Life is hard as it is...so why do people choose to lie and make it more complicated? Do they really benefit from lies? Has it become a sickness to the point that they can not stop? How do i deal with those kind of people? Should i make excuses for them and try to help them? I am so lost...

Life is hard as it is...so why do people choose to lie and make it more complicated? Do they really benefit from lies? Has it become a sickness to the point that they can not stop? How do i deal with those kind of people? Should i make excuses for them and try to help them? I am so lost...

Yes that is true. There are so many people, and especially people who call themselves the "perfect" muslims who lie. I do not know what is wrong with these sort of people. By examining them, I see that it is not their fault. They lack the confidence in themselves. They try to elaborate and express themselves with lies, which they hope will create attention and make friends. Most of these people are lonly and try to do everything in order to see themselves as a reliable person. These people have much to learn. May Allah forgive them, and give us the strength to choose the right path.. Ameen

Yes that is true. There are so many people, and especially people who call themselves the "perfect" muslims who lie. I do not know what is wrong with these sort of people. By examining them, I see that it is not their fault. They lack the confidence in themselves. They try to elaborate and express themselves with lies, which they hope will create attention and make friends. Most of these people are lonly and try to do everything in order to see themselves as a reliable person. These people have much to learn. May Allah forgive them, and give us the strength to choose the right path.. Ameen

salam its sad gammer at every stage some one once lies but he losses his sense toba {repentense} is the best way baba farid a sufi says eat less sleep less and talk less the last one will help people save from lieing INSHALLAH

salam its sad gammer at every stage some one once lies but he losses his sense toba {repentense} is the best way baba farid a sufi says eat less sleep less and talk less the last one will help people save from lieing INSHALLAH

Bismillahirrahmanirrahim,
A muslim cannot lie for things which are not for goodwill.
Volume 1, Book 2, Number 32:(saheeh Bukhari)
Narrated Abu Huraira(r.a.):
The Prophet said, "The signs of a hypocrite are three:
1. Whenever he speaks, he tells a lie.
2. Whenever he promises, he always breaks it (his promise ).
3. If you trust him, he proves to be dishonest. (If you keep something as a trust with him, he will not return it.)"
If you notice people who have these characteristics stay away from them if you don't you will get hurt.And Allah SWT knows best

Bismillahirrahmanirrahim, A muslim cannot lie for things which are not for goodwill. Volume 1, Book 2, Number 32:(saheeh Bukhari) Narrated Abu Huraira(r.a.): The Prophet said, "The signs of a hypocrite are three: 1. Whenever he speaks, he tells a lie. 2. Whenever he promises, he always breaks it (his promise ). 3. If you trust him, he proves to be dishonest. (If you keep something as a trust with him, he will not return it.)" If you notice people who have these characteristics stay away from them if you don't you will get hurt.And Allah SWT knows best