Editorial: Joy of Christmas not in excess, but in giving to others

While Black Friday shoppers jockeyed for position in line to grab that sale-priced 40-inch television, a single mother worried about whether she would be able to pay the electric bill this month.

As families sat down to stuff themselves with the bounties of a Thanksgiving feast, it was just another day without a meal for some families.

While some were busy making plans to visit friends near and far for Christmas, an elderly man sat quietly and reflected on his loneliness and isolation.

This is the magical time of the year when there should be excitement and joy in the air. It should also be a time to think of those who aren’t so blessed.

For those who are struggling, the holidays can be especially difficult.

In Illinois this year, many of the places that are there to help in times of need are finding themselves struggling because of the lack of money flowing as state leaders tussle over a budget.

Food banks have noticed an uptick in requests for assistance, as have homeless shelters and others.

There are ways to help, whether financially or by giving of your time.

Many businesses and groups have toy and clothing drives, providing a perfect opportunity to clean your closet and provide winter warmth for others.

The Salvation Army is one resource that comes to mind. Christmas is its biggest time of the year both for collections and for needs. It provides meals and shelter and works with other groups, such as the Toys for Tots campaign, to provide some happiness in the lives of families and children.

The United Way is another. It serves as a clearinghouse for non-profit agencies that provide a number of far-reaching services for the community. Donations can even be designated to benefit specific groups.

The Journal-Courier has partnered again this year with HELPS Ministries to help get basic-need items into the hands of families struggling this season. Last year, the two were able to provide more than 50 area families with everything from clothing for children to appliances. The Bright Christmas list runs in the paper and online each Sunday through Christmas.

Of course, some of the greatest gifts don’t have to cost anything. Consider volunteering for a group that helps those in need, or spending time with senior citizens who don’t have families of their own to be with at Christmas. It’s a perfect opportunity to instill in children a sense of giving of themselves as well.

The true joy of the holiday is not found in its excesses. It is found within the spirit of giving and making the lives of others a little brighter.

In the process, you’ll find it’s also the greatest gift you can give yourself.