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White Guys, are you or will you ever be into black guys?

I'm not sure if I posted in the appropriate section.. However.. White guys, are you or will you ever be into black guys? I'm black. I'm remember a while ago, I used to be anti-white guys. I felt like I was never going to be attractive to white guys.. I thought they were the most unattractive guys on the planet. HOWEVER, I started attending a math class with 80% white guys. After 3 months of being exposed to so many white guys, on November 14, 2012.. I've officially became attractive to white guys. They're just so many attractive things about their body, and facial features that I've been neglecting to ignore. I don't know if it was the environment I was being exposed to that made me like them, or if it just became naturally because I've kept rejecting them to be my liking. Now I'm dying so badly, just to have one!! Thoughts, opinions?

Re: White Guys, are you or will you ever be into black guys?

You're new, so you're forgiven. Welcome to JUB, by the way. And yes, this is a common topic. Speaking in generalities, it seems whites are somewhat more prone to stick to their own race than others. Whether that's overt racism, subtle racism or just having a lot more to choose from within their own race is left as an exercise for the reader to post over and over.

As for specifics, I'm totally into guys, period. If that's you in the avatar, I'd say the gargoyle would definitely like to get into you,

Re: White Guys, are you or will you ever be into black guys?

Heh. Romantically, I haven't found a guy that I am really interested in. It may just be that here, there's no black guy who is either gay, or acts serious enough to be in a relationship. But, Sexually.. yes.

Re: White Guys, are you or will you ever be into black guys?

Originally Posted by HolyEggRolly

I'm not sure if I posted in the appropriate section.. However.. White guys, are you or will you ever be into black guys? I'm black. I'm remember a while ago, I used to be anti-white guys. I felt like I was never going to be attractive to white guys.. I thought they were the most unattractive guys on the planet. HOWEVER, I started attending a math class with 80% white guys. After 3 months of being exposed to so many white guys, on November 14, 2012.. I've officially became attractive to white guys. They're just so many attractive things about their body, and facial features that I've been neglecting to ignore. I don't know if it was the environment I was being exposed to that made me like them, or if it just became naturally because I've kept rejecting them to be my liking. Now I'm dying so badly, just to have one!! Thoughts, opinions?

Re: White Guys, are you or will you ever be into black guys?

White men are the only men who overtly hit on me.

All the ethnic guys do it on the low. All.

So I give em props for being ballsy, but of course pay them dust

Here's the thing about Black and White dating/hookups/relationships in the gay world: At the end of the fucking day, if you have a cute face and/or nice ass and/or built body and/or amazing style/confidence it doesn't really matter.

People like to tell themselves they like X or they like Y but what that simply means is they have taken what they have been exposed to and applied that to what they have yet to experience.

Problem is the world is full of surprises.

Don't worry about what other people are attracted to. Be cute, be u, and scoop yourself up a man, sis.

Re: White Guys, are you or will you ever be into black guys?

Originally Posted by HolyEggRolly

I'm not sure if I posted in the appropriate section.. However.. White guys, are you or will you ever be into black guys? I'm black. I'm remember a while ago, I used to be anti-white guys. I felt like I was never going to be attractive to white guys.. I thought they were the most unattractive guys on the planet. HOWEVER, I started attending a math class with 80% white guys. After 3 months of being exposed to so many white guys, on November 14, 2012.. I've officially became attractive to white guys. They're just so many attractive things about their body, and facial features that I've been neglecting to ignore. I don't know if it was the environment I was being exposed to that made me like them, or if it just became naturally because I've kept rejecting them to be my liking. Now I'm dying so badly, just to have one!! Thoughts, opinions?

You look rather brown, Check men of Yaounde for true colour black mate. If you have to google Yaounde don't bother!

Re: White Guys, are you or will you ever be into black guys?

Originally Posted by cgymike

Into black guys - African. Sorry not American "blacks". Even folks in Honiara are darker!

And this is where the irony kicks in!! Usually it's "Sorry, you're not light enough" now it's "Sorry, you're not dark enough". Wow, haha. I'm actually really happy and surprised there's people who appreciate darker tones.

Re: White Guys, are you or will you ever be into black guys?

Originally Posted by HolyEggRolly

And this is where the irony kicks in!! Usually it's "Sorry, you're not light enough" now it's "Sorry, you're not dark enough". Wow, haha. I'm actually really happy and surprised there's people who appreciate darker tones.

Re: White Guys, are you or will you ever be into black guys?

Originally Posted by thatgirl

There are extremly dark-skinned black guys in America-- I'm talking blackest of the black types. And all around the world, too.They are more common in Africa but they're certainly not confined to Africa.

You do realize that there is no such thing as black skin in the literal sense, right?

Re: White Guys, are you or will you ever be into black guys?

You mean one of the most iconic, relevant, and global toys on the planet?

I'm here for that

Which was overhyped far beyond its actual value? Which had an active shelf life barely longer than most dairy products? And now consigned to punchline status?

You're here for that. But not much longer.

MOVING IMAGE: A green-skinned, side-winged gargoyle holds up a large stopwatch. It's currently running, and displaying a time of fourteen minutes and ten seconds. The gargoyle taps the side of the stopwatch a few times for emphasis.

Re: White Guys, are you or will you ever be into black guys?

I've never dated a black guy. I'm not opposed to interatial dating, I've dated some very attractive Asians and Hispanics. Attractive Blacks on the other hand, are kinda' like baby pigeons............I imagine they exist, I've just never seen one.

Re: White Guys, are you or will you ever be into black guys?

Originally Posted by The Fly

I've never dated a black guy. I'm not opposed to interatial dating, I've dated some very attractive Asians and Hispanics. Attractive Blacks on the other hand, are kinda' like baby pigeons............I imagine they exist, I've just never seen one.

where do you live?

one thing about the closet/you don't have to hurry/it will be bad tomorrow/so brother, don't you worry

Re: White Guys, are you or will you ever be into black guys?

Originally Posted by MoePhoenix7

This isn’t directed towards you but in general what I’m sick of is guys on sites like Grindr, okcupid who make statements on their profiles how they’re not attracted to black guys, then message me ‘complimenting’ me about how they aren’t usually into black guys but they would make the exception for me b/c “i’m cute”. And I’ve been told by other friends of mine that b/c my skin is of a lighter complexion that that makes me more desirable than the average black guy in the gay dating world. And with the open platform of the internet where people can just air out their innermost douchenozzle ‘preferences’ for all to see, it just makes this all the more apparent. But personally, quite unlike the OP and many other black gays, I don’t find being the exception to some idiot white guy flattering at all. I find those comments to be very unsavory and annoying. If you’re not into black guys on your profile, stay that way. Don’t hit my ass up expecting me to be pleased b/c you think I’m sorta cute for a black guy. Some white guys seriously need to pull their heads from out of their asses and understand that those comments still strike with a notion that that person is still unworthy to fully receive your ever so sought out and needed consideration. I’m just fortunate and happy that I don’t have to seek out and beg for approval from white guys to validate myself.

I get enough attention from guys of all shades of grey so I really couldn’t care less.

And truth be told the white guys who aren’t into me b/c I’m black usually aren’t shit in the looks department to get it if they wanted it anyway.

>___< That post was so accurate, that it was painful. >__< You're so right. It's fucked up how they say "an exception".. Also, many hispanics do that as well. By the way, I stayed away from OkCupid. It's not really interracial welcoming, or friendly. Or black friendly that is..