pronouns: she/her or them/they (either is fine)
I have anxiety. I’m not going to be all up in your face about it, but I am putting that fact about me here.
I’m pan. That’s it. Nothing fancy.
If I make a dark joke, don’t take it offensively or personally. It’s my sense of humor, and if it bothers you, tell me, it’s fine. If I insult you, it’s probably a joke, but if it bothers you I’ll stop.