Most Helpful Guy

Here's how: you accept the fact that he made a decision, and it was entirely his to make, and if it really was a bad decision then he will eventually realize it and he will be in more pain than you will ever imagine, but if it was a good decision then he will be a better person for it.

(if you haven't caught on by now, I'll be more explicit: no action on your part can make him feel regret. Regret, in this context, means feeling sad or repentant over one's own past action. ONE'S OWN PAST ACTION. Not your action. His action. Your actions do not qualify as actions that he can regret.)

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Most Helpful Girl

The best 'revenge' is showing them that you're perfectly fine without them.Resorting to devious tactics in an effort to get them to come 'crawling' back (even though he broke up with you?) is most likely only going to end with him being glad it's over.

What Guys Said 14

You are seeking revenge and that is a bad thing to do. You can not make someone like or love you. If he comes back, it will be because he wants to. Doing what you want to do only makes sure he never will. He made a decision that he thinks is best for him. Accept it and move on rather than do what you are doing. You are the one you are hurting, not him. Do the right thing.

text him. blame everything on him and then shove ur happiness on his face. go out click lots of photos show that ur happy etc. dont block him on any social media. just pretend he doesn't exist for you anymore. he l come back crawling.

Since you use the words "cralling back to you," it seems like you want him, but dont want to do any of the work. Did he cheat on you? Did you break up with him? The more information we have about your situation, the better we can all help you.

any firsthand form of mental bending is going to sour his vision of what you were like during the relationship. if the reason for breaking up was because of manipulation in the first place then you may of just concreted yourself in a cast. if you want to keep what you had before instead of forcing him to humiliate himself personally to you then you might be the one to do the crawling. apart from that his mental state (and the state of his social/friend group) is what you're fighting and if he sees enough benefit from being with you then he may ask for you back.

As long as you try to make him jealous he will feel as he has won cuz you obviously care about what he thinks. Just move on and be happy that will hurt him more, knowing you could be happy with someone else

I've never personally purposely tried to influence my exes regret of having ended the relationship. In my experience I've just in general been a very considerate and understand friend to my exes after and they usually end up confessing to me either their regret, their want to get back together or both. I wouldn't suggest giving kindness so freely as a lot of people cannot take or accept the fact that often you never really get any in return. my best suggestion is to move on with your life and worry little of what has occurred in the past. Making your ex feeling guilty for leaving you will only show him that he made the right choice to leave you.