DrJesus: To bar Patrick from entering the space and participating in the

DrJesus: To bar Patrick from entering the space and participating in the

community. [Recorder: note the full consensus item includes Patrick's full

community. [Recorder: note the full consensus item includes Patrick's full

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name, and is recorded in the consensus log.]

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name, and is recorded in the [[Consensus_Items_History|consensus items history]].]

(Discussion about whether and to what extent the consensus item can be changed. Consensus is that we can change it within reason to reflect the actual consensus without resetting the whole process, and that a one word change falls under this tradition)

(Discussion about whether and to what extent the consensus item can be changed. Consensus is that we can change it within reason to reflect the actual consensus without resetting the whole process, and that a one word change falls under this tradition)

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Consensus items

To bar Patrick from entering the space and participating in the community.

A note from the note-taker. This was obviously a long conversation, and my note-taking is imperfect. I'd encourage everyone present to edit their own entries (and spelling of their names) if they feel they are inaccurate or add comments that I missed, and anyone who feels curious to contact the contributors to clarify before taking this as the perfect description of their opinions or statements.

DrJesus first asks if anyone is acting as a proxy for Patrick at Patrick's request. No-one is.

Danny clarifies that unlike last week, all comments, unless specifically
requested and agreed to as confidential, will be added to the record.

Shannon says he is less comfortable the less open we are.

Rubin would like it to be first added to the record that Patrick can "die in a
fire".

That said, Rubin would also add that this is an unprecedented big deal
for Noisebridge. It may be the first time we've banned someone from the space.
Patrick has got a pretty good idea that he's not welcome here. Whether or not
he uses common sense is another matter. But by banning somebody we open a lot
of doors to the future. This sets a baseline for how much a dick you have to
be for future bannings.

(Printed copies of the evidence collected from last week and available in the
space since then are passed around.)

Claudia: He seems depressed and innocuous in the space. Online, though, I find
him a major annoyance and actually the reason why I signed off the list. I am
feeling the reason for banning him is because he's a pain in the neck, not
because of this evidence.

Al S.: Being a dick is not going to get you kicked out of Noisebridge. Yes, I
do believe that Patrick was dangerous. Not just because of the evidence, but
because of the way he handles it. He denies he's doing anything wrong, he makes
up lies to cover up what he's doing. He makes accusations against the people
he's harassing.

Shannon: That's annoying, not dangerous.

Al S.: Well, much of this stuff is social blunders. But note when the person
who feels they are being harassed responds and tells him to stop, he denies
that the person really wants him to stop, that they would benefit from physical
intimacy with him. Harmless is not how I would characterize that.

Rikke: I've been reading the evidence. I've been reading about stalkers and
their victims, and typical patterns of harassment. Particular aspects of the
wording, certain undertones and discriptions to interactions and his responses
to what's been going on online, in my opinion, point to a delusional, even
borderline sociopathic behavior. I know these are big words to throw around,
and I don't want to do it lightly. I agree with Al: he is displaying a series
of behavioral patterns that because he absolutely refuses to confront the
issues people have with him, are appearing to slowly spin out of control into
full-scale delusionality. That's not uncommon, and if he keeps coming up
against these situations and these confrontations, I genuinely feel it could
spur a serious incident. I think it is best not just for this community, and
best for this space and best for Patrick in a more long-term sense that he's no
longer here.

Danny: Jim raised the good point on the mailing list which is: Why are we doing
this through consensus, given that people do-acratically signed a statement using saying that Patrick
was unwelcome and that they would escort him from the building? Last meeting
came collectively to the conclusion that consensus was appropriate. We discovered that some members were not at that meeting
because they no longer felt safe at NB because of Patrick's behavior. Given this, we felt
that if we did run it through consensus, we would make it clear that this
behavior is unacceptable by Noisebridge as a whole. Secondly: given that
Patrick's view of reality was often so much at variance with everyone elses', we
were unsure whether he would react correctly to people simply saying he wasn't
welcome; that he might come back, or convince himself that it was small
minority. Consensus was intended to send a stronger
signal to him. Finally, the consensus would provide Noisebridge as a legal
entity the ability to take further actions, such as apply for a restraining
order if that became necessary. I put forward a worry that if it failed, then we would return back to people feeling unsafe because it would be interpreted as condoning
Patricks' behavior. Whatever happens in this meeting, we should make clear
what our decision actually means beyond this case: we can say whether we're not
setting a precedent, or we can say we're not banning this person but we still
strongly disapprove of the behavior.

(At this point, and conveniently after his own long speech, the note-taker's magic surveillance pen ran out of battery, so the notes are paraphrasing much more from this point. Sorry -- particularly to DrJesus whose function as moderator has apparently meant that his many useful contributions got largely subsumed into the general "discussion" asides. Damnit.)

Shannon: I've read through the evidence folder. I don't think this reaches to
even the minimum requirements for harassment in the workplace. I think it points
to him being bad at picking up women. I feel that what we're really doing here is
banning this person for his consistent inability to work within our group.

Ryce: I've dealt with Patrick on some important occasions. I was there when he
was pulled up by police officers while driving and gave his residence as 2169.
I was there at 3AM when I saw him removing change from the donation bin. I
agree with Shannon, the conflict is with his social ability in general.

Rachel M: If Patrick had said to me the stuff he'd said, I would not have felt
harassed but that's not the point. The people who it happened to felt unsafe,
and they are grown-up sensible people with better things to deal than deal with
this. They felt unsafe, and that's what we need to concentrate on. But we
are meeting today about two things: one is what to do about Patrick. And the
other is to discuss how we are handling it. We should keep those two processes
separate.

Heph: I agree with Shannon's point: he doesn't know how to behave. But I
believe strongly if you can't behave, and you mentally can't change your
behavior in this space, then we should still be able to exclude such people.

Shannon: Oh don't misunderstand me. I want to ban the rat, I just disagree with
the stated reasons why. His behavior failings in general are sufficient.

Rachel H: I think people might think we're banning Patrick because we don't
like him. But I think the reason is that he consistently fails to get how to work
within the space.

Rubin: Let me try and define that. There's lots of people in the space whose
behavior I disagree with. Heph for one. [Heph and Rubin spar]. But this is
really different. I've tried several times to reach out to him, and
trouble-shoot why his behavior isn't working in the space. He has totally
ignored me, and refused to enter into fixing these disagreements in a spirit of
problem-solving. He doesn't respond, and has actively avoided me.

Question: How many people have reached out to him? (Lot of hands)
How many people have got no response? (A few hands)
How many people have got the response "fuck off"? (More hands)

Snail: All of these people contacted him, and yet he says publicly that no-one
has approached him.

Leif: I feel he is a habitual liar. He keeps saying he has a degree, but
privately told me that he "almost" has a degree.

Jason Dusek: I'll second Shannon that this isn't just about this particular
incident of harassment, but a combination. His continuing patterns of
harassment, intransigence, more harassment, and then continuing intransigence.

If I've had similar behavior from say Rubin, I would be able to say WTF, and
have a talk, and work to fix it. This is about Patrick's failure to be
reasonable.

(???): I think many people who are socially anxious or awkward may worry if NB may turn
against them like this. I want to emphasize that this is extraordinary, and that
Patrick's behavior has been building up to this for a very long time.

Rubin: Yes, this behavior started long before this particular incident.

Heph: The point of this consensus to ban a behavior. Someone is not welcome
here if they can't be reasoned with.

Crutcher: Against Heph's point: Nothing we can do here is actually actionable.
We can't refer to this decision as a precedent in the future without having an
equally long drawn-out discussion about any future behavior.

(Some agreement that this is a good thing)

Carol: I'm new here, and I'd like to ask how long did it take before it got to this point.

Rubin: Let's say 2-3 months.

(General discussion of dates. Andi notes that Patrick first mailed the NB lists
on Nov. 29th, had been around before that. Clarification that while his
behavior had been building up to this, things happened quickly after the key
incident of harassment on Feb 18. Rachel M notes that many felt that things
happened too quickly.)

Carol: I would just like to understand whether this is a place that takes the
safety of its members seriously.

Rubin: You should not feel safe in this space! Have you seen that laser cutter?

Rubin: Consensus seems to be that people are unhappy with Patrick, for general
unexcellent behavior. But we have not defined what "banning" means. We had a
membership sub-committee at 83C which deliberated on what it meant to be a
member, and also considered how we could ban someone (specifically a member).
The decision it came to, which was never consensed upon, was that we should
never ban someone permanently, but attach a time period, after which we would
renew the ban if it was felt necessary. This was all highly theoretical
however.

Patrick, as much as he is a dick, is a human being. I feel that he should have
an avenue to return. Perhaps we should have a time-limit on the ban, say six
months or a year.

Kelly: One idea to put out there: We should have a discussion next week on what we would do differently next time this issue comes up.

(General agreement that this is a fine idea.)

Shannon: I don't agree we need to add a statement defining banning or any other
clarifications. We don't have a tradition of written rules: we should just ban
the man.

Ryce(?): We do need, however, to move forward to consider similiar scenarios. For
instance, should we have an official contact email address for people to report such incidents, anonymously if necessary?

Shannon: <SARCASM>Well, that would never be abused.</>

Rubin: We have a method for that already: people can nominate a proxy to speak
for them at the meeting.

(???): We don't solve problems until they happen. We should not be setting
precedents.

Crutcher: I agree with Shannon.

(Omnes: Gasps.)

No-one has a right to NB. A desire for openness should not mean we expose
people to their harassers. We are not some perfect judicial system. However, we will go through all of this upheaval
again next time, and this is an artifact of our lack of good jurisprudence.

Danny: Aesthetix and others in other fora also said they were uncomfortable
with banning Patrick "indefinitely". I'm uncomfortable with having a fixed time
period. How about we say "until further notice"?

Kelly: Here's my proposal. Let's say we ban him from the space for 6 months
minimum, and then until he can come to us and discuss with us how he proposes
to change his behavior.

(Some discussion led by Kelly on how he might best be able to do that, including presenting himself for membership, or having a do-acratically constructed list of people who volunteer to mediate for him, in a mirror of the do-acratically signed mail from last week)

Shannon: The term is always going to be open-ended: we can't at this meeting
absolutely ban someone forever. But I don't think we need to be specific about
how he might return. I'd say our major issue is his inability to navigate a
complex social minefield. If he can navigate this one, he's probably doing a
lot better, and we should have him back.

(Discussion: how can he contact us?)

Rubin: We can't actually stop him from emailing us all. He should ask a member
to act as his proxy and propose a new consensus item.

The group wishes to make it clear that everyone considers this consensus item,
and all consensus items are capable of being undone by a future consensus
item.

(Discussion lead by DrJesus on whether we should have a time limit. Consensus
is that there should be no named time limit, but "indefinitely" should be
dropped from the consensus motion to make clear that we do not consider this an
irrevocable ban.)

John: I disagree with Shannon. I think he's seriously delusional. It's all in his head.

Rubin: Well I think you are all in my head too. I would like a definition of
"banning". We are creating an avenue for future bans from the space, and I
believe this will make me totally trigger-happy to start banning like crazy so
I want some specifics.

Rachel H: Not entering the space, not mailing the mailing list.

(Everyone: What about the wiki? IRC? etc)

Kelly: What I'd like clearly entered into the notes is that he is unwelcome in the space.

Rubin: I think the minimum banning means is 2169, the mailing list, the wiki
and IRC channel.

Praveen: I really hope people can work this out. To that end, is it possible to
minimize the googleability of this whole thing, so this is not linked to
Patrick forever? Could we redact the mailing list?

(Agreement that NB has very strong cultural reticence against removing information)

Andi: There's only one incident of redaction, which was one someone's payment
details were accidentally revealed, indicating clearly their physical location,
which in turn placed their job at risk. In that case only we agreed to remove
the item.

Shannon: Andi you should consider unsubbing him.

Andi: I will certainly consider that. I think technical measures to block him
from the list would be counterproductive. I would further propose, however, a
bot that would automatically respond to him if he posts to the mailing list,
reminding him of the decision.

Shannon: I'd like to make it clear that Rubin's list of what the ban means is
not official.

Rubin: Agreed. I personally think that Patrick gave up the right to privacy
when he called the police to the space. I also want to add that a lot of other
Hackerspaces are watching this incident very closely. We should be as open as
possible so that they can understand what happened here. Also, if Patrick does
want to return, and approaches a new member who might not have all the
background, that member should be able to view the full discussion in the past
and be able to come to a full conclusion, and know who to speak with to find
out more.

Praveen: Wait, is nb-discuss googleable?

(Everyone: yes)

Danny: Just to be clear, Patrick gets the same (very thin) level of protection
in these notes as afforded any other Noisebridge member, which is that it is
first name only. We also went to some effort to make the evidence
non-googleable to protect the privacy of Patrick and the other people involved.
The full name discussions on noisebridge-discuss are to a very great extent
voluntarily entered into by Patrick himself.

Rachel M: Okay, what is the consensus item now?

DrJesus: To bar Patrick from entering the space and participating in the
community. [Recorder: note the full consensus item includes Patrick's full
name, and is recorded in the consensus items history.]

(Discussion about whether and to what extent the consensus item can be changed. Consensus is that we can change it within reason to reflect the actual consensus without resetting the whole process, and that a one word change falls under this tradition)

John: Just wish to add to the notes my sense that this is for major
non-excellence without willingness to reform.

Claudia: I was harassed, but it's good for us to work together to ensure that
he can reform, improve, get a job, support he needs.

John: I think it's appropriate that we all aim to be helpful to Patrick.

Rubin: I would like to note that if you notice anyone shit-talking about
Patrick, on IRC or wherever, to tell them to stop. We've made our statement
now, there's no need to take it further.

Kelly: I agree to head the discussion next week on what we would do differently
in all of this at the next meeting, and also head the do-acratic group to
ensure that Patrick has a way back to our community.

Consensus is reached. Patrick is barred.

Rachel M: I would like to note that I think we are doing much better at consensus.

Discussion Items

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