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One month on my own! I’m sure a month won’t seem so significant some time in the future, but for me it was time to briefly reflect. In retrospect it doesn’t seem like it’s been that long. Maybe because I was a bit in a fog or a time-warp or something.

It feels like a first significant hurdle, and it can’t be predicted what will come, but I feel good about it so far.

Some of what I consider to be accomplishments:

I made the house like I want it to be. I cleaned, rearranged stuff, threw some stuff out. I went around with touch-up paint and filled nail holes where certain pictures used to be.

I got my own bank account and credit card and put together my separate budget. I setup the mortgage and other bills related to the house to come out of my separate account instead…