I'm a Sag Sun, Cancer Moon, Venus in Scorpio, Mars in Aries, Libra Rising. Though, My Libra rising is on the very last degree, so it feels more like Libra/Scorpio cusp. My Venus, Pluto and Vesta are all in Scorpio, 1st house. I have a lot of aspects with my Scorpio planets.

His Lilith is quite strong in our synastry chart, as well:

Lilith Conjunction Mercury Orb 1°13'

Lilith Conjunction Sun Orb 3°37'

Lilith Opposite Jupiter Orb 0°56'

Lilith Trine MC Orb 1°45'

Lilith Trine Mars Orb 3°43'

Lilith SesquiQuadrate Moon Orb 1°51' (minor aspect, I know)

Lilith SemiSextile Saturn Orb 0°05'

Here's my Lilith (in Libra, 11th house) aspecting him:

Lilith Conjunction Pluto Orb 2°21'

Lilith Square Venus Orb 2°19'

Lilith Sextile Neptune Orb 1°59'

According to some, Lilith in man's chart is a woman he wants and fears the most. Does that mean he might want me and be afraid of that or what?