Maybe because fat dudes get a bunch of shit from women about how somebody should like them for who they are (but not her), but nobody ever does, so when they finally get in shape, they're resentful as fuck because not only did women reject him, but they lied and mislead him and made him waste years of his goddamn life before he starts looking and feeling good about himself

firstly, if a woman is sugarcoating things to a man to mislead him, that in itself is stupid. i think honestly delivered in a positive manner is always the best way to go from the beginning.also, dont ever believe that a man getting in shape is wasting years of his goddamn life, as u put it. if a man is getting into shape purely for the attention of women, he's got the wrong motive. the need to get in shape should MOSTLY be about wanting to be the best version of yourself. you have to love yourself first in order to love someone else. lastly, say one of these misleading women does talk shit to a man. who said he had to allow those words to consume him and define his sense of self? how he chooses to interpret this is another huge factor in deciding his outlook on life, health and women. @m_a_x

Outlook on life doesn't get you dates. Being an asshole and telling people what you want, and having money and power and control over people gets you dates. You can talk all this nice shit, but every single one of you women are fucking hypocrites and the men aren't any fucking better.

You need to learn how to read English . "waste years of his life BEFORE he gets into shape"

Nope, you don't have to allow it to affect you, you can just stay a fat fucker for years and years because people tell you bullshit like what you just said, and then continue to not get dates. Then when your self-esteem rises, you're a fucking asshole because you realize everybody is a liar and full of fucking shit.

it actually does, you'd be very surprised:)LOL, ok u can believe that. if u want a shitty woman who is shallow, u believe that, please. what I'm talking isn't 'nice shit'. dont talk to me like that. if u bothered to comment on my opinion, at least show a tiny bit of respect for it.

u know what? u obviously have rage and I'm not gonna waste my time and advice on u. like one person makes a mistake and u go off at them like theyre some kind of dimwit. get over urself, because you're flawed. we all are. have a nice life picking up chicks with a shitty attitude like that. @m_a_x

I will have a nice life, because I'm going to continue to get better looking, and you women are all stupid and easy to manipulate and show continuously that you don't have a good eye for character. You're the one whose going to end up suffering because you're going to get stuck with whatever guys decide to approach you. I'll continue to make good money, and show up every stupid bitch who thought she was some goddamn body.

You can say whatever the fuck you want, but people lie. Their actions are what tell the truth, and this is what I get from the actions of all the women that I see, on here and in real life.

I'm single and I'd say I'm average looking -- maybe a little above if I'm feeling generous. But I don't think my chances are good. Mostly because girls have unrealistic expectations that I don't meet and partly because I live in a city where it's hard to meet people and I'm unlucky in the people I meet on top of it. Thankfully I'm not bothered because id rather be single at the moment anyway. I'd like a good friends with benefits but it's not worth running the gauntlet so I'll just do my own thing.