I don't know if it's the thought of going home to selfish arrogant boyfriend that's doing it but I really feel like just going down the pub and drinking about 5 pints (although in reality I could probably only stomach one) and smoking 20 cigarettes (reckon I'd be sick after the third one!).

Maybe I'll just get some chocolate instead though.

I hate arguing with my boyfriend, especially when it's all his fault and he can't admit to it! He doesn't even understand why I'm upset!

:eek: Oh noooooo ! chin up babes its never as bad as it seems, Men are from Mars they are wired up all wrong. A fiendish alien must have concocted their gray matter. Just remember that they cant help it poor creatures, I gos a long way when they start acting manish. stay strong mate xxx

Are they all like this really? I can't remember a time in the five and a bit years that I've known him that he has EVER admitted he was wrong. Arguments only get resolved when I agree to forget about them because I find them too mentally exhausting to carry on with. I always back down basically. Sorry if I'm moaning but if he could HEAR himself sometimes...

I know . i give him the silent tretment. I know he hates that big time. If it gos on too long i usualy get so angry i start smashing things and have been known to attack him if the frustration is too much, im not proud of that, but hes the only mam on this earth that can push all the buttons to send me into orbit like that. as i said theres no compromise in those little boys, and you cant send them to their room. they are simply wired up all wrong. dont let him grind you down girl. we are here xxx

Are they all like this really? I can't remember a time in the five and a bit years that I've known him that he has EVER admitted he was wrong. Arguments only get resolved when I agree to forget about them because I find them too mentally exhausting to carry on with. I always back down basically. Sorry if I'm moaning but if he could HEAR himself sometimes...

Oh yes. Mine has refused point blank to go outside for a cig when he comes home at the weekend and doesn't think I'll give up but I'm going to show him I can with or without his help. They can be sooo pig-headed when they want. I have noticed that it is worse when there's a full moon and no I am not mad!! Just look when there is a full moon and see what happens!! Don't give up hope, I'm not and this forum is really helping me.

Smoking definately won't help you'll just wake up feeling worse tomorrow and probably blame bf for your lapse - men just don't think like us at all definately from another planet wonder how we survive living together at all sometimes - (hope my husband isn't reading this he'll give me grief) but they do have their good points lots of good points.

I know . i give him the silent tretment. I know he hates that big time. If it gos on too long i usualy get so angry i start smashing things and have been known to attack him if the frustration is too much, im not proud of that, but hes the only mam on this earth that can push all the buttons to send me into orbit like that. as i said theres no compromise in those little boys, and you cant send them to their room. they are simply wired up all wrong. dont let him grind you down girl. we are here xxx

Dossydo, I can totally relate to that. I've never thrown anything directly at him but definitely thrown things around the place. I remember one time I kicked the kitchen cupboard and had to spend ages afterwards cleaning off the rubber mark that my shoe had left there. Like you I'm not proud but my god he knows how to turn me into a mad woman! He's just so damn arrogant!!!

Oh yes. Mine has refused point blank to go outside for a cig when he comes home at the weekend and doesn't think I'll give up but I'm going to show him I can with or without his help. They can be sooo pig-headed when they want. I have noticed that it is worse when there's a full moon and no I am not mad!! Just look when there is a full moon and see what happens!! Don't give up hope, I'm not and this forum is really helping me.

My boyfriend doesn't think I'm going to give up either. It was partially his fault that I caved at the weekend, telling me to go and have a cigarette cause he couldn't stand me fidgeting and didn't want to put up with me. Talk about a lack of support!

Dossydo, I can totally relate to that. I've never thrown anything directly at him but definitely thrown things around the place. I remember one time I kicked the kitchen cupboard and had to spend ages afterwards cleaning off the rubber mark that my shoe had left there. Like you I'm not proud but my god he knows how to turn me into a mad woman! He's just so damn arrogant!!!

Yea then they have the aoudasity to call us loony eh ? when its clear they are the Martians.......... one was spotted on Mars the other day look... lol....