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June 13, 2010

In a society where authors and advice columnists are wont to advise a girl to flirt a little and bare a lot to get the man she wants, Jordan Christy's voice stands out as a voice of reason and of change. In her new book, How to Be a Hepburn in a Hilton World, she argues that each woman has both the ability and responsibility to combat the epidemic of girls who seem to be "capable of only superficial attitudes, boy-obsessed rants, and dumbed-down speech." In the introduction to the book, Christy challenges the reader: "We need to start representing a new type of It Girl-- a successful, stylish, smart girl who still maintains classic ideals and values."

Christy's advice isn't new. In fact, it's quite old-fashioned. For instance, she encourages women to let men pursue them, rather than vice versa, and she gives women advice on how to dress both modestly and stylishly. Even so, I found the book to be engaging. Christy's writing is witty and charming. She doesn't give the impression of a stern lecturer trying to force girls into out-dated, Puritanical behavior. Instead, she makes it clear that, by sharing these tidbits of wisdom about ladylike behavior, she hopes to help girls live happier and more fulfilled lives. I would highly recommend How to Be a Hepburn in a Hilton World to girls at any point in their modesty journey. For the dubious, Christy offers a rousing challenge. For the seasoned veteran of the modest lifestyle, Christy presents reassurance that, although this path is difficult, it will pay off in the end.