Recently, a client of mine was perplexed by a message she always receives from her loved ones who have crossed over. She turned to me and asked, "What do they mean when they say 'I'm OK' and why do they all say that?" I had never really thought about it as I've always accepted that answer without question but I instantly knew the answer she so desperately needed to hear. And then I realized that maybe that simple statement isn't as straight forward as it seems. The words "I'm OK" are very small words but have very large meaning when they are coming from our deceased loved ones. In the physical world when we say we are ok, we are often using it as a cover up for whatever issues we are going through and so we say something like, "yea sure I'm ok". This is where my clients confusion came in because she wasn't sure if Spirit was using this term in the same connotation as we would use it in here on Earth. She also wanted to know why Spirit could not go into more detail about what it is like in their world so we could better understand their existence instead of living in a sea of uncertainty and lingering questions. Here is what I told her to help put her mind at ease. My explanation seemed to resonate with her, so I hope it resonates with all of you. The words "I'm OK" mean... "I am no longer in pain, I am no longer suffering, I am no longer affected by surrounding drama, I am no longer a victim of circumstance, I no longer worry, I no longer live in anxiety, I am free, I am whole, I exist in a higher consciousness, I am aware on levels I never could have attained on Earth, I see the beauty in my own surroundings and yours as well, I appreciate things for what they are, I understand on a deeper level, I am still living, I am strong and beautiful, I learned from my mistakes on Earth and I am still learning and evolving where I am now, I feel LOVE, I am LOVE... I AM OK!!" Those 3 little words have such powerful meaning and all the questions we have about their existence and wellbeing are truly wrapped up in them. Please know that when you receive this message from your loved ones who have crossed over, this is the deeper meaning behind it. Understand that it's not so easy for them to communicate with the physical world. They have no body so they vibrate at a very high frequency. They need to concentrate to slow down their vibrations and we as humans, in order to hear their messages need to concentrate to raise our vibrations in order to meet them on common grounds. It is on those common grounds that their messages can be heard and relayed. So having a conversation with Spirit is not the same as having a conversation with another human. They need abbreviations, symbols, simple words that get their point across to us. The reason they cannot go into vast detail with us about what life is like on the other side is pretty simple. We are spiritual beings having a human experience, which means that we are here to learn how to live as humans. We are meant to figure it out here and learn as much as we can and learn how to deal with struggle and conflict etc etc, and create our happiness amidst it all. If we knew every detail of their existence, a lot of people wouldn't be so motivated to continue their journey here on Earth unfortunately. We are given as much detail as we are meant to have for the time being and we will know everything there is to know about the Spirit world when it is our time to rejoin them. But now, we must concentrate on our human experience, and how Spirit fits in to it. So for now, please take some comfort in knowing that they are OK and they will disclose what is necessary for us to keep going. As always, all my love, light and blessings sent to each and every one of you. JennXOXO

"...and behind every woman who rolls her eyes lies a man of silent strength & resilience, gently willing her to succeed... to follow her heart... to live her dreams. He's her invisible rock... always there breathing fresh air under her wings making sure there is enough breeze for her to fly..." JB

Dear Hubby,There aren't words in the human vocabulary that describe how I'm feeling right now. I am so overwhelmed with love and that love belongs entirely to you. It's been almost 20 years since the beginning of our journey and if it's at all possible, I love you more now than I ever have before and I continue to be grateful for your place in my life. Thank you for being you. Thank you for being someone who's been able to teach me so many valuable life lessons. Thank you for never letting life get boring. Thank you for being an amazing father to our children. Thank you for always being willing to reinvent the wheel with me when we seem to crash and burn. We've been through just about everything together and what's funny about that is every time we seem to fall, we get back up 100 times stronger than we were before. No matter what evils we have stared in the face, at the end of the day it boils down to one thing... one reality... our reality... love. I always say "only love is real", and we are living proof of that. And it's that love that carries us through and makes each day worth living.As individuals we are both pretty strong people, but together we are unstoppable. Thank you for being on this journey with me. I thank God every day I found you in this life, and I know I'll find you in the next. I'd find you anywhere. You have been and will always be my life, my love, my everything... and all that lies in between. Happy Valentine's Day Mi Amore! XOXOTi Amo... Wifey

Lately the world just seems to have gone more and more crazy. Hurricane Sandy, all these acts of violence, killing innocent kids, people sending fake threats to schools, the supposed bomb scare at a Shoprite shopping center in NJ, people wanting to know if arming our principals and teachers with guns are the answer... I mean, Really? It's all too overwhelming. It's almost impossible to watch the news without having to prepare for it in advance.

This just cannot continue to be our focus. Ofcourse I'm not saying to forget everything that's happened. We must never forget. Forgetting would only allow the world to retreat back to old ways, which obviously have yet to prove successful. I'm just saying that we cannot allow ourselves to live and breathe these tragedies. If we do, we will surely go insane. We need to look at this in a new light, a new context.

So I'm going to share my views with you, views that help me put it in perspective a bit and sleep a little easier. I hope this helps some of you do the same. It's not "breaking news" to any of you that our world has been breaking down for many years. People always want to know why. And we seem to find answers that consist of too many guns, not enough attention to mental health, global warming, etc etc. There are even people out there that believe the world is ending tomorrow and we will all cease to exist. But now think of this... wooden building blocks, or legos even. Yes, I'm referencing toys for a 3 yr old. Bare with me for a moment. You're a kid again, building your masterpiece and you're almost finished and realize you want to change its structure. So what do you have to do? KNOCK THE WHOLE TOWER DOWN AND START OVER FROM SCRATCH!!!! Annoying as this is, and I think we can all relate to this, it's vital in order to rebuild a stronger unit. Now, I am in no way suggesting that what has been going on in this world is ok or condoned. I'm not trying to downplay the horrific disgraces our people have been facing. God knows I am just as torn apart as all of you. I literally cry when I watch the news right now. I almost cannot bare to watch. I cannot imagine what it would be like to take this "beast" head on. I'm a mom. My daughter Lexi is 11. She's absolutely gorgeous, she has an insane sense of humor, everyone loves her. She cheers for not one but TWO different cheering squads at the same time, she's a 2 time National Champion, she gets all A's and B's on her report card and I cannot imagine what it would be like to know that her last accomplishment was her last. Thinking about it makes me cry. I tell you this because I don't want any of you to misconstrue what I'm trying to say or think that I'm trying to downplay recent events. Sometimes when we try dissecting issues from the middle it doesn't prove effective. We are missing the root, the core. Sometimes it's necessary to knock it all down and start from scratch. And when we start from scratch we are allowing a whole new energy to take life and take flight into the new build. It now has new and fresh opportunity. It has a whole new future. It doesn't need to follow any of the old rules or resemble any of it's ancestors qualities. It is it's own fresh free standing unit. So many people say God is setting the end of the world in motion. Having said that, is it so far fetched to believe God, or which ever Higher Power you believe in, is not necessarily ending the world, but instead ending the world as we know it? If we can rebuild a Lego tower surely God can dismantle His world in order to make it better. Sometimes drastic times call for drastic measures and seeing as we, as a people, are generally a stubborn society, maybe the severity of these events were crucial in order to "wake" people up and get us looking for new answers and a way to reinvent the wheel. Sometimes things need to be broken down completely before rebuilding can occur. Do not fear chaos. Focus on rebuilding with love and light instead...

The end result of fear is negative energy. And when you have to tear something apart to make it better things can surely get chaotic, but that doesn't mean we have to live in fear. Think of rearranging your room. It can get pretty darn ugly in there before you get everything back in its proper place so it looks better than it did before right? It's a process. It takes time. But the end result is always really nice. Or, it should be if it's done right. Every situation has a beginning, middle and end. We are in the middle right now. And yes, it's a pretty scary place to be and we have to be concerned for everyone's safety and welfare. But running wild with fear in our hearts is certainly not the answer.

Everything in this world is made up of energy. We learn this in school as a kid. And because we are all made up of energy is precisely the reason why we are all one. Every time someone lives in fear and especially when they express it, it sends a ripple effect through our world. One person affects another person and then another person and another person, and so on and so forth. This is why the power of positive thinking is so crucial to the development of our society. It doesn't have to be negative energy rippling through us. It doesn't have to be toxic. There really are so many good natured and kind hearted people in this world and it's time for these types of people to be heard.

I strongly believe every person is equipped with more strength than they even know. So many times you see people just plummeting their way through, full steam ahead. Which is great, don't get me wrong. But if we all found the strength to slow down just a tad and add some finesse and a softer touch with some love and kindness engraved into it, it would make that much more of a difference. The strength that this situation calls for can only emerge from the love that resides in our spiritual core. We all look to each other for answers when tragedy strikes but the truth of the matter is that the

answers lie within each of us. At the root of each and every human being lies their spiritual core, their "higher self". Our spirit consists of only love, only light. This is where each individual needs to retreat in order to aid in this "rebuild" and bring forth change. Again, we need to focus on rebuilding with love and light. If every person does this we can surely sustain the change necessary to give our children a brighter and lighter tomorrow to look forward to.

In the face of every tragedy lies a glimmer of light. We need to learn our life lessons. Life is the biggest classroom there is. Let's embrace what it has to teach us, take hold of what it has to offer, be a little more open minded to new ideas and outlooks. Take the time to be a little more sincere, add a little more love to the melting pot. We need to forgive those who have wronged us as well as forgive ourselves for our own wrongs. This is so crucial. Forgiveness sets us free. We need to remember that everyone is on their own journey here. And unfortunately, not all are as open to light and love as others. But that is their mishap to resolve, not ours. But we can, and we should, learn from them. Learn what doesn't work so we can do it better and teach our kids better. Let love be the core of your world. Let it be the basis of your foundation to a new beginning. We have the opportunity here for significant change. Don't you think it's better to start over with love being our foundation as opposed to angst, fear and revenge? I don't know about you, but I do. And I will be using my voice and my platform to spread as much light and as much love as I possibly can. I will continue to teach my kids to think positive and act in love in all they do. It only takes 68 seconds of pure thought to give that thought enough power to manifest. Only 68 seconds. So you see how easy it is to set negativity in motion when that is the basis of generalized thinking? Imagine the greatness to be born if we empower those 68 seconds with love... It's time for us to spread our light, not our fear; to rebuild with love at it's core... not revenge. Blessings, love & light,JennXOXO

I know the focus of my blogs have been primarily based on Angel Card Readings but I'd like to shift focus if I may. The main reason I was so excited to create this website was to give myself as well as others the platform to speak up in a positive manner and help spread messages of hope, faith, love and inspiration. And based on current events, I believe the world can use as much of that positive energy as possible. I first would like to extend my condolences, my deepest sympathies and love to all those affected by the Newtown School shootings. I cannot pretend to understand the journey you are on currently or possess the words to ease your pain, or even know the solution to this problem, but I come to you with love and light in my heart and extend to you everything that I am. I have been deeply moved by the courageous words and outlook of the suffering parents and loved ones and can only hope that if I were ever faced with similar encounters, I, too, would find the strength that has found each of you. My prayers are with you now and always.Having said all that, I would like to take this time to focus on love and peace. While its imperative we watch the news to keep current in our world, its all too easy to fall victim to the energy all this destruction and mayhem send into our universe. Every action and every word spoken, or even thought, gives off a vibe. It sends energy through our world and that energy is contagious. It soars through the atmosphere and touches everything it finds. Did you ever notice when you are alone in a room feeling very happy and then someone comes home in a horrible mood, your own mood changes? That's energy. That's the exact energy we want to be careful of and keep from affecting us. That's the energy that needs to be stopped in its tracks and transformed into positive. So now you ask... "How? What can I do?" The answer is very simple. THINK POSITIVE and LIVE IN YOUR LIGHT!! The only thing in this world stronger than hate is LOVE. Love is the only thing that's real in this world. It's all we take with us when we leave. You can be assured that every soul that's taken from this world is not in heaven filled with resentment and hate. They are at peace. They are filled with love and that is what they all want us to know. It's their love they want to pass on to us. It's their love they want us to hold on to. It's their love they want us to remember...How do we stay positive in such a violent world? We live in our light, that's how. And what does that even mean? It means that you live your life as who you are and not what you think someone else wants you to be. It means that you find the strength to follow your heart's dreams and bring them to fruition. It means that you show support to the person next to you when they fall. It means that you shine your light bright. Every time someone lives in their light, a star in the sky shines just a little brighter so someone else can see in the dark and find their way home. When you are happy, share your happiness. Don't keep it a secret. When you learn something new, tell everyone. When you reach another stepping stone, show everyone your progress. Believe in yourself. Believe in who you are. Believe you have purpose. A divine purpose. Believe God knew what he was doing when He sent you here. And believe God has purpose and direction for every action and reaction on this earth. Love yourself! And love others. And give all you have to give. There is always someone who needs it even when you don't know they are there. For every ounce of darkness, there are three ounces of light. Be that light. Each one of us has all the power necessary to drown out the negative. And when we put our individual power together and form one voice, one union, we have the energy to make MIRACLES happen! Yes! It IS possible to change the world. It IS possible to make it better so our children can have safety and security. But you need to believe it. You need to trust it. You need to trust in yourself and the love that fills your heart. We can't sit here and harp on all the negative clutter that inhabits our universe. We need to spread peace. We need to spread love. This needs to be our focus, our goal, our priority. We need to set the example for our children to follow. We need to help them mend and show them there is good in this world so when it is their turn to run this world, they can do it better than we did. After all, that's always our goal as a parent right? To show them what's right so they don't make the same mistakes we did? It doesn't matter that these children aren't biologically ours. They ARE ours. At the end of the day, we all come from the same place and we all go Home to the same place.. We are one. And we are all in this together. Let's please honor these babies and their heroes and everyone else who has fallen prey to acts of violence by doing our part in making it better for someone else. It's our job. It's our duty. And we all have a piece to the puzzle to offer, each and every one of us. Act in love. Act from your heart. Live your dreams. Be who you are intended to be. Light up the sky so someone else can find their way. And please, please, if you know someone who you think is in some kind of mental trouble, don't turn your cheek. Find them help. Use your voice and speak up. It could save a life. And remember, only love is real...I pray this blog finds the eyes of those who are meant to read it. Please pass it on. Blessings, love, light and prayers.... Jenn XOXO