Re: Tips on how to not bust my load in FL so quickly?

I'd say the only method to prevent yourself from shooting your load is to never put your cock in a Fleshlight . But yeah, I own a Heavenly and STU and both are intense.

The only way to keep from cumming is edging, which takes a lot of self control. Last night I was having a session with my STU and after thirty four minutes, I edged once and then after re entering, I came within a few minutes. Edging is really fun to test out and it builds up your sensation until you finally blow. On a good day, I like to edge 7+ times. You're basically teasing your cock over and over til you cum.

Try it out with your Destroya, I guarantee you'll end up lasting a while and enjoy when you finally cum.

Re: Tips on how to not bust my load in FL so quickly?

Kegels are key to lasting longer. This strengthens the muscles which are used when you ejaculate. This will allow you to have more control over your orgasms. By strengthening the muscles, you can learn to squeeze them to reduce your level of arousal and gain more control over when you cum.

Next up is a proper training routine. I would suggest that you stroke up to orgasm but do not cum at least 4-5 times each time you FLy. The idea is that you reach the edge, stop all stimulating and let yourself subside, and then repeat. Each time you do this it will feel better and better, but you are now training yourself to last longer. When you do cum, it will feel a lot more intense as well.

The last thing I would do is exercise. Being fit can really help you with control. Not only will you feel better, but you'll feel more pleasure from your FLights.

Re: Tips on how to not bust my load in FL so quickly?

Originally Posted by orlandot94

Kegels are key to lasting longer. This strengthens the muscles which are used when you ejaculate. This will allow you to have more control over your orgasms. By strengthening the muscles, you can learn to squeeze them to reduce your level of arousal and gain more control over when you cum.

I second the kegels. Being able to completely stop your urine flow multiple times should show that you have control in this area.

Re: Tips on how to not bust my load in FL so quickly?

You can take your pick of good "tools" for kegel training from aneros. You basically use your kegel muscle to move most of their toys back and forth across your prostate, which has the benefit of feeling pretty fucking awesome. Just remember to use lots of lube, too much is almost enough, and if you get one of their silicone toys, not to use silicone lube.

Re: Tips on how to not bust my load in FL so quickly?

Also keep in mind that psychology has a lot to do with your performance as well! How often did we get wet dreams as teenagers with no stimulus at all besides a dream? That is the largest key, but the physical stuff can't be ruled out at all, practice makes perfect there. When you exercise with the techniques more, you will become more confident in your abilities which should translate to psychological stamina as well as physical stamina.

Plain ol exercise helps a lot too, the endorphins and serotonin you get from exercise will definitely make you feel more confident in your abilities. I'm at my best when I exercise the most!

Re: Tips on how to not bust my load in FL so quickly?

How to learn how to keep your sperm in your balls? What about masturbating more? :P
STU and Heavenly... man. The initial super-tight section in Heavenly is hard for me.
Surprisingly Destroya is super-easy for me. It's just too interesting, I cannot get enough of it, it's so fun I hope my future girlfriend feels like it. And that's a bit fucked up IMHO!

Re: Tips on how to not bust my load in FL so quickly?

Originally Posted by IWFly

How to learn how to keep your sperm in your balls? What about masturbating more? :P
STU and Heavenly... man. The initial super-tight section in Heavenly is hard for me.
Surprisingly Destroya is super-easy for me. It's just too interesting, I cannot get enough of it, it's so fun I hope my future girlfriend feels like it. And that's a bit fucked up IMHO!

I second the STU and Heavenly. I got the Heavenly back in November and the STU maybe a month ago. I used to last under ten minutes on average in the Heavenly but since I've been rotating between the two sleeves, my stamina has improved immensely. To put it in perspective, I ended up lasting 40 minutes in my Heavenly last night.

If you can get your hands on the STU you won't be sorry. It doesn't automatically train your cock, you'll have to practice edging and controlling yourself, but with a little time you should notice some results.

Re: Tips on how to not bust my load in FL so quickly?

Plain ol exercise helps a lot too, the endorphins and serotonin you get from exercise will definitely make you feel more confident in your abilities. I'm at my best when I exercise the most!

I will second this. I am, by no means, an athlete but I do jog 2 or 3 miles at least 4 days a week. Plus, my job requires a lot of physical labor so I get a pretty decent amount of exercise. I've been using Fleshlights for a couple of years now and I can edge for an hour easily now. Learning to make it last is, to me, much better than just popping several shots off. Edging makes for the most INTENSE orgasms!!!

Re: Tips on how to not bust my load in FL so quickly?

Heavenly, tornado, Bi-Hive and some of the other smooth textures I can ride out for a while with out cumming to fast. However Bliss gets me every time. I find it extremely hard to edge with bliss. I can go from 0 to 60 in one good stroke if I am not careful. Everyone has that sensation they fine with a fleshlight that can just take you over the top.

Re: Tips on how to not bust my load in FL so quickly?

Originally Posted by "T"

Heavenly, tornado, Bi-Hive and some of the other smooth textures I can ride out for a while with out cumming to fast. However Bliss gets me every time. I find it extremely hard to edge with bliss. I can go from 0 to 60 in one good stroke if I am not careful. Everyone has that sensation they fine with a fleshlight that can just take you over the top.

Those are some good suggestions, for me though even the smooth textures can take me from 0 to 60 in less than 5 minutes lol. Another suggestion would to masturbate more often since i find that the more frequently i do it the less sensitive I am, but I typically FLy about 3 times a week because I like feeling sensitive.

Re: Tips on how to not bust my load in FL so quickly?

I have the same problem with cumming quickly when using my fleshlights. The one thing that seems to work best for me is reading porn while flying. I enjoy reading the small letters magazines that you can buy and it seems to distract me just enough that I can last longer. Even though I bought my first Fleshlight about a year ago, I haven't taken the time to try to learn to edge and make my sessions last longer. I tried contracting my kegel muscles and it seems to just set me off quicker. Also I find that if I am stroking I go off quicker than if I am thrusting. I have a waterbed so sometimes i will hold the fleshlight still and thrust up with my hips instead of stroking with my hand and can last longer that way. Seeing as how many people have recommended the heavenly and STU in this thread, I may have to see about getting them once I cna get some bills paid off, but I have enough other Fleshlights to keep me happy for now.

Re: Tips on how to not bust my load in FL so quickly?

Originally Posted by Cyberwolffe

I tried contracting my kegel muscles and it seems to just set me off quicker.

They will have that effect, especially if you do them right before you fly. I'm currently working on my PC muscles (trying to shoot, not spurt ) and if I do them right before I fly, my stamina drastically reduces. Don't let that stop you from kegeling though, you just don't want to fly to soon after them.