Sounds like excellent technique Mischief, I will have to give it a try ;) The spongy tissue you referred to hun I THINK is called the ,, get this, urethral sponge, my G spot is actually in further, tucked in behind (sort of) the pubic bone, when I am aroused the spot is hard and can get as big as a marble,so hubby says By that time I am out of it , with only one thing on my mind,, lol and it isn't chocolate!

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Watch out the spell check police will get you.. maybe not..he's only interested in HIV data lately.

The tissue has been described as spongy. The pee reaction is a key that you are in the right area.

I use my thumb on top of the clitoral hood. Index finger inside her. It varies with how much stimulation women like.

It leaves me a freehand..to tweak something else.

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Damn, should have used spellchcek lol

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SLOtowner, the easiest way to describe it is this , simply have you rlady friend lie on her back, put on finger on her clitoris, then insert another finger from your other hand (the middle one) into her vagina and curve it up and try to simply touch the finger that is on her clitoris. You may not actually feel a "spot" but that is the area, you will have to apply firm pressure , which may cause discomfort and the urge to pee(from pressure against the urethra). Being sexually aroused before this all takes place will help. After a bit you should feel a small pea sized "bump" that would be the spot you are looking for.The discomfort I mentioned earlier may make some women give up the search, but of course it her choice. The discomfort DOES pass and for me, it has never came back. Using a small vibrator to stimulate the clitoris while doing this will ease things bit as well. Hope this info helps and remember these "instructions" are for MY body, listen to your lover and follow her guidance and I wish you the best ! D

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Well, NNYcpl, tell us, the uniformed, how and where you found the elusive G Spot.

I think I know how and where to stimulate a woman orally to a multi-orgasmic stupor, and I honestly have been practically kidnapped by one couple for this reason, but to tell you the truth, I don't know for sure where the G Spot is located.

What can all of you tell me (us, really) about where to find the spot. I hve never seen woman squirt. I thought it was an urban myth until I started reading the SLS Forum postings.

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Speaking of my G spot orgasms, they are incredibly intense and I can orgasm repeatedly from the proper technique. It took hubby and I several weeks of trying to finally figure out the "key" to unlocking them but once the dam was broken they cum with ease now.There was some discomfort involved because of the firm pressure applied to the urethra while rubbing the Gspot but it passed and was replaced by wonderful pleasurable feelings. I do "squirt" , but not ALL the time, and if I don't it has no bearing on the intensity of the orgasm. I have also had many men swear they can find the "spot", but none could without some coaching from me or hubby. I believe that sometimes people are simply to preoccupied with trying to make a lady gush they really don't try to help them orgasm, and yes, I can gush without having a Gspot orgasm. In my case, the two are definately NOT interlocked. The ladies and cpls we have shared our technique with seem to have had great success. I think all women have a G spot, it just needs to be stimulated in the right way and above all, be patient and keep looking, it's there! We were both clueless when we started looking for the spot, but, hubby did the work and I gave direction and he asked lots of questions and followed my suggestions,sure enough it worked. Hope this rambling sheds some light, or at least a glimmer. D

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Not familiar with Essex, sorry to say. My daughter's wedding reception was in the boathouse at Valcour. Wedding was on the lawn by the lake.

REALLY small world, isn't it?

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We know Valcour, we took it out, including the bedrooms (with the size of our family it was actually cheaper than motel rooms) to stay in and had Amanda's graduation party in the boathouse. In our profile, the picture you see of our vow renewal was over the lake at The Inn At Essex. Do you know it?

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Right you are, BacchusnLadywife! As a matter of fact, I was on the faculty at SUNY-Plattsburgh! Met my current wife through mutual friends after I left the college, but she went to work there. My daughter just got married last October at Valcour, on the shore of Lake Champlain.

Small world is right!

Aren't you glad you don't live up there this time of year? It always seemed like spring was arriving everywhere else in the country except northern NY and New England! Up there spring doesn't start until Memorial Day!

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