Well I have broken things off with my girlfriend of 5 years. We have been having problems for sometime but I was willing to try to make it work but in the end I was the only one trying and it just got to be too painful to keep trying to hold on to someone that was not really there. In truth she has always been in love with another man and that man died last Feb and since that time she has drifted away from me completely despite my trying to be there for her. I was very hurt and depressed for a long time but now I see this as a chance to maybe find someone that really cares about me so I am hopeful about the future for the first time in a long time.