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Want to be successful? Start the journey and pick up these 16 reminders along the road…

1. Stop being angry at every little thing.
2. Stop pointing fingers at everything that is not the way you think it should be
3. Stop talking about people and situations that you have no control over
4. Stop blaming others for your failures
5. Stop making excuses for every little thing
6. Stop talking about your demise because of all the people you tell most of them don’t care
7. Stop being the “know-it-all” –Be open to learning new things
8. Don’t say you want something and then when someone offers you suggestions you brush it off
9. Look in the mirror and fix yourself.
10. Immerse yourself in personal development daily
11. Pray
12. Read. Educate yourself.
13. Allow people to help you, follow instructions, and learn to take constructive criticism
14. If you are offered the examples of others, consider them.
15. Be open and willing to start small. Don’t despise small beginnings.
16. Be a go-getter and stop waiting for people to do things for you

These are found along the road to success

–Ruth aka Lady Ruth

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Good Morning! Today Hug your friends! Let them know you care and are there. Keep in touch with them. Good friends are a treasure. You will know true friends because they will be on you when things aren’t right, help push you toward greatness, and praise you when you get it together, they’ll help hold you up when you’re struggling with your stand.
They’ll have their shoulder there when you need it. They will let you know what’s up to your face not talk about you behind your back. They are not jealous of your other friendships in fact true friends will welcome your new friends and let you know how they feel about them. Thank God always for good friends! Happy Friday!

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Lady Ruth

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Are you surrounded by people who seem to always have a “word” or “quote” for everything and everyone but their outward life is contrary to there own language? Are you surrounded by people who seem to not want to see you grow?

If there is someone in your life that is always promoting growth and at the same time exhibiting insecurities and creating issues that never existed because people are not conforming to their lower standards then that person needs to use the mirror a bit more and start a fertilizing application.

Growth involves maturity. Maturity in more than just one area of life. Sometimes when you are a person who is clearly going places, and moving forward, there will be those in your circle who will not be able to handle it. You will know because no matter what you do, they will find something negative about it, in it, or around it, but will use quotes or sayings to make it seem like you moving forward is not a good thing.

I had to cut some friendship ties for some of the very reasons. I had a couple of “friends” who I really thought were true until I started talking about bettering myself, and having my own business. They thought of everything that could go wrong with my business instead of being happy for me and supporting me. One of them was always talking about how it’s best to get a job and retire from it, and how I wouldn’t have money like a job would pay and that I wouldn’t be successful for whatever reason. The other “friend” would always say things like “a man who don’t work don’t eat”… just crazy stuff! What did she think a business was? I quickly stop dealing with the both of them; afterwards I felt much better. I have my own business and it’s doing pretty well.

If you continue to stay in a circle where there is no support, constant bickering, others wanting you to stay on their level, you will find yourself becoming like them. There is a saying that if you hanging around with 9 broke people you will most likely become number 10.

If you choose to put your self in such a situation and stay there, you will start to feed off of that negative energy, and if you’re not careful you will become like them.

Remember, it’s lonely at the top, but go there any way and the right circle will be there for you.

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You’ve gotta start some where. It doesn’t matter how many times you have to start over. You can do all things through Christ. When those who say they will help you or be there for you don’t show up, so what keep it moving because God will send the ones who will be there for you and sometimes they are total strangers who stop by for a moment.

Ruth

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Sometimes life will throw rocks, bricks, chairs, and sometimes big engines at you but you’ve got to pick yourself up and keep it moving. At times they can come so fast that you don’t have time to dodge them.
Take those rocks make jewelry and sell ’em. Take those bricks and build a foundation then start building your castle, tAke those chairs and sit on them, take those engines and build a vehicle. Everyone will not understand so don’t try to explain.