During the shower, held in the penthouse of The Mark Hotel, Meghan and her friends enjoyed a bespoke menu provided by the hotel’s head chef and culinary expert Jean-Georges Vongerichten,” who customizes just about everything,” says a hotel spokesperson. To drink? Mostly mocktails, adds a guest.

The group also enjoyed a flower-arranging lesson. Creations were then gifted to pediatric cancer patients at Ronald McDonald House Charities of New York and others through the charity Repeat Roses.