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Nervous.....

Ok so I'm sitting at the RE's office this morning waiting for my lining check and I just realized my FET scheduled for Feb 8th is exactly 3 months to the day that we lost the twins. I'm not sure if that is a good thing or a bad thing. I have very mixed feelings about that date right now. I know we can't change it, I'm almost ready to go, too late to turn back now.

Part of me thinks this is a good thing that they'll be watching over the embryos being put in and the other part just keeps remembering what we went through 3 months ago. I've been upset all day over this. Am I nuts or is this just the hormones doing a number on me?

I agree with Tarah, no matter what the date is, what happened before has already happened and you can count the days between no matter what. Your little angels ARE looking over you and I pray you have the joy of children soon. So, just as Tarah said, it isn't a good or a bad thing, it is just a thing. And, also, you are not nuts, you are still grieving. Be kind to yourself. And baby dust!!

Of course your NUTS LOL...just playing around! Your not nuts, it's something that is in the forefront of your mind. But I don't think you should focus on it too much. The stress is not a good thing for you.

And like mysticalgoddess said...you can't turn back not it &quot;is what it is&quot; so make the best of it and things will work out for you!

A friend sent this to me..As far as I can see, grief will never truly end.It may become softer overtime, more gentleand some days will feel sharp.But grief will last as long as Love does - ForeverIt's simply the way the absence of your loved onemanifests in your heart. A deep longing accompaniedby the deepest Love some days. The heavy fog mayreturn and the next day, it may recede.Once again, it's...

I have my maxed amount of epidural shots of my cervical DDD....(and no one cares about my lumbar DDD)..... I've done physical therapy, muscle relaxers, Amitriptyline, Nortryptiline, desipramine.....narcotics... So I decided to go to a spine specialist and they have me on Gabapentin. Its been two weeks and it did nothing for my lumbar ever... but it did seem to help my cervical and arm/hand pain...

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