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Attraction

What is it that initially attracted you to your DH and what keeps you attracted now? As time goes by, I have a harder time finding myself attracted to DH. His weight yo-yo doesn't help, but he has never been a small guy. I just feel like some of that emotional interplay and flirting is missing....

First time I met my now husband...I thought he was ugly and not very attractive on the outside. A few days later, I had just gotten my lunch and turned around to look for a seat when he came up and said "there's a spot next to us at our table if you'd like," which...I'd never had a guy be nice like that to me before. It was very refreshing. We eventually started hanging out together and became very good friends...and of course things went from there.

So my story is to say...attraction doesn't have to be something outward in appearance. For me, its definitely his inward beauty and love that keeps me with him.

what attracted him to me is that he was a guy with his own place. I was still in high school and he was someone to go to when I wanted to get away from them. now I'm not so sure what it is, but I guess there is something because we're still together.

First of all his heighth, 6'4", his gorgeous brown eyes, and his bronze tan. Now it is his faithfulness and support to me and the boys and he is my best friend and we can talk about everything. We have alot of fu together. I could not imagine my life without him.

His easy smile, his gorgeous blue eyes, and his open, friendly personality were what attracted me to him in the first place. All that is still there, but now it's so much deeper than that- his big heart, his love for our children, his killer work ethics... He's just an awesome guy :)