Why Do I Love Her?

There are so many things that aren't right with my secret obsession. My crush, the person I love so much, it kills me to be away from her. First off, it's a she, I'm a she. We're both girls. Secondly, she is my big sister. Even though I am adopted, and have no blood relation, we still are sisters. People look down upon ******. Is it still ****** if we aren't really related? I don't think it matters, because I love her, more than I love family. I love her too much. She doesn't know, but I want her to. Why can't it be simpler? Why do I love her?

I dont see any moral complications with your love, even she being your sister, even if both of you are woman. Being said that is still a very difficult love to come true. Its hard to know how to proceed but i think you should try to get closer with her.

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