** If you see your Guru as a Buddha, you will recieve the blessings of a Buddha ** If you see your Guru as a Boddhisatva, you will recieve the blessings of a Boddhisatva ** If you see your Guru as a friend, you will only receive the blessings of a friend **

From Our Spiritual Friend Gharwang Rinpoche

Many of us have problems in recognizing our hidden faults. The simple reason is that we somehow refuse to accept such existence.

By avoiding to bring our emotions into the open is the biggest mistake that we tend to make constantly. Until we address such critical issue, we are not going to see any solution in the near future. Personally I feel that spiritual friends who are good at digging our well hidden mistakes will be one of the best solutions to remove totally. Therefore, in my opinion, we should have more such friends so that we will enjoy the fruit of such act.

When we are honest with each other, one can always share true happiness and sense of belonging.

Sometimes, we tend to think that we are worthless. I personally feel that it is not right to think that I am the worst among all. If we compare ourselves with someone more superior than us then maybe we will feel we are not the best. However, if we compare ourselves with someone who is less fortunate than us, obviously we will be one of the best. Therefore, we just need to strike the right balance then we will find ourselves in the comfort zone.