I hate when people say they're going to pray on it or tell me to pray on it when we're discussing problems. Real world solution or don't talk to me. And they wonder why they're in the same bullsh*t theyve been in forever. If it's a euphemism for sleeping on it/analyzing/reasoning/thinking about it then just say that.

I've been known to dabble in weave from time to time...but the women in the weave section don't see anything disconcerting about depending on weaves from day to day? And weave that isn't their natural texture, furthermore? None of them thinks it's odd that a whole race of women pretty much depends on weave.

I've been known to dabble in weave from time to time...but the women in the weave section don't see anything disconcerting about depending on weaves from day to day? And weave that isn't their natural texture, furthermore? None of them thinks it's odd that a whole race of women pretty much depends on weave.

I sort of don't but I have edges and hair once the weave is removed I will just put my hair in a bun so I don't know honestly..shrugs shoulders.

In a non shade way, is it really any different than natural hair ladies who plot and plan ordering their hair arsenal online because they ONLY like certain products that cannot be purchased in a brick and mortar store? Then after applying all their lotion and organic oil to do their twistout they spend 1 hour in the am applying their FACE with contouring, fake brows, lashes, foundation, and Lort please do not have on pepto bismal pink lipstick?

I've been known to dabble in weave from time to time...but the women in the weave section don't see anything disconcerting about depending on weaves from day to day? And weave that isn't their natural texture, furthermore? None of them thinks it's odd that a whole race of women pretty much depends on weave.

I sort of don't but I have edges and hair once the weave is removed I will just put my hair in a bun so I don't know honestly..shrugs shoulders.

In a non shade way, is it really any different than natural hair ladies who plot and plan ordering their hair arsenal online because they ONLY like certain products that cannot be purchased in a brick and mortar store? Then after applying all their lotion and organic oil to do their twistout they spend 1 hour in the am applying their FACE with contouring, fake brows, lashes, foundation, and Lort please do not have on pepto bismal pink lipstick?

I think being dependent on anything is unhealthy.

The natural vs. relaxed debate makes my soul anxious. Like not just me, my sooouuulll. Naturals get SO mad and will literally try to convert you hard as a Jahovahs witness. Natural hair is BEAUTIFUL and AMAZING! it's just not for me, I'm not passionate about it, so why can't that be Okay? Not everything is for everybody, otherwise we'd all look the same. Why you gotta try to make me feel guilty as I rock my GAWJUSS peruvian wave??! K. Rant over

^^^ My heart start beating fast and I look for a exit when I see where the chat is headed. Sometimes your safeword can be PROTECTIVE STYLING but if the force is scrong and they real militant even that won't work.

Lort and if it go to "Dont you love your blackness?? levels I abort mission and run with that other ladies hair swanging in da wind.

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