Tulsi Vivah – Lord Vishnu’s Wedding

Tulsi Vivah is considered the beginning of the wedding season in India in the month of Kartik, which occurs in October/November every year. Tulsi vivah is conducted on the day after Kartik Ekadashi (the eleventh bright day of the new moon, Amavasya). According to Hindu mythology, Tulsi is ceremonially married to Lord Vishnu on this day. The festival continues for five days and concludes on the full moon day.

In 2010, Tulsi Vivah will be observed from November 17th to November 21st.

The festival is based on the legend of the marriage (or vivah) of the holy basil plant (or Tulsi) with Lord Vishnu. The tulsi plant is considered holy by many hindus and traditional hindu homes used to have tulsi plant growing in the courtyard. Offerings were made to the tulsi plant every morning and evening during the daily prayers. But how can there be a festival devoted to the marriage of a plant and a God? We have to turn to legend and mythology for an explanation.

Tulsi is considered to be an incarnation of Maha Lakshmi, who was born as Vrinda in her previous birth. Vrinda was married to a demon king Jalandhar. But she prayed to Lord Vishnu that her demon husband would be protected, with the result that no God was able to harm him. However on the request of the other gods, Lord Vishnu took the form of Jalandhar and stayed with the unsuspecting Tulsi. When the truth emerged after Jalandhar’s death, Vrinda crused Vishnu and turned him to stone (Shaligram) and collapsed. From her body emerged the tulsi plant. That is why Vishnu pooja is considered incomplete without tulsi leaves.. Since then, every year Tulsi is married to Lord Vishnu and the event is known as Tulsi Shaligram Vivah. It is said that the person who performs the custom of giving away Tulsi to Lord Vishnu, considering her to be his own daughter, is considered to earn the credit of performing kanya-daan.

Another legend says that Tulsi came out of the ocean during Amrita manthan as a younger sister of Lakshmi. She was devoted to Lord Vishnu and wanted to marry him but Lakshmi, who was already married to him, did not like the idea and cursed her to become a plant. Thus the tulsi plant was born. But the all merciful Lord Vishnu took pity and fulfilling her wish declared that when he will be in the form of a saligram she will remain close to him in the form of a tulsi leaf.

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Hindu culture has always taught that there is one consciousness pervading all living beings including the vegetable kingdom. The Tulsi is the living example of that teaching. The holy Tulsi has been given a special place in all religious ceremonies including ritual sacrifices and other types of worship. We find the Tulsi plant in the small gardens of homes of Hindus and in the temples.

This is the celebration of the marriage ceremony of Srimati Tulsi Devi and Lord Sri Krishna. The incident is to be found in the story of Tulsi at the link below.
For those enthusiastic to perform the ceremony on Srimati Tulsi Devi and Her Lord (to be performed upon the Shaligram Shila) one can follow the following simple proceedure(s).

Holy basil represents purity, serenity, harmony, luck, happiness and good health. It is given the Sanskrit name ‘tulsi’ which means ‘incomparable’. The Brahmins hold it sacred to the gods Krishna and Vishnu. The story goes that this plant is the transformed nymph Tulasi, beloved of Krishna. For this reason the plant is cultivated in pots of brick pillars with hollows at the top in which earth is deposited. It is daily watered and worshipped by all members of the family.

4 Responses to Tulsi Vivah – Lord Vishnu’s Wedding

Tulsi is the pure plant; Vrinda, having had sex outside marriage, remains pure!
The patriarchiaal instinct demands that women be faithful to their husbands even when husbands enjoy other’s wives and live lustful lives. Tulasi as Vrinda was faithful to her husband but her husband always enjoyed with others’ wives. As a punishment and an irony, Vishnu performs sex with Vrinda. As a revenge to men, and an irony to women’s faithfulness, Vrinda as Tulsi will always be married to Vishnu. It also shows that women cannot be impure even after having sex with other men; an example of gender equality. Good work of Hinduism. You need to understand Hinduism in depth.

Thank you for sharing the legend on Tulsi and Lord Vishnu. Please continue to post on other historical facts or legends on Hinduism. They are full of enlightenment and increases our logic of thinking. I hope parents are sharing with their children.