Sex & Music: A Sexy Combination

We’re an attention deficit culture, so believe it or not, we’re not only too distracted to do our taxes and answer emails but many people are also distracted during sex. This is SEX people, one of the most pleasurable acts on the planet, and we’re having a hard time focusing. We’re busy thinking about the kids, our to-do list, our job or the laundry.

Music and sex are an age old duo but here are some added benefits to sparking the tunes when you’re trying to get it on:

To-Don’t: Concentrating on the rhythm or the words of the music will help take your mind off to-do list or whatever else might be distracting you

No words: Listening to instrumental music can prolong orgasm in men if they focus on the beats (words tend to distract) and switch back and forth from the sexual feelings to the beats of the music.

Transition tunes: Women require more time to be open to receiving and giving sexually. Listening to music in a warm bath will relax her while raising her passion quotient

Sex as stress reliever: Music can make or break the setting for romance. Pick out some tunes that work for both of you. Slower music tends for a smoother transition

If your lover is out of town or you just want to have some solo fun with music MyPleasure recently introduced a new sex toy that connects to your iPod or home audio system. In music mode the OhMiBod vibrates with the beat; dial in the sweet spot where music and massage come together by adjusting the massager’s sensitivity and intensity to the music.