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If you TRULY do not want this baby…. I will gladly take him/her off your hands. I already have two children and can not imagine life without them…. So if you are looking for a way out….you just found it!!! Whatever you want to know about me and my husband I will share with you. Please let this baby live and if you do not want to raise this baby……again you just found your solution!

I can’t believe I am actually seeing this. If after 2 miscarriages, you finally have a healthy baby and you are considering murdering this unborn child is preposterous. I had my only child at 45 after 2 miscarriages and wish I could have more but can’t due to age. I hope you decide to have this baby and put this innocent child up for adoption, as you both are not ready to be parents. There are plenty of couples who would kill to have just one healthy baby and you are considering taking the life of this precious angel. To put this up to a vote and on the internet shows just how immature you are and that you are not ready to be parents. After you have this child and put him up for adoption, please have yourselves sterilized.

i know you are probably getting this alot but why would you want to abort a baby, ok if you dont want it or not ready to have a baby give it to someone who does want a baby but cant, do you not think this baby has a right to life? its human afterall. do the right thing and put it up for adoption and give someone else the gift of a little bundle of joy that they so long to have.

I have to say as a woman who has lost all three pregnancies I have conceived, this has affected me far more than I can believe. I am in tears reading this and seeing your scan pics of wiggles. I would give the world to have a child, which now wont happen as I cannot afford IVF.

When I stumbled upon a newspaper article over here in the UK, I thought this cannot be serious, but here it is in all its glory, or should that be horror?

I know you state you are a selfish person, but have you given any thought to women in my position who will see this? if this is for attention its disgraceful – if this is serious, then you really need to go seek some professional help as there is something wrong in your head.

If after seeing the scans of your baby you feel nothing – then abort him – but spare a thought for women in my position who dont have a choice. I would give anything to be in your shoes. This is not funny and its not really something that is remotely humane. This is a life, he is fully formed and not far away from surviving outside your body on his own, albeit with a little intervention.

You must be aware as a blogger that things on the internet dont go away – if you keep this little boy, he will see in years to come that you let the public decide on whether he should live or die.

I have a feeling (or I hope) this was a spur of the moment thing and you really didn’t think it through.

One day you WILL look back on this with regret,. You may not feel that way now, but whatever you decide – one day this is gonna bite you in the ass.

let it be your decision and your partners, not people who don’t know you, don’t care about you and are finding it funny that they can ruin your life with the touch of a mouse button.

Being unsure is part and parcel of being pregnant – its called hormones, its not knowing if you will make a good mum, if you can cope with working and raising a child – all natural emotions to feel when your as far along as you are with a pregnancy – have you talked to other women about their feelings in pregnancy? has your partner? if you are kow-towing to your partner this will break you one day, and the same if he is just going along wiht it cos its what you want.

People don’t and won’t ever see this as you do, believe me. I myself see this bringing you guys alot of heartache in whatever you decide to do – because of your advanced state you would have to give birth to this little boy regardless of whether he lives or dies now. I can only hope you see sense and quit while you are both ahead. when you see your gorgeous boy there sleeping with the angels your gonna hate yourself – more so if you go by what other people say.

If you hoped to get peope up in arms, you have succeeded. Thanks because I had just gotten used to not having children – this has broken me all over again.

These people should be ashamed, they are the one’s who will have to live with this decision for the rest of their lives. If people actually do vote they need their head testing too. What gives people the right to choose whether a baby is brought into this world or not.

All I know is there are millions of parents out there who would gladly adopt this child from you two idiots, I hope you two regret this every day for the rest of your lives.

Even if this is just a way to get cash quick by using advertisements on the site, it’s still wrong. If the “vote” is that you are to give birth, I really hope that social services get involved. You guys really best prey that if the child is born and grows up to find out about this site that he/she doesn’t do anything to hurt you.

How would you feel if you grew up to find your parents had put it to the “public vote” to see whether you were spared your life or whether you were aborted????

I have to say this website has made me very angry but I will try and put my point across in a civilised manner although I may rant or even offend you in parts please read the entire message!

Ok firstly I’m not sure if people like you should be allowed to have a baby because you clearly have a total disregard for whats morally right and life its self. To even consider creating a website on this subject for one is morally wrong and shows little respect to the millions of wannabe parents in the world who are unable to have children.

Now I have no idea of your background, age, religion or social surroundings that may have implications on this child’s life but for me having a child negates everything else and will enhance your life no end.

I too was unsure if I ever wanted to have children and had a fear of how it would change my life but since the birth of my first child I haven’t looked back and it is a joy to behold as I watch my children grow and develop. Its something you really cannot describe until it happens to you, to have and hold something that you love more than life itself is something very special. It may sound like nonsense and or a little cliché but I really is the greatest feeling you will ever have. Of course everyone doubts there ability to be a good parents but it is one big learning curve.

Now to consider your career over the birth if your child is a extremely selfish but fairly common but apart from our maternity/paternity leave my wife and I have both worked in full time employment and care for our children with a little help from our family of course but we manage to juggle the two. But most people these days can’t afford to give up work to care for there children so you shouldn’t let this affect your decision.
To sum up I think you should take down the website and make your own decision on this one. You should of course take some responsibility for you actions and consider your unborn child rather than yourselves.

You will also have to consider the implications on your life if you do terminate the pregnancy as you will create a media frenzy worldwide which would of course come with its own major pitfalls.

PLEASE atleast go look at the profiles made by potential parents, like myself, waiting for someone to give them the most selfless gift possible. you say your selfish and thats why your having doubts. FINE, thats doesnt make you a bad person, but please don’t take this child away from someone else who’s heart may be BREAKING waiting for him

this baby (Wiggles) is in God’s hands. Actually its not even your choice! so the focus now is your life. Your eternal life. Your the one killing yourself. eternity in hell is too long and too hot. Enjoy it or please repent for even having the idea. May God has mercy on your soul. (btw, stop trying to play God! you will never be Him! so if this idea of abortion isn’t coming from God who do you think it is coming from?)

You are sick sick people.. give the baby a better home to someone who actually cares.. then go kill yourselves or start a website and have people vote if you should commit suicide or not.. whats the difference?

I just wanted to write and let you know that you will never regret keeping your beautiful child! When your baby looks deeply into your eyes, you will experience a love like never before.

If you have a choice, try not to allow your family tree to end with you. Who knows what wonderful possibilities are in store for your child and for the world if this baby is allowed to live?

The ultrasound images are amazing! You get the opportunity to see the very formation of your baby! Trust your heart. Letting go of such a precious gift would be something, I feel, you would always regret, especially after seeing, feeling and hearing this little life growing inside of you.

This baby will bring you immeasurable joy – babies just do that naturally. And some day, when you both are aging parents, this child will be a comfort and a help.

Be “selfish” and please embrace the amazing, one of a kind, magnificent gift that you have been given. – you are a family of 3 now!

I find it hard to comprehend that you would seriously put the survival of a human life to the public vote.
I just want to say that I think you are very blessed to be having a baby when there are so many people who are never able to bring a child into this world. I beg you to consider the gift that your child truely is.
Yes, there are sacrifices to be made when you become a parent, but the rewards and enrichment you reap make them seem insignificant, believe me.
It took me and my husband over 4 years to conceive our first child and we’ve been blessed with 2 more since. I had a miscarriage in May of this year which devestated me and since then I’ve been diagnosed with polycystic ovary syndrome and I have a polyp growing in my womb. I would love to have 1 more child but these conditions present a very real challenge to this desire. Children truly are a blessing from God and not regarding them as so is something I find hard to understand.

i think your are very disturbed people for making this website. Playing with this poor babies life. You dont deserve to be parents now, that child needs people who want it not parents who have decided to keep it just because other people say so. I was petrified when i found out i was pregnant but everyday that my son looks me in the eyes and smiles i couldnt love anything anymore.

You cowards ! You let other people decide for you what can be the most important thing you’ll ever have to decide. What for, so you don’t have to blame yourselves? You’ll just say ‘oh, they told us to ‘? Whatever you do, it will follow you the rest of your lives, while everybody who’s taken part in this will walk away and forget about or try to deal with their own guilt.

You cowards ! Your life is going to change no matter what you do. You might as well face it, it’s already changed !

Whatever you do, no matter what you say, it’s going to be YOUR decision.
Scary, uh ? It’s called life. Get on with yours.

You definitely do not deserve to be parents. I’d hate to think that you keep this baby and it eventually finds out about this. What horrible people. Not even because you are considering having an abortion (that’s totally your choice) but because you are being so lackadaisical in your approach to the decision. I hope you’ve gotten the attention you were wanting. Your family must be so ashamed. Please please please put this baby up for adoption, I have a very close friend who is trying to adopt with her husband and would love a chance like what you have, to bring life into the world. Besides, having a baby isn’t going to ruin your body, it wasn’t great to begin with.

It is so interesting how you are so worried about the baby’s health incase you decide to keep it.
I have news for you- just because the baby is healthy now or on the day it is born means nothing.
Babies and children get terrible illnesses that leave them with life long medical problems. What will you do in a case likie that? have an internet poll about giving your sick kid up for adoption? My oldest son was healthy for the first 6 years of his life until an illness left him with medical and mental problems. Being a parent is about loving your child just as they are…healthy or not. I really hope this whole thing is a sick joke. If not, you are two of the sickest people I have ever heard of.

Voting is for things like Dancing with the Stars and electing government officials, not for deciding to kill an unborn baby. Either this is a hoax, and a way to collect email addresses for spamming, or you guys are seriously mentally ill. If it is not a hoax, I fervantly pray for you that you will be set free from the demon that is afflicting you through the saving Grace of Jesus Christ.