Thursday, November 20, 2014

It is a big
question because when we a in love with some opposite gender our heart and mind
wishes to have a physical relation with that partner. When we are having
physical relations that is called sex and a very emotional feeling flows
through heart, mind and whole body during the period of physical relations.
THAT FEELING MAY BE CALLED LOVE.

The other angle
of love and sex depends on age of person’s involved in the relation. If they
are new young teenagers they will have more attractions and wish towards
physical relations (SEX) because of their hormonal changes in their body and it
is a new world for them however if both partners are of middle age group they
will wish for physical relations with emotional bond between them. If partners
are in their 40’s they will have more emotional and social bondage between them
and less physical relations and if partners are in 50’s then there are more
then 90% social and emotional relations and only 10% chances of physical
relations because in 50’s normally hormones and body of human beings are on
declining sides and energy levels are low compared to their young age. Also in
50’s peoples have more maturity and surrounded with responsibilities.

It can be said
that age is a very big factor deciding about LOVE AND SEX. As per age of person
involved it has different meaning of LOVE AND SEX for them. Also society gives
recognition to love but not to sex(illegal or unsocial).

Wednesday, November 12, 2014

A family is a
basic unit of any society and this fact is a universal worldwide truth
applicable to whole humanity. In today fast moving world of metro cities
normally nuclear families exist and in villages also culture of nuclear family
is common but some big families exist as a exception. In nuclear families
Husband, wife and their studying children’s are part of family. When children’s
goes out of home for higher education and then for search of better career only
Husband and Wife remains in that nuclear family. The important point is how much
values any child gets from his family environment whether good of bad.
Childrens watch discussions between their parents. childrens learn thoughts and
values taught by parents. They also go through listening talks of family friends
and now a days Television (TV), internet and mobile makes a important
impression on their minds and thoughts. In today’sbusy life do we get time to give good moral
values to our childrens. We hardly get any time to visit temple/religious
placeregularly and not able to pray in
morning because husband and wife both are working in modern world. When we
ourselves not do prayers at home and temple how our childrens will move forward
in their life without religious thought and spiritualism.

HOW WE WILL
INCULCATE GOOD MORAL VALUES IN THEM?

IS IT THE SOLE
RESPONSIBILITY OF SCHOOL AND ITS TEACHERS?

My personal view
is that television, internet and mobiles must be put to use in right direction
and good moral TV shows, channels may be seen by whole family members whenever
they watch TV.

Also internet
has lot of moral and spiritual text, audio, graphics and videos which can be
studied, listened and seen by parents and their wards and same is applicable to
mobiles also.

If possible
every family must try to visit temple once a week and on festivals. If we want
a better society for coming tomorrow then good moral, spiritual values are
necessary for our wards. So each family must put their efforts towards a good
society.

Wednesday, November 5, 2014

In Haryana
recently election held on 15th October, 2014 in which 1351
candidates are in the fight. As per general view of common man average
expenditure of one candidate for purpose of election is Rs.1,00,00,000/-
(Rupees One Crore) although the limit given by election commission is
Rs.28,00,000/-(Rupees Twenty Eight lacs) as per information with me. If the
figure of Rs.One Crore is multiplied to the number of candidates fighting
elections then it will be as follows :-

135 * 1,00,00,000/-=Rs.13,51,00,00,000/-(Rs.
One thousand three hundred fifty one crores)

WOW IT IS REALLY
A VERY BIG FIGURE. ISN’T IT?

Other than the
candidates expenditures election commission also needs to spend so much money
to hold the election in form of security arrangements, on duty officers etc.
This will be minimum around Rs.500 crores. Also all the government offices,
private offices, schools, banks etc. remains close due to election and roughly
it will also cost atleast Rs.1000 crores to the economy of state. If we add all
the above expenses the figure will be Rs.2500 crores (a really very big
amount).

The important
point is if this Rs.2500 crores spent for development and betterment of society
and state can make BIG DIFFERENCE.

As per my
knowledge till date this issue is not raised by any leader, celebrity, media
and anyone else. A discussion must be hold on the above point. Media must ask
this question to all candidates and political parties and on part of election
commission, the authorities must search out the ways, methods to reduce cost of
holding elections. It can be by holding elections on holidays or re-imbursement
of working hours of election duty on some other day. Election if possible can
be digitized to reduce cost. Many more methods may be their which can be looked
upon.

I am sure that
the above points of expenditure and cost reduction if implemented can greatly
change the picture of State economy and will benefit common man.