Little thing you wish ur partner did better?

Umm actually. He was a great communicator when we met. It's just recently something I'd change that he's decided to lack in. But I can't blame him for that, he works long hours and is a busy guy. I'm just saying I'd rather have more communication time with him. And I believe that the likeliness of him changing isn't slim. Since he's been a great communicator in the past ;o)

Umm actually. He was a great communicator when we met. It's just recently something I'd change that he's decided to lack in. But I can't blame him for that, he works long hours and is a busy guy. I'm just saying I'd rather have more communication time with him. And I believe that the likeliness of him changing isn't slim. Since he's been a great communicator in the past ;o)

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well then what you complaining about lol? he is putting food on the table.j/k

if he is a workaholic you gotta understand that and just cherish those times you do get to communicate.

usually signs of cheating is lack of communication in a relationship....you always hear it "but we used to communicate so well!"

but seems in your shoes your mans only affair is with his job...

if you need the money then i suggest to sacrifice and try to make the best of it...but if you guys dont need the cash try to talk to him about the long hours and such..

alot of times what happens is the person who is in your shoes becomse embarrassed to even bring it up...so even more lack of communication happens ya know? dont be scared to do it after all he is your hubby you should be comfortable to just say anything randomly without feeling uncomfortable.

I wouldn't call him a workaholic. He does his job and he comes home. He's home by 7pm every nite---but we don't communicate during that time since he's tired and I respect him enough to let him have his "space". Weekends are our time. We do communicate, just not enough for me to be satisfied haha.

We just have a different meaning to communication, that's all. He feels he communicates and he does---but I'm female. I like to have the long talks--the ones that take forever. Where he rather just get it off his chest and leave it be. Ya know?

I wouldn't call him a workaholic. He does his job and he comes home. He's home by 7pm every nite---but we don't communicate during that time since he's tired and I respect him enough to let him have his "space". Weekends are our time. We do communicate, just not enough for me to be satisfied haha.

We just have a different meaning to communication, that's all. He feels he communicates and he does---but I'm female. I like to have the long talks--the ones that take forever. Where he rather just get it off his chest and leave it be. Ya know?

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ya...but trust me once you start having those long talks regularly it would be the new thing to complain about"eh why does he have to talk with me so long im sick of it he used to be so mysterious" hahah

I go out, I enjoy life outside of my family with my friends. Not often, but often enough for me )

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just becareful when you discuss your private life amongst girlfriends avoid those girls who do nothing but instigate they are good at it too you could say lack of communication and it would already equal oh he has a woman on the side blah blah blah...cant stand those type of chicks...they call em homewreckers.

I don't hang out with those "types". I'm good. I know he's not cheating LOL. Furthest thing from it. I trust him with my whole heart. If he does, means he doesn't love me. His loss. But I can bet on my life that no one I know would even suggest that, since they know him and how he is ;o)

I don't hang out with those "types". I'm good. I know he's not cheating LOL. Furthest thing from it. I trust him with my whole heart. If he does, means he doesn't love me. His loss. But I can bet on my life that no one I know would even suggest that, since they know him and how he is ;o)

But thanks for the advice hehe ;o)

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good seems you got a good head on your shoulders your not a city girl i take it or big on clubbing.

probally why your able to stay away from all the drama...you dont associate with it thats the best way to enjoy life lol

That's exactly it. I'm not a city girl, I live in a very small town lol. I don't go out clubbing alot. Last time I was out was in May? I will be going out again for my Birthday next week (25!!! ahhhh lol). It's just not something I enjoy doing ALL the time ;o) after all, I am a mommy! I rather spend my weekends with them.

That's exactly it. I'm not a city girl, I live in a very small town lol. I don't go out clubbing alot. Last time I was out was in May? I will be going out again for my Birthday next week (25!!! ahhhh lol). It's just not something I enjoy doing ALL the time ;o) after all, I am a mommy! I rather spend my weekends with them.

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trust me though circumstance is holding you from doing that wild scene....see if you didnt have a family youd probally fall into that trap of drinking every night, partying, having random sex maybe even trying your hand at a few net porns....i think you were saved from a life of worthless hell to be honest clubbing shit is for empty people.

those chicks in a couple of years wish they had what you have trust me on that...in a way you have every right to be a bit arrogant ya know? any woman who is saying they dont wanna settle down or be in love is bullshitting out there mouth....the only reason they say that is cause the attention they get at clubs is temporarily replacing the love they dont have at home...once they lose there lyouthfulness and looks they suffer.

i say this cause you gotta watch out for these types of women ex wild women who all of a sudden see a woman who is happy in love has a great man and then sh will try to break up your happy marriage by trying to get with your man...it may not happen but if it does keep it in the back of your head...i know this cause my aunt was a homewrecker she loved breaking up happy marriages.... these are the worst type of bitches on earth...and sad to say the majority of them love clubbing.

Nah honey. You got me all wrong lol. If I were to be single. I wouldn't be out drinking every nite. It's just not me. I also wouldn't be having random sex (okay okay so maybe random anal sex, but that's different). It's totally not me at all. Never was and never will be.

I think you have me all wrong lol. My husband would never cheat on me. He'd never find another woman (unless he didn't love me, in that case I'd know before it happened). And he never goes anywhere to find these "homewreckers". So I'm pretty secure with my marriage as far as that goes lol. He rarely even talks to females. I'm all good. Got a good trust with him, believe that ;o)

I know the type you're speaking of tho. They just aren't around here ) (or around me anyway).

Nah honey. You got me all wrong lol. If I were to be single. I wouldn't be out drinking every nite. It's just not me. I also wouldn't be having random sex (okay okay so maybe random anal sex, but that's different). It's totally not me at all. Never was and never will be.

I think you have me all wrong lol. My husband would never cheat on me. He'd never find another woman (unless he didn't love me, in that case I'd know before it happened). And he never goes anywhere to find these "homewreckers". So I'm pretty secure with my marriage as far as that goes lol. He rarely even talks to females. I'm all good. Got a good trust with him, believe that ;o)

I know the type you're speaking of tho. They just aren't around here ) (or around me anyway).

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wow u must live in the middle of nowhere! lol

i live in southern california almost every girl here is into clubbing and paris hilton...i have yet to see a strong moral fiber here lol...people dont have principles especially the chicks they are cut throat hoes...the clubs in hollywood they have so many hoochies trying to be the next socialite and these hoochies live in small homes or apartments but they spend there whole check on gucci, prada all that rich peple stuff to try and impress...its lame if you think about it.