MAX NASH/AFP/GETTY IMAGESCourtney Love has been slapped with a restraining order barring her from contact with her daughter, Frances Bean.

Courtney Love can't take care of herself, much less 17-year-old daughter Frances Bean, Kurt Cobain's uncle Charles Fradenburg tells TMZ.com. He says that Love's former in-laws have been trying to gain custody of Frances Bean "for quite a few years."

"Courtney wasn't doing any parenting at all, she was hiring nannies to do all of the work," he says. "This is a wonderful thing for the family."

Love lost custody of Frances Bean on Friday, and after Love posted a tirade (since deleted) on her Facebook page on Tuesday calling her daughter "clearly deluded," a judge in the case issued a temporary restraining order barring Love from any contact with her daughter, TMZ.com says. "I don't care really, I hate to sound cold, but any kid of mine who pulls this [crap] has lost her position," Love reportedly wrote, according to MTV.com. "The good news is now that Frances is clearly deluded that she [thinks she] can buy her grandmother a 'small house in L.A.' I'd love to see how that works. They'll incubate her until she's 18 and then have her sign all the indemnifications."

On Wednesday, she took to Facebook again but took the strategy of appeasement. "i am angry at these people not Frances id just prefer she not become Jaimie L Spears," she says, referring to Britney's younger sister, the actress and teen mom. (All this is sic, obviously.) "she should go be a writer or an a...rtist wich i support 100% but this is a circus and it pains me cos i know she hates it."