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She gives her number but doesnt answer.

2007-10-26, 08:15 PM

Ok here's the situation. I met this girl at a bar, made small talk and got her phone number and email. Called a few days later and lef a message but no reply. sent email as well and still no reply. Obviously she wasnt interested. However i was at the same bar last night and saw the same. I didnt approach her and kind of ignored her. Should i have talked to her, chatted a bit, maybe a smile...at least acknowledged her? and why did she give me her number if she never intended to answer. Its a college town and i'm sure i will be running into her regularly. Just want to know what to do for next time.

There could be reasons why she has not called or emailed back other than she's not interested but I would bet that it's more likely that "she's just not that into you". I probably wouldn't go out of my way to talk to her again but no harm in smiling if you happen to meet again accidentally. I think avoiding or ignoring her would signal that you have hurt feelings (which I wouldn't want anyone to notice) but you don't need to spend any more time putting effort her way.

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Why would you want to acknowledge her? She obviously has no imagination to think of a half-decent excuse that won't waste your time, not that you need much imagination, but the type of girls you'd meet in a bar aren't usually even that bright...

If you want to have some fun with it, ask her why she never replied, then enjoy watching her sweat.

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Walk up to her and say that you are really sorry for not making it the other night. Either that or say the other night was awesome, were you really that drunk or were you faking it?? make sure you do this in front of her friends of course.