I – Invitations

Invitations are one of the first things you’ll need to think about when planning your wedding. Typically, the invites and RSVPs are sent out anywhere from six to three months before the wedding date. Save the dates should be sent out first at approximately eight months before the wedding.

The stationery you choose for your special day should reflect the style of wedding you want to have. If you’re planning a fun, outdoor summer party, then go with something upbeat and bright, but if it’s a formal affair you’re after, consider something more traditional like our Fleur De Lis stationery collection (above).

Tip: I’ve spoken to many brides who have admitted their memory of their wedding day is a bit of a blur. It will go by fast, so be prepared.

L – Love

Don’t forget the whole reason you’re doing this: L-O-V-E.

Again, many brides have admitted to me that they regret not spending more quality time with their groom on their wedding day.

Tip: Following the ceremony, spend 15 or 20 minutes away from all the hustle and bustle, just the two of you.

M – Menu

Ah yes, the food. Appetizers at the cocktail hour, the main courses, dessert and a snack at at midnight are all important choices you’ll need to make to keep your guests happy.

Matching the food to the theme of the wedding is always a great — and easy — way to choose your menu. Go with foods and ingredients you enjoy most and don’t stray too far out of the box. Keep it simple and light.

Tip: Consider finger-licking barbecue for a rustic, outdoor event, and a sit-down, four course meal for something a little more formal. And always, always include vegetarian options!

N – Napkins

Granted, napkins aren’t necessarily the most important aspect of the place settings, but pretty, personalized napkins that match your theme and color scheme are a really nice, inexpensive touch your guests are sure to notice.

For more info on napkins and napkin folding, check out Wedding Napkins and…Superman?. It’s a blog all about napkins and the art of napkin folding.

O – Outside, or In

Deciding whether to have your ceremony and reception inside or out is sometimes a difficult decision to make. Of course, if you’re planning a winter wedding, the choice is obvious, but it’s those other three seasons that create a bit of a grey area.

If your heart is set on an outdoor wedding, consider both the inside and outside spaces when looking at possible venues. Make sure you’re happy with both possibilities before saying ‘yes’ to the venue. You don’t want any surprises if rain threatens to ruin your springtime nuptials.

Tip: Keep in mind that most places get chilly at night. So unless you’re planning your wedding in the heart of the summer — late July to the end of August — then it’s probably best to keep the reception part of it indoors.