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Tuesday, April 16, 2013

BDSM Wicked Wednesday

BDSM

We tend to play around and Skirt around BDSM in our bedroom. We play a little with blind folds and floggers.

I love the sensations from the floggers and a little impact play. The hubby really doesn't like to use the restraints too much, but he does. I have lots of toys and he has no issues with those. The floggers and paddles were a big compromise and, we have both found out that we like them.

We keep it fun though and we are open minded. There have been a few times that he told me "hell no" so I put the toy away and try to bring it out at a later date. It tends to be an evolutionary process for us.

The key definitely exploring together and also having fun with it. There is no write or wrong way of doing BDSM, as long as it is consensual and risk aware, the key is making it work for you as a couple.

In terms of BDSM play in respect to fun & discovering, there are no rules. I'm sure you already know about safety. There will always be things that one or both of you decide you do not like & similarly things, one or either of you absolutely love.