Social Question

Why are guys so confusing?

Well there’s a guy in my college and he is just so confusing I can’t seem to understand him at all…

At times he can be so sweet and nice, like getting out of his way to take me home, but at times he’s so cold to me like ignoring me, sometimes he flirts, like the other day he just found out my eye colour and he was just like “shooow me” and just gazed straight into them…

What does he want with me..is he only flirting or is there a further meaning?

It’s called a human. Everyone is confusing. I’m so tired of hearing this question. Men are confusing, women are confusing – we are all damn confusing! If you want an unconditional love that is straight forward, get a dog.

Perhaps the reason why some guys are so confusing to women and probably walk around with a weird look on their face is because they’re trying, at the same time, to figure you women out. Which, try to understand, seems more to me the thing that takes precedence.

And quite frankly, women either know they can be very intimidating or there is something other that they are not aware of about themselves, just as it is for the guys.

He is confusing to you because you are (or were) spending too much time questioning his motives instead of just simply enjoying his company whenever he happens to be around and leaving it at that.

Why does he do the things he does? It could be as simple as he is in the mood to flirt with you sometimes and isn’t in the mood to flirt with you other times.

Who knows? He might flirt with you when you appear to be in a good mood and ignore you when you’re treating him suspiciously because you don’t seem approachable. Those are guesses. I could be totally wrong.