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I think you may be "aloof". I'm aloof but not a snob; a bit on the shy side, kindly person, just not good at inane small talk...never mastered it. <br /><br />Snobs on the other hand, use words like "pedestrian" or "dreary" and emotions/facial ex<x>pressions are fine tuned to fit the occasion. Disingenuous.

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Haven't quite figured out why that term is used to describe me... I simply think people don't know me because I am width and eccentric so they assume I'm a snob... quite the contrary.. I just am not fond of everyone I come across nor can I pretend to...

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Thats how I am. i try but i think that comes of snobby. I normally wouldnt really care.. but i started a new job and i'm in a small training class with 2 other people. That i think need to stop with the i'm better at this than you are crap. I noticed today they hang out alot where i just go off and do my own thing.. because i don't have time for them.

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Two people can both be standoffish for two totaly different reasons.<br /><br />1) One because they think they are superior and the other person does not merit their attention.<br /><br />2) One because they are shy and don't think they merit the others attention. <br /><br />There may be a 3rd and a 4th type... What type are you?

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Well i'm not 1 nor 2. I don't feel superior but sometimes I feel that if you have to one up me all the time and i hardly know you,,,then I dont really have time for you. I am in a training class with 2 other people. and they do that to me and each other. They hang out with each other and I don't really care to and don't. So does that make me snobby?

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i like your answer, i just don't want to be perceived as a snobby person. I am not shy but I don't make friends easily...never have. At the same I don't really care what other people think but i work with these people and well its a conundrum for sure lol