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“I want You More than I want Her”

I think J said once we should concentrate on making ourselves fabulous rather than stressing about the other wife.
This is so true – on my nights I’ve been digging out a few of the old favourites too haha, it helps a lot when you feel special, we forget we have our own part to play in that too!

Hub just popped in to say goodnight when he got back from mosque (it’s not my night) & even though I wasn’t dressed up or anything he was all “grr!” haha making small efforts have a lasting affect on men!
His parting words were “tell me who you get your magic from – 8 years and I still can’t get enough!”
(PS he’s joking about the magic – non of that nonsense in his house In’shaa Allāh!)

Read it again:

His parting words were “tell me who you get your magic from – 8 years and I still can’t get enough!”

A wife is sharing how her husband stops by to say hi on his way to his second wife. This wife is saying how good it makes her feel to put some sexy lingerie on and entice her husband. There can be no sex, because it’s not her night. But the wife is playing the “compete for you husband and buy it when he tells both of you that you are the one he loves and wants the most”-game that muslim husbands are taught by islamic scholars.

Look at what he tells her! “I still can’t get enough”. And then he leaves to go fuck his new wife.

The hypocrisy of muslim polygyny is nauseating. And the reaction of the wives is heart- breakingly sickening. This wife is now gloating about how her husband regards her as a great fuck, and is using this as a way to cope with the fact that he’s choosing to fuck another woman instead. While she’s sitting alone there in her lingerie, her husband is upstairs in the other flat banging the new sexy wife who probably is competing and joining in the “giving good head wearing Victoria’s Secret-game”.

And the wife is consoling herself with the fact that dear hubs of course loves her most, and only wanted a second wife to care for some poor woman who would have been forced to live a sad lonely life without him.

Muslim misogynist polygyny is evil, but it wouldn’t be possible if the women didn’t allow it.

Yes, certainly there are women who get a rush from sharing their husbands, and I’m fine with that! 🙂 However, every man who claims the right to become polygamous should have to accept his wives’ right to become polygamous too! So when hub’s away banging his new wife, the first wife should naturally be allowed to slip away in her beautiful lingerie to HER second husband should she want to! 😀

I agree completely ^^ Most men can’t handle what they expect their wives to handle though. It’s like a woman is a man’s property, while he doesn’t belong to her and can do whatever he wants. I’m so glad I’m not obliged to deal with that bullshit anymore, although unfortunately the western men I’ve encountered seem to have a little tendency towards this as well.

What seems to fly in the face of reason is why men-western or otherwise- think this is their god- given right to fuck more than one woman when we women are far more capable of actually following through on competing sexual interests both physiologically and emotionally. This reality in contrast with the social expectation strikes me as bizarre.

“when we women are far more capable of actually following through on competing sexual interests both physiologically and emotionally”

Very true. Scientifically proven. The slower curve of arousal of women, the ability to sustain multiple orgasms – biologically, predestines them to engage with several males in one go. Orgies maximize the likelihood of conception, and the fittest genes will win the competition – in the interest of survival and improvement of the species a very desirable biology. Nature as it really is as opposed to how religious leaders make it out to be is somehow not as celebrated, oddly.