Making Transitions at Any Age

2019 will be another year of making transitions. Some of them will be small and some will be very big. Many people believe that making transitions is hard. While transitions can be challenging, they do not have to be difficult unless we believe they do, even the big ones.

What we believe is what we create. When we embrace transitions
as steps in our evolution and surrender to the changes, making transitions can mean
exciting new adventures.

Making Transitions at 90

Not many seniors get excited about moving into assisted
living or nursing care. Most that I know have resisted the process and made
their transitions difficult because they refuse to surrender to the changes
that come with aging. However, it does not have to be that way.

My 90 (almost 91) -year-old mother moved from her house of
21 years into assisted living the last week of 2018. This is the main reason
you have not heard from me for a while. The children descended on her and went
to work to get things done and make her new room as cozy as possible.

We were buzzing around Mom and moving fast because we were
on a very tight schedule. This meant that decisions had to be made quickly and that
Mom had to watch much of her life go out the door to friends or Goodwill. Not
easy.

But Mom had chosen to accept the move as in her best
interest. She did not want to give up her house or what she felt was her
independence and control. She did not want to feel needy or old. However, like
it or not, she acknowledged that she is 90 years old with a variety of
conditions which made it unsafe for her to continue alone in the house. Her
life had to change.

Mom surrendered and flowed with the energy as best she
could. Yes, there were some grumblings and tears on occasion and everything is
not perfect. But, all in all, she made the transition beautifully because she
accepted the changes as in her highest good.

Flowing with the Energy of Transition

Making transitions easy is about surrendering to our soul’s
desire and the plan for our highest good. My mother would not use the same
language that I use but she saw the power is what was happening. Everything
happened quickly and relatively easily. She often said she saw the Lord’s hand in this move even though her lower-self
was not that excited.

Fighting the flow of
our creations creates stress, worry, and difficulty. Instead of struggling to
hold on to what is not in the highest good, find the reasons for what you are creating
and learn from them. Find what is good in your creation and focus on that. Trust
and flow with the energy of transition.

Whatever your transitions are for this year, use your spiritual tools to make your transitions as easy and joyful as possible. Use resonances including Divine:

Transition

Ease and Flow

Safety and Security

Faith

Trust

Detachment

Surrender

The Divine Plan

You can do this, you know
you can. Make transitions an effortless aspect of your evolution. Embrace the
changes and the necessary transitions and be the master that you are. A joyous
2019 to us all.

9 Comments

Chris
on January 20, 2019 at 7:26 am

Thank you,Marsha,
That was so “on point” for me, I am working on it daily. I try to concentrate on the Highest plan and with your and Lori’s help, I “shall endure”. Much love and light and gratitude.
Chris

Transitions are challenging, whether in life experiences or when riding a horse. (transitions in riding is changing from walk to trot, walk to canter, canter to trot etc) It takes lots of practice to make them smooth! I am once again getting lots of practice with the life experiences sort… I will say I am getting better at it, even though it can be emotionally challenging at times. I am glad to hear your Mom made one of the “big ones” with grace. Bless her and “all the children.”

Thanks Marsha for the resonance list and positive take on embracing transitions. Sending light and love and Wishing grace and all the best for your Mom on her new journey. I’m so proud of all our elders making those changes joyfully.