I began writing a daily diary because i got so discouraged with my social workers bulling and only seeing negative in my parenting so i encourage myself for the good things i am doing by keeping a diary and i then make photocopies of my diary and I give it to her this is fantastic because my social worker has made false accusations towards our family i said a couple of hurtful things to my daughter and suddenly in her mind i have an abusive relationship with my daughter when the truth is I love my daughter lots and she loves me lots and we have a very loving relationship with encouragement respect affection etc so i told my social worker maybe the problem lies with her.