Gina

We all have an inner voice. It is that little voice in your head, and sometimes, your heart. There can be two sides to our inner voice, sort of its very own yin and yang. One side is our intuition. It is our intuition that is the voice of our higher self, along with spirit, guiding us for our highest good. This is the voice that guides us to turn from fear, anger, hatred and all forms of negativity. This is the voice that guides us toward compassion, understanding and unconditional love; no matter what the circumstance. Our intuition is who we truly are; it is our soul.

The opposite of our intuition is our ego. This voice is can be filled with fear and negativity; guiding you away from your intuition. The basis for these messages, in great part, comes from what we learn as a child. It is this information that forms our subconscious beliefs about ourselves, others and the world. “What we say to our children becomes their inner voice”.

As a child, I was surrounded by fear based messages from many adults in my life. My family members worried about everything. They were suspicious of others, anxious and often angered easily. I would frequently hear statements filled with negativity like “life is not fair”, “you have to struggle to get ahead”, and, “children should be seen and not heard”. It was a difficult to witness and I longed to be different than them.

Despite my desire to be the opposite of my childhood mentors, I eventually became very similar in my thinking and speaking for many, many years. Their words became my inner voice. But my intuition was still there, guiding me, although I didn’t always follow it. The voice of our higher selves is always present, but sometimes the noise of negativity can drown it out. When life became nearly intolerable due to my angry words and behavior, it was by following my intuition that I found a new paradigm in the pages of many books.

It was through books that I learned about the power of our thoughts and words. My awakening was guided by spirit at the hands of many teachers and through them I discovered how to connect with my intuition and change my inner voice. By understanding that I was not defined by what I learned as a child, I was able to choose optimism and turn away from fear and pain. The two sides of my inner voice became united, and the one that was driven by what others taught me early in life no longer drowned out the voice of my intuition.

As a mother, I wanted a more positive formative experience for my children. Inspired by the books that influenced my awakening and following the guidance of my intuitive inner voice, I wrote a book called “Truth Works, Divine Life Lessons for Kids of All Ages”, to help young people learn about their inner voice and the power of their thoughts and words; along with the adults who raise and care for them. This is an excerpt from the book’s introduction:

In childhood, we receive many lessons. An enormous amount of our beliefs are formed in our early life years. We learn from lots of different resources; parents, friends, relatives, teachers, television, music, books and so on. Much of what we are taught and experience becomes part of our subconscious mind. This is the part of our brain that is running the show 24/7. In other words, it is your subconscious mind that is in control and no matter what you are thinking or doing in your conscious or awake mind. The beliefs we have stored here, positive or negative, have an immense effect on our entire life.

Awareness is the gateway to changing your beliefs, thoughts and words; to changing your life. Your inner voice may be a result of what you were exposed to in the past, but that does not mean you are stuck. You can begin to change by engaging with Spirit and tuning into your intuition. You can ask spirit to make you aware of any negative beliefs, thoughts and speech. Follow your intuitive feelings when they arise about habitual negative words in your thinking. Once you are cognizant, you can change.

My book outlines many typical phrases that society has headed down generation after generation; like the ones that I heard as a child (see paragraph 3). Statements like can be used routinely, laying a foundation for self-sabotage and a damaging inner voice. We can change this tradition and give our future generations an inner voice that is aligned with our loving intuition and spirit, changing our world in a vital and positive way. Imagine a world where each person has an inner voice that is loving, supportive, uplifting and positive. Make it a reality today by beginning with yourself. What you say to yourself every day is your inner voice, and that voice is what you give to the world; you share it with our children.

The Inner Voice: How Our Words Influence Our Children was last modified: May 14th, 2013 by Gina

Try is a tricky word. While most people have absolutely no issue with using the word frequently to represent objectives they’d like to achieve, there is an underlying energy to it that will prevent you from yielding the outcome of whatever endeavor you desire. To try is not to do; it is actually to attempt, struggle, seek or strive. There is a long held misunderstanding about trying and the time is now to uncover the truth, so we can change our language to truly align with not only what we mean, but what we want.

Most people cling to try statements simply out of fear. There is a subconscious fear that many have about succeeding in their dreams so it feels safe to use a word like “try” instead of stronger affirmative language like “I am” or “I do”. Trying puts completion of our mission in the future; someday it will happen so we do not actually have to embrace potential success or failure today. Furthermore, if we do indeed fail, trying has an excuse built right in; we tried our best but it did not work out. In reality, trying is an illusion. There really is no “try”, there is actually only DO or DON’T. You either do something or you do not; trying is passively making excuses not to fully embrace or do what you state you are trying to accomplish.

Anyone who has ever achieved a goal knows in their hearts that doing, not trying, got them there. Trying is not a natural state; trees do not try to grow, wind does not try to blow, sun does not try to shine, and so on. Nature is a doer; trees grow, the wind blows and the sun shines. The attitude of attempting is based in fear. People fear failure, change, success, the unknown, opinions of others and more. So often, we get so caught up in “what if” scenarios; that we actually create what we don’t want instead of what we do want, by attracting that negative energy right to us. And then we can use the excuse that “we tried” when it all did not work out as we supposedly wanted. When you set out to attain an objective from the basis of “trying” to do it, you are not fully committed and have already determined the outcome; you will not fully complete it.

Think about it, trying is passive and doing is active. When we fully commit to do something it is ignited with passion and faith; no doubts or worries will stop us. I lived with trying for nearly my entire life related to writing a book. I started many books over the years, always with the thought of “I’m going to try and write a book”. None of those early books were ever finished. It was not until I set out to author “Truth Works” that things changed. This time, I was fueled by enthusiasm and there was never any question that I would finish this book. I did not try to write, I wrote (and wrote, and wrote and wrote). And I will continue to write until the book is done, published and being read by those who need to hear its message. I am not afraid, so there is no need for doubts or worries. Whatever happens, this is my dream and I intend to see it through completely.

It is not always easy to overcome the desire to just “try” though. Our ego can fill our minds with lots of reasons why we should be fearful about what we desire. The trick to overcoming those negative ego notions starts with our language. If you start using the affirmative and active language of being and doing as opposed to trying and waiting, it will eventually become what you believe. In the beginning, you may still have doubts about your abilities, but the mere change in your speech will start to change the energy of your thoughts and actions. The impact of what we say, the way we describe and talk about our lives, is powerful. When I began writing Truth Works, I always talked about it as a completed project. I had a website, Facebook page and marketing plan all before the book was actually done. Writing it was secondary to its existence because in my mind, it was already here. Or course, I did the actual work of writing, but never did I try to write this book. Chapter by chapter, I did the work and wrote the information I wished to convey. When I got stuck, I took a break. When I finished each chapter, I celebrated for getting ever closer to fulfilling my dream. I do not feel guilty when I get stuck or do not meet certain deadlines that I have created; I understand that sometimes there might be other priorities. I set deadlines and sometimes I meet them but sometimes I do not. As long as I’m progressing I know all is well. I do not try to make time to write, I just write; even if I only have 10 minutes to write, I do it.

In the past, I used time as an excuse not to complete other books that I started. I squandered my free time by choosing to focus on other things (like television, chores, work or anything else I could think of). I would tell myself lies like “15 minutes is not enough to get anything substantial written, so why bother?” The message I most frequently told myself was that I was “trying to write a book”; which was not true. What I was doing was not writing a book; I was avoiding it. Instead of just being honest that perhaps the time or topic was not right for me, I made up excuses and chose denial.

Sometimes trying is, in reality, avoiding; which is done out of fear. Fear of disappointing others, fear of failing, fear of change, fear of succeeding, fear of anything and everything. Trying is a convenient way for people to never actually have to fully commit while claiming that they have; it’s an illusion. It’s important to understand that the language of “to try” will leave you always trying because to try is not to do; it is to attempt, procrastinate, avoid and languish. In the end, you are far better off in doing or not doing because there is truth in the concept of either of those choices; at least you have chosen and are being honest about why. Continual trying without effort, completion or energy is inauthentic; when we constantly try and try again we will actually never succeed.

Change the way you speak of your endeavors to exclude the word try; you either “do” or “do not”. Be honest about why and know that you can change that reason at any time. I am an Author; I am not trying to be one. What is it that you have been trying to be? Now is the time to alter your beliefs and know that you already are ____________________. So, if at first you don’t succeed, be honest about why, change what needs changing and DO IT AGAIN!

About Gina:
Gina Sendef is a independent Spiritual Self-Help Author and Angel Intuitive. Writing is her life long passion. Her first book, “Truth Works, Divine Life Lessons for Kids of all Ages”, is a self-help book geared towards reading age children, teens and young adults. The premise for Truth Works is to undo harmful affects that exisit when our children are taught traditional life lessons like “life is not fair” or “money is the root of all evil”. The goal of the book is to undo this programming at a young age, ensuring the subconscious belief system for our children is optimistic, safe and secure. When we address these destructive beliefs in childhood and expose their false nature, they cannot reside in our subconscious minds for a lifetime as the basis for our beliefs. We are left with the pure, positive and absolute spiritual TRUTH. The book can be purchased at www.ginasendef.com. She created Angel Works as a means to work with the positive and loving energy of the angels to provide people with guidance that will improve their health, uncover their life’s purpose, enrich their relationships and enhance their lives. http://www.ginasendef.com/

Blocks can be created in our lives by holding onto anger, frustration, irritation, jealousy, resentment or any other negative feeling or emotions about a person, group of people or situation. This negativity can block us from having optimal health (our body sends us signals constantly), harmonious and loving relationships, our desired career, sustained financial well-being and just about anything else we intend to manifest or create in our lives. The first step and one that is ongoing is to release this negativity through the process of forgiveness. This does not mean that you must condone the hurtful actions of another, it simply means that you are aware of the need to release your toxic feelings and that you are willing to release them; you are doing this for yourself (it is ALL about self-love). Holding onto to ANY negativity diminishes your ability to see abundance in all things; no matter what you create negativity will affect your ability to find joy in it. If nothing comes to mind, than you must take the time to uncover that which needs releasing as every single human being, no exceptions, is holding onto something that, if left unchecked, will build over time and become an impediment in some way. The only person truly hurt by not forgiving another is YOU, but make no mistake; everyone else in your life is affected (including our family, friends, children and animals).

Having a forgiveness healing ceremony or ritual will allow you to release these negative energy blocks; this will take about 30-60 minutes. First, settle comfortably into a quiet room, preferably dimly lit with a pen and pad of paper. You can have soft music playing and light a candle. Ask your angels and guides to be with you to help with this process; they are your celestial guidance team. You need to surrender the process to your team and your higher-self; following the guidance of your intuition completely. You are going to be writing names on a list; the first name will be yours. Next, ask your angels and guides to help you discover any other names or situations that need to be on the list and DO NOT censor yourself (you may be surprised who ends up on your list). Allow memories to flow and if you are struggling with considering a release for a particular individual or situation, ask yourself “have I not suffered and/or learned enough from this?” and be willing to let it go.

Once you feel you have the names needed on your list at this time, you will do a forgiveness healing ritual for each one. For each name or situation that is on your list, you will individually say the following intention to your angels:

I am willing to release any and all negative feelings and toxic emotions related to this person/situation; including myself for the role I played in it. I ask that my angels take this negativity to the light for transmutation and leave me with the lessons and love. I ask that Archangel Michael please cut any unhealthy Etheric cords that resulted from this and take them to the light. I ask that Archangel Raphael fill me with green healing light to heal my heart and soul as I choose to forgive in all directions of time.

It is important to do each one separately. If there is a person or situation that you do not want to forgive, you should move onto the next one and come back to that one with a different method. For anybody/situation that you are finding difficult to forgive, you must write an anger release letter to them. This letter is for your eyes only and is used for the purpose of release. Simply write every single negative feeling and toxic emotion that is taking up space in your soul; this is the time to literally let it rip and say everything angry, vile thing that you have been feeling on that paper. Once the letter is complete, refer to the intention stated above.

Once all your list and letter(s) are done, you will destroy them (burn, shred, bury, etc…); whatever method feels best. You will end your ritual with a detox bath or shower to further release toxins using sea salt (a scrub or bath salts). While in the bath or shower, ask your angels to surround you with pink light so that you can give and receive the love of others and yourself. The purpose of this entire ritual is to leave us with the love, the highest energy of all. Love is aligned with abundance and without loving yourself first; you cannot attract it into your life (that is why your name is first on the list to forgive).

Forgiveness now needs to be a habit; if we are alive we need to forgive. The full moon presents an amazing opportunity to release every month because the energy of the full moon is related to releasing. You can use the forgiveness healing ritual every month (it will flow more quickly after the initial one) to release negative emotions from even the most minor irritations that occur throughout the month. Try to forgive in the moment when daily frustrations occur, but also put those names on your full moon forgiveness list to completely release. You can keep a forgiveness page in your gratitude journal (a journal that records daily that for which we are thankful) to keep track, than use it for the forgiveness ritual during the full moon. The gratitude journal keeps your energy aligned with love and the forgiveness page will ensure you release negativity with every full moon. Archangel Haniel works with the moon’s energy, call on her for help with releasing during the full moon cycle.

Thank you to my friend and Reiki Teacher, Laura Titschler, for teaching me this method (www.lotusofthesoul.com). I use the Forgiveness Ritual with many clients and offer angelic guidance on forgiveness every day; it is the key to healing. For more information about these Angel Readings, visit www.ginasendef.com. May the blessings of forgiveness leave you filled with peace and love, Namaste.

About Gina:
Gina Sendef is a independent Spiritual Self-Help Author and Angel Intuitive. Writing is her life long passion. Her soon to be self-published first book, “Truth Works, Divine Life Lessons for Kids of all Ages”, is a self-help book geared towards reading age children, teens and young adults. The premise for Truth Works is to undo harmful affects that exisit when our children are taught traditional life lessons like “life is not fair” or “money is the root of all evil”. The goal of the book is to undo this programming at a young age, ensuring the subconscious belief system for our children is optimistic, safe and secure. When we address these destructive beliefs in childhood and expose their false nature, they cannot reside in our subconscious minds for a lifetime as the basis for our beliefs. We are left with the pure, positive and absolute spiritual TRUTH. She created Angel Works as a means to work with the positive and loving energy of the angels to provide people with guidance that will improve their health, uncover their life’s purpose, enrich their relationships and enhance their lives. www.ginasendef.com

A family in my home town recently suffered an unimaginable loss. Their 12 year old son was injured while playing catch at a baseball game. He died as a result of that injury a short time later.

Shocking, tragic, sad, surreal, unthinkable and unbelievable would be accurate words to describe what many have felt and experienced who were close to this family and their son. They say it takes a village to raise a child, so when one is lost, that village feels the pain.

The local baseball and football leagues he played for set up a memorial fund. Many fundraising efforts have been occurring and I attended one such fundraiser at a local burger restaurant last week. I took my 2 sons there for lunch, not quite knowing what to expect. With all the news coverage and the closeness of our community, I knew it would possibly be crowded and might even be heart-wrenching. We walked through the doors and the lines were almost outside the building. My sons found a table and waited there while I headed into the line.

I quickly took notice, while in line, at the staggering amount of kids present that afternoon. The crowd was predominantly 13 and under. At first, it struck me as so very sad that these youngsters had to deal with the death of a friend at such a young age. Then I realized that, although it was indeed sad, it was also very poignant. There was something very different about this scene.

It was obvious and yet, surprising; these kids were not afraid. Often, when somebody dies, adults spend a great deal of time wondering how to grieve. It seems we get somewhat caught up in not wanting to say or do the wrong thing that might upset the people suffering the most from the loss (like the spouse or family). This was not the case at all in this crowd and it was surprisingly comforting and beautiful to see.

Everywhere there were handmade t-shirts, adorning youngsters, that expressed the name of their friend and a saying they created to show their emotion about his death. They were free in their demonstration of love and sorrow, not afraid to show it in any number of ways. It was not uncomfortable though and you could feel that love; it covered you like a warm blanket and made the unthinkable a little more bearable.

I learned something important during my 45 minute wait in line that day, from a group of unlikely teachers I don’t even know. The grace of those kids who packed that restaurant will stay with me, it changed me. If only we all took that approach when a loved one passes, to fearlessly express our love by any means necessary, and not to worry what another might think. The truth is, you could not possibly make the experience worse with anything done out of love. In my 44 years of life, I never realized it. I have held back and held together during the deaths of my grandparents and other family members, all the while wanting to express my grief in other ways.

I left that restaurant astonished. So amazingly beautiful was the energy of that day, born from tragedy. It’s funny what you can accomplish on an average day in 45 minutes; vacuum the house, grocery shop, drive to work, a dentist appointment, soccer practice, etc…. I doubt anything I do for a long time to come will come close to what I experienced in those 45 minutes. The unwitting lesson in benevolence from kids just doing what kids do; expressing emotion, without censoring , when it was truly needed the most. God bless them for that and for showing it without reservation; unknowingly helping to heal this village that’s lost one of its own.

Gina Sendef is a independent Spiritual Self-Help Author and Angel Intuitive. Writing is her life long passion. Her soon to be self-published first book, “Truth Works, Divine Life Lessons for Kids of all Ages”, is a self-help book geared towards reading age children, teens and young adults. The premise for Truth Works is to undo harmful affects that exisit when our children are taught traditional life lessons like “life is not fair” or “money is the root of all evil”. The goal of the book is to undo this programming at a young age, ensuring the subconscious belief system for our children is optimistic, safe and secure. When we address these destructive beliefs in childhood and expose their false nature, they cannot reside in our subconscious minds for a lifetime as the basis for our beliefs. We are left with the pure, positive and absolute spiritual TRUTH. She created Angel Works as a means to work with the positive and loving energy of the angels to provide people with guidance that will improve their health, uncover their life’s purpose, enrich their relationships and enhance their lives. http://www.ginasendef.com/

Sometimes it’s not that easy to be a conscious parent. Being aware, awakened and ever mindful of what we teach our children is not always easy and since I am not perfect; I make my fair share of mistakes. Where the whole” lead by positive example” philosophy gets tricky, however, is not so much about what my husband and I teach them; but more about what others do. Every single thing our children learn from others makes an impact and while, as a parent, I cannot (and would not want to) possibly control everything; there comes certain times when I must step in and draw the line.

Usually, it’s in these moments that I am often a lone parent; the one the teachers and maybe even other parents are at best calling overly sensitive and at worst calling a pain is the a**! One such moment came up recently and I stood alone to shed light on what I hope will make a difference in the future; I know it will for my kids and I’m writing this article to reach more parents so perhaps that difference will gain in momentum. Here’s how my moment came to be.

I have this funny little theory that if we teach our kids primarily about positive, uplifting historical figures and events at a young age (preschool and elementary school), as opposed to the negative ones, that they will not only be influenced by them; but they will not become desensitized to the often horrific violent atrocities that make up human history (which seemed to be the focus of what I learned in school). When you teach children about the evils of war, the appalling deeds of dictators and the utter suffering of humanity throughout time when they are too young to fully comprehend the scope of what they are learning one of two outcomes will occur; they will either be completely terrified or utterly fascinated. Kids who have barely been alive for a decade cannot possibly handle the scope of what the world went through in the time of Hitler or how the affects of American slavery has made an imprint for generations. How could they? All these tender young souls are truly equipped to deal with is that which makes them feel good; so if something they learn does not do that they will either be scared of it or invent a way to make it feel good (usually by being entertaining).

Kids are super sensitive and they truly absorb like a sponge. What we shed light on through early education matters more than many understand. It forms the basis for their subconscious beliefs and has affects that will have an influence throughout the rest of their lives. It is vital to be mindful of this when teaching subjects that involve violence in any form. History or Social Studies tends to be a topic where, when examining our past, the subject matter often contains violent events, circumstances or situations. While understanding the dark side of our past may make us appreciate the light even more; it must be done with consideration for its audience. Kids are bombarded with aspects of violence every single day; from television and video games to books and bullying. We have an opportunity to make a change that could set a new course for our future; we can choose to focus on the light.

My 10 year old son’s class has had several independent study projects in Social Studies this year. These types of projects are a wonderful way to learn about doing research, writing, creating a Powerpoint presentation and discovering historical events. However, being that they are independent study, it’s important to examine the impact of what they may be exposed to during their research. The first of these projects was an ABC Civil War Book that required a slide for each letter about something related to the Civil War. I am not a fan of studying about war and my son did not really want to either. We worked together to make it a positive experience, not using any battles, weapons or violent terms throughout the book and focusing instead on Civil War terms that related to the abolishment of slavery. It struck me, as he finished his book, what about other kids who just went on the Internet and Googled the Civil War; what were they possibly seeing? Is anybody helping them understand the magnitude of what they find? I tried not to think about it but I could not stop.

A few weeks later, it was time for another project. It was called a Human Museum and the concept is great. Kids would study a historical figure of their choice and write a brief report about it. They would also draw the figure on a poster board with a large hole at the top to place their heads. Than all the parents, teachers and many students would visit the Human Museum and listen to all the reports. My son asked to be Jeff Kinney (author of Diary of a Wimpy Kid); he’s a favorite of my son because he’d like to be an author and illustrator in that style some day. He was told no by his teacher because the she felt it was not a historical figure and I understood that.

My son was disappointed because the teacher of the other 5th grade class was letting students use modern pop culture people for their topics (like the creator of Ugly Dolls). I told him to let it go and pick another one. He then shared another concern with me; he did not understand why he could not profile somebody influential to him when other kids were being allowed to profile Hitler. I told him that while I prefer he not write about Hitler, that he was considered a historical figure and appropriate for study by mane (just not us, not at 10 years old with independent research). We chose to pick a positive influence instead of a negative one and went with Gandhi.

The day of the Human Museum arrived. My son was excited to tell others about Gandhi and how he changed history in a peaceful manner. At the bus stop that morning, he asked me an odd question about Al Capone; “isn’t Al Capone a real criminal mom?” I said yes and asked how he heard of him. It seems there is a book series popular for kids his age in which Al Capone is a character (not to judge but that seems like a pathetic choice for a book geared towards young children). I explained that he was actually a real person who committed terrible crimes and that his character in that book made him seem like something he was not. He then told me that a couple of the kids were profiling Al Capone in the Human Museum because they liked his character in the book. I was stunned. While I would not encourage my 10 year old to voluntarily study Hitler, I understood why the teacher allowed it. But Al Capone, a convicted criminal? I wondered if they would allow a modern day criminal as well (like ? I also feared that the children giving these reports would do so in a manner that would not convey the profoundly painful impact these people had.

I was unfortunately right. When I attended the Human Museum, I listened to my son’s sweet friend talk about Hitler the same way I hear kids talk about Sponge Bob; like he was a fictional character from some cartoon. He was desensitized. Something occurred to me though, the kids (which were most of them) that chose a favorite sports hero or a positively influential person seemed so happy giving their reports, they were engaged and there was a real connection to their report. I decided to share this experience with the teacher and principal along with my concern and idea.

I contacted the principal and teacher, giving them my idea to make this project something truly outstanding by simply changing the parameters to more positive historical influences instead of violent ones; but they were not interested. When I talked about it with other parents, I frequently heard things like “they have to learn it sometime”. I did, however, hear of another school in this district whose teacher did the same project; this teacher told the kids to portray any positive person that influenced them. There is hope and I cling to it because I believe we can do better. I believe we can fill our children’s hearts and minds at ender young ages with positivity and that it will make a difference. I believe changes like this can actually have an impact on our future, perhaps leading to less violence and more inspiration. And finally, I believe there are more parents out there like me, who believe that Positive Lessons Make Enlightened Kids! If you are one of them, please visit my web page and contact me (www.ginasendef.com); perhaps together we can we can find a way to make a change for the better and help our kids along the way.

Gina Sendef is a independent Spiritual Self-Help Author and Angel Intuitive. Writing is her life long passion. Her soon to be self-published first book, “Truth Works, Divine Life Lessons for Kids of all Ages”, is a self-help book geared towards reading age children, teens and young adults. The premise for Truth Works is to undo harmful affects that exisit when our children are taught traditional life lessons like “life is not fair” or “money is the root of all evil”. The goal of the book is to undo this programming at a young age, ensuring the subconscious belief system for our children is optimistic, safe and secure. When we address these destructive beliefs in childhood and expose their false nature, they cannot reside in our subconscious minds for a lifetime as the basis for our beliefs. We are left with the pure, positive and absolute spiritual TRUTH. She created Angel Works as a means to work with the positive and loving energy of the angels to provide people with guidance that will improve their health, uncover their life’s purpose, enrich their relationships and enhance their lives.

I’ve lost count of how many times I’ve worked with Mums about their overwhelming feelings of guilt – whether they are working Mums, stay at home Mums or part-time Mums. Women seem to be programmed with it and it just holds us all back, keeps us stuck and is really anger turned in on ourselves as we find it difficult to ask for help, delegate parenting jobs or share our needs with others. It’s also about wanting to be a perfect parent – who only exists in Hollywood film I’m afraid!

Part 1- Heart opening experiences in Greece lead to illumination of my life purpose. I was recently touched by something Iyanla Vanzant and Oprah Winfrey had talked about on Oprah’s Lifeclass Webcast. They were talking to a woman who had been working on her spiritual practices to further awaken herself and felt that her husband was not keeping up with her on her path. I immediately felt a connection to this because I had been in the same place as her not long ago. I loved what Iyanla and Oprah had said to her which was to first, keep doing the work and then the answer to whether she should stay with her husband would become obvious.

READ: Positive Lessons Make Enlightened Kids by Gina Sendef was last modified: March 9th, 2012 by Gina

It is that time of year when many people will decide to make a New Year’s resolution; as if the changing of one calendar page will magically bring them the power to achieve a goal or create something new. The truth is, we have that power always, no matter the date or year on the calendar or time on the clock. This year, I am resolving to be.

This is not a goal I intend to achieve, or something new to learn, or a fear to overcome, or a desire to manifest or an item from my bucket list (not that I even have one); this is my natural state, the natural state of all living things. I resolve to be and from that find peace and joy in the present moment. I will not be checking anything off my yearly list, for I no longer have one. I will not celebrate when I accomplish my resolution, for it is always with me. I will not be upset if it does not come to fruition, for there is nothing for me to create. I resolve to be in doing so I will attain everything I ever need.

Aside from resolutions, I often hear people declare, as a new year dawns, that they are thankful the past year ended because it was not a good one. Again, the turning of a calendar page will not magically change your life and end a bad cycle. Only your willingness to change can do that and it can happen on any given date not just January 1st. If your attitude about a certain date or year is negative, than you will only attract more of what you wish to avoid. Focus instead on the positive things that happen for nothing is ever all good or all bad; it is only our perception that makes it seem so. Where you attention goes, your life flows so if unpleasant things are happening, change direction immediately and do not wait for a certain date.

The Law of Attraction is present 24/7 and 365 days a year, not just on January 1st. While a resolution is a positive idea, why wait for year’s end. Make them all the time or don’t make any at all and choose instead to make your intentions for your life a constant process instead of a yearly one. That is why I resolve to be; no pressure, no judgment just the sweetness of the present moment to enjoy for this year and all the rest to come. This is my lifetime resolution.

Gina Sendef is a independent Spiritual Self-Help Author and Angel Intuitive. Writing is her life long passion. Her soon to be self-published first book, “Truth Works, Divine Life Lessons for Kids of all Ages”, is a self-help book geared towards reading age children, teens and young adults. The premise for Truth Works is to undo harmful affects that exisit when our children are taught traditional life lessons like “life is not fair” or “money is the root of all evil”. The goal of the book is to undo this programming at a young age, ensuring the subconscious belief system for our children is optimistic, safe and secure. When we address these destructive beliefs in childhood and expose their false nature, they cannot reside in our subconscious minds for a lifetime as the basis for our beliefs. We are left with the pure, positive and absolute spiritual TRUTH. She created Angel Works as a means to work with the positive and loving energy of the angels to provide people with guidance that will improve their health, uncover their life’s purpose, enrich their relationships and enhance their lives.

Many people are passionate about a cause that advocates for change. For some it’s related to a hobby, for others it is political in nature and for some it is about human rights; for me personally it is currently humane animal treatment. Whatever the issue, our passion can be an incredible motivator and communicator; but when that passion turns from enthusiasm to sarcasm, frustration, resentment or anger, you will go from advocating for change to complaining about it which in turn becomes a negative force instead of a positive paradigm, Read more…

It’s not about the actions that you take but the energy (vibration) behind those actions. It’s not about what you do, but your thoughts and congruency and alignment about what you do. You can take less actions and get great results, or you can take all the actions in the world and it not quite be how you want it. The factor is the thoughts about (and behind) your action, Read On…

READ: I Resolve to Be by Gina Sendef was last modified: January 24th, 2012 by Gina

‘Tis the season to be? This time of year is a special one for many reasons; be they religious, personal, familial, celebratory. Whatever the case, the holiday season is different from the rest of the year. For many, it is a happy time, for some it is a lucrative time and for lots it is a stressful time. Whatever this time of year has meant to you in the past; this year, let it also be a season of spirit.

Take the opportunity to form a deeper connection with our Creator and the angels. In the story of Jesus’ birth, angels played a vital role as the messengers of his arrival. Today, they are still trying to reach us, sending messages of love. Let this be the season that you allow yourself to receive those messages and feel the loving presence of the Divine.

We are not alone; we are all surrounded by love every moment of every day. It is there if you choose to see and feel it. Often, we are filled with anger, resentment, sadness, irritation and other distractions that block our ability to sense this Universal love. There is a way back to it if you choose to follow it. Living in gratitude will align you with your higher self who only knows love.

Find at least one thing for which to be grateful every waking hour of every day this holiday season. Keep a List of Thanks and write down your gratitude discoveries. Soon, you will raise your vibration and begin to see and feel the Divine love of the Universe and your angels. When you embrace a season of spirit, yours will surely begin to shine!

Gina Sendef is a independent Spiritual Self-Help Author and Angel Intuitive. Writing is her life long passion. Her soon to be self-published first book, “Truth Works, Divine Life Lessons for Kids of all Ages”, is a self-help book geared towards reading age children, teens and young adults. The premise for Truth Works is to undo harmful affects that exisit when our children are taught traditional life lessons like “life is not fair” or “money is the root of all evil”. The goal of the book is to undo this programming at a young age, ensuring the subconscious belief system for our children is optimistic, safe and secure. When we address these destructive beliefs in childhood and expose their false nature, they cannot reside in our subconscious minds for a lifetime as the basis for our beliefs. We are left with the pure, positive and absolute spiritual TRUTH. She created Angel Works as a means to work with the positive and loving energy of the angels to provide people with guidance that will improve their health, uncover their life’s purpose, enrich their relationships and enhance their lives. http://www.facebook.com/pages/Truth-Works-by-Gina-Sendef/179796375389186

It’s natural to want a companion to walk this earth with. To face the big stuff and the small stuff with
A witness to your life, as you are a witness and cheerleader for theirs. We all want to feel loved.But what if you haven’t found that soul partner yet? Are you destined to feel lonely until you do?
Or what if your relationship isn’t quite where you’d like it to be. Are you just supposed to feel unloved until it is?

Someone You Really Need to Get to Know There is someone I’m dying for you to really get to know. This person is amazing, insightful, charming, brimming with life, and filled with limitless potential. You’ll be blown away by their depth and capacity for love. I’d like you to meet… you!

READ: A Season of Spirit by Gina Sendef was last modified: December 10th, 2011 by Gina

Many people are passionate about a cause that advocates for change. For some it’s related to a hobby, for others it is political in nature and for some it is about human rights; for me personally it is currently humane animal treatment. Whatever the issue, our passion can be an incredible motivator and communicator; but when that passion turns from enthusiasm to sarcasm, frustration, resentment or anger, you will go from advocating for change to complaining about it which in turn becomes a negative force instead of a positive paradigm.

For years, I spent a great deal of my time enthralled in many causes of the day. There were so many injustices in the world and very little peace; life was seemingly so very unfair. I knew that my constant discussion, ranting and, at times, protesting of these issues was truly helping the world because I could make a difference by pointing all of these things out to others and would do so forcibly with my language if necessary. It was my personal mission to educate people on why the world was such a lousy place; not to mention question those that did not really see it that way.

Today, that person and those actions literally seem like someone else’s. In my years of supposedly supporting this cause or that one, I actually did very little to help create positive change for our planet; least of all making it more peaceful. I now understand that true peace is not about any outward manifestations in our world, it can only come from within. I also know that because life is absolutely what you make it despite any circumstances, that there are in actuality no true injustices; rather lessons that individuals need to learn or teach on their path not matter how difficult they are for us to comprehend. I also realized that much of the media, some corporations and many political systems are in the business of fear mongering; they must make us sick so we need them to get better.

I eventually decided to shift my focus from complaint and argument to restraint and understanding. I now live with the notion that if I desire change of some sort there must be action and it must be a complete reflection of that desired change. For instance, if my cause were peace; I would choose to conduct myself in a peaceful manner and lead by example to bring calm wherever I go. Or, if my cause were to promote honesty in business, I would conduct myself in that manner avoiding corruption and insincerity. In the past, I would have fought for peace and protested corruption; making my focus the very things I wanted to change. I now realize to truly advocate for change, it must first come from within and you simply must live it and spread it wherever you go. Making yourself a walking and talking example of that for which you advocate.

It seems our world is currently filled with many frustrated people over government, corporations, treatment of our planet and the sheer inhumanity that can exist. Many see their role as being an agent for change by criticizing what they do not like or want; taking it to the streets, asking for laws to ensure things change or organizing ways to harm those they view as the cause of injustice. While some of these methods might bring about a temporary fix, lasting results of a desired outcome must come in the form of the change you seek. Gandhi did not say we should talk, yell, argue or force the change we want to see in the world; he said to be it. Anything other than that simply perpetuates that for which you supposedly fight.

Seek not to convert nor condemn; rather merely to convey by being the example of what you desire in the world. As more and more and more of us turn inward for peace and express it outward with our actions and deeds, we will be able to have truly lasting transformation. That is the kind of change that can shift souls and create human awakening. Anything else is divisiveness in disguise; no matter how right or just the cause may seem.

If you seek to promote change of any kind; your must first seek it within and then extend it without. The world becomes a better place every time one person decides to become a better person; sharing that goodness with others without forcing opinions or passing judgment for not being or thinking the same. We are truly one, each connected; do you want to be connected to anger or peace? Once you are the reflection of your desires, you can only be surrounded by them; that is how you change the world from within.

READ: Change the World from Within was last modified: November 6th, 2011 by Gina

October 24, 2011 marks the second annual Global Oneness Day to celebrate the oneness of all life. Its purpose is to awaken oneness and celebrate our inner connection and outward diversity. While I believe more and more people are truly grasping the depth of our connectedness, I know that others can only give lip service to the concept. So, in honor of Global Oneness Day, I wanted to give a perspective on why it is important; why oneness matters.

In truth, it is actually the only thing that matters and I believe it is God’s will for us to discover and honor that we are all connected; we are one. Every living being shares the same light; some of us can see it, others can feel it and many do not detect it at all. This light that we share is from God, our Creator, the Universe; whatever your belief it comes from the Source of all life. It is our very essence and soul and each and every living being shares a part of it which is, in essence, what forms our connection.

This connection is never broken. We cannot destroy it with war, political parties, religious beliefs, sports teams, nations, racism or any other means that separate us from each other. To embrace our connection, you first have to embrace yourself. If you do not truly love and cherish your own being, then your connection to others probably will not be a concern. The oneness starts with you.

Everything thing you say and do does not only affect others in your life, it mostly affects you. This is not only because of the law of attraction; it is because we are all connected. When you hurt another, you hurt yourself; when you help another, you help yourself. And from there it grows and grows.

When a nation wages war, it harms its own citizens. When a nation engages in humanitarianism, it helps its own people. Boundaries and borders are of no consequence to our light connection, it exists with or without them. The only thing that separates us from each other is the human ego and all of its creations.

Instead of a history filled with cooperation, we have created one filled with separation. The result is always the same; we constantly cause our own demise. We cannot ever be divided because we are one, we cannot ever be disconnected because we are one. Every single act toward another living being is an act unto yourself. Every single interaction with another living being is an interaction with yourself.

That is why self-love is vital; if you cannot love yourself you cannot truly love another, but if you do love another you can love yourself. Oneness matters because you matter. Never again think that your treatment of other people will not have a profound and direct affect on you; good or bad.

Often people believe they cannot make a difference because they cannot directly affect all of the ills in the world. In actuality, what you do and say every single day affects everything and everyone. You are the world and the world is you. Jump in, celebrate our oneness and rejoice in our uniqueness for it is all a reflection of the light. Why does oness matter? Oneness matters because you matter!

In my intuitive reading business, Angel Works, I encounter many people who struggle with anger and related issues. Mostly, they struggle with realizing they are angry in the first place. I guess it’s because anger traditionally has such a bad reputation; I mean only vengeful, awful and terribly mean people who cannot be the least bit happy are truly angry right? Assumptions about anger can be almost as harmful as the toxic and negative emotion itself.

Frequently, people believe that being angry means holding onto some deep seated grudge, behaving unkindly or wishing ill will towards another. It is actually much more simple than that and the truth is, anger in any form is harmful. From minute irritations and daily frustrations to rage; it is all the same from an energetic stand point. Emotions are tied to our thoughts, conscious or subconscious, and our thoughts are energy; each one attracting the same energy back to it. We have become so accustomed to living with and tolerating a certain level of anger that we often cannot even recognize it any longer.

If you are exposed to or engage in any form of anger (annoyance, resentment, fury, irritation, frustration, etc…), than you are indeed subject to the resulting problems that can occur. This emotion brings with it a lot of nasty possible issues including dis-ease, blocks to manifesting, relationship problems, addiction, health issues, and more. Not to mention the cycle of chaos it creates as anger will certainly always beget more anger over and over again until the cycle is broken. Make no mistake, letting minor frustrations build over time or allowing your fury over a wrong-doing fester will ultimately only serve to hurt you the most.

When you live with negative emotions, you are letting someone or something control your life. You cannot be in flow when you are blocked with anger, no exceptions, and it does not really take much to create a block. Without flow, our lives are out of balance and there can be no lasting harmony or joy. Since anger is almost always tied to the past (meaning something that happened in the past), we cannot be focused in the present making the experience of real joy impossible. The present moment is reality and where all of our power lies; anger takes it away from you.

Awareness is a key first step in dealing with it, but how can you truly over come pent up anger? As the old sayings go, “forgiveness heals” and “to forgive is Divine”. I am not talking about calling every person that hurt you and telling them they are forgiven. And I am also not suggesting that to forgive is to condone any harmful actions of another. To forgive is in essence to let go of all your toxic emotions about a person or situation while holding onto the lessons and love; only you and God or your angels need to be involved. Once you release all of the stored rage, you become free of it; free to live in the present moment. And experience lasting joy.

It may take some time depending on your circumstances, but it is the most loving thing you can do for yourself and everybody deserves to be healed. I conquered years of anger with the helpful guidance of my angels and today I am fulfilling my life’s purpose to help others do the same. I constantly forgive in the moment now to ensure nothing related to anger is able to reside in my heart and take me out of alignment with my higher self. God’s will is peace on Earth and the angels’ mission is to help each of us achieve inner peace. However, peace cannot exist where anger resides so living with it is essentially against with God’s will. Allowing yourself to heal by surrendering your anger is part of the path to peace on Earth; achieved one person at a time.

If you are struggling with defeating your anger, seek the guidance of your angels. We each have guardian angels whose purpose is to help whenever we ask for it. Simply ask and they will counsel you through your intuition and instincts. If you cannot hear them because of self-doubt or disbelief, you can obtain their messages in a reading from someone who can. For more information about angels and angelic guidance readings, visit www.ginasendef.com and click on the Angel Works tab.

READ: I’m not Angry, am I? was last modified: October 15th, 2011 by Gina

Angels are with us always, they are celestial beings of pure, Divine love and light. Angels are created from God’s love and as such can only serve to bring about joy and peace; negativity cannot exist in their realm. The angels are here to protect, heal and guide us; bringing us closer to Heaven on earth. Each of us has a (usually 2) guardian angel and you can always request more to be with you at any time. These angels chose us and are here to guide us in our lives from the time we are born until we pass from this earth, no exceptions. The angels love us unconditionally and want to help us be happy and at peace, following God’s will for peace on earth.

As a Claircognizant Intuitive, I have chosen to work with the angelic realm to help others seek guidance from their angels to improve their health, discover their life’s purpose, enrich their relationships and improve their lives. During readings, I am often asked “how can my guardian angel(s) help me?” or “why do I have to struggle if my angels are here to help?” The answer is simple; it is humans that make it complicated.

The Law of Free Will is a gift to humankind from God. We have the freedom to choose whatever we want in this life. We create our lives, every second of every day we are manifesting our lives by the thoughts we have and the choices we make. Frequently, I hear people speak as if the circumstances of their life just happen to them, showing little thanks and offering constant blame on others and the world for their troubles. Unfortunately, people seldom take personal responsibility for all aspects of their lives; the good, the bad and the ugly.

When we recognize the Law of Free Will is in constant motion along with the Law of Attraction, we can no longer point fingers. God has allowed us to decide how our lives will unfold, but He has bestowed us with another gift to help, support and guide us. Our angels’ purpose is to serve, to help us find joy and peace. When a person is at peace, it brings our very planet closer to peace on Earth which is the will of God and the true purpose of angels. There is one rule, however, that prevents the angels from interfering, the Law of Free Will; our angels cannot help unless we ask.

Once you invite the angels into your life for help, you must be willing to surrender and accept. I have found that via the Law of Attraction, we can request our desires from the universe but it does not mean we will not have to do the work. It also does not mean that all will unfold according to our plan. The same is true when seeking assistance from your angels. The angels work in accordance with all universal laws (like the Law of Free Will and the Law of attraction). These laws exist as God’s way of teaching humankind and ensuring that our actions have consequences. When asking for help from our angels, we must realize the same rules are in place, surrender ourselves to their process and timing and be ready to listen to and accept their guidance.

Our angels will help us with literally anything; no task is too large or too small. People often tell me they do not want to bother their angels and yet, they are simply waiting to aid as it is their very purpose. Do not wait until life is unbearable to ask for their help; rather ask for it every day in any situation to avoid getting to an unbearable place. You do not need formal training or special invocations; simply state your request aloud or silently or you can even write it; the only thing to remember is to be thankful to God (the angels give all glory to God as we should).

I work with my angels for help with everything in my life; help finding a great parking space, help finding affordable services like landscaping, help organizing events, help with my writing, help with my relationships, my kids even ask for help on tests (they are straight A students!). I am so thankful for their assistance and so regretful when I forget to ask for help. Sometimes I will struggle with a situation and suddenly it will occur to me; ASK YOU ANGELS FOR HELP!

Once you ask for help, be ready to listen. Your angels will provide you guidance to resolve your situation in many different ways; learn to trust it. You may meet a person who can help, read an article with the advice you seek, hear a song with meaningful lyrics, get a new idea, or even hear a voice in your head. If you avoid these messages, your angels will not give up until you listen. Some other ways they communicate more strongly is ringing in your ears, found coins, feathers appearing out of nowhere, and repetitive number sequences; all of these are signs that your angels are trying to get your attention. The most common way they will send us messages is through our intuition. We all have intuitive gifts, it is that gut feeling or that pleasant voice in your head giving you guidance and ideas. It is vital to listen or follow your feelings because it is your angels communicating with you. When you do not follow your intuition, it leads to regret.

I often have people tell me they knew they should have followed their instincts but they ignored them out of fear only to regret it later. That fear is our ego and it will seek to take you away from angelic guidance. If the voice in your head is detrimental or negative, that is your ego talking; not your angels. Ignore your ego and trust your angels. We complicate matters when we ask for help and ignore the messages out of egoic fear. Turn away from the fear and have faith in your angels, if you are truly unsure you can ask your angels for a sign. Once you ask for a sign that their guidance is real, look for coins, feathers, and number sequences or the other signs mentioned earlier; you will know when you receive it.

When you are ready to make life easier and seek the help of your angels, the process is very simple. Ask, listen, trust and remember; gratitude is a must. If you are uneasy or unsure about it, an angelic reading is a wonderful introduction to working with your angels and learning more about them. These readings are positive affirmations of your angels love with a healthy dose of clear and direct guidance to solve your problems. Very different from a medium or psychic reading; angelic readings channel messages from your angels about any situation you like or general Divine guidance about your life. For more information about guardian angels, angelic readings and working with your angels, please visit Angel Works at www.ginasendef.com.

Divine Guidance from Heavenly Messengers was last modified: September 28th, 2011 by Gina

You can learn about a person’s true character by watching the way they treat animals. This poem is for those creatures that have no voice, who rely upon humanity for their loving care; it is the voice for all animals in kill shelters. It is also dedicated to our family dogs, Buddy and Max (pictures above) who were saved from kill shelters and found their forever family.

I Have no Voice

I have no voice to ask for what I need. I have no voice to tell you how I feel. I have no voice to share my sad story; but if I did maybe I would reveal…

My owners left me for one reason or another. I only wanted to cuddle and play, I tried not to be a bother. I am unable to say that I desperately want to live. I want the chance to have a family; I have so much love to give.

Many see me only as a number, filling up a crate and taking up resources; so I get a “sleep” date. If I could talk I might tell you all these things and more. I am God’s creature, put on earth for you to adore.

What if it was you who needed my help; left without anything or anybody, possibly in poor health?

I would never leave your side, I only know love. I would not desert you or give you a shove.

If you had no voice, you would still be treated kind. Your family would not force you to leave because you couldn’t read their mind.

Animals desperately need mankind’s caring to rely upon. Maybe they are here to teach us how to truly get along.

We can learn a lot from those who cannot speak. Mostly we can learn how a living being we should treat.

For those with no voice, I am happy to express what I know. Open your heart, save a life and adopt your pets; let your love flow!

The following is an excerpt from “Truth Works, Divine Life Lessons for Kids of All Ages”. The book will be released this fall; please visit www.ginasendef.com for information about pre-ordering a copy.

What could possibly be wrong with hope? When all else is gone, we always have hope; right? Not entirely. Hope as a form of faith is a positive and uplifting experience. However, if you cling desperately to hope in lieu personal responsibility than it becomes more of a problem instead of part of a solution; hope should never mean forgoing our own role in our lives. Unfortunately, too many people have made a habit of relying solely on hope to bring about miracles without actually partaking in the resolution of the issues they pray to improve.

The truth is; dependency on hope is a form of scarcity thinking. Too often, we live in hope when we should be creating hope; and that difference is vital to manifesting your dreams. Living in hope is a way of waiting and wishing for things to change and dreams to come true out of thin air; it’s an illusion. The Law of Attraction does not mean you will create your vision without effort. Sadly, most people think of their aspirations and then linger while doing nearly nothing to make them reality. Remaining passive in the hope that things and/or people will change to bring about your desires or happiness is both foolish and wasteful; so why do so many people do this?

It’s all about fear. If we actually took the time and made the effort towards achieving our desire or improving our circumstances, we might succeed OR we might fail. It is a fear of failure that precludes many from creating their lives and leaves them instead longing and wishing, or “hoping”.

Daily you will hear expressions of hope for one reason or another. Many of these hopeful statements are nothing more than an excuse for not having done the work or the right thing in the first place; only to end up relying on the magic of hope to fix our mess.

Living in hope imprisons you to believing there is nothing you can do but sit around and wait; wait for circumstances to change, wait for help, wait for a new boss, wait for a new government leader, wait for someone else to change. Many people are more willing to wait then to actually take responsibility and do something to fix their issues. Hope only works when you make it happen, not when you wait for it.

People who create hope see problems as opportunities, the do not stay idle while others do the work to bring about resolution. They do not use hope as a scapegoat for avoiding responsibility. They do not cling desperately to the notion of hope as their only answer.

We are all capable of overcoming anything but hope provides no help on its own. Hope is not about waiting, it’s about action. Hope is not the solution; it is the inspiration to find it. If you rely solely on hope, you are living in fear; fear of change, fear of failure, fear of success, fear of trying. Hope without action is living in the grips of your ego and it will ironically always lead to hopelessness.

When you understand that the nature of hope (and faith) is to provide encouragement for us to engage, then hope becomes your ally. Once you take part in making changes necessary for improvement, you will become part of the hope by inspiring others to follow. That’s when you are a creator of hope as opposed to a victim of it.

Hope is not the excuse to simply state you intentions and wait around. Hope means you pray and find the way to make it happen; having the faith that you can do it. Hope is about overcoming fear, not living in it. It means that you take risks, try new things, make mistakes, and listen to your intuition because that is how Heaven guides us. Hope offers the prayer and faith gives us the courage to follow through with the solution.

If you wait in hope, you are only offering the prayer or intention for what you want or need. We can pray all the time but if we do nothing afterwards the results will be nothing. Once you state an intention to God or your angels, you must be willing to first listen and then have to faith to follow through with the guidance you receive. When you give a prayer you must receive the advice that follows. Sure, Heaven will send help but God can only help those willing to help themselves.

The law of free will means that God and our guardian angels will not interfere in our lives unless we ask for help; but asking is only part of the remedy we seek. Whenever we ask, we hope for an answer but if we ignore the response or do not follow the guidance given then we have chosen for our situation not to improve. It’s like ordering a product from a catalog and then not opening it when it arrives; it’s useless.

Many people ignore Heaven’s guidance out of a lack of faith or ignorance. When we express our heart’s desire, hoping for it to be fulfilled, God will always provide help. It’s our willingness to use that help that matters after that. You will find answers if you are aware and you trust enough to take action. You may get the information you need, meet someone new who can help you, get a great idea, or sometimes it’s a blessing in disguise that will push us to change. Too often people ignore their intuitive ideas or dismiss Heaven’s help as their imagination or they do not take the action because they are afraid. Often, God presents us with new opportunities that may start as a problem that will lead to something better; our true desire is thrust upon us. In these situations, if you do not have faith you will sabotage the outcome.

Unfortunately, many people spend too much time asking “why me?” when they should be focusing on the blessing waiting at the end. They lose faith and sometimes don’t even try to have it. They wait, hoping for the best without taking action or with negativity behind their action. Negativity is fear and it will create blocks in manifesting. Like energy always attracts like energy especially when we are in a difficult situation; even when times are tough, you must remain positive and have faith that all will be well. Too often people hope for a change and then say something negative about their problems; attracting more of them.

Why hope for the best when you expect the worst? When you do this, you are using hope as your solution and the excuse to why you cannot achieve your goals. Furthermore, you are living in fear. Hoping for the best is futile if you refuse to take action; it will imprison you in a negative, stagnant cycle of disappointment wondering “why me?” Because if all you are willing to do is hope, then you are truly hoping for nothing.

For many people, the emotion of jealousy is as common as breathing. They envy what others have, how they look, what they do, where they live; all the while never being truly thankful for their own lives. Jealousy is definitely a monster, unfortunately the person it usually hurts the most is the one living with it.

When we covet what our neighbors’ posses, we become out of alignment with the manifesting powers of the universe. This imbalance can wreak havoc in many forms, starting with anger issues and ending with physical ailments. Jealousy is all about insecurity and our ego; always searching for more, never being satisfied and the unwitting need to compete. Our ego needs us to be the best and to have the most, when we don’t it produces a feeling of ill content that makes us seek to tear those who have what we want to shreds.

When we lose our connection to the Divine, we begin to see ourselves as separate beings and to see the world as having limitations. Those who struggle with jealousy are unaware of the universal abundance and their own manifesting power; they must take what they want instead of creating it. So, when they see somebody as having something that is desirable to them, the feel the need to destroy it on some level and that’s where the actions of envy come in to play.

It comes in a variety of styles and manners like snarky comments, gossip, arguments, rude remarks, resentment and even fits of rage. When the green eyed monster enters the room, his goal is to suck the enjoyment out and bring the person who has what he wants into his misery. Those who are insecure are truly at turmoil and they will unknowingly attempt to pull others into it with them; they cannot be sincerely happy for someone else because they are not satisfied with their own existence. The reasons for insecurity will vary but the outcome is always the same; when the monster strikes somebody always gets hurt.

Coming from a place of understanding will help if you are “attacked” with jealous behavior. We’ve all been in a position where we share good news with a friend or relative and their response is negative, mean, rude or indifferent. Make no mistake; that is jealousy. When somebody cannot unconditionally celebrate your achievement, they are battling insecurity and behaving poorly because of it. The key is not to engage with their lackluster response; we do not need others to make us feel good about our success. Showing disappointment or arguing will only feed the green eyed monster; it’s best to ignore it, realizing that this person’s pain far outweighs your need for them to be happy for you or to defend yourself.

This is an especially important lesson for children as jealousy can run rampant quickly among youth. I’ve seen children act incredibly mean to one another because one had a toy they wanted or got a cookie when they didn’t or was better at soccer etc… Making children aware that they should be happy for others is important for their self worth and their self image. We do not have to be better to be successful; real success comes from fulfillment not achievement.

It is much better to admire people for their achievements; this puts you in alignment with their success because it means it is possible for you to accomplish as well. Admiration is about respect and unlimited potential, jealousy is about contempt and limited probabilities. When you turn from envy to appreciation, you kick all of the negativity to the curb and change your energy to one of manifestation instead of ingratitude.

Taming the Green Eyed Monster merely requires an awareness of behavior. When you recognize it, pay no attention and turn the other cheek. When you feel its presence in your own responses, remember admiration and be happy for what others have because it means it is possible for you too.

I have a surprising confession and only a few people know this about me; I am transformed political news junky. I had a long standing on and off love affair with political news and it always got worse around national elections. By 2010 it had escalated and I was on the hard stuff nearly every day; cable news. By the time I quit, cold turkey by the way, I was an anxiety riddled, angry mess. I knew I had to get out or I’d risk being in an incessant bad mood for, well, the rest of my life!

I had not watched any and I truly mean any political news coverage (or really news coverage of any sort) for a couple of years but I inadvertently tuned in on July 25, 2011 because the President came on during a show I was watching and I figured it might be important. I had heard little snippets here and there about the ongoing budget debate and the grid-locked arguments that continued to ensue as the deadline drew ever closer. Within in minutes of each speech, I was instantly reminded why I got out and now I know for sure I cannot go back given the present condition.

For me, it was never about political parties or my beliefs, the reason I had to break free from all things politics was because of the blatant fear mongering common among journalists and politicians alike. I eventually became overwhelmed with a sense of doom and gloom and grew very weary of each side picking the other apart in an attempt to win over the sentiment of the American people. The politics of fear is a tool that seems to be at the forefront of most of our governmental issues; I cannot speak for other countries but I would not be at all surprised if there were similarities.

Every single topic that requires a vote seemingly brings about a fire storm of less than friendly and utterly ego driven debate. I’m not talking about the type of ego related to our self worth, although that definitely comes into play; I’m talking about the ego of our mind that is our false self. The political arena is ripe with opportunities for all follies of the human ego with anger and his pal fear leading the proverbial pack.

As I awakened and became more and more aware of my ego, the negative sound track in my head began to quiet and I realized what was truly important and what was absolute noise of the ego to distract us from it; media coverage of most government related events definitely fell into the noise category for me. Knowing that we are all connected and share the same light of our Creator changed my perception of divisive fields like politics (among others) and helped me understand why people feel the need to be right, to complain, to argue, and to breed fear. I also knew that I could no longer engage in activities involved with that type of negativity because it dragged me right into those emotions and sapped my energy.

So, as I watched the President followed by the Speak of the House in their speeches the other evening, I saw more of the same finger pointing, blaming, tattling, exaggeration and, most of all, fear mongering. There appears to be a belief in politics that you must make them sick to prove how you can make them better and to do that you simply point all the “bad” things that will happen if there is no support for your idea. It’s all about limits; everything in the world is in an extremely limited supply according to politicians and that is the complete opposite of what I know to be true.

Since we create our lives, there is only abundance in all things if we choose to see it. Listen to a poktician defending a point of view for 5 minutes though and you might begin to question it. Why? It’s quite simple really; if we can create the lives we want than what would we need all of these politicians to do for us? So, to keep us thinking we need something might actually not they create possible problems and instill fear of lacking supply, of evil doers, of economic woes, of big business bastards and the list goes on and on. Don’t get me wrong, there are definitely world problems to be solved however no solution will ever arrive in the midst of a fight based in endless egoic chaos.

Until the day that only facts are presented and the truth is not over blown to make a point or until those with differing opinions can agree to disagree and still reach common ground for the common good I will be tuned out of politics. In the current state of affairs, I do not speak the same language as our politicians and I cannot comprehend the constant, uncompromising and ineffective back and forth without resolution that exists in their realm. When it is not longer the Politics of Fear but rather the Politics of Practicality, I might start listening again.

Anger and the Gang (Rudeness, Sarcasm, Cynicism and More)
Recently, a debate was sparked on FaceBook when I posted this question/statement as my status; “Being rude to people is nothing more than deep down anger; what are so many people so angry about? Do not engage and simply smile”. The post was in response to something I read about being rude and why people choose to put negative energy like that into the universe. I was surprised by the reaction of my declaration that rudeness was tied to anger; it actually made people kind of, well, angry.

What was most shocking was the level to which things escalated and how quickly it got there. Why does my, or anybody else’s, opinion really matter? Why the need to furiously defend why we believe what we believe to the brink of nastiness? To me, the answer is very clear; it’s ironically all about anger. I am not trying to uphold my statement, for me personally it is the truth and that is all I need. However, I feel the topic is so vital that it requires explanation.

So what exactly is rudeness? I guess it is probably very different things to each and every person based upon what types of behavior you are willing to tolerate. As a mother of 3 young children, I will tell you that kids can be socially rude and that it has nothing to do with rage, usually just innocent inconsideration. That being said, I have seen many parents react with total outrage to their little ones lack of social graces; which of course turns the minor, laughable gaffe into an uncomfortable mess that teaches the child nothing about their manner’s related faux pas and leaves them feeling hurt and confused.

The rudeness that hangs out with anger usually comes in the form of snarky or cruel sarcasm, disrespectful attitudes, offensive responses and extreme impoliteness. We have all experienced a person of this sort and many of us engage right back because that type of energy can be contagious. It happens everywhere every single day; at sporting events (even children’s sports), in school, at the office, at home, at family gatherings, etc… It has become an ugly habit in our society, to treat each other poorly, and it must stop. We have become so accustomed to rudeness that many do not even recognize it any longer.

The amount of cynical and unbelievably hurtful things people say daily is staggering; but because they wrap it in supposed humor and tie it with a ribbon of “just joking” that makes it okay? It truly does not; anger is anger and just because you are smiling or laughing when you spew it does not raise the vibration of negativity it delivers once said.

I am often amazed at what people find humorous. People actually pay money to hear others mock, tease and ridicule other countries, certain types of people, the opposite sex, entire occupations, and the list goes on depending upon whom it is they fear. When you are putting people down, jokingly or otherwise, it is based in fear and insecurity and those are just part of Anger’s gang.

It seems that many people only consider anger to be in the form of irate arguments in which there must be yelling and screaming. While that is definitely true, it’s far from the extent that this emotion covers. Anger comes in lots of forms and when it builds up over time, it can spill out as insolence, defensiveness, cynicism, anxiety and more. Countless statements are relayed daily that most assume are not said in anger but they are absolutely based in it. When you aggressively defend your beliefs in a conversation or sarcastically joke about the lifestyle choices of another or refuse be kind to a waitress because he/she made a simple error or post a cynical comment on a blog about a news story; you are indeed playing with anger. Maybe it’s not the driving force behind your actions because you don’t necessarily feel mad, but make no mistake that acting in this manner is a bi-product of anger; you just might not be aware of it.

Every time we are annoyed, irritated, enraged, infuriated or simply upset over something or somebody; it is stored within our being. Even when we have supposedly gotten over the matter, it remains. Releasing toxic emotions through meditation, chakra cleansing, yoga and other spiritual means is a beneficial way to ensure anger does not foster and bring its friends along (rudeness, sarcasm and cynicism) to take over; sometimes we don’t even realize when it happens.

So how can we distinguish anger and the gang from truly humorous and witty repartee? It’s actually quite easy; how does what you or somebody else says make you feel? Not just on an emotional level, but within your intuition. What message are you receiving when you hear a friend tear down another friend with a sarcastic, joking statement? Really listen to the words, the tone and ask yourself what reason there is to speak this way? If it truly is just to be funny, than you would not need to do it at the expense of another; judgment is judgment even when it is humorous. Needing to bring others down to make yourself feel better denotes insecurity and an annoyance over not measuring up in some way. It’s never really about just cracking a joke.

Then there is the art of debate; when does conveying an opinion cross into anger territory? Another easy answer, when it becomes defensive. Conversing with others and talking about why we believe something is fine, even healthy. However, needing others to believe what we do and judging them when they don’t does cross a line into unhealthy. When I hear people debating or see it online I can always tell that it starts friendly and then there is a turning point where cynicism rears its ugly head and the only goal is to slaughter the opponent with an even wittier and more hurtful retort to vehemently defend our point. Why the need to demolish the beliefs of others? It’s all about insecurity and the anxious need to control. If your goal is not to convert nor condemn but merely to convey then you will simply state your stance and never feel the need to defend it; only to define it. Once you begin using the language of justification, anger has stepped in.

When faced with these tactics, it truly is best not to engage. Participation is degrading humor, gossip, cynical debate and rude exchanges will only exacerbate the negative energy surrounding these behaviors. When we choose to ignore or walk away, we end the cycle and restore positive energy; when we do not, we become part of the anger. Awareness is vital and will help you determine if anger or one of his buddies has come for a visit; best to not let any of them in and politely shut the door.

Anger and the Gang (Rudeness, Sarcasm, Cynicism and More) was last modified: July 21st, 2011 by Gina

That old saying your mom used to tell you to get you to eat your veggies, “you are what you eat”, is completely true. If you fill your body with junk food and unhealthy substances your resulting health will match. But the sentiment really goes so much further than the food we eat. Our lives are a direct reflection of everything we ingest; the words we hear, whether from our own mouths/brains or another’s, will make an imprint on our soul and shape our existence. If your life is not going how you would desire, maybe you are feeding your soul “junk food”.

It starts right from birth, we hear people saying words all around us and those words form the energy of our environment. Anybody who grew up in a home filled primarily with negative or angry words knows the profound affect they can have on your subconscious beliefs. Conversely, growing up in a positive, loving home will also have an effect on your subconscious beliefs. Neither situation is a guarantee to a life filled with your dreams, but it is much easier to manifest your desires if you hold positive subconscious beliefs based in love and light.

Even the most seemingly innocent clichés and sayings can be harmful. For instance, my parents always used to say things like “money does not grow on trees’ or “we’re not rich ya’ know” when I’d ask them to buy me something. Of course, since this is their unconscious belief, I have watched them struggle with their finances my entire life; never quite having the security they’d like because of their “take what you can get” attitude about the flow of money. I recently noticed I had been repeating the pattern in my own life, saying a lot of statements like “we can’t afford that right now” or “we may not be rich but we are blessed”. I was clinging to what I was taught and repeating it for my own kids to learn from me. I now have replaced those types of negative statements with “let’s save for that item and purchase it soon” or “we are blessed and have plenty of money to share and spare”.

Limiting beliefs of scarcity are based in fear and words that support them must be avoided. Whether it’s in your head or out loud, what you say or think will absolutely manifest in your life. And we do it so easily; daily I hear many people say various forms of the following :”I’m tired”, “I do not have time to work out”, “I hate grocery shopping”, “I’m broke”, ________ is a pain in my butt”, “my ______ bothers me”, “I don’t like ______”, “I can’t________” and so on to infinity. If you tell the universe how negative your reality is; that is exactly what you will get more of. Negativity always breeds more negativity; fortunately the same is true for positivity.

Changing our speech and thoughts to positive terms and affirmations will change our lives; all you have to do is break any habits of negativity. It’s as simple as replacing “can’t” with “can” or “don’t” with “do” and finding positive phrases to replace frequently used negative clichés. For instance, I was known around my house to constantly say “I’m tired” and I have replaced it with” I have had a very fulfilling day and would like to rest now”. My family is committed to helping each other by pointing out all of our various negative statement habits and finding positive replacements to ensure positive results.

We must also be careful with our choices of entertainment. Songs, television programs, video games and movies with negative or violent themes can have an adverse impact upon us; especially if they are ones we watch, play or listen to often. As a mom, one area that is of great concern to me is the way in which my children spend their time. We do not watch the news, we do not play violent video games, and we do not listen to songs with hateful lyrics. I tell my kids I love them enough not to give them junk food, and that goes for their bodies as well as their souls.

Becoming aware and making changes to move to a more positive perspective will have a huge bearing in not only your life, but on the world. We emit the energy that envelops our lives; when your life is filled with mostly negative experiences, that is the energy you send into our universe. When you experience mostly positivity in all aspects of your life, you will send positive energy into the world. This is especially important when faced with news of a global crisis or tragedy. Often, when we hear of dire circumstances, we automatically want to express our concern with sad, negative words; although we do this from a place of love, it will only add to the problem. Instead, we should focus our words and thoughts on a positive resolution or sending love to those directly affected; this will ensure that we do not add negative energy but send only positive, loving energy.

Recently, there have been many news stories about the protests in Greece and across Europe over the economy and I have noticed the reaction of most people is usually either anger or fear. Anger towards governments because of what has happened in those countries or fear that it will happen in their own country. Neither of those reactions is positive and they will only add to the negativity of the situation. That type of thinking supports a mentality of scarcity; that money is in limited supply and we are each entitled to our share of it. Feeling entitled to anything removes personal responsibility for manifesting it and essentially our freedom to create it. Money is limitless and so is the flow of abundance and prosperity; negative thoughts about it being limited will only serve to make it so in your life. No matter what your opinion of the situation, the conditions of any economy should not be spoken of in a negative fashion. It is best to speak positively about local and global economies despite current circumstances, helping to heal them by not adding to the negativity and avoiding those limiting beliefs from becoming your own reality.

A wise teacher of my son once said, the words we say and hear enter our ears and rest in our hearts; they can fill our hearts with love or fill our hearts with hate. Negativity is not love so why put any pessimistic words into the universe that could enter into a single heart. Why allow your ears to hear garbage as a way to pass the time. Although it may seem like no big deal to watch a newscast filled with stories of crime and corruption or to play a video game with the objective of killing others or to watch a movie with more fight scenes then love scenes or to listen to a song about hatred; remember that each impression we see or hear fills our hearts and touches our souls in ways we cannot imagine and can no longer ignore.

We are what we Eat (Hear, Read, Watch, Think and Say) was last modified: June 24th, 2011 by Gina

While elephants might be fun to see at the circus, you certainly do not want to live with one; yet so many people do. The elephant in the room is not a fun house mate; they take up lots of space and can be rather cumbersome to hide. So why do we exert so much time and energy concealing our 2 ton friends when it would be so much easier to face them and make them disappear? It’s a question I have had to deal with my entire life.

For years growing up, my family fed and cared for an enormous elephant; he was angry, irresponsible, inappropriate, unreliable and brought a lot of chaos to our home. My father’s alcoholism was down played and ignored and to this day I am not sure why. I guess dealing with it would have meant embarrassment and a change of life style my parents did not want to embrace. So instead we hid our elephant inside a tent of secrets, jokes, excuses, and lies.

Since my dad’s drinking was never totally out of control, he convinced us and himself that he just liked to “have a good time”. Disappearing after work and not calling my mom for hours on end every so often was no big deal, getting layed off on occasion was just par for the course in his business, drinking at lunch was what all the guys did, hitting a stop sign with my new car and trying to cover it up until the police tried to arrest me was a simple misunderstanding. My family was guilty of hiding this elephant out of love and caring for my dad because family should stick together, right? I did not realize until I was in my 40’s that feeding elephants is not done out of love or caring, it’s done out of fear.

We were all afraid to face the truth of the problem and had become accustomed to living with a lie; so much so that it was no longer a lie to us. I finally admitted to it and dealt with my issues of co-dependency and I now do not live with that elephant although my parents still do; but I now know that is there issue to resolve and not mine. I now live in a world where I face issues head on and will not hide from anything; it’s not perfect but it’s better than life under the big top with a multitude smelly elephants.

That’s the thing about living with an elephant, it starts off as one to disguise some problem but he soon invites lots of friends. When you hide from an issue, others will always manifest. For my family; my mother drank and over ate to cover up her pain and now has a multitude of health problems as a result, my sister had terrible asthma as a child and I hung out with intense anger as my companion for many years (and he still tries to visit me on a regular basis). Covering up anything will only result in anger and resentment for those involved. Whenever something is done out of fear, anger is not far behind and anger is the culprit that brings along entire herds of elephants. Before you know it, your life is a circus.

The way out for me finally came when I grew weary of living with so much anger that I could not be happy in what everyone else knew was an incredible life. We had just built our dream home; I had a husband who loved me and 3 sweet kids who only wanted to spend time with mommy. But I could not enjoy it because angry outbursts over nothing always got in my way. Of course, my parents told me I was just feisty growing up, but I now know that was just another elephant in our ever growing herd. I was ultimately driven to searching for a means to deal with my fury but since I was only treating the symptom, none had any long lasting effects.

One day, I went to a medium on a whim with a good friend. During my reading, she mentioned my anger and said I needed to deal with my co-dependency. I had no idea why, why would I be considered co-dependent? While driving home that night, it FINALLY occurred to me why I am co-dependent and I set my elephant free on that dark, cold road. Soon after, I read everything I could about co-dependency and performed most of the related exercises until I felt at peace. It did not take long to feel better but I do still struggle with my anger today because, although the elephant may not live with me any longer, he still hangs around my parents and I hate smelling him.

Since then, I have observed that most people live with an elephant of some sort. Over time the elephant(s) can get so big that it will crush you. If you have one living with you, please stop feeding it immediately and set yourself free; free of life under the big top. There is nothing to fear and everything to gain by releasing the burdensome weight of living with elephants.

My daughter came home from school one day; she was in 6th grade and very upset. She received her first formal warning ever, during Language Arts, for what she felt was not a very good reason. The teacher had asked the class to be quiet on several occasions that day; he finally told them that the next person to speak would receive a “Step” or written warning. Two seconds later, she asked him what page they were on in their book and subsequently received a Step. When she asked why, the teacher exclaimed because “life is not fair!” She told me he said that to the class all the time, it was basically his motto. It left her feeling very unclear and uneasy; I assured it is not true and the statement goes against everything we believe.

The truth is; life is actually neither fair nor unfair; it is simply what you make of it. The Law of Attraction means that life is made up of what you attract into it. There are many perople, especially adults, who would absolutely disagree with me and argue endlessly to defend their point of life being “not fair”. They are wrong but perhaps do not know enough to realize it. They mean well, I believe that when something bad or unpleasant happens, telling children that “life is not fair” is simply a way to help them cope or try to understand the randomness of the world. Nonetheless, it is harmful and incorrect.

The Law of Attraction or the theory of Quantum Physics is quite simple; like energy attracts like energy. Every thought we have and word we speak emits energy so it is very important to remember that, when it comes to energy, like attracts like. Therefore, if we posses mostly positive thoughts and speech about people and situations, we will attract positive people and situations and vice versa. Where it can get complex is when you become aware of your thoughts, every single one of them. You see, for most people, they are not aware of their very own thoughts. Many people are not aware of their ego (the negative, false voice relentlessly yapping inside our heads) or the subconscious beliefs it creates and therefore are not really aware of their thoughts and what they are potentially attracting into their life.

Becoming conscious of your ego and controlling your thoughts is a huge step in attracting what you truly want into your life. The ego loves negativity so a lesson like “life is unfair”, is an idea our ego would take hold of and exacerbate if allowed. The ego, however, is not stronger than your true self. Your soul is connected to the Creator and the highest power of love and nothing is stronger. Simply being aware that the random thoughts in your head, those negative messages, are not real is enough to smash the ego. The ego cannot handle the truth and it tends to become quieter once it is exposed.

Awareness is the key and intuition is the tool that helps you become aware. Intuition is why you feel uneasy in certain situations or even with certain beliefs you have been taught. It is our intuition that will help expose egoic thoughts and beliefs. When something is not really the truth on a universal level, you will know it based on the way you feel when hearing or thinking about it. So, when you hear a statement like “life is not fair”, ask a few questions of yourself. Does it make you feel good? Does it feel like a positive message? Does it make you feel uneasy? If you are silent and still, you will find that these types of negative statements do not feel right in the pit of your stomach or the center of your heart.

When you do not feel right it is because you know what you are hearing or seeing is not completely true, its energy is not aligned with the highest energy of God. In reality, “Life is not fair” is nothing more than excuse to dismiss what somebody may or may not have done in their own life to obtain their dreams or fulfill their life’s purpose. When somebody does not care for the circumstances of their life, such as a job, a home, their spouse, their family; they turn to declaring “life is not fair” as a way to understand why life has turned out this way. Instead of blaming life, examine the choices made you’ve and beliefs you’ve held; only changing those will bring about your desires. If you believe that life is not fair, you will continue to attract the same outcome that brought you to that conclusion.

Another use of this life lesson often comes up to explain away tragic situations. When a sudden death occurs or a natural disaster; adults often refer to the unfairness of the situation. In truth, everything in the universe is Divinely ordered; all is always as it is supposed to be in the present moment. Yes, tragedy can be extremely difficult to deal with and explain, especially to children. Yet teaching or thinking that life is not fair is a tragedy in itself. Sometimes explanation is not possible because you cannot possibly know everything that was occurring before a tragedy struck. You can never know what a person was attracting into their life; you can never know why a natural disaster occurred in a certain area. These are God’s plans and the reason is not for a human to comprehend.

You cannot ease sorrow over a tragedy with a statement like “life is not fair”. It actually makes it worse and sets up a self-sabotaging belief that is harmful and untrue. Misfortune is an important teacher and you should be allowed to examine it when it strikes. Sometimes it is through heartbreak and struggle that we gain strength and bond with others. It is through difficult times, like the loss of a job or home, that we get creative and try or learn new things and meet new people. If you have faith that all happens for a reason that you may not understand yet, you will make it through difficult times without the need to blame life or others for what is happening.

The road to your life’s purpose will not be smooth. There will be bumps and bends to teach you what you need to know. Have faith in God, in yourself and if you are scared or sad, remember it may be your ego talking. When something happens and you cannot explain it, don’t try and just have faith. Forget about fair and focus on life. You can either make it what you want or make excuses for it.

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Angels are with us always, they are celestial beings of pure, Divine love and light. Angels are created from God’s love and as such can only serve to bring about joy and peace; negativity cannot exist in their realm. The angels are here to protect, heal and guide us; bringing us closer to Heaven on earth. Each of us has a guardian angel; you can have one or several and can always request more. These angels chose us and are here to guide us in our lives from the time we are born until we pass from this earth, no exceptions. The angels love us unconditionally and want to help us be happy and at peace, following God’s will.

As a Claircognizant Intuitive, I have created Angel Works and chosen to work with the angelic realm to help others seek guidance from their angels to improve their health, discover their life’s purpose, enrich their relationships and improve their lives. During readings, I am often asked “how can my guardian angel(s) help me?” or “why do I have to struggle if my angels are here to help?” The answer is simple; it is humans that make it complicated.

The Law of Free Will if a gift to humankind from God. We have the freedom to choose whatever we want in this life. We create our lives, every second of every day we are manifesting our lives by the thoughts we have and the choices we make. Frequently, I hear people speak as if the circumstances of their life just happen to them, showing little thanks and offering constant blame on others and the world for their troubles. Unfortunately, people seldom take personal responsibility for all aspects of their lives; the good, the bad and the ugly.

When we recognize the Law of Free Will is in constant motion along with the Law of Attraction, we can no longer point fingers. God has allowed us to decide how our lives will unfold, but He has bestowed us with another gift to help, support and guide us. Our angels’ purpose is to serve, to help us find joy and peace. When a person is at peace, it brings our very planet closer to peace on Earth which is the will of God and the true purpose of angels. There is one rule however that prevents the angels from interfering, the Law of Free Will. Our angels cannot help unless we ask.

When you invite the angels into your life for help, you must be willing to surrender and accept. I have found that via the Law of Attraction, we can request our desires from the universe but it does not mean we will not have to do the work. It also does not mean that all will unfold according to our plan. The same is true when seeking assistance from your angels. The angels work in accordance with universal laws (like the Law of Free Will and the Law of attraction). These laws exist as God’s way of teaching humankind and ensuring that our actions have consequences. When asking for help from our angels, we must realize the same rules are in place and be able to surrender ourselves to their process and timing and also be ready to listen and accept.

Our angels will help us with literally anything; no task is too large or too small. People often tell me they do not want to bother their angels and yet, they are simply waiting to aid as it is their very purpose. Do not wait until life is unbearable to ask for their help; rather ask for it every day in any situation to avoid getting to that place. You do not need formal training or special invocations; simply state your request aloud or silently or you can even write it; the only thing to remember is to be thankful to God (the angels give all glory to God as we should).

I work with my angels for everything; help finding a great parking space, help finding affordable services like landscaping, help organizing events, help with my writing, help with my relationships, my kids even ask for help on tests (they are straight A students!). I am so thankful for their assistance and so regretful when I forget to ask for help. Sometimes I will struggle with a situation and suddenly it will occur to me; ASK YOU ANGELS FOR HELP!

Once you ask for help, be ready to listen. Your angels will provide you guidance to resolve your situation in many different ways; learn to trust it. You may meet a person who can help, read an article with the advice you seek, hear a song with meaningful lyrics, get a new idea, or even hear a voice in your head. If you avoid these messages, your angels will not give up until you listen. Some other ways they communicate more strongly is ringing in your ears, found coins, feathers appearing out of nowhere, and repetitive number sequences; all of these are signs that your angels are trying to get your attention. The most common way they will send us messages is through our intuition. We all have intuitive gifts, it is that gut feeling or that pleasant voice in our head giving guidance and ideas. It is vital to listen or follow your feelings because it is your angels communicating with you. When you do not follow your intuition, it leads to regret.

I often have people tell me they knew they should have followed their instincts but they ignored them out of fear only to regret it later. That fear is our ego and it will seek to take you away from angelic guidance. If the voice in your head is detrimental or negative, that is your ego talking; not your angels. Ignore your ego and trust your angels. We complicate matters when we ask for help and ignore the messages out of egoic fear. Turn away from the fear and have faith in your angels, if you are truly unsure you can ask your angels for a sign. Once you ask for a sign that their guidance is real, look for coins, feathers, and number sequences (Doreen Virtue’s “Angel Numbers” is a great reference for numbers and their meanings).

When you are ready to make life easier and seek the help of your angels, the process is very simple. Ask, listen and trust and remember; gratitude is a must. If you are uneasy or unsure about it, an angelic reading is a wonderful introduction to working with your angels and learning more about them. These readings are positive affirmations of your angels love with a healthy dose of clear and direct guidance to solve your problems. Very different from medium or psychic reading; angelic readings channel messages from your angels about any situation you like or general Divine guidance about your life. For more information about angelic readings and working with your angels, please visit Angel Works at www.ginasendef.com.

Receiving Divine Guidance from Heavenly Messengers was last modified: May 30th, 2011 by Gina

What I am about to say may be viewed as controversial and to some, even crazy, but I know I must express the sentiment. The death of Osama bin Laden makes me sad; not in the traditional way that a person’s death is sad, this emotion is born of disappointment and concern. Although this man was killed seeking justice for his atrocities, the aftermath of this situation is distressing on a spiritual level and it makes me think of the incredible growth opportunity humanity may be missing in light of this news.

This, like many turning point moments and tragedies, is a cosmic test of sorts. I believe that when the world is faced with a challenge of this magnitude, we each have a choice. We can engage in the same cycle of hatred that got us here or, we can rise above and elevate the very energy of our planet with love and compassion. Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. said it best; “I mourn the loss of thousands of precious lives, but I will not rejoice in the death of one, not even an enemy. Returning hate for hate multiplies hate, adding deeper darkness to a night already devoid of stars. Darkness cannot drive out darkness: only light can do that. Hate cannot drive out hate: only love can do that”

This is actually a decision each and every one of us has to make every single day on a much lesser level. Do I flip off the guy who cut me off in traffic or do I simply let it be? Do I spew angry words at the waitress who got my order wrong or do I simply let it be? Do I hold a grudge toward a neighbor who let their dog poop on my lawn or do I simply let it be? Do I gossip about a friend who hurt my feelings or do I simply let it be? On a universal level, returning anger, fear or hatred to those that sent it your way makes you no different that the person who started it. Furthermore, it only exacerbates the negativity because like will attract like via the Law of Attraction.

If you choose to engage in anger, you will always attract more. We all have free will and can elect to act however we want; however, no thought or action is without consequences. While it may seem just to hate certain people because of their heinous deeds; we are still spreading hatred. We have the power to instead let it be.

It’s as simple as not paying attention to the ongoing media frenzy and late night jokes; alternatively spending our time focused on positivity. There are people in pain because these circumstances bring back agonizing memories of lost loved ones or fear over retaliation. The world needs our positive energy, compassion and love; spend your time sending those forces out in droves not reviewing the life, times and death details of a man devoid of these emotions.

Just as anger attracts more anger, the same is true with loving energy. Because love is the most positive and highest of all energy, it amplifies more than negativity. From an energetic standpoint, love truly is much more powerful than hate. This is our opportunity to rise above and raise the energy level of humanity and we can do it one person at a time.

The choice is yours, here is what I have decided and I hope you will join me. I will not participate in any forms of hatred, even when faced with someone who is despicable. Engaging with the insane is true insanity. Yes, there is fear, but I hand it to God and have faith that light will always prevail over darkness in the long run. Love is more powerful than anger and so my focus is on sending positive energy to those who were hurt by the actions of any terrorism. When more people find the strength to do this, the cycle of anger and revenge will finally be broken which will inevitably make room for peace on Earth.

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However sometime's growth involves digging up the dirt and planting anew...
And after over 20 years of marketing, promoting and producing others Shayne Traviss decided to open a new chapter in his life.
If you long to go higher, live a life 'all in' join him as he dives in deep sharing his life experiences, travels and inspirations for living a VividLife.