I'm 41 already have 3 children - girl 23, boy 21 and girl 11, I also had another girl who would of been 19 this year but sadly passed away in 2000.

I have had the Merina coil fitted nearly 12 years now (with changes of course) and had no real problems with it. I'm having it removed today because i've decided I'd like another baby. I would have had one sooner but was not mentally strong enough before now, after the loss of my daughter.

I know that its probably going to be harder to conceive at my age but i'm going to try and see what happens.

your not crazy hun. I have a 10yr old and an 8yr old from my first marriage. I have met someone else now but always said no more babies then all of a sudden I thought what the hell and after lenghty talks with my OH we have decided to go for it.xxx

Hi there and welcome to the site, everyone on here are lovely and so helpful. My friend had her first at 39 and is trying for another one now so she'll be 41 once it has happened again. Good luck ttc and hope you get a BFP (big fat positive) real soon.

Hi, I'm an older mother too - 39 and I'm tcc my 2nd, lo is 3. I personally think the crazies are those that only want one, theres nothing better than being a mother! Hope you are sucessful quickly.Helen.x