Ahh the fun of a social life based on your kids. I can understand your pain. And I was displeased to read about your son’s school difficulties.

My wife is a School Psych and set up programs to help children adapt to the classroom in ways that best suits their needs. She has her share of frustration with teachers who don't know or want to know about how to work with special needs kids. I hope all goes well for the two of you.