Psychology. Consultation with a psychologist. Socionics I have this situacija.Recently divorced her husband.He lived for 7 years with two children.It turned out that he had in the last two years was another woman who…

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In front of me — pretty woman 35-40 years. The young and pleasant, and my hands were shaking and confused speech. “All my life raised him (the son), protected and supported. And he’s lying, cheating, come the morning. She says she is going to College, and he skips. No idea — what to do?”

Horoscope of the boy immediately reveals his complex character. The sun in Aquarius (an individual) in connection with Mars (his will) says that he has a fighting character who is not willing to submit to any framework. The greater the pressure, the stronger the resistance. General Aquarius is a very freedom-loving sign, and if something is banned, he will make out of spite. With him will not pass bans or strict punishment. You must give him the initiative and try as little as possible to say “no”. He needs to give freedom within reason and never deny indiscriminately.

Strong mercury is in conjunction with Neptune spoke about passion for music, namely, this area has always been considered in the house “forbidden”. The boy needs to learn to earn to life, said the Pope, and sent his son to study to become an accountant. His son was terminally boring to watch these boring figures. He used to skip classes to work as a disc jockey in a nearby club. He in his childhood he studied music at mom’s insistence, but then his classes considered unnecessary. Continue reading →

For the first time faced with the lies of children, parents are asking a logical question: how do I teach my child to lie? Children lie makes us sincere bewilderment: after all, from an early age we teach our children that lying is bad! Why child began to lie? Do upbringing in vain? And most importantly – what to do now? Let’s see, what is a children’s lies: parent fiasco, bad peer influence, or simply a natural stage of growing up – and what should parents do in this situation.

Why do children lie?

First of all we should recall the definition of a lie is a deliberate distortion of the truth. A lie always conscious, so before you accuse the offspring of lying, you must be sure that he lied deliberately. The duty of parents is to distinguish when a child is lying, and when wrong. Lies are not necessarily lies in the words – silence may be no less false. To the question “who ate the candy?” — the kid answers: “did the cat” – or simply bashfully silent and looks away. Many parents believe that if the child did not utter a lie out loud, he wasn’t lying. This is not so. To can distort the truth in word and silence, and even action.

Wherever people are, around the world will be. The grass will grow and flowers, singing birds and walking other people. And care about this world from each person will help to maintain and improve it. And to start certainly best with their own actions.

When on the road lying garbage, it’s not nice to anyone. And if you just make a rule to throw out the trash only in the trash and not allow others to litter, then the world will be a little cleaner. Yes, sometimes you become the bad COP and make a point. After all, if everyone is silent, nothing will change.

Usually, it is in a big city most pronounced estrangement of people from each other — people do not even know their neighbors. But can live near people who really need your care — to help to bring a heavy bag, hold the Elevator door, to ask health, to listen to in difficult times.

Care and attention – that’s what people really important!

Care of parents

It so happens that we too love our children and, unfortunately, too little of their parents.

Coming into this world, first we see his mother. Some more luck, and they see and dad at birth. Further care of the child comes in the family Continue reading →

The Death of children. Transition, the last illness, death and after The death of children. The children know that they are dying. Episodes of release of the soul from the body. During the transition the children are not alone. Is…