Test: How Insecure Are You?

are YOU insecure? Did it ever cross your mind? Did you ever think that maybe YOU keep your guard up too much and need to be more open? You may not have noticed it before, but try taking this quiz, you might be surprised.....

"You're suspicious, and you don't like to keep your guard down. You worry too much, and are very nervous when you think someone's gossiping about you. Or maybe your image scares you and you constantly try crash-dieting. You're paranoia sometimes gets the better of you, and you've got to keep it together more often or people will start to avoid you."

Mostly due to bad teasing, humiliating, isolating, rumors-spreading experiences in my teenage years, which caused me to begin experiencing pretty bad paranoia up till now... Before that I was just this carefree, happy kid. And I honestly wonder how I can actually start reversing this paranoia >< I really miss those carefree days.

You keep your guard down usually, but sometimes there are things that make you insecure. Maybe it's when you hear your name when it's not directed to you, or maybe it's signs on your back that worry you. But, no need for alarm, you're calm and can keep it together in most situations.

Some weird answers.

"Are you or have you ever been anorexic?" "Never been, never will."
I have never been anorexic, but I cannot know that I never will be.

"After being embarrassed, have you considered transferring to a different school?" "Yes it's the only way to preserve my reputation."
I have wanted to transfer to a different school after being embarrassed, but it was to avoid emotional pain, not to preserve my reputation.

feeling jealous because you couldn't get a perfect score like us?
you can admit it, it is okay I won't tell anyone

here are my answers if you are curious:

1. What is your age?
25 to 30 Years Old

2. What is your gender?
Male

3. Do you have PPD (Paranoid Personality Disorder)?
No

4. Are you very thin?
Nope and I don't plan on being very thin either (I plan on being average weight, but I am not dieting though)

5. Are you or have you even been anorexic?
Never been, never will (you can't be a pizza lover and have anorexic as per my knowledge)

6. Are you constantly suspicious about how others think of you?
I do have my times when I'm suspicious (not constantly but I do sometimes)

7. Are you very concerned about your looks?
Occasionally (well just not to look ugly in front of girls)

8. After being embarrassed, have you considered transferring to a different school?
I have thought about it (actually I didn't what I thought about was going back in time to fix things but they are sort of not very far from each other )

9. Have you ever participated in "passive bullying", when you were afraid that you yourself might be bullied?
Nope (I define passive bullying as "seeing others bullying someone and enjoys it from a safe spot", so I don't do it. personally I look down on bullies & very much ignores them as for the fitting in part I really didn't feel like I belonged to any group I have been part of)

10. Do you find that you are looking over your shoulder often?
Never really thought about it (there is a wall behind me you know)

11. Which of these would best describe you?
In between (I don't like extremes)

12. Do you constantly ask other people about how you look?
Very rarely or never (asking would be so embarrassing so of course I never did it)

13. If you hear people laughing a lot behind your back, what do you usually think?
"I wonder what that was" (I would think it is about me only if I did something that would make them laugh at me which is not "usually")

14. Someone gives you a pat on the back, what do you think?
"Thanks" (I would be surprised though)

15. Are you in denial?
Nope, I speak the truth (I would expect no less from myself)

@Simo not jealous at all. Just wanted to know if it makes you somehow shameless. Lol

Interesting answers, I had like 5 different.

About the username I changed it accidentally and one have to wait 21days to change it. Apparently I can't use my last username (I lost him, forever it seems, usernames are not a game), so I've to think in a new one. All the configuration of usernames sucks.

@Simo not jealous at all. Just wanted to know if it makes you somehow shameless. Lol

I don't really think being secure is the same as being shameless, after all being secure means not needing others opinions of you to feel good about yourself while shameless means not feeling bad when you did something bad

Interesting answers, I had like 5 different.

1 can make the difference between the perfect & the not perfect

About the username I changed it accidentally and one have to wait 21days to change it. Apparently I can't use my last username (I lost him, forever it seems, usernames are not a game), so I've to think in a new one. All the configuration of usernames sucks.

accidentally?! you wrote 4 words, clicked submit & you call it accident? but don't lose hope I think there is a way to get it back. I see @Aylen did change her name before but it changed back by "N/A" so it means she is a hacker or have connections, either way blackmail her to get the secret of getting your old username back (but seriously is it worth it? I mean what is so special about it anyway?)

being called a really really bad guy by an evil woman means I am doing a good job being a really really good guy

Don't listen to his madness.

Seriously, I think that is just his sense of humor..

be careful with your words, my sense of humor is really sensitive (or as per the OP "insecure") so implying that he is mad hurts his feelings. now he locked himself up in his room & is refusing to get out which means I need to find a replacement

I have very anxious and hyper aware eyes. They are usually somewhere else trying to look for anything unusual, dangerous, or interesting. I feel as if I have to take into account every single detail or else I'll be left either vulnerable or missing out on something cool.

You are 32% Insecure of yourself
You're pretty secure. Sure, you may be a little suspicious at times, but it doesn't control you, and you're not panicking all the time. You're calm and are not worried about letting your guard down

You keep your guard down usually, but sometimes there are things that make you insecure. Maybe it's when you hear your name when it's not directed to you, or maybe it's signs on your back that worry you. But, no need for alarm, you're calm and can keep it together in most situations.

29%
You're pretty secure. Sure, you may be a little suspicious at times, but it doesn't control you, and you're not panicking all the time. You're calm and are not worried about letting your guard down.