Single working mom of two teenaged kids currently living paycheck to paycheck who spends every spare moment sitting on her back porch with a cheesy piece of garbage book, a cigarette and a cup o' hot joe.....there's more of us than you think. My life away from the computer is full and content but I miss my cyber family.

I loathe my inability to access friends and family from my fingertips but alas, this dilemma has yet to be resolved. I chased a guy down in the hallway here at work today and told him to GET MY SHIT FIXED! It’s not nice to piss a southern girl off, just sayin’.

A month later, Ashley and music producer Scott Speer were seen together.

Scott had actually produced music videos for her back in 2007, but nothing ever came of the connection until two years later.

Ashley: It gives me a chance to be really involved in the whole life of the project. I'm loving being a producer and love the opportunities I have as an actor.

I enjoy the development as well as production and producing lets me be a part of it all. Using one word, how would you describe each of the ladies?Julia = Passionate Emily = Unexpected Amy = Driven What’s on you dating checklist?is almost upon us, and the show's (very famous) executive producer Ashley Tisdale is quite proud of her little baby.The show's garnered critical praise and has otherwise been darn-good television fodder, and while fans have spent weeks watching Julia Allison, Emily Morse and Amy Laurent dish out advice and tell their tales of dating woes, what are Ashley's takes on love, work and Bravo?Thankfully, we were able to chat with Miss Tisdale via e-mail, and she chimed in what drew her to her first foray into TV production, her dating must-haves, Housewives -- hey, it's Bravo after all -- and more.Check out our exclusive interview below and be sure to tune into the finale tonight at 10/9c: The Dish: What made you decide to go into the production side of TV?