Wednesday, January 11, 2017

Resolved

I know that I've mentioned that September feels more like a new year to me than January. But January also feels like a good time for a fresh start. I used to make new year's resolutions, I think because my elementary school teachers thought new year's resolutions would make a good writing assignment.

But then I discovered that resolutions don't stick. So I stopped making resolutions, and started making goals.

You see, a resolution is usually a broad, overarching statement. It's too big. A goal, however, is a specific, achievable intention. I don't know, I guess goals seem less intimidating than resolutions.

And then I got lost in the trenches of motherhood and couldn't find my way out long enough to think of a goal, let alone achieve it.

Finally able to pop my head up and look around, two years ago, I embarked on the Positive Project.

Last January I set two goals for myself:

to make kale chips, which I did in August (they were disappointing), and

to stalk a Facebook friend of mine enough to show up in one of those quizzes on her wall, like, "who's in your reindeer family?" or "what does your week with friends look like?" or "which friends will be in the same nursing home as you?" I achieved this goal in November. I showed up in "which 20 names play an important roll in your life?" Yes, twenty. And I told her to do it but give me about 10 minutes to go like and comment on everything on her wall first, but it counts! So glad she was so cooperative (although she was probably happy to do it so I would stop stalking her).

It is so good to have goals.

So good, in fact, that buoyed by my success, I'm back at it this year, with more goals than ever before. I hope I'm not being too ambitious.

My goals:

Make reusable cleaning wipes (I know, it's kind of silly, considering the fact that whenever I spray cleaning solution, then wipe with a washcloth, I'm using something reusable to clean, but I want to have a tub of wipes. And I want them to be reusable).

Try something new from Trader Joes each month. I love Trader Joes. It's such a fun store, and it seems like there's always something new, but I hardly ever get over there because other errands take precedence. And I hardly ever buy anything, because there's just so much to choose from--it's a bit overwhelming, because I want to try all the things. This year, I'm scheduling a once a month visit (I might might take the summer off...), and I have to buy something each time (if you have any suggestions, leave them in the comments).

Have a prayer focus each month, praying for a specific person (outside of my family) or situation every day for that month.

How about you? Did you make any resolutions or set any goals this year?

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I'm Scarlet, stay at home mommy to three boys, four if you count my husband. The only reason I have time to blog is because the baby is sleeping, the other two are in school, and I am neglecting my housekeeping duties.