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Wednesday, November 11, 2015

To be at peace, make peace with your pain

To be sure, no one, simply no one,
is spared of pain in this lifetime.Everyone who is born on the planet
has to deal with their share until, as most scriptures say, death “frees” them.
This is the truth and this reality is inescapable. It is when we label this
share of pain as unfair, unjust and unkind, and therefore resist it, that we
suffer.

Simply, tell your pain off: “Hello, you
have come uninvited and I know I can’t do anything about it. So you be where
you are, do what you want to do. I am choosing to be unmoved and I am choosing
to just be. Now watch your relationship with pain change.” It will potter
around with your Life but not at the cost of your missing the opportunity to
live!

In most Indian homes, despite the best pest
control methods available today, it is rare that you will not find lizards.
Now, there are many people who grieve at the sight of a lizard. They are
petrified of them and imagine horrible consequences of co-existing with them.
They cringe and suffer all the time. But there are several million others,
across the subcontinent, that just let the lizards be and they be themselves.
Yes, everyone wishes that the lizards don’t present themselves in front of
them, but when they know they can’t do pretty much anymore, they make their
peace and move on. Pain is like the lizard in an Indian home. It just likes to
hang round. And it doesn’t have a vicious agenda to terrorize you and make you
feel miserable. You suffer only because you hate its presence!

The best way to deal with pain is to
make your peace with it. Then, Life becomes worth living.