We asked Karley to give us the deets on this golden rendezvous, and she was happy to spill. She's really the kind of online dater everyone hopes to come across while trawling the wasteland: open minded, friendly to the point of bubbly, and willing to fly across the Atlantic Ocean. Unfortunately, you're probably a little tame for Slutever's taste:

Sissy Sarah is a 54 year old cross-dresser from London. I met him on the internet, where I meet all my friends. About a year ago, I got an email from him explaining that he has a secret fetish for dressing up in womens clothing. So like baby doll nighties, lingerie, the occasional flirty chiffon skirt, etc. He told me that whenever he's alone he transforms into his alter ego, Sissy Sarah, and that apart from his late wife, he has barely told anyone about kinky obsession. However he regularly fantasizes about being discovered and publicly humiliated. ("Sissy", in the world of BDSM, is a male submissive who is subject to forced feminization for the purpose of erotic humiliation.) Sarah's wife died about five years ago, and many of the vintage dresses that Sarah saunters about the house in once belonged to her.

Another thing Sarah confessed to me was that he has a fetish for drinking pee. In one of his emails he wrote, "One fantasy of mine is to be out to dinner with a beautiful woman. We are both wearing pretty dresses, and we have a wine glass each. Her glass contains wine, but mine contains her pee. Yum!"

Meeting internet friends in real life, especially after you know so many intimate details about them, can be sort of awkward. Like I'd seen about 30 pictures of Sarah's erection, in about 30 different outfits, before we'd ever met, ya know? So it felt strange saying stuff like, "Hello, nice to meet you." Still, our meeting turned out to be really fashion forward, enlightening and glamorous! Also, I got a chance to make my first ever pee cocktail! (Tip: pee cocktails are best served warm and with a splash of lemon!)

P.S. After the episode aired online, Sarah emailed me a list of all of his email contacts, presumably because he wants to revel in the humiliation that would ensue if I sent all of them a link to the show. Should I do it??