Real talk here - nothing should happen or is going to happen until you BOTH become mature enough to have sexy fun times together

You’re GF is moving forward in to regions that she has never experienced before and feeling stuff she clearly hasnt even experienced with herself yet. You’re asking a lot of her to take this at any speed except slow as hell (even that’s a lot)

A sexually healthy woman by 19 will at least have experienced masturbation to some extent and know what pleases her and doesn’t. Ok she hasn’t; that’s ok, but you’ve got to realise she is literally becoming over stimulated (emotionally and physically) and this is causing her feelings of being unsure or “scared of your penis” as you put it

Clearly she is not sexually developed. And by the sounds of your post, neither are you. But that’s ok too, you’re both 19 and as much as you may think you know what you’re doing, You’re going to learn a lot about yourself and her by being with her in a sexual relationship, and you will learn a lot more in the future.

Here’s my advice - and this is coming from my wife sat next to me as well. She needs to learn what she wants, and know what her body feels like to her. You may want to suggest she masturbate; if she’s against it it’s not an issue to force with her but just a suggestion. Masturbation is part of a healthy sexual diet

Then you need to take shit slow. Learn about her body and help her understand what she does and does not like. As a previous post said, her vagina is meant to hold a lot bigger things than your cock or fingers. Make sure she is good and wet before you go putting them in. Either way think about getting some lube to help her relax - she might get in her own head about not being wet enough and literally turn herself off making he matter worse, if you’re not able to penetrate her fully at first

Lastly ask her what she’s comfortable with and where to go next. It’s important not only to help her push her boundaries but understand where they are first. Push them don’t break them. You need to understand you’re not getting your end wet for a while (unless she suddenly has a sexual awakening)

My wife is / was sexually less experienced and adventurous than me when we first got together at 19. We’re now both 31 and have a healthy sex life (although my drive is higher than hers). Our experience together has now grown and we have both experimented together and are all the better for it. Trust that we both speak from experience - and you shouldn’t feel bad or “less of a man” for understanding that right now you know little, but a whole lot more than she does, and you have a responsibility to help her experience this right and in a comfortable way

This is a great idea. Absolute power corrupts absolutely. Chronicle talks about how light and void are two sides of the same coin. Sargeras probably realised that and that's why he is so hellbent on destroying everything.

If you think of th the diagram of the forces at play in the world Fel is on the right, it opposes neither light or void but is still "evil" - yet we have warlocks who wield it along with Illidan who isn't totally evil, just like we have shadow priests and also warlocks who wield the void and don't go total void lord on us. It's at the extremes of all these areas you find an unbending force that believes their way is the only way

I think this cutscenes shows us a little more about our beloved light. More shit is hitting the fan in the next xpac - maybe we find out more about light and shadow

Don't feel bad man. I did +16 upper this week and it was total aids. I'm a 932 Holy priest

It was relatively easy until Shade. That fight is hard as balls with grievous. Finished the fight over 1.1m HPS, to be fair the last boss was easy enough compared to shade and that's saying something (bloody barrage)

Frost nova phase is a pain, especially for me as I can't run and heal. The damage if people stand still just becomes exponentially harder to heal with grievous, especially on you, bird phase is hard due to the pulse aoe and the grievous, the raw healing in this phase is by far the highest of the whole dungeon but atleast you can stand still vs the frost nova of doom

As for the tank and DPS being tards, that's just the way it is. I was with a guild group, but most PuG DPS don't really concern themselves with many affixes, far more of the affixes are a healer problem.

Trying my 17 BRH tomorrow that it upgraded to for the lols. Super happy fun times!

TL;DR You need to show that your performance is comparable to the holy priest spec you run or better. If you're raid doesn't die and the boss goes down - that's the right spec. If your holy priest is beating you by that much you need to perhaps think about how your healing. Disc is basically a walking talking raid cooldown; prep is the most important thing

I main holy but have started running disc for the funsies. I am the top performing healer on all our fights as holy so making the switch was more a tell rather than an ask / but the agreement is that as soon as we hit a wall I switch back to aid smooth clears

The game should be played how you want to play it. If your raid leader is worried about the expected performance of disc show them the KJ fight where Joshpriest delivered 1.2m hps as disc, or jaks content where he plays whatever is needed and smashes the HPS

My view on it is this, some fights are better suited for certain healing. If the damage is low consistent with occasional burst that you can prepare for go disc. If the fight is more "oh shit wtf" for your raid right now I think Holy is more equipped to respond. However I'm not as good with disc as I am holy I'm sure a much more qualified disc may disagree with me

Take my opinion with a pinch of salt though. It's also to do with your raid composition and cooldowns , if you're raid is really good at moving when they're told, the disc bubble is amazing - we use our disc bubble for the first adds on KJ to save the mana and a healing cooldown, it's super effective. But if you're not, a Tranq, Hymn, Aura mastery is better

I use grid so at the moment no. I like using a weakaura as I can make it show only over certain stacks. Also bigger and in my face - I can make grid show it but the reason I like grid is how clean it is

Bad luck protection and legendary drop chance apply to only certain activities below, but blizzard hasn't completely said what is and isn't part of it

World quest caches, rep caches, small caches randomly found in the world, dungeon bosses at heroic and higher, mythic+ end of dungeon chest, all levels of raid boss the higher the difficulty the more chance, also killing boss on all difficulties per lockout counts, Blingatron 6000 daily package and also weekly champion cheat from your order hall max m+ dungeon and finally end boss of legion invasion

My pally got BiS tanking helm from picking up a wyrmtongue cache and I got Prydaz on my main from
blingatron. I've got a few from all sorts of places but mainly raid bosses.

By doing a mythic 0 world tour and all of the above boss activities at all difficulties (excluding mythic raising) you're looking at around 4 weeks per lego (ish). I once got 2 in one day though....so remeber random is random

You're able to log all your raid encounters via the in game logging system, and with advanced logging the game logs more info such as raid group positioning in to a massive text file

Using a website like www.warcraftlogs.com allows these logs to be uploaded and analysed. Imagine a really
In depth recording system taken directly from game data. It's helpful to analyse your own raid performance and that of your raid, and with the replay feature allows you to watch raid positioning. It is really powerful and I doubt I actually use it to its fullest ability.

The term parse is a %ranking based on a specific boss fight. For example is if a rogue does 1.2m DPS on a boss, this is compared to all other rogues on that boss who have uploaded logs and then ranked versus them. It's basically a measurement of your performance relative to all other performances of your class on that boss

Obviously a 50% parse is completely average, over 75% is considered good and over 90 is great. Someone obviously owns the top parse - and they are ranked 100%, this information can be seen in rankings for each boss and each difficulty, go have a look and see some of the healing from heroic and mythic runs

One thing to bear in mind - after guilds have bosses on farm they will often allow people to "parse hunt" so perhaps they let that rogue do a huge ammount of aoe or let him ignore mechanics so he can tunnel the boss and get a good parse - in fact I would say that every top 2% is done this way, for healers as an example to push in to the top 2% you're going to need 2 wisdoms and as many innervates as your raid can throw at you as our hold back is always mana. I have a 98% parse under my character on Heroic Tichondrius - however to put this in to perspective that is a highly healing intensive fight, I had innervates given to me in the PuG I ran and 2 wisdoms - also the other healers in the PuG were not good so I was able to deliver an amazing healing performance

It should be taken with a pinch of salt at such high parse levels but when I'm able to parse anywhere in the 90s and I know I healed well I know I've performed well. I will also then look at my heal breakdowns from the logs and see where I can improve (for me at the mo it's checking Velens use and also my Divinity uptime from my holy words and making sure I maximise those)

Bearing in mind at the pure % rankings you're pitched against all parses regardless of ilevel, so there is another %rank that breaks ilevels down in to 3level brackets where again you are given a rank vs parses with a simmilar ilevel

Parse levels are ranked by percentile. A 75% parse means you're in the top 25%, 90% is top 10% and 99% is top 1%

TL:DR - ranking system on Warcraft logs where I can measure my epeen but analyse how good or bad I did against others

It also lets you view things like raw healing which shows your actual "hps" - it's a bit more memory heavy (if you can call 100mb heavy...) but is a very powerful tool, closest thing to live logs you can get. Raw healing shows actual and over healing and absorbs all put together

Also to complete my thought - you do the healing that is needed. There are pulls on difficult weeks in 16/17 keys where I can break 1.5m HPS keeping the group alive over a 90s duration effectively rinsing my mana bar (see the bad CoS 16 I did this week) especially this week with bolstering fortified - yet I can run the same level keys with guildies who do their job and I'll only need 800k and can even weave in some stuns and a bit of damage.

I've managed to get a few legendary parses on my heroic ToS logs, a 96, 97 and annoyingly a 94 (fml 1% short on maiden but I'm counting it) with the rest of my parses being in the 80-95% range. When I achieve these numbers I feel accomplished but I also know it's because we fucked up a mechanic and I was able to heal that damage and rank well. To give an example, my worst KJ Heroic parse was 56% total, and my best is 87% - both of which I was top healer. Sufficed to say the 87% parse was clutch as fuck and I was oom at the end, but one set of overlapped dread flames and a slightly long "oh shit where's Illidan" gave me a lot more to heal than on our cleaner kills

The job of a healer is to react to the damage. Ideally it should be predictable and manageable if others do their job. In most rando pugs you're likely to see much spike damage and a chance to flex your healing muscles - this is where I'm having the most fun, I get a sense of satisfaction in knowing I've made a pull possible by nailing the healing, but I also like weaving damage in and contributing that way

It's why I love healing - don't get me wrong it's frustrating as fuck at times especially when the on fire rogue blames you for his death, but it's like playing a different game to DPS and Tanks.

Yes indeedy it is. But waving your dps epeen about isn't helpful to this poor chap, making him feel even less able to contribute

Literally 0 point in inflating your dps numbers. There is a physical maximum dps you can do at any gear level due to stat allocation. No matter how good you are at mashing frostbolt, that isn't going to get better without more gear