I'm not saying he is sexually insecure: indeed, with the right woman he may be easygoing, studly and confident.A correlation seems likely, but the published data doesn’t cross-reference age with emoji use and relative arousal, so it’s difficult to looked at 9 million tweets and determined that their usage is heavily gendered: In the U.S., women were far more likely to use any emoji containing lips or a heart, while dudes preferred the ubiquitous phallic eggplant. Let's assume he finds you to be above some basic threshold of attractiveness -- what other factors come into play?Well, as odd as it may sound, you are being checked out in a number of ways to determine whether you are too intimidating.But therein lies the rub: how does he know which women are "right"?