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Begin two nights before the big day: Give the bride a blank card in an envelope addressed to her groom, and give him one for her. Each should write a note for the other to read the night before they marry.

The final gift on the wedding day not only is practical but also signifies that each spouse needs the other to complete a perfect pair: One set of white cotton pajamas is embroidered with the bride's first initial on top and the groom's on the bottom.