sounds strange coming from me... but they're seriously the nicest people in the world. Why is there so much hate and violence towards them? Why would you hate someone so sweet and amazing? And lovable... and adorable... :frowning:

Correlation does not equal causation. Gay guys are easy to befriend for a woman because they tend to behave similarly as well as the fact there is no intention of a relationship.Straight guys have to play the "game" of signals, playing hard to get, "I love you but I'm not in love with you" stuff, so they tend to be more hunting for a relationship than friends. A man will be friends with a woman they find attractive if they already have a partner and the woman also has a partner. If both are single, then there's little chance and little reason for a man to "just be friends" with a woman he's attracted to. Tends to cause more suffering than friendship.

Cody,I understand what you're trying to say but not all gay men act like women or are feminine. Yes, sometime we can get really campy, but it's all for fun. I know some gay men who are more manly than most straight men. You would never think they were gay by the way they carry themselves..It's true that Straight men have to "play the game" but I'm not sure why? I think most women would rather have the truth and honesty than all the game playing, the lies and secrets...

No no Roc, I didn't mean to allude to such a thing. I meant they have a tendency for such a thing is all I'm friends with a few gay men that i would have never known were gay if they hadn't told me so I understand completely what you mean. I certainly meant nothing offensive by it.But on that same side of the coin the gay men that are friends with me because 2 of them simply aren't attracted to me and the other 1 knows I'm taken. The same applies to both gay and straight people. People do not tend to make friendships with people they are attracted to, because it promotes a situation where the man or woman is unhappy all the time wishing for just the chance to be with that person, which of course never happens.Those two points were the only points I was making

I get along with gay people until they start talking about there sex life. I'm gay I don't talk about it and nobody wants to know. Like the gay guy at my school talks about it in class and nobody needs to know that you had se in the shower at the lake.

lol sorry I just realized I "might" have been a little "high" when I posted this because I was hanging out with a bunch of pot heads a while ago. Even though I didn't join them, the air was so thick with it I probably got it whether I realized it or not... insane.But I still meant every word LOL

Originally Posted By: JapanFan14lol sorry I just realized I "might" have been a little "high" when I posted this because I was hanging out with a bunch of pot heads a while ago. Even though I didn't join them, the air was so thick with it I probably got it whether I realized it or not... insane.But I still meant every word LOL Hey Chance! Where are you!?! We may have another potential smoking buddy here!!

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Originally Posted By: OldFolksI used to be sensitive and introspective and caring and all that. Now, it just seems like more effort than I have energy or patients for. Careful there...you might be becoming hetero!

I wouldnt say that. Maybe for you personally though. I just find it easier to be friends with men in general... I was thinking about that on my drive home today!!Girls can be so bitchy sometimes and catty!!!

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Well in my experience, it was easier to be friends with guys when I was younger cause I was "underdeveloped" we were actually FRIENDS and they weren't always trying to get in my pants. Alot of my guy friends that I grew up with are still friends but they've made their moves more than twice... then things get awkward. I have an even set of of friends, boys and girls with a slight advantage of the girls. Which is cool since most of the girls are tomboys like me. Even though I have my girl friends and my guy friends... out of ALL my friends I feel I am the MOST comfortable with my gay guy friends. I love the hetero guys but the constant hit ons get old after all. And girls... yea...So gay guys are "da bomb" as my baby Mark put it lol