Please help me with shoes (and veil ideas, while we're at it)!

Jill- I love those shell ones. Where did you find those? That probably comes the closest to what I need, except they need to be a little more sparkley. And although I hate gold tones, I'm going to have to go with gold tones or pearls or rhinestones to match my dress. Thanks! And Christine, PLEASE post those pics when you get them. I can't wait to see them.

you're going to kill me, that is unless you wear a size 11 in shoes. I just went back to find that site and when I clicked on the link for the shoe it says size 11, and thats it, I don't know why? but heres the link, I'll do some more searching and see what else I can find

honestly, just go barefoot. I had gold leather jcrew flip-flops that I wore for the first part of the day but I ditched them after about 20 minutes and never put them back on. - you said that you're not a flip-flop fan so they prob. won't work for you.

as for a veil, you can absolutely wear a veil without a tiara. I did. I had my hair up and just put the comb where my updo started toward the back of my head. But if you are wearing your hair down, you can anchor the comb in your hair by using a couple of bobby pins that are strategically placed.

Julie, I especially love the wedges you sent. They're awesome. But I don't have time to figure out dying a shoe and they only come in white

Tasha-the closer we get, I'm thinking about going shoeless, except I'm afraid my feet will burn off. I have neuropathy which makes walking barefoot a little painful for me. It's dumb, but I have a hard time without shoes, even on the beach.

Christine, so I can do the veil without a tiara...but how will I attach it to my shaved head?

And I do love the idea of wearing a tiara all week long (although I don't know if I'm actually ballsy enough to do that)