Why husbands cheat

You may be one of the many wives that is wondering why your
husband decided to cheat on you. You probably had what you considered
to be a good marriage --perhaps with children -- and everything
now seems ruined. If you are straining your mind trying to come
to terms with the reason why your husband has cheated on you,
you should understand that you are not alone. Anyone that has
gone through the effects of an affair always has the same question.

The real reason

There is only one real reason why a person decides to cheat
on a loved one. It all boils down to the same thing: There is
a character flaw with the spouse that is cheating. That basically
sums it up.

You see, whenever a couple get married they are entering
into an agreement that they will remain faithful to one another
for a lifetime. This means that even when things get bad, when
sex is not available for weeks or even months at a time, when
horrible arguments take place and everything seems to fall apart
emotionally -- there will be no cheating.

Cheating on a spouse is not an option. If there are problems
in the marriage they can be dealt with in another way. A marriage
counselor can be sought, you can talk to a religious leader,
confide in your friends and family, a separation can be requested
or even a divorce. Once again, cheating is not an option that
is left open.

The matrimonial vow is sacred and you pledge that you will
never cheat on your spouse once you are married. That is a promise
that you make to your future wife or husband during the marriage
ceremony.

This means that any of the reasons that a husband comes up
with for cheating are merely justifications for something done
wrong. In almost every case in fact, the cheating husband is
actually the one that created the problems or at least added
to them.

This leads to the conclusion that there is a character flaw
in the cheating husband. How deep this flaw goes will depend
on how much remorse there is for the act done, how many affairs
took place and how often and how emotionally involved the cheater
was with the other lover.

Dealing with the character flaw

It is not important that you try to understand why your husband
cheated on you. You will never be able to fully comprehend what
makes a person have an affair and instead of spending too much
time trying to rationalize it, concentrate on your own healing
instead. It is time better spent.

As a rational person that does not have a character flaw
you can learn to deal with your own emotions to help the healing
begin. This will be a process and you will learn and grow from
it. You can start by developing your own communication skills
so that you can better listen to your husband and deal effectively
with what is being said. You'll also need to learn how to rebuild
the trust that has been lost in the relationship and start building
a new relationship that is built on honesty and communication.

Your cheating husband will have to commit to repairing the
flaw in his character and make a new commitment to you and your
marriage. Your husband will have to sort out what brought him
up to the point where he could have an affair in order to prevent
it from reoccurring. An apology will have to be made, a new
commitment offered to the marriage and an agreement of honesty
and transparency put in place from that point forward.

The focus will need to be on establishing a marriage that
is even
better than it was before
and growing it every day.
It is important to realize that you will never really fully
understand what could lead a husband to cheat on his wife, especially
when there is
still love within the marriage.

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