Everyone knows that people in porn flicks never kiss because it’s too personal. Allegedly, prostitutes never kiss their clients either for the same reason. It's also been said that people who’ve been together for a long time stop kissing each other as well.

I always thought kissing someone was the next step (after initial attraction, long eye contact, etc) to knowing whether you want to be with someone at all. Is it possible to be with someone longterm if you hate their kissing style? I don’t even think it’s something you can teach someone…am I wrong?

I also couldn’t imagine losing interest in kissing someone regularly, even when the relationship was “old”…that would feel like a small death.

I think for those who have been with each other for a long time stop the long kissing and only peck each other when first getting home or leaving one another for the day or whatever. It is really sad, because once that happens you have lost a lot of passion in the relationship.

well dancing was easy to let go of...i sucked and its really quite a rediculous thing for any man to participate in.

as for kissing, i think it complicates things. Its quite a personal act, sharing fluids and the likes. i went thru a stage of kissing girls on the first date, kissing girls in clubs, kissing girls i had no intention of ever seeing again, the kiss for me has been tarnished...i abused the kiss.

the next girl i kiss will be someone special, in the meantime no kissing...i like the way it frustrates the hell out of girls and it makes the breakup less complicated...almost expected

i look for more than a 'good kisser' in a partner. im a difficult person to be around at the best of times because of my personal agenda...everything else in my life comes before my girlfriend.

i just dont rate the kiss anymore as an indicator and like you said...its more intimate than sex

That just sounds so practical.

Yes, I guess you would look for more than great kissing from a long-term love interest, (although I think it's a good indicator in the beginning of how sensual etc someone is going to be) I just don't know of too many women who would go past that step one, before heading on to step two.

i think that kissing is an intregal part of a good relationship. It is a reaffirmation of passion. Kissing is a way of showing love in many ways. From the peck to more passionate kissing, from soft loving kisses to the more passionate harder intense kissing. Holding a woman close with your hand on her back, the other holding her head/face and kissing her is a great feeling.

i think that kissing is an intregal part of a good relationship. It is a reaffirmation of passion. Kissing is a way of showing love in many ways. From the peck to more passionate kissing, from soft loving kisses to the more passionate harder intense kissing. Holding a woman close with your hand on her back, the other holding her head/face and kissing her is a great feeling.

I so agree!! Kissing is a test of true intimacy. The flutters in your stomach, the euphoria in your head...you know thats a real kiss. I would say I prefer it to sex, but it leads to it anyway. I'm very affectionate so I give hugs and kisses any chance I get.

I would assume after being with the same person for many, many years...you tend to do alot of things less than when you first got together. Its just up to the couple to keep the fire burning. It takes effort and a constant need to make the other person happy. Like Dr. Phil says...you should wake up every morning and ask yourself, what can I do today to make my spouse happy.

Kissing is extreamly important, its the first step to be intimate with another. It tells you what type of person you are letting into your safety zone. You are allowing the first move in the game of chess that a relationship is. After time goes by you should always keep a desire to kiss your partner. There is something renewing and recharging when you touch tongues and passionatly kiss your partner you have been with for awile. There is something exciting and magical about the first kiss but the same can be said for a suprise deep toe curling kiss from someone you love when you least expect it.Kissing is sometimes as good as a hug when your team loses...

I think for those who have been with each other for a long time stop the long kissing and only peck each other when first getting home or leaving one another for the day or whatever. It is really sad, because once that happens you have lost a lot of passion in the relationship.

100% agreed. Nothing is more romantic then a nice long passionate kiss. PB

There is an art in kissing? That's like saying "the art of sex." Sure, there's a karmasutra, but some people can do missionary their whole lives and still get a kick out of it. The art is inside every person and it's a different art to each of us. Kissing is a beautiful thing when it's truly welcomed and given out.