Hi, guys! So you want to ask her out but you are afraid she will say no. So what if she does? She is not the only girl in the world and every time you ask someone out, it gets easier and easier. Go on! Just do it. The more you think about it the more fear you will feel. Are you going to let fear rule your life?

Well, maybe you could try to advance the "friendship" a little without tipping your hand, and possibly spoiling a good friend relationship. I would suggest that you figure out some activity that she would love, and then arrange a group date, or double date, with friends. Then think long and hard on how you can ask her to go with you without it sounding like a date. Then, go for it! Also, small impersonal but thoughtful gifts, like a book or CD you think she might like. If you never make at least a tiny move, you will never know if she might just like you back in the same way. Love is a risk, yes, but then, so is life! You have to try to reach for your own happiness, no one will hand it to you. You just will have to figure out the best way to reach for it!!! Good luck._________________Lookin' for love? This imaginative and innovative website will help you find... and keep... true love! http://www.findlove-keeplove.com

[quote:7f7eb8eb2b]A friend like the one ive known for eighty percent of my life... if the feeling isnt mutual u could lose a friend or they may be uncomfortable around u. [/quote:7f7eb8eb2b]

I can agree with this - it happened to me the last time I asked my mate out (about a year ago). It got really uncomfortable so I built the friendship back up again, that's why I was so reluctant to ask him out again, when I thought he liked me. Surprisingly though, his confidence has changed so much in the last year, and we're back to our old selves - it does make things uncomfortable for a while, but sometimes you [i:7f7eb8eb2b]can[/i:7f7eb8eb2b] return to being mates really quick

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I have the same problem
Extremely close friends i really fancy and think of something more but i just dont think she sees it like that
and its kinda hard to ask her[/quote:a151ad00b2]

If you feel that she doesn't share the same feelings, then I would advise against telling her. Alot of people that come on here seeking advice about a friend, they think many times by their actions that the friend might like them, so most times I say to ask them. In your case since you feel the opposite from her, then maybe just continue to be her friend. Who knows what might happen later on._________________[img:c4d72b828f]http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v70/DJohnson/417563mxeyw1r5ja.gif[/img:c4d72b828f]