#10... sorry but I don't see the reason to go through such a traumatic and sad experience for the child. The father is heartbroken of course, but he is going to die soon, and the kid will be left with this sad memory.

I know they are just 'acting out' the wedding, but its just sadness for no real reason. They should enjoy life, go experience new things, jump out of a plane together.

Don't make her cry the day of her wedding because that's all she will remember now.

Do things together that you never did before, not the things you won't be able to do in the future.