Is it okay for the woman to keep it, or should she have to give it back? If you think the woman should not only get to keep it, she should also get to sell it, then congratulations, you have at least one thing in common with
Playboy founder Hugh Hefner.

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As you may recall, Hef's former fiancée, 25-year-old Playboy model Crystal Harris, called off her wedding to Hefner just days before the big day was supposed to happen earlier this month. Afterwards, she offered to return the $90, 000 engagement ring, but
Hef told her she could keep it.

Now, let's get one thing out of the way before moving on: Obviously Hugh Hefner and his bevy of blonde tarts couldn't possibly be exemplars of normal relationship behaviour, although give Harris credit for offering to return the ring. But let's suppose, for argument's sake, you're not an 85-year-old millionaire founder of a porno empire with a penchant for dating girls in their 20s and offering them plenty of your - ahem - generosity in return. You're just a guy who was engaged but now your betrothed has broken it off.

What should happen to the engagement ring in that situation? Maybe, because I am a guy, I am biased towards the guy getting the ring back. But I'm pretty sure I favour that option because it also seems entirely reasonable.
People pay a lot of money for engagement rings.

But they're not gifts - at least not the kind that come with no strings attached. They're actually the perfect example of a conditional offer: If you accept the marriage proposal, you get this ring. If you don't accept the proposal, hand that sucker back. When a guy gets down on one knee and offers up that bright shiny token of his love, he's not just holding out a bag of cash that the woman gets to keep regardless of her answer. Also, selling it is way, way tackier than keeping it. That's what I think. Maybe you disagree.