Many times I've been desperate in public to the point where I can't stand still. Often it's because I've deliberately gone out to be desperate in public. In my experience it's very rare for anyone to comment on it or even notice, but it has happened a couple of times.
Once, a few years ago, I was driving, maybe 20 miles from home, and I was bursting to pee. It was late evening. I stopped at a supermarket somewhere on the edge of a town. The supermarket itself was closed, but its petrol station was still open. So I pulled in. At the time I was a bit shy about just going in and asking if they had a toilet, so I parked up next to the petrol pump and started filling the tank, hoping there would be a toilet inside the kiosk, while squirming and crossing my legs.
When I finished filling the tank and went in to pay, I couldn't immediately see a customer toilet. I didn't want to look like I was looking for one though, so I just walked up to the counter. There were two women behind the counter, maybe in their 30s or 40s, who were smiling as I came in and seemed to have shared a joke just before.
While I was paying with my card, I couldn't stand still. I was trying to act casual but it wasn't really working - I was bobbing up and down and standing with my legs tightly crossed. One of the women was looking down at my legs and smiling. I caught her eye and smiled back, thinking that she probably knew I was bursting but that she wouldn't say anything.
For a moment I thought she might instead have been looking at my jeans. Often I wear women's clothes if I'm going out and won't meet anyone I know, and here I was wearing some very tight, light-blue, women's skinny jeans.
Then she said "Are you okay? Do you need the loo?"
I felt myself blush bright red, and said "is it obvious?" with a nervous laugh. The other woman offered to let me use the staff toilet, and I said "yeah, I could do with going to the loo..." which was a huge understatement! I used the staff toilet and came out very, very relieved! The staff member who let me use the toilet kept staring at my women's jeans as I walked past... I just smiled and thanked her, but I was pretty embarrassed by the whole thing!
Another time, just a year or two ago, I was at a railway station, again bursting for the loo. By this time I'd lost most of my shyness about letting other people know I needed to go. I tried the toilet door on the platform, but it was locked. It was only a small local station, and they lock the toilets in the evening.
An older woman on the opposite platform - the platform for the train I was waiting for - saw me try the door and called over, quite loudly, to ask if I needed the loo. Of course I replied that I did. She suggested I go in an alleyway somewhere, because there weren't any toilets anywhere nearby, but I said that I was okay, I'd just wait for the train, and crossed over the footbridge and sat on the bench on that platform.
Again, I was wearing tight women's skinny jeans. I didn't think I looked that desperate, but I was crossing my legs and bouncing my leg up and down. The woman came over to me and offered me her empty drinks bottle ("it's not good for you to hold it... go round the corner and do it in this if you want, I won't look..."). That was quite embarrassing, but even so, the pressure in my bladder tempted me to try it. Nevertheless I declined, saying I'd just wait and use the toilets on the train, it's only 10 minutes or so. In reality I was really desperate and thought I might have to spurt in my jeans before too long.
We chatted for a while until the train came, and I was getting more and more desperate, and she obviously knew it. She was very nice about it, I think she just found the situation funny. Eventually the train arrived, and I darted in, found a loo which was luckily open, and had a much-needed pee. I'd spurted in my jeans a little, and it wasn't too noticeable. When I came out I sat down opposite her. She asked if I'd found a loo, I said that I had, but I don't think she noticed my wet jeans. Again it was quite an embarrassing experience at the time, but now I quite like looking back on it.

For me, it's desperation and wetting in tight skinny jeans. Public videos are my favourite, with subtle but visible leg-crossing desperation. Even better if there's some sort of storyline to it, with the model in a scenario where they can't get to a toilet. The public LoveWetting videos are some of my favourites.
Also the reaction of the model to their desperation or wetting is important. To me, indifference, laughter, or mild annoyance are hot. I don't like it so much if they act upset or distraught. Deliberate desperation and wetting are very hot!
I'm into male and female desperation and wetting. One thing I'd like to see, which seems to be very rare, is a cute guy desperate for a piss in public, but with someone else denying him access to a toilet - could be a girlfriend/boyfriend, or a shop assistant insisting the toilet is only for staff, or someone else.

I understand. I thoroughly enjoy putting myself in desperate situations which sometimes lead to wetting, even in public, as long as it's on my own terms, in a scenario I feel safely in control of. I'd hate it if I ever wet myself outside my omo life, such as at work or in front of people I knew, and I certainly wouldn't get any enjoyment from it at all.
If I've had some desperation and wetting fun one evening, I have noticed that the following day, when I need a pee it's a more urgent feeling than usual. I think it's more of a psychological thing than fatiguing of the bladder muscles. It's like my bladder/brain has temporarily learned that my clothes are okay to pee in, so the next day it's harder to hold a full bladder for the same reason it's harder to hold while you're in the bathroom looking at the toilet, or when you've arrived home and you put the key in the front door lock.
I get the same thing when I wear certain clothes, mainly tight skinny jeans, and especially women's jeans - I definitely associate those clothes with wetting, so I find it harder to hold when I wear them.
As I understand it, bladder control uses an involuntary sphincter muscle and a voluntary sphincter muscle. The voluntary muscle is weaker, but you have full control of it. The involuntary one is stronger, but it's controlled by your brain without much conscious input from you. It will relax when your brain is happy that it's okay to pee. (If you've ever had the pee-shyness thing, where you can't go because there are people nearby or whatever, it might be because your involuntary muscle couldn't relax. On the other hand, when you're squirming in front of the toilet desperately trying to get your jeans undone as you feel the first few drips trying to escape, you're using your voluntary muscle because your involuntary system has seen the toilet and decided its work is done. 🙂 )
So when you're not consciously thinking of holding your pee, your involuntary muscle should be doing it for you. In your case, it sounds like it relaxed because it thought it was okay to go, perhaps as a result of too much wetting causing it confusion between what is and isn't a toilet 🙂. If I were in your situation I'd have a break from wearing diapers for a while and see if the problem goes away. Had you wet your diaper that morning? Perhaps you were wearing clothes you'd normally associate with wetting?

That was a hot experience, thanks for posting! The wetting wouldn't have looked that obvious in black jeans once it dried enough to stop glistening - when you wet in public it always feels more obvious than it is. Did anyone notice your wet jeans on your way home?

Drink the amount you normally would at a party. You may also visit the toilet whenever you feel the need to pee. But when you're in the toilet, toss a coin. If it's heads, then you may pee as normal. If it's tails, then bad luck - your clothes are locked in place. This means you may not remove, undo or reposition any item of clothing on this loo visit. So you must flush the loo as if you've peed and walk out with your bladder as full as when you went in, or find a way to pee through your clothes.
Hopefully this will pose some interesting choices to make. You came out of the bathroom 15 minutes ago, you didn't pee, and you're bursting. Do you go to the loo and try your luck again and risk arousing suspicion by going to the loo too often, or just sit tight and try not to think about it? And... you're in the bathroom, visibly squirming, and the coin lands on tails. Do you pee through your clothes or rejoin the party still fidgeting and crossing your legs?

1. I think I've always known I was asexual. And yes, when I was younger, other people my age would talk about who they wanted to have sex with, and I wouldn't. I didn't want to have sex with anyone. That doesn't mean I wouldn't be able to find somebody physically attractive, though.
2. Yes, and yes it does. For me it's mostly related to omo.
3. Yes, it's possible to be turned on by someone wetting or desperate, and even relate that to the person who is desperate. For me, all asexuality means is I wouldn't want to have sex with anybody, even though I might be turned on by watching a cute girl or guy needing to pee.
Hope this helps 🙂

Thanks for sharing. A couple of times I've been bursting to pee on a walk home, wet myself, and been faced with the choice of the quick route home which is well-lit and busy, or the long but quiet one, so it's certainly an experience I can relate to! Sometimes it's better to leak... at night or from a distance, a desperate hobbling walk is more obvious than wet jeans.
I don't think many people will have noticed your accident unless they were looking in the right place. In my experience it always feels like it's much more obvious than it is. And your dark trousers probably helped. 🙂

Thanks for posting this! I also would love to read stories or watch videos featuring guys having to wait while only the women get the chance to go. I love the thought of the women walking out of their toilet one by one, breathing exaggerated sighs of relief in front of a desperate guy gazing ruefully at the "out of order" sign on the men's toilet, smiling wickedly at his awkwardly crossed legs as they walk past, knowing that he's only experiencing what women experience so much more often.
Usually there's a huge queue for the ladies toilet and no queue for the men. Outdoors, men can pee against a tree while women have to wait to find a toilet. Let's see the power balance the other way round for a change!

Not bad actually, I don't think my bladder affected my performance that much. My wetting wasn't anywhere near like it is in the video though. I just spurted a few times to relieve the pressure while I was waiting to leave the room at the end, and it wasn't that visible. And thankfully the toilets were open!

Thank you so much!
This is the most complicated video I've done, but I have made lots of other easier videos in the past. Most of them are just some minor variation of me bursting for a pee and wetting tight jeans in front of the camera. I uploaded a couple here a while back:
https://www.omorashi.org/profile/15946-mugfulloftea/content/?type=downloads_file
I had other videos on a few sites, which have now closed. But I've still got an account on xtube which has most of my old videos and a few newer ones.
Thanks for the offer, but I don't think I could take people's money. My videos are never going to match the production quality of proper videos with production crews. I don't even have someone else to hold the camera, and this limits what scenarios I can film. They have to be simple ideas because anything more complicated would need someone to track me with the camera, or a second person in the video, or a lot of dialogue, shots of my face, exterior shots showing recognisable streets, etc. I don't really want to go down the route of having other people there while I'm recording a video for the same reason I don't want my voice, my face, or anything easily recognisable in them - I'm a bit wary that someone I know in "real life" might find out.
Thanks so much again for your comment though, it's very supportive and helpful.

I've wet myself in public loads of times. Because I'm quite experienced with it, the thought of wetting myself in public doesn't really bother me - my main concern is not wanting to distress others. Once I arrived home on a train late at night, having been drinking with friends, and I was desperate for a pee. The toilets at the station were closed, but I was wearing dark jeans and there weren't many people about so I thought nothing of wetting myself on the walk home.
If I'm doing a desperation or wetting dare or something then I'm willing to go quite far with it, but I have limits. I won't do it if I'm likely to be seen by someone who knows me. I won't do anything unethical like wetting somewhere where someone else will have to clean it up. I won't deliberately involve bystanders or draw attention to my wetting. I won't do anything that might get me in legal trouble.
When I do public desperation I usually do it in the evening when it's dark. I'll have some water, tea or coffee, carelessly neglect to relieve myself before setting out, then go for a walk somewhere with no easy access to a loo. I like it to feel "natural", like I've got desperate and had to leak because there weren't any toilets around, rather than deliberately gone out with the intention of wetting myself. I've never done it in diapers, only directly in my clothes.
When I wet in public I normally make little leaks, then flood myself as soon as I get home. I've had larger public accidents, but I find nobody really notices. Even with my most obvious accidents, nobody has ever outright said to me "have you wet yourself?" or anything like that. A couple of times people have noticed but just smiled and pointed me out to their friend or something. Once I stopped at a motorway service station absolutely bursting, and didn't make it to the loo in time. Normally, if I know there's a strong possibility I'm going to flood myself I'll wear black jeans, but on this occasion they were light blue and it was very obvious I'd pissed myself. I had to walk to the toilets and back like that but nobody seemed to notice.
I also like crossdressing, especially in women's skinny jeans. Very often I combine that with a public desperation outing. I do that often enough that my bladder seems to automatically associate wearing very tight jeans with wetting, so if I happen to be wearing women's jeans in public, even if I wasn't planning on any desperation play, I tend to find it harder to hold my pee. Does anyone else find that? If you have particular clothes you like to wet in, does wearing those clothes at other times seem to make you need to go more often?