1st Pregnancy

Heartbreak 1st pregnancy:(

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babykatz18 wrote:

I was having pains the past few days so I made an appt w dr. Went in today to find no heartbeat so they sent me to a medical office for second opinion and it was confirmed. Have to get a d&c. I’m in shock and so upset but dr. said I can try again:(. Anyone going through or no of anyone in a similar situation? :((

So very sorry to hear... my heart breaks for you. I know there is a board here where more people can relate. I think it’s called Grief and Loss or something along those lines. Wish I could wrap you in a hug...

My heart goes out to you. Just know you are not alone and there is hope at the end of the tunnel. We had a miscarriage in September at 7 weeks. The entire experience was horrific - both physically seeing the dead baby come out of me, and emotionally, as it was a very much wanted child. But know that you WILL recover. They say once you have been pregnant once, the body is more receptive to become pregnant again. We were successful our first try and are almost at the 7 week mark again. We are still very nervous and probably will be until the end...but from everything I've read, plenty of women have miscarriages and then go onto have successful births. Don't give up and try to focus on the future and trying again as soon as your doctors say it's okay.

You are not alone! So sorry for your loss. I had a miscarriage in June and thought I was the only one, and decided zto talk about it with my friends and found that 2 of them had also lost a baby. 1 in 4 pregnancies will end in a miscarriage sadly... It's more common than you think... Soooo sorry, try to be positive, but also alow yourself the time to morn the loss...

I’m so sorry. I recently also had a miscarriage in September. They couldn’t find the heart beat and I knew. It was unexplainably the worst feeling in the world. It’s so emotionally draining and hard. Try not to dwell on the why. As everyone mentioned it is common however it doesn’t make it easier. Take time to heal yourself. It doesn’t go away but gets better with time. I just found out I’m pregnant again and it’s a daily battle analyzing my symptoms and trying to be positive. Good luck

Similar situation here. We went in for our first ultrasound 10 days ago. I was 10 weeks 5 days and feeling great. Baby was only measuring 8 weeks and had no heartbeat. We had no idea anything was wrong. Had no bleeding, no cramping. I took Misoprostol the following week and miscarried at home. Christmas has not been easy this year. Sending prayers your way.

Same thing happened to me. I miscarried back in July and I’m pregnant again now at about 6 weeks and loosing my mind! I’m not even really accepting it yet just as a defense mechanism to save my heart again from being hurt. But hang in there and talk to someone about how you feel and talk to your partner! Don’t hold it in or the feelings will hurt more. Breaks my heart knowing so many women go though this.

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