I need help. What do I do about my ex boyfriend?

I got together with another guy recently and every time my ex and I get together we get into a argument. I tried to keep it pleasant, but he'd always bring up something and turn it into an argument. This morning, he sent a letter to all of our mutual friends, family, and my friends.
They people have been calling me and messaging me all day, wanting to know if the stuff he wrote was true from over the past decade. Yes, the stories are all true, but he didn't have the to right to put our relationship issues out there like that. All he could say was "I got tired of you lying and changing story to make me look bad. I don't mind throwing myself under the bus if it's to clear my name of all this bullshit that's stacked against me. "

What he has done against you is uncalled for, no matter the reasons. I sense he is not composed whenever he feels unsettled about something.

Another thing, you said everytime you meet him it turns into an argument. My question to you is how many arguments must still happen between you two, to realize that you have to stay apart from each other.

I suggest that when you see him, just behave as if he has a protection order against you. I think its the best way to stay away from redundant, useless and hurtful arguments.

The only thing there is to do is to cut ties and move on without any contact. Now that you have your things, there is no reason to see or to talk to one another. Avoid any conversations that could be made through mutual friends and ignore any get togethers where your ex may be attending; at least for now. If he tries to contact you, do not respond! Even if he is hurting, you are not the person to comfort him. I can't say it enough--- avoid all contact.

Need more info. If (as you appear to suggest) your relationship was 10 years of issues/incidents (and since you say they're true I guess many were of your own making?) - then you moved out to be with someone else - he is probably devastated. Scorned men can react the same way as scorned women. Hell hath no fury etc. So he decided what the hell - might as well put his side of the story out there, nothing to lose.

Best advice is collect your belongings (or get someone to do it for you) then break contact with him. You two need to go your separate ways.

Maybe you could have conducted yourself in such a manner over the last decade that regardless of what an ex might write about you, no one who knew you would believe any of it since they would all know you were not the type of person to do such acts?

Our actions have consequences. You're currently reaping the benefits of all you've sown.

Get your stuff together & get your Shi t together. Have nothing more to do with him.
But learn your lesson... you are telling this story & YOU make it sound like it’s your fault. Whatever you did... don’t repeat it