Your Girliness is not as high as other females in some areas, but you're much more girly (in good and bad ways) than others in some ways. To tell people you don't or won't do girly things, then turn around and do something super girly makes you look like a fucking ass.

You're. A. Girl.

Do what you have to. Do things your own way. But accept it and shut the fuck up about not taking a traditional path. Be smart enough to take That Fruitcake's actions as a warning for yourself. Yes, that's exactly how stupid you look when you do it.