nature, just skip the posters who may have written something you found insulting or whatever, and focus on the posts of the people with suggestions. truth is, many people here on BHM mean well but the way they write may come off wrong... kinda like the thread of that girl talking about revenge on her cheating rich boyfriend that led to 50+ pages with most people disagreeing with her actions and "insulting her" and she called everyone mean and said that black women always acted like that or whatever.... and then later came back humbled because the guy hit her.

What happened OP? I really don't read the through the threads here, I can guess it all went wrong somewhere. Focus on what you can take from this thread. If nothing stands out as good advice then just speak to people in real life instead and simply ignore this thread completely. Have you had any progress? Have you been to any new places?

well as usual things with people disagree their are some members here who are waiting in (HEAT) to try and e-fight LOL! I have been a few new places its not just about meeting Men for me its about meeting my match and I guess I have to start over I think I may leave the country for a bit because I don't fell like this American lifestyle is for me.. too much negativity

what are you saying? I am not a troll! you need to fight with me! why y'all trying to e-jump me? LOL U know for sure that some of the people posting in this thread are Sad! and Sorry! and Live for BHM DRAMA and if that's what they live for just think about how sorry their real lives must be? Just saying? someone can say one idea they don't agree with and already to think of the most {foul DISGUSTING, low, ideas to "big up" dem selves! its childish

Please...you throw shade in every thread about the women on here. You aint here for no kumbaya sh*t. You enjoy the "drama" and that's cool cuz I do too lol

what are you saying? I am not a troll! you need to fight with me! why y'all trying to e-jump me? LOL U know for sure that some of the people posting in this thread are Sad! and Sorry! and Live for BHM DRAMA and if that's what they live for just think about how sorry their real lives must be? Just saying? someone can say one idea they don't agree with and already to think of the most {foul DISGUSTING, low, ideas to "big up" dem selves! its childish

Please...you throw shade in every thread about the women on here. You aint here for no kumbaya sh*t. You enjoy the "drama" and that's cool cuz I do too lol

I am sure you have me confused with another member I don't try and get personal with any of the women on this bd. I may talk about things in general but not personal because it would have no base~ I've meet a few members but most have moved on... I wonder why?

What happened OP? I really don't read the through the threads here, I can guess it all went wrong somewhere. Focus on what you can take from this thread. If nothing stands out as good advice then just speak to people in real life instead and simply ignore this thread completely. Have you had any progress? Have you been to any new places?

well as usual things with people disagree their are some members here who are waiting in (HEAT) to try and e-fight LOL! I have been a few new places its not just about meeting Men for me its about meeting my match and I guess I have to start over I think I may leave the country for a bit because I don't fell like this American lifestyle is for me.. too much negativity

Oh, well this is the internet so don't invest too much time or serious interest in it.

Anyways, I may have an idea! It doesn't have much to do with men, it has more to do with leaving the country if you're serious. PM me if you are.

Your mind was made up on page 1, I can only speak for myself but my first piece of advice was honest valid advice, and somewhere along the way I lost the little phuck I had in me after page 19 or so.

People like you kill me, you want advice but you only want well dressed lies, you only want to hear 25 versions of your truth. Well guess what you been working it your way and how is that been working out for you? I am going to say not great cause not only did you come in here and ask us heathen chicks with dicks with a dash of whore but you have either been scanning Cosmo and Marie Claire in your local CVS but you have also been Googling links to back up your theory of your "man plan" that I repeat has not worked yet or the thread would have been titled Marie Claire knows their Stuff and I am getting married tomorrow.

These relationships that did not lead to marriage there is one common theme and that is you. Now maybe one guy wasn't the one but at some point we have to examine our picking, why is every man I choose not the one or even close to what I want in a husband and the society blame of no ones gets married , nope. No one on BHM was giving you bad advice when those situations didnt workout .

I will let you in on a little secret, I would advise you to bring more to the table when you do get married than your self righteous attitude, refurbished virginity and a fork.

Please pm me the time and date of this never happening bhm meet up , and I will show up with a name tag on I bedazzled I promise I will and my comments will be the same live, in person snatched, beat, lipgloss on point looking like I aint got a man problem in the world.

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