posted 12-12-200105:43 AM
You just know it.. you have really strong feelings and u gotta see him/her everyday, and care about them so much.. It is when your every thought is of the person you love -Every bad moment you have you can think of them at it will be ok -You know when you in love when you feel completed by the other person! I guess everyone has their own interpretation about being in love..
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posted 12-12-200109:39 AM
Im trying to find out if i am... I have the feeling and everything for him. But I cant bring myself to say it. So therefore I dont think I am
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posted 12-12-200111:02 AM
well hon,i would say that even if you are not in love, there are some strong feelings there. when you do fall in love, you will know. even if it happens slowly, you just feel different inside. it is a wonderful thing that must evolve my itself, so dont worry and let it grow on its own.

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posted 12-12-200102:09 PM
So what you are all saying is that its like a 6th sense. somthing givin to us but you cant touch it or see it. its just a Feeling??-AB
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posted 12-12-200108:13 PM
Well, yeah I guess. It's this amazing feeling, kind of unexplainable, but I'll do the best I can.

You feel absolutely wonderful. You have the strongest feelings in the world for this person, you would do anything for them, literally anything. They are a part of you, just being with them is enough. You can look into their eyes and just tell that they feel the same way about you. When your in love I guess it is just a feeling, but the most amazing feeling. Your feelings for this person exceed your feelings for yourself, at least in my case. But you know at the same time, this person feels exactly the same way about you. I know everyone says this, but when you're in love you just know it, it's different than anything else in the world.

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posted 12-13-200105:23 AM
Agreed....But doe'snt that really suck for the peoples who you love. but dont love you. i guess thats the tricky part of it. if Love was so easy it would affect us as nearly.-AB
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posted 12-13-200112:56 PM
To everything that's been said I'd like to add that when you love someone you feel *complete*, like if you're a puzzle, your loved one is one of the pieces of it, but if you don't have it, the puzzle will never be complete. Something like you just need him/her to know why you're in the world, it takes two halves to make a whole

I'm saying this because I'm not in love at the moment, but I have been there, and I miss that feeling so much and feel so empty and alone (although I'm not literally alone, but that's the feeling I get). Sometimes if I'm upset about something I just think "I wish I had someone I loved and loved me back", like if I was really really thirsty and had nothing to drink

posted 12-30-200104:04 AM
I used to ask people this question all of the time, I usually got the same answer "You'll just know." At the time I was thinking well great that is just SO much help but it's true. I know I am in love with my boyfriend right now. I wake up in the morning and open my eyes and think of my day ahead, then he pops into my mind and I wonder what he is up to. Everytime he crosses my mind, which is more often than not, I'm so thankful that he is part of my life and I feel so happy to know him. But to tell you the truth I believe love is different for everyone and you are the only person who can know if you are really in love.

------------------" I was never truly insane, except on occasions when my heart was touched." Edgar Allen Poe.

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