Cool Mom Slips Note Under Door After Walking In On Son Having Sex With Boyfriend

Marc is one lucky 19-year-old gay. If my mom had walked in on me during sex with my boyfriend as a teen, she would've quickly executed a sign of the cross before backing out slowly, mouth agape. She'd then be the happy guarantor on years-worth of therapy bills.

But not Marc's mom.

Marc's mom walked in during an amorous moment and slipped a "hey, I'm a Cool Mom" kind of note under the door minutes later.

My boyfriend an I were staying at my parents home for a weekend a few years ago. It was early morning when mom came into the room we shared to tell me they were leaving to the store. When I heard the car leave the driveway we both seemed to have the same idea to take the opportunity to do it before they got back. We were deeply involved when the door came open and mom started in asking about breakfast- SHE HAD STAYED BEHIND! Too late to cover but mom only said "Oops! So that's the way boys do it!", laughed and closed the door behind her. Nothing was ever said about it but the grins and winks were loud enough. I love my mom =)

He is Gay...not broken. He can still be a doctor or join the circus. Mom being buzzed is a pretty good excuse.....maybe she really didn't know what to say. Any mom walking in on her son having sex can be un-nerving for any mom.

Dylan funny how much you "hate" gays, yet you are trolling a gay website. Does it make your hardon go away when you right hateful things about the men who get your cock hard. Have some BALLS USE YOUR REAL NAME!

Dylan funny how much you "hate" gays, yet you are trolling a gay website. Does it make your hardon go away when you right hateful things about the men who get your cock hard. Have some BALLS USE YOUR REAL NAME!

MITT ROMNEY WAS RIGHT. " MARRIAGE IS BETWEEN A MAN AND A WOMAN. OBAMA AND BIDEN ARE A GAY COUPLE. YUCK. I SALUTE THE RUSSIAN AUTHORITIES. THEY KICKED SOME FILTHY HOMOSEXUAL BUTT DURING THE THE OLYMPICS. WE NEED A NEW PRESIDENT WHO'S A REAL MAN . NOT A FAGGOT LOVIN MORON. DISGUSTING

Correct me if I'm wrong but are you religious by any chance?
If so, doesn't your religion preach tolerance? How about you practice homosexuality seeing as how you are that against it you are obviously questioning your own sexuality 24/7 giving you the need to try and show others that you are not gay by slandering a population that you know nothing about.
And please, pick up a thesaurus and go back to school you un-educated child.

For this reason God gave them up to dishonorable passions. For their women exchanged natural relations for those that are contrary to nature; and the men likewise gave up natural relations with women and were consumed with passion for one another, men committing shameless acts with men and receiving in themselves the due penalty for their error. And since they did not see fit to acknowledge God, God gave them up to a debased mind to do what ought not to be done.

But nowhere in that passage does it say death to them or that they are going to hell this passahe has neen taken out of context so many times it sickning there are also two passages i like they state " no sin is greater than any other" and " for all have fallen and come short to the glory of god" in other words clean your own shoes befor you talk about the shit somebody else stepped in o and by the way im a gay theology major

OMG! Even my very conservative Christian family, parents included, do not wish that homosexuals would die. They love me for who I am. They may not understand me, or agree with my stance, but they have made it very clear that they will ALWAYS love me. They also don't hide their gay son/brother from their conservative friends. They have told/shown me that true Christians act like Christ who loved EVERYONE! Maybe you should go back to the Bible and ask yourself, would Christ want us to die, or did he die for us?

Tom, I commend your noble effort to appeal to a Christian's sensibilities but as is self apparent, Dylan is *not* a real Christian. He is only pretending to be one by copying and pasting talking points he read somewhere to prop up his unnatural hatred toward gay man. He has a real dilemma; he has a same sex attraction himself, hates that part of himself and the only way he knows how to deal with it is to bash happy innocent and normal gay people. Jealousy and self-loathing are classic traits of homophobics as they obsess about gay men and seek out places they can anonymously confront gay mean without disclosure or repercussion.... such as he has done here. I suppose we should pity him but the fight or flight part of me wants to attack him. However that would be giving him the very thing he desires so much- contact with a gay man ;-)

Dylan, since you are obviously searching in the wrong place for gay related articles to read allow me to direct you to the correct web site where you can read all the gay porn that you desire. nifty dot org. Now, go away and read your porn and do what it is that you toad people do when you crawl out from under your rocks.

That's only what your bedtime story book sais.
That is all it is, a story book.
How about you read up and learn about the lost scriptures (the text that was left out of the original copy of the bible you have in your hand), only then you will see the true form of your lord and saviour. It also mentions in Leviticus that you should not alter your body in any of its forms, this includes cutting hair and getting tattoos, why don't you read it all instead of just picking out the sections that suit your in-bred armada of hate.

Dylan - there is nothing Holy or Christian about your language in this forum and the venomous way your are spewing it. You are the epitome of the "stereotypical hate mongering so-called" Christian and you make everyone of Faith look horrible. I recommend you pull out the New Testament and start finding the true meaning of Grace, for everyone around you and for yourself. As a Mother, I do not necessarily agree with this Mother's position, simply because I do not want to be that close to my son and daughter's private physical life and I have more interest in helping them make good decisions, than being "cool"... but, regardless of what you believe in or do not believe in... Love does not sound anything like the things you wrote here... neither do some of their responses, but I can certainly understand how your words drew them out. PEACE!

Back on the subject of this article I applaud this guy's mother for her support?!? While my mother didn't slip a note under the door when this happened to me nearly 30 years ago when I was a teen however it made telling my parents that I'm gay a moot subject! LOL. Although my Mom's reaction wasn't one of laughter but that of disbelieve. She thought is was just a phase but after my first boyfriend was living with me a couple years later when I was living on my own I think she got the message that it wasn't just a phase.

I watched a program on the History Channel that researched the Bible. Sodom and Ghomorrah were never linked to homosexuality. It's the other way around; bible thumpers started calling homosexuals sodomites because of the perceived immorality of those two cities. Also, they weren't amoral because of homosexuality, they were immoral because no one invited (moses? I forget.) and his family into their homes and they treated them like outsiders instead of the standard form of human respect which the Bible teaches.

On a seperate note, scientists have been anylizing the destruction of those two cities, as well as others that have happend. For example, in Egypt when the sea went red, it was more than likely a huge algae bloom. Look at the North East of America and Canada, it happens there too. The whole event with everyone's first born son dying and then the cattle happened because the food wasn't taken care of properly and started growing mold, like what happened in Salem during the witch trials. The first born son was culturally the first to eat, and the mold sat on TOP of the grain so everyone that ate after him didn't get the mold. The same food was also used to feed the cattle which is why THEY died.

As for the destruction itself of Soddom and Ghomorrah (however you spell it), there is a good amount of evidence based of recorded events in the middle east that show a small asteroid impact occured around Austria. When that happened, using science, they were able to deduce the weather patterns and the fact that the debris from the impact is what rained down upon that general area of the planet. It was a random event from an asteroid that probably came from another collision between two larger asteroids in our asteroid belt. One similar incidence happened in Russia around 1908, and the asteroid was only a couple hundred feet big. It caused so much damage because the asteroid or comet exploded just before reaching the ground, flattening hundreds of square miles of forest. It had the explosive force 1000 times greater than the bomb that destroyed Hiroshima, roughly equivilant to about 13-20 megatons of TNT exploding at one time.

Also, a monogomous gay relationship isn't a perversion, it's the expression of the human desire and need for companionship. In addition, there is lots of scientific evidence that supports that a human being's sexuality is determined by genetic markers in DNA, which is created before birth, meaning it is NOT a choice. As far as I understand religion, that's God's work right? So it stands to reason that God probably created Gay people as a natural form of birth control so we don't OVER populate the planet. It hasn't worked though because Gays have been forced into hiding for hundreds upon thousands of years thanks to ignornat interpretaion of religion.

God created the Earth, it's solar system, and the Universe. Therefore God ALSO created the science that governs all things, from physics to genetics. That said, denying the science behind these things is like denying God him/herself. If you do choose to deny it, that's okay; the great thing about science is that you don't have to like or agree, or even believe it, but it is ALWAYS there and right no matter what your opinion.

Also to point out, Jesus never condemned gays or even said anything about them in his original teachings. Leviticus, a HUMAN, wrote that into the bible after it had ALREADY been rewritten by more humans. A lot of religious and educated scholars have interpreted his passage about a man lying with another man as more about property rights, as women were treated as property like cattle were. He also states that you may not wear fabric woven from different cloths and eating shellfish as a sin, right before that particular passage bible thumpers love to tote. Hope you've never bought any clothes from Old Navy, Gap, etc, and have never eaten a shrimp, clam, or lobster.

You cannot literally interperate something written in a dead language thousands of years ago, then rewritten by humans and rewritten again. Look how different just the English language is from what it was 400 years ago, words to do not mean the same things a lot of the time. It is ludicris to imagine an exact translation from a language like Arameic to English and have it be perfect. That is often impossible today with languages like Spanish, Russian, etc. Words we have in English simply do not exist. Sentence structure is different, as is grammmar, in a lot of cases. If you are going to interperate the bible you can't just simply read it once, you have to take things in context and study it for years. And if you don't do that and simply translate its message literally, you are not really learning your religion, you're blindly following it. I'm sure that's NOT what Jesus would have wanted. And religious people wonder why he hasn't returned.

Close! But I challenge you to read sermons and commentaries from pastors on these subjects. Open your eyes to the wonderful glories of God and hopefully you'll realize what you have written is misinformed.

"Sermons and commentaries" my arse- HA! That is the LAST place you will find a correct interpretation of the Bible. Those people are agenda driven to make it say whatever they want to get the most money in that offering plate. A REAL God would not NEED that money.

haha again! you simply don't understand... sermons and commentaries from pastors are their own interpretations of the scripture... and you know what else pastors and priests have interpreted from the scriptures??? 'send the children to fight the Muslims, for they are pure of heart and god will surely not let them be harmed' and do you know what happened to those children who were sent to war against the muslims??? they were SLAUGHTERED! Speaking as one who is educated and trained in translating scripture and in forms of preaching, and as one who spent at least 2 decades of life listening to pastors interpret scripture.... i can tell you, they're doing it wrong. Most pastors, not all, but most, use scripture to emphasize or legitimize a point that they want to teach their congregation, not teaching them the bible, as it was taught when the church first formed.

I listen to quite a few different sides of commentaries and sermons. I also try to listen to preachers who are just teaching the bible and not using it to manipulate their audience in any way. Personally I'm against homosexuality. I don't hate gay people, and I try hard not to judge them. I'm a sinner, they're sinners, we are all sinners. We were called to love one another, and if we are to rebuke, we are to do it with love and we also should also be trying to teach others and show God's love while we are doing it.

Hooray for his mom! I bring my beautiful gay son to the sex shop to buy him toys, clothes and whatever he wants to spice up his sex life. Love is love and I cannot understand all these "good christians" spewing so much hate. Gays will not hurt you, you idiots! And I bet some of the things that go on behind your bedroom doors might be considered perverted by society. You just don't talk about it! And I am a straight 54 y/o woman!

Great comments, responses. Love is our salvation. Hate and fear condemn one and many to great suffering. These understandings may be arrived at through common sense, and a little awareness, and observation. No politically charged "Holy" book necessary. Of course, all the good bits of any scripture, even the Christian one, will point to the same thing : choose to act from love, not fear. Thou Shalt not kill... remember that one in the rules list? @ Kathleen - you're awesome. The world wants more cool mom's like you, modeling kindness, nuturing, and understanding. You allow healthy families to come into existence in the world. Kudos!

So donkey is blaming Africa for aids ?!? How retarded is that. We all know, well apart from you clearly , how AIDS began. Saying African tribes had sex with monkeys. Dear lord maybe you should be in the lake that burns with fire

H.I.V (aids) has only been discovered by modern science since the very early 1900'. It was created from a mutation of S.I.V (the 'S' stands for simian (monkey/ape)) believed to have formed from a bite wound sustained from the very early travelers to the continent from a member of the ape family and spread through the human population due to it being unknown for hundreds of years, allowing it to mutate and evolve within the human body.

I LOVE HOW SUPPOSE TO BE CHRISTIANS BAD MOUTH US AND WANT TO SAY HOW MUCH OF A SIN IT IS. WELL LET ME SAY SOMETHING TO YOU THE BIBLE DOES SAY JUDGE UNTO OTHERS AS U WANT TO BE JUDGED... AND ALSO SAYS LOVE THY NEIGHBOR AND LOVE THY ENEMY AND YOU WANT TO THROW BIBLE QUOTES AT US... OH YES THE BIBLE DOES SAY THAT LOVE ALL AND NO SIN IS BIGGER OR SMALLER THAN ANY OTHER..... SO I GUESS YOU ALL NEED REPENT IN SUNDAY SERVICE CAUSE YALL JUST A BIG HIPPICRIT AS I SEE IT........

Jude 7
And don't forget sodom and gomorrah and their neighboring towns, which were filled with immorality and every kind of sexual perversion. Those cities were destroyed by fire and serve as a warning of the eternal fire of God's judgment. amen

I watched a program on the History Channel that researched the Bible. Sodom and Ghomorrah were never linked to homosexuality. It's the other way around; bible thumpers started calling homosexuals sodomites because of the perceived immorality of those two cities. Also, they weren't amoral because of homosexuality, they were immoral because no one invited (moses? I forget.) and his family into their homes and they treated them like outsiders instead of the standard form of human respect which the Bible teaches.

On a seperate note, scientists have been anylizing the destruction of those two cities, as well as others that have happend. For example, in Egypt when the sea went red, it was more than likely a huge algae bloom. Look at the North East of America and Canada, it happens there too. The whole event with everyone's first born son dying and then the cattle happened because the food wasn't taken care of properly and started growing mold, like what happened in Salem during the witch trials. The first born son was culturally the first to eat, and the mold sat on TOP of the grain so everyone that ate after him didn't get the mold. The same food was also used to feed the cattle which is why THEY died.

As for the destruction itself of Soddom and Ghomorrah (however you spell it), there is a good amount of evidence based of recorded events in the middle east that show a small asteroid impact occured around Austria. When that happened, using science, they were able to deduce the weather patterns and the fact that the debris from the impact is what rained down upon that general area of the planet. It was a random event from an asteroid that probably came from another collision between two larger asteroids in our asteroid belt. One similar incidence happened in Russia around 1908, and the asteroid was only a couple hundred feet big. It caused so much damage because the asteroid or comet exploded just before reaching the ground, flattening hundreds of square miles of forest. It had the explosive force 1000 times greater than the bomb that destroyed Hiroshima, roughly equivilant to about 13-20 megatons of TNT exploding at one time.

Also, a monogomous gay relationship isn't a perversion, it's the expression of the human desire and need for companionship. In addition, there is lots of scientific evidence that supports that a human being's sexuality is determined by genetic markers in DNA, which is created before birth, meaning it is NOT a choice. As far as I understand religion, that's God's work right? So it stands to reason that God probably created Gay people as a natural form of birth control so we don't OVER populate the planet. It hasn't worked though because Gays have been forced into hiding for hundreds upon thousands of years thanks to ignornat interpretaion of religion.

God created the Earth, it's solar system, and the Universe. Therefore God ALSO created the science that governs all things, from physics to genetics. That said, denying the science behind these things is like denying God him/herself. If you do choose to deny it, that's okay; the great thing about science is that you don't have to like or agree, or even believe it, but it is ALWAYS there and right no matter what your opinion.

Also to point out, Jesus never condemned gays or even said anything about them in his original teachings. Leviticus, a HUMAN, wrote that into the bible after it had ALREADY been rewritten by more humans. A lot of religious and educated scholars have interpreted his passage about a man lying with another man as more about property rights, as women were treated as property like cattle were. He also states that you may not wear fabric woven from different cloths and eating shellfish as a sin, right before that particular passage bible thumpers love to tote. Hope you've never bought any clothes from Old Navy, Gap, etc, and have never eaten a shrimp, clam, or lobster.

You cannot literally interperate something written in a dead language thousands of years ago, then rewritten by humans and rewritten again. Look how different just the English language is from what it was 400 years ago, words to do not mean the same things a lot of the time. It is ludicris to imagine an exact translation from a language like Arameic to English and have it be perfect. That is often impossible today with languages like Spanish, Russian, etc. Words we have in English simply do not exist. Sentence structure is different, as is grammmar, in a lot of cases. If you are going to interperate the bible you can't just simply read it once, you have to take things in context and study it for years. And if you don't do that and simply translate its message literally, you are not really learning your religion, you're blindly following it. I'm sure that's NOT what Jesus would have wanted. And religious people wonder why he hasn't returned.

Don't forget, there are only six admonishments against gays in the Bible and over 350 against straights...this doesn't mean God hates straight people...it's just that they need a hell of a lot more SUPERVISION! And isn't divorce prohibited as well?? Hmmmmm...you're a hypocrite just like your bigot friends, moron. Bye now. Be gone, before someone drops a house on YOU!

I'm an anti gay activist. i'll expose all you filthy faggots on every forum so that the world comes to know your reality. filthy homosexuals gave humanity the gift of aids. i hope all the faggots get hiv and die so that they're thrown in the lake of fire. amen

If you would do your research, sir, ma'am, you will find something that says that Aids started in Africa. White fuckers like you (unless you are a black homophobe) used to say that the tribes used to have sex with monkeys and that's how Aids showed up. How messed up is that? The fact known is that the very government itself was the one who created said disease. Its all a way of trying to control the population of the world from increasing. Homosexuals are humans, like you. And i'm pretty sure that if you're a guy, you probably fantasize with having two lesbians making out or licking eachother's pussy while you fap your small dick. Talk about homophobe. Now if you're a woman, you're just a wicked bitch.

Seems Dylan can't get a date. He also forgot about Jesus saving us from sins, God giving us free will, and he who is without sin shall cast the first stone. Besides, the Bible has one instance where being gay is considered a sin. There are over 300 instances where the Bible talks about straight people being sinful. It doesn't mean God hates straight people, it just means they need supervision... and someone who can accessorize and dress a straight man so women will take interest. And sorry Dylan, no hugo boss suit can fix an ugly hateful heart.

Leviticus 20:13
"If a man practices homosexuality, having sex with another man as with a woman, both men have committed a detestable act. They must both be put to death, for they are guilty of a capital offense." death to filthy homosexuals. amen

"death to filthy homosexuals" is a terroristic threat. That is a hate crime - against Federal law (and most State laws). Free speech and freedom of religion do NOT give you the 'right' to threaten others. That is not a prayer - that is a crime.

7 For if there had been nothing wrong with that first covenant, no place would have been sought for another. 8 But God found fault with the people and said:

“The days are coming, declares the Lord, when I will make a new covenant with the people of Israel
and with the people of Judah.9 It will not be like the covenant I made with their ancestors when I took them by the hand
to lead them out of Egypt, because they did not remain faithful to my covenant, and I turned away from them, declares the Lord.10 This is the covenant I will establish with the people of Israel after that time, declares the Lord.
I will put my laws in their minds and write them on their hearts. I will be their God, and they will be my people.11 No longer will they teach their neighbor, or say to one another, ‘Know the Lord,’ because they will all know me, from the least of them to the greatest.12 For I will forgive their wickedness and will remember their sins no more.”

13 By calling this covenant “new,” he has made the first one obsolete; and what is obsolete and outdated will soon disappear.

are they still using the book of heresy for these things? when will they grow up and teach us something not written in bible? they cant can they? they live form a book written by men rewritten by man to fit their own needs. The dead languages cannot be be translated because their God of Death and Destruction. then when someone with abilities comes along they kill them and everyone born with such after they call devil worshippers so makes me come to realize their God is made up cause the Real God made so many beautiful things in this world while theres festers from Hate, Death and Heresy

Dylan Klebold? Really. You're truly pathetic to steal / copy the name of a cowardly, impotent sociopath who didn't have the balls, nor did his boyfriend, to kill themselves first before shooting innocent people at Columbine. You are clearly a closet case who hates himself. Please quit cruising gay websites and stirring up offensive and bigoted remarks. Instead, seek help from a professional therapist or psychiatrist. There is support out there for conflicted people like yourself, and with therapeutic assistance you can learn to love your true self and realize that you are worthy of this love. Currently, you parade these websites under a fake identity, hiding behind a 2000-year old book of fables which has been translated numerous times by various political factions to serve their own self-interests. Dylan, right now you're just a dick.

Thankfully the Founding Fathers knew better than to allow religious dogma to create law so I don't have to caree what your book of rules or your "god" says. You trolling gay websites says a lot about who you are inside but want kept secret.

Brilliant response mate. Way to put these God-pushing closet cases in their place. Interesting indeed that he's trolling gay websites...must be for the great articles. He probably trolls gay bars and clubs too...but only for the catchy dance music. Please.

Faghots! Dylan thinks fags are hot!! Talk about a Freudian slip... Dylan as a true Christian, I want to help you get over your self-hatred. I will break open the only TRUE word of God (aka the Book of Mormon) and comfort you with some soooothing wisdom later... right now, RuPaul's Drag Race is previewing its new season on LOGO and I can't miss that!

I hate to add to this tirade, since it has sailed so far off topic, but I can't help it. Being near and dear, etc. Reading a couple of 'Dylan's' posts shows the root of one of his? problems. Putting this one question to rest, he is male. Mannerism, aggression. Emotional age somewhere around 15. But he let slip the fact that he's using the NIV. The NIV is most definitely not God's Word. I saw it when it was first published, and it is pure New Age crap. Most everything is taken out of context, and sentences are mistranslated into what they think passes as modern day speech. All this so that we can understand it better. IE - dumbing it down. They succeeded in completely mystifying the whole thing while making it readable. Yes, I know that does not make sense, but it does if you consider that they (the criminals responsible for NIV) removed all of the referents that gave it any meaning at all. It's like taking all of the links out of a web page.

Dylan gives away his conflict by how and what he writes. Mostly by style of writing. The content is typical fag bashing and has no information. He is gay and will not admit it to himself. Dylan - gay people can appreciate, and even be sexually attracted to, women too. At least some of them. Most of the street trade in male prostitution is married men. But - here - back to Leviticus, the most famously quoted anti-gay book in the Bible. Leviticus was the Book of the Tribe of Levites. Levites were one of the twelve Tribes of Judah. As such, Leviticus was the way the priests wanted the Levites to behave. All of the Tribes had their own operating manuals. They were all different. Only the Levites had to be nervous. I think the other tribes probably viewed the act as aberrant but still an act of love. Being put to death for sex is just a little bit extreme.

So yeah - Dylan needs some of those brownies. I get horny when I'm stoned. Wait - I get horny when... Oh, never mind.

Kudos to Mom for the note, and the lock. My dad would have bought a deadbolt. And installed it.

Dylan, tell us more about how disgusting it is that her son likes it "up the butt". Filthy? Yuck? You sound like a 3rd grader but you certainly have pondered homosexual sex practices extensively to have such a colorful reaction to it. Or maybe it's because gay sex is what pops into your mind when you're all alone...in the dark...touching yourself. Yeah, that's more likely. Anyone with so much venom regarding what other people do in their bedrooms translates to WHITE HOT PASSION for it. But go ahead and tell us again about how dirty and sexy that sounds. Ooops, did i say sexy? I meant NASTY..gross. EWWWWW. You're ridicuous.

Hating us won't make us disappear. And by the way, what are you doing reading articles like this on this website if you detest homosexuality? It only comes to show that you're in a way interested yourself in knowing things about us. Otherwise, you could have just avoided this article, or even this site. Or you are closeted your self? :) <3

As soon as my son finally acknowledged the thing I'd been suggesting he acknowledge for several years before that, and as soon as I knew he was going to start to meet other boys, I went out to make up a basket of supplies, sort of a "Welcome to the Life," kind of thing. I ended up turning tail and ran out of Walmart, because even Walmart had too many choices for someone like me, whose approach to shopping is "I'll take one in every color (texture, size, scent and flavor, as well). I would have needed a truck to carry the merchandise out of the store.

So I sent my husband, and he did the honors. I guess I was lucky when I became a parent someone forgot to give me that amnesia pill that makes some parents forget what they were like when they were younger, and substitute the holier than thou attitude that sends kids off to do the same thing somewhere else, in a less safe setting, with less attention to safety. And anyone who thinks their kids won't be doing the same thing, not matter what their parents say...I have some magic beans I might be able to sell them. There are just as many unplanned pregnancies in the Bible Belt as there are in Sin Cities.

The only difference between a parent who plays ostrich and one who plays it safe is that only one of them is forcing their child to lie. I decided to go with honesty, if for no other reason than the fact that my son is such a poor liar that he insults my intelligence. If I'm going to be lied to, I want him to at least challenge me.

If anyone were ever to suggest that I was going to Hell for this, all I can say is give me a call when you arrive, and we can compare pitchforks and do lunch.

Knocking and waiting for a response would be appropriate if mom KNEW the son was at home. Maybe the son and his boyfriend "snuck" into his room and were particularly quiet, hoping mom would not venture in. By her own admission she was "buzzed", so perhaps she either forgot, or didn't realize he was in the residence. Maybe she was just delivering clean laundry to his room, or maybe even wanted to join in! Don't condemn the mom before knowing all the circumstances.

Personally, I'm not sure I buy that it actually happened, and if it did it is too much information, but I do agree with the pervious poster who mentioned that mentioned all those demanding he move out are misguided. For one thing, he's just 19 and he could very well be in school. Also, this kind of situation does happen. All that needs to happen is that ground rules and boundaries need to be set, something parents of college age students do all the time, unless of course he owns the house or pays the rent and has his name on the lease. This is basic Dear Abby 101.

That being said, if I were 19 again and at my peak, was as good looking as the guy in the photo and had as cute a boyfriend, I'd probably not check to see if the door was locked.

I think this mom is awesome! She dealt with it in a mature thoughtful way! Now to some of the critics you all need to grow up! Wanting your child to move out over being caught having sex is stupid. Whether parents like to admit to it or not sexuality is a part of growing up. Some of the comments left on this page sound like something out of a Christian fundamentalist childcare handbook. You know deny, deny, deny that your child is a sexual being. Even though you and your husband are hitting the sheets regularly! It seems to me that those with issues with sex in general are the first to say "harm" a child over sex issues. Sex is natural and it is time to stop demonizing those who enjoy it! Your own children included!

Sex is natural but we have the ability to control ourselves and act appropriate. We aren't animals. I'm gay and this story is completely ridiculous! If my partner or I caught our daughter then we would have not dealt with it like this! I'm appalled that so many people are patting this woman on the back as a "great parent". So sad.

You may be gay but that does not mean you are by any reach open minded. Nor does that mean you are by association a great parent. The only thing sad is when adults demonize sexuality to the point sex becomes a taboo topic. I am sorry but your grand parents had sex, your parents had sex, you have sex, and one day your daughter will have sex! Just because you don't like the fact people are sexual beings doesn't mean that the risks disappear. I applaud this woman because she respected her child enough to see A) He is a sexual being. B) She should have knocked. C) She made sure that it wouldn't happen again by accident with the door knob which locks. You know the only thing sad to me is that in this day and time when homosexuality is just now being normalized in view that backwards views like yours come along. Your view is right at home with the views that gays can exist but lets just keep quiet in our closets. Because may be if we don't talk about sex then all the risks will disappear, the acceptance of sex as a vital part of "healthy" lives will also disappear making it a out of site and out of mind issue, and in general the morality police won't be able to "slut shame" individuals who enjoy it or who end up being abused by it.

Everyone seems hung up on the fact that "Mom" walked in on her gay son and how cool she was about it. Its a dilemma every parent dreads, not your child having sex, we get that, hell we did that before you. My daughters boyfriend stays over regularly in her room and I would be very embarrassed if I walked in on them doing what I know they do. What is nice about this rather un unique story is the way she dealt with it. She's just a good parent. And as for the rest of you prudes not wanting sex in your parents house, guess what! they did the nasty all over the place before you were there.... think about that for a moment.

My Mom was cool with me but she never let me tell my Dad. It had to be a secret around him. She was afraid of what he would do. Well, I guess not that cool. She'll still say 'don't say that' despite the fact that she did her best to hook me up. Then again she still blushes at the mention of sex and will turn the TV channel if there is even heavy kissing. She's 81, tho.

Gay or straight this isn't cool. It's disrespectful. The Mom is a wonderful Mom, but the son should have known better than to be messing around with Mom at home without a lock on the door. If your old enough to have sex under those situations you clearly need your own space. Move out! If it were my boyfriend and I, I would have been embarrassed and sorry, not taking to the magazines to further embarrass my mother.

PRUDE!!! Shame on you! What have you done in your house that you would be ashamed of your children seeing? It is not a matter of respect it is a matter of HUMAN nature. We are not Gods or even Godly, we are only born in his image. We are sinners! I wonder if it is a big deal that your son is masterbating while you write your response to this post, ruining his bedroom sheets with his DNA permanently, or jacking off to underage internet porn is that okay with you? Is that respectful? I hope they don't grow up and kill you in your sleep like the Hernandez brothers, respectfully. Come on, take it a little lighter people, it is not that big a deal. If you make it a big deal it will be a big deal for years to come. If you don't, it won't. think of the platinum rule not golden. Treat people the way they would like to be treated, not the way you would like to be treated. It works however you have to talk to them, not make assumptions!

Well, that escalated quickly.
I want to be treated like the supreme master of the universe wheee everyone shuts up and just does what I say without any lip...EVER!!!! (sarcasm for a point).
Do you note the rediculousness of the "platinum" rule? Treat everyone with kindness, compassion, respect and dignety...its really not that difficult. You don't have to agree with everyone on everyrhing, just don't be a jerk about it. Smile, agree to disagree then move on to another topic...like favorite flags of the world.
Much love to you my friend. ♥♥

Great Mom and priceless note, very well handled. I wish every young person could have this. But the truth is we still live in a world where people are very closed minded and would rather ruin their lives with their kids than to accept that they are different from themselves. It is sad really, I have been told I'm dead by my parents once I married my boyfriend. It is funny they were okay I was gay until I told they I was getting married and my world with them ended. I haven't spoken to my parents or little brother for over six years now.They even changed their phone #'s and all letters and cards are returned.

It was hard to pick up the pieces and move forward and try to forgive them, I will never forget but I have forgiven them even though they don't know it. Once I did forgave them My life has better better It still hurt and always will.

I wish I could say I had a happy story to share like these two young men have.

You have no idea how painful it is to have your parents and love ones turn on you unless it has happened to you. so for those of you who have said negative things, stop and think of how you would feel to be treated with no respect, unlike what this mother has done for her son she showed total respect. I'll take that any day.