unprotected sex.

im stressing that i came in a condom first. then we went for a second round. my friend told me that sperm can be stuck on my penis and might of gotten her pregnant. what is the posibility that this might happen?

im stressing that i came in a condom first. then we went for a second round. my friend told me that sperm can be stuck on my penis and might of gotten her pregnant. what is the posibility that this might happen?

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general best rule of thumb I know of.

Unless you're absolutely sure you want to have a child with the woman, or that she is the woman you are going to be with for good, use protection every time. Even if she's on BC, use protection. Why not make sex as safe as possible?

Unless you're absolutely sure you want to have a child with the woman, or that she is the woman you are going to be with for good, use protection every time. Even if she's on BC, use protection. Why not make sex as safe as possible?

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If she's on birth control and you do not use a condom the risk of her getting pregnant is smaller than the risk of her getting pregnant if she's not on birth control and you do use a condom.

If she is careful to take her birth control properly, therefore, and if she has been tested for STD's, it is irrational to fear unprotected sex with her. The physical barrier makes us feel safer for psychological reasons only.

If she's on birth control and you do not use a condom the risk of her getting pregnant is smaller than the risk of her getting pregnant if she's not on birth control and you do use a condom.

If she is careful to take her birth control properly, therefore, and if she has been tested for STD's, it is irrational to fear unprotected sex with her. The physical barrier makes us feel safer for psychological reasons only.

If she's on birth control and you do not use a condom the risk of her getting pregnant is smaller than the risk of her getting pregnant if she's not on birth control and you do use a condom.

If she is careful to take her birth control properly, therefore, and if she has been tested for STD's, it is irrational to fear unprotected sex with her. The physical barrier makes us feel safer for psychological reasons only.

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True. I'm also figuring in STDs and all that..I'm too used to seeing guys on here here aren't in the serious relationships, and thus are having multiple partners.

I am truly convinced that women who do not want to become pregnant are more fertile than women who want to become pregnant

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I read somewhere that women Who Stress themselves while trying to conceive tend to have more problems with it.. Somethign ot do with hormones and the body no accepting fertilized ovum into the uterine lining. Kind of a materal defense mechanism to keep HER safe from the tax of having to carry a child...

thus I'll keep taking my pills and pray that Tigre is as sterile as we think he is.

Why leave that 1% to chance when you can use BC and a condom and never introduce semen to an uncertain environment to begin with?

That said, I'm on BC and don't use condoms since I'm prepared to get pushed down the stairs if i get preggers.

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I understand, but (again STD's aside) if you WILL have sex with a condom and without b.c. then it is irrational to prefer that over, or even equate that with, using bc without a condom. The latter being actually safer, the former feeling psychologically safer.