One of the keys to having a good marriage is having goodwill towards the other. Adjusting our hearts to the idea that our partner, in spite of their own shortcomings, needs us to have goodwill towards them – to think the best of them in any situation. It is so easy to treat a friend, a boss, or a stranger with whom we disagree, with more goodwill than our spouse. Remember, you are a Team of Two, not the enemy.