Most of those times I was walking into an established team where I was expected to quickly ramp up and mesh with a group of people who already knew each other and who had been working together for a long time.

I quickly learned that trying to prove my own intelligence would not win me any friends.

8: Start a lunch book club

Not only was starting a book club fun, but it became part of my personal brand. I became known as the book guy and I'd often get asked how it was going and have people tell me they wished they could join.

(They rarely did because they couldn't manage their time) =)

9: Attend one event outside of work

I recently discovered the Chamber of Commerce.

I know, I know, they've been around for forever, but I'd always thought Chambers of Commerce were for old men who sold real estate or insurance. But since starting two businesses, I've found they're a good way to network and test ideas.

I watch tons of helpful videos on YouTube, like marketing & design videos from leaders. I’ve been watching a lot of Steve Jobs and Jony Ive…Seth Godin… They always inspire me more when I WATCH them talk, as oppose to reading…but fine, I’ll read a book.

I watch tons of helpful videos on YouTube, like marketing & design videos from leaders. I’ve been watching a lot of Steve Jobs and Jony Ive…Seth Godin… They always inspire me more when I WATCH them talk, as oppose to reading…but fine, I’ll read a book.

Great list. I’d add “Ask the more experienced people questions.” A lot of people never think to ask questions of those who have come before. Even getting a few basic answers will not only help you to gain knowledge, it will also shows your interest, both of which can really help to propel you.

Great list. I’d add “Ask the more experienced people questions.” A lot of people never think to ask questions of those who have come before. Even getting a few basic answers will not only help you to gain knowledge, it will also shows your interest, both of which can really help to propel you.

Great post. I work at a college, so things like developing new courses and participating on committees wins favor. The thing is that I’m past the point of trying to win favor, at least at this college.

Great post. I work at a college, so things like developing new courses and participating on committees wins favor. The thing is that I’m past the point of trying to win favor, at least at this college.