It's something most people can just see. It's between the lines of just about everything he says and does. So I assume either you and Trump are very like minded or you have some horrible racist radar.

how is he racist? One example please.

As an "African-American" that voted for neither candidate, I wouldn't blatantly call Trump a racist, but he's exhibited some questionable behavior and poor choice of words. He settled allegations of housing discrimination (a settlement is not an admission of guilt I know). He had a controversial stance on the Central Park 5, questioned Obama's birth certificate, said things like "Look at my African-American" as if he's never engaged a black person before. His pitch to black people to vote for him was "What do you have to lose?". He's being openly endorsed, criticized and praised by confirmed racists, has defunded programs that counteract white supremacy organizations, saying there are "Very nice people." on both sides of the Charlottesville riots and etc.

But to your point, none of those makes him racist (at least not to me). Although surely you can understand why that narrative is being pushed.

Way to get half the country to hate you Durant. Hope trump doesn't invite them

Respect is earned or lost. President Trump is disrespected by many people from his own actions.

As for the White House visit, I have telling friends that I expected Trump to "cancel" the White House visits possibly as early as at the end of the NBA season. He will "cancel" just before entire teams refuse the invite just like he "disbanded" the few advisory panels just before (or after actually) everyone quit them. By the way, it is safe to say that all of those CEOs who bailed on his advisory panels also do not respect the President and he EARNED their disrespect.