Even though I have unconsciously started my "180". After having it recommended to me by several people I have read and will start my "180". Thanks to all of you for your support and hearing me. Again I am still struggling and all comments and advice are very much appreciated.

"A tree falls the way it leans.....be careful which way you lean"

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Jrazz♀ 31349Member # 31349

Posted: 7:00 PM, February 5th (Wednesday), 2014

The 180 is really hard at first, but it gets easier with time. Don't beat yourself up if you slip, and remember that you're doing it to build your strength and protect yourself.

(((CantLoseHope)))

"It is impossible to get a man to understand something if his livelihood depends on him not understanding." - Upton Sinclair

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CantLoseHope♀ 42356Member # 42356

Posted: 7:06 PM, February 5th (Wednesday), 2014

ive just discovered something that is probably going to make it a whole lot easier

"A tree falls the way it leans.....be careful which way you lean"

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karmahappens♀ 35846Member # 35846

Posted: 10:00 PM, February 5th (Wednesday), 2014

Additional info "something" ?

I hope not.

Do the best 180 you can. The strength you gather will be huge in rebuilding your self-esteem and your life going forward.

(((hugs)))

Hope you are ok....

“And the day came when the risk to remain tight in a bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom”
Anaïs Nin
Me: 45
Him: 47
Dday 8/2007
We have R'd

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CantLoseHope♀ 42356Member # 42356

Posted: 10:12 PM, February 5th (Wednesday), 2014

Yes KARMAHAPPENS, if you look under general my post is entitled "new discovery and ive lost it"

and I truly have lost it, I've never felt this type of pain before ever even after he cheated on me....

read that topic and you will see more. and please feel free to reply to that topic.... i need all the help i can get.