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I think you may be falling for a psychological trick our brains can play on us. These affect everyone, regardless of intelligence, and are usually the result of our brain taking shortcuts and looking for patterns. In this case I would guess that you are experiencing the result of confirmation bias. Basically, once an idea takes hold in your mind, you can subconsciously interpret events to fit that view.

An example for the idea you mention, is that when you see a girl with a white guy, your brain adds that to the evidence behind your theory. But when you see a dark-skinned guy with a girl, your mind tosses that away as a rare exception to the rule. This is hard to notice, as it goes on in the background rather than as a conscious train of thought (meaning you can't fight it with logical consideration).

Another way this can manifest, is through a third factor variable. In this type of situation, an unknown factor could be affecting a situation in a way that makes two factors look connected.

An example: where I live, white people are the majority by a decent margin. With that known, let's look at a scenario. In a room with 10 guys in it, a representative ratio would be 8 white and 2 dark. If half of each set had girlfriends, you would see 4 white guys with girls but only 1 dark guy. Without knowing the population ratios, it would be easy to interpret the situation as showing that white guys are more successful with girls.

I don't think you are screwed. If you don't lose hope, and you play to your strengths, I think you might just find the right girl. And then you might get screwed. ;)

It's mostly white guys and girls general that are racist when it comes to dating while non white guys seem more open on average, now I mean on average not ALL girls but most are picky when it comes to race

White guys and girls of all races are racist towards non white guys, we ALL know that latin American women want to "whiten" their offspring and white women also want to keep their whiteness, what bothers me it that fact that many girls lie and just aren't honest this PC way of thinking is actually more harmful

I feel like the older you get and the more people you meet, the more you find that nobody knows what they are doing. I think stumbling through life trying hopelessly to figure it all out is the beauty of the human condition.

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No lol, we're not screwed. What matters most when it comes to women are the words that come out of your mouth. What you look like is often a secondary factor. Practise your game, and you'll have the most important part of attracting women down.