Why do men don't want to get married - why he doesn't want to get married

You will meet several types of men: men who want to get married, men who don't want to get married, men who are not sure if they want to get married.

Let's say you were in a relationship for 2 years and your man told you he doesn't want to get married. What does it mean? It means that he made up his mind that marriage is not for him. Is it your fault? No, it's not your fault, don't try to convince him into marrying you, just move on and find someone who wants the same (marriage) as you do.

Don't blame yourself, it's not your fault and you did everything you could do, so just move on and you will find a better man. So, why do men don't want to get married?

You would be surprised but there are many men out there for whom marriage is not important in a way it's important to you.

If marriage was really important to him then he would do anything to marry you. He can be in love with you even if you aren't married, but him loving you doesn't guarantee marriage. For some men feeling in love very important, but for other men feeling in love isn't important enough to get married. For those men, NOT getting married is more important.

He can say a lot about why he doesn't want to get married (affraid of divorce, affraid to lose money and etc) but the main reason is that being single is a lot more important to him than being married. He can tell you he loves you but a whole massage he is sending is that not marrying you is more important than anything else (love, marriage and etc)

Usually people do what they want and what they think is important at the moment. Do you want to be the most important person in your man's life? Then find someone who will consider you more important than anything else. Date a lot of men and find out who suits you the best. He isn't the only person on the planet who should be married to you, maybe you will find someone even better. Work on your faith and start your search.

More reasons why men don't want to get married

If he doesn't beleive in marriage and told you he never wants to marry anyone, beleive him and don't pressure him either.

Most men know what they want from a woman. If he believes in marriage and wants to be married some day, maybe he is waiting for the right woman.

He could be comfortable in the relationship with you, he could enjoy your attention, care, sex, whatever else, but he is waiting to meet a woman of her dreams who he will be attracted to forever.

Some men are affraid of marriage because they are affraid to loose control.

When you get married, wife and husband have to negotiate how much power they have over certain issues. Maybe your man always wants to be in control of everything and is affraid you will demand more power over him since you get married. Women have more power when they get married than when they are single.

Maybe he doesn't want to please anyone and he just wants to live life for himself and his own pleasures. Maybe he was hurt before and he decided for himself in order to be safe he has to be forever single.