How often do married couples have intercourse?

This question is entirely up to the couple. Nor are questions regarding how often couples should have sexual intercourse. What is considered “healthy”? Is the frequency more important than the intensity? This is a more “valid” question maybe? The quality versus quantity. Some couples may require daily intercourse whilst others content themselves with a weekly live making session. More important is the intensity of sexual intercourse – or making love. It can be a cold affair.

With only one partner being satisfied – very often the man. Once the male is satisfied – it is hard for him to continue with sexual intercourse and satisfy the female as well. This is why it is important for both male and female, man and woman, to satisfy each other. Preferably at the same time for an intensive double climax. This is not always easy – as one of the partners always seems to climax first – but with practice, it can be achieved and savoured by both sexes. Timing rather than frequency – this should take precedence. A mechanical method of love making is in no one’s interest. Far better to concentrate on first pleasing and satisfying your partner, then pleasing and satisfying yourself. The investment of time spent focusing only on your sexual partner and spouse’s pleasure will reap great benefits for yourself – as the “favour” will surely be extended to you later. How frequently we married couples have sexual intercourse really does depend on the particular couple. It could be that both male and female partners are completely content with having sexual intercourse weekly. Other couples may need it more frequently, say daily. In rare circumstances, some married couples need to have sexual intercourse more than once daily.

Another factor which plays a great part regarding the frequency of this act of love making. How long the couple have been together, how well they know each other, how much they “know” their partner’s body and “G Spot”. It would surely be of interest to interview a large number of married couples to ask this question regarding the frequency of their sexual intercourse and collate the answers into a statistical chart. Even then it would be hard to generalise on the frequency of this most beautiful and yes, sacred act of procreation with the ultimate outcome of populating the planet – or replenishing it with human beings and continuing the natural cycle of life – death – life again.