Flirting for you is kissing sucking or biting? Wow, you're very...forward.

Flirting for me is uhh....Idk
Smiling a lot
Blushing,
Unsure what to say
Make a horrible compliment at an awkward time.
Etc :P

PS for "breathing in ear" you make me think about the dude from "Hey Arnorld"

haha sorry for being forward but i am shy unless i like the girl romantically, if i like her, i will openly show it haha, i am not ashamed too, also i smile all the time, i can blush easily, i am unsure most of the time as i get bored so am i a flirt by your standards , prob the king of it haha, that is why i use my standards which is more stimulating but yet not sexual haha

i feel like you're describing sex but truthfully i'm horrible at flirting i'm just really good at being friendly someone has to say they like more or like kiss me to let me know they like me i'm retarded in the flirting department

To the guy who described kissing, licking, and so forth: That goes past flirting and straight into sexual harassment if they don't respond well to it.

Remember, the point of flirting is to be playful.

You can use physical contact, but it has to be more innocent. And frankly, you don't want to be too liberal with it. If most of your flirting involves touch, you will give the impression that all you're after is sex. Tickling is a pretty common one, giving hugs, offering a massage, stuff like that.

A lot of people find teasing to be a form of flirting. Which can work well, as long as you're not overly offensive about it.

Giving compliments that actually mean something. Instead of saying something plain like "you're pretty today", be specific. Say that you really like the way they did their hair that day. Or if you notice they have a new outfit on, say something nice about it. For example, "I love that new shirt/dress! It really matches your eyes." Better yet, give them a compliment on something about their personality. But again, being specific with compliments is key.

Talking to them in general is a good idea. Ask them about themselves. You want to seem interested in them, because that will give them the hint. Hopefully you actually ARE interested in what they have to say, of course. Include some information about yourself too if need be, but keep it to a minimum. If they want to hear about you, they'll ask. More often than not.

Eye contact is a biggie, but not too much. And body language.

And as a final tip...try not to come on too strong. Which includes (but is not limited to) teasing too much, touching too much, talking to them constantly, or giving too many compliments. And obviously you don't want to be staring them down either. But if they catch you looking and smiling at them every once in a while, that can do wonders.

To the guy who described kissing, licking, and so forth: That goes past flirting and straight into sexual harassment if they don't respond well to it.

Remember, the point of flirting is to be playful.

You can use physical contact, but it has to be more innocent. And frankly, you don't want to be too liberal with it. If most of your flirting involves touch, you will give the impression that all you're after is sex. Tickling is a pretty common one, giving hugs, offering a massage, stuff like that.

A lot of people find teasing to be a form of flirting. Which can work well, as long as you're not overly offensive about it.

Giving compliments that actually mean something. Instead of saying something plain like "you're pretty today", be specific. Say that you really like the way they did their hair that day. Or if you notice they have a new outfit on, say something nice about it. For example, "I love that new shirt/dress! It really matches your eyes." Better yet, give them a compliment on something about their personality. But again, being specific with compliments is key.

Talking to them in general is a good idea. Ask them about themselves. You want to seem interested in them, because that will give them the hint. Hopefully you actually ARE interested in what they have to say, of course. Include some information about yourself too if need be, but keep it to a minimum. If they want to hear about you, they'll ask. More often than not.

Eye contact is a biggie, but not too much. And body language.

And as a final tip...try not to come on too strong. Which includes (but is not limited to) teasing too much, touching too much, talking to them constantly, or giving too many compliments. And obviously you don't want to be staring them down either. But if they catch you looking and smiling at them every once in a while, that can do wonders.

lmao you don't do it to those who don;t respond to you , plus i consider these ways to tease women more than flirting and they are fine with it lol, it really depends how u do it and who too and if they know u well enough and your relationship to them , it more of a way to be like a casanova but i didn't add all, but yup talking, compliments, confidence, asking about them, teasing (this works wonders) is good. it all depends on the chemistry between you too, you got to caluclate it carefully lol, everything in this world is down to calculations, long as u do it right, is yours

emperoreyeoftheskywrote:
lmao you don't do it to those who don;t respond to you , plus i consider these ways to tease women more than flirting and they are fine with it lol, it really depends how u do it and who too and if they know u well enough and your relationship to them , it more of a way to be like a casanova but i didn't add all, but yup talking, compliments, confidence, asking about them, teasing (this works wonders) is good. it all depends on the chemistry between you too, you got to caluclate it carefully lol, everything in this world is down to calculations, long as u do it right, is yours :P

My point is that those things are much more sexual/intimate and less flirty. They are not things you would want to do to a girl early on.