Jess, when Mandy died, I didn't think I could go on living. I still won't get rid of her toys or toy box eight years later, I tear up if I try.

It hurts so bad, like your heart's been ripped out. :'( It takes a long time to heal. Raven and Rudy will help you. (((hugs)))

It's how I feel. I just want to sleep so I don't have to feel. It gets worse every day right now. It's unbearable. I can't eat, I don't even feel hungry. I feed the pups and pet them but it's like I don't have the other feelings I should. I woke up this morning and turned to pet Tash, and she wasn't there. I don't know what to do. I keep seeing her face in my mind. Nothing dulls the pain, except to be asleep. Nothing.

Hon - how you feel is so so understandable and normal. My only concern is that if you go without eating too long it could really hurt you.

Consider seeing your doctor just to check in. S/he may suggest a temporarydose of meds, just so you can stay healthy. We need you and your pups need you.

HUGS.

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Yes, I agree with above comment. I don't really know you except as a member of this group and I would hate it if something bad happened to you. Truly we all understand the loss of a beloved pet/friend but we must continue for those pets still with us. Probably they are mourning also and wondering where is Tasha. They too need comforting and love as do you. I don't know how long one can go without eating (I've rarely had that problem) but I think it is probably not a healthy thing to do long term. I/we all know it's very difficult right now but you must put one foot in front of the other and go through the motions of moving and living and taking care of the other dogs. ONE DAY AT A TIME!

Thru tears I send you my deepest condolences. Felt the same way you're feeling when I lost Sami and then again a few years later when I lost Sasha. It hurts and is just about the worst thing ever. I'm so very, very sorry.

Each day that passes will get a little better, easier. Know that Tasha is watching over you and still wants you to be happy.

I'm trying to get medicinal help, but no one can get me in today. I've lost a "pet" not a child. I'm not a priority. I feel dead insdie and I need help. I will keep trying. someone has to lsten to me. someone has to understand. There has to be some medicinal help.

I'm trying to get medicinal help, but no one can get me in today. I've lost a "pet" not a child. I'm not a priority. I feel dead insdie and I need help. I will keep trying. someone has to lsten to me. someone has to understand. There has to be some medicinal help.

Is there a pet loss support group near you? Please look and see if there is. They will help you.

When I lost Cassie, I called my employee assistance program through work. I felt very silly explaining why I was calling. But the rep I spoke with has 3 dogs and completely understood why I was calling and what I was feeling. He was terrific.

PAWS Chicago (copied from PAWS Web site)
"Are you struggling with the loss of a pet? Join us for PAWS Chicago’s HEAL (Helping Each other Alleviate Loss) Pet Loss Support Group at the PAWS Chicago Adoption Center at 1997 N. Clybourn. The support group is facilitated by Joy Davy, a licensed clinical professional counselor, and is designed to help grieving pet parents work together to deal with the difficult emotions related to losing a pet in a calm, safe, and nonjudgmental atmosphere. Refreshments will be served. This pet loss support group is provided to the general public as a complimentary service, thanks to generous contributions by Hinsdale Pet Memorial Services.

Chicago Veterinary Medical Foundation
100 Tower Drive, Suite 234
Burr Ridge, IL 60527
Phone: (630) 568-9760
This is about a 2 minute drive from where I live. I'll contact them and see if they have any print resources and if they do, I will mail them to Karen and maybe she can add it as a sticky thread.

Aaahh, I have been defrosted! Thank you, Bonny and Asiel!
Brrrr, I've been Frosted! Thank you, Asiel and Pomtzu!

"That's the power of kittens (and puppies too, of course): They can reduce us to quivering masses of Jell-O in about two seconds flat and make us like it. Good thing they don't have opposable thumbs or they'd surely have taken over the world by now." -- Paul Lukas

I'm trying to get medicinal help, but no one can get me in today. I've lost a "pet" not a child. I'm not a priority. I feel dead insdie and I need help. I will keep trying. someone has to lsten to me. someone has to understand. There has to be some medicinal help.

Aww, we are here for you, and completely understand. Grief is a powerful force, and needs proper help whether it is for a child or a pet or a friend.