[All]
Hey (yeah) I wanna see you work it baby,
I want you to be my lady,
I love the way you move your body, oh you drive me crazy...

[Flava]
I'm a do it real good if you know how I felt,
we could take it downstairs, like below the belt,
whatever you want I got it, I'm hot baby ya want it,
love solid for hours not even austin powers could top it,
or do better than me slew better than me
cruise over you's and use the penny, prove that I'm ready,
prefer it with many but really I don't care,
cos dis chick so bling its gettin frosty in ere...

[pre-chorus]
me and the boys will be blazing it up,
so baby girl now take a ride in the back of the truck,
if you wanna get crunk better know who you are...

[chorus]
girl, I love the way you work it,
and if you let me, I wanna flip reverse it (c'mon baby work it for me oh)....

[repeat]
(gonna flip reverse it baby)

[Spike-E]
I'm the kind of boy that like a lot of heat undercovers,
sitting on some cheddar, need to work you girl,
I'm the type, more like to pick up the mic,
and bless this crowd with my flows, while u stare and grind,
and I will bring my click, cos that's how we roll,
and I'll take these chicks and I'll take them home,
I'm making sure none of us leave this place alone,
I gotta get a honey and get her alone,

[pre-chorus]
me and the boys will be blazing it up,
so baby girl now take a ride in the back of the truck,
if you wanna get crunk better know who you are...

[chorus x2]

[Melo D]
This girl don't know that she'll be dealing with melo,
I see you grindin in the club cheeks soft like a pillow,
make you hotter than an oven if ya gimme a second,
cos I'm consistant, when it comes
to pleasing girls I'm a blessing...

[Strider]
flip it, rip it, lick it, girls strip it, yo can you kick it,
the mic is the ticket,goes to sip it,
yo freeky deeky shit, flick it, lick it good,
and put it in the place is where you should and wen I take the nood,
no-one gives you the feelins the way I could uh...

Girl (yeah) I wanna see you work it baby,
I want you to be my lady,
I love the way you move your body, ooh you drive me crazy...
Girl (yeah) I wanna see you work it baby,
I want you to be my lady,
I love the way you move your body, oh you drive me crazy

The couple is at the end of their relationship. They're fighting, he still loves her deeply but she's pulled away and is distant. He doesn't know if the relationship is repairable and he doesn't want to hear that it's over. But it is, and he knows it. But he doesn't want it that way.

According to the song’s Wikipedia article, there has been a lot of back and forth regarding the confusing lyrics of the song, especially the chorus:

Many critics over the years have questioned the song’s lyrical meaning, mainly the line, “I want It That Way”.
It has even been suggested that Max Martin had little knowledge of the english language:

Kevin Richardson, member of the band … also wrote that Max Martin, who co-wrote and co-produced the song, barely spoke English.
As a consequence of the critique, they decided to do an alternate version:

In the alternate version, the song has the opposite message (“I love it when I hear you say, I want it that way”)
Unfortunately the alternate version wasn’t popular with the fans, or the band, and the flawed lyrics of the original remained.

Others consider the lyrics nonsense. From Wiki:

Ben Westhoff of LA Weekly dissected the song, writing that its lyrical content “makes zero sense.” For Westhoff, “Mainly, the meaning of ‘that’ is at issue.” While analyzing the lyrics, Westhoff perceived that, “None of the sentiments in the chorus seem to go with any of the other ones. Even worse, no further explanation is given for what ‘that’ is.” The critic assumed that in the song “someone simply don’t like it when its lover express preferences, never wanting to hear when his girlfriend says she wants things in particular ways.”
While some have derived meaning, offering actually fairly sensible interpretations:

“The original version is more interesting precisely because of its ambiguity. In the first two verses, the line ‘I want it that way’ means that the boy likes the girl just the way she is. But also, there is some distance or barrier between them, that he doesn’t want. And in the chorus, they ask why. ‘I never want to hear you say I want it that way,’ then, means that he does not want her to say she does not mind being that way, that is, distant.”

in a deep, emotional, commited way, and that the subject of the song wants the object of the song that way, but can't deal with the commitment of the object returning those affections, and the songs about that difficulty and the confusion and turmoil it engenders

having read the lyrics isn't it answered in the first line, backstreet boy is really into someone and they are happy with that. Other verses suggest that the backstreet spouse has concerns, and blames the backstreet boy for the situation, saying they want it that way, backstreet boy assures them no I want it that way (that now referring to the original one desire meaning)