tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4213142344944070439.post545635290431706207..comments2019-03-21T22:04:51.206+05:30Comments on Devotees Experiences with Shirdi Sai Baba: A Couple of Sai Baba Experiences - Part 175Hetal Patil Rawathttps://plus.google.com/116048063265948924490noreply@blogger.comBlogger35125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4213142344944070439.post-57989624307077667912017-09-14T22:23:50.634+05:302017-09-14T22:23:50.634+05:30om sai ramom sai ramHeena sharmahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14272899544843104705noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4213142344944070439.post-46632965729024336162014-03-08T09:42:59.948+05:302014-03-08T09:42:59.948+05:30om sai ramom sai ramAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4213142344944070439.post-18341500954656829452012-05-03T04:30:43.622+05:302012-05-03T04:30:43.622+05:30Very nice experiences! Sai Sister Pramila Ji, it i...Very nice experiences! Sai Sister Pramila Ji, it is wonderful that Baba sent a coolie just for your son-in-law so he could catch the train and to help with his bags (it was Baba&#39;s help since there was no other coolie on the platform). First devotee from India, it is amazing that Baba showed you so clearly that you will have a healthy baby boy through the blue clothes. You are very lucky. For the second devotee from India, I used to stutter and stammer when I was younger, but as I gained more confidence (by thinking that Lord Rama is there right next to me, my stuttering and stammering went away). Help your son get more confidence and faith, tell him stories of Baba, Lord Rama, Hanuman that will give him strength and confidence and you will find his stammering and stuttering will go away. Om Sai Ram!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4213142344944070439.post-22199654028221369472012-05-01T14:59:44.484+05:302012-05-01T14:59:44.484+05:30NICE EXPERIENCES. BABA LISTENS ALL OUR WISHES.
d...NICE EXPERIENCES. BABA LISTENS ALL OUR WISHES. <br /><br />dEAR MOTHER DO NOT HIT YOUR CHILD. STOP THIS PRACTISE. READ SAI SATCHARITRA.Mamta Batrahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07311896068619118210noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4213142344944070439.post-15021920989976861442012-04-30T23:16:47.083+05:302012-04-30T23:16:47.083+05:30Everyone has accentuated more on mother here as so...Everyone has accentuated more on mother here as some feel her disposition is the crux of problem. Thank you for elaborating on those techniques about defeating stammering, however, in order for those to be effective mother has to mend her ways. <br /><br />The first thing - she should calm down and if she can&#39;t handle, let someone else handle. <br /><br />UDI will be only effective if she stops nagging the child; UDI is not an instrument to build child’s resistance to handle mother’s anger or temperament. Some people can’t handle their anger and frustration.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4213142344944070439.post-40492085227841364262012-04-29T17:56:52.818+05:302012-04-29T17:56:52.818+05:30yes it&#39;s because of you he stammers as he&#39;...yes it&#39;s because of you he stammers as he&#39;s getting too scared. please dont do that.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4213142344944070439.post-11355300810428610402012-04-29T10:46:30.689+05:302012-04-29T10:46:30.689+05:30Sister,
Jai Sai Ram. Great experiences.
To sist...Sister,<br /><br />Jai Sai Ram. Great experiences. <br /><br />To sister who have problem with the son- every one in the blog have their valuable suggestions on how to handle your temper with your son. <br /><br />I would like to empahasize on your son stamerring problem. Stamerring can be mostly hereditary passed on from family members. First of all you as a mother be informed that this will take some time to completely cure. Since your son got it at this age it will be cured gradually. It may take few years but if our baba bless its just gone in seconds. <br /><br />How to cure: <br /><br />First of all, you as a mother should be his right arm. I mean support him, tell him to be bold and courages, please do not scare him or threaten. This is very important for people suffering from stamerring. Involve your son in groups, where he can play, and share his ideas and thoughts with others. <br /><br />Stammering increases when some one is nervous or scared, please try to avoid these situations. The more you make him feel confident, the more he will get better and it reduces stamerring slowly. <br /><br />Allow to him express his thoughts freely. As a mother, do not feel shy or ashamed since your son has stammering. Please tell any one in your family not to make fun of him, this will also affect him to an extent. Obviously we cant avoid outsiders comment. <br /><br />If possible slowly start teaching him to sing songs, this will help in free flow of words. <br /><br />If you practise what i have said, you will see change in your son slowly. <br /><br />Just one advice sister, all of us work to make our living and work pressure is every where be it your own company or you work for others. Please try slowly to come out if this, then you will always love everything in life. I know its not easy as i say but when we have our Baba nothing is impossible. <br /><br />Please let me know if you need any further advice on your son stammering problem. <br /><br />Next week i am flying to India with my family to visit our father at shiridi. I will pray for every one success and peace. <br /><br />Lets bow to the holy feet of our father. <br /><br />Servant of Baba.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4213142344944070439.post-17445297149552431812012-04-28T03:02:32.354+05:302012-04-28T03:02:32.354+05:30You don&#39;t want your child to hate you later on...You don&#39;t want your child to hate you later on in life .....therefore stopAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4213142344944070439.post-88306423590398116962012-04-28T01:24:13.194+05:302012-04-28T01:24:13.194+05:30Dear Sai devotee who needs help in controlling tem...Dear Sai devotee who needs help in controlling temper, it is hard at certain weak moments one looses control and hitting or slapping takes place. I know no parent would like to cause harm and bear in mind that a wound on the body can heal but not the wound on the mind! So keeping in mind to have your children good memories of childhood, help them getting disciplined without shouting and screaming, being firm in what we ask them to do. Make up your mind before you exert your firmness about the topic, is it something that is not going to harm the child if you let go! <br /> Pressure from all sides make us feel helpless and frustrated but meditating on how to prioritize your &quot;TO DO&quot; list will also help you find more relaxed time with your child.<br /> WE experienced parents are with you understanding your situation and do not feel that we want to prove you WRONG altogether. What is most important point to understand is ANY CHILD wants the feel of security especially from Mom and Dad in the tender years of their childhood. Once they are grown up doing their things on their own, all they need is a watchful eyes from parents and guidance when needed. <br /> Please take all these comments positively, not feeling offended and enjoy your time with your children making each task a FUN and not a dreading responsibility!<br />I hope I have made my wishes for your happiness placed here clearly. BE BLESSED.<br />Jai Sai Ram.Meerahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15790907420797333571noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4213142344944070439.post-50035851468838220352012-04-27T23:36:18.253+05:302012-04-27T23:36:18.253+05:30Dear Devotee who beats her child,
Why is your chi...Dear Devotee who beats her child,<br /><br />Why is your child becoming victim of your own incapability? If you can’t handle pressure of work, child and house chores, quit one of your responsibilities. If you need to continue working, outsource one of the activities. Where is your husband in this entire story, and he should be stopping you from hitting the child. I am a mother of a toddler, I work, I spend 3 hours each day in commute, I am in high pressure job that requires quick turn around and I crunch a lot of numbers each day, I cook every day and I am not in the best of office environments as well. But by no means that justifies hitting a child. If you can’t manage pressure, have someone else manage it. <br /><br />Like Meeraji indicated in her comments, this is a very tender age. If you can’t have patience with teaching your child, outsource it or let your partner or some elder person in family do it. There are educational DVDs available in market, and kids learn a lot from those. Who looks after kid while you are away at work? If the child goes to daycare, they learn and pick a lot there. With my child, we come up with stories and some games that would involve learning. I expect my child to sit with us 30 min to study over weekends and weekdays time permitting. Why burden tender shoulders with pressure of studies, they should play and enjoy their childhood. Enroll them for some classes and activities. Bottom line – if you can’t control, you should let someone handle. <br /><br />All you need with child is firmness, don’t give into everything. Discipline them and explain them reasoning behind your ask. Remember hitting child is considered violence and that is against the very basic fundamentals of Sai Mahima. Saibaba will never like parents hitting their child. I have a toddler who drives me nuts at times, but even in the worst of situations I have never hit my child, not even once. By hitting your child, you are telling them it is ok to hit someone? So teaching them violence?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4213142344944070439.post-61455280406223478292012-04-27T20:42:10.054+05:302012-04-27T20:42:10.054+05:30Dear all 3 sai devotees, very happy for 1st and 3r...Dear all 3 sai devotees, very happy for 1st and 3rd incidence, and a few words for angry , frustrated mom! <br />I am so happy to be married in a family where each individual is well respected and cared for. Daughters in law are equally loved and cared for as daughters in the family. My mother in law advised me when I had my first son that &quot;never ever hit your child, however you get angry, instead, when you can not control your anger for some frustration, HIT your own cheek!, this will make you understand how it hurts and the child is so tender, how can we hurt a child to correct his/her behaviour? The child you hit may suffer the pain at that time and may forget that pain in a while but one thing he /she learns that &quot;hitting&quot; is the way to get things done and he/she will do the same when they grow up, because that&#39;s how they were treated!&quot;<br /> And my husband added one more logic to this argument that when we hit a child he is weak and we are stronger, but when he is grown up we will be weaker by that time...and he will use the same tactics to have things done, and he will not be blamed for not using &quot;hitting&quot; as a weapon as he has seen that being used in his childhood!<br /> Well, all said and done, I must say, that I never ever had a problem making my sons understand the situation, I hardly had to shout at them and even in worst scenario, we just have to be firm, keep low voice and explain the situation why certain thing is necessary to do and not to do!<br />Also not showing your power but expressing LOVE as an adult to the child is the key to expect good behaviour from your child. Screaming at child lets the child know that we are &quot;helpless&quot;. As a parent you are in charge and use your power to show your command over your emotions and get things done with love and care. And don&#39;t forget, giving permissible freedom in any given situation, you may not have to exert force to get things done.<br /> Have peace and love around you and your family. Each family has it&#39;s own circumstances and one has to find an amicable solution to the situation but long story short, do not use hitting, screaming and shouting to train your kids.<br /> I pray BABA to give you enough strength and ways to deal with the situations and you can express more love and concern towards your child. <br /> Also I would like to know how old is your son? If he is too young, and learning to express his thoughts, he may be told stories to build his vocabulary as he does not find suitable word makes him strutter. Let him complete what he wants to say without interrupting, listening patiently will increase his confidence in expressing what he wants to convey.<br />It just happens that when we are in a hurry, we try to shun the child pre-judging what he might want to say and the child finds that emberracing as he failed in expressing what he wanted to say.<br /> Hoping I am not offending any loving parent but just want to enjoy each parent a precious parenthood and letting each child enjoy his/her childhood that he/she cherish all through life!<br />Jai Sai Ram.Meerahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15790907420797333571noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4213142344944070439.post-90436033493010612642012-04-27T16:42:48.258+05:302012-04-27T16:42:48.258+05:30dont worry anonymous devotee baba will take care o...dont worry anonymous devotee baba will take care of your son...give him udi with water..and please dont be rude to him..everything will be allright read SAI SATCHARITHAM..have faith in baba..he is always there to take care of us...OM SAI RAAAM...Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4213142344944070439.post-3315144204009026592012-04-27T14:54:43.777+05:302012-04-27T14:54:43.777+05:30Lovely experiences !
Baba is great . Jai Sai Nath...Lovely experiences !<br /><br />Baba is great . Jai Sai Nath :)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4213142344944070439.post-29260336885373361462012-04-27T10:43:27.897+05:302012-04-27T10:43:27.897+05:30Dear Sai sisters,
Baba will be always with you and...Dear Sai sisters,<br />Baba will be always with you and all of HIS devotees.<br /><br />For the Sai Sister-child having stuttering..<br />Dear sister, I too was like you at the same stage. Later, I realised that my shouting was making him stammer and shutter.Why I was getting tensed and angry becz.probably- my husband never took active role in moulding my son and he never used to teach healthy/hygienic practices but was giving company when my son is playing.But whe he was teaching him math he always used to be impatient with my son. So I was overburdened.<br /><br />These things happen to many of us-ladies. managing home and family and trying to perform well in all spheres.<br /><br />So my sisiter, you pl. pray to Baba, intensely and entrust your son ,family and yourself totally to Baba. Baba will solve yor problem in HIS own way.<br /><br />Baba will never leave us..Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4213142344944070439.post-42149060784349289462012-04-27T07:06:23.949+05:302012-04-27T07:06:23.949+05:30Sairam ji,
This message is for the lady whose chil...Sairam ji,<br />This message is for the lady whose child is having Stammering problem. Dear sister, i am not sure if you have read about Shibpur Sai Baba temple in Shibpur, WB. Please email your kids problem to shibpurtemple@gmail.com and we will pray for you. In case you are interested to read about this temple please see shibpursaibaba.org <br /><br />Sairam Hetalji, I am not sure if this is a right thing to do but i could not stop myself after looking at her concern about her child. Please post this if you deem fit. Thanks much ahead. AdityaAditya- Inservice of Saihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10331783986368151046noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4213142344944070439.post-43425311666584840272012-04-27T03:36:06.699+05:302012-04-27T03:36:06.699+05:30Please stop hitting your child ....please I know u...Please stop hitting your child ....please I know u mean well but if he is sensitive child ....dont hit him ...he gets stressed when he sees u angry or upset ..Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4213142344944070439.post-52142045825272291112012-04-27T02:51:25.049+05:302012-04-27T02:51:25.049+05:30Jai Sai Baba ! @devotee 1: Congrats and nice exper...Jai Sai Baba ! @devotee 1: Congrats and nice experience.. me too waiting for Baba to do a miracle and bless me with a baby ! This mail came at 12 O clock night in Canada time. i.e. right at the second where Thursday starts.. i was awake and my ipad was near the bed. hearing the mail notification sound, just thought will check my mail. i got to see first experience as yours relating to blessing with a baby boy ! OMG, i couldn&#39;t control my happiness as me n husband were talking about having baby soon &amp; about BABA just 5 min before that.. i&#39;m feeling a positive sign from BABA that he is gonna bless me soon with a beautiful healthy baby !<br /><br />@devotee 2 : pls try to control your anger and not hit the child . Mix BABA&#39;s UDI with water and give your son daily.. he&#39;ll be alright. may be u can check him with a speech therapist in case you want any clarification on his problemMeenakshihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10206007209818592921noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4213142344944070439.post-31556869295108300202012-04-27T01:08:56.219+05:302012-04-27T01:08:56.219+05:30Om Sai Ram,
Om Sai Ram,
Om Sai Ram,
Om Sai Ram,
Om...Om Sai Ram,<br />Om Sai Ram,<br />Om Sai Ram,<br />Om Sai Ram,<br />Om Sai Ram,<br />Om Sai Ram,<br />Om Sai Ram,<br />Om Sai Ram,<br />Om Sai RamAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4213142344944070439.post-56188780376274870912012-04-27T00:07:11.621+05:302012-04-27T00:07:11.621+05:30Anonymous Mother: I could somewhat relate to my ch...Anonymous Mother: I could somewhat relate to my childhood days after I read about your &#39;problem&#39;. I used to stammer when I was in high school, but later it was completely cured. When I was a child I was very attached to my mother and also very sensitive. Things were rough at home then, and I suffered. Please have patience when dealing with your son. I sincerely pray to our Baba that you son overcomes it. <br /><br />Om Sai RamAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4213142344944070439.post-877447906448013322012-04-26T23:37:17.148+05:302012-04-26T23:37:17.148+05:30To the mother who is rude to her child, dont feel ...To the mother who is rude to her child, dont feel guilty. We are humans, we are bound to do mistakes, but showing it on your beloved son is not justified. You are the center of world for him so be patient. Studies is nothing believe me. Some kids who are so brilliant when they are young turn out to be nothing when they are adults. Some kids who are not that intillegent when they are young, settle and do good jobs when they are adults. You being so pushy on him will not help him in the long run. Whatever has to happen will happen, dont stress over small things. Believe in sai and he will take care of everything. Take care of your son, give him udi for stammering, if it is worse go to doctor. Om sai ram.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4213142344944070439.post-70852422142939954072012-04-26T23:21:32.739+05:302012-04-26T23:21:32.739+05:30All three are very nice experiences, @Sai ki beeti...All three are very nice experiences, @Sai ki beeti you are really lucky to experience Baba&#39;s miracles, I wish you should be blessed with a healthy baby by baba&#39;s grace. @Anonymous devotee you are such a wonderful brother to such a wonderful child, please don loose your temper do lots of meditations to calm your mind. After reading ur experience, I just hhave one request please don be too harsh with your son, looks like he is very sweet child. Talk to him openly about all ur pressures im very sure he will understand..<br />@pramilaji, nice experience if we pray to him sincerely he will surely listen to it and helps us. Thanks all for sharing ur experiences.S Geethanoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4213142344944070439.post-82521260479156673872012-04-26T23:05:36.462+05:302012-04-26T23:05:36.462+05:30nice experiences...
thanks for sharing...
Dear Sec...nice experiences...<br />thanks for sharing...<br />Dear Second Devotee,<br />BABA is keep on telling us good things to follow. Are we able to follow always? What if, HE hits us for our every mistake? <br />HE is bearing it and keep telling us in the way, we understand, isn&#39;t it?<br />So have faith &amp; patience. Everything will be OK.<br /><br />BABA please keep showering your blessings on everyone.<br /><br />Om Sai RamaAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4213142344944070439.post-74414381049381157772012-04-26T23:05:18.098+05:302012-04-26T23:05:18.098+05:30to the anon from second experience,
I don&#39;t kn...to the anon from second experience,<br />I don&#39;t know how old your son is, but i strongly feel that you should encourage him to be more social and start playing with kids around his age. he will start to feel more independent and confident about himself. If you&#39;re in US, the schools can provide a speech therapist to help your son too.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4213142344944070439.post-29670869450154284282012-04-26T22:39:04.350+05:302012-04-26T22:39:04.350+05:30@anonymous number 8.. There is what you are search...@anonymous number 8.. There is what you are searching for...<br />FOR SAI BABA SAMADHI -3 metres cloth in length and 46 &quot; in breadth.<br /><br />FOR SAI BABA IDOL-3 metres cloth in length and 46 &quot;in breadth.<br /><br />FOR SAI BABA SCARF(HEAD GEAR)-1.5 metres (Saffron or Orange preferably)<br /><br />KHES OR STOLL (AROUND NECK)-2 metres .<br />(These are the measurement of the Dress which was offered -accepted by Baba and it fitted well.)<br /><br />To the devotee of second experience .. mam you please read SAi SAT CHARITRA book so that you can remember sai baba stories for every action you do..<br /><br />sairam let HE blesses us all...Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4213142344944070439.post-1027054747560413142012-04-26T21:15:30.282+05:302012-04-26T21:15:30.282+05:30Pramila Ji, it is said &quot; Sai Baba the-re haja...Pramila Ji, it is said &quot; Sai Baba the-re hajaro haath&quot; (Sai you have thousands of hands). <br />He can choose anyone to act through. Lets be willing if he plans to use us in his divine game.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com