6. Compliment the color and size distribution in the placement of ornaments she hung, and arrangement of presents underneath the tree.

7. A small assortment of chocolate bars and/or wine, chosen for their packaging, will never go amiss.

You could do most beautiful packaging or most minimalist, a specific color scheme, or the ones with the most clever logos. So many possibilities! Though of course make sure they are flavors/varieties she’d actually enjoy, too.

8. Book an outing to an art museum, design event, or creative workshop- for your both.

It’s a rare designer who doesn’t also love art and getting crafty, and this would be a great date.

9. Don’t grumble that she picked out your outfit for the family photo in front of the tree.

Just smile and do as she asks. You know it’ll be a good photo.

10. Get creative with your food plating for gatherings.

Whether you get put in charge of the Christmas cookie plate, or a tray of meats and cheeses, don’t just throw it on there. Lay it out carefully- alternating patterns, and holiday shapes are all fair game.

What do you think? Did I miss any funny-but-actually-yes-do-that ideas?

The above list is in no way a reflection on my husband, who does indeed compliment my ornament arrangements and indulges my wrapping paper color schemes.

From freelance designer to studio owner, I've been a self-employed, independent graphic designer for over a decade. I love helping people find the right visual voice for their businesses and projects. Let's talk!