I don’t like to dance, so I’m going to be biased, but personally I hate where there is a DJ and dance/techno/pop music, because there is basically nothing else to do beside hitting the dancefloor, or leave early (the option I choose).

A live band or jazz music is what I prefer, but it’s a totally different type of evening. Maybe swing music if you want people to dance ?

Many people enjoy the DJ and will tell you the playlist is what’s make it or break it. I’m aware I’m part of a minority who simply don’t like DJ/clubbing music in a wedding, at all.