Dealing with Bullies 5/5(1)

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Getting bullied can be one of the most challenging and upsetting parts of going to school but you're not alone - everyone goes through it at some point! Youtuber Swoozie describes his personal experience with bullying and gives us a little perspective on the situation.

Were you ever bullied? Tell us how your handled your bullies in the comment section below!

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It is really a bad thing that i don’t know what say about. I lived unfortunately into those periods, the better thing is ignore and try to continue own Life without give too importance to them, but i know is difficult and become really difficult that you are and it is the worst thing when a person have fear of be himself or others things cause of “persons” that would limit other freedom and happines, i tried, i was even joking cause i never had great reactions and remember jokes about the fact that despite all i still or returned sudden to Smile, that think now to this it was my “win” that of despite all still Smile, try to be Happy or maybe “hide” in that Smile but i arrived untill a “difficult” year that i had a lot of thoughts and even i lost a year at school and my Smile really wrongly arrived until to be enough “switched off” and this is the worst thing, must think of always Smile, keep always this because that is the Best answer, the Best revenge, it show that they are not able of make become as they are sad Persons, that all us have a choice and You despite them continue choice of be Happy and have Feelings and probably that cause them envies. I could say “thanks” to that thing because this maybe increase the positivity and lost a year at school was the Best thing happened to me because i knew great persons that i had great relationships with and really good time, this proof that in the Life you must believe in positive, that everything if we believe there is the good, as the keys of a piano the keys white are those better while those dark less but need of both for make good music. I know is difficult, but the most important thing is learn to live positive, that the things go well if we believed it, that happines is a our choice. They must thought that they could receive those bad behaviors, only because they are different, and those be different could be some of better, probably/surely not in my case:), they must learn to embrance their be different, that those things made them unique, be always themselves so a day can say of be the unique, believe in themselves because if you don’t make no one will do for you, have confidence with themselves and this in not absolutely opposite of Humility, rather it must coincide because confidence mean also still humble, these things often i don’t know why are understimates but are some of most important principles and You are the living proof and despite all still always positive and always that Magic Smile that light days ;), i learnt it a few above all in these years, and i want improve it and thank you of give and transmit always positivity to days, and be also such Model for that and inspirational also as Life, it is unique Your way of be congratulations You have really a strong Personality, i imagine is not easy read somethings and others things that could happen but really correctly as must be, Your philosophy is focusing only on the positive and ignore the other, because we must focus on the Well and Love as fight to the evil, hate, the violence and think that is worse for them if they live so and therefore as they live are not able of appreciate the good and the Beauty around. sorry of have annoyed You, endless thanks for all that You are and Good day to You Legendary Denise;)

I love what you just said Mattia! I think you handled your bullies well.

It’s always so frustrating for bullies when you take their insults as a joke or let it just roll off your shoulders. The people that say negative things are usually acting out because they don’t feel good about themselves and they need to bring others down to make themselves feel bigger, or they’re just looking for attention and that’s the only way they know how to get it.

My advice for people dealing with bullies? Ignore them. I know it can be so challenging but in the long run, it’ll be worth it. They’ll end up leaving you alone once they see that you don’t respond to their hurtful words or they find someone else who will. Good luck everyone, stay strong!

“Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don’t matter, and those who matter don’t mind.”

Wow, great words and really perfect advices, you describe all the perfection and really there in nothing else of add, the only thing i want do is join to Your envouragement for them and said congratulations for all that You written that is fantastic and come really from Heart. And Thanks so much for that You said me, it is a huge Honor, the most one, and Proud, said by such Lady, that like confirm again also in these words is so intelligent and above all with really a huge Heart and a unique Soul. It is really a immense Proud and Honor be Your Fan Denise:-), bye