Katrina Wright: Seeking gifts that truly keep on giving

Question: I don't have any children, but I have several friends who do. I would like to start a tradition of getting their kids Christmas gifts, but instead of toys that will get broken or ignored over time, I would like to give them something with some meaning. Something that will mean more to them as they get older. Any ideas?

— Blessed to Give

Dear Blessed to Give: Although children normally have plenty of "wants" on their Christmas lists, over time, many of those items will lose their sparkle, get broken or be passed on to others. A gift that gives to a child all year long or will grow with them is invaluable.

Before you start your giving tradition, be sure to discuss your ideas with your friends to get their blessing and see if they have any ideas of their own. Here are some to get you started:

Ornaments. Both of our children have their own ornament boxes. Every year, the kids enjoy helping to decorate the Christmas tree with ornaments given to them by friends and family. Make sure to label the ornaments with the date and who it is from to make special memories for the future. When the kids grow up and leave the home, they will have an ornament collection to take with them.

Books. Encourage a love for reading and learning by giving good, age-appropriate books to the children of your friends. Jot a little note on the inside cover to each child along with the date. If the opportunity arises, read the books to the children to make the stories even more special.

Family memberships. Local museums and zoos across the country offer yearly memberships that allow families free admission throughout the year. In addition, most memberships also include other benefits such as discounts on special events, camps, classes and even admission to other venues.

Events and activities. Purchase tickets for a sporting event or special performance. Chip in with the children's parents for dance or music lessons. Help buy their sports gear. Any of those items will enhance the children's lives now and in the future, and even could help your friends financially.

Saving bonds. Although these usually require a small initial investment, they mature to a larger amount at a set time. For more information, visit www.savingsbonds.gov.

Katrina Wright of Abilene is a stay-at-home mom with two children. Email her your questions about parenting, saving your household money, and other home and family topics at writetokatrina@yahoo.com.