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It depends on who you are and what you look like. Sounds bizarre, but I was one of the better looking and the smartest the narcissist I was seeing had. I dumped him and he tried for 2 months to get me back. Then he would tell me this about this other woman and then try and tell me how I meant nothing to him. Run for your life. Narcissists are jerks!

Someone said: If they seem too good to be true, they aren't real. Just an actor mirroring your traits. I fell for a figmant of my own imagination. My N. has women in all different towns. He confessed this to me, because I was the only woman who figured him out. I said, strange how you can trick so many women, most women must be stupid and with that same creepy grin, he said, yes, they are. This guy still has several on the line and more he is trying to prey on from ages 20-60 and he is 39. CREEP!

If you are a girl or boy Tommie its means he was being polite and did not want to hurt your feelings or after giving it some thought decided it was not a good idea. Tommie either way I would not stress about it. People change their minds all the time. Don`t take it personal, he probably did you a favor. There is still a change it may happen in the future.

U never try. becoz he never can back in ur life as a lover or as ur life patner becoz he just like to play with our heart and soul and give so much verbal and physical abuses.so that dear all dont try to involve with narcissist man. plz save ur heart.

Narcissists are known to love themselves selfishly, so it might sound normal if he dumps you. Because they focus on themselves, they are naturally selfish so if your boyfriend is truly a narcissist, he might not want you back if he already dumped you.

montecarlo50 said: I have been involved off and on with an N for 14 years. During that time, he left for FIVE years and came back. He came and went about 4 times and now I think he may be gone for good but I am not counting on it. From what I have read online extensively, they almost ALWAYS come back.

Sometimes, they do not contact them for several reasons. Sometimes they do not need references to backup the information provided; they might not want to hire the applicant based on qualifications. I have had employers not contact references before for these reasons. Good luck!

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