Monday, October 27, 2008

Saturday, October 25, 2008

It has been 16 months now. Some days it seems like yesterday and some days it feels like forever. We attended a compassionate friends meeting the other day. It was good, but hard too. One of the men said it is a group you hope to never join, and I agree. We are working on starting a chapter here now. Here is a poem I got from there:

I can tell by that look friend, that you need to talk.So Come, take my hand and let's go for a walk.See, I'm not like the others, I won't shy away,because I want to hear what you have to say.

Your child has died...and you need to be heard,but they don't want to hear a single word.They tell you your childs "with God, so be strong"They say all the "right" things, that somehow seem so wrong.

They're just hurting for you and trying to say,they would give anything to talk your pain away.But they are struggling with feelings they cannot understandso forgive them for not offering a helping hand.

I'll walk in your shoes for more than a mile,I'll wait while you cry...and be glad if you smile.I won't critize you or judge you or scorn,I'll just stay and listen, 'til your night turns to morn.

Yes, they journey is hard and unbearably long,and I know that you think you are not quite that strong.So just take my hand 'cause I've got time to spare.And I know how it hurts friend, for I have been there.

You see, I owe a debt you can help me repay,for not long ago I was helped the same way.As I stumbled and fell through a world so unrealSo believe when I say I know how you feel.

It is true that talking to someone who knows is helpful. Maybe one day we can be strong for someone else who has to live this nightmare.

Saturday, October 4, 2008

We went to see the girls this morning. Had to remove their flowers and stuff for the clean-up week. We will go back next weekend to put the new flowers we bought today and the halloween decor. I found the cutest black cat with a mask, Megan would love it. I can't help but think about how much fun she would have picking a costume for Kendall.

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I am a Wife,Mom and Nana. That is who I am plain and simple. I love to scrapbook and read. I teach math to some very wonderful students who have touched my life in many ways. I started this blog so I could babble in order to heal. My world stopped on June 22nd when my beautiful daughter and granddaughter were killed in a horrific accident.