Wednesday, November 6, 2013

5 THINGS WOMEN NEED IN A RELATIONSHIP

She needs to trust you: No matter how secure and independent a girl
is, she'll always feel the weight of imminent neglect. Stability is the
key to fulfilling a woman's needs. A woman needs to know that you will
be there when she needs you. Trust speaks to her most fundamental
feelings about security in a relationship. Knowing that you're faithful
to her, physically and emotionally, is the most important element you
can provide in the relationship.

Play nicely: Women need men who
are considerate, thoughtful, and kind. They want someone who'll listen
when they cry (no matter how uncomfortable it is), who'll bring them
Motrin when they're PMSing, and take their pug out at 5am when it's a
cold winter morning. Women spend a lot of time nurturing you, so it's
only fair that you return the favor.

Is this a partnership or
what: Women need to feel like they are on equal ground with their mate.
They don't want to be overly protected, but on the other end of the
spectrum they don't want to feel like they're always babysitting either.
Surveys show that women say that they want a partner who will be their
best friend; celebrate their successes and commiserate with their
failures.

Lend a helping hand: As much as men hate being nagged,
women equally hate nagging. Lending a helpful hand without being asked
is one of the easiest ways to keep a relationship on neutral ground.
Offering to wash the dishes, make dinner, or fold the laundry is a
gesture that won't go unnoticed. In many cases if you offer to do
something your girl will tell not to worry about it anyway, but she'll
be happy that you offered. It's all those little things that really pay
off.

Show some respect: Women are always talking about wanting respect
from the opposite sex, but unless you're a women you can never really
understand what this truly means. Women handle the bulk of the emotional
labor in their relationships
and yet they're constantly faced with thoughtless and undignified
comments, even when it's unintentional. Women want to be respected for
the work that they do, whether it be domestic or corporate. Women are
master multitaskers and they're frustratingly stubborn, but they're also
more emotional than men and sometimes they need a little reassurance
that they're respected for all that they do.