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Re: Cat Calling

Originally Posted by Gathomas88

No joke. I won't name names, but I actually had one of the more hardline feminists on here tell me that I was guilty of "sexual harassment" once, just because - in the past - I admitted to approaching a woman I didn't personally know, but thought was superficially attractive, with quasi sexual intent.

I even explained the context to her - I was out with my friends bar hopping, saw a gorgeous girl with her friends standing on the street doing the same thing we were, politely introduced myself, complimented her appearance, and asked for her number. I ultimately got rejected (hardly my smoothest moment, if we're being honest lol ), but I didn't make an ass out of myself over it. I simply thanked her for her time and politely excused myself.

It didn't make any difference as far as the feminist was concerned. She still told me I was a sexist pig for simply approaching, and said I was guilty of "oppressing the wimminz."

It honestly seems like you just can't win with them, sometimes.

I'm dubious about her being a feminist. Feminism simply means wanting to be treated equally as men. Any woman who takes it beyond that is...something else.

Re: Cat Calling

Originally Posted by Gathomas88

No joke. I won't name names, but I actually had one of the more hardline feminists on here tell me that I was guilty of "sexual harassment" once, just because - in the past - I admitted to approaching a woman I didn't personally know, but thought was superficially attractive, with quasi sexual intent.

I even explained the context to her - I was out with my friends bar hopping, saw a gorgeous girl with her friends standing on the street doing the same thing we were, politely introduced myself, complimented her appearance, and asked for her number. I ultimately got rejected (hardly my smoothest moment, if we're being honest lol ), but I didn't make an ass out of myself over it. I simply thanked her for her time and politely excused myself.

It didn't make any difference as far as the feminist was concerned. She still told me I was a sexist pig for simply approaching, and said I was guilty of "oppressing the wimminz."

It honestly seems like you just can't win with them, sometimes.

You asked? How dare you. You should carry a resume and your salary history around with you at the very least, and to be perfectly honest, you should simply ask for a mailing address so you can forward it in advance of an advance. That way, you can be ahead of yourself.

Re: Cat Calling

Needless to say, however, you'd probably laugh your ass off for saying that if I told you who it was.

I'm not saying people can't go a little nutty with it, but technically...

Feminism is a collection of movements and ideologies that share a common goal: to define, establish, and achieve equal political, economic, cultural, personal, and social rights for women.[1][2] This includes seeking to establish equal opportunities for women in education and employment. A feminist advocates or supports the rights and equality of women

Re: Cat Calling

Originally Posted by DA60

No it's not.

I am a 6'1" 200+pound guy who loves weightlifting, football, V8 musclecars and lovely ladies (among other things)...and it definitely is NOT hardwired into me.

well it was with me the 2x I did it in my life..it just sort of happened.. it was embarrassing hearing myself let out a whistle.
I wasn't thinking of a whistle,it just happened, so that was "hardwired".
Otherwise I agree with you, and I'm not anywhere near your physical attributes ( i'm 60 years old)..

The real point I was making is a man's desire/need to pick up women ( in a sane way) is hardwired.
I could have phrased that a lot better..lol

Re: Cat Calling

Originally Posted by Cardinal

One thing I find fascinating about DP polls is that aside from the odd lulz vote, people are consistently honest when voting.

Except spud. He's consistently a lulz vote!

I'm also fascinated that although people don't mind letting their... er... "feelings" out in posts, those who are the most vocal about their disdain for the OP rarely even vote in the polls. Interesting.

Re: Cat Calling

Originally Posted by DiAnna

Except spud. He's consistently a lulz vote!

I'm also fascinated that although people don't mind letting their... er... "feelings" out in posts, those who are the most vocal about their disdain for the OP rarely even vote in the polls. Interesting.

They don't want to have their positions pinned down. It makes it more difficult for them to flip flop later.