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5 Differences Between The Guy You Date And The Guy You Marryhttps://thesecretlifeofjes.wordpress.com/2014/07/28/5-differences-between-the-guy-you-date-and-the-guy-you-marry/
https://thesecretlifeofjes.wordpress.com/2014/07/28/5-differences-between-the-guy-you-date-and-the-guy-you-marry/#respondMon, 28 Jul 2014 19:46:31 +0000http://thesecretlifeofjes.wordpress.com/thesecretlifeofjes/2014/07/5-differences-between-the-guy-you-date-and-the-guy-you-marry/Thought Catalog: The Office: Season 1 1. The Guy You Date: Thinks about what you have to offer him. He loves you because you give him your undivided time and attention, you’re attractive, and you share common interests and hobbies like playing tennis or obsessing over Fall Out Boy. He is hoping…]]>

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The Guy You Date: Thinks about what you have to offer him. He loves you because you give him your undivided time and attention, you’re attractive, and you share common interests and hobbies like playing tennis or obsessing over Fall Out Boy. He is hoping you will be a good match for him.

The Guy You Marry: Thinks about what he has to offer you. He loves you because of who you are- he appreciates your quirks, your flaws and strange sense of humor, the way you snort when you laugh and read Charles Dickens every winter, and everything he’s come to know about you. He is hoping he will be a good husband for you.

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The Guy You Date: Is quick to become jealous when you’re around other guys. He gets angry easily, which often ends up in long, petty arguments. He is…

]]>https://thesecretlifeofjes.wordpress.com/2014/07/28/5-differences-between-the-guy-you-date-and-the-guy-you-marry/feed/0thesecretlifeofjesPartner and Witness?https://thesecretlifeofjes.wordpress.com/2014/07/17/partner-or-witness/
https://thesecretlifeofjes.wordpress.com/2014/07/17/partner-or-witness/#respondThu, 17 Jul 2014 05:05:52 +0000http://thesecretlifeofjes.wordpress.com/2014/07/17/partner-or-witness/]]>Most of my life I’ve questioned the meaning of relationships. I’ve always considered myself a romantic, up until recently my views have shifted to see through a realist’s eyes. In the last week or so I’ve dug a bit deeper in why people aspire to build relationships. Why do we look for our soulmate? Why do we hunt for friendships that will last? Why do people get married? Passion? Love? Security? Sure, but I mean what does ONE life out of millions really mean? I’ve learned, recently, that We look for someone to experience our journeys with because we need witnesses to our lives. And relationships, by relationships i mean all kinds of relationships, are like promising you’ll care about everything. The good things, the bad things, the mundane things. All of it, everyday. You’re saying: Your life will not go unnoticed because i will notice it. Your life will not go unwitnessed because I will be your witness. We shouldn’t be afraid to involve ourselves with others. When we get to that point, that we’re scared of what will come of it, or what we will become after its over, that’s when WE become the problem. Truth is, who cares?! Enjoy it. All of it. Enjoy the people that are thrown in your lives! Be a blessing to them, make a difference and care about the ones that are willing to care about you. If you have found a keeper, keep them! Be a witness to others and allow others to be a witness to you. Don’t wait until it’s too late.

Anyway this is just food for thought. But legitimately guys, enjoy your lives (:

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https://thesecretlifeofjes.wordpress.com/2014/07/08/meet-jes/#respondTue, 08 Jul 2014 05:38:00 +0000http://thesecretlifeofjes.wordpress.com/?p=2]]>Jesica with one “S” that’s me. 20 years of age, old soul (I swear im from a different century) andstrong believerininnerbeauty. Im starting a personal blog because I’ve always found it hard to express how I feel. It’s always been kind of hard for me open up to people for whatever reason and im hoping this will help. So I hope that you can follow me and be a part of my Journey that you will soon learn, is a journey back to my first love. ♡]]>https://thesecretlifeofjes.wordpress.com/2014/07/08/meet-jes/feed/0thesecretlifeofjesScreenshot_2014-07-08-00-28-39-1.png