Lack of confidence and security cannot, unless of course, it is attributed to your hideousness...LOL. Either way, confidence and security will probably take you farther in life than looking like Brad Pitt.

Lack of confidence and security cannot, unless of course, it is attributed to your hideousness...LOL. Either way, confidence and security will probably take you farther in life than looking like Brad Pitt.

Lack of confidence and security cannot, unless of course, it is attributed to your hideousness...LOL. Either way, confidence and security will probably take you farther in life than looking like Brad Pitt.

i hate seeing myself in pictures, i hate hearing my recorded voice, yet the ladies get all wet when they see my long curly hair, and i can tell that some of them look at me just as much as i look at them, so yeah, we're on the same boat !
nobody's ugly, you just have to find someone who likes the way you look

i've noticed this too...look good in mirror, girls always say im cute, but look different in photos.....alternatively i've seen girls who look like crap in person, but who look beautiful in photos.....

i've noticed this too...look good in mirror, girls always say im cute, but look different in photos.....alternatively i've seen girls who look like crap in person, but who look beautiful in photos.....

I look at my body and I see fat legs, a fat stomach, thin/no muscle arms, and I even tend to think negatively about my junk size, but I look in the mirror and my arms look pretty good, i'm not as fat as I think, and my junk is impressive.. and how I feel when looking in the mirror is the same thing people say to me, that i'm not fat, i'm not weak, and my junk is impressive.

It's our own crazy ass mind and the fact that when we look at our own body we are always looking down on it, and we're never happy with how we look.

i hate seeing myself in pictures, i hate hearing my recorded voice, yet the ladies get all wet when they see my long curly hair, and i can tell that some of them look at me just as much as i look at them, so yeah, we're on the same boat !
nobody's ugly, you just have to find someone who likes the way you look

i wouldnt worry...

when a girls stare at you, is it usually good thing? this happens to me all the time, but i'm not sure if it's like 'omg cute' or 'wtf is that'

i had an imo perfect 10 scope me out and hold eye contact today... maybe it's just cause I see her every day at the surf club... lol

when a girls stare at you, is it usually good thing? this happens to me all the time, but i'm not sure if it's like 'omg cute' or 'wtf is that'

i had an imo perfect 10 scope me out and hold eye contact today... maybe it's just cause I see her every day at the surf club... lol

Man... you need to go talk to a therapist. There are definitely some underlying issues that are causing your insecurity. Next time you think to yourself that some girl is thinking "wtf is that" ask yourself why you are thinking that way. Little by little that voice/idea will mute itself and you will have more confidence. You are definitely showing signs of social anxiety and low self-esteem. But, what do I know? I am just a garbage man.

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