Biblical Thoughts from a Christian, Martial Artist, Biker, Homeschool Mom (who graduated all her kids!) Library Studies Student.
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Sunday, December 13, 2015

Tomorrow night I am having a Christmas party, for my adult
students, at my house for the first time ever.I’ve not had company in years, for various reasons… mostly centering around
my inability to keep a clean house, or get rid of clutter, or find time and
energy to do anything but the bare minimums.But this year is different.Moving last spring was a great time to get rid of a lot of stuff.Admittedly, I still have a large pile of
boxes I am storing for my kids.And I
still haven’t unpacked my room.And what
books are not in boxes are piled on shelves. And let’s face it, I have a high tolerance for
messes and keeping house does not come naturally easy to me. My house is not, and will never be a
showpiece.Here’s the cool thing – I don’t
care.I grew up in a house that looked
like nobody lived in it.The place was
immaculate, uncluttered, and absolutely dead.We never had company either. I
don’t know who my mom cleaned for, but life did not happen in those rooms.

This past year my entire life has changed.As I evaluate the past and head into a very
different future from the one I thought I had, I’ve thought a lot about what is
important and what I want in life.I
want life.I want joy.I want to be with people I enjoy.I want a homey home, where my kids and their
friends and my friends are always welcome. I want a home that is lived in and comfortable.If my friends see the pile of boxes, so what?
I am taking care of my kids’ stuff. If I have old furniture, so what? I am not living beyond my means.If they glance in my bedroom (gasp) and see
the piles of stuff that I have not yet unpacked or put away after 8 or 9
months, well, we will all get over it (but really, it would be better if they
didn’t look there).And if they look in
my refrigerator and it’s not clean, or they notice that I didn’t get around to
mopping, I hope they will overlook it.Because
I don’t want to wait for it all be perfect.It’s not going to ever be that way, and really, so many other things are
more important.

So I am kind of excited about tomorrow night, not because I
have a wonderful house to show off, or a wonderful menu to serve, but because I
look forward to hanging out in my home with a few of my friends. And I plan to do it more often, even while I
am crazy busy in grad school working three jobs struggling to get by.

This is my home, and we live here, and I am glad to see you.Welcome, and Merry Christmas!

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