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Marital rape/sending your husband to jail...

Posted by Anonymous

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Do you believe in it?

I heard of a case here through a friend yesterday. A lady she knows is married to a guy who is well known in the community, by all accounts a good dad. He went out for his younger brother's birthday and came home drunk. He shook her awake to have sex when he got home and she said no, rolled over to go back to sleep. He got into bed waited til he thought she was asleep and had sex with her. She tried to push him off and said stop, he grabbed her wrist. When he was done, she called the police on him. He was arrested, and her bruised wrist/rape kit will be used against him.

She kicked him out, the kids all know their dad was arrested (and will now know one day what for...), he's going to lose his job and it's a huge mess.

Idk, he's a huge jerk for what he did, but part of me thinks this is a huge overreaction and will bite her in the butt for hurting her kids. I never say no to my husband and I wouldn't care if he had sex with me while I slept, so this doesn't seem like rape to me, and I have a hard time imagining how a husband can rape.

I think that unless it happened to me, I can't really judge.
No means no. What other people perceive as his character and what actually happens behind closed doors can be so completely opposite.
Marital rape is absolutely real.

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