I don't think it's right but you grabbing the phone wasn't right either. If you checked his phone and then he went and grabbed it it wouldn't make you feel good either. You both r wrong. Now both say sorry, kiss and make out. I mean make up ;)

I don't think it's right but you grabbing the phone wasn't right either. If you checked his phone and then he went and grabbed it it wouldn't make you feel good either. You both r wrong. Now both say sorry, kiss and make out. I mean make up ;)

Only if he asks me to check it... But he texts with my best friend and I don't even feel the need to check messages between them. It makes me feel weir that its such a big deal that I see what my mom needs from me first. Especially since she was just checking up with me after I fell down the stairs yesterday. Thanks for the reply. I wanted to make sure my pregnancy hormones aren't just raging and I have a real reason to be upset about him looking through my phone.

Only if he asks me to check it... But he texts with my best friend and I don't even feel the need to check messages between them. It makes me feel weir that its such a big deal that I see what my mom needs from me first. Especially since she was just checking up with me after I fell down the stairs yesterday. Thanks for the reply. I wanted to make sure my pregnancy hormones aren't just raging and I have a real reason to be upset about him looking through my phone.

I find it odd. Did he randomly just do it? My husband and I would open each others texts or emails, but we trust each other so don't need to. I have nothing to hide from him. He deletes his texts at times when he tries to surprise me with something, but eventually gives in. Lol...

I find it odd. Did he randomly just do it? My husband and I would open each others texts or emails, but we trust each other so don't need to. I have nothing to hide from him. He deletes his texts at times when he tries to surprise me with something, but eventually gives in. Lol...

Sometimes my husband will pick my phone up if he hears it & says who it's from a lot of times ill say okay what'd they say & hell read it too me. My husband is always asking who I'm talking to & I answer. It bothers me when he does ask bec it's like he doesn't trust me. But then he's told me he's really just interested. He doesn't get text often & he made me realize I always ask him too. I don't look at his phone before him I just let him know it went off. I think it more depends on your own relationship if its normal for you guys. Is he checking it bec he's paranoid or if he really is just interested. & if you feel it is crossing the line just explain to him how you felt.

Sometimes my husband will pick my phone up if he hears it & says who it's from a lot of times ill say okay what'd they say & hell read it too me. My husband is always asking who I'm talking to & I answer. It bothers me when he does ask bec it's like he doesn't trust me. But then he's told me he's really just interested. He doesn't get text often & he made me realize I always ask him too. I don't look at his phone before him I just let him know it went off. I think it more depends on your own relationship if its normal for you guys. Is he checking it bec he's paranoid or if he really is just interested. & if you feel it is crossing the line just explain to him how you felt.

Snatching is never nice. I think you should apologize for acting that way but tell him you don't appreciate him reading or answering texts before you get a chance to. My DH has answered texts for me then forgot to tell me and then my friends or fam will ask "oh didn't you read my text?"

Snatching is never nice. I think you should apologize for acting that way but tell him you don't appreciate him reading or answering texts before you get a chance to. My DH has answered texts for me then forgot to tell me and then my friends or fam will ask "oh didn't you read my text?"

Yeah, my phone is MY phone. I have nothing to hide, but agree w/ pp if they wanted to talk to your husband they'd text HIM not you. Day before Christmas, what if it was about a surprise? Your strong reaction was probably due to hormones, but him needing to see your texts before you do is pretty immature and looks untrusting. I had an ex who was obsessed with "who are you texting" and would constantly look through my phone. He apparently frequently cheated on me and would sext other girls while I was right next to him. Not saying to be suspicious of angel cheating, just pointing out the obvious "untrustworthy people usually have no trust in anyone else".

Yeah, my phone is MY phone. I have nothing to hide, but agree w/ pp if they wanted to talk to your husband they'd text HIM not you. Day before Christmas, what if it was about a surprise? Your strong reaction was probably due to hormones, but him needing to see your texts before you do is pretty immature and looks untrusting. I had an ex who was obsessed with "who are you texting" and would constantly look through my phone. He apparently frequently cheated on me and would sext other girls while I was right next to him. Not saying to be suspicious of angel cheating, just pointing out the obvious "untrustworthy people usually have no trust in anyone else".

snatching the phone away makes it seem like you're hiding something. my dh will read my texts if he's closest to the phone. idc unless I've been *****ing about my mil ;) he trusts me and I trust him. I don't see the problem.

snatching the phone away makes it seem like you're hiding something. my dh will read my texts if he's closest to the phone. idc unless I've been *****ing about my mil ;) he trusts me and I trust him. I don't see the problem.

First off, to the poster who cited 'hormones' as a reason for the OPs reaction, using hormones as an excuse is immature and a cop-out.
To the OP, peeping someone elses text messages is inappropriate unless the couple has different standards of privacy. That said, snatching the phone from his hand is equally rude and is a perfect scenario for him to believe you are hiding something. After all, what you think if he frantically snatched his phone from your hands? I think he deserves an apology for the way you reacted and that you need to explain how you feel about text creeping, just ensure that you make it clear that you aren't hiding something.

First off, to the poster who cited 'hormones' as a reason for the OPs reaction, using hormones as an excuse is immature and a cop-out.
To the OP, peeping someone elses text messages is inappropriate unless the couple has different standards of privacy. That said, snatching the phone from his hand is equally rude and is a perfect scenario for him to believe you are hiding something. After all, what you think if he frantically snatched his phone from your hands? I think he deserves an apology for the way you reacted and that you need to explain how you feel about text creeping, just ensure that you make it clear that you aren't hiding something.

He probably got defensive because u did. I wouldn't mind if my DP read a text from my mum. I would just ask him to read it out. I'd be annoyed if he didn't tell me he had read it and I didn't see it at all

He probably got defensive because u did. I wouldn't mind if my DP read a text from my mum. I would just ask him to read it out. I'd be annoyed if he didn't tell me he had read it and I didn't see it at all

That kind of annoys me too because I tell him sometimes my friends are texting me private things they only want to share with me! Just because he is my spouse doesn't mean he needs to know everything my friends talk about.

That kind of annoys me too because I tell him sometimes my friends are texting me private things they only want to share with me! Just because he is my spouse doesn't mean he needs to know everything my friends talk about.

I hate when my dh does that.. I think he's just nosy as hell.. Lol I don't have anything to hide but damn can u back up a little.. He goes thru my phone at times.. He gets angry if I check his tho.. Men are funny like that.. Just tell him to ask next time..

I hate when my dh does that.. I think he's just nosy as hell.. Lol I don't have anything to hide but damn can u back up a little.. He goes thru my phone at times.. He gets angry if I check his tho.. Men are funny like that.. Just tell him to ask next time..

Maybe he didn't see the harm because he saw it was from your mom. My DH and I have answered each others phones and texts, no big deal to us. Other people have different views, though, so it all depends on previous behavior. If he's done it before, or if you've done it with his phone, then he probably feels that you're hiding something by snatching the phone away. I would be suspicious of that if it were me. It's silly for y'all to be mad at each other over something like this! Life is way too short. Go make up.

Maybe he didn't see the harm because he saw it was from your mom. My DH and I have answered each others phones and texts, no big deal to us. Other people have different views, though, so it all depends on previous behavior. If he's done it before, or if you've done it with his phone, then he probably feels that you're hiding something by snatching the phone away. I would be suspicious of that if it were me. It's silly for y'all to be mad at each other over something like this! Life is way too short. Go make up.

Depends. My SO can read my texts if he wants to. If I leave my phone on the table and I'm busy, he can read it to me. I mostly text HIS side of the family anyways haha. I dont mind because I really have just a handful of people that I text. The only time I hid texts from him was when I was sending pictures of his Christmas present to his mom.

Depends. My SO can read my texts if he wants to. If I leave my phone on the table and I'm busy, he can read it to me. I mostly text HIS side of the family anyways haha. I dont mind because I really have just a handful of people that I text. The only time I hid texts from him was when I was sending pictures of his Christmas present to his mom.

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