Why isn’t this normal? How much time do you have? Healthy couples work together, not against each other. “You need to fight for me” usually means you’re fighting against their lifelong character pathology. So you fight them, and then get blamed for fighting with them. It doesn’t end until you step out of it and […]

You shouldn’t have to explain normal adult behavior and basic decency to a grown adult. That is if said adult wasn’t raised by a pack of hyenas. Even young kids know lying, cheating, stealing, bullying, pitching tantrums, pouting and being sneaky are wrong. If they don’t learn it at home, there’s school church, Sesame Street […]

This behavior is Krazy with a “K.” Am I the only one who looks back on the time before social media and smartphone with warm nostalgia? Nowadays, I regularly have sessions with clients who are stressed and traumatized by Facebook, Instagram, Twitter and text message drama. Sometimes, it’s puerile 13-year old junior high-esque high emotional […]