Does She Want To Be Dominated?

First things first: This is not an article about whether or not your woman is into S&M; that's something you probably already know. This is an article about whether or not women enjoy being submissive within relationships and during sex, and what you can do to encourage her to let you have control. Sound like something out of June Cleaver's world? It's not.

Although today's women are more aggressive than ever before in most spheres of life, from the workplace to the homefront, men generally remain the dominant ones in the dating and sexual arenas. After all, many women are still wary of making the first move, and expect men to initiate conversation and risk rejection by asking them out. Furthermore, many women expect men to make the plans and pay for dates. And we all know on whom the burden to initiate sex falls most of the time.

This fact pushes many men and women alike to wonder whether or not equality is really what women are after. Wouldn't true equality imply that women make the first move, and wine and dine their men just as often as the other way around? Why do the same women who demand equality also expect you to open the door for them?

you're the man

Despite the fact that we are perfectly capable of doing things that were once thought of as strictly being the domain of men, such as becoming senators and unscrewing the lids on jars, the simple truth of the matter is that most of us still want to feel feminine when we are with our man, the same way that you want to feel masculine.

And the smarter women among us have realized that this can only happen if we let go and let you be a man. And this goes for all stages of a relationship.

the power of seduction

Chances are that when you want a relationship with a woman to become intimate, you turn on the charm and do your damnedest to seduce the pants off her. But in order to be seduced, a woman must lower her defenses and allow the man to work his magic on her. Thus, seduction itself is a form of psychological domination in which the woman gives up control of the situation to the man.

But do women want this dynamic to be taken into the bedroom by being physically dominated as well? And how do you make her willingly submit to your every whim? Find out...