Story of my fucking life. No matter how much I want to bone Kaito, he will never love me back because he is a fakey fake fake and doesn't exist, and even if he did exist I don't think he would settle for me.

Story of my fucking life. No matter how much I want to bone Kaito, he will never love me back because he is a fakey fake fake and doesn't exist, and even if he did exist I don't think he would settle for me.

yeah is he that guy from the anime Mermaid pearl voice? (forgot full anime name)

Also was or is there anyone in real life you like or loved? Or anyone said they loved you but not like them?

Hmmm, I see this aspect of relating hasn't changed over the years. There is no easy or black and white straight up answer re 1-sided love situations. Some people, male or female, don't really know what they want beyond a friendship. An interested party comes along, introduces him/herself into their world, over time 1 person hopes and prays it works out; it doesn't or it doesn't fit into the imaginary timetable of the initiator or respondee re payoff or results (aka conditional love). The chemistry wears thin quickly or the packaging was prettier than the content or.......!?

Some people aren't ready. Some folks find safety in friendship only and are fearful to go beyond that boundary. Many do not want to risk rejection. Others are socially awkward and their timing will seem like a re-read of manga aimed at t'ween readers. And still others (and don't you do this because success doing nothing only occurs in movie and manga story lines) are waiting to be "discovered" by Mr/Ms Wonderful.....this will NEVER happen as long as you are living on this planet. You must take the risk.....of rejection, of friendship only, failure, whatever. Susan Jeffries, PhD, summed it best in her book: Feel the Fear and Do it Anyway. Wishing won't get you anywhere, it's even damn frustrating. You're gonna have to assess what it is you want, what you want from someone, screw up the courage within and take that risk. Ask.

I got myself into grad level Psychology and Counseling at a mid-western university (US of A) back in the mid-1980's after years of failure relating to the opposite sex. I figured if I could re-invent myself and possibly learn what I was about or what women were about I just might succeed exiting the single life (death by suicide was not an option). Well, I learned a lot about my self, my psyche in less than 2 years. I also learned a lot about the opposite gender while in some of those grad-level group sessions. Long story short: life is complicated and it's a journey.

I don't know the instant answer in relationships that guarantees success. I persevered, continued to make social faux pas, encounter rejection, but this time I didn't give up or let my irrational fears stop me. I kept risking and reassessing what I wanted from life as we know it. Success came finally, at age 58, and I was smart enough, armed with life experience and grad-level insights, to chose the right one. Looking back I have no regrets and it only took 34 years of searching on this planet for her.

Well, if you are talking about me having so many crushes in my life, and none of them return with equal, then yes I have experienced it.

On other note, would you rather spend time with someone who you have a lot in common with, like the one you love is almost like your doppelganger? or someone who argues with almost every thing you do, like your opposite.

Story of my fucking life. No matter how much I want to bone Kaito, he will never love me back because he is a fakey fake fake and doesn't exist, and even if he did exist I don't think he would settle for me.

yeah is he that guy from the anime Mermaid pearl voice? (forgot full anime name)

Also was or is there anyone in real life you like or loved? Or anyone said they loved you but not like them?

No Kaito is the blue Vocaloid. This sexy asshole.
I have a boyfriend though, it's not like I'm alone.

Story of my fucking life. No matter how much I want to bone Kaito, he will never love me back because he is a fakey fake fake and doesn't exist, and even if he did exist I don't think he would settle for me.

yeah is he that guy from the anime Mermaid pearl voice? (forgot full anime name)

Also was or is there anyone in real life you like or loved? Or anyone said they loved you but not like them?

No Kaito is the blue Vocaloid. This sexy asshole.
I have a boyfriend though, it's not like I'm alone.

Oh ok he had the same name from an anime i used to watch thought was him lol nvm
and ok lucky you that you got someone thats good

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On other note, would you rather spend time with someone who you have a lot in common with, like the one you love is almost like your doppelganger? or someone who argues with almost every thing you do, like your opposite.

I've wasted five years of my life in a one-sided love and I'm totally sick of it. I can't tell him how I feel cuz he's my best friend and if things got awkward with him, it would get awkward with the rest of our friends too. The only thing I can do is get over that womanizing bastard... sigh...

Story of my fucking life. No matter how much I want to bone Kaito, he will never love me back because he is a fakey fake fake and doesn't exist, and even if he did exist I don't think he would settle for me.

yeah is he that guy from the anime Mermaid pearl voice? (forgot full anime name)

Also was or is there anyone in real life you like or loved? Or anyone said they loved you but not like them?

No Kaito is the blue Vocaloid. This sexy asshole.
I have a boyfriend though, it's not like I'm alone.