The guy here sounds like a pretty smart dude - trying to get some p00ntang on the side, juggling balls carefully so none of them hit the ground. Keep it up as long as you can, I say. Life is short. Ge more »

...he is reaching out to me again and whispering sweet nothings in my ear (via text message, of course; we are in our 20s). The kicker is that he is still seeing the girl that he left me for. Dear Sta more »

You can let this be your pre-Boston crush, have the nice dinner, and then move away -- or you can disclose your feelings and ask if she reciprocates. Or you can just wait, which is what I recommend. more »

Dear Red in the Face: You need another "friend with benefits" to uncomplicate all of this. Allow me to offer my services. I know what you're saying. "But how's that gonna uncomplicate matters?" Just t more »

Best idea of all was the poster who suggested dropping the loser off in downtown Boston and letting the public exact justice. Hell, I live in Toronto and I will come to Boston to help out with this. I more »