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Im not sure what to tell my brother.... My brother was injured in Afghanistan on 10/2008 he lost 3 fingers, left eye and hearing from his left ear his left side on his face is disfigured looks good his had lots of surgeries.... Him and his wife broke up 5 months ago, not sure of the reason (she is a cold hearted *****) she is a dependable person he will do everything for her and his kids boy 3yrs old and girl 10. He still does, he pays for her apt and gives her about $600 a month and still drives her around if she need it, my brother kept the boy with him and she "took" the girl, my brother has those kids all day she picks up the girl after 9 pm and drops her off by 9am she only takes her to sleep... We are angry at him because he didnt do divorce or custody papers, which he should do fir both kids, she doesnt even take the boy in weekends... I cannot go more than two days without seeing my boy how could she.... She claims to be a good mother and whenever we tell my bro something he gets mad.., we want him to get some balls and stop been so nice to her when she dont appreciate it, she dont work but wants to live alone....she takes advantage of him.. She is 29yrs old should be a mature person..

Im not sure what to tell my brother.... My brother was injured in Afghanistan on 10/2008 he lost 3 fingers, left eye and hearing from his left ear his left side on his face is disfigured looks good his had lots of surgeries.... Him and his wife broke up 5 months ago, not sure of the reason (she is a cold hearted *****) she is a dependable person he will do everything for her and his kids boy 3yrs old and girl 10. He still does, he pays for her apt and gives her about $600 a month and still drives her around if she need it, my brother kept the boy with him and she "took" the girl, my brother has those kids all day she picks up the girl after 9 pm and drops her off by 9am she only takes her to sleep... We are angry at him because he didnt do divorce or custody papers, which he should do fir both kids, she doesnt even take the boy in weekends... I cannot go more than two days without seeing my boy how could she.... She claims to be a good mother and whenever we tell my bro something he gets mad.., we want him to get some balls and stop been so nice to her when she dont appreciate it, she dont work but wants to live alone....she takes advantage of him.. She is 29yrs old should be a mature person..

wow. that is so cold! how can anyone take advantage like that? unfortunately sounds like a situation your brother is going ro have to be ready to give up.himself. he probably thinks taking care of her is just another way to be there for hos.kids and hes probably scared.of making her mad and having her get vengeful.

wow. that is so cold! how can anyone take advantage like that? unfortunately sounds like a situation your brother is going ro have to be ready to give up.himself. he probably thinks taking care of her is just another way to be there for hos.kids and hes probably scared.of making her mad and having her get vengeful.

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