THINGS I HAVE LEARNED WHEN I TURNED 30

Things I have learned when I turned 30

Today I want to tell you guys the things I have learned when I turned 30. During this period, I have fallen, stand up, re-fall and re-stand up again, and I always learn something new that make me the person I am today. Don’t take me wrong is not that I like to make mistakes… however I am always looking for improving myself and I don’t feel ashamed for making mistakes.

Always have a plan to direct yourself, however it doesn’t matter if at the end your plan doesn’t end in the way you wanted, the important things is, to have a clear idea of what you want to reach in life. This not only will give you steps you need to do but also it will help you to organize your gold’s

Talking about what you want to reach in life, not to mention I have learned that nothing is for free, and if you want something you have to fight for it, and I mean really hard. It will come times where you want to quit because is too hard the way… In that case believe me you are strong enough to continue with your dreams and your fights, just visualize the price, your prize, your gold’s…

Don’t be afraid of change; sometimes changes are exactly what you need…

Live in the present and enjoy your process, because the process is where you are going to learn who you are and is going to build your character.

Sometimes, your friends just need to be listening, and that’s all, don’t bomber people with your opinions and ideas, everybody is different and maybe what it work for you, don’t necessary mean it will work for them…

Never judge people, you don’t know what is behind that word or that decision they make, beside it says more about the person who is judging that the person who is being judge…

Learn to forgive, learn to apologize, there is not need for arrogance, be humble in life, and always try to see the thing from the other person eyes…

Be kind to yourself. If you make a mistake just stand up forgive yourself and continue your way… With this in mind remember the world doesn’t stop spinning, not for you not for anybody…

Is always better to love and lose, than to never had the opportunity to love…

Surround yourself with beautiful people, people who makes you better person, and bring positive things to your life…

To give is much betters that to receive…

Travel… travel the world but don’t stay to long in the tourist areas, instead discover the places where local people go, in order to give you a new perspective.

Be thankful for what you have. Practice gratitude. Focus on the good things you have, not in what you don’t have.

Don’t let others break your dreams; for this reason believe in yourself and what you are capable of. Love yourself, you are just wonderful exactly the way you are.

Exercise, this is really important to hold your inside-out balance.

Build true relations-ships, sometimes takes years to build trust and just seconds to destroy it, be gentle with the people surround, and show then the better way…

Your way is not always the best way for others

Respect yourself as much as you respect others. You are the only one who will teach other who to treat you.

Let go, sometimes it can be really difficult and painful to let the things go. Letting go of something or let someone go means closing a cycle full of good and bad things but in the end is just cycle. Letting go implies a change in our stability, and even means we will have to adapt, and sooner or later, we will understand that life is made of cycles and by letting is our way of telling the world ” I’m ready for what’s next ” At the moment you decide that someone or that mistake of the past no longer will affect your present and what happens then you are going to feel free.

Write your own story, for this reason you can write a beautiful one or a bad one, is just depends on you. We all have wounds and scars, we cried and we felt alone. If we decide to concentrate on the bad things we will never be happy. You are the only responsible of your happiness; it doesn’t matter where you are. Find your reason to live, what do you like, what inspires you. Fulfill your dreams.