'Who Loves Who The Most' is a classic NZ song. As a piece of music, it’s catchy; an irresistible dancing anthem. Grammatically, though, it’s a disaster. The second ‘who’ should be ‘whom’: the direct object of loving. And we’re comparing the amount of love felt by two people, not three, so it should be ‘more’, not ‘most’. The song would have been a much bigger hit, if titled, ‘Who Loves Whom More’. I know what you’re thinking. Chill out. Hang loose. That should be ‘hang loosely.’ And ‘chill outwards.’