Went to pre hearing in November by myself, side he did not respond.
They told me I'd have to put an Article in the newspaper to reach him since he didn't respond ad it had to be posted for like 12 weeks. After that they set me a defat court hearing. For some reason he decided to show up with nothing no paper work etc. they td him to get his shit together file his response and paper work , take his parenting class and set up another hearing 30 days out. Which he was a no show for. The judge granted me everything I wanted