Selasa, 17 Desember 2013

Shy Child Psychology and Quiet

Shy
Child Psychology and Quiet

Educating children was tricky , even easier than raising
him . If
you are too simplistic in educating children can make a child feel too free or
unnoticed . But
if you educate too hard , can make children feel depressed and rebellious . There are many that
highlight the problem of educating children .

Emotional Child

Emotional development of children often make parents
confused . Quite often
that react expressively and hard . Even
parents often feel anxious or worried about the changes that occur in children
. Including
when the child turns into a shy , quiet , and solitude .Feelings
of shame in children began to emerge at the age of one year . At
that time shame arises because the child has begun to distinguish between
people who are already known to those who considered foreigners . The
humiliation does not appear suddenly , but could be due to the temperament of
the child from birth or due to the effect of treatment on the child's parents .

High Expectations

There are several types of treatment the parents who make
children become shy . Among
them , too high expectations from parents to children . The
parents expect children to be someone who ' superior ' . Both
related to intelligence , wit , expression , humor , and physical development .
But
the parents' expectations can actually turn out to be for children when
excessive pressure .

Many
child psychology articles that highlight the excesses of parents in protecting
children , it will give adverse effects on the child . Parents
who are overly protective , many provide the prohibition of , or restrictions
will only make children become afraid to do and shame on the people around him
.

In
educating children , parents are usually stuck on various fears and face the
aggravation of psychological development of children. Prohibition
or restriction of the parents is a reflection of fear when the kids want to
play will be dirty , disease , falls , or other fears . While
on the other hand , when a child shows stubbornness and freedom of expression
is often perceived as an annoying burden that parents need to be restricted .

CompetitionWhile
other factors that affect a child being shy is sibling rivalry or peers . A
child who is active will be sociable , cheerful , and easily attract attention
. While
the children are passive tend to withdraw because of lack of response to the
other children . These
conditions will make children become increasingly shy and depressed .

Faced
with such children , parents need to let go of ambition in educating children .
Many
child psychology articles that emphasize that parents give freedom to the child
, to feel what he wanted . Especially
when children aged 1-5 years , the freedom of expression it will develop into a
person's psyche active child . So
that the child will not be embarrassed or afraid to its environment .