Books

Why so? Because so many millions of people out there are, and do pardon the observation, are a little crazy, whacked out, got issues, mental/emotional baggage or something else going on in their head/life/heart that once you find out who they REALLY are you just want to walk, run, sprint in the opposite direction, disappear, and/or ghost their a** for like … EVER! Right? Am I off on this one? I don’t think so. Times are CRAZY TODAY in the dating world, eh?

Sure, their dating profile looked somewhat decent, safe, and okay, but who are they REALLY? On the INSIDE? That’s what folks have to find out, but then how long is THAT going to take? Just because someone appears together on the outside, doesn’t mean they’re all together on the inside. Or, just because some sophisticated dating website software or matchmaker promises to pair you up with someone who’s supposed to be a good fit for you, those systems are still pairing up people who have a hard time finding common ground, means to trust, or still bring their issues to the relationship table. Not good. Trust then becomes a dream and never a reality.

Lastly, on this subject, nothing’s really available out there today (as far as I know or have seen) that can really help prepare people to establish that trust and rapport quite like my relationship books (and my cookbook) can do for them. Wow, keep reading!

MOST PEOPLE LACK (THE KIND OF) KNOWLEDGE

… and even experiential participation and/or involvement necessary to even have the kind of real, deep, meaningful relationships they have only heard about, dreamt about, saw in movies or the kind their parents or grandparents had. Why is this? When men and women go years, even decades without being in a relationship, dating, experiencing the basics even, they miss out on those experiential (learning) episodes that only come with being IN a relationship. Ask women (and men) in their 20’s and 30’s today if they’ve ever been in love or dated someone in a serious relationship and the majority would answer? “No, never, and I don’t think I ever will.” I have a friend, she’s 30 and said to me, “Bart, I don’t think I’ll ever find someone. I’m just going to be single forever.” That made my heart sink instantly! THAT is NOT right! Everyone deserves to find love, be held, smile in someone else’s eyes, and be in the kind of a relationship that offers romance, life experiences with another close to one’s side/heart, love, passion, devotion, intimacy beyond heaven every night (or at least every weekend, sheesh), and the mutual, committed understanding needed to help get a couple through the tough times so neither of them bail from what would otherwise be a potentially great relationship or potential marriage! Whew!!! Now WHY is this so?

WHERE ARE OUR TEACHERS/ROLE MODELS?

TV or Hollywood? (NOT in a million years!) Single friends? (Hardly) The media, magazines, schools/education system? (Uh, no!) Divorced/arguing parents/couples? (No) Churches? (Maybe, but they can’t / don’t / won’t cover everything, like I do!) Who’s left? Dating coaches and websites? (Well, while there are many great ones out there, you’re here, and no one really has compiled as much info-taining material as I have on 1,000+ subjects related to dating, sex, relationships, marriage, cooking in the kitchen (i.e., if you know what I mean, oh, and food, yes), and so much more. Married couples? (Maybe, if they can find time to sit down with you to share a tip or two. Besides, they’re too busy living their own lives or trying to survive them to share anything with anyone looking to be in their own relationship!) Who then or where or what can you turn to in order to find out the secret rules and guidelines for living life, dating, sex relationships, handling arguments, how to treat one another (from the guy or gal’s point of view), on up to getting married and living with the ONE for you? (HINT: BART SMITH, the author of these 5+1 relationship books!)

Let’s get this one knocked out right away with one, or even six, BOOKS (and their audio book recordings) I have for singles to consume and then use in their first discussion, uh, I mean DATE! I’m not kidding. That is, if you and the one you’re interested in will listen (or read) parts of my books on relationships, sex, dating, self-help, cooking, and marriage, then TRUST ME, no pun, the two of you will have so much in common to discuss it will be so silly for you not to go out on 2nd, 3rd, even a 4th date, and by that time … GO STEADY! Oh, remember that phrase? It means two people are dedicating their time and interest in one another to see if there’s the potential to take their meeting one another to the next level, and I don’t mean the bedroom, but … well, you know what I mean.

SHARE A TON OF REAL KNOWLEDGE

… that can be applied to every individual, couple and relationship so we all can learn how to build rapport fast, trust soon to follow, and find someone to love (and be loved in return) in this crazy, whacked out world? The kind of knowledge, insight and relationship/life wisdom inside all 5+1 of my books. I cover over 1,000+ topics you won’t find in any other authors’ collection of books or on their website. I cover preparing to find that special someone, looking for them, hanging out with them, topics regarding sex (when/where/how much/what-to-do specifically to her), how to handle arguments/disagreements, how guys should behave toward their gal, everything you ever needed to know about romance, and so much more! My books’ table of contents tell it all.

WHEN THE STUDENT IS READY, THE TEACHER WILL APPEAR!

I’m very excited to share what’s inside my 5+1 (relationship) books, not just because I want you to know what’s in them, but I wrote them for ME TOO! You see, I wrote all these books to accomplish everything mentioned on this page about establishing instant rapport, showcasing what my own set of values and vows are according to my life, heart and constitution for living and what I want to bring to the relationship table when I’m with her. The same goes for you!

Just imagine, taking in everything written (or recorded) inside all of my (relationship) books, then, it’s simple, put my advice to the test! See if it doesn’t win back smiles, interest, care, devotion, affection, interest your way, and ultimately, passion and someone into your life! I remember I was at a lunch talking to some couples, and one woman responded, “Honey, are you listening to this guy?” A man, sitting with his girlfriend, said, “Those are some good ideas (referring to my hotel getaway checklist), that I think I’m going to write those down.” His gal smiled and said, “Are we going to have a hotel getaway with his checklist?” He looked at me and smiled 10 miles wide! 😉 She did too …

Now, even though we’re all different, at different stages of life, different stages in our love lives, etc., there’s still so much wisdom in everyone of these books for everyone to take something and use it, improve their life with it, etc. What’s more, I know I wouldn’t and couldn’t live (my) life without what I’ve written, let alone be in a relationship without this type of guidance. Since I wrote these books, the information resides in me 1,000%. For others, my aim is to share what’s inside these books so their love lives can improve for the better as well; to reach heights they never thought possible before. Trust me, I’ve had women tell me, point blank, I never knew (life/love/being in love) could be like this.

FOR STARTERS, COMBINED, THEY COVER OVER 1,000+ TOPICS every single guy/gal or even couple needs to be introduced to, aware of, understood, consumed, acted upon, incorporated and lived so you/both live LIFE FREE OF (RELATIONSHIP) B.S., and instead, FILLED with total BLISS and in total HARMONY so you both can ENJOY LIFE TO ITS FULLEST! Just check out the contents for each of these amazingly awesome books that you should not go without any longer than you can say, “GIMME GIMME! BART, I WANT ALL THESE BOOKS!”

FIND THE ONE FOR ME is what I call the bible for relationships. This 300+ page treasure chest of relationship knowledge covers the span of your love life from age 18 to 88, as I put it. There is so much relationship wisdom in this book, that if the two of you have it in your possession on your first (and subsequent dates) you both can literally open it up anywhere and start reading out of it; finding common ground immediately on important topics of dating, sex and relationships. “Let’s talk about ____ (topic) on page#? Do you agree with what Bart says? You do? Wow, you’re a keeper! Okay, let’s try another random page and talk about it …”

251+ DATING AND RELATIONSHIP REGRETS is my personal favorite. You’ll love this book for what it can do for you, which is, help you avoid 251+ dating, sex, marriage and relationship regrets others have had. Why reinvent the wheel? Why go through what others have experienced, especially if it turned out bad? Don’t you want to live your life with the one you’re with and avoid as much heartache, trouble, strife, regret, or unexpected/undesired consequences from the decisions you (or the two of you) make? I would! That’s why I wrote it!

What was originally going to be included inside FIND THE ONE FOR ME, I wound up compiling some 251+ dating and relationship regrets as they relate to dating, sex and marriage that both men and women experience. Because of the number of regrets I was writing, it just made sense to put them in their own book! Hence, 251+ Dating & Relationship Regrets (the book) was born!

This book is and will change how you look at dating, having sex and marriage going forward from the very second you pick it up ’til the second you put it down to ponder all the mistakes and regrets millions of people before you have had. It’s only about 80 pages or so. It’s not a long read, but a rather fast one. But, don’t let the short page count fool you. This book is perhaps the largest collection of regrets in print in the world from an author.

Laws Of The Bedroom was written for men, for the benefit of the woman they’re in love with or hope to fall in love with one day. “Mandatory reading for every male,” says every female! Seriously, guys, this is the book we need to live by when it comes to wanting to be the best we can to the woman we’re in love with in every which way. Just show her this book and watch her eyes light up and smile wide! Took it under her pillow only to discover it, read what’s in side, and say to you, “I want you, NOW! Will you do this to me? Can we do this? I like his hotel getaway checklist. Let’s do that next weekend!” Sound good so far? There are 300 pages of amazing insight, advice, suggestions, how-to’s, what-to’s, where-to’s, for-how-long-to’s and so much more. Chapters for him, for her, on romance, safeguards, warnings and precautions, what to do before/during/after making love and much more.

If there was ever a book that helped address the problems going on today in the lives of women (and men) when it comes to dating, prolonging marriage, avoiding heartache, falling in/out of love, finding someone to be with for the rest of your life, avoid growing old SINGLE, insights into pop culture, the media, porn’s effect on women’s relationship with men, sex robots, finding Mr. He’s Good Enough (“I do!”) vs. Mr. Perfect (who doesn’t exist) … wow, then look no further, WATCH OUT LADIES is the book you need to read cover to cover. Guys, this book was written for you too, trust me!

B.S. THE BOOK is about LIFE and the PERSONAL B.S. we all encounter and how (yours truly) breaks through it all to a healthier, lethally confident, stress-free me, which can also be YOU TOO after reading or listening to this book! This book is made up of 4 chapters or parts. PART 1: HEALTH & SELF-CARE TO AVOID B.S. in your life. PART 2: SELF-HELP FROM B.S. I love this chapter. You get 200+ of my personal, mental BART BUILDERS (or BARTISMS) to help you navigate the world of B.S. we live in from a self-help, motivational, get-up-and-go perspective. I wouldn’t live life without these teachings inside. PART 3: FAITH & MORE, great chapter on the spirit of being alive, religion, values, and more. Then, lastly, PART 4: RELATIONSHIP B.S. and how to avoid it. Boy to do I go into some real zingers on how to handle people, relatives, neighbors, co-workers, you name it. A must-read chapter when you’re entering into a relationship with someone else … for (hopefully) ever!!!

Who DOESN’T LOVE FOOD, right? Well, you’re in for a real treat. It hit me one day to put together a cookbook of my favorite dishes I make at home for breakfast, lunch and dinner.

Well, WHO’S HUNGRY? was born (in my Newport Beach, California kitchen) for all to enjoy in their homes across the world, as well. Since I like a wide variety of dishes from different cultures, I made sure there was a huge variety of fast, easy-to-make and ultra delicious meals in my cookbook.

I will tell you this, every man/woman, college student, family in America and around the world or who likes delicious fast, delicious (home-cooked) meals or wants to learn how to cook or learn a few new tricks in the kitchen or a few new dishes to add to their current list of meals they currently make … MY COOKBOOK is a MUST-HAVE in their kitchen! Gals, get it so you can cook for him and what guys like. I’m a guy and the cookbook is filled with tons of meals we dudes like. I’ve had ladies say to me, “Bart, I want to learn to cook something more than the two meals I know to cook for me and my guy. Will your cookbook help me?” AB-SO-LOOT-LEE, YES! Guys, get this cookbook and learn to make any number of romantic meals for her, too.

You know, why did I include my cookbook on this website? It’s because food brings people together. Food makes people feel good. Food can be sensual. Food can bring smiles to each other’s hearts as you apply my 1-plate/1-fork rule; and you feed each other. Preparing food for someone is like taking care of their soul, life and helping them stay live. Food, and serving it to others, is a social experience. Do we want to give all our time/money to restaurants every night of the week? I don’t think so. Hence, why WHO’S HUNGRY? was needed and had to be written for both men and women who might not have learned to cook while living at home or elsewhere. Many haven’t. I had a girlfriend once who learned a lot in the kitchen from me when I did most of the cooking. Her mom never really cooked much when she was younger. So, because of that, she developed digestion issues. Well, after a year or so of my cooking, her own health improved in that department. Nice! I’ve had guy friends say to me, “Bart, I’ve always wanted to learn to cook more for my family. Your cookbook looks like it has a lot of meals I can prepare for them quickly and that they’d love.” See how easy that works, folks? Food is love, in my book.

With all of Bart’s books, he shares his outlooks on life, experiences, romantic philosophies, research and sharp observations in the areas of experiencing healthy, loving and happy relationships. His intent? To encourage men and women to seek out the same and achieve higher levels of optimism in finding love and that there really is someone out there for everyone!

Bart believes that with the right preparation, vision, optimism, boundaries/patience, activity, and communication, singles using the principles found inside his books will be extremely surprised how their newly acquired dating and relationship skills and the art of FINDING THE ONE for them to love and be loved will flow more easily for them. For more than two decades, Bart continues to hold true to these very ideals. “I’m not telling you how you should live, per se. Instead, I’m just sharing how I live, what works for me, how I think, and what’s on my mind and in my heart when it comes to topics related to dating, sex, relationships, and marriage.”

He’s also witnessed significant improvement in the lives of so many he has spent time with, whether it be one-on-one or in group format. Bart’s content is grounded in real life experience, authentic human response, personal standards of conduct and fantasy acquisition with mutual cooperation and to all those things that make men and women go, “Oh, yeah … Bart’s take on life and how he thinks about love and relationships is amazing!”

His books are written to help take you to a whole new level in your heart, life and mind that you’ve never seen or experienced before.

Bart SmithAUTHOR OF …Find The One For Me251+ Dating & Relationship RegretsLaws Of The BedroomWatch Out LadiesWho’s Hungry?B.S. The Book
… and many more!