okay so it's about dancer guy and my mom

okay so we kissed right? well i didn't exactly tell my mom and then juz last night i told him i can tell if he does it today coz it's my birthday and i think my mom will agree.......and she did, no violent reactions juz a few jokes about it ^_^ but the problem is i still haven't told her about the other night when dancer guy kissed me 5 times!!! 0_o my teacher said i should give myself some personal space and that if i'm not comfortable telling her about it then i shouldn't and i think he's right but my mom said i'm being too wild? wtf?!?! juz some kiss and you call that wild?!?! gosh!!! but it's also because i told her i'm never drinking beer again since i juz did this afternoopn but only three shots and it's my first time. okay so maybe i have been a lil wild for a day to handle but dancer guy and i are going to the mall this friday and we plan to kiss yeah but should i tell my mom everything always? also, i think kim (dancer guy) is kinda upset when i told him i was almost drunk coz he doesn't want me to drink and i asked him but he said no he's not upset. by the way, i also kissed him on the forehead coz i hit him as a reflex when he did something i can't remember what. ^_^ so do you think it's okay and should i give myself some personal space?

, oh and i really love him and he really loves me i can tell, he's serious but easily falls in love ~_~ so please pray for us and wish me luck on keeping him mine!!! ^_^ thanks!!! oh and make out tips will help too ^_~ he's younger one year by the way so he may not be as ready so please any tips? lol thanks in advance!!! ^_^

To be honest, I thouht at first drinking, and already in "love" (if you can call it that without knowing anything personal or all the personal facts of the other person's life) at the age of 13? yuh,no. But seeing as to how you live inthe phillipines , i'm not sure of the social structure there , so i couldn't say much about drinking. what i can say is, from what I read, it doesn't sound like "love" =\ more of a drunken infatuation and kiss fest. WAITTTTT, you do know "dancer guy's" name, right? @[email protected] and you're going to the mall just to kiss and make out? If so,then i can seriously say this is not love you're feeling, just lust it seems. Errr, I'm with your mum there, you're being to wild and reckless, you're the girl that's gone through how many boyfriends in a matter of years?Take you're time , you're not going to die tomorrow, sheesh, and if he does "love" you for real, he'd not mind getting to know you, before you guys start swapping saliva...BUTTTTT not to be like an old meanie, if you really really like him and whatnot , just be careful that he doesn't start falling in "love" with someone else. I'm glad you told your mum, just don't be all over him...people take their time in a relationship so that when they actually find the right one, it actually means something. for example, who'd you have your first kiss with? are you still with them? when you actually find your one true love? it won't ever be a first kiss shared with them. so it becomes less special. not that anyone thinks about the future nowadays. Regardless, I wish you well, I do not wish for anything bad to happen, good luck. :)

hey girl there are SO many types of love and right now your in that first love/ puppy love stage. you're infatuated. but it's not forever love. that takes time to discover.

you can tell your a bit lovie dovie and little kisses aren't that bad. i think you're a bit young to do anything else. keep in mind anything you'd be imbarrassed telling your mom about you shouldn't be doing.

i'm not going to say it's ok to keep your love life from your mom when you live in her house and she takes care of you on a daily basis, but does she know you're kind of kid dating? if she know's you're kinda bf/gf she should have a hint you're being lovie but don't abuse her trust. keep it simple and keep it safe