(Closed) I feel like I’m never gonna get married… Vent!!

So for the past couple months, it’s been nothing but battling schedules to meet with vendors. We communicate for weeks at a time trying to find a date to meet, and most of the time, one of us is busy! It doesn’t help that my fiance lives an hour away and works full time crazy hours, so he can barely make it down here. Before it was trying to get our enagement pictures set up… then we figured out a date, and my fiance found out that he had to work and couldn’t get out of it, so I had to call the photographer at the last second and plan them for the next day (day after I called her) because my fiance was able to get out of work. Then my fiance ended up getting stuck at work an hour late so we had to push the pictures back an hour again… fortunately we have a flexible and really nice photographer haha 🙂

Now I’ve been trying for weeks to figure out a time to meet with the Pastor. We’ve NEVER met with him, and we’re getting married in 3 months! We still have to have our pre-marital classes as well, but we haven’t even been able to set up an initial meeting, even though we have the date booked with him. It’s just getting REALLY frustrating! Every time I try to get in touch with him, he says it doesn’t work with his schedule, then gives me a couple days where he works nights or works mornings or just random hours, and most either I’m working or my fiance works and wouldn’t be able to get off work… GAHHHH! The ceremony is the ONE thing I feel like I don’t have control over right now, and with the wedding 3 months away I just feel like it will never get worked out….

Keep trying. I Know it does get really frustrating but it will work out.

Maybe try to identify a day or weekend that you and your FI can dedicate to planning and just put a ton of meetings on that day/weekend. It feels great to be busy for a whole day and at the end of that day have a lot checked off the to do list.