I like Amelia but his sister has a baby Amelie, so that's out. I actually quite like Eve, not keen on Fay or Violet and Natalie's actually his sister's name, so that's totally out! Thanks for the suggestions though, I'm glad you think we should be able to find common ground as it doesn't feel like that at the moment!

I'd be happy to use one of his names as a middle name, where it's not used as often, but he's being stubborn about it. Men, eh?

I'm glad at least Eve could potentially work! I also just thought of Julia - again, lovely and timeless but currently pretty popular. I'll post again if anything else comes to mind - you can always find common ground if you try, I promise. My husband and I really struggled, particularly with the second of our three, but it worked out.