What made you leave your ex and how are you coping?

I tolerated a lot of shit with hopes our relationship would work. Once I discovered that he was cheating on me with transsexuals and unprotected that was the last fucking straw. I'm a lot happier now since I left him. There's nothing worse than being in a relationship that makes you insecure and cannot trust your partner. I feel relieved .

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Anonymous

Taking his shit all the damn time. I was physically and mentally abused. Being too nice in a relationship gets you nowhere, esp if the man is psychotic. I'm glad you left this cheating savage of a man. Absolutely disgusting.

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I can relate as he beat on me too. I think we're both lucky to have these pieces of shit out of our lives.

What Guys Said 3

I left my ex when I found out she was on dating sites talking to guys and trying to meet up with them. It was easy to cope because I have already decided not to invest that much emotion in someone until they have proven themselves worthy

My ex wife:- cheated on me with many men- denied me sex- abandoned me and our 3 year old son- turned herself out as a prostitute - offered to get back together with me "all things forgiven" PROVIDED I agreed to a open marriage.

I divorced her and obtained custody of my son. As for my reason for leaving... take your pick.

That was back in 2003-2004. The week my divorce became final I joined eHarmony. In January of 2005, I met my future wife. Eighteen months later we were married.

@GraySailorsBride and I are celebrating our aniversary this month, nine happy years married -- the honeymoon continues.

What Girls Said 3

He cheated on me numerous amount of times, I was stupid indeed. Kept giving him chances like a psycho, but it was high school and I thought I "needed" him, after I definitely had enough and left- even with him crying his eyes out. No fucks given haha It's been about 3 years since then though haha and the only thing I wish is that I dumped him sooner.