Number 17 on this list is a lesson everyone can learn, don't stay mad at people. They will not get any pain from your pent up aggression, the only person who will feel that pain, is yourself, so take my/Matthew's advice, forgive them not because they have earned it, but because you deserve it.. - For I am proud survivor of a car crash who has moved on from hating the drunk driver that crippled me. ﻿