5 Simple Tips for Mind-Blowing Sex!

We all want to have amazing and mind-blowing sex pretty much every day. In fact, if you gave us the option we’d be having it at every opportunity that we could… but there are a lot of people out there completely in the dark about the kind of things that you need to do in bed to have the best sex ever.

Here on Escort Norway we take a look at the five simple tips and tricks that you need to know in order to have some of the best sex of your life, without having to pull out the Kama Sutra to do it!

Don’t judge!

When someone tells us about a kinky fantasy they have in the bedroom it can be very easy to judge. How many of us have heard someone talk about trying watersports in bed and we’ve immediately jumped in with the jokes about jet skiing and surfing because we don’t like the idea of watersports in the first place? I bet we have all done it as least once.

The problem is that, by judging so quickly, we aren’t letting ourselves be open to new experiences in the bedroom, and so we will be doomed to have the same boring sex that we always do for the rest of our sex lives.

The character of Samantha Jones on Sex and the City said it best when she referred to herself as a “trysexual”, stating that she will “try anything once”, and if you want to have the kind of hot, passionate, steamy sex that you have always dreamed of, you need to start opening yourself up to being more adventurous in bed and stop judging so readily.

You might not realise it, but your reaction when your partner tells you about something they want to try that isn’t your cup of tea will put them off. In fact, it can completely turn them off sex, so you need to work on being more understanding. We aren’t telling you to get ready to be shit on, just that you should at least talk to your partner about their kinky fantasy and see if there is a part of it that you would love to try out first. You might just find yourself having the time of your life!

Stop being selfish

We tend to have sex for one big reason, and that is to feel the intense orgasm as it happens. That means that, when it comes to sex, we get so focused on our own orgasm that we tend to lose sight of the fact that our partner might not be enjoying it as much.

That can be especially true for men, as a lot of women feel that they need to fake their orgasms, instead of actually just enjoying the moment. So instead of being selfish, we need to start thinking about the other person.

You might think that this is just a way to give them the kind of amazing sex that you were hoping to enjoy yourself, but it actually works both ways. By giving your partner amazing and mind-blowing orgasms, you are much more likely to get the same in return.

Find out what your partner’s favourite part of sex is, whether it is the foreplay, her on top, or you taking her hard from behind… then do it! Do it until they beg you to stop and their whole body is shaking in orgasm, and after a small break they will give you one of the most intense orgasms you have ever had.

Try to be creative

Sex is a lot of fun, but after a while we tend to get lazy and fall into a routine. If we are fucking the same person over and over again, or even the same people, we start to learn what works and tend to stick to that, and only that. This can make sex very boring and predictable, and not really that fun!

If you want to have mind-blowing sex, you need to get creative. By that we don’t mean you have to fold the bed covers into a swan before you fuck, but that you need to start thinking of little changes and twists you can put on the things that you like doing.

Love nothing more than eating out her sweet and wet pussy? Don’t do it lying on the bed. Instead, get her against the wall or in the shower and go to work there. Let her run her hands through your hair as you do it and listen to her moans. A change as simply as that really can make a huge difference to your sex life.

The spur of the moment

At some point or another, when you’re in bed, you might have the temptation to do something different. You might be inspired by a porn video you watch, or you might be watching her ass as you fuck her from behind and want nothing more than to squeeze it.

Spur of the moment and spontaneous sex can really be some of the best. Don’t wait until you are both in bed at right and the light is off before you fuck. Instead, surprise her when you first walk in. Kiss her passionately against the wall, making it clear exactly what you are hoping for.

For the best spontaneous sex, ignore the bed. In fact, ban yourselves from even going near the bed! Try to find somewhere new to fuck, even if it just ends up being the sofa.

You might have tried something in bed previously that you both liked, such as spanking, but haven’t done it for a while. If they urge to do it takes you, try it out. Start out gently and lightly to see if they want it, and as they moan and push against you take things up a notch.

Talk about it

The easiest way to guarantee amazing sex is actually one of the hardest things to do, and that is to simply talk about it. When it comes to gossiping about sex we are more than happy to do it, but when we find ourselves in the bedroom with our partner asking if it was good for us, we tend to clam up.

It isn’t an intentional thing, but talking about what we like and dislike in the bedroom is tough. It is as though we are criticising them for trying, which is why we often need to be careful about the way we give feedback. Instead of saying that you don’t like something, tell them what you do like. If they get a little too toothy in a blowjob, tell them that they way their lips feel running all over your cock turns you on. They’ll be a little more cautious in the future.

However, this also works both ways. Instead of taking it personally if she tells you she doesn’t like the way you run your tongue on her clit, ask what she’d like you to do instead. Get her to describe in detail her ultimate fantasy, and then work to fulfil it.

Hopefully these simply tips and tricks are enough to change the way you have sex and make it even better. You might even want to check out the other Escort Norway blogs and see what advice you can find there. Let us know what you think of our tips in the box below, or see what others have to say on the Escort Norway forum.

Lara Mills is a writer who has four years of sex industry expertise behind her. Since she entered the adult industry, she has worked on the Escort Advertising forums, before moving into her current role three years ago.

Since then she has gained a fine reputation with her blogs on sex advice, sexual health and amusing news stories from around the globe. She is also a campaigner for the rights of sex workers from all over the world.

In her spare time, Lara keeps herself active by going running, and is something of a film buff. She also loves to go travelling.