Uh oh! Emily’s first choice reportedly got cold feet last minute and left Emily crying and begging him not to leave her! Read on for more details.

According to a new report, the 26-year-old mom was left broken-hearted right before the proposal. Her first choice — presumably Arie Luyendyk Jr. — allegedly dumped her right before the final rose ceremony which was filmed in Curacao on May 12.

“He said ‘I don’t think we know each other nearly enough to even be entertaining this; I don’t think we should get engaged,'” a source tells In Touch magazine.

Emily reportedly begged him to re-think his decision.

“She was crying and begging him to reconsider,” a source tells the mag, adding she shouted, “You’re the one I want to pick!”

But despite the pre-proposal drama, Emily — who is reportedly engaged to Jef Holm — thinks it all worked out for the best.