“You have heard that it was said, ‘You shall not commit adultery.’But I say to you that everyone who looks at a woman with lustful intent has already committed adultery with her in his heart.If your right eye causes you to sin, tear it out and throw it away. For it is better that you lose one of your members than that your whole body be thrown into hell.”

Featured Presentation:How to Create a Porn-Free Home

Special Guest: Matt Dobschuetz

In this episode, I discuss the following important topics and much more with my special guest:

How a porn addiction starts and its dangerous journey

The impact of pornography on your home and family relationships

How to recover from a porn addiction

Protecting your family in a porn-filled culture

The spiritual impact of pornography

and, much much more.

Some Vital Statistics about pornography among Christians:

The statistics for Christian men between 18 and 30 years old are particularly striking:

77 percent look at pornography at least monthly.

36 percent view pornography on a daily basis.

32 percent admit being addicted to pornography (and another 12 percent think they may be).

The statistics for middle-aged Christian men (ages 31 to 49) are no less disturbing:

77 percent looked at pornography while at work in the past three months.

64 percent view pornography at least monthly.

18 percent admit being addicted to pornography (and another 8 percent think they may be).

Even married Christian men are falling prey to pornography and extramarital sexual affairs at alarming rates:

55 percent look at pornography at least monthly.

35 percent had an extramarital sexual affair while married.

Source: The 2014 survey was commissioned by a nonprofit organization called Proven Men Ministries and conducted by Barna Group among a nationally representative sample of 388 self-identified Christian adult men.

If you have any questions, just leave it in the comments for this episode or leave a voicemail on my website

Feel free to leave me a voicemail message with any questions or concerns by going to HaroldArnold.com and clicking “Send Voicemail” on the right side of the screen.

Please do me a huge favor and click HERE to go to iTunes and leave me a rating and review. It will only take 2 minutes of your time. And, it means so much to me. And, just for you, I’ll give you a shout out on the next show.

“Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God”.

Featured Presentation: Five Daily Prayers to Say Over Your Children

Payer #1: Pray for Wisdom

(pray that your children have knowledge of what is true or right coupled with just judgment as to action)

Proverbs 9:10 “The fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom, and the knowledge of the Holy One is insight.”

James 3:15 tells us that the Fear of the Lord (is the beginning of wisdom) but it continues…

Pure

Peaceable

Gentle

Open to reason

Full of mercy

Full of good fruits

Impartial

Sincere

Prayer #2: Pray for Discernment

(pray that your children possess acute of judgment and biblical understanding about all areas of life)

(1 Thes 5:21-22) “But examine everything carefully; hold fast to that which is good; abstain from every form of evil.”

Prayer #3: Pray for Favor

(pray that your children receive favor from God and from people in authority)

Favor entails acceptance, approval, pleasure (and GRACE)

(Psalm 5:12) “Surely, LORD, you bless the righteous; you surround them with your favor as with a shield.”

Prayer #4: Pray for Health

(pray that your children be in excellent physical and mental health)

(Proverbs 3:24-26) “When you lie down, you will not be afraid; when you lie down, your sleep will be sweet. Have no fear of sudden disaster or of the ruin that overtakes the wicked, for the LORD will be at your side and will keep your foot from being snared.”

Prayer #5: Pray that they Lead

(pray that your children are leaders in their generation)

Feel free to leave me a voicemail message with any questions or concerns by going to HaroldArnold.com and clicking “Send Voicemail” on the right side of the screen.

Please do me a huge favor and click HERE to go to iTunes and leave me a rating and review. It will only take 2 minutes of your time. And, it means so much to me. And, just for you, I’ll give you a shout out on the next show.

“Now then, choose twelve men from the tribes of Israel, one from each tribe. 13 And as soon as the priests who carry the ark of the Lord—the Lord of all the earth—set foot in the Jordan, its waters flowing downstream will be cut off and stand up in a heap.”

(Joshua 3:12-13)

Featured Presentation: Turn the Page of Your Life’s Story

Special Guest: Dr. Johnny Parker

In this episode I discuss the following important topics and much more with my special guest:

What is missing in leadership

Why men struggle to listen to their heart

Why we feel stuck in a bad story

The questions to ask to turn the page in your life

and, much much more!

If you have any questions, just leave it in the comments for this episode or leave a voicemail on my website

Feel free to leave me a voicemail message with any questions or concerns by going to HaroldArnold.com and clicking “Send Voicemail” on the right side of the screen.

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About Dr. Harold Arnold

I am the author of Marriage ROCKS for Christian Couples and the accompanying Leader's Guide, both published by Judson Press.

As a Social & Organizational psychologist who is also trained as a Marriage and Family therapist, I help families reach their dreams--not necessarily in terms of just money or things--but in those relational areas that ultimately matter most.

I help leaders build what I call "relational equity" in homes, workplaces, and ministries by encouraging individuals, teams, and congregations to tap into their true inner strengths and their higher calling.

Most importantly, I encourage you to assert yourself as an influential leader in your home, workplace, and ministry.

Black and Married With Kids
Lamar and Ronnie Tyler are inspirational trendsetters, utilizing video and blogging as a medium for transforming African American marriages. Check out their award winning website that is both educational and entertaining.http://www.blackandmarriedwithkids.comHouse on the Rock Family Ministries
Dr. Bruce and Karen continue to develop innovative ways to help every aspect of family life. Their zeal helps keep me excited too.http://www.hotrfm.orgInverse Ministries
Clint and Penny are marriage missionaries with an amazing story of forgiveness, redemption, and humility. They inspire me every time I speak with them. Their 40-day marriage mission trips across the U.S. is amazing to witness.http://www.inverseministries.orgNicole Cleveland
Nicole is an inspiration. It just takes 30 seconds talking to her to realize that. While her credits as an author and speaker are impressive, I'm most touched by the way she uses her own transparency to help others find healing from abuse.http://nicolecleveland.comSheila Wray Gregoire
Sheila's website is chock full of resources for both leaders and moms. I really like her humor and down to earth style and her seemingly endless source of helpful advice.http://www.sheilawraygregoire.comTwogether Marriages
Deidra and Dwight Roussaw know travel for couples. When I need to talk to someone about planning or ideas for a travel-related event for couples the first call is always to them.http://www.twogethermarriages.blogspot.com

About Me

This is the question that I have asked many of my family, friends, and those who have trusted me in various leadership roles. The word that I most frequently hear is “teacher“.

Initially, I wondered if “teacher” aptly captures my complex array of interests and aspirations. But, the more I think about it, the more I have come to embrace myself as an educator. After all, I love to learn. Some of this is evident in my academic journey that has culminated in my doctorate in Psychology and Master’s degree in Marriage and Family therapy.