Hey this is OP. I didn't know this got posted until looking at the new fml's. This happened this weekend a few days after my birthday no less. Part of it is my fault I've been working hard doing two jobs to save up enough money to hopefully move in with her someday. But this left me with barely little time to spend with her and she took it as me losing interest in her so she started dating someone else without me knowing and I didn't find out until she admitted it hours after I texted her.
I still talk to her and she does feel terrible but whatever. Thanks to everyone for the support and I'm just taking it one day at a time now.

She should feel terrible. If she felt there was a problem, she should have talked about it with you, and it was also wrong of her to not officially break it off before dating someone else. Furthermore, breaking up over text message is extremely rude and uncaring in my book. I know it's harsh, but I think any guilt she feels she brought on herself.

I believe she pretty much initiated the break up by saying she is dating someone else. Why the hell would they kill the person she is dating?! They didn't have anything to do with it. This is her fault not the other guys. Go see a therapist for that remark.

She could have done the break up in a much better way. One of those ways being in person and well, before she started seeing someone else. I hate people who don't have the balls to break up in person. She's just a classic bitch who doesn't seem to actually give a fuck about other people's feelings.