She didn’t like her new “big girl’s bed” so my wife let her come in the big bed with us.

There is not much room and I have to get up early for work and need a decent night’s sleep, so I have got in the habit of moving into our daughter’s bed.

This has ruined our sex life. I really hoped this phase would pass but it has now been three years. To make matters worse, my wife takes our daughter up to bed at 8pm and reads to her for an hour, so we don’t even share our evenings.

I feel like she wants to avoid me. I don’t want a marriage like this but it would break me in two to leave my wife and child.

DEAR DEIDRE

I've been having sex with my wife's sister but we were caught on CCTV

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Cherie stays in cheating husband's house and won't let him use car

CASUAL SEX ADDICTION

Love of casual sex cost me marriage - why can't I stop having flings?

DEAR DEIDRE

I'm having an affair with man from running club - and I think hubby suspects it