SPINSTERS FOR CHRIST.....Just Before you say 'Yes I Do' consider requirements

Christian marriage is ever blessed, but the standard is high to today's young men and women . The freedom in today's environment has almost completely destroyed what used to be a christian marriage.

The marriage ordained by has rules and conditions which both parties will have to strictly obey and then enter a marriage that can be likened to heaven on earth.

More than any other time in history, a young man or woman wishing to get marrieed must ensure the person he/she is marrying is ready for marriage. If he/she says yes, then lift up your bible to show him/her the requirements and conditions for happy marriage. Both of you should study these scriptures until you see the person behaving like a married man or woman before you begin to walk of formalizing marriage.

The second test is that of spiritual status of your partner. You should who your spouse is in the spirit before you conclude the marriage. Tis is important for the marriage to last and also fulfull its purpose. Many people have married people who are lovers and friends in the day, but at night, they are enemies because of their connection to darkness.

You will have to go to God in prayer, asking for spiritual status of your proposed spouse. If you can observe some days of fasting and praying, it's worth it, but I can assure you that this one of the inquiries the Holy Spirit nwill be glad to provide to you if you can go to God in prayer. .

You ask God to reveal if the person is truely born again, whether the person concerned is in darkness - In secret societies like witchcraft, occultism, illuminatti etc. These are servants of Lucifer working to bring believers down to hell in a subtle, but slow and steady fashion.

Ask God to reveal if the woman or man is from the water. We have seen many of them today, very innocent looking and they may not start early to manifest witchcraft or water spirit, yet they are married in the water. These are agents of Queen of the Coast, with Jezebel spirit. They are very deadly to a child of God because they know how to quickly quench the fire of God in a believer after marriage. The man marrying such a woman here on earth is on his own, because she is already married in the water - also called spiritual marriage and every believer knows that the spirit controls the physical and so except she is delivered through prayer of a powerful man of God and counselled to maintain her deliverance, the husband remain on his own and all I am saying will begin to manifest immediately after marriage.

It is better you are single than marrying a spouce that is in darkness as a child of God. A spouse in darkness is an enemy of light and so will he or she be to your heavenly agenda. They are the powers that turn a spirit filled believer to a lukewarm christian over night.

Beloved, these few matters I mention above should be considered strongly by those wishing to get into marriage today. Ignorance is not an excuse in law. So many men has been wrongly exposed to demonic practices for which they need deliverance before marriage. If you marry an unbelieving person today, get ready for all kind of sexual pervertions which could lead you into worshiping the Queen of the Coast and water demons all in the name of sex in marriage. The marriage ordained by God is a holy matrimony under Christ, not under Lucifer or Queen of the Coast.

There are strange misconducts people conspire to commit under marriage today. I have heard of swingers, married couple who share their lives with another couple(s) and I ask for what purpose is this wickedness done - To satisfy their lust and do the bidding of their master Satan!

What is the meaning of loose marriage - A marriage where the couples are free to sleep around with strangers. Without mincing words, these are all abominations before the Lord. Whoso ever is engaging in all these cannot be said to have known the know the Lord Jesus Christ and so that person is far from the commonwealth of heaven.

All these theology I see people write on marriage can only stand when these danger lights are addressed individually before marriage.

The society is bad today because of the kind of marriages we have in society. The devil has done so much havoc on good marriages, using poverty and doctrines of Satan to fight them. Most of the children from confused homes are also confused about marriage.

All the Ten Keys to happy marriage, 21 or 50 keys to happy home has no meaning once you miss the point from the beginning. I don't know about you, but my bible say God hates Divorce and no one that wants to see God can afford to do what God hates. You have to indure whatever pains you meet in marriage with love, forgiving and forbearing all offences for the sake of heaven. The last time iI check on marriage in the bible, God's word remaineth the same that God hates Divorce!

Other Traps of the Devil include the following:

The devil want you to be married and still keep your old friends and acquantances - which is a doorway to your eventual divorce.

The devil deceive some sisters not to be submissive and loyal to their husbands, thereby denying them of the natural love of such men, which would have made them happy in their home.

The devil want you to be married and still share your emotional issues with your friends instead of your spouse onlyThe devil want you to be married and yet be lusting after other women, girls big and small - which is not the will of God.

The enemy wants you to be married and yet go back to your mother for advice all the time, instead of discussing and agreeing things with your spouse.

The devil does not want our ladies to know that they can easily become the 'mother' of their husbands with a heart and attitude of love towards them. Ladies used to ask me if that is ever possible and my answer is YES.

If you prove to be a destiny helper to your husband, you have identified his calling in life and you are supporting him to succeed in his calling or profession, you will soon replace the mother in his heart and he will soon see only one woman in his life and that woman is you...

The devil does not want the sisters to know that no man outside your marriage can love you better. There are marriages from God, and the devil use to trouble such marriages with all kind os tests and trials, but the couple must know it is the devil and resist himThe devil want our sister to continue to look for favour from men after their marriage...NO.

No more free lunch, somebody giving you lift from your house to your office and even dropping you off in the evening...You are opening your marriage for the devil to devour. Know you are now a married woman, pay for your transportation to and from work.Every unneccessary intimacy with any other man or woman outside of your spouce should STOP for good, otherwise, it is from these friends and old friends the devil will pull down the marriage

Let no one tempt the devil, he is smarter than you. Do not toy with sin, no matter how small and if you discover you have any kind of addiction before marriage, I counsel you to seek deliverance. Don't marry with an addiction in your life, the marriage is in danger.

Whether the addiction is smoking, drinking, womanizing, drugs, pornography, stealing, fighting etc, please seek deliverance before you get married. Seek deliverance or better still write to us and I can assure you that our prayer here will avail much for you by His grace. Don't cover up any sin - confess it and forsake the same and the Lord will show you mercy.

FINALLY:

The bible says what God has joined together, let no man put asunder. The question is who joined you together in marriage - for those planning to get married, who is joining you together? Is it God, which means Love or is it Lust, Money and Greed, Is it your parents? Are you getting married because you want to escape poverty or family trouble in your own parents house? Are you getting married to him because he has money, wealth or family inheritance? Are you getting married because you love children and the Mr right is nowhere to be found, you decided to help God by getting pregnant for a strange man

You will agree with me that the way you make your bed is how you will lie on it, get ready for the devil is surely ravage you and your marriage until he separates both of you.

Friends, remember who you are in the Lord - A man or woman of broken spirit, meek and humble, hungry for righteousness, merciful and pure in heart. You are patient, loving and full of joy always. You are the salt and the light of the world to shine forth the truth in the word of God. You are free from all hypocrisy, all lust and all selfishness. You are a peace loving man or woman of God, therefore be patient and prayerfully wait for the right person for you.Don't think you can marry any body and live happily with that person. There a thousand of men and women who cannot manager your strict and disciplined lifestyle, so be patient.When the issue of marriage or any other matter become difficult, please encourage yourself in the Lord as King David did, when they took away everything he had, including wives and children. He remembered the goodness of God to him in the years gone and how God helped him out of every battle and gave him victory...and so, he encouraged himself in the Lord, counting the blessing of God and then asking God what he should do next...and the Lord said PURSUE THEM...FOR YOU WILL SURELY OVERTAKE THEM AND RECOVER ALL!If you have not given your heart to our Lord and Saviour Jesus Christ before, remember JESUS CHRIST is coming back again, and very soon, so permit me to lead you to Christ through this simple prayer:

Say LORD JESUS CHRIST, I COME TO YOU AS I AM, A SINNER. FORGIVE ME ALL THE SINS I HAVE COMMITED AS i REPENT OF THEM. COME INTO MY LIFE AND BE MY LORD AND PERSONAL SAVIOUR, WRITE MY NAME IN THE BOOK OF LIFE AND GIVE ME THE GRACE TO SERVE AND FOLLOW YOU TILL THE END OF MY LIFE.

THANK YOU JESUS CHRIST FOR SAVING MY SOUL....I AM BORN AGAIN.

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