I have been divorced now for 2yrs....we had 2 children....mike is 24 and a father of a beautiful 3 month old son....Kristofer is 22,...and a recovering heroin addict....he is now in rehab for the 4th time in 7yrs...plus he did 10 months in jail....my sons blame me for the divorce,because everything has changed....I have been in a horrible marriage for 26yrs....he cheated on me most of our marriage with hookers...I knew but let most of it slide for my kids...the last straw was when he came home and told me he thought he caught a disease....I filed for divorce....my sons think I am wrong....meanwhile their father a 51yr old man likes 20 something girls...I am with a wonderful man, who has been their for me and my children....how do I make my kids realize...I did what I had to do...for me....am I wrong?.....I don't understand.....

jennirvan34

10-09-2012 12:13 PM

Re: Divorce and kids

You should live there where your heart can find real happiness. Take care of your kids desires and talk with them on every issue. Try to convince them. Hope if you have right side then surely they will be happy with you.

Amc220

10-09-2012 12:58 PM

Re: Divorce and kids

[QUOTE=jennirvan34;5069640]You should live there where your heart can find real happiness. Take care of your kids desires and talk with them on every issue. Try to convince them. Hope if you have right side then surely they will be happy with you.[/QUOTE]

Amc220

10-09-2012 01:00 PM

Re: Divorce and kids

I have tried to explain to them what happened,but they are upset because everything changed....I didn't want this...why am I punished?