I'm Devastated

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Eh, it depends on the situation. There's no problem with going out drinking with your friends to exorcise some demons. It's when you continue to drink yourself retarded because you're depressed that it's a problem.

>One divorce is enough for me. So now my life is drama free and I want to keep it that way.

I commend you for having an original opinion in a country that merely forces one to get married. The un-married male that lives like that forever is the "creapy weirdo" -- forget that ........ man, I commend you.

As far as the drinking is concerned...me and my friends has aleady made an appointment with "bacghus" (we call him the god of alcahol.) So I'm gonna drink pretty hard on friday, just to get rid of all the emotions and stuff.

She told me that she would be visiting one of her friends on tuesday night, just for a chat and so. But hte next morning when I phoned up the friend (sort of my friend as well) and asked how my ex is doing, she said she had no idea and tht my ex was at the cricket with another oak.

So I phoned my ex and confronted her about it. She said she did not want to hurt me more if she told me the truth. And I said she's hurting me more by lying to me.

And also she promised me that she did not leave me for someone else.

But anyway, I phoned her last night, and asked her to tell me the truth, the whole truth and nothing but the truth. She said that there really is not someone else (I'm not so sure about that anymore) but she still wants to be friends and all that stuff.

> And also she promised me that she did not leave me for someone else.

She's lying.

Also, I'm serious. Stop talking to her. You may want to be friends again eventually, but if you keep checking up on her and everything, it's only going to make things harder on you ("omg, she's having fun without me!") and make you look like a stalker. You can be her friend eventually, but now is not the time.

Also, I'm serious. Stop talking to her. You may want to be friends again eventually, but if you keep checking up on her and everything, it's only going to make things harder on you ("omg, she's having fun without me!") and make you look like a stalker. You can be her friend eventually, but now is not the time.

Youre ight, I guess I should maby break contact with her. It will ten to one heal me faster....

Break contact with the chic. Stop letting it bother you, be a man, suck it up, ...and go have fun without her.

Or you can sit around and cry over spilled milk and let it totally ruin your day. It's obvious you've already given her too much time in your life, so why give her any more thought time and why give her one more day? Move on.

Just remember that if it has tits or wheels it's bound to give you problems at some point down the road.