Girls, Young women 18-24, is a guy being bald (conpletely shaved) physically unattractive to you?

Effluvium kinda skips around in my moms side, it basically diffusely thins scalp hair entirely making it look sickly so I shaved it to the skin. Only concern is what girls will think and be honest girls, I have high standards on looks myself, I won't say they don't matter because they do.

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Baldness is a turn off that would be difficult for me to get past so young

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It is NOT an issue, a guy even as young as this can look good despite no hair

The only issue with something like hairloss is a man can do nothing about it, I workout have ambitions etc but why should I be expected to accept an unattractive or plain girl? Simply because of a condition I have no control over, yes I have high standards, and Id bite the bullet before accepting less.

So please no 'looks shouldn't matter' type answers just go on physical for this

Regardless of your uneducated estimate of criminal style-would you say most girls aren't fond of shaved heads? Look my standards on a girls looks are high and they are set, I would never date a girl even slightly overweight nor would I date a girl who didn't have a beautiful face, don't like the numbers scale but to give context girls I usually really like are 7-8 in looks and I won't lower that standard, so far no luck at all, so would you say the more attractive the girl the more likely she against no hair?

NO. You cannot just assume things. There are many attractive girls who either like bald guys or just dont' care if they have hair or not as long as they posses other attributes that they are attracted to.

And I'm not saying all bald guys are gangsters, but just like you, I too have certain things that i do not find attractive. Anything that resembles a gangster (whether they are or they're not is completely irrelevant!) I do not find attractive at all. Be it, style, bald head, tattoos or anything that just so resembles. etc. etc.

However, there comes a time when you must realize that you must change something either in you, or in the way you select partners, if it gets to the point where you're still single and just getting old~... so it's not bad to be picky, you just need to know when it's time to make a change in something, if nothing is working out.

First off you gotta realize I cannot change the shaved head its from a condition and secondly I would absolutely never change my standards, rather be alone than have a girl that when I was with her I'd look around and see more attractive girls, that's not special, that's settling and I would never do that.

Well I didn't mean change what is impossible, only what's reasonable.. And depending on circumstances, people will do what they deem necessary when frustration or desperation come to shove! 😦 ... You'll only know when you get there. We always think one thing, and do another when reality hits. Hope you find what you're looking for, or happy lonely life 😁

I lost my father to cancer when graduating which is why I lost hair by the way, mom lost her mind and I've been on my own for years since then, I said I'd jump from a plane and now I've done several jumps, I don't make idle threats, I would never find worth in a plain or average looking girl period. I'd look at all the attractive girls and be disgusted i settled, so no, I'll get the attractive looking girl or I'll die alone, that is absolute. After all I've already turned down several plain Janes despite being very lonely from the times I was rejected, if I was going to accept less I'd have done it by now. I will not settle, I haven't waited this long to settle, I'll get the hot girl or I'll die alone.

So reality has hit with everything happening over the last few years, despite mourning and watching mom lose it and being called fugo by attractive girls, I still don't even consider saying yes to the pudgy girl who is sweet, the standards won't change

Haha well that is unfortunate!! And while I never asked for your life story, thanks for sharing. And by no means am I telling you to settle. Simply putting out there that regardless of what you have or have not been through, people do change with time. Perhaps your way of thinking will remain just the same, perhaps it won't, even you don't know that, as sure as you maybe, you just really don't, until life passes you by, only then can you truly say that you remained the same.

And being lonely must be awful in every way... Cause eventually we become like little kids who need help to do practically anything.. So at least save up for a nice nurse that won't treat you like 💩 Arnold age... Cause as it is, to manny family members treat very poorly those older relatives.. Now imagine some random stranger who is in charge of you 😦 Scary...

In my family we value 3 things above all else and one of them is romantic relationships, it's not just a mindset it's an ethos, we'd rather die alone than settle, so it's a promise to myself and family to settle wouldn't only be against what I want but against what my family honors- I military families we have these non negotaibles so I won't ever settle on looks as it would be a disappointment to the name.

And you keep talking about being alone-are you assuming that my shaven head combined with my standards will make it likely I won't get an attractive girl young? Just curious why you keep talking about being alone if you claim plenty of good looking girls don't kind bald-

Haha and you keep throwing out your family and personal issues as to validate your reasoning for not dating certain people. I really do not care who you chose to date or what your basis are for dating and not dating, nor am I saying to settle.

I'm simply stating that there is a point in life where we come across certain phases in which we do what we once said we wouldn't, irrelevant to what we ever have said before. Does that mean that you will never find someone? NO! Does that mean that your bald head and shallowness will never get you a girl of you liking? NO! But are those things certainly possible? YES!!

So basically, what I'm saying is that if within a certain time frame things just seem to be going down hill, that's when push comes to shove, you will either change your mind or stay single forever, which is why I'm saying good luck with that, because the option of being alone is soooooo sad to see, yet I refuse to feel compassionate, hence my good luck phrase! 😉 THE END!

What I'm saying is if I would have settled I woulda done it by now, there have been a lot of family who never got with someone because nobody they were attracted too said yes, uncles aunts etc, even my old man said he would never give his love to a non attractive physically girl, you're entitled to your opinion, however you say I'm "shallow" when you yourself mocked baldness, something a male has no control over whereas a fat girl could take initiative to work out etc, (I admit a plain face can't be fixed though) it's not wrong to admit looks matter, what's wrong is when someone like you clearly has issues with defects on looks like my lack of hair, then calls another shallow for needing looks when they matter to you as well. Next time look in the mirror

Having styled or not by now has no relevance to what you will do in the future. For example, what you view as attractive today, might not be the same things yiu view as attractive five to ten years from today. So if you end up with someone you never thought you'd find attractive, doesn't mean you don't find her attractive, because perhaps your likings have changed. And for the most part they do. I do not find the same type of guys attractive as I did in my teens AT ALL!! And I never said being bald is a bad thing, I just "personally" do not find that attractive because I relate it to gang members.

Msybs women are different than men but most guys I know all say that in terms of physicality thee attractive attributes stayed the same, I'd never date a girl even slightly pudgy, or who had a plain face. There is some subjectivity person to person, however one size fits most for what's attractive physically.

That's mutual! I'd never date someone who is fat. And I'd never date someone whom I do not find attractive. But that does not mean that in the future I won't be attracted to something different. Example: I was once attracted to tall skinny guys. I am now attracted to guys with vpbroad bodies. I do NOT find skinny tall attractive at ALL!! I one found myself attracted to guys who look like Justin Berber, like the pretty face and such... I no longer find that attractive in reference to being attracted to someone as a partner. I like more rugged look... More "manly"... Di I know I was gonna be attracted to this type of guy when I was younger? Not at all!! I'd probably say Ewk! Back then.

I'm still not not attracted to lazy fat men who are just flabby. My taste has changed gradually to something drastically different yet, still fitness will always be a major thing for me.

So what you're attracted to now, could possibly change in the future & not necessarily saying ugly and fat.

And quite honestly I think you're just kinda spewing crap, your standards changed to something even more conventionally attractive,

And you're saying maybe in a couple years you'll find a bald guy attractive too then huh? After all you say you never know, however I don't think you realize how unchanging some people are either way. I already like very slim girls with very pretty faces and that's about the peak of fitness so there's no up category. You may believe what you want to believe but that doesn't change people stubborn enough to know they deserve better even if it kills them. :)

There is always more to a person than looks. That's why it's so important to value an individual who appreciates you for who you are.

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I'm sorry but looks are a must, I have one life and will not spend it with a less than attractive looking girl, true there is some subjectivity but also a general measure of attractiveness, I am attracted only to slim girls with very pretty faces, there is no leeway on that, if she values me more but is pudgy or plain of face well she's a good friend but nothing more, so I'm sorry but appreciating someone because they like you is a ridiculously low bar, attraction is needed, and whether we want to admit it or not looks are a natural primary part of that

I take it you don't care for a guy who has no hair given the whole 'looks don't matter' bull? To me that always will even if it makes me alone, plain or average looking girl ain't worth it, I need to be strongly attracted to her body right off the batt,