Virgo Woman and Sagittarius Man Compatibility

Chemistry aside, this is the relationship between two intellectuals. They’re smart, interested, interesting, open minded, discerning and eager to share their thoughts on everything from the difference between Thai and Korean cuisine to the latest winner at the Cannes Film Festival. They love people – keep it casual, please – and may enjoy a wide circle of good mutual friends that lasts a lifetime. These are two people who could very easily live alone – they are likely to be whole people, interesting even to themselves and never “lonely”. They choose to team up because they love to share the good things in life. Each Is likely to pursue his or her own career and interests as well things they share in common.

How to Attract a Sagittarius Man as a Virgo Woman: Dress like Katherine Hepburn. Talk like Ellen Barkin. Age attractively like Sophia Loren. Put your neatnick perfectionism on a leash. Give him the same amount of alone time you want and expect for yourself. Let him run with his buddies. That gives you time to keep up with all your girlfriends. Make his friends feel welcome in your home. Give him his televised sports events in exchange for a more cultural evening out. Be nice to dogs and other big animals when you’re around him.

How to Attract a Virgo Woman as a Sagittarius Man: When you see that nice, neat, “together”, intelligent looking woman sitting over there by herself reading a book, get curious. You know you’d love to have someone to talk to about more than “How was the traffic?” Most people bore you to tears – take a chance! She won’t. I know it‘s asking a lot for you to plan three days ahead for anything but ask her out by at least Wednesday for a PLANNED evening on Saturday. At a loss where to take her? Ask her where she’d like to go. And don’t switch it at the last minute. Really. It drives everyone crazy when you do that. If she offers to take over some of the planning such as making the reservation, don’t fall for it. That all comes later … in spades/

Degree of Romance: You are more likely to be buddies than romantic partners. Somehow it just gets ridiculous when you try to do that flowers and candy thing with the goo-goo eyes and clever lines. Rely instead on your (mutual) good natures and intentions. They’re worth more than all the and puffs and frills of romance. Two very fine people have met and can create something healthy and vibrant together.

Degree of Passion: Their passion will be for their many and varied interests such as reading, sports, healthy lifestyle, world cuisine and music, foreign films and entertaining friends. These two are never bored and never run out of things to do.

Degree of Friendship: They can be great friends who have a lot in common. Having good conversations is especially important to both. They know how to weave the thread of words into a tapestry of meaning bringing endless hours of priceless pleasure.

Degree of Marriage: They make a great couple, contributing as they do positively to the lives of all around them. They may not have kids of their own but instead be everybody’s favorite aunt and uncle. Relatives feature high on their list and they are likely to each come from a big family with many fine people who are friends as well as relatives.

Progression of Relationship: The relationship develops at a pleasantly busy pace. It may take them each time to fit the other one squarely into their busy schedule. Meeting each other’s friends and relatives is a special landmark – they seem to have so many! Their dating will likely be circular rather than linear as they are both tuned to subtleties and flow.

Sex: This is the best kind of sex, open and honest. Neither person wants complicating factors such as special tools, risky places, third parties, psychological games or power trips. The idea is to relax, explore and enjoy.

When It’s Over: If it ends (which it shouldn’t), It will probably be because one of them formed a genuine emotional connection with someone else, someone new, and the other one actually begins to understand. Their parting of ways is humane, like everything else they do.

I am a Vir and my Hus a Sag … EXPLOSIVE … all they say about our relationship is true. What us Vir’s have to do, is explain, how important our relationship is to us and how we love them. In addition, we must make Sag understand, that they are not in this relationship alone, they must be kind an dmind full of us Vir … We must instill in them, that in order to really love us, Sag, must understand and know us … We R hang’n N there!

im a virgo girl with a male sag and uffff these dudes are so nuts they give more time to their friends than us which is a big mistake since me as a virgo like to be loved and accompany by my love ones. and yes very explosive, stubborn, and wont take advice from me only others that kills me…. and sex is the bomb!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Hi, i posted some comments to you, last week and I do not see them posted here nor have I received any indication of an email from you with regards to them. May I ask, have I offended you somehow? I was only asking you questions about being a Virgo and liking a Sag as well as bring up a “correction” I’d indicated regarding Abe Lincoln being an Aquarius (Feb 12th, like my 19 yr old son who shares the same birthday) and not a “Pisces” as I saw you had posted. If you could please reply, I would appreciate it.
Thank you,
Virgo

I am virgo woman and guy is sagittarius. I have been dating him two months an he is no flavour iv had before he is alot like above. I hope virgo woman and sag guys are good matches cause i love this guy so much within two months that iv ever loved anyone before.

thats rite, its really starting from chemistry! im virgo and dating my sag man since 3 months ago. in relationship for sure but not really as bf and gf!, thats okey, because we’re separated and trying to make it all with slowly! i just hope, we’ll get our great chemistry result! because eyes talk, we like each other and still explore each other

Hello, will a Virgo woman with Moon in Leo, Venus and Mercury in Libra plus Jupiter in Sagittarius (the home planet of Jupiter) and Ascendant/Rising in Gemini, get on well with a Sagittarius male? Please note, he will not reveal his birthday, as I’ve asked, so I’ve no clue as to how the planets affect his own overall personality, but one can see he is very business oriented (a workaholic) has a sense of humor about things and is generally very positive in general, yet he doesn’t hold back expressing his strong opinion (whether agreeable or not), on any matter. I get the feeling that he TRIES to be tactful, yet one still feels the strong impact of his comments, although he means no harm intended.)
Thank you.

Hi, your article sounds great, thank you. It gets tiresome reading about the incompatibility of Virg and Sag when I feel the most Compatible with a Sag male (than any other sign I have dated). Perhaps coz I am a Virg Sun with Sag Moon? – His Sag Sun and Leo Moon. My Venus is Leo, his Mars is Leo, His Venus is Scorp and my Mars is Scorp. So I totally feel that attraction you mentioned.

I agree. I have heard so much negativity regarding the connection between Sags and Virgos so it’s refreshing to hear such a positive article. Especially since I am about to be married to a Sag that I absolutely adore and am so blessed to have in my life. But even still I’ve learned not to take these sorts of things so literally, because if you are happy, signs aside, that is all that matters.

Its amazin to finally read positive thoughts about two amazin signs..for some strange reasons that’s my attraction I was married to weaker sag to end up wit an amazin second half wit so much leadership.some r for friends first then others r for work and buildin fam…thanx for the positive energy

I love it!!! I always read that a Sag was the best fit for a Virgo. Everything I read about them makes me naturally want to know some but I dont. I am in a relationship with my 2nd best match, Taurus, but today I met a Sag on the train (which led me to this site today) and it was an awesome Chemistry. After 14 years with my taurus and being completely in love with him, I cant believe, not only did I allow myself to carry a convo with this man, I was actually interested in every word and hoped to see him again. He was just completely breathtaking…If I wasnt involved, I would have definitely persued the possibilities!! **Still smiling**

Ye all of the above virgo girls say what my virgo girl says to me..
Dont try to fix us…big mistake, don’t keep telling him the relationship is really important and you want to know where it’s going… you’ll just presure him too much, he’ll show you love, he won’t do it openly, but you’ll definatelly feel it…

well i am a virgo i married my best friend who happened to be a sagi we vre together for past 11 years and now married for past three years with three months old son no doubt that we both require our space and freedom which we do my man is adventures and he loves his tv so give them what they want space, respect and love

I am a Virgo and met an amazing Sag at a party and it was instantaneous attraction. Then over the evening I got to really have some interesting conversations with him and kissed him. I thought he was very sexy. When I left the party we exchanged numbers and agreed to meet for breakfast the next morning. After that it’s been crazy I can’t believe I want to hang out with him all the time. He is so very attentive and makes me feel like the most desired woman ever. He makes it very clear he really likes me and wants to hang out with me. We have similar outlooks on life and I feel like he is too good to be true. Oh yeah and the sex is amazing that part is 100% true! Wonderful compatible match so far…

I wwas marreid to a sag for over 5 yers. The only reason our relationship worked out was because he was gone all the time (U.S. Marine). When he was home he watched t.v. or was gone with his friends. He didn’t ever want to talk to me. After sex, he would watch t.v. in the living room. He was always right. He never took my advice and only apologized for being wrong after his friend told him he was wrong. He ended up cheating on me. His new wife is an Aries and she has th esame probs with him. She is seeing a psychologist to work out her frustrations about him.

My Boyfriend And I Have Been Dating For 8 Months On The 26th And We’ve Had Our Ups And Downs But In The End We Know That We’re Meant For Each Other. The Want Of The Virgo To Explore Other Options, That Has Crossed My Mind But Then I Realize That Losing Him Isnt An Option. So I Dnt Believe Signs Have Too Much To Do With It. Its Just How Willing You Are To Make It Work..

I am interested in a Sag that can’t seem to commit to even a first date, but we have so much in common I can’t just let it go. I don’t know what to do to keep him in my life / get him more involved with me on his own.

I am a Virgo and met my sag in 2007. We committed to our monotonous relationship in 2008 and I must say it’s never a dull moment. Whether we’re laughing, loving, or crying (me), I can say he is the best thing I’ve ever had in my life. We’ve broken up a few times and find ourselves back with one another. The magnetism is so strong. And sex is OMG!!! He has confessed a devote love for me and I’ve learned to do the same. I will say thought, he is every bit of a sag man – spends a lot of time with friends, careless, spontaneous, loves sports, wont’ listen to my advice. This year I’ve vowed to learn to live with his quirks, because I am a fussy, nitpicking Virgo and he does the same for me (although really believe he just tunes me out when I’m *blankedly blank blank* PLUS I LOVE HIM!

I’ve been married to a Sag for four years but we were together for years before that because I was still unsure. I don’t know if we’ll stay together for a lot of reasons but mainly because he’s not emotionally open or nurturing at all. He only gets that way for a short period of time when he’s worried about losing me. He’s completely oblivious to my feelings and as a Virgo, I’m very passionate and emotional at times but I’ve learned this doesn’t help things with him at all. He likes a routine, bases much of his self-confidence on how much he can support me financially not in any other way and he’s completely irresponsible when it comes to being on time, answering phone calls, or paying bills. I’ve cut him a tremendous amount of slack and I know he’s not cheating on me but he hasn’t had a very high libido for years. Sex doesn’t even seem to matter to him until I mention how much I need that intimacy and that it might mean I could even have to venture outside of our relationship to get it. I don’t give ultimatums or try to make him jealous because this simply doesn’t work.

I would simply say Sags and Virgos can work but a Virgo female must have extreme patience and I mean extreme… They also need to know that not all Sags are passionate creatures. Many of them would rather spend time alone and are oblivious to the emotions of people around them or simply choose to ignore them. Virgos must work hard and expect to not always and sometimes never get back what you put into a relationship with Sag.

Janet, I also think though, our society has molded men to not be in tune with their feelings and emotions to effectively communicate. I commented on the Libra woman/Sagittarius man and think that Rising & Moon signs should also be taken into account because I, as a Sagittarius male, only have some of the characteristics of the Sun sign itself, but my Libra Rising sign I have characteristics of too, and it seems to create a nice balance. Though astrology is tons of fun, everyone is unique and different. If it doesn’t work out, don’t shy away from other Sags, I did that when my 17 year marriage went south with a Capricorn female, but then I blew them off completely, closing possibilities and doors when I should not have.

And then I came here and read that Capricorn woman and Sagittarius man is a 9/10? Wow! Everyone is unique and different, but communication is key to any friendship and relationship. Good luck!!

I agree with your comments on Sagg and Virgo “when it’s over”….
I am the Virgo, my husband is the Sagg, and I have been seeing a Taurus male for almost a year behind my husbands back.
I can’t explain how the Taurean makes me feel inside.

I’m a Virgo too caring, loving, giving, always wanting people around me, always saving everyone, very affectionate, I want the best for everybody I come in contact with. I read between the lines. I over analyze everything and I take everything to heart. I need lots of love and compassion. I have to be on the go I can’t sit in the house on the weekends. I love to work with my hands creating something, building chairs, crafts, boxes, baskets, styling hair, nails, artwork & I’ve been married to a Sagittarius for 7 yrs & together for 9. In the beginning he sweep me right off my feet. I didn’t even like him but he would always come around unexpected and my brother in law would tell him he bet him he can’t get me. He attached himself to me and I loved every bit of it. He would rub my feet, massage my head & back we would go everywhere together, we would go to New York City every weekend, go out to dinner, play pool, bowling all kinds of things fun. I would be leaving for work and once I got outside to get the bus he would be waiting to bring me to work without a telephone call to let me know he was coming he lived 50 minutes from me. When I enrolled in college he took me out of town to my dad’s so my dad could sign my paperwork. Whenever I needed something he was right there. We were dating for six months before I even knew it. I thought we was just friends he said I should’ve known but he never tried anything like a kiss or hold my hand and I’ve been a tomboy all my life. I got my first apartment and he moved in before I did. I asked him to move my things from my mom’s house while I was working and when I got to the apartment all his things were there. At first I was like wait a minute but then I realized he loved me and wanted the best for the both of us but that soon changed like six months later and has been the same ever since. He is so distant and reserved he shows no emotion until I leave or get ready to take our kids and go. He always says he could careless when I bring our issues to his attention his verbal abuse he blames me for everything wrong. He says he needs to relax all the time whe I want to do something. He is loving to our kids while they’re babies they sleep on his chest and he has my one yr old still sleeping with us then when they turn two yrs old he shuts them out. My oldest always asks why daddy don’t love or hug me. He only cares about work he won’t event take off if one of us is in the ER sick. He comes home and gets right on the computer and put his headphones on his relaxing time until his shower and bedtime. There is little to no family time he don’t eat at the dinner table with us as a family I mean no family time until a movie comes out or he need to go to best buy he stays in there every week he’s purchasing something for his self but turns around and won’t take me anywhere or buy me anything. We have no relationship other than him wanting sex at the end of the night after ignoring me or verbally abusing me all day. Please! Like I really want to do that. That’s the last thing I want to do with this unemotional, uncaring, uncompassionate man. But the sex is out of this world. I’m ready to walk again and this time I’m not coming back no matter how much he cries.

@Keitra fell sorry for you I kno lot of sag guys talk about the ‘amazing’ time they have in their intimate relation but its to cover up lack. there’s a lot thats much better out there you just dont kno it. i do. he’ll do a lousy job his own way and get away with it becos woman is tired at the end of day anyway. for same reason such guys are also spreading themselves thin and cant get things right with anyone. boys trying to act like men!! hope you have been trying some side dishes. its only fair!

Oh my gosh, every part of this describes me and my ex perfectly. Every single thing. Even down to the what things attract and turn me off, our sex, our conversations, my total boredom with most guys.

This guy was my second Sag, I was a engaged to the first. That’s saying a lot for me because my relationships rarely last longer than a few months.

Despite my relationships with Sags not working out, I believe with all certainty that this is the sign that I’m the most compatible and have the best chemistry. Those two Sag relationships are the most meaningful of all the relationships I’ve had and I look forward to my next Sag.

@ Keitra. I had the same problem with my man, although we are not married and had no kids. We started out as friends like you and without knowing we hooked up and ended up being together for 1yr. and 4 months. The begining was great, he was extrimely caring doing everything for me, just like your husband. Then by the end of that forth month he started verbaly abusing me, basically treating me like shit. I am a very independent Virgo, I make my own money, i buy my own things and do not rely on anybody. All of a sudden things started getting for the worst, after one day when he treated me like trash, humiliating me in front of the D.D. staff, I was hurt a lot and decided I had enough. I slowly started to back off, and eventually told him that our relationship was getting unhealthy and that we needed to split ways. He was crying, could not understand what heppened, begging me to give him another chance. I was hurt and I needed some time to think about our relationship and if there was a posibility we could ever be together again. I took 13 day off without seeing him or talking to him. He was going crazy, he was texting me multiple times, calling me, leaving voice mails on my phone, sobing. He appologized a million times, told me that his life without me means nothing, that he would change. Finally on the 13th day I decided to talk to him and explained to him that maybe being friends was better than being romantically envloved. He said that it would not be the same for him, that he was emotionally attached to me and that he needed me in his life. So I decided to give him a second chance. We met up and he really showed me that he missed me so much. He said that he loved me so much that he was ready to do anything to have me back. He took me out to eat, then we went to the park, and finally ended up having sex. Our sex life was and still remains out of this world. We both get bored of the same thing so we try out new things and it is always so much fun.

My personal experince with my man is that they get bored very easily so try to do different things. If that does not work then maybe backing off from him for some time might be a good thing. It is easier said than done, but believe me you will know if he really loves you, and at the same time you will teach him a lesson he will never forget, to always love you and appreciate you.

I’m a typical Virgo, and he’s the most loving, caring, giving, funny, genuine man I have ever met. He is everything. He fulfills me in every aspect of my life, we have had the best times together as we share the love to enjoy life and appreciate the things we enjoy doing. He is head over heels in love with me and I’m in love with him too. To top it off, he is a real looker too. We are obsessed with eachother and no one else features in our lives. If we are not alone with eachother, or if we do not pay full attention to eachother, the other is hurt. It is a crazy love, but I see chance to live the rest of my life like this, because I love him that much. We know we both won’t change, as we are very jealous, which I don’t think is a bad thing. The relationship, I would say has come to a point where it is unhealthy. He fell in love with me because I was caring towards everyone, bubbly etc, now he wants me only for himself and we fight if I show any attention to anyone else. I don’t even care that he does this, I love him so much. I just want us to last a lifetime and I never want to be without him. It is sad because we can’t live normal lives. He will always own my heart. Even if we are not together. I feel like I will never recover. I will always want him nmwh.

I am virgo who is dating a Sagi for four months now. Things have been great. We talk/text daily, he always initiates the conversation. He constantly wants to hear from me. Does things like calls me while he is shopping and has me approve outfits for him, I think it is adorable. We hang out quite often and I have met a couple of his friends.
About a month back we had a conversation as to where we stand and what we are looking for. Although he said he likes me a lot and wants to continue to get to know me better, he sort of made it clear that he was not ready for a serious relationship with me at that moment, but that he is open to it later, as we continue to get to know each other better.
My concern is that he will never be ready. I have noticed that Sagi don’t like responsibilities and commitments. I am afraid that he is just keeping me around until I get tired of waiting.
He does tell me that he really likes me and wants to continue seeing me. I am just a bit confused as to what his true intentions are with me.
Any advice?
Thanks

to Nelly : same story alost
I almost have the same experience
I met this sag in february, we met few times, had fun and then we kissed, and then we had wonderful, extatic sex!
after a couple of months, I was really lost in the way I didn’t know what he really wanted, were we friends, dates or bf gf? what he watned from that relationship
he is very passionate about his job and I am passionate about him
when I spoke my heart he said the same thing, that he respected me a lot, that he couldn’t get into a serious relationship
i hope he will get back to me but I am surely not letting him down so will play any card I have in my hands to make him think of me

well, i am a 26 virgo women and just been talking/texting my 34 sag man. he is sweet, handsome, smart, adorable and he just so wonderful to me and my daughter. he just meet her a couple times…and she like him..we been talking for 3months going on and our family grew up together and i never meet him. we r friends for now lets see how it goes….

This is sooooo True… I have to agree with number 6. Im a virgo female and my son father is a Sag… we were together for three years until we figured out we are better as friends. He would give me the world, but none of that matters with out the quality time. Ill take time any day over possesions. He committed a lot of his time to his friends before he would consider me and that I couldn’t live with, and I was a lot neater than him. Stuborn is not the word.. But the Sex.. GREAT!!!!!!

I am a virgo saggitarius rising and he is a saggitarius aqaurius rising. He and I have dated 3 yrs. 11 mos. and the last 11 mos. has been long distance. Our relationship has been rocky. Typical push me, pull you-piss me off F-you: encroach on my space, leave you. But, goodness if we don’t love each other! It has taken us much needed introspection of ourselves, and the union to really learn how to listen and know how we react to eachother. I will be joining him shortly and we have come soooo far. When he told me for the first time that he needed me-i knew more about him than I never have and all my worrying and belly aching was for nothing. There is extreme respect, loyalty, love, and trust now. It’s beautiful. Patience has won us over, and it takes time! This is not a union to have easy take-off. You have to love and let things go, and enjoy life and animals! We have become comfortable knowing that he and I together is destiny and can accomplish great things. Ladies, they are worth trying for.

My Sag and I can be on vastly different planes on the outset, we tend to come together in agreeance more often than not. We are quite more alike than different. We are commonly stubborn when are minds are made up, love impulses, but tend to be love a bargain. We can talk about everything to eachother and get nerdy together. We empower each other in our endeavours. We have learned the hard way that we can’t have each other in anger-volatile! Bad, for us because he and I are hard to back down. It’s like 2 gladiators fighting for the death and Simultaneous blows will have to knock us both out. We have learned to disagree and find the common thread and turn negativity to positve and eat something good and go somewhere. He and I had to hav several moments of separation before we got to where we are now. We are happy this way and look forward to life together physically again. We keep coming back together and this time: I know that it’s for life. Unconventially, not married, but together-we’d rather keep the peace.

I am a virgo on libra cusp and although, I don’t know if I “love” my sag man yet…..I enjoy every moment we have together. He isn’t home all that much and that’s ok with me. I like my independence and so does he. We are both divorced and we have the same idea’s on marriage, neither of us want it. Although, he has talked about us moving in together. That, I am not sure, if I am ready to do. We enjoy cooking healthy foods together and watching tv. lol We call it lazy time since we both have very full lives. We both love animals and nature. Our communication skills are great too. When we are not together we are texting and talking as much as possible. It seems we both are genuinely interested in each others day. I love to learn and he loves to teach. That works out really well. We seriously enjoy each other sexually!! Now that that’s all said……We seem to be much more like friends then lovers. He is sincere and has been a good listener (even if he doesn’t agree with me) I have seen a little bit of his angery side and it does worry me a bit. I would like to know more of what its like to be a virgo woman living with a sag man. As you virgo’s know, I like to plan for things and don’t want to jump into anything that is going to surprise me too much. I think we could get along really well in a living situation but…….?? Any comments?

I’m a Sagittarius man who for some reason has dated mostly Pisces and Taurus ladies. While those started off fine, they began to taper off and one or both of us would lose interest. About 3 months ago I met a Virgo online. We kissed on the first date but otherwise took it very slowly for two months. About 3 weeks ago it got sexual. This is by far the most amazing love affair I have experienced. Pretty much across the board. I have never connected with another human being like this. There is so much honesty and intimacy. Emotionally we are perfectly compatible. On paper she is way too high maintenance, fussy, moody, and even hypochondriac. I just don’t care. I have so much fun with her. When she gets “high maintenance” it’s not really directed toward me, and her expectations of me are so low, I can just easily glide through her moods like it’s nothing and before I know it we are laughing again, or (even better) very passionate. It is just wonderful.

Hi,
A few months ago I met a sagittarius…I meet and feel for a sagittarius with a girlfriend!! I am a virgo and what u have wriiten about friendship seems to be correct. Its undeniable that we have some sort of chemestry as other people have noticed and made comments which I laugh off! But inside am hopeing with time my feelings with go…that was 4 mths ago and I think there still the same, maybe? Will being his friend be even harder over time or as a virgo will I see and feel that our friend means more!? ( P.S sorry for the spelling mistakes)