damn people

Ashley - posted on 02/11/2010
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what do you do about a friend that thinks you are retarted for having children?.. my fiance's oldest friend thinks hes a idiot for having our kids that they were nothing but mistakes and that I should be going to work instead of staying home with the kids so that he will have his own money so he can go away on a trip with this friend... my fiance has told him off time and time again for saying this crap but its they go to school together and have a class together so its not like he can advoid him totally just grr

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Marcy - posted on 02/11/2010

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Focus your energy on telling your fiance how wonderful he is for sticking up for you, supporting his family and for being such a great guy. Just thank your lucky stars he is so supportive and that you aren't engaged to the other guy. It sounds like this guy is a little jealous and just trying to stir things up.

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he doesnt sound like much of a friend to me...sounds imature actually,if some one was talking about my kid that way i guarentee you he would have some teeth missing then it would be harder to say anything about them,lol

Just because he's the idiot who doesn't want kids doesn't mean he should call your fiance an idiot for having them! He's WAY out of line, and if I were you and ever came in contact with him, he'd know EXACTLY where he could stuff his juvenile ideas about what matters in life!

If I were your fiancee I would tell the guy where he can go and then absolutly ignor him. Don't accept calls, emails, texts, etc, NOTHING. A person who will tel you your kids are nothing but mistakes is not a friend and not someone you need in your life.

Why let something like this bother you? Who the hell cares what others think and really if your man cared about your feelings he would no longer be friends with this person. This is just stupid in my opinion!