"Those girls, they're part of the group that only blogs about __________" [Fill in the blank: parenting, being a stay-at-home mom, deals, being crafty, and the list goes on and on.]

In many ways, everyone has their friends. They've carved out a place for themselves among them. And this can be intimidating to "the new girl" despite how kind I've found many individuals in the blogging community to be.

It's difficult to begin a blog, know your goals, and then to visit the blogs that have already obtained those goals (and way more).

"Oh, well her blog is extremely successful and she does this. Maybe I need to do that too if I want a successful blog."

"But she does that and everyone loves her blog. Maybe I should blog about that."

No, I just need to be myself. I need to blog about whatever I want to blog about, when I want to blog about it, and how I want to blog about it.

I'd also like to pass along one other deal. Unfortunately, I didn't get to take advantage of this one because I waited too late and the product was sold out, (boo!) but hopefully someone will still be able to.

Tuesday, June 28, 2011

Today I set out to create a Facebook Page for my blog and to import my blog posts onto my Page. Unfortunately, this was slightly more complicated than initially anticipated. But, after searching Facebook (and the internet) for a little while I was able to figure it out.

If you're interested in setting up a Facebook Page for your blog and/or having your posts imported never fear!

I'll walk you through it!

How to Set up a Facebook Page for Your Blog

1: Log out of your personal Facebook Account. This will take you to the home screen. Toward the very bottom, right below the green "sign up" button, click Create a Page.

2: Select Brand or Product.

3: Select Website and enter your blog name (which will be the name of your page). Select Get Started.

4: Then you'll be asked to create a Facebook account. If you have one already, simply enter your login information. If not, take a minute to create an account.

You'll then be directed to your new Facebook Page (yay!) where you can upload a picture, enter your basic information, etc. Your page is now officially set up.

Importing Your Blog Posts to Your Facebook Page

But now, it's time to add your blog to your page so that when you publish a new blog post, it's automatically updated on your Facebook page. (This was the part that made me want to pull my hair out. But now that I know how to do it, it won't be difficult to explain.)

6: And confirm, and you're good to go! Your previous blog posts will begin importing. And from now on, your posts should automatically be uploaded to your Facebook page! YAY!!

{Edit on 12.01.11: It seems that sometimes Facebook is super fast about importing my posts and other times it takes it a bit. Nevertheless, looking back it does appear that they are all importing on their own. So, for me at least, the process explained here has been successful and it should be for you as well!}

{Edit on 01.17.12: For some reason my last few posts have not been automatically importing. I'm sure this has something to do with the fact that Facebook is--yet again--making changes (rolling out Timeline). I'll keep paying attention to see if this is a problem that's only temporary. Hopefully it is.}

Okay, so now is the part where I ask very nicely for you to LIKE My Facebook Page! Pretty pretty please, with sugar on top? I'll be your best friend!! :)

Update: I didn't get this job. In fact, my interview was on a Friday afternoon and Monday I received my "thanks for interviewing but we've chosen someone else" letter in the mail. Now, I'm no expert on how the postal service works, but considering that I was told it'd be at least a week or two before a decision would be made, unless I accidently hibernated, I'm pretty sure that the interview was a waste of my time & that a previous applicant had been chosen during his/her interview prior to me interviewing. Fun stuff. :)

Thursday, June 23, 2011

1) Hmm.... I'd never even considered the fact that he may be sneezing because he's allergic to something. Wanna know what I'm allergic to? People who don't know how to mind their own damn business!

2) Maybe I do need to learn how to be more time efficient. Say, while you're at the store later multi-tasking, why don't you go ahead and pick me up a bag of mind your own damn business!

3) Thanks for the great idea! You know, I have a great idea too! What if.... stay with me now.... just what if.... you learned how to mind your own damn business!

4) You sure seem to know a lot about how to parent other people's children. But, you know what you don't know an awful lot about? Minding your own damn business.

5) You're right, I probably should teach him that. You know what someone should have taught you? How to mind your own damn business!

6) That's absolutely fantastic. You know what else would be fantastic? If you'd learn to mind your own damn business!

7) I'll get started on that right away. You just be sure to start right away on learning how to mind your own damn business!

8) Since you put it that way, maybe we should give him a sibling after all even though I must admit, he's never complained about being an only child. You know what he does complain about? People who don't mind their own damn business.

9) Well, why didn't I think of that? Geez, you're so smart. Maybe you can help me out with this other problem I'm having too... See, I'm having trouble getting you to mind your own damn business!

10) Oh, really? Well, I'll buy that book for him then since it taught your child how to read at age 2. Speaking of books, you know what book I've really come to enjoy? It's in the children's section and it's entitled Mind Your Own Damn Business!

Wednesday, June 22, 2011

Maddox: [Talking to my husband.] "Will you make me some cereal?"
Me: "Oh, I'm sorry babe. I told him I'd make him a bowl and I forgot."
Maddox: "Yea, that's why I don't trust you."

Me: [While singing and dancing like an idiot.] "Drop it like it's hot... drop it like it's hot..."
Maddox: "If you don't move out of my way, I'm going to drop you like it's hot."

Maddox: "I don't want to eat dinner. I just ate."
Me: "If you're not hungry enough to finish everything that's fine, but you're sitting at the table. The important thing is that we sit around the table together and enjoy . . . ."
Maddox: "But, I'm on a diet!"

Tuesday, June 21, 2011

Our children grow. They change. Suddenly, they're teenagers. The joyous conversations and similarities between the two of you that once appeared seemingly endless are now a distant memory. You may feel confused. After all, who is this kid? And where did my baby go?

We all know, either because we've raised or are raising teenagers, or because we were all at one time teenagers ourselves, that the teenage years are inevitable and that they bring about unique challenges for both the teen and the parent.

But what you may not know is that fostering a deep connection with your child during his or teenage years, one that will benefit him as he faces difficult decisions, is possible. It is possible to guide your teen through these tough years, to be available, without controlling him.

But how?

Dr. John Duffy addresses this simple, yet complex, question in his book: The Available Parent.

Dr. Duffy's book is broken up into three parts.

Part One: Your Teenager's Wild World The first part is designed to help you understand the whirlwind that is the mind of your teen and the reality of your teen's daily life.

Part Two: What Never Works After having a better understanding of the inner-workings of your teen, the second part discusses the many mistakes that (yes, even good-intentioned) parents make in a frantic attempt to help their changing child make the right decisions. This part also helps the reader understand why these attempts often prove to be more fatal than helpful.

Part Three: What Always Works Now that the reader is armed with the knowledge obtained during the first two parts of the book, the author explains the methods that need to be put into place in order to be effective in parenting today's teens--in order to be an available parent.

Dr. Duffy's methods are simple. His advice is practical. And his techniques are effective.

One of the beauties of this book is that its techniques can be applied at any stage. I have already begun using certain advice of this book with my five-year old (such as not to lecture or smother him).

Therefore, whether you (like myself) have a small child or have a tween or a teen, this book is one that will help prepare you for the road ahead and aide you in effectively parenting your child as he or she grows and changes while moving toward the teenage years.

No matter what age your child is, it's never too early (or too late) to be a non-judgmental ear, to be the person that builds up your child through encouraging words, actions, and expectations--to be available.

I highly recommend this book and its teachings to all parents.

Go ahead, "embrace fearless parenting." Learn how to "[m]inimize conflict and maximize satisfaction in your relationship with your child." And in doing so, learn how to "[r]emain available for your child through the teenage years and lay a foundation for a healthy, loving relationship."

To purchase this book (which is available in hardback and on Kindle) or to read more reviews, click here.

Note: The book featured in this post was provided to me at no cost by FSB Associates.

I was not compensated in any other way by this post and the opinions displayed are strictly my own and not influenced in anyway by the author or publisher.

Sunday, June 19, 2011

Two years ago, during my summer break from school, I started couponing to see what all the fuss was about.

Let me tell you, I freaking loved it. I thought it was so much fun!

But, because I stay so busy with school I haven't clipped a coupon since the summer of 2009. However, since I'm not working this summer and am only taking evening classes I decided to pick it back up again.

For me, it's a really neat hobby. I am always looking for deals and to try new products so if I can do that without breaking the bank, I'm thrilled. Plus, it makes me feel like I'm somehow "contributing" to the income around here even though I'm still in school.

Just like the last time I couponed, I'm not sure how long I can keep it up considering that once the fall semester rolls around, by my calculation, I will be spending a minimum of 68 hours a week either clerking at the firm, sitting in class, or studying. :( But, I promise to enjoy it while it lasts!

Today we were out and about so I made my first coupon trips in two years and thought I'd share my deals.

Walgreens #1

The G-Fit Series is on sale this week at Walgreens so I picked them up for the hubs. :)

Thursday, June 16, 2011

And only someone with a high amount of intelligence can be that quick on his toes at age 5. Well, and I have other reasons too I suppose.... like the fact that he knows the downtown area better than I do (sadly, I'm not joking) and that his spatial reasoning and ability blows mine out of the water (again, not joking).

But he won't perform.

You know what I'm talking about.... The children that randomly come find you at the grocery store, asks you what your name is, and then proceed to tell you that they're 4 years old and everything else they know.

Yea, that's not my kid.

In fact, even when we're at home by ourselves I have a hard time pulling information out of him that I know he has to know.

It's getting better as he gets older, but honestly when he was 4 and his teachers told me he could count to 100 I about fell out in the floor. MY child?! Seriously? I don't think I'd ever heard him count past 10.

He's five and finally a few months ago I heard him sing the alphabet for the first time. I've known he was capable of doing it for a long time. After all, the child's been writing his damn name for almost two years. He'll even "accidently" slip up in front of me occasionally and admit that he recognizes that a certain letter is a lowercase "L," etc. "Ah-HA! You ARE smart!"

I don't know if this is because he's a boy, or WHAT but it makes parenting a little scary. Fortunately, he doesn't act like this at school so I have confidence that he'll do well when he begins kindergarten in August. And again, it's getting better.

Well, a few months ago I realized that I'd never worked with him on learning my phone number. And in order to get him to ADMIT to me that he knew what it was (and to recite it on command) I knew I was going to have to bribe him.

So I did what any good parent would do.... I bribed him.

And it was the mother of all bribes. "If you'll memorize my phone number, I'll take you to Toys R Us and let you buy anything that you want."

Yes, you'd be correct if you assumed the following two things from the previous statement. 1) It was important to me that I be absolutely certain that he KNOWS my phone number by heart in case of emergencies. 2) My kid is that unwilling to perform on command otherwise.

So, overnight he had my phone number memorized. (Imagine that!) But, to make sure that he really, really had it memorized... that it was permanently stored in his brain, I've made him recite it a few times a week over the past few months. Let's just say I have no doubt in my mind that he definitely knows it. (Whew!)

Well last night, the time finally came for me to live up to my end of the bargain. Thankfully, the damage was only $50. (We all know it easily could have been 10x that.)

Wednesday, June 15, 2011

Initially the title of my blog really wasn't a title. It was a quote that I adore (and that is one of my many mottos.)

I intend to live forever, so far so good . . . .

[That's a realistic motto, right? Whatever.]

But, I couldn't decide if that was like putting a big red neon sign above my head telling fate to try me. Well, it was either that or that it just wasn't catchy enough for me. Either one.

So, I changed it.

This time I put a lot of thought into my title, and it's probably what most of you know my blog as:

To Find the Line

However, it just wasn't doing it for me. I suppose that's because I'd initially anticipated my blog being more about a "journey" and all that jazz but really it's just turned into being a place for my random nonsense.

And I'm all about some nonsense. So, it has changed again. And this time, for good.*

Mad Jackie

Blurring the Line Between Genius and Insanity

I feel this title is more fitting of my personality, especially considering one of my other favorite quotes is:

"I'm so clever that sometimes I don't understand a single word of what I'm saying."

[Now, I don't care who ya are... that is pure BRILLIANCE right there.]

And besides, I do think I'm a little mad, in every meaning of the word. I'm a little crazy. I'm a little too enthusiastic about life (as if there were such a thing). And I'm a little too passionate. So yes, I am definitely mad.

I hope that you like the new title to my blog as much as I do. And.... I am happy to announce that very soon you will see another change.... a new design. :)

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*for good = until/if I decide to change it again

An education. Something so simple. Something so easily taken for granted.

So Blake gets an idea. "I'm going to start a shoe company. And for every pair that we sell, I'll give a pair to someone who needs them."

GENIUS!!

But his idea wasn't the best part. He actually did it. He actually made this happen. I'll say that again in case you missed how awesome this is...

He actually MADE this happen!!

[And that is the part that blows my mind, my friends.]

Because of his actions over one million pairs of shoes are now on one million pairs of feet that never would have had shoes otherwise.

One million.

That's a lot of shoes.

But it's so much more than shoes.

One million little feet. One million opportunities for an education. One million smiles. One million improved lives.

One million. From one idea.

And this is just the beginning for Toms. This company is less than 5 years old and is continuously growing in popularity.

Yesterday, June 7th Blake announced the newest venture for Toms. Rather than telling you about it, please just take a minute to watch this short video clip.

We see needs around us everyday. Everyday.

Sometimes we even have ideas of how to help. But how many of them just stay ideas inside of our heads and never become more than that?

I am inspired by Blake Mycoskie. He didn't just see a need. He didn't just want to help. He put himself out there. He sold a business to fund this venture and he actually made this happen.

I want to be that person. I want to have the courage to put action behind an idea and make a difference in others' lives. So thank you to Blake Mycoskie and all the others like him that remind me of just how possible this is.

I am only one, but I am one. I cannot do everything, but I can do something.