Well if BES does not help get my email, faster, from AOL, it will not be of service to me. I guess I will be keeping BIS and live with it of pass out my Blackberry email address to speed things up.

You should try the Gmail forwarding as suggested in this forum many places. I set it up a few days ago and bow I have 5 email addresses being forwarded through my Gmail account, then all instantly pushed to my BB. Now I get my email roughly 5-10 seconds after it is sent! A couple of times when testing it on my iBook I received the email on my BB before the Apple Mail spinning progress icon even finished spinning! Doesn't get any faster than that.