Those films also cast desirable men in these roles. And if the guy isnвЂ™t handsome, then there is at least some other element to him: power or wealth. 98% of these guys going up to women have none of the above. At some point, some self-awareness needs to take place. I have a pretty good self esteem, but even I know my ass is not getting away with chit a Sofia Vargas is because I do not have Sofia boobies or shape. At some point, you need to get your ass together with the quickness or someone will gather your ass up for you aka what those girls did.