One
of the most common activities to do at a bachelor party is to go
to a strip club and enjoy some good 'ole entertainment with you
and your friends. There have been many bachelor party occasions
when a guy actually comes back with a story about how he met a
dancer at a club and either had sex with her that night of the
bachelor party or started to date her outside of the club.

The question comes to many
bachelor's minds, "How do guys pull this off?". I am here to
tell you. The information I state below is true and, yes, I did
date a few strippers by learning and following the information
below. First, make sure this is something you want to do as
strippers are usually very strong willed and independent girls
that will eat up the typical guy. There cannot be any jealousy
or you are doomed from the start. If you are fine with a
one-night stand or really want to date a stripper, please read
on.

A strip club is no more than
a place where girls go to work and make money, just like any
other job, even though it involves taking their clothes off,
placing their legs around their head and lap dancing! There
are different types of women that work at a strip club just
like there are many types of people at any job. The
difference is that they are easier to watch and classify at
a club which is your first clue. The following are a few
types of women that work in strip clubs:

The
Lesbian: Forget it guys...This girl is just there
to work and go home to her girlfriend after a night of
entertainment. She may fool you into giving you dances but
you have no chance.

The
Man Hater: There unfortunately is a type of woman
who has been abused in the recent or distant past and is
taking her aggression out on males at the club. She may be
more into control than the others and will not be going home
or giving her number out. If she does, she will give you a
wrong number. She is there to make money off of you and get
out of Dodge.

The
Veteran: This dancer prays on bachelor party
participants and will try and make as much money off of you
as possible. She will be real flirtsey and act like your
special...yea, special for the night you are there. She will
invite you back for another night saying what time she gets
to the club and hopes she sees you there (so she can make
double the amount of money on you).

The
Siamese Twin: These girls hang out in pairs and
work the audience together. They will either ask one
bachelor if they want a dance as a threesome or find a group
of guys (like in a bachelor party) and work the group
together. They are interested in competing for who can make
the most and are most likely not interested in hanging out
with you and the guys after.

The
"Do You Want a Dance" Dancer: You can see this
stripper coming from a mile away since she asks everyone and
their father around you if they want to dance before they
get to you. This is either a clueless girl or one that
really doesn't care about rejection or who they dance with.

The
Date (The Golden Stripper): There is a certain
type of woman that may have recently moved to a new place,
is just starting out her career and needs more money, is a
single mom needing to pay her bills or just someone who does
not mind offering nude entertainment. The following are
usually characteristics of this type of dancer:

She usually does not
have many friends in the club since she keeps to
herself. If she does know others in the club, it is
usually only one other friend who she does not dance
around.

She is usually selective and may walk around, getting
a drink and sitting with others to talk, not always
trying to find another poor soul looking for someone on
his lap.

She is usually playful and will want to sit and talk
before asking if you want a dance. There may even be a
long stretch of time before the idea of getting a dance
comes up.

When she does have to dance up on stage or go to the
bathroom, she will state that she is coming back if you
want her to.

She seems to want to have a nice conversation about
things other than body parts and sexual positions.

The key to finding this type
of girl is to keep all entertainment off of your lap until
you find the one who you are attracted to and who wants to
sit on your lap or a chair next to you (and not immediately
ask if you want a dance). She will usually kid around with
you and ask a whole bunch of questions, focusing on you and
not looking around at who she will prey on next. It is
important at this point to:

Buy her a drink if she is interested

Ask her genuine questions about who she is outside of the
club

Don't ask her for a dance and play it cool. If you do
want a dance from her, wait at least 20-30 min before you
ask, unless she brings it up first.

Be comfortable and confident in who you are. Don't be a
pig

See if you have anything in common (music, hobbies,
interests) since it will bring you closer

After a while of clowning around and getting to know
one-another, you may get a few dances from her by her
offering or you offering. It is okay to enjoy the dance and
let her know how much you enjoy it. Compliment her assets
other than her ASSets. Focus on her hair, eyes, smile...you
get it. She has enough men trying to grab her and squeeze
her tits.

Time will fly if you find someone who you connect with and
enjoy speaking and getting dances from. After a significant
amount of time or if the bachelor party is going to leave,
decide whether you want to stay. If you find yourself
spending a lot of money on her, she may be faking you out
and taking you for all your money. If you find the
entertainer who wants to date, they will not be trying to
milk you dry but spend more time with you sitting and
talking. At some point after getting to know her, it is okay
to let her know how much fun you are having and that you
would like to see her outside of the club. At this point she
may say:

No, I have a boyfriend or It is not company policy - It
is time for you to go home with the other bachelor party
participants or find another dancer if the night is young

Why don't you come back tomorrow night and we can talk
more - Can be a genuine request but feel out the situation
to see if she is taking you for more money and no chance for
a date.

Here is my card - Again, may lead to a dead end or a
pager number that she will call you back on when she has
time between her other dances with other guys.

Yes even though I usually don't do this - This is what
you wanted to here :) Just make sure she is not a hooker and
wants to take you back to a room to ask you for money for
services. You may be well on your way to having a story on
how at your friend's bachelor party you met your future
wife! Believe me, it has happened since I have a few friends
that married the dancers they met and are now working normal
jobs and raising families.