Thank God For Sex.

The Thank God For Sex Project is a COMMUNITY BUILT website filled with videos and written stories of individuals who’ve experienced religious sexual shame and who later learned that God never intended for them to feel that way. In their own words they tell stories of how, over time, they discovered a new way to relate to their bodies, sexuality and God.

These stories shed light on an array of circumstances; hurtful messages from society, pain from purity-movement churches, shame about bodies, fears of intimacy, abuse, confusion, etc. Most importantly, they show how people figured out a more affirming story about sex and what that story or new belief system is or is becoming.

Available NOW!

Available NOW!

Introduction to the book:

Q& A with the author: What are some of your hopes for this book?

Q&A with the author: Why is sexual shame a problem?

Q&A with the author: What do you mean when you say you want to "erase sexual shame?"

JUST RELEASED!

"I will be recommending this book everywhere" Sarah Bessey, author of Jesus Feminist and Out of Sorts: Making Peace with an Evolving Faith

"This book should be on every providers bookshelf & in every couple’s home." Tai Mendenhall, PhD, Couple and Family Therapy Program, Univ. of Minn.

"Powerful medicine." Gina Ogden, PhD, author of Expanding the Practice of Sex Therapy, The Heart & Soul of Sex, and other books

"Enlightening, well-written, and clinically useful." William Doherty, PhD, director, Minnesota Couples on the Brink Project, University of Minnesota; author, Take Back Your Marriage.​

This is the first book of it's kind! It will tell you what happened, the sex positive message that was there all along, the 4 steps to healing religious sexual shame, & sacred intimacy practices to bring healing touch into your life.

The book was written for those affected, and for the therapists, clergy & physicians who serve them. This is the book you've been waiting for ... the antidote to​I Kissed Dating Good-bye!

Q&A with the author: Who did you write this book for?

Q& A with the author: Is healing possible for people who are experiencing religious sexual shame?

Q&A with the author: What do you say when people accuse you of being anti-church, anti-Christian, or anti-evangelical?