How can I overcome this insecurity I have with my breasts?

I have posted a question about my breasts before but this is a different viewpoint. I have never seriously dated anyone and im only 19 but i am also referencing for the future too. I AM EXTREMELY INSECURE about my breasts. And I dont know why I cant stop this insecurity from controlling my life. My breasts are NOT ATTRACTIVE and please dont tell me they probably aint that bad because it doesnt matter. ALL I WANT TO KNOW IS... Does what a young womans breasts look like matter a significant amount in a relationship? How can I overcome this blockage in my life? What do men think? I am just afraid that I am going to get hurt by some asshole if I trust them to see my biggest flaw. If you want to know what my breasts are like read my question posted before this one. Thanks.

When a man is in LOVE with YOU, all they wanna do is curl up next to your naked body...regardless of how it looks.

You are 19. Guys in your age range and even into 20s are going to be very superficial because they are not seeking DEPTH, they just wanna get their D wet on something that catches their eye....

Walk around...look at people walking down the street. How many of them are paired up with perfection, yet are happy?

Lastly, lack of confidence is a turn off...some guy may not even notice what you perceive as a problem unless you bring it up. In the meantime, explore bras and exercises that can help. Some people do actually need plastic surgery to correct defects, but with you being 19, not sure if you really need work or have other issues that need to be addressed.

@ThisGal:
thank you for this ♡. And I know that if someone loves me for me that they wont care. But I think I need to fix them for me... I honestly believe that I have a form of Tubular breasts with extreme ptosis (sagging) and my breasts sometimes pull down on my skin of my chest so its uncomfortable. Also they dont fit into bras properly because of their shape. I just feel like I need to give myself "youthfulness" that I never got to experience even though I am 19 now and the years to come.

I honestly do not think you will overcome your mental block until/unless you decide the world is not judging your breasts as harshly as you do. And until/unless you allow someone to show you how delightful they are to him, you likely will not believe they are not a huge factor to your overall attractiveness.

It is interesting that you chose to label yourself as anonymouslycute. Do you believe corrective surgery will take you from just cute to perfect? Remember, whatever you choose to do cosmetically will only change the outside, it will not alter whatever is going on with your insides.

Most women are wearing bras that do not fit them correctly. They usually buy off-the-shelf bras, (or mail order), and they are not even their size. Take a good look at some women, either the bra is so tight it is cutting into their sides and back, or it allows the breasts to sag down by their knees.

You need to go to a shop that will measure and fit you with a bra that gives the support and shape you desire. It is not cheap, but your alternatives are more expensive. Even if you have to get one made it will be worth it. A correct fitting bra with the correct shape for your breasts will make you feel 100% better, and will keep your breasts in the shape you desire. You need not be naked when having sex, many women keep their bra on, and if it is coupled with other sexy items a man will drool.

None of us are perfect.......not even those that think they are. Us men have to get certain items of wear hand-made due to mainstream outlets not being able to supply us with articles that are not the norm. A friend of mine gets his shoes hand-made because all the shoe-shop shoes simply give him grief.

Even if you get one bra that actually fits and gives the shape you want, you will be much happier. It means spending more than usual, but it is only money.......you cannot take it with you in death to spend. You are not alone in this problem, many women have similar problems, but just do not want to spend the extra on something that actually fits them, so decide to wear items that just do them absolutely no justice at all.........and us men notice it.

Once you get a correct bra for your shape, you can concentrate on other aspects of your life, knowing that you look good.

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