Missing the grad?

So my fiance and I are both 23 and ve has an 18 and 20 year old sister. He us graduating college in December and ypu only get 4 tickets. Well obviously naturally me being his fiance and all I figured well obviously I would be one if the people getting a ticket. Believe me he is asking around to try and get another one. His mom thinks I should be the one left out. isn't that nuts? That thought didn't even cross my mind that his own fiance who lives with him who is wearing his ring and who helped him through school (neither of his siblings helped at all) should be the one who gets the shaft. Well my fiance disagrees and is going to have to choose one of his siblings. Isn't his mom nuts?

Okay well I'm not sure how I come across to you like that, but I am clearly a nicer person than yourself as I don't go around making false assumptions and putting random people down on the internet to make myself feel better.

@what-do-guys-want Oh yeah the bald joke like wow your so original and if anyone puts people down its you you're the one who puts on a level. At least I dont' like like a fake barbie doll who would turn into a serial killer.

Lol im such a bad person for assuming i get to go to my own fiances graduation which by the way yes since you asked i think a fiance who is wearing your ring who you helped out tons through school and you live with has tons more right to be there to watch him graduation then his sister. Whu should i be the one to miss out?

Nope you aren't allowed to buy another ticket. Question for you if i was allowed to buy another ticket why should the women who has helped her fiance with his school work who shares a mortgage with him and who is about to marry this man and spend the rest of his life with be the one to miss out? His sister did nothing to help him out he doesn't even live with her. Im sorry but having the same blood as someone or having some shared genes doesn't automatically by default mean that they are the ones who come first. It is the people who have supported you through your schooling and have been there for you. Family and love is sooo much more than having some shared blood as someone. I will be damned if i take a backseat to his sister. Luckily my fiance agrees wholeheartedly with me and is a grown man who doesn't let mommy dictate who goes to his grad.

Did you even read a word i just said. Yes im allowed to get another ticket off of someone who has an extra ticket but i can't buy another one because there are only so many seats. Besides its a non issue for me because like i posted above im not the one who has to find the extra ticket one of his siblings will. What did you think of all the points i made?

Maybe his mother just doesn't like you. As adults we're supposed to grow up, leave the home and cleave to our spouse. Our spouse is our new family and they and the children we bare become our top priority.

His mother should be in the back burner and you and your future children are what comes first. Perhaps she feels threatened and doesn't want her spot taken away from her. Which is both controlling, stupid, and hypocritical considering that's what she did when she got married and had a family.

Yeah I feel like a lot of times when mils complain about how their son is "being taken away" but their future dil or dil that isn't actually the case and the mother doesn't know how to respect boundaries and it isn't that the wife or fiance is controlling its that they want room to start their marriage and they don't want their mil up their ass or their husbands ass all the time

Lol yes! I completely understand. Mothers are certainly annoying in that aspect. Maybe if it gets really bad you could talk to him or have a one on one session with his mother. Maybe she needs to get to know you a little bit more? But she does need to understand that he is beginning a new family with you whether she likes it or not, and while she isn't being replaced she won't be his first priority. She needs to learn to respect that.

I dunno if you don't consider the person who helped you through school, who is wearing your ring, who you wake up next to everyday family then I don't think you are marrying the right person. Family is so much more than having the same blood running through you. Im sorry but my fiance and I operate and treat each other as family equally as his parents and siblings if not more so...