It was a porn video. After he made me watch it, he took me to their bedroom and had oral sex with Annette.

When he'd finished he turned to look at me.

"That's how you do it," he said.

Me in my scout uniform.

Another time, I was in my bedroom when Dad called me into their room.

He and Annette were naked and doing a sex act.

I was told to join in and she had sex with me.

We'd watch porn in bed together and then we'd have threesomes.

She told me what to do. Sometimes when Dad wasn't there she'd call me in instead.

I was an only child and just wanted to spend time playing Lego.

Then all of a sudden, Dad and Annette broke up. I was so relieved.

We moved to another town but I was targeted by another paedophile.

Police raided his home and found naked pictures of me.

By now I was 16.

I was interviewed by a child psychologist and revealed the years of abuse I'd suffered growing up. But Dad denied it.

"Daniel's an attention-seeking liar," he told police.

I don't think they even questioned Annette. No arrests were made.

They didn't take me seriously at all.

As I was giving my video statement, one constable even mocked me.

The whole experience left me scarred for life.

Annette Breakspear.

I moved out of home and tried to move on but I couldn't.

I'd been sexualised at such a young age that intercourse meant nothing to me.

Despite Dad's best efforts, I was gay but I struggled to form relationships.

At one point, I tried to end my own life.

Years went by and then one day, I decided enough was enough.

I wanted everyone to pay for what they'd done to me.

So I called Dad.

"Why did you do it?" I asked.

"What?" he said.

"You know… with Annette. Have sex with me," I said, gulping.

"I just wanted to steer you in the right direction," he said. "You know… not be gay."

I recorded the conversation and took it to the police.

The abuse had happened 17 years earlier, but this time they took me seriously.

And when Dad was arrested, he no longer denied it.

He admitted to police that he and Annette carried out "sordid and deplorable" abuse and that he felt ashamed and disgusted.

Daniel Dowling (pictured) took the recording to the police and had his dad arrested for his actions.

In court later, he claimed it was to prevent me from "turning gay".

"I wanted to protect him from paedophiles so he would know what was right and wrong," he told the court.

He said he wanted to educate me about how I should treat women.

He blamed his actions on depression and said he fell under Annette's influence.

"What total nonsense," I spat.

Annette Breakspear was found guilty of three counts of indecent assault while my dad, Richard Dowling, admitted one count of cruelty to a child and two counts relating to sexual offences involving a child.

The judge told Dad: "The damage is incalculable. The abuse of trust is monstrous."