But Ramona wants you to be very careful about how you phrase her past involvement with Luann's future husband. "Excuse me, she dated him after I did," Ramona said after Andy Cohen brought up the fact that she dated Luann's fiancé during the WWHL After Show (clip above). "So she touched it, not me."

Of course, Thomas, who also datedSonja Morgan, isn't the first guy to catch the eye of multiple RHONY cast members. The ex-husband of RHONY alum Aviva Drescher, Harry Dubin, was also romantically linked to Luann and Sonja in the past. So could Ramona be his next RHONY flame? "It's too familiar. It's like, once someone's touched something, I'm not going there," she told a caller about the possibility of dating Harry during the WWHL After Show. "We're friends, but that's it."

It doesn't really seem like Ramona needs any relationship advice, but Sonja is just bursting with sage wisdom in case she does.