In a world full of fakes, it’s hard to see what’s real. I mean seriously, not only are materialistic things fake, but everything else. People, relationships, and…….ORGASMS!!!!!!! C’mon, why are we still faking? We are in the 21st century and it is time that we are honest with ourselves and others. Honesty isn’t always the end of the world.

It is still the beginning of the new year and there are new decisions that need to be made and bad habits that need to be let go of. One thing I want to try to do is let some things go. I don’t necessarily have to forget nor do I have to make poor judgment because I have decided to let some thing(s) fall to the waist line. Some of you can stand to let some things go as well.

So we have had three events that can cause something unexpected to pop up in nine months or so: Christmas, New Year’s and a polar vortex that caused dangerously low temperatures for half of the U.S. Not that unexpected things can’t happen on any other given day or event, but I felt the need to tackle this topic now. When two (or more) are in the moment, not much is running through ones’ mind. Something that might slip is the thought of protection, STD’s, and babies. I mean, the feeling is so overwhelming. Spots are touched, hit, licked and bit! Juices flow, bodies are flipped and turned until the energy is gone and you’re both laid out thinking about what just happened or what needs to happen next.