I like to wait awhile so I feel like I know them pretty well first, but it's not a set number of dates either. I usually wait around a month or so if we've been seeing each other pretty often.

this is the first post with any kind of time limit. i usually waited until i felt comfortable with someone. for me, being a guy and being me, it was important for me to feel comfortable...likely for obvious reasons. anyway, i think it can be a good thing to have a limit, if you know that you do better with that stipulation. thanks for the post.