AM Rule Refresher: Make Your Mark

Be The Best Lover She's Ever Had

Make your mark: guidelines to her body

Women’s bodies might seem indecipherable at times, but with a bit of care you can make it right every time, and really make your mark.

Always break the seal before putting anything inside her. This means slightly moistening her vaginal lips with saliva or lube (spitting on your fingertips is fine) and gently smooth it.

Don’t forget about her neck or ears. Don’t slobber in her ear, but do sensuously kiss and lick her neck and ears.

Don’t say “thanks” after. It’s just rude — she is not a prostitute. Show your appreciation in other ways such as: “That was freakin’ awesome baby! You are so good at that.” A bit of genuine praise goes a long way.

Coming too soon is a problem. Leaving her hanging all the time is boring and disappointing for her (and you too probably), so if this is your issue, deal with it. By the same token, banging away forever trying to prove what an “amazing” lay you are is also boring. If she hasn’t come by now, maybe she isn’t going to — that’s OK too. Sometimes.

Long, curly, molting pubic hair is not hot. If you’ve ever swallowed one, you’ll know exactly what this means: choking, and pubes all over the place. Trim to whatever length you feel comfortable with. It doesn’t make you a metrosexual — it makes you considerate.

Make your mark: your sexual reputation

Those who brag about how they made their girlfriends squirt/scream/scratch and so forth are almost always those who hardly ever have that happen, and, therefore, must trumpet their achievements on the rare occasion that orgasms even happen.

Be subtle, innovative and resourceful and a great sexual reputation will travel through time with you, providing you untold rewards. Word of mouth is the most powerful marketing tool on the planet, so let other people do the talking.

something to remember you by

Obviously, not all of you can be her greatest lover of all time. She is likely to have had more than one lover in her lifetime, but one will stick out as “the best sex she has ever had.” Make sure it’s you: Make your mark.

AskMen.com’s book From The Bar To The Bedroom has all these great tips, and more, in greater detail. Get yourself a copy to become the lover women remember — forever.