To the Girl Who Is Single on Valentine’s Day

Two simple words, and yet, they can cause anxiety and dread in the hearts of singles everywhere.

Most people think of Valentine’s Day as a day to spend with the person you love, like a boyfriend or a husband.

It’s also a day to show the person you love how much you love them, like buying chocolates for a boyfriend with a sweet tooth, or going out for romantic dinners with your husband.

With such romantic displays of affection, Valentine’s Day is an easy day for single girls to feel sad and lonely when they cannot partake in it with a partner.

When you’re single on Valentine’s Day, it can feel as if the whole world is telling you that you are all alone by yourself.

Stop.

Don’t listen to those pesky voices telling you that you are unloved.

You KNOW that’s not true.

Instead, these are the 4 truths about your love life on Valentine’s Day that you should know instead. Believe and act on these 4 truths, and by next year, you may have that other half to celebrate Valentine’s Day with!

1. Know That You Are Worthy of a Committed Love

It can be easy to tell yourself that you do not deserve a great love, especially when you feel lonely. While it’s normal to feel down from time to time, to constantly think such thoughts is to carry out a self-fulfilling prophecy.

Don’t fall into the trap of accepting a relationship that makes you feel worse about yourself. Always strive for a love that respects and cherishes you, and fully believe that you deserve this love… because you do.

2. The First Step to Finding Love is to Show Yourself More Love

On that note, if you’re single on Valentine’s Day, it does not mean you can’t celebrate it! You can always show care and love to the person most deserving of your love – yourself.

If you want to, you can buy yourself flowers or chocolates ala the traditional Valentine’s Day way. There’s also nothing wrong with signing yourself up for a little pampering, like a facial, massage, or a nail session.

Stay in away from the crowd, and have some much important me-time, whether by yourself, or with the family and friends you love.

3. Determination is the Key to Finding Someone You’ll Love

Love can seem elusive at times, but it’s not. Determination and persistence are two key traits you must have when it comes to love.

It is by putting yourself out there that attracts the chances of love even more. It’s only hard to find love when you make it hard for love to find you.

4. To Attract Love, You Must Become the Right One Yourself

Most girls will have a set of requirements when it comes to the guy they want to date, whether it’s height, education level, physical looks, or otherwise.

Yet, in the quest for love, don’t forget to ask yourself this most important question: “are you also the kind of person you’d want to date?”

Yes, it is important that the man who loves you loves you for who you are. However, there is always room for improvement. Being who you are does not mean becoming stagnant and accepting yourself that way – it means striving to be the best version of yourself at all times.

For example, a hot-tempered girl can tell herself that she’s got a temper, but a hot-tempered girl who strives to keep her anger in check is much more attractive than the girl who lashes out at the tiniest thing.

Once you practice these four truths to love, you may surprise yourself with what happens next. Happy Valentine’s Day, and may you find a great love for yourself soon.