I have told my daughter I can't wait for her to have her own place. I am coming over and leaving lights on, leaving crumbs in a bag and putting back in the cabinet. I will clog the toilet and walk away with a big stinky floating. Oh...I can't wait!

And when you hear their door close AND the click of the lock, you'll knock on it right away, correct?

I would need to go to my son's and throw clean clothes in the laudnry to be washed again. There's nothing he will like more than washing clothes which are still clean. (and sometimes still even folded)

I know when I go to their houses I will never remember where anything goes, so I wont put anything away. And if I do, it will be in the wrong place so they will have to look for it.

Tammi,When my daughter was 13ish, my wife was at her wit's end with that "washing clean clothes" thing. She would wash the clothes, put the basket in her room to be folded and of course lazy ass would just pull some out and throw dirty on top. SOOOOOOOOOO, we made her start washing her own clothes. All of them. Showed her how to start the washer and run a load. Even explained if she broke the washer or dryer because she doesn't pay attention, I would replace it with her bday and xmas money. Best decision ever!