Sorry I'm not sorry

gingersnap724

Posted 12/22/2015

My SO (significant other) works full time and Mon nights plays in a football league so he's not home at all. Then Wednesdays he's goes to the bar and plays darts with his friends so again not home. Doesn't bother me, but he comes home to a clean house and everything taken care of and has no idea how much effort that takes while also watching our 17 mo old and newborn. I told him I'm taking a shower (my long 30 min shower) and now I'm currently sitting in my bathroom upstairs pumping. I can hear him dying down there with our toddler getting into everything, he's like Zachary, please stop!! Every 5 seconds and LO (little one) is screaming (not unusual) I'm just sitting up here like muhahaha, welcome to my life bitch!

OMG.... if I could take that long of a shower I would. Unfortunately, we are on a well in Cali.

But, I totally make up "reasons" to stay at the barn a little longer. I was impressed today when I got home. DH (dear husband) had baby in the Ergo while folding laundry and the 3yr old was coloring in a workbook quietly on the floor.

Sometimes its like that when I get away. But more often then not I'll come out of the bathroom and then all hell will break loose. DH (dear husband) will be like "They were behaving perfectly for me until you came back!"

Really, my kids will be angels for DH (dear husband) and lot more often then they are for me. Though DH (dear husband) has had his really bad days too with them, but it doesn't seem to happen as often.

Sometimes its like that when I get away. But more often then not I'll com...

Posted
12/22/2015

Sometimes its like that when I get away. But more often then not I'll come out of the bathroom and then all hell will break loose. DH has had his really bad days too with them, but it doesn't seem to happen as often.

Yup! I went to the doctors and the store the other day. I was only gone for two hours and lo slept peacefully the whole time and our son was pretty good too. I'm like, this is not reality!!!! And yes as soon as I walked through the door LO (little one) started screaming.

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