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We are not all the same. Different men want different things. You need to forget about what 'real' men want. Instead focus on what kind of man you want. Once you have that done, then you MIGHT ask them what kind of women they are looking for.

One smart thing to do is to focus on the NEGATIVES, not the positives. I.E. if you go looking for a tall man and you will be competeing with all the other women looking for the tall men. Most likely you will end up with the worst possible tall man.

But if you go looking for a guy that is short, that not fat, then you are more likely to get what you want. Or fat but not short. Either way, you get better results. The women that puts "tall fat guys welcome" gets a lot more responses than the gal that says "I like tall men." Because there will be some tall, fat guy out there despairing that women he askes out always say "too fat".

Men typically are liars so ur kinda wasting ur time until u find a real man most men want the obvious to talk a good game say whatevers gotta be said to get inside your pants get it done and kick rocks or screw ur friends typically but why not for the sake of answering your question what i want is happiness a wife and kids someone to hold as i sleep someone to wake up next to who smiles each time she's near me someone who can be honest and loyal and not screw my friends or play bs games just saying that's what i want

I totally agree with you,That is what attracted my late husband to me,I was a Mary Ann and still looked as good as ginger when needed to be,I played soccer,I bait my own hook,I am certified PADI diver ,I worked construction 30 years,operated chop saws, hammer drills,I was the first woman bridge builder I love my life,A little independent,guys don't like that,It's ALL good.I'm happy when I wake up,because I'm still breathing and alive,Be happy with the simple things in Life,Best of Luck to all searching for that Love of your Life

A real man wants the type of woman that isn't afraid to be herself. we want the best of both worlds, we want a woman that can be "one of the boys", but yet still have class, and feminine attributes. We want a woman that will not sit still and quiet around our family and friends, but add life to the party and be outgoing. we want a woman that is not afraid to get dirty when we want to go fishing, or go to other outdoor events. we want a woman who has spunk, that is not afraid to speak her mind, last but not least a woman that can throw down in the kicken. ^_^

Men who are sincere and looking for a longlasting relationship are looking for a woman who will not criticize him judge him or emasculate him. Who will:
value him
support him
affirm him
encourage him
acknowledge him

Lastly, He is looking for a woman who doesn't think it is all about her and what he can do for her. He wants to know it but doesn't want her to know it or show it. This is rare but possible. And makes for a dynamic and loving relationship

Did I say Value him...

And he better do very much the same toward her or she needs to keep looking.

But if the guy is not sincere all bets are off and its just another one night stand. Both should not expect anything more than what they are willing to give.