How far would you go on a 1st date?

do you guys have any rules on that? Or do you just go with the flow? I would be up for a 1st/2nd base type thing, but I'd prob wait on anything more until I get to know the guy really well. Your thoughts?

Usually 2nd or 3rd base on the first date. If I could get the chick's bra off easily for some good tit sucking... if she is breathing hot and heavy and then I could go for the panties next and get some stinky pinky....

If i like someone, chances are i wont fuck them on the first day, maybe fool around. If im completely not interested in someone, and they are cute enough, ill have sex with them. If i didnt get anything mentally from the date, i might as well get my rocks off.

guess i'm more of the old-fashioned type. I'm all about the physcial, but I want to be sure I like him first...definitely in to the mind/heart of the guy first, then the rest comes naturally. i guess i'm looking for a good guy to sweep me off my feet vs. having them in the air on a first date. lol. but, to each his own!

go_vols saiddo you guys have any rules on that? Or do you just go with the flow? I would be up for a 1st/2nd base type thing, but I'd prob wait on anything more until I get to know the guy really well. Your thoughts?

All my LTRs started with sex on our first meeting. Both my late & current partners, and 2 BFs that I spent 2 years with each, were in bed with me the first night.

I dunno, if it seems right, do it, for gawd's sake! What's this girly demureness? A man is direct and to the point.

If you wanna do it, do it. If it doesn't feel right yet, then don't do it. Yah know, these things are only complicated if you make them complicated yourself. Whatever feels right, is right. Whatever feels wrong, is wrong. You'll know it when you get there. Just rid yourself of preconceived notions about first dates, and everything will become clear to you at the appropriate moment.

I agree! unfortunately most guys are too busy thinking about what is right for them; and so most forget what the other guy wants!? it takes two to tangle, you know! personally I prefer to slow dance!!!! and one very important secret:

I would think it would make sense to wait until you've gone out several times before you really get serious.. I'd not particularly want to give it up on the first date, but one thing leads to another and chemistry can be awesome in certain cases.