Were Taylor Swift and Tom Hiddleston really dating? That’s the question on everyone’s mind this week as the star-studded couple have just broken up. Some think their relationship was real, others think it was a big publicity stunt, and even more think it was all done for the sake of a longform music video (think Beyonce’s Lemonade).

So which answer is the correct one? We don’t know – no one does except for Hiddleston and Swift. But considering that Taylor’s been gallivanting around NYC with a smile on her face whereas Hiddleston’s been looking rather glum lately, it might be safe to say that this one was for real.