Single, straight (and hopefully nice) man here from London UK, with some quite dark desires. Had lots of vanilla relationships in the past, became a dad too, but now have started to accept my non-vanilla kinky side.

I knew I was genuinely a kinky person when a few years ago I had to be rescued from some DIY naked strappado bondage by my rather older, very straight (i think) upstair neighbour(this was NOT a turn on by the way!) probably the most embarrassing moment of my life so far. I had to shout through the locked doors/ceiling until she heard. Then she had to break in.

I've got better ways of doing things now, but I'll never forget that one. Looking forward to contributing on the forum!