What to Expect on a Swinger Date

by Kyle and Stephanie

Do you ever feel like you’re too sexual or have too much sexual appetite for the average Joe or Jane? If you do feel that way, you shouldn’t feel alone. You would be surprised at how many men, women and couples engage in swinger dating. What is a swinger date? It’s when you trade partners for sex. It is with consent so you don’t have to feel like you’re raping someone. Yes, there are many people like you who get sexually aroused by trying out multiple partners. To find willing couples to swing with, you might want to check out online sites like these swinger targeted sites.

Before you log in to those sites to find a swinger date, it’s important to know what to expect on a swinger date. Knowing what to expect will prepare you on how to deal with other partners and other formalities. First of all, you and your partner should be mature enough to try out swinger date. Not all couples are up for it so be sure you are mentally and emotionally prepared for it. Be honest with yourself and ask questions like “Is it really okay to share my partner?” “Am I going to be a jealous shrew after a swinger date?” These are just a few questions need to have answers too. If you’re not too keen on it, don’t force yourself. Give yourself more time to internalize everything before trying out a swinger date.

The next issue is where to hold the orgy or the swinger date trade? You have your choice of either doing it at your place, at your date’s place, at a hotel room or you can also join a swinger club and participate in a group orgy with other members. You should also talk about guidelines on where you can touch or can’t touch. Some couples also put restrictions on staying a full night with a swinger date so do talk about that one too. It’s basically up to you. Decide this with your partner and be completely honest with each other.

One of the biggest issues you need to figure out is protection. It’s very important to discuss and decide on methods to prevent pregnancy and Venereal disease contraction. The best and only method is to use a condom at all time. Popping a contraceptive pill might work to prevent pregnancy from occurring but not STD and AIDS. The best sex is safe sex. Even if you’re a woman, it’s no excuse for you not to be prepared. Always carry with you at least one emergency condom. Your Swinger date might not often use rubber or carry one around. Your health is your responsibility. There is no reason why you shouldn’t carry one or two packs of rubber just for heated moments. Trust me, you’ll be thankful you thought of it. Don’t allow a full swing even if you practice withdrawal method. It only takes one tiny drop to ruin your life. Practice the policy “No condom, No penetration”.