My newbie story

My newbie story

Hey everyone, 20 year-old newbie here. I am currently on my second week of PE. I would like to tell my story because I feel I need to get it off my chest.

I would like to start off by telling you all what has led me here. About 3 weeks ago, the girl of my dreams broke up with her boyfriend.. FOR ME. I know you are all probably thinking, “Well what is this guy worried about?” Well I will tell you. I have some strong insecurities with the size of my member. Right now, I have a NBPEL of 5.5 and EG of 5.0. I realize that I fall right about in the “average” range, but for some reason I just don’t feel average or comfortable with myself. I really want to be with this girl more than anything in the world, but I just can’t bring myself to show her what I got. Every time I have hooked up with her, I have always chickened out before she has a chance to undo my belt. I’m really afraid that I am on the verge of letting the love of my life slip away by not sealing the deal. I know she wants to do it, but I feel like she will have second thoughts once she sees me. I am praying that PE works for me so that I can be happy with myself and be able to make the girl of my dreams happy as well.

Right now, this is my routine:

5 min. Warm up (rice sock)5-10 min. Jelq (3-4 second jelqs)5 minute warm down with light massaging (rice sock)2 days on (only one session in a single day), 1 day off.

Any suggestions on how to improve my routine and improve my results? Should I include stretching? I am 100% committed to this. My goal is to have a NBPEL of 6.5 and a EG of 5.5, which I feel is attainable based on what I have read here about other people’s successes. It would be fantastic if I could hit a NBPEL of at least 6.0 with some increased girth by the end of this summer, but I don’t know if that is possible.

Please let me know if you guys have any suggestions or tips. I’m really glad I found this place.

04-27-2012, 07:51 PM

cantlook

The only way I could see there being a problem is if you project your lack of confidence, and even then, you have a great sized dick.

Nothing to be worried about in the size department. In my opinion. ;)

Work on your confidence and you can’t lose.

Your goals sound very reasonable, just don’t feel you have to reach them to impress this girl!

Your lack of confidence is going to drive her away, your dick is not going to grow over night and you probably won’t see any noticeable gains for at least 3 months if your lucky. So stop acting like a chump and give her everything you got. Focus on foreplay too really get her wet and when you fucking her tell her how good the pussy is, keep your hands busy, play with her nipples or clit when you fucking her and kiss her neck. I guarantee she will fall for you. Most young people aren’t that passionate, They let their dick do all the work. So if she use to dating younger guys you will give her a experience she probably not use to but remember confidence is everything. Don’t let her see your insecurities especially about penis size its a big turn off.

04-27-2012, 08:50 PM

Printman

Agreed …

Also, as you read further on this forum you will come to understand that dispite the fact that the vast majority of the membership is very focused on growing their dicks, it is also pretty well understood that as far as the “girl of your dreams” is concerned … dick size is almost definitely low on her list of criteria in assessing you right now.

Mr.Big’s advice is spot on … chicks smell fear a mile away … and they spot confidence from the same distance

Starting (10 / 2011): 6.50 BPEL, 5.50 MEG

Current: 7.50 BPEL, 6.00 MEG

Goal: 8.50 BPEL 6.50 MEG

04-27-2012, 10:31 PM

orion8659

What Printman said.

Also - I, like you, wanted quick gains. While overdoing it I got 3/4” gain very quickly and then lost it due to an injury. Had to take a break and screwed up my sex life for a little while in the bargain. All is well now, got it back and then some but I wasted a lot of time, caused myself a lot of grief. Stick with the newbie routine for the full 90 days and ALWAYS warm up beforehand. Watch your PI’s. I only seem to gain when I have good EQ.

04-27-2012, 10:39 PM

higherone

Kimball, you need to remember that PE is a slow and steady process. Getting the girl isn’t about dick size, it’s about being yourself and letting the moment happen. She obviously likes you if she’s hooked up with you before. Just get the girl, do PE in the process, and remember that dick size isn’t everything, but if it’s something you need to do for confidence, then do PE. Best of luck to you and keep us posted!

Thanks for all the responses guys. I would also like to clarify that I am starting PE for me, not just for a girl. My desire to have this girl is simply what sparked my interest in the exercises to begin with. Hopefully this process will help me gain more confidence, as well as some size increases. I will keep you all posted. Please continue to post more advice on here if you have any. Thanks

04-28-2012, 05:42 AM

Mr.BigStuff

If you got a good connection with this girl, dick size won’t be a issue. Its the women that you just randomly hookup with were it might be a factor. Women can enjoy sex and get off with anyone if they have a good connection with that person. It more of mental thing then a physical thing for most women. Anything extra is a plus right now look at it like that and you won’t have no issues.

04-28-2012, 09:52 AM

8incyclops

Yes!! include stretching you will gain length quite easy being a newbie.If i were you i would do a Newbie routine.And also this girl sounds like she likes you for you not your penis.

A total of one inch of confident dick will feel like ten inches to her. Conversely, ten inches of insecure dick will feel like an inch to her. She certainly sounds like she’s into you for you! What ever you do don’t ask about her ex-boyfriend or screw it up because you think you’re not enough. The fact she’s grabbing for your belt proves you’re enough!

Goal:10.0bpX7.25mseg Building a thicker unit, click by click, pump by pump, jelq by jelq!

04-28-2012, 03:26 PM

eponymous

Your dick won’t grow overnight. So, it no use putting it off until you reach your size goals.

Men are satisfying women with what you have and less. You have nothing to worry about. This girl is clearly into you, that’s the most important thing. As everyone rightfully said before: confidence is what matters most. You will have great sex if you get rid of your insecurities and just go for it.

If, however, you keep putting it off for the reason you stated. She will get frustrated, and you may lose her.

04-28-2012, 04:32 PM

Audacia

So what you’re going to put off sleeping with her for the next 6-12 months? Don’t be silly. Just accept your size, enjoy the intimacy and sex and if you still want a bigger cock do PE on the side. Don’t put pressure on yourself to gain by a certain amount of time, it will be unhealthy and effect your relationship.

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