Why Thai Girls Make Better Girlfriends Than Western Women

Yesterday I had a few beers with a German girl friend and as we talked about life in Thailand she came up with this straightforward question:

Why do you prefer Thai girls to western girls?

And even though I’m sure she knew some of the reasons already there are many things she can’t know as she never had the pleasure of calling a Thai girl her girlfriend.

Thai Girls don’t complain as much as Western Women

Sure you can piss off any girl if you muck around, come home late (or not at all), don’t reply to her text message or whatever but the difference is western women just seem to wait for reasons to get mad at you and they are also a lot more resentful than any Thai girl will ever be. Small things are big things for western women and so you will never meet a Thai girl that gets angry because you left the toilet seat up. Even if you really make a Thai girl angry and that doesn’t happen much at all she will forgive you anything, even having banged her best friend.

Thai Girls let you be the boss in the relationship

If you tell your Thai girlfriend about what you want to do at the weekend she will simply go like yes cool let’s do that. She won’t say I wanna go to Hua Hin when you suggest going to Pattaya. Thai girls let you make the decisions what you are going to do together, when you are going to do it (Let’s go eating now, I’m hungry) and how you are going to do it (Let’s only go for a few hours, I wanna meet up with my friend later). Western girls always want to do the planning and at least try to achieve some compromises: If we do this today, we are going to do that tomorrow, ok?

Thai Girls have a nicer body than Western Girls

It’s strange but even though most Thai girls (and guys as well) are generally dead lazy when it comes to fitness and sports and still they don’t get fat and keep their beautiful bodies. While western girls run to the yoga or fitness studio every second day but still you barely see a really thin and skinny girl walking on the street.

Statistics prove anyway that western countries like America, Australia and by now also Western Europe have the highest percentage of fat girls in the world. And besides the fact that’s it’s really easy to find a thin girlfriend in Thailand it’s obviously also the smooth and soft skin that western women are extremely jealous and western guys extremely fond of.

Thai Girls are more beautiful than Western Girls

That’s a matter of taste of course but for me there is no doubt that the average looking Thai girl is ten times as attractive as the average looking Western girl.

Thai Girls are better housewives than Western Girls

It’s almost impossible these days to find a young Western girl that is really good in cooking and even if you do, she expects you to do the laundry instead, sweep the floor or make up the bed. Thai girls know that housework is their job. Believe it or not one of my Thai student girlfriends made me smile as I was about to start cleaning my room on a Saturday morning and she found it funny and asked me why I want to do it.

Thai Girls have a nicer smile and are always optimistic

Thai girls don’t just have a nicer and brighter smile they also smile much more often than Western girls. Besides that Thai girls are also much more open and optimistic about simply everything and never think too much about some bad thing that happened or a problem they have, they just go and try to make the best out of every situation without worrying too much. Thai girls always seem to be happy and really enjoying life and let you feel that while western girls usually expect their boyfriend to entertain and make them feel good.

If you are a western girl and disagree please leave a comment and let me know why you think western girls are better. If you are a Farang guy like me and you think I forgot some points to mention here, please leave a comment as well. And if you are a Farang couple who think about moving over here together then please read this post before.

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Peenoy

I’ve been dating my Thai gf (now fiancée) for 4 years, give or take. A huge gap in the discussion here is the Farang’s character. Surely that is equally important and in many ways will determine the behaviour and response of the Thai woman involved. If the Farang is kind, empathetic, shows her affection no matter how she looks on a particular day, she will see that he really loves her and will feel happy with him and show her contentment. My gf earns a large wage for Thailand whereas I live in an economically depressed part of Europe, intending… Read more »

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3 months ago

James

Of course they are nice to you while you’re dating, and let me tell you one thing: they are dating with you while having a particular goal in mind- marriage; these girls are sweet and loving, they will tell you how much they want to have a child with you and build family- and eventually they will convince you into marrying. And that’s my friend when you will see their true nature: they will expect you to pay for everything, not just for them but also for their relatives back home in Thailand; they will establish their rules and you… Read more »

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5 months ago

Fyza Hosaimi

I am not a Thai, but I’m an Asian who lives in Singapore and frequent to Thailand. I have made lots of Thai gfs over there, and yes, I do agree that they are so easy to love compared to the Western women. Now, don’t get me wrong, I am straight and I do have some gfs from America as well. The thing I don’t quite like about my Western gfs, were that, their expectations can be absurd when it comes to the men they want to date or marry. I still think, there are some nice American women out… Read more »

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1 year ago

Depressed when home

Probably because western women are rude, self-centered, and arrogant. As an American man who’s travelled the world I can tell you Americans are the worst people on the planet.

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1 year ago

Stuart Williamson

I agree with you and I am not American LOL!

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1 year ago

tridev

Absolute stupidity to say that thai women are better and western women are worse or the vice versa. As long as man has money in his pocket he has women on his bed. This is the universal truth and it doesn’t matter whether the women are Thai, American, Russian or Martian. If you have money you can make even a Mermaid Looking White Chick clean your toilet while you do her a** from behind. If you don’t have money even a Somalian woman will leave you. I request all men to realize that for women, whether she is a CEO… Read more »

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1 year ago

Jared

I have been blessed to have worked all over the world for several months at a time from my 20’s to 35. I have lived in, met, or dated Swedish, Korean, Filipino, Canadian, African, British, Finish, Russian, Mexican, and many American women. I never dated just for sex and funny enough, after traveling to Thailand as a single male, I got plenty of dirty comments and insinuations from friends upon return, despite that I did not have sex once while traveling in Thailand. It is sad that Thailand has become a place labelled as the Sex Destination for white Farang.… Read more »

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1 year ago

Rick

My experience:
Nice guy… taken advantage of by various Western women. Eventually gave up on them after 20 years of failed relationships. Have heard being too nice a complaint.
Nice guy… deeply appreciated by Thai women.
Very happy in a relationship with a Thai woman for 8 years now, we have 2 kids together. Never argued once, and I’m at home all day too! We’re never apart. Remarkable.

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1 year ago

Dalo

Old farang husband here . It seems Thai ladies in any walk of life really appreciate being treated courteously and respectfully . In fact Thai people value courtesy and respond in kind . If you are a jerk or a fool you’ll find someone to take advantage of you . Even ‘working girls’ appreciate good manners . The Thai are the most good hearted people I have experienced in the world . Of course there are exceptions but ,by and large they are happy people . My Thai wife is now late 40’s . I am retired . We laugh… Read more »

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1 year ago

Pixie

I have been with a farang man for a short while, more than a year of being friends and then a few months of dating. Ended up being left alone. Is that how it is with farangs? They can wait for years to get you to submit to them but after getting in your pants for awhile and get what they want, they just left. Girls from the East doesn’t make better girlfriends than western girls, its how the men behave that make them better. A girl make herself beautiful (inside and out) for the man who appreciate her. I… Read more »

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1 year ago

PO

Many of Old Farang man find a Thai young girl to be girlfriend. It same age with their daughter. WHY!!! why the girl lost their life time with the old man. Not because of money? I think they should KNOW!! I don’t like the old Farang man who do like this! And I don’t like the Thai girl who just want money from other person by not work!! Because Thai girl like me worked hard to got a little money but some Farang man looked at me like the Thai-money-sex-girl!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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1 year ago

Brad

That is very sad to hear many farang have good morals X

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1 year ago

naynay

I work in a large all girls high school here and to say the majority of Thai girls and women are thin, docile home makers and enjoy being doormat wives is just pure fiction. There is huge variation like any population of woman. Some of the craziest and irrationally jealous partners are hands down thai woman.. They will also not hesitate to cheat if they are for any reason slighly unhappy or the old farang bf is out of town…often cheating with thai men. I really dont think the younger generation are much different from western women my age. My… Read more »

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1 year ago

Bk

Well said!!

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1 year ago

Laura

What a crock of crap!!!! You live in a dream world western men thinking it’s easier with a Thai woman!!! I am western woman, been and lived in Thailand. You go to Pattaya looking for love!!! What a joke, it’s a city full of prostitutes/whores, whichever way you look at it- willing and happy to tell you/do anything for money “hello sexy man” to man of 25 stone in string vest, socks and sandals! She’s there as a service! Not to find love! Give me a break. I have a male friend, only 30 years old, married to Thai woman… Read more »

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1 year ago

Lee

Sure your husband hasn’t run off with a Thai lady?

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6 months ago

BILL MICHAEL

+naynay; Thank you for being so kind in your comment to us old foolish white men.
Thais are such beautiful people. I wish I had been born and grown up Thai.

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1 year ago

Randy Morris

No disrespect ma’am, but I feel like you’re just being a hater????

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1 year ago

Andrew

I find it amazing that no one has mentioned how fantastic Thai women are in the bedroom. They really put more effort into pleasing their man than Western women. I’ve never been with a Western woman who could compare to the complete and total devotion that Thai girls have in the bedroom- Thai girls are very attentive, considerate and devoted lovers who truly want to please you and make you happy. They have amazing bodies- and know how to use them to make their man happy! I have a thai fiance that I have been engaged to for 7 years,… Read more »

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1 year ago

Greg

Great comments Andrew and very well written from somebody with first hand experience. I have been to Thailand a number of times and do appreciate how the women go to that extra effort to make their men happy. Tying to tell and Ausie girl some of the positives you have highlited just gets the standard old “Oh you think they are just great because of the sex they offer” but as you say most of the ausie girls wouldn’t even give 20% of the effort to their men in anything they do in comparison to Thai girls. And they take… Read more »

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1 year ago

Michael Ryan

Sounds like you want a slave, not a partner.

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7 months ago

Matt H

Michael Ryan is a typical whipped western man. Men are taught that if you like a woman making you happy, then you must want a slave, because apparently relationships arent about making each others life better anymore :/ I pity him, his gf/wife must make him miserable and he prefers that. No good sex for him because that makes her a slave. No sacrifice or doing things for him that she doesnt already want for herself because that makes her too submissive. I guess that means he never does anything to make her happy either. He never goes out of… Read more »

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5 months ago

Steve Anderson

Sorry, but this is BS. Thai women are lying whores, period. I unfortunately was in a four year relationship with a Thai woman in Minneapolis, MN after she moved here from Chiang Mai to be a nanny.. After years of deceptive and selfish acts by her I finally let her go and feel so relieved! She was a pathological liar, sent to America by her family to screw white guys and take their money so she can send it home to her family. She’s now an illegal alien and her main purpose in life is to find a guy to… Read more »

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1 year ago

john

Very true. Thai girls are sweet before they get what they want. Turn to a Bitch when they gain enough from you or you cant provide what they ask for. Mainly, its all about money.

I wonder how thai girls like knitting while thailand is such a country without winter. They knit for men to mislead them feel their love. All are tricks. I was a fool to be used as a stepping stone. I gave her PR, I gave her fancy clothings. Eventually, she told me I didnt love her enough and she married another man for more money gift.

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1 year ago

james d hummer

Most certainly true, Sir. I would imagine that Knitting in a nation that has No Winter would, or should, be a Dead Giveaway that the woman has an Ulterior Motive other than You.

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1 year ago

Otto

What do you do where you make 1 million a year?

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1 year ago

Kat

You need to read a book called private dancer. It’s fantasic – and backs up your comment 100%. I find the guys who like thai girls are either controling, manipulative and callous or just to blind to see the real deal.Thai girls will do anything but are also conniving, pathalogical liar’s and will say anything to get them out of troble ?

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1 year ago

Lattana

Well said I fully agreed to your letter . I’m from Laos and living in England for long time and yes I met many Thai girls who married English man and yes they only married for money and get a better life for themselves and they family in Thailand. I have no respect for them and yes they do anything for money. They all as bad as each other Thai girl. I am agreeing everything you mentioned.

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1 year ago

james d hummer

Well, I am a tax Accountant from Pennsylvania, and I have numerous clients from Thailand, Laos, Vietnam, and adjoining nations. My one long term Laotian client (25 years) since he moved to America had strongly suggested that Laotian Women are the Most Devoted Women from Southeastern Asia. My client, Ngia X. (yes, his last name begins with ‘X’) tells me that Laotian females are much more devoted to Her Man than the adjoining nations, Vietnam and Thailand. The reasoning he projected to me was due to laotian Women have the Deepest Faith in their religion, primarily Buddhism. Would you suggest… Read more »

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1 year ago

stephanie

Yep…lol…you rock…this is true…I was loving and devoted to a rich man…have my own luxury vehicle i bought…did anything he wanted…I found oUT i was pregnant whIle he was preparing to go on sex tourism vaction unbeknownst to me..,he left to Thailand to sleep with ugly subpar hookers. God will get him. He had me in the palm of his hand but threw me in the trash so he could date slime. I loved him, didn’t know he was rich…didn’t care. But now I see it’s just baby and me…he can go. I don’t need him anymore. I deserve better…far… Read more »

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1 year ago

Michele

Good on you same here

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1 year ago

P.

I’m Thai.And I live in Chaing Mai.I’m very sorry to hear that. Hope you finally find good woman.

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11 months ago

Vernika Cat

Hahaha please do not generalize! But maybe most of them are not really good at all! Im not a Thai woman. I just had an Italian ex bf who had Thai ex gf. This Thai girl at her late 20’s, I just talked for 3x times, at the first intervals, she was nice and on the third time, she loses her tempt on me. I don’t know my ex Italian was uptight to her. Until I found out this Thai girl’s unnatural and unreasonable ideas about relationship. For her, it was not an issue if her bf would like other… Read more »

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1 year ago

Adam West

Thai girls stay angry longer than western women and are possibly more violent.
Thai girls are only better housewives on the surface as they are lazier and don’t do a deep clean.
Optimistic? I’m thinking more pessimistic if money is tight or they don’t get what they want……

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1 year ago

dan

I have a Thai wife. She is stunning with fake eyelashes, plenty of makeup, push up bra and after 3 hours at the beauty/hair salon. Waking up in the morning she can border on ugly. I wonder how many “average” thai girls you have seen without makeup? Most SE Asian women won’t let you see them like this until married. Thai women are attractive, but 10 times more than farang women?? that’s pure exaggeration…

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1 year ago

Annie keller

I’m just wondering where all these guys are?
Where are the confident men who don’t need to claim “housewife skills” to feel superior?
Hey white guys….. Don’t lose your manhood like this

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1 year ago

Rando

Your depiction of Thai girls is too one dimensional. Petite, happy, smily and simple-minded. If you date a Thai girl who speaks fluent English I’m sure you’ll be hearing lots and lots of nagging. Girls are girls, regardless of their origins. The mind works in a very similar way, sure there are social and cultural differences and all, but there must be a reason why Sex & the City is so popular around the world, cause girls can relate their issues with each other. In my opinion, most interracial relationships where parties speak different languages, the most crucial factor of… Read more »

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1 year ago

BS

Well said.

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1 year ago

Bob

If you”re a farang and a Thai woman wants you 9 out of 10 are whores..

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1 year ago

Adam West

Not true, a lot of Thai women don’t like Thai men as they are not very good looking, lazy and deceitful etc…. And they can be unfaithful. My wife doesn’t like Thai men and has never had a Thai boyfriend and when her father wanted her to marry locally she said no thanks. They are only whores when they go for old fat guys…. No disrespect to the old guys intended. The ones that marry these older fellas are desperate for security which means money as they think the young guys are just out to root around and won’t ‘look… Read more »

I think it’s shallow to group everyone in a category. It’s about who a person is. I am sure there are great Thai women and great Western women, and some not so much. lol It should be about the person, not where they are from.

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2 years ago

Genevieve

Hahahah I’m laughing so hard at all the hate on this forum… The sad part is a majority of them are from the Thai guys or westerner females. Before I even start… I would like to introduce myself. Hi everyone!!! I’m Genevieve :) I’m 25 years old and was born in Thailand but currently live in the U.S.A. Yes, I’m 90% Thai, and 10% French. I’m engaged to an… I guess you guys call him “Ferang”. 1.) I can and will be submissive if I want/need to. We are humans too… We have minds of our own. The reason why… Read more »

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2 years ago

rio

Mr. John. You broke my heart it is indeed a saddening development. I am a Asian-South American born in Europe. I had a Thai gf once in my life and i have visited the place ofte. To make it clear according to my opnion true beauty is found in the heart not appearences. I fully agree. In contrast to this materialistic and cosmetic culture in the West people in the Third World countries tend to have real family values. I fully support a lady getting a career. But nowadays people judge each other by the look of their house or… Read more »

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2 years ago

Mai

From an educated Thai girl’s perspective, I feel like this article is misplacing us. We are not, in any way, little submissive doll figurines. It’s 2016, and I’m going to get out my kitchen knives (because all Thai girls do the house work, right?) if you bang my best friend. I have lived in a family where females take charge and this article just seems to decrease our dignity. Sure there are submissive girls out there willing to please and cook and clean for you, but all of us are not like that. PS. I will kick your ass outta… Read more »

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2 years ago

Mike

I agree that you should kick someone out for cheating, but you are not submissive because of America’s imperialistic cultures influence on you. My wife is Thai and submissive. It is not a weakness, she allows me to be the man. And a man needs to take charge because he’s the man. Just use common sense and remove yourself from all of your indoctrination and put yourself in the…um, million years before us that man has inhabited this country. The man’s role is to be receptive of his wife’s opinion, to encourage her to be confident, to listen to her… Read more »

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1 year ago

john

Thai girls are submissive when you are still useful. Once they got what they want, its time to say goodbye. They dont even have a feeling. I hardly believe how she ruins my life.

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1 year ago

Lovelyz

It’s not AMERICA’S IMPERIALISTIC CULTURES INFLUENCE. It’s an HUMAN BEING PHASE or LEVEL OF REBELLION. and it happen that “western country” are the first to be rebel against “dictator, slavery, gouvernement, inequality, discrimination, child abuse….” things that other country are trying to catch up. Being “submissive” is not a bad thing but WE ALL KNOW, people will always take for granted everything you do for them. That’s the reason why western women aren’t submissive. They don’t want to depend on a man like it used to be. I’m sure a thai wife depend on her man’s money (and have no… Read more »

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10 months ago

Scottz

I liked how you phrased the last part of your sentence

Meeeoooowwww~~~:3

I also don’t believe all Thai women are submissive as well

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1 year ago

Rob S.

Answer! Lol. I’m curious, if white Americans only want Thai women to “bang”, why complain? You use a girl, she uses you. I’d like to find a Thai girl (Woman) with character and integrity, it seems some have written replies here. I’m an older guy, 57, and these things are what’s important to me. Question, how does Thai women in the states differ from Thai women in their homeland, and…how do you find a Thai woman? I’m curious, I’m looking for a long term loving relationship based on mutual respect, not based on materialistic, or sexual things as the foundation/… Read more »

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1 year ago

Michael Ryan

Thank you Mai. As someone who dated a Thai woman for a couple of years, I find the whole “Thai girls are submissive” meme hilarious.

If anything, she was more assertive than the average “western woman” (whatever that means, everyone is unique) and this sometimes led to heated arguments.

I feel like anyone who goes looking for a relationship in a particular country because they think the women there are “submissive” and “docile” has serious issues.

Those sort of people are looking for a servant, not a partner.

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7 months ago

Marcus F

yaiks! It’s still classing out the very people that are hearthily just looking to secure good sex. Honestly, I’m married to a Chinese not a Thai, but same descriptions apply. Albeit, Chinese are rasists above anything else, nobody can truly understand this money-family-abuse-all-others -mentality besides Chinese. For what I know, Thai’s skip this racial part, but keep the blood over marriage issue. Yes, about sex, social aspects of what’s deemeable and what is not varies greatly, even among those greatly blatanted Western countries. Would one ever in the height of that climax remember that the greatest lie is not the… Read more »

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5 months ago

Farangk

Was married to a western cow (US brand) for a complete waste of 10 years. I feel sorry for the idiot rednecks that have to put up with that manatee. Have lived and worked in Brazil and Thailand, which are IMO #2 and #1 respectively in terms of beautiful women. Brazilian women run a close race but Brazil ain’t Thailand in many ways outside of any relationship factors. Sure there are lots and lots of variables to consider but I’ve spent a shit-ton of time dating women from all over the world and Thai women def win hands down across… Read more »

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2 years ago

miinx

I have to agree with you, although I have never had a Thai woman as a girlfriend/wife I find them incredibly beautiful but I can’t comment on anything else about them as I have no experience. I do however have have experience with western woman. I was married for 10 years to what I thought was a beautiful caring British girl. As soon as our first child was born and things got tough (money got tight) she just changed. She turned out to be a selfish, self centred, 2 timing gold digger, oh did i mention she is a pathological… Read more »

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1 year ago

Azz

Geezuz! You really hit the nail on the head. And here I was thinking just my wife was like that.

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2 years ago

Frank

Good articles! As specially the topic of western feminism and the comparison between western girls and Thai girls stirs up a lot so to see….. I am a European man living and working in Thailand for 27 years. I also know both worlds, and have seen the devastating effects of feminism on human relations ships and culture in the west. Now it seems there is a process in the new Thai women generation that starts to move in the same direction. Although it is mild and far from what is happening in the west, I still feel very sad about… Read more »

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2 years ago

Michael Ryan

I’m sorry but feminism is a movement aiming to establish equality between the sexes.

Are you saying we should go back to the bad old days when women were forced to be homemakers who were completely dependent on men?

When they couldn’t vote?

When they couldn’t apply for credit cards and loans in their own name?

When most professions were closed to them?

Really?

Firstly, good luck with that.

Secondly, why do you want women to be treated as second class citizens? Is it because you’re afraid of them or something?

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7 months ago

Will Mac

Your best chance of success in any country is to make friends in that country. Make sure you make friends with decent folk, not some dodgy people you met in a club. If you are seen as a decent guy before long you will be invited to a party or bbq and you’ll meet nice Thai women. So do it that way, meet women through Introductions. Dating sites are good for sex and that’s it.

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2 years ago

Frank

Yes Will Mac, could not agree with you more. I live here half my life, and the best, and most descent girls I meet through introductions during parties etc. in your Thai male friend circle. Thai males can tell you how it works, they always told me stay away from girls on internet and girls with any night-time jobs.

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2 years ago

Farangk

Can still meet some decent folk in a club atmosphere even after the dodgyness wears off next day….lol.

Look for meet and greets anywhere around BKK.

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2 years ago

David

I disagree, Thai girls all look the same, boring features, wide noses, they look like children with their flat bodies looking like wood planks! Only super models are an exception, and even then a Swedish girl will make the Thai model look like a 2 while standing next to her…Thai girls are on average, a 4. They’re quite ugly, in my opinion. I tried to jack it to Thai girls, couldn’t get it up. I need a real woman from Europe!

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2 years ago

Rawrr

Swedish girl? hahaha yea some of them look pretty when they are under 20 y old and some of them look so ugly. It is the same like everywhere in the world. In my opinion the only thing swedish girls have more than thai girls is boobs and ass. If you just wanna have easy sex one night stand then go for swedish woman. In my point they are cheating more than thai woman coz they can have sex with anyone anywhere if they horny and no matter if they are married have kids or not. They fucking arounds like… Read more »

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1 year ago

Azz

I’ve got a Thai wife and your spot on with everything you said about them. Although I find the Thais is general repulsive and extremely xenophobic to be around.

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2 years ago

kmom

I just came across to this blog from my own curiosity.Since I am Thai women marry American man, me and my husband get an annoying questions all the time about ours marriage and happy family. Or I feel annoyed him that he likes to brag about his wife too much and can get to someone’s nerves. Some people just jump to conclussion that because he marriesThai. Gosh,let me speak from both sides,there are true points from the culture background that shape up Thai women to be just like the blogger post. The threads are so long,I can not remember all.… Read more »

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2 years ago

Karlbez

I think everyone has got there own opinion of what a Thai lady or girlfriend is like. In my experience western women want to be head of the household and thy try to control every aspect of family life after having a 10 year marriage and devorce that went on for ever plus a few other relationships with western women I found that thy were all out for one thing control!!!! And arguing seams to be a kind of hobby with most western women. As for there body’s well I have dated a few attractive western women in the past… Read more »

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2 years ago

Candylamb

I agree there is good and bad in every culture but my ex is going for a Thai girl because he thinks he can get away with being a abusive narcissist who’s attitude belongs in the 1950’s. He is being secretive about how he is going about my children making my older autistic boy Skype his fiance that he’s met once and been ‘dating’ for under 3 months telling her that she will be his mum after he gets rid of me. I actually feel sorry for the girl as he’s still chatting sleeping and cheating with at least 6… Read more »

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2 years ago

Karlbez

Some Guys are like that and personally he needs a health warning tattooed across his forehead for all women to stay clear! But I also find That thai women are not taking abussive guys like this as standard any longer. In the past a married Thai guy would have a mistress on the side and the wife had to turn a blind eye. Now a lot of Thai women are no longer bothering with this type of guy wether he is Thai or from another country. Now thy have no problem in dumping a guy who plays around or is… Read more »

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2 years ago

miinx

Nice, very reassuring.

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1 year ago

todd

All men of all races, all different personalities and habits. Whether a woman Thailand Or Western women Everyone is very different. Based on the “you” admire the kind women over. The attitude of all men naturally varies.

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2 years ago

todd

I’m Thai woman And the Northeast of Thailand. Financial plain Fewer rich and poor I married a man Thailand I would say the ideas and attitudes of women in general, Thailand. Popular marry Western men because it can provide stability and future of the family. Since men Thailand (the east), most of the leadership and day to day life, no future, no longer seek a breakthrough in the work. Once married, the family may lack balance. Characterization of Thai women jealous .And if she love someone will honor and love and devotion to the man she loved. To the delight… Read more »

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2 years ago

Candylamb

I think most of the views are chauvanist and I only found this thread because im in a current situation with my ex partner he’s been testing out Thai and Philippine relationships he’s a narcissistic individual who is abusive I tried to be the best girlfriend look after the kids, do housework, cook for him I am pretty slim build with hips and he still made me feel like I wasn’t good enough because I questioned his cheating and I as a human being had needs and wants he didn’t let me have any money freedom time to myself etc… Read more »

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2 years ago

Tally

You have issues with your own relationship breaking down.. Dont judge all men or Thai females .. Yes there are men who abuse.. and yes there are bar girls who sell themselves,.. it happens in London too, and all of the big cities.. But, in general Thai women/girls are very faithful and will stick to one man if he looks after her..the same as Westerners…. give me a Thai woman anytime.. yes..I have one..and she is gorgeous and sticks by me always..

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2 years ago

Jeff

Wow. No dummy. Your husband cheats on you. We like Thai girls (and women in general) who are submissive. Those two facts have nothing to do with eachother. Please understand that.

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1 year ago

Doesn't Matter

I came across this site when I was trying to decide on whether to visit Thailand or not. So thank you for providing this information. Opinions aside it has a lot of information. Before I comment I want to provide a bit of my own history. I am a 39 year old medically retired veteran, due to my poor health I can pass for someone 65 or older, and I have perhaps one or two years left to live. I’m not sad or angry about knowing I’m going to die. I was told two decades ago that my medical treatments… Read more »

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2 years ago

Jonatan

Hello, When I finished reading your opinion, you made me think many things about life. I think all of us make mistakes, and it is not important the level that they have, but it is relevant to try not to make them again. To live with someone is always difficult. I think you were not selfish at all bringing a baby to this world, because you allowed your wife´s dream to be complied. Your son will be able to follow his own path, we are never alone, and there is always someone to assist us. It seems that you like… Read more »

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2 years ago

Juliette

Dear Doesnt Matter, I never thought that I would comment on This post or topic, but your post above was the most moving and beautiful thing that I have read all day. I do hope the very best for you, and much happiness to you and your family. I wish you could live a long and happy life. Thank you for your poignant post. You are in my thoughts. Take care, Juliette.

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2 years ago

Pip

I recently went to Thailand met a bar girl…yes she was very attractive but she had a reason for being a bar girl, I don’t agree with it but understand the reasons. We didn’t do the act but talked and laughed for 5 hours plus left the bar had something to eat went dancing had a good time. She didn’t earn that night and if I was there longer I would have followed it further…Point to be noted she is isaan she is classed as lower in Thailand she was intelligent and could carry a conversation. It’s sad that society… Read more »

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2 years ago

Techtechtech

I’ve been married to a Thai woman who I met in the US, she was here furthering her doctorate that she earned at the University in Thailand. Prior to meeting her I had long stated that I’d never marry. After 1.5 yrs of dating, we got married and she’s a fantastic partner. She’s well educated, speaks English well, has a great sense of humor and is just simply a good person. Meanwhile I watch my guy friends battling with their American spouses day in and day out over nonsense, eventually ending in an awful divorce. There is no just disagreeing… Read more »

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2 years ago

john

Thai girls think marry to a western guy is superior. Same like Chinese women. So many white old guys can marry younger Chinese girls.

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1 year ago

John

I have to agree with Steve on this. In my personal opinion Thai woman trump western ladies over and over again. I was so tired of having to always bend of backwards just to please my western lady. You treat a thai lady well and she’ll treat you like a king.

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2 years ago

Sup'tar Shoes

Weel I have read this, and now I understand why some of thai women are just meet farang only for money and why lol. I let you know one thing, thai women will turn easy from stupid to be a killer when they know you be rude to them and look down on them lol

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2 years ago

Leelou

So thai girls are pretty, stupid and submissive. What a conquest lol. Men who can’t keep up with evolution of the mind running off to poor countries where they can still have their old barbaric way. Pitty of this beautiful earth.

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2 years ago

Christine

God this article sickened me. It’s so sexist (they know housekeeping is there job?!) and does not in any way recognise individuals it’s like going back to the 1950’s! The sad fact is many (particularly older men from this aforementioned era of this mindset) western men who are predisposed to this type of cofependant behaviour seek out the illusion of Thailand to compensate there fantasies that they wouldn’t perhaps get in a westernised country because we don’t have to rely on men for income nor be submissive as we have choices. I know some of these Thai girls and they… Read more »

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2 years ago

Pip

Christine I think you miss the point about housework…They do it as they like too not it’s there roll in life. There way in life is to appreciate what they have and not wishing for everything they can’t have also they don’t live in the past but for the future which includes their husband…that’s why so many men or farang decide on a thai wife because on the whole both man and woman want to appreciate each other….Most feminist attitudes stem from the woman living in the past and not actually thinking about being equal they want everything there way… Read more »

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2 years ago

Patrick

What is wrong with people these days just because technological advancements have been made , there is still nothing wrong some older traditional family values like other post said it’s not sexist if female cleans they just in general clean better than us guys, or cook better ,sometimes guys cook better ,people take things so to the extreme , I would love to meet a Thai women have fellow worker that has Thai wife loves her, but about prostitution it’s one of the oldest occupations everywhere, most of time its like strip clubs the ones that complain the most is… Read more »

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8 months ago

Sarah

Hum … I didn’t read all the comments but … Honestly, the whole article is pretty sexist :/ like, seriously, one of themain reasons a girl would be a better girlfriend than another is because she “know(s) that housework is their job” ? … really ? Yes, I’m a girl. Yes, a Western girl. But still… I can understand you giving reasons like “thai girls are more optimistic etc”, even though a “usually” would be nice, I don’t know if that’s true (both my thai and westerner female friends are quite optimistic about life, but maybe). But you can’t just… Read more »

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2 years ago

Steve J

Western women are in the hurt locker and most of all they don’t want guys like us spoiling the men they have left to fight over, but we must educate our brothers.

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2 years ago

Farangk

Preach it

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2 years ago

Tally

I have been to Thailand 8 times.. Phuket…. Patong…..Pataya…. Bangkok…. Hua hin…. Samut Sakon… and have a Thai woman who lives in SamutSakon which is an industrial town south of Bangkok.. I know a bit about the Thai culture, and if you treat a Thai lady properly and dont abuse her .. she will do almost anything to please you.. Thai people are so nice and I agree with the poster of this thread.. give me a Thai woman anytime over a westerner… They are brighter,… don’t moan.. and sexier too… (I can hear the Western women from hear..lol.. YEAHH… Read more »

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2 years ago

lona

I think so even not all the Thai girls but the most Thai girls like that so because it’s Real culture thailand and still have alots very very good thai girls, isan girl of Thailand easy life never mind anything and good caring , Kindness Hey!! You guys you have try to touch them.

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3 years ago

madmax

lets be honest.. most women in sia are just whores for monre.y.. just they are less ashamed of it than westeners.. who have christian guilt.. that being said .. women also just like to get fucked.. its human.. women are genetically progrmmed to want money power.. ect.. easy life… :P…. i say fuck em and take it. p.s. i have never had a thai girlfiren who was “dark skinned” as you call it.. nd have never had one that was not at least comparatively wealthy as my self by western standards.. it depends on how you act and who you… Read more »

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3 years ago

koko

You know I find these types of opinion pieces exceedingly interesting and a few things that always strike me as completely odd. Firstly : We don’t care who you date!!! Why do White boys think they need to justify why they date anyone? If you love someone then you love someone it’s no big deal. To write an opinion piece that screams ‘ I date Asian women and its all the Western women’s fault!’ Is extremely offensive to Thai women. It makes it look like you have absolutely no interest in a Thai woman individually, just as a thing. It’s… Read more »

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3 years ago

Kim

I am a white American Woman currently living and working in the US. I have been married to my THAI husband now for 36 years. We have a son, 25 who was born, raised and educated in the US, and is now living and working in Thailand. Soon, his father and I hope to join him there in our retirement. I lived in Thailand as a child, (my father worked for the American Embassy). I graduated from ISB (International School Bangkok). Even back in the early 70’s many American families were broken up, because the men were so attracted to… Read more »

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3 years ago

Steve J

Loyal? Yeah thats why you initiate 70% plus of divorces once its work your while.

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2 years ago

Cathy

I am an American girl. 5’5″ and 123lbs and blonde. I know many American women like me. A lot of ppl on this post are prejudiced. You can find gorgeous girls from Thai and America. And bad girls from both as well. I want my husband to tell me what he wants and what ever he wants, makes me happy too. We don’t argue or fight. We just want to make each other happy. I have been with him for 33 years. We have a nice 3 story home. But I could be happy with him in a mobile home… Read more »

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3 years ago

Jeannn

I’m a Thai native girl. (Teenager)
Nowaday, only some Thai girls can be housewife(Teenager). About Thai girls, if their English well she will complain you but might less than western girls. I will told you that different cultures made Asia girls & Western girls different.

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3 years ago

Bye Aus

Aussie girls are fat headcases. Even the good looking ones have terrible personalities and a horrible sense of entitlement. I met a Thai girl in OZ, wow what a difference. And it seems to be catching on, more and more guys I meet are dating Thai girls.

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3 years ago

Jo

The reason why western men like to date thai women as the thai women are too easy unlike western women. Also western women are more gorgeous than thai women. .. The truth is western men go for thai women cos they weak n stupid