Israel Calls

Why we're leaving our great life in North America and moving to Israel.

This summer, our family will be leaving Cleveland and moving East, and I don't mean the East Coast. We'll be going very East – right on over to the Middle East. In July, with God's help, we'll be making aliyah to Israel.

At first glance, we are certifiably insane. In Cleveland, we live an almost idyllic life. We are blessed with wonderful schools for our children, where they receive excellent Jewish and secular educations. My husband and I both enjoy good, stable jobs that challenge and enrich us. Real estate is wonderfully inexpensive, and we could easily afford to buy a large house in the warm, supportive neighborhood that we currently live in. We have friends and family who we depend on and delight in. In our four-floor rented house, we have amenities like a dishwasher, instant hot water, and sprawling front and back yards. We own two cars (okay, they're '92 and '88 respectively, but a car's a car!) that get us where we need to go quickly and efficiently. We are involved in a fair bit of Torah study and are committed to living reasonably God-centered, spiritually-enhanced lives.

So why are we leaving our great life in North America and moving to a region battered with terrorism, bloodshed, and civil unrest?

We've been asked this question, accompanied with looks of sheer astonishment, many times since we announced our plans.

Yes, life in Israel is fraught with difficulty and an elevated level of danger, but where does God ultimately want me to build my Jewish home?

I can understand their reaction. Life in Israel is fraught with difficulty and an elevated level of danger. Many of the amenities enjoyed by Americans are difficult to obtain in Israel. Salaries are notoriously low; the shekel seems to fall lower each day, despite the fact that mortgages and rent are paid in US dollars. The educational system is very different from that which Americans are used to, as is the healthcare system, the political infrastructure, and even the tax system.

In Israel, people pay high prices for small apartments with no front lawn to call their own. The Cornflakes taste different and the "diet" cheese weighs in at 12 fat grams per slice. People take buses that make hairpin curves down crowded streets. There is an undercurrent of fear, and school children are trained to be vigilant for suspicious packages.

Believe you me, when the subject of moving to Israel came up, I tremulously voiced the above complaints to my husband. He looked at me for a moment, and then he said something that changed my viewpoint.

"Riva, we have only one life to live. How do we want to live it?"

His statement brought the Telma Cornflakes and the bureaucratic nightmares crashing down at my feet faster than the falling shekel. He was right. It was time for me to look at Israel vs. America from a completely new angle.

If life were about instant hot water and building fancy new homes, then there's no question that I would be jeopardizing my life by moving to Israel. But it's not. Life is about working towards achieving personal potential, and doing God's will. And I firmly believe that God wants me – and all the Jewish People – to live in the Land of Israel.

I am not going out on a limb with this thought. The famous French commentator, Rashi, explains that God chose to begin the Torah with an account of Creation in order to give legitimacy to the Jewish People's right to the Land of Israel. The same God who created heavens and earth chose to give Israel to the Jewish nation from time immemorial. This Holy Land is the place God designated as our nation's home.

ISRAEL VS. THE DIASPORA

But it hits me on a more personal level as well.

I am privileged to have lived in Israel for three-and-a-half years, together with my husband. When we moved back to the United States, I recall standing in the airport feeling like an alien from outer space. I could physically feel the difference between the holy, predominantly Jewish land of Israel and the cold, vapid atmosphere of the Diaspora. What was I – a Jew – doing out of my natural environment?

When I am in Israel, I feel like a new person. Perhaps it's the gorgeous scenery and historic sites. Maybe it's the connection I feel with nearly everyone I meet – from grocer to bus driver to customs official; they are all fellow Jews! When I am in Israel, I feel that my soul is elevated, and my "ordinary" day is extraordinary.

Israel is tuned in to a spiritual frequency that the rest of the world cannot access.

What I am experiencing is nothing new. Our Sages tell us that "the air of Israel makes one wise." There is a tangible aura within the Land which affects all its inhabitants.

When I compare and contrast Israel with the Diaspora, I see a vast chasm between both worlds. Somehow, the pull of materialism and trivial pursuits seems greater in the Diaspora than it is in Israel, although the Holy Land definitely features some decidedly unholy elements. Yet there is a certain innocence and beauty inherent in Israel that is both indescribable and undeniable. There is a spiritual pull in Israel – a feeling that spirituality and holiness is ripe for the picking. This sensation – although present in various communities across the world – is largely watered down by the larger American culture. It's as if Israel is tuned in to a spiritual frequency that the rest of the world cannot access.

So we're moving to Israel for its spiritual richness. By consciously making this decision, we feel that we are following in the proverbial footsteps of generations of committed Jews who have followed the call that Abraham embodied when he did God's will and traveled to Israel. Yet unlike countless Jews who risked life and limb, traveling for months on difficult, hazardous journeys, the privilege of moving to Israel has never been easier. Organizations like Nefesh B'Nefesh and AACI voluntarily hand over the gift of Israel on a silver platter to all those who desire it. We are happy to be counted amongst those who desire it.

VOTING WITH OUR FEET

We are taught in Jewish tradition that when a soul returns to its Maker, it is asked three questions, one of which is: Did you wait expectantly for the Redemption? This is a reference to the coming of the Messiah, when the entire world will recognize the reality of God and strive towards spiritual perfection. Our family regards moving to Israel as a form of "voting with our feet." There is a general consensus amongst contemporary Torah leaders that we are living in the End of Days when the ultimate Redemption seems just around the corner.

We dream of being there in the Holy Land when the Third Temple is rebuilt. Our family talks about what life will be like with the Temple in our midst. We are building a different reality, one that is God-centered, hopeful, and precious; a reality that could not exist in the Diaspora. When we first talked to our children about plans to move to Israel, our five-year-old son asked, "Will we be going on an airplane or on an eagle?" (He was referencing the famous verse "I will carry you [after the Messiah comes] on the wings of an eagle.")

We are going to Israel with our eyes wide open. We know about the dangerous security situation. We are concerned about the political instability and pained by the in-fighting between Jews. We know it will take a fair amount of conformity if we are to "fit in" and become part of the culture. Learning Hebrew will at first be difficult. It will be hard to adjust to living without a car. Sending a lift of our personal belongings is an exhausting and expensive undertaking. We are aware of all these challenges, and yet we know that God will help us deal with them. The expression "Nothing good comes easy" comes to mind, and we are experiencing what our sages meant when they said, "The Land of Israel is acquired through hardships."

But what keeps us going is the guaranteed spiritual returns on our investment. Through committing to doing God's will by living in the Land described as "the Eyes of God are upon it," He is sure to help us in our endeavors. We know that living in Israel is a valuable mitzvah – every four steps a person walks, he receives reward for observing the positive commandment of settling in the Holy Land. Where else in the world does one receive eternal reward for simply walking the streets?

So our family is moving East. We are a family like thousands of others. We have no special circumstances or advantages that make moving to Israel easier or more appropriate than anyone else. We don't have a large financial cushion; we don't have dazzling jobs set up for us. We're really just a regular, down-to-earth family who has decided to alter our future by making a spiritual move.

The same opportunity that we have grabbed is available to every Jew today. We urge you to take it and come with us to our true home, where the streets are abundantly paved with spiritual gold. There will be pitfalls and inconveniences, but that's where the Nike approach kicks in: "Just do it."

Imagine what would happen if Jews from all over the world joined forces together in the holiest place on earth? Imagine how it would change the spiritual landscape of the entire universe!

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About the Author

Riva (Henig) Pomerantz lives with her husband and five children in Ramat Beit Shemesh. Her stories and articles appear on aish.com, in Mishpacha Magazine, and in several other publications. Click here to order her latest book, Prisms, published by Menucha Press. You can visit Riva's website and read her blog at www.rivapomerantz.com.

The opinions expressed in the comment section are the personal views of the commenters. Comments are moderated, so please keep it civil.

Visitor Comments: 93

(87)
patricia.relf,
April 13, 2016 3:30 AM

kol ha kvod from Israel

I have lived here 40 years,still have weak Hebrew after countless ulpanim but don't see that as an excuse not to be involved. You can make a difference....A huge difference... Don't lose your values... every year evaluate'... are we contributing... what adjustments/ changes can I make..... Leave a trail behind you...People will be watching from all sides.I want you to consider NOT living in Jerusalem... The periphery needs you. Netanya needs you.With best wishesPatricia

(86)
Hanna,
August 11, 2013 5:00 PM

Wow!

May it be with Brachos! Can't wait to read your take on the scene here!

A fan

(85)
Esther,
August 11, 2013 6:04 AM

AN IDEA WHOSE TIME HAS COME

Riva Pomerantz states, "Imagine what would happen if Jews from all over the world joined forces together in the holiest place on earth? Imagine how it would change the spiritual landscape of the entire universe!". Certainly, this is an idea whose time has come! G-d willing, I too will make Aliyah, looking to do it in 3 years at most, AMEN.

(84)
Daniel Moshe Johnson,
August 9, 2013 10:54 AM

Holy Right

I also made Aliyah with my family in 1999. Yes, the diaspora is fully exposed and you feel the unholyness of life outside od Israel. ...
Its not totally like urban posh cities like Brentwood or Beverly Hills, its an older beauty like aged wined that is smooth but old, sexy but old.
I recommend Israel as a migration destination for all Jews whose identity needs a boost, you are special and God B'H will not reliquish on his promise. .

(83)
Anonymous,
August 9, 2013 9:29 AM

I respect your decision but it's not for everyone

I think you are doing a really heroic thing and I wish you all the best. But as someone who is not yet married and has been thinking about the aliya question for a while now, I have to say that I do not believe it's wrong to stay in America if you can't handle the Israel culture. I love the land of Israel and I look forward to the day all Jews will be living here in the times of Mashiach. But the fighting amongst Jews, the aggressive culture, and the sectarianism is simply too much for me to handle. I feel a lot of anxiety when I'm here that I do not feel in America. I think it's very sad that that's the reality, but it just is. I have seen too many American families that make Aliya and just can't handle it. Some come back to America, and some just stay. If a person lives a good Jewish life in America, has a stable job, has a yeshiva to send their kids to, learns torah and has a shul they go to, is overall happy, has a healthy cultural and social life, and looks forward to the day they can live in Israel peacefully with all Jews, then I honestly do not think they are committing any sin. I know that there are those who disagree, but the "Nike approach" is simply not a smart thing to do. A person has to know what they're getting into. Once they have spent time seriously thinking about it and understanding what living in Israel means, then they should just do it.

Joseph,
September 1, 2013 12:07 PM

A common problem

The article refers to condition common to other groups. When my home town was more ethnic I heard many people long for the land of their fathers and others who spoke of how it was nice to visit , but not to stay. Some like the diversity of the United States. Some like to stay with their own people. There is no one size fits all. Follow your heart and G-d bless.

(82)
Andy,
August 8, 2013 9:39 PM

Some encouraging corrections to your article

I made Aliyah 20 years ago and have never regretted it. Your article makes a few inaccurate generalisations about Israel. The Shekel is very strong at the moment, in fact one of the world's strongest currencies.

Secondly we in Israel do not live in fear of our lives every waking hour as is often mistakenly portrayed. On the contrary,whilst not perfect, personal safety here is far greater than in most parts of Europe and N America. Children have much more freedom and this is one of the wonderful things here for young famiilies. There is too much going on to think about the next terror attack which fortunately are very rare these days. There is far more chance of being injured in a car accident or mugged in an European city.

Finally we have plenty of hot water, and many live in wonderful homes here too, in addition to the spiritual richness of this land. Your article whilst very positive, also gave the impression that Israel is a 1950 spartan backwater-very far from the truth. Quality of life here is very high-if you can get a decent job.-and not everyone in the US lives the high life either.

I wish you the best of luck. Give it at least two years, be flexible and tolerant-we all have to take a humble step or two backwards at first, and prioritise learning Hebrew even if you find yourself in an Anglo bubble somewhere.

Rachel,
August 9, 2013 2:05 PM

Totally agree!

I also have been living in Israel for about 20 years and it's definitely much better than portrayed!
Good luck on your Aliya, you are very inspiring!!!

(81)
Anonymous,
August 8, 2013 9:02 PM

I have been living in Israel for the past 11 years and i have read over the years a lot of articles about how people have left their amazing life in America for the "hard and challenging" life in the "dangerous" Israel. Life in Israel is not that difficult as you and so many others make it sound.Contrary to your belief the shekel has been stable for the past 8 years unlike the dollar. Mortgages are not paid in dollars. Children might grow up being suspicious of the way people look or strange packages but they are aware and not ignorant to their surroundings and mature quicker. In addition to that they grow up with a love for the land that is ours and are willing to sacrifice their lives protecting it. How many american 18 year olds would be willing to do so? You might be leaving a lot behind but you are gaining so much more. Once you get a teudat zehut you are not just a citizen of Israel but you are part of the Israeli family. Being an Israeli has a lot of benefits despite the "difficulties" living here. The healthcare is free, for any citizen. As someone that went through the Israeli education system, I can tell you that the education system here is not only better but the students in Israel learn not only on a higher level than Americans but also In twelve years we learn much more of the basic subjects (math, science, etc.) in addition to learning about Israel, our Jewish heritage and so much more. You might be giving up your amazing life in America but your life in Israel will be much more fulfilling. Welcome home!

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Irene,
August 8, 2013 8:05 PM

Toda!

In such a lovely way, you have put into words what so many of us believe. You, unlike me at 65, will not look back on what could have been, because you and your family are following your hearts. I have been to Israel and am contemplating aliyah, even with no family there and with limited resources. A lifetime dream will never be fulfilled without risks. Good luck to you and your family, BH.

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Yocheved,
August 8, 2013 10:27 AM

Kol hakavod to you and your family!!

Beautifully written. May your move to Israel be as smooth as possible.
You and everyone else who chooses to make this spiritual move is a Jewish hero in my eyes. May you be blessed.

(78)
Sarah,
August 8, 2013 2:21 AM

Loved this article

I really loved this article and hope that your resettlement in Israel has gone well. I am not Jewish but love reading about it and am currently looking into it... a few months ago I visited Israel and the way you describe it is exactly how I felt while I was there. You have put it into words far better than I could have! About the indescribable beauty of the place, particularly Jerusalem, and the 'something in the air' feeling... I love what the sages said about this! Despite the negative aspects of Israel (eg. people walking around in army clothing which is very foreign to me), I don't think I have ever felt more at home in a place and it is hard for me to even explain why. I also loved partaking in the Shabbat and the prayers. I hope one day to return.

(77)
Didier,
August 8, 2013 1:35 AM

Aliyah

My family and I just came back from Israel. We were there for a month on a pilot trip. We want to move but are scared . We also felt at home there . Our oldest is 8 so I know if we do it it has to be soon. Good luck with the move!

(76)
heidi massish,
August 8, 2013 12:51 AM

i so very much loved your story....i made aliyah several years ago but had to return to america for personal...i can only be theJew that i long to be in Israel and altho i have lost most of my benefits and am not going with alot of money the pull and calling of our homeland is with me all the time....i wish to return and live a life of purpose and spirituality and walk the streets of gold....i am returning on my own and try to remember that Hashem will take care of me every step of the way.....i sorely needed to read your story as this is somewhat scary....but i must go as you knew you must go and be in the will of Hashem....perhaps you could contact me if you wish....would love to hear how your real life in Eretz Israel if going....Shalom and all the best....Heidi....Hadassah

(75)
Chana,
August 7, 2013 7:29 PM

I too will share your story with others!

I loved your story, besides being so articulate, your honesty is beautiful, and reaches the heart. I came first alone as a tourist, and returned later alone to attend seminary. I decided to stay. I Created a counseling program for work, and davened daily for a shidduch. I met my wonderful husband, set up home in Jerusalem, and raised our four children who live here with our grandchildren. The reasons you described will never be outdated. Keep up the good work May Hashem continue to bless you in all that you do and hope to do! Shana Tova!

(74)
Sarah Rivka :),
August 7, 2013 3:54 PM

I've wanted to make aliyah for a dozen years....

...What do you do if your drowning in debt with no decent parnassah in sight?!?!

Daniel,
August 8, 2013 6:34 AM

Don't let debt stop you

I too was drowning in (student) debt- yet somehow I knew that I had to move to Israel. Sure enough, the law in the US was changed and now (because of my low Israeli salary) I owe nothing per month. You can always declare bankruptcy and move to Israel. Your credit rating will not reach Israel and you can start fresh.

(73)
Ra'anan,
August 7, 2013 3:33 PM

WARNING...

We came to Israel in 1992 & I've been involved as a teacher in many different schools for most of that period. Despite the excitement of parents who come to Israel, there is a very, very large Judaism dropout rate of American kids who learn in Israeli schools.Those kids ultimately don't fit in w/in the education system of Israel nor do they fit in as Americans if they go back. The reason for this is because Americans look down on Israeli standards in many things. So their kids take that attitude to school w/them & that undermines the teachers. There are two solutions. Don't criticize AT ALL Israeli schools, back the teachers up 100%. This is very hard to do because you WILL see fault. The other option is to choose an American-style school. I think there is only one & I think it is in Ramat Beit Shemesh. There are some other schools that try to transition American kids into Israeli schools. I've seen their casualties & I'm talking about smoking cigarettes in the city w/other such kids & that's on a "good" night. Even that one American-style school has internal pressure where at least one administrator/educator WANTS to turn American kids into Israelis. best of luck!!!

Anonymous,
August 8, 2013 5:00 AM

???????!!!!!!

You are correct , but there are American schools else where .
Smoking is all over

(72)
Julie Muskal,
August 7, 2013 3:06 PM

Israel is home

I'm an Israeli who did the opposite of Aliyah, I married an American Jew and have been living in the US for past 20 years. Although Anerica and the Americans were good to me I do not feel at home in thd US. Whenever I visit Israel I automatically feel spiritually elevated and emotionally connected to all the other jews, my fellow Israelis there. I feel safe and secure in Israel as if Ha Shem's hand is there to protect us. when I"m in Israel I feel elated and happy. It is really a feeling you have to experience to understand. I plan to move back to Israel as soon as possible. I passionately recommend it!! It is every jew's home!

(71)
arieh,
August 7, 2013 2:59 PM

mazal-tov

its not you who has decided - its seems you are exceptional people and Hashem picked you - for this misson- all the best of luck - I did it 4yrs. ago

Anonymous,
August 8, 2013 5:03 AM

AMEN

The only answer

(70)
Lisa,
August 5, 2013 10:28 AM

Life here is also scary!! Remember 9/11 ??

You moved in 2006.... Hope all is great for your family!!Some of us are still waiting to make Aliyah.....some of our road blocks are finances.....can't leave our elderly parents....or we have situations with our kids! How lucky that your family was able to make this wonderful decision !! Shana Tova !!

(69)
Geeri,
March 15, 2011 1:04 AM

God Bless

I amChristian and I am excited for you and your family!

(68)
Orly,
October 26, 2007 9:02 AM

Thank you for sharing

The feelings you describe in your article depict exactly the way I feel toward Israel v. Chutz La'aretz. I have been there only once and for an exceedingly short amount of time, but I can't shake that powerful pull it has on me. Right now, I'm single and in my early 20's and I don't know how possible or practical it would be to just pick up and go, but whenever I dream about my future home, Israel is has become the backdrop of my dreams.

michael,
May 14, 2011 9:08 PM

do it

Study for a profession then come when you are young.
We came newly married and cannot look back.
We wish you all the best-=do it!!!

(67)
Sheryl,
March 24, 2007 8:55 PM

simple, elegant and engaging story of making aliyah...most of all courageous.thank you,Sheryl Siegel

(66)
Ana Rivera,
February 8, 2007 10:56 PM

Great article

I always heard that in the end times this is what would happen, but I thought it would had started earlier;we are truly in the last days and thank you for your words of encouragement to all our people.SHALOM!

(65)
RuthBenamou,
October 26, 2006 8:07 PM

beautiful!

I am in awe of you! kol hakavod! I hope to follow suit very soon

(64)
theresa,
July 7, 2006 12:00 AM

Good for you and your family

Hi,
just want to say congrand's on your move back to the homeland. i hope your family will be safe. i am a christian i believe that the savior is coming soon as well. in our bible in the last days the jewish people will return to there homeland before he appears. so may God bless you all. he said i will bless those who bless you and curse those who curse you. so i want to bless you and all the jewish nation for you all are the apple of GOD eye. I PRAY THE LORD WILL HELP YOU AND KEEP YOU SAFE

(63)
David Jacobs,
May 14, 2006 12:00 AM

Plenty of Amenities!

Hi, Pomerantzes,
Great news that you are moving here. I hope that the '92 car (the Caravan) we sold you worked well for the past 3 years!
Just some corrections about amenities and beuracracy over here:
In terms of food, you can now get not all, but a huge amount of the stuff you find in the states (we enjoy Capn' Crunch, Cheerios, Skippy, Quaker Oats, Nestea, Heinz Ketchup, and you can get cheese in 12%, 9% 5%, 3% 1.5% and even-yuk-0%).
As far as beuracracy, every Israel government office has been efficient and pleasant (except Misrad Hapn'im, which unfortunately is a constant reminder of the "old" days).
You can get dial up internet, ADSL, or cable within 72 hours, and you can choose between cable and satellite TV (you'll find each company begging for your patronage. We also got much better internet service here than in Ohio).
You can get all the dishwashers you need, and instant hot water if you'd like. Matter of fact, we even use the "Culligan Man" who fit us with a purifying, soft-water system.
The shekel is not dropping at all- it's doing very well againt the dollar and has been pretty stable over the past 3 years. And even taxes are going down-albeit slowly.
So you'll find that Israel has "come a long way, baby"

The Jacobs

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Anonymous,
May 12, 2006 12:00 AM

God bless you and be with your family

Great

(61)
Chana Ora,
May 10, 2006 12:00 AM

At it again!

Riva,
The urge to duck tape myself in one of those boxes in your living room just got stronger.
Awesome picture of an awesome family.

Love, Chana O.
Next year in Jerusalem

(60)
Rivka Hartman,
May 9, 2006 12:00 AM

Wonderful Article

Hi Riva,

We were so happy to hear of your exciting plans! It will be great to see again. I am sure that you will adapt perfectly.

BTW - You can now get American sliced cheese in the local Makolet.

(59)
Yosef Yigal Drever,
May 8, 2006 12:00 AM

B"H

Any article, that encourages Aliyah is an article worth printing.

Please, keep up the good work.

Kol Tov

Yosef Yigal

Melbourne
Australia.

(58)
Anonymous,
May 6, 2006 12:00 AM

To the editor: Please convey my email to Riva Pomerantz. I made Aliya 16 years ago and if she is moving to Yerushalayim can perhaps give her constructive advice. Kol haKavod to them!

(57)
malky newman,
May 6, 2006 12:00 AM

kudos to you

Dear Riva,
I was so excited to read your beautiful article while logging on to aish.com. It was a privilege meeting you on your pilot trip, we look forward to welcoming you and yours to the Holy Land this summer. Thank you for giving me extra chizuk and reminding me again why I made aliyah

I start by saying I love Israel but if another Hitler is in the future how can we have all of us in one place and history repeats itself if we do not learn from it. Have a wonderful trip, G'D bless you. must say I feel good about your leaving for our home, YES WORLD IT IS OUR HOME NO ONE ELSES.

(55)
Carolyn Penfield,
May 4, 2006 12:00 AM

Israel Calls is an awesom article

I loved this article! I am not jewish,but I feel the call to go back to Israel, Jerusalem! We were there 3 years ago and I just felt the peace and beauty of the country!

(54)
Daniel Babcock,
May 4, 2006 12:00 AM

3rd temple

It is exciting your passion for Israel, I pray that God will bless you mightily and use you while in Israel. Voting with your feet makes sense as it it the legs which our faith walks with. I liked the article, although I was curious towards the expectancy of the third temple.. I always thought of a foreboding of it, as it was where the anti-christ deceived the nations

(53)
Claude Lesselbaum,
May 4, 2006 12:00 AM

Dear Riva,

Living in France was certainly not so easy as in in the United States. We, my wife and I came to Israel 3 years ago, and we are very happy to live here. And although we meet with some difficulties, every day is a day of joy and Simcha. We felt it especially for Pessach and at "Yom Haatsmaut", the festivities for the 58 years of independence of Israel, which were great.
Claude Lesselbaum.
Netanya. Israel.

(52)
Ora,
May 4, 2006 12:00 AM

to Makabit

Makabit--a black Jew would have no problem being accepted in Israel. There are plenty of black Jews here (and hispanic, and asian, and Indian, etc). To be completely honest with you, considering yourself Conservative would be a problem for absorbtion. There are a couple of Conservative synagogues, but they're very American places. Israelis in general don't think about religion the way Americans do--here, you can be religious or secular or anything in between, but there are no different labels or synagogues for the "in between" groups. Religious life isn't all about the synagogue here, so people who are neither orthodox nor secular follow whatever mitzvot they are comfortable with without feeling the need to establish a new "branch" for themselves. You could (and should!) move to Israel, and you could still define yourself as Conservative as well, but it will make it very difficult to fully absorb in Israeli society.

Also, if you call yourself a Conservative Jew (as opposed to just a Jew) because you converted Conservative, then you'll have a bigger problem, since only halachic convertions are accepted here. However, anyone who's done a non-halachic conversion abroad is allowed to come here and study for a full conversion with the rabanut.

(51)
Thomas Sebastian,
May 4, 2006 12:00 AM

Happy Life In Israel

Dear Riva
Those who live a life will make
life
still wonderful in Israel

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R. June,
May 3, 2006 12:00 AM

Jazak u Baruj

To the point.
Could be hard, but it´s worthy.

(49)
A,
May 3, 2006 12:00 AM

Be strong, be strong...

well done!
you may just be paving the way for one more family to journey-on
I hope this article is printed in a community newspaper - for all to read

(48)
Anonymous,
May 3, 2006 12:00 AM

beautiful piece!

(47)
Anonymous,
May 3, 2006 12:00 AM

It isn't so hard

I moved to Israel almost 4 years ago with my husband and 2 children. My life has not been hard at all. In fact, our quality of life is better here than in the U.S. Everything is better here. I have had 2 babies since we arrived and I can tell you the health care system is better. The schools are better, and my children were in excellent schools where we lived in the U.S., there were waiting lists to get into them. They were also very expensive. Here my son and daughter go to much better schools at the fraction of the price that we paid in the U.S. And we never fear being here or travelling here, nor do my children. I have no interest in ever going back to the U.S. You're making the right move, just remember it all depends on your attitude. You should have much hatzlacha with your klitah.

(46)
Makabit,
May 3, 2006 12:00 AM

May I come with you?

Would an Black American who is Jewish as well be accepted in Israel? I am a Conservative Jew.

(45)
Mark A Bello,
May 3, 2006 12:00 AM

Chazak, Chazak

The reward is eternal

(44)
Alec Saul,
May 3, 2006 12:00 AM

When the bus driver and street sweeper say to me Shalom,Shabat Shalom on Friday ,that puts everything in place for me. As for the American if his father had not planted the Acorn YOU his son would not be enjoying the shade
Chazak
Alec+Gootie Saul

(43)
Emily,
May 3, 2006 12:00 AM

Thank you!

Thank you for expressing what others cannot verbally give expression to. To be a Jew in Israel gives strength. To live in the Diaspora after being in Israel makes one feel like a fish trying to swim in the desert. We should ALL go home! May HaShem fulfill our hearts' desires!

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Anonymous,
May 2, 2006 12:00 AM

Moving to Israel

I have been living here for 25 years (came when I was young with my family), and I hope you have a job because unemployment is high..
Frankly I want to return to the US with my wife and kids. Its MUCH easier there financially and there is nothing wrong with some materialism...

good luck in any case but keep your options open.

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Anonymous,
May 2, 2006 12:00 AM

Very inspiring!

I was really inspired by your article and I am so impressed with your amazing (correct) attitude and outlook! May you have much success in your aliyah!

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Nancy,
May 2, 2006 12:00 AM

going Home

When the Land calls your heart, your feet have to follow.

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Catherine,
May 2, 2006 12:00 AM

We understand blessings

I'd like to go with you.

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SHOSHANNA RIFKA LANE LIEBMAN,
May 1, 2006 12:00 AM

RIVA I AM BOTH DELIGHTED AND IN WONDERMENT FOR YOU ALL

YES RIVA ,IMAGINE HOW YOU WILL INSPIRER MANY AS YOU TRAVEL BACK IN TIME MOVING FORWARD WITH FORSIGHT TO THE FUTURE WE ALL LONG FOR.. MUCH LOVE SHOS

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Yehuda,
May 1, 2006 12:00 AM

KOL HACAVOD!!!

As we say in Israel - KOL HACAVOD!!! My parents, sister and I made the move in July 1973 - two months prior to the outbreak of the Yom Kipper war. And we haven't regretted it for one minute. I hope your Aliyah will be as happy and successful as ours was.

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Malkah,
May 1, 2006 12:00 AM

AWESOME!

Maybe we will be on the same flight, as I too am making aliyah (G-d willing) in July! KOL HAKAVOD!!!

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Anonymous,
May 1, 2006 12:00 AM

The article voiced my feelings

Thank You Riva

I am also returnimg to Israel with my family this summer. You have expressed feelings that I have been unable to express myself.

Behatslacha

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Malki,
May 1, 2006 12:00 AM

I agree with Ora!!

Ora said it right. Israel is not so bad. Even on a physical sense.

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Lea Splane,
May 1, 2006 12:00 AM

Moving to Israel

I am a Christian who was privileged to live in Israel for two years back in the 90's. I don't understand why Jews who can, don't make aliyah. I would live in Israel in minute, if I could. It's the most wonderful place on earth.

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Kari,
May 1, 2006 12:00 AM

Follow your heart

This article about how this family chose to make Aliyah brought tears to my eyes. The feeling one has in Israel is intensely different and very spiritual. Their faith in their families' journey and their trust in Hashem is a beautiful blessing.. and a wonderful reminder for the rest of us.. to follow our hearts.

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Andy,
May 1, 2006 12:00 AM

catch the carpet and ride the wind girl.You'll live your days there.

As with most everything the key is realistic expectations. I don't believe living in Israel is the right choice for all Jews [at least not yet]but it sure seems right for you and yours.Have a great life and congrats on your decision. I believe you will thrive. A rewarding life in the spiritual and even physical sense awaits you.

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Anonymous,
May 1, 2006 12:00 AM

It's the life!

We moved here 6 weeks after we got married. We left behind our family and friends and came to Eretz Yisrael without many acquaintences. We are living here BH 6 years and recently bought an apartment here .I love every minute. I am so thankful to Hashem for giving us the zechus to enable us to live here. Wishing you all much hatzlocha and a a yishuv tov.

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Avraham Kramer,
May 1, 2006 12:00 AM

well done!!

What a beautifully written article! You are lucky to be soon in our only natural habitat. May Hashem bless your entire family with an easy and meaningful transition.

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Anonymous,
May 1, 2006 12:00 AM

YOU INSPIRED ME!!!

I am 19 years old, and living in Monsey. In June, I will be getting married and moving to Lakewood, NJ. I do not plan on making aliyah in the near future, since we are both very young, and not yet sure what our plans for life are. But I must say, your article greatly inspired me, and made me realize how attached I am to the materialism of America. You have planted a seed within my heart, a seed that may someday make me meet you in Israel, and unite with all the G-d Fearing Jews residing in the Holy Land. The land that was promised to our forefathers as our land for eternity. May we merit the coming of the Messiah, speedily in our days!!!
P.S. Lots of luck on your difficult journey "Home".

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linda lyons,
May 1, 2006 12:00 AM

hatzlacha!

From a wannabee aliya maker, i wish you all the very best, i am jealous and know that you are doing the right thing, may H' bless you

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Anonymous,
May 1, 2006 12:00 AM

Kol Hakavod!

What an inspiring article. I don't know you or your family but wish you hatzlacha and an easy aliyah! May you always be zocheh to feel and be part of the holiness of Israel. All the best and keep writing!

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Davi Katz,
May 1, 2006 12:00 AM

Thanks So Much

Riva, thanks so much for putting into words what we felt last summer when we made Aliyah. It has been one of the best decisions that we have ever made, and we are so fortunate to live here in Eretz Yisroel where my Great Grandparents could onld dream about. I can honestly say that we have not regretted one iota of our Aliyah and hope that you and your family will meet with equal success. May everyone out there be inspiring to come home. After all this is Our Land and we need to show the world and ourselves that Jews everywhere are willing to give up their current situations to live here.

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j chana pombo,
May 1, 2006 12:00 AM

Going Home

Thank you for this wonderful article. I hope someday to also go home to Israel.

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GLORIA COHEN,
May 1, 2006 12:00 AM

THANK'S, RIVA POMERANTZ

HELLO,RIVA POMERANTZ,
I Read your Article,ISRAEL CALLS. What an Encouragement.Just Today, I took My
First Step To Make My ALIYAH, To ISRAEL.
Hope to meet You, and Your Family,once I
ARRIVE.-- G-d Have Used You To Inspire
Many. Just Remember, G-d Is With You!
THANK'S, SHALOM, SHALOM, TO YOU!
GLORIA COHEN

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ray hyder,
April 30, 2006 12:00 AM

not leaving for the right reasons

I am sorry to say but unless you move around and create a well being in another land the country of Israel or the Jewish community will not improve. You should be like your cousins in the Muslim world and there philosophy is to move to every part of the world and try to impliment there religion and culture with a hope to take over. I see that if you run away from a place where you are already a mark going back to Israel does not help your cause.

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FRANK mOORE,
April 30, 2006 12:00 AM

yOU ARE A BRAVE FAMILY, BEST OF LUCK.

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Jon,
April 30, 2006 12:00 AM

PS

America is just at bureaucratic, the politicians are just better at hiding it and lieing to our faces. One again ignorance can be blissful. Jonathan.

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Annie,
April 30, 2006 12:00 AM

Take me with you !

Dear Riva and family

Best wishes to all of you, even if I am pea green with envy. I'd love to see Israel before I die, and my great prayer would be that a way will be found.

In the meantime, say hello to Israel from me and give it my love. Have a wonderful life & send a prayer up for those of us who'd love to go but can't.

I suppose if we did, there'd be standing room only...

Annie

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Chana Levi,
April 30, 2006 12:00 AM

Coming Home

Sure there are many problems living in Israel. The economy, the hostile neighbors, the politics, the divisions... in fact, as soon as we find another Jewish country in the world to live in, we will move there right away!
We heard that almost 15 years ago when we made aliyah. We had talked about moving here for years but there were always good reasons for putting it off. But after our oldest son's bar mitzvah, we decided it's now or never. So we arranged everything in seven weeks, a stressful, scary time. But as soon as we arrived at Ben Gurion airport, we asked ourselves what took us so long? It hasnt always been easy living here but we now wouldnt dream of living anywhere else.
Best of luck to you and your family on your decision to come home to live in the world's only Jewish country!

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Laurie,
April 30, 2006 12:00 AM

Best Wishes

Loved this article! I agree; there's such a feeling of expectancy of the messiah's soon return. I know God will bless you for having the faith and courage to go HOME to Israel. It's so exciting to see so much prophecy being fulfilled in our lifetimes! God gave that land to you Jews and not to the palestinians or anyone else...

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walter,
April 30, 2006 12:00 AM

yes I shall follow

Great article.Having lived in Israel for 12 year (served 3 yars) now in the USA originally from Holland I continue to miss my people,yes you are correct I never felt more connected.My soul craves that feeling of spirituality.
So I will return in 2 years that is my goal.Look for me in the Galil.
Yes am Israel chai

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Ora,
April 30, 2006 12:00 AM

great article, but a bit misleading

I loved reading this article, and I'm excited that Israel will be gaining such wonderful new citizens! Bruchim habaim, as we say. However, there were several comments in the article that I thought were misleading. Basically, while you make it clear that Israel is a spiritually wonderful place, the "terrorism, bloodshed" low salaries and even weird cornflakes made it sound like on a physical level, you'd have to be nuts to make aliya. That's not true! Yes, there's beauracracy, and yes there's terrorism. But Israel has a very low rate of violent crime among it's Jewish citizens, and college tuition costs a tiny fraction of what it does in the states, as does healthcare. If you live outside of the major cities, buying a lovely house with a yard can be much cheaper than in the states. It is a warm, friendly culture where people treat each other with, admittedly, occasional rudeness, but also with genuine concern for each others' welfare. As for Jewish education, Israel can't be beat! Again, at a much MUCH lower price than what a good dayschool costs in the states. So while you encourage your spiritually-oriented readers to make aliya, don't discourage those who are a bit practically oriented as well. Israel is a wonderful place to live in all aspects! (and personally, I think our cornflakes are much tastier than America's :) ).

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Rosally Saltsman,
April 30, 2006 12:00 AM

Welcome Home

First I'd like to welcome the Pomerantzes home.
Living in Israel, like the author says, is like living in a place paved with spiritual gold. I would however, like to clear up a few points for those people who are more practically inclined. Kellogs Corn Flakes are available here. They are expensive but they are within reach. My son however prefers Telma and under duress, I eat them too. There is diet cheese here in fact about 20 brands of it and unlike many in America, they are all kosher some Lemadrin. Many families own a dishwasher and have access to instant hot water if they have a dud shemesh and it hasn't been raining. Many families own a drier as well which most of the time, you don't need.
The national religious education in Israel cannot be found anywhere else in the world and it doesn't cost anywhere near what religious education in America does. Almost every fmaily I know owns at least one car, often one per adult with driver's license. However, unlike America which is vast and spread out, you can manage fine without a car. Healthcare in Israel is virtually free and you don't have to fill out a form everytime you visit a doctor.
Bureaucracy, while the bane of life in Israel, is still no less bureaucratic than America. While people live with an undercurrent of fear, they also have more bravery and faith per capita and I couldn't allow my teenage son the freedom he has here in most American cities. Yes, America does have some perks, but they're more than outweighed by the joys of living life at Home.

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C. Siegel,
April 30, 2006 12:00 AM

Good Attitude, Good Advice

I've lived here so long that I have to do the math to give you the exact year. I love it here in Israel, I feel lost when I visit the States now. Aliya has come at a price, it's been worth it, although I'm glad I don't have to go through being an olah chadasha again.

Learn Hebrew. It's frustrating and incredibly hard work, but you won't regret the investment. Read it, speak it, live it. The language opens doors to understanding and appreciation of Israel's culture and people in a way than nothin else does. Living here without mastering the language is like going to a fancy Chinese restaurant and ordering a hamburger. Get obsessed with Israeliana: places, people history, humor. No place in the world is as rich as Israel in fascinating stories, and if you stay here long enough, you can become a part of it.

Believe me, the sacrifices you'll make will be nothing in comparison to what was necessary in the past. We have Hellman's mayonnaise, chocolate chips, water-packed tuna, and the best tomatoes in the world. As far as cornflakes, when I made aliyah, they had to write instructions on the box ("Pour to the bowl cornflakes. Add cold milk, or better, cold cream."). Try the branflakes instead.

Enjoy the good things; there are so many. It's a great little country, come on in, the water's fine!

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Anonymous,
April 30, 2006 12:00 AM

Welcome Back

Dear Riva, your article really brought tears to my eyes. You are right, aliyah is not easy, but with your faith and knowledge that everything really is for the best you will get by all the difficulties. I would be proud to host you in our beautiful settlement on the Gilboa whenever you and your family wish. Good Luck - Hashem is with you.

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Anonymous,
April 30, 2006 12:00 AM

Good for you!!...but there are dangers...

The sentiments you expressed are beautiful and in place. Our family felt the same way and made the same decision 15 years ago. Our children are now grown (mostly)but looking back at ours and others experience has taught us a lot. We see the ones who have the most trouble are those who didn't acclimate properly....those who had to 'sit the fence' by trying to be American still but also facing the fact that they were living in Israeli society. The fact is that every country has its culture, norms and ways of doing things. For those who choose to move here with children, the best advice I can give is to open your arms and heart and embrace the society you're joining. Try not to ever make demeaning comments, even if you don't like the way things are done. Try your best to 'walk the walk and talk the talk'. Obviously you do things a certain way at home and children will learn what you expect of them, but don't make them feel that they don't really belong anywhere.
Riva, it seems like you have your eyes open....the best of luck to you!!

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Tova,
April 30, 2006 12:00 AM

Yeshar koach for your spiritual aims but...

immerse yourself into the society. Learn how to speak, read and write Hebrew fluently. I have lived in this country for almost 14 yrs and still don't speak fluently. In fact I can order a pizza and taxi; the necessities of life--right!! Wrong!! When my kids were little I use to take a translator w/me when I wanted to speak to their teacher. How humiliating!! I essentially live in a "white noise" society. I can't read the bulletin boards to really know what's going on in my neighborhood. Why am I so handicapped? Because all of my friends are Eng speaking including my Israeli neighbor. I work in an Eng speaking environment and I only speak Eng to my children. From what I see a lot of Americans making aliyah are transplanting their lives from the States and moving to Eng speaking neighborhoods such as Ramat Beit Shemish, Modiin, Chasmonium etc. These are Torahdek areas raising our next generation of committed Jews but is this what's really best for our children. I have close friends who are finding that their teenagers are "going off the derek". This is mostly b/c they're getting mixed messages from school and home. School wants them to "fit into" the society as a whole and their parents bring with them their American "flavor" of living. The result is a bunch of mixed up kids who want to do the right thing but don't know which way to turn. This is a real problem. This isn't an isolated case. Unfortunately it's happening all the time.
What's the solution? Yes, make aliyah, cling to a Rav let him help you direct your life. Don't stand still in your avodas Hashem; always strive higher and make some Heb speaking friends and only speak Heb to them.
And by the way what toppings do you like on your pizza?

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Aliza Hodges,
April 30, 2006 12:00 AM

Kol Hakavod!

Riva - I wish we were joining you! It should be a good move, with mazel & blessing and please G-d we'll join you there one day, but not yet. Much success with everything. Great article. Keep writing from the holy land

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Anonymous,
April 30, 2006 12:00 AM

write back in 5 years

Please write to Aish again in 5 years or so reflecting on your experiences in Israel and how you feel about your decision. Then do it again 5 years after that. I think that it will be most instructive for yourself, but it will also be interesting, informative, and perhaps helpful to other aish readers.

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Marion Segal,
April 30, 2006 12:00 AM

Insightful article

Riva sets out what most of us know intellectually but are unwilling to act on because settling in Israel is fraught with challenges for the westerner.

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Barbara,
April 30, 2006 12:00 AM

Studying soon

I will be studying in Israel soon for six months and am absolutely thrilled to go. For the knowledge I will gain of new cultures but more to feel included- everywhere I go(or just about).
This article got me so excited to study.
Thanks:)

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Shimon Baum,
April 30, 2006 12:00 AM

Hey your living in Cleveland so its not like your giving up a lot.

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Shannon,
April 30, 2006 12:00 AM

Toda for the Inspiration

Shalom, I am thinking about making aliyah. Actually I am all set up to do it. Then out of the middle of nowhere, my (Israeli) fiance broke my heart. So, now Im considering making aliyah without his support. I've been thinking alot about it...and your story gives me inspiration. So thanks.

Shannon

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Anonymous,
April 30, 2006 12:00 AM

I am living in France, and I went in Israel about 2 to 3 times every year for a long time, (kibboutz, civil volontaria, oulpan, summer university class of Jérusalem...)
It happenes that I was in Naples (Fl) for Passover, and I occasionely discover the fantastatic Jewish communauty with so much solidaridarity with Israel...I was really impressed and delighted as well.
Thank you also for this great article. It will certainly be very helpfull for many poeple as for myself to make the good decision.
Especially with the very bad climat in Europe and morover in France concerning Jews.
Thank you again, and do not hesitate for informations concerning the Jewish French communauty.
Regards .
Roger.

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Sara Rigler,
April 30, 2006 12:00 AM

Welcome home, Riva!

Great article! Every word is true. I felt this way when I made aliyah twenty years ago, and I still feel this way--although I never missed the cornflakes.

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Shoshana Kesner,
April 30, 2006 12:00 AM

Wow! Bravo!

We live in So.Cal. for the next two months but- We're going too, and we'll also be with Nefesh B'Nefesh- May Hashem bless them eternally for the good they are doing!

The reality is that we- all of us new olim- could have written all or part of this. It sure is a loaded question when somebody askes why.

B'hatzlacha rabah, may Hashem bless you and your family with an easy transition and absorbtion!