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IF you have the desire to learn more about the Master/slave lifestyle OR you are have desires to serve a Master OR you want to learn more about owning a consensual slave THEN you are at the right place. It is a gradual journey you take together with mutual understanding, communication, agreement and growth. I get many emails from submissives that want their partner to be dominant and in the lifestyle and from dominants that want their partner to be a submissive in the lifestyle. If you started the relationship vanilla (without bdsm) then it may remain that way because you can’t change the parters mind or make that decision for them.

The terms safe, sane and consensual are the cornerstones of safely practicing this lifestyle. slave training website is intended to be a relationship based on trust between consenting adult. Yes, you can discuss it with them and see if they are willing to try it but you can’t force it on them. Many, many times the answer is no the partner does not want to live a bdsm lifestyle.

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It has been long understood by those engaging in BDSM that it must be sane, safe and consensual. Anything else is abuse and not what this website is about. In that case, you have to honor the partners wishes and remain vanilla or find a new partner. Even if your partner has a dominant personality that does not mean he wants to by your bdsm lifestyle dominant.