I'd like to ask if the majority of the commenters here are from the US?
I'm a guy from Europe, and admittedly, I've never spoken about this in depth with any of my female friends, but they've never even let on something close to what I'm seeing in this thread about feeling safe during the night and abuse and rape.

Brown chicken thighs, remove from the pot, sweat onions until translucent, add paprika and sweat mixture for 1 minute. Return the chicken thighs, cover with water and simmer for low on an hour or until chicken forktender, remove to debone and shred, return back to sauce, thicken with starch (let it boil high for a bit), finish off with sour cream.
Fucking delicious. Eat with pasta, rice, dumplings, bread, whatever.
Simple, lasts in the fridge, so you can make a bunch.