Despite genuine desire, I have been unable to say prayers
regularly. Could you help me overcome this serious problem? (Mrs. Ali, Mason
Road, Lahore)

Answer:

Answer: If you desire is genuinely earnest, I see no reason
why you should not be saying prayers regularly already. I would ask you, first
of all, to do everything to make sure that it is. There are certain facts,
however, which, if clearly known help in ensuring regularity in prayers. I
mention them here for you to consider:

1. No person can be considered a Muslim unless he prays
regularly. This fact has been mentioned clearly both in the Qur’ān and the
Hadīth. The Holy Qur’ān says:

But if they repent and establish prayers and pay zakah, they
will then by your brothers in faith. We explain our commands distinctly for
those who understand. (9:11)

The Prophet of Allāh (sws), had said:

The prayer is the distinguishing sign between Islam and Kufr
[disbelief].

The Qur’ān has also informed us that the first crime those
condemned to hell would admit would be ‘We were not among the praying ones.’
(74:43). How can a Muslim with even the faintest glow of faith in him be
neglectful to such an important obligation?

2. The prayer is an expression of gratitude to the Almighty
for the countless mercies He has showered on us. If even for small favours from
others we carry a feeling of indebtedness unless paid back in some form, how can
any one reasonable remain content by reaping the enormous blessings of life
without expressing feelings of thankfulness to the real Benefactor? The offence
grows in proportion manifold with the knowledge that a formal way of expressing
these feelings has been suggested by the Benefactor Himself. What else, after
all, is the formal prayer except a demand from the Almighty Creator to regularly
express our feelings of acknowledgement in a prescribed manner? Anyone
neglectful about prayers, therefore is infact discourteous and arrogant.

3. Whatever we recite in the prayers, moreover, is a precise
expression of the true feelings of a devoted servant of the Almighty. Many of us
don’t feel inclined to say prayers because the utterances formally prescribed
for it are not meaningful to us. As a result, some people question the relevance
of praying in Arabic and suggest that the individual’s own language should be
used to convey the message of the All-Knowing God. The hazards associated with
saying prayers in languages other than Arabic can be discussed someother time,
but here we emphasise that the problem can be more effectively solved by
learning the meanings of all utterances associated with prayers. The exercise
would certainly be a fairly simple one yet as a result, saying prayers would
become an extremely meaningful and a spiritually involving exercise.

4. The real binding prayer is not a time consuming formality.
An important reason why many of us skip prayers is the highly erroneous concept
of obligatory prayers. Whereas it is obvious beyond doubt that the obligatory
prayer are only those we normally call ‘farz’, Muslims have generally
self-imposed as practically binding additional optional prayers as well. The
very idea of saying prayers, as a result, looks so difficult, specially when one
is busy or not in a mood for it, that some prefer non-performance to taking up
the uphill task of saying the discouraging number of ‘rakāts’. The truth is that
apart from the two ‘rakāts’ of ‘Fajr, four of ‘Zuhar’, four of ‘Asar’, three of
Maghrib’ and four of ‘Isha’ generally called ‘farz’ prayers, we are not
responsible to the Almighty on non-performance of any other. The rest are all
optional. Some of these optionals (twelve in all) attached to the obligatory
ones were regularly said by the Prophet (sws) except in journeys. Such optionals
have come to be called as ‘Sunnat-i-Moakkadah’. About these prayers the Prophet
of Allāh (sws), had remarked:

If any Muslim prays for the sake of Allāh Twelve ‘rakāts’
everyday, over and above the obligatory ones, Allāh will build for him a house
in paradise. (Muslim)

The prayers referred to are of course the two ‘Sunnah’ of ‘Fajr’,
four and two of ‘Zuhar’, two of ‘Magrib’ and four and two of ‘Isha’. Muslims
have not been warned of grave consequences on non-performance of any of them and
hence there is no reason to declare them obligatory. If the ‘Farz’ prayers are
left out, however, no excuse will be good enough to be accommodated as
acceptable. But then who can afford to neglect such a simple formality for the
Gracious Allāh save the most ungrateful?

A sincere request through the following supplication of
Prophet Ibraheem can go a long way in making you regular in prayers:

O My Lord make me consistant in my prayers, and my children
too, and our Lord, grace our request with your kind acceptance. O Our Lord grant
me and my parents and the believers at large forgiveness on the Day justice
would prevail. (14:40-41)