So, your guy just dumped you and you
can't figure out why he did so? Here is a peek view of a man's mind. Probably
learning, analyzing, and heeding these top ten reasons why men dump
women may save you from facing the same unfortunate outcome in your next
relationship.

Nothing is new: It is the mystery
factor in a woman's persona that acts as a perfect aphrodisiac of any man.
Once you lose this mystery factor your man may lose interest in you. So,
what do you do to keep up with it? Just keep giving him surprises, and never
totally reveal everything about yourself. Keep evolving yourself,
and always remain slightly secretive with who you are. Keep him on the hunt
- for you.

No space: Personal space matters
a lot in a relationship, especially for men. They feel suffocated if the
woman is too possessive and jealous. A woman, who is clinging, insecure and
jealous all the time, surely has high "soon-to-be-dumped" potential. If your
life revolves around only him to an extent that your own social circle has
shrunk to almost nothing, you are in a seriously bad way. Get some life girl
and give the two of you a little breather.

Bad Sex: Bad physical chemistry
between the partners is a frequent cause of breakup. And good sex does
not mean having a flawless body. Even with some extra pounds here and
there you can keep your man hooked to you and hot for you. Men dump women
if sex becomes predictable and stale. One huge secret to satisfying your
partner isn't necessarily about how you perform in bed, but rather
how much you desire him and how much enthusiasm you have for
him in bed. How hot are you for him? That is
what makes a good sexual partner! If you are evidently very excited
and enthusiastic to have sex with him, or give sex to him and please him,
he will feel extra satisfied - even if the act itself lacked in sexual
expertise.

Nagging: Nagging is perhaps an
eternal problem with most women - and men absolutely hate it. Nagging girlfriends
and wives get dumped faster than a season change. Also, girlfriends who put
pressure on their man to get married are a complete "NO-NO' with men. Remember,
men have that proverbial commitment phobia. No, it is not a myth. Women need
to understand that they nag for the simple reason of feeling secure, safe,
and loved within the relationship. She falsely believes that if the man gives
into her demands it is a sure sign that he loves her, and she can finally
relax and feel safe in the relationship. If the man doesn't give into her
demands the more insecure she becomes, and the more not-of-control she feels
about her relationship. Unfortunately, these undesirable emotions are only
likely to make her nag even more.

Taking for granted: When men
get too comfortable with their partners, they no longer truly need them.
Like he may say, "She already does my laundry and has sex with me. Why should
I marry her?" Men easily dump women who stop challenging them and who allow
themselves to be taken for granted. Picture dating as a game of hunt - with
man as the hunter and woman as the prey. Men enjoy the hunt, the challenge,
the chase. But once they have bagged the prey they then hand it over to the
woman to clean up and serve for dinner. His interest quickly diminishes in
her when he hands over the domestic chores of preparing up his latest catch.
And now he is off to bag a new one.

Cheating: So, one is not enough
for you? Get ready to be dumped. Just like a cheating partner is a no for
you, it is the same for men as well. Therefore, if you keep dating men outside
your relationship, you can forget about the relationship
altogether.

Perfect Mismatch: Men may fall
for a woman simply because of her good looks - or really any other single
virtue. However, when it comes to the complete package, it may get difficult
to accept it in full. His impossible quest for a perfect woman may become
a problem for your relationship. Perfection doesn't exist in an imperfect
world.

Getting Ahead in Life: It is a
common occurrence that when a man rises above his stature, he may find that
his girlfriend or wife no longer suits him, and it results is his dumping
the woman in his life for a more 'high-status' partner. Outgrowing, or growing
beyond or above, one's partner can be extremely detrimental to any relationship.
Likewise, if the woman excels or surpasses her male partner in career success
or financial gain, it can leave a man to feel uncomfortable and inadequate.
Which leads to...

Male Ego: The 'somewhat' chauvinistic
male ego does not allow for him to feel comfortable with a woman who makes
more money, has a better social status, or is better educated. Men like to
feel superior to women at all times.

Emotional Drama: Men don't like
women who keep feeding them with an excess of emotional drama and soapy stories
all the time. Too much song-and-dance over your feelings and/or emotional
problems will only add to your dumpable factor. It's best to stop being the
Drama Queen around him and keep the soapy-theatrics to share among your female
friends.