Month: April 2017

Morning Word
Sometimes you just need to hear the words “Thank you”. Sometimes you just need to hear the words “I love you and I appreciate you”. Sometimes it’s not even about buying gifts, it’s about acknowledgement. It’s about taking a few minutes out of your day, to let the one you love know how much you appreciate them. Acknowledgement and appreciation are great qualities that every relationship should have. Show someone that you appreciate them, and it will inspire them to try to do even more for you.
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Morning Word
Don’t be discouraged because you haven’t met anyone suitable enough to start dating. You have to understand that how you love and the way you love, you just can’t be paired up with anyone. Don’t let being alone force you into the hands of someone who is committed to wasting your time. Don’t let being alone force you to deal with people who are not mentally and emotionally on the same level as you. It takes a diamond to recognize another diamond. As a woman, you have to wait for “The Man” that can recognize the beauty in your softness and how wonderful you can be in his life. He has to have a true understanding of the value a woman can bring. He has to be able to respect your time and more importantly respect you and all that you can offer as a loving helpmate. As a man, you have to wait on the woman who feels like your missing rib. You have to wait for “The One” who helps you breathe easier through the stress. Every woman will not be able to generate this feeling but there is definitely a woman out there tailor made for you who can. Whether you are a man or a woman, the two people I described above are definitely worth waiting for.
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Morning Word
At the end of the day, love isn’t going anywhere. There is no need to rush something that you really aren’t prepared to have. Take your time enjoying another person’s soul. Take your time laying a solid foundation. Take your time sowing a good seed. Often times we don’t have the hindsight to see how much the work that we do in the beginning will benefit each other in the long run. When you build a house, you don’t rush laying down the foundation, you take your time. Wash each other off with encouraging words as much as you can. Listen to understand instead of listening to reply. Be patient with someone as you learn more about their perspectives and how they view the world. If you take your time understanding each other and going through the process, that process will take its time making sure that the both of you do not fail. Everything you do at the beginning of a relationship, will help you mold and keep your relationship. So take your time with love, it isn’t going anywhere.
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Morning Word
It’s about having someone who is willing to walk through the hard times with you. It’s about having someone who sees all of the beauty inside of you that everyone else overlooked. The goal when it comes to love should never be about finding someone who is perfect. The goal should always be to find someone who is worth it. If you already know that you are not a finished product, why are you expecting someone else to be? Find someone who you can go through healthy progressions with without giving you a headache. Find someone who has a healthy heart. Someone who won’t allow their pains from the past to influence how they treat you. Someone family oriented building towards the future. Someone who isn’t afraid to dream too big. Someone you can have fun with but also enjoy peace and quiet with. Love is so beautiful when you know it makes sense to have a certain person in your life.
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Morning Word
At the end of the day, we just want someone we can see ourselves grow with. A good example of a future mother or father is enough for us to give you a chance. And if we already have children, we just want someone who can be the proper role model and share the right kind of influences that we already share with our children. We are not dating because we are bored. We are not dating to pass time by. We are dating with the intent of being well off for the rest of our life with someone special. And even though things didn’t work out with people in our past, some of us still believe in that forever kind of love.
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Morning Word
Sometimes your type may be the only thing that is keeping you away from someone special. Sometimes your type may be the only thing that is keeping you away from your one true love. Sometimes your type won’t possess any of the concrete core values that you need in someone to have a healthy successful relationship. The problem with sticking to a type is that you limit your chances when it comes to love. You will casually drift away from important things like, seeing if someone can fit into your life, to seeing if someone can fit into this box you have created. Don’t box in your love and then try to make every person you meet live inside that box. Be open minded to loving someone outside of your box. Be open minded to loving someone outside of what you have always looked for. Explore different horizons when it comes to love. Sometimes changing your view can be the best thing for you.
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Morning Word
Sometimes you can be so fresh out of a breakup that, every person that comes your way seems like they are the one. If they smell better than your ex, you might think that they are the one. If they sound more pleasant or sexier than your ex, you might think that they are the one. If they speak and compliment you, you’ll over sensationalize it and swear that it was a sign from God sending you your dream partner. Truth is, when you are fresh out of a breakup, everybody seems like a better option when you are trying to blunt out or run away from the pain. Anybody that brings a smile to your face, feels better than the last person that brought pain to your heart. You can’t skip the healing process of getting over someone. You can’t rush the healing process of moving on from the past. The process is the process because it takes your emotions time working that person and your connections to them out of your system. Be patient getting someone out of your system so you can grow, heal and move on without looking back. It will benefit you more in the long run if you do.
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Morning Word
I know starting over can be scary. For some of us, closing unhealthy chapters with certain people can be quite of a challenge. But my question to you is, what is having peace of mind worth to you? Keeping yourself unnecessarily attached to drama is not good for you. Entertaining someone day in and day out who isn’t committed to your growth and happiness will eventually drain you. There is a whole world out there waiting for you to make beautiful memories in. Today, start taking steps towards regaining your happiness again. Start making plans to cut ties with people who aren’t helpful with guiding you towards becoming a greater human being. Sometimes the only reason why your situation hasn’t changed in a positive way is because you have not changed the negative people that you keep yourself around. IG@woodtheinspiration

Morning Word
The reason why most people are single today is, they understand that they just can’t invite anyone to be a part of their life. Most single people understand the importance of protecting their good energy. Most single people understand the last thing that they need, is someone coming into their life and being a distraction instead of being a blessing. Most single people don’t fear being in a relationship, they just fear being with someone who doesn’t value a relationship like they do. Life is hard. And the last thing a person with a good heart needs, is for someone else to come into their life and make it even more harder. IG@woodtheinspiration