And so all these probable millennia is this how time works? Just like the rest of sex, the best way to mix up your BJ routine is to get tips and advice from other people. Which is where we come in.

For some, being able to give an incredible blow job and leave their lover panting with pleasure is a point of pride. However, others lack confidence. It can be empowering to know that you are completely in charge of making your man feel amazing, making the experience genuinely enjoyable for both partners.

I used to hate giving them major emphasis on hatebut now —somehow, maybe miraculously — I love giving them. As the resident GBF gay best friend in my friend group I could write an entire other article about that onemy girlfriends often ask me for advice on how to help with men. They want to know what to buy them for their birthdays, what clothes they should wear to impress their boyfriends, etc.

You're going for pleasure, not pain and injuries. Avoid accidentally recreating a scene from Interview with the Vampire while you're giving head. It can be difficult to plan these things in advance, but you don't want to find yourself in the middle of everything stuck in an uncomfortable position like all your weight resting on your pinkies, for instance.

My boyfriend and I are entering oral sex territory. I am looking forward to him performing on me, but I am really worried about my reciprocating. The first thing I want to tell you is that nobody really knows how to give head their first time, but chances are it still ends up going pretty well.

Blow jobs are an incredibly hard art to perfect, and something many of us worry about doing right and doing well. The obvious answer to the age old question of "How do you give a good blow job? Literally, ask them.

You are offering an intimate part of your body — your mouth, your breath, your voice. Expert head queens are to be revered. These are people who truly, unabashedly love sucking dick.

Men go absolutely weak in the knees for you after an amazing blowjob. Perhaps you know how to perform oral sex enthusiastically, which is great. If you keep defaulting to the same routine and tricks every time you go down on him, it might be time to revisit some some tips on how to give a good blowjob or even the best blowjob ever.

In real life, blowjobs can be an incredibly fun experience for the giver. Still, you want to find a position that feels good for you. He can be sitting on the edge of the bed or sofa he can lie back if he wantsor even standing. You can even position yourselves in front of a mirror if you really want to play up the voyeuristic aspect.