My ex lefy 5 years ago. Our boys were 1 and 2. He was involved with another woman. They got engaged right after our divorce was final ( took us 1.5 years). Got married after we'd been split for two years. They have a 2.5 year old. Their marriage is still going strong. Every now and then I get in this pity party mode. I hate these time. Wish I could get over it but sometimes I wonder what was so intolerable about me

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Suzi, working mama to my ODS(2004) , YDS(2006), DSD(2004) and married to the love of my life