I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - Unknown
Relationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.

Posts: 6040 | Registered: Jul 2012 | From: Florida

imagoodwitch♀ 23375Member # 23375

Posted: 6:32 PM, September 8th (Sunday), 2013

canteat, if you were here you would want to eat 'cause its Risotto and it was delicious.

Don't keep dancing with the Devil and wonder why you are still in Hell.

It's all shits and giggles until someone giggles and shits.

Posts: 5668 | Registered: Mar 2009 | From: Munchkinland

shatteredheart7♀ 39734Member # 39734

Posted: 6:33 PM, September 8th (Sunday), 2013

Exactly!

Some things I like to remember
1. I am an awesome cook. My dh has always bragged on me for that. (She couldn't boil water)
2. I keep a clean house. (Her house smells like a dirty litter box, seriously you can smell it from outside)
3. I am crafty. I love making things and refurbishing antiques. (She wouldn't know which end of a paintbrush to use)
4. I am a very devoted mother. I am very involved in everything my kids do. (She left her infant daughter in a burning house and her 10 yr old son had to go in and save her)
5. People like me, they gravitate towards me. (Most people just tolerate her)
6. My kids love me (her adult kids have nothing to do with her)
7. My husband loves me. She tried to get him to leave me for her but no matter what she did or said he still wanted me.

Me~40
FWH~46
Married 8yrs
Together 11 1/2
Me~ 3 kids, 21,17,14
Him~no kids
A with a mutual "friend" for 2+yrs
He confessed 9/9/12
A was over 2/12
7/13~ Happier than we have been in yrs!

Posts: 240 | Registered: Jul 2013

caregiver9000♀ 28622Member # 28622

Posted: 6:36 PM, September 8th (Sunday), 2013

First, it really pisses me off the OW had a window into my life, one that I didn't know about, that my WS put there

This is a beautiful description of something that has bothered me a great deal but I have never put into words. I am a very private person. And even the private truths that were shared without my permission or knowledge bother me a great deal.

((hugs)) to you although perhaps HIGH FIVES are more apt given that you are a strong AWESOME kickass woman who rocks!!

I am very private too and it bothers me to no end that he shared stuff with her in addition to making me out to being a horrible person, which by the way he will deny to this very day but I saw the email.