Okay, fun post just to see the responses. I came across a thread on another site of a woman being absolutely flabberghasted that her FI admitted to staring at women and liking it. Oh come on! We’re human. I am pretty old school, and I keep my eyes to myself ESPECIALLY when I’m with DH. But I’ll admit, I look. If I’m in the car and I see a shirtless guy running, I’m like daaaang! But I keep driving and think nothing of it ever again. 😛

My DH tends to be one of those who take in the entire room. He’ll stare at artwork, or a wall. But on occasion, he’ll down right glance over and over and over in someone’s direction. Sometimes it’s a woman he’s looking at, a group of women, or another man or child. It only irks me when I’m trying to have a conversation with him and I can see his eyes continuously darting back to the person. I’m very shy in public, with or without my DH. I don’t hold anyone’s gaze, man or woman’s, for longer than 2 seconds. I was like that even before I met my DH. When I’m by myself in my car? I might have driven past a hot guy and will continue to look in my rear view mirror a time or two hahaha.

Does your SO stare at other women? Quick glance? Does he just like to look at everything in the room while you’re out (women/men/walls/art/etc.)? How do you take a sneak peek?

LittlePumpkin: Mt FI and I are very open and we both know we are human and everything. We both glance and we even tell each other if we find someone attractive. I know that he is mine and he knows I am his and it doesn’t really bother either of us. We are a slightly odd couple but it works for us with how we are.

I chose other. SO averts his eyes from attractive women on tv or in real life. I wouldn’t care if he glanced at other women. There are obviously attractive people on the planet. If he stared, I would think he’s an asshole with no regard for me. I mean, come on. That’s a bit much. (Unless we met Beyonce or something. Then I’d understand 😉

In the 6 years i’ve been with my fiance, I honestly don’t really catch him looking at women unless its to say”that girl looks like a hoe”. haha. which who knows, might be a cover up for him checking her out. I don’t think I’d like it if he did look at women but I’m not really jealous enough to give it another thought in most cases. I definitley look at cute guys passing, even with my FIANCE sometimes but honestly I would never even dream of dating any one else. I just appreciate beauty haha (it lets me sleep at night , okay!) I just tel lhim “ooo, that guy is kind of cute”. and he just laughs. I think if you trust he eachother its not really an issue.

countingstars: Lol I love this! My DH is usually pretttty good. But every once in a while, he won’t “stare” per say, but his eyes will advert over and over to the same spot during the night. It’s usually when we’re at dinner. It rarely happens otherwise. I don’t really think he realizes he does it, cause it’s not always at women. He usually does it when there’s a pause in the conversation. When it continues into when I am attempting to have a conversation is when I go HALLoooOoOo rofl

In the 4 years I’ve known my fiance, I’ve never caught him staring. I, however, definitely know when there is a smokin’ guy in the room! Not sure how I would feel if my man was constantly checking out other women, but I don’t have to worry about that.