Calling to other mums to be!!

Just found out I'm pregnant.... But am worrying as everyone does but there's more to my worry last year I had a m/c and one earlier this year :'( I was heart broken as you can imagine, I am staying as positive as I can but every time I go to the loo the worry comes back, as I struggle not to worry which is usual right? I will be having early scans etc this time....I am roughly 4weeks so still early days eeeekkkk Just keeping positive as I can but calling out to other mums-to-be for support as I don't have others to talk to as don't want to tell people yet any support/ past experience would be 100% to me #stay positive #my 1st baby 2016 🌍💙💜

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Hi.i had two miscarriges in second one growth stopped in 5w5d.now m pregnant again n 11wk now.every thing z fine now.u dnt worry.every pregnancy z different n its not necessary that it will happen again to u or me.stay positive.n consult ur dr n take some medicines.m taking loprin and progesterone as well.hope this pregnancy will b sucessful n full term for u n me.

Hey, I had my 1st mc at 7 weeks November 14, 2nd was a mmc found out at 12 week scan but baby had stopped growing at 9+4 in April 15 and finally had another mc in September at 6 weeks. I'm now 9+2 and had one early scan at 6+4 where we saw the heartbeat. We're having a further scan to check things out on Friday when I will be 10 weeks. I don't think I've ever felt so nervous in my life. I've taken it upon myself to take baby aspirin so I'm hoping this would have mad a difference but only time will tell. I know how worried you must be feeling but do try and relax as much as possible as happy mum makes a happy baby xx

Hi and congrats !!
I can't totally understand were you are coming from I have had 2 previous miscarriage and live births so after the second I luckily enough fell pregnant again. This time every lol trip every day every min or the day I was waiting for the nightmare to begin as it thought I would never be able to carry a child. I am now 26 weeks pregnant and that worry never leaves also does subside a little. I also have no one to talk to as everyone says awk you will be fine bla bla bla... No one understand the fear and heart ache it is to go through a miscarriage. There is hope out there: I will support you listen to you whenever you need someone to talk to as I know how daunting it can be at times. Just give me a private message if you like.

I also had a miscarriage last year and another one in March. Both times I found out from an ultrasound that the baby's heart had stopped. Now I am 15 weeks pregnant and I am just now starting to feel more positive about this pregnancy (but still scared). I passed a large blood clot @ 7 wks and thought all was over but so far so good with the baby. I just found out it's a little girl last week! Hope everything goes great for you and let me know if you find any tips for dealing with the anxiety this time around.

I had a mc at 22 weeks in March and now I'm 6 weeks pregnant again, I'm so scared and know this is just going to be a horrible pregnancy, every little thing is worrying me and the minute but I don't want to seem like a paranoid nutter lol but I just don't know what's normal or not anymore. I had been having morning sickness up till this morning and not its stopped and in so worried 😞 x

Hey :) im sorry for your losses hun, just try take every day as it comes and when you go to bed thats one more day passed!!! I lost my angel at 19 weeks into the pregnancy and I'm currently 21 weeks now, i still worry as until the babys here it wont feel real and I'll probably worry whilst I'm in labour! Every pregnancy is different just keep yourself busy, every time you have a scan you'll be nervous as hell or even a chance to listen to the heart beat but once you get past the 1st trimester you can relax a little more with every passing day x

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