Harry and Meghan have more problems than you.

Take a quick glance towards jolly old England and Harry and Meghan’s Royal Wedding might seem like a fairy tale come true. Especially for an actress from L.A. whose previous job was starring in a so-so cable show on USA Network. But after the big celebration, the Duchess of Markle is going to have to start curtsying to all the family members above her. Since her husband is sixth in line for the throne, that’s a lot of prostration. As for Harry, he’s marrying into a world of hurt, judging from the behavior of his brides’s extended family. On top of that, the British tabloids make life a living hell for all the Royals, and the taxpayers grouse about how much it costs to keep them in castles and jewels. But in the spirit of the blessed event, let’s congratulate Meghan on how far her can-do attitude has gotten her, and kudos to Harry for looking on the bright side of Meghan’s distinctly non-royal lineage. Better yet, when you watch the nuptials from the comfort of your cramped studio apartment, thinking it might be nice to have great wealth and a title handed to you, remember how good you really have it. You only have to curtsy if you really want to!