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A while back, I was heartbroken when The Princess sent me a text that she had accidentally deleted all pictures of our kids (2004 to present day) from what used to be "our" computer. I told her to stop using it, and get it to a data recovery place as quickly as possible. That was months ago, and she hasn't done this yet.

This is because she is a fucking boob.

Well, I was on my iPod this morning, and found all 1200-ish missing pictures. I had forgotten I even had them on there! So I now have all these pictures back, and don't have to wait for her to do something about it.

I was so excited that I sent a text to 13 and 10 to tell them about it. I guess I could have kept it private, and not have to send them to their mom, but that would have been mean. So, I will happily burn them onto a CD to give to her.

Of course, that's assuming that she doesn't already have copies of them. She could have been lying to me about the whole thing. I really don't trust anything that comes out of her mouth anymore.

But HURRAH!

Me: 47
Two sons: Born 2000 and 2003
Cheating louse: What's her name again?

Married Aug/95
DDay Nov/12
Separated Mar/13
Finally divorced Jul/17

The best thing about hitting rock bottom is that everything after that looks fucking fabulous!

Posts: 3407 | Registered: Jan 2013 | From: Ontario, Canada

nowiknow23♀ 33226Member # 33226

Posted: 12:48 PM, March 11th (Tuesday), 2014

YAY!!!!

You can call me NIK

And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane

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Jennifer99♀ 39551Member # 39551

Posted: 12:49 PM, March 11th (Tuesday), 2014

WOOOOOOOOOO!

Posts: 557 | Registered: Jun 2013

TrustedHer♂ 23328Member # 23328

Posted: 12:50 PM, March 11th (Tuesday), 2014

Please, please, please, burn a CD or two and store in a safe place.

Now.

Take care of yourself. There's a great future out there. It won't come to you; you have to go to it.

Posts: 5657 | Registered: Mar 2009 | From: DeepInTheHeartOf, TX

ThisHell♀ 37089Member # 37089

Posted: 12:50 PM, March 11th (Tuesday), 2014

Yay! BUT...nooope! Do not take that initiative! Do not be codependent! It is no longer your responsibility! You have the pics for yourself, that's great.

She has a method of retrieving them and has chosen not to! SHOULD the kids tell her and SHE ask if you could, tell her to give you a flash drive at the next drop off and you will give it back with the pics, but only if she asks!

Me:BW, 34/Him:BH, 34/ 3 boys, 5,8,12
4ddays, now Divorced
We are not in Kansas anymore

Posts: 309 | Registered: Oct 2012 | From: NC

jo2love♀ 31528Member # 31528

Posted: 1:12 PM, March 11th (Tuesday), 2014

Awesome!!

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Pass♂ 38122Member # 38122

Posted: 2:17 PM, March 11th (Tuesday), 2014

That makes sense, ThisHell. Thanks!

Me: 47
Two sons: Born 2000 and 2003
Cheating louse: What's her name again?

Married Aug/95
DDay Nov/12
Separated Mar/13
Finally divorced Jul/17

The best thing about hitting rock bottom is that everything after that looks fucking fabulous!

Posts: 3407 | Registered: Jan 2013 | From: Ontario, Canada

h0peless♂ 36697Member # 36697

Posted: 2:23 PM, March 11th (Tuesday), 2014

That's great news! It might be time to invest in a small amount of cloud storage to make sure they're safe.

Posts: 2902 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: Baja Arizona

Pass♂ 38122Member # 38122

Posted: 2:26 PM, March 11th (Tuesday), 2014

Just did that, Hopeless. Thanks!

Me: 47
Two sons: Born 2000 and 2003
Cheating louse: What's her name again?

Married Aug/95
DDay Nov/12
Separated Mar/13
Finally divorced Jul/17

The best thing about hitting rock bottom is that everything after that looks fucking fabulous!

Posts: 3407 | Registered: Jan 2013 | From: Ontario, Canada

PurpleRose♀ 33129Member # 33129

Posted: 2:32 PM, March 11th (Tuesday), 2014

What a relief! The doosh is an IT guy and photos/videos were his thing.

:(

I am glad you have your memories!

divorced the Dooosh 8/13
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Dance like nobody is watching,
Text and email like it will be used in court someday...

Posts: 3870 | Registered: Aug 2011 | From: Happyville

SBB♀ 35229Member # 35229

Posted: 3:56 PM, March 11th (Tuesday), 2014

Best.News.Ever!!!

I may have reached a point where I'd piss on him if he was on fire.... eventually!!

Posts: 6000 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: Australia

Must Survive♀ 34533Member # 34533

Posted: 4:32 PM, March 11th (Tuesday), 2014

Yeah Pass!

T/J STBXH was kicked out and was given everything of his. He never has requested ANY pics or mementos at all. In 20 years, he has 1 picture maybe of his son. Nothing else, except what he may have taken now since Dday.

I will never give him a copy of them. As far as I am concerned, he left, he gets nothing.

Umm still angry, healing not completed apparently.

Me BS
WS: Just a squished bug on the window of my life!
Divorced-Let my new beginning start

They have a choice: they can live in my new world, or they can die in their old one." — Daenerys Targaryen