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To answer this question, it’s probably best that I share with you a defining moment, and a resulting “compelling story”, that brought me to where I am today – coaching people like you on exactly what to do to turn their pain into peace, live their lives by design instead of by default, wherefore they fall in love with themselves and with life.

That defining moment in my life happened when I was 12. I was being sexually abused on a daily basis by my stepfather which lasted for 5 year. I remember being really confused, wanting to end the suffering and many times I didn’t see the light at the end of the tunnel; howbeit, I didn’t want to DIE.

Something deep inside me was whispering to hold on. When I turned 17, I got my first summer job and with my first pay check, I left. I left my abusive step-dad even though I was scared as hell. My mother had left two years previous to that, leaving me to live alone with this man. She didn’t know how to protect me and didn’t know how to shield herself from the unbearable pain of being unimaginably betrayed for a second time by a man she thought she could trust and love.

I then I registered to an english college, and immersed myself in an English community because I already had my mind set that I would not to spend the rest of my life in Quebec only speaking French.

The world was calling me and I was answering the call.

I graduated from college, got a job, fell in “love”, got into a relationship and became pregnant. Fast forward 7 years later, I woke up on my 30th birthday and realized I had created the exact same cycle of abuse and dysfunction in my relationship that I had with my father and step-father. In that finite moment, I knew I had to leave. Within 3 weeks, I was gone; I left with nothing else but me and my daughter and the clothes on our backs, for I knew that if I wanted to live to be 31, there was no other way. I was terrified, insecure, broken on so many levels, depressed, unhealthy, morbidly obese and I felt very ALONE.

Throughout my life I have found the COURAGE to not settle for anything less than what I deserve. I’ve released over 100 lbs, I was medically released from the Canadian Forces, and later on invited as an honoured guest at an International Women’s Day event to speak on the power of self-love and forgiveness (see my testimonials). In 2013, I once and for all left the corporate world as a North-American software trainer, and came out of the “Spiritual Closet” with Open Heart Soulutions.

Now I coach men and women on how to overcome life’s challenges, turn their pain into peace and LOVE every minute of life. I’ve led healing and transformational retreats in Canada(2013), Dominica(2014) and Bali(December 2015), and facilitated healing heART’s workshops and programs for women who are looking to find peace again through the turmoil in their lives.