BC wife 38 weeks along Husband works in Camp

We are 38 weeks prego with our second child. My hubby started to work in camp in Fort McKay AB, 2 weeks in 1 week out and I'm needing advice on how any other moms cope with a toddler and new born while being by yourself. I'm a little anxious about the whole thing so any advice helps thanks :)

We are 38 weeks prego with our second child. My hubby started to work in camp in Fort McKay AB, 2 weeks in 1 week out and I'm needing advice on how any other moms cope with a toddler and new born while being by yourself. I'm a little anxious about the whole thing so any advice helps thanks :)

My husband also works in AB but on the railway instead of the rigs. He's supposed to work 3 in 1 out but it's more like 8-9 in 1 out. I find just keeping myself as busy as possible helps to keep me distracted and fall asleep easier at night instead of lying there thinking for a long time. I have to admit though that it's not easy, I'm lucky to be in the town to grew up in with my family. Where abouts in BC are you living?

My husband also works in AB but on the railway instead of the rigs. He's supposed to work 3 in 1 out but it's more like 8-9 in 1 out. I find just keeping myself as busy as possible helps to keep me distracted and fall asleep easier at night instead of lying there thinking for a long time. I have to admit though that it's not easy, I'm lucky to be in the town to grew up in with my family. Where abouts in BC are you living?

I am in kamloops with three little ones and one on the way. My hubby is gone 5-6 days and home one. I have mo family or friends around so it makes it difficult. Toddlers are hard when you are alone. I keep very busy with kids bur I also keep busy with gardening and a few inside hobbies. With three at home I don't get out much but if you can take advantage of any programs for little ones you can like story time at your local library. It entertains them and gives you a chance to have adult interaction. My biggest problem is loneliness and having no one around to talk to. Take advantage of the friendships around you even if it's you 70 yr old neighbor across the street. It helps make the day better to talk to someone who isn't a child.

I am in kamloops with three little ones and one on the way. My hubby is gone 5-6 days and home one. I have mo family or friends around so it makes it difficult. Toddlers are hard when you are alone. I keep very busy with kids bur I also keep busy with gardening and a few inside hobbies. With three at home I don't get out much but if you can take advantage of any programs for little ones you can like story time at your local library. It entertains them and gives you a chance to have adult interaction. My biggest problem is loneliness and having no one around to talk to. Take advantage of the friendships around you even if it's you 70 yr old neighbor across the street. It helps make the day better to talk to someone who isn't a child.

Maybe you can build a schedule for your week with an out-of-the house activity each day. Maybe you can find a gym with child-minding and do a new moms class, and find other activities where you can meet people:)

Maybe you can build a schedule for your week with an out-of-the house activity each day. Maybe you can find a gym with child-minding and do a new moms class, and find other activities where you can meet people:)

When I had my daughter my bf was working 15 days, home for 6. It was very hard on me emotionally, mind you I only had the one. Eventually I joined a mommy and me fitness class and then when my lo was old enough I took her to parent link. It helped me get out of the house and not be so adult deprived! Thankfully, this time around he will be home every night as he has a new position! Hope everything works out for you! :)

When I had my daughter my bf was working 15 days, home for 6. It was very hard on me emotionally, mind you I only had the one. Eventually I joined a mommy and me fitness class and then when my lo was old enough I took her to parent link. It helped me get out of the house and not be so adult deprived! Thankfully, this time around he will be home every night as he has a new position! Hope everything works out for you! :)

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