About husDOM | As our Married D/s journey continues.

As Little Kaninchen and myself continue along our D/s journey there have been a lot of changes since we began. We have also met a lot of wonderful people that we are honored to call friends.

With the release of the Fifty Shades of Grey movie trailer being released there is a new found excitement regarding Married D/s in the air. Little Kaninchen and myself may not exactly mirror the characters in the FSGO movie but allow me to point out one significant difference, we are a real living, breathing married couple living a successful and wonderful D/s lifestyle.

After some consideration we have decided to allow our members a closer look at who we really are as a couple. We have included another about page that can be viewed only by our members. Little Kaninchen and I are planning on coming out, if you will, a bit more in the future.

I looked up at those branches… far above our heads…. I remember the warm sun and breeze that day. The smell of the barbecue and the taste of wine on your lips. That day was magic. I was yours ..My mind, my heart and my body.

You made me feel sooo special …That’s where it all began. Should we go carve our initials?

The river chooses it’s path as it feels the earth. Even after the banks are set – it will push one way or another over time. We too are constantly emerging in our relationships – when we dig our heels in we can act like a dam and adversely affect so many areas. Best to you both as you continue on.

Mr. Fox and LK, the love you have for each other is very evident within your writings. Thank you LK for the courage to ask Mr. Fox and thank you Mr. Fox for agreeing to this amazing journey. Without both of you this site or LK’s would not exist and the knowledge that is held in you two and in these pages would not be available.

Your LK has been a tremendous help and subport for our subs, and her chats even when she is not on are so helpful. LK’s empathy and nonjudgmental thinking is something that the subs need in this culture. Most subs do not have someone close that they can talk to about D/s and LK’s chat fills a big void.

Mr. Fox you personally have been a big help for me, the knowledge you share, the words you write, and even being able to talk to someone who is in the D/s-M lifestyle is an affirmation to me that I and LW are on the correct course.

Thank you for allowing us to share your journey so far and for many years to come.

I am doing this as a gesture of love for my partner.Believe it or not, this came about by accident. I brought a few books home that somebody dropped off at a hospital for free. It makes me wonder if the person who brought these in was; or someone they know, a patient now because of this activity. Some were self help books that I like and romance, mystery books that she likes. I did not look to see what the content was of one book and it turned out to be about S and M written by a woman. Personally, this makes me sick thinking how some people allow themselves to be put in these positions to be tortured, humiliated, hurt, bruised and photographed for the world to see. I don’t like to share what we do in the bedroom.Those are precious moments for me.I wanted to throw the book away, but she wanted to finish reading it first. Now she is interested in it as a submissive and not as a slave that has no rights. That is; as a submissive, a magic word is spoken to stop when it may get out of hand. As a slave; there is no rights, and the respect of the body goes out the window like garbage. I respect everyone I meet and treat them as I would like to be treated. I could not hurt my partner and I would not totally abuse her body for my pleasure. She says it is the slave’s pleasure, but I saw fear in the eyes of those slaves. Having a ball in their mouth so as not to talk and one’s face covered with a leather mask so they can’t see, doesn’t look like too much fun for a slave to me. She found sites that showed some extreme scenarios and then your site here. She says this is the best site to show what she likes about the submissive part and to read it to see what she means and to join. So I did to please her. I want to make her happy. I have an open mind and I read your writings in the beginning. You sound like two people in love. I don’t understand the Dom part yet. What is it that Dom part she is looking for? I am hoping on here that I can get some answers and some ideas that will stimulate her and not make me feel like a bully taking advantage of her. She deserves to be rewarded more than spanked and punished. I love her and I care for her well being. So help me understand. Thank you.

“Personally, this makes me sick thinking how some people allow themselves to be put in these positions to be tortured, humiliated, hurt, bruised and photographed for the world to see. ”

Please do not feel sick for these ladies… I believe that they may be enjoying it. I do understand how a person that does not have any experience or knowledge of the lifestyle could come to these emotions but lets proceed with an open mind and think for a moment that these ladies may get something positive from these activities.

” Now she is interested in it as a submissive…”

I assume that you know your wife fairly well and trust in her judgement. There must be something to the lifestyle that interests her as well as those other ladies.

” I could not hurt my partner and I would not totally abuse her body for my pleasure. ”

Excellent… and nor would any Dominant…

“Having a ball in their mouth so as not to talk and one’s face covered with a leather mask so they can’t see, doesn’t look like too much fun for a slave to me.”

This doesnt sound like fun to me at all either, hence I am a Dominant…

“and not make me feel like a bully taking advantage of her.”

A sign of a good loving caring Dominant…

I believe that as you begin your journey and begin to establish and understand the dynamic you will find comfort in learning how you are truly pleasing your submissive. There are so many other wonderful attributes involved in this lifestyle besides just the sex.

Do not hesitate to contact me if you develop any concerns regarding the lifestyle.