I think everything seems to take forever if you aren't enjoying it. So if it's approached as a chore (I've heard some people bored in marriage describe sex as a chore) then it will probably seem to take forever.

I don't think it just seems longer, I think actually does take longer as well. I mean shit if I'm having a blast I'll get off in 15-20 minutes and want to go again. However if she isn't any good it will be like 45 minutes later and I'll be trying my best just to finish to end it.

"New Sex" always seems to take longer... I' not sure if it's some sort of apprehension of being with a new partner or not. It seems as time goes on in the relationship, time shortens... but the sex tends to be out of this world good!

"New Sex" always seems to take longer... I' not sure if it's some sort of apprehension of being with a new partner or not. It seems as time goes on in the relationship, time shortens... but the sex tends to be out of this world good!

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Interesting. I tend to be super excited about new sex, but maybe that is my great propensity toward variety. I do understand what you mean though, but I think it has less to do with apprehension and more to do with the fact that you and your partner tend to become much more in tune to what drives the other person wild.

Lack of experience , not wanting to pleasure your partner, only wanting to slide you dick in bang bang cum roll over and fall asleep ....im guessing that could make it very bad for one partner...
with sex you have to be willing to give loads of pleasure to your female partner....the more pleasure you offer , in my experience the more pleasure you get in return...

Never tried sex on weed (although i have tried weed lol) but have had sex once when on extacy and speed as a youngster, and that was a real rush.
especialy when your in a shower .the water ( i dont know how to explain it) but wow that really felt out of this world.

Lack of experience , not wanting to pleasure your partner, only wanting to slide you dick in bang bang cum roll over and fall asleep ....im guessing that could make it very bad for one partner...
with sex you have to be willing to give loads of pleasure to your female partner....the more pleasure you offer , in my experience the more pleasure you get in return...

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Yep and more return customers as well.

Substance enhanced sex is great (well with alcohol only a buzz to get lower some of the inhibitions), but I would never try it on E... I have too many friends that are pretty much addicted to that shit just because it makes sex so great and so easy to get (raves... I know because I've hooked up with raver chicks before).

Substance enhanced sex is great (well with alcohol only a buzz to get lower some of the inhibitions), but I would never try it on E... I have too many friends that are pretty much addicted to that shit just because it makes sex so great and so easy to get (raves... I know because I've hooked up with raver chicks before).

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You would have been about 3 or 4 years old when i was doing extacy...people can get addicted to pretty much anything weed and hash to.
I would never expect anyone to do the drugs, but i have and only had sex the once on those 2 drugs. the rush from the sex and also from the semi cold water splashing over our bodies was just a huge body rush .
i felt there was no harm in trying that out once for me . although it was a tremendous time i never tried it again.
so dont worry there are many people around that have known about drugs and their downsides long before you or i where even thought off