Defying Style Rules Over 60: Visible Monday

I just told a friend on Instagram that I’m no longer reading articles about “what not to wear over (age here)“. As midlife and older women, we’ve earned the right to dress as we wish, sans “rules” written by 29 year-olds. In fact, my style sense has only flourished after age 50, as I now know myself, and dress authentically.

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I’ve seen “no graphic tees” on lots of those lists of rules. Ha! They’re one of my most-loved pieces, to add personality and interest to outfits. My “petit chien” sweater (sim) is one of my favorites, and my 46 year-old kid sister always wants to borrow it. A ruffled and checked skirt (sim) is another fun piece.

I added a patterned Trina Turk blazer (thrifted, sim), because it might get down to 65 degrees today (don’t hate! Remember us in Florida when our humidity is 120%). Steve Madden Troopa boots keep the look casual and offbeat.

Now, let’s see what’s in your closet, Visible Women.

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Patti, such cool looks and the attitude!!! 🙂 I just came across an article a couple of weeks ago written, by a 30-something- at best (!) talking about where older women should go shopping. I was like ***???? This is certainly a topic I am going to elaborate on…xxxx Have a lovely week. Hope things are going well at the Atlantic…Sabina

I’m sick of rules. But they are not only written by young women – there are lots of women over 40 too who emphasize these rules, hard as it is to believe. What’s wrong with inclusiveness? I adore your graphic T. I have some faves too, including one by Suzanne Carillo, “Dressed to Piss You Off.” Hahaha!!

I don’t bother with that list either! I say wear what makes you happy! Love that skirt, so perfect for the coming Spring too! That tee is adorable! I would love to find a doggie sweater or tee myself. The mix of patterns is so cool too! You are so right about knowing your style a bit better as you get older too!
Have a great week!
jess xxhttp://www.elegantlydressedandstylish.com

I agree! The lists are a total waste of time to write and read! I also love graphic tees but am having a hard time finding just the right ones! Someone suggested I try out a good thrift store, so wish me luck!

Amen! I try so hard NOT to click on those articles, because they just get me so mad every time I read them. What also gets me mad is when other female bloggers use the phrase “age appropriate”. I just want to SCREAM every time I see that phrase. That phrase originally was meant for children (deciding on books, toys, movies) or appropriate clothing for young girls (making sure they weren’t dressing in clothes meant for someone over 18) and somehow it got twisted and turned to shame older women. It makes me furious. Keep wearing your graphic tees girl!

I love this outfit, Patti! I only recently have started wearing graphic tees…in my 40’s. I never much liked them in my younger days! And I can’t believe they are still publishing articles about what women can and can’t or should and shouldn’t wear at any age. I have no commentary on that topic except it is just so silly!

I love graphic tees and my favorite rule when it’s about dressing is…no rules! Of course, keeping up a good taste is required but having fun is essential! Looking fabulous dear Patti. Thanks for the linkup

Could not agree more my friend…on both the sentiment and the graphic tees. I love how I dress now more than ever and my graphic tee collection is, shall we say, extensive…lol!
Debbiehttp://www.fashionfairydust.com

Patti, I just LOVE the pattern play here! Great skirt and blazer. And that cute sweater! I have a sweater which says Le Meow 🙂 – I must find it… And I couldn’t agree more. Rules are out the window – life is an organic thing, and so is art!

No rules! That’s what I love about us! We wear what makes us happy! I only have a few graphic tees, but I love them. Your skirt is beautiful. I bought a similar one online but it’s too small. Might have to sell it at consignment shop, I don’t know anyone smaller than me. 🙁

No graphic T’s? That’s just crazy! I have a couple by a young KC designer that i love and wear a lot. Know one has ever been able to tell me what to wear and i doubt that that will likely change now that I’m in my 60s.