Girl Handbook

Girl Handbook is a guide to the mind of the average Teenage girl, pre-teen, and even adult women. And the crazy hormones girls have. Girl handbook expresses the troubles of the average girl , Girl codes, and the things that normal teenagers just dont want to talk about! This is a book full of how to fit in, the troubles of moving, and how to go from the outsider to the leader. The ups & downs of mother nature. And how life just isnt fair sometimes.

4. Mean girls, Bullies, & Bullets

In Everyone's life they experience that mean... mean ... MEAN... girl. But of course if you haven't... Sorry sweetie but you are that girl. Mean Girls Vary from all shapes and sizes. And in most cases mean girls are the flawless popular girls. And There is a THIN line between being the mean girl and being the BULLY.

Difference between A Mean Girl & A Bully.

Urban Dictionary (mean girl):

1) Girls who are bullies and use "girl aggression" (nasty comments,trickery, deceit, excluding people from events, spreading rumors, stealing boyfriends etc.) to manipulate other girls.

BULLY: Noun 1. A person who uses strength or power to harm or intimidate those who are weaker. 2.Corned beef Bullet: (Girl hand book definition)

Person being bullied by a bully; No you are not weak, helpless, just because you may be a Bullet . But In life everyone has that point in life where they are the damsel in distress. I get bullied, Everyone gets bullied but YOU have to know how to Stick up for YOURSELF because someone will NOT always be there to come and save you! The Mean girl: Mean girls will use text, messaging, AIM, email, three-way-calling (Note to self:beware of three way calling conversations because people do that for you to say something about the secret person on the other line) and any other weapon at their disposal to achieve these goals. These girls are often popular because everyone is either afraid of them or wants to be like them. ALMOST ALL mean girls have there little army followers or their "clique" to back them up because on the inside they are ALL insecure.

*Mean girl analogy* "Uh! Amanda you are so ugly. and your hair looks like a cat's hair ball" then their fake barbie doll army back her up "Haha! yeah Amanda! Good one Tiffany!" and Amanda goes to the bathroom and cries all alone.

How to Get even with the Mean girl: Mean girls are basically completely helpless when they are alone; Because, all mean girls are secretly insecure. but there are only a couple resorts to nipping a mean girl right in the bud.

Opt. 1) Get Even with the mean girl and treat her like she treats you. Get a group of your friends and tell her what you guys really think about her tactics!

Opt 2) If you are not afraid of getting down and dirty and fighting her GET to it! But under no circumstances is it okay to gang up on a girl and double teen her in a fight. People could really get hurt!

Option 3.) IF you are not trying to get into any deep mess with this girl just ignore her. All mean girls need to see an affect of what they are doing to get the drive they need. They will eventually stop if they see that they are just wasting there meanness on something that isn't rewarding.

Option 4) Sometimes it takes being the snitch to get something to end. Tell an adult if the mean girl is hitting you , harassing you etc. Never let someone do something to you that you are not comfortable with them doing or if it hurts you. Bullies: As us female bullets we need to get help and not let Bullies run all over us. You have to tell someone. I know that it is scary and that they are going to do such and such. Like for example if a guy was harassing you or ...raping you, you have to tell an adult, a guidance counselor, resource officer, parents, or a well trusted teacher. Trust me ... It helps. They may say they are going to this and that... but think about this... How the hell are they going to do anything to you when they are in jail, Alternative schools, boarding schools, suspended etc. Bully Is Nothing you take lightly. This is your life and your body. Let no male or female take that from you. And sometimes it take you getting your own protection. Like pepper spray, or keeping a little stick pen (lol) With you. Just know what ever you use its an act of self defense!