Jennifer Lopez: I Don't Want A-Rod to Be My Fourth Ex-Husband!

It sounds like Jennifer Lopez is taking past lessons to heart as, according to a new report, she's getting cold feet about the prospect of marrying A-Rod. Even though the two of them seem to be in love to a nauseating degree.

We don't know that we'd say that she doesn't work well under pressure -- she's a performer.

But many people balk when they feel that they're being rushed to make major decisions.

You want to make sure that you're doing it right.

(The best time to start planning a simple vacation is a year in advance, after all)

J Lo, it seems, isn't quite ready to take her fourth plunge.

"Jennifer keeps telling Alex that she's 'just not there yet."

(Life & Style humorously asks "how many ex husbands are too many?" Our first thought was a veiled widow at the funeral of her seventh rich husband, checking her bank account on her phone and asking herself that very same question)

Jennifer Lopez has been married three times, and two of those marriages were almost astoundingly brief.

Let's take you through them:

-Fellow actor Ojani Noa from 1997 to 1998

-Backup dancer Cris Judd from 2001 to 2003

-Singer, songwriter, and producer Marc Anthony from 2004 to 2014

It was of course with Marc Anthony that J Lo had her twins, Emme Maribel Muñiz and Maximillian David Muñiz, born February 22nd, 2008.

Ojani Noa has said that he was looking forward to spending the rest of his life with J Lo.

He blames her for choosing her career over him.

(Honestly, considering her career ... it's really hard to fault her for that. You'd have to be some dumbass Disney character to choose love over that, right? ... No offense to Disney characters)

It's understandable that, just three years after ending her marriage to Marc Anthony, J Lo would be cautious about getting hitched again.