Joshua - .........remember your probation?

Please, try and take a hint. This is supposed to be a place where exmembers can feel comfortable to talk. You are not helping. Reader has made very good points and instead of paying attention, you are just trying to throw it back at him/her. Now you see others are chiming in, so it's not just one person, but several. I think you need to really pay attention. Perhaps it would be good for you to take a break for awhile and reflect. I think your probation has expired, it is still in force.