15 thoughts on “Blackgirl Blue(s)”

Thank you so much for this. I wanted to share with you that I gave a keynote address focusing on the emotional and physical pain/illnesses caused by pretending to me a strong black woman, two days ago in Toronto Canada. It was called “Recipes for Racial Tension Headaches” and I start by singing a song about what a strong black woman is. Part of the lyrics talks about how a strong black woman DOES cry.
Perhaps you and your readers will find it interesting? http://wp.me/pzDsy-6xN
Best,
Dr. A. Breeze Harper

My first epiphany came at 22(the day Aaliyah died), the second at 28 my journey in Egypt, reminded of all, that past, that use to be me, but finally “And if folk miss that, that’s their loss to live with”, and today (as some days when I need to feel and hear it) I look at myself in the mirror and say real loud (no matter who is or isn’t present) and say….”SO, DAMN SEXY!!” No, not vain, affirmation.

Thank You for this. Late getting to the read but uh, always celebrating my life, especially when I remember what I came through.

This was perfect and right on time. Both my 14 year old daughter and I struggle with blackgirl blues and in the constant practice of loving myself I hope to show her that we can set new directions for our best, fullest lives. Thank you.

I am not Black,nor I don’t understand being Black or how it feels to live in an oppression that unfortunately still exists, but I struggle with my own issues and your message still touched me and tugged at my heart. It inspired me and I love you for that. Thank you.