Dear Amy: I've been with my boyfriend for five months. Things were amazing with us, so after two months of dating we moved in together.At first things were better than ever, but then all of a sudden he halted the intimacy and started going out with the guys every night, not getting home until 2 in the morning.Whenever I calmly bring up the fact that I want to see him and...

TERRIBLY UPSET: If you're unhappy, make a change. You sound unhappy. You're focusing on the few moments of bliss at the beginning of the relationship and hoping your bf will go back to that. Don't count on it. Woman up and dump him. After that, get your own stuff together so this doesn't happen again with the next boy.

UPSET EX: Your ex is verbally abusing your boys and you're chalking it up to midlife crisis? Wrong honey. It's abuse. Midlife crisis and self-loathing or not, what he's doing is 100% unacceptable. You either put an end to it or you're condoning it. You really should side with your kids here.