A German newspaper has revealed that Theresa May's dinner with European Commission President Jean-Claude Juncker last Wednesday was a total disaster. Leaked details of the proceedings show the extent of the breakdown in relations. No-deal Brexit now...

So to sum up the EU want everything paid for and offer nothing in return

What do you suppose they should be offering? Of course Britain has financial commitments it should settle if it ever wants to engage in trade deals with any other countries. But Britain has opted to leave because we don't want to comply with the EU's rules. That's not the EU's fault. I don't see that they are really obliged to offer us anything.