TALK TO ME!!!!!

I WAS IN MIAMI THIS PAST WEEKEND AND YOU KNOW WHEN YOU WALK AROUND PEOPLE WANNA TAKE PICTURES. I’M COOL NO PROBLEM, BUT EVERY TIME I TOOK A PICTURE WITH A GIRL OR GIRLS THEY ALWAYS HAD SOMETHING SLICK TO SAY LIKE “HIS GIRL GONNA BE MAD YOU ALL OVER HIM LIKE THAT” AND HER FRIEND REPLIES “WHAT SHE DON’T KNOW WON’T HURT HER”. “HOLD ME TIGHTER LIKE YOU KNOW ME”, SO MUCH SLICK SHIT IT BROUGHT ME TO THIS. IF A GUY WAS TO FALL FOR A GIRL THAT SAID SOMETHING LIKE THAT TO HIM, WHAT MAKES HER THINK THE SAME THING IS NOT GONNA HAPPEN TO HER?? #2 QUESTION DO WOMEN EVEN CARE ANYMORE THAT A MAN HAS A GIRL?? TALK TO ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Briiizy
February 1, 2010, 1:57 pm

Good topic… I agree with Anita… some women just have no tact or respect. That is the very reason why I have like 3 good female friends in my circle… I don’t trust them as far as I can spit. If a man will cheat on his girl with you… or flirt with you OBVIOUSLY he’ll do it to you if you were is girl.

So… here’s a perfect reason why we need to choose our men wisely. Don’t chose someone who isn’t mature enough to deal with the thirsty lurking females. Its not just celebrities either, I see it with my guy friends. Women have ZERO respect for other women.

When girls handle themselves like that and think that going into a relationship like that and the he man is going to be with them especially when they approached the man in that manner, men are visual, so when they see somehting they like and another chick comes up and does the same thing and he likes/ attracted to that then he’s going to move on to the “new” thing.
REAL WOMEN care if a man is in a relationship,its all about respect. GIRLS, little girls say immature thing like that and its alot of them around.

When its a man with money…no. when it come to a “baller” most women feel there are no rules. (A baller does not have to be rich. Its just better. Than what they have) A lot of times girls just feel like they are out to get theirs not matter what. They figure most men cheat anyway. Men do it too. I can’t tell u how many times a guy has tried to talk to me and the first thing I said to him was “I have a boyfriend” and they continued to ask for my #. Like what I said was just casual convo. When women feel u don’t care we won’t either. Its sad but true.

Good topic JD, see those weren’t women. Their age may be adult but their minds are little ass girls with low self esteem and are only defined by a man, they don’t care whose man, just a man. I know females like that. It’s a mind thing. They don’t value who they are and they are followers and not leaders. These chicks are miserable they don’t like or love themselves thats why they do it. They think it’s cool! They are just dumb dumbs. I mean who are their mothers, how were they raised. It’s actually sad. Because it’s getting worse. And the question is JD, what nigga would fall for a chick like that? I respect relationships i don’t think that there is anything sexy about a man in a relationship. In my mind, It’s like ok he’s in a relationship, oh well move on to the next guy, but in those hoes mind, I still got a chance! lol!! now thats crazy and low. And you know a guy actually tried to holla and i found out he had a girl for like some years and i was so pissed off because i was like this nigga tried me. It’s females who would have still talked to him, but me hells no.. that is not cute at all. If you love and value who you are you wouldn’t do things like that!

Those grown ass GIRLS have no self respect, or respect for anyone. JD you should have told them that they need to grow up and get some type of self esteem. The fact that you posted this shows this shows that you find what they are doing to be wrong; you need to let them know that that is not attractive and that they have serious issues if they will approach a man in a relation or a man period like that.
I will say that i’ve noticed more and more women acting in this manner, and it is disturbing; however, as disrespectful as she is, she is not the one in the relationship. It’s up to the man in the relationship to let her know that he will not let his relationship or his girl be disrespected in that manner. Lets not always put it on the other person. I was so happy to see a guy put a thirsty ass broad in check over the wknd that I was speechless. He flat out let her know that not simply because he came to the club with his boys was he going to let her disrespect what he and his girl had. We need more guys like that to let these birds know their behavior is not acceptable and is quite desperate. Don’t just stand there and grim your ass off when they are saying this type of dumb shit, because by doing that you make them feel like you somewhat are feeling what they are saying.

Wow, this topic. All females are not like that and I am one, but there is alot that are and they are always scheming.
Question # 1 IF A GUY WAS TO FALL FOR A GIRL THAT SAID SOMETHING LIKE THAT TO HIM, WHAT MAKES HER THINK THE SAME THING IS NOT GONNA HAPPEN TO HER?? Females like that dont think that is going to happen to them because think they are untouchable. They put in their mind their sex is so on point that the guy is gonna leave his girlfriend for them. And some of them don’t even want a relationship they just want a sexual relationship because it gives them a thrill to be sleeping with someone else man. Especially when they know the guy really like his girlfriend. They like causing drama and pain towards others. Yeah they may say we can have sex with no strings attach but thats a lie.

Question # 2 DO WOMEN EVEN CARE ANYMORE THAT A MAN HAS A GIRL?? HELL NO, alot of them dont care, as I mention before it gives them a thrill sleeping with someone else man. It’s a challenge to them, it gives those type of females a false sense of power, example: they say things like, well if he really like his girlfriend then he wouldnt be sleeping with me or yeah she got all that going on but im sleeping with her man so she aint all that.

Females like that are immature and alot of females now a days think they can do what guys do but they fail to realize like Betty Wright said in her song “Girls cant do what the guys do and still be a lady”, and for those females who think the man is gonna leave his girlfriend for them and get mad when he dont so they cause all type of drama they need listen to Dmx ft Sisqo song “What these chicks want from a ####”.

I was in situations like that twice, but I was the girlfriend and whats so sad they knew I existed and they didnt care. They just wanted something I had and even when I broke up with the guys those females still was trying to cause drama with me (but was sneakie with it). So i realize it was personal, they wanted to be me even if it was just sleeping with my man.

Now JD, there are females who just want a sexual relationship and no strings attach they just need what they call a maintenance man. I respect those women because they dont cause drama and they real with their stuff not SNEAKIE.

JD those other females like question 1 and 2, if they will sleep with a man knowing he have a girlfriend then they would not hesitate to sleep with that man homeboys. And would not hesistate to set that man up, cause drama, scheme to get pregnant by him (oh i was in situation like that too, they felt if they have a baby by him then thats the only way they can keep him) and just cause hefic. Alot of these females only care about themselves and their false pride, some even make the guy think he so special but all in all its really about her, that guy is just a pawn.

Can’t put all the blame on females like that because their are guys who like females like that because it gives them a false sense a power to see females fighting over them, or a female saying if i cant have you no one cant (guy dont realize the chick is NUTS like the women Brandi in the movie ‘”A thin line between love and hate” ,who was portray as a classy women but she was NUTS). Some guys get a false sense a power in which they think they lay the pipe down so well, they tell their homeboys i got her going crazy (yeah you got her going crazy just like that female character in the movie “Dont be a menace to southcentral while drinking your juice in the hood”, the one who said to Marlon character when they was in the back of the post office truck and Marlon gave her something to drink and she told him i get a little crazy and freaky, him being a man he got hype, he didnt know what type of freakiness she was talking about, in the end she had him screaming for his life and not for pleasure lol).

Its not what you do is how you do it and how you carry yourself and the way relationship begin thats how its gonna end (If it starts off with lies, deceit and lust it will end with lies deceit and lust. Like the old saying goes “what bulit on a lie a bound to fall”.

Well I think it just depends, If a man doesn’t respect his relationship why should I? Small comments don’t mean nothing… now if he follows through on on ’em shouldn’t you look at him as a man? I mean really men have gotten away for years with having casual relationships, cheating, one night stands who said a women can’t have the same standards.. maybe she doesn’t want a “relationship” and technically until he’s married.. he’s still single..

I agree 150% with Brooklyn Lady! As a female I care a whole lot. If you have a girl you are off limits to me PERIOD!!!!!! The first question I ask is do you have a girl friend, if the answer is yes, the next thing you will see is the back of me walking off! I don’t play that game if you’re taken that’s it and females need to be mindful of the other person. My thought process is always of all the parties involved and as JD said if the guys gets you like that don’t you think that he can get someone else like that too and you’re on the receiving end.

So ladies ask questions and if you find out the answer move on. If you know the man has a woman and you actively go out to get at him you know you are wrong for that!

Woman or girl…the end result is the same..we all eventually want to be “HER”..why bcause WE (women)are EMOTIONAL humans!!
Yes,in the begining the FUN and GAMEs are LOVELy..we get into thinkn “WE are what HE needs”(why else would he have chose us if he had what he NEEDed) ..not realizing that only a WEAK man would get down like. In any matters of the HEART..U must LOVE U 1st..then EVERYTHING else is easy…then ur only concern is Who he is when he’s with you…& who you are because of him.it takes a REAL MAN to be EVERYTHING to ONE woman…(Viceversa)
Me, personally a man with a woman..is not who you turn to looking for the ONE..ONE night maybe…LOL!!!

IF A GUY WAS TO FALL FOR A GIRL THAT SAID SOMETHING LIKE THAT TO HIM, WHAT MAKES HER THINK THE SAME THING IS NOT GONNA HAPPEN TO HER??

Honestly, I think the girls making those slick comments aren’t even really thinking that far into the future at the time. I really feel they’re acting on pure impulse, trying to get the celebrity in question’s attention and see if they can hook them in. If they can hook them in, then they’ll see where they can take it from there. Folks act crazy when they get around celebrities…

#2 QUESTION DO WOMEN EVEN CARE ANYMORE THAT A MAN HAS A GIRL??

There are women who don’t care if a man is taken. Marriage is a little different but then there are women who don’t care about that either…

women dont care, or at least they stop caring after havin a dude treat them like shit. i mean real talk. the older women like flawless needs young folks to make them feel special. i mean come jd did she said yall two was a item lol. jp jp ok ill stop.

but real talk.

i really dont think women has ever cared about us men havin a girl. i mean have u ever noticed once ur dating someone women comes on to u more than normal? they see u showin that public luv and affection and either starts hatin on what great things u and ur girl have or she wants all of that for herself.

@ HunneyB77 Ok in your comment you said Woman or girl…the end result is the same..we all eventually want to be “HER”..why bcause WE (women)are EMOTIONAL humans!!
Those type of women you referring to are the ones that have sex with strings attach or have sex for the thrill. When you mention eventually we want to be “her” then those type of females like that are insecure or use to getting whatever they want and do anything to get it. Another thing, that type of attitude is personal towards that other female, a female that act like that is a very jealous individual and dont mind hurting the next person. But when the shoe is on the other foot they get vengeful because they dont like another person doing the same thing to them because they feel that person show them they just as smart as them or smarter and they dont like loosing control.

So if its going to be just a one night stand then they need to keep it just a one night stand no strings attach, dont mix your emotions with sex.

AFTER READING THROUGH ALL THESE COMMENTS, I MUST SAY THAT EVERY LAST COMMENT WAS SAYING THE SAME THING. NO, MOST WOMEN DON’T CARE, YOUNG OR OLD. I USED TO BE ONE OF THESE WOMEN WHO JSUT DIDN’T CARE. NOW NO, I DIDN’T JUST TRY TO FUCK ANY MAN REGARDLESS IF HE HAD A WOMAN OR NOT. I DID HAVE MY “CODE OF ETHICS” WHEN IT CAME TO SEEING SOMEONE WHO WAS “TIED DOWN”. MARRIED MEN WERE ALWAYS OFF LIMITS AND GUYS WHO I COULD TELL REALLY LOVED THEIR GIRLFIRENDS WERE OFF LIMITS AS WELL. YOU CAN KINDA GET A FEEL AS TO THE MEN WHO ARE GENUINE GOOD MEN AND THE DOGS. AT THAT POINT IN MY LIFE, I FUCKED THE MEN WHO WERE DOGS FOR THE SIMPLE FACT THAT I WAS DOING ME AND I DIDN’T GIVE A FUCK ABOUT ANYONE BUT MYSELF. I WAS JUST IN IT FOR THE SATISFACTION THAT I WENT HOME HAPPY. BEING LIKE THAT IS NOT FOR EVERYONE AND IT DOES EVENTUALLY GET OLD. NOW THAT I’M OLDER AND HAVE GOTTEN THAT OUT OF SYSTEM, I DO REALIZE THAT WAS A BIG MISTAKE I MADE IN MY LIFE AND ONE DAY I WILL PAY THE PRICE FOR BREAKING UP SOMEONE’S RELATIONSHIP FOR A FEW NIGHTS OF SEX. IT’S MINDLESS AND THAT’S WHY SOME WOMEN JUST DON’T CARE. TO ME, IT’S COOL NOT TO CARE AND WANT TO BE A JUMPOFF. YOU JUST HAVE TO BE PREPARED FOR THE CONCEQUENCES LATER.

Its only because of who you are and what you have. Its sad to say, but this would not be the conversation if you were just JD with a B.A. & M.B.A. from Anywhere University.

Enough of the responders have said it already- they are not women, but girls looking for a come up. As much as I hate the term, I’ll use it here- ratchet- there is no other word for it (and nothing against fellow PORT CITY fam) !!!
I just hope that you’ve had your fill of that type of chick- it seems as if you’re continuing to progress to new heights that doesn’t include the company of such types.

This is JD’s response on Twitter for those that aren’t on it, or don’t follow him.
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FOR ALL THE WOMEN THAT LEFT THERE COMMENTS ON GLOBAL14 SAYIN THAT THOSE WERE LIL GIRLS NO!!!! THE CUGARS ARE THE ONES THAT SPARKED IT ALL

If a man fall for a girl that say something like that he need the help cause why do that to yourself. This girl think she better than the one you have and feel like you wouldn’t dare do that to her which is foolish of a girl.

I have the same question for women all the time. Like if he cheat on with you on another girl what makes you think it won’t happen with you. You the nasty one and you not no better than the next

@Spock you wrong for that LOL but I agree 100% with you she will have complete control she will come through and ruin everything and really dont give a damn if she mess up your relationship. If you do one thing and set her off she finding your girl and she going to te I had a friend like that before the man had another woman and they were together for a while after he ended it with her they got married when he cheated she found out through a call from the girl she stayed with him for a few years then divorced him cause he kept cheating. I say ONCE A CHEATER ALWAYS A CHEATER! So what you see for the moment is what you like you don’t love it you just like it for that sec. It’s lust

ust like the stupid woman who got with a married man and posted billboards of him and her together in NYC, CA, and I think Atlanta. but that is really dumb

For me I was married almost a year I was in my mid 20’s and the man cheated I was out! Cause I wasn’t about to deal what that SHIT thank goodness I aint have any children by him cause Lawd know what would had happened. After that I never ever got married again and I really don’t plan to. You also can’t blame it on a woman’s actions because the man is just as stupid to be with the woman knowing he has a girl

I’m not going to say all don’t care but most don’t care even some of these celebrities who claim oh he told he was seperated *Coughs* A.Keys that was stupid but yet had a family STILL had a ring on his finger and lived with his wife and aint live with you LOL Okay he was seperated SIKE

Do I care hell yeah I wouldnt want it happening to me so I wont do it to no one else you of limits N**** I’m not trying to hit at you and you better not try anything go with your girl

Girls are slick so JD and not just him but Men period don’t do anything stupid if you really in love and with a girl that is just dumb. Very sad to see men go with girls who don’t respect them self! Vs. Having a classy woman 80/20 rule LMAO!

Interesting questions!
Considering that late last year and this year (so far) has had so many jumpoffs come out of the woodworks, means that SOME women don’t honestly care.
As to the first question, I think these women look past every shadow of the doubt and just use the “he chose me” reasoning to justify what they have done.

I for one will NEVER go in for another woman’s man! NEVER!!! No matter how much I like him, I will rather harbour those feelings and let it hurt me than hurt her and her family. I just don’t know how some women can stomach it. Maybe it comes from the upbringing or simply greed to nab a famous & rich man.

I was going through the comments looking for someone to mention some famous names and I see @ Kandi did.

When you are not in the limelight, it is easy to take someone else’s man and not face the repercussions, but once you do that with fame, you tarnish the image you had once tried to uphold. Alicia Keys is doing so much with regards to helping 3rd world countries and all, but some people overlook that because she is with a married man (especially after Mashonda’s letter to her via Twitter) and that war of words she had with Swizzy. Same applies to and Fantasia, who has tried recently to cover up the tattoo of her BF’s name whilst at the same time denying that she doesn’t know the man (yeah right! How do you get a tattoo of a guy you don‘t know name). Gabrielle Union is also another one. D.Wade is still a married man and Gabby can try and deflect from the situation all she wants with all her articles and threatening to sue blogs etc, but his wife did file ‘infidelity’ as the reason for divorce.

If there is nothing wrong with what you are doing, why go through the hustle of lying about tattoos and not knowing him (Fantasia) and why won’t Swizz and AK be publicly photographed together? GUILTY CONSCIOUS!

Others don’t have that same guilt though. eg. the woman that was sleeping with one of Obama’s advisors for 8 years. I was so surprised that she had the nerve to post those billboards and create that website…when she was the jumpoff! He is a public figure. Google him and you will know he was married.

When we say “GIRLS”, we are not talking about age. You can be 50 and be a grown ass GIRL. Going after another woman’s man and wanting to play the side chick role is not the mentality of a grown woman. You can be grown in age, but not in mentality.

Im a woman and i’ll say that unfortunately (unlike myslef) a lot of women dont think about the fact that if he cheated on his woman for you, he will cheat on you for another woman…sometimes all they care about is being able to claim a man no matter how they got him.

Anywhoo, a lot of women dont care if you have a woman when they think you’re possible to get , i.e. dont have enough respect for your woman to be faithful to her (some dont care either way).

Woman don’t care at all. They Love the Challenge and if they have their mind set on a man or something they want they will try and say anything to get what she wants. I had a Few girls come up to me… Ugly like a Sea Creature and some beautiful as hell and i would say i have a Girl… And you know what they say… WHAT YOUR GIRL GOT TO DO WITH ME WOW!

i think that most women only care if a man is in a relationship when they are the one he is in a relationship with!

i also think that even though these men have women throwing themselves at them the responsibility still lies with the man-just because you can does not mean you SHOULD!
it works both ways.
if you get your man that way, you will lose him that way!

lol JD what do you say to these girls who tell you to hold them tighter like you know them???

I agree with everything @Charloetta said. Go Girlie you hit it on the nail!

I believe JD is not dumb and he definitely knows quality over chickenhead, but it’s HIS choice if he chooses quality. In regards to the question at hand, me personally, have liked a certain someone for a long time for several years but due to hearing he was in a relationship did not pursue my interest at that time. This is due to the face that I wanted to get to know him and potentially date him “seriously” and did not want him to treat me as a jumpoff or fling.

Another reason I chose to not pursue at that time is because the person he was with–I had a lot of respect for as a person from what I observed of her even though I never met her. Fast forward…Several years later, I heard they broke up I went FULL blast with my interest LOL.

A woman looking for validation will do just about anything to keep or get a man. There are more woman than none that don’t think about the other woman. Deep down she cares , but there are so many woamn who have never even had a relationship. When they see a man that is willing to be in a relationship and comit they can’t help themselves. The sad part is these kind of woman never realize why they can’t find their own man. A woman that has never been in a relationship, or can’t keep a man is not in reailty. The reailty that it takes a woman to get a man and not a pu**y to get a di*k. I n other words just becasue you have a hole between your legs, and he is willing don’t mean he don’t want his woman at home. A girl will stay a girl until she realizes a man wants a woman.
P.s what do yall think about “think like a man act like a woman? Does this concept make the woman more attractive?

1.There hasn’t been a day in my life when i’ve left the house and some nigga hasn’t rolled up with a bullshit line like that or something close to it. 2. Some care and some don’t!!!!! For me it matters and at the same time it depends on who it is and what’s there…. LMAO.

Spock..why u always trying to call Jd out..and shyt i know women that i am friends with that will c a married man quick..and always talk about i’m just trying to have fun..and then get all hooked on him and have the nerve to want more..I tell them u r not gonna get MORE he told your azz he was married..and i keep it real and tell them that they never shoulda did that shyt anyway..u can lead a horse to the water but u cant make him drink it..!

Somebody needs to call JD out. I just want to tell you my group “Them Concrete Boyz” has just signed with Swagg Team/Bad Boy South. Young Jock bought their contract from me. This is the main group I have been working with for the past few years. It’s funny to me that after all these months of being a lifer and years of supporting JD even supporting his crew that somebody like Young Jock would call me out the blue and say I like what you doing Spock, here is a check and some publishing. Barry Gordy was so great because his focus was always on others.

Its a new movement in Atlanta, one in which you will hear about shorty. This is the main reason I wanted to come on Global to have a year long track record of JD Sleeping again…. LOL I found the game changer..so get your popcorn out…

I think for most it’s about having fun for the moment especially if they are in a club partying and had a little bit to much to drink. In my case if you are a celebrity and I’m a fan sure I would want to take a picture with you but not in a way where I’m all over you or want you all over me (I don’t know you like that and you are not a friend of mine). I have respect for myself as well as for other women and their men. Some men and women do not care. And you are right, if a man/woman is not true to the person which they are in a relationship with what makes that person think that he/she will be true to them.

Alot of chicks is thirsty now a days and naive as hell. Al lot of them DONT think a guy will turn around and cheat on them even though they’re the side chick. and as for the second question, i can’t speak for all females but if a guy had a girl, he’s fuckin’ OFF LIMITS! i ain’t worried about the girl jumpin stupid if i took her man, im more worried about God judging me. That’s something these fools don’t think about.

as a young girl i know how some of these chicks are but im still learning and understanding just cause she says shes ur friend dont mean shit cause they the ones that want ur dude the sec ur turn around took me a while to understand but i get it as far as if im single and i see someone i like and he has a girl then im not goung to approach him on that level i respect people when they have someone if its meant to be then it’ll happen but i would never do something like try to take someone’s man to many out here to trip off of one

Wow not sure how I missed this 1..Hey JD..I just wanted to say sometimes we tend to take things the wrong way a assume something thats a little far-fetched..some women r slick talkers as well as some men and some r sincere..not every1 is looking at a person’s status or what they have..Some ppl do really care.. I tell u that I luv you, not trying to disrespect ur girl or anything..no motive, ur awesome at what u do and and very down to earth, theres alot of ppl that get where u r and change..some for the good and some not so good, u take time to let ur fans in ur world a little bit and that just brings out more of the charm that ur already displaying not only outward but on the inside also..Not every1 wants something from u or is trying to make u a target..JUST SIMPLY WANT TO SHOW U LOVE..so remember that u do have true fans! LIFERS STAND UP! CYNAA

I’m clearly a little late, as this is an old entry by now. But I felt the need to add my not needed 2 cents. Some women do care but the truth is that when it comes to a celebrity plenty don’t care. For some strange reason many of us women think that Celebrities are sub-humans and we give them a God like persona. Honestly they neither care if you have a girlfriend or if by cheating on your girlfriend with then it means you will most likely cheat on them. All they care about is the fact that you are a celebrity,who knows other celebrities, has prestige and money. If they can steal you away from your girlfriend or even secretly share you, it means they have to chance to be in the lime light and they’ve gotten their foot in the door. So the bottom line is the lack of respect for an existing relationship is an invitation is allow them to use you for the lifestyle they hope they will attain from a mere association with Mr. JD himself. As a young woman I personally think that it reflects a lack self respect. I’m not in the lime light, nor do I have money. But I’m damn certain that neither will make love or respect myself more than I already do and the prospect of either will not cause me to completely disregard a relationship when I expect others to respect my relationships.