Does it do anything for you?? I'd just like to know because it does absolutely NOTHING for me. I just find it silly. I will admit that I have actually masturbated along with a friend a couple of times, but we were just exchanging real-life experiences and it got real hot. This is actually the only time I've been turned on. But the cyber-sex that involves made-up scenarios and "touch yourself here" type conversations do absolutely nothing for me.

Joined: 9/6/2011Posts: 776Location: the land of enchantment, United States

i feel that exact same way, it always felt like pretend sex and wheres the fun in that? untilll...it was with someone i had a deep connection with then was...different and not at all silly ;)littlemissbitch ~ professional face ripper offer, at your service..

What do you mean by cyber sex? If cyber chat, well that's ludicrously boring and lame and pathetic! But if we include video chatting in cyber sex, it can be *really* hot with the right (sexy) person. Had a dream I was king, I woke up still king!!

Joined: 1/29/2011Posts: 437Location: Playing with knives , United States

It can be fun with the right person. be honest though it has grown kinda boring sure did it when I first joined now if a mic is involved then its more fun for sure.“I'm not one of those complicated, mixed-up cats. I'm not looking for the secret to life.... I just go on from day to day, taking what comes.”~Frank Sinatra~

With the right kitty, I MEAN person!!!! :D it is,,,, quite an experience. Sheaksjfhr THEY!!! Can uhm,,, spark your imagination with their amazing use of words. It's sort of like reading one of the stories here except better because you're a part of it (ya I'm not good with words =/)

With the right kitty, I MEAN person!!!! :D it is,,,, quite an experience. Sheaksjfhr THEY!!! Can uhm,,, spark your imagination with their amazing use of words. It's sort of like reading one of the stories here except better because you're a part of it (ya I'm not good with words =/)

funny, you always seem to be plenty good... with words, i mean, when... umm... *giggles* it really kind of can be an interactive story, but yeah, it takes imagination and creativity and a desire to make it... real? sexy? intimate... and yeah, if the spark isn't already there, it's just words, but if you have that spark, it's really so much more.

I am also someone who doesn't get into Cyber sex. I find it rather boring and it doesn't arouse me at all."Sexual pleasure in woman is a kind of magic spell; it demands complete abandon; if words or movements oppose the magic of caresses, the spell is broken."

At one time I did quite a lot of it. In fact that was one reason I began writing erotica but these days I'd rather just write a story. I have writen fantasies live in a chat and the lady seemed to very much enjoy it but that was more a gift for her. I personally find it more a creative outlet than a means of arousal.I know what Love is.

Cybersex can be great if you're in position where you don't feel like browsing through porn but just want a more interactive story. If the person you cyber with is crap at it, then it's gonna be more pleasurable to have a large wooden pole shoved up your urethra. But, if you're lucky enough to find someone that you're good and you connect with then it can be quite a turn on. Of course it's not the same as going on cam or just using the microphone, but if you're say in a long distance relationship and you wanna add a little extra to the rather meager sex life you have when all you can do is "just" put on a show.

I also find it's a way to figure out new turn ons. Maybe the person I'm cybering with has a few neat tricks that I haven't thought about that I'd like to have done with me and so forth. If both people are good at it then it can be really hot, but like with anything in sex; it's not for everyone.

Joined: 9/27/2009Posts: 373Location: Southeast, United States, United States

Since I am a writer, I thought that I woudl enjoy cybersex. I did it one time and that was enough for me. It did absolutely nothing for me at all. The only thing I got out of it was the sense I could use my mind to create a scene with words, much like the stories I write here.

Maybe I did not have the right person on the other end to make if feel enjoyable, although, she definitely know what she was doing. But it sure did not get me off and it just did not feel real to me."So don't cry to me.If you loved me,You would be here with me.Don't lie to me,Just get your things.I've made up your mind."

Maybe I did not have the right person on the other end to make if feel enjoyable, although, she definitely know what she was doing. But it sure did not get me off and it just did not feel real to me.

Having the right person on the other end is essential. It doesn't have to be someone you love or care deeply about, but you just need to connect with the person. The good old cliche about chemistry. She can be awesome at cyber and it's all "meh", and she can be mediocre at cyber and it will feel awesome, simply because you two click together. It's a gamble, but I know that if I was to be discouraged by my first then I'd never touch cybersex again =P

For me, there has to be a connection. And I only have that with one person. It can be as simple as a few suggestive images tagged with a comment. That same image and comment from someone else would do nothing for me. Im just not interested, so dont even bother...

I pvt with very very few.......a connection is a definate must and the whole word play has to quite accurate to even spark the interest with me anyways! These random pvt requests from people I havent even spoken with before is quite bizare to me....I don't state not to do it, as I like to keep count .....lol I am a visual gal and prefer the introduction to a person here with pictures anyways...you can get a sense of what their tastes are though the lens eye....

I have done it and enjoyed it in the past. It was usually at times when I was extremely horny (I had a lengthy dry spell last year) and I really liked it when I was drunk, LOL. Over time, my desire to do it got less and less and so I stopped. I was told I was pretty good, if that's even something you can be good it (it's certainly something you can be bad at).

I've done role play in chat and I've done the whole "what I would do to you" stuff. I've also done the "what I would do to your wife" thing. It can be hot but it's not for me any more. Plus, now that I get real sex, it's even less appealing.

At risk of repeating what's already been said - the pretend role play stuff does nothing for me - i simply do not see the point. However, if I am horny and talking / chatting to someone and she too is feeling it, then why not. If I am going to masturbate I would far rather do it with someone, share the experience, than do it alone. But hey, whatever blows your hair back I guess

Like most if not all of you that have posted thus far. Cyber chat has never done anything for me. I would rather watch someone with them not knowing or watching a video and getting off than to tell someone what to do and vise versa. I personaly feel that its better to have a personal encounter than cybering.

I often enjoy cybering on Lush. I have met a few people on here and become quite 'close'. We have talked about what we would do if we did actually meet and what we are doing to ourselves. I find it very erotic and such a turn on. But again, it is down to personal preference, I get more turned on knowing I am turning my partner on! I think there has to be a connection first to be able to enjoy someone else..

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