Doesn’t it always seem like only the fit, healthy people get a chance at dating that one beautiful girl? Well, this is only a myth, because thousands of people with disabilities go on regular dates and keep their sex lives healthy, all across the globe.

If you are one of those people with a disability and you are having trouble finding your soul mate, then you have already made the first step towards a better and brighter future: reading this article.

In the United States, basketball player Zac Bradley was informed by his doctor that he would never be able to walk again after a major car accident. Did this stop him from achieving his goals? No, he kept his head down, worked hard to get back into shape and went out into the world to find his perfect misses. Eventually, with his wheelchair and his positive mindset, he found the perfect woman who, I might add, recently became his wife.

Yes, people with a disability or multiple disabilities are disadvantaged in life compared to your average Joe, but if you think that this will make you unable to find the perfect relationship, then you are wrong.

First of all, the reaction that you do not want when talking to a woman is that of pity or sorrow, you do not want them to look at you and say: “Oh, what a poor soul!”.

What you do want is for them to admire you and look up to you and see that no matter what life throws at you, you’re able to take it all in and make the best out of it.

So, in essence, the first thing that you need to change is your attitude. Without the correct mindset, any and all effort you put in to anything you do will always be fruitless.

Secondly, whether you have a disability or not, looking good never hurts. A small wardrobe change, a few trips to the gym and regularly shaving, face washing and brushing your teeth are all smart efforts that can be easily added into your life at a tiny cost, but which will completely change your life.

Finally, you must always keep in mind that no matter what your situation is, if you do not go out you will not find yourself a date. Whether you use dating websites or prefer the old fashioned courting on the street, if you are never out and about you will never a chance to meet the woman of your dreams.

With all of this said, I feel the need to remind you that no matter who you are or what situation you are in, it is always essential to maintain a good relationships with the people around you, whether they be family, friends or strangers you bump into. Being mean, grumpy or having a negative mindset will always push people away from you.

Contrary to popular belief, the buff, tough and mean guy doesn’t always get the girl.