paulflexes saidNo, asking the hottie to meet you somewhere outside the gym shows maturity and restraint...and the ability to keep your gym membership.

Passing up the hottie means you're just a stupid prude who needs to get over his hangups about his sexuality.

But it's a gym! I mean, at a gay gym, sure, that's what everyone is there for and I bet most of the people head straight to the locker room. But to stare at guys in a sauna at a family-friendly establishment like a YMCA? Come on now.