Hey guys i need some help from you lads, i have a friend a work and since we first met we have been good friends always having a laugh and some banter between us both, he is straight and he knows am gay,but since we have been friends his always told me how big his dick is and how much he'd give it to me and that, and showing his dick to me and being rude/crude/banter i do kinda fancy him but wouldn't do anything because well i thought his straight, but more and more lately his been doing it more, like today he was like " alright big boy how are you?" guess what i did today i was in the shower trimming my pubes when i thought id shave them all off! so now am bold" he said look and showed his shaven pubes, he was like it feels so soft and kept putting his hand down his shorts feeling it, he was like i dunno what my gf will think i was like have you told her, he was like no am just gonna get her hand and put it down my boxers and let her feel, i was like (jokingly) ah let me do that and i'll tell you, and he was like no hahah, then got his pubic area out and was like here feel how smooth it is, so yes i touched it and quiet liked it, anyway after a little more chatting and banter he was like ive gotta go mate chat to you later hot stuff, so he went and i told another friend who i work with what happened, and she was like his always flirting with you he doesn't do it to anyone else (male) flirts with girls tho, she was like i think his bi or fancys/wants you, she has seen and herd all the other simular stuff to this, but she isnt the only other person to say this, now its got me thinking is he i do get a (gaydar) vibe from him like he might be, but i really dunno what to do, because i don't wanna right out ask him when he has a gf and he might be straight, but id also love if he did want to do something do it, but without is ruining our friendship, so other lads who have been in either mine or his situation what should i do? all help welcome thanks in advance cheers

For what it's worth I think he play flirts with you because he is a mate and holds you up as one too, there is enough cock in the world for you without ruining a friendship for a grope or come on which will most likely not be wanted. He likely does not play flirt with other guys because they are straight!

As a former "straight" guy who is now bi, I can say that he wants attention and likes that intimate connection with another guy and probably has some attraction to men. I would not push it but would flirt with him. If you want to hook up with him, you could say something like "well that does look soft and good. I like it like that" and see where it goes. But just don't push too hard as it may freak him out if he's not ready. Just flirt until he's comfortable with himself.

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Yeah, he's maybe just really comfortable with you. Wouldn't hurt to flirt back.If something comes out of it, it comes out. But don't jump into conclusions too fast. I have straight friends who are very affectionate with me and its more so them showing their comfortability and acceptance with me, or sometimes them just playing around.