More than once...people do things for us constantly. Sometimes I get caught up in thinking of all I do for others and I neglect those closest to me. And not just thanking them for doing things...but for being patient with me, and caring about me, and being an example in my life. Thanking people who do hard work in my neighborhood...cashiers, maintenance workers, the people who make my life easier because they do their jobs well. The Northeast Food Truck Expo-type gathering of deliciousness today in Massachusetts...I will find many opportunities to thank people today!

DC is relaxing! It's my one few moments every day that is just for me. Not the only time...I am finding it easier to let go of demands on my time. After my husband died, so many people just fled from my life that I realized how few were actually important. Since then it has been over a year since I spoke to any of the 'friends I thought I would have in my life forever'. It made me realize that I was doing all the work...and when I stopped being the 'fun' one...the one who was always taking care of everyone...very few people wanted to stay in my life. Quality over quantity! Now I do have much more time for things that truly matter...and I am a priority in my life again.

So glad you are at peace with yourself, your decisions, and that you know you are the priority. That is priceless. I am also very sorry for your loss. The people you mention have lost out too, not having you in their lives. I agree with Ginger and feel blessed to be connected
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I don't spend long hours in the direct sun during the hottest part of the day. Otherwise, I just wear sunglasses and occasionally a floppy hat. I have a pretty good relationship with sunshine though...I don't fear it or hide from it. That whole moderation thing works for me here.

I have quotes everywhere! I frame some, put some on the fridge, tape them to the bathroom mirror...I am surrounded by words and music. Gonna be 100 degrees here today...and they are re-paving the parking area behind my apartments. AND I start two solid weeks of night shifts...filling in for two vacationing people. 14 nights straight of night shifts...should be interesting!

DC just likes saying 'brassica'...I like brussel sprouts. I can still remember the first time I saw them in the store on the stalk they grow on...I never ever knew they grew like that. That hasn't been that long ago either. I just never thought about them...how they grew. Kale is just another weed with a good PR manager.

I spent extra time teaching this to the young Med Assistant students because I know how important acting quickly can be when someone is having a stroke. Like CPR/AED training...the ability to recognize symptoms nd the willingness to DO something immediately saves lives.

Stamps are a fun way to celebrate your Daily Challenge achievements.

Level 325: Flourishing

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