Heidi, I just read about your and Mamababs' losses. I was so saddened to read about Cole. Having gone through this too many times to count, I know it must be very hard for you. I hope your fond memories of Cole will aid you in the grieving process. Was it sudden or had Cole been ill? I don't know which is worse, frankly. Please let me know when you get a chance. My heart goes out to you. Gail