how do you..

get over things that you never thought would happen? A best friend you grew up with who was murdered? The men who cheated on you and took advantage of your heart? Your dad being cold and evil that you do not want to believe he would do? Abusive boyfriend? Losing a baby? Loving someone who does not love you back? Not being accepted for who you are due to a disability? Being bullied? Hurtful words that you never want to hear? Betrayal? Being forced? Turn their backs on you? Not being good enough for someone? Fooled by kindness? Being alone?