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I
Understand that penetration through the Anus is prohibited. But can a man rub
or insert his finger in his wife’s anus to please her?

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Answer:

Finger in anus

In the name of Allah, We praise Him, seek His
help and ask for His forgiveness. Whoever Allah guides none can misguide,
and whoever He allows to fall astray, none can guide them aright. We bear witness
that there is none worthy of worship but Allah Alone, and we bear witness that
Muhammad (saws) is His slave-servant and the seal of His Messengers.

Sunan of Abu-Dawood Hadith 2157 Narrated by Abu Hurayrah

The Prophet (saws) said: ‘He who has
intercourse with his wife through her anus is accursed.’

Al-Tirmidhi Hadith 3192Narrated by Khuzaymah ibn Thabit

The Prophet (saws) said, "Allah is not
ashamed of the Truth!Do not have
intercourse with women through the anus."

Al-Tirmidhi Hadith 3195Narrated by Abdullah ibn Abbas

Allah's Messenger (saws) said, "Allah
will not look at a man who has intercourse with a man or a woman through the
anus."

Sunan of Abu-Dawood Hadith 3895 Narrated by Abu Hurayrah

The Prophet (saws) said: ‘If anyone resorts
to a diviner and believes in what he says or has intercourse with his wife when
she is menstruating, or has intercourse with his wife through her anus:
he has nothing to do with what has been sent down to Muhammad (saws)!’

Allah and His Messenger (saws) have specified as
absolutely unlawful and prohibited for a believer who sincerely fears Allah and
the Last Day to enjoy conjugal relations with his wife through the anus.

The abominable and repulsive act of anal sex
is unnatural, unhealthy, unhygienic, unclean and impure; and this abomination
of an act is not found even in any of the lower animate creations!

Your
Question: But can a man rub or insert his finger in his wife’s anus to please
her?

Although there is no restriction if one wishes to hold,
caress or fondle the buttocks of one’s wife, to insert one’s finger/s in one’s
wife’s anus, other than being unnatural, unhealthy, unhygienic, unclean and
impure….it would, without an iota of a doubt, be a source of ‘pain’ for the
wife rather than pleasure!

It would be best if the believers would fear Allah and
absolutely abstain from inserting anything into their wife’s anus.

Whatever written of Truth and benefit is only
due to Allah’s Assistance and Guidance, and whatever of error is of me
alone.Allah Alone Knows Best and He is
the Only Source of Strength.