suffering in seperation (of a loved one) is NOT purified self-love!furthermore it burdens the responsibilityfor one,s own happiness on the "be-loved",which is also NOT purified love of the "be-loved".does this suffering not thus reveal a far more existential lack,internal loss of & to the one experiencing it?

a chance which ought to be seized ...to go beyond the search for a redeemer outside of us?how can we speak of love if not in terms of here & now?otherwise what is the value of this so called love?

aren,t we just reminders to each otherof what we have lost within ourselves?

if we actually love either the other, ourself or god ... we do not grief

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BG#10.9:The thoughts of My pure devotees dwell in Me,their lives are surrendered to Me,and they derive great satisfaction and blissenlightening one another and conversing about Me.

or Matthew 18:20

“For where two or three come together in my name,there am I with them.”