My man is a chores man. He sweeps, cleans, goes to market, even does my laundries without complaining.

Somedays he takes in his plates. Somedays he leaves it behind. The days he leaves it behind I know deep down it's the Naija men syndrome that is worrying him. But I absolutely don't mind because he does much more for me that leaves me feeling so lazy when he's around.

So people don't go and use this post and scatter your home o. It's not always as women brag publicly they behave inside.

My hubby takes our plates to the kitchen and 85% of the time does the dishes.. He cooks most times too.. I abhor cooking.My sons are learning from their dad and I on how important it is to help each other around the house, won't have them stressing TF out of their future wives.Parents(not only mothers) need to do better with their sons..

People just thrive on controversy when I first saw this I swiped past it quickly lol What's wrong with a man clearing the table, Thank God for the one God has given me he serves our food and does the dishes , matter of fact he doesn't let me do it, I cook he cleans.

Thank you. Decided not to talk about it anymore as i seem to come off as a nag. I take time out to make the meals and serve him. Courtesy demands that he could do is take the dish(es) to the kitchen after eating. It’s not difficult 🙄🙄.

That one 👆 that talked about whether someone is "sound" or not. What do you know about being sound? You are very dumb for making such stupid comment. Don't talk nonsense under my comment next time, okay?

And for the other one that doubted my sexuality, be informed that I am a FEMALE!

Peace ✌️ to the test of you.

👎 In advance to anyone who is warming up to type nonsense under my comment.

It is absolutely right for him to take his plates. Everyone must be independent and learn to clean up after themselves.

I have visited homes of very elderly people in the uk, I am talking in their 80s who cook and clean, heck they live alone. So why should a man become handicapped because he married a woman? Your wife is your help mate not slave.

There are times my husband is tired, I just take the tray from him and sort the dishes but on a good day, my husband does not wait for anyone to do pack his plates.

My husband does that and most times when I carry it out after he had finished eating, he would say 'thank you'.But if we have someone that came to visit that is a relative, he would leave the table fr it to be cleared by the person.

The kind of questions I see sometimes make me wonder. Is he supposed to dig a hole and bury the plate in the dining room? Hiaan. He carries mine too sometimes sef and washes the dishes. Abeg marriage shouldn't be this hard na

My dad has never cleared his dishes. In a month he can enter d kitchen only once and he also doesnt dish food for himself no matter how hungry he is.

When my mom came for omugwo, she saw my husband clearing d dishes, if u see how she was giving me bad eye like 🙄🙄 I shouldnt let him do DAT. I told her when she gets to her husbands house, she can cont.with her slave n master marriage biko. #wifenotslave

i cant let my husband clear the dishes or even do them mbok,unless i am sick or outta town or too tired that he decides to them without me knowing. it doesnt mean i am a slave its just not my thing to see my man doing the dishes mbok. he can help by sitting and gisting with me while i do it. its ok if u and ur have husband have an understanding about such stuffs but i just wont let it.

Na wa o.21st century wives full this blog.i m female n married but my husband doesn't clear nor wash the dishes.we both earn same salary as we work in d same organization but it doesn't make me less a woman.If u check am all these girls wey dey talk rubbish dey carry plate o. Sdk hypocrites.

I usually pack his dishes, I do it as a sign of respect and love because he takes very good care of my kids and I. On Some rare occasions he packs my plate and his to wash them and I appreciate him for that. Packing plates is not an issue at all. I’m a lawyer and I am comfortable, however I still carry out my domestic duty out of love for him and to show my kids good example.

Well done @anon7.34 same way I do . I let the kids pack the plates and wash , I also wash too. To me it’s a demonstration of love and respect and a good example to the kids. He told me my co wife doesn’t tolerate it at all that she’ll scold him and text him to make sure he carries his plate to the sink . He practically worships us.

The funniest thing is that my cousin thinks it is all game. She comes to SDK blog forming feminist and "no nonsense" wife. This is someone that is scared to look her husband in the face. Be careful what you read online. All these online tigers are cats in real life. Figure out what works in your relationship and do it. It is your life, live it. People be lying online

Seriously is this suppose to be a subject of discussion at all.... I will like to ask is the wife a slave, househelp or maid for God sake this is your WIFE it’s madly wrong for you to expect your wife or anyone pack your plates when you done with food and nothing is wrong if you took your plates to the kitchen as a husband, wife or perhaps children self. NO RULES TO IT.

Easiest thing in the world. I’ll even wash the few ones in the sink. But if I meet a mountain of dishes there, I’ll just look around, drop my plate and quietly japa. It’s the least a husband could do after madam must have been in the kitchen cooking and even getting served while he watches tv sef. I’m the laziest man in the world when it comes to chores but when the anointing mounts me (it does quite often), I dey overdo. I’ll clean all cleanables and it kind of makes up for my lazy lazy. But carrying my plate to the kitchen, who even makes an issue out of that?