Insights from the Mind of a Seducer

That question that has been on the minds of men and women
since the dawn of humanity. Ever since men could create, we have been
fashioning stories and artistic pieces as homages to love.

Ever since a young age, we have been brought up to have a very
specific conception of love – especially in the West. We conceive of
true love as this great sweeping feeling that overtakes us – and, if it
is true love, it lasts until you take your final breath. And people
spend whole lifetimes trying to capture this feeling. They even marry
the wrong person after having convinced themselves – and others – that
they have found it. The feeling of love is… indescribable. It consumes
you. Sometimes, it even fundamentally changes you as a person.

And yet, in our everyday experience and through reading the stories
of days long since passed, we can see that perhaps true love is not
what we think it is. Even those romantic pairings who seem most in love
are marred by strife, betrayal, and dissatisfaction. If the greatest of
love is supposedly eternal, then how could people possibly fall out of
it? How could the divorce rate in our country be so astronomically
high? How could women who claim that they are truly in love so easily
bounce from guy to guy once things are over?

We have a very great and idyllic view of love. And yet, the reality
seems to contradict our conceptions.

All right gents, it’s been a while coming, but we’re nearly
ready with Colt’s Tinder system. Apologies for the delays – I know
everybody wanted this YESTERDAY, but I’ve been trying to ensure that
when we get this one out, we make it good, we make effective…
and we do it with style.

Note
from Chase:
this piece from Alek on going back to a girl’s place covers screening,
logistical considerations, and objection-handling during the pull. You
can also get more tactics and more “what-to-say” examples and lines in
my complementary article “How to Go to Her Place Smoothly, Even If
You Just Met.” Onward...

This post – the third in my series on logistical considerations (part i here; part ii here) – will cover even
more logistics. This time around however we will cover my speciality: going back to her place.

Why am I a specialist? Well that is because I am very young, and I
have not always had my own place. Especially when I was a freshman in
university, I
was still living at home with my folks.

So obviously I have had to be creative and have sex in public a lot.
Although public sex
is very exciting, it is rather hard to pull off, at least consistently.
But after ending up at women’s places a few times, I discovered the
obvious: many girls have a place of
their own, and many girls are okay
with bringing men there.

Keep in mind that this post is in a way a continuation of my
previous post (part ii) – if you haven’t checked that one out yet, I'd
recommend
you do. If you don’t, that is also fine, as I will still recap the main
points in this post.

My first post (part i) covered some very basic key points in
seduction
logistics. The next one (part ii) was about extracting a girl back
home, which
was more suited for intermediate players. This post however is more
advanced.

It’s New Year’s Eve, and there’s a good chance you’re headed out to
a celebration of some sort; big, little, or somewhere in between. In
that celebration, there will probably be some single girls, too... many
of whom may be looking to ring in the New Year in a fun way.

It
is easy to get swept up in the hype of a big night out, but while girls
might be dressing provocatively and partying hard, the case is that on
New Year’s it is twice as important
to not get swept up by the atmosphere and keep your composure.

The key to getting the girl on NYE is to not jump the gun by
expecting a big payoff before you get there. You have to keep your
expectations subdued and simply go along with whatever the night has to
offer.

Even though I sometimes wish it were true, you can’t always just
dive in and grab a girl’s panties with your teeth. Most of the time you
just have to go with what the night is actually giving you rather than
what you want it to give you.

Advantages on NYE do exist, but you need to be precise about what
they are and take advantage of them without taking them too far, which
is actually kind of a difficult tightrope walk.

The year’s drawing to a close, and like we did last year this time, I’d like to
review this year’s top posts... both in my own humble opinion, and
judging by the interest from comments and social shares.

2014 saw 268 articles (well, 270, including this one and Cody’s
piece on meeting women on New Year’s that goes up tomorrow) written by
15 different contributors (several
with only one to three articles, but many with a whole lot more).
Leading the charge were:

Hector Castillo’s 4
articles on getting girls in college and the power of ‘alone’

There are few better feelings in the world than seeing a girl
lustily looking up at you while on her knees or in your lap and seeing
and feeling your member in her mouth; and then grabbing her hair and
moving her head around your lap as you sit back and enjoy the
oh-so-wonderful ride.

That’s the amazing feeling of getting a blow job. And even though
sex is amazingly enjoyable, there’s something particularly and uniquely
satisfying about blow jobs. But the question is: what’s involved in
learning how to get a blow job – and isn’t it hard to get a
blow job? The short answer is: no,
it’s not
hard to get a blow job. And today, I’m going to talk about how to put
yourself in a position to get exactly that. Here we go.

Of course, there are a lot of reasons why that could be the case,
however, most of the time it is either because the guy hasn’t escalated
enough or because he failed to even try to extract his lady and take her home back to his place.

Have you’ve been naughty this year? I hope you were... and if not we
still have a few days to help you find someone to be naughty with.

Fortunately, the upcoming holidays tend to be very seduction
friendly; I’d go as far as to say even more so than the week before
Valentine’s Day. All those
pretty ladies going out to party their minds
out and find someone to cuddle under a warm blanket with a glass of
wine the day after.

The moods are cheerful, full of excitement, and sexual energy is in
the air the moment you enter the venue. The guys are out to get laid
and so are the ladies. And you can tell that by the way they all dress
– the moment those heavy coats and sweaters come off, you see skimpy,
provocative, and very seductive outfits.

And so it would be very unfortunate not to cash in when it seems
that everything is playing in our favor.

On the Girls Chase forums, one of our
members named Godsninja shared a sticky situation he found himself in
after getting an unpleasant response from a girl he’d traded numbers
with and planned to set up a date with. Here’s the gist of it (full
post here):

“I
got her number and a few days later followed up with our date plan.

I don’t believe I got a text back from her, but I did get a text
from another number claiming to be her fiance. Keep in mind this was
several months ago, so I don’t remember how the text conversation went,
but I remember I was very assertive, and after a few texts back and
forth (finding out her fiance is a she), we stopped texting. I stopped
texting cuz there wasn’t really a point.

It wasn’t anything serious, kind of awkward, but funny. It started
out a little serious but I think I remember suggesting we all have a
date together bahah.

...

I was sitting in my car a few hours later and got a text message
from an unknown number (her supposed fiance) telling me that I’m an
idiot, a stalker, and that she is “gun a go tell/call the cops”, so I
told her to go fuck herself because she doesn’t know shit about me, and
to come out to the parking lot to ‘talk’. She then reminded me that she
was a girl, and I told her she would probably end up kicking my ass
anyway. I told her I was really sweaty, and that I’m a good kisser, but
I won’t tell anybody. She never replied so I sent a last text telling
her not to text me anymore.

After the weekend I got an email telling me I had to attend a
non-optional meeting with the Manager of Student Rights and
Responsibility. I was reported for intimidation and sexual harassment.”

In this case, this was a pretty unfair situation for GN – he made
his approach, took a phone number to set up a date, then got into a
nasty text exchange from an unknown number by some person claiming to
be
this girl’s ‘fiancé’ whom he suspects was actually a female friend or
acquaintance of this girl he’d approached.

When he ran into the girl again a semester later, he greeted her,
knowing she was familiar but not knowing who she was. As soon as he
remembered, he laughed about it, and, not wanting to get sucked back
in, bid her adieu.

A few hours later, he received a highly confrontational text message
– and then took the bait and got into a texting battle. In the end, the
‘fiancé’ (or whoever s/he was) reported him for ‘harassment’ to the
university, railroading his focus and studies – he got off with a
warning, but the instigators of the whole thing (the other two people)
saw no
consequences themselves whatsoever.

Situations like this are rare
– you can approach 1,000 girls a year and something like this will only
happen to you once or twice, maybe.

However, how you deal with such scenarios can make all the
difference between letting awful people like this have a really bad,
negative impact on your life, and preventing them from having any
meaningful impact at all.