Psssst, you're all a bunch of middle class white dudes. Kindly shut the **** up about how you *think* womens rights "should be like". You have no idea what it's like to be one and can't judge them. Doing so is called being a complete asshole.

im 17 and in the army reserves, i leave for Fort jackson to do my basic in the summer, and but during this period of time that i am off, there are females in my unit 89 Bravo(ammunition specialist), and the one girl refused to do drill because her legs were a little sore, so my CO walked up to her and said honey im sorry but THIS AINT ******* ELEMENTARY SCHOOL NOW PICK UP THE SLACK OR LEAVE THIS UNIT, and i just laughed my ass off hearing him scream this in the distance

I literally had to explain this 3 days ago. Equal treatment pertains to not valuing male over female or making assumptions based on gender. Pulling out a chair or holding the door for a girl is called being nice, most of us don't expect it, but appreciate it. Honestly I don't see the points of sexist posts (whether female to male or male to female) no one is going to go "You know, that picture I saw on the internet really makes me re-evaluate my opinion and expectations of the opposite gender. Thank you FunnyJunk for making me a more open-minded person". This is the internet, let's laugh at cats, watch porn, and call it a day.

There's a difference between genders, okay? Gender roles exist because of those. Obviously, there will always be uncategorizable people, as with any division.
But it's the way of life. Guys, you open doors and pull out chairs for her. No, you don't get anything in return. Deal with it.