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When my girlfriend and I first started hanging out we would walk around our campus and talk. We were doing the basic get-to-know you stuff, "How was high school? Any sibling?" The usual. Well, after a few nights of that we started running out of questions but really wanted to keep having these nights SOOOo we (she) ended up googling questions and coming prepared to our dates with sheets of questions. I still have them in a box. I think she's cute.