The problem may lie with us and not our partner.

One of the biggest reasons why so many people run to the courts to get a divorce is because they think that everything will be perfect after they get rid of that man or woman, only to find out that the next man or woman that they end up marrying has the same issues.

The problem may lie with us and not our partner.

So what does it mean, until death do us part? Well for one thing, it does not mean that we should go out there and waste our spouse just to get out of the marriage, what it does mean is that we are expected to remain faithful (without exception) to one person until either one or both of you pass away. “You shouldn't have any trouble understanding this, friends, for you know all the ins and outs of the law, how it works and how its power touches only the living. For instance, a wife is legally tied to her husband while he lives, but if he dies, she's free. If she lives with another man while her husband is living, she's obviously an adulteress. But if he dies, she is quite free to marry another man in good conscience, with no one's disapproval.” (Romans)

One of the biggest reasons why so many people run to the courts to get a divorce is because they think that everything will be perfect after they get rid of that man or woman, only to find out that the next man or woman that they end up marrying has the same issues. Do you think the problem may lie with us and not our partner? “And if you are married, stay married. This is the Master's command, not mine. If a wife should leave her husband, she must either remain single or else come back and make things right with him. And a husband has no right to get rid of his wife. For the rest of you who are in mixed marriages, Christian married to non-Christian, we have no explicit command from the Master. So this is what you must do. If you are a man with a wife who is not a believer but who still wants to live with you, hold on to her. If you are a woman with a husband who is not a believer but he wants to live with you, hold on to him. The unbelieving husband shares to an extent in the holiness of his wife, and the unbelieving wife is likewise touched by the holiness of her husband. Otherwise, your children would be left out; as it is, they also are included in the spiritual purposes of God. On the other hand, if the unbelieving spouse walks out, you've got to let him or her go. You don't have to hold on desperately. God has called us to make the best of it, as peacefully as we can. You never know, wife: The way you handle this might bring your husband not only back to you but to God. You never know, husband: The way you handle this might bring your wife not only back to you but to God.” (1 Corinthians)