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Thursday, 8 November 2012

Literally there is no way one can chase two rabbits at the same time but figuratively yes you can. Its about being able to focus on two different tasks or things at the same time. for one to able to do that you'd have to be very disciplined. you must be hard working and dedicated. I have always hand my hands in two projects. I worked right after I graduated high school and I was enrolled for my diploma at the same time. I needed to make that money from my job and I also needed to be in school working towards my qualification. to me that is a good example of chasing two rabbits at the same time.

I am also a living proof that working hard does get you what you want be cause with my part job money I made I maintained myself and at the same time I learnt to be disciplined and to take care of myself. I had to learnt all these things when I was you and I think that might have been the best thing to do to get me where I am today.

This statement is talking to me right now because I have no idea what its about or what to write about.

I do know that its always important especially when you are in the working industry to always have back up for everything. Imagine a presentation to senior management that you have to to and on the morning of the presentation you find that everything you had prepare is gone, corrupted, missing or lost. The first thing people normally do is panic, freak out and ruin things for themselves. the best thing to do in situations like that is being calm, breathing properly and moving on to plan be.

This statement is in support of always having a back up plan in life to avoid stressful situations. Having a back up plan means having something to fall back on when the original idea falls off, but then again we must understand that in life we cannot back up everything, for example a job, there is no way one can back up a job, the only way is to be responsible and hard working to keep you job and relationships as well there is no backing up a relationship. When I first read this statement I thought about the exciting ability of having a back up husband or boy friend whenever the original or desired on falls off but that impossible. the only form of back up in this regard is family, people that you know will always be with you or there for you......... if they are not dead

In areas where virginity testing has become
common doctors are reporting an increase in physical traumas associated with
anal sex. Young people are now resorting to anal sex because of the fear they
have of failing the testing. They then
resort to anal sex as an alternative to virginal penetration thus putting them
at an increased risk of acquiring HIV.

The South African Human right and gender
commission members said that the fact that girls have lie down and open their
legs for someone to inspect them is a total discrimination of rights of privacy
and integrity, and having their results being publicly disclosed is a violation
of human rights.

The article also states that these tests use
fear as their weapon as girls will be scared should they fail the testing as
their peers will call them rotten potatoes. The KwaZulu Natal health department also is concerned for the girl’s health as their testers
proceed from one girl to the other without proper cleaning and disinfectants.

The girls who were interviewed about how they
felt about being tested for their virginity said that they had no problems
about being tested and that the testing helped them stay clean, as they feared
contracting HOV and falling pregnant.
Some virginity testers even said that the testing plays a huge role in
identifying cases of child abuse and rape as they have become experienced in
identifying the symptoms.

I will be informing you about the impact of controlling
female sexuality in the context of AIDS pandemic. Since the mid 90s virginity
testing has grown significantly in South Africa.

After the 1994 elections HIV started showing
its existence and visibility especially in the Kwazulu Natal areas. South
Africa though does not practice virginity testing as much as other countries do
in the African continent e.g. I Uganda girls are encouraged to take part in the
virginity testing by being awarded when they pass virginity testing. It is
often taken very seriously in some African countries.

There was a program years ago in central Durban
where a woman who owed businesses of more than 21 franchises had employed female
virgins only. When she was interviewed the business owner who is also Zulu said
that she does not believe that she is crossing any lines or being
discriminating or unconstitutional to anyone, instead she is helping the
government reduce the increasing rate of HIV/AIDS and teenage pregnancy.

Furthermore in Zimbabwe the article states that
some Shona chiefs use virginity testing as a means of generating income as most
families who take part in this process are expected to pay about R5 to have
their girls tested and to have them publicly declared as clean should they pass
the testing. Should it happen that the
girl fails to test positive the father will be charged and will be expected to
pay the chief. These payments are
usually in a form of livestock like goats and sheep.

I will be informing you about the impact of controlling
female sexuality in the context of AIDS pandemic. Since the mid 90s virginity
testing has grown significantly in South Africa.

After the 1994 elections HIV started showing
its existence and visibility especially in the Kwazulu Natal areas. South
Africa though does not practice virginity testing as much as other countries do
in the African continent e.g. I Uganda girls are encouraged to take part in the
virginity testing by being awarded when they pass virginity testing. It is
often taken very seriously in some African countries.

There was a program years ago in central Durban
where a woman who owed businesses of more than 21 franchises had employed female
virgins only. When she was interviewed the business owner who is also Zulu said
that she does not believe that she is crossing any lines or being
discriminating or unconstitutional to anyone, instead she is helping the
government reduce the increasing rate of HIV/AIDS and teenage pregnancy.

Furthermore in Zimbabwe the article states that
some Shona chiefs use virginity testing as a means of generating income as most
families who take part in this process are expected to pay about R5 to have
their girls tested and to have them publicly declared as clean should they pass
the testing. Should it happen that the
girl fails to test positive the father will be charged and will be expected to
pay the chief. These payments are
usually in a form of livestock like goats and sheep.

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