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Good Lord where to start?......I'm currently living with my youngest son, which is fine, but he needs his space too. I'm looking for info on Free Gov. Grants about Housing, so that my son can get back to being a single bach. again. It's hard enough trying to date, but with mom at home, ...well it's impossible. My health will not allow me to work, so I'm in need of assistance of any kind.