tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1821936109385268237Tue, 06 Mar 2018 10:52:48 +0000elegant escortescort bookescortingcourtesanhow to become an escortBelle De Jourhow to think like an escortladylikedeciding to become an escortescort advertisingescort role playescort threesomestockingsGigiHolly GolightlyMadame Claudeescort costumeescort incallsolder escort clientretro glamourcorsetsdominant escortescort dress upescort officeescort privacyescort work placegirdlesincallsmistresssubmissive escort clientAvailsEscorting for the Elegant Womanhttp://escort-book.blogspot.com/noreply@blogger.com (Hannah Jay)Blogger22125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1821936109385268237.post-7344894260780570891Sun, 08 Nov 2015 01:08:00 +00002015-11-07T17:08:00.597-08:00elegant escortescort advertisingescort bookhow to think like an escortolder escort clientAvails: Escorting for the elegant Woman is OutFinally...<br /><br /> <a href="http://amzn.to/1XWE3yK">http://amzn.to/1XWE3yK</a><br /><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://amzn.to/1XWE3yK" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-6u3Zep0ySpU/Vj6fDbsrTKI/AAAAAAAAAOc/8DMegvucVgw/s1600/51v%252BSsilBlL._SX358_BO1%252C204%252C203%252C200_.jpg" /></a></div><br /> Buy it from <a href="http://amzn.to/1XWE3yK">Amazon for your Kindle, Smartphone, Tablet or computer</a>. From the Introduction: <blockquote>Well, it occurred to me. As it does to thousands of women who work at the higher end of the escort market, live as courtesans or are happy being wealthy men’s mistresses. There is something deeply empowering about saying to a man, “Yes, I am expensive and I’m worth it.” We live in a world of “hook-ups” and dateless sex. Sexuality has been sanitized and pornified and divorced from any sense of the illicit. The idea of maintaining a bit of mystery has been replaced with yoga pants for shopping. The pleasures of being a woman or a girl, have been lost beneath a veneer of equal rights and endless “appropriateness”. Yet, the rise of the Internet, the ease of advertising and the creation of websites devoted to reviews of escorts, plus the regular eruptions of “escort” and “mistress” scandals all suggest that while men pay lip service to the “new world” they are more than happy to hire escorts. The fact there are thousands of escort ads and agencies suggests that the demand for escorts has not fallen. Avails is a book about escorting for the elegant woman. Elegance is a funny thing. It is not about money. It is certainly not about designer clothes or spendy shoes; rather it is about a sensibility. A desire to live in a certain way. A capacity to understand a bigger world and to live as if you really do create your own world. For an elegant woman escorting is a means to her ends. She begins secure in herself, in her taste, in her feminine grace, and she consciously opens herself to the possibility that men might be willing to spend significant money for her time. Which, in turn, will allow her to pursue her interests, passions and desires. </blockquote> 347 pages, illustrated, Enjoy http://escort-book.blogspot.com/2015/11/avails-escorting-for-elegant-woman-is.htmlnoreply@blogger.com (Hannah Jay)0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1821936109385268237.post-1030650744715089381Mon, 13 Oct 2014 19:23:00 +00002014-10-13T12:23:11.023-07:00courtesanelegant escortescort bookescort threesomehow to become an escortstockingsQuestions for Miss Jay: An Escort's Guide to Style, Dates and Fun<table cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="float: left; margin-right: 1em; text-align: left;"><tbody><tr><td style="text-align: center;"><a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B00OFGAW5S/ref=as_li_tl?ie=UTF8&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=390957&amp;creativeASIN=B00OFGAW5S&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;tag=lingeriedream-20&amp;linkId=FDCWTS6DYARTDP3Y" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"><img border="0" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-P13spsrwwZk/VDwdfwK0vPI/AAAAAAAAAX8/Vau6swMaV6Y/s1600/5125iVeDxYL._BO2%2C204%2C203%2C200_PIsitb-sticker-v3-big%2CTopRight%2C0%2C-55_SX324_SY324_PIkin4%2CBottomRight%2C1%2C22_AA346_SH20_OU01_.jpg" height="320" width="320" /></a></td></tr><tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;"><i>Escorts' Questions</i></td></tr></tbody></table><br /><div><b><i>Avails: Escorting for the Elegant Woman</i></b> is in the final editing stages. Lots of useful, stylish information for escorts and elegant women of the world. From lingerie to retro dates, older men to sugar daddies - not the same thing at all - Avails is beginning to become real.&nbsp;</div><div><br /></div><div>Avails is also becoming long so<br /><div>I decided to bring out a short volume of the questions I've been asked as I have been writing the book. <a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B00OFGAW5S/ref=as_li_tl?ie=UTF8&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=390957&amp;creativeASIN=B00OFGAW5S&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;tag=lingeriedream-20&amp;linkId=FDCWTS6DYARTDP3Y" target="_blank">Questions for Miss Jay: An Escort's Guide to Style, Dates and Fun</a> covers a range of topics. Everything you ever wanted to know about stockings, the difference between a $150 and hour service provider and a $1000 an hour courtesan, the fun of "toy shows". How to entertain two men at once. Why a threesome with a client's unsuspecting wife is probably not the very best of ideas. Becoming a mistress, the fun of foot fetishes and many more questions are answered.&nbsp;</div><div><br /></div><div>I shall, of course, maintain my discreet silence as to how I might be in a position to answer these questions; but the fact is that escorts and stylish women share a lot in common. A sense of the world as it is. A delightful optimism. And, most importantly, a total lack of surprise at the foibles of men. Knowing what I know as a dominant wife flavours the entire book as it does Avails. So go and have a look and, by all means review the book or get in touch directly with thoughts, hints or suggestions. You can find <a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B00OFGAW5S/ref=as_li_tl?ie=UTF8&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=390957&amp;creativeASIN=B00OFGAW5S&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;tag=lingeriedream-20&amp;linkId=FDCWTS6DYARTDP3Y" target="_blank"><i>Questions for Miss Jay</i> here.</a></div></div>http://escort-book.blogspot.com/2014/10/questions-for-miss-jay-escorts-guide-to.htmlnoreply@blogger.com (Hannah Jay)0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1821936109385268237.post-2406453070950402055Thu, 09 Oct 2014 18:48:00 +00002014-10-09T11:49:14.552-07:00Belle De Jourdeciding to become an escortescort costumeescort role playGood Girls' Escort Experience<blockquote class="tr_bq">"<span style="white-space: pre-wrap;"><span style="font-family: inherit;">A very common sexual fantasy of women is to be an high class escort for a day. There's something very alluring about the luxury, femininity and elegance surrounding high class escorts. Society Service offers you the possibility to make that fantasy come true, without crossing any of your personal boundaries."</span></span>&nbsp;</blockquote><blockquote class="tr_bq"><span style="white-space: pre-wrap;"><span style="font-family: inherit;"><a href="http://www.societyservice.com/service/escort-experience/">The Escort Experience, Society Service</a></span></span></blockquote>&nbsp;What an interesting concept. Basically, this is an escort service which is offering women who are not escorts the opportunity to get a bit of escort training, an escort makeover session and, if they would like, an actual escort encounter.<br /><br />All for 1950 pounds including VAT.<br /><br />I fear I have always thought that the objective was for the escort to be paid...but it is amazing what bored, well off, women will do.http://escort-book.blogspot.com/2014/10/good-girls-escort-experience.htmlnoreply@blogger.com (Hannah Jay)0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1821936109385268237.post-3017081618180320497Fri, 03 Oct 2014 19:35:00 +00002014-10-03T12:35:32.451-07:00elegant escortescort incallsescort role playhow to become an escorthow to think like an escortOld School: How to Retro Escort<table cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="float: left; margin-right: 1em; text-align: left;"><tbody><tr><td style="text-align: center;"><a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-65uJtksiDAA/VC71KSaiC5I/AAAAAAAAAKU/LBQnNIxlifs/s1600/tumblr_nct9hb6pS61qfbon7o1_500.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"><img border="0" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-65uJtksiDAA/VC71KSaiC5I/AAAAAAAAAKU/LBQnNIxlifs/s1600/tumblr_nct9hb6pS61qfbon7o1_500.jpg" height="320" width="246" /></a></td></tr><tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">Really...That Much?</td></tr></tbody></table>Writing <i style="font-weight: bold;">Avails: Escorting for the Elegant Woman</i>&nbsp;I have been struck at how call girls evolved to escorts and now sex workers. I am quite certain that the essential transaction has not changed but, I am afraid, "sex worker" sounds all together too healthy to be much fun.<br /><br />I suspect I am, as I am so often, a lonely voice in the wilderness when I suggest that we need to put the "naughty" back into escorting. (Of course I also think we should put the "naughty" back into sex but that is a conversation for a <a href="http://dominant-wife.blogspot.ca/">different blog</a>.)<br /><br />When a man visits an escort or invites her to his hotel there should be a little <i>frisson</i>, a thrill, a real sense of excitement at the prospect of a willing woman waiting to be enjoyed. Done well, an escort encounter will contain an element of decadence, of debauchery: it should feel transgressive because it is transgressive.<br /><br />For complex psychological reasons, some escorts prefer not to see themselves in their full transgressive glory. Instead they see the business as therapeutic which it may very well be. However, girls who like making top dollar escorting understand that being a bad girl for pay is part of the thrill a man is buying with his escort dollar.<br /><br />The unimaginative hobbyists on the review sites seem to view escorts rather like stamps to be collected. Which is a bit sad when you think about it. They miss the point.<br /><br />Now, the retro escort, the elegant escort takes full advantage of the fact what she does is not approved of by the nice ladies whose husbands she is entertaining for an afternoon or evening. She is not them and doesn't want or need their approval. Instead, a girl who reaches back to the 1950's call girl tradition or even further back to the turn of the last century demimondaine, appreciates her role outside the boundaries of the good girl world.<br /><br />How she arranges her dates, how she advertises, dresses and performs are all built on the idea that her client can't "get this at home". Indeed, at home, her client is not even allowed to ask for the blowjobs or enthusiasm he'll experience with a girl who connects to the old school view of escorting.<br /><br />And a clever escort knows that this is a huge part of her attraction to her clients. She plays it to the hilt. And they keep coming back for more.http://escort-book.blogspot.com/2014/10/old-school-how-to-retro-escort.htmlnoreply@blogger.com (Hannah Jay)1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1821936109385268237.post-5016398023061156996Sat, 27 Sep 2014 20:40:00 +00002014-09-27T13:43:01.812-07:00courtesanelegant escortescort bookhow to become an escorthow to think like an escortladylikestockingsLearning to Escort Elegantly<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-21i6xpYXCho/VCcc8ylgNfI/AAAAAAAAAKE/OtC37BxrpKE/s1600/tumblr_n62n2hwLVT1qfbon7o1_500.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-21i6xpYXCho/VCcc8ylgNfI/AAAAAAAAAKE/OtC37BxrpKE/s320/tumblr_n62n2hwLVT1qfbon7o1_500.jpg" /></a></div>Writing <b><i>Avails: Escorting for Elegant Women</i></b> has meant I have been looking at how girls can maximize their escorting success. There is little question that a pretty girl willing to have sex for money can make money. But for an elegant escort the intimate encounter between two consenting adults is just a small part of the service she offers. What she is really trying to do is develop a business where her callers are coming for much more than a roll in the sheets.<br /><br />She's working at building the not directly sexual elements because if she can get those right she'll be able to charge much more money on an hourly basis.<br /><br />&nbsp;Elegant women bring a tremendous style to the escorting business. They wear brilliant clothes, have wonderful lingerie, are perfectly groomed. They work in fabulous surroundings. They serve delightful snacks on enviable china and pour wine into crystal glasses. Their callers feel pampered and very special from the first moment they enter the elegant escort's world.<br /><br />&nbsp;Which, of course, begs the question of how does she afford it? One of the things which I cover in <b><i>Avails: Escorting for the Elegant Woman</i></b> is how a girl who is just starting can create the elegant ambience without breaking the bank...Here's a hint, buy nothing retail unless one of your clients wants to take you shopping.&nbsp; <br /><br />Whether a girl is just starting out in escorting or in any other walk of life, having a good eye and a closely guarded purse will guarantee the minimalism and quality which creates the luxury feel of elegance.<br /><br />There is nothing in <b><i>Avails</i></b> about the how-to of escort sex except that enthusiasm covers a multitude of sins; but there are pages on how to get a stylish wardrobe for pennies, how to furnish an escorts office for maximum impact and, frankly, how an escort can get her clients to buy her the pretty shoes and stockings and lingerie they want to see her in.http://escort-book.blogspot.com/2014/09/lerning-to-escort-elegantly.htmlnoreply@blogger.com (Hannah Jay)1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1821936109385268237.post-7969296628223212462Thu, 25 Sep 2014 07:09:00 +00002014-09-25T00:13:24.674-07:00Belle De Jourdeciding to become an escortelegant escortescort threesomeAvails: Escorting for the Elegant Woman - Trailer 1 <iframe width="560" height="315" src="//www.youtube.com/embed/xmIjQXE-4iY" frameborder="0" allowfullscreen></iframe><br /><br />What fun...a practice video book trailer.<br /><br />I have always admired Belle and hope that this little bit of <i>hommage</i> will not be taken amiss.<br /><br />The intro music is St. Germain - Rose Rouge.<br /><br />Hope you enjoy it. http://escort-book.blogspot.com/2014/09/avails-escorting-for-elegant-woman.htmlnoreply@blogger.com (Hannah Jay)0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1821936109385268237.post-4636551706703325089Thu, 25 Sep 2014 00:09:00 +00002014-09-24T17:09:27.728-07:00courtesanelegant escorthow to become an escortladylikemistressEscort or Mistress?<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-cI13HbQ2npU/VCNagPc2fHI/AAAAAAAAAJs/b2I5MbYHj_M/s1600/PageImage-527484-4970352-image.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-cI13HbQ2npU/VCNagPc2fHI/AAAAAAAAAJs/b2I5MbYHj_M/s1600/PageImage-527484-4970352-image.jpg" height="320" width="320" /></a></div>Once a women begins to entertain the idea of trading her favours for money the question arises: wholesale or retail, mistress or escort.<br /><br />In my soon to be published book, <i style="font-weight: bold;">Avails: Escorting for Elegant Women </i>that question comes up both directly and indirectly. What's the answer? Well, it depends.<br /><br />There is something rather comforting about seeing one man a few times a month in exchange for a decent allowance. A girl can be quite discriminating and with a little looking around can usually find a gentleman caller who she actually will look forward to seeing. The downside? Well there really is none except that most men cannot really afford a large allowance and, and this is the killer, there is not a great deal of security. Patrons can be fickle.<br /><br />Escorting, particularly at the upper end of the market can be more lucrative than being the exclusive mistress of a single man. At the same time, the element of selectivity is reduced and, frankly, there are creeps out there. Of course the work itself is different. Intimacy with a series of men may be fun or it may be, to coin a phrase, a bit of a grind.<br /><br />An elegant solution is to seek to enjoy the best of both worlds. Reserve your Saturday afternoons for your patron and then entertain very select - and generous - clients during the week. Striking a happy balance between your commitment to your patron and seeing a select clientele is a goal that a really smart girl can achieve. She just needs to be willing to screen hard and charge a lot.http://escort-book.blogspot.com/2014/09/escort-or-mistress.htmlnoreply@blogger.com (Hannah Jay)0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1821936109385268237.post-8959109594538775676Mon, 22 Sep 2014 21:04:00 +00002014-09-22T14:04:16.610-07:00Belle De Jourelegant escortescort bookhow to become an escorthow to think like an escortretro glamourIvy League Escorts: Do Elegant Women Escort?Well, yes, yes they do.<br /><br />Here is an amusing article about <a href="http://www.theatlantic.com/education/archive/2014/09/how-sugar-daddies-are-financing-college-education/379533/2/">Ivy League girls who put profiles up at Seeking Arrangement</a>.<br /><br />Not quite the picture of the girl on the skids turning to a fate worse than death is it. Because the modern world of escorting is a very long way from the brothels and pimps and general skuzziness of old time prostitution.<br /><br />Elegant women escort for a variety of reasons and in a variety of ways. <b><i>Avails: Escorting for the Elegant Woman</i></b> is something of a how to book on escorting for girls who have never really thought of the profession. And it is a how to book for girls who are escorting but really want to up their game. Plus, the nature of an upmarket escorts arrangements are not all that different from the needs and arrangements any girl aspiring to elegance makes - the main difference is compensation not style.<br /><br />Sugar baby, escort, courtesan, companion - in the modern world the old story that money is the tribute age pays to beauty remains profoundly true. Thank Heavens.http://escort-book.blogspot.com/2014/09/ivy-league-escorts-do-elegant-women.htmlnoreply@blogger.com (Hannah Jay)0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1821936109385268237.post-8269169094402335626Sat, 20 Sep 2014 21:21:00 +00002014-09-20T14:21:09.320-07:00elegant escortescort bookhow to become an escorthow to think like an escortladylikeEscorting for Elegant Women<table cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="float: left; margin-right: 1em; text-align: left;"><tbody><tr><td style="text-align: center;"><a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-OhWT1OZdZvI/VB3u79ZDa3I/AAAAAAAAAJc/2OVFG0nTsyU/s1600/tumblr_nc4uttpYMR1qfbon7o1_500.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"><img border="0" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-OhWT1OZdZvI/VB3u79ZDa3I/AAAAAAAAAJc/2OVFG0nTsyU/s320/tumblr_nc4uttpYMR1qfbon7o1_500.jpg" height="400" width="255" /></a></td></tr><tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;"><i>Escorting: Elegant Choices</i></td></tr></tbody></table>We're still some days away from having <b><i>Avails: Escorting for the Elegant Woman</i></b> ready to put up at Amazon. As we work on the book a couple of things have emerged.<br /><br />A lot of the material in the book, while it is directed to women who want to be escorts or would like to take their escorting game up a notch or two, is also very useful for girls who have no interest in the escort world. Lots of great information about everything from vintage lingerie (you can't have enough) to taking great photographs.<br /><br />At the same time, there is a lot of material on things like budgeting, cash management and business planning. The fact is that escorting is a service business. If a girl treats her escorting life in a businesslike way she'll do much better day by day and, as importantly, will do a great deal better in the long run. So will any girl who is in business for herself.<br /><br />The other big theme which is coming through is the whole idea of "ladylike". We're not interested in the skanky end of the escort market. Finding a path to elegant escorting is not easy but it is worth it. Sure, an escort can make money selling sex by the half hour but there is nothing elegant about that. What <i>Avails</i> focuses on are escorts who offer their clients a glimpse of luxury, pampering and attention which is only a little concerned with sex. Not that we are anti-sex - good Heavens no; but if all a girl is selling is sex she is not going to make much money, is going to work too hard and will burnout quickly.<br /><br />An elegant escort may only have three dates a week but each date will be very lucrative and a terrific experience for her client. The elegant escort is all about quality not quantity.<br /><br />Right now we are working on chapters about being kept - we hate the term sugar baby - by a patron in addition to seeing a few regulars. It is a great arrangement and one in which a patron can have the pleasure of a real girlfriend without the bother of the emotional commitment. For the elegant escort being a <i><b>mistress</b></i> is a great source of regular income as well as the pretty apartment and allowance a mistress has every right to expect.http://escort-book.blogspot.com/2014/09/escorting-for-elegant-women.htmlnoreply@blogger.com (Hannah Jay)0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1821936109385268237.post-3232275476059335832Tue, 26 Aug 2014 18:48:00 +00002014-08-26T11:48:48.804-07:00courtesanelegant escortescort bookescortingolder escort clientIn Praise of Older Men<table cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="float: left; margin-right: 1em; text-align: left;"><tbody><tr><td style="text-align: center;"><a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-Wvl7kcTi2Rg/U_zV58iDHLI/AAAAAAAAAIw/YCJL04GrSrM/s1600/older.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"><img border="0" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-Wvl7kcTi2Rg/U_zV58iDHLI/AAAAAAAAAIw/YCJL04GrSrM/s1600/older.jpg" height="320" width="240" /></a></td></tr><tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;"><i>Money is the tribute age pays to beauty</i></td></tr></tbody></table><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="background-color: white; font-family: Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 18px; line-height: 24.639999389648438px;">Older men can be the basis of a very successful escorting business. In today's excerpt from my forthcoming book,&nbsp;</span><i style="background-color: white; font-family: Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 18px; font-weight: bold; line-height: 24.639999389648438px;">Avails: Escorting for the Elegant Woman </i><span style="background-color: white; font-family: Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 18px; line-height: 24.639999389648438px;">the pleasures of older escorting clients.</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="background-color: white; font-family: Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 18px; line-height: 24.639999389648438px;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="background-color: white; font-family: Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 18px; line-height: 24.639999389648438px;">----</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br /></div><div class="MsoNormal">If you are a twenty-two year old escort, virtually <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">all</i> the men you meet are older. There is a wonderful saying, <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">Money is the tribute age pays to beauty</i>, and that sums up the role an older man has for an escort, courtesan, or mistress. </div><div class="MsoNormal"><br /></div><div class="MsoNormal">The great advantage of escort dates with older men (50+) is that, for the most part, they know precisely what they are looking for. They are mature, if not wise, and a good deal of the angst which may attend an escort date with a younger man is absent from encounters with men over fifty.</div><div class="MsoNormal"><br /></div><div class="MsoNormal">At the same time, older men are not likely to see an escort as simply a “service provider” or “sex worker”. They tend to regard the escort as a woman offering them something special and in turn, they treat her with a certain kind regard. They grew up in a world where “hooking-up” was rare and sexual activity, or even the promise of sexual activity, was wrapped up in a lot of moral complications. And the older they are, the more likely they are to have complex issues surrounding the very idea of escorts. Not necessarily negative issues; rather a tendency to take the entire transaction as being more transgressive than younger men are likely to consider it.</div><div class="MsoNormal"><br /></div><!--[if gte mso 9]><xml> <o:OfficeDocumentSettings> <o:AllowPNG/> </o:OfficeDocumentSettings></xml><![endif]--><!--[if gte mso 9]><xml> <w:WordDocument> <w:Zoom>0</w:Zoom> <w:TrackMoves>false</w:TrackMoves> <w:TrackFormatting/> <w:PunctuationKerning/> <w:DrawingGridHorizontalSpacing>18 pt</w:DrawingGridHorizontalSpacing> <w:DrawingGridVerticalSpacing>18 pt</w:DrawingGridVerticalSpacing> <w:DisplayHorizontalDrawingGridEvery>0</w:DisplayHorizontalDrawingGridEvery> <w:DisplayVerticalDrawingGridEvery>0</w:DisplayVerticalDrawingGridEvery> <w:ValidateAgainstSchemas/> <w:SaveIfXMLInvalid>false</w:SaveIfXMLInvalid> <w:IgnoreMixedContent>false</w:IgnoreMixedContent> <w:AlwaysShowPlaceholderText>false</w:AlwaysShowPlaceholderText> <w:Compatibility> <w:BreakWrappedTables/> <w:DontGrowAutofit/> <w:DontAutofitConstrainedTables/> <w:DontVertAlignInTxbx/> </w:Compatibility> </w:WordDocument></xml><![endif]--><!--[if gte mso 9]><xml> <w:LatentStyles DefLockedState="false" LatentStyleCount="276"> </w:LatentStyles></xml><![endif]--> <!--[if gte mso 10]><style> /* Style Definitions */ table.MsoNormalTable {mso-style-name:"Table Normal"; mso-tstyle-rowband-size:0; mso-tstyle-colband-size:0; mso-style-noshow:yes; mso-style-parent:""; mso-padding-alt:0cm 5.4pt 0cm 5.4pt; mso-para-margin-top:0cm; mso-para-margin-right:0cm; mso-para-margin-bottom:10.0pt; mso-para-margin-left:0cm; mso-pagination:widow-orphan; font-size:12.0pt; font-family:Cambria; mso-ascii-font-family:Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family:"Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family:Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latin;} </style><![endif]--> <!--StartFragment--> <!--EndFragment--><br /><div class="MsoNormal">From the escort’s perspective, an older man may be preferable simply because he does see the escort arrangement as more than a little naughty. Coming to a date with this attitude means that it is easier for the escort to exercise the degree of control required for a pleasurable, safe encounter. </div>http://escort-book.blogspot.com/2014/08/in-praise-of-older-men.htmlnoreply@blogger.com (Hannah Jay)0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1821936109385268237.post-7769399065010387029Thu, 21 Aug 2014 20:33:00 +00002014-08-21T13:33:56.732-07:00elegant escortescort bookescort incallsescort officeescort work placeescortingincallsAn Escort's Office<div class="MsoNormal"><table cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="float: left; margin-right: 1em; text-align: left;"><tbody><tr><td style="text-align: center;"><a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-saAK0_6lAYA/U_ZXKfxqBzI/AAAAAAAAAIg/t5N83YuJyoo/s1600/es-office.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"><img alt="escort incall, incalls, escort office" border="0" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-saAK0_6lAYA/U_ZXKfxqBzI/AAAAAAAAAIg/t5N83YuJyoo/s1600/es-office.jpg" height="213" title="" width="320" /></a></td></tr><tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;"><i>And there's a living room too</i></td></tr></tbody></table>For an escort doing in-calls, her home is not only her castle, it is also her workplace. By paying attention to the look and feel of her surroundings, she can reap big rewards both personally and professionally. </div><div class="MsoNormal"><br /></div><div class="MsoNormal">The space an escort uses for seeing her gentlemen callers is like a stage set. At a glance, it says something about the woman who lives there. You always want to make a positive impression, so take this presentation seriously. Your space is part of your image. And like your appearance, one to be carefully considered . It is impossible to change your height, but you <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">can</i> change your décor. And if you can change it, the ambitious escort can masterfully plan it, control it, and <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">ta da</i>---work it to her advantage. </div><div class="MsoNormal"><br /></div><div class="MsoNormal">Business acumen and personal comfort aside, a well-appointed home also sends a signal to an escort’s clients that she has taken them into consideration when arranging her space. If they encounter a pleasing environment, she is already some distance towards a successful, rewarding experience for them. A stylish décor catches the eye, but a space filled with serenity, comfort, and calm captures the spirit. It stays in the mind. And being memorable is an advantage for an escort in a crowded and competitive marketplace. </div><div class="MsoNormal"><br /></div><!--[if gte mso 9]><xml> <o:OfficeDocumentSettings> <o:AllowPNG/> </o:OfficeDocumentSettings></xml><![endif]--><!--[if gte mso 9]><xml> <w:WordDocument> <w:Zoom>0</w:Zoom> <w:TrackMoves>false</w:TrackMoves> <w:TrackFormatting/> <w:PunctuationKerning/> <w:DrawingGridHorizontalSpacing>18 pt</w:DrawingGridHorizontalSpacing> <w:DrawingGridVerticalSpacing>18 pt</w:DrawingGridVerticalSpacing> <w:DisplayHorizontalDrawingGridEvery>0</w:DisplayHorizontalDrawingGridEvery> <w:DisplayVerticalDrawingGridEvery>0</w:DisplayVerticalDrawingGridEvery> <w:ValidateAgainstSchemas/> <w:SaveIfXMLInvalid>false</w:SaveIfXMLInvalid> <w:IgnoreMixedContent>false</w:IgnoreMixedContent> <w:AlwaysShowPlaceholderText>false</w:AlwaysShowPlaceholderText> <w:Compatibility> <w:BreakWrappedTables/> <w:DontGrowAutofit/> <w:DontAutofitConstrainedTables/> <w:DontVertAlignInTxbx/> </w:Compatibility> </w:WordDocument></xml><![endif]--><!--[if gte mso 9]><xml> <w:LatentStyles DefLockedState="false" LatentStyleCount="276"> </w:LatentStyles></xml><![endif]--> <!--[if gte mso 10]><style> /* Style Definitions */ table.MsoNormalTable {mso-style-name:"Table Normal"; mso-tstyle-rowband-size:0; mso-tstyle-colband-size:0; mso-style-noshow:yes; mso-style-parent:""; mso-padding-alt:0cm 5.4pt 0cm 5.4pt; mso-para-margin-top:0cm; mso-para-margin-right:0cm; mso-para-margin-bottom:10.0pt; mso-para-margin-left:0cm; mso-pagination:widow-orphan; font-size:12.0pt; font-family:"Times New Roman"; mso-ascii-font-family:Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family:"Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family:Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latin;} </style><![endif]--> <!--StartFragment--> <!--EndFragment--><br /><div class="MsoNormal">So whether you are perched in view penthouse, or reside in a character three-story walk up nowhere near the ocean (<i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">le sigh</i>), the principles are the same. So let’s begin with the basics.</div>http://escort-book.blogspot.com/2014/08/an-escorts-office.htmlnoreply@blogger.com (Hannah Jay)0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1821936109385268237.post-7301702012557715409Wed, 20 Aug 2014 17:22:00 +00002014-08-20T10:22:35.653-07:00escort costumeescort dress upescort role playescortingFinal Stretch<table cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="float: left; margin-right: 1em; text-align: left;"><tbody><tr><td style="text-align: center;"><a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-HibnirCv3Z4/U_TZApyghyI/AAAAAAAAAIQ/k2dMaFMoTOI/s1600/20140306-062754.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"><img border="0" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-HibnirCv3Z4/U_TZApyghyI/AAAAAAAAAIQ/k2dMaFMoTOI/s1600/20140306-062754.jpg" height="253" width="320" /></a></td></tr><tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;"><i>Vintage School Girl</i></td></tr></tbody></table>As I go into the final stretch of editing and layout of Avails: Escorting for the Elegant Woman here is a little excerpt on the fine art of dressing up for your clients:<br /><br />----<br /><br />“The other thing about dress up dates is that it often takes a client a long time to finally admit that he wants a particular fantasy. As an escort you fulfill the initial fantasy but, if that first date works, you can suggest a variation for a “next” date. Your client, having summoned the courage to ask for what he wants the first time, will be delighted and relieved to have a girl willing to cater to his fantasies. Which&nbsp; means, bottom line, that most of my dress up escorting clients become regulars.”<br /><br /> <!--[if gte mso 9]><xml> <o:OfficeDocumentSettings> <o:AllowPNG/> </o:OfficeDocumentSettings></xml><![endif]--><!--[if gte mso 9]><xml> <w:WordDocument> <w:Zoom>0</w:Zoom> <w:TrackMoves>false</w:TrackMoves> <w:TrackFormatting/> <w:PunctuationKerning/> <w:DrawingGridHorizontalSpacing>18 pt</w:DrawingGridHorizontalSpacing> <w:DrawingGridVerticalSpacing>18 pt</w:DrawingGridVerticalSpacing> <w:DisplayHorizontalDrawingGridEvery>0</w:DisplayHorizontalDrawingGridEvery> <w:DisplayVerticalDrawingGridEvery>0</w:DisplayVerticalDrawingGridEvery> <w:ValidateAgainstSchemas/> <w:SaveIfXMLInvalid>false</w:SaveIfXMLInvalid> <w:IgnoreMixedContent>false</w:IgnoreMixedContent> <w:AlwaysShowPlaceholderText>false</w:AlwaysShowPlaceholderText> <w:Compatibility> <w:BreakWrappedTables/> <w:DontGrowAutofit/> <w:DontAutofitConstrainedTables/> <w:DontVertAlignInTxbx/> </w:Compatibility> </w:WordDocument></xml><![endif]--><!--[if gte mso 9]><xml> <w:LatentStyles DefLockedState="false" LatentStyleCount="276"> </w:LatentStyles></xml><![endif]--> <!--[if gte mso 10]><style> /* Style Definitions */ table.MsoNormalTable {mso-style-name:"Table Normal"; mso-tstyle-rowband-size:0; mso-tstyle-colband-size:0; mso-style-noshow:yes; mso-style-parent:""; mso-padding-alt:0cm 5.4pt 0cm 5.4pt; mso-para-margin-top:0cm; mso-para-margin-right:0cm; mso-para-margin-bottom:10.0pt; mso-para-margin-left:0cm; mso-pagination:widow-orphan; font-size:12.0pt; font-family:"Times New Roman"; mso-ascii-font-family:Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family:"Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family:Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latin;} </style><![endif]--> <!--StartFragment--> <div class="MsoNormal"><o:p></o:p></div><div class="MsoNormal">“I have a very discreet card which says “Costumes” with my email and number. On the back I have my measurements, shoe size and so on. A lot of my dress up clients just love to buy me outfits. It gives them a little thrill to go into a thrift store or a vintage shop and buy a Girl Guide uniform. Pervy, sure…but harmless. And it expands my costume collection.”<o:p></o:p></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br /></div><div class="MsoNormal">“One other thing which I do, for a hefty fee of course, is I offer my clients their own private section of my website. I take a bunch of pictures of myself in and out of their favorite outfits. I encourage them to email me special requests. And, recently, I figured out how I can do live video. My teacher client loves this because I do my “homework” is this very cute, semi-see through, cotton nightie and he can watch me.” said Carol.<o:p></o:p></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br /></div><div class="MsoNormal">Dressing up dates may involve an element of role playing but some escorts take role playing to the next level where they assume a character and stay in character throughout the escort date."<o:p></o:p></div><!--EndFragment-->http://escort-book.blogspot.com/2014/08/final-stretch.htmlnoreply@blogger.com (Hannah Jay)0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1821936109385268237.post-4505498537392675844Mon, 18 Aug 2014 18:36:00 +00002014-08-18T11:36:53.829-07:00courtesanelegant escortescort advertisingescort bookescortingBlogging For Escorts<table cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="float: left; margin-right: 1em; text-align: left;"><tbody><tr><td style="text-align: center;"><a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-NphTsGAoEjk/U_JHMRXVGGI/AAAAAAAAAIA/L0dyPH5-y2k/s1600/tumblr_n64fzvkhxr1qfbon7o1_500.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"><img alt="escorting, escorts, escort book, how to be an escort" border="0" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-NphTsGAoEjk/U_JHMRXVGGI/AAAAAAAAAIA/L0dyPH5-y2k/s1600/tumblr_n64fzvkhxr1qfbon7o1_500.jpg" height="320" title="" width="243" /></a></td></tr><tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;"><i>Escorts Write</i></td></tr></tbody></table>Using the internet a girl can build her escort brand. In today's excerpt from my forthcoming book,&nbsp;<i style="font-weight: bold;">Avails: Escorting for the Elegant Woman&nbsp;</i>writing and&nbsp;using photographs on your escort website.<br /><br />-----<br /><div class="MsoNormal">Remember those fabulous, sexy, photos you had taken for your escort ads?&nbsp;</div><div class="MsoNormal"><br /></div><div class="MsoNormal">Remember how sorry you were that you could not use all your outfits and that the naughtier pictures were unsuitable for the ads you wanted to run? Well, on your site there are no limits to either the number or the nature of the pictures you post. (Although you might want to set up a members only area for the naughtier shots to both protect your privacy and give your regulars a treat.) Posting photographs in galleries is as easy as picking the ones you want and uploading them from your computer. Once you have built one gallery the next will take you a quarter of the time.</div><div class="MsoNormal"><br /></div><div class="MsoNormal">As you build pages for your escort, blog driven, site think about what you want to say and how you want to say it. Take a look at other escort sites for inspiration. Remember that what you write about escorting will be picked up by the search engines. Also remember that, on the net, your credibility is often determined by the little things. Watch your spelling and punctuation. </div><div class="MsoNormal"><br /></div><!--[if gte mso 9]><xml> <o:OfficeDocumentSettings> <o:AllowPNG/> </o:OfficeDocumentSettings></xml><![endif]--><!--[if gte mso 9]><xml> <w:WordDocument> <w:Zoom>0</w:Zoom> <w:TrackMoves>false</w:TrackMoves> <w:TrackFormatting/> <w:PunctuationKerning/> <w:DrawingGridHorizontalSpacing>18 pt</w:DrawingGridHorizontalSpacing> <w:DrawingGridVerticalSpacing>18 pt</w:DrawingGridVerticalSpacing> <w:DisplayHorizontalDrawingGridEvery>0</w:DisplayHorizontalDrawingGridEvery> <w:DisplayVerticalDrawingGridEvery>0</w:DisplayVerticalDrawingGridEvery> <w:ValidateAgainstSchemas/> <w:SaveIfXMLInvalid>false</w:SaveIfXMLInvalid> <w:IgnoreMixedContent>false</w:IgnoreMixedContent> <w:AlwaysShowPlaceholderText>false</w:AlwaysShowPlaceholderText> <w:Compatibility> <w:BreakWrappedTables/> <w:DontGrowAutofit/> <w:DontAutofitConstrainedTables/> <w:DontVertAlignInTxbx/> </w:Compatibility> </w:WordDocument></xml><![endif]--><!--[if gte mso 9]><xml> <w:LatentStyles DefLockedState="false" LatentStyleCount="276"> </w:LatentStyles></xml><![endif]--> <!--[if gte mso 10]><style> /* Style Definitions */ table.MsoNormalTable {mso-style-name:"Table Normal"; mso-tstyle-rowband-size:0; mso-tstyle-colband-size:0; mso-style-noshow:yes; mso-style-parent:""; mso-padding-alt:0cm 5.4pt 0cm 5.4pt; mso-para-margin-top:0cm; mso-para-margin-right:0cm; mso-para-margin-bottom:10.0pt; mso-para-margin-left:0cm; mso-pagination:widow-orphan; font-size:12.0pt; font-family:"Times New Roman"; mso-ascii-font-family:Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family:"Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family:Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latin;} </style><![endif]--> <!--StartFragment--> <!--EndFragment--><br /><div class="MsoNormal">One thing to remember about the internet is that most people just scan the pages. So don’t write long pieces. The other thing to remember is that presenting yourself like a lady will let you charge higher rates and attract a better off clientele. Ladies are often provocative in public but they are rarely naked, much less “exposed”. Creating a sense of mystery, a sense of wanting to see what is under the skirt or the clever little top, is more likely to have a client phone for an appointment. (Of course, in your members area you can certainly show a little more; but, once again, less is almost always more.)</div>http://escort-book.blogspot.com/2014/08/blogging-for-escorts.htmlnoreply@blogger.com (Hannah Jay)1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1821936109385268237.post-3121173673807792401Sun, 17 Aug 2014 19:17:00 +00002014-08-17T12:17:15.130-07:00Belle De Jourcourtesanelegant escortescort bookladylikeEscorts, Courtesans and....you<table cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="float: left; margin-right: 1em; text-align: left;"><tbody><tr><td style="text-align: center;"><a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-3P2fq4AkHag/U_D-mHXPzjI/AAAAAAAAAHw/LmNi98sQ7gQ/s1600/tumblr_mqe8vf13m81qed8s5o1_500.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"><img alt="escort, courtesan, international courtesan" border="0" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-3P2fq4AkHag/U_D-mHXPzjI/AAAAAAAAAHw/LmNi98sQ7gQ/s1600/tumblr_mqe8vf13m81qed8s5o1_500.jpg" height="320" title="" width="295" /></a></td></tr><tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;"><i>Elegance</i></td></tr></tbody></table>My new book <i><b>Avails: Escorting for the Elegant Woman</b></i> is, of course, filled with information about the mechanics of the escort business. Lots of material on how an escort can use the internet, raise her rates, stay safe and keep healthy.<br /><br />However, as I wrote the book I realized that a lot of the material was just as applicable for a girl starting out in a city or on a career who had no intention of ever being an escort or even a mistress (although the mistress option should never be dismissed entirely.)<br /><br />Looking fabulous on a budget means going well beyond retail: vintage, consignment, Craigslist and thrift stores offer wonderful, well made, clothes at 5-10% of retail. <i><b>Avails</b></i> tells you how to maximize your clothing dollar.<br /><br />Paying attention to your budgeting, your cash and your savings are important no matter how you actually earn your money.<br /><br />Keeping your sex life interesting with everything from mood lighting to riding crops is not just for courtesans. At the same time, valuing your sexuality and having a '50s call girl &nbsp;sense of propriety will set a girl apart in a "hook-up" culture. <i><b>Avails</b></i> gives you ways to shift your sexual attitude.<br /><br />From make up to lingerie, sex toys to home decor, <i><b>Avails</b></i>&nbsp;speaks to the modern woman who wants to recreate a more elegant past while living in an often perplexing contemporary world.<br /><br /><i><b>Avails</b></i> is not a guide to escorting; rather it is a guide to escorting for the elegant woman. Long before the escort decision is made, an elegant woman will have created the mystery and confidence to have her own style, her own standards and her own allure. A lot of Avails is about how that elegance is achieved and maintained when a woman decides to escort.<br /><br /><br />http://escort-book.blogspot.com/2014/08/escorts-courtesans-andyou.htmlnoreply@blogger.com (Hannah Jay)0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1821936109385268237.post-7352495231170421936Sat, 16 Aug 2014 18:11:00 +00002014-08-17T11:42:22.777-07:00dominant escortescort booksubmissive escort client<table cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="float: left; margin-right: 1em; text-align: left;"><tbody><tr><td style="text-align: center;"><a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-X8vdhRSlMW8/U-z2lonNbUI/AAAAAAAAAEM/5XTClv2ivGg/s1600/tumblr_mv01v47ti91rjib3yo1_500.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"><img border="0" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-X8vdhRSlMW8/U-z2lonNbUI/AAAAAAAAAEM/5XTClv2ivGg/s1600/tumblr_mv01v47ti91rjib3yo1_500.jpg" height="320" width="237" /></a></td></tr><tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;"><i>Escorts' Questions Answered</i></td></tr></tbody></table>Part of the fun of writing my book on elegant escorting has been answering the questions which escorts ask. A lot of the time the answers are just common sense but I try to add a little style. Most importantly, I try to encourage the escorts who write me to add a little style to their escorting business.<br /><br />An excerpt from my forthcoming book,&nbsp;<i style="font-weight: bold;">Avails: Escorting for the Elegant Woman</i>:<br /><br /><br /><b><br /></b><b><br /></b><b><br /></b><b><br /></b><b>Naughty Boy: Playing the Domina</b><br /><br /><span style="font-family: Courier New, Courier, monospace;">Dear Miss Jay,</span><br /><span style="font-family: Courier New, Courier, monospace;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Courier New, Courier, monospace;">One of my regular clients likes to tell me his fantasies. Most of them involve his being tied up or punished in some way. It is pretty obvious that he would like me to do some of the things he is fantasizing about but I really have no idea where to begin. Can you show me the ropes?&nbsp;</span><br /><br /><i>Well, no; but he can.</i><br /><i><br /></i><i>I would say, however, that before undertaking any “acting out”, you are very clear with the client about what you are comfortable with and where you draw the line. Begin with something simple like tying his hands behind his back (zip ties are easy and secure), have him lean over the bed, and give him some lashes with your bamboo cane or hairbrush. (Be kind and give him an introductory half a dozen or so strokes with your hand, then switch to your implement of choice and work up the intensity, pausing between strokes to let him recover and to judge his reaction and level of tolerance to various levels. If this is pleasing to him, you can expand the role by adding dialogue, serious lingerie as attire, or perhaps having him “confess” and be spanked/whipped as punishment. After the enterprise, he is to thank you. You can then give him the attentions he has earned. Done well, this client is going to keep coming back for more because he has trusted you with fantasies he likely is afraid to share with a wife or girlfriend. </i>http://escort-book.blogspot.com/2014/08/escorts-questions-answered-part-of-fun.htmlnoreply@blogger.com (Hannah Jay)0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1821936109385268237.post-6549782407193706083Fri, 15 Aug 2014 19:35:00 +00002014-08-15T12:35:01.721-07:00Belle De Jourcourtesanelegant escortescortingGigiHolly GolightlyMadame ClaudeAvails Cover<table cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="float: left; margin-right: 1em; text-align: left;"><tbody><tr><td style="text-align: center;"><a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-k8d1Rb56FPg/U-5da08qy-I/AAAAAAAAAEs/nu_kN4MeVW4/s1600/Cover-1d.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"><img border="0" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-k8d1Rb56FPg/U-5da08qy-I/AAAAAAAAAEs/nu_kN4MeVW4/s1600/Cover-1d.jpg" height="320" width="230" /></a></td></tr><tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;"><i>Elegance and Escorting</i></td></tr></tbody></table>Part of the fun of publishing to Kindle on Amazon is that you can design a cover to reflect what is in the book.<br /><br />Yes, that lovely girl is wearing vintage Dior.<br /><br /><i>Avails: Escorting for the Elegant Woman</i>&nbsp;is not just a how to book for escorts. In fact, the whole premise of the book is to take a look at escorting from a stylish, elegant perspective.<br /><br />Very much in the Gigi, Holly Golightly and Madam Claude school where money really is the tribute age pays to beauty. &nbsp;If a girl wants to do well as an escort she needs to get well away from the rather sordid world of "BackPages" ads and doubtful pictures of her thong.<br /><br />Writing the book I've been inspired by the delights of retro-lingerie, 1950's exclusive call girls, Belle de Jour (it is impossible for Catherine Deneuve to be anything but elegant) and a sense of decadent pleasure.<br /><br />While&nbsp;<i>Avails: Escorting for the Elegant Woman </i>is certainly aimed at girls who are working as escorts and who want to up their game, it is also written for elegant women who, while they are not interested in becoming escorts, are very interested in the style and attitudes of the courtesan.http://escort-book.blogspot.com/2014/08/avails-cover.htmlnoreply@blogger.com (Hannah Jay)0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1821936109385268237.post-3087493869931823284Fri, 15 Aug 2014 18:10:00 +00002014-08-15T11:10:10.401-07:00deciding to become an escortelegant escortescort bookescortingThe Escort Decision<div class="MsoNormal"><table cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="float: left; margin-right: 1em; text-align: left;"><tbody><tr><td style="text-align: center;"><a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-DQVghkFFSaA/U-5Mc46rqaI/AAAAAAAAAEc/6zEAU7PIZyA/s1600/tumblr_n5vrz4G5Ou1qfbon7o1_500.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"><img border="0" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-DQVghkFFSaA/U-5Mc46rqaI/AAAAAAAAAEc/6zEAU7PIZyA/s1600/tumblr_n5vrz4G5Ou1qfbon7o1_500.jpg" height="320" width="228" /></a></td></tr><tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;"><i>Taking the Plunge</i></td></tr></tbody></table>Every escort, at some point, has made the decision to become an escort. In today's excerpt from my forthcoming book,&nbsp;<i style="font-weight: bold;">Avails: Escorting for the Elegant Woman </i>a few questions to ask before taking the plunge:<br /><br />----<br /><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><br /></b><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">Sex</b><br /><br />Do you like sex? Enjoy pleasuring men? Enjoy seduction and being seduced? The legal concept behind escorting is that a girl is perfectly free to sell her time and that sex, like board games or a great dinner, is an option between consenting adults. As it always is. That said, it is an option than many of an escort’s clients will exercise if they have the opportunity. And successful escorts usually ensure that that opportunity arises.</div><div class="MsoNormal"><br /></div><div class="MsoNormal">But when a girl is deciding whether or not the escorting world is for her, she needs to think about how she feels about very casual, non-emotionally entangled sex. Many escort dates will end in the bedroom and the ability to have sex with a relative stranger is important to the success of an escort enterprise.</div><div class="MsoNormal"><br /></div><div class="MsoNormal"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">Meeting New People</b><br /><br />Do you like meeting people? Are you shy? An escort will meet new people every day. She has to get along with others, and she has to be able to assess who they are, and whether they are the sort of person she wants to do business with.</div><div class="MsoNormal"><br /></div><div class="MsoNormal">Most escorts develop what might be called a “game face” which they bring to first encounters. A good game face lets the escort interact with her clients without having to expose her own personality too much. Even a girl who is normally very shy around men can create a game face for her encounters which lets her slip into her escort persona.</div><div class="MsoNormal"><br /></div><div class="MsoNormal">At the same time, girls who are not shy can have a great time meeting and getting to know their escort clients. While escorting is a business, it is also a very social business, and for an outgoing girl, being an escort means being able to encounter, charm, and seduce new men every day.</div><div class="MsoNormal"><br /></div><div class="MsoNormal"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">Enjoying the Feminine</b>&nbsp;</div><div class="MsoNormal"><br /></div><div class="MsoNormal">While escorts can adopt any persona they want, ultimately what they are offering is female companionship. And they are offering a fantasy which is rooted in the feminine.</div><div class="MsoNormal"><br /></div><div class="MsoNormal">When a girl is considering becoming an escort, she needs to think carefully about which aspects of her femininity she is most comfortable with. Is she a lace and frills girly-girl or a no-nonsense type? In-charge or submissive? While most women are a mix of all of the above - <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">&nbsp;</span>and a lot more besides - the successful escort will pick a “style” for her personna and work with that.</div><div class="MsoNormal"><br /></div><!--[if gte mso 9]><xml> <o:OfficeDocumentSettings> <o:AllowPNG/> </o:OfficeDocumentSettings></xml><![endif]--><!--[if gte mso 9]><xml> <w:WordDocument> <w:Zoom>0</w:Zoom> <w:TrackMoves>false</w:TrackMoves> <w:TrackFormatting/> <w:PunctuationKerning/> <w:DrawingGridHorizontalSpacing>18 pt</w:DrawingGridHorizontalSpacing> <w:DrawingGridVerticalSpacing>18 pt</w:DrawingGridVerticalSpacing> <w:DisplayHorizontalDrawingGridEvery>0</w:DisplayHorizontalDrawingGridEvery> <w:DisplayVerticalDrawingGridEvery>0</w:DisplayVerticalDrawingGridEvery> <w:ValidateAgainstSchemas/> <w:SaveIfXMLInvalid>false</w:SaveIfXMLInvalid> <w:IgnoreMixedContent>false</w:IgnoreMixedContent> <w:AlwaysShowPlaceholderText>false</w:AlwaysShowPlaceholderText> <w:Compatibility> <w:BreakWrappedTables/> <w:DontGrowAutofit/> <w:DontAutofitConstrainedTables/> <w:DontVertAlignInTxbx/> </w:Compatibility> </w:WordDocument></xml><![endif]--><!--[if gte mso 9]><xml> <w:LatentStyles DefLockedState="false" LatentStyleCount="276"> </w:LatentStyles></xml><![endif]--> <!--[if gte mso 10]><style> /* Style Definitions */ table.MsoNormalTable {mso-style-name:"Table Normal"; mso-tstyle-rowband-size:0; mso-tstyle-colband-size:0; mso-style-noshow:yes; mso-style-parent:""; mso-padding-alt:0cm 5.4pt 0cm 5.4pt; mso-para-margin-top:0cm; mso-para-margin-right:0cm; mso-para-margin-bottom:10.0pt; mso-para-margin-left:0cm; mso-pagination:widow-orphan; font-size:12.0pt; font-family:"Times New Roman"; mso-ascii-font-family:Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family:"Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family:Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latin;} </style><![endif]--> <!--StartFragment--> <!--EndFragment--><br /><div class="MsoNormal">Which elements of your femininity you decide to focus on in your escort business will help to determine everything from your lingerie to your preferred clientele and even the décor of the space you use for escorting encounters. For your clients, their encounters will be infused with the feminine focus you choose. It won’t be to every client’s taste, but the men who click with your focus, may well become your loyal regulars.</div>http://escort-book.blogspot.com/2014/08/the-escort-decision.htmlnoreply@blogger.com (Hannah Jay)0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1821936109385268237.post-3576926098609613243Thu, 14 Aug 2014 17:49:00 +00002014-08-14T10:53:36.485-07:00elegant escortescort bookescort threesomeEscort's Questions for Miss Jay<table cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="float: left; margin-right: 1em; text-align: left;"><tbody><tr><td style="text-align: center;"><a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-X8vdhRSlMW8/U-z2lonNbUI/AAAAAAAAAEM/5XTClv2ivGg/s1600/tumblr_mv01v47ti91rjib3yo1_500.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"><img border="0" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-X8vdhRSlMW8/U-z2lonNbUI/AAAAAAAAAEM/5XTClv2ivGg/s1600/tumblr_mv01v47ti91rjib3yo1_500.jpg" height="320" width="237" /></a></td></tr><tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;"><i>Escorts' Questions Answered</i></td></tr></tbody></table>Part of the fun of writing my book on elegant escorting has been answering the questions which escorts ask. A lot of the time the answers are just common sense but I try to add a little style. Most importantly, I try to encourage the escorts who write me to add a little style to their escorting business.<br /><br />An excerpt from my forthcoming book,&nbsp;<i style="font-weight: bold;">Avails: Escorting for the Elegant Woman</i>:<br /><br /><br /><br /><b>Two's Company, Three's Delightful</b><br /><br /><span style="font-family: Courier New, Courier, monospace;">Dear Miss Jay,</span><br /><span style="font-family: Courier New, Courier, monospace;"><br /></span><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Courier New, Courier, monospace;">I work as a high end escort in a large American city. Recently, a long-term regular client of mine – a great guy in his early 40’s – asked me if I would be willing to entertain both he and a friend of his at the same time. He is very generous and has said he would make this threesome very worth my while. I don’t know if I should accept his offer because I don’t have any experience with this at all. I must say that the thought of it makes me a bit nervous, but I’m kind of excited with the idea, too.</span><b><o:p></o:p></b></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br /></div><div class="MsoNormal"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">Think of this new experience as adding to your repertoire as an escort. This is always valuable and usually very lucrative---adding 50% to your normal rate times two is not out of the question. So, if you are comfortable with this proposition(nervous is normal), chat to the client beforehand about what he has in mind and his expectations. You can tailor the session to make it a fun and sensual encounter for everyone. <o:p></o:p></i></div><div class="MsoNormal"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><br /></i></div><div class="MsoNormal"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">Your gentlemen, if they truly are, might arrive with a bouquet of flowers, a bottle of bubbly, and a silk garter belt and stockings just to make you feel like the special centre of attention. If you can’t be sure they can come up with such a delightful plan themselves, suggest it. As you are now a rarified woman who wears stockings (see above), this is a thrilling treat for the men in your company. <o:p></o:p></i></div><div class="MsoNormal"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><br /></i></div><div class="MsoNormal"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">Taking the time to sit down together with a glass of champagne or prosecco is a wonderful way to meet, break the ice, and make everyone more <a href="https://www.blogger.com/null" name="_GoBack"></a>comfortable. One question which will arise is whether they would like to enjoy your favours one at a time privately or together. While ultimately this is the escort’s own choice, it is a good idea to ensure that all the consenting adults are on the same page. It is also a good idea, before the bedroom hoves into view, to lay out any ground rules or no go areas.<o:p></o:p></i></div><div class="MsoNormal"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><br /></i></div><div class="MsoNormal"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">Just as you would with a single gentleman, make sure that you take the erotic lead. Simply by shifting the conversation in an erotic direction you signal the festivities are beginning. Undressing, just a little, down to your slip for example, will ensure they follow where you lead.<o:p></o:p></i></div><div class="MsoNormal"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><br /></i></div><div class="MsoNormal"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">Once you move on to the bedroom, the focus can either be on one gentleman and then the next or shift from one participant to another while all are engaged. Things tend to progress fluidly, so you don’t have to have the whole time scripted. Toys are an option that can be entertaining, too. My best advice is just to relax and have fun. If you are, you can be assured that your two callers are, too.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">&nbsp; </span><o:p></o:p></i></div><div class="MsoNormal"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"><br /></span></i></div><div class="MsoNormal"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">One critical thing about a threesome is that it is very, very, unwise to have one if you don’t know and trust one of the gentlemen from earlier, singular, encounters. Just don’t do it. It is dangerous and, unfortunately, undercover police prefer to travel in pairs.</i><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><o:p></o:p></b></div><!--[if gte mso 9]><xml> <o:OfficeDocumentSettings> <o:AllowPNG/> </o:OfficeDocumentSettings></xml><![endif]--><!--[if gte mso 9]><xml> <w:WordDocument> <w:Zoom>0</w:Zoom> <w:TrackMoves>false</w:TrackMoves> <w:TrackFormatting/> <w:PunctuationKerning/> <w:DrawingGridHorizontalSpacing>18 pt</w:DrawingGridHorizontalSpacing> <w:DrawingGridVerticalSpacing>18 pt</w:DrawingGridVerticalSpacing> <w:DisplayHorizontalDrawingGridEvery>0</w:DisplayHorizontalDrawingGridEvery> <w:DisplayVerticalDrawingGridEvery>0</w:DisplayVerticalDrawingGridEvery> <w:ValidateAgainstSchemas/> <w:SaveIfXMLInvalid>false</w:SaveIfXMLInvalid> <w:IgnoreMixedContent>false</w:IgnoreMixedContent> <w:AlwaysShowPlaceholderText>false</w:AlwaysShowPlaceholderText> <w:Compatibility> <w:BreakWrappedTables/> <w:DontGrowAutofit/> <w:DontAutofitConstrainedTables/> <w:DontVertAlignInTxbx/> </w:Compatibility> </w:WordDocument></xml><![endif]--><!--[if gte mso 9]><xml> <w:LatentStyles DefLockedState="false" LatentStyleCount="276"> </w:LatentStyles></xml><![endif]--> <!--[if gte mso 10]><style> /* Style Definitions */ table.MsoNormalTable {mso-style-name:"Table Normal"; mso-tstyle-rowband-size:0; mso-tstyle-colband-size:0; mso-style-noshow:yes; mso-style-parent:""; mso-padding-alt:0cm 5.4pt 0cm 5.4pt; mso-para-margin-top:0cm; mso-para-margin-right:0cm; mso-para-margin-bottom:10.0pt; mso-para-margin-left:0cm; mso-pagination:widow-orphan; font-size:12.0pt; font-family:"Times New Roman"; mso-ascii-font-family:Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin; mso-hansi-font-family:Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latin;} </style><![endif]--> <!--StartFragment--> <!--EndFragment--><br /><div class="MsoNormal"><br /></div>http://escort-book.blogspot.com/2014/08/escorts-questions-for-miss-jay.htmlnoreply@blogger.com (Hannah Jay)0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1821936109385268237.post-1919072305974115323Wed, 13 Aug 2014 17:49:00 +00002014-08-13T10:54:38.851-07:00elegant escortescort privacyescortingAn Escort's Secrets<table cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="float: left; margin-right: 1em; text-align: left;"><tbody><tr><td style="text-align: center;"><a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-cgTXQDCaE8c/U-ukspgq6cI/AAAAAAAAAD8/XwuzqyO3QeQ/s1600/tumblr_mr1jipMbp01qed8s5o1_500.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"><img border="0" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-cgTXQDCaE8c/U-ukspgq6cI/AAAAAAAAAD8/XwuzqyO3QeQ/s1600/tumblr_mr1jipMbp01qed8s5o1_500.jpg" height="320" width="317" /></a></td></tr><tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;"><i>Escorts never Tell</i></td></tr></tbody></table>An excerpt from my forthcoming book,&nbsp;<i style="font-weight: bold;">Avails: Escorting for the Elegant Woman</i>:<br /><br /><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt;">"Most escorts’ clients are not very curious. At least not the first time you see them. The traditional, “How did a nice girl like you get into a business like this?” question is easy to answer –<i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">Well, money, and I love the hours</i> – will shut down the punter. But the great trade off of the safety and predictability of an escort’s regulars, is they will get to know you a bit. There is nothing wrong with that; but once in a while an escort client can turn into a stalker or just a guy who wants more than you are in the business of giving.<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt;">The big difference between a curious regular and the general public, is that he knows what you do and where you do it. Now, if all you do are outcalls the “where” is useless to him. However, if you escort from a dedicated apartment or your own home, some basic privacy moves are key.<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt;">First, again, a cover story. And there is no reason not to use the same cover story. If your escort client tries to run it down, he’ll hit the same wall which defeats your friends and family if it is a pure fake. If you really <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">do</i> have a day job, you can use it for cover but simply refuse to give the curious client any details.<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt;"><br /></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt;">Keep your work environment – even if it is your own home – absolutely devoid of personal items – pictures, phone numbers, a computer, medicines in your bathroom cupboard – all give a casual observer too much information. <o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br /></div><div class="MsoNormal"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt;">Set Hard Limits</span></b><span style="mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt;"><br /></span></b></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt;">Just because an escort client is buying your time, he does not have any right to pry into your life. And you have no obligation to discuss personal matters. <o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt;"><br /></span></div><!--[if gte mso 9]><xml> <o:OfficeDocumentSettings> <o:AllowPNG/> </o:OfficeDocumentSettings></xml><![endif]--><!--[if gte mso 9]><xml> <w:WordDocument> <w:Zoom>0</w:Zoom> <w:TrackMoves>false</w:TrackMoves> <w:TrackFormatting/> <w:PunctuationKerning/> <w:DrawingGridHorizontalSpacing>18 pt</w:DrawingGridHorizontalSpacing> <w:DrawingGridVerticalSpacing>18 pt</w:DrawingGridVerticalSpacing> <w:DisplayHorizontalDrawingGridEvery>0</w:DisplayHorizontalDrawingGridEvery> <w:DisplayVerticalDrawingGridEvery>0</w:DisplayVerticalDrawingGridEvery> <w:ValidateAgainstSchemas/> <w:SaveIfXMLInvalid>false</w:SaveIfXMLInvalid> <w:IgnoreMixedContent>false</w:IgnoreMixedContent> <w:AlwaysShowPlaceholderText>false</w:AlwaysShowPlaceholderText> <w:Compatibility> <w:BreakWrappedTables/> <w:DontGrowAutofit/> <w:DontAutofitConstrainedTables/> <w:DontVertAlignInTxbx/> </w:Compatibility> </w:WordDocument></xml><![endif]--><!--[if gte mso 9]><xml> <w:LatentStyles DefLockedState="false" LatentStyleCount="276"> </w:LatentStyles></xml><![endif]--> <!--[if gte mso 10]><style> /* Style Definitions */ table.MsoNormalTable {mso-style-name:"Table Normal"; mso-tstyle-rowband-size:0; mso-tstyle-colband-size:0; mso-style-noshow:yes; mso-style-parent:""; mso-padding-alt:0cm 5.4pt 0cm 5.4pt; mso-para-margin-top:0cm; mso-para-margin-right:0cm; mso-para-margin-bottom:10.0pt; mso-para-margin-left:0cm; mso-pagination:widow-orphan; font-size:12.0pt; font-family:"Times New Roman"; mso-ascii-font-family:Cambria; mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin; mso-hansi-font-family:Cambria; mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latin;} </style><![endif]--> <!--StartFragment--> <!--EndFragment--><br /><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt;">Hard limits are set quite easily if you are prepared. If an escort client asks you about something you are uncomfortable discussing, you can gracefully shrug it off by saying, <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">Oh, I never discuss my family</i>, (boyfriend,/work/city of origin/high school…et al).’ If he pushes, the push back is more straightforward, <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">No, I really don’t discuss that sort of thing. I value my privacy as I am sure you value yours.</i> End of discussion. Be friendly but firm. The threat is not particularly subtle but it reminds your escort client that he has a reputation to consider as well."<o:p></o:p></span></div>http://escort-book.blogspot.com/2014/08/an-escorts-secrets.htmlnoreply@blogger.com (Hannah Jay)0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1821936109385268237.post-497097921457326232Tue, 12 Aug 2014 21:49:00 +00002014-08-12T14:49:49.959-07:00elegant escortescort advertisingescort bookladylikeLike a Lady<table cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="float: left; margin-right: 1em; text-align: left;"><tbody><tr><td style="text-align: center;"><a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-pGJxqxFNOzo/U-qKvvwqYOI/AAAAAAAAADs/EQjB2mUm8Q8/s1600/271904896221989089_pubkz5Gb_c.jpeg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"><img border="0" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-pGJxqxFNOzo/U-qKvvwqYOI/AAAAAAAAADs/EQjB2mUm8Q8/s320/271904896221989089_pubkz5Gb_c.jpeg" /></a></td></tr><tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;"><i>Heels High, Standards Higher</i></td></tr></tbody></table>An excerpt from my forthcoming book, <i style="font-weight: bold;">Avails: Escorting for the Elegant Woman</i>:<br /><br /><br />In the fashion world, there is a wonderful word for a certain timeless elegance: <i>ladylike</i>. It is an expression the escort world rarely uses perhaps because its implications are lost on many modern clients. Instead escorts are generally referred to as <i>high-end</i> or <i>high-class</i> or <i>up-market</i> or <i>up-scale</i>.<br /><br />Which, I’m afraid, rather misses the point. Leave escorting to one side, people don’t actually speak of other people as <i>high-end</i> – they say that about kitchen appliances. <i>Up-market</i> refers to condominiums. People talking about women will use words like <i>pretty, stylish, beautiful, elegant</i> and sometimes, even, <i>ladylike</i>. How would someone describe you? Not sure? Then it’s time to refine your image.<br /><br />Escorts rely for a large measure of their business on advertising. Writing good advertising copy is an art; and one that an ambitious escort should master. Why? Because words matter.<br /><br />When an escort is marketing herself, using the right words attracts the target market. If you are seeking affluent and sophisticated clients, then you need to use words and images in a style which will send just the right message. Try to key in on adjectives that are descriptive, but specific. And do try to be creative and original. If you want to stand out from the other ads your ad must look and be different.http://escort-book.blogspot.com/2014/08/like-lady.htmlnoreply@blogger.com (Hannah Jay)0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1821936109385268237.post-2300933953062822324Mon, 11 Aug 2014 18:50:00 +00002014-08-11T18:23:40.746-07:00corsetselegant escortescort bookgirdlesretro glamourstockingsRetro Glamour for the Modern Escort<table cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="float: left; margin-right: 1em; text-align: left;"><tbody><tr><td style="text-align: center;"><a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-tyg0wQZ3w7U/U-kPa3MZpyI/AAAAAAAAADY/gruZjjfadPc/s1600/tumblr_mqr2z690ge1qed8s5o1_500.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"><img border="0" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-tyg0wQZ3w7U/U-kPa3MZpyI/AAAAAAAAADY/gruZjjfadPc/s1600/tumblr_mqr2z690ge1qed8s5o1_500.jpg" /></a></td></tr><tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;font-style:italic;">Seams for the Modern Escort</td></tr></tbody></table><b>An excerpt from <i>Avails: Escorting for the Elegant Woman</i></b><br /><b><i><br /></i></b>"Dita von Teese has created an entire celebrity career as a burlesque queen, lingerie model, and retro fantasy by playing up certain troupes: mid-century women had hour-glass figures, fitted clothes, structured lingerie, make-up never without black eyeliner, powder, and brick red lipstick, and slid their silk-stockinged legs in sky-high heels. If you look to Dita as your model, you will be well versed in your retro escorting role.<br /><br />Reaching back to the mid-century is about more than just the firm girdles and flared skirts of the Mr. Dior’s <i>New Look</i> or the curvy women of <i>Mad Men</i>; it is about a certain attitude. Mid-century women valued their femininity and their sexuality. Marriage was the female goal, and those women who were free with their sexual favours were shunned by the “nice ladies”. Which created a ready market for what were referred to as <i>call girls</i> as upper end escorts were then called. Then, as now, many girls were happy to escort, but in those days, they were very discreet about it.<br /><blockquote class="tr_bq"><div class="MsoNormal">The mid-century call girl world operated within the confines of the sexual morality in which it was embedded. And this is important because it defined the nature of a mid-century call girl’s dates and can inform the structure of today’s 21<sup>st</sup> century escort’s service. In the 1940’s and 1950’s, good girls expected to be wined, dined, and generally adored, and even then, they would draw a line long short of casual, much less, intimate behavior, without a ring on their left hand. The mid-century call girl, on the other hand, was paid to allow matters to become more intense. However she still expected to have a real date.</div></blockquote><blockquote class="tr_bq"><div class="MsoNormal">Mid-century girls didn’t play hard to get, they <i>were</i> hard to get. Which meant that call-girls were able to charge a premium for the simplest things which relieved unbearable urges.</div></blockquote><blockquote class="tr_bq"><div class="MsoNormal">In the modern world of hook-ups, quick if expensive divorce, easy birth control, and casual dating, the ambitious escort has to offer something more than just lots of activity between consenting adults. To command premium prices, the modern escort needs to see herself as providing a service which goes well beyond “consenting” when the time is right. The retro hook is brilliant in so many ways. Ironically, men are willing to pay for the rare woman who is less modern, not more. Having it all, and having it easy, isn’t really what men want at all."</div></blockquote><br /><blockquote class="tr_bq"><!--EndFragment--></blockquote>http://escort-book.blogspot.com/2014/08/retro-glamour-for-modern-escort.htmlnoreply@blogger.com (Hannah Jay)0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1821936109385268237.post-6102513242654877114Sun, 10 Aug 2014 19:50:00 +00002014-08-10T18:04:37.501-07:00elegant escortescort bookescortingGigiHolly GolightlyMadame ClaudeEscorting for the Elegant Woman<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-A3KgTlTn7Ik/U-gWjqUmuhI/AAAAAAAAADI/QqZY5B21epQ/s1600/tumblr_myk8nlKxoc1qfbon7o1_500.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-A3KgTlTn7Ik/U-gWjqUmuhI/AAAAAAAAADI/QqZY5B21epQ/s1600/tumblr_myk8nlKxoc1qfbon7o1_500.jpg" height="320" width="207" /></a></div><i>Avails: Escorting for the Elegant Woman</i> is a Kindle book in the last stages of pre-publication.<br /><br />The escorting business all over the world is booming. The numbers and their analysis are featured in <i>The Economist'</i>s August 9, 2014 issue: <a href="http://www.economist.com/news/briefing/21611074-how-new-technology-shaking-up-oldest-business-more-bang-your-buck">More Bang for your Buck</a>. Depending on your perspective, this article is either confirmation of what you already suspected (women with bigger breasts make more money) or a matter of fact analysis of the world's oldest profession.<br /><br />As I wrote <i>Avails,</i> I realized that the sorts of things which <i>The Economist </i>was talking about had very little to do with what I was interested in: the pleasures, challenges, and business of&nbsp;the elegant escort. I have been inspired by the style of the Madam Claude girls of Paris in the 1960's and 70's. Here is James Fox in <i>Vanity Fair </i>on the Claude girls:<br /><blockquote>The specialty of the “Claude girls” was that they were indistinguishable from the most beautiful young women you might have seen from the late fifties to the late seventies at Maxim’s restaurant, at Jimmy’z in Montparnasse, or at Castel’s, the perennially fashionable nightclub in the Rue Princesse. They were elegant, trilingual, <i>sortable</i>—they were summoned at short notice to official dinners by the Quai d’Orsay (the foreign-affairs ministry) or the Élysée (presidential) Palace. Their style made the Mayflower Madam business look somewhat grubby, a mere visiting massage service by comparison. A New York investment banker who used Madame Claude’s service in the 1960s, and who left his Phi Beta Kappa key on a Claude girl’s bedpost, told me, <b>“It reached the point where if you walked into a room in London or Rome, as much as Paris, because the girls were transportable, and saw a girl who was better-dressed, better-looking, and more distinguished than the others, you presumed it was a girl from Claude. </b>It was, without doubt, the finest sex operation ever run in the history of mankind.”</blockquote>For a modern girl interested in entering the professional and wishing to emulate the panache of the Claude girl, she can add one trick to her bag of tricks that no Claude girl could: the Internet. An escort today can create an elegant life and a successful business. The question is: <i>how</i>?<br /><br />&nbsp;<i>Avails: Escorting for the Elegant Woman</i> is partially a guide, but mainly an inspiration for girls who want to take the escorting world not by storm, but by charm. While I recognize the realities of advertising, escort review sites, doubtful photographs, and dubious clients, the motto, "Hold your head high and your standards higher" infuses the book. As does the belief that the world of La Belle Époque, Holly Golightly, and Madame Claude are not so much gone as forgotten. We think it is high time for the sensibilities of that world to return.http://escort-book.blogspot.com/2014/08/escorting-for-elegant-woman.htmlnoreply@blogger.com (Hannah Jay)0