Adult Adolescence: You're 28 And On A Wife Hunt

Adult Adolescence: You're 28 And On A Wife Hunt

Wife-hunt results

I did this. I went on a wife hunt, and I ended up with somebody who was really one of my best friends. I was never super-sexually attracted to her. I loved her, but always looked at her as a friend. You don't want to make that mistake.

If you go on a wife hunt, you are probably just going to accept whomever comes your way; and, ultimately, you are not going to get exactly who you want. Marriage is a really serious commitment, though, so you need to be conscientious before you make that step. You need to find someone who shares the same beliefs and interests. You need to find someone who can teach you things and help you grow as a person. When you go on a wife hunt, there's no way in the world you're going to find that. You are going to find whatever is available.

When you have to have something — or feel pressured to get something — within a certain time limit, the results of what you end up getting are never as good. If you feel like you need to find a wife in six months or less, then you may find one, but she likely will not be the right one. You're not going to find the woman with whom you want to spend the rest of your life.

postgame interview

This is your life. So, the next time someone starts asking you why you're not married yet, realize that there is no good that comes from feeling the need to act under their pressure. Instead, you should look them in the eye and say: "I just haven't met the right person yet. Do you have anybody you can introduce me to? I'd like to meet someone amazing. I'd like to meet somebody with whom I can spend my life, but I am not going to rush it."

This is exactly what I used to tell people after my first wife hunt. People would look at me — and sometimes you would see that look in their eyes that said they found their wife on a wife hunt (and may or may not have found the right person). This is your life. Take your time. Enjoy the process. Find the right wife even if it takes a long time, and be sure to enjoy every moment and every woman you experience along the way.