I don't. But I did until I realized this; my parents had five children. We were spanked, put in time out, regular run-of -the-mill punishments, but my parents weren't abusize. Just did things really...

I'd love to hear some suggestions, too. With dd1, I had just had dd2 and #1 had gotten to the point to where she would just nurse and nurse and not want to go to sleep (she was just under 2). So one...