And how would I know for sure, what sex the opponent was - this is the INTERNET! Honestly, if you beat me, it`s alright, if it was your mind or my blunders, only would dislike if the opponent used a computer, but that I wouldn`t know either...

stop dragging gender into everything as an issue. most men I know hate losing, period. I don't play differently against different players based on gender or anything else. I'm rarely if ever even aware of the gender of an online opponent; I don't ask, don't care. The fact that you brought up gender means it is an issue for you. Lose your obsession with it.

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