First, I drew the 9 of Swords, which I guess represents you. On the card is a picture of woman sitting up in bed worrying. Its a card that indicates worry or anxiety. Maybe it shows that you are concerned about your future, and marriage.

Second, I drew the 9 of Cups reversed, which can mean comfort mixed with disatisfaction. It could be read to mean that although you and your OH are comfortable, one or both of you is still disatisfied with the status quo. It can also represent materialism/material concerns, so maybe financial concerns are in your way?

Third, I drew the Queen of Cups, she is a good wife and mother, calm and intuitive, a healer/conselor sometimes. I feel like this represents you in the future, I think it means that no matter what, you will be fine. Maybe it does mean you will marry your OH, and everything will be good, or maybe it just means that you shouldn't worry and your family will come together.

I hope this helps, sorry if I didn't clearly answer your question. It might be good for you to look up the meanings of the cards on your own too, and see if they make more sense that way. Best of luck to you!

You know what, I think the financial thing you said meant what happened to me today. If we make too much money we don't get any help from the government with tax benefits for Lily.

Today I found out we are barely entitled to ANYTHING from them. $90 from one and $100 from the other. OH makes too much money but I'm not working so I thought for sure we'd get a bit more than that. If I was staying single or on welfare/government assistance I'd get almost $800 per month. How fair is that! No incentive for those hard workers.

Sorry for the mini rant. I just wanted to tell you I see now what you meant about finances. We can still afford to live but it would've been nice to get the extra help since I'm not working and won't be for the next 4.5 years...argh!

when will i get pregnant? /will we be able to concieve naturally? (w/o drugs or IVF)

predictions on either would be greatly appriciated

thanks in advance

Dear Moose31,

Sorry it took me forever to get to this, I left my tarot deck at work and got distracted doing other things.

For you, I drew three cards, to be read together.

First I drew the 2 of cups, the picture on the two of cups is usually two people coming together to do something. It means harmony, a good relationship, and beginnings of a good partnership. I would take this to represent your relationship with your OH, signifying you are in love and ready.

Second I drew the 6 of cups, the theme as I understand it with this card is the continuation of bringing good things from the past into the present. New things will come into your life, which will be a result of your past efforts. To me it represents, legacy, karma and inheritance, in a positive way. I take this card to mean that you will have children.

Thirdly I drew the 9 of wands reversed, this card can indicate delays, it could mean that there are practical issues standing in your way or slowing you down, or something important that has been overlooked. Maybe you should make sure you have all your ducks in a row when it comes to ttc.

I would like to know if I am ever going to have children with my partner.

Thank you.

Dear Loulou,

Sorry its taken so long for me to do the reading, but I hope you will like it anyway

For you I drew three cards, here they are:

First, I drew the 7 of cups, its a card of wishful thinking, and having many choices in front of you. It can mean that you need to think carefully and pragmatically about how to make your dreams a reality. It is a card that warns against illusion, and tells us we should keep our feet on the ground, even if our head is in the sky :-)

Second, I drew the Ace of Coins/Pentacles, this is the card of health and wealth, the best of the element of Earth. This is a positive card, it means "a change for the better" materially speaking. I think it indicates that you will make a good choice and overcome your obstacles.

Third I drew the Kind of Swords, which is the card that represents tradition, clear thinking, intellecutal power, truth and good judgement. If you read this card in tandem with the 7 of cups, I think it could mean that you have the ability to realize your desires with clear thinking and good judgement. Either that, or maybe it represents your OH, is he a very traditional man? I will leave it to you to interpret this card!

.. Will we wait until I go back to work in 2013 to get pregnant with the second baby (and will it be a girl?) .. Or will I get pregnant before 2012 ends? (Or let's say before April 2013)

Dear BlondeShorty,

As I said to the others, sorry for the delay in my response! Hope you will like the reading

For the question of when you will get pregnant I drew three cards. I hope they make sense.

First was the card of Temperance, which means good management, balance, mature decisions. I think this card represents the option of waiting to have a baby until the time is right. I get the impression that this is the plan!

Second I drew the Knight of Cups, he represents exciting changes, new offers and opportunities.

Third I drew the Tower card, which can often indicated an unplanned pregnancy. I think this means there is a good chance you will get pregnant before the "scheduled" time :-)

For the gender, I drew twice, first a 4 of cups reversed, and second a 2 of coins reversed, so I think it means you aren't going get the gender you were hoping for. But, bear in mind that you have to take these things with a grain of salt! Especially gender predictions, its hard to get a clear reading for that with tarot.

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