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Feminist Explains

09-14-2017, 04:54 AM

Hi,

here's one Lipstick Feminist (notice all the pink; and the lipstick ...) explaining why being a feminist, yet wanting men to pay for dates, is no contradiction:
Everybody loves ot be nice, and women letting men be nice is women's way of repaying them for paying.
So, letting men pay is an act of active kindness.
Now you know.

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The old dating adage, which is being referred to, is that women want men to pay for them on the first date, but men want sex. Both genders using each other for their own needs. Feminists are now trying to say that meeting their needs is fair and a kindness shown by them, but say that meeting the man’s needs is sexist, chauvinistic, and “kreapy” - just like you did.

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Neither do you, apparently
Nor did you get the point this time around, either.

The old dating adage, which is being referred to, is that women want men to pay for them on the first date, but men want sex. Both genders using each other for their own needs.

Which you referred to, yes. I referred to something else.

Feminists are now trying to say that meeting their needs is fair and a kindness shown by them, but say that meeting the man’s needs is sexist, chauvinistic, and “kreapy”

I'm saying that this feminist is saying that /men meeting women's needs/ is /women meeting men's needs/.
Just allowing men to pay is this enormous kindness that women show men.
Men's need for sex isn't even in the picture.

just like you did.

Whoooosh ....

M

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I really have a problem with you calling me a creep and saying that I didn’t get it, but I have spoken to some female friends and they have pointed out my mistakes. I have now amputated my genitals so I am no longer a threat and would like to pay for your dinner and drinks tonight!

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here's one Lipstick Feminist (notice all the pink; and the lipstick ...) explaining why being a feminist, yet wanting men to pay for dates, is no contradiction:
Everybody loves ot be nice, and women letting men be nice is women's way of repaying them for paying.
So, letting men pay is an act of active kindness.
Now you know.

I get it but cmon, that video has like 60 views,and i bet more then half are from this forum, and 3 comments, it ain´t like this stuff has a big audience, she may as well be talking to her girlfriends in the bar, maybe we should concern ourselves with bigger fish.

I sexually identify as a sword pommel, check your privilege or i will have to end you RIGHTLY.

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I get it but cmon, that video has like 60 views,and i bet more then half are from this forum, and 3 comments, it ain´t like this stuff has a big audience, she may as well be talking to her girlfriends in the bar, maybe we should concern ourselves with bigger fish.

OK, I hereby take the posting back.

M

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I get it but cmon, that video has like 60 views,and i bet more then half are from this forum, and 3 comments, it ain´t like this stuff has a big audience, she may as well be talking to her girlfriends in the bar, maybe we should concern ourselves with bigger fish.

isnt the point more that this is accepted and rampant? ..as the norm...
its not about this specific one. its about the thousands like her.

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I get it but cmon, that video has like 60 views,and i bet more then half are from this forum, and 3 comments, it ain´t like this stuff has a big audience, she may as well be talking to her girlfriends in the bar, maybe we should concern ourselves with bigger fish.

That, and she has to live with the fact that she actually made a video of herself saying something like that.