Weird reactions and crappy people

Can a person do something flattering for someone and not get shit on? Or is it not possible?
I wrote a song for this person I know and played it for her, and she told me today, "I felt violated when you sang it, I wasn't expecting it."
This is three weeks after not seeing her at all.

It's like WTF?
Not a week before she floated the idea of taking a road trip together, me and her, and then she gets all bent out of shape over a song written about her.
Doesn't make sense to me.

It's like, if you feel violated when someone does something nice for you, what's your reaction when someone pisses you off?

Sounds like you (unintentially) overstepped the relationship's boundaries. Having someone sing a song to you that they wrote about you is pretty intensely personal, and she must not be there. I'm guessing she felt less "violated" than embarrassed.

Sounds like you (unintentially) overstepped the relationship's boundaries. Having someone sing a song to you that they wrote about you is pretty intensely personal, and she must not be there. I'm guessing she felt less "violated" than embarrassed.

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Eh, ya I suppose. Feels like I lost out on her based on a technicality...Like the replay judge found that my foot was half an inch out of bounds on the catch. Pretty lame, but those are the breaks I guess.

you dont know how much i need you
while youre near me i dont feel blue
and when we kiss i know you need me too
i cant believe i found a love thats so pure and true
but it all was bull sh*t
it was a god damn joke
and when i think of you Linda
i hope you f***ing choke
i hope your glad with what youve done to me
i lay in bed all day long feeling melancholy
you left me here all alone tears running constantly
oh somebody kill me please
somebody kill me please
I'm on my knees
pretty pretty please
kill me!
i want to die!
put a bullet in my head