Why do we always point the black dot? Forgive and forget

I am sure many would have been in situations, why are we pointed only for the mistakes we did? So I am going to spend some time on this topic.Why is it a human nature to point at a black dot and ignore the colorful space around it? We all accept at some point that a person X is close to you. That would have come because of all the good times you would have had with that person. It is because you have found many good points about the person.

One thing which all of us have to understand is that 'never try to understand another person by their actions'. There is something within that person which you have already liked and hence close to you. Why do you want to then continue judging that person again and again? We should not try to make conclusions out of each action..Accept life as it is, accept people as they are.

Forget that one mistake done by your close ones. Forget and forgive is the mantra for happy living. Dont make conclusions that you couldnt understand that person and hence move away from them. You cannot understand other person as people's actions keep changing based on the situation they are in. You might not be able to realise that, unless you stand in their shoes.

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For that other person, there were many other factors around him/her which compelled them to commit a mistake but didnt realise it at that exact moment. So, when that person admits and asks for forgiveness, Accept him/her with open arms, remember all the good things he/she has done for you. Cherish all the good times.

So, it would be heartening to see people just accept their closed ones as they are, rather than trying to understand why they did something which was hurting. There is no use questioning. So stop doing it, you wont be hurt be and life would be good and enjoyable for everyone.