I feel like if I do the courthouse thing I will never have the wedding......like when people hold off on their honeymoon and they never have one.....

Girl I did the court house thing then fed everyone a year later. The wedding was really for everyone else. Hubby just wanted to go to Bahamas and call it a day but noooooooooooooo all the family members from both sides were pressed to have a wedding ceremony. Everyone was pressed to wear their outfits and eye lashes.

Im with your hubby....I want to go to St. Lucia.....he want the big wedding....

I know a few people who had the courthouse wedding...basically just signed the papers and whatnot...and then got married again in a few months.

For all those couples it was because they're religious, already had a wedding planned, but their new apartment/house came through before the wedding. So they got legally married so as to avoid impropriety.

I feel like once you have a kid with the person getting married isn't all that important. I mean, your brother is going to be involved with the woman for the next 18 years which is longer than most marriages anyway.

Depending on their finances, it might make more sense not to get married.

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