Saturday, May 8, 2010

2. Though I identify as heterosexual, I often find women equally as sexually appealing as men. Women have soft, gentle curves and are sensual. Yet men are strong and lean sexy machines.

3. I would like to start dating women as well, just to fulfill my sexual fantasies and desires. Besides, I am pretty fed up with men at the moment.

4, I lost my virginity when I was 20, to my first boyfriend. It wasn't awfully romantic but it was a nice and comfortable experience.

5. I prefer giving partners. My first was a very selfish lover, and just wanted to get in and get out. My second, most recent, was incredibly giving and surprising in the sack.

6. My most recent boyfriend was a quieter guy, and it took us a long time to sleep together. But wow, totally worth the wait. Man, I just miss our awesome sex.

7. I have only slept with two men, both of who I was seriously involved with. I have never slept with anyone I was casually dating and/or just met.

8. I was completely terrified of sexuality in high school. I was just immature and not ready. I am glad I didn't given to the pressures of sex in high school and waited until it was the right time, with the right person.

9. I love sex but I think sex can only be meaningful if it is shared with someone who means something to you.

10. However, that being said, I am not opposed to the experience of a one-night stand. Up until recently, I was completely against the idea. But it could be a liberating, exciting, and adrenaline-filled experience. To have sex with no emotion attached could be special within itself. So i guess that contradicts what I just said.

11. Since I don't sleep around, I instead choose to kiss around. I love love love kissing. I think it's such a simple act, yet soooo satisfying. I would call myself a seasoned kisser. I have made out with probably around 30+ people. I've cut back since graduating college, a ton.

12. Some men think with their penis too much, and others not enough. At least from my experience.

13. I have a secret thing for black men. I am a little white girl but nothing quite turns me on like a strong sexy black man.

14. I first discovered the joys of masturbation by accident. I was 12 or so and swimming in the local pool. I was straddling a noodle pool toy and noticed how stimulating the rub of the noodle felt as I rubbed back and forth on it. I have been masturbating ever since. When I was younger, I was ashamed and embarrassed of it. Not anymore--I think it's great and healthy!

15. My first kiss was when I was 16. It was my aunt's neighbor's son; he was 16 too. It was unfortunately a terrible kiss. It was wet, forced, and quite unlike what I had imagined. And when he tried feeling me up, I slapped his hand away and gave him a lecture on respecting women. Haha! I don't do that anymore.

16. I need foreplay in order to really enjoy and get off during sex. Sometimes I feel like the guy just wants to go for it. Maybe that just means I should just be more vocal.

17. Spanking is tons of fun. I don't get why some people think it's weird. Plus, I love a nice butt. Nothing like a toned ass.

18. If I were to say what type of girl I am into, I would say androgynous skinny or athletic girls.There is one I see at the coffee shop, and I swear (maybe I am just conceited or wishful) that she is checking me out. Maybe I'll talk to her one of these days.

19. When I was 6 or so, my friend had me dress up in a thong type underwear and we played "husband and wife," I was the husband, I think, and she was the wife. Though my memory is foggy on the details, I am fairly certain she fondled me. I know I felt incredibly violated and uncomfortable after that. I wonder if that has shaped my sexuality in any way since. I don't think I have ever told anyone about that.

20. I am really learning to love my body. All the curves I'd never really payed attention to, the strength of it. I think it's important to have confidence in yourself, and believe you are sexy before someone else really can.

21. I have never had adventurous lovers. The shower is the most exciting place I have had sex. I'd really like to get a bit friskier and do it outside, or a quickie on a lunch break. I think it would be exhilarating!

22. Talking about sex with my girlfriends will always be fun! And I think you can learn so much from sharing!

23. I love oral sex. Both giving and receiving. I have had some wonderful orgasms during oral sex. I don't know if I am very good at giving head, but I am enthusiastic about it and always trying to improve. And it just feels so good to pleasure someone you care about in such an intense way.

24. I have made out drunkenly with a number of girls. All of them friends, and I wasn't turned on at all. Kind of makes me sad, to be honest. They are really beautiful and sexy women!

25. Well, now I am horny and would really like to get laid. By someone cute. Maybe a black guy or a butch girl.