I almost forgot about this article. I remember I read it about a year ago and it popped back up in my head when I was online. (Okay, I was supposed be writing a paper and I was procrastinating.)

“We are not the royal family… we don’t need an heir and a spare.”

She will have cousins and friends from daycare and school without the drama, jealousy and nonesense that comes with that. I really appreciate other families that have more than one child and respect their decisions. It has to work for you.