I understand and appreciate the fact that The Daily News has given me an opportunity to express my views in the “Letters to the editor” section regarding the race for Onslow County sheriff.

I felt compelled to address Onslow County voters again as, since that time, I have received numerous, hurtful messages from the Facebook sites of those in opposition to Sheriff Brown.

My goal is not to incite further discord, but these circumstances have allowed me to reflect on how to provide explanations for my children when so many unkind things have been said about their uncle and family members. Fortunately, I know that my words represent not only me, but my family and Sheriff Ed Brown. I have been taught that compassion and reason will always overcome hatred. This is what I am teaching my children:

Treat others with kindness. If someone is unkind to you, respond with virtue and compassion. You will never lighten another heart with darkness.

People who make fun of others are not nice people. Adults who make fun of others are cruel.

Don’t believe everything that you hear. People who are dishonest have a gift for reinventing the truth. The most subtle mistruths are also the most dangerous.

Look for the good in people. A clever manipulator can turn a saint into a devil. To a man with a hammer, everything is a nail.

If you allow hate from those with whom you associate, you accept that voice as the truth you represent. Complicity is a definitive sign of weakness.

Loudness and bravado must never be mistaken for strength. A true leader will not be bullied into compliance, will not bend under pressure and will treat everyone fairly and with a moral compass. A strong faith is the foundation of a strong character. Beware the leader who tries to satisfy everyone.

Thomas Paine has said, “To argue with a person who has renounced the use of reason is like administering medicine to the dead.” I have realized that this is an absolute truth, particularly in reference to those individuals who have referred to me as immature, disgusting, an idiot and a bully.

I disagree with the adage, “Might makes right.” On the contrary, I know that “right makes might.” Even though I have been a target for some who oppose Sheriff Brown’s continued and proud service of the citizens of Onslow County, I will hold my head up because I won’t let them darken my heart and spirit. I won’t give these individuals that power.