On a scale of 1 to 5

1 : Definitely Extreme | Yes 2 : Very Important | Yes 3 : Important | Yes But With Exception 4 : Not As Important | Not Necessarily An Essential 5 : Not At All

Body

How important are looks to you

3

Do you only consider a particular type physically

4

Would you date a physical type that you are generally not attracted to

2

Are you opened to relationships outside of your race

5

Do they have to be athletic

3

Are you Athletic

3

How important is sex to you

4

Are you vegetarian

5

Are you sexually adventurous and like to explore

3

Do you believe in sexual monogamy

1

Can you have a relationship with someone who does not have the same diet as you do

3

Do you have to be physically attracted to your significant other

2

Can men and women be platonic friends

2

Are you fetish friendly

3

Do you like to take the lead in the bed room

4

Would you date a cigarette smoker

5

Would you date a social drinker

1

Mind Part 1 : How you think

How important is intellect to you

1

How important is personality

1

Do you read

3

Are you computer literate

1

Are you a good communicator

1

Are you a realist

1

How Romantic Are you

2

Are you materialistic

4

Do you get angry fast

4

Can you adapt to anything

2

Are you a restless person

5

Do you enjoy laughing

2

How important is it for the person to be financially secure and stable

2

Do you prefer to take everything seriously

3

Is music important to you

1

Is dancing important to you

3

Are you a movie person

2

Is politics a consideration for you

4

How important is honesty to you

1

Do you like to engage in outdoor activities

2

Are you a free thinker who thinks outside the box

3

Do you like to be in groups

2

Do you prefer to be a loner

4

Are you needy

5

Are you independent

2

Are you neat

3

Are you organized

3

Are you possessive

5

Are you envious or jealous of others

4

Do you get jealous of your significant other if they show interest to a friend of the opposite sex

3

Do you believe it's okay for your significant other to maintain friendship with members of the opposite sex

2

Are you a worrier

2

Does every detail need to be planned out

4

Are you spontaneous

3

Can you have fun anywhere

4

Are you bossy or controlling

4

Will you allow yourself to be bossed or controlled

4

Do you expect to get back when you give

2

Are you a perfectionist

4

How important is loyalty to you

1

Mind Part 2: What you are looking for in a partner

Do they need to be open minded

3

Must they be liberal in their political ideology

5

Do they need to want a committed relationship

1

Do they need to be marriage minded

2

Will you consider a relationship with someone who has kids already

1

Can they be spoiled

3

Do you believe in 50 50 relationships where both parties put in the same about of effort to make things work

2

Do you expect the other person to give more than you give

5

Is being cheap of frugal an issue

2

Is it okay for your partner to be selfish

3

Is how much they make important to you

3

How important is it to you for the person to be artistic or creative

5

Must they be a reader

5

Must they be technologically literate

2

Do you and your significant other have to to have the same friends and interests

4

Is it okay for you and your partner to have relationships outside of yours as long as your relationship comes first

5

Do you and your partner have to do everything together

5

Do you feel you and your partner have separate interests and still have a strong relationship

3

How important is it to nurture the relationship with your partne

1

How important is marriage to you

2

How important is family to you

1

How important is commitment to you

1

Do you consider a significant other a family member

1

When in a relationship do you like to go out socialize

1

When in a relationship do you believe you have to stay home

5

Can you go for days without seeing your significant other and still feel secure in the relationship

1

Do your feelings get hurt easily

2

Do you have to see your significant other everyday or Is a phone call all it takes for you to feel secure when you don't see your significant other

1

Do you need space even in a committed relationship

1

Do you believe in cooking and cleaning as a traditional role for women

5

Must they be a good communicator

1

Spirit

How important is one's spirituality to you

1

Must you and your partner embrace the same spirituality

5

Do you and your partner have to have the same religion

4

Can your partner have their own religious beliefs as long as they don't conflict with yours

1

Do you believe in God

1

Does your partner have to believe in either God a Universal Life Force or Creator'

1

Do you believe in a Universal Life Force or Creator

1

Are you open to other types of religions and beliefs

1

Do you believe in the forces of nature

1

How important is right and wrong to you

1

How important is it to you to determine whats right by your own beliefs and morals

1

Essays

About myself

I am a young 55 and I enjoy my work, family and friends. I have been divorced for a long time and have one son who just turned 17. I don't care for drama and don't have any on my end. I am looking for love and a best friend in a mate, hopefully he is out there.