Set up the rules in your relationships

Summer is coming, and along with it come holidays and hopefully some holiday flings or more, like falling in love 😉 !

But no matter what time of year, there are still many of you who are looking for a serious relationship with lasting love.

You have to know that the most important thing is not the relationship itself, but rather to be with the “right” person, the one that suits you the best. And therein lies the problem … Being a good person does not mean that he or she is the “ONE” for you.

Yes! A relationship’s foundation should be love (you would surely agree) but as important are great communication skills, the ability to compromise, have understanding for your partner, respect of each other, a healthy level of confidence, and trust in each other. You need to be compatible physically and emotionally.

So you have to set up the rules from the beginning for your relationship to be healthy and balanced.

Most of the time people don’t know what they want and throw themselves into a relationship just for fun or simply because they think that it is what they need.

On the other hand, when you know what you want, often we don’t know how to express it out of fear to be misunderstood. We are afraid to say what we mean and need, possibly out of fear that our desires and needs won’t be echoed by our partner.

Let us tell you, if that is the case in your life you are in a bad relationship! If you are, that is one more reason to express yourself out loud and see if your partner follows your lead. If not, this relationship is not for you!

Relationships are not supposed to be convenient and if they are, they are not worth much.

Think about your situation carefully and have a precise idea of your expectations. Be honest with yourself and never “lower your standards” because LADIES and GENTLEMEN, nobody should ever ask you to “lower your standards” 😉 !

Gary Chapman’s book “The 5 Languages of Love”, which is, in our opinion, very instructive and helpful, helps us to visualize our own path of giving and receiving love. This book summarizes the 5 main different ways people communicate their love.

Don’t be afraid to be alone! Learn to love yourself first before appreciating someone else, as the lack of self-love will poison any relationship.Please stop accepting things you find not acceptable, and mostly, stop creating imaginary needs!

Our outfits:

On this shoot on the bridge Alexandre III, C has slipped into a pretty little ZARA khaki jumpsuit back naked with a sexy knot in the back … hum… we love it. She also wears ZARA mid-calf boots whose heel matches perfectly with the outfit 😉 . Her black padded bag also comes from ZARA.

G is wearing a SANDRO khaki jacket, H&M clutch, ASOS high-waisted trouser(similar here) and an ASOS crop top (initially a bra corset, but shhhhh it’s a secret don’t tell anyone about it 😉 ) . Do you see the beauty of this little top? This outfit is sublimated by a pair of black ZARA pumps.