Love & Relationships, Lifestyle, Poetry

Which Lady Would You Choose

She’s nice, very caring, sexy, pays attention to your feelings, always there to answer your calls, picks and returns your calls without hesitation, she’s a good girl and can’t hide her feelings towards you, you were off the phone for 1 week and you got enough messages and missed calls from her and she always says she cares about you.

Second lady

Also nice, doesn’t really pay attention to your feelings, very attractive, sexy, loves to hang out more with her friends, independent, flirtatious lady, you were off the phone for 1 week and she never attempted calling but she always says she cares about you.

Which lady would you choose to keep dating and consider spending your life with.

Hmmmm, there are traits in both that are appealing. I’m all for a woman who shows how she feels, but doesn’t feel compelled to remind me of it all of the time. I also like someone who has their own life and doesn’t live vicariously through me. It applies great pressure when someone essentially makes me their hobby. That’s when love becomes possession/obsession…

I’ve been with people… well, a person, who basically wasn’t really interested in anything and essentially made looking after me her hobby. Everything she did was essentially with me in mind and I found it really disturbing. Even after she got a job she would still make me the subject of everything she did. It felt like she was just obsessed rather than any actual love. I get some women like to take care of their man, but there’s a difference between taking care and coming across a bit… I don’t know… psycho, I suppose.

You’re welcome 🙂 I’m sure it can work the other way around too. I know blokes are guilty of getting obsessed. I’ve done it once or twice. Though, admittedly, I’ve never made a girlfriend my hobby. Haha.

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