Why is masturbation haram

Awaiting a reply from you. Before preparing this post, I had gone through all the evidence you are citing, I already read through everything you said. During the times when it is hard to control your emotions and urges i try to keep myself busy, by being in presence of friends or when i am alone at home and the urges are unbearable i put on my clothes anything really and run out of the house and go for a walk and get some fresh air. This causes complications in wudhu, salaah and cleanliness of the clothes. Also yy heart is weak and my lungs feel like an old person, i struggle with things and everytime i do it i feel bad about it, regret and shame I have no luck in work or finance and my future looks and feel blury. This is our test with Allah Most High.

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Allah has commanded the believers to lower their gaze , and guard their chastity. Leave a Comment Cancel Reply Your email address will not be published. I am concerned because as a woman it will be quite obvious I used to do this. There is not prostate in females. Books talk about it, so why is it distinguishing hayya in a mag?

THE HARMS OF MASTURBATION – Read Islamic Books

For such people , We have prepared a painful torment. It has many harmful effects and bad consequences such as exhaustion of power and impotence. TV, books, magazines, internet, newspapers, should be shunned. As we know, the Prophet, peace and blessings be upon him, has advised those who cannot afford marriage to fast, saying: The solution is to abandon all such customs and conduct the Nikah strictly according to the Sunnah. If there is one "good" thing, does this mean there is no bad? There must surely be somebody who you have a lot of respect for, e.

So in this case we say to him: Satan will influence you to lust sexually about almost everyone. Oh you can not atleast talk about sex with her unless you get married My penis used to be like stiff stick when it is erected. It weakens the nerves generally — a result of the exertion caused by this action. Not permissible for wife to masturbate without legitimate necessity.