Over the weekend, I used a gift certificate for a manicure that I'd received over the holidays. Getting a manicure is not like getting a pedicure where you can occupy yourself with a magazine or your phone. A manicure is more of a space invader and can be quite awkward. So, because I'm not a fan of awkward silences, I inquired about the photo on my manicurist's station. It was one of her and her husband. She told me she'd been married 14 years. I asked her what was the secret? Her answer,"let him do whatever he wants." Hmmmm...she's a better woman than I. I found this article on yahoo, and it gives better suggestions. Read it here, and tell what YOU think keeps a marriage together.