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Dr. Glasser once said that the term 'Responsibility Therapy'might
have been a better name than 'Reality Therapy' for his method of
counselling. He said this because the basis and bedrock of Choice
theory is that we all are personally responsible for all the
behaviours which we choose and he holds that virtually all our
behaviours are in fact chosen.
We canot blame our 'dysfunctional' home, our parents,our background
our schools or our past for our actions....... we alone are
responsible for them. He goes on to say that often our actions prove
to be foolish or ineffective or even self destructive and often we
deeply regret them afterwards; but they were the best actions we
could choose at the time and we are responsible for them.

Viktor Frankl had a rather famous quote pertaining to responsibility
which I quite like (although it admittedly doesn't involve CT/RT). He
suggested that the United States should have, in the harbour of San
Francisco, a "Statue of Responsibility" to balance the Statue of
Liberty on the east coast. I believe that is is from his first book:
Man's Search for Meaning. An interesting image, is it not?