-------- "This is the time for action not only words, use your God given gifts to develop this country, dont be afraid to speak up, and feel PROUD THAT U R EGYPTIAN." -------- Mohaly, Feb 2011

Thursday, March 12, 2009

540) Human Males & Sex !

According to the Kinsey Report (Sexual Behavior in the Human Male), 54 percent of men think about sex every day or several times a day, 43 percent a few times a week or a few times a month, and 4 percent less than once a month.

I was wondering why most of men are always thinking and seeking sex, while most of women don't do that frequently or sometimes even at all !

Males have double the brain space and processing power devoted to sex as females. Just as women have an eight-lane superhighway for processing emotion while men have a small country road, men have O'Hare Airport as a hub of processing thoughts about sex whereas women have the airfield nearby that lands small and private planes. That probably explains why 85 percent of twenty- to thirty-year-old males think about sex every fifty-two seconds and women think about it once a day -- or up to three or four times on their most fertile days.

Well, this is where I will say that women are just like men. They think about sex as frequent as men do. Just sometimes men seem to be ready to jump and just do it with whoever say yes in the time women think more about the person.

I think that on average males and females think equally about sex, but they have different ways to express it.

The 43% of males thinking about it only few times a week is really a high percentage. So, males sex obsession is really over rated :)

Mohaly, I agree with you that men have higher interest in sex than majority of women, god created them so, that is why they are always seeking a woman with high interest as well, and they consider this woman a very rare diamond, but the truth is different…. Guess why?Cause even if the girl is with high interest in Sex she can’t say so or he will consider her a bad girl and then she can do nothing to help removing this idea from his mind, so she would prefer pretending even to her husband that she is not interested unless he is very understanding and here I can say understanding guys are very rare, you can’t deny, huh???I know many girls who are not interested in sex, but I know more who are very interested in sex and they seek sex education by legal means like books either medical, educational or psychology, and all what they hope to find an understanding man with whom they can show this interest in a positive way.So I have a good suggestion, every one either male or female should be himself when it comes to marriage, so every guy who has high interest in sex will choose the woman with high interest as well and vice versa, taking into consideration that if the woman has higher interest than her husband, I think this will be a true hell (7ateb2a el ma3ayeer et2alabet):))

Ghareba, it is a long article where this study was quoted and i have added the reasons as well. I am a woman and i dont think we have sex in our minds as much as men, we seek romance that is crowned with sex, but men enjoy sex for sex!

Julia, I have been trying to understand your analogy beteween Men's brain space and processing power devoted to sex and Chicago O'Hare International Airport. I don't know for sure if I agree with the statement or not. But the analogy between airports and human minds appeals to me so much. I never thought about it this way before but it makes perfect sense.

Julia, Thanks for asking. To be honest, I don't have a solid opinion on this one. But I guess to me, this is one of the few scenarios where I feel more concerned about the morality and the ethical conduct which results from the thoughts rather than the thoughts themselves. I mean, in this particular scenario, judging the thoughts themselves does not really concern me as much as judging how one channels these thoughts properly into constructive behaviors instead of destructive ones.

“The basic conflict between men and women, sexually, is that men are like firemen, and women are like fire. To men, sex is an emergency, and no matter what (they are) doing (they) can be ready in two minutes? Women, on the other hand, are like fire. They are very exciting, but the conditions have to be exactly right for it to occur” - Jerry Seinfeld

Elham: This is not an excuse, marriage that is not based on mutual understanding and transparency special in such intimate thing... 2eleto a7san.

Saralona: it already happened with me, but everything has a limit even if i am as much interested as her.

Mona: Impressive as usual, you got to the core of it, it is all in the intention and believe it or not, you girls have this radar about intentions, some guys are clever enough to fool you but most of them don't.

mohaly, i donot think u got it right this time ,we just do not "AIR " it like u guys.........to be fair to u i have to admit it differs from one character to the other, both male and female,also it depends mainly on ur partner