Hey firegoat. I didn’t quite get what you meant. Do you mean bed humping has the same effect as masterbating in terms of how much it works the penis. Should I edge?

01-06-2008, 03:24 PM

androNYC

I never ever mastErbate.

But I’ve been known to mastUrbate several times a day. ;)And often without cumming at all.

Are you living in some group setting where you can’t simply kick back and work your unit?

I wouldn’t get wood if all I had to look at was myself in the mirror- I need visual stim of some sort- even if it’s just an underwear ad in a magazine to build a fantasy upon- but maybe that’s just me.

I’m guessing you’re under 25, maybe even under 21? At home or in a dormitory?

I personally have no experience with bed humping, so I can’t speak to it at all. But I’d suggest that you dial back on the number of times you cum in a given day simply to leave you more ready wood to jelq when you can.

Bed humping won’t move your PE along- why not use that time to make better friends with our unit? Clearly you can get wood alone in the dark.

Dry jelq [assuming you don’t have the dreaded overly tight shaft skin] that wood instead- experiment with different grips.

[personally I prefer a single hand ‘reverse OK’, starting from digging in at the root, choking down on the meatus at 90%+ max grip, into the fat pad and working a 2-3 second stroke to just shy of the glans, then kegeling to maintain turgidity as I reset my grip- this method permits me to Feel the meatus slip through the choke and the blood compress in the remaining tissue- also offering a decent stretch on the already stroked meatus- but maybe that’s just me]

Get on it.

;)

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01-06-2008, 03:53 PM

firegoat

Originally Posted by MMAfanatic

Hey firegoat. I didn’t quite get what you meant. Do you mean bed humping has the same effect as masturbating in terms of how much it works the penis. Should I edge?

I don’t think of masturbating or bed humping or sex as part of PE. None of these will create anything like the pressure of jelqing.

What I meant was that if you prefer bed humping to masturbating with your hand, and want to use that method for edging etc., it makes no difference. Edging is just about keeping near the ‘point of no return’ for a long time without cumming. It really doesn’t matter what method you use.

I don’t think of edging as PE either; it’s really about learning control and becoming a better lover.

Different people masturbate different ways. Some people use a lot of force, some use little force. Watch your Physiological Indicators (if you don’t know what they are, there is a thread under ‘Recent Articles’ on the left of the homepage all about them). They are what you should use to judge how much more or less effort you should be putting into your PE.

Heat makes the difference between gaining quickly or slowly for some guys, or between gaining slowly instead of not at all for others. And the ideal penis size is 7.6" BPEL x 5.6" Mid Girth.

I sometimes am weary because my parents go to the toilet at night so maybe this is my downfall. But my brother is leaving today so I have a bathroom to myself from now.

Maybe this should rectify the problem.

Yeah I think I do need to cut down on the bed humping. LOL. But for pleasure I highly recommend it.

01-06-2008, 05:24 PM

androNYC

I suggest you keep some soft core [FHM, Details, Gear- whatever] in the bath to give you wood material and then you don’t have to jelq to yourself. ;)

At 18/ 19, you should be getting hard if a stiff breeze blows- so dial back all ‘masturbation’ and put that jing ‘yang’ energy into your PE practice. Save the cum as an end of day thing- and try to kegel it back simply to use as much of your dick time for PE as possible.

I’m not suggesting that wanking is a bad thing, or that it counters PE- rather that it doesn’t move PE forward.

I’m not even saying that you shold devote ll your energies to PE- rather that you are at a unique place in that you are already interested in pursuing PEand you are at an age that [in MY opinion] you can more readily impact your physiology as many elements are still not quite ‘set’ yet.

Why not take advantage of that.

Learn how to control your cum, learn how to edge, learn how your dick works for real- not just the general mechanics of a sex ed class.

I don’t know if you’re still a virgin [nothing wrong if you are- just sets a different context]- but if you are, it will be nice if can concentrate on learning aobut your partner without also having to learn the basics about yourself.And even if you aren’t a virgin, at 19 you simply can’t have too much mileage- you’ve barely gotten rid of the factory smell- so it still holds that you can learn more about yourself to bring more to the table with your lovers, present and future.

I’m simply telling you waht I’d like to be told if I were in your position, or what I’d tell my own son at 18, should I ever have one.

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