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14
• The physical reaction you have when you are
in love.
Sometimes it's the physical tingling feelings,
the heaviness in your heart when you are
away from your loved one; the smile that in-
voluntarily brightens your face at the sight or
sound of your loved one. That first date feeling
you get, each and every time you hear the
locks turn at the door... signaling the arrival of
your partner after a day apart.
• Emotional wellbeing.
The light heartedness that washes over you
when you are around the person you love. The
security you feel no matter what the situation;
knowing "this too shall pass," no matter the
situation, you can weather the storm together.
• A mutual feeling of not being able to
imagine life without the other.
Knowing no matter what, you will not be hap-
pier without him or her.
• The ability to verbalize feelings of love in
your head into action.
The ability to share the love you feel and feel
secure in the response you receive from your
loved one.
• You maintain, as your personal mission
statement, your commitment to building
and maintaining trust.
Trust can be developed over time, coming to
maturity during the course of the relationship.
Say I do to maintaining unconditional trust and
nurturing the conditions to facilitate trust.
The foundation of the house of love is built on
the pillars of trust and honesty.
Remember, you do, you can and you will, no
matter the challenges of this fulfilling experi-
ence, survive if you remember the aforemen-
tioned guidelines. As you develop your unique
language of love, so too will you develop the
couple's language of healing if you should need
it.
Sherry Jerimie LCSW-R, MS
Psychoanalyst / Psychotherapist
www.riesolve.com
www.sherryjerimie.com
Say I do, to long lasting and fulfilling love.
It is an experience unlike no other. Long
lasting love and affection is possible in
the light of statistical data, past hurts
and the incessant horror stories of girl-
friends. Love, seemingly different for
many couples, all have similar character-
istics. The question may present itself in
different forms: How did you know
he/she was the one? How did you know
you were in love? What made this one
different? All the above asks the ques-
tion in different ways: how can we tell,
can you give us some advice about how I
will know I am in love? Well here are a
few components of love.
Say I do to maintaining
unconditional trust and
nurturing the conditions
to facilitate trust.