Is my babysitter mistreating my child?

My 2 year old son screams and cries every time I drop him off at one particular baby sitter's house. It is a friend of mind's little sister. Anytime I drop him off with anyone else, he is fine BUT everyone else I leave him with has been in his life since birth where as she has only been around him a few times prior to the two weeks she has now been keeping him. The girl is a sweetheart although she's not socially developed for her age (18). More of a home body/ mommy and daddy's girl. I don't know if I should be concerned or if maybe hes just acting that way because he hasn't known her for a long time. But, knowing his personality, it doesn't usually take him long to warm up around people. This is out of character for him which is why I'm concerned. Any advice, opinions, or similar stories? Thanks!

Trust your instincts. If the child seems like a mommy's or daddy's kid they may not be used to what is required for minding a toddler and the patience involved. There is probably nothing going on, but, if you are getting a vibe, would you rather have moved to protect your little one first or find out much later after more damage is done. To be honest I think the more difficult thing for you will be how to stop dropping your child to this particular sitter without causing issues with your friend. You'll need to be creative and covertly manufacture a reason to not go back there. It's your child and your call though

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