Ooh, is neutral that bad then? She is an experienced ebayer and the problem is I feel grumpy about it 'cos I don't really believe that she did lose it, I think she just got a better price from a mate or something.

I have been in contact with her and her attitude seemed to be that IWBVU to be annoyed that she had lost my item, so that rubbed me up the wrong way too.

O I see.I had assumed that she would be very apologetic in her communications with you. Not so?

A similar thing happened to me you see, but I was the seller. I had listed something, relisted a couple of times before it sold and found it wasn't in the box where all my eBay stuff is stored. I was very apologetic to my buyer because I couldn't follow through with my half of the deal. My buyer however was grumpy with attitude.