Don’t use the future “I will” tense, or the subconscious will always keep your goal in the future. Use the present tense, as if it’s happening now. Say something such as “I mingle with others and make good friends” or “I am mingling with others and am making good friends.” This gives your subconscious mind the instruction and image of what you expect. Even if it’s not taking place at this minute, the instruction is telling your subconscious what you expect in your life.