Found phrase - revirginization & secondary virginity

: REVIRGINIZATION - ".couples who have already engaged in hanky-panky abstain from sex for a period of weeks or even months before their marriage.people who opt for periods of secondary virginity - something more and more couples are doing, anecdotal evidence suggest - find that they 'restore self-worth and regain feelings of control, and that's empowering,'." People magazine, Sept. 9, 2002.

: I have just got to stop reading People.

Great word, and a hilarious concept. Must find a way of bringing that into a conversation.