BigChurch Success Stories

jackson565 saidA brief summary of someone I met on this site. I want to add
that his name is George and we are meeting again for the second
time next month. We are both very happy meeting each other,
although 500 miles apart (at present). Thank you Big Church
for being the vehicle for me and George meeting - now we have
to plan how we can attract more souls to God I encourage all
those searching for Genuie friends to keep searching -
in God's time you will find who it is you are looking
for, more also i hope to meet my perfect femail match. the
type that has the fear of God and would join me to spread the
rest of my life with me .

newtome2 saidMy husband and I met on Big Church back in March of 2003. When
I read his profile, I said out loud, "You want me, I
am the woman for you. Pick me, pick me!" LOL. Well he
did! We didn't live that far from each other and so we
met in person about 10 days later at a coffee shop and talked
for four hours and it was love at first sight. We married
in January 2004 and spent our first Valentine's Day
together as husband and wife. We both had been previously
married and had children and our family has blended amazingly
well. I didn't move from my home until June so that my
children could finish out their school year with their
friends, but this also gave time for our children to get
to know each other better on the weekends. It was the right
decidsion to make for our children and I do not regret it
at all. It has been an amazing journey. Here it is 10 years
later from when we first met and I love him more and more each
day. I am so thankful that God brought us together. He is
the man of my dreams and truly everything he said in his profile
that he was.

grateful58 saidI USE TO BE A DRUNK AND NOTHING ELSE MATTERED BUT TO DRINK.FOR
A LONG TIME I WAS A THORN IN MY FAMILYS SIDE I HAD LOST MY JOB,
MY KIDS AND MY HOME. DRINKING MADE ME HOMELESS AND HOPELESS.
I ENDED UP AT THE SALVATION ARMY AND WENT TO MY FIRST AA MEETING.
I THOUGHT I WAS THE ONLY ONE WHO DIDN'T KNOW HOW TO LIVE,
I JUST WANTED TO DIE. THEN SOMEONE IN THE KITCHEN STARTED
TO TALK TO ME ABOUT BILL WILSON AND AA AND HOW IT CHANGED THEIR
LIFE. SO I STARTED GOING TO AA MEETINGS AND MY LIFE HAS NEVER
BEEN THE SAME. I FOUND A GOD OF MY OWN UNDERSTANDING AND HE
LOVES ME UNCONDITIONALY. NOW I HAVE 13YRS AND NO MATTER
WHAT HAPPENS IN MY LIFE I KNOW THAT THE LORD HAS IT ALL UNDER
CONTROL AND HIS PLAN WAS NOT FOR ME TO DIE BUT TO LIVE THROUGH
HIM, WHAT A WONDERFUL GIFT, I HAVE BEEN REDEEMED FROM THE
PIT OF HELL AND TRANSFURED TO THE SUNLIGHT OF THE SPIRIT.
NOW I HELP OTHERS WHO HAVE LOST THEIR WAY AND MY RECOVERY
IS GROWING BY LEAPS AND BOUNDS AND I KNOW NOW WHAT IT MEANS
TO BE TRUELY HAPPY AND FREE FROM GUILT AND SHAME BECAUSE
HE TAKES OUR SIN FAR AS EAST IS TO WEST. WHO KNEW THAT THIS
RECOVERED DRUNK COULD BE LIKE BRAND NEW AND HAVE A SECOND
CHANCE IN THIS LIFE. I AM SO GRATEFUL AND IT ALMOST SEEMS
LIKE A DREAM NOW. I AM SO GLAD THAT GOD WOKE ME UP WHEN HE DID
BECAUSE I WOULD BE MISSING OUT ON SO MANY BLESSINGS. I SEE
HIM WORK IN OTHER PEOPLES LIVES AND JUST FILLS ME WITH SUCH
JOY. I KNOW, REALLY KNOW THAT HE WILL NEVER LEAVE MY SIDE
AND I WILL HOLD HIS HAND ON MY JOURNEY!

tamagotchi saidi had absolutely no faith in men or relationships after
my divorce but then a friend suggest i try bigchurch.com
and then at least i would be meeting some like minded souls
rather than the usual losers who trampled all over me on
a saturday night. i saw one guy i liked the look of and the
rest just happened.....he is now relocating to be nearer
to me so we can see how things progress we talk on the phone
almost every day and are planning our future together.
hebrews 11 v 1

eyongemmanuel saidyou are realy the best but i still do not nkow the name, email
and so i do not know how to get to her and i realy need to not
let her waiting.

godlyjeo saidhello my brothers and sisters in Christ , it really good
you serve God here on earth. cos he is the possibility of
all hard work here on earth i was jobless after school but
the lord really showed me that even when their is no way he
can make a way. i get to know God much and serve him with faith and God really
revel him selves to me by helping me secure a better job ,
and today i can feed and take care of people around me and
most time visit the needing for help contribution. brethren it good to serve God , please do join me glorify
his name , and i pray that the miracle God he has done in my
life will come to pass in your life too love you all , but God love you more than i do .

godlyjeo saidhello people of God, it really my pleasure coming here to
express my life story with my brothers and sisters in the
Lord . life is full of experiences, and i had gone through many
life experiences which i had the good and the bad to tell,
but will like to limit my self to the good and positive part
of my life story. i was very little when i graduated from the university and
was given immediate chance to pursue my masters degree,
there i met a very beautiful queen of my life. i really admire her i which to have her as a wife after my masters
degree in the school then, so with time we got to know our
self's and when we graduated together we got married
and live as one till death gnashed her away from me . i really hope i will find love here again , cos it really good
having some one you can love and lean on for life to go happily
.

Lovelysmiles saidAndy and I met through BigChurch in June 2006.........we
emailed for a while and I knew in my spirit that God had His
hand on our relationship. We met in person in August 2006,
became engaged in the following February, got married
in July 2007 and are very happy............so keep asking
God for the one He is preparing for you.......and let Him
prepare you too!!!

SuaveBrisa1 saidIn March 2008 I opened a profile here in Big church, After
two months here I thought that I was wasting my time, that
I would not find anybody here, after a while I decided to
delete my profile from this site, but something in my heart
told me to wait a little bit longer, which I did. In May 24,
2008 I received an email from someone, in Puerto Rico, which
surprise me quite a bit, I thought that dating someone out
of state was a waste of time, because I never believe in long
distance relationship, but for my surprise, this guy,
was persistant, I try his best to win my heart, Two days later
we exchanged email address, and start talking on Yahoo,
after two months talking and getting to know each other,
He decided to travel to my hometown in Massachusetts on
July 22, 2008. On July 27, 2008 we got engaged, and we are
getting married in June 2009. Am very happy, enjoying my
engagament, and my relationship with my fiance, He is a
wonderful man, everything that I needed in a Man, I thanks
God first of all, and second of all I thanks BigChurch, because
if wouldnt be for your site, I wouldnt never find happiness...God
Bless u all....

SuaveBrisa1 saidIn March 2008 I opened a profile here in Big church, After
two months here I thought that I was wasting my time, that
I would not find anybody here, after a while I decided to
delete my profile from this site, but something in my heart
told me to wait a little bit longer, which I did. In May 24,
2008 I received an email from someone, in Puerto Rico, which
surprise me quite a bit, I thought that dating someone out
of state was a waste of time, because I never believe in long
distance relationship, but for my surprise, this guy,
was persistant, He try his best to win my heart, Two days
later we exchanged email address, and start talking on
Yahoo, after two months talking and getting to know each
other, He decided to travel to my hometown in Massachusetts
on July 22, 2008. On July 27, 2008 we got engaged, and we are
getting married in June 2009. Am very happy, enjoying my
engagament, and my relationship with my fiance, He is a
wonderful man, everything that I needed in a man, I thanks
God first of all, because he gave me the man I needed the most,
and secondly I thanks BigChurch, because if wouldnt be
for your site, I wouldnt never find happiness...God Bless
u all....

Sushanto2 saidOnce a time I have a cheerful family of 3 members. My father
was a village doctor and my mother was a idle housewife.
In 1993 when I had just passed S.S.C suddenly we fall in a
falls case and my father arrested by police. And after some
days me to arrested by police. After few days I get gamin
but I stopped my education and now I understood that was
my great mistake. After one year my father proved crime
by court and he had thrown to jail by court for 32 years and
that's moment my mother lost her imaginary and now
she is out of my control even I don't know where is she
now. She always runs door to door and she don't want
to believe anyone.

In 1995 I had got married to find out just for peach, but my
misfortune don't help me. After few days I had gotten
a large family of 5 members with my 3 kids. I had fallen a great
economic problem. I was an unemployed person. One of my
best friend name DELIP (always he helpful to me) suggest
me to learn about photography from his uncle. From then
I have learn about photography and now am a small still photographer.
In 1997 I had build a photo studio but that's time my
earn was too limit and my expense was too more. In a few days
am fall in great poverty and very tired to bear my family.
That's time I feel there haven't any way without
suicide. But from my childhood I had knew about JESUS and
have a good concept about Christian. I thought most of real
Christians are helpful to each other. On that's believe
I had went to church at BORODAL in Ashasune thana to meet
with Christians. But really I didn't knew anyone in
there. Firstly I meet with there's gatekeeper named
KANTO and I asked to him how many foreign Christians Fr.
there have? He told me there have only one Italian religion
and if I need to talk with him of course I need any identity
by any other Bengali Christian religion. But that's
time I didn't knew like that any. So I had requested
to him to give him a latter what's I had written to him
in Bangla. After few minutes he called me and that was first
I had meet with any foreigner. I give him respect just by
a word NAMASKER! But really he had talked with me too frankly
and made me too easy with him. He asked to me some about mine.
Now am happy for his help.

Sushanto2 saidOnce a time I have a cheerful family of 3 members. My father
was a village doctor and my mother was a idle housewife.
In 1993 when I had just passed S.S.C suddenly we fall in a
falls case and my father arrested by police. And after some
days me to arrested by police. After few days I get gamin
but I stopped my education and now I understood that was
my great mistake. After one year my father proved crime
by court and he had thrown to jail by court for 32 years and
that's moment my mother lost her imaginary and now
she is out of my control even I don't know where is she
now. She always runs door to door and she don't want
to believe anyone.

In 1995 I had got married to find out just for peach, but my
misfortune don't help me. After few days I had gotten
a large family of 5 members with my 3 kids. I had fallen a great
economic problem. I was an unemployed person. One of my
best friend name DELIP (always he helpful to me) suggest
me to learn about photography from his uncle. From then
I have learn about photography and now am a small still photographer.
In 1997 I had build a photo studio but that's time my
earn was too limit and my expense was too more. In a few days
am fall in great poverty and very tired to bear my family.
That's time I feel there haven't any way without
suicide. But from my childhood I had knew about JESUS and
have a good concept about Christian. I thought most of real
Christians are helpful to each other. On that's believe
I had went to church to meet with Christians. But really
I didn't knew anyone in there. After few minutes I had
meet with an foreigner. I give him respect just by a word
NAMASKER! But really he had talked with me too frankly and
made me too easy with him. He asked to me some about mine.
Actually always I had believed a word that's Kindness/Forgiveness
etc words are capture by means of dictionary. These are
not combination with real. Actually reality is merciless.
Fight with these names life but after knowing him me had
proved that was wrong. From then always related with him.
Actually my all existence would not be possible without
his presence on my life. Now am happy in the world and always
thaking God for present his nice gift to me.

chigne saidI joined bigchurch a second time towards the end of March
2008, as last attempt searching for a soulmate online.
This was after I was deceived by a man I met on this same site
in July 2007. I did it very reluctantly, but promised myself
that after this, no more. I have met a lot of ungodly men on
this site, but the success stories of a few single ladies
about finding a life partner through on line dating spurred
me on to re-register again on this site. This time I was led to not restrict any matching profile
accessing me by email. To God's glory, as am writing now, I met Francis with
whom I will be joined in holy matrimony in August this year.
The whole thing sounds strange but deep down it is so real
and amazing. I want to thank my spiritual motivator, Bob
Gass (writer of the word for today)who encouraged me to
step out of my comfort zone, things am used to, in order
to get the expected blessing from God. At this time in my
life the no. expectation is 'a God fearing man'
for marriage. Due to some personal and societal reasons,
it is not easy finding like minded males in a church or other
places of interaction for marriage relationship. This now comfirmes to me that in deed, God works in mysterious
ways , His wonders to perform. I want to say thank you to
bigchurch for being used by God to answer my prayer for a
life partner. But I must request that effort should be stepped
up to hinder godless men and cassanovers from joining christain
site like this. I hope to encourage sisters and brothers
not to give up, but to be open and wise in their search for
a life partner believing that God 'who works in mysterious
ways to perform His wonders' will one day give them
answers to their to prayers.

friend4lyfe saidGod is good. I joined BigChurch about three weeks ago and
to my amazement met someone on the site within 2 days of joining.
We met up 5 days later. He made an approx. 300 mile round trip
to meet and take me to dinner. Almost the first thing he said on meeting me (when we managed
to stop laughing at what was happening)was, "you
look even better than your pic". Do they all say that??.

The first date could not have gone any smoother, conversation
flowed, there was a definite attraction on both sides and
we both love God passionately.

I invited him in for coffee after dinner and chatted into
the early hours of the morning. As he was leaving, we agreed
that we would meet later that morning and spend the day together.
(we had originally only planned the Friday eve. and had
made no plans for, nor had we discussed Saturday) In any
case, the following day was just perfect. We strolled on Blackheath,
(for those of you who are not farmiliar with these places,
pls google)then on to Greenwich, did the markets, Cutty
Sark, strolled along the river and lunched in a pub overlooking
the river. We then went to the o2 @ the Millenium Dome, after
which, we collected my daughter and went bowling, then
a meal. Spent another evening talking and praying till
3.30 in the morning. He stayed over and left on Sunday morning
as I was leaving for church. We've been in daily txt, email and telephone contact
since. I have been introduced to his sister over the telephone
and as far as I understand, he has told his friends about
me and our wk'end and they are happy for him. He has extended
an invitation from his General Manager, for dinner with
him and his wife (is this too early to be meeting friends
and family?) I am due to be visiting him for a couple of days
next wk (God willing). We are both, very much, looking forward to seeing each other
again. We are praying that God has his way with this relationship
and that we put him before all else.

I have always been sceptical about online meeting/dating
sites but, thanks to BigChurch, not anymore.

shalla saidWell I came here to this site so that I may be able to give my
testimony and to let others know that God of Heaven and Earth
is here for judgement and to reclaim the Earth. I have been
able to leave blogs of work that God of Heaven and Earth has
supplied me with. I am one to just get God of Heaven and Earth's
Word out to His people. So that they may repent, be baptisted
in the Father, the Son and the Holy Ghost, and come back to
Him now!!

shetlandfmpd saidI have already submitted a brief summary of someone I met
on this site. I want to add that her name is Sue and we are meeting
again for the second time next month. We are both very happy
together, very much in love, although 500 miles apart (at
present).

Thank you Big Church for being the vehicle for me and Sue
meeting - now we have to work at the relationship with God
at the centre.

I will be coming off BC when my present subscription runs
out next month. There is no need for me to remain on it. I encourage
all those searching to keep searching - in God's time
you will find who it is you are looking for - his choice is
perfect.

In the meantime make some great friends like i did and just
be patient! I thought time was right but God never makes
mistakes!It took me a year and a half - it took Sue a matter
of a few months and I was the first one she had met seriously.

God Bless

Peter

BC

shetlandfmpd saidI recently met someone as a result of this website whom i
really like and hope to spend the rest of my life with. We
are both very much in love with each other, even though it
is early days. THANK YOU BIG CHURCH! PERESEVERE. IT DOES WORK. BIG CHURCH
IS THE VEHICLE - YOU STILL HAVE TO MAKE RELATIONSHIP WORK!!!
We both know there is chemistry and are very happy together.
I was first person she met having been on BC since only end
of last year and i was on here for a year and a half!!!! and
"met" several people online and physically
in person too. I have made some friends along the way.

wave4211 saidWell I've been on BC for years as Wave, a firefighter
from Houston. Two years ago I met Tall Beauty a teacher from
Phoenix on BC. We've now been married and living in
Tempe, a suburb of Phoenix for just over a year with my two
daughters from a previous marriage and her daughter from
a previous marriage. Theres also a puppy and guinea pig.
Life is good.

chosengal2 saidweel ive only signed up for like 7hrs now and already iv had
4 responses 2 my profile thats a blessin i guess and online
wif a group of godly people woohoo!! i think i like this place
already :)

jluvsme saidI was walking down the road one night, i saw a man standing
a few yards in front of me, i apporoach him and he said i just
say my last prayers then suddenly a light came on and he fled
away.....i went to the nearset church and decided to say
a prayer of forgivensss....all am try to say is be prayerful
all the time and ask for forgiveness whenever you fail to
stay away from sin......God bless you

spiceangel15212 saidspiceangel15212 and jehovahjireh3 met, and are pursuing
a relationship with the intended purpose of marriage.
We are both saved, and believe that it is the Lords will that
we should become a cord of three strands together with him.
spiceangel15212 was ONLY a standard member too. Thank
you BC.

JEWEL79 saidBefore I share this true account of how I met my wonderful
Sweetheart I will mention that I have asked for her consent
to publish this and she remains happy for me to do this. She
also shares my confident belief that God can use our true
experiences to encourage the faith of other people who
are looking to God to bring someone Special into their lives.
BE encouraged what God did for us in bringing us together
across the seas he can do for YOU too.. in a way that is appropriate
for you!!!

Amazing... isn't it, to join a Christian internet
Dating site and meet someone so Special that you are certain
that God arranged the whole meeting?!!! Well, I had been a member of Big Church on this occasion
since September 2006. I first saw Cruzynha's picture on July 2007 when it
flashed across the screen in front of my eyes as one of the
'New Member' photos on the home page. Wow... I
thought...what a beautiful girl!!! It was just her face
but I was attracted to her like a magnet! I immediately sent a wink to her the same day: to check her
interest and availability. She sent one back. I sent a letter
expressing a sincere interest in getting to know her as
a friend. She replied, thanking me.. and the friendship
went from there. I initially began corresponding in Spanish.
I had to learn Portuguese in order to understand her letters.
I starting taking lessons from a native Brazilian man in
our church. ..then after about 2 months began corresponding
in my Girlfriend's native language. She meanwhile
was learning Spanish and English in order to correspond
with me. We found lots to chat about and we were open and honest from
the start. We also chat frequently using LIVE MESSENGER
and sometimes speak to each other by telephone. We have developed a strong friendship which is an excellent
foundation for marriage. God has also given us a genuine
and deep love for each other based on mutual trust and respect
and we believe that God will Confirm our love for each other
and his plans for our lives when we meet, personally. God has been gracious and blessed us greatly through Big
Church. He can do the same for you!!!

JEWEL79 saidBefore I share this true account of how I met my wonderful
Sweetheart I will mention that I have asked for her consent
to publish this and she remains happy for me to do this. She
also shares my confident belief that God can use our true
experiences to encourage the faith of other people who
are looking to God to bring someone Special into their lives.
BE encouraged what God did for us in bringing us together
across the seas he can do for YOU too.. in a way that is appropriate
for you!!!

Amazing... isn't it, to join a Christian internet
Dating site and meet someone so Special that you are certain
that God arranged the whole meeting?!!! Well, I had been a member of Big Church on this occasion
since September 2006. I first saw Cruzynha's picture on July 2007 when it
flashed across the screen in front of my eyes as one of the
'New Member' photos on the home page. Wow... I
thought...what a beautiful girl!!! It was just her face
but I was attracted to her like a magnet! I immediately sent a wink to her the same day: to check her
interest and availability. She sent one back. I sent a letter
expressing a sincere interest in getting to know her as
a friend. She replied, thanking me.. and the friendship
went from there. I initially began corresponding in Spanish.
I had to learn Portuguese in order to understand her letters.
I starting taking lessons from a native Brazilian man in
our church. ..then after about 2 months began corresponding
in my Girlfriend's native language. She meanwhile
was learning Spanish and English in order to correspond
with me. We found lots to chat about and we were open and honest from
the start. We also chat frequently using LIVE MESSENGER
and sometimes speak to each other by telephone. We have developed a strong friendship which is an excellent
foundation for marriage. God has also given us a genuine
and deep love for each other based on mutual trust and respect
and we believe that God will Confirm our love for each other
and his plans for our lives when we meet, personally. God has been gracious and blessed us greatly through Big
Church. He can do the same for you!!!

TENNESEE saidWell, its kind of unusual the way, my wife and I met. I was
in one of the chat rooms, I believe it was "The Friendship
Room" it was the last week of Aprl of 2006, and I was
in the room, having a bad day, and my soon-to-be wife, txlisa362,
started talking to me, and I yelled at her for some reason
or another, anyways, we exchanged e-mails and went from
there.

Incidentally, we finally met in person in Jul of 2006 and
by that fall Sept of 2006 she and her son who was four at the
time, moved from Galveston, Texas to Franklin, Tennessee
to be with me. We got engaged in Oct of 2006 and got married on Nov 14, 2006. Would like to report that, we
are still married are happily married that i might add.

We have just celebrated our 1st Anniversary togethet.

So thank you BigChurch for saving us and turning us into
a married couple.

Happy Holidays,

Mr. and Mrs. Timothy Brian England

malisa101664 saidThank You BigChurch for giving me a safe place to share what
God has done in my life with others to bring hope in a hopeless
world we live in!

The very fact that I am here and not dead or in a mental institution
is a success in itself. I had a very difficult childhood
and started doing drugs, drinking and partying as early
as 12 years. I had no supervision and was left to find out
about life on my own. My brothers were taken away when I was
too young to remember. How I managed not to be taken away
is beyond me. I started skipping school in the second grade.
I was very smart and I would miss anywhere from 20 to 30 days
every school year and I still made straight A's. I had
major self-worth issues growing up. Let me say this. If God can break down the walls and help me
to see my worth through His eyes, He can do it for anyone.
God is still doing a work in my life and I am forever THANKFUL
He hasn't given up on me. I am finally learning what
it means to feel LOVED!!! Life isn't easy by no means.
Wrap your arms around the neck of Jesus and allow Him to carry
you and you will find A PEACE THAT PASSES ALL UNDERSTANDING!
I learned this when my first husband was killed in an auto
accident. My world as I knew it forever changed and the only
way I survived it was in His Arms and pouring out my heart,
tears and all! I have wanted to give up so many times and say
what's the point, but God has a plan for my life and He
will bring beauty from all the pain.

tobita2 saidI bounced upon BigChurch about two months ago , frantically
looking for a man I could call my husband , legally. I am
just surprised at the caliber of men who have winked at me
so far and I have not yet upgraded to premium membership.
The friends network is simply GREAT. I have met friends
which I would not have met walking down the streets. I am
very thankful to this network. Even though I have not yet
been proposed to. I know that it would be in the near future.
Thanks to your superb work.

fatimea22 saidSome years ago radio evangelist Charles E. Fuller announced
that he would speak the following Sunday on "Heaven."
It was to be broadcast on radio. During that week he received
a letter from an elderly gentleman who was very ill. Here
is part of that letter: "Next Sunday you are to talk about 'Heaven.'
I am interested in that land because I have held a clear title
to a bit of property there for over 55 years. I did not buy
it. It was given to me without money and without price. But
the donor purchased it for me at a tremendous sacrifice.
I am not holding it for speculation since the title is nontransferable.
It is not a vacant lot. "For more than a half-century I have been sending
material out of which the greatest architect and builder
of the universe has been building a home for me, which will
never need to be repaired because it will suit me perfectly,
individually, and will never grow old. "Termites can never undermine its foundation for
it rests upon the Rock of Ages. Fire cannot destroy it. Floods
cannot wash it away. No locks or bolts will ever be placed
upon its doors, for no vicious person can ever enter that
land where my dwelling stands, now almost completed and
ready for me to enter it and abide in peace eternally without
fear of being ejected. "There is a valley of deep shadow between the place
where I live in California and that to which I shall journey
in a very short time. I cannot reach my home in the City of
God without passing through the dark valley of shadows.
But I am not afraid, because the best friend that I have ever
had went through the same valley alone, a long, time ago
and drove away all the gloom. He has stuck by me through thick
and thin since we first met and became acquainted 55 years
ago, and I hold His promise in printed form, never to forsake
nor to leave me alone. He will be with me as I walk through
the valley of shadows, and I shall not lose my way when He
is with me. "I hope to hear your sermon on "Heaven"
next Sunday from my home, but I have no assurance that I shall
be able to do so. My ticket to heaven has no date marked for
the journey... no return coupon... and no permit for baggage.
Yes, I am ready to go and we will meet you there.

telepals saidBrian had everything he had ever wanted; the life style
he'd always dreamed of...except it wasn't. When
he stepped back from his lifestyle to take stock, Brian
discovered something he had never anticipated about his Pre-paid Legal business.
"I realized that the trappings of success came from
helping other people", he says. "You see all
these lives being changed, and I figured out, if you concentrate
on helping others, that your life is going to change automatically.
Brian stopped focussing on his income and went in search
of people who had reached depths or dead ends in life.

Can you succeed by helping other? Brian is now one of Pre-paid
Legal's highest paid Associates, with a residual
income of over $250, 000 a month!

To find out how you can succeed through a career of helping
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hebnezar saiddear brothers and sisters in christ my name is f.m.m.kumar im pastor in india .i was saved at
the young age.our lord appered to me in vision.i was thrown
out of my family for this reason because my parents were
nominal christians.we are doing gospel m, inistry and
social service in villages and in coastal areas.10 members
of pastors and i are together working for saving the perishing
souls in villages and in coastal areas in india.our church
is buit with thached leaces and we are suffering very much
during rains to worship .plese pray and help adress F.M.M.KUMAR MADANOOR(VIA)EETHAMUKKAL -523280, PRAKASAM DIST,
A.P.S.INDIA

Inspiring36 saidLoving the features that links to communication process, which
allows members to interact.I've recieved wounderful
replies while in serach for my soulmate, yet to be successful
but awaitng so patiently.

Inspiring36

Dev1959 saidBigChurch Staff, I have had an Aw'some time here on my stay, this site
gets you out of the box so to say. Out into the life other then
the home town fellowship, a wide veraity of people, opinion's, giving
the taste of God and Jesus. In the lifes of Christians through
out the land of God's creation, the world we live in.
In our little world there can be a peace within, a God given
peace. I have learned so much more about myself and where I'm
at with myself alot of understanding I don't think
I could have gotten without a site like BigChurch. Getting
out of that Box taking a suggestion from a friend. I will be leaving soon and taking alot of knowlage with me,
time to get it's getting comfy. Your charter says it all "Bring people together in
Faith". My prayer's are with you all, my hat is off to Ya, thank
You for the experience. Keep up the good work for the Lord,
Your brother in Christ Jesus, Dev

KDee1000 saidBigChurch has people who care! People who will go "there"
for another. There are people who aren't afraid to
say what is on their heart and mind. I am new to the whole on-line
personals scene and can honestly say, WOW. The opinions
of some of the blogs, articles and profiles are just amazing.
I have learned so much about myself and how I want to be veiwed
just by reading and chatting with BigChurch people. I view
this site probably 7 to 10 times a day. The people are great
and I will keep on logging on and refer all my Christian friends
to log on as well. Keep up the praise and glory people. WOW.
KDee1000

zoegirl2006 saidIt was June 4th of 2006 at 8:00 pm Pacific Mountian Time.
I had given up on ever finding the real thing when it came
to love. I was ready to say good-bye to Big Church and all.
But I decided that night to go in to the friendship room one
last time to say good-bye to all my friends when I meet my
soulmate Proofwriter06 . I knew right away that there was
something special about him and that I never wanted to be
without him in my life. Me and him started talking and I went
to Tucson AZ to meet him on August 10th, 2006 and realized
when he kissed me that day that this was the real thing and
that he was God's special someone for me. And when I
left Tucson on August 15th, 2006 I truely felt as if I left
my heart and soul in Tucson on that day. He is coming to Spokane
to meet my Parents and family for thanksgiving. I look forward
to sharing the rest of my life with this man and loving him
and honoring him as I should.

From
Zoegirl2006

plan4live saidHello,
we met here at BigChurch in February.
He is from Northern Ireland and I'm from Germany. Before
we met, we spoke over the phone for hours. After two weeks
of daily long phonecalls he came all the way to Germany to
meet me for a long weekend. We met a couple of times and four
months ago he moved into my town. In May he asked me to marry
him and I said YES :) An now on Nov. 17th we will get married
here in Germany.
All the best JG & M

moises33 saidI met this Girl named Gladys and Immediately I thought she
might be like everyone else that when you write to them they
don't answer. So I said to myself, well I'll give
it a try . I did and I started to talk to her and it appears she
was looking for the same things I was looking for. We kept
on talking and talking and talking and we hit it off from
the first start and I said WOW !!!! can this really be happening
??????She totally blew my mind off. I love her and we are
doing very very good together. Now I can say after so many
years of searching thank you big church for helping me find
the one. I feel so happy about it that when we do get married
I will let you know ok. Bye for now. THANK YOU BIG CHURCH for
giving me a opportunity of a life time.

hesoughtmeout saidi haven't enough room here, for what really needs to
be said of... my true story is about how we can destroy for-ever
these 3 repetitive words, which are destroy'n every
one on earth!! 3 words; SHOOT, KILL, BLOOD, as i've
figured out how to make there in-human actions, to be banished
from earth, FOREVER!!! Please give me a destination site
for me to send it too, so you can honestly read and pass judgment
on its validation to be posted on a site of real Godly people,
to spread like its own WILDFIRE DESTRUCTION UPON THE SURFACE
OF OUR EARTH, SO EARTH CAN HONESTLY BECOME; WHAT GOD INTENDED
IT TO BE ALL ALONG!!!
Sincerely,
hesoughtmeout...

CaverBlake saidMy wife died after a two year battle with breast cancer.
This left me with three small children ages 4, 6 and 9. Dating
is hard enough, but with three children it's even harder.
I know plenty of you understand that. It takes time to get
to know someone; and you don't have that kind of time
with children.

I didn't know when I would find someone, but I knew that
eventually it would happen. And I knew it would be easier
if I wasn't just counting on randomly running into
someone. So I started to search for Christian based dating
sites.

I signed up on BigChurch and over the course of a few months
I had email conversations with several people here. For
the most part they were not in my local area, and eventually
the emails would stop. Then I received an email that changed
my life.

1000 miles away a wonderful woman had noticed that I read
her profile, so she read mine. And then she wrote to me. I
was blown away by her letter. She had obviously really read
what I had written. And when she wrote back there was so much
thought and depth, so much of herself, in what she wrote.

She made comments in that first letter based on things I
had written in my profile. She shared things from her life
that tied in to things in mine. Her words expressed her humor
and her faith in what she wrote. She was so joyful and energetic.
Her enthusiasm was awesome.

One of the things that really got my attention was the way
she wrote. There was nothing sloppy or careless ... nothing
rushed. Her grammar and spelling were both excellent.
That and the content of her letter showed that she cared
about what she wrote ... that she wasn't just slapping
out quick emails to people. It also showed a certain level
of intelligence and command of the English language. With
three small children it would be nice to have someone around
that could help with the homework at least!

The power of this type of a service is that you have a way of
filtering some of the things you want and don't want.
You can choose who you want to respond to. You can look for
quality without having to go through quantity.

I love her, my children love her, and we are getting married
next summer. I could say more, but will just say thank you
BigChurch!

cheekycanuck saidThe day after I turned 40, , my life changed completely.
I was surfing on BC and saw this guy and decided to just chat
with him. We chatted, ,, and very quickly it was apparent
that we had alot in common. We both loved to laugh, and his
sense of humor made me laugh constantly.
We chatted for a couple months and in sept 2005, we decided
to meet. So he flew here and we hit it off.
He traveled here a few times and then at christmas I went
there to meet his three children. We were a family. To make
a long story short, ,, , November 2006, we officially
became a family when we were married, including the kids
in the wedding.
I had given up hope, till that day. And now, have never been
happier, , thanks BC

Andeearty saidI had finally given up. There were no datable decent guys
on Big Church. After another failed attempt with another
guy who was not who he said he was, I was through with online
all together. I switched my profile to friends and resigned
myself to finding someone the old fashioned way. Dating
1000 people and hoping one of them works out. Then I was contacted
by a guy that I thought would be a nice friend, a methodist
pastor named Ephesians. Little did I know that that man
would be the best boyfriend I have ever had and in future
will be the best husband I could of even imagined. God knew
what he was doing when he put us together, we are total opposites
but work beautifully together. I cant wait to spend the
rest of my life with this man and it never would of happened
if I hadnt given up and then opened up to a "new friend".

THEGUYFROMCANADA saidLate Dec 2004 both myself and My Soulmate joined BigChurch.com
- we were 2, 000 miles apart at the time, and living in different
Countries.

On Jan 5th I saw her Profile and immediately sent an email
to this Special Lady. She responded back and from that point
onward we connected Wonderfully.

Although she had her email filter set to block anybody more
than 60 miles away, God had planned for us to meet. She chose
to "check my message out" and from that day forward
we have connected everyday

We both were believing to find a Parnter that would love
us and Love God. Without BigChurch we would have never met.
We are working through the immigration process for her
to move to Canada, but we enjoy "The BEST" by
talking and praying together each night.

By October 2005 we got engaged and were married December
16th, 2005 in California.

We enjoy a unity, Love, Peace, and Purpose in God, and we
look forward to living together in the fall of 2006.

God made us with "no mistakes", we have purpose
and design and I can truly say that My Wife and I were "made
for each other" and we are excited about living life,
and serving God together.

Here's some advice -- no guesswork.Trust God, Step
Out in Faith, and trust God to show you, and then be "Godly
Together" -- the Result will be HIS Blessing upon
your friendship and a BLESSED future life together.

LADIES, don't settle for a Guy with a Remote Control
surgically implanted in his hand...don't shortchange
yourself for the sake of Companionship (unless you just
want someone to share popcorn with). Listen and watch for
any flags - He should take the Lead in Godliness.

MEN-Your home should have Peace and you should have unity
with your wife, but that only comes if you LOVE HER above
all else - don't miss the boat on this - it's God's
design for MEN TO LOVE THEIR WIFE...UNCONDITIONALLY,
LIKE CHRIST LOVED THE CHURCH...Never Forsaking, always
Faithful to Her.(She'll respect you and take care
of you for Loving Her this way)

All the Best to Everyone using BigChurch...we will always
remember "Where WE first Met" as we look back
over all our happy memories together.

Yours Truly,
okguy58 AND OptimisticOne
Brent and Janet

Kristta saidHello everybody !!!

On Feb./7/2005 I met a very special guy on-line. By next
sunday we got our 1st date and one week later our 1st kiss.
After that our relationship started growing and we just
couldn't stop seeing each other everyday. After lots
of praying we got married 10 months after we met, on Dec./17/2005.

This is by far the most wonderful blessing God have gave
us.

Thank you BigChurch.com !!!

Blessings,
Kristta and DjaliZwan23

blackbeltforever saidThank the Lord for Big Church and its efforts in providing
opportunities for Christian singles to meet their soul
mate. I can not thank you enough, with God's grace and
guidience, I have found my friend, lover, and soulmate
for life. Leslie and I have so much in common and have already
begun building our life together.
May God bless Big Church and all those that work to ensure
that Christians have a positive way to meet someone.
I was very skeptical about meeting someone online, and
for that matter on a dating website. I can now say that God
works miracles in mysterious ways, and this has been by
far the most unique opportunity that I have experienced
in my dating life. Nobody can ever tell me that you can not
find love and find your soulmate online or though a dating
service.
Thanks again and my God Bless your works and may God Bless
Big Church.

ATimeToLove saidIn March of 2003, not too long after I joined Big Church,
I had this idea to search the profiles for guys in my area
to see if any were still in contact with Big Church. To my
suprise, Decumanus replied to me the day after I sent him
a note. We agree to meet up, but since his profile mentioned
he had a son, I asked if he would be willing to bring his son
with him. To make a long story short, we were married on April
30, 2006. Thank you Big Church for allowing us to meet!

Iam4Messiah saidAbout 2 and a1/2 years ago I met a Christian lady through
chats at BC.And we soon learned, that we both loved God
above all else.We let God make the decisions in our lives.
I then proposed to her, and she accepted in Feb 2004. In
Feb of 2005 I travelled to Germany, and we got married by
city-hall.Our next step was to introduce my bride to Canada, so
we spent our first Christmas as a married couple in Canada.
She returned to Germany in late january 2006, to finalize
a lot of "Red-Tape", and is returning to Canada
for good on May 19/06. And we will have a Candle-light church
wedding
on Jul 8th/2006, after which we will tour extensively
(about three months) through Canada and the US. (No this
is not a honeymoon, as our honeymoon started the day we
got engaged-28Feb 04 and will cease, when The Father calls
us home.)
As I have my own office within the church I serve (Baptist),
I am preparing myself, and my wife for the job ahead--I
am in the process, through prayers, to accept a Pastor's
position in Western Kentucky , USA.And joyfully, we
will serve our Lord. I was once asked by a fellow pastor, who
at age 65 retired from his church, to enjoy life, and his
words were to me : Karl, when will you retire and enjoy life?"
I replied:"I enjoy life serving our Lord and I retire, when
He calls me home."
I like to close with a few simple words of advice to all my
Christian friends at BC.
"The couples, who pray together--stay together."
and as I love to evangelize , here is a quote, that I wrote
in
1999--"It never rains believers, so if you want
to gain believers, you have to plant the seeds."
I am joyful to serve Him,
I am Rev.Dr. Iam4Messiah

wishstar saidJust getting started at big church.
Like the features...put in my 1st blog today.. It's
fun and a really nice place to meet friendly caring Jesus
loving folks
Wish upon a star and Jesus will hear you...
wishstar

imavessel saidI did want to let you know that YES-GOD can truly work through
even this!!! Ha ha. I got on Big Church perhaps end of November,
beginning of December and DID NOT GET ON TO FIND A MATE- or
even a date. In fact, I put for friendship and/or penpal
in my profile!

I was at a broken part of my life and merely looking for people
to talk to who believed in God. Period!

Quickly found the "Blog" area--- and began
writing. & TRUST ME ON THIS ONE---- from beginning
to current, God bringing this together is extremely well
documented in my "imavessel" blog!

I started out saying the Lord already had my mate covered.
"Someone was coming & coming just for me".
Agh- true. -But- in this case, the Lord used BigChurch as
the vehicle.

So thank you! & To all the great friends I have made here:
WOW, Look what the Lord has done!!!

Engel2005 saidAfter alot of dissappointments from many money hunting
members of big church i hit the jackpot when i found this
one loving Kenyan Man who despite the distance called me
everyday and wanted nothing more than to love and be loved.
We are today after six months happily married and deeply
inlove, So i want to say thank you God for giving me my soulmate
through big church. I am happy and want to encourage many
out there to keep on trying there are many people who are
real, just like there are many players just be careful.
I thank you bigchurch crew for being there!
cheers and good luck to the others.
May god bless you all!

Serenitynme saidLooking for Love in all the wrong places? Well I have all
my life as I was always going by my will instead of God's
will. I have met my soul mate on here and it only took less
than a week. This is a much better site than I could imagine.
The name says it all! Big Church. I met Scott on March 17th,
2006 after our first phone call of 5 hours and 12 min. The
first time he spoke to me, I knew we were ment to be together
on this earth and in heaven. He feeds me spiritually, emotionally
and mentally. He is my best friend, thanks to God. We are
now engaged to be married on June 3rd, 2006. Ya, count the
days! When it is in God's will, nothing is impossible.
My children needed a loving father and his girls needed
a loving mother. Everything has clicked from the very first
wink. Amen. The one and only thing I can comment on, which
to me is the most important, is when a person lives in the
fear of God, only then can he present his miracles to us.
I pray for all who is serching for that special someone to
enter into your life. All is well, all is as it need to be.
Be patient and wait for him to bring you your answers and
your partner in Christ.

Eph117 saidIll health had confined me to my flat and being a people person
I wanted to interact, enter the internet and Big Church.My
frist day I met Ian and we exchanged a few e-mails on Big Church
staying safe. Soon we were talking via a computer programme
logging 4 hours a conversation and at times 6 hours a day.
Both of us had entered Big Church with our focus on the Lord
and seeking Him above all else and as we shared our hearts,
life stories, and experiences of faith in Jesus Christ;
the level of relationship deepened. We were hampered from
meeting because of parental care responsibilities until
God impressed upon me the need to pray that he would invite
me down over New Years 2006. I prayed through one weekend
in December and on the 19th, after he met with a friend to
pray, as we talked, that night, he asked me to come and spend
at least a week over New Years. We had a wonderful week and
knew that it was God's handiwork. We ordered the engagement
ring and I got on the coach to return home. Several miles
later I knew I was ill and could not continue the journey.
Ian came for me and we continued the God-centered process
of getting to know one another. The ring we ordered that
was to take 3 weeks arrived in 3 days and on 9 January over
a candlelight dinner he asked if I would marry him. Not even
a viral cold could dampen our joy.

In a few days we will be moving me south to live in his flat
while he lives in our flat. We have a vow of celibacy before
God until our wedding day on 8 April, 2006 and we want that
clear to all whose lives we touch. We have two Bible passages
which we believe God has written as the banner over our relationship.
Matthew 6:33 & Proverbs 3:5, 6.

God is a God of loving surprises, as we both know. We each
joined Big Church to hopefully encourage others and He
has encouraged us with each other at the ages of 61 (me) and
67 (Ian.) Seeking Him first has brought us to each other
that we may better serve Him, surrounded by His love flowing
through each other. We are remaining on Big Church to continue
encouraging others to seek Him first and allow Him to open
the doors to relationships with a special person.

SweetT31 saidCOMMENT:
I have met my Soul Mate from your website & I thank you!
We are so compatible it's almost unbelievable because
we have wonderful chemisty together.

I truly believe that this was God's way of connecting
us; both of our prayers have been answered!

We have lived in the same area of town for years & justed
missed each other in everything that we've done over
the years & we would have probably never met if it had
not been for BigChurch.com.

I am a true believer that this really works & a great
way to connect with someone who shares the same goals in
life.

Thank you very much & I will contact you regarding our
wedding date. He has already stated that I will be his wife
& I know he will make the perfect husband.

He is focused & striving for perfection in every aspect
of life plus we are evenly yoked. He's a nice, kind &
understanding man that's strong enough to keep me
grounded... an let's not forget good with children
& has a tight relationship with God.

We are willing to advertise for your site in the future if
ever needed.

Whatsup04 is the true Mate for me!

Thanks again BIGCHURCH I recommend your site as highly
effective & efficient.