Sally: I don’t know if I’m crazy

My boyfriend called me a 'crazy bitch' — do you think this is a reaction to me really being crazy, or is this relationship making me crazy?

The problem
My boyfriend and I are facing questions about marriage and kids, but I am
really starting to doubt if we are compatible. I began a job working alone,
became isolated and depressed, and was signed off work. He brushed it off as
an overreaction by the doctor. I feel I am always there for him, but he
gives me no emotional support and ridicules me in front of friends and
family. We split all the bills, but I do 95% of the housework, about which
we argue constantly. Sex is infrequent. He doesn’t like kissing me and I
feel quite unattractive around him.

I’ve started to feel as I did when I was off sick: irrational, angry, crying
constantly and feeling emotionally trapped. He called me a “crazy bitch” —
do you think this is a reaction to me really being crazy, or is this
relationship making me crazy?