A new barrel racing season is under way and “inner perfectionists” everywhere (who may have been laying low throughout the winter months) are rearing their ugly heads!

No, it ain’t pretty. And when it happens, our riding sessions and our runs aren’t likely to be either. Unfortunately, the damaging effects of having unrealistically high expectations of ourselves and our horses go well beyond the arena.

It’s not that being a perfectionist is necessarily a bad thing, but it’s easy to take it too far.

If you can relate to any of the statements below, you might be a perfectionist.

You suffer from “paralysis by analysis” and hesitate, question or second-guess yourself.

You ride just a little bit different in public then you do at home.

You compare yourself and your achievements to other barrel racers.

You prefer to ride alone verses in a group.

You’re either quick to point out your flaws, OR you rarely, if ever admit to them.

You get extremely nervous before a run.

Thoughts of what you said, did, or how you performed consume your mind.

Your riding at speed lacks fluidity; having good timing is challenging.

You make assumptions about what other people think of you, assuming it’s negative.

Competition triggers an unexpected and unpleasant roller coaster of emotions.

You expect a lot from your horses and tend to over work, train or drill them.

You put unrealistically high demands on yourself to perform well.

You have a hard time receiving criticism or get emotional when you do.

Sometimes you find it hard to find the motivation to really focus on your barrel racing.

You’d rather avoid situations where you’re the central focus of other people’s attention.

You safety up or hesitate to “leave it all in the arena” in a competitive run.

You find preparing yourself and your horse for competition to be stressful.

You’ve been working hard for years, but still haven’t achieved your barrel racing goals.

Perfection is an impossible goal.

The desperate drive to be PERFECT is not just crippling, it’s also very common.

It’s no wonder barrel racers succumb to this because for many of us, our livelihoods, at least in part, depend on how we perform. Not only does a portion of our income depend on our results, but so does our reputation, which has the power to dramatically impact our success in the barrel racing business.

Outside of that, it’s simply human nature to want the approval of others.

From the beginning of time our brains have been wired to seek acceptance. In caveman days, anyone who was not part of “the tribe” wasn’t likely to survive. Although a sense of belonging is still very important for overall health and well-being, the primal part of our mind that once worked in our favor isn’t quite as necessary now that we’re no longer risking life and limb just to see the next sunrise.

The overwhelming feeling that we NEED to win OR ELSE can seem very real, no doubt. However, it’s one thing to strive for perfection, and yet another thing entirely to convince ourselves that we HAVE TO achieve it.

Extreme pressure to perform well tends to bring out the worst in humans. Depending in large part on our innate personality characteristics, we’ll tend to handle it in one of two ways – either we’ll over-do or under-do. Either our “inner perfectionist” will bring out the predator in us wanting to over-ride and make things happen with our horses, OR we may start to feel hopeless, lose steam, and skip riding all together.

Whether we tend to morph into overdrive or retreat into the shadows, the truth is that our extreme “need” to be perfect isn’t entirely based on reality, and it certainly isn’t healthy.

Let’s face it – horses don’t respond well to fear and intimidation and they certainly aren’t going to prepare themselves to run barrels. On top of that, the emotional state that overwhelming perfectionism contributes to isn’t exactly conducive to winning.

Underneath the symptoms mentioned above, extreme perfectionism is simply a form of FEAR. It’s not a superficial or obvious “I’m scared of the dark” fear, but a deep subconscious type of fear. It’s essentially based on an unhealthy desire to perform based on reasoning that’s skewed.

It’s not so much that we feel as though we HAVE to perform well, it’s that we’re terrified of NOT performing well. When our perfectionism reaches this level, we’re driven by avoidance vs. desire.

“Confidence comes not from always being right but from not fearing being wrong.” – Peter McIntyre

Commit to competing wholeheartedly.

The fear of failing has the absolute power to HALT barrel racing success. You may or may not literally blank out or freeze up, but you will tend to hold back. You’ll hesitate, sometimes subconsciously or ever so slightly – just enough for you to continue wondering WHY you keep spinning your wheels.

If you enter a barrel race already questioning your ability and lacking self-confidence, then the reality of a poor performance, which matches your existing thoughts and feelings, is terrifying proof that your beliefs may be true! When our mind spins out of control in this way, more often than not we become a self-fulfilling prophecy.

Because our fear is in large part created by our experiences and then the stories we’ve repeatedly told ourselves, dissolving it is possible in much the same way.

To free yourself from the trap of perfectionism, it’s important first and foremost to acknowledge it, and then take intentional action.

It’s helpful to understand WHY we have these tendencies, which I’ve shared above. The next step is to take a look under the layers of your specific perfectionistic tendencies, which provide additional guidance for moving forward.

Are you driven by a desire to be respected and look good in the eyes of others?

Are you driven by a need to stay financially afloat? Perhaps both?

Is it possible that you don’t have a firm enough foundation of self-confidence?

Is barrel racing actually a ‘search for significance’ for you?

What’s REALLY underneath your desire to be perfect?

What’s underneath even further?

Be honest.

This varies a bit with each individual. Just like when we find resistance in our horses, when we come across a feeling pointing to something in our own emotional foundation being amiss, we can’t avoid it or put a band-aid over it – we need to identify it, dig in, work through and dissolve it. It doesn’t do us any good to sweep it under the rug.

In cases of fear, simply continuing to stretch oneself – to just keep entering anyway is a good start. But this isn’t the be-all end-all. Sometimes overcoming perfectionism isn’t that easy, sometimes it requires some heavy duty inner work.

After all, what happens in the arena isn’t only about the obvious things you can see. So much of our success depends on our mental game, our emotional fitness – the stuff you can’t always see, but you can certainly FEEL and has a HUGE impact on our results.

The most important step in the process of overcoming perfectionism comes by simply being reminded of the TRUTH. Writer, researcher, and educator Brené Brown sums it up so well that I’ve shared several of her quotes below…

“Sufficiency isn’t two steps up from poverty or one step short of abundance. It isn’t a measure of barely enough or more than enough. Sufficiency isn’t an amount at all. It is an experience, a context we generate, a declaration, a knowing that there is enough, and that we are enough.”

“Perfectionism is self destructive simply because there’s no such thing as perfect. Perfection is an unattainable goal.”

Significance is not found through barrel racing.

“Healthy striving is self-focused: ‘How can I improve,’ Perfectionism is other-focused: ‘What will they think.'”

“If we can’t stand up to the ‘never good enough’ and ‘who do you think you are?’ we can’t move forward.”

“Worthiness doesn’t have prerequisites.”

“Wholehearted living is about engaging with our lives from a place of worthiness. It means cultivating the courage, compassion and connection to wake up in the morning and think, ‘No matter what gets done and how much is left undone, I am enough.’ It’s going to bed at night thinking, ‘Yes, I am imperfect and vulnerable and sometimes afraid, but that doesn’t change the truth that I am also brave and worthy of love and belonging.”

“When we can let go of what other people think and own our story, we gain access to our worthiness—the feeling that we are enough just as we are and that we are worthy of love and belonging.”

What it comes down to, is that we are ALL enough just because we ARE, not because of what we DO. No level of achievement in the arena is going to make us more worthy as human beings.

Even NFR barrel racers have extremely disappointing runs. Barrel racing is much too humbling (for everyone) to let perfectionism hold us back. Failure is only feedback. When something doesn’t go well, it’s just a temporary indicator that we need to make an adjustment (which may require outer work as well), but it’s not a permanent reflection of our ability, or our horse’s.

A foundation of confidence must be developed and exist independently of our performance, or the inevitable lows we experience will have a way of keeping us low and bringing us even lower, which isn’t sustainable.

If you must concern yourself with the opinions of others, make it that of your Creator – the one who created you to be perfect in His eyes just as you are, and secondly – your horse! When you know you are enough, and strive to do good in their eyes, and use that as your gauge, success will be the inevitable result.

Even in times of perceived failure, there are great victories to be celebrated. It all depends on how you look at it.

I certainly admit to not being perfect. In fact, my writing contains typos! But I’m doing the work God put me on this Earth to do, which is to achieve high level barrel racing success and help others do the same.

I plan to keep reaching for perfection, knowing that the only healthy way to do so is by also acknowledging that “PERFECT” an illusion.

At the end of the day, know what matters most.

If I never feel the fear of imperfection come up, it’s probably a sign that I’m not venturing far enough outside of my comfort zone, but it’s also likely that I need to return to or dive even deeper into special resources that remind me of the TRUTH, which I love doing every morning with inspirational reading.

It’s a fear-filled world we live in. Doing big things and putting ourselves out there requires us to continuously strengthen our inner foundation.

My morning reading is an absolutely crucial, non-negotiable part of my day that helps me stay centered. It’s a way to constantly remind myself of the perspectives and truths that can be so easy to forget.

Barrel racers in general are very driven individuals.

I know I’ll continue to push myself to be the very best, but I am committed to doing so for the right reasons – not out of fear of lack, or because I feel I have to prove myself, or to fill an inner void, but to refine and express gratitude for the gifts, passions and talents I’ve been given.

When the reason WHY we push ourselves is in alignment we’ll have balance, peace and success. This doesn’t mean there won’t be challenges, hard work, and moments of fear, but that we won’t allow fear to hold us back.

“Perfectionism is not the same thing has striving to be your best. Perfectionism is the belief that if we live perfect, look perfect, and act perfect, we can minimize or avoid the pain of blame, judgment, and shame. It’s a shield. It’s a twenty-ton shield that we lug around thinking it will protect us when, in fact, it’s the thing that’s really preventing us from flight.” – Brené Brown

So do you tend to over-do or under-do as a ‘barrel racing perfectionist?’

Are YOU ready to drop the shield of perfectionism and let your barrel horse FLY?

https://www.barrelracingtips.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/06/barrelracingtips.png00Heather Smithhttps://www.barrelracingtips.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/06/barrelracingtips.pngHeather Smith2014-05-20 01:00:172018-09-08 23:53:03Freedom to RUN – How to Prevent Perfectionism from Slowing You Down

Good morning Heather, I have more of these symptoms than a little bit. I have never thought of my self as a perfectionist though. I always thought it was feeling like I was less than enough. I am happy to know that isn’t the case. I also know there is a fine line between being confident and being over confident when you run down the alley. I have seen and have been guilty of over riding my horse I think in trying to overcome the nerviousness behind the arena. I will now work on this in a positive way.

I think being a perfectionist would actually be a symptom of not feeling ‘good enough,’ which then causes us to either do too much or retreat because we feel we can’t be perfect. The key is to change how we’re thinking by intentionally exposing ourselves to resources that remind us of “the truth!” The stories we tell ourselves in our minds are largely B.S. 😉 Glad you enjoyed this one, Pamela!

I never thought I was a perfectionist, but a lot of what you described it me to a T. I give up because I feel like I’m not good enough, I won’t go ride because what’s the point, I don’t enter because I get so nervous. I’ve always thought of myself as not good enough. I’ve been trying to work on these things, and I am better than I was…but I have a long way to go I know.

I can relate Sandra! My husband is one who tends to find a lot of other things to keep himself busy instead of diving into something he’s not sure he’ll be successful with. He’s very confident and talented as a roper but certain areas of horsemanship are new and challenging to him, and avoidance becomes an easier route than failure. But the truth is that it just doesn’t matter if we mess up, we have to keep trying – it’s the only way to learn and grow! We just have to be aware and willing to keep learning and making adjustments as we go whenever something isn’t working.

Heather,
Thanks so much for posting this! So much of your
article is ME! I had never really put a name on it, much
less tell anyone. Now tho I can start praying an working
on this, an I think I’m really relieved to finally have
a place to start! I been riding horses an training most
of my life, an n the last 10-15 years more training
than competing. Well The Lord started me on a
new journey 2 years ago with a new horse an
your articles have been the bomb!!! Thanks again

You’re so welcome Jerilyn. I wouldn’t be able to write all about this if I hadn’t experienced the pain of perfectionism an shakey self-confidence myself. Just know that TONS of barrel racers deal with this – you’re not alone! I’m glad to shine light on the subject to help people dissolve blocks in the way of success – this is a BIG one.

For me, my perfectionist tendencies were ruling my life. Not only did my obsession with doing everything perfect- with being perfect- affect my barrel racing, it affected how I performed at school. It affected how I acted. After growing up thinking that’s just how I was, I finally had went through enough mental breakdowns that I agreed to see my school counciler. He then directed me to my doctor. I wasn’t just obsessed with perfection or overreacting to nerves: my doctor diagnosed me with anxiety disorder. He told me that what I was experiencing before I competed were panic attacks.
Several months later and a low dose anxiety medication, I can now control my nerves and overanxious mind. Competing and riding in front of others is still a struggle and there are times where I still want to run off, but now I can overcome my perfectionist desires and understand that it is ok to not do everything perfectly. When the desire to be perfect and the fear of failure takes over your life, sometimes the deep roots of the issue are much bigger than just being “nervous.”

Thanks for sharing Ashley! I agree, we have to take appropriate action based on our situation. Sounds like you’re on the right track!
I took an online course a few years ago that was VERY helpful for me. Will post the link in case there are others who might benefit – http://www.InnerMeanGirl.com

Hi Heather,
Thank you so much for this great article, it has helped me understand myself better! I have almost everyone of these symptoms and I never really thought of it as you have describe. I got a new horse and I love him to death but i often feel inadequate to be riding him. He has the potential to be a great horse but I felt like im not good enough for him mainly because i know what other people are thinking. I want to be a faster more competitive rider but it just always seemed like I was too stupid to get the job done. But now I have your article to help my realize my issue and work through it. Thank you so very much!

Remember Jessie – you do not know what other people are thinking! Catch yourself before you ‘go there’ and make that assumption, which is part of putting the brakes on this cycle. The real problem in these cases is how we feel about ourselves. When we get that part right, other people won’t tend think less of us, and if or when they do – it won’t matter!
I’m glad to have facilitated some light bulb moments – it’s upward and onward from here! 😉

I have had these problems my whole riding career. I have worked my horse with a goal of barrel racing for three years but have only actually entered 5 or 6 races. I have a lot of work ahead, but its comforting to know that its not just me and I will be able to overcome it with positive mental training. Thanks for posting!

You’re so welcome Jamie, glad it was helpful! Another thing to check out is Brene Brown’s life class. I don’t know when it will run again, but here’s a link where you can sign up for updates – Gifts of Imperfection eCourse

Wow Heather, this article describes me to a T. I actually work myself up to the point that I don’t want to run. I take something that is enjoyable and exciting and make it miserable. I am so glad to see I am not the only one, and I need to learn to control this urge and just enjoy the ride. Thank you for sharing.

I had the same thing happened to me a few years ago Ashley. I went to the doctor for another reason and we talked about my new nerve problem and the same thing was happening to me. Gave me a mild med which helped, but I have another problem that I have tried so many things to overcome. I am looking DOWN the whole run. Thank God I have a horse that runs great but my question is does anyone else have this problem. This happened before I went to the doctor by the way.

Hi Sam, I have noticed that in the beginning stages we tend to want to look down, especially at the barrel, otherwise we just don’t know what it is. As we progress, we tend to get a peripheral “feel” for things. The same idea applies to dribbling a basketball, typing on a keyboard, or knowing what diagonal we are posting the trot – we want to LOOK with our eyes when we haven’t yet developed the “feel.” Keep consciously concentrating on keeping your eyes up, or even remind yourself to keep your “chin up,” and in time it will become habit!

Heather,
Much needed article as usual! I struggled with the approval of others until recently. I grew up showing horses where things really did have to “appear” perfect. Then I fell in with a VERY critical barrel horse trainer. Anyways…what I have FINALLY realized is no one that is watching really cares. They are there for thier own run. I run in Colorado and many jackpots have PRCA girls (Brittany Pozzi, Sherry Cervi, etc). I have seen them have bad runs…they are there to season horses too…imagine the pressure they feel! I’ve also found that watching others (especially before my run) affects my own mental state. Now I just hang out with my horse until I run. Your articles have helped my mental game hugely!!! You helped me by answering my question with the “hot to trot” article. The patience I had to have with her helped my mental game more than anything. I keep reality in check and don’t strive for perfection, just strive for our best. Most of all, once I stopped expecting perfection my horse started to perform. I don’t like feeling like I can’t meet high expectations so why would my horse like it? When she tries, I’m happy.

Way to go Heather! I’m so proud of you, you are SO on the right track… let go of the perfect end results and in the process they come together even better than when you’re trying to “make” things happen!
I too have seen MANY NFR barrel racers fall off, have run aways, etc. – you name it… if they can recover and keep going, so can we. Our sport is way to humbling to think that one bad showing is going to ruin our reputation or future in the business, and it certainly is not a reflection of our worth.
Mistakes mean we are out there trying and learning, only a temporary indicator that an adjustment is necessary, nothing to obsess over or dwell on.
Keep up the GREAT work!

Thank you for another great article. I needed this this morning after a weekend filled with great and not so great performances by ME. Thanks for sharing your insight and knowledge always at the perfect time for me. God bless you!

Another great article, that felt “meant” for me! As someone who didn’t grow up in the horse world and started riding at a later age, I am constantly striving to “keep up” with people who have done this their whole life. Instead of realizing how far I’ve come in training my own horses and even rehab-ing problem horses, I constantly see what I’m not good enough at. I could show up and within minutes have myself talked out of entering. So, as you said, right now I am entering as much as possible and just trying to get comfortable going and learning to enjoy my horses and the process 🙂 Thanks again!

I think you seriously read my mind. I am the worst about this. I expect perfection from myself because, if I don’t I feel like I’ve disappointed myself grandparents (who actually own my horses). They’ve always just given everything to me and I never felt as if I deserved it because I never have been able to win it back. I’ve been running this mare for a bout a year now. She is so nice and so close, but me and my perfectionist self are holding her back. I’ve been working hard to allow her to do the work and let it be ok when her steps aren’t 110% perfect. I really needed this Heather. Thanks a million.

Hi Heather
A Big 3 day Barrel Race is coming up I’m so excited finally it’s here ! All the excitement is in the air it’s a big race 300 plus. Day one, I had a good run but I watched my video and had to tweak how I was using my hands and not to be to nervous, and need to kick more! Day two, I’m going to have a better run hopefully faster and my hands need to stay down!I think I’m going to get sick with nerves I’m making sure i take deep breaths, focusing on my pocket. Had a good run still wasn’t fast enough. Watched my video what is the matter I’m thinking? My time is awful I’ve done better my horse is to small wish he was taller… what do I need to work on I’m thinking to myself. Day 3, I really calmed down wasn’t so nervous had a good run,almost the same time I had on day 2. My Friends said Great run! but inside I’m saying not really.. I ended up feeling very sad because I didnt win that check. Why is that? Once you win a check it seams I always want one.? Is that just me or other Barrel Racers think the same way? Thank You for your thoughts!
Sandra

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"It was great to visit with you for the video coaching… I started using the exercise you recommended for linking his hind end to his brain. We had an OUTSTANDING weekend and earned State Championships in both the Open 1D and the Masters (rider over 40), also in the 1D." – Michelle B.

5.0

2018-12-28T12:49:02+00:00

"It was great to visit with you for the video coaching… I started using the exercise you recommended for linking his hind end to his brain. We had an OUTSTANDING weekend and earned State Championships in both the Open 1D and the Masters (rider over 40), also in the 1D." – Michelle B.

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"It was our best weekend ever! We had been having problems with getting by the first barrel in the big outdoor pens, and we cranked it every run… just wanted to say a big thank you for your help!" - Michelle B.

5.0

2018-12-28T12:49:44+00:00

"It was our best weekend ever! We had been having problems with getting by the first barrel in the big outdoor pens, and we cranked it every run… just wanted to say a big thank you for your help!" - Michelle B.

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You approach has helped our performance!

This is exactly what I needed!!! Thank you for sharing your incredible tips and expertise in such an approachable and passionate way. You approach has helped our performance!- Tara L.

5.0

2018-09-12T18:14:41+00:00

This is exactly what I needed!!! Thank you for sharing your incredible tips and expertise in such an approachable and passionate way. You approach has helped our performance! - Tara L.

"I am almost done with it, and I LOVE IT!!! I love the chapter on feel and awareness... your book was especially helpful. Someday, you will see me at the Nationals Finals, and you can sure bet who I will give credit to.”– Andriea K.

5.0

2018-10-01T12:21:51+00:00

"I am almost done with it, and I LOVE IT!!! I love the chapter on feel and awareness... your book was especially helpful. Someday, you will see me at the Nationals Finals, and you can sure bet who I will give credit to.” – Andriea K.

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I light up every time I see a new email…

I light up every time I see a new email from you. I can't wait to put everything else a side, to hear about your discoveries and advice.- Destanie M.

5.0

2018-09-12T18:24:56+00:00

I light up every time I see a new email from you. I can't wait to put everything else a side, to hear about your discoveries and advice. - Destanie M.

“I just bought your book, and I must say after reading it three times I just still can’t put it down! This book has given me more to be positive about and it has gotten me farther than ever!"– Stephanie H.

5.0

2018-10-01T12:29:56+00:00

“I just bought your book, and I must say after reading it three times I just still can’t put it down! This book has given me more to be positive about and it has gotten me farther than ever!" – Stephanie H.

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Your emails have helped me a TON!

Your emails have helped me a TON!!! I always look forward to them... I can't wait for The First 51 Barrel Racing Exercises!!!- Kelsi O.

5.0

2018-09-12T18:28:44+00:00

Your emails have helped me a TON!!! I always look forward to them... I can't wait for The First 51 Barrel Racing Exercises!!! - Kelsi O.

You put things back in perspective…

Thank you so much for all your inspiration it really does do wonders! Thank you so much for all your inspiration it really does do wonders! You really put things back in perspective when I need it. - Cherish H. when I need it.- Cherish H.

5.0

2018-09-12T18:39:50+00:00

Thank you so much for all your inspiration it really does do wonders! Thank you so much for all your inspiration it really does do wonders! You really put things back in perspective when I need it. - Cherish H. when I need it. - Cherish H.

"I just recently bought a copy of your book and I absolutely love it. Best thing I have invested in."- Ashlyn S.

5.0

2018-10-01T12:41:57+00:00

"I just recently bought a copy of your book and I absolutely love it. Best thing I have invested in." - Ashlyn S.

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Smooth and fast… it REALLY helped.

I was having trouble on my 2nd barrel... I went out to run after reading through some tips and did great - smooth and fast... it REALLY helped. I am so happy we finally got the 2nd barrel down!- Rachel B.

5.0

2018-09-12T18:43:11+00:00

I was having trouble on my 2nd barrel... I went out to run after reading through some tips and did great - smooth and fast... it REALLY helped. I am so happy we finally got the 2nd barrel down! - Rachel B.

The exercises shaved a massive 2 seconds off…

We purchased your books and since using the exercises shaved a massive 2 seconds off... thank you... we are always looking for ways to support our daughter to achieve her goal of making it to the states.- Fiona H.

5.0

2018-09-12T18:46:02+00:00

We purchased your books and since using the exercises shaved a massive 2 seconds off... thank you... we are always looking for ways to support our daughter to achieve her goal of making it to the states. - Fiona H.

I had no idea…

I liked that the book talked about the unspoken things of horses... It really stimulated my thought process to think what's better for my horse than what's convenient for me. I had no idea...- Autumn W.

5.0

2018-07-31T00:50:16+00:00

I liked that the book talked about the unspoken things of horses... It really stimulated my thought process to think what's better for my horse than what's convenient for me. I had no idea... - Autumn W.

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Secrets book is awesome!

Just wanted to let you know that your Secrets book is awesome! It totally covers what no other book does - the true secrets to barrel racing success!- Jeana W.

5.0

2018-07-31T00:51:14+00:00

Just wanted to let you know that your Secrets book is awesome! It totally covers what no other book does - the true secrets to barrel racing success! - Jeana W.

The timing amazes me…

Two thumbs up!! Appreciate your tips as always and the timing amazes me... they always give me confidence I am on track or include that one little piece of valuable information that makes a huge difference!- Sandy H.

5.0

2018-09-12T18:54:49+00:00

Two thumbs up!! Appreciate your tips as always and the timing amazes me... they always give me confidence I am on track or include that one little piece of valuable information that makes a huge difference! - Sandy H.

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“Finally, finally there is a top-notch guide for BOTH horse & rider! This book is well laid out and easy to use. HIGHLY recommend to any barrel racer wanting to up their game and get the best from yourself and your horse.”– Marsha H.

5.0

2018-10-01T12:58:46+00:00

“Finally, finally there is a top-notch guide for BOTH horse & rider! This book is well laid out and easy to use. HIGHLY recommend to any barrel racer wanting to up their game and get the best from yourself and your horse.” – Marsha H.

https://www.barrelracingtips.com/testimonials/15847/

Totally inspiring & exciting!

I just want to say again how exceptional the information you are sharing is! Your book is extremely profound and totally inspiring & exciting! Thank You!!! - Shawnee S.

5.0

2018-07-31T00:59:45+00:00

I just want to say again how exceptional the information you are sharing is! Your book is extremely profound and totally inspiring & exciting! Thank You!!! - Shawnee S.

She was so responsive!

There was no pulling, leaning on my hand or attempting to run past the barrel! She was so sooo responsive, thank you heaps for your help!- Ruby H.

5.0

2018-07-31T01:03:34+00:00

There was no pulling, leaning on my hand or attempting to run past the barrel! She was so sooo responsive, thank you heaps for your help! - Ruby H.

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"I have been relying on your book and look where it’s got me, I now have a horse running 1D times and have performed the best run I have ever done on her. She was so sooo responsive, thank you heaps for your help!” – Ruby H.

5.0

2018-10-01T17:58:24+00:00

"I have been relying on your book and look where it’s got me, I now have a horse running 1D times and have performed the best run I have ever done on her. She was so sooo responsive, thank you heaps for your help!” – Ruby H.

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I love what I’m learning!

I just want to say that what you are doing is AMAZING!! I absolutely love what I'm learning & it's already changing things so much for the better for myself & my horses!- Shawn S.

5.0

2018-07-31T01:05:28+00:00

I just want to say that what you are doing is AMAZING!! I absolutely love what I'm learning & it's already changing things so much for the better for myself & my horses! - Shawn S.

“I absolutely LOVED your book. I am so thankful for your insights... by reading your book I have been fast-forwarded. Thank you for your inspiration!” – Stephanie W.

5.0

2018-10-01T17:58:56+00:00

“I absolutely LOVED your book. I am so thankful for your insights... by reading your book I have been fast-forwarded. Thank you for your inspiration!” – Stephanie W.

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Your articles helped me persevere.

I appreciate your web site and videos. I had started to lose the love I had for riding and your articles helped me persevere. I have been so thankful to find your site through all my soul searching.- Tracey J.

2018-07-31T01:08:19+00:00

I appreciate your web site and videos. I had started to lose the love I had for riding and your articles helped me persevere. I have been so thankful to find your site through all my soul searching. - Tracey J.

“I would like to commend you on bringing many concepts to the table that aren’t in any of the other books on our sport. It’s perfect for anyone who doesn’t think they need “another barrel racing book!!”– Sharyl N.

5.0

2018-10-01T17:59:36+00:00

“I would like to commend you on bringing many concepts to the table that aren’t in any of the other books on our sport. It’s perfect for anyone who doesn’t think they need “another barrel racing book!!” – Sharyl N.

https://www.barrelracingtips.com/testimonials/15857/

These are secrets the professionals do not tell…

Your website and book gives the real information that we are all looking for... those little secrets that the professionals do not tell.- Pat B.

5.0

2018-07-31T01:10:29+00:00

Your website and book gives the real information that we are all looking for... those little secrets that the professionals do not tell. - Pat B.

I read all of them…

I look at every email that comes through from barrel racing tips, I read all of them and there's not one thing that I find that I have not learned something from.- Shannon

5.0

2018-07-31T01:14:06+00:00

I look at every email that comes through from barrel racing tips, I read all of them and there's not one thing that I find that I have not learned something from. - Shannon

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“I’ve been having trouble with my mare at increased speed... Your book has helped me and my mare so much, our turns are even more ‘snappy!’ Thank you for offering your time to all of us who dream of making that perfect run!!” – Lisa P.

5.0

2018-10-01T18:00:46+00:00

“I’ve been having trouble with my mare at increased speed... Your book has helped me and my mare so much, our turns are even more ‘snappy!’ Thank you for offering your time to all of us who dream of making that perfect run!!” – Lisa P.

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This book helped me so much!

I just bought Secrets to Barrel Racing Success, and after reading it three times I just still can't put it down! This book has gotten me farther than ever and helped me so much!- Stephanie H.

5.0

2018-07-31T01:15:01+00:00

I just bought Secrets to Barrel Racing Success, and after reading it three times I just still can't put it down! This book has gotten me farther than ever and helped me so much! - Stephanie H.

“Your book gives the real information that we are all looking for. It is easy to understand and it is those little secrets that the professionals do not tell. You are really helping horses with people problems more than you can imagine.” – Pat B.

5.0

2018-10-01T18:01:18+00:00

“Your book gives the real information that we are all looking for. It is easy to understand and it is those little secrets that the professionals do not tell. You are really helping horses with people problems more than you can imagine.” – Pat B.

https://www.barrelracingtips.com/testimonials/15863/

Your information has been extremely helpful.

I check out your site regularly and have printed many articles to add to my barrel bible. Your information has been extremely helpful, clear and easy to understand.- Kim O.

5.0

2018-07-31T01:16:35+00:00

I check out your site regularly and have printed many articles to add to my barrel bible. Your information has been extremely helpful, clear and easy to understand. - Kim O.

“…these exercises have helped my horse become more responsive and flexible. I also appreciate the exercises for the rider... Thanks for being so thorough and breaking it all down! Love the patterns and pictures.”– Susan D.

5.0

2018-10-01T18:02:08+00:00

“…these exercises have helped my horse become more responsive and flexible. I also appreciate the exercises for the rider... Thanks for being so thorough and breaking it all down! Love the patterns and pictures.” – Susan D.

https://www.barrelracingtips.com/testimonials/15865/

Thank you for all your helpful tips!

Thank you for writing that wonderful book and for all your helpful tips. I have learned so much from them and will continue to use them as resources!- Amy S.

5.0

2018-07-31T01:18:22+00:00

Thank you for writing that wonderful book and for all your helpful tips. I have learned so much from them and will continue to use them as resources! - Amy S.

It worked like a charm!

He was especially having problems with his first barrel (not rating), so I came to your website, found an article, and it worked like a charm! Thanks again, Heather.- Ellie J.

5.0

2018-07-31T01:20:58+00:00

He was especially having problems with his first barrel (not rating), so I came to your website, found an article, and it worked like a charm! Thanks again, Heather. - Ellie J.

https://www.barrelracingtips.com/testimonials/it-worked-like-a-charm/

“…very motivating and unlike anything I have ever come across! ...such a breath of fresh air! I am definitely not the same person, I have much more wisdom and appreciation now.” – Shilah H.

5.0

2018-10-01T18:03:05+00:00

“…very motivating and unlike anything I have ever come across! ...such a breath of fresh air! I am definitely not the same person, I have much more wisdom and appreciation now.” – Shilah H.

https://www.barrelracingtips.com/testimonials/15869/

“Heather, I just want to thank you from the bottom of my heart for putting this material together. It inspires me to keep going. I am so grateful you were willing to compile this information. Thank you again.”– Anna E.

5.0

2018-10-01T18:03:32+00:00

“Heather, I just want to thank you from the bottom of my heart for putting this material together. It inspires me to keep going. I am so grateful you were willing to compile this information. Thank you again.” – Anna E.