I am reading parenting books until the information comes out of my ears because I want to do everything right for both, Isla and Noah.I want them to have a really loving, kind sibling relationship and more importantly have a long term friendship from today through to adulthood, it is really important to me that they both get on. Some of the best words of advice, I have heard and read are:

Planning- Always plan activities and outings.

Check list- Make sure even if I am going to be ten minutes late, use the check list. Have I got everything I need?

Love- Give both children equal love and affection, especially Isla, if she feels loved she won’t get jealous or spiteful.

Sensitivity- Let Isla help with Noah, involve her with bathing and nappy changes, helping to love, care and nurture him. Calm- If I am happy and relaxed both Children are going to be calm, happy and relaxed. Have you watched your children play together?How do they interact?How do you prevent them from fighting?

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Keily J. Adey is married to Paul and they have two children together, she is a full time mother to her daughter Isla and her son Noah. Keily resides with her family in a small village near Wolverhampton, England.