex relationships only after having bad experiences with men.

The truth:Both lesbians and gay men report having had positive and enjoyable past sexual encounters or relationships with members of the other gender. Most, however, find that their same-gender relationships are much more fulfilling, and are a true reflection of their sexual orientation and attractions.

8. Gay/Lesbian parents differ from heterosexuals in their parenting skills.

In fact, gay/lesbian parental relationships are often more cooperative and egalitarian, with their childrearing typically more nurturant. Consequently, their children are often more affectionate, as well.

The truth: Factors that constitute "quality" in a relationship are very individual, but some qualities that are often favored in a union are more prevalent in same-sex unions. Gay male couples report having more autonomy, while lesbian couples report more intimacy, autonomy, and equality than straight couples.