(Closed) I’m about to lose it

I had some money aside and we’ve been using that to pay for the wedding, when I realized that we were going to come up short I talked to my fiance about a stag and doe, he wasn’t too keen on the idea at first but I convinced him and we agreed to have one. Well I got busy and things piled up, and he really hasn’t had any planning to do other than pick between these things I’ve gone ahead and narrowed down for you. So he offered to plan the stag and doe. So I left him in charge of it and decided to just let him run with it…we started to get closer and closer to the date and one of my Bridesmaid or Best Man asked me about the stag and doe, so I checked in with him and he didn’t even start planning it…He hadn’t found a place to host it or looked into any of the supplies or anything! So I came down on him a little and stressed how important it was that this get done. He said he would work on it….We were 7 weeks from the wedding and still he was no further ahead. So I had to either plan it myself in like a week or call it off. We were going out of town for a week so it really left no time so I called it off. I’m putting everything extra from every pay check into this wedding, I’m putting all my savings in and he couldn’t even plan a stag and doe? We talked about it and he reminded me that since we are paid bi-weekly the month before the wedding we will receive 3 paychecks so we can take from that. No worries right? Wrong…that week we had to go for came out of the wedding fund, it was family related so we had to do it. 1500$ more went towards another family related issue, happy to do it but he’s supposed to pay it back…I picked out nice inexpensive invitations that would’ve done the job, he wanted nice fancy ones so we went from 100$ to 1000$ …everything that is supposed to be paid back is supposed to be covered by that “extra” pay check…But now we’re short on the total owed for the wedding so now I have to pull from my line of credit because I’m the only one that has anything to pull! After the wedding mind you, there won’t be anything left over…I’m extremely disappointed in him for this. I paid for his groomsman gifts, I’m paying for everything…I know it’s all our money but I feel like I’m giving more than I should be especially since he’s not putting anything in at all. I don’t know what to do, I know our troubles wouldn’t have been solved by the stag and doe completely but I know it would’ve helped a fair bit, and part of me feels like he purposely put it off because he didn’t want it in the first place. Now the 3rd paycheck is coming around and he’s giving me a little guff about forking it all over. Is it wrong me for to feel this way? How can I get rid of this feeling so that I’m not mad at him when I’m working on all the wedding stuff that’s left or paying for things…