Sex advice by Agony Allan – Golden Shower?

I consider myself very open-minded, although I’ve never understood certain fetishes. One of these is golden showers… I always thought it was kind of gross. So now I’m in a mature great relationship with a great guy and he confesses he would like me to piss on his dick… I find this a turn off, but I am also about the other person’s pleasure… After some thought, I decided I am willing to try this although I don’t understand how he’s going to get off on it. We have not done it yet.

So I have three issues…

1) I rarely have to pee during sex, but he only wants me to do this when we’re both really turned on… so how should I prepare?

2) How the heck can you give someone a golden shower anywhere but the bathtub and not make a huge mess? He’s asking me to do this in bed (I don’t have rubber sheets) or on a sofa… and it seems like it’s going to be a clean-up nightmare… spontaneity seems not to be our friend here…

3) Any insight into this mindset? Why does it turn on guys? If I give in to this, is he going to ask me to shit on him next, cause I swear I would draw the line at that.

Thanks for your advice.

Thank you so much for you email, I love getting questions like this!! It excites me that you want to know my thoughts on it.

Firstly, fetishes are not easy to explain… it’s a strange concept that someone would want someone else to piss on them, but to be honest… the idea turns me on, and I’m not the most outspoken person in bed! Many men and women have secret desires that they have been told are wrong. But nothing between a serious couple is dirty or wrong, unless it hurts, humiliates and disgusts. Simply, if you don’t want to do it, then don’t… You sound like a head strong type of person, so I guess that you are doing it because… well you only live once! Golden showers are very similar to being squirted on, I love be squirted on! I would spend ages fingering my girl, just for the moment when she would squirt and it would usually be on my face! There are even some people that believe that girls are squirting nothing but piss, so maybe I am the same as your new fella.

Let’s answer your questions,

1) I would prepare by drinking a bit of water before, but don’t bring yourself to bursting point, if you are going to do this, you might as well enjoy it. Get him to finger you, do what ever it takes to turn you on, make him bring you to the point of cumming and then let yourself and your bladder go… all over him. The key is to be ultra comfortable and relaxed.

2) I wouldn’t expect a girl to piss that much on a guy, but it will certainly make some sort of mess… You are being trying this out for him, so tell your guy that you want to do it in the bath… put a few towels down to make it comfortable. You don’t want to be worrying about the sofa or the bed… so either the bath… or why not go to a hotel and make him pay if there are any charges!

3) Like I said before, it’s pretty common for guys to like girls fluids all over them… I have no idea why, it just turns us on! There is a different between pissing on someone and shitting… Piss comes out of a the beautiful pussy!
In conclusion, if you are going to try it, then you are putting yourself out for him… so make sure you do it your way! You have to email us back and tell me what the outcome is!

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2 Comments

Topper Harley

10 Sep 2010 at 1:39 pm

Talk openly about your desires and ask about your partners fantasies. There are at least some you will share. And maybe your partner does something special to you if you do something for him, just try it out gently. He will be very grateful for every tiny step! Everything is allowed if it’s safe, sane and consensual, and no one gets hurt (at least if he/she doesn’t want to).