The Time You're Less Likely to Have an Orgasm

Is it possible that women are having more sex—but fewer happy endings?

Wondering why you didn’t get off with that crazy-hot guy you just met at the bar? You’re not alone. According to a recent New York Times article, most women aren’t having orgasms from casual sex—and they’re understandably getting fed up.

So what’s with the orgasm shortage? One study from earlier this year found that women are twice as likely to climax from intercourse or oral sex when they’re in serious relationships than when they’re with casual flings. And the Times article is filled with accounts from frustrated women to back up this research. While some have just accepted the fact that they’re probably going to orgasm less often outside of relationships, others chock it up to single men being less determined to please them during a hookup.

But if you want to keep your single status and your orgasms, you have plenty of options. First of all, it’s totally possible to have great sex without an orgasm. But if you’re not going home without the big O, try one of these sex positions that make it way easier for you to climax.