girl's view on universal guy pronouns.

This is a question more for cisgirls or people with a girl identity (MtF). I was wondering the views on pronouns like "bro (Brony) "Dude" or others like "Hey guys" to mean both genders.

Being called dude really bothers me. I guess for me it is the same affect being called he or whatever. Even before coming out trans though the dude thing always bugged me but I didn't know why.

The guys thing, I guess it is something I have to live with. I am a bit neutral over this one. (I would prefer something that really sounded more neutral though)

"Bronys" I am gonna assume guys started this since I do not think issues come up over girls liking MLP. It kind of shocked me seeing how much "Brony" was used in the MLP thread. So can girls have one too? >.>

I understand you would want something different from brony but would pegasister only mean Pegasus female ponys but not earth and unicorn ponys? I mean i would feel a bit left out being a earth pony and called pegasista at least brony covered all 3.