both are good just you should have to be sure about that person to whom you r going to marry

Sun Nov 22, 2009 1:45 pm

DrSpySenior Member Pakistani

Joined: 03 Jan 2010Posts: 777Location: Loading....

Same As Sahi1 Said...coz coz everything depend's on you and her so do love before marriage or love after marriage both are same but 1 thing i said b4 depends on you and her.

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Sun Jan 24, 2010 4:02 am

pokerPak Newbie

Joined: 17 Jan 2010Posts: 28Location: dubai

love

Sun Jan 31, 2010 5:05 am

heer*Pak Newbie

Joined: 22 Apr 2010Posts: 1

Love marriage is better... And for those who think that arrange kinda marriage is more successful, should keep the fact in mind that in arranged marriages, wives compromise and only because of that, the marriage lasts. Otherwise, it would have ended much before....!!
How about marrying a person you don't love or doesn't love you?
Rest depends on luck... Some arrange marriages are successful and some love marriages... But love marriage is BETTER!

Thu Apr 22, 2010 3:58 pm

RebelPak Newbie

Joined: 19 Apr 2010Posts: 4Location: UK

Ok I'll make life easy for you guys.
One love and one arrange marriage. Everyone is happy

We have written a lot on this topic.But one thing is very clear that in our society,culture & atmosphere even if we like some1 or want to marry him or Her.It should be arranged by the families to have the Blessings.Marriage isn't just a bond between two people rather two families.To give respect to both the couple it is wise to Marry with the conscent of the both families.Islam isn't against liking or having love for some1.But it should be within the parameters of our "DEEN" & social norms.Dating,meeting,courtship etc isn't permitted by Islam & without any doubt there is a logic,rational & reasons behind it.

The issue of the marriage depends on the ruling on what came before it. If the love between the two parties did not transgress the limits set by Allaah or make them commit sin, then there is the hope that the marriage which results from this love will be more stable, because it came about as the result of the fact that each of them wanted to marry the other.