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how often...

how often do you have sex with your husband?

my husband can do it everyday all day...but it's a little too much everday...mind you i have 3 kids 9,6 and 2yrs old...and he workd nights gets home about 4am or 5am so by that time i am dead. by 6:30 i have to be up to get the older ones to school and then its all day with my 2yr old...and he goes to work at 4:30pm...

sometimes i feel like i need more time in the days to fit everyone in...but on his day off it's a different story...

we use to everyday, sometimes several times a day. until last year september, didn't know why (then), but now i know why - peri-menopause; my sex drive is all out of whack! sometimes I really want to, but most of the time i don't. i'm constantly stressed and have not drive :( I feel for him, but he often accuses me " of desiring someone else - since i don't desire him" - his words! I didn't realize how much sex could impact a relationship.