Friday, September 11, 2015

The minute we forget we make ourselves vulnerable for it to happen again.

THAT DAY
Always remember, never forget the terror, the fear, the loss that you felt that day.
Too many innocent people lost their lives that day.
Heroes were born, and then many perished, that day.
Fear was instilled in the American people that day.
Unity was brought out in America that day.
Our freedom was attacked, but we resolved to fight back that day.
American became stronger in the adversity that day.
People helped strangers that day.
We have been silent for those attacks for fourteen years since that day.
Families have missed loved ones every second since that day.
We need to remember what made us strong that day.
Let us forget our differences and return to the resolve to stand united that we felt THAT DAY.

Chronology8:46 AM Plane crashes into the north tower of the World Trade Center.9:03 AM Plane crashes into the south tower of the World Trade Center.9:17 AM The Federal Aviation Administration (FAA) shuts down all New York City area airports.9:21 AM The Federal Aviation Administration (FAA) halts all flights at U.S. airports. It is the firsttime in history that air traffic has been halted nationwide.9:38 AM Plane crashes into the Pentagon. Evacuation begins immediately.9:45 AM The White House evacuates.10:05 AM The south tower of the World Trade Center collapses.10:10 AM A portion of the Pentagon collapses.10:10 AM Plane crashes in Somerset County, Pennsylvania.10:22 AM The State and Justice Departments, as well as the World Bank are evacuated.10:28 AM The World Trade Center’s north tower collapses.10:45 AM All federal office buildings in Washington, D.C. are evacuated.1:44 PM Five warships and two aircraft carriers are ordered to leave the U.S. Naval Stationin Norfolk, Virginia to protect the East Coast.4:10 PM Building 7 of the World Trade Center collapses.

The FlightsAmerican Airlines Flight 11From: Boston, Massachusetts (Logan Airport)To: Los Angeles, CaliforniaLives: 92 people on boardCrashed into North Tower of World Trade Center at 8:46 AM

United Airlines Flight 175From: Boston, Massachusetts (Logan Airport)To: Los Angeles, CaliforniaLives: 65 people on boardCrashed into South Tower of World Trade Center at 9:03 AM

The initial numbers are indelible: 8:46 a.m. and 9:02 a.m, the times the Towers were hit. Time the burning towers stood: 56 minutes and 102 minutes. Time they took to fall: 12 seconds. From there, they ripple out.

Friday, August 7, 2015

So summer is wrapping up around here as I have to prepare for my fall semester. I have a full-time contract with Slippery Rock University and I'm so excited. I will be teaching Public Speaking, and hopefully making it interesting and fun for my students.

I am also working on a couple of projects that are "work-related"...an article with my dissertation director; a presentation for a conference in April; and a book with an artist in England. I am most excited about the book, but must prepare for the semester first.

My neighbor is having a baby in September, so that means another baby blanket is in the works. My mother told her friend I'd make her a ruffle scarf...so that needs to be done. I'm still working on an afghan for D and I...it will let both of us snuggle under one blanket while watching TV. I am also trying my hand at a shadow box for Mom. I have some of Dad's badges and memorabilia from his time in the Air Force and his work in the steel mill and I'm looking for pictures to include. Needless to say, the dreams/nightmares are back as I'm trying to do this...lots of sleepless nights. But, I want to have it finished by the anniversary of his death (9/14) for Mom. My brother originally said he would do it, but it has sat in one of Dad's jewelry boxes and never got started, so I took it to get it done.

I'm also trying to plan a girls' weekend with one of my friends and a 10th anniversary get-away with D for my Christmas break as family concerns kept us from going around our anniversary.

Life is busy, but I need to blog more as it does help me work through some stuff. Miss my readers! Please say "Hi" if you're still out there.

Tuesday, June 23, 2015

Mom, brother & I went to the cemetery and placed flowers and an angel on Dad's grave. Glad I drove and had to focus because I was having trouble holding it together. From there my sister-in-law, who was dog-sitting, was able to meet us for lunch. It was really nice to sit around and talk with the family. Mom had me do some running to different stores for her. Mom doesn't drive.

After that I came home and started going through old photo albums. Made a collage for Facebook, posted below. BIG MISTAKE!! Spent the rest of the night crying. Crawled into bed and couldn't sleep...go figure.

Monday, March 23, 2015

What a bad, bad blogger I have become. My last post was on New Year's Eve. Well, here's a bit of an update on my life (and somewhat of an excuse as to why I've been MIA):

As you know we lost Dad on September 14, 2014 and I had a rough time with that.

After that work was very busy catching up from a rough start to the semester. Then there were all the first holidays to deal with and I wasn't prepared for how hard they would be. I mean, I knew they would be rough, but they were truly devastating (although I tried to put on a good face for Mom, brother, and the relatives...especially the kids).

The Saturday before Christmas I received a call...the biopsy came back malignant; I had breast cancer. Except for my Mother, D's parents, and our brothers we refused to tell anyone until after the holidays. Mom was a mess, as you can only imagine. I wasn't much better, but I've been through so much medical stuff that my plan was just to beat it an move on.

January and February were full of doctors appointments because when you are a heart patient, with a pacemaker, radiation becomes dangerous. There were so many precautions that needed to be taken: stress tests, ekgs, echocardiograms, etc. etc. My pacemaker was checked daily throughout radiation. Loads of fun.

My oncologist chose a new "targeted" radiation as our best option. So on February 26, I had the lumpectomy; the following Friday I had a procedure to insert a catheter for the radiation to go through. Then, over Spring Break I had radiation treatments 2x a day for 5 days. And it was done. It was the worst Spring Break ever!! During the process, luckily almost at the end, I picked up the stomach flu which made things really nasty.

That was last week. I'm back to normal now with a pile of projects on my desk to be done. I have regular schoolwork; an article; a children's book; 2 presentations; and other research I want to do. One day at a time I try to knock things off the list. The idea is to keep moving forward one day at a time.

So far Mom, brother and I have gotten through their anniversary, Thanksgiving, Christmas, and just today...Mom's birthday, as firsts without Dad. It's a painful, but necessary process that we will deal with for the rest of our lives. There is a big hole that Dad used to fill.

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I am married to the most wonderful man I have ever met. My dog, Soxy, is one of the biggest parts of my life...rescuing her from the pound is one of the best decisions we have ever made! Unfortunately, we lost Soxy to kidney failure in April 2017. However, we have since rescued Pepper in July and we are working through the puppy energy one day at a time. I received my PhD in Rhetoric in 2013. I love my life exactly how it is, except for that missing piece. My family is my world...both the one I was born into and the one I married into.