Get the Rule Book: Even if you are a fan of the game understand its rules, get the
rule book from the league when you accept a coaching position. Youth sports often have different rules than High School, College,
or Pro leagues. The rules often change according to age group and division. Knowing how long the game periods last, the number
of timeouts you have, and any mandatory playing time regulations before the season begins permits you to plan properly for
your games.

*** Bonus Tip: Set your player rotation before you go to the game. Setting it up prior to game time allows
you to plan your lineup and be sure that you meet all mandatory playing time rules. This also permits you to focus on the
game rather than wondering if Johnny or Susie has all of their time in.

Get the league practice and game schedules: You may have some latitude in scheduling
practices but there are often scheduled times for your team to practice. You may have to ask for the practice schedule. It
is up to you, your team, and the parents if you want to have practices over and above the practices scheduled by the league.
If you do, you're usually on your own to find an open spot.

Have a Parent/Player Meeting before the season starts: Parent meetings are the most
important step you can take to have a successful season. Establishing the rules and behavior expectations (of players and
parents) prior to the first practice of the season is imperative. This is the time when you review team rules, pass our practice
and game schedules, solicit volunteers, and ask the parent if there is anything special you need to know about their kids
- Attention Deficit Disorder; Asthma; Needs Glasses; Known allergies; etc. Trust me, you'll save yourself and your players
a lot of grief if you find out the special circumstances ahead of time.

Other things to discuss:Recruit Volunteers for the following positions:

1. Team Mom or Dad - the person who coordinates collections on fundraisers, concession stand and game day
snack assignments, picture day, and other miscellaneous administrative type duties

2. Score/Stats Keepers - people who may not want to service coach but who come to the games can keep score
and maintain stats for you in the stands

3. Coaching Assistants - you typically need at least one assistant, but if you can get a couple, I'd recommend
it. Having extra coaches means help with running great practices and games.

Discuss your objectives for the season.For example:

1. Develop the skills required to play the game

2. Have fun

3. Develop teamwork and sportsmanship

4. Give positive reinforcement based on effort rather than results

Describe your expectations of the parents.For example:

1. Be on time for practices and games

2. Volunteer when your schedule allows

3. Get involved and help your child work on their skills at home - pass the ball with them, etc.

4. Encourage good sportsmanship. Be an example by showing positive support for all players, coaches, and officials
at every game and practice. Please cheer for your child during games, but try to refrain from yelling instructions to them.
Much of the fun is lost if their Mom or Dad is consistently yelling instructions.

5. Let the coach know if you or your child has any issues or concerns as quickly as they arise. Problems can
usually be fixed easily if I know about them.

*** Bonus Tip: Hold your Parent/Player Meeting prior to the first practice, and away from the practice area
or playing field. I prefer to use my local public library, that has meeting rooms that are free or very low cost to use. Having
the meeting in this setting will allow you to hold your parent and player attention much easier than competing with bouncing
balls, goals, and at all else may be going on.

Implementing the tips listed above will almost certainly assure you a successful season.