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Should I confront my ex-bff?

I haven't speaking to my ex-bff since Sept. For the easter break I invited her daughter which is my goddaughter to the circus. I ask the mother can she bring her to my house. She told that she couldn't because she was working. When I came to pick her up, her car was in the driveway. Why did she have to lie? Should I confront her about it?

problems don't get solved unspoken. if she feels she have to lie then it's a sign of a bigger issue in you guys relationship... trust

I agree with franticnewmom.. But, we have been friends for over 20years and I think we probably out grew each other. But, I am trying not involve the kids because they have nothing to do with that. We haven't spoke about our issues at all. I just got tired of her selfish ways.

I wouldn't ask. If you wanted to do something for ur god daughter, that's what u do.

I wanted to do something for my goddaughter so I invited her to the circus which she had a good time even though she is 15 years old. I don't think she needed to lie since I am taking her child out.

What I'm saying is, pick ur battles. You love ur God daughter, regardless of how her mom acts. Shes lied, probably moved on about it seconds later and here u are on CM venting about it..seems like a lot of effort and brain power for something that's not that serious.

I wouldn't ask. If you wanted to do something for ur god daughter, that's what u do.

I wanted to do something for my goddaughter so I invited her to the circus which she had a good time even though she is 15 years old. I don't think she needed to lie since I am taking her child out.

What I'm saying is, pick ur battles. You love ur God daughter, regardless of how her mom acts. Shes lied, probably moved on about it seconds later and here u are on CM venting about it..seems like a lot of effort and brain power for something that's not that serious.

That's my point of me asking. If we're not talking why would you have to make a big deal to lie that you was working. It took me by surprise to see her car in the driveway.

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