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I need some space

Posted 18th May 2010 35

I feel so suffocated right now and he has no idea. Every day he tells me how much he loves me and how he has never been more happy or at ease with anyone else. He wants to spend every single day with me and as much as i love spending time with him i’m starting to feel like i’m drowning in his love, gasping for air and no way of catching my breath!It makes me feel so guilty because he is everything i’ve ever wanted and although i don’t want to break up with him, i need some space, time to see my friends, family and most of all time to myself. I don’t even know how to tell him this because i know he will feel really rejected and have that “lost” look in his eyes but if i let this carry on, i will drown, the relationship will end and he will feel even more rejected.

So do i tell him how i feel and hurt him a little or carry on feeling smothered and end up hurting him a lot?

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Posted by Anonymous 19th May 2010

wow, i am in exactly the same situation. although my boyfriend knows that i need my own space now.i’ve said to him ‘hey, why don’t you arrange a day to hang out with your friends, cos me and the girls have plans on this day or that day’

you are allowed to do other things, you will just have to tell him that sometimes, you want to hang out with your friends and family, but reassure him that you’ll see him soon.