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enIs my boyfriend's penis sensitivity normal, and what is a refractory period?http://www.scarleteen.com/article/advice/is_my_boyfriends_penis_sensitivity_normal_and_what_is_a_refractory_period
<div class="field field-name-field-name field-type-text field-label-hidden"><div class="field-items"><div class="field-item even" itemprop="contributor">feministconundrums</div></div></div><meta itemprop="name" content="Is my boyfriend&#039;s penis sensitivity normal, and what is a refractory period?" id="md1" /><div class="field field-name-field-detailed-question field-type-text-long field-label-hidden"><div class="field-items"><div class="field-item even" itemprop="description">My boyfriend&#039;s penis gets very sensitive after ejaculation. I&#039;ve looked everywhere and all I found some information about a refractory period but I don&#039;t really understand what that means. Is his sensitivity, and maybe even pain, normal?</div></div></div>Sun, 15 Jul 2012 15:19:46 +0000Jacob5345 at http://www.scarleteen.comI don't want to have sex for religious reasons.... I think.http://www.scarleteen.com/article/advice/i_dont_want_to_have_sex_for_religious_reasons_i_think
<div class="field field-name-field-name field-type-text field-label-hidden"><div class="field-items"><div class="field-item even" itemprop="contributor">Ashley</div></div></div><meta itemprop="name" content="I don&#039;t want to have sex for religious reasons.... I think." id="md2" /><div class="field field-name-field-detailed-question field-type-text-long field-label-hidden"><div class="field-items"><div class="field-item even" itemprop="description">For the past few months my period hasn&#039;t been normal. I&#039;ll go weeks or sometimes a whole month without it. I am currently in a relatively new relationship (about 2 months now) and we&#039;ve had sex a few times, but he pulls out right before. I know about the risk of pre-ejaculate and such, but how possible is it to get pregnant from it? Also, I want to start using condoms and while I feel comfortable with him, since we&#039;ve never brought it up I am bit apprehensive about mentioning it. How can I tell him that if we&#039;re going to have sex we need to use condoms? I know it sounds simple and it should be, I&#039;m probably just stressing out about bringing it up over nothing. The thing is that we&#039;re both pretty religious people and while I&#039;m more than happy with our sex life, I didn&#039;t expect it wouldn&#039;t happen so soon. So, the dilemma is do I mention the condoms? Or should we quit having sex because of the way deep down we know we should live and behave. I&#039;m not in anyway saying I don&#039;t &quot;want&quot; to have sex.. but I don&#039;t know if having sex is the best thing for us now. And if it isn&#039;t, how do I go about telling him when we&#039;ve had sex a few times? (I know this is definitely a personal problem for me, but if you were in my position.. what do you think you&#039;d do?)
Another quick one, in my last relationship that lasted 4 years, my boyfriend who was 27 and I would have sex, either vaginally or orally, and he could only become aroused and ejaculate once. With the person I am with now (who is 31) he&#039;ll get aroused and ejaculate and an hour later he&#039;s ready to go again. Is it just different in every person? Thanks so much for your time.</div></div></div>Wed, 14 Nov 2007 19:36:26 +0000Heather Corinna1318 at http://www.scarleteen.com