I come to realize that life is like a very long lesson, sometimes you think you have it all figured out and bam!!!! something happens and your world gets turned upside down only to make you realize that you didn’t and from that a new lesson in life arises. Here are the top 20 I’ve learned in the past two years.

Some people are very vicious even after you’ve open your heart and home for them.

Never expect people to do as you have because you’ll end up being hurt.

Don’t do favors if you expect a return out of it. Do it from the heart.

Children remember and notice everything.

Never jump into a relationship after just ending one, time for yourself is important.

Take your health seriously.

Never stop learning things, always ask why, never settle for a whatever answer.

Do things that make you smile (I know it’s a bit of a cliche but you wont regret it)

Be honest with everything, even the small stuff.

Don’t neglect your friends. You’ll need them one day.

Don’t trust people who gossip about their own close friends.

Positivity is important, it will change your outcome in everything you do in life.

Love hard or go home.

Envy comes with success, prepare yourself by learning to ignore what people say about you.

Low life women will try to ruin the relationship you have with your better half, build a relationship so airtight that no one is able to break you up.

You mom is right about 88% of the time.

Don’t be afraid to express yourself you might regret not doing so later.

So a few posts back I wrote about my eldest liking a boy. While on my writing break the little douche bag asked her out and without my permission starting “dating”. I found out about 3 days later. I got really mad and explained how disappointed I was in her. We had agreed that she wouldn’t have a boyfriend till she was 15. I know all teenagers are rebellious, I know because I was and it ended in me getting knocked up at 14. So even without my permission she continued to date him. During this whole time she would tell me things about him and I would explain and give her reasons why he was just not good for her. I know as a teen it must have seen like I was just trying to have them break up but this kid is no good at all. This went on for about 3 weeks then the little douche bag broke up with her through Instagram direct. he couldn’t even tell her in person. I felt like doing my I told you so dance because I was right but she was heart-broken. I thought of 48435 ways to kill this kid with my bare hand but I don’t look good in orange so I had to restrain myself. I let her be and gave her time to heal. We had long talks about boy and my person experiences but not till that moment did I realized that my mother always knew best, if I would have listened to some of her advice some things in my life would have turn out better than they did. Sometimes you just have to let your kid stumble and fall before they learn.

I’ve gone through many things in my life but by far the worst has been having my heart-broken. It’s hard because some how it’s not only your feelings that hurt but you genuinely feel broken.When I saw girls close to looking like death because of a break up i didn’t really understand it, i thought they were all being dramatic but when one loves truly it hurts to be broken-hearted. I used to have days that I went from being simply OK to just crying my eyes out. It felt like my emotions were on some sort of roller coaster it had good turn and then came the hard ones that you feel like you are holding on to her heart by a hair. I thought about many things at times I blamed myself but ultimately I understand that it wasn’t only me, it was the both of us. A relationships takes two to work and I didn’t damage it all by myself. Unfortunately there was also people there messing things up and our relationship wasn’t strong enough to endure it. To be honest even though it was my the hardest time and I didn’t really have much people to help me through it i did have a few that came to my rescue. Looking back now even if its a relatively fresh wound I’m glad it happened, all this time alone Ive realized and understood many things about my life and myself I know would of never tried to become change if not under these circumstances. So cheers to this time alone and embracing my life, tweaking it and become a better ME. I’m now a LULU 4.0

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