5 Steps To Great Sex Without Intercourse

Like other parts of our daily lives, sex is at risk of becoming routine. We tend to become so focused on the ins and outs of basic satisfaction that we forget how to enjoy the variety of pleasures it offers.

To break this cycle, you need to think of all your body has to offer, and a great way to do that is by pleasuring your woman without the intention of intercourse.

That said, here are five steps you can take in order to start focusing on each other's entire bodies.

Step 1: Be selfless For the time being, your pleasure will come solely from giving her pleasure. Don't worry about it being no fun for you, since you're both going to get equally worked up by the end of it. For starters, the more you turn her on, the better she's going to feel, and the more eager she'll be to return the favor.

But more importantly, use this opportunity to think about the importance of your own gradual arousal to great sex. Anyone can get off quickly, but the sex you'll remember for a long time is the kind where your arousal builds. You can only get turned on like that by enjoying your woman's body in a variety of ways.

Step 2: Use your resources The rule of the game is no intercourse, but that also means that you should spend a minimum amount of time focusing on her genitals (until you're ready to make her climax). The longer you hold out, the more excited she'll get, and the more fun you'll both have.

Consider what you can use: your hands, your mouth, your fingernails, the stubble of your beard, and your skin. Each can serve a different purpose. You can kiss, lick, caress, tickle, and scratch her, inspiring a different reaction each time.

Alternate these resources to get the best response: kiss and caress her at the same time, or kiss one part of her body while tickling or scratching another.

Don't forget that there are always other useful tools like ice cubes and feathers, and anything else you can think of using.

Don't leave out any part of her body — except her vagina and breasts...