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I definitely mourned when my husband got a vasectomy. It was very sad for me because I would have had more children but I also knew we couldn't afford any more. It should be sad, it's an ending to a big part of your life. You should also think of it as a celebration to a new beginning. :)

Even with my husband having a vasectomy almost 3 yrs ago I'm still pregnant with twins. You can always be a surrogate :)

You got pregnant with twins after his vasectomy?!?! I could never be a surrogate. He said he would consider adoption later.

Quoting Sarah725:

I definitely mourned when my husband got a vasectomy. It was very sad for me because I would have had more children but I also knew we couldn't afford any more. It should be sad, it's an ending to a big part of your life. You should also think of it as a celebration to a new beginning. :)

Even with my husband having a vasectomy almost 3 yrs ago I'm still pregnant with twins. You can always be a surrogate :)

My husbands consult is next month. It makes me very sad. I really want 1 more but it isn't going to happen for us and I am hating my current bc. When I get sad about it I remind myself how blessed I am to have the 2 that I do have and I try to be grateful. But still like PP said it is the end of something so I think it is normal for it to be a little sad.

:( I have 4, so many people think I was crazy to have that many to begin with, let alone want more someday.

Quoting LaideBug:

My husbands consult is next month. It makes me very sad. I really want 1 more but it isn't going to happen for us and I am hating my current bc. When I get sad about it I remind myself how blessed I am to have the 2 that I do have and I try to be grateful. But still like PP said it is the end of something so I think it is normal for it to be a little sad.

Quoting Precious333: You got pregnant with twins after his vasectomy?!?! I could never be a surrogate. He said he would consider adoption later.

Quoting Sarah725:

I definitely mourned when my husband got a vasectomy. It was very sad for me because I would have had more children but I also knew we couldn't afford any more. It should be sad, it's an ending to a big part of your life. You should also think of it as a celebration to a new beginning. :)

Even with my husband having a vasectomy almost 3 yrs ago I'm still pregnant with twins. You can always be a surrogate :)

No permanent BC here, so no mourning.
My husband would rather have 10 children than ever get a vasectomy, so if anything permanent is ever done, it'll be up to me. But I think it's fine to be done and not do anything permanent. Who knows, when I'm 39 I might suddenly decide I need one more before it's too late!

Quoting Precious333: You got pregnant with twins after his vasectomy?!?! I could never be a surrogate. He said he would consider adoption later.

Quoting Sarah725:

I definitely mourned when my husband got a vasectomy. It was very sad for me because I would have had more children but I also knew we couldn't afford any more. It should be sad, it's an ending to a big part of your life. You should also think of it as a celebration to a new beginning. :)

Even with my husband having a vasectomy almost 3 yrs ago I'm still pregnant with twins. You can always be a surrogate :)

No permanency here. We discussed it before we got married and I told him, I could never do anything to permanently prevent us from having children. 3 children later and feeling like we are one, I still feel the same way. I thought I was done after two and about 3 years later decided I wanted one more, so we tried for one more and 3 years later, had another.

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