One plus one of God, as far as marriage is concerned, is equal to one. This can be compared to taking a tea spoonful from a sachet of salt and adding it to a tea cup of water from a big jar. The combination is neither salt nor water, it becomes a solution. This is what marriage is planned by the Initiator, God, to be. In few cases today, it remains so.

For a marriage to work the way the Lord designed it, no other short cut than for every individual involved in the project to observe the two mandatory principles involved. You are not wrong to call it the law of God for marriage. God’s own designed marriage involves each person from the opposite sex, that is made and female. Any other arrangement is from the kingdom of hell!

What then are the two principles of God for a successful marriage?

The first step toward having a successful home is to leave. What are the things to leave? For a female, she must leave her

(a)land, (b) country (c)family (d)father’s house (e)old friends (f)old ways of living (g)god.

Ruth gives every woman a pattern, she said to her mother-in-law:

“Entreat me not to leave you,

Or to turn back from following after you,

For wherever you go, I will go,

And wherever you lodge, I will lodge;

Your people shall be my people,

And your God, my God,

Where you die, I will die,

And there will I be buried.

The Lord do so to me, and more also,

If anything but death parts you and me.” Ruth 1:6. (New King James Version, NKJV).

These words also corroborate the words of the Psalmist of Israel that counsels,

“Listen, O daughter,

consider and incline your ear,

Forget your own people also, and

your father’s house,

So, the King will greatly desire your

beauty

Because He is your Lord,

Worship Him,” Psalm 45:10-11.

Let me not fail to emphasize the importance of leaving former “god”. Ruth did not fail to abandon all gods in Moab to follow the God of Israel. Inability of Rachel to forget the “gods” of her father’s house was her undoing, the heartthrob of Jacob lost out because she did not live to see the greatness of her two children. She did not recognize the God of Jacob because she stole the “idols” of her father. Details are contained in Genesis chapter thirty one in verses thirty-four to thirty-five,

For a male, leaving is a commandment from the Lord that must be obeyed. The Holy Bible discloses,

“Therefore a man shall leave his father and mother

And be joined to his wife, and they shall became one flesh.”

Genesis 2:24 NKJV.

Do you know that these words becomes evident in the words of Adam when Eve was made? He said,

“This is now (on the day of marriage) bone of my bones

And flesh of my flesh,

She shall be called Woman

Because she is taken out of man.” Genesis 2:23.

As a man, is it possible to dismember parts of your body? Do you want your bones to be dislocated? Which part of your flesh do you want separated? It is possible to do either of these (God forbid) but it brings unbearable pains and discomfort.

A man must leave his father and mother to be joined to his wife.

This is the ultimate goal of marriage. After leaving

comes cleaving. Leaving without cleaving gives birth to loneliness which marriage was meant to crush. Loneliness is worse than cancer or AIDS. Fussing must come after leaving. this is not wrong, I think, that cleaving can be seen as loss of independence. The words of Apostle Paul on couples make this clear,

Cleaving is oneness of the Spirit. That is the reason Ruth’s statement “your God, my God” is the peak of her decision. This is in contrast to Rachel’s decision. She was never joined in the spirit with her husband. She loved the man but hated his God. She demonstrated this by stealing her father’s household idols and she protected them that her husband was not aware of her evil act.

Apostle Paul does not leave us in the dark when he emphasizes the Spiritual importance of “joining” or cleaving. He reveals,

“Or do you know that he who is joined to a harlot is one

body with her? For “the two,” (in marriage), he says, “shall

become one flesh.” But he who is joined to the Lord is one

Spirit with Him.” 1Cor 6 : 16-17.

This is the reason God, as the initiator of marriage, must be involved in your marriage. This translates that the husband and the wife must be joined with the Lord. He should be in the beginning, middle and end of their marriage. One of the reasons is that “He seeks godly offering(s) from the couple. If you do not want to disappoint your Creator and you want the end of your life to be pleasing, to God, leave and cleave to your God as well as your spouse. Love the Lord with everything you have as human being. Then love yourself. Demonstrate the love that you have towards God and yourself by loving your neighbors. Therefore, to have a successful marriage, be ready to leave and cleave.

Stay blessed and prepared because the Lord is coming soon.

NOTE

NKJV means New King James Version of the Holy Bible.

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