first things FIRST! share WHERE you got the perfect boyfriend jeans :) second…i read somewhere that you can wash them with a pumice stone & also use a dremel (not sure how its spelled) tool with the sander attachment to sand off the top layers of thread in certain places leaving the white threads below. i’ve not tried it, but i have a girlfriend that her jeans looked GREAT after this!

Awe hunny , take them jeans , take something like a piece of 2×4 or , leg ur jeans on a irioning board , grab a rasp and rasp the jeans untill u get the distreesed look * don’t rasp hard it can leave holes but if u do it gently it will work