What Happens at a Burial Service?

After the funeral service, whether this is at a church,
crematorium, or other venue, if you have opted for a burial for the deceased,
you might be wondering what to expect. See our guide to what happens during the
day of the funeral to find out more about what to expect before this takes
place, or read on to understand the burial process.

What happens at a burial?

When the main service has ended, the priest or celebrant who
conducted the service will usually guide those who attended outside, following
the pallbearers and the coffin to the graveside. At the side of the grave, if
there is space, there might be seats for the closest family members of the
deceased; otherwise people will congregate while standing.

What is a committal service?

At the grave side, the priest or celebrant will usually say
a few words, possibly including a prayer or biblical reading; this is known as
a committal service. After the reading, family members might be invited to say
a few words, and then traditionally these same people will scatter the first handfuls
of soil on top of the coffin.

The lowering of the coffin

Next, the coffin will be lowered into the ground, and other
attendees will be invited to place flowers or tributes at the graveside. Family
and friends then pay their final respects, before leaving to make their way to
the reception or wake if there is one.

What happens after a burial?

After the day of the funeral, most burial grounds stay open
continuously – enabling visitors to see the grave of their loved one at any
time. Some might be locked during the night, so you will need to find out the
opening times from the groundskeeper or priest.

Can you be buried if you are not religious?

Yes, while traditionally graveyards are associated with
churches, and at one time you had to be baptised to be buried, today this is
not the case. Most cemeteries are non-denominational, meaning anyone can be
buried there. As well as this, more and more people are opting for ‘green
funerals’, at which the deceased is buried in a biodegradable coffin in
a meadow or woodland. In this instance, the deceased will not usually have a headstone.