Having a baby will change your relationship with your partner. No longer will there just be the two of you with individual needs and wants. A baby will demand more attention and may cause stress to a relationship.

Take time to discuss each other’s beliefs and values around raising a child.

Make a plan for the division of household chores.

Discuss how each parent can be involved in caring for the baby.

Work out together how to be financially prepared.

Relationship safety

Violence, abuse, sexual abuse, and trauma all impact the emotional and physical health of pregnant women.

Domestic abuse, also known as intimate partner violence, is a pattern of threats, physical, sexual, or emotional violence using power and control. It may get worse when you are pregnant or after you have the baby. It is not your fault. Don't be afraid to ask for help.

Learn about the signs of domestic violence. It can start quite subtly with comments, criticisms, or threats. Learn more at Domestic Violence BC.

If you or someone you know is experiencing violence, abuse or sexual abuse in a relationship, help is out there. In an emergency, call 911 for the operator and ask for the police.

VictimLINK, a province-wide telephone helpline is available in 130 languages, 24 hours a day, and can link you to resources in your neighborhood.