Miss N, you don't look like you are resting! Someone pull the plug out of her keyboard! LOL.

Great idea Poipu!! Who wants to bet she is working on someone's website right now?!! Put down the laundry and the dirty dishes and get back to bed!! Your kids are old enough to pitch in. Don’t make me come there!!

Nuccia I guess that's one of the most difficult things you have been ordered to do, but you MUST do what you are told. Just how often have we told you, you cant burn the candle at both ends but I'm not going to lecture you All I really want to say is PLEASE take care of yourself and give youself time to recover properly before you dive into the deep end again. Hope you feel a bit better soon. I'll keep you in my prayers.
Lov and hugs
God Bless
Emmy

I think (know) that it is unrealistic to expect 'the Boss' to pass her time doing zilch. We are, I'm sure, well aware that she is nothing less than a workaholic!

Now if we accept that, then let's agree that it would be a little unkind to expect her to NOT (at least) check out her beloved "Gente". After all, her recovery is going to be a long haul - even if she (even now) refuses to accept that - and that long haul cannot be passed if she is totally cut off from the things she loves.

SO - here's my plan....what Nucia does NOT need for a while is to be working under pressure on 'anything'. An occasional post can only be good therapy for her - keep her in touch with everyone. But research, site building, and the like, do need to be shelved for a while. To this end I have put aside my own site build which Nuccia was just starting to help me with (along with a zillion others). I know the world won't come to an end if my research or site aren't completed within the next few days, and I would rather remove pressure of that kind from her shoulders until she is really back on her feet.

I know that this lifting of pressure will go a long way to helping her recovery and it will also allow her to catch up (away from pressure) with her own site and family research. Once we remove the pressure from her shoulders then I am convinced that her own personal research (laid aside for so long) will become really therapeutic for her. I hope you all agree - as I'm sure you all care for her as much as I do!

In the meantime if you DO need help then please post your questions on the forums - that is how Nuccia and I saw "Gente" from the start - as a self sufficient, self motivating research centre where everyone helps and guides everyone else! (and don't tell anuone - but Nuccia's even got my research knowledge to improve)

You cannot post new topics in this forumYou cannot reply to topics in this forumYou cannot edit your posts in this forumYou cannot delete your posts in this forumYou cannot vote in polls in this forumYou cannot attach files in this forumYou cannot download files in this forum

The logos and trademarks used on this site are the property of Gente di Mare Genealogy.
We are not responsible for comments posted by our users, as they are the opinions of the poster.
Interactive software released under GNU GPL,
Code Credits,
Privacy Policy