Gender scan tomorrow

So we have our scan tomorrow to find out how bubs going and what bub is, I am so nervous and feel so bad we already have an amaZing little man and while I would love 2 of him this is our last pregnancy and I really want a girl also

I'm worried I'm going to be disappointed if they say it's a boy and have been telling myself all along its a boy to try and build myself up

Anyone else had this I know regardless and long as it's healthy I will love it just the same but worry I will be a little sad for a while

There's nothing wrong with having a gender preference Vanessa - I think most people do, even though at the end all we really want is a happy healthy baby.

Of course you will love your bub regardless, but if you've got another little boy in there you should absolutely give yourself some time to grieve for the experience of having a daughter if this is your last. A really good suggestion I saw once was to write a letter to the son/daughter you didn't have. It's just a way of getting those feelings out and you don't have to show anyone else.

Regardless of what you find out at the scan tomorrow, it will give you the chance to accept the gender either way and bond with your new son or daughter. I was amazed at just how much more "real" my pregnancy became when I could start saying "she" instead of "it" - although that took a while!

Thanks ladies we definitely wanna know providing bubs lets us we found out with our son and it was so easy to be organised and nice to bond with him and call him by his name will keep you updated tomorrow once we know I think the reason it's gettig to me so much is I have such an amazing relationship with my mum and I'm from pigeon pair lol

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