controling ones feeling not to hurt another person...

I have a friend whom I've known for a long time and therewas this guy whom she is attractedto.. but theproblme is... I am also attrated to him and the guy finds me more interesting so he courted me,, would I give a chance to the gut or hust ignore what I am feeling for my friend not to get hurt?pls help me

I think that shouldn't come between you and your friend. Obviously, you and this person like each other, I think you should go for it and see where it might take you. If your friend understands you and wants you to be happy, she shouldn't be mad or gets hurt about this at all.