I just got married last 3 months and my wife have not allowed me touch her for one day even during our wedding night. She said she was raped as a kid and the memories won't let her open her legs for me.I have been patient and calm with her since I have forever to have her body but something keeps making me wonder.i have caught my wife on several occasions using sex toys and different object to satisfy herself and I keep wondering.I have been mute about the whole situation but it is getting out of hand.I tried to speak to her about it but she keeps saying am sorry am sorry, why can't I touch the woman I got married to for solid 3 months of marriage, am really getting worried about the situation .Will it be harsh of me if I give her a mandate for her to open her legs ?Or give her more time ,But why will my wife prefer to use an object than make love to me ?I just need answers .