•Pepper’s Guide to Nonmonogamy for Men. This essay talks about the frustrations people encounter while trying to date in a nonmonogamous manner, and how to actually get a date. While it is written for men attracted to women, much of the advice applies to women and queer folk.

•Sfbay-Poly Email List. This is the largest polyamory email list in the Bay Area, and most events in the area are posted to it.

•Bay Area Poly Events Calendar. This is an up-to-date calendar of all known public polyamory/nonmonogamy events in the Bay Area. Use the button to add it to your pre-existing Google Calendar account.

•OkCupid. Nonmonogamous people have a lot of luck on this dating website, which is not poly-specific but does have a very good matching system which will highlight local people with matching tastes.

•PolyMatchMaker. This is the premier polyamory-specific dating site, with a fairly active set of forums as well. However, the site only has about 7,000 subscribers at one time and so it can be hard to find matches outside of urban areas.