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A Black Woman’s View on White Women…

Scanning the web back in 2011, I saw this while Googling some issues on various discussion topics I was interested in: A former Wall Street analyst who wrote a book about dating men of other races has sparked a major debate about political correctness.

J.C. Davies examines the myths about interracial lovers in I Got The Fever: Love, What’s Race Gotta Do With It? I thought I’d post the book description–which is quite hilarious:

READY FOR A HOT & SPICY ROMANCE? Are you sick of believing all the good men are either married or gay? Then it s time to catch the fever for intercultural dating, that is. The fact is, soulmates come in every color and I Got the Fever can help you find yours. Injected with pants-wetting anecdotes, eyebrow-raising commentary, and plenty of juicy details, I Got the Fever offers a practical course of treatment for dating within five unique cultures: Latino, Asian, Black, Indian, and Jewish. Plus, author J.C. Davies delivers the low down on every question you ever had about dating men of other races but were too PC to ask: Do Asian men like their women submissive? Are Jewish men really cheap? Are all Indian men well versed in the Kama Sutra? Do Latin lovers live up to their reputation? Do Black men actually have big, er, uh, equipment? Whether you re already in an interracial relationship, contemplating one or just want to be entertained by JC s conversational style and hilarious anecdotes, I Got the Fever is the perfect prescription for dating in a new and diverse world.

She told MailOnline how 20 years’ experience ,and hundreds of interviews informed her research, which she says reveals fascinating insight into cultural differences.

This shouldn’t be a news scoop, but historically, and currently, the view of white women has been tipped by the insistence by white males, that they are supposed to be superior to all women. Their beauty is celebrated by white males, packaged, sold and bought by the world. The image of the white female is generally one of a smiling blond; dressed to look sexy or ultra feminine; and given fuel by constant marketing.

During slavery, the psychological brainwashing that was perpetrated on slaves infused this ideal. How can you see yourself in the eyes of your enemy? Interracial unions are nothing new, but as relates to the history of America, the attraction is not based on love, but one of curiosity brought on through the proximity of slavery. In those times, the white man lusted for the Black woman, and because of his power over her body, being a slave, he could have sex with her at his will. However, the white woman was off limits to the Black male slave. It was dangerous for any Black man to even think of touching a white woman. The contrasts of how Black women and white women were viewed is very telling: The Black woman wore rags. Her hair wasn’t combed. She had no make-up or other things to make her look feminine and beautiful. On the contrary, the white woman wore beautiful gowns. She was made up and her hair was done up in a regal coiffure. The Black male slave could see how well kept the white woman was; secretly, some Black males slaves may have desired her. Thus, the Great Myth, perpetrated by white males, of the White Woman being the most desired woman was born.

As relates to Black women, it is a skewed image. Made up. Propaganda created to destroy the self-esteem of Black people, particularly Black women, in order to subjugate an entire race of people. The Black woman in contrast was not seen in this manner. She was portrayed historically as either the Black Mammy–domestic servant, catering to the needs of the Missus of the mansion or the valueless slut; sexually depraved and easy.

Race has played a large part of how minorities view themselves sexually and this woman writing such a book in my opinion, exposes an arrogance within her to do so because she is well aware that what she is doing is merely expressing and exposing just how deep White Privilege allows her to be marketed by the white owned media and publishing outlets without the fear of backlash. It promotes a general idea and a subliminal presumption white women have been taught through daily images and historical caricatures that corroborate her attitude. Perhaps she’s trying to goad debate or is it a more subtle and racist way of this woman trying to infer that women of color should be jealous? Black women are not jealous of white women–they just aren’t impressed with them and I can say with just pure honesty, Black women could care less what white women think about them and generally, aren’t the least bit interested in what they like to do nor to whom or what they do it with.

I remember when the movie Obsessed came out, white people, particularly white women, were mad when Beyonce kicked that white woman’s @ss for messing with her husband and threatening her child. The prevailing, and might I state, racist attitude, that NO successful Black man would ever turn down throbbing–easy white p*ssy. The comments were so hilarious, I found this link to emphasize the generality of their presumptions: http://wandaphullworld.com/2009/04/27/white-folks-mad-at-beyonce-for-kicking-white-girl-ass/.

But you see, it’s a slippery slope when you have to analyze what is real and what is fiction:

Fact 1: Black women have the highest self-esteem of all groups and are the least likely to commit suicide.

Fact 3: Black women do not feel inferior to white women–why should they when white women spend millions of dollars on lip injections, boob jobs, tanning, and butt implants to copy the look of Black women who have naturally what they have to pay for?

Thus, are white women the true beauty standard?

There are many others I could list, but I feel that those who have common sense can gather the logic of what I’ve already said.

What really sparks a moment of clarity is that in truth; A self-respecting Black women would never have written such a book. Sex should not define a woman–CHARACTER is what should be most visible within her.

To answer your question: Whenever a dog doesn’t have access to a food source; it instinctively will roam through the garbage. White women have sex with dogs–a sharp indictment on white males, ya think?

The sad part of it all; many Black men don’t suspect that the white cave bitch they are kissing, also had her mouth on the penis of a dog–given the proclivity of white chicks in general to sleep with animals, particularly canines.

Not only is this article offensively racist towards whites, you also beat down a Hispani woman and told her how ignorant her entire race is. Despite your statement about how secure you are in yourself, putting others down to pump yourself up is a playground bully mentality and smacks of insecurity. You can claim how proud you are without spouting out about how ugly other races are. It would sound much more genuine that way. This isn’t an article, per se, it is a conceited and arrogant spouting off of hatred to anyone and everyone that doesn’t look, act and think like you, and it’s just plain childish and will drive yet another wedge in the race divide.

I don’t know what is prompting the interest in my blog by non Black people, but what it is doing is exposing the hyprocrisy that is deep within many people in this country who are not accustomed to hearing frank discussion nor exposed to the true thoughts of average Black Americans.

I will not apologize for speaking the truth. Never.

And to further…as an aside: the vitriol hatred that came out when Floyd Mayweather won that boxing match is any indicator of what is in the minds of “other races”, you, and people like you, can KISS MY BLACK ASS!

This blog is not to bring races together; it’s to esteem BLACK PEOPLE.

WE have had to endure much in this country and we did it alone.

I owe no apologies or consideration to any other groups. Many of whom stood on the sidelines while Black people fought for their humanity and dignity during the Civil Rights movement.

I am 19 and a white/Hispanic and I love my white features. I am very beautiful. I would never want African American features. Black woman are just as beautiful as white woman. But i love my light/tan skin, lips, butt, and boobs. And that should not be offensive because you are saying that black woman do not want our features and white woman want black peoples features. But you can not speak for all black woman or all white woman. There are millions of black people bleaching their skin to be light like white woman and bleaching their hair to make it light. There are millions of white women getting spray tans to look very dark like black women..

You know, I don’t know what it is, but every single Hispanic that I’ve encountered is either mixed up racially, bigoted, or just ignorant to the bone.

You are entitled to feel as you like; however, I’m puzzled as to why you really even wasted time posting this at all.

African Americans range from the deepest ebony to the lightest Ivory; and yet, even someone who could pass for white would cut your throat if someone even implied they were white.

Skin color is not a curse; it’s a blessing. Being that melanin is a gift from God; it’s a genetic benefactor and anyone blessed with dark skin, literally, has been kissed by God. White skin is the result of a genetic defect, sweetie. It means you can’t produce melanin, which is a very important genetic benefit. There’s nothing about it that makes one superior; it condemns those with it. It explains why white people have to take drugs just to control their emotions. The lack of melanin suppresses their consciousness; not allowing them to “feel” anything. Hence, the propensity of white folks to do dumb shit; like jumping off cliffs, rowing a canoe over a waterfall, or driving a car drunk at over 180 miles an hour. That means they lack JUDGEMENT. A curse of not having color in their skin.

This might be too deep for you, hence, you’re only 19; and I can see very clearly that you are not educated about a lot. For your educational journey, I offer you this article for clarity: http://suzar.com/BOTW/BOTW-ch5c-pages57-58.html

I believe that probably why Beyonce doesnt like hanging out with Kim Kardashian. Like if you notice everytime their seated together Beyonce just has this look on her face that she doesnt want to be bothered with Kim & she always is seated in between Kim & Jay-Z.

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Hi. I’m confused. I have never looked at a woman with dark skin with hate, or any bad attitude. I wish I could have thick, wavy/curly hair with volume, not straight hair, and yes I’d love fuller lips and hips. But I’ve never been jealous.. I’ve never said a bad thing about women who are not white. I think they are beautiful, I would never think I’m better. That’s the honest truth. I’m sorry that you have had such bad experiences with white women, some people are filled with hate and insecurity, and any and all discrimination you have faced, no one deserves that. God bless

Hi,
I have now read your blog I really liked how you say about the supremacy of white women!
I have noticed one thing in my life all the white girls who claimed to be my friends actually I finally realized
they hated me!
I have always been discriminated against many times calling nigger,
I know people do not like the color of my skin!
You know how I respond to these racists?
I wear my afro hair and wear colorful clothes and flowers I care a lot.
I tell you I am Afro Brazilian for my roots and my physiology many women, especially white women hate me!
I know because I realize how they look me and especially when I walk for the street they don’t want meet me !
One thing I know white women want to have supremacy over all men, beauty, sports, music and dance on just about everything!
They try how to get the attitudes of black women, have to resort to many tricks and techniques to copy us.
Now is mode to dance the twerk, twerk is black and all the dances were invented by blacks. I want to say if you take a ride on youtube you will find a lot of videos of white girls shake the ass to the music twerk.
Do you know why?
They will always want to remind everybod who control on this planet!
The fact also a hair blogger Curly Nikki was attacked and another insulted bloggers you know why?
In the US but no only are being born as TEAMNATURAL these movements not only talking about the beauty of African hair but also the acceptance of black women that black is beautiful!
There are debates and clashes that said the white women accuse these teams to be racist because these meetings are included only black women!
They do not understand that these meetings do not just talking about hair but the black culture in general!
When they see that their image is obscured they always have to remind everyone who’s boss!
Sincerely people for years and centuries have only discriminated against and abused in various forms especially have damaged the image of these racist black woman I did not want to see!
To listen to them and go to these debates and just another opportunity to copy the hair and make it their own and then take control!
If there are black women who bleach their skin there are many black women who are proud of their skin!

This is the most racist article I have ever seen! This is supposed to prove to me that black women aren’t jealous when it does everything but do that! It shows me just HOW jealous you REALLY are! As for black women having high self-esteems….well, when was the last time you saw a white woman post an article about how NOT jealous they are of black women and then proceed to bash them in every which way they could! This is a high self-esteem?! And as for plastic surgery….Black women have that bug too! How many black celebrities are desperately trying to look white with their hair, noses, skin, etc….As for white women trying to look more black….wanting fuller lips, bigger butts, and wanting a tan, by the way that proverbial black butt you always use as your staple of attractiveness as though blacks were the only race with a shapely derriere, most of those Hollywood sistas with a shapely *ss have had implants or fat injections, so so much for your ace in the hole ladies, does not mean in any way we want to look more black! It means they want color, they want fuller lips, and they want a shapely butt! As for black men not wanting white women….well, do I REALLY have to prove this point!? Just because they marry you isn’t for a relentless lack of trying to bag a white chic! If you really had high self-esteems ladies you wouldn’t even have to post this catty nonsense!

Bitch, please. It’s the most blunt comments you’ve ever read because your ass probably doesn’t know any Black people who are bold enough to tell you exactly what they think of you and how Black people really feel about you people.

Is my blog being advertised on Stormfront or something.

It’s called: HAVING A DAMN OPINION!

Your perception is not my reality–and you most certainly better understand that Black people at this moment in time, are really very tired of white folks; who for some reason, have the audacity to become upset, and are always shocked, when for the first time in their lives, when they actually get the real response from Black people about how their behavior is perceived. I don’t worship white people, Suga. And this blog is not going to esteem White Supremacy in any way.

It’s ALL ABOUT THE BLACK EXPERIENCE! Uncut! Uncensored! And most defiantly, UNAPOLOGETIC!!!

WW got something personal against us. They careless about Asian women taken their men. Some ww don’t got the big hops for asian men. WW love going to sex tourism to every hotspot with black men like their counterparts.

Growing up in white surburbia, white women view black women in a very negative fashion not all but most. I have e gone through a lot of racist attitudes as far as our hair, features, lips akin coloring. I had a white female tell me she didn’t like darker skin . I immediately asked her why her boyfriend dumped her ass if she was so perfect?????!!!!!

White women can naturally have full lips, big breasts, and olive/tanned skin. Those are not ‘Black’ features…..heck even Asian women can have full lips, middle eastern women can have tan skin, big butts. Those features are all found in all races/regions.

White women can be very beautiful and attacking them won’t solve anything.

I am not White because I don’t have European ancestors. Anyways, My friend is German, she did DNA test from National Geographic and turns out her background is fully European in regions where that country resides…..and she looks full White and has naturally has full lips like Amanda Seyfried, big breasts, and very curvy body. I grew up with her, I know. Many more like her. Those features are just commercialized anyways and usually there is a limit so everyone is under pressure to fit an image.

You personally don’t have to be impressed just as many people won’t be impressed by you since that’s life, but you can’t speak for a whole race. It sounds insane. Also, I am not attacking your family or friends here, I have seen her many times making the same comments in other blogs and usually secure people don’t d that , they don’t need to….

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For some reason, whenever you start telling the truth about white people; it gets them upset. White Supremacy is a Satanic Doctrine–many whites are into the occult. Those who follow this type of religion are into domination, control and it feeds oppression and fear. What is White Supremacy?

Yes. But what is real is RACISM. And I do not understand any Black person that would willfully lay up and sex one–live with/marry; then have children with one. It’s beyond sick and needs to be called out.

I agree racism is real. I can’t imagine any person of color being in a relationship with someone who is prejudice. I can’t imagine such a relationship exist, but I’m sure there are. However, I do know that sometimes two people can be dating and its the family or friends that harbor those ugly feelings; and that can be just as detrimental.

Well written article. I don’t like White women because of their arrogance and the way they think they are better than us Black females. I don’t see anything to envy about White women because they age fast, wear a lot of makeup because without makeup they are ugly and most of all, they want our features. Thus I don’t desire to befriend any White women in my life unless she is geninuely a nice woman with no racial bias.

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