"Nice Girls"

^See, that's why your pussy count will remain low... because you use words like "feminine side"... that's gayer than George Michael..?

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I use 'masculine' and 'feminine' sides because they are the most general defined terms of gendered behaviour. When it comes to gender I acknowledge the role playing, the games, and the constructs which can often have a restricting effect, i.e. too masculine, too feminine. I try and liberate myself by accepting that two sides of a biology came together to create me, but even then I often dont pay too much attention. You remind me of the people who call other guys pussys for writing poetry etc. I just smile and go merrily on my way.

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Gender roles are great and necessary... sometimes, it's wise to "stifle" emotions... gender behavior is determined more by biology than social forces... homosexuality is a conditioned socialized behavior driven by neutral sexual impulses... a horny man will fuck a hole in the wall when nobody's looking... lesbians still have a desire to be penetrated... there is no biological basis for homo or hetero... we ALL choose..?

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There have been many sociological studies which have proven that social forces shape gendered behaviour much more than biology. See Margaret Mead and the new guinea children study for example. Speaking of antedotes, perhaps you should pick up 'introduction to classical and contemporary readings in sociology' by Mike Marsh, that way you wouldnt appear so ignorant in these matters.

What do you mean??? I didn't change. I kind of did. Okay, yeah...I was a little wild for a hot second, but thank GOD I have matured.

Going by your definition...I'm still a nice girl =op

I have to say that I have faired pretty well. I've had some folks walk/try to walk over me and I've learned lessons from all of that. What hasn't killed me has definitely made me stronger. Plus (bonus!) I'm very happy now in my relationship and he's a nice guy!