Separated children in Haiti often not welcome home

By MIKE MELIA (AP)

PORT-AU-PRINCE, Haiti — Stranded since the earthquake, 9-year-old Ana toes the dusty concrete outside her orphanage and tells a social worker she wants to go back to live with her half-sister. Within hours, the aid worker hits pay dirt, finding the adult sister in a sprawling shantytown.

But there’s a problem. The sister, an impoverished woman with two children of her own, was the one who dropped the girl at the orphanage in the first place.

“This is going to be difficult,” sighed Mario Marcellus, a Haitian caseworker for World Vision — one of five international aid groups working to trace children living in orphanages or homeless camps since the earthquake and return them to their families.

The aid groups have already found 700 children they believe were separated from their families by the earthquake, and they expect the number to rise dramatically because of a new hot line set up to report cases of separated children.

The work is tedious, especially for younger children who can’t give phone numbers or details of their families in a city where hundreds of thousands have been forced from their homes into makeshift camps. And too often, days of sleuthing lead not to joyful reunions but to parents and guardians too overwhelmed to take the children back.

World Vision has managed to find families for only 12 of its 300 cases so far. And only five children have been reunited with their families. In seven other cases, the families did not want them back.

“We have appreciated the conditions of the parents are not the greatest, but we have been shocked to learn the parents have not been looking for them, or they have not expected them back,” said Noah Ochola, the leader of World Vision’s Children in Emergencies program.

The magnitude-7 earthquake that the government estimates killed 230,000 people proved the breaking point for many families that could barely afford to feed their children before.

The World Vision team found Ana on Monday at a partially collapsed orphanage in the Tabarre flatlands on the northern edge of Port-au-Prince, sleeping with 17 other children in a tent rigged from bed sheets.

She has a rash covering her face and body that is going untreated, and orphanage director Idalia Supreme said the girl is so traumatized that she has no memory of the earthquake.

Wearing a pink embroidered dress and blue plastic sandals, Ana huddled in an alley with Marcellus, the caseworker, who gently prodded for clues about her life before the Jan. 12 quake: What does your house look like? What do you remember about your neighborhood?

Supreme took Marcellus aside and warned him that a reunion may not be possible for Ana and her half-sister.

“She brought her here because times are hard,” Supreme said, spreading her palms out toward the toppled concrete homes nearby.

The girl’s mother died when she was younger. Her father, who lives nearby, visited after the earthquake and complained that she does not belong in an orphanage. But he offered no alternative, Supreme said.

Even amid the dire conditions since the quake, the guiding principle of the aid groups is that children’s best protectors are their families. To that end, they have developed strategies to win over reluctant guardians like Ana’s sister.

Aid groups refer parents and guardians in the desperately poor country to earning opportunities such as the U.N. work-for-food program. To make the children seem less of a burden, they are sent home with parcels of rice, sandals, toothpaste and cooking oil. World Vision also provides $60 to $150 in cash, depending on how many children the family has.

“It gives them room to think, to see beyond another two or three months what kind of work they can be engaged in,” Ochola said.

The smallest aid can make a difference.

Ramsey Ben-Achour, the Haiti director for Heartland Alliance, another of the five groups under UNICEF, said he met one man who did not want to take two of his children home from a field hospital. He had two other children, his wife died in the earthquake and their house collapsed. But after the aid group gave him two mattresses, tent tarps and food rations, he agreed to take back the children.

“He thinks he’s going to be giving them a better life by leaving them there (at the hospital),” Ben-Achour said. “But what’s actually going to happen is they’re going to turn into street children, they’re going to end up trying to wash cars, they’re going to join gangs or be exploited sexually.”

The disaster heightened an existing problem: the institutionalization of children in a country where roughly 40 percent of the population is under age 14. Most of the 50,000 children who lived in orphanages before the earthquake had at least one living parent, said Andy Brooks, the UNICEF child protection chief.

As many as 250,000 other children were living in a form of slavery — the so-called “restaveks” sent to live in more affluent households, where many suffer abuse — in exchange for shelter and sometimes schooling.

Marcellus, a psychologist, said he dedicated his career to children because they are among the most neglected in Haitian society. Since the quake, he said, he feels more needed than ever.

“I have to work twice as hard and make more sacrifices for my job,” he said.

Brooks said he hopes the outpouring of global assistance will help create a better-regulated system for tending to unwanted children.

“I think the most important thing is really to use the opportunity, if I can say that, of the resources and the increased capacity … to develop with the government creative and innovative ways to get children to stay with their families,” he said.

The vast number of discarded children has complicated aid workers’ efforts, but their loose mandate is still to focus on those separated since the quake. The less time that has passed since the separation, the easier it is to reunite families.

In Ana’s case, there are already signs of progress.

Marcellus called her sister, who seemed wary over the phone.

But he explained how Ana was traumatized and living in poor conditions, and she agreed in a later conversation to meet with him and Ana at the orphanage next week.

Marcellus is hopeful: “The only reason she doesn’t want to take her sister back is because she doesn’t have money.”