I am so with you on the jeans...it's better that way! Up until the end of last year, #4 was me for a looooong time (we're looking at practically a decade, ugh). As annoying and cliche as it sounds, it happened for me out of the blue, and just like that, everything changed pretty quickly. So, you just never know when things will be different!

uh i hear you on a lot of these. good for you for reading more! i have been terrible about that the last few months. and on the single front - ugh it's the worst - dating that is! so hard out there. not sure if it gets worse as we get older or if we just have less of an ability to deal with the shit from guys ha!