Smartphone Detox: How To Power Down In A Wired World

If the Russian psychologist Ivan Pavlov were alive today, what would he say about smartphones? He might not think of them as phones at all, but instead as remarkable tools for understanding how technology can manipulate our brains.

Pavlov's own findings — from experiments he did more than a century ago, involving food, buzzers and slobbering dogs — offer key insights into why our phones have become almost an extension of our bodies, modern researchers say. The findings also provide clues to how we can break our dependence.

Pavlov originally set off to study canine digestion. But one day, he noticed something peculiar while feeding his dogs. If he played a sound — like a metronome or buzzer — before mealtimes, eventually the sound started to have a special meaning for the animals. It meant food was coming!The dogs actually started drooling when they heard the sound, even if no food was around.

Hearing the buzzer had become pleasurable.

That's exactly what's happening with smartphones, says David Greenfield, a psychologist and assistant clinical professor of psychiatry at the University of Connecticut.

When we hear a ding or little ditty alerting us to a new text, email or Facebook post, cells in our brains likely release dopamine — one of the chemical transmitters in the brain's reward circuitry. That dopamine makes us feel pleasure, Greenfield says.

"That ping is telling us there is some type of reward there, waiting for us," Greenfield says.

Over time, that ping can become more powerful than the reward itself. Research on animals suggests dopamine levels in the brain can be twice as high when you anticipate the reward as when you actually receive it.

In other words, just hearing the notification can be more pleasurable than the text, email or tweet. "Smartphone notifications have turned us all into Pavlov's dogs," Greenfield says.

Signs you might need to cut back

The average adult checks their phone 50 to 300 times each day, Greenfield says. And smartphones use psychological tricks that encourage our continued high usage — some of the same tricks slot machines use to hook gamblers.

"For example, every time you look at your phone, you don't know what you're going to find — how relevant or desirable a message is going to be," Greenfield says. "So you keep checking it over and over again because every once in a while, there's something good there." (This is called a variable ratio schedule of reinforcement. Animal studies suggest it makes dopamine skyrocket in the brain's reward circuity and is possibly one reason people keep playing slot machines.)

A growing number of doctors and psychologists are concerned about our relationship with the phone. There's a debate about what to call the problem. Some say "disorder" or "problematic behavior." Others think over-reliance on a smartphone can become a behavioral addiction, like gambling.

"It's a spectrum disorder," says Dr. Anna Lembke, a psychiatrist at Stanford University, who studies addiction. "There are mild, moderate and extreme forms." And for many people, there's no problem at all.

In this way, the phone is kind of like alcohol, Lembke says. Moderate alcohol consumption can be beneficial, for some people.

"You can make an argument that a temperate amount of smartphone or screen use might be good for people," Lembke says. "So I'm not saying, 'Everybody get rid of their smartphones because they're completely addictive,' But instead, let's be very thoughtful about how we're how we're using these devices, because we can use them in pathological ways."

Interacting with the device keeps you up late or otherwise interferes with your sleep.

It reduces the time you have to be with friends or family.

It interferes with your ability to finish work or homework.

It causes you to be rude, even subconsciously. "For instance," Lembke asks, "are you in the middle of having a conversation with someone and just dropping down and scrolling through your phone?" That's a bad sign.

It's squelching your creativity. "I think that's really what people don't realize with their smartphone usage," Lembke says. "It can really deprive you of a kind of seamless flow of creative thought that generates from your own brain."

Consider a digital detox one day a week

Tiffany Shlain, a San Francisco Bay Area filmmaker, and her family power down all their devices every Friday evening, for a 24-hour period.

"It's something we look forward to each week," Shlain says. She and her husband, Ken Goldberg, a professor in the field of robotics at the University of California, Berkeley, are very tech savvy. But they find they need a break.

"During the week, [we're] like an emotional pinball machine responding to all the external forces," Shlain says. The buzzes, beeps, emails, alerts and notifications never end.

Shutting the smartphones off shuts out all those distractions.

"You're making your time sacred again — reclaiming it," Shlain says. "You stop all the noise."

When they started the digital break about nine years ago, which they call "Tech Shabbat," Saturdays suddenly felt very different. The family's not religious, she says, but they love the Jewish Sabbath ritual of setting aside a day for rest or restoration.

"The days felt much longer, and we generally feel much more relaxed," says Goldberg.

Their daughter, Odessa Shlain Goldberg, a ninth-grader, says the unplugging takes some of the pressure off.

"There's no FOMO — fear of missing out — or seeing what my friends are doing," Odessa says. "It's a family day."

The teen says the perspective she gains from the digital power-down carries over into the rest of the week. For instance, she thinks differently about social media. She realizes the social media feeds often make other people's lives appear more exciting or glamorous.

"If you're sitting at home scrolling, you're not having that glamorous experience," she says. "So it feels a little discouraging."

Smartphones can compound teen angst, but there's a sweet spot

Odessa is definitely not alone in those observations. Social media can amplify the anxieties that come along with adolescence.

A recent study of high school students, published in the journal Emotion, found that too much time spent on digital devices is linked to lower self-esteem and a decrease in well-being. The survey asked teens how much time they spent — outside of schoolwork — on activities such as texting, gaming, searching the internet or using social media.

"We found teens who spend five or more hours a day online are twice as likely to say they're unhappy," compared to those who spend less time plugged in, explains the study's author, Jean Twenge, a professor of psychology at San Diego State University.

Twenge's research suggests digital abstinence is not good either. Teens who have no access to screens or social media may feel shut out, she says.

But there may be a sweet spot. According to the survey data, "the teens who spend a little time — an hour or two hours a day [on their devices] — those are actually the happiest teens," Twenge says.

At its best, technology connects us to new ideas and people. It makes the world smaller and opens up possibilities.

"The ability to connect with people across the world is one the great benefits," Odessa believes. She says she's made some of her friends "purely online."

"We need to wrestle with it more," her mother says.

Technology is not going away. Our lives are becoming more wired all the time. But Shlain and Odessa say taking a weekly break helps their whole family find a happy medium in dealing with their phones.

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RACHEL MARTIN, HOST:

We're going to spend the next few minutes talking about the devices that have come to rule our lives.

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MARTIN: Yeah, we're talking about smartphones. This week, Apple shareholders are meeting, and two major shareholders have raised concerns that smartphones are harming our children. But what about us adults? NPR's Michaeleen Doucleff looks at smartphone addiction and how to cut back.

MICHAELEEN DOUCLEFF, BYLINE: Right around 1900, a Russian scientist named Ivan Pavlov ran a landmark experiment. He gave dogs a yummy treat.

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DOUCLEFF: But right before he handed them the treat, he played a sound.

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DOUCLEFF: Yes, a buzzer, not a bell. The buzzer came to have a special meaning for the dogs - food was coming, and dogs actually started drooling just when they heard the sound, even when no food was around. The buzzer had become pleasurable. David Greenfield, a psychologist at the University of Connecticut, says smartphone notifications...

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DOUCLEFF: ...Are doing the same thing to our brains.

DAVID GREENEFIELD: It's elevating the neurochemical dopamine, and dopamine is a pleasure chemical.

DOUCLEFF: So the phone has basically turned us all into Pavlov's dogs.

GREENFIELD: That's exactly what the phone has done. We are all Pavlov's dogs.

DOUCLEFF: A growing number of doctors are concerned about people's relationship with their phones. There's a debate about what to call it. Some say a disorder or problematic behavior. Others think it could become a behavioral addiction, like gambling. Anna Lembke, a psychiatrist at Stanford University, says there's a wide range of severities and symptoms.

DOUCLEFF: And for many people, there's no problem at all. In this way, Lembke says the phone is kind of like alcohol.

LEMBKE: So I'm not saying, you know, everybody get rid of their smartphones, they're completely addictive. I'm saying let's be very thoughtful about how we're using these devices because we can use them in pathological ways.

DOUCLEFF: Lembke says signs of pathological use are, for instance, does the phone make you stay up at night and not get enough sleep, or does it reduce the time you interact with friends and family? Or is it making you rude?

LEMBKE: When you're in the middle of having a conversation with someone, are you in the middle of that just dropping down and scrolling through your phone, and maybe doing it totally unaware that you're doing it?

DOUCLEFF: Also heavy usage may squelch your creativity.

LEMBKE: It really deprives you of a kind of seamless flow of creative thought that generates from your own brain.

DOUCLEFF: So what can we do? Well, for starters, Greenfield says turn off notifications - all notifications.

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DOUCLEFF: Get an old-fashioned wristwatch or an alarm clock so you don't have to sleep with your phone. And keep the phone away from meals. Don't even set it on the table.

GREENFIELD: There is some research that shows that if you have the phone in the room with you, even if it's face down or off, your cortisol levels, which is a stress hormone, actually elevate.

DOUCLEFF: Finally, Lembke says, try a short digital detox.

LEMBKE: Put your smartphone away for 24 hours.

DOUCLEFF: After a few hours, you may start to have cravings, but...

LEMBKE: If you can make it to 24 hours, what you'll find is that you're no longer compulsively thinking about the need to check your phone, and you're having some original thoughts.

DOUCLEFF: In fact, Lembke thinks this detox can reset your brain circuitry a bit so that when you hear...