What you're both missing is that anyone who would want to marry an AI robot is facked in the head, so what does it really matter in the grand scheme of things? A maladjusted individual that can't handle dating or socializing builds a machine for sex and companionship.... who cares? Why would you even debate whether his device is a wife or a child??? Doesn't strike me as a dangerous person, so let him do whatever the hell he wants. Arguing the semantics of what he did kinda brings you down to his level of crazy, why are you so concerned about it?