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Today my muse struck me unexpectedly, and I had a song in my head. Not one I've heard; no this one is unique. It's a song about me. So I just sit down and let it flow out of me, and then refined it. I personally think the song came out nicely. Maybe someday I'll get the money to get my hands on the Vocaloid program and I can put this to a pretty voice and some fitting music, if I can find some. Or find someone to sing it. Who knows?

I'm just an ordinary (girly/kind of) girl,
wishing she were in a (girly/ordinary) world,
I'm hoping for a miracle,
But all I get is that "You're unconventional".
People swear there'd be a better world,
If it weren't for the things I never learned,
Even though it makes my heart burn.
I always felt I'd be true to myself,
But life makes it harder than it seems,
So take me away,
Take me away to my dreams.
So I wished my life could take a turn,
To find out what it's like to be without the burn,
To take a flight and find out what's right,
Without this courage I just don't feel right.
I always felt I'd be true to myself,
But life makes it harder than it seems,
So take me away,
Take me away to my dreams,
Just take me away,
Take me away to my dreams.

A girly girl, that's who. A goofy guy that's who. Someone who is in between, in the middle between the girliness and the guy, and all you can see is the hazy grey between the pink and blue, that's who. A Geek, that's who. A bookworm, that's who. An anime fan, that's who. A nice girl AND guy, that's who. A fun person, that's who. An intelligent person, that's who. Someone who doesn't think as much as she dreams, that's who. Someone who thinks too much, that's who.

In here, in there, everywhere, out there, but not just anywhere or over here or there. somewhere between there and here but not here or there, and not just anywhere. Where is here, where is there, where is anywhere isn't always something of which we're completely aware, but it's here and there but not just anywhere or everywhere. It's just there or here but not just there or just here.

Where am I? Certainly not over there or over here. I'm certainly not just anywhere, just here and there and sometimes everywhere. Where?

I have a beef with it. A bone to pick, a problem to solve, an issue to troubleshoot or however you want to put it.

Now keep in mind this is just a little personal rant to get something off my chest, and therefore is just something I want to post up for friends to see. These are things I want to get off my chest before they become ugly feelings...because we all know how truly ugly feelings can make someone, whether it be caused by emotional distress, lack of knowledge or understanding, or anything else that causes negative emotions.

Part of the point of this post is also to help me think about these things. Sometimes as I write and read my own ramblings it helps me to pick out my own biases and other logical errors.

So with that disclaimer out of the way, here's the aforementioned piece of my mind. I hope you, as the reader, don't think less of me for it.

As a genderqueer individual, particularly being of a genderfluid nature, I find it somewhat frustrating that females simply have more freedom of expression. Now when I say "More freedom of expression", I do mean so in the most loose way possible. I mean that there is simply much more in the way of fashion, and style and variety for women. Mens' fashion is particularly and singularly bland. Even worse is the "Man box" or the rules of masculinity that society places. Even the few extra things like jewelry gets rejected as being a part of a "Conventional and fashionable" man.

As a MAAB, I am disappointed at the ridiculous limits that exist; particularly when most of our parents grew up in the 60s and 70s, when counterculture was particularly popular, and when they themselves struggled with their parents over the same values they now try to enforce.

That being said what really irks me is that society is so slow to accept any movement forward in men's fashion without it being "Rebranded" as manly and/or masculine first, or as some sort of "I'm so manly I wear this 'feminine thing' to prove my manhood" statement. Seeing attitudes like that is frustrating. It's a damn farce. If you have to rationalize that wearing something is 'manly' before doing so, then you're doing it wrong. Why not try wearing it "Because I want to" or "Because it makes me feel more like myself" or even "Because I like it"?

Women too, feel this problem, because nothing that's been explicitly marked masculine has ever crossed over to women's fashion without being redefined. It starts with "oh let's make this reveal more skin". Sometimes the box can work the other way too, as it keeps women in their own boxes. I see many beautiful things in women's fashion yes, but I also see many places where society has foregone function for appearance. They're expected to enjoy wearing skirts and dresses and colors and outfits that reveal way too much skin, even if the weather doesn't really permit.

Personally I just want to live to see the day that I can walk in public, wearing anything I want to wear, without having to pander to some stereotype to get my identity across. While I do see the utility in having some things be considered to be more desired by one gender or the other, I also don't want to see any segregation. I want to walk into the store and be able to buy a skirt, shoes, and top for me. In my size, using a UNIVERSAL sizing system that DOES NOT have different scales for males or females. Just measurements in the right places for our bodies.

Sizes should be on a X-Y-Z system, a three measurement point system that denotes the fitting properties of the garment. Tops would be something like X= height of torso, Y = Length at the Longest point of the torso, and Z being.

I want it to be completely acceptable for a man to perform any function a woman can in society. I want it to be completely acceptable for a woman to perform any function a man can in society. I want it to be completely acceptable for both men and women to dress however they would like, regardless of the contents of their undergarments, chromosomes, identification or self-identification. If one wishes to dress in a way to attract the eye of a desirable mate, no one should judge them for that. No one should judge them for choosing not to dress to attract a mate either. No one should be judging anyone on how they dress anyway; clothing should be regarded as only a fraction of another person's self and not a definitive measurement.

I have to admit though, I do find myself feeling angry at the system we live in today. It's flawed so badly, and it suppresses so many people into nothing. We regard ourselves as civilized sentient creatures, but I don't believe that others visiting our planet would think so. We have so much to learn as a society about ourselves.