Discussions By Condition: Female sexual conditions

low sex drive that worsens after each birth?

I am currently 34 yo. I gave birth in '98, '00, and '03. After each pg my sex drive would dip and not go back up. I attributed it to stress. I was unable to nurse for medical reasons, so that's not it. Lately over the past 2 years I have decreased my stress, thinking that was the source, but that hasn't helped. My dh and I have a wonderful relationship, but this is just pure ***l for him. I only want to have sex approx 1 time a month. I heard that I should be around my prime, but unfortunately that is not the case. I am not taking birth control of any kind and my dh had a vas. after the last pg, so pregnancy worries are not the issue either. I just don't ever desire sex. Ever. Any ideas?