HELP!!!!!!!!

Ok so my baby shower has been planned for months! "DH" currently not so darling just told me he will not be going to our baby shower. Why?! Because he spend OUR money in two playoff tickets which falls on the same day as the Falcons game. He agreed to go months ago!!! We already invited all HIS friends and family plus mine! He keeps saying baby showers aren't for men even though he's guy friends are going! My question to you ladies is what would you do? I'm LIVID !!! Is offered to play the game during the shower but that's not enough. He wants to change the date but we already sent out the invites and we can't change the time (2pm). He said he can stay for an hour max then leave for the game. :( I'm so hurt. I feel like his properties aren't right here.. Makes me feel like me and the baby will never be his FIRST priority.

Ok so my baby shower has been planned for months! "DH" currently not so darling just told me he will not be going to our baby shower. Why?! Because he spend OUR money in two playoff tickets which falls on the same day as the Falcons game. He agreed to go months ago!!! We already invited all HIS friends and family plus mine! He keeps saying baby showers aren't for men even though he's guy friends are going! My question to you ladies is what would you do? I'm LIVID !!! Is offered to play the game during the shower but that's not enough. He wants to change the date but we already sent out the invites and we can't change the time (2pm). He said he can stay for an hour max then leave for the game. :( I'm so hurt. I feel like his properties aren't right here.. Makes me feel like me and the baby will never be his FIRST priority.

Oh hell naw! Lol. I'd be livid too! This day and age, baby showers are for men to be there as well. Share in the joy and gift opening and family and friend time and celebration of the new baby. How selfish of him to rather go to a game when he could watch it at home during the shower. Wtf?! What if there's something around the time the baby is born? He gonna run off then too?! What an a$s. No. You need to put your foot down there. Shame shame.

Oh hell naw! Lol. I'd be livid too! This day and age, baby showers are for men to be there as well. Share in the joy and gift opening and family and friend time and celebration of the new baby. How selfish of him to rather go to a game when he could watch it at home during the shower. Wtf?! What if there's something around the time the baby is born? He gonna run off then too?! What an a$s. No. You need to put your foot down there. Shame shame.

I'd be upset, but I wouldn't force him to go if he didn't want to be there. My hubby would sulk and be an embarrassment! Have him call all of his friends that were planning on coming and telling them he won't be there. Then they can decide to miss it or still come. I can't imagine too many men coming to a baby shower...unless you have alcohol there. :)

I'd be upset, but I wouldn't force him to go if he didn't want to be there. My hubby would sulk and be an embarrassment! Have him call all of his friends that were planning on coming and telling them he won't be there. Then they can decide to miss it or still come. I can't imagine too many men coming to a baby shower...unless you have alcohol there. :)

We had alcohol at ours! Haha. That's why my hubby went. He's kind of been obnoxious lately with hanging out with the guys but I keep telling myself that he feels like this is his last "hoorah" before he's a daddy. Sometimes it's scary for men... Even when it's planned! You become a mommy when you get pregnant... He becomes a daddy when he holds his baby. Not taking anything away from your anger though! Those tickets would be set on fire if he already agreed to go! :)

We had alcohol at ours! Haha. That's why my hubby went. He's kind of been obnoxious lately with hanging out with the guys but I keep telling myself that he feels like this is his last "hoorah" before he's a daddy. Sometimes it's scary for men... Even when it's planned! You become a mommy when you get pregnant... He becomes a daddy when he holds his baby. Not taking anything away from your anger though! Those tickets would be set on fire if he already agreed to go! :)

He already agrees to a co Ed shower and its unfortunate the game fell on the same day but you and your child need to be the priority. He can sell the tickets I am sure and be there to support you and as a courtesy to his friends and family who expect him to be there.

He already agrees to a co Ed shower and its unfortunate the game fell on the same day but you and your child need to be the priority. He can sell the tickets I am sure and be there to support you and as a courtesy to his friends and family who expect him to be there.

My Df took off with his "boyfriend" to the bass pro shop. It didn't bother me no other men were there and my gf's all knew his mother was gonna be there and a ***** so I had ppl to back me. I wouldn't be that upset about it.

My Df took off with his "boyfriend" to the bass pro shop. It didn't bother me no other men were there and my gf's all knew his mother was gonna be there and a ***** so I had ppl to back me. I wouldn't be that upset about it.

I know I'm going to be in the minority here, but it's a Falcons playoff game! Those just don't happen all of the time. At least he's going for the first hour. Baby showers aren't fun for guys and football games are so fun! I understand why you're annoyed, but in the end if i were you I'd let it go. Don't let it ruin your shower, have fun!

I know I'm going to be in the minority here, but it's a Falcons playoff game! Those just don't happen all of the time. At least he's going for the first hour. Baby showers aren't fun for guys and football games are so fun! I understand why you're annoyed, but in the end if i were you I'd let it go. Don't let it ruin your shower, have fun!

If hes staying an hour, thats great. Even co-ed ones are geared towards women. My dh stayed for an hour and then hit the bar with all of his friends whose wives were at my shower. They all came back and finished up the alcohol;-) It is upsetting but it is a playoff game! And trust me, his friends already know he has tickets and might be making alternate plans!

If hes staying an hour, thats great. Even co-ed ones are geared towards women. My dh stayed for an hour and then hit the bar with all of his friends whose wives were at my shower. They all came back and finished up the alcohol;-) It is upsetting but it is a playoff game! And trust me, his friends already know he has tickets and might be making alternate plans!

If he invited his friends and they are coming, it's rude of him not to be there. He's going to look really bad. I'm with you. I'd be pissed. Did you ask him if he wanted a co-ed shower back when planning, or did you just plan it?

If he invited his friends and they are coming, it's rude of him not to be there. He's going to look really bad. I'm with you. I'd be pissed. Did you ask him if he wanted a co-ed shower back when planning, or did you just plan it?

Yes, that could be a test! But the fact that he can come for an hour is a blessing! I'd tell him have fun and enjoy sometime before baby comes! Be supportive of him and make sure while he is there for an hour plan what you want him there for. Again, yes it is testing but don't make it a big deal, and you can always pray for God to change his mind??

Yes, that could be a test! But the fact that he can come for an hour is a blessing! I'd tell him have fun and enjoy sometime before baby comes! Be supportive of him and make sure while he is there for an hour plan what you want him there for. Again, yes it is testing but don't make it a big deal, and you can always pray for God to change his mind??

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