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How often do you have it? Not nearly often enough. Is it with any special person? Do you have several partners out there?ROTFLMAO! No, I am a serial monogamist.Do you have to schedule it, or do you just go with the flow? Schedule sex? Like an appointment for a teeth cleaning? That's no fun.Let's here it.

I haven't been in a relationship since 2002. :frown1: I chose to have a fuck buddy, last year. Why? Because it had been 4 years since I had been intimate with a man and I didn't want it to be 5 years! He was nicely above average, though not pornstar big; and probably the best lover I have ever had. :smile:

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How often do you have it? Is it with any special person? Do you have several partners out there? Do you have to schedule it, or do you just go with the flow? Let's here it.

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I don't have it nearly often enough!

One of them is "special" - someone I've been involved with in a (open) relationship for 14 years. However, 6 of those years were sexless, unfortunately. And yes, I do have several partners. :redface: I have started dabbling in the swinger lifestyle mainly because I went for 6 years without sex previously, and also because my life is too chaotic right now for a serious relationship, what with my career problems and all that. Plus I feel I can be more myself around them! I'm still shy, but not quite as much, maybe?

I would prefer to just go with the flow, but due to my specific problems, it kind of has to be scheduled. I have to call and make contact with the guy, or it has to be at a scheduled lifestyle party or something.

And no, I'm not ruling out the possibility of a serious relationship. Although I have been in an open relationship for a long time, we both know that we are not meant to marry each other. It's just that right now I have to concentrate on getting and keeping a steady job once again.

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You can depend on us because we're getting no sex so we have all the time we'd spend having sex to mouth off on the net

I was always fairly picky but the guys I've been meeting recently just don't do it for me. You'd think that the longer I stayed single the less picky I'd get but it's actually working in the reverse, I can meet someone now, we can be getting along fine and suddenly I can go off him for something as silly as he didn't use a beer mat for his drink (of course this tells me he's slovenly and doesn't have any consideration). It's quite possible I'm going insane

It's impossible to schedule-- we fit it in when he's home (he is at work or in transit 13-14 hours a day), the baby is asleep or not at home, I'm not at work or working, and we're not completely drop-dead exhausted. Oh, there's also all the other random things we have to do and keep up with as well.