If so we help my showing you that you matter, that your problems are shared by us, by relating to you and showing you that you are not alone, by showing you that there is a way out of the darkness and that there is hope.

Also it helps to get that crap out of your head and out on the screen.

obviously i don't know you and i don't know your story. so how could i possibly tell you that i care or that you are worth anything, right?

some of us will be able to relate to your story more than others, sure. but what we can all relate to is the pain inside. we can listen to you and actually really hear you, because in your 'voice' we can hear echoes of our own pain. and we can tell you there can be an easing of the pressure, that you are not alone, that we care that another person is crying out as we have done so many times before.

we can hold your hand and put up with anything you can dish out (within the rules and regulations of the site of course ). we will not abandon nor ridicule each other here...

i used to hate myself even more whenever i showed my 'weakness'. inner strength means a lot to me. but i have learned i am even stronger every time i pick myself up from those moments, not from trying to resist them...

not fools nor whiners here - you pull foolish whining crap here, i'll tell you straight.
we're just a large bunch of people who share real life stories - not some soap opera rubbish they like to show on TV where everyone's problems are solved in half an hour...

it may feel like whining to you, but we generally take heartfelt words here seriously. so spin us a tale if you'd like. your problems here can be shared.

some things you have to deal with on your own, sure. but that does not mean you have to _be_ alone while you do...

because my english is bad, you don't understand me this is.......everything is opposite
i had son and brought him up 2 years, now mother found her feelings and in this fucking cousrt system my energy is gone
she is not bad, but the system is fucked up, there are more nuances
i can't talk anymore, if your're far away, then we can talk through we other site