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Sex Tip From a Guy: High-Five Your Way to Orgasm

Along with skateboarding and peeing outdoors, there’s a stupid, yet persistent theory that women aren’t good at high-fives. Girls give great high-fives; they’re often just not as practiced (if you’re learning, the key is to look at the elbow of the person you’re high-fiving; there ya go, well done, high-five). Especially when they’re mid-orgasm, and hopefully their guy is, too (look away shy readers).

So this is for some of the more advanced players. If you're not ready for this one, you might want keep it filed away for when you feel comfortable going for it.

For the rest of you, this is a move that comes into play while engaged in what the Kama Sutra would call the “Kshudgaga Position,” where “the woman sits astride the man with her feet positioned on either side of his waist and the man enters her with hard blows.”

Essentially, you’re both sitting, facing each other and he is penetrating you by either holding your waist and using your body to thrust into you, or positioning his arms behind him, and using the leverage provided by his arms and chest to thrust using his hips.

The High-Fiver can only take place if he’s balancing using the former option. As you get close, tell your fella it’s “high-five time.” Using one hand at a time, give a high-five, at about the height of his head, but keep your hands up there, clasping your fingers, and using the tension to balance. Continue to thrust throughout the high-fiver until either or both of you have finished.

The beauty of this move is that, while being penetrated deeply, it puts you at an angle where your clitoris can be massaged by his penis and/or abdomen, increasing your chance for an orgasm and its potential for intensity. Also, not being able to use your hands to balance on a solid surface, and relying on a partner to keep from falling over can help give you an orgasm-while-flying sensation and can be super intense.

Are you any good at high-fives? Would you ever try this one?

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