"seems like way too many here are just flirting, lots of smoke, but no fire."

I flirt. I flirt more with those I am truly attracted to. And when we finally get to meet? So far there has been lots of fire ;)

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Yes, and so far its been amazing.....

Sebastian FL

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You are "spot on" as well, Erotikos! {sexy pic, by the way!}

Picayune MS

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Bingo Mrs. Sav--you are spot on! As in so much of life, there are some who love to criticize in others that which they do not recognize in themselves.

Chilhowie VA

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Sing it, Sed!!!! {go girl!!!}

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A little less conversation, a little more action please All this aggravation aint satisfactioning me A little more bite and a little less bark A little less fight and a little more spark Close your mouth and open up your heart and baby satisfy me Satisfy me baby

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Well said Sav, not sure even what a "bed post notcher" is but it always seems to be used with a negative connotation. We are our own best friends and we're happy with that. Not looking for new bff's and friendship is never a requirement for good sex. Naughty brings up a good point, seems like way too many here are just flirting, lots of smoke, but no fire.

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Feelings? Well, yes. But more like a friend. A good friend. A friend with benefits.

But not love. This is not about love.

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Mrs. Sav......you hit the nail on the head once again!!!! We are here for SEX too! This isn't EHarmony! I do believe there are many on here for the flirting & pics...nothing more. Oh well, WE are having fun!!!

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"As we go alone and find playmates we have found that if we don't have an attraction to them in some way whether it's physical or mental it just doesn't work. We are not bed post notchers. "

I'd like to think we all are discriminating enough that having an attraction is paramount. I don't develop "feelings" for playmates beyond a simplistic friendship. I always find the word "bed notchers" curiously odd. Who decides who is a bed notcher or what makes one ? Is there some magic number that makes one a bed notcher? If you say "not necessarily looking for friends " is that a bed notcher? Do you really feel that your( whoever YOU are) have some kind of elite status by claiming you're picky? In my years of swinging I have met very few people who are not picky. Their standard many be different then mine, they might play "more" often for various reasons but I have simply never met anyone I'd consider a bed notcher. Frankly I find the label distasteful,judgmental and condescending. It is like that word is tossed around in order to appease ones own "guilt/shame " I don't think there is a thing wrong with being on a sex and embracing the idea of sex for sex's sake. I don't confuse sex with love. I can love you and have wild monkey sex, I can love you and have zero desire for have sex with you and I can have sex with absolutely no emotional strings attached. Maybe it is just ME but we're here for SEX...plain and simple and I'm ok with that lol.

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