Black women might as well go lesbian because with Black men turning to women outside of their race and other men - who do they have left to love them?

Men lead in this American society - black or white. We live in a paternalistic society - where men rule. If men set the tone, and the tone is - give me a white woman or something other than what I look like - then there is no wonder Black women feel the need to turn to each other for love and affection - cause they ain't gettin' from their own men. I agree wtih a poster who stated - we are so far away from God it is pitiful.

Black women might as well go lesbian because with Black men turning to women outside of their race and other men - who do they have left to love them?

Men lead in this American society - black or white. We live in a paternalistic society - where men rule. If men set the tone, and the tone is - give me a white woman or something other than what I look like - then there is no wonder Black women feel the need to turn to each other for love and affection - cause they ain't gettin' from their own men. I agree wtih a poster who stated - we are so far away from God it is pitiful.

Black people you all have some work to do in your community, when you look at your crime rate, violence. Even this is somethingnew to me, I never knew this many black women were becomingLesbians.

There has been some increase in Black Female Gayness, but I think it's been there all the time. Females have always been close friends, and they have always had sleepovers with their female friends where one thing generally leads to another. The only difference now is that it has all come out of the Closet, and it's public and in the Clubs where everybody can see, and they want everybody to see who they were.

Also, you don't have one party to the relationship playing the "Butch" or male role any longer in their appearance. Both parties dress and look like attractive females who are not suspected of being gay. So unless you are in the environment where they expose themselves as Gay, you wouldn't necessarily know that they were Gay, especially on an obscure downtown Office Job. So if you are not a part of her social network, you wouldn't know what she was up to. Many of these Gays, even the one's that don't frequent the public Gay places, are also bi-sexual, they have boyfriends and husbands. The mystery involving women who spend a lot of time with other women have always been a topic of conversation.

There has been some increase in Black Female Gayness, but I think it's been there all the time. Females have always been close friends, and they have always had sleepovers with their female friends where one thing generally leads to another. The only difference now is that it has all come out of the Closet, and it's public and in the Clubs where everybody can see, and they want everybody to see who they were.

Also, you don't have one party to the relationship playing the "Butch" or male role any longer in their appearance. Both parties dress and look like attractive females who are not suspected of being gay. So unless you are in the environment where they expose themselves as Gay, you wouldn't necessarily know that they were Gay, especially on an obscure downtown Office Job. So if you are not a part of her social network, you wouldn't know what she was up to. Many of these Gays, even the one's that don't frequent the public Gay places, are also bi-sexual, they have boyfriends and husbands. The mystery involving women who spend a lot of time with other women have always been a topic of conversation.

I knew that some white women were doing this, but I never knewthat so many black women were doing it also.