Wednesday, December 2, 2015

When
those three words pop up in conversation or in a Facebook post, your reaction
will be one of two things: Sign me
up! or No way!

Having
attended two of the three reunions for our class (we celebrate
once-every-ten-years), I want to encourage you to make the trip back home to
Merrillville next summer. I admit that I initially thought No Way! But on second
thought, I remembered having a fabulous time at past reunions and would probably
regret not attending the upcoming event when I see pictures posted after the
event.

Here are
10 Reasons to Attend Our High School Reunion:

1.
People do change

A big
reason why people don’t return for their reunions is that they hated being in
high school and why return to the scene of four years of misery? Consider this,
by now you and everyone else (well almost everyone else) have long since shed
your teenage self-doubt, painful shyness, and clique noteworthy behaviors.
It’s no longer about whom you were then, it’s about who you are
today. Trust me; people will be
interested in your journey and the changes that have taken place over the
years.

2.
No strangers

Over the past decade,
adults have flocked to Facebook. You can walk into a room of people you have
not seen in person since you walked across the stage with your diploma and
immediately jump into a conversation about their golf game, their trip to
Florida or their grandchildren. Conversation with someone you hardly knew in
high school will suddenly be stress-free.

3. Release your inner 18-year-old

We are
now required to behave like responsible adults every single day. At work, as
parents/grandparents, and as leaders we suck it up and play the role of a
responsible adult. But, for one night, when neither boss nor kids will be there
to judge your behavior, channel your young at heart feelings and throw caution
to the wind. Stay out late!

4.
Mysteries revealed

We may
have sat through classes together, but how we lived our teenage years were
infinitely diverse. At the 20 year reunion I loved hearing stories from my
classmates. They filled in some gaps and solved a few long-forgotten mysteries.
Now I know who swam naked in the pool, who had a major crush on me, and why our
bus driver was fired to name a few.
Also, many interesting conversations started with “Whatever happened to
__ __” …mystery solved!

5.
Expressions don’t change

Not to
worry, yearbook photos will most likely be on the name tags. Sure, reading glasses
now sit on noses, hair has turned grey (mainly the guys J), we have picked up a few
pounds — but the smiles endure. The eyes are the same. The
sense of humor of that guy, who drove our Chemistry teacher crazy, is still
there, too.

6.
Music and dance

While
fashion and make-up from the 70’s look dated, the music we loved in high school
is locked in our brains as the best party tunes, ever. You’ll grab your girlfriends and abandon
self-consciousness. So what if your kids say your dancing is like the Charlie
Brown Christmas characters? You can throw your hands in the air like you
just don’t care.

7.
The one who broke your heart

Was there
one person, who dumped you, or in my case didn’t even know I was alive despite
the huge crush I had on him all sophomore year? Maybe he or she will show up,
too. Go ahead and seek them out, you might be happy you didn’t make that
connection after all (wink).

8. Prom redux

Perhaps
you remember our prom as a night of Cinderella-like splendor. No? Me neither.
Looking back at yellowed photos, mine seemed more about blue eye shadow and a
matching powder blue tuxedo. A reunion is a perfect time for a do-over. Splurge
on an outfit you feel great in. Ladies, schedule a hair appointment and drop by
the makeup bar. We’ve paid for our daughters and sons to go all out for their
proms and weddings, why not indulge ourselves for one night?

9. See how the story played out

When we
graduated from Merrillville high school, some of us had definite career goals,
others were madly in love, and some went to work in the mill as their fathers
and grandfathers had before them. The reunion is a chance to see if those high
school romances blossomed into marriage (some did and, remarkably, the couples
are still married). Did the kids who already knew they wanted to be a doctor or
a lawyer stick with it? Where did
everyone land geographically and what prompted them to move away? What plans for retirement are in the works? One
story I heard at the 20 year reunion was fascinating to me; I would have never
predicted he would live where he does and create the business he has.

10.
Friends

This is,
of course, the real reason you NEED to attend our reunion. If you are in
touch with high school buddies, great, this will be a fun night with them. But
friendships were more than your best friends. They were the kids you were on
yearbook staff with, ones you were in elementary school with but drifted away
from in middle school. Maybe you have no connection whatsoever with your high
school and you have moved far away. There may be no better way to rediscover a
friendship than at a high school reunion. Please consider joining the fun, I
want to catch-up!

Please
reply “YES” in the comments below if you are interested in attending a reunion next summer.

About Me

Hello! my name is Lori Dorrington; I am an artist and jewelry designer living in Blue Ridge, GA. I share my studio space with my wonderful husband Chuck and our funny little cat "Buddy". I love to travel and enjoy sleeping under the stars whenever we can get away to camp. I recently retired from the corporate world and look forward to growing my Jewelry Business.