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Would you marry a girl with 3 kids from 3 different men ?

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you would have to be a complete fool to want to pay for some other mans kid and if your girl doesn't think this is so she severely misunderstands men. personally I wouldn't marry or really even date a woman with just one child from another relationship. you would basically never be her first priority and if you were then that would make her a horrible parent. not to mention the fact that if you are not interested in having children of your own now then you already know her stance on abortion and or birth control. you'd have to assume that she'd be just as likely to have a child with you.. fucc that. sorry if that doesn't sound very PC or that pisses some women off, but dems is da breaks so to speak...peace

They're a package deal. If you don't love her kids, you shouldn't be with her. It will take a very rare person to undertake this kind of challenge. I don't think the number of fathers should be a deciding factor. And who cares what everyone else thinks? Either she is the one for you and you accept the fact that she had a life prior to meeting you, or you don't. There are men who would walk right into this situation, adopt the kids, and be the best father/husband figure they ever had. Rare person, but they do exist.

You and whoever walks along next. I'm 30ish and have NO KIDS, I dont see why its so hard. One or even two experiences should be enough to wise someone up, and unless she was married at least one of those times she doesn't seem serious about it at all.

But now she has to find some sucker to help her out, and NOW she is interested in marriage?

You and whoever walks along next. I'm 30ish and have NO KIDS, I dont see why its so hard. One or even two experiences should be enough to wise someone up, and unless she was married at least one of those times she doesn't seem serious about it at all.

But now she has to find some sucker to help her out, and NOW she is interested in marriage?

Exactly!

SKANK

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I was thinking "maybe" at first. Until I saw it said "from 3 different dudes". Didn't she learn the first time. She's messed up to do that. I hate people that have all these kids. You know how much college is going to be in 10-15 years. She does need to find a man though. I am a firm believer in kids having a Father. A women just shouldn't raise them all by herself.

I was thinking "maybe" at first. Until I saw it said "from 3 different dudes". Didn't she learn the first time. She's messed up to do that. I hate people that have all these kids. You know how much college is going to be in 10-15 years. She does need to find a man though. I am a firm believer in kids having a Father. A women just shouldn't raise them all by herself.

I see you've been listening to Doctor Rock:

Buncha girls say, 'You don't need no man to help you raise no child'...Yeah, you could do it without a man, but that don't mean it's to be done. Shit, you could drive a car with your feet if you want to. That don't make it a good fuckin' idea...You could be the baddest mama on earth...and nothin' you could say more powerful than 'I'm gonna tell your daddy.'

NO way besides raising someone else's kids if the fathers are in the picture you have to deal with them too. And who is to say she wont try to get knocked up again. Three times is no accident it is done with some for thought

i have two kids, they are both by the same man but let me tell ya. it has not stopped men from persuing me but it has certainly made me extremely picky in who i want around them. but even when i was a kid i thought it was strange when women had kids by a string of different men.

if i was a guy this woman would have to show me a lot of positive qualities like having a financial plan for her kids college be that she has a good education and a good job or is continuing her education to get one...