Building a House: The Perspective from the Foundation

Authored by
maceo mcarthur nesmith III

Building a house is exactly the same as building a relationship. A house and a relationship both require a strong foundation. Before one can contribute to building a foundation with someone else, he or she must build his or her own individual foundation. Two individual foundations equal a strong foundation. Our Learning lessons from our Experiences are a part of our individual foundations. In this book you will learn how to address your emotions, shift your perspective on all (Positive & Negative) of your experiences and learn the lessons within your experiences. By shifting your perspective and learning the lessons, you will be able to create "Foundational-Questions" to determine compatibility with another individual. You will also learn the difference between "Foundational & Surface Questions".

"Society" utilizes "Surface Questions" to develop compatibility; which leads you to Day 30 asking yourself, "Who are you? What happened to the person I met on Day 1?" My "Foundational Questions" will have you saying, "Who are you?" on Day 1 and on Day 30 you will say, "I sure am glad you're the same person I met on Day 1."

The overall objective for this book is for people to realize all their answers are within and to separate themselves from "Bass-ackwards Society". Additionally, you will learn the difference between a "Foundation" relationship (Deep) & a "Surface" relationship (Shallow). This is an equal opportunity book that focuses on individuals (Internal) and not genders (External).