Why Can’t I Stop Fantasizing About Being Raped By Muscular Straight Men?

What’s wrong with me, DL?

by Anonymous

reply 159

12/31/2017

Oh, honey, I don't have the time nor inclination to begin to answer that, but good luck to you.

by Anonymous

reply 1

12/02/2017

Someday your hormones will calm down and you'll wonder what all the craziness was about.

by Anonymous

reply 2

12/02/2017

I’ll join you for sloppy seconds..

by Anonymous

reply 3

12/02/2017

John, get the fuck off the computer.

by Anonymous

reply 4

12/02/2017

Maybe because you're emotionally disturbed?

by Anonymous

reply 5

12/02/2017

I want this guy to rape me.

by Anonymous

reply 6

12/02/2017

easy...you are a woman.

by Anonymous

reply 7

12/02/2017

there is a book out now called "everybody lies" the author had unlimited access to google search data. women's #1 search was "how to tell if my pussy stinks" and the 2nd was searches for "rape porn". go figure. excellent book btw.

by Anonymous

reply 8

12/02/2017

by Anonymous

reply 9

12/02/2017

Like “rape” rape?

by Anonymous

reply 10

12/02/2017

I don't know what's wrong with you but you might ring up Matt Lauer. He's got lots of time on his hands now and he's an abusive asshole so he might really be able to deliver a good rapin.

by Anonymous

reply 11

12/02/2017

Yeah “rape” rape.

by Anonymous

reply 12

12/02/2017

[quote]"Why can't I stop fantasizing about being raped by muscular straight men?"

Because you're Angela Lansbury?

by Anonymous

reply 13

12/02/2017

...all together now.... you’re a whore, darling...

by Anonymous

reply 14

12/02/2017

You're not alone OP.

But please, for your sake, keep it in the realm of fantasy.

by Anonymous

reply 15

12/02/2017

Nothing a Craigslist and can't cure!

by Anonymous

reply 16

12/02/2017

Lots.

by Anonymous

reply 17

12/02/2017

Is this what you want?

by Anonymous

reply 18

12/02/2017

I have the same fantasy about my dentist. It started when he asked me if I like hard candy.

by Anonymous

reply 19

12/02/2017

by Anonymous

reply 20

12/02/2017

Because you want them but can't imagine them making contact with you by normal means.

by Anonymous

reply 21

12/02/2017

As a woman, I find the idea of a rape fantasy personally offensive.

by Anonymous

reply 22

12/02/2017

FRAU ALERT!

by Anonymous

reply 23

12/02/2017

When I worked in children’s publishing I had a colleague who was very serious, extremely over educated and a committed and very vocal feminist. We got rip roaring drunk one night and she stunned me by telling me nothing turned her on more than being carried off kicking and screaming to be raped by a huge powerful man.

As the gay on here might say, momma’s muzzy got decidedly moist as she picturesquely described her dream scenario, as it was easy to insert oneself into the image ....

by Anonymous

reply 24

12/02/2017

Sorry, I should have said nothing turned her on more than FANTASIES of that, lol!

by Anonymous

reply 25

12/02/2017

Serious answer- because you subconsciously are afraid that if you are bottoming and enjoying it, you’ll be taking the feminine role that gays/society/gay society looks down on in a man. By having the choice taken away from you by having someone force you into that position, it removes the responsibility from you of actually enjoying the submissive role.

Unserious answer- you’re just gagging for a shag.

by Anonymous

reply 26

12/02/2017

As a woman, I find the idea of a rape fantasy personally offensive.

by Anonymous

reply 27

12/02/2017

Sure Jan.

by Anonymous

reply 28

12/02/2017

[quote]I have the same fantasy about my dentist. It started when he asked me if I like hard candy.

That's enough about you, Marcia.

by Anonymous

reply 29

12/02/2017

The key word here is “straight”, right?

by Anonymous

reply 30

12/02/2017

I want to go back to college so this guy can get drunk and rape me at a frat party.

by Anonymous

reply 31

12/03/2017

Enjoy it as fantasy. You will have many in your lifetime, depending on where you are emotionally. Fantasies are healthy and free!

by Anonymous

reply 32

12/03/2017

I hope you keep your anus sparkling clean at all times.

by Anonymous

reply 33

12/03/2017

by Anonymous

reply 34

12/03/2017

#metoo

by Anonymous

reply 35

12/03/2017

Rape me.

by Anonymous

reply 36

12/03/2017

Rape me.

by Anonymous

reply 37

12/03/2017

Rape me.

by Anonymous

reply 38

12/03/2017

[QUOTE]Serious answer- because you subconsciously are afraid that if you are bottoming and enjoying it, you’ll be taking the feminine role that gays/society/gay society looks down on in a man.

Well I do consider myself a dom top so that would make sense. Still I have no desire to bottom.

by Anonymous

reply 39

12/03/2017

As a rapist, I find the idea of anyone fantasizing over me raping them to be offensive.

by Anonymous

reply 40

12/03/2017

by Anonymous

reply 41

12/03/2017

As a woman, I find the idea of a rape fantasy personally offensive.

by Anonymous

reply 42

12/03/2017

So you said at r27.

by Anonymous

reply 43

12/03/2017

If you want it and are looking for it, it ain't rape.

You are unrape-able.

by Anonymous

reply 44

12/03/2017

You can’t be offended by someone fantasizing about being raped, repetitive frau. But I think the rapist at R40 makes a good point.

by Anonymous

reply 45

12/03/2017

Sick people.

by Anonymous

reply 46

12/03/2017

Rape should only be used as a word outside its normal meaning if it's really, really funny, or if it annoys someone a lot.

by Anonymous

reply 47

12/03/2017

As a woman, I find the idea of a rape fantasy personally offensive.

by Anonymous

reply 48

12/03/2017

by Anonymous

reply 49

12/03/2017

In my fantasies, the sex is consensual.

by Anonymous

reply 50

12/03/2017

[quote] As a woman, I find the idea of a rape fantasy personally offensive.

Who gives a shit how you find it?

by Anonymous

reply 51

12/03/2017

[QUOTE]In my fantasies, the sex is consensual.

Not in mine.

by Anonymous

reply 52

12/03/2017

OP thinks he's Edith Bunker

by Anonymous

reply 53

12/03/2017

Consensual rape?

by Anonymous

reply 54

12/03/2017

[quote]OP thinks he's Edith Bunker

To think that could have been me!

by Anonymous

reply 55

12/03/2017

[QUOTE]Consensual rape?

[QUOTE]Consensual non-consent, also called meta-consent and blanket consent, is a mutual agreement to be able to act as if consent has been waived. It is an agreement where comprehensive consent is given in advance, with the intent of it being irrevocable under most circumstances. This often occurs without foreknowledge of the exact actions planned.

by Anonymous

reply 56

12/03/2017

A friend of mine had a rape fantasy, and left his door unlocked one night so another friend could come over and "take" him. But when the visitor crawled into bed with him, my friend woke up, disoriented, and punched him in the face.

It didn't work out.

by Anonymous

reply 57

12/03/2017

The visitor’s mistake was crawling into bed and awakening him. He should’ve tied your friend’s hands behind his back, gagged him, and proceeded to give him the pounding he asked for.

by Anonymous

reply 58

12/03/2017

by Anonymous

reply 59

12/03/2017

Instead of raped, say ravished.

by Anonymous

reply 60

12/03/2017

I think the fantasy of being overpowered by a stronger man is kinda common in the gay world, and there’s rape and then “rape.”

I’m an older burly nicely hung guy and I’ve had a few younger twink types who’ve wanted a “rape” type encounter - we talk it out before hand, set the limits, agree on a safe word, and then have fun with it. It’s just another flavor of sex play - and a way to scratch that itch.

by Anonymous

reply 61

12/03/2017

[QUOTE]Instead of raped, say ravished.

No thanks. “Ravished” sounds like something out of a frau romance novel.

by Anonymous

reply 62

12/03/2017

Don't you have work to do this weekend, Senator McConnell?

by Anonymous

reply 63

12/03/2017

The bottom in r52 looks like Obama.

by Anonymous

reply 64

12/03/2017

I'd say its because you're one of the agents provocateurs that now infest this site.

by Anonymous

reply 65

12/03/2017

It's not rape if you want him to have sex with you

by Anonymous

reply 66

12/03/2017

I want to be the brutalized one in this movie. Taken over, dominated and hunted by a handsome, aggressive, sexually ambiguous "straight" man who has some sort of weird fixation on me.

But only in the movie.

by Anonymous

reply 67

12/03/2017

by Anonymous

reply 68

12/03/2017

As a rape fantasy, I find the idea of a woman personally offensive.

by Anonymous

reply 69

12/03/2017

Hormones = whore moans

by Anonymous

reply 70

12/03/2017

You can't get over your crush on the high school jock who wouldn't fuck you. The straight white one.

Also, you consider yourself weak, so you think that having someone around who fucks you like they're raping you--which to you is a sign of strength and masculinity--will afford you some sort of protection, when all it's really going to afford you is a trip to the emergency room.

Clearly, you have never been a victim of rape.

by Anonymous

reply 71

12/03/2017

There's a difference between rape and rough sex

by Anonymous

reply 72

12/04/2017

As a woman, I find the idea of a rape fantasy personally offensive.

by Anonymous

reply 73

12/04/2017

by Anonymous

reply 74

12/04/2017

[quote] As a woman, I find the idea of a rape fantasy personally offensive.

Lucky for you all my fantasies are about men.

by Anonymous

reply 75

12/04/2017

AND THE WOMAN TROLL, SHE IS SERVED

by Anonymous

reply 76

12/05/2017

There’s plenty of stuff online about frauen rape fantasies, but nary a discussion about gay men who have them. We’re two completely different animals.

by Anonymous

reply 77

12/05/2017

Of course there's a kinkipedia 😏

by Anonymous

reply 78

12/05/2017

As a woman, I am turned on by the FANTASY of being forced. I don't want it to actually happen but I cannot deny it's there. But always being done by an incredible attractive man or woman or both at the same time.

by Anonymous

reply 79

12/05/2017

Y'all need to seek out a psychoanalyst ASAP! Run, don't walk.

by Anonymous

reply 80

12/05/2017

Did this porno have anything to do with it OP?

by Anonymous

reply 81

12/05/2017

You people are icky. Rape? Forced sodomy? Who raised you people? Do you have parents? Keep your vile fantasies to yourselves. Ugh!

by Anonymous

reply 82

12/05/2017

I have a fantasy about being kidnapped by the cartel in Mexico and being forcibly used by 4-5 hot, muscular, well-hung studs for a week until my ransom is paid.

In reality I hate bottoming. Last tried it a few years ago and still hated it.

by Anonymous

reply 83

12/05/2017

Wow I can't believe how pigs with vile, disgusting gay fantasies post on this board. I find these posts personally offensive, and I'd like this to become more of a family-friendly board that I can invite the DH and kiddos to view. As it is now, I wouldn't let them near this.

by Anonymous

reply 84

12/05/2017

I'm ashamed that I got a boner reading all of this.

by Anonymous

reply 85

12/05/2017

Well, you should be, r85. Imagine! Getting aroused by violence. It is truly unfathomable.

by Anonymous

reply 86

12/05/2017

[QUOTE]I have a fantasy about being kidnapped by the cartel in Mexico and being forcibly used by 4-5 hot, muscular, well-hung studs for a week until my ransom is paid.

Omg that is so fucking hot. Those horny sicarios would rape you nonstop. You’d never get any sleep.

by Anonymous

reply 87

12/05/2017

Guys, these images are really, really offensive to me. Let's try and clean this board up and make it family friendly, ok? What do you say? You are better than this.

by Anonymous

reply 88

12/05/2017

As a gay man, I consider all heterosexual sex rape.

by Anonymous

reply 89

12/05/2017

R88: If you want family-friendly, then drive down the 5 until you reach Disneyland.

by Anonymous

reply 90

12/05/2017

[quote]R76 AND THE WOMAN TROLL, SHE IS SERVED

Don't you get a sense it's one uptight queen who detests women that makes all those posts, tho? It's the same poster who's all ferklempt about Rose McGowan and has all the "frau hate", etc. (In fact, are you this same poster's sock, replying to itself?)

The thing is, most real women have bigger and better things to do than rattle some cages at DL, for goddess' sake.

by Anonymous

reply 91

12/05/2017

Angela Lansbury thinks only women who make efforts to make themselves attractive get raped....and they must share in the blame.

by Anonymous

reply 92

12/05/2017

So maybe I should start dressing like a whore.

by Anonymous

reply 93

12/05/2017

[quote] R93 So maybe I should start dressing like a whore.

You could start with this (?)

by Anonymous

reply 94

12/05/2017

What's wrong with Disney-fying this board a bit, making it family-friendly, and dare I say, and Jesus-friendly? We should strive to be better than common animals. Our sexuality is a gift that should be treasured, and not treated like just another bodily function akin to tinkling.

by Anonymous

reply 95

12/05/2017

[quote] What’s wrong with me, DL?

You have more issues than a lifetime subscription to Frau Wear Daily.

by Anonymous

reply 96

12/05/2017

by Anonymous

reply 97

12/05/2017

Unless you find me a picture of Jesus tongue-kissing Ricky Schroder, you can shove your holier-than-thou crap up your unwashed ass from whence it came.

by Anonymous

reply 98

12/05/2017

Wii get rid of the fantasy?

by Anonymous

reply 99

12/05/2017

by Anonymous

reply 100

12/05/2017

Anthony Perkins could afford this fantasy.

Pay for it, you lazy whore.

by Anonymous

reply 101

12/05/2017

[quote] Anthony Perkins could afford this fantasy.

Not at my price, he couldn't.

by Anonymous

reply 102

12/05/2017

by Anonymous

reply 103

12/05/2017

[quote]R95 You have more issues than a lifetime subscription to Frau Wear Daily.

by Anonymous

reply 104

12/05/2017

Do you people have parents? Seriously, who raised you to have such thoughts and seek out such filth and debauchery? I'm just intellectually curious. Jesus did warn against this, ya know.

by Anonymous

reply 105

12/05/2017

by Anonymous

reply 106

12/05/2017

[quote]R105 Do you people have parents? Seriously, who raised you to have such thoughts and seek out such filth and debauchery? I'm just intellectually curious. Jesus did warn against this, ya know.

everyone knows this is a gay male posting this stuff, rite?

by Anonymous

reply 107

12/05/2017

r105. You are a parody right?

by Anonymous

reply 108

12/05/2017

by Anonymous

reply 109

12/05/2017

[quote]R108 You are a parody right?

It's some lame gay male who has a fixation on putting down women, and tries to come off like their an uptight mom, so DLers will get into the same tizzy they are.

You'll see this poster bashing Rose McGowan, too. And talking about how wise Angela Lansbury is for telling women they've set themselves up for rape.

It's sad.

by Anonymous

reply 110

12/05/2017

Because it means you don't need to assume the responsibility of consent even in your mind. The decision is made for you. You can also fantasize you are highly desirable, so highly desirably that you attract straight guys who cannot control themselves and must teach you a lesson or whatever.

It's a fantasy. Real life rape is something quite different.

by Anonymous

reply 111

12/05/2017

[QUOTE]You can also fantasize you are highly desirable, so highly desirably that you attract straight guys who cannot control themselves and must teach you a lesson or whatever.

I can assure you that this has nothing to do with it.

by Anonymous

reply 112

12/05/2017

Ok. I took a shot. So you are a dominant gay male? Is it a pure violent fantasy or is any aspect at all erotic?

by Anonymous

reply 113

12/05/2017

I am a dominant gay male and it’s mostly erotic with some violence mixed in. Just enough to make it dangerous. So I know it’s real. It’s not like I fantasize about the guy killing me afterward or anything.

by Anonymous

reply 114

12/05/2017

by Anonymous

reply 115

12/05/2017

The clip at R81 seriously has some of the best acting I've seen in a porno. For a second I thought it was a scene from an actual movie or show.

by Anonymous

reply 116

12/05/2017

Sometimes a fantasy is more about psychological domination as well as physical...but not necessarily rape. More like extreme bullying and brutalization at the hands of a conflicted, handsome and domineering man.

I guess I need to work out WHY this intrigues me.

by Anonymous

reply 117

12/05/2017

I want to be his cell mate so he can rape me every night.

by Anonymous

reply 118

12/05/2017

by Anonymous

reply 119

12/06/2017

I'm a gay male with lots of fantasies- cute doctor, cute coach...but being forced to have sex with them is not one of them. I wouldn't need to. I would be happy to comply.

And those porn fantasies are not really about rape they are wild hot violent sex which is a very different thing.

If you were actually raped by that hot stud meaning you genuinely do not want him to take you by force it would be anything but hot.

It would really be humiliating and creepy.

by Anonymous

reply 120

12/06/2017

by Anonymous

reply 121

12/08/2017

Willing and ready (in more ways than one) to be taken advantage of.

by Anonymous

reply 122

12/08/2017

As a woman, I find the idea of a rape fantasy personally offensive.

by Anonymous

reply 123

12/08/2017

VILE and reprobate

by Anonymous

reply 124

12/09/2017

HOT!!!

by Anonymous

reply 125

12/09/2017

Heterosexuality is the systematic raping and imprisonment of women.

Heterosexual "men" are the ones who should be raped as punishment. I don't fucking care what offends oppressor classes or makes them uncomfortable. They need to pay for their crimes against humanity and corrective rapes for MRApes is a step in that direction.

by Anonymous

reply 126

12/09/2017

An eye for an eye, a tooth for a tooth, a hole for a hole.

by Anonymous

reply 127

12/09/2017

There is no such thing as "rape" or "sexual harassment" when an oppressed class turns the tables on its oppressor. Gay men have earned the right to give heterosexual males a dose of their own medicine after the way they have treated women and gay men since time immemorial.

Rape is a mechanism by which heterosexual men oppress both women by forcing sex onto them and gay men by denying us sex and projecting their rapist status onto us for expressing interest, even when seeking consent. There is no such thing as consent in a world where heterosexual men are allowed to get away with the systematic oppression of women and gay men. There are no "female rapists." There is no such thing as "gay rape." Consent is a social construct a bunch of misandrists invented to demonize male sexuality while claiming entitlement to men's bodies. Rape is a means of enforcing heterosexual male supremacy. And the only just punishment for rape is for the rapist to receive the same treatment.

by Anonymous

reply 128

12/09/2017

[quote]As a woman, I find the idea of a rape fantasy personally offensive.

Prepare to be verbally raped for posting such a message on a gay male-dominated board.

by Anonymous

reply 129

12/09/2017

As a gay man, I consider heterosexuality to be the mechanism by which rape culture is enforced. What feminists forget when condemning the patriarchy is that the patriarchy would not exist if not for the straightriarchy that gives special privileges to heterosexuals over homosexuals. Thus the only kind of sex that can ever be consensual is gay sex.

by Anonymous

reply 130

12/09/2017

[quote]There is no such thing as "rape" or "sexual harassment" when an oppressed class turns the tables on its oppressor

You, sir, are full of shit.

by Anonymous

reply 131

12/09/2017

[quote] You, sir, are full of shit.

You, r131, have got to do better than that. Why should those who deprive others of consent have it for themselves?

by Anonymous

reply 132

12/09/2017

[quote]Why should those who deprive others of consent have it for themselves?

Why don't you get a life? You choose to be a spineless worm. Try being a man for a change.

by Anonymous

reply 133

12/09/2017

Straight men don’t smell that good, I assure you.

by Anonymous

reply 134

12/09/2017

[quote]A friend of mine had a rape fantasy, and left his door unlocked one night so another friend could come over and "take" him. But when the visitor crawled into bed with him, my friend woke up, disoriented, and punched him in the face.

Omg!

by Anonymous

reply 135

12/09/2017

[quote]Try being a man for a change.

I don't have to try. I am a man. You I'm not so sure about

by Anonymous

reply 136

12/09/2017

It's instink. Alpha male, dominance, right to breed, etc.

by Anonymous

reply 137

12/09/2017

[quote] Straight men don’t smell that good, I assure you.

Can't be worse than some of the guys I've been with who actually are gay.

by Anonymous

reply 138

12/09/2017

[quote]I don't have to try. I am a man. You I'm not so sure about

You are a man who sees himself as a victim his whole life. You were born oppressed. You live oppressed. You will die oppressed. You fantasize about turning the tables on your oppressors, but you can't because they are a fantasy too.

by Anonymous

reply 139

12/09/2017

I'm a worthless f@ggot bottom. I was made to be a cumdump for STR8 MEN. I am not a man. My puny fag clit is irrelevant. My mancunt exists to be plowed by a MAN's master rod of pain and pleasure. My belly exists as a storage space for STR8 MALE piss and shit. I am a worthless spermtank, who deserves only to be queerbashed by SIR.

by Anonymous

reply 140

12/09/2017

I see R140's fantasy machine has gone into double overtime.

by Anonymous

reply 141

12/09/2017

My inferior faggot hole begs for SIR'S poz cum. A f@ggot cannot be raped. All f@ggots are open manholes. Consent is inherent in our f@ggotry. Any ALPHA MALE does not need to ask. He simply fucks the f@ggot's shit out of him. CONSENT IS A FUCKING MYTH.

by Anonymous

reply 142

12/09/2017

[QUOTE]You’re right.

by Anonymous

reply 143

12/09/2017

Any sex involving an erect male penis is RAPE!

- Andrea Dorkin talkin

by Anonymous

reply 144

12/09/2017

by Anonymous

reply 145

12/09/2017

Fred Currry is Hot

by Anonymous

reply 146

12/09/2017

OP, I'm a gay man. I've been assaulted by another gay man (he didn't succeed, though). If you've actually experienced what it's like to be assaulted, you'll never fantasize about it, again (I hope).

by Anonymous

reply 147

12/09/2017

R147 more details please.

by Anonymous

reply 148

12/09/2017

Suddenly my crush on Rick Schroder seems about 50% less pathetic.

by Anonymous

reply 149

12/09/2017

R148, I posted about this on DL already. I was in my early 20s, and accepted an invite to an older guy's home. He had a remodeled townhouse, and I really just wanted to see the house. He took me up to the third floor, and then pushed me down, and proceeded to rip open my shirt, and grab my crotch. He was a much bigger guy, and I was only able to defend myself with a well-placed knee to his crotch, and made a run down the stairs, and then had to walk home, while he kept driving around, following me, telling me to "share the hurt" with him. He kept stopping by my apartment building after that, calling me on the intercom. It was terrifying to me. Sexual assault isn't restricted to women. And I think lots of people have no idea how disorienting it can be. I wasn't raped, but I almost was.

by Anonymous

reply 150

12/09/2017

Did you marry him?

by Anonymous

reply 151

12/09/2017

As a gay man, I totally believe the other gay man's story!

by Anonymous

reply 152

12/09/2017

R151, If your question was meant for me, then NO! I later found love with a very sweet, gentle guy, although we're no longer together. There's a lot of hostility here on DL for the #metoo movement, but I just can't. If you've never experienced what it's like to be assaulted (I'm short, and probably only weighed 150 lbs at the time), the feeling of being afraid to leave your apartment is something that's very tangible, and stays with you for some time. I honestly didn't know how to react when he ripped my shirt open, but I finally reacted when he grabbed my crotch, and told me how he was going to fuck me with his big dick (I'm not a bottom).

by Anonymous

reply 153

12/09/2017

Fucking hot, R150. Was he tatted and muscled? Could you feel his rape muscles straining against your body when he had you pinned against the wall?

by Anonymous

reply 154

12/09/2017

[quote]R128 immemorial

Angela?

by Anonymous

reply 155

12/09/2017

Was fulling around with a friend who was much older and stronger. When he started to enter me, I told him that it hurts too much, and told him to “stop”! He didn’t, and held me down till he came inside me. I thought he was using a condom, but he wasn’t. I’m okay, and was able to deal with the experience, but still feel anal sex is very painful. And, I’m extremely lucky not to have a sexual disease.

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