Removing the last thin veil

Many people come to Tarot readings in hopes of “fixing” their lives—obtaining information and guidance that will help them make the “right” decisions and no mistakes—guaranteeing perfection.

I subscribe to the BrainPickings blog featuring contemplative posts on creativity, literature and non-fiction. This week’s post has some applicable thoughts by George Saunders and Parker Palmer that show the narrowness of perfection.

George Saunders: “Although we’re animated by conflicting impulses and irrepressible moral imperfection, we can still live rich and beautiful lives.”

Parker Palmer, “Wholeness does not mean perfection: it means embracing brokenness as an integral part of life.”

I ask you, as a Tarot reader, how can we help the querent “embrace brokenness”?

On the other hand, I sometimes hear from clients that a reading primarily showed them something they knew already. I ask them if they knew that what was shown was the most important thing to take into account in their situation—the key to their decision-making process and the true value of their experience.

This is mirrored in a BrainPickings post on poet Denise Levertov in which she is quoted:

“One can anyway only be shown something one knows already, needs already. Showing anyone anything really amounts to removing the last thin film that prevents their seeing what they are looking at.”

Ah, what a perfect way to describe the best that can happen in a Tarot reading!

And one last quote. This time from Shakespeare’s Julius Caesar (Act 1: Scene 2). Imagine that the Tarot itself is speaking to you as your mirror—a metaphor often used in describing the way in which the Tarot works.

And since you know you cannot see yourselfSo well as by reflection, I, your glass, Will modestly discover to yourself That of yourself which you yet know not of.

It is not really that we don’t know these things, but rather that we don’t know their relevance. The Tarot offers us the in-sight.

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Mary K. Greer has made tarot her life work. Check here for reports of goings-on in the world of tarot and cartomancy, articles on the history and practice of tarot, and materials on other cartomancy decks. Sorry, I no longer write reviews. Contact me HERE.

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This one by Mary Greer offers great insight into what a Tarot Reader can truly offer her clients.

Hi Mary, I want to thank you for this post. The timing was incredibly great for me, as I just discovered Brain Pickings last month and have been thoroughly enjoying it! I’ve also been thinking a lot lately about the concept of learning to live with a “broken heart” and realizing that often, trying to ‘fix’ a broken heart isn’t a useful endeavor. Instead, sometimes we must simply learn that we are WHOLE even with our broken pieces. That wonderful quote summed it up a lot better than I can… This is taking me down a whole rabbit hole of thoughts that I’m intrigued to explore further. Thank you for these insights!

Thank you for this insightful post. While in theory a client should be able to accept any reading that was productive and wise, the human mind tends to expand only incrementally, when and where it will. It’s seems willing, even eager for that next small step; but suspicious and/or frightened of anything further ahead. Bismark said “Politics is the art of the possible,” but it’s true of self-improvement as well. As readers, we’re often confronted with the challenge of getting sitters to “hear” the message, which has little to do with the cards and everything to do with creating a empathic connection. Thanks again for sharing your thoughts with the community.

Mary, this is such a valuable insight. I feel that the cognitive dissonance some querents feel may be the result of expectation (you will show me something I do not know, but know enough that I cannot deny it’s plausibility) vs how tarot can often work (highlighting an area, attitude, belief or value that in some way is causing suffering or blockage with advice to clear).

I also get push back from querents when I suggest a reading on a past event which I feel may be blocking or negating a new narrative about a future state. Often they don’t want to “waste time/money on looking at a past event” but it is often when we do that and clarify or even change a past narrative can we move on to recreating a new narrative, especially when we are undergoing a high state of change.

Sometimes I get frustrated because the popular notion is that Tarot is a simple hammer when I see it is actually a scientific calculator; so capable of crunching data and plotting courses infinitely more complex and elegant than it is ever given credit for. Or, that all others want is the hammer (fast food readings I call them) rather than the beautiful and much more helpful narrative building it can provide.