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"So he surrounds himself with average looking women and keeps male friends that are..."

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Because he gets a girl who will stroke his ego and make him feel better than he really is. A true narcissist or ego-centric man is has a deep down fear of not being as good looking or as well liked and admire as he wants to believe. So he never wants to challenge that insecurity or face it, so he surrounds himself with average looking women and keeps male friends that are not as handsome as himself. This way he maintains his dominance (at least mentally) and doesn`t need to face his fear of not being as good as he believes.

divadare85 said: As a rule... a narcissist makes claim to the most beautiful,smart woman they can.... the devalueing starts roughly 6-8 months after the relationship has begun.. You've won. They will continue the controlling behavior until you come to your senses and leave.. Study characteristics of NPD/HPD/BPD.... They all intertwine. The difference between histrionic and narcissist.... NPD= need positive attention ALL the time.. HPD=Attention is negative and positive . BPD... Attention is positive and negaive. ALL require attention... cannot have ''real relationship'' with any. They all manipulate/fakes.... RUN FOR YOUR LIFE. Already has. No such thing as ''signs''.....sorry......Capricorn has NOTHING to do with it......................... What? please explain................. Jealousy is immature. Unfair.For lack of a better word..... stupid and confining.....not a ''guy'' thing..... most people get jealous.... instead of envy.... ck it out .. /-. Benifits are reduced according to how much you make in part time job.. What are your exemptions? 0=more $ out of your ck.. Depends on initial employment agreement. Usually .>40 is considered overtime. Not many employers abide by this. Especially your Father-In-Law !!! ( family bisinesss ). 26 weeks

Its not the case of being less attractive or very attractive. The point is he is with you and now after a while he is tires of the same old you so he finds another person and a different person to make things different and exciting. Its hard to explain here but think of yourself as a candle and your lit as soon as he enters your life. And later the candle is extinguished so he looks for another candle. So i hope i was clear enough and my advice is choose wisely and do not let your hot self get roasted by a useless oxygen cylinder.

"Generally men like the control of being able to treat an average looking woman poorly..."

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Now this is diversified question and it all depends upon the situation. Generally men like the control of being able to treat an average looking woman poorly. He like the way the power makes him feel. Not having an emotional connection with the woman and looking at her just as a physical object frees his self confidence and allows him to behave in the freewheeling, caveman ways that his primitive self so deeply desires. But there is something called as love which can change the nature and heart of a person.

"I dont hate pretty women..."

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I dont hate pretty women. I hate men that will treat me badly when a pretty woman is around, just because I dont fit his standard. I respect men that can hit on a pretty woman standing next to me, but still manage to respect me by including me in the conversation and not making me feel like crap. There is a difference between men that are not attracted to you, and men that feel that as someone ugly, you shouldn`t occupy space on this earth.

can i help said: If a person does the best or at least put some effort into how they look (believe it, this shows others how a person feels about themself and is not neccessarily a vanity thing), then a person shouldn't even let it bother them about how pretty someone else is. The beauty of another person maybe the only asset that person has. Others possess something different (maybe more meaningful) that they may not be aware of but others can definitely see. It's O.K. to admire the beauty of someone else, but don't be jealous, wish you were them or dislike them for it. Everyone has qualities about themselves (either known or unknown to themself). But if one doesn't take of themself (obese, unclean, tatooing, piercing, scaring, attitude[ bad, negative], etc.) then they have accept the response from others and deal with their own feelings of others.. I heard that the goat is very slow to open up his/her feelings. They need time to get to know somebody before they do. From what I understand that once they do, they are very loyal. Just what I heard.. Generally they are in a real deep thought so that even their mind doesn't know what their eyes see. The person doesn't even realize what they are looking at. They are concentrating completely on their thought (like an intense daydream).. Anyone can view your facebook page unidentified. It's FB's policy. They don't have a "viewed this many times" sort of thing. You can set your privacy settings so that viewers are limited to see certain information.

Taco said: It is wore when girls do that to guys. For the same reason that girls do. (All) guys (always) leave (you) for someone else because you cheated them, and then they (always) regret it because they were cheated even more.

I have not come across any guy cheating on a good looking woman with an ugly woman but do know the answer for this. The reason being that the beautiful woman does not give the man what he is asking for or there has been a big fight between the two. The mans friend is either offered allot of money to do this as in most cases or is blackmailed into doing this sin.

can i help said: I was told by a guy who does this. He doesn't have to go out of his way to impress her because she feels low about herself so it's an easy, sure thing. The girl who is (I don't like to say someone is ugly), will jump at this chance rather than be alone. His words are "fat, ugly girls need loving too". Also these girls will have sex anytime you want and more often. These are his thoughts, NOT MINE!

The only ugliness you see, is your own reflected back at you. I guess the only way a thwarted person with low self-esteem and confidence can feel empowered is to throw nasty comments about. Nothing like the illusion of control to make you feel better.

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