I’m a female who has lost the last four years of her life to a sexual predator. This predator is a former employer of mine who owns a large chain of businesses in the surrounding area. This man sexually harassed me for a year on the job until I slept with him. He was warned repeatedly before, during and after the affair, that it was something that could destroy me. I was at a very vulnerable stage in my life and could not afford to back slide.

I suffered economically, mentally and physically. In fact, the stress became so bad at one point that I thought I would end up in a wheel chair due to back pain.

The day I told this man to take my phone number and stick it where the sun don’t shine, 65% of my back pain went away! Coincidence, I think not!

When you are having sexual relations with a man who won’t allow you to do anything other than answer phones at his business, wouldn’t help you repair car when it became disabled, never took you anywhere, never did anything for you except for when forced, continually promised things that were never delivered, wouldn’t give you money for gas or food when you’ve fallen on severely tough economic times, it can push you to the verge of insanity; Especially when this man is worth over $100,000,000.00.

This is the exact moment when a man will step in and call a woman crazy. If I had a dollar for every time I’ve heard a man call a woman a crazy bitch…! wouldn’t be standing here passing out letters, that’s for sure. Why did I stay? In my opinion, getting rid of a sexual predator is much like trying to get rid of cancer. When you don’t have health insurance and other recourses to cure your illness, it can be 10 times harder to cure. That’s what predators depend on.

They chose women people who are destitute and generous to a fault. They use a woman’s kindness as a weakness and bleed it dry, like a leach.

I am a beautiful, funny, kind, intelligent and talented woman who ended up with a man who doesn’t care if I’m eating cat food under a bridge. A man who agreed that, he’d have his son-in-law’s legs broken, if he ever treated his daughter this way.

If you’re a man and you’re thinking “That’s a man for you”…how proud you must be to be a part of a species that goes around treating YOUR MOTHERS, SISTERS, NEfCES AND DAUGHTERS THIS WAY. If you are a female, there’s a chance that this has happened to you. I urge you to be supportive of other females you may encounter, that may experience something similar in their lifetime.

I have spent the last few months speaking to the Police, the EEOC, The Labor Board, Attorneys, Women’s Rights Organizations and other Gov’t affiliated Organizations, trying to get someone to help me in my situation.

The sad thing is sexual harassment is as common of an occurrence as one brushing their teeth. Even worse, I could get better assistance if I were an illegal immigrant, a criminal or if I were married to this monster. To the employees, who behaved as if they were genuinely concerned for my welfare, I thank you for your kindness. It shall not be forgotten. To the remaining half, who acting as if they’d be more impressed by watching a topcoat of varnish dry on a coffee table…God gave me too much personality. ..I’d be happy to share it with you, if that meant no one else had to be exposed to your behavior.

I know that you’re dying for me to tell you who the culprit is. Unfortunately, it’s not illegal for a man to treat me like a tampon, use me as his personal sperm bank, threaten my life, watch me deteriorate emotionally, physically and financially in is his presence, due to his behavior towards me or make me his sexual victim. However, it is legal for him to sue me for slander if I tell you his name.

I hope this letter was as good for you as it was for me. While some people are dirty, stingy, rotten, greedy scumbags, I on the other hand believe in sharing the wealth. Please pass this letter on to someone else who may benefit from it.