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Inner Strengths:

It is obvious the strength I am going to discuss comes from within, but I also want to talk about us having unique strengths that set up our foundations to overcome any challenges we are faced with and I would like to give you my Top 5 Inner Strength Tipsas well.

“When we think we have hit rock bottom, we just decide we are not letting things get any worse and we begin to use our inner power for what we are here to do.” – Cynthia Jauch

“In times of immense stress and challenge, we begin to see things from a place of being humble, from a looking up point, seeking truth and answers. We start to question why? and we want to know what to do? We look inside ourselves to find the strength and fire to get up and be better.

All life has ups and downs and through the downs we find a new appreciation for when the storm calms and the rainbow comes out. Use the intense emotions and drive to create a transformation within you. You are great, you will do great things, finding courage to be the brilliant being you are.

The bottom is a chance to re create yourself and your life, a new life, a new you, a new day, you can start again at any point, become who you want to be, who you feel you are deep inside. There is only a view of going up from the bottom. It is in each step in any direction we take, that begins a journey. Sometimes one journey ends and a new chapter to your life will begin.

Celebrate the new and allow the mourning of the old you to drift away, like the stormy clouds, allowing the true colors of your inner rainbow to come out and bring a smile and joy to you once again.”

With consistent effort and flow even water can create big marks into stone and heavy and hard objects, so when we consistently use our strengths we are utilising a more powerful force.

My Top 5 Inner Strength Tips are:

1. Know Your inner Strengths

Learn your inner strength by doing some souls searching and know your foundation to achieve success for you even if you have many challenges in life. Sit in quiet and allow your strengths to arise, write them down.

Always create and cultivate a mind shift and tool for you easy to use, to feel any hard feelings and move through them and learnt the lessons as quickly as possible, mindset and attitude is everything when it comes to inner strength. Examples are: Have a gratitude practice or Have a 1 minute of victim ritual (let yourself feel down and sorry for only 1 minute and then get back to everything else happy and released)

“Most people are not are not born with inner strength, but it can be developed.

Inner strength consists of willpower, self discipline, self control, persistence, detachment and the ability to concentrate. In this article we will focus on two of the ingredients, willpower and self discipline, which are important and essential tools for success in all areas of life, and which can be learned and strengthened like any other skill.”

Sowhat are you waiting for?

Get your inner strength on, get inspired, get passionate, get motivated.

Sex, Love and New Paradigm Union:

I think the old paradigmmale/female connection and synthetic and ego relationships needs to be shed, it doesn’t suit most people (hence all the: fights, gender battles, abuse and cheating) but most people don’t question it to create something new.
I now will only enter into a Sacred Soul Union with someone, and only engage in Sacred Sex.
But I now know what I want with clarity.
I couldn’t get it before I knew of the opposite. All my actions will be aligned to only accepting these things into my world as possibilities.
Get Clear, Learn what you don’t want, Labels of the old and common way don’t work for most people.

We are worth the joy, bliss, expansion, infinite and unconditional love.
A lot of stigma comes along with the titles of girlfriend, marriage and relationship, this will affect you and the other person you verbally and/or written contract with for connection. Does this serve your highest good? Or is it what we have been told is the only way to connect, engage and be intimate with another person?
There is always choices and we have the power to create our lives and ourselves in any way we choose. Who are we really?

I choose unconditional love, freedom, sacred and divine deep connection, total respect, expression and conscious expansion and growth with any other person I decide to merge my soul with.
I urge if only to think about this, for a little while and ask yourself why you want so badly to follow a tradition that limits you, makes you owned, makes you wish to resist, creates conflict, a potential for hurt and betrayal, devalues your infinite soul and sacred temple and makes you feel guilted into it.

Sex and relationships are not even about love anymore, they become about what people can get, through finances, things, kids, time, gifts, attention and validation of them as to feel like they are worthy to exist and be loved. But we all are worthy.
Love begins within and you won’t be happy and truly connected to another soul or being until you learn to do it within yourself.

Now I am not saying don’t get married if you wish to, but from the things I have learnt of observing myself, my ego, my insecurities, doing massive healing on all levels, self love and dream therapy work I have started to see where a new way can be needed for me. The old does not fulfil me and what my soul is craving for.

The final decider to share my new clarity on what I really want in a connection and partnership with someone has come after having four and a half years mostly single and for nearly two years of that time I was celibate as I was unable to climax after some time in a relationship and not feeling trust or intimacy. I was in the normal relationships from the age of 17-24 all but about 5 months of my adult life was I free to be me, learn about me and do what I wanted. I always ended up bored and feeling trapped and like I had lost myself to the other person and their needs and wants, which was always a choice. But after a 5 year relationship that ended and I left with hardly anything after working for 4 years at a job I hated in order to make a family home and have a fair relationship, I was angry and I realized while in India several years later, all the daddy issues come up, but it wasn’t just my daddy, it was the masculine energy, I had mutated my own masculine and shunned it, and any male to me was untrustworthy and would break my heart after getting my trust or use me for sex, which I was usually very clever to avoid.

After hitch hiking around Australia in April, I was more aware of myself and my sexuality and desires, I was more balanced in both energies, I had learned to become vulnerable and intuitive and nurturing and also powerful, creative, protective and supportive. I was falsely led into a guy’s place under the pretenses that he liked me, he appeared to be a spiritual guy wanting to be genuine. I fell for a lie, he then proceeded to manipulate me and kicked me out of his bed after saying he can’t offer me more than sex, he spent hours seeming uninterested after I arrived and I was happy to just hang out. But then when he kissed me and stopped and said “I can’t offer you more.” I was confused, for one I didn’t know him that well, so I was silly to be there in the first place, but we had met before and had many mutual spiritual and kind friends. After I said I was ok either way, since I was actually tired and just wanted to go to sleep, he said I will set up the couch for you. I was shocked and started thinking “Oh my god, no one has ever thrown me out of their bed”, but it got worse, he than text me and told me to come back, I said no and after many messages he came and grabbed my hand and took me outside with a blanket to have sex under the stars, I felt shocked and I didn’t stop him. Why? and than while we were having sex, I realized something in my new awareness. I wasn’t in my body, I actually realized I am not usually in my body, I start making noises and they think I am enjoying myself, but I total disassociate not feeling intimacy or connection of the soul level, my soul protected me.

On some level this was sexual abuse, how ever I learnt something and I will not go into pressing charges, I am happy to raise awareness for other men and women who have been manipulated like this as I know many have, but the issues for this goes much deeper. Some people see this as OK, that this is the norm and our culture, so many fear commitment, when really they just want Soul Mate or our Twin Flame and don’t know how to go about it, or creating true intimate and soul connections. We are not taught how to connect to ourselves, we are taught to feel guilty about sex, sensuality and connection. How wrong is this? For our first desires as children on learning to connect is naturally and primitively a sexual urge for connection of the soul, for deep pleasure and feeling of protection, nurture and transcendance of the physical body. It is not wrong. The warped collective view of connection, and companionship and community is way unbalanced and rigid.

Even as children we get conditioned to feel love conditionally from our parents, teachers and adults, as that is what they know. Real love is unconditional, no limits, boundaries are beneficial for growth and clarity, but love shouldn’t be the result of being something specific or doing something specific, or even more what relationship or title a person has in relation to you. Someone you just met deserves unconditional love as much as a partner, relative or close friend. Love only has limits when we believe in a lie, which limits its true power and creative and transcending potential. We are all worthy of joy, peace, love and passion in abundance. But we must first question what we have been taught and be prepared to think for ourselves and our choices for what fuels our soul and our best intentions for growth, well-being and fulfilment.

After this above interaction occurred, I changed dramatically, I had realized where I had changed something in me to become more female and submissive, but it was imbalanced to my masculine to protect me and empower me. I decided after that I wanted a relationship but not a normal one and soon after I was getting premonitions of an amazing kiss, I had it every few weeks, like it was happening in real life, I couldn’t see anyone though. I noticed a new friend on facebook not long after this, Jc, a seemingly spiritual guy with mutual friends, I tuned in and there was a massive attraction. I will not tell the whole story but me and Jc met and before we did, we knew each other, not from chatting but on a soul level. We were in a relationship after the second time we met, I was set to go overseas for 6 months, which was part of my spiritual journey and this had thrown a huge spanner in the works, nothing flowed for me to leave. Me and Jc hadn’t even kissed before we were in a relationship, he was very shy and the first time we kissed was after 30 minutes of soul gazing, nothing else existed, I was flowing out so much poetry and we were so in love. But the feeling of resistance and the title what felt like chains to me got in the way. Not long after my dad kicked me out of his place, I had been staying there before heading overseas for 6 months. So kindly Jc offered for me to stay at his, we had only met 5 weeks prior and for me this was a huge rush, I was so freaked out feeling it was going to ruin everything.

I am sad to say but as of yesterday me and him are now extremely close friends, we grew so much the past 6 weeks of our official partnership, I strived to not use terms like girlfriend and boyfriend as I know words hold vibration and I wanted something new, this thing we had, this connection was different. Other worldly, and I have been in love before, even love at first sight. In the past 24 hours after we have gone our separate ways we have gotten even closer without the weight of the status looming over us. We will remain close friends and I am going overseas, the means to leave have showed up just in time. Perhaps once more healing occurs in both of the divine masculine and feminine we could maybe engage in a soul union but we felt that 6 years of experiences passed through us in mere 6 weeks. The immense growth and transformation we have both had and I feel the potential would have been even more without the dense structure and labels of society’s ideal of life and companionship. All my past stuff came up and as it did I learnt where I projected my old view of what the perfect women should be in a relationship, it wasn’t me, it wasn’t real and it most certainly wasn’t sustainable. I was drained and felt unfulfilled, I know all the circumstances unfolded as they should, for me to learn and share this. There was many things at play, things which kept me feeling trapped and drained and stuck in an unnatural flow of being, to think I needed it to connect and unite with another soul. But we don’t.

Right before me and Jc agreed to be a couple I was frustrated, as I was about to go overseas and I didn’t know where I stood, I felt his energy change in preparation for me leaving and I confronted him, I then post on facebook these 11 tips for conscious dating , which I had learned over the past four and a half years of being single and searching for what I was really looking for. He saw it and messaged me about it, we took things virtually to the I love you stage and had only hugged twice and held hands, but a few days later we were on facebook officially a couple and I had a bad and trapping feeling about the title, even though I thought he knew my views, I allowed it and all that was to follow. I wanted infinite and deep soul connection, not mundane and purely physical and emotional responsibility to another and all the dramas that follow that.

If you are single, married, or coupled, ask yourself why are you with someone? What is the connection for? Could you be more fulfilled? Is it within you or is it in the restriction and resistance to an outdated view of connection, intimacy and companionship.

“Real love is not about labels and ownership. It’s about letting the infinite and pure creative force expand without limitations.” – Cynthia Jauch

In a world of labels, critics, definitions, political correctness, diagnosis and major logic it is easy to get stuck in a box, but that is not where we or love belongs. Love is naturally unconditional, why place restrictions on that which is infinite and perfect.

With our titles and explanations, we limit our potential for growth and expansion, for freedom, we have become accustomed to this, through experience from our youth. We can change, we can leap out of the boxes, re define what it means to love and be loved. Not need an ego gratification of an illusion of proof and forever. Love is infinite, people in our lives change. It is good. Learn to trust and love yourself. Than you will not feel trapped and confined by the labels, past energy of our ancestors and the vibration of the labels.

We can choose our essence and our magical life, we don’t need to be owned to feel love, we don’t need to be told we are taken care of, if we have faith we know we always are. Release your insecurity of the need to know for certain and to have someone forever, we are all connected and one.

11 Tips on Conscious Dating:

In this big wide world of people, relationships, love, labels and craziness it can be hard to know how to date consciously without all the hustle and bustle of drama and sexting. For those of us that are romantic at heart and want things more simple but still adventurous this is what I have learned in my research and experience.

“We all have goals to improve our body and we can all abuse it at times, but now is the time to change our attitude towards our body and how it supports us, give it the respect it deserves and work on some changes to create a thriving temple for our growth, wellness and fulfilling our potential in life.

Our bodies are the vehicles for our lives and how well and enjoyable we are experiencing our lives, how fulfilled and supported we feel and what we feel capable of doing.

There is a major imbalance in ourselves, in both waves of polar energy, both the masculine and feminine within us all, we fight within ourselves for the right to be heard and understood by both gender and through this fight we then fight with others of the opposite sex, which are triggering our inner battle.”

“My message to the Feminine:

Women know your divinity as a portal for creation. Your temple is sacred. Don’t let it be touched by those who don’t honour and respect your sacredness and splendour.
Love your body for the amazing tool it is for your life, experience and expression and never be ashamed of it or for only allowing the best for you and it.”

“My message to the Masculine:

Men know your divinity as a force of creating and protecting. Your temple is sacred. Don’t let it be touched by those who don’t honour and respect your sacredness and splendour.
Love your body for the amazing tool it is for your life, experience and expression and never be ashamed of it or feel forced to do something that does not feel right and noble to do. Be the one to step up and open your heart, don’t fear the views of others. Embrace your inner self and power to be balanced. Allow your good qualities to be honoured and respected.”

Let yourself receive, leave games alone, say, think and be what you want, allow respect and respect yourself.

“I think the old paradigm male/female connection and synthetic and ego relationships needs to be shed, it doesn’t suit most people (hence all the: fights, gender battles, abuse and cheating) but most people don’t question it to create something new.
I now will only enter into a Sacred Soul Union with someone, and only engage in Sacred Sex.
But I now know what I want with clarity.
I couldn’t get it before I knew of the opposite. All my actions will be aligned to only accepting these things into my world as possibilities.
Get Clear, Learn what you don’t want, Labels of the old and common way don’t work for most people.”

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Express yourself and feelings, say no when it’s for your best interest. (Follow on From Boundaries)

“Coming to the years end! what an amazing year, as I reflect on my growth more things to overcome are raising to the surface. Shedding new layers of my old self! Part of this was overcoming confusion in relationships, facing fears, speaking my truth and releasing old KARMA!”

“I have confronted a few people about uncomfortable topics and cleared my throat chakra the past few weeks and been getting voice coaching. It’s great to face fears and lift the weight of thinking things could be worse than what they really will be.”

Dress for you, express for you, create for you, scream if you feel, dance and sing if you feel, be as natural as you feel. (Follow on From Speaking your Truth)

“We all at times wear a mask, we show the side of us we feel will be most accepted, we put on a happy face, a pretty face, a tough face. Whatever face we feel will make us most comfortable.

But really when we get used to be our true selves and loving ourselves shadows and all, we will feel more comfortable in our own skin, than we ever could with a mask so others would accept us.

Love the real you and you will find those who do too, be the real you and you will learn new marvels of yourself. Stay true to your soul, your heart, your path, whatever that might be. No one needs to understand it, you are the one walking this path, being you, you are the one who looks in the mirror and sees your reflection. Do what make you proud, what makes you feel happy and content.”

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Meditation, Yoga, Chakra awareness, doing fasts and juice cleanses, knowledge and healing does not make someone perfect or the right match, even if they are more conscious than most people you know. – refer no. 1 & 2

“After hitch hiking around Australia in April, I was more aware of myself and my sexuality and desires, I was more balanced in both energies, I had learned to become vulnerable and intuitive and nurturing and also powerful, creative, protective and supportive. I was falsely led into a guy’s place under the pretenses that he liked me, he appeared to be a spiritual guy wanting to be genuine. I fell for a lie, he then proceeded to manipulate me and kicked me out of his bed after saying he can’t offer me more than sex, he spent hours seeming uninterested after I arrived and I was happy to just hang out. But then when he kissed me and stopped and said “I can’t offer you more.” I was confused, for one I didn’t know him that well, so I was silly to be there in the first place, but we had met before and had many mutual spiritual and kind friends. After I said I was ok either way, since I was actually tired and just wanted to go to sleep, he said I will set up the couch for you. I was shocked and started thinking “Oh my god, no one has ever thrown me out of their bed”, but it got worse, he than text me and told me to come back, I said no and after many messages he came and grabbed my hand and took me outside with a blanket to have sex under the stars, I felt shocked and I didn’t stop him. Why? and than while we were having sex, I realized something in my new awareness. I wasn’t in my body, I actually realized I am not usually in my body, I start making noises and they think I am enjoying myself, but I total disassociate not feeling intimacy or connection of the soul level, my soul protected me.”

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Notice where those you are attracted to are mirroring you or the lesson your soul is seeking. – remain empowered on what you are co creating.

“As we go through life, what we see is us, the parts sometimes we refuse to see. Don’t hide from your shadow, love it and let it integrate into you as a whole.” – Cynthia Jauch

“Those things from others that trigger us are from within us, the anger, frustration, resentment, struggle, it comes from deep within us, something they do, has just brought it to the surface. When we become more aware of ourselves and our stuff we begin to see this, we can then observe, learn to love and heal these parts of us and thank the other person for this awareness.

We than can rise above our inner battle and feel more centred and empowered to be our true authentic selves and let our gifts shine, showing all parts of ourselves with confidence. We are amazing and fascinating creatures, all our different bodies, physical, emotional, mental, astral and more. We are multi-dimensional and connected to all.

Our inner state vibrates out into the universe to attract what we need to learn and remember, so we can rid ourselves of our inner battle, pain and false guilt of our existence.”

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“INSECURITIES: we all have them but it doesn’t make them easy to overcome. When there is extra stress it makes fear and insecurities from long ago come back, when we are run down or don’t know when to say no. Even if you think you’re doing great and accepting and loving yourself…. Then BAM!! something happens that triggers fear or feelings to make you feel inadequate and unworthy. It can be something logical to your mind but rationally things tend to seem worse in a heightened state of emotions or troubled feelings.

Through recent experiences, of my greatest fear being made a reality, coming from the loss of a special and important person, I have been made more aware of my insecurities, which I had believed were resolved. There is the positive in the fear and lose, which are usually believed primarily as negative. To be made aware of such struggles and limitations especially of the mind is a huge opportunity to grow and overcome current and future challenges. Investing energy, thought and time in healing, acknowledging and understanding these troubling thoughts and feelings will have invaluable consequences. In the midst of the rain of weight, doom, pressure and inadequacy, it’s difficult not to feel overwhelmed and demotivated but to change the focus and perspective to the positive outcome these feelings being noticed can present, can fulfil and achieve unbelievable things in yourself and your life.”

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8) Always trust your intuition. –

We have this for a reason, it holds so much wisdom.

“Destiny is a flow of surrender, a path of chosen purpose, unconsciously guiding us to truth, to ourselves.” – Cynthia Jauch

“As signs show up in our lives, we only see them when we are ready, patiently our soul and unconscious divinity, wait for us to stop and remember. For us to step back and admire and be grateful for all the magic ahead and around us.

Destiny becomes a choice of allowing yourself to flow, to a inner peace and place where purpose can be felt. Uncover the creation of you, fall into your heart. Wake up with a new sight for the magnificence in your will, your thoughts and your bond.

We are never apart from our destiny, it’s a place for us to realign. To see the connections that have always been there.”

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9) Are you sure it is LOVE? –

Heart love and lust love are very different.

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If you feel you need someone, you really need more of yourself. Refer 1 & 2.

To me self love is about removing all the thoughts, feelings, words and actions which are unloving towards ourselves. This is a process, but an extremely important one. When we are unconsciously feeling unworthy and unloved by us or by others, we create sabotage and punishment for ourselves. Leaving us feeling lonely, abandoned and unworthy of the things we deserve and desire. But we have put ourselves there. Yes, our society does not educate us to embrace our individuality, in fact it suppresses our nifty quirks and gifts, all to be the same for a future of feeling enslaved by a system and grabbing at little things to create joy and fulfilment, easily addicted to that little time we feel love, or joy and then when it is gone, we crumble, not having a solid pillar of inner love for us, which is so important for our growth, fulfilment and connections in life.”

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Be present, open up, embrace closeness in a newer and deeper way.

“Ripples, waves, vibrations – manifest in many ways into matter but everything is connected and interwoven with everything else.

Never can we be alone….

We are always part of everything, only when we ignore and disassociate with this truth does the pain and suffering of detachment to our core and connection occur…

Lines and waves in ALL, Male (phallus) 1, Female (Vagina, Yoni, Circle of Birth) 0, Binary in nature and also under woven science of numbers and patterns throughout all existence, especially that of animated life, ALL but lives as ALL comes from LIFE force, which came from nothing.”

“Real love is not about labels and ownership. It’s about letting the infinite and pure creative force expand without limitations.” – Cynthia Jauch

“In a world of labels, critics, definitions, political correctness, diagnosis and major logic it is easy to get stuck in a box, but that is not where we or love belongs. Love is naturally unconditional, why place restrictions on that which is infinite and perfect.

With our titles and explanations, we limit our potential for growth and expansion, for freedom, we have become accustomed to this, through experience from our youth. We can change, we can leap out of the boxes, re define what it means to love and be loved. Not need an ego gratification of an illusion of proof and forever. Love is infinite, people in our lives change. It is good. Learn to trust and love yourself. Than you will not feel trapped and confined by the labels, past energy of our ancestors and the vibration of the labels.

We can choose our essence and our magical life, we don’t need to be owned to feel love, we don’t need to be told we are taken care of, if we have faith we know we always are. Release your insecurity of the need to know for certain and to have someone forever, we are all connected and one.”

“Life is Like Surfing”

I started learning to surf last year, something I have always wanted to do. Since I was about four years old and lived next to the beach in Queensland, I loved it; the sand, the wind, the salty water and the sound of the waves breaking, like a soothing song and hum, buzzing and calming. My favourite thing at that time in my life, was getting up really early and dragging any adult I could to the beach. I would get dunked so much. Being that I was so little and had never been taught to swim.

Me at the beach when I was two with my elder sister.

My first lesson was really fun, I fell off the board so much and I laughed a lot but I always got back up and didn’t want to stop practising and learning. In our lives we have many challenges and are faced with new things we don’t at first, know the perfect way to do it but as we give things a go and give ourselves the time to learn, we soon see that we really could do it and really it just takes a bit of practice, commitment and a good attitude. The instructor that day had a great way of teaching, he never would criticise only ever say what he noticed and suggested to test something slightly different, until when I mastered that guidance and could do something new he would gradually add something to test how it felt. When I was learning it reminded me of life, as the wave’s crash and knocks us down or we lose balance, it becomes an analogy for life’s ups and downs, challenges and lessons. If we give up on anything we stop ourselves from learning and growing, yes we can test something new and move the goal in a different direction or even let it go and start again.

I further learnt more of what I find valuable in life, as my lessons went on, with the different instructors different learning styles, the attitude I took with me and the resonance I had with my teacher and their methods of guiding, it taught me a lot about what I aspire to; as a Coach, Healer, Speaker, Leader and Influencer of our youth. As I fell off my surf board, what was I thinking? How was I taking the instructions? How was I adapting to the different weather and current of the waves? These are much needed skills and focus on awareness, are paramount in achieving a standing position in a moving and unpredictable ground and also in these same circumstances in life, which are daily things to face. From my second instructor the biggest thing I learnt was how my demeanour and attitude immediately influences others and how our projection of where fault is to be placed, can aid us in achieving our task or delay and prevent us from achieving it.

Before my third lesson I really connected with the ocean, I watched the waves early in the morning while sitting next to the ocean. I was inspired while feeling connected, like I was communicating with the water as a being, a powerful and masterful being, we are connected to the earth and the elements, the water runs through our veins. As I felt such a respect and reverence. Another post I wrote about the Elements and Water

This morning I began to write and this was the poem that followed:

For all the seas:

Seas of me and seas of you. All connected to the seas of blue. Waves crashing like the sands of time. Rhyming and flowing peaceful mime.

Feeling freely through and beyond. Nature always such a bond. Caressing gently to and fro. Inspired moment to let it all go.

Sometimes still and sometimes chaos. Always rhythmic, place to know. Soothing, stroking never coaxing. Freedom felt through depth non hoaxing.

As my lessons went on each instructor was different, at first this frustrated me as I really like the style of my first teacher, he was in my impression a great leader and guide but each new lesson I had not only a different guide but also a different surfboard to get used to. After thinking about this situation as all lessons have passed I see the immense blessing in the change, for one I know I thrive on challenge and pushing my limits to new heights and two it gave me a true reflection of how to use these skills in life, we never know who we will meet in day to day life, what the weather will, bring, what challenges and opportunities will come. Through everything the consistent message and meaning for success is to “go with the flow”, really, as we move without resistance adapting to changes in nature and our lives, like the waves in the ocean, we learn that we have all we need at any moment in time, that we learn quickly and we can grow through adversity and challenge, we can get back on that surf board and test out what we did before in a different way or the in an altered way from the awareness we gained from the last fall or the wave.

At my final lesson I was in a bigger group and it was with people I knew, I was one of the people who had practised the most and when I was challenged with the new board and three different chiefs telling me each time to change my way, going against my previous learning and also what my body felt was right, I got so frustrated and down hearted. I felt like a failure, and soon I realized how in life when we live how others tell us and we listen to all the advice, laws, rules and guides of others we stop living and when we fail or fall, we don’t know what to do, because we don’t even know what we were doing from following everyone else. When we get up, dust ourselves off we must go back, with the knowledge and wisdom from our own experience, as we are the ones who bares the cost of our choices and actions, we bare the heaviest burden to our own lives. If you want to stand up and surf with ease, trust your intuition, believe in yourself, ask you as the authority of your life.

What will keep you balanced and standing strong?

What will get you through the waves?

What will help you want to get back out there when you fall?

Going back to that four year old me, I remember my fierce determination to just be in the water, flowing with the waves, trusting the flow, loving them with all my heart. I wasn’t angry when I got dunked, I didn’t think I was doing anything wrong. I was simply enjoying the ups and downs, the ride of life, the waves and motion, the adventure and excitement. After my last lesson I was determined to stand up and to be able to use my own surf board, so I paddled out further on my own, even though I was told that my surf board isn’t the best for beginners. I really wanted to feel what it was like to be out in the ocean, connected and free. There was a longing to have that healing and powerful energy of the water all around and the abundant expanse of the life it brings. After some time and not much luck, a few life guards went by in a rescue boat, they asked if I was OK and recommended going somewhere closer to the land, as there was a lot of rough rips at the moment. I said I would go back and in my attempts learnt that the waves had other ideas. Eventually the life guards came back and told me they were taking me in, which I agreed to. I thought it funny, I was content though, that I gave it my best and got to use my own intuition. There was a lot of near moments of standing up and succeeding and for that I was happy. I learnt a few extra things from that though, that we can tackle life how we tackle small situations, the challenges and words of others, our faith in ourself and our confidence in our ability to give new things a go.

As I was walking to the train station this morning, oblivious to my surroundings (very caught up in thought) I was distracted by a few beautiful Jacaranda trees in bloom. They were absolutely stunning, standing out from the surrounding green trees and shrubbery, delightful violet. This made me feel so at peace and immediately in the moment.

As I returned to my thoughts while walking, I wondered to myself about how they were so beautiful because of their difference, it made them unique. Then it occurred to me the perception of my experience, I believed them beautiful from conditioning to this, that certain things especially in nature that were unique are beautiful. This thought led to reflection on how differences in people and the minority have a negative stigma. Why? We as humans are part of the natural universe. Why should our society, culture and community set standards of being unique and different as being more negative and less accepted? For example mental illness, even though more people are prone to depression and anxiety then willing to admit, the stigma is negative because most people want to be in the majority and accepted. So many people can miss out on their calling because they are following the crowd, miss out on the right job, a more fulfilling life and meeting the right person.

Individuality and being unique should be more widely celebrated, this in itself as an acceptance and appreciation of everyone no matter their difference is what will achieve more balance, productivity and evolution in the world. But this, all starts with the change in an individuals perspective and ability to accept themselves first and not fear to be them self.

All of us have the power to change our thoughts, perspectives and beliefs and even one person doing this will effect their actions and have a positive impact on the world.

Change starts from within. Change yourself and you change your world, the world around you and the world for everyone around you.

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The Life Shift

The Life Shift:
1-4:30pm Saturday 2nd July - Musgrave Park Brisbane.
Secrets to "Shift your Life".
FREE "The Life Shift" ebook when you sign up.

Hosted by Inspire Destiny.

This will be very inspiring and motivational, you will get a lot of take home and usable information and huge value. We live to inspire, we strive to aid others in achieving their truest potential and their most inner desires.

Is there anything in your LIFE you could SHIFT?
How would you like to learn some tried and tested secrets that have helped many people "Shift" their lives? As well as achieve more of what they want, with ease, grace and confidence.
You will hear from Cynthia, founder of Inspire Destiny, Intuitive and Transformational Coach, Healing Facilitator, Creative Writer and Creative Director of the Inspire Unity Movement and Festival.

The things she will share:

• The 5 Pillars of Fast Shifts - resulting in starting her own business, travelling the world, gaining some of the most amazing and supportive friends, colleges and mentors, finding peace, balance and relief from her depression, anxiety and fatigue.
• How you can use your most valuable assets to Live an "Inspired Life"

• How you can quickly attract a resolution to a concern or aid in healing a relationship. Simple and tried ways that have shown miraculous results.

• How you can feel more confident, deeper levels of self love and acceptance and also attract this from others. - Methods which many people use but not everybody realises the amazing results, if used correctly.

You will also hear from 2 Amazing LIFE SHIFT Speakers:

• Their 2 Biggest Tips from their own massive LIFE SHIFTS.

• What they now do to INSPIRE others in their life to live their greater potential.

• The 2 Key consistent actions they take in creating more SHIFTS in their LIFE.

Bring the kids, a partner or friend, bring a chair, yoga mat, rug or cushion, enjoy the sun, the awesome energy of the park and some great inspiring and shifting secrets. Connect with like minded people.

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