Though she plays a very troubled young Hamptons resident on Revenge, Emily VanCamp looks bright and bubbly on the cover of the Oct. 2012 issue of Self Magazine. The 26-year-old Canadian actress has always been rather private, but she did offer some small details on her current romance with co-star Josh Bowman (Daniel Grayson). "I've been fortunate — I've had great relationships,” Emily told the publication. “Well, there was one not-so-good one, but I probably learned the most from it. It's important to explore, because someday you will find the person who completes the equation. When you're that in love, you want to gush to the world! But I gush to my family and friends instead."Does this mean that Em’s British babe is the person who completes her equation? We did see them getting pretty handsy last month! But what is it about Josh that attracts the ABC starlet? "My sisters — especially my older sister Katie — and my close friends and my boyfriend make everything seem funny,” Ems gushed. “My ideal day would be hanging out with people I love, swimming, laughing and barbecuing.” But it’s Emily’s job to be in front of the cameras kicking ass and Xing off names with her handy red Sharpie. How does she stay in top killer shape? According to the interview, lots of pilates! Ems does pilates three to four times a week in addition to her martial arts training, but she tries to keep an open mind about her figure. "Women are hard on themselves,” she says. “I'm trying to stop focusing on my flaws and appreciate what I love about my body ... I think people are sick of stick-thin actresses. I mean, it's not real. People have said to me, 'Wow, you look so much bigger on TV.' I can't let that hurt me. You have to be comfortable enough with yourself to say, 'Screw off. I like how I look, and I'm not going to starve myself.'"And what does this good girl indulge in when she’s feeling extra peckish? Emily’s guilty pleasure snack is a tasty In-N-Out burger! “Once in a while, you have to give in to a craving for an In-N-Out Burger,” she admits. Well, we have a major craving for more Revenge, and luckily, it returns in 12 days! The Sept. 30 premiere can’t come fast enough! What do you think of Emily’s interview? Tell us below! Source: SELF Magazine