You may feel indecisive when it comes to your relationships today. Perhaps you are unsure about making a bigger commitment or feeling nervous about losing your independence. You might also have questions about the quality of your relationships and their potential for long-term success. If you take some time to explore these feelings further today, you might be able to gain a greater sense of clarity about what you truly want and how you can achieve it. If you can understand that you donít have to give up your independence in order to make a bigger commitment, you might think about ways you can fulfill your needs while deepening your connections with others.

Reflecting on the quality and direction of our relationships can give us a greater perspective about the ways our connections with others enhance our lives. We often are afraid of taking our relationships to the next level of intimacy because we are afraid of how our lives will have to change. Rather than fearing a negative outcome, we can choose to be more proactive in creating the kinds of relationships we desire. We can then be sure we arenít losing ourselves in the process because we are creating relationships that allow us to retain our independence and identity. Choosing to approach your relationships with a clear understanding of what you want will allow you to ease your feelings of indecisiveness and be more proactive in your interactions today.