Seriously... Sami had sex with Rafe when Sydney went missing...she celebrated and toasted to a great year when she didn't know if she would ever see her daughter again. Then she shot Ej and ran back home to sex up Rafe...and then when Johnny was missing she fucked Ej....that is what we are trying to say...she uses me ALL THE TIME

Please...if there is ANYTHING this show has proven is that Sami has used sex during traumatic circumstances ALL.THE.TIME...

I think it's a little weird that Sami loves to have sex when things are going badly, but I don't see how she's using the guys. It's not like she's hitting up someone who she wouldn't usually give the time of day.

I don't really think it's anything bad but it is a nice display of her shoddy self esteem that clearly hasn't improved upon being wih someone who supposedly accepts her.

Sami uses men,people,her kids , her family & anything else she can to get what she wants. She wanted Nick gone & Ej is her best bet for that.She was already hot ( since for her she has sex instead of some other form of relief for traumatic events ) she just killed 2 birds with 1 stone. She is learning to just except her bad - ass self & she used it to bring out Ej bad - ass self. She is a dark bad seed & when she learns to love herself as she is no more self esteem problems. Imo