“We have a beautiful relationship,” he said. “We’re not getting married at this point because we understand each other as friends, the right way. There are certain things she needs to do for herself, and there are certain things I need to do.”

The author proposed to the singer in her hometown of Houston earlier this year, and the two were seemingly on their way to living in wedded bliss.

Welp. Only time will tell if this couple will remain friends or reconcile, but we love that they're ending things on a positive note.

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