it states that boys must ask for consent during EVERY STEP of a hook up situation. Not doing so can result in the boy being deemed a rapist. For instance, you must request consent before kissing, then you must ask for consent AGAIN before touching any part of the girls body, and must ask A THIRD TIME before going any further. Holy shit is there any way to kill the mood quicker? its amazing how many young boys are going to see this and ruin everything with a girl.

"i just want to make sure its ok with you before i kiss you" lol what a joke

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I mean it's annoying, but I can understand where it stems from.Honestly though, if you're going along with it, then for me, that's what I believe to be consent. Not everyone feels the same way which is cool, but I'll let you know if I don't wanna do anything lmao.

lol exaclty. if you go along with it = consent. its that simple but politicians corrupted by feminism buy into the idea that women are always victims

this law is basically telling women they aren't competent enough to verbally speak up and tell a guy no and to fuck off. it absolves women of responsibility when it comes to something that should be mutual.

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The consent rule appears to be insane, until you realise that the real purpose of the rule is to prevent normal heterosexual relationships from occurring. Once you understand that, everything makes sense.'Yes means yes' is a poisoned fruit of the tree of Feminism, which springs from the toxic soil of Cultural Marxism.The purpose of Feminism is to undermine Western Civilisation by destroying the family unit, to cause men and women to see each other as enemies and to thereby cause fewer white babies to be born.Other races that are present in the West have also been affected, but they are collateral damage rather than the intended target.

@DistantI have to say, as a former soldier, that I would think twice before I suited up again to defend a bunch of ungrateful treacherous harpies who would stab me in the back the moment that my usefulness had ended.

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I know rape exist... but this is nuts. If a girl consents to sleep with a guy... that should be all that is needed. Guys... if a girl consents then demands this step thing... get up and walk out. Go home and jerk it off. I'm not saying if she changes her mind. But if this becomes the norm... girls you better get a dildo. You are going to need it.

@BubbleBoy69 Thing is, under the "yes means yes" rule, a girl's effectively telling a guy to stop even after consenting during sex whenever she isn't saying "yes!" at that moment in time. Because only yes means yes, and everything else, including silence, means no. So every time she stops saying yes, every time that she stops to breathe, if he continues fucking her when she's breathing in, then that legally constitutes an act of rape under the "yes means yes" law.

If she stops saying yes at any time, even if it's because she's out of breath and she doesn't say anything else besides yes throughout the sexual act, then any pause between saying "yes" one time and saying "yes" the next time would now legally be deemed sufficient grounds to press charges and qualify that encounter as "rape" if the female partner decided that she wanted to do so at a later stage. Because saying nothing means no under the "yes means yes" law. No-one's capable of saying "yesyesyesyesyesyesyes" continually for ten to fifteen minutes straight; and under the "yes means yes" consent rule, every ".", "," or "..." counts as a "no", counts as a withdrawal of consent. It's not humanly possible to abide by it.

I am so glad this exists. The first law that protects women and you're bashing it shame on you. Women deserve the protection we deserve and in this world consent is a good start. I'd like to see this a nationwide law.

its up to women to take accountability for their actions. if you dont want a guy hooking up with you its your job to tell him to "no" and to leave you alone if he still pursues then the law takes it from there.

you are the perfect example of liberal feminist brainwashing and the idea that people (women in this case) shouldn't take accountability for their choices. you need to re-read the chapters in your feminist textbook on responsibility.

I'm not a liberal the fact that you accuse everyone of being a libral who fight for equal rights for men and women completely throws away your whole argument. But women do say no and sometimes men misinterpret that with this law it's clear and women are protected. I think women need to be protected in this world where men are attacking us.

liberal ideology and feminism are intertwined with each other and go hand in hand. second, the fact that you think "men are attacking you" and that women are still "oppressed" proves my argument even further. modern day feminism is just a way for women to blame society aka "The evil patriarchy" for all the things they hate about men. For example, less women in america are interested in pursuing science and engineering careers than men are, therefor feminst logic dictates this occurs due the evil patriarchy attacking women and holding them down.

feminist have their own set of logic that not congruent with reality. feminism its not about "equality for men and women" its about pointing fingers and blaming men, and playing the victim card.

also the law isn't protecting anyone becuase those men out there who are rapist are gonna rape you regardless of the law. the solution is teaching women to stand up for themselves in awkward/potentially dangerous situations.. not creating some unrealistic rule that can't even be enforced.

for instance if you say no and some guy still harasses you, its up to YOU to tell him to leave the fuck alone or else your calling the police. you need learn how to take responsibility for your actions, not play the blame game.

Women are not equal to men in this society. Women are paid less, have more things to worry about, and are usually victims. Just don't attack us we're being attacked enough already. This law makes it illegal to do anything to a girl without consent. Without this law kissing could have turned into rape and it wouldn't even be called rape because the woman was initially consensual. Asking for consentiality is very important before every move. I support this law 100%.

there's tons of data out their that debunks the wage gap myth and im not gonna go on a rant about it. study up on the difference between "wages" first before you try to debate the notion of gender discrimination in the workplace. women actually have more options for jobs than men in most career fields by the way but thats not the issue here.

women do have more to fear since they are more physically vulnerable i agree but the solution to rape prevention. like i said above, the best solution for rape prevention is teaching women how to stand up for themsleves by take accountability for their actions and deflecting/stunting a situation that could turn into rape.

@AllThatSweetJazz you'll never win against a feminist and their twisted logic man. this girl is a textbook example of how feminism is brainwashing kids these days. they literally lack common sense so anything logical you say just gets twisted to make them the victims

why are their so many illogical women who dont want to admit how silly and unrealistic this law is? why are so many women brainwashed into supporting feminism in the first the place.. thats the REAL question

Why would the guy be the raper if both parties communicate interest with body language? A girl can initiate a kiss without asking but it's unwarranted if a guy does it? O_o I've never heard of that. So if I kiss a girl without asking every time I can be charge for rape lol? Maybe that's only true in a college dorm.

not getting any action soon? not sure if your directed that at me but i have a girlfriend buddy. im getting laid tomorrow. i have a feeling your not getting laid anytime soon though.

Obviously this law is aimed at men not women so men will be the ones reacting to it since this potentially threatens the way men approach and meet women. doesn't take a genius to see that. nobody is denying the vast majority of rape victims are women, noones arguing that. The point is that this specific law is a laughable and unrealistic solution to the issue of rape

the law that im speaking of precociously forbids non verbal consent, genius

Also, i can tell by your T-shirt alone your autistic as fuck mate. go be a social justice warrior somewhere else little kid. also are you gay? you must think because i am good looking my avatar "must be fake?" lol your pathetic kid

It's not even worth dating in this country anymore. Until women realize that feminism and anti male sentiment, aka sexism, is ruinining America, then us men will have absolutely nothing to do with you.

Until women START ACTING LIKE WOMEN, and not trying to be hard asses, then we don't want anything to do with you.

Until women stop falsely accusing men of rape for compliments, then we don't want jack shit to do with you. Even the most innocent remark about women will get men in trouble, but there's no limit at all to what women can say about men.

Because non-consensual filming of a sexual partner is now a criminal offence as well, so that if the body cam's rolling and gets her in the shot before she consents to being filmed, that also constitutes a form of sexual assault.

i agree that many republicans are overzealous religious nuts but i think they have the best ideas for fixing the economy which is the most important issue in the us right now. it would be nice to keep religion and politics separate but Christianity is too deeply intertwined in the RNC for it to be removed altogether.

maybe you can explain what you mean by them allowing infrastructure to go to hell?

Prolific Neighborhood Slut, putting on the waterworks- "I stopped saying yes for a few seconds to draw breath, while this guy was in the middle of having sex with me like I'd begged him to, a few months ago, and he kept thrusting inside of me even though I wasn't screaming yes for those few seconds! Only yes means yes- I wasn't saying yes any more, he took control AWAY from me! So he RAPED me! HE'S A RAPIST!"Californian Police Statement Taker (legally obligated to be a female cop when taking a female's statement), nodding sympathetically- "Oh, I know, I know love. He did, he DID rape you. All non-gay men are filthy scum, aren't they? Let's go take out the white cis-male hetero garbage! And I promise you, if this guy resists arrest, makes a fuss or denies the charges against him, I'll take my police-issue pistol and blow his balls off for you! We women have to stand up for each other, protect each other against the evil manbeasts!"

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Or maybe women should learn how to defend themselves.

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I understand the intent to protect women as many men will go a little to far. Example: Man and woman are getting heavy. He wants to go further, she does not. However, I also consider that this is yet another law that targets men and leaves women alone. There is a law that states that getting drunk and giving consent does not give consent. That I find to be bullshit. You are responsible for you and you alone in that regard. Don't drink too much so you get drunk if you can't own up to your actions.

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Retarded law. Is it officially gender specific? Although even if it's not I highly doubt anyone will bother to enforce it against women.

Would leave anywhere that law applies.

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lol fuck that shit! i'll do whatever i want

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No more wake up oral sex. And while some people are saying that it only is for college students to prevent "accidental rape" It actually can be applied to any couple at any age. There are no restrictions on who it can be used on and it doesn't care about context either. If someone doesn't ask a specific question and someone doesn't give a specific yes then the woman is a victim of rape and the guy is thrown in prison for being a rapist.

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