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I'm sure WAL would agree.

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FaithFool♀ 20150Member # 20150

Posted: 1:38 PM, July 21st (Sunday), 2013

Anyone who hasn't read Brave New World... should.

It's all coming true. The conditioning and grooming of young minds from all the media input is downright scary.

Glad I'm old.

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Unagie♀ 37091Member # 37091

Posted: 1:48 PM, July 21st (Sunday), 2013

Its been popular for awhile now. A few have said they want it because it looks sloppy...I have no idea how it can look sloppy..

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LadyQ♀ 32847Member # 32847

Posted: 1:49 PM, July 21st (Sunday), 2013

It's not like it was all that attractive to start with, right??

Tune out the noise of what others tell you about who you are and work it out for yourself...

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tushnurse♀ 21101Member # 21101

Posted: 4:59 PM, July 21st (Sunday), 2013

Pretty messed up to think that having perfectly formed Georgia Okeefesque labia are going to make your life complete.
I've seen more than my fair share or hoohas and boy parts in my profession an I can say that for certain we are all unique. Why oh why oh why would one want to change that?

Ouch !
I think I'll keep what I have. I too have seen more than my share of men and women. Why would you want to be like a little girl when you are a woman. It certainly isn't going to enhance sex, that would be the only reason to consider the surgery.

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hurtbs♀ 10866Member # 10866

Posted: 6:47 PM, July 21st (Sunday), 2013

It really is a sad commentary on woman's body issues in our society - we expect (and are often expected) to be picture perfect in every since, to the impossible. This is just carrying it further.

I know this surgery has been popular for a while and it is saddening.

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sharim♀ 11937Member # 11937

Posted: 10:35 PM, July 21st (Sunday), 2013

I think this is crazy unless you really have an issue and I guess some women do - like elephant ears hanging out. I would think that would be quite annoying (just the thought of it makes me cringe).

The reason I know about this is cuz the woman who does my facials was talking about it because one of her clients wanted to get it done. I didn't understand what the problem was so I googled it - and yep there are definitely some women who could benefit from this surgery. It took one very quick look and I was like omg -- I will never look again so if you do look -- I've warned you.

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Hearthache again♀ 28564Member # 28564

Posted: 10:49 PM, July 21st (Sunday), 2013

I don't understand this either. I would be afraid it would cause nerve damage. Is physical appearance better than sexual enjoyment. I think not. Only one other person is suppose to like how it looks and if they don't something is wrong with them.

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stupidstupidme♀ 11888Member # 11888

Posted: 8:43 AM, July 22nd (Monday), 2013

OMG, I don't even know what to say to this... except that while reading this thread, all I pictured was mine (or my perception of it) and if I should run home after work and take a look...

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Seriously the first time I saw it I was watching a documentary on the porn industry (its a lot more educational and interesting then it sounds) and one of the people mentioned wanting to get it done. She was my age and all I could do was look down (like I could see it through my pants) and think ouch why would you do that!!

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painpaingoaway♀ 27196Member # 27196

Posted: 10:02 AM, July 22nd (Monday), 2013

First-world problems

exactly! Our society is so fucked up.

And yes, it is all due to P.O.R.N.!

Sadly, our younger generations have grown up on porn. And even those of us parents that have done our best to keep our kids away from it, have failed, because if they didn't see it at their own home, they would see it somewhere else. It's everywhere, and if one owns a computer or smart phone, they have access.

It burns my ass that these kids, young men and women, due to repeated exposure, have been brainwashed into believing that what they see on porn is what is expected of them when having sex. Gang-bangs, facials, swallowing, double penetration, anal, rimming, BDSM, and every imaginable act that was once considered PERVERSION is now 'accepted' because it is depicted in porn.

Our young women believe that they need to be a porn star to keep a man, and I guess these foolish young men think that this is what women want.

I've tried to explain to my DS23 that this is NOT what normal women want, that these silly young women are just doing this stupid shit because they have been brainwashed into thinking that this is the norm because they have seen it in porn.

Parents are failing by not talking to their kids and explaining the dangers of destroying their bodies by participating in these acts.

Hey people NEWS FLASH how much daily anal sex do they think it's going to take before they are are going to be wearing diapers? Not a nice thought is it? Young women, please, PROTECT YOUR BODIES!!!! Young men, RESPECT YOUR PARTNERS BODY!!!!

As far as labiaplasty goes, well, I'm sure there are some situations where the lady bits need to be corrected, but I imagine those situations are few and far between. The labia obsessed women are probably getting their ho ha's waxed continually, and ruining the skin down there.

But, I'd be damned if I would spend hard earned money on my ho ha. If I'm gonna spend money on plastic surgery, I'd get the girls lifted or get a face lift. Only one person sees my ho ha, and he likes it just fine the way it is.

I am somewhat involved in the plastic and cosmetic surgery arena and FYI, there is a surgery for saggy balls. Varicocele surgery is becoming more and more popular. I don't judge and don't read more into it other than some men just don't like saggy balls...especially if the toilet water is cold.