i want to try sexballing! my bf actually suggested it the other day because he has one.

veganfoodrocks - daaaaamn! lucky girl. Pi - that's awesome he's cool with period sex, so is my bf, but do you use the divacup at all? i do, and i found that after sex it hurt too much to put it back in, so i had to give up on period sex (which forking suuuuucks)

The good thing about the diva cup is that you can have outercourse with no mess worry at all.

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Yay for you, lycophyte! Break-up sex can be fantastic. And outercourse! Such a good word for so much funstuff that can happen! (we do all the foreplay with my divacup in, I take it out while he puts a condom on)

I'm still sexing it up regularly, with the same guy! He's amazingly mostly keeping up with my sex drive. If he kept completely up, I think I'd miss my alone time with my vibe. I haven't seen him since Sun and I'm SO going to jump him tomorrow.

We've been getting rougher with each other (in a good way - spanking/scratching/biting) and I'm loving it. Partially we are getting so much closer non-sexually so the sex is that much better, partially we are super sexually compatible. And ohmygod, the cuddles, he is sooo good at post-sex snuggling. Hmmm... I think I'll conveniently forget to wear my unmentionables tomorrow when I meet him after work. Might make for a super fun night by the time we get back to an apartment, or even better, we might not wait to get to an apartment!

There are so many fun things floating in my head that I want to do with/for/to him. So far, we've both been into everything the other has done/suggested. This amazes me.

After 3 days of not seeing my man, last night was fantastic! We went dancing and might as well have been having sex on the dance floor. I'm amazed that we made it back to his place!

Now I'm looking forward to next week when I return from being out of town for 5 days. I'll miss him a ton, but I'm already getting excited for the sex we'll have when I get home. I'll have to pick up something new and fun while I'm away.

Been with my guy almost 5 months now, the sex was fantastic right from the start but it keeps getting better and better. Like minds = blown several nights a week. We cannot get enough of each other. We had to go about 2 months with only having sex at his place because I had someone staying with me in my tiny apartment with no bedroom door. He's got roommates and shiitake so we (mainly me) had to try and keep the noise down but now that my place is all mine again, we had some ridiculously loud and crazy sex last weekend. Pretty sure my entire building heard us. Wouldn't be surprised if anyone coming in or out of my back alley saw us either since for a good part of it I was on the couch with my arms leaning on the window and he was standing on the floor behind me.

We haven't seen each other in two nights but are spending the whole weekend together starting tonight. The next 3 days are going to be amazing!

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I actually kinda miss that feeling. It feels worse when you *can* satisfy it but it doesn't need satisfying because you don't feel it. That's the only thing I hate about my 30s - stupidly low sex drive when I finally have someone to have sex with (who, btw, is pretty hot and really good in bed, so attraction isn't the problem).

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I wonder if something might be wrong with my body or hormones or something. I've recently started having sex again, I'm in a relationship with someone I'm attracted to and get the urge to do sexual things 3-4 times a week or so, which is about the same as him and works out quite nicely. I always get super wet and enjoy touching/oral, but I get pretty much 0 pleasure from vaginal intercourse/stimulation. Like, the other day he was trying to find my G-spot and stuff and I felt absolutely nothing. Nothing. I know that a large percentage of women can't orgasm from vaginal intercourse, but to feel nothing at all worries me.

Also, I enjoy sex but I've never had mind-blowing sex and I can't imagine going for hours and hours (wouldn't you get sleepy after a while? Wouldn't you get too sore?). When I was younger, I was told that it was probably because I hadn't met the right person, but in the last 6 years of being sexually active (I'm 26), I've had sex with probably 6 or so people and some of them were pretty bad and some were good but none were crazy-amazing good. But at the same time, I don't feel like any of my desires are not being met. I only start to wonder when I hear about what other people are doing, like when reading this thread.

So do have some possible subconscious mental hangup or have I really not found the right person to have sex with, or is this possibly normal and I'll just never be a super sexual person?

That sounds pretty normal. Most of the nerve endings there are towards the outer part and the rest isn't that sensitive, unless we're talking pressure. There's a reason penetration alone doesn't do it for many people!

PR, no worries! I think there's a range of ways people are when it comes to sex, and you are definitely normal the way you are. Totally cool. I'm more on par with that, as well; I've had some smokin' hot partners (like my current one) who are forking phenomenal and giving in bed, and I totally get off and am into them, but I've never experienced the climbing the walls, screaming sex that folks like VFR seem to have. And that's cool! It's awesome that some people are like that, but it's totally okay if you're not. Don't get caught up on worrying whether you're doing it right - if you and your partner are both having a good time, and you get to have an orgasm, then it's all good.

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if you and your partner are both having a good time, and you get to have an orgasm, then it's all good.

Hey, it's good even you don't orgasm, IMO!

Yeah sounds normal enough to me, like people are saying it's a physical thing many people experience, interestingly, I have a friend who physically, describes it like you do, but mentally p in v really turns her on so she does it all the time anyways. Not that it's lame if you don't! Have you tried it in the butt? It can be pretty fun! Experiment with lots of different stuff, and have fun!

This might be too much information, but today at yoga I couldn't stop thinking of the pretty good sex I had on sunday. When we were relaxing afterwards and the teacher was saying "Imagine you body filled with light and energy" all I could think of was my body being filled by something else... I almost moaned out loud. Now that would have been embarassing.

_________________I dunno, I guess I just get enthused over eating big ol' squishy balls. - Interrobang?!

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Dude. I wanted to post in the NOT sex thread, but because they'd all be mad... I can't go three weeks without! It's not cool! And not only without, but without any prospects, also. I NEED TO BE forked.

My bf and I had a long talk about what we like best and what not this afternoon at the park. If there hadn't been so many people and dogs all around, we'd have implemented the suggestions immediately... instead we had to wait until tonight. He's a fast learner :-) Best sex we've had for months.

_________________I dunno, I guess I just get enthused over eating big ol' squishy balls. - Interrobang?!