To the Black Men That Love Black Women

I know we live in a supposedly post-racial society. Yeah… no, I don’t believe that. I do believe that most relationship issues transcend race and ethnicity. But there is something to be said about black men that still love black women.

Of course, there is a lot to love. There are the natural curves that create a flawless silhouette, the wide range of beautiful browns, the full lips & full hips. Yes, any man can appreciate that from afar. But it takes a special black man to handle the intricacies that come with loving a black woman.

Black women, to say the least, are opinionated. Well, all women are opinionated. However, black women are just a tad more vocal with their opinions. We speak our opinions just a smidge louder than others. We often upgrade our opinions to full fledged facts. We are valiant defenders of our facts, I mean opinions. We own our opinions/facts until the death; not our death of course, but whoever’s death that doesn’t agree with our opinion (figuratively speaking, of course).

Black women are beautifully animated. Yes we could just tell you how we feel in a very stoic, docile manner. We could. However, we feel like you will get our point a lot better if we point our fingers, roll our necks, and wave our hands in the air. Black women are natural pantomimists, except we add words. We can tell any story to our friends and make them feel like they were there when it happened. It is a gift. Unless, we are arguing, then maybe it is a curse. Yes we do curse, I’m assuming more than others, but only for emphasis and sometimes alliteration like an orator. Black women are orators.

Black women are honest. Our sharp tongue cuts the fat and goes straight to the point. There is never a question of where you stand with a black woman- she likes you or she doesn’t. There is little gray area. Don’t ask black women any questions if you are not prepared to handle the candid truth. We are also psychic, often delivering our input prior to you asking. We are helpful like that knowing you would need it at some point.

Black women love hard. We love our men, our children, and our various affiliations. We love so hard as to ensure the intended receiver feels it…even if we are not there. We give endlessly, selflessly to make sure those we love are taken care of to the best of our ability. Our love, so strong, creates a bridge between our abilities and our needs. We take on the needs of the ones we love as our own. Then we take nothing, add our love, to create more than enough, not for ourselves but for them- our loves.

Black women are loyal. We cheer the loudest. We go all out to make sure we properly represent what we are a part of. This is just to ensure everyone knows what we support because we realize that plays a role in who we are. We are so loyal we automatically expect loyalty. It seems like a rational philosophy. We are loyal to you, so be loyal to us. Maybe that is our sole flaw. So we corrected it to maintain our perfection.

Black women hold down black men that love black women down like no other. To the beautiful black men that understand and accept all of this is our saving grace because he understands that black women will infinitely be part of who he is.

8 Responses to To the Black Men That Love Black Women

Chiiiiiiiile (lol) you ain’t never lied. Me & my wife cannot wait to have a ashy, nappy headed Black-ass baby…in all honesty, I’d feel like I was messing up even thinking about using these genes on a white girl. REAL Black people who love themselves love other Black people who feel the same way and there is NO substitute. The functional Black family unit is unstoppable and as soon as “we” realize that, we will begin to pick up the pieces and reconstruct our community as a whole. A beautiful piece…reposted!

*dead* at using your genes on a white girl. I absolutely agree that the black family will be the greatest tool to reconstruct our communities. If we can get back to remembering what a family is supposed to resemble. Thanks for the love Mr. Shaw!

Black women are diamonds which although different colors appear with different intensity… We posses a rare strength….diamonds are interesting. Diamonds are created by years of pressure and extreme heat by made of coal… The pressure and heat create the strongest bond known….diamonds arise by way of earthquake…. Isn’t that amazing the strength of a diamond is created by heat and pressure and
dirt….. And from the heat pressure and dirt create the most beautiful jewel known to man……Black women are diamonds…..strength and beauty……