One of the keys to a good bdsm scene is pacing, especially with beginners. You dont want to rush in too hard too fast and have a scene only lasting 5 minutes, but you also dont want to take it so slowly that you both get bored!! You need to start out slowly, introducing a bit of pain at a time, allowing the endorphines to get released into the slave’s blood stream – these are the hormones that will allow her to take more and more pain as the session goes on.

You can see in this clip from canadian slavegirl Lyarah’s first ever movie shoot on ThePainfiles, that Magick starts out slowly, just teasing to start with. He slowly starts to expose her body, while getting her to follow simple orders. You can tell by the way her hips are swaying by the end of the clip that she’s very much enjoying it and eager for more!!!