After Monyetta was spotted flicking it up with friends and still rocking her engagement ring around the same time that Ne-Yo dropped his Instagram bombshell, many questioned whether or not Monyetta had found out about the end of her 4-year relationship at the same time as the public….but Ne-Yo says it aint so.

And there you have it. Sounds like Ne-yo didn’t take to well to the “jerk of the year” award that was about to be sent his way if this actually turned out to be true.