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Sorry you had to endure that Shylass.. cruelty in any form is unacceptable.. take comfort in knowing that for every jerk out there who ricochets in and out of your life.. there are far more people who appreciate you and are better off for knowing you..

You just don't notice women saying mean things because more often it'll be behind your back.

I have more experience hearing women saying cruel, vicious things about other women, than men saying mean things to a woman to her face. Actually, for every one mean thing I heard a man say to a woman I've heard thousands of compliments.

Save some pepper spray for your fellow women.

I doubt that anyone would be surprised that women in general would be more vicious than men "behind your back", especially when talking about other women. I've certainly heard those kinds of comments from women more often than men. But "behind your back" is where it will not hurt the person the comment is about. It will make the speaker seem "catty" which might be perfectly acceptable among their friends, but if it is confined to appearance and is not slanderous, that's just women being women and isn't necessarily cruel.My latest story is too hot to publish. My most recent story before that is Even Stranger In Lust

I just wanted to say thank you so, so much to people who have responded and posted here or sent me messages. I love you guys. I know my original post will never have an answer that can make it better, or something we can change about the wider world alone, but it's nice to know I'm not the only who thinks that some people are just complete knobheads.

Yes, women are far worse, and evil little bitches with the things they can say and do, in my experience. They made my childhood a complete misery (the boys were totally accepting of me when it became clear that I packed a hard punch, and was quite a nice person really), and I think most of how I feel, aside from certain events of my life, stems from all of that. But as an adult, it is grown men who say things to my face and that I hear. Women don't (currently) do it where I can hear them, which helps. I hate going places and seeing/meeting people because of what they will think about me, and I especially hate even my friends talking about me if I'm not there. But like I said, I think that stems from the experiences I had at school every day. The best thing I ever did was leave.

I'm trying to find a way forward in my life, and Lush has become a massive part of that. Nobody can see me here, and we are forced to judge others on what we see them write. I'm not perfect, because I need room for improvement, and I'd hate to make everybody feel inferior if I was perfect.

I am having problems replying to PMs people sent to me, as I feel very raw and I trying to squash down things I would rather not have to remember or think about. But I do appreciate it very much, and if I don't reply, please know I am very grateful to you for taking the time and effort.

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elitfromnorth wrote:

If you want to then you could always throw a remark back.

And if throwing a remark back don't quite cut it, try throwing a brick...usually more effective...or walk around with Fred, he'll kick their lame butts...

Don't worry, if Miss Mazza is coming over, she'll take care of them...

I really don't have much to add, or anything really, that hasn't been said...I certainly don't think you should ever doubt your value Miss Shy Daisy...personally, I think you sort of brighten up the place around here...and I'm sure about 130k Lushkins would agree...You know you want it, you know you need it bad...get it now on Amazon.com...Lush Erotica, an Anthology of Award Winning Sex Stories

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Daisy, as most others have said, in the short time you have been here, you have made your presence known and have become quite popular. I am honored to be amongst your friends. You are smart and a beautiful person where it really counts, in your heart. As for those stupid fucks who make nasty comments, here is my suggestion. Learn how to sign something really nasty. then next time it happens, pretend like you are deaf and sign Fuck You or what ever phrase you have chosen. It will spoil all there fun if they think you did not here what they said, and maybe you will get just a little satisfaction from telling them off. And if you ever get to Chicago, I expect you to stop by and visit me!!Read my latest story, Fun in Cabo

People never cease to surprise me with the stupid uncaring things that they do to other people. There really is no excuse for that kind of behavior. Don't let them get you down though. Put a brick in your purse. http://

That is kinda stunning to me really that someone could be so mean without provocation like that.I don't have an answer for you sadly, some people are just wired wrong :( I wish it wasn't so :(Trumpton eh? I always kinda like Camberwick Green :)Chin up hun, these people's opinions don't matter xx

That is kinda stunning to me really that someone could be so mean without provocation like that.I don't have an answer for you sadly, some people are just wired wrong :( I wish it wasn't so :(Trumpton eh? I always kinda like Camberwick Green :)Chin up hun, these people's opinions don't matter xx

Why do they do it? Simply because some people need to feel good about themselves by denigrating others, probably because someone has often done that to them. The praise of such people should mean nothing to you, so why should their scorn?

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