Discover surprising causes of marital discord and how to counteract them

Sneaky, Sneaky

Sneaky, Sneaky

You’re fully aware that meddling in-laws, money troubles and even your (usually) sweet children can wreak havoc on your relationship. But the things that can really drive a wedge between you and your husband might be much more subtle. Before blaming the classic culprits, learn how to recognize these unexpected instigators of marriage distress and minimize their potential effects.

1. Digital Communication

1. Digital Communication

Sending texts, emails and Facebook messages can be faster than sitting down for a face-to-face conversation. But an Oxford University study found that couples who talk more through digital channels are likely to be less satisfied with their relationships. It could be because technology strips away the emotion that comes with communicating in person. “The further you get from expressing yourself fully, the more room there is for couples to miss each other,” says Jenev Caddell, PsyD, founder of My Best Relationship Psychological Services, PLLC. Be sure to balance the occasional “thinking of you” text with face time, especially for pressing concerns.