PT are great careers but difficult to get into the program equal to masters degree . I been working hospitals since 1975 so I know something about it
If she can't handle the pressure at thus point you my brother need to eject
Before your mArried to an unhappy woman that makes you miserable

That's a hard hurdle sometimes man. It should definitely be addressed sooner rather than later though. That sort of attitude never changes and always comes back to bite harder down the road, if swept under the carpet.

Many a girl have left me when they ask me if I'm happy with the way things are and I say yes. Lol Apparently that wasn't the answer they were looking for.

Seems as soon as they start going to school and/or getting ambitious at work to "better" themselves is when they expect something they deem as equal in value from you/me. My response is the same every time, "We obviously have a different definition of betterment."

I'll never change, I like remedial work for moderate pay because I appreciate reduced responsibility. As few bills as possible, no property to pay taxes on or care for, no children to maintain, old cars I can work on and no monthly payments other than rent, insurance and utilities.

I'm a happy person without question. Sure some things suck in lacking someone to share it with, but I'm just not what women are looking for in the long run.

I hope, for you, that you two talk it out and come to some sort of compromise or, better yet, agreement. That's a lot of time invested into something to just let slip away.

It took me the same and I graduate next month but then again I paid straight cash making $7.35/hr while doing it eating lots of top ramen and sleepless nights, now I am currently working two jobs just waiting for my background to clear to leave one job and graduate.

Get her out of your life. It may hurt for a little while, but when the hurt is done, you'll be much better off. Also from my experience and the experience of some of my relatives, it may be that she'll wear out whoever it is that she's hooked up with on the side. When that happens, she may try to come back, giving you the old "I really miss you and don't want to live without you" routine. Whatever you do, don't fall for it, because it would just be setting you up for a replay of the whole thing a little farther down the road.