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what is the best thing to do if my baby father is being irresponsible?

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my baby father has problems accepting the fact that he is going to be a father and is on and off about it this is his first child should i leave him and make it a single parent thing or should i deal with his mood swings and work with him trough this

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Tell him that while he makes up his mind about becoming a father, that you in the meantime have to prepare for the birth of this child. So until he can decide what he wants, you're making the decision to take a break from him.

we are currently not physically together we are still around each other but the way i see it is that he has a girlfriend that is 2 years younger than i am and he prefers to do that instead of take on da fact that he is going to be a daddy idk what to do anymore

LOL. Hes having mood swings is he preg or are you :) I think u shouldnt wt around for a boy to grow up and become a man. The truth is hes going to become a dad likes it or not its a fact and if he cant accept it then tell him to move aside because u have better things to do then to wt around for him to grow up. Simple as that. your having ababy and hes acting like one do you really want to raise a baby and be involved with one who acts like one? I am telling you by exper. It is so much easer being a single mother then being in a relationship with aman who dosent want to grow up. I hope i am not sounding harsh i dont mean too its just that i was with my babys dad for 1 yr i waisted my time thinking hed grow up but he never did life was hard with him being around and having a baby but once he was gone it was so much easer not that being a single parent is easy cause its not its hard but its harder being in a relationship with a man who ackts like a child. like i said i hope im not being harsh this just really hit home for me. Good luck hun.

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