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If my spouse is perfectly healthy, then I would take it as he is no longer attracted to or in love with me and I wouldn't want to stay in a loveless marriage.

by Anonymous 18
on Nov. 21, 2012 at 10:49 AM

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Sex is NOT "everything". My goodness- just ask the thrill seekers, the motocross dudes, the rock climbers, the surfers, base jumpers, what would YOU rather give up? LOL ask a fattie- sex or food? Choose? My house is on those would choose food!

Music! Art, culture, literature... travel, expanding your mind, do you think einstein or Steven Hawkins thought life would not be worth living without sex???????????????????

I listened to an interview with a most favorite musician and he did bring up that music was "everything" to him...and it made it hard on his marriage- he actually said- love is great, sex is fine- but what is that- you spend a half hour to an hour on it, it is messy... then it's over.. why, we all sit around ALL NIGHT jamming.. that's where it's at!

If you want to leave over sex, you should examine everything.... you probably have NO relationship with your partner, no real connection.

LOTS of men can't have sex anymore due to things like diabetes, who knows what else- you don't see a wife who loves them leaving for that reason!!!!!!!!!

And mankind invented batteries!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!(BEG) Love him, take care of yourself. Find the emotional and spiritual connection with him- IF there is no physical problem or emotional trauma there, you just MIGHT find sex is there!!!

by Anonymous 19
on Nov. 21, 2012 at 10:50 AM

Probably forever, if everything else was good. I can do sex by myself.

I feel the same! Its about a personal passionate love connection ya know? Its not "Just sex" to me, its more than that.

Quoting Anonymous:

We have had sex maybe 10 times or so in the past two years.

If it doesn't change, I will leave.

I've tried everything, seduction, communication and he says he still wants me but gives me all these excuses. I know he's not cheating.

I just I have to have that intimacy. Once a week I'd be happy.

by Anonymous 19
on Nov. 21, 2012 at 10:52 AM

Quoting Anonymous:

Sex is NOT "everything". My goodness- just ask the thrill seekers, the motocross dudes, the rock climbers, the surfers, base jumpers, what would YOU rather give up? LOL ask a fattie- sex or food? Choose? My house is on those would choose food!

Music! Art, culture, literature... travel, expanding your mind, do you think einstein or Steven Hawkins thought life would not be worth living without sex???????????????????

Go read up on Einstein. The man was a SLUT. Cheated on all of his wives and wrote blisteringly graphic love letters to women. He was a rock star at the time and he loved his groupies.

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