The other night my girlfriend and I were fooling around. We both remain abstinent, but still get fairly close without any type of sex. So, she was giving me a hard lap dance, fully clothed. I came in my pants :blush: . Is there a chance that she can get pregnant from that? I know anytime sperm is involved, there is a chance. But I think the odds are in favor of her not being at any risk.

She is on the pill, but isn't always the best when it comes to keeping on the set routine for taking it. She uses it for acne problems (and its worked great).

She was going through her period, and mentioned that she was wearing some type of "feminine" pad or tampon.

I was fully clothed. So was she. She was wearing really thin under armour shorts, though. Once I realized what happened, she moved away and changed into her pants. But I noticed some stuff soaking through my pants.

I think that because she was on the pill and no direct contact was made, we are safe. But I still have doubts in my mind, and wanted someone to put my mind at ease. I know it's a one in a million chance, but I don't have sex for the specific reason that I don't want to chance something like this happening.

I doubt she is pregnant.. I mean odds are even if your pants got wet unless there is some on her pants...then probably not.then even if there is some on her shorts/w/eBelieve it or not the vagina does have some natural protection to keep stuff from getting in it.. actually.. all orifaces do.

I would rate the chances at zero. The vagina was pretty closed. It's unlikely any sperm got near it. She had a tampon in, a further obstacle for sperm. She was having her period, the least fertile time. And she is on the pill, if somewhat undisciplined in taking it.