[Ask a Girl] Shaving

My wife is generally pretty awesome in bed and I think is open to most ideas. She likes toys, open to anal from time to time, talks dirty....she's great. BUT....it would be a real huge turn on for me if she would keep her pussy and her ass shaved/waxed/whatever. She does her bikini line, but doesn't get close in by her labia or in her crack at all. It makes eating her out less fun when stray hairs end up in my mouth and it does not make rimming her ass very appealing (even though I really really want to).

Just looking for some advice from the ladies of the forum on how I might bring this topic up. This would be a huge turn on for me and there are so many more things I'd love to do with her if she's just clean it up a bit down there.

p.s. she also has some small hairs around her nipples that she doesn't take care of either and it's just weird to me. Something I wish she's handle.

Have you try telling her? You can maybe ask her if you would do her shaving, do you shave you private part? Maybe you can shave etch other I did that in past and let me tell you it always start by the shaving and end up in sex in the bathtub

I keep things pretty trim around my cock as much as possible. I figure if I am going to ask for blowjobs, she probably doesn't want any stray hairs either. I don't shave my ass regularly, but have from time to time and would if it meant she would be willing to pursue more anal play. I do enjoy having my ass played with while she gives me a blowjob or as foreplay.

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umm, like, tell her what u like....... personally i like some hair. i have no desire to be with a teenager or pre-pubescent kid. ever since i can remember i always wanted a women. (adult women). not judging, but guys that need the cleanshaven pussy seem a little weird to me. sorry, no disrespect.

this has always sounded so ridiculous to me. a shaved pussy ≠ a child, hair on your pussy ≠ a grown woman

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Yes! Thank you nurseharley! Just because I think shaved pussy is hot does not make me some sort of pedophile perv!

I guess I should rephrase my question based on the responses. I should have asked...how do you bring this up in conversation. You're right....I haven't asked her. For some reason this is harder than asking her to do something specific in bed cause it's like judging something about the way she looks. How do I bring it up that I think it would be hot and that I'd be willing to do it for her if she thought that might be fun? Help a guy out girls! What could a guy say that would make you consider this....and what would you instantly say NO to?

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this has always sounded so ridiculous to me. a shaved pussy ≠ a child, hair on your pussy ≠ a grown woman[/QU
it just seems weird to me. thats why i said no offense. i didnt say they are weird, i said its weird to me. my taste may be unusual, but i dont think its ridiculous. i think its just as valid as a clean shaven preference. guess im just old skool. sorry.