The freely available R package glmmADMB can do Adaptive
Gaussian Quadrature for this type of model,
since it is built using AD Model Builder's random effects
module which incorporates this feature.
There is now a beta version of the software for
people using R on the Mac intel platform.
http://otter-rsch.com/admbre/examples/glmmadmb/glmmADMB.html
Cheers,
Dave
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Phone/FAX 250-655-3364
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