Hi Yoyo members, This is my first time to be a host. Since I stand for open marriage last time, I would like to discuss about the opposite sex friendship and long-lasting relationship. I am looking forward to know your opinions.

1. Would you be uncomfortable if your spouse/boyfriend/girlfriend hanging out with the opposite sex on their own?2. Are Opposite Sex Best Friends Acceptable In a Relationship? 3. What kind of behaviors should be forbid with opposite sex friendship?4. Can you really be best friends with someone of the opposite sex without ulterior motives?

Session II

5. What do you think the difference between like and love someone?6. Do you think love is more like a feeling or a choice?7. The seven-year itch is a psychological term that suggests that happiness in a relationship declines after around year seven of a marriage. In your opinion, what is the secret of those happy couples who survive from divorce?8. Some people treat their ex-lover as reliable friend. Moreover, some even could be friend with their ex-lover’s new companion. Would you be friend with them? Why and why not?

3. What kind of behaviors should be forbid with opposite sex friendship?

I also wonder how I should treat my female friends. Theoretically, I should treat them as my male friends, right? But it's very dangerous if I really do so. Too much body contact, sex-related language, checking on porn websites, etc. are all on the forbidden list. Simply speaking, a guy shouldn't be a "guy" if he is with a female friend.

A question for our female: How would you feel if a male friend is treating you like a "guy"? Would you be happy that he is honestly real to you, or would you feel unhappy and offended?

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