You have a date with a girl — and you may be in a position to make-out a bit. In this video men’s style, grooming, fitness and lifestyle expert, Aaron Marino of IAmAlphaM, AaronMarino, and Pete & Pedro says that you know how to make that first move. It’s probably your job to make the first make-out move unless she’s drunk or a sexual savage.

Making the first move happens in every relationship, and at some point, you need to be ready to engage and make it happen. Just be a gentleman and respect her space. Take it slowly (you don’t need to sleep with her), because the slow relationships allow connections to build a better relationship.

Be a {Gentleman} When Making That First Move

Make sure you’re not going to gross her out — clean ears, trim nose hair, brush teeth, scrape your tongue, powder your balls, use deodorant, and a couple of sprays of fragrance.

Open the door(s) for her

Body language speaks to you — signs that she likes you include moving closer to you, playful touching, preening, and touching her hair. If you don’t act on these signs, she’ll think you’re not into her.

Close the distance when you’re getting ready

Shut up and stop talking — look at her eyes then lips with each time getting a bit closer. Get in the zone.

If she pulls back, laugh it off and don’t take it too personally. However, if it’s not happening after additional dates, it’s probably time to move on.

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