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Are You About To Get Dumped? Top 10 Signs!

by Sheryl Stewart,posted Jul 6 2010 1:07PM

From match.com.....
1. Her friends arenât as friendly as they used to be.
âMaybe she told her girlfriends sheâs going to leave you, and the girlfriends have told their boyfriends and acquaintances,â says Py Kim Conant, author of Sex Secrets of an American Geisha. âAll of them pull back somewhat, because theyâre afraid youâll somehow sense from them that somethingâs rotten in Denmark.â
2. She ups her weekly workouts.
âIf your significant other starts to increase her visits to the gym or adds a new workout routine, it may mean that sheâs thinking of finding greener pastures,â says Tina de Lemp, president of B.Fit. âOften, women become lax with their workout schedules when theyâre in a satisfying relationship.â
3. Sheâs not having as much fun you-know-where.
âFor guys, sex without love is not a new idea,â says Patricia from Florida. âBut for a woman, itâs a big deal. Distance sexually means sheâs pulling away, as opposed to a guy who can enjoy it passionately with someone heâll never see again.â
4. Sheâs increasingly hard to reach.
âIf youâre playing voicemail volleyball with her too often, the fact is that sheâs just not that into
For guys, sex without love is not a new idea.
you,â according to Liz Kelly, author of Smart Man Hunting. âIf a woman really wants to reach you, she will go out of her way to find the right time to call.â
5. She gives you that little pat on the back.
âWatch out for this one,â warns Lisa Daily, author of Stop Getting Dumped. âA woman who pats you on the back while giving you a hug is indicating that sheâs uncomfortable for some reason. The bigger the pat, the more discomfort she feels.â
6. Her hug is a little bit off.
While weâre on the subject, Daily continues, âanother important sign that things may not be going well is the amount of contact during her hugs. Full frontal contact is good, but the one-shoulder hug could be a sign that sheâs distancing herself in the relationship. She may be pulling away, or getting ready to break things off.â
7. She stops criticizing you.
This one may sound counterintuitive, but, as Py Kim Conant says, âif she stops complaining about you leaving the toilet seat up, it may mean that sheâs given up on the relationship, and has no energy to put into further criticism of you. In fact, she may not even notice the toilet seat any longer, since her focus is no longer on perfecting you.â
8, 9 and 10. She puts you off, she makes you mad, and she wonât let you kiss her.
âRecently, I went out with a guy for a second date,â says Melissa from Chicago. âBefore this, I tried to give him all the tell-tale signs that I wasnât interested, but he persisted: He wouldnât stop calling, he wouldnât stop asking me out. So just to get him off my back, I agreed to go out one more time.
âDuring the date, to continue to show him I wasnât interested, I brought up every taboo subject I could think of, and tilted my views toward the radical side: feminism, politics, religion, marriage, etc.â, says Melissa.
âWhen he dropped me off, I very clearly leaned toward the door away from him, and hopped out of the car as soon as possible to avoid the terrible âgood night kiss.â After that, he finally figured it out!â My advice to my fellow single guys? Maybe take a hint and bail before things get that bad.