6. When you’re waiting in line somewhere and he starts massaging your shoulders while you’re bored. Impromptu shoulder massages are literally always at least a little arousing.7. When he decides what your plans will be. All you have to do is put on clothes and follow him somewhere. Not having to make decisions = hot.

8. When he brags about you to your friends/family. Oooh, I love when you tell everyone about my promotion for me.

9. When he pulls you over to his side of the bed in the morning. He’s not even really awake, it’s just a reflex. A sexy reflex.

10. When he touches your knee under the table at a boring event. Not so boring anymore.

11. When he kisses anywhere that’s not your mouth sweetly. Also, when he kisses you on the mouth hard.

12. When he becomes friends with your dad (or mom, or sibling). “I just sent your dad a hilarious YouTube video,” is music to your ears.

13. When you come home drunk and he’s already making you a grilled cheese in his pajamas. He’s not wearing pants, but also, grilled cheese!14. When he makes across-the-room eye contact at a party. Even if you’ve been together forever it feels like you’re about to start an illicit affair to the soundtrack of Beyoncé’s “Partition.”

15. When he wears a tailored suit or tux. Rawr.

16. When he carries your suitcase and his, no questions asked. Nothing satisfies quite like your man walking beside you with three bags while you gaze at him over your iced coffee.