I have Faith, in God’s direction, guidance, and purpose in restoring Purposeful Love, and I believe there is Hope in saving relationships and marriages. What sets me apart in what I do as a Relationship Coach is I teach couples how to establish a Soulful Connection with each other. My approach to coaching couples is to ensure that all options have been exhausted and separation and/or divorce are the very last resort.

​All Relationships must be purposeful in order for them to survive and thrive. Without 100% contribution from both partners, there will always be a potential for hurt, disappointment, significant emotional pain, and ultimately the relationship ends up in breaking apart and/or divorce. The more intentional couples are about their relationship in the beginning, the higher the probability of a lifetime marriage of faith, hope, and love.

​Your spiritual belief system (your faith/religion that you both practice daily), can determine your desire, intentions, and truth on how you approach love in any relationship. My sincere belief is that in the end, only LOVE wins.

Marriage and Relationship Coaching is a proven process that will help you both:

Identify the issues and the truth regarding

Trust & respect

Communication

Family contribution

Quality time vs. quantity

Work and family life balance

Parenting roles & responsibilities

Loss of attraction and intimacy

Spiritual and religious incompatibilities

Restore and develop communication to an effective and meaningful language.

Develop a specific and purposeful healing plan that fits both unique personalities.

Understand, respect, and respond to each others love languages.

Instill accountability measures for a lifetime.

Coaching has the greatest effectiveness if one or both individuals want change and are willing to change in order to protect and preserve their relationship and marriage for life!

There is clear difference between Certified Professional Coaching and Counselors who are licensed Therapists. To determine if Marriage and/or Relationship Coaching from a Certified Professional Coach is best for you, answer the following basic questions.​

Is there an issue with clinical depression that has not been treated?

Is there an issue with on-going physical abuse?

Is there a chemical or substance addiction that is not being treated?

Is there any clinical mental health issue that has not been treated?

Is there any issue, concern, or threat for suicide?

If “YES” is your answer to any of these questions, then coaching is not your best initial choice in obtaining help in your relationship or marriage at this stage. It is best to reach out to a licensed Counselor or Therapist for their guidance and help. Anyone in the relationship that is experiencing any of these issues are typically not in a state of willingness or intentional/meaningful permanent change for their life, much less their relationship (not all, but most).

Once these above issues are being addressed in an effective treatment program, then Certified Professional Coaching can make a tremendous and purposeful difference to help reestablish faith, hope, and love.

"There are many words that can be used to describe Denika: wise, candid, brilliant, principled, etc.. This is evidenced by her overwhelming success in treating and coaching individuals as well as couples. Nevertheless, the one characteristic that I personally found to be most compelling is her fearlessness in delving into the causes of strife. She does so with the precision of a surgeon, and the compassion of an angel.

My spouse and I were in a difficult place after 16 years of marriage, and Denika worked with both of us, individually as well as collectively, to help us discover the roots of the malaise that had infected our relationship. It was more than her almost preternatural ability to understand and empathize with us; there is a deeply spiritual element to Denika’s presence that resonates with one’s soul.

Words cannot do justice to the positive and profound influence Denika has had on our lives and in our marriage. She was fearless in her selflessness to guide us to a better place. The words to describe our gratitude and our love for her have yet to be invented. Her assistance went well beyond what we expected in a therapist or a counselor; now she belongs to us as a part of our family."-Jamal Khawaja, Houston TX

"Thank you Ms. Denika Penn-Carothers for sharing your professional knowledge in the area of relationships. Not onlydid you touch on couples, but went across the board into many types of relationships starting with our friendships! I truly believe that many individuals and couples would benefit from your teleseminars. There were many nuggets given to help us think and explore self and how we interact with each other. By helping us understand that it is important to be consciously aware and take notice of our interaction in our immediate environment, would allow us to communcate more effectively. Last night proved yet again that your Knowledge is King and definitely needed. Thank you again!"-Dana Ellis, Houston TX

"After an SOS call to Denika about a major challenge I was experiencing in my marriage, she invited my husband and I to her tele-seminar which we found very liberating. The information received was so informative and has helped both my husband and I in our daily interaction with each other. What really pulled our attention was the 5 love languages. This information has helped us to better understand each others feelings and emotions, after misunderstanding how to communicate effectively and lovingly with each other. Her information helped us see how we "speak to each other from our hurt rather than speaking from our heart." I would highly recommend this Denika's coaching to anyone who is experiencing challenges in any relationship, whether marital or other." ​-Trevina Dawkins, Port St. Lucie, FL

"Denika Carothers is extremely sincere and I felt like she was so honest and real with me, which I feel made us connect so much. She connected to me and I was so open and clear with her during my counseling. She is a guiding light and an angel. She helped me focus and remember things about myself that I forgot of, and shed so much light into how I can contiue to heal and live my life to the fullest. Some people are gems, and Denika Carothers is a diamond! I wish more people knew about her. Her insight was amazing. I feel like she fixed so many of my previous ways of thinking and made me a positive person. She gave me confidence and coached me and my husband and helped our marriage, and I can never forget how much she has done for us. My husband clicked with her and my family loved her. These days people are so hard to click with and it was a rare encounter to find a counselor like her to lift all of our spirits up. She brought us all out of darkness and we have all benefited, and we're now working together to achieve peace, love and happiness towards each other." -Sarah Zaman, Houston TX

"Who you are today is a result of what you have thought in the past. Who you will be tomorrow will be a result of what you think today! Choose your thoughts carefully for with them you create EVERYTHING in your life!" ​