How to Be an Elegant Person

Achieve Jackie O's elegance and grace with proper etiquette and style

Have you ever seen someone you thought was more elegant and graceful than most people? Do you wonder what that person's secret is? You may be surprised by how simple it is.

People who know and show proper etiquette are often perceived as being elegant. Even if you weren't born into an elegant environment, it is something you can learn by watching people you admire, reading guidelines on proper etiquette, and following the advice. And then you need to practice until it comes as second nature.

Start out being elegant in front of a mirror when you are alone, and then show your friends the "new you." Once you're comfortable with your new public persona, take it with you everywhere.

The Way You Look

There is nothing you can do about the fact that people will judge you by the way you look, so use it to your advantage. You don't have to drain your bank account to look refined. You just have to be wise with your choices.

Here are a few tips on refining the way you look:

Posture – Stand up straight and hold your head up when you walk. Don't slouch when you sit. Your body language says a lot about you.

Expression – Don't frown. You don't have to constantly smile, but try to have a friendly look on your face.

Makeup – Understated is always better than too much makeup. Start with a clean face and pick one feature to enhance. Most makeup experts advise clients to play up either the eyes or the lips, not both.

The Way You Speak

An elegant woman speaks with confidence about topics she knows. She is also a good listener who makes the people she's with comfortable. If you're able to put other people at ease, their impression of you will be positive.

How to speak with elegance:

Smile often and make eye contact.

Speak clearly and avoid using slang that isn't familiar to the people you are talking to.

Avoid being a drama queen. Don't air all your grievances to everyone you speak with. Save those for your closest friend who can be trusted to keep a confidence.

Don't constantly brag about yourself.

Don't provide too much personal information. There are some things people don't need to know.