The one who walks away with everything intact is the one who keeps their integrity. Sorry that someone hurt you, especially someone who you put your trust in. Getting even seems a good thing, but (often) it doesn't make things equal and the only way it will end up will be in two people fighting to keep one ahead.<br /><br />Keep your integrity and don't stoop to the other person's level; in doing so the best it gets is that you become her equal as you *both* go all out to stay one step ahead. I'm sure you don't want to be considered the same as this person. There are no loses as long as you keep your integrity.<br /><br />~F~