I understand wanting an R-rated Wolverine flick
It's just never gunna happen.

With that said, I think it rather uncool that so many people are now scoffing at those who would prefer a harder film.
Back before Origins, everyone was all "hey, maybe they'll give us the R Wolvie flick we've been waiting for since X-Men 1!"

and now its "psssh, what're you stupid? It's never gunna happen, and it's totally not necessary, Nolan-Batman, raar!..."