The biggest obstacle to you getting better with women, is not in you learning more about women.

It also isn't in memorizing complicated stories to tell to women, or making yourself to go out there and just "approach".

No.

The biggest obstacle is YOUR belief about whether

or not it is actually possible for you to get good with women.

You see, during your life, you've been taught a whole bunch of limiting beliefs about yourself - from what you "deserve", to how attractive you are, to which "league" of women you belong in etc.

These beliefs form your first BIG obstacle to having the kind of success with women you always wanted.

And right now I want to share with you exactly how you can overcome these powerful limiting beliefs that you need to deal with if you are to EVER have any kind of major success with women and dating.

For you to get better with women, you need to first believe that you can actually get better with women. If you don't believe it, even though you'll learn something good that could help you, you'll SABOTAGE yourself when it comes the time to apply what you learn. You might think that you already believe that you can be better with women. You may even feel like: "Yea, it's obvious I believe I can get good with women, why would I be reading this if I wouldn't?"But this belief can be very sneaky - it can hide itself deep in your subconscious and even though you're learning a lot about women and dating and how to be successful in this area... this belief works as this little quiet but powerful voice that says: "You can learn all you want about this subject and become a master of it for all I care, but you will NEVER become good with women because it's just not possible for you".And even though on the surface you're doing a lot to learn, you'll just sabotage yourself every time you go and try to get a woman. You'll feel like trying to swim and keep afloat with an anchor attached to your ankle. It won't work. So what to do about it?To deal with this obstacle and eliminate a limiting belief about not being possible for you, I want youto use my "secret sauce" word. When you see a hot girl walking, and you think about being with her, don't start asking yourselfquestions like "How do I talk to her?".But just say, "It's Possible for me".The word "It's possible" drills to the CORE of the issue - because you're always asking yourself "Is it possible?".Your idea of what's possible for you is like your muscle. To make it stronger, you need to pump it, just like you would your biceps or triceps. The difference is that in the gym, you build your muscle by lifting weights and resisting the heaviness of the weight.

But the way you build your possibility muscle is by RESISTING the heaviness of your mind. When you battle and resist the excuses your mind gives you, you slowly grow this possibility muscle.

You see, at first, your mind will try to resist you. You'll notice it giving you REASONS to WHY it isn't possible for you.

It will come in a form of a flash or just a random thought.

For example, you'll see a hot girl, say, "It's possible" to yourself and this thought "But you're not attractive" is randomly going to pop up in your head.

The really important thing to remember is that your mind is LYING to you. Your mind doesn't want you to succeed, so it's giving you reasons why something won't work. So when your mind starts giving you counter-excuses, this is what I want you to say to it:

"Even though I don't feel attractive now, It's still possible for me to get this kind of hot girl".

And slowly but surely, you're mind will start to back down and you'll start to win over it.

Over a short period of time, you'll demolish your CORE issue that it's not possible for you to meet and date those hot women. And what will begin to happen is your mind will come on your side, and start giving you REASONS to WHY it IS possible for you. It will start giving you random thoughts to support that statement of "It's possible".For example, you'll be brushing your teeth, and as you look at yourself in the mirror your mind will go "Women love the look in your eyes".And at that point, you'll know you have won over your mind.

﻿﻿Let's recap what you've learned:﻿﻿

The #1 obstacle to you having any kind of lasting success with women and dating is in you believing that you can actually do it.

The way you overcome this is by saying "It's possible for me" to yourself, even though your mind wants to convince you otherwise.

To deal with the counter excuses that your mind will give you, you use the excuse of the mind and say "Yes, even though I X, it's still possible for me"

Remember, your mind is lying. Learn to ignore it and keep going no matter it says.

It took me years to finally figure out what works and what doesn't in how I can help a guy to really become confident with women, meet and date them. If you've enjoyed this article, and you're at a point where you feel that your confidence with women is not where you want it to be, and you want change, then I highly recommend you check out my "Be Powerful" coaching hour, and start your journey of dating the kind of attractive women that you know you deserve.In the "Be Powerful" coaching hour I help you to:

Uncover your hidden insecurities and limiting beliefs that are the reason why you don't have the kind of confidence with women you want today.

Create a CRYSTAL CLEAR vision for the kind of a confident man you'd like to be with women.

Create a 4-step plan for you achieving the kind of success and confidence with women you always wanted.

You'll leave the session stronger, more confident and empowered to get the kind of confidence with women you want.

Of course, because there is a limited amount of time in a day, I can only work with a certain amount of guys. To claim your spot in the "Be Powerful", go here and see how you can qualify. Until then, keep battling your mind and build your "It's possible" muscle, Trust me when I say that no matter how impossible it seems to you, IT IS possible for you. I did it - and you can do it too.Phantom

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Hey I'm Omir, the guy behind VC, the author of The Natural's Way book, and here to help you liberate yourself from your fears, limitations and insecurities, so you can become amazingly confident with women.