Because I can't have more children, I would like to do IVF with egg donation. I choosed Finland beacause I'm tall, blond hair, blue eyes and it's difficult to find this characteristics in France.
Perhaps you can help me to find a donor or a clinic or ideas....
thanks a lot
julie

Egg donor

Your request is a bit silly and I don't think you'll manage to get what you're after in Finland. I wanted to donate eggs few months ago but was put off by the Finnish way of doing it. Namely it is not anonymous. The child have the right to know who the donor was and will get her details once he reach the magic age of 18. Anyway... the waiting lists here are as long as the ones in France. Have you tried to enroll in several centres? It might request you to travel around France but I have some friends you did it and they manage to get IVF with donor eggs several times in a few months time with a Parisian centre. Good luck anyway, I hope you'll get a baby soon

If I were you, I would adopt a child from children-house, because there are a plenty of children who need a mother and they are already born.. Why don't you give that opportunity to one of them rather than having an additional one to this world?

forest_girl wrote:If I were you, I would adopt a child from children-house, because there are a plenty of children who need a mother and they are already born.. Why don't you give that opportunity to one of them rather than having an additional one to this world?

Adopting a child from abroad is a grueling lengthy process which could be laden with many problems, waits and heart-aches.
The wait for a child coming from abroad could be up to 4 years depending on the country in which the child is born. Yes, there are millions of children living in orphanges but it's not easy to adopt.

forest_girl wrote:If I were you, I would adopt a child from children-house, because there are a plenty of children who need a mother and they are already born.. Why don't you give that opportunity to one of them rather than having an additional one to this world?

Adopting a child from abroad is a grueling lengthy process which could be laden with many problems, waits and heart-aches.
The wait for a child coming from abroad could be up to 4 years depending on the country in which the child is born. Yes, there are millions of children living in orphanges but it's not easy to adopt.

forest_girl wrote:If I were you, I would adopt a child from children-house, because there are a plenty of children who need a mother and they are already born.. Why don't you give that opportunity to one of them rather than having an additional one to this world?

Adopting a child from abroad is a grueling lengthy process which could be laden with many problems, waits and heart-aches.
The wait for a child coming from abroad could be up to 4 years depending on the country in which the child is born. Yes, there are millions of children living in orphanges but it's not easy to adopt.

Why is there a necessity to adopt especially from abroad?

Because there are very very few domestic adoptions in Finland. Not many children require adoptive parents. That's why there are nearly 300 adoptions from abroad in Finland each year.

It is silly in the way that even if she finds a donor matching her requirement there is no way they can guarantee the child will get these features. I have a blue-eyes,blond baby boy and I'm dark haired with brown eyes. My daughters are dark haired and have very dark eyes.

As I said I have friends that had to go trhough IVF with egg donor. They waited for so long and had so many false hope with IVF that ended up in miscarriage that they were just happy to get the magic phone call saying they had a donor...

If I was egoist, I would like only one child, no problem and no white nights!!

Personnaly, no problem for dark hair and something else but I think at the child and it's important that the others don't know that he's born by an egg donation, I wish that he tells about that only if he wants it.
For adoption, it's very difficult and long....but we can do that too, we dream about bug family like 5 children.

Others won't know if you don't choose to tell them. My friends always laughed when at the maternity they were told their baby looked like her. At the end of the day it'll be your child, and that's the most important