But she didn’t want any of that until she fell for Goldsmith. “I always just thought, like, ‘I’m good to go to the courthouse,’” Moore confessed to Us at a November 11 Unicef event. (She and ex-husband Ryan Adams wed in a small church in Georgia in front of just a pastor in 2009.) “I’ve never really, until this point in my life, ever dreamt about or given any thought to an actual wedding,” she explained.