"This guy and I have been going out for six months, and I love him more than anything. He says he loves me more than anything too, but I feel like I do everything to be with him, and that he doesn't do anything to be with me. What do you think is wrong?"

Jennifer W., Palestine, TX

Dear Jennifer: What's wrong is him. He can say he loves you all he wants, but actions speak louder than words. But wait. Don't hastily get rid of him. He may really love you, but he doesn't know how to express it. We guys don't really know what we're doing all the time. At this point in life, we're horribly ill-formed half-men who don't know how to treat a girl the way she deserves to be treated. Make sure you talk to him about how you feel and what you expect from the relationship. If he loves you as much as he says he does, then he will try his best to be with you. Keep in mind that it may take some time for him to come around. If he doesn't make any effort to be with you more often, then you'll have to dump him, as hard as that may be.