Child who damaged

If a child caused bodily damage to another person he is exempt from paying for damages even when he becomes older.[2]

Doing repentance above the letter of the law:[3] Even though one is exempt from paying for the damages, it is nevertheless proper for him to accept upon himself when a gets older a certain matter for the sake of repentance and atonement, even though he had transgressed before he became of punishable age.[4] [He should therefore pay the owner for the stolen object. He however is not required to pay for the entire worth of the object, but rather a symbolic amount.[5] Some[6] however write that he should pay the owner for the entire amount, however seemingly this is only a Midas Chassidus. Whatever amount the owner receives, he should be kind and merciful to forgive the person for his childhood sin.[7]]

Q&A

Is a child who caused damage that is below the age of Chinuch encouraged to perform a certain matter for the sake of repentance?

Some Poskim[8] rule that the above Teshuvah is only relevant for children who damaged when they were of age to remember what they did. If however they were of very young age, and they don’t remember the incident, they are not required to do Teshuvah at all.

Other opinions: Some Poskim rule that a child is not required to repent at all for his wrongdoing even when he becomes older. [Beis Yaakov 3, brought in Shvus Yaakov ibid] Practically, we do not rule like his opinion. [Shvus Yaakov ibid; Kaf Hachaim ibid]

[4]The reason: The purpose of this repentance is not for the sake of removing Divine retribution, being that he is not liable for any punishment. However the forbidden act, despite not being punishable, leaves a damaging impact and spiritual stain on the soul of the child. It is for this reason that the child should do some act of repentance for the sake of cleansing his soul of any spiritual blemish. [Bach 343: The verse in Mishlei 19/2 states that “Even without knowledge, a soul is no good.” This teaches us that even a child that transgresses a sin without knowledge causes impurity to his soul, it is thus proper for him to do Teshuvah”; Likkutei Sichos 14 p. 144 footnote 13; Sichos Kodesh Balak 5730; Shulchan Hamelech 343]

[8] Sefer Chassidim ibid “However if he was very young when the action was committed and he does not remember , he does not need to pay”; Beis Yaakov 3; See Piskeiy Teshuvos 343/14; Lehoros Nasan 6/102