Common pregnancy fears busted

While pregnancy is an exciting time, it’s also a time of immense change, health implications and uncharted waters - many women will have never even changed a nappy before! Here are some common pregnancy fears and how to address them:

You’re afraid of not being able to cope

What with the prospect of millions of nappy changes, sleepless nights and breastfeeding, many pregnant women worry whether they’re up to the job of being a mum. So, well before your due date, start setting up a personal support system, asking friends to offer their pledge of support as their gift at your baby shower and seeking out your local Australian Breastfeeding Association to start forming your own network of new mums.

You’re terrified of childbirth

Victoria Marshall-Cerins, childbirth educator and founder of Birthready, recommends talking to your partner, GP and midwife, to work through anxieties along with considering hiring a birth assistant, or doula . She explains it's been shown that having a doula on hand can dramatically reduce a woman's chance of having a caesarian.

You’re worried about abnormalities

One of the most important things you can do for your unborn baby is to eat a balanced diet and take folic acid - even before you’ve conceived. "Taking a specific folic acid supplement before you fall pregnant is very important," says Dr Robyn Napier, spokesperson for the Australian Medical Association. "It's been shown to reduce neural tube defects by 50-70%." During early pregnancy, two ultrasound scans can identify a high risk of Down’s Syndrome, neural tube defects such as spina bifida, and other congenital defects.

You’re scared to have sex

Renee Adair, doula and childbirth educator with Birth Central, says it’s common to think sex might harm your unborn baby. “It’s a quite common fear – and it's just as common in men as it is in women,” she says. “It can be quite a big issue to get over, as it’s not always something people want to discuss, but making love when you’re pregnant is generally very safe and pleasurable. There are no medical reasons why you can’t continue to have a great sex life.”

You’re confused about conflicting advice

There is so much advice aimed at pregnant women, especially regarding what they should be eating and drinking and the types of exercise you shouldn’t be doing, that sometimes it gets plain confusing. When it comes to exercise, it is advisable to avoid high-impact sports, such as netball or running - instead head out for a walk, join a pre-natal yoga or pilates class, or start swimming instead.