as a woman FIRST and foremost, that's been taken advantage by someone i actually loved, i feel really bad for her....everyone wants to think they are the exception to the rule until they find out they aren't

no one would have a problem if he had been fleeced by her.. coz thats the order of things 'normally'..

i think gambian men tend to want older women, or maybe it really is a gambian thing .. i worked with a couple of gambian guys in their mid to late twenties, all professional all not needing a dime from anyone all married to or dating women at least 12 years their senior

She dated him for a year...given their ages, I don't necessarily call that quick. Most of the people I know over 35 typically date for a year or so before marrying. I think it is downright f**ed up, and you have to be a lowlife person to perpetrate a lie like that for 3 whole years. Since he was already married, I hope their marriage is null and void and his right to stay in the UK is revoked. I don't care what race or gender the perpetrator is, I can't applaud this mess...

I used to think that I led a well-rounded life with friends/associates of varying backgrounds and POVs. But I dont think I know a single woman with half the bitterness displayed on this site. Either that or people only let their hate spew online. *Shrugs*

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