mglupe1979 wrote:Welcome stepmum!! Its very hard but we all are here to support each other. Sara you want to share your test with us? Did u ever get a negative since u did the trigger shot?13 day past your trigger shoy is a long time. Did you take 10k or less?I use real cheep ones from Amazon saving yhe good ones for test on Sunday for Father's day i will be 11 dpo. Hoping to start seeing something by then.

I'm using cheap ones from Amazon also. I'm pretty sure my trigger was 5000iu so it should be gone. Not sure I believe these tests since there is only a shadow of "something" there but I also haven't had a blank white test since I started testing my trigger. These are from 5/12 til today which is 11-13 dpt.

Stepmom welcome! I know it's hard to stay positive when you've been pumped full of hormones and baby making takes place in a dr. Office instead of your home. But remember that your state of mind has sooooo much influence on how your body reacts. You met your soul mate at the perfect time! You don't have to be positive just have FAITH that you will meet your BABY at the perfect time as well. Let go and let God, the universe, life handle the rest. We only have control over so much in this process. I hope you find companionship on here. We are all in the same boat together pee stick porn and all.

Welcome Stepmom! We all found a place to talk this through in here. Feel free to write and say everything that will bring you relief.SarahElise I don't see anything, I'm sorry. I am sure the line will pop back up in a few days:)I definitely got my period today:( I am so sad and disappointed that it's hard to think of something else. I see all the pregnant ladies around me:( I acted my anger on DH last night and feel a little bad about it. On one hand I know I have to be gentle with him since he has health problems and feels bad about it, but on the other hand seeing him completely not taking care of himself is just breaking me from the inside. It's like he says he cares,but just does not:( There is only so much you can do by yourself:(

Ahh bella, so sorry: (. Yes i under stand how difficult it can be when u feel it only you giving your all in this process. But one day at the time. Have u bought him and suppliments ferterl aid is a good one. Even if he does not have marl issue is good to take. It given him a bust. Hang in there, its hard but we will all one day have our bundles of joy.As for me today, not feeling much. Boobs are less tender, feeling like rf is also knocking at my door. Might test tomorrow morning 9dpo just to try and keep my hope up

Its exactly the situation i m facing with my DH. To get him into iui was so difficult n i m already on 4th one...if this fails next ivf but to agree him to that is gonna be difficult. I always planned one k8d before 30 n other before 40 but the second one would be so difficult i never thought about that.....but we all will have a cuddly baby eventually may be just a bit more try....

I want to know why doctor do iui on the day follicle measure good and not at ovulation ....becoz trigger may vause ovulation but cervix is low n tight. So iui is difficult n painful. But after ovulation vervix is so soft.

I don't know really, I think maybe it's because sperm has a little more time when injected hours before? Hmm...

Thank you for the support. It is dofficult. On top of that nature gives you that painful reminder that you are not pregnant every time you go to the bathroom and realize you have your period:/ I know DH is tired of all this plus the money we spent already, but to be honest I am doing most of the work with trying and taking care of the son we have. I prepare all the vitamins and clomid doses for him and it's even difficult for him to reach and swallow. I have to tell him 3 times. Seeing him on the couch drinking beer or diet coke like the is no problem is just frustrating me even more. He knows that beer and aspartham is lowering the testosterone. What is the point of all this?!I am very sorry I wrote all these things, but I had to take it off my chest. I have no one to talk to about this:/

Bella its ok dont apologize, we know how frustrating it can be and its worst when we feel like it not there problem and they dont care like we do.. Grrr!! Just remember to stay positive and give him some space. I read that maca and royal jelly increase there testosterone. But i understand that the problem is he not taken them. My hb is also the same hes tire of all this tc business but he know i will not give up.As for me today 9dpo negative lower back pain sign that rf wants to show her faces pretty soon. I will continue the 3x a day endomitrim and my daily progesteron shot as instructed by doc. I try and trick mt mine its trying to implant, thats the baby to be positive. Its hard

Thank you so much, it really helps that someone understands. Yes, he is taking maca, royal jelly and ashwaganda. Basically all the things known to work aside of regular vitamins. DH saw endocrinologist today. He said he needs to continue with clomid for a month and measure testosterone after 1 month break. If it will come back low as before therapy he will start with shots. He also gave him something for the thyroid(although everything is normal) because sometimes it can help and does no harm. I hope God will send us good news soon...Yes, stay positive! I so hope someone will get BFP this month to keep us in good spirits:) I keep my fingers crossed for all of you:)

bella89 wrote:Thank you so much, it really helps that someone understands. Yes, he is taking maca, royal jelly and ashwaganda. Basically all the things known to work aside of regular vitamins. DH saw endocrinologist today. He said he needs to continue with clomid for a month and measure testosterone after 1 month break. If it will come back low as before therapy he will start with shots. He also gave him something for the thyroid(although everything is normal) because sometimes it can help and does no harm. I hope God will send us good news soon...Yes, stay positive! I so hope someone will get BFP this month to keep us in good spirits:) I keep my fingers crossed for all of you:)

What type of shots?? If he low testosterone he can't do testosterone shots. It will make him sterile. It will completely wipe out his count.

bella89 wrote:Thank you so much, it really helps that someone understands. Yes, he is taking maca, royal jelly and ashwaganda. Basically all the things known to work aside of regular vitamins. DH saw endocrinologist today. He said he needs to continue with clomid for a month and measure testosterone after 1 month break. If it will come back low as before therapy he will start with shots. He also gave him something for the thyroid(although everything is normal) because sometimes it can help and does no harm. I hope God will send us good news soon...Yes, stay positive! I so hope someone will get BFP this month to keep us in good spirits:) I keep my fingers crossed for all of you:)

What type of shots?? If he low testosterone he can't do testosterone shots. It will make him sterile. It will completely wipe out his count.

Not progesterone shots, but something that will stimulate testosterone production like clomid, but more effective. But since we started clomid with other doctor it's better to continue for now.

On the other hand, do you know why he can't take testosterone shots? I had no idea