What to Avoid When Picking a Person To Love: Part 1

We can all avoid so much if we pick the right person from the beginning of our relationship. During the dating stage we can pick the right person instead of picking stinkers. We never see the early signs of a liar, cheater, or spender. Well, I have your back. I’ll teach you! It’s not that hard but if you choose right from the beginning there will be less problems later.

Some people just can’t believe they didn’t know their partner was unfaithful but quite frankly you knew it all along and just brushed off the signs and decided to deal with it just because he or she is hot.

Awkward Phone Use

If from the beginning they don’t have any social media or are particular about their phone that’s a sign something is off about them. I mean who doesn’t have Facebook?They may not take pictures with you or have a bunch of pictures online with the opposite sex. They also have a lot of friends of the opposite sex.

The biggest and strangest sign is not letting you use their phone. One of the best tricks you can use is “leaving your phone” at home or somewhere and telling the person you’re dating you need to call your mom. See how they react. I know it’s a lie but it’s a dog eat dog world. Later you can tell the truth. You have no time to waste.

Whereabouts

Okay, this is another sign but they can pull it off sneakily without you realizing what they’re doing. They’ll ask you where you’re going and when you’re going to be there. It could be today, tomorrow or the next day. They always need to know where you are going to be. They got to make sure they don’t get caught by you with the other person.

Don’t dare ask them where they’re going to go. They might say, “Why do you need to know?” Or, “You’re not my mom.” They’ll say something to make you think you’re the crazy one. Well you’re not.

Please, don’t let these signs pass. You’ll go through a bunch of hell and a spiral of pain. God forbid you have a child with this type of person. That’s pain for you and your child so watch out!

Yessenia Diaz has a background in graphic and web design but is also intrigued by writing and teaching. Yessenia created Tru.Works as an outlet for all her talents and continues collecting stories from around the world to share with people all across the interweb. Follow Yessenia on Instagram and her favorite, Twitter, @ythegreatdiaz.