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Never, ever, EVER, go to bed angry. It will just let the argument fester overnight and will cause a tense morning. Instead, figure out a way to both get to a point where you are calm and (if needed) can discuss the issue later.

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Remember, neither of you are right 100% of the time. Always be willing to apologize, and never forget the reasons why you love this person. Make sure to show some physical affection each day, if possible.

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If you seek a happy marriage, it is important to enjoy the partnership without compromising personal identity. Said another way, two form a marriage union, but the two are not extinguished. Continue to embrace your personal goals in marriage, recognizing that the vision of the individual can inform and strengthen the marital relationship. If your partner insists on a diminished “you” in the mmarriage, is not a partner you want to yoke yourself to “until death do you part.” Similarly, encourage your partner to express and nurture his or her expressions of individuality, too.