Okay, you can find all of this in other threads, do a search and you will be reading womens responses all day and night, but since I feel generous, here we go:

looloo wrote:

I really like to know weather you lady's prefer a bad boy or a nice boy ?

bady boy

looloo wrote:

Who do you prefer to take the lead in bedroom, you or the man ?

the bigger he is, the more I want him to take control

looloo wrote:

Does size really matter ?

yes, but its not everything. People confuse the question- just because it matters doesn't mean it's the deciding factor. Let's say a man rolls out an acorn-dick, or a giant 11" sausage- in both cases show me the woman who says that doesn't matter and I'll show you a liar.

looloo wrote:

Are looks important ?

yes.

looloo wrote:

Does body shape (fat,slim etc) really matter ?

damn right it matters.

looloo wrote:

What really turns you gals on ?

depends on our moods.

looloo wrote:

Do you girls enjoy watching or even participating in porn video's ?

watching, yes I am starting to. Participating? Depends on the offer. Are you offering?

looloo wrote:

What do you really like in the bedroom( ie do you like sucking dick,getting fucked in the arse,titty fucked,rough,gentle etc etc) ?

I really like to know weather you lady's prefer a bad boy or a nice boy ? I have a real weakness for reformed bad boys, or 'complex guys' as I prefer to call them. Nobody wants to date an asshole. But he definitely has to have some 'edge'...

Who do you prefer to take the lead in bedroom, you or the man ? I like to vary it up, because sometimes I like to really seduce and worship a guy with me calling the shots. On a whole though, I really do enjoy being sub.

Does size really matter ? If I can't feel it, then its too small. There is also such a thing as too big though. Anything in between that threshold is fine.

Are looks important ? Yes.

Does body shape (fat,slim etc) really matter ? Yes.

What really turns you gals on ? Read through the Lush story genres and read things written by females. You'll have a better idea of what we like, because it definitely varies.

Do you girls enjoy watching or even participating in porn video's ? Yes, regularly. I haven't made a sex tape yet (I'm more of a mirror watcher), but its definitely on my list of things to do. And yes, I will be the only one keeping a copy of that tape. Or we just erase and rewind.

What do you really like in the bedroom( ie do you like sucking dick,getting fucked in the arse,titty fucked,rough,gentle etc etc) ? For me... all of the above.

Okay, you can find all of this in other threads, do a search and you will be reading womens responses all day and night, but since I feel generous, here we go:

looloo wrote:

I really like to know weather you lady's prefer a bad boy or a nice boy ?

bady boy

looloo wrote:

Who do you prefer to take the lead in bedroom, you or the man ?

the bigger he is, the more I want him to take control

looloo wrote:

Does size really matter ?

yes, but its not everything. People confuse the question- just because it matters doesn't mean it's the deciding factor. Let's say a man rolls out an acorn-dick, or a giant 11" sausage- in both cases show me the woman who says that doesn't matter and I'll show you a liar.

looloo wrote:

Are looks important ?

yes.

looloo wrote:

Does body shape (fat,slim etc) really matter ?

damn right it matters.

looloo wrote:

What really turns you gals on ?

depends on our moods.

looloo wrote:

Do you girls enjoy watching or even participating in porn video's ?

watching, yes I am starting to. Participating? Depends on the offer. Are you offering?

looloo wrote:

What do you really like in the bedroom( IE do you like sucking dick,getting fucked in the arse,titty fucked,rough,gentle etc etc) ?

I really like to know weather you lady's prefer a bad boy or a nice boy ? I have a real weakness for reformed bad boys, or 'complex guys' as I prefer to call them. Nobody wants to date an asshole. But he definitely has to have some 'edge'...

Who do you prefer to take the lead in bedroom, you or the man ? I like to vary it up, because sometimes I like to really seduce and worship a guy with me calling the shots. On a whole though, I really do enjoy being sub.

Does size really matter ? If I can't feel it, then its too small. There is also such a thing as too big though. Anything in between that threshold is fine.

Are looks important ? Yes.

Does body shape (fat,slim etc) really matter ? Yes.

What really turns you gals on ? Read through the Lush story genres and read things written by females. You'll have a better idea of what we like, because it definitely varies.

Do you girls enjoy watching or even participating in porn video's ? Yes, regularly. I haven't made a sex tape yet (I'm more of a mirror watcher), but its definitely on my list of things to do. And yes, I will be the only one keeping a copy of that tape. Or we just erase and rewind.

What do you really like in the bedroom( ie do you like sucking dick,getting fucked in the arse,titty fucked,rough,gentle etc etc) ? For me... all of the above.

I really like to know weather you lady's prefer a bad boy or a nice boy ?

Who do you prefer to take the lead in bedroom, you or the man ?

Does size really matter ?

Are looks important ?

Does body shape (fat,slim etc) really matter ?

What really turns you gals on ?

Do you girls enjoy watching or even participating in porn video's ?

What do you really like in the bedroom( ie do you like sucking dick,getting fucked in the arse,titty fucked,rough,gentle etc etc) ?

There are millions more questions but that's for later

Bad boys for sure.

I'll be agressive if a guy lets me, but I much prefer him to be in complete control of me. Having him take charge turns me on.

Depends on how big he really is. Knowing how to use it means alot more then just having a big cock. unfortunatly, there isn't much a guy can do to make up for a small cock. at that point, I'd rather be with another woman.

Yes looks are important, but I'd guess many of us would disagree on what good looks are. One thing for me is he has to have eyes that can pierce into me and a smile that lets me know what he wants to do to me.

I want him to be tall, and not to slim or fat. I love a mans strength in bed and seeing it in his arms and chest turns me on.

Motorcycles...lol. Really, depends on what day you ask me.

I like watching porn alone or with someone else. I have been photographed in some...compromising positions. Most of the time without being asked. I have to say that really gets me going. I found out after coming here that those pics are not the kind of thing I want to share.

I haven't found anything yet that I really don't like except being asked to be a dom. I tried to once, but looking at the guy like that was a complete turn off. I just don't want to see my man beg. Thats not to say I'm turned off by him wanting me to do things to him, I'd just rather have him tell me to as were going. If I can be graphic, having a man jack off on me while I'm restrained is very exciting to see.

What really turns you gals on ? a man who knows how to treat a lady right, some one with a good personality (who can make me laugh) eyes (god I love sexy eyes especially blue ones), and a hairy chest (love to run my fingers through it)

Do you girls enjoy watching or even participating in porn video's ? love watching

What do you really like in the bedroom( ie do you like sucking dick,getting fucked in the arse,titty fucked,rough,gentle etc etc) ? all of the above

I really like to know weather you lady's prefer a bad boy or a nice boy ? Always dated the bad boys, then married the nice boy! Miss the bad boy from time to time, so I find him here!

Who do you prefer to take the lead in bedroom, you or the man ? I like the man to take the lead to be aggressive, it shows me he is confident and knows what he wants and how to please his girl!

Does size really matter ? Being with a man that is well in dowd is not all its cracked up to be. An average size man can really work a woman the way she wants!

Are looks important ? I find if the man has a good sense of humor the rest falls into place. Laughter is key!

Does body shape (fat,slim etc) really matter? I think if a man and woman are both fit, they are in sync with one another sexually and can last longer and be more creative!

What really turns you gals on ? Dirty talk! When I get worked up and I'm hot I want to be a little naughty and verbal!

Do you girls enjoy watching or even participating in porn video's ? Does not do it for me, reading erotic stories helps to get me off, that's how I found lush!

What do you really like in the bedroom( ie do you like sucking dick,getting fucked in the arse,titty fucked,rough,gentle etc etc) ? A little aggresion and changing up positions throught before you climax can make for some great sex!

Okay, usually I'd search on my own a little more before posting, but since this guy got away with it, I'll try my luck.

Could you elaborate on what constitutes a "bad boy". I mean, what is it about the "bad boy" that attracts you. Is it the image? Or is it the fact that a "bad boy" is dangerous? or both?

For example of these types of guys, which would you prefer.

1. A guy who looks, talks and acts like a bad boy, but isn't really dangerous.

2. A guy who looks talks and acts like a bad boy, and is dangerous (ie involved in some sort of criminal activities)

3. A guy who tries to look normal, but is in fact involved in criminal activities.

If this has been answered elsewhere and you don't want to answer it here, that is fine. I'll find it one day. But I thought I'd try my luck.

Thanks for your time,

Peace

I'm going to venture that most people aren't looking for a guy that is involved in serious criminal activity regardless of whether he looks like he is or not.

Here are my thoughts on the bad boy profiles you mention above:

Guy #1: Yes, this is the one we want. When we say 'bad boy', we are talking about a guy with an 'edge'. Someone who isn't 'vanilla', someone who has a dynamic mind, thinks outside of the box, bit of a rebel, bit of a dark side, and someone who challenges us and keeps us on our toes. It's more about edgy psychology, less about being dangerous in actuality (or at least for me it is... I'm not into criminals). At the same time it's a fine line, because we don't want someone who is a jerk or treats us like shit either. There is a difference. The best bad boys know how to flirt well and have a bit of a twisted dark side, which makes the flirting (and the sex) more exciting.

Guy #2: I'm assuming you're talking about 'gangster chic' here. And no, this isn't my thing (personally). The guys who look like criminals and are criminals are the ones that get busted as criminals. And you end up going down with them. Not cool.

Guy #3: is the definition of a psychopath (ie. Ted Bundy type). Also... not cool.

Guy #1: Yes, this is the one we want. When we say 'bad boy', we are talking about a guy with an 'edge'. Someone who isn't 'vanilla', someone who has a dynamic mind, thinks outside of the box, bit of a rebel, bit of a dark side, and someone who challenges us and keeps us on our toes. It's more about edgy psychology, less about being dangerous in actuality (or at least for me it is... I'm not into criminals). At the same time it's a fine line, because we don't want someone who is a jerk or treats us like shit either. There is a difference. The best bad boys know how to flirt well and have a bit of a twisted dark side, which makes the flirting (and the sex) more exciting.

Interesting. So what I understood was you like guys who are more like a menace to society but aren't actually criminals. Is that correct? Now I know there are other threads for personality and looks issues, but I'm directing this specifically at the "bad boy". You have already explained the "bad boy" personality, but is there also a "look" that you expect? Like can a guy be considered a "bad boy" if he meets all of your criteria or does he also have to "look" it. When you think of a "bad boy" are there any distinct physical attributes that come to mind, or is it more of a personality thing?

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Guy #2: I'm assuming you're talking about 'gangster chic' here. And no, this isn't my thing (personally). The guys who look like criminals and are criminals are the ones that get busted as criminals. And you end up going down with them. Not cool.

Fair enough.

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Guy #3: is the definition of a psychopath (ie. Ted Bundy type). Also... not cool.

Not necessarily. He's just #2 who doesn't want to get caught. What I mean is he is still a criminal (leaning more toward organized crime, not serial killers) but doesn't act or dress like one (fancy cars, clothes, jewelery etc.) as not to get busted as you mentioned would happen with #2.

Thanks for replying btw, much appreciated."Oh yes, the past can hurt. But the way I see it you can either run from it...or, learn from it." - Rafiki, The Lion King

Guy #1: Yes, this is the one we want. When we say 'bad boy', we are talking about a guy with an 'edge'. Someone who isn't 'vanilla', someone who has a dynamic mind, thinks outside of the box, bit of a rebel, bit of a dark side, and someone who challenges us and keeps us on our toes. It's more about edgy psychology, less about being dangerous in actuality (or at least for me it is... I'm not into criminals). At the same time it's a fine line, because we don't want someone who is a jerk or treats us like shit either. There is a difference. The best bad boys know how to flirt well and have a bit of a twisted dark side, which makes the flirting (and the sex) more exciting.

Interesting. So what I understood was you like guys who are more like a menace to society but aren't actually criminals. Is that correct? Now I know there are other threads for personality and looks issues, but I'm directing this specifically at the "bad boy". You have already explained the "bad boy" personality, but is there also a "look" that you expect? Like can a guy be considered a "bad boy" if he meets all of your criteria or does he also have to "look" it. When you think of a "bad boy" are there any distinct physical attributes that come to mind, or is it more of a personality thing?

Thanks for replying btw, much appreciated.

No...it is not correct. I do not like guys who are "a menace to society". How did you get that out of what I wrote? It has nothing to do with society, or being a criminal, or being a menace or being dangerous. It's about confidence, a dynamic kind of intelligence (not just book smarts), and someone that's not afraid to challenge the status quo (in the way that he lives, the way he relates to others, as well as sexually). He's someone that's not afraid of pushing conventional boundaries and needing to play by all the rules (again, I will clarify that I mean the 'rules of life and love and sex'... not the rules of the law).

There is no specific look... but probably someone that has his own sense of style, and knows how to work it well. Confidence is more important than what he is wearing.

If you're talking about attractiveness... yes, it's a bonus if he's good looking... but a bad boy knows how to work his personality and the image he projects to turn heads and attract attention.

If you want the easiest way to understand this... think of your idea of the quintessential "bad girl"... and then flip it. Same thing.

If you're still uncertain... Go watch some episodes of the TV-show "Lost". Study the characters of Sawyer (bad boy) versus Jack (good guy). That's what we mean when we talk about a 'bad boy' that is attractive to women.

I understood it, I just worded it wrong I guess. English isn't my first language so I sort of translated it literally and apparently it doesn't quite work in English lol. What I meant by menace to society wasn't necessarily referring to law, but to society standards. Standards set by other people that everyone is just expected to follow. Your "bad guy" is someone who makes his own decisions about life, about what's wrong or right, about what can or can't be done etc. he doesn't follow what everybody else believes. Point is, I understood you, you just misunderstood me but that was my fault, sorry.

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If you want the easiest way to understand this... think of your idea of the quintessential "bad girl"... and then flip it. Same thing.

It wouldn't work. I'm not attracted to the "bad girl". And men think different to women. :P

Anyway, thanks for the reply, I appreciate it and sorry If I was a pain, I didn't mean to be. Just a curious 18 year old trying to understand the differences between girls and women. :)

Thanks again."Oh yes, the past can hurt. But the way I see it you can either run from it...or, learn from it." - Rafiki, The Lion King

I understood it, I just worded it wrong I guess. English isn't my first language so I sort of translated it literally and apparently it doesn't quite work in English lol. What I meant by menace to society wasn't necessarily referring to law, but to society standards. Standards set by other people that everyone is just expected to follow. Your "bad guy" is someone who makes his own decisions about life, about what's wrong or right, about what can or can't be done etc. he doesn't follow what everybody else believes. Point is, I understood you, you just misunderstood me but that was my fault, sorry.

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If you want the easiest way to understand this... think of your idea of the quintessential "bad girl"... and then flip it. Same thing.

It wouldn't work. I'm not attracted to the "bad girl". And men think different to women. :P

Anyway, thanks for the reply, I appreciate it and sorry If I was a pain, I didn't mean to be. Just a curious 18 year old trying to understand the differences between girls and women. :)

Thanks again.

No worries... so many things get lost in translation (myself included)... I know it can be a bit confusing to guys. We say we want nice guys but always end up having our heads turned by the bad boys. You're not the first to be confused. We confuse ourselves all the time! Wish I had better advice as to why it sparks our interest... It's just one of life's great mysteries. In general though, when it comes to settling down/marriage, the nice guys are often preferred... or at least they are after the first divorce...

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looloo wrote:

I really like to know weather you lady's prefer a bad boy or a nice boy ?

Who do you prefer to take the lead in bedroom, you or the man ?

Does size really matter ?

Are looks important ?

Does body shape (fat,slim etc) really matter ?

What really turns you gals on ?

Do you girls enjoy watching or even participating in porn video's ?

What do you really like in the bedroom( ie do you like sucking dick,getting fucked in the arse,titty fucked,rough,gentle etc etc) ?

There are millions more questions but that's for later

1. I want a real man not a sissy boy.

2.he had better know what he needs to do and to be sensual.

3.NO size does not matter it is the foreplay and the movements that are most important why would I want a guy with a huge cock and he has no idea how to please me with it..( the bigger the dumber) Any ways it is not the size of the boat it is the motion in the ocean that is most important to me...

4.in a way yes but he has to be romantic

5.I prefer not too tall only because I am so short

6.me I get turned on my caresses, romance, and lots of kissing.

7.ok I have only seen porn once and I was alone so I don't know

8. I like sensual sex nothing rough and definitely no anal sex..

Behind every strong soldier there is even a stronger woman who raised him " Proud Army Mom"

I really like to know weather you lady's prefer a bad boy or a nice boy ? How long does he have to be in my life?

Who do you prefer to take the lead in bedroom, you or the man ? The man.

Does size really matter ? Yes, but not in the way you'd think.

Are looks important ? Yes. If I don't find him attractive then it's not happening.

Does body shape (fat,slim etc) really matter ? To some extent, but I've dated a twiglett bloke and a much larger gentleman ;) and people inbetween...

What really turns you gals on ? It all depends on the gals.

Do you girls enjoy watching or even participating in porn video's ? Watching, yes. Depending on the content, but not all the time. I can use my mind to get off, so I don't need the pretty pictures... Professional porn is crap however. Being in a porn video is sooo never going to happen - The idea may get me off, but the practicalities of my nerdy friends seeing it, or strangers recognising me in the streets do not.

What do you really like in the bedroom( ie do you like sucking dick,getting fucked in the arse,titty fucked,rough,gentle etc etc) ? Yes. NO! Nyeh. Ohmnomnom. Yes. But as always it varies woman to woman... I like dirty nasty stuff, but you get some ladies that don't.

1.) bad boy or a nice boy ?--->>>IN THE MIDDLE, Nice as in faithful, sweet, gentleman, honest, respectful and would really take care of me. Bad, just keeping it tone down but a little rough. Just a good blend will make that man perfect!

6.)What really turns you gals on ?--->>> confidence but not over the top! don't be full of yourselves!

7.)Do you girls enjoy watching or even participating in porn video's ?--->>> i did watch but not always. pretty rare! being on it, so not gonna happen!

8.)What do you really like in the bedroom( ie do you like sucking dick,getting fucked in the arse,titty fucked,rough,gentle etc etc) ?--->>> oral, different positions, a little bit of gentle and rough, no anal.

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thepainter wrote:

redhotmommacita wrote:

7.ok I have only seen porn once and I was alone so I don't know

That one time being my painting vid?

You are terrible you weren't supposed to say anything.. Men can never keep their traps shut... and it is the only one I have seen and NO I do not know if it was good or not I need to see more to be able to judge you if it was good or not!!

Behind every strong soldier there is even a stronger woman who raised him " Proud Army Mom"

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thepainter wrote:

lol I can't remember but it's not the end of the world mommacitaand Mara has always assured me that my vid is horrible

NO SHIT SHERLOCK YOU ARE SUCH AN ASS AND WAY TO HAIRY AND FOR ME IT IS THE END OF THE WORLD..I HATE TO HAVE MY PRIVATE BUSINESS TO THE WHOLE FREAKING WORLD.....DON'T WORRY YOU WILL GET YOUR KARMA RETRIBUTION.. MR 2 INCHES

Behind every strong soldier there is even a stronger woman who raised him " Proud Army Mom"

I like the man inbetween Mr Nice Guy / Mr Bad Guy. I like the guy inbetween that show's some degree of flirting, but still wouldn't let you walk all over him. I like the guy who just doesn't jump, because you say how high.

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