We would like to inform that we are hosting our Speed Dating Event in Tokyo. This year, it will be held on July 7th. We hope that many male members can take part from all over the world, especially the US, since July 4 is the national holiday and it’s a summer holiday for many people around the world. Do you want to celebrate July 4th sitting alone at home watching fireworks on television? Or, would you rather meet many single Japanese women in Tokyo? We host our speed dating event in Tokyo just once a year. Our ...

We have started Omiai meetings on Skype which are exclusively for TJM’s Full Members. These are Skype meetings between our male and female clients. We encourage all of our male members to talk with our female members in person at Omiai Meetings during the early stage of correspondence. There are five big benefits to this. (What is Omiai = O-miai ? ) You will see her big smile when you talk on Skype. You will more fully understand her personality. You will hear her beautiful voice. You will gain an understanding of her English skills. You will notice her attractive ...

We receive feedback from both our male and female clients after their first meeting. When a woman declines a man, there are some reasons. It is not always regarding him, but it is because of something unexpected. We would like to share with you what many Japanese women pay attention to on your first date. In the feedback form, Japanese women write about the behavior of their dates. Many of them will watch to see how he treats the waiter or waitress at the café. If he shows a terrible attitude toward the waiter or waitress at the café, ...

This weekend, I was excited to watch Yuzuru Hanyu’s figure skating performance at the Pyeong Chang 2018 Olympics. I am so proud of him for getting a gold medal! https://www3.nhk.or.jp/nhkworld/en/news/20180217_18/ He always shows mindfulness, modesty and appreciation. He never behaves arrogant even though he is the top skater in the world. At his interview after his gold medal performance, he credited the encouragement and support he received from people around him as helping him win the gold medal. He shows appreciation for his coaches, friends, family, lighting technicians, prop men, security guards, and all other staff members. I ...

Happy Valentine's Day! You may not know that in Japan Valentine’s Day is the day that women give men a gift. The gift is generally chocolate. It is not always a romantic custom, but a kind of obligation at the workplace. Women give their bosses and male colleagues chocolate as a gift. For Japanese women Valentines’ day is not that happy. They don’t expect to receive flowers from men. If you have a Japanese girlfriend with whom you have been corresponding with for a while, it would be nice to celebrate Valentine’s Day together. She will be surprised and ...

I talked with one of our male clients who is creating a great relationship with one of our female members. He traveled to Japan for several meetings with Japanese women last year, and then he decided to communicate with one woman in order to know her more. His status is IN RELATIONSHIP so he told us that he doesn’t need any more introductions. Wow! That was quick. “You have changed my life!” I am happy and proud of myself when I hear these words. Thank you very much! He asked how he can help her to improve her ...

After we shared tour first report of “We are engaged” in 2018 in our last newsletter, some of our members wrote to us, “Me Too!” One of our couples just got engaged and completed filing her fiancé visa. We are so glad to hear their wonderful news. “Congratulations!” Recently, the US has created stricter controls for immigrants coming into the US. The new controls also affect Japanese women. One of our female members who just filed her fiancé visa wrote to us that it may take nearly one year to obtain her fiancé visa. Usually, it takes 6 ...

We just received a message from one of our male members, “We are engaged!” This is the first “Congratulations!” in 2018, and we are so happy to hear that! He became our member 6 month ago. He was introduced to our company from one of our former members who got married a few years ago. We really appreciate referrals from happy couples since we believe that happy people are in a happy community and the links of happiness will last forever. If you know of professional singles around you, would you please let them know about our service?! The ...

We offer two different ways for us to introduce your first three candidates: We select candidates for our clients. The clients select candidates by themselves. Many of our male members want to select their candidates by themselves. Most likely many people are used to doing so from playing on online dating sites. We understand that men want to be in control and make their own decisions. However, if you are divorced it would be better to let your personal matchmaker select candidates for you. You will not want to make the same mistakes again, and your matchmaker is happy to ...

Many of our male clients have told us they plan to visit Japan to meet our female members, and that is GREAT! Although, we announced about our Speed Dating Event in Tokyo this summer, some of them have told us, “I can’t wait until summer!” They want to travel to Japan more than once a year. That’s FABULIOUS! Today, I would like to share our suggested 3 Step Questions for your first meeting to ensure that Japanese women will appreciate you. After our members’ first meetings, we receive feedback from both male and female members. Some Japanese women send ...