Asian males and white females are the ones who make the beautiful white-looking babies Asian women dream of

Being the genetic garbage of a white man and asian woman these are my thoughts- As for the age of alpha being over, certainly the propaganda is being layed thicker than ever, especially on the internet and in pop culture. but maybe thats just the last gasp? Anyway the racial hierachy of blacks being the most alpha, and Asians the most omega, certainly supports the whole alpha-beta theory. White girls go for the more masculine black males, but Asian girls go for the more masculine white girls. And Asian males are left at the bottom of the pit. What kind of Asian male would move to America? Only one who already has a family, or who is planning on moving back after his career. Its as bad for Asian males now as it was in 1840s California. The 1840s generation basically went extinct. This time we brought over some females, but they seem hell-bent in bringing about the 2nd extinction of Asian-America. I only exist as an Asian-American male because my Asian female mom married my white male dad. If white females had been as treasonous in the 1840s as Asian women are today maybe the 1st wave of Asian-America wouldn’t have went extinct. Could you imagine that? Asians were part of the 1st wave of non-WASP immigration, they came with the Irish and German 48ers. They were subject to pogroms worse than what the Jews had in Russia or the Blacks after Reconstruction. And yet Asian women are happy to sleep with the descendants of this who profited from this. As part of the 48 generation, Asian-Americans are just as American as Irish and Germans and MORE American than Italians, Jews, Eastern Europeans, Greeks, Russians, Polish, Hungarians, etc. Could you imagine an America that was 1/3 Asian with more Asians than irish and Germans? 1850s California was 1/3 Asian. Miscegenation laws were passed to keep Asian men off white women. So yeah interracial marriage is a big fucking deal tied to the death of the Asian-America that could have been. And now Asian women want to kill of the 2nd Asian-American wave. IF they have their way, there will be no Asians here in 2060. Just like there were barely any left before the 2nd wave began in 1964. In addition to biology and culture, we have the political-military situation of Asians being not just the foreigner by the enemy. Whites rule, Blacks have been here as long as whites thanks to slavery, Latinos have been here since the Mexican war and have the Christian/Iberian western heritage. So Asians the most Other, the most Oriental. And America has been in nearly continuous war with East Asians for over a century, the Boxers, Flipino, Pacific, Korean, Vietnam wars. In recent years we have had Cold Wars with Asian enemies, the Japanese hysteria in the 1980s, krazy North Korea, and now China as the yellow peril. As an Asian-American man one lives with a sense of insecurity and precariousness. Geopolitical machninations outside our control determine whether we get lynched or not. One wrong move by Kim Jon mentally Ill or a misfire in the Taiwan straits, and all Asian men are the enemy. We will fight a war for the freedoms of Koreans and Taiwanese in Korea and Taiwan, but lynch Korean and Taiwanese men as the enemy if they live in America. But hey all those wars haven’t hurt Asian women, who seem to lavish their status as trophy war-prizes. Asian women are so shameless that if the men were put in concentration camps, you know they’d be sleeping with the gestapo guards. Asian men will be unable to mate here. The FOBs will stop coming and go back where they came from. The native-born Asian males will be exterminated by sexual selection. And the declining Asian female population will morph into Eurasian females, and finally White females with 1/16th Asian blood. And they will talk about their great-great Asian grandma the same way white girls today can talk about their 1/16th descent from a Cherokee warprize. Can Asian-America be exterminated? Hey it happened once before and it could happen again. Asian males are just as unsuccessful now as they were in 1848.

I’m aware that AM/WF creations exist. They are usually more white looking (ironic since AFs want beautiful white babies so bad, but AMs seem better at making them). I knew a AM/WF son myself and he was a big strong ox and a jock who dated plenty of white cheerleaders.

Here is a good quote
“A white friend of mine, Dick, thinks that all Hapas are created equal and in his eyes we are all super cool in a happening sort of way. I on the other hand do not agree with that statement at all! Give me 5 minutes with a halfsy and I can tell you almost beyond a shadow of a doubt whether they are my kind of Hapa, or if they are from the dime a dozen bargain bin.

Now this is where my previous statement about being just like our parents comes in. Most White/Asian couples are between a White guy and an Asian girl, and it’s always some drop dead gorgeous Asian chick and the geekiest most homely White guy since the invention of White homely guys. An Asian chick marries a white guy because she loves him, but an Asian chick falls in love with a White guy because she knows her parents will hate him just enough to think of her as a rebel but like him enough to not disown her because they know he will be a good provider. The bottom line that no self respecting modern girl will ever admit to (which only makes this MORE TRUE) is that deep down every girl wants to be rescued and taken care of, but at the same time have that small sense of danger/rebellion/uniqueness about them.

Since basically we are all just like our parents, two types of personalities inevitably rise from the loins of these couples; nerdy loser guys that stay home playing D&D listening to Metallica and Dragonforce, and ridiculously ditzy girls that are over the top turbo sluts. The guys have absolutely no self confidence or social abilities because they didn’t exactly get the best of genes to begin with, and the girls are all really easy because they are super insecure about being half Asian and overcompensate by sleeping with the entire football team.

Now over to the rarity, the Asian guy and White girl couples. There are many reasons why we don’t see a lot of them around, but I think the biggest reason has to do with confidence. If you are not Asian it’s impossible for you to understand how hard it is to be a strong confident male in America, or any White dominated westernized society. Our society wasn’t made for Asians and it doesn’t represent us in any way shape or form, ESPECIALLY in the media and even more so if you are an Asian male. Like I said, you have to be Asian to understand this, but who do we have to look up to while growing up that we can see ourselves in? Any other ethnicity out there, you can find at least one guy in the media that represents his people in a positive way: superhero, fire fighter, captain of the football team, president of the student council, lady’s man. Sorry not if you’re an Asian guy!

So for an Asian guy to break out of the chains that his world has bound him in and refuse to conform to the way society thinks he should be, he needs balls! These guys are mother fizucking badasses! They are mostly always the Asian guys that all the other Asians shun and call “twinkies” (come on guys get your minds out of the gutter! It means yellow on the outside but white on the inside!) but deep down wish they could be just like us. The guys from this category that choose to marry white women do so not because they are white, but because they are looking for that same confidence they have in themselves. The offspring of the Asian dudes and White girls are the cream of the fucking crop! The guys are the captains of the team, the presidents of student council, Mr. Popular, and the big man on campus. And the ladies are just like the guys in the sense that they too have the confidence in themselves that their generic Hapa counterparts do not.

Of course there’s always an exception to the rule, and every once in awhile you may come across an anomaly that goes against my extremely offensive stereotyping. But in general it takes no more than tossing a football to automatically know if the Hapa you are talking with has an Asian for a mother, or a father.”

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You don’t have to be captain of the football team, Mr. Popular, big man on campus to get a white girl.

To get a submissive, brainless, slutty white girl who goes after only shallow things, perhaps.

But to get a girl with confidence and intelligence? Nope. Just have something interesting about yourself. Also, kindness and the ability to put together a sentence really helps. It seems you have the latter, but as for the former, I’d work on some kindness and charity towards yourself and your parents, first. A girl will pick up on a guy’s mental anguish and family problems. So work it out, and then tell us that you can’t get a girlfriend.

What do you do when you notice that society is screwing you over? Do you whine about it, or give society the finger and just live your life?

What is this silliness, comparing yourself to a mule. They cannot reproduce. They are born sterile. The fact that you’re not (unless you are, in which case, sorry, I’m just using “you” to refer to hapa males…) proves that nature DOES intend for you to reproduce. That, hello? people of different races are not in fact different species. They’re all people. They are pretty much (literally) designed to intermingle.

If you claim that AM/WF couples produce the ideal “white-looking” offspring, (which I strongly debate – I’m white, and y’all look pretty much equally asian to me – asian genes are fuckin kick-ass. white genes are wimpy. god. all this talk about white people being the stronger race, and no mention of how blue eyes are seriously recessive…hmm, wonder why that is…) THEN WHY THE HELL NOT just give society the proverbial finger…by getting yourself a white girlfriend?? Or an asian girlfriend, if you want to save the asian-American race or whatnot. Or just whichever kind of girlfriend you think is the most beautiful, to hell with society’s expectations.

True, to get with a confident chick, you need some “balls.” But an intelligent woman will be able to perceive inner confidence in a man just as well as a former-cheerleader bimbo with an IQ of roughly 27 would be able to perceive the ability to catch a ball and run with it.

Hell, an intelligent woman might even be turned OFF by the ability to catch a football. Some intelligent women have NO PATIENCE for people whose greatest bragging point is that they’re a gigantic bear sized man who can get the ball in the goal rill good, coach. (Hint. Go after musicians. The former marching band members usually have particular distaste for huge, brainless men.)

Refuse to let yourself get screwed over, stand up for yourself in this admittedly anglo-centric country, and have a little faith. You’re young yet. There are all kinds of women in the world.

Its funny you mention women’s magazines, because as I was reading your post I was thinking I want dumb beautiful blonde girls because thats what the magazines say I should want, so I’m going to obey, and if tomorrow Seventeen magazine says that the Ideal Woman I should want are 300 pound black nerdettes, then thats what I will want.

Actually I did play football. I sucked as I do with everything else in life. But we had a good few Asians on 1st-string mostly in light positions, but a few in sumo positions too. And we also had the AM/WF hero in a bulky position.

As for cuteness. Back in JRHS and HS, all the beautiful white popular girls used to teasingly chase me and call me cute and adorable and pretend to like me as part of their comedy act. The price for their attention, was I had to play the fool. But nooooo I wanted to be taken seriously, be respected, be a real person. Luckily I wasn’t able to establish my seriousness in HS, so I still got chased. But in college I finally became a serious real person, and so they left me alone. But even if I get people to take me seriously for a little while, my freakishness will come out in the end, and I will be a bigger joke than if I just walked in with the red nose and floppy shoes from the beginning. After many squandered, wasted years I finally learned my lesson and my place in the world. I will never again allow anyone to take me seriously. If they try to take me seriously, and play a game of pretending I am a real human being, then I will walk in with white face makeup, a red nose, and green hair if I have to. Thats why I’ve lived such a miserable life. It would be as if a man who really did have green hair, would be horribly hurt and insulted if anyone pointed out he has green hair. Its a miracle I was able to self-delude myself for so long.

So I’ve picked up where I left off in 6th grade. I’m a retarded freak, and now white girls pay attention to me again. They laugh and smile at me and are entertained. Back in my teens, I actually half-thought the girls might be serious about liking me. Now I know the only thing cute about me is that I’m a mule that thinks hes a human. So I play up my role as a mule who thinks hes all that. And so white girls will give me an audience, as long as I put on the show, and admit I’m a freak. And I’m happy with that. I was never happier than in my teens when the most popular girls called me cute, even if they were really just making fun of me. Thats what I deserve, and thats the best a retard like me could ever hope for.

Thank you for taking an interest in my case. It warms my heart that you are willing to humor me, and pretend that an obvious Abomination is a real person. Its like when I was flirting with that blonde girl and she decided to tolerate my presence, even though just me being near her was an insult to her person. It is funny to me, how she would patronizingly nod and listen to the incoherent ramblings coming out of my mouth, as though I was actually conveying information, and not a retard just spouting random syllables.

Honestly, I’m just practicing. Hopefully my future sons won’t get this ridiculous notion into their heads that they’re some kind of abomination, but I’d like to be prepared to talk sense into them if necessary.

Also, it kind of pisses me off that the general tone of your blog is basically “all hapa males are abominations,” because that means that you’d probably call the best man I know an “abomination.” This is very insulting to me, you see? *mobster character*

Don’t listen to magazines. Same goes for media, television, etc. Entertaining, sure, but full of bullshit.

Accept the fact that you’re a real person and stand up for yourself. Otherwise nobody’s going to want to be around you, much less date you.

Read the rest of the xkcd comics; they’re fucking hilarious and you can quote them.

Keep blogging like this for a few weeks, then show the whole thing to your dad. Talk to him about it. If he’s a worthwhile father, he’ll tell you that you’re not an abomination. Show your mom, too, and make sure they both actually read it. Talk to them about it. It seems like a lot of your issues stem directly from their relationship, so go straight to the source, with things that you have already calmly written out. (The blog posts.)

If you can type a sentence clearly, I have a hard time believing that you often just spout random syllables without well thought out ideas behind them. If you get the feeling that a girl is patronizing you and is not actually interested in you, or what you have to say, THEN WALK AWAY. She’s not worth your time.

Well as I said in my last post the BEST time in my life was JRHS and HS, when the white girls pretended to love me, cuz its’ funny to pretend to like a freak. At the time I was 50-50 about how genuine it was, right now I can say with 1000% certainty since I know who and what I really am now. Getting taken seriously in college, was the worst years of my life. Its not what I am. I’m a circus freak show, that is meant to be laughed at.

As for the blonde girl who patronizingly listened to my retardation, shes the one who was in her rights to walk away. I was just taking advantage of her politeness in not telling me to buzz off to play the old telemarketer’s trick in keeping the conversation going. Since my enlightened about my suckiness, I’ve tried to pick off where I left off. Girls don’t just throw themselves at me like they did in the teen years. I guess it would be weirder for a 20 year old girl to teasingly call a freak cute, than for a 14 year old girl. So I have to be much more aggressive on my part. Of course back in JRHS, I had to be aggressively retarded too, I just didn’t direct it at girls, they saw the show and then came for me. Now I have to go directly after girls to entertain them with my freakishness, and can’t expect them to take the bait by themselves. So to the best of my abilities I have recaptured the care-free clownishness of JRHS, and my relations with girls are best since high school graduation. Of course none of the girls who laugh at me actually like me. But they’re not supposed to! I’m just a circus. I hate whats inside of me too! I would be less surprised if a girl picked a piece of dog feces off the dirt and made love to the feces over me! That makes more sense to me, than liking me. And would I really want a girl to like me? That would mean she is happy I exist, so she believes that something good can come out of WM/AF, when I know nothing good can come out of WM/AF especially not me!

If I was only going to talk to people who are actually interested in me, and not just patronizing the retarded freak, I would have to shut myself up and never speak to anyone ever again.

Take it up with your parents. Or a psychologist. Or something like that.

Like I said, print out all of these blog entries, and all of the comments, and take them to your a real psychologist, or maybe your dad (who you mention tries to psychoanalyze you – I don’t know if that’s because he’s trained in the field or not…)

And there are people out there, girls out there, who know this. Maybe you don’t, yet. That’s why it’s important for you to go and talk to somebody who will tell it to ya’ straight.

I can only imagine that it must be of limited comfort to hear these words from some random woman on the internet, so maybe they would have a greater impact coming from a real-live-in-the-room-with-you person: that you’re not a monster, you deserve respect, that you are a human being. Not the only person in the world, and it doesn’t revolve around you, but a person nonetheless, and deserving of the same respect that any other person would get.

However, in America, you’ll pretty much only get respect if you quietly and confidently demand it. Fixing your completely bent-outta-shape self image would be step one to quiet confidence. Go talk to a professional about it and see where that takes you.

Not to beat a dead horse, but the whole point of my last comment was that my confidence got a huge boost from realizing I wasn’t a real bonafide human being. Of course my new confidence was anything but quiet, but very loud. And I went into the world to very loudly proclaim what a big fat idiot I was. And it worked, I’m getting more female attention than I have in years from lovely popular white college girls, and its all thanks to me resuming my role as entertainment. But yeah everyone wanted that sweet blondy, but I was the only one to aggressively pursue her, and talk to her and make her laugh every day. The old me, that wanted to be taken seriously never would have been so direct.

Not to point out the painfully obvious, but I’m moderately sure that thinking of one’s self as “the lowest being existence, the lowliest worm in the universe,” “a whole new level of suck,” “genetic trash,” “an abomination,” “a monster”…

Well ok maybe my position is not obvious. But it has a logic of its’ own. Thinking of myself as a worm, has inspired my to be a loud psychotic clown. And that takes a ton of cocky confidence. Which is why I was the one pursuing that beautiful blonde. She was surprisingly quiet for a hot blond. My 1st strategy was to win over the crowd first like I did in my teens. I did and I had a whole audience listening to my comedy. I aggressively flirted with all the girls, including the Asian ones, as a documented in my other post. I guess my whole act of being aggressively macho, tons of hair gel, bravado and showing off and bragging how strong I was, convinced one of the guys that I was an Italian guido, and he was shocked that I was Asian. I could have just taken that as a compliment. But I figure 99% of guys are going to consider me Asian, so if I play off on my whitness, I will just be a proud Hapa, and that means being proud of WM/AF which is a self-emasculation. So I made a big point of being a proud pure Asian, which makes sense since for 99% of people, doing anything else is just trumpeting the fact that white guys get asian girls better than asian dudes do.

Anyway, the one person who wasn’t really won over to my wackiness was the quiet blond. And she would just watch sometimes and smile, or give a light laugh, but she didn’t really join in or talk to me. When I singled her out in the audience, she just gave me one word answers. And she didn’t really eat up all my muscle bravado. So with time ticking I took a much more aggressive direct frontal approach towards her. And I had a few long funny conversations with her. She subtlety signaled clearly that while she might be willing to humor me, there was no chance she’d have anything to do with a freak like me. And I accepted it, although I made a few feigned wacky attempts to pressure her for more.

So yeah as far as confidence goes, everyone wanted her. But I was the one who got to talk to her by being super-macho and aggressive. And I made even better inroads with some white girls I wasn’t as interested in.

Of course none of it is “real”, and I don’t delude myself about it as I did in my teens. I’m not trying to pretend to be confident, I’m trying to pretend to be a guy who THINKS hes confident. Like those idiotic buffoons from TV. They think they are super-macho ladies men, when the rest of the world sees them as total losers. And thats the comedy. So I’m not trying to be funny, I’m trying to be a funny character. And thats how realizing what a retarded freak I am, changed my life.

So let me get this straight. You think that by acting ridiculous, you can get girls to talk to you, but you don’t actually want any girls to genuinely like you, because you think of yourself as genetic refuse. (abomination, elephant man, etc; still think you need therapy but whatever.) You got a blonde girl (the holy grail of girls, a blonde!) to talk to you, but you believe that she’s not interested in you because…you’re genetic refuse, and also that she’s only talking to you in the first place because you’re acting like a macho idiot character. You’re probably scared to be “real” with her like you tried to be with girls in the past because you’re afraid of being hurt, rejection, all that.

You got into an argument with your parents and were going through this thing with the blonde, and so you decided to make this blog to let all of the internet know what a horrible, terrible, genetic dead end it is to be a HAPA male.

Look, I know you’re likely just going to shoot this down, but if the blonde still isn’t dating anybody, you should try to be “serious” with her, if only just for a moment, an hour. “Listen, I really like you, and I’d like to talk with you. Let me buy you coffee,” something like that. If she says yes, congrats, go on a date. Suspend your self hatred for long enough to enjoy yourself and actually talk to her, drop the bullshit and just talk. Tell her about your dad being white. Whatever. Get personal. Stop acting like a character, hell, maybe even tell her about it, ask her (a real live white girl) what she thinks of this whole thing. Write a furtively hopeful blog post about it.

If she says no, great! You can make a long, angry blog post about it, self-flagellate some more, and then move on to somebody else!! (If the chemistry’s not there man, it’s not your fault. Jesus. Don’t take rejection so personally or make it a race thing.)

Girls respond to honesty. A quiet girl who isn’t impressed with macho bravado won’t be impressed with an aggressive approach, just frankness and being “real,” the very thing you seem to forbid yourself from doing.

A shy, pretty girl is used to guys just pursuing her without trying to actually get to know her, just because she’s shy and pretty, and that could very well have been why she dismissed you, not because you’re half and half. She’s too nice to just coldly ignore all the macho assholes in the world, but she doesn’t want to date one, either.

And with that, sir, I leave you. I tire of your unflagging pessimism, but I wish you the best. If you still sincerely think of yourself as an abomination in three weeks, I suggest you see a therapist, with printouts of this entire blog.

“Not listening to magazines” and i suppose by extension the media in general is something easier said than done. Because even if you were to insulate yourself from the media – stop watching hollywood films and tv series, the rest of the American population is,indeed watching those films and series that portray asian american males in a negative light. That affects how you (the hypothetical you), the Asian american male, are treated by those around you. And as any social psychologist will tell you, how others perceive us and how others treat us have a great effect on our self-image.

True, true. Like I said…somewhere…if you read the rest of that giant comment tree (don’t bother) …the media in general is full of bullshit. Full of it. The trick is to find the people who are intelligent enough to know that, and bypass the bullshit.

The people who watch the movies, the tv shows, and say “Wow, that was entertaining. But real life is separate from what I watch on a screen.”

They read the women’s magazines and laugh at the blatant stereotypes and admire, but partially roll their eyes at the airbrushed photos of models that give poor teenage girls the idea that they aren’t perfect, and therefore not beautiful.

They read the news and instead of just accepting it and continuing to chew their cud, they actually check up on the story and consider the source.

When they read “scientific studies,” they take them with a grain of salt, knowing that “science” can often be bought very easily, because research labs don’t run themselves for free and that just because they studied a group of one hundred young men in New York City doesn’t necessarily mean that whatever they found applies to the rest of the population.

It’s rather tricky, I know. The concept of “intelligent american people” is foreign to many, and they are rare, but they do exist.

Have faith, and remember that no matter how anybody treats you, (the hypothetical you) and regardless if they use the media as some thin excuse for treating you with anything less than respect, do not accept it.

Refuse to accept people looking down on you for long enough, and eventually you will find people who will treat you as an equal.

You, idiot. The reason no girls will take you seriously or date you is because you can tell, just by looking at someone, if they are fucked up in the head. It is very likely that girls called you freak, not because you are mixed, but because you act like an insane person. Go see a therapist. Stop blaming your personal dating problems on race.

On one of your other complaints–probably the reason white girls don’t go for asian guys is because asian guys are USUALLY condescending and filthy. I work with only Chinese people and everytime any of the guys invite people over its the most disgusting apartment I’ve ever seen. Roaches everywhere, no AC, dirt, urine smell floating from the bathroom. I went apartment hunting with my friend before. One of the apartments had asian decor everywhere, shoes by the door and guess what? There was dog piss covering every inch of the carpet. The AC unit had leaked and covered half the living room with crusty liquid, who knows how long ago. Apparently the asians were ok with that. I had to run out of the apartment about 2 min after we entered, much to the realtor’s dismay. And, the worst part? The realtor had to call ahead of time so that the residents had enough time to vacate the apartment. In other words, they were actively living in that vile place.

About the condescending part–every vietnamese guy I ever encountered has stated they would never seriously date a white girl. But the same guys liked to talk about how white girls made a good fuck. Another hot topic is asian males thinking that girls at any age must be virgins in order to be dateable. This is fucking hilarious, especially since every asian female that works with me has had sexual relations with my boss, who is married. The girls are also married, with babies and/or kids. Another girl, who isn’t married, but is engaged, also did it with my boss, but I’m sure her fiance still thinks she is a virgin. What a joke. Also, whenever I talk to asian males, they assume that white girls are sluts, likely due to propaganda in their native country.

Speaking of media–having grown up in America, I’m not aware of any of these negative displays of asian males in the media as you discuss. Assuming that all asian males are actually given crappy roles which make asians look weak, I didn’t notice. Unlike asians, Americans aren’t retarded and easily brainwashed by what is playing on TV. Just because you feel insulted everytime you see an Asian male on TV, doesn’t mean anyone else cared or even noticed or applied that TV show to their real life. Stop being so sensitive. At least for me, the first asian I think of in media is Jackie Chan. He has done a wonderful job, he plays characters which fight but with good judgement and character. I love Jackie Chan. Unfortunately, all the negative feelings and prejudices I have against asian males have come from direct, real-life interactions. I have to remind myself that just because all the asian guys I have met are assholes, doesn’t mean that all of them are.

Finally, if somehow a white girl is to find a nice asian guy to date, the asian mother-in-laws do a damn good job at chasing the white girls off if they were unable to brainwash their sons into not wanting to date a white girl.

I’d like to add a disclaimer on these comments: these comments are only related to asians that came directly from Asia, in other words, not asian americans. The asian guys I met that were born in America are usually normal and nice. Still have issues with the asian mom-in-law, though.

I’m not sure how you got so twisted in the head, or perhaps if all your blog posts are just trolling…but I hope you have gotten better since you wrote this blog post.

“True, true. Like I said…somewhere…if you read the rest of that giant comment tree (don’t bother) …the media in general is full of bullshit. Full of it. The trick is to find the people who are intelligent enough to know that, and bypass the bullshit”

Anonygirl, you are greatly overestimating us (humans).

Someone can be “intelligent enough” to see through the bullshit… and still find it impossible to convince themselves to “feel” a certain way. Media/culture starts affecting us as children, before our full intelligence kicks into play. Once the effects settle in, our biases become subconscious and even unconscious.

Please don’t tell me that someone who has never felt any attraction towards a… fat person (as an example)… could “logically” convince himself or herself to become physically attracted to that fat person. The vast majority can’t, including “smart people”.

After all, we are motivated by our passions, not logic. So how intelligence factors into this discussion is questionable.

As I stated…people like this are rare. They had to have parents who started screaming at them, while they were still children, that television and the media are trying to warp your brain, and there’s poison out there – go play outside or create some art instead. Parents who would watch tv with their kids on occasion and analyze the racial dynamics of any given television show and call bullshit, who would sit down and point at a sales circular for a department store and say, look, honey, there’s a black man pictured here with a white lady. What does that mean to you? Constantly pushing their children to analyze, analyze, and form their own opinions on things.

That’ll create a passion for doing whatever the hell one wants, hang the media and public opinion. Or, indeed, for doing whatever is unexpected, just to try it, in matters of love and life.

So look for the quietly rebellious spirits, who don’t actually hate their parents. Those are people who I would consider truly intelligent.

It is hard to live in a world where people believe stereotypes to be the truth. I don’t know where you go to school at but your sociology class seems racist. However, you can’t blame your parents for who you are. We are all unique and different both inside and out.

I am a bit confused as to what your dilemma is. Do you feel you aren’t white enough to be white nor asian enough to be asian? Or do you feel like you hate your asian ancestry? Do you hate who you are (eurasian) which causes you to despise all WM/AF relationships?

Lesson #1. There is no such thing as “race”. It’s not based in any measurable scientific background. Race is a social contruct. Google Search: Linnaeus. For your reading pleasure: http://www.nationalgeographic.com/genographic

Lesson #2. When you stop seeing the world in terms of “race”/ethnicity and simply see people, the only person you have to blame for being single is yourself because you can’t blame anyone else e.g.;”the white man stole my women”.

Your success in dating or finding a mate doesn’t depend on the skin your bones are wrapped up in.

You seriously need professional help. I can’t even read more than half of your entries, because they disgust me so much. The amount of hate you have for yourself is just pitiful, but to bring all those people who are also half Asian and half white? That’s just PATHETIC. It’s one thi for you to hate yourself so much, but a totally different thing to bring everyone else. You are probably the only one here so insecure with yourself and your heritage. Stop wallowing your selfpity. If you really think you are an abominable person, then why don’t you just end your life? Not to sound mean or insensitive, but I just don’t understand why you’re still complaining and LIVING, if you’re that horrible a person. See my point? Grow up and either appreciate your life or get the he’ll outta here…literally. I hate seeing people waste their lives…it’s selfish and disrespectful. You owe it to your parents to be the best you can be. Granted I don’t know your family history, but it just seems like you are either trying to get attention probably from unresolved issues or you honestly have deeper issues that need to be probed from a licensed psychologist. Either case, GET HELP.

Technically, there is little difference what genes come from which parent’s side.

That said, there is quite a difference between the two Asian-Whites mixtures. With WM-AF, because of the white maleness of power in the West, and the sexual fetishization of Asian women, there is a full range, of
1 Old, ugly, middle-class but sometimes rich and probably sexist and racist white man, with a young, attractive but not by Asian standards, poor, often recent immigrant with less education and little English, Asian woman. Motivation: sex, power, money

With AM-WF, because “Asian men are weak” and “White women are loud cows” in society, you get women who like more cerebral, less stereotypically macho guys, and men who like outspoken, confident women. That plus willingness to buck stereotypes drives their relationships up into the 7-10 on average.

I’m ranking here on quality of people and the equalness of the relationship. And those are reflected both in their children’s genes and upbringing alike. So, plenty of WM-AF hapas are also 7-10s, but not the majority; whereas AM-WF hapas will average higher on the bellcurve.

(I am a WF who mostly dates AMs, they’re just hotter and less sexist, plus I hate chest hair. I know a lot of really well-matched WM-AF couples; but they are a smaller minority than the AM-WFs.)

I have heard that it is not just anecdotal that AM/WF will produce more white looking sons, but that there is actually some genetics behind it. From a genetic point of view, it’s worth pointing out that because the Y chromosome is a truncated chromosome, male children will objectively inherit more genetic material from their mothers. So it’s not unexpected that male children of AGWWG’s tend to be more “Asian” looking versus any other type of hapa. the genetic part is 100% true. the Y chromosome is incomplete, so a male AGWWG hapa will objectively have more Asian phenotypes than the other three types of possible Asian-white mixed children. a male WGWAG hapa in contrast will have the least. And yes, this is rather ironic.

So yeah thats why I call it the curse of the son of WM/AF. WM/AF is based on rejecting Asian males and yet they produce the most Asian looking male sons possible. While the more egalitarian AM/WFs produce the white-looking cutie Hapas WM/AFs dream of.

I call bullshit; if anything kids look more like their dads, to allay paternity fears. About a quarter of my friends are mixed, mostly Eurasian, and most of my friends are in mixed race relationships. The genetic chips fall all over the place, and identifiably “asian” or “european” features are fuzzy in the first place. I know people who have 100% european coloring but 100% asian features, and vice versa.

There is nothing wrong with or “freakish” about the sons of WM/AF relationships. Many of my best friends, and a few of my ex-boyfriends, are such men: and they are attractive, confident, and professionally and sexually successful (if often too white-looking for my tastes). Hell, one of them’s totally a younger, hotter, suave-er Don Draper clone.

But, most of them had equally-matched parents, not the skeever+mail-order bride couplings. The exceptions at least spent good chunks of their childhoods in Asia, so had good AM role models and are as or more comfortable in Asian culture than white.

It sounds like you come from a home where white=superior, asian=inferior, and your rants evidence that you have internalized. You are not your parents’ relationship, and you are not your parents. I also came from a very unhealthy match, and was raised a girl in a very sexist environment. The options are self-loathing and bitterness, which is very gratifying but also lazy and passive, or proactive rebellion and self-definition.

So as a white female in a AM/WF relationship, how do you feel about a freakish retard like me claiming to be born of a asian dad and white mom? Are you pissed that AM/WF is getting the blame for an abomination like me, when WM/AF deserves it?

“The liger is a cross between a male lion and a tigress.[35] Because the growth-inhibiting gene from the female tiger is absent, a growth-promoting gene is passed on by the male lion, the resulting ligers grow far larger than either parent.”

“I call bullshit; if anything kids look more like their dads, to allay paternity fears.”

I like to see myself as one of those Asian males who pursued and went for white women, but when I hit the crossroads of wanting to settle down, I realized I wanted to hook up with an Asian chick instead. It donned on me, I’d only be making more white people down the road. I’d be better off making more Asian people in America with the survival instinct of an Asian American who’s been able to deal with and survive with pure aggressiveness and brutality. Being an aware and awakened Asian American male is the best type of AM to survive in western society. So I ended up hooking up with another strong minded Asian woman with the sole intent of breeding confident and strong minded super Asians. You my friend, should do the opposite of your mother and find yourself a strong Asian woman ready to breed out the white from your blood and make more Asian males!

You’re a moron. Races are counted by Y haplogroups for males and mtDNA for females.

You carry an Asian Y chromosome. and so will all your sons, even if they’re half white. So when you’re gone a million years from now and people dig up the fossils of your male descendants, they’ll see nothing but Asian males, even as they slowly breed with more an more white females down the line.

For SEML, it’s exactly the opposite. Even though he looks Asian, feels Asian, identifies with Asian males, when he and every male descendant of his is long gone, all future geneticists will be able to tell is that they were white males.

So purity-minded Asian males like you should shut up and stop polluting the minds of young Asian males with your specious bullshit. Why, if you’re a high value Asian male, give the mtDNA of the most treacherous race of females the chance to profit through your genes?

No, what SEML should do is marry a WHITE female and cut off his Asian mother’s mtDNA line.

So, I’m a white female who is with an Asian male (Cantonese) and has been for 5 years now. We plan to get married somewhere in the next 2 years and I have never noticed a lack of confidence in him for being Asian. However, we do tend to get strange glares from other Asians when together in public. ://..

I am a white female who has been dating an Asian male for over a year now. We have a very open, caring relationship, and I’ve never thought that he or I lacked any confidence or respect for each other. I have noticed that statistically we are outnumbered by the “Asian girl white guy” couples, but lets be honest here, who CARES? I’ve dated white, black, and now Asian guys and each had their own strengths that were completely unrelated to their nationality. There is no reason for an Asian guy (or any guy for that matter) to “need balls” to approach a white girl. If she is the lady he fancies, then why not go for it? People can get caught up in what the “right” combination of races is, but all that really matters is if you are happy together =)

You are speaking of love. Of course love should not have anything to do with races. However, when the love is tainted by larger socio-political-historical issues such as the emasculation of Asian men in America throughout American history as well as portrayal of Asian women as prostitutes, whores, and sluts, and then the current negative/hostile attitude towards American males of Asian descent…. then we have a problem. This is also why the blogger StuffEurasianMalesLike has stated that generally an Asian male with white female pairing does not produce the same issues because there is none of the condescension/disdain coming from the side of the caucasian/caucasians and there isn’t the self hatred that comes from the side of the Asian female…. simply because it is an Asian MALE with a white female pairing, which generally only happens when both people are exceptional.

Why is this? Generally white females dislike Asian males and would never give the Asian male a chance due to all the emasculating, villainizing, foreign-enemy portrayals of Asian men, which would mean that a white female willing to date, fuck, and marry an Asian male must be exceptionally intelligent and open-minded.

Asian men generally have also self-internalized all the racism and negativity that they get in real life, coupled with bullying, shunnning, and in some cases the simple fact that they are not as physically imposing or “masculine.” Therefore, an Asian male who is able to date and be successful with a white female despite all the negative/hostile social vibes he gets, must be an exceptional Asian male.

On the otherhand, white male with an Asian female couples generally consists of white males who have some kind of yellow fever or want obedient, traditional women, while the asian females with white males are generally complete whores, self-haters, have no self-respect, and hate their own race and hate Asian men.

Of course there are openminded white males who DO respect Asian men and Asian culture and are interested in Asian females. However, those are few and far between and probably something like 1/1000. Why? Because hating on Asian men is a part of the culture of America. We men of Asian descent are the ultimate ENEMY/VILLAINS, EMASCULATED WEAK NERDS, or ASEXUAL MARTIAL ARTISTS WHO STILL GET BEAT BY A WESTERN MARTIAL ARTIST.

For a white girl to see through all this and love an Asian man despite her white male friends and family hating Asian males and society hating and not-wanting to accept Asian males…. means that the white girl has to be very exceptional and emotionally strong because she is going completely against society.

In this sad, sad, capitalistic world, you can marry almost anyone if you have enough success and money. So if you really want to marry someone out of your reach, become more ambitious and make more money. Don’t blame it on race if you are not successful.

Love is another factor. Personally, I marry for love because life is too short to spend with someone you don’t love.

This article was interesting. And some of the comments I read were interesting as well. It’s fairly obvious there is a large number of WM and AF couples. This is not necessarily a bad thing but I did know the psychological toll it has obviously taken on some Asian men. I never really noticed because as a black man for the most part I have only been concerned about the negative representations regarding race as it applies to blacks. However as I have gotten a little older I have started to notice the racist struggles of a lot of groups to include Asians.

I must admit that Asian men are not represented well in the media. The most you will see mainly are the images Kristoff alluded to. Often the nerds or the supreme martial artists who still do always get beat by the “Western” martial artist who is often a novice. And I do know a lot of White males who only date Asian women. Some might point to black & white relationships as a comparison. There have been some black male – white female relationships and a growing number of white male – black female relationships. But when someone looks at racial statistical accounts of relationships like a census displayed in a 2011 National Geographic edition the number of black and white relationships be it male or female of both groups does not equal the number of White Male – Asian Female relationships.

I’m not suggesting that I have all the answers but I am curious if you ever talked to the women of your race to figure out why they are dating white so much. Because when I have had conversations with black women who prefer to date white males they still for the most part do not “hate” black men. From your blog and some of the poster comments it would seem many feel that Asian women do in fact hate Asian men or are at the very least feel white males are superior. The question is why?

Forget the media and the messages from a white dominated society. An individual must “choose” to internalize those messages and make them apart of their belief system.

I hope this and my previous post gets approved. I noticed this article when I read a news clip on U.S. models insulting Asians in South Korea, crazy stuff. And although it has nothing to do with this topic I want to say rest in peace to all the people we lost on 9/11.

I think you should expand your definition of hate. If a woman doesn’t want to bear children from men of her own race but prefers that of another race then that is hate. But, you won’t hear Asian women admit to that. And why should they, when they have political correctness on their side. Any Asian man who criticizes her relationship with a white man is deemed a racist and a bigot. Do Jewish men expect their women not to date Nazis? Do French men in occupied France expect their women not to date the German occupying army? Do black field slaves expect their house slave women not to fuck the white master? The sentiment from Asian men towards their women are the same. We would like them to stand by our side in the face of discrimination. But, these women have discovered that if they love the white man long time, then they will get a pass. In fact, they are joining in the bashing of Asian men. I choose to see this kind of insidious preference and behavior as hateful.

Imnotracist has it right, Bruce. The big picture is that Asian women have joined in with the “mainstream”, particularly white people, mainly white males and hateful white females in bashing Asian men.

I believe that the only way Asian men will be able to rise to the top is if Asian men rise up once again and destroy the west through military force or at the least kill everybody via mutually assured destruction so that we don’t have to think about this shit anymore because everybody will cease to exist, as well the Earth. That may be best, as humans are all disgusting pieces of shit, although racist westerners are the most disgusting subhuman hypocritical pieces of shit I have ever met (such as valuing the lives of dolphins over the livelihoods of Japanese fishermen).

I would rather take the enemy down with me than have to live the rest of my life as some kind of “omega-male” in terms of the socio-political-economic system always seen as the enemy or subhuman. I no longer hold any loyalty to a country that is completely hypocritical and seeks to disenfranchise me simply because I am an Asian man. it is truly tyranny of the majority and the majority hates Asian men and no matter how kindhearted a minority may be, they do not have the strength or numbers to help stop the disenfranchisement of Asian men and I doubt most of those people are sincere. Merely white apologists trying to feel better about themselves while they benefit tremendously from the white privilege that they often do not realize they have, even if it is some white trash from the midwest who could get any girl he wants if he traveled to Asia. Liberty and democracy are a bunch of bullshit. Asian men have faced mass expulsions, concentration camps, disenfranchisement, murders where the murderers were never punished (Vincent Chin), and countless other injustices in America. Just look at this history (and this is only about Chinese Americans):

And look at how they treat loyal Asian male Americans who want to “protect freedom and Democracy:” They return your loyalty with death by your comrades’ hands. Just like the way the all Japanese American 442nd had their families sent to concentration camps in WWII. Americans, particularly white American men are some of the most dishonorable people i have ever met. But that makes sense, as most are descendants of the pieces of shit that Europe did not want. The same can be said for the descendants of European criminals in Australia. It is no wonder America hates Asian men so much and is the most racist.

Very well. If white people and particularly Americans want to see me as the ultimate subhuman villain because I am an Asian male, then I shall take on that role but be even more of a villain than they could ever imagine I could be. It is better to be a very baddass villain than an insignificant nothing who can do nothing to change the UNJUST world order. I believe that Asian men everywhere need to wake up and realize this. Find the willpower not to cave into this power-system where Asian men are at the very bottom and white men are at the top through lies, deceit, and dishonor. I would love to take all my hatred, all the hatred I have received throughout my life, malice, shunning, views of me being a subhuman, not enough of a man, etc. and I will take this negative energy and use it as a fuel to better myself so that one day I can get my revenge on this piece of shit of a society and extinguish all of them. Make them feel the same pain and despair I have felt all my life and when they are down, kick them, then execute them, just as they have/wanted to do to me.

It is shameful to see how low many Asian men have fallen today, the loss of pride, the denial, the lack of drive. We were once the most dominant civilizations while white people were fucking sheep and sucking horse dicks.

I blame the emphasis on peace that China and Japan adopted that ultimately led to both civilizations’ downfall as well as not caring enough about the quality of life of the common man, particularly in China. If China had not stopped development on gunpowder weaponry in the 1300s and if Japan had not stopped development of gunpowder weaponry int he 16th century, both Asian countries would rule the world. I wish so very much I could go back in a time machine to change history and so that none of the European Imperialist genocides could have occurred.

The billions of people that White people and Christianity have killed is something that no other civilization could even compete with. Whites/Christians are the most evil and worst mass murderers in the world. Don’t be fulled by good looks or people pretending to be nice to you. They are often also the most psychopathic and the view of their facial features as being good looking was also a result of a combination of artificial products and brainwashing by the media. Look at any white woman from before the late 1990s and I almost vomit. They are hardly good looking at all with the unstraightened hair, ugly skin, manly looking faces, or terrible short hairstyles. In fact, most white woman do not even look very good. I would say 95% of white women are pretty damned ugly yet they believe themselves to be so superior and that Asian men are beneath them. NO They are the ones beneath me. I vomit whenever a chubby or below average looking girl thinks she has a chance with me simply because I am lower on the totem pole here in the USA. I have met well-off/rich Eastern European women who were interested in me, but nothing came out of it because of inaction on m y part because fo the psychological warfare waged against me here in the states. The only ones I have found to look consistently good are those with some Asian blood in them IE Eastern European women or NE European women. Most American women and many Western European women look like trash, especially compared to certain latinas or part Asian women. So much of this is a combination of cosmetology/hairstyling and media brainwashing.

And I believe that it is just for western Europeans in America and AUstratlia (their descendants) to pay for their crimes during the Imperialist, genocide-era (spanning 1500 to present day). After all, even in the Bible it says:

(Exodus 34:6-7) – “Then the Lord passed by in front of him and proclaimed, “…yet He will by no means leave the guilty unpunished, visiting the iniquity of fathers on the children and on the grandchildren to the third and fourth generations.”

So they are hypocritical if they believe that they should just be forgiven. With the current socio-political-economic hierarchy where Asian men are at the very bottom due to deceit, lies, and dishonor on the part of the west, I do not believe that they should be forgiven.

And even today, the west goes on with their crusades in the pretext of “policing the world” when they simply want to wipe out all other races and religions and seize their resources ( I am talking about white Americans and brainwashed non-white Americans who believe they are fighting for liberty and democracy). Hopefully, this century, Asia will rise again if China, Korea, and Japan can put aside their differences and if Asian men can find their pride, willpower, and strength once again. We will go down fighting. I will go down fighting. I will die with a sword in my hand and the head of an enemy in my other. I don’t care if I end up dying. I only care about bringing the enemy as much pain as they have brought me throughout my life. That is the true mark a warrior. Your resolve lasts until the very end. No running away from bullets. No mercy. Revenge will be sweet.

Yikes. I think you may be taking things a little personally and a little far. Some of the events you are upset about happened over 3/4 of a century ago (in the case of the Japanese internment camps). While I agree that racism in many forms is still alive in America today, I do not think it is to quite the degree you make it out to be.. I may just be one white girl among many westerners (the kind minority, you called it) but I fully believe that today many of the stereotypes against Asians and other races are disappearing. Perhaps you have been a victim of personal injustice, and for that I am truly sorry. Hopefully in the future you are able to find yourself in areas and amongst people who aren’t stuck in the past =P. White people have indeed been involved (or indeed, at the head) of many major religious or social atrocities in history. Those events happened decades/ centuries ago though. You say we cannot be forgiven, but can you hold us accountable for things that we, our parents, and even our grandparents were not a part of? The beauty about the past is that we learn from it, and from what I have seen, with each generation social inequality has improved. It may not be perfect right now, but someday we may get there. Until then, having the attitude that white people are all against you won’t solve anything. Bringing “as much pain and suffering as possible” to the white people (or any people) you encounter will do little for harboring feelings of congeniality or respect. Try to give people the benefit of the doubt, and believe that they are not trying to manipulate you by “faking being nice.” Really, some of us are actually decent people =P.

Oh, and you are obviously entitled to your opinion… but commenting on the hideousness of white women kind of detracts from your overall argument, and is pretty rude haha.

Mary, the issue is that these cases still continue to occur. The anti-Chinese propaganda in the political campaigns is simply cleverly disguised anti-Asian rhetoric. Just like how the murderers of Vincent Chin did not give a fuck that he was not Japanese American and still killed him. So Asians who do not unite with other Asian ethnicities are fucking stupid because racists do not distinguish between ethnicities. Even if race is a socially constructed concept, it is real enough that these atrocities happen only to one race or another. The Japanese American concentration camps may have been about 3/4s of a century ago, but it is still fresh in our memories, as are all the rapes in Japan, all the rapes in Korea, all the rapes in Vietnam and the continued view of Asian American men as the enemy.

Take a look at the cases of Private Danny Chen and Lance Corporal Lew where both supposedly killed themselves because of all the anti-Asian harassment and physical abuse and physical attacks they suffered from their “comrades.”: I am cynical, so I believe the military covered up murders and called them suicides. And like Vincent Chin’s case, the people who attacked and abused these two soldiers simply got slaps on the wrists (no prison time, very small fines, etc.). In Vincent Chin’s case, his murderers only had to pay 3000 bucks and to this day have not served one day in prison. History is repeating itself. I do not believe that America gives a shit about true justice. They only want freedom, justice, and liberty for certain ethnicities -> western Europeans and African Americans/mixed black/white Americans.

I was in the Air Force ROTC before my chronic breathing illnesses forced me to quit. I was going to serve this country and protect freedom and democracy with my life and willingly give my life for what I believe was a noble cause even though I disagree with going around the world and “policing” it when it is all about seizing resources and killing the natives, just like it was back in the 1800s. I would still serve this country because it is my duty as a citizen and because I believe in the ideals of freedom, liberty, and democracy. But I realize now that I am fortunate that my illnesses prevented me from going into the military because most Americans do not view me as a comrade even though I was born and raised here. I will forever be the slant-eyed, chink/gook/jap that is the enemy of America. So if they believe that, I might as well be the enemy because attempting to be a loyal American will only earn me the same bullet in the head as if I were to “betray America” even though America has been actively betraying me by emasculating me simply for being an Asian man.

My Air Force ROTC captain warned me about the bias the military has against Asian Americans, as did another African American marine and his friend, both of whom were NCOs. They have seen first hand the brainwashing, especially int he Army and Marines where people are encouraged to see East Asians and Middle Easterners as subhuman and therefore deserving of death.

They also talked about how American media (hollywood) and other American propaganda (Fox news, even most mainstream cable news) is all about dehumanizing Asian Americans, particularly Chinese Americans in preparation for the possible war with China even though I can guarantee that China does not want war. But America does. Many white Americans in the military and government and in the populace in general are all thirsty for blood. This is why I realized that I should no longer be loyal to this country. Why be loyal to a country that wants you dead simply because of the way you look and your ancestry? And especially when the women of your country despise you simply because of your height and ethnicity?

I have been told by gorgeous, well-off (so I know they are not golddiggers) Eastern European/Russian women that they think I am very good looking in terms of facial aesthetics, as I look like a cross between Won Bin and Rain.

And they do not care about the fact that I am only 5’6″. They also appreciate the fact that I am very muscular and lift weights regularly and have trained in full contact martial arts for 14 years so that I can protect a woman if need be.

Only in certain places where Hollywood has not completely brainwashed women are my efforts appreciated by women. But here in America, because I am not tall, and because I am Asian and therefore the eternal enemy, my value is being artificially lowered… obviously. This is also why I believe Asian men need to leave America en masse. We are not wanted here no matter how loyal we are or how hard we try to improve ourselves. And the only girls who are interested in us are the whales who know nothing about self discipline and not know nothing about training hard to improve oneself and expect us to like them as they are. It is a fucking raw deal being a height challenged Asian guy here in America even if above average looking, talented, and intelligent not to mention mainstream America’s hostility towards us.
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Ben Efsaneyim sums up America’s attitude towards us beautifully.

“That scene was one of the first instances where I had seen any kind of depiction of an Asian man and the experience opened my eyes – especially that maniacal sadism at the end in which the Asian man lies defeated at Sinatra’s feet receiving his brutal comeuppance for not knowing his place. What I came to realize is that America, as expressed through its culture, views itself as being locked in some kind of heroic conflict with Asia in which any and all means of violence are justified. This is as true now as it was in the 1950’s, and has been true ever since the first Western warships sailed into Asian ports to claim Asian territories for themselves.

It should come as no surprise that the Asian-American experience in the 21st Century is often characterized by frenzied violence arising seemingly out of nowhere and manifesting as random acts of sadistic rage, yet paradoxically – and chillingly – there is a casualness about anti-Asian violence that is empowered by widespread social indifference. These types of depictions document, propagate, and perhaps even create, America’s cultural acceptance and maybe even desire for violence against Asian people.

In fact, I would suggest that this (RACIST) attitude is so ingrained in Americas’s consciousness THAT IS HAS BECOME AN INTEGRAL PART OF AMERICAN IDENTITY, so much so that these American expressions of “two minutes hate” have a “Tourettes” quality about them. This example from the Men In Black is a clear case of this – the whole scene would have worked just as well without the sadistic violence, which seems to manifest out of nowhere, for no reason pertinent to the plot, and for no other reason than to express sadistic violence towards Asians yet occurring almost reflexively.

Of course, none of this would seem relevant if it weren’t for the fact that violence towards Asians seems to be a normalized and an accepted mode of interaction for mainstream Americans with its East Asian minority. Racially biased bullying and violence towards Asian children in America’s schools is extremely common and often goes unaddressed by school authorities. Mirroring widespread movie depictions of comically casual, sadistic, violence, some Asian kids are beaten for the fun of it. Then there’s the hilarious practice of throwing old Asian people onto train tracks. Of course, there is the racially inflected harassment and violence towards Asian merchants both in the inner cities and the suburbs as well as escalating degrees of harassment in the workplace. Everywhere you look the violence and harassment of Asian people is characterized by its casualness and often sheer sadistic enjoyment in its perpetration.

At this point a causative relationship between casual violence against Asians in the media and real life hasn’t been determined (but who is investigating?), but there’s little doubt that the absence of mainstream opposition suggests that America is comfortable, or even enjoys, the fantasy of inflicting sadistic violence on Asian men. Consider, for example, if the characters at the receiving end of this violence in the Men In Black movie had been African-American – my guess is that it wouldn’t have made it passed the editing room.”

“Thus, stereotypical qualities like submissiveness, and emotional coldness serve to allow mainstream America to feel justified in its anti-Asian hostility – if you deny a deserved promotion to an Asian worker it’s not because you don’t like Asians but because (true to stereotype) they lack leadership qualities, or if you express racially inflected dislike of your Asian co-worker it’s not racism because (true to stereotype) they are just cold and distant. The latter is even a justification for racial baiting because you are not actually being racist after all – your cold and distant Asian co-worker just needs to lighten up! Thus, casual anti-Asian racism has a socially legitimate and normalized avenue of expression.

This study adds another layer to this casual anti-Asian prejudice in that overcoming stereotypes is less about overcoming ignorance – if it was about ignorance then people wouldn’t have a problem with Asians with warm personalities – and is more about overcoming the apparently overwhelming desire of American society (and the individuals who comprise it) TO MAINTAIN THEIR ANTI-ASIAN HOSTILITY. THEY JUST DON’T WANT TO LET GO OF THEIR ANTI-ASIAN RACISM. WHY ELSE WOULD THE NORMALLY STRONGLY DESIRED QUALITIES OF HUMAN WARMTH AND STRONG PERSONALITY CAUSE WHITE AMERICANS TO INCREASE THE EXPRESSION OF THEIR HOSTILITY TOWARDS ASIAN PEOPLE????”

This is stupid. Many 1000s of years ago, anthropologically here was only one kind of human…just human and one language, not races. The world is getting “smaller” because people are getting closer and intermarrying. So what if we all become one race again? Mankind will just continue to find another way of screwing up things with it’s ignorance, prejudice, hate and bigotry.
I’m multi-racialised myself which I found it to be more of a big deal for so called “purists” than anyone else. Realistically there’s no such thing as a pure race anyhow. I think we should all just get along and be peaceful to one another and respect each other in the first place.

The offspring of the Asian dudes and White girls are the cream of the fucking crop! The guys are the captains of the team, the presidents of student council, Mr. Popular, and the big man on campus.

But in general it takes no more than tossing a football to automatically know if the Hapa you are talking with has an Asian for a mother, or a father.”

Funny, but as the son of an Asian father and white mother, I found the reverse to be true.

Maybe this is my stereotype, but I found that mothers have more influence on the culture within the home, but dads had more impact on the status of the family within the greater community.

So, I always felt that Eurasians with white fathers had an easier time integrating with the white community. Even if they were unmistakably of Asian descent, the others always thought of them as “American” (despite having an Asian mother). Not so for the ones with Asian fathers. Even if they clearly looked part Caucasian, they were still, somehow, not really “American” and had more trouble integrating in the community (including school).

Finally, to the extent that a white person still maintains, even subconsciously, a feeling of white superiority or privilege (whether they admit it or not), the white wife of an Asian man may still feel a sense of white entitlement, which contrasts with a traditional household where the husband tends to have more dominance (even in the decisions of where to live and how to spend the family resources).

I feel quite strange reading this. My husband is Japanese, and I’m a caucasian female…I was just googling Eurasian babies for fun since i’m pregnant, I actually was hoping our baby would look more japanese Since asian babies are so damn adorable..or maybe it’s just my hormones right now…sorry sorry, don’t mind me…

Sarah Yoshida- I was doing the exact same thing! I’m a Caucasian female and my boyfriend of 6 years is Chinese. I’m not pregnant, just wanted to see what our future babies would look like… And this wasn’t the right place to look lol

Asian women love white guys. In fact, they would drive 100 miles in the dark just to meet one. And I’m not making this up, just to stroke my imaginary ego. But here’s another one to consider- everybody loves white guys.

A white guy can date any race on the planet in any country on the planet.

A asian girl can date any race on the planet in any country on the planet.

They are the Apex Predator’s of each sex.

Their offspring are physically healthier than either of the pure bred offspring.

It’s like creating a mutt that’s smarter and stronger, only it looks better than the pure breed(that would be you). There is a cellular biology/genetics basis for this.

Disparate races, when reproducing, have healthier children because their DNA has to be rewritten and error checked moreso than if breeding with a similar race recombination. I’m not making this up. But I’m guessing since you are asking the above question, odds are you don’t know jack about biology. The key is to combine races separated as much as possible, but where the offspring looks better than the original of both parents.

If this confuses you(oblivious to your condition), have you seen any movies lately? The hybrids can walk between both worlds and kick everyone’s ass. It’s not an accident. It’s not a new phenomena. They just have enough of them to go around now to make a difference.

So if you had all the money in the world(like those white guys), do you want to have kids that look like a Ford Fiesta or a Ferrari? It’s simple eugenics in the purist sense.

People with choices choose the best among those choices. And the best match is an Asian and White, if you are creating a hybrid. Otherwise, who cares. They’ll look just like you with the same medical problems you have. Big bonus. But at least you be asian race X. Good for you.

If you want your grand kids to look just like you, perhaps you should reconsider what you are asking. The assumption is that it’s damaging you you and your kids. Reality check.

Maybe you aren’t a movie star. Maybe you aren’t a rich white guy. Maybe more of the same isn’t helping your family in the long term.

Maybe you’re doing your grand kids a disservice by sticking them with yet another cloned asian phenotype with the same damned disease’s and short fragile frame for the last 500 years. This is what the human race thinks about without cultural BS getting in the way. I hope you aren’t upset by it.

If this is too racist for you perhaps you should reconsider your initial question.

Otherwise, the facts are that biology doesn’t care what you think. The asian/white mixed kids are healthier, stronger, and better looking than the originals. It seems that everyone know this but asian guys and white girls. And yes, even your kids know this. It’s not taught. It’s a biological imperative that you have no control over. Sorry. Best of luck though.

If you are telling Asians to breed with whites to produce superior offspring, then you may have a point. However, you can’t claim that they will be better than pure white children. In America and other western countries, they will still be looked at as gooks and chinks. Your claim that they are genetically healthier than their parents is unconvincing. Even if you use the breeding of dogs as a comparison can you really claim that any dog is smarter and more fit than a wolf?

So, there is no “biological imperative” for a white man to breed with an Asian woman. That is, unless he abandons white society in favor of a yellow one. And why would a white man do that? It’s curious that you don’t consider white women to be “apex predators.” I watch plenty of movies and looked through all the Victoria Secret’s catalog and from what I see white women are the most desired in the World. Have you seen Asian porn? It doesn’t hold a candle to Western porn.

So, if you correct yourself and place white women as the “apex predators” then there is no reason for white men to choose Asians. But, for those white men at the bottom of the barrel who can’t get the quality white women they desire, then moving over to Asian females would be an attractive alternative. Like a small fish becoming the big fish in a smaller pond, the lowly white man can produce offspring more superior relative to those around them then he could amongst his own race.

So, you are a loser among your peers. But, that in itself is not a big deal. You’ve made the right decision for your offspring by breeding with an Asian and if they live in a yellow society they will be the best amongst them. Still, it would have been better if you made this point yourself especially since you seem so forthright and arrogant in your essay.

so you think that people like you and me are” the geekiest most homely White guy since the invention of White homely guys” that complet bullshit..dude you got to separete your own emotion..i feel a lot of anger in your writhing ..please im not hating…but generalizing like you do is bad…im 18 my dad is white and my mom is asian..i work for point-zero, im a part-time photographer and i’m part a many casting and modeling agency…i dont think we are a garbage genetic..i say ,,, WE ARE WHAT WE AR there’s no race better than the other , there no alpha or omega…there only anger, love and jalousy,, trust me….everyone want to be loved and accepted.

I hate to say it, but, your right. I am an Asian male and I grew up in an all white environment. I found that the few Asian people I knew shunned me because I was “too white” so I’ve dated white girls all my life. I am dating one now and I must say, I am a badass. Partly because I was picked on a lot when I was younger so I became tough. It is what it is, heres my facebook so you can see proof http://www.facebook.com/Donovanlee06

White women do love Asian men. Their babies are beautiful However, it has everything to do with patriarchy about most Asian men. That’s right. Asian men can work hard to support the family. However, they control their wife too much. She does not even share her ideas to her husband. Yes, Asian men are “bossy”.

lmao.. im sorry but this article is funny. i am a hapa myself, and i can guarantee you that ive only seen two hapas that could pass for being white and both came from an asian mom and white dad and i LIVE in a community full of hapas. The rest look either totally asian or mixed. Having a white mother and asian father does not have a higher chance of having a white looking kid…. Asians genes are powerful. Real fuckin powerful man… Thanks for the laugh lolll.

Asian females have junk, poverty genetics.
Genetically speakingm, the female contributes more to the gene pool by weighting

A son from an Asian female (man of ANY race) is basically fucked.
More often tahn not the son will take after the Asian mother.
Doesn’t matter how tall or Blued eyed the white father is. LOL
Because Asian female (ie the mother) typically has junk, povery genetics (for producing sons):
– short
– narrow small frame
– bird bones
– not robust
– weak
– neotenous femmy face (not good in a male/son, will be gay looking. LOL)

Sucks to be you or the son
It will typically end up looking like Eliot Rodger.
And mentally fucked up in the head. LOL

So you have seen examples of 2 outliers so you now think you wrote the book on genetics… LOL

While YOU might see them as white looking, i guarantee white people don’t

Asian male with white females ON AVERAGE produce the whiter looking kids.
In many cases they can pass as fully white:

Examples of ‘famous’ people (Asian male-White female) (Google their pics):

Interesting tirade. I’m not sure it’s really that bad for Asian-American men. I’m sure Asian men who just come over to the USA struggle, because of their culture, some are from poor immigrant families, and yes I agree that American media is extremely anti-Asian American men, if not flat out racist.

But, the US census shows that white women marry East Asian men at the highest rate, Korean-American and Japanese-American men especially, than any other non-white male. You probably don’t notice it, because only about 0.5% of the population is a Korean-American or Japanese American male. Chinese-American men will soon follow, as China is gradually becoming a richer and more respected country in the world.

Let’s also remember, that only 1% of the America is East Asian men. Among 2nd generation Asian men, they marry white women at about 40%. That’s pretty much exactly the same as Jewish males, who also have white skin.

I think it’s clear that WMAF and BMWF marriages have a negative visceral reaction, because the woman is actually choosing against the more educated, cultured and affluent group. People see and feel it as being a “slutty” pick, and there’s clearly alot of outrage voiced against it (like your blog lol). Just look at all the racially charged pornography of those pairings. The themes of Asian women’s sexual servitude throughout media and military history are also pervasive.

A lot of this influence on East Asian women into picking this pairing today is due to Hollywood. The further out you go from Hollywood’s influence, this less this effect occurs. But another bigger influence might be due to East Asia having just climbed out of poverty in this past generation. Japan might be the only exception, but even the Americans of Japanese ethnicity suffered immense racism from WW2. So culturally, East Asia is behind where it should be, and East Asian women see Caucasian Men as higher status in terms of culture and wealth.

This ignores the fact that of 18 of the past 20 centuries, China was the wealthiest and most advanced nation. And it’s clear that China seems to be correcting what they see as a blip in the natural order, as they look to regain the top status of the most advanced civilization. They have a long ways to go, probably at least another 50 to 100 years, but politically elite citizens are usually ahead of the curve on these trends, and you can also see this happening in some of the world leaders’ daughters having had Asian men as a romantic interest. This includes Al Gore, Putin, Paul Rudd, and even Obama’s sister. Those girls may have just been falling in love, but we’re all moved by certain forces in the world.

With all the new research on genetic clusters and IQ, we now know those hybrid children of BMWF or WMAF have a lower racial genetic mean IQ compared to their mother, so the children are shortchanged cognitively by their in terms of their natural ability for success.

However, in the opposite cases of AMWF or WMBF, the mother has improved the chances of giving their child a smarter brain. We can see this in mulattos having far more success than blacks, but less than whites. The data on hapas (aka eurasians) will certainly show their cognitive superiority to whites, but below East Asians. It will become first obvious in easily testable areas such as SAT, PISA, and g-loaded IQ tests.

This also matches US census data on white women who outmarry to Asian men compared to black men. The former women are much better educated and weigh on average 25lbs lighter than the latter women. So, while your parents represent the anti-hypergamy pairing, you doesn’t make your prospect out to be as bad as you make it sound. There’s evidence that this systematic racism may be lessened in the foreseeable future.

I also agree that WMAF produce far more headcases than AMWF. First, the US census shows that WMAF is BY FAR the highest age discrepancy of any pairing. There isn’t another one that is close. Second, you can see it in sexual deviancy of the daughters especially. Pornography and prostitution of their daughters is by far more prevalent. There was a case of the daughter of a white VP of a Wall Street bank, who’s daughter attended Georgetown, but she ended up doing 3 porn films. That’s not even a lower class girl. And I guess the guys are headcases too, judging from you writing this blog. Haha, sorry but true.

People need to stop thinking in terms of generalizations and look at the individual. There are certain individual AMs who are more attractive and superior to the majority of white men. For example, just about every Asian female would prefer Godfrey Gao over any white man, and a good number of white women would as well. Of course, you will always have those nerdy, skinny, Asian guys, but if you don’t actually look like that, you have nothing to worry about.

“Most White/Asian couples are between a White guy and an Asian girl, and it’s always some drop dead gorgeous Asian chick and the geekiest most homely White guy since the invention of White homely guys. ”

Absolutely wrong, the majority of AFs who marry white tend to be towards the unattractive end; AFs who marry AMs tend to be noticeably more attractive since Asian men have higher standards.

Kristoff, you need to give yourself more credit; after all, a good-looking asian male would be considered superior to the majority of white males, especially in the eyes of asian females, which is why the hottest AFs go for them. Also, Asian american males get more respect from people in other countries since they don’t fall under the typical american stereotypes of being fat, stupid, obnoxious, uncultured, etc.

I ready this and could totally relate- I’m half Asian but I look more European/Russian.. my dad is Burmese and 1/4 Chinese and my mother is Australian/English and my dad is as Ballsy as f*ck as well. He’s even a tall, big Asian and all my friends thinks he’s the coolest guy ever but it goes back to what you were saying about confidence. My dad is naturally charismatic BUT when he moved to Australia for my mum, he hates it, there were hardly as many Asians here as there are now and he got made fun of a bit, so he developed an attitude, swag, confidence and now too much so he will tell people to stick it if they piss him off haha. Your point is completely true about the AM/WF because no offence to anyone but most the time the white men who marry Asian women are shy, nerdy quiet and know that there are so many Asian women who act desperate and date any white ugly men… Question is why?. For security? For half white babies??
People need to be proud of who they are and become that role model power couple for us Asians to look up to! If I met a confident, attractive Asian I would probably give him a go!!
Instead I have an overly confident italian boyfriend who is much like my dad! #Growballsguys #Growbrainsgirls

Dude, I’m Eurasian as well (white dad Asian mom), and I know EXACTLY what you are saying, but you gotta stop being a little whiny bitch, and go date some girls. Go find a sister, I’m serious, I dated a sister for 3 years and it changed my life. Go find a sexy dark Latina. Be the boss. I agree with everything you said here, you said this:

“the racial hierachy of blacks being the most alpha, and Asians the most omega, certainly supports the whole alpha-beta theory. White girls go for the more masculine black males, but Asian girls go for the more masculine white girls. And Asian males are left at the bottom of the pit. ”

I have some philosophies on this. Read my article I wrote. Good luck man, cheers, and I hope you can find that the Eurasian identity can be quite masculine, exotic, and overall entertaining.

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Are we still evolving?

As a Eurasian male byproduct of a white male Asian female couple that was raised culturally American, I have to say that I have had some identity issues, but all in all, I wouldn’t really trade it for the world, although I would like to know what it’s like to be a tall white male, a dark skinned black male, and an attractive Asian female for the day. Surely, I feel a bit caught between east and west, unsure if I am “Asian”, “white”, “Hispanic”, or just “American”, but all in all it’s kind of fun. The truth is that I know who I am, but it’s the way that society labels me that confuses me. But I like when people find me to be a bit exotic, when they can’t figure out what I “am”, and how I can really see how the whole notion of “race” is socially constructed through daily experiences.

I am also in a position where my very existence is like a political statement every single day and my appearance is very confusing to people because they don’t understand that it is hard to classify people discretely because we exist on a continuum. My very existence also implies that I get attacked from all sides: being a rice eating Asian in the white community, a non Spanish speaking Hispanic in Mexican restaurants, and the emasculated product of the white male/ Asian female who sold out to the white man by some Asian males.

The biggest dichotomy for the Eurasian male who was raised in a western culture is that he is stuck between two worlds. When he is with the white community, he is labeled as Asian. Yet, if he was raised in a generic American culture, he may not have been raised to know much about Asian culture. So the Eurasian male may see himself as something different than how society sees him. Yet, that may be one of the transformations that happen in America or in Asia, especially after multiple generations. That may be in a sense what it means to be “Eurasian”. When the Eurasian joins the Asian community they accept him because he is seen as Asian, but they also see him as a bit differently since he is not full blooded Asian or he hasn’t been raised much in the culture.

So now he faces the same emasculation of the Asian male since he is seen as an Asian male, and he observes the mass exodus of Asian women in marrying or dating white men. It disgusts him to see all of the Asian women going for white men and how the white man has access to Asian women solely based on his “race”, or white privilege in a sense. Yet, the Eurasian can’t hate the white man for it because the white man is part of himself. If he came from a white male Asian female couple, he was the exact byproduct of the Asian female exodus to the white man. To hate the white man would be to hate a part of himself or to hate his father. He was raised by and likely mimicked his father, but he does not have white privilege because he is viewed as Asian. This may be a struggle for the Eurasian male.

I think for the Asian male and even the Asian looking Hapa, there must be an evolution of the community because there are major transformations happening sociologically, and the Eurasian is precisely in the midst of the evolution of humanity. Since Asian women have flooded to white men, yet often give birth to Asian looking Hapa male children, the Asian or Asian looking Hapa male must change and adapt to these sociological transformations as well. Homo sapiens are not static, and we are always changing and moving forward as the generation go by in terms of technology, religion, industrialization, and even “race”. The Asian or Asian looking Hapa male marrying with the Black, Hispanic, Arab, Iranian, Indian, Native American, or other “race” female rejects the very notion of the Asian or Hapa male accepting whiteness as more masculine, especially after the exodus or desertion of their “race” by Asian females to white men. It is a statement that says distinctly that the white male is not superior to the emasculated Asian male and asserts the masculinity of the Asian or Asian looking Hapa male.

Currently the laws of supply and demand in the interracial dating market are somewhat out of balance. One can’t deny that the major trends in “interracial” marriages are between Asian women who have left their “race” for white men, and white women who have left their “race” for black men. The Asian men and black women are left stranded and deserted by their “race”. In terms of supply and demand, the supply of Asian men and supply of black women exceeds the demand for them in the same “race” marriage market. Yet sociologically, the Asian male has yet to step up the plate and assert his masculinity over the femininity of the black woman.

In a sociological sense, the Asian male black female pairing gives the Asian male the ultimate form of masculinity. According to social stereotypes and media representations, Asian women are often seen as petite or submissive (Japanese cuteness, shy, small), white women are seen as hot or desired (Hollywood, prettiness, Playboy), and black women are seen as sexy or seductive (Tyra Banks, hyper sexuality, Rihanna). Sociologically, the black female is typically seen as the only one capable of being able to be tamed by a black man, the most masculine of the males. Only the black man can tame the sister. Yet, the Asian male is seen as the least masculine of all the males. He is seen as the geeky computer nerd, the one with the smallest dick, and the one who has seen the Asian female reject her “race” in favor of the white man. If the Asian males would step up to the plate and fill their role in the ebb and flow of human evolution, then they should marry or date more black females and assert their role as the most masculine of all the types, the ones with the bigger dick than the black man, the real ones capable of taming the sister.

Theoretically speaking, mankind is likely still evolving in terms of “race” since the whole notion of “race” was derived from evolution and geography. The white male/ Asian female and the black male/ white female in a sense have led the movement towards a new “race” as the “races” have already begun to transform. The popular Eurasian male and the popular half black/ half white mix is in essence the beginning of the transformation, and the evolution of mankind will continue as the new “races” emerge. If the Eurasian were to marry black, or the half black/ half white were to marry Asian, or the half black/ half Asian were to marry white, the “bleurasian” offspring would emerge. This term or title is quite phenomenal in itself. In a sense, the “bleurasian” identity might suggest the rejection of the notion that you can even discretely categorize “race”, as the “races” of mankind may be evolving to become in a sense, a “bluration”.

If you think about the historical ramifications of “race” in the United States, the new trends in “interracial” dating and marriage likely still convey the historical ramifications of “race” that have been established culturally over hundreds of years. Metaphorically speaking, the black male’s union with the white woman in essence may imply his desire to gain dominance over the white man’s world. In a metaphoric sense, the domination of the slave over the slave master. The black male’s white wife is the ultimate rejection of the white man’s dominance in society. The white man, after losing the sociological power of his “race” by the exodus of white women to the black man, finds the Asian woman, whereas the Asian women in an effort to become western, assimilate, and escape the pressures and prejudice of being Asian seeks the white man and his so called “white privilege”. The white man may feel empowered by the Asian woman who is cute, petite, and loving.

So the Asian man is left with his “race” having been deserted by the exodus of Asian women to white men, the white man has been deserted by his “race” from the exodus of white women to black men, and the black female has been deserted by her “race” by the exodus of black men to white women. Many Asian men feel that their “race” has been stolen by the white man and become frustrated and emasculated. The empirical rates of Asian male marriage in comparison to Asian female rates are strikingly low. Asian males simply do not marry nearly as much as Asian females. Similarly, more black women are left without a match as many black men have deserted their “race” for white women. Black women often times reject dating white men because it may still assert the historical domination of the white “race” over the black “race”.

The way to establish equilibrium in the market for “race” is for the Asian man to assert his masculinity over the black woman. Not only does that solve the empirical mismatch in marriage rates for Asian and black females, but it also brings equilibrium to the market. In doing so, the Asian male may also rise from being the least masculine of all the “races” to becoming the most dominant of all of the “races”, as he has tamed the black woman, the most sexual of all of the females. He has taken the black man’s wife, but the black man is the most masculine. The black man is so masculine that he has even taken over the white man’s wife. When the Asian male asserts his masculinity over the black man’s wife, he asserts that he is indeed the most masculine of all the men. Subsequently the market for “race” returns to equilibrium.

When the Asian male asserts his masculinity over the black man’s wife, he asserts that he is indeed the most masculine of all the men. The black man is so masculine that he has even taken over the white man’s wife and the white man’s presidency. The Asian man has stolen the black man’s wife, but the black man had stolen the white man’s wife. The white man still claims “white privilege” even though he has lost the presidency and lost his white wife to the black man. When the Asian man takes the black man’s wife, he also rejects having an Asian wife, which is ultimately rejecting the notion of “white privilege” asserted to the white man. When the Asian male rejects the Asian female in favor of the black female, he has assumed the most masculine role as he has taken it from the black man and the white man. Subsequently, the market for “race” returns to equilibrium and continues to change.

I’m a Caucasian female who finds myself to be more attracted to Asian men rather than Caucasian men. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder and I just behold Asian men to be better looking than any other race. I’m posting to let you know that women like me do exist. My son is half Chinese and my baby on the way is a quarter Korean. #hapaquapalove

That’s pretty horrible. I mean, I did learn that the Chinese Exclusion Act was a law that prohibited immigration from China, but had no idea that such a holocaust against existing Chinese-Americans took place. Being a second generation Korean-American, I was hoping our latter generations were going to have it easier here since 2nd-generationers like me won’t be stupid enough to pass on the tradition of Confucianism, while better preparing their progeny for American society than their first-generation immigrant parents due to the extensive experience of living here. I actually believe that the reason Asians are so weak as a minority group is that we came here late, and like 99% of older Asians are first-generation who don’t have a clue about what’s going on here. I hoped things would change for the better as we become more deeply ingrained in this society. But of course that would be the reason why they would wan’t to exterminate us (again) in the first place. It looks like life will be harder for our third-generation children, if we manage to have any, that is.

I agree 🙂 life is hard. My wife is pregnant now. Before we knew if we would have a boy or a girl. I would imagine the best for my child and how there lives could play out. Id wish for their lives to be more successful and easier then mine was or is. Both my mother n wife wanted a girl. I was totally fine with that, thinking that an Asian boy could have a tough life here. (I’ll have to finish this up later. My girl is sleeping in my arms n it’s hard to type on my phone n get my thoughts together.)