Desiree Hartsock — You Need To Move On From Brooks Forester

Desiree, I really feel for you. Getting dumped is never fun, especially when it is on national television. It was so clear that you really loved Brooks, and that you saw him being your husband, but alas, it was not meant to be.

Desiree, you have to move on from Brooks. He does not feel the same way as you do. When he arrived on the dock in Antigua, he told you that he didn’t “feel it,” and that he does not see you guys “lasting after” the show is over. He also said he needs “more time.” He even told Chris Harrison that you are not the love of his life!

Des, I know you had said that she had “deeper feelings” for him than the other two guys, and you were even planning to tell him you loved him, but you cannot spend any more time thinking about Brooks. You and he are in totally different places. You want to get married and find love, while he doesn’t feel that same way, or see a future with you.

While I know you are hurting because Brooks broke your heart, it is good that he was honest and upfront, instead of stringing you along. You can’t have a relationship with someone who does not love you the way you love him, and this proves that Brooks is afraid of commitment and confused as to what he wants.

Desiree — You Need To Pick Someone Else

Desiree, I know this is hard for you, because you really loved Brooks, and you were clearly planning on picking him. But you have let plenty of other guys leave, and moved on fast. Drew and Chris are both crazy about you, and I have said before that Chris is the guy for you!

You were so upset when Brooks told you he was leaving, and it speaks volumes about your feelings for him, but trust me, you will be just as happy with a guy as awesome as Chris, and you won’t constantly wonder if he is going to up and bolt like Brooks did.