Complaining to a Friend Who Is Grieving

Question

I was venting to an acquaintance about an annoying spat with my mom. Suddenly I remembered that she recently lost her mom. I feel terrible!

Answer

This is an honest mistake. Your sensitivity will be obvious  although expressed a bit late  if you say something like "I'm so sorry! I shouldn't complain about my mother when you've just lost yours." Then ask your friend how she's doing, and be ready to change the subject if she opts not to discuss what she's feeling.

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