How to Get Your Ex Back Fast

Dan Bacon
Dan Bacon is a dating and relationship expert and the creator of Get Your Ex Back Super System, a video program that teaches you the fastest way to get your ex back. Dan is married to the woman of his dreams and has been helping men succeed with women for more than 14 years.

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The most obvious way to get an ex back fast is to hook up with a beautiful woman and make her jealous.

Yet, not every guy wants to do that or has the ability to attract and pick up new, beautiful women.

So, if don’t want to sleep with another woman or if you are unable to attract women at the moment (e.g. because you lack confidence after being broken up with, have lost your mojo, etc), what should you do instead?

Stuff That Doesn’t Work…and What to Do Instead

1. Begging her to give another chance

Sure, sometimes a woman will give another guy a chance if he begs her for long enough, but most won’t. If you’re looking for advice on how to get your ex back fast, you’ve probably already tried begging her and it hasn’t fixed the problems between you and her.

Instead of begging, what you need to do is accept the break up and then leave the house or end the phone call. Completely turn your back on her for a few hours and see what happens. If she doesn’t call by the next day, you need to call her up, apologize for your mistakes (that caused the break up) and then focus on making her feel attracted to you again.

2. Bombarding her with text messages

Most guys bombard their ex with text messages or phone calls in the hope that if he just stays on her mind, she won’t forget him and move on.

Yet, it doesn’t work because she has broken up with you due to how you’ve been thinking, behaving and acting around her. A text is just a text. It’s not you in person, saying and doing the right things and then hugging her, making her feel like she wants to forgive you and then kissing her. It’s just a text.

Unless you fix or at least improve your issues and problems that are turning her off, she isn’t going to feel much or anything from a text message. Additionally, if you bombard her with texts and are coming across in an emotional, needy way it will only turn her off even more.

You’ve got to fix or at least improve your issues and problems and then call her up, meet up with her in person and let her experience the new you. That is the only fast way to get an ex back for real.

3. Telling her how much you love her and need her in your life

Most guys make this mistake.

They love their girl so much that it seems to make sense to tell her that while she is breaking up with him. Yet, in most cases, she isn’t breaking up with him because he doesn’t love her enough. She is breaking up with him because she lost her feeling of respect, attraction and love for him.

Watch this video to understand what a woman will usually go through before breaking up with a guy…

Look at it From a Different Perspective

Let’s say you were the one who broke up with your girlfriend (or fiancé or wife). What would she need to do to get you back…and fast?

For example: Imagine that you broke up with her because she was always trying to create problems between you and your friends. She resented the time you spent with them instead of her and would often complain when you wanted to spend time with them.

After the break up, she begins to send you text messages several times a day and leaves messages on your phone at home, desperately trying to stay in your life. She says she misses you and wants to be with you.

Yet, none of that changes the fact that she can’t handle it when you spend time with your friends. You broke up with her because of her attitude to your friends and nothing she says can change that about her, unless she comes out and says, “Hey, I messed up…” and then explains why she was wrong to treat your friends badly.

If she apologized and said that she would now accept you spending time with your friends, would you give her another chance? You might be saying, “Yes” but that’s only because you’re probably thinking of your ex that you want back.

Think of it this way…

Imagine that she is a woman that you’re not attracted to and no longer respect. Would you still want her back? Now you might be answering, “No.”

…and that’s the point.

Unless you make your ex girlfriend (fiance or wife) feel respect and attraction for you again, your apologies and promises to do better will not have much effect. You have to start by making her feel a renewed sense of respect and attraction for you and she will then begin to reconsider her feelings for you.

Are you ready to do what it takes to get her back? If you are, I am ready to help you right now…

Don't waste time ignoring your ex or trying to convince her to give you another chance. This simple trick will change her mind and make her want you back today...

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4 Comments

Jason

Hi Dan. Man you guys are just great. I wish I’d known this stuff a few months ago. I broke up with my ex who was my boss on paper. I worked with her so I saw her everyday. When I ran in to her I kept using the flow. I made a point if approaching her and interacting with her. I was attractive. I just didn’t escalate things with her. I did the no contact thing because I didn’t want her back. The mix of the two made it harder on her I think. I mean when I got her I did EVERYTHING right cause I was using the flow. I broke up with her because she was super religious and I’m not. I mean I wasn’t about to spend every Sunday in church.

Well I saw her last Saturday. (Cause I got fired and hadn’t seen her in a couple months). When she saw me she was about to cry. I guess she’s moved on. I guess she’s slept with other guys. Who knows. Who cares. My point is that I NEVER figured your techniques would work like this. I never dreamed I’d be THAT guy. A heartbreaker who could get an ex BACK. That it’d be MY choice. All I can say is thanks Dan.

I’m gonna get this program too because all of your info is SPOT on. I want to learn it all. I mean I don’t want my ex back. But if i did I would have probably done it all wrong. So it’s helpful.

Quick update. Now that I’ve been free I’ve been casually dating my original ex that caused me to buy the flow in the first place. (Not my last girlfriens who was my boss on paper). She wants me to move in with her or better yet move to a different state with her.

Also I’ve noticed two things lately. Lots of girls show signs of interest in me just how I look at them. Just like you said in better than a bad boy. Most guys aren’t approaching. But I AM. Second, all my friends I never had time to hang with when I had a girlfriend are struck DUMB by how women are responding to me. NOW I’m THAT guy that is good with women. I’m still studying your stuff to try to get better. I’m not EVEN saying I’m an expert but I mean I’ve gotten better, WAY better with women.

Thanks Dan. You Ben and Stu just plain ROCK. I would encourage ANYBODY to buy your products. They work and its like NOBODY I know personally KNOWS this stuff.

Dan Bacon

Hey Jason

Thanks for the positive feedback. Much appreciated.

Yes, you will find that most guys don’t know this stuff. The truth is, 99% of guys still don’t know about The Modern Man. That might go to 95% over the next 5 years, so you will have plenty of lead time to get ahead and master this area of your life before other guys even become aware that it’s possible.

I’m sure you’ll love the new program too Jason. You’ll probably be kicking yourself (or laughing) at the amount of mistakes you made during the break ups and reconciliation, but one thing is for sure: You won’t be making those mistakes again in future. From here on in, you’re going to know to be in complete control of the relationship.

Cheers
Dan

P.S. It will be good to hear what you think of the program after you’ve watched it. Pls. post back here if you can after you’ve watched it.

Billy

Hello Dan. I have been with my ex for 5 and half years. We have two children..she has decided to end it due to a few reasons…one I did something with someone a couple of years ago and she gave me a 2nd chance and in this last year I have not showed her any respect or love and didn’t know I was doing it…we have been separated bout 1 and half months..I think she has been on a few dates…is there a chance for me to turn this around

Dan Bacon

Hi Billy

Thanks for your question.

There is always a chance to turn things around with a woman, especially if you have children with her.

Right now, she will be seeking to fill in the emotional gaps that were missing in her relationship with you. In these cases, women usually go for guys who give them loads of compliments, make them feel wanted and treat them really nicely. However, those guys are sometimes the type to become clingy in a relationship, to lack alpha male qualities and to have less options with women than the average guy. So, in most cases, it will just be a rebound relationship that ends quite quickly: http://www.themodernman.com/relationship/why-do-most-rebound-relationships-fail.html