I joined Plenty of Fish recently because I’m tired of the bar scene. All I can find there are guys looking for one night stands. I’m not that kind of girl.

I figured I’d be able to talk to some people before actually meeting them. I’ve found a couple of people to talk to so far and for the most part they are being perfect gentlemen.

One however asked for pictures of me without clothing within an hour of meeting me. When I told him I wasn’t that kind of girl he continued to pester me. So I just stopped responding to him. Last message was a few days ago.

Today I got a message asking what happened. I responded letting him know that someone that asked for naked pics within a few hours of meeting wasn’t someone I wanted in my dating pool.

He then proceeded to get mad at me and said I led him on. So I re-read all the messages to see where that might have happened. I can’t for the life of me see where I might have led him on or once made him think that I was okay with texting pics of myself without clothing.

Can someone, anyone, please explain to me why men get upset when women show just a little bit of self respect? Just a little bit of back bone? When we say no?

You’d think from all the rejection stories you hear that almost every man on the planet would be used to hearing no. However every time I’ve ever used that word when speaking with a man he gets all angry and butt hurt like I’ve done something terrible. I just don’t get it. Maybe I never will. I am, after all, not a man.

I just wanted to take a few minutes out of my busy day to say thank you to all of our wonderful men and women in the service past and present. Thank you for making sure I have my freedom. Thank you for making sure there is justice in the world. Thank you for all the sacrifices you make for me, someone you don’t know and will never meet.

I pray on this day to Heavenly Father to keep those of you still active safe and coming home soon. I pray to Him in remembrance and thanks for all those have have given their lives for our country.

America wouldn’t be what it is today if it weren’t for all the men and women in our armed services. Thank you.

Wow! Over a year since my last post. A lot has happened in that time. I’m not going to bore you with all the details of the last year here on this one post. I’m just going to tell you what’s going on now in my life and touch on some highlights of the last year in the next few days.

I’m blogging again which means I must be in a better state of mind. This is a good thing. Life is looking up. I know that the next few months are going to be very important to my future and shape the path my life is going to take.

I met an amazing man this weekend. He likes me for me, flaws and all, at least I think he does. He isn’t just trying to get into my pants. I know! Amazing isn’t it? A man that doesn’t just think with his penis. They’re hard to find ladies, if you’re lucky enough to find one hold on to him.

He’s smart. He’s funny. He’s good looking. We share the same faith. We share a lot of the same values. We even like a lot of the same things.

There are some things about him which aren’t all that awesome but they can be worked around. His work takes him away for 3 weeks at a time and he likes golf. Blech! Golf? The most boring sport on the face of the planet. How anyone can enjoy it I don’t know but then again I’ve never played it.

Of course i tease. There are positives and negatives in every possible relationship. His positives far out way any negatives that I can see right now.

I have decided I am tired of all the crap, figuratively and literally, in my body. Therefore I have decided to do The Master Clease. For those of you that don’t know that’s the lemon juice, maple syrup, cayenne pepper cleanse that you’re on for 10 days, in an ideal world. I don’t know exactly how long I’m going to make it but I’m going to try for the whole 10 days.

I’ve got all the ingredients and am going to start in the morning. I am currently at 5’7″ and 185lbs. That’s a BMI of 29 which is just under obese.

Another quintessential 80’s band here. Slightly different fan base but most of the same teen and pre-teen girls wetting their panties for these guys. Probably not their most recognized hit but still a good song.