Bereavement Support Group

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I miss My brother so much!!!!!!

I still cant get over my brother is really gone.... Its been 3 weeks since is death.Everthing I am going though i always say i can call my brother but then i relized he is gone... then i start crying.... I have been though alot and my brother has been though it all and now he gone!!!!! i am start crying again. But i know.It was so hard saying Good bye... but now it is settleing in... AHHH i am getting grief help but its not the same.
I miss my brother he knew what i was about it and knew me like no one else!!!!

I'm so sorry to hear of your loss, there's really nothing anyone could say to make it all better. Just know that your brother would have wanted you to be happy. Do something nice for yourself, and just know that we're here if you want to talk.

i know what you mean. you could besurrounded by hundreds of people and feel all alone. i feel like when my sister died she took my happiness with her and im afraid ill never get it back. its a double whammy when you lose your best friend and a brother or in my case sister. he will always be there with you and he will always know you better than any one else. hold your memories close to you because the good times you had will help you get through the hard ones to come. you are in my prayers.

I'm sorry about your brother, I know how you feel. My father died 12/30/06 and at times it doesn't seem real. You will go through all kinds of emotions so just take it easy if you can. If you need to talk I'm here.

I am so sorry ! I alost my daddy June 16th, just a few weeks ago also, There are no words to explain the hurt we both are going through, people here at DS have helped me alot! They are always there no matter what.I was very close to my daddy, he was retired and I am at home so we done alot of things together, there is such an emptiness in my heart that I don't think will ever go away, I know I will learn how to handle things better in time , but right now, it still doesn't seem real and I am so scared that the day that I wake up and I feel like it is real.... What will happen to me then if I am so bad now!!! We have too look to the LORD for strenght, HE is the only one who can give the amount of strenght we need right now. I am praying for you and if you ever need to talk I am here for you!! I mean that o.k. Take care of yourself!
Lori

I loss my sister 7 mo ago and am still in the first stage of grieving. It is hard to believe that I will never see her again. I cry alot and am so tired of doing so. It doesn't take much to make the memories flow. Just know that there is someone who knows how you are feeling.

I lost my brother 12 years ago. The grief will soften. Dont rush it, cry and write and stay on all that. And dont let anyone tell you to &quot;get over it&quot; its a big deal. Learn from his life to gain peace. I wrote poetry and learned a huge lesson from my loss. I live every day trying to enjoy life a little in some way. Peace takes time. Talk about it and write about it to anyone who will listen and let go of people who wont. You will grow closer to those who care...and the others are not worth your energy. Crying is helpfl. I enjoyed &quot;breaking stuff&quot; and yelling and screaming at God, that helped a whole lot..CHurch helped but not for about 6 months for me, I just kept crying in church. Relish the memories, talk about him to other people the cool memories, thats what you have for now. When I miss my brother I pray to dream about him and those dreams bring peace, closure, and comfort.

My mom passed 2 months ago on May 10th - I know what you are going through! I to want to pick up the telephone and call her, but I know she wont be there. They say &quot;Time heals all wounds&quot; - but, it sure hurts waiting! Be strong - contact me if you want to chat.

Yeah, getting help is such a weak way of filling the hole left by your best friend. I lost mine just before Thanksgiving 2005. All this time later I still think, &quot;I have to write that in my next letter to him...&quot; then whennI get to the mailbox and there's nothing in there from him, I feel so empty inside. They didn't make two like him.

i know how it feels to lose a brother , mine died in a car accident two days after christmas, i didn't get to say bye to him ,and that was so hard! but either way its hard, time heals , but the memory goes on! i will keep you in my prayers!

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