Its written beautifully. Very motivating. It should be read by every young girl. Great going Pradita.I appreciate your practical outlook. I am sure with such attitude more couples will be happier. Lovely write up

Thanks a lot Arv. I don’t know if its motivating because it offers a very bleak and pessimistic outlook towards relationships, but it’s what has made my life easier. I hope it brings strength to others. Thanks for reading and commenting 😊

Pradita, we often make things complicated by attaching lot of expectations and idealism. Fact is if you really love someone truly, all this doesn’t matter. I don’t think it’s a pessimistic view. It’s a specific situation which can only be countered by adjusting expectations. Else the relationship is bound to be doomed.

Youve put it down wonderfully. Yes, that’s what I find myself doing everyday. Adjusting my expectations and in some people’s cases,abandoning it altogether. I hope you don’t have many adjustments to do in life 😊

Pradita, adjustments are constant. Sometimes they become too much. We all have unique situations to grasp to. I know it’s tough for you to adjust to some situations, but once you find some hobby or passion to fall back on, it’s a respite. I hope it gets better for you Pradita.

There are moments where you watch something or read something that makes you tearful..this article I one of them. It’s almost everything I think and value about my own personal issues and I really connect with what you said about having to fight through such hardships by yourself and i strongly understand the importance of finding that courage to tell yourself “you can do it”. It upset me about things in your life and i comend you for being strong and brave to have gone through it all and continuing to do so.

I feel like I’ve grown up doing so much by myself that even now being surrounded by people isn’t enough as i hardly had any support and now facing an illness..because at the end of the day only you are strong enough to push yourself through things.

Oh, thank you so much for your uplifting and heart-felt words. Believe me, as a blogger, it means a lot when people like you come and tell me that my writings have struck a chord with them. Thank you again.

I could tell from our last conversation, that you and I have many similarities. So it doesn’t surprise me when you write that you went through the same.But may I ask what illness plagues you? If you’d like to be discreet about it you could email me at praditakapahi@gmail.com. I’d love to hear from you.