Iowa, maybe take a step back. Think about what you really want. Prioritize. It sounds like you lost this guy, but for the next guy, if he has most of the traits you look for, then maybe you can overlook his annoying habits. For instance, if I dated a teacher, I would probably attempt to share his passion. I would take interest in his kids. If he brought up that little Dante kept failing tests, in the next discussion I'd ask how little Dante was doing. It won't be annoying to you if you take interest in it. If it is still annoying, think about if it's worth giving up a worthwhile relationship.

I've kind of been where you are. I know how it is to really like a guy, and not be sure where things are going. You've got to easy up though. You can't look for everything in one person right away. It is your eagerness that makes you seem needy. Try to develop other interests outside of dating. Good luck. As far as the illness, forget what anyone else has to say about it. If they aren't having sex with you, their opinion doesn't matter.

wait the OP doesn't have an STD? I didn't read the entire thread all I saw was ill and STD so I assumed someone got confirmation of her vaginal status. tsk tsk yall spreading rumors on her vagina when nothing is probably wrong with it. OP I want to just give you a hug just for living in Iowa. Anybody that lives in Iowa or Alaska that is black deserves love and a hug

wait the OP doesn't have an STD? I didn't read the entire thread all I saw was ill and STD so I assumed someone got confirmation of her vaginal status. tsk tsk yall spreading rumors on her vagina when nothing is probably wrong with it. OP I want to just give you a hug just for living in Iowa. Anybody that lives in Iowa or Alaska that is black deserves love and a hug

Why are nigguhs in here acting like BHM forgets? People bring up old and embarrassing stuff about posters all the damn time. I learned my lesson, my cape is retired.

Oan: I don't remember her saying she had an std, I too thought she had SCD or something of that nature. If the op isn't a troll, she needs some guidance.

This is true. I don't think it will ever change. If people feel they have something on you, they will bring it up when they can. It has been proven time and time again. The best thing OP can do is not care.

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