Warning: The video you are about to see—though mercifully short—is also a little bit awkward. OK, I honestly don't know much about what's going on here—none of the details are available at this point. (I do know the wedding looks beautiful, though!) But judging by the groom's face, as the priest is reprimanding the photographer and videographer, the couple probably did not anticipate this happening at all. So! Two key takeaways here are: * Talk to your officiant about the kinds of photography and videography you expect or hope for on the big day. If there's a particular shot you want—like, with these two, of you taking your vows—then explain that desire explicitly to make sure it's in line with his or her views as well. * Talk to your photographer and videographer about the kinds of shots that will or won't be allowed according to the procedures you've agreed on with your officiant. Clarity is key! And, you know, it's entirely possible this couple did have the right talks with all the associated parties—it's hard to know what really went down. But the lesson is still a good one, don't you think? AMAZING UPDATE! Noelle and Rob—the bride and read more

Warning: the video you are about to see—though mercifully short—is also a little bit awkward. OK, I honestly don't know much about what's going on here—none of the details are available at this point. (I do know the wedding looks beautiful, though!) But judging by the groom's face, as the priest is reprimanding the photographer and videographer, the couple probably did not anticipate this happening at all. So! Two key takeaways here are: * Talk to your officiant about the kinds of photography and videography you expect or hope for on the big day. If there's a particular shot you want—like, with these two, of you taking your vows—then explain that desire explicitly to make sure it's in line with his or her views, as well. * Talk to your photographer and videographer about the kinds of shots that will or won't be allowed according to the procedures you've agreed on with your officiant. Clarity is key! And, you know, it's entirely possible this couple did have the right talks with all the associated parties—it's hard to know what really went down. But the lesson is still a good one, don't you think? Photo: Thinkstock; Video: Michael Borriello/YouTube read more

No, we don't know who these newlyweds are, but they certainly made a splash when they got married during the pregame festivities at a University of Tennessee football game. Twitter was all—um, you know, all a-twitter about it: #IDo! RT @LauraLMonroe33: You know youre a true VOL fan when you have a combined tailgate / wedding at the game! #VFL pic.twitter.com/LVKqPsXx8J— Tennessee Football (@Vol_Football) September 7, 2013 Tennessee gameday tailgate wedding. The bride. pic.twitter.com/IorOsPjiZb— Zackary Peddicord (@PeddiVOL) September 7, 2013 Sure, there are some shorts present—and, of course, the requisite orange—but this hardly looks to be a just-beer-and-hot-dogs kind of affair. I mean, look at the bride walking down the grassy aisle in that long, strapless gown. It's definitely a wedding with a theme—but I don't think it's at all over the top. Do you? Photos: Thinkstock; Twitter read more

Pachelbel's "Canon in D" is beautiful and always appropriate (unlike some other possibilities!), even though not the most original of pieces to walk down the aisle to at your wedding. Unless you play it yourself. When Andrea and Jordan Strauss were married, they surprised their 150 guests with an electric-guitar rendition of the piece, playing it while they walked down the aisle. What's especially sweet is that Jordan is a full-time music teacher, and he taught Andrea how to play the guitar specifically for their wedding (she had no prior music training)! And the part that's especially impressive? She did it wearing a wedding gown, sporting fake nails, and walking in four-inch heels. And she doesn't seem to have any stage fright at all! I think it's sweet! What do you think? Would you ever attempt anything like this? Photo: Thinkstock; Video: jordan0204/YouTube read more

There's something so gorgeously, uh, jellyfishian about this floating wedding pavilion. Watch: Floatastic pavilion by Qastic from Dezeen on Vimeo. Dezeen featured this super-cool structure—called "Floatastic," which makes sense!—by Qastic, which is essentially a roof filled with helium, held to the ground with floaty veils. Basically, there's one big, white, horizontal balloon in the middle, and the veils are supposed to let it sway to and fro—so there's actually no weight on the ground at all. And for any bride worried that the thing could take off in a stiff breeze (it would totally be my luck), Qastic says: "Since the surrounding environment and microclimate fluctuate in every 24-hour cycle, our studies found that the floating pavilion will experience many buoyant conditions which are unique but steady." Unique, for sure—and hypnotizing! I may now, in fact, be hypnotized. But in a good way. Hey, it's a new idea, right? Would you consider something like this for your wedding? Photo: Thinkstock; Video: Dezeen/Vimeo read more

I absolutely believe in expressing yourself at your wedding. Personal touches are important—they make a special day all the more special. But this? I'm not so sure. Take a look and tell me what you think (warning: NSFW language!): Yes, the bride is dancing—and, you know, gyrating—down the aisle to a rendition of Buckcherry's "Crazy Bitch." And she seems to be really enjoying herself, so cheers to that! But take a look at some of the guests—especially the dad in the front, trying to shield his son's ears from lyrics such as: "But you [f-word] so good I'm on top of it." He clearly wasn't expecting to hear that at a wedding on a beautiful afternoon. Again, yay for self-expression: Do your thing! It's your big day! And, who knows, maybe there's a funny story behind "Crazy Bitch"—like, that's what the couple first danced to? But, in my humble opinion, your guests deserve respect and consideration—or at least some forewarning that some of the proceedings may be rated R. I mean, they're there to celebrate you. That obviously doesn't mean every note has to be Bach or Beethoven, but I generally think that gathering together the people you love and read more

What do you do if you know in advance that loved ones or close friends can't attend your wedding? Should you still send them a wedding invitation so they feel included? Brides' etiquette wedding experts answer. We don't want to make people we know can't attend feel bad by sending them an invitation. Also, it might just look like we're asking for a gift. Suggestions? Consider this rule of thumb: If you want people to know that they are included in your wedding plans, send them an invitation. While it's thoughtful to think of your guests (and thrifty to try and cut costs), the decision of whether or not to attend should be left to them. Who knows: They may want to juggle their commitments and make a cameo appearance—but they can only do so if they get invited in the first place. —Written by Brides Have you ever withheld an invitation knowing the person wouldn't make it? More from Brides: *Sexy Summer Wedding Dresses *Celebrity Engagement Rings and Wedding Bands *25 Wedding Hairstyles Inspired by Our Favorite Celebrities *America's Most Beautiful Cakes *11 Things to Avoid Before Your Wedding Photo: Getty Images read more

Writes Save the Date reader Ginny: My fiance and I have been together since we were 12. Thirteen years later, we're SO excited to marry. Our families are already "family," so everyone is super-duper insanely happy. (I'm the first person in my family to marry a non-Indian in an unarranged marriage, so that's something!) The only problem I'm facing is blending our cultures. I'm American, but my heritage is 100 percent South Indian, and I want to honor that. My guy is American and doesn't have ties to any particular culture, and neither of us is really religious. I'm wearing an "American"-style wedding dress (the Ortensia Wedding Dress from BHLDN) and plan to pair it with a very ornate gold necklace that my great-grandmother wore for her wedding. I don't want to, like, serve food on banana leaves, but I want to make sure there are some fun Indian touches. Any ideas? Here are my thoughts: I LOVE a traditional Indian wedding (check out my dear friend Madhu's here!), but I understand that if you identify as American over Indian, it would be weird to make your wedding a big cultural celebration. Especially since your fiance doesn't identify with read more

Before asking guests to join you only at your wedding reception, give your decision some extra thought. Brides' etiquette experts explain how to make your close friends feel part of your wedding day, no matter what. We'd like to have a small ceremony but a big reception. Is that OK? Your ceremony guest list can certainly be pared down to a few key players. However, before you make the decision to keep things intimate, ask yourselves this: "Will we look back and regret the fact that everyone we love didn't get to see us seal the deal?" If you don't think so, then go for the smaller ceremony. It's important to do what makes the two of you comfortable and happy. However, it's inevitable that your decision will make some other people unhappy. Here's how to cushion the blow: Have your ceremony videotaped and set up a TV at the reception so guests can catch the highlights. Also, ask the DJ or band leader to announce all the "firsts" at your reception (your first toast, meal, dance, and bite of cake as hubby and wife). By making a big to-do about these first moments, people will really feel like read more

What are the rules when you decide to wear not one but two wedding dresses? Brides' wedding experts discuss how to divide your dress budget between the perfect two. I want to wear one wedding dress for the ceremony and another for the reception. Which one should I spend more money on? There is no rule of thumb for which of the two gowns should have a bigger budget, according to Carin Rosenberg Levine, co-owner of Hitched, a bridal couture and creative planning salon in Washington, D.C. You may feel inclined to spend more on your ceremony gown, since it's the one you'll make your grand entrance in. However, you'll be in your reception dress a lot longer, so this division of time might lead you to spend more money on that ensemble. When creating your two looks for the big day, think less about the cost and more about the vibe of your ceremony and reception and the kinds of dresses that will look best for each event. "More often than not, brides choose something more traditional and romantic for the ceremony and a fun, festive dress for the party," says Levine. Plus, if you plan to spend read more