I’m sure he thinks that now while he isn’t married and doesn’t have kids, but his tune could change when he realizes he wants his kids to have a Christmas tree and an Easter bunny as much as I want them to have Rosh Hashana and Passover.

Or maybe he thinks that he can later convince me to go his way.

Or maybe he actually is OK with raising them Jewish. And if we aren’t going to be able to come to some agreement on this matter, I would like to know that now, not five years into the relationship, or worse, five years into marriage.

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We work at the same large company in different departments, and have a lot of shared interests, values, and goals.

We talked early on about the general idea of marriage and having children.

More recently, we have started talking about being married and having children with each other.