Why do I want to tell you the
story of Starfollower37?It’s simple really.She has a perspective of getting into this
wonderful lifestyle that I did not have and knew almost nothing about.She has given me a unique understanding of a
very different way a woman can enter our lifestyle.

I want to tell her story because I want to hear from
other women out there that may be considering this rather radical approach to
finding happiness by following their own star as well as hearing from those of
you who already have, or from the men in their lives that have been affected by
their decision.

My only goal from Day One has been to try and help real
people get truthful non biased information about our lifestyle.

Almost every day I get an email
from someone that presents an issue I never considered before or is way outside
my knowledge base.I answer every single one with the truth.Sometimes all I can do is listen and give my
perspective as just a woman, not a hotwife.

Sometimes asking questions and
listening, gives men at least some insight to the issue.Sometimes that is enough.Sometimes it’s not, but at least I tried to
help.

What’s so great about the
Starfollower37 story is that I can totally relate.We could almost be twin sisters by the lives we
were leading prior to making the leap.

We were both ignored by our
husband’s, living in a sexless marriage.I was considering an affair, when my husband
suddenly became aware of my existence in his life.

She took a different route and
smacked her husband right in the face by becoming a totally different woman in
the space of a few days.I want you to hear her story.It’s compelling!

I received my first missive from her in mid June.She identified herself to me at the time as
Starfollower37.I was instantly intrigued by her name.Once I read her email, I knew she was going to
impact my own personal life if she was for real, because not only was she local
to me being a Tampa chick, she also could basically read my mind which was quite
disconcerting.

She found my
Tumblr blog first. She
told me she was not a hotwife, but was having an affair with a very
“enlightened” older man who suggested that if she was going to be following her
own star, she needed experience with men and sex, that she did not currently
have.

He suggested that she do some research on line about
the hotwife lifestyle.She said she did that and found my blog.Initially she contacted me because she was more
curious about my career as a prostitute than as a hotwife.

Her thinking at that time was if her friend wanted her
to get experience with men and sex, why not get paid for it?

I was very skeptical of the motive of her friend.We spent several back and forth emails over two
weeks before I was convinced he really was a very good man that was trying to
help her find her way, instead of being a predator that was simply using her.In the end she convinced me.That’s where her story begins.

~

Starfollower37

September 5, 2015

I have a new personal friend in Tampa.She doesn’t want me to use her name but when I
asked for her permission to tell her story she said I could use Starfollower37
as her identification.She is 37 years old.I can tell you that much.

The reason I am using her code name is because we are collaborating on a way for
me to tell her complete story which when finished will be published one segment
at a time as a tab on my website called Starfollower37.

Her story is compelling to me because I have been used to hearing from both men
and women where the husband is the one that wants his wife to open up her end of
the marriage.

The more time I spent with her, the more drawn in to
her story I became.I finally decided her story was too good not to
tell because I can take my time and tell the complete story on my website.It is relevant, truthful, and most interesting
of all to me, was the family dynamics involved.

The main reason we are using her code name is because
I am going to tell her husband’s side of the story from her perspective.She has given me permission to tell their
story.He has not.I have already learned not to use certain real
information without permission from the real person involved.

In this case, the real person involved is not going to
make a fuss, but having worked for a bunch of lawyers for 12 years has given me
lots of access to free advice.That’s why she is going to be Starfollower37
instead of Tammy from Tampa or Frieda from Florida.

Yes this post is a shameless teaser because I want you all to understand this is
going to be a pretty radical departure from the type of stuff I usually post.

Starfollower37 did not become a hotwife in the usual
way.She had no idea when she began her journey she would
end up as a hotwife.She was a very unhappily married woman whose
husband was ignoring her existence like Michael was ignoring mine.

One morning she woke up and decided she was tired of being miserable, tired of
being lonely, and tired of being treated as a family servant.

She decided to start following her own star.She stopped ignoring the advances of other men.She stopped saying “No.”

“Alexis there were a dozen men that wanted to have sex
with me and one that didn’t!What’s wrong with that picture?”She asked me one day at Jill’s bar.I was wondering if she got that from me.I could relate to her totally.

She began an affair with a very enlightened man who,
to his credit, didn’t want to just take from her.He became her mentor and advisor.Up until that point in her 37th year
she had only had sex with one man in her life and she married him.

Her new friend encouraged her to expand her horizons with other men to gain
experience with both men and sex, so that she would know if following her own
star would ultimately lead to her happiness or destroy her marriage, which was a
cost she was prepared to pay.

This is going to be a different perspective for most
of you.It’s why I want you to read her story once I get it
finished.

~

September 5, 2015

Starfollower37 moved to Tampa, last year when her
husband took a job for a multinational construction company.The majority of their contracts are in the
United Arab Emirates where they are currently managing five projects.

Her husband is in upper middle management.Although his regional office is located in
Tampa he took the job with the understanding that for the foreseeable future he
would be commuting to the UAE on a regular basis.

They have a seventeen year old son who is a gifted
baseball player.He was not at all happy at the prospect of
being uprooted during the summer between his sophomore and junior year of high
school.

The transition was made easier by the fact that his
baseball coach in Atlanta notified several high schools in Tampa of his
impending relocation he was actually actively recruited by a few of them.

She said that no illegal offers were made but his parents
eased his pain by letting him pick the school with the best baseball program and
then moved into that district.

That solved the son’s issues but it did nothing to
improve his mothers quality of life issues which were marital issues, not
location issues.They were made worse because she
was uprooted from the few friends she had in Atlanta.

Within just a few months of relocating to Tampa, her
husband was notified that he and another manager would rotate back and forth to the UAE
on a monthly basis.That meant that he would be in the UAE for a
month then home for a month then back to the UAE.

He would be spending half the year away from home.She wondered at the time that it could be a
blessing in disguise if absence made the heart grow fonder.

It didn’t happen.During his month in Tampa he got the first week
back as comp time.They joined a country club and he spent almost
every day of his week off playing golf, and then spent the next three weeks in
his office before returning for another month to the UAE.

~

September 6, 2015

Starfollower37 never worked outside the home during
their marriage.Her husband is eight years older and was
already established in business when the met.They married in the spring and she became
pregnant a month later.She was a virgin.She was twenty years old.

By the time she was thirty five she felt like she was
fifty.She is a beautiful sexy woman that had always taken
care of herself.She said that she was within five pounds of her
weight when they married.

Her wakeup call came during her son’s first baseball
game she attended in Tampa.The third base coach of her son’s team saw her
sitting in the stands and rarely took his eyes off her during the game.

He had no idea who she was but was unabashedly
flirting with her throughout the game.He didn’t look to be much older than her son
but he was a coach so he was probably in his twenties.She loved the attention.

She admitted that she flirted back even though she
knew it was leading her nowhere.After the game when the coach saw her talking
to her son, he came over and introduced himself.It was evident to her that he had high hopes.She said the way he was looking at her made her
feel naked and vulnerable.

Instead of that making her feel uncomfortable, it
turned her on in a way she didn’t understand.Although nothing was going to happen, the seed
was planted.

There
were men out there that desired her even if they were 10-12 years younger than
she was.She didn’t have to settle for living in an emotional
and sexual vacuum.

The following day she joined the YMCA near their home.It took her 15 years to gain those five pounds
but now she was motivated.She set her first goal at eliminating those
extra five pounds.

Within a month the five pounds were gone and she had a
perfectly flat stomach once again.If her husband noticed, he said nothing.The side benefit of joining the Y was the other
men that were noticing her.Several men tried to catch her interest.

She wasn’t ready for several reasons.She wanted to look her best.She wanted to gain confidence.She was insecure.There was also a huge societal roadblock in her
way.She was a married woman that had remained monogamous
to her husband.

On the other hand, there was one man there that
particularly interested her although she wasn’t sure why at first.She admitted to me that it may have been
because he was the only one that had not tried to talk to her, and that made her
curious, because he was paying attention to what she was doing but in a subtle
way.

~

His name is Chris.She knew his name because she discovered that
he was a regular and he knew many of the other members that used the gym during
the day because that is when a lot of women use the gym as well.

That explained why some of the women showed up looking
like they were going out on a date or were on their way home from one.She learned that the gym at the YMCA is a way
for women to meet men without going to a bar in the middle of the day when the
kids are in school and the husband is at work.Who knew?

At 1:30 on a Friday afternoon they ended up both leaving the building at the
same time and he finally spoke to her.

“You are such a beautiful woman.I hope someday you find a reason to smile.My name is Chris by the way.It’s short for Christopher, not Christine.”He said.She laughed at what he said about his name.

He told her it was the first time he had ever seen her
smile in the month and a half he had seen her at the gym the same three
days a week there were both there.

That surprised her.Not because of what he said, but because he
noticed.It made her even more curious about him and they ended
up chatting in the parking lot over nothing for fifteen minutes or so.

She didn’t run him off and he didn’t leave.He told her later that after fifteen minutes
chatting in the parking lot he was cautiously optimistic that she wouldn’t shoot
him down if he offered to buy her a drink.

She told me that she wanted to accept his offer but
needed to get home and change to attend her son’s baseball game.Then she said she heard the words come out of her mouth
before she ever had the thought in her mind.She asked if she could have a rain check.