Jay Dub's brother has Stage 3 (actually it was upgraded to Stage 4) esophageal cancer. You might send her a PM.

I might just do that!

I had helped her contact a friend of mine who had breast cancer. It was so weird. Usuallly this friend is little miss sunshine, but when my friend called her(the one who had breast cancer) the first thing that she said was, you need to get all of your affairs in order because this will be terminal! WHAT!!!!!! She was looking for support and got that! I felt so bad putting her into contact with my friend. I have never heard anything negative come out of her mouth and all of a sudden she is telling my friend that her husband is going to die! Wowsers!