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When to the ER yesterday and we had a ultrasound done..my fiancée says she is 8 weeks pregnant but the doctor said 6 weeks but there was no heart beat. I have been crying and over thinking all day. We have a follow appoint tomorrow to see if the hormone levels go up which is a good sign or if it goes down, then we lost the baby. Has anyone been though this? I'll be up all night waiting for the morning to come.

When to the ER yesterday and we had a ultrasound done..my fiancée says she is 8 weeks pregnant but the doctor said 6 weeks but there was no heart beat. I have been crying and over thinking all day. We have a follow appoint tomorrow to see if the hormone levels go up which is a good sign or if it goes down, then we lost the baby. Has anyone been though this? I'll be up all night waiting for the morning to come.

Sorry to hear you are going through this and my heart goes out to you! I went through the same thing in March. My baby measured at 5.5 weeks and I knew for certain I was 7.5 weeks pregnant. Is it possible you are off on your dates and maybe she really is only 6 weeks pregnant? Also, 6 weeks can be early to hear a heartbeat. Stay positive...you never know! Good luck today!

Sorry to hear you are going through this and my heart goes out to you! I went through the same thing in March. My baby measured at 5.5 weeks and I knew for certain I was 7.5 weeks pregnant. Is it possible you are off on your dates and maybe she really is only 6 weeks pregnant? Also, 6 weeks can be early to hear a heartbeat. Stay positive...you never know! Good luck today!

Thank u...we are at the ER right now. If her hormone level goes up then that's a good sign. I'm trying to stay positive. She is a mother of 3 but this would be my first...so I'm on edge. I just want to hear good news today. That would be great.

Thank u...we are at the ER right now. If her hormone level goes up then that's a good sign. I'm trying to stay positive. She is a mother of 3 but this would be my first...so I'm on edge. I just want to hear good news today. That would be great.

Went to the ER today...the baby didn't have a heart beat and the doctor said we lost the baby. It's the saddest day if my life. I'm not sure what to think. I don't have kids and my fiancé has 3---12 year old, 15 and 17...she is 37 and I know she probably feels she can't carry a baby at this age...I asked her about trying again but she didn't wanna talk about it. Not sure how to feel if she doesn't want to try again. I know she needs me to be a rock for her but I'm lost right now and not sure where to turn. I wanna be a father...I try hard to be a role model to her kids but I know they won't ever look at me like dad. . . I will always good to them like a father would be. I got so many different feelings right now....I have stressed lately...sitting on the couch by myself and she is upstairs by herself...not even sure she wants me near her. I wanna be the man she needs during this tough time, I just wanna be there for her the way she needs me. Oh me oh my .....what to do?

Went to the ER today...the baby didn't have a heart beat and the doctor said we lost the baby. It's the saddest day if my life. I'm not sure what to think. I don't have kids and my fiancé has 3---12 year old, 15 and 17...she is 37 and I know she probably feels she can't carry a baby at this age...I asked her about trying again but she didn't wanna talk about it. Not sure how to feel if she doesn't want to try again. I know she needs me to be a rock for her but I'm lost right now and not sure where to turn. I wanna be a father...I try hard to be a role model to her kids but I know they won't ever look at me like dad. . . I will always good to them like a father would be. I got so many different feelings right now....I have stressed lately...sitting on the couch by myself and she is upstairs by herself...not even sure she wants me near her. I wanna be the man she needs during this tough time, I just wanna be there for her the way she needs me. Oh me oh my .....what to do?

I'm so sorry for your loss. The important thing to remember is that she's going through a loss too, and probably feeling like she let you down. I know you really want to be a dad, but right now, you have to put those feelings aside and just be there for her. It's probably too soon to be talking about having another one - take time as a couple to grieve, and in time, you can start to talk about trying again.

I'm so sorry for your loss. The important thing to remember is that she's going through a loss too, and probably feeling like she let you down. I know you really want to be a dad, but right now, you have to put those feelings aside and just be there for her. It's probably too soon to be talking about having another one - take time as a couple to grieve, and in time, you can start to talk about trying again.

So sorry for your loss!! Sadly enough, the same thing happened to me :( You really won't believe how common those early miscarriages are until you start talking to people! It seems as though everyone knows someone that has had one (or self), but when it happens you feel like you are the only one. I had a miscarriage in March (at 7.5 weeks) after having a PERFECT pregnancy with my first child so you just never know I guess. I was pregnant again in May and currently 21 weeks pregnant and everythings great so far. BTW...I am 39 and my delivered my first at 37 so I really hope that your fiance doesn't continue to feel 37 is too old...NOT AT ALL! Good luck and my heart truly goes out to you!

Hi Kellen1,

So sorry for your loss!! Sadly enough, the same thing happened to me :( You really won't believe how common those early miscarriages are until you start talking to people! It seems as though everyone knows someone that has had one (or self), but when it happens you feel like you are the only one. I had a miscarriage in March (at 7.5 weeks) after having a PERFECT pregnancy with my first child so you just never know I guess. I was pregnant again in May and currently 21 weeks pregnant and everythings great so far. BTW...I am 39 and my delivered my first at 37 so I really hope that your fiance doesn't continue to feel 37 is too old...NOT AT ALL! Good luck and my heart truly goes out to you!

Sorry no one deserves this. She feels like her world is over I can't say I haven't been through it but I know someone was 5 months...lost the baby due to her body where the baby was located but she said she is willing to try again as she is anxious but sorry she needs some time but yes just stay with her she will keep blaming her self but if she talks to someone who went through something similar ? I'm really sorry I know plenty of women having children in their 30s

Sorry no one deserves this. She feels like her world is over I can't say I haven't been through it but I know someone was 5 months...lost the baby due to her body where the baby was located but she said she is willing to try again as she is anxious but sorry she needs some time but yes just stay with her she will keep blaming her self but if she talks to someone who went through something similar ? I'm really sorry I know plenty of women having children in their 30s

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