Love Lanyadoo Astrology 11.30-12.6.2016

:: Malachite ::

ARIES

March 21-April 19

Instead of seeking peace in situations that are restless and unpleasant, seek peace within yourself. Some things you can’t change, my love; and when that’s the case, you’d be wise to change how you relate to them instead. Accept your situation so that you can make emotionally sustainable choices within it. Inner peace will come from being in integrity with your own emotional truth; choose your battles wisely this week.

You don’t need to blame anyone, but it’ is time to find solutions, Taurus. Sometimes understanding the roots of how you got to where you are is the most helpful thing to investigate, and other times it’s a distraction from the work at hand. Take a grounded inventory of where you’re at and what you need from here, Taurus. If you can keep your focus, you can absolutely create the strategies and then ultimately the solutions that you most need.

This week is likely to start off with a healthy dose of panic if you allow yourself to stay too in your head and disassociated from action. This isn’t the time to let yourself get overwhelmed and shut down, Twin Star. Let the problems in your life inspire you to get involved and create solutions, not dissolve into a puddle of fearful questions. Determined action will not only make you feel better but will help to shape your circumstances, so get to it, Gem.

Your relationships are always important to you, and it’s time to get to talking. Your assumptions aren’t likely to be completely trustworthy, Moonchild, and that’s actually a good thing. Pluck up the courage to reach out to your friends and loved ones and start the conversations that you need to have. Your job isn’t to fix things, it’s only to uncover the truth and invest in the best outcomes possible from there. Kindness requires courage; show both in your dealings this week.

You can go it alone or you can invest in your relationships, but either way, what you do counts, Leo. You’ve changed and your relationships still haven’t fully caught up with you, and that’s OK. What you need to identify is whether or not you’ve given your loved ones a chance to know the you that you’ve become. Sharing is caring, and you have lots to gain by sharing more of yourself, lover. Take emotional risks, and show up with more of yourself this week.

You don’t need to defend your right to have boundaries. Having healthy limits is not just something you talk about, it’s something you enact. This week your boundaries are going to be tested, and it’s on you to honor your needs. You don’t need to write a poem about them or explain in detail how and why you’ve got ‘em. Just embody your truth, and let others do what they will, Virgo.

In order to hold on to what you love, you’ve got to be willing to let go of what’s standing in your way. It’s time to have some heart-to-hearts about what’s up and what’s needed moving forward. There are big changes brewing, and the more flexible you can be, the better for all involved. Don’t let attachment to the past be more important than the self-knowledge you’ve accumulated based on recent events. Be the change you wish to see in your life, Libra.

You have so much to offer that it’d be a huge waste to fritter away your energy on worry, my love. Live up to your potential! You’re capable of achieving so much, but you’ve gotta get out of your own way long enough to do it. Set small, achievable goals this week so that you can see and be inspired by your accomplishments. If you don’t get up and do something, you’re likely to feel irritable and anxious this week.

Introspection is useful, but beating yourself up for things you can’t change is a fool’s errand, my love. You’re meant to embrace yourself with radical self-acceptance, Sagittarius. You’re either gonna lift yourself up or beat yourself up this week, and the former is a way more constructive option than the latter. Motivate yourself by being proactive in the face of your apathy and fears. It’s time for you to move past your own limitations, even if it’s only baby steps.

Sometimes you’ve just gotta let go. This week, you’re likely to obsess on the very things you need a break from, and it’s going to do more harm than good. Tend to your inner wellness before you go adding more things to the stress pile, Cappy. You’re unlikely to see all of your options clearly when you’re so overwhelmed, and you really need clarity of vision now. Slow down, catch your breath, and let the answers emerge from there.

The risk with speaking your mind is things could get much better or they could totally fall apart. The problem with showing up in life is that you don’t get any assurances that you’ll like what you find when you get here. This week, you can’t take responsibility for how other people feel nor should you try to fix their feelings. Have healthy emo boundaries by being upfront about what’s real for you and listening to what others tell you about their perspective without an agenda, Aquarius.

Its confusing; is it selfish of you to put yourself first, or is it selfish to think so much of others that you can’t take real responsibility for your own stuff? Events this week will push you around, and only you can decide if you‘re down to stand up and fight or put your needs to the side. There’s no right or wrong answer, but there will be consequences no matter what you do. Be true to yourself above all else so that whatever comes at least comes from an honest place.