[Ask a Girl] Sexual Frequency...

Just curious... Whether you are married or dating, serious or not how often do you have sex? Weekly, Daily, Hourly, Monthly? What is considered too often and what is considered healthy in your opinion?

There is no such thing normal or abnormal, we are all different, does not Mather how mush, all what important is that you are happy of what you get. More or less is up to the couple. Why have it another way? Have you seen a rule some where that you should have this mush? Base on what?

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Just curious... Whether you are married or dating, serious or not how often do you have sex? Weekly, Daily, Hourly, Monthly? What is considered too often and what is considered healthy in your opinion?

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The boyfriend and I don't live together, so it's about every two days. But when we can really spend time together, it's two or three times a day.

I never worry about what "is considered" anything. What other people consider too often is beneath my concern.

My gf and I usually see each other 3 days a week and I'm interested in sex each taime we hang out but yesterday she said she wants to have sex less and she thinks I only care about that aspect because she's never dated a guy that wanted it each time they hung out.

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You also have to factor in time together, family situation (kids, work), etc.

In my case, in our first 10 yrs together, it was damn near daily, sometimes multiple times on weekends. But when you've been together longer than NurseHarley's been alive, add in running a business, kids and their schedules, family obligations (mother in law's been very ill), and you take what you can get, so two to three times a week, unless we are on vacation without the kids....

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My gf and I usually see each other 3 days a week and I'm interested in sex each taime we hang out but yesterday she said she wants to have sex less and she thinks I only care about that aspect because she's never dated a guy that wanted it each time they hung out.

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check the profile bro.

......well in one of your threads you DID say you focus on sex more. maybe take it easy for a while.

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......well in one of your threads you DID say you focus on sex more. maybe take it easy for a while.

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Checked often LOL

Get up, check profile, eat, check profile, take kids to where ever they need to go, check profile, eat lunch, check profile, work, check profile while working, eat dinner, check profile, take kids to practice, take laptop to pratice and check profile, check profile before bed, get up in middle of night and check profile......LOL...

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My gf and I usually see each other 3 days a week and I'm interested in sex each taime we hang out but yesterday she said she wants to have sex less and she thinks I only care about that aspect because she's never dated a guy that wanted it each time they hung out.

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I'm on your gf's side. I mean, I'm interested in sex each time the boyfriend and I hang out, but you should try to have a whole relationship with her and not just hang out and have sex. "Hanging out" is one way for a relationship to be in a rut. Go out on dates. Go out for the whole day and do activities together. Have fun together out in public. With your clothes on, I mean. Be a well-rounded couple.

I can't help wondering, though, about those guys who didn't want sex each time they hung out with a girl. Did her foreign exchange program send her to another planet?

Maybe I should mention she's on her period and really stressed out about some personal things in her life and her mood swings are ridiculous!?
When she is acting 'normal' she always comments how much she loves the sex.