Kools commentary March 2nd on pg no.4 (Page 8)

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KalapiIF-Dazzler

@kalapi S Manav needs to do all he can to get Archu closer to Savita but for that this cold behavior wont work infact will create more rift and Manav thought of I will ask forgiveness only if Savita forgives Archu is worng.In fact Archu does dont come into picture here. It was Manav who said those words that "I am not ur son anymore " well for that first he needs to convince his mom that he is still her son and Archu is not the reason he has left her or something. But to do this Manav needs to be out of the picture..remember how he said to the stranger that moms are so important....he was an outsider so he could do do without any effort...but where he is concern he can't because he is part of the whole situation...he cannot take himself or Archana out...I like what this complexity does to the character...I could be amazed if he reacted any differently...

For that he needs to go first and ask forgiveness spend time with his mom instead of loitering in his sasural and then bring Archu into picture. For this he is accepted Archanais the problem...not sure what the moral of the marriage will be if he accepts his wife as the problem....will this not create a rift between them....I acn almost imagine that they get old and fight tand Archana saying 'Ur Mom never liked me" and he getting all defensive

This way Savita will slowly change coz of her son's love. Her Manav understanding of his mom is missing.He needs to understand Savita first and then only he can bring ARchu closer. He needs to first resolve his issue with his mom and then thing about Archu and savita relationship.

I think Manav needs a consellor for this..In the west any problem runto a consellor...who is a neutral third party and sees problem in a different light altogether

Relationships are not built on a day n if Manav can show savita that he is really her son and has not left her then the insecurity she is feeling over Archu will vanish automatically and then if Archu makes her move her Savita will accept.

Is is always the Son to mend problem...can we not argue being the elders parents should be more diplomatic I see my Mom does it all the time and SHE IS THE BEST MIL (it is not me who says this but my Bhabi )

No mom in this world will ever wish against her son happiness. God has made mom as a representative of himself to take care of his children through her so Manav needs to understand that his mom is against Archu being of a misunderstanding and that will get sorted only first he resolves his issue with his mom and spend time with her and not leave her lonely in depression thinking like she needs to bend first. This is stupidity.

I can show examples of mom that kills their own kids and that too for small things....although I will accept that this is still the most pavitra of all relationships but doesn;t mean there can't be any other motives...I know there was a lot of discussion went on about how savita was acting like a parasite.....and I know that I will hurt a lot....but isn't it to an extend true...that we all do things at the end for some reasons.....in India it is expected that kids look after their parents at their old age...right....so there is an expectation for the duty of bringing up kids....many philosophers say people do things only for themselves at the end...it is true....I am a MOM....I want my kids to look after me when I am old...I might not think anything is wrong in it....But I am bring up the kids, educating them with the hope they look after me...so there is a thing for me in my Sacrifice?

IIf Manav cant understand Savita then no one else can understand what she feels. The support he shows for K's in spite of all their doings to him in the past for once he needs to show to his mom that he is there.Once he shows that he will see a different Savita all together.

koolsadhu1000IF-Sizzlerz

Hi Kool, once again a very happy first birthday to yoru thread .Hope it keep rocking ...

Today it was a good show for me ,I enjoyed it ..

The commentry was funny as well..I liked he way you described the first scene of the Chawl cats and savita ..So you think the cat got angry because Manav didn't make a pass at her ....hmm, I think you are so right ..that is clearly her grudge ....

My thoughs about our PR characters ...

There will be some dispute today from my side..hope you won't mind ...

Manav ....

I have two things to say for manav ..

If you are asking to go back and live in your parental house and your wife comes with you and all of live hansi khushi together ( like he has said a couple of times ) then yo u are very wrong and unfair my dear .Your mother hates Archana , she loathes Archana ...and you knew that .If you were this desperate to live with your parents hansi khushi all your life then you should have married some other girl and not this one ...

This would be unfair to your mother and also terribly unfair to your wife.There has to be a limit of how much one can be abused ....Have some mercy and don't even think about taking her to a place where she is hated so much .What MORE mercy r u asking from him ? The Dude is NOT looking at his mom's face insisting on the PACKAGE DEAL , repeating paarot like I and Archana come TOGETHER . U shud be PARTYING .

If he is asking that his mother should respect the fact that he is married .( his own choice not a forced one ) and if he understands the fact that his mother hates Archu so they cannot live permanenetly together but whenever they meet they should show some decency and respect and not accuse his wife of being Churail , nalaiyak , baby snatcher and Nagin , son stealer and what not ......then he is absolutely right and I am glad that he is firm about giving that respect to his wife ....

He was feeling bad about saying stuff to his mother but I don't blame him ...Slapping is wrong ..When Sulochna did it , we all said so many thinsg to her ...even today we call her Slapochna ...when Ajit does it he is pathetically wrong, when Archana slapped Dharmesh she was wrong and when savita does it , she is wrong too ....

So if Manav is asking for his wife not to be abused in such an aweful way ....no way am I going to say ' Oh he is so wrong ' . Tanya who said Savita was RIGHT in slapping Archana ? All Said Manav shud not BREAK TOTALLY with his mom ALTHOUGH she slapped Archana . And in ALL the slaps u mentioned u HAVEN"t mentioned Archana's Slap to a PREGNANT woman simply coz SHe cud not bear to hear the CHILD DYING ... No WONDER Archana UNDERSTANDS Savita's SLAP .

Savita ...

Ok you hate Archana ....

What can one do ...it is your choice but at least for the sake of the boy who did so much for you, gave up his education and did so many wrong things also only to keep you happy ... for his sake ..try and be civil with his wife ...but yes , don't have to live with them ..Tell your son , we shoud llive seperately ....Where is SHE saying Live with me ? Infact she told them LIVE ELSEWHERE ! All she wants is to come and go and have a kind of relationship but THAT too is denied as Son insists on PACKAGE DEAL . PACKAGE DEAL indeed , HUH .

But I think her illness is going to be a blessing in disguise for this woman as her son will come running back to her on her terms ....I will say again , Savita will always be Manav's no. 1 girl ( I know you don't agree but I think she is ) and he would have asked for this respect even if he was married to Sharavni and Damodar was being nasty to Shraavni .....It is a matter of principle for him .he is not doing this because of his love for Archana ....He was desperate to come back to her today ...

I must say she was excellent when she took on the Chawl cats...

Archana ...the girl whose Chutni is about to be made thanks to mother and son ....

She was sweet .She very quickly likes to believe that whatever is wrong with anyone or everyone is all her fault..

What else can I say except , God help her .... Tanya I dont think she wants to go there with any UNTOWARD GUILT at all . She has a VERY clear grasp of the facts and compassion for the old woman . I dont think she will be CHUTNEYED at all ...........and this seperate SANSAAR won't WORK in that lower middle class scenario AT ALL . The Deshmukhs need some HAPPINESS . Archana can provide it if she sets her mind to it .

Hated Ajit today ....I didnt hate him . I was neutral like Priya and all know how firebrandish my thoughts always r . He was frustrated and sick ....it was exactly the way Satish slapped varsha . The slap was neither egoistic nor chauvinistic . It was the way Archu slapped Manav . I think Ajit shud be given a chance and excused .

Vandu is my SOTD ..the girl was fab .....she should have pushed Ajit real hard in front of his mother ....

smrthGoldie

One aspect amazes me most. It's not an easy job to cater to so many posts days in days out. To stay alert,( almost apprehensively!?), lest your not answering hurt them for an unintended snub, and then to reply with such consistency. This must be taking lots of personal time and yet you are ready to provide a wide reaching receptacle of varying thoughts/opinions and passionate debates. This ought to be thanked hugely. As well are congratulations for completing a year of that live platform. The one, which itself had been germinated from a similar kind (to this one) of appreciative thread by some member named dharati.

And how can I not remember your Archana's defenses!?- Those interesting and witty dialogues which had placed me regular on this forum? And then later on tolerating conflicting views…Good job Koolsadhu!!

As for the episode- another day of an unwelcome small voice, mismatching with general consensus prevailing here …

Usha Nadkarni is a virtuoso and a veteran hand- all kudos to her…Aai was powerfully presented today. The rapidly conjured and speedily delivered Chawl gossip track had been perhaps, conceived precisely for this purpose. To present her powerfully. Especially when a blatantly public dance of actual larceny by Dharmesh and co, stay so conveniently unnoticed…...And for so many close-ups of a profound grief, why not a straight and simple open heart welcome and some show of real motherly concern for her child's happiness, (oh yea, such an ungrateful child)…That's why all those deep anguishes and furrowed lines over sunken eyes…Great act Ushaji.

koolsadhu1000IF-Sizzlerz

Jai Shankar ur rebuttal to Tanya I liked . I concur with ur thoughts .This aint a Give and Take policy ...these r human relations . Her love for him is UNCONDITIONAl .........she did not calculate that while fighting for him . That HEY why shud I fight for ARCHANAS HUSBAND . She simply fought . His LOVE is CONDITIONAL today . He talks to her as Archanas husband not as HER SON .

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Archana came in his life only two years ago She was for 31 years .Besides the 9 months in the WOMB when the PACKAGE was tied with the UMBLICAL CORD ...........a fact dear Manav has FORGOTTEN . Archana DIVORCED him ...........Savita CANNOT . Stll if he wants to do these foolish dialogues like those stupid phoney THANKS let him be A MURAKH . Leave him to the Karanjkars then and I hope Manju chews his butt hard .

Not_a_fanSenior Member

Congratulations on the one year anniversary of your awesome thread, Kool. Hope you continue your commentary as long as PR exists, and after that maybe in some other serial where you can bash the stupidity of the characters. Great commentary today, as always. Go Savita, that's the way to handle these people. Bhashans wont work with them. Also loved that she walked away telling Manav that she will learn to un-love him reminding him of his own words. Also, she didnt take the veggies on his credit since he told her he was not her son anymore. Loved that also. That is the best way to deal with one-track minded, no-clue-how-to-handle-any crisis Manav. Now that she gave him the cold shoulder, he's atleast considering that he shouldn't have talked that way to his mom. Till now, Savita kept visiting him and all so he didn't know how it would feel if she cut off relations with him like he did with her. I like this new strength of character Savita displayed, I now want her not lose her mental imbalance and focus on little Sachu and Vandita and Damodar. Manav and Savita will both realise their mistakes in due course of time, but in the meanwhile as Manav is living happily with Archana, I want Savita also to be happy in her house with her family instead of pining for Manav.

TanyazIF-Stunnerz

Tanya who said Savita was RIGHT in slapping Archana ? All Said Manav shud not BREAK TOTALLY with his mom ALTHOUGH she slapped Archana . And in ALL the slaps u mentioned u HAVEN"t mentioned Archana's Slap to a PREGNANT woman simply coz SHe cud not bear to hear the CHILD DYING ... No WONDER Archana UNDERSTANDS Savita's SLAP .

Whoever did it...slapping is wrong...

The only slap that was a godo slap was the one that Archu gave to manav when he was about to kill someone in a rage ...

JaishankarIF-Dazzler

@kalapi why cant younger one bend too. S children look up to their parents but also its children equal responsibility to ask forgiveness when they make mistake. Here Manav has made mistake may saying that "I am not ur son anyomore". What will a mom feel when a son says such a dialogue how much it would have hurt her ?. Well Whats wrong in just asking forgiveness to your mom . Didn't Savita say "I came her to correct my mistakes " when Manav went to thank her but she is hurt by Manav words. Manav is not going to go short if he asks forgiveness to his mom. Well when he can take all the gaalis of K's then why cant he stand his mom . His mom has the most right to scold her son.Savita will fight with him but will never ever let anyone talk against him.Thats the diff between a mom and K's. I think Manav needs to understand that.

First he needs to ask forgiveness for the mess he has created with his cold behavior. Children cant expect parents to ask forgiveness by first them making mistakes.If Manav bends Savita will bend too. After all its his mom and not his enemy.She can never hate Manav and every time Manav is in trouble savita will come to the rescue thats the heart of a mom and Manav knows he is guilty.So he needs to ask forgiveness for the mistake he has made and then slowly things will start to turn.

TanyazIF-Stunnerz

Tanya I dont think she wants to go there with any UNTOWARD GUILT at all . She has a VERY clear grasp of the facts and compassion for the old woman . I dont think she will be CHUTNEYED at all ...........and this seperate SANSAAR won't WORK in that lower middle class scenario AT ALL . The Deshmukhs need some HAPPINESS . Archana can provide it if she sets her mind to it .

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