What factors shape our personalities? For generations people have
asked that question. There are a number of influences involved in developing
one's characteristics, encompassing both nature and nurture. Some specific
factors which have formed my values are family background, the media
and my aspirations towards the future.
Certain characteristics are genetically transferred from generation
to generation. Inheritance is probably the basis of everything, even
though it cannot be taken alone. Each person is born with a specific
and unique genetic makeup. Many features are genetically determined,
but they may be modified. It is the parents' responsibility to teach
their kids specific lifestyles and "rules". The general rules
to follow are that children have to be polite and respect elders. They
also learn by observing other family members, sometimes unconsciously.
Parents are also there to push the young ones to do more work if needed
and behave in a specified way. The living environment is very significant.
A child with better qualities is more likely to emerge from a healthy
home. Another important influence is derived from traditions and customs.
The holidays have an essential role, especially in my life. They remind
me of my culture and show where I belong. This is why my religion along
with my culture had a particularly great impact upon building my individuality.

One of today's major factors of influence is the media. This includes
television, music, books and even the Internet. The influence of the
media is greater than ever before. Children often sit in front of the
TV being "brainwashed" and saying that there is nothing else
to do. One of the concerns often discussed is the effect of violence
(in movies and games) on development of young children. Usually, the
media is where one finds a style he or she likes. This may be followed
by a certain way of dressing and acting. Personally, I am fond of dance
music and baggy clothes. Through the media, young people discover their
idols. Idols can affect the individual in two ways; for example, Michael
Jordan raises the hopes of every young basketball player. Coincidentally,
there are also beings with evil natures who can negatively influence
people. The positive thing about the media is that some individuals
might be able to develop special skills simply by watching educational
TV shows. This can open a path and prepare them for selecting their
upcoming careers.

Every person should establish hopes for a future. This is formed on
the basis of a number of influences such as: books, school, the media
and others. This is all tied in one big knot and makes one choose his/her
own upcoming field of employment. Talent is usually used to show someone
what he/she is capable of. Now, it is up to an individual to make a
choice whether or not he/she will go as far as he or she can. Most students
make decisions after high school; however, it is not that simple. The
individual has to have determination, a wish for success and a good
work ethic. I motivate myself by setting up goals for my future. With
enough effort given, I can achieve my dreams. Some big changes in life
can alter these career goals. I have had the privilege of the immigration
experience. After moving to Canada numerous new opportunities have been
opened to me. Someone's future also depends upon whether he/she is optimistic
or pessimistic. When all these factors are combined, they shape one's
personality.

These examples illustrate of possible influences on personal character.
Their common goal is that they all perfectly blend forming one unique
identity.