Understanding these basic rules will help you avoid some common mistakes that typically prevent you from getting the most out of your ménage à trois.

1. Establish the rules

You’re going to have sex with two women and all three of you have your own rules and limits, so understanding and respecting one another’s comfort levels should be a top priority when you’re establishing your threesome rules.

2. Be as giving as you can

Although you may be hoping that the two women will give you 100% of their attention, the truth is that they’re there to please each other just as much as they’re there to please you.

3. Keep yourself busy

When you find that both women are busy pleasuring each other and you have nothing to do, keep yourself busy. Take matters into your own hands and find something to do.

4. Be careful with penetration

Penetration is what novelist Tom Robbins calls “that old show-stopper.” It automatically forms a serious bond between you and one woman, leaving the other out. For this reason, penetrate only when you’re sure both women are comfortable with it.

Single men and women are invited to come to the club with a couple and borrow their membership for the night. That means a savings of $50-$100. What you do is come in with another member couple as part of their threesome. Sign up for a membership and the fee will be waived. The nightly user fee for the group will be:

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