It saddens me, but does not surprise me, that most of responses I've
received from LDS readers about my review of Mel Gibson's film The Passion of
the Christ were devoted to chastising me for "defying the prophets" by
counseling people to see an R-rated movie while "scoffing at those who are
obedient."

I never scoff at those who are obedient to the prophets.

But yes, I do have a low opinion of those who take a piece of wise counsel
completely out of context, turn it into a general rule that was never intended,
and then use it to persecute others for being less righteous than they are.

This past Sunday, for instance, which was a testimony meeting in some
wards, one sister (who later wrote to me) stood up and bore her testimony
about how seeing The Passion had brought new awareness to her of the
meaning of the sacrament.

At the end of the meeting, the bishop's counselor, in an obvious rebuke,
told the members, "I would just like to say that our church does not condone
going to see R-rated movies based on their violence, graphic and sexual
content."

Then, at the end of a joint priesthood/Relief Society meeting that same
day, a member of the stake presidency "challenged" members not to go to see
The Passion of the Christ.

So here we had two local leaders of the Church, specifically charging
their members not to go see the very movie that the world was condemning
because it was too Christian -- and all because they apparently believed there is
a Church commandment forbidding members ever, under any circumstances,
to go to an R-rated movie.

But what is the truth? (You remember, the thing that will set you free, if
you take the trouble to find out what it is.)

Only one President of the Church has made an official statement that
mentioned R-rated movies. On three occasions, President Ezra Taft Benson,
when speaking specifically to the youth of the Church, mentioned films so
rated.

Here is an actual quotation, in its context. I know it will be a lot of
trouble for some people to read what the prophet actually said instead of
merely repeating a rumor of it as a means of condemning other Saints -- but
now and then it's worth it, don't you think?

Remember, President Benson is speaking to the young men of the
Church when he says:

"Consider carefully the words of the prophet Alma to his errant son,
Corianton, 'Forsake your sins, and go no more after the lusts of your eyes.'
(Alma 39:9.)

"'The lusts of your eyes.' In our day, what does that expression mean?

"Movies, television programs, and video recordings that are both
suggestive and lewd.

"Magazines and books that are obscene and pornographic.

"We counsel you, young men, not to pollute your minds with such
degrading matter, for the mind through which this filth passes is never the
same afterwards. Don't see R-rated movies or vulgar videos or participate in
any entertainment that is immoral, suggestive, or pornographic. Don't listen to
music that is degrading" (Ensign, May 1986, p 43).

The mention of R-rated movies is clearly linked to a specific goal --
keeping one's mind free of entertainment that is "immoral, suggestive, or
pornographic." The purpose of the Prophet's wise counsel is to keep us from
entertainment that will excite sexual lust in an inappropriate context.

That is absolutely true counsel. I can affirm it from my own regretted
experience. The summer before my mission, I was working in a theatre
company, and at a party one night, somebody brought out a Swedish porn film
(this was before videos -- yes, I'm that old) that some clown had brought home
from his mission. Nobody dared to admit they were too righteous to watch it.
But it was unpleasant, ugly, disgusting. I vowed never to see another, or
anything like it.

Despite my immediate regret and repentance, guess what came to my
mind a few months later, as I went through the temple for the first time? It
took a lot of prayer to get that out of my head.

When President Benson says, "the mind through which this filth passes
is never the same afterwards," he's absolutely right. I knew I shouldn't watch
it before I did; what I didn't know was that it would never go away. I hope the
prophet's words can keep others from making similar mistakes.

But what does any of this have to do with a beautiful, faith-based film
like The Passion of the Christ? How does President Benson's counsel even
remotely apply to this work of Christian art? There is nothing in this film that
appeals to the "lusts of your eyes"; there is nothing "lewd" or "obscene" or
"immoral, suggestive, or pornographic."

Quite the contrary. This film inspires you to feel gratitude to the Savior
and love for those that he loved and who loved him. It inspires you with a
dread of and revulsion for Satan and all his ways. It leaves you with a broken
heart and a contrite spirit.

In my review, I specifically said that this film was not for children. The
R-rating is exactly appropriate -- unless parents are sure their children are
mature enough to deal with powerful scenes of the unspeakable things done to
the Savior's body, and accompany them to see it, those children should not be
permitted inside the theater.

But perhaps you think the words of other General Authorities justify
publicly rebuking other Saints for seeing this film, or "challenging" members of
a stake to specifically avoid a movie about the suffering of Christ.

Here are the words of Elder Joe J. Christensen: "It is a concern that
some of our young Latter-day Saints, as well as their parents, regularly watch
R-rated and other inappropriate movies and videos. One more reason why the
'devil laugheth, and his angels rejoice' (3 Ne. 9:2)" (Gen. Conf. Oct. 1996).

Well, of course it's a concern when members regularly see inappropriate
movies. I agree that seeing R-rated movies should be extremely rare. Perhaps
one should obey Elder Christensen's counsel by seeing such films only when
they faithfully depict the sacrifice of the Savior.

What about the counsel of Elder H. Burke Peterson: "Again I say, leave it
alone. Turn it off, walk away from it, burn it, erase it, destroy it. I know it is
hard counsel we give when we say movies that are R-rated, and many with
PG-13 ratings, are produced by satanic influences. Our standards should not
be dictated by the rating system. I repeat, because of what they really
represent, these types of movies, music, tapes, etc. serve the purposes of the
author of all darkness" (Gen. Conf. Oct. 1993).

I affirm to you here and now that The Passion of the Christ is definitely
not produced by satanic influences. In fact, the very people who do create films
with satanic influences were arrayed against this film, to try to suppress it or
keep it from being released. This is a film that is specifically meant to bless the
lives of Christians -- and others -- with a living awareness of the sacrifice of
Christ and his unfathomable love for us. Does anyone really think this was the
kind of film Elder Peterson was warning us against?

You who take quotes out of context: When Elder Peterson says "our
standards should not be dictated by the rating system," why not take that as
the principle to guide us?

If you and your family decide never to see R-rated or PG-13 movies,
without exception, then by all means, I won't condemn you for doing so. But it
is outrageous when you condemn others for reaching a different decision about
a particular movie.

We have laws and rules in our church that are adamant: No coffee. No
tea. No alcohol, tobacco, or dangerous drugs. That's a commandment.

No dating -- not even group dating -- before age sixteen. That's a rule,
and I salute parents who insist, as we did, on following it even when other
parents decide their child is "mature" enough to be the exception. (If your kid
is so mature, I always wonder, then why isn't he or she mature enough to want
to follow clear, longstanding Church rules?)

But there are other rules that the Church leadership specifically resists
interpreting for us. Keeping the sabbath day holy, for instance -- we are
expected to decide in our own family precisely how we go about obeying that
commandment, and people draw the line in different places. For instance,
nobody that I know of has ever been disciplined by Church leaders because
their employment requires Sunday work -- or how could any Saints work at
the Church's own tv and radio stations?

Tithing is another law about which we are taught the correct principle,
and then govern ourselves. President Hinckley in particular has tried to get us
to make wise decisions about such things on our own, refusing to get roped
into giving us specific regulations that allow us to turn off our own
consciences.

Yet there are always Latter-day Saints who want to live in a pharisaical
church.

The Pharisees had a pious goal: Because they wanted to avoid disobeying
the law even by accident, they decided to "build a fence around the law,"
surrounding the deep principles of Torah with a lot of small, specific
regulations, so that by obeying those little rules, the Lord's people could be
sure they wouldn't accidentally stray from the great law.

The problem is that such a "fence around the law" can give us a false
sense of safety. It's so easy to obey such laws and yet join the category of
"fools" and "hypocrites" that Jesus repeatedly rebuked. You condemn your
brother for the mote in his eye, Jesus said, but don't see the beam in your own.
The sabbath was made for man, not man for the sabbath.

Paul called them whited sepulchers, those hyper-obedient souls who
went to extraordinary lengths to defend the law -- and broke it repeatedly with
their pride and their persecution of others.

Surely we can recognize that Jesus was not being lax or careless with the
law when he resisted the Pharisees.

On the contrary. Jesus was teaching us that you can't build a fence
around the law, and then feel safe. Instead you have to take the law into your
heart and embrace it so that you understand and obey its purpose.

Isn't that what Jesus was talking about when he warned us that merely
avoiding adultery wasn't enough, that merely refraining from killing people
wasn't enough. If in your heart you're a lawbreaker, then how can you be
considered clean in the eyes of God?

Maybe I'm completely wrong. Maybe the Savior really means to have
local leaders of the Church rebuke someone for bearing a testimony of what
they learned about the Savior from watching a beautiful film created by faithful
artists who love him. Maybe the prophet and General Authorities who urged
us to avoid lewd and obscene and suggestive films meant for us to use this as a
reason for not seeing a powerful, moving film that was rated R in order to warn
parents that it might be too powerful for their children.

But I don't think I'm wrong. I'm reasonably confident that the goal of the
prophet and General Authorities who urged us (particularly the youth) to avoid
R-rated films was to keep us from seeing sexually provocative films that would
seduce us into following the "lust of our eyes."

I don't think they intended for us to so blindly obey that we couldn't tell
the difference when a movie was given an R because it absolutely, strictly,
literally followed a very painful portion of the scriptures.

There's another exceptional movie coming out soon. It's called Saints
and Soldiers, and may well be the best war movie ever made -- and there have
been some very fine movies that attempted to explore the moral and human
dimensions of war.

This film has been given a preliminary R-rating. I find this almost
laughable, because I've seen more violence in movies like the Jim Carrey
Grinch. And there is absolutely nothing lewd, suggestive, obscene, or immoral
in this film.

The movie was made by talented Mormons who were determined to
examine important moral issues at a time when our own country is at war and
these issues are not just academic. It is ironic that because the MPAA, in its
madness, has slapped an R on this film, many Mormons will self-righteously
condemn this movie.

Maybe what we need is for all of us Latter-day Saints to take the words of
our leaders in their proper context, and with a full sense of our personal
responsibility for making moral judgments instead of blindly following rules
even in situations that clearly were not intended.

For instance, President Benson's remarks quoted above were part of a
sermon urging young Mormons to read the Book of Mormon and take its
lessons to heart. Alma 31 might make interesting reading for those who
condemn others for having a different view of what the gospel requires them to
do. Sometimes those who are most sure they are right -- so sure that they
would rebuke a fellow saint in testimony meeting -- are the ones who have
actually got it wrong.

But I'm not optimistic. Even as I get pilloried by the PC Left for publicly
defending marriage in an essay a couple of weeks ago, I get mail just as hate-filled and virulent from Mormons, because I dared to suggest that the advice
about R-rated movies should not be construed as applying to Mel Gibson's
Christ-loving film.

And I confidently predict that this essay will provoke even more angry
letters assuring me, in a spirit of brotherhood, that I'm obviously a servant of
Satan.

Meanwhile, as American Christians embrace this great movie about the
Savior, a significant percentage of Mormons are boycotting it -- because they
have turned their consciences over to Hollywood.