Now THAT comment (pink nipples) really was inappropriate. If he was like most power-mad idiots of his kind, you were probably half-naked at the time. Someone should sue him into civility. (Which would really help with the reno cost...)

As for the obesity comment from the other doctor, I think sometimes people are oversensitive about words that are an accurate clinical description. I know I was shaken when I realized my weight gain had moved into the "obese" category. I was appalled, because until then I was able to pretend I was just overweight. Again, we don't know the exact circumstances of the comment, but the doc may have been trying to shock her into action. (I'm not a member of the PC club.)