Dramatis Personae

Mina – Oh, hey, that’s me! Your hostess, narrator, etc. Submissive, queer, femme-y, passionate about lots of subjects related to sex and feminism. I originally had doubts about starting a new blog, but I think I sometimes manage to say important and/or interesting things when I’m not just writing about being fisted. Sometimes, I may even manage to do that while I’m writing about being fisted. Apartfrombeingahugeperv, I hang out with my cat a lot, make things (especially with fabric), and read excessively. I have PTSD, which seems to include a large dose of depression and anxiety, so sometimes I write about those things here. And how they affect my sex life.

Garnet - My completely amazing partner and Dominant of about two years. Switchy, sadistic, domly,genderqueerish, and badass as fuck. They are also super loving and patient with me when I have breakdowns. They put oodles of work into my training as their lady’s maid and pet, and I hope I make it worth the effort. Also, it is one of my rules to write a blog post every time we play or have sex, and they sometimes give me other writing assignments as well. Has their own blog here.

Avery - Garnet’s and my Other Significant Other. We are a casual triad!

Erik - Garnet’s boy, who is also being trained by them. We are friends and try to help each other out whenever we can.

Conall – Garnet’s sometimes play-partner, who we have both occasionally interacted with in the past.

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Roderick – My most recent ex and the person I started exploring kink with. We really loved each other a lot, but we had some incompatible kinks (and some very incompatible ideas about how open relationships work).

Dr. Asshole – My emotionally abusive ex-boyfriend from high school. Hopefully I will not be writing about him very much, but he does need a pseudonym, just in case.Mr. Nice - My college boyfriend. Mainly notable because he was very, very anti-sex. Did not believe in penis-in-vagina sex before marriage, which became no sexual contact before marriage, which became no orgasms before marriage. He was very nice, just kind of clueless in a lot of ways.