Man and Woman: Very Difficult to Get Along.

Man and Woman: Well, why are they so difficult to be together?

A woman and a man without each other feel lonely, but sometimes together they can be very difficult to get along. There are couples in which relations have long been exhausted, but they still continue to torment each other. The quarrel between men and women can replace passionate reconciliation. Why is there no true understanding between a man and a woman? What is the reason for such a complex relationship?

Getting married every woman believes that she reeducates her lover. The man wants the woman he loved to be the same as it was during the initial encounter.

When a woman meets a man she likes, she already appreciates him as a potential husband. Moreover, she calculates all the little things in the years ahead. The man, at first acquaintance, evaluates a woman only as a temporary partner. Basically, he lives only in a present day, and his thoughts prevail about an evening meeting with friends or a problem at work.

Women like to change. If she has a bad mood, then she is sure to go to the hairdresser, a shop, a friend of hers, etc. A woman adjusts her life and living space under the mood. New hair color or good shopping help a woman to move all the hardships. For no apparent reason, a woman can suddenly change jobs or start yoga. On the other hand, she will perform their duties at all times. Pain, weather or girlfriends do not stop her.

She likes to measure the man she likes for the role of her husband, she often adds to his image those lines, which she herself would like to see in him. For example, a “stable or decent” men for women, those who have a high-paying job with the prospect of growth.

Seeing a well built handsome man, she already dreams of beautiful children born from him. In her self-deception, she does not notice that the man has no interest in a further acquaintance with her, not to mention the wedding.

Men are essentially conservative. While at work he is normally paid, and it suits him at the very least, he will not change it. Change of hairstyle or clothing style for them is intolerable. And it is quite unclear to them, why to make repairs or change the furniture in the house if nothing was broken and is in good condition. Just because of she bored? He will tell you – “Nonsense!” Men long accustomed to the novelty. They value their habitual way and without the need to change their lives will not.