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Common sexual issues couples can face

There comes a moment in every couple's life when they find themselves fighting over issues relating to sex. In fact, bedroom blues can seep in so deeply that both partners can feel completely out of step with each other. Experts say that some of the sexual problems that couples face can stem from non-sexual areas - in other words, some things in their relationship must have gone awry and it might take quite a lot of detective work to unearth the root causes and deal with them effectively. According to relationship experts, couples in long term relationships, especially, face a more detrimental barrage of problems. So, here are some common sex issues that you and your partner must watch out for:

Disparate sex drivesThis issue can have a lasting effect on your relationship. You may want to have sex with your partner more frequently, but he may not be as proactive or responsive to your initiatives.

Lack of initiativeThis can be a major issue for couples who have just started their journey. Blame it on a rigid mindset or a lack of communication, when and how frequently a partner should initiate sex can really be a thorny issue. A lack of initiative can be construed as sexual disinterest.

Attitude countsThere can be a wide difference in each partner's approach to sex. For instance, you may want to experiment or bring in an element of adventure. But your partner could be more comfortable in focusing more on the emotional connect. This can be a red flag.

Believing in mythsSome couples may bring to the bed a whole host of pre-conceived notions about sex. For instance, one of the partners can be harbouring misconceptions regarding oral sex. Or one could believe that period sex can be harmful for health. Experts say that there should be frank communication between partners in order to distinguish between myth and fact.

We're bored!Experts say that sexual boredom can take a heavy toll on a relationship. Boredom can actually be a grave problem for couples in long-term relationships. This can naturally happen over time when a couple will be all too familiar with each other's sexual moves. There can be no surprise element left. And, as the cliche goes, familiarity can indeed breed contempt.