I’m very busy these days so I’m again quite late with the FR. In week 13 I went to Barcelona with Platzhirsch to attend a Salsa Congress. We’re complete Salsa nuts. Since these Congresses only take about 3 days we extended our stay to one week to hit it up there too.

Right before leaving to Barcelona I finished Jed Mc Kennas Spiritual Enlightenment. This was kind of the first book that didn’t really hit home as a whole YET. However, there are good points in it nonetheless (cf. Brads Kill the Buddha article).

<>============================================================<>Tuesday:
After arriving in Barcelona and checking out the city during the day we hit up Apolo club. Even though its Tuesday its packed full with very young chicks (18-20yo). I love Spanish girls! Whatever, do sets like a mad man opening strong. Had 2-3 feeding frenzies going on where 5 girls are touching me and asking questions simultaneously. BUT every time I grabbed one and tried to isolate her from the group another one pulled her away. WTF is this!?

It was a little frustrating after all this that no closes took place. However, went into another 3set from Mexico – 2 hotties one cute but a little fat chick. Right from the get go the fatty tries to talk to me. Then the 2 hotties leave. She’s all over me. I’m like “fuck this, I want to have some fun now” and make out with her. She starts stroking me all over the place. I know I can take her home. But I want a hotter one! So I get her number (as a backup) and eject to “talk to my friends”.

Do some more sets on the dancefloor but again no specific results there. Damnit! See the girl I made out with before again but I don’t want to take it any further. We call it a night.

Conclusion:
-hit it hard again – good
-had a few “feeding frenzies” where different girls simultaneously touched me and asked me questions – very good
-unfortunately I wasn’t able to isolate one girl out of the frenzies

<>============================================================<>Wednesday:
Go to Shoko at the beach. Right before entering the club I hear 3 hot girls talking German and immediately open them. One tells me she knows me from before. Haha, this happens more and more often now. However, she looks familiar but I cannot remember where I met her. Since one of them is giving me massive shit tests and I don’t want to deal with that shit now we just go into the club.

I’m in the zone and open left and right. French girl who is obviously completely fucked up. Just talking about how great France is and every other country sucks. Hilarious how dumb she is. Use her to bump my state even further.

Then I see 3 cuties with helmets. I go in. just self amusing. They’re into me. The hottest one has a BF so I go for the other one. A few minutes later the other two go away a few meters. That’s good wingmanship - Thumbs up! So I’m “alone” with my girl. Escalate, but no kisses. Then the hottest one rolls up and asks me to go with her to find her BF. I interpret it as she wants to just “use” me and say no. But maybe that was pretty dumb because at least I could’ve gone with her and since I would be alone with her go for the kill there. Damnit!

Do a couple more sets going in very hard. Good practice to deal with BF and not give a fuck. Then the club closes at 04:30. What is this? Do some street game at the beach in front of the clubs. Girls are very reactive. We’re having a blast.

Then a dude steals my wallet. Damn he’s good at what he’s doing. After I recognize it I go back to him and shout the shit out of him in Brads best C&C breaking rapport tonality. Oh, it’s a good day because a friend of him “finds” my wallet on the floor 30sec later. I must have lost it there he mentions… Right, what else motherfucker. Get the hell out of here! After thinking about it now it maybe was a little bit stupid to confront them that hard but I was fully in the moment and my thoughts, words and actions were completely aligned. I guess that’s the reason why it worked that well.

Conclusion:
-more and more girls “know me from before”, even in other cities haha
-hit it hard, and self amused hard core – good

<>============================================================<>Thursday:
Alright, time for a high end club – Sutton. We arrive there at 01:30. The queue consists of 0 people. We go for a little sightseeing for 20min. When we come back its already pretty busy there. People are much more stifled. The music is so fucking loud that you’re not able to speak more than a few words. On the second floor (RnB) you can barely hear the music because the sounds from the main floor are much louder.

I think to myself fuck, this sucks. Just chill for 20min. then I say to myself “what are you doing here!? Either you’re going to approach or go the fuck home. Its pointless to just sit around…”

So I get up, and open a set on the main floor. Initial responses are quite good but I cannot talk longer than 5min. my voice is already fucked up. A few sets go pretty well till drag away fatty pulls them away.

Right before opening another set I recognize some action on my right side. It’s the helmet hottie with the BF from the day before who runs up to me with a big smile. She’s very physical, gives me a hug and starts to talk to me. Some talking. I escalate, but nogo. Damnit!

Then I open 2 cuties in a big set at the RnB floor. They are into me. Isolate one. Escalation. Go for the makeout 2 times – BUT NOT HARD ENOUGH. Get the number from both. Fucked up logistics, they have to work next day and friends are already going home and pulling them with them.

Alright time to go home, we call it a night.

Conclusion:
-was completely out of it and thought for a few moments to just leave the club because of the extremely loud music BUT then used my will power to force myself to go for it nonetheless and got in state and had good interactions – very good

The other days in Barcelona were dedicated to the Salsa Congress. I don’t game at these occasions normally but just relax and enjoy it.

<>============================================================<>Thursday:
We hit up our fav. club like every Thursday. Reopen a 2set I knew from before. I’m self amusing at a good level. Since I already know them I eject and come back a few times. In the end #close one of the two.

Open a cute 18yo strong. Some kisses, but no makeout “I’m not into that tonight”. Me: “then give me your number, tomorrow is another day”. She gives me her number.

Do plenty further sets but nothing special to report here.

Conclusion:
-I’m strong at opening hard and pushing it further but have problems to hold sets recently

<>============================================================<>Friday:
Start at an open air venue with many seated sets. Since don’t really like seated sets I go for the standing ones. 2 good sets with very hot girls but I eject or don’t persist enough. WTF… don’t know why I’m doing this again…

Do some streetgame on the way to the main venue of the night. Nothing special happens. We arrive at one of the hardest venues for me (hottest girls, most snobs; call it from now on Tough Club). But I have to push myself again and again there.

At first I’m pretty stifled, but then I do some sets. 2 longer ones. Since I’m experimenting with Alexander style lately I let them go because they will come back blabla…

One girl wants to jump into the pool with me. Haha. No way, since you get kicked out of the club afterwards. Hm, in retrospective maybe that wouldn’t have been such a bad idea since the 2 of us would’ve been isolated then and already outside of the club. Shit!

Pretty late in the night I remember my “Perfection Style” anchor and fire it. damn, I’m getting into state in an instant. FUUUUUCK, I forgot about it. do some more sets but now I’m on fire. YES!

Conclusion:
-Alexander Style kind of fucks me up because many sets stale out because I’m not hitting it that hard. Have to get the hang on that one!
-forgott about my “Full Perfection Style” anchor. When I fired it I immediately pushed my state. Need more practice with this Alexander thing and afterwards integrate it with my high energy game

<>============================================================<>Saturday Day:
Time for daygame with Feelgood! At first I’m hesitating again but do my one set per venue. It reminds me of my beginnings at nightgame back in the day. But I know that I have to take action and eventually it will work out. So I get Feelgood to push me into the toughest sets. It’s funny though because it seems easier for me to do the toughest sets at first and afterwards “normal” ones. The “normal” ones seem like no big deal then. So I open couples with massive dudes. Yes, it works. I get into the mood.

Unfortunately the batteries of my mobile are empty so I give 2 girls my number. Afterwards I take the number of a cute brunette while her mother stands beside her and put it into Feelgoods phone. Haha.

Conclusion:
-after hesitating at first I push myself to do the toughest sets – good
-this was a turning point at my daygame. Now it’s much easier and natural for me to open during the day. The level of weirdness has dropped significantly.

<>============================================================<>Saturday:
Zonk and me head to our fav. bar. Since it is hot outside the bar is dead because all people are chilling outside. On the way to another venue I open a girl who’s obviously going to our fav. bar. Manage that she joins us. I’m not interested in her. It was just to practice to pull her with us. Based my reference experiences I can tell that she’s DTF (cf. Tylers Pattern Recognition article). So I tell Zonk about it and he games her and finally pulls her home. Sweet!

In the meantime Steve joins us. We do a few sets Alexander style: self amusement + relaxed arousal. They go pretty good.

We head over to Tough Club. There are 3 clubs and bars next to each other there and this night you can go from one of them to the next without paying more. There are more people than ever before.

Do sets but girls run of immediately. Guess I emanated some negative vibes this night. Then bump into the blonde hottie from week 2, blow the chode who is talking to her out, and talk to her for a bit. I don’t escalate that much because I’m trying to be more chill and laid back (Alexander style…). So I let her go after a few minutes. Will see her again in my fav. club on Thursdays anyways.

<>============================================================<>Sunday:
Go to my fav. Salsa bar since I’m back in it now. Pull the blonde chick from a few weeks ago home again. This time she’s not on her period. No LMR. Time to Fuck! Bang Town Vienna!

We hear it over and over (Tyler, Jeffy, …): in the game you work your way up in spirals. Problems that seemed to be solved at some level come right back to you on a different level. Although my interactions start pretty good it looks like my application of Alexanders relaxed arousal thing fucks up my (high energy) self amusement and therefore my results. Since I think that the low energy game is more solid I will stick to it. at least for the near future.

My current biggest sticking point: convos that are staling out. It’s not that I run out of things to say but that there is too little emotional charge in it. It’s also like I’m tired of telling the same shit over and over again (BUT the same shit just pops into my head all the time…). I need to work a little bit on my outer game now: more role play, future projections, cold readings, etc.

<>============================================================<>Tuesday:
Day 373 with blonde HB8 (first 2 dates LMR on her side, on the 3. Date she’s horny as fuck but I throw her out of my place). I’m pretty chill, we have deep rapport, makeout here and there. I have a very good feeling that its finally getting down. Little do I know. After 2 hours she gets a text from a friend who’s flying to Peru and still has stuff from her. So she has to get it. Since I’m feeling a little sick that day with stomachache I’m a little relieved.

She tells me that she’s also going to work on a cruise liner starting in September but she wants to see me a few times before she’s going. WTF, this shit is fucked up…

Whatever, since its only 10 pm I decide to join Steve and hit up a club. But my stomachache is fucking me up. Force myself to do some sets. I like this feeling that you go in against all odds. Some go pretty good. Since I pushed myself it’s time to go home.

On my way back home suddenly a girl turns to me and is very excited. I know her face from before. She talks about her friend. I remember, #closed her. They were at the same club but didn’t see me. Yada, yada. Sounds like her friend wants to see me badly. Have kind of the same way home. We shoot the shit on our way. Then we come across a bar I used to go crash into a few times. Just gesture to go in. she follows. Good girl. Some more talking. But since I have to get up pretty early its time to go. I try something new: Just continue to go to my place and see if she just goes with me haha. but nope, she calls a taxi half way through. Whatever.

Conclusion:
-don’t know what I should do with the blonde chick. Best thing would be to finally fuck her. we will see…
-pushed myself to go out and approach even though I was feeling pretty sick – very good

<>============================================================<>Thursday:
Zonk and me check out an event at the town hall. Open 2 hungarian hotties. Good start but then their parents (?) join in. whatever, Steve is already waiting for us so we eject. Head to our fav. club. Time for more Alexander style. Self amusement on a good level. I do many sets, unfortunately my notes about that night are shit – so, no details here.

Conclusion:
-clicked a little on the combination of relaxed arousal and self amusment. But its far too little…

<>============================================================<>Friday:
Head out to a lesbian party with Zonk and Feelgood. This place sucks. Do 2-3 semi approaches. Fuck it, we get the hell out of here.

We head over to another venue. Haven’t been there since 2 years. It has an open air area too. Awesome venue! Need some calibration. Right after entering open a cute curly girl. She “wants to leave” a few times. Anyways, … . haha, she stays. I like plowing. Finally she goes.

Open a drunk young blonde chick. Lead her around the venue. Go in a few times for the makeout, nogo. Finally she leaves. Whatever…

Then I see a smoking hot blonde. She’s surrounded by a few dudes. At first I don’t go in. 15mins later I see her again with dudes around her. time to take action. So I go straight through the guys in “Ey, you’re cute”. I can see the attraction spike. The dudes try to interrupt me. No chance dudes, haha! finally one drags her away. Shit, there are not only drag-away-fatties (girls) but also drag-away-dudes. Anyway, good reference experience for pushing the envelope!

Conclusion:
-we definitely have to check out more new venues. Especially if we haven’t been there for quite a long time
-had a couple of long interactions. This part is getting better again – good!
-pushed the envelope again and opened a smoking hot blonde surrounded by dudes and not giving a fuck – good

<>============================================================<>Saturday Day:
Head out with Zonk and Feelgood. First venue first set. A blonde classy cutie. These kind of girl you normally don’t find in the club. Go in pretty smooth. I’m really getting into that shit now. It feels normal to open and talk to random girls during the DAY. YES! She’s into it. Unfortunately she has a BF. Damnit.

Next venue next set. Hot brunette. Go in smooth again. I start to vomit, she gets a call and answers it. Zonk joins in. We shoot the shit with our backs directed to her. Obviously we’re enjoying ourselves a little bit too much because when I turn around she’s gone. Whatever.

Alright, time for a massive comfort zone push. See a smoking hot tall brunette with a massive dude that looks very intimidating. Haha, I know I will go in. I love this feeling when you fuck all your concerns, fears and negative emotions and use your raw will power to force yourself into that situation. I go in, tell her that she’s cute. She looks over to her BF (or whatever) for clues how she should react. The dude tries to talk to me. But I’m not reactive. It looks like he’s overwhelmed by the fact that a dude that is 2 heads smaller then him is hitting on his girl. Then HE gets a little physical. Since he looks very pissed I eject. I’m not in this game to go to hospital haha. However, this was the toughest set ever. I’m very proud of myself that I went in.

We head over to the next shop. Open a very cute blonde chick. Again it feels very natural to me (as opposed to creepy/weird). She reacts positively but doesn’t give me her number.

Conclusion:
-opening and vomiting during the day feels very natural to me now – very good
-pushed myself massively with the hardcore couple approach – very good

<>============================================================<>Saturday:
Steve and me head out to an outdoor location. Unfortunately is quite empty because it was raining during the day. Steven bumps 2 times into girls he knows from before. We’re in one of those sets pretty long. I’m not interested in my girl so I just chitchat with her.

Time to go to the club. At first I don’t open. I’m not in the mood. This Alexander style fucks up my (high energy) self amusment recently. Convos stale out, there are little emotions, just boring talk.

We do a longer 2set with 2 hotties but it stales out.

Conclusion:
- Convos stale out, there are little emotions, just boring talk. Shit, there’s work to be done in this area!

<>============================================================<>Thursday:
Zonk, Steve and me head to our fav. bar. Zonk opens right away. Works pretty good. Steve opens, I join. I’m getting into the mood and open myself. Bam, the next one. Yeah, even pull one girl into the bathroom but don’t push it further. Damn.

Time for a venue change to our fav. club. I’m back in glory. Do a set near the dancefloor. 2 supercuties. The girls are into me and touch me and lean in, I’m just enjoying myself because it’s “just the warmup”, I eject, damnit this girl was fucking down. I will not do this again next time. Stick in the sets!

Some of the girls are very negative at the beginning of the night. They are in their head and kind of intimidated by confident man like me. WTF is this, I cannot understand because i'm fucking positive and assume a positive outcome, they need to be congruent too haha!

Open a drunken blonde, go in for the makeout 2-3 times, but I don’t hit it hard enough I guess. Damnit! Do many other sets, one with a big ass haha. Steve tries to go dance with me. Ok. Then I’m in with a fucking cute small brunette. Steve tries it again. WTF, we have to develop signs for when it is ok to pull me away…

Then we do a 2set blowing their guyfriends out. It's hilarious how unreactive i am to guy these days. Open one very strong right in her face, she’s into it and reopens me a few times later. Kisses on the cheek and stuff… Then 2 set with 18yo cutie, works pretty good, do a little CNF and just enjoy myself. Then I go over the top with something concerning her classes. Whatever, I plow and plow but it’s over they’re going to dance. WTF, she’s too sensitive…

This is a fucking hilarious night because I'm more chill and enjoying myself more and more (relaxed arousal), I think a big shift inside me is taking place right now and certain things will click during the next weeks!

Conclusion:
-after starting the night a little passive, I got it going and approached like a mad man
-was enjoying myself hardcore while being more chill then back in the day. Combination of relaxed arousal and self amusement is getting better and better
-ejected too early from a few sets. Just because it’s a warmup set doesn’t mean that you have to eject after a few minutes! Especially if it goes very good!!!

<>============================================================<>Friday:
Head out to a fashion show with Feelgood and Steve. There are many high class people there. At first I don’t approach at all. It’s like I feel I don’t belong there BUT then I’m getting into it. Very stifled people. Looks like they’re just talking to people that they already know. If someone does cold approach they’re overwhelmed.

Then I open a smoking hot brunette who was on the stage before. I would say one of the 5 hottest girls in the venue. For the level of hotness I’m pretty chill. Unfortunately there are not many emotional spikes in the convo. But slowly my relaxed arousal thing gets better and better. YES! Then the drag away “fatty” comes along and tells me that my girl is a model. Anyway… however, after a few moments she tries to drag my girl away. WTF, NO! unfortunaltely she just pulls her away. Damnit! Do some more sets.

Then venue change to the toughest club. After it goes well for a few moments I always blow myself out but it feels like girls are overreacting. Then it’s time for Mountaineers Comeback! Open left and right. Finally open a girl hard, very physical, she’s into it, go for the makeout several times. She tells me about finding her brother, whatever, only get her chewing gum damnit.

Conclusion:
-after hesitating to open at the fashion show, I just pushed through and did it!
-opened one of the hottest girls at a fashion show who was on stage before and stayed in set for a couple of minutes staying pretty chill until a friend dragged her away – YES!
-went in hard core again, the girl was into it, went for the makeout several times but just got her chewing gum. Damnit, something wasn’t working there
-again I’m more and more comfortable with the combination of relaxed arousal and self amusement

<>============================================================<>Saturday:
Head out to our fav. bar with Zonk, Steve and an RSDN guy from Denver (star22). I’m really getting into it again. Open many sets and stay in there. Full self amusing and value giving mode.

Then we go over to the toughest club again. At first I’m hesitating again. Damnit! Same shit different day… BUT I know that it’s just for the moment and I will open one way or the other. This is fucking awesome!

Open a couple of sets on the dancefloor. Super hot girls. They play the ignore everyone that is approaching you game. I’m persistent but I couldn’t push through. Damnit! Whatever, I took action. That’s everything that counts!

Then 3 set outside. Fucking hot chicks. 3 on 3 with Zonk and Steve. Plow through shit tests. We have a good time but then they’re going to the bathroom. Whatever…

Alright, time for another 3 set. I open. Zonk and Steve join in and engage their girls. Goes pretty good. Sexual talk, clawing, emotional spikes. Her friend asks her 2 times to go dance with her and she just ignores it. Yes! But eventually they go (guess it was too much social pressure on my girl then). I go for the number. Nogo. WTF??? I don’t understand…

Do several other set, but nothing special happens there…

Conclusion:
-it gets better in the toughest club. but only slowly. However, I can see progress. That’s all that counts
-1 really long convo where she ignores her friend 2 times to “go dancing” – yes!

<>============================================================<>Wednesday:
Day 374. No fclose. This time it’s completely my fault… no comment ;-) maybe I’ll post the whole thing when I finally fucked her...

<>============================================================<>Thursday:
Zonk, Steve and me head to our fav. bar. At first I’m not into it. I do one semi-set in front of the bar. get a little momentum and do 2 seated sets indisde. Vibing was ok, but no #.

Change venue to our fav. club like every Thursday. Since Zonk heads over to the US the next morning he goes home. Enjoy your trip bro!

After arriving at the club everything feels fucked up. WTF, everything blows. Damnit! At least I push myself to do more sets. Then I do a very tough set. Smoking hot brunette that is surrounded by a couple of people. Just go through the orbiters and open her. She’s freaked out. Hm, normally a girl that hot is not that shy… strange… Whatever, we call it a night.

Conclusion:
-was completely off almost the whole night
-at least I did approach a couple of sets

<>============================================================<>Friday Day:
Start very late with Feelgood and Steve. The location (bookstore) is pretty empty since it’s a rainy day and its pretty late. Then I see a hot girl. I immediately open her. Boom, good vibing. FB close her. go for the number too but nogo. Maybe its because her friend joined in that moment…

Conclusion:
-even though the venue was dead, I immediately approachend when I saw a hot girl!

<>============================================================<>Friday:
Platzhirsch, Steve and me start at a Salsa bar since some polish girls we know from Salsa congresses are in town. We get into a rush.

Then we head over to a mediocre club. it’s quite late so there are not that many people there anymore. Since I’m used to approach girls at the toughest club in Vienna this feels like Kindergarten. I own this place.

Then I see a blonde hottie talking to a chode. He’s leaning in the whole time. Haha. I go in. he gets a little pissed. I just ignore him and turn to one of his friends “is he always that negative?” – “unfortunately Yes”. Haha, just talk to the other guy and find out that the blonde is his fuck buddy but he didn’t tell the guy that fact. So he’s trying to get into her pants the whole time but has no chance haha…

Whatever, do a 2set. They’re sisters and quite young. At first the younger one looked completely like a freak with her strange glasses. After she gets rid of them she’s cute. They stick around with us. Since there are no alternatives I talk to them. The club closes, we pull them over to eat some pizza. They’re kind of boring and have nothing going on in their lives… I’m not sure what I want. The younger who’s more adventurous or the older one who’s kind of lame now. Wait too long, they’re already on the escalator leaving. Poof, gone. After a few minutes we decide to follow them to the metro station just for fun but they’re already gone. Whatever…

Conclusion:
-it’s good to mix the toughest locations up with mediocre ones. This shows you how you’ve progressed and can own “ordinary venues”
-have to decide quite fast what I want out of a set (girl A, girl B or nothing)

<>============================================================<>Saturday Day:
Head out to a bookstore with Feelgood and Steven. It’s pretty late again. I open a smoking hot blonde girl after a few minutes (this is my personal record for daygame). Goes down pretty smooth again. Good vibing. Steven joins in a few times with some bullshit haha. I’m in 45+ minutes. #close her in the end.

Conclusion:
- Yes, I like daygame! It feels more and more natural to approach girls during the day

<>============================================================<>Saturday:
It’s hilarious, Feelgood, Steve, me and2 other guys are meeting up at a café to help 2 newbies at the beginning of their journay on nightgame. What a cockfarm! After some theoretical stuff we head out to a latin bar. Open a brunette hottie. Haha, she seems to know me. Good vibing. After a few minutes she says that she has to go to get something but is in 20min back. She asks me if I’m there then for sure because she really wants to continue the convo. Haha, I say that I don’t know now how long I will be staying in this location. #close her.

Some irrelevant sets… Then I open a hot brunette Romanian girl. Good vibing, she’s into me. Says that she has a BF. I go for the number. Get it haha.

We head over to the club we were the day before. There are lots of ugly people there. Anyway, I just feel like I own this venue and just enjoy myself. A few hotties are still there. SOOOOOO, no excuses! We do some sets but the girls are very stifled. It’s hard to make them comfortable. We even open 2 fucking tall hot bitches. One of them seems very shy. Stick in there for a few minutes but finally they eject.

Do some streetgame. But unless the day before there are hardly any hot girls there. So we change the streets a few times. Then I open a 2set. They’re promotion girls. But the convo is very flat, not enough emotional spikes.

Steve opens another 2set we already saw in the afternoon during daygame. They’re fucking hot. Unfortunately I’m already in “going home mode” and not really motivated. Whatever, we call it a night.

Conclusion:
-was a totally new experience to see 2 newbies in action or more accurately “in no-action”. Even though I don’t compare myself to others it’s good to see your progress compared to newbies. Especially the questions they ask that every experienced dude can answer simply.
-yeah, was really in the relaxed arousal mood and #closed 2 girls without any high energy stuff

An awesome week is going to an end. For everyone who is wondering what the asterisk in front of the week in the headline means here’s the explanation: It means that I fucked a new girl in that week. Yes! After 373 dates finally fucked the blonde hottie.

Since I have 3 girls now in rotation I feel pretty proud of myself because that’s the result of massive action I took every week. Since I want hotter and more girls I will push it even harder I guess…

Anyway, here we go with week 18.

<>============================================================<>Monday:
FB 1
Decided that from now on I put in some information if I do some special places and stuff. This week fucked her on a playground. It was hilarious when people walked by and you had to be quiet haha.

Guys, if you have any ideas for special places to fuck please let me know. I’m always interested in new sparkling places to fuck! ;-)

Locations I already fucked girls: playgrounds, public open air baths (in the water), cars, on the beach, lofts, cellars, in several bathrooms of bars and clubs, gardens, ski huts, blow jobs on ski lifts, etc.

Unfortunately fucking in a ski gondola didn’t work out. Time between start and finish of the ride was to short haha.

<>============================================================<>Tuesday:
FINALLY fucked the blonde hottie I went on 373 dates with! YEAH! Here’s how it went down.

Set yet another date with her for this day. Like every week I’m destroyed after FB-Monday! Haha. So I go for a nap after work to recover a little bit. In the meantime blondie writes me that she’s not able to make it because has to undertake the shift of a colleage who’s in hospital. Whatever, I use the free night for some SALSA. Yes!

When I leave the club I see that she’s texted me and called me. In this club normally you don’t have cell service. The texts look a little strange. She says that she’s drunk and sad and I should come over. I call her. She sounds really sad. After thinking a little I decide that I come over to her place.

After arriving at her place she really looks destroyed. She says that she lied before but someone in her family died this day. We talk a little bit about it. I try to forge a bridge between being a good listener and not getting into the being the chody friend she can cry to. I think about how I can turn this around for the best for both of us. Then I let her tell me about something out on the street. We both stand at the window and I look deep into her eyes and start to kiss her. Things heat up pretty fast and we’re arriving in her bedroom. She gets rid of her clothes pretty fast. Then she makes a confession to me. She resisted to sleep with me because she was a lesbian till about half a year ago and was very afraid of getting intimate with a guy again. Felt like she’s being a virgin again. After that its Bangtown Vienna and I fuck the shit out of her.

Then some more talking. It’s already 2am and I say that I have to go home now. She doesn’t want me to leave and stands naked in front of me begging for more sex haha. I hold my frame. It’s fucking awesome if you’re finally have the abundance not to be needy to fuck her as soon as you get an invitation. I say to her that I’m going to eat something but she can join me. Right after leaving her flat I ask her if she has a rubber. She says no. Without explaining it I say “let’s get back up and get one”. Back on the street we head to a sausage stand and I get a kebab. She says that she’s not going to kiss me. Whatever, haha! I know that she’s horny as fuck!

She says that she wants to go back to my place. No chance! I just lead her to a park nearby and say “here we are”. She knows what’s going down. Without any resistance she gets rid of her pants (has no panties underneath). I pick her up a start to fuck her holding her in the air. Then switch to doggy style. People are walking by. One girl looks over with a look like she wants to do it too but her BF is a and doesn’t go for it. And she cannot initiate it because otherwise she would look like a slut. Haha, I like this shit! Always pushing your comfort zone!

I’m very happy that I finally closed the deal on this one. She wants to meet up on the next day but I say that I have other plans already. Don’t do this error again and start to communicate some relationship signs…

Conclusion:
-YES!
-used her horniness to canalize it for an adventure in the park!

<>============================================================<>Wednesday:
I literally do NOTHING except reading some RSDN articles. Try to get some rest.

<>============================================================<>Thursday:
After having 3 girls in rotation now I feel pretty chill and that’s the reason why everything seems so smooth. Head to our fav. bar. It’s almost empty. In the first set one girl is pretty stifled, whatever…

While leaving I open another 2set. Steve joins in, they’re boooooring. Time to get the hell out of here!

Head over to my personal toughest venue in Vienna. But this night there is a different event there. It’s fucking awesome. The shield is not as high as normally. I’m in set almost all the time. Just feel good. Vibing the shit out of the girls. Problems with drag away girls 3 times. Damnit! Reopen one smoking hot blonde near the dance floor. Lead her to the dancefloor but don’t close her there. Wanted to make it more solid and lead her to the chillout area. Vibing is very good, then fucking drag away girl comes back in, fucking damnit!!! Alright, open brunette cutie who’s outside sitting alone. It’s fucking on. Call her out while she’s texting and she’s putting the phone away, awesome! Several friends come along, I befriend them and isolate the girl to a double deckchair, more vibing, then makeout, then go for the pull, right in front of the exit she asks where we're going, I say "to x street, just walking", she says that she has to text her friends first. Damnit, I back up and move her to the chillout area, more vibing, makeout, 2 of her friends join in, i just chill, then get the number.

Conclusion:
-dragaway girls are one of my biggest sticking points now. They often appear out of the blue and just drag away your girl
-one more makeout in the toughest venue! YES!
-I more and more often hesitate between going for a quick makeout and playing it more solid. Fuck, the problem is that even though these situations occur I’m currently not sure how to make it better the next time. Guys, any input on that one?

<>============================================================<>Friday Day:
Meetup with Feelgood at a bookstore. We hit it up. The venue is not empty but there are literally no hotties. WTF. One semi set at another store. The fury kicks in because I didn’t do a set at every venue! I like this feeling. Kind of consciously provoke it sometimes to do even more comfort zone pushes.

Then we head over to a clothing store. One completely aweful set at the ground floor. Another couple set on the first floor to push my comfort zone. The girl is stifled as fuck haha.

While talking to Feelgood, just turn around to do another blonde young girl on the street. She’s very impressed that I got the balls to approach her during the day. Unfortunately when I see her from close proximity I’m not that attracted to her anymore. Anyway, chat with her a little bit. Her bus arrives. Bye, bye. Don’t go for the number.

Conclusion:
-gathered good reference experiences and pushed my comfort zone again
-it feels more and more natural to approach during the day
-the first set is the biggest hurdle. Get it out of the way and you’re good to go!

<>============================================================<>Friday:
Start at an open air location with Steve pretty late. They’re already closing. Don’t do any set. The fury starts to build up again. Yes!

Head over to another open air location. My last impression there was awesome. Good vibes and chill people. But this time everything seems pretty dark and negative. Nothing hooks, it’s very strange.

We get the hell out of here and head over to the toughest venue of Vienna. I just chill the first minutes. Then I bump into a girl I know back from my times at university. My memory about her was like she was like a perfect 10. Haha, now that I’ve seen that much woman and generating more and more abundance she looks more regular to me. Good thing to notice.

Then it’s time for “Mountaineers Comeback” so I head to the bathroom. Right after leaving it I open left and right like a berserk. Open a small blonde girl not that hot girl. Good convo. she’s touchy but then her friend drags her away. WTF! Damnit!

Conclusion:
-recognized that my perspection changed since back in my university times because a girl I would’ve rated like a perfect 10 back then seemed more like an 8 when I saw her again.
-fucking drag away girls! Waaahahahhh!

<>============================================================<>Saturday Day:
Since it’s maybe Feelgoods last daygame session in Vienna several wings head out to Viennas biggest shopping street to hit it up with him (Naturalito, Terminator, and some other guys). Since Terminator just started with daygame we set up a little challenge to force him to take action. He gives Feelgood 50 EUR. For every girl he approaches over a period of 30min he gets 10 EUR back. At first he hesitates but finally manages it to open all 5 necessary girls.

In the meantime I open one cute brunette at the bookstore. Good convo. Unfortunaltey BF. Then a blonde cutie. Married. FUCK!

Do a street set with 2 girls from Luxembourg. Stop them, some convo. They’re in a hurry. Go for the number. Nogo. Shit.

At a clothing store I (try to) open a girl. She fully ignores me and I do nothing about it. Like a little pussy. Damnit! The fury builds up!

Feelgood spots a couple with an intimidating huge guy. I go immediately after them and open the girl. The dude gets pissed, I just say “oh, you guys are together!?” and tap him on the shoulder haha.

Do some more street sets and another couple set. Again the dude gets pissed since I opened the girl 5 seconds after he made out with her. I eject.

Conclusion:
-I now feel comfortable enough to open girls on the street during the day while they’re walking. Comfort zone pushed again. YES!
-some more couple sets to get more comfortable with social pressure

<>============================================================<>Saturday:
Start with Naturalito at our fav. bar. It’s fucking empty AGAIN. I open the only set that’s interesting. Italian girl with BF. Damnit. She would never cheat on her BF. However, she slept with another guy in the first month of her relationship just in case her BF is going to cheat on her. This is fucked up! Strangely enough her friends all leave her and sit down at another part of the bar…?

Anyway, since Steve is already waiting at the next venue we eject and get the hell out of there. We meet up at an outside location where I open a 5set of Spanish girls immediately. They’re pretty stifle and I don’t have the nerve to make them comfortable.

Do a small stopover at a latin bar where I bump into a girl I know from my Salsa social circle. She’s texting me regularly since a few days and wants to see me. Find out that she’s single now again. She’s pretty hot! I guess I will not go any further on this one since it can get weird because we’re in the same social circle when she’s not down for non-exclusive things…

Hit up the toughest venue of Vienna again. Since Steve brings some girls this time I get into a convo with a brunette cutie. She’s very nerdy and naughty. Like playing computer games on one hand while going out to game girls on the other hand. She’s heavily bi-curious. It gets pretty sexual after a few minutes. But I don’t know what I want. She’s not that hot and warm approach is usually something that I don’t want to do because it has high chance of bringing up drama afterwards. And that’s not the kind of drama that Julien speaks about. It’s more of a drama within the whole social circle. So, finally I eject and don’t push it any further.

After Feelgood fucked up his 373th date he joins in. We do different sets. Nothing special. I don’t really feel to approach. Do one seated hot brunette, too little emotions are going on. Her friends pull her away while I’m talking to a friend who’s just arrived. Damnit. I’m about to go home for the 2nd time when a newbie hits me up and wants to do a set with me. So I open 2 cuties (blonde girl is hotter) and introduce him to her. I sit right next to him and lead the interaction a little bit. He talks about his ex-GF. WTF. Then I get him to #close her. Next time I go for her myself… You open it and make all the work and the Newbies just talk about their ex-GF… Since it’s already after 6am we go for breakfast. The girls don’t want to join, it’s a little weird situation. Whatever…

Conclusion:
-I have to be clear in my intent! This night I wasn’t clear with the warm approach girl…
-it hurts if you open a set for a newbie, introduce him and he does the exact opposite of what you tell him to do… that sucks. At least if you would’ve fucked the girl…
-I have to push my comfort zone more! Since I’m very comfortable with opening during day and night now I oftentimes just stand around and don’t do anything for a relative long period of time. That’s a waste of time. In this case I can go home too…

<>============================================================<>Sunday:
Time for FB 2 (the Salsa girl from week 14).
Fucked her 2 times one time in bed and one time on the balcony.

Alright, Alright. Another adventurous week is over! Enjoy the following track!

My current 2 biggest sticking points:
1. Drag away girls. Even though I try to befriend/engage the friends it seems that more and more often my girl gets dragged away. Sometimes I’m in isolation with my girl and some hand reaches out of the dark and just pulls her away. There’s literally no second to react.
2. I’m hesitating between going for quick escalation (makeouts; sometimes resulting in not being able to actually pull her home afterwards) and playing it more solid (not from a frame of being a permission boy but because i know that i can kiss her anyway; sometimes resulting in drag away girls pulling my girl away before I can do anything). The problem is that I lost the girl with both approaches and don’t know in which direction to calibrate now…

This week was more like a vacation since I set up a short trip with FB 1 from Fri to Sun in the countryside. Wanted to push the sexual comfort zone even more haha.

Since Zonk is on vacation in the States now I’m about to take care of his flat. Because it’s boring alone I bring some company with me. Fun times begin. He said that he slept with 2 girls since the last time he made his bed. Maybe he will kill me for that…

<>============================================================<>Monday:
After I fucked FB 2 the day before in Zonks bed and balcony it’s time to take care of “the plants” again haha. I fuck FB 1 in the bed.

<>============================================================<>Wednesday:
Brunette hottie cancels her date for “family reasons”. As I found out a few days later her mother is on radiotherapy. Shit, I’m now thinking about if it’s a proper think to get into a non-exclusive thing with her under these circumstances. I’m not an asshole like that…

<>============================================================<>Thursday:
Pull FB 3 back at Zonks place. We’re already lying in bed heavily making out and grinding but she’s on her period and doesn’t want to fuck. Damnit!

Alright, time to join Steve and hit up the clubs. There’s a 30+ party going on in the toughest venue of Vienna but I’m under 30 and the bouncers make no exception for me…

Whatever, I head over to our fav. club. I’m on fire but still chill. When Steve arrives I’m already in my 3rd set. Even though it’s on with a few girls it seems that I deal with fucked up logistics (BF) all over the place. Then I open a 5set. I’m fully self amusing myself. Can see the attraction. Since they’re about to leave I go for the number but she just wants to have my number. What is this shit? After some time I give it to her and eject. This sucks man…

Since I’m about to head out to a short trip in the countryside on the next day I call it a night.

Conclusion:
-damnit, wanted to fuck FB 3 at Zonks place
-started in the club alone and did sets right from the get go generating goods emotions from within
-even though it was on with a few girls the logistics were fucked up that night (BF)
-after self amusing myself I got a little outcome dependent (#close) with one girl. Guess I fucked it up at this point…

<>============================================================<>Friday to Sunday:
Head out to the countryside with FB 1. The trip starts awesome as she gives me a BJ while driving on the freeway. Awesome shit! Because I didn’t come I just took the exit to the next weigh station and fucked her behind some bushes.

I keep it short here: besides the BJ on the freeway and fucking her on a weigh station I fucked her on a boat on the lake and in a wood while people were walking by.

I love pushing my comfort zone every week!

Shit, I just fucked 2 girls in Zonks bed while he was away. Wanted to beat his “2 girls since he made his bed last time”. The 3rd one was already in the bed but on her period. Shit happens… Whatever, it was fun anyway… Time to get a little humble again

Unfortunately only did one session this week. That’s the reason why I will hit it up harder next week!

Alright, since I was a little lazy last week (only did one night session) it was about time to take MASSIVE ACTION! Therefore I went out every single fucking day and did 6 nightgame and 8 daygame sessions. YEAH, like a berserk!!! Got a huge amount of macro momentum out of it! One session in this context means that I did at least one set (applies for the daygame mainly were I also used small timeframes of spare time). IMO that’s the biggest thing in doing a session: get the ball rollin’.

Anyway, I forgot to note that I finished the book “The Game” recently. Got some insights out of it and learned about the historical background of the community. Definitely worthy to check it out!

Because of all the action I didn’t read a single page of a book that week, just RSDN articles.

I definitely have to focus to work on my text game. The conversion from number to day2 has to go up!

<>============================================================<>Monday Day:
Because I spent the whole weekend with my primary FB I cancel my Monday FB Jour Fixe. Use the time to go for a short session right after work. Going out solo to a book store. I don’t feel like doing it because I’m tired and in logical work mode and have no macro momentum on my side since the last day I went out was Thursday. I wonder around for some time without doing anything. However, I know that I have to push myself to progress. I know that I will not go until I took action! Finally open a girl, it’s a little weird. Whatever, I did it. that’s all that counts!

Conclusion:
-its fucking hard to daygame alone (RIGHT NOW; I know that this will change after time)
-pushed myself to take action against fear, tiredness, etc!

<>============================================================<>Monday:
Head out with Steve and Terminator to a bar we used to go back in the day. The crowd is quite young. I’m chill as fuck. Guess I feel a little too confident since the girls seem to be too intimidated. It’s on with a few girls but for some odd reason I don’t know now I don’t push the sets further. WTF happened there. Since I’m normally in the toughest venues of the city I get lazy when it’s not that of a challenge I guess.

Open a girl with her FB right next to her. I don’t give a shit. Amuse myself hard core. Go for the number, she just wants me to give me her Facebook. Whatever…

Conclusion:
-have to use more empathy in venues were I feel like I own the place (eg. “normal” venues as opposed to the hardest venues were I’m most of the time now)
-have to push the sets more in “normal” venues
<>============================================================<>Tuesday Day:
Going out solo again! I just have about 30min between work and an appointment so I hit up a book store. Wonder around looking for a hottie, not much going on, then finally open a blondie, she's older then it seemed from distance, so I chat a little and eject after a few minutes, ... awesome daygame session huh?

Conclusion:
-even if this seems like a waste of time the big thing for me is that I pushed myself to do this one set. Big win again!
-it’s hard for me to determine if a girl is “old enough” during the day. However, with time I will develop a sense for that for sure…

<>============================================================<>Tuesday:
It’s my first time at this open air venue. It’s awesome. High quality girls everywhere. It feels more like daygame because the music is very quite and chill, no one is dancing.

Do a couple of sets, pretty chill, but no longer convos. Don’t really play to win. Do a tough mixed 2set to push my comfort zone. The girl talks about “hidden camera”. Haha! The dude gets pissed. Thx man, that’s a good challenge! Just keep my cool. I like the feeling when I’m not reacting to such bullshit and my counterpart gets more and more emotional because of me not reacting.

Bump into a 2set with a girl who knew me from before. I now remember: went on a date with her haha. but she was very stifled.

One other “funny” thing happened. Steve and me open a superhot blonde 2set. I get Terminator in the convo. After looking at an earring one girl gets pissed and hits Terminator hard. He loses his cool and gets really pissed. I’m overwhelmed and don’t framecontrol the situation. Strangely Steve aligns himself with the girls side. WTF! Bros before Hoes man! The girls leave. However, this was a good reference experience to handle such situations better next time!

Conclusion:
-interactions feel more and more natural for me as opposed to mechanical and weird vibes that I used to spread all over the place back in the day. I can see progress in this area!
-Bros before Hoes! Have to work on that thing more!
-good that I pushed my comfort zone again with a tough couple set!

<>============================================================<>Wednesday Day:
Going out with Terminator. Wonder around. I’m more “selective” than during night. BUT the question is: is it screening or just a cheap excuse for not approaching??? Open a brunette cutie, BF, shit.

Head over to a book store. Terminator gives me 10 EUR. He only gets the money back if he approaches one set within 5min. Think I did one set there, nothing special. He does one in the last second and gets his money back.

Head over to the city hall. At first I hesitate but then do a couple of sets and unstifle more and more.

Conclusion:
-I don’t do enough sets during day. Have to get the number up!

<>============================================================<>Wednesday:
Head out to a tough venue with Zonk, later Terminator joins in. session only takes 1,5h. at first I open a few sets, then do nothing. WTF!!!

A guy collapses in the bathroom. He’s shuddering. Reinforcement to go completely sober and don’t do any drugs. Listen kids!

It’s time for Mountaineers comeback! Open a couple of sets but nothing special happens… damnit. Since I’m tired and have to get up early I call it a night.

Conclusion:
-mountaineers comeback is a good tool to address inaction!

<>============================================================<>Thursday Day:
Wonder around in a book store. The fury builds up! Head over to another store. Open a brunette, BF. Then blonde supercutie, I’m in for over 20min and #close her. YES!

Conclusion:
- Up to this point the week is pretty lame concerning results… but now I get the ball rollin’

<>============================================================<>Thursday Day2:
Day2 with the girl I hooked up with in week 18. Almost Mountaineers Standard Day2 Procedure:
1. Agree for billard (props for billard to Feelgood) for 6:30
2. Get her to pick me up at my place. Since my flat is right around the corner of the day2 location it’s much easier to get the girl up to your apartment in the first place. Then she comes up for a moment. Offer something to drink. Oftentimes tap water haha. ideally we never even leave the flat ;-)
3. Head over for some billlard. Paying is quite easy: Since 2 drinks cost almost the same as the rent for one hour playing, I usually pay the drinks and let her pay the table rent afterwards. If you stay longer just drink 2 rounds and it’s the same amount again. Advantage of billard: It’s not static like sitting in a bar. You can show her stuff, have physicality going on, tease her, etc.
4. Depending on her BT do a stopover in a bar on a way to my place
5. Bring her back to my place. Telling stuff about my neighborhood while looking out of the window standing close to each other. Makeout. Either watching something like Family Guy or playing a ridiculous computer game like “Blobby Volley” on my beamer.
6. More Makeout, pushing her into the bed…

However, after step 6 I lose her. LMR after opening her bra.

I don’t care since I wanted to meetup with my FB 3 at around 10:00. So I do a freezeout. Grab something to eat while talking normally. I like that because the girls are confused about it most of the time. Haha. Then I kick her out.

Unfortunately, my FB is still occupied with some friends in another part of the city and doesn’t want to just leave them alone. Damnit! Since FB 3 is going to work on a ship for 4 months and will be in her hometown in the next time and is hotter then my day2 I should have made an explicit appointment with her for that day…

Conclusion:
-Mountaineers Day2 Procedure works pretty good
-Texted FB 3 that I probably would have time for her around 10:00. I assumed that she would be waiting at home for me to come over (or not). BUT that wasn’t the case. Lesson learned: Do not take for granted that a FB is just waiting for you.

<>============================================================<>Thursday:
Head out with Zonk (back from his USA trip) and Steve to our fav. bar. it’s empty. One seated set, I go in. boring.

Head over to a club. empty. Time for our fav. club. I’m tired as fuck, do only lame approaches. However, I do them. When I’m about to go home Feelgood appears. He was in Germany for some time and just got back. I do a 50 EUR challenge with Terminator to take action one more time. However, I’m completely out of it because of mire tiredness and got nothing after opening the set.

Do one last set while leaving the club. superhot blondie. I creep the fuck out of her. time to go home! ;-)

Conclusion:
-even though I was tired as fuck did my approaches

<>============================================================<>Friday Day:
Do 2 daygame “sessions”. One with Zonk immediately after lunch. Just go into a store and open a cutie. Good vibing, BUT BF.

Second session with Feelgood. Open a supercute brunette, 15-20min, good vibing. Get the number. YES!

Conclusion:
-after then daygame from Mon to Wed just sucked (was just about pushing myself to open), now I obviously have enough macro momentum to vibe pretty good and everything just feels positive and natural

<>============================================================<>Friday:
Start with Zonk and Steve at our fav. bar. do really chilled sets. Awesome! But almost no escalation. Again the problem with balancing Alexander style with my high energy game from back in the day…

Head over to a new location. Unfortunately closed. Shit. Alright, so it’s time for the toughest venue again. Do some chill sets with Zonk with high self amusment. However, after some time the girls just leave. DAMNIT WAAHHH

Conclusion:
-balancing NIM with my former high energy game is still an issue
-however, with Zonk the self amusement part came back. Was a little bit low recently

<>============================================================<>Saturday Day:
Big daygame session with Feelgood, Terminator, Zonk, Especial. Open 3 girls with BF. Finally at a supermarket open a supercute blondie. Good vibing, qualification. 15-20min. Go for insta-date, nogo, she already has plans. Then go for number, get it!

Conclusion:
-it’s much easier for me with wings during the day… have to find some substitute for a wing. During the night I do homebase sets when going out solo. But this doesn’t work during the day…

<>============================================================<>Saturday:
Start with Zonk and Steve at our fav. bar. open a blondie 2set. One girl is pretty much into it. Unfortunately no wing engages the other girl. Damnit! While they’re leaving go for the number anyway. Just get FB, WTF…???

Then French 4set. Too stifled. Head over to another bar. no hot girls there. Time for another club. Bump into Platzhirsch and Alex-. The city is full of gamers recently…

Open a hen party. Awesome vibing with the bride, then switch to another blondie. Good vibing, but they’
re all drunk. She has a BF, I don’t care. Just enjoying the feminine energy.

Open a superhot blonde. BF, damnit! We head back over to our fav. bar. too late for hotties at this time. But time for a Käsekrainer Hot Dog. The best in town!

Conclusion:
-mix up the toughest venues with more “normal” venues. I feel like owning these places recently and my self amusement there is hilarious…

<>============================================================<>Sunday Day:
First hesitate a little but then head out solo to the town hall. On the way there I’m already looking for sets to approach (1, or 2sets with cute girls). But there’s nothing… It’s the same thing when I arrive at the venue. The only ones are seated. Don’t do them. I’m a little pussy. I know.

So I just sit down and eat a banana. Then 3 tourist girls came across. I feel the fury and go in. the convo stales out after a few minutes, I eject. Look again for “appropriate” sets, but noghing…

Then 3 tourists, don’t approach. I think the first thought that came to my mind was “it’s a waste of time to make these tourists. they’re gone tomorrow”. Then one girl at the tram station. I out because probably 10-15 people would have seen/heard it.

Conclusion:
-I around even when it’s a 1set just because random people are standing around that could hear/see it…
-have to push myself more when I’m out solo!!!

So, that’s it for week 20! My new mindset from now on is BEING THE HONEY BADGER. Referring to the Guinness Book of Records it’s the most fearless animal on the planet:

Last week was ridiculous regarding the number of sessions. Macro momentum is addictive. If you have a high level going on you want to keep it going! So I kept the high level of activity and did 6 daygame and 4 nightgame sessions. It’s not hard to do it with great wings like Feelgood, Especial, Zonk and Terminator who are active themselves and always push to more action! The level of their game doesn’t really matter. What does matter is the level of commitment to take action and continuously push the comfort zone! AND to help each other out sharing your experiences! In the end that’s the only (major) factor that gets you really good at this!

It’s key to surround yourself with like-minded people who push each other all the time. It is true what Tyler says in the Blueprint: You are the average of the 5 people you surround yourself the most.

If you don’t have such people around you go out and FIND THEM! Be active and take initiative! It pays back manifold!

Anyway, let’s crack into this week!

<>============================================================<>Monday:
Since my primary FB is cooking dinner I directly head over to her place after work. Otherwise I would’ve done a little daygame in between. Want to establish this habit of doing something every day. With daygame its pretty easy to do it! You don’t need to do a 30 day challenge. Just do something every day for the rest of your life! ;-)

<>============================================================<>Tuesday Day:
Head out with Feelgood and Terminator. I’m a little lazy, several girls with BFs and the rest doesn’t hook

Conclusion:
-even though nothing special happens I did a few sets

<>============================================================<>Tuesday:
Head out to a latin bar with Zonk and Feelgood, Termintaor I guess… several milfs there. I’m in 2 sets for over half an hour each but not really into that girls. Nothing special happens…

Conclusion:
-insert text here… haha; I don’t know, this staying in sets even though you’re not really into that girl is maybe just an validation thing. Will observe it in the future…

<>============================================================<>Wednesday Day:
Go out to the town hall with Especial. He opens left and right all the time. Definitely a good wing to get into the habit of approaching ALL THE TIME. Try out some mother/daughter sets and they go pretty good. Didn’t expect that. It’s like going in and asking the mother if it’s no problem for her if you talk to her daughter for 2minutes. They didn’t say anything negative and just leave you alone with their daughter after a few minutes. Fucking awesome! Unfortunately tourists 2 times. Going back to their hometown next day. Should’ve gone for the number anyways because I could have done something later this day with her.

Talk with Especial a little about textgame. His conversion rate from numbers to dates is pretty good. Since this is a part of my game that sucks recently (especially at daygame numbers) I will try out something different now. Not going 100% Brad style any more. If I think about it, “asking questions” in texts is playing to win. Because you are vulnerable. If you always just use statements it’s too static I guess. Get her more involved into a conversation so that she can invest into the relationship. Don’t get me wrong. I don’t mean to ask her were you should meet up and such chode stuff but ask her how’s her day going and this kind of stuff. However, I will try this new approach for the next time and look how I roll with it.

Conclusion:
-got new insights for text game

<>============================================================<>Thursday Day:
Head out with Zonk. One set at a book store. She’s quite physical and touches me several times… BUT has a BF. If they say they have a BF I often ask if he’s real or just imaginary. If they say real then I try to frame it like it is an open relationship. Funny stuff!

Do a hired gun in an underwear store. Go in direct. As always these days! I like it how they like it that you have the balls to go in direct during the day. Good vibing for a few minutes but since clients are coming in all the time she has to work. Go for number, nogo. Why, BF? No, but something similar. Yeah, whatever…

Conclusion:
-guess this was the first hired gun during day. Loved it to go in direct!
-did 5+ sets in 1 hour!

<>============================================================<>Thursday:
Head out with Zonk to a bar. His FB is celebrating her bday there. I’m looking forward how the dynamics work out in this constellation. We arrive, they’re not there yet. Bar is empty so we just do 2 sets… one 2set while entering the bar. they’re just negative and strange. And one 3set that’s fucking stifled. I don’t have the nerves to get them comfortable.

Then Zonks FB and friends arrive. 4 girls and 1 guy with his GF. They’re asking if Zonk is her BF haha. No. I tell them that I’m her BF. Just kidding… now they don’t have any clue whats going on. Mission accomplished!

However, Zonk leads his FB around the corner to make out with her and returns a few minutes later. Time to change the venue. Meet up with Feelgood and Terminator at a club where the average age is quite high. Whatever, it’s been a long time since I was there so let’s give it a try.

Open a 2set with Zonk. I’ working with a cute little blonde and Zonk with a brunette one. Good vibing with my girl. Zonk is not into his girl and the music is fucking loud there so we finally eject.

Head over to a club. it’s almost empty. Just a 2set. We go in. I stick with my cute brunette girl for a long period of time. Go for makeout several times, but not hard enough. While leaving I go in hard one more time. Boom, makeout! Go for number, nogo… WTF…

Conclusion:
-interesting reference experience for a social gathering with a FB
-fucking long set with just a makeout and no number in the end. Since I had to get up early the next day this was a waste of time!

<>============================================================<>Friday Day:
Head out with Zonk to a book store. Empty. Do nearly the only possible set. Brunette cutie. She’s quite stifled but extremely compliant. Lead her to a coffee shop. Yes, first insta-date! Actually this was almost the first time I went for it since I’m trying to do it since a short period of time.

Long convo. Unfortunately we’re not sitting next to each other since it wasn’t possible. She’s still pretty stifled but opens up over time. Lead her to grab some sushi. Decide NOT to pull her back to my place since I can sense that this would be far outside of her reality. It’s better to baby step here…

Conclusion:
-first insta-date! YES!
-next time I will not go for coffee but for billard to get more physical

<>============================================================<>Friday:
Head out to our fav. bar with Especial. Right after entering the bar I open a 2set. These girls are crazy and just talking bullshit. But no positive one. Eject after a few minutes.

Saw another blonde seated 2set in the corner. Go in, and sit down immediately. Especial joins in. good vibing with my girl. We’re in there for 1,5 hours just to find out that they both have a bf. And that after me going for the makeout several times. WTF, it’s strange with german girls in Austria. Damnit, I really went into this set with positive assumptions.

Do a Spanish 3set. After a few minutes they have to leave. Whatever…

Head over to a latin bar and meet up with Feelgood, Terminator and Big I. I’m tired and just do a few sets with little intent. One set makes fun of the things I said. I enjoy the humiliation since I know that it hardens myself and just makes me stronger next time! Haha bitches!

Open the 2 hottest girls in the bar. waaaahhh, haaaawwwwwwwt. Get the friendly smile and padding on the shoulder. Nooooo… however, I lose them.

I just want to go home since I did enough for this night. However, Feelgood talks me into just 5 more sets… so we head over to the toughest club in town. Do 5 sets in 30min. nothing special happens. I call it a night.

Conclusion:
-damnit, I don’t know why I don’t get results with German girls in Austria. Pulled 2 girls while I was in Germany. But in Austria it doesn’t work…
-paid 12 EUR for 30min in a club doing 5sets. Haha, I like it!

<>============================================================<>Saturday Day:
Head out with Zonk and Especial to a book store. Open a blonde cutie, BF. We switch venue. Open a hoooooot blonde girl from Hungary. Her sister is waiting outside for her. I’m not persistent enough.

We head over to a cloth store. Open another hot blonde. Instant blowout. I look for a new laptop at a store. Open the next blonde. Married. Damnit. Supermarket. Blonde with BF. WTF is this…

Conclusion:
-this is the day of BFs

<>============================================================<>Saturday:
Start at our fav. bar with Zonk. Gugarutz, a new guy who contacted me over RSDN, wants to join us for a night. Alright. We talk a little to get to know each other. Since the place is dead we head over to the street. Send Gugarutz into the first set (friendly 2set, not really hot). He goes immediately and sticks in there. Meanwhile Zonk and myself hit up a couple of sets. No interesting sets. Send him into some more sets. He gets the hang of it. Show him my unstifling EEEEEEEEEEYYYYYYYOOOOOO from back in the day. Haha, never used it recently since it was more of a crutch to get the ball rollin’.

On the way to the next venue do another street set. Good roleplay. Some more street sets. Right before entering the club we stumble upon 2 girls. One is 16. Wtf. See them later in the club. Go for the makeout on the older one several times. Nogo, because they’re lesbians. Haha.

Open a Mongolian hottie strong. Hoooot body. Vibing. Lose her for a sec. Open a not that hot blonde with the Vally opener. She’s into it. Since I’m motivated to play it hard I go for the makeout right after 30sec. Cheek. But she stays. I’m used to not react to not getting the makeout in the first place. Go for the makeout a couple times. She’s still standing there. Haha. Since the boys are already waiting outside I eject and get the number.

See the Mongolian girl and go back in to lead her outside of the club. Her body is fucking hoooot. More vibing. Go for the makeout. Strange makeout. She’s always biting my tongue and lips HARD. WTF, I don’t like this biting thing. Since they’re about to go I get the number and don’t go for the pull. I’m sure I would’ve been able to pull her.

Next club. 2 tyrolean sets. My intent is not that high… eject. Guess you can call it premature ejection haha. Gugarutz leaves. Zonk and me do “one last set”. 2 girls in the corner. Zonks girl has a BF. Mine is into it. Good vibing. CLAW, CLAW, CLAW. Go for the makeout several times hard. Cheek, neck, cheek, neck. But stays. WTF. Then some guy buys her a drink. Whatever, Zonk is getting bored with his girl having a BF and I’m too tired to blow the chode out. When we’re about to leave the girl says stuff like “WHAT, you already leave…”. Haha, bitch. Your bad! Don’t have any interest to stay any longer. Could’ve gone for the number if I think about it now…

Conclusion:
-that’s what I like: Gugarutz was taking action all the time! No hesitation!
-should’ve gone for the number on the last girl
-was a fun night!

<>============================================================<>Sunday Day:
Head out with Especial for street game on the way to the town hall. One girl on bike. BF. A few more. Most of them BF. Especial and me try some new stuff on 2sets. Didn’t work out yet.

Then a polish hottie on a bench. Go in. Good convo. She works there. Not at the bench you fool. But nearby. Haha. Get the number but I’m not sure if it’s her real number since the text doesn’t sound like a voicemail text. But I can’t hear it clearly because my phone was lying on my lap. She says that she doesn’t have her phone with her…

On the way back home I open a hot blonde right after leaving the metro. She’s a stewardess. Yes! We have the same way since she’s leaving in the same street. Go for the number. BF. Just get her Facebook. Whatever… this one’s good for any kind of social gatherings and sooner or later she’ll be single again ;-)

Conclusion:
-good session
-tried some 2set stuff. Will figure it out
-maybe the first wrong number in a long time

Finally some more abundance is taking place. Turned down 2 invitations for sex for misc reasons (see below) and had my first Day2 from daygame.

My reading is still at zero pages a week. I know that I have to change it. But since taking action in field has the highest priority it doesn’t really bother me at the moment!

Without any further ado let’s get straight into this week.

<>============================================================<>Monday Day:
Head out with Especial for some street game. We focus on 2 on 2 sets. How to open and get the ball rollin’. Since I’m in between work and my primary FB there’s almost no time... also Chinaboy is in town so we hit him and Feelgood up for a short chit chat. Just 2 sets, nothing special happens.

Conclusion:
-2 on 2 is definitely something we need to experiment a lot during day to get it working

<>============================================================<>Monday:
FB. Tried to fuck her in the cinema. Unfortunaltey there were too many people there, especially sitting next to us.

<>============================================================<>Tuesday Day:
Right after work I hit the streets up with Feelgood and Chinaboy. When I arrive Chinaboy is already in set. Open a brunette girl from Tunesia at a book store. Move her to another floor. Then go for insta-date. She has no time since she’s going to do a German test the next day and has to study for it. So I get the number.

At a cloth store open a supercute blonde hottie from Hungary after following her for 20 meters from the street. Haha, she’s very intimidated at first but I manage it to calm her down (Alexanders Statement of Empathy). She opens up. Nice! After 10min in I go for insta-date. She’s a little sweaty since she just came from work (is working at Mc Donalds till she gets her diploma) and is going back to Hungary next day and therefore has no time. Yeah, she knows what it means to go on a d2 with me: she needs to get a shower and shave herself down there. “just in case something happens”. HAHA!

She says that she’s coming back on Saturday and that we should do something on Sunday. Awesome. Get the number. Some more talking. I eject.

Conclusion:
-managed it to calm a very intimidated girl down. You always have to collect her at her current level and work from there
-that’s how daygame should be. Like doing 1-2 hours and get 2 numbers. And I’m just going to get practiced in that. YES!

<>============================================================<>Tuesday:
Head out to an open air location with Feelgood, Chinaboy, Steve, Terminator and Maxwell (formerly Big I). At first I hesitate to approach. I’m used to daygame now and enjoy it. I’m a little bit unmotivated for nightgame. However, long convo with brunette one, almost no emotional spikes. Pretty flat… they leave, whatever, I don’t try to stop them.

Wing Feelgood in a Bavarian set. The fatty is boring. Since Feelgood fails to isolate his girl we both eject. The girls look puzzled. Haha. Do a few more sets. Nothing special happens.

On the way home bump into a girl I know from my salsa life. She's into me for a long time, I can see that she's horny as fuck, but she's "not my type" =fat haha. She follows me to my place where I just say goodbye and close the door. Girls throwing yourself at you boost your ego. I don’t want to be reliant on something like that. However, this is a sign of abundance. Awesome!

Conclusion:
-Feelgood told me how excessive daygame fucked up his nightgame. It’s comprehensible for me now since I’m experiencing similar things recently: LACK OF DEDICATION/MOTIVATION during night. Time to step the fuck up again during night
-like girls throwing yourself at you begging for sex

<>============================================================<>Wednesday Day:
Head out with Feelgood and Chinaboy to the streets. I’m not really dedicated. It’s more like a chill day after the “good” daygame session from the day before. A negative effect of doing that much sessions is that they’re not that intese compared to doing only 3-4 sessions a week. If I think about it now this is just another limiting belief…

However, did a few sets like a smoking hot blonde on the street who was on the phone with her BF and walking by. Good comfort zone push! Get some more “well done, girls will like it, but I have a BF”. Later a get a “weird” number close where she just enters my number but doesn’t call. WTF!?

Conclusion:
-again: more dedication. If I go out I take action. Otherwise I can use the time for something else!

<>============================================================<>Wednesday:
Start with Zonk on the street where we hit up a couple of sets. Nothing special happens. Head over to our fav. bar. Discussing my text game. Since it’s not working for daygame numbers I’m trying to improve it by talking to wings that have a different approach to text game than myself. Later Feelgood and Chinaboy join in. Since there is a flashmob on the street happening and the police is coming I’m just in spectator mode. BUT, at least I’m fully aware of doing it!

Conclusion:
-one of those nights I did very little action. Again: dedicated going out or its useless!

<>============================================================<>Thursday:
Head out with Zonk to the town hall. Do just one set since this is almost the only set to be worth approaching. Only very young and very old people there. Head over to an open air club. Meetup with Steve. Last time there was SHIT! Like all people just lying around not willing to socialize. This time it’s completely different again. It’s fucking awesome! I’m chill as fuck, open the first set after 20min since the club was empty when we arrived. CHILL. More sets with a chill hand of god. Never thought this is possible. Doing high energy outer game while being totally chill and calm. YES!

The problem: even though it goes pretty good I don’t stick with it hard enough (persistence). I don’t know how to be persistent with Alexanders NIM. It’s a contradiction for me. Need to figure a way out though… more and more girls “know me from before” haha.

Conclusion:
-have to find a solution to combine NIM with persistence!

<>============================================================<>Friday Day (2 Sessions):
Head out with Zonk immediately after lunch. It’s like 2minutes, 2 girls. One with BF, one is in a hurry. I’m not persistent enough to hold her back and engage her in a convo. However, the opens are pretty smooth now, no freakouts! This is more and more consistent now!

Later in the day head out with Zonk again. Because I know that we need to buy stuff hit it up at the beginning of our session in case we don’t have time afterwards. So I do a street set, immediate blowout. And I exactly know the reason why. Because I creeped her out. I knew it before even opening her because my eye contact sucked. Conveyed all the wrong signals (creepy).

One supercute brunette one. She’s into it. WTF, she’s 16. I eject. It’s fucking empty everywhere so we call it a day.

Conclusion:
-Good that I did some sets right at the beginning because I knew that it’s possible that I possibly won’t have time afterwards

<>============================================================<>Friday:
Head out with Terminator, Steve and Maxwell for street game. Open a few sets. Instant blowouts. I go in like it’s daygame. However, it is kind of daygame because people are sitting around chillin. Bottom line: it doesn’t work :/

I need to change venue. New location everything is fresh and you can begin a new start. So I head over to my fav. bar where I immediately open a mixed 3set while I’m on the phone. Low key. Little vibing. Then Steve joins in. we need to improve wingmanship. It’s 2 on 2 because the dude in the set is engaging the other girl. So no need for me to get a wing in.

Head over to the toughest venue in town. Do 2-3 sets with “normal” convo without immediate blowouts (like normally). Good stuff! That’s unusual in the positive sense. Yes, fucking awesome! A few more sets with drag away girls. FUCK THEM!

Then I wing Terminator in a set. My girl is not that hot but has a very cute face and reminds me of a TV actor so I stick in the set. BUT, I cannot really tell how thin she is because she has a dress that doesn’t really tell… Just vibing. She’s into me and goes for the kiss. Whatever, I makeout with her. Isolate her, more makeout. For reasons of practice I go for the pull. Fucked up logistics: she’s living out of town and the 2 friends of her are sleeping at her place. Go for an afterparty at my place with all of them. No go, the driver (Terminators girl) wants to drive straight back to her place. Then my girl invites me to come back with them to her place (=invitation for sex). Since it’s not worth the 1 hour “traveling” in both direction it’s a nogo from my side. Finally I’m able to “nogo” girls for sex. Haha, 2nd time this week!!! Get her number and call it a night!

Conclusion:
-good decision that I changed venue alone because nothing worked at one place
-turned down the second offer for sex this week (because the girls were not that hot). Back in the day I would have gone for them because of neediness. So that’s a good sign.

<>============================================================<>Saturday Day:
Head out with Zonk to the streets right after lunch. Open a fucking gorgeous girl in a book store. Damnit she’s hot. BUT she’s intimidated as fuck, talking shit like “other people are already looking at us”. So what bitch! I’m not able to manage it to calm her down. §§(/$)((%)$”%!%! DAMNIT!

Then I open another one. Then it turns out she has a BF. I’m staying chill as fuck. In fact nothing is weird. Just if you make it weird. Time for some shopping. We call it a day.

Conclusion:
-nothing is weird! If her BF joins in, just be cool. It’s just weird if you make it weird!
-missed a great girl because I wasn’t able to unstifle her. DAMNIT!!!

<>============================================================<>Saturday:
Start with Zonk at our fav. bar. it’s dead. Then it fills up slowly. While I’m at the bathroom Zonk opens the first set. Since it’s just a 1set I head over to a different area of the bar to open a 2set. Full indirect style. WTF! Therefore lose them after a few minutes. Talk a little to the bouncers. Zonk gets the number and ejects.

Head over to another club. Officially it was an asian party. Turns out to be an afterparty of an anime congress in town. This place sucks. Just 16yo sailormoon girls unable to flirt. After a few sets we get the hell out of there.

Go to another club. Forget it. Just “trash” sets. We call it a night.

Conclusion:
-it was about time for another chodes night out haha

<>============================================================<>Sunday Day2:
Because of the rainy weather and the fact that in Austria no shops are open on Sundays I did no daygame. However I will not stop until I find a good spot for Sundays because my goal is to do daygame 7days a week independent of the weather!

After 10-15 daygame numbers from sets that were going pretty good IMO finally manage it to convert it to a Day2. My nightgame text game didn’t work for the daygame numbers. Don’t ask me why!? So I tried some new things and I’m still focusing on that area.

When she arrives she’s even hotter than I had her in memory. Oh yes! Time for billard. We play for one hour where a little physical escalation happens. Noticed that I didn’t lead enough because she started to ask questions about me all the time and I was just reacting to it. I move her to another area of the bar “just to talk”. In between talk about Family Guy and stuff. Tell her that I have a beamer. Yada, yada. After we both finish our drinks I just go to my flat. We go upstairs. No questions asked.

I talk about random shit in my flat. I know I can do it for hours… Then we watch an episode and play Blobby afterwards. She has no chance ;-) I escalate even more. She’s more comfortable now. Then I go for the makeout. Nogo. First time I don’t get a makeout at my place. She tells me a crazy story about why she doesn’t kiss on the first date. Some stuff that happened some time ago. She asks me why I don’t have a GF. Haha, what a question. I say “because I’m shy”. Since she’s not speaking German that well she doesn’t get the joke. Whatever, I escalate on other fronts (kissing her on the neck). Finally kick her out of the flat. See you on the next date!

Conclusion:
-need to find a place to do daygame on Sundays when it’s not sunny!
-after the insta-date of last week it’s the first day2 from daygame! YES!!! Even pulled her back to my place. Unfortunaltey no makeout. Whatever, it’s just a matter of time…