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About Me

Well, I've learned never to say to a woman that she is wearing sensible shoes. I've discovered that I wear about one-fifth of my wardrobe over and over, so why did I buy the rest? I've realized that some quick decisions, like buying my Prius, turn out much better than things I consider with great care. hm.
I suppose I could say that I'm a good-natured professor. I'll treat you well and create romance when you're down and hope that you will do the same. I'm confident, loyal, attentive, normal, and communicative-I'm passionate about my career but I also aim to strike a healthy balance in life. I teach students about international security and foreign policy and sometimes go to Washington DC or abroad to do research and consult. In my free time, I like to enjoy the better things in life such as world travel, art exhibits, dancing, cafe chit chat, sporting events, and time at one of VA's or NC's great beaches--
On the physical side, I keep in fairly good shape and my build is athletic-muscular. I can be active or laid back, though I'm not a type to run five miles a day.
My career is very good, and I'm now looking to meet someone right, and I don't mind much if I have to go a distance to meet new people. In my view, at least, a good long distance relationship beats a so-so one close to home. Where there is a will, there is a way, as they say. My favorite quote: "The heart has reasons that reason does not know." (Pascal) My favorite band is: "U2." I can listen to "Streets with No Name," and "One" over and over again. I was actually stopped two times, in California and Belize, and asked if I was "Bono." I should have said "yes." I will give out an autograph, next time.

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Why am I asked to respond to the questions as a child?

Any woman who has more than one child can tell you how different each child is from birth. You are born with your personality intact. The Color Code is based on your natural, innate personality type. Of course, people may change over time, but your Core Color will always remain the same.

How do I respond to those questions where I don't really fit any of the four options?

Sometimes it is difficult to choose from the four options given, but there is usually one that fits better than the rest, or at least one that you could see yourself as more so than the others. If you're still unsure, try asking someone who knows you well, such as a parent or sibling. They can give clarity on areas of your personality that you may not notice.