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I had a girlfriend who kept claiming that she loved kids, and was amazing with them. Then I saw her scream at a friend's two year old who spilled a drink by accident - just turned me right off. I mean, the fact that the kid (at that age especially) was working with a regular heavy glass mug and doing good at handling it (no sippy cup), minus the little spill (understandable), I was a bit proud of him, and especially at a time where it was past his bedtime, and he was behaving awesomely... just... I was embarrassed to be around her. And I apologized to the kid and his mom (when she was away), and tried to make him understand that he was doing really well and acting like a big kid, and I was proud of him.

Being selfish more often than not.

Being a pathological liar. Cheating. All of these have to do with trust.

Stubbornness with lying. If you can't give up eating something that I'm seriously allergic to... As silly as it might sound, if you're that addicted to, say, your peanut butter candies, then don't date a guy who is deathly allergic to it, especially when you have seen some of what it does to him.

I like chocolate OK, but if my future hypothetical wife had a deathly airborne allergy to it, well, It'd be gone. Out of the house. (Now, I might get some when she is on vacation away from me for a week, but other than that, it's gone). I'm not that dependent on anything to hurt my future wife if it makes her that sick.

Someone who's slept around a lot. 1) I don't want to run the risk of STD's. 2) Just psychologically, I don't want to be compared in that way.

This is what I really don't like, lets say she rejected a guy at first, but later on in life she change her mind about him cause she realize she let a good guy go to waste plus she now starts to fall for him, after she apologize for breaking his heart and asked for a second chance, and of course he'll still agree to date her.

Now this is the biggest deal breaker, (which I find unfair) if she ever confess her crush on a male friend of hers, but at first he kindly keeps her in the friend zone by rejecting her, but later on like lets say "three weeks later", he startes to realize he also has feeling romantic feelings for her "which he didn't at first", after he apologize for breaking her heart (knowing it also takes time for some guys to gather his thoughts) if he ask her if the him and her can give it a second shot, she'll reject him all because he rejected her at first, just to get revenge. That is a big huge deal breaker if girls think it's okay for them to change their mind about a guy and still win him over but if a guy change his mind about a girl, it's too late for him.

Crazy Bitch is probably the worst one, I have walked out on a really hot girl cause she had kids, probably wouldn't do it again though, and smoking is a pretty big turn off. I mean taking a hit of a joint is fine just not a pack a day. O yeah and cheerleader speech patterns.

Hmmm...well that was always important to me...but personality-compatibility is more important...as is sexual-compatibility...can have sex, can have intellectual convos...however, at the end of the day...have to be able to live under the same roof...

What Girls Said 9

-someone who is a republican or super religious. I have nothing against being friends with people like that, but I think in a partner you should see eye to eye on those things.

-A guy who is narrowminded about things.

-A guy who can't have deep/intelligent conversations about the world

-As far as looks go, I'm getting to an age where what's inside matters more to me than what's on the outside. However, I don't think I could date someone who was super overweight. It's nothing against them personally, but I'm really active and in shape and I love doing active things outside. I want to be able to date someone who likes doing that stuff too.