Friday, May 21, 2010

What to do with guys like this?

When I meet a guy online, I like to take a few days to email him and get to know as much as I can about him before meeting so that I can weed out the ones I don't want to meet. I have had many guys that will ask me "so do you want to meet for a drink afterwork sometime?". These are guys that I have not even really talked to yet and I have made it clear in my ad that I don't drink (and I presume they are talking about alcohol) . WHen I say I would like to get to know them a little better first , they seem to think I am stringing them along and making excuses when I am just being safe and getting to know them first.

What to do with guys like this?There is nothing wrong with getting to know someone online first before meeting. If they are the "real" thing they will understand and wait and not pressure you to meet. And if they don't understand they are not worth your time anyway. Also if you do decide you want to meet any of them just kindly remind them you do not drink alchohol and would prefer meeting over a cup of coffee. Good luck.Reply:I would just make it clear to them that you do not drink and you just want to start off as friends. If they can not accept it then just ignore them.Reply:Just meet them. Order something virgin. It sounds sexier anyway! LOL