Ending One, Starting Another

It’s the end of the year… a new year lies before us. For some 2016 has been a terrible year, for others it’s been the best one ever. We can all make a fresh start in 2017… how are you going to do that?

Even though 2016 has been a year in which both Master T and I had been facing some health problems, there is no way in which I can declare it a terrible year. In fact, some very nice things happened during 2016. Our very first meeting of the year was with Mister Silent and it’s quite symbolic that our last meeting of the year was also with him. However, there was a big difference between the two meetings and I still smile when I think about the most recent one. We had only one playdate in 2016 and that was with The Talker. On the same day as the playdate, at a pub close to the hotel we stayed in, we met Iris, who left a lasting impression on me.

Then there was our lovely Eroticon weekend, and a weekend in which I got branded. Speaking of weekends, one of the highlights of the year was spending time with my special girl, Sophia, and her partner. A weekend that resulted in some lovely images, some of which I still have to share. Another highlight of 2016 was seeing my first book published. What a thrill that was! Last, but not least, I changed the way I eat, following a low carb diet and making it my lifestyle, and I am proud to say I have lost 15 kilograms in six months.

That was 2016…

… but what does 2017 hold for us?

I am working hard on my second book and want to have the first draft done by the end of February. Then several editing rounds will start and I hope to get it published in the second half of the year. As for my diet, I have reached a magic number and on Christmas day as well as New Year’s Eve and New Year’s Day I allowed myself things I knew didn’t fit into the diet. Some of those things gave me tummy aches (one of the reasons why I started eating low carb) but I enjoyed every bite I ate. However, now it’s back to eating only the things I know is good for me, as I still have a number of kilograms I want to get rid of.

We have another weekend planned with Sophia and her partner, and I am really looking forward to this one. The previous two weekends we spent with them were both lovely and sexy, but there’s something hanging in the air between Sophia and me and I believe our next weekend away will be full of fireworks! That’s not the only date we will have. There’s something in the making with Mister Silent, and I can tell you, this is one I am really looking forward to. That man has some kind of effect on me that no other play partner had up to now. I also hope we don’t have just one date with him, but several.

Speaking of play partners, I hope we have another date with The Talker this year and maybe our agenda and that of Major Eric might even align. Someone I would love to see this year, whom we haven’t seen once in 2016 is The Traveler, but his free time seems to get less and less. Oh and, I think I am finally to the point where I accept we won’t see Dena and Master R anymore. When we decide to ‘play’ with others, we are into it for the long run. Sadly, the feeling is not always mutual.

We’ve met some new people from Twitter last year and we’ve heard about a regular BDSM party in the north of the country. We are definitely planning to go there, but it coincides with my writing meetings and my birthday, so the first time we might be able to go is either April or May. We have been told – by the new people and others we know – that this BDSM party is really great to go to and that even if you’re not at ease in big groups or new situations (like me) we would really like it there. I must say, I am quite excited to go there. I have no idea how I will react when playing in public, whether I would even have the guts to do so, but I am sure it’s going to be a beautiful evening. Or evenings, because if it’s nice, we will go there again.

In 2016 I did a post on my #fucketlist. Going tot he BDSM party will fullfil number 4 on the list, but maybe also number 1, being tied in rope. Number 2, sex in the woods might be possible when we go away for a weekend and who knows, Master T might even manage to get a gangbang (number 6) organized. One thing I have put on my list was to fuck a guy half my age (number 7) and I never thought this would be possible, until a young man at our regular hangout took interest in me. Even though he said he would like to fuck me, I don’t think it will ever come to that, but it’s nice to dream.

So there you have it. In 2016 we experiences some lovely things, but I am sure 2017 is going to be even better!

I wish for all of you that 2017 brings you happiness, good health, peace and most of all… lots of sex!