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About Me

I am an accomplished professional with close to a forty year career spanning various technical adventures. I am financially secure, well educated, serious at times, not so serious at other times, and have a quick wit with a keen sense of humor. I believe in honesty and integrity and expect the same from my partner. I am not addicted to watching sports on TV, but will follow the local teams when they are doing well. I have been to Celtics, Red Sox, and Patriots games in the last year. I like to cook, bake, grill and BBQ. Points to you if you appreciate the difference between grilling and BBQing. Although I enjoy an elegant restaurant, I also like hole-in-the-wall, out of the way places. You will sometimes find me wandering around a kitchen store or Whole Foods just as much as a Home Depot or Lowes. I wouldn't say that I am a gadget guy, but I have a wide selection of tools to fix most anything (and I usually can) as well as cooking utensils to fix a homemade dinner from soup to dessert. I am not afraid to try a new recipe or dish. I have traveled to various places around the world, but still have a number of spots that I would like to explore with someone special. I enjoy seeing a first run movie, especially at the newer comfy theaters, but it doesn't take much to convince me to hang out at home and watch a classic movie on TV. I am not into the sci-fi and gratuitous action flicks I like good mysteries, drama, history, or even chick flicks. I am not interested in serial dating, but I think I can tell after a date or two whether there is a connection. I am from NJ and relate to those who grew up there, but it isn't a requirement.

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The Color Code, by Dr. Taylor Hartman, is one of the most insightful personality tests in existence, and is made up of four personality Colors, or driving Core Motives. The Color Code teaches you the real motives behind your actions and how to better relate to other personality types.

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The Color Code Personality Test Help

Why am I asked to respond to the questions as a child?

Any woman who has more than one child can tell you how different each child is from birth. You are born with your personality intact. The Color Code is based on your natural, innate personality type. Of course, people may change over time, but your Core Color will always remain the same.

How do I respond to those questions where I don't really fit any of the four options?

Sometimes it is difficult to choose from the four options given, but there is usually one that fits better than the rest, or at least one that you could see yourself as more so than the others. If you're still unsure, try asking someone who knows you well, such as a parent or sibling. They can give clarity on areas of your personality that you may not notice.