The misogyny, chauvinism and intimidation of women at music venues needs to stop

“HE roughly shoved his hand down my pants”. “He ejaculated on my back”. “I was bitten and scratched on the face because I didn’t want to go home with a guy”.

These are the terrifying accounts of physical and sexual assault from women courageous enough to speak out against a culture of misogyny, chauvinism and intimidation in nightclubs and at music festivals around Australia.

Sadly, their stories are accepted as a normal part of the music scene by a public whose outrage appears limited to lockout laws and one-punch attacks, says Izzy Combs, who is speaking out after years of witnessing such behaviour on the job.

Ms Combs has worked in nightclubs since she was 18 and was herself assaulted while working at a Kings Cross venue. She said a fire was lit in her belly after watching men get away with grabbing, grinding and abusing women powerless to do anything about it.

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Her own attack, she says, is surprisingly common.

“On a busy Friday night, I was out picking up glasses on the club floor when a male patron roughly shoved his hand down my pants,” Ms Combs wrote in an article for Stoney Roads, a website that labels itself the “quintessential stop for everything dance music”.

“As I dropped the glasses, he let me know that he’d ‘get’ me if I ever told anyone. He ‘knew people in the Cross’.”

Ms Combs says there is a “black hole when it comes to talking about sexual harassment in the music scene”.

Izzy Combs has worked at a nightclub since she was 18.

“We’re big on fuming over ‘king-hit’ crimes, we’re relatively outraged when we talk about a threat to our drug culture and we’re f***ing furious if someone tries to shut down our clubs and bottle shops after a certain time. Our right to party is aggressively defended, yet anger about our right to be safe from sexual assault when we do? The noise stops.”

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“We have a lucky country, but with this issue we’re thinking in the dark,” Ms Combs said.

The 21-year-old told news.com.au she was harassed again as recently as last week.

“I was walking home from my job in the Cross the other night about 11pm on my way to a dance party when a guy ran down the street and slapped me on the arse,” she said.

“I ran after him and I was really annoyed. I told him he didn’t have the right to do that. He threatened me. He told me to chill out and he swore at me and unfortunately that response is all too common.”

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She said men who behave this way don’t think they’re in the wrong because “nobody is talking about it”.

“For me, personally, I’ve recently tried to talk back and react. We all need to start doing that. Sometimes it goes really well. I can have a chat and say ‘you’re intimidating me but you’re not allowed to harass me’. Sometimes it goes really badly.”

Ms Combs has worked in nightclubs since she was 18. She has also toured the country writing about music festivals in most major cities.

She said the same problems exist everywhere and women are not exclusively the victims.

“That has been something upsetting and surprising (after writing the article),” she said.

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“So many people have contacted me including a few guys who have been intimidated. It is a neutral gender issue. I’m distressed to hear that so many people won’t go out and be a part of an amazing and enriching culture.”

She said she is “very pro-music industry and party scene”.

“I don’t support the lock outs and I don’t support stopping the party scene,” she said.

“We should be so proud of what’s going on in our music culture right now but this is overshadowing it”.

Ms Combs is hoping partygoers, venue owners and police come together around the concept of “Free to Move”. The hashtag #Freetomove is gaining traction online.

“It’s blown up,” she told news.com.au. “I have not yet received any hurtful comments, any backlash. That’s been really warming for me to realise this is an issue so many people care about getting behind.”