Have you &nbsp;been spyed out because of your monster?

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sven_gay: What have people done to get a look of your overzised dick or nuts? In school, in bathrooms, by sport, in toiletts? What do they do and what do they say. What where your first expirienses with that? Do you liked it?

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1811: moved their lockers to my corridor in gym class, linger around after they've changed if i'm still changing.. or at the urinal, blatant staring until recently anyways. everyone seems to be putting up those partitions, they're all the rage now.

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AUncut10in: Stuff happens to me all the time. Iam sure it does for most of us guys. One of the most blatant ones I remeber was at a Stanford Football Game. I went to the restroom to take a piss. They had one of those long troughs where everyone just pees together. Well the guy next to me was checking out my cock and got totally hard. Then, with everyone around all taking a piss, this guy starts jerkin off till he shot his load. Everyone was watching him jerking off looking at my dick.

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I have been ogled by a lot of guys. Some are discreet and others are blatant. Unless the blatant ones are very hot, I walk away. When it first started happening, I would always avoid the ogler. Then this phenomenal dude got really turned on while showering next to me and I had a bit if a change of heart about it.

One of the things that has always puzzled me is the hot guy who is very obvious about checking out my cock, but then, when given the chance to take it to the next step acts like it is the furthest thing from his mind. That one, I will never understand.

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belcurv: [quote author=dable_wi link=board=meetgreet;num=1070496781;start=0#5 date=12/04/03 at 18:36:38]One of the things that has always puzzled me is the hot guy who is very obvious about checking out my cock, but then, when given the chance to take it to the next step acts like it is the furthest thing from his mind. That one, I will never understand.[/quote]

NOW HEAR THIS:
You guys just don't get it.
I'll explain it to you.
I've been in this situation.
What happens is, simply, we are "star struck." In my line of work I've met a number of major stars, rock stars, movie stars... including the Clash and the Rolling Stones when they were still at their peaks in the early 80s... I met the entire NY Yankees team including a really funny ride with Billy Martin...
And the funny thing, I never felt the least bit intimidated by their fame or in awe of it. I just saw them as people who happened to have great talents and jobs that called for being famous.
But when I met super-hung porn star Scott O'Hara I went dumb. I was totally tongue-tied. I could hardly put together a half sentence. I felt like a 1963 school girl meeting her favorite Beatle.

The same kind of thing has happened in the showers, when a super hung dude cruised me. I was often TOO impressed, too nervous, too in awe, wanted him too much, to follow through.

This same thing happened the first time I had sex with the most well endowed partners I was with. I was too preoccupied with worrying about whether I would be "good enough for them" to relax and enjoy it. There was usually a second time, and things went quite a bit better, but it would have taken a couple more times to really hit it and be totally myself. I never thought of the large penis as a mere object to grab and use and get off on selfishly. I thought of the man who was so gifted as someone I was intrigued by and wanted to know and hopefully develop something with FIRST and then move into a hot, longlasting thing.

I've always wished I could tell this to the super-hung! I could tell they had no idea but couldn't find any way to bring it up. What I wanted to say more than this was:
1) "size queens" who are so vocal or blatant about expressing their appreciation of size may actually appreciate you in the least romantic, least sophisticated, most superficial way, and those of us who experience my kind of response DO think of you as special people with an incredible gift, so can't imagine treating you so rudely, and may go overboard in overcompensating for this, meaning the exact people you would have the deepest most fun time with are exactly the ones you will never meet;
2) if someone seems standoffish or even has a strange expression on his face but your instinct is that he is attracted to you, consider cautiously making an extra effort to be friendly and open up a dialogue with them... try putting them at ease and see if they light up. They may just be too wowed by you and too worried about offending you to be direct on that first contact. And if I am any example, then we would make some of the most devoted, tuned in lovers you might ever find. I quite often saw well hung men I liked being spirited off by the easiest catch of the day, falling into pretty shallow relationships. Some of the best romances are those in which the other is hard to get.

[quote author=belcurv link=board=meetgreet;num=1070496781;start=0#6 date=12/05/03 at 18:25:45] if someone seems standoffish or even has a strange expression on his face but your instinct is that he is attracted to you, consider cautiously making an extra effort to be friendly and open up a dialogue with them... I quite often saw well hung men I liked being spirited off by the easiest catch of the day, falling into pretty shallow relationships. [/quote]

If a guy is attracted to me and wants to hook up with me solely because I have a big cock ... I can't imagine a 'relationship' more shallow than that.

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meathose10: VERY astute , belcurve!
The term 'star-struck' made me grin. I have always considered the male attention my genital weight elicits as simply being anatomically admired. Well , actually , not always..... It's obvious a huge cock swinging heavily in a locker room makes a lot of guys uncomfortable.It can't help but attract attention. I've even thought I perceived a scornful anger from guys with little dicks. I used to worry I'd seem arrogant if it seemed I was enjoying my good fortune. (As if I have any control over all this hang tugging at my groin)
Know what? I was wrong. I think many men think their admiration will be misconceived - either as sexual or as bitterly envious. Of course I've always received periodic awed comments , but have more often felt almost shunned because my penis is so big. Eventually I started to relax. I'd try to engage guys in general conversation.( NOT about cock size! )My efforts were almost always welcomed. It's as if I felt a psychological sigh of relief from these nervous guys once I was open and friendly. And then once I make a buddy , standing a foot or two away from him with a thick dangler slopping around in the shower isn't a threat. And invariably they'll stare at it openly. Got to admit I like that attention. I'm proud of my unusually large size. Why shouldn't I be? It often becomes semi-engorged when I'm openly ogled. No problem there , either. Just longer looks. I've made a few close friends with some meagerly endowed men who seemed initially 'stand-offish'. So everybody wins.