In Your Life on Wednesday, September 7 : If you feel insecure, try not to allow feelings of uncertainty make you appear needy by repeatedly looking for reassurance. You may imagine that everyone else feels confident. If you persist in making comparisons you suffer personally and eventually spoil an easy-going relationship. Self-consciousness, lowered physical energy and bouts of nervousness are the basis for needless fears. Being a good listener and taking a non-aggressive, tolerant approach calms your discomfort. Today’s challenge: You are sensitive and may be unduly suspicious…it’s best not to reveal your feelings to others = for many reasons, “Silence is golden.”