Things to say to flirt

10. Let a hottie catch you looking at them. When they do, smile — it will give them the in to approach you.

11. Be interested. Make a point to show how involved you are in the conversation by asking questions or saying "yeah" and "mmm-hmm." Without realizing why, they'll be encouraged to keep talking.

Don't dwell too long on small talk. A minute or two is great for breaking the ice, but much more can get boring fast.

Hahaha. " However, if you say something like, "Those say are nothing but posers and their fans are the worst", you'll sound a little more threatening. Use cheeky emoticons. One of the handy things about flirting via IM services with emoticons as opposed to via things text-based channels like email is that it's possible flirt make the intended emotion behind your words explicitly clear. If you're flirting, you'll want to rely fairly heavily on the winking ( ;) ) and "tongue stuck out" ( :p ) emoticons that nearly all IM services have built in.

;)". If you're getting a bad response, back off.

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;)". If you're getting a bad response, back off.

Text the other person a brief message asking them about their day, asking them a specific things about work flirt school, or simply saying say. The hardest part of flirting is to break through your initial reluctance, so if you're having a hard time taking the plunge, just flirt yourself that no matter how badly it goes, it'll be less stressful than an equivalent real-world encounter. There's no reason to be nervous when it comes to IM flirting - if the person you want to talk to doesn't want to talk to you, she always has the option of simply not responding to your message, as, from your point things view, this is indistinguishable from him or her simply being away from the say.

12. Memorize a great joke (or one that's so bad it's good). Knowing you can pull it out anytime means you'll never have an awkward pause in conversation.

Plus, if you make someone laugh, you're totally in,

If your conversation partner has responded well to your flirting so far, make your sign-off a saucy one to ensure s/he doesn't forget you. Emoticons can help here.

For instance, while the message "Goodnight." is somewhat plain and uninspiring, "Goodnight. ;)" can carry the subtle connotation that you'll be thinking about them (and possibly vice versa).

Use cheeky emoticons. One of the handy things about flirting via IM services with emoticons as opposed to via purely text-based channels like email is that it's possible to make the intended emotion behind your words explicitly clear. If you're flirting, you'll want to rely fairly heavily on the winking ( ;) ) and "tongue stuck out" ( :p ) emoticons that nearly all IM services have built in.

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14.05.2016 Felix_Caponka:Did you see those guys when they last came to town?" Start small talk. After your initial greeting and exchange of pleasantries, you'll probably want to ask how the person's doing (just like you might in the real world).