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IF..or does your partner watch porn does it bother you /would it bother you and why?

Not at all! I watch too... often with him.. but we both watch without each other too. As far as I'm concerned... who cares?? I know he loves me just as much as I love him. We both have a healthy appetite for sex and a healthy respect for sex and an even more healthy respect for each other. It's all good, there's trust, respect, admiration and if I do say so myself.. we both have a phenomenal sense of humor.... what else could one want or need??

I don't care if he watches/reads/looks at porn. I'm not comfortable with clubs though... I think I can sperate myself from the fact the people in the magazines are real where as the ones in clubs are fully accessible. It has nothing to do with trust either. I know there is no way DH would ever touch another woman or cheat on me. I dunno. weird hang up I guess.

hey if I had sex with him everytime he wanted it I'd NEVER get anything done lol. If he wants to look no biggy to me I'm the one here that he will get his "fancy" done with in the end.... And, I'm secure enough with myself to not let who he's looking at bug me either.

I've tried not to let it bother me but it does very much so. I do not mind doing it together though. I have no idea why.

Answer by
Anonymous
at 8:49 PM on Oct. 15, 2010

My fiance does and it really doesn't bother me. He loves and respects me, and we have a healthy and faithful intimate life, so I don't have an issue with it. I'm not at all crazy about clubs, but I still don't mind him going if it's for a bachelor party, etc. as long as he doesn't touch.