And also sick of somebody who kicks up a fuss every time i tell them to go to the potty, kicks and screams and yells, but still doesn't take herself after 6 months of this, and also refuses to wear a diaper!

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Have you made her clean herself up? I'm sure you've thought of everything... Usually you'd hear that she's not ready and to keep her on diapers; but it's clearly a control issue. Have you given her options; " you can choose which you would like to do- sit on the potty or put a diaper on- and if she fusses about it she gets a timeout.