Neighbors, Can You Spare $300 Grand?

What’s left after 1,000 pounds of lobster are washed down with champagne? Or if you prefer, a roasted pig is washed down with beer? Or filet mignon washed down with martinis?

A third of a million dollars — if Calvert County’s biggest party, the Celebration of Life Cancer Crusade, lives up to the tradition of past celebrations. And if Sue and Steve Kullen, this year’s honorary chairs, are as good at reaching into your heart and pockets for this year’s Aug. 5 party as past chair people have been.

The partying started back in 1982, thrown by brothers Gerald and Fred Donovan. Now in its 29th year, The Celebration of Life Cancer Crusade is huge, drawing hundreds of benefactors to the Donovans’ Chesapeake Beach Resort and Spa at Rod ‘N’ Reel for a night of abundance — eating and drinking, dancing and mingling — for a good cause: Raising big bucks for the American Cancer Society’s cancer research and support programs. Over the years, partygoers have donated close to $4 million.

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Reaping this many millions is hard work. Doorbells need ringing, businesses need calling and friends rallied for their support. Knowing they couldn’t do it alone, the Donovans asked Judge Perry G. Bowen to be the first honorary chairperson and help with the job.

Twenty-eight years later, there are even more businesses, doorbells and friends as potential donors. It’s an honor to oversee, but also a monster of a task.

This year, the honor — and the job — fell on the shoulders of Sue and Steve Kullen.

Dialing for Dollars

“Over the years, our honorary chairs have been all kinds of people from different backgrounds,” Gerald Donovan tells Bay Weekly. “We try to choose well-known people who have contacts that we don’t have ourselves.”

The list of past honorary chairs is impressive with immediately recognizable names. There have been politicians: Bernie Fowler, Louis Goldstein, Steny Hoyer, George Owings, Mike Miller. Celebrities, like novelist Tom Clancy. Business people: Johnny and Connie Gott of Gott Oil and local Fast Stop convenience stores; Phil and Jeannie Stone of Stoney’s seafood restaurants; and last year, Mike and Sara Middleton of Tri-County Bank. And community activists: In 2008, county newcomers Bob and Pat Carpenter tapped into their Rolodexes.

Not everyone has jumped at the chance to serve.

“I’ve been turned down a few times because it is a lot of work,” Donovan says.

In March, snow still on the ground, the Donovans approached the Kullens.

“I asked Sue and Steve because Sue is well-known, they both travel in different circles and they are both hard workers.”

The Kullens did not hesitate — at least visibly.

“It is an absolute honor to be asked,” says Sue. “We immediately accepted the challenge.”

Her only concern was the amount of work that came with the honor. Being honorary chair is more than photo ops and the occasional meet and greet. And this year, Sue is busy with another big job. It is an election year, and Delegate Kullen is hard at work on her campaign to be re-elected to the Maryland General Assembly.

“It’s a lot of work to do in an election year,” she says, “but we’re used to working hard, and this is definitely worth it.”

This is the first time either Kullen has worked as honorary chair to anything. As a state delegate, Sue has lent her hand to smaller events, but the Cancer Crusade is the biggest. Steve is a complete, albeit enthusiastic, newbie.

“Honorary chairs come and go,” says Sue. “But the Donovans have been doing this for 29 years.”

Their informal goal is to best donations from last year’s Gala, in the $300,000s. That’s a lot of money, especially in our economy.

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The Kullens’ big job began with team-building and regular meetings.

“We’ve been meeting since March,” says Sue. “At first it was every two weeks, but as the Gala gets closer, we meet once a week to go over details and assign tasks.”

The Gala team of 20 includes staff and volunteers from Rod ’n’ Reel along with friends of the Kullens.

“We brought in friends who are experienced in fundraising and who are connected to people and businesses we’re not,” says Sue. “They include Ed and Sue Apple, Robert Hahn and Kiplinger Hine.”

In one of the first meetings, the Kullens got a list of previous sponsors for the last five years.

“We passed around the list, then asked everyone who had the best relationship with each of the listed sponsors,” says Sue. “They were tasked with calling those sponsors. We covered the past sponsors, then added new ones.”

Sue’s “red letter day” brought in $39,000.

“A large part of that $39,000 was businesses in the county,” she says. “Calvert businesses are so generous and they are so invested in the Gala. It’s great.”

Working the phones is only one way of recruiting sponsors.

As keynote speaker at the Calvert Chamber of Commerce’s Women to Women event, Kullen asked her audience for support.

On the two Fridays before the Gala, both Kullens sold tickets and memorial luminaries at the Friday night North Beach Farmers’ Market.

“We are doing everything we can to remind people the Gala is coming up and you need to get your ticket,” says Steve. “It’s cash or checks only on the boardwalk.”

Wear a Colored Ribbon

Besides donations, the Kullens are bringing new ideas to the grand old event.

“Kiplinger Hine, who I call my idea-hamster, has given us a great idea, as he always does,” Sue reports

Hine’s idea is to represent the types of cancer with colored ribbons. Ribbons in three dozen colors will be handed out by the American Cancer Society at the reception table.

“Anyone who is personally dealing with cancer or is close to someone who is can claim the appropriate color of ribbon — or ribbons,” says Sue. “We hope this will be a conversation starter and, even better, help build support among strangers battling the same disease.”

The Kullens will wear several different colored ribbons in honor of “way too many” friends who have suffered the disease. One will be for Bard of the Chesapeake Tom Wisner, killed by lung cancer in April.

Steve’s story is closer still. He was eight years old when he lost his mother to breast cancer.

“She fought it for about three years. She died on Valentine’s Day. That was tough.”

Steve’s loss intensifies their motivation to find a cure.

“No little boy should grow up without his mom,” Sue says.

Neighbors Among Neighbors

The year Perry Bowen chaired the Donovans’ first gala — 1982 — Steve and Sue left their native Pennsylvania for Calvert County.

Their first home — and job — was as a live-in couple at a group home built by the Arc of Southern Maryland on Broomes Island Road.

Sue worked full-time with the Arc for almost 14 years, leaving as the director of planning to start her own consulting business. Steve, meanwhile, worked for Calvert County, helping develop the county’s comprehensive plan and its recycling initiative. He’s now a county environmental planner.

The Kullens settled in Governors Run, where they manage a cottage rental business. Sue still works as a consultant in the field of disabilities when she’s not working as a legislator. They see themselves as ordinary people, neighbors among neighbors.

“We hadn’t lived in the county very long when we heard about the Cancer Gala,” Steve recalls. “We didn’t have a lot of money but thought it was for a great cause. We went with a group of Calvert County co-workers. It was, and still is, the biggest party in the county.”

One of the Kullens’ goals this year is to get those citizens to return to the Gala, bring their friends — and make new ones.

As Calvert County has grown in population, the sense of a tightly woven, small community has been diminished. Many people leave the county five days a week for jobs in the city. Evenings and weekends are full of tasks demanding attention before the next Monday morning commute.

Reconnecting the community is the Kullens’ personal goal. Respectful and grateful as they are for the generosity of business owners, Sue and Steve want to make the gala of 2010 a neighborhood bash.

“We hope our contribution is in part getting individuals excited to come back,” Sue says. “We are working to get more people excited and involved in this great Calvert County event, the party of the year.”

So as Sue works the phones, Steve takes on the 2010 version of door-to-door sales. Harnessing every email address on his home computer and posting status notices on his Facebook page, he is asking everyone Hey, are you going to the Cancer Gala? Have you bought your tickets yet?

One Heckuva Block Party

The Kullens want you to know that you are invited, that you will be their honored guests. They believe that if they call you, you will come and support the cause, support the community. In turn, you’ll be rewarded with one heckuva block party.

The Gala is about abundance of good food as well as abundance of good will. You’ll feast on piles of Maine lobster, shrimp, oysters, clams, mussels, crabs and fresh fish, as well as roasted pig, filet mignon, barbeque ribs, grilled chicken, steamship round and desserts galore. Wash it all down with beverages from the open bar, and work off the calories by dancing to live music.

“We’re looking forward to a wonderful evening, and hoping everyone comes out to support this great cause,” Steve says. “Get your best tropical print shirt — there is no lobster worth a tux in August — and we’ll see you there.”