He is … the serial seducer

Some (many) people call Paul Janka a player, or much harsher names I can not print. I think 32-year-old from New York is just living his life the way many men do, he’s just being upfront about it. (Granted, I wouldn’t date him).

Janka is known as the “serial seducer.” He says he has more than 100 notches on his bedpost and he regularly goes around, picks up women with no intention of a relationship, and moves on. The thing about it: he makes his intentions clear to each woman right away.

So, yeah, his behavior doesn’t make him the classiest man in New York, but he’s not solely at fault. Each and every woman who succumbs to his seduction makes that decision. She is not forced, begged or paid. Janka and his conquests are consenting adults. By going off with him for the night, these women are agreeing to his conditions.

Perhaps they have delusions of grandeur, thinking they will be that “one girl” who can change him. For that, they need to blame themselves, not Janka.

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This giys is an A**H**E. If I ever saw my daughter with him, I’d shoot him and be pissed at her. Any woman that spent time with him was/is just looking for sex and likes getting treated like crap. Apparently, that’s pretty sleazy considering that’s ALL this jerk is about. He needs a haircut too… :o)

Seriously, who are these women that want to be with a guy like this? It is really quite tacky, this whole idea of a game…fakeness and plastic…I bet he is really quite scared of being real with himself and showing true intimacy and affection with someone he really cares about…that would be too real, that could get him hurt, he might cry and a tear drop might damage is 650 dollar silk Armani suit jacket…what an image ruiner…

Kristi responds: Amelia, you made me laugh out loud! On the one hand, you may be right. On the other hand, I know men who are truly happy just living the fun, free, bachelor life. That, to some, is fulfilling.

Hey everyone; those in glass houses shouldn’t throw stones. If he is honest he should not feel bad. I suppose he would also be ridiculed for leading a woman on and then breaking up with her because he did not feel the same way after time had elapsed?. I wonder.

Also, I must say that there are also many women that enjoy this type of lifestyle. Just getting it in there for the guys!! They know what I mean!

Yes, people that are lame and announce it to the world will be criticized for their choices. He is choosing to lead a lifestyle that is vapid, shallow and unsafe but represented as strong and masculine. It isn’t. If a woman was doing the same thing I would say the same thing. And tell them both to get tested for STDs.

Herbert, I don’t have any problem with “consenting adults”. My problem is this guy is touting this as a dating philosophy. It’s a philosophy of how to dominate and have sex with women. He’s spoken of how he doesn’t like to hold hands, spend time or money on or with women unless he knows he’s getting what he wants. That’s rather crass and not what most normal men want. I would love someone like the TU to pay this guy to go to a shrink. I think you’d find out he hates women or something weird. This guy is completely hollow. It’s not illegal to take advantage of women or to look for women that are comletely hollow too. I hope for their sake and the sake of their future partners, that he practices safe sex. From the tone his article, I really doubt it as he is just really into what he wants and what he gets.
I also have to wonder how this jerk is to work with or be associated with. I can’t believe that he’s so into himslef with women that all of a sudden he’s the nicest guy going. Actually, he doesn’t know what he’s missing, being deeply in love or involved with a special someone.
When it’s all over, he’ll end up married to a porn star… but only if he can dominate her too.