How many black men are decent and not the ghetto nor violent types?

I'm wondering because there is this black guy in my school. I've noticed he seems interest in me but I try to keep the conversation short and give an excuse to leave quickly when school's over.

He has asked me out once and I made an excuse. I think he is cute and seems ok (actually noticed he does well in school too... slightly higher than my 3.60 gpa; I was surprised to be honest) though but I'm keeping my distance.

A female cousin and an aunt had a black bf in the past but they had to break up quickly; one for being a cheater and liar and the other for showing early aggressive tendencies such as getting in her face, cursing like a sailor and yelling or punching a wall. Then comes Chris Brown and other black men in the news.

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Thing is I wouldn't mind dating any guy from another background but black guys are the ones I'm a bit leery about. Yet, he is cute. I like him but I'm not sure.

If not that... then I also tend to hear they can have trouble with commitment too and end up cheating.

Most Helpful Guy

This has to be a troll question. Why would someone ask a group of people online, on whether a guy's behaviour is a certain way or not. You are the one that sees him on a daily basis. You should be able to figure out if he's ghetto or not. LOL

Thats like me asking random people online on whether my crush is a Kung Fu fighter on not, since she's Chinesse.

Also No! not all black people are "ghetto" the same way not all white people are rednecks or all hispanics are illegal immigrants or all Asians have a 200 IQ rating.

What Girls Said 7

@Asker The fact that you actually believe that all black men are the problem in America amazes me!!! You need to stop feeding into all of this filtered sh*t and start going out into the real world and start judging from your own eyes. This is really sad. I'm out!

Just wanted to say why do you need other people's feedback about black guys instead of actually trying to get to know them. Honestly you need a mind of your own and stop being superficial and ignorant.