A friend, a girl, no connection

Okay I know this girl at my school who hangs out with me all the time. I mean all the time. She is nice and I like her. But she'll go with another
guy she barely knows to Great America (amusement park) I mean WTF. The guy is going out with someone else already. What a cheater. :bash: I know she
likes me because when I ask her who she likes she says I don't know. Next time it comes up in conversation i'm gonna mention this guys name and see
what she does. I guess I;m kind of having a conversation with my self but feel free to contribute.

The guy who she likes is a republican which means I need to actually use politics not money

You need to tell her how you feel..no squirming. If she cant deal with it ..get rid of her. You are not here to stay in the friends zone.

Also think about her actions. Options are obviously more important than the caliber of the person with whom she spends her time. Do you really want to
spend your time with this caliber of woman.?? You do know that there are women out here for whom the game is more important than with whom they are
with??? Think about it.

Like I told Falcon and others ..your time and moneys are a valuable commodity in the marketplace.

Also confrontation with another man over a woman is a waste of time. No woman is worth getting yourself beat up over..there are to many women out
there. I never fight over women. Somehow I knew this instinctively from my teenage years ..and I have a concealed carry permit.
Be very careful about the caliber of woman with whom you spend your time and moneys. Expect more from them than bubbly goofyness..and petty girl
stuff.
I think you must be very young and inexperienced. You dont waste your time trying to jump to a womans bar to be noticed as alot of women tend to
show contempt for men who try out for their approval and they are correct....find ways to reverse it..change your thinking and
expectations...ie...grow up.
Also ,theorist, Growing up for a male means hard work..and the experience that comes with hard work. It means commitment levels not often thought
about among women. You need to realize that among alot of women..not all but alot...grown up means being more appealing and of more value socially in
the marketplace..you can now command more for your company in the marketplace than many of the males have to offer and more than many of the other
females...the competition ..have to offer.
This is what passes for maturity among many women..not all but many. The question for you is do you want to play this game.?? Are you even aware that
the game is going on???? In play?? This is psuedo maturity..phoney. Many of them never give this up into middle and olde ages. It is a lifestyle.
Keep this in mind when you " try out" for a womans approval.
Also ..Theorist...I strongly suggest you make yourself more scarce to her. This will tell you what your real value is to her. Not many men can do
this and see it through. One more thing. Be ready for hurt ..this will come anyway if you are not that valuable to her. You need to know this
information/status clearly. I think you already know the answer to this but scarcity is a sure indicator of value.
This will also tell you what is her attention span level..but you should also know this already too.

The best-travelled road, is that of her girlfriends.
1. make sure her girlfriends like and approve of you. get them to agree she's dated nothing but jerks.
2. after step 1 is known, make sure they know you'd like to be more than friends, but don't want to risk the friendship.
3. let peer pressure do it's work

Now, there still is the possibility this won't work and she doesn't see you in that way, but I'm just saying one of the tried and true roads
friend....

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