Piper Blush of The Art of BlowJob

We are really excited to present this discussion with Piper Blush, star of two amazing sites - PiperBlush.com and The Art of BlowJob. We are fans of these sites for several reasons. These sites combine sensuality, passion and sex appeal to produce some of the highest quality adult film available. Their high production value arouses the imagination while not delving too deeply into the tawdry. In a time when porn focuses increasingly on demeaning and degrading women, TAOBJ (and its sister site - The Art of Cunnilingus) present intimacy at its most appealing. We found her openness and honesty exceptionally sexy and think that this is what her fans appreciate about her performances. In recognition of our interview, use discount code PIPER and take 15% off your order!

Your performances focus on oral sex. How did you arrive at this?

I’ve always been orally focused. I like to eat with my fingers, to have something in my mouth at all times. I love to give fellatio, sometimes I do it while I watch tv, it can last a few episodes :) I prefer blowjobs over any other sexual act in my private life. I thought I should stay true to myself and do what I like most!Have you learned anything from your experiences in adult film that has perhaps enhanced your private sex life? If so, can you share those with our customers?

I have already learned a great deal from my short time in porn, by talking to my fans, getting to know them and what makes them like me. It has changed my perspective on blow jobs. I had always done blowjob in full selfishness, for my own pleasure. Making videos on blow jobs made me realise how much men crave them. Now in my personal life, I try to make my partner feel what I feel when he’s in my mouth. Every sexual experience I have on camera is responsible for the person I am now!The Art of BlowJob (TAOBJ) has won a Feminist Porn award. Do you consider TAOBJ to be feminist? If so how?

I do consider TAOBJ to be a feminist porn site. I give blowjobs because I personally prefer them to anything else. TheArtofBlowjob lets me share my passion! Every time we shoot a video, I get to choose what I want to do. We mainly focus on the woman's pleasure during fellatio. The man is not made very present, it leaves place for the woman to explore her sexuality. Also, we have develloped TheArtofBlowjob’s Educational Series, it’s a series of short videos that explain many aspects of The Art that is giving a good blowjob. We talk about the attitude and the different techniques that can be used. You could use any of our videos to practice the skills you want to acquire, but the Educational Series has a voiced over description to help guide you. Women can embrace and posses their sexuality by being models or becoming members of TheArtofBlowjob. In your interview with Dr. Laurie Betito, you talked about the artistry of TAOBJ. How do you maintain the intensity and originality of each performance?

It’s not hard to find inspiration when doing something you love! I think about sex a lot, so I have plenty of ideas in my head. Our videos are usually made of the spree of the moment. It all depends on my mood and the one of my partner. One morning, I can feel like a facial cumshots and the other like edging. By choosing what I want to do today, I’m always passionate about it. That’s why the videos are filled with intensity and originality. Some videos can be less original because they already come with a theme, like on Steak and Blowjob Day. On that day, we just have to do a video where there’s a steak and a blowjob! Those are fun because you know people are waiting for them impatiently.You have been in the adult film industry for a little more than a year. How has your experience affected your view on sexual wellness and intimacy?

It has affected my views on sexual wellness and intimacy, I’ve seen a whole new side to sex. I feel that to be able to experience sexual wellness or to flourish sexually, you need openness. You have to talk about sex! Where some people don’t need intimacy to obtain sexual wellness. Intimacy does help people not feel ashamed to talk about taboos with their partners. Talking about sex, lets you construct an opinion about your own sexlife. What are you looking for in sex? If you don’t know what’s out there how can you know what you want. I feel that if a sexual act is done with the consent of both parties, it can be fulfilling, whatever that act is.There is a very sensual appeal to the production of TAOBJ. How do you maintain this?

Sensuality comes from intimacy. We shot the videos in a very private setting, only me and a male model. We set up the cameras and are free to do whatever we feel like. We follow our impulses, it stays true and real. Nothing is controlled by a third party or interrupted by the movements of a crew.

There seems to be a more open attitude towards sexuality in general in Canada, especially in the Montreal area. Do you think this is an accurate description as compared to the U.S. for example?

I would say that Canada does think less conservatively towards sex, and many other things, than the U.S. I can only talk of what I know, Quebec does have sexual education in school, where not every state in the States has it. I did have Sexual Education classes throughout my years in school. These classes do guide a population towards acceptance and openness. They are based on scientific facts about the human body, but also on statistics about genders, homosexuality, etc. They help you understand the world in which you live in.

I notice that in The Art of Blow Job, the female performers convey a passion or desire for their partners through eye contact and enthusiasm. Do you find that women in general underestimate the effectiveness of this in enjoying these experiences?

I do feel women don’t realize how their attitude towards the blowjob affects their partner. Eye contact is very important, it helps you connect with your partner without having to talk. You can communicate with your eyes and it’s very intimate. Exchanging a glance, lets you know how the other person feels. Most men I’ve encountered, tell me it’s eye contact and a passionate attitude that makes the difference between an average blowjob and a mind-blowing blowjob. You should always think of your own enjoyment while giving a blowjob. He will like it if she likes it! Women should not feel shy about peeking up and letting their partner know how much they enjoy their manhood. Men also need to be told that they are beautiful!

We are fans of a newly published work on blow jobs by Vancouver’s own Teesha Morgan (See our Heads Up Collection). Do you have any advice for women or men when it comes to performing blow jobs.

Oral sex is a very intimate act, it takes as much confidence to receive it than to give it. You let them see you so closely and in charge of your pleasure. To perform a blowjob, women need to not doubt themselves, get out of their heads, and just do what feels right. Both the man and woman should feel comfortable. To feel comfortable, you need to not worry about your partner doing things you don’t like. You have to communicate with them the things you like. It can be done before the act, if you already know some of your sweet spots. You can also communicate during, by moans or words. Men should be expressive, if something makes them feel good. Even afterwards if there is a techniques you really enjoyed be sure to tell your partner how great it was, so she remembers.I have heard that because of their careers, other models encounter issues with simple things like personal banking. What kinds of difficulties or misconceptions do you encounter as a result of your career?

Models are mainly self-employed and I could see why some may have issues with banking. You are in a whole other tax bracket when your are self-employed! Frankly, I don’t have many difficulties with the day to day stuff. There are a lot of misconceptions surrounding the life of a porn star. Porn is a lot more than the concept that people attribute to it. Usually depicted by parties, orgies and drugs. There are so many different type of people that work in the industry, I being one of them. I think the people outside of the industry should not be shy about asking questions instead of creating their own conclusions. I don’t like to be affiliated with other sectors of porn in which I play no role in. If you meet me in the street, you would probably think that I’m just the girl next door.

You seem to enjoy facials. While many people regard this as a form of male dominance or degradation, do you find this to be a higher form of intimacy or connection?

Men in general like to be dominant, that’s just a residue of human evolution. It doesn’t mean men don’t respect women. I never felt disrespected while giving a blow job. Men are proud of their manhoods. I feel that a lot of a man’s confidence, if it isn’t all of it, comes from his penis. They like to see themselves ejaculate, to see how much semen there is. The bigger the load, the further it goes, the more manly they feel. To see a women taking care of their manhood gives them a sense of empowerment. To ejaculate on her makes them feel like she belongs to them and them to her. I personally feel a deeper connection with a man when he lets me give him a blow job. For some people facial cumshot are regarded as male dominance and degrading for the woman, but not for me. If they made me feel that way, I would not allow myself to do it. I feel that’s only how men are, they need blow jobs to feel beautiful!

Following up on the issue of dominance, many women regard blowjobs as an expression of dominance over women, do you find instead that women can assume the dominant role instead?

As I said in the previous question,(11) man are dominant. A blow job is a submissive act on the part of the woman even if she enjoys it as much as he does, the main goal is to satisfy the men. It does not mean she has to give away all control over her actions. She chooses to allow a man to penetrate her mouth, as she would any other parts of her body. A woman can most definitely be in control of the blow job. There are many blow job positions in which she will have more mobility, than the standard man up/woman on her knees. She can do it when the man is laying in bed and they can establish that the man is not to touch her during the blow job, giving her total control over him. You have to find what satisfies both your needs!Are there toys or special techniques which you like to incorporate when you go down on a man? If so, which ones?

It isn’t as much about the technique as the attitude, but I do like to explore with toys and techniques. There is one technique, I like in particular. I take both my hands and tighten them around his well lubricated shaft. I twist in opposite directions while pulling it towards me. It’s the only technique I found that works on all men and makes them go crazy. That way I get to guide his ejaculation to wherever I want it and to see it. I love seeing it burst out of him!