It’s all about attraction/what you like/don’t like. Nobody is expecting everyone to like things one way or another, and no one is telling anyone they’re wrong for liking what they do. We all just have different types of experiences and preferences of our own. I think we can all confidently say that everyone here agrees that some form of communication respecting both partners’ desires must take place before facials, but why limit it to facials? Don’t we feel that way about any sexual act, or non-sexual act, for that matter? Good communication is going to happen in ways that are compatible with the personalities present, which means it’s going to be different for everyone, but it should happen. That is all.