The pop star’s past can be a lot to deal with.

Taylor Swiftand boyfriend Joe Alwyn may be in mad love, but neither of their mothers is ready for bad blood!

“Andrea has seen Taylor get burned so many times and it never stops being painful,” a source tells Star. “Andrea will always be a shoulder to cry on, but Andrea’s emotionally drained. Hopefully, this latest boy won’t be too much drama.”

“Dating Taylor comes with a lot of attention, and she’s worried that Joe isn’t ready for that,” adds a friend of the British film school grad, who still lives with his parents in Crouch End, England. “Joe’s folks are afraid Taylor is going to swallow him whole!”