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Sometimes (and I mean every so often), I get this random Excitement come over me out of nowhere. It tells me that you're coming soon....And I've felt this lots of times within the last two years.

Still, I'm fighting to celebrate where I am now with my singleness and all. I'm trying to take one day at a time and really love where I'm at and respect the Lord's timing. But every so often, I get this feeling come over me. This feeling that the day we meet is literally around the CORNER. my heart quickens...At first I feel extreme hope, happiness and excitement. Then I feel nervous, unready, ashamed that I'm not being patient with God or myself, and then the feeling dissipates...haha

Regardless if I meet you or not by tomorrow (OH LORD!!! ) or by next month, or by any time this year or the next, I know you're coming...and I am excited for that moment! I find myself fantasizing about how it will be like when we first meet. I give my fantasies over to God, and say, "Lord, knowing you, It's probably even better than what I can even imagine! I won't be disappointed because you love me, and you love him. You're probably wanting us to be together more than we do!"

God is cool like that, husband. I know that marriage is hard...and I am scared of the very thing I want. But I am trusting the Lord and he will correct my thinking as I grow and mature.

This may or may not have anything to do with you, but I was prophesied over by two different people within this month of may that a "surprise was coming." Are you that surprise?? Could it be something else? I can only guess! But God is good, as I've said before, and I'm sure whatever it is will be amazing! Thank you Lord for blessing me, and blessing my husband. Thank you for all that you've done and WILL DO. Thank you God, you are gracious and Good!!!

I hope all is well with you, my dear. One day at a time. Let's be patient! Xoxoxo

My message? Do not expect too much! Events like this one are very unpredictable. Love comes to you at the moment where you do not expect it. He will come at once by surprise! That is how true love works: you don't expect it.

Nice drawing and I hope you do meet your future husband soon. Somehow I get the feeling that a woman I am getting to know is my future wife, God willing, especially since I have met enough girls who I shouldn't have gotten involved with for good reason. God has put together millions of couples who have great marriages and it's all because they worked for it and set a foundation based on God.

Big time! Never assume the person is saved/true Christian. Make him prove it. There are more counterfiets out there than there were zombies in the movie, World War Z.

You do research to buy a house/car. Do much more on a potential husband such as a background check and credit check.

Be sure that the person is active in serving the lord and community.

Know your doctrine of salvation and know that you are "saved". Your doctrine and his MUST match.

Make sure you find a man that will mutually respect you. Be sure to avoid any that will see you as nothing more than property or something to be ruled.

Patience my dear. Salvation is by faith and will save you from eternal hell.

Finding the right husband is very much by works and will save you a hell on earth.

Remember, the way they will be before the marriage will not be changed by marriage.

If they argue, he is not your choice. They need to be able to discuss differences without going to war. Arguments are won by the person with the greater firepower. Discussions come up with real solutions.

Ah, how nice! I hope you get to meet him soon, but patience is a virtue. Despite being thirteen, I adore romance (wow, I feel slightly embarrassed typing that >///<) and wonder what my future husband is like...

Also, when you said, "God is cool like that," I imagined God wearing sunglasses. He's so cool.

Yup! So many people at my school are in relationships already! I'm probably one of the few that want to wait until God tells me that a person is right for me. Plus I'm thirteen, so it's kind of logical I would want to wait, haha. I don't want to date in middle school, it seems kind of weird.

Never be embarrassed by something (or someone) you like, and never shy away from admitting it openly. On the flip side, the same goes for not liking something or someone. It's hard to build that kind of confidence, but so long as you make a continuous effort, your confidence will grow, and you will eventually be able to say what you feel whenever you want to.

I am in the same boat of SSC (Severely Single Christian). It is so easy to remind yourself you're single, unchained by responsibilities. It is just you and the Lord. No third person in your relationship with God. But then the inevitable happens. Your friends get married and have children, and you're in the most awkward group in the Church.You're too old to be part of the youth group, unmarried, and way too young to be an elder. That leaves you sitting on a pew by yourself, or if you're like me, surrounded by older people and your mother. All probably thinking, 'Poor child.'Ahhh, okay, so sorry about that. I really enjoy your Dear Future Husband. Very cute idea.You have the right idea, keep on praying, focusing on your relationship with the Lord, and enjoy your own private time with Him. Because in a way, and someday, He is/will be our Husband. And that is the most important relationship you'll ever have or will ever need.

This just gives me a fuzzy feeling. ;w; And it doesn't even make sense because I'm not interested in getting married or any of that stuff myself. xD But once again reading your experiences and writings, it just inspires me and makes me smile. I think it's because in a way, I can relate. I'm want to get a job with my artwork, and despite my fears and doubts, there are these times that I just so excited with hope that it will happen and I will make a career out of it somehow. It's a feeling that comes and goes, and it's odd. I know I just have to trust God because He will guide me to where I need to be. Just...this inspires me. Really. XD