Is it weird that i'm engaged for someone that I just met? What do you think guys?

just there's a lot of connections between us and we are the same in everything and we love and think about the same thing and he's Amazing. i told my parents about him and they said that I'm crazy and i shouldn't marry him because i know him only since three weeks. they said that's madness and he's planning for something bad but i believe it's something good.

oh... yeah it's because your dad's a cop. All he ever sees is how shitty people can be to each other so he worries for you.

Personally, I'd spend at least another few months with the guy to just see what kind of person he is. You want to be able to see him at his worst too, see him in different situations and then you can decide if you want to live with that for the rest of your life.

No... don't fall for it. That sounds like bad news, honestly. Why does he want to marry you so soon? He should be able to answer your questions without it being a big deal. Sounds kinda shady to me really.

"everytime I ask a question he keeps kissing me and telling me that I"ll know him better after marriage" ... "He wants to marry me in these days or something like that"

It sounds like he's really rushing it, why? And why doesn't he want to answer your questions? What's wrong with that? You two obviously haven't known each other for long, it's natural to ask questions.

It kinda sounds to me like he's trying to lock you in really quick before you get to see what kind of asshole he really is. You've heard of those stories right? Mr. Perfect marries a girl really quick and turns out to be an asshole. Usually I'd give the guy the benefit of a doubt but he's being evasive when you question him which is a bad thing.

You know what you can do? Just tell him that you really respect your parent's feelings on the matter and that they think you should wait a little longer; you're going to try and make them happy by waiting.

If you two are meant to be together, and really love each other, then all other is not that important. I would say wait for maybe a month or two, and if all is same as now get married. I hope this will encourage you : My sister met a guy online, and not long after she told us that she want to marry him. We were all surprised, skeptic and a bit scarred since we didn't know him. Nevertheless we supported her in her decision, and that's most important. So, her bf came to our house with his mom, and we all talked. He looked very honest and sound the same, determined too. Now after almost a year, they got a beautiful baby and look so happy with each other. Best of luck with your case! :)

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Absolutely nothing you've said on this page makes marrying this guy sound like a good idea. You shouldn't get married when you've only known someone three weeks anyway--you've got all sorts of chemicals swirling around in your system that will wear off after a few months, and it's good to wait and see where your relationship is after that happens. When the guy is pressuring you into marriage like this, and keeping secrets, and you're wondering if he's being honest with you? Those are all great big warning signs, and I think you should not only not marry him, but also distance yourself from him in general.

It's a common trait of sociopaths to pretend to be your soulmate, to seduce you as fast as they can (are very good at it). They ask for commitment as soon as possible and then suddenly, they spin on a dime, turn into this completely different person and torture you for as long as they have their teeth sunk into your flesh so that you can't escape.

There are many people who fall for it and no smarts, no "connection" and no "love" will fix the situation. All kinds of people can fall into their clutches. The only thing that can keep you safe is TIME.

Three weeks is a very short amount of time to know anyone, let alone the guy you plan to marry and be with for the rest of your life. I think you are showing your immaturity by thinking marriage is a good idea at this stage. What's the rush? If you really do love him and he loves you then he's not going anywhere, just take it easy and stop rushing. You may split up in another three weeks.

that's too early, better enjoy each company first before getting married and most parents instinc are true. But itstill depend to you, if you really feel the he is the right guy then its up to you. I myself been in 7 years into a relationship and engage for 1 year but I still feel strange and not ready.

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I don't know. he want to marry me after two weeks and because i love him i said yes on everything and I'm confused because he's keeping secrets and want to tell me after marriage.