custody and relocation question (kind of long,sorry)

I have been doing a bit of reseach but havent quite got the answer i was looking for. My situation is this: me & my bf have a 7 mo and im pregnant wit his 2nd child. We are no longer together and i want to move.i live in houston but i have no family here. Im from SC and i want to move to georgia to be closer to them. We havent been thru the system yet for anything but i have gotten the paperwrk started to put him on child support of our 1st child. My lease for my apt is up in March and thats when i want to leave. My child bearly knows him and he bearly knows her. He cant take care of her without me period. He has no clue what to do. Plus hes very irresponsible. I wuld never leave her with him. Will putting him on child support and requesting full/sole custody make me have to stay in the same state as her dad or can i move and he just come visit her or i just go to him? I really could careless if he ever sees her again but depending on what the law is and how the custody thing goes ill have to base it off that. I dnt think he deserves to even be in her presence. He doesnt want to act or participate as her father why should i entertain his BS.

I have been doing a bit of reseach but havent quite got the answer i was looking for. My situation is this: me & my bf have a 7 mo and im pregnant wit his 2nd child. We are no longer together and i want to move.i live in houston but i have no family here. Im from SC and i want to move to georgia to be closer to them. We havent been thru the system yet for anything but i have gotten the paperwrk started to put him on child support of our 1st child. My lease for my apt is up in March and thats when i want to leave. My child bearly knows him and he bearly knows her. He cant take care of her without me period. He has no clue what to do. Plus hes very irresponsible. I wuld never leave her with him. Will putting him on child support and requesting full/sole custody make me have to stay in the same state as her dad or can i move and he just come visit her or i just go to him? I really could careless if he ever sees her again but depending on what the law is and how the custody thing goes ill have to base it off that. I dnt think he deserves to even be in her presence. He doesnt want to act or participate as her father why should i entertain his BS.

I'm having the same problem. I live in alabama and have a 3 month old with my ex fiancé and I want to move to ny to be closer to my family. I advise you to talk to a lawyer. I was told to send a certified letter advising him when I am moving, where, and why and he would have 30 days to get a court date
To say why it wasn't in the best interest for my DS to move. But that's Alabama. Your state may be different. Good luck!!

I'm having the same problem. I live in alabama and have a 3 month old with my ex fiancé and I want to move to ny to be closer to my family. I advise you to talk to a lawyer. I was told to send a certified letter advising him when I am moving, where, and why and he would have 30 days to get a court date
To say why it wasn't in the best interest for my DS to move. But that's Alabama. Your state may be different. Good luck!!

The most he can do is file/contest your move with the court system. But that does not mean that u cannot move. If he hasnt had DNA or signed the birth certificate he has NO rights to your children at all anyhow.

The most he can do is file/contest your move with the court system. But that does not mean that u cannot move. If he hasnt had DNA or signed the birth certificate he has NO rights to your children at all anyhow.

I don't believe what state you live in matters as long as you have all the documents in order so you can file.My neices sperm donor lives n Florida,my sis is here in Illinois & she has no issues getting it.

I don't believe what state you live in matters as long as you have all the documents in order so you can file.My neices sperm donor lives n Florida,my sis is here in Illinois & she has no issues getting it.

He has signed the birth cert for my first and i was thinking about telling him i was gna leave and just let things play out but his mom is a physcotic fool and she wrks for CPS so i know if i tell him now he will tell her and she will try sum BS i really dnt have time for. So i wnt to wait til almost the last possible min before i say something to him.

He has signed the birth cert for my first and i was thinking about telling him i was gna leave and just let things play out but his mom is a physcotic fool and she wrks for CPS so i know if i tell him now he will tell her and she will try sum BS i really dnt have time for. So i wnt to wait til almost the last possible min before i say something to him.

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