With all the sicko's out there same room in a swing club is a definite smart way to go. The drugs, people out of bounds, rudeness and just those without a clue are all over and it is best to deal with it before than after the fact. On another site we read of a husband and wife separated, she was drugged and raped, don't think that would have happened if he was within sight. I called him, was told the story and she verified the facts...needless to say those involved are outcasts in their area.

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chelle,

Alot of couples "dabble" in the lifestyle. it's chic to say "we're swingers" to their friends. By swinger they mean "we've been to a lifestyle club and didnt' really do anything but we're now cooler than the jones".

Not that I don't think they should be there but they shoul dhave to wear a special bracelet so we know who they are.

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Scotty, I have to agree with you. Jay and I are both very outgoing personalities so its nothing for me to go one way with friends and he goes another lol. I don't need to babysit him to make sure he is being a good boy. I was with a guy at a club and while kissing I look up and he is just staring at his wife. Like eerie, like what is she doing. Obviously I did not have his attention so off I went in another direction LOL. Now, I'm NOT saying that if you choose to stay together you are babysitting each other so please do not mis-interpret me. But with some couples I wonder why they are here. Shelly

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Interesting about the swing club environment. I hardly ever see my wife when we go to a club. She's a social butterfly. I am not worried about what she does or doesn't do there, we trust each other completely. If you don't this isn't the lifestyle for you. Soft or full.

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