Are you married and get hit on by women and men who want to have sex with you? Because you are such a loyal spouse, you politely decline? It is very frustrating at times, especially not being able to enjoy sex at home.

It is flattering, almost unbelievable, to know that someone wants or desires you, especially when you think you are over the hill and those days are gone.

I can imagine...kind of like growing up being led to believe that you were never gonna be the kind of guy who'd really attract women...it can be quite damaging. It wasn't until I first started coming to sites like this that I began to think otherwise.

I am sure I would never follow through but, I have never been hit on for sex or otherwise. Unless being hit on to be a punching bag. The fairer sex always told me I wasn't desirable. Finally with age and this site screw them....

The idea of me being hit on by other women is only a paranoid thought by my wife, who is very insecure. And for me, just a wishful thought fantasy. Being hit on by women is something that never really happened to me.