Emotions could be heightened tonight when Alameda's Board of Education meets to decide whether to follow through with a plan to reduce anti-gay bullying in its elementary schools.

It is merely coincidence that the board's decision is expected to come on the same day the state Supreme Court announces is ruling on the constitutionality of Proposition 8, the voter-passed measure that would outlaw same-sex marriages in California. However that ruling goes, it will almost certainly bring cries of both joy and injustice in the camps of Californians who are fighting for and against marriage equality.

Yet no matter which way the court rules, there will by children in Alameda schools who are being raised by same-sex couples. And there will be students who will be targeted for bullying resulting from homophobic ignorance.

Board members must not be intimidated by a vocal contingent that wants to stop the schools from presenting a series of age-appropriate lessons about teasing, stereotypes and respect for differences. In recent years, Alameda has become an increasingly welcome place for families of gay and lesbian couples. The group Out on the Island marches proudly, and without controversy, in the town's annual Fourth of July parade.

This curriculum is not about the advancement of a political agenda. It is a response to teachers asking for help in curbing anti-gay bullying. It's about maintaining safety and civility in the schools.