Aaron, that second thing you mentioned...when I was in grade school in the after-school day care program (which was terrible), we used to play games on the playground (which I just realized were RP games; here's why: ). There was always this one kid who would go power crazy. Every time anyone tried to take the game play in a different direction, he'd take over! it got suuuuuupppeeeerrr fruuuuusssssstrraaaating (that was my long, drawn out way of expressing how annoying it was, ha.) it got to the point where we stopped playing those games because he sucked all the fun out of them. Like, we'd pretend the playground equipment was a castle and then he'd decide if anyone touched a certain color, they were "zapped" with out anyone else agreeing to said rule.