Unfortunately for the girls, it was also filled with a lot of tough relationship situations. For instance, Jessa and Thomas John learned just how right Nora Ephron was when she said “Never marry a man you wouldn’t want to be divorced from.” Those two got nasty with each other! When the phrases "I'm embarrassed of you," "You're my worst nightmare," and "I'm a unicorn" (ha!) enter into your fight, you married the wrong person. Ouch. And can I just say, it says a lot about Lena Dunham and Jemima Kirke that when Jessa went to Hannah for comfort, I was only thinking how heartbreaking and touching it was, instead of screaming “FRIENDS DON’T SIT AROUND IN BATHTUBS TOGETHER EVER!” Which is true, but the scene felt so emotionally real I didn’t even care.

But the moment that had me welling up was when Ray and Shoshanna confessed their love. Their tense talk on a subway bench (which Megan pointed out, ew) about his lack of success and lack of apartment took a seriously tender turn--why does it seem SO much more romantic that he said "I love you so f---ing much" instead of a regular "I love you"?

But as much as I loved the moment (so f---ing much!) and I'm rooting for these two, it left me feeling sad and worried for their future. Because as someone who has dated a guy who was constantly calling himself a loser for similar reasons as Ray, I know that it's an incredibly hard situation to deal with in a relationship. And I really know that loving that guy despite any flaws or rough times he's going through won't be enough to make him feel worthy. He can only do that for himself. But if he can't, and he feels undeserving of love, he'll act out in ways that will only end up hurting Shoshanna. A lot. Trust me. Sniff. Shoshanna can't make him worth dating by loving him. He has to believe it on his own in order to fully appreciate their relationship. That's not to say I think they are doomed--I really hope not because I love me some Ray!--but I think he better get it together for his own sake and for Shoshanna's.

Do you agree with me or do you think I'm too worried about Ray's confidence situation? Are you rooting for them? What was the best or worst relationship moment of the episode for you?