1. Use 2004/05 drivers
2-3. You can enable aero taskbar and sidebar - look here. The full Aero Glass can't be just enabled. You will have to replace some files from 4074 and than activate it just like 4074
4. Effect that WinFlip emulates is just a part of DWM. Desktop Windows Manager is also Aero Taskbar and Sidebar, glass windows borders, aero stars, and many other effects.

1) Open C:\Windows\Resources\Themes\
2) Copy the folder Jade and rename it to Aero
3) Open the new folder, and rename the jade.msstyles to aero.msstyles
4) Apply the new file as theme
5) You now can kill and re-run explorer.exe or reboot the system
source: AeroXP