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I am going to go to NYC every month. I am here in NYC this weekend, March 9th and 10th. I am so excited to meet single professionals in NYC. Actually, people come from far away just to meet me in NYC. This weekend, one man is flying in from Toronto, Canada and another man is coming from Miami, Florida. You may not believe it but sometimes Japanese women travel from Japan to visit NYC in order to meet Naoko, TJM’s matchmaker, and discuss about their ideal future spouses. You may know that TJM’s Free Consultation is not only ...

“Just ask her, “Will you marry me!”” Before the Japanese woman he was corresponding with visited him during the New Year holiday, me and Mr. A had a strategy session to discuss the issues he and she had. Their relationship was great. Both of them were thinking of each other and were committed to their relationship. He went to Japan to see her two times and she came to the US to see him two times during the past year. However, he was concerned that she hadn’t committed to getting married to him even though he had a strong desire ...

As you may have seen, Naomi Osaka won the 2019 Australian Open and she is now the world’s top female tennis player. Japanese people were all excited to hear the news!! This is great news because she is the first Japanese and Asian tennis player to achieve the number one ranking. Naomi is Japanese, but her father is American who is originally from Haiti, so she is Japanese American or American Japanese. She has dual citizenship, and she is going to decide to be Japanese or American before her birthday this year since Japanese government does not accept a ...

I Need Some HELP! Would you have a recommendation for a florist to use to send her flowers on Valentine’s Day? We received a message from one of our male members. YES! we are happy to help! Here are some online florists where you may place an order and have flowers delivered in Japan. KADAN: http://en.kadan.ne.jp/ One of our male members recommended this website. He sent flowers with this site to the Japanese woman whom he is corresponding with. Aoyama Flower Market: http://foreign.aoyamaflowermarket.com/foreign/aoyamaflowermarket/pc/ When you google, “send gifts to japan” you will see many search results, and it is ...

We host an online seminar for our Japanese women by using ZOOM, a video conferencing service (https://zoom.us ). Our online seminar is helpful for Japanese women who are looking for a lifelong partner internationally. They realize that there are many things that Japanese women need to learn and prepare for. For example, at our last online seminar for Japanese women, we invited a matchmaker who lives and works in Australia to discuss about the matchmaking possibilities for Japanese women and Australian men. Japanese women are required by the Australian government to get a fiance or spouse visa in ...

How to Be a Good Listener to a Japanese Woman We often receive feedback like this. “He was so kind and sincere.” “ He treated me in a very special way.” “I have never met a gentleman like him before” Sounds great! However, she still decides to decline. She said, “I don’t have a bad impression of him, BUT I do not feel that he is interested in me. During our date he was quiet and seemed to be a good listener, but I felt like I was doing most of the talking since he didn’t say ...

Thanks and I appreciate all you are doing for me. It feels more like you are introducing me to your friends which I prefer. - R.M. ( New York ) We received this message from one of our male members in NYC. Yes! We are more like your friend than just a matchmaking agent. The more that we are able to communicate with you, the more we will learn about what is important to you when searching for your ideal Japanese woman and the better we can assist you. Sometimes, some people say that they are not clear how ...

Happy New Year! We wish you a wonderful 2019! Have you already stated your 2019 New Year’s Resolution? As a Matchmaker, this is one of my biggest 2019 New Year’s Resolutions: The Success of the Singles Party in Tokyo on July 6th 2019! We have already reserved the event venue in Tokyo although the date of the event is more than 6 months ahead. At this time, the event venue is a peaceful and gorgeous wine bar. We are excited to plan this party where we will invite about 20 Japanese women. Usually, more Japanese women than men attend the ...

Happy Holidays! As you may know, Japanese women are NOT very religious, rather they are open minded. Japanese people celebrate Christmas and children believe that Santa Claus is coming and giving them Christmas presents. Giving gifts during the Christmas holiday is becoming more a part of Japanese culture as it has been in many western countries. If you are corresponding with a Japanese woman now it would be nice to select a special gift for her in order to celebrate the holidays together. What is the best gift for Japanese women? Good question. As we live in the age of ...

If you would like to marry a Japanese woman, you will need to consider the “LANGUAGE BARRIER”. Some male clients ask us if we have Japanese women who can speak fluent English. Yes, we have Japanese women whose English skills are excellent. However, all our female members are Japanese whose first language is Japanese. English is their second language, so there may still be words or phrases that they do not understand. In order to cope with the “LANGUAGE BARRIER”, there are many things you can do. It is not only up to her, rather, both of you can support ...