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I have been reading your blatherings (as you put them) for a very long time now. I have always enjoyed them.. and there is one in particular that you wrote that I think of often. It totally clicked to me and I smiled to myself.. although when I try to explain it to others.. especially the non-geek types.. they don’t see the humor. Anyway.. it was a post you had about how you were talking on the phone with Gini and during that call she was coming home to get something.. like a checkbook or something along that line. When she pulled into the driveway, you stopped your call to run out and give it to her along with a kiss. Then as she pulled away.. you continued your call… and the thought occured to you that you had just interupted yourself… with yourself. Its such a perfect metaphor for our generation and where it’s going. Thanks for sharing that. You rock.

Just wanted to say a quick thank you for that article titled “Can I Buy You a Coffee”. I’m often a victim of street harassment and I don’t think most people (okay, i’m just going to say it – men in particular) don’t understand how frustrating it can be when you receive this kind of attention everywhere you go, especially when you’re in the middle of something and a stranger demands your attention. I really appreciate you taking the few minutes to even recognize that struggle, and the article was well written. Thanks!

I was going to text you this, but then I decided that you as a public figure semi-expert on poly might like the opportunity to answer this question in a public forum, where more than just me could benefit from the answer. I’m trying to date this guy. He’s super shiny, he’s a dom, …I like him. But every single time we try to set something up, his partner suddenly “doesn’t feel well.” or has to “get out of the house” for a while. Now, in fairness, she is 7 months pregnant, but I”m really starting to suspect that she is pleading her belly to keep him from dating somebody local. What do you think, and how should I proceed, oh Guru?

Hi there i came across your writing about Dread in a relationship. i know that is not the correct title but my mind went blank when i tried to think of it.I do however enjoy reading your writing and would like to keep on reading from this page you put a link to.Do i subscribe to it or how does it work? I don’t have a website so can not provide one. (obviously lol) I hope to hear from you soon and will bookmark this page. i look forward to reading more….. take care