DATING A HUSBAND: A WOMAN’S PERSPECTIVE

When is dating more of a struggle than something that is fun and spontaneous? Remember when you had that first date? How you changed your dress so many times, how you put on that make- up so carefully and how your friends were there to support you? Remember those butterflies in your stomach trying to make a good impression? What happened? Is dating just for the young that you no longer care? Is it more of a hassle than something you have to look forward to?

In the early years of any relationship, dating is so much a part of it but does that mean you have to stop dating later on? Dating is not only a time for you to have fun but more of time to share the same experience, time to bond and time that must be so special that it becomes a memory you always want to go back to.

It is only understandable that when you are busy with work, trying to make ends meet for your family that dating becomes a lesser priority. But if you want to just relax and chill with your friends, it is only more of an advantage if you date your spouse since he is the one you have to be with when you do go home. If you take time to network with acquaintances, the same thoughtfulness should be given to dating your special one.

A lot of advantages you can get from dating your spouse: 1. You will not go home with an angry spouse waiting… so you can enjoy the date without the stress of a curfew. 2. You think you know the man already but to share different experiences together will enable you to learn new stuff about each other. 3. Sharing a special time alone will make you closer than the fear of a third party will almost be non-existent.

If you think you never considered this important, then it’s not too late for you to exert more effort. Now, enjoy dating your husband.