No difference with my 16 year old son. I ask around to find out how long this phase will last. The answer is depressing. I’m trying to tell myself that it’s supposed to be this way to prepare us for their departure. Doesn’t make me want to scream any less, though.

Yeah, I guess it’s an equal-opportunity phase, eh? Those books I referenced in the post (Wise Minded Parenting and Yes, Your Teen is Crazy) are a big help at explaining all the changes they’re experiencing, especially in their brains. And yes, that separation process is difficult. Thank you for reading and sharing your experience. And…good luck!

Well, I’m only 11 years removed from 16 and I know I didn’t get along well with my Mom at all. We actually didn’t speak from the age of 18 to 25… (okay, wait, I meant for this to be comforting) but now I see her in a completely new light and realize all of the sacrifices she made, the difficulties she endured, and how selfless she is. So hang in there. 16 year olds are just terrible.

I had a super ridiculous adolescence and a penchant for running away to foreign countries so I’m sure your daughter won’t shun you when she comes of age. 🙂