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So with that in mind, I have to ask: Do you consume those copious amounts of gin with your date, or before your date?

And while I have your attention, something I have been meaning to ask – where exactly did you get that nom-de-plume anyway? And does “siisaa” actually stand for anything or ????

I only drank gin before & during a first date once. I arrived to the bar 30-45 minutes early on purpose, drank and then had another drink once the guy showed up. Less than 2 hours later, we were making out in the bar. "Siisaa" was the OKC username of a hot guy I met a few years back. I'd stalk his profile on there and decided I liked the name so much I'd use it as my forum name here.

And thank you for using the term nom-de-plume...I learned a new word today! :D

LOL....always meet in a busy area and always pay unless we have talked before about this.....course no 4 star restaurants at first usually a drink or two....the first couple of minutes tell right off IF both are about their wits.....as for a woman she would be a fool to meet anywhere else except a busy place but in saying that have heard some weird stories!....lol