Saturday, December 22, 2018

A woman in a happy marriage can be lovable, kind-hearted, joyful, loyal, luscious, magnetic and kind. Unfortunately, happy marriage never built itself. It needs lots of work, devotions and sacrifices. It is amazing that husband and wife that married for a long time never look at marital problems in the same way. Usually, a woman gets worried and sad whenever there is trouble in her marriage. Man now gets frustrated by his wife being sad and worry. A woman can spend the whole day nagging about what makes her angry but the man never wants to talk about it. The good part is that, woman stops nagging the moment the man feels her pain; that's all.

What a woman wants most is for her lover to feel her pain then she will call off the battle. Do you know the interesting part? Man gets frustrated being empathetic with his woman. It's okay! It is advisable to make that sacrifice at that time for the sake of peace in the marriage. It takes lots of effort to be able to empathize in a relationship but it brings the best result if practised. Good news! A woman can be a man goddess if she gets treated the right way.

Thursday, December 6, 2018

I picked Shady up at the airport with a big smile on me, I walked up to her, about to wrap my hands around her for a hug; I was surprised to see her turning away from me. I apologized for any inconvenience but she smiled back at me and said ’ I'm not used to hugging man in public".I'm shy shesaid further.Oh! Hmmm! I don't know about that because I thought she should be matured enough then I remembered it may be due to cultural differences.

Our two days of being together was really great. We had a great sex 😌 and I was relieved of a huge loneliness. Shady exposed her true self to me about the fourth day. She heard me talking to someone on the phone and then she exploded, calling me all sort of names. For real! I started getting nervous talking to her. I apologized- being in a country whose law favors female. On the Seventh day, she threatened to call the police, oh! Oh! It was getting serious. There was a day she wanted me to do some shopping for her and I was cashless. That day was an unforgettable day for me.

She locked me out of my house and she broke all my things. Thereafter I thought of staying late at work to escape from coming to a hot home. I prayed to God fervently every day to let that moment pass by as soon as possible. I prayed God I really want to be single again. Shady still has a few weeks to spend with me. In a week period with Shady, we get along for only two days and fought the remaining days of her stay. Life was miserable.

At the end of her visitation I couldn't wait to drop her off at the airport after a hot argument. She said to me never to contact each other which made me happy. I was glad to drop her off at the bus station instead without talking to each other. When I got home, it was like a Paradise on earth. I was so happy to have my peace and freedom again. Wait a minute! I learned my lesson to enjoy every moment of life and stop complaining. There is nothing like loneliness is a disease. Being by oneself sometimes may bring access to lots of things than you think- you will be closer to God and prepare yourself for the next

upcoming event in your life. It is always a good idea to enjoy every moment in a lifetime period because you can never get that time back.