Maybe she was embarrassed and hurt by the constant stream of abuse she gets about her looks, age and character: until she was too ashamed to tell him she felt that low and believed she needed to do this? She left the kids at home, and you know damn well there was a nanny or family member looking after them, not like she dropped them off at Wal-Mart alone! I hope she has a full recovery and that includes her self esteem. Her family loves her, and almost lost her, so I am sure there will be some honest conversations.

wonder what she was going to have done. let this be a lesson. she looks fine she doesn't fucking need plastic surgery. its gross when they overdo it. fuck its gross when they do it at all i'd never get any intense plastic surgery.

how did he not know she was getting it done? thats some marriage/relationship they got goin there…

They do this because of a severe fear of abandonment - and it worked! How many years, if ever, before Usher removes her from the situation? Not easy to
do when she keeps having his babies? Right?
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Soon he will take on the drawn, washed-out haggard pallor of Brad Pitt.
We all know how crazy his lady is - she at least announced it with regularity!
About the surgery:
My best friend's mother also has this illness - she too bears many of the classic
hallmarks of this woman & Mrs.Usher - they share too many too list here - she too, took off for plastic surgery without telling the family, to Romania!
AND her husband is a vascular surgeon!
So needless to say, he was all the more baffled/pissed about her taking chances with her health, and the unnecessary crazy making! WHY? WHY?
Always more questions than answers with these people!
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The Secret Surgery finally prompted me to post, because there are many with BPD out there, but we do nt have a name for it.. we just know they have this push/pull very manipulative personality that eventually drain all around them!

Re: Assume HATES Orchidslut – hahah love ur name. i hate her and harrybalsac and those idiots that are brittish and have their own conversations on the blogs. they talk about doing eachother & have a bunch of lame inside jokes … the sad thing is they r here every day doing it, on every post all the time. im surprised none of them have posted yet on this one. i hate orchidgirl, harrybalsac, and the 2 others that always talk to them.

First part of my post #17 was cut off -
I noted that I had feared that Tameka has Borderline Personality Disorder and know I am quite certain…
If anyone in Usher's circle is reading this, please google this mental illness and get to him the books, websites, professional advice that can assist him. He now has 2 children with this very manipulative, Jekyl & Hyde woman, and will be tied to her forever.. unless he can get custody and run.
People with BPD do not do impulsive things like get pregnant
then quickly get pregnant again
for obvious logical reasons, like
they want to marry the person with the money..
No. Not so simple.
They do secretive bizarre things like risky plastic surgery - lying to everyone, including her doctor! which we now know risked her life! - because they fear abandonment… (now proceed back to comment #17 for further explanation)

I just want to say that I'm sorry for being such a loser. I am obsessed with getting certain people kicked off this site because I have no life and I have massive rage issues. I know that I am a loser. It's the paint, I swear.

I am so into this site and I feel it is my destiny to rid it of people I have deemed unworthy! I know, I know…..you think guys think I'm stupid. I get that. But can't you understand how I feel? I hate these people. So much so it consumes my life! I should find a productive hobby but I feel this is so much more important. This is my dream!! Man, I am such a fucking weirdo!

Re: Mistress – Well, I have no life, remember?! Do you like my sexy picture? I like men but I can always use a woman's opinion. BTW Mistress, I hope you know that I really do like you. I only get mad at people when my lithium wears off! A growing boy needs his anti psychotic meds!
*** air hug***

What happened to her has got absolutely NOTHING to do with her not "cross-checking references" - it s what can happen to ANYONE in ANY surgery!! Correct would be to say, THINK TWICE if you intend to enhance your looks by plastic surgery whether it s really WORTH risking DEATH by embolism a.s.o.!

Re: Assume HATES Orchidslut – #20 Ummm you tore OG a new asshole for calling Alice a Nazi and now this offering from you????
What the hell have ANY of these people EVER done to you???
If you are SO threatened by a group of people who like to say hi, then it's very simple - don't come here.
The problem now is that you're addicted to the hate and the attention.
But trust me on this one loser - if Perez bans anyone - it wont be anyone on your list sunshine!!!!!

Re: theresalongo – LMFAO - It is you!!!! - what kind of silly tramp posts her full name and a photo like that.
Cracked me up to see that you're desperate for people to vote for you to be on Paris Hiltons new BFF show.
And you think we're lame.
For fucks sake tragedy whore - get a real life.

I feel for Tameka… It's clear she was doing this to stay slim and trim and still sexually appealing for her man… and not only any man… but Usher who has a pretty public past as a bit of a playa, who day in and day out is surrounded by model after model. Yes he's settled down and has kids, but that is not fool proof…

Re: Mistress – #39 I know right? I'm a fucking weirdo! I spend my days wanting total strangers to be kicked off a gossip site! What kind of loser freak does that? Why do I care so much? Holy shit, I AM A FREAK SHOW! A very, very, very STUPID freak show!
Man, I have to go. I need to knit. Knitting helps quiet the voices. Hehehehe.

Tameka is older than him and her attempt to look forever young put her in danger. But I understand, she is not the only one who lives in the entertainment industry who has gone under the knife to preserve her looks and she will not be the last… people should really lay off and give her some respect, she's only human… and more importantly she almost died

Re: Sweet_Dee – Actually she's a hypocrite - she's been quoted as saying she's not some "25 year-old cookie-cutter size 2" and she's proud of it. Then she hops onto a plane to Brazil for some hush-hush cosmetic surgery?!!

What a great Mom! Leaving your newborn behind (during some of the most critical bonding time) to go under the knife in Brazil. She's a low-class idiot. And this marriage won't last - you don't hide stuff like this from your husband! Usher could do much better.

Re: Assume HATES Orchidslut – HEY DUMBFUCK! YOU ARE ON HERE EVERYDAY! NOT ME! AND I HAVE NEVER EVEN REPLIED ONE COMMENT TO YOUR RETARD RANTS! I COME ON HERE FOR FUN AND YOU COME ON TO TELL OFF PEOPLE YOU DON'T KNOW AND UNDER DIFFERENT AVATARS! THAT TAKES A LOT OF TIME AND ENERGY SO WHO'S THE LOSER YOU FUCKING RETARD! I CAN'T STAND OG MYSELF BUT YOU ARE JUST LIKE HER! GET A FUCKING LIFE YOU ANNOYING IGNORAMOUS!

Re: Assume HATES Orchidslut – I never said this MY site you cum guzzling ass clown, go pick the peanuts outta my shit and have yourself little snack! Why am I even brothering to acknowledge a POS like you?

Re: Assume HATES Orchidslut – You dumb motherfucker…you are just like OG. All your pansy ass does is WHINE. You whine about EVERYTHING! I think you're actually worse than her. Get a fucking life you dumbass whiner! Oh wow, you hate a bunch of people on Perez, you poor thing! Jesus, you are such a whiner! You say we think we own this site? Are you fucking serious? YOU are the one who thinks he owns this dumb site. Get a life, buy a fucking clue, and SHUT THE FUCK UP!

Re: LettyB – STFU Letty! You're a fucking liar. YOU ARE ON HERE EVERYDAY BITCH! the only reason you haven't been here so fucking often recently is because your new BOSS has to babysit you! you're a fucking loser! You know what LICK ME BITCH! you're a joke hahahaha

Re: Two Goofballs – Ooohhh, I'm scared now. Some freak on Perez is mad at me and wants me to die. Wow, you really are a loser! Hehehehehehehe…..waaa-waaa, I hate Harry, Alice, and Letty! Waaaaa-waaaa. Why the fuck do you care?
I think you should really try some lithium. You need it badly bitch. Muahahahahahaha….

Re: Two Goofballs – PLEASE BITCH! YAH I ACTUALLY HAVE WORK TO DO KNOW BUT ACTUALLY EVEN WHEN I CAN COME ON I DON'T BECAUSE OF IDIOTS LIKE YOU WHO FIGHT WITH INTERNET PEOPLE THEY DON'T KNOW AND ACTUALLY HATE THEM! GET OVER YOURSELF YOU PUNK ASS BITCH! YOU SOUND LIKE OG, SO GO CRY ME A RIVER YOU WHINY LITTLE FUCKFACE!

Re: Two Goofballs – What is your problem? Seriously? I don't think I have ever said anything to you before. So I say hello to some people on here. Wow, call CNN! Why do you care so much? If you want to hate on me, go ahead. Think whatever you want. But you seriously need to get over yourself. People are allowed to say whatever they want in here. If Perez didn't like it, he'd ban a whole lot of people. Including you. If people saying hi to each other here bothers you so much, don't come here. Because we are not the only ones doing it.
Peace out.

Dude you can bitch about Brazil for all sorts of reason (pretty much all of them, I f*ing hate the country), but one thing you cannot say is that Brazilian plastic surgeons are crap.
Do your research: Brazil is one of the leading countries in plastic surgery. Yes there are A LOT of charlatans as there are anywhere else, but don't go saying she went to Brazil to find a irresponsible doctor, because she could have easily found that in the USA.

she is so dumb, There has been other things I think she has been shady about in the past, I don't think he even wants to be with her. That is why she is popping out kids because she thinks he will have to stay with her if she does this.