“As dining out has become one of our national pastimes, solo diners are taking every opportunity to visit top restaurants whenever they get the opportunity, much as they might attend a sporting event or show,” said Potter. “Solo dining is about treating yourself to a delicious experience and savoring every bite. From communal and counter seating to doting table service, restaurants are welcoming parties of one with open arms.”

So in many cases, it’s more a celebration of “Treat Yo Self” than “I got nowhere else to go.” And if you’re wondering what U.S. cities are really going for it with eating alone, these are the top metropolitan areas that have seen the strongest growth in dining solo (in order):