Katy and her father

Several years ago Katy sold everything she owned after being jilted at the altar and booked a one-way ticket to south-east Asia. She started a travel blog called Not Wed or Dead, which later led to the publication of The Lonely Hearts Travel Club series. As those books were published she became known in media reports as the ‘Backpacking Bridget Jones.’

Katy said the following about her new book: “I wanted to write something different. It’s a bit more grown up... I had a whole fifth book finished, but when I lost my dad I think I had a whole new outlook on everything. I feel very removed from that girl who went to Bali.”

Her father, 62-year-old Colin Gough, collapsed as he walked Katy’s baby daughter through a Kenilworth park in November 2017.

Katy and her new book

She said: “My dad was looking after Everleigh and he was walking her through the park and he just had a massive heart attack. They were going to Kenilworth Library. He was walking through Castle Farm and had a huge heart attack. Paramedics were called. They couldn’t do anything.”

Her daughter, who fell out of the pram, was found by authorities and was unharmed. But her father didn’t have any ID on him so it delayed how quickly she and her husband John found out what happened.

She added: “It was just the most horrific day. My dad lived in Kenilworth for over 40 years. He was a real Kenilworth man. He was a very healthy 62-year-old who had just retired and shockingly just cut short with no warning.”

Around 18 months later she dedicated her new book, published on Thursday June 13, for her father.

Katy said: “It just opened me up to this new world I had never experienced. The book would’ve never have existed had it not happened. I wanted to talk about my experiences of grief because we don’t as a society.”

The story within ‘How to say goodbye’ involves an unconventional female funeral arranger. The lead character, Grace, is inspired by Nikki Whiting, who works at Co-op John Taylor Funeral Home, who looked after her father’s funeral.

Katy said this of Nikki: “It was the passion she gave in giving my dad the best goodbye. I don’t think they get enough credit for what they do in the funeral industry.”