Healthy Relationships Support Group

No relationship is perfect. A long-term relationship requires constant effort to understand each other, fix misunderstandings, solve problems and continue to grow as both individuals change and evolve. How we deal with our misunderstandings is the focus of this community. Join us to find support, get advice, and share your experience with your relationship.

It is extremely hard to stand alone in the world. It is important, though, that before getting into a relationship you are happy and content with who you are and what your goals are. That is what I am trying to do.

It's a little different for me, I guess. I've always cherished time to be alone.
After my divorce, I moved out of State to start a new job; left an 18 year marriage, my kids, my family, my friends. Got an apartment and lived alone. I went to work on weekdays, spent the weekends cooking, cleaning, focusing on my art.
I didn't have to explain or justify to anyone. It was incredible!
After about a year, though, I noticed that I was probably too comfortable being alone; might be time to stick my head out the door a little and interact.
I took out an add in a singles publication, because I would be able to decide just who I wanted to respond to, instead of just &quot;dating&quot;. Met and later married the love of my life. We're together because we belong together. We found each other because each of us had already been through plenty of the &quot;other&quot; relationships. We're together because neither of us wants to try to be anything other than what we are. I firmly believe that you can't expect to find a healthy relationship with someone else unless you have a healthy realtionship with yourself. Pete

Ronin: By &quot;we&quot;, I was referring to members of this community or &quot;we&quot;, the human race. But I know what you mean. I should use the word &quot;I&quot; more often, although I don't want to sound TOO self-centered...(LOL)!

I’ve always had an attraction to boys, but I also have a slight attraction to girls, but my guy attraction is much stronger. Am I gay or just really bisexual?

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