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Welcome Amy Baumgardner! I need words of Hope, Faith & Forgiveness. Ive been married for 20 years. My Marriage has been on the rocks for at least 7 years. 2 years ago we were on the verge of Divorce, so I went away to school to increase my odds of being self sufficient as a single woman and to buy time regarding the divorce. While I was away my husband began to "talk" to other women, he grew very bitter and angry for the many years of arguing. He blames me and his (step) children for ruining his life. He is filled with so much anger. Im back from school and He hates me more than ever now. I am a burden to him because I am not employed yet and he wants me out ASAP! My husband is a Christian though he is not walking with the Lord and hasn't been for many years. I have not been the ideal wife but I have not violated our marriage by "talking" or sleeping with anyone else. I have not been deceptive, I have remained faithful and pray constantly. I feel very alone, I have no job, nowhere to go and my Husband hates me now. My marriage seems beyond repair and beyond restoring. His heart is cold and I am confused as to weather I should give up or not. Sometimes relationships are better left broken because the break goes against gravity and cannot be bonded again. I know God hates divorce but I don't believe that my marriage should be a sentence to emotional death and emotional abuse (this is what the marriage has become). The only reason we are together is because I have no job and no where to go, I cant stand being a

burden. He wants me out fast and he wants to move on. So do I, I have never been a burden to anyone, I just cant believe this is happening in my life now..Im 54 and feel forsaken by God.

My nam e is Amy and I am new to this group. Wanted to introduce myself. I am a freelance writer for CYL (Control Your Life) Magazine and a motivational speaker. My husband, Matt, and I talk openly about our marriage struggles and are determined to help other couples see the value in staying together. Our message is simple. Through Hope, Faith & Forgiveness we saved our marriage and encourage others with those same three words.

My heart exploads every time her name pops in my head. I mean Im a good father. I had my mistakes. I just dont know what do to. I ask God to help me. Yet its been so long with nothing more to believe in .... I have to move on! Im tired of being sad. Crying. Its not good for me.

Your Prayers are the things that will get you through, I have been fighting for my marriage for 3 years. It is the faith in GOD to move the mountain in front of you that will bring your life together. Do not worry about the situation, worrry about being the man GOD wants you to become. When you dra close to GOD his blessings and power will come into your life and all will see and want to come close to you. In all things that will follow, remember to speak only loviing words from GOD or do not speak at all. Do not preach or speak ill of anyone, even the other person. Show LOVE to all, it is hard, but it is what GOD commands and if we follow him in all things we will have victory in all things.

Unfortunately Daniel I know exactly how you feel. My wife is "In love" with someone else and we have 2 young kids. What makes this kind of situation so bad is that she has 100% of the power as to whats going to happen our relationship, the same as yours. All I can do is love her the way God tells me to through the bible. As long as I do that then I have done everything I can and I have to leave the rest up to God. It's still going to end up being her decision because we have free will but at least my conscience is clear because I have done what I can. I know the pain you are feeling. Everyday I don't know how I am going to make it to the next because it hurts so bad.

Hi guys , God bless. Well Im not married but I am deeplu in love with my sons mom. We broke up 7 months ago :( Now she tells me she has a bf. Which broke my heart competely. But deep down inside I still feel that there is hope for us. Im just scared what if she doesnt come back ? She already has a bf. What am I to do ? I pray. Ive prayed since the day we broke up.

Thanks for the help, I am feeling stronger about my standing thanks to the site. I hope I have been humbling myself through prayer and fasting. Just know I will continue to restore my marriage with GOD leading me in the right direction.