When we strive against all thoughts of revenge; when we will not do our enemies harm, but wish them well, grieve at their misfortunes, pray for them, seek reconciliation with them, and show ourselves ready on all occasions to help them. (Thomas Watson, Body of Divinity)

II. What does Biblical forgiveness in my life look like?

Forgiveness is not ….

The absence of anger at the sin

Removing the consequences from the sin

Forgetting what happened

Resuming a relationship without change

Forgiveness is …

Releasing my “right” to get even

Responding to evil with good

Unlimited

Unconditional

III. Why should I forgive someone who has hurt me?

Because …

Bitterness and defiling others is the alternative

It gives evidence to the authenticity of my salvation

God has forgiven me, and He expects me to forgive others

IV. How can I forgive someone who has hurt me?

It is easier to act our way into feeling than to feel our way into acting.