Help needed – fancy Desi / Indian flats

My Fiance is the same height as me and I’ll be wearing flats for our wedding events. His parents are from India & we’ll be having at least 3 events w 80-300 ppl. They’ve gotten me a couple of extra outfits and have told me to expect maybe 2-3 more events (perhaps a family only welcome dinner, a morning after brunch, and being invited to a dinner or two afterwards).

I have one pair of gold kate spade flats that I wore for our engagement and our nikkah (religious ceremony), but his family would like for me to find a few more pairs of shoes for the manja (like haldi or mayun), mehndi, wedding & reception, & maybe the others. I’m wearing Indian/Desi outfits & love them & have found some Indian/Desi fancy flats I love more than US/western flats (I’m not sure of correct names, but I’ve seen them described as jutti, khussa, mojari, saleem shahi), but I’m not Indian/Desi so this is uncharted territory for me. My feet are large (as far as these types of shoes go)- I usually wear a US 9.5 or 10. I’ve found a bunch of these shoes that I like on amazon in sizes 9-11. Any help is very appreciated!

Is there any place I should look online besides amazon?

(etsy didn’t have things I liked in my size, the Desi brick & mortar stores don’t have much selection in my size)

If I’m a US size 9.5 or 10, what size should I get these shoes in – 9.5? 10? 10.5? 11? should I get multiple sizes of the ones I like most – which sizes?

I like being comfortable & don’t like things that rub or are too tight, but also don’t want to be flopping out of the shoes & unable to walk. I don’t know how this style of shoe or the sizing normally runs.

How many different pairs/styles should I order just to be safe?

They cost from $30-45 and I can easily return. I’m thinking I should probably end up w one solid color pair that would go with almost anything (like just gold), and maybe 1-2 patterned ones

My shoes will show in my manja outfit, in my ceremony outfit, but might not show as much in my other outfits

prip02 : wow- they look great. thanks so mujch! pastels and pop might not have as many different versions as what I saw from step n style on amazon, but some definitely look great and the price is right too. I might order the amazon ones since I can return them if they don’t work, and then consider the pastels and pop ones once I know what does and doesn’t work from step n style. It also looks like pastels & pop might offer one slightly larger size than step n style just in case the step n style ones are too snug for me and won’t stretch enough.

I’m also not as sure of timing on delivery of the step n style amazon ones (the description says something different than the checkout form does), so I can get the pastels and pop ones if the step n style ones are running late.