Remember when you expended every single molecular ounce of energy, creativity and chutzpah getting someone you really, really liked to like you back? When you desperately wanted them to take a chance on you? (Cue ABBA’s Take a Chance on Me.)

Sometimes you become so busy working to get others to like you or morph into the person you think they’ll like, you neglect the extraordinary opportunity right in front of you. The opportunity to take a chance on your own perfectly, perfect Queen Bee self.