“On one hand, I wish I’d never even met him. On the other hand, how do you know? He’s been a part of our lives. It’s just a big question mark. You don’t know. Our lives could have been a lot smoother, that’s for sure. Honestly, when I heard he was having a rough time with everything, there was a sliver of compassion, which was quickly replaced with, ‘Nah, he tried to destroy me and my family. I don’t feel sorry for him.’ ”