This is a learning in the business life that first of all you need to have commitment, dedication and passion for what you are doing.Lakshmi Mittal

Unless you and your mate are united in purpose, dedication, and loyalty, you will not succeed to the extent you otherwise could. Ezra Taft Benson

Dedication, commitment, love, and joy; we all want these in our lives, in our relationships. Yet we often want instant. We often want our way. But! Deb, we need to stand up for ourselves. Balance is the key. Dedication, love is the key. From the moment spirit says to us, this is our guy, this is our woman, we should commit to our part of the journey. As a skittish horse, we put our side blinders on, keeping our eyes to the front of the path, moving along step by step, perhaps stumbling here and there over the pebbles or over the large stones, but never going off on the detours. Perhaps the wild horse riding nearby rears up, perhaps the mare to the stallion stops to feed her child, yet the stallion the leader of the herd, stays to his course. Here are some tips I recently wrote out for a couple who has been through the wringer, yet came out strong, bonded:

. the first thing is spiritual connection together. sometime during the day preferably in the early morning, when you first get up, take 10 minutes to stop, hold hands and just be silent in meditation together. Prayer, petition is talking to the gods, or goddess, meditation is listening, so for 10 minutes listen to your inner voices. then look into each other’s eyes holding hands and say outloud, I am totally dedicated to this relationship. I am totally dedicated to building spiritual and emotional connections. I thank the gods for this relationship. we will survive. *** if the couple is not already living together do over phone, or skype, if not together at all envision this scenario every day.

Total transparency. At some point during day, evening, passwords, phones, social media, these things are shared with each other. Allowing each person in the relationship to be privy to any and all on the internet.

Get rid of any unnecessary phone numbers, contacts, social media.

Tell the truth to everyone about everything. Bosses, parents. When our partner sees we fudge the truth to these people, we often wonder how much we will “white lie” to our partner to stay out of trouble

Each night at end of night ask, “ did I do anything to upset or hurt you? What can I do to make you happy tomorrow? “ Never go to bed mad at each other. Again if not living together phone or skype, if not even yet together, envision this scenario. Make sure we are willing to give to the other for the greater good of the relationship without at the expense of our self=esteem or physical, emotional good. Both do this step.

Keeping these spiritual tasks every day will keep our relationships dedicated, commited, in love, in peace.

Animal totems: Stallion: Bro Stallion leads the herd with pride, strength, power, intelligence. His totem sees ahead on the path so when he leads his mares, his children, his foals into the journey he is always aware. His medicine says to only fight when he needs to protect his partner, his group.

I am here today my regular hours. If something happens to our call, be aware that if I am turned on, I am waiting for the call. If the caller is able to get into my line, email me, this person is not blocked. I have not blocked anyone in a long time. I am here to keep this ministry alive, to give hope, peace on our lives journeys. I am truly upset that this happened and am taking the necessary steps to ensure it doesn’t happen again. May the fairies dance around each of us today. Love ya, Me, Cherokee, frankiecapone, Sugar, Apache, Apollo, T and the sweet precious spirit of Bob and Bets.