i have a question .. i need an opinion!!!!

Okay so im 4 months prego. I have a boyfriend and we split up at one point. I slept with another friend of mine at the time of split up and a few days later we got back togather and had sex as usual again. We were trying to conceive so we used no protection as usual. I had sex with the friend 2 times about a week apart and he used a condom both times. Now im fearing the fact that im prego. I kno he wore a condom both times and my boyfriend never did. Could this other man have gotten me prego or do u think it was my boyfriend speaking as a condom was worn with the other man?

Okay so im 4 months prego. I have a boyfriend and we split up at one point. I slept with another friend of mine at the time of split up and a few days later we got back togather and had sex as usual again. We were trying to conceive so we used no protection as usual. I had sex with the friend 2 times about a week apart and he used a condom both times. Now im fearing the fact that im prego. I kno he wore a condom both times and my boyfriend never did. Could this other man have gotten me prego or do u think it was my boyfriend speaking as a condom was worn with the other man?

Well he disnt come the first time because we were rushed but im not sure about the second. He said he had a vasectomy an cant have anymore kids. My boyfriends spanish and my friends black so i just disnt want any suprises when the babys born .. I was just looking for advise or opinions. I just tell myself that many time my boyfriend has came in me and then its impossible to have sex with someone with a condom an they come MABYE one time and if he didnt come then pre come with a condom on is even more impossible when my bf was coming inside of me !!! Right ? What are the odds?

Well he disnt come the first time because we were rushed but im not sure about the second. He said he had a vasectomy an cant have anymore kids. My boyfriends spanish and my friends black so i just disnt want any suprises when the babys born .. I was just looking for advise or opinions. I just tell myself that many time my boyfriend has came in me and then its impossible to have sex with someone with a condom an they come MABYE one time and if he didnt come then pre come with a condom on is even more impossible when my bf was coming inside of me !!! Right ? What are the odds?

I would say the odds are very much in your boyfriend's favour if the other guy has had a vasectomy AND was wearing a condom. The failure rate for that would have to be less than 1%, you would have to be ridiculously unlucky.

I would say the odds are very much in your boyfriend's favour if the other guy has had a vasectomy AND was wearing a condom. The failure rate for that would have to be less than 1%, you would have to be ridiculously unlucky.

Yea but who knows if he really had a vasectomy? I mean i just dont see how it would be the friends baby because the 1st time he wore a condom and didnt cum and the second time he wore one too but were were rushed both times so im for sure he didnt come the first but not sure if he came the 2nd. My boyfriend nd i were ttc and were going thru it and had sex mabye once or twice around the same time. But its always in the back of my head so idk .. I jus want some reassurment i guess..

Yea but who knows if he really had a vasectomy? I mean i just dont see how it would be the friends baby because the 1st time he wore a condom and didnt cum and the second time he wore one too but were were rushed both times so im for sure he didnt come the first but not sure if he came the 2nd. My boyfriend nd i were ttc and were going thru it and had sex mabye once or twice around the same time. But its always in the back of my head so idk .. I jus want some reassurment i guess..

Well, did your friend use a condom at all times during genital-genital contact? Did the condom ever break, or was it always intact? If he used it properly, an it never broke, the chances of him getting you pregnant (vasectomy or not) are pretty damn slim. As a PP mentioned, it is incredibly important to know your cycle, especially when trying to conceive. In the future I would keep records, if I were you.

Well, did your friend use a condom at all times during genital-genital contact? Did the condom ever break, or was it always intact? If he used it properly, an it never broke, the chances of him getting you pregnant (vasectomy or not) are pretty damn slim. As a PP mentioned, it is incredibly important to know your cycle, especially when trying to conceive. In the future I would keep records, if I were you.

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