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Thursday, March 31, 2016

By Jennifer Elizabeth Masters

Excerpt From Orgasm For LifeThe way we communicate with others and with ourselves ultimately determines the quality of our lives. ~ Anthony Robbins

Round Peg in A Square Hole

Men and women have had the natural desire to join together for physical pleasure since the dawn of creation. The exquisite male and female bodies were created to fit beautifully together in sacred union. A man’s erect penis was created to fit perfectly into the soft round opening of the woman’s vagina.

Both men and women secreted mucous-like substances that were slippery to the touch. This substance acted as a lubricant for their bodies to fit together seamlessly like oil lubricates pistons of an engine. These exquisite puzzle pieces were meant to couple like bacon and eggs or beans and wienies. We were created for pleasure, not just to maintain our species. If a sexual union was not meant to keep a couple closely connected, we would only have physical desires when the female form was ripe for conception.

Men and woman were created differently, yet fit together so perfectly. Men need sex for intimacy. Women need intimacy to have sex. Women’s need for intimacy prior to sex can be a problem for men who have had their needs stifled. Often what occurs is what I call a Mexican standoff.

Mexican Standoff

Sexual desire is a perfectly natural, healthy, harmonious experience. We were created to come together for unification in sexual expression by experiencing bliss without remorse, guilt or shame. As a matter of fact, if we are not (having regular sex) we’re not fully expressing ourselves in our natural or true state. Sexual desire is as natural a human need as is our thirst for water.

Historically a Mexican standoff was a confrontation with three opponents. Each one armed with a gun. The first to shoot is at an obvious disadvantage. If he shoots first, the second person will shoot him. So all three stand there waiting to see who will make the first move. No one wants to go first in relationship standoffs. No one wins in this scenario.

Women refuse to be intimate until their man becomes intimate (opening up). Many men often refuse to be intimate until he gets off, preferring to orgasm quickly without concern for his female partner. Only the man wins in this scenario while the woman remains unfulfilled and angry, as usual. At least, this gives us something concrete to complain to our friends. Women often bond with one another by complaining about their bed partners.

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Sex Is The Glue

Sex is the glue that can hold a relationship together. Do you want to be a better lover while keeping your woman interested in you? Want to increase the sizzle to create more happiness, pleasure, and love in all areas of your life? Are you a woman who has had sexual trauma, but never had an orgasm? Are you wondering how to stimulate yourself to a really big “O?”

Men, do you wonder how to romance your woman? Are you wondering how to get her over the orgasm hump so that she can have multiples, or maybe just one? Want to know all his erogenous zones to drive him wild? Most women think that there is only one, his penis! There are more erogenous zones than just his Johnson!

Or are you wondering how to give him the best blowjob ever? Do you want to learn how to give your woman the best oral sex and love-making experience ever? Do you have questions about your G-spot, the A-spot, or how to stimulate it or where to find it? Does it squirt? Are you wondering how to put back the “Ooooh” back in oral? Join me in a state of bliss. Come along with me!

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Orgasm for Lifewas written to help change the way men and women think about sex. When women can experience orgasms, they step into their power, becoming their Goddess selves.Without expressing all that they are as a woman, their life experience is diminished. I would like men to put themselves in the shoes or lingerie of their partner.

Could you imagine having sex once, a week, twice a week or more and only getting the RMPs up to about 2,500. What if your engine never reached full power? What if you only revved up to 1,500 RPMS? How would you feel then? That is what over 40% of the women worldwide feel like all the time. They may get wet; they may get aroused, but they never make it to Disney Land! Just because a woman is wet, does not mean she is ready to go.

Speaking of partners, strangely lesbians are not any better at pleasuring their partners than men are. If women don’t know how to please another woman, how do we heterosexual women expect a man to be able to please us? We have to learn about our bodies and what we like. We have to experiment with different types of touch. We need to try new things. We need to touch ourselves to find out what feels good. Doing the same thing over and over will not give you different results. That is just crazy thinking.

Are you wondering how to spice up a humdrum sex life? Do you ever consider using fantasies or role playing? Do you wonder if that constitutes cheating? Could you even bring up the subject? Leaving this book in the bathroom, with pages highlighted, or corners dog-eared may be enough to ignite some passion for you and your partner. How about reading the “how to” sections together? I seriously considered laminating the pages to make them more user-friendly. A sponge-and-go book, if you will! Perhaps I’ll offer a waterproof version for my second edition.

The purpose of this book is to assist you to improve your communication and increase passion, compassion, tenderness, understanding, and kindness. When there is a greater understanding of each other’s needs both will reach bliss and ecstasy with regularity. Through regular blissful sexual exchanges relationships open and flower. The love between partners becomes deeper and more meaningful. It is my desire to assist you to build intimacy through authenticity, and become a better lover in the process.

Orgasm for Life bridges the gap of connectivity between the sexes. In so doing, each person gains the ability to understand while giving their partner what it is they want. When communication is improved outside the bedroom, we can be more open inside the bedroom. Then, each person can express themselves more completely with profound growth towards spiritual, sexual union.

If men could understand that living in a non-orgasmic state is like shutting down half of your brain and a third of your body, can you imagine what life would be like if only half of your brain cells fired? What if you never had an orgasm, ever? You would then understand the mounting frustration and resentment that is present in more than 40% of the female population. It is a wonder that more crimes of passion are not performed by unfulfilled women. And men talk about your blue balls!

Everyone has different motivations for sex. Some people want to show their partner how much they are loved. Others have sex to feel healthy, vigorous or alive. Many men have sex to relieve pressure. While others are having sex simply to get off. Whatever your motivation, are you ready to make breath-taking sex a priority in your relationship?

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Tuesday, March 29, 2016

I have just returned from San Jose and a powerful three-day retreat with 700 of my closest friends: healers and entrepreneurs. We committed to growing and shed our crap. I cried, I resisted, and I shifted my perspective in so many ways.

When we are open to receive new perspectives, opportunities present themselves. I even posed for photos with an Iowa farm league hockey team! I have stepped up my game and opened my heart a little more. Opening my heart further is allowing me to be more vulnerable with my clients and in my writing. We will get back to my Orgasm For Life Book tomorrow.

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Being vulnerable means that we allow others to see us authentically. When we are vulnerable, we become more open to expressing our deepest truth. Opening the door of my heart is allowing me to reveal all that has changed in my perspective through a willingness to look at my shit! One of the issues I looked at this past weekend is my fear of men leaving me by dying.

If a past event has been traumatic, we often hold that trauma in our cells without realizing it. The emotions of horror, terror, and fear stay within our cells. Consciously releasing trapped emotions from our bodies shifts the energy we emit. We attract what we are.

After enjoying our second date at the beach, we said our good-byes in the parking lot. As he got into his vehicle, I turned toward my car thinking briefly, "I wonder if I'll see him again?" The thought passed through me quickly. I didn't recognize the emotion that powered the thought. With a very slight turn of my head to the left, I felt a CRUNCH! My shoulder and neck seized up and was completely frozen. I was in immediate physical pain. The physical manifestation of my emotions = PAIN! I knew I had created it. I had to pay attention to see what this was about for me.

My unconscious belief that all men die or leave was coming up with a vengeance. I have had two men die and three cheated. One event could leave someone scarred. Two deaths and three cheaters left me feeling untrusting of myself when it comes to choosing men. I listen carefully and watch to see if actions align. When words and actions are not congruent, it is a big sign that they aren't honest. The man I am dating had very similar core values to mine. He is authentic, honest and vulnerable.

I felt that my past experiences led to me being insecure in ways I hadn't been before. I had to step into the void and take a risk. If I didn't, I knew there wasn't a chance of finding love.

My shoulder and neck seizing up immediately after my date left were a sign I was beginning to feel something, and it scared the heck out of my body! Shoulders are all about our ability to carry out our experiences joyously. Neck problems are about refusing to see other sides of a question. Stubbornness and inflexibility are both issues related to the neck. Who me? Who's calling me stubborn? I thought I was pretty flexible. Maybe my body knows differently.

My shoulder began to heal while in San Jose. As I approached our third date, I noticed my shoulder was getting tighter and more painful. My body was telling me about my unconscious beliefs. Each time we were getting together, my shoulder seized up. Four times is a charm, right? I had fear stuck in my bodyfrom thedeath of these two

men. I found a man who was lovely, spiritual, kind, mindful, gentle, strong and tall. There was great potential here. Our age difference was my issue not his. I was afraid he would leave me or die. I am currently clearing this trapped emotion from my cells. Recognizing the problem is the first step. Awareness shifts everything.

3 Ways We Turn Love Away

Thinking you will never find anyone that will accept you.

Thinking you aren't good enough, young enough, pretty enough. ENOUGH! YOU ARE ENOUGH!

Making false judgments about what other peoplethink about you. Oh yes, you do! We believe others are having certain thoughts about us: "You think I'm too old for you. You think I'm too fat! You think I'm not your type." Making a false assumption ruins our chances at finding lasting love. Assuming is a form of self-sabotage.

To be completely honest with you, I began dating a delightful man 17 years my junior. I talked about the elephant in the room on our first date. He said he was fine with it. I brought it up on our second date. He said, "I think you are beautiful!" He went on to say he found me to be a hottie. I had to recognize that my feelings were my feelings. I was projecting my insecurity (yes, I felt insecure about our age difference) on him. It was false. I have let it go! Own your crap and get out of your way!

FEAR: FALSE BELIEFS APPEARING REAL

Don't blame someone else for what you feel about you. In answer to your burning question: yes, we are still dating. We aren't rushing anything; we are allowing a friendship to grow and are building a foundation from the ground up. Sex too soon places the emphasis on the physical and diminishes a connection on a soul level. It can also show a lack

of respect for each other and creates a false impression of trust. How can you have trust when you don't know the other person? Trust is built in small increments a little at a time. Once you trust each other, an opening occurs, then love-making becomes soulful, reverent and sacred. That is what I want. What do you want?

We All Have Issues

When we commit to grow and evolve, we turn our reflection inward toward ourselves. Resistance to notice what is going on inside ourselves causes us to blame others for our circumstances even our unhappiness. If we aren't growing and evolving, we are dying.

How Can You Lovingly Accept All Of You?

Everyone has shadow selves. Our shadow self is the darkest parts of ourselves we would rather ignore. It could be old behavior, hoarding, blame, not accepting responsibility or emotions we haven't dealt with and released. Turning our focus inward and looking at ourselves with a soft focus is what my work is all about. When we look at our dark side, we shed light on it. With light and awareness, we begin to shift. We let go of old beliefs. We can be open to healing modalities to release energy and allow our truest version of ourselves to emerge:

Drop the baseball bat. Stop beating the crap out of yourself.

Let go of the magnifying glass. Focusing on your faults and flaws makes them bigger. Instead, lovingly accept ALL OF YOU!Focusing on your flaws isn't helping you; it is hurting you. See the good in you!

Soften your gaze. Look at yourself with eyes of love. Treat yourself as if you are your lover.

Everything happens for a reason. Let go of the past. It served you well. It brought you to this place. It taught you a lesson. It made you who you are. It gave you a book or two to write.

Be grateful for everything you have. Gratitude for the lessons, the pain, the sorrow, and the suffering is a way to accept yourself lovingly.

Let go. Holding onto old hurts makes us sick. If you can't let go on your own, hire a loving coach that has been where you are. We can't do this alone. It took me 30 years of searching, healing and deep introspection to become happy with me as I am - alone or with a partner. I can shorten the time it takes to get you there because I have been where you are. I know what works and what doesn't.

What You Are At Your Core

The soul essence of each and every individual on this planet is LOVE. Yes, my friends, everyone has love at their core. Our life circumstances, hurt, fears, anxiety all load us up with a pile of crap that doesn't serve us and bogs us down. I would love to partner with you to empower you to find the love within so that you too can live each day in harmony, happiness and love!

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Aphrodite Effect is all about the effect of LOVE on all that we do. Venus was the Greek Goddess of love. She was an ageless beauty, powerful, strong, respected, sexual and knew who she was. She loved herself

Sometimes it is the simplest of things that brings two people together. Holding hands with entwined fingers bringing palms together is special and innocent. Hand-holding can occur with a child, your mother, a friend, or a partner. A scientific study supports the theory that holding the hand of a loved one during times of stress helps us cope.

Safety. Holding a chid's hand makes them feel safe. Holding another adults' hand also generates the feeling of safety.

Helps us cope. Situations become easier when we are holding the hand of someone who cares for us.

Helps us withstand pain. The Lending Hand Study tested married women with shock therapy holding the hand of their husband, someone they knew and a complete stranger. Holding the hand of their husband the brain didn't work as hard as holding the hand of a stranger. They could withstand more pain holding their husband's hand especially if their marriage was rock solid.

It's a form of comfort. Holding hands with someone when they are grieving provides comfort. Emotional grief is easier to bear when holding the hand of a person who cares.

A rush of powerful hormones. Clasping hands together with a partner releases oxytocin allowing bonding to occur. Oxytocin is the cuddle or God hormone that floods the body during sex, nursing and allows a mother to bond with her child. Oxytocin is a powerful hormone that can create heart flutters when palms are touching and fingers are interlaced together. A simple gesture, yet so symbolic of the joining of two energy fields. The palms of the hand contain a little talked about chakra. Energy workers recognize the giving and receiving centers in each palm (left is the receiving hand, right the sending).

Connection. We like to feel connected. Our mothers were the first to hold our hands after birth, then when crossing the road. Bonding with our mothers helps us to When two palms are pressed together chakras meet, the etheric fields are entwined.

Bonding. Holding hands with another creates a sense of a bond. There is nothing sweeter than a man wanting to hold hands with you while walking, or seated on a couch watching a movie together.

Pressure relieves pain. Putting pressure between the thumb and forefinger relieves anxiety, headaches and decreases dental pain. Don't underestimate the power of a gentle hand squeeze!

Morphogenic Field Connection.Each person has an energy field or aura. Together two people from a morphogenic field. Connecting hands strengthen this field.

Hand holding makes a statement. It says something about the bond between two people. Holding hands in public demonstrates a connection between a couple.

It's comfortable. When you are walking next to someone with your arms hanging by your sides it can feel awkward. Reaching for and holding the person's hands can feel far more comfortable than walking awkwardly side-by-side not touching.

It can be sexy. Having someone take charge and grab your hand can feel secure. For some people who like to be dominated a strong hand in yours squeezing, letting you know they are right there with you and in control can be quite a turn on.

Reminiscent of childhood. Having someone hold our hand takes us back to our younger days when our mother or other

family member cared enough to take our hand for any number of loving reasons.

Rushing A Relationship

Attempting to establish a relationship where there are no commonalities or mutual core values can mean that you spend energy and time trying to make something work that doesn't have much chance of going the distance. You may find after the blush of newness wears off you don't even like your partner. Rushing into sex on the first date, or even the second date doesn't give you the opportunity to enjoy and appreciate the preciousness of each moment. Your first kiss, the first hug or holding hands can be glossed over, rather than highlighted and enjoyed.

Love grows slowly. As we get to know someone we become comfortable with them. Ease replaces awkwardness and friendship provides the foundation for longevity. Too often sex becomes the foundation which provides unsteady ground for the challenges of life. When we are sexually intimate and don't know one another there is a false sense of trust and bonding without understanding or even knowing the other person.

Sex is the glue not the foundation of a relationship. Attempting to build a relationship on sex there is little to look forward to. When you have done it all right out of the gate, the anticipation and wondering ends. Practicing mindfulness while dating can net you a conscious, awakened experience where each moment is brand new and savored. Each experience with your newfound partner brings a rush of adrenaline and heart flutters. Holding hands give you many opportunities to exchange energy and love with an air of innocence making each moment more special. You are special. Recognize the value of you. Savor each moment with respect for each other and healthy boundaries.

Jennifer healed her own co-dependency and self-esteem issues over thirty years of self-reflection, hypnotherapy, energy clearing and inner focus. She now empowers women and their men to love themselves fearlessly, letting go in the process of anxiety, worry, low self-esteem, negativity mind chatter and lack consciousness. Building confidence, becoming happy, finding purpose and living in the moment are just some of what you will accomplish while working with Jennifer.

Schedule a 30-minute discovery session now to step into a life you love to live, the more you love you, the able you are to receive love from others. Relationships become easier, life becomes a joy. The key to happiness is self-love which begins and ends with you. Why not begin your journey into love and happiness with someone who lives and breathes love and happiness now!

Monday, March 28, 2016

When it comes to love, there are no rules for who you fall in love with. We all have ideas of who we "should" have as our partner. Society has rules for what is accepted and what is not. Coupling with another within five years of your age is the accepted norm. What if you meet someone much younger than yourself and find a connection? What then? What if expanding your horizons and including a larger date range on your profile brings you a man fifteen years younger than you?

We have heard hundreds of stories about men in May-December romances easily accepted by society. In fact, men are touted as being studs for attaining a beautiful woman much younger than themselves. It takes a strong woman that recognizes her value and can put aside any insecurities about aging to date a much younger man.

Many women today are more vibrantly alive and fit than men 20 years their junior. We fall in love with the person, not their age. Women outlive their men by an average of five years. Many men in their 50's and 60's have health issues. Our judgments about what is right or wrong for us can get in our way. We might even wonder, "What will people think?"

There have been great love stories in history where an older powerful woman fell in love with a man fifteen years younger than herself. The story of Kadijah and the Prophet Muhammad is one such story. Kadijah was 40 and Muhammad was 25 when they met and fell in love. Other May-December loves are Hugh Jackman and his wife Deborah-Lee Furness have been married for 16 years and have a 13 year age gap. Hugh says, "I have a career, but Deb and my children are who I live for." Susan Sarandon and Tim Hutton had a 20-year union with a 12 year age gap. Megan Mullaly and Nick Offerman met when Megan was 42, Nick was 30. Twelve years, two dogs and a rock solid marriage Nick has said, "If I ever got botox he would divorce me."

We Have To Get Out Of Our Own Way

Love knows no bounds. Love isn't dependent on age or race. We fal in love with another's soul essence and qualities. When we focus on our age we limit ourselves. We also limit what The Universe can bring us. Finding someone who's beliefs match ours, who is kind, patient, loving and compassionate is much more important than a person's age.

Focus On Your Value

If we focus on how old we are rather than how we feel, we limit ourselves. If we focus on how many wrinkles we have, rather than what we have to offer, we limit ourselves. Women are beautiful until they stop taking care of themselves and that can happen at any age. Age doesn't determine how we take care of ourselves.

Our internal essence is what matters the most. As we age we become more loving, accepting and mindful. We have wisdom, compassion and internal beauty as well. The way we love ourselves is reflected in our outer world. Internal beauty lasts forever. Kindness lasts forever. Age has nothing to do with your soul qualities and your value.

We may notice our differences when we look in our mirror. When we love ourselves fearlessly age means nothing. We are confident in who we are. Confidence and authenticity are important parts of a healthy relationship. When we show up already full of love, we are no longer looking for another to complete us. We have much more to give when we are loving, confident and self-accepting.The sweeter we are the more accepting of ourselves we are the softer those wrinkles become. Everyone ages, we just need to move beyond worrying about how many wrinkles we have and know that who we are is valueable, loving and kind. Those are the qualities

that shine through in a relationship with a younger man. Women who can be authentic, vulnerable, spiritually grounded and confident can be much more meaningful to a younger man who is looking for a woman who has her life together and is not about to play games.

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Aphrodite Effect is all about the effect of LOVE on all that we do. Venus was the Greek Goddess of love. She was an ageless beauty, powerful, strong, respected, sexual and knew who she was. She loved herself

About Me

Born in Toronto, Ontario and a graduate of Emery Collegiate Institute, manifested her dream job at 19 as a flight attendant for Air Canada. From the age of 16 Jennifer knew that life had more to offer than merely existing. Jennifer is free of the ego mind, happy in the moment and able to see past the suffering and pain in each experience to the gift. She is a gypsy at heart and has traveled much of the world as a student of life. She has lived in Montreal, Gaithersburg, Maryland, London, England, Atlanta, Georgia, Boulder, Colorado and now lives in the Mojave desert in California.

Jennifer has three children, ages 32, 29 and 17. She is a certified transformational Life and Sex coach, teacher of Metaphysics, hynotherapist, Medium, psychic and reads the Akashic Records. Jennifer is a catalyst for healing. People often begin to cry just from a word, or touch from Jennifer as she allows people's blocked emotions to surface. She has travelled to India and Bali to study with masters and teachers.

Her first book, Odyssey Victim to Victory is available on Amazon.com. Her second book, Orgasm For Life, a no holds-barred guide to BLISS. Although men and women are wired differently, we want the same things, to love, be loved and be happy. Relationships can bring us great joy, but they can cause us great pain. Building trust through authenticity, transparency and honest couples can have more meaningful sex with greater passion. Love is the foundation, but sex is the glue that helps to deepen intimacy and connection between a loving couple.

Her first radio show, INTO THE MYSTIC, a journey of self empowerment and self awareness, was on Voice America.

A Georgia Master Gardener and Landscape professional, For Heaven Scapes, Ltd, owned and operated by Jennifer for 11 years gave Jennifer tremendous joy and enlivened a passion for the earth and all its creatures.