You can't claim to be blowing money fast when you don't have money to blow in the first place. You're not fooling anyone; you've asked your friends for money on several occasions, and you always say you're going to pay them back but never do.

Stop buying expensive clothing and going to expensive restaurants when you can't afford it. Eventually your frivolous spending is going to catch up to you. Instead of Instagramming pictures of five-star dining, you'll be taking pictures of your instant ramen noodle dinner. You don't ever want to go that low, dude.