“Self-betterment is an exclusively self-initiated and self-generated process. Once an individual engages himself in the process, he can be assisted by others from the outside. But only when and while he makes that active choice can such influences be fruitful. No therapy method or influence alone can, from the outside, solve a problem. No amount of kindness, patience, nurturance or supportiveness can help or alter or impact the primary act of choice. Only the individual rational capacity, including the capacity for honest self-awareness, can do it.” www.emotioninlifeandmusic.com