How to Use a Dildo for Maximum Pleasure

So, have you either made an impulsive or very well thought through decision to buy a dildo, but it’s just not as great as people make it seem?

Well, that’s probably because you don’t know how to use a dildo for maximum pleasure!

You’re probably thinking “It’s a dildo, how on earth can I use it any different to how I am already?” yet here you are, on your browser, trying to find ways to make it more pleasurable 😉

When owning a sex toy, it can be a bit hard at first to figure out exactly how to use it for maximum pleasure. This is often the reason why some people decide that they simply don’t work for them, but with a little bit more experimenting and some help from OhGee, you can learn how to give yourself mouthwatering orgasms.

Does that sound good? Does it sound like exactly what you need? Then let us give you some guidance on how to use a dildo!

How to use a dildo

Find “Mr. Right”

When it comes to owning and using a dildo, the most important aspect is to find one that suits you just right. Surprisingly, there are MANY different shapes, sizes, colours, added features, materials and textures for you to explore, so you might own a few dildos until you find the one that’s perfect for you.

Besides the above mentioned, the most important thing to keep in mind is the size of the dildo – they can start off rather small, but also reach rather very intimidating sizes that aren’t for the faint-hearted.

So, buy a few, explore, experiment and have some fun while you’re at it!

Curves aren’t only for boys to admire

We HIGHLY recommend you get yourself a dildo that has a bit of a “twist” to it. This makes hitting your G-spot A LOT easier which is sometimes hard to achieve with a normal penis-shaped one.

Curved dildos are going to make you have those toe-curling orgasms you’ve always dreamt of, so be sure to invest in one from the start!

Don’t rush your “me” time

If you are looking to kick back, relax and have some fun on your own, you have to make time for it.

No one can thoroughly enjoy solo play sessions when they feel rushed, nervous or out of place. There’s nothing wrong with a quickie, but if you’re here to experiment and figure out how to use a dildo properly, it simply won’t do.

The more time you have, the easier it will be for you to find out what feels good and what doesn’t, because you’ll have the time to try different things.

So, be sure to keep that door locked if you live with other people and make yourself relaxed and ready.

Create some ambience

Have you ever set the mood in the past right before a guy or girl came over to your house? Dim the lights, put some candles around the house, light some incense and put on something sexy?

You should do that for yourself, too!

Even if it sounds a bit weird for now, once you do it, you will immediately notice the difference.

Setting the mood can help you feel more at ease and ready to unwind after a long day of work and responsibilities.

Get yourself into the right mindset, clear your thoughts and make time to focus on nothing other than yourself and your dildo and the fun you’re about to have!

Lube is your best friend

As you know, being lubed up always makes things better and well, your dildo doesn’t provide its own lube.

So, head on over to our Lubricants and find one that sounds good to you! There are many different kinds of lubes, but using a water-based lubricant with your dildo is all you need.

Lube doesn’t only help with the initial penetration, but can aid in your orgasm too!

Now that you know a bit more about how and when to masturbate, we’re going to have a look at some techniques to help you find what makes you feel good – in ALL kinds of ways.

Begin slowly! No one ever goes all out as soon as they start off. Get yourself warmed up with some slow movements until you feel your lust increase, then start to play around with speed.

Try and go a bit deeper now that you are ready for some more penetration. This can be very fun and a big tease if you want to see how deep you can make it go, so have some fun with this one!

Now, go shallow. Teasing yourself can be just as fun as pleasing yourself, so try and play around with it a bit and see if it feels better this way.

Different speeds can be a great way to find out how you like it – start off slow and then increase your speed until you find what makes you feel good.

Different positions aren’t only for when you have sex! Try lying on your side or even sitting on the couch – being penetrated from another angle can take you by surprise.

Don’t forget about the rest of your body – touch your breasts, your thighs, your stomach – all of this can aid in your pleasure.

There we have it, ladies! Are you a bit more confident about how to use a dildo now? Are you excited? Are you on your bed yet?

We hope these tips and tricks have helped you figure out what you need to do in order to get maximum pleasure from your dildo.