the real thing is much more honest. this fellow is very lucky to have a partner who is lovely and seemingly wise far beyond her years, and very far beyond his years. hopefully she can guide him to understand what is really relevant in life. his exterior has taken him a long way. he seems immature and whiney, but he apparantly has moments of reality when he can see beyond himself. he and i are the same age. hopefully he will be able to understand that his family is far beyond the league of silliness of acting. he loves the fruits of fame, but complains about the negative results of striving for notariety. i guess that is the dichotomy of an actor........give me the good stuff, keep out the 'to be expected' invasive and maddening stuff.........can't have it both ways. respect your girl, your son, and your future children. you have had many years to be 'the one'. move on from the obsession for attention. life is far too short to waste precious time with getting more attention. you must know by now that you are physically stunning. GET OVER IT. put on your adult, man pants. you have enough money. you have had enough recognition.......ad nauseum. give your life and soul to more important endeavors. lose the pretty boy mindset. you have wrung it out. hope that your ego does not cost you your tara and child.................julie p.z.