As for how I feel about weight, for me, it's more about shape than it is about weight, if that makes sense.

It does, If she never brought up working out then I would never say anything. I know weight is a sensitive subject, so she will ask me what workout kick you on now, or I wanna do this so my ass bites. I am done biting, she brought up the subject of bad weather and the drive to the gym so I'm like I will come over and we can do Tae Bo. I have a ton of workout dvd's. At some point I feel like I am pressuring her about it If I keep bringing it up so I am done.

I don't think anyone specifically asked that question--but I know there are some here who will say marriage is just a piece of paper, it ruins things, blah-blah-blah...you know the crew who don't really have a man and/or a ring will give any excuse why marriage aint that big a dealI know for me, I couldn't stay w/ a man for that long (+ have his kid) and not make it legal...

...if for 13 years, he stayed in shape, they only have one child, and she has no issues preventing her from being at a healthier/more aesthetically pleasing weight, save for milkshakes, fries and couchpotatoitis...then he has all right to take issue with her weight

...now that i really think about it, if that's truly why he left....I'm not sure i can be very mad at him. She did get quite big if the OPs estimation is correct.

But did he even try to help her into any sort of fitness programme? i dont recall seeing that anywhere.. Grace?

He purchased a very nice Treadmill for her birthday, IMO she viewed it as a "read". I did not live with them but if a man is buying you exercise equipment the subject had to have come up before a Nordic Trac was delivered. From what I saw he seemed like a normal guy. Maybe he turns into something else at home who knows. I honestly dont think they recovered from the cheating that happened earlier last year.

I moved out of state, late November was the first time I had saw her in almost a year even though we talked on the phone. It is a noticeable difference in her weight. I thought they had worked out their differences, then I move back he has moved out and her words NOT MINE I guess he left cause I'm over here looking like a Klump.

Grace just sat there. Then she went on to say she ready to workout and lets start walking, I agreed then she would not answer my calls. Then at lunch to act as if YOU never said you wanted to workout like I just call people out the blue and say yeah eat a salad and do jumping jacks is silly.

He's engaged to the chick he cheated with. Baby girl gotta lose some weight. She put all that work in and had a baby only for the guy to leave a 13 plus year shack fest. The new chick is winning right now in a size 10 dress and new engagement ring. While op's new friend is still sipping on Zaxbys shakes.

He's engaged to the chick he cheated with. Baby girl gotta lose some weight. She put all that work in and had a baby only for the guy to leave a 13 plus year shack fest. The new chick is winning right now in a size 10 dress and new engagement ring. While op's new friend is still sipping on Zaxbys shakes.

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