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Question: How often do you have the chance to vent, without being judged?

I for one, and sure that I'm not alone, don't get to vent very often. Today I really need to and have no one to go to. SO share with me your frustrations! Anything at all!

Here's mine:

This morning, my 18 month old woke up the same way he always does. Crying. Because he wants out of his crib. Well his dad woke up first. I wake up to him yellin at my baby boy. "I'm so sick of hearing you F@#*ing cry!" I sat straight up and said "I'm soo sick of hearing you talk like that to my son!" Of course, fight. And my boy and I are now homeless. But You know what?! I'm going to protect my baby boy from as much as I can. And I sure as hell ain't gonna let his own dad treat him like that!!

you're defiantly not alone. i dont have anyone left but a couple friends. but they like to talk bout their problems but not listen to mine. my entire family moved way across country. i joined cafemom lookin for people that know what i go through on a daily basis

Quoting Blue_Spiral:

I tried venting on cafemom a few times and got nothing but bizarre and cruel answers. I only come on here when I feel like I need someone who doesn't know me.

we're warm and safe tonight. his dads mom is lettin us stay for tonight. but tomorrow will be an adventure. all my family lives thousands of miles from us and unfortuntley, the few friends that i have are in their own awkward living situations.

Quoting maryjmom:

OP, where are you at? Are you at a shelter, or a friends house, or family?

Exactly how I feel. If he hadn't threated to beat the $#!% out of me, I would've lost it. But its better that I stay the calm one, and not make threats. Better for me in the end.

Same here. He wonders why I blow up and break down. I can't do everything and be expected to hold it all in and never let it come out. Especially when it comes to my child! I ain't going to ignore it! I'm one of those people that if someone at the store hit my stroller and just keeps on goin; I speak up! Better believe it lol.

Quoting Anonymous:

Sadly with him acting like that you're better off homeless.I'd be homeless too but he'd be getting stitches to fix his mouth after I busted it for being so damn stupid.

I never get to vent. if I say anything it's just me being a bitch. So. I just let it build up then explode. No its not healthy but that's life.

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