Wondering what women hate in men

November 26th, 2011 admin

Wondering what women hate in men? Find out the 2 misconceptions that really annoy women.

1. A man doesn’t need a woman, she needs him.

This is another exaggerated rule that is usually given to nice guys because of their inability to stand up for themselves. A real man is confident enough not to cling to a woman for guidance and leadership. The man is usually expected to take the dominant role of the relationship and provides support and stability for the woman. How can a woman feel secure if the man is not secure enough to hold his own weight? A man who begs for a woman’s good graces is showing himself to be weak and dependent upon someone else. Definitely a follower, not the attractive alpha male you’ve been reading about. That said, there is some truth in the idea that a man should never elevate his relationship above all other good things in life. What if the relationship breaks up? What if the partner dies? What if the mate is unfaithful? Do you need your relationship so badly that you would cease to live if it suddenly ended? For your own sake, the answer should be no.

2. A man must seek out sexual experience and avoid commitment.

This is obviously a myth, as there have been many men that have married as virgins and become dedicated husbands. However, such an attitude could coincide with the rule of attraction. If a man appears to be successful with women (and has lots of ex-girlfriends) doesn’t this prove him to be an alpha male, and one very attractive to others? Possibly, at least on an instinctual level. Women may be interested to know what about the man others find so irresistible. At the same time, they may be nervous about a man who has never dated before, presumably because she will have to guide him through the process. So will women go crazy for a guy who has great “credentials?” Some will, others will not. The only thing that is for certain is that both experienced and inexperienced lovers will come with their own set of problems. This rule is meaningless. If you want a lot of experience, then go get some. If you want to find love then look only for love.