Sally: I want to tell my ex’s new fiancée what kind of a man he is

After helping my former boyfriend repay his debts from a previous marriage, I found out he has been using women to pay off the money he owes

The problem
I fell in love with a man who had huge debts from his marriage. To help him, I
took out a mortgage, because consolidating the debts made them easier to
manage. He paid the mortgage regularly, but, to my horror, his financial
situation became so bad, he eventually declared bankruptcy. He said he had
sold some valuable paintings and put the money in a safe bank account to pay
the mortgage. He was so distressed, I didn’t question him. When he told me
he had fallen in love with somebody else, I was sorry to see him go, but
wanted him to be happy, so we stayed friends.

Shortly afterwards, I was approached by a woman who said she had had a
five-year relationship with him and gave him a large allowance: this was how
he paid the mortgage. He sent a note to say he was getting