Alternate Dildos

So I am really interested in getting a dildo, but I am not openly gay yet. I am worried that the people I live with will be a little freaked out by me owning one. So I am looking for something I could maybe substitute as a dildo that would be safe, until I get my own place and can get one.

So you could order "insertables" in the privacy of your own home, smile at the UPS guy and say "finally the replacement charger for my laptop" and then run on upstairs and spend hours exploring the depth of yo butt

1) Your roommates probably already know2) Would it be so bad to tell them? (it might really help)3) why the HELL would they find out? Don't you have your own things? or are you living in a one-room dorm...? if that's the case you should probably have a chest of your own things that you can lock up etc. I still wouldn't use a dildo in a dorm room though - who knows WHO would walk in at random times

Ditto what was said - * owning and using a dildo when you are a guy doesn't make you gay.THere are plenty of straight and bi men that use one.* you can hide the dildo and keep it locked if you like; if they go into your stuff while you are away - I wouldn't want them as housemates* you can discreetly purchase a dildo online and have it mailed to you at work; most services, however, have non-identifiable boxes which would mean you could have it mailed home

Another option is to go to a place in the next town over and purchase one...I am sensing that you are scared or apprehensive...you'll be fine.