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Tong Balm

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Our top-performing male delay cream!

Extend your love-making as long as you want!

“It really works. Bottom line. I've been lasting longer than I ever thought possible. 40 minutes to an hour. I can finish when I want with a little concentration, & when I do finish, it's really intense. This is the best product of this type that my wife & I have ever purchased.” –Adam & Eve customer

Forget all the mumbo-jumbo talk about special ingredients and secret Asian formulas passed down for centuries. Adam & Eve customers have been using Tong Balm for decades, and that’s the only endorsement that really matters. If Tong Balm didn’t work, then we would have stopped selling it years ago!

• Enhances your sensations instead of numbing or desensitizing• Boosts muscle control so you can orgasm when you want to• Follow the directions closely for best results• Apply to your tip once an hour for three hours before sex• Becomes more effective the longer you use it• Results may vary depending on a number of factors

Most products claiming to delay ejaculation work by desensitizing or numbing the nerves in the penis, but Tong Balm actually enhances your sensation. Instead, the cream delays your ejaculation by increasing your self control. By enhancing and improving your muscular control, Tong Balm lets you exercise a new level of control over your orgasm. You’ll be able to fully satisfy your partner, improve your relationship, and never be called a “minute man” again. Tong Balm lets you climax when you want to… not before and not after.

For best results, you need to closely follow the directions included with your order. As a general outline, you start by placing a small dab of Tong balm underneath the tip of the penis three hours before sex. Apply another small dab two hours before sex and a third dab one hour before sex.

The key to using Tong Balm is to apply a very small amount at a time. If you apply too much, the product won’t work. Proper use of Tong Balm requires some experimentation, so don’t be discouraged if your first results aren’t what you expected. On the positive side, Tong Balm becomes more and more effective the longer you use it so your experiments will prove beneficial in the long run.

Please note that results of Tong Balm may vary depending on the user’s physical condition, body chemistry and other factors.

Tong Balm comes in a small plastic case with pop-on lid. Don’t be discouraged by the size – the case contains enough cream for dozens of applications and hours of steamy sex!

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MICHAEL

Good Points+

works EXACTLY as described

Bad Points−

be careful as to not apply too much. thought i was gonna have to give up after 1 1/2 hours and still couldn't reach climax. a VERY thin application once an hr 3x before action is too much,also slight burning but, no big deal

Here's a list of the questions other shoppers have asked owners of the Tong Balm Orgasm Control

Jake asked on September 08 2016

I'm considering purchasing this product and I wanted to know if anyone had any issues using it with condoms? (particularly non-latex)

CHARLES replied on September 09 2016

It is safe with condone even non latex.

Dennis asked on September 06 2016

Can a woman ingest this product, i.e.: in giving head?

KEVIN replied on September 06 2016

No let it sit for 2hrs and wash it ,but it will take you longer to orgasm

JAMES replied on September 07 2016

no, I apply earlier prior to oral activity, and also my partner uses the strawberry flavored lube while being involved.

Jim asked on September 06 2016

Can this be used with a lubricant? Please let me know! Thank You

JC replied on September 07 2016

Yes it can. Im a new user of the product and im sold. Wife actually asked for mercy. Remember, a tiny dab will do the trick. Follow the directions! And lots of lube, she,ll thank you for it.

MICHAEL replied on September 07 2016

I believe it would be fine because you apply a small to scant amount to the underside of the foreskin area several hours before your Incounter. Then again three hours later and then again a few hours before you have your intercourse.remember just a small amount each time you apply. if you have a foreskin the location would be were you can pull the skin back as far a you can, only put it on the outside of the foreskin.So there is nothing left after it absorbs into the penis.

Ryan asked on June 24 2016

Is this safe to use without a condom?

GARY replied on June 24 2016

Yes..in my personal experience I use it without a condom. This product works great but you can't over do it..too much and your completely numb..A++++ product.

Confirmed purchaser replied on June 24 2016

Yes, as long as your last application is done an hour before. There might be an issue with the taste from your partner during oral sex.

Wade asked on May 23 2016

Can you this stuff as a daily regime start in the morning and apply every 2 hrs even if u don't plan on have sex that night

D. replied on May 23 2016

The instuctional print out says nothing about using Tong Balm daily but it does recommend "experimenting with it while remembering to apply only small amounts." Personally, I have found using it at 2 hour intervals throughout the day that sex is anticipated works well.

Jam asked on May 17 2016

How does this taste?

Alex replied on May 18 2016

Never tasted it but the old lady doesn't seem to mind.

Nick asked on April 26 2016

If I'm going to use this and i know that she's going to perform oral before we have sex, should I just wash off the Tong Balm really quick right before we get into it so that she wouldn't have to taste it or would it get rid of the effect of the balm?

SHELLEY replied on April 27 2016

We leave it on, it doesn't taste bad. I don't know about washing it off, if that would change the effect or not. So unless you don't want her to know you are using it I would leave it on. It has a taste but its no worse than a lot of lubes. Hope this helps!

Nick asked on April 26 2016

Should I use this if she is going to perform oral before we actually have sex?

DUSTIN replied on April 26 2016

Ya its fine this product has very specific instructions like use a small dab 2 hours before intercourse and honestly this product done nothing for me maybe its time release who knows i just dont have the paitence for it. But to answer ur question if applyied like the instructions say she wont know its there.

David replied on April 26 2016

Follow the directions. I can't say that enough. As for oral sex if applied correctly she will never know its there.

ROBERTO replied on April 26 2016

My wife tried it once and said the flavor was terrible. Even though you cannot see any balm in your penis, I guess it still leaves a nasty taste. I don't mind not getting oral when I use it though, the fact that I can go longer and make her orgasm is satisfying enough. I hope it helps