Gordon Ramsay Mistress Got Slammed By Sarah Jessica Parker

It's not too often that Sarah Jessica Parker does anything off the cuff. She is pretty thorough about planning anything she does. That all changed when she was sent a Tweet by Sarah Symonds. You might remember Sarah as the former mistress of Gordon Ramsay. If you happen to live in Canada you probably have seen her show on Slice where she counsels women who are mistresses. Think of it as Tabitha's makeover show for women who sleep with married men.

Apparently Sarah Symonds said something about SJP's kids. The Tweet was deleted and it happened so fast that no one actually had time to get a screen cap of it. Sarah Jessica Parker's Tweets remain.

@headrotYou started this thing against fancy weeks ago. It's not fair to keep dissing another poster without even saying what you're mad about. And no, I'm not going to go back looking through your posts.

It's not 'cultural acceptance', it's whether you go onto a thread attacking another poster for no reason. No one else does that on such a regular basis. Why do you think it's all right for you to do it?

@rose i choose what to waste my time with? does that not make sense? why should i prove something that i know took place to someone who i also know is too stubborn to pay attention if i did bother to find it?if everyone else is so interested, why dont they go find them? i certainly do not need to prove it to myself

1. how have i insulted anyone who has criticized me? ex. Sherry criticized me, did i insult her? no.

"of the nature of hypocrisy, or pretense of having virtues, beliefs, principles, etc., that one does not actually possess: "2. how have i been hypocritical? and yes, this definition demonstrates i used it properly ^_^

There's nothing about biological links that make you a better parent, and there is nothing about surrogacy/donated eggs/adoption that makes you any worse of a parent. It's in the actions not the blood. But of course a professional other woman would know a lot about ethics, right?

Nah Headrot was just the flavor of the week. It is all about Lady H these days *jokesjokes*. People cant always get along 24/7. People make jokes that can be misinterpreted which snow-balls into a whole other barrel of monkeys. Sarcasm and playfulness does not translate well with strangers over the net…

Listen bitches. Go to another thread for this crap. Any who. . Sjp. Had her eggs frozen with Matt swimmers a looong- time ago. They did several rounds of iv to conceive little James wilky. They most likely had plenty of extra embryos frozen that they used for the twins.It doesn't matter how old you are when you conceive or use a surrogate if the embryos that were used are still healthy you can use embryos from up to 20 years ago. No one knows but them when and how many embryos they had stored.

Awww thanks @headrot & derek for taking the time to explain, I thought I'd overdone the wine lol I totally get the sarcasm and jokes, in a one text format, it doesn't always translate well (I've tried playful and sarcastic with a few colleagues via email and it resulted in "phone calls",:) Enjoy your night guys.

@DerekU are incorrect sir. Head rot goes out of her way to be a mean little bitch for no reason. Did u miss the Lwren Scott suicide thread? She was totally inappropriate to people trying to b nice to her.

Her shit with me started about a month ago. I asked count a question about him seemingly trying to sway female opinion to his point of view. I wasn't rude, just asking a question and this head rot person took it upon herself to talk shit to me for whatever reason. She was insulting, not sarcastic and playful, she knows what she's doing. She's an angry attention whore with issues.

@Fancy—I hear ya girl. I have never seen you be rude etc. and really like you. I was just commenting on how some people here (not you) switch their favorites and love to jump-down peoples throats when they are not involved in a discussion to begin with. But you of all people deserve a little back-up so I understand…I am only commenting about this cause I was once the target of her wrath but later on discovered she truly does not give a f*ck about how her opinion is perceived by others. She is going to state it whether it is warranted or not.

@Fancy—Yeah I was just commenting on how about a month or 2 ago people disowned me for making fun of her. Then I got mouthy about it and she basically said I dont give an f what he thinks–lol in a weird way telling people to back-off me…so its just a circle thing I guess…but yeah I dont understand the dramatics–not everyone can be good ol'girls like us~~

@leekThat's where her THING with me started. I don't know what that was all about. I thought she was drunk.

She said waaay more to me that night than I did to her and even insulted another poster with a crude "joke" about the posters mother giving birth to her in an alley and having a stretched out vagina (not the word she used) as a result. This head rot person is a real piece of work. A nasty little being…

headrot said…i'm jealous that she had the conviction to go through with it.

Sherry said…Headrot, I echo other peoples advice. Please don't even contemplate taking your life. It's a permanent solution to a temporary problem.

headrot said…@sherry no shit sherlock. and thank you for moronically jumping on the bandwagon. never once did i claim to be suicidal. but thanks for verbalizing what i knew all along. people who are "antisuicide" are the fucking selfish ones cause they are more worried with "their feelings" than what is best for the other person.

No worries Fancy. I was trying to make it my opinion on the behavior and not be accused of calling out any one person. Unfortunately it could have been misconstrued as a statement to you.

I don't understand why people want to be snippy and nor do I understand why people scream for help (or make it appear so) and then get pissy because people show they care.

Sure no one "asked you to care" but couldn't we take that to large disasters where strangers help people out? Should we "interfere"? Yes we should because however selfish it may seem we could never forgive ourselves for not trying to have helped our fellow man. It's the best part of human nature.

I'm never sorry I moronically extended a kindness. I'm never ashamed of being a softie. I'm never taken advantage of either. Mock me and try to turn it around to make me an idiot if that makes you feel better. Don't care. I'm secure enough to deal with it.

@sugarbread Sorry about that. I'm not a bitch, but I would stick up for you too if you were attacked.

@DerekSorry that happened to you. You seem like a nice guy.

@posters When I started posting on CDAN, I also thought headrot was the wronged party and stuck up for her. I am sorry about that – I spoke up before knowing the whole story. I think of the Perez Hilton site and shudder to see what's become of the forums. It's amazing that this forum has continued, unmoderated, and that it flourishes. It means having common courtesy though (headrot) and I hope things can get back to normal. Headrot, a lot of your posts are fine – you just need to exnay the mean stuff and not pick on people bc they disagree with you.Sorry also to everyone for interrupting the thread, but since these are linear threads, it's impossible to stand up for a fellow poster without doing so.

@leek you really should stop talking, because seriously, i have never ever seen you post anything that i would consider to be of any kind of intelligence. in fact, everytime you post i not only cringe but do nothing but gain more and more distain for you.

you of all people should not speak about common courtesy, because seriously, the idea of you actually speaking on that seriously is such a joke. you cant even demonstrate it yourself, as can be seen in the thread that was reposted.

so shut the fuck up, you dumb fucking moron. i have no problems with people who dont agree with me. but it would take someone with a modicum of intelligence to see that, something that is incredibly apparent that both you and fancy lack.

Actually Derek, I stopped thinking you are a good guy when you went after her like verbal acid in the face, you were Way out of line. You Just did the same to Lady Heisenberg over nothing but a misunderstanding on Your part.Yet, just like here, you act all innocent of the level of insanity you bring out.

@Steam–I apologized to Lady H for my misunderstanding and she never excepted my apology. In-fact she made assumptions and called me sexist etc. So whatever. She then accused me of calling her a troll which I never did. She seems to really get along with you. Wonder if Ms. Politically Correct would still share the same admiration after reading your charming Oscar remarks about Sidney Poitier. The fact that you still defend Headrot speaks volumes about your judgement. (No offense Head–really dont want round 2!).Now I guess I should wait for Lowkey to chime in and have her tell me how she does not like me for the 100th time. Though it will flip-flop every other week (and your right I really DONT care).

@derek none taken. i know i'm disliked, but as you observed, i dont really care.

i actually respect you, unlike Leek and Fancy, because you can actually form an intelligent sentence, a coherent argument, and thoughtfully communicate your views without forcing them on others. you can also communicate disliking someone without being a rabid foaming at the mouth cursing lunatic

@leek was calling you a bitch. just generalizing that most people need to take a Xanax before typing that's all.. just kidding around- I try to beef with no one and just have fun.I can see this thread has jumped the shark so I will move on to the other threads..peace out

Aeol, I think that several posters here have multiple IDs and start fights with each other just to get a thrill. At least one of them is probably the one with all the Karadashian accounts and just changes the names back to 'regulars' when it suits.

Crazycatlady – most likely same person as any one(s) of the identities contained herein, just stirring things up to create a bit of "excitement". Would be interesting to see how often the same IP address pops up among multiple IDs in these comments.

I tried to read all of these comments but then my eyes started blurring and I began fantasizing about which grocery store I could get my fave small boxed wines and a nice salad from.

My feelings have gone from pity to just outright irritation and impatience. We get it, you are a deeply complex, dark and troubled individual. Life sucks sometimes but if all you do is sit around playing victim and blame everyone else on a gossip blog I can give you a 100% guarantee that your life will continue to suck. Also, if you want to brag about your superior intellectual abilities I suggest you find somewhere else besides a gossip blog. It's like being an obese person in McDonalds and complaining about how everyone around you is a fat cow who makes poor nutritional choices.

@PrincipessaI guess by 'provenance', SJP meant the how, where and when of her kids' conception, as well as who carried the pregnancy. I worked in IT much of my working life, and it referred to the custodial history of a document lol.

Ms. Symonds said that the children do not look like Sarah Jessica. I think they look like their dad.

Derek, you go off like a skyrocket. Do you blackout as to how hateful you become when pissed? Or do you see your actions as justified because " its what I feel, so deal" .Fine, I know you don't care. I don't lose sleep.I'm not defending headrot, you invaded her privacy on this site and used those details to make a point. Had she wanted those details known ,SHE ,not you would have talked about them. Its your methods and hostility that I am Speaking of, Your actions, not hers. It was ALWAYS ABOUT YOUR ACTIONS.

@Alita, IKR?! Then she links to her mommyish columns and there's a whole 'nuther box of giggle-snorting! I do avoid the placenta posts because … ewwww, placenta smoothie pictures before I've ingested my coffee, nuh uh, no way no how.

@Wigs, the one where the mom talks about about a candlelight dinner, a bubble bath, cuddling with a good book, and then BOOM! No better date than with Mama's sweet little boy! {whispers to self …. what just happened here … }

why would anybody say anything about those kids anyway, it is obvious they are mini Ferris Buellers. and wtf is up with ya'll- if I wanted bickering, I would call up some family instead of coming here for humorous musings on trendy folks.

Don't forget the annual Fright Fest featuring poop in all 4 fundamental states of matter, boogers, eye boogers, cords, annnnnd the placenta round up! Make sure you haven't eaten any dairy or mozzarella sticks when you get to that.

@headrot is a career victim who trolls for sympathetic people so she can shit on them and act superior to them.

I read the L'Wren thread where @headrot was at her troll-y worst, then clicked through to her blog which she has since taken down because HOW DARE YOU READ MY PUBLIC BLOG THAT I LINK TO ON HERE?

Anyway, going from memory, she gave an inventory of sexual abuse starting in early childhood and continuing – wait for it – through to her late 20's. IOW the present day.

Gee, victim much?

I bet she could pick out the one person most likely to abuse her in a crowd of 200 people, and unlike the rest of us she'd make a bee-line straight for that person and then whine about it when – no shit sherlock – that person treated her like crap, or worse.

She's over on another thread talking about how she is mean to people who contact her on dating sites.

I have decided to completely ignore her after this, because I bet if we all decided to NEVER AGAIN RESPOND TO ANY OF HER POSTS she would eventually go trolling for attention on some other web site.

Or enty could ban her.

Whatever makes her go away fastest, I'm all for it.

I mean, if she were INTERESTING? But she's not. She doesn't even know how to snark at other people in a creative way. She's just a black hole of vapid boring insults.

And OMG talk about easy to rile up? She takes the bait EVERY SINGLE TIME. It's like drop in a quarter and watch headrot foam at the mouth. No self-control.

I mean, what are the odds she will sit on her fingers and not reply to my post? ZERO.

That was the SECOND time that pearl clutching hypocrite started a witch hunt against me for no fucking reason, now it's a third. He attacked me on the grounds that I am a woman and specifically made derogatory comments about my feminist beliefs. It was deliberate fucking hate speech. I then threw his apology back in his face because I knew it was bs and even if it wasn't, no excuse!!! He even admitted his apology was bs & proceeded to attack my long term SO! Wtf, you leave so bad kids OUT! As I said earlier here, I want peace but that means he never mentions my fucking name again. Ever. Thanks teamLH. Do much love from Heusenberg

What kind of person trolls celebrity blind sites which are about the least important sites on the planet, and at the same time links to a blog with heavy personal shit on it?

Somebody going "look at me, look at me, HOW DARE YOU LOOK AT ME YOU PIGS," that's who.

And as far as I can tell, she went out of her way to imply that she wasn't opposed to suicide, which brought an outpouring of alarm and compassion and people trying to be helpful, then she turned on them for taking the bait, and called them all sorts of horrible names for basically being nice people.

I wasn't surprised how that played out because somebody who repeatedly seeks out the worst people she can find, simply doesn't know how to respond appropriately to kindness.

Although, I can't shake this suspicion that headrot is really a 45 year old virgin who weighs 300 pounds and farts a lot, living in an illegal in-law unit in her elderly parents' basement with orange cheeto powder all over her fingers, dreaming of the day her parents die so she can mortgage the house to get liposuction.

I get what you're saying, I really do. A lot of well intentioned readers offered help and she reacted. I am not supporting that reaction.

I don't remember headrot ever providing a link to her blog on a thread and I don't click on anyone's usernames. The only reason I ever read it or was even aware of it was when other readers posted it during an argument. I realize it was a public blog, but I'd be pissed if people took my dark shit and threw it in my face.

Oh and I say that as someone who is a jerk more often than not, which is why I would never dream of linking my "Why we should bring back Scooby Doo" blog.Stories and everything! I have it more CSI-like and Sha

@LadyH—You Go Girl! You win the internet. I did not say anything untrue and that negative about you on this thread so I really do not know why you are rambling on like an insane person. And all this #teamthis #teamthat is annoying as hell. We are not teenagers. I will of course be avoiding you like the plague. and why are you always bringing up Sandys name with me? *dont bother answering cause I dont care*. Enjoy your time here. I am sure you will be the boss of the weaker ones with #noactualpersonalitesoranythingactualyrelevanttosay

Yikes Kristin, I am sorry I misspelled your name (At least I didn't call ya Bibby).I hear you on that, being cruel or mean is never cool.Though I'm completely with Prunella in that headrot is a professional victim. Then when people try to be kind she takes a dump all over them.

I'm really not sure what her end game is, as it is certainly not about forming friendships or even any sort of civil relationship with fellow posters.

You accused me of having 90 user names! And what does telling me to fuck off on my "surfboard with Gloria Steimham" mean, followed by scaling me a"simple minded bitch." Sexist and a liar. Your words speak for themselves DH! You say you hate drama but coincidentally you seem to fucking love starting shit. Stop stealing you disses fromKhloes twitter too. Heisenberg out!

I never accused you have having 90 user names. You said "at least you posted under your actual poster name and not under a different name" and I said yeah not all of us use other names—(thats for people like your bud Ray)-I never directly accused you. and then you went batshit and then thats when I called you simple minded bitch. After you basically called me a poser. So yeah thats that- you were a jerk and so was I. and yes Roger That.

I agree on most fronts. The blog thing was brought up well before the Scott thread so I'm trying not to lump the two together.

And yes, I get the hypocrisy of "leave the blog alone" with my bringing it up. It's been too much gross use of someone's personal tragedy and there are too many good people on this site to be throwing shit like this.

@Kristin & Bacon, they were definitely two different things – done (from memory) by different posters/groups. I sort of skipped over the mean ones because it makes me a sad panda, but I think this is right:

- concern based on (fairly, imo) reading a linked blog -L'Wren post- mean spirited use of details from the blog to taunt (a few times & posts)

Pretty unnecessary.

We don't need to like everyone (I sure don't), but that kind of meanness says something fairly unpleasant about the speaker. It stains them, and makes me think they suck at being human.

@Kristin, I get what you're saying, but it's kind of hard to keep feeling empathy & compassion for one who spits on those who want to give *it* the benefit of the doubt. Sorry (not sorry), she lost me (& many others) when she repeatedly told well-meaning folks to kill themselves. *shrugs*

Look, Alia, I' ve had my unkind moments and I feel bad about that, y'know? As BR says…internet is forever. It's not easy at times, but I think it's important to try to be kind, and if you can't be kind, don't say anything. I *try* to live that way and I am not always successful, but dagnabbit, I try!

Ah, Kristin, long story short: was going to move, but decided not to, had the internet at house cut off, then when I was gonna have it turned back on, found out some yahoo in another country somehow raided my bank account and blah, blah, blah..

So, I have limited data on phone, read all you crazy folks every coupla days. I should be back to regular schedule in about 3 weeks.

@ Baconranch, the internet is forever and it scares me. I work with late teen/early 20's, and the things they think nothing of posting…. SMH. It will come back to bite them but they can't see that. When someone breaks the illusion of privacy, it bothers me.

@Derek HarveyWow. I must have missed that exchange. Derek, that was some misogynistic rambling if I have ever heard some (being a woman of my age, I have). Lady H is like a ray of sunshine on here – the American TTM!.

@Kristin and @SteampunkI became angry with headrot when she tried to make me and many others feel foolish for trying to help her, and for her unprovoked trolling of fancy and aemish.

Anyone who saw the l'Wren Scott thread would see that headrot thinks suicide is romantic, and that it is a viable option when things get too rough. At any time she could have said 'just kidding!'. Did she? No.It angers me that people may think this is what happens when you try to help a suicidal person. It isn't, of course. She was obviously never suicidal, and instead of just saying so, she accused people of not 'getting her' and the usual 'you're stupid', etc. stuff. It angers me that every time suicide is even mentioned on here, I know for a fact that there are dozens of people on here who cringe at the memories that even the word brings forth. I feel sorry for headrot in the sense that she is too narcissistic to seek help for herself. That would mean admitting that she has any problems, which is very difficult for a narcissist to do. It's much easier to blame the world and those around us.

and leek is too narcissistic to see that she is worthless and noone wants her "help" and all her "help" did is make things worse which is why i think she is a low life disgusting human being who isnt worth shit.

everything kristin said is right and why i absolutely cannot stand and loathe most of the people on here and refuse your "help" and think that youre idiotic scumbags and why i look down on most of you.

sorry thats so far beyond your comprehension. as for the justification of "oh its out there, so i can use it" i hope psychopaths find your addresses, because theyre out there, and show you what the worlds really about. because you put it out there, its perfectly ok to be used against you! amirite? obviously i am because its the fucking dumbass argument you all used.

my blogs was linked in my profile well before i started coming here. my mistake was thinking you all were decent human beings and keep blog shit on the blog. whoops! my bad. you burned my trust so i am disgusted by the fact people like leek even are allowed to exist in this world.

sooooo shocking.

as for why i dont want "help" when i dont have any problems from nosey bored housewives who cant even seem to help themselves who i dont even know? gee, really? if you cant figure that one out i dont know how you arnt a drooling vegetable.

i dont find suicide romantic. i think suicide is a fundamental right to choose that everyone should have and be able to freely exercise. their body, their life, their choice.

if any of you had bothered to ask for my feelings about it, rather than jumping on me and trying to force your forced, fake, lame, unwanted attempts at "help" you might have found that out. or if you had had the common respect and decency to back off when i asked you to.

i dunno, if you had ever acted like sane, rational, decent human beings, i'd treat you as such, like i treat other people on here who dont try to meddle in my life and act like sane, rational, decent human beings.

headrotHeadrot, you have offered information about yourself over the months. If you want personal information kept private you need to change the settings on your profile as soon as possible.

I did not post links to your blog or address anything that you hadn't already addressed yourself.

I was angry because of the way you treated people who were just trying to help. I'm a lot older than most here – I have a long fuse, but it did no good to let you keep trolling fancy for no reason without saying something.

If I were you I would apologize to the people you lashed out at. They were only trying to help. That is one way you can set things right.

I was a severe addict for longer than you've probably been on the planet. I was also in a co-dependent relationship for part of that time. I also know what it's like to love a person that is poison for you.

If I can quit, anyone can. I have no will-power. It actually came down to the realization that something else was controlling my life instead of me controlling it. My offers of help were not fake BTW.

BTW, I am not a housewife. Housewives do a hell of a lot of work, though and have to sometimes sacrifice their dreams temporarily, or even permanently to raise a family. Raising a family is the dream for some people, and that's all right by me. I have my own business so I can see more of my children. I am very fortunate.

There are some people on the board that are angry because they feel betrayed. They reached out to help. Instead of saying you were just joking or that you were all right, you immediately started spewing venom.

Spewing venom and blaming people for not understanding you is not a sign of being 'all right'. That is why people persisted: to make sure you were really all right. Most people would consider themselves fortunate if they had as many offers of help as you have had.

Suicide is a tragic answer to usually temporary problems. Stating that suicide is an answer to any problem other than problems of old age, or some extreme circumstance, makes people crazy. It's a selfish act that punishes the people around us.

The City Council announces the opening of a new dog park at the corner of Earl and Sommerset, near the Ralph’s. They would like to remind everyone that dogs are not allowed in the dog park. People are not allowed in the dog park. It is possible that you will see hooded figures in the dog park. DO NOT APPROACH THEM. DO NOT APPROACH THE DOG PARK. The fence is electrified and highly dangerous. Try not to look at the dog park, and, especially, do not look for any period of time at the hooded figures. The dog park will not harm you.

Did headrot just out herself as the poster who stalked another poster and took a pic of their house on the computer while also catching a reflection of themselves in the computer screen glare? Shinola.

Now, I'm feeling suicidal … or at least I want you to think I am. So, I'm going to go completely silent for 36 hours while you all desperately try to reassure me that I shouldn't commit suicide … then I'll come back and tell you what pathetic excuses for human beings you were for being worried about me.

Cuz you know, over on that "16 mistakes men make on dating sites" I actually posted that I'm passive-aggressive. It's what I live for.

Meanwhile, while you're all worrying about me, I'll be hanging out in my parents' basement eating KFC in my pajamas and trolling OTHER forums under a different name.

Because I'm not actually interested in celebrity gossip or any of the topics on the other forums I hang out on. I'm just interested in finding people to take the bait I dangle so that I can hijack threads, insult people, and make everything all about me, all the time.

It's the only way I can get any attention because in my real life, people have NO interest in me. I only feel important when I'm on-line and even then the only way I can get attention is to be a raging bitch.

@Leek, Steampunk and I were talking about something else. You either didn't read it, didn't get it, or choose to ignore it to insert yourself into the situation again. Sorry to be harsh, but I already read why you're angry with headrot. It has no bearing on why I think what has been done with her personal information is wrong.

@Leek—Clearly your intentions are good and you are a nice lady. However I would like to know what your definition of misogyny is cause I am one of the least misogynist guys on the planet-let alone on this site. Maybe you can join Count and the name that will not be mentioned and have a giggle about gang-rape porn and blue waffles. Cheers.

If SJP got that excited about someone saying her kids don't look like her, then she needs to take a seat. I don't look anything like my mother and she was continuously asked about my "adoption" when I was a little girl, but got over it.

On a side note, I find SJP extremely insecure about her education, hence her use of large words in random and slightly off ways.

Wow; what a thread! This could become a gold-standard model of how trolls operate when well-fed. They mix passive-aggressive button pushing with a smug, condescending tone to prompt replies.

Once they get a hoof in the door, they toss out baits to draw people in. Some trolls are simply miserable souls desperate for attention; others are angry sickos who deliberately scatter poison to throw commenters off-topic & set them at odds with one another.

After getting nourishment in a thread, the troll may drive the game further O/T with choice words here & there, but mission accomplished. Feeling well-fed, clever, & Important, the troll can sit back & relish the power trip of conning a friendly community into forgetting the ancient axiom: if it smells like a Troll, don't feed it! Ignore the critter til it moves elsewhere for sustenance. Otherwise, like harpies, they foul everything they touch.

Actually, CDAN is lucky. RADAR has a Troll Colony–some are basic attention-seekers, but there's also a cluster of bottom-feeding bigots… Oh, wait. A lot of them are just faithful readers .

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