This dinner will get you laid – grilling in style – salmon skewers with fresh pesto, and a roasted tomato couscous salad

You only need to remember that British Mother’s Day is about a month earlier than American Mother’s Day the day before British Mother’s Day once, and you pretty much have the date seared into your conscience after that.

Father’s Day, is thankfully synced up, and much easier to remember. I had this under control. A few clicks on Amazon and I was sorted.

And I was feeling pretty pleased with myself until my sister called to tell me that her boyfriend Matt had arranged to take my dad to watch cricket at the Oval. That kinda beats a book.

When he heard this, Jon sighed. “Thank God I can fix the family computers.”

So I was thinking about my Dad, grilling aficionado, when I started planning this weekend’s BBQ on the balcony, our first one of the year when the weather finally cooperates by being neither way way to hot to be without air conditioning and close to fire, and also not thundering with rain.

Honestly, I was looking for the excuse to put my souvenir-from-the-souks-of-Istanbul-skewers to work. I just love them. Mostly I keep them in a vase in the kitchen and admire them.

My sister and I bought them from a stall at the beginning of the day – a big mistake it turned out, since they poked through the plastic bags and stabbed us as we walked. My Dad, bored with shopping, took the bags – many bags – from us and packed them into his little backpac, with the ends sticking up out of the top of the drawstring. He would go for a walk and meet us back at the hotel, he said, setting off happily in search of an historic mosque and a cup of coffee. We watched him go, little brass animals glinting above his head like a tiara.

Pesto Salmon Skewers with Lemon and Zucchini

For the first time this year, the balcony has yielded a crop that we can actually use; basil is growing like a weed out in the hot Manhattan sun, and basil means fresh pesto.

You make pesto by putting two large handfuls of basil into a processor, adding 2 crushed cloves of garlic, 1 handful of Parmesan, ¾ handful toasted pine nuts and some salt and pepper, then pouring light olive oil down the blender tube until you have a vivid green sauce. There’s a proper recipe here.

Couscous Salad with Roasted Tomatoes, Pesto and Olives

While the kettle is boiling pour the cous cous into a bowl. I cook mine by pouring over the same amount of boiling water, covering with plastic wrap and leaving for 10 minutes before forking to fluff up – check your packet to see if this will work for you

Meanwhile, preheat the oven to 450f

Toss the cherry tomatoes with the pesto, about 2 tbsp of olive oil. Season well and roast for 15 minutes

Top the cous cous with the tomatoes and pesto, add the kalamata olives

Toast the pine nuts (they only take a minute, but keep a close eye on them because they burn very quickly). Add to the cous cous and tear over some basil