Is it bad that I block guys on dating sites that call me curvy or thick or refer to my "curves" in any way?

I'm not fat & I don't want a guy that sees me that way so if a man uses any of these terms that's an insta block. I know he's not someone I want to waste time on. I'll correct him usually then block him. Right or wrong?

Yes i agree , i know the feeling. One time this little kid called me Santa Claus and his family laughed it off wow i felt so bad. But i managed to laugh with them cause i didn't want get mad but thought wow someone didn't bring their kid up proper. I felt i was made fun of and real hurt.

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If you don't like how they refer to your figure all the time, I say you're in the right. You may not block or stay away from guys who do that for the same reason as I do (I don't like guys who can only talk about my body), but if you don't like it, you don't like it.

No. Because you're so easily baited, and see such minor, trivial remarks as grievous insults. You don't have to react positively; just try to temper your response not to react by lashing out. Trust me, I've been there. You'll be less stressed and live longer that way.

Honestly it makes you sound like kind of an asshole. You don't like chubby chasers? It's a compliment. Considering you find yourself not fat and a man compliments you and you immediately block communication with him all together you have to be taking it the wrong way. Curvy does not mean fat. This is a lack of knowledgeability of men and their sexual preferences on a higher level, not morals, but don't break contact instantly from an unintended offense. If they actually call you fat go ahead though that's rude.

It's neither bad nor good, it's just personal preference. Some of these guys might be meaning it as a compliment, but it's up to you how you take it. You don't have to speak to anyone that you don't want to.

If they're contacting me then they probably are sexually attracted to me. But I'm not fat & I don't want a man that would call me fat or think of me in that way. I don't have trouble attracting men so I'm not worried about it :)

My understanding of the meaning of the word 'thick' (as used by your generation) is not fat. Rather, it means a woman who has more meat on her bones than a typical model.For example, a YouTube blogger, gamer and 'glamour' model named Tara Babcock could be called thick (you can find her naked, if you Google for her nude shots), but she could not be called fat.Some men like beefier girls, others like girls who are as slender as a shop window dummy, others like an athletic physique and so on.Really and truly, I do not think that you should take it as an insult when a man who contacts you on a dating site uses the word 'thick'.Unless they wanted to play hide the bratwurst with you, they would not make the effort and risk rejection by contacting you.As I see it, you are rejecting men who want you for the way that you look right now.

your life, your rules. nobody gets to tell you right or wrong on this kind of stuff. that said, the guy doesn't yet know you. his actions are based on what hee has learned from other ladies (and likely a few bitch and wenches, too) personally, I have found a compliment on a woman's appearance, tastefully done, is a decent icebreaker for me. you might accidentally give the impress I on that you are a touchy bitch, an impression you likely don't want to give, even of its true

also, one of the sexiest women I ever knew weighed a bit over 300 lbs. Now, she wasn't all that attractive, to be sure. But she had sexy by the barrelful, while being able to tell the difference when dressing between "sexy" & "slutty:

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But you're also not skinny I'm assuming so would you want a guy to tell you that you're super tiny if that's also not the right way to describe you? Curvy and thick aren't the same as fat either , cmon you know this by now. They aren't calling you fat when saying you're curvy

I'm not assuming you want to be skinny but you're also offended that a guy said you're curvy. I dont think any chubby chasers will be after you if you're just simply a thick girl. Chubby chasers go after chubby women. that's all

Thick/curvy doesn't always refer to fat. If you're that body type, then you're that body type. You can't be thick and expect people to call you thin. You're basically blocking guys who don't even know they're doing something wrong. They're complimenting you based on what you are.Its your choice of course, you're not obligated to talk to anyone but I personally find it a little irrational.