It’s hard to believe that you can have any fun at all when you’re ill and recovering. I remember lying in bed for hours on end thinking about all the fun other people were having without me, people with more energy and vitality than me, people who didn’t have to think about illness for a second while they were enjoying themselves.

Then I realised that my definition of ‘fun’ was all wrong. To me (and maybe to society), the epitome of fun was raucous party scenes and dancing until the early hours. I’ve never been much of party-goer, but always felt when I was growing up that this is what I should be doing- stumbling home drunk at whatever time in the morning and not being able to remember anything, because this is what my friends were doing.

Feeling comfortable with what you like to do and searching for your definition of fun can often take some time. Your definition of fun might not be the same as someone else’s and this is great- find your joy! You’re often under pressure from others and conform just so you feel like you belong. This includes going places when you don’t have the energy or feeling forced to do something because someone is telling you to snap out of it.

Write a list of things you like to do. I consider all these things fun, however geeky and strange they might sound. This is what makes me unique and I love myself for it:

How To Remember The Fun In Life

Writing to you lovely peopleReading spiritual booksOprah’s amazing programme, Super Soul SundayGoing to bed early / having a lie-in, and not feeling guilty or bad about itStudying Energy MedicineListening to birds singing in the morningAnything involving bright colours and stripesJuices and smoothiesRaw chocolateChia seed puddingsSingingStumbling my way through yoga Writing letters and cards to people (on paper and sending them in an envelope!)Talking with someone and really connecting with themSomeone really confiding in youAngel cardsDanish crime dramas (I know!) and Foreign FilmsLaughter and comedyReading in French and GermanAnything to do with France and all things ParisBreaking down sentences into grammatical points (I know, I need help!)BatmanMen’s brown leather brogues made for girls and old-school satchelsBig jewelleryChatting with a friend for hours on Facetime or on the phoneSushi / anything JapaneseGoing out of my comfort zone and being me

This is a slightly unconventional list, but remember life is for living and being joyous. Love what you love and love it unashamedly. You can create fun from the smallest thing if you get pleasure from doing it and it brightens up your day.

Where can you find fun in your day today? Write a fun list and post it below or on Facebook! Can’t wait to see what you’ve written!

Love and joy,

Katie xx

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One Response to “How To Remember The Fun In Life”

I felt a bit down yesterday and was like no point sleeping at home. . so I drove an hour and a half to the Gold Coast. I went and stood in the Pacific Ocean – for the first time ever! The water was cold and the waves were strong almost knocking me over. But I had so much fun charging at them. Then I slept on the beach for an hour or so. I feel worse today. But it was worth it.

In future if I need to arvo nap I might go and sleep in a park. Then I can productively work on my tan at the same time as resting off a flare up ha!