I hope you'll be able to lean on each other.
Best wishes for enough strength and composure to get you through, and some measure of warmth.
{{{hugs}}}

We lit a candle tonight in memory of my SO's dad, since it's the (>10th) anniversary of his passing. (We also played with the fire from the candle, and melted stuff, and made a mess, also in keeping with Dad's memory...)