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What would a wedding be without the singing or playing of some of the more popular wedding songs ever devised? Well, it would still be a wedding but it would be one that was sorely missing a popular element. Now, if you were asked to present a list of these top songs, would you be able to name all of them? If not there is no need to worry, the following is a list of some of the more popular songs that are frequently present when wedding bells chime:

The wedding should always start out with a song that themes the romantic nature of the event. This is where Tchaikovsky’s “Waltz From Sleeping Beauty” is such an outstanding choice. The lyricism of this particular number significantly presents a tone that is bright and uplifting. And is that not what proper selections for a wedding song should embody?

Processional songs set the stage to the wedding and one of the best weddings songs to employ is the “Love Theme from Romeo and Juliet” as performed by Andy Williams. Actually, since this is an instrumental you could a number of recordings. While most may not be aware the theme derives from 1968’s film adaptation of the play, most are familiar with its sound. And this is one of the most romantic themes ever crafted which makes it perfect for a wedding selection.

Rod Stewart’s “Have I Told You Lately (That I Love You)” remains a perennial choice for the First Dance selection when the bride and groom take to the floor. Mostly everyone has heard of this song which is why it is among the most popular wedding songs commonly selected. It is also probably the most romantic song ever recorded which is certainly another plus associated with the song.

What would a Father/Daughter dance be without the playing of The Temptations “My Girl?” It would be a cliche to state that this song is an ‘oldie but a goodie’ but the cliché is most definitely true. “My Girl” has been a perennial father/daughter song because it is a tremendous recording that will bring sentimental tears to people’s eyes and smiles to their faces.

Debbie Boone’s “You Light Up My Life” is sometimes considered sappy and, to a certain extent, this is true. However, it also makes for a perfect Mother/Son dance tune. This is a classic love song that has been playing on easy listening stations for decades. It is also a common choice among those looking for an excellent Mother and Son dance number.

Sister Sledge’s version of “We Are Family” is a great selection for the Bridal Party dance because it adds a great sense of fun to the proceedings. It is also a nice departure from the more serious love tunes commonly employed at a wedding. No, this is not to say love tunes are a weak choice as much as it is to point out that upbeat friendly songs have their place as well.

Since the cutting of the cake is an unforgettable moment, would it not be appropriate that it is accompanied by Nat King Cole’s “Unforgettable?” Some may think the song is a little bit too serious but it really is not. It is a bright and cheerful song that will certainly prove memorable.

The garter toss remains one of the more fun moments of a wedding. Would it not be appropriate to select a fun song to accompany it along the lines of “Legs” by ZZ Top? This is quickly becoming one of the more popular wedding songs of a newer generation that was raised on music videos and pop culture. It is also a fun song that most people will find a nice inclusion to the festivities.

And even the glory of a festive event such as a wedding must come to an end. This, of course, necessitates a last dance and among the absolute best inclusions for a song would be “Always and Forever” by Heatwave. This is a tremendous selection to play as the guests exit the banquet hall and it sets the perfect sentiment for the marriage. That is, it infers the marriage will be one of eternal love which is clearly an excellent sentiment to put forth.

A wedding song is an integral part of the wedding ceremony. The wedding will not be as meaningful or as solemn without a singer, a band or even an iPod playing music in the background. The music can dictate the atmosphere of the entire wedding.

A good selection of songs will make your wedding more memorable for guests and participants alike. Songs can evoke various emotions from the people attending the event.

In choosing music for the wedding, it is best that the songs fit the theme of the wedding. The music should also complement you and your spouse personalities. If you are the outgoing type, fast tunes will be more suitable. For silent and formal types, slow music will be more fitting. It will be awkward to play loud, fast tunes if both bride and groom are shy and prefer to have quiet moments.

Another good criteria for choosing a song for your wedding is its ability to convey your emotions to your guests and of course, to your spouse. The music should be able to speak volumes for you not just provide entertainment. The lyrics should be apt for the wedding too. It will be very confusing if you are playing a break up song on your wedding day.

Choose wedding songs for the ceremony, cocktail party and the reception. Each part has a different kind of music. Be sure that the music you choose are fitting for each of them. Ceremony requires more solemn music. Cocktail and reception can be more informal and fun.

First dance music should be chosen carefully. Read the lyrics of the song. Make sure that it fits a wedding. Some songs may talk about infidelity or break up. You do not want those.

Practice dancing to the music with your partner. The song should not be too fast or too slow. Do not choose songs that are popular at the moment. The choice should be based on the meaning it provides rather than popularity.

Make sure that your guests enjoy the reception party. Choose songs that will make them want to dance. Fast, fun and the latest popular songs are a great hit.

Make a plan or outline for your wedding. This way you can determine which specific part of the wedding needs to be highlighted with a particular music.

The key moments of a wedding often include the processional, bouquet toss, couple’s first dance, father/bride dance and mother/groom dance. Some parts of the wedding do not really need a song to accompany them. Playing instrumental music may suffice.

Provide clear instruction to your DJ or band on the kind of music to be played at a particular time of the wedding. This way you will be sure that the music fits the part perfectly.

If you are not confident about picking the songs, then you can refer the matter to experts. Ask disc jockeys who have performed at weddings or someone who is knowledgeable about wedding music to help you choose the most suitable songs.

The location is a critical part of the music selection. It will not be proper to put large speakers in a small room. This will blast your guests all night. In a large setting, a live guitar or harp will not be heard. To prevent this kind of problems, it will be good to test the music at the reception area or where the wedding ceremony will take place before the wedding.

You should have a music coordinator. You can ask a friend or a relative to do this part. This person will overlook the music being played at the wedding to ensure that everything goes smoothly as planned and there are no major glitches along the way. Your wedding song after all, can spell success to your wedding.