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would this bug you?

Tonight at awana i was talking to someone and she asked when I was due and all the questions that people normally ask . Well.she also said "i hope this is your last one." This is more then likely our last one but i feel that she had no right saying that. It's none if her business if this is our last one. We only have one other child who is 4 1/2, its not like we have a child every year or so (i mentioned this because we are not in a good financial spot ) I walked away after she said that.

I'm not saying having one each year is bad, its just not our thing. We aren't financially in a good spot for that , and i don't believe we ever will be. I have a friend who has 4 kids under the age of 5, i could not do that.

Quoting Tiffnkids:

Well i have 4 kids and one more due in June..... we might have one each year if we wanted to... and NO ONE should say that to you.... thats just rude!

I hate people sometimes. The first person I told I was pregnant said to me "You're getting an abortion right?" I'm 29 years old and pregnant with my very first baby, but its not okay with so many people because I'm not married or in a relationship. I don't think people realize the things they say to pregnant women can be so hurtful. Try to brush it off, as an oopps she said something dumb moment.

Wow, im sorry. This lady speaks her mind no matter what. Up until a few weeks ago I felt that this will be our last baby but now im not too sure. I havent told anyone except dh.

Quoting SkylarBeth:

I hate people sometimes. The first person I told I was pregnant said to me "You're getting an abortion right?" I'm 29 years old and pregnant with my very first baby, but its not okay with so many people because I'm not married or in a relationship. I don't think people realize the things they say to pregnant women can be so hurtful. Try to brush it off, as an oopps she said something dumb moment.

I've been told that by my own parents. This is our third. I don't know if we will have more or not. But the audacity of my own mother and father taking me this. It's horrible and rude. It's nobody's business but ur own how many kids you have

My dad isnt super happy that i'm pregnant but he would never say that to me. He's just worried about us.

Quoting annhart19:

I've been told that by my own parents. This is our third. I don't know if we will have more or not. But the audacity of my own mother and father taking me this. It's horrible and rude. It's nobody's business but ur own how many kids you have

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