Actually Bastila did laugh a bit when she pulls that force trip on Mission. Plus, technically Mission is a Female with a personality, gratnted, she's not my type.

Hence, I think Visas is the most emotionally complete character. Her views maybe alternative to some, but at least it is quite complete, with her forming a bond of mind and soul with a male exile, something more intimate than charging up the loading ramp with a twin engine pod racer with arkanian nitro tank turboboosters.