need advice please!!!!!

So last night my bf was talking in his sleep about another woman. I was really hurt and upset by it even though it was just a dream. I'm 40 weeks pregnant today so keep that in mind my hormones are crazy. And so last night he got mad and left at about 8 came back at 1230 and I found out he went to a movie which I really don't care about but then after that he went to a bar. Our due date is today I could have gone into labor and he's out parting with his friends. So then we argue and he tries to kick me out then calms down and is now acting like nothing happened. Wtf??? What would you all do if you were in my situation.

So last night my bf was talking in his sleep about another woman. I was really hurt and upset by it even though it was just a dream. I'm 40 weeks pregnant today so keep that in mind my hormones are crazy. And so last night he got mad and left at about 8 came back at 1230 and I found out he went to a movie which I really don't care about but then after that he went to a bar. Our due date is today I could have gone into labor and he's out parting with his friends. So then we argue and he tries to kick me out then calms down and is now acting like nothing happened. Wtf??? What would you all do if you were in my situation.

I think both of you are on edge because your due date is here. Yeah he may not have handled it well but labor is scary for guys too. They're just wired to handle it differently. If he's not like this all the time I'd say let it slide. Otherwise ask him about what happened while you're both calm and go from there.

I think both of you are on edge because your due date is here. Yeah he may not have handled it well but labor is scary for guys too. They're just wired to handle it differently. If he's not like this all the time I'd say let it slide. Otherwise ask him about what happened while you're both calm and go from there.

About the dream? I would calm down. I dream about Olivia Wilde and Johnny Depp fairly regularly. I would be upset that he was out last night, but I can also imagine that the stress of the argument plus any concerns about the upcoming labor and parenthood may have led him to seek an escape for a little while. Tell him you were worried you'd go into labor on your own last night, ask him to stick close to home for now, and let it go. You don't need the extra stress now of carrying around your anger. Good luck with your labor and delivery!!

About the dream? I would calm down. I dream about Olivia Wilde and Johnny Depp fairly regularly. I would be upset that he was out last night, but I can also imagine that the stress of the argument plus any concerns about the upcoming labor and parenthood may have led him to seek an escape for a little while. Tell him you were worried you'd go into labor on your own last night, ask him to stick close to home for now, and let it go. You don't need the extra stress now of carrying around your anger. Good luck with your labor and delivery!!

First, good luck with your labor and delivery.... Almost here so try extra hard to calm down...if that is even possible. I wouldn't worry about who he talks to in his sleep. If this behavior of his is totally new, then it is safe to assume that it is the stress of labor, delivery and an infant being a part of your lives soon. I suggest you talk about it, nicely, in a calm moment and let him know that it will help you and ease the process for you if you know he is available at all times, not drunk or anything. May also be helpful to talk about other acceptable ways that you can relax either together or separately.

First, good luck with your labor and delivery.... Almost here so try extra hard to calm down...if that is even possible. I wouldn't worry about who he talks to in his sleep. If this behavior of his is totally new, then it is safe to assume that it is the stress of labor, delivery and an infant being a part of your lives soon. I suggest you talk about it, nicely, in a calm moment and let him know that it will help you and ease the process for you if you know he is available at all times, not drunk or anything. May also be helpful to talk about other acceptable ways that you can relax either together or separately.

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