“The ashes are now with Frédéric. We were going to have a private memorial for her friends like Larry King, George Hamilton and Carol Channing,” Lozzi told us. “We’ve been checking every day with [Westwood Village Memorial Park Cemetery], and as of [Wednesday], she’s not there. She’s supposed to be buried with her sister Eva [and daughter] Francesca.”

Anhalt has said Gabor’s ashes will be interred in Budapest, Hungary, with her father.

Lozzi says, “What’s he going to do, FedEx them? . . . He hasn’t left the country since the ’80s.”

Anhalt did not take our call, but his assistant laughed at the thought of him holding Gabor’s ashes hostage.