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everyone needs to STOP TELLING ME...

that i need to get some sun!!! i do NOT go tanning. i do NOT want to use fake bronzers. i do NOT want to go outside with the ultraviolet rays in their peak! i will NOT! not now, and not EVER. i am NOT a VAMPIRE. or a DAYWALKER. and i'm so sorry that i HAUNT you with my WHITENESS. no, i do not WISH i could be 'tan'. and no it is not WINTER WHITENESS. this is what i look like all year long.

i love my skin the way it is. i don't want to damage it, or get skin cancer, or spots, or more moles then i already have. i am PROUD of my natural skin color. yes, it is quite pale. my SO tells me i look as if i bathe in fresh milk every day. that i am his little porcelain dolly. i think he is the ONLY person i have met that had something positive to say about my coloring. i am going now to put my 100spf sunscreen on, and continue to find things to do around the house until the sun goes down.

LOL! I get that a lot my self. I get only two shades darker in the summer and that is with sunscreen. I look at it like I will look a lot better when i get older than some people who hunt the sun down on a regular basis.

i do agree that taking care of yourself NOW INCLUDING your skin, will be better in the long run for aging nicely. and i DON'T HAVE icky TAN LINES. that is a plus.... let's think of some more POSITIVES about our lovely pale skin...please. i need a boost today!

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