URGH ! lads? help me

well, bassically i am in love with this guy, we have a years worth of history and it's been up and down but we have had an amaazing year together, til now. he says he is over everything, and i guess he is, but i'm not and i really NEED to get over him, we got into an arguement a few weeks back and we made up but we aren't as close now. help on gettin over boys please? :'(

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ugh i know what you mean. theres a guy that ive liked since the 3rd grade, and even though we have never dated or anything, i would always be really jealous and hurt if he flirted with another girl or what not, and no matter how hard i try to get over him, i cant. anywayz, what im trying to say is that you're always gunna have feelings for this guy, but you just have to remember that hes not the only guy you will ever meet. open your eyes and look around. im sure that there is that one special guy right there waiting for you too. :) hope this helped, let me know how it works out.

You are going to have to find things to preoccupy your time and mind. It is very difficult to just forget about someone. Time will make you feel better and you can't just force yourself... it won't work. A year is a long time and you were used to seeing and talking to this guy and now it is not there anymore so it does hurt. Now that your life has changed w/o this guy you need to find things to do and find new people to talk to and hang out with. You are young so don't let this guy get too you too much... You will feel better soon, sorry to hear about what had happened.

Firstly, you have to understand that boyfriends come and go. I know it sounds harsh, but at this age, breakups happen often. If hes over you, then maybe he never loved you. You should just leave him and move on. You deserve someone better (:

I know its hard and it will hurt, but pain wont last forever. You wil eventually meet someone you wanna spend the rest of your life with :)

Go out with your girlfriend and just party! Avoid being alone for a while. Join a club. Just go out and run like crazy. Hhaha.

Just occupy yourself with something & just remember, theres someone out there whos made just for you, & obviously your boyfriend isnt that someone.

thaanks, and yeah, i'm feeling alot better, he started talking to me last night over msn and i just ignored him, i need to forget about him, it's harder though because we were once best friends then we dated kinda, and he gets on my school bus,, lives down the road, so i see him veryday and when we go out with everybody around where i live, he is ALWAYs there, so its hard, but i think i'm managing nw to get over it all, thank-you :)