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Tuesday, 20 January 2015

I Met a New Cousin in 2014

I
don’t have a family tree on Ancestry
but I use the website, and the trees there to find information. As I pointed
out in my post about my
experience with MyHeritage, there is lots to be gained from having your
family tree on a public website, although I have just not got around to doing
it myself yet.

Lots
of trees have unsupported information and many are just exercises in adding
names without firm or even reasonable connections with families. I complained
about this in another post about looking
for my great-grandfather, Asa McDaniel.

Notwithstanding
the problems of online trees it is often possible to make connections with real
family members. I was fortunate last year in doing just that through my
Ancestry searches.

I
regularly look for Shepheard families in hope of finding new information on my
English roots and to meet cousins who are also looking at the same people. Many
of the people I end up contacting are only indirectly related to my family,
mainly having direct ancestors who may have married into the Shepheard line.
That’s not a bad thing because, in looking at those other branches, they may
have different sources of data and different expertise.

One
such gentleman I contacted on Ancestry (I
won’t use last names here as many people I will mention are still living and
their privacy is important) was looking at information about the families of
his wife’s ancestors, including one person that had married a Shepheard. In this case, a daughter of the 4th
great-grandfather of John’s wife was herself the 2nd great-grandmother
of the man, Leslie, who had married Margery Teresa, the daughter of my great-grandfather’s
brother, John. Margery was my 1st cousin, twice removed.
OK, so that’s really very confusing. But the important part is that this
researcher knew a bit more about Leslie's family and that offered another avenue
into information about my direct line.

John
had found that Leslie and Margery had three sons, Roger, David and Peter. I,
too, had figured that out from birth records on FreeBMD. The index for this time period
is very helpful as it shows the maiden name of the mother. I knew that Margery had two brothers, Alfred Harry and Wilfrid Jack, and that Wilfrid
had a daughter named Pauline. I had traced the parents of these individuals,
who all lived in the London region, from our common ancestors in Devon. I had a
few photos of some of them that had belonged to my great-grandfather, although
I was not entirely sure of who was who in the pictures because not all of the
notes on them were complete.

I
knew quite a bit about my 1st cousins (twice removed) but really
wanted to find their children and grandchildren, if there were any, especially
any that might still be alive. But I was stymied at this point as I could not trace
them past the 1911 England census and likely marriages and deaths for them,
again found on FreeBMD. John and I thought there was a reasonable chance that children
of Alfred Harry, Wilfrid Jack and Margery Teresa could still be alive as they
were all born in the 1930s.

Both
John and I had tried to contact one of the Ancestry tree-owners in 2013, who we
believed was related to Leslie and Margery but neither of us got a response.
After comparing notes we both thought this individual might be Margery's son, David.

John
had found who he thought were David and his wife on a UK electoral register
list for 2002-2013 (also on Ancestry), living in Kent. All of the names for the
family shown on the list appeared to match information we had found from other
sources so we thought this lead was worth pursuing. I decided to write to the
Kent address and see. The only thing I could lose would be the cost of postage
if this was not the right family.

The
letter went off in August 2014. I included information about who I was and how
I thought we were related. I put my full postal address and my email address in
the letter to make any response easier. In September I received an email from David’s
wife, Marian. She confirmed that David was indeed Margery’s son, my 2nd
cousin, once removed. David had passed away around 2009 which explains why we
had not been able to make any contact with the Ancestry tree-owner, even though
the tree was still visible online. His two brothers had died some time earlier
so there were now fewer direct-line cousins that I could meet.

Pauline,
however, is still around. She married in 1959 and is living in Derbyshire. Marian
contacted her by telephone and asked if she would mind hearing from me. Pauline
was very surprised to hear from a Canadian cousin and very open to corresponding.
She is not “connected” so I sent another letter off to her right away. Shortly
afterward, I also had an email from the widow (Liz) of one of David’s brothers,
Peter. Peter had passed away as well, in 2000. Marian has also called Liz to let
her know of my interest. Marian and Liz were able to provide me with quite a
bit of information on both their families and on Pauline.
All of a sudden I had the names and addresses of several more family members
and an opportunity to learn more about the branch that had moved from Devon to
London around 1900.

After
a number of years of searching for and wondering about them, I could now
correspond directly with cousins who share the same ancestry as me. I sent
Pauline copies of the photos that had come down to me from my
great-grandfather. As it happened the names I had on some of them were wrong
and she was able to set me straight. One of them is shown below, taken at the
1928 wedding of Margery and Leslie. The family called her Midge which I was
delighted to hear because I had another photo in the collection with only the
name Midge written on the back. Thanks to Pauline I now had that one
identified.

1928 wedding
photo for Leslie and Margery Teresa. Margery’s brother, Wiflrid, second from
left, was the best man. Her parents are immediately to the right of her, both wearing
glasses.

My
great-grandfather stayed in touch with his family back in England
after he emigrated to Canada in1913. He had photos of many of them taken right
up into the mid-1930s. Thanks to a family tree posted on Ancestry and some
sleuthing of mine and of John’s I was able to track down my cousins and begin
to catch up on our own family histories. It was especially delightful to
finally meet, at least by letter, the little girl in the photo below that I had
wondered about for so long.

Wayne Shepheard is a volunteer with the Online Parish Clerk program in England, handling four parishes in Devon, England. He has published a number of articles about
various aspects of genealogy and is a past Editor of Chinook, the quarterly journal of the Alberta Family Histories
Society. Wayne also provides genealogical consulting services through his
business, Family History
Facilitated.

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The photo in the background of this website is of the Miller-Watson Family, taken in Manhattan, Kansas, USA, around 1886. My great-grandfather, Isaac Mayfield Miller, is in the back row, second from the right. My 2nd great-grandmother, Hannah Tunstal (Mayfield) Miller-Watson, is seated front-centre. The other individuals are all of Hannah's other children from both of her marriages.

About Me

Wayne has pursued family history research for a number of decades, on
his own behalf and for others. He volunteers as an Online Parish Clerk,
handling four parishes in Devon, England. Wayne has also been active with a number of family history societies and is the past editor of two family history society journals. He is also an author of several articles
published in a number of different genealogical journals and has made
presentations at genealogical conferences. Following a long and successful
career as a geologist in the oil & gas industry, Wayne now pursues
genealogy as a hobby and a second line of work through his business, Family
History Facilitated.

Wayne is a native Calgarian and a descendant of many immigrants to
southern Alberta who originated in England, Scotland, Germany, the United
States and possibly other areas not yet determined. He actively explores many
family branches spread across Canada, the United States, the United Kingdom and
Europe.