Thursday, June 24, 2010

This group is about Christian Modesty, Parenting and Homelife. It is open to Christian Ladies who believe in modest dress, wearing long hair, no make-up, little or no jewelry, and not wearing pants.

Whether you are Amish/Mennonite/Hutterite/Conservative Anabaptist, Old German Baptist Brethren/Dunkard, Conservative Friends/Quaker, Conservative/Primitive Baptist, Pentecostal/Apostolic Holiness, End-Time Message Believers, or any Christian faith (Orthodox Jewish women are also welcome!), that adheres to womenfolk's modesty, then you will feel welcomed here.

This forum is about you sisters, your children and your daily lives as Christian women...and i will leave the moderation to one of you.

God bless you.

TITUS 2:3-5 3 The aged women likewise, that they be in behaviour as becometh holiness, not false accusers, not given to much wine, teachers of good things; 4 That they may teach the young women to be sober, to love their husbands, to love their children, 5 To be discreet, chaste, keepers at home, good, obedient to their own husbands, that the word of God be not blasphemed.

Feminism is a deadly evil, responsible for most divorces today, especially in America! Feminism is so prevalent that many Christian families have been infiltrated with this destructive menace--virtually undetected. Feminism is very deceitful and subtle and has innocently crept into many Christian marriages, leading to a shocking number of divorces amongst professed Christians. We are living in an extremely sad time in history, when Christians are divorcing at the same rate as the unsaved. This is a direct result of feminism, which is a child of communism. Communism is the mother of feminism, abortion, birth control, childrenâ€™s rights, civil rights, and the homosexual movement.

â€œIn a recent book, Red Feminism: American Communism and the Making of Women's Liberation, (2002) feminist historian Kate Weigand states: "ideas, activists and traditions that emanated from the Communist movement of the forties and fifties continued to shape the direction of the new women's movement of the 1960s and later."(154)

In fact, Weigand, a lecturer at Smith College, shows that modern feminism is a direct outgrowth of American Communism. There is nothing that feminists said or did in the 1960's-1980's that wasn't prefigured in the CPUSA of the 1940's and 1950's. Many second-wave feminist leaders were "red diaper babies," the children of Communists.

Communists pioneered the political and cultural analysis of woman's oppression. They originated women's studies, and advocated public daycare, birth control, abortion and even children's rights. They forged key feminist concepts such as "the personal is the political" and techniques such as "consciousness raising." â€¦

In conclusion, the feminist pursuit of "equal rights" is a mask for an invidious Communist agenda. The Communist MO has always been deception, infiltration and subversion. The goal is the destruction of western civilization and creation of a new world order run by monopoly capital.â€

â€“Henry Makow, Ph. D. (http://www.savethemales.ca/000180.html)

The average Christian today is completely ignorant concerning these evils. It is my heartâ€™s desire to wake up as many people as possible to these evil conspiracies largely at work in society today. It is a sinful shame that so many people have stopped having big families because of the anti-family agendas at work in society today. From birth control to abortion, families are getting smaller and smaller â€¦ and the Communist New World Order leaders are happy. What, you didnâ€™t know they were Communists? They sure are! The 5th plank of Karl Marxâ€™s Communist manifesto called for a Federal Reserve System. The 10th plank of Karl Marxâ€™s work called for a public school system. The social engineer's of today's American society were all Communists. The public school system was born out of an antichrist, antifamily, and anti-country mentality. Here's a couple quotes from the godless social engineer, G. Brock Chisholm:

"To achieve world government, it is necessary to remove from the minds of men their individualism, loyalty to family tradition, national patriotism, and religious dogmas."

-George Brock Chisholm

"The re-interpretation and eventually eradication of the concept of right and wrong which has been the basis of child training, the substitution of intelligent and rational thinking for faith in the certainties of the old people, these are the belated objectives of practically all effective psychotherapy."

-George Brock Chisholm

America today is Karl Marxâ€™s dream come true; yet we Americanâ€™s still foolishly believe we are guaranteed perpetual freedom. I tell you, our freedoms are being diminished rapidly. The noose has been placed around our neck as a nation and is being ever so gently tightened, and one of these days we will find our selves hanging. The police state is being formed right under our noses in the name of â€œnational security.â€ In case you havenâ€™t figured it out yet, â€œterroristsâ€ are anyone who resists the government. Christians are already being labeled as â€œhomophobesâ€ and hate-mongersâ€ for preaching against homosexuality in public. Gay-marriages will soon be granted by federal law. Christ-honoring Christians will eventually be arrested, convicted, and imprisoned for â€œterrorizingâ€ homosexuals.

The Godly Woman verses the Feminist

So where does feminism fit into all of this? Several books could be written concerning the evils and destructive forces inherent to feminism. Feminism is anti-God, anti-marriage, and anti-family. What is feminism? Letâ€™s start with what feminism isnâ€™t. It is NOT womenâ€™s rights, as many have been deliberately misled to believe. God created man and woman equal in dignity, worth, and human rights. However, God did NOT create man and woman equal in authority. God clearly mandated that the husband would rule over his wife (Genesis 3:16, â€œâ€¦and thy desire shall be to thy husband, and he shall rule over theeâ€). This is the dividing line, the great barrier that separates God-fearing women from the feminist movement. In a word--AUTHORITY. The Godly wife obeys her husband. No husband is perfect, and the Godly woman understands this. She loves her husband, and is patient with him. She wills no evil towards him, and does her best to help him with his lifeâ€™s work (or keeps the house in order at home while heâ€™s at work). She is his â€œhelp meetâ€ (Genesis 2:18).

In sharp contrast, society today has become corrupted by government Communist programs designed to place women into the workplace, abort their children, and eliminate the role of homemaker. Never before have so many women chosen a career over being a homemaker and mother. The tool of â€œpolitical correctnessâ€ has been used extensively to place women into menâ€™s roles, for no reason other than to avoid discrimination lawsuits. Companies today operate in fear because of LAWS made by GOVERNMENT agencies. Women are being placed into the highest levels of government and corporate offices, and most are what I term â€œshe-men.â€ There are few things worse in my opinion, than a woman who takes on the disposition of an authoritative man. As a result of women performing menâ€™s jobs; the Biblical husband is facing increased hardships against a radically feminist-controlled government system, especially in the courts. Feminism is rebellion against the Word of God. Feminism is impatient, and seeks immediate divorce from a husband who exercises his authority over his wife. Feminism shows no mercy towards a faulty husband, and results in unforgiving divorce. Thatâ€™s what a divorce really isâ€”oneâ€™s unwillingness to forgive their spouse! No wife would ever divorce her husband if she truly loved himâ€”not one! I donâ€™t care if he beats her, she wonâ€™t divorce him (leave, yes; divorce, no). Say what you will, I donâ€™t recall any disclaimer in the wedding vows for spousal abuse which would permit a divorce. And by the way, there are NO Scriptural grounds for divorce.

Society Has Gone Insane

Women today have been brainwashed by domestic violence literature to seek divorce at the first sign of abuse. I was recently reading a pamphlet from an organization called VARO (Victimâ€™s Advocates Reaching Out). There are thousands of such non-prophet anti-violence and abuse organizations all across America. I couldnâ€™t believe what the VARO pamphlet said inside. There was a listing of â€œsigns of abuse,â€ with questions, and then at the bottom they requested for the reader to seek help at once if they answeredâ€ yesâ€ to any of the questions. One of the questions was, â€œIs your spouse tracking your time?â€ Another asked, â€œDoes your spouse ever make any belittling comments to you in front of others?â€ â€œAre you often criticized for little things?â€ Another question asked, â€œHas your spouse ever tried to prevent you from contacting friends or family?â€ One of the questions asked â€œHas your husband ever forced you to have sex against your will?â€ The implications are clearly against an authoritative husband who decides where, when, what, who, and why concerning his wifeâ€™s life, activates, and friends.

"Whoâ€™s teaching the women? We know that many socially conservative organizations are now teaching men to be good fathers. Think about it. Women are learning about issues of marriage and dealing with husbands through Womenâ€™s Studies courses (feminist and humanist propaganda), local â€œbattered womenâ€™s sheltersâ€ (which disseminate more of the same in each community) and many other kinds of organizations that teach women to be independentâ€”independent from husbands. Women are also taught by such organizations to know the incentives to divorce (propaganda and tactics that make divorce an easy lifestyle option for them). Most conservative organizations have been recipients of some of the same liberal, anti-family propagandaâ€”many without knowing it." -Men's News Daily

You probably wonâ€™t like this; but a husband has a God-given RIGHT to decide who his wife associates with, where she goes, when she goes there, when she has sex with him, how she dresses, etc. Now a loving husband will be fair, and desire for his wife to have a happy life; but the husband should have veto power in a marriage. I believe a husband who loves his wife will want to let her do what makes her happy most of the time. However, in those few decisions where the husband and wife disagree, the wife is commanded by God in the Bible to submit to her husband (Colossians 3:18). I am not advocating domestic violence; but a husband who tracks his wife's time, whereabouts, and associations is NOT being abusive--he is RULING over his wife as God expects him to.

Rebellious Feminists Divorce there Husbands

It is because of idiots, like the people running VARO, that so many women are filing for divorce. Notice in Genesis 3:16 that God said, â€œâ€¦and thy desire shall be to thy husband, and he shall rule over thee.â€ Eve didnâ€™t have VARO, a feminist court system, blood-sucking lawyers, feminist friends, meddling parents, heathen judges, Godless laws, shelters to run to, visitation houses, etc. If Eve didnâ€™t obey her husband, she was tough out of luck. Today, a woman living in America can CRUCIFY her husband if he tries to control her, which is his Biblical right. Feminism forbids a husband from controlling his wife in any manner; but God says the husband should have total control. Please understand that I am NOT advocating domestic violence, or abuse in any way. I am saying that feminists have deliberately redefined â€œabuseâ€ to indict the Biblical husband for exercising his God-given right. The feminists consider an authoritative husband â€œabusive.â€ If a husband feels that his mother-in-law is trying to meddle in his marriage, and he tells his wife to distance herself from her mother for a while, then the wife should comply. If a husband criticizes his wife for not cleaning the house, on a regular basis, feminism calls him â€œabusive.â€ In reality, a husband who goes to work, while his wife sits home, has every RIGHT to expect a clean house when he returns. Feminism is a direct attack on the authoritative husband--the Biblical husband. A Godly man is NOT hen-pecked, he stands his ground; but in love and patience towards his wife. Feminism refuses to allow a husband to rule over his wife as God commanded.

Society today is becoming increasingly hostile towards anyone who stands for God, Biblical truth, and genuine justice. Christians are increasingly being persecuted for exercising their Bill of Rights. Godly husbands, who control their wives (as 1st Timothy 3:4 states, â€œOne that ruleth well his own houseâ€¦â€) are being labeled as â€œabusive.â€ A husband is to RULE his wife and children. Feminism calls that abuse. Clearly, feminism and the Word of God are DIAMETRICALLY opposed to each other. The Devil is working relentlessly to corrupt America with immorality, divorce, and pornography. Feminism is the fueling factor behind the lesbian movement in America. Feminismâ€™s dead-end is lesbianism! As I mentioned earlier, Communism is behind feminismâ€¦

â€œIn her article The Planned Destruction of the Family, Erin Pizzey touches on the fact that the rhetoric and tactics of radical feminists are firmly rooted in communist ideological traditions (including terrorism - that includes terrorist bombings). In my mind the tactics and strategies of the radical feminists differ little from those used by the Nazis in the twenties and the early thirties to squelch their political opponents in their quest for power. However, Erin Pizzey also described that posters of Mao and Guevera were featured prominently in the living rooms of the middle-class, white, radical feminists who eventually usurped her Chiswick women's refuge and that these women liberally used communist phraseology in their rhetoric, even to the extent that they distributed copies of "The Little Red Book."â€ â€“Fathers for Life

Feminism isnâ€™t just a seemingly harmless word that male-chauvinists toss around; it is a war against the God-fearing husband who tries to rule his family. Feminism is rebellion!

Feminist â€œChristianâ€ Wives

It is tragic! Iâ€™ve never seen so many professed â€œChristianâ€ women leaving their husbands, and filing for divorce. This is why I said earlier that feminism has subtly crept into many Christian homes in America. The Godless court system in America has made it extremely easy for women to divorce their husbands, and take him to the cleaners financially. Women are provided with a free public lawyer, simply by claiming spousal abuse. The husband has no choice but to go into debt for $20,000 to hire an attorney (and most husbands still lose). The wife is provided free housing, food, transportation, and plenty of destructive heathen advice at any one of thousands of shelters across America. Where is a husband to go when his wife disobeys him and refuses to be a wife and a mother? The wife is automatically viewed and treated as the victim in a marriage dispute, while the husband is usually demonized by the entire system. Women are often provided free education, an apartment, welfare, etc.â€”everything she needs to abandon her husband and move on into the dream world of feminism.

Please donâ€™t misunderstand what I am saying; Iâ€™m not against helping a legitimately battered woman getting on her feet. However, many of the women claiming spousal abusive are shiftless, lazy, irresponsible, cut-throat women who simply exploit the system to leave their husband. Theyâ€™re looking for an easy way out. The system is often a â€œway outâ€ for careless and irresponsible women who leave their husbands holding the bag--the job, the mortgage, the kids, the problems, the debts, etc. Divorce is a horrible sin! Iâ€™ve known several women who just got tired and used â€œthe systemâ€ to escape their problematic marriage. But the husband cannot do that, as he has nowhere to goâ€”except back to work for another stressful day at the job. Feminism has provided wives and mothers with a way to escape responsibility, and hurt their husband legally. Iâ€™m so tired of hearing about â€œdeadbeatsâ€ dads. Do you know why there are hardly any deadbeat mothers? Itâ€™s because the court system goes after the breadwinnerâ€”the father. Did you ever stop to think that many of those fathers who refuse to pay child-support are doing so in PROTESTâ€”against an evil system that is trying to FORCE him to provide for his children ... while his wife shacks up with another man in adultery? Itâ€™s a matter of principal and a manâ€™s dignity. If a manâ€™s wife is rebellious against him, and she tries to hurt him further with the courts, it is not surprising to me that such men would refuse to cooperate with a Godless court order. In America, a woman is not expected to obey her husband. So when a man thinks he is marrying a â€œChristianâ€ woman who will obey him, and 10 years down the road she drags him into a heathen court system for a divorce, he is up a creek without a paddle. It is a frightening thing for a man to marry a woman in America nowadays.

The American court system is Godless, allowing wives to rebel against their husbands, and then expecting the husband to comply with court orders made by Godless judges in a rigged system. Should this be surprising in a court system that allows the murdering of millions of children through abortions? I think not. How about a system that breaks a manâ€™s door down, places a gun to his head, arrests him, confiscate his property, imprisons himâ€”all because he had some plants (Marijuana) in his home; but that same system allows itâ€™s militarized thugs to get plastered on Jack Daniels legally? What hypocrites! This is the American court system. In one east coast court room, a convicted child-molester is sentenced to probation; yet in another courtroom across the country, a man is sentenced to 50 years in prison (in California) for stealing some video tapes of Snow White and Free Willy. Feminism is flourishing in this corrupted, unjust, and Godless court system, and husbands are getting pulverized in court.

Christian wives in America are in a unique situation where they can either obey their husbands, or jump on the feminist bandwagon and crucify their husbands in court. In poorer parts of the world today, wives are far more reluctant to divorce or drag their husbands into courtâ€”because theyâ€™ll starve without the breadwinner. Thus, women are forced into submission for economic reasons. This is far closer to being right than the rebellious evil divorce system in America. The feminism which has infested Americaâ€™s homes is destructive. Although some statistical groups have challenged the 50% divorce rate, the actual divorce rate is no less than 41-43%. Is it really worth arguing whether the divorce rate is 38% or 52%? There is NO argument that at least one-third of all divorces now end in divorce. Furthermore, what all of these organizations who contest the 50% divorce rate FAIL to consider, is the fact that more people are choosing to shack-up together nowadays than get married at all. From a moral standpoint, this is disgraceful of America as a nation. It requires more than just a casual willingness, on the part of Christian wives, to obey their husbands nowadays. It requires the commitment of a martyr! I will die before I divorce! Every Christian wife should vow to NEVER divorce her husband! She may need to leave for a while; but divorce is out of the question. I know a born-again man whose â€œChristianâ€ wife looked him in the eye, after 18 years of marriage, and said, â€œI donâ€™t love you anymore.â€ He had never heard her say that before in all the years they were married. He said he cried uncontrollably in the back of their home. Less than 6-months later she abandoned him and the kids, and filed for divorce. He was devastated. Do you think this is acceptable to the Lord? Do you think God approves of a "Christian" wife filing for divorce? Wasnâ€™t it God in Hebrews 13:5 who PROMISED that He would â€œnever leave us, nor forsake usâ€? Yes, that is exactly what God has promised to every believer. If Jesus Christ is our Example, and He certainly should be, then we should honor the very same commitment to our spouse that God has given to us â€” I will NEVER leave you, nor forsake you â€¦ no matter what!!!

Has feminism crept into your marriage? Are you continually threatening your husband with divorce? Are you thinking about it? Feminism is a POISON ladiesâ€”a poison of the mind. Feminism poisons a wifeâ€™s mind to believe that she is a victim, who needs to be liberated. Women are more than twice as likely to file for divorce than men. MOST women today who divorce their husbands were NOT victims of anything, except their own worldliness, stubbornness, bad attitudes, selfishness, and sinful pride. Every marriage has problems. Jesus was willing to become a victim for our sins. Jesus allowed Himself to be beaten, spit upon, mocked, scourged, and crucified. Why is it then that we are so quick to file for divorce? Instead of looking for greener pastures, try planting some of your own grass. Donâ€™t allow feminism to rob you of your marriage. Donâ€™t throw away your husband. You PROMISED â€œâ€™til death do us part.â€

Sunday, June 13, 2010

This group is about Christian Modesty, Parenting and Homelife. It is open to Christian Ladies who believe in modest dress, wearing long hair, no make-up, little or no jewelry, and not wearing pants.

Whether you are Amish, Mennonite/Conservative Anabaptist, Conservative Quaker, Dunkard, Hutterite, Primitive/Conservative Baptist, Pentecostal/Apostolic Holiness, or any faith that adheres to womenfolk's modesty, then you will feel welcomed here.

This forum is about you sisters, your children and your daily lives as Christian women...and i will leave the moderation to one of you.

God bless you.

TITUS 2:3-5 3 The aged women likewise, that they be in behaviour as becometh holiness, not false accusers, not given to much wine, teachers of good things; 4 That they may teach the young women to be sober, to love their husbands, to love their children, 5 To be discreet, chaste, keepers at home, good, obedient to their own husbands, that the word of God be not blasphemed.

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