This must all seem pretty scary - it might be a good idea to go and talk to your GP. You can book an appointment in confidence.

Alternatively you can get some great advice at drop in clinics.

Boobs

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Posted: Thu Jul 19, 2007 2:27 pmPost subject:

Hello~

I understand that you might be scared to tell your Mother/family about this. But I have learned that the shock will pass and then the excitement comes. My mom was [*CENSORED*] when I told her and I am 24, but she got over it and now is counting down the days. Either way, there is now a baby in the picture and you are going to have to stand on your own two feet and let her know. If she gets mad, let her...She will calm down. It may take a couple days or even a couple of weeks but you will of done the right thing. She is your Mother, and as you will soon see there is a connection there that runs deeper then blood. Hope I helped...Write me if you need someone to talk too. shedevil420jk@yahoo.com.

madnad

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Posted: Mon Aug 13, 2007 11:49 amPost subject: You'll be fine!

Hi there. I'm 18 and felt the same way as you are right now. I told my mum straight away so that it would be over with - and she was happy for me actually! I recommend you let a close friend or another family member know at least. That way someone will be able to give you the support and cofidence you need to get through this scary time and tell your mum. You should really go to your doctor to get checked over anyway. Did you take a home pregnancy test or did you miss a period and think that you're pregnant? Either way it's best to get it confirmed by the doctor and you'll not need to feel like you're carrying a big secret around!

I'M 16 AND I'M PREGNANT MY DAD AND MUM HAVE ALWAYS SAID THAT THEY WOULD NEVER SPEAK TO ME IF I GOT PREGNANT AND MY BF MUM SAID THE SAME TOO, I'M NOW 16 WEEKS PREGNANT AND EVERYONE IS SO HAPPY FOR ME, THE BEST TO DO IS TELL YOUR MUM, THE MOST SHE CAN DO IS SHOUT REALLY ITS YOUR LIFE AND ITS UP TO YOU WHAT YOU WANT TO DO...TELL HER SHOUTING ISNT GOING TO MAKE YOU NOT PREGNANT THATS WHAT MY DAD SAID TO ME...I'VE BEEN BROUGHT UP WITH MY DAD..I'M A DADDYS GIRL AND I REALLY DIDNT EXPECT THE REACTION I GOT YOU'LL BE FINE ONCE ITS OUT IN THE OPEN..