I guess I am not buying my bf anything. He thinks that if I get him something that I'm taking the fun out of it. So I thought about cooking his favorite meal for him which is fried duck with some sides(yes I know how to cook he thinks I am the best cook ever). If you have any more good ideas please let me know thanks.

If you want to get him a good gift, get him something he enjoys - something that he likes to do, like a contribution to one of his hobbies. Guys don't like all the fluffy rubbish that they make out to love - they just like YOU.

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1) To the person who said "sexy lingerie and a blow job" dude, c'mon. That's just uncalled for.

2) Some boys DO like sweet, mushy stuff. Others don't. It really depends on your guy! If you KNOW that he likes mushy kinda stuff, flowers, pillows, stuffed animals are perfect. However, if you either know he DOESN'T like mushy stuff or have no idea, the best bet is to either: think of an inside joke and figure out a way to make a present out of it; bake him cookies/bring him a little bag of candy; make/buy a card that's sweet, and wish him "Happy Valentine's Day!" With a big hug/kiss depending on your age.

FOR GUYS! Again, this depends on your girlfriend. Some girls love mushy and sweet, others don't. Some like expensive presents, others like handmade gifts.

OVERALL if you don't know which kind of present your bf/gf would like, you probably don't know them well enough to get anything over the top. A card, maybe some candy/cookies is all you need. Just make sure you hug/kiss them more often, after all, it's still a romantic, special day for both of you to spend together, it shouldn't matter the gift! :)

So I'm 15 but will be 16 before val day and my boyfriend is 15 he's ten days younger and we have been going out for a year and 7months and I thought it be cute to take my name and his and spell them out with pictures and put it in a frame also get him a game for his xbox but seriously most guys don't like that sappy lovestuff (I live with 5 brothers) they like just being able to spend time with you doing stuff thy like so why not do that for a change eh?

me and my bf have been together for 10 almost 11 months we have been together a long time so far butfor christmas i bought hima new game for his ps3 and for valintines day im thinking about buying him a monkey holding a heart that says i love you:)

me and my boyfriend have been together for just over 4 months, he's caught all of the major spending days so far and i feel kinda bad because i know he always wants so make sure that he does well without seeming show-y.

he's gotten me these james avery rose bud earrings for my birthday and a swirl heart necklace for christmas. i got him the jake cologne from hollister for christmas and an x-box gift card for his birthday (a great idea if you ask me, he was soo excited 3)

for valentines day though i got him this cute heart pillow things with arms from ikea months ago and ive gotten it to the point to where it smells just like me :) (i stole his letterman months ago and personaly i love being envoloped in his scent all the time, i find it sexy)

i made all of my other friends like little treat bags like i do for any random holiday just cause their all single and i wanted to make their day special

i'm putting one of those bags in his gift bag also, filled with handmade sugar cookies, various candies and an ipod shuffle.

i have a feeling that i'm going wayy over the top with all of this but im not too sure :/

happy valentines day though, all of you, single or not are beautiful and deserve better 3

Ladies all I would want for valentines day is my beautiful girl! Just him know that you care about him and love him and give him an amazing kiss (in front of people cause we like pda) and say your his valentine(:

So I've been with my boyfriend two months officially, but we have known each other for years. I told him I love him last night for the very first time, which screwed up my Valentine's Day plans because I wanted to tell him tomorrow. Now I don't know what to do. I'm thinking I'll bake him cookies even though I'm not much of a cook. And I might stop at Victoria's Secret and get some lingerie. The only thing is I probably won't get the opportunity to model it for him tomorrow. I also had the idea of a beach picnic with LOTS of blankets because its freezing outside. That's all I got, feedback would be great :)

Me and my boyfriend have been going out for almost a month now. We were like best friends and really the only thing that has changed is that he's my best friend that I make out with and share everything with. Perfect. He calls me bun or bun bun - short for bunny hehe- I might get him a little bunny rabbit stuffed animal with some hershey's kisses and a home made card. I thought that would be cute :)

My boyfriend and I have been dating since the third of december. We've liked, if not loved, each other since we met four years ago, but nothing ever came of it and we didn't keep too much in contact for all that time until I moved back to the area.

Now, tomorrow, he feels really bad because he can't get me anything or take me anywhere for Valentine's Day. I'm his second girlfriend, so I don't expect him to think of something unbelieveably romantic that doesn't cost money.

Anyways, I'd really like to get him something. If not, make him something but I don't know what. I don't want him to feel worse than he already does for not getting me anything. He's an artist and is in graphic design in college, he's also a writer and interested in making videos and film. I don't have many pictures of the two of us or videos.

I have known my now boyfriend for 2 years and we've liked each other since. I'm 14 he's 16. We love each other and talk about the future all the time. He has a hair bow of mine and I have his sunglasses. He says now we'll always think of each other. Should I incorporate that into a gift? It's Valentine's eve I don't have much time to get him something. A card obviously but what else? When we talk about the future we are going to move to Tennessee, should I use that too? HELP ME!! Please.

well i've been with my boyfriend a year and 3 months now, i'm only 16 and in my last year of school, but we have both liked each other since we first met.

last year i bought him some red boxers which said 'me 4 u' and i made him a book full of our memories, he LOVED it and still reads it now!

And this year i'm attempting to cook dinner (because me and him both know i suck at it), then im buying him a new dvd which he likes for us both to snuggle up and watch! and i'm filling a jar full of love heart sweets and little notes.

I had a boyfriend last year who "didn't believe" in celebrating Valentine's day. I love the holiday and wanted to get him SOMETHING but didn't feel right going overboard.

I ended up baking some sugar cookies and used white, red (well, dark pink) and light pink frosting (vanilla frosting + food coloring) and put them in sandwich bags with the corner cut off to decorate them with little sayings...some of them just cute decorated hearts, others with our initials, some with "be mine" or "143" or "I love you" ...etc. He loved it!

Can never go wrong with food for a man, and the home made touch does so much more!

Well I've been dating my Boyfriend since 12.11.10. I dont know what to get him for Valentines day. Even when he says I dont celebrate holidays or bdays. Well idc I want to get him something even if he doesnt get me anything. I was thinking of getting him chocolate since he loves chocolate and Vitamin water. But it depends, I'll just have to find out about some things. and the Advil. Empty it put some other small candies in there and put a lovely note in it saying i love you

Alright so first off, the advil idea is pretty cool and sweet. You could empty out the container, put a cute little note in it, and some bite size chocolates that he likes.

Now, I need help with what to get my very own boyfriend! Haha. I was think of getting him a cute bear and spraying my perfume on it because he always comments on how good I smell and he loves it when he goes home and smells his shirts and it smells like me. I also had the idea taking a picture of him and I then putting it in a frame for him to have, not a big frame but big enough for him to have. Chocolates of course.... Any other ideas? Please help

I've been with my boyfriend for a month and a day and we're in love. I know him really well but i'm still kinda stuck on what to get :( I was thinking of making a card, and getting some boxers and a toy story poster or something but i'm not completely sure yet. It's kinda hard to think of things because i've never been in a serious relationship on valentine's day before :/ I haven't given much of an answer but i hope this helps :)

Chocolate and teddy bears? seriously? Sure, they'll smile at you and say thanks baby, i love it. But i bet you anything that the candy will end up being eaten, not appreciated. and that teddy will either take up lodgings at your place or in the back of his closet.

Do as some of these lovely ladies suggested. Sexy lingere. Its a fact that males think about sex every 7 seconds, even if its only for a split second.

I think the advil is a cute idea but maybe to make it a little bit more fun you could just use an empty advil bottle and maybe make your own label for it and fill it with M&Ms or some other candy that looks like pills. That would be cute :)

I read a lot of the other comments and I don't think this one was mentioned yet, but I am thinking about making a calendar of 365 of my favorite memories with my boyfriend. Each day he can read a new memory and start his day off great :) Good luck! He will really like anything you make or get him. It's the thought that counts!

I cannot believe that CHILDREN are worried about what to get for their BOYFRIENDS! What is this world coming to. You are too young! Enjoy your childhood because before you know it its gone. I know I am speaking like an old lady, but I am only 22 it just makes me sick to my stomach to read that kids are dating. You shouldn't be worried about what to get your "boyfriend" for Valentine's Day, you should be more concerned with school and your friends.

Oh my goodness. you ladies are taking this too far!! I have been dating my amazing boyfriend for 1 year and a half today! Boys dont want teddy bears or roses or chocolate thats what they are suppossed to get us! Make him dinner, Go for a walk in the park, I live by the ocean and we both sail so Im going to give him some inside joke gifts along with some boxers and a hand made cardand cookies and then I give little hints about our day like take a walk on the beach , make him dinner , watch a movie on the couch, etc. Make it simple but, be yourself! Have fun and Good luck!

Hey i am having a hard time trying to figure out what to get my boyfriend we are only 11 but we really like eachother. it is kinda hard to get him somthing if i dont know what he likes. unfortunately we are going on a school field trip for grade 6's to ecole de neige on velntines day. we are supposed to stay there for a few days. we are supposed to have our own cabins and we cant visit other cabins. we can only see eachother when we are doing activities. i want to get him something special to let him know that i really really like him. but i am not sure if he is getting me something. so far we have went to a dance together but we didnt really dance. he hung out with his friends and did his stuff and i hung out with my friends and did my stuff. we arent really into the relationship. what i mean by that is that we havent even hugged. we only talk to eachother after school and sit next to eachother all the time. so far i got him a teddy bear holding a heart in his hands and a card. no i am debating on whether or not i should get him heart candies or chocolate hershey kisses. i know he loves chocolate but maybe the kisses are to much! which one should i get? am i being to cheap? i am not sure if i want to get alot though cause i only see him at school and we dont talk on the phone. so i would have to give it to him at ecole de neige or after the trip at school. but what if he thinks i am weird cause he didnt get me anything. idk. what if people start to stare. i mean everyone knows we like eachother and that we are boy friend and girl friend but what if everyone starts laughing and stuff :( i dont know help me out!!!i need your advice and opinions.

well my boyfriend said he was spendin up to 200 dollars on me for a valentines day i think that a little muchh but i have no clue what to get him he told me he wants a jacket from aeropostale but they dont have the one he wants so idkk what to do.

Me and my boyfriend have been together for 6 months now. I'm making him chocolate covered strawberries, a really nice romantic dinner thats ready when he's off work, buying him a movie he really wants to see, and getting chocolate for us to munch on during the movie. :) It says I love him and everything I did was for him. But its something we can enjoy together as a couple! :)

I read every single comment and I'm still stuck I'm turnin 13 and my bf is 12 we hav been 2gether 4 a while but it wasn't like a real relationship. Except this year it got more relationshipy we haven't kissed yet but evry1 wants us to even me and him but we r way to nervous I realy don't know what to get him I thought I would make him a cute card and then put a kiss on it but I don't know what he will think about it I'm wayy to shy to give it to him face to face so I thought I could stick it in his locker but when could I without any1 seeing me I was also thinkin chocolates but I hav the same locker problem please give me answers ~~~~~~~

btw I think the advil thing is good just write him a cute card with it

well i've been going out with my bf for 2 WEEKS! im getting him love heart sweeties and a lego guy&gurl as well as a frame with us and a heart in it... a bit much? idk my friends say its ok but wat do u guys think?

me & my bf hav been dating for 2 months now, & hes a rele sweet, considerate guy who also has a good sense of humor. i was thinking a card 4 sure, candy (hershey?) but i dont know what else!!! i know hes getting me a rose, a box of chocolate, and a card. :D any ideas????

my boyfriend and i have been together for 4 years and i am getting him a build a bear with a packers outfit since hes a huge packers fan..and cute picture frame with a pic of us in it...im going to make him a calendar and for every day, theres going to be a different reason why i love him..im getting him front row tickets to a sporting event..and an itunes card :) i love spoiling him ;)

i definitely think if you decide to give him advil put a note on it so you wont have to explain to him why your giving it to him or what its for. it should also be a side gift, get him something else more serious.also probably not roses or bears, that's not something most guys really like.

i would suggest make him a batch of his favorite cookies or cake, make him a red fleece tie blanket and spray it with your perfume, maybe movie tickets, or a favorite CD of a band he likes but doesn't have.

Girls.. Guys don’t want teddies and roses.. ok some might but I’ll say the majority of you aren't dating one of those! Valentine's day has been hyped up too much, it should be about the two of you spending time together, and guys like it simple so chocolate, cook him a nice meal or play dress up in the bedroom ;)

My boyfriend is cooking the meal this year so I’m getting some sexy lingerie, high heels and a bottle of JD for dessert ;)

As for the advil, i would deffo get him that if he would find it funny! Don't worry about it too much, he will love whatever you do :)

I've been with my boyfriend for 5 months now., and I brought a plain scrap book and filling it with pictures and memories and tickets of all the stuff me and him have done(: but i was also thinking of getting him something else which I havn't quite decided on yet., either a chain necklace, a photo frame with a picture of me and him in, a romantic DVD or something else :S :L

After reading every post, I know what to get. Me and my bf have been dating for two years and we agreed not to do anything, but I'm going to surprise him. I'm going to fill a basket full of chocolate, I'll buy a few of those dollar packs of chocolate from walmart and open them and spread them in the bottom of the basket. Them I'm going to put a stuffed bear in it because our pet names for each other are always bear (he usually calls me baby bear). In the bears arms I'm going to frame a picture of us from our senior prom. Then I'm going to make him duct tape roses, and as a gag because we both have a funny sense of humor, I'm putting a roll of toilet paper in the basket. He'll love it!!

My boyfriend and I have been going out since 12.02.10 I'm making him a heart shaped bank out of clay, and painting it red and writing I love you on it and filling it with 100 reasons why i love him, and I'm also giving him dove chocolate hearts and a home made card.

i've been with my boyfrind two years next month and i have no clue what to get him for valentines day so far i've got him a small me 2 u teddy bear, chocolates, a card obv and a fake rose and im going to write a letter saying that i got him the teddy because he gives the best cuddles, chocolates because hes sweet and im trying to think of something for the rose but i want to get him a real present because what ive got him is just small things

Well I think it depends on what kind of guy it is, if it is a serious man get him something serious. If not get him something goofy. If you are grown-ups you can get him what he likes like if he likes sports, get him a baseball cap or a football jersey. If you are young teenagers then get him something like a hat for instance, teenagers like elmo or cookie monster hats so there ya go. What women/girl expect is usually a necklace or bracelet, and or a box of chocolates. IT IS EASIER FOR A GUY TO GET A GIRL SOMETHING!!!!

Im giving him a big gift bag full of candy and also in the bag will be a glass bottle with a poem that i wrote. Its sweet funny and sentimental. Attached to the bottle is a key for a key to my heart. My guy is sweet and sentimental too so he will love it. Get creative and make something. Even frame your first picture together and decorate the frame. And always include candy. You cant go wrong there.

If I were you I'd get him something sentimental to him, or to your guys' relationship. Maybe a personal mixed CD, or a coupon book for some cute things. I'm not sure what to get my boyfriend either, but I think you just gave me some ideas. Thanks!

well im 13 and i was thinking of getting him a giant hershey kiss- to show that i love him lots, a card, a teddy bear with a packers jersey on it (big fan), and maybe a movie with a trip to the photo booth:)

What is everyone talking about? Advil would be an awesome "gag" gift, as long as he has a sense of humor. That should be something on the side along with a note saying, "Sorry for the headaches! Xoxo" or "This should help(;" Although it shouldn't be the main gift, it's perfect for a small gift on the side. XX

Don't get him advil...... This came because I don't know what to get mine either but to be honest, that isn't really goofy at all. I've been in a relationship for 9 months. But I just had to say to definitely not get him advil.

Well my bf an I have been dating for more than a year now and my parents don't let me see him outside of school, I think a big Teddy bear a box if chocolates a card and baking him something would be enough! hope this helped! :]

Ladies, Ladies, Ladies...stop thinking about yourselves! Seriously, who is going to use that teddy bear that you plan on giving him? (most likely you, right?) I have been with my boyfriend for four years now. I am going to put on some sexy lingerie, do my hair and make up, and take a really hot picture and give him a wallet size. Plus make him dinner, buy him something hes been asking for, and of course we'll have fun at the end of the night ;) Valentines day isn't only for us...I'm sure that the men in our lives would like to know we appreciate them :)

I'm making him a heart shaped chocolate cake saying I WUV WOO on it, a me to you bear saying how much I love him and a BIG card. A mixed CD and let him do anything to me in bed. I know he's making me a steak dinner so i'm making him the cake for dessert :P

Im thinking of getting him a card, boxers, a homemade keyring (with a pic of us and a pic of an inside joke between us), a tshirt of one of his idols, perhaps will make some cookies and end the night with some chocolate body paint ;) what else should I get?

Well my boyfriend and I have been dating for 8 months and he likes spongbob so for valentines day I'm getting a whole bunch of sponge bob stuff and one of those over sized Hersey kisses to show how much I love him.... If he likes cartoons then get him a whole bunch of stuff from tht cartoon and some chocolate!! Hope this helped

get him an autograph from his favorite actress/actor/musician/ athlete or any celebrity. you can get it signed specifically to him with a message and everything. he will really appreciated the lengths you went to get it for him, but its actually really easy and cheap :)

After reading all of these suggestions ive come up with a valentines gift for my bf thats under 40,,, first of all a case of beer, a pack of Djarum clove little cigars, a lighter ( a reeeeally nice gift would be a niice zippo lighter) some chocolate, and a velvet cake with white icing and heart sprinkles, a box of condoms, a can of whipped cream, and lollipops to play with!! you could also buy those miniature bottles of jack daniels instead of the beer. and me in lingerie of course!!!!

For Valentines Day I know my boyfriend is going to take me out for dinner, buy me roses and chocolate and all that good stuff. What i'm thinking of doing him for this lovely Valentines day is basically make a lot of the things. I'm going to make Chocolate covered Strawberries by a nice box to place them in. Make my own bed coupon, possibly throw in some love dice. Buy him boxers boxers, and a lighter that zaps back because he smokes and i absolutely hate it. It will definitely be really funny (i can't wait). Ill purchase some nice messaging oil, my boyfriend loves when i massage him. I will also buy him a picture frame that says i love you and customize it with our names and put a picture inside.. that's what i plan on doing... Sounds like a lot but its worth it.

Jeez, you guys are really going all out this year. I have been with my partner two years, and people who ave been dating theirs for 4 months are doing more than me!

Anyway, the trouble us girlies have is we go a bit mad, and get things that WE would like, rather than they would like. Obviously, some guys would love a bouquet of roses or a huge 'I love you' teddy or w/e, but in general, they are the kind of things we would like to receive.

The best thing would be to actually find out what kind of things he's into. Last year I took my guy out to his fave restaurant and finished the night off with some saucy fun. We both loved it and it cost me under £50 ;) (He took me clothes shopping and let me go mad with his credit card, woohoo! Needless to say he probably spent ALOT more than me!)

You don't have to spend a load of cash to show someone you love them. A naughty picnic (best done out of the public eye) can be great fun, a night in with your fave dvd is cute. I've been planning to have a steamy cooking session with my partner, where I doubt a lot of cooking will get done!

Go with the advil ;) You don't have to buy more than that. Inject a little fun into the day, and just go with the flow. Forget teddy bears and roses, spend some time together and enjoy eachother's company.

Girlys! look down that list of all the coments... i dont see any men making wonderfull suggestions... Thinkin about what to get you all, or what they wanna do for you... NO!... cos they dont care... i say...stick to a personal present or event, something personal to you two or him and then Sit back relax, and let them do all the worrying... Valentines day is ment to be about us ladys... lets keep it that way... x x x

I think you should get him that but also get him something else just after he sees the advil and he's all depressed and like "o umm thanks" then you should pull out something else for him to let him know you are serious. :)

I have been with my boyfriend for 5 years and this year for valentines day Im making him a kind of gift basket with LOTS of candy, his favorite (semi-expensive) cologne, a pack of cigarettes, a new bic, a picture frame with our picture in it and a list of reasons why he's so incredibly amazing :)And maybe some silk boxers if I can find some.

Roses, chocolate? A book of all the ways you love him? GAG!! He's a guy... get him tickets to a sporting event. Then you guys can go together for a fun romantic date that he will actually enjoy. PS - You should pay for the beer at the game too.

my boyfriend and i have been dating or nearly a year and a half. last year, i bought a woven basket, a teddy bear, hershey kisses, a huge bag of m&ms, and a picture frame. i also bought confetti stuff to pile into the basket!

i put the bear in the basket, and it was holding the picture frame of us together. on the side there was the bag of m&ms and then there were lots of kisses sprinkled.

this year, i was thinking of buying a pillow case and having a good picture of us put on it. then im gonna get him some heart boxers, along with a short note consisting of "i love you" short, sweet. gets to the point real quick. =) and of course, to top it off, chocolates!

well about the whole advil thing...that'd be a good idea for like a joke...but only if he has a good sense of humor...i didnt know what ti get my boyfriend either. so i thought about the kind of person he is and i decided to get him a stuffed animal thats holding a heart that says i love you on it and his favorite candy...im also writing him a note about how i feel about him and how much he means to me...guys like when you make or write stuff for them...but whatever you do make sure its from the heart and im sure he'll love it :)

I think some of the home made gift ideas mentioned might work. Its a bit naff if you don't actually have any practical skills though. My boyfriend and i have been together for 3 years and we have the ice rink in our town booked out so we can skate alone :) Then we're avoiding the crowds with an indoor picnic at home ( i didn't forget the steak rule. ) A great opportunity for some unbridled evening-and-night long filth. I also treated myself to some new valentines underwear...which i hope to pass off as a part of his gift :)

He works in animation and is a bit of an arty farty type so i painted something for him. He collects a lot of the kidrobot figures so i got him a couple, and designed a home made Dunny.

We used to live apart and we would send a sketch book back and forth adding to it each time. Thats a pretty romantic idea for any long distance couples - Sketch book.

Its pretty hard to think of a general valentines gift for men...i guess you have to know your own boyfriend. I think a loose general rule would be to make it PRACTICAL. Sure...guys are romantic but i think usually they see teddy's and the other usual suspects as kind of cheesy and cliched? Unless hes into art its really going to have to be a gift he can use.

I think listing the reasons why you love him might be a bit overpowering, especially if the relationship is fairly new. Its a bit like saying i love you at the end of a phonecall...it doesnt mean much and its tedious. let him know all the reasons you love him throughout the year...the moment hes done something to remind you.

Spend valentines having a laugh and being a bit naughty :) Most guys are quite content with that alone x

To answer the question "What if we're not in love?" I think taking HIM out to a nice dinner, movie, or event would be a nice gesture. Ususally the guy pays for stuff so treat him and do something that's "on you". I find that doing that for my boyfriend every now and then makes me really appreciate all the times he does that for me (which is almost always). We are very much in love, but that doesn't mean it has to be all sex and love and mushy things on Valentines Day ;) He's not just my lover but my best friend too!

my boy is always whining(just being stupid)and i always call him a tit bag so i thought i would make him a card that said Happy Valentines Day Tit Bag lol i thought it was a cute idea. then i would give him a good sweet card that i made and his other presents.

ima make him brownies with his favorite candy (m&m's) then im making him a cd of me singing (lol) his favorite songs. He likes the way i sing ( even tho im horrible) but oh well xD and ima go out to the movies and have dinner :)

I've been with my boyfriend for a little over two and half years. I've already gotten him shirts, sweatshirts, shoes, made him cards, got him chocolate, bears, made him over 33 letters, made him coupons, a collage, stuff like that. I was planning a scavenger hunt for a while ago, but it failed because he couldn't hang out. But I loved the idea of it. Since it's cold, I think I'm going to do it around my house, in places we've been. So yea, that's my valentine idea. Good luck with yours. (:

well im only a freshman in high school idk what to give my boyfriend for valentines , we just started but i really like him nd i want to show him how much i love him but idk what to give him, i was thinking on giving him a teddy bear with a picture of us kissing so he can remember me and maybe chocolates and a leeter sayin how much i love him, but i need more ideas so can anybody hepl me ?

my boyfriend and i have been dating for 3 weeks. i got him a dog from build a bear and since he likes the yankees i dressed the dog up in a yankees uniform. and im gonna get him boxers and chocolate. i also got him a card.

me and my boyfriend have been together a few months but its quite serious, so im going to try to do a lot -

1. a mixtape usb. it cost about £8 and looks like one of those mixtapes couples used to make for each other but inside is a usb so you write your playlist and decorate it etc, traditional AND up to date (:

2. CHOCOLATE - the best way to a guys heart is his stomach as the saying goes, im getting him some little chocolate cup things that spell out i love you, a heart lolly and two little lovebirds ( me and him (: )

3. i'm thinking, write a note of all the reasons i love him, for all the days i've known him.

4. maybe a little bear, nothing too cheesey because hes a guy but just a little something to keep in his room when i'm not there (:

finally, i was thinking about baking something small, just to make it more home made but we'll see (:

i am not sure what i a going to give my boyfriend. i am going to give all my friends a normal valentines but for him i want to spice things up a bit. i am going to get him some choclates, hot cheetos, i am going to write a letter of how mugh i love being with him and how much i love him. and a valentines kiss. that is i think will give him a great valentines.

My boyfreind loves ice-cream just as much as me. And he loves dogs. So I am gonna make him a hot fudge sundea with a brownie and a banana. I'll put it on a tray and put a little stuffed dog next to the bowl with a ribbon tied around the dogs neck. And I'll get him a really nice card. We've only been going out for 3 weeks so I think this is a nice gift.

My boyfriend and I have been together for 15 months. Valentine's Day is also my birthday so I know that he is going to get me something good and I definitly want to get him something to show I care. For his birthday I got him 24 presents (since thats how old he was turning) but I'm stuck for Valentines day!

And I think the advil is a good idea (with something else) IF he would immediatly know why you got it for him (it woulnd't be as funny if you had to explain it ... you could make a card for the outside saying like "for all those times i've given you a headache..." or omething)

I think your idea of the pills is cute but make sure you do something a little more serious to.

I have the same problem as well. I'm 17 and going to college next year so I dont want to spend alot of money. I have been in the relationship for 13 months and we are a bit more traditional than couples nowa days so no bed ideas. I want it to be memorable and really creative. Ideas please

Me and my boyfriend have been dating for about eight months and I never know what to get him for "gift-giving-occasions" For his birthday I got two hollister shirts, for christmas I got him a hollister thermal. For valentines day I'm getting him a hoody. (Real, original) But I recomend pictures of you two together in maybe a cute picture frame. :) He's getting me uggs, I'm super excited!

I have been with my guy for 1.5 years (0n the 8th). We got together on August 8th. (8*8*08). I am getting him cologne and a shirt that is like $150. Ed Hardy, his favorite brand. Or I may buy him shoes since he needs some.

The most important thing is that he doesn't think I am getting him anything. I most certainly am :). I want to get him some expensive watch or wallet since his is yucky, but we will see. xP

I am thinking about making my boyfriend a book titled, "Why I love you". On each page write, I love you because... and put why you love him. Im going to illustrate it as well to go along with what i say. I think its a cute little idea and lets him know why you love him soo much!

Mine is a chocolate addict (Usually thought of as a female thing, but no, my boyfriend is addicted to chocolate). I'm getting him oreos and chocolate milk :) I wonder what he'll get me... I think he's thinking about taking me to the cinema, but I don't know :)

Well i was planning on giving him this really cute lil bear that sings and has a fan on it, it lights up while it spin's "i love you", and "be mine", i thought it looked to cute. Also a necklace, matching set one for me and the other for him. I'm also getting him this really big cute card from hallmark.

I think the Advil idea is very good, and funny, just cause it's a day of love doesn't mean you can't have a good laugh.

Ok, maybe this will give some of you ideas.:) Pay attention to the things your boyfriend likes and the things he uses the most. Because lets face it..guys love when you give them all your attention and when they know you actually pay attention.

I haven't been with my boyfriend very long, but i love him more than anything, and i wanted to show him that i do appreciate him and that i do pay attention. For example, my guy LOVES chocolate and anything with peanut butter, So i am going to bake him a batch of peanut butter brownies and wrap a red ribbon around them. I am also gonna buy him a bottle of Jack Daniels because all he drinks is Whiskey. 'Now this is where the advil comes in ;)' He can't hang with drinking, but he wont admit it haha. The next thing i have in mind is a boquet of roses, but im gonna place a fake rose in the middle of the boquet. Im gonna put a note on the vase that says “I will love you only until the last rose in this bunch dies. When the last rose in the bunch is wilted, has no petals, and is shriveled, my love will end. Do you understand?” cute right? :) And all of these things will be placed on a fancy silver serving tray.

--maybe pursuade him to get nice Valentines Day pictures with you. 'professionally done though' this would be nice if it's your first Valentines Day together.

Ok Valentines day is on a sunday this year. So all of the ppl with the idea of bringing stuff to school isnt the best...

I have only been with my boyfriend for 9 months and what im doing is writing a bunch of little notes of why i love him and putting each one in a different baloon and fill his room with them3 That way hell have to pop them all:) Im also getting him Oakley sunglasses. And we are going to a fancy dinner:) Ill have to dress up for that maybe with some sexy lingere for later;)

if you have been together for a while he may wonder why you got him advil but im sure when you explained to him why then he will find it funny but i think you should also get or give him something a little more serious just to show him how much he really does mean to you and how much you do really love him

i'm 14 and my boyfriend and valentines day falls five days from our one month-i'm getting him a rose,a gift basket with a shirt some cologn a teddy bear and a card,i am going to give the gift basket to his teacher so that she will give it to him in the middle of class and when he gets to the class we have together i'll give him the rose

Well i've been going out wit my boy friend for 2months but knwn him for 7 yrs.

Well I waz stuck on wat to get him but what I thought was get a cute lil box and put in 365 kiss candys n say 365 kisses for the whole yr. Rite a note n in red lipstick giv a kiss wit my lips. Also give him a card and mayb teddy bear n since hez a huge laker fan give him a keychain.(:

they say the way to a mans heart is through his stomach. My BF loves puppy chow (and who doesnt) so im making him puppy chow and will shape it like hearts. Also a card and some other things but hope this helps

Well me and my boyfriend have been together for a good minute he's proposed and he has my name tattooed on his chest. but its only been 4 months yeah crazy aha. but i thought of getting him a HUGE bear its bout 50$ [ITS HUGE] Then i went to a sculpting class made a heart painted and got it glazzed with our date inside you can leave stuff in it im leaving 20$ and a cute note. Then Im I bought a big box with two smaller boxes inside which im leaving goodies inside with taco bell [his favorite place to eat]. And maybe a polo or something but i decided to go all out yeah a little expensive but you still have a couple weeks to save up!

Okay so I have this big vintage baq. Yu can fit everythinq in there. So I was thinking of a little joke like qivinq hem a card and then be like baby I couldn't afford nuthnnq else. (dollar card).. Then wait 5 minutes and see how he acts; and then pull out another card (but more nice) and a rose.. And be like no seriously here ya qo.. Then wait a minute and then qive hem an expensive collar shirt and some expensive curve cologne .. Then a kiss and tell hem how much I care for hem, then a written poem, with mah feelnnqsz said .. I think that would be sooo cute !

Since we live apart, this time I will let him know that I will fetch him in the evening. In my backseat will be a bottle of wine and light savoury snacks. We will then park under the stars in a quite spot. It will be hands off untill we get home. It will drive him nuts...

its a funny thought but i would let him no before hand you should mabye hint like no what im going to get you for valintimes day orsay you got a headache again then give him them and another nice gift like aftershave gift sex or somthing along thoes lines hope this has help x

i think the headache pills are a funny gag gift. honestly it doesn't matter what you do as long as you both know how the other one feels. like last year i gave my boyfriend a poem i wrote for him, and he gave me a big hug. it was sweet since we didn't get to spend valentines day together. and this year i'm making him a cat stuffed animal cause he loves cats. i mean i guess i'm not really serious about the whole valentines day thing seeing as though i'm only in high school and i actually don't care for the holiday in the first place, but any chance i get to show him i love him is good enough for me.

OK.. well ive read these answers and all of them sorta say the same thing'

A box of chocolates,a card,and a teddy bear..

but i absolutely do not want too do that for my boyfriend

im only 15 and me and my boyfriend have been going out for 6 months ,,,

unfortunately im probably a little lost in love and trying too figure it out...

but what ill do is write a love story of very time you have spend with your bf and make it seem special fill it with pictures, good memories, and dont forget too let him know how much you appreaciate him being in your life....

i over heard my boyfriend tell his friends what he was getting me for valentines day but he wont drop any hints for what i should get him. he said he was getting me this ring and even though we are only in middle school he said he loves me. i think i love him to, if only i could find him something for valentines day we would be all straigt.

He came by yesterday to drop off a box of choclates a bear and a card and I wasn't even prepaired D: i gave him a box of choclates my dad gave me =\ I hope hee' liked em' ill be prepaired next year eye' promise!

well i think you should not give him headache pills you should be sweet on that day....like give him a card and candy and if you want to do more if you live together get the glow in the dark starts and write i love you on the ceiling so when you go to bed at night and will get a special message.....i wanted to do that this year but i got us a hotel instead..since i live with my bf parents...:)hope i helped

weell i really dont know what to get my boy, weve been going out for 8 months and hes great. i got him a little bear and made the bear hold his favorite candy ( he dosent like chocolate). idk if thats enough though, i wanna get him more but im short on cash and he dosent really give hints. he likes cars but is that romantic?

my boyfriend likes to draw with pencil crayons so i went to an art store and bought him real artist drawing pencils, i found this used book he wanted and bought it, and also hes always wanted to go see the opera so i ordered us tickets and i made an "invitation" saying that on that date im taking HIM on a date blah blah :) basically remember the little things he mentions throughout the months and see what you can do with them!

I've been with my fiance for 5 years now, and I'm not too sure on what to get him. money is tight, so i was thinking some chocolates, a gift (cheap), and tickets to a movie? is that too much? Any help would be appreciated. I want to make this speical but i suck when it comes to ideas!

Headache pills are an awesome idea. Aslong as he gets a real present too. Just incase he has his hopes up. Lol. I think making coupons is a good idea. Nice and cheap for poor people like me. Along with chocolates.

Okay, so, after 4 years 8 months, I've realized Valentine's Day isn't really all that important. Show your guy you love him regardless of the day! If you really want to do something that is inexpensive, do something more creative. Draw a treasure map or write notes to him and leave them around the house as a scavenger hunt that will lead him to the next note. At the end lead him to your final gift. A picture, his favorite dinner, tickets, whatever your guys into. Its just the thought that counts. If you haven't been together too long just get him candy and a card or something. Moving to fast on his part with an expensive gift just isn't the right thing, chances are the relationship won't last long.

ive been dating my bf for about three months and i dont really know what to get him. im thinking a teddy bear and me writing him a cute poem about why i love him. i was going to get chocolate but he doesnt like it (crazy i know). any other ideas?

this is what i want from my boyfriend,...i want him to tell me he loves me and not care what his freinds think. because we are in middle school and people care wayy to much wat others think, but anyways i want that and like a necklace with a heart on it, or some roses, or i big teddy bear!!I love Valentines Day! i hope you enjoy it!

This is hard. I really like this guy, he's sooo sweet to me. So what am I supposed to get him?? He's getting me jewelry and a teddybear with candy or something. I was just thinking classic candy and a card? Is that not good enough? I have no idea!! I'm only in Middle School and I'm going through the same problem. You may think its immature, but my schools pretty sophisticated when it comes to dating. Could use some help!! Thanks!

lol well maybe you culd get him that as a joking gift then get him somethin else like cologne or a game he wants cuz me and you both know guys heads are always stuck in games lol.hope i helped a little. =]

Aww..All of these ideas are great ladies :) After reading all of your posts I have come to my own conclusion. It would be a mix of everything. I am going to get him a gift basket full of all of the things that make him happy (i.e. sees chocolate, motorcycle mag., tylonal pm, a picture of us, his favorite baked treat, his favorite fruit, and something with his favorite color and anything else i think of from now until then.) PERFECT! Thank you again for the ideas girls and i hope my idea will help a few of you.

ha the headache pills is to funnie! I think you should get a box of a lot of little a buncha little things and give a reason y u put them n the box.like headache pills because u give him a headache,.chocolate because he sweet,.heart bacause u love him,. a bear cause he cuddly stuff like that would be rly cute! I wish the best of luck to yall! :]

Ive been dating my boyfriend for a year and eight months now.He is seventeen and Im sixteen. so transportation is a hassle for us and so is money. he is an amazing guy and i have no idea what to get him for valentines day.

you should do what im doing, im getting him a jar FULL of cherry filled hershey kisses (he LOVES cherries) and then im making him cupons for stuff like "1 free cuddle" or "2 free back massages" haha or maybe in your case "1 headacheless day". hehe i luv valentines day!

the advil is a cute/funny idea if you get him something else too that is more serious and sweet. but not for the only gift it kinda says: "i don't really care about you enough to take the day seriously"

Well I have a boyfriend and I don't know what to get him. You should get him advil but then surprise him later on with a box of chocolates a very sweeeeeet card and then if you want a pic of you to in a frame with maybe a bouquet of balloons? Hope I helped!

* Do any of you have idea's for me I have been dating my bf for 9 months but this is our fist Valentines day obviously!

well; i've been dating my boyfriend for a while now and he's going to school and can't work at the same time. so we both decided were going to do something really inexpensive for each other this year. and he keeps telling me to just buy him a card or something but i decided i know something better. i went out the other day about bought 2 HUGE packets of sticky notes and what i'm going to do is write on each of them one reason why i love him and stick them to his car. then take him outside and make it seem alot more then what it is by saying "i know we decided to not spend alot of money, but it's too big to bring inside!" then show him and watch it all. hope this helps!

ok go to the store and buy lik lil kid valentines- ya kno the ones u gave out in 2nd grade. then slip one in his locker and other places he'll find it everyday of febuary until valentinesday. rite cute messages and then a count down to the special day and on valentines day make a scrap book of everything u've done together- movie tickets, pictures, notes,...condoms lol be creative

Well i have only been going out with my b/f for 2 months and was seriously stuck. Because we hadn't been going out for a long time we both decided to get something small. I got him a tiny thorntons tag which says, to aaron x x x. If he feels the same way about you he won't mind if you got him a box of chocolates but if you want a night to remember then get an old chocolate box and put in a load of condoms,a pair of handcuffs and a nurse's outfit-he'll love it! good luck x x

me and my gf have been going out for 3 years and we think valentines day is'nt about getting your bf or gf a present to show you love them. Its about loving someone so much they should know you love them even if you don't get them anything. But if you do want to get us guys something i would suggest a REALLY cute teddy or chocolate or even just a really nice card thats really all we need to know that you love us.

My boyfriend and I have been dating for a year and 4 days and I dont know about you guys but I have a tough time shopping 4 my bf...i think I am going to stick to something simple...a teddy bear..a really cute card...and chocolate!It seems like the best thing to do because it seems like it does make them feel special!

hey guys I've read every single answer and at the beginning i was so nervous on what to get my boyfriend of over a year. but he cant have chocolate hes allergic so i think ya spoil him give him the roses and ill make dinner and bake some cookies. who wouldn't want home made warm cookies with his hot lady?? maybe a little fun in the bedroom, why not a guy deserves being spoiled just as much as we do! well i think so at least, do a little lap dance or put on some music to dance to or cuddle something cute :) have a great valentines everyone! good luck!

hey ladies im a guy and i feel a girl shouldn't have to worry about getting her guy a great valentines day present. Us guys are the ones who need to appreciate are special ladies. Like for my valentines day gift for my girl im making her a candle light dinner followed by her favourite movie, even if its a sappy love one. anyways the point is you girls dont have to worry so much, honestly what your man would like most is a sweet card and seeing you is the highlight of are day. peace happy v-d to all.

so me an my boyfriend will be together for 10 months on the 15 and its my birthday :D but i dont know what to get him for valentines day. i got him a HUGE bear a jar of hersey kisses and a cardbut i dont feel like thats enough i wonna get him something but hes not big on pictures everyime i give him one it winds up on the ground.but i wonna get him soemthing else of make him something else.

well im only 15 years old but me & my boyfriend have been dating for 2 years & some months. & this year for valentines day i decided to go to build a bear & build him a bear! i even put my voice in it so everytime he squeezes the bears tummy, he hears me! also i made him a little booklet that says "the alphabet of you & me" and for each letter i put something that reminds me of him & im baking him heart shaped cookies. [:

I'm getting a jar for my valentine and writing 366 pieces of paper in it folded up and he can pick a saying everyday of the year.

--candy

--a box wrapped with nothing in it and on the box say.This box is full of hugs never open it.

--a jar of kisses..one kiss for each day of the year.

--toliet paper wrapped up all cute and on it put something like..i looked for your gift for ages and ages in the store,but i couldnt find anything so i decided to get a roll of toliet paper to wipe your pretty bum!

--send him around ur hometown with clues then the last one send him to your room and surprise him with a sign that says happy vday will u be mine..

--decorate his car with ballons and posters

--fake rose and a real rose "I'll love you until the last rose dies.

Easter:

--save the rose petals and frame them and give that to him for easter with a poem!

--get a dozen fake eggs and put something he enjoys in each one.

Any holidays:

Get a hat and sew a little red heart in it..and tell him..My heart should always be on your mind.

I think anyone who has a boyfriend it would be a great idea to get him a box of chocolates and a teddy bear and I also think you should frame a picture of you 2 with a card, I think that would be a cute gift just get him something to do with cupid even if the card has cupid on it or you can get a card made for him with a picture of you two on it with a teddy bear and chocolates.

im getting my bf a dozen roses and im writting him a really cute love letter. guys love roses. also im giving it to his teacher and she is going to give it to him in the middle of history. history is always silent. its gonna be great.

I've been with my boyfriend for a year and 11 months on Valentines day. and i was woundering what to get him. My plan so far is to make him a cute card and make him his favorite cookies :) but i'd like some other ideas. I wish that i had the house my myself to cook him supper and what not ;) haha but i'm still living with my parents and so is he. Every Valentines i get him silk boxers. and its sort of getting old. Any help would be appriated.

I am having the problem that I got my boyfriend something and I found out from my boyfriends best friend what my boyfriend got me and I think what i got him isnt enough compared to what he got me! Should i keep what i got or get him something else?

My boyfriend and i have been dating for almost a year now February 13th we'll be. But i was thinking of making him something instead of buying. He'll appreciate it a lot more since it comes from the heart. Maybe you should try something like make a card, A dvd slideshow (of pictures and such) and maybe make him a cake or dinner?

Well my boyfriend and i have been dating since february 13th,2006 and i had an idea of making him something instead of buying. from my experience the guy appreciates it more when it comes from the heart. like a card and a dvd of maybe pictures or videos of you two. and maybe make him dinner. he'll love it trust me=]

I think I'm getting my boyfriend a lot of chocolate-he loves chocolate and I card. We have only been dating since February 3,2007 and now is Feb. 8,2007 so that's only 6 days and I don't think I should get him something big right now...

Well i just started dating my boyfriend a few weeks ago, and i've really been debating on what to get him for valentines day. I mean, we havent been dating that long, and i'm not a big fan of valentines day. Anyways, i have a great idea of what to do for him. I am going to take a picture of us, and make it a little bigger. i am going to get a frame thats a size or two bigger then the picture, and as the border, there is going to be quotes from all of our favorite songs. Its very sentimental, and i think thats whats best on Valentines day. :)

I too have a new boyfriend and he just asked me out a few days ago. its really akward, but i still want to give him a valentines gift we are both 15 so if you have any good ideas, throw them at me. Ive never had a boyfriend and pretty inexperienced. thanks

aww that would be funny mine says the same thing about giving him a headache but he says it just messing around but i am hoping for something nice like a dozen roses or a box of chocolate but i would get him something that might not get him mad but something he would like like i have been going out with my boyfriend for 5 months almost and still dont know what i am getting him but i think i am gonna get him something that says i love you will you be my valentine something stupid but cute ----melly belly

i have a boy friend and like i dont really know what guys like for valentines day i know they like candy but i already got my boyfriend candy for christmas and i wanan do somethign different what can i do!!

You don't talk to each other at all, except on the phone?! It sounds like you two need to arrange a special date in the near future! Are you in a long-distance relationship?

Well, in any case, when you talk to him on the phone, try to get his likes and dislikes out of him. A good way to do this would be to mention your own likes and dislikes, and see where he agrees or differs. This is also a great way to gauge what you two have in common, and what you don't!

For my boyfriend's birthday, I got him a giftcard that he could use toward purchasing a new cellphone because his phone was always cutting out whenever I talked to him. I also gave him some chocolate and a little Yankee candle because I knew that he likes chocolate, and that he likes to burn a little candle in his room at night.

For Christmas, I got him some cologne and a shirt from Abercrombie and Fitch (his favorite clothing store). Recently, I bought one of his favorite movies for him on DVD because I spotted it on an endcap at the store, and I thought of him and knew that he didn't own a copy. (This was a "just because" gift that didn't correspond to any particular occasion.) All of these gifts were special to him because they were things that he really liked or needed, and I remembered what his likes were. When I gave them to him, his face lit up like a small child's on Christmas morning!

If you can find out what your boyfriend likes (ask his parents, siblings, or friends if you don't want to ask him directly) and buy accordingly, then he will feel very special, and he will appreciate your thoughtfulness. Don't sweat it too much or go all out, though; you guys have only been dating for 3 months, so a small gift would be appropriate.

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The only thing i have a problem with though,is i really don't know what my boyfriend likes and dislikes.We've been going out for almost three months now and we don't talk to each other at all{we talk on the phone though}.

Valentine's Day is also my boyfriend and I's one-year anniversary, so it'll be quite the special occasion and will require some careful thought and planning. I'll probably get my boyfriend a nice card and some chocolate, and one or two other things. I'll also make sure to take some time out of my busy schedule to spend a few hours with him, and we'll probably go out for lunch or dinner. Sometimes it's the little things that mean the most, especially when you're both college students and you don't have a lot of money!

If your boyfriend has a good sense of humor, then he'll probably appreciate the goofy gift, but I think that you should also get him something romantic and meaningful. You know his personality and his likes and dislikes, so only you can make the call when deciding what is or isn't an appropriate gift for Valentine's Day.