Sunday, 16 February 2014

I was scratching my head on where and how to celebrate my Husband's 31st.
Either go big or just having an intimate dinner just the 2 of us.

Well, I knew, what ever it is, it gonna involve one stay at a hotel.

I have one place in mind but afraid Husband not gonna like it.
He preferred somewhere around KLCC but we've been there for my birthday celebration last 2 years.

Initial plan was to go to celebrate in Bangkok.
But due to the unstable political scene plus, we are going to bring Fea,
we aborted the idea.

Hotel checked !
Next was a birthday dinner.

I really wanted to go to the Mandarin Grill, Mandarin Oriental KL
due to the great reviews I found on the Internet...
but husband wanted a simple dinner and not to waste money.
We should keep the romantic dinner for other occasion.

Fine then...and thank you Husband for your kind understanding :)

Finally I booked Majestic Hotel KL to spend our night.

We went out at 10.00am and Fea was with her grandmother.
We had a breakfast, go to Pavillion and by 2.30pm we checked in to the hotel.

Our first impression was WOW and it lasted for the whole stay !
We got an upgraded room.
I truly recommend this hotel for a special occasion .
Love it ~

We spent some time together, just the two of us :)
Though most of our conversations were about lil Fea. Haha.

After Maghrib prayers, we went out for a Dinner at The Daily Grind Bangsar Village.
The food were delish ! will come back definitely .

Before coming back to the Hotel, we took Lil Fea.
Been missing her like cray cray ~

Surprisingly, this was what waiting for us at the room...

I did put a note on the reservation that I will be celebrating my Hub's bday.

Wednesday, 22 January 2014

At times, I feel its not fair.
I work as much...contribute as much...but at the same time..
I still need to be a wife.

Maybe because I am lazy. Just plain lazy.
And I'm taking advantage of having a very patient husband.

My mum keep on nagging me to change...cause Im now a wife...and going to be a mother!
I need to change my pattern. I need to wake up earlier than him.
Prepare him breakfast...cook dinner for him...
Just be a wife....if not a good wife.

Bluergh !

"so what if you are a graduate? working as this or that? do you have any idea how many career women out there who are like you, but better (read :at doing domestic chores) ?"

"what makes you think he's gonna stick with you through all the time? Love? you are so naive.What you've got to offer? not that you know how to stay in shape (read:fat)..and don't let me start with your laziness !you better change....or else. (read: you'll end up like me)"

I guess, my mum is like Joan Rivers when giving marriage advice....

cruel right? but she has been there and done that.
and
I'm matured enough to know, what I'm doing is wrong and change is a must !

Pregnant or not, shouldn't be an excuse.
I have my responsibilities....and the prior ones are not in the office.
After all, I'm the one who begged him to marry me.
HAHA.

Have you ever wondered, how many other women wanted to be in your position?
To have your loving husband as her's?

To have found my husband is truly a blessing journey of mine.
Every day, I thank Allah SWT....for having a wonderful man in my life.

As a start, I tried to do the things .... seikhlas hati....
and slowly change my patterns

In all honesty....I don't think I'm a bad wife.
I have my strong points and I'd made sacrifices for this relationship...