A little piece of my heart

When having a boyfriend or girlfriend ideally we like to think that we are the only ones that have their heart, but in reality… is that even possible. Ideally it would be nice to say “you have all of my heart” but what does that really mean? I have said ‘I love you’ to three different guys, and I meant it each and every time. Those words are not to be taken lightly, and they weren’t. I truly did love them when I said it, and I even say ‘I love you with all my heart’ that is a little different. What defines all of your heart. All the room that is left in your heart? I honestly can say that I have said ‘I love you with all my heart’ to two guys, and I meant it. I personally think that ‘I love you with all my heart’ = ‘I love you with all the space left in me heart’. Because once you love someone I don’t believe that love goes away. There will always be those little things that you can’t stop thinking about. Or that one time when you realized you loved that person, or the little things. I am a firm believer that the little things add up to be more important than the big things. And even though as life goes on and we date people and break up with them, or as we love someone and lose someone they will always be in our hearts. And as the spaces in our hearts gets filled up we just have to fit the new love into a smaller-ish place. I don’t think that your heart is ever to full for more love. So even though past loves have a piece of your heart that doesn’t make your present love have any less of it. So even though we like to think that we are the only person that they love, it’s not true, they might love their past loves, but that doesn’t make them love us any less. Just make sure that if you say I love you, mean it. Those are not words to take lightly. There will be more on this later.