Event Details

Friday, October 7, 2016 6:45 pm

Are you missing touch in your life/ looking for a new way to connect with others in the trans community? Do you want to discuss boundaries and consent in a comfy, safer environment? Would you like to explore touch with others who are willing to do it on your terms? Would you like to feel supported by people who understand that consent is an important and ongoing conversation- people who honor your no. If so, this might be the event for you.

This event is open exclusively to self-identified transgender/ transexual individuals. This is designed as a safer space specifically for people in this community. No allies or researchers please.

ABOUT THIS CUDDLE UP EVENT

We will connect, hug, share our experiences of touch, and maybe even cuddle. Everyone present will be invited to participate in a mix of intentional cuddle exercises & unstructured cuddle time. This is your opportunity to enjoy cuddling/ simply connecting with other wonderful people in the queer community. No one is required to touch anyone at any point ever.

WHAT CAN I EXPECT?/ CUDDLE ETIQUETTE

Everyone needs to be here for the agreements. For this reason, everyone is required to arrive by 7:15 pm. If you have not arrived by 7:15 pm and have not called, you will not be able to enter.

Agreements

No one has to cuddle, snuggle, or share with anyone.

In order to maintain a non-sexual environment, clothing stays on the whole time. Comfy clothing (pj's, sweats,etc) is encouraged, but not required.

Everyone involved is asked to make specific requests if they would like to engage in some form of touch/ cuddling. Please respond with an honest yes or no. If you are unsure, please say no. You can re-visit this request later if you like.

If you feel uncomfortable/ need to shift positions at any time, please let your cuddle buddy/ buddies know right away.

Accessibility Notes: There are 5 steps to enter the first floor apartment where this event is held. There is a couch, a futon, and a few chairs available for seating/ laying alone or next to others. There are several mattresses laid directly on the floor (not elevated). With the exception of the couch, all furniture and pads can be moved pretty easily if needed. Extremely quiet building. No flashing lights. No pets in the unit.

This is a body positive space for any/ all trans bodies.

HAVE MORE QUESTIONS?

If you still have questions, feel free to text me or give me a call at 669-23-BE-YOU.

Private Home in West Edgewater
Near Damen & Berywn
Address will be emailed to participants prior to event
Chicago,
IL

Friday, October 7, 2016 from 6:45 PM to 10:15 PM (CDT)

Organizer

I am a certified professional cuddler and workshop facilitator who enjoys connecting with people in many different ways. I enjoy giving and receiving back rubs, eye gazing, tickling, hand holding, gentle caresses, etc. Creating a unique environment/ experience based on an individual's touch needs gives me joy. On a side note, no worries if you are not sure what you might want. I have lots of different ways that we can explore this together. I have been hosting and assisting others with cuddle parties for many years, so I am definitely a well-seasoned cuddler. I also facilitate events on connection, so I am confident that we will quickly feel connected. :)