Comic Talk and General Discussion

Do you think that cute can be used as an insult?I keep feeling like the word is negative.I feel like saying something is cute implies that it has no depth.I know it is usually meant s a compliment, and I realize that, but am I the only one who thinks of ‘cute’ as just as often negative?

I've never really heard cute being used negatively, but I can see how that would work.I know that once I reached my teens I started getting annoyed when people called me cute, even though they do mean it as a compliment.

claus'Cute' can be caustic if used sarcastically. Lots of movie villains use it.

When villains use it, it's not so much sarcasm as it is used to describe things that the “hero” doesn't want to be cute. You know, like “That gun is cute.” Or “It's so cute how you broke in here to rescue your girlfriend.” Or it can be a creepy thing (villain compliments have a tendency to be creepy), like “Oh, you're cute. I think I'll keep you for a pet.”

Aside from that, yes, it can be derogatory under certain circumstances. Like if someone tries to make a contribution to some deep, serious discussion and instead of being acknowledged for their insights, they are dismissed “Isn't she cute?” But that could really apply to any “compliments” of appearance when the matter at hand relates to the mind. – Basically, any time someone is trying to be in depth, serious, or mean business (as in the hero facing off with a villain), that's when “cute” is not appreciated. No one wants to be called cute if their goal is to be fierce.

I agree, it really depends on what it's used for. It doesn't even have to be directly meant as an insult to be annoying. I think in a lot of situations it can be implied as “I'm not taking this seriously”. But, y'know, if you MEANT it to be cute in the first place, well… then I guess you hit your mark. All in the context, really.

SomeoneAside from that, yes, it can be derogatory under certain circumstances. Like if someone tries to make a contribution to some deep, serious discussion and instead of being acknowledged for their insights, they are dismissed “Isn't she cute?”

I don't know how you women can stand it.If I were a woman, and I had a BF who would say that to me, I'd plot to dump him in the most public and humiliating way possible.

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I have yet to report anyone for it. But the cuteness of the characters was an intentional move on my part so in the context I can't call it a bad thing. Although it does occasionally lead me to wonder about the mental health of some of my readers.

I can't really say anything new about the words connotations really since to my mind it implies neither a negative or positive tone in and of itself.

I think most compliments can be seen as negative depending on the situation and tone. Another good example is “nice”. It's such a non-commital word. Very much like cute. If someone asks how something was, and you just say “nice”, that has a pretty uncaring tone. Like it was good, but not good enough to care.

Anyway, no, cute isn't inherently bad, but it lends itself to negative connotations more easily than other adjectives.

lbaI have yet to report anyone for it. But the cuteness of the characters was an intentional move on my part so in the context I can't call it a bad thing. Although it does occasionally lead me to wonder about the mental health of some of my readers.

I can't really say anything new about the words connotations really since to my mind it implies neither a negative or positive tone in and of itself.

Yeah, I second this. Only I don't think I have subject matter that would lead me to wonder about my readers. :) I draw “cute” intentionally so I'm not really affected by it.

I've noticed increasingly that the more helpless/vulnerable a thing/person looks, the more often cute is used in a description. That being said, I tend to equate “cute” with “vulnerable” and try my best to avoid using it often. As a girl, I'd much rather be pretty than cute. Of course, I'd rather be cute than lunch-losing hideous. (If I were a guy, I think I'd be irritated if people described me as cute.)In general, I don't think people use the word negatively. Could go either way depending on context and tone.

I think cute is generally an ambigiuous and non-committal term. As said before about calling a comic “cute” or “nice.” “Cute” can have very specific meanings, though, like when referring to a baby or a dog, where “cute” is really the highest compliment you can think of. Calling a guy or girl “cute” is a very bland compliment (why not beautiful or handsome?) and in similar situations I think “cute” is really used to get around giving a real compliment. (Although, of course, there are exceptions to that, too…) The most interesting use of the word “cute” I've found, though, is the passive-aggressive use of the word. Generally found in couples, when something irritates one about the other, and he or she says: “it's so cute when you do that.” Specific example: “it's so cute how you act like I don't give you attention, when that's all I've been doing.” It's not cute at all! But it's a way of getting that elephant out in a seemingly friendly way.

I think the fact that “cute” can be used in so many different contexts and can mean different things is why it's become the ambiguous term it has. It's really a neutral term. When I think “cute” I don't think positive or negative, I think, “vague.”