so hurt rite now :(

My new friend offered to throw me a baby shower today so I accept her offer tell all my friends the time and date then tells me she needs me to split cost so I do we buy everything I take my truck my gas and pay for half on Monday. then also tells me how she was raised was the person having the baby pays for everything and the one throwing it only buys a gift and sets up the decorations .!really i was raised when you off to have a baby shower or party for someone you pay for all of it and set it all up wow we are from 2 different worlds honestly .then to top it all off this morning at. 8am 3 hours before the shower I offer to help set up and she's like we need to do this Saturday .!now I'm like really what about all the people I invited and told them 11 am today I asked who all she talk to she's not answering me ok what do I say now should I be upset or am I over reacting from hormones ladies ?:(

My new friend offered to throw me a baby shower today so I accept her offer tell all my friends the time and date then tells me she needs me to split cost so I do we buy everything I take my truck my gas and pay for half on Monday. then also tells me how she was raised was the person having the baby pays for everything and the one throwing it only buys a gift and sets up the decorations .!really i was raised when you off to have a baby shower or party for someone you pay for all of it and set it all up wow we are from 2 different worlds honestly .then to top it all off this morning at. 8am 3 hours before the shower I offer to help set up and she's like we need to do this Saturday .!now I'm like really what about all the people I invited and told them 11 am today I asked who all she talk to she's not answering me ok what do I say now should I be upset or am I over reacting from hormones ladies ?:(

I acept her offer to throw me a shower I was raised when you offer to throw a party you don't expect the person your throwing it for to pay for most of it then turn around not say a word till they ask to help set up the party and say oh we have to do it that week end

I acept her offer to throw me a shower I was raised when you offer to throw a party you don't expect the person your throwing it for to pay for most of it then turn around not say a word till they ask to help set up the party and say oh we have to do it that week end

I agree is someone offers to throw you a shower that means they are throwing you a shower and all you should have to do is provide the guest list and show up. No different than a wedding shower. If I were you I'd get rid of the shower idea and just let everyone come over like originaly planned and hang out. These are your friends and family coming right? They love you and are happy for you right? Then just have fun with them without all the pretense. It's not that big of deal.

I agree is someone offers to throw you a shower that means they are throwing you a shower and all you should have to do is provide the guest list and show up. No different than a wedding shower. If I were you I'd get rid of the shower idea and just let everyone come over like originaly planned and hang out. These are your friends and family coming right? They love you and are happy for you right? Then just have fun with them without all the pretense. It's not that big of deal.

Thanks I need support not others acting if I'm selfish for being hurt by all this. I didn't expect. a shower even told her 2 weeks ago if she can't do it because she has a family and bills I would understand .but yesterday she ask If I was going to pick up our furniture for our new place I said we couldn't go didn't have the gas she insisted taking me because she was going that way and said she would pay the gas. then told me I insisted she take me and she was just too nice to say no .then couldn't fit all my stuff in my truck because we had to put her dresser in first took up a lot of space .I just said my hubby and me would make another trip to get the rest then I gave her my part of the baby shower plus gas money for the ride to get the stuff. then if I had not text her this morning I would not have known anything and went to my shower to find nothing or no one their .and people on here act like I'm not allowed to be upset. even if I wasn't pregant I think I deserve to be upset don't you ?:(

Thanks I need support not others acting if I'm selfish for being hurt by all this. I didn't expect. a shower even told her 2 weeks ago if she can't do it because she has a family and bills I would understand .but yesterday she ask If I was going to pick up our furniture for our new place I said we couldn't go didn't have the gas she insisted taking me because she was going that way and said she would pay the gas. then told me I insisted she take me and she was just too nice to say no .then couldn't fit all my stuff in my truck because we had to put her dresser in first took up a lot of space .I just said my hubby and me would make another trip to get the rest then I gave her my part of the baby shower plus gas money for the ride to get the stuff. then if I had not text her this morning I would not have known anything and went to my shower to find nothing or no one their .and people on here act like I'm not allowed to be upset. even if I wasn't pregant I think I deserve to be upset don't you ?:(

Thanks for the support ladies I don't expect everyone to agree with me .but I would hope to not be like I'm selfish or crazy for being upset even a little. ill get over this just hurts rite now ladies is all I didn't even ask for a shower ok she insisted on throwing it for me :(

Thanks for the support ladies I don't expect everyone to agree with me .but I would hope to not be like I'm selfish or crazy for being upset even a little. ill get over this just hurts rite now ladies is all I didn't even ask for a shower ok she insisted on throwing it for me :(

I would go to the place where your are holding it and call up a friend or family member to help you set everything up. Then just enjoy your party. Sometimes people don't behave the way we expect them to. That's life. But instead of sitting at home upset and calling everyone to cancel just go forward with your plans and enjoy your day! :D

I would go to the place where your are holding it and call up a friend or family member to help you set everything up. Then just enjoy your party. Sometimes people don't behave the way we expect them to. That's life. But instead of sitting at home upset and calling everyone to cancel just go forward with your plans and enjoy your day! :D

Your friends behavior is odd. When someone offers to throw you a baby shower you provide a guest list whether it is for your first or fifth child. You should not be upset by or let this person upset you. They clearly have the issue.

Your friends behavior is odd. When someone offers to throw you a baby shower you provide a guest list whether it is for your first or fifth child. You should not be upset by or let this person upset you. They clearly have the issue.

I know it's weird I just wanted the respect to tell me in advance If she had to change the dates is all then not respond to my texts or calls after that its odd ill get over it but am hurt at the moment she didn't buy the cake like she said so iam letting my friends go ahead with their work and kids they have lives too so I'm not going make them wait because she changes everything last minute with out telling me ill be fine thanks for the support ladies :)

I know it's weird I just wanted the respect to tell me in advance If she had to change the dates is all then not respond to my texts or calls after that its odd ill get over it but am hurt at the moment she didn't buy the cake like she said so iam letting my friends go ahead with their work and kids they have lives too so I'm not going make them wait because she changes everything last minute with out telling me ill be fine thanks for the support ladies :)

I understand but why have me go buy everything 2 days ago then not even tell me the day of the shower till I call her to offer to help set it all up and I was just in the hospital yesterday from 2 till 10am with contractions they got them to stop thank God she already knew about it after I got out

I understand but why have me go buy everything 2 days ago then not even tell me the day of the shower till I call her to offer to help set it all up and I was just in the hospital yesterday from 2 till 10am with contractions they got them to stop thank God she already knew about it after I got out

he's bipolar and gambles once in a while he lost a 100 dollars over a month ago was upset about it but we are fine now so get over it ok.he's great to me and our babies so stop the bullying me .!honestly go get a life I stop posting about that we was fine that night. he has well made up with our new apartment and got all we need and then some for our baby so get out of my post ok . My hubby has 2 jobs he is a professional painter owns his own business. plus bar tends at night when the weather is bad so we have plenty to to take care of our 3 kids and baby coming next month ok

he's bipolar and gambles once in a while he lost a 100 dollars over a month ago was upset about it but we are fine now so get over it ok.he's great to me and our babies so stop the bullying me .!honestly go get a life I stop posting about that we was fine that night. he has well made up with our new apartment and got all we need and then some for our baby so get out of my post ok . My hubby has 2 jobs he is a professional painter owns his own business. plus bar tends at night when the weather is bad so we have plenty to to take care of our 3 kids and baby coming next month ok

Whoa calm down there sweet checks! No need to defend yourself to someone who needs to get a life if you are so secure. I just wanted some clarification that you were one in the same with the bipolar hubby. And just so you know, "right" is the word you are looking for. It means acceptable, true, or factual. "Rite" is a religious ceremony, often seen as a rite of passage. I would hate for you to continue looking like a bonehead.

Whoa calm down there sweet checks! No need to defend yourself to someone who needs to get a life if you are so secure. I just wanted some clarification that you were one in the same with the bipolar hubby. And just so you know, "right" is the word you are looking for. It means acceptable, true, or factual. "Rite" is a religious ceremony, often seen as a rite of passage. I would hate for you to continue looking like a bonehead.

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