Re: if a cure came out . . . . .

In fact that was what i was doing, that is, until hair loss came....it ain't a good look to be the ruler of earth and BALD. is it?

yea i wud feel that way too, but the horrid memories of having hair loss will still be there. the ridicule, shame, etc.

how wud one go about forgetting that stuff? it scars you for life

In my case, it would be a new life, a new me, an improved me. I haven't reached the "vietnam experience of a norwood 5" yet but i am heading there, even if I did I think getting all my hair back will make me conquer the world way faster than if it never hit me.

Re: if a cure came out . . . . .

yea i wud feel that way too, but the horrid memories of having hair loss will still be there. the ridicule, shame, etc.

how wud one go about forgetting that stuff? it scars you for life

Well thats a very negative outlook, I'd like to think that after all this I would have a new found appreciation of life, something that non sufferers could'nt have.
We all take many things for granted everyday, we can all walk and see imagine if you were blind or in a wheelchair and got those things back even if you were also bald you would still be the happiest guy on earth.

I think it matters alot more in your 20's, for me the only difference now would be not having to worry about certain situations like the weather ect. And it would be alot easier to not have to use concealers or worry about what other people think of my hair.

*Voice of reason on HLT since 2007*

Originally Posted by CCS

I don't need to marry the woman I'll get HM for that. just need to have fun for a month till she finds out, and have a fast turnover rate if she dumps me. If the piece looks good turnover shouldnt b a issue. Just break contact with her & her friends if she has a bigmouth
it is not your lack of drink, but muscles or face thats the reason. The only reason they'd want you to drink is so you focus on that and dont hit on them I don't even go to partys, at least not till I get more muscle on my arms.

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but i dont see how you ignored girls for 6 or watever years and then were able to get girls after the transplant/concealer

you didn't develop any complexes or social phobias or anything during that time?

Yeah and I've still got them, I do socialise but I'm abit of a loner and I'm fine with it now it does'nt bother me.
Like I said I have no desire to be in a relationship or anything like that but if I had'nt been affected by baldness I would likely have been married in my 20's.
I also wonder if I'd have gotten into working out if I had'nt lost my hair. Also I'd probably have pi55ed alot of money away going out.

I definatley believe that with women the biggest problem is not losing your hair its losing your confidence and as we all know it can alter a persons character making them abit weird, guys on here tend to worry about everything not just hair whereas if the had hair they would probably be able to overlook most of their other issues.
The biggest difference with getting my hair back in terms of women was that I actually started socialising again.
A bald guy who goes out and makes the effort will get more women than a NW1 who sits at home.

I think there are some on here who if they got their hair back would just replace the obbsession with some other 'fault'.

*Voice of reason on HLT since 2007*

Originally Posted by CCS

I don't need to marry the woman I'll get HM for that. just need to have fun for a month till she finds out, and have a fast turnover rate if she dumps me. If the piece looks good turnover shouldnt b a issue. Just break contact with her & her friends if she has a bigmouth
it is not your lack of drink, but muscles or face thats the reason. The only reason they'd want you to drink is so you focus on that and dont hit on them I don't even go to partys, at least not till I get more muscle on my arms.

Re: if a cure came out . . . . .

Originally Posted by s.a.f

I think there are some on here who if they got their hair back would just replace the obbsession with some other 'fault'.

nothing really comes close to mpb. if i got my hair back i'd know better than to obsess over some meaningless little faults. for example i've got a slightly crooked nose, but could i compare it to mpb? no way in hell

Re: if a cure came out . . . . .

Originally Posted by slipy

Originally Posted by s.a.f

I think there are some on here who if they got their hair back would just replace the obbsession with some other 'fault'.

nothing really comes close to mpb. if i got my hair back i'd know better than to obsess over some meaningless little faults. for example i've got a slightly crooked nose, but could i compare it to mpb? no way in hell

Neither would I but look on that other thread, there are plenty of guys who have a list of a dozen 'faults'. It seems there are plenty of CCS' on here.

*Voice of reason on HLT since 2007*

Originally Posted by CCS

I don't need to marry the woman I'll get HM for that. just need to have fun for a month till she finds out, and have a fast turnover rate if she dumps me. If the piece looks good turnover shouldnt b a issue. Just break contact with her & her friends if she has a bigmouth
it is not your lack of drink, but muscles or face thats the reason. The only reason they'd want you to drink is so you focus on that and dont hit on them I don't even go to partys, at least not till I get more muscle on my arms.