I think they're cute, but I'm not super into stylish shoes so I might be a bad example. I like looking at stylish shoes but not wearing them. My feet can't take it. I wear moccasins and LL Bean clogs, and yes, I love my 3 styles of Uggs.

Those are about as dressy as I would get if I were doing dress up casual. So yes, I like them.

I believe in manicures. I believe in overdressing. I believe in primping at leisure and wearing lipstick. I believe in pink. I believe that laughing is the best calorie burner. I believe in kissing, kissing a lot. I believe in being strong when everything seems to be going wrong. I believe that happy girls are the prettiest girls. I believe that tomorrow is another day and I believe in miracles.
Audrey Hepburn

Needless to say I'm not going anywhere! I don't visit every day and only post sporadically, but this site will always have a special place in my heart ... and, like Arnie the Governator, I'll always "be back."

Needless to say I'm not going anywhere! I don't visit every day and only post sporadically, but this site will always have a special place in my heart ... and, like Arnie the Governator, I'll always "be back."

Originally Posted by LAwoman

There was no real drama. Just the usual anti-board sentiment and complaints, a little bit of clique-snark, and some regrouping on other forums formed by members on FB. You may receive an invite if you haven't already. I think most board members are posting over there.

I am anti Facebook and though it has its ups and downs I'm pro NC.com. So I try to wait out the drama.

Anyone can join the group on FB or the new forum. No invitations necessary. PM me or ... trying to think of someone who hangs out in all the places ... anyone care to step forward and help people find their way over?

The group is way too large to be a clique. Also, aren't cliques exclusive? Because this isn't (see above). The FB group is secret only so we can talk freely (ie., swear and talk about S-E-X) without worrying about family/work/others on FB seeing what we're saying.

I hope this clears up some of the mystery. It's really not a big deal.

I will be happy to help anyone find their way over to fb or the forum. Also, you don't have to leave here forever and ever and never come back. It is not like that. I promise you really can post wherever you want.

Needless to say I'm not going anywhere! I don't visit every day and only post sporadically, but this site will always have a special place in my heart ... and, like Arnie the Governator, I'll always "be back."

Originally Posted by LAwoman

There was no real drama. Just the usual anti-board sentiment and complaints, a little big of clique-snark, and some regrouping on other forums formed by members on FB. You may receive an invite if you haven't already. I think most board members are posting over there.

I am anti Facebook and though it has its ups and downs I'm pro NC.com. So I try to wait out the drama.

Originally Posted by iroc

No real drama??? It was fake drama? And 'you may receive an invite'? I do not think anyone was left out unless you are anti Facebook. And then it was your choice but don't try and create drama by insinuating people were left out.

I think I worded my post nicely. I don't know how this is possibily going to become a thing, but I didn't say the regrouping to other forums was done by cliques, nor was I implying that any new forum was exclusive and leaving people out.

Seriously guys. Enough with this already. Stop trying to make everything a fight.

Anyone can join the group on FB or the new forum. No invitations necessary. PM me or ... trying to think of someone who hangs out in all the places ... anyone care to step forward and help people find their way over?

The group is way too large to be a clique. Also, aren't cliques exclusive? Because this isn't (see above). The FB group is secret only so we can talk freely (ie., swear and talk about S-E-X) without worrying about family/work/others on FB seeing what we're saying.

I hope this clears up some of the mystery. It's really not a big deal.

Originally Posted by wild~hair

Again, to clarify, I was explaining to her that most people have gone to another group, and I did mention the unhappiness w the board being the reason. The clique comment was separate and doesn't even include the majority of people who moved on to another group.