Hi everyone,
Received some news on last night that I actually wasn't ready for at
all, as I have stated before in one of my forums about my mom sickness,
well my eldest brother was diagnosed with Sarcoidosis. I don't know how
to feel because when being strong is your only option you learn to be
just that.

I'm sorry to hear about your brother!! I have 5 brothers and they are my
world!! I remember when my oldest brother got shot... I literally
couldn't breathe for about 2 hours.. I hyperventilated and tried to walk
outside and calm down.. And when my mother had bronchitis and strep
throat at the same time, but they couldn't figure that out, so she laid
in bed for about a month.. She was shivering and sweating and she
couldn't move her body at all.. She wouldn't eat and I had to bathe her,
but I knew she'd get better..

I can't imagine having to deal with family members so close being sick
indefinitely. But you're right.. you have to be strong.. for them.. and
they will need all the help they can get. It will be hard, but consider
it a blessing that you are healthy enough to help them. I heard things
like natural herbs and yoga may help to alleviate some of the symptoms
of sarcoidosis. Try that.. and, of course, your brother will have to
watch what he eats...

I'm so sorry to hear about your brother. It happened very recently, so
it's a lot to take in right now. I know it's easier said than done, but
please be strong for him and your family. I think with each day it gets
a little easier. Just focus on doing what you can to be there for him
and give him what he needs. In spite of the situation, seeing him happy
will make things a little better. Also make sure not to neglect
yourself. It's easy to do when you're worried about someone else. I wish
you and your family nothing but the best.