Young cuckold in VA wants to learn the ropes

Hey guys, I'm REALLY into this but I'm having a lot of hesitation, I was wondering If there is a couple out there willing to have me join them or participate any way that I can once or twice to see if its something that I want to bring my girlfriend into. I don't want this kind of thing to ruin us and I've seen a lot in that direction. Please help, especially if you are in VA
I have pics to share if needed.
Thank you, I am in love with this forum and I support everybody in this lifestyle.