The wheel of consent and how it can help long-term couples have better sex

If you’ve been in a relationship for a while, you’ll know the spark can become a fizz and sex may have even become a chore.

Changing notions around consent are also affecting how some people feel about their sex lives.

Counsellor and sexologist Tanya Koens argues that a model of thinking called The Wheel of Consent can make it clear to ourselves and our partners how and where we want to be touched, while also helping make our sex lives more mutually fulfilling.