Teen Style – Lara’s looks #04

Novembre 30, 2016

Lara* Tsuki Style – “Teenage dream”

On November 24th I went to the Little Mix‘s CD signing in Milan. It was one of the best days of my life. In the beginning I wasn’t anxious, maybe because I wasn’t realizing that I was going to see them yet. As soon as I entered and I had them in front of me, I started having watery eyes. I got closer to them and I burst in tears. It was so beautiful to have them in front of me.
When I got out I wasn’t able to stop crying, and this is not something childish. At this age reacting to this things with tears or what I call “going crazy” is more than normal! When you care so much about a famous person it’s obvious to react like this in some occasions. Always without exaggerating anyway.

When Zayn left One Direction, I read online that there were girls that started to hurt themselves or even try to kill themselves. This in my opinion is an exaggeration. Crying and going crazy are a normal reaction for a teenager facing these events. However to arrive at the point of taking your life because of these moments I think it’s completely wrong. Then you won’t be able to enjoy everything beautiful that happens. I cried a lot that day, but then I understood he took the right decision. In the end now I have even more things to listen to and more stories to follow! Why hurting yourself for someone else’s decision? And if it was the right decision for them? It’s not egoistic and also a kind of blackmail to say “if you take this decision I’m going to hurt myself”?

My thoughts

To cry is normal, it’s a venting off process. If nobody cried then nobody would be able to live the best emotions, like happiness. Adults too should understand that crying for these things it’s just a venting off process. We teenagers can’t be in tears because of something happening in politics or other things that are not part of our lives, but the adult’s one. It’s right to get interested to what happens in the world, so it’s also right to cry if something bad happens. However, getting emotional for something beautiful is something we should never loose. Because when people grow up, then tend to cry for bad things even as adults, what often they miss is the getting emotional for a strong happy moment.

We shouldn’t think that we are weird if we cry for things that other define as “childish”. We should understand that the weird ones are them, because they don’t understand that crying is a moment to vent off and it doesn’t mean weakness, stupidity or being childish.