have
written of their experiences with otherworldly lovers, and the accounts continue to this day and number in their
many thousands.

Although
more popular with women than men, paranormal fiction that involves love stories containing such elements as
vampirism, demon lovers, ghosts, reincarnation, aliens and time travel constitute some of the hottest fiction on
the market today, according to the millions of people who apparently can't get enough of it.

Fay Fantasies

Many
lonely folk have fantasized about secret romances that take place quite literally out of this world, while at
the same time believing it to be an impossibility. But is
it?

No, it
isn't.
Not at all!

This third
dimension that we live in is just one of many and it happens to be the very densest.

Wherever
there is life on other planes there exists the possibility for relationships, romance and yes, even sexual
activities.

Astral sex
is very familiar to those who practice sex-magic in the murkier lower-quarters of the astral planes, but few
people today realise that it's a reality rather than a Hollywood fantasy.

But there
are ways to have real, unselfish, mutually satisfying two-way relationships with people who are not presently in
embodiment.

Humans
have had faerie lovers for centuries and reaped rich

rewards -
and heartaches - from consorting with them.

This tradition is well-established, and
there have always been certain families around the world which can properly claim descent from the fay fruit of
these Otherworldly alliances.

Wotta
Tripp is more than willing to spill the golden sex beans so zealously guarded by churches and occult groups up
to the present day. It is past time for the truth about dream lovers and a lot more besides.

Earthly Promises and
Agreements

Sometimes
you can discover that your Earthly lover and you have a special agreement that you didn't know anything
about.

You
agreed to be honest and monogamous, but your significant other apparently agreed to be a cheating, lying
quisling while you weren't paying attention. What a surprise!

You may be
stuck, lonely and disappointed, but people find

love in
the strangest places, and you can too.

Whether
star-crossed or double-crossed, you can change your romantic destiny and find love in the astral world.

An astral
lover may be just what you need to assuage your loneliness and help you to reach new heights of exquisite
passion. Sweet revenge!

But if you
are in a relationship with someone else and you have made a promise to remain monogamous and honest then you
would be compromising this vow.

If you
feel the need to seek romance and sex outside your marriage, then perhaps you should talk to your partner and
get counselling together instead.

Trying to
explain later on that your relationship faltered and failed because rather than deal with existing problems you
chose instead to initiate an affair with a spirit on the astral plains will be very awkward.

You might
find yourself confronting a doctor or even a family intervention, and you would never live it down. It would
provide them with fodder and ammunition for a very long time to come.

Can I get One, then, Wotta?

We are not
discussing a pet here. But yes, you can. Anyone can.

You are
perfectly entitled to pursue happiness in other worlds and take lovers there as well. You may feel that there
are many reasons why you wouldn't be desirable to others.

But things
are very different in the astral worlds, as you will discover.

What About the Fact I'm Almost 82
Years Old?

You may
feel all wrinkly and saggy, and in fact you are. Most people are after a few years on this planet. It doesn't
matter at all! In the astral you are a svelte younger person and most likely look as if you are an exceptionally
healthy 30-35 years old.

You are free to have sex like a healthy younger person without having to worry about
arthritic or prosthetic limbs, wrinkles, rapid balding, weight gain or loss, stuttering, shocking deformities
or nasty infectious diseases.

Every
person exploring the astral realms feels young and consequently
they feel the urge to be sexually active again. Sex is not something just experienced on Earth. It exists
throughout all dimensions, but in slightly differing forms depending on the location and
environment.

This is
because sex is actually an ecstatic energy exchange between living entities. An astral sexual experience is
invariably better than a physical one. The sexual experiences we have in our physical bodies is a pale shadow of
those we encounter when in other dimensions.

In the
astral planes you are attractive and young again, with sparkling eyes and an abundance of vital energy. This is
the way people will appear to you when you are there unless for some reason they choose to look different.

The
substance of the astral realms has plasticity and is malleable. You can rearrange it with your thoughts if you
so desire, and this includes your own appearance.

Your
self-awareness, which is actually more complete when you are in your astral body, will automatically perfectly
shape the projected astral body.

I'm Gay, Wotta Tripp - Can I Find
Astral Love?

You most
certainly can. There are as many sexual variations in the astral as there are here, more in fact, although it is
true that certain of them are confined to the lower-astral areas, but these do not include gay and lesbian
relationships which are completely accepted and normal in this environment, as they should be.

Your true
inner sexual identity will reflect in the type of body you choose to be in. This is the nature of mind and its
action on the fluidity of the astral plane.

Hidden Dangers

"How do I know my lover won't be
dangerous, Dame Wotta Tripp?"I hear you all asking. It's a little
irritating when several people ask this in their heads at the same time, for it sets up an echo in mine. Still,
it can't be helped, and Wotta understands people's concerns.

Even after
knowing somebody in a physical body, such as a friend or neighbour of many decades, thousands of us are shocked
each

and every
year to discover we have been having regular dealings with a serial killer, kidnapper, molester or even a
Wal-Mart security guard.

All of
these people are dangerous in one way or another.

Consider
the hidden perils of amorous encounters in today's world. Even if you sleep with somebody who isn't one of the
aforementioned nuisances, there is still the danger of contracting one or more STD's, or becoming with some sort
of child.

A wisely
selected astral lover could rarely be responsible for that amount of damage. You are comparatively very
safe.

The Spirit
Spouse

Across the
world and throughout our sojourn on this fair planet certain people, often in a shamanic capacity, have claimed
to have a spirit spouse who also frequently takes on the role of a spirit helper.

Assessing
all of this information, the following characteristics are attributed to the spirit lover:

·They are familiar to - and with - people
in every country.

·They are generally
nocturnal.

·They enter into a type of 'marriage'
with the humans they desire.

·They are capable of having sex with a
human, sometimes even when the person is in their physical
body.

·They can enter the dream-world of a
lover for sexual encounters.

·They can have sex with a lover who is
experiencing an OBE (Out of Body Experience) in the astral.

·They are helpful to their human lover
and frequently bring 'good luck' with them.

·There are a variety of separate entities
who have been credited with the ability to precipitate a sexual encounter with a human being, including but not
limited to Faeries, Djinn, demons and familiar spirits, which are all capable of shape-shifting.

·The spirit spouse can be a wild spirit
indeed - beware!

There are
many combinations of sexual congress available, some more desirable for humans than others. Here are some of
them:

·Human in physical body + human in
physical body

·Human in astral/dream body + dream
character/construct

·Human in astral/dream body + human in
astral/dream body

·Human in astral/dream body +demons/lower
vibrational entities

·Human in astral/dream body + members of
the Faery underworld and Djinn

·Human in astral/dream body + human in
physical body & vice versa

·Human in physical body + members of the
Faery underworld and Djinn

·Humans in physical body +demons/lower
vibrational entities

·Humans in physical body +
aliens/extraterrestrials

·Human Soul
+Divine Love/ Ecstatic
Bliss

It's
extremely busy out there. Dame Wotta

Tripp
cautions that it is wise to limit your sexual encounters to those that take place with other human beings,
whether on Earth or in the astral, except of course, encounters with Divine Love, which are beyond sexual, being
connected to Universal Love-Bliss.

Some of
the combinations above are parasitic in nature and consequently dangerous despite the temporary ecstasy they are
capable of generating.

Also be
aware that offspring can result from some of these combinations. Humans are genetically compatible with a
surprising number of unknown or little-known species.

Deviant Entities

Some
spirits can be crafty and extremely devious. An example is the Ecuadorian dwarf known as the Tintin. This
character favours damsels with long, plentiful hair and in order to try and seduce them he plays a guitar
outside the chosen lady's window at night.

Naturally
some of these women for their sanity's sake give in to his advances in the hopes of stopping him from making a
perfectly dreadful racket all night long.

Naked Chickens

There are
even amorous spirits who reportedly take the form of featherless chickens, but Dame Wotta Tripp has to wonder
how many women are attracted to bald chickens when they aren't actually preparing them for supper in the
kitchen, and she fails to see how this ploy would work on very many of them, unless these denuded chickens also
happen to play the bagpipes all through the night.

Still
other spirits are supposed to exude a strange poison through their skin that will make any woman unlucky enough
to encounter them not only heavily attracted, but also addicted to them, so that in the end they all
invariably pine away and die of broken hearts.

It is true
that some people of a more neurotic nature need to get new and engrossing hobbies and interests that will leave
them with little time left for such toxic dalliances.

Is my Lover A Demon, Wotta
Tripp?

Goodness
gracious, I should hope not! It's highly unlikely, unless you've been up to something very distasteful or have
recently placed a personal advert in entirely the wrong place.

But it
could much more easily be a djinn! Does this amorous invisible
creature talk loudly to you all night? Does it whistle a lot? Do you hear the sounds of heavy, taxed breathing
along with things being thrown around the room?

If this
isn't being caused by your drunken or bad-tempered spouse, it may well be a frustrated djinn that has grown
fractious and tired of waiting for its affections to be returned.

They have
been known to become overly affectionate with humans, and can consequently be difficult to dislodge. You will
find a djinn-removal service offered in the'Spells & Magical
Services'section of this website.

My Church Won't Like
It

Dame Wotta
Tripp sincerely hopes that you won't be inviting your church, or church representative, to join you in your
saucy frolics.

But don't
worry, because this means that they will never know if they would have liked it or not.

The
Catholic church, just for one instance, always strenuously denied the possibility of otherworldly relationships
while at the very same time issuing harsh warnings against succubi and incubi, the amorous roaming spirits said
to seduce Earthly men and women in the night.

One cannot
have it both ways and still be taken seriously.

Your Silver Cord

Your
astral (or subtle) body is connected to your physical body by something known as 'the silver
cord'. This vibrant cord remains connected to you for the
entirety of your physical life.

At the
point of physical death it is severed, and your consciousness transfers completely to your subtle bodies, one of
which is the astral body.

Through
your astral body you can experience and do things that are impossible when in the physical, such as flying,
breathing underwater, time traveling and teleporting.

You do not
have to wait until you are dead to experience all of this. Each night as you sleep your consciousness transfers
to your astral body, and off you all go, like firefly's swarming.

You might
as well learn to do this consciously and take control of all of your life properly before you kick the
Earthly bucket. You were built to be multidimensional.

Until you
do fall heavily from your perch with a resounding thud you will be firmly connected, your astral and your
physical bodies one to another, by the aforementioned silver cord.

This attachment is a pulsating,
silvery cord created of an energetic etheric material. If you were a computer (which you are, partly, in a
way) then your silver cord would be your internet cable, your hook-up to otherworldly hook-ups, and so much
more.

This cord
is elastic in quality, allowing you to travel virtually anywhere when out of your body. It cannot be accidently
or deliberately severed. You will not find yourself either dead, unable to get back in your body or with a
severed cord.

Information is continually relayed
back and forth along this cord, and while you are sleeping this information certainly does influence your
dreams.

It's
important to remember that your dreams are rarely completely accurate renditions of your experiences as they are
first filtered by your subconscious and then re-written, like the evening news.

Out-of-This World Romance

Before
beginning a sexual relationship you should get to know your potential lover and take the time to for a proper
romance, allowing feelings of affection to bloom naturally. Who knows, it could lead to a great
love.

It's
perfectly possible to carry out a genuine courtship with a lover from another world.

If you
take the time to create a mutually fulfilling relationship then your subsequent sexual experiences will be
intense and sublime - about a dozen times more so than when you are
with a physical lover.

It will be
deliciously well worth your effort. You will experience a true melding of mind, body and spirit followed by an
oceanic peace and a calm fulfillment.

Out-of-This World
Sex

Now we
have got all of that out of the way, we will move on and discuss some of the processes involved in astral
sex.

If you
want to engage in astral sex, first you must understand that you will ultimately be experiencing it as an energy
exchange between chakras that results in full-body orgasmic spasms.

When a
sexual experience of this nature is initiated the base chakras are powerfully drawn together as if by
super-magnets, and a feed-back loop is formed.

Depending
on whether you are taking the female or male lead role in the encounter one of two things is likely to
happen:

1.A female initiator will find a large
tube, similar to a vagina, extruding energetically from her body. It will then completely engulf her lover. This
initiates a body-wide experience of warm and throbbing eroticism unlike anything felt on Earth. This sensational
energy causes a full-body orgasm with energy pulsations engaging each chakra.

2.A male initiator will discover he is
growing the kind of frightfully large penile extension that is bragged about on Earth yet remains an urban legend.
He will then enter his partners body, flowing like warm treacle to completely fill it. This massive penis can
strike from a distance. Orgasm takes place in the same way described in item1.

The
interesting thing is that an orgasm experienced in the astral can initiate an orgasm in the physical body,
transmitted via the silver cord and resulting in dampened dreams.

Although
the microcosm and macrocosm do tend to mirror each other, Wotta Tripp feels that the idea amongst some thinkers
that sexual conditions in the astral planes lend credence to the Big Bang theory is misleading and
incorrect.

Things to Watch Out
For

If you do
conduct your affair in the astral there are a few points listed below that you should probably bear in
mind regarding specific situations :

·There are astral constructs littered all
over the place. These are facsimiles of people which are created mentally, sometimes for practice and sometimes to
send off and do little jobs. Wotta Tripp will say no more. They are not alive. Try not to have sex with
them.

·Experiencing an orgasm while you are in
your astral body will cut your journey short and you will return very suddenly to your physical body and probably
wake up as well.

·Until you learn how to control your
energy in the astral you run the risk of impinging upon others. This can
lead to sex by accident.

Sex by Accident

This
sounds most strange and yet it happens all the time with 'beginners'. How silly we are until we have 'found' our
astral legs!

If you
fail to control your sexual impulses and fantasies you will soon see that your thoughts are largely telepathic
and that they affect and impinge on those around you very much.

The astral
is an extremely sensitive environment on which to impress your thoughts. If you are in a crowded spot you might
find yourself moving right through other people.

If you are
in an aroused state when you take this action, by bringing your erotically charged chakras into contact with
someone else's you can initiate a sexual encounter that can be consummated in seconds, resulting in involuntary
orgasm for both parties.

This is
not polite and not only that, it can cause quite a shock to the two (or more) entities involved. Even though
nobody gets hurt, or usually even remembers, you should control your thoughts, leave plenty of room around you
and navigate politely without indulging in personal sexual assessments of people.

Don't mix
up extremely powerful energies when you have no idea how to control them.

The Emotional Benefits of an
Otherworldly Affair

It's
gratifying to know that you can have a sincere and loving life-time relationship with someone in which you will
never have to pick up dirty clothes, deal with the toothpaste lid being left off , help drunks to bed or slap
each other silly in senseless Earthly arguments.

Your
astral lover could be someone that you already know, perhaps have even had a relationship with in a past life.
Love, romance and alliances do sometimes remain strong from life to life, and in-between them as
well.

Astral Sex Can Interfere with Other
Activities

If you
indulge in a lot of astral sex with little control or restraint, or if you attempt to molest people, it will
eventually take its toll on you.

A lot
depends on your motives and intentions towards others. If your selfish or intrusive behaviour marks you as an
old-fashioned sex maniac, then you can expect that as your personal rate of vibration drops accordingly you will
no longer be able to access the - shall we say - nicer
realms.

The thing
is, you will find that you have difficulty if you do not manage to control your sexual urges, which are a lot
stronger in the astral worlds.

However
attractive slumming it in the lower astral seems to be at first, after a while Wotta Tripp assures you that you
will end up being sorry in oh-so-many ways.

There are
astral vampires, shape-shifting monsters and all manner of strange beasties in the murky areas. You won't want
to lure any of them home with you.

You should
also understand that consummating a sexual act in the astral will propel you back into your physical body,
ending your out-of-body projection and making sure there is no time for romance or anything
else.

As you
arrive back, your physical body could well be having an orgasmic experience also, as the astral one is
transmitted back to you along the silver cord, which by now probably has a little red light flashing on
it.

But
remember, the idea is to acquire a lover, not to go crazy having casual sex all over the astral
planes.

Sexual
energy is supposed to be shared in a caring and honest way, releasing transformative and healing energies that
benefit all parties.

This is a
little bit different from finding an Earthly lover and you can't really place an advert with an Earth dating
agency, but there are other ways of advertising your desires.

There have
always been points of contact between embodied humans and Otherworldly beings, and millions of interactions and
exchanges have occurred over many thousands of years.

The good
news is, you don't necessarily have to be able to astral project to get an Otherworldly paramour.

All the
same, pursuing the ability of astral projection can only aid you in your efforts.

Lucid
dreaming, however, is something you will need to learn. It can only
enhance your romantic aspirations, as well asconsiderably enlarging the playing
field for you, as it were.

It's
surprisingly easy to dream lucidly once you know what to do, and it will genuinely give you two worlds to live
in instead of just one. Here are some tips to help you to get started:

·Research the subject of lucid dreaming
thoroughly for yourself. There are many sources of information online and numerous books on the
subject.

·Determine to learn how to dream lucidly
as soon as possible. Consider learning to astral project as well.

·Write down your expectations regarding
an Otherworldly liaison to clarify things in your mind. Also write down what you believe you have to give. What things are you looking for in a lover? This will be revealing, because
the things you are seeking are really a reflection of your innermost
self.

·Keep a journal of your dreams and sexual
experiences so that you can begin to understand yourself better. The word 'journal' is related to the word 'journey'. Keeping a written record in your own handwriting will help to reveal
and clarify all types of sexual issues as you travel orgasmically along on the journey that is your
life.

Dame Wotta
Tripp will now give you certain information that will prove useful in drawing a dream lover into your life!

Be
respectful when you think of the type of dream-lover you would like to meet, and continue to be so later when
you finally interact with a dream lover in reality.

Watch for
a response coming through a dream. If you see the face of your lover-to-be, you will know who to visualize when
you want to initialize proper contact.

Pendulum Contact

This is a
simple and safe way to contact potential partners who are presently residing in other-dimensional
realities.

Anybody
can learn how to use a pendulum to their advantage. Although some people are particularly gifted in its use, it
can be taught to people of any age. There are many good books and articles on the subject, with plenty of free
information available on the internet.

A pendulum
is merely a weighted, evenly balanced object that is suspended from a chain so that it can swing freely.
Purchase a nice pendulum, or make one yourself using found objects.

Research
online and learn the simple procedures for eliciting 'yes/no' and 'I don't know' responses to guide you to your
future lover.

A pendulum
can also be used with home-made charts. Add dowsing to your skills and get practicing. Be
creative.

Visualization

One of the
most important skills on any persons list of accomplishments is the ability to conceive, plan and visualize what
you want to get out of your life, and then set about creating it.

Picture
yourself enjoying time with a dream lover. It's fine if you visualize qualities and attributes which you desire.
The plan is to draw those things into your life by acting and feeling as if you already have
them.

This
should be a relaxed exercise. Treat it like a game (which at its most basic level it is), and do it without
feeling any anxiety or deep need, because these energies will serve to push what you want away from you,
quantumly speaking.

Every
night before you fall asleep, visualize your happy relationship with your dream lover. Try to imagine and make
real the feelings of joy, love, ecstasy, sexual fulfillment and companionship that will be yours in the exciting
new relationship that could be winging its way towards you, maybe at this very moment, as you open yourself up
to the idea of brand new love possibilities.

Dream Love
Letter Spell

Sit down
at a table or desk with some writing paper before you. Make it a nice quality of paper if you can. Use your
finest handwriting and a pen with wet, colored ink.

Felt pens
are inexpensive and good for this task, and you should use pink, green, red or purple ink. A combination of
these colours is also fine.

Begin your
letter:

"Dear Dream Lover,

I do not know you yet, but I have
prepared a place for you in my inner heart. I welcome you into my life."

Continue
writing for as long as you please, as though you were contacting someone that you're really excited to meet and
get to know. Explain what it is that you are seeking and specify the type of relationship you would like to
have.

After
this, put in the letter anything you want to share. You may write intimate details if you wish to. Share private
thoughts and longings, likes and dislikes, hopes and fears for the future. Put some art work or little drawings
and decorations in it if you feel like it.

Add
whatever your inner feelings guide you to put in your letter, because it is for your future dream
lover.

Anoint
your letter with a little of your favourite

perfume or
aftershave. Sign the letter with your name and seal it with a kiss.

Fold your
letter, place it in a nice envelope and then seal the envelope. Inscribe upon the envelope'My Dream
Lover'.

Place the
finished letter somewhere that is dark, safe and clean and keep your letter until the night before the next full
moon.

Meanwhile,
gather the following items:

·1 light grey or silver
candle.

·1 violet or purple
candle.

·1 pink or green candle (do not use red).

·A sharp tool for inscribing the candles
with.

·Rose or gardenia
incense.

·Gardenia oil.

·Fresh flowers, if
desired.

·A safe, clean container for burning
paper in & a lighter.

·A good-sized piece of paper or card
with the image of a large heart on it in red. You can make it yourself.

Next,
select a table or other flat surface with plenty of room. Make sure it's clean and has nothing else on it. If
you have a pink or green cloth you can put it on the table.

Take your
three candles and inscribe them in the following ways with your sharp tool:

·Silver/grey - Link (inscribe your name here) to the astral plains

·Violet/purple - My Intent

·Green/pink - My Dream Lover

Set up the
following items, facing to the west:

Place the paper with the heart on it in the middle of the table. Make sure you have 3
candleholders for your candles, preferably all the same.

Have your
lighter and burning container out ready. Put your letter to your future Dream Lover on the table next to it. Set
up your incense in a safe holder on the table, off to one side.

If you
want to you can have a plant or vase of fresh flowers on the table away from the candle area, but they should
plants that
are connected with love. You are always safe with roses.

Anoint
your 3 candles from the top down with the gardenia oil.

Now place
your three candles in holders around the heart in the following way: At the bottom of the heart, place the grey
or silver candle. At the top, on the left side, place the green or pink candle. At the top, on the right, place
the violet or purple candle.

Light your
incense first. Next, light your candles in turn, reciting the following rhymes as you do so:

·Silver/grey - "Link me to the astral sea, as you burn so
must it be."