stupid video games

I want to cuddle or *gasp* even possibly have sex with dh and he's playing a video game. He played last night and I even gave him a bj while he played then when I finally got him to go to bed he went to sleep. Now while dd is napping I'm not getting any and I even bluntly, straight up asked! Grr, his response was a huge turn off and now I'm just pouting. See if I put out next time he wants something.

I want to cuddle or *gasp* even possibly have sex with dh and he's playing a video game. He played last night and I even gave him a bj while he played then when I finally got him to go to bed he went to sleep. Now while dd is napping I'm not getting any and I even bluntly, straight up asked! Grr, his response was a huge turn off and now I'm just pouting. See if I put out next time he wants something.

ha... oh how i can relate. dh is a sahd and wfhd and he gets off work at 9p and im usually always in the mood but all he wants to do is play video games at night.... sex if im lucky is 2ce/mth and when i complain he says were maried now, its dif then it was b4 bc i dont have to worry about you breaking up with me over sex! ugh so fustrating...

ha... oh how i can relate. dh is a sahd and wfhd and he gets off work at 9p and im usually always in the mood but all he wants to do is play video games at night.... sex if im lucky is 2ce/mth and when i complain he says were maried now, its dif then it was b4 bc i dont have to worry about you breaking up with me over sex! ugh so fustrating...

Well ladies I'm 24 wks now and have only had sex with my chap once since I was about 9 wks! He just can't do it x I've tried every trick up my sleeve but it ain't happening, he knows there is a baby up there and thats it. I also have a low lying placenta which is touching my cervix but was not advised to have no sex but he uses it as an excuse! my friend on the other hand who is 28 wks pregnant is the one making excuses in her house as her husband is always up for it. Definitely luck of the draw on what type of man you got lol

Well ladies I'm 24 wks now and have only had sex with my chap once since I was about 9 wks! He just can't do it x I've tried every trick up my sleeve but it ain't happening, he knows there is a baby up there and thats it. I also have a low lying placenta which is touching my cervix but was not advised to have no sex but he uses it as an excuse! my friend on the other hand who is 28 wks pregnant is the one making excuses in her house as her husband is always up for it. Definitely luck of the draw on what type of man you got lol

I thought I was the only one who lost my hubby to video games!!! Hell make it football too! Ive made blunt comments to my hubby about wanting some. your alot nicer than i am, i sure wouldnt be giving hubby a bj while he played a game or watched football! mama has needs too! its been almost 3 months since i got any.... i gotta get some soon or im gonna go nuts! last time i didnt get any the whole time i was pregers with ds, and then it took me along time to want any after because i tore pretty bad and was afraid it was going to hurt...i guess we need to work together and find a way to make these men want us again!!!

I thought I was the only one who lost my hubby to video games!!! Hell make it football too! Ive made blunt comments to my hubby about wanting some. your alot nicer than i am, i sure wouldnt be giving hubby a bj while he played a game or watched football! mama has needs too! its been almost 3 months since i got any.... i gotta get some soon or im gonna go nuts! last time i didnt get any the whole time i was pregers with ds, and then it took me along time to want any after because i tore pretty bad and was afraid it was going to hurt...i guess we need to work together and find a way to make these men want us again!!!

Ugh! I agree! They complain (at least mine did) so much when it's us not in the mood. When I had MS and was sooo tired he made me feel horrible for not wanting to. Grrr, the tables have turned and he is not suffering the way I was. I was hoping if I showed him a little extra attention while he relaxed with his game he'd return the favor. I was sorely mistaken. Lol

Ugh! I agree! They complain (at least mine did) so much when it's us not in the mood. When I had MS and was sooo tired he made me feel horrible for not wanting to. Grrr, the tables have turned and he is not suffering the way I was. I was hoping if I showed him a little extra attention while he relaxed with his game he'd return the favor. I was sorely mistaken. Lol

Girl you need to stand up for yourself! That's a horrible double standard and he clearly doesn't deserve the special treatment (bj while gaming!) that you pour on him! Tell him straight up he's being selfshish and unfair. Fine if he's not in the mood but that whole scenario is f-Ed up! I would tell him your upset and then hopefully have heart to heart about both yur sex/ intimacy needs. Find level playing ground! Good luck!

Girl you need to stand up for yourself! That's a horrible double standard and he clearly doesn't deserve the special treatment (bj while gaming!) that you pour on him! Tell him straight up he's being selfshish and unfair. Fine if he's not in the mood but that whole scenario is f-Ed up! I would tell him your upset and then hopefully have heart to heart about both yur sex/ intimacy needs. Find level playing ground! Good luck!

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