10 Lessons Only A “Slut” Can Teach You

When I first saw YourTango’s 10 Lessons Only Sluts Can Teach You I got nervous and I pretended to be offended. I call people sluts all the time, but not on the internet! It seemed scandalous. I also wanted to go Gloria Steinem all over YourTango’s ass for bringing the ladies down a few notches. Even slutty ladies are ladies, and they deserve to be treated that way.

2. Horny is not sexy. “Horny isn’t sexy because it turns the encounter into sex (and sex only) instead of the chase, conquest, tease and flirt that it warrants.”

3. Pull the trigger, tease. “You should, however, know that if you’re encouraging the man to believe you’re up for sex, you should eventually be up for sex. Slut may be a four letter word but “tease” is way worse.”