FBW then 46, XWHNPDPAFTG the destroyer of my entire life. D-Day 1 '99, D-Day 2,3,4,5,6... '09-'11, D '15. I fell apart. I put myself back together. Forgiveness isn't required. I'm happy and healthy now, and MY new life is good.

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Mommato4♀ 15906Member # 15906

Posted: 7:18 PM, July 31st (Thursday), 2014

Omg that was funny!!

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StepAside♀ 29826Member # 29826

Posted: 7:36 PM, July 31st (Thursday), 2014

I'm pretty sure #50 was the same reaction I had when I uncovered my H's claim to fame dick pics. Jeebus. what a joke. Must have worked for him though, he had all the bargain basement FB trolling whores driving many hours to meet up with him in scaggy hotel rooms (that they paid for )

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better4me♀ 30341Member # 30341

Posted: 10:02 PM, July 31st (Thursday), 2014

hilarious!!! and

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asurvivor♂ 32368Member # 32368

Posted: 10:18 PM, July 31st (Thursday), 2014

I found this rather humorous and enjoy a good dick joke pic laugh as much as the next, but I just couldn't help but wonder as I was watching this what wrath would have been heaped if I would have lets say posted a video of a guy making fun of breast pics on this forum. You know the teeny ones, the saggy ones, the ugly nipple ones....just hilarious right? Just my thought for the day.

I've wiped the shit off. It can be wiped off you know.

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trying_2_recover♀ 28778Member # 28778

Posted: 11:03 PM, July 31st (Thursday), 2014

The thing is she was aware she was going to be looking at a montage of Dick Pics which really doesn't show the ick factor of the unexpected and unsolicited dick pic.

And Asurvivor if a man received unsolicited tit pics TM , he would be well within his rights to say whatever he wanted about them.

It's the unsolicited factor that icks me out.

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asurvivor♂ 32368Member # 32368

Posted: 11:25 PM, July 31st (Thursday), 2014

I get what it is about. I am the last person to call anyone on what is PC. I get the joke. I just know what would have happened if a man would have posted the tit thing in new beginnings. No way would he have not been completely annihilated...I've seen it for far less. My purpose is not to say that it should not have been posted, or that it offended me in anyway, it's just the double standard that drives me nuts sometimes.

I've wiped the shit off. It can be wiped off you know.

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heartbroken_kk♀ 22722Member # 22722

Posted: 12:23 AM, August 1st (Friday), 2014

so, I wondered if this is actually a double standard in that there is a problem with unsolicited vag pics popping up in guys' inboxes

FBW then 46, XWHNPDPAFTG the destroyer of my entire life. D-Day 1 '99, D-Day 2,3,4,5,6... '09-'11, D '15. I fell apart. I put myself back together. Forgiveness isn't required. I'm happy and healthy now, and MY new life is good.

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asurvivor♂ 32368Member # 32368

Posted: 12:37 AM, August 1st (Friday), 2014

Ok last comment on this because my point is obviously being lost. I am not talking about how many unsolicited dick picks versus how many vag pics vs unsolicited anything for Gods sake. It has nothing to do with unsolicited any freaking thing.....Geeez, forget it.

I've wiped the shit off. It can be wiped off you know.

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sadcat♀ 8637Member # 8637

Posted: 7:25 AM, August 1st (Friday), 2014

I have never gotten a dick pic- thank goodness. But this was amusing.

I do agree though that there is a double standard. If there was a video of a guy looking at breast pics and commenting/critiquing there would be a shit storm of condemnation. Regardless of if the pics were unsolicited or not.

In this case, the girl in the video was almost scientific on how she observed, and there was not too much critiquing as just observations. Which is what I found amusing.

If guys did not continue to think sending these kind of photos would get them somewhere... Women would not continue to ridicule said photos.

I guess I'm not really seeing the "double standard" because for me, it's completely about the unsolicited factor. Women don't go around photographing their vaginas and sending the photos to random strangers on the internet in hopes of- well I'm not sure really what the hope is when dick pics are sent but I guess it is in hopes of sex? Maybe just a date? Can't just be so she wants to meet for coffee right??

I am not understanding your level of frustration asurvivor-- it's like comparing apples to bananas.

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asurvivor♂ 32368Member # 32368

Posted: 9:10 AM, August 1st (Friday), 2014

Ok I lied, but this is my last comment on this because obviously I'm unable to express what I'm trying to say ...IT HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH THE WHETHER THERE ARE MEN THAT SEND UNSOLICITED PICTURES OF THEIR DICKS. Ah that felt good.

Re read my first post on this thread and if you don't understand what I'm saying then let's just say I never posted and enjoy some chardonnay tonight because it's the weekend and I'm going to enjoy every minute. I really can't make it any clearer then that...I'm out.

I've wiped the shit off. It can be wiped off you know.

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million pieces♀ 27539Member # 27539

Posted: 12:58 PM, August 1st (Friday), 2014

But we aren't just laughing at pictures of dicks, it is the fact that these pics are thought to turn us on. The equivalent would be pouty duck lip face pics that some women seem to think make them look good. It would crack me up to see a panel of dudes trashing women's duck face pics. It isn't the subject matter, it is the intent that makes the joke.

Ok I lied again...I get the joke. I may look like an idiot but I get the f-ing joke. I don't give a shit about the joke or the intent. It does not offend me. Not the point and has nothing to do with what I'm talking about.

Ok let me do this...Picture this if you will (in my best Rod Serling voice. I post a video in new Beginnings. You click on it. It's of a guy looking at tits. He makes fun of the the tits. He makes fun of 89 tits. It does not matter what the intent I guarantee most women in here would think it was sexist and I would agree. My point is I would be ripped every which way in this forum. That's the double standard and come to think of it who really does give a shit... Am I the only one who thinks this? Lord I maybe I am an idiot. That's it, I'm an idiot, I finally get it...never mind.

I've wiped the shit off. It can be wiped off you know.

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soulsearcher4♂ 29540Member # 29540

Posted: 2:57 PM, August 1st (Friday), 2014

I get it asurvivor. Just had to say that. It can feel like banging your head against a wall, for sure. But I get it.

It's difficult to get the point across because the bias is so strong.

Just wanted to say that I'm not offended either.

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Whalers11♀ 27544Member # 27544

Posted: 3:05 PM, August 1st (Friday), 2014

asurvivor, I get what you're saying and I completely agree.

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7yrsflushed♂ 32258Member # 32258

Posted: 3:11 PM, August 1st (Friday), 2014

Women don't go around photographing their vaginas and sending the photos to random strangers on the internet in hopes of- well I'm not sure really what the hope is when dick pics are sent but I guess it is in hopes of sex?

^^^My XWW sent plenty of pics of herself to guys. Granted they weren't strangers, actually some of them may have been who knows. The pics may or may not have been solicited. She fucked at least 2 of them so I beg to differ women do go around taking pics of there vaginas, boobs, ass, etc and sen them to people. My XWW can't be the only one to have done it.

I do have female friends that have received the dick pic or the shirtless bathroom pic so I get the humor behind the horror of it all. Laugh away ladies, anyone dumb enough to send unsolicited dick or vagina pics deserves ridicule imo. Just wanted to point out that it goes both ways.

[This message edited by 7yrsflushed at 3:13 PM, August 1st (Friday)]

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phmh♀ 34146Member # 34146

Posted: 6:36 PM, August 1st (Friday), 2014

The analogy is off, as someone else stated above, because it is not cliche that women send unsolicited vag or boob pics to strangers.

A closer analogy is like million pieces said - if an equivalent video was made of duck face pics, since that is cliche female.

And I'm sure it's a minority of guys who send cock pics, just like it's a minority of ladies who have duck face pics up.

An analogous example of vag/boob pics would be if this video had been made making fun of receding hairlines. And no one would think that is funny.

At times, this forum can get slightly misandric, but to say it is in this case is really really reaching.

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h0peless♂ 36697Member # 36697

Posted: 7:27 PM, August 1st (Friday), 2014

Women don't go around photographing their vaginas and sending the photos to random strangers on the internet

I don't talk to her anymore but if I did, I'd totally introduce you to my ex wife.