She’s been through a lot in her life and still hasn’t even hit double figures yet. She has Cerebral Palsy – Spastic Diplegia, which slows her down from doing a lot of things that she’d like to. But at the same time this little star would never let you believe that she suffers in any way. If she wants to do it, she lets you know and she does it.

This is my happy mug. Even my wife doesn’t know my little secret. I only use it when I think I’m doing well as a daddy/husband. If I’m being a c*nt (the only expletive I feel I can’t type on here) then one of the others gets used for my copious amounts of tea and coffee that I drink until I get my head together. And that is where this blog post comes in……

I love my wife obviously. But is she my only love? No of course not. I cheat on her regularly. Am I proud? Yeah why not?! Should I be scared of her finding out? She knows already! Am I going to stop…….never!

One of the reasons for this blog and Instagram account is to tell my story about how I fell into a very deep hole and somehow managed to climb out! I say “climbed” in the past tense but “still climbing” is probably more accurate. “Clinging on by my fingernails” could also describe it, but luckily for me, that’s only on a few days here and there.

Who am I?

Dad's are like shed's! No one really knows what's inside them. Once you get inside, you get kind of lost and distracted. They often look nice on the outside but when you do finally get the lock off and get inside, it can be a minefield of lost things and hidden treasures. Well that's my take on on it anyway. That's me I suppose. And that's what this blog is about, me, my life and all the stuff hidden inside.