Why Good Guys Love Bad Girls

You're Falling For The Wrong Girl & What You Can Do To Snap Out Of It

I have been dating this woman for about four months now. She's awesome — sometimes. The problem is that she's not always nice to me and constantly tells me things that are insulting (when I ask, she tells me I'm not her greatest lover and she's not in love with me). Not only that, she never makes time for me and always puts her friends first, whereas I would drop everything I'm doing to be with her. Not to mention I always pay for everything whenever we do anything together.

What makes all this so horrible is the fact that I'm madly in love with her and the colder she behaves, the more I want her. She's the best lover I've ever had and she makes me feel like a king in bed. Please tell me what I can do to change her, I'm going crazy.

Sincerely,Jack

sucker born every minute

Virtually everyone has gone through what Jack is currently experiencing. Why? That's simple — individuals want what they can't have, and when that involves someone they're attracted to, it makes the game all the more enticing.

Everyone wants a challenge; unfortunately, sometimes people tend to get caught up in negative challenges. The more difficult it becomes to figure her out, the more intrigued Jack will become.

On top of that, the fact that she's slowly breaking down his ego only serves to ensure the chase. The meaner she gets, the harder you'll try to keep her happy. And don't kid yourself; she's well aware of her tactics.

she's selfish

Okay, so she's great in bed and she gives you butterflies in your stomach. But when you put things in perspective, are you upset more often than you're happy? Is she really fulfilling any of your needs (besides the lustfully sexual ones)?

Face it; she's a self-serving woman who puts herself before anyone or anything. Although it is possible that she cares about you, the fact that she treats you like a minion is a solid indication that she can take you or leave you.

Of course, chances are that she was a nice woman at one point and gave her heart to a guy who decided to stomp on it. After all, if the bad boy is resurrected in that manner, chances are that it works the same way on the other side of the spectrum as well.