Well the first time I was fingered I was 13 years old., now I'm 14 and still a virgin. I still have the same boyfriend. He has regular sized fingers for a boy and it didn't hurt me when he did it. I stayed relaxed and let him go in. I though It would hurt but it was great., he still sometimes fingers me and it gets better and better(:

i have never gotten fingered but i think that most people enjoy getting fingered than having sex... dnt u feel like wats the point of getting fingered by a guy who doesn't really rate u.... watever a guy does to the girl should be in accordance to wat the girl wants but its like girls nowadays are interested in keeping a man than having a relationship whereby they will be loved and adored for who they are and not what they give.... if u dnt like getting fingered DNT LET IT HAPPEN THEN.... if ur a virgin, u can get disvirgined by being fingered... a true guy will respect a girl's view no matter what the sexual romantic state is.

The first time i got fingered was during this past winter break and it didnt hurt at all...

But the other night when i went camping with my Newest boyfriend who has had kinda alot of experience he started fingering me and it didnt hurt at first but then he started going harder and deeper im guessing and maybe using atleast 2-3 fingers he started hurting me!!! i felt like i wanted to cry when it hurt really badly but i didnt say anything about it i just kept going with it. He fingered me so hard that i still kinda hurt.

Well if you haven't noticed (not trying to be rude) but a lot of these answers are not the same. Some of them said it did hurt and some said that it didn't. I guess it really depends on the person. For me it didn't hurt, and I don't use tampons or anything. But also i'm very active athlete. I don't know if that has to deal with anything or not. So like what everyone else said just stayed relax and just enjoy the experience. Hoped this helped :)

I was 17 when i fingered this girl for the first time when i did it for the 1st time it hurt her abit becuaes i went in to far after that she loved it and she just wanted me do it all time. She was turned on by the time i had finished she loved it. Just makesure your relaxed

i thought that it did hurt, it felt like i put a tampon in wrong...i dont think he did it wrong cause he's did it before. So im guessing it was because i was tight or something. but the first time i had to tell him to stop...but the second it felt pretty good.

Hi im am 14 years old right now and very petite. & this is wierd telling like a older person. But I am a virgin and my boyfriend fingered me for the first time the other day and it didnt hurt at all. If you use a tampon for your periods it really shouldnt hurt as much, but then again if the person has big fingers it may change your experience. well i hoped this helped coming from a girl whos new to this.

Well I got fingered for the first time today and I'm 15 and a virgin. It was really painful for me? But I was a bit scared, and not really in the mood in fairness, so hopefully next time it'll be better :)

hello, well I got fingered for my first time when i was 15. No actualy it doesn't hurt at all. You just have to be really relaxed. Let him do his thing. Do make sure your turned on and wet, otherwise it might be painful. He should start off with one finger and gently, make sure to tell him if it hurts or if not. Don't be afraid to let him know, after a while you'll start reaching your climax and it feels amazingg! (: have fun, and be safe.

hi, it doesent really hurt, ive been fingered now nearly everyday and im pretty much used to it, hes started to put four fingers in and this hurt a wee bit, well put it this way ive had more pain, just go along with it and if you feel uncomfortable dont let them peer pressure you into it! xxx hope this was good advice xx

when i got fingered the first time , it hurt pretty bad .. but i got over it . the last time i got fingered it didnt hurt at all and my boyfriend used 3 fingers . it just depends on how many fingers he uses and how hard he does it i guess .-

yes the first time u get fingered is sore, it was 4 me, but my bf just did a lil but at a time and now i love it, so if it hurts den stop and nxt time try again but stop once it gets sore or else it wil reli hurt

my boyfriend has fingered me LOTS of times. and honestly, it felt good. like the first time, it felt like it kind of hurt, but then he kept doing it and i got used to it. he's done it quite a lot, and the more he does it, the more wet i get :). it feels sooo sooo good .

have him put 2 of his fingers in between your clit, and have him go in circles. its AMAZING !

The first time i got fingered was last year when i was a freshman in college. Me and this guy was in public pool at college and nobody was there but me, the guy, and the lifeguard. We did a little kissing, and then his hand went down to my vagina. I thought he was just gonna do a little touch, but he actually stuck his finger in, and did his thing. Did it hurt? No, not for me. I just felt that something was inside of me, and i am a virgin so i was pretty new at the thing. And while he was doing it, i kinda moaned and stuff. Did it feel good? Up til today i ask that question. It felt good, and didnt hurt.

well im 14. i got fingered when i was 13 by the boy i love with all my heart. when he 1st fingered me i was pretty nervous, but then, omg i have to say it was my best feeling of all... honestly if feels very good and it doesnt hurt at all. && for you not to be nervous just try youself first. believe meh it would be a very good feeling.

The first time you are fingered it might hurt just a bit. when i got fingered for the first time it didnt hurt during it. the only time i felt the pain was afterwards. its not tht bad. but being fingered is soo much fun! it feels soo good too! if you are nervous try doing it yourself before you have someone else do it!

okay im 13 and my boyfriend has like really huge fingers. it actually hurt really badly when he fingered me for the first time but i dont think i was that realaxed. I hope that maybe for nextt time ;] il be relaxed like these people say and hopefully itl feel goood

i was 13 when i frist got fingered and i eally wasnt ready for it but it felt stangely good. but now 5 years later im with a guy i love and he really amazing in everyway. but it doesnt hurt it feels really gooooood

Heey I am 13 years old , my boy friend has fingered me before. I was really nervous but he told me to relax and it felt really good , and I am still a virgin too , not ready to give my virginity yet , but yeah it feels amazing and it didnt hurt me my fist time. The hard he went it felt AMAZING.

Well wen i got fingered it didnt hurt me. jus felt uncomfortable but thats only because i wasn't relaxed and was very nervous but wen he did to me again i was realy wet n felt sooooo good :)! main key is to RELAX AND ENJOY!!

I'm 13 and my Ex fingered me. It didn't really hurt. Actually it felt good. But my advice would be that if you think your boyfriend is going to finger you. First, you guys should make out so you'll be in the "mood" because it doesnt hurt when you're horny. Hope this helped. [:

I'm 13 and my Ex fingered me. It didn't really hurt. Actually it felt good. But my advice would be that if you think your boyfriend is going to finger you. First, you guys should make out so you'll be in the "mood" because it doesnt hurt when you're horny. Hope this helped. [:

Honestly, if you have been using tampons for a given time period, then it should not hurt, but then again every body is defferent. The vagina may become a little sore if the person doing it is rough, but it shouldn't cause sever pain.

i just got fingered for the first time a couple days ago. it helps if he rubs on your vagina before he does it, that makes you more wet. im a virgin too. his fingers are pretty big, and im pretty sure he used fingers, and he was going HARD - and it still didnt hurt at all. it felt AMAZING. idk if its just my luck, but it really didnt hurt. i could feel it a little bit afterwards, but it still didnt hurt. so i guess it just depends on the person? like i dont use super tampons either, i just used regular.

The first time I got fingered it hurt alittle bit. It was more of a pinching pain. The more fingers your partner uses the more your vagina will get stretched out, which could hurt alittle. But don't be nervous, it feels amazing after awhile. You first have to get really wet or use enough lubricant for it not to pinch. If you use tampons it shouldn't hurt at all. Getting fingered before you have sex is a really good idea cause it can prepare you for having sex, it'll help it not hurt as much. Good luck and relax, getting fingered is an amazing feeling :]

when it first happened to me yes it hurt but it was because i wasnt relaxed and i was very nervous and also a virgin, but then we did it again a few nights later and i was relaxed and he took it slow. And if your a virgin start out with just one finger and if your not wet enough lick his finger that will turn him on, but like i said start off with one finger then eventually you will be loose enough or not as tight to do two. just have fun and relax.

Personally, all the times i've been fingered it's not painful at all and it just feels good. I'm still a virgin, but everyone says sex is what realllly hurts the first time. If it hurts at all being fingered, just tell the guy to take it easy. It should be fine though. Have fun!

i was hooking up with this guy, for about an hour and within that hour he fingered me maybe 4 times. the first time it hurt a lot, the second time it hurt a lot but not as bad as the first time, the third time it didnt hurt but it didnt feel good, and the fourth time hurt a little. i guess, it depends what direction hes putting it in how hard he is fingering you and how often. i dont know, ive only done it once but i hope this helped. his fingers were big!

not if he does it right but he's not a mind reader so you're going to have to talk him through it. If something's not comfortable, tell him it's not. If something feels good, tell him about it. You can also direct him with your hands to help find a pressure that's good for you. Just try keep communication open and it should be enjoyable.

It can, but it can also be really really nice. Be sure that you are wet enough, he can do that by stimulating your clitoris. If it hurts, tell him to go slow, and by the time he is in, it will start feeling good. Dont worry about it and be sure to relax.