Friday, March 02, 2007

Where are you??????....

I looked back the days that I spent with You the days I fought with you the places I visited with you the functions & festivals we enjoyed the jokes we laughed at the movies we watched the moments when I made you to feel proud about me the moments when you made me to feel proud about you . .I can keep on listing like this without an end...btw, where are you now??????????........

They were doing some rituals, poojas and stuff and saying "They Are Feeding You".Tell me, Where are you now???????????.....

Well, This was something, which I wrote on my notebook some 2 years back when my Father passed away. Then, as the days pass on and I got engaged in many things and actually was not worrying much about this.

Now, suddenly these days (I donno why) again am getting the same kind of feeling that "MY FATHER IS NOT HERE IN THIS WORLD AND AM ALONE”

Why????.....and , I've a serious doubt too... how do these things(Tharpanam) reach them?? Because, we normally give this to crows or cows.I'll have to ask my mom.- Priya.

7 Comments:

Oh! (hugs) when someone passes away its people around them that suffer. I dont know exactly what the tharpanams do but if they loved us and you love them with all your heart, they'd hear when you talk tothem. I know I sound crazy but I strongly believe in that. Lost my close friend recently and I still dont "Want to" get over him. I can imagine how much more difficult it would be to lose your loving dad. (hugs again)

i recently came to know thru my roommate (who is actually a brahmin) that the Dharpanam what we do is actually feeding the elders thereby not letting them suffer for food and show our caring nature to them.

as radha said, i too miss my grandma who was a person showed unconditional love on me.. still at times tears come out of my eyes when i start thinking about her deeply.. so can get you.