The password for the forums is the same as the one you use for your eCRATER account. If you can't remember the password for your Irresistablegifts account then you can reset it. On the eCRATER sign in screen, at the bottom, there is a link "Forgot your Password?" and Password is in orange. When you click on that it will ask for your email address. eCRATER will email you a link to reset that password.

The password reset will be sent to the email you used when you opened the store unless you have changed that emailvia direct contact with eCRATER. Changing your password in your admin section does not change the primary password.