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Below you see three cards turned face down. You can turn them over by clicking on them. They have been randomly shuffled into the three spots below from a full deck of 64 Relationship Cards. You can restart at any time and shuffle in three new cards.

Here is how to use this method:

Formulate a question for the cards. Read about good questions below.

Click each face down card below to turn it over and see it's image.

Click each card image to see a full size picture and read its advice.

How to ask a good question:

Don't ask questions with "Yes-No" answers.

Make you the focus of the question, not someone else.

Ask about what you can learn or recognize at this time.

Wait for a question that takes you in a positive direction.

Examples of good questions:

"What is this situation trying to teach me?" "What would bring
greater joy to my relationship?" "What part am I playing in this
challenge?" "What quality would prepare me for the love of my
life?" "What can I notice in order to move forward?" "What
do I need to know to attract my soulmate?" "What can I do to
resolve what upsets me?" "What factors are involved in this
situation?" "What would support me in being more loving?" "What do I need to be aware of when we next talk?" "What could
help me handle this situation better?" "What should I consider
before making up my mind?"

If you find these online cards useful, there's more! You get 3 cards above. Instead, you could play with the full deck of 64 in
printed form, or a powerful enhanced version of the online
cards:

Use the Enhanced Version Online

Access a powerfully expanded version of the online deck that's like getting live coaching. Choose from the full deck of 64 cards, a variety of layouts, and additional ways to pick your cards. Get practical help to apply new insights to your life. See the details →

Get the Deluxe Printed Edition

The full set of 64 cards plus a companion book. Shuffle and pick from the physical deck of cards and read from the printed book. Get more engaged with a partner or get a deeper experience when using the deck yourself. It also makes a great gift. See the details →