(Unfortunately, "Why aren't more people posting?" or a complaint that not enough women are already has never, EVER qualified as interesting. Unfortunately.)

We, the women that run this thing, have been better in the past about posting conversation topics. And we hope to do a better job again, in the future. Just lately, we've been stressed to the max schedule-wise just keeping up with the personals side. That side of the site is more popular than ever.

You can tell from the member traffic logs that many more members view topics than bother to respond. And MANY MANY more people visit this board than bother to register.

SO, if WE'RE not able to post as often as we'd like, it's up to OTHER participants to post topics/conversation starters that are interesting enough that others will feel compelled to respond.

If you do, they will.

If you don't, they won't.

Sorry to put it bluntly, and not trying to be rude to anyone, but that's just the reality here.

We do have a couple topics in mind we hope to post about soon, but in the meantime and in the future, hope this motivates you or anyone else reading this to post something other than a complaint about who is/not already posting. Thanks!

One more thing . . . if you'd like to ramp up the conversation, but can't think of a new topic, you can always scroll down and respond to an older topic already started by someone else. That'll bump it back up to the top.

Topics never have to be "dead," they can always keep going. Maybe the original posters will see your response, maybe they won't, but since any topic is for the whole community, it doesn't matter that much. Or to put it another way, topics are for whomever is interested in them, whenever they are interested in them. No one owns them.

If you bump a topic up by responding to it, it'll definitely get additional traffic, and very likely additional responses from current participants.