Dear Susan:

When you go shopping for clothes you must purchase at least one pair of new jeans and one pair of chinos. Everything else can wait, but if your pants threaten to fall off at the grocery store again, you will die of embarrassment.xoxo

One of my students asked me yesterday if I had an outie.... it must have been because the snap on my pants was poking out. I told him I was very sorry my pants were a distraction for him, but that no, I have an innie. How are you making your pants fall off... that's spectacular!

I have always been unsatisfied with life as most people live it. Always, I want to live more intensely and richly. Why muck & conceal one's true longings and loves, when by speaking of them, one might find someone to understand them; and by acting on them, one might discover oneself.