Women take note - these tips will help you turn your man into the ultimate sex toy

Have men’s worst fears come true? That women prefer vibrators? According to a new survey 53% of women get more pleasure from their ‘toy box’ than from their partner.

But the news isn’t all bad for the blokes as 49% of sex toy use is to spice things up with a partner. I’m guessing the girls like a bit of ‘double bubble’ - him and their favourite vibrator.

Plus I think there’s a really positive spin to come out of this. Instead of taking a vibrator for a spin, why not help him learn a few new tricks. Ones that help him create sizzle as well as – or better - than a sex toy.

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These tips will help you ditch the sex toys and teach your man to up his game

Six sexy tricks to turn him into your ‘toy’:

Magic in the movement

There are lots of vibrators with variable thrusting actions. This means a woman can choose a more powerful or gentler thrusting experience.

But he can be shown how to control his thrusting so his moves become magical. Rather than bark commands at him, sensually whisper in his ear when you want him to go harder.

And then use your hands to push his hips away gently, when you want a gentler sensation.

Get in a spin

With many sex toys offering a spinning action on the end of the toys’ shafts, get him to mimic this red-hot sensation.

This works best in good Doggy Style. Gripping her hips from behind, he uses a circular action while gently thrusting with his hips. This stirs up fantastic sensations and will take her to oh-oh-heaven faster than you can say shaken and stirred.

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Pulsating pleasure

Many women are turned on by the pulsating function on the more sophisticated vibrators. This is so simple for him to recreate!

All she needs to do is suggest that as he gently moves – or when pausing between thrusts – that he pulsates the shaft of his penis. Easily done if he squeezes the base of it, as if he was doing a pelvic muscle workout.

Luscious lubrication

One thing that makes sex toys so pleasurable is the fact she can swirl them through loads of luscious lubricant. She might feel a little shy of using lashings of it when with her man, though.

He can take charge, kneel above her during foreplay, and drizzle some over her pleasure-zones. Then he can swirl his fingertips back and forth, around and around.

And whether you two use condoms – or know each other’s sexual history and don’t – make sure he smothers himself with lubricant pre-entry!

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Wickedly waterproof

Oh how those waterproof sex toys have become ever so popular. That’s because they give amazing sensations which are heightened when a woman’s surrounded by warm water.

So encourage him to give some water-based wickedness. Run a steamy bath or shower and be playful with each other. Stroke each other as you allow warm water to cascade down your bodies.

Get playful

The versatility of sex toys allow her to rev them up, slow them down, alternate between these, and use a stronger or gentler pressure. This playfulness adds to the teasing sensations she can give herself.

It’s time he got playful. He can wake up her desire by mixing up his techniques. Encourage him to tease and please. Turn it into a game where she’s allowed to give him sexy little commands.

First asking him for a frisky bit of stimulation, then asking him to turn it down a notch.

There you go, time to toy with each other, and you don’t even need a sex toy!