Like A Fine Wine: Have Better Sex As You Age

So, you’re not in your 20’s anymore. No, no, don’t be offended, in this situation, it’s a good thing. Wine and cheese aren’t the only things that get better with age. We’re talking about sex! And admit it, things are better now. You’re no longer a fumbling, bumbling teenager, nervously trying to figure things out in the sheets. Nor are you the callous, overconfident college brat trying to nail everything that moves. You sir, are a mature, experienced, sexual man.

Things may not be as explosive now, but they are more erotic. You’ve been around the block, slept with plenty of chicks, watched lots of porn, maybe even dabbled in the more depraved side of things (how was that?), and you’ve learned a thing or two. It isn’t about just taking anymore. Now, you’re a giver. And you can give her the hottest sex she’s ever had, thanks to your experience, and your carefully cultivated, more mature ability to focus on what she wants.

Think about some of the gorgeous, mature women in Hollywood (‘mature’ in this instance is referring to women over 40). Look at Selma Hayek, Halle Berry, or even Helen Mirren. We’ve got hotties from their forties to their seventies, all extremely bangable. What do you think they’re looking for in sex now? These women have been around the block, too. It’s a meeting of equals. With your combined decades of experience and experimentation, things in the bedroom are going to be insane. Have lots of cigarettes on standby.

Maybe, at this point in your life, you’re ready to ratchet things up. According to WebMD, men truly do have a stronger sex drive than women, and guess what? It’s not decreasing with age. But if you’re having a hard time finding women who crave sex as fervently and regularly as you do, you may need to explore new avenues. As the immortal Steve Martin said, “Sex is one of the most wholesome, beautiful and natural experiences that money can buy.” Hey man, we don’t judge here, do what you need to do!

Even better, take a page out of Christian Grey’s book, Fifty Shades of Grey, and learn from that. Granted it’s one of the most horribly written, unoriginal, cliché romances in existence, but it does get the women hot. So, get some red paint, load up on supplies from Fascinations, and designate one of your rooms as the ‘go zone’. Role play. Experiment. You might be surprised at what you’re capable of, open to, and good at!

In summary, your hair might be turning silver, and you may pull muscles easier than you used to, but your sex drive isn’t going anywhere, and things can only get better from here!