5 Questions to Ask When Starting a Family by Toni Tiu for Lenddo

Toni Tiu is a freelance brand strategist and writer. In 2010, she decided to work from home to take care of her toddler. While tough to adjust to after twelve years of working in the corporate world, she considers it the best decision she's ever made. For stories on motherhood, home and living, visit her blog at Wifelysteps.com.

Falling in love with a baby is easy. It's hard not to coo over their little gurgles and chubby legs. What would your little angel look like with your partner's eyes and your lips? Most of us have a parental instinct, nature's way of telling us we're pre-wired to care for little ones. However, it's important to balance instinct with what's practical. While the love for children is priceless, there is a price to pay for disposable diapers, baby food and tuition fees. Are you really ready to start a family? Here are some questions to ask yourself and your partner.

Are you being pressured by anyone? After I got married, my parents and in-laws began the pressing process of asking when my husband and I would have kids. "You're not getting any younger!" "You don't want to have a teenager when you're a senior citizen!" My husband joked it was as if they were simply ordering takeout from a restaurant. If their longing to be grandparents is greater than your desire to be a parent, stand your ground. Remember that you'll be doing 3 a.m. feedings - not them!

Are you ready to put your career on hold? Maternity leave can take between 60 to 90 days. After this break, how will you adjust to motherhood? Are you willing to work less hours? Will you carry on full-time work and find a yaya? How would you feel if your husband asks you to stop working and care for the baby full-time? Most importantly, how does having a baby fit into your plans?

Are you financially ready? Some couples wait till they're both settled in stable jobs, while others simply throw caution to the wind. Having a baby is very expensive. Do you have enough savings? Are you open to loans? With your current finances, how will you manage with a baby in the mix?

Do you have space at home? Evaluate your current home to see how baby-friendly it is. Do you need to switch to a bigger apartment first? If you get a nanny or yaya, do you have space for her? Where can your infant get his daily sunbaths without being exposed to pollution? How secure is your neighbourhood? Even peace and quiet will matter significantly more now, as infants sleep a lot during the day.

Are you both in good health? Both your current lifestyle habits can affect your chances of conceiving and having a healthy pregnancy. Consult a doctor for an evaluation. The following factors may be discussed: use of contraception, smoking and drinking habits, weight, diet, exercise, medication, vaccinations, medical history, and fertility. Ensuring that you and your partner are at the best of your health can give your baby a good start on life.

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