Guys opinion please

I usually don't like to complain but I'm very upset. My dh wouldn't have sex with me the whole time I was pregnant even though I tried. Usually he wants to 3 times a day. So now that dd is here he wants to again and well.. I don't. I'm scared of the pain and I figured he would assume this. He didn't. So this morning he went crazy and was mad saying something is wrong with me because I won't have sex with him and he shouldn't have to ask to bring it up. I told him my reasons and he was so mad he left to go to work. Well sun is our family day. He owns his own business and works late hrs all week long and saturdays. I told him he is missing out spending time with dd and he said I'm the cause of that. I look forward to sundays so I'm not alone, since I am all week long from 6am-9pm. I don't know what to do now.

I usually don't like to complain but I'm very upset. My dh wouldn't have sex with me the whole time I was pregnant even though I tried. Usually he wants to 3 times a day. So now that dd is here he wants to again and well.. I don't. I'm scared of the pain and I figured he would assume this. He didn't. So this morning he went crazy and was mad saying something is wrong with me because I won't have sex with him and he shouldn't have to ask to bring it up. I told him my reasons and he was so mad he left to go to work. Well sun is our family day. He owns his own business and works late hrs all week long and saturdays. I told him he is missing out spending time with dd and he said I'm the cause of that. I look forward to sundays so I'm not alone, since I am all week long from 6am-9pm. I don't know what to do now.

Sounds like a communication problem to me. The relationships board really would be a more appropriate place for this thread though. I don't know what you said to him but he reacted poorly, but you two clearly need to have a conversation about sex and what you can expect from each other.

Sounds like a communication problem to me. The relationships board really would be a more appropriate place for this thread though. I don't know what you said to him but he reacted poorly, but you two clearly need to have a conversation about sex and what you can expect from each other.

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