sadly, i've heard this a lot w/i the black community while yts stay getting engaged/married left and right.

"The thing about marriage is that I believe in it and don’t believe in
it. I think people put that ring and that paper and it messes up a good
thing sometimes"

it's honestly one of the dumbest things i've ever heard. if it's good, then why would the paper change it? if there are already problems/issues, then yes, things can get worse because marriage isn't a fix for problems. if you are still tryna stick it in everything, then yes, getting married can mess up your "good thing."

A relationship where one party wants a different type of relationship ie marriage and the other is okay with whatever they have going on

and

A private relationship where they just don't discuss their business

Emily has been very vocal about wanting marriage and a family or at least that is how I remember the 1st season of that show. She was always ugly-crying about her relationship and whether or not she should stay and the fact that no one knew that she was even in the picture. The handful of people who knew of her thought she was only the stylist. That doesn't sound like a mutual agreement to wait or maintain what they have. That sounds like a woman holding on for if and when this guy changes his mind.

She too basic to leave though. she likes the perks. Honestly I think Emily could walk in on fab and another chick in their place of residence, and still be in his bed the next day. She will never leave unless he dumps her indefinitely.

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