Dear Dish-It, The Boys That Ask Me Out Are Ugly

Dear Dish-It, is here to whisper "ttyl after I've thought about this some more".

Dear Dish-It,

I've never had a boyfriend before. Three guys have asked me out before but they were all U-G-L-Y. What should I do? I'm too scared to ask someone out myself. confused

Dear confused,

Slow down girl! You're still young - way too young to be stressin' about snaggin' a guy. If no one who's asked you out so far interests you, wait until you meet someone who does. I know that it can be weird when everyone but you seems to be hooking up with someone but believe me, it's not as horrible as it seems. The last thing you want to do is to go out with some doofus you really hate, just so you can say you've got a BF. What's wrong with chillin' with your friends, getting involved with extra-curricular activities or volunteering someplace like your local food bank? All of these activities will be far more rewarding and before you know it, you'll have met a super-cool dude who you have a ton of things in common with. Hang in there!

Dear Dish-It In The Forums

1: A. It'd be rude to neglect her; I'm also a nerd, though, so no big deal at all.
2: A. I'm shy anyways, and most of the popular gals at my school are repulsive with how narcissistic they are o.o
3: Uh, my friends wouldn't bully a random second grader girl, but if they were, I'd tell them to stop. She's just a second grader, and she doesn't need to have real low self-esteem already, or ever! I do notice younger children tend to be way more sensitive than older ones, so I'd make sure she's okay afterwards. That'd be so sad if a second grader really was being bullied tho ;-;

"SmartSunnyShadow" wrote:Okay, thanks but will anyone else help me???
If they're as good friends as you're making them out to be then I'm sure they'll forgive and forget. Try not to over think the situation.

In the part where you said they started bullying you... what were some of the things they specifically said?
If they were just calling you insensitive or racist, tell them it was an accident. You can apologize about the racist comment. If you show you really are sad about it, they'll know you mean it.
I hope everything goes well and gets better ^-^