We always thought that talking about exes was considered a giant “no-no”, when it comes to wooing a new partner.

But, apparently it isn’t.

An expert claims that talking about exes on first dates is actually something we should do.

Relationship expert, James Preece, says that while most people think that talking about an ex to a new love interest is a bad sign, he believes it shows they’re over them – depending on how you handle the discussion.

If you’re in a place where you can joke about your ex, then it can be good to talk about

Speaking to the Independent, James said: “If you can joke about the situation, it’s a clear sign you are ready to move on.”

However, obsessive chat, or bad-mouthing an ex, can indicate the exact opposite.

Dating psychologist Madeleine Mason agrees, adding: “There is no harm in swapping stories and if the relationships have been significant; the experiences from there can be valuable in getting to know someone.”

She also said that if a potential partner doesn’t like you talking about past loves, it could be a warning sign.

She added: “If your date is jealous of you simply having a healthy relationship history, it’s a red flag which is better to see sooner rather than later.”

Would do you think?

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