Put on Your Big Girl or Boy Pants

Summary of Brenda’s June 8, 2017, channeled 15-minute “Creation Energies” show at http://www.BlogTalkRadio.com/brenda-hoffman: Perhaps you’re concerned you’ll never be of 5D or beyond for you continue to address 3D issues. You just need a bit of practice before you feel fully comfortable in 5D or beyond. Just as was true for learning to play an instrument or drive a car. Some of you even feel as if you’re ill, and will never recover. The next few days allow you to understand that you’re now a bird flying high in the sky instead of a fish in a small pond.

Many of you expected to become a Superwoman or Superman overnight. While such might be true internally, externally, most of you require a bit of practice.

Your internal being does sometimes fold into your external being, but not yet to the extent you dream of. Even though eventually you will dimension hop and frequency/time travel with ease, you must practice a bit before such is so.

Do you remember the first time (for those of you introduced to computers as adults) you tried to operate a computer? Perhaps you felt you needed a space bar – like those on typewriters – or could not remember how to save items. Actions you now do automatically. So it is for your physical shift.

Throughout these transition years, you shifted spiritually, then emotionally, and finally, physically. From inner to outer if you will.

So it is you are beginning to practice your physical skills regarding actions and receiving. For even though many of you eventually wish to time/frequency travel and dimension hop, it is likely you are now dreaming of something in your physical world that you have not yet created.

You are a bit like an infant trying to grasp something but not able to until your finger muscles are more developed. So you are frustrated, angry, and stating to others that you are giving up. Hoping that such dramatic phrases and thoughts will encourage an entity in the ethers to produce what you want.

Again, like an infant expecting someone to change their diaper when soiled, feed them when hungry and hold them when human contact is needed.

The problem now, if you will, is that you are mature enough spiritually and emotionally to care for yourself. So it is you must begin thinking of yourself as a self-contained entity.

Such a thought makes some of you angry for you are certain you cannot be as fruitful or caring as the gods you once worshiped as parental figures. But then, such a thought is little different from wanting your parents to protect and care for you as a young adult the first time you make a mistake.

Even though your parents might commiserate with you, it is likely they will encourage you to determine your own fate without a rescuing or caretaking. For young adults not taking responsibility for their actions, merely prolong learning self-care – the ultimate adult role.

So it is you are now on your own. It is time for you to put on your big boy and big girl pants, to take responsibility for your life – and your creations.

You have begun to create small items and will soon flex your creation muscles to the big items you dream of.

Even though we suggested you flex your creation muscles a year or so ago, the majority of you did not wish to become true Universal adults that rapidly. You wanted to remain of 3D instead of forcing yourself too rapidly into 5D or beyond.

Even though such a delay is not that dramatic for your months are but milliseconds in Universal time, you can no longer pretend you are not skilled enough nor Universal enough to be of 5D or beyond. You have crossed the 5D Rubicon.

So Universal beings can whisper suggestions in your ear, as would be true of a phone call to your parents when you are unable to determine your next move as a young adult, but Universal beings can no longer live your life for you pushing you here and there.

You are a fully contained adult with all the skills required.

You no longer need babysitters, nor do you need overprotective parents. You are a young 5D adult – and it is time for you to act like one.

It does not matter how loudly you scream to the heavens about your terrible life, any more than it would have helped you to have your parents take care of your every move once you became an adult.

So it is you are being forced, if you will, to become an adult even though most feel as if you are not ready.

All is as it should be regarding your acceptance that you are a 5D or beyond adult.

Of course, you will make a few mistakes – but in your mind only. Of course, you will wish that the Universes or someone would rescue you as is true of almost every young adult. But the only way you will fully claim new you is if you test your physical skills – as you are now doing.

Allow yourself to flex your new you physical skills, just as you allowed yourself to flex your spiritual skills by running hither and yon from one guru to another – until you were satisfied that you had absorbed all you needed from others.

So it is now. You are beginning to flex your 5D physical muscles – discovering you are more selective with human interactions, that you create items just by wishing for them, and that you are slipping between dimensions and frequencies without yet understanding how to move and speak as you wish, but knowing how you want to shift.

You are a physically young 5D or beyond adult just beginning to explore your options. Allow that to be without berating yourself for not being perfect. And instead, being in joy with your self-hood experiments. So be it. Amen.

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So be it.
Thank you Brenda for being a Lighthouse on the ocean called Life. I’m sailing out of the safe haven now, reliable sailors called Wisdom, Courage and Trust have boarded my ship to help me reach wherever my Soul sends me.
Farewell.
Captain Love.

Hey Brenda — I read the first line and burst out laughing at the synchronicity in my life. As you know, I just began a new role in our Community as Kitchen Coordinator. Fortunately, I share the position with another woman who does all the parts that I don’t enjoy. Likewise for her, I take care of all the things that would drive her crazy. A match made in 5D to be sure.
Well, our first two weeks turned out to require so much from each of us and both of us, that we were burnt out by the end of them. I literally could not walk for three days. I told my sister yesterday: “Well, I guess I found out that I’m not Superwoman!” So you can see the cause of my laughter upon reading your post this morning.
Joke’s on all of us, I guess. The good news that I gleaned from this post is the order in which we are receiving our new abilities: from the spiritual, through the mental and finally the physical. That Divine Order had somehow slipped from my awareness, so this message allows me to be much more compassionate with myself and NOT give up — the direction I was leaning toward. I can always use my aging body as a reason to think that something is beyond me physically. Now, upon reading this reminder, I can choose to affirm that my transition to 5D abilities is just a slower process than my spiritual understanding would have me believe. Thanks for the morning chuckle. This is a much easier week for both me and my kitchen partner. And my body is healing well and rapidly. Blessings, Alia

Hi Alia,
Isn’t it amazing how we continue to shame ourselves despite messages from so many channels that we’re where we’re supposed to be? Yup, allow yourself to move at the pace that’s right for you. I’m trying to do the same. Not always an easy process when we feel we SHOULD be at a different place, more caring or just a “better” person. Just thinking of your kitchen duty makes me smile – kitchens have never been my strong suite!!!!!!!!!
Blessings, Lots of Love and Self-discovery Sparkles,
Brenda

I can pretty much make myself at home in any kitchen. I’m not sure I’ll be happy when replicators start making the food. However, when I first came here to Lost Valley, I loved the freedom from spending so much time in the kitchen. Now that I have my own kitchen, I’m back to preparing lots of our own meals. My kitchen role gives me more opportunities to assist others and ease their roles as cooks and cleaners. I like that part a lot.

Hi Alia,
Isn’t it wonderful how we’re unique individuals – all pieces of the tapestry of life? Kitchen duty is one of my least favorite tasks. I don’t mind cleaning up but not the cooking part. I remember how much you loved trying new foods and recipes before you returned to the states.
Blessings, Lots of Love and Unique Sparkles,
Brenda

Yes, and even between the two of us who share the kitchen role, I enjoy certain parts of the job and my partner enjoys and excels at other aspects. We are able to do the parts that bring us joy and leave the rest to our partner. It’s a great situation. Very 5D, I’d say, Alia

“Allow yourself to flex your new you physical skills, just as you allowed yourself to flex your spiritual skills ”
What a great tip !!
But I’ve had to laugh, because by imagining myself developing my physical abilities I’ve seen myself as a chimpanzee in a National Geographic documentary. A chimpanzee in a laboratory trying to fit the cylindrical piece into the square silhouette, banging, sulking and angry. And behind the big false mirror to the scientists who watch my movements, wagging their heads sadly and saying: ay this Cristina, is the most stupid and stubborn monkey we have seen never!!!
I will keep trying and I swear by the most Sacred that piece is going to enter … even if I have to build a hammer to do it.!!! Jejejeje!!!
Blessings and lots of love
Cristina

Hey Cristina,
Let’s move you ahead a bit to human space travel. But if you’ve seen the first space ships, you really will have to be ok with a cramped space not much larger than that for a monkey! We’ll do it just as we’ve completed other phases. Just think how far we’ve come in just a few years. In comparison, this will be a piece of cake!!!!
Blessings, Lots of Love and Self-love Sparkles,
Brenda

Hi Atian,
Not sure what you mean about the boy who smiled – I most often forget what I channeled right after I channel, that’s why I always do a short overview of what I channeled – all I can remember is little boys becoming interested in the girls who develop early. Maybe that’s what you’re thinking of.
Blessings, Lots of Love and Self-love Sparkles,
Brenda

It was something like this: a girl liked how a boy had smiled to her, only to find out later that the boy started dating another girl. The girl then sighed: oh no, this is the end of the world!
That was very well acted and it was both funny and sweet.
When I listen to your radio broadcast, I connect my phone to my sound system, lie on my couch and become relaxed. Could it be that your voice has a unique vibration that connects us to the child in us that used to take great pleasure in bedtime stories? Perhaps the unique vibration touches the soul in a soothing way. Sound healing.

Thank you, Atian, I had forgotten all about that piece. I sometimes feel my voice or cadence change during a radio show. Interesting thought that it’s a bedtime story voice!!! And so we learn and evolve!!!!!
Blessings, Lots of Love and Evolution Sparkles,
Brenda

Dear Brenda,
I do not think I’ve ever told you (or maybe yes?) But something similar to what Atian describes happens to me.
I sit comfortably on the couch to listen to your blog talk radio weekly, I do not understand much of what you say, maybe only 20-25%. But your voice relaxes me and although I do not understand your words “intellectually”, “I feel” what you say.
Then I complete it with the summary that you do (written English is totally affordable for me, but American English spoken is very difficult).
But before reading the summary I feel that your words have “touched me.”
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Dear Cristina,
Thank you. I had no idea that you, Atian, and perhaps others are listening to my radio shows in that way. What a wonderful gift you and Atian have given me. THANK YOU!!!!!!!!!
Blessings, Lots of Love and Creation Sparkles,
Brenda
PS I started the summary piece a few years ago when talking to a physic friend shortly after channeling one of my radio shows and she wanted to know what the show was about. I had no idea so I started the summaries for me so I could remember what I said.

I’m sorry I did not tell you before. These are things that you sometimes take for granted and you forget. Aitan reminded me.
And the summaries are a great help. You would start doing it as a favor to your friend, but to me personally it is a great gift that you make me. Thank you so much for everything. I tell you little, and it seems that I take for granted that every Monday and every Friday I will have your channeling ….. as if I was subscribed to financial times or something like that. Sometimes forgetting the great gift you so generously give us.
Cristina

Thank you. My focus right now: “The love that you search for everywhere is already present within you. It may be evoked by any number of people or events. But finally, you will realize you are this love. The source of all love is within you”. Gangaji ❤