Something died the day that I was raped , I used to have hate and anger that kept me alive. I reacently think I have found my rapest in the US Social Security death index. Now I cant have the fantisy of killing him slowley. May the bastard burn in hell It seens that my nightmares are more vivid and more freaquent. I just want to close my self away from the world . Every time that I go somewhere that it is crowded I get the feeling that I just have to get the hell out because I start haveing headaches and feel traped . How can ever learn to trust people again. My life is just going to shit . I wish that I could just close Pandoras box . before all of the memorys returned I had something that resimbled a life . But this is not a life . I feel like my soul has died but the body doesnt know to stop. The index is a good place to look if you thinh that they may be dead. all that you need is a name and where you think that they lived

I hate to admit this, but as many times as i might have an awareness that it's not worth giving in to the negative, sometimes i feel the same way- that it is simply brute survival instinct that keeps me from checking out. I know that these feelings aren't any more rational than wearing rose-colored glasses, but trying to stay in a reasonable middle ground seems awfully difficult, when my perspective (as well as others around me) seems so shift with whatever tide happens along. Sometimes i hate myself for making an effort, sometimes i hate myself for trying rather than succeeding... but the urge to give up hasn't yet won out over the urge to stick around to see might happen tomorrow, although it comes pretty damn close. Sorry for ranting, it's been a weird time for me lately.

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Give sorrow words: the grief that does not speakWhispers the o'er-fraught heart and bids it break.

We have struggled with the outside world (society) becauseit always tried to make us feel like not victims and, more, potential perpetrators. We did not like those ideas and we have tried to distance ourselves. Well, I am talking about my pereption, of course.

I guess this ind of struggle and hatred would go on until a survivor lands to a community like ours.

I think so.

Alexey

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