Sunday, February 7, 2016

EFFECTIVE PARENTING , THE INDIAN WAY , PART 3 - CAPT AJIT VADAKAYIL

I was a captain at sea
for 30 years. I have never felt bad or
threatened when someone opposed my point of view in a meeting. I hated YES MEN.

The fact that your
child is challenging you is a good thing , not a bad one. Especially when you are angry or upset. Examine the merits of his point of view.

Maturity starts when
melodrama ends. Caring about LIFE is an
act of maturity. Maturity is NOT proportional
to age- it is an attitude..

GIVE YOUR CHILD PSYCHOLOGICAL SPACE.

If you are too intrusive, you will undermine
your child’s sense of self-confidence.

Intelligent children know how to comfort
themselves . They don’t need a patronizing
( but intrusive ) paw on their shoulders.

Almost all the time it
is the parents OVER REACTION and splitting hairs melodrama which upsets the
child, not the minor event by itself.

Your child has the right to his own feelings,
however disconcerting they may be to you.

When I was coaching my
6 year old elder son tennis, I remember I was a bit too greedy and aggressive. He lost interest in the game quickly.

If you are micro managing
your child’s life to the point where you are turning experiences that should be
joyful into ones that are unpleasant, you are being too greedy and directive

Focus more on your
child’s INTENT than the behavior you deemed unsuitable. Before your reprimand your child, make sure
you find out why he did what he did.

Many a time I have seen
a guy A bashing up a guy B on the streets . I have refrained from interfering
as I do NOT know who is righteous, A or
B. Maybe B molested A’s daughter or sister . The loser in a fight need NOT be right.

At school I used to
pick on regular bullies and beat them up, though I was smaller than them.
To any innocent bystander I would be the bully, NOT the real bully.

Allow your child to act
his age. You are supposed to enjoy his childishness.

Don’t call a small
child selfish. In Hinduism we do NOT
cremate a small child ( less than 27 months of age ) whose EGO is not formed.

When you have small children
in the house keep away breakable items, good furniture , so that you don’t get
stressed. Don’t fly off the handle and rush to wipe away a mark he made on the
wall. Enjoy that mark.

Your home is for you to live in , NOT for
others to gape at.

This avoids stress and
resulting actions which damage the small child’s psyche. That does NOT mean he can throw shit on the
wall every day deliberately.

Make as few rules as
possible in the home . If you make any rule like keeping dirty footwear outside
the door and ensure that they are clear.
Involve children in making the rules , if possible.

Form informal agreements with children rather than imposing
your brute will on them. Explain why the rules are important so that they
understand .

Just spanking your child , to use pain as NEGATIVE FEEDBACK will
decrease the quality of your relationship with them. One day you will be weaker
than your child .

Decode the behavior --
why is he acting this way?

Avoid taking a telephone call when the child has
something important to tell you. The best communication between you and the
child will occur when others are not around. Don’t ask why, but do ask what
happened. Show that you accept the child himself, regardless of what he has or
has not done- this is THE most important part of child rearing

PARENTING FOR HOMOSEXUALS IS BEYOND THE SCOPE OF THIS POST.

Choose books to read
and movies to watch with your child, with the express goal of building
character. There is NO need to fear , that by making your child too happy , you
will spoil him. A happy home is the fertile
ground in which all good affections grow.

Life affords no greater
responsibility, no greater privilege, than the raising of the next generation.
God has ensured that CHANGE is the only constant.

A wise man can live in
peace with things he cannot change. Never try to do things you cant. What is
the point in teaching a donkey to sing. It is a sheer waste of time and effort.
No dream can become true unless you have some skill and go to work.

Parents
must inject skills into the child. Faith and trust are the seeds which bring
the sweet fruits of success.

Self esteem is required
to make a person mentally healthy. Never
destroy the child’s self esteem by making him feel like a piece of shit. To be a
successful you must get your children which you produced , be exited about
life.

Life is a festival only to those who live with enthusiasm. Lack of enthusiasm wrinkles the soul. The parenting must be such that the child
knows for sure that it is futile to di a well when he gets thirsty.

The child must be taught to take
responsibility for his failures. Teach
him that the kite rises only against the wind. Good manners are the best
letters of recommendation. Don’t swear like the captain. Laughter is the
cheapest and BEST luxury at home , it electrifies the nerves and cleanse the
system.

Real richness consists of a
singing heart.

Teach the child NOT to
take tomorrow to bed with him. There is
a difference between planning and worrying. Planning is constructive, worry is
destructive. Try to forget useless things.

To remember everything is to make
your mind a dustbin. Children do NOT have such problems usually, unless the
child is high strung. The greatest
wealth is contentment with little- let the child understand this. The western
mind might find this very funny.

It is better to aim at a good thing and miss
than to aim at a bad thing and hit. Success has to be seen in an intelligent
manner. The purpose of life is not only to be happy, but also to be creative ,
productive and useful—to make a difference that you lived at all on this
planet.

Only people with inferiority complex wants to impress others. What
matters is how you played the game--not whether you lost or won-- or was fired!
Do not go around copying others signatures. All imitations are plastic. There
is great joy in being ordinary.

The smallest good deed is better than the
grandest good attention.

Teach the child about
charity. Never betray a trust.

Never create guilt in
the child. Creating guilt in you is the oldest trick of all religions, except Hinduism.You have succeeded in
life when all you really want is only what you really need.

YOU ARE NEVER A LOSER
UNLESS YOU QUIT TRYING.!

Praise your children
openly, reprehend them behind closed doors. Bind your children to you by a feeling of
respect and by gentleness than by fear.

If a child lives with in
a home awash with criticism, he learns to condemn. If a child lives with love
and fairness, he learns justice. The
child of a tiger will never be a PUSSY..

Childhood is a time for
free joyful play and self discovery. When we rush children through it, we rob
them of an innocent age they'll never pass through ever again. This is a sin.

Character, moral fiber,
an inner compass... lay the foundation for a happy, healthy future. They matter
more than any school report card or trophy ever will. Teach your child early in life , that good
can always triumph over evil.

A happy moral family is
but an earlier heaven. You don’t really understand human nature unless you know
why a happy child on a merry-go-round will wave at his parents every time
around – and why his parents will always wave back. Check this out next time.

Indeed, life affords no
greater privilege, than the raising of the next generation. Bind your children to you by a feeling of
respect and love than by fear. When kids feel loved, they become attached to
us. That attachment makes them receptive to our guidance.

Play with your children.
Let them choose the activity, and don't worry about rules. Just go with the
flow and have fun. Mothers must
encourage daddy time, even if divorced. Kids
with engaged fathers do better in life
and can cope better with whatever life throws at them.

IT IS NECESSARY TO HAVE
ONE MEAL A DAY TOGETHER AS A WHOLE FAMILY.
NO PICKING ON ANYBODY DURING THIS MEAL .
NO DISCUSSING WORK OR SCHOOL. THIS IS A TIME TO CONNECT. NO WATCHING TV WHILE EATING . .

DON’T FORCE THE CHILD
TO EAT DURING THIS BONDING MEAL , SOMETHING HE DOES NOT WANT TO EAT. YOU CAN DO THIS DURING HIS OTHER TWO MEALS.

Parents must NOT allow
small children to eat junk food and drink sugary soft drinks. Once in a while
for a change it is OK.

Develop a SILENT
GESTURE that your children will accept as a signal that they are being
inappropriate and need to change their behavior. This helps them to respond to
your prompt without getting upset. Bitter words hurt .

Don’t make your own
child feel worthless by making belittling comments. Look for gradual changes in
behavior. Watch the trends. Don’t expect too much. Praise behavior that
is coming closer to the desired goal.

Teach your child to
share. When you share you multiply your happiness.

Parents who reason with
their kids allow them to understand and learn in a nonjudgmental way. You can't
expect kids to do everything simply because you, as a parent, "say
so."

They want and deserve explanations. Kids who participate in decisions
are more motivated to carry them out. Make suggestions and offer choices. Be
open to your child's suggestions as well.

As your child changes due to time,
you'll gradually have to change your parenting style. Chances are, what works
with your child now won't work as well in another two years. . Keep pace with
your child's development. Your child is growing up.

He is NOT a potted plant.

Strive to nurture and
encourage, even when disciplining your kids.

Make your child feel
valued and loved, while teaching him the difference between right and wrong. A
warm touch is enough. Avoid blanket
phrases like "Good job!" like a parrot.

Instead let the child know what exactly is being
appreciated

If your children are
quarreling, don't choose sides, but be fair and neutral. Children have long
memories when it comes to this aspect—when you ALWAYS support the other child.

Create an atmosphere in which your children
can come to you with a problem, however large or small. If your child says he
has to tell you something, make sure you take this seriously and drop
everything you're doing..

You are NOT a bad parent if you don't allow your
children to have everything they want. You can say no but you should provide a good
reason for saying no or offer an alternative. You cannot financially afford
certain things, right?

Set aside day to go to
a park, lake, beach , or library depending on your child’s interests. These are
things the child will remember in your old age.

When you go for a school
function where you child receives a prize, try and go early and sit in the
front row. My wife always did that.

If your child has difficulty with the homework
try and assist him ( do NOT do it for him ) . Visit their teachers at open house to get a
sense of how they are doing in school.

Avoid food fights. A
healthy child instinctively knows how much to eat. If he refuses to finish
whatever food is on his plate, just let it go. He won't starve. Your child is
NOT a garbage bin.

Once a week, allow your
children to choose what's for dinner and cook it for them.

PAY ATTENTION WHEN YOUR CHILD DEMANDS A PARTICULAR TYPE OF FOOD-- SAY AN ORANGE OR LASSI.

The lungs contain different cells that renew at different rates. The alveoli or air sac cells - needed for the exchange of oxygen / gases , deep in the lungs have a steady progress of regeneration that takes about a year.

OIL PULLING WITH VIRGIN COCONUT OIL , IS FOR TONGUE THAN FOR TEETH AND GUMS. THIS IS KERALA AYURVEDA .

THIS IS BEING TOLD FOR THE FIRST TIME ON THIS PLANET . .

capt ajit vadakayil
..

If your rules vary from
day to day in an unpredictable fashion or if you enforce them only
intermittently, your child's misbehavior is your fault, not his. Children get confused.

Your most important disciplinary tool is
consistency. Identify your non-negotiables. The more your authority is based on
wisdom and not on power, the less your child will challenge it.

Children treat others
the way their parents treat them. Your relationship with your child is the
foundation for her relationships with others.

Show your child how and
when he should apologize. It will not reduce him. Show him the power of truth. Don't
accept disrespect from your child. Never allow him to be rude or say hurtful
things to you.

When you see a small child abusing his own parents in public you
know what type of parenting has taken place. The art of conversation is an
important social skill, but parents often neglect to teach it. Show your child
how to become a responsible citizen.

Respect parenting
differences. Support your spouse's basic approach to raising kids -- unless
it's way out of line. Endless arguments
with your spouse will do more harm to
your marriage and your child's sense of security than if you accept standards
that are slightly different from your own.

Good parenting means rethinking
and rearranging your priorities. It means
sacrificing what you want to do for what your child needs to do. Be there mentally as well as physically for
your child.

Savor the moments of
laughter and play . Enjoy it now -- it
will be over far too fast never to come back EVER – don’t miss the bus

Avoid making your child
take antibiotics . Overprescribing
antibiotics can cause tremendous damage to your child. He is NOT gonna die. His young body can
recover from minor bacterial ailments. There is NO antibiotic for viruses.

If your child has fever
don’t send his to school. However remember
that a fever is not something to fear. Fever is not an illness, rather, it is a
symptom of sickness and is usually a positive sign that the body is fighting
infection

Fever is actually a
signal that an immune system is working well and in older children who do not
appear to be particularly distressed, fever is a positive sign. It is evidence
that the child has an active immune system. Fever does not harm your brain or
your body, although it does increase your need for fluids.

Fevers generally do not
need to be treated with medication unless your child is uncomfortable or has a
history of FEBRILE CONVULSIONS. The fever may be important in helping your
child fight the infection. It is rare for a fever to rise higher than 104 F,
and as long as your child does not seem distressed, there is no harm in letting
a fever run its course

In most cases, rest and
plenty of fluids is all that's needed when a fever strikes. Fever does increase
fluid loss, so it's important to give your child plenty of fluids, even if they
don't feel thirsty, to prevent dehydration.

There are some
instances, however, when a fever does require medical attention.

This includes:-

Fever in an infant
younger than 3 months (at any temperature)

Fever above 102.5
degrees F in children between 3 months and 36 months, if they appear ill

Anytime a fever rises
over 104.5 degrees F

In children 5 years and
under, fever can also lead to a seizure, known as a febrile seizure. Though
this can be frightening, it typically will cause no lasting effects.

During a
febrile seizure, lay your child on his side or stomach on the ground, loosen
any tight clothing and support the child to prevent injury. When the seizure
stops, you should seek medical attention right away to be sure the seizure was
not caused by something other than the fever, such as meningitis or bacteria in
the blood.

Allowing a fever run
its course is typically the best choice to help your child fight off a viral or
bacterial infection … Destroying symptoms is a wrong thing to do.

Take steps to bolster your child's immune system to ward
off pathogens by proper nutrition, exercise, and high-quality REM sleep.

Toilet training is beyond the scope of this post. However the child must know that your love is unconditional even if he pees on the sofa.

When you have to
confront your child, criticism which undermine self-esteem and can lead to
resentment. Instead, make sure he knows
although you want and expect better next time, your love is there no matter
what.Consider
how age is affecting the child's behavior.

Don’t gift your own
child with an inferiority complex, an idea that they can never be good enough
in your eyes. If you want to help them improve their behavior, talk about
meeting their goals on their own terms, instead of telling them to act like
their classmate or neighbor. This will help them develop a sense of self
instead of having an inferiority complex.

Children need
boundaries and it is your responsibility as a parent to provide this guidance.
A child who has been allowed to behave as they please and had their every whim
indulged will struggle in adult life when they have to obey the rules of
society

Ideally, your child
should love you more than he fears your rules.
Set reasonable rules, and enforce them reasonably. Avoid extreme punishment, for minor
infractions, or anything that involves physically hurting your own child.

Enforce the same rules
all the time, and to resist your child's attempts to manipulate you into making
exceptions. If you let your child do something he or she is not supposed to do
just because he is throwing a tantrum in public, then this shows that your
rules are breakable.

If your child feels like your rules are breakable, he'll
have no incentive to stick to them. But remember a small child cries to communicate. Be kind.

Never allow your grown
up child to drive a wedge between you and your spouse. They watch dysfunctional western family TV canned
laughter serials, and they know how to do it.

It is important that
your children think of you and your spouse as a united front. Both of you must
say NO to a week’s school excursion . If one says YES and the other says NO, this is
a big mistake .

You shouldn't argue
with your spouse in front of the children.If at all your argue, show
them that when people disagree, they can discuss their differences peacefully. Your
kids should feel like there's a sense of order and a logic to things in their
household and in their family life. This can help them feel safe and at peace.

It is natural for a child to rebel
at boundaries and limitations , but they are perceptive enough to know that concerned
parents guide and love them.Criticize your child's behavior,
not your child. Don’t call him a piece
of shit, like in the west.Be stern and serious, but not mean, when you tell them what you expect. Avoid public humiliation at all
costs . This will backfire when equations change wit time , and the child
becomes more powerful than you.

Instead of ordering
your child to do something , enlist his help without begging . The earlier they learn to help you, the
longer they will be willing to. Don’t let
your grown child see you snooping through
his personal items like diary—you will have to listen to what he says after
that. Trust will take a severe beating.

One way to encourage
them to exercise is to get them to play a sport like soccer early on in life,
so they find a passion that is also healthy.

POINT THEM IN THE RIGHT
DIRECTION—DO NOT PUSH THEM

They need to learn that
their own actions have consequences (good and bad). By doing so, it helps them
to become good decision makers. Let your children make their own mistakes. Life
is a great teacher.

Don't be too quick to rescue your child from the results of
their own actions if the consequences are not overly severe.

Hold back from taunting him "I told you so" when your child
learns a life lesson on his own. Instead, let your child draw his own
conclusions about what happened.

There' is a big
difference between wanting your child to be a responsible, and forcing your
child to be perfect or to live up to your idea of what perfect should be. Don't
place unreasonable expectations on your child. If he cant come first in class
or a race , so be it ! A few years from
now, it wont matter .

Emphasize on finishing
their plates , and teach them to take a small food portion at a time; they can
always take more afterwards. Don’t split
hairs over this.

When a child feels that
he can never ever measure up to your greedy expectations he will be a rebel. Some children go into drugs and bad company.

Your parenting will
have a life-long effect on your child and you should always give your child the
love and affection he needs, even if you're far away in another land. You should always let your children know that
you care about them and that you'll be there for them, no matter what.

Your
children will still turn to you for advice, and will still be affected by what
you say no matter what age they are.

In the west fathers who
behave like a drill sergeant, are put in
the old age home first—and their children do NOT visit him. Same to fathers and mothers who abandoned
their children for LUST interests

Praise kids for
something they can easily control . Usually it must be the amount of honest effort
they put in. This teaches them to
persist and that improvement is possible.

Teach him the value of teamwork.
Teach him NOT to get jolted by every small pothole in the road of life. Teach
him NOT to stare at the rear view mirror of life for too long.

Kids want to please their
parents. Tell them that the truth makes you happy, not
just the right answer — and you’re more likely to get the truth.

Modern day kids compare
notes with their peers. They take the
lack of rules in their home as a sign their parents are indifferent.

When you speak to your
child , focus on your child's feelings ( and his point of view ) rather than your own during your conversation.

You must know that your
children may test you by telling you a small part of what is bothering them.
Listen patiently to what they say,
encourage them to talk and they may share the rest of the story.

If children do not
learn how to behave, they will not have the knack of getting along with other
kids and grownups. They will be dragged through the burning embers in school. It is your dty as a parent to provide order in
their lives.

Keep a regular schedule of study,
meals, naps and bedtimes. If you have to change the schedule, tell them about
the changes ahead of time.

Discipline, teaches
your child how to behave. There must be
an explanation of the inappropriate behavior and redirection to acceptable
behavior . There must be positive reinforcement each time the child makes a
good behavior choice.

Fear and shame are
like slapping your wife first and telling her to make a cup of tea—this win is
short term.

We Indians have a rich and
ancient culture. Be proud of it. Do NOT sacrifice
it for useless western culture. Cultural
values play a major role in how a parent raises their child. Things like running away with another child’s
toy or bullying smaller children is not in our culture.

Make sure your child
brushes teeth in the morning as well as before going to sleep. Parents must teaching their children health,
hygiene, and eating habits through instruction and by example.

I remember when I
joined my training ship my laundry bill was the highest among 250 cadets. The
Captain has put up the laundry bill on the notice board to tell the cadets (
name and shame ) as to who were NOT washing their clothes.

Again , acknowledge the
child's efforts, do not simply focus on the final result.

Parenting can be a
lifelong process. My elder son is now married and 28 , he still talks to his
mother by skype daily. It is a litmus
test of what values my wife imbibed in my son. He flew the nest long ago, after high school.

As soon as my son tried the
mangalsutra and they became man and wife , I congratulated my daughter in law .

She asked “ What for?”

I said “ For getting
the best mother-in-law on the planet”.

My own mother was a VERY
stout hearted woman, but my wife served her well . . She needed to be that way as my father was too
kind and considerate , to the extent of being gullible.

People would borrow heavy
money from him ( behind my mother's back who worked in the same office ) , never to payback. I never knew about this.

When he had a heart
attack many people came to visit him at the ICU . He had hundreds of colleagues and he was an
RSS man in his young age. A big percentage of teary eyed people gave
him an envelope and inside that was money. I was the one who counted the money
later.

Some of them borrowed money to
repay, and my father told them it is obvious, and asked them to take it back-- they would not !. I guess honour is not dead. Or may be they did not want BAD KARMA for cheating a good man.

They were a few LANGOT
YAAR types who did NOT come . I knew why , and I made my father admit it after
severe coaxing. These were the ones who owed
him heavy money and were hoping that he would die.

Even these people came for
his funeral. I did NOT tell them
anything about 20/20 hindsight - they limped in , gave me their condolences ( without meeting my searing eyes ) , and limped away..

Captain, you mentioned that we should listen to a child's cravings for certain food and that means the body is telling us what it needs. But, the main-stream-media has twisted the minds by commercials for junk food and a child craves for junk food, like KFC, ice creams, chocolates, pizzas in lieu of regular food. How to handle such scenarios?

when your small child asks for an ice cream - dont FAST FORWARD to diabetes.

children love ice cream and chocolates . indulge them once in a while as a motivation tool.

capt ajit vadakayil
..

Remember, the political
views of the parents often become the child’s views, until the child is of an age to question
belief systems. Avoid political
discussions in front of small children. Spare them of nonsense ! Teach them to love
the watan.

A TRICK : AT SEA WHEN I WANT DRUNKS TO LISTEN , I
WHISPER IN THEIR YEAR .

It could be “I AM GONNA KICK YOUR MANGY ASS ALL THE WAY TO
CHINATOWN , IN ANOTHER 60 SECONDS, IF
YOU BEHAVE LIKE THIS ”.

THEY IMMEDIATELY SOBER
DOWN.

Whisper encouragements
to children. They listen well when you
whisper.

Shame is one of the most debilitating feelings for a
child. Spare him of shame .

When a parent shames
the child he is being a bully. Bullying is the act of picking on someone else’s
weakness or exploiting vulnerability. For kids, the desire to be accepted and
appreciated by others, especially their parents, is a basic need and a very
high priority. The more they want love and acceptance from others, the more
powerful the shaming is.

Disciplining kids through humiliation does exactly the
opposite of what parents want it to do. It drive a wedge . Nobody misbehaves
for the sole purpose of misbehaving. Unaddressed, the real reason for their
behavior will make them do it again. They learn to avoid you, to hate you, to
stay away from you.

You must teach your child to understand that actions have
consequences by establishing rules and clear outcomes for following or
disobeying these rules. Rules should be simple and clear. Remember, can’t be too strict with your
child.

Odd behaviors that aren’t detrimental to your child or anyone else
should be accepted as part of your child’s individual personality. It’s
ultimately harmful to discourage a child’s quirky behaviors just because you
think they are unusual.

Physical activity burns
excess energy in healthy ways. It helps
a child focus their attention and will decrease impulsivity and anxiety.

Watch out for your
child saying I DONT CARE . It is just an attempt at manipulation in order
to avoid the consequences.

You hear
SUHEL SETH saying I don’t care often on TV.

ONCE A CHOOT ALWAYS A CHOOT

When ever someone has
told me I DON’T CARE – I tell him/ her knee
jerk YOU SHALL CARE. And then I watch the confused look on his or
her face

I tell CHOOTS who try to save face -- or think that his retort could be an easy way out - "YOU FUCKIN' WELL CARE, YOU CUNT!"

Children, especially
young ones, think their DADS are knights in shining armour, ultimate heroes and
infallible. They day you fall in their
eyes – it is like shattering glass.

Do your best to live up
to this idealized image. Before you do CHOOTIYAPANTI , or display cowardice in
front of your child, think about the consequence. Embody the traits you wish to
cultivate in your child: respect, friendliness, honesty, kindness, tolerance
etc

All parents give more
attention and love to the latest addition in the family. Even if the your younger children take up
most of your time and attention, try to periodically let your older children
know that you love and appreciate them just as much. Read this line twice.

Children are good in comparing .

I remember when I fly
down to Calicut airport from the ship, my wife and two sons would be waiting to
receive me. My wife would show with her
eyes , that I must first hug my elder son and only then my younger son.

Never arbitrarily give
one child more gifts, affection, or punishments than another. Children will pick up on your prejudices very
quickly and may grow to resent you, or, worse, the "favorite" child.

If you make belittling comments or compare your child
unfavorably with another , it will make him feel worthless. It hurts and he will suffer silently .

We all make
investements in life , right? Which is
the most valuable? Investing in your own child!. The tool is good
parenting. Parenting a child is the most
serious investment you'll ever make, but, because of your child's ability to
love, it's also the most rewarding.

Pay attention when a
child gets tired or hungry or upset - this
can prevent a large portion of meltdowns.
Parents must find time to spend playing with their kids on a regular
basis.

Deciding how to
discipline a child can be one of the hardest parts of being a parent. Nobody
wants to be accused of raising a spoiled brat.

Discipline is the
process of teaching your child what type of behavior is acceptable and what
type is not acceptable. In other words, discipline teaches a child to follow
rules. It is most important to compliment
your child when he or she shows the behavior you've been seeking

Don’t inflict excessive
mental and physical pain, because it deteriorates relationships. It leads to
emotional reactions and none of those things is related to changing behavior. Spanking
may cause children to think that it's OK to physically hurt someone you love

You child can do
without excessive hair splitting and long lectures. Even if you have the best
discipline techniques and parenting style, there are some days when nothing
seems to work. This is normal. The parents’ main goal is to always set a
positive example that the children can model by.

Often, when a child makes
a hash out of things , it is because the child is simply learning a new skill. Socialization allows children to obtain values, standards, skills, knowledge,
and appropriate behaviors

Praise is nourishment
for the child’s soul. It helps your child grow emotionally, just as nutritious
food helps your child grow physically. Praise is a method of keeping focus on
the positive of any situation.

REMEMBER YOU ARE NOT A
MANAGER, YOU ARE NOT A LEADER, YOU ARE A PARENT.

ON SHIPS I COMMANDED ,
MY CREW WILL SAY THAT CAPT AJIT VADAKAYIL WAS MORE OF A PARENT— I LET THIS
SECRET OUT NOW.

THIS IS THE ANSWER TO
PEOPLE WHO WONDERED WHY MY CREW NEVER THREW ME OVERBOARD , AS I COULD RUN A
VERY TIGHT SHIP , KEEP ALL ON A TIGHT LEASH , WITH LESS OVERTIME .

YET THE CREW ALWAYS
EXTENDED THEIR CONTRACTS WHEN I WAS THE CAPTAIN.

SUCH THINGS DO NOT LIE. THESE ARE STATISTICS ON RECORD . .

PEOPLE WHO READ THIS
POST CAN FIGURE OUT , THAT I AM MUCH MORE SMARTER AND COULD THINK FAR FAR DEEPER
THAN OTHER CAPTAINS AT SEA, PAST OR PRESENT OR FUTURE.

CERTAIN TIMES WHEN I
DREW BLOOD , THE SAILOR AT THE RECEIVING AND THANKED ME WHEN THEY PARTED
COMPANY -- OR SAW ME AFTER SEVERAL YEARS
ON A STRANGE STREET-

THEY WOULD INSIST THAT THEY WANT TO HAVE A BEER WITH ME..

NOBODY IS A FOOL AT
SEA.

THEY KNOW WHEN THEY
GAIN OR WHEN LOSE.

The strongest and most
consistent predictor of children’s mental health, social adjustment with
teamwork , happiness, and well-being is the level of involvement of their
parents in their life.

Quality time is defined
by your state of mind, not by a set of CHOOTIYA activities or HAJAAAAR
activities. Sharing time with your child is never a waste of time.

Don’t try to go against
the grain of a child. Do not attempt to refashion your child’s disposition. The
knack is to create situations that take advantage of your child’s innate
strengths and avoid those that accentuate his weaknesses.

We all have strengths
and weakness, right. Don’t force an
elephant to outrun a horse or a horse to lift more weights than an elephant.

At sea after a week on board,
I take the crewlist and mark off you are the THINKERS and who are the DOERS.

I DON’T FORCE AN
ARCHITECT TO CLIMB HEIGHTS .

I DON’T FORCE A MANDH
BUDDHI PEHELWAAN TO DRAW BUILDING PLANS.

ALL HAVE THEIR OWN USES
. THE TEAM IS MADE LIKE THAT. GET
EXTRAORDINARY FERFORMANCE OUT OF ORDINARY HUMANS.

A GOOD CURRY MUST HAVE
ALL SORTS OF VEGETABLES.

MIND WHO THEY ARE ALL
INDUCTED AT THE CORRECT TIME, OR THE SAMBAR WILL COME OUT YUCCCKK !

NEVER PICK ON YOUR
CHILD AS IF HE IS ON A WITNESS STAND IN A COURT OF LAW.

There are lawyer
parents who develop the sort of mind-set that turns every dispute with their
child into a battle in which there has to be a winner and a loser. Of course
the child will be the loser , because the lawyer parent is good in throwing
slime.

Remember , too much
passivity at ages when children ordinarily voice their opinions is often a sign
of immaturity.

Children don't learn
empathy by being told to feel it. The only way kids can learn empathy is by
being treated empathically, and by watching you respond to others with
compassion and kindness. Such kids wont kick lovely puppies into the water and
kill them. If a child lives with hostility, he learns to fight in a mean manner
.

Creativity,
flexibility, tolerance and love are natural states of mind and the purpose of
an EFFECTIVE PARENT is to nurture them to full blossom.

Western parents note, your
kids require you most of all to love them for who they are, not to spend your
whole time trying to correct them. Children will not remember you for the
material things you provided, but for the feeling that you cherished them.

The reluctance of western
children to take responsibility for their actions ( and vices ) is based on
their desire to protect themselves from failure. Millions of western parents
divorce each year.

Western marriages fail
for many reasons, including home violence, alcoholism, infidelity and DRIP DRIP
NAGGING .

The marriages of
chutney marys, pickle johns and wannabe goragaands fail in India. My wife has never nagged me till today, after
33 years of marriage

Divorce can bring out
the worst in us. Perhaps there’s lingering hurt because one person left, or
someone cheated, or someone fell out of love ( read that as LUST ). Whatever the reason that prompts a split, it’s
never OK to drag kids through the mud.

This post is getting
too long—I can write a hundred pages more—but I have covered the main points .

MY ELDER SON IS MARRIED
AND HAD FLOWN THE NEST.

MY YOUNGER SON IS WITH
ME- A GENTLE SENSITIVE BOY STRONG AS A BULL..

EVERY DAY I HUG HIM .

I DEEPLY INHALE HIS
SCALP ODOUR, I IMAGINE HOW A TINY SPECK
OF MY SPERM HAS BECOME THIS GOD GIVEN MARVELLOUS CREATURE , THANKS TO MY WIFE ,
AND I SAY TO MYSELF-

“ THIS IS PRICELESS !”

Somebody asked me to
expound – how J Krishnamurti looks from outside to inside and how Capt Ajit
Vadakayil looks from inside to outwards.

Well J Krishnamurti (
and the whole planet ) sees a Sri Yantra like the picture below.

Capt Ajit Vadakayil sees the Sri Yantra like the video below. He sits at the BINDU and looks outwards.

This is called Lateral
thinking.

This is NOT what the so
called FATHER OF LATERAL THINKING Edward De Bono ( a shallow thinker )
propounded.

A man who can do
lateral thinking can sit alone in a place , out of chosen solitude , and
passerby’s will wonder what the hell he is so smug about. This is because his thinking is RICH.

In 2000, DRIPPING CUNT Edward
de Bono used hajaaaar lateral thinking and advised the Zionist Jews that the Palestine–Israeli
conflict is due to low levels of zinc found in the food that Palestinians ate ,
and hence the reason for hyper aggression towards the Jews.

So they secretly put
Zinc in food exported to Palestinians.

Alice in Gujjuland Modi tried
to do the same thing with Indians ( Zinc infused rice )

( In his time he was worth 100 million US dollars. This JEW started afresh after WW2 , where he was a holocaust victim )

ask this Indian sailor in his opinion who was the MEANEST AND MOST WICKED person in maritime history.

POP-- will come the answer-

CAJ VANDERPERRE.

well this jew sponsored only one person in his entire life --it was capt ajit vadakayil

he sacked all my bosses who gave me bad confidential service reports .

his most lucrative business parter was another jew running a US company operating out of park street avenue new york .

this company was NOT private , but a public sector undertaking ( rare ) which also operated the US ready reserve fleet.

once i went to visit this office in new york .

i was given stretch limousine service and a stay in a 5 star hotel .

I told my wife who was with me , along with my 2 sons-- “something is cookin’ “ --

every body else gets a stay in a cheap motel at walking distance from the office .

to cut a long story short—

i was offered a shore job --i refused—--and in my conversations with the top honcho, i gleaned that they want to split from vanderperre. vanderperre would be devastated because he raked in the moolah only from this company .

i gave the MEAN JEW one months notice -- you will lose your partner--look for another lucrative partner or the company will come down.

finally when the split happened after a month-- every single indian in this US shipping partner branch , left vanderperre - officers, crew, cadets -everybody except one soul named capt ajit vadakayil

my fans in the office told me –

the old man was not shocked-- he remarked

" I DONT CARE IF ALL HAVE LEFT ME, CAPT VAJAKKAJIL IS WITH ME "

and why did I join this company ?

i left SCI because i has 21 months of accumulated leave and they would give me only 2 months . On a ship where you need to do only 6 months-- I did 21 months as SCI was short of captains .

i retained my sanity only because my wife and son was on board , throughout.

so, when i was joining foreign companies -- my ex-chief officer staying at the club gave me a list-- he said " dont join JEW vanderperre's company"

captain,slasher said "the ignorant and poorly educated Youth in India being one of your stalwart reader base". just how did he go about figuring that out? so there is not need to entertain him any more. you can slash him for good

YOU HAVE DECADENT AND PERVERSE SEXUAL HABITS/ ADDICTION TO NARCOTICS AND NOISE THAT IS CALLED ROCK AND POP / Exercise of hands and legs and GROIN that is called DANCE / HABIT OF EXPOSING SKIN LIKE ANIMALS / ZERO FAMILY VALUES AND FAMILY AFFECTION / GLUTTONIC AND GREEDY CONSUMPTION OF ALL RESOURCES ON EARTH / BULLYING THE REST OF THE WORLD...

(Mind u there are good things in the West too like Technology and Research but the Chutney Mary's and Pickle John's in India and their NGO Peers do not want to those things or their cockroach size brains do not understand that stuff)....

On the east...

THERE IS A TENDENCY TO EAT ANYTHING THAT MOVES...

The entire world is dumbstruck at how Indians live so different from the rest of the world and maintain family values and affection and take care of their aged parents....

THE WHITE MAN IS ENVIOUS AND WANTS INDIANS TO BECOME LIKE THEM....

AND SOME STUPID INDIANS ARE FALLING FOR THE TEMPTATION OF $$$ DONATIONS AND BRIBES...

At the end of the day because the $ is the currency of exchange in the world and the US Fed can print as many $$$ as it wants and put the US of A in deep debt and yet claim superiority over other nations and behave like a policeman....is the PROBLEM....

IMAGINE IF ALL THE BRILLIANT INDIANS WHO HAVE MIGRATED TO THE US HAD STAYED BACK IN INDIA.....AND IF ONLY INDIA BELIEVED IN MERITOCRACY AND THERE WERE NO RESERVATIONS IN ANY JOBS, EDUCATION...ETC AT ALL.....WHERE WOULD INDIA BE TODAY?????

The rear pouch of the Irumudi Kettu contains consumable edible items which are used by the pilgrim for his personal sustenance during the journey to Sabarimala and back. Minimal bedding like blankets or bed sheets can also be carried. These can be used as a cushion on the head. When the pilgrims leaves his home for Sabarimala, he breaks a coconut on a stone near his door step.

A lit oil lamp is generally placed on this stone. Till the pilgrim returns home after the pilgrimage, one of the family members ritually lights this lamp at dusk, and allows it to remain lit for a couple of hours, in a gesture of prayer for the well being of the pilgrim and his safe return.

When the pilgrim returns home, he breaks a coconut at the same spot to signify the end of the pilgrimage and then moves on to the pooja room to unload the `Irumudi and remove the mala which he had worn at the time of beginning the austerities. That signifies the last ritual of the pilgrimage.

WE WILL NOT ALLOW WHORES SENT BY FOREIGN FUNDED NGOs AND JOSHUA PROJECT 2 TO KILL SABARIMALA PILGRIMAGE.

THEY TRIED TO KILL THE PAMPA RIVER ( WHERE THE PILGRIM TAKES BATH BEFORE HE CLIMBS 18 STEPS ) BY ARANMULA AIRPORT.

great. let me say this for the third time. i will keep saying this till the end of times if needed.there are gender specific rituals in sanatana dharma. this is not discrimination. sanatana dharma worships Matru devata. a qhestion of discrimination does not arise. in the other religions it is the male that is worshiped and surrendered to.in sanatana dharma there are temples meant only for women. NO MAN DARES enter these places. this is not discrimination against MEN. there are special vrats that only women are allowed to observe. This is not discrimination against MEN. Swamy Ayyappa is a bachelor. his devotees are bachelors or those who practice bachelorhood at a specific time of the year. SO WOMEN are not allowed. Women below 10 and above 50 ARE allowed. so where is the discrimination? on the other hand men of any age group are not allowed inside women specific temples. not a single true satan woman will even in her dreams think of entering Ayyappa sannidhi. those who are rabble rousing are stooges of dark forces trying to bring down another citadel of sanatan dharma. it is time for the true sanatani women to rise and silence the chatney marys.chutney marys of ANY age who want to enter Ayyappa temple should not be allowed anywhere within 25 kms of Ayyappa temples.

two policians were sitting right in front of me today in trainone said "he (assuming son) tried 4 times then finally i resquest xyz and he got the post. i didn't inform him"the other one "yea, you did good. its better that way, he will have self-confidence"[he should tell the person soon enough, maybe after he gets settled, such things are important to know for various other reasons]

Hi Uncle, Incredible post, I hope you don't mind me saying you are a father figure to lots of us much love and respect to you with billion thanks. Uncle I've had acl recontruction when I was 16yrs now 19yrs I've osteocondritis dissecans since my school days. Please do a post about ligaments, bone marrow & cartilage Uncle. I'm sick of neverending physio. Many thanks in advance.

Namaste AjitjiJust looked very closely at the money notes.It says"Reserve bank of India Guranteed by the Central government"

So what is the "reserve bank" exactly? The central govt gurantees it? And why just the central govt?

And the "i promise to pay the bearer the sum of ten rupees" Signed by "Raghuram G rajan Governor"

How is this note the legal tender for a sovereign nation? The legal implications for such a note are a bit disturbing. It sounds like a sovereign nations has outsourced it's currency matters to another entity. Warm regardsTejaswini

Captain,"THERE IS NOTHING IN THE HINDU SCRIPTURES WHICH PREVENT WOMEN FROM PRAYING IN TEMPLES.triple sri is trying to make it sound like Hindu women are being prevented from praying in(all) temples. a western reader will think Hinduism is just like Islam which does not allow women in a mosque. you were right in terming his statement at B**%^IT. i will give you an example. My white colleague gave me a queer look when the news of treasures in the Ananthapadmanabhaswamy temple broke. he thought it was a case of hoarding just like the Vatican does. he is a big critic of Vatican also. i did try to convince that this is not hoarding, but gifts offered by devotees to the lord. it belongs to the lord. there is no need to take it and spend on 'development' and on 'starving masses' etc. he reluctantly accepted. triple sri is doing it here. my white colleague will again give me a queer look and say ' i thought you guys were better. why don't you allow women inside your temples?'. so i have more work to do. i will have to go like this. tadadadada dadadada tatadadadada WOMEN dddda yayayay ARE tada tadadada ALLOWED tadadatad IN ALL dadatada yataya yati TEMPLES dadada tititi EXCEPT AYYAPPA tadatada tada TEMPLE tadatada tada yatayatayati tadayata ya

can't blame triple sri. he is following orders. he is being over smart though. KISI KO KUCH NAHI PATHAH

with this my own revelations have jumped to 0.00000092%. (sorry TEE HEE)

Dear Unknown, I hope you will forgive me commenting on your question (hope the Captain won't mind either) but it might help you to look at the work of Elaine Aron, she is an expert on the trait of High Sensitivity, apparently about 20% of the human and animal population have this trait. I know it is hard to be a sensitive in a world of extroverts who don't 'get' us. Again, I hope you don't mind me writing to you. If the information is of no help please disregard this message. All best wishes, a68.

HOMOSEXUALITY IS NOT LIKE BEING A LEFT HANDED MAN. IT INVOLVES WARPED CRIMINAL DNA.

WHEN WE CONDONE HOMOSEXUALITY -WE CONDONE ADULTS PREYING ON SMALL CHILDREN , INCLUDING BABIES.

ANY HOMOSEXUAL CONTESTING THE SENTENCES ABOVE, PL SUBMIT TO A NARCO TEST. LET THE WORLD KNOW BY LIVE TELEVISED SHOW, HOW MANY CHILDREN YOU HAVE PREYED ON TILL NOW.. LET THE WORLD KNOW AT WHAT AGE YOU GOT PREYED ON BY A HOMOSEXUAL.

Everybody knows that homosexuals molest children at a rate vastly higher than heterosexuals.

In 1995 the homosexual magazine “Guide” said, “We can be proud that the gay movement has been home to the few voices who have had the courage to say out loud that children are naturally sexual” and “deserve the right to sexual expression with whoever they choose. …” The article went on to say: “Instead of fearing being labeled pedophiles, we must proudly proclaim that sex is good, including children’s sexuality … we must do it for the children’s sake.”

In reference to 1971, did Kissenger really congratulated Pakistani dictator Yahya Khan for his “delicacy and tact" and did Nixon really said Indians needed “a mass famine.” Kissinger ridiculed those who “bleed” for “the dying Bengalis.”?

Nomura spAke " Our macroeconomic analyses enable us to provide timely forecasts of upcoming changes and future directions based on economic data and market trends. At the same time, we deepen our analyses by taking a long-term perspective "

Do the west especially US is so dumb with their Satellites probing every square inch of the earth not to have known the N Korea Rocket launch days in advance....and now getting surprised after the N Korean's announcement of satellite launching today....is this a false flag by US or really kept secret by N Korea ???

Hi Uncle Yes I can personally attest the fact too many girls in my college are doing nasty things with their ''boyfriends'' & then get dumped,cry,curse, carry go screwing some other guy rinse repeat. I'd rather be a fit prude than a STD dispensing gutter ho.

HERE IS A REWARD TO JAPANESE WHO HAVE BEEN READING MY BLOGS THOUGH I HAVE BEEN BOLLOCKING THEM DAY AFTER DAY.

NOBODY ON THIS PLANET COULD HAVE TOLD THEM THIS.

100% JAPANESE DO NOT KNOW WHO DESTROYED THE POWERFUL SAMURAI WHO WERE LOYAL TO THE JAPANESE EMPEROR.

GERMAN JEW ROTHSCHILD DID THIS IN A MOST SLIMY WAY-- HE USED HIS BRIBED STOOGE JAPANESE TO RAISE AN ARMY , TRAIN THEM WITH LONG RANGE GUNS -- TO KILL THE JAPANESE SAMURAI WHO HAD ONLY SWORDS AND ARROWS.

TO OVER THROW THE SAMURAI, FIRST FREEMASON LODGES WERE ESTABLISHED ALL OVER JAPAN . LOCAL LEADERS WERE BRIBED TO GET INFORMATION ABOUT THE SHOGUNATE.

German Jew Rothschild sent JEW Commodore Matthew Calbraith Perry sailing into Yokohama on his ship.

Commodore Matthew Calbraith Perry's daughter Caroline Slidell Perry was married to a German Jew named August Belmont .

Belmonts real name was August Schonberg from Alzey, in the Grand Duchy of Hesse, in Germany -and he was related by blood to Rothschild. August Belmont, was the illegitimate son of Baron Karl Meyer Rothschild in Naples, Italy.

Belmont was Rothschild Opium agent and Banker at New York.

In the great economic recession triggered by Rothschild , Belmoont opened a shell / shadow financial firm August Belmont & Company.

Dear Captain, There has recently been a lot of talk in social media about Baluch nationalist and social activist Dr. Manan who was murdered by Pakistan army. Pak army is trying to clamp down on any baluchi resistance to appease chinese investors in gwadar port. Should india intervene. It was indeed a stupid decision by Nehru to reject the accesion offer by kahn of kalat.

Your posts about Parenting are fantabulous Thank you Captain, been waiting for this

Sir could you also post for Indian Parents on how to raise their children so that the children will Grow loving our Bharat Mata and Indian culture and take pride in being an Indian and stay away from Western Culture so that in future hopefully there won't be any Chutney Marys and Pickle Johns and other wannabe Goras.

Why did BENAMI media not project the truth --that LN Ramdas's daughter was married to a Pakistani Zulfiqar Ahmed ( specialised in comparitive studies of Soviet Union ) and his three daughters are US green card holders ?

ADMIRAL BHAGWAT WAS CACKED AND REPLACED BY ADMIRAL SUCHIL KUMAR WHOSE REAL NAME IS ISAAC. AS SOON AS ISAAC CAME TO POWER THE ISRALI BARAK DEAL HAPPENED. DEFENCE MINISTER GEORGE FERNANDES MADE THIS HAPPEN.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Barak_Missile_scandal

ADMIRAL S NANDA WAS CHAIRMAN OF SCI.

At the same time Nanda took an executive role with Crown Corporation, an arms trading firm headed by his son Suresh Nanda, which specialized in supply of imported weapons to the Indian Armed Forces.

How did Suresh baby become UBER rich ?

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Suresh_Nanda

why was suresh baby running to israel ghadi ghadi ?

why did the BENAMI media not report all this? they were busy probably with sachin tendulkar .

THESE PILLS IMPAIR JUDGEMENT IN REAL SITUATIONS ( NOT DRILL ) -- AS A SHIP CAPTAIN ON CHEMICAL TANKERS WE ARE TRAINED IN THIS.

IT IS A FOUL LIE THAT AIR FORCES AROUND THE WORLD USE IT.

WHY IS BENAMI MEDIA ALLOWED TO WRITE ARTICLES LIKE THIS ? WHOSE SIDE IS ARUN JAITLEY ON ?

I WORKED FOR A MD ( INDIAN ) WHO USED THE "UPPERS" AND "DOWNERS ". HE HIMSELF TOLD ME AND THEN HE SHOWED ME HIS PILLS . HE BECAME A PARANOID MENTAL WRECK.

UPPER EUGEROIC , MODAFINIL CAUSES CONFUSION - AND THE FIGHTER JET PILOT BECOMES A LIABILITY..HE COULD START A WORLD WAR.

DOWNER SEDATIVE ZOLPIDEM CAUSES SADNESS AND CO-ORDINATION DISORDERS.

QUOTE: In the works for the last three to four years, these pills were used extensively in the highvoltage 'Livewire' exercise conducted by IAF from October 31 to November 8, which saw the "activation" of all its 54 airbases across the country : UNQUOTE

WHOEVER AUTHORISED THIS, SACK HIM. WHOEVER USED THESE DRUGS CENSURE THEM AND PUT AN ENTRY IN THEIR CONFIDENTIAL FILES WHICH WILL AFFECT THEIR PROMOTIONS.

IN HIGH SPEED MACHINES YOU DO NOT NEED AN UPPER-- THE BODY PROVIDES THE ADRENALINE.

Today I just glanced through the glossy pages of you know who yellow newspaper of kerala's year book. To put things in perspective with photos of Mr.Kailash Satyarthi hugging poor kids under topic "child labor". Another great entertainer is "Success in UPSC interview" by Roy Paul, IAS. He says the personality tests have deservedly acquired a reputation for being objective, transparent and impartial. Followed by "Only the Board President's file, however, will have information whether the candidates belong to any reserved categories or not. This is done to ensure that there is no caste or religious bias in assessing performance of candiates"......can any sane man explain this logic? If personality test is really objective then why do you need the information of the candidate other than his name and scores? Just mug all this and vomit in UPSC exams? Is this the real worth of this shit cadre claiming superiority over all and sundry?

The Union Public Service Commission’s Civil Services (Main) Examination,is all about CRAMMING AND VOMITING IT OUT .

The main examination intends to assess, according to the UPSC, “the overall intellectual traits and depth of understanding of the candidates rather than merely the range of their information and memory.”- BALLS !

Why is the government entertaining demands such as this, a seprate flag for Nagaland and many more outrageous ones.http://www.hindustantimes.com/india/nagaland-may-get-separate-flag-as-part-of-final-accord-with-centre/story-gtaBiSGy262efMkz4qToaI.html

Since this topic is about effective parenting, the young nowadays are so much addicted to Coke/Pepsi thru KFC/Mac/Pizzahut etc....it needs more than awareness like Govt push and mass de-control and sanctions to remove their operations in India and the world.Can you give pointers how this can be done, given the fact they sponsor NGO's and Govt's and do not pay any taxes....?http://sploid.gizmodo.com/fascinating-graphic-shows-who-owns-all-the-major-brands-1599537576

Dr. Pinotti said they were similar to modern jet propelled flying machines. 32 secrets: He said certain descriptions of the Vimanas seemed 'too detailed and technical in nature to be labeled as myth.' He cited various texts to show there were 32 secrets relating to the operation of Vimanas, some of which could be compared to modern day use of radar, solar energy and photography. Quoting from 'Vymanika Shastra' he said the ancient flying devices of India were made from special heat absorbing metals named 'Somaka, Soundalike and Mourthwika.' He said the text also discussed the seven kinds of mirror and lenses installed aboard for defensive and offensive uses. The so-called 'Pinjula Mirror' offered a sort of 'visual shield' preventing the pilots from being blinded by 'evil rays' and the weapon 'Marika' used to shoot enemy aircraft 'does not seem too different from what we today called laser technology,' he said.

Siva's arrow obviously referred to a blazing missile fired from a flying satellite specially built for the purpose and the brunt spaceship fell in the Indian ocean. Vestiges of onetime prosperous civilization destroyed in battles only flicker through these legends.

These references sharply point to the use of some kind of aerial flying vehicles known as Vimana apart from mechanical contrivances, armoured cars, various types of missiles etc. These references sounding queer and unscientific even in recent past have been approximated to the present-day technology through the innovation of highly sophisticated weapons and of the space-satellites like Mariner, Vostok, Soyuz, Aryabhatta etc. These facts require more than a passing notice.

I read it somewhere but I cannot find it now that precise measurements to construct satellietes is also given in Vedas.

SO BASICALLY NOTHING IS INVENTED TODAY? AND NOBODY HAS INVENTED ANYTHING SINCE AFTER VEDIC TIMES?

This is what happens when the MSM buries the truth without any coverage...http://www.fort-russ.com/2016/02/murder-in-house-of-trade-unions-was-pre.htmlSimilar to what happened to Rajiv Dixit murder and the Malda riots recently.

Notorious homosexual Charles Webster Leadbeater used to make young boys in his group do “mutual masturbation' to help them 'grow strong and manly.'

Pervert and CONMAN Leadbeater claimed he could see from a boy's aura, if he needed manly sex. So he would kindly offering to 'relive the pressure' by masturbating him while encouraging the boy to relieve him in the same way.

Charles Webster Leadbeater was an influential member of the Theosophical Society.

Everybody knew of his immoral sexual activities of oral and anal sex with small boys, yet Rothschild Commie Annie Besant supported him. She was the president of the Theosophical Society, whose international headquarters were in Adyar, Chennai.

Jew Rothschild made this Commie woman president of the India National Congress in 1917.

She adopted Jiddu Krishnamurti.

Jiddu Krishnamurthi was seduced as a 14 year old boy by gay pedophile Charles Leadbeater on the Society's beach on the Adyar river.

Leadbeater had taken in another youth named Rajagopal for the title of World Teacher. Rajagopal’s American born wife Rosalind would have sex with J Krishnamurthy and she was pregnant on several occasions, aborting everytime –over more than 25 years..

ha ha ha very funny Captain. you dispatched Jiddu disdaifully :). i feel very proud to say i was NEVER ever impressed or influenced by these new age gurus who come and go. i used to have a friend from an 'intellectual' oriented 'family'. none of us knew where his father was was. we knew he was alive. he never talked about it. but he used to go gaga over Jiddu, Tao of Physics, Pride and Prejudice etc etc. my family always stuck to sanatan values and Adi Shankara is our ultimate guru.

Hi Uncle, LMAO another dead f*cker I'd never heard of till now. Until I stumbled upon your incredible blog I was blissfully unaware of all these dead geezers & geriatric f*ckers, now I'm way alert & aware I need new friends my current friends refuse to wake up & see.

hence he is a parallel line to capt ajit vadakayil , who look from inside to outside.

jiddu krishnamurti has NEVER understood the amazing sanatana dharma.

if an intellectual ( and that too an Indian ) could not see the brilliance of sanatana dharma what is he worth ?

Jiddu's bullshit method of choiceless awareness - what does he know about PURE awareness - he does NOT understand an iota of quantum physics.

I read his book " The first and last freedom " and decided he is NOT worth reading at all.

there was more of BAFFLE WITH BULLSHIT than DAZZLE WITH BRILLIANCE .

it takes a capt ajit vadakayil to say this.

he has a way of emphasizing the main points by asking "Is it not?" --

like how triple sri say HUUUUUU!?.

or sadguru jaggi vasudev will GUFFAW -- to side step a point.

many intellectuals praise j krishnamurti , because they wanted to be in the LEAGUE OF INTELLECTUALS.

capt ajit vadakayil does NOT care for aldous huxley who sold Jiddu Krishnamurti to the white man.

IT IS THE FIRST CASE ON THE PLANET WHERE TWO HUMANS RODE PIGGYBACK ON EACH OTHER.

There is, it seems to us, At best, only a limited value In the knowledge derived from experience. The knowledge imposes a pattern, and falsifies, For the pattern is new in every moment And every moment is a new and shocking Valuation of all we have been.

captain,new age gurus are not required, especially those 'discovered' in places like Theosophical Society. they are there to serve a purpose - 'their' purpose. how else can they ensure an endless supply of young boys, teenage girls and other goodies that can not be mentioned.my reply to such gurus and their supporters is, bakwas bundh kar badtameez

Dont Convince them.Tell them they are 100% CORRECT and you are foolish indeed.laugh on yourself for being so naive in front of them.Keep Peace inside and live with it.Enjoy their falsehood and chuckle on your own...NOT NEEDING TO CONVINCE OTHERS may well be on of the traits of a 12 strand DNA...GUYS - Can WE all in general,readers of this blog,AVOID this??? asking and discussing endless and mindless "he said so..","captain,look into this...",etc kind of comments and really interact on knowledge shared relevant to the post....we might gain something more by that.

MY YOUNG MAHARASHTRIAN CHIEF OFFICER TOLD ME THAT HIS SCHOOL GIRL NEIGHBOR GAVE HIM A BLOWJOB IN THE UNDERGROUND PARKING LOT BETWEEN TWO CARS ( BOTH HER FATHERS CARS ) --BECAUSE SHE WANTED 2000 BUCKS FOR VALENTINES DAY.

SHE WANTED TO BUY A GIFT FOR HER BOY FRIEND.

HE WAS NOT LYING--I CAN READ MALE FACES WHEN THEY BLUSH.

THIS IS THE CONDITION OF INDIA.

ONE DAY THIS GIRL WILL GET MARRIED TO AN INNOCENT MAN.

TO HELL WITH VALENTINES DAY.

ALL CHEAP ROMEOS SEND SMS AND WHATSPUP MESSAGES TO YOUNG PRETTY SCHOOL GIRLS

AT THE AGE OF 12-14 A GIRL IS VERY VULNERABLE--EVEN A DIRTY SERVANT CAN GET HER.

Hi Uncle, Where would she be without her last name? Flippin' burgers. I never have never will waste my time & money on this tv movie shitfest. If every Indian boycotts bollywood they'd have to call it deadwood. We'd have been far more productive, fit & rich than falthu west.

Dear Captain, Sir, Beautiful writing on parenting again, brought tears to my eyes. Being a mother has been the greatest and most enduring joy of my life. Thank you for your writing. All best wishes, a68.

I am one of your staunchest supporters and believe that you have done far far more than any Indian alive to bring vibrancy and truth to our people everywhere.

I am interested in one thing and one thing only: as one reader put it, "How to mobilize forces to defeat this anti-Hindu anti family terrorists I'm beyond disgusted.". I think that people like me who care about the Watan want to enlighten millions through sharing on social media which as you put it presciently, "the kalki avatar" of our time.

Since Desh Bhakts like us care about saving the Watan, we are asking that you lead us. Some of your writings may be the whole Truth and nothing but the Truth but didn't you say, that it is not correct to point the Truth about some one's mother being a whore even if it may be the Truth?

Hence my point was that even if only 14.05% of the Whole Truth has been revealed by you so far, we can absorb the Truth if it is provided in a palatable fashion (without anger and trash talk). It will help us in getting more readers to take you and your revelations more seriously. This was my goal and aim in writing that note.

In addition, being your staunchest supporter still, I worry about your well being. I want you to go easy on the things that tick you off and on seeing some of your writings and responses I believe that considerable positive energy is being diverted into anger and other kinds of wasted effort. Such explosive words may also have the effect of bringing unwanted scrutiny upon this blog and your sincere efforts. I sincerely believe that Amir Khan is not the first one to try to silence your voice and he won't be the last.

Those of us who are your staunchest supporters will need a way to come together formally or informally to help you and this blog survive such onslaughts in the future. On The way, such a get together will also talk about how to Save the Watan. This is my hope and my dream.

I do not believ we are done when we surpass a small milestone like being the #1 blogger on the planet. It means nothing to us if we can't band together and save the Watan. We are interested in the larger aim of saving the Watan and since you are key to it, we want to ensure you are free to continue your revatokna and work.

ONE IS PRIM AND PROPAH, WITH NOT A SINGLE SPELLING MISTAKE , OR ERROR IN SYNTAX .

THE OTHER IS FULL OF DELIBERATE BAD WORDS, DELIBERATE SPELLING MISTAKES , DELIBERATE POOR SYNTAX, AND HORRIBLE PRESENTATION.

IT IS YOU CHOICE !

YOU CAN HAVE FOOD IN A 7 STAR RESTAURANT OR THE SAME FOOD IN A DHABBA OUTSIDE, WITH NO CHAIR TO SIT .

IT IS YOUR CHOICE.

WHEN THE DHABBA GETS A BIGGER WEALTHY CROWD , COMING IN EXPENSIVE CARS - WHAT DOES IT MEAN?

IT MEANS PROOF OF THE PUDDING LIES IN THE EATING?

COUPLE OF DOCTORS HAVE TOLD ME , WHEN THEY WANT CORRECT INFO THEY READ MY POSTS-- BECAUSE I DONT CARE FOR THE ESTABLISHMENT. THERE IS A RING OF TRUTH TO WHAT I WRITE , BECAUSE I DO NOT HAVE PRECONCEIVED NOTIONS.

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Ranjith PrasadFebruary 7, 2016 at 8:50 PMsir

After carriage of X category cargo a ship has pre washed the tanks till the effluent concentration is 0.1% which is equivalent to 1000 ppm .Marol is not saying to do pre wash and discharge to shore till concentration is 0 ppm and 1000 ppm is fairly a good concentration . so can we clean the tank further and and discharge washing to sea is it allowed ? if the charter says to clean the tank further after leaving port what to do in that case . Pls note that it is a cat x cargo and basic criterion of cat X is not to discharge any washing to sea .Kindly help to clear this confusion

Hi captain,i wish you go on write about effective parenting. ive started following this in my daily life and request all to do the same. every word is full of captain's experience.i saw this move the finest hours yesterday and i only remembered you and your article on super typhoon. what i didnt understand is that the big oil tanker was broke into half and one half sank, other half people were there and it was floating for long time, how is that possible? 4 coast guards went in that heavy storm with that small rescue motor boat. how can the commander order to take that small boat and go and save the people?

Dear Capt Ajit Sir,Twitter account of Dr Gaurav Pradhan is pointing out the linkage between Pathankot, Vizag royal welcome to Barkha Dutt and NDTV embezzlement and funding....Do you think Arun Jaitley is tied in knots by ISI and being moved like a puppet by Pak's bosses ?

#GauravPradhan ‏@DrGPradhan 12m12 minutes ago

59 #MirchiSeth

read above 58 tweets? r

now read this article, is P'kot & Vizag linked? What role @ndtv playing?

Respected Captain Vadakayilhttp://www.ndtv.com/kerala-news/sabarimala-temple-issue-union-minister-mahesh-sharma-defends-womens-stance-1275155Is the culture minister for state Mahesh Sharma ignorant or is he in the payroll of the Zionists? Why is he siding with pseudo-secular coterie having vested interests? This is absolute nonsense.Regards

Captain:One of the ways your readers could organize and you could communicate with us to lead us in direct and effective ways to counter the Desh Drohi forces bandying together to destry Bharatamata would be for us to do the following:

1. We can send in our email ID (and Twitter ID if available) to you via this comments section which you will not publish but save in a database.

2. You can use such a mailing list which we have submitted to you of our own free will and volition to organize us as your all-volunteer force to work on certain campaigns. This database if I am correct about your reader base would run into the millions once we are properly organized.

3. You could target a couple of selective campaigns to destroy Desh Drohis' designs in starter domains. If we are successful in turning the tide through those campaigns, we know that we can be sucessful in tackling larger Desh Drohi forces.

5. This database would be useful for you or your son to contact us if and when this blog site is taken down by Desh Drohi forces (this is just a contingency preparation and won't probably happen).

This is just the start of what I call as the "Action Phase" to take us from the "Ideation Phase" which you have so far tirelessly worked for.

All words are useless unless they are followed by action. What do you think about this idea?

Mr Slasher,Why are you suggesting all this here?step 1-5..destroy..action...ideation...why behave like Rothschild???PLAN-SCHEME-EXECUTE-FEAR...We come to this blog ONLY because this flows...like a mighty river...uncaring ravaging and pure...We know all steps, all gyan what we should do..how we should do..when we should do...The Internet is full of lectures...PLEASE DONT ADVICE ANYONE HERE..You are new here...we have been here since 2009...If you dont like...You and that Razor Sid... guy can leave...we wont have any issues...Please dont patronize...

You need to get to a higher level from where you will see with clarity - what the Captain does results in the creation of mass awakening.Strength to oneself, rather than groupism. Evolution from within rather than revolution as a mass. Not getting caught in current events but letting the core inner you to come out.It is to make our thoughts and actions conscious with the belief that a conscious person will always do the right thing.The inner you need not be taught. It is the false perceptions moulded onto us that needs to be peeled off - layer after layer.

The style of Captain's writing is exceptionally clever. Folks will either connect or reject but will not come after him.

to me Dear Reader,Your comment has been taken off the website as our user community did not approve of it. We encourage you to participate in conversations on the site while refraining from posting obscene, defamatory, or inflammatory comments and not indulging in personal attacks, name calling or inciting hatred against any community or copying message from the article itself.Comment Removed: DO NOT THINK THAT THIS LOAN REQUEST IS A JOKE . . . MY YOUNG MAHARASHTRIAN CHIEF OFFICER TOLD ME THAT HIS SCHOOL GIRL NEIGHBOR GAVE HIM A BL0WJOB IN THE UNDERGROUND PARKING LOT BETWEEN TWO CARS ( BOTH HER FATHERS CARS ) --BECAUSE SHE WANTED 2000 BUCKS FOR VALENTINES DAY. . . SHE WANTED TO BUY A GIFT FOR HER BOY FRIEND. . . HE WAS NOT LYING--I CAN READ MALE FACES WHEN THEY BLUSH. . . THIS IS THE CONDITION OF INDIA. . . ONE DAY THIS GIRL WILL GET MARRIED TO AN INNOCENT MAN. TO HELL WITH VALENTINES DAY. . . ALL CHEAP ROMEOS SEND SMS AND WHATSPUP MESSAGES TO YOUNG PRETTY SCHOOL GIRLS . . AT THE AGE OF 12-14 A GIRL IS VERY VULNERABLE--EVEN A DIRTY SERVANT CAN GET HER. . . capt ajit vadakayil ..Best wishes,Team TOI

Congratulations and greetings for bloggers like you.This small victory only belongs to the efforts of truth revealing bloggers.http://m.thehindu.com/sci-tech/technology/internet/trai-rules-in-favour-of-net-neutrality/article8209455.ece

Respected Captain Vadakayilhttps://indialawyers.wordpress.com/nithari-high-court-judgement-acquits-pandher/The Nithari case( Anil Haldar vs Moninder Singh Pandher) is going to come up in the Supreme Court tomorrow. I am surprised why our media is quiet about the possibility of illegal organ trade and why they are hell-bent in trying to save Pandher.Regards

SINCE I WROTE THE POST ABOVE , AND ON AN AVERAGE I HAVE TO SPAM AT LEAST 5 TO 8 KIDNEY BUYER AGENTS EVERY DAY.

TODAY I HAVE ALREADY SPAMMED THREE.

thousands of children go “missing” every year in India, with Delhi / Mumbai having the highest rate of missing children.

In August 2012, the Minister of State for Home Affairs, responding to a question, said in the Rajya Sabha, “NCRB [National Crime Records Bureau] data registers that a child goes missing every eight minutes.

In Nithari village in Noida, Uttar Pradesh, the police refused to register complaints in 2005 and 2006 by parents of missing children--why ?

Remains of these children were found later near the house of businessman Moninder Singh Pandher. Both Pandher and his domestic servant Surinder Koli were arrested

Bengali Muslim migrant slum dwellers who reported missing children were threatened with deportation- if they persisted with complaints.

Twenty-nine state-owned banks wrote off a total of Rs 1.14 lakh crore of bad debts between financial years 2013 and 2015, much more than they had done in the preceding nine years. http://indianexpress.com/article/india/india-news-india/bad-loan-financial-year-rti-rbi-bank-loan-raghuram-rajan-bad-loan-financial-year-rti-rbi-bank-loan-raghuram-rajan-1140000000000-bad-debts-the-great-govt-bank-write-off/

The major economic challenges for India that are the cause of black money are(1) Banks writing off bad debts (Non Performing Assets)(2) The Income Tax Money locked in litigation cases in court(3) The fake currency menace

The lungs contain different cells that renew at different rates. The alveoli or air sac cells - needed for the exchange of oxygen / gases , deep in the lungs have a steady progress of regeneration that takes about a year.

OIL PULLING WITH VIRGIN COCONUT OIL , IS FOR TONGUE THAN FOR TEETH AND GUMS. THIS IS KERALA AYURVEDA .

This is a great revelation that oil pulling is for tongue buds regeneration. So, if I want to clean up all the digestive tract/linings from mouth to stomach to intestines to kidney....can I have the oil taken in after the oil pulling on empty stomach after the bowels are cleared ??? I have been experimenting with this notion why not use coconut oil be used for entire systemic cleaning ? What do you say ?

Respected Captain Vadakayilhttp://www.hindustantimes.com/india/government-panel-wants-obc-quotas-in-private-sector/story-RmRRgStR9M8IoTBEgRjQHK.htmlThere will now be 27% quota for OBC'S in private sector if NCBC (National Commission for Backward Classes) panel recommendations are accepted. Was quota in govt not enough? Has Modi gone bonkers?Regards

Respected Captain VadakayilI was watching Times Now. Kiran Mazumdar Shaw clearly opposed reservation in private and said only merit matters in the private sector. The Zionists do not want quota material in their companies. Regards

IT IS FOR THE WORLD TO KNOW HOW INDIAN CULTURE HAS EMBRACED IMMORAL WESTERN CULTURE ..

ALL THIS WONT WORK.

IS THERE SPIKE IN SALES ON CONDOMS AND FEMALE PANTIES -- FOR THE GIRLS ARE GONNA LOSE THEIR PANTIES ON VALENTINES DAY . . . AND RECEIVING ANAL SEX GAYS ( LIKE THAT CRYPTO JEW BOLLYWOOD DIRECTOR ) THEY PANSY UNDIES . ..

Millions of Namaskaram ! Dhanyawaad !!Also, would like to take help from you about one more thing. I am part time trader/investor too in stock market. I am awestruck by your perception and I think I could also acheive a fraction of Perception like you do, I will be earning good. Please help me to raise my perception levels for this purpose.

Hello captian,Nice blog! I wanted to know how you imagine yourself at the bindu of sriyantra?I concentrate on a 2D sriyantra on my cellphone and after some time the inner triangles start rotating the bindu and pull me in like a vortex.Whats beyond that? Can you help me out.

India had nano technology way back. Wootz steel - Wootz steel is a crucible steel characterized by a pattern of bands, which are formed by sheets of micro carbides within a tempered martensite or pearlite matrix in higher carbon steel, or by ferrite and pearlite banding in lower carbon steels. It is the pioneering steel alloy matrix developed in South India in the sixth century BC and exported globally. It was also known in the ancient world by many different names including Wootz, Ukku, Hindwani and Seric Iron.

Captain, Its high time for you come forward to save Sabrimala Temple.You can definitely help by writing letter to Kerala CM and PM, explaining your scientific reason and explanation of Sabrimala pilgrimage and Hindu religion.Since you've seen the world, you definitely know how to fight with this people and win the battle in both Legal and Spiritual aspect.Kindly fight this battle. People will definitely support you as you are true leader and a Hindu.Through out the country there is a protest on letting women inside Sabrimala.This people are behind Hindu religion only. No one wants to say anything against other religions. This is happening in Modi's India.

captain,Siachin claimed nine brave sons on India. lance naik Hunamantappa Koppada has survived against unimaginable odds. this is a great tribute to the soldier's tenacity, training and the will to fight it out. apparently the gear provided to these brave souls is top class.however, Mr.Koppada is in coma. expert doctors are worried about his lungs and breathing among other things. who is a better person to give some insight in to the soldier's care than an old sea salt? hopefully someone will read it and it helps.

I am regular reader of your blog and referred your links to many of my post on Indian culture. Malviya was british stooge for sure. His coterie hand in glove to remove name of BHU founding society President Maharaja Rameshwar Singh who wanted to setup Sharda University to preserve Santana Dharma. I want you to put more light on Darbhanga Raj, they were richest mithila Brahmin zamindars of british india as they did help in setting up many educational institutes Kali pathshala Calcutta University Aligarh University etc in India but after the death of Kameshwar Singh last scion in 1962 their history and contributions were never recognized. He was instrumental in putting Dr Rajendra Prasad and Dr RadhaKrishnan as president of india. In fact Rajendra babu used to have his personal plane to make visit in India as initial years there were no planes for presidents.

May be you could help on thisMy brother in law have a daughter of 6 years old, she is healthy & fit, but the problem is that she is not able to speak properly. She is not dumb but she is not able to speak in flow & loud. We don't know weather she hesitates or her vocal cords are not functioning properly.Please suggest any therapy or any other who can be consulted

Captain, you mentioned that we should listen to a child's cravings for certain food and that means the body is telling us what it needs. But, the main-stream-media has twisted the minds by commercials for junk food and a child craves for junk food, like KFC, ice creams, chocolates, pizzas in lieu of regular food. How to handle such scenarios?

EvanFebruary 11, 2016 at 6:54 PMlike Subramanian Swamy said - Participatory Notes should be banned. India is only in the World to have allowed such a direct and open hole to its Stock Market on the pretext of having ease of investment flows.

INDIA IS BEING USED AS WASHING MACHINE TO LAUNDER SLUSH MONEY OF FOREIGN CRIMINALS AND INDIANS WHO HAVE BILLIONS IN SWISS BANK ACCOUNTS.

Participatory Notes commonly known as P-Notes or PNs are instruments issued by registered foreign institutional investors (FII) to overseas investors, who wish to invest in the Indian stock markets without registering themselves with the market regulator, the Securities and Exchange Board of India - SEBI.

The PN system is blatantly discriminatory and favour DESH DROHI ghost investors-most of them are mere FRONTD for Rothschild..

For PN investors, the system is totally silent, even on basic information—while Indian citizens have to go through the grind.

The FIIs issue PNs to funds/companies whose identity is not known to the Indian authorities.

PNs are used outside India for making investments in shares listed in the Indian stock market. SEBI permitted foreign institutional investors to register and participate in the Indian stock market in 1992.

Rothschild placed his STOOGE MANMOHAN SINGH on the Ministry of Finance chair for this and much more.

He came via the Rajya Sabha backdoor, much like Arun Jaitley today. At least Manmohan Singh is an economist.

Arun Jaitley is just a lawyer.

Why was this unqualified and LOST lawyer made Finance minister?

BLACK MONEY INDIAN HOLDERS HAVE LOOPED BACK THEIR ILLGOTTEN MONEY SALTED AWAY ABROAD AS ANONYMOUS INVESTORS.

MIND YOU THEY HAVE MANIPULATED THE SYSTEM BY MASSIVE BRIBES TO REGULATORS IN POWER , TO RIG AND DOCTOR THEIR STOCKS.

-- we know what is happening - world funds are in search of markets, or markets looking for world funds .

Manmohan Singh made NO efforts to obtain details of beneficial ownership — or identity of the final holder or investor — of P-Notes, or atleast make it non-transferable.

EVEN A RETARDED CHILD ( EXCEPT MODI ) KNOWS THAT PARTICIPATROY NOTES IS A EASY METHOD OF BRINGING BACK ILLGOTTEN MONEY VIA THE BACK DOOR – OR EVEN FOR DESH DROHI INDIANS TO BE MERE FRONTS FOR ZIONIST JEW BIG BROTHER, TO CONTROL THE INDIAN STOCK MARKET.

CHUTNEY MARYs FLIRT WITH THEIR BOSSES TO GET EASY PROMOTIONS , CUSHY TASKS AND LEEWAY WITH OFFICE HOURS.

SOME OF THEM RESORT TO BLACKMAIL- BECAUSE THEY KNOW THAT BILDERBERG CLUB INTRODUCED THE NATIONAL WOMENs COMMISSION IN INDIA , TO DRIVE INDIA APART BY GENDER.

WE WANT THE WOMENs COMMISSON IN INDIA TO HAVE 50% MALE MEMBERS . THE TOP BOSS MUST ROTATE EVERY YEAR.

UNLESS THIS IS DONE, NCW MUST NOT HAVE CIVIL COURT STATUES WHERE THEY DARE TO SUMMON POLICE AND ARMED FORCES TOP BRASS.

ONE DAY I WILL PUT A POST ON THE PAST NCW CHIEFS , WHO SELECTED THEM , HOW THEY BLED BHARATMATA.

THERE WILL BE ENOUGH MATERIAL TO SEND ATLEAST ONE OF THEM ( CHAIRPERSON ) IN TIHAR JAIL.

NCW IS GUILTY OF CULTURAL TERRORISM IN INDIA. \

WE WILL NOT ALLOW GENDER DIVIDES WHERE A WOMAN CAN CLAIM SEXUAL HARASSMENT AFTER 20 YEARS TO BRING DOWN SOMEONE--JUST BECAUSE HER PMS HORMONES ARE PLAYING UP AND SHE IS ON THE VERGE OF DEMENTIA..

IT IS ALL TOO EASYFOR THE SWEET PURSUIT OF LOVE TO BECOME DIABOLICAL STALKING-- HOW MANY WOMEN HAVE USED SALMAN KHAN TO CLAW THEIR WAY TO THE TOP-- AND DISCARD HIM LIKE A USED CURRY LEAF WHEN THEY ARE WELL ENSCONCED ?

The NCW has demanded that women should not be punished for adultery. The NCW had insisted with support from BILDERBERG CLUB , benami media and sold out judiciary that Section 497[6] of the Indian Penal Code not be changed to make adulterous wives equally prosecutable by their husbands.

NEVER MIND WHAT THE JEALOUS WHITE MAN , INDIAN DESH DROHIS AND OUR SOLD OUT BENAMI MEDIA SAYS.

THE WHOLE WORLD ECONOMY NOW LIES IN SHAMBLES. THERE WILL BE GLOBAL RECESSION UNLESS INTELLIGENT PEOPLE ( WHO DO NOT THINK LIKE AMARTYA SEN / RAGHURAM RAJAN TYPE USELESS ECONOMISTS ) DO MAJOR COURSE CORRECTIONS.

INDIA IS THE ONLY ISLAND OF GROWTH IN THIS BLEAK SCENARIO. THE REASON IS OUR AMAZING POTENTIAL- OUR SMALL SCALE INDUSTRIES WHICH KAILASH SATYARTHI TRIED TO KILL.

THIS BLOGSITE ASKS MODI, TO PUNISH BENAMI MEDIA WHO IS GOING TO TOWN SAYING THAT OUR GDP IS OVER VALUED-- SORRY , CAPT AJIT VADAKAYIL SAYS THAT OUR INDIAN GDP IS HUGELY UNDERVALUED .

IN ANOTHER 17 YEARS , INDIA M=WILL BE THIS PLANETs NO 1 SUPERPOWER - ECONOMICALLY, MILITARILY --EVERY WHICH WAY.

I ASK MODI TO PROCURE 18 NUCLEAR SUBMARINES . THIS IS A DETERRENT SO THAT INDIA WILL NOT BE DRAWN INTO WORLD WAR 3.

WHEN OIL PRICES ARE LOW PUTIN WILL SELL MILITARY HARDWARE. AND PUTIN WILL NOT PUT SANCTION ON INDIA BECAUSE WE ARE INTOLERANT TO ANAL SEX.

THE ENTIRE NATO AND ZIONIST JEW RULES NATIONS ARE DEEP IN DEBT. THEIR PERCENTAGE OF EXTERNAL DEBT TO GDP RATIO IS PATHETIC.

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