my pelvic area is a little sore (i get this problem occasionally), so i have been focusing on alternatives.

i have been doing erotic breathing, and... just had multiple throat, mouth and face orgasms. they are not super strong, but definite.

the crazy thing is that these are localized to these areas (though my pelvis does its thing a bit too). my throat was rhythmically contracting, as was my adam's apple. and my tongue seemed to want to flick. my saliva glands seemed to be involved, and my face was too.

i wonder if women or gay men ever feel what i felt in my throat when they are giving fellatio.

you know, i REALLY HATE TO SAY THIS, but, sometimes i wonder if some of these parts we are orgasming in, like our anus and rectum, and now my tongue, mouth and throat, have evolved to have this ability as part of a copulatory response. in other words: is it possible that our rectum can orgasm because it evolved to receive a penis, or our tongue to stimulate a clitoris, or our throat a penis?

this would hypothesize that in our evolutionary history there was some advantage for males to have oral and anal receptive sex, in addition to the obvious advantages of heterosexual sex. who knows what kinky stuff our distant ancestors were into!!!

alternatively, of course, this might have never had an advantage, and we are just tricking our body into performing in ways it wasn't specifically designed for.

this kind of evolutionary thinking is always speculative, but can be kind of fun.

(i guess if anal sex were selected for, then perhaps it would somehow self-lube.)

Omg i was having this exact same thing last nigh on my first session with coconut oil. I almost could not breathe but it was sort of involuntary/voluntary like when my adams apple contracted i could swallow my saliva and then begin breathing again i was taking deep breaths between contractions it was cool and unique feeling. I was going to think of a way to write about it here but you took the words from my mouth wow..

Great reports D. I am going to see how the mitochondria respond if I focus in the throat, mouth, tongue and anywhere else I have yet to try! :shock:

My own experience, particularly in my youth, was that the anus is capable of self lubrication. It is a little thicker than sweat and a little thinner than mucus or saliva as I've experienced it. We have anal glands that may not be fully developed, butt they are there and may develop more or express with regular anal stimulation.

I agree with looking to our earlier ancestors. Just look at our closest cousins the Bonobos.

Penile anal intercourse is common in nature in a wide variety of species and I think it is "selected for". What makes human males unique is the non-retractable and significantly larger penis compared to our other primate cousins! In an earlier post in an earlier thread, I quoted Jared Diamond's (Third Chimpanzee) theory or deduction that our larger and perpetually present penis is there to attract other males, not females. More food for orgasm... I meant "thought"... wait a minute, what's the difference!?! None, as we progess here! :D

In my youth, my male intimate co-explorer used lube, while I preferred not to have any when receiving anal intercourse. I seemed moist and smooth enough. My muscles had also been relaxed to penile diameter previously using my trusty Altas missile! :lol:

Also reported in an earlier thread, from Marvin Harris's book: Our Kind where he tell of the Sambia people of Papua New Guinea and the move of young males into the all-male "clubhouses": "For seven years or so, the younger boys fellate the seniors. Only if he swallows semen ejaculated into his mouth by his older companions, from as many of them and as often as possible every day, can a boy grow up to be a successful adult and manly warrior. For the Sambia, like many other Papua New Guinea people, believe that men are men only because they have semen and that semen can best be obtained by fellating someone who has a supply of it. When the young men who serve as semen donors reach about twenty-five years of age, they end their homosexual relations, get married, and use their semen to make babies. ...But in spite of their universal involvement in homosexual activities, Sambia men say that they prefer genital sex with women to oral sex with other men..." I wonder about the frequency of reports of throat orgasms among the Sambia?! :lol:

If Jack Johnston (‘hydraulicjack’ ) is correct about our multi-orgasmic capability being hard-wired into our DNA, and as ‘artform’ has experienced mitochondrial level orgasmic energies throughout the body, I don’t think it is strange that one would experience orgasms at the body’s energy centers (the chakras). The two lowest chakras being related to the genitals is obvious, the heart chakra has also been frequently alluded to with 'heartgasms'. The throat is also a chakra center, so why shouldn’t orgasmic energy also be expressed at this location as well?‘darwin’, it is indeed fun to speculate about the impetus for evolutionary change. I have no doubt the pleasure principal had an effect on securing the proliferation of the species and contributed to the hard-wiring of our DNA. I was listening to NPR today and Donald Johanson, the anthropologist who discovered ”Lucy”, was also speculating about other aspects of human evolution. One of his comments was to the effect that our developing larger brains lead to the development of better tools, but also that this cultural manifestation for usage of tools lead to the development of larger brains. I think our species is continuing to evolve and our ability to access greater pleasure from our bodies may be part of that evolution. It is possible this increased capacity for giving and receiving pleasure had the cultural advantage of creating stronger emotional ties between members of a tribe. This stronger emotional tie would lead to higher levels of protective behavior, thus enhancing the survivability of the group and ability to pass those traits forward in the genetic code. Just my speculation anyway.

You are right and add Jill Bolte Taylor's right brain dominant perception of the energies reality as she describes in detail in her book: borderless patterns and exchanges and fusions of energies is our physical reality. All chakras are also particular forms of focused energy centres. How could it be otherwise at the energetic level. A specific orgasmic response at the bio-mechanical level is interesting for its effects in anthropological and cultural evolution: the varied cultural responses to these mind/body potentials as actually experienced.

Thanks all.

all the best with our multi-level reality and orgasmic energetic experiences all

Just as peahens like big flashy tailfeathers on peacocks, and lionesses like big dark manes on lions, from bon chance, human females sexually selected large penises and forebrains--I think that balding in men is also a secondary sexual characteristics, to show off large male forebrains.

Throat orgasms are possible. that was something Stephane talked about in the GTP. Also, my old roommate experienced them.She was dating my friend and for some reason would tell me a lot about their sex life. She learned to deep throat him and had "throat orgasms". She was SO excited when she realized that deep throating got her off, apparently it felt really really good.

Darwin, I haven't checked into this forum lately, now I do and read about your throat orgasms! You are absolutely AMAZING!!! I don't know what you do for a living, but maybe you should give it up and open a clinic, the Institute of Extended Erotic Exploration.

Throat orgasms are possible. that was something Stephane talked about in the GTP. Also, my old roommate experienced them.She was dating my friend and for some reason would tell me a lot about their sex life. She learned to deep throat him and had "throat orgasms". She was SO excited when she realized that deep throating got her off, apparently it felt really really good.

This (IIRC) is the plot to the most famous porn of all time, Deep Throat: that the protagonist has a clitoris in her throat so can only cum by giving deep throat. Ironic that when I saw it I thought "that's ridiculous ... only in porn!" and now it turns out that's actually possible (well not literally a clit but to have an orgasm in that area).

This (IIRC) is the plot to the most famous porn of all time, Deep Throat: that the protagonist has a clitoris in her throat so can only cum by giving deep throat. Ironic that when I saw it I thought "that's ridiculous ... only in porn!" and now it turns out that's actually possible (well not literally a clit but to have an orgasm in that area).

Dammit! I so wanted to be the first to make the Deep Throat reference. you beat me to it.

This is not to be a massive flirty, sexual comment here, but what about those people who are not affected by a gag reflex? I don't gag...a blessing and a curse. But I will also say, I have never had an orgasm by deep throating someone. Hmmmmm....that's a thinker!