About Us

Of course, in most websites, there is always a little something about the author of the site.

But, before we start, there is something that I would first like to share with you.

I thoroughly enjoy a good quote that is both wise and witty. I use them to remind myself about the things we do. Below is a list of some that I have found over the last few months and, where relevant, some of them are repeated in other pages in this website.

One of my favourites is Ilene Beckerman. It keeps reminding me of characteristics about us, about the decisions we made back then, and the decisions that we make now.

Twenty years ago, why did we not take good advice when it was given? Why was it so important for us to prove ourselves and make the same mistakes that others made previously?

What has changed about us? We listen a lot more now. Enjoy our site.

Why the butterfly?

Several people have asked why we use the butterfly as a form of visual identification for Moyoway.

The short answer is that little things in life now can have big effects later ... a term called the butterfly effect, whereby a minor change in ones life (or situation) can cause a large change in the outcome.

Many of us live our lives in a form of chaos or near chaos. Tension, anger, fear, judgement, hipocracy, temptation and others are some of the negative aspects that we, as humans, have to deal with on a daily basis.

Abusing alcohol is chaos

Stealing and landing up in jail is chaos

Living in anger and hurting others is chaos

So, again, why the butterfly?

Having a social drink with others on a regular basis is a butterfly effect. After a tough day at work or stress at home, a social drink turns into a few more drinks that may have larger consequences later.

What starts off as taking $1.00 from petty cash and making a mental note to return it next time is a butterfly effect. $1.00 becomes $2.00 which becomes $20.00 and what started off as a small and minor change now, turns into a larger outcome later.

Not dealing with relationship conflicts is a butterfly effect. The conflicts build up into anger and resentment becoming a larger effect later.

The butterfly effect

By taking the essence of the butterfly effect into the theme of this website, the effects of our wings, however small and gentle they may be now, we know that the effects it will have in the future, will be large.

Every little and inconsequential thing that we do on this website now, will have a consequence and effect on a larger scale later.

The little spark of awareness that we put into a young mind now may turn into a campaigner for a better world later.

We chose the Monarch Butterfly to lead the way and show you a little more about us and our motivations.

Enjoy these quotes from some remarkable people

Take note of the effect that make up had on each of these people.

“Beneath the make up and behind the smile I am just a girl who wishes for the world” - Marilyn Monroe

Actress, singer, model and showgirl starring in a number of commercially successful motion pictures during the 1950s. Far from being, whom many still consider, a blonde bubble-head, Ella Fitzgerald said “She was an unusual woman — a little ahead of her times. And she didn’t know it." She was acutely realistic about the public's perception of her and candid about the burden of being one of the most sought-after women in the world.

“The most beautiful make up of a woman is passion. But cosmetics are easier to buy” - Yves Saint-Laurent

One of the greatest names in fashion history and credited with having introduced the tuxedo suit for women.

“How many cares one loses when one decides not to be something but to be someone” - Coco Chanel

Influential fashion designer, founder of the famous brand Chanel. She was the only fashion designer to be named on Time 100: The Most Important People of the Century.

“You think I'm pretty, Without any make-up on, You think I'm funny, When I tell the punch line wrong, I know you get me, So I'll let my walls come down, down” - Katy Perry

Singer, songwriter and actress.

“She's not wearing make up so her face just looks like skin” - Chuck Palahniuk

Novelist.

“Beauty, to me, is about being comfortable in your own skin. That, or a kick-ass red lipstick” - Gwyneth Paltrow

Actress and singer. Paltrow has been the face of Estée Lauder's Pleasures perfume since 2005 and is also the face of American fashion brand Coach.

“I love the confidence that make up gives me” - Tyra Banks

Model, media personality, actress, occasional singer, author and businesswoman. Banks is the creator and host of reality television show America's Next Top Model, co-creator of True Beauty, and host of her own talk show, The Tyra Banks Show.

“Lipstick is really magical. It holds more than a waxy bit of colour - it holds the promise of a brilliant smile, a brilliant day, both literally and figuratively” - Roberta Gately

Nurse, humanitarian aid worker, and writer, Roberta Gately has served in 3rd world war zones ranging from Africa to Afghanistan. She has written on the subject of refugees for the Journal of Emergency Nursing and the BBC World News Online. She speaks regularly on the plight of the world’s refugees and displaced.

“When I was your age … I wish I'd known that I already had everything I needed within myself to be happy, instead of looking for happiness at beauty counters” - Ilene Beckerman

“When I was 75, my book The Smartest Woman I Know was published. It’s not about me. I illustrate all of my books but I don’t draw well. Oprah did a profile of me. My books have been translated into many languages I can’t speak. I’ve written for The New York Times, the Los Angeles Times, Ladies Home Journal, and many other magazines, and I speak to women’s groups and book clubs all over the country. If someone had told me all this would happen to me, I would have told them to stop smoking whatever they were smoking.”

“Health is like money, we never have a true idea of its value until we lose it” - Josh Billings

A famous humour writer and lecturer in the United States in the second half of the 19th century. His saying, "In the whole history of the world there is but one thing that money can not buy... to wit the wag of a dog's tail" appears at the beginning of the Disney film "Lady and the Tramp".

A little more about us and which makeup and foods do we use?

I
can tell you that there is nothing different about us. We are made of
skin and blood just like you. We make mistakes. However, more and more,
we take responsibility for our mistakes - this website is an example.

What we have learned about us is that being a couch critic does not solve anything.

We
have much debate in our family about make up and foods – whether it's the cost or
how much personal sacrifice (or risk) one is prepared to make to get
that perfect look or fill that little hunger pang.

We argue and debate

We
struggle with issues too - two beautiful teenagers with the whole world
ahead of them and two parents struggling between guidance, common sense
and nostalgic prudence. Conversation can sometimes be a little uneasy
but we persist, learning along the way.

We used to have conflicts because of strong perceptions

My
daughters would defend Beyonce saying that Temptu must be the best make
up because Beyonce uses it.

And myself, I have always had a soft spot for a quick burger at McDonalds.

We know better now and the energy of our previous conflicts have evolved into a desire to be and do better with our foods and cosmetics.

We choose to be strong ... no matter what

"I want to know if you can see beautyeven when it is not prettyevery day.And if you can source your own lifefrom its presence."The Invitation, Oriah Mountain Dreamer

We are together, even when it is not pretty to see

Whatever
our views are, it always comes down to one thing … if you don't know
what you are putting on your skin and into your body, you are taking unnecessary personal
risks.

Nobody is telling you what to
do, but if you intend to take personal risks for whatever reason, then
be VERY VERY sure that you know what you are doing so that you can get
the best out of it and deal with the consequences, good or bad.

There is something else about us. We are not here to judge right or wrong. We are not bashing products or organisations.

We
are here to tell you that whatever you decide to do, do the best you
can, do it with love, do it with kindness. And remember that your body
is the most amazing thing that you will ever own in your entire life.

We are just a regular family ... like everyone else

This is a picture of all of us as we met at an airport in Spain after the girls had spent some weeks away with their grandparents.

Explore new things with us

Stay with us as we start a small farm in Malawi to grow Moringa trees.

Before you go ...

Once your body is damaged, there is no "UNDO" or "BACK" button

There
is a little more about us. Moyoway is a family
collaboration in our own search to deal with the consequences of makeup and food injury. Hopefully we can inform others before they injure themselves.

If you think that this site is useful, start off from our Home Page
and start to learn and live a toxin free lifestyle.

This site is about
us, our motivations and our journey out of sick products that are killing
us and our world, one step at a time.