I am a great believer in leading at eye level, human management, and inspiring values. Unfortunately, I can’t always say that these type of leaders who head successful aliances, and in general, human management is indeed a guarantee of success. But ... I will continue and believe the empowering leadership and inspiring people, as the value ... after all.In this context, listen to this little personal experience:

One day I come across a old name in my skype .it was of a old men I met him briefly many areas ago, starting out as a noob in BD, and I never saw him after that erea. I got his SKYPE address and I sent him the following message:

Hello Ron (pseudonym),

I take you many areas back. I guess you do not remember the round, but I remember it every day..I was a fresh noob in that game, like many other noobs, I tried to find me a top 10 aliance.You was a leader of aliance rank 16, after I talk to your deputy, thankfully I got the part. The final interview was with you. Workload, so I assumed, invited me for an interview in your skype. I appreciated it very much.

I started playing under your commend, but very quickly, too quickly for my taste at that time and today, I realized that bacteria adventures continued to nest in me, germinate, and did not gave me peace. I was sorry to lose the challenging new alliance, the family atmosphere that I felt that was there, and I gave my word ... and on the other hand ... I was young noob and so want to meet and learn about the game and to know myself more and get a better rank alliance. I also knew that you invested so much in search of candidates and give me a chance ... so what do I do?

I struggled hard with myself for about two weeks, so I decided to consult and to share these dilemmas. I did not choose one of my close friends ... I chose to consult you. Again I shared with you in your skype and questioning, all aspects, although there was a deep familiarity between us. I remember the atmosphere like it is now. Your listening, understanding and especially the smiles. And you said at the end of the conversation: "Listen young lady, I understand you. You go after your heart. I have no anger, we will mange in the alliance, just have fun and succeed."

That's what you told me. You wished me luck and bid me to follow my heart. And I only played one month in your alliance and I left you.Certainly not a simple problem.

It's who you were.No seemingly no moral parable, there is no punch line, but the memory of the event and your attitude, that’s the punch line. To this day the eyes of a good leader, he is endowed with the ability to listen, diagnosis and consideration. Thanks for the lesson the trainer used me up to this days.

Sincerely, CHOKA LOCA

This is what I wrote to him.Day passed and I get replay in my skype:

Hello Dear CHOKA,Im in old age, and I am already deep in my eighties, I fell in love in the BD game because its returned the taste of life to me, I feel alive here, my buddy not working anymore but this game take me to a fantasy that I can feel young and contribute again . I often wonder whether I was a good person , or who I purchased the lot below, down or up life. I do not have, unfortunately, fantastic video which I can examine how I acted as leader . And here is in this message you send me ,allowed me a rare glimpse into a time machine and let me look at myself as a person and as then.What a marvelous opportunity given me and thanks for the kind and flattering message.Regards, Ron

A few months later , I get a message Sign under from someone called Isabel:

Dear choka,We do not know, my name is Isabel and I am the daughter of Ron. My father showed us the message from you. You return the luster to his eyes recently. My father died ten days ago and a smile on his face. The brief exchange of messages between you placed on our table in the living room for all the days of mourning, and it moved hundreds of hands and eyes that read, and I hope that implemented. I know he left a mark on You.You Return to him in the same coin.

ThanksIsabel

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