He's trying to care for you. You have two choices:
Let him care for you now... ask him for help and support in quitting.
OR
Let him care for you as a terminal cancer patient.. by making sure you take your morphine pills, changing your catheter bag, helping you sit on a toilet/cleaning your soiled underwear, draining your lung tubes (pretty cool. they put a little tube in to drain fluid build up, so you can live a couple extra months!)..The morphine fucks you up so bad you likely won't recognize your husband who's sacrificing his well-being to take care of you in your final months...... Frankly that's not even the worst of it. At that point, you still have a few months to 'live'.... OH and as an added 'middle finger' to the man you 'love', you get to tack him with hundreds of thousands of dollars in medical bills that will linger LONG after you're gone.

Can I just say that, even though I agree with everyone that smoking is a very dirty habit, we all voluntarily intake toxins on some level. If someone meddled with your alcohol, for instance, I'm sure you'll be quick to say something about it.
Also, yes, smoking increases the chances of cancer; that doesn't mean all smokers are destined to become cancer patients. Other things increase the risks of cancer as well; hair dyes, certain foods, some contraceptives, sunlight, obesity, even cell phones- but I'm sure most of you guys wouldn't be quick to avoid those things.

But it takes many more years for u to get any kind of medical conditions from those, u wud have to be doing those things many times a day (like smoking ciggarettes) in order to get cancer or other medical conditions ect....

Almost ALL foods lead to cancer It's the processed, canned, and otherwise tampered-with foods that lead to the over-growth of cells. That's why cases of cancer Skyrocketed in different communities around the world once they were introduced to trade. Organic is really important

139, I hate when people reference other things that have been shown to have a minor cancer risk as a justification for smoking. For starters, the majority of the things you mention either have a higher function or actually have a purpose in our lives. Smoking has none. There is no benefit from smoking.
Also, people DO mess with your alcohol. If you are drinking to excess it is not unheard of for people to stage interventions. It's also common for people to try to stop their alcoholic relatives and friends from killing themselves. Apparently doing the same thing to a smoker is "rude" and "none of their business".

219, You're really just taking a half truth and exaggerating it to further your point. It's really not like you're saying at all, and organic comes with its own issues.

I think what lies in the husband's mind here is twofold; he's suggesting that 1) you don't give enough blowjobs and 2) you smoke way too much. Hence he may as well get a 'blowjob' or two out of the countless cigarettes the OP smokes.

177, When people feel they have a right to do something they will find a way of doing it illegally. Smokers are of the opinion that it is their right to smoke, and I'd be interested to see how many would quit if it became illegal. I'm guessing very few.