I want some one to talk with who is genuine and kindhearted. I want to hear about their day. I want to talk about important things. Talk about funny shit. Watch The Big Bang Theory. Watch Jon Stewart. Drink wine. Look at the stars. Enjoy each others company. Maybe I'll find her?

Things I'm good at: Making friends. Listening. Imparting sage wisdom when I can. I am fairly well read, and knowledgeable in regards to current events. I love to cook while listening to good music and drinking wine- and I am good at all three.

What I like: Not number 1, but I do love sports- I'm a Dodgers, Cubs, Lakers, Bears fan. Authors/Books-Neil Gaiman, Michael Moore, John Grisham, Dan Brown, Stephen King, The Motorcycle Diaries. Movies- The Usual Suspects, Pi, The Shawshank Redemption, Boondock Saints, The Red Violin, Immortal Beloved, among many others. There is one romantic comedy I like, but I won't tell you which one. TV wise I watch Castle, Grimm, Helix, River Monsters, Restaurant Impossible, Bar Rescue, Chopped. Music- I love everything from Stevie Wonder and Marvin Gaye to Rob Zombie and Nine Inch Nails to 2Pac and Trip Hop. Led Zepplin and The Beatles. I actually used to manage bands and love to go "discover" new bands as well as attend big concerts. Food- I love good food. I have been eating sushi since I was 9 years old and have a fairly adventurous palate- I have been lucky enough to have eaten from a wide array of different cultures and am not afraid to try new things- within reason, I'm more Anthony Bourdain and not Andrew Zimmern. I can cook pretty well and like to do so. I love Avery Brewing Co. Maharajah (wicked good) and like Coors Light too. Fair Corn Dogs with yellow mustard only, and those cinammon rolls that you get in one of the buildings. You know what I'm talking about.

You should contact me if: You are a positive, fun, and intelligent woman. A woman that wants to enjoy the time we have and the people we like. A woman that is comfortable at a black tie affair but would rather have a shot and a beer at a dive, then go to a karaoke bar or shoot some pool. A woman that can be silly and likes it when I am. Someone that understands romance and passion are awesome. I would like someone who is looking for a relationship that is free of pressure based on how old we are or what others expect of us.

You want the dude you have always said you wanted, with a few flaws like most people have. All I ask is that you're a cool, genuine, and smart lady. And- that you aren't a Sarah Palin fan.

*** Note: I am open to a serious relationship, but I want it to develop, not be forced because that's what "we're supposed to do"- let's meet, talk, see where things go without a pre determined requirement. I wish this site gave the option of listing yourself as "looking for casual dating, with the possibility of a serious relationship". ****

First Date

A nice dinner where we could talk, enjoy some wine, discover each other.