tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-73257017469700330032019-09-08T04:27:35.357-04:00Southern Belle Simple Southern lifestyle blog that celebrates all aspects of life in the sweet south. From home-style southern cooking to southern holiday traditions, family heritage and southern culture, simple crafts and decorating projects, Southern Belle Simple seeks to add a little bit of loveliness and a daily dose of encouragement with a distinct southern flavor. Unknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger991125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7325701746970033003.post-29347090983234226892019-09-06T08:27:00.000-04:002019-09-06T08:27:00.348-04:00Just some of the things I need forgiveness for <div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-qRKC-nm2K5w/XXJO7vBjSLI/AAAAAAAAv8w/P9y2kbmkGWgY8VuIbUB_iPUChAqFUDWGwCLcBGAs/s1600/Depositphotos_72136941_l-2015.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="900" data-original-width="1600" src="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-qRKC-nm2K5w/XXJO7vBjSLI/AAAAAAAAv8w/P9y2kbmkGWgY8VuIbUB_iPUChAqFUDWGwCLcBGAs/s1600/Depositphotos_72136941_l-2015.jpg" /></a></div><br />Forgive me for the snails whose fragile shells I've crushed under my feet when taking my dogs out for a pre-dawn bathroom opportunity. Each time I think I'll remember not to let it happen again, but you know how dark those early mornings can be and how hard it is to think ahead when your brain is still asleep.<br /><br />And there was a slug the other day. Forgive me for him too.<br /><br />Forgive me for not paying attention to all the things that deserved my attention.<br /><br />Forgive me for the times I've seen an old person dining alone at a restaurant and not invited them to join my table. Give courage to the part of my heart that wants to extend the invitation in the first place. Help it be stronger than the part holding me back.<br /><br />Forgive me for the eyerolls when my husband takes out the trash and fails to replace a fresh bag in the can.<br /><br />Forgive me for forgetting people's birthdays or not trying hard enough to make them feel special.<br /><br />Forgive me for not being able to go in the veterinary office to hold my dog as she was being put to sleep. And thank you for the person I married, who said he would do it and not to worry because wherever he goes, it's like I am there too.<br /><br />Forgive me for being un-neighborly to my neighbors. For being unfriendly to my friends. For being unkind to my kin. And unloving to my loves.<br /><br />Forgive me for the anger I've carried around for too, too long. Anger towards those who can't be what I feel they should be or won't do what I believe they should do.<br /><br />Forgive me for all the things I've left unsaid. For the minutes or hours or even days (alright, years) I've let go by without trying to mend a broken relationship or at least slap a band-aid on it in some way.<br /><br />Forgive me for every hateful thing I've ever thought. And for every terrible thing I've said, including but not limited to that thing I said to Kristin S. in the first grade and that other terrible, horrible thing I said to that boy on the playground in fourth grade, whose name I can't even remember. And forgive me for forgetting his name too.<br /><br />Forgive me for the times I tried to make myself look better or stand out from the rest. Or make the rest look bad by comparison.<br /><br />Forgive me for thinking what I can do = who I am. And forgive me for believing my value was directly proportional to my achievements, what I could do for people, and not needing to ask for help.<br /><br />Forgive me for the stars I've neglected to gaze at. For the sunsets I've not bothered to watch. For the moments of wonder I've missed. Please let there be more wonder ahead. I'll be looking for it. Watching for it. I'll be paying attention. Promise.<div class="blogger-post-footer">Thanks for gracing me with your presence sweet-cheeks!</div>Unknownnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7325701746970033003.post-74378676870199853632019-08-28T20:32:00.000-04:002019-08-28T20:32:24.129-04:00Simple & Affordable Ideas for Adding More Art to Your Home!I've always been an art lover. I love making art, I love looking at other people's art, and I love incorporating it into my home. If you know me, you might know I studied art history in college. This might make you think I'm something of an art snob, but that is totally not the case.<br /><div><br /></div><div>I truly believe art is in the eye of the beholder, and the experience we have with art is so personal. It's all about finding what you like, finding what speaks to you and finding what moves you.&nbsp;</div><div><br /></div><div>I like to think of myself as an art collector, but because I don't have a huge budget, I can't always be buying art. As much as I love to support local (and non-local) artists, I also have some simple and affordable ideas for adding art to your home!&nbsp;</div><div><br /></div><h2>Prints from the Past&nbsp;</h2><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-BSADmMRrlSM/XWbd36byzJI/AAAAAAAAvug/0A8eiThV9YYt_MLQRkr32nTzokUcyp07wCLcBGAs/s1600/beauty%2Bqueens%2Bon%2Brooftop.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1024" data-original-width="818" src="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-BSADmMRrlSM/XWbd36byzJI/AAAAAAAAvug/0A8eiThV9YYt_MLQRkr32nTzokUcyp07wCLcBGAs/s1600/beauty%2Bqueens%2Bon%2Brooftop.jpg" /></a></div><div>When it came time to add some art to my black and white bathroom, I decided to enhance my empty walls with some historic photos. Did you know you can download images for free from the Library of Congress digital collection? There's a special section called <a href="https://www.loc.gov/free-to-use/" target="_blank">"Free to Use"</a> that has everything from historical travel photos, to vintage poster designs, baseball and other sports, historic portraits, holidays and so much more!&nbsp;</div><div><br /></div><div>I decided to play off the idea of black and white by choosing two contrasting images (one selected by me - the beauty queens above and one selected by my husband - Armistice Day below). Images like these can be downloaded in a high res file from the site and then printed at a local print shop or even ordered through an online printer. I popped mine into two simple frames and get so many compliments on them!&nbsp;</div><div><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-EXDRXO0_5Qw/XWbeCxmqXLI/AAAAAAAAvuk/KHkH4PI5e-w8isVcgeJ7IaNQAQhlCWz_gCLcBGAs/s1600/armistice%2Bday.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="740" data-original-width="1024" src="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-EXDRXO0_5Qw/XWbeCxmqXLI/AAAAAAAAvuk/KHkH4PI5e-w8isVcgeJ7IaNQAQhlCWz_gCLcBGAs/s1600/armistice%2Bday.jpg" /></a></div><div><br /></div><div>This would also be great for a kid's room as they may have tastes or interests that evolve over time. Maybe you don't want to invest a lot in posters or prints because they could want to change them up in a few years. This is a great option and you can even swap out whatever you have in the same frames.&nbsp;</div><h2><br /></h2><h2>Think Small</h2><div><br />Who says art has to be huge? One of my favorite ways to add a bit of cheer to my home is by using framed greeting cards. Think about it. Cards are kind of like small works of art, right? So why not use them in smaller frames around the house?<br /><br />I already collect lots of cards that people send me. This way, I can enjoy them on display.<br /><br /><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-M64-7D78cCs/XWcb6moDk9I/AAAAAAAAvvA/6mofRrfIC_QtoZvJe6e2NTSZJXXBLrIXgCLcBGAs/s1600/Depositphotos_5238090_l-2015.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1600" data-original-width="1080" src="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-M64-7D78cCs/XWcb6moDk9I/AAAAAAAAvvA/6mofRrfIC_QtoZvJe6e2NTSZJXXBLrIXgCLcBGAs/s1600/Depositphotos_5238090_l-2015.jpg" /></a></div><br /><br />It's even better if the card has been given to me by someone I care about. Then I can think about them each time I see it.<br /><br />And it's super easy to swap out the cards, showcasing different ones in different frames whenever the&nbsp; mood strikes me.&nbsp;</div><div><br /></div><h2>Make (or Buy) Something One-of-a-Kind&nbsp;</h2><div><br />Two of my absolute favorite works of art are very personal. One is a small canvas etched with the date of my wedding. My friend Michelle at Knoxville's Me &amp; Co. created it for me and it's truly one of my favorite things. Plus, it keeps my husband and me from ever having the excuse of forgetting our anniversary!&nbsp;</div><div><br /></div><div>The other is a new favorite from a new favorite friend who creates and sells gorgeous custom painted collage portraits. I asked her to create one of my three dogs and it captured their unique personalities to a tee.<br /><br />She also creates portraits for families, kiddos and other pets. So much talent!&nbsp;<a href="https://www.etsy.com/shop/twillyco" target="_blank">Visit her Etsy shop here.</a></div><div><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-BT8x1Ru7Vv0/XWbeUmhwtNI/AAAAAAAAvuw/SeFdNru0KbsidKXg51jTJWqzutFTPxHlACLcBGAs/s1600/twilly%2Bdogs.PNG" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="450" data-original-width="530" src="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-BT8x1Ru7Vv0/XWbeUmhwtNI/AAAAAAAAvuw/SeFdNru0KbsidKXg51jTJWqzutFTPxHlACLcBGAs/s1600/twilly%2Bdogs.PNG" /></a></div><div><br />As much as I'd like to stroll into a fancy art gallery and purchase whatever masterpiece caught my eye, that's not exactly part of my financial plan for the moment. But I love the art I have. It makes me happy and it adds joy to my home.<br /><br />I hope you can incorporate art into your home that does the same!&nbsp;</div><div class="blogger-post-footer">Thanks for gracing me with your presence sweet-cheeks!</div>Unknownnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7325701746970033003.post-81175362959925939312019-08-14T18:55:00.001-04:002019-08-14T18:55:24.610-04:00Three Simple Recipes to Enjoy during Peach Season!August is a great time to enjoy the bounty of fresh peaches available in the south! And I've got some simple and delicious recipes you might want to try using fresh peaches. Don't have access to fresh peaches or want to make these year-round? Substitute canned or frozen peaches for a similar end result.&nbsp;<div><br /></div><h2>Peachy Onion Salad with Basil</h2><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-HtXrFvyd6os/XVSJWgLFevI/AAAAAAAAvpQ/Rm6YMGiZeekEhEA3N7FBTVSJ9iieWBgPwCLcBGAs/s1600/peachy%2Bonion%2Bsalad.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="768" data-original-width="612" src="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-HtXrFvyd6os/XVSJWgLFevI/AAAAAAAAvpQ/Rm6YMGiZeekEhEA3N7FBTVSJ9iieWBgPwCLcBGAs/s1600/peachy%2Bonion%2Bsalad.jpg" /></a></div><div><br /></div><div><div style="background-color: white; color: #483a2d; font-family: Georgia, Utopia, &quot;Palatino Linotype&quot;, Palatino, serif; font-size: 13.2px;">I have been making this salad for years, since I first featured it on the blog in 2011!&nbsp;&nbsp;</div><div style="background-color: white; color: #483a2d; font-family: Georgia, Utopia, &quot;Palatino Linotype&quot;, Palatino, serif; font-size: 13.2px;"><br /></div><div style="background-color: white; color: #483a2d; font-family: Georgia, Utopia, &quot;Palatino Linotype&quot;, Palatino, serif; font-size: 13.2px;">You could probably add a tiny bit of Chevre or Mozzarella if you wanted to, but it’s perfectly delicious just as is.</div><div style="background-color: white; color: #483a2d; font-family: Georgia, Utopia, &quot;Palatino Linotype&quot;, Palatino, serif; font-size: 13.2px;"><br /></div><div style="background-color: white; color: #483a2d; font-family: Georgia, Utopia, &quot;Palatino Linotype&quot;, Palatino, serif; font-size: 13.2px;">Here's how to create it.....</div><div style="background-color: white; color: #483a2d; font-family: Georgia, Utopia, &quot;Palatino Linotype&quot;, Palatino, serif; font-size: 13.2px;"><br /></div><div style="background-color: white; color: #483a2d; font-family: Georgia, Utopia, &quot;Palatino Linotype&quot;, Palatino, serif; font-size: 13.2px;">You'll Need:&nbsp;</div><ul style="background-color: white; color: #483a2d; font-family: Georgia, Utopia, &quot;Palatino Linotype&quot;, Palatino, serif; font-size: 13.2px; line-height: 1.4; margin: 0.5em 0px; padding: 0px 2.5em;"><li style="margin: 0px 0px 0.25em; padding: 0px;">2-3 peaches, peeled and sliced</li><li style="margin: 0px 0px 0.25em; padding: 0px;">1 medium red onion, thinly sliced</li><li style="margin: 0px 0px 0.25em; padding: 0px;">a few leaves of fresh Basil</li><li style="margin: 0px 0px 0.25em; padding: 0px;">Oil &amp; Vinegar (to taste)</li></ul><div style="background-color: white; color: #483a2d; font-family: Georgia, Utopia, &quot;Palatino Linotype&quot;, Palatino, serif; font-size: 13.2px;">Place peaches and onions in a bowl. Drizzle with oil (I used olive) and vinegar (I used red wine). Sprinkle with Basil leaves and enjoy!</div><div style="background-color: white; color: #483a2d; font-family: Georgia, Utopia, &quot;Palatino Linotype&quot;, Palatino, serif; font-size: 13.2px;"><br /></div><h2>Peaches and Cream Float</h2></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-FmOj1HQKRuM/XVSMqeWRW6I/AAAAAAAAvpg/4Nhe_UrW-T0JcrJx0BO2vFJKsOfeSjcPgCLcBGAs/s1600/Depositphotos_48245801_l-2015.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1600" data-original-width="1200" src="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-FmOj1HQKRuM/XVSMqeWRW6I/AAAAAAAAvpg/4Nhe_UrW-T0JcrJx0BO2vFJKsOfeSjcPgCLcBGAs/s1600/Depositphotos_48245801_l-2015.jpg" /></a></div><div><br /></div><div>To make this delicious drink, all you'll need is some peach juice (I prefer the Simply Peach not from concentrate), ice cream (peach or vanilla will do) and club soda or seltzer. It's basically an old fashioned ice cream float, but with the addition of the peach juice for more flavor.&nbsp;</div><div><br /></div><div>Start with a scoop of ice cream in your glass. Add peach juice and a splash of soda water to give it some bubbles. Drink it up!&nbsp;</div><div><br /></div><h2>Peach Parfaits</h2><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-4BurNTHT2LI/XVSQmkxRPSI/AAAAAAAAvps/8Qkau7i2mWQ8CG65FjrXPCnj-DQGlYlVgCLcBGAs/s1600/Depositphotos_281559792_l-2015.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1067" data-original-width="1600" src="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-4BurNTHT2LI/XVSQmkxRPSI/AAAAAAAAvps/8Qkau7i2mWQ8CG65FjrXPCnj-DQGlYlVgCLcBGAs/s1600/Depositphotos_281559792_l-2015.jpg" /></a></div><div><br /></div><div>My final peach recipe idea is a yummy parfait. This basic recipe can really be made with any fruit, but peaches are a great one to try it with.&nbsp;</div><div><br /></div><div>I like to start with some crumbled cookies (maybe shortbread or gingerbread, depending on what you like). Add those to the bottom of your bowl. Then top with sliced peaches. Add a bit of whipped cream or if you want to go all out, some whipped cream mixed with cream cheese. Repeat each layer a few times until you have a parfait fit for a queen!&nbsp;</div><div class="blogger-post-footer">Thanks for gracing me with your presence sweet-cheeks!</div>Unknownnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7325701746970033003.post-15864083131430011422019-07-24T19:48:00.001-04:002019-07-24T19:48:59.295-04:00Celebrate National Blueberry Month with Simple Recipes! Did you know July is National Blueberry Month? I've been enjoying this sweet fruit by the handfuls, but in honor of the occasion, I'm sharing some other ways to treat yourself to this healthy and delicious berry.<br /><br /><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-swm58ah2bAA/XTh8Pu7eMiI/AAAAAAAAvZM/YRfBT6gcGNsMeiSOqoMGRyhp3Y6voV2wQCLcBGAs/s1600/Depositphotos_72760865_l-2015.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1068" data-original-width="1600" src="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-swm58ah2bAA/XTh8Pu7eMiI/AAAAAAAAvZM/YRfBT6gcGNsMeiSOqoMGRyhp3Y6voV2wQCLcBGAs/s1600/Depositphotos_72760865_l-2015.jpg" /></a></div><br />Speaking of healthy, here's the lowdown on how blueberries can be beneficial for your body as well as your tastebuds:<br /><br /><ul><li>Blueberries have more antioxidants than any other fruit</li><li>They are packed with fiber and vitamin C</li><li>Also a source for vitamin K &amp; B6</li></ul><div>Looking for some creative ways to enjoy blueberries for the rest of the harvest season? Here are three that you might want to try!&nbsp;</div><h2><br /></h2><h2>Blueberry Salsa</h2><h2>&nbsp;</h2><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-ANVt_pz_lFY/XTh5wTEUqdI/AAAAAAAAvZA/UmSQuC6hYjExipSKU0Q2zyYeBPW1b3HVwCLcBGAs/s1600/Depositphotos_201977218_l-2015.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1067" data-original-width="1600" src="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-ANVt_pz_lFY/XTh5wTEUqdI/AAAAAAAAvZA/UmSQuC6hYjExipSKU0Q2zyYeBPW1b3HVwCLcBGAs/s1600/Depositphotos_201977218_l-2015.jpg" /></a></div><div><br /></div><br />Salsa is one of my favorite summertime foods and when I found a recipe for blueberry salsa, I knew I had to try it. It's so easy and incorporates lots of healthy ingredients to offset all the chips I will definitely be eating with it.<br /><br />You can add or omit ingredients too, depending on your preference.<br /><br />Here's what you need:<br /><br />2 c. fresh blueberries<br />1 c. fresh corn (frozen or canned is okay if it's all you can get)<br />1/2 red bell pepper, chopped<br />1/2 yellow bell pepper, chopped<br />1/2 red onion, finely chopped<br />1 jalapeño, finely chopped<br />1/4 c. freshly chopped cilantro<br />1/4 c. lime juice<br />1 tbsp. extra-virgin olive oil<br />Kosher salt<br />Freshly ground black pepper<br />Corn chips, for serving<br /><br />I chopped up some of the blueberries too, to help the flavors mingle a bit more. Mix it all together and serve. So tasty!<br /><br /><h2>Blueberry Chia Pudding</h2><div><br /></div><div>I don't know about you, but chia pudding is one of those things I sort of forget I like until I see it on Pinterest and think, oh yeah, I should make that. It's so easy to make and can be healthy for you. Apparently, 1/4 cup of chia seeds have about as much protein as an egg.&nbsp;</div><br /><div>Of course, it is important to keep in mind added sugars, etc.&nbsp;</div><div><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-qS8Z-PFUj-w/XTh9E4-RHQI/AAAAAAAAvZU/X0h6Trf0Ojo5w4y14DjAj0njD9ovvK59wCLcBGAs/s1600/Depositphotos_57743719_l-2015.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1280" data-original-width="1600" src="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-qS8Z-PFUj-w/XTh9E4-RHQI/AAAAAAAAvZU/X0h6Trf0Ojo5w4y14DjAj0njD9ovvK59wCLcBGAs/s1600/Depositphotos_57743719_l-2015.jpg" /></a></div><div><br /></div><div>For this recipe, I simply stirred 1/4 cup chia seeds into a cup of almond milk. I mashed up about a cup of blueberries (or you could use the blender or food processor), and stirred that in as well. Stick it in the fridge for a few hours or overnight. This will give the chia time to expand and take on its more gelatinous consistency. Top with some chopped nuts or a bit of granola, and yum!&nbsp;</div><div><br /></div><h2>Blueberry Orange Detox Water&nbsp;</h2><div><br /></div><div>Infused water was a trend for a bit, but I have always loved this option as a way to add a bit of oomph to your already needed summer thirst quencher.&nbsp;</div><div><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-s9LUDTm-fyU/XTjuPM8ttXI/AAAAAAAAvZk/optsAAC2Dzw8ngv9pUiMKW1YcOsSE6HrwCLcBGAs/s1600/Depositphotos_74095907_l-2015.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1067" data-original-width="1600" src="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-s9LUDTm-fyU/XTjuPM8ttXI/AAAAAAAAvZk/optsAAC2Dzw8ngv9pUiMKW1YcOsSE6HrwCLcBGAs/s1600/Depositphotos_74095907_l-2015.jpg" /></a></div><div><br /></div><div>Because of their antioxidants, blueberries are a great option to add to your water. And their flavor pairs nicely with slices of orange. Add in some mint leaves for a truly refreshing treat.&nbsp;</div><div><br /></div><div>If you can't spend your summer at a spa, bring flavors of the spa to you with this awesome infused drink!&nbsp;</div><div class="blogger-post-footer">Thanks for gracing me with your presence sweet-cheeks!</div>Unknownnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7325701746970033003.post-56308583341743187962019-07-03T15:00:00.001-04:002019-07-03T15:00:46.560-04:00Fun & Easy July 4th Party Ideas! Planning a last minute July 4th party for your friends and family? Here are some fun and easy ideas to inspire a truly memorable celebration of our nation's birthday!<br /><div><br /></div><h2>Make a Red, White &amp; Blue Decorative Garland</h2><div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-msdZ3HUmAwU/XRy-W5tG1SI/AAAAAAAAvJk/i0q35CIrccEaIcWLIDV14xq560TMhCXmwCLcBGAs/s1600/Depositphotos_201420274_l-2015.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1067" data-original-width="1600" src="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-msdZ3HUmAwU/XRy-W5tG1SI/AAAAAAAAvJk/i0q35CIrccEaIcWLIDV14xq560TMhCXmwCLcBGAs/s1600/Depositphotos_201420274_l-2015.jpg" /></a></div><br />I was inspired by the Hallmark Think.Make.Share blog for the idea to make a garland, and what an adorable way to add some red, white, and blue cheer to your July 4th party!<br /><br />One option is to use recycled paper tubes to create little rockets. Or for an even simpler idea, just tie bits of ribbon on a twine.&nbsp;</div><div><br /></div><div>If you have ribbon or fabric scraps, even better! I picked up a few different bolts of ribbon at my local craft store, for about $3 each.&nbsp;<a href="https://www.thinkmakeshareblog.com/july-4th-ribbon-garland/" target="_blank">Visit the Hallmark blog for complete instructions to make their ribbon garland!</a>&nbsp;</div><div><br /></div><h2>Patriotic Pound Cake with Fresh Berries&nbsp;</h2><div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-d_n8daMzi1c/XRy9tWct4UI/AAAAAAAAvJc/XuSVx52I4bwkMg2MSXOQoCEwG2NDt9dqACLcBGAs/s1600/Depositphotos_114659890_l-2015.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1600" data-original-width="1067" src="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-d_n8daMzi1c/XRy9tWct4UI/AAAAAAAAvJc/XuSVx52I4bwkMg2MSXOQoCEwG2NDt9dqACLcBGAs/s1600/Depositphotos_114659890_l-2015.jpg" /></a></div><br /></div><div>I'm not a baker, so I feel like I've hit the jackpot when I can find a great store-bought option that tastes like homemade. Whole Foods has an amazing pound cake that I've served on more than one occasion. And The Fresh Market has really delicious cupcakes that taste just like my great grandmother's yellow cake. What is it about cake and fresh berries that just embodies summer in the south?&nbsp;</div><div><br />This July 4th, I'm serving a simple pound cake with some of nature's best bounty. There are so many ways to do this, but each is delicious and easy.<br /><br />You could slice the cake into layers and create a whipped cream and berry filling. Or you could just slice and grill each piece, and serve with berries on the side.&nbsp;<br /><br /><h2>Cheers to our Independence - A Red, White &amp; Blue Mocktail</h2></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-iSTDZ1tZHhc/XRz5m_J91zI/AAAAAAAAvJ0/YYrayFoTIJY1L9bOV5fpDQwTMZWOfIMWACLcBGAs/s1600/Depositphotos_106194878_l-2015.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1600" data-original-width="1067" src="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-iSTDZ1tZHhc/XRz5m_J91zI/AAAAAAAAvJ0/YYrayFoTIJY1L9bOV5fpDQwTMZWOfIMWACLcBGAs/s1600/Depositphotos_106194878_l-2015.jpg" /></a></div><div><br /></div><div>When entertaining, serving delicious treats is only part of it. A big part of your success in creating memorable experiences for your guests is with your presentation.&nbsp;</div><div><br /></div><div>And a great way to up your presentation game is with layered drinks. The secret to getting the different colored layers of your cocktails or mocktails to stay separated is by paying attention to the sugar content.&nbsp;</div><div><br /></div><div>Heaviest goes at the bottom, so make sure to put the beverage with the greatest amount of sugar in first. It also helps if you pack in some ice at this point. Then pour in other layers in decreasing order, with the lowest sugar content last.&nbsp;</div><div><br /></div><div>I used a blood orange juice from Whole Foods for my red layer and some blue sports drink for the blue. Top it with some whipped cream and you've got a lovely drink for July 4th!&nbsp;</div><div class="blogger-post-footer">Thanks for gracing me with your presence sweet-cheeks!</div>Unknownnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7325701746970033003.post-9131842601952041822019-06-19T14:11:00.002-04:002019-06-19T14:11:49.691-04:00Fun & Simple Summer Snacks for All AgesSummer in the south is hot, hot, hot! This is why finding fun and simple summer snacks is key. It means you'll spend less time in the kitchen and the time you do spend will be cooler since you aren't heating the kitchen up with complicated recipes.&nbsp;<div><br /></div><div>Looking for some new recipes to try with your family this summer? I've got three that are tasty and quick to prepare! I hope this inspires you to think outside the box and treat yourself with delicious snacks during the summer and all year long.&nbsp;</div><div><br /></div><h2>Italian Antipasto Salad Kabobs</h2><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-xDCSYlT0ndU/XQp22qVE7kI/AAAAAAAAu9c/U8LnqiL0s1wtF9f59ZUVN58MVtFmfOBawCLcBGAs/s1600/Mini%2BTortellini%2BKabobs%2Bwith%2BLemon%2BBasil%2BVinaigrette%2B4.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="479" data-original-width="640" src="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-xDCSYlT0ndU/XQp22qVE7kI/AAAAAAAAu9c/U8LnqiL0s1wtF9f59ZUVN58MVtFmfOBawCLcBGAs/s1600/Mini%2BTortellini%2BKabobs%2Bwith%2BLemon%2BBasil%2BVinaigrette%2B4.jpg" /></a></div><div><br /></div><div>In Italian cooking, antipasto refers to an appetizer made up of olives, anchovies, cheeses, and meats. I did a more kid-friendly take on this idea with some bite sized snacks which can be eaten on a skewer. I was inspired by <a href="https://www.hoteatsandcoolreads.com/2016/08/mini-tortellini-kabobs-with-lemon-basil.html" target="_blank">this adorable blog.</a>&nbsp;</div><div><br /></div><div>Not only can kids help with the prep of this snack, it's also fun to eat. This would pack up well into a cooler for a day at the pool or a picnic.&nbsp;</div><div><br /></div><div>Start with cherry tomatoes, add tortellini, olives, a pepperoni and a cheese cube and you're all set. This idea can be customized to your taste preferences for a truly delicious summer snack.&nbsp;</div><div><br /></div><h2>Strawberry Lemonade Dessert Pizza&nbsp;</h2><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-_iTfOYkhGAc/XQp4D2bQZUI/AAAAAAAAu9s/s9EpTnFMlSgJNM89KPpbEuphLwWiAD2QwCLcBGAs/s1600/strawberry%2Blemon%2Bpizza.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="450" data-original-width="800" src="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-_iTfOYkhGAc/XQp4D2bQZUI/AAAAAAAAu9s/s9EpTnFMlSgJNM89KPpbEuphLwWiAD2QwCLcBGAs/s1600/strawberry%2Blemon%2Bpizza.jpg" /></a></div><div><br /></div><div>There's nothing like the combination of strawberry and lemon to really capture the essence of summer. This sweet fruit pizza recipe lets you serve it up in a way that would please a large crowd or just a friend who happened to pop by.&nbsp;</div><div><br /></div><div>And if you want to make it in small batches, that's also possible.&nbsp;</div><div><br /></div><div>Basically, it's a sugar cookie base topped with a mixture of lemon curd and whipped cream, then finished off with strawberries and lemon zest. Easy peasy, lemon squeezy. <a href="https://www.pillsbury.com/recipes/strawberry-lemonade-sugar-cookie-sheet-pan-bars/d7498a2c-1303-42ee-a3fb-df7f95c5e1c1" target="_blank">Click here for the full recipe.</a></div><div><br /></div><h2>Frozen Yogurt Bites&nbsp;</h2><div>This recipe is so simple, I feel like even calling it a "recipe" is cheating. Basically, all you do is squeeze out little dollops of your favorite flavor of yogurt and freeze. It creates these easy to eat bites and once again, takes something simple and makes it more fun for all ages!&nbsp;</div><div><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-sPi8aw76gFM/XQp5QXxtYyI/AAAAAAAAu94/1oYRiwJZ7DYlVAi2n2clO9v1UYJ6kXbgQCLcBGAs/s1600/frozen-yogurt-bites-facebook-image.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="400" data-original-width="600" src="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-sPi8aw76gFM/XQp5QXxtYyI/AAAAAAAAu94/1oYRiwJZ7DYlVAi2n2clO9v1UYJ6kXbgQCLcBGAs/s1600/frozen-yogurt-bites-facebook-image.jpg" /></a></div><div><br /></div><div><a href="https://www.eatingonadime.com/easy-frozen-yogurt-bites/" target="_blank">This great blog has the full post.</a>&nbsp;One thing to note....if you use yogurt with real fruit chunks, your bites might not be uniform. You might be better off mashing up fresh fruit and stirring it into plain yogurt. This also makes the quality of your snack better, as opposed to some yogurts which are high in sugar and other junk.&nbsp;</div><div><br /></div><div>Summer is here and it's not the time to lose your cool. Make your life easier this summer with these fun and simple summer snacks for all ages!&nbsp;</div><div class="blogger-post-footer">Thanks for gracing me with your presence sweet-cheeks!</div>Unknownnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7325701746970033003.post-73462573208221152232019-06-05T06:26:00.000-04:002019-06-05T18:43:44.418-04:00Celebrate National Donut Day with a DIY Donut Station<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-KxRGNjSJrHY/WS4CNiMPIhI/AAAAAAAAleg/2N-EF0pc-IcnLVcV_Y_3rQub6YoL3DbFwCLcB/s1600/Depositphotos_138790194_l-2015.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1067" data-original-width="1600" src="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-KxRGNjSJrHY/WS4CNiMPIhI/AAAAAAAAleg/2N-EF0pc-IcnLVcV_Y_3rQub6YoL3DbFwCLcB/s1600/Depositphotos_138790194_l-2015.jpg" /></a></div><br />Alright folks, that day of days is upon us. The first Friday in June. Also known as National Donut Day. This is an occasion to celebrate one of the purest, most simple forms of deliciousness we know. The humble donut.<br /><br />Donuts have come a long way over the years. Plain cake and glaze has been elevated with toppings galore, flavors and all sorts of frosting options. But the best thing about donuts is that there's a flavor or topping combo for just about everyone.<br /><br />What's your favorite? Are you a classic donut fan, maybe just a blueberry cake or chocolate frosted? Or perhaps you like to go out on a limb, enjoying concoctions with strange combinations like bacon and maple glaze.<br /><br />On my recent trip to NYC, I tried donuts at Donut Plant, an awesome little eatery known for its incredible donut flavor offerings. My favorite was the Brooklyn Blackout, described as a chocolate cake doughnut, filled with chocolate pudding, dipped in chocolate glaze and sprinkled with chocolate cake crumbs. Yes, please!<br /><br /><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://3.bp.blogspot.com/-q9KmlV6YCo0/WS4B6cajmjI/AAAAAAAAlec/hCpNw9H8Cr0msIGijF1RZMsCPkyGCYOogCLcB/s1600/18817414_10105033923603635_1634741839_o.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1600" data-original-width="900" src="https://3.bp.blogspot.com/-q9KmlV6YCo0/WS4B6cajmjI/AAAAAAAAlec/hCpNw9H8Cr0msIGijF1RZMsCPkyGCYOogCLcB/s1600/18817414_10105033923603635_1634741839_o.jpg" /></a></div><br />Have you caught donut fever? There's no shortage of great donuts &nbsp;to be found in Knoxville, from Makers Donuts to Status Dough, to the most recently opened Pops Donuts.<br /><br />Want to enjoy donuts at home? Why not set up a fun DIY donut station at your next party or event. All you need are a bunch of plain cake donuts and assorted frostings and toppings. Let your guests go to town creating their own one-of-a-kind donut creations.<br /><br />I found a great recipe for donut glaze that only calls for three ingredients: milk, powdered sugar, and vanilla extract. <a href="https://www.biggerbolderbaking.com/donut-glaze-recipes/" target="_blank">Click here for details.&nbsp;</a><br /><br />Here are a few ideas below to inspire you!<br /><br /><div style="text-align: center;"><b>Candied pineapple + Shredded Coconut on cream cheese frosting = Pina Colada Donut</b></div><div style="text-align: center;"><b><br /></b></div><div style="text-align: center;"><b>Mini marshmallows&nbsp;+ Graham crackers on chocolate frosting = S'Mores Donut</b></div><div style="text-align: center;"><b><br /></b></div><div style="text-align: center;"><b>Assorted Breakfast Cereal on vanilla frosting = Eye Opener Donut&nbsp;</b></div><div style="text-align: center;"><b><br /></b></div><div style="text-align: center;"><b>Fresh strawberries + whipped topping = Strawberry shortcake Donut</b></div><div style="text-align: center;"><b><br /></b></div><div style="text-align: center;"><b>Apple Pie filling&nbsp;+ Caramel sauce on cream cheese frosting = Apple Pie Donut&nbsp;</b></div><div style="text-align: center;"><b><br /></b></div><h2 style="text-align: center;"><span style="color: magenta;">Donut disappoint your guests!&nbsp;</span></h2><div class="blogger-post-footer">Thanks for gracing me with your presence sweet-cheeks!</div>Unknownnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7325701746970033003.post-51277631690923512342019-05-24T08:00:00.000-04:002019-05-24T08:00:10.944-04:00Kick Up Your Heels | Hong Kong Ballet 40th Anniversary<div style="padding: 56.25% 0 0 0; position: relative;"><iframe allow="autoplay; fullscreen" allowfullscreen="" frameborder="0" src="https://player.vimeo.com/video/335984530?title=0&amp;byline=0&amp;portrait=0" style="height: 100%; left: 0; position: absolute; top: 0; width: 100%;"></iframe></div><br /><script src="https://player.vimeo.com/api/player.js"></script>I've always loved the ballet, ever since my grandma first took me to see the Nutcracker as a kid. But this is marvelous! The combination of color and sass....so much inspiration here!<br /><br />Thanks to my pal <a href="http://www.taylorroman.com/" target="_blank">Saray Taylor-Roman</a> for sharing. Check out her site too, y'all. An uh-mazing photographer who makes magic happen with her clients!<div class="blogger-post-footer">Thanks for gracing me with your presence sweet-cheeks!</div>Unknownnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7325701746970033003.post-699543390719277342019-05-23T16:04:00.001-04:002019-05-23T16:04:33.461-04:00To Thine Own Needs Be True<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://3.bp.blogspot.com/-k8744HPIBvI/XLYgvjs0uUI/AAAAAAAAt5Y/ylOUEIquW-02n3dMauI7vs29GnjX-IcpQCLcBGAs/s1600/knowing%2Byour%2Bneeds.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1012" data-original-width="1080" src="https://3.bp.blogspot.com/-k8744HPIBvI/XLYgvjs0uUI/AAAAAAAAt5Y/ylOUEIquW-02n3dMauI7vs29GnjX-IcpQCLcBGAs/s1600/knowing%2Byour%2Bneeds.jpg" /></a></div><br /><br />I was reading Cleo Wade's book "Heart Talk" when a particular passage jumped off the page and struck me right between the eyes.<br /><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;"><br /></div><div class="" style="clear: both; text-align: left;"><i><span style="font-size: large;">"Knowing our needs is a limitless superpower, one that can help us make all the big decisions in life."&nbsp;</span></i></div><div class="" style="clear: both; text-align: left;"><br /></div><div class="" style="clear: both; text-align: left;">Obviously she's not talking about our basic needs like food, water, or shelter. This is more complex. But needs are a funny thing. Or at least they are for me.&nbsp;</div><div class="" style="clear: both; text-align: left;"><br /></div><div class="" style="clear: both; text-align: left;">I grew up thinking other people's needs were more important than mine. I grew up thinking that if I could make sure people and things around me were okay, then I'd be okay too. Typing that brings a bad taste to my mouth and makes it seem like I was trying to be some sort of a martyr for a cause but it wasn't that. I don't know what it was. Sometimes I still don't.<br /><br />Cleo goes on to say that we should be unapologetic when it comes to our needs. And I think I agree with her. Although there's part of me that thinks that seems selfish. Do you see where the struggle lies folks?<br /><br />Since we like to blame our dysfunction on things like religion, how bout trying this on for size? When I was growing up, there was a banner in my Sunday School class at church that said the word JOY down the left hand side. And the "J" stood for Jesus, and the "O" stood for Others, and the "Y" stood for Yourself. The idea was this is the order of importance.....so Jesus first (I ain't arguing this one), others next [as in put others needs above your own....see my issue above], and finally yourself.<br /><br />I get this in theory. And I'm not saying it's bad to avoid being a selfish person. But come on! Was this really the best message to give an insecure, people pleasing, self-worth doubting child such as myself? I don't think so.<br /><br />I can't say for sure, but I want to believe this (and other messages like this) had a great impact on my beliefs that my needs just didn't matter as much. And that if I somehow was looking out for number one (aka myself), I was being a selfish, horrible, terrible spoiled brat.&nbsp;</div><div class="" style="clear: both; text-align: left;"><br /></div><div class="" style="clear: both; text-align: left;">In my head, things are black and white. This has also served to be a GIANT stumbling block for me.<br /><br />It causes me to believe that<br /><br />1) Either your needs matter more (which is what I always thought was true)<br /><br />OR<br /><br />2) My needs matter more (which is what I never thought).<br /><br />I never even considered a reality in which BOTH OF OUR NEEDS could matter. BOTH, PEOPLE!!! BOTH!! [for the record, I'm yelling this at myself for emphasis].&nbsp;</div><div class="" style="clear: both; text-align: left;"><br /></div><div class="" style="clear: both; text-align: left;">You can't address your own needs until you know what they are. And you can't get to know them until you acknowledge that you have them, and that they are worth acknowledging.<br /><br />But you can't push past them every single time and not expect disastrous outcomes. Outcomes like being angry all the time. And sometimes saying snarky things to people. And hating everyone and yourself.<br /><br />There's a place that exists where we feel tired, and heavy, and resentful, and angry, and out of touch with ourselves, and completely separated from our own hearts. And in that place, we are miserable and eventually, we are liable to break.&nbsp;</div><div class="" style="clear: both; text-align: left;"><br /></div><div class="" style="clear: both; text-align: left;">When you've reached your limit, stop.&nbsp;</div><div class="" style="clear: both; text-align: left;"><br /></div><div class="" style="clear: both; text-align: left;">When you get tired, take a rest.&nbsp;</div><div class="" style="clear: both; text-align: left;"><br /></div><div class="" style="clear: both; text-align: left;">When you just can't even anymore, just don't even anymore. It's OKAY. Seriously.<br /><br />Nobody has to understand. Nobody has to approve. Nobody has to give you permission.<br /><br />You know your own self better than anybody else and you know your own needs better too (if you first acknowledge them).&nbsp;</div><div class="blogger-post-footer">Thanks for gracing me with your presence sweet-cheeks!</div>Unknownnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7325701746970033003.post-81083397795658332632019-05-15T13:11:00.002-04:002019-05-15T13:11:24.976-04:00End of the Year Teacher Gift Ideas!Growing up with a teacher mom, I know a thing or two about how much teachers appreciate any and all gestures of thoughtfulness. With the school year coming to a close, it's a great time to say thanks to the teachers who have loved and encouraged your kiddos since August.<br /><br />It doesn't take a huge budget or lots of time to create a small thoughtful token to make a teacher feel appreciated. I've got three ideas at different price points to inspire you. Hopefully this will serve as a jumping off point to get you inspired with teacher gifts of your own!<br /><br /><h2>The $5 Teacher Gift Option&nbsp;</h2><div><br /></div><div>What teacher (or really person for that matter) doesn't like salty snacks? This is a simple gift that you can do even on a small budget. It's called the "Nacho Average Teacher" basket and I was inspired by <a href="http://seevanessacraft.com/2018/04/craft-nacho-average-teacher-gift-basket/" target="_blank">this fab blogger gal.</a>&nbsp;</div><div><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-wq1W_1v0uh8/XNxE6XM7TTI/AAAAAAAAuZk/Kuu-b2hHXZQxU8s8DbEtyH0_jS00HR2xgCLcBGAs/s1600/Nacho-Average-Teacher-Gift-Idea-4-copy.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1020" data-original-width="680" src="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-wq1W_1v0uh8/XNxE6XM7TTI/AAAAAAAAuZk/Kuu-b2hHXZQxU8s8DbEtyH0_jS00HR2xgCLcBGAs/s1600/Nacho-Average-Teacher-Gift-Idea-4-copy.jpg" /></a></div><div><br /></div><div>All you need is a bag of chips, a couple jars of dip or salsa and a cute container and you're good to go. I hit up places like Big Lots and the Target Dollar Zone for little extra touches that make it feel special. You might even have a gift basket on hand or a cute vintage container.&nbsp;</div><div><br /></div><h2>The $15 Teacher Gift Option&nbsp;</h2><div><br /></div><div>Inspired by Stephanie at Somewhat Simple, <a href="https://www.skiptomylou.org/orange-you-glad-gift-basket-teacher-gift/" target="_blank">this</a> "Orange You Glad It's Summer" gift basket is perfect for Tennessee teachers!&nbsp;</div><div><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://3.bp.blogspot.com/-QSyuYkgyE28/XNxF3ADN7UI/AAAAAAAAuZs/iLum8Pfc3mEIvD5qlu2UBoWsd0JxqmFJgCLcBGAs/s1600/teacher-appreciation-gift-basket-2.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="501" data-original-width="700" src="https://3.bp.blogspot.com/-QSyuYkgyE28/XNxF3ADN7UI/AAAAAAAAuZs/iLum8Pfc3mEIvD5qlu2UBoWsd0JxqmFJgCLcBGAs/s1600/teacher-appreciation-gift-basket-2.jpg" /></a></div><div><br /></div><br />You can include anything that your child's teacher might enjoy, but things like flip flops, a cute beach cup and sunscreen come to mind. Also, some snacks to enjoy beachside/poolside.<br /><br />This gift option could also be customized to your budget, depending on whether you want to spend more or less.<br /><br /><h2>The $30 Teacher Gift Option</h2><div><br /></div><div>Finally, if you want to spend a bit more and make that special teacher feel extra special, a spa gift basket or movie night basket are both great options.&nbsp;</div><div><br /></div><div>For a spa gift basket, include things like sheet masks, a yummy-smelling scrub, lotion and even a bath bomb.&nbsp;</div><div><br /></div><div>For a movie basket like this one from <a href="https://www.mrsjonescreationstation.com/movie-theme-teacher-gift/" target="_blank">an adorable blog</a>, maybe include snacks and a Netflix or Redbox gift card or a gift card to a local movie theater. It helps if you happen to know your child's teacher's favorite snacks, but if all else fails grab a mix of sugary and chocolate and you're sure to please someone!&nbsp;</div><div><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://3.bp.blogspot.com/-Q5YdL6WsrPo/XNxHTCm1GeI/AAAAAAAAuZ4/R_cNHmyTNnw1sdttImUVGKNr7frnx5lkQCLcBGAs/s1600/movie%2Bnight%2Bbasket.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1000" data-original-width="667" src="https://3.bp.blogspot.com/-Q5YdL6WsrPo/XNxHTCm1GeI/AAAAAAAAuZ4/R_cNHmyTNnw1sdttImUVGKNr7frnx5lkQCLcBGAs/s1600/movie%2Bnight%2Bbasket.jpg" /></a></div><div><br /></div>It's really not about the money. I can remember my mom getting the sweetest handwritten cards from parents and students alike that touched her heart and still grace her fridge to this day.<br /><br />But if you've had a great teacher (or several) who have gone out of their way to support your kiddo and cheer him/her on this year, I hope you'll take the time to say thanks. As a teacher's kid, I saw firsthand that theirs could be a thankless job at times, but those little gestures of appreciation went a long way.<div class="blogger-post-footer">Thanks for gracing me with your presence sweet-cheeks!</div>Unknownnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7325701746970033003.post-84089434876947052702019-04-22T14:27:00.003-04:002019-04-22T14:27:59.424-04:00Getting Our Hands Dirty <div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://2.bp.blogspot.com/-3LE2dHIiB-k/XL4CNF4Y0DI/AAAAAAAAt80/ihpRx41JRNA4mihE8EKA532lXk03Cx8lgCLcBGAs/s1600/Depositphotos_86303266_l-2015.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1067" data-original-width="1600" src="https://2.bp.blogspot.com/-3LE2dHIiB-k/XL4CNF4Y0DI/AAAAAAAAt80/ihpRx41JRNA4mihE8EKA532lXk03Cx8lgCLcBGAs/s1600/Depositphotos_86303266_l-2015.jpg" /></a></div><div><br /></div><div>On the rare occasion that my husband and I take a lunch break at the same time, we will sometimes go for a walk. This happened today and we were excited to take a few minutes to get outside and do something good for ourselves.&nbsp;</div><div>The path we usually walk is a one-mile figure eight loop at a nearby park. We were a quarter of the way around when I started seeing large amounts of litter scattered around the path. The more we walked, the more litter we saw.</div><div><br /></div><div>Litter really bugs me. I don't understand the thinking behind tossing something aside for someone else to clean up. Especially when there are trash cans around. The more I thought about it, the madder I was getting.&nbsp;</div><div><br /></div><div>As we rounded the trail loop, something white and billowy caught my eye. It was an empty grocery bag.&nbsp;</div><div><br /></div><div>"Oh boy," my hubs said. "I know what happens next." He laughed as I grabbed the bag off the ground...knowing it would be the perfect thing in which to collect all the litter we were seeing! I asked him how he knew I was going to do that, and he said he just knew because he knows me.&nbsp;</div><div><br /></div><div>He was chivalrous enough to carry the bag for me as we continued our walk, now having a receptacle to collect the litter. Then I randomly remembered that it's Earth Day, and felt like our small act was for a good cause.&nbsp;</div><div><br /></div><div>As we passed a runner who saw what we were doing, he shouted "Y'all are awesome!" which felt pretty good.&nbsp;</div><div><br /></div><div>I promise I'm not sharing this to make you think we are some kinda civic heroes because we're not. But there is a point to my story.&nbsp;</div><div><br /></div><div>We filled and emptied the grocery bag three times with litter and then for a substantial pile, we dragged a rolling trash can over and picked that up as well. Afterward, I looked around at the (mostly) litter-free area and enjoyed the sight of grass, flowers and sky.&nbsp;</div><div><br /></div><div>I'm not gonna lie....it felt good to do something good. Sometimes this is reward enough.&nbsp;</div><div><br /></div><div>But just beyond the good feeling was a tinge of something else....let's call it self-righteousness.&nbsp;</div><div><br /></div><div>A tinge that prompted me to think thoughts that began with:&nbsp;</div><div><br /></div><div style="text-align: center;"><i>I cannot imagine....throwing my trash down on the ground</i></div><div style="text-align: center;"><i><br /></i></div><div style="text-align: center;"><i>What kind of person just....leaves their garbage for someone else to clean up?</i></div><div style="text-align: center;"><i><br /></i></div><div style="text-align: center;"><i>I would never be the kind of person who....throws down litter in a beautiful park&nbsp;</i></div><div style="text-align: center;"><i><br /></i></div><div style="text-align: left;">Most of us would probably agree that tossing trash out the window or throwing it down on the ground is wrong. We might also agree that picking it up is right.&nbsp;</div><div style="text-align: left;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: left;">But if doing the right thing leads us to feel self-righteous, we've completely missed the point. I feel certain this can apply in so many areas.&nbsp;</div><div style="text-align: left;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: left;">Let me say it again:&nbsp;</div><div style="text-align: left;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: left;">If we only do what's right because it makes us feel self-righteous, we've completely missed the point.&nbsp;</div><div style="text-align: left;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: left;">If doing the so-called <i>right</i>&nbsp;thing makes us think we can sit in judgment of others who are so-called <i>wrong, </i>then we are so-called mistaken.&nbsp;</div><div style="text-align: left;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: left;">It's impossible to get inside anyone else's head. We don't know why people do the things they do. We don't know what they are struggling with, what kind of gut-wrenching challenges they are up against, and what lies they've been told or led to believe that have shaped their every pattern, behavior and thought process.&nbsp;</div><div style="text-align: left;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: left;">We give ourselves the benefit of every doubt, but how often are we so quick to judge the actions of others because they are doing something that we'd supposedly never do?&nbsp;</div><div style="text-align: left;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: left;">Some might say I have every right to judge them....since I was the one touching all their dirty trash and dragging around a giant garbage can on what was supposed to be a leisurely lunch walk. But it doesn't work this way. Judging others was never our right.&nbsp;</div><div style="text-align: left;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: left;">What we can do is try to help. To show love. To make people feel less alone. To pitch in and get our hands dirty when it will make someone else's struggle a little easier or help them experience a bit more beauty.&nbsp;</div><div class="blogger-post-footer">Thanks for gracing me with your presence sweet-cheeks!</div>Unknownnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7325701746970033003.post-34184709796990909872019-04-17T20:23:00.002-04:002019-04-17T20:23:54.202-04:00Simple Ways to Make Easter Brunch More Special! <div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://3.bp.blogspot.com/-IctItrbtUTo/XLe_oTqXGDI/AAAAAAAAt6M/HKq3R60ZMZoLvFN1xXaHm_im2jO8maWeQCLcBGAs/s1600/Depositphotos_187841120_l-2015.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1067" data-original-width="1600" src="https://3.bp.blogspot.com/-IctItrbtUTo/XLe_oTqXGDI/AAAAAAAAt6M/HKq3R60ZMZoLvFN1xXaHm_im2jO8maWeQCLcBGAs/s1600/Depositphotos_187841120_l-2015.jpg" /></a></div><br />Easter is a special time and if you're celebrating with a gathering of family or friends, I have some simple ways to make your occasion more special!<br /><br />From food to drinks, to setting a lovely table, make your Easter celebration truly memorable with these simple, and easy additions.<br /><br /><h2>Something to Nibble Before the Main Meal&nbsp;</h2><div><br /></div><div>There's nothing more annoying to a cook than having your guests camp out in the kitchen and try to sneak bites of food before you are ready to serve them.&nbsp;</div><div><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://3.bp.blogspot.com/-OrVAd7Yk9jA/XLe9csnNaFI/AAAAAAAAt6A/Z61_lPy7oXU-c57_1-8NlVKNL1NvMSu2ACLcBGAs/s1600/Depositphotos_179299464_s-2019.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="617" data-original-width="1000" src="https://3.bp.blogspot.com/-OrVAd7Yk9jA/XLe9csnNaFI/AAAAAAAAt6A/Z61_lPy7oXU-c57_1-8NlVKNL1NvMSu2ACLcBGAs/s1600/Depositphotos_179299464_s-2019.jpg" /></a></div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div>I remedy this by always having something for guests to nibble before the main meal. This way, if people arrive at your house absolutely starving, and things happen to be running a bit behind (hey, it happens to all of us), then they are placated with snacks.&nbsp;</div><div><br /></div><div>Charcuterie and cheeses, nuts, olives and other salty snacks make a great option for nibbling. Pickles and popcorn are also good to incorporate. Having a mix of different things means there's something for everybody.&nbsp;</div><div><br /></div><div>I try to avoid sweet options since this has a tendency to ruin the meal.&nbsp;</div><br /><h2>Simple &amp; Delicious Peach Bellini</h2><div><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://4.bp.blogspot.com/-unNWOYZVfb4/XLewGgsCXqI/AAAAAAAAt50/_XddZFPrnu84UukXxD7JRu9KhhBBwK-_gCLcBGAs/s1600/Depositphotos_161679250_l-2015.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1600" data-original-width="1067" src="https://4.bp.blogspot.com/-unNWOYZVfb4/XLewGgsCXqI/AAAAAAAAt50/_XddZFPrnu84UukXxD7JRu9KhhBBwK-_gCLcBGAs/s1600/Depositphotos_161679250_l-2015.jpg" /></a></div><br />Nothing says brunch like a Bellini, and you can make this one with spirits or as a nonalcoholic version, which is friendly for all ages!&nbsp;<br /><br />For the nonalcoholic version, all you need is peach nectar and ginger ale. To give it more of a spirited twist, sub the ginger ale for Prosecco or champagne. Simple, light and sweet....perfect for spring!<br /><br /><h2>Semi-Homemade Goodness&nbsp;</h2><div><br /></div><div>Finally, take some of the pressure off your Easter meal prep by opting to serve some items not made from scratch. Store-bought isn't always my go-to, but when what I can buy is better than what I can make, I always go for store-bought.&nbsp;</div><div><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-7RDw4WHPpRA/XLfB9PQzi7I/AAAAAAAAt6Y/yTziJPbkSaocsWtcBZ3MPTkZwEB2HuJKwCLcBGAs/s1600/Cheese_and_Chive_Biscuits_2017.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1600" data-original-width="1200" src="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-7RDw4WHPpRA/XLfB9PQzi7I/AAAAAAAAt6Y/yTziJPbkSaocsWtcBZ3MPTkZwEB2HuJKwCLcBGAs/s1600/Cheese_and_Chive_Biscuits_2017.jpg" /></a></div><div><br /></div><div>Unless you love to bake homemade bread and have a foolproof recipe, I recommend picking up some Callie's Charleston Biscuits to serve at your Easter meal. Callie's proprietor Carrie Morey is a pal of mine and her biscuits are beloved the world over. Knoxville folks can find them at The Fresh Market, or <a href="https://calliesbiscuits.com/apps/store-locator" target="_blank">click here for a store locator in your neck of the woods.</a>&nbsp;</div><div><br /></div><div>And if you bury the package in the bottom of the trash, I won't even tell that you didn't make them yourself! Carrie won't either, I'm sure ;)&nbsp;</div><div><br /></div><div>-----------</div><div><br /></div><div>Easter is more than a time for pastel candy and dresses, Peeps and deviled eggs. It's about hope, and love. And new life. So no matter what's on your table, or who is seated around it, I hope you hold the most important things in your heart this season.&nbsp;</div><div><br /></div><div class="blogger-post-footer">Thanks for gracing me with your presence sweet-cheeks!</div>Unknownnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7325701746970033003.post-48489996475899169892019-04-03T21:20:00.000-04:002019-04-03T21:20:17.036-04:00Easy Ways to Beat StressDid you know April is National Stress Awareness Month? Stress is such a loaded topic these days....we all have it and say we wish we didn't. Some of us wear it like a badge of honor. Some of us legitimately have it from external sources and others of us create it in our daily thoughts, behaviors and actions. I'm not pointing any fingers here....except maybe at myself.<br /><br />Want to decrease the stress in your life? Here are three fun &amp; simple ways!<br /><br /><h2>Eat to Beat Stress&nbsp;</h2><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://3.bp.blogspot.com/-GE9tJ9kaKRY/XKT4AI7ivPI/AAAAAAAAtRI/ZGECxHmJo3Uqgs2Wvf4Zg2PUB9z-XaVRQCLcBGAs/s1600/TJs-Recipe-Loaded-Sweet-Potato-Fries--e1551062236732.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1350" data-original-width="1080" src="https://3.bp.blogspot.com/-GE9tJ9kaKRY/XKT4AI7ivPI/AAAAAAAAtRI/ZGECxHmJo3Uqgs2Wvf4Zg2PUB9z-XaVRQCLcBGAs/s1600/TJs-Recipe-Loaded-Sweet-Potato-Fries--e1551062236732.jpg" /></a></div><div><br /></div><div>I found this recipe on <a href="https://thedinnershift.com/weeknight-recipes/pantry-meals/trader-joes-recipe-loaded-sweet-potato-fries/" target="_blank">The Dinner Shift</a>, a great blog with all sorts of tasty recipes. Sort of a riff on the traditional loaded cheese fries, it incorporates several ingredients that are supposed to help you beat stress and anxiety: sweet potatoes, black beans and avocados.&nbsp;</div><div><br /></div><div>I love sweet potatoes and try to eat them as much as possible. What I didn't know was that they are a mood booster because of the antioxidant beta-carotene, which helps reduce free radical damage to brain cells. Sweet potatoes can also prevent oxidative stress which is common in emotional conditions like anxiety and depression. The carbs in sweet potatoes help with serotonin production.&nbsp;</div><div><br /></div><div><div>Black beans are another stress fighting food because they are rich in magnesium, which has a relaxing effect on the body and brain. Some experts say magnesium deficiency can lead to stress.&nbsp;</div></div><div><br /></div><div>Finally, there is research that shows low levels of Vitamin B can contribute to feelings of anxiety, which can also lead to stress. Avocados are a great source of B Vitamins, so slap on some avocado or guac to give this dish more flavor.&nbsp;</div><div><br /></div><div>So, combine these stress fighting ingredients and whip up your own loaded sweet potato fries, with black beans and avocado! Add cheese, black olives, jalapenos, or whatever other toppings you like! Yum.&nbsp;</div><div><br /></div><h2>Drink to Beat Stress&nbsp;</h2><div><br /></div><div>I'm not talking about <i>that</i>&nbsp;type of drinking. In fact, I have found that alcohol does very little to help with stress....it just takes your mind off things for awhile and then eventually you have to deal with the it again. The drink I recommend to beat stress is a turmeric latte.&nbsp;</div><div><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://3.bp.blogspot.com/-_-M0qEiKsoA/XKT8ZlIa2YI/AAAAAAAAtRU/__gJzGBvekA2rS8kQ6CJLOKRJSn6RVmNQCLcBGAs/s1600/Depositphotos_129038114_l-2015.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1600" data-original-width="1067" src="https://3.bp.blogspot.com/-_-M0qEiKsoA/XKT8ZlIa2YI/AAAAAAAAtRU/__gJzGBvekA2rS8kQ6CJLOKRJSn6RVmNQCLcBGAs/s1600/Depositphotos_129038114_l-2015.jpg" /></a></div><div><br /></div><div>It may be too early to say, but some researchers are suggesting that the anti-inflammatory properties of turmeric may help combat anxiety.&nbsp;</div><div><br /></div><div>I've been making a drink called a Turmeric Golden Milk Latte and it's delicious! Simply combine the ingredients below in a saucepan, and bring to a boil. Simmer for 8-10 minutes and pour into a mug. Enjoy!&nbsp;</div><div><br /></div><div><div>1/2 cup (120ml) of an unsweetened milk of your choice (I like almond or flax)&nbsp;</div><div>1 tsp of turmeric</div><div>1 small piece of grated fresh ginger or 1/2 tsp of ginger powder</div><div>1/2 tsp of cinnamon powder</div><div>1 pinch of ground black pepper</div><div>1 tsp of honey or maple syrup (optional)</div></div><div><br /></div><div>I can't say for sure if it's scientific, but drinking a cup of this in the evening, after a stressful day doesn't hurt.&nbsp;</div><div><br /></div><h2>Make a Stress-Free Self-Care Kit</h2><div><br /></div><div>A final way that I like to deal with stress is with self-care. I know, I know....self-care seems like a buzzword these days. But it comes in many forms and can be a great (cheap &amp; easy) option for dealing with stress.&nbsp;</div><div><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://2.bp.blogspot.com/-dc8I1mkK1A8/XKVaibgeo3I/AAAAAAAAtRg/FDvHuNL13WEZ7wHSOpbcUtxPl7xyfeHzwCLcBGAs/s1600/Depositphotos_11905226_l-2015.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1067" data-original-width="1600" src="https://2.bp.blogspot.com/-dc8I1mkK1A8/XKVaibgeo3I/AAAAAAAAtRg/FDvHuNL13WEZ7wHSOpbcUtxPl7xyfeHzwCLcBGAs/s1600/Depositphotos_11905226_l-2015.jpg" /></a></div><div><br /></div><div>Maybe create a self-care kit or basket so that all your stuff is one spot. Fill it with your favorite things so that when you start feeling stress coming on, you can treat yourself to something from the basket.</div><div><br /></div><div>Mine includes face mask sheets, body scrubs, dark chocolate, a great smelling candle, and essential oils. Also a few magazines or a book that I'm waiting for a chance to read.</div><div><br /></div><div>Stress isn't always bad. It can alert us to danger, push us to achieve our goals and help us accomplish tasks more efficiently. But chronic stress, the kind that feels like a frenzied wave just pushing us along and sometimes crashing over us, is terrible. The good news is we don't have to live with it. I'm trying to be more aware of stress for National Stress Awareness Month and beyond. Hopefully you can too!&nbsp;</div><div class="blogger-post-footer">Thanks for gracing me with your presence sweet-cheeks!</div>Unknownnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7325701746970033003.post-17451255887605333262019-03-20T15:12:00.000-04:002019-03-20T15:12:35.648-04:00Setting a Beautiful Springtime TableHappy Spring y'all! I don't know about you, but I'm loving life against the backdrop of blooms and green. In honor of the season, I'm bringing some spring inside with a few ideas for setting a beautiful springtime table.<br /><br /><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://3.bp.blogspot.com/-rV94ioKamQo/XJKO1OPqGEI/AAAAAAAAtJQ/OyWfb6KeX1I6sOwaNJmA4X46_lkTzbZCQCLcBGAs/s1600/Depositphotos_188178644_l-2015.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1166" data-original-width="1600" src="https://3.bp.blogspot.com/-rV94ioKamQo/XJKO1OPqGEI/AAAAAAAAtJQ/OyWfb6KeX1I6sOwaNJmA4X46_lkTzbZCQCLcBGAs/s1600/Depositphotos_188178644_l-2015.jpg" /></a></div><br />Don't feel like you have to go out and spend a lot of money. These ideas are simple to execute and affordable for any budget!<br /><br />First, think about your background. Got a gorgeous table? Maybe leave it uncovered for some natural beauty this spring. Want to add a pop of color? Go bold with a brightly colored tablecloth. I like royal blue because it looks great against the colors of the season.<br /><br />Then, add texture. Think table runners, placemats and chargers. These can help you add visual interest and create a more interesting look and feel.<br /><br />Consider the dishes you want to use. I tend to stick with all white since they can be mixed and matched with anything....but if you love color, go all out! And don't feel like you have to be all matchy matchy. Combine patterns and colors to create a more exciting tablescape.<br /><br />Accessories are when the real fun begins...I have some adorable little bird nests that I like to use. These were thrifted a few years ago and cost just a couple of bucks. I also like to incorporate elements like bunnies, ceramic flowers and small containers.<br /><br />Don't forget to add natural elements! Pebbles, rocks, twigs or things you've collected can be really cute. And don't hesitate to snip a few branches from blooming shrubs or plants in your yard.<br /><br />All of this can be combined in a lovely, affordable and simple-to-create spring tablescape!<div class="blogger-post-footer">Thanks for gracing me with your presence sweet-cheeks!</div>Unknownnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7325701746970033003.post-462644044147766672019-03-06T20:31:00.001-05:002019-03-06T20:31:15.955-05:00Fun & Simple DIY Flower Arrangements for Spring<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://2.bp.blogspot.com/-xVeywG2cKDI/XIBu_GodOlI/AAAAAAAAs6I/YgiFtMsok_0qdB2FRXlBzhHYu2KpJUr9gCLcBGAs/s1600/Depositphotos_88443158_l-2015.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1067" data-original-width="1600" src="https://2.bp.blogspot.com/-xVeywG2cKDI/XIBu_GodOlI/AAAAAAAAs6I/YgiFtMsok_0qdB2FRXlBzhHYu2KpJUr9gCLcBGAs/s1600/Depositphotos_88443158_l-2015.jpg" /></a></div><br />Spring is just around the corner and these last few weeks of winter can really start to wear me down. I'm bringing some springtime cheer to my home with a few fun and simple DIY flower arrangements to help welcome in the season.<br /><br />I can't promise these will help spring come any quicker, but they will at least brighten up your home while you're waiting for those last days of winter to pass.<br /><br />When I buy flowers, I usually just head to my local grocery store. You might think you have to go to a fancy florist, but with a little creativity you can turn simple grocery store flowers into some really beautiful arrangements, and you don't have to spend a ton of cash.<br /><br />One way I like to create arrangements is with groupings of flowers or single stems in glass vases. You can use identical flowers (same type and color) or you can use all the same type (roses, daisies, etc) or just a variety of blossoms in the same color.<br /><br /><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://4.bp.blogspot.com/-rAppX8A1FVc/XIBxNqBUv9I/AAAAAAAAs6U/u9QMlTYyDEIWoQPSXnAdDPtXCBvZX3RhgCLcBGAs/s1600/Depositphotos_199413194_l-2015.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1125" data-original-width="1600" src="https://4.bp.blogspot.com/-rAppX8A1FVc/XIBxNqBUv9I/AAAAAAAAs6U/u9QMlTYyDEIWoQPSXnAdDPtXCBvZX3RhgCLcBGAs/s1600/Depositphotos_199413194_l-2015.jpg" /></a></div><br />Get creative with your containers....don't feel like you have to opt for a plain old vase. If you collect something, put that to use. Pitchers, teapots or pottery all make great and lovely containers for a spring floral arrangement. I love using my collection of Ironstone pottery for this very purpose.<br /><br />Need some container inspiration? Hit up your local thrift store. I scour the shelves for containers with a unique texture of shape. Don't love the color? Give it a new vibe with a fresh coat of spray paint.<br /><br /><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://2.bp.blogspot.com/-Levq_eSk_dA/XIBx9Uo6o2I/AAAAAAAAs6c/hp70Q2LOiCweIMSxg5TjsMkFlkqgmJzswCLcBGAs/s1600/Depositphotos_50397917_l-2015.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1111" data-original-width="1600" src="https://2.bp.blogspot.com/-Levq_eSk_dA/XIBx9Uo6o2I/AAAAAAAAs6c/hp70Q2LOiCweIMSxg5TjsMkFlkqgmJzswCLcBGAs/s1600/Depositphotos_50397917_l-2015.jpg" /></a></div><br />And don't forget to think about your color palette when creating DIY floral arrangements. When Pantone released its 2019 color of the year as Living Coral, I was pretty excited. Coral has always been a favorite of mine. In fact, I used this shade for my wedding flowers a few years ago.<br /><br /><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://2.bp.blogspot.com/-BOSyF3g745I/XIBz-YAktNI/AAAAAAAAs6o/HBFuAyR7jiYGteQi1VZFVRAUtkg7cjnXQCLcBGAs/s1600/Depositphotos_235797364_l-2015.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1200" data-original-width="1600" src="https://2.bp.blogspot.com/-BOSyF3g745I/XIBz-YAktNI/AAAAAAAAs6o/HBFuAyR7jiYGteQi1VZFVRAUtkg7cjnXQCLcBGAs/s1600/Depositphotos_235797364_l-2015.jpg" /></a></div><br />When in doubt, just grab flowers in a shade you love and they will be sure to cheer you up no matter the season!<div class="blogger-post-footer">Thanks for gracing me with your presence sweet-cheeks!</div>Unknownnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7325701746970033003.post-3602140454677950302019-03-02T10:02:00.000-05:002019-03-02T10:02:00.672-05:00Popcorn Ceilings<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-27PNfQUPMaI/XHqaGMDJREI/AAAAAAAAn34/qxk9zOQE1-8T2owA5jpIlooRtfA10NvBACLcBGAs/s1600/Depositphotos_246482598_l-2015.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1067" data-original-width="1600" src="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-27PNfQUPMaI/XHqaGMDJREI/AAAAAAAAn34/qxk9zOQE1-8T2owA5jpIlooRtfA10NvBACLcBGAs/s1600/Depositphotos_246482598_l-2015.jpg" /></a></div><br />When I was little, I had a purple bedroom at the top of a big set of wooden stairs, on the second story of our house. I used to lay awake in my twin bed, under my Cabbage Patch Kids comforter, and count the ceiling tiles as I tried to fall asleep.<br /><br />I'd count the columns across the top and then count the rows from top to bottom. Then I'd count the number of tiles in each and multiply them together to get a total number of tiles. Then I'd count each and every tile to check myself and make sure they were all still there.<br /><br />It was an old house, with lots of little eccentricities, like a closet that connected two rooms through what I believed to be a secret passage.<br /><br />However that was not the house I consider to be my childhood home.<br /><br />My childhood home was a house where I lived for the longest with my family, five-ish years, before graduating and heading off to my so-called grown-up life. There were no ceiling tiles to count because that house has popcorn ceilings.<br /><br />Every time I hear the term it make me think of something delicious. Apparently these are also sometimes called cottage cheese ceilings, and even though I like cottage cheese, this makes my stomach turn.<br /><br />I'd lay in my bed and try to find some sort of pattern to make sense of the splats and spatters. When there was none, I counted other things instead. The number of days until my next birthday. How many pounds I thought I needed to lose in order to fit into a certain size of pants. How much time had passed since I'd last seen or heard from my biological dad.<br /><br />Even now that I live in a home with smooth ceilings, I still count these things (16, 27, and 5429...in case you were wondering).<br /><br />We've had a lot of rain lately. I was sitting in my living room and happened to glance upward and saw a brown line on the ceiling that hadn't been there before. Water, as it always does, found a way in.<br /><br />This is both disturbing (anybody got a good roofer?) and comforting at the same time. Comforting because it reminds me that things will find a way.<br /><br />I've been a mess this week. I've been someone who in the past I would have judged...harshly. I just couldn't seem to hold it all together. And I'm terrible at asking for help. I want to do it all, on my own. And I want to reserve the right to feel self-righteous if I'm able to and mad as hell if I can't.<br /><br />I can't be the only one like this. Surely there's more of us who struggle with this distinct flavor of malfunction. I know, I know....blame our childhoods, blah blah. And maybe I do feel an urge to blame on occasion.<br /><br />But that doesn't really accomplish anything.<br /><br />I don't have any wisdom here. Yet. I just know I woke up alive today and that's more than some can say.<br /><br />Author Matt Haig says, "Be a mess. It's fine. The universe is a mess. Galaxies are drifting all over the place. To be tidy is to be out of tune with the cosmos."<br /><br />And along those same lines, my own dear husband who mainly posts screenshots from 80s horror movies, shared this on Facebook:<br /><br />“Consider again that dot [Earth]. That's here. That's home. That's us. On it everyone you love, everyone you know, everyone you ever heard of, every human being who ever was, lived out their lives. The aggregate of our joy and suffering, thousands of confident religions, ideologies, and economic doctrines, every hunter and forager, every hero and coward, every creator and destroyer of civilization, every king and peasant, every young couple in love, every mother and father, hopeful child, inventor and explorer, every teacher of morals, every corrupt politician, every "superstar," every "supreme leader," every saint and sinner in the history of our species lived there - on a mote of dust suspended in a sunbeam.” -- Carl Sagan<br /><br />I'm clinging to my mote, praying for a sunbeam. I hope you can do the same. And if you happen to be staring up at the chaos of a popcorn ceiling, maybe you can find some beauty there too.<div class="blogger-post-footer">Thanks for gracing me with your presence sweet-cheeks!</div>Unknownnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7325701746970033003.post-56264683388382956182019-02-18T18:49:00.001-05:002019-02-25T13:52:43.111-05:00Family Cabin<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://4.bp.blogspot.com/-yOAAdqzgHho/XGtBnFpkjII/AAAAAAAAn1s/HOgiW0EVGeI-5uw6_EnU0cGR9LPnJ7UiACLcBGAs/s1600/Depositphotos_2360992_l-2015.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1064" data-original-width="1600" src="https://4.bp.blogspot.com/-yOAAdqzgHho/XGtBnFpkjII/AAAAAAAAn1s/HOgiW0EVGeI-5uw6_EnU0cGR9LPnJ7UiACLcBGAs/s1600/Depositphotos_2360992_l-2015.jpg" /></a></div><br />I just started reading Mary Karr's <i>The Art of Memoir</i>&nbsp;and only a few pages in, I know I'm gonna love it. Karr wrote <i>The Liar's Club</i> which I used to own but never actually got around to reading, and now wish I had. It's definitely going back on the list "to-read."<br /><br />In <i>The Art of Memoir</i>, she says "a good writer can conjure a landscape and its peoples to live inside you, and the best writers make you feel they've disclosed their soft underbellies. Seeing someone naked thrills us a little."<br /><br />Last weekend my family gathered for what I jokingly dubbed "family cabin." When I offhandedly mentioned to a pal that I would be out of town for the weekend at "family cabin," he said "family cabin? Sounds like it could be the title of a horror movie."<br /><br />When I was young, my mom's extended family began an annual tradition of going away for the weekend in January or February. We'd all pile into our cars and travel, convoy style, to a cabin in the woods.<br /><br />We didn't always go to the same location or to the same cabin, but there were certain recurring themes woven through these trips.<br /><br />The cabin would be big, but not quite big enough for everybody to have their own room or even a bed. And the cabins rarely had a bathroom with walls you couldn't hear through.<br /><br />If the cabin had a fireplace, my grandpa would always light a fire. No matter how unseasonably warm it might have been outside. And without meaning to, there would always be a moment where he'd have flue issues, and accidentally smoke us all out. When it happened this weekend, I felt a sense of "all is right with the world."<br /><br />Another theme of "family cabin" has always been food. Way too much food. Industrial cases of frozen sausage patties for breakfast. Bags and bags of potato chips. Multiple <a href="https://wikibuy.com/p/crock-pot-7-qt-slow-cooker-opal/HCXFG2XNVJ?run=d263155c-6aba-4c48-a848-ba4733ea673b" target="_blank">Crock-Pot slow cookers</a> filled with numerous varieties of melted cheese-based dips. We pretty much eat ourselves silly, which is fine with me.<br /><br />This past weekend, my grandpa (who I promise I'm not trying to pick on) said he wasn't even hungry by the time dinner rolled around, but was still going to force down a plate of steak, baked potato and salad. Afterward, he had to take a teaspoon of yellow mustard for his indigestion (this totally works if you need a good home remedy).<br /><br />Something else that has been a theme of "family cabin" falls into a category I'll call crafts/games/activities. In various years, we've painted tablecloths, turned wooden spoons into angels, ice skated, made gingerbread houses, decorated cookies (I know, that one finds its home in the food category too), and even pulled all the sheets and blankets off the beds for costumes so we could re-enact the Nativity pageant (which we filmed, naturally).<br /><br />We've stayed in log cabins, cinder block bunkers, stone houses, and cottages on the lake.<br /><br />"Family cabin" has seen its share of spouses, partners, boyfriends and girlfriends. From year to year, we've had unexpected guests, random extras and friends who are like family.<br /><br />And we've seen some of the littlest ones of the group grow up and have little ones of their own.<br /><br />This year, we even saw a naked man! Well, I didn't see him....but some of us did. Apparently the cabin that backed up to ours had a well-placed (or you could say poorly-placed) window in the bathroom, and no curtains. This is actually what inspired me to write about "family cabin."<br /><br />I was reading Mary Karr's words about being a good writer and how it means disclosing private things, secret things we don't want to share. When I read her line about how "seeing someone naked thrills us a little," I knew I had to put this out there. It's not really the nudity that thrills, but more the idea of seeing or learning something that is usually kept private. Good writers tell their stories, even the ones that are tough to share or don't look all that great.<br /><br />I want to be a good writer. Except I am often afraid to write about certain things or tell certain stories. I worry about how things will be received or how it will make other people feel. In fact, this fear holds me back quite a bit. So that's what led me to read Karr's book for a bit of inspiration, and boy did I get some.<br /><br />I'm going to work on this. Pinky promise.<br /><br />To some people, the idea of spending an entire weekend crammed into a cabin with your extended family might sound like a horror movie. And I'm sure there were some years that I went with a less-than-great attitude, maybe a bit out of obligation, with all my teen and 20-something angst. It wasn't anything personal against my family....just my own feelings about life and myself that I was trying to work through.<br /><br />But "Family Cabin 2019" was a true gift. In fact, this was the first year in several years that we carried out this tradition. A few years back, we just couldn't make it work. This was a fluke, but then we didn't go the next year and eventually we just got out of the habit. I hope this is a tradition we will pick back up and continue.<br /><br />On the last morning, in the midst of trying to eat up the leftovers and get 24ish people packed up to check out on time, my grandma looked at me and said the following:<br /><br /><blockquote class="tr_bq"><i>"</i>I hope you will make sure that this tradition continues even after we're gone"--gesturing to my grandpa--"It would mean a lot to me if you all kept doing this."&nbsp;&nbsp;</blockquote><i><br /></i>On the drive home, I was already looking at VRBO, trying to find a place for next year that could accommodate us all, including our dogs. Then today, I got a message from my cousin with a link to a cabin she had found. Looks like the tradition will continue, Me-me. But I hope you're going to be here for many more of them.<br /><br />And to the man who some of my family saw naked, I apologize. They were thrilled at your expense.<div class="blogger-post-footer">Thanks for gracing me with your presence sweet-cheeks!</div>Unknownnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7325701746970033003.post-10306070575342841992019-02-13T12:55:00.001-05:002019-02-13T12:55:50.027-05:00Last Minute Valentine's Day Ideas for Your Sweetie <div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://4.bp.blogspot.com/-Go0BRPUmMmY/XGRZu_tCC7I/AAAAAAAAn1A/Rg2t_6_S-eklvEeoSDy84D06vXMbDG-ygCLcBGAs/s1600/Depositphotos_180850304_l-2015.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1068" data-original-width="1600" src="https://4.bp.blogspot.com/-Go0BRPUmMmY/XGRZu_tCC7I/AAAAAAAAn1A/Rg2t_6_S-eklvEeoSDy84D06vXMbDG-ygCLcBGAs/s1600/Depositphotos_180850304_l-2015.jpg" /></a></div><br />So Valentine's Day snuck up on me this year, but no worries....these simple ideas are sure to impress my sweetie, and yours too!<br /><br /><h2>DIY Bruschetta Bar</h2><h2>&nbsp;</h2>Who says you have to spend a ton of money or be a gourmet chef to whip up a memorable Valentine's Day meal? The secret to creating a special eating experience is to incorporate unique flavors and choose products that feel special or out of the ordinary. I hit up my local Trader Joe's and looked for ingredients and products I don't normally buy....things like goat cheese, pesto, and other nibbles.<br /><br />Ya know, stuff you'd expect to enjoy at a fancy wine tasting, art gallery opening or symphony reception.<br /><br />Then I'm going to use it all to create a lovely spread, a charcuterie tray of sorts, but focused on DIY bruschetta. Different toppings, different garnishes, and lots of deliciousness.<br /><br /><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://3.bp.blogspot.com/-SU8-fptmbyk/XGRRJVPG3JI/AAAAAAAAn0U/EmhcmFQKZW8vxid7xqiXWFti0pJjeM06wCLcBGAs/s1600/Depositphotos_66621469_l-2015.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1068" data-original-width="1600" src="https://3.bp.blogspot.com/-SU8-fptmbyk/XGRRJVPG3JI/AAAAAAAAn0U/EmhcmFQKZW8vxid7xqiXWFti0pJjeM06wCLcBGAs/s1600/Depositphotos_66621469_l-2015.jpg" /></a></div><br />There are many pros to this kind of Valentine's Day meal. One, it's easy to whip up without a lot of prep time. Two, it doesn't require your entire evening to be spent in the kitchen and clean-up is a breeze. Three, if your sweetie is treating you to a lovely meal out to a restaurant, this can serve as your appetizer course. Although between you and me, going to a restaurant on Valentine's Day tends to be something of a let down.<br /><br />And be sure to serve this on a wooden cutting board or some type of fancy tray if you have one. Presentation goes a long way!<br /><br /><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://4.bp.blogspot.com/-ZwnEKFzld4o/XGRTUBrgTxI/AAAAAAAAn0g/bD0-HeZkGt8HWUTWR0wTIzNYLMLv7A9LQCLcBGAs/s1600/Depositphotos_207489772_l-2015.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1600" data-original-width="1600" src="https://4.bp.blogspot.com/-ZwnEKFzld4o/XGRTUBrgTxI/AAAAAAAAn0g/bD0-HeZkGt8HWUTWR0wTIzNYLMLv7A9LQCLcBGAs/s1600/Depositphotos_207489772_l-2015.jpg" /></a></div><br />Here are some other ideas for things to add to your DIY Charcuterie/Bruschetta tray:<br /><br /><ul><li>Assorted cheeses (some hard, some soft)</li><li>Assorted meats (prosciutto, capicola, and salamis)</li><li>Assorted olives &amp; pickles&nbsp;</li><li>Crusty bread slices or store-bought bruschetta toasts&nbsp;</li><li>Assorted jams, jellies, honeys, and spreads (hummus, pesto, dips, etc)&nbsp;</li><li>Assorted fruits like berries, plus slices/sections of apples, pears, and oranges&nbsp;</li></ul><br /><h2>Create a Rosé Wine Station</h2><h2>&nbsp;</h2><div>Champagne is popular for creating a DIY mimosa bar, but what about creating a&nbsp;rosé station for your Valentine's Day celebration? Rosé mixes well with some of the common mixers, such as lemonade, limeade and orange juice. You can also add some sparkling water like LaCroix in a variety of flavors, depending on your preference.&nbsp;</div><div><br /></div><div><a href="https://www.bonappetit.com/story/rose-cocktails" target="_blank">Here are five rose cocktails that might inspire you!</a>&nbsp;</div><div><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://4.bp.blogspot.com/-KniDRJjthRc/XGRV6T_is_I/AAAAAAAAn0s/OtGFry2CsbYMDK3wbV3VKAuC0ofDIJ6XgCLcBGAs/s1600/Depositphotos_182057418_l-2015.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1107" data-original-width="1600" src="https://4.bp.blogspot.com/-KniDRJjthRc/XGRV6T_is_I/AAAAAAAAn0s/OtGFry2CsbYMDK3wbV3VKAuC0ofDIJ6XgCLcBGAs/s1600/Depositphotos_182057418_l-2015.jpg" /></a></div><div><br /></div><div>And finally, because it's not Valentine's Day without a little something sweet.....</div><div><br /></div><h2>Cupid's Trail Mix&nbsp;</h2><div><br /></div><div>Again, y'all know I love a simple recipe and this one certainly qualifies. I was inspired by this Chex Mix, but I've adapted it a bit for the holiday.&nbsp;</div><div><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://2.bp.blogspot.com/-D2SSCBV4MNE/XGRZN5huUyI/AAAAAAAAn04/ZnpXBuICAZY5fO-qMnNIb599nhyhqR-tACLcBGAs/s1600/chex%2Bmix.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="450" data-original-width="800" src="https://2.bp.blogspot.com/-D2SSCBV4MNE/XGRZN5huUyI/AAAAAAAAn04/ZnpXBuICAZY5fO-qMnNIb599nhyhqR-tACLcBGAs/s1600/chex%2Bmix.jpg" /></a></div><div><br /></div><div>The only ingredients <a href="https://www.bettycrocker.com/recipes/jeweled-princess-chex-mix/1746cb05-6600-41bb-8dcc-419c00d1ae8c" target="_blank">the basic recipe</a> calls for are:&nbsp;</div><div><br /></div><div><ul><li>8 cups Rice Chex™ or Corn Chex™ cereal</li><li>2 bags (12 oz each) white vanilla baking chips (4 cups)</li><li>2 tablespoons pink cookie/cupcake sprinkles&nbsp;</li></ul><div><br /></div><div>I'm adding some pink marshmallows, a few red, pink and white candies (whatever you like) and pretzels to give it some salty crunch. Oh and popcorn....gotta have popcorn.&nbsp;</div></div><div><br /></div><div>I hope your heart is filled with love, no matter how you are spending the day! XOXO y'all!&nbsp;</div><div class="blogger-post-footer">Thanks for gracing me with your presence sweet-cheeks!</div>Unknownnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7325701746970033003.post-5318823711786657362019-02-08T23:12:00.000-05:002019-02-08T23:12:43.141-05:00The Unbroken Heart <div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://3.bp.blogspot.com/-A_Cj0B2QnvU/XF5N8v8ihRI/AAAAAAAAnzo/9IGUoKkk-ZQg8f0qZCoSdIlv_KFl9vUaACLcBGAs/s1600/Depositphotos_18466557_l-2015.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1064" data-original-width="1600" src="https://3.bp.blogspot.com/-A_Cj0B2QnvU/XF5N8v8ihRI/AAAAAAAAnzo/9IGUoKkk-ZQg8f0qZCoSdIlv_KFl9vUaACLcBGAs/s1600/Depositphotos_18466557_l-2015.jpg" /></a></div><br />I was in high school when my mom introduced me to the soundtrack to the Broadway show <i>The Fantasticks.&nbsp;</i>I listened to it (on a cassette tape, I think) from start to finish, but having never seen the show, it was a little bit hard to know exactly what was happening in the story.<br /><br />The first time I heard "Try to Remember" I knew it would be a song I'd love forever. Especially when I heard the following line:<br /><br /><div style="text-align: left;"><i><span style="font-size: large;">"Without a hurt, the heart is hollow."&nbsp;</span></i></div><div style="text-align: left;"><i><span style="font-size: large;"><br /></span></i></div><div style="text-align: left;">You might be wondering what I, a sheltered teen from a small southern town knew about hurt. Looking back at that sweet, but silly girl, I would say definitely not much. But then, I thought I was such an expert. I thought the struggle was real all the way back when. Definitely before there were memes to poke fun at the concept.&nbsp;</div><div style="text-align: left;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: left;">So that line in the song really resonated with me. Maybe it was because it somehow took the idea of pain and made it a good thing. As if our hearts are just hollow chocolate Easter rabbits until we get some broken experiences to clink and clatter around in there. Could be.&nbsp;&nbsp;</div><div style="text-align: left;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: left;">.</div><div style="text-align: left;">.</div><div style="text-align: left;">.</div><div style="text-align: left;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: left;">I have a friend. Let's call her Rosie. We've known each other for a couple of years, but only in the past six months or so have we gotten to be really close. She has some challenges in her life and a few times, I have tried to pitch in and lend a hand where I thought she needed one.&nbsp;</div><div style="text-align: left;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: left;">I was lamenting to another friend about how it can be tough to know when to help and when to mind one's own beeswax. My friend said, "I know you love Rosie and you want to help, but I'm just afraid of seeing you get your heart broken."&nbsp;</div><div style="text-align: left;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: left;">And I know my friend meant this with all love and compassion for me. But what I didn't realize when she said it was that it's too late. My heart has already been broken. Maybe yours has been, too.&nbsp;</div><div style="text-align: left;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: left;">Broken by a situation you didn't ask to be brought into. And even though you were/are loved, there's tough stuff too.&nbsp;</div><div style="text-align: left;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: left;">Broken by feeling just a bit (or a whole lot) different from the rest, and like nothing you do will really make you fit.&nbsp;</div><div style="text-align: left;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: left;">Broken by the disappointment that washes over you each and every time you let yourself believe things will be different and then they aren't.&nbsp;</div><div style="text-align: left;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: left;">Broken by having to straddle the fence between two worlds....wanting so badly to exist completely in one or the other, but feeling like you really don't belong in either one.&nbsp;</div><div style="text-align: left;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: left;">Broken by the consequences of the decisions of others, decisions that impact you wholly and yet those you have no control over.&nbsp;</div><div style="text-align: left;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: left;">Broken by expectations you'll never live up to or maybe broken by the ways you hold yourself back to protect others who can't bear to see you soar.&nbsp;</div><div style="text-align: left;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: left;">Broken by feelings that lurk around the corner and creep in when you are most vulnerable and least able to defend against them.&nbsp;</div><div style="text-align: left;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: left;">Broken by the lies you've been told, even possibly by your very own self, and especially if you believed them. And are still believing them.&nbsp;</div><div style="text-align: left;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: left;">There are so many things that break our hearts. And sometimes we don't even realize it while it's happening. Just like the stock market and how nobody really knows if it's a bear or bull until it's over.&nbsp;</div><div style="text-align: left;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: left;">I can't actually remember what it was like when my heart was pristine. Hollow. These days, there are enough broken pieces clinking and clattering around in there for a lifetime. And same for my friend Rosie.&nbsp;</div><div style="text-align: left;"><br /></div>Our hearts were broken ages ago. Before we even knew it. I'm not sure if she knows it still.<br /><br />The funny (or maybe not funny) thing is my broken heart is the reason I love my friend Rosie so much. Maybe I see a little of myself in her. Or maybe I see her in me. My heart may be broken, but nevertheless, it loves so good.<div class="blogger-post-footer">Thanks for gracing me with your presence sweet-cheeks!</div>Unknownnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7325701746970033003.post-24412770282333171032019-01-29T15:04:00.000-05:002019-01-29T15:04:21.692-05:00We Regret to Inform You <div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-1Iy4dY0AeN8/XFCv-mntWsI/AAAAAAAAnyQ/dUxjk2Rcacok3b_fA632Rsm_9-fEDAudACLcBGAs/s1600/Depositphotos_118719266_l-2015.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1108" data-original-width="1600" src="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-1Iy4dY0AeN8/XFCv-mntWsI/AAAAAAAAnyQ/dUxjk2Rcacok3b_fA632Rsm_9-fEDAudACLcBGAs/s1600/Depositphotos_118719266_l-2015.jpg" /></a></div><br /><br />Dear Madam,<br /><br />We regret to inform you that a committee has met and determined once and for all you simply aren't good enough. We took a vote and unanimously agreed upon the following:<br /><br /><ul><li>You will never achieve the things you are secretly dreaming in your heart.&nbsp;</li><li>Plus, your dreams are so silly....just let those go, mmkay?&nbsp;</li><li>Everyone is watching and waiting for you to fail. Failure is not permitted.&nbsp;</li><li>Stepping out and drawing any sort of attention to yourself is foolish.&nbsp;</li><li>Quirky fashion and eclectic style is something reserved for a cool, other sort of person so please wear only plain clothing and never high heels (in case you didn't know already, you are just so tall).&nbsp;</li><li>Asking for help is a sign of weakness and people are annoyed by people who ask for help.&nbsp;</li><li>The broken pieces that you haul around will never be put back together again, no matter how hard the king's horses and men may try.&nbsp;</li><li>Your Instagram following is paltry at best, pathetic at worst and this determines a great deal of your life's worth and value.&nbsp;</li><li>All that time you spend reading or listening to audio books could be better spent creating viral content like snazzy graphics and shareable memes.&nbsp;</li><li>There is no audience who will relate to the weird stuff you think about, so it's best to keep all that to yourself.&nbsp;</li><li>Daydreaming is a thing of childhood. You must get serious and spend your time thinking about things like tax shelters, HMOs, and continuously variable transmissions.&nbsp;</li><li>The world is just terrible so there's no point trying to do any good to the contrary.&nbsp;</li><li>You cannot speak unless what you say sounds perfect. You may not act unless every detail has been planned out to the nth degree.&nbsp;</li></ul><div><br /></div><div>If you agree to these terms, please sign and return in a nondescript envelope without glittery stickers or any "i"s dotted with hearts.&nbsp;</div><div><br /></div><div>If you do not agree, THEN KINDLY STOP LIVING LIKE YOU DO. THIS IS YOUR OPPORTUNITY. SEIZE IT. THAT IS ALL.&nbsp;</div><div class="blogger-post-footer">Thanks for gracing me with your presence sweet-cheeks!</div>Unknownnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7325701746970033003.post-18414758276409759802019-01-23T19:37:00.001-05:002019-01-23T19:37:31.221-05:00Cozy Winter Drinks to Brighten Your Day!Winter is a necessary evil, but can really get me down, if I'm being completely honest. Shorter days, colder temperatures, and drab landscapes don't make me feel much like celebrating.<br /><br />But alas, winter will pass and soon spring will have sprung. In the meantime, I'm trying to beat the winter blues with these delicious and easy drink recipes. Check them out and I hope you feel inspired!<br /><br /><h2>Chocolate Chia Smoothie</h2><div><br /></div><div>Want to start your day off right? Try a rich chocolate smoothie that tastes great and is good for you! It is simple to make and calls for only basic ingredients you may already have on hand, with the exception of the chia seeds and they are easy to come by.&nbsp;</div><div><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://2.bp.blogspot.com/-QPHpn9N-Ovs/XEjFv8KVbmI/AAAAAAAAnxM/AsaGBdhvEcwoG9e0B3dTFXbdU4o8W5l7wCLcBGAs/s1600/Depositphotos_53309871_l-2015.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1067" data-original-width="1600" src="https://2.bp.blogspot.com/-QPHpn9N-Ovs/XEjFv8KVbmI/AAAAAAAAnxM/AsaGBdhvEcwoG9e0B3dTFXbdU4o8W5l7wCLcBGAs/s1600/Depositphotos_53309871_l-2015.jpg" /></a></div><div><br /></div><div>You'll need:&nbsp;</div><div><ul><li>1 peeled banana</li><li>A cup of fresh spinach</li><li>3-5 ice cubes</li><li>A cup of milk&nbsp;</li><li>3 T chia seeds</li><li>2 T cocoa powder (the unsweetened kind used for baking)</li></ul><div>Blend everything together and enjoy!&nbsp;</div></div><h2><br /></h2><h2>Golden Turmeric Latte&nbsp;</h2><br /><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://2.bp.blogspot.com/-xUSk5iayMFg/XEjDl71SJuI/AAAAAAAAnxA/cG5MiNTKHS4oED_8wxs676K3qfOh3luLQCLcBGAs/s1600/Depositphotos_180534508_l-2015.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1600" data-original-width="1069" src="https://2.bp.blogspot.com/-xUSk5iayMFg/XEjDl71SJuI/AAAAAAAAnxA/cG5MiNTKHS4oED_8wxs676K3qfOh3luLQCLcBGAs/s1600/Depositphotos_180534508_l-2015.jpg" /></a></div><br />Want something warm and soothing that isn't coffee? Try a turmeric latte (also called a turmeric tea).<br /><br />Turmeric touts many scientifically-proven health benefits, such as the potential to prevent heart disease, Alzheimer's and cancer. It's a potent anti-inflammatory and antioxidant and may also help improve symptoms of depression and arthritis.<br /><br />Incorporate this rock star ingredient into your next warm drink!<br /><br /><b>Turmeric Latte Recipe:&nbsp;</b><br /><br /><ul><li>3/4 teaspoon turmeric powder</li><li>¼ - ½ teaspoon ground ginger</li><li>black pepper (just a pinch)</li><li>1 teaspoon honey</li><li>1 teaspoon of nut butter (almond, cashew nut or hazelnut)</li><li>1 ½ cups water (or milk, for a creamier drink)</li><li>½ - ¾ teaspoon ground cinnamon&nbsp;</li><li>1 teaspoon vanilla extract&nbsp;</li><li>pinch of salt&nbsp;</li></ul><br /><div>Add all ingredients to a blender and blend until smooth and frothy. This drink can be enjoyed warmed up or cold. Add cinnamon to your liking and enjoy!&nbsp;</div><div><br /></div><h2>Wintry Coconut Mocktail</h2><div><br /></div><div>For this drink, I was inspired by&nbsp;Batida de coco, which is a Brazilian coconut cocktail. What better to help us get through winter in Tennessee than thoughts of Brazil?&nbsp;</div><div><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://3.bp.blogspot.com/-xNcgf70nDJ4/XEkG7B87HWI/AAAAAAAAnxY/2-KVNpIawxIACgWcFXdD4MfLkrWgJSonwCLcBGAs/s1600/coconut%2Bdrink.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="960" data-original-width="960" src="https://3.bp.blogspot.com/-xNcgf70nDJ4/XEkG7B87HWI/AAAAAAAAnxY/2-KVNpIawxIACgWcFXdD4MfLkrWgJSonwCLcBGAs/s1600/coconut%2Bdrink.jpg" /></a></div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div>Batida (which means 'shaken' in Portugese) is a Brazilian cocktail recipe typically made with fruit juice and sweetened condensed milk. The version that inspired me substituted coconut milk for the fruit juice. It also calls for vodka (and you can find the original <a href="http://allrecipes.co.uk/recipe/24535/batida-de-coco--brazilian-coconut-cocktail-.aspx" target="_blank">here</a>) but mine is a mocktail for all ages!&nbsp;</div><div><br /></div><div>To make your coconut mocktail, you'll need:&nbsp;</div><div><br /></div><div><ul><li>1 can of Coconut Milk (you won't need the entire thing, maybe just a cup)</li><li>1 tsp sweetened condensed milk (or honey)</li><li>1 can of LaCroix coconut flavored fizzy water&nbsp;</li></ul><div>Mix the first two ingredients well. I prefer to shake them in a cocktail shaker with a few ice cubes. Pour into a glass and top with some chilled coconut fizzy water. Delicious and refreshing. Can't you taste summer now?&nbsp;</div></div><div class="blogger-post-footer">Thanks for gracing me with your presence sweet-cheeks!</div>Unknownnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7325701746970033003.post-26294268294209650492019-01-21T13:23:00.000-05:002019-01-21T13:23:35.049-05:00Spoiler Alert - We Have No Way of Knowing<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://2.bp.blogspot.com/-xkeBqTB9f3o/XEYJvmOSJYI/AAAAAAAAnwg/ROSKYhZX1DEh9t2kVEIQVyZXzz36MaRRQCLcBGAs/s1600/Depositphotos_207648832_l-2015recolored.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1068" data-original-width="1600" src="https://2.bp.blogspot.com/-xkeBqTB9f3o/XEYJvmOSJYI/AAAAAAAAnwg/ROSKYhZX1DEh9t2kVEIQVyZXzz36MaRRQCLcBGAs/s1600/Depositphotos_207648832_l-2015recolored.jpg" /></a></div><br />I do not like surprises. I guess I'm just too much of a control freak to 'let go and let God' enough to enjoy them. I don't mind small surprises, like an unexpected visit or call from a friend. It's the big surprises that are more of an issue. Things that make you feel like the rug has been completely pulled from under you on a random Tuesday and you're left scratching your head and trying to make sense of the fragments scattered about the floor.<br /><div><br /></div><div>Of course this makes life rather challenging for me, since it tends to dish up a fair share of the unexpected.<br /><div><br /></div><div>Maybe this is why I prefer more predictable forms of entertainment....i.e. genre books and films that stick to a certain formula. I especially love re-reading or re-watching favorites that I've seen umpteen times, since I know exactly what will happen in each subsequent viewing/reading.&nbsp;</div><div><br /></div><div>George Bailey will find redemption. Boo will save Jem and Scout will understand more about her father. Alice will wake up and realize all was but a dream.&nbsp;</div><div><br /></div><blockquote class="tr_bq">There's something about the predictable that's oh so comforting.&nbsp;</blockquote><div><br /></div><div>I am guilty of trying to figure out what the ending of a book or movie will be before I opt to experience it. This is why I usually read spoilers before watching a film that I know will be a tear-jerker. It allows me to mentally prepare myself for what's to come.&nbsp;</div><div><br /></div><div>Books are a bit trickier because even thorough reviews don't always give away the major (heart wrenching) plot points. So I often end up choosing books that seem like a sweet story but end up turning me into a big old weeping mess.<br /><br />Feelings aren't always so cut and dried. You can flip to the last page of a book to relieve anxiety about what's coming, but this doesn't work for feelings. As much as you might try, you can't actually predict them. I never know how a certain situation is going to make me feel until I'm in it.<br /><br />And of course all these things are very personal. What speaks to or tugs at the heartstrings of one person is going to be completely opposite from what affects another. What bothers me may not give you a second thought. Things I miss completely may keep you up at night.<br /><div></div><br />I can't always explain why certain things make me cry or laugh or feel angry or frustrated. But those things are part of who I am. As much as the fact that I'm tall or have curly hair or bad vision. Maybe those things are even more a part of ourselves than the outside stuff. And I don't think we should have to stifle or suppress it just because it makes others uncomfortable, even if the uncomfortable others are ourselves.<br /><br /><div>One of the biggest takeaways I've gotten from my past year or so seeing a counselor is that feelings are neither good nor bad. They just are. I can't tell you how many times I have said "I hate the way I feel about this or that" or "I wish I didn't feel this way."&nbsp;</div><div><br /></div><div>But we have feelings for a reason. They serve a very important purpose in our lives. Like a glass window pane created to let light pass through, our feelings and emotions are functional. And yet somehow some of us have decided that our feelings are wrong. So we get the expensive plantation shutters (or in my case the cheap mini blinds) and the blackout curtains to ensure no light peeks in.&nbsp;</div><div><br /></div><div>We do things to hold our feelings and emotions at a distance. I've definitely been guilty of this. We take away their ability to serve us as they were intended. And then we find ourselves in a dark room without any idea how we got there or what is a possible solution to fix it.&nbsp;</div><br /></div><div><div>There's a saying in the psychology lexicon, "<i>to sit with your feelings."&nbsp;</i>Mostly it has to do with feelings we consider to be negative.<br /><br />It's easy to sit at the popular table. Feeling cool, excited, or accepted doesn't present the same challenges. It's the other, more difficult feelings I don't want to sit with. The ones that make me feel misunderstood, unwanted or unloved. Like the weird smelly kid at the cafeteria lunch table.&nbsp;</div><div><br /></div></div><div>I don't have a resolution yet. The story isn't over. Right now I'm just trying to give myself a bit of grace so when the uncomfortable feelings present themselves, I can let them be. I will sit with them even when it's uncomfortable and awkward. I will sit with them when I can't make eye contact and there's no easy conversation to be made. I will sit with them when everybody else is shifting sideways glances and judging me as a loser. I will sit with them when nobody else understands what I'm doing or why. I will sit with them until I get to know them and understand them even if nobody else ever does.<br /><br />I will sit with my feelings until they stop being my enemy and become my friend.&nbsp;</div></div><div class="blogger-post-footer">Thanks for gracing me with your presence sweet-cheeks!</div>Unknownnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7325701746970033003.post-90131734656996329072019-01-09T20:35:00.001-05:002019-01-09T20:35:05.450-05:00Fun & Simple Uses for Oatmeal January is National Oatmeal Month (who comes up with these things?) so in honor of the occasion, I'm sharing some fun and simple uses for oatmeal that might be a little unexpected, but easy to make use of.<br /><br />Who knew your favorite hearty winter breakfast food was good for all sorts of other things?<br /><br /><h2>Soothe Your Pup's Dry Skin</h2><div><br /></div><div>Winter weather and being indoors with the heat running constantly can lead to dry itchy skin. And I'm not just talking about people....pets can struggle to adjust to the elements, especially if they have sensitive skin.&nbsp;</div><div><br /></div><div>My senior rescue gals (a Yorkie &amp; a Chihuahua) both have various skin ailments and an oatmeal shampoo is a great way to pamper my beloved pooches.&nbsp;</div><div><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://4.bp.blogspot.com/-8YAIjDukG7g/XDag_pJUMkI/AAAAAAAAnuo/ukjtd2Y25g0L3pNa-jnkDMOad-SSviRGwCLcBGAs/s1600/Depositphotos_75912677_m-2015.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="667" data-original-width="1000" src="https://4.bp.blogspot.com/-8YAIjDukG7g/XDag_pJUMkI/AAAAAAAAnuo/ukjtd2Y25g0L3pNa-jnkDMOad-SSviRGwCLcBGAs/s1600/Depositphotos_75912677_m-2015.jpg" /></a></div><div><br /></div><div>All you need is a cup of dry oatmeal (old fashioned oats NOT quick cooking). Grind the oats in a food processor or blender until they are a fine consistency, like flour. Stir in a third of a cup of baking soda. At this point you can add some coconut oil for a bit more moisture. Now add 2-4 cups of water (depending on the consistency you want). Use immediately or within a day or so but refrigerate if you aren't using right away.&nbsp;</div><div><br /></div><div>When you bathe your dog, just wet his or her coat and apply this oatmeal mixture as you would normal shampoo. It won't lather up like a harsh detergent shampoo, but get it into their skin and problem areas. If your dog will cooperate, leave on for 10-15 minutes. Otherwise, rinse and you're good to go!&nbsp;</div><div><br /></div><h2>Oatmeal Face Mask for Glowing Skin</h2><div><br /></div><div>Besides keeping you full as a hearty breakfast option, oatmeal has other benefits that are great for skin. Did you know it both soothes and softens? This is why it is such a good option for a DIY home face mask.&nbsp;</div><div><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://3.bp.blogspot.com/-wQYb0Qblf_k/XDagdPAB30I/AAAAAAAAnuY/gXbM0i1YG3QakF0co94dLS1G-6ekd6CnACLcBGAs/s1600/Depositphotos_133667524_l-2015.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1600" data-original-width="1060" src="https://3.bp.blogspot.com/-wQYb0Qblf_k/XDagdPAB30I/AAAAAAAAnuY/gXbM0i1YG3QakF0co94dLS1G-6ekd6CnACLcBGAs/s1600/Depositphotos_133667524_l-2015.jpg" /></a></div><div><br /></div><div>Depending on your skin type, you may want to mix oatmeal with milk which has lactic acid to exfoliate dead skin cells. Here's a great mask recipe you can make to treat your skin this winter:&nbsp;</div><div><br /></div><div>Add a spoonful of whole old fashioned oats into a mixing bowl. Add two tablespoons of milk (whole or 2%). Stir until mixture is full mixed. You can also add yogurt or cream as a substitute for milk.&nbsp;</div><div><br /></div><div>First clean your face as you normally do to remove makeup. Then apply the oatmeal mix to your skin (face, neck, etc) and let it set for 15-20 minutes. After that, wash with lukewarm water to clean the mask from your face.&nbsp;&nbsp;</div><div><br /></div><h2>Non-Toxic Activity Dough for Kids</h2><div><br /></div><div>Looking for something fun and simple for your kids to do on a snow day? Oatmeal can be mixed into a fun and easy "play" dough that's non-toxic and inexpensive to create.&nbsp;</div><div><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://2.bp.blogspot.com/-84NdAbzwtlc/XDagq_3dr1I/AAAAAAAAnuc/7ZggypjqRKczBqLglrWHJg_EAqCZHIaiwCLcBGAs/s1600/Depositphotos_148415793_l-2015.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1068" data-original-width="1600" src="https://2.bp.blogspot.com/-84NdAbzwtlc/XDagq_3dr1I/AAAAAAAAnuc/7ZggypjqRKczBqLglrWHJg_EAqCZHIaiwCLcBGAs/s1600/Depositphotos_148415793_l-2015.jpg" /></a></div><div><br /></div><div>To make it, combine a cup of instant rolled oats with 2/3 all purpose flour and 1/2 a cup of water. Mix everything together and even let the kiddos get involved in the process. You can add food coloring to give your dough some different hues.&nbsp;</div><div><br /></div><div>Happy National Oatmeal Month y'all!&nbsp;</div><div class="blogger-post-footer">Thanks for gracing me with your presence sweet-cheeks!</div>Unknownnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7325701746970033003.post-54717050846321069672018-12-26T20:26:00.000-05:002018-12-26T20:26:38.677-05:00Simple & Delicious Appetizers for Luck at New Year's New Year's is a time to celebrate....with reflection on the past and planning for the future. And the food. Of course there's the food. I've always tried to come up with a new twist on certain New Year's food traditions. So this year I've got some simple and delicious appetizers that you might want to incorporate into your holiday!&nbsp;<div><br /></div><h2>Lucky Greens Flatbread Pizza&nbsp;</h2><div><br /></div><div>Greens, which share the same shade as money, are said to bring prosperity in the New Year. I had a big bag of kale in the fridge so I decided to get creative and turn it into a topping for a tasty flatbread pizza.&nbsp;</div><div><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-DestNyv_MLk/XCQlAHqQTEI/AAAAAAAAnsU/rUT04VM6THY_-1A06k3Qd_TyaJjSkHKFACLcBGAs/s1600/Depositphotos_90947910_l-2015.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1600" data-original-width="1200" src="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-DestNyv_MLk/XCQlAHqQTEI/AAAAAAAAnsU/rUT04VM6THY_-1A06k3Qd_TyaJjSkHKFACLcBGAs/s1600/Depositphotos_90947910_l-2015.jpg" /></a></div><div><br /></div><div>For my bread, I used garlic naan (bought at Aldi). For the toppings, I steamed some kale and stirred it with some mayo and shredded cheese. A very beloved restaurant in my hometown has a signature cheesy bread that incorporates shredded cheese and mayo. So I used this as a jumping off point and added the greens.&nbsp;</div><div><br /></div><div>A few minutes under the broiler and it's bubbly and ready to enjoy! You could use other toppings too, but&nbsp; make sure to have some greens (spinach, chard, arugula, or whatever you like).&nbsp;</div><div><br /></div><h2>Mini Bagels with Dill Cream Cheese and Smoked Salmon&nbsp;</h2><div><br /></div><div>Some superstitions point to eating food with a hole in the middle for good luck in the New Year.&nbsp;&nbsp;It may be because they represent the circle of life, the way things flow from the end of one year to the beginning of another.&nbsp;</div><div><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://3.bp.blogspot.com/-cctSAuZdqgU/XCQmZmh99WI/AAAAAAAAnsg/Va6VRTONkyIsxEZ4tE5J2AFK8b82EP7iQCLcBGAs/s1600/Depositphotos_71518927_l-2015.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1354" data-original-width="1600" src="https://3.bp.blogspot.com/-cctSAuZdqgU/XCQmZmh99WI/AAAAAAAAnsg/Va6VRTONkyIsxEZ4tE5J2AFK8b82EP7iQCLcBGAs/s1600/Depositphotos_71518927_l-2015.jpg" /></a></div><div><br /></div><div>This year I'm incorporating mini bagels as my ring shaped food, and this option would make a great evening appetizer as well as a midnight snack or addition to your New Year's Day brunch.&nbsp;</div><div><br /></div><div>First I added some dried dill to plain cream cheese. This will add lots of flavor that complements the salmon. Then you'll need the bagels, smoked salmon and whatever else you like to add to this combination. Capers are a popular option for some people, a' la Bobby Hill.&nbsp;</div><div><br /></div><h2>Black Eyed Pea Bruschetta&nbsp;</h2><div><br /></div><div>In year's past, I've made black eyed pea burgers, black eyed pea hummus, and just good ol' fashioned black eyed peas, but this year I'm making a tasty and simple appetizer....black eyed pea bruschetta.&nbsp;</div><div><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://3.bp.blogspot.com/-wJGGekPBsd4/XCQpWP00I0I/AAAAAAAAnss/qr8gVglDuzwxoQVe5f5g4boZUG9Nw1tZACLcBGAs/s1600/Depositphotos_22931186_l-2015.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1600" data-original-width="1067" src="https://3.bp.blogspot.com/-wJGGekPBsd4/XCQpWP00I0I/AAAAAAAAnss/qr8gVglDuzwxoQVe5f5g4boZUG9Nw1tZACLcBGAs/s1600/Depositphotos_22931186_l-2015.jpg" /></a></div><div><br /></div><div>Black eyed peas are a traditional southern New Year's food, because they also symbolize prosperity and good luck. I'll take some of both in 2019 if you please!&nbsp;</div><div><br /></div><div>Start with a can of black eyed peas and drain. Then drain a can of diced tomatoes and stir in some chopped basil and parsley. Mix in a bit of store-bought olive tapenade or chopped olives.&nbsp;</div><div><br /></div><div>Spoon a bit of this mixture onto toast rounds and top with a sprinkling of Parmesan cheese. Delicious!&nbsp;&nbsp;</div><div><br /></div><div>Wishing you and the ones you hold dear lots of good luck, health and happiness in the coming year!&nbsp;</div><div class="blogger-post-footer">Thanks for gracing me with your presence sweet-cheeks!</div>Unknownnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7325701746970033003.post-63696848468762290712018-12-05T21:58:00.000-05:002018-12-05T21:58:19.773-05:00Easy DIY Projects to Decorate a Holiday TableThe holidays are here and I love all the festive decorations that come with this season. I've been scouring old Christmas books, including some <b>Southern Living</b> albums from the 1970s and a Martha Stewart Holiday book from 1989. Who needs Pinterest when you have the original Pinterest? Ha!<br /><br />I found three really fun ideas that I'm recreating and I thought I'd share them with you too! Each of these would make a lovely addition to your holiday table or mantle!<br /><h2><br /></h2><h2>Gumdrop Trees&nbsp;</h2><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://4.bp.blogspot.com/-U_-ucQl5pAY/XAc3b5hU3aI/AAAAAAAAnpY/wxxiSvyeaaIAs_pANItqIfpQRILzyOznACLcBGAs/s1600/How-to-Make-a-Gumdrop-Tree_Hero.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="408" data-original-width="725" src="https://4.bp.blogspot.com/-U_-ucQl5pAY/XAc3b5hU3aI/AAAAAAAAnpY/wxxiSvyeaaIAs_pANItqIfpQRILzyOznACLcBGAs/s1600/How-to-Make-a-Gumdrop-Tree_Hero.jpg" /></a></div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div>Gumdrops evoke feelings of nostalgia for days gone by and there's no better way to incorporate them into your holiday table than with <a href="https://www.bettycrocker.com/menus-holidays-parties/mhplibrary/holidays/how-to-make-a-gumdrop-tree" target="_blank">a gumdrop tree</a>!&nbsp;</div><div><br /></div><div>This project can be completed for $5 or less, depending on what you already have on hand. I picked up a cone-shaped piece of polystyrene from Dollar Tree, plus about three $1 bags of gum drops and a $1 box of tooth picks. In just a few minutes, I had an adorable gumdrop tree! Easy peasy. And this project would be great for friends and family of all ages.&nbsp;</div><div><br /></div><div>You could also make a variation of this idea with a polystyrene ball, aka a gumdrop kissing ball for your doorway or tree!&nbsp;</div><div><br /></div><h2><br /></h2><h2>Walking in a Winter Wonderland Holiday Scene&nbsp;</h2><div><br />I had some extra polystyrene cones from the gumdrop tree project so I decided to put them to use in another way....as snowy covered trees for a winter wonderland holiday scene. I started with a white ceramic cake plate on which to set my scene. Then I added the white cones, dressed up with a bit of white fuzzy pom pom garland.&nbsp;</div><div><br /></div><div>A few small deer and other accessories created a magical world. This would be lovely on a table of silvers and golds, or even royal blue. I love how different a tablescape can look with just a different color scheme.<br /><br />I was inspired by this pretty scene on the blog Bless'er House!<br /><br /><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://2.bp.blogspot.com/-AdftEW98XV4/XAiKn5KcXcI/AAAAAAAAnpw/knIhvwYj784Tw7lfXqVR3khcTTKZos1HgCLcBGAs/s1600/christmas-village-snow-globe-centerpiece-5-of-9.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1000" data-original-width="1500" src="https://2.bp.blogspot.com/-AdftEW98XV4/XAiKn5KcXcI/AAAAAAAAnpw/knIhvwYj784Tw7lfXqVR3khcTTKZos1HgCLcBGAs/s1600/christmas-village-snow-globe-centerpiece-5-of-9.jpg" /></a></div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div><h2><br /></h2><h2>Visions of Sugar Plums</h2></div><div><br /></div><div>Candied or sugared fruit traces its origins to the Middle Ages, when this method of preserving some of nature's bounty was popular. The original way to create fruits confit was by replacing the fruit's natural water with a concentrated sugar syrup. The fruit would have been pricked all over and boiled up to 15 times in syrup before being set aside.&nbsp;</div><div><br /></div><div>The the final step would have been to coat the fruit with a thin glaze of more sugar, to result in a glowing confection that takes a month or more to make.</div><div><br /></div><div>I took an easier route by making sugared fruits with an egg white wash and granulated sugar. First coat your fruit (I used pears, pomegranate, oranges and grapes) in egg whites one at a time. Then roll each in a dish of sugar, making sure to cover all the wet spots.&nbsp;</div><div><br /></div><div>You need to allow plenty of time to dry, but this project is super easy. These sugared fruits could be used as a centerpiece or as individual place card holders on your holiday table.&nbsp;</div><div><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://2.bp.blogspot.com/-duj7mw_m3Oo/XAiOjqLQUHI/AAAAAAAAnp8/GWaLjXu7gYoPw01H1-0wwbHX8n4UsJ3KwCLcBGAs/s1600/Depositphotos_13633459_m-2015.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="734" data-original-width="1000" src="https://2.bp.blogspot.com/-duj7mw_m3Oo/XAiOjqLQUHI/AAAAAAAAnp8/GWaLjXu7gYoPw01H1-0wwbHX8n4UsJ3KwCLcBGAs/s1600/Depositphotos_13633459_m-2015.jpg" /></a></div><div><br /></div><div class="blogger-post-footer">Thanks for gracing me with your presence sweet-cheeks!</div>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com