White women and weight why?

I noticed that a lot of white women on this board desire to be skinny and frail.Someone on the hooters thread made a comment about a size 8 or 10 being plus size or considered large . Then you have those who make comments like
" im 5'7 and a 115lbs and wear a size 2 like they are proud of it " is a size 0 or 2 favorable to you.Why dont you like curves ?
Maybe its because im black and being a size 2 is not attractive to most in my culture.Maybe its how our men judge us women .black men like hip and ass and thickness.Someone explain this to me.

A 5'2" woman gaining 20lbs is going to be a lot more obvious than a 5'11" woman gaining 20lbs because while you may have a body area more prone to weight gain, in general the weight is still spread out over the entire course of the body and if you have more square inches to spread on the size difference will be less.

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Mom to the Princess the Peanut and the Pea

In what unicorn, rainbow shitting world are you living in? - Joshiesmommy

I'm 5'6" and 170 pounds and a size 10/12. It's always so crazy to me how differently people look with three little measurements. My mom always tells me I should be around 130 pounds and figured I'd end up "marrying a brother" because of my thick body. She said that all the time. "Well at least the brothers love you." Well, good! Glad someone can appreciate my body as it naturally is.

Her heavy implication was that unless I seriously slimmed down, that I was narrowing the pool of guys who would be attracted to me.

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I would worry more about my space ship turning into a semen snow globe.-redvelvetcupcake

Oh and just wanted to throw out there, that despite the fact that most people would label me as skinny, I am by no means frail. I am in the National Guard, and have to remain fit. I run 2-5 miles three times a week, I do weights on the days I don't run. The only day I am lazy and don't work out is Sunday. That is the day I eat dorritoes all day and veg on the couch. But I am very strong. Although I still suck at running and technically hate it with a passion, even though my times are within guide lines for PT. >_<