Contrary to fathers' rights propaganda, father perpetrators (along with stepdads and caretaker boyfrends) dominate the most vicious crimes against children: sexual assault, abusive head trauma, murder-suicides, crimes involving gun violence, and other similar forms of physically violent/fatal child abuse. And as more dads are providing child care (either because mom is working and can't find other care, or because dads are increasingly getting unsupervised visitation/custody through the family courts), more dads are are being found guilty of basic child abuse and neglect as well.

10/25/15 -Because of severe time constraints, we are no longer able to do regular updates at Dastardly Dads. We will occasionally post articles on general studies on child abuse/domestic violence, news pieces involving abusive fathers in custody/visitation situations. We wil also be updating the Killer Dads and Custody lists, while looking for a better, more accessible platform for the data.

7/11/16 - We started this blog on June 24, 2009--just over seven years. And like all good things, it's time to bring this project to a close. It has served its purpose. We have close to 10,500 postings regarding fathers and child abuse, with hundred of those cases being enabled by the family courts, social services, and others in authority. The documentation is clear. It is now time to stop documenting and put that energy into changing the situation that puts thousands of mothers and children at risk every day.

Wednesday, April 23, 2014

Four-month-old baby dies from "neglect" at home of custodial dad; dad has history of domestic assault (East Peoria, Illinois)

This baby's death--a homicide--has a very curious history behind it. But you have to tease it out, as it's not clearly explained.Let's start from the beginning.1) Mom loses custody for "neglect." Notice that we are NOT told what this "neglect" represented or what evidence there was for said neglect, or how serious it was. Perhaps it was serious, perhaps it wasn't. However, I am suspicious as we then move to the next stage.2) Dad JOSH TUCKER gets custody. Notice at the very bottom of the article that Dad is in jail for domestic battery that is NOT related to the baby's death. So it is extremely likely that this guy has a history of domestic violence including violence against the baby's mother. Abuser fathers, as we know, make up a disproportionate percentage of fathers seeking custody with the aim of controlling/hurting the mother. It is extremely common for them to lie about the mother and smear her to get what they want. They often go on to abuse the kids. Is this what happened? Well, let's go on.3) Almost immediately, at just two months of age, the baby has a broken femur. So it's obvious that SERIOUS abuse is going on. Does Daddy lose custody as fast as Mom did? ABSOLUTELY NOT. WHY?4) The January autopsy reveals other signs of serious abuse--healing fractures, etc. And still no one in authority challenged this father and his new wife? Nobody caught this? Nobody followed up?5) Then we have the baby's death from "neglect" which sounds pretty fishy. She just fell out of her swing and suffocated? The step didn't even do a good job of lying, since she states she didn't even check on the baby for FOUR HOURS. The police say there is no evidence to back up the step's story, and the coroner calls this a homicide, a murder.But who gave this abusive father custody and allowed him to retain custody? We need names and we need answers.

EAST PEORIA – A coroner’s jury recently ruled an infant’s death from January as homicide, prompting further investigation from police and the Department of Children and Family Services.

Aspen Neal was nearly 4-months-old when she died in early January from suffocation. Sgt. Brian Despines from the East Peoria Police department voiced his concerns.

“Three-month-olds in general just don't stop breathing. So like I said that's why the investigation has taken a while.”

Despines said the night Aspen died she was home with her sister, step sister and step mother, Stephanie Kirby, now Tucker after marriage. Kirby told police she last saw the baby sleeping in a motorized swing and then found Aspen face down on the floor with a blanket around her neck four hours later.

“We don't have a clear understanding of what occurred yet,” Despines said.

That’s because Aspen’s step-mother is the only person who was there, and Despines says there is no physical evidence that corroborates the statement she gave to police.
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“It says face-down, and that's what we're reported, but the fact they were moved from one apartment to the other, our officers, nor our detectives know that for sure.”

He said the big question is: how did an infant get from the swing onto the floor? The coroner’s notes state that there is no evidence that the swing ejected her, and that it’s unlikely Aspen got onto the floor on her own. The questions don't end there.

This isn't the first time DCFS has gotten involved with Aspen. Their records show the child was taken away from her birth mother after she was indicated for neglect in October. Aspen's father, Josh Tucker was awarded custody. In November, DCFS records show Tucker was indicated for neglect after Aspen arrived at the hospital with a broken femur. During Aspen's autopsy in January, the coroner found old bone fractures and bruises that had already started to heal. The coroner says those were “inconstant with multiple accidental causes, and more consistent with blunt trauma or pressure applied to those areas.”

Despines is working to make the case rock solid.

“To make sure justice is served for aspen we have to take our time. We have to do it right we can't jump the gun and haphazard do what needs to be done.”

The other two children who were home the night of Aspen's death have been taken into protective custody by DCFS.
Aspen’s father, Josh Tucker is in the Tazewel County Jail under a violation of bail bonds related to his original charge of aggravated domestic battery. Police say that is not related to Aspen's death. Tucker was not home the night aspen died.