mother of 3, ceo of www.establishedmen.com, author, Fitness Model, radio host, Host of New York Confessions on HDNet

What are some of your hobbies and interests ?

Weight Lifting, Weapons Training, Ballet,

What is your greatest fear ?

Realizing that my greatest efforts fall short of being enough.

What turns you on ?

confidence, traditional values, dirty converse and a guitar

What is your favourite body part?

the nape of the neck

What is your favourite car ?

delorean dmc-12 from back to the future

What is one characteristic that you don't like about yourself ?

relentlessly trusting

What gives you the most satisfaction ?

Leaving those who underestimate me, speachless and stupified.

Tell us about your best date

My best and most memorable date was with my husband. After a horrible dinner at a way to fancy restaurant, we went back to his place where he played Rainbow Connection in his best Kermit the Frog voice. Candles, humility, giggles and tears. He serenaded me with the same song at our wedding and I was just mush.

What talent do you wish you had ?

I wish I could sing as well in real life as I do in the shower. I swear if Jay-Z took a splash with me, he'd sign his whole company away to my angelic voice.

What challenges you the most ?

Making sure that I look as good if not better than my 18-20 year old counterparts. Gotta live up to the yummy mommy mandate!

What is your favorite food ?

Fries dipped in Ice Cream. Don't judge

What's at the top of your to do list in life ?

My biggest problem is that I just can't sit still for longer than a moment. So, while something may seem absolutely crucial one day, it falls to the bottom of my bucket list, the next.

When are you the happiest ?

Nothing tops watching my kids smile and hearing them laugh. Being able to see positive effort translate into self confidence and values in such young people is just bliss.

Who is your hero, living or dead ?

Jenna Jameson. Self-motivated, self-loved, self-made. Defied the odds and built a life by her own terms.

What do you do to relax ?

starfish on my bed! Really, there is no greater relaxation than a little drool on the pillow.

What is your philosphy on life ?

Every experience is neutral until you paint it black or white. Bottom line, life is not necessarily what you make it but what you judge it to be.

What is the best compliment you ever received ?

"I love your eyeball". (spencer, age 2)

Who is your biggest influence ?

My father is absolutely my biggest influence. He is the most accomplished and resilient man I know. He is always optimistic, passionate and endlessly motivated. He believes in his dreams and his abilities and commits himself to everything he aspires to