Long-term Survivors of HIV Share Stories and a Message of Hope with Others: ‘You Are Never Alone’

HIV: The Long View Coalition today debuted its new video series to help address isolation and elevate the conversation about long-term healthier living with HIV

“I was in shock.” “I felt so alone.” These sentiments were shared by a group of long-term survivors of HIV as they reflected on how they felt when they were diagnosed. After living through and overcoming many challenges since the beginning of the HIV epidemic in the United States, long-term survivors know how powerful it can be to share their stories as inspiration to those who might be struggling now. That’s why the HIV: The Long View Coalition created the Never Alone video series, which helps people who are newly diagnosed or living with HIV feel less isolated and better connect with their community.

In 1990, after Michelle Lopez left a domestic violence situation, she and her infant daughter were homeless and were both diagnosed with HIV. As part of the Never Alone video series, Michelle shares her story and talks about facing challenges, building a community, and how she started giving back. “If I had not found community, I truly believe I would have been dead,” she says. Michelle, who is now a 51-year-old mother and grandmother, reminds people that “HIV is a diagnosis, it’s not a definition of who you are. You’re not alone, you’re never going to be alone.”

“We are one, big community; no matter our age, our race, our sexual orientation. We need to help support one another,” says Ed Shaw, who lost a cousin to HIV before being diagnosed himself. Ed shares his journey from being isolated and homeless to becoming an activist for himself and others in his newly launched Never Alone video. Ed, a 76-year-old New Yorker who has been living with HIV for 29 years, wants people to understand that “HIV isn’t something you should have to go through alone.”

The Never Alone video series is showcasing these inspirational stories to help reframe the dialogue around HIV by addressing isolation, increasing urgency, and elevating the discussion about long-term healthier living. The first two videos, featuring Michelle and Ed, are available today; the next installment, which features Kim Watson, a 54-year-old Caribbean African-American woman of trans experience, will be launching early this summer.

“As a member of the HIV: The Long View Coalition, we are proud to share stories through the Never Alone video series that showcase how long-term HIV survivors are overcoming obstacles, facing their fears, and creating communities,” says Kelsey Louie, Chief Executive Officer of GMHC. “Through these stories, we hope to reach people who might feel isolated to remind them that, regardless of who they are, where they live, or what their HIV journeys have been, they are not alone. There is a whole community of people who understand, accept, and are there for them.”

Today’s outlook for many people living with HIV is shifting for the better. With early detection, improved linkage to care, advances in treatment that can help individuals to achieve viral suppression, and adherence to that treatment, HIV can now be a long-term, manageable chronic disease. This is a major change from the early days of the epidemic, during which many people believed that a diagnosis of HIV was a “death sentence”—a sentiment echoed by all those who shared their stories as part of the Never Alone series.

According to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC), people aged 50 and over account for an estimated 45 percent of Americans who have been diagnosed with HIV. At the end of 2014, an estimated 428,724 people aged 50 and over were living with diagnosed HIV in the United States.

Aging with HIV can present some unique challenges. As outlined in the Coalition’s report, people with HIV age 5 to 14 years faster than people without HIV, which may translate into earlier onset of some chronic conditions compared with those who are HIV negative. Additionally, age, HIV, and HIV treatment raise the risk of cardiovascular, kidney, and liver disease, as well as bone loss and certain cancers. As part of their stories, Michelle, Ed, and Kim each emphasized how important it has been to have a good relationship with their healthcare providers.

About the HIV: The Long View CoalitionThe HIV: The Long View Coalition is comprised of organizations from across the HIV and healthcare communities. Members of the Coalition are American Academy of HIV Medicine, Gay Men’s Health Crisis (GMHC), HealthyWomen, National Council on Aging and National Black Leadership Commission on AIDS, and representatives from each entity authored the HIV: The Long View report, in partnership with Gilead Sciences. For more information about the individual Coalition members, please visit:

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