In 1973, when her 7-year-old daughter was kidnapped during a
family camping trip in Montana and murdered by her captor, the mother of five
said she would have killed the person who did it with her "bare
hands."

"But my Catholic faith calls me to something
different," she said, explaining how she came to a change her opinion on
the death penalty, which she likened to a "wrestling match where God
won."

Jaeger-Lane, speaking to reporters in a May 11 press call officially launching the National
Catholic Pledge to End the Death Penalty, said most people have "a gut
level response to acts of extreme violence, but when they are educated on the
reality of the death penalty, they begin to rethink their position."

She told reporters that her daughter's kidnapper called her a
year to the day of the kidnapping and was arrested soon after, but she asked
the prosecutor for the alternative sentence of mandatory life without parole.
Only when the kidnapper was offered that, she said, was he willing to confess
to the murders of three children, including her daughter Susie, and a
19-year-old.

For decades, Jaeger-Lane, who forgave her daughter's killer, has
spoken out against the death penalty, urging people to see that capital
punishment does not bring the closure or healing that victims' families are
seeking. She said it also denies the criminals the chance for the "mercy
of God working in their lives."

She said she signed the anti-death penalty pledge, sponsored by
Catholic Mobilizing Network, because she believes "the Catholic community
can be the one to end the death penalty."

She also is convinced there is more Catholics can do, stressing
that she would like to hear priests speak out against the death penalty as they
do against abortion as a pro-life issue. She also pointed out that many parishes
have prison ministries — noting that she is part of a ministry that visits a
prison every week — but she thinks there needs to be more of an outreach of
support for victims' families.

They need to be listened to in their desire for revenge, she
said.

Bishop Frank J. Dewane of Venice, Florida, chairman of the U.S.
bishops' Committee on Domestic Justice and Human Development, who also took
part in the press call, similarly urged the church to take up the
"ministry of accompaniment" to support victims' families.

The bishop, who signed the pledge May 9, stressed that its key
components call people to be educated on the death penalty, advocate against it
and pray for it to end.

He said Catholic bishops have spoken out for decades against the
death penalty, stressing that the "human dignity in every human being must
be respected."

The idea for the pledge campaign began in January, said Catholic
Mobilizing Network executive director Karen Clifton. She said Arkansas' bid to
execute eight death-row prisoners in a 10-day span in April — four were
ultimately put to death — "exacerbated the situation and showed it as a
very live example of who we are executing and the reasons why the system is so
broken."