And I'm still very unclear on what points he think they are trying to make.

Mostly I would summarize the points I think from that page as:

- Personality matters but not not how people commonly claim.
- Autism creates a very high likelihood of men ending up alone and virgins even though autistic men want relationships as much as anyone else.
- A man's race is very important to women eg. Asian men get 11 times fewer messages than white ones.
- Looks are more important than personality for both men and women in dating.
- Height is very important for men in dating.
- Money is somewhat important for men in dating.
- Online dating is making it easier for women to endorse their natural instinct to seek the best men.
- The top men are having more sex than ever while overall male celibacy is rising.
- Men dominate online dating platforms and the thirst is real.

I don't think most people acknowledge in public the above points. I haven't heard much of it except that money matters and most people know from experience that height matters. I was pretty surprised by the race studies. And it's interesting to see these effects quantified.
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