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I don't agree, while people's perspectives are different, this does not lead to the conclusion that what will be will be. While to a certain extent we cannot control what happens in our lives, there is also a certain degree of control too. The choices we make, the judgements we call, these can change a person's course in life very drastically

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Let me give more detail of what I mean. A lot of people say, wa, my grandmother eat luncheon meat all the time, never really care about her diet, and she lived until 90... My friend eat until so healthy, die at 45 from cancer. So they take it to mean "what will be will be".

The truth is, it matters. The grandmother eat healthy, maybe can live until 120 (of course, whether she wants to do so is another issue altogether). The friend who ate healthy, if he just heck care his diet, maybe died even earlier at 30. Actions make a difference. To say that what will be will be assumes that they don't.