Is it bad to have 2 boyfriends?

I can’t believe this is happening when before I was crying about being single but now it looks like I’m about to have not 1 but 2 dudes in my life. This guy that used to work at my job really likes me he lives next to me and wants to ask me out and try’s his hardest to get with me. The other day he came knocking on... show more I can’t believe this is happening when before I was crying about being single but now it looks like I’m about to have not 1 but 2 dudes in my life. This guy that used to work at my job really likes me he lives next to me and wants to ask me out and try’s his hardest to get with me. The other day he came knocking on my door but ran.. there’s this new guy at my job and he’s already flirting with me he’s always smiling at me there just no telling when he’s gonna go in for the kill..and i gotta say he’s really cute.. to be honest I’m not gonna say no to neither one..I think it’s fun 2 have 2 boyfriends I just can’t believe this is happening I’m so happy overal is this bad?

This sounds like a really poor troll fantasy post. "Try's"? Really? It's "tries". Also, NEITHER of these guys are your "boyfriend". Neither has asked you out or began officially dating you. You just claim they both like you/flirt with you. If one DOES ask you out, say yes if you like him, but then don't say yes to the other if he'd ask too. Just pick whichever one you think will be your better match. You can TALK to both of them to see who you get along with better, but do NOT officially DATE both. That's kind of a form of cheating.

I hate to break this to you sweetie, but neither one of them are your boyfriend right now. Flirting and friendly conversations don't count for squat.

An exclusive boyfriend-girlfriend relationship only exists when one person asks and the other says yes, no exceptions. If both people haven't agreed to an 'official' exclusive relationship, there ain't no exclusive relationship. Neither you nor either of these guys have entered into a relationship yet.

If you get into an exclusive relationship with one person, it's usually understood that both of you will not date (or get romantically involved with) anyone else. But if you're just seeing someone casually, even if you're just casually f**king someone, you don't answer to anyone but yourself. And if you enter into an open relationship (meaning seeing, dating and f**king other people is allowed), you can have as many lovers as you want.

Most people won't agree to an open relationship, but some will. And since neither of these guys are your boyfriend (at least not yet), you don't have to worry about that stuff.

As long as you keep it casual with both of them, no harm in dating 2 guys. But you should not have 2 "boyfriends". Make it clear that you are dating other guys. When one of them becomes more serious, you can choose which one you want to develop a relationship - but only ONE of them.

How would you feel if a guy had you and another girlfriend. When it gets to that level, you pick one or the other - not both.

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Is it bad to have 2 boyfriends?

I can’t believe this is happening when before I was crying about being single but now it looks like I’m about to have not 1 but 2 dudes in my life. This guy that used to work at my job really likes me he lives next to me and wants to ask me out and try’s his hardest to get with me. The other day he came knocking on my door but ran.. there’s this new guy at my job and he’s already flirting with me he’s always smiling at me there just no telling when he’s gonna go in for the kill..and i gotta say he’s really cute.. to be honest I’m not gonna say no to neither one..I think it’s fun 2 have 2 boyfriends I just can’t believe this is happening I’m so happy overal is this bad?