Date A Girl Who Travels

Shout-out to all the girls who travel, because we’re awesome. Men, take note! We may not wear the latest fashion or stay in one place for too long, but believe me when I say travelling girls are worth it!

Date a girl who travels. Date a girl who would rather save up for out of town trips or day trips than buy new shoes or clothes. She may not look like a fashion plate, but behind that tanned and freckled face from all the days out in the sun, lies a mind that can take you places and an open heart that will take you for what you are, not for what you can be.

Date a girl who travels. You’ll recognize her by the backpack she always carries. She won’t be carrying a dainty handbag; where will she put her travel journal, her pens, and the LED flashlight that’s always attached to her bag’s zipper? In a small purse, how can she bring the small coil of travel string, the wet tissues, the box of crackers, and the bottle of water she’s always ready with, just in case something happens and she can’t go home yet?

Yes, a girl who travels knows that anytime, anything can happen and she just has to be prepared with it. Nothing takes her by surprise; she takes everything with equanimity, knowing that such things are always a part of life. She’s reliable and dependable, traits that she’s learned while on the road.

You’ll also recognize a girl who travels by the fact that she’s always amazed at the world around her, no matter if she’s in her home town or in a place that’s totally new. She sees beauty all around her, not just the ones featured in travel guides or shown in postcards. A girl who travels has developed a deeper appreciation for life. She won’t judge you, or pressure you to do things you don’t want to do. She knows too much about the importance of identity and self-efficacy, and she will appreciate all the more if you won’t pretend to be who you’re not.

You can make mistakes with a girl who travels, and you can also be as idiosyncratic as you can be. Trust me, she has seen so much worse in her travels, and knows firsthand the vagaries of human nature.

Date a girl who travels, because when you’re with her, you’ll realize that even though she’s napped at a temple in Angkor Wat, went boating down the Mekong Delta, ran by the streets of Saigon, or went skinny-dipping in the caves in the Philippines, she still retains that humility that is the mark of a real traveler. She knows she’s been to a lot of places, but she’s humbled by the fact that the world is still a big place and she’s only seen a small part of it. Seeing this in her can make you feel all right with yourself too; there’s no need for you to do more, to be more. What you are is enough.

When you meet a girl who travels, ask her where she’s been and what she’s going to do next. She will appreciate your interest, and if you’re lucky, she may even invite you to join her. When she does, do. Nothing bonds people better than travelling. On your trips, you will both see each other’s best and worst characteristics, and you can then decide whether she’s worth fighting for.

It’s easy enough to date a girl who travels. She won’t want expensive gifts; you can buy her (or both of you) cheap tickets to Thailand for the weekend, and she’ll be more than happy to take you to the longest wooden bridge in the country. You don’t even have to go overseas; you can take her out on day trips, caving or hiking, or treat her to a full body massage.

You can also buy her the little things that she keeps forgetting to buy for herself; that carabiner that will attach her backpack to her seat so that she will feel easier about sleeping on her bus trip, or a backpack cover, a small alarm clock, a money belt, or maybe another sarong that will replace the one she lost in China.

She won’t mind if you get lost on your way to a date. She knows that oftentimes, the journey is more important than the destination. She will help you see the lighter side of things. She’ll walk along with you, not behind you, pointing out the interesting bits of things you’ll see on the way. Before long, you’ll realize that yes, the journey has been more memorable than the destination that you’ve planned to take her to.

Is a girl who travels worth it? Yes, she is. So when you find her, keep her. Don’t lose her with your insecurities and doubts. Because when she says she loves you, she really does. After all, she’s seen so many things, met so many people, and if she had chosen you, better grab that opportunity and thank the gods that you were lucky enough she’s chosen you and not that bloke she met while watching the sun rise in Angkor Wat, or while whitewater rafting in the Padas Gorge in Sabah.

If she says she loves you, she must have seen something in you, something that can always call her back from her travels, something that can anchor her to the world in the way that she wants to after weeks and months of being on the road.

Date a girl who travels. Make her feel safe, warm, and secure. Make her believe that no matter where she goes, and however long she’s gone, you’ll always be there for her, the one that she can call home.

Find a girl who travels. Date her, love her, and marry her, and your world will never be the same again.

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I’d like to add some more reasons why dating a travelling girl is awesome:

Date a girl who travels. She will be comfortable no matter where you go. While she will appreciate a nice hotel and all its luxuries, she will be equally as happy to sleep in a hammock or camp out by the bay. When she says “let’s go home” she refers to wherever she will be sleeping that night as she has made the whole world her home.

Date a girl who travels. She will make you get up early to catch the sunrise over Uluru and she’ll stay up all night to see the nightlife Stone Town has to offer. With her by your side, you’ll travel wholly, and experience the little things you may have missed which will become your favourite memories.

Date a girl who travels and you will be introduced to the flavours of the world. Rather than getting food from a fast food chain, she will take you to the local market to try new dishes. She will not be grossed out by bush tucker and insects on sticks, and she will happily try out the local eatery to get a taste of your destination. She has learned how to spot the affordable good quality places the locals frequent, and she will not need a sit-down meal to consider the evening a date.

Date a girl who travels, as she will take you out of your comfort zone. Believe her when she says the perfect way to experience your destination is on horseback. She will take you hiking down long-forgotten paths, forging a new way because that’s the kind of girl she is. A girl who travels is always spontaneous and up for new experiences, because she’d rather regret that she did it than regret not having tried while she had the chance. And chances are, that surf lesson will come in handy on your next trip.

Such a beautiful post, I haven’t traveled as much as I want to in this world but am constantly amazed by the beauty I see around me, from half forgotten bits of buildings to dramatic views. Must travel more.

After travelling the world as a happy single female traveller and still continuing, I absolutely agree and bow down to you for writing this! Well said, couldn’t have written it better myself. Thank you.

Well written. I think it makes total sense. A girl who travels the world has not only acquired vast knowledge, but she’s also street smart. She can fix things most guys can’t. She can define the word “explore” much better than anyone. I think the experience of falling in love like its high school will have a totally new perspective cos. she’s seen it all.