A new study suggests a whopping 89 percent of us are using Facebook to monitor our ex boyfriends and girlfriends.

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And an even higher number copped to lurking in order to gain intel on their exes’ new romantic interest, while three in 10 said they posted photos to try to make their ex-lovers jealous. All of which seems to merely confirm what we knew in our guts: When it comes to lost love, most of us can’t just “get over it.”