I don't really understand the aversion to mess with period sex. Sex is always messy, period or not (okay, I guess it's not that messy if it's the kind where you think of England...)

My periods don't stop me/us from having sex, but I hate getting blood on the sheets. I don't know if we have super-absorbent sheets or if the natural laundry products I use just aren't up to par, but unless I scour the sheets for stains and clean them immediately after sex (which is not what I want do after sex...), the stains are there for good. SO while I don't mind period sex, I totally understand other people's hesitation. Sheets are expensive!

Another one for period sex (with towels, dark sheets or just getting them into a cold wash really quickly afterwards!). I was looking forward to maybe trying pregnancy sex as well if I got the opportunity but I have absolutely no libido at all, it's really disappointing!

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I don't really understand the aversion to mess with period sex. Sex is always messy, period or not (okay, I guess it's not that messy if it's the kind where you think of England...)

My periods don't stop me/us from quietly playing chess, but I hate getting blood on the sheets. I don't know if we have super-absorbent sheets or if the natural laundry products I use just aren't up to par, but unless I scour the sheets for stains and clean them immediately after sex (which is not what I want do after sex...), the stains are there for good. SO while I don't mind period sex, I totally understand other people's hesitation. Sheets are expensive!

Yeah, other sex messes would hopefully be washable but I've had enough fun trying to clean underwear/ pajamas/ sheets that I've accidentally bled on in the past to know that if I ever have sex while on my period I'll put a dark towel underneath. And be careful about moving around afterwards, in case of dripping.

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I'm getting lots of sexytimes now! It's been a great mood boost over the past week. I'm definitely enjoying getting to know this side of my guy and learning what is good for us. There is such an intimacy with him that was missing with so many of the other guys I've shagged.

Also, I'm okay with period sex... it's not always as good, but sometimes it's better. Haven't encountered it with the new guy yet, but he seems the type to be okay with it.

Hahaha oh I've encountered the tongue-mashing problem before. I mean, I don't understand where people get the idea that tongue-mashing = good kissing. Poor guy. Maybe he was just too drunk?

Some people might enjoy that though. I find it's a matter of adjusting to the other person involved. Obviously, if they can't take a cue, it becomes a problem. Some people initially find me too aggressive, whereas others like that kind of thing.

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vegetalion wrote:

tinglepants! wrote:

I don't really understand the aversion to mess with period sex. Sex is always messy, period or not (okay, I guess it's not that messy if it's the kind where you think of England...)

My periods don't stop me/us from quietly playing chess, but I hate getting blood on the sheets. I don't know if we have super-absorbent sheets or if the natural laundry products I use just aren't up to par, but unless I scour the sheets for stains and clean them immediately after sex (which is not what I want do after sex...), the stains are there for good. SO while I don't mind period sex, I totally understand other people's hesitation. Sheets are expensive!

I don't like period sex. During that time of the month, I'm not interested in it at all. But yes, towels if you're gonna do it!

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I don't like period sex. During that time of the month, I'm not interested in it at all. But yes, towels if you're gonna do it!

Yeah, I kind of use my period as a time to be holed up in my ugliest clothes with an excuse. It's not that I'm not attracted to my partner or turned on, it's just that those few days of my period make for some comfy asexual alone-times. We both like the occasional gap in sexy times because it always makes the next time even more exciting. I sometimes give him some love, but I prefer not to be attended to during the crampy bloody days.

We had some really good sex tonight. Really. Good. And then I wasn't in time trying to put something under us to catch the by-product and it oozed out all over my hand. That was unpleasant (though not so much that it overshadowed the awesomeness of the sexin').

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So, no big deal - Mike just made me orgasm without my help (i.e., he did all the work). First time ever. Woo! And it was so intense that I almost passed out during and fell asleep about 5 minutes after we were done. Awesome.

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