(Original post by Anonymous)
After a few months at university I thought I'd take the plunge so to speak and start escorting. I'm not a sex addict or anything, or impovrished. i guess i just felt that I wanted to try something new and it could end up being one of those I regret not having done that. men pay £150 an hour to sleep with me.
i have a boyfriend who partially knows.
I have moral twangs. But the extra money is really useful. And i spend it all on my friends parents and boyfriend, nothing stupid on me, just treating my friends to drinks here and there and stuff.
What shall I do? I have only told my best friend at uni, and I'm strating to become more secretive and i'm having to lie to people. It's pretty stupid.
Any ideas?
Thank you.

Either you've omitted to divulge some crucial aspect of your 'job', or your boyfriend is an extraordinarily confident individual.

(Original post by grt)
Decide what's more important to you. Your job/money, or the relationship with your boyfriend. If it's the former, talk to him and see whether he's able to cope with it. If not, he probably doesn't like you too much anyway.

She's lying to him and sleeping around. I don't care how much you're in love with a girl (ho), that's betrayal pure and simple.

when your bf finds out the whole story he might not be too happy however there is the chance that he will be understanding, technically its cheating, if it makes you happy carry on with it as money is better than no money,

(Original post by Winnieee)
Don't listen to them , if you're being safe and everything then it's a perfectly legitimate way to earn money.
Don't let your morals get in the way , you're doing something that makes men happy and you're getting paid.
And I don't think it's cheating , because there's nothing emotional involved and your boyfriend, however 'partially', knows.
Power to you x

I don't think you meant to be as stupid as this sounds.
How would you like it if your boyfriend was sleeping with women for money.
"Perfectly legitimate"... It's not legitimate though is it, its illegal.
Power to her? She's being used for her body , surely by renting herself out she's diminishing her power?

(Original post by grt)
Decide what's more important to you. Your job/money, or the relationship with your boyfriend. If it's the former, talk to him and see whether he's able to cope with it. If not, he probably doesn't like you too much anyway.

Okay, this comment is a bit strange. I love my girlfriend, but if I found out she was an escort, my heart would be absolutely crushed. I wouldn't be able to get over the fact that other men were paying to use her body like that, and that she was willing. It's basically just routine cheating. Would I be expected to just accept it and get over it if I were to truly love her? I don't think I'm being immature by thinking there's something wrong with that..

But that's just me.

OP, you should make sure your boyfriend knows and understands the situation completely. If he's fine with it, that's great for you two. But he deserves to know

(Original post by theBOON)
Wait........you have sex with random strangers, and your boyfriend knows about this (I'm ready to guess he just misunderstood) just to treat your friends to drinks???????? What's wrong with you people?????

Calm down bible nut. Its her choice and the "escort buissness" can be a legit buissness, just take a look at amsterdam.

How `bouts you come of your high hourse, offer your opinion in a respectful way and back it up with valid reasons

Keep at it but tell your boyfriend. He'll find out eventually and something like this won't be easy to keep secret. Especially if a friend of his sees you with another guy. As for the escorting itself, I don;t se a problem. You get money and the men get sex. It's like any other transaction.

(Original post by Dyvaith)
Okay, this comment is a bit strange. I love my girlfriend, but if I found out she was an escort, my heart would be absolutely crushed. I wouldn't be able to get over the fact that other men were paying to use her body like that, and that she was willing. It's basically just routine cheating. Would I be expected to just accept it and get over it if I were to truly love her? I don't think I'm being immature by thinking there's something wrong with that..

But that's just me.

OP, you should make sure your boyfriend knows and understands the situation completely. If he's fine with it, that's great for you two. But he deserves to know

I see your point and I would certainly not be happy being in this situation. However, "doing it for money" is much less appalling to me than when her emotions would be involved. Spending the money for getting her friends drunk, though... well, sounds quite immature.

Besides, he does "partially" know it... probably he does know most of it, it's not too hard to figure this out.

1. I don’t think sex is immoral as long as it’s your choice.
2. The sex industry is inherently an unsafe place to work so be careful.
3. Of course I think you should be honest with your boyfriend as a formality even if you practise very safely .

(Original post by Hippopothomas)
1. I don’t think sex is immoral as long as it’s your choice.
2. The sex industry is inherently an unsafe place to work so be careful.
3. Of course I think you should be honest with your boyfriend as a formality even if you practise very safely .

(Original post by gm15)
The OP did!

No, the bit about everyone saying she should dump her boyfriend cos he's controlling

(Original post by Winnieee)
Don't listen to them , if you're being safe and everything then it's a perfectly legitimate way to earn money.
Don't let your morals get in the way , you're doing something that makes men happy and you're getting paid.And I don't think it's cheating , because there's nothing emotional involved and your boyfriend, however 'partially', knows.
Power to you x