UPDATE: NASHVILLE, Tenn. – News Channel 5 has learned that Metro police received an initial report from the Tennessee Bureau of Investigation that appears to confirm theories of a murder-suicide in the deaths of former Titans quarterback Steve McNair and girlfriend Sahel Kazemi. [Source]

UPDATE: The pistol found at the scene was purchased by the Sahel Kazemi two nights before the shooting. It was her gun.

UPDATE: CNN just said Sahel Kazemi is also a “known stripper”. (I think they meant waitress, but they said stripper.

Did Steve McNair leave his wife, Mechelle McNair, for Sahel Kazemi? Was Steve McNair leavingSahel Kazemi to go back to his wife and family? Was this a case of, “If I can’t have you no one else will?

First off this is a tragic situation, and we respect Steve McNair both in life and in death. With that said and done, it just goes to show, all people not just Michael Jackson, are a complex mix of good and bad. Overall Steve McNair was a great person with great accomplishments, but his untimely death comes with a tabloid ending. {Keep Reading}

Steve McNair, a married man, was found dead in a condo he shared with Wayne Neeley, a friend.McNair was found with multiple gunshots, including one to the head. His “girlfriend”, Sahel Kazemi, a 20 year old waitress, was just feet away from him with a single gunshot to the head. A gun was recovered at the scene, but authorities do not “know” at this time how it fits into the larger picture. Their best theory is that a murder/suicide took place.

This is where the story gets complicated. Steve McNair was a married man, and Sahel Kazemi, was a waitress at David & Buster, where his family frequented. Apparently, the two met at this restaurant, and she became his mistress for lack of a better word. A few days ago, Sahel Kazemi was pulled over and arrested for drunk driving in a SUV registered to both she and McNair, where she claimed she wasn’t drunk, but high. Before the shooting took place on July 4th, witnesses saw McNair enter the condo at 1:30 AM, shortly after Sahel Kazemi. A friend called a friend, who called the police.

Since Steve McNair is the one with multiple gunshot wounds, it’s safe to say that Kazemi killed him, and then turned the gun on herself. Does she look like a killer?

[Sahel Kazemi is of Persian/Iranian descent]

I’ve gotten several request for a photo of Mechelle McNair. I can’t verify this picture, yet. But, this is what I’ve found. More photos to follow soon.

UPDATE: This is even more sad, reports from NY Daily News claims Mechelle McNair was not aware of her husband’s affair before his murder. I was under the impression that she knew, considering he had another home — a condo he shared with a friend, Wayne Neeley.

She’s blindsided by this,” one source said of Mechelle McNair, who was holed up in her family’s home just 6 miles from the condo her husband used to bed his mistress. “She’s crushed. Her whole world is shattered.”

This is truly sad news and if Steve was caught up in an affair that lead to his demise, then there isn’t too much anyone can say other than that he was in the wrong place at the wrong time. I can’t picture Steve succumbing to infidelity, but the facts are surely looking more to that or something of a love triangle of some sort.

Jay Ruler / 2009/07/05

IDK, but I don’t think he deserved it. It’s messed up!

DEJ / 2009/07/05

People need to stop cheating. If the wife don’t get you, now the mistress will. You can’t win losing.

That Girl UN / 2009/07/05

how do you take your wife and kids to a restaurant where your jumpoff works. i’m just saying.

The lesson here is not poor Steve it’s how the lives of black women would be so much better off if they leave these fools alone and left to their own devices. He cheated with a waitress and she probably wasn’t the only one either. It’s his actions that got him killed. The sympathy should go to the wife and kids who will have to live under the public scrutiny. The question people should be asking is why couldn’t he honor his commitments and how he brought his family to ruin. Her cache was her white skin that is all.

ANGEL / 2009/07/06

THE GRASS ISNT ALWAYS GREENER HE CHEATED ON HIS WIFE WITH A MENTAL CASE AND LOOK WHAT IT GOT HIM MY SYMPATHY GOS TO HIS WIFE AT LEAST SHE GOT HIS MONEY TO HEAL HER BROKEN HEART …

ANGEL / 2009/07/06

THE GRASS ISNT ALWAYS GREENER HE CHEATED ON HIS WIFE WITH A MENTAL CASE AND LOOK WHAT IT GOT HIM MY SYMPATHY GOES TO HIS WIFE AT LEAST SHE GOT HIS MONEY TO HEAL HER BROKEN HEART …

SLIKK / 2009/07/06

When these Brothas gone learn to stay away from these “dirty girls”- these hefers ain’t no good.

I’m so amused at people making this a black/non-black issue… infidelity has nothing to do with ethnicity (i.e. all the cheating politicians recently unearthed). I don’t care what we “say” we know in out GUT when our man is being unfaithful. If it’s something that you are not willing to possible encounter, then please don’t get involved in romantic relationships. It could happen to any of us, and if your husband has money and power, he’s ten times as likely to get caught up in the allure of it all. There were many players in this game.

Pissedpatriot / 2009/07/07

So was Sahel Kazemi basically a muslim Iranian in our country? If so this act of violence doesnt surprise me, the fact that shes from that f***ed up area of the world tells all. Us Americans all need to put a stop to this influx of Crazy muslim foreigners into our country, look how much has been lost already. Brings tears to my eyes that we are letting these people continue to terrorize our planet. Im not saying she was Al queda or a terrorist, but her political, moral, and EXPECIALLY religious points of view are directly correlated with the reaction she had towards her jealousy. Sad, My heart goes out to McNairs family and players.

BTAMB / 2009/07/07

wow!! all these comments are great..

Koonce / 2009/07/08

There are more photos of Mechelle McNair in this 2005 Ebony magazine article on Steve McNair. (It appears that Google “Books” has an extensive archive of old Issues of Ebony Magazine – which is yet another reason why I love Google.)

SheProclaimed / 2009/07/08

My God, what was he thinking? His wife is so much more attractive than the pastey-faced psycho. I just wish we could revive that ho & make her explain to everyone why she did it. And same with him. Not just how COULD he but why WOULD he? Don’t you know he’s sorry for it now? If he could change the past, he would have never given that waitress ho a 2nd look.

SheProclaimed / 2009/07/08

Oh, P.S. I’ve been thinkin about this one. I bet he got the measure of what she was *really* like & wanted the hell away from her. He prolly saw What a selfish no good ho. And her lying family: “oh she wudden hurt ANYONE.” bunch of liars. I wish PResident Obama would deport them.

Moody / 2009/07/08

To the idiot named pissedpatriot. The girl was not Muslim and faced religious persecution in Iran. Learn to read idiot.

cateye / 2009/07/09

Nowadays alot of people seem to get married too quick or for the wrong reason.It seems that even if they find a good woman they still think cheating is an option.If its true that you really want to play that game you should know.Arab girls, east indian , orientals,dominicans, puerto ricans would rather kill your ass and take the consequences than be made a fool ofand if they are really in love they want to die togeather like romeo and juliet.A true player could scope this and know to stay away

@ pissed patriot ummm she wasnt muslim she was christian and fyi In the USA prison system muslims make up 3% christians 93% you do the math there are bad in every religion dont be pig headed

Jessica / 2009/07/30

what comes around goes around. Do unto others as you would want done unto you. These sayings are old as our civilization.And some people just dont care until its bites them in the ass. Steve should of stop chesting young girls and be a real man to his wife. He was at fault and got what he deserved for flaunting cash and collecting sex from a 20yr old. come on now. The man strayed from his wife and put her and his kids in misery while he gets his kicks being loose. A good lesson is learned here men and women

Tommy Gun / 2009/07/31

One crazy bitch. Just goes to show no matter how hot a bitch’s bangers if she wacked then stay away. RIP Steve. Crazy ho!