Get your boyfriend back - 5 tips to make it happen

You've broken up with your boyfriend and life isn't the same.
You love him, and you want to try and get him back. You feel
that whatever your differences might be, they can be fixed and you can
be happy once more. You can, and there are recommended tips
that are known to work. What you need to keep in mind though
is that the longer you wait, the more likely he is to move on,
and the less your chances of getting him back.

Here are some things you can do to get your ex boyfriend
back, and to get life back the way you want it to be:

You need to let yourself go through the pain of the
loss, because that's the only way you'll figure out what
went wrong. I highlight this is the first tip because if
you don't figure out what went wrong in the first place,
the chances of it going wrong again are rather high. Grieving
the loss means that you get to think deeply. It also gives
you time to reflect on whether to get your ex boyfriend
back is really the thing that you want, because on reflection
you may discover that after all, you really don't want him
back.

Next, take time to see what your part in the break up
was, because it might be you with the problem. This is always
a big problem in relationships of all kinds. It's easy to
see what the other person did wrong without thinking objectively
about what your role in it was. Yes, you suspected that
he was cheating, but how do your think your obsessive snooping
made him feel? Could that have been what drove him away?
Confront whatever it is you need to confront in yourself,
and then work on changing. If you are obsessively jealous,
you need to ask yourself why. Are you making him pay for
another man's mistakes, or are you holding on to stereotypes
that are affecting your relationship? You get my drift.

Now that you have grieved and you have established what
went wrong, you need to reach out to him. When trying to
get your ex boyfriend back, it can be easy to throw yourself
at him especially if after reflection you find out that
it was probably you who was in the wrong. You must never
do this. Reach out, say hello, and arrange to meet. Choose
a good place that will afford you privacy – it's a conversation
that can go either way. Dress well in something that he
likes, but don't be out to flirt. Simply look great.

Getting straight to the point when you meet is important
because the more you beat around the bush, the more you leave
an impression of not knowing what you want. That's completely
opposite to what you feel, because you know you want him
back. Explain to him that you have thought things through
and that you wanted to apologize because you realized that
you were wrong. If he was wrong, this is not the time to
castigate; let him know that you acknowledge what went wrong,
and if he is willing to work on things, then so are you.
It's not a meeting for passing blame or a cross examination
of the facts. It's an acknowledgement and make-up meeting
and you're there to show him that you understand that things
can go wrong, but that if 2 people are willing, they can
be fixed too.

Men are propelled by self esteem. It's possible that
as your relationship broke down, his self esteem where you're
concerned dipped. Let him know that you still respect and
love him, that you have missed him and the role he played in
your life. This is especially important if you're the one
who dumped him. The most important thing about trying to
get your ex boyfriend back is that you must be sure that
it's a relationship worth saving, and that you're both willing
to work at it.

Get back with your ex!

We are dedicated to helping you do just that. Whether you want to get back
with your ex girlfriend, or get your boyfriend back -- we have the best, no-nonsense
advice to help you plan your attack. Let us help you get your lover back!

Finally, finally finished looking over the other self-help books available for helping you get back together with your ex.
The Magic of Making Up still stands as our top choice, but here's the list of others with links to our reviews:

Please note that if you choose to buy any book
or system through a link from our site we will earn a commission
— which is money we spend, for example, on hosting and maintaining
our websites. But it comes out of the regular price, and you will
not pay anything extra.