Articles Tagged With Women

Let’s talk about one big problem we are still struggling with as an evolving sexual society. Well, two problems, but they are related.
The overarching problem is casual sex. Through world history there have been various periods, across cultures, where casual sex was understood and accepted. Celebrated even. Let’s not kid ourselves into think...

Happy International Women’s Day!
For a little over 100 years, people around the world have been gathering together to observe and party, to offer thoughts and recognize the significant contributions and continued needs of women.
That’s right, it has only been that short amount of time. And you’re right again, women should have been cele...

Let’s talk about a problem. A serious problem. Society refuses to talk about sex education for girls. For sure, the lack of sex ed in general is a significant issue for everybody, regardless of gender. We continue to fail our youth, as previous generations have also been failed by not providing sex education that truly prepares them for the real ...

Everybody, it is time to get your game face on! This is not a drill, this is not a test. Start looking at cards, get that restaurant reservation in. There is no way you want to be caught standing still here, it is time to mobilize.
Valentine’s Day is right around the corner!
All joking aside, Valentine’s Day can be such a fun event to bri...

Raise your hand if you believe in astrology? Do you follow your star sign religiously or do you casually glance at horoscopes when you happen to turn that page of the newspaper?
Astrology has been around a very long time, but it isn’t always considered in the best light. Can the stars positions, just twelve formations, really tell us what we n...

It is that time of year folks! The hustle, the bustle, the guessing and wondering. If you’ve ever had trouble trying to figure out the perfect holiday gift for you partner then maybe it is time to try something a little different. Maybe it is time to put sex front and centre in your holiday celebrations!
Of course, just because you want to giv...

Somewhere along the way, hairy bodies became undesirable. Particularly for women, but men have been catching up in the smooth revolution of late. Despite being a perfectly natural part of our bodies, the idea of hairy in certain regions has become so unacceptable that we’re doing everything we can to get rid of it. Shave it, pluck it, wax it, las...

Back in the day, breast implants were all the rage—and I mean that in two distinct ways.
Of all the things the 1980s gave human society, easy-to-access plastic surgery has endured as a means to our outer appearances to the ideal in our minds. There are, of course, two ends of the scalpel. Some people get plastic surgery to correct legitimate m...

We spend far too much time maintaining too many assumptions when it comes to sex. Guys are always interested. Women act like they do in porn. Men don’t need emotional connection. Women automatically get wet when they are aroused.
While all of these topics could warrant a blog post of their own (and maybe someday they will!), we’re going to f...

Picture this: A romantic scene. Two lovers embrace. He grasps her hips firmly, pulling her close. She throws her arms around his shoulders. They gaze directly into each other’s eyes as their bodies come closer. He pulls those hips to meet his, pulls their sex directly. She leans forward, wanting, and touches his lips with hers, their bodies entwi...

I have to start this post off with a disclaimer: yes, an orgasm is great, but it is not the be all and end all of sex. Well, the end all part might be true, depending who you are, but it really doesn’t need to be. Hot sex is hot whether you orgasm or not. Consider it more of an icing on the cake (no pun intended, okay maybe a little).
That sai...

The leather is cool on my back. I welcomed him home topless and full of smile. When he walked in and saw me, he dropped his gym bag, his jaw and all of his inhibitions.
I know what drives him crazy and what he loves most of all is to see me in this pair of jeans. I’ve got others, tighter, newer, nicer. But no, me in this one pair can make him ...

There is absolutely no reason to be afraid of having sex while you or your partner is pregnant. Seriously you will have plenty to be afraid of after the child comes into the world! Unless your doctor has advised you otherwise (this can happen), you can continue to have sex throughout your pregnancy, with there being no risk to mother or baby.
No...

There are so many types of porn out there, it really is pretty amazing. There are films and clips for every single type of sexual interest on this planet. Just as it is with Rule 32 of the internet, if someone has expressed a porny desire of any sort, someone else has captured that idea on film.
And this is really important. If we didn’t have ...

I’m not going to lie, when I first met Kayden, the first thing I noticed were her tits. I know, I know, it should have been her eyes, it should have been her smile, it should have been her amazing personality. And she has all of those and so much more. But when we met, she was naked and really, I don’t think I’m a terrible person that my firs...

I am really not sure. Is this an easier time to figure out dating and sex...or is it actually harder? Back in the day there was this supposed rule that people didn’t have sex on the first date. Well, we know that was ridiculous because plenty of folks were definitely getting frisky and having fun on their first meeting. Supposed propriety aside, ...

One of the most important factors in determining whether your relationship is a flash in the sack or a good, long-haul fuck is compatibility. That almost indescribable connection that doesn’t just draw you to another person, but offers the potential for a lifelong connection.
Sometimes, compatibility happens and sometimes it doesn’t. Sometim...

There seems to be two extremes when talking about orgasms: we’re either trying to figure out how to help folks have one...or we’re trying to ensure they have many! There’s a far way to go between ensuring we enjoy sexual pleasure and coming and being able to experience that sensation over and over again. But it can be done, for both women and...

It really seems that whenever we figure something out about sex, we then take two big steps backwards in some other way. We’ve already made sex very confusing on social, psychological and emotional levels. And every once in awhile, we do it on physical levels too!
Take, for example, the very concept of female ejaculation, otherwise known as sq...

Don’t you just wish you could fuck all the time? I do, or, well, I used to. I’m not really sure I could handle having sex that much anymore, but in my mind it sure does seem like a lovely way to while my life away. Unfortunately, we have to work, eat, keep house, tend to kids...all of those things that actually happen in our day-to-day existenc...

Let’s talk about consent.
I know this space is usually reserved for lots of different sex tips and advice. But trust, understanding consent is one of the most important skills you can learn in today's dating, relationship and sexual world.
Consent has been on everybody’s minds and lips—but it is much more than a buzzword. The amount peo...

Anytime there is an attempt to integrate a popular consumer product with some aspect of sexuality there is a great potential for silliness, weirdness and, quite likely, trouble. Sex does not readily lend itself to items that are outside the sexual realm. Sex is a very specific thing that means many different things to many different people.
Take...

What is our fascination with butts? Like, as a society why do we both love and detest everything that has to do with ass? Some people go absolutely bonkers of backends while others think that anything that has to do with tooshies is terrible. Ours is a world that both loves and abhors Kim K’s bum.
There are so many ways we have manifested this...

Our bodies are a complex array of interconnected and interdependent parts and pieces. That we can actually function with all of these moving, microscopic bits is pretty astonishing. It also explains how we can encounter significant issues in other areas when one of our essential parts is not acting as it should.
When people experience health con...

Does anybody out there remember the groundbreaking queer television show Queer As Folk? British version, American version—both were exceptionally influential for a variety of reasons. They were the first show in either country to positively and realistically portray the queer community in many different ways. Gay men, lesbians, people living, wor...

Do you ever get the feeling that you are completely tied to your mobile phone? Can you even remember a time without it? We live in a world that prioritizes the flood of information - be it from media, social media or friends - that has become our lifeline to a new type of connection. And that connection has started to overtake more traditional conn...

It is sad when relationships that were strong, loving and sexy fall away from these great feelings. One of the main culprits in this relationship challenge is a loss of intimacy. There are many different reasons why this can happen, including stress, financial challenges, kids and so much more. But another sometimes overlooked cause of lagging clos...

I will readily admit a bias: I do not understand the Western world’s obsession with removing body hair. I have this bias because I actually like hair on my partners. The look, the feel. Maybe you can call me old fashioned because of this. Like, really old fashioned.
But actually, not old fashioned at all! The rampant removal of body hair—gen...

Q: My girlfriend and I have awesome, fulfilling hot-as-can be sex. No complaints there at all. Unfortunately, the problem is that all of my roommates, my neighbours and even some random people on the street know how amazing our sex is because she is so damn loud when we do it! I was with a few women in the past who had sex like we were in silent mo...

Oh, celebrities. Sometimes we know why you’re famous, sometimes we have no clue at all. Sometimes you provide great and inspirational acting performances or delightful music to pleasure our ears and souls. Sometimes you talk about the insanity of your life on Youtube. Regardless the reason for your notoriety, you hold a place on the biggest pedes...

Some may consider it a funny quirk or the root of ridiculous jokes, but others have dealt with or lived through the potentially devastating effects of a rare condition called sexsomnia.
What is sexsomnia?
In the most basic sense, sexsomnia is attempting to and sometimes actually achieving in having sex while a person remains asleep. It s...

It is hard to believe that it has taken until recent years for people to start to understand the sexual power of the clitors. It is now widely considered to be the premier source of sexual stimulation for those who have them. It definitely is not the only source of good feelings, but the majority of people do report that clitoral stimulation is req...

There is something so naughty and fun about the following videos. It is like a peek into another world. No, wait, it is like peeking in on people who are peeking into another world. When gay men touch vagina and lesbians touch penis for the first time, the results are both hilarious and sweet.
Many queer folks grow up knowing they are gay or les...

Did you know that one of the most popular sex toys in the world isn’t actually a sex toy at all? Did you also know it was almost retired a few years ago despite its worldwide success?
It is hard to believe a sexual world without the Magic Wand. Ever since Betty Dodson brought the toy to the attention of the world in the early 1970s, it has bee...

No offense to fans of The Quickie, but who here agrees that Foreplay is the absolutely best part of sex? All of that tease, all of that touch, all of that build up? This is the stuff that intimacy and connection are made of. These are the moments of slow and sensual enjoyment. These are the moments when you truly learn what you partner likes, loves...

Q: I work out at the trendiest gym in town. As a woman in my early forties, I want to look the best I can! And I’m not the only one, there are many women similar to me taking the same classes as I am. I wasn’t entirely sure why when I showed up to my first spin class, but I figured it out pretty quick. Our instructor is gorgeous! He’s young, ...

Everybody has a different body, and we can all excel at certain activities and motions while struggling with others. Sex is no different and how your body is shaped can affect how you enjoy sexytimes. The same goes for your partner. Depending on how your partner is shaped will determine the types of sex you can and cannot have.
If you or your pa...

There are many different ways we dress up our sex. From lingerie to cosplay to fancy shoes to fetish wear, transforming our and our partners’ looks can add sexy new spice to a sexual relationship.
However, adding clothes and accessories to the mix can sometimes create a significant conundrum. If you really like the feel of your partner’s ski...

I have always admired and been amazed by those just seem to exude sexual confidence. You see these folks everywhere. They’re able to mingle and chat, put people at ease or create a delicious tension. Sexually confident people never have trouble meeting new people, picking up and then, if it suits their fancy, moving on. But not even in a bad, jer...

Q: Why does everybody have better luck than me on dating sites? Seriously! I have profiles on several different websites and I barely get any messages back. I go through sites and try to make contact but rarely does anybody ever respond. I’m a decent looking guy and profile is a straight-up account of what I am like as a person. I’ve always hea...

Many people believe great sex should always begin with a kiss. Why then are so many people a little deficient in this simple skill?
Because it isn’t a simple skill!
Is a kiss just a kiss?
Kissing is something for which we all have a unique style and technique. Some people are light peckers and others are sloppy open-mouthers. W...

Everybody has different preferences in their sex toys. Some people like realistic toys, some people like discreet toys. Some people even like toys that don’t resemble sex objects at all. The different styles and designs available make your sex toy choices exciting and limitless. So much choice, so little time!
However, there is another conside...

Every year is remembered for certain milestones and phenomena in the sex and dating scene. A few years ago Fifty Shades of Grey had us all bound, and polyamory has certainly enjoyed the attention of many. While there were many other memorable social elements of 2016, the most pervasive might have been the concept of ghosting.
Let’s say you’r...

Sometimes relationships just don’t work out. Whether the split is amicable or not, it is important to realize when it is time to move along to, hopefully something better. It might suck, but c’est la vie.
However, you have created an intimacy with this person and even if you don’t really like each other anymore, those intimate feelings can...

Q: Would you believe I was recently asked if I did anal on a first date! I couldn’t believe this guy I’d just met online thought this would be ok to ask. Really? We hadn’t actually started anything, but I was pretty shocked. Am I crazy for thinking that anal is NOT a first date thing? I am a little older (42), but this just seems a little ext...

Do you ever let the music take over your body, your mind, your soul? Do you ever lose yourself completely, giving your whole being over to the beat, to the rhythm, to the energy?
I spend a lot of time in clubs of all sorts, dancing as often as I can. Sometimes I go alone, sometimes with friends. Some might find it strange, but I think I like it ...

Q: "My partner and I have a long-running issue between us that comes up every single month: her period. She is very comfortable with her body and what she does with it. She has told me over and over that she would love to have sex with me while she is menstruating. She actually says she really likes it after the cramps have subsided. I’ve always ...

Why do we have such a problem with the word masturbation? Think about it - nobody likes this term. We've got countless euphemisms for the act, some pleasant, like 'self love' and others crude, like 'beating the meat.' We will call stimulating one's own genitals any other thing in the world except masturbation.
And female masturbation? That barel...