Have you told?

I've had problems before so I'm waiting until after my first sonogram which isn't until October 30th...seems like an eternity!! My husband and two best friends are the only ones that know. I just want to tell the world lol...thank god for this birth club...keeps me grounded!

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We did tell. We planned on waiting, a bit, but I told one of my best friends and then another one of my very close friends asked me to be in her wedding which is July 25, 2009 (only 5 weeks after my due date) so I had to be honest with her. I didn't feel right not letting my mom know, so we told our parents and we could have just left it at that, but my mil posted it on her myspace page (yeah, she has myspace). Now LOTS of people know. I haven't told my manager yet, but I will after my first dr appt next week.

We've told our parents and close friends. We've been trying for many many months, and I have some medical conditions that made getting pregnant sketchy. So everyone who is close to us asks monthly about our progress. There was no lying. I was so excited. Anyone could look at my face and tell I was pregnant!!

We are planning to wait till Thanksgiving to tell the family if we can. Right now only my husband and I know and it is getting harder not to tell everyone! and I'm only 5 weeks in! Sheesh! I really want to get through at least one appointment with the Midwives to make sure everything is ok before we start telling people. Don't want to get hopes up too early.

So far me and my DH have kept it to ourselves. After going through it twice already (both m/c), we don't want to get our hopes up or anyone elses, so we are going to wait until at least 13w so we know everything is okay. The only thing that will out us if we go to a family or close friend function and they start asking why I am not drinking wine. My family and friends can really hound!

I have tried to keep it to myself, but I have the biggest mouth. :) We have told quite a few friends and most of the family. We're waiting on "announcing it" until I tell my dad. I think i will wait another month or so to do that one. LOL I'm not planning on telling my employer, officially, until I'm out of the first trimester. I think I'm going to be showing pretty soon with this one.

I've only told one friend and my mom. I really want to tell everyone, but after a MC you're scared to. I haven't decided when to tell, I'm just gonna play it by ear. I'm really excited to though, because being pregnant with my son was the most special time in my life. It'd be great to have that again.

We've told our parents and siblings, our three closest friends, and my boss and assistant. We just wanted to tell the people closest to us and the people that needed to know until the dr. appointment on the 21st

We have only told my parents - mainly b/c then my mom can watch the girls while I go to my first appt. lol No actually I would have probably told her before. I had a m/c last Oct. at 7 weeks and we hadn't told anyone so when I started having problems of course I called mom first and that was an awful way for her to find out. I just feel more safe with her knowing for some reason... We're not going to tell anyone else until at least Halloween...maybe Thanksgiving.