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Posts from June, 2007

The first important thing about being confident with women is exercising the best quality in them.

Everyone has a noticeable and appreciable quality in them, which most people will admire. To have confidence with women, one must remember this great quality about them and use it to the maximum. It is also good to think of how a woman would look at you. This will allow you to remind yourself that you have certain priceless qualities about yourself.

“You need to make sure that the woman you are trying to impress does not notice your nervousness.”

You can think of any great topic to have a conversation with her, and you must be at ease with it. If you are at ease with the topic, there is no way that you are going to feel embarrassed about yourself. To make things easier for you, try interacting with women every day at your work place. If you take a step every day, this will be a step forward towards achieving great confidence among women.

You could also note what women like in you, and what kind of conversation they like the most. If this works fine, and you have impressed one woman, it is sure to work with another. You can repeat the success steps with other women you meet.

Once you know that you are gaining confidence with each step, the next time round you will be more confident. You will not hesitate to approach a woman if you like her. You need not to judge a woman by her looks too and get intimidated, if she is too beautiful.

They may not be the best women you have met. It is always advisable to treat all women alike, as it is the chemistry that matters in the end. It is extremely important to also tell yourself that you need to conquer your fears.

If you are specifically afraid of something, it is important to take effort and work towards conquering that particular negative point. It could be anything from starting a conversation with a woman to smiling at her. This method of conquering fear will go a long way in allowing you to build your confidence with women.

In today’s fast life, it is important for one to have confidence to face the challenges of the world.

It is also important, because it is the single aspect which can help you achieve goals. Building confidence is important for all walks of life. It is required in personal relationships, at work places, and especially when you need to take major decisions at a stage in life.

Confidence sources can be looked at in three different ways. First it will come from within yourself, second you can get it from others, and third achieving something can also build your confidence a great deal.

“If you think that many people have naturally built their confidence, you can be sure that they have worked on it. And it is not too difficult to build yours too.”

You can go about it using several methods. First, you may use a role model whom you greatly admire. It could be someone in the family, or someone related to the work you do. You can look at how they work, and also how they achieve their goals. By looking at them, you will understand that if one person can do it, so can others.

Next you should stop criticizing yourself, and understand that everyone makes mistake. You must forget the mistake, and work towards making a better choice.

You should only focus on how you can succeed the next time, instead of brooding about how you did not perform well in the past. It is also vital to set realistic goals, and work towards them step by step.

This will ensure that you are steadily working towards building confidence step by step. New age philosophy has many practical ideas, on how to build confidence. Being relaxed in the mind, and also being good to yourself is a good way to start. If you are too nervous to be by yourself, it is good to also attend group gatherings who are working on building confidence.

Confidence will also relate to any task that you are doing. So you can prepare yourself well, for any goal you have set for yourself.

The lack of confidence is a problem faced by millions of people, who are weak in being independent.

If we look at self-confidence, we can say that people are not independent if they lack it. But there is also the confidence of an individual in others, especially when it comes to social or political security. We look at this as a negative emotion, because it stunts the growth of an individual.

“Most of the time, people who lack in confidence of any kind always tend to live in the past.”

They are always worried that things could have been done in a different way. They will refuse to look forward, and will not be able to see what better things can be done. Lack of confidence will involve a great deal of emotions. They include guilt, anger and fear.

An unforgiving attitude is also another sign of lack in self-confidence. First, the individual fails to forgive him or her, and also fails to forgive others. He might feel that there is no way to forget the mistakes, and try to start all over again. These people who lack in confidence are also too critical.

They always find a way to criticize themselves and the others who are involved with them.

It is very important for the individuals who lack confidence to believe that, the situation is not always the same always. You always do certain things at a certain time, because you feel the time is right to do so. It is unfair to you and to others, to cling to the past.

You must also remember that now you may be more mature than what you were in the past, and would do things differently.

One must not allow the past to make yourself believe that, there is no way to improve your actions. It should also be remembered that those mistakes will help you learn, and you will become a person with more confidence to face the world. Humankind has evolved for years, and it is also natural to do so now. If you do not have confidence, remember that no one was born perfect.