I asked my wife to always wear a skirt before she got spanked. This helped in a number of ways; it heightened anticipation, it was convenient and it looked good. What about you folks? Do you get dressed up for spankings?

Depends, I get spanked bare naked to the short dress and nylons, if we are going to role play then I dress but when it comes to keeping me in line, then it's bare bottom all the way...my name says it all

My husband always makes me dress for discipline in fact he thinks it is an integral part of the whole discipline process and has always done so. I am also given a time and at the appointed time I must go to our lounge dress as instructed

Fred, my husband’s sentiments exactly and from my point of view going up to the bedroom to change into certain clothes knowing that the sole reason for doing so is so that I can be taken across my husband’s knee to have my panties taken down and to have my bare bottom very soundly spanked, this has a very sobering effect on me and by the time I arrive at our lounge I am very contrite and only too aware of what is going to happen to me and ready to accept my discipline

As to what I have to wear, knee length skirt, stockings, suspender belt or open bottom girdle, panties must be white or pink (no black underwear is allowed) smart black shoes and pain but smart top

I suspect that you meant a plain top. Your husband has good taste. My wife would wear stockings and a girdle, something she did not need nor would ever wear except for this kind of occasion. The unusualness of it was part of the joy. The girdle would hold the sting better and I like the satin containment.

I almost always have present myself for a spanking in bra & panties only. If Elle thinks it's too cold for underwear only, she has me put on a warm pair of dropseat pajamas. Either way, I get spanked bare bottomed, and serve my post~spanking corner time that way, too.Stay Pink! Love, Paula

No special dress up is required. When I spank my wife she starts out fully clothed with whatever she happens to have on. The pants come down or skirt/dress go up and the panties are lowered for the spanking. I do not spank her nude or even in bra and panties as I tend to forget what the mission is. The sex is for later after she calms down.

We do not do it any more but several years ago I employed several non spanking punishments. One of the sanctions was Wendy had to ware a dress all weekend - no jeans/shorts/workout pants. She found this very embarrassing to the point of blushing when we bumped into a friend who asked about the dress and I just loved it. I almost felt bad about enjoying her discomfort and embarrassment. (almost felt bad but I got over it)

However, I like it better in more dedicated BDSM sessions, with me naked and tied up while my beloved spouse is meticulously dressed. Then she flogs the hell out of me... It's very humiliating, and makes me feel very vulnerable, and that's exactly the reason I like it!

I love getting spanked when my spouse dresses in a formal way, as it gives her an air of authority. I also like her spanking me OTK when she's wearing a long skirt or dress.

I am always bare for my spankings. My bf believes that adds to the discipline & is a sign of my submission to him. When he decides that I need/deserve a spanking he will tell me to go and get "the belt" and wait for me downstairs in our TV room. I know that means that I am to go to our bedroom and strip completely bare and get the belt from a hook where it hangs in our bedroom. Then I have to go down to the TV room, completely bare with nothing to cover up with. I have to wait & anticipate my discipline.

When Dan comes down, I have to stand there, completely bare, facing him as he explains to me exactly why I am being disciplined. Then I have to hand him the belt and bend over a chair in the TV room. Then I get 15 hard strokes with the belt across the bottom of my butt.

Some might think 15 strokes are a piece of cake, but after 15 hard strokes with the belt my bottom is quite red & sore. It takes a couple of days to recover.

So the point of my post is that I don't get dressed for a spanking, I have to get completely undressed.

Usually I am totally naked for my spankings but if I had my druthers I would start clothed and have to peal a layer at a time til he had me down to panties which he'd pull down to my ankles and then really lay into me. I feel more aroused by the thought of panties at half mast than being naked( at least for some of the time). We have had me dressed up in a "Naughty" school girl costume.

Except for spontaneous spankings, I wear various lingerie items when I get spanked. My bf also has a lingerie fetish and he requires that I wear it (and I love to wear it for him) when he spanks me. More often than not he chooses which outfit I will be wearing for my discipline.

I have a many different lingerie items that my bf will choose for me. I have one outfit that he has designated as my "punishment outfit" and it consists of a white nylon camisole, a white nylon mini half slip and a pair of white satin panties. This is only worn for discipline spankings (and sometimes "punishment day"), but it is not worn for all of them. There are also times when I am only allowed to wear a portion of the outfit if that's what he wants. Occasionally for spankings that are for fun and/or foreplay (I think it's what some here are referring to as a "good girl" spanking) he will ask me to choose the outfit, but not always. But for discipline and maintenance spankings he always chooses which outfit I will wear for the spanking.

All of my other outfits consist of some sort of top like a chemise, camisole, babydoll or a full slip. For my lower half I am required to wear a pair of panties and sometimes a pair of shorts (sometimes referred to as tap pants) and the few pair of shorts I do have came as part of a set with one of my camisoles. Most of my lingerie is satin, but I also have some in silk, nylon and chiffon. The pastels are the predominant colors of my various items with many of them also having some sort of print on them like flowers or polka dots and stuff like that.

Like you, my bf also enjoys the anticipation of getting to see me in an outfit he has ordered for me to wear. Aside from the obvious fact that this is visually stimulating for him, there are other significances for having the outfit as part of the spanking process. Both of us feel that regardless of which outfit he chooses for me, the process of him choosing the outfit I will wear reinforces his dominance over me and my submissiveness to him. Although I may start out somewhat clothed, my discipline and maintenance spankings always end up as bare-bottomed spankings, and sometimes fully naked as well. We also feel that me being made to remove items of clothing or allowing him to whenever he chooses to do so as the spanking progresses is another reinforcement of the dom/sub dynamic between us.

We found that there are practical aspects to having the bottom clothed. The strapping can be harder with less bruising but then care must be taken to not overlap too much. We get more bang for the bite when a girdle is used. Naturally, the panties must be tight. I find a well dressed bottom aesthetically appealing.

Fred, I agree with you. My wife wears white nylon bikini style panties befroe her spanking. They are usualy a size to small, this provides a bottom encased in white nylon stretched to the max. If they are of a thin nylon, you can observe the bottom changing colour as the spanking proceeds. The fact that they fit like a second skin and hug every nook and cranny is a letter for another subject.

My wife and I had a ritual by which I knew I was going to be punished. She would put on her rubber mackintosh, which she knew would turn me on, but I then knew that I was going to have to pay for my pleasure. When shopping we would go for a coffee and she would be sitting there teasing me and looking fantastic in her mack. Then she would say something like, "you have upset me again and must pay for your sins and your pleasure. When we get home you are to strip, fetch the tawse, or whip, and present it to me in the lounge. I will then deliver however many strokes I think you deserve. Afterwards you can pleasure me with your head beneath my mackintosh. By heck, those whippings hurt but made me a better husband. She got pleasure too and we were very happy until sadly she died some years ago now. I miss her and my spankings.

My wife has not been spanking me for very long but I am always completely nude. When I tell her I am ready to be corrected she will roll her eyes a little as if to say: "not again". My heart always pounds when she picks up the ruler.

haha! who gets dressed up for a spanking?!! who knows when they are about to get one, anyway. when i give a spanking in private i usually strip them all the way down naked first. i'm a big man with a lot of experience so i can accomplish this fun little task before the lady even know what is happening. or, i can take off the clothes teasingly -- one piece at a time. if i spank in public, i am at least going to bare their bottom. if i am somewhere where i'm for sure i can get away with it, i might strip em down anyway.

If a sub of mine ever embarrasses me in public, I will lose no time in getting her to a place where I can get away with a little otk spankee -- and HELL YEAH! I pull those panties down. Start out light and playful to make her climax right in front of everybody. Then make ramp it up to sting a little and turn that bottom nice and pink. If you keep it fairly light, the crowd that comes up will definitely take your side, and be highly amused.

It’s really a win-win situation for everyone involved -- you get to extract your revenge, the on-lookers will enjoy the free show. And she will get to learn a valuable lesson about how public humiliation feels.

Once you have spanked the little lady in public, she will really watch her step when she’s out with you after that. If she ever starts to “forget” – just a little wink from you and a light pat on her bottom -- and she’ll fall right back in line.

The important thing to remember is to have chosen your spanking area ahead of time -- and wisely.

It can be just in front of friends. I have a favorite park bench that’s well lighted after dark in a park that’s never policed.

Another place I like to take em is an ol roughneck bar. The owner is a good friend of mine, and most of the patrons already know what’s about to happen if I walk in with a woman. The security guard is a typical male, who doesn’t mind seeing a pretty bare behine. He puts his life on the line for little over minimum wage, so it never hurts to slip him a twenty or so.

My 3rd spot is a spanking bar. It looks like a regular bar in front, but the well equipped spanking rooms in back. It has rules posted, like no nudity, must have persmission, etc -- but everybody there knows the rules are a joke.

The best advice I can give you is: ALWAYS pick a spot where there will be NO kids or minors. I only spank bare bottoms, so I am especially careful. But I wouldn’t even spank a grown woman with clothes on in front of kids. That is just wrong.

Of course the sub doesn’t need to know how careful I am. Once you’ve done that to her she never knows where you might do it again. But that’s why the Good Lord made men smarter than women.hehe

Yes, they are subs. If they didn't want to play they wouldn't come around me.

When I find a woman I like I will give her a nice playful erotic spanking in private, but as a surpirse. By the time I'm done with her she is completely addicted to spanking from then on. Cause I know how to put em that way.

If they want another spanking -- and they all do -- all they have to do is act a little bratty.

The type of women that like me are pretty much thril seekers. They never know exactly what they are going to get from me, but that gets this type of woman VERY high and loaded on endorphins. They like it when I talk noise to them -- and just about scare the pants off them -- before I TAKE them off. hehe

I can make it look pretty extreme and real, but actually, I'm probably one of the gentlest men on here. I DON'T do anything that looks like cruelty, degading or S&M. And I am smart enough to figure out for myself how to please each one, and I am all about giving her what she needs.

My screen name, e-mail and even vanity plates on my car all say ISPANX, so any other type of woman who I come in contact with -- for any reason should already know she better watch her step.

PS -- I am dark skinned black man, 6'10 1/2", large frame a gym rat, so the "vanilla's" run away screaming before I even say "hi"

but this is NOT for the "faint of heart". Some other posters have said they get excited enough on just the chance that they might get. Some have said that they like it when staged so people can guess what they are doing -- but can't be sure. Those are good ideas, too.

Doing it in front of friends can be just as satisfying, and I have done that too.

If you ever do try public spanking be EXTREMELY careful about 1 thing: cops! In my state you could be prosecuted for domestic violence even if the spankee doesn't press charges. Even if you and the spankee aren't doemstic partners. So, please be careful.

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