Monthly Archives: September 2014

I don’t know where this year has gone. It’s been a busy but life changing year for both Alex and myself.

As some of you may be aware we took a trip of a lifetime in June and spent 15 glorious days touring Western Canada. A trip we will remember for years to come for many reasons including returning to have to face the heart wrenching decision to have the cat we shared our lives with for 11 years put to sleep.

On the up side we adopted another cat from the RSPCA, this time a kitten. Our previous cats had been 7 and 1 respectfully. This time we were going to be parents to a kitten of just 12 weeks. And oh how those weeks have flown by as he is now over 5 months old.

He’s not allowed out in to the big wide world until he is 6 months old, as advised by the RSPCA so we will have to place him in the cattery next month when we go on our annual trip to Hannover.

Yes, it’s eroFame time! And it doesn’t seem to have been a year since our last trip in some ways but in others it does.

But, yes we are both looking forward to meeting up with trade colleagues and also meeting some new ones. The event is the largest in Europe and attracts companies from around the globe, which makes it an excellent event for those wishing to find new clients.

As usual I will be posting here on the day’s events over the three days of the show, so watch this space for updates. Oh, the show starts on the 8th October, so not long to go.

In 1921 the actor Rodolfo Alfonso Raffaello Pierre Filibert Guglielmi di Valentina d’Antonguolla, or has he’s more commonly known, Rudolph Valentino starred in a film called the Sheik and in doing so made millions of women weak at the knees and probably wet around the gusset. Causing unseemly thoughts among the fairer sex and probably a few marital problems as women found an outlet for their sexual fantasies in the movie theatres of the day Valentino proved two things with his portrayal of the sultry, masterful Sheik Ahmed Ben Hassan; First that women had fantasies as well as men and that those fantasies were not just limited to their husband.

Far from it in fact. Valentino’s popularity came from his character’s mystery and exotic nature. Off-screen the mystique of the infinitely desirable actor continued long after his premature death at the age of 31 in 1926 from pleurisy following a collapse caused by appendicitis and gastric ulcers. Not the ending he would have perhaps written for himself but certainly one that created a great outpouring of grief and ensured his legend endured, dying as he did at the height of his popularity.

But this post isn’t about Valentino as such, he simply illustrates that we all, male or female have an appetite for exotic fantasies. It’s escapism and a while they may not always be entirely sexual in nature our fantasies are by their nature built from desires that are often outside our actual experience and represent the aspirations that we perceive capable of delivering us the most pleasure. Whether they would or not is irrelevant especially because fantasies by their nature most often are never fulfilled and the pleasure they provide doesn’t necessarily derive from an ultimate fulfilment of a specific fantasy.

So why am I writing this post? Well this is a sex blog and to be frank I’d like to know if any of our readers have any fantasies about exotic lovers that remain unfulfilled after many years of bubbling quietly under the surface … or even have been fulfilled; Was the real experience as good as the fantasy?

I remember writing a post ages ago about decorating one summer, with Suze in her overalls with not much underneath. One thing led to another, you can fill in the blanks. Well you’ll have to because I can’t find the post. Maybe it was deleted when we had a DB corruption last year. Anyway, if I get time I’ll dig out the original word processor document and repost it when I can.

If you’re a regular reader of AlexSuze.com you can’t have helped but notice that over the past few months we’ve been conspicuous by our absence in the posting department. Now this is unusual for us because we are usually pretty prolific and the main reason for us not posting on here is if we have work to do elsewhere, which luckily for us is quite often. That can be on SexToysBuzz.com or for other publications and non-adult customers. However this year it has been due to some significant changes to our lives that were outside our control.

At the risk of sounding like one of those “we’re still here” posts that we so often see when bloggers burn out and disappear I have to reassure you all that we are still around just working on different things at the moment.

Things are settling back down now so normal service should be resumed pretty soon.