Can the pleasure hurt?

i know this sounds rediculous and it probably is but i was having sex with my gf and for the first time i lifted her legs to go deeper and she started really groaning but couldnt take it. she was stopping me going too far and in the end had to take a break. she also got cut from it. she assures me it wasnt a pain per say but was too sensitive to take. will this go over time? note that she only lost her virginity a few months ago.

I'd like to know about this too. A girl I knew had a long ex and he used to just be rough with her and fuck away with no care. But she once said she was only with him for good sex. So if she tells me in 1 story it was too rough and hurt, and then in the next she had good sex, what does that tell me? Whenever she pushes to hold me back I should carry on regardless?

It sounds like you just hit your girlfriend at the wrong angle meaning you hit something inside her. My boyfriend and I like to try sex at different angles and sometimes some angles have been known to cause me discomfort and at times, have bled. What my boyfriend does is he slows down, and sometimes he backs off on length and sometimes we stay in the same position but do some slight adjustments.

Nah I can see where he got squirting from, little fuckers clearly got hidden cams at my place!!

She says it isn't pain, and describes it as "kinda too sensitive"? Then I'd suggest some experimenting. I use the exact same lines when I'm close to a huge orgasm, about to squirt and so on, it isn't pain, far from it, and sensitive is a very basic description of the feeling. Dial it back a little but keep on going, if she really is too sensitive, you'll know about it, but if its just fear of the unknown, you'll know about that too, as will anyone in a 5 mile radius, and you'll probably need new bed sheets :wink:

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Thanks Kotchanski.

Just repeated everything I've already said but at least these haters can accept your version of the same thing I said a little easier. Children.

If she stops you saying it hurts then you just need to take it a little easier on her until her body relaxes and gets used it. Sometimes it could take a few seconds and sometimes it may take months. You need to learn to ready her body more so then listen to what she says because yes, sometimes when we say it hurts it is a good thing