Hearts in the Wind is the Blog for Radiant Nursing - celebrating The Radiance Technique®. We cover an eclectic range of topics integrating TRT® into our lives. There's something for everyone.

This blog covers an eclectic range of topics for information, fun, and all the ups and downs of life. For students who have studied with me The First and/or The Second Degrees of The Radiance Technique® – there are suggestions for integrating TRT® into daily living. There's something for everyone.

Sorrow

Loss.

Saying goodbye.

This is a song of sorrow; grieving the loss of a loved one.

It is purposefully not presented in the details of who, what or where. It is written with a "wide you" that can represent anyone or any being. It represents a loss that could not be expressed in flowery prose, but only in short sentences.

I offer this for you that perhaps, on an occasion when you experience loss, one of the phrases might be meaningful for you.

Loss and Sorrow with The Radiance Technique®

Students of The Radiance Technique® (TRT®)have a means to support themselves in times of joy and sorrow, knowing that both sides of these experiences are part of being alive here on Planet Earth.

For those who have studied The First Degree of TRT®, extra time spent in TRT® hands-on positions is beneficial. It is empowering to be able to help ourselves in difficult situations. We are not helpless; we have a way to support ourselves with strength and resilience as we move through our various circumstances.

Does it mean we don't feel the immense loss? Oh, not at all. But we are filling in the loss with greater light, and that is part of the healing process that is supported with TRT®.

Students of The Second Degree of TRT® (and above) are also able to direct universal energy to the situation before it occurs, during, and afterwards. They can direct to the one they have lost as well as to themselves to provide more healing light that can benefit our mind, emotions, and physical body. We usually experience loss on all these levels.

A Song of Sorrow

Listen, as I sing to you sotto voce in this lyrical song of loss:

Every last meal, last look, every last moment that we lie together I cherish.And then I weep.

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Gazing on the somnolent rise and fall of your chest, my heart bleeds, knowing that tomorrow night I will never see you again.

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You can't imagine how the spirit of such a small being fills such a large house.

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Our last night together.Tomorrow I have to be strong enough to say goodbye.

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My world is about to end as I know it. We have to say goodbye, my love.Forever in this world.

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The heavens are shimmering, as they softly wait to welcome one of theirs home.

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There is a gaping hole of sorrow in my heart with you gone from my life.I love you so much and pray for your safety.

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You had to go, that I understand.It’s just the raw, gaping hole – the void – left in our house without you.

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I dread going to bed. The first night without you in 18 years.Loss.

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How can this be enough? Just the two of us without you.I miss you more than I could ever express.

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It’s empty. There’s an emptiness where you should be.The gaping hole again, in my heart, in our bed.

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To wake up this morning without you, it’s too quiet. Too empty.Physical pain in my heart.Oh, sweet baby, where are you? Please be safe.

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This gigantic house with just the two of us. Feels too big.When it was the three of us, we filled it to the brim.

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Our house was vibrant, a bustling home, with the three of us.You didn’t even have to move for me to feel your presence.You are missing to us.

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In the dark early morning, I pace in the bedroom, without you. I can’t lie down. Remembering your sweet gestures, your talking, your vibrancy.

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Dawn is breaking upon our loss. An entire 24 hours to face without you.You have not yet been gone for 24 hours.