Now is the time to find out. If you like it, go for it. It might be something you try and decide its not for you and if that's the case, you will no longer be curious but at least you know you tried. Good luck and enjoy!

Don't let the desire override safety. It may take longer than you want but make sure the person you pick to explore is nice, clean, patient and understands exactly what it is you want to try and is willing to respect your boundaries. Some men can be rough and crude and the experience wont be a good one. If you are not gay or even bi but just want to experience another man make sure its as close to the picture in your mind as possible, it may be a one time thing so it might as well be a good one. Good luck if you choose to go through with it.

Just broke up with me lady and I am getting curious about guys. I kno im not gay but maybe bi curious. any suggestions?

Hi Hippityhop!

I'm terribly sorry to hear your relationship didn't work out, though we've all been there before we found our Mr. or Mrs. Right, so hang in there.

Now to get on topic here, what exactly are you curious about guys? That's kinda how things started for me. Little dreams or fantasies of being with a guy here and there that gradually built up until the urge to try it became all encompassing. I still really haven't gone all the way with a guy yet, but the journey has been a fun one to say the least.

Now putting aside labels for a second (you are who you are, why bother naming it), what is it you're interested in most, that will certainly help up come up with some suggestions for you. If you're thinking of anal play, then it might be a good idea to start practicing on your own to find out what you like and don't like as well as what will work for you.

I'd definitely suggest you start out slow, work up your comfort level with the situation. You don't need to run out and date anyone, but making an effort (such as posting your question here) indicates you're looking and options are open. I'd say enjoy your time single, safely. Picking the right people, places and types of things to try in advance can make all the difference between a bad experiences and repeats.

I am in the sameboat. I have been straight all my life but have been using a dildo in my ass for years. I really like anal play and can’t help thinking about the real deal in my ass. I would love to try it, but am not turned on by guys at all. I think a bi guy that liked straight porn could come over and we would watch porn together, I start playing with my dildos and we booth get turned on. At thatpoint I could do about anything. Once I am turned on I could suck him then lethim fuck me. I just don’t know how to make it happen.

The only way to find out if you really like it or are just curious, is to find a nice cock. suck it an try to enjoy and you will know for sure. If you like it, you have found a new way to enjoy and if not, then at least you will have found out.