Notice: Due to the recent passing of FOSTA by US congress, we have decided to close down XoticSpot on June 1st 2018. To learn more about the reasons behind this decision, click here. We would like to personally thank all past and present XoticSpot members who have signed up with us over these past nine years. You gals and guys are awesome and we will miss each and every one of you!

Always in the moment....never in the past...and Maybe then there I will be.....?

I am a drifter, and as lonely as that can be, it is also remarkably freeing. I will never define myself in terms of anyone else. I will never feel the pressure of peers or the burden of parental expectation. I can view everyone as pieces of a whole, and focus on the whole, not the pieces. I have learned to observe, far better than most people observe. I am not blinded by the past or motivated by the future. I focus on the present because that is where I am destined to live.”