Anyone have any ideas why my ex husband is prepared to go to prison rather than see our matrimonial property . Quick update, husband caught cheating over 2 years ago and we are now divorced. Husband allowed to stay in home as did not work but lived with girlfriend and has for all this time. We had no contact for this period and I won court hearing. I discovered on returning to the home and he admitted that he was decorating it the way I wanted prior to my discovery but stopped as he didn’t know what was happening. He also asked me to feel the muscles on his back. I was gob smacked. Since then

Its not the first time I have reflected on the challenging time of Christmas when people are / have experienced loss. You might recall how my first yuletide was spent alone in a dark room curled up in ball. The years since then have been a gradual process of slowly but surely allowing the light to enter back in but in carefull steps and with nothing rushed. The simple fact is that frivolity has no place in a broken heart at least for a time. Just as we might hear people moaning about things at work or complaints about this and that, the thought of having to participate in a long family

After so many years of not knowing where your future can be found, there will come a day when it almost arrives unnoticed. This is because your pain has thankfully shrunk inside you to a small background hum. It is still there of course but having learnt to live with it for so long it has become a part of you that you can now control.

You've long since grown tired of it and you have managed to somehow extend the periods of "giving yourself a break" to much longer stretches of your life. It might not even be your last thought as you drift off to sleep more soundly at night. Not is it