I'm wondering I wrote long post didn't put in subject forgot that part it said no subject when that happens it disappears where does it go to is it lost cuz I put no subject cant find it ...this question is to anyone thanks

to anyone who has an answer to my questions here they are ...what does it mean here when a person talks about 3 d world what does that mean ? also what does it mean when a person says they have a melt down I hear that here and on the radio cant understand what it refers to ...last ? persons here refer to getting headaches here when they split or when a memory surfaces how can you tell if the headache is brought on by did issues or if it is a medical issue ?that is causing issues .example I have massive headaches lately and it seems to me it could be various causes myself for example I keep falling down from bl press issues tmj jaw issues 2 tooth need to be pulled the dentist said that also could cause the headaches stress from daily tasks r major factor and anxiety causes major headaches for me and anniversary triggers from past traumas also cause me headaches this time of year and humidity changes in temp cause headaches so ?is how does one get rid of these painful headaches whn theres so many causes meds never helped with headaches I get thanks in advance for any input on these ?s jp

when someone refers to 3d world, they mean the world outside our heads (i.e. 'real world').

a meltdown is when you're totally overwhelmed and respond with a temper tantrum or shutting down or whatever.

you may not be able to tell if headaches are due to DID or neurological causes - best to ask your T and/or other health professional. similarly, different things work for different people in terms of treating headaches. if it's a DID headache, then usually working out the issue with the person/s inside who are struggling is usually the best way to get rid of it. if it's something else, then health professional's are better placed to advise.

good luck!

Learn how to manage conflict, because the greater the level you can tolerate, the more freedom you will retain - E. Walsh

ok thanks nats for answering the ? s couple more ..? s so 3d world is that an abbreviation for the words 3 dimensional world ? if so does it mean same thing as people or objects are 3 dimensional in the real world as opposed to people and objects in our head that are not 3 dimensional in the did world....you said real world outside your heads were you saying in stead of inside our heads as in did which is mainly in our heads .. what do you mean by shutdown ? when I see or think of that word I often think of like my computer when I am done working on my computer and I have had enough ..I hit the shut down button....and off I go back into the real world into what I call reality , where everything to me seems to hurt so much that as crazy as this will probably sound I sometimes wish I could stay in my did world and only hope and wish or dream that things will get better ....I forgot you are in England am I right if so is that the same as the uk do you have there socialize medicine which means no one pays for insurance cuz its all free for everyone... is that where little baby Charlie guard was from the little boy that died that the parents wanted to come to usa to try out experimental medicine on him....I was just curious if that was correct ...I cant remember.i love looking at maps I have tons of different maps ..but I will be darn if I can remember any of them ...I was basically asking you this cuz here in usa drs just send you to dr s and specialists of every kind ..and round and round we go where nobody knows anything about finding a solution or an answer to your medical issues its just called refer refer to to one dr to another so they can get paid ..jp

hi jp, that's a lot of questions.
it's difficult for me to spend lots of time here answering posts as we work fulltime. will do my best with the short ones.
1. yes, 3d world is an abbreviation for the 3 dimensional world.
2. yes, it means the same as people or objects are 3 dimensional in the real world as opposed to people and objects in our head that are not 3 dimensional.
3. yes, real world outside your head instead of inside our heads as in did which is mainly in our heads.
4. shutdown - don't remember what we meant as can't read the post now.
5. England is part of the UK, yes.
6. yes, we have free healthcare because we pay for it through our taxes. it's not perfect, but much better system than usa.
7. don't remember Charlie Guard, but probably.

take care.

Learn how to manage conflict, because the greater the level you can tolerate, the more freedom you will retain - E. Walsh

THANKS NATS NOW I GET IT .. I WROTE IT FOR YOU OR ANYONE TO ANSWER ..PLEASE DONT FEEL OBLIGATED AT ANY TIME TO FEEL PRESSURED TO ANSWER THE QUESTIONS I TOTALLY GET THE PART ABOUT YOU BEING BUSY WORKING AND NOT ALWAYS HAVING TIME TO ANSWER THE QUESTIONS .BELEIVE ME I WORKED OVER 30 YRS SO I KNOW THE FEELING OF WORKING LONG HRS BEEN THERE DONE THAT ..JP

your welcome and I meant what I said I write in general to the group ..like for instance I am gonna ask a question to any and all of you out there its a comment and question to anyone and everyone .. I get the acceptance thing ...I don't get all of the whole leading as a host stuff .. how can I lead a whole bunch of alters of whom I don't know ? its like playing that game charades !.not sure if thith no progress ll his years he never met a person continue waid in a he sat spelling on that word is correct .. remember what category is it ? is it an animal ? or a person .is it a living thing ?sounds to me like did ....also are we for real with all this stuff ?yes this is true ...I keep thinking whats wrong with me ?I seriously been at all this did diagnosis stuff 25 or 30 yrs now 1994 I was diagnosed ...in 94 by a psych dr my last dr that left wrote she has had little to no improvement ...jp