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Friday, December 25, 2015

Sab Kuch Likha Hua Hai

Everything in Life is interconnected with the other and
everything happens for a reason!

I am
reading a fascinating new book: “Written
by Salim-Javed: The story of Hindi Cinema’s Greatest Screenwriters” (Penguin,
Diptakirti Chaudhuri). It is the most thoroughly researched book on the lives
of the famed writer-duo Salim Khan (father of Salman Khan, Arbaaz Khan and
Sohail Khan) and Javed Akhtar (father of Zoya Akhtar and Farhan Akhtar).
Between 1971 and 1987, Salim-Javed wrote 21 of the finest stories ever told in
Hindi cinema – including Seeta Aur Geeta,
Yadoon Ki Baraat, Zanjeer, Deewar, Sholay, Trishul, Don, Kaala Pathar, Shaan
and Shakti. The book looks at the evolution of not just the Angry Young Man
as a character, but also of Amitabh Bachchan, as a Superstar, who is considered
Salim-Javed’s protégé.

Author
Diptakirti Chaudhuri quotes Javed Akhtar in one of the chapters thus: “Life is strange.
Sometimes if you look back, you feel like editing your Life, rewriting it. You
want to change Scene 12 which is less pleasant, but the story is so well-knit,
you realize Scene 32, which is the highlight of the story, will also have to
vanish. It is not possible to retain Scene 32 because it has some connection
with Scene 12.” Analyzing Akhtar’s quote and his lifetime’s work, Chaudhri
writes: “What Javed said about his Life is also true for Salim-Javed’s scripts.
Even in the weakest of their scripts, a Scene 32 would not have been possible
without a Scene 12, in which it had its genesis. And it wasn’t only the links
between the scenes….every motivation had a backstory.”

So it is
true about each of our lives. Every motivation in your Life – and mine – has a
backstory. Indeed. Everything has happened with a reason. For a reason.
Everyone in your Life has come at the most appropriate time to serve that
reason. The beauty – and pity – of Life is that you never know why something is
happening when it is happening. Only when the event has past, only when you
pause to reflect does the cosmic design become evident. As Steve Jobs
(1955~2011) famously said, “You can only connect the dots backwards.” When you
do connect those dots and recognize why you have gone through an experience,
why you have met someone, you realize, as someone famously said, that Life’s
Masterplan has (had) no flaws. And yes, as Javed Akhtar pointed out, you can’t
go back and edit your Life!

Here’s a
little exercise you may want to do. Take out an hour today. Sit back and think
about your Life. Can’t you connect the dots today? Could you have connected
them when an event was happening in your Life? Can your Scene 32 ever have been
possible without your Scene 12? Didn’t person X, who you disliked so much,
teach you the art of living, even as person C, who you met so very briefly
teach you how to give selflessly? Doesn’t, when you look back, everything in
your Life seem so well ordained, so well fitted in its own place – like a
beautiful jigsaw puzzle?

Whether you
review your Life with the poetic perspective of a Javed Akhtar, or whether you dissect
it like the way Chaudhuri has analyzed some of the greatest stories told on
screen, you will conclude that your Life too can be a movie script. There’s
magic and beauty, miracle and tragedy, in your Life too. Except that your Life’s
end, at the moment, is unpredictable. The climax of your story remains unknown to
you even as you know that your story will end, certainly, with death. So while
the end is certain, the road to get there remains uncertain. Yet, if you learn
to deal with your Life, the way you will watch a movie – where you will get up
and come away when the movie is over, with no attachment to the movie’s plot or
the characters – you will forever be able to anchor in your inner peace.

This
awareness that everything’s ordained, everything’s part of a larger plan which
is beyond your control, does not mean you should not act. This is not a call to
inaction. This only means that don’t fret and fume about the Life you have – or
about the characters that inhabit your story. Just learn to appreciate and
value everything, and everyone’s presence, in your Life. So act in every situation,
but don’t get attached to the result. Do whatever you can and do it well. Just
don’t complain if you don’t get what you want.

The key
to intelligent living is to live with the total understanding that everything in
Life happens for a reason, to complete your Life’s experience and learning. So,
don’t be impatient with your Life. Go with flow. Because, as the classic line
from Zindagi Na Milegi Dobara (Zoya
Akhtar, 2011; Hrithik Roshan, Farhan Akhtar, Abhay Deol, Deepika Padukone),
rendered by Arjun (Hrithik) on-screen in a Spanish bar, goes, “Sab Kuch Likha Hua Hai” – “Everything’s Written”!