If you’re single and looking for a life partner, have passion for your work and your hobbies—it’s a huge turn-on.

Help her around the house, and maintain the level of courtesy, manners, and politeness you hopefully had on your first date.

As for your girlfriends, wives, and partners, they need to reciprocate.

Guys, if your girl wants you to take her out someplace special or visit with her parents, do it.

I can’t help it, based on some of the nightmares I see and hear about out there.

I’ll try to be fair to both sides, and as gentle as possible. Okay guys, when it comes to your relationships, support your partners, girlfriends, and wives in their lives, dreams, and careers as strongly as you would support your best friend.

You don’t have to be a fashion icon, but it doesn’t take much time or even money to dress with the decade.

And girls, you don’t have to stop caring about yourself once you settle down. The bottom line is, partners can’t just “quit” when they get together.

If a girl is truly a decent, hardworking person who treats you well, that’s all you need.