2 questions, one is tmi

1.) We have a 10 month old dd. She slept through the night for about a week and then got the flu. Since she has been sick she gets up two times again at night and we feed her. I was wondering if anyone knows how we can get her to sleep through the night again? I don't mind some cio but when I try it she cries for an hour or more and I end up giving in and feeding her.

2.) TMI So since dd has been born my husband tries to spice things up in the bedroom. He wants to play different games or roll play. I don't mind doing this stuff, but most of the time I am so tired that I just want to do it so I can go to sleep. Does anyone have the same issue or know how I can speed things up. I have talked to him about it and he just says he thinks we need to work at being more intimate with each other.

Thanks :-)

Hello everyone-

I have a couple of questions:

1.) We have a 10 month old dd. She slept through the night for about a week and then got the flu. Since she has been sick she gets up two times again at night and we feed her. I was wondering if anyone knows how we can get her to sleep through the night again? I don't mind some cio but when I try it she cries for an hour or more and I end up giving in and feeding her.

2.) TMI So since dd has been born my husband tries to spice things up in the bedroom. He wants to play different games or roll play. I don't mind doing this stuff, but most of the time I am so tired that I just want to do it so I can go to sleep. Does anyone have the same issue or know how I can speed things up. I have talked to him about it and he just says he thinks we need to work at being more intimate with each other.

Have you tried increasing the amount she gets in her bottle before she goes down for the night? Another option may be to give her a small meal a half hour or so before bed like oatmeal or a piece of toast. As for your second issue-I think you are doing the right thing by communicating to him that most days you are exhausted and maybe talk about a special night where you agree to experiential with him in the bedroom.

Have you tried increasing the amount she gets in her bottle before she goes down for the night? Another option may be to give her a small meal a half hour or so before bed like oatmeal or a piece of toast. As for your second issue-I think you are doing the right thing by communicating to him that most days you are exhausted and maybe talk about a special night where you agree to experiential with him in the bedroom.

It's hard when they get sick and regress. Start doing what you did in the first time to get her to sttn. For the second good communication helps but so does no plans on the weekend and when DD naps don't clean or worry about other chores and have fun like before we were parents.

It's hard when they get sick and regress. Start doing what you did in the first time to get her to sttn. For the second good communication helps but so does no plans on the weekend and when DD naps don't clean or worry about other chores and have fun like before we were parents.

Our LO is 10 months also an was sleeping through the night for about 2 weeks when she got sick as well. As soon as she was completely better she went back to sleeping through the night. She would also wake up more when teething. When she wasn't sleeping through the night we were cosleeping so she was use to eating all night. When we switched her over to the crib she would wake up once or twice, which I was fine with since was used to eating so much, I didn't wan to completely cut her off. When she wakes up now, I go in to check on her and she makes it pretty obvious when she's hungry so ill feed her. If she's not hungry then I put her right back down and she falls back asleep. In m opinion it is still perfectly fine to have night feeds with a 10 month old, it just might mean a little less sleep for you.

Our LO is 10 months also an was sleeping through the night for about 2 weeks when she got sick as well. As soon as she was completely better she went back to sleeping through the night. She would also wake up more when teething. When she wasn't sleeping through the night we were cosleeping so she was use to eating all night. When we switched her over to the crib she would wake up once or twice, which I was fine with since was used to eating so much, I didn't wan to completely cut her off. When she wakes up now, I go in to check on her and she makes it pretty obvious when she's hungry so ill feed her. If she's not hungry then I put her right back down and she falls back asleep. In m opinion it is still perfectly fine to have night feeds with a 10 month old, it just might mean a little less sleep for you.

My lo used to wake up at night 2 to 4 times. I fed her every time. I weaned her off my breast at 1 and magic happened, she STTN since. I'm not sure if its this or if it is that she started eating more solids as well. But she was eating the same since she was 10 months. I say decide when you want to stop bf and if it is a close date, be patient. Good luck

My lo used to wake up at night 2 to 4 times. I fed her every time. I weaned her off my breast at 1 and magic happened, she STTN since. I'm not sure if its this or if it is that she started eating more solids as well. But she was eating the same since she was 10 months. I say decide when you want to stop bf and if it is a close date, be patient. Good luck

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