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The Art of Seduction

The art of seduction is not a new topic, but rather an interesting and building topic. Even the greatest seducer in the world can stand to learn a few more tricks- nobody knows them all. The whole purpose of stimulation is to please someone else (or yourself, if you’re a person who gets your rocks off pleasing others), to learn about the other person (their likes and dislikes, craves, and loves), and naturally, to feel good about yourself. Admit it, you get the big head too when you do something right for your mate.

So for this article, I want to look at how each of our senses are effected when we are seduced and what you can do to arouse those senses. Feel free to comment and share your own techniques and thoughts.

TOUCH- Just a simple touch such as a light brush on the back of the neck can send a shiver up the spine. Touch is a powerful sensation within itself, because that one simple touch, could be just as good or maybe even better than a back massage. I read years ago that a man who can’t keep his hands off you is a person who is definitely into you and I totally agree with that. Touching is absolutely necessary in foreplay or just plain ol’ affection.

Examples: Gliding the tip of your fingernail (make sure your nails are neatly filed, no one wants to get cut- that’s far from attractive), a feather, tickling, a pat or soft squeeze on the derriere, kiss, etc.

TASTE- (I will keep this very PG.) Taste could range anywhere from kissing to food sampling (feeding each other with or without foreplay). For example, if you tease your partner a lil with one of those chocolate covered strawberries from Godiva or Rocky Mountain Chocolate Factory, and then they bite into that plump, delicious strawberry… OR your partner lets you have a taste of their Cheesecake Factory cheesecake, which is a bite of heaven… . Let’s just say that taste could be every bit of foreplay and can definitely get you in the mood.

SMELL- The way a person smells could immediately turn a person on or off. Nothing beats a person who recently stepped out of the shower and then they upgrade their natural fragrance to a splash of your favorite cologne or perfume. A way that this could go horribly wrong is if your person doesn’t bathe on the regular or they bathe in the cologne or perfume. Keep in mind that a person who smells good feels good.

Examples (for women): Live by Jennifer Lopez; So in Love by Victoria’s Secrets; Amber Romance or Endless Love (body splash) by Victoria’s Secrets.

HEAR- Sometimes sounds are an aphrodisiac. For sleepers, the sound machine often relaxes you and helps you fall asleep quicker. In the bedroom, certain songs could play that could immediately get you there. Keep your stereo close by, or just blast it so it can be heard.

Examples: The whole Rated Next Next album, “Moments of Love”, R Kelly’s 12 Play and TP2 albums, etc.

SEE- Nude, nightie, role play outfit, boy shorts, a chiseled chest- whatever floats your boat. Keep your mate’s favorite outfit handy, so when it’s time to play, they’ll know. You don’t have to wait for a special occasion to pull it out. What are you saving it for? You’ll never know if there will be a tomorrow. So live it, wear it!