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17 dpo and no af???

Jenericash wrote:

I am beyond confused bc i am supposed to beon day 4 of af but she hasnt shown! FF says i am 17dpo. Ihave tested every day since 12dpo hahahahaha (i am a poas addict!!!) anyhow they are the dollar store tests and i have tested 2x a day (dont laugh) so that is abt 11 tests!!! All were neg but the one i took today if i shine a light behind it there is a thick line same as control line that shows up but its not really visible just looking...kinda weird???? My boobs feelhuge and hurt and i have had backpain and cramps for abt 4-5 days. Also i ALWAYS break out before af and my skin is so clear its weird! I dont want to get my hopes up bc of all the neg obviously but has this happened to anyone else???

I'm actually 7 days late today and no signs of AF. I've had cramping on and off for awhile now, my boobies are a tad sore, and I'm starting to feel nausea but at this point I wouldn't be suprised if it was just stress. I don't want to get my hopes up either but I'm still getting a BFN. I'll probably continue testing and if still no AF by Monday call my doctor.

I've had 2 MCs so of course I'm freaking out but at the same time trying to stay calm because the first two pregnancies I had a BFP before AF was even due and was feeling a lot different. So I'm hoping that since this is all so different that it will have a positive ending.

I've tested with EPT and Clearblue, digital and non digitial and it's still a BFN. Yet no AF and slight symptoms. URGH!

And no I don't temp, if we don't conceive this cycle once thigns are back in order I'll start temping. We got pregnant immediately the first and 2nd time but we took breaks after both MCs to give ourselvs some time to heal and regroup. At least we could get pregnant, just wish that we could actually stay pregnant past 10 weeks.

Same here... Tomorrow will be a week late with a bfn yesterday morning. Normally no period is a sure sign, but noooooo it can't just all make sense, huh? The month of July I completely skipped AF and started up again right on track in August. I fear that is what's happening again.

Kpick85 i sure hope so!!!!! I got kinda confused yesterday bc i had ewcm again???? But only one time when i wiped after going to the rr (tmi sorry hahaha) it was def ewcm bc it stretched about 4-5 inches!!!! I have no clue what that was but i eitherwant to see two lines or get af (hoping for bfp!) bc this notknowing is killing me and i feel obsessed with googling this hahahaha

If you normally have really regular cycles test once more tomorrow and if no af call your dr. they can do the blood work to see if you are pg or not and if you are not they can give you meds to get your cycle back on track. Good luck and fx'd for you. P.S. I couldn't see your chart from the link you posted.

Yes- I've had extra CM too! Hoping it's a good sign. When I missed AF in July though I had all the signs and would have bet money I was preggy. Turns out I wasn't. Even had blood work done. Doctor told me if I skip two months then call them. Grrreeeaaat. So now I'm just going to blame my body for being mean and cruel. Can't really rely on anything. :(

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