I've been having the same problems you are, and I certainly understand what you are up against.Fortunately in my case I can get by, but in your case I would definitely get counseling and meds, and not just for yourADD. I skirted along the edges of major depression more than once, and I'm sure you feel depressedabout the copious amounts of grief our problem has presented us. I just wanted you to know you're notthe only one in your predicament. It's all too easy to feel like you are the only one with ADD, like aalien from another planet. As ADD'ers, we don't need people's pity, we need people to understand wedon't do the things we do to be annoying or eccentric. We have a problem that is not our fault. I also wanted to give you a (((((((hug))))))), you can use one. Take care Karen......and feel free to drop me a lineif you like.