The first sentence in the description of the scorpio male couldn't be more bang on: "The Scorpio male harbors a passionate intensity for romance, politics, work, friendship, religion, food, relatives, children, clothing, life, death and any other category imaginable. Outwardly, this man is calm, steady and brimming with self-control...but it is only a bluff. Inwardly, he positively sizzles with danger."

"Adept in the world of feelings and rarely unduly frightened by any emotion which might be encountered, Water individuals are often mutually attracted to those governed by the Element of Air (Gemini, Libra and Aquarius). These Air subjects require support when encountering deep feelings and past memories, being apt to minimize the value of emotional experiences, while Water natives require assistance in the realm of logic and reason...qualities upon which they can draw heavily from the more verbal Air individual. However, Air tends to be a rather superficial Element and when the approaches of Air are perceived as being too icy and hostile, Water will shut itself off by forming a sheet of ice, thereby preventing the coldly analytical intellect of Air from looking into the depths of Water's soul. However, when these two Elements do connect in a favorable fashion, the results are often manifested in the form of artists who know how to express the images of the soul through words or music. This Elemental combination can also produce the true spiritual helpers and guides. Nevertheless, Water natives customarily dislike the strong boisterous personality which is inherent in the Air character."

"This personality aversion also applies to those governed by the Element of Fire (Aries, Leo and Sagittarius), but to an even greater extent and Water tends to flee from the heat of Fire Signs. In short, this is a combination which "steams." Water quickly feels overpowered by Fire's direct nature and often, Water finds itself with hurt feelings. Yet, the momentum of Fire...the inherent optimism and joy of life...can sometimes rouse Water from its apathy. Since trust is of paramount importance to Water, perhaps the most compatible Element is Earth (Taurus, Virgo and Capricorn), which is frequently able to provide such a quality. Earth may bring to Water the much needed stability, structure and consistency to keep this Element contained in a more healthy and calm manner. However, this will apply only as long as Earth can prevent itself from "drying out" the Element of Water since there is a tendency for Earth to suppress, by way of unimaginative and factual thinking, the inner correlation that Water senses."

What an interesting place to post your query irish (welcome and sit and have some tea) - here it is girl....you can make/get/coerce/beg or plead for a scorpio to do or not do ANYTHING. Sit tight - he knows where you are - get on with your life.