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Young couples/singles meet.

Young couples/singles meet.

me and my boyfriend where just looking through the events and noticed there is not really alot for younger type swingers on here... im talking 18-30 year olds. please dont tak offence to this as there are speed dating things going on etc for older people. i just wondering if any other younger couples etc would like to have a mt with people around their age as it will make it more comfortable..

We agree completely

We don't want to offend anyone on here because everyone here is entitled to have some fun regardless of age it's just that we feel more comfortable meeting up with people around our age. We were looking into going to the Burswood Swingers Club but we emailed them and were told that the main age group that go is around 30 so we changed our minds. We just wish there were things like that for younger people because we're really keen to try new things just with people our age. It's like how those who are around 50 may not be comfortable doing things with an 18 and 20 year old. It's nothing to do with them it's just the age gap that makes us uncomfortable because our parents are around that age and it's weird thinking that on the 1 in a 10000 chance we might see family friends there or our parents which we try not to think about.

good idea

at a 'party' just the other night and was discussing that with a guy there, an under 40s meet would be great - and maybe less intimidating/enticing for the ladies of the couples too (some of the more delectable ones seemed a bit put off when faced with a crowd of blokes that could be their Dad)

OK... But are you prepared to organise an event?

I don't think you can really complain about events just being for the 'older' set when it seems no one in your age group is prepared to put their hand up and get an event happening. Maybe (here comes a generalisation...) the 'younger' set are more likely to throw the idea into the 'too hard' basket? If that's the case, it's a shame as it's not THAT hard to organise an event and the rewards are many :D So:

1. Get in touch with hotties in your age group. If you're only a Guest then you may need to either upgrade or get in touch with a couple who do have an upgraded account. At any rate, it helps to have a couple of friends help organise the night.2. Pick a date and venue that suits most people you're in touch with. Work out if you just want a drinks night or if you want to plan an after-party for players. If so, will you get everyone to pitch in for a hotel room or host it at someone's house?3. Get final numbers of attendees. You don't need a huge amount of people but work on 50% attendance. You'd be amazed how many people will text you on the day and say they can't come blah blah.4. If you have a good number attending, you probably should ensure that your chosen venue can accommodate everyone and make sure you pick a good time to start (before the place gets too busy). The last thing you want is your guests to end up in queues or lost in the crowd.5. If every guest is to your liking, give people details of the after-party.6. Get dirty.

We used to do this ourselves and still do as age isn't the only segregating factor for swingers (ie - we only play with people who own canoes). Seriously tho, instead of waiting for someone else to orgainse something, it's really worthwhile getting your own party happening.

As for venues, I don't think most swingers clubs will host a night specifically for under 30s unless they're sure they can cover costs. You can always ask them :)

Every weekend

Hi guys

We are a older couple by age lol and attened partys such as saints&sinners ,purr ,kat parties .Each time we go its a diverse croud young,old ,thick ,thin varried races and have the best time with them all .You are free to chat to who ever young or old. They are no means no policy events So just saying in our experiance you can meet who your looking for and make some great friends along the way(but we are lucky in melbourne to have a variety of events)

same

this was the same problem we came across as we started out we avoided clubs for the same reason.... might be for some ppl but we are not interested in the older ppl (absolutely no offence) so if any younger ppl end up organising this let us know

young ones meet

youngprth88 good to see you back

if my memory serves me right you brought this up quite a while ago,and decided to organise your own event for the under 30s and put a party post up.You got heaps of interest ,but i dont think the party happened ,why was that?

no interest?

Young Swingers

Try Hot Young Couple, I think they may have had a name change I thought they were called Young Swingers before. Anyways they do hold events look under clubs tab for the details, they should be listed. Also search for groups, if I recall there are a couple of young ones there.

Secret under 30's society

Finding a venue is the problem. I suggest you do a bulk raid on one of the clubs on one of their quiet nights. You'll still get the few older peeps and some who lie about their age but if you keep the venue "secret" and hit it en masse you will far outnumber them. if it works well for the club, they might even consider it as a regular feature. At least then you aren't forking out for facilities to have it at home. The important thing is to have a fukin good time. :p
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contacted a club and got a positive result

Ok guys and girls me and my man contacted a club last night (voodoo lounge) and they responded by saying they are very interested in holding a young swingers night. so i am going to contact the Maitre De of the club and make a date to throw up some ideas so if you have anything specific please tell me so i can bring them up at the meeting