You are really liking this girl or guy, and you find it easier to talk to him/her on MySpace. Here is how you contact her on MySpace the cool way with being considered a "stalker."

Steps

1

Get to know your crush in real life first. If you are too shy to talk to her, bite the bullet and talk to her in person or over the phone. If you talk to her, you are more likely to be seen as a good acquaintance or friend than just a stalker. Compliment her on her clothes, hair etc. Find out what she is interested in and what she likes to do for activities, her job, etc.

2

Once you get to know her enough, ask her if she has MySpace. If she says yes, proceed to step three. If she says no, ask her if she is on other sites or just ask her for her number, like the good old days. Ask her for her URL.

3

Type in her MySpace URL. If she does not have one, go to find people and search for her first and last name.

4

If the profile is a public profile, check to see if she is single. You don't want to be hooking up with somebody who is acting single but it is really taken. If her profile is private, give it a gamble and add her anyway. It is mandatory by law and MySpace regulations for 14 and 15 year olds to have private profiles and there are lots of older people that have private profiles as well. If you are older than 18 and are digging for a minor, it will ask you if you know the person. By that time, it is better off to date adults than teenagers.

5

Give it a gamble and add her.

6

If she adds you back, great. If she doesn't add you back, she might be a rare MySpace user or she might not know you enough to add her on MySpace. Check the last login date. If she was last online three to six months ago or earlier, she probably gave up myspace or is a very rare user. Get to know her a little better in real life, instead.